00:06:11.220Celebrate Reformation Day by registering to come to the Post-Millennial Theonomy Conference
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00:06:21.960All right, let's go ahead and hop into it.
00:06:23.660this is what I want to do. So I've titled this video, The Sin of Women, The Sin of Women. So I
00:06:29.420want to start with this concept, this topic, and then we'll move on and take a few questions,
00:06:34.400all right? That's all I'm going to do for announcements in this video so that I have
00:06:37.720time to get to some of the questions. But this is what I want to read, all right? These are some
00:06:41.540quotes from various articles and different studies giving some statistics in regards to divorce,
00:06:48.520particularly divorce in America okay gazelle I don't even know how to say her name I am not
00:06:55.420I'm not up on culture and pop stars and stuff like that I'm up on politics I'm up on culture
00:07:03.600in terms of things that really matter but if you ask me about trying to think of one celebrity
00:07:10.420that I could name I don't know if you if you ask me about Jessica Alba I really I can't even
00:07:17.480picture her face. I don't even know who that is. I just remember the name, you know, or some kind
00:07:22.400of star. I don't really know. Okay. So I'm certain that I'm pronouncing this incorrectly, but here
00:07:27.480we go. Gazelle Bonnbunctin. It's probably German. It's Reformation Day. The least I could do is get
00:07:35.780a German name right, but I can't. I just can't. I'm sorry. So anyways, you'll know this other name,
00:07:41.280gazelle something something and tom brady are over okay so this is tom brady's wife they're done
00:07:48.080their marriage is over tmz sports has learned that the supermodel just filed for divorce from the nfl
00:07:54.820superstar that's the way it usually goes the woman in the vast majority of cases is usually the one
00:08:03.500who initiates divorce that's what we currently have going on in the united states of america
00:08:08.980when it comes to divorce, more often than not, it is the woman who initiates divorce, okay? Now,
00:08:15.080a study led by the American Sociological Association determined that nearly 70%
00:08:21.100of divorces are initiated by women. And the percentage of college-educated American women
00:08:27.620who initiate divorce is even higher, hovering around 90%. So if you have a college-educated
00:08:34.380woman who is married and that marriage ends in divorce, there's a nine out of ten chance that
00:08:41.020she's the one who initiated it, not her husband. Now, in attempting to explain the disproportionate
00:08:47.040amount of divorces that are initiated by women, many, in error, they're wrong, but many would
00:08:53.400respond by saying, well, that's because men are physically stronger and the women have to make
00:08:58.320use of their legal options for divorce because they are almost always the abused party.
00:09:04.380however this is not statistically true although that does happen in particular instances and it
00:09:11.140is an egregious sin when a man physically abuses his wife that is absolutely a heinous sin
00:09:18.260however this this may happen but this is not the statistical norm a 2006 study of physical and
00:09:25.840physiological aggression revealed instances of minor aggression initiated by men in 23.3%
00:09:35.200of cases. So minor aggression initiated by men in 23.3% of the cases, while there were instances
00:09:43.100of minor aggression initiated by women in 33.8% of the cases. That's almost a 50% increase.
00:09:52.900all right so there's about three women for every two men that initiate now we're talking about
00:09:59.380abuse in minor aggression cases of abuse there are three women who initiate they're the ones who
00:10:06.640who actually act out that minor aggression abuse they're the ones who acted out three for every
00:10:12.360men. Okay, let's keep reading. Women also led the men in cases of severe aggression. So with
00:10:23.080physical abuse in cases of severe aggression, women actually still led the men in these cases
00:10:30.040with male-initiated aggression, severe aggression at 8.4% of the cases, and female-initiated
00:10:37.480aggression in 11.5% of the cases. When we think of abuse, again, men can be abusive. Certainly men
00:10:44.340are sinners. But the reality is that statistically, if there's a marriage between a man and a woman
00:10:49.900and one of those two married individuals punches the other person in the face, it is more likely
00:10:56.200to be the wife than the husband. It's more likely to be the wife than it is the husband. In
00:11:01.900relationships where violence was non-mutual, almost 70% of the violence was perpetrated by
00:11:08.680the women. In other words, in almost 7 out of 10 cases of mutual violence, the batterer was a
00:11:16.180female. Now, women who participated in mutually violent behavior with their male partners were
00:11:22.000more likely to display a pattern of repeated violence than men. Men's violence was much more
00:11:28.840likely to be isolated. A one-time event where the man lost his temper, he forfeited self-control,
00:11:36.060and he sinned against God and his wife and his children egregiously. It is a serious sin, okay?
00:11:42.480I'm not minimizing physical abuse from men. However, it more often than not comes from women
00:11:48.940at the minor level and at the severe level. At any form of physical abuse, whether it be minor or
00:11:54.280severe, it is a three to two ratio of women with minor aggression in the realm of physical abuse,
00:12:00.920and it's still a higher statistic of women with severe, severe aggression and abuse, a higher
00:12:08.600statistic of women who initiate than men. In mutual cases, where there's abuse on both sides,
00:12:14.540it is more often seven out of ten times the woman who initiated it. And when abuse is repetitive,
00:12:21.700when it continues, it's more than just one isolated event, again, it is much more likely
00:12:26.800to be women. If a man is abusive, there is a likelihood that it's a one-off event. Wrong,
00:12:33.680immoral, wicked, heinous, yes, but very likely to be an isolated event. I shouldn't say very
00:12:41.000likely. Right there, I need to be more careful. When this happens and it is an isolated event,
00:12:46.120it is more likely that it is a man with an isolated event of physical abuse than a woman.
00:12:51.700women are more likely, I can say, more likely to repeat physical aggression and physical abuse
00:12:58.520against their husbands than men are against their wives, all right? So what have we learned? What
00:13:03.780we learned is that women are sinners. Women are sinners. Now, let me be clear. Do I, Pastor Joel
00:13:11.940Webber with Right Response Ministries, believe that women are inherently more sinful than men?
00:13:16.700Yes. No. No, I don't. I don't believe that women are more inherently sinful, that just by virtue of just biologically being a female, that you have a higher propensity or a greater degree of immorality than your male counterpart.
00:13:35.740No, I don't believe that women are inherently more sinful than men.
00:13:40.100This is what I believe. I believe that with any individual, whether it be an isolated individual
00:13:46.140person or whether it be a group of people, a group of individuals, that people, the nature of sin and
00:13:52.060the way that it works in the world, when sin goes unchecked, when sin goes without accountability,
00:13:59.380when sin goes on without recourse, without judgment, without the necessary and biblical
00:14:07.160consequences that God prescribes in his word. When any sin goes unchecked, it's going to grow.
00:14:14.760It's going to grow. It's going to occur again and again and again. So do I believe that women are
00:14:19.600inherently more sinful than men? No. But do I believe that at this juncture, at this particular
00:14:25.540cultural moment, especially in the West, and especially even more so in the United States of
00:14:31.060America, do I believe that women are sinning at a higher degree and a higher frequency than men
00:14:38.300in the realm of marriage? And we could probably argue other arenas as well, but in the realm of
00:14:43.180marriage, particularly as it pertains to abuse and divorce, yes. Yes, that's what the statistics bear.
00:14:50.200Women are sinning worse, in worse ways, and with a higher frequency than men. It is not because
00:14:57.120women are inherently more sinful than men, but it is because women for decades now in the West,
00:15:03.300and particularly the United States of America, their sin has gone on unchecked. Unchecked. So
00:15:10.540they're not naturally more sinful than men. But any sin that's not rebuked, that's not corrected,
00:15:17.180that doesn't receive the necessary consequences for that sin, any sin that is not ultimately
00:15:23.380addressed and held accountable is the sin that will continue and often the sin that will grow
00:15:30.600and sadly as it pertains to our culture in the west today for the last several decades but in
00:15:37.900recent history in the west in western societies women the sin of women has been by and large
00:15:47.280held far less accountable than the sin of men.