00:00:58.660you did yeah too hot for me you move in I moved to Austin I was only here for one summer it was
00:01:05.840horrible yeah it's a it's a whole different vibe here people say it's a dry heat and that's how I
00:01:10.840know that they've never been here in the summer yeah they tell you it's a dry heat and then you
00:01:13.680move here and they're like ha gotcha that's exactly right it's right but it's beautiful
00:01:18.780all the rest of the year so if you can like just live in the pool I actually couldn't think of
00:01:23.040anything worse than a suit full-time in Arizona during the summer yeah unacceptable yeah capital
00:01:27.960punishment. That is capital punishment. Okay. I want to know more about your background because
00:01:32.680you're an extremely successful entrepreneur. You, how did that happen? Can you start from
00:01:38.720the beginning? Like, did you come from money? Did you grow it all yourself? How did this happen?
00:01:43.840Yeah. Well, I have my mom sitting over here, so she always laughs when I tell this story, but,
00:01:47.640um, no, I didn't come from, from money. My mom was a 30 year special education teacher,
00:01:52.580you know, incredibly hardworking, you know, master's degree, but really decided to serve0.90
00:01:59.420instead of focus on making money. And then my dad, you know, he came from a family that had to
00:02:06.040build everything themselves, really. And so his side of his family comes from Spain,
00:02:11.100and they moved to a place called Globe, Arizona, or Miami, Arizona, which is where copper mining
00:02:16.220is. And so his story is wild. I want to have him on the podcast at some time. But like,
00:02:21.340you know, he didn't get a chance to go to, to go to college. He built up his entrepreneurial
00:02:25.420journey entirely by himself. Um, you know, he now has run and sold multiple businesses,
00:02:31.660but, um, was the definition of, of bootstrapped. Right. Oh, that's cool. Yeah. And he, you know,
00:02:38.980he had worked in a slaughterhouse for years and, you know, and was like, kind of like skiing across
00:02:45.240the, the West coast for a while, kind of ski bombing and, and really good at it still to
00:02:50.180this day, but he has, um, stories about, like, I remember this one story he told me about, he had
00:02:55.840a pet rabbit. And, uh, this was back when he lived with his grandparents because his parents were
00:03:01.880trying to make enough money to afford to bring my dad down to Phoenix, um, which is where they
00:03:07.120moved because there was more money there than in Miami in the mining town. And, uh, and he had this
00:03:11.080pet rabbit and he would feed it every day with his, his grandpa. And, um, and then one day,
00:03:15.920you know, after dinner, he went out to go feed the rabbit and, you know, he was like, ah, you know,
00:03:19.640where is he he's not in there well oh no I know they had eaten it for dinner because
00:03:25.820the whole time they were grooming you know the rabbit was a very big boy but you know they made
00:03:31.580their own wine they hunted uh and they raised animals to eat them and so that is so different
00:03:37.720from how I grew up where my parents like kind of gave me every opportunity they could but like
00:03:42.380you know like so many of us like a middle-class family in the u.s um and you know i think i
00:03:49.440really benefit from the fact that i didn't have a trust fund for sure but i had a lot of love like
00:03:54.620no better parents in the world so what do you think your parents gave you that like allowed
00:03:59.260you to become successful are there specific values they taught you or did you have a whole
00:04:05.980bunch of jobs growing up or something did you start working young like what what happened there
00:04:09.780Yeah. You know, I actually, we have these four chairs at my parents' house that they still have to this day. And I have a brother. And one of the coolest things they ever did is we sat in these four chairs almost every night after dinner and we would debate. We would have topics and we would not just talk about what happened that day, but like, why did you do that? What did you think about that? What's happening in this world? And those four chairs, I think, led us to have to stand up if we had ideas and back them up.
00:04:35.360you could say anything, but you better be able to back up your idea. And, um, and those four
00:04:40.460chairs kind of lasted my entire childhood. So one thing I would say is they allowed us to question
00:04:44.880things, but then we had to have a reason to do it. We had to be rational. I want to do the same
00:04:49.160thing with my kids. And then from a very young age, they did two things incredibly well. I think
00:04:53.680in my opinion, one is they really taught me to love learning. You know, like my mom, I remember
00:04:58.440would take me to the library every summer here in Arizona. You could actually do it with your kids.
00:05:02.480it's super cute if you go to the Scottsdale Public Library each summer they have a reading game and
00:05:07.980it's kind of like a like Candyland like you know you you skip around the things on the board game
00:05:13.280and every time you read a book you get you know part of the Candyland thing at the end you get
00:05:18.060some reward uh from from the public's library oh that's cool yeah and so I would go and read like
00:05:23.380I don't know however many books I was allowed to check out like 15 or 20 books at the time whatever
00:05:27.220the max limit was and she just taught me to read and really love it and so that made me curious
00:05:32.300and then my dad uh did a really incredible job i think of showing me what it meant to work hard
00:05:38.160like he never called me a princess it was always you could be a future president
00:05:42.100and uh and then he made me do as many team sports as i possibly could handle i mean i hated him
00:05:48.940as a coach he was i'm sure your dad was tough in some ways yes yeah definitely yes yeah
00:05:57.160my dad's a softy now but he was really i mean it was super hard always harder on me than everybody
00:06:03.240else i felt but now in retrospect i'm like what a gift you know and that i think led me to business
00:06:09.480because i watched him i watched my mom and i was like huh you know if he can build these things i
00:06:14.680should probably be able to build them and because i'm curious and have this instilled learning in me
00:06:20.120i don't want to go to my grave wondering if i had if anything left yeah yeah yeah you know i feel
00:06:25.000that yeah yeah I wonder like one of the things I've been trying to figure out as a mom is how
00:06:31.020do you well I think it's hard to as a female or at least it's hard for me to like give enough0.98
00:06:36.560negative pressure or something enough pressure in general maybe not negative pressure in order to
00:06:43.100get people to strive to be their best right and so I think I had that growing up as well which was
00:06:49.260like I expect you to get A's because like and if you don't get A's then you know you're not trying
00:06:54.780hard enough or something like that but there was an expectation that was almost like higher than
00:06:59.620what I was achievable so and like you said recently now that I'm older it's like lessened
00:07:06.080but throughout I probably tell I was maybe like honestly 28 or 29 like quite recently it was
00:07:13.940I expect a little bit more than you're capable of and that's like I think I'm still trying to
00:07:19.960grapple with doing that to kids because it's like it's hard to strive for but then I think you get
00:07:25.760such interesting results from it in a positive way yeah so it's tricky you know Chris Chris and
00:07:33.680I have this saying he's my husband where he says for his parents he's like he's a navy seal or was0.91
00:07:39.600a navy seal and so uh our joke is always um you know to his parents thanks for fucking me up enough0.98
00:07:45.260to be a Navy SEAL, but not enough to be a stripper. Yeah. And I think there's like some0.98
00:07:49.660component that's right. You know, you need some trauma, like you need a little bit of difficulty
00:07:56.240and trauma and strife and pushing in order for you to achieve anything. And if the part that's
00:08:03.040curious, and I'm not sure how to manufacture it. Yeah. You know, I didn't have it manufactured
00:08:08.580through a terrible mean family, which is a lot of times how overachievers have it. And so the
00:08:13.660manufacturing for us at least came from really intense group sports so can you get out there
00:08:18.300and can you make your kids sort of suffer in the Arizona heat and softball for 52 hours
00:08:22.500also suffering for the parents probably more and then you know simultaneously my dad's a big hunter
00:08:27.940and so um like this weekend we're going on a father-daughter trip and we're going to go
00:08:32.620fishing and we're going to go hiking and so you know it would be camping and hunting and being
00:08:38.020out in the wilderness and that makes it's hard it's you know it's not always the funnest yeah