The Golden One - February 24, 2024


A Mother's Love. A Woman's Love. Unconditional Love. Conditional Love. Female Hypergamy


Episode Stats

Length

13 minutes

Words per Minute

174.63739

Word Count

2,376

Sentence Count

131

Misogynist Sentences

19

Hate Speech Sentences

19


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.960 Greetings my esteemed audience. I'm checking in from a rainy forest of enlightenment
00:00:07.360 and I thought to elaborate on the nature of love. I'm checking in in the form of a sensitive poet
00:00:14.880 and as such it pains me to share such unromantic insights as I will share in this fine video.
00:00:23.200 So as you see in the title, a mother's love and unconditional love. What does it mean?
00:00:29.840 Yes, simply put it means that there's one person in the world who loves you unconditionally.
00:00:35.520 She loves you no matter what. Then of course you have exceptions. Maybe you have a
00:00:40.320 grandmother who does the same but I'm painting with a very broad brush here. So we're painting a
00:00:46.720 broad picture of the of the situation at hand. So yeah, take it for what it is. There are as always
00:00:54.080 many exceptions but it's usually the case that your mother loves you unconditionally.
00:01:00.160 Most mothers do at least. And this is also something you can see if you have some sort
00:01:05.360 of criminal who's been shot by the police and then you'll have the mother crying and saying
00:01:09.840 that he was a good boy. Because for most mothers it doesn't really matter what happens. Their beloved
00:01:17.920 boy, their beloved son will always be in their eyes a good boy. But the world might see it in a
00:01:24.480 different way of course. Now this can be contrasted against a woman's love. A woman's love which is
00:01:31.360 very conditional. It depends on your performance as a man. And now this is the unromantic part here,
00:01:37.440 which I don't really like to talk about because, as I said, I'm a sensitive romantic poet who believes
00:01:45.200 in love and nice epic love poems and the like. But yeah, we need to be real about the situation
00:01:53.120 because the Pandora's box is opened and the deeper, darker aspects of female psychology,
00:02:02.080 they are out in the open. So it's better that you hear this insight from me now than that you
00:02:08.880 experience it for yourself. So basically I said in a few videos, I've said that
00:02:16.720 you as a man, you create your value. So a woman already has her value because she is biologically
00:02:23.280 more valuable. And as a man you have to create your value. So for your mother you're valuable as
00:02:29.120 you are, but for others you're only so much worth as the value you can bring to others.
00:02:36.560 Same thing in a love relationship, that a woman will of course determine the quality of a man.
00:02:43.840 Now a woman's attraction will of course depend on a wide variety of factors. A primary one is drive,
00:02:51.360 ambition, your thumos. Now to properly understand this we need to view it in an evolutionary sense.
00:02:58.480 You have a woman, she is her survival and the survival of her children
00:03:05.520 depends on the man's capability. So she is by necessity allergic to behaviors in a man
00:03:12.160 that could spell death literally for her and her offspring. So if she perceives the man as being weak,
00:03:18.720 being lazy, being stupid, all of these things, being cowardly, all of these things, then she will
00:03:24.160 lose attraction. Because it's not a good investment for a woman to be with a man who
00:03:29.680 will put her in danger because he's incompetent. So that is completely normal, it's fine. So it doesn't
00:03:35.840 make women bad or anything, it's not a bad evolutionary trait, it's completely normal. Of
00:03:40.640 course a woman needs to look out for herself and her children. And for a woman she's always,
00:03:46.640 you know, again unconditional love from the mother to her children. And therefore she needs to be on the
00:03:52.080 lookout for bad signs in the man. So weakness or cowardice. And when I say weakness I don't mean that
00:03:58.880 you need to be deadlifting 300 kilos. There are plenty of complete cowards who are, you know,
00:04:05.440 pseudo tough guys. You have powerlifters, strongmen, martial artists, they are complete cowards when push
00:04:12.240 comes to shove. When the heat comes on they crack because they don't have that axis mundi within them,
00:04:16.960 they don't have that genuine strength and toughness. But usually it's the case that if a man is physically
00:04:22.560 strong he's also mentally strong because the two go hand in hand. But when I say strength it's the strength to be
00:04:28.960 a stable rock in her life, in her children's life. So you need to become the axis mundi
00:04:35.680 that she can rely on in all circumstances. And now we get into the question,
00:04:42.400 should you ever cry in front of your wife? Well, the short answer is no, but there are also situations
00:04:49.120 where it's completely fine. The part that is not fine is when you show hesitation and you show
00:04:56.000 that you feel hopeless. That type of cry that causes terror and fear in her and of course
00:05:02.480 makes her lose attraction to you. But if you cry for some other reason, whatever it might be,
00:05:08.000 maybe you cry for the beauty of a landscape or whatever it might be. I don't say that you
00:05:16.080 should do it, but there's different types of emotional states of consciousness. So the type
00:05:25.360 of emotion you should never show is this hopelessness and lack of drive, laziness and
00:05:32.640 you know, you feel despair. So you should never despair. You can be sad or you can be sensitive,
00:05:39.680 but it should never be because you are insecure or if you feel hopeless or anything like that,
00:05:44.880 because that in her evolutionary mind is, you know, it spells that you're afraid to go out of
00:05:51.040 the cave to hunt mega fauna to supply for her and her children, evolutionary speaking. Now again,
00:05:57.840 I'm painting with a very broad brush here. And if you are, if you have gotten a man cold and you bemoan
00:06:04.480 your fate, any good loving, good loving wife, she will nurse you back to health and not think twice
00:06:10.480 about it. But if you have a, if she observes a pattern, a habit in you that is, you know, has to do
00:06:18.240 with laziness, for example, yeah, that can be, that can make her lose attraction for you. And then she
00:06:25.840 perceives, not logically, but her evolutionary psychology, it interprets that as a, as a mortal
00:06:34.240 danger for her and her children, that you don't have the, the drive, the ambition to go out of
00:06:39.600 the cave to hunt said mega fauna. Now I'm just using this as an example, but hopefully you know
00:06:45.440 what I mean. And now a note on female hypergamy. There are good aspects and bad aspects of it.
00:06:53.040 So we need to make the, a distinction between a married woman, a woman with children, and an unmarried
00:06:59.200 woman without children. Now there is, in my mind, it is completely normal, natural, and even good for
00:07:06.160 a woman to leave a man, if she perceives him as being unable to do his duty. So it's usually quite
00:07:13.840 common to see men lamenting the fact that women don't want to settle down to have children, but
00:07:20.560 in many situations it's because of the man. He isn't ready. He isn't ready. He doesn't have the
00:07:25.040 courage to settle down and to have children. Now I'm not talking about these American conservatives
00:07:31.920 to say you need to man up and marry a woman with a very long, very large body count. I'm not saying
00:07:39.680 that. I'm saying that there are men, young men, if they've been together with their girlfriend for
00:07:46.960 a few years. She wants to have babies, of course, because that's what all women want. Maybe she doesn't
00:07:53.280 say it, but you should be able to understand that she does want it, whether she says it or not.
00:07:58.400 It's completely normal. And now she might perceive that the man, he's lazy, he doesn't want to, he
00:08:04.400 can't give her what she wants. Babies, a family. Yeah, then it's completely normal if she decides to
00:08:10.160 leave him to find a man who can actually do his duty, who can actually fulfill her as a woman, by
00:08:16.400 simply put, impregnating her. So huge difference between a married woman with children and an
00:08:23.200 unmarried woman without children. Now, since we are on the topic, I'm of course completely against
00:08:28.560 no-fault divorce, because the primary victim of a divorce is the child or the children. So that is
00:08:35.040 a completely different thing. And if I have any young woman listening to this, it's quite easy actually.
00:08:41.360 It's quite easy. This is how it's been done for, in every culture, in every time basically,
00:08:46.800 perennial wisdom from the golden one right here. So if he doesn't want children with you,
00:08:52.800 now I'm not saying that it needs to happen now, perhaps your living situation is not optimal for it,
00:08:57.920 but if he doesn't, if he doesn't have a plan, if you don't have a plan, then he has no business
00:09:04.320 being intimate with you. If he doesn't want to have, if he doesn't want to create a family, then
00:09:11.120 you shouldn't give up yourself to him, simply put. So if you want a family, if you want children,
00:09:16.800 then you say that to him, that okay, either we make a plan, it doesn't need to happen right now,
00:09:22.240 but we should have a plan. And if he says, no, I'm not ready, then you say, okay, then I close my legs
00:09:27.600 and then we can break up because this isn't leading anywhere. And then you can find a man
00:09:34.240 who's ready to actually create something with you instead of just wasting time. So a bit of tough
00:09:41.280 love here from me, a bit of tough love, but it needs to be said. And of course, if you're a man,
00:09:46.880 perhaps I'll make a separate video saying, make your girlfriend pregnant or leave her,
00:09:52.320 something like that. But it's also true that if you have a relationship and if you aren't ready
00:09:57.520 for some reason, then let her go, let her go so she can find someone to start a family with, because
00:10:03.280 women are more time sensitive, as it were. They can't waste as much time as a man. I don't think
00:10:09.760 you should waste too much time as a man either, by the way. But yeah, the honorable thing is to do then
00:10:15.760 when you have come to this realization at least. This is new knowledge for many guys, of course,
00:10:23.040 because you've been taught by contemporary culture that the right thing is to focus on your own
00:10:29.440 pleasure and not take responsibility. And a child is such a such a burden. It is not a burden. A child
00:10:36.400 is a blessing, by the way. So to conclude, a mother's love, unconditional, she will love you no matter
00:10:43.120 what you do. This is good and bad. If that's the only type of love, if you don't get any tough love
00:10:48.720 from others in your life, then it might be bad, because then you expect to be loved no matter
00:10:53.760 what you do. But it's also good to have that safe haven in the form of a mother who will always be
00:10:59.600 there for you no matter what. But when it comes to a woman's love, it is conditional. It depends on
00:11:05.200 your value, your value and usefulness to her and her children. And this is something good in a woman.
00:11:10.640 It's a good, normal, natural evolutionary trait of a woman. And it will keep you sharp as well.
00:11:16.480 So I've seen over all of these years, I've seen a few guys, they are in a good shape, they're driven,
00:11:23.360 and then they end up in a relationship. They think the the quest stops there because they've already
00:11:29.200 gotten the woman. But the hard part is not to get a woman, it's to keep a woman interested in you,
00:11:35.360 attracted to you, and then you can't just stop. Because that's, you know, she's attracted to your drive
00:11:40.320 and to retain the attraction you need to retain your drive. Simple stuff really. So you need to be
00:11:45.520 jacked, you need to go to the gym, you need to do deadlifts if you can. Perhaps you have an issue
00:11:50.160 with your back, then you shouldn't. Then you can do some bench press, you should train, train some MMA,
00:11:55.200 train some with firearms as well. Do be a good dependable man and also have that axis mundi within
00:12:02.960 you, have that inner strength, so that she can always rely on you to be a calm presence.
00:12:08.480 No one expects you to be a superman, but at least you can be a calm, confident presence in her life
00:12:14.560 that she can always lean on and rely on. So even if you get, even if you are sick or if you are weak
00:12:20.720 temporarily, as long as you maintain your inner, your spiritual composure, then all will be well.
00:12:27.120 So yeah, something to keep in mind that don't stop developing yourself just because you end up in
00:12:32.240 the relationship. You need to continue, because otherwise she might perceive that as a bad trait
00:12:38.480 in you, as a bad habit, and then she will lose attraction and then yeah, it's downhill from there.
00:12:43.440 So do keep the greater goal in mind and push towards excellence and yeah, all will be well.
00:12:50.080 So anyway, thank you for listening to my ramblings here out in a somewhat dreary Hyperborea.
00:12:57.520 Do check out all the links in the description box below. Do read Dauntless and Demigod Mentality.
00:13:02.800 It's a good investment, I assure you. And yeah, I'll see you in the next video. XXO, BOOM!
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