The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - BEING A QUEEN IS... Ft. Shea Couleé ｜ Drew Afualo ｜ THE COMMENT SECTION EP 65

00:00:00.000 that was crazy too you know winning all-stars during um a pandemic you know being like oh my

00:00:06.980 god you just like achieved your dreams and then you like close your laptop and sit in your living

00:00:11.260 room like i did that yeah it's like in moments like that when you're like i'm kind of that girl

00:00:18.000 hey everyone and welcome back to another episode of the comment section show starring me your

00:00:28.460 favorite everybody knows me who cares about me we all care about the guests today i have the one and

00:00:33.920 only the world famous drag queen miss shea coulet oh my god i am literally so honored to have you

00:00:43.060 i am so excited to be here let me just say first and foremost i'm such a huge fan of yours

00:00:49.240 likewise man really nothing really quite brings me joy more than seeing like cis hetero male 0.99

00:00:58.180 assholes being put in their place 0.98

00:01:00.080 and the moment that i came across your content on tiktok i was all like wait a minute is this 0.93

00:01:09.280 bestie like is that me yeah i was like lich one of my favorites so i'm so excited to be here

00:01:17.860 you are a superstar i'm honored i literally am such a fan like i love love love drag race so

00:01:26.260 i'm a huge fan of yours thank you your makeup artistry blows me away thank you so much i just

00:01:31.920 had to get that out the way you know what we should share some of the old pictures so you can

00:01:34.840 see how far i'm sure it looks better than mine but i guarantee it there are some days i go and i

00:01:40.680 look at those old pictures the ones like on facebook not on instagram and i'm like thank god these are

00:01:46.740 like tucked away so deep that's literally me but i was not anywhere near where you were i'm sure i was

00:01:53.560 like way way way way worse my um actually my first like uh like drag guide because like you know in

00:01:59.980 the world of drag culture a lot of us have like you know like mothers or whatever but i didn't really

00:02:04.280 have any drag queens in the scene that were when i first started were like willing to like take me 0.96

00:02:10.260 under their wing i don't know why because i'm a sweetheart but um my friend um tiger lily she's like

00:02:16.940 my bff um and i think that's also like why i really loved your content because like you remind

00:02:22.540 me a lot of her she's filipino she's like amazing she's like a mystic she reads tarot she's just like 0.70

00:02:28.200 such and like just like the biggest heart i love a witchy bitch let me tell you she's also like a bad 1.00

00:02:33.700 bitch too you know like do not with her she will roll up she will pull up in a minute like you know 1.00

00:02:39.560 like one of those friends like does not like does not even need to ask any questions you look at them a 0.99

00:02:44.800 certain type of way and she's like who are we gonna jump like you know what i'm saying a ride or 0.58

00:02:49.620 die definitely it's my ride or die but she was like the one that like years ago was like our nickname

00:02:55.980 for each other is tosh we call each other tosh and she was just like tosh have you seen the show

00:03:01.460 rupaul's drag race and i was just all like no i don't have that channel like i don't she's like i do

00:03:06.920 you're coming over we're gonna watch it because she's just like i really think that you need to be

00:03:11.140 on this show no way swear to god and i was just all like okay and then like watched it was

00:03:17.080 actually raja's season season three that was the first one i watched yeah and i remembered raja from

00:03:22.620 america's next top model because i was so obsessed with that show growing up and i was just so like

00:03:27.200 wait a second and raja just really opened my mind to like you know the different types of drag because

00:03:32.940 she was such like you know she was the og fashion queen you know because chicago has like a very

00:03:38.160 pageant centric okay drag culture yeah and then next to that is like a really kind of like

00:03:44.420 underground deep club kid culture so you know there really was not this like lane of like fashion

00:03:50.640 queens yeah someone who's always been a lover of it i didn't really see myself fitting into any of

00:03:55.160 those spaces yeah so when i saw raja i was like so yeah i was just all like this girl is everything

00:04:01.680 you know and then to be able to uh work with her on all star seven was iconic like they say like

00:04:07.320 don't meet your idols but she's definitely one that's worth meeting like raja were you like thank

00:04:11.260 god i was honestly like thank god because she's honestly one of the most magical like human being

00:04:18.400 like the way that like raja just like carries herself like in a room like her aura her energy 0.99

00:04:24.520 is just all like show-stopping it is and you're just like this is a really powerful person that like

00:04:30.560 knows themselves knows how to advocate for themselves and it's so full of like love it's very giving and

00:04:36.620 generous so yeah honestly the drag race journey has been just absolutely wonderful so full circle 0.67

00:04:43.860 it really has like what are the odds like your bestie tells you about drag race she's like get on 0.94

00:04:50.000 there and then you didn't just get on there babe you won that bitch period i know and that queen that was 1.00

00:04:57.560 crazy too you know winning all stars during um a pandemic you know being like oh my god you just like 0.98

00:05:05.200 achieved your dreams and then you like close your laptop and sit in your living room like i did that

00:05:10.040 yeah it's like in moments like that you're like i'm kind of that girl yeah it's not when you're like

00:05:17.980 in the thick of it it's like after the fact yeah it's almost like the hangover you get after i literally

00:05:23.100 just got a little case for my crown so it's now like on display in my house before that it was still

00:05:28.840 just like sitting in like a box for like two years because i was i didn't want it to get dusty

00:05:34.820 yeah like protecting it yeah i was protecting i just like kept it in this little like black case

00:05:39.400 but then i finally found a case for it so now i get to put it on my god that is so incredible i'm

00:05:44.500 that's why i've like you know and i've only been doing this i guess full time like a year and there

00:05:51.320 are very few people that i've been like kind of nervous to me and like you're one of them oh and

00:05:56.500 tricksy was another one yeah i was like just because i like have loved you for so long that i

00:06:01.320 was like nervous and you guys are so funny and energetic and like charismatic and i was like 0.97

00:06:07.080 damn i'm gonna have to step my pussy up when you guys come on my show oh my god no not at all because 1.00

00:06:11.700 your energy is right girl and the thing that's crazy too about tricksy is like we go way back 0.99

00:06:16.700 because we started off um together because she's from milwaukee yeah so we used to like she would come

00:06:22.940 to chicago perform we would go to milwaukee perform we would like crash at each other's houses on each

00:06:28.320 other's couches well actually she had this humongous beanbag chair and i kid you not me and kimchi would 0.97

00:06:34.660 like spoon on that big ass beanbag chair all the time because um even though she had technically like 1.00

00:06:42.820 a guest room in that apartment it was just full of barbies she loves her barbies it's like no place 0.93

00:06:49.000 for a human in that room because it's just i remember going over there the first time and i

00:06:52.960 was just so like so you're one that's arguably the whitest doll people yeah 1.00

00:06:58.280 i was all like wow this is like really interesting just shelves of barbies everywhere dude i'm like

00:07:08.080 so in love with both of you so that's why i was like a little nervous but i was like it's all right

00:07:13.120 yeah we got this we're besties yeah we know that about each other already okay so we're gonna get

00:07:18.780 into our topic for today so our topic for today i want to talk to you about what it takes to be a

00:07:24.800 queen right obviously you're a drag race drag race queen we already know that but i feel like queen is

00:07:32.020 like a all-encompassing mentality absolutely more of a mindset absolutely a mindset so what comes to 0.99

00:07:39.920 your mind when you think of like what it takes to be a queen to be like that that bitch i think being 1.00

00:07:44.260 a queen is like really understanding that you have value and importance regardless of any 0.99

00:07:55.440 circumstance literally just being on this earth breathing as a human being you have value you have

00:08:01.780 purpose and don't let anybody take that away from you or make you feel less than i feel like a queen

00:08:09.060 is someone who really just like owns themselves is not afraid to take up space and you know just

00:08:16.020 like slays and i think it's like really because like a lot of people i feel like they uh really

00:08:24.680 think about confidence as being like such a key factor and a thing that i feel like a lot of people

00:08:29.620 don't understand about confidence is like no one can tell whether you're faking it or not yeah you know

00:08:35.640 and like so sometimes like you have to like build yourself up you know in order to help yourself just

00:08:41.560 like achieve the things that you want to do and to receive the respect that you want like there it's

00:08:47.600 so crazy there have been so many times in life where i've been like incredibly nervous to do something

00:08:52.360 or put myself out there and when i stepped outside of my comfort zone and just kind of like stood in

00:08:56.940 my truth and just like tried to like own my power those were like the moments where i got like so

00:09:03.140 much you know powerful reception from what it was i was like trying to do so yeah i think being a queen 0.97

00:09:09.740 is just like understanding that you're a badass bitch all on your own you don't need anybody else's 1.00

00:09:15.560 validation besides your own you know exactly i also what were you doing before drag race 0.99

00:09:20.720 before drag race i was god i was a hustler i was doing so much i um worked as a host at this

00:09:31.560 restaurant called replay i also work as an educator at this adult toy store so you know i was slinging 0.92

00:09:41.440 those sex toys on the weekend girl oh my you know what i helped the one thing that i was proud of about

00:09:46.820 that job is i helped so many women peg their boyfriends like that was honestly my favorite 0.94

00:09:54.620 and i and that's a sleigh oh it is a sleigh like i would be in there on saturday afternoons you know

00:10:00.880 and saturday afternoons in chicago we call that straight brunch you know because like the gays 0.99

00:10:04.820 always be doing it on sunday yeah but um you know every once in a while it's like this couple would

00:10:10.200 wander in like kind of mid-afternoon after they've had you know their mimosas and some cocktails you know

00:10:15.320 they're just kind of curious walking around and so then they'd be like asking like oh well do you

00:10:20.040 have anything um you know just about like strap-ons or what and i was like oh you're looking for a

00:10:25.400 strap-on so then i would honestly like always like kind of like help the guys first of all just like 0.98

00:10:32.420 understanding that you know i'm like being stimulated in your butthole is not gay there you go and i was 0.99

00:10:37.800 just so like and i guarantee you that your girlfriend will absolutely like do the damn thing um and enjoy 1.00

00:10:44.300 yeah enjoy herself too and i was and i would always like help them and like once like i would 0.90

00:10:49.200 start asking them being like well you know like obviously uh the girlfriend has opinions on like

00:10:55.440 you know strap-ons and kind of like what she would identify with like she'd be like okay like this is

00:11:00.880 the kind of what she's into i think i would have and then i would be like and i would ask him i'd be 0.97

00:11:04.960 like and what kind of dick do you think you want to with and that was always you know and then like 0.97

00:11:10.660 they would always be like i never really thought about that and i'd be like well look at this wall 0.99

00:11:15.000 of them and you just pick out the one that you want and i'll be over here at the counter you and

00:11:20.400 her you guys you have a conversation you talk and then when you need me i'm here you say whatever

00:11:25.500 you're feeling babe yeah i would be slinging those things just like because i was just all like no

00:11:30.220 judgment oh my god yeah i used to love helping straight couples do that all the time so yeah that was

00:11:37.120 like one of my favorites i love that what a fun job yeah how empowering it was for the couples

00:11:43.020 themselves i know and it was so it was so fun to you know just like destigmatize a lot of things for

00:11:50.520 them make people just like more comfortable with exploring their sexuality like as a couple too it was

00:11:56.660 just really great and i made good money doing it so you know i was like i'm that girl that's the

00:12:02.500 hardest job you've ever had the hardest job um landscaping you were a landscaper yes i was like

00:12:11.000 out in the sun like mowing like trimming like bushes trimming bushes like you name it i will never forget

00:12:18.920 the the one time because like i was like doing this because like what we did like the company that

00:12:23.500 we worked for was like you know more so kind of like community focused charity base and we would go

00:12:28.460 and help like elderly couples that oh like elderly people who you know didn't have yeah who needed

00:12:34.420 help and you know so sometimes like you know the yards would be like really unkempt like really long

00:12:39.380 grass and i will never forget one time i was like mowing this yard it was after fourth of july yeah and

00:12:46.700 there happened to be like this like firework that just happened to be like in the the yard and i didn't

00:12:52.720 see it because the grass was so tall yeah and i ran over it with the lawnmower and it

00:12:56.340 explode like boom like just and like it was so loud that i literally like lost hearing for like

00:13:04.480 10 seconds it was just like ringing and i was like what the fuck just happened yeah i will never it was 0.86

00:13:11.520 the loudest but i will never forget that and i'm just so like what a terrifying thing to happen

00:13:16.580 yeah and honestly ever since that job haven't mowed another lawn you're like i'm good yeah

00:13:24.080 honestly i'll take no yard like living in the city so like yards aren't like a big thing i was just

00:13:29.320 like if i do like get a yard i'm just gonna do like one of those tiktok like clover yards or like

00:13:35.180 moss something that you don't have to mow yeah the fake grass the fake actually that okay i had a place

00:13:43.380 that like we had this really big back porch and i just like covered the whole thing in astroturf and

00:13:48.920 like i was like honestly i can get into this astroturf life right yeah it's so low maintenance in that

00:13:54.840 sense low maintenance can handle like high degrees of like heat without melting you know it's got a

00:14:01.140 filtration yes she loved it baby was always out there just like rolling around in it so it's like

00:14:06.760 slay yeah a big slay one of the jobs i had um i've always said the hardest job i've ever had was

00:14:14.440 being a waitress because people are vile for no reason no reason it's like some people literally

00:14:20.480 go out with the intention of antagonizing your waitress or your waiter it's like they're king

00:14:24.600 yeah yeah literally they go do that and then they go to the sex shop oh right right and then they come 0.97

00:14:31.380 see me they don't need the sex shop because they went there and got their jollies being terrible to 1.00

00:14:37.100 a server yeah i always like advocate for tipping and tipping well yeah absolutely because my god

00:14:43.580 that is going through it a thankless job truly i but one of the jobs i had actually i worked as like

00:14:50.020 um i worked with a public relations firm for uh an engineering company so basically we would do a

00:14:57.300 public outreach for like big infrastructure projects so like construction yeah and nobody likes

00:15:02.740 construction so like part of my job was to go door to door and like tell people like hey you're back

00:15:11.760 like your freeway is going to be terrible for the next like year i think maybe 10 i don't know um do

00:15:18.420 you want to get emails about it like that was like a canvasser like door to door like knocking and being

00:15:24.480 like hey you're gonna sit in traffic in your morning commute for the next seven years i'm so

00:15:29.280 sorry to be the one to tell you the way i would get berated on front lawns they'd be like this is

00:15:35.360 what happens when well like they're telling i'm like well clearly i make the decisions yeah because

00:15:39.580 i'm in a too tight blue polo right on your porch on tuesday afternoon like i'm standing here sweating

00:15:46.360 right i'm in like my new balances and i'm like yeah i'm so sorry to hear that the way that people

00:15:53.040 would lose their minds because they hate traffic yeah i mean it's it's like oh man and like you

00:15:59.500 said you're like clearly i'm the boss you know and i'm just like it's so crazy how people just want

00:16:04.980 to shoot the messenger like i'm like girl look at my split ends like i'm not i'm not the head honcho

00:16:11.940 of this like project i'm not the one making the call babe right i can promise you that i would just

00:16:18.460 be like okay well yeah let me know if you'd like emails and i'd have to like exactly oh gosh i and

00:16:25.340 i too worked at starbucks for oh man two years and one the like first location that i worked at was

00:16:32.600 just all like karen central and so like imagine would just get yelled at some like speaking of

00:16:38.380 kinks i remember there was this one lady who i was just like i knew that she always wanted to come 1.00

00:16:44.500 in and yell at us for something like she was always looking for something there was always like

00:16:50.400 literally i will never forget you know in chicago we had a blizzard i was working an opening shift so

00:16:56.460 we have to be there at like 4 30 in the morning yeah um my the key holder at the time she had spun

00:17:03.240 out and was like in a ditch so i had to wait for her husband her husband not her husband 0.79

00:17:08.980 she had to wait for her husband to come and like get her and like bring her to the store so we opened 1.00

00:17:15.400 like you know a little bit late damn and she's still going to work home girl comes in you know 1.00

00:17:20.180 it's open and she's just salt she is literally having a fit like why is the coffee not ready and 0.96

00:17:26.460 like my boss was like um i had like a little accident today and like that's why you know because

00:17:32.260 the weather like look outside like that's why we're a little bit late this morning and um

00:17:37.880 she said something and my boss was like okay well you can just go to the other starbucks i was just

00:17:42.480 like honestly there was one like right up the street but it's just like we were her favorite

00:17:46.220 one to come in terror and then like literally she like storms out gets in her car in the parking lot 0.99

00:17:52.400 and like i don't even know what was going through her head but she wanted to like try and act like

00:17:56.180 she was about to like peel out of there like and it was a blizzard and then she spun out and then

00:18:02.300 ran into one of the light poles like in the parking lot in the parking lot right and we watched

00:18:09.120 her do it and i just remember and then the best part is my manager like walked up to the door like

00:18:15.720 looking through the window made direct eye contact and then just locked the door 0.89

00:18:19.140 if you believe in nothing else believe in karma bitch yes because you're like i've seen it we're 1.00

00:18:25.420 like you can call the cops from out there to come and help you the tow truck whatever you're calling the 0.97

00:18:28.780 cops so they can help you with your car with your car and then you could tell them they were late

00:18:32.940 if only there was a hot cup of coffee that could keep you warm you know what would make you feel 0.97

00:18:36.920 better hot coffee in a warm room to be yeah sucks sucks that's so funny oh my god the way stuff like 0.95

00:18:46.980 that just like it'll keep me going for a year oh if i'm ever feeling down i'm gonna think about 0.97

00:18:51.000 something i'm gonna think about your situation i'm gonna be like yeah i'm like girl it's been 15 years

00:18:55.220 since then and i still i'm like that was great

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00:19:59.480 responsibly i when i used to serve in a restaurant um there was this one couple that would come in

00:20:04.360 once a week every time and they always had coupons and we never gave out coupons it was like i don't

00:20:10.340 know where she was just making them at home and she was like i have a coupon and so my manager was

00:20:15.620 like she's old she comes all the time just like do the coupon like it's it's like it's like a fake

00:20:21.080 money thing like you know when kids are like oh here's my money like that's literally how it was

00:20:25.860 it's like okay they'll just play the game like she'll leave i'm like okay so i'm serving them all

00:20:30.920 night and then like when i come to take the check she's like can i ask you a question i'm like yeah

00:20:37.100 sure and she's like uh she goes i just want to know why you've been serving him first all night

00:20:42.940 because they had a party like they always came in a couple but this time they had like extra people

00:20:46.760 so i think she was feeling like she wanted to show out yeah you know what i mean she's like she's 0.97

00:20:50.820 all check this shit out when she starts harassing me and then she's like you've been serving him 1.00

00:20:56.540 first and like i'm always last and i feel like this old white lady she's like i feel like you should 0.99

00:21:02.040 be uh supporting women like she's trying to make it a famous thing and then i'm like listening to her

00:21:07.040 uh-huh you know if that fake customer service you're like yeah i'm hearing you i'm holding

00:21:12.080 space for you yeah tell me how you're feeling and she's like yeah and blah blah blah she goes on this

00:21:17.460 tangent and then i go okay um i hear what you're saying to answer your question um i have to serve

00:21:23.840 in a circle like i have to serve per the seat and he's sitting in seat one so that's yeah it's just

00:21:29.600 that's why and then we were just looking at each other i was like do you have any other

00:21:33.140 questions and she was like no but i do have a coupon i'm like well there you go

00:21:38.100 i knew that i was waiting for that one i wasn't ready for the other one but i was like i'm never

00:21:44.160 serving that lady again if she comes in put her in someone else's section i'm never serving that 1.00

00:21:47.560 again yeah just customer service is like one of the hardest jobs yeah like i always any kind of

00:21:54.300 customer service interaction i have now like i always like put in so much effort to just be kind

00:22:01.080 same i'm just all like i'm sure that this person has dealt with so many assholes oh my god for me 0.98

00:22:06.700 and i'm just all like i am not gonna be another one that like piles on so even like when shit is 0.84

00:22:12.720 going terribly wrong and i want to be mad i'm still in there like okay so um same i know that that piece

00:22:21.300 of furniture that i ordered a year and a half ago um it's still delayed um just wanted to request

00:22:28.160 politely if i could get just any kind of update on what like literally people would be like thank

00:22:33.880 you for being so nice i know like oh my god that reminds me i'll tell one more story i one time was

00:22:40.300 flying this way before i had a platform but i was in hawaii with my boyfriend and then we were going

00:22:44.580 home and we had already checked out of our airbnb we returned the car we did all that stuff and then

00:22:49.160 when we got there like the whole um ticket counter was down so like it you know we were flying hawaiian

00:22:54.940 airlines so so many flights got delayed it was just like a malfunction yeah so we finally got

00:23:00.620 through tsa we missed our flight it was gone and so we were like okay well we'll just go to the

00:23:04.580 counter and i was like trying to think because at the time we were like balling on a budget so i was

00:23:07.540 like i can't afford to stay here any more days yeah i need to figure out what i'm gonna do so we

00:23:11.540 were going up to the counter and there was like a karen in front of me and so the person at the

00:23:16.280 desk was like listening to her and she was like i just think this is ridiculous like blah blah 0.99

00:23:21.380 like acting like she's the only bitch who missed her flight exactly i'm like the the airport the 0.99

00:23:25.000 airport is a place where people literally take their brain out and throw in the garbage yeah 0.98

00:23:28.320 like the way they lose all decorum when they're in the airport and so like we're standing behind her

00:23:34.160 and she's like this is on you guys this is on you blah blah blah and then the guy's like i'm trying

00:23:37.880 to help you and like you need to tell me like where you're going and like i'll try my best and she's 0.97

00:23:42.840 like no no she's just being a bitch like she's being really mean and then he eventually like hit a wall 0.99

00:23:48.000 where he was like okay well i'm not gonna help you since you want to be rude and she was being 0.99

00:23:52.080 racist he's like you want to be rude you want to be racist go to somebody else she's like no wait

00:23:56.440 like starts trying to cry oh god and i remember when she was when she was doing that i tell her i 1.00

00:24:02.240 told my boyfriend i was like we're in there man i'm gonna be so nice to this guy this it's so like

00:24:07.500 she's he's like man move to the side so she moves and i'm like hi like being really nice and he's

00:24:12.220 like you know what i'm gonna help you since some people in here think that i'm not very helpful 0.93

00:24:16.980 and i said period bitch and that's a slay yeah and i got him on the next flight out 1.00

00:24:22.440 period you know she was like i can't believe you i'm like honestly that was a real layup for me 0.98

00:24:28.720 right right slam dunk made my made my job so much easier she was not a queen but speaking of what it 0.80

00:24:35.380 takes to be a queen uh here on the comment section what we like to do is we bring videos that are

00:24:40.600 applicable to our topic today and then we laugh kiki yeah all the jokes all of that so this first video

00:24:46.380 that we have i just give summaries of them um uh oh a drag queen brooklyn heights uh is performing

00:24:52.760 and a drunk blonde white woman jumps onto the stage and starts dancing literally standing in front of 1.00

00:24:58.600 brook as she's performing taking videos of her in her face etc so that's the context of the video

00:25:04.520 what's your initial reaction i would love to hear it

00:25:07.840 um there are moments in drag shows where we have audience participation yeah um when a queen is on

00:25:20.440 stage lip syncing that's not one of those times you know like you you'd like it's like read the

00:25:26.220 room not your show like not your show and i think it's like so funny like when people want to come

00:25:33.300 on stage and like it's just so like because here's the thing it's like yes we're working in clubs and

00:25:38.620 like sometimes i just feel like drag queens in many aspects could just be like mascots for alcohol sales

00:25:44.540 they always want that bar ring high but then people be getting so like lady city and then want to like 1.00

00:25:54.180 be like this is my show now's my time yeah this is my moment they're all like this is like karaoke

00:26:00.460 right i no ma'am no ma'am and it's just like i the the amount of like videos that i have like seen

00:26:09.640 like luckily in my experience um i don't know i'm like maybe it's just the way that i carry myself but

00:26:16.360 no one's tried it like that like in my like 11 years of doing drag no one has tried it like that with

00:26:23.160 me but like goodness gracious it's just like it's like you wouldn't go to like wicked the musical

00:26:32.300 and then be like defying gravity this is my style yeah hip check alphabet to the side

00:26:39.040 right no literally like it's so crazy to me i don't know i just guess they just need to start

00:26:45.920 building drag stages higher so that people can't you put a barricade like when you go see harry

00:26:51.220 exactly exactly just like something to just like keep a little um distance because people be really

00:26:56.940 wanting to like get up there i i honestly think i'm like the people in here didn't come to see you

00:27:01.840 yeah you're a patron yeah be a patron you know what i mean literally babe they did not pay money to 0.99

00:27:07.880 come see you yeah it's like and you don't even know the words and you're not serving cunt you are 0.99

00:27:13.480 not you are not and that's a requirement period on the stage where is your charisma you need this 0.96

00:27:19.460 you got the nerve yeah but then where's the talent yeah exactly you're missing a few other key elements

00:27:24.920 babe yeah this uh so we talk about the comments on this video so like this one says i hope he's

00:27:31.100 uncomfortable as i am watching a drag queen reading reading time oh drag queen reading time 1.00

00:27:38.440 reading time i'm sorry this guy wrote this so illiterate which is yeah true because he's a bigot 0.96

00:27:43.360 yeah um he's uncomfortable watching drag queens read to children is essentially what he's trying to say

00:27:47.500 i don't know why that's such a like hot topic right now oh my gosh but i i don't i just think like

00:27:55.300 first of all kids you know what i mean like i like honestly like and this is the thing that i feel

00:28:01.840 like is so annoying so many people try to use um children as the topic and reason to like mask

00:28:12.000 their bigotry and i'm like they like try to weaponize yeah and they're like oh my god the poor

00:28:17.640 children like seriously when i think about conditioning when it comes to like sexuality

00:28:24.880 and like what is placed on children i was like heteronormativity is literally at every turn in

00:28:31.780 movies and cartoons and everything like parents being like is that your little girlfriend yeah exactly

00:28:38.440 that happens all the time and i there was so much you know influence on heteronormativity 0.97

00:28:45.120 placed on me yeah and i turn out to be a big fag like it's like so i just it's like that doesn't 0.91

00:28:51.840 work yeah so it's not really adding up it's not the math is not mapping no if you guys were so 0.98

00:28:57.920 concerned about like children growing up to be gay then stop procreating because guess what only 0.57

00:29:05.480 straight people make gay kids and that's on period also if you care about kids how come you don't care 0.99

00:29:12.360 about gun control uh that's the true tea of it all isn't it because the men who say the men and 0.99

00:29:18.100 women who say shit like that are always very pro-gun right and i'm like and we're the loudest 1.00

00:29:24.660 lines when uvaldi happened yeah i'm like hey this is our it's not about guns it's about people yeah no 0.99

00:29:30.800 it's about both yeah it's very possible to be about both but i think too like the true tea about

00:29:37.020 stuff like this because i was just talking about this in some of my tiktok videos about how like

00:29:40.800 well first of all gender is a construct so it was literally man-made it's not real yeah like

00:29:46.440 most things that we give meaning and as far as like culturally uh in american culture specifically

00:29:52.940 so it's not real first of all but second of all like there are many other cultures that did not

00:29:59.320 adhere to like a gender binary yeah prior to being colonized so colonization and a lot of times too

00:30:06.400 like when they are talking about like you know men being men and women being women they always like

00:30:11.560 equate men being strong to women being weak and needing help or yeah whatever a lot of times they

00:30:17.740 don't want to talk about how that's inherently influenced by pedophilia because they see women

00:30:22.740 as children uh-huh and then you talk about beauty standards and a lot of times they're tied to

00:30:27.320 pedophilia yeah so it's like that's a you problem yeah exactly the pedophilia that you have ingrained in

00:30:33.500 you because of religion and or beliefs that you have that's on you they're projecting that onto 0.91

00:30:40.240 drag queens exactly because they're like well that's how i am so that's probably how you are

00:30:44.520 right they're always out there looking for a sexy baby that's and that's tea you know and that's 1.00

00:30:50.540 that's my point that's why i'm saying like that's on you that's like the heaviest projection

00:30:55.440 absolutely especially since a lot of drag queens yourself included are very philanthropic

00:31:01.340 so they're always doing stuff for the community specifically not just within the lgbtqia plus

00:31:06.560 community they do it for kids for veterans they do all kinds of stuff for the elderly yeah you know

00:31:12.300 all the people you don't about so it's like now they're choosing now to like talk about we're gonna

00:31:18.020 advocate for those people yeah as if they're doing anything it's like what are you actually doing 0.99

00:31:23.620 besides just getting in this comment section like getting off your little shit bucket and like 0.98

00:31:29.000 getting on this comment section and just like running your mouth what are you doing to help 0.99

00:31:33.360 like in that sense like okay you don't like when they do it are you are you out here that's reading

00:31:37.920 the children that's walking children in nature no you're not it's like the same um mentality i saw

00:31:43.580 tweet once where um this guy was talking about how the way that like conservative people freak out

00:31:48.620 when they see like same-sex couples on the tv as if they're like not real oh my god like like they're 1.00

00:31:54.900 watching like house of dragon they're like well that's clearly not real right you know what i mean

00:31:58.740 the way they spin out as if those people don't exist in real life is very telling to their life

00:32:03.440 experience but that's the same i'm like you know that drag queens exist for obvious reasons but you

00:32:08.360 also know that representation is so important in all facets who knows how those kids are going to

00:32:13.680 turn out maybe it's just something that they'll see and they'll be like wow i feel like i see

00:32:17.760 myself uh-huh you know what i mean i knew i was queer when i was four years old well there you go

00:32:22.800 like that is very young to be like i fully like understand and i didn't even have the language or

00:32:30.000 the vocabulary to describe it but i already was starting to understand my identity and already

00:32:37.240 because like gay kids are not born in the closet they go in the closet because they start to recognize

00:32:44.160 their feelings but all they see are like heteronormative like representations of like

00:32:49.460 love and romance realize that they don't identify and feel the same way yeah and understand that it's

00:32:56.480 like taboo by like things that they hear their parents or their aunts and their uncles like saying

00:33:01.060 yeah and so then decide like i need to conceal this part about me as much as possible just for my own

00:33:06.100 safety and protection and i'm just all like by having representation i was like that's just allowing

00:33:12.080 kids some freedom to not spend so much time like hating themselves exactly i was just about to say

00:33:18.280 that you know being afraid yeah who they really are and then a lot of times you would you would

00:33:24.220 think that at this point right with all like we have made great strides but it's still nowhere near

00:33:31.560 enough as far as representation in many different facets but especially in mainstream media but you have

00:33:37.480 like the way that they act like drag queens just popped out of nowhere exactly they haven't been

00:33:42.220 around for centuries for a century in different aspects too like in different cultures that it's

00:33:48.500 like it's called drag now like in the united you know what i mean like in american culture or whatever

00:33:52.960 but like they've been around for a very long time and like they're just now finding everyone because 0.52

00:33:59.720 it's so mainstream because now it can come into people's living rooms exactly you know suck it exactly and 0.65

00:34:06.380 then when you think about like the vernacular that people use a lot of times now a lot of that is 0.96

00:34:11.560 originated from drag culture yes drag culture yeah black trans women exactly i'm just all like y'all

00:34:18.380 are co-opting all that and aren't even realizing where it's coming from that's what i'm saying like

00:34:22.680 they don't even realize like women i've literally seen like white conservative women like say things 1.00

00:34:27.280 about like like slay uh-huh and they and they hate drag and they hate right trans people and i'm like

00:34:33.880 you have no idea of it yeah exactly you're like where do you think that's coming from

00:34:38.220 it's like you guys have none of that spice right come on exactly exactly that didn't come from your

00:34:44.540 ancestors no the only thing that they did was colonize like don't you find it funny that like 0.98

00:34:50.740 literally white people colonize like the whole world in search of spices and don't use a damn one 0.91

00:34:57.420 and like the audacity they felt the need to steal it all but didn't use any i'm like ah and your 0.97

00:35:06.540 chicken is still unseasoned let's get it together but yes okay this next comment says the woman in 1.00

00:35:15.220 all caps was much much better okay brooklyn i agree yeah i agree have you seen brooklyn i know

00:35:24.160 that's what i said jesus christ what a work of art she is no truly like show-stopping so beautiful 0.98

00:35:30.680 like true you want to talk except for those feet those fucking ballerina toes are gnarly 1.00

00:35:38.260 she will tell you too i've been on tour with her before it's like you know you get up 0.99

00:35:44.040 in the morning like um go out in like the front and like you know there's a little galley area where

00:35:49.500 you have your coffee and like you know i remember the first time i was touring with brooklyn and saw

00:35:52.860 her feet in some slides and i was like oh it's like what happened like god it's just like her big

00:36:01.740 toe literally like looks like a hammer like it was like this is just fucking insane it is insane 0.97

00:36:08.700 the way that the universe will keep you humble by any means right they'll give you all of the tools 0.72

00:36:13.620 right one exactly it's like brooklyn she is flawless from the ankle up 0.86

00:36:18.100 okay this last comment says uh blokes dressing as women and miming i don't get it seen a few shows

00:36:30.360 and never found them funny a few shows you tuned in so yeah so you you you so you're like going you're

00:36:37.620 checking them out yeah uh-huh sounds like you're a fan yeah and i'm just all like maybe they weren't

00:36:42.780 funny because maybe the numbers that they were doing weren't comedic she's lip-syncing it's not 1.00

00:36:47.960 like not everyone's a comedy queen well and their brains aren't nearly big enough to like right

00:36:53.560 to like understand like that like the the community of drag and the art form of drag is actually quite

00:37:00.380 broad yeah just like the human experience there's so many different ways of expressing yourself so

00:37:06.420 it's just like calm down i've seen a few shows i've seen a few shows that means you're like

00:37:13.740 right keeping tabs and like who took you or did you go on like your own accord like i'm i'm i'm really

00:37:20.880 curious and like do you know the commitment you have to go to like go in person to a drag show

00:37:26.240 like exactly and then be like i hate this yeah it's like lie to your mom babe 0.53

00:37:31.500 not here not in these comments keep it real the line between love and hate is razor thin

00:37:38.120 you know it's like obsession too exactly at that point it's giving me fetish that's what it is

00:37:44.140 yeah uh-huh i think there's also this like misconception too with with men like that specifically

00:37:49.480 who think that like they think that like drag queens like all of them don't know that they're

00:37:57.500 men dressing up as women right they know they really are out here thinking that we're trying to fool 0.96

00:38:03.200 people like that is the thing like they think that we're like trying to be deceptive and and for

00:38:10.060 them i think too because like honestly most of them when they see us and see these glamazons there is

00:38:16.360 this little bit of attraction there and then when they realize what it is that they're feeling like

00:38:21.940 attracted to because like that's the only way that they know how to like consume beauty is like by 0.99

00:38:26.120 being like i want to penetrate that yeah um when they like realize that they're all like oh my god

00:38:31.180 that's like not a cis woman like he tricked me and you're all like babes first of all like let's be 0.99

00:38:38.220 honest like no one wants you like none of us none of us want you like you are a grown man 1.00

00:38:46.340 that can't wipe your own ass accurately like babes like we are not coming anywhere no skin care in 1.00

00:38:51.980 sight none don't wear don't wear socks right right oh you're over three like i say that all the time 0.99

00:39:01.080 i'm like you're giving yourself way too much credit way too much way too much it's just like the same 0.84

00:39:06.920 that's the same mentality as like if um a football player was gay then i don't want him watching me when 0.96

00:39:13.720 i change nobody's watching you nobody's watching you nobody's watching you okay you got nothing to

00:39:19.740 offer so it's not really like a win if i were to watch you yeah you know what i mean yeah it's just

00:39:24.400 so funny how society is like set up to just like how men are just so built up yeah to think that they

00:39:30.840 are just like such prizes like for who i know i'm like baby nobody is winning anything like you

00:39:39.820 like if anything you are a constellation prize it's just all like wow you're more like there's this

00:39:46.580 honestly you're a virus to me you're a plague is what you are yes that's the truth i need something

00:39:53.500 that can get rid of you in six to eight weeks literally oh my god yeah it's just like that's 0.99

00:40:00.640 why i said there's like this misconception that they think it's because they conflate being trans

00:40:06.380 with being a drag queen they think it's one in the same it's all mutually exclusive that just shows 1.00

00:40:11.520 how stupid you are but like also like no one's fooling anyone it's literally art like it's no different 0.98

00:40:17.480 from a makeup artist it's like no different from someone who who's expressing themselves through 1.00

00:40:22.940 makeup or through style in general it's the same thing oh my god but then they still want to come

00:40:27.040 for women who are makeup artists and they're all like she's tricking me yeah because these contours 0.99

00:40:33.120 and i'm like dude like first of all she is doing this for herself literally like i'm sorry to break it

00:40:39.960 to you she's not doing that for you no she's not you are the last person that she's thinking about

00:40:45.540 when she sits on this camera and does this like full glam i promise not for you i promise um so

00:40:52.620 don't worry yeah so don't worry about it yeah do not worry about it well it's also like it speaks to

00:40:58.180 like this larger point too of like if you have like let's say you had a woman who they always like make

00:41:03.860 fun of women specific or femme presenting people in general who like have a lot of piercings or they

00:41:09.360 have a lot of tattoos or they dye their hair different colors right they're always like yuck yuck yuck

00:41:14.500 the reason why they feel that way is quite literally because those people do not give a

00:41:20.500 damn what they think they are doing that solely like when when people have all kinds of piercings 0.98

00:41:26.420 all down their face they're like ugh but it's like this it's almost they feel offended that you don't 0.99

00:41:32.700 want to be attractive to them absolutely you're not presenting for them and they're like i don't 0.88

00:41:37.580 want to you but like why don't you want me to you yeah it's literally like the most asinine thought

00:41:42.640 process they're like i would never in a million years but also like you're not even gonna let me

00:41:46.980 like get the chance yeah i know i was actually watching this tiktok where um this uh woman was 1.00

00:41:54.180 like on live and she said like this uh dude was like making some comments about like women and like 0.95

00:42:00.620 what he thinks that they need to do to like be considered attractive by men

00:42:04.880 and she said on the live she like turned to him she said but what if i don't care if you find me

00:42:11.580 attractive and he was shook he was like gooped and gagged gagged like what do you mean

00:42:22.020 yeah babes that's like actually overwhelmingly the majority like most the way that their brains 0.99

00:42:30.080 like short circuit they're like wait a second

00:42:33.620 okay so in this next video uh it's in on the street like interview style video the man's interviewing

00:42:45.140 the man interviewing says to a woman a few years ago everyone agreed on basic gender principles 0.90

00:42:51.160 all of a sudden these issues became complicated what do you think happened and she basically says

00:42:57.340 the media is over representing queer people and people who are gender fluid that they are pushing

00:43:02.700 an agenda of gender expression lots to unpack first of all let's start with homeboy a few years ago

00:43:11.400 everybody did not agree on gender expressions yeah it's just that nobody challenged you yeah

00:43:17.440 so like everybody yeah who is everybody i did not know that you spoke for all of us

00:43:22.900 oh it's all like because you know leave it up to a cis straight man to be like okay so i speak for

00:43:27.980 everybody when i say don't worry they're cool with it yeah they said they told me they're cool with it

00:43:32.560 i know and like i mean her whole point of being like and this is the thing and like this goes along

00:43:38.280 with like what you were saying earlier with like people like acting like you know queer people don't

00:43:42.900 exist and never have and never have yeah she was all like you can be gay but like you don't have to be 0.62

00:43:47.640 gay in front of me it's just all like well ma'am it's not like i can take that and tuck it in my back 0.99

00:43:52.200 pocket like would i see you coming i'm like oh let me just gotta put it away yeah let me just hide

00:43:56.900 it like like no ma'am sorry well okay in that case i don't want you to be straight in front of me

00:44:02.360 yeah don't do that don't do that in front of me it makes me uncomfortable yeah it makes me there are

00:44:06.140 kids around right and the way that okay the way that straight couples will like literally deep throat 1.00

00:44:12.740 each other in public and then like gay people hold hands and they're like god where does it end 1.00

00:44:18.740 right they're just pushing it on me you guys are i'm like you literally just had like your dick in 1.00

00:44:25.300 her ass at dave and buster's like you were grinding up on her like at the bar at the arcade and somehow 1.00

00:44:33.720 we're being indecent like the kids did not see all the way she was sucking your dick and cock and 1.00

00:44:38.620 balls all at once yeah and then you give your partner a peck on the cheek and they're like oh 1.00

00:44:44.740 i'm so sick of this these deviants yeah god do it at home right uh they're just not in front of the

00:44:54.500 kids and you're actually like we're in a bar there are no children here i hope your kids not here 0.51

00:45:00.120 god we're all like i thought we were alone like we're like you're at your own table in a restaurant

00:45:06.260 away from other people you're on a date uh-huh it's in your business what i'm doing over here

00:45:11.500 yeah why don't you eat your fillet in silence yes okay please i think that like this like uh we

00:45:18.480 all agreed everyone agreed on basic gender principles that's why but you see those stories

00:45:23.700 of like um you know those like uh they're like historic things of women who were like actually 1.00

00:45:30.180 lovers but they thought they were best friends just like there's lots of men too absolutely all

00:45:35.680 throughout history they were just best friends my sister my sister's gay but she always says like

00:45:43.840 i had a friend like that once someone brings it like this is my friend i know oh my gosh yeah she's

00:45:51.180 like i also had a friend like that gosh and it also and it always be like at least like in my

00:45:56.620 experience it always be like black aunties that are like where's your little friend at 1.00

00:46:00.660 like that's my my boyfriend yeah my little friend where's your little friend at i ain't seen

00:46:08.480 him in a minute you're like girl that's my man come on give me a little credit right just a little bit

00:46:16.200 okay so some of the comments on this this one says definitely right you may say you're not forcing

00:46:22.600 it but they are definitely pushing it onto our kids again with the kids again with it's always

00:46:27.680 the kids always the kids like what are you what what is their obsession with kids and like

00:46:32.800 sexuality and children that's giving weird exactly like that's to me i'm like well and then if you

00:46:41.380 think about it when you say you're like pushing this like deviant agenda on children you're also

00:46:46.200 saying that like when you teach people that like queer people exist that it's automatically gonna be 1.00

00:46:53.080 sexual like that's on you like you sexualize gay people interesting yeah that's i'm like so why is

00:47:01.780 that the first thing that you think of exactly that's why i'm like unpack that like why is that 0.94

00:47:06.380 the first thing you think of and that's why i pointed out pedophilia being like a pillar of 0.93

00:47:10.700 white supremacy because it is yep and like you are inherently pedophilic because you uphold white 0.96

00:47:16.600 supremacy so you automatically think that gay people existing or telling other people like hey 0.99

00:47:21.440 gay people exist in the world that they're automatically going to start talking about sex 1.00

00:47:25.120 yeah that's weird yeah that's so weird like and also to like anybody that like i know 0.98

00:47:32.640 who is like queer and experience like any type of like pedophilia or like sexual abuse at the hands

00:47:41.620 of an adult um i'm not even gonna say 10 times out of 10 yeah it has always been a cis hetero identifying

00:47:49.360 man so when we think about who we should be concerned about leaving our children around

00:47:55.260 it's them and he who doth protest too much like babes like the ones that are out there so angry 0.99

00:48:03.820 i'm like those are exactly the dudes that you do not leave your children yeah calls coming from

00:48:07.960 inside the house baby it really is it's ringing and it's been ringing for a long time it's it's one

00:48:13.160 of those things where i think like people are just unwilling to like confront their own implicit biases

00:48:19.540 i mean obviously but like at the same time just like weaponizing children all the time is just

00:48:25.720 yeah it's so gross like you're you're using them as a vehicle to platform your own bigotry exactly

00:48:31.320 where if you told like if you tell children like hey like if another children a child in a class like

00:48:38.700 had two dads if you told them well he has two dads and they're like well what about his mom he's like

00:48:43.640 well he doesn't have a mom he has two dads you know what children would do okay okay like they they

00:48:49.420 need nothing else nothing at all literally like uh when you explain to children in the most simple of

00:48:56.720 terms they're like okay you could you convince children that santa claus exists yeah you convince

00:49:02.720 them that an old white man breaks into their home in the middle of the night and leaves

00:49:08.600 gifts and if he if they're not good he punishes them yeah gives them rocks yeah you convince them

00:49:15.100 of that man existing and you think you can't tell them yeah that someone else just happens to have

00:49:20.600 same-sex parents yeah exactly come on babe right you spin yarns for years about a scary white man if 0.53

00:49:26.960 you think about the premise of santa claus it's actually kind of terrifying i was i was terrified of

00:49:30.820 santa like in my younger years like i just remember because like also like you better not watch out you

00:49:36.580 and i cried like i was like i remember just like having like these like nightmares that i was going

00:49:45.140 to wake up and this like big fat old white man was just gonna be looming over me in my bed just like

00:49:51.880 you know being like did you leave out cookies you know what i mean if you think about it in terms like 0.91

00:49:56.860 that it's crazy it's really crazy you're like why am i leaving out desserts for an intruder

00:50:03.040 for a robber i know it's like coming in my house through my chimney of all places the tooth fairy is

00:50:10.900 another one yeah what a weird fetish to have collecting teeth weirdo right you convince them 0.99

00:50:16.600 that that bitch exists and you think you can't tell them that someone has two moms right not hard 1.00

00:50:21.060 that's what i'm like you tell them that and they're like oh okay okay i once convinced my 0.99

00:50:27.240 brother when he was little you know the red box machines i once convinced him that there was like

00:50:31.960 a person in there working like i convinced told him i said every time he lives in there right i said

00:50:37.420 i don't like kind of like a little like elf okay like a little like uh-huh well i was describing him

00:50:43.200 as evil but like i told him like he lived in there and like his only job was to dispense movies

00:50:48.380 and my my brother was looking and he's like really i'm like yeah dude and i did that just

00:50:53.480 because yeah like i didn't have any there was no gain for me at the end of that i just didn't see

00:50:58.620 if i can convince him and he believed me that's my point that's my point but you could tell them

00:51:04.760 the most ridiculous like crazy thing in the world and they'd be like wow wow okay so like you think

00:51:11.260 you can't tell them real life things you're out of your mind you're not giving them enough credit 0.66

00:51:13.920 exactly you know what i mean so this next quote says or comment says even disney's promoting it

00:51:20.840 to kids the most tired argument in the world it is it's so tired like okay i recently because like

00:51:29.660 i didn't even realize because also i don't like really pay attention to these types of things yeah

00:51:33.580 um it's like other people's opinions they're their opinions yeah you can't change their mind right

00:51:38.880 exactly i always like to just like develop my own but um the film lightyear the like buzz lightyear

00:51:46.660 movie on pixar apparently well not apparently but according to like their projections in terms like

00:51:53.140 tanked at the box office and that was mostly because people were rallying because they were

00:51:58.260 like there's a same-sex kiss between two women and they're like that's terrible we won't let our 0.97

00:52:02.600 children see it and it's like literally two women on like their like 40th anniversary who just like 0.65

00:52:06.860 give each other a peck and like that is it's like she says hey it's like a little like that is it

00:52:12.340 yeah and i watched the lightyear movie and if anyone hasn't seen it watch it yeah it was so

00:52:19.180 good and to think that like this movie didn't get the reception that it really i think truly deserved

00:52:26.460 just because all these people heard about there being two same-sex like characters who are in love

00:52:32.920 with each other that exist in this movie that like oh my god we can't we absolutely can't let

00:52:38.080 our kids see this and you know what's wild is like if you think about snow white she's 14

00:52:43.460 and that's a grown man that kisses her against her will by the way that's a solid vibe

00:52:49.320 babes she's unconscious sleeping beauty she's 15 yeah pedophilia is okay yeah got it pocahontas 0.99

00:52:57.380 also 15 yeah yeah she was 13 oh the real pocahontas was 13 and that story's fucked up 0.99

00:53:04.140 that is even more interesting i can't believe you guys care so much about consensual love that's

00:53:10.700 crazy that you care about that i in the way that they described it too was like you would have thought

00:53:17.240 it was like an orgy happening in the movie absolutely and it's literally like if you believe that's it

00:53:23.180 you will miss it yeah like you will like if you blink at that moment you'll miss it you look down

00:53:27.700 to eat your popcorn it's gone honestly i'm not even joking the first time that i watched the film

00:53:32.240 i missed it you're like wait and i was like oh my god did they yeah i was like did they like cut it

00:53:37.460 out and then i was like watching it with a friend and i was like oh it is in the movie i was like that

00:53:43.160 was like half a second i was like are you kidding me i was like it that for so many people derailed the

00:53:49.180 whole purpose and plot of like what this movie is about and it wasn't about the couple no right it

00:53:55.820 was literally part of like a montage so it's like literally there's all these different things

00:54:01.360 that are happening and it's like literally this little half a second i was just like wow i'm like

00:54:05.520 how do y'all go through life living like that living like that and like being so like oh my god i

00:54:11.360 can't believe they're showing me like how do you go through life if that's the hardest thing you

00:54:15.580 to deal with give up now yeah life's too hard i feel like a lot of people don't like spend enough

00:54:21.320 time trying to like figure out or discover what their own specific unique like purpose is yeah and

00:54:27.380 so they try to like create purpose for themselves like in areas where like it really just like is not

00:54:32.620 necessary and so some people are like well you know what i'm gonna be this warrior for like everything

00:54:38.100 that is good and pure in this world and you're all like well so much of the fundamentals that like

00:54:44.120 your ideals are based off of or actually like really like violent and shitty and i'm like 0.54

00:54:49.960 very interesting yeah and misogynistic like just all that yep i'm like weird yeah i always think

00:54:57.520 with stuff like that especially i'm like well first of all you don't have a job clearly uh and second of

00:55:03.540 all y'all want to be oppressed so bad y'all want to be oppressed that part that part the way you guys

00:55:10.640 just make shit up so you can be oh my gosh you can be like i can't believe they're doing this to me 0.92

00:55:14.980 during the during the um midterm elections when i was still in um atlanta when they started like 0.98

00:55:22.860 running their campaign ads they legitimately ran this ad in georgia that was just all like

00:55:28.880 racism towards white people has increased so much like you should have seen it was like all these 0.86

00:55:36.280 like sad white they're like it's like that sarah mclaughlin yes yes absolutely buried out all 0.97

00:55:43.820 these like white people that were just all like oh damn it's so hard being white now and i literally 0.95

00:55:49.880 watched i was like it felt like an ssl skit and i was like this is like legit did you say lauren 0.98

00:55:55.660 michaels is gonna eat that up he's gonna eat that up girl i got a whole run i know i can't believe

00:56:04.180 that's real and i was i remember like genuinely wondering i was like i wonder if these actors in

00:56:09.020 this commercial who were just like acting really sad and all these like different scenarios like

00:56:13.400 they're all like they're not receiving like accurate hospital care i was like i wonder if any

00:56:16.560 of them knew like going into it like when they got hired for the job that they were going to be

00:56:21.820 in an ad that was just all like no more racism towards white people yeah would you be so embarrassed

00:56:27.860 like that you see and you're like oh i didn't know they were gonna use it made me it made me think of

00:56:32.320 like uh this broad city episode where like um abby did like an illustration for like a dating service

00:56:38.260 yeah and then like later on sees the commercial and she's like because she's like apartment shopping 1.00

00:56:42.680 and it's like an interracial couple and she's like oh my god that's the drawing i did and it's for a

00:56:46.960 dating service that's like literally just for white people it's like literally she drew all these

00:56:51.100 multicultural people and in it they like remove all of them they're all like we choose the cream of 1.00

00:56:54.800 the crop because we only use the cream shit she's like and she's literally like 1.00

00:56:59.620 and i was like i that's what i felt i'm like i feel like some of these actors had no idea 0.86

00:57:04.480 and then saw that and were like the way they have like in the arms of an angel playing over it and

00:57:09.780 they're like and that's why i said like just because i've said this before on my tiktok literally

00:57:14.820 uh i was like just because your feelings get hurt does not mean you're being oppressed yeah babes those

00:57:21.380 two things are not the same and you would know that if you were actually being oppressed in any way

00:57:25.800 shape or form you would you would be well aware of the difference i can promise you that okay and

00:57:30.600 this last one says and if you can't see this see this agenda that's part of an even bigger one

00:57:36.540 then you're lost we need to stand together they're just making up fan fiction it's lore yeah it is i really

00:57:44.860 want to know what because people talk about the agenda i have not received the manual for the queer

00:57:51.340 agenda yet you haven't been on the email chain no i just really want to know what the agenda

00:57:56.140 you're all clue me in is you're all been out the loop for a while for a while you know my friend

00:58:01.920 emily grayson she told me her gay agenda is astrology oh she's like pushing it and making everyone 1.00

00:58:07.920 believe in it that's my game i was walking home from dinner just last week and um i saw this person

00:58:17.040 who was walking and they had this tote bag and they were like this bag contains my queer agenda 0.75

00:58:21.360 that's a great great bag i really was like damn i want that toe you know what's so funny too is like

00:58:29.640 as much pain and suffering as like the lgbtqia plus community has gone through they will make a joke 1.00

00:58:37.920 and they will sell it bring the house down yeah they will make a joke out of like this active

00:58:43.860 oppression that's constantly happening they will always find light and laughter inside of it

00:58:48.880 absolutely and i admire that dude it gives me hope it literally inspires me honestly because sometimes

00:58:53.640 you just gotta laugh to not cry no you know it's just all like humor verges right on tragedy so it

00:58:59.800 really is about you know kind of taking a lot of those like darker things and finding a way to just

00:59:03.900 like collectively laugh about them because we're just all like otherwise we would just like you know

00:59:08.180 be all shitty and sad and miserable like the people that are coming for us exactly that's like all 0.96

00:59:14.020 you really can do i feel like and like honestly a lot of these times like i really do pity these people 0.95

00:59:18.240 because i'm just all like it i cannot imagine how like scary it is to have such a small mind

00:59:26.800 yeah like i'm like the world must be a frightening place because i just think like i because it feels

00:59:33.520 like it's like it almost is like your brain has not developed to a certain level and i think almost

00:59:37.680 of like um cavemen yeah like neanderthals neanderthals and like there's like what is the movie called like

00:59:44.460 the croods or whatever and it's about these cavemen and like the dad is like afraid of everything you know

00:59:50.480 and i'm just all like that's how i feel like some of these people are they're just so wrapped up in fear

00:59:55.380 and fear is such a powerful tool you know and people use that to get what they want out of people

01:00:00.640 to like engage them and enrage them and like try and activate them by using their yeah their fear

01:00:05.920 against them yeah damn i've never thought about it like that's such a great compare i love that movie

01:00:11.100 the croods is such a great movie but that's a great example yeah it's just like fear of the unknown 0.98

01:00:15.880 um and then just a really really righteous ignorance that's how i'm always like white supremacy and

01:00:23.540 homophobia misogyny like all racism all of those bigoted things are so deeply ingrained

01:00:30.620 in so many things yeah once you start unpacking it you're like free when you like unlearn and

01:00:36.640 release yourself you'll be so much happier yeah your skin will clear up absolutely you'll make 0.99

01:00:41.780 more money you'll get better sleep yeah yes yeah you'll just you'll find you'll get good dick 0.99

01:00:45.740 whatever you want right you'll get laid you'll just be happy overall you'll get funnier and i feel like 0.96

01:00:51.680 true and i feel like genuinely like unlearning things takes a little bit more effort than learning

01:01:00.000 them and people just don't want to make the effort because it's like easier to just kind of like live

01:01:04.760 in that fear and some people like wear it as like a badge of honor i'm like don't you love america 0.98

01:01:09.860 aren't you guys all about working right get to work bitch get to work blue collar ass right and 1.00

01:01:14.440 actually start working on yourself first yeah go ahead and do that we're good over here right babes 0.98

01:01:18.540 we're thriving yeah but you know why because we're queens yeah period so we've talked about a lot of

01:01:23.560 things right what would you say you want people to really really know what it's like to like embody

01:01:29.900 being a queen or feel like a queen in their own life what is really really important

01:01:37.480 whether it's like just their how they should feel about themselves how they should see the world in

01:01:44.420 general all of those things honestly i'll just say what i feel like helps me

01:01:52.260 every day i really just like focus on gratitude because there are so many people out there in the

01:02:01.760 world that are dealing with like much deeper and harder struggles than we ourselves are going through

01:02:07.340 yeah and i try to use like every single little thing about you know my life to just like be grateful

01:02:13.900 for like the fact that i'm just like i have like the ability to move around in my body and get up and

01:02:19.740 like walk or like step into a bathtub like some people don't even have like the physical ability

01:02:24.380 to do something like that yeah you know some people deal with you know really difficult mental health

01:02:31.500 issues like i have like clarity over my mind you know and so even when i'm like struggling my most i

01:02:38.660 just always try to focus on gratitude and then like after i focus on that gratitude then i can sit there

01:02:46.020 and like build myself up talk myself up and be like and you got this and you're worth all of this

01:02:51.760 and you can do this and like and and as grateful as you are for yourself this world needs to be grateful

01:02:57.600 to have you you know so i just feel like that's like what i do and so i would encourage like any

01:03:03.860 other queen to do that for themselves and just like know that like you have so much value and like 0.99

01:03:10.780 learn to value yourself before you allow anybody to affect the way that you feel about yourself

01:03:15.940 love because if you can't love yourself how do you love anybody else look at that like it seems

01:03:23.340 it seems so cheap but honestly like a lot of those things like yeah rupaul's little isms have just like

01:03:28.940 sometimes they'll come back to me i'm just like oh that's just so true it is it's so true and it's so

01:03:33.920 applicable and i feel like especially now in times like this with so much access to so many things and so

01:03:39.960 much information in general it's really important to have a very strong sense of self or like

01:03:44.600 constantly work i'm a big affirmations girl yeah love to say affirmations out loud they may make you

01:03:49.760 feel corny but i think that they really help because the mind is a powerful thing you tell yourself you're

01:03:54.620 awesome eventually you're going to believe it but yeah i promise you absolutely so i want to thank

01:03:59.340 the wonderful amazing shea coulet for joining me today you are so incredible yes thank you i had so much

01:04:05.260 fun thank you so much for having me oh my god of course do you have anything coming up that

01:04:09.680 you'd like to promote yeah so you guys should definitely check out my upcoming tour with

01:04:16.200 betty who we're gonna be doing 22 cities in the u.s um it's the big tour i'm gonna be opening up for

01:04:22.680 her um definitely uh keep a lookout for my album that drops next month so exciting and yeah and then

01:04:29.700 for all of our folks um in the uk and europe i will be over there uh doing my solo tour in april so 0.66

01:04:37.500 fucked and busy bitch yeah i love that thanks and thank you all for joining me thank you so much 0.99

01:04:43.820 to my wonderful guest shea coulet oh wait where can everybody find you oh you can find me um at 0.99

01:04:48.500 shea coulet on instagram uh twitter uh tiktok uh christian mingle um all the things farmers only yeah

01:04:57.200 thank you all so much for joining us today on this episode thank you so much to my wonderful guest

01:05:02.500 shea for joining me if you want to watch full episodes you can catch them all on spotify i'll see

01:05:08.200 you next week bye

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