A Man's Most Important Quality – Life Advice For Young Men (Women, Business, etc.)
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In this episode, I give my opinion on what the most important quality for a man is, and why it is more than just physical attributes. It is your word, your reputation, your honor, your integrity, your honour, and your integrity are more important than your physical attributes, at least in my humble opinion.
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Greetings my esteemed audience, a young sensitive poet here, checking in from a beautiful and
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I'm checking in with an insight which will hopefully be useful to you.
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So this is me, a venerable ancient, giving some life advice to younger men.
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So this is a follow-up to the video titled No One Is Coming To Save You.
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And I thought to give my take on the question at hand, which is of course, as you might
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see in the title, what the most important quality for a man is.
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And that is, in my humble opinion, it's your word, your reputation, your gravitas, your
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And that is something that you will most likely learn as you progress through life.
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So for women it's of course also very important, but for a man the metaphysical quality of your
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And when I say metaphysical, I am the first one to say to you that you should take care
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of your physical first also, always start there and then the metaphysical benefits will
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So we can take, we can use an example such as going to the gym to get stronger in the
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It's not only a matter of going in there to train hard, you also need to take care of
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You need to sleep well and eat well and properly plan the session and you need to show discipline,
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And those aspects will, hopefully, they will have a positive impact on other things in
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Now also on a related note, we can talk about such a thing as height for men.
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I know it's a popular topic to talk about when we're talking about looks maxing and everything
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And yes, of course, a woman will, she will like a tall, handsome man with a nice physique,
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But you can also notice that many men, many powerful men, they are quite short and perhaps
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they don't look like fitness models, but they still have really beautiful women.
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And this is good, this is a healthy female impulse, female sexuality, to be drawn to
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So if you ever feel insecure about your height, then don't.
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Just look at some high, two, most powerful guys and yeah, they can get plenty of attraction
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from women because of their standing in a hierarchy.
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You can do it in a metaphysical sense that the metaphysical qualities, the qualities that
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are beyond the physical, they are actually more important.
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Now, to use an example, you can have a tall, good looking, handsome, well-trained fitness
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And then you will have a shorter guy who is perhaps not as good looking, but he is higher
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And you will notice that the guy who is not as good looking, he might still get more attention
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from females just because he is higher in the hierarchy.
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So something to keep in mind, and this is also a good lesson that we can use for other
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So it's not about your physique, it's not about your physical qualities necessarily, often
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It's also about your metaphysical qualities, and what I mean with that is your reputation,
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your honor, your gravitas, where you stand, how much status you have in a group.
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Just as it's normal for a woman to want to have a beautiful, well-trained, physically
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fit man, it's also normal for a woman to be attracted to a man of high status.
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So this can explain a lot, and it's good to keep these things in mind so that you train
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both your physical attributes, but also your other attributes, which are connected of course.
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Now, as I said, these two things, they are of course very related.
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If you do train your physique, you will hopefully train your other qualities as well, so that
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you will be more disciplined and everything like that.
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Now, on to a more career or business aspect of it all.
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So the most important thing for you, and I say this as a venerable ancient and someone
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who has done business for quite a while now actually, I will say that your reputation is
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So if you're known as a guy, as a man with a good reputation, such as myself, my reputation
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is gold, absolutely is, because I have trained it.
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I have trained it for a long time, I've done good honorable deeds for such a long time.
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I'm always very punctual with all invoices, all business dealings, everything like that.
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So everyone who has ever done business with me knows that, yeah, this is a guy who we can
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completely trust because he's always very punctual, very on point with everything he does.
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So therefore everything beyond that, it goes easier and smoother and faster and better
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And of course you have to build up that relationship with someone.
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So if you start a business and you have, you initiate a partnership with someone, it's
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But then when you've shown your qualities over a long period of time, over years, then they
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know, yeah, this guy is, it's a good man and he keeps his word.
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And that will also give you a lot of freedom later on to say that, you know, I can't
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And they will say, yeah, yeah, no issue at all, we trust this guy because he always does
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Same thing if we're talking again about a romantic game.
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Back in a more traditional society when a young woman's family was more involved in selecting
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Now I'm not for arranged marriages, but I'm for still a system where the family, both men
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So the mother, father, brothers, they have a say in who is a good man for a young woman.
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So they can say this guy is a man of good standing.
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He is conscientious and punctual and everything like that.
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Then that woman will know, okay, this is a good match for me because she has those references
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A reference from her brother saying that this man is someone I can trust when push comes
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Or if she's interested in a man, but her brother says this is not a good man because you can't
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trust him, then it goes away in the selection immediately.
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So if you build up your gravitas, your reputation, and everyone knows that you're a good stable
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So just as I said in the previous video that you're useless until proven otherwise.
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A bit click-baity title, but the teaching, it still stands.
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So just there you have to prove yourself continuously.
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And the same thing when it comes to reputation.
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But if you are a young guy right now, think of this.
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And everything you do, exactly everything you do, because as we've said before, the
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hermetic teaching of as above, so below, it's true here as well, and vice versa.
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So what you do in the small things in life, it's also what you do in the big things in
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So again, had I a younger sister and she came to me and said, you know, what do you think
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I will judge them how they park their car, how they dress, how they take care of everything.
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I will go and inspect their living quarters to see how well they make their beds.
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Because if you're thorough and diligent in one aspect of life, then you will be so in
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Now I'm not saying that you can't be a good man if you don't make your bed.
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I'm saying that you can always judge someone on how they do things.
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So if someone does something thoroughly, and it might be something that isn't necessarily
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super important for someone else, but if you do everything in a good way, that will be
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a good sign that you do other things, bigger, more important things also in a good way.
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But I want to have everything top-notch quality, and I'm very happy with all products except
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But otherwise I'm really happy with all the products, because I always take care to make
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And, you know, have them ethically made in Europe and everything like that.
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And this also goes into my reputation, of course, that I take often the hard way by doing
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the right thing, but it will be good in the long run.
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And this also comes into a very European thing, and that is to have a low time preference.
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So I don't need to have a good business success right now, but I need to have a good reputation
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So no matter which endeavor I embark upon, if I go into politics and everyone knows,
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yeah, this man is a good, decent, honorable man, because I have been observing his business
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endeavors for 10 years, for 15 years, then you know I'm a good man.
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And this is also hopefully what everyone who's watching this right now will say, that yeah,
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this is a good man I trust, based on his good reputation over all of these years.
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And I'm not saying that you can't make mistakes, I've certainly made mistakes myself.
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But ultimately, you can see that I have a good heart.
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I just wanted to say that when you take the harder road, the decent road, that will be
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So even if you see some other guys, they're doing some dodgy business and they get good
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results fast, but in the long run it's not good.
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So it's the same thing if you take steroids when you're young.
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When you're under 25 and you see some other guys, they take steroids, they balloon up fast,
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they get really massive really quickly, and then you decide to do it the proper way, the
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Then in 10 years, such as I have, I've trained for over 10 years now, always natural, and
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I don't need to train particularly much to maintain a good physique.
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Because the body, the natural training I've done, it's built up to that level.
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So I don't need so much training to maintain it.
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But if you've built your physique with steroids, you go off the steroids, you will feel, you
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And also you might mess up your hormonal health.
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So it's always the long way, or the short way, the long way is better in the long run.
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So have a low time preference, do the right thing, and you will see that in the long run
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Now again, this teaching can be applied to anything in life really.
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So if you're known as a guy who takes care of business, who is reliable, if your word
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is gold, everything in life will be easier and better for you.
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So do think of that, especially if you're a young guy, think of that.
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And also think of the fact that what you do in things that might not seem to be so important,
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it will also reflect on the bigger decisions you make.
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So try to think always to keep yourself to a certain standard, a good standard, and it
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will be easier to keep yourself to that standard when the big decisions come as well.
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