The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - GYM BROS HAVE WORMS IN THEIR BRAINS ｜ Drew Afualo ft. Naomi Hearts ｜ THE COMMENT SECTION EP 42

00:00:00.000 you know i i like really hate this bitch too like i really hate her um but she's not ugly i feel 1.00

00:00:06.080 like we should stop saying that because that's not true real recognized real yeah you know what 0.99

00:00:10.320 i mean there's nothing realer than a dude being like i really hate that bitch but she's not ugly 1.00

00:00:15.280 100 fair fair at least you're honest a win is a win i'll take it 0.98

00:00:19.800 exactly hey everyone and welcome back to another episode of the comment section show starring me

00:00:32.000 your favorite everybody knows me who cares about me today is a very special episode because it comes

00:00:37.660 with my very special guest the one and only naomi hartz hold for applause hi how are you i'm so

00:00:48.020 happy to have you i'm so happy to be here naomi and i go way back we really do 10 days

00:00:53.680 not even we for some reason we've always ran into each other at events we're always at the same

00:01:01.020 events always and sometimes it's really awkward and it's just the two of us in there what are the

00:01:06.060 two of us always yes the first time we met was at a glossier event yes we did and it was it was so

00:01:11.900 awkward and quiet it was just us two there yeah and it was a good time i met mom yeah i met drew

00:01:18.560 and they were it was like someone introducing us like oh like here i mean yeah and it was almost

00:01:23.320 like um like a meet cute like in a rom-com you know yeah the moment when they lock eyes that was

00:01:28.920 the two of us like that and then we met each other every corner i turned you were there at vidcon

00:01:34.580 she was fully following she was literally following me i literally said that i was like naomi's been

00:01:40.180 following me this entire time i was trying to get on the podcast and it worked not you gaslighting

00:01:45.800 me i could i was like every chance that i got i would just i saw drew oh hey no it was just so

00:01:52.080 random it was disneyland it was the hotel it was at the spotify lounge literally everywhere every

00:01:58.840 corner every corner every corner i turned i was like if this is not the mr beast event this is the

00:02:04.520 naomi hearts event yeah i was there as i see everywhere and i didn't see mr beast once did

00:02:09.040 you no no i think it's funny because you and i have been online friends for so long uh-huh it feels

00:02:17.160 like 10 years that we've been friends it's been a year so this is our anniversary not today but

00:02:22.220 november literally just this year like a year barely that's crazy it feels forever time is such a

00:02:28.500 construct what have you been up to lately working twerking um fuponzing no honestly not much i've

00:02:36.460 just been kind of like riding this wave we just both got named um on the discover list yes tiktokers

00:02:42.780 to watch globally global creators so that was exciting that's been the biggest thing so far i love that

00:02:48.260 yeah i think that's really and you even mentioned too there's only five american american creators on

00:02:54.260 there and the two of us were part of those five and that's like uh you're also someone too who i

00:03:01.600 think um is very familiar with hate because i get i hate all the time i don't know and i never heard

00:03:08.320 of them never heard of them i think it's also um we have kind of like two opposite ends of the spectrum

00:03:14.180 hate right i think a lot of times and i think that your content is so i think inspiring to a lot of

00:03:22.120 people for obvious reasons but kind of like how my content is too like you're in a loving relationship 0.95

00:03:27.440 you're married yes t bitch period zoom in catch them catch them yeah and uh i'm in a long-term 1.00

00:03:36.800 relationship too how long five years seven so look at that yeah but i also i think that speaks volumes 0.99

00:03:44.580 to especially haters because they like to say girls like us are never gonna get married babe

00:03:49.460 they love to say they love to say that about us it's it's strange honestly because it really is

00:03:56.480 two ends of a different spectrum like yeah they always want to say that fat people are never gonna

00:04:01.540 find love and it's like babe i'm in love i'm living i've been in love yeah and even if it's not my

00:04:07.260 husband i have a loving family yeah i have loving friends i have loving followers like and people hate

00:04:13.020 to see that they really do they do and they hate to see like men like the two people that we're with

00:04:18.980 for example loving us unconditionally yeah and without shame and that really grinds their gears

00:04:26.320 the teeth they get so mad they do they get so hatery really really quick it's it's honestly i'm like that 0.94

00:04:35.140 sounds like single bitch problems yeah and i mean it's okay it's like for me being like a trans person 0.99

00:04:40.980 being a plus size person being able to find someone who loved me for me was on its own something that i 0.94

00:04:46.520 never thought would happen yeah but i also think that there's a lot of people that never thought it

00:04:51.080 would happen yeah and so for it to be there and be so public yeah i feel like it just like you said

00:04:58.380 it grinds their gears and it's i think it's also speaks to how like they're so convinced that you have

00:05:05.720 to be a certain way look a certain way right act a certain way in order to garner the attention of a

00:05:10.940 romantic partner when you're wrong babe you're wrong like you're literally wrong and also uh 0.99

00:05:17.860 because for me personally like they always like are like this is the ugliest bitch i've ever seen 1.00

00:05:22.060 in the entire world i'm like in the whole wide world in the whole wide world i was i always think 0.97

00:05:29.060 like do you live with only bella hadid there's literally no way you've only seen her every corner 0.97

00:05:33.800 you turn you only see bella hadid there's no way bitch there's no way right that i'm the ugliest 1.00

00:05:38.260 person you've ever seen in the entire whole wide world you're not ugly i mean i know that yeah 0.98

00:05:42.860 you're not no but honestly it's hard it's like it's a lot of projection it's a lot of self-hate

00:05:48.440 and i've learned that through content it's like when i'm creating and i'm posting and i read a comment

00:05:53.900 i'm like is this really how they feel or is it projection truly it's projection 100 times out of

00:06:00.100 it is it absolutely is and it's like um it's almost like the intense the most intense form

00:06:05.280 of brainwashing because they've been brainwashed to believe that like if you look like a certain way

00:06:11.600 no one's supposed to love you right or care for you right and then when this person that they think

00:06:16.660 fits in this like box is being loved and being loved unconditionally they're like wait a second

00:06:21.740 i hate myself how come you don't hate yourself yeah and it's sounds like a personal problem i just

00:06:27.800 why live your life hating yourself when you can just love yourself like it just doesn't make sense

00:06:32.020 yeah and also like not focused on it i think you're someone who's really good who's like well

00:06:36.240 i mean babe that's a you thing that's a you problem babe i'm like you know the amount of times someone

00:06:43.840 has told me to eat a salad and i'm like babe i'm gonna eat a burger like i just don't it's not for

00:06:48.940 me it's like the amount of times i've said oh you're gonna die tomorrow i'm like i'm still here

00:06:52.560 it's just i'm over it check back in with me in 24 hours yeah we'll see we'll see so how did you

00:06:58.400 get into making content so it's an interesting story because truthfully i started making content

00:07:04.320 to get my foot in the door and i always say it's like being plus size being trans being latina like

00:07:10.460 i know some of the privileges i hold with being passable being light-skinned being on the thinner

00:07:16.660 side of the plus size spectrum but at the end of the day like i also knew that in a world full of

00:07:21.980 people that are thin and white the odds were against me and so it really was to get my foot

00:07:26.180 in the door of entertainment once i made content and i saw people really react to it in a way that

00:07:32.700 was like you love yourself i can love myself too it shifted from getting my foot in the door to just

00:07:40.640 helping one person love themselves a little bit more yeah and that's really why i do it yeah i love that

00:07:46.240 i think that's that's something you your art platforms have very similar like uh threads to

00:07:52.340 because for me i i think we both knew this like neither of us really expected any of this to come

00:07:59.100 out of no making videos on tiktok obviously but we both i mean like same thing with me like i really

00:08:05.980 want to move into more more like traditional forms of media which i think we're both doing anyways

00:08:12.120 but like you know this platform has become something completely different it's almost

00:08:18.160 like it's bigger than us at this point like right it's not just about us and like our own personal

00:08:22.860 career goals it's like about all of the people that we inspire and like empower because i'm sure you get

00:08:28.780 messages all the time i get messages all the time too about like people saying they draw strength or

00:08:34.060 courage from my videos and they like teach themselves how to like how much they deserve and how much they

00:08:41.380 like should love themselves and should give them themselves the permission to love themselves and

00:08:45.360 i think that's a big thread in your con content as well yeah and that that really is what like

00:08:50.280 motivates me to do it because it's like it's hard it like it's i always tell people it's a journey

00:08:56.060 like i did not get to this place of i don't give up you know overnight yeah it took years of like

00:09:02.700 learning to embrace who i am as a person yeah um to really get to this point and now that i'm here

00:09:09.300 i'm like i'm not going back i'm not going back too far gone now but she's dead so speaking up we're

00:09:16.560 going to talk about um our topic for today which is living your truth right okay and how hot women 1.00

00:09:22.540 two hot women currently in front of you right thank you are amazing we're erasing who we are and how

00:09:29.580 um some like terrible men they really really hate that so i have kind of talked about this in other

00:09:36.060 episodes as well but like how when you're so far removed from the male gaze they almost get more

00:09:41.740 offended than when you're like feeding into it because they're like i can't believe that you

00:09:46.820 don't want me to hook up with you i can't believe you don't want me to be attracted to you even though

00:09:51.680 i'm not attracted to you and i'll tell you how much i'm not right they like and so when they tell

00:09:56.120 you like i think you're ugly and then you go i think you're ugly too they're like okay that was rude

00:10:00.860 why would you say that to me why would you say that i i've gotten that countless times like 0.67

00:10:04.780 literally on the way here to film this episode today today yeah i got it i got a tweet like a

00:10:09.940 hate tweet i was talking to someone completely different um the men always insert themselves

00:10:13.980 as they always do and they were calling me like fat and ugly and this one guy like literally put a

00:10:19.820 picture of like um i think what's his name ed the hyena from lion king he's the one that laughs

00:10:25.920 crazy the laugh i'll concede on that like sure similar like cackles whatever um but he was

00:10:32.080 literally like no the eyes are just farther apart but like wrote me a colorful description of like just

00:10:37.340 me being ugly a fan yeah and then he has a picture of himself on his profile okay and i took a picture

00:10:45.560 of it and i retweeted like i quote tweeted it and i said there's no way you want to talk about looks 0.97

00:10:50.860 there's no way bitch there's no way be so for real there's no way right there's literally no way 1.00

00:10:55.980 his hairline starts at the back of his neck and he wants to talk to me about looks bitch come on 1.00

00:11:01.440 bitch come on okay come on lie to your mom don't lie to me yeah i just think like when you tell me 1.00

00:11:07.040 that i'm ugly like you're lying to god you know what i mean yeah you're gonna go to hell yeah like i 1.00

00:11:12.500 mean god doesn't like liars i feel like that's applicable on this this in this world in this 0.99

00:11:17.700 particular situation i mean i don't know that's on you you're taking that to your grave that's on

00:11:22.260 you 100 that's the same thing with you i'm sure when people tell you things you're like i just i

00:11:26.380 don't take it personally it's like i always tell my followers don't send hate to a person because

00:11:29.760 i'm like for me it's like hate and hate don't win but it's like sometimes it's just it's so hard

00:11:39.900 because it's like it's always the same people it's always a gym bro it's always like and i'm like

00:11:45.860 they are the ones that fetishize fat people the most that's so funny because i just talked to tess 0.99

00:11:52.200 holiday about that and she said that too she said like all her dating apps it's nothing but gym bros 0.99

00:11:57.860 it's wild yeah the way that they they do they fetishize the absolute shit out of out of fat 0.99

00:12:04.680 women in general or just fat femme people in general it's like that call's coming from inside the house 1.00

00:12:10.560 i'm like this ham is closed babe you gotta you gotta keep it pushing close for business you gotta

00:12:16.420 find somebody else it's true though right uh you know what's funny is i had someone um on twitter

00:12:23.740 it was a while ago it was like months ago but someone was saying like you know whenever a new

00:12:28.740 white guy finds me they're like this is where they like kick up dirt and then it's like we're all

00:12:33.560 it's like groundhog's day i'm reliving the same day over and over again and uh this discourse starts 0.99

00:12:38.960 and then someone on twitter was like you know i i like really hate this bitch too like i really 1.00

00:12:44.820 hate her um but she's not ugly i feel like we should stop saying that because that's not true 0.96

00:12:48.860 real recognize real yeah you know i mean there's nothing realer than a dude being like i really 0.98

00:12:54.660 hate that bitch but she's not ugly 100 fair fair at least you're honest a win is a win i'll take it 1.00

00:13:00.880 exactly honesty is the key to success listen i think we'd all be happier if we freed ourselves 0.99

00:13:09.240 from these lies yes you know what i mean so for this episode today we always what we like to do

00:13:15.320 here on the comment section is we bring uh videos that i was tagged in that are applicable to our topic

00:13:19.500 today and then we're gonna talk about them break them down kiki all that stuff okay so this first video

00:13:24.700 is uh this girl is filming a video of herself at the gym with the caption

00:13:28.780 me gaining 30 pounds of muscle and then reveals that uh she has stretch marks that have appeared 1.00

00:13:34.820 on her thighs and how she's like loving them because she's like getting feeling strong getting

00:13:38.620 strong all that stuff right um shocker some men weren't too fond drum roll please i know can are we

00:13:48.000 like so so surprised like this first one this first comment says not 30 pounds of muscle but okay

00:13:54.260 okay what's crazy is um bodybuilders like male bodybuilders too um they also have stretch marks

00:14:03.800 when their skin stretches it doesn't always mean fat it means like your body is stretching a different

00:14:10.880 way yeah yeah and you would know that if you worked out at all or like loved yourself i don't work

00:14:15.980 out but i know that it's science but it's also like uh if you loved yourself you would probably also

00:14:22.040 know that or not feel the need to comment it on a stretch i think it's like um it's this gross

00:14:27.320 misconception because i talked about this with test too that they never seem to care about the opposite

00:14:31.600 end of the spectrum when it comes to like caring about your health they never care about bodybuilders

00:14:36.800 or or people who develop eating disorders because they're so entrenched in the fitness industry right

00:14:41.420 don't care at all about that right they only care about what they deem is unattractive 100 and it's

00:14:47.340 odd because i've talked about this too before it's like you only hate me because i'm fat you don't

00:14:54.080 care that i'm fat if you yeah or like my health i should say yeah you obviously care that i'm fat but

00:15:00.060 you don't care about my health you just hate the fact that i'm fat but it's like if i was out here like

00:15:04.560 let's just put this like hypothetical hypothetical like having unprotected whatever yeah right that's

00:15:11.960 also a danger to my health but people don't care about that and people are doing that every day

00:15:15.240 yeah that's tea honestly and it's like and it's the same thing with like smoking yeah drinking i was

00:15:20.660 gonna say that you know it's like stuff that you can't really see and it's just they don't really

00:15:24.840 care about the health it's just about shaming people that are fat because it's better to ostracize a 1.00

00:15:29.380 group of people than to accept them yeah and also they have been convinced that that's something you

00:15:37.120 should hate about yourself right and especially when fat people do not hate themselves that makes them

00:15:43.080 even more mad like even more enraged or inclined to comment something terrible 100 because they're 0.99

00:15:48.920 like i literally have been taught my whole life to hate myself if i if i'm fat so you're fat and you 0.98

00:15:54.920 don't hate yourself i hate you like that's weird you're a weirdo and also a lot of these kids too 0.97

00:16:00.720 like they're i always call them kids because they're so young a lot of times the dude who write this 0.99

00:16:04.620 shit some of them aren't some of them are my age or older but like they'll they like smoke the hell out 0.99

00:16:10.220 of those little jewels the vape pen the vape pens like those are so bad for your health like 0.98

00:16:16.860 unbelievably terrible like have you seen people trying to wean themselves off those because it's

00:16:20.920 like smoking a pack a day out of like a two couple puffs i didn't know that it's true they're so terrible

00:16:27.100 for you but like that's health related like you said it is and they'll they'll brag about buying a

00:16:32.120 bunch of them or being addicted to them because it's literally a nicotine addiction yes and then

00:16:37.000 they're like but fat i just care about your health me personally i just care about your health

00:16:42.320 i'm like i just and i'm like you're not a doctor though so yeah you're not her personal physician

00:16:47.820 so maybe you should mind some of that i also think too that they didn't care when like the

00:16:54.400 the industry standard was like rail thin you know how they they made up that term heroin chic

00:16:59.540 right they didn't care about that 100 and that was not healthy at all like literally not healthy

00:17:06.860 at all i think too that um i talked about this once with one of my fans but uh in like the

00:17:12.620 comments in one of my videos when i was like dragging a gym bro which i love to do it's like

00:17:17.160 you want to talk about my hobbies that's one of them your biggest one upsetting them but um it was

00:17:23.400 literally she was talking about how men like that literally have no idea what weight displacement looks

00:17:30.080 like so like they'll say like i don't want a girl who's 215 pounds but they have no idea what 215 looks

00:17:37.700 like at all like at all especially on women of color like if you don't even factor in race like 1.00

00:17:43.140 once you start factoring in race like build all that stuff because like bmi is racist so right it's 0.53

00:17:48.160 like nobody holds weight the same everyone's body is different yeah so like they have no idea what

00:17:52.620 that looks like like i literally had a dude be like you you're literally like 300 pounds more

00:17:56.980 you think i'm 300 something pounds like he said like 380 also i want you to look me in the eyes

00:18:03.060 and tell me that you genuinely believe i'm 380 pounds and he was like oh well no i guess not but 1.00

00:18:10.420 like you look close to it i'm all you're an idiot like you're literally you're a moron i feel like 0.99

00:18:16.440 i don't it's just to get like a rise out of people i'm like it's just so dumb to like assume people's 0.99

00:18:21.120 weight and it's like for me like realistically like i'm 350 we're not the same no like this

00:18:27.860 but also it's no one's business at all like at all it means but it means nothing nothing at all

00:18:36.300 to anyone literally that's why i was like the fact that um we talk about we people have talked about

00:18:42.500 body positivity and stuff right i always talk about i think it's great to love your body but i'm i'm for

00:18:47.220 me personally i love to strive towards body neutrality i just don't want to think about it

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00:19:56.280 keep me healthy and that's and the health is determined by me and my physician alone right it's

00:20:01.620 not determined aesthetically because what you look like has nothing to do with your internal health

00:20:06.360 you could be in the best shape ever and literally inside be like internally very unhealthy 100% well

00:20:11.780 look at like that's why i said bodybuilders they're like peak physique but on the inside they're very

00:20:16.540 unhealthy because they're not eating right or anything like they're like starving themselves a lot of times

00:20:20.540 so when i think about situations like that when you want to talk about your relationship with your

00:20:26.160 body i feel like it's so personal it's like so specific to the person so when you say like i just

00:20:31.260 really don't care it doesn't upset me if you call me fat like i tell people that all the time

00:20:34.560 calling me fat does not hurt my feelings because it's not an insult at all literally it's just a

00:20:38.900 word we've they've given it this power to try and hurt us but it doesn't affect me literally at all

00:20:44.500 try harder yeah that's i was like okay when they say you're fat okay um what if you just were like

00:20:51.120 all right well thank you is that it i love it anything else

00:20:55.540 try i like always try harder the insults are just like yeah the meanest insults i get youtube

00:21:02.760 really yeah i feel that it's a lot of children yeah it's a lot of children but i get that because

00:21:09.540 um on my shorts like when someone makes a youtube video about me i always know because like there's

00:21:15.060 a bunch of terrible people looking for me on youtube and they write the most asinine comments

00:21:19.300 some of them don't even make sense they're like the most broken sentences and insults like it's 0.97

00:21:25.060 good they're trying to i always say like they picked like the biggest fattest animal they can

00:21:28.660 think of right elephant whale hippo what else who who even knows mine's a buffalo they call me buffalo

00:21:37.480 all the time okay but that's a racist um like microaggression against my last name because one white 0.84

00:21:42.840 dude said it so then they're all like they're jumping so funny so dumb i once uh recently i had 0.75

00:21:50.920 i saw this um girl who was kind of beefing with this dude and he's like he's one of those like

00:21:56.980 men's rights right like activist type dudes which like uh newsflash you have rights you got plenty of

00:22:03.600 them like so many peak yes you have so many rights you have so many um but she was kind of

00:22:11.260 beefing with him and um his whole thing was like he didn't like her content or mine by proxy i don't

00:22:18.120 know they always bring me up they always bring me in in white folks business they always be bringing 0.91

00:22:22.580 me up right and uh he was like because i feel like it's your responsibility as people with platforms

00:22:27.860 to be nice to men who are openly bigoted towards me or other women or anyone else like if they attack 0.99

00:22:36.040 me if they're racist fat phobic like just say the most vile shit to me it's my responsibility 0.98

00:22:42.800 as a woman yeah to be nice to them as a woman of color and to shield their identities because i'm 0.99

00:22:48.000 all otherwise i'm encouraging cyberbullying and he's like and i don't think cyberbullying is good

00:22:52.800 and sometimes i genuinely think these men think i forget their faces or like who they are or what

00:23:00.640 they've done in the past oh you remember yeah i remember everything but i'm a virgo so it's like

00:23:05.720 you know what i mean i got a little like philofax up here and i just like be going through it all the

00:23:10.100 time okay i have a photographic memory so i remember faces very easily i may not remember names but i

00:23:15.960 always remember a face and where i saw it and what month i remember it and all that shit so like i 0.81

00:23:21.720 commented on her video where she was arguing back with him and her video was really good but um i wrote on

00:23:28.020 her video i'm like i think i'm begging you guys to go look for the video he made about me

00:23:32.800 unprovoked months ago go look for the video he made about me and you tell me if he's against

00:23:37.620 cyberbullying go ahead and go through those comments man you tell me i just think like if you're gonna 0.97

00:23:42.780 be a hypocrite like for what you if you are for cyberbullying you're cyberbullying somebody else like 0.96

00:23:49.200 how are you gonna tell someone how to cyberbully because the tables have turned you know 1.00

00:23:52.440 that's like girl what i was like when i when i like i'm like you guys said this terrible shit 0.97

00:23:58.020 about me they're like well you said that you're okay with making fun of looks i go i am you guys 0.93

00:24:03.820 aren't that's the difference you want to body shame me that's fine but i'm gonna do it back and you can't

00:24:09.940 cry that's my only rule yeah if you're gonna do it then i i get to do it too right only rules you

00:24:16.200 know what i mean rules are rules they really don't like when you turn it back on them i think it's

00:24:20.780 because sometimes they just can't think as quickly some people are just very like fast on their feet

00:24:26.800 with the with the wit and you're one of them yeah i'll probably be stuck you know but i yeah they

00:24:34.600 probably get upset because they cannot come back as quick it's just harder it's like the thing you

00:24:38.920 said about um the salad jokes like i get those too anything else you know what i mean anything else

00:24:47.160 anything hit the gym oh the list is i've never thought about that before i've never even heard

00:24:54.260 that like i've never heard that i never thought of it i i would never this next comment says not

00:25:01.660 a good idea your muscle will be fat in 10 years stay skinny and it goes into you want us to work

00:25:08.660 out but then like are judging how we look or what's gonna happen but not too muscly don't get too big 0.99

00:25:15.000 you bitch stay small stay small also it's giving me pedophile it's weird it's yeah it's like when did 1.00

00:25:25.980 we get to a point which obviously has always been here but we're like men get to dictate what we look 1.00

00:25:32.900 like yeah man it's crazy if you really think about like just capitalism as a whole and how they would

00:25:39.700 market things to men and women right it was almost always determining what was good on women like what 1.00

00:25:46.500 looks nice on women like what is just the most like this looks good all of you need to look like this 0.97

00:25:51.860 right and it's always like whenever i get into like i actually try to take the time to like explain my

00:25:59.760 why i believe the things i do the reason why i never do that is because the people who hate me

00:26:05.280 on that app aren't like literally not smart enough to have that conversation with me like genuinely

00:26:09.620 you're not smart enough but i was saying a lot of you don't want to unpack like how white supremacy

00:26:13.460 is so deeply embedded in a lot of the things that you're attracted to just like pedophilia is really 0.98

00:26:20.120 big and a lot of the things you're attracted to being hairless being small being shorter than you

00:26:24.400 like all of these things like being petite and being fragile and being like a little tiny

00:26:29.620 little statue yeah a lot of that is rooted in pedophilia people have hair and it's crazy

00:26:35.580 that you care like it it's also crazy that you care about hair on somebody who's not attracted to

00:26:41.260 you you know what i mean like in this like at all like literally at all like do you remember when

00:26:47.920 doja cat shaved her head and men were like why would she do this like she was a do you think doja 1.00

00:26:55.020 cat's looking at your comment being like what it's for her he thinks i'm ugly oh my god what i'm like 0.99

00:27:01.800 do you think that bitch cares about you you don't even have the juice to like talk to her like in a 1.00

00:27:07.860 normal platonic like if she just so happened to walk into the dollar tree store and you were there 1.00

00:27:13.160 and you got to serve her like you don't even have the juice to do that let alone hook up with her 0.99

00:27:18.680 they're like oh she was she was hot but not anymore maybe that was her goal maybe her goal 0.98

00:27:25.120 was to ward all of you nasties off i don't know to appease herself no literally 0.67

00:27:29.300 literally i did an episode with um do you know pokemon yes yeah so i did an episode with pokey

00:27:37.840 and she's the sweetest person in the world but she has a lot of creepos that love her like creepos 1.00

00:27:44.000 creepos because she's like such a ledge in the twitch streaming industry and so she was telling 0.99

00:27:49.660 me like when she started like posting about being with me the amount of dudes that were like why would

00:27:55.840 you do this pokey why would you do this fun fact side fact yeah on this i actually we made a video

00:28:02.500 yeah yeah we did and i got a comment from a cis white woman oof i used to love you but now that

00:28:10.160 you recorded with you and i was like block like it's just kind of like you know at the end of the

00:28:17.320 day like read the room no you know like it's so weird and i'm like for what well and then i think

00:28:24.560 like i have always said besides the fact that i'm gonna hurt your feelings which i've promised

00:28:30.500 to terrible men i was like that's not a threat that's a promise i'm gonna hurt your feelings 0.73

00:28:34.940 if you keep being terrible i'm gonna keep doing it right the other thing i've always said

00:28:38.840 is that the women that you love love me i've said that consistently you're one of them i was like

00:28:48.220 i'm literally friends with and they adore me and i was like if you only knew the like women that 1.00

00:28:55.640 follow me and dm me and tell me how much they want to hang out with me not me it would blow your

00:29:01.620 mind me she doesn't need to she's following me around vidcon so she doesn't need to she doesn't

00:29:07.440 need to do that but i was i it's the same thing with uh koki like i'm like turns out she's a 1.00

00:29:14.800 feminist can you believe it can you believe that it's because that's crazy i feel like in media 1.00

00:29:21.720 in general it's so male dominated yeah and by it's like cis male domination yeah when it comes to like

00:29:30.160 media and it's just so hard to break those molds yeah and like you and her are two people who have

00:29:36.860 done it in two different industries and it's just like they hate to see it they really do and i was

00:29:43.500 like i've been telling y'all i've been telling y'all forever that the people the women that you're most

00:29:50.620 attracted to they love me i guess you're marrying both of us if you think you're gonna marry her

00:29:55.460 you're gonna marry me too i'll be at dinner okay and this last comment on here says it would take you

00:30:01.200 at least six years to gain 30 pounds of muscle this guy has a profile picture where he's shooting

00:30:06.540 a gun so it's a bad start you know what i mean off top it's a big red flag i would say what's your

00:30:12.440 biggest red flag about men in general like it can be something really obvious or something really

00:30:17.880 really small especially when you're looking at a profile it's just like a picture yeah like yeah

00:30:22.860 like profile as a whole like let's say you're looking at an instagram account that's tough yeah

00:30:28.060 there's a lot i feel like gym a lot of gym pics it's like my biggest one like yeah i'll like them

00:30:35.980 i'll show some love you know who doesn't yeah but it's kind of like it's like if your whole personality

00:30:42.880 is just the gym is the gym yeah it's like i i can't do it you know like yeah half of my personality

00:30:49.480 is about being fat but my other half is like you know i'm a cool girl it's just kind of like

00:30:54.120 it's a lot like just seeing them always at the gym i'm just like i just don't know how you have

00:31:00.100 the time and the strength to be there yeah 24 7 i feel that it's boring and let's say 24 and then

00:31:07.460 the other seven you're commenting hate yeah yeah the other seven you're commenting it's like

00:31:11.720 like the other half of like that seven it's split up between commenting hate and meal prepping

00:31:17.400 and that's it that's all they got time for i tried meal prepping did you it's a nightmare 0.54

00:31:22.600 it sucks i went to in and out that night 0.68

00:31:25.840 it sucks i've meal prepped many times it's so hard uh-huh uh and then eating the same thing 0.98

00:31:32.960 every day and then no one talks about how fast you have to eat it otherwise it goes 0.85

00:31:35.700 rotten it literally rots like you've you've turned your fridge off oh they'll eat it 1.00

00:31:41.400 they will eat it maybe that's why maybe they have worms in their brain bitch like literally 1.00

00:31:46.640 salmonella like maybe it's in there just rotting the pieces away oh no who knows maybe that's why 0.98

00:31:52.480 they're so terrible they're being taken over by worms they're rotting inside like actually literally

00:31:58.380 yeah i think yeah i was gonna say i for uh red flags this is one like i don't know what it is

00:32:06.160 about this but it's like when dudes like take group pictures with their buddies and then they

00:32:11.980 say some shit like uh about last night and then they have like a devil emoji you know what i mean 0.69

00:32:18.340 or they say like like it's always when they're in vegas like i'm picturing like vegas you need to 0.99

00:32:23.440 see a group of dudes and you're like that just looks like the worst kind of group to be around

00:32:27.660 yeah you know what i mean like once they get kicked out because they're harassing the bartender

00:32:31.900 you know what i mean but they like post they put like a picture of them all like they're all five

00:32:37.520 feet yeah always the average height is like five six like that's an average like taking all of them

00:32:44.700 dividing by six you know what i mean the limit does not exist it's like when they take pictures and

00:32:51.860 they're like with the boys or it's like it's like the dice emoji or that joker emoji

00:32:57.160 just if i see pics like that and there's a lot of them if i see with the boys with the heart okay

00:33:03.780 i'll eat it up okay that the devil emoji you see the devil about last night you know what i mean like

00:33:10.300 they're like they were fully playing pokemon in the basement yeah they're like sin city you know

00:33:14.260 what i mean like oh the cringe i feel it just makes me like oh it makes me like tense up you know what i 0.89

00:33:21.060 mean that tense before you take a shit that's literally how it feels when i read stuff like that 0.71

00:33:26.960 yeah it's a huge red flag to me red flag i think it's like um and if they don't have pictures with 0.97

00:33:32.120 their mom yeah or or any pictures that aren't like just them by themselves like you know like

00:33:38.620 posting pictures of you like living life like with your family or your dog or like in nature or like

00:33:44.220 i don't know just something else besides this like black shades in front of their car

00:33:50.020 sitting on the hood yeah nights like days

00:33:54.340 let's go on a ride yeah they have like a song by like 21 savage like linked in their instagram story

00:34:02.620 jesus you know they're like the dudes that um uh post a lot of stories and then they like look

00:34:09.660 look at who's looking at their stories that guy worst the worst kind of guy

00:34:15.700 i was like can we even drink on here yeah absolutely absolutely you can okay let's move

00:34:22.460 on to this next video so this next one says um it's basically a woman she's filming herself in 0.98

00:34:27.620 the mirror taking off her makeup after work and she reveals that she has acne and some redness on her

00:34:33.520 face and it's an acne positive video so she's basically talking about how she loves her skin

00:34:37.880 with or without makeup love that and uh the first comment on here is like literally if i closed my eyes

00:34:44.900 and like i listened to the video i would have known that this was the top comment or one of them 0.99

00:34:48.400 which is uh that's why i have trust issues i just like think like you're you're stupid if you thought 0.97

00:34:55.680 that that was her real face right like do you think that i like grew black liner on my face 0.99

00:35:02.760 like where do you think that came from like use your brain you know i'm wearing no makeup right now

00:35:07.620 so i don't know same i literally like open my eyes because i sleep like this like a vampire you know

00:35:12.820 what i mean like hanging by my ankles i like open my eyes and then i just came here i just flew here

00:35:17.860 i'm like so good this is like i you know i feel like the whole trust issues thing is you know i'm

00:35:25.140 gonna take her swimming on the first date yeah it's like tired it's over it's like we live in a world

00:35:30.560 where acne is normal yeah and it's like and so is makeup yeah very normal i think it's because 0.92

00:35:37.120 they're dumb that's what i mean like they just don't how do you not know that we don't wake up 0.98

00:35:44.900 like that that's what i'm saying like but you know why because they've never woken up next to a woman 1.00

00:35:49.800 like you know what i'm saying like they've never had the experience of waking up next to someone that

00:35:54.660 they hooked up with and had a good time consensually together right they've never experienced that so

00:36:00.000 of course i guess that's on me for assuming that she would have had that life experience by now i guess 0.99

00:36:04.400 that's on me yeah but i think like it's uh that's why i said you're just you're stupid but at the 0.98

00:36:10.860 same time like science has evolved with makeup so far that like i could jump into the pool like this 0.97

00:36:17.080 and i'll come out and the hair will look different but the beat will stay i cannot really will not

00:36:21.340 move but it's because i didn't do it that's why yeah my hair and makeup artist did it my lash

00:36:26.700 will be down here but i yeah she's not wrong like i've seen like um girls in the past

00:36:34.260 social media talk about how like they they love lashes like they wear lashes all the time every

00:36:39.200 time and that was me when i first discovered strip lashes i was like this is my whole life now i cannot

00:36:44.220 be seen without these okay because i just love a big thick fluffy fake lash but i also have seen like

00:36:50.520 how they they'll keep them on when they're hooking up with dudes when they sleep which is really bad

00:36:55.320 don't do that you'll get eye infections trust me i know but like if you just sleep with the lashes on

00:36:59.860 or take them off and reapply them before he wakes up so that he just constantly thinks that you have

00:37:04.740 those can we talk about the eye infection i've actually gotten eye infections with the lashes 0.91

00:37:10.740 no not because of my lashes i just have a really bad habit of getting shit in my eye 0.82

00:37:15.220 and then it scratches my eyeball 0.73

00:37:16.800 that was me being vulnerable with you i hope you were holding space for me i am right here 0.97

00:37:24.660 i i just i've never had an eye infection really no oh bitch i've had three this year 1.00

00:37:35.380 really swear to god girl if i know honestly when i went to coachella okay you know the

00:37:42.100 did you go to coachella this year i didn't get invited y'all oh i'm sorry this is awkward

00:37:46.740 i just listened to you have you been to coachella ever you have you been to palm springs okay yes

00:37:55.380 i've been to palm springs okay yeah but you know how it gets really windy and it's dusty so that's

00:37:59.620 how it is at coachella but this year it was so windy i like i've only been other than this past year

00:38:06.040 i've only been once okay so like uh when i went the last time it was just hot this time it was freezing 0.96

00:38:12.360 cold and it was fucking windy and it was horrible and the way that shit will blow in my eye and get 0.99

00:38:17.920 stuck in there and then i go blind for like a like 10 minutes and then i'm like oh my god i thought my 0.99

00:38:23.000 life was over and then turns out it scratched my eye oh jesus and then my eye doctor was like bitch 1.00

00:38:28.720 what happened to you i do have glasses but like if you wear glasses with with a b it like creases it 0.82

00:38:36.660 and all that you know what i'm saying they said put setting powder in the nose i've tried that and

00:38:41.760 it doesn't work and i don't know if maybe my glasses are just hella heavy because my prescription is

00:38:45.960 really bad i'm my astigmatism is really bad okay i've one in each eye it's really bad i have like

00:38:53.260 i'm trying to figure out what astigmatism i don't graduate high school yeah i'm like i have a lazy eye

00:38:59.220 me too okay actually every people always comment on my lazy eye which is funny because everybody has

00:39:06.000 a lazy eye and if you turn your your camera and like look at yourself you'll see that you also have

00:39:11.620 a lazy eye it's just some of them are more pronounced than others so like but also it depends on the size

00:39:16.940 of your eyes like my eyes are huge like i have big giant eyes like saucers for eyes so gorgeous thanks

00:39:23.560 oh my god but they're like it's much more obvious that my eye is lazy so i got a lot more real estate

00:39:30.340 than the average eye person a high person person who has eyes i can't believe you've never had an

00:39:37.540 eye infection i'm jealous never i've had um other infections other infections is that what you said

00:39:44.380 i thought you said oven other infections oh i feel that i feel that i don't but i was i had eye

00:39:51.780 infection so common that my eye doctor was literally like i feel like you need to put

00:39:54.780 something on your face to like shield yeah my eyes because they're so fragile i'm just so dainty

00:39:59.540 you're so petite

00:40:00.580 that's literally why okay so let's get to the comments on this video um the other comments

00:40:07.740 so this next one says so you think using makeup is going to make your skin better lol it's going to 0.98

00:40:12.680 make it he's well he said it's going to make it worse or what do you accept i think he meant to

00:40:19.900 say expect but he literally put except like me except not with that like he spelled it wrong

00:40:27.300 grammar for 300 it's like yeah exactly you think your makeup is gonna make your skin better it's not

00:40:35.620 um i like how they turn into dermatologists all of a sudden i'm like girl you girl you think that's

00:40:43.600 gonna get better it's not i it's like you haven't heard of skincare no truly it's like you know

00:40:50.700 makeup like you said has evolved and some makeup is not as heavy they're chemicals like it's changing

00:40:57.980 every day yeah and then on top of that that's why we have skincare we wash our face we prep it day and

00:41:02.440 night and it's like and unfortunately yeah and unfortunately with acne it's like sometimes it's

00:41:08.080 genetic yeah literally and it's also can be hormonal especially in women yeah if you think 0.97

00:41:14.660 it's gonna make your skin better that's why i said you guys would have no idea because you do not have

00:41:18.040 a face routine and it's obvious because the way shoulders and that's nine and one yeah and that's 0.97

00:41:24.680 like to wash their body too not the crack though have you ever seen never because that's gay they can't 1.00

00:41:31.820 do that they can't do that that's not for them they're attracted to women the way they associate 0.78

00:41:36.820 cleanliness with like an entire sexuality is just insane that's wild but i think like have you ever

00:41:44.700 seen like i've seen before like when i've showered at my friends houses like first of all if when i was

00:41:51.420 in college if i ever went to a house that had only men living there i would never use the restroom 1.00

00:41:55.820 no you're gonna because i know exactly what it looks like yeah the way i'll get pink eye just by 0.99

00:42:00.540 looking at it and you already get them and i get it hey bitch listen i'll get it i'll get it 1.00

00:42:06.720 i'll get a scratch in my eye but i will not get pink eye let's get something clear bitch 1.00

00:42:10.900 okay naomi just dragged me so hard and i can't say what it was about but i will say this i meet so 0.88

00:42:22.760 many people all the time if i forget a name i'm so sorry if i forget your name by any means i'm so

00:42:30.020 literally so sorry but this is what i do you know what i do you know it's my trick when i forget names

00:42:34.880 because i said i remember faces but i have a hard time remembering names what i typically do is like

00:42:39.920 if i see them and i'm like we've definitely met before and i do not remember this person's name

00:42:44.300 and they are like i always introduce myself because i'm like i just like i drew by the way in case and

00:42:50.500 but if i know for a fact we've met then i just don't i don't introduce myself but i'll say like

00:42:55.580 because i would never come alone to those things i'll be like oh this is my mom by the way and you

00:43:01.020 fully did that and my mom will go my name's noelle and then they'll say their name and then i go got

00:43:06.180 it okay i remember now now i know that's better than being like i'm so sorry i forgot your name

00:43:11.400 i think i think that's better i i agree right 100 that way it doesn't make it awkward especially if

00:43:17.640 we spend a great deal of time like like five or ten minutes talking to each other like it's just

00:43:23.680 really hard so that's why i met noelle again yep listen when we saw each other at that event i

00:43:32.040 obviously knew your name yeah absolutely no she did she did this is about other people

00:43:38.000 anyways what's your like that's like probably one of the most embarrassing things about myself i feel

00:43:47.500 like okay i have other things too what's like one thing you wish you could change for me first of

00:43:53.520 all being late i'm late and i'm not on purpose but i like to attribute it to being brown because a lot

00:44:00.440 of my family members are late all the time yeah so i feel like that was a learned behavior i think it

00:44:05.920 was like i've heard that before like a lot of like families that are minority minorities yeah

00:44:10.260 it's like a late thing yeah like that's i described it once as like when you throw a party and then

00:44:15.900 you invite your friends and you tell them 12 you know they're gonna show up at 2 yeah you're just

00:44:20.440 like no but then your white friends come at 12 they literally show up at 12 and then you're like

00:44:26.220 you're so early and then they're like they're like you said 12 and then they help your mom set up the

00:44:30.460 tables yeah i feel that while you shower and put your makeup on and get ready like that's happened

00:44:35.760 in an hour why are you here that's happened to me so many times hi jenna what's something like

00:44:43.180 that that you wish you could change oh my goodness um nothing you're so perfect i'm just

00:44:50.500 so petite and fancy um no honestly if there was one thing that i could fix probably that's like 0.98

00:44:59.900 embarrassing is the fact that i have to shit every 10 minutes like i'm not even kidding i have the 0.97

00:45:07.360 worst ibs and i'm real i'm really real about it like if you follow me like that's the realest 0.99

00:45:10.980 ibs and i'm lactose intolerant me too so it's like double whammy like i can't even damn you 0.57

00:45:17.180 fighting demons all the time every day are you just someone who ignores it though like i simply

00:45:21.180 choose to not be lactose for that day no so i have a routine where i'll only eat dairy when i know i'm

00:45:26.980 home like when i know that i can get a spot in the sketch if not i really am can i have a salad

00:45:32.240 because i know not caesar though the way like okay so i'm severely lactose intolerant too i think

00:45:40.020 it caught up with me as i got older because i to my knowledge i never really had that when i was

00:45:44.940 younger but maybe i didn't i just got used to shitting myself all the time but then like

00:45:48.900 but then when i got older i was like i think something's wrong with me and then my sister was

00:45:56.300 like i think you're just allergic to dairy dude because my dad is severely lactose intolerant right

00:46:00.880 but he eats cheese and ice cream and all this stuff all the time so i was like oh well maybe he's

00:46:05.740 just not and i'm almost like in one bathroom huh do you guys have more than one bathroom yeah in my

00:46:10.240 house growing up yeah can't relate so you know it's horrible with a household full of the way you

00:46:15.540 have to like punch a card almost you like fill out a whiteboard like this is 10 minutes is for me

00:46:20.000 this is my slot i literally reserved it yesterday yeah yeah i mean 0.97

00:46:25.280 the way lactose intolerant like when you're about to shit yourself it feels like the world is ending 0.89

00:46:32.220 i like it's caving around you i just say a little prayer i'm not religious but in those moments 0.92

00:46:38.540 we've actually you know it's funny like some of my very first episodes for this show i talked about

00:46:46.120 shitting myself oh like because of lactose intolerance but i was talking about how like 0.77

00:46:50.260 it like hurts and it's so terrible to the point where you have to get like almost completely nude 0.94

00:46:56.300 when you're going to the bathroom that's how you know it's bad when you're sweating through your clothes

00:47:00.080 people can't even look at you can't even look at your phone because you're just fighting for your life

00:47:05.600 sitting on the toilet i put it down i have this little shelf put my phone down

00:47:10.120 the way you're like curled up like have you seen have you seen the this is a bad comparison but it's

00:47:23.240 the only thing i can think of like the last harry potter film when harry when have you seen them yes

00:47:28.620 you know when harry dies and then he goes to like heaven and he's like walking around and he meets

00:47:32.740 dumbledore right you know when he looks under the bench and then you see voldemort and he's like

00:47:36.700 curled up that's literally how it feels i like how that's the only comparison i was thinking about

00:47:44.080 white chicks when she was like yeah that's like a literal representation i'm saying what it feels 1.00

00:47:49.660 like like voldemort dead got it like him curled up bloody beaten to a pulp like just like take me now

00:47:57.120 i don't want to be here anymore right that's how it feels i i would imagine that's how that little

00:48:02.820 voldemort felt in that moment that's what i picture that was a vivid picture that's me being

00:48:10.060 an empath you know okay i felt i felt you grip on that you grip you grip onto your shelf yeah i

00:48:17.440 really feel better it it makes me feel yeah the way it's like it's just such a chore being lactose

00:48:24.140 intolerant is such a chore i'm gonna talk about a shackle a cross that i bear is that it's a lot

00:48:29.500 that's probably the one thing i would change because i also love to eat i feel that so yeah

00:48:34.600 lactose intolerance really sneaks up on you so it's mine is so like hit or miss like right but

00:48:39.340 if it's something with heavy cream i know for a fact it's gonna hurt me physically so i'm like i

00:48:44.520 simply i'll either make the deal with the devil or i'll be like i'm avoiding it altogether right

00:48:49.680 like it really depends will never understand the pain of like being in fifth grade and everyone

00:48:55.400 enjoying that pizza party and you're right there with the celery stick going to mcdonald's everyone's

00:49:01.640 getting a f***ing ice cream cone and you can't you simply cannot and you have a water bottle or you 0.87

00:49:06.580 do and then you just pay the piper you know what i mean when he comes to collect he comes to collect 0.99

00:49:12.540 bitch hello literally the way she and she takes it by force that's for sure okay this last comment 1.00

00:49:21.400 on this video says uh all these women can never have the same confidence without their makeup 1.00

00:49:27.400 he wrote without their little makeup box pack what the hell is that we need to ask whatever the

00:49:36.740 hell that means what is that little makeup box pack i have a makeup kit but like is that what they're

00:49:43.520 talking about i assume so i just i don't know how you have the strength to get like wake up and be

00:49:50.240 like these girls would never have confidence without their little makeup box pack like babe 1.00

00:49:57.600 oh these women would never have this confidence i you know with or without makeup i know that i'm a 0.96

00:50:05.760 bad bitch same period like it's at the end of the day if you know you are that's all that matters 1.00

00:50:11.740 and it goes back to what we started off with the conversation they hate to see that they really do 0.99

00:50:17.340 and it's like we don't say nothing about your nine in one head and shoulders it gives you so much

00:50:22.500 confidence yeah like we i don't you know i don't care if you feel good about yourself that's what

00:50:29.420 matters yeah i mean like if you feel good about yourself i mean i wouldn't if i looked like you

00:50:35.340 but like not up to me you know what i mean i just think like i see you and i would also hate other 0.52

00:50:42.000 people that love themselves yeah if i were if i were them and i looked in the mirror and i had to

00:50:46.900 look at that every day turn to stone like medusa you know what i mean i like literally turn myself

00:50:52.800 to stone looking at myself i'd be mad at the world too yeah and i that's why i said i don't have a 0.87

00:50:58.820 problem with calling someone ugly who calls me ugly like if they think i they call me like a fat ugly 0.98

00:51:03.200 bitch or whatever and i tell them that they are like like truly they look you know like igor 0.99

00:51:09.300 you know like dr frank you used to call me that that as an empath you should have sensed that 0.94

00:51:14.540 that's not true about you though i know but back in the day why it wasn't true but were they jealous

00:51:22.460 because you never got eye infections i bet that's what it was not the eye infection 0.99

00:51:25.820 no they were jealous because they couldn't shit themselves i mean constipated assholes no but yeah 0.98

00:51:34.360 igor scary yes that's what i will also i just think like if you if you like the dudes that say 1.00

00:51:41.960 that shit and like mean it like they say they say the hateful things to the either whether it's these 0.96

00:51:46.620 people or you and i um i made a video once where i said like because i've never seen an attractive 0.99

00:51:52.040 drew supporter is like something that someone commented and i was like well on the flip

00:51:55.780 side of that i've never seen a hot dude who hates me ever ever ever and the way that so many dudes

00:52:02.820 like took that like took that clip and then they put like pictures of themselves where they truly

00:52:08.040 believe they look hot and you were like and i see it and i'm like you prove my point you prove my

00:52:15.600 point yeah like you literally look like the characters in angry birds and you're gonna tell me that

00:52:20.080 you're cute i doubt it like i doubt listen i don't want to talk teams but like if it's a if it's a race

00:52:28.520 in the department of looks they're eating my dust every time right you know what i mean but i just think

00:52:33.660 like look at you look at you like be honest with yourself if i'm ugly then i don't know what the hell 0.93

00:52:40.300 you are you know what i'm saying uglier ugliest with the dot at the end but the key point i think that 0.94

00:52:49.680 we're trying to make is that it's like it's genuinely not up to anyone whether or not you're beautiful

00:52:55.360 no yeah it's not up to anyone but you yourself even people like you obviously your husband like my

00:53:01.380 boyfriend it's i don't feel beautiful because i'm with them oh not at all and i let him know every day

00:53:07.900 i'm like you this you are blessed every day blessed and highly favored yes every day you wake up next

00:53:15.620 to me you're every time you get a poupon to smash video you're blessed and he knows that same with

00:53:23.040 mine i'm sure that's why i really one last thing i'll say i really hate when other women are like 1.00

00:53:29.060 not just women because men don't typically say this to me but it's more so women they'll be like

00:53:33.780 oh you're so lucky like to be with him and i'm like he's lucky to be he's lucky to be with me but

00:53:40.680 that's not why they don't uh their love does not feed our like confidence at all like they love us

00:53:49.280 because we're confident right and that's what i like always try to tell people i'm like the right

00:53:54.120 person will not think that your confidence is a hindrance to them and they're gonna celebrate it

00:53:58.940 they're gonna love that part about you the most exactly that you know you're bad with or without

00:54:03.520 them babe and that's tea bitch it's the truth okay so as we wrap up this episode what do you want 1.00

00:54:11.840 people to know when it comes to confidence self-love any anything like that especially when it comes 0.90

00:54:17.940 in terms of like if they want to present themselves on social media or not like what's the best advice

00:54:22.980 you could give someone who's on that journey i think my best advice for anyone trying to get

00:54:28.560 into like social media or not even social media confidence why did i say that he says social media

00:54:33.700 my brain jumped um getting into that confidence is really just i always call it my three-step thing

00:54:40.440 it's acceptance it's the first step it's always accepting who you are yeah because it's like in this

00:54:46.080 world where everyone is the same like be different and accept that you know and then once you start to

00:54:52.180 accept who you are i always say it's all about that self-love now that you've accepted that you're

00:54:56.300 different in the eyes of society you really can love who you are and once you start to love yourself

00:55:02.120 that confidence comes out yeah and that's always what i say it's not a journey i mean it's not a quick

00:55:07.380 um fix right it's a journey and it's gonna be a tough one yeah because it's so hard out here

00:55:13.920 clearly yeah in the words of drew we have igors coming after us angry birds yeah um but as long

00:55:22.160 as you know who you are and you can accept that and love yourself like that really is the most

00:55:25.760 important thing period bitch couldn't have said it better myself i want to thank the wonderful naomi 0.99

00:55:31.400 for coming today i'm so excited to have you and i absolutely adore you you're literally the third

00:55:37.820 sister in my family so there you go so where can everybody find you um i do across all social media

00:55:45.440 that i use which is really just instagram and tiktok and youtube it's naomi hearts xl period

00:55:51.220 bitch make sure y'all go follow naomi immediately she's a wonderful creator and i'm so honored to 0.98

00:55:57.100 have had you today thank you so much for coming for those of you who want to watch full episodes of 0.92

00:56:01.820 the comment section show they drop every wednesday on the past your bedtime youtube channel and you can

00:56:06.840 also stream us on all streaming platforms spotify apple music amazon all that jazz you already know where to

00:56:12.320 find me bitch make sure y'all go follow naomi make sure you guys go subscribe to past your bedtime 1.00

00:56:16.600 and i'll see you next week bye 0.99

00:56:18.340 bye

00:56:19.200 you

The Comment Section with Drew Afualo - November 30, 2022

GYM BROS HAVE WORMS IN THEIR BRAINS ｜ Drew Afualo ft. Naomi Hearts ｜ THE COMMENT SECTION EP 42

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