The Golden One - A Mother's Love. A Woman's Love. Unconditional Love. Conditional Love. Female Hypergamy

00:00:00.960 Greetings my esteemed audience. I'm checking in from a rainy forest of enlightenment

00:00:07.360 and I thought to elaborate on the nature of love. I'm checking in in the form of a sensitive poet

00:00:14.880 and as such it pains me to share such unromantic insights as I will share in this fine video.

00:00:23.200 So as you see in the title, a mother's love and unconditional love. What does it mean?

00:00:29.840 Yes, simply put it means that there's one person in the world who loves you unconditionally.

00:00:35.520 She loves you no matter what. Then of course you have exceptions. Maybe you have a

00:00:40.320 grandmother who does the same but I'm painting with a very broad brush here. So we're painting a

00:00:46.720 broad picture of the of the situation at hand. So yeah, take it for what it is. There are as always

00:00:54.080 many exceptions but it's usually the case that your mother loves you unconditionally.

00:01:00.160 Most mothers do at least. And this is also something you can see if you have some sort 0.55

00:01:05.360 of criminal who's been shot by the police and then you'll have the mother crying and saying

00:01:09.840 that he was a good boy. Because for most mothers it doesn't really matter what happens. Their beloved

00:01:17.920 boy, their beloved son will always be in their eyes a good boy. But the world might see it in a

00:01:24.480 different way of course. Now this can be contrasted against a woman's love. A woman's love which is

00:01:31.360 very conditional. It depends on your performance as a man. And now this is the unromantic part here,

00:01:37.440 which I don't really like to talk about because, as I said, I'm a sensitive romantic poet who believes

00:01:45.200 in love and nice epic love poems and the like. But yeah, we need to be real about the situation

00:01:53.120 because the Pandora's box is opened and the deeper, darker aspects of female psychology, 1.00

00:02:02.080 they are out in the open. So it's better that you hear this insight from me now than that you

00:02:08.880 experience it for yourself. So basically I said in a few videos, I've said that

00:02:16.720 you as a man, you create your value. So a woman already has her value because she is biologically 1.00

00:02:23.280 more valuable. And as a man you have to create your value. So for your mother you're valuable as

00:02:29.120 you are, but for others you're only so much worth as the value you can bring to others.

00:02:36.560 Same thing in a love relationship, that a woman will of course determine the quality of a man. 1.00

00:02:43.840 Now a woman's attraction will of course depend on a wide variety of factors. A primary one is drive, 1.00

00:02:51.360 ambition, your thumos. Now to properly understand this we need to view it in an evolutionary sense.

00:02:58.480 You have a woman, she is her survival and the survival of her children 0.99

00:03:05.520 depends on the man's capability. So she is by necessity allergic to behaviors in a man

00:03:12.160 that could spell death literally for her and her offspring. So if she perceives the man as being weak,

00:03:18.720 being lazy, being stupid, all of these things, being cowardly, all of these things, then she will 1.00

00:03:24.160 lose attraction. Because it's not a good investment for a woman to be with a man who 1.00

00:03:29.680 will put her in danger because he's incompetent. So that is completely normal, it's fine. So it doesn't

00:03:35.840 make women bad or anything, it's not a bad evolutionary trait, it's completely normal. Of

00:03:40.640 course a woman needs to look out for herself and her children. And for a woman she's always, 0.98

00:03:46.640 you know, again unconditional love from the mother to her children. And therefore she needs to be on the

00:03:52.080 lookout for bad signs in the man. So weakness or cowardice. And when I say weakness I don't mean that

00:03:58.880 you need to be deadlifting 300 kilos. There are plenty of complete cowards who are, you know, 0.98

00:04:05.440 pseudo tough guys. You have powerlifters, strongmen, martial artists, they are complete cowards when push 0.99

00:04:12.240 comes to shove. When the heat comes on they crack because they don't have that axis mundi within them, 0.55

00:04:16.960 they don't have that genuine strength and toughness. But usually it's the case that if a man is physically

00:04:22.560 strong he's also mentally strong because the two go hand in hand. But when I say strength it's the strength to be

00:04:28.960 a stable rock in her life, in her children's life. So you need to become the axis mundi

00:04:35.680 that she can rely on in all circumstances. And now we get into the question,

00:04:42.400 should you ever cry in front of your wife? Well, the short answer is no, but there are also situations

00:04:49.120 where it's completely fine. The part that is not fine is when you show hesitation and you show

00:04:56.000 that you feel hopeless. That type of cry that causes terror and fear in her and of course

00:05:02.480 makes her lose attraction to you. But if you cry for some other reason, whatever it might be,

00:05:08.000 maybe you cry for the beauty of a landscape or whatever it might be. I don't say that you

00:05:16.080 should do it, but there's different types of emotional states of consciousness. So the type

00:05:25.360 of emotion you should never show is this hopelessness and lack of drive, laziness and

00:05:32.640 you know, you feel despair. So you should never despair. You can be sad or you can be sensitive,

00:05:39.680 but it should never be because you are insecure or if you feel hopeless or anything like that,

00:05:44.880 because that in her evolutionary mind is, you know, it spells that you're afraid to go out of

00:05:51.040 the cave to hunt mega fauna to supply for her and her children, evolutionary speaking. Now again,

00:05:57.840 I'm painting with a very broad brush here. And if you are, if you have gotten a man cold and you bemoan

00:06:04.480 your fate, any good loving, good loving wife, she will nurse you back to health and not think twice 1.00

00:06:10.480 about it. But if you have a, if she observes a pattern, a habit in you that is, you know, has to do

00:06:18.240 with laziness, for example, yeah, that can be, that can make her lose attraction for you. And then she 1.00

00:06:25.840 perceives, not logically, but her evolutionary psychology, it interprets that as a, as a mortal

00:06:34.240 danger for her and her children, that you don't have the, the drive, the ambition to go out of

00:06:39.600 the cave to hunt said mega fauna. Now I'm just using this as an example, but hopefully you know

00:06:45.440 what I mean. And now a note on female hypergamy. There are good aspects and bad aspects of it. 1.00

00:06:53.040 So we need to make the, a distinction between a married woman, a woman with children, and an unmarried 0.99

00:06:59.200 woman without children. Now there is, in my mind, it is completely normal, natural, and even good for

00:07:06.160 a woman to leave a man, if she perceives him as being unable to do his duty. So it's usually quite 1.00

00:07:13.840 common to see men lamenting the fact that women don't want to settle down to have children, but

00:07:20.560 in many situations it's because of the man. He isn't ready. He isn't ready. He doesn't have the

00:07:25.040 courage to settle down and to have children. Now I'm not talking about these American conservatives

00:07:31.920 to say you need to man up and marry a woman with a very long, very large body count. I'm not saying

00:07:39.680 that. I'm saying that there are men, young men, if they've been together with their girlfriend for

00:07:46.960 a few years. She wants to have babies, of course, because that's what all women want. Maybe she doesn't 1.00

00:07:53.280 say it, but you should be able to understand that she does want it, whether she says it or not.

00:07:58.400 It's completely normal. And now she might perceive that the man, he's lazy, he doesn't want to, he

00:08:04.400 can't give her what she wants. Babies, a family. Yeah, then it's completely normal if she decides to 0.98

00:08:10.160 leave him to find a man who can actually do his duty, who can actually fulfill her as a woman, by 1.00

00:08:16.400 simply put, impregnating her. So huge difference between a married woman with children and an 1.00

00:08:23.200 unmarried woman without children. Now, since we are on the topic, I'm of course completely against

00:08:28.560 no-fault divorce, because the primary victim of a divorce is the child or the children. So that is

00:08:35.040 a completely different thing. And if I have any young woman listening to this, it's quite easy actually.

00:08:41.360 It's quite easy. This is how it's been done for, in every culture, in every time basically,

00:08:46.800 perennial wisdom from the golden one right here. So if he doesn't want children with you,

00:08:52.800 now I'm not saying that it needs to happen now, perhaps your living situation is not optimal for it,

00:08:57.920 but if he doesn't, if he doesn't have a plan, if you don't have a plan, then he has no business

00:09:04.320 being intimate with you. If he doesn't want to have, if he doesn't want to create a family, then

00:09:11.120 you shouldn't give up yourself to him, simply put. So if you want a family, if you want children,

00:09:16.800 then you say that to him, that okay, either we make a plan, it doesn't need to happen right now,

00:09:22.240 but we should have a plan. And if he says, no, I'm not ready, then you say, okay, then I close my legs

00:09:27.600 and then we can break up because this isn't leading anywhere. And then you can find a man

00:09:34.240 who's ready to actually create something with you instead of just wasting time. So a bit of tough

00:09:41.280 love here from me, a bit of tough love, but it needs to be said. And of course, if you're a man,

00:09:46.880 perhaps I'll make a separate video saying, make your girlfriend pregnant or leave her, 1.00

00:09:52.320 something like that. But it's also true that if you have a relationship and if you aren't ready

00:09:57.520 for some reason, then let her go, let her go so she can find someone to start a family with, because 1.00

00:10:03.280 women are more time sensitive, as it were. They can't waste as much time as a man. I don't think 1.00

00:10:09.760 you should waste too much time as a man either, by the way. But yeah, the honorable thing is to do then

00:10:15.760 when you have come to this realization at least. This is new knowledge for many guys, of course,

00:10:23.040 because you've been taught by contemporary culture that the right thing is to focus on your own

00:10:29.440 pleasure and not take responsibility. And a child is such a such a burden. It is not a burden. A child

00:10:36.400 is a blessing, by the way. So to conclude, a mother's love, unconditional, she will love you no matter

00:10:43.120 what you do. This is good and bad. If that's the only type of love, if you don't get any tough love

00:10:48.720 from others in your life, then it might be bad, because then you expect to be loved no matter

00:10:53.760 what you do. But it's also good to have that safe haven in the form of a mother who will always be

00:10:59.600 there for you no matter what. But when it comes to a woman's love, it is conditional. It depends on 0.82

00:11:05.200 your value, your value and usefulness to her and her children. And this is something good in a woman.

00:11:10.640 It's a good, normal, natural evolutionary trait of a woman. And it will keep you sharp as well. 1.00

00:11:16.480 So I've seen over all of these years, I've seen a few guys, they are in a good shape, they're driven,

00:11:23.360 and then they end up in a relationship. They think the the quest stops there because they've already

00:11:29.200 gotten the woman. But the hard part is not to get a woman, it's to keep a woman interested in you,

00:11:35.360 attracted to you, and then you can't just stop. Because that's, you know, she's attracted to your drive 0.88

00:11:40.320 and to retain the attraction you need to retain your drive. Simple stuff really. So you need to be

00:11:45.520 jacked, you need to go to the gym, you need to do deadlifts if you can. Perhaps you have an issue

00:11:50.160 with your back, then you shouldn't. Then you can do some bench press, you should train, train some MMA,

00:11:55.200 train some with firearms as well. Do be a good dependable man and also have that axis mundi within

00:12:02.960 you, have that inner strength, so that she can always rely on you to be a calm presence.

00:12:08.480 No one expects you to be a superman, but at least you can be a calm, confident presence in her life

00:12:14.560 that she can always lean on and rely on. So even if you get, even if you are sick or if you are weak

00:12:20.720 temporarily, as long as you maintain your inner, your spiritual composure, then all will be well.

00:12:27.120 So yeah, something to keep in mind that don't stop developing yourself just because you end up in

00:12:32.240 the relationship. You need to continue, because otherwise she might perceive that as a bad trait

00:12:38.480 in you, as a bad habit, and then she will lose attraction and then yeah, it's downhill from there.

00:12:43.440 So do keep the greater goal in mind and push towards excellence and yeah, all will be well.

00:12:50.080 So anyway, thank you for listening to my ramblings here out in a somewhat dreary Hyperborea. 0.55

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The Golden One - February 24, 2024

A Mother's Love. A Woman's Love. Unconditional Love. Conditional Love. Female Hypergamy

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