The Comment Section with Drew Afualo

00:00:00.000 people ask me all the time what did you do to get so tall and i have so considered making up just

00:00:05.280 some random shit just to see what i could get men to do do it like oh yeah do it like that one where

00:00:10.520 you like hang by your ankles like a bat and you're like i just did that every day for like six months

00:00:15.300 and then just stretch i want to do something stupid like oh i drink like a bottle of mustard

00:00:20.280 today just to watch them do it hey everyone and welcome back to another episode of the comment

00:00:29.720 section show starring me your favorite everybody knows me who cares about me on to the guest today

00:00:35.260 is the one the only leo skeppi hello hello i'm so happy you're here i'm happy to be you've been

00:00:44.780 heavily requested i don't say that to everyone it sounds like i do but i don't you do say it to

00:00:48.820 everybody that's not true i tell them that like a lot of people have been asking but you like

00:00:54.900 genuinely especially recently a lot of people have been like you have to have leo you have to have leo

00:00:59.720 and i was like bitch we already talked about it it's in the works i was on a plane yeah as soon as

00:01:05.060 you messaged me i was like okay flight's booked here i come and here she is i'm honored she came

00:01:09.980 out here all the way for me yes i love that i'm so happy to have you thank you are you so happy to be

00:01:15.840 here leo's nervous i am i'm giving anxious if i look right it'll go away also don't worry about

00:01:23.020 it mind you say something yeah giving cherry tomato we get it we get it okay and what big

00:01:29.820 cherry tomato lower your voice leo is really tall leo says he's tall but he actually is he's six seven

00:01:37.580 easily a lot of people think that i'm short me too because of our attitudes they think i'm like five

00:01:42.580 eight girl there's a website that says i'm five four and men try to tell me how tall i am i'm like

00:01:48.780 bitch i'm not five four i promise you that i was five four when i was 10 years old were you a big

00:01:53.960 child i was uh like i was like decent size did you hit your growth spurt later yeah why like early

00:02:01.120 20s or like teens like teens oh like what's it called like freshman year of high school oh how tall

00:02:06.300 were you in high school like six three ish that's tall but i went from like five ten to like six three

00:02:12.260 over like the summer that's so funny that happened to me too oh my god us having the same parents

00:02:17.460 i literally when i was in seventh grade going into eighth grade i was like five four in seventh grade

00:02:25.020 like i hit five four when i was 10 and then i was that tall for like a couple years and then from

00:02:30.560 seven to eight like over a summer i went from five four to five eight and i came back and they were

00:02:36.580 like who the is feeding them yeah they're like sir get back to security what are you doing on the

00:02:43.780 campus jesus they were like pickups not till 2 30 ma'am and i'm like i go here too that's literally

00:02:52.320 like 12 12 13 yeah 13 when i had the growth spurt i tried to use it to my advantage i would try and

00:02:57.920 like go in the office and like my dumb ass to try to not like pretend to not be myself and i would

00:03:02.600 try and like check myself out what am i gonna do walk home you have glasses on you're like let me

00:03:08.020 go get leo's dad like superman you're like hello it literally worked a couple of times they would

00:03:14.360 like i'd put my phone number so i would ask them to like check me out and then i was okay i'm gonna

00:03:19.700 like whatever and i'd walk out and i would go to the bathroom so that when they'd call hello this is

00:03:23.900 dad like i would like i never did anything like that i was too afraid really i would go in my

00:03:31.500 house i was like the cousin or like the older brother oh yeah call my dad to confirm i'd be

00:03:36.280 like yes i see well i was also okay that's also kind of a lie i was obviously i was like my mom was

00:03:41.840 like you could do whatever you want just know i'm always gonna find out and i was like what kind of

00:03:46.380 mind game is that like when i went away to college from him goes you could do literally whatever you

00:03:50.980 want i'm just always gonna know and i was like and she did me thinking she's like stationed in

00:03:57.140 the tree somewhere i'm like girl what the literally one time when i was in college like my mom didn't

00:04:04.560 care if i like went out and stuff do as i say not as i do my mom never cared if i went out or anything

00:04:08.600 like that she just always wanted me to let her know when i got home like she's like just let me

00:04:12.540 know when you get home i'm like okay and so i like would text her you know how like when you're

00:04:16.700 going out like sometimes people want to go like three four places in one night i hated when my

00:04:21.380 friends did that because i was like now i gotta tell my mom again i'm leaving because she's gonna

00:04:24.760 think i'm going home and she's like what do you mean i thought you said you're going home so one

00:04:27.900 time i just told her when i left and i didn't tell her anything else and then i told her oh i'm by

00:04:32.260 by the way i got home she's like okay great and then the next morning she texted me and she goes

00:04:38.460 oh you went home and she sent me an uber thing like it literally tracked every place i went and

00:04:45.600 she found out because my mom's card was on there and i didn't know and i didn't have any money so

00:04:50.400 they tried to run my card declined they just went to the next card and it was my mom so she saw my

00:04:55.420 whole uber journey that night and she's like oh yeah you went home and i was like we'll see this is

00:05:02.240 what happened i got peer pressured i just started lying that's so smart but that's where you can catch

00:05:07.820 an ex or like someone you're dating doing some shady shit oh yeah go track go like check their

00:05:11.900 uber history where where were you going it's like venmo histories like you go and look and see

00:05:16.920 like what are you spending money on let's see who are you sending money to no but i'm literally like

00:05:21.500 you said you just got home but you got home three minutes ago so what the

00:05:24.980 are you a crazy partner i'm albanian okay then yeah you don't look at nobody but me

00:05:32.120 only eyes for me right that's fair at least you're honest

00:05:37.040 yeah i mean it comes out very quick

00:05:40.360 i made that joke once um because i made a tiktok a while ago

00:05:46.200 where i don't know if you remember this tiktok it was like two years ago and it was like that trend

00:05:51.860 where people were like sending their boyfriend pictures of like bikinis or something and they

00:05:57.540 were like do you like this and then the boyfriend would be like no and then she was like well you liked

00:06:01.740 it on her and they would send her a picture of like a famous hot girl wearing it i used to love

00:06:06.460 that yeah okay do you remember that okay so you know how most of them were fake or phony like they're

00:06:10.420 just being silly some of them were for real and so i was like i hope some of these are fake because

00:06:15.680 that's up like if you find out like your boyfriend's like oogling other titties that

00:06:21.420 aren't yours that's weird yeah sucks the way i am on social media is so paranoid to like the future

00:06:27.860 person i'm gonna date but to be in a relationship and be liking someone else's stuff is embarrassing

00:06:31.840 to who you're with that's what i'm saying you're making me look dumb that's what i'm liking joe

00:06:35.900 schmo's picture because he has abs okay hope it was worth a smack in the head well then i think like

00:06:41.480 what do you like about that picture you know what i'm saying titties yeah that's what i'm saying

00:06:45.620 like don't lie like it's not like they're like the scenery is just so don't lie to me and that's

00:06:50.900 why some women were like oh that's because you're insecure i'm like those are just boundaries of mine

00:06:55.440 you don't have to have the same ones doesn't make mine any less valid but if someone's looking at

00:07:00.460 like i've never met someone who did was so unbothered by something they felt the need to tell me

00:07:05.160 how unbothered they are right that doesn't bother me that doesn't bother me well what about like i'm

00:07:10.080 like okay in your relationship that bothers me in mine but i offer the same courtesy

00:07:15.420 like i don't do that either because it's weird and that makes me uncomfortable so i'm like he

00:07:20.580 doesn't believe it or not he's not oogling other bitches that are not me that's how it should be

00:07:24.920 a lot of people say a lot of shit that i do is like insecure and what what are we gonna do from

00:07:31.920 here okay it's insecure you can label it cool okay i'm still upset about it that's not gonna get how i

00:07:38.540 feel is how i feel you're so real for that it's not going away but like okay and what well then i think

00:07:43.540 like if you want me to be that girl i will that bothers me that makes me uncomfortable i don't

00:07:48.640 like when you do that so don't do it anymore and i said but believe it or not i didn't have to ask

00:07:53.260 my boyfriend to not do that he just doesn't do it the ones that get it just get it that's what i'm

00:07:58.180 saying like if you're so real like that's so true like okay and so don't date me then you know what i

00:08:06.400 mean like okay literally okay it's so like uh and but that's also it also falls in the umbrella of

00:08:13.580 what we're talking about which is like our topic for today is how to stand up for yourself

00:08:16.760 because boy we be doing that one thing about us we're gonna stand up for ourselves and others

00:08:22.600 no other choice you feel you give me the same similar vibes to me where you were like i always

00:08:28.480 call myself like a robin hood of bullies like i take the rich give to the poor you know what i'm saying

00:08:33.520 like i take i take from the greedy and i give it back to the people take from the overly inflated

00:08:39.540 sense of self people that have no give it to somebody else and i'm like i've done that my

00:08:44.480 whole life have you i don't know i just people bother me who act like that like that like entitled

00:08:50.880 sense of self and they like project it and take it out on those that they know it's like it's like

00:08:57.640 attacking someone you know would never swing you know what i mean right which i don't like i don't

00:09:02.180 like that at all i don't either and my biggest thing it's so funny to me like some people try

00:09:06.700 and come for me and comment and like leave hate yeah but they're over like their misplaced

00:09:11.700 confidence already eats them up yeah because like it's the that like looks so bad and like

00:09:18.560 sounds so stupid yeah that come for me and i'm like you just existing makes you look dumb

00:09:23.560 like go ahead you already got yourself good luck with that i just don't get like where does this

00:09:29.100 misplaced confidence come from because i used to be so insecure yeah and so scared of like

00:09:33.400 standing up for myself having a voice having an opinion i'm like how did y'all get it like where

00:09:37.920 can i buy this give me your receipt like where the hell well that's that's true t honestly because

00:09:44.200 it's it makes no sense so it's like i hate myself and i feel like you should too and it bothers me that

00:09:51.380 you don't hate yourself like i hate myself i was like that's a you problem take it over there

00:09:56.420 you know what i mean like i'm always like especially with men too because men are so

00:10:00.860 loud and so wrong all the time all the time bitch like where do you guys get that from like i don't

00:10:08.220 understand it's like um for example i've always said i've said multiple times on here how like when

00:10:14.220 they make fat jokes about me they'll say things like you know get her on the d-line or whatever and

00:10:19.900 i'm like defensive linemen in the nfl are in crazy good shape

00:10:25.960 are you calling me in shape or more capable than you like i don't understand

00:10:31.700 no it's a fat joke i'm like oh okay i'm glad you cleared it up i was so confused if you have to

00:10:37.060 clarify what the joke meant it didn't land and it doesn't hurt my feelings to say i'm more

00:10:43.700 i mean do you get a lot of gym hate or oh my god from gym bros so i'm like a wild card with what i

00:10:50.600 post on social media i'm known for my personality so i can do anything yeah and i've seen a lot of

00:10:54.960 people do these little mic'd ups in the gym where they go in and they like try to have a personality

00:10:58.400 yeah i'm like girl you have a six-pack shut up that's all you need yeah but they try to like

00:11:02.800 have a personality and they're not funny no i was like let me show y'all how to have a personality

00:11:07.120 in the gym and then might have been blowing up and they try to eat me alive yeah yeah the gym bro

00:11:13.380 community that's my favorite hornet's nest just kick every now and then i just go in there i

00:11:18.700 take a bat to that bitch hit it and then i'm like i'll be back in like three months don't get too

00:11:25.140 comfortable in here they hate me over there my favorite thing is the ones where i'm like

00:11:30.660 babe you're on steroids and you still look average you've already collected yourself no i don't have to

00:11:36.440 do shit sometimes i'll get hate i get hate from gym bros all the time especially when other

00:11:41.460 gym bros with like a platform of some kind like make videos about me i always know because i get

00:11:47.600 overrun with these mediocre regal cinema looking ass dudes like in my they're just like hey whale

00:11:54.700 hey whale hey fatty hey like over and over again cow hey cow who who let the whale on a set like it's

00:12:02.200 the most fifth grader and that's they're like 21 the way that their their grammar is so stunted

00:12:07.740 because they're stupid so i i literally like i'll i'll get like over like overwhelmed in one little

00:12:15.880 quick span with a bunch of hate i'm like all these dudes and like sometimes i'll just write

00:12:21.180 hey your progress is ass by the way because they document every step of the way like we give a

00:12:27.620 yeah and i literally go your progress sucks by the way you got a long road ahead of you

00:12:33.000 mediocre ass bitch and then they're like that's so your body shaming me and i'm just trying to

00:12:39.820 better myself okay grant cardone save it for your save it for the telly bitch i don't give a

00:12:45.080 i love to just like collect like i don't hit below the belt until you do but as soon as you do

00:12:50.540 i'm like people get so mad at me because they come at me unprovoked same and they try to insult me

00:12:58.040 but i insult them back just better and now i'm the bad guy same so be it i'm the bad guy then story

00:13:02.520 of my life oh my god that's literally uh the body shaming thing let's do it let's the great each other

00:13:09.240 i'm down for it you did it all of a sudden it's a problem when it's a problem when i do it it's not

00:13:14.640 a problem when he doesn't like i'm like okay what do you call it then like you were making mean

00:13:20.300 comments about my body and so i made a mean comment about yours well mine's genetics you're

00:13:26.320 just like when i was fat yeah when they were like oh well you can't change genetics i go maybe you

00:13:31.300 haven't tried hard enough have you tried praying god bitch like have you tried maybe put your back

00:13:39.240 into it i don't know i grew four inches in one summer so i don't know maybe you're not trying hard

00:13:44.180 enough people ask me all the time what did you do to get so tall and i have so considered making up

00:13:49.600 just some random shit you should just to see what i could get men to do do it like oh yeah do it like

00:13:54.620 that one where you like hang by your ankles like a bat and you're like i just did that every day for

00:13:58.560 like six months and then just stretch i want to do something stupid like oh i drink like a bottle

00:14:04.380 of mustard a day just to watch them do it just like two pinches of sauerkraut that's how to do it

00:14:10.860 like they'll talk shit and like they'll like dog me you don't even look that good you're not funny all

00:14:15.700 this crap i'm like okay cool i'm like but how do you get tall you have some bulky but at the same

00:14:19.800 time you do look you look pretty good um so any tips that's they do that's my boyfriend they'll do

00:14:29.220 the same thing to my boyfriend yeah they'll like tell him like yeah i like you know i hate your fat

00:14:35.760 bitch girlfriend like she sucks like truly like if i could i would kill her anyways i've been trying

00:14:41.560 to work on arms and i feel like i've hit a wall and i just really i want to grow my arms two more

00:14:46.740 inches any tips greatly appreciated anyways hate your girlfriend they'll write like shit like i'm

00:14:53.060 not kidding that's like a a daily like dm he'll get is literally that like they just don't have it

00:14:59.620 in them to like disrespect him because he looks like what they epitomize to be like i'm a real man

00:15:06.280 whatever that means to them yeah so they're like you look so good that's the thing is like oh like

00:15:12.840 they hit a wall with their progress hit that wall a little bit harder yeah go ahead just yeah knock

00:15:17.960 yourself out yeah that's your head on it you know i think it's uh they that's why i'm like your genetics

00:15:25.000 are like this one guy came on my instagram recently this is like a couple weeks ago and sometimes

00:15:31.720 sometimes i see him and i'm like i have time i'm gonna do it yeah why not and he like he wrote

00:15:38.900 some fat shaming comment it wasn't even worth remembering because it's the same shit every

00:15:42.600 time and then i was like are you handing out tips like fitness tips you're handing them out to me

00:15:49.300 i can see what you look like like you posted lots of shirtless pics i can see if i were to seek

00:15:55.500 counsel i wouldn't ask you that's for sure that's for sure i was like you have no titties like that

00:16:01.240 shit is concave babe i'm not taking advice from you like god if i blow a little too hard on your

00:16:07.280 forehead you'll fly across the room i'm not doing that no and he was like oh i'm he said if we

00:16:14.380 wrestled i would win wrestle i said oh i said word can you run in a straight line without looking goofy

00:16:22.240 or i don't know genetics aren't leaning towards that oh no that's that's the thing when people

00:16:29.120 try to give me advice i'm like if you do not look better than me keep your mouth shut i'm not

00:16:34.320 listening yeah clearly it ain't working no but like that's the biggest thing with like his little

00:16:39.220 fitness bros is people are like these most little college boys sorry i don't mean to like size shame

00:16:44.260 but here i go they're like five eight with a bad attitude yeah they're like five eight and to put on

00:16:49.080 muscle and to look better at five eight you could do three push-ups and you're swole i'm six seven i'm

00:16:54.620 a lot to take like i have a lot to build out yeah that's so like yeah y'all are growing real fast

00:16:59.620 yeah you're this big your only direction to go is out i have to go my boyfriend's talked about that

00:17:05.920 before too because obviously my boyfriend was a trainer is for a long time and still is uh but he

00:17:11.120 talks about because he has like massive arms like his arms are huge no matter how big or small he gets

00:17:16.840 they will always be big lucky so sometimes people are like how do i get my arms to look like yours

00:17:22.720 like in the gym like it's not hating women yeah try it don't be an awful little shit try it i don't know

00:17:28.060 talk to your mom once a week i don't know and he like he literally like he tells them your arms are

00:17:33.400 never gonna look like mine like genetically your arms are never gonna look like mine that's just one

00:17:37.740 reason and sometimes they take it personally and he's like i'm not trying to be a dick i'm telling you

00:17:42.120 like genetically i could never do a push-up again and my arms will still look like this

00:17:46.200 it's genetics it's like a big part of it i hate that i'm not god's favorite like that

00:17:50.660 i got height but i'm so like at least you got height though

00:17:54.980 plenty of it yeah and you're not just like on the tall side like you're tall bitch like actually

00:18:04.100 i grew my style me too but that's like uh i think like such a it's such a dub for you especially

00:18:14.160 because you're like and like even if they try to give you tips on fit you're like okay you can't

00:18:20.980 grow though can you right yeah peaked at 14 that's a bummer that's a bummer when i was 14 uh i like

00:18:28.600 tore my acl so my doctor like i got like mris and x-rays and shit done and like my doctor was like

00:18:35.080 oh your growth plates are like close mind you i'm like five eight so he's like you're pretty much done

00:18:40.340 growing five eight at 14 i'm like okay perfect i don't want to be tall anymore because i i hated

00:18:47.140 being tall growing up i don't care anymore i love how tall i am now but i was younger i was like i'm

00:18:51.840 waiting for these bitches to catch up to me so like if you guys can make me not look like a faculty

00:18:55.520 member that'd be great i don't want to be so big anymore and so they're like okay bitch i'm six

00:19:00.800 feet now what a liar that doctor is i kept growing like nine ten yeah four more inches they told me

00:19:07.320 my growth plates and my feet stopped growing because i was like a size 13 and 8th grade shoes like my feet

00:19:13.160 were always just big and i would use them to stunt something to say but my growth plate now 16 god damn

00:19:21.300 bitch big ass foot so i had like i think i was a size like 14 they're like yeah your feet like your

00:19:28.540 growth plates are closed your feet are not getting any bigger two whole sizes what a lie you know how

00:19:34.460 expensive it is to buy my size shoes yeah because my boyfriend's a 13 and my dad's a 14 so i would kill

00:19:41.880 to be just a 14 i would have so many cute shoes my dad it's so funny too because like if i go shopping

00:19:47.060 for my dad for shoes especially i have to order them online but if i have to go in the in the store

00:19:52.720 i literally just approach an associate and i'm like what shoes do you have that are a 14 or bigger

00:19:58.120 that are not basketball shoes because he doesn't always want to look at those but they always have

00:20:02.500 those i'm like 15 16 and then they're like oh none i'm like all right never mind literally like people

00:20:09.400 don't understand the luxury of like being able to go into a store and buy something i haven't been

00:20:13.500 able to shop in store for shoes since i'm like 14 yeah like i miss it i know i was um buying a

00:20:21.460 valentine's gift from my boyfriend the other day um and i was like in the store and the lady was like

00:20:27.600 trying to help me and she's like oh did you think about maybe shoes and then i go um no not really

00:20:34.240 because it's like a fancy store and she was like what was it i was in ysl oh yeah so i was like looking

00:20:40.620 got stuff and then i was like no not really and then she was like well we have lots of great like

00:20:46.700 she was really trying to sell me on a shoe because like i didn't like what i have that size there

00:20:50.580 yeah well i asked her i said well my boyfriend's got a big foot and then she was like what size and

00:20:55.940 i go 13 she goes oh my god yeah no we don't have those that's exactly what she said to me

00:21:01.520 like that big yeah i see this is like you'll relate to this probably more than anyone i've ever

00:21:08.840 met that wasn't like someone but like big dudes like the idea of being big to us is skewed like

00:21:16.980 skewed entirely like my idea of big like you're a tall guy but if any average person saw you they'd

00:21:22.020 be like he's huge to me you're like normal size because you're as tall as my dad don't call me

00:21:26.540 short you're not sure we will have our first fight you're nor it's normal to me like like being

00:21:32.580 tall or being large is like normalized to us because we're big people naturally but to some

00:21:39.200 people like when i was in new york bitch bitch i was in new york last week and there was a guy in

00:21:44.100 our hotel and i think he was just like an off like he was like a desk guy but he's also helping at the

00:21:48.140 front door he was seven foot three in a suit bitch working a normal job i say get that man in

00:21:55.720 the paint like where why is that guy not at the nba all-star game oh no he was so i it was like

00:22:01.960 comical to me because and i hate as a tall bitch i hate when people are like how tall are you

00:22:05.740 right but i like couldn't help it because he was so tall it looked like someone was in stilts

00:22:10.100 in his suit like controlling him and i was like do you mind me asking how tall you are

00:22:15.700 because when he got in the elevator he literally had to go like he was saying like no me in the

00:22:19.680 airplane trying to pee literally and that's why i was like he was saying like this he goes oh i'm

00:22:26.080 seven foot three i'm a i'm just a little guy and i was like oh my god it was crazy so you're you're

00:22:33.280 also tall something that people say to me all the time that i don't know how to respond to they just

00:22:38.520 walk up to me they're like you're tall all the time okay you know what they say it's not a

00:22:44.460 compliment or it's not an insult so i don't say thank you i'm like okay it's kind of like bird

00:22:48.500 watching they're like that's an eagle and you're like word cool okay so let's get into these videos

00:22:55.420 we're talking about obviously standing up for yourself so i never see people ever drink the

00:23:01.900 drinks on shows so i'll do it oh yeah like when people are on ellen and shit i'm like they never

00:23:05.920 drink anything i'm like what's in it sometimes they put alcohol in those i bet okay so in this

00:23:11.560 video for those of you who don't know here on the comment section what we like to do is bring

00:23:14.100 videos i was tagged in we bring them here and then we laugh we kiki do all the fun things so

00:23:19.600 excuse me oh my gosh i just burped into the mic i'm so sorry ramel okay in this video uh a woman

00:23:26.820 is explaining that she has a really big heart and tends to expect that people will do exactly for her

00:23:30.960 what she would do for them but they don't so she has to protect herself by creating boundaries and

00:23:36.540 being a bitch sometimes to stand up for herself right oh here we go and so the comments i mean from

00:23:44.320 men were not good like this first one says crazy bullshit arrogant piece of shit unreliable insane

00:23:52.000 mannerless tribal question mark tribal does she have a tattoo no was it just descriptive factors

00:24:02.820 she's just saying words hair yeah eyes no lipstick i think he's just saying she's arrogant and

00:24:09.960 unreliable if she like lets doesn't let people cross her boundaries and she stands up for herself

00:24:14.800 that's where i always say to people you have to analyze and assess who's making these claims

00:24:19.500 is what they're saying even accurate and you have to check who's making the judgment like yeah is your

00:24:25.460 judgment flawed yes he's saying she's unreliable how are you gonna say someone's unreliable has she let

00:24:30.960 you down has she hurt your little feelings like personal you don't know her yeah like at all invalid

00:24:36.100 wipe that out that's how i deal with hate i assess it yeah i i feel that too because sometimes i'll have

00:24:40.940 men make videos about me and they're like oh she's just a bad person and i'm like you don't even know

00:24:45.700 me like you watched two 90 second videos that i made about a shitbag dude like what about that means

00:24:53.320 that you've assessed every single part of my personality you know what i'm saying like yeah and i always

00:24:58.820 think like it's that's like that caveman mentality like i attribute that to an underdeveloped brain

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00:26:04.760 responsibly like it's very like me man me strong woman not strong woman strong to me woman bad

00:26:13.300 like it's literally like that's their thought process it doesn't go past that at all there's

00:26:18.120 never any logic or reasoning because even like the few times i've made serious videos in response to

00:26:24.260 like egregious claims made by other people that makes them more mad when you're collected and you

00:26:29.800 just like get them it's like well it turns out it doesn't work either does it because they're always

00:26:33.640 like have you ever tried just talking to them i'm like no i've been on this i've been on this earth

00:26:38.360 20 plus years and i've never once thought to like ask a man hey maybe don't be horrible like have you

00:26:45.440 ever thought about that have you ever tried being nice my goal is them yeah my goal is not to change

00:26:50.640 you it's to get you to shut the up like i it's not to change you i don't care what you do in your

00:26:57.060 own personal life i don't care at all like that's why when people are like oh how do you deal with hate

00:27:01.360 i'm like their livelihood does not affect me like they could be so happy or so sad and i don't care

00:27:09.040 either way at all like you literally mean nothing to me like your opinions like your own personhood

00:27:16.400 like your your life means zero to me you think your words mean something to me no come on please

00:27:22.320 look at the vessel the words are coming out of your vessel looking mad up

00:27:26.400 i'm not listening yeah i know i've seen that before too and they're like never take advice from

00:27:33.180 someone who doesn't have the life that you want exactly i say it all the same shit it's the exact

00:27:37.140 same thing like that person's not in a relationship you want they're not in the financial situation

00:27:41.380 that you want they're not in the house you want the car you want why are you listening to them it

00:27:45.800 doesn't mean anything it doesn't mean anything we can all sit here and just say words for hours

00:27:50.520 but it doesn't mean anything that's my point it just doesn't mean anything that's the thing is

00:27:55.140 like when they speak no one listens because they have nothing to stand on when we speak people are

00:27:59.380 like oh shit it's credible yeah that's true and that's why they're mad because they have nothing

00:28:02.760 to stand on yeah but all they have really is like this like almost like feigned like confidence it's

00:28:09.720 like not even real it's not rooted in anything real because if it was they wouldn't feel the need to

00:28:13.380 like lash out at people like us like it's like this phony confidence that they've been conditioned

00:28:19.180 that they naturally have by their environment whether it's like where did i miss this class i wish i had

00:28:24.960 that you know like some people are like oh if you grow up ugly that's why you're so funny me yeah

00:28:31.040 you like develop a personality because you didn't have everything handed to you it's the same thing

00:28:35.240 with men in a patriarchal world like people like hetero cisgendered heterosexual men who are awful

00:28:41.380 and have grown up in this world have been conditioned to believe just by nature they're better smarter

00:28:48.160 stronger faster than like everyone else which makes no sense like it i just can't imagine walking

00:28:55.380 around in that state of delusion like they want to talk to me like i'm delusional because i'm like

00:28:59.540 i think i'm good looking and they're like delusional bitch but that's why they have to try and like come

00:29:04.480 at me and you because they try and cancel me because i'm gay they cancel you because you're a woman and

00:29:07.720 you're strong and you're successful like they have this okay i'm up here and you can't touch it and then

00:29:15.220 you show up and it's like you're up here yeah and they're like oh shit what like they can't their

00:29:19.540 little beliefs can't handle it so they have to like discredit everything you are yeah so they feel

00:29:23.560 better about living at home and being a little shit well it's like someone it's like have you ever

00:29:28.200 gone like someone needs to you need to be humbled like i'll do it you need to be humbled and i'll do

00:29:33.580 it try and humble me okay you you go first and then i'll go second right let's humble each other

00:29:38.760 it'll be fun i love that i love that for us that's why i'm always like i don't like the words

00:29:45.720 that they say to me like i when people are like how do i deal with this like i get asked all the

00:29:49.480 time like how do i deal with hate like i get a lot of it or like when i do get it it like cripples me

00:29:54.120 like how do i get through it i literally don't know how to say it other than like i don't give a

00:30:00.580 shit like i don't care what some bitch named trevor has to say to me like i don't care i don't know

00:30:06.640 what to i don't know how to explain that like you're so worthless to me your name's brent you

00:30:11.700 have bigger problems you know i mean like i think the biggest thing with dealing with hate is seeing

00:30:16.580 like the person saying something yeah you're like people that are impacted by it you automatically

00:30:22.960 think that what they're saying is true yeah so someone like calling me ugly yeah i have eyes bitch

00:30:27.600 i can look in the mirror and disprove your claim just like that so like just look for ways to disprove

00:30:32.760 what people are saying it's true and like it's that simple i think that's why and i know you've

00:30:37.400 talked about this too like validating yourself and your own self-worth and self-confidence coming

00:30:43.420 from no one else is like i think a major key to dealing with that kind of hate because it won't

00:30:50.360 matter what people say to you if you know they're not telling the truth like you know it's not true

00:30:54.820 like when people tell me i'm ugly i'm like bitch come on literally i used to have to do this all the

00:30:59.540 time people would say you're ugly you're this you're that i would literally make myself walk

00:31:03.700 into the mirror like trying to rebuild my trust and my own judgment of myself i would go stand in

00:31:07.820 the mirror i love that i would literally look in the mirror and be like okay look at yourself

00:31:11.100 do you think you're ugly and if the answer was no they're just stupid that's the only answer that

00:31:18.520 matters right the only like judgment that matters like but if i looked in the mirror and i was like

00:31:22.660 okay i am a little ugly like i had to have that realization and then i started fixing myself and

00:31:27.440 looking better like you can switch things and whatever that and whatever that looks like to

00:31:30.820 you like everyone's and that's why i always say everyone's perception of beauty is different like

00:31:34.860 it like beauty is like subjective right so what's beautiful to one person may not be necessarily

00:31:40.920 beautiful to the next right so that's why the only opinion that matters is what i think about myself

00:31:46.420 and then obviously like if you're in a romantic relationship yeah obviously you want them to find you

00:31:51.040 attractive in some way too but like it wouldn't matter that's like a main reason why my boyfriend

00:31:56.300 loves me so much is because i love myself more than he ever could which is like a huge supporting

00:32:03.300 foundation in your relationship with each other yes it's like you loving yourself unconditionally and

00:32:08.320 more than anyone else could ever love you that includes finding yourself pretty or attractive or

00:32:13.340 whatever that's not to say you're gonna feel like that all the time but as long as the foundation's

00:32:17.560 there it won't get shaken right you know i don't know if you like the whole spirituality like

00:32:23.220 law of attraction type thing i love that all right let's talk i love so when i started switching the

00:32:27.980 way that i looked at myself and treating myself yeah like when i started to care about myself even

00:32:33.300 though i didn't at the beginning just go through the actions take self-loving actions yeah it's like

00:32:37.500 put it all in that yeah and then like the way i treated myself was i treated myself like i was

00:32:41.980 something that i cared about yeah and then i felt wow i feel like i care about myself and then i started

00:32:45.960 becoming a match to people who also cared about me yeah vibrationally if you want to talk all that

00:32:50.780 let's talk it yeah that's what happens like if you are sitting here and just being mad at yourself

00:32:55.020 and hating yourself you're a match to people who are going to treat you the exact same way

00:32:58.040 starts inside yeah it's a mirror well and that's why it's like that's why i think for especially

00:33:05.160 that's why sometimes women are like oh well clearly these men are like struggling and

00:33:10.980 that's why in silence yeah yeah other people are struggling and they don't do this shit you know

00:33:17.720 what i'm saying like you know how many people in the world have problems and they're not doing

00:33:22.220 this you know you want to know what i do when i struggle nothing be quiet so hard i do nothing so

00:33:30.020 hard i literally i'm like by myself i lay face down on the ground of my house and that's it

00:33:35.020 yeah girl damn girl what you going through like laying i'll call you and check on you later

00:33:40.380 i do be doing that face down face down ass up you're just trying to entice your boyfriend

00:33:47.380 he's like oh i'm sad

00:33:49.340 that's like i do want to say one thing about that girl's video because

00:33:55.360 him calling her a bitch she's talking about setting boundaries

00:33:58.700 you're not a bitch for having boundaries having boundaries does not make you a bitch

00:34:02.800 you are setting expectations for the experiences you want to have yeah literally that's it you're

00:34:07.100 setting standards for your experiences with boundaries that's it and like you're not a

00:34:10.020 bitch women are never allowed never with men allowed to set boundaries with men like that

00:34:15.620 like they take that as like some sort of disrespect when i'm very sensitive to disrespect that's a

00:34:21.280 whole different topic me too i know you know what's funny is like um i was just talking about

00:34:26.500 this with my boyfriend yesterday because we went to a restaurant and we had a waiter who was like

00:34:31.300 vibing a little uh a little too much what does that mean like he wanted to like talk he wanted

00:34:37.180 to talk to us like we were like homies like we're friends not like not like it's like a it

00:34:42.620 wasn't like a small talk thing because it was at first and then he started saying some shit that i was

00:34:48.000 like i feel like you think we're like an old white couple or something and this is the wrong

00:34:52.840 people to vibe with whatever it is you're about to say right i just sensed the vibes and i think

00:34:57.320 he did too and that's why he pulled back a little bit you know when they like lit it down just a

00:35:00.640 little too much and they're like oh right put it back up so he did that a little bit and i told my

00:35:05.460 boyfriend i was like i always know when men are because he's like you know when you meet someone

00:35:09.620 and you're like i would never be friends with that person in real life like like like if you interact

00:35:13.800 with them slightly like at the gym or like a place you frequent like if you go to a barber shop or

00:35:18.980 something like that and you're like i would never be friends with that guy he's like that's how i felt

00:35:22.360 about that waiter i was like same and i said and i always know when they um it was like an older white

00:35:29.140 dude and when they talk like they only talk to him they never look at me like you don't have to

00:35:35.980 like and you like you don't have to be like super emphatic with me yeah but like he his back was to

00:35:42.900 me like every single time and anytime i said something he would be like and he would like

00:35:47.380 only address like i would say something and he would only address him and i was like see i know what

00:35:53.160 that he comes up what do you want to drink okay and what does she want yeah yeah exactly like and

00:35:57.800 he was like can you believe like he was making these like old like like oh that's my old lady

00:36:03.280 like he was making jokes like that i'm like how old do you think we are like when they were looking

00:36:07.320 at us i was like dude and he just kept only addressing my boyfriend it's kind of like when i

00:36:12.560 get hit on if i get hit on in public and he's with me and i'm like this is my boyfriend they're like

00:36:17.520 oh sorry dude i didn't know like they apologize to him and not me and it's like oh okay

00:36:23.300 thank god you apologize to him that was so rude if you didn't like people that have the balls to do

00:36:30.460 that it's i am a gay dude but i don't look it and i don't act it yeah if i'm like comfortable with you

00:36:35.980 i'll sit sit up with you fine but like when people first meet me i am a chameleon with my sexuality

00:36:40.220 yeah but with girls if there is a girl that recognizes me from online or anything and their boyfriend is

00:36:46.640 with them i'm very polite respectful i don't hug i don't nothing i'll shake their hand if i see a

00:36:51.640 girl by herself oh my god hey we're like besties we hug yeah but i'm very sensitive and respectful

00:36:55.200 to the men yeah because i don't step on toes like that i don't like people to be like to walk up and

00:37:00.120 just hit on you with your boyfriend standing right there assault should be legal it's always it's always

00:37:06.000 wake up it's always when he's like away from me a little bit like he's like standing like

00:37:10.560 he's still this big he's right there i know it's a well that's why i said it's men who don't know me

00:37:15.220 now it's way different because they recognize him you begin to hit on like that girl yeah i love

00:37:20.820 that nobody hits on me no i've never been hit on bitch you're so like intimidating you're so

00:37:27.820 intimidating ugly no that's different we don't know about that that's a different talk

00:37:33.720 no um you're so intimidating that's what it is literally yeah that's why i think it's like you're

00:37:42.440 more of a you give a very like dominating personality energy so maybe they just think

00:37:48.300 that you're gonna do it if that's the thing you like to be chased if i like someone i'll hit on

00:37:54.740 them i'll just walk right up to you hello hi bitch what's what's your name because i like you

00:38:00.120 but i've never been like that not even when i was single no i would do that for my friends

00:38:06.520 i'm like a i'm a listen this sounds so lame and fake but i'm like such a good wingman for anyone

00:38:14.000 whoever you are find me a boyfriend whoever you're attracted to i got you bitch i can do it i was

00:38:19.720 always like that with friends i never did that for myself because i was like nah that's my thing is

00:38:24.700 i'm just unimpressed with everybody like i don't give a shit like no one's caught my interest like you

00:38:30.660 gotta be with it physically you gotta look cute right yeah and then you gotta be mentally with it

00:38:34.460 that's a task for me yeah even the gays the physical part's easy the mental part's hard

00:38:40.120 like it's so sad so i'm like find me a boyfriend please you see anybody out just hang out a big

00:38:46.020 i feel like they would like flock to you to be honest because you're so tall they avoid me

00:38:53.500 scared of you like i walk in a room it's like really i know my cologne i didn't fart like why

00:38:59.440 are y'all running away cologne's good it's not like i stink do you guys hate me are you guys mad at me

00:39:03.120 oh i don't get it that's the pisces in you tell me you love me everybody hit on me compliment me

00:39:08.140 please god please is that too much to ask i'm like walking in like dead face mean mug but like be

00:39:13.120 nice to me like what the hell i'm so contradictory that's why people don't get me online because i'm

00:39:19.480 very intense and strong and i'm very in touch with my sensitive side like i'm very sensitive

00:39:23.300 but i'll f*** your s*** up me too my feelings beginning to hurt

00:39:27.020 same but you don't gotta know that you'll never know you'll never know that literally me literally

00:39:34.700 me that's why we're the same person okay let's do this next video this one is this girl is lip

00:39:40.720 syncing a video with the first caption me being super nice kind and being known as the sweet girl

00:39:45.000 and then the second caption says but also having the ability to turn into a cold ruthless mean

00:39:50.760 bitch once you disrespect me one too many times

00:39:53.260 i got a lot to unpack yeah that's gonna send me on a tangent disrespect you one too many times

00:40:02.520 right one time is more than enough plenty you want to go first or me because i got a lot to say no you

00:40:10.140 go first oh god yeah the whole thing it's like the boundary thing again yeah oh where do we even

00:40:16.440 start with this oh okay the boundary thing yeah like when you're with someone and like she's like

00:40:25.780 you said it's disrespect multiple times yeah if you've been disrespected over and over again

00:40:29.780 yeah that's like a loud behavior yeah if you don't stand up for yourself they just think that's normal

00:40:35.580 all of a sudden you want to stand up and put a boundary up yeah you're gonna that boundary is now

00:40:39.840 gonna force them to change their behavior yeah they're gonna look at you like a bitch

00:40:43.180 yeah because now all of a sudden i have to change how i treat you to be in your life

00:40:46.620 yeah that's annoying like you need to be up front the first time there's disrespect lay that law like

00:40:51.820 lay it down yeah i feel like a lot of times when especially with um because i get questions about

00:40:57.460 dating and stuff like you know women or femmes who want to date men and they're like oh like how do i

00:41:03.940 spot like how do i know if this guy's like good or how do i know because you know some of them have

00:41:09.180 mastered the art of lying so they're like blend too easily some of them are getting too smart i'm

00:41:14.400 too good on it hip to the game but like i can smell that shit from a mile away and i've told them i'm

00:41:20.900 like i feel like a lot of times in the in the preliminary stages of dating like it's talking

00:41:26.100 there are red flags like there are very very prominent signs where you're like i don't like that

00:41:34.260 and if you don't like it leave like immediately don't be like well maybe maybe he meant this or

00:41:41.240 maybe believe him the first time however he acts believe it literally it's like that feeling when

00:41:46.900 someone says something and you get that feeling of just like oh like it just didn't sit right yeah

00:41:51.600 don't write it off like pay attention to that like trust your gut visit it later go journal about it

00:41:56.120 bitch go do something later about it but just keep note of like that feeling in your stomach or like

00:42:00.100 the chest where it's like oh yeah that was off yeah don't skate past it i didn't like that that's

00:42:05.340 the shit that's gonna like spiral and that's why you're gonna leave him yeah when it comes to

00:42:09.760 it like women and femmes in this world especially they like a lot of times they really really really

00:42:17.120 want to do like like they want to see the best in people which is not necessarily a bad thing

00:42:22.340 but i feel like it's manipulated too often now and it's like we're conditioned to like forgive

00:42:28.900 and overlook and be like well and like just constantly hold space for other people like

00:42:35.440 well i don't know because like maybe they didn't mean it or well maybe they were having a bad day or

00:42:39.660 well and sometimes i think like or maybe they're just terrible maybe they're a bad person like maybe

00:42:45.100 they're mean maybe they're rude maybe they're disrespectful maybe they're bigot who knows right

00:42:49.260 but you don't know him any greater and you don't owe him anything because like i've talked about

00:42:54.960 ghosting before and i'm like i love it i'm cool with it because if you ghost me i'm gonna make up

00:43:00.440 a lie i'm gonna gaslight myself i'm gonna be like oh he's probably dead but if i ghost you i don't

00:43:06.400 know you anything i don't even know you what's my last name you don't even know bye that's how i saw

00:43:12.240 ghosting when i was dating i'm like who gives a shit we don't know each other who cares i love that

00:43:16.360 i think that's a really healthy way to approach dating otherwise you're just ghost everybody

00:43:21.220 no i mean like to never take it serious like oh yeah oh yeah to take a ghost serious like and i mean

00:43:27.880 like when you're just talking because sometimes people will be like well i was talking i was

00:43:31.320 dating him for like six months that's different i'm talking when you're just talking like casually

00:43:36.080 and then you just stop talking to him forever who cares like you said like you're taught to see

00:43:41.880 the good in people yeah but like you want to see the good great yeah but at the same time you don't

00:43:48.660 want don't discount someone's good qualities don't not look at the good things look at all the good

00:43:52.780 things yeah but keep your eyes open and stop being a blind bitch to all the bad things too yeah that's

00:43:57.280 true hold space for both yeah that's because you're gonna blow them up in your mind of all these good

00:44:01.360 things oh my god i love him girl you've known him a week yeah pay attention to all the red flags

00:44:06.840 yeah all the weird shit and you won't like them as much you won't be so like caught up in

00:44:10.300 situationships yeah well because then there's some things yeah i know because i've been asked

00:44:15.140 about situations hey girl cool it you're okay they're not for me no to be honest like if you

00:44:19.440 love me tell me right now i want you to tell me right now i just like don't i doesn't lend favorably

00:44:26.500 towards my own personality like i don't like situation i want to know for real what we're doing

00:44:32.920 like be very clear that's this is what i want to do what do you want to do i'm busy i have shit to do

00:44:38.340 yeah literally like lay your offer out on the table i've been doing too much business

00:44:42.800 put yourself on the table and i'll choose if i want it or not done literally done i think it's

00:44:48.580 fair that way i think it's more and then like i think sometimes people are really really up front

00:44:52.440 about what they want and then sometimes we like maybe not like you know like 500 days of summer

00:44:59.800 the movie have you ever seen the movie i don't have a tv i haven't seen like most movies you haven't

00:45:05.720 had a tv in the last 10 years that movie came out a long time i haven't watched tv in like

00:45:09.180 okay well you should watch it's a great movie okay but in the movie the there's a girl and a boy

00:45:15.160 right and they're like they meet at like work or something and the girl is very up front i don't

00:45:20.960 want a relationship very up front those are the bitches that do though yeah well he and he does well

00:45:26.220 she doesn't because she doesn't take him seriously so she just wants to around and have a good time and

00:45:30.700 he's like i love good times but in his head he's like i love her i literally love her i'm in love

00:45:35.440 with her and then they go through this whole like tumultuous relationship of like her like you know

00:45:40.740 staying with him them dating going on dates her not talking to him for a few days because she's

00:45:44.880 casually dating and she's being honest with him about it and then at the end he like demonizes her

00:45:51.080 a little bit and he's like you're so awful like you broke my heart like blah blah blah and she's like

00:45:56.000 i told you what i wanted you know what i mean like she it was never that serious to her but he

00:46:00.740 took everything that serious because he didn't believe her when she told him so it's one of those

00:46:05.500 things where even the guy the guy in the movie is joseph gordon levitt and someone's like oh i'll

00:46:10.340 never forgive like her name was summer and so he's like i'll never forgive her for hurting you in that

00:46:14.500 movie and then he literally said like five six years after it came out he was like re-watch it because

00:46:19.880 he's actually the villain in that movie yeah because when i first came out they were like what a bitch

00:46:23.920 write about her but then he's like re-watch it that's why i loved this movie because it for once

00:46:29.420 it's like showing the man pining after her and her being like i don't want that i want something cash

00:46:34.760 right yes but he's it's literally his fault he got hurt a lot yeah exactly people write to me all the

00:46:40.340 time about situations like this yeah and like well girls would be like i don't like this guy like my

00:46:45.620 best friend like wants to date me but i don't like him like that i told him that you laid down the line

00:46:50.060 yeah if he wanted to cross it and he gets his feelings hurt fine if he wants to try and shame

00:46:54.180 you and call you a bitch kick rocks yeah literally fall down and that's happened to me before too

00:46:59.020 where like you did nothing wrong like you told him i and like i've been very clear that i don't see

00:47:04.720 you that way like i don't i don't like you that way we can be brothers in christ and that's as far as

00:47:10.440 it goes bitch like that's it like my brother that's how i see you you know what i'm saying

00:47:15.460 but then like sometimes they don't believe you like they're like oh i can change her yeah i can

00:47:20.480 make her love me yeah i could make her well if you gave me maybe if you gave me a chance i don't

00:47:24.400 want to misplace confidence that's why exactly and then it's the whole oh bitches only want like

00:47:29.140 mean guys yeah it's the nice guys finish last trope right and then i don't want you it's not like

00:47:35.440 people girls don't not want you because you're nice there's a whole list we're just gonna leave

00:47:41.120 that there whole list of other entertain the other possibilities okay i'm nice but why else

00:47:45.960 would she not want me maybe i don't brush my teeth that's gonna send her to therapy maybe they

00:47:51.220 shouldn't watch this you should go to therapy i highly encourage you to go to therapy i wonder

00:47:56.320 how many men you've sent to therapy with your videos i doubt any of them went they were all like

00:48:01.520 fat bitch anyways i need antidepressant no and then they're like anyways and they start blasting

00:48:06.900 joe rogan in the background oh hang up their barstool sports flag and then like men that like

00:48:12.520 are like a fetishized sports and like a certain player i'm like i've never had a crush that heart

00:48:17.460 on a guy and i'm the gay one i literally saw i literally saw a tweet the other day and it was

00:48:22.940 someone it's this girl and she goes men will be like so homophobic and they'll be so like have so

00:48:30.880 much toxic masculinity about any sort of femininity or expression of it in any way shape or form

00:48:36.880 like they'll they'll swat everything like that down and just be so horrible and she's like but

00:48:41.860 then they'll spend two hours building their dream man in nba 2k and i was like what is that a video

00:48:48.040 game it's like a y'all play video games still it's an nba it's like literally you play your nba

00:48:55.240 favorite nba players but in 2k you can make your own guy and so she's like like so like start all

00:49:01.620 like yes yes for men literally though i'm gonna dress him up it's like yeah they they pick his

00:49:09.880 clothes like his haircut they do his eyebrows too yeah like his face like she's like they'll spend

00:49:15.780 two hours building their dream man in 2k even though they're they're so homophobic and so like

00:49:21.480 oh that's so like feminine blah blah like you know what i mean and then they'll do that i wouldn't

00:49:26.760 even do that and i'm the gay one so what does that say i think it's like uh it's like this this

00:49:32.440 delusion of like um oh everything that doesn't adhere to a very strict gender binary is like

00:49:40.540 feminine to me they're like oh if it's not if it's not boy it's girl and nothing in this life is ever

00:49:48.040 that simple or black and white no so that's why i'm like okay well as i said underdeveloped brain

00:49:54.400 like they just don't real bad sometimes when they're like have you ever tried explaining these

00:49:58.620 concepts to them i'm like no because they're too stupid to understand it and that's not i'm not not

00:50:03.380 i'm not being funny i'm being like your iq is too low to like process what i'm saying

00:50:08.980 okay let's see some of these comments okay this uh one comment says this is again about the like

00:50:18.600 boundaries right like setting boundaries and this one says yep i chased a bitch out of my

00:50:24.240 house with a butcher knife nice girls are 10 times crazier than the loud and obnoxious ones

00:50:29.200 did you write that comment not what i've done there so it's easy to judge from the outside like

00:50:37.720 what this is what i would have done well would you have you're not well you're not me is what i think

00:50:43.520 like that's what i think all the time when they're like well me personally i would never handle it that

00:50:47.260 way and i always go then don't that literally just popped in my head then don't then don't we're the

00:50:52.540 same person yeah i was like you do what you're gonna do and i'm gonna do what i'm gonna do

00:50:58.120 why don't you do you and i'm gonna do me how about that how about we all mind our business how about

00:51:02.880 that that's my favorite mind the business that pays you this pays me does it pay you no i always

00:51:10.820 think it's it's so easy to just that's what i don't get why do you feel the need to speak

00:51:16.660 sometimes i don't know there's a beauty in silence i feel that like it makes you hot like being

00:51:21.900 being silent and shutting up is hot yeah it brings in like mystery it's like who's that

00:51:28.300 but the person that's like blabbing too damn much it's like oh shut up especially it's like a yapping

00:51:32.500 little dog it's like just go to the side i want to talk to the quiet one it's also it's very like

00:51:36.820 it's i think an illness with some men like you're like everybody wants to hear what i have to say

00:51:42.620 wrong most times people don't most times people don't but they won't tell you but i will me too

00:51:48.760 yeah i'll be i'll be the first to tell you nobody wants to hear that that's literally like

00:51:52.920 people judge me all the time for smoking cigarettes i smoke whatever cry um but like it's the best

00:51:58.680 excuse to get out of anything because i'm talking to someone boring all right i'm gonna go smoke

00:52:01.480 i'm gonna go have a cigarette give me the fuck out of here break i gotta get out sorry

00:52:05.560 that's the best thing it's like having a little like escape like right hand man in my pocket

00:52:11.060 when i go out i'm like that's how some people use their kids i feel like sometimes they're like

00:52:14.500 oh i can't i have the kids have to go home i think they use that that's their version i've lied about

00:52:19.740 that before you said i have kids yeah i have to go home yeah oh my god to get out of what all kind

00:52:26.560 of shit just like social interactions i'm like i'm fed up with this but i just like to lie and see

00:52:30.160 how creative i can get and get away with it you know it's so funny my sister my sister's um

00:52:34.980 she's a sagittarius sun but her she's a capricorn moon and i've like let a hate train about capricorns

00:52:41.780 for a minute um just because i think they're the devil incarnate but that's just me personally

00:52:46.800 and my sister like the thing with capricorns and their emotions is like they're literally like once

00:52:52.720 they're done they're done oh like they will not listen anymore so like if my sister doesn't want

00:52:57.660 to talk anymore she just goes she just turns her back to you like she literally just

00:53:02.200 and i think that's i think that's sinister that gives me ominous energy i admire her though because

00:53:10.200 i don't know how she does it like i'll if i'm in like i'll literally stand there and i'll talk

00:53:14.240 like for however long it takes same even if i don't want to anymore i'll still stand there and

00:53:19.480 i'll talk for however long but my sister goes i guess we just know what it's like we know what

00:53:26.840 it's like for someone to not care what we have to say so it's like we don't want to make people like

00:53:30.640 feel like shit so we're like i'll just sit here like entertain you yeah a sister okay are you

00:53:35.860 older just like me i'm younger okay same i thought i was like maybe that's the attention seeker in me

00:53:41.800 where i like feel the need to talk to everybody and keep everyone like you know what i'm saying

00:53:46.580 like occupied at all times keep the peace kind of yeah i'm just constantly sometimes i'll talk like

00:53:51.740 i'll literally be in a group oh my god i went on this horrible horrible horrible prom day when i was

00:53:57.600 like junior in high school horror story but there was four of us it was me my sister and the two

00:54:03.080 guys and like none of them would talk like they were all so shy one of them wasn't shy he just didn't

00:54:09.980 talk because he was like a misogynist but the my sister and the other guy they were just quiet

00:54:13.960 and so like i'm not even kidding i would talk to myself like we would be in the car and we'd be

00:54:19.800 driving for 45 minutes and i'd be like anyway so yeah i'd just be talking just talking talking

00:54:24.820 talking talking talking the whole time not saying it and then like at one point one of the guys goes

00:54:29.540 you don't have to talk the whole time we could just sit in silence and then i go well now i'm

00:54:34.460 going to talk a lot because what the fuck is that why do they what i don't like that it's like are

00:54:39.100 y'all having sex because y'all like to be mute when like why are we all just sitting in silence

00:54:43.760 i don't understand like that's so ear in like my sister didn't want to talk because she just like

00:54:48.280 didn't like them like they were uncomfortable but they just like wanted to sit in silence what kind of

00:54:53.200 no music no nothing i tried to play music but then it's just like you're in an elevator that

00:54:58.560 never ends you're just sitting there this actually could be good like men who sit with themselves

00:55:02.300 and shut up why are we critiquing it do it sit there and shut up practice that do it as much as

00:55:08.880 you can 15 but he's a raging bigots that's awkward though it was so awkward and we barely knew each

00:55:15.040 other so we're like alone so i'm like i just met you and now i have to like sit in silence i'm not

00:55:20.480 doing that so me like doing like i'm like doing like a bit like i'm doing physical comedy i'm like

00:55:26.020 talking to myself i'm like anyway what's your poison i'm like switching sides no not both roles

00:55:30.320 yeah like i paint one half of my face and i just keep turning and talking to myself that's what i

00:55:36.200 was doing the whole day it was awful literally i talked to myself a lot too like how you said

00:55:40.580 with that situation people like what are you doing i'm like having fun

00:55:43.140 the way i talked to myself yeah i talked to myself a lot all the time if people could see

00:55:50.220 like if there was a hidden camera in my apartment i would be in a straight jacket like locked up like

00:55:56.360 i have full-on conversations and that's one thing i wanted to throw out i forgot about this earlier

00:56:00.840 with boundaries and like standing up for yourself literally practice just talk to inanimate shit

00:56:09.560 like if you want to learn how to insult and fight like we do just start roasting anything you can

00:56:13.280 find like roast your shoe like roast the cup like just practice insulting and just gotta get your reps

00:56:18.500 in like in the shower i'd be having full-blown fights in the shower like i start getting so hot i

00:56:23.780 have to get out because i'm sweating start shadow boxing role play like literally have some insults

00:56:28.860 lined up stacked in your head like have some things you'll be able to stand up for yourself yeah when i

00:56:32.900 talk about sitting for yourself my some of my tips they're like how do i how do i start doing that

00:56:36.800 practice yeah practice i always say to do little things like you don't have to take on goliath like

00:56:43.360 immediately but like you could start by like if they up your order at a restaurant you're like oh

00:56:48.480 i'm so sorry i didn't order this would you be able to fix it like little things like that like standing

00:56:53.800 up for yourself setting a boundary right or you're like your friend asked you to pick them up from the

00:56:58.620 airport and it's really inconvenient for you because you can't right you have stuff to do instead of

00:57:02.620 going ah okay yeah that's fine just be like i can't today but like next time i promise i'll be

00:57:07.920 able to get like setting boundaries standing up for yourself you know what i mean yes there's like

00:57:11.940 little ways to like start building up your confidence so then if someone's rude in public

00:57:17.560 you just make them cry like literally like about ordering the drink it's just like standing up for

00:57:22.640 yourself starts with taking yourself into consideration so don't look at it as like i'm standing up for

00:57:26.720 myself like i'm making the way that i feel matter i'm taking myself into consideration so like if you go to a

00:57:32.600 restaurant or like i would never send things back now i'm like i'm nice about it i'm polite

00:57:37.940 like if i go to starbucks and i order like a coffee and they try and give me like that green tea like

00:57:42.680 matcha shit it's like i'm gonna be like okay why would you make yourself sit there and pay for

00:57:48.800 something and like force yourself to be okay with something you didn't order and to drink it because

00:57:52.520 i know they drink it care that you didn't get the right thing yeah care that you just had like the

00:57:56.900 wrong experience and then send it back and get the right thing yeah and that doesn't make you rude

00:58:00.720 it's not about you it's like you ordered something you didn't get the correct thing

00:58:03.920 so you're swapping it out it's not about it's not calling them stupid yeah it's not attacking them

00:58:08.080 it's like just take yourself into consideration want yourself to have like yeah better experiences

00:58:13.140 yeah literally one time i went to uh i went to disneyland with my family right and like we had to

00:58:20.300 this was before covid so like we had to renew our passes and like when you had to renew them you just

00:58:24.540 go to a little window and just like do it so we did it and then we walked back to the gate

00:58:28.700 going that much oh yeah girl at this grown age girl i'm a proud disney adult you are not gonna

00:58:33.780 make me feel bad about that disney adult hell yeah bitch i mean it's not like oh i mean i don't know

00:58:38.580 it depends on what you call it i guess okay right there you saw how i just said something but like

00:58:44.240 you're so confident in yourself me saying it didn't matter like i don't get the disney shit you do you

00:58:49.180 like it you're allowed to like it i'm not right she's not right nobody's right or wrong you're allowed to

00:58:54.020 like what you like but i we went to the gate and like i'm like contrary to what it looks like on

00:59:00.440 online i'm not like crazy like waiting for someone to be disrespectful if you are i will say something

00:59:06.960 but i and i always tell my boyfriend i'm like i'm gonna give him one more chance and if he does

00:59:11.660 something i'm gonna lose it i'm just letting you know like me prepping everyone around me i'm like

00:59:17.040 just you know i would love to be there if they do one more thing that pisses me off i'm gonna say

00:59:21.580 something so we go to the gate and then they're trying this guy's trying to scan and he's like

00:59:26.620 it says you have to renew it we're like we just did it like i'm calmly explaining to him i'm like

00:59:30.700 we just did it um i think he just hasn't refreshed yet but i don't have the physical copy so like i'm

00:59:36.200 like trying to explain it to him and then he's not listening to me it's like this older white dude

00:59:40.440 and then i'm like okay he's like well i have to call someone i'm like okay that's fine he's being rude

00:59:44.940 the whole time i'm not saying anything right and then where i lost it is like once someone comes over

00:59:51.500 and helps us he goes the thing is with your kind of people you guys tend to not pay the fee

00:59:58.280 and then this happens and i said i'm taking that as a green light i'm gonna be a i'm gonna be a

01:00:06.180 shareholder in disney at this point bitch like at this point it's on right so then i was like what

01:00:12.200 did you just say and he was like i didn't say anything i go no you just said something and i'd like

01:00:17.500 run that back to hear you say it again if it's cool i do that too let's do let's do everyone join

01:00:22.300 in he has something to say go ahead and say it again give him a mic yeah and then my dad got very

01:00:28.260 upset too and then he was like i feel like i'm being attacked of course he did you're about to

01:00:32.860 be attacked you're gonna feel like it you're gonna get that polo off and let's go outside and i'll

01:00:37.720 attack you for real oh my god it's so funny it had this also happened to disneyland too with my mom

01:00:44.060 but like we rode like the cars land ride but my brother was a baby like a baby baby it just opened

01:00:48.960 he's probably like six years old we get on the ride it's just the three of us my mom my brother

01:00:53.520 and i and we waited in line for an hour and a half because he wanted to ride it so bad get in the seat

01:00:59.440 buckle the seat belt the ride breaks down oh and so they're like oh we'll give you guys fast passes

01:01:04.380 to come back we're like okay and then this lady's trying not to give us the passes so she's like you

01:01:10.540 have to get out on this side and then um i get out and i'm like trying to help my brother out of

01:01:15.660 his seat belt because he's a baby and he's crying because he's upset i feel like i'm about to start

01:01:19.320 yelling i gotta wet my palate so he's like he's like crying because he's so upset and i'm like it's

01:01:25.020 fine we're gonna come back so my mom gets out on one side i get on the other and i'm like trying to

01:01:28.980 undo his seat belt and then my brother starts getting up and then he starts walking towards me

01:01:34.040 and this worker this girl she goes you have to come out on this side like to my brother

01:01:39.200 and then my brother's like i'm sorry like he's like crying and my mom goes um like immediately my

01:01:45.600 mom's like all right that's it because everybody was being rude the whole time didn't say anything

01:01:50.240 and then as soon as she yelled at my brother and made him cry more my mom was like we're done

01:01:55.460 immediately and so she like lit it up in there bitch like i was just saying what did she do

01:02:01.820 she was just yelling yelling cussing telling him like this is ridiculous you guys are so

01:02:06.700 disrespectful like why would you make my son cry like that's too nice call her a dumb cunt and call

01:02:11.820 it a day she said all that shit too perfect but then she left and then a manager came out old white

01:02:17.880 dude and he's like you know it's really disrespectful to talk to people like that because

01:02:22.680 she was yelling at him at that point and then he was like he's like it's really disrespectful to

01:02:28.360 talk to people my age like that like he's a kid's your age because my mom had a backpack on so i

01:02:33.980 think he thought she was like a teenager my mom goes my age how old do you think i am i'm 40 years old

01:02:40.380 bitch right and then he was like oh and he's like i was just saying like she's back there crying

01:02:45.860 she's like she's crying good i'm glad she made my son cry i made her cry that's how that works

01:02:51.980 good it's like and i'm standing there i'm literally just like like waiting love things

01:02:58.720 like this just standing with my brother and then this guy works on the ride goes is that your sister

01:03:03.640 i go no that's my mom and he goes oh and we're just standing there i'm like i'm just waiting so

01:03:09.720 she's done and then we'll leave and then we left and she went straight to like the little office to

01:03:15.600 like file a complaint and we got a bunch of free shit out of that like my dad calls me we're walking

01:03:22.100 and he goes what happened i go oh she got mad at the car's ride why because some worker was super

01:03:26.980 rude to donovan he goes really he goes yeah he goes what's she doing now i'm like we're walking and he

01:03:31.180 goes no she's not done yet i'm like no so we went to like the little office she lit some bitch up in

01:03:37.520 there because oh yeah and then we got a bunch of free shit like gift cards like hell yeah like

01:03:43.200 bunch of money on a disney gift card i didn't know you could get things like that usually when

01:03:46.840 i have a bad experience i just dog cuss everybody out and then i like storm out make a scene

01:03:50.760 free shit oh yeah i need to complain to the right i always joke about that with my mom when people

01:03:56.000 are really rude i'm like she's gonna be like the owner of this bitch by the end if you keep being

01:04:00.620 rude imagine her like coming back in and be like you're fired who are you the new owner she has a name tag

01:04:07.020 owner she she punched in so to finish it off what would you say is like your best piece of advice

01:04:14.620 people who are trying to learn how to stand up for themselves stand up for themselves more anything

01:04:19.500 like that understand that you don't have to do anything to deserve having your feelings matter

01:04:28.860 so like that's my biggest thing is like just take your feelings into consideration you don't have to

01:04:33.840 be worth it or not like you just deserve it just because you're alive you deserve you deserve for

01:04:37.900 your feelings to matter and if you don't stand up for yourself no one else will so it's time to step

01:04:46.140 up grab yourself by the nuts stop letting people walk all over you like and it's the small things like

01:04:50.380 you said like we can dog cuss people out or we can finally send our drinks back it's the little things

01:04:55.560 just start taking actions and acting like your feelings matter take yourself into consideration

01:05:04.420 act treat yourself like something you care about yeah make sure your experiences are good and then

01:05:08.560 if you are someone that doesn't care about yourself by taking the actions of caring about like take

01:05:14.540 treating yourself like something you care about you're just going to start caring about yeah it's

01:05:17.860 like going through the motions so you start to believe it yeah like affirmations like saying them

01:05:21.760 over and over again you start to believe it they feel so silly but they're they're honestly

01:05:25.880 i love them but i i they're a big part of my manifestation so that's why work i love clearly

01:05:31.460 your manifestation works we don't have to talk i need to know your affirmations because walking in

01:05:35.360 front of the mirror being like oh you're attractive i've used to be like couldn't even say no mine are

01:05:42.280 like my affirmations are like i am worthy of all the success i've achieved like i deserve to be happy i

01:05:49.200 deserve to be respected like they're things like that oh i love that yeah they're like their

01:05:53.860 affirmations pertaining to my goals or like the love i have for myself like internally period that

01:06:00.840 will help too with the stand up for yourself yeah once you realize you're something like a value or

01:06:06.500 worth taking care of yeah it's gonna be hard not to take care of it once you see your own worth

01:06:11.100 period and that's that i love that thank you so much for joining me on this episode thank you for

01:06:16.140 having me i adore you i love you tall twin where can everybody find you um tiktok leo skeppy

01:06:25.640 instagram the leo skeppy and i have a podcast called aware and aggravated it's on youtube and

01:06:30.820 apple podcast spotify and all that and you have clothing yes so that's funny to like talk about this

01:06:36.340 episode because we just talked about talking shit but i have merch and my clothing my best seller

01:06:41.780 is a hoodie and a t-shirt that say not above violence period and one's coming for you i already

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