00:17:42.580And I was talking to my friend about it, too, because I was like, when I was talking to her about it, I was like, sometimes they just say things where I'm like, you guys haven't been normal for a very long time.
00:17:54.520Yeah, I was like, I think it's bad outside.
00:17:57.560At least that's what everyone tells me.
00:17:59.520That being said, please, Oscars, Globes, give us all.
00:36:41.040when you say yes i'm so glad someone's normal around here to someone who is probably like
00:36:47.240working out like and doing dance classes every hour well and also like genuinely small so like
00:36:53.900yes i think that's what i was trying to say and it's and it's okay if we say that because i'm not
00:36:58.120small that's what i mean i'm not commenting on someone like off the street you're medium you're
00:37:02.980fat you're small but i'm saying if someone's objectively like like i'm objectively bigger
00:37:08.500like me too so if somebody looked at me and said in a comment like yes like a normal body or
00:37:16.480whatever i get what they're saying but if it's a fit pop star yeah like what the hell are you
00:37:21.180fucking talking about that's what i mean that's what i'm trying to say i'm not commenting on her
00:37:24.600body no it's the idea behind like oh this is someone who's thicker yeah what the we need to0.60
00:37:31.720get clear real fucking fast on what the definition of thick i think that's what i mean i'm like that
00:37:35.800is really crazy to me well i even told one of my friends once i was on her show i was like0.61
00:37:40.280when men call me fat and ugly right like which is the only thing they'll ever say to me i'm like
00:37:45.120ugly lie outright lie fat depends on who you ask because to some people i'm big fat fatty
00:37:50.580to some people i'm like not fat not skinny just not fat to my family they're going you're losing0.53
00:37:56.300weight to my family my family's like you're annoying that's more important that's more
00:38:04.400important to discuss than the body but I'm also like a huge proponent of body neutrality I've
00:38:09.160said this for years where it's like I don't want to think I love how I look but I don't want to
00:38:14.020derive value or worth from my body I don't want to feel anything towards it negative or positive
00:38:18.820what I want to feel is grateful like that's how I want to feel towards my body grateful at any
00:38:22.780size whatever it does as long as it keeps me alive and healthy that's what I care about and
00:38:27.100that's what I'm working towards and it makes it fucking impossible when you have people online
00:38:31.280calling Addison Rae a fatty that's crazy that's crazy you're crazy and insane and you need to go1.00
00:38:36.800outside there is a a divergence in the women that follow me because there there are a lot of women0.99
00:38:41.020who love me which is a great thing but there is a specific subset of women who like they think that
00:38:47.140that kind of talking is like feminism and they think that's like support when like you need to1.00
00:38:53.880decolonize the mind in order to like actually support and feminism like for real yeah and so1.00
00:38:59.260they think when they see us like they think look how brave she is she doesn't give a fuck yeah and1.00
00:39:07.340really go on with your big ass yeah literally literally or i've also obviously like no one's0.77
00:39:16.280worse than men like men are insane and horrible and i can't even i don't even think about them0.83
00:39:20.340but there are really mean women comments yeah to me i agree about like looks and stuff or like if1.00
00:39:26.040i do a crazy late night appearance there's a lot of women that are like attacking and i'll go on1.00
00:39:31.740her page and i'm like this what is she her is like looking like she looks like she has a nice1.00
00:39:37.360family and yeah so you're like what is what is the matter with you it really is i think women0.85
00:39:42.800like that especially because i get that too like really really mean comments about my looks from
00:39:46.940women specifically i've gotten that many times too obviously like you said far and away it's
00:39:51.740always men yes the most but the one when it's women I've always said like that's the part that
00:39:56.660really upsets me because I think to myself like I'm fighting for you bitch like what the fuck like0.68
00:40:01.700oh you're gonna turn on me and I think now too especially it's because you and I are for real1.00
00:40:09.020about confidence like there there are a lot of women who are much smaller than us and look much0.94
00:40:13.980different than we do that are violently insecure no matter how far they go because this business0.76
00:40:19.340is just that awful you and i are for real about this shit like for real confident and i think0.71
00:40:24.060they can tell um especially when we're being ourselves and the way you are yourself because0.89
00:40:28.900i have to give you your flowers for a second like i and i'll be taking them and giving them right
00:40:33.040back to you i really do think that you are one of the most talented actors today i really genuinely
00:40:39.740believe that because you are not afraid like you are so brave like in the way that you actually
00:40:45.300really hitting me hard right now and i actually almost fell out of my chair i'm serious that
00:40:49.260means a lot coming from you it's very like i sing your praises everywhere i go but i have said this
00:40:55.080to many people i'm like you are changing the game like the way they even the way you walk carpets
00:40:59.740you are changing the game like you're you're putting fun back into the worst part of the job
00:41:05.900which is shit like that like i talked to someone recently who's an actress and she was like
00:41:09.620it sucks because like acting is my passion and my first love and that's 10 of the job
00:41:14.460And the other 90 is like what I describe as like running for mayor. So you're just constantly doing press tours. You're going and getting dressed up and being touted around and answering the same questions over and over again. But you go to carpets and you have like purpose and drive and you're being funny and silly and like you're injecting joy like back into these really stiff, archaic mediums.
00:41:38.400And I really want to tell you that because what you do on carpets, I can see it's like genuinely you are an actress like that is what you are.
00:41:45.500And what you do on those carpets is so fun and it's so like magnetic and it's incredible.
00:41:51.940And I have to tell you that because I really think you're making it easier for people to walk these carpets like you're making it easier for people to like digest the content to like feel like acting is fun and Hollywood is fun.
00:42:02.500And like people don't care so much about the like, I don't know, buttoned up nature of it, I guess.
00:42:07.620you're making it more accessible and it's a beautiful thing I actually am getting emotional
00:42:11.200because I that is literally what you're doing oh I'm serious because you are when you've interviewed
00:42:16.440me that you are like my safe place and I felt like not alone when I was with you I'm so glad
00:42:22.740and I feel like they're those events like I'm I'm truly like can be so grateful to be there
00:42:28.980with our like my dream was to be an actor so and I still feel kind of like funny saying that because
00:42:34.600like to saying like oh i'm an actor yeah but i feel like there are i'm not saying anything about
00:42:40.920a specific award show but they're at these hollywood events they do feel like there is an
00:42:46.720actual evil yeah because there's a lot of evil in our industry but there's also a lot of angels
00:42:51.620like yeah and so i feel as a gay god girl that like i can bring like some light and like joy
00:43:00.700absolutely like to what we have to go to or like for award shows it is fun to go to when it feels
00:43:06.660like i could feel lucky and also make fun of like being an actor the seriousness of it yeah like the
00:43:12.440absurdity of it because it is a very absurd job like just generally yeah and it could feel also
00:43:17.940like you are like at the capital in the hunger games and that you like i it's like is the answer
00:43:23.920not to go to anything that you're invited to like celebrating like your show or is it like to go and
00:43:30.540try to like be positive and be silly and like make people happy and also use your platform to
00:43:37.100say what's important what's going on yeah so I try to like do all of that there and I feel like
00:43:43.360that's what you do and so you make me so happy oh you're so sweet there are evil people around us
00:43:49.600no that is true and that's that's why like even like the actor awards is a perfect example like
00:43:53.660you're you and Paul Downs when you guys did your presentation and you were joking about Hamnet and
00:43:57.960everything like I literally first of all like I told you laugh my ass off obviously but also like
00:44:03.960you are brave like you are brave and courageous and it takes a lot of courage to not just like
00:44:09.560be be yourself in a way that's like authentic to you like you your humor is so authentic to who you
00:44:15.500are and so that's what you depict when you're doing like bits like that but you're also like
00:44:20.480making it just like I don't know tolerable like that those energies can be so they can be so
00:44:25.980intolerable and boring right and stuffy and also very like when I say archaic I mean to like the
00:44:31.960frameworks are so like stacked against so many different marginalized people and you come in0.87
00:44:37.920and you just upset the entire thing and turn it on its head and I think it's genius I think you're
00:44:43.620a genius and I think you're amazing and then people need to give you way more credit because
00:44:48.200I think sometimes people think the silliness of the bits that you do sometimes at carpets is like
00:44:52.520oh this girl just like does whatever but you're very specific about how you do it and the way
00:44:58.300you do it and I can tell because I'm smart you get me and I get and yeah and I do it's true your
00:45:05.180humor is smart it's very very high level it's not it's I saw someone already comment when I was
00:45:11.640saying like I said like for people that don't get my stuff I feel like you do have to be really
00:45:17.280smart to be able to joke like this and I wasn't meaning it in a mean way because like I didn't
00:45:22.080feel very smart in school at all so like i'm allowed to say that i feel smart now right and
00:45:26.500people were like oh gosh like oh she's like this pretentious person saying that we just don't get
00:45:31.600in she's so smart and i'm like no i'm just saying i'm smart in a certain way because you guys are
00:45:36.340smart in in different ways so like when you're a mathematician if they don't get me then they're
00:45:40.880smart in other ways well and you're also talking about a very specific kind of person who's
00:45:44.620critiquing the way that you act and the way that you perform your bits like right i'm not just
00:45:51.080saying like if you don't get it i'm saying if you're being mean to me yeah i'm saying then then
00:45:54.760then you don't get it but i i'm smarter than you think yeah it's true and that's why i'm giving you
00:46:00.060all the credit in the world for that for especially for your bits dude like i i'm not kidding every1.00
00:46:05.060time i'm like this bitch is a genius like every time you're so smart and so naturally funny that0.99
00:46:11.800you like we get each other's sense of humor i agree and i don't i really appreciate you saying0.99
00:46:17.200that and I don't feel like um like brave or anything but I feel like it try I'm trying to
00:46:23.420like take some of the power away of like celebrity because absolutely if you can make fun of it and
00:46:28.520you're kind of like an actor or whatever right and it's like take some of the power like doing
00:46:33.320a joke about like this huge movie that won like all the awards that was the like the most beautiful
00:46:39.400movie I've ever seen it like makes it like feel like they're just we're all people when you
00:46:45.880continue to enforce these weird like barriers of entry it closes doors for other people and that's
00:46:52.360and that's genuinely why I think you're a genius and also why I hate that rhetoric of like
00:46:57.680influencer shouldn't be here because for someone like myself which I've said before like and a lot
00:47:03.260of other people the internet was my way in like that I never would have been looked at because
00:47:07.840I don't look like Addison Rae so and I don't talk like her and I don't sound like her so
00:47:11.480the the constraints with which people are held to like these standards that we're fighting against
00:47:16.380like this prejudice and we were just talking about fat phobia for so long like and how it's
00:47:20.340still being weaponized against us even now as people with platforms and you as a celebrity
00:47:25.460and a successful actor like it's still happening even but that happened because of being online
00:47:30.300right like they saw me online making videos like right and i was performing for like 10 years doing
00:47:36.260stand up right exactly which nobody knows like nobody even begins to think about with you like
00:47:42.920that's why i'm saying like it's the same thing with me too in the sense of how sometimes people
00:47:47.060digest my content like they're very like oh i just like when she's mean to men and it's like it's my
00:47:53.060jokes and the jokes i tell are a lot more layered than just like this is my favorite thing that when
00:47:58.540women are like oh this is how you be mean to men they'll be like i bet it's small isn't it like0.99
00:48:02.840that's like the meanest thing they can think to say and i'm like obviously my jokes are a lot more0.99
00:48:07.160layered than that and there's a lot more like yeah because then like if your jokes were like
00:48:11.940just like it's small like anybody could do that that's like my point literally so smart and so
00:48:18.840you i feel like funny people are just really really smart i agree and that's why i've i've
00:48:24.200known that about you i've known you were smart because you're so funny my sister and i your
00:48:28.480humor is so aligned with me and my sister it's not even funny like I talked to my sister and I
00:48:35.220said this for months this was like a bit when I interviewed you at Pandora there was a part where
00:48:39.360I'm sorry I love Pandora I love Pandora I do I really do I love them they're amazing bracelets
00:48:44.280yeah I actually am wearing they actually sent me this charm bracelet I love Pandora I do and like
00:48:50.040when I was talking to you there you were like I used to be a gold girl but and then you look
00:48:53.980at the camera and you go get this one now i'm silver i laughed about that the whole way home
00:48:59.540we said now i'm silver for fucking months after that i still do it now and that's when we left0.77
00:49:05.840and i was like after you said it i was like i have to tell my sister that joke she's gonna laugh0.82
00:49:09.040interesting because like that is true about me you know what i mean but like as i was saying it
00:49:14.220i'm like i am still making fun of like the actor who's like saying something really like like
00:49:18.620really like interesting about themselves but i'm also like that also is true also when you said
00:49:50.220There are people that are like, what's going on?
00:49:53.240and then the people that get it feel like they're in on the joke right like i'm the only one being
00:49:57.200made fun of by myself i agree it's a it's a very it reminds me a lot of uh tim robinson
00:50:02.680yeah because his humor too is is very like specific like it's a very specific kind of humor0.86
00:50:08.960and that's how i feel about yours too it's it's so layered and it's so funny bitch you have me0.96
00:50:15.760giggling bitch that's literally that's why i said at the actor awards you and zach fox were my0.99
00:50:20.920favorite people and i literally kept saying when i asked you the question like what would you change0.99
00:50:25.600your actor name to and you said miss queen no i don't remember that but it does sound like something
00:50:31.100i said miss queen is so crazy imagine that oh my god well the funny thing and this isn't against
00:50:38.460any male comedians because i love nathan fielder i love tim robinson like yeah i i'm their biggest
00:50:45.540fan yeah but people do let like men be more like crazy and awkward crazy no you're right and they're
00:50:52.760like he's a genius like he went and he's a pilot now i'm like if i went and i became a pilot like
00:50:59.180people would have me arrested like and i i just people don't let women be funny be crazy weird0.51
00:51:08.520or like silly it's like if i'm doing that on late night it's like she's crazy lock her up who the0.72
00:51:14.160hell is this but then if a male comedian did that that was like maybe like the same amount of known
00:51:19.920yeah i everybody would get it yeah and everyone would be like this guy's hilarious he's a genius
00:51:25.040he's so hot i know so sexy oh i want the awkward guy because i think also people assume men are
00:51:31.920really smart yeah so it's like if they're doing something awkward it's obviously on purpose it's
00:51:35.840obviously planned like it's so andy kaufman it's you're so right because i made a joke and i talk
00:51:42.600about this with caleb often offline but like i made a joke with britney when she came on my show
00:51:47.140i was like glinda um and she asked me my opinion on ghouls and i said like just like generally
00:51:52.200ghouls and she said yeah and then i said well if they came here legally i wouldn't care like and
00:51:57.880then we that was the joke and we like laughed and we were like riffing about that like pretending
00:52:02.400they're like you know like illegal um like illegally entering the u.s whatever and so we're
00:52:07.660joke and the amount of comments i got that were like did you get this joke from caleb oh saying
00:52:14.960that you does he have a ghoul joke if he does i haven't heard it does he have a ghoul joke probably
00:52:20.920i might oh they just were like sounds like something caleb would say no they literally
00:52:24.300thought i took that joke from caleb i don't know if it was specifically about ghouls i don't know
00:52:28.260if they just mean like doing a parallel oh like uh like uh oh only if they're illegal yeah like
00:52:33.600the wittiness of it but also they know that you're friends right and i think that's why they think i
00:52:38.560just like take his funny like like in snow people just yeah yeah they just constantly think that
00:52:44.460when i'm funny like generally and it's not about men then they're like oh but all three of you're
00:52:49.480the funniest people like so you're also different and you also like are so funny together well i
00:52:55.040would never assume that you or caleb took from each other yeah and that would be insane people
00:52:59.960like worship men though right exactly that's my point and i and i made a video about it too because0.85
00:53:04.040i was like if you guys haven't found out i'm funny by now like then fucking keep it to yourself i0.85
00:53:07.940don't want to hear it i don't i really don't um crediting my jokes that i say off the dome0.93
00:53:12.740to someone who's not even here it's fucking insane it would be so much more work to copy0.90
00:53:18.800a really close friend who you're on the same podcast all the time together like each other's0.77
00:53:23.340podcast that'd be really hard copying his joke into a riff with another friend that he knows0.96
00:53:29.560Yeah, that's why I'm saying, like, it's a very dumb ass bitch thing to ask me because they just can't believe that I can come up with a joke that quickly and that funny.0.90
00:53:40.620Also, if he says something similar, maybe you guys joke, like, because you're friends and maybe he took it from you.1.00
01:34:34.980They wanted someone chubby that people can call fat online, but someone not so chubby that they wouldn't, that they had to get the pants too, too big.0.99