The King's Hall - April 10, 2026


The Case for Christian Headcovering

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00:00:56.600 Since the days of early church history,
00:01:06.020 it was a common practice for women in worship to cover their heads.
00:01:10.120 Across virtually all Christian denominations and centuries,
00:01:13.760 the practice was observed.
00:01:15.560 Even in the Reformation, men like Luther and Calvin defended the practice.
00:01:20.040 Luther said, quote,
00:01:21.000 the wife should put on a veil just as a pious wife is duty-bound to help bear her husband's
00:01:26.260 accident, illness, and misfortune on account of the evil flesh, end quote. Calvin, in his lengthy
00:01:32.780 commentary on Corinthians, quote, speaking of verse 10 in 1 Corinthians 11, in the term power,
00:01:39.640 authority in the ESV, Paul means a token by which she declares herself to be under the power of her
00:01:45.480 husband, and it is a covering, whether it be a robe or a veil or any other kind of covering.
00:01:51.520 Calvin goes on to say that the veiling is not exclusively to be practiced by married women,
00:01:56.100 but virgins also, quote,
00:01:57.920 For Paul looks beyond this to God's eternal law,
00:02:00.880 which has made the female sex subject to the authority of men, end quote.
00:02:05.280 In the Catholic Church, even in 1917, the code of canon law stated that, quote,
00:02:10.140 Men in a church or outside a church, while they are assisting at sacred rites, shall be bareheaded.
00:02:16.140 Women, however, shall have a covered head and be modestly dressed,
00:02:19.420 especially when they approached the table of the Lord, end quote.
00:02:23.040 But then, by 1983, that statement had been removed.
00:02:27.000 So what happened?
00:02:28.160 Did the church discover some new understanding of the exegesis
00:02:31.620 for the biblical text of 1 Corinthians 11?
00:02:34.520 Far from it.
00:02:35.720 What happened was feminism.
00:02:37.960 As R.C. Sproul Jr. once put it,
00:02:39.940 I do know this, that until 50 years ago,
00:02:43.440 every woman in every church covered her head.
00:02:46.180 What has happened in the last 50 years?
00:02:48.380 We've had a feminist movement, end quote.
00:02:51.100 R.C. Sproul Sr. said, quote,
00:02:53.020 It does disturb me that the tradition of the women covering her head in America
00:02:57.160 did not pass away until we saw a cultural revolt against the authority of the husband over the wife, end quote.
00:03:04.480 In fact, Betty Friedan, or Betty Naomi Goldstein, as she was named at birth,
00:03:11.440 was one among many Jewish feminist leaders who, along with the Marxist agenda,
00:03:15.400 pushed for the removal of head coverings from Christian worship.
00:03:19.300 Goldstein was, in fact, active in Marxist revolutionary organizations from a young age.
00:03:25.080 But why head coverings?
00:03:26.580 Because they were trying to erode the clear symbols of hierarchy,
00:03:30.180 authority, and male headship inherent to the Christian faith.
00:03:33.860 Goldstein pioneered the modern feminist movement,
00:03:36.860 and she co-founded the National Organization for Women, NOW, in 1966,
00:03:41.560 which passed a resolution only two years after its founding in 1968,
00:03:46.620 demanding that women stop wearing head coverings in churches
00:03:49.280 due to the covering being a symbol of subjection.
00:03:53.160 The statement reads,
00:03:53.980 Whereas the wearing of a head covering by women at religious services
00:03:58.200 is a custom in many churches,
00:04:00.160 and whereas it is a symbol of subjection within these churches,
00:04:04.100 now recommends that all chapters undertake an effort
00:04:07.580 to have all women participate in a national unveiling.
00:04:11.560 by sending their head coverings to the task force chairman immediately.
00:04:15.980 At the spring meeting of the task force on women in religion,
00:04:19.280 these veils will then be publicly burned to protest the second-class status of women in all churches.
00:04:25.720 End quote.
00:04:26.920 It wasn't new exegesis, but new Jewish Marxist feminism
00:04:30.580 that brought about the societal move away from head coverings in worship.
00:04:35.120 Contrary to this modern egalitarian slop,
00:04:38.340 This is what Paul says in 1 Corinthians 11, 2 through 16.
00:04:42.440 Now, I commend you because you remember me in everything
00:04:45.180 and maintain the traditions even as I deliver them to you.
00:04:48.940 But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ.
00:04:52.300 The head of a wife is her husband and the head of Christ is God.
00:04:55.500 Every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors his head.
00:05:00.060 But every wife who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head,
00:05:05.340 since it is the same as if her head were shaven.
00:05:08.360 For if a wife will not cover her head, then she should cut her hair short.
00:05:12.480 But since it is disgraceful for a wife to cut off her hair or shave her head, let her cover her head.
00:05:18.380 For a man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God.
00:05:22.540 But woman is the glory of man.
00:05:25.160 For man was not made from woman, but woman from man.
00:05:28.600 Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man.
00:05:32.380 That is why a wife ought to have a symbol of authority on her head, because of the angels.
00:05:37.020 Nevertheless, in the Lord, woman is not independent of man, nor man of woman.
00:05:41.720 For as woman was made from man, so man is now born of woman, and all things are from God.
00:05:48.180 Judge for yourselves.
00:05:49.620 Is it proper for a wife to pray to God with her head uncovered?
00:05:53.060 Does not nature itself teach you that if a man wears long hair, it is a disgrace for him?
00:05:58.440 But if a woman has long hair, it is her glory, for her hair is given to her for a covering.
00:06:03.240 If anyone is inclined to be contentious, we have no such practice, nor do the churches of God.
00:06:10.260 If you believe the hype, what I just read out loud is insanely difficult as a passage to understand.
00:06:16.200 Something of a total mystery for us.
00:06:18.060 Something leaving us with almost no idea of what it is that Paul would have us do.
00:06:22.780 Strange, we tell ourselves, that God would give us such confusing instructions.
00:06:27.460 Oh well, moving on.
00:06:28.900 Now this is frankly nonsense.
00:06:31.780 Sure, there have been differences of interpretation here and there,
00:06:34.740 but overall, the central requirement of this passage in terms of its practical application
00:06:40.120 has been quite readily understood for centuries and centuries of Christian practice.
00:06:45.900 And further, the central reasoning of the text is not opaque or impossible for us to understand,
00:06:52.200 but it's actually quite clear.
00:06:54.300 My hypothesis is that we have pretended that this is an extremely difficult passage to understand
00:07:00.540 to excuse our modern practice of disobeying it because we are embarrassed or offended by it.
00:07:07.980 A modern practice of disobedience born, in other words, of feminism, rebellion, and sexual chaos.
00:07:14.920 But the central demand of the text, that women wear a head covering over their hair,
00:07:18.600 at least in the context of gathered worship, is so plain that it was unanimously practiced
00:07:23.380 in virtually every corner of the Christian faith until modern times.
00:07:27.800 Tertullian, an early church father born about a century after Paul wrote his letter to the
00:07:32.440 Corinthians, wrote a treatise around the year 200 called On the Veiling of Virgins, where he argued
00:07:38.920 that unmarried women ought to wear a head covering and not just married women. That was the only real
00:07:43.800 debate at his time, not whether or not they should cover their heads at all, but whether virgins
00:07:47.980 should as well. He specifically noted that the Christian women in Corinth continued to cover
00:07:52.940 their heads to that day, including the unmarried women, the virgins. So apparently they understood
00:07:59.040 what Paul meant. Likewise, Clement of Alexandria, John Chrysostom, Augustine, Thomas Aquinas,
00:08:05.380 William Tyndale, Erasmus, Martin Luther, John Calvin, John Bunyan, John Gill, John Wesley,
00:08:10.560 Charles Spurgeon, H.A. Ironside, A.W. Pink, Martin Lloyd-Jones, and R.C. Sproul all agreed that Paul
00:08:16.580 here requires women to wear a covering on their heads at the minimum in gathered worship. Now,
00:08:22.240 those names alone, and that's quite a truncated list by the way, bring us from the 2nd century to
00:08:27.060 the 21st century. Now, we don't arrive at the truth on the basis of a popular vote. We don't
00:08:32.960 determine what the scriptures teach on the basis of popular vote. But my question is simply this,
00:08:38.380 are we wiser today in the scriptures than these men? Have we grown wiser in our understanding of
00:08:43.820 the text than all of them? Did we discover the secret and hidden key that unlocks the meaning
00:08:49.040 of Paul's words in 1 Corinthians 11 that all of them missed? Our answer is no. They were right.
00:08:56.560 The moderns were wrong. And so in this episode of the King's Hall podcast, we'll talk about why we
00:09:01.800 think head coverings are a biblical practice and why the church should return to them. This episode
00:09:06.840 of the King's Hall podcast exists to make self-ruled men who rule well and win the world.
00:09:19.040 Well, welcome to this episode of the King's Hall Podcast. I'm one of your hosts, Eric Kahn, joined today by the one, the only, the very focused Brian Sauvé.
00:09:27.600 Oh, it's focused. Pastor. Mr. Pastor Brian Sauvé. That's the only thing I actually answer to.
00:09:33.340 I mean, you've got a fancy cup here. I've got a fancy cup. We're ready to rock. We're locked in.
00:09:39.760 Water.
00:09:40.340 Water. Fascinating conversation today, Brian, on head coverings.
00:09:45.720 Yeah.
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00:10:00.800 wives you know white knights and reviling wives i mean reviling wives are all the rage they really
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00:10:17.320 absolutely everybody bring it up at the dinner table all the time you know that was a great
00:10:21.840 point that you raised mother-in-law you know there's a book that's coming out from new christians
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00:15:44.520 right head coverings is a pretty uncontroversial topic it is kind of interesting as we delve into
00:15:49.140 that now uh when i first was introduced to head coverings i was going to a presbyterian church
00:15:53.620 and there were one family that had covered and it was my friend anthony shout out anthony he
00:16:02.300 listens to the show i like to call him anthony just because you know really because he likes it
00:16:08.700 but i saw his family head covering and this is so silly but i was like are you are you guys from
00:16:15.160 like the middle east or and he was like no we're from here we're from america and i'm like yeah
00:16:24.120 but like where were you born yeah america also america here that was kind of my first introduction
00:16:29.240 but i guess for for the person who came out of like big even normie ism which i did yeah um in
00:16:34.780 just generic evangelical culture this is it's a culture shock and so like i guess just from the
00:16:41.860 beginning, if you would just address that person, like how, how do you typically talk to people in
00:16:45.600 a way that you're like, look, just hear me out. Yeah. Hear me out. This is actually a biblical
00:16:49.600 thing. It used to be normative. Totally. I usually start when I'm talking to somebody new and say
00:16:55.080 like, look, this is not in the top five most important doctrinal issues today. I genuinely
00:17:02.240 don't think so. Um, I think there are bigger doctrinal issues that are at stake, but it is
00:17:07.140 an important issue because it's important that we obey the Lord's commands when he gives them.
00:17:12.460 So usually what I do is just say, hey, this may sound weird to you, but if whether you were
00:17:18.080 Eastern Orthodox, Roman Catholic, Protestant, and I mean like Lutheran, Presbyterian, Baptist,
00:17:25.440 Southern Baptist, like pretty much charismatic, pretty much any Christian on the average,
00:17:32.480 way over the average, like the vast majority through history, from the earliest recorded
00:17:36.960 history in the early church through the middle of the 20th century, roughly, were head coverings,
00:17:44.260 at least in worship. And the East still does it. Correct. And to be clear, the covering,
00:17:49.620 I'm not talking about a Muslim hijab that covers the face. We all with unveiled faces beholding
00:17:56.420 the glory of the Lord are being transformed from one degree of glory to another into the same
00:17:59.700 image. Christians don't cover their faces in worship, men and women. But yeah, women would
00:18:06.500 wear a cloth veil or covering over their hair of some sort. And sometimes it looked like a smaller
00:18:13.020 bonnet. Sometimes it looked like a hat. Sometimes it looked like a veil that would cover all the
00:18:17.500 hair up. But some variation of that was worn in nearly every Christian tradition. Now, there are
00:18:23.300 little, there are variations in when some people in lots of Christian areas and cultures and times,
00:18:29.140 they would wear them all women would have all the time sometimes it would be a distinguishing
00:18:33.260 characteristic that once you got married you started wearing a head covering yeah calvin was
00:18:37.840 one who said it's for virgins too but that they had to debate that that was a debate because the
00:18:42.360 text it wasn't debated that they wore them though no in the text there's some ambiguity because paul
00:18:47.660 uses a word for men and women that can be translated variously man or husband and woman or
00:18:53.760 wife. So the ESV that we read, um, it does translate it wife pretty consistently through
00:18:58.780 most of the passage. Um, but other translations will just translate it man or woman. So there's
00:19:05.320 some variation again, Tertullian around 204, um, wrote and said on the veiling of virgins. And he,
00:19:11.980 and he was speaking to this debate about married women only are virgins. He said, well, in Corinth
00:19:15.900 there's the virgins veil as well, 150 years later. So it seems like the tradition from Paul was that
00:19:23.100 the virgins would veil as well. And the reason for this was as a symbol of authority on their head,
00:19:29.280 it relates to the hierarchy of authority from God to Christ in his incarnation, not Christ in his
00:19:36.900 deity, but Christ in his incarnation, in his humanity, then the man and then the woman. So
00:19:42.660 it's a symbol of authority. It also relates, as we'll see, I think, to the hierarchy. I believe
00:19:48.200 the hierarchy of glories present in worship do you agree with calvin you know you read one of
00:19:53.620 the quotes which is interesting um where he says there is a sense in which men in general rank
00:20:01.320 hierarchically above women um and now we've heard a lot of stuff in our day which is like the only
00:20:08.780 man that a woman has to submit to is her own husband but it seems like even the reformers
00:20:13.460 we're saying actually there there's more to it at a societal level yeah so a couple distinctions i
00:20:20.200 think are important to make one the answer i think is yes there is a sense in which hierarchically or
00:20:26.540 in terms of rank um god placed the man or man men over the woman or women generally and i'll
00:20:34.480 explain that biblically because it sounds in our day very controversial but then there's another
00:20:39.120 sense in which I would say it, we don't translate this into a requirement that all women have a
00:20:46.600 duty that is identical to submit to all men in the same way. In the same way they would to their
00:20:51.600 husband. No, in the same way they would to their husband. But we see that God made in the passage
00:20:55.480 in 1 Corinthians 11, he does say that God made, that the woman was not made, or rather that the
00:21:02.300 man was not made for or from the woman, but the woman was made for and from the man. And from
00:21:09.180 this distinction, he's talking about hierarchy and submission and glory and things like that.
00:21:14.240 And so the woman was made to be a helper, a helper suitable to her husband, but then also
00:21:24.460 societally in terms of their ontological nature, in terms of various offices of leadership in the
00:21:30.300 world, God appointed that men would take roles of leadership normatively, not women. So this is
00:21:36.120 true in the home. The husband is the head of his wife, and she has a duty to obey and submit to
00:21:41.160 him. It's true in the church. God only appoints men to teach and hold authority in the church as
00:21:47.900 elders and pastors. It's true in the state. God appoints men to rule as civil rulers, and as
00:21:54.100 Isaiah 3 teaches. It's a curse, actually, for women to rule over a nation. That's a curse.
00:22:00.600 The fact that we see this in America today shows us how far we've come. We're actually
00:22:04.480 engaging in self-cursing in that sense. So there are many men that women need to submit to in her
00:22:13.940 life, not just her husband, when it comes to those different spheres. And then also just generally
00:22:19.540 speaking, um, because of all of that, you see that societally, um, men have a preeminent role
00:22:26.880 in terms of the leadership. When you bring all that together, the family, the church, the state
00:22:31.900 societally, culturally men, men ought to, and we're designed by God in their nature to
00:22:38.300 have a role of leadership of headship societally. So there's some nuance there. I think biblically,
00:22:45.060 especially that asterisk that like it wouldn't follow that my wife is shopping at walmart for
00:22:52.940 something and some guy comes up to her and says hey shine my shoes is she is she bound by god to
00:22:58.780 obey that command no no of course not but the male sheriff and the male judge and the male senator and
00:23:04.800 the male pastor there are many men in her life that she has a duty before god to submit to
00:23:09.500 um in in different ways and there's probably also a general disposition among women toward
00:23:14.940 you know particularly like noblemen in their community and stuff like that
00:23:19.040 that you would want to honor one of the things i think that is interesting
00:23:22.720 as we get into sort of some of the feminism aspect uh with betty for dan i.e or aka betty
00:23:31.120 goldstein um you know it's funny because people were like i'd like to see some sources so i was
00:23:37.660 sharing on acts just like the google search bar yeah here it is like literally it's on wikipedia
00:23:43.140 there's article after article after article she was an active marxist jewish marxist
00:23:48.320 but this was actually one of the linchpins i had been reading the theological arguments
00:23:52.760 and one of the linchpins for me was obviously the church history
00:23:57.060 but then realizing that this was a central cog in the feminist agenda yeah that actually did
00:24:03.540 change my mind quite a bit and say, wait a minute. Oh yeah. When all of it, when you,
00:24:07.480 when you go, wait a second. So you're telling me that, and I'm going to give some nuance to this
00:24:11.860 in a second, but you're telling me that virtually all Christians until the 20th century had covered
00:24:15.820 Christian women. And honestly, until like the fifties and sixties. Yeah. Like the mid 20th
00:24:20.840 century and that the driving factor was culture change related to feminism. So then following
00:24:26.960 that, all of a sudden you see all of these arguments that are like, oh, well that passage
00:24:32.580 is really about, it's about Bacchanalian rights, women putting their hair down. It's about women,
00:24:38.980 female prostitutes in Corinth. It was about fill in the blank with some cultural explanation or,
00:24:44.060 oh, you know, actually Paul was just meaning the long hair is the covering,
00:24:47.400 not that there's no additional covering needed. It's right there in verse 15. All of a sudden we
00:24:51.580 come up with all these arguments or, oh, that was just for the exercise of special charismatic gifts
00:24:55.780 that have since ceased. And so we no longer need head coverings, you know, like all of a sudden we
00:25:00.200 come up with that we come up with arguments to justify a practice the practice of rejecting the
00:25:06.800 head covering and that's the direction that it seems to be working that should give you before
00:25:12.580 you hear the arguments even from the text that should give you it shouldn't settle it for you
00:25:16.140 but it should give you an a priori suspicion of the dismissal of the head covering what is also
00:25:22.960 interesting too i i looked this up and you know i i again i use google but i said you know like
00:25:28.900 how many of the feminists were jewish marxists and almost everything i read including the mostly
00:25:35.960 from like jewish sites they were like at least two-thirds of the people were jewish they were
00:25:43.740 largely behind the feminist movement it was highly marxist and that makes sense because even going
00:25:48.920 back to frederick engels like one of the chief aims was to destroy households by destroying male
00:25:54.680 authority. Yeah. So Engels, one of his first works is on patriarchy. Yeah. And I mean, in this time
00:25:59.860 period, you have to remember that we have with Marxism and Marxist-Leninism and Marxism-Leninism
00:26:04.540 and communism, this was a time prior to the whole story of the Soviet Union and communist China,
00:26:11.180 where there was in the zeitgeist, this brand new, we're doing scientific approach to politics.
00:26:18.700 We're going to fix all these problems politically with central planning and central power. It was
00:26:23.800 a new utopian political religion that had not yet seen all the evidence that since just you know
00:26:29.060 obviously clearly dismantles and disproves this idea um and a lot of this was coming out of eastern
00:26:34.940 europe and and particularly jews in eastern europe yeah the bolshevik jews there's a ton of connection
00:26:40.260 not all of them were jews but it's important to note that a significant portion of the leadership
00:26:43.760 were jews and it's worth stating too i mean you have sigmund freud you have the psychological
00:26:48.760 movement uh again jewish marxists yeah that infiltrate in america you've got the frankfurt
00:26:55.520 school yeah all these movements that come to america and this is why like abby schreier in
00:27:00.160 her book and she's jewish and she's pointing out this problem uh with bad therapy is the book but
00:27:06.300 like all the transgenderism it came out of the same world yes fdr's cabinet was full of eastern
00:27:13.040 european immigrants who happen to be jews so we should call this this episode something like on
00:27:17.220 the jews and head coverings is basically where it's going but culturally that's uh the the the
00:27:23.380 soil that grew this movement and the fruit of the movement was cast off your head covering get rid
00:27:29.780 of the head covering and i think what's so interesting we'll get into the text in a moment
00:27:33.940 but paul is making an argument primarily from creation from nature not from culture yeah he's
00:27:41.640 making an argument from God's creation and what we learn about it in special revelation from nature
00:27:48.100 in God's creation and what we, what we know about it from natural revelation and from, uh, the,
00:27:53.840 the order of worship, propriety in worship and gathered worship and what we know about the angels
00:27:58.100 and their relationship to worship. So I think it's interesting given that, that when you have
00:28:02.120 rebellion, especially sexual rebellion in the 1960s, um, head coverings have to go obviously
00:28:08.540 because they're admitting they're saying this is a sign of submission yeah and and we're
00:28:13.520 acknowledging that but then you also get things related to the passage like uh the first thing
00:28:18.840 that a woman does when she goes you know lesbian or some sexual degenerate path yeah what does she
00:28:24.040 do she gains a bunch of weight she gets fairly fat and then she shaves her head yeah when she
00:28:27.900 dies the few remaining straggles some violent shade of neon which is not a mistake like they
00:28:32.880 know what they're doing they're revolting against god's nature yeah paul says like he basically says
00:28:38.180 judge for yourselves versus 13 onward. Is it right for a woman to pray or prophesy with her
00:28:42.840 head uncovered? No. And then he goes in this argument from nature about a woman shaving her
00:28:47.400 head and men having shorter hair, women have a longer hair. And people today, like when we come
00:28:53.320 to this passage, we go, what is Paul talking about? This is so hard to understand. Some men
00:28:58.000 have long hair. Some women have short hair. Like how is this nature? Men and women both grow hair
00:29:03.220 on their heads. So how does nature teach us this? And we're pretending like we don't understand what
00:29:07.500 he means. We understand what he means. Generally speaking in culture, men have had shorter hair
00:29:12.700 than women and women's hair has been considered a glory and a beautiful thing. I've actually read a
00:29:17.460 lot on this time period. Um, because I remember getting in trouble on X for the, you know, men
00:29:22.740 in long hair and women in short hair, all that. Um, and people are like, well, Jesus had long
00:29:26.660 flowing locks. And actually when you do the, the, the history and the research or read through that
00:29:33.220 time period more than likely jesus had a short roman style haircut that was the norm that would
00:29:41.220 have been the norm it would have been very abnormal for him to have like hair to the middle of his
00:29:46.020 back jewish men typically had short hair if they took a nazirite vow which was unusual then they
00:29:51.400 would grow their hair until the end of that vow but it was supposed to communicate something is
00:29:56.080 out of the ordinary yeah it's abnormal it was a strange thing and the thing is like you pointed
00:30:00.260 it out. Feminists get this. They get that if they want to rebel against their sexual nature,
00:30:06.120 they should shave the sides of their head, get a dyke haircut, dye it an unnatural color.
00:30:11.320 They should do all sorts of things to obscure God's creation, piercings and tattoos and all
00:30:16.300 these things. What is that? It's basically saying, I hate God. I hate the way he made me.
00:30:22.440 And I am God. I can remake myself in whatever image I want.
00:30:26.360 it's interesting too i totally agree even the beehive hairdo like done up that came about as
00:30:32.740 a way to put hat companies out of business because most women like it was unthinkable even to go out
00:30:37.580 in public without something on your head and so even the development of hairstyles that would
00:30:44.140 radically change how women approach society yeah and that's actually one of the one of the aspects
00:30:50.260 that people want to say that well brian it wasn't a unilateral tradition about head coverings there
00:30:54.300 was all very all this variation i would say yes there was variation in terms of when like in many
00:30:59.020 europe christian european nations it would be normal for a a young woman not to wear a head
00:31:03.420 covering until she got married and then she would put on a wimple or a head covering and that would
00:31:07.820 signify culturally this is a married woman versus an unmarried woman so you have some variation
00:31:12.540 yeah most of the time uh in in many many christian traditions and places the women would always have
00:31:17.860 a head covering in public they would they would consider it unthinkable to go out without their
00:31:22.620 hair covered into public in the public settings you get to the reformation and and actually yes
00:31:27.860 there is debate in the reformation you have different like in france for example there was
00:31:32.200 um a there were a group that they they rejected the head covering like men would wear coverings
00:31:38.220 on their head instead calvin did actually promote the use of head coverings for men even like uh
00:31:45.380 in preaching and he would he says something like you know now a man ought to take his hat off for
00:31:51.540 like to acknowledge the passage. But then he says something like if his head is cold, like
00:31:55.700 and there was no, there was no heat in the church. So like you kind of get it.
00:32:00.580 There was at that time, definitely a question amongst a lot of the reformation and the
00:32:06.020 Protestant Christians of what is Roman Catholic accretion and what is biblical. And you did,
00:32:13.100 I mean, you did have times when, when they would say like, well, the head covering is this or that.
00:32:17.480 But even in spite of that, coming out of the Reformation, the Protestant traditions maintained head covering, generally speaking, on down into the 20th century.
00:32:28.220 So it's just, there is not a lot that you can point at, or there are many things you could point at where there'd be wide disagreement between Eastern Orthodox, Roman Catholics, Baptists, Presbyterians, Lutherans, and Anglicans.
00:32:41.280 when you find them all agreeing on something you got to be like i better have pretty good evidence
00:32:47.120 to like say that this is an unbiblical tradition or this is just optional why do you think it's so
00:32:52.460 offensive particularly to women today the idea of wearing a head covering because the sign still
00:33:00.220 works like this is my theory is that people say well we shouldn't women don't need to wear a head
00:33:06.800 covering because it was a cultural, it was a cultural expression of a timeless principle
00:33:13.000 that men and women are different and the male headship is real. And so at that time, head
00:33:17.520 covering represented that it no longer does. So women don't need to wear it. They should just
00:33:22.140 look feminine or do something else. Um, and people point to like wedding rings as if wedding
00:33:26.720 rings say any of the same things head coverings do, they don't. But I think we, we see in some
00:33:32.960 of the hesitation, um, that actually the symbol still works. It's still, people get it when you
00:33:39.180 say, especially if you give even five minutes of instruction on the passage and you say,
00:33:43.200 ladies, you should wear a head covering as a symbol of authority on your head. And that means
00:33:46.800 that it, the, the covering is saying everything under this covering is under the authority
00:33:50.120 of the husband of male headship properly expressed in, in the world as God made it.
00:33:55.820 People get that. It doesn't take long for them to understand it. And, and a huge number of women,
00:34:01.040 including christian women today go absolutely not and then they call it all sorts of names
00:34:06.600 it's legalistic which it's not legalistic to obey a command god gave it's actually
00:34:11.500 what we're supposed to do it's legalistic that's oppression that's muslim that's muslims don't
00:34:17.100 cover their heads for the same reason muslims it's actually the women horribly christians don't
00:34:22.720 it's actually almost identical response when we talk about modesty oh yeah same thing exactly and
00:34:28.220 it just tells you that, no, this matters because the rebellion that is deeply ingrained in our
00:34:33.480 culture in both men and women, but there is a type of rebellion that has been enculturated into women
00:34:38.640 against God's design, nature, and law that you immediately see the hatred of it, the rebellion
00:34:46.680 against it when you attempt to impose the standard again. All of a sudden, oh, we do get what this
00:34:53.380 means and we hate it so i i think i think you're right i think that it does i think that it does
00:35:00.600 deeply relate to the feminist indoctrination some of the rejection and the histrionics around it too
00:35:06.280 um i've told women before like okay what's the worst that's going to happen let's say that you
00:35:11.980 were right and it was a cultural thing what is the worst thing that's going to happen from you
00:35:17.700 wearing a head covering you'll look slightly cute a couple hours a week like i don't i don't
00:35:25.560 understand what in the act like they're being enslaved like literally enslaved you just wear
00:35:34.240 a head covering for like it's what i don't get it is doesn't were you telling me the eastern
00:35:39.920 orthodox church like if you come into the church and you don't have one they won't let you in yeah
00:35:45.120 but they have them there they'll have them yeah they would not let a woman into the worship
00:35:49.240 service without a head covering interesting nor would the roman catholics until the 20th century
00:35:53.940 yeah you couldn't you would not be permitted in fact in most churches and protestant churches as
00:35:59.100 well it would have been highly irregular for a woman to come in without a head covering of some
00:36:04.980 sort now you see this morph in a different expressions like the hat um and even in some
00:36:10.960 places like black churches it's still common for women like older black christian women they wear
00:36:15.460 still head cover they will wear hats it's kind of morphed into this like you've got a whole fruit
00:36:19.760 basket on your head it's probably like a little probably not saying everything the apostle
00:36:23.900 intended the whole point is not to have a derby hat you shouldn't have something on your head
00:36:27.960 that says like look at me it's that's not the point yeah but you there's a vestigial preservation
00:36:33.380 of the tradition even there yeah um as we jump into the text there's a few resources that i think
00:36:39.620 are pretty good one is jeremy gardner's book that's pretty easy to read it's accessible yeah
00:36:45.860 i'm sure you'd probably recommend that yeah it's it's very straightforward the head covering
00:36:51.300 movement website has a lot of resources that you can just download for free like pdfs yeah
00:36:56.220 answers a lot of questions it has links to several books leslie mcfall's book there there are several
00:37:03.780 books and resources that you could read okay so people can check that out yeah but i guess if you
00:37:08.360 would just kind of give me the summary walk me through the text yeah sure so you could um you
00:37:12.440 could go listen i did a full sermon it's like almost it was actually the longest sermon i've
00:37:16.140 preached in a while um it was three hours it was about 56 minutes or something like that
00:37:21.760 um and usually i preach for like 40 to 45 so it's a little bit longer i go through the whole text
00:37:28.220 um go through the objections but the text runs from verse 2 to verse 16 and paul begins by
00:37:36.520 commending them for remembering the maintaining the traditions or ordinances that he delivered
00:37:40.980 to them and these traditions by the way are not man-made they're not just take it or leave it
00:37:46.280 that word can be translated as ordinances which is like a ruling custom and it is elsewhere in
00:37:51.560 the new testament so he's not saying like these are just some traditions like you play football
00:37:56.140 on thursday on thanksgiving with your family if you want to play football on thanksgiving that's
00:38:00.200 great. These are things that were handed down apostolically for the church to practice. They
00:38:06.480 are preserved for us in the scriptures of the New Testament, in the apostolic letters
00:38:10.600 and writings. Paul then goes into a section from verse three onward, where he explains this
00:38:18.860 hierarchy of headship between, from God to Christ and Christ submitting to God in terms of his
00:38:26.460 incarnation. So not introducing submission and authority into the, the, the essence of the deity,
00:38:33.300 but of, um, male, I'm sorry, of his Christ in his incarnation. Calvin has a great section in his
00:38:39.740 commentary on that as well. Um, but the head of a woman is, uh, the head of a wife, the ESV
00:38:45.580 translated is her husband and the head of Christ is God. So we have God, Christ, the man, the woman,
00:38:51.140 And then he goes into his application of this, that a man who prays or prophesies with his head
00:38:57.020 covered, it dishonors his head. So he's dishonoring Christ, his head. But every woman who
00:39:03.480 prays or prophesies with her head uncovered, uncovered now, dishonors her head, which is
00:39:08.940 the man and also ultimately God by dishonoring her head. God gave her that head. Since it's the
00:39:14.840 same as if her head were shaved. For if a wife, verse six, will not cover a wife or a woman,
00:39:21.140 her head, then she should cut her hair short. But since it's disgraceful for a wife to cut off her
00:39:26.220 hair or shave her head, let her cover her head. So he's given the grounding in hierarchy, then
00:39:34.000 in submission and headship, then he talks about what does he mean? Men are uncovered, women are
00:39:38.580 covered. Verse seven, he then gives an argument from glory that a man ought not to cover his head
00:39:44.560 since he is the image and glory of God, but the woman is the glory of man. And then, well, what
00:39:49.520 do you mean? Well, he says, for man was not made from the woman, but woman from man, sorry, from
00:39:53.980 woman, but woman from man. Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man. That is why a wife
00:40:00.200 ought to have a symbol of authority on her head because of the angels. So he goes, you know, he's
00:40:06.300 now made several arguments in this passage, just to briefly explain them. The symbol of authority
00:40:12.260 because of the angels makes perfect sense. Typically you look up commentaries from the early
00:40:16.120 church through the Reformation and onward. And you find that people note, A, that when we're
00:40:20.980 in gathered worship, which is the context of everything from chapter 11 through chapter 14
00:40:25.700 in 1 Corinthians, it's mainly dealing with gathered worship, the Lord's table, charismatic
00:40:29.740 gifts, et cetera, et cetera. Well, when we come to worship, the angels of God are present with us.
00:40:38.140 Like in Hebrews, we don't come to this mountain that can be touched, Mount Sinai. We come to the
00:40:43.200 heavenly Jerusalem with the firstborn enrolled in heaven and the angels. Well, when we see angels
00:40:49.020 in worship, what do we see? They're deeply concerned with the holiness of God and with
00:40:54.800 the primacy of God's glory. So they cover themselves. Isaiah 6, you can see this. They
00:40:59.140 cover themselves in God's presence. As an expression of hierarchy. Yeah. They're also
00:41:04.200 very much, yeah, God and then understanding God is first. And the other thing we'd see about the
00:41:10.360 angels again and again in scripture, even though we don't get this laid out fully because the Bible
00:41:14.600 is actually not about angels. It's about men and their God. Primarily angels are very regimented
00:41:20.660 in, in ranks and authorities over and over. They're called various ranks, like powers and
00:41:25.860 principalities. We see like named arch archangels who are like obviously high up on the totem pole.
00:41:33.820 So there's like a military, cause they're called a host. They're an army. So they have ranks.
00:41:40.040 So they're very concerned.
00:41:41.400 The angels are concerned both with the holiness and glory of God
00:41:44.040 and with hierarchy and authority being properly followed.
00:41:48.360 So it makes perfect sense why verse 10 would say
00:41:51.400 that the woman ought to have a symbol of authority on her head
00:41:53.580 because of the angels.
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00:43:52.520 that lasts. The other thing Paul does in that section is he talks about glory. Now, I owe this
00:44:01.400 insight to Bill Mauser, the late Bill Mauser. Non-Tenant also has a great series of articles
00:44:09.460 where he lays a lot of this out. You could just search for, that's a B-N-O-N-N, Tenant. He has
00:44:15.580 a lot of articles written about this, this form part of the argument, at least it's that Paul is
00:44:21.720 argument arguing from glory in the worship service that we have present in the worship
00:44:27.120 service, a series of glories. We have God's glory, which is the man, because the man is the glory of
00:44:35.560 God in the passage. We have the man's glory, which is the woman, because the woman is the glory of
00:44:42.260 man. And then we have the woman's glory, which is her hair. The hair is her glory later in the
00:44:48.240 passage. So in covering, in the central thesis is that in the gathered worship of the church,
00:44:54.940 only the glory of God ought to be on display. Every other glory should be veiled, covered like
00:44:59.340 the angels in front of the throne. And so we cover the woman's head because in covering her head,
00:45:05.120 we cover both the woman's glory, her hair, and under that is the woman herself, which is the
00:45:11.100 glory of man. And so now in worship, what is on display? The glory of God. And this is why men
00:45:16.320 are not covered because they are the glory of God. It would be to cover the glory of God to cover
00:45:20.680 the man. And so, okay, we proceed in the argument going real fast. He has a section from 11 to 12
00:45:28.380 where he clarifies, but men and women are dependent on one another. I'm not saying that like the head
00:45:33.700 should boast over his helper. So he, that's the section where he says that woman is not
00:45:39.220 independent of man or man of woman. He says that men are born from women. Muslims hate this doctrine,
00:45:44.720 by the way. Like one of their objections to Christ being the son of God is that he was born from a
00:45:49.640 woman and they cannot abide that. They say that's disgusting because women are inferior in every way
00:45:56.280 to the Muslim, which is false. Women are actually part of God's image bearers. So it's like, no,
00:46:03.220 they're not inferior in that way. Even though there's rank and hierarchy, the Muslim view
00:46:08.240 is wrong. So Paul corrects that. And then in verse 13, mainly the end of the passage through verse
00:46:15.900 15, he makes this further argument because that was special revelation. The creation of the woman
00:46:21.880 for and from the man is from special revelation. It's Adam and Eve. And from glory, which is also
00:46:27.780 special revelation. We know these things about God, his presence, worship, because God's revealed
00:46:32.280 these things to us. Well, now he says there's another book where God reveals things to us,
00:46:36.960 the book of nature. And in that section, 13 to 15, he then says, judge for yourselves. Is it
00:46:44.280 proper for a woman to pray to God with her head uncovered? Does not nature itself teach you that
00:46:49.900 if a man wears long hair, it is a disgrace for him. But if a woman has long hair, it is her glory
00:46:55.120 for her hair is given to her for a covering. And here he uses a different word for covering than
00:47:00.280 he's been using in any other part of the passage. This is a word that's like a mantle. It's a word
00:47:06.080 used in Hebrews 1.12 and nowhere else in the New Testament. They're referring to the heavens or
00:47:10.280 like a mantle that would be rolled up on the last day. So this argument, some people mistake it and
00:47:16.260 they say, oh, that's it. The hair is the covering, period. There's no other covering. But that's not
00:47:21.440 what Paul's doing. He's saying that God gave the woman a natural covering in her hair that is
00:47:27.740 different from the man. And if she removes that covering anywhere, just in nature generally,
00:47:33.000 it we know that that's a disgrace if a woman shaves her head so how it's an offer to your
00:47:39.560 argument so how much more um shameful would it be for her to refuse to put on the covering that
00:47:45.940 god appoints for her in worship she's saying nature teaches us in this way so how much more
00:47:51.260 shameful would it be for her to remove the covering that god appointed to her and then
00:47:56.440 verse 16 he concludes with this basically people often read this to say make paul really he says
00:48:02.660 if anyone is inclined to be contentious, we have no such practice, nor do the churches of God.
00:48:05.960 People try to interpret that sometimes as saying like, but nevermind, you don't have to cover your
00:48:11.020 head if you don't want to. Like, no, don't argue about this. What Paul is really saying is don't
00:48:15.720 be, Paul knows that this doctrine is contentious among men and women, proper headship and hierarchy
00:48:21.100 and authority from the garden that's been contentious from the fall. So he says, don't be,
00:48:27.500 don't argue with me. Basically all the churches of God do this, which again, we see all the
00:48:32.160 churches from this time forward practiced this doctrine. So people generally object to this
00:48:39.600 for three reasons. One, they would say that this is just cultural, that Paul is just talking about
00:48:48.580 a cultural practice in Corinth that women wear their head coverings and Paul didn't want the
00:48:52.340 Christians to throw that off, but he wanted them to continue wearing it. It was actually a good
00:48:57.820 cultural custom or some variation of that. Or that Paul is just giving them a cultural way of
00:49:04.280 expressing a timeless principle, headship and hierarchy, that you can change at your whim.
00:49:09.580 As soon as a culture comes up with a different way of expressing male headship, you don't have
00:49:14.260 to wear the head covering anymore or whatever. The second objection is that the woman's long
00:49:18.860 hair is her covering. And then until she needs no other covering. And the third objection is that
00:49:25.800 this was mainly related to the practice of the charismatic gifts like tongues, and these have
00:49:31.500 passed away. And so now we no longer need it. Yeah, that's one of that I've heard is people say,
00:49:37.880 if you believe in head covering, then you have to allow a woman to lead in prayer from the front.
00:49:43.000 Yeah, prayer and prophecy. And my answer to that objection is A, Paul is not here permitting what
00:49:51.540 he clearly elsewhere forbids, which is for women to speak in church. And when I say speak, I mean
00:49:57.500 stand up by themselves and speak, like praying and leading the congregation in prayer, giving a
00:50:03.500 prophecy in the congregation, things like that. Preaching, obviously. Preaching. Paul, every single
00:50:09.720 time he addresses women in church, he commands them to be silent and be in subjection. They're
00:50:14.860 there to be silent. Even if they have a question, they're to wait until they get home and ask their
00:50:18.760 husband at home. You made a point, I think in the sermon, right? That prayer and prophecy,
00:50:23.020 he's kind of alluding to the whole worship. Yeah, that would be my view. And this is a view,
00:50:27.120 not just original meaning. Many people hold this view that what, what Paul is doing there is he's
00:50:31.540 not, here's what people are saying. Joel prophesied that in the last days, your sons and
00:50:37.680 your daughters would all prophesy. And so there's this eschatological fulfillment aspect that in the
00:50:42.440 New Testament church for this one period of time during the apostolic age, God gave this strange
00:50:49.240 thing where actually women would stand up and prophesy in the congregation as well as men. And
00:50:54.720 so this period, this only applies to that period. And I would argue that A, yes, God did give the
00:51:02.980 gift of prophecy to some women. We see that in scripture. We see the, you know, the man whose
00:51:08.180 daughters were prophetesses but we're never told anywhere in scripture that women did this in the
00:51:14.060 assembly of the church right not once how in fact it's so clearly forbidden in throughout the
00:51:21.160 scriptures for women to speak like this in church that we should interpret that less clear passage
00:51:25.380 in light of the clear ones and say this was not their practice there were other places where
00:51:29.160 prophecy was practiced like homes and other private and so yeah there were times when women
00:51:34.240 in this time were given the gift of prophecy, I believe, but they were not to exercise it in the
00:51:38.320 church. And then the second thing, the second problem with this argument is that even if that
00:51:44.580 was the case, prayer certainly isn't an extraordinary gift of the spirit that has ceased
00:51:50.400 with the apostolic age. So women would still need to cover their heads. What I'm saying though,
00:51:58.680 and I think this actually helps us to understand all of Paul's statements about men and women in
00:52:03.100 worship, this passage and everything else. It's that Paul is using prayer and prophecy as a
00:52:08.340 synecdoche where he's referring to the whole, the totality of a thing by reference to some of its
00:52:13.200 parts. And you see this elsewhere with the reference to the law and the prophets. Correct.
00:52:18.320 It means all of that, all the Bible. Yeah. Like I've used the, the example of, um, Hey, I'm going
00:52:25.320 to, let's go grab my wheels and let's drive over there. You don't mean take the wheels off your
00:52:28.820 car. You mean the whole car. So when Paul says prayer and prophecy, I think he's telling it as
00:52:34.640 a synecdoche, everything that happens in the gathered worship. And the reality is that when
00:52:38.420 we come together in gathered worship, there is a very real sense. And this is throughout Paul,
00:52:44.480 like you'd have to be really familiar with first Corinthians generally to know how thorough going
00:52:48.940 this theme is in the first 11 chapters, the unity of the body. One of the big problems in Corinth
00:52:54.760 was that they had schisms, like chapters one through four are all about divisions in the
00:52:59.840 church. I'm of Paul, I'm of Apollos, I'm this, I'm that. And he goes over and over chapter 10,
00:53:04.760 you're drinking of one, you have koinonia in the body and blood of Christ in communion,
00:53:08.500 fellowship, participation. You're one body, you're one bread. Like he's keeps telling them
00:53:12.760 you're one thing. When we come together in worship, we are one body all participating together
00:53:18.520 in the activity of worship, the Lord's service.
00:53:22.100 So when the body of Christ meets,
00:53:25.520 the body of Christ prays and prophesies
00:53:27.820 and proclaims the scriptures and all these different things.
00:53:30.300 And they herald the Lord's death
00:53:31.900 and his coming in the table of communion.
00:53:33.920 They do all these things as a body.
00:53:36.080 So yes, the body has a mouth, the elder, the pastor,
00:53:40.640 who stands up and leads in these things.
00:53:42.560 But when the pastor is praying, leading the congregation,
00:53:46.340 when a man is praying and leading the congregation in prayer,
00:53:48.520 the congregation is praying all together. It's why we don't go, oh, that guy's praying. Whatever.
00:53:54.080 Let's do our own thing. We bow our heads. And what are we doing? We're praying. We're praying.
00:53:59.280 So we're praying. We're prophesying. We're doing all these things. The body is. So who is
00:54:04.400 participating in that? Men and women are participating as the body of Christ,
00:54:09.080 offering the Lord service to the Lord in all these things. That's what Paul's talking about.
00:54:13.860 people picture this weird idea of like what paul is saying is that a woman comes in they all have
00:54:19.320 their heads uncovered one of them is going to stand up and lead in prayer or do a prophecy
00:54:23.660 so she puts a covering on her head she stands up and she does it then she takes it off and then a
00:54:27.800 man he's got a hat on he stands up he takes his hat off and he leads in prayer prophecy and then
00:54:32.060 you know he puts it back on and it only matters when you're doing that thing as an individual
00:54:35.640 no no no the body of christ gathered worship all of the women would have had a head covering on
00:54:42.000 through until the 20th century throughout the service and the men would not throughout the
00:54:47.500 service normatively nuance and exceptions i've spoken to some of those so the charismatic gifts
00:54:54.640 one even though you know the reformed tradition by the way does not actually unilaterally say
00:55:00.840 that prophecy has ceased for the record there's like a hyper cessationism that is common today
00:55:06.780 that doesn't really represent how the reformers and their descendants would talk about something
00:55:11.680 like prophecy just, just for the record. So I'm not even saying I buy the hyper cessationist
00:55:16.720 argument on that. Um, the, the, the charismatic gifts argument I think is, is bunk. The cultural
00:55:24.440 argument I think is bunk. And the reason that, you know, I said it in sermon, the way that you
00:55:30.000 can tell that Paul is not making a cultural argument in the text is by the way, he doesn't
00:55:35.320 make a cultural argument in the text there is none so like when people say this well in corinth
00:55:41.900 there were these prostitutes and they would shave their head and that would show that they're a
00:55:45.540 prostitute or you know in corinth they would do this or in this culture they would do that
00:55:50.640 and that's what paul was talking about well and this is one of the issues i've had with like the
00:55:56.820 head covering the way that like conservative even reformed people will handle first corinthians 11
00:56:02.620 is not how they will handle what paul says about women remaining silent no they will say look he's
00:56:09.520 arguing from creation you have to this is the standard this is what we're doing and i think
00:56:13.620 rightly the egalitarian crowd has said why don't you do that with first corinthians 11 and i'm like
00:56:18.240 i do right and when you say he don't yeah well but we do because first timothy 2 paul argues the
00:56:23.920 same way about the woman not teaching or holding authority over man he says well adam was not
00:56:28.800 deceive and the woman was. And the egalitarians will say, well, cultural and blah, blah, blah.
00:56:32.940 Yeah, it's all cultural. But then we kind of reverse. But we say, no, he's arguing from
00:56:36.680 creation. We're right there. But then we get to first Corinthians 11 and we're like, oh,
00:56:39.840 it's a cultural expression of a transcultural principle. And you're like, but here's the
00:56:43.840 thing that didn't arise from your reading or exegesis of the text that arose from you just
00:56:49.520 saying that. So Paul doesn't say that. Nothing in his argument would you conclude if you just took
00:56:56.360 at its merit oh paul's alluding to corinthian prostitutes that's what he's talking about and
00:57:01.200 the way you can know again is that he doesn't talk about that but he does talk about other things i
00:57:07.260 believe you actually said it's in the bones you see this bone it's in the bones see this is just
00:57:12.360 made of bones so we have to give some explanation that's actually helpful because with this series
00:57:18.660 of videos with like paleontology and they're like this dinosaur had another dinosaur riding on his
00:57:24.480 bag at 40 miles an hour and they're like well how do you know that he's like what's in the bones
00:57:28.400 is this guy he's pointing it's a guy he's making fun of paleontologists because like they they
00:57:32.780 make all these crazy claims about dinosaurs based on fossils like there's an artist's rendition of
00:57:37.560 it it's got like purple skin and they're like how did you know it had purple skin and he's like
00:57:41.500 now i'm glad you asked we're here to educate you you see this bone see we looked at the bones and
00:57:47.060 the bones just kind of had a purple vibe so so now we we say that a lot at here in ogden uh but
00:57:54.660 it's like that's what i say about the you can tell from the bones of first green is 11
00:58:00.040 that he's like it this is what people sound like when they make the cultural argument they're like
00:58:04.740 you could tell that paul was talking about first when he's 11 he's talking about prostitutes and
00:58:08.500 corinth because of the bones like they just had a prostitute vibe and you're like but he doesn't
00:58:13.760 say that yeah he doesn't say any of that the craziest interpretation award does go to michael
00:58:19.680 heiser and his reference of a scholarly monograph or something about it's like the hair being a
00:58:25.340 sexual organ yeah it's like a hippocratic medicine view like a view of the human body
00:58:30.480 at that time was that women's that hair was related to like virility and it was almost like
00:58:36.200 a sex organ so the woman's hair was basically a semen sponge and a man would lose his hair the
00:58:42.980 more emission that he had we should have warned people to turn this off for kids and so like men
00:58:48.160 would have shorter hair than women and so there's an argument that like one of the verses should be
00:58:53.360 translated so the woman should have this on her head or covering her hair was given her as a
00:58:59.580 testicle that's what it is first of all a lot of people ask me like do you believe heiser's view
00:59:05.840 and i'm like no no because it actually makes it so that paul's argument is all based on a false
00:59:11.700 view of the human body first of all well and he also heiser i think says that like because that
00:59:16.760 sexual organ is on display yeah the women it would tempt the angels to have sex with the women like
00:59:21.360 in genesis 6 right it's referring to it's in the bones that it's in the bones it's right there in
00:59:28.040 the bones and i you know maybe there's a double entendre related to that passage but but centrally
00:59:33.120 i don't i don't agree with heiser i think i think that it's it's straightforward what paul's talking
00:59:37.000 about that's generally one of the i have a few like exegetical instincts uh when you're preaching
00:59:41.920 a text but one of them is i get really uncomfortable when you have to do gymnastics
00:59:47.340 exegetical gymnastics to make it work yeah you know where you're like you have to squint like
00:59:53.800 and be like uh maybe at 50 yards i suppose i don't like that and the other one that i don't
01:00:01.280 like in you know i think in the protestant tradition we get leery of this because of the
01:00:06.140 roman catholic you know what the church has said but even the reformers stood by the principle of
01:00:13.120 the theology of interpretation so you should definitely still weigh what did people throughout
01:00:19.720 history how did they typically uh interpret a passage yeah and what would make me nervous
01:00:25.180 is if you got to like 1960 this is how i got into the masculinity stuff yeah it's like you
01:00:30.240 have these new interpretations even from guys like you know piper and grudem where it's like
01:00:34.940 complementarianism this never existed before yeah we didn't people weren't complementarian
01:00:40.220 that makes me nervous yeah i don't want new interpretations patriarchal but i have heard
01:00:45.580 uh like bible scholars like famous people i heard one say this about first corinthians 11 they said
01:00:51.480 well the thing is we know more about the corinthian context today than they did
01:00:55.120 i see and i was like like that sounds arrogant tertullian was 150 years removed and he was like
01:01:03.180 Everyone in Corinth, they'd be wearing head coverings, all the ladies.
01:01:05.860 Yeah, but he didn't understand the context.
01:01:07.380 He truly didn't understand the context.
01:01:09.180 The other thing is—
01:01:10.080 And really the context is, I don't want to do it.
01:01:12.700 That's exactly—per the cultural argument, like, there was no monolithic head covering tradition in the Roman Empire.
01:01:19.860 In the western part of the Roman Empire, men and women both would often cover their hair in, like, the pagan rituals.
01:01:26.840 In the—it's in the Middle Eastern Jewish part.
01:01:29.820 Yeah, women did tend to wear head coverings.
01:01:33.180 And then in the Greek part, the more Eastern part where Corinth is, people didn't wear head coverings nearly as often.
01:01:41.320 So there's no like the Roman culture did this or this Corinthian culture did this with head coverings.
01:01:47.180 We have lots of examples of paintings and freezes and things like that that show us that women with their head uncovered in all sorts of places where if Paul's arguing from a central custom.
01:01:57.660 And then people say like, well, no, it was the hair was up and then the hair was down.
01:02:01.260 And when it's up, it's covered.
01:02:02.680 when it's down it's not and again i'm like you can tell that that's not what paul says by the
01:02:05.700 way that he doesn't say that but he says other stuff instead yeah but it's in the bones and it
01:02:10.540 ends up being a kind of like bible exegesis by theological urban legend do you remember that
01:02:15.800 passage um where jesus is talking about it's easier for a rich man it's easier for a camel
01:02:22.300 to go through the eye of a needle and a rich man enter heaven i know where you're going and people
01:02:26.000 are like well there was this gate into jerusalem it was called the eye gate and it was small
01:02:32.580 but a camel could get through if it like crouched down to its knees and it did this little camel
01:02:37.060 shuffle it could get through the gate you know and so that's what jesus was talking about
01:02:43.500 it turns out all of that we're excited i made it up like it's not what jesus meant but it
01:02:49.380 becomes this urban legend that everybody says you actually see this a lot i think this was true of
01:02:54.640 like uh i think it was justo gonzalez he he called athanasius the black dwarf yes and then later
01:03:00.760 they were like he literally works cited he made it up he wasn't black you know like so people do
01:03:07.980 this with the head coverings where you'll even read commentaries where they i was reading a
01:03:13.040 commentary one of the ones i use uh regularly an anglican guy and he was like he's a little bit
01:03:18.240 more lib culturally and he was like oh yeah and corinth and then he talked about prostitution
01:03:25.620 and all the myths, all the urban legends. If you chase the footnotes down, eventually you'll find
01:03:31.680 that all of the keep citing each other. And then like the first one will be, you know, maybe what
01:03:37.180 if this was happening? What if like, I don't get this passage. Maybe Paul was, maybe there was like
01:03:41.060 this going on and then it becomes an urban legend. But, but even today, largely scholars have
01:03:46.640 debunked, historians have debunked this idea that there was this unilateral culture of head,
01:03:53.560 like paul's saying this thing is totally related to corinthian prostitutes with shaved heads well
01:03:59.400 this this would actually be for me like a practical application for pastors one of the reasons i made
01:04:04.720 a switch uh some way through my ministry especially when i was preaching every week
01:04:09.520 where i would always i would go on ligonier and they would have the top five commentaries and
01:04:14.300 that i would order you know maybe two of those yeah and i had an older pastor older pca pastor
01:04:19.940 tell me this and he said you need to start reading matthew henry and calvin yeah and the old dead
01:04:25.620 guys yeah and i said why and he said well they have mistakes but they don't have ours exactly
01:04:30.380 and he said you'll notice anything that is a commentary after 1960 it's just chock full of
01:04:36.540 those kind of errors oh yeah i always have calvin's commentary open if there is a commentary
01:04:41.520 from calvin on the passage yeah so throughout first corinthians not just now there's really
01:04:45.020 not an excuse like you can find all the commentaries online yep you don't even they're
01:04:49.160 like free you don't have to purchase them i don't even agree with calvin on everything even in this
01:04:52.960 passage i think calvin's wrong about men wearing head coverings in church and then it's totally
01:04:57.260 okay i think he's wrong about that um but he they don't have the same errors as we do right absolutely
01:05:03.480 right you need to be going back to the fathers need to be going back to the reformers you need
01:05:07.520 to be you know just going back even even to the early 20th century you get in in the late 19th
01:05:14.780 century there read some dabney i mean yeah read you some dabney get some dabney in there you know
01:05:19.620 some hodge would be good you know i i do want to address maybe some of the practical questions that
01:05:23.700 i've heard anytime you bring up head coverings uh the first one would be so brian obviously in
01:05:29.720 your church uh any woman who dares enter a worship service without a head covering obviously gets
01:05:34.360 flogged um we are just so strict on this no what what's actually going on inside refuge church
01:05:41.300 no i i we tell everybody in membership classes like we have an eight-week membership class
01:05:46.120 we're pro head covering you're gonna hear it from the pulpit you're gonna see lots of women
01:05:50.600 head covering you're not allowed to be divisive or like call them legalists because people do
01:05:54.940 immediately they're like i see a woman wearing a head covering and i'm just like her heart is full
01:05:58.660 of pride she just i could see it in her eyes that she thinks she's better than me and you're like
01:06:03.260 that's all you that's not our women they don't think that they're not like oh i put my head
01:06:07.640 covering on is a symbol of arrogance. They're just trying to obey Paul. So they know all about
01:06:12.740 it. Like this sermon on Sunday, I said, ladies, you should wear a head covering. Men, please don't
01:06:16.880 cover your head in church. We don't discipline over this issue. We recognize that some people
01:06:24.180 have legitimate views. I think they're bad exegesis of the passage. But people who say,
01:06:30.360 no, I really do believe in my conscience, I'm persuaded that this passage teaches this,
01:06:34.460 that the covering is required but the covering is the hair or some variation of that and so my
01:06:39.260 wife's not going to wear a fabric head covering in church and we're not going to put someone under
01:06:44.160 church discipline and excommunicate them for that part of the reason for that is because
01:06:48.200 i believe that in this on an issue like this where again it's not a first order issue we're like
01:06:53.900 pretty far down the rung but it does touch on important things like sex piety and sex the
01:07:00.480 the doctrine of men and women and anthropology hierarchy hierarchy um i think the best way to
01:07:06.220 convince people over time is like with this just statement of the argument they see it displayed
01:07:12.460 in a huge number of our women and then over time they go yeah you know what i think i think you're
01:07:18.060 right about that and the head coverings tend to go on yeah over time and that's what we've seen
01:07:22.080 um in in a it's basically looking at culture and saying we're so far it's gonna take time it would
01:07:28.640 be to me also similar to like, um, pants on women was general, genuinely at one point in history,
01:07:35.640 it was like a huge controversy. And, and I believe generally speaking that women ought to wear
01:07:42.220 dresses, not pants. My wife and I have even had this conversation many times. She's like, yeah,
01:07:46.100 I wear generally dresses in public, not, not even feminine pants, but, and you could even point to
01:07:52.700 passages like women shouldn't wear the garb of men. And that does have overtones of military
01:07:56.400 apparel and things like that but generally christians in history like it was a big deal
01:08:00.840 when women started wearing pants it was like initially seen as great rebellion against their
01:08:05.540 sex against the creation creational norms she wears the pants yeah it's like an expression
01:08:11.140 right so it but the way that i that i think we're going to convince women and and men the men and
01:08:17.340 the women over time to embody the totality and the fullness of these things isn't by
01:08:22.840 disciplining for every single possible deviation from the christian tradition and like okay let's
01:08:28.520 but by complete patience and teaching exhorting giving example showing the beauty of it and then
01:08:34.220 lo and behold what happens women start wearing dresses and head covering start coming on and
01:08:39.000 men start wearing jacket like a nice suit to church i noticed that yeah even with the men
01:08:44.340 that's kind of a good example once the pastors we when i got here was kind of a mix and then
01:08:49.800 somewhere along the line it was like somebody bought a pair of cowboy boots dress boots and
01:08:55.720 then we kind of all started buying that and then we all started wearing like blazers and then before
01:09:01.300 you knew it it was like everybody kind of dressed a certain way yeah that's kind of how culture
01:09:05.740 works uh one other question i've heard is so if i'm a lady do i have to cover my head when i'm
01:09:13.680 praying at home my view is that this this passage is primarily concerned with gathered worship yeah
01:09:19.440 when the church comes together. And I believe that's the context of chapter 11 through chapter
01:09:23.320 14, largely. Um, and in the verse 10 is key there for me that he's talking about the, something the
01:09:32.860 angels are concerned in particularly, and the angels are present with us, particularly in
01:09:37.700 gathered worship. I'm not saying angels aren't present other times. And we don't even have
01:09:41.720 angels. Like we should pray for God, God to watch over us by his angels. This is like Psalm 91.
01:09:46.820 read those kinds of passages. Psalm 104. Great. Um, but I think Paul's primarily concerned with
01:09:54.380 the gathered worship and that I'm okay with some people believe that it should be all the time.
01:10:00.180 Some people believe it's anytime a woman is like praying at the dinner. So it becomes almost all
01:10:05.040 the time. Cause like through the day, how many times do you pray? Hopefully a lot, even if just
01:10:09.440 like before a meal, are you constantly putting a head covering on and off? So I understand culturally
01:10:13.860 where the head covering all the time thing came from but my conviction in terms of what the command
01:10:19.280 is i believe it's related to gathered worship okay yeah that's helpful i agree and that's our
01:10:24.860 practice there are other times too like in that things that start to border on it like psalm saying
01:10:29.420 we're all singing prayers kind of gather my wife comes to that i you know so she and we're in the
01:10:35.860 sanctuary so even there just as a matter of like propriety my wife would head cover yeah okay but
01:10:41.420 we have women in our church who cover all the time and i commend it i think it's great yeah
01:10:44.600 um here's another one i think that is gets down into the practical because a lot of ladies are
01:10:50.360 thinking through this i had one of these questions um recently uh because of i think bright heart
01:10:56.620 somebody was listening to bright heart um but they said if my husband has not worked through
01:11:01.220 this issue and is not convinced of head coverings but i am convinced should i head cover anyway
01:11:07.100 potentially i'm assuming that's disagreement uh-huh yeah and i'll go ahead my advice was
01:11:14.940 um well you should you you should give him time to work through it and obey him and not nag him
01:11:21.260 about it and do not nag him about it yeah like you said i think it's helpful knowing it's not a
01:11:24.980 first order issue yeah um but i i just think that particularly after like the sermon or people
01:11:30.840 listen to that or maybe some they do reading they the woman will become convinced and she feels like
01:11:36.200 am i sinning right um so how would you help the ladies think through that okay let me speak to
01:11:41.720 the husbands first and the ladies for the husbands i think if your wife in her conscience is persuaded
01:11:47.500 of that you need to understand that she's persuaded that she has an apostolic command to do it and that
01:11:52.500 she is actually in her conscience sinning not to so you should care a lot about that and you should
01:11:57.680 as a head you have a responsibility not to provoke your people to sin like a father should not provoke
01:12:05.960 his children to wrath. There's a principle of inferiors and superiors there. A boss should
01:12:11.160 not provoke his employees to sin by being a miser who demands bricks without straw. I think a husband
01:12:18.800 ought not to provoke his wife to sin against her conscience in an area where clearly she has good
01:12:23.780 biblical warrant to have this conviction. And so in that, I would say, let's say the husband is
01:12:30.660 like, I've done the reading. I'm actually convinced that it's a cultural thing or something. I think
01:12:34.340 brian's wrong my wife is convinced in her conscience now she's she's willing to say i
01:12:38.660 will submit to you and not i would say to that husband um you should think pretty carefully
01:12:43.980 before you give that command because again what is the worst thing that's going to happen with this
01:12:49.100 your wife is going to look slightly cute for a couple hours on sunday yeah you know what i mean
01:12:55.080 it's not i would make a distinction here with that and a husband who says something like
01:13:01.040 honey you may not buy organic meat for every meal we can't afford it i know you think it's
01:13:06.920 better for us and you've made this argument that it's almost like i'm sinning by feeding my children
01:13:10.960 poison of conventional meat he's like no buy the normal ground beef at costco we're gonna thank
01:13:16.740 the lord for it he's gonna nourish us by it we can't afford it wives you should submit and that
01:13:21.740 should be the last time you bring it up you shouldn't bring it up again why because your
01:13:26.220 husband has genuine authority this is different in the sense that paul has a positive command
01:13:30.740 the apostle Paul does to your wife. And he genuinely does. That's what he's aiming to do
01:13:37.200 is give a command to the men and the women. And in the context that we're talking about,
01:13:42.080 Paul outranks you. He's an apostle of the Lord Jesus Christ giving instruction for gathered
01:13:46.920 worship. So just like a husband shouldn't say, we're not taking communion. I've had husbands
01:13:52.800 come into the church, one family, where the husband said, we don't believe in water baptism.
01:13:56.680 They were hyper dispensationalists. And we instructed the family, you should get water
01:14:01.420 baptized. You should not obey your husband on this because he is commanding you to sin.
01:14:07.140 The Lord Jesus commanded this. And in this sphere, the elders outrank your husband and the Lord Jesus
01:14:13.540 obviously outranks everybody. So you should, you should get back. It would be like a husband
01:14:18.400 commanding his wife not to convert. Yes, you should convert or not, not to, you know, many
01:14:23.720 other examples of a husband commanding his wife to sin so in this in this area i would say a wife
01:14:28.880 should submit to her husband if he says absolutely not not in my house because it's not an issue that
01:14:33.800 rises to that level where i would potentially just kind of push husbands a little bit what i've seen
01:14:40.220 on some issues like this is a woman will read read a book or whatever she reads it she's convicted
01:14:46.360 or here's a sermon and then the husband actually doesn't have a position and she's like i'm really
01:14:52.460 convicted on this and he's like well i haven't read about it and she's like well are you going
01:14:56.680 to read about it and he's like no to me it's like come on you're just being that's being dumb yeah
01:15:02.580 you're not you're not treating your wife with understanding you're not taking charge as a sage
01:15:07.860 in your home in in leading in matters of family religion this isn't this isn't a whether you think
01:15:14.060 it's silly or not um you should take it seriously because it's an apostolic command so i do think
01:15:20.780 one of the things we need to stop doing is making fun of head coverings. There's so many jokes that
01:15:25.120 people make that they're like, you know, Doug Wilson has a thing about like, um, you know,
01:15:29.320 oh, I noticed your wife wears a head covering. And the husband replies, yeah, she insists.
01:15:33.500 And he's, he's, he's late making fun of something real where the wives are like way more interested
01:15:38.260 in the Bible and doctrine and things than their husbands. And that's, that's a genuine problem.
01:15:42.080 Um, but what, what sometimes that lets us do is kind of go, oh yeah, wives who care about head
01:15:48.000 coverings. They're such dorks. They're such rebellious, proudful, arrogant women. Oh,
01:15:52.100 and husbands whose wives cover, they must be really like just pushovers. They don't get the
01:15:56.820 real. Well, no, this is like an apostolic command that was practiced variously in most corners of
01:16:04.080 the church for most of Christian history. So it's not silly. Like God doesn't give us silly
01:16:08.580 commands in the scriptures. And I do some, you know, people make jokes about, well, because of
01:16:14.160 the angels, refused to elaborate, you know, because we act like this is such an opaque passage.
01:16:19.600 What on earth did Paul mean by the angels? We have no idea. And you're like, pick up a commentary.
01:16:25.640 Christian theologians have dealt with this passage for centuries and they haven't considered it
01:16:31.080 impossible to understand. There are many straightforwardly biblical arguments so how
01:16:36.520 we can understand what Paul means in verse 10. The Holy Spirit wasn't like trying to confuse us.
01:16:41.160 yeah i also think for men in particular like taking the leadership we've talked about this
01:16:46.000 before but many years ago my wife uh we were we were going to a church and she had come across
01:16:52.480 one of the resources on the church desk which was post-millennialism and she read it and she said
01:16:58.480 hey i think you should look into this you know this seems to be pretty important and it was
01:17:03.380 something that i was like okay well yeah i'm gonna look into this so i read it like that week or the
01:17:08.040 next we talked about it we started reading more stuff i think it can be one of those things of
01:17:13.400 just a failure of leadership if your wife is like hey i think this is really important it was a
01:17:19.340 church resource they say it's important for a husband then to just drag his feet for years
01:17:25.220 it goes back to what you're saying you're being a bad leader and you're exasperating your wife
01:17:31.260 it's and and i think it can go all sorts of wrong ways where they're like oh you know your wife was
01:17:37.640 leading you and i'm like no you just need to do your job no like um and do it quickly yeah do it
01:17:46.420 quickly like sometimes when you marry a respectable woman like when you marry a great godly woman like
01:17:53.680 i did like you did um there are times when my wife asks me questions obeying paul hey if you
01:17:59.720 have a question ask your husband at home and you're like i have to go look into that and i
01:18:03.220 have to say you know what let me let me that's a great question let me go read about that and
01:18:06.760 figure it out and i've forgotten before and she's asked me again then i'm like kind of embarrassed
01:18:10.680 because i'm supposed to be the guy who can answer her question so husbands we need to take that
01:18:15.880 seriously wives need to not be nagged it's a symbol of authority so don't be like naggy nitpicky
01:18:20.980 and yeah you know if your husband makes a ruling for your family religion and on this matter like
01:18:26.160 submit to your husband cheerfully don't nag him about it don't you know don't do that but i do i
01:18:31.900 say that we have a lot, mostly men listening to King's Hall. Just be careful that you won't have
01:18:40.620 to give an account before God when he says, this woman that I gave you and told her to submit to
01:18:46.180 you, she brought this to your attention, my command on this point. And you treated it as a
01:18:52.980 light thing and told her not to. And she submitted to you. And so, and it was, she shouldn't, like,
01:18:58.920 she she submitted to you in something that actually she should have done so like you'll
01:19:03.200 be held again so what's your answer for that and and there's god's grace is behind our finding out
01:19:08.680 like god's mercy covers even these things so let's keep the gospel central but it's an apostolic
01:19:16.460 command like i just i come back to that over and over i'm like what other apostolic commands are
01:19:21.940 we like you know it's not a really big deal and the answer is actually unfortunately many but
01:19:27.180 none of them are okay for us to treat that way yeah i would view it likewise we would talk about
01:19:31.580 like tithing right where if a wife is like hey honey i noticed we're not tithing like i heard
01:19:37.420 the sermon um what are you thinking and he's like uh mind your business woman and you're like
01:19:42.840 actually again you're failing to lead she's doing a righteous thing yeah an abigail thing by saying
01:19:50.680 hey remember that yeah how do we do that because because it's her house she's in the household too
01:19:55.480 so you're not doing that is her not doing it yes and so it's actually legitimate that she would
01:20:00.780 inquire and ask um that we can go so far i think into the desiring to throw off the feminism and
01:20:08.240 egalitarianism of our age we can um make it we can actually get into the the a ditch where we're
01:20:15.560 like oh um a wife can never bring a wise appeal to her husband about anything and i don't i don't
01:20:20.760 believe that at all we've given we've done bright heart episodes on this um like how and how
01:20:25.360 in what context and how can my wife bring a wise appeal to me and say, have you thought about this
01:20:30.900 or I've noticed this about whatever it is. Can we think about this thing? You know, whether it's
01:20:34.940 family worship or some other thing. And, um, I've been helped by my wife in that. Well, a lot of
01:20:40.380 times if I get, especially young guys, they're like really exuberant about the patriarchy thing.
01:20:44.920 Yeah. And they're kind of like hand-waving at their wife a bit much. Yeah. And a lot of times
01:20:49.020 what I'll bring them back to is the Puritan teaching on companionship or companionable
01:20:53.360 marriage yeah where like the puritans would teach she came from your rib meaning she's supposed to
01:20:58.400 be near to your heart like this is someone with whom you share intimate counsel yeah like you're
01:21:03.400 talking through the issues you should not it's a bad leadership to be like we're doing all this
01:21:08.400 and she says well why and you're like because i said so don't don't don't question me well actually
01:21:12.400 she just wants to know so she can do it knowledgeably yeah it's just what i actually
01:21:18.220 encourage husbands to do is give your wife overt, clear instructions that you are allowed to come
01:21:28.300 to me respectfully and appropriately with any issue that's on your mind. I think a boss should
01:21:34.600 do this at work. I think a general should do this to a colonel. I think a colonel should do this to
01:21:38.900 a captain. A good leader should like, and then he learns that he might have to correct a subordinate
01:21:44.660 and say, you keep bringing me these silly things. And they're actually, you're really just pushing
01:21:48.400 back on my leadership. You're not asking genuine questions. Then you deal with that. But I encourage
01:21:53.760 men to not just without speaking, but tell your wife, you have standing permission to bring to me
01:21:59.660 any concern that you have about me, about the children, about the home, about anything. I want
01:22:06.800 to know about it because I'm your head and I want to lead you well. And what's the worst that's
01:22:11.120 going to happen. You're going to have to maybe correct a wife who's too forward and, and, and
01:22:15.920 say, Hey, you've brought me a different thing every day this week. That's you're, you're being
01:22:20.500 naggy. You're being anxious. But even then you just learn something to correct and lead on.
01:22:25.300 I guarantee you that if you do that well and you lead well, I'd not guarantee wives can sin,
01:22:30.180 but it will help. It will genuinely help. And you'll be doing, you'll be leading righteously.
01:22:35.200 my wife knows this um i could count on one hand like i could count on two or three fingers
01:22:41.400 the number of times in the last several years that my wife has come to me and said could you
01:22:47.960 consider this in every case it was good it was good feedback i genuinely in several of the cases
01:22:57.060 considered it and said no that's good that's good that was a good insight that she had about the
01:23:03.700 home i'm gonna i'm gonna listen to that and our home is stronger because of it that would be a
01:23:08.560 good point too i think for the wives um is if if you're constantly bringing every complaint
01:23:14.600 all the time and it's a dripping faucet then when you have a real one you're kind of like the boy
01:23:19.800 who cried wolf you know so it's like yes that would be and i know lexi has counseled young
01:23:26.820 ladies in that way too like if you brought more than like five complaints in the last like two
01:23:32.940 months like it's probably a bit much and then when you have a real one and you're still like hey this
01:23:39.080 issue is really important to me but if on the other hand if you have a righteous woman you know
01:23:44.040 and i would say the same about my wife it's like you just don't hear many of the major issues
01:23:50.080 because there aren't any yeah you know she's not fussing no but if she comes and she says hey i'm
01:23:55.280 really interested in this theological topic like what do you think i take that seriously i'm like
01:24:00.280 Absolutely. Okay. I need to, we'll look into that. You know, we'll address it. Yeah. Well,
01:24:04.940 I think it's been a good conversation. Um, I know you guys have also dealt with it on bright hearth
01:24:08.720 a long time ago. We did. We'll probably do another episode on a head coverings and answer
01:24:12.500 listener questions about it. Probably sometime in January or February, we'll have that episode
01:24:17.360 come out. We're pretty far ahead recorded in bright hearth. Um, I would also say, go listen
01:24:22.280 to the sermon. I didn't really talk about the long hair argument today. I addressed it in the
01:24:27.320 sermon verse six is a real important key to understanding why the long hair cannot be the
01:24:32.500 only covering paul is talking about in the passage um but yeah there are plenty of resources out
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