00:06:19.080But even in the Proverbs, Solomon says, son, give me your heart.
00:06:24.300My son, give me your heart. Proverbs 23, 26.
00:06:26.800Yeah, because if you can win the hearts of your children, and I pray for this almost every night, that God give me the hearts of my sons.
00:06:36.880And when we're talking about covenant succession, that's what we're talking about.
00:06:40.800Not just, you know, you think about all the places where you want to see succession with your children.
00:06:46.200You want them to go on in the next generation and have children of their own.
00:06:50.960You know, you want them to go on and have a job that they work and they're provided for in a marriage.
00:06:55.620And you want all those things for them.
00:06:57.100But the most important thing that we want to see, and it's the thing that God has appointed to happen,
00:07:04.340One of the mechanisms by which God has actually intended for the covenant to succeed, for it to continue from generation to generation, is through the faithful parenting of fathers and mothers, particularly fathers raising their children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
00:07:23.400So when we say covenant succession, that's what we're talking about.0.94
00:07:27.480We're talking about our children continuing the Christian legacy in everything they do, being Christians and continuing to take down that legacy of faith into every corner of their life so that we know there's going to be Christians in 500 years.
00:07:45.420And I intend for that, my family, to be part of those Christians.0.88
00:07:49.100Yeah, and I think just recently reading through Genesis, this is kind of the pattern laid out in Scripture, promises made to Abraham.
00:07:56.040And then by the time that you see the fulfillment in Moses, some 430 years have passed.
00:08:02.000And so one of the really cool things it's helped me focus on is, okay, if we believe in covenant succession, we will not be able to complete our mission in our lifetime alone.
00:08:11.200So we want to call our sons to continue that work and that mission, which is Christendom, but it's unique to each one of us.
00:08:19.480And so we're joining side by side with our sons and saying, as Dan said, give us your heart.
00:08:25.380join in this work. And we realize it's a tougher task then because
00:08:29.240we have to compel them, not just by force, but you have to win their heart and say,
00:08:35.600this is a worthy glory to pursue. Yeah. We want to train them to love what is lovely
00:08:41.480and to hate what is detestable. We want to train their affections. We want to train them so they're
00:08:46.140not like 1 Samuel 2 with Eli's sons who were worthless sons and went on to end his line and
00:08:51.520his legacy. God cut them off. How much success would you have? How much personal success could
00:08:57.520outweigh your children being worthless men? None. None. We want to see our children continue in the0.98
00:09:02.440covenant. Yeah. I know one of the discussions that we may have had on this episode, but I've
00:09:06.580definitely talked to other places, is when we're talking about the intentionally barren
00:09:11.060couple. They're like, well, you don't have to have kids. And so they're choosing to never have
00:09:16.980children their entire life. And in one instance, I was counseling a couple that was talking like
00:09:24.900this. And I said, if you look at the scriptures, one of the worst curses that God will curse people
00:09:29.480with is to end their line. Yep. Cut off their line. They're cut off. The earth will swallow
00:09:35.140up Achan and his family so that that line is done. Haman. Yep. Same thing. Same thing. And so what1.00
00:09:42.020we're talking about in these episodes, really, in this covenant succession theme, is how does
00:09:48.060the church, what means has God appointed, really, to see that covenant succession continue? And we
00:09:53.460mean on a practical, obviously, God's eternal decree. I know some of you guys who are like
00:09:58.000theology leaders are like, God's eternal decree is what ensures covenant succession. Well, we know,
00:10:03.360we know. But guess what, guys? God has also appointed normal, regular means by which he
00:10:09.760intends to see the covenant succession occur. Things like having children and raising them.
00:10:16.080So we're going to be talking about what the church, worship, education, vocation,
00:10:21.600these kinds of means by which God has intended to see this covenant succession take place.
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00:11:35.340Well, and I want to ask a question too. When you guys look out of the culture today, particularly even the culture of the church, do we see robust visions of legacy? Like, is that what the Christian church is telling their people to aim at? And if not, what do you see?
00:11:51.520I think one thing I think just right off the bat with you see is that when when that we do talk
00:11:57.100about legacy often it's truncated like when we talk about legacy yeah it's just faith doctrine
00:12:03.480catechism which we're gonna we're gonna talk about like massively important but what about
00:12:08.260a vision for Christian living that would encompass every part of what it means to be human yeah like
00:12:14.040what about that what about raising our children the total enculturation of the Lord which is why
00:12:18.760we included things even like business vocational training on this list when we're talking about
00:12:23.800covenant succession. So no, I don't think, I think anywhere you do see it, I think it's often
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00:13:09.380Yeah, I guess one of the things, tell me if you agree or disagree, but when I look out at Boomer0.95
00:13:15.000world one of the things that they just drilled into the culture was my wealth my possessions for0.95
00:13:22.060me me only you're on your own yeah enough to coast to my last day and i spend my last dollar
00:13:28.300on my last day can't take it with you can't take it with you spending my kids inheritance
00:13:33.380i've even heard the older boomer generation say things like i earned this you go get your own
00:15:36.280And so this is one of the foundational passages that we look at when we're looking at covenant succession is the seriousness and the gravity of the blessings and curses that come with this covenant with God.
00:15:50.500And so obviously we could get into Presbyterian covenant theology, Baptist covenant theology, all those things, but we're not going to probably get into that much.
00:16:33.840And Deuteronomy 7, obviously, is preceded by Deuteronomy 6, which is the Shema Israel, which is to love God with all your heart, and then to teach your children diligently all along the way.
00:16:46.660And whether you're a Reformed Baptist or a Presbyterian in your covenant theology, obviously we'd want you to have a covenant theology and not like a random megachurch sort of non-denominational just, I don't really know what's happening here.
00:17:00.800We'd want you to have a covenant theology undergirding your thinking on these things.
00:17:03.980But whether you're a Reformed Baptist, particular Baptist, or Presbyterian in how you thread the needle on the covenant theology here, we should all agree that what does God say that you are to do with your children?
00:17:15.540well you are to raise and discipline them as christians christianly and whether as a particular
00:17:22.080baptist you say like well the category is this or the precipice where they their actual status that
00:17:27.140god would say we all agree it's like discipline your children pray for your children teach them
00:17:32.560to obey christ you know yeah raise your children raise them here at admonition of the lord no no
00:17:37.660particular baptist is is actually like going around saying like um you know what i'm basically
00:17:43.840going to just act like they're, I have no obligation that's different to these children
00:17:49.160than the neighbors next door. Like, obviously they would say, we have an obligation in the way we
00:17:55.020teach them to relate to worship and education and vocation and marriage and all of life
00:17:58.960to train them and disciple them Christianly. And I've tried to speak really precisely there so
00:18:05.440that everybody could agree with it. I'm sure someone will be mad and send us an email, but
00:18:08.860there you go. Sure. And one of the, I mean, I could have drawn from other passages that,
00:18:13.720you know, like Ephesians 6 says, you know, raise your children in the paideia,
00:18:17.840new thesia of the Lord. I mean, there's lots of instructions for fathers to sons. The reason I
00:18:21.920bring up that text is because specifically it calls out blessings to a thousand generations.
00:18:27.300So you have generational benefits and blessings, and you also have generational curses that are
00:18:34.380associated with that. And so as we talk about covenant succession, one of the things that
00:18:38.700we're talking about is blessing our generations, those who come after us, who won't even know our
00:18:45.420name, that we will be blessing because of the work that we do now. Not that you're saved by
00:18:50.380your works. I mean, I don't feel like I have to asterisk everything. But it's a good point,
00:18:55.140Dan, because some people actually today, and I think this is actually astonishing,
00:18:58.520Someone on Twitter recently actually accused Toby Sumter of being prosperity, the new prosperity theology, basically because he said that obedience is related to God's blessing.
00:19:10.780and and i saw all sorts of people retweeting like yeah these the the theonomic post mills all these
00:19:16.660guys they're just the new prosperity theology and the the claim was basically like um actually god
00:19:22.360says over and over and over and over again in the old and new testament that blessing follows
00:19:28.880obedience like guess in a real way guess what children obey your parents in the lord for this
00:19:33.500is the first command that comes with a promise that you live long in the land what paul meant
00:19:38.380that is like imaginary? Well, it's in the new covenant or in the new earth. Uh, they'll live
00:19:42.980long in the new earth. It's a spiritualized thing. It just drives me nuts when Jesus says,
00:19:46.880Hey, with the measure you use, it'll be measured back to you. So give, and it'll be given back to
00:19:50.540you, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your bosom with me. Yeah. No,
00:19:54.300all like, well, so nobody has a problem when you're like, yeah, the wages of sin is death.
00:19:58.840So the curses of the covenant, you know, sinning, you will actually reap consequences in this life
00:20:05.160and the next. But as soon as you say, well, obedience will actually bring you blessings,
00:20:09.340they're like, no, it won't. You'll actually suffer for that too.
00:20:12.560Here's another great example from this topic. When the proverb says, parents, raise your
00:20:17.400children in the fear of the Lord so that when they're old, they won't depart from it the way
00:20:21.920they should go. I butchered the passage. You know what I'm talking about. By the time they're done
00:20:25.980giving asterisks, they're like, well, this is a proverb, not a promise, and blah, blah, blah,
00:20:30.400blah blah and so by the time they're done with it they they try to make the passage mean raise
00:20:35.800your child or teach your child the way that he should go and when he's old who knows flip a coin
00:20:40.940and see here's the deal modern evangelicals don't like the plain promise in that verse0.95
00:20:45.320because they lost their kids exactly and they lost their kids because they did retarded things0.88
00:20:50.560with their kids like send them to public schools and like not catechize them and not include them0.92
00:20:55.580in worship and try to flannel graph them for 30 minutes a week and think that they're doing
00:20:59.180it's like go baptize your kids if you have children and then blame it on god and then say
00:21:04.020oh it's just god's election and this is the thing you guys like obviously i get a little fired up
00:21:08.900about this because i think that this is the area where under the cloak of accusations of legalism
00:21:14.800the church has self-castrated they've origined themselves so anyway moving on before i start
00:21:23.420origin castrated origin castrate that was the yeah the origin the heretic he was the origin
00:21:29.000renewal yeah i mean some people it is a it is a weighty thing though brian that was because we're
00:21:34.840told in matthew's gospel that you know the angels of the little ones stand before our father yeah
00:21:40.500and intercede for them yep and then you think about what's said about those who
00:21:45.820damage especially eternally damaged children yeah let the yeah better to have a millstone
00:21:51.620just go ahead and millstone tie a tie a fiat to yourself and drive it off a cliff into the water
00:21:57.120and follow it down to the bottom of the lake and everybody's like yeah we need to type millstones
00:22:00.940around pedophiles and but okay what about the people who sent their kids to be educated by
00:22:08.060pagans to love pagan things and to be eternally destroyed yeah what about that yeah what about
00:22:12.980that we have five theses that we're going to go through that i'll talk about this this is great
00:22:17.900So, so what I'm going to do is I'm going to present the theses and most likely the first question I'm going to ask is, do you agree with this and why?
00:30:41.000Is that a Christian culture should place more value on children that you'll0.92
00:30:45.160find that they place more value on children than other cultures.
00:30:47.960pagan cultures will place value on children interesting yeah i think i think i would say
00:30:54.340right off the top of my head that's true can you think of any examples yeah so so recently there0.96
00:30:58.540was a new mass grave found i believe it was in peru i should look it up i have a computer in
00:31:04.960front of me it was in south america it was the largest known one time child sacrifice to occur
00:31:13.300i believe it was 125 children that they found in a mass grave do you have it do you have it pulled
00:31:19.100up uh stuff i'm finding is from 2019 world's largest child sacrifice burial site in peru
00:31:28.100and they found 227 boys and girls holy ages 4 to 14 yep there you go so it wasn't just like
00:31:39.220you know we had the aztec story that we did a little while ago and it wasn't just slaves
00:31:45.160you know that or enemies that they had captured in battle they were sacrificing their own children
00:31:50.980their own kids and so you know it's easy to look at peru in i believe it was like the 17th century
00:31:57.74015th century i can't remember when when they estimated this happen but in the 20th century
00:32:04.480And in the 21st century, I don't know what the worldwide statistics are on abortion or child sacrifice, but in the U.S. it's somewhere around 70 million children.
00:32:19.520And so one of the reasons that that is is because the enemy hates God and they hate image bearers of God.
00:32:30.320And I mean, I would probably be going out on a limb here to say this, but I'm going to say it anyway, that I think one of the reasons that people hate children, other than that they bear the image of God, because that is true, but is that there's also a form of innocence to them and a righteousness.
00:32:51.420not that they're righteous in themselves but a child that has not been tainted by their own
00:32:59.580habitual sins and things like that innately seem to have a stronger moral sense of right and wrong
00:33:06.380at a young age there's also seems to be some innocence to children that is also despicable
00:33:11.900because the the the wicked hate the righteous right because the light exposes darkness so you
00:33:17.440think about like you're not saying that there's no stain of original sin no no none of that
00:33:21.260But there's something true there that you see.
00:33:24.900Why is it that the demons will always seek to corrupt the children?
00:33:30.020And it's because, number one, they hate the image of God.
00:33:41.760And how can we make all these like getting the little kids to dance naked for the adults?
00:33:46.160And it is because they want to sear their consciences.
00:33:48.540They hate relative innocency because there's relative innocency, obviously.0.96
00:33:55.160I mean, it's stupid to deny that, that a five-year-old is relatively, has piled up less sin than like a 50-year-old degenerate porn addict who, you know, is obviously that five-year-old is relative.0.97
00:34:07.840They've piled up less conscience searing.0.98
00:34:51.820And yeah, so I mean, I think there's something there for sure.1.00
00:34:54.600Yeah, so the other reason I think that children should be valued more and are valued more in Christian culture
00:35:00.660is because of the view that we talked about in the previous theses that they are, in fact, citizens of the kingdom.
00:35:08.460That there's also an emphasis on life amongst Christians.
00:35:13.480You see this with Constantine, who ended the, or I'd have to look at my notes again, attempted to end the practice of exposing weak or crippled babies.0.85
00:35:35.440Which was a common practice for many, many hundreds of years in Rome.
00:35:39.860They didn't have plan B. They couldn't do it when they were small, so they had to wait till they're born.
00:35:44.740Yeah, so one of the relevant passages to this point is from Psalm 127, 4 and 5, which brings up another question that I'll ask at the end.
00:35:52.760Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth.
00:35:56.940Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them.
00:35:59.640He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate.
00:36:04.180I mean, there's so much in that, just those two verses that we could talk about that for an hour.
00:36:08.560but that the the first thing is that they are they are weapons they're they're missiles which
00:36:15.540i think we'll talk about in a little bit but they're a blessing is is one of the other things
00:36:20.400that i i want to mention the this is the view of christians to children is that they're actually a
00:36:25.640blessing and not a resource sucker yeah they're not an inconvenience it's interesting too i was
00:36:30.100just reading about alfred the great in england and so like they're trying to fight back the danes
00:36:35.100And one of the problems they had was having enough population to actually be able to fight the Danes.
00:36:42.180And so for them, they were like, well, you know, they're encouraging their people like, please, for the love of God, literally for the love of God, make babies.
00:36:50.020So and they're having to, you know, work through provisions and, you know, the best they can health care, scare quotes there.
00:36:56.040Right. But yeah. So in that context, if you want to conquer, take dominion, the first thing you realize is we need children to do that.
00:37:03.920And so this goes back to Genesis 1 as well.
00:37:06.900If you believe God about what he says about children, you will be fruitful because you see that they're necessary for this work of fulfilling your mission, taking dominion.
00:37:14.860Yeah, you're actually also just noticing something about the natural design of humanity that apparently was God's idea, is that barring the corruption of sin, and I mean that in the way that sin has created infertility and things like that, a fallen world where there's cursed thistles, thorns.
00:37:33.280disease, infertility. Apart from that, or intentional intervention, where you're trying
00:37:41.100to do something to prevent this from happening, the normal thing that God designed for a man and
00:37:46.140a woman to come together sexually in this covenant of marriage will be fruitful. It will
00:37:52.120result in children, and it will result in children for two decades or for 15 years or so in a
00:37:58.360marriage. It will result just naturally, if there's no infertility, you get married at a
00:38:02.640fairly normal age let's say you're early to mid 20s you get married you you have that's not normal
00:38:08.340for most of the u.s i get married it would be like 19 and 20 early to mid 30s would be more normal
00:38:13.160so you'd have like 15 years of child yeah you'd have about 15 years even if you have a one over
00:38:18.000two year like a fairly moderate pace seven the normal family would produce between six and ten
00:38:24.340children and with you know there's infant mortality there's all kinds of things but just
00:38:28.860think about that for a second. God is not dumb. God didn't design the menopause time and the0.61
00:38:36.640fertility window. He could have made it five years. He could have made it 10 years. He could0.60
00:38:41.320have made it eight years. Instead, he made it 15 or 20 years. And you just look at that and you go,
00:38:46.580huh, it seems like God intended for something to happen and that something to be fruitfulness.
00:38:53.500And then he goes, and when he talks about it, when God's like, now I'm going to explain this to you,
00:38:57.480He's like, and that, by the way, is a blessing. I've given you a gift in that. You're welcome.
00:39:03.860And so often people in their sinfulness, non-Christian cultures do this, increasingly1.00
00:39:09.280weak and effeminate Christian culture and sinful Christian culture has agreed with this0.99
00:39:15.760and basically treated children as an accessory that you accessorize your marriage with for1.00
00:39:22.500your convenience that is so stupid it's actually like a gregory shane shane gregory morris0.99
00:39:33.200shane morris from the upstream or the colt i can't remember colton center colson center for0.99
00:39:38.400culture whatever i can't remember sorry shane gregory shane morris there you go sorry gregory
00:39:42.320shane morris which is sounds like an author name he tweeted that tweet about how like hey these 40
00:39:47.760year old and getting into the 40 plus year old millennial kind of generation, they're being very
00:39:52.860cavalier about having no children. What are you going to do when, like, is your dog going to visit
00:39:56.680you in the nursing home? And it got like totally ratioed, kind of. I mean, like 40,000 people liked
00:40:02.200it too, but you look at that and you go, that is a perfect commentary on the state of our culture
00:40:08.960because they hate God's natural design and they hate what God has said in his supernatural
00:40:13.960revelation about children. They hate both of it because they hate God. And what they actually
00:40:18.420end up doing is they're just harming themselves. They're just hurting themselves.
00:40:24.060Yeah, it's fascinating. So I started reading, I don't know how you say it, Humanae Vitae.
00:42:54.680They would generally reject things, and it depends.
00:42:58.460I don't want to put words in anyone's mouth,
00:43:00.760but a lot of them would reject any sort of natural family planning,
00:43:04.860any sex act where you prohibited procreation as sinful.
00:43:10.200And to be fair, when you read Calvin and Luther,
00:43:13.820they're a lot closer to that than people who haven't read them think.
00:43:18.240Here, here's one of the plays that will get run on you. If you are any kind of conservative
00:43:22.680Christian, people will come up with a derogatory slander term that's supposed to communicate1.00
00:43:28.460basically their disdain for working class Christian normies as dumb idiots. And that1.00
00:43:33.880what you need is our very nuanced ivory tower position on fecundity and on fertility and
00:43:40.420Christians having children. And, and really, but they'll never actually, you can't pin them down.0.91
00:43:45.000number one you're like well what what do you mean like are you you hate this quiverful thing
00:43:49.660are you like is birth control good what do you think about the abortifacent nature of birth
00:43:54.220of chemical birth control what do you think about all these downstream effects of a society built
00:43:57.860on it like it and they won't be pinned down because they're all nuanced bros and so on the
00:44:02.240one hand one instinct i have is to be like okay i'm i'm unwilling to entirely adopt anybody's
00:44:08.580thing like quiverful whatever i'm sure it has roots in the early 20th century and this guy
00:44:12.940wrote this and this guy said this. Sure. But let's be honest here. The generally historic
00:44:20.220Christian position on these things across thousands of years at this point is pretty skeptical
00:44:27.220of human contraceptive efforts. And whether you hate that or not, that is the historical fact.
00:44:35.380Yeah. So I actually brought this up on Twitter one time and I was kind of like, yeah, some of
00:44:39.060these quiverful people kind of rub me the wrong way and there are definitely people so one of the
00:44:43.900issues where i get into is like the health of the mother yeah um so doctors like good christian wise
00:44:49.220doctors will actually say like hey you need to like so find a way to hit the pause button here
00:44:53.360because yeah this could be dangerous a lot of them would be like can't stop won't stop but a lot of
00:44:59.040the people would just say it would get into like prosperity gospel theology where they're like
00:45:03.140well you just need more faith yep and i'm like well you know faith says read the bible and the
00:45:07.320bible says the land even needs rest yes so and land and womb are connected in a typological
00:45:12.800fashion fertility yeah um so if we let things rest there's there's a case to be made for that
00:45:17.540how you do it i think is another question but i do think that in the midst of all that discussion
00:45:22.740i started reading uh calvin yeah and and again luther and then i was actually shocked with
00:45:30.720like the people we say we're reformers and doug wilson has made a case that's kind of pro birth
00:45:36.560control. And he even has to admit in making his case, this isn't the historical reform position.
00:45:42.960Right. You have to start by admitting that. And then when you make your justification,
00:45:46.460it better be a good one. So when you're going to move an ancient landmark,
00:45:50.000you make sure that you know your business. You make sure you know why they put that landmark
00:45:53.820there. So this is a question where Christians, because technology has allowed us to outpace0.62
00:45:58.500our maturity, have been altogether too cavalier about moving ancient landmarks.0.95
00:46:02.720so instead of just going well obviously it's it's absurd to say that we should not intervene
00:46:09.280in christian fertility so therefore we should intervene in christian fertility stop and think
00:46:13.840maybe they actually had knew something about the nature of human sinfulness as it works out
00:46:19.600culturally that would mean we should actually be pretty pretty slow in this area if anything we
00:46:25.120should be erring on the side of fruitfulness yes so a hundred percent my caveats are similar to
00:46:30.520years. Yeah. Yeah. Men don't be like, don't be naming and claiming prosperity. Like if you
00:46:35.460just had enough faith, your wife wouldn't have medical issues in pregnancy. That's not the way
00:46:39.520disease works in scripture. Sorry. It's just not. We're not prosperity theologians. We're not
00:46:44.520health, wealth, and prosperity guys. Yeah. Use wisdom. God absolutely was not, didn't make it
00:46:51.760so that we would notice things about the fertility cycle of a woman. Yeah. God made it a cycle and
00:46:56.580to plan. Yeah, it's not just random. He could have made it random. Again, he didn't. So it's
00:47:02.160perfectly acceptable, in my opinion, to notice that and to plan for your children, to plan and
00:47:10.220even influence how fertility works in your home. I'm fine with all those things, and the principles
00:47:15.460I think are good and can be biblically demonstrated. Like you say, with land and rest,
00:47:21.040providing for your family, all of those things. But what our culture needs to hear far more than
00:47:25.840that and this is why i'm so strong the other way yeah they don't need that message mostly they
00:47:30.340they are like our culture needs to hear no children are a blessing and are you're swimming
00:47:37.260in a culture of death so you need to make sure you understand that those waters are on you
00:47:41.260and your thinking is shaped by this when you think about like song of solomon like this this
00:47:46.740intensely in marriage intensely sexual book by metaphor and symbolism and all this but it's in
00:47:53.400a garden and in the garden everything surrounding their relationship is their intimate relationship
00:47:58.500is fruit it's blooming and fruitful yeah so obviously the connection there is it's weird
00:48:03.800like in our culture we we seem to quote unquote love sex meaning we're inundated with everything0.94
00:48:09.200sexual but it's like lizzo in a trash bag oh my word please don't bring that back up i just the0.79
00:48:16.240image popped in my head and it was literally violence that is literally literally literally0.95
00:48:20.220did violence to me but we don't think of like if we properly in a christian way revere respect and
00:48:25.980and love sex and marriage it's going to be fruitful so that that's another way to look
00:48:30.420at it and say is it is it doing the thing it's supposed to right and this is this is again you
00:48:35.600have to properly read the book of nature in the book of scripture yes because both of them come
00:48:39.720together to preach a message about the nature of human fruitfulness that is obviously positive
00:48:46.680Now, of course, one of the patterns in God's world as well is that every blessing can become a curse and correspondingly, however great it was as a blessing, however powerful the blessing it was, it can correspondingly become an even more harsh curse.