The Golden One - A Man's Most Important Quality – Life Advice For Young Men (Women, Business, etc.)

00:00:00.880 Greetings my esteemed audience, a young sensitive poet here, checking in from a beautiful and

00:00:06.080 frozen Hyperborea.

00:00:08.320 I'm checking in with an insight which will hopefully be useful to you.

00:00:13.200 So this is me, a venerable ancient, giving some life advice to younger men.

00:00:19.920 So this is a follow-up to the video titled No One Is Coming To Save You.

00:00:24.480 And I thought to give my take on the question at hand, which is of course, as you might

00:00:29.480 see in the title, what the most important quality for a man is.

00:00:34.720 And that is, in my humble opinion, it's your word, your reputation, your gravitas, your

00:00:39.360 honor.

00:00:40.520 And that is something that you will most likely learn as you progress through life.

00:00:45.580 So for women it's of course also very important, but for a man the metaphysical quality of your

00:00:51.880 word is super important.

00:00:53.840 And when I say metaphysical, I am the first one to say to you that you should take care

00:00:57.760 of your physical first also, always start there and then the metaphysical benefits will

00:01:03.520 come to you.

00:01:04.400 So we can take, we can use an example such as going to the gym to get stronger in the

00:01:08.880 deadlift for example.

00:01:10.920 It's not only a matter of going in there to train hard, you also need to take care of

00:01:15.000 your other factors in life.

00:01:16.520 You need to sleep well and eat well and properly plan the session and you need to show discipline,

00:01:21.520 willpower and all of these things.

00:01:23.360 And those aspects will, hopefully, they will have a positive impact on other things in

00:01:29.280 life.

00:01:30.280 Now also on a related note, we can talk about such a thing as height for men.

00:01:34.760 Height for men and attraction from females.

00:01:37.080 I know it's a popular topic to talk about when we're talking about looks maxing and everything

00:01:41.540 like that.

00:01:42.540 And yes, of course, a woman will, she will like a tall, handsome man with a nice physique,

00:01:49.700 a beautiful man, simply put.

00:01:51.880 But you can also notice that many men, many powerful men, they are quite short and perhaps

00:01:58.220 they don't look like fitness models, but they still have really beautiful women. 0.89

00:02:03.560 Why is that?

00:02:04.560 Yes, it's because they have a good standing.

00:02:06.400 They are on top of a male hierarchy. 0.95

00:02:08.540 And this is good, this is a healthy female impulse, female sexuality, to be drawn to

00:02:13.900 men that are in good standing.

00:02:15.880 It's completely normal.

00:02:17.720 So if you ever feel insecure about your height, then don't.

00:02:22.540 Just look at some high, two, most powerful guys and yeah, they can get plenty of attraction

00:02:28.020 from women because of their standing in a hierarchy. 0.97

00:02:31.980 So work on that instead.

00:02:33.400 You can do it in a metaphysical sense that the metaphysical qualities, the qualities that

00:02:39.480 are beyond the physical, they are actually more important.

00:02:42.360 You will notice that.

00:02:43.360 Now, to use an example, you can have a tall, good looking, handsome, well-trained fitness

00:02:48.400 model kind of guy.

00:02:50.960 And then you will have a shorter guy who is perhaps not as good looking, but he is higher

00:02:55.580 up in a certain hierarchy.

00:02:57.960 And you will notice that the guy who is not as good looking, he might still get more attention

00:03:05.180 from females just because he is higher in the hierarchy.

00:03:09.140 So something to keep in mind, and this is also a good lesson that we can use for other

00:03:14.200 aspects in life.

00:03:15.740 So it's not about your physique, it's not about your physical qualities necessarily, often

00:03:20.740 it is, but not always.

00:03:22.420 It's also about your metaphysical qualities, and what I mean with that is your reputation,

00:03:27.080 your honor, your gravitas, where you stand, how much status you have in a group.

00:03:32.340 So this is good.

00:03:33.340 It's perfectly normal.

00:03:34.340 Just as it's normal for a woman to want to have a beautiful, well-trained, physically

00:03:38.140 fit man, it's also normal for a woman to be attracted to a man of high status.

00:03:42.700 So this can explain a lot, and it's good to keep these things in mind so that you train

00:03:46.300 both your physical attributes, but also your other attributes, which are connected of course.

00:03:53.960 Now, as I said, these two things, they are of course very related.

00:03:57.280 If you do train your physique, you will hopefully train your other qualities as well, so that

00:04:01.020 you will be more disciplined and everything like that.

00:04:04.960 Now, on to a more career or business aspect of it all.

00:04:09.620 Very connected.

00:04:10.620 So the most important thing for you, and I say this as a venerable ancient and someone

00:04:15.420 who has done business for quite a while now actually, I will say that your reputation is

00:04:21.620 absolutely gold.

00:04:22.620 It's the gold standard of all your dealings.

00:04:24.620 So if you're known as a guy, as a man with a good reputation, such as myself, my reputation

00:04:30.280 is gold, absolutely is, because I have trained it.

00:04:34.300 I have trained it for a long time, I've done good honorable deeds for such a long time.

00:04:38.680 I'm always very punctual with all invoices, all business dealings, everything like that.

00:04:43.380 So everyone who has ever done business with me knows that, yeah, this is a guy who we can

00:04:48.480 completely trust because he's always very punctual, very on point with everything he does.

00:04:53.380 So therefore everything beyond that, it goes easier and smoother and faster and better

00:04:59.380 in every way.

00:05:00.620 And of course you have to build up that relationship with someone.

00:05:03.540 So if you start a business and you have, you initiate a partnership with someone, it's

00:05:09.140 normal if they are a bit hesitant at first.

00:05:11.780 But then when you've shown your qualities over a long period of time, over years, then they

00:05:16.000 know, yeah, this guy is, it's a good man and he keeps his word.

00:05:19.760 And that will also give you a lot of freedom later on to say that, you know, I can't

00:05:23.380 do this now, but I will do it later.

00:05:27.200 And they will say, yeah, yeah, no issue at all, we trust this guy because he always does

00:05:30.780 the right thing.

00:05:32.380 Same thing if we're talking again about a romantic game.

00:05:35.560 Back in a more traditional society when a young woman's family was more involved in selecting 1.00

00:05:41.480 a partner.

00:05:42.480 Now I'm not for arranged marriages, but I'm for still a system where the family, both men

00:05:48.560 and women. 0.98

00:05:49.560 So the mother, father, brothers, they have a say in who is a good man for a young woman.

00:05:54.380 So they can say this guy is a man of good standing.

00:05:56.960 He has a good reputation.

00:05:58.760 He's not known as a bad man.

00:06:01.960 He's known as a good man who shows up on time.

00:06:04.380 He does his work.

00:06:05.380 He is conscientious and punctual and everything like that.

00:06:08.840 Then that woman will know, okay, this is a good match for me because she has those references 1.00

00:06:14.200 already.

00:06:15.200 A reference from her brother saying that this man is someone I can trust when push comes

00:06:19.940 to shove.

00:06:21.880 Or if she's interested in a man, but her brother says this is not a good man because you can't

00:06:26.380 trust him, then it goes away in the selection immediately.

00:06:29.760 So if you build up your gravitas, your reputation, and everyone knows that you're a good stable

00:06:34.580 man, everything will be better for you.

00:06:37.340 So just as I said in the previous video that you're useless until proven otherwise. 0.91

00:06:42.920 A bit click-baity title, but the teaching, it still stands.

00:06:46.260 I think it's a good teaching.

00:06:47.260 I think it's a good mentality to have.

00:06:50.000 So just there you have to prove yourself continuously.

00:06:53.480 And the same thing when it comes to reputation.

00:06:55.280 You have to prove yourself all the time.

00:06:57.600 But if you are a young guy right now, think of this.

00:07:01.100 And everything you do, exactly everything you do, because as we've said before, the

00:07:05.360 hermetic teaching of as above, so below, it's true here as well, and vice versa.

00:07:11.920 So what you do in the small things in life, it's also what you do in the big things in

00:07:15.540 life.

00:07:16.540 So again, had I a younger sister and she came to me and said, you know, what do you think

00:07:23.180 of these different guys?

00:07:24.780 And I can judge them on everything they do.

00:07:27.280 I will judge them on absolutely everything.

00:07:29.500 I will judge them how they park their car, how they dress, how they take care of everything.

00:07:35.440 I will go and inspect their living quarters to see how well they make their beds.

00:07:41.360 Because if you're thorough and diligent in one aspect of life, then you will be so in

00:07:45.340 other aspects as well.

00:07:47.540 Now I'm not saying that you can't be a good man if you don't make your bed.

00:07:50.380 I'm saying that you can always judge someone on how they do things.

00:07:54.780 So if someone does something thoroughly, and it might be something that isn't necessarily

00:08:00.580 super important for someone else, but if you do everything in a good way, that will be

00:08:05.880 a good sign that you do other things, bigger, more important things also in a good way.

00:08:09.800 And this is also how I approach my businesses.

00:08:12.920 But I want to have everything top-notch quality, and I'm very happy with all products except

00:08:17.100 the shakers. 0.84

00:08:18.100 I still have to look for a great shaker. 0.99

00:08:20.920 But otherwise I'm really happy with all the products, because I always take care to make

00:08:25.860 the best possible product.

00:08:27.420 And, you know, have them ethically made in Europe and everything like that.

00:08:32.120 And this also goes into my reputation, of course, that I take often the hard way by doing

00:08:37.500 the right thing, but it will be good in the long run.

00:08:41.340 And this also comes into a very European thing, and that is to have a low time preference.

00:08:46.140 So I don't need to have a good business success right now, but I need to have a good reputation

00:08:51.580 in 10 years.

00:08:52.840 So no matter which endeavor I embark upon, if I go into politics and everyone knows,

00:08:57.780 yeah, this man is a good, decent, honorable man, because I have been observing his business

00:09:03.240 endeavors for 10 years, for 15 years, then you know I'm a good man.

00:09:07.620 And this is also hopefully what everyone who's watching this right now will say, that yeah,

00:09:11.780 this is a good man I trust, based on his good reputation over all of these years.

00:09:17.520 And I'm not saying that you can't make mistakes, I've certainly made mistakes myself.

00:09:21.600 But ultimately, you can see that I have a good heart.

00:09:24.600 So anyway, enough narcissism on my part here.

00:09:27.320 I just wanted to say that when you take the harder road, the decent road, that will be

00:09:33.620 beneficial in the long run.

00:09:34.980 So even if you see some other guys, they're doing some dodgy business and they get good

00:09:40.240 results fast, but in the long run it's not good.

00:09:43.220 So it's the same thing if you take steroids when you're young.

00:09:46.100 When you're under 25 and you see some other guys, they take steroids, they balloon up fast,

00:09:51.820 they get really massive really quickly, and then you decide to do it the proper way, the

00:09:55.660 natural way.

00:09:56.660 Then in 10 years, such as I have, I've trained for over 10 years now, always natural, and

00:10:02.100 I don't need to train particularly much to maintain a good physique.

00:10:06.540 Because the body, the natural training I've done, it's built up to that level.

00:10:10.780 So I don't need so much training to maintain it.

00:10:14.000 But if you've built your physique with steroids, you go off the steroids, you will feel, you

00:10:18.300 will not look as good anymore.

00:10:20.620 And also you might mess up your hormonal health.

00:10:23.700 So it's always the long way, or the short way, the long way is better in the long run.

00:10:28.880 So have a low time preference, do the right thing, and you will see that in the long run

00:10:32.940 you will benefit from it.

00:10:35.740 Now again, this teaching can be applied to anything in life really.

00:10:39.980 So if you're known as a guy who takes care of business, who is reliable, if your word

00:10:44.500 is gold, everything in life will be easier and better for you.

00:10:48.620 So do think of that, especially if you're a young guy, think of that.

00:10:53.920 And also think of the fact that what you do in things that might not seem to be so important,

00:11:01.120 it will also reflect on the bigger decisions you make.

00:11:04.360 So try to think always to keep yourself to a certain standard, a good standard, and it

00:11:09.560 will be easier to keep yourself to that standard when the big decisions come as well.

00:11:14.840 So anyway, thank you for watching, thank you for your support, do check out all the links

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00:11:20.480 XXO BOOM!

00:11:22.480 We'll see you soon.

00:11:24.480 Goodbye!

00:11:26.480 Jean-

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The Golden One - December 04, 2023

A Man's Most Important Quality – Life Advice For Young Men (Women, Business, etc.)

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