A Mother's Love. A Woman's Love. Unconditional Love. Conditional Love. Female Hypergamy
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A mother's love is unconditional, a woman s love is conditional, and a man's love depends on his performance as a man. In this episode, I discuss the difference between a mother's and a woman's love, and how to deal with it.
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Greetings my esteemed audience. I'm checking in from a rainy forest of enlightenment
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and I thought to elaborate on the nature of love. I'm checking in in the form of a sensitive poet
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and as such it pains me to share such unromantic insights as I will share in this fine video.
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So as you see in the title, a mother's love and unconditional love. What does it mean?
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Yes, simply put it means that there's one person in the world who loves you unconditionally.
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She loves you no matter what. Then of course you have exceptions. Maybe you have a
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grandmother who does the same but I'm painting with a very broad brush here. So we're painting a
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broad picture of the of the situation at hand. So yeah, take it for what it is. There are as always
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many exceptions but it's usually the case that your mother loves you unconditionally.
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Most mothers do at least. And this is also something you can see if you have some sort
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of criminal who's been shot by the police and then you'll have the mother crying and saying
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that he was a good boy. Because for most mothers it doesn't really matter what happens. Their beloved
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boy, their beloved son will always be in their eyes a good boy. But the world might see it in a
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different way of course. Now this can be contrasted against a woman's love. A woman's love which is
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very conditional. It depends on your performance as a man. And now this is the unromantic part here,
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which I don't really like to talk about because, as I said, I'm a sensitive romantic poet who believes
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in love and nice epic love poems and the like. But yeah, we need to be real about the situation
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because the Pandora's box is opened and the deeper, darker aspects of female psychology,
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they are out in the open. So it's better that you hear this insight from me now than that you
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experience it for yourself. So basically I said in a few videos, I've said that
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you as a man, you create your value. So a woman already has her value because she is biologically
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more valuable. And as a man you have to create your value. So for your mother you're valuable as
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you are, but for others you're only so much worth as the value you can bring to others.
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Same thing in a love relationship, that a woman will of course determine the quality of a man.
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Now a woman's attraction will of course depend on a wide variety of factors. A primary one is drive,
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ambition, your thumos. Now to properly understand this we need to view it in an evolutionary sense.
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You have a woman, she is her survival and the survival of her children
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depends on the man's capability. So she is by necessity allergic to behaviors in a man
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that could spell death literally for her and her offspring. So if she perceives the man as being weak,
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being lazy, being stupid, all of these things, being cowardly, all of these things, then she will
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lose attraction. Because it's not a good investment for a woman to be with a man who
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will put her in danger because he's incompetent. So that is completely normal, it's fine. So it doesn't
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make women bad or anything, it's not a bad evolutionary trait, it's completely normal. Of
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course a woman needs to look out for herself and her children. And for a woman she's always,
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you know, again unconditional love from the mother to her children. And therefore she needs to be on the
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lookout for bad signs in the man. So weakness or cowardice. And when I say weakness I don't mean that
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you need to be deadlifting 300 kilos. There are plenty of complete cowards who are, you know,
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pseudo tough guys. You have powerlifters, strongmen, martial artists, they are complete cowards when push
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comes to shove. When the heat comes on they crack because they don't have that axis mundi within them,
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they don't have that genuine strength and toughness. But usually it's the case that if a man is physically
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strong he's also mentally strong because the two go hand in hand. But when I say strength it's the strength to be
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a stable rock in her life, in her children's life. So you need to become the axis mundi
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that she can rely on in all circumstances. And now we get into the question,
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should you ever cry in front of your wife? Well, the short answer is no, but there are also situations
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where it's completely fine. The part that is not fine is when you show hesitation and you show
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that you feel hopeless. That type of cry that causes terror and fear in her and of course
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makes her lose attraction to you. But if you cry for some other reason, whatever it might be,
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maybe you cry for the beauty of a landscape or whatever it might be. I don't say that you
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should do it, but there's different types of emotional states of consciousness. So the type
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of emotion you should never show is this hopelessness and lack of drive, laziness and
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you know, you feel despair. So you should never despair. You can be sad or you can be sensitive,
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but it should never be because you are insecure or if you feel hopeless or anything like that,
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because that in her evolutionary mind is, you know, it spells that you're afraid to go out of
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the cave to hunt mega fauna to supply for her and her children, evolutionary speaking. Now again,
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I'm painting with a very broad brush here. And if you are, if you have gotten a man cold and you bemoan
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your fate, any good loving, good loving wife, she will nurse you back to health and not think twice
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about it. But if you have a, if she observes a pattern, a habit in you that is, you know, has to do
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with laziness, for example, yeah, that can be, that can make her lose attraction for you. And then she
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perceives, not logically, but her evolutionary psychology, it interprets that as a, as a mortal
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danger for her and her children, that you don't have the, the drive, the ambition to go out of
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the cave to hunt said mega fauna. Now I'm just using this as an example, but hopefully you know
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what I mean. And now a note on female hypergamy. There are good aspects and bad aspects of it.
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So we need to make the, a distinction between a married woman, a woman with children, and an unmarried
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woman without children. Now there is, in my mind, it is completely normal, natural, and even good for
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a woman to leave a man, if she perceives him as being unable to do his duty. So it's usually quite
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common to see men lamenting the fact that women don't want to settle down to have children, but
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in many situations it's because of the man. He isn't ready. He isn't ready. He doesn't have the
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courage to settle down and to have children. Now I'm not talking about these American conservatives
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to say you need to man up and marry a woman with a very long, very large body count. I'm not saying
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that. I'm saying that there are men, young men, if they've been together with their girlfriend for
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a few years. She wants to have babies, of course, because that's what all women want. Maybe she doesn't
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say it, but you should be able to understand that she does want it, whether she says it or not.
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It's completely normal. And now she might perceive that the man, he's lazy, he doesn't want to, he
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can't give her what she wants. Babies, a family. Yeah, then it's completely normal if she decides to
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leave him to find a man who can actually do his duty, who can actually fulfill her as a woman, by
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simply put, impregnating her. So huge difference between a married woman with children and an
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unmarried woman without children. Now, since we are on the topic, I'm of course completely against
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no-fault divorce, because the primary victim of a divorce is the child or the children. So that is
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a completely different thing. And if I have any young woman listening to this, it's quite easy actually.
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It's quite easy. This is how it's been done for, in every culture, in every time basically,
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perennial wisdom from the golden one right here. So if he doesn't want children with you,
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now I'm not saying that it needs to happen now, perhaps your living situation is not optimal for it,
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but if he doesn't, if he doesn't have a plan, if you don't have a plan, then he has no business
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being intimate with you. If he doesn't want to have, if he doesn't want to create a family, then
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you shouldn't give up yourself to him, simply put. So if you want a family, if you want children,
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then you say that to him, that okay, either we make a plan, it doesn't need to happen right now,
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but we should have a plan. And if he says, no, I'm not ready, then you say, okay, then I close my legs
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and then we can break up because this isn't leading anywhere. And then you can find a man
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who's ready to actually create something with you instead of just wasting time. So a bit of tough
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love here from me, a bit of tough love, but it needs to be said. And of course, if you're a man,
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perhaps I'll make a separate video saying, make your girlfriend pregnant or leave her,
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something like that. But it's also true that if you have a relationship and if you aren't ready
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for some reason, then let her go, let her go so she can find someone to start a family with, because
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women are more time sensitive, as it were. They can't waste as much time as a man. I don't think
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you should waste too much time as a man either, by the way. But yeah, the honorable thing is to do then
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when you have come to this realization at least. This is new knowledge for many guys, of course,
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because you've been taught by contemporary culture that the right thing is to focus on your own
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pleasure and not take responsibility. And a child is such a such a burden. It is not a burden. A child
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is a blessing, by the way. So to conclude, a mother's love, unconditional, she will love you no matter
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what you do. This is good and bad. If that's the only type of love, if you don't get any tough love
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from others in your life, then it might be bad, because then you expect to be loved no matter
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what you do. But it's also good to have that safe haven in the form of a mother who will always be
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there for you no matter what. But when it comes to a woman's love, it is conditional. It depends on
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your value, your value and usefulness to her and her children. And this is something good in a woman.
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It's a good, normal, natural evolutionary trait of a woman. And it will keep you sharp as well.
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So I've seen over all of these years, I've seen a few guys, they are in a good shape, they're driven,
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and then they end up in a relationship. They think the the quest stops there because they've already
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gotten the woman. But the hard part is not to get a woman, it's to keep a woman interested in you,
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attracted to you, and then you can't just stop. Because that's, you know, she's attracted to your drive
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and to retain the attraction you need to retain your drive. Simple stuff really. So you need to be
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jacked, you need to go to the gym, you need to do deadlifts if you can. Perhaps you have an issue
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with your back, then you shouldn't. Then you can do some bench press, you should train, train some MMA,
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train some with firearms as well. Do be a good dependable man and also have that axis mundi within
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you, have that inner strength, so that she can always rely on you to be a calm presence.
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No one expects you to be a superman, but at least you can be a calm, confident presence in her life
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that she can always lean on and rely on. So even if you get, even if you are sick or if you are weak
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temporarily, as long as you maintain your inner, your spiritual composure, then all will be well.
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So yeah, something to keep in mind that don't stop developing yourself just because you end up in
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the relationship. You need to continue, because otherwise she might perceive that as a bad trait
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in you, as a bad habit, and then she will lose attraction and then yeah, it's downhill from there.
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So do keep the greater goal in mind and push towards excellence and yeah, all will be well.
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So anyway, thank you for listening to my ramblings here out in a somewhat dreary Hyperborea.
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It's a good investment, I assure you. And yeah, I'll see you in the next video. XXO, BOOM!
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