The Comment Section with Drew Afualo


THIS ONE'S FOR THE GIRLIES Ft. Becca Moore | Drew Afualo | THE COMMENT SECTION EP 52


Summary

In this episode of the comment section, I chat with the wonderful Becca Moore about the economy, feminism, and the economy's impact on women. Becca is a standup comedian, YouTuber, podcaster, writer, and all-around badass. She also happens to be a feminist.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 you're talking about like a climate crisis and he's like i don't understand this and you have
00:00:05.160 fake boobs okay so i don't want to hear it okay what about your fake tits what about them we were
00:00:12.400 talking about you're buying yeah syria what about them we were talking about the economy
00:00:17.080 hey everyone and welcome back to another very special episode of the comment section show
00:00:25.400 starring me your fave everybody knows me nobody cares about me anymore we're 50 plus episodes in
00:00:30.560 bitch but now on to the very special guest today i have the wonderful amazing becca moore
00:00:37.520 thank you for having me oh my god thanks for coming bitch i appreciate a dream like every
00:00:43.220 time i put i know a video that i made is good when everyone's like tagging you oh love they're
00:00:48.440 like you guys in a good way yeah because if you were a man that'd be a bad sign that's an omen but
00:00:54.320 with a woman it's a blessing exactly it's a it's a highly favored thing i love that too when i first
00:01:01.440 started making content i would get tagged in yours too sometimes yeah because we're on the same vibes
00:01:07.700 when did you start making videos by the way i would say consistently probably like early 2021
00:01:14.500 okay because you like can't you blew up so fast yeah i was like very like whatevs for a while
00:01:22.000 like as far as like i'd post one and then not post for like a week or so and then i think um like
00:01:27.840 march february march of 2021 i was like maybe i'll just post once every day and see how it does
00:01:32.760 thank god you did people you changed the game now i can people get my sense of humor more oh i love
00:01:40.520 that they like understand that like um you know like anti-men is more acceptable now uh yeah because
00:01:46.800 absolutely oh thank you i don't want to take full credit but i will
00:01:49.960 i think i think too it's your content i loved from the beginning too because i that's my kind
00:01:59.120 of humor like very dry yeah and not real and um shockers stupid men don't get it they never get it
00:02:05.420 never get it the jokes don't land with them they're like then be single for the rest of your life they
00:02:09.580 say things like that to me and i'm like okay what's so bad about that deal don't even care yeah you're
00:02:14.640 well on my way you guys are getting in the way of that actually you're stopping me from achieving
00:02:19.220 my dreams so but honestly i think that when a girl is like being funny people don't calculate it like
00:02:26.540 people think everything i say is dead serious like everything i think it's also yeah absolutely um
00:02:33.400 i've talked about that before with one of my other guests it's like when you can tell that someone
00:02:38.660 doesn't like that you're funny or they can sense that you're funnier than them especially men
00:02:43.580 yeah uh they really don't like that no it makes them so uncomfortable they're like okay well
00:02:48.460 can you lift you're like no no actually i can't why would i i really can't it's not for girls yeah
00:02:59.160 well my lifting videos get them in a tizzy in a much different way i feel like they don't like when
00:03:05.380 you can do anything you so you do a thing where you like you're like i'm the girl that your girl
00:03:11.220 once or whatever and i'm like that is so good for your ego like that's good for my ego too
00:03:15.840 whenever a man oh my god when i get a hate comment and then i if i do a deep dive if i'm really bored
00:03:20.760 that night yeah i go through like the girl that he like posts and his girlfriend always follows me too
00:03:26.340 so when you gave me that idea i was like you know what nothing any man can say to me ever again
00:03:32.460 really bothers me that much it never matters they're not that smart no they aren't they aren't
00:03:37.840 and they know it and that's why they it's the biggest gas angry about it it's the gaslight of
00:03:43.260 the millennium that they've made women believe that they're superior yeah that's just not true i
00:03:48.620 believed them at the in the beginning they had me in the first half you know it's not how you start
00:03:53.240 the race it's how you finish it you know i figured it out i think it's that's very true and it's also
00:03:58.920 like it applies to literally everything that's why i'm like they will hate you no matter what the
00:04:04.380 you like or want to do or exist or act or however they just outwardly hate me because i'm like so
00:04:11.320 antagonistic towards them right because they're horrible so that's like i believe now my purpose
00:04:16.740 god gave me the strength to attack them all the time i firmly believe that now so that's why i'm like
00:04:24.840 you could just never pay attention to what they think they're gonna give you their two cents no
00:04:29.540 matter what you could you could like everything that they like you could like everything they hate
00:04:33.640 anything in between they're gonna hate you no matter what so i can't even like well okay sometimes it
00:04:39.140 comes in handy though like looking hot and then saying something like you know feminist is yeah is um
00:04:48.340 it helps them grasp the concept better yeah it's a privilege yeah yeah pretty privilege yeah but
00:04:55.900 anyway this is a complete side note um when i was like a little girl i hated my mom's boyfriend so much
00:05:02.800 and i would like fight argue with them and like i remember thinking i was smarter than them when i was
00:05:08.480 like 10 years old there you go and you were right i was right but i don't even need to know you when you
00:05:12.720 were 10 but i didn't i didn't know anyway i'm just saying like i honestly think that like girls have
00:05:17.820 wisdom that guys don't have well and it's also i think too partial in part because they are forced
00:05:23.360 to mature a lot faster than men are yeah actually maybe that is they're given so much more responsibility
00:05:28.240 at a young age um if you look at the way you treat women like when they're when they're young and
00:05:33.280 they're starting to go out or spend time with friends you warn them of all these terrible things that
00:05:37.760 could happen to them you don't do that with men no it's like protect your little sister yeah that's it
00:05:42.120 what do i need protected i shouldn't need protected from anything exactly don't do this don't do that
00:05:47.460 don't do this don't talk to these people don't look at these people don't dress that way don't do this
00:05:51.040 don't act this way it's like you're given this handbook at the very beginning of life that it's
00:05:56.280 like men are awful i'm going to try to kill you so this is the best way i know how to stop that from
00:06:00.740 happening right but what about the men i'm so mad i'm mad it's like instead of like telling them
00:06:06.540 maybe don't kill women uh so frivolously don't get killed yeah they're like here's the guy
00:06:11.200 you get killed you're in trouble it's like why'd you do that why'd you go out like well what did
00:06:14.880 she expect to happen when she went to the store i'm like i don't know not die i'm pretty sure that
00:06:19.740 was on the list i don't know she was in a parking garage late at night like she was trying to drive
00:06:23.000 home she's trying to go home no shit she got killed she's doing normal things like driving her car
00:06:28.320 uh i think that's a that's a big reason too why i like never feel bad for like what it is like or how
00:06:35.360 i got my platform i never care i don't feel bad at all i i sleep very soundly on a casper mattress that
00:06:41.060 was gifted to me thanks to the platform thank you so much so this is i'm on this give me one
00:06:46.080 so i'm like i sleep very soundly at night because i feel like men for so long have gotten away with
00:06:54.180 so much and it's like what i'm doing now is like is the very tip of the iceberg of what women have
00:07:00.600 done to like fight for you no no i think you're humbling yourself because you opened up a conversation
00:07:07.440 and now people are listening like they're like i was i was huge feminist in college and i would say
00:07:13.640 the word and people would be like and i would make jokes i would make fun of men who didn't understand
00:07:19.880 what i was talking about and i was also in a sorority so that was like crazy what an oxymoron i know
00:07:25.200 and i was like dating frat guys but yeah i don't know that's another thing but um no one would listen
00:07:33.100 to me i remember being like i felt so alone so i kind of like watered down my opinions and then
00:07:38.080 your videos made it more socially people understand it better they're like okay this is why
00:07:44.400 yeah it's important to like stand up for when guys are saying things it's not to avoid it's people are
00:07:51.000 listening to them well and it's also it's you i mean like sometimes men will say things like well
00:07:58.140 why don't you try talking to them you think i haven't you know what i mean as old as i am bitch
00:08:02.720 you think i haven't tried that it doesn't work and i knew i found that out very very early on like
00:08:07.380 men who hate women shocker don't listen to women they don't they don't want to hear you out so like
00:08:13.680 also i'm in my anger phase right now i'm like very angry that's part of it it's part of it
00:08:19.180 awakening let it happen past year and i'm mad first of all yeah i'm my ex-boyfriend who dated
00:08:25.320 me when he was 27 and i was 18 and he's my boss at a pizza place mad at you alex i remember you
00:08:31.620 and i'm mad at like all the men that like i would date i dated three of my bosses like that's so weird
00:08:36.820 it is very weird when you're like young it's very weird but it's not an experience that's exclusive
00:08:42.160 to you and that's the scary part i know i mean it's like when i've i've posted videos in a video
00:08:48.560 once where i was like kind of serious for once i wasn't making a lot of ton of jokes because
00:08:52.720 there's nothing really funny about what i was talking about but i was essentially illustrating
00:08:56.620 that like you know why if you if you like hate me if you hate my content if you hate my jokes
00:09:02.540 whatever right you you're a terrible person you're probably a bigot that's honestly what it is but if
00:09:07.880 you remove yourself even further ask yourself why like yeah why do all of these people who follow me
00:09:13.060 who come from so many different walks of life they identify as so many different gender identities
00:09:17.940 gender expressions sexualities what have you everyone is so different none of my fans look
00:09:21.760 the same so why do they all unite under this one person and it's me because you're awful that's the
00:09:29.600 one bond we all share is that we've all been wronged by men at some point or another because y'all have
00:09:36.620 been feral for the last thousand plus years you know what i mean but some girls yeah they do like go on
00:09:44.200 the side of like oh men aren't that bad like come on like you need to treat them nicely sometime like
00:09:49.560 you're king you know what i mean i think that it's like southern girls they do that because it's a way
00:09:53.900 to survive it's like easier yeah and it's like an internalized misogyny thing um it's it's a fight or
00:09:59.400 flight thing sometimes and it's also like just something you're so it's like a the most intense
00:10:04.600 form of hypnosis you're like you're stuck in it brainwash yeah you have to like you have to wake
00:10:09.720 yourself up i can only do so much for you that's why i'm like i'm not gonna attack you the same way
00:10:14.020 i attack men because women do that enough for them like i'm not doing their bidding for them
00:10:19.160 that that's what they want is to turn on each other you know sometimes you can have no like i've been
00:10:24.380 learning a lot like you can learn you can learn things you know girls can love to learn i have faith
00:10:29.680 that girls can figure it out one day i think so too i think there are and i actually have had some
00:10:35.440 success stories where a lot of women but um even men have like been like you know i used to think
00:10:42.360 a certain way and i started watching your content and now i understand why that's like a problem yeah
00:10:47.500 thing to feel the same thing with women like you could be the most like i love women i believe in
00:10:53.280 equality that kind of thing and then there are certain things that you hold misogynistic beliefs
00:10:58.560 about but you don't realize it i think i'm i'm there's a couple in there yeah and you unpack we all
00:11:04.000 have them like that's why i said i i was a raging pick me when i was younger too um in like high school
00:11:08.780 oh my god i was too i'm 24 okay i'm 27 oh okay yeah so we're around the same age which is nice
00:11:14.060 because i feel like a grandpa to most people i talk to really oh yeah girl everyone's so young
00:11:18.220 um but you're young too but i mean i'm not that old but anyways my point being that younger when i was
00:11:26.360 younger i was like in high school probably like 17 18 that was probably my strongest pick me phase like
00:11:33.900 where i was like kind of like coming into my own i was like becoming an adult and i really started
00:11:39.920 thinking about things so differently when i went to school like i went to college away from home and
00:11:44.420 i went to school in hawaii and some of my friends they challenged me a little bit and some of the
00:11:49.740 things that i believed and felt and which i firmly believe is a great thing i think it's a wonderful
00:11:54.140 thing that's why i highly encourage you to go to college if you can and want to i highly suggest i
00:11:59.420 think it makes you a better person you learn and like really become who you're meant to be in real
00:12:04.800 life whether or not it makes you terrible that's kind of on you but i think a lot of times you go
00:12:10.200 to college you become more educated and more empathetic towards other people and they really
00:12:14.940 challenged my ideals my sister was a big part of that too because she went to the university of
00:12:18.700 oregon which is the most like liberal open loving school and so she taught me a lot about that too so
00:12:25.900 i feel like that's what really ripped me out of my pick me phase well what was your pick me like how
00:12:31.360 are you being a pick me i think part of it was i mean i was a big sports girl i played sports my
00:12:35.840 whole life i wanted to work in sports as like a profession although now as an adult and in therapy
00:12:40.080 sometimes i unpack i'm like did i even really like sports or was i just doing that shit because
00:12:43.740 it made me different you know what i mean sometimes i think okay so you wanted to be like
00:12:46.520 different yeah i think i sometimes i do think that i really i really did like sports but sometimes i think if
00:12:52.600 i loved it or if part of what i liked was being the only woman there you know what i mean like
00:12:58.440 and so i mean i didn't there were many little things i didn't like i didn't like uh the color pink
00:13:04.960 i didn't like nails i didn't like i always loved makeup which made no sense because i was such a glam
00:13:11.280 bitch like from the beginning i've wanted to do a full face like i loved painting my nails but you wanted
00:13:16.080 to be like different about yeah but then when i got older i was like i'm just not a girly girl like
00:13:22.340 that type of shit you know the kind of girl that's like well all my friends are boys like
00:13:25.600 that yeah yeah yeah ugh gag gag gag gag okay so you're kind of like that though yeah i was i was
00:13:31.920 yeah i i will say the one thing i can and hold very true in my pygmy phase is men have always pissed
00:13:38.260 me off always even when i was in the throes bitch when i was like being held down shackled to male
00:13:44.740 validation if they told me something i didn't like i would get angry immediately i would too always even
00:13:50.800 when i was 10 like with my mom's boyfriend but yeah i've always been girly a girly girl but i
00:13:56.480 sometimes i wonder now that i'm in therapy like am i doing this just so that they'll listen to me
00:14:01.700 like i said earlier yeah and that's and that's fair that's fair to i think what part of your growth
00:14:06.440 is challenging the things that you love and feel now because like i think part of my pygmy phase too
00:14:11.860 was the way i used to dress i used to never wear things that were too baggy too boxy i didn't like
00:14:18.000 to wear things that um would hide my figure because i felt like it made me look a certain
00:14:23.760 way which is also tied to fat phobia but that's tied to misogyny too they're very intertwined so i
00:14:29.020 would feel that way about certain things that would make me look masculine yeah i didn't like which is
00:14:34.140 also homophobic so it's like it's all it is all tied together so i would like unpack it slowly but
00:14:41.600 surely over time and i remember i literally yesterday i was doing a q a and people always
00:14:47.780 ask me about nails they're always like how do you do anything with nails how do you do this with
00:14:51.360 nails blah blah i've answered this question so many times you just do it like over time you you get
00:14:56.920 longer and longer and longer if you want them and then you don't pick things up with your nail beds
00:15:01.600 like you pick them up how you pick up anything with your hands like it's right it's not with your
00:15:05.820 nails so i've said that before but when i was younger i think i convinced myself i didn't like long
00:15:11.320 nails because i couldn't wear them when i was an athlete but then i was like well those are just
00:15:16.280 so impractical like how do you do things and that's internalized misogyny yeah impractical literally
00:15:20.680 practicality they're like oh it's well what if i have to what am i doing i could do anything i have
00:15:26.400 i have fake boobs like i got my boobs done yeah and i'm i think i did it for me i'm still going back
00:15:34.040 but like i do get comments that are like they're like you're you've faked like you're just a i don't
00:15:44.000 even oh my god my ex-boyfriend i'm not to get into that but like he would anytime he was like really
00:15:48.520 mad at me he'd be like oh yeah then why do you have fake tits and can i say yeah yeah yeah why do
00:15:53.840 you have fake tits and like you've gotten botox before you have your lips done and all of that and
00:15:58.400 i was like i don't know i don't know why we're talking about you not having a job why did my
00:16:03.480 aesthetic stuff come into play because he thinks that like i did it for male validation like he
00:16:10.100 really believes that but i don't think so no i love the way i love my boobs yeah like every time i take
00:16:15.480 my shirt off i get excited like i like that they're like awesome they do i'm sure they do i know but he
00:16:22.540 oh my god he like threw me back a little bit now i'm like and then in our relationship he was like
00:16:26.700 super controlling and i think okay now that i'm in my awakening like anger phase i'm like why did
00:16:33.040 i let him like i couldn't post anything like that was too revealing really really else it would be a
00:16:38.980 huge huge fight really and that was like a big problem in our relationship because i love posting
00:16:44.780 boob pics i bought my boobs i gotta make that money back somehow yeah exactly but like yeah he anyway we
00:16:52.980 broke up in june thank god but yeah i'm like unlearning everything that he because i was like
00:16:58.180 so careful about like being too hot on like you know yeah i don't know well it's it's also you know
00:17:05.440 other than it's tied to his direct like misogyny um and insecurity those two things are like two sides
00:17:11.920 of the same coin like the misogyny flares up when the insecurity flares up it's like it's one feeds the
00:17:17.120 other but then also it's like a sense of control it may not even really matter whether or not other
00:17:23.300 people see your fake titties online it's more so that he wants to be able to tell you when you can
00:17:28.280 show your face yeah maybe you're right that's why it's it's what's driving more of it is is the
00:17:33.760 control and he liked it when i was around like with him in the picture or like if we were together
00:17:40.500 he was like oh we're a smaller top because he wanted to show people i got this i got this yeah
00:17:45.580 because he wants to show you off like well and that just proves men like that see they don't see
00:17:51.020 women as as people with thoughts and feelings and ambitions and and goals and drive they see women
00:17:57.300 as objects and literally that was an object yeah to covet it's not to love and uphold it's someone to
00:18:04.760 control and like put in a little cage and then they're like you can come out when i say you can
00:18:09.540 come out yeah i was like a little cat like a little dog for him yeah but otherwise get back in
00:18:14.240 there and close the door yeah yeah and then anytime i had like thoughts he would be like
00:18:19.540 when you're thinking things and he doesn't like it i started realizing that yeah when you're thinking
00:18:23.840 things and he doesn't like it i realized that i'm smart like no offense if you're listening i have a
00:18:30.580 bigger grasp on like i would try to explain concepts to him and he couldn't intellectually we
00:18:35.500 weren't on the same level i can't he would freak out every time like i don't know i had to we had to
00:18:40.560 end he freaked out because he's seeing that you're smarter than him that i'm a person yeah he was
00:18:45.860 like oh i just want to have sex with you like this is weird like why are you yeah like a doll
00:18:49.700 yeah like i was like a you're like well you're talking about like the climate crisis and he's
00:18:56.220 like i don't understand this and you have fake boobs okay so i don't want to hear it okay
00:19:01.460 what about your fake tits what about them we were talking about you're buying yeah syria no what about
00:19:08.300 him we were talking about the economy what does that have to he was a hockey player so i feel like
00:19:12.940 well there you go i don't know much about white people's sports but i do know that hockey players
00:19:19.720 are real hit and miss i knew i same thing with baseball players people are like oh my god oh he
00:19:24.400 was a baseball player i'm like well there you go there you go one two oh my god this baseball player
00:19:28.320 flew me to iowa by the way oh period it was the weirdest i made a video about this but it was the
00:19:32.360 weirdest oh my god and then listen to this okay so i get there and i was in the middle of a
00:19:38.000 cornfield like go to his game for any particular reason you just found yourself there i found
00:19:43.660 myself there okay and then i was at a t-ball game it wasn't even like okay it was like below the
00:19:49.440 minor not to be like legist or whatever i don't know if that's the thing in the world of mlb i don't
00:19:55.240 know but it was like a t-ball game like they were like oh my god there was like they had the t and
00:19:59.540 everything no no no i don't know okay but you said i keep saying t yeah but it was like minor league
00:20:04.540 below minor like below i didn't even know that was a thing you said so apparently it's a thing
00:20:08.760 you said is this even a team or did you and your buddies just like it's a softball literally like
00:20:13.380 weekly did you and your buddies just kind of link up for the weekend but the reason oh my god okay
00:20:18.540 and i get there and like he was cool or whatever but i left did he lie about being a no okay i left and
00:20:26.820 then i went out in nashville and i met this girl and i went to follow her and i loved her she was
00:20:31.840 awesome yeah and um i went to follow her on instagram a couple weeks later and he followed
00:20:37.000 her so i i met her out again and then i brought it up i was like why does tanner that's not his name
00:20:43.040 but why does tanner follow you yeah and she was like oh he flew me out to iowa and i was like when
00:20:47.860 and i was like me too what does he do for a living flies girls out that's what i'm saying he no i don't
00:20:54.740 know i maybe his parents have money i don't know because he's minor minor minor league like how are you
00:20:59.840 supporting these playing tickets so he's playing for the y and he's like you're trying to get
00:21:03.920 flewed out or what bitch yeah so i i found out that he flew me in the day the day calendar day that
00:21:13.440 she left so he was flying girls in and out a lot of him having a schedule and he's not even a real
00:21:18.680 baseball player like so can you imagine you went to in iowa like yeah i went to iowa like not even
00:21:25.760 miami or something no no i was in corn i cried in the hotel room when i got there i was like i hate
00:21:32.900 it here i'm never coming back to iowa ever again i i've had like my own i've i've told stories about
00:21:39.260 famous nfl players that have hit me up oh my god do they yeah you have a boyfriend though i have a
00:21:44.680 boyfriend they don't do it now i will say though one really really famous uh he recently got drafted
00:21:53.260 to the nfl shut up he followed me um but then he literally unfollowed me as soon as he saw that i
00:22:00.160 had a boyfriend he like the way the notification kept coming up and i would go and he didn't
00:22:06.040 follow me because you know they're verified so they're right it comes out or whatever
00:22:08.640 yeah girl he like he dipped immediately no i told a story before i blew up on tiktok i told a story
00:22:14.760 about a really famous nfl player that had tried to hit my line i met him in college i met him in person
00:22:20.840 because i was working like something that he was at huge football player to this day he's still in
00:22:26.440 league and he's very very talented he was single he wasn't he wasn't married or anything like that
00:22:31.300 because believe it or not most of them cheat yeah can you believe it um all that money and power
00:22:37.160 doesn't make them better people i can't believe it so they i told that story on tiktok as like a
00:22:42.340 silly haha like funny because uh a lady had did a prompt like she was like oh like who's the most
00:22:48.520 famous person that's hit on you um this is mine like hers was like an mlb player like a famous
00:22:53.600 baseball player so i told my story girl you would not believe the amount of men that were like that's
00:22:58.800 not true he would never he would never like you yeah he would i'm like he would trust are you mad at
00:23:05.000 that you aren't him or that you aren't me i can't tell he's mad that he's not him that's one of those
00:23:09.760 things that's like the line is so thin because they can't tell if they want to be be him or be on
00:23:16.260 him like they can't tell the difference yeah they want to hook up with him yeah it's like or they
00:23:19.540 want to make a story right and i'm like what are the odds you know and i don't what he's sexually
00:23:23.940 attracted to what are the odds you know i'm saying what are the odds like you live in kansas what are
00:23:27.760 the odds i don't know i don't know do you think it's harder to date though i mean if you weren't if
00:23:32.760 you were single would you think it was harder with your content right now no i feel like for me
00:23:37.980 personally i feel like um i have a real great litmus test you know what i mean if they like me
00:23:42.720 they're obviously a good person actually you're right to some extent um if they outwardly hate me
00:23:48.340 and some do some really really popular influencers do actually not like me at all really yeah they
00:23:54.340 won't ever say it to me because they're afraid of me but like which i also count as a dub for me
00:23:59.660 yeah i'll take it fear is better than anything i think a healthy dose of fear doesn't hurt i always
00:24:05.820 said that yeah they should be scared of you i think you are a good litmus text i think so absolutely
00:24:11.380 there are many many many women who put me in like their tinder bios their bumble bios hinge all that
00:24:16.320 stuff they put me in there and they're like if you don't like her just go ahead and swipe left on me
00:24:19.380 yeah and it works i'm telling you it works okay well maybe i have bad taste because i'm like i like try
00:24:26.800 to make them like me i don't even know not really not really not really i'm not a pick me but i mean
00:24:32.380 like when i meet people i kind of like watered down like my opinion sometimes yeah and you shouldn't have
00:24:38.040 to that's that's the ultimate litmus because then you won't have to find out it's almost like dr
00:24:42.800 juggle mr high they turn into a different person actually they get you they're like good in the
00:24:47.460 beginning and then as soon as sounds like my hockey man then they turn into a psycho but that's one of
00:24:53.840 those things i think too like someone had asked me what's the best way to bag a professional
00:24:57.980 athlete easy just yeah that's what i said i said i said be in the room oh my god you have to be in
00:25:03.980 the room they'll dm you after you have to be breathing and be next to them that's it that's
00:25:08.620 the not to expose all the app also if you follow me and you're an athlete i'm so sorry that i'm
00:25:12.820 about to say this but like you guys are so easy they're so horny they are they're so horny and
00:25:19.480 they're like walking around being like what can i put my dick inside right now no true they don't
00:25:23.640 care who it is they don't care they don't care at all that's why i said like they're honestly
00:25:27.040 famous men like men with lots of wealth and power are so much easier to get than like the average
00:25:35.240 who works at best buy like i promise like the the dude who works at best buy him if you want to date
00:25:40.480 someone of power and wealth you absolutely can it doesn't matter what you look like i promise it
00:25:45.100 doesn't matter i was getting flown out when i was like a two you know what i mean me too when i was
00:25:50.860 when i when i was getting offered to get flown out and shit i was 20 and i was in deep in my
00:25:56.120 anastasia diprow phase and they still wanted me so there you go yeah i'm dead at like i'm not even
00:26:02.980 kidding i used to the easiest ones are yeah at baseball hockey for me i mean i don't know and
00:26:10.640 then i would dm like reality stars and then this one that is on a very popular franchise
00:26:16.300 flew me to denver and i spent a week with him and he was on the show at the time there you go
00:26:21.700 but i was like in college i was like 18 or 19 yeah me too when it happened to me too i was
00:26:26.040 19 19 20 yeah i'm too i was too young mine was like 30 something i'm mad at all these men right
00:26:33.000 now i'm like i want to punch you in the face yeah there was one there was one guy that that tried to
00:26:36.860 fly me to the super bowl and stuff um that year and he was in his 40s i was 20 and he uh i found
00:26:44.780 out later i had a wife and kids what they're trifling i used to do a lot of them are trifling okay
00:26:49.760 wait wait why am i telling all my i don't even know i came on here and all of a sudden i'm like
00:26:53.540 i used to men would pay me to talk to them and they were all married they all had kids and a family
00:27:00.500 but i would pretend not to look too deep into it i needed money i was like 18 or 19 but i was so
00:27:05.420 young i was little i was 19 yeah disgusting god and they would pay me to insult them girl that's
00:27:11.300 probably why they like you that's why i stopped doing cameo that is not a really i stopped doing
00:27:15.260 cameo because i started getting i started getting requests to like berate them and degrade them
00:27:20.420 and i said for 35 dollars no babe that price is much higher if i'm doing and i literally shut it
00:27:26.240 off because i was like i can't do this anymore i'm getting too busy and also y'all getting weird
00:27:29.620 so oh my god i did that you know what i did a video too of degrading a man oh my god you just
00:27:35.020 that was back i wish i didn't do that okay i was 19 like i'm a victim victim victim victim i'm the
00:27:42.020 victim but yeah he was like 50 and he had like a happy home too i found out after i sent the video
00:27:48.760 i was like why did i do i was like your life is worthless like yeah they're truly vile they are
00:27:53.920 they're the root of all how did they like that no like i said he wanted me to say that oh he wanted
00:27:59.220 you to degrade him i was like you're worthless like you're really worthless and i was like why do
00:28:04.040 they want that too by the way i don't know why did he want that why do they like that i don't
00:28:10.220 know i mean therapists clock in i i don't know i genuinely don't psychologists let me know a lot
00:28:15.200 of questions i would say i my theory is that they just toxic masculinity patriarchy affects men in
00:28:20.920 many different ways too even though they they hate feminism some of them it would un it would
00:28:25.780 release them as well from the shackles that are holding them to like manhood or what it means to be
00:28:30.720 a man i think that sense of like relinquishing crawl into you know what i mean like they get to release
00:28:36.200 it and then be someone who's worthless or whatever makes i don't know i don't know i don't want to
00:28:41.600 kink shame you but like that's my theory i don't know i feel so weird and i feel so good someone has
00:28:47.140 like videos of me doing that like that guy has the videos probably you owe me money how long was it
00:28:52.820 that was his real name too how long um that was like when i was 19 it was five years maybe he's dead
00:28:58.680 at this rate he probably wanted someone to kill him there you go maybe he's dead just and i didn't have to do
00:29:04.580 by the way i did not have to do anything all i had to do was insult him well he's also he that's
00:29:08.940 weird and pervy but like i didn't like for him to want for him to want someone younger to do that
00:29:15.760 is weird it's strange it's the experiences i've had with older men like i can't i can't even big
00:29:21.140 cringe like it's disgusting it really is how long have you been dating your boy wait keep going for
00:29:25.540 this is six years this year it's six years oh my god you need if okay if you were single right now
00:29:32.740 you would have so many more like oh my god cringy i know i honestly i'm i'm kind of glad to be on the
00:29:38.720 bench i've been on the bench for a while thank god i'm i'm out the game but i think too um men are the
00:29:45.140 root of all evil in a lot of ways but they are disgusting and they always have been when i
00:29:49.140 graduated from college i was playing moana for a while as a disney character oh you were yeah like
00:29:54.640 not for disney because i was too tall they said i was too tall because she's a child and i'm
00:29:58.880 a full-grown man so they were like bitch you're too big it's gonna scare kids so i was like it off
00:30:06.040 like for birthday parties that's what i did um and so sweet i i'm i get along with kids i'm like yeah
00:30:12.920 i could do that shit easy yeah i can't sing but you know what it'll be fine and i did it and you
00:30:18.600 would not believe how disgusting dads are wait in the moana costume yeah like as the character and
00:30:26.700 she's a child mind you so if you talk to women who were characters at actual disneyland disney world
00:30:33.660 like all of that a lot of them have stories about that how disgusting they are they're perverted they
00:30:39.120 make these crazy jokes with their children present like it's it's the most bizarre thing ever i've ever
00:30:47.820 that was like the the job i got the most hit on which is disgusting to think about but it's true
00:30:52.260 yeah when i was i mean like everyone says this when i was a server though when i would like look
00:30:57.380 young with the pigtails and everything we'll get more tips yeah that's really bad and they comment
00:31:03.260 on it too they're like i love the pigtails yep like they'll make those weird you're like don't
00:31:07.800 you have a kid at home go home to your child kind of like your daughter also yeah i look like her
00:31:12.220 don't i also my pizza boss the guy i dated at the pizza place i worked at he when i so i broke up
00:31:21.060 with him because well we broke up with each other because i was too young and he was 27 i was 18
00:31:27.060 and i was going off to college and he immediately i i got my friend a job there and he immediately
00:31:34.240 started dating my 18 year old friend and she just they just got married last year and she just had
00:31:41.480 his baby oh and i'm like oh my god she's so glad that's not you though yes but holy shit do you know
00:31:47.540 the guilt i feel though like i made him seem like i think i advertised him a little bit like i was
00:31:52.440 like he's so hot and cool like look at him like and i convinced her that he was like a cooler guy
00:31:57.680 than he is and i was mad at her at first but now i'm like oh my god i just wasted that girl's life
00:32:02.620 like she you know you can lead a horse to water is what i always think even then like you you could
00:32:08.340 tell her every which way from sunday why he's bad why that's bad why it's harmful why it's predatory
00:32:13.620 but like unless they choose to unpack that and confront it then it's just gonna you know
00:32:20.440 well she's brainwashed right now that's what i'm saying at that point it's that it's out of your
00:32:23.800 hands like there's really nothing you can do dating older men is not cool girls it's really not and by
00:32:28.780 older i mean like 10 plus years older yeah yeah and they do not get better with age the people who say
00:32:34.540 you should see the guys in my dms they're 60 the guys in hollywood
00:32:38.320 i don't know if i can leave that in or not i literally don't know if i can leave that in okay
00:32:47.900 i can tell this story yeah oh i wish to god you could hear who it was he's literally 60 years old
00:32:56.400 you can google it well you can't google it because well good luck narrowing it down a creepy 60 year
00:33:00.400 old in hollywood good luck bitch you'll be looking forever so we went on a date oh my god like okay
00:33:07.080 i for the story i'd do that for the story i did it for the anecdote yeah for the story okay so
00:33:12.540 context i moved here from ohio like we don't have access to celebrities like this in ohio
00:33:18.160 so i my he dm me and i was like what was the dm what was the initial dm was it just a hey
00:33:24.380 no he liked one of my old pictures and then i liked one of his old pictures i don't know why
00:33:28.260 what old guy shit i'm the victim that's such an old guy thing i'm like really defensive to scroll
00:33:33.680 back that's such an old guy thing to do yes it is oh yeah i think he probably learned that trick
00:33:38.860 from like a weird like dating column that he wrote or something online like googling how to
00:33:42.700 talk to young girls long enough i'm sure he's read all the columns yeah it's about dating you
00:33:47.620 know he's he's dated a lot of hot girls he has but that's purely because of who he is you're
00:33:52.620 right okay a looker so he liked one of my old pictures and then my my friends were like back
00:33:59.120 up please like will you go please and i was like okay fine so i told him i was like okay i refused
00:34:05.000 like the first date that he asked me on oh my god i'm like getting nervous about this stuff anyway
00:34:09.040 what did he say i want to hear the line he was like watching football tonight want to join me
00:34:14.700 with me and a few buddies and i was like i hate football and anyway i ended up going
00:34:20.580 to watch football yeah he okay his game when i got there by the way was like
00:34:27.160 he's definitely gonna see this like he watches all my whatever you're giving me too much credit
00:34:32.440 i hope he does no he does he's like a young guy well like plugged in to well he pretends to be
00:34:41.020 also he like totally he's like you're special you're different from all the other he's like
00:34:44.900 grooming me you know what i mean but anyway i show up especially different did you go in what way
00:34:49.920 tell me like my last name i don't even know if you know what i'm saying literally he texted me today
00:34:55.540 by the way can't wait so you're at the house no i wasn't at his house oh no you went to the game
00:35:01.900 i went to the well was it like a restaurant it was a restaurant okay and he the entire time okay he
00:35:07.840 brought me in to meet his friends were there too it wasn't just the two of us like i don't even know
00:35:11.880 that's even weirder it was so weird and it was like me with like a bunch of like old men like 60
00:35:17.240 year old men were they famous too or you didn't i think i'm i didn't recognize but like i could tell
00:35:22.560 they were like important people kind of yeah i was like shaking i was so nervous and i was like
00:35:27.420 because i just moved here from ohio i don't know oh my god okay so you go in the room oh yeah
00:35:33.760 his game was like turning his back to me he was like being casual about the fact that he brought
00:35:38.220 like a little blonde girl to like eat dinner with his friends and like he was like playing it so cool
00:35:43.220 he was like nagging me kind of you know yeah he was like so you're the tiktok girl huh like how are
00:35:49.640 you and i was like yeah are you the old man trying to date the tiktok girl are you on tiktok.com
00:35:55.560 because he's so old oh my god oh my god and then so t bitch i and so i tell i start telling my
00:36:03.540 friends in la i'm like oh my god i went on a date with and they're like me too i did last night
00:36:10.340 and i was oh my god what a slut he's literally i mean oh my god the actual i cannot believe that
00:36:20.520 happened and like the waitress was around my age and we were looking at each other like what what are
00:36:24.800 you're like how i was like i want to be like you i want to be a waitress watching this i don't want
00:36:28.840 to do that that was like the weirdest thing that is so bizarre um anyway he has a daughter and i'm
00:36:35.320 closer to her age than his age you know it's just the ick the ick the ick coursing through my veins
00:36:41.460 i think it's so yeah see what i mean they don't get better with age like they just get worse our
00:36:48.200 conversations were exactly exactly the same as like mine with like any any 24 year old yeah
00:36:54.620 yeah did you did he talk about anything deep no he doesn't he's not capable he's not capable of
00:37:00.820 that did he talk did he ask you a lot of questions no was it more not a single question there you go
00:37:05.840 they loved it he wanted me as like an audience member for his comedy routine and anytime i interrupted
00:37:11.640 with like my own he's all the laugh factory so expensive i'd much rather just invite a bitch to
00:37:16.020 come sit and watch me talk at nobu if that's yeah it wasn't nobu by the way
00:37:20.280 it was worse no it was way worse you're not nobu worthy there's a rat
00:37:26.500 there's a rat what it ran outside yeah outside of the restaurant like we were sitting on the patio
00:37:32.940 he's like oh that's my friend yeah that's crazy that is so and when i pointed it out he was like
00:37:40.520 embarrassed he's like that's it he starts gaslighting you immediately yeah i don't see anything
00:37:45.660 i do you don't know anything there's a thing about you bitches you guys think you see things and you
00:37:49.840 don't yeah why does he also he's trying to date like every girl that is 23 24 like everyone has a
00:37:57.360 story about him it's not leonardo dicaprioli it's not it's not younger than that his demographic is
00:38:04.000 younger and 25 is too old for him too 25 is too old i don't know god damn that's great i'm making
00:38:12.640 that up i don't know it's too old for a lot of them honestly there are some men that like genuinely
00:38:17.680 that's too old which is just crazy that's because yeah because i'm in my anger phase i'm like why are
00:38:23.180 you dating a little girl well i always think too like what are we gonna talk about nothing he kept
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00:39:35.640 when i was 35 when i was born actually to be specific 35 my dad was 35 i remember my dad being
00:39:42.520 35 when and i i was conscious i should not be dating a guy like what are we going to talk about the
00:39:49.560 housing crisis like i like i wouldn't understand i don't know what was 2008 like i don't remember i
00:39:55.220 wasn't conscious i was in second grade so i don't and you make references and anyway he kept being
00:40:01.840 like you're smart for you're a girl your age and i'm like then why are you dating a girl my age like
00:40:07.200 that's you're smart for a girl your age and what's who's grooming me what's the gauge you laughing at
00:40:12.120 a joke you didn't understand me always laughing at jokes i did not understand you're so smart because
00:40:16.540 i understood none of them even though you didn't they weren't good you didn't get the reference at
00:40:20.280 all and you're like he's like you're so smart that's why i like you you're like yeah yeah for
00:40:24.940 sure hey i was lying and that's called acting and then you and then you do a self-tape for him and
00:40:30.620 then you tell him connect me tell the people in hollywood no he has no connections anymore like he's
00:40:35.820 too old no you can believe this too but yeah unless working he's not either so but he calls me like
00:40:42.560 the text and run girl like i'll reply like one time if he's offering me something cool then i reply
00:40:47.840 and then i disappear until the next like and he's like god i can't figure her out
00:40:52.400 yeah she's so hard to read such a oh man what a decode situation i wish i the hieroglyphics i just
00:41:00.420 can't seem to this girl only responds to me when i offer her opportunities to hang out with other
00:41:05.780 famous people that aren't right that's crazy that's crazy but she's like different you know
00:41:10.400 like she like likes me she's so smart she's see that's the crazy part is that you've tricked him
00:41:15.460 he's clearly not very smart right that's what i was like y'all don't give women nearly enough
00:41:19.820 credit of how they like manipulate at you like they men men like that don't give women enough
00:41:25.380 credit he thinks he's got you no no i don't think he thinks that he knows i think he i have him like
00:41:30.200 wrapped on my own no offense sorry i'm wrapped around my finger but i'm like i don't want him
00:41:37.740 around my finger i don't want him wrapped around anything girl can i get like a better one for my
00:41:42.000 finger i mean like higher status working okay so speaking of things for only women right that's
00:41:51.720 gonna be our topic our topic for today is it's for the girls or for the girls only right so uh
00:41:58.040 obviously becca knows all about that and we have many many stories i'm sure so for those of you who
00:42:02.240 don't know what we do here in the comment section is we bring videos that i was tagged in that are
00:42:06.040 applicable to our topic today we pull them apart kiki laugh all that fun stuff so we're gonna do
00:42:11.920 one video today and then we'll tell more stories hopefully so in this video a woman is using uh that
00:42:18.980 audio that was like remind me of your gender again remember that one uh right you're a boy and the
00:42:23.740 caption says when a guy wants to call a woman a bitch right and so many of the men in these in this
00:42:29.760 comment section were not happy with that shocker okay so this first comment says y'all are acting like
00:42:35.500 these words are slurs get well soon touch grass maybe do a digital detox i don't i'm not offended
00:42:42.100 by the word bitch to be honest like it doesn't hurt me when men try to call me a bitch but it i mean it
00:42:48.480 doesn't offend me but like i think that they it's always derogatory it is derogatory they view like
00:42:53.300 nice girl that is like submissive and then bitch you know yeah there's no in between levels so
00:42:58.940 yeah you're a nice girl i'm bitch yeah this one says but let a man just identify as a woman
00:43:07.140 and the misogyny and oppression just disappears right uh no not even a little bit men don't even
00:43:13.260 do that let a man let a man identify he's talking about trans women right so why would a man identify
00:43:19.760 he said the misogyny and oppression just disappears no actually it doubles take pass it to the next
00:43:26.340 person and double it that's literally what happens like it what are you dumb like what a stupid thing
00:43:31.020 to write they're like oh if i just called myself no they really hit send on that comment yeah really
00:43:35.640 and this last comment says she broke a girl's nose and cussed out a random teacher i'm pretty sure
00:43:42.200 i'm valid i think he means like the time he called someone a bitch i could do it again honestly
00:43:47.660 she should yeah i want to first i want to know why yeah why did she do that the teacher probably
00:43:52.320 deserved it no truly and second i feel like that's kind of tame right like you broke someone's nose
00:43:58.600 and they go what a bitch like that's like the most you do like that's not okay yeah also like they
00:44:05.300 think that like if a girl if a girl does like xyz then she's a bitch you know what i mean yeah like
00:44:11.140 it's that that's not real certain right like people there is no parameter like the word bitch
00:44:17.400 should be used by like girls only i don't know i don't think that men should i agree i agree too
00:44:24.320 i think also if they use it in terms anytime they're using it it's never like in a way that's
00:44:31.660 like i love you bitch like it's never like that no uh men like that it's always like uh oh she's
00:44:37.960 yeah or like quit being a bitch which is promoting toxic masculinity yeah it's all toxic
00:44:45.440 yeah it's just that word's not for you it's not that's for us and also i i'm not offended by that
00:44:51.780 word literally at all i've i've had men be like oh she's she's so for women but she calls people
00:44:58.180 bitch yeah yeah you're a bitch in fact you are and so is your mom uh i think bitch is a genderless
00:45:05.660 term it's not i i don't use it as like only for women mostly for men men should not be calling
00:45:13.060 girls bitches ever they should not you have no reason to no and even then like you're gonna say
00:45:18.540 in a mean way that i'm gonna be mean back and then you're gonna cry like a bitch would so there
00:45:22.780 you go it's pemdos it all cancels out at the end of the day i'm gonna start using that pemdos
00:45:28.440 pemdos you know what i mean i think it's uh one of those things too that like they just start
00:45:34.620 consistently looking for ways to like undercut things that women's women do like whether it's
00:45:39.920 taking agency and like calling each other bitches and being funny about it like taking the power away
00:45:45.220 from that word um they're just constantly like well what about what about this what about that i'm
00:45:49.640 like all of a sudden you care about like how words oppress people all of a sudden right all of a
00:45:53.860 sudden yeah sure yeah and like they call like they're like so you're saying amber heard isn't a
00:46:01.040 bitch like they they say things like that yeah and it's like no no she's done bad things but that
00:46:06.700 doesn't mean like yeah well it's also she's only a bitch you know yeah well i think that's why i said
00:46:12.380 like the way that they use that word is incorrect most times and always derogatory yeah it's never
00:46:19.520 in a loving way it's never in a like she's so cool way like that's my yeah that's my picture
00:46:26.320 you're that bitch it's never like no they're not capable of like humor like that no not at all
00:46:31.900 they're not even remotely funny so i was i was just talking about this with my boyfriend the other day
00:46:37.780 but i forget why but i was talking about like defending yourself standing up for yourself whatever
00:46:43.240 and how some people are like well i just think that it's so bad to like stoop to their level
00:46:49.780 by making fun of what they look like if they make fun of what you look like and i'm like okay well
00:46:55.680 then don't do it i'm going to yeah you don't have to but i always think if you remove every sense of
00:47:01.860 prejudice every bigotry race gender expression sexuality if you take all of that off the table
00:47:07.440 if someone calls you ugly for no reason why are you not allowed to say the same to them
00:47:13.720 that makes no sense like it's just like when you see someone being racist out in public and they get
00:47:19.740 knocked out are you like it should be not so bad for them no you're like i you took too long i wish
00:47:25.900 you did it sooner like you laugh and you giggle because you're like that's what you get i'm starting
00:47:30.160 to think okay last night i was falling asleep and i was like what is so wrong with the death penalty
00:47:35.300 when it comes to like narcissistic men yeah or something like that's like julia fox i saw julia
00:47:43.360 fox on z-way show what she was like do you think that men should be allowed to kill women no or no
00:47:48.800 do you think women should be allowed to kill men and julia fox was like yeah uh she goes men kill
00:47:55.340 women for no reason all the time so like our turn i'm not gonna kill anything we're not going to do
00:48:00.940 that but i'm just she's just like they're so okay with doing it but then the when it happens
00:48:06.300 like women standing up for themselves in any way they're like well that was too far why did why do
00:48:11.480 we have to have a better reaction like why do we have to be above like that's what i'm saying take
00:48:16.980 the high ground or like take the high road or whatever why i don't want to yeah i want to punch
00:48:22.000 my ex-boyfriend in the face when they say like you should high road i always go no thanks i don't
00:48:27.400 like that road i don't want to i don't want to anymore suddenly suddenly i can't drive so yeah
00:48:32.160 i honestly mad i'm mad at like every guy i've ever dated right now and i'm like oh like i want
00:48:38.420 something bad to happen to them feminine rage it's a great thing it's a tool use it use it to fuel you
00:48:42.980 i do in the gym every day but like i want to actually punch someone you should you should like
00:48:48.980 next person who's disrespectful or objectifies you or anything
00:48:52.480 i described an ick once where i said like when i'm watching men like in like terrible men like
00:49:01.600 enjoy themselves at a concert it like makes me sick to my stomach like watching them vibe
00:49:06.900 oh yeah kill me shoot me in the head that's why i'm done with the high ground i'm done
00:49:13.440 and i told that joke on tiktok and like oh my god the way people were like sometimes people like
00:49:21.200 to enjoy themselves alone i'm not talking about you bitch you know what i mean i was talking about
00:49:25.140 you i'm talking about the dude with a red neck and he's drunk already before the concert starts
00:49:29.680 he's topless even though it's nighttime and then he should have a shirt on and he's dancing and he's
00:49:36.380 just like feeling the music oh my the way i just want to rip my eyeballs out oh god my body right
00:49:42.520 take away the the power to see i just i can't i don't want to see it i don't want to see it maybe
00:49:46.880 i should be single for the rest of my life oh my god i have the ick for everyone i have the ick
00:49:53.380 for everyone like i know i was thinking oh my gosh just like when um i saw this one of this girl and it
00:50:00.940 was her boyfriend and they love each other and they're in they have a long standing relationship
00:50:05.680 whatever she was recording him and they were in one of those like jungle gym places like where
00:50:10.560 like obstacle courses and he was on a rope and he was trying to swing and like stop on like a
00:50:17.140 little marker and he like couldn't get the footing and she was like i've just unlocked the biggest
00:50:22.940 ick about my boyfriend no and the way some men were like he's just enjoying himself i'm like you guys
00:50:27.980 can't take a joke to save your life like also it is so funny like look at him he's struggling
00:50:33.740 she's like i thought my man was athletic i got the ick when i was oh my god when we were walking
00:50:40.140 somewhere and he got like the stop sign and we had to go back like you know when you're at a cross
00:50:44.760 roads and he got the stop sign and we had to go back walk back we were just a little bit
00:50:48.500 and also like he was the guy that people would like like he had to walk around people like people
00:50:56.520 weren't like moving over for him i got the ick i got the ick oh my god no no like he should like
00:51:02.040 why are you so like you shouldn't be able to move that easily
00:51:07.520 oh my god also like red light it's like something about being at a red light like
00:51:13.140 i don't know in the front seat of a man's car i'm like no no no no no when he's like singing a song
00:51:19.720 and stuff yeah or like no like when he has a red light like when he doesn't have the right of way
00:51:24.520 something when he has to stop in the car yeah when he has to follow traffic laws i'm like are you
00:51:29.520 kidding when he tries to get over but like that person gets oh yeah no yeah the person doesn't
00:51:35.220 let him over like no no ew oh the icks i've seen ones of like men jumping in like when they jump in
00:51:42.020 a pool but plug their nose oh my god why would you do that i don't know scared of like let it let it go
00:51:48.820 up there is what i think that's what i'd rather do that than be filmed doing that oh my god watching
00:51:53.560 them go like you know what i mean no no no oh my god i'm so icked out right now when it's cold
00:51:59.840 outside like they get a little cold at all like why are you cold don't yeah simply don't i don't
00:52:07.480 know yeah but also no blankets for you i've always said that no blankets but that's just i mean feel
00:52:14.500 those are only for the girls yeah for the girls not the guys you guys don't need those for what
00:52:19.600 for what you're so manly you should be warm you have all of you're the patriarchy you should have
00:52:26.460 some warmth in you i don't know when men like run forward in socks like if they're in like a tiled
00:52:32.660 house or something and they like run forward and they slide a little bit what you know what i mean
00:52:38.600 like like to be cute like they're like oh like trying to be like a little kid like tom cruise and
00:52:42.500 risky business you know i'm saying like like they do a little like slide no no no you're too excited
00:52:47.460 in an ankle sock you're too happy men in black ankle socks when has that been a thing i've never
00:52:53.940 even seen that does your boyfriend wear that no hell no why do you think it do you ever get
00:52:59.040 icked out by your boyfriend let me think not often not for a while like when we first started
00:53:07.260 dating i was icked out but that's because i was icked out by everybody yeah so i feel like i was
00:53:11.100 holding him to a standard of everybody impossible standard yeah yeah yeah like where i was like
00:53:16.900 oh i hate that i've told this before he's literally told me he's like please stop talking
00:53:22.480 about that it's like he's laughing he's laughing but like he used to tell these jokes that i like
00:53:28.820 just hated like oh my god they were yeah they weren't funny not even a little but like
00:53:35.700 they they bring the house down with like old white dudes oh so he was like using them all the time
00:53:42.720 around my family and i said the old white men aren't here put those away you know what i mean
00:53:48.680 the ick that would course in my veins because i would see my sister cringe and she'd be like
00:53:53.640 that wasn't funny that was so awful and she would tell me i don't think he's funny and i'm like that's
00:53:58.700 the most offensive thing you could ever say to me ever i would rather i would rather my family think
00:54:03.420 he's ugly than yeah he's not funny i agree because that means that's your intelligence you know
00:54:08.420 it's your personality yeah and i literally had to tell him please stop telling those jokes around
00:54:13.480 my family oh my god like what was he saying like he would he would do like i've told the doctor one
00:54:20.340 like on here before where like someone would say why can't you do this thing like like if he'd say
00:54:25.320 i'm not going to be there on saturday why he'd be like because my doctor said my doctor said i don't
00:54:30.780 get it no shit bitch why do you think my family would be like my doctor said oh my doctor said i
00:54:35.800 couldn't come yeah yeah like it's like i don't i don't get it see how no one laughed because it's
00:54:41.280 not funny and he would say that or they would say like when's the last time you did this and he would
00:54:47.380 say like back in what would he say it was like back in the summer of 72 the way i want to kill
00:54:52.760 myself talking about it my dad says that too i think i don't even know you look in your dad's mind
00:54:58.020 yeah my dad says that and a million like can i get you anything else and he says a million dollars
00:55:02.580 they go beyond i'm laughing because they go beyond dad jokes they're like not even dad jokes
00:55:10.220 they're just like weird things to say and i would tell him no more i never want to hear that joke
00:55:16.340 ever again did he receive it well though like did he stop using the joke yeah he did well he told me
00:55:22.040 why and i said you want me to be honest with you do you want me to lie and he said i want you to be
00:55:26.460 honest and i said it's not funny and i know you're funny but you're not being funny and i need you to
00:55:33.180 be funny yeah figure it out if you go back to the drawing boards my family needs to find you just as
00:55:38.900 hilarious you know what i'm saying and he was like okay like he didn't care because he was just so
00:55:43.440 like conditioned to say shit like that i like i don't know if it's like past relationship i have
00:55:48.520 no idea i think it's just because how he moves through life like especially white people they like
00:55:52.880 love to talk to him and like they see him as almost like a zoo animal so he had all these he had all
00:55:58.820 these like canned responses of things to say like they would say some anything to him and he'd be
00:56:03.760 like well that's what my doctor said and they'd be like you know what i mean so it's almost like he
00:56:08.940 was pavloved to do that and i yeah i had to like my dad i had to like lobotomize him i was like get it
00:56:15.420 out of there get it out of there bitch rip it out root and stem so no he doesn't do that anymore
00:56:20.960 but that did ick me out really bad i get the ick very easily like very easily yeah when they get
00:56:27.560 hot and they fan themselves like that i mean yeah i honor i don't know like if when they get sick
00:56:33.420 why are you sick oh my god yeah why would you get sick and then they act so dramatic they're like
00:56:37.900 i'm single that's probably what i was wondering no yeah i don't think i can date for a while
00:56:45.620 i think that's fair but i also want to like get revenge on everyone and like date like 200
00:56:52.360 people at the same time i don't know i would say only date for the stories now i've been on five
00:56:58.080 dates in the past two weeks oh look at you yeah putting in the work yeah none of them were like
00:57:03.220 great i mean on one of them i wasn't doing my best work though like i was just acting weird like
00:57:08.820 why did i do that but the other like the way you're like acting weird and you can't stop it for some
00:57:14.060 reason i wanted him i wanted to talk about ghost stories for some reason and he didn't believe
00:57:18.340 in ghosts but i was like i really want to talk about go i don't know why i don't know why i'm
00:57:22.840 embarrassed i don't know but the other ones it was not one of those where you just start lying and
00:57:27.360 you don't realize why you're doing it yeah why was i lying so much i kept like my backstory i was
00:57:32.220 like exaggerating my back i was like so yeah i came from a really impoverished lifestyle i mean my
00:57:36.920 family was poor but like i was making it seem like it was like you were like the little girl in annie
00:57:41.600 yeah like tomorrow yeah i don't know why i was doing that i don't know this is fun to lie
00:57:48.400 sometimes i like to lie yeah one thing about me one thing about me i love to lie i love to lie i
00:57:53.560 like you man you lie a lot i think that's that's fun to do to men because when you realize you don't
00:57:58.640 like them like when you're yeah when you say every yeah like and i mean lie about silly things like
00:58:03.400 you're like i used to be a national diver and they'd be like really and be like yeah yeah they'll
00:58:09.880 believe anything you say because they want to have sex with you they're not listening to what
00:58:14.280 you know not at all yeah i could say oh i'm an astronaut and they'd be like that's sick i'm in
00:58:19.180 finance that's cool yeah then they want to talk about the finance they're like anyways i've been
00:58:25.020 to the moon what are your thoughts on showering together yeah uh last story i'll tell when i was
00:58:30.780 in college i uh me and my girlfriend we went out we snuck into this club i don't recommend do as i
00:58:37.220 say not as i do but we were in this club sneak into clubs and these two these two guys came up to
00:58:42.500 us tall dudes tall white dudes they were probably each of like they were each like over six six
00:58:49.620 easily like like big big big dudes and uh they were talking to us australian australian dudes are
00:58:55.220 the worst and they know this like australian dudes are the worst they're very misogynistic
00:59:00.720 really yeah i don't know why i have a huge fan base over there now i know why uh and i've i've
00:59:06.720 like fucked up australian dudes a million times online because they're just that rancid but anyways
00:59:10.920 so i was talking to them this is probably the birth of my beef with australian dudes but like we're
00:59:16.100 talking to them and they basically tell us they're on vacation and we're like for what because i'm
00:59:20.140 pretending to care because they're giving drinks to us all night and then they're like oh we're on
00:59:24.480 vacation because they're olympians like they said they were olympians i was like same right when they're
00:59:30.480 talking to us and they're like no no like like we are like we're both like swimmers one of them was
00:59:36.080 from new zealand the other one was from australia and then i was like sure same like i was like
00:59:42.420 making jokes like that because i was like okay you ain't gotta lie to kick it you know what i mean
00:59:45.980 we're already here you got me yeah right and uh my girlfriend was laughing with me because we were
00:59:50.880 both being kind of mean but like i thought it was a joke and this guy was like i'm being dead serious
00:59:56.260 like i i've literally won like a gold medal and a bronze i'm all how old are you because those are
01:00:01.240 only every four years so he was like 38 i was 19 oh my god yeah so i was like oh too old uh but
01:00:10.780 anyways he was ugly so it didn't matter i was there for a check uh so then we were like vibing and then
01:00:16.400 he got so frustrated with my jokes about him being an olympian that he like took off his shirt to show me
01:00:22.000 that he had the tattoo like the olympic tattoo and then i go i could go into any tattoo shop and get
01:00:28.040 that was a new shit to me like i was literally trying to make him prove it to me but like i
01:00:31.500 didn't care that much but you know they take everything so seriously so then he was like i'll
01:00:35.840 prove it to you he googled himself oh and showed me his wikipedia page and then he went to the section
01:00:42.280 that says like awards or like wins or whatever and like showed it to me and then he was showing me
01:00:47.720 the pictures and he photographs terribly just as terribly as he looks in person and that's all i
01:00:51.820 really saw but i was like wow congrats that's the thing okay that's crazy he wanted you to be like
01:01:01.300 no way you're an olympian what instead you're like same he probably is obsessed with you now
01:01:07.140 i was like wow i was like yeah that's sick okay yeah i was like same they need you they need your
01:01:15.700 validation so yeah that's what i'm saying male validation is worthless but female validation
01:01:19.920 pays in spades bitch it really does my ex-boyfriend had a i know my ex-boyfriend had like a boat and i
01:01:28.000 was so excited to go get on his boat for the one night we were long distance so it's gonna be my
01:01:32.380 first time meeting him and he was like we can go on the boat i'm so excited and i was like oh my god
01:01:37.160 i want to go so fast turns out it's a pontoon boat doesn't have like a motor thing or whatever
01:01:44.700 and he was like why would you say that like i don't even know his masculinity
01:01:48.560 oh i was like no i love pontoon boats i had to google what it was like that's cute that's cute
01:01:56.400 i could buy one i'll buy you a boat babe i'll get one and then we can have matching ones yeah
01:02:00.920 well he did buy me a jet ski on my birthday but i never got to use it what a strange gift he cheated
01:02:06.200 on me he cheated anyway that's for another day what a strange gift it was a used jet ski
01:02:11.860 it wasn't even a new one didn't you say you're from ohio yeah what do you know it was for him
01:02:16.320 for it was for him he bought it for himself have fun with your little pontoon your boat sucks by the
01:02:22.780 way yeah it does suck okay that's gonna do it for this episode of the comment section show i want
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