00:00:00.000Hi, everybody. This is Gatsad with The Sad Truth, another fantastic guest. She invited
00:00:06.120me a while ago on her podcast. I was meant to reciprocate many moons ago, but finally
00:00:12.940I convinced her to come on. Michelle Tafoya, how are you doing? It didn't take much convincing,
00:00:18.820sir. It was an easy yes. It's great to see you again, and you have been a busy man.
00:00:25.000Thank you so much. So many people will know you from your illustrious career as a sports broadcaster and journalist. We can get into that. But the most important reason you're here today is that you've got a big senatorial race happening, I think, November 3rd.
00:00:42.200You're running for one of the two Minnesota senatorial seats. Maybe we could start there. What made you decide to throw that proverbial hat into the ring? How confident are you feeling? Tell us about it.
00:00:54.280Well, let me tell you that it really started for me on 9-11 of 2001. And that was sort of an awakening for me. I had always been involved and interested in government and politics. But I was working very hard, as you mentioned, as a sportscaster and newly married at that time.
00:01:14.860And I remember, I think we all do, that it felt like the the earth just shook that day, that everything is sort of like a Rubik's Cube got moved out of place and nothing was ever going to be the same again.
00:01:26.700And I just dove into I cared so much about this country.
00:01:32.480I just dove into history and biographies and politics and civics and just started reading everything I get my hands on listening.
00:01:40.140And over the course of time, then also as an NFL sideline reporter, I witnessed, you know, players kneeling during the national anthem, all of these protests that were going on here in Minnesota.
00:01:50.980We had the George Floyd protests and all that whole awful episode here in Minneapolis.
00:01:58.600So there was just a lot that kept on stacking and stacking and stacking.
00:02:02.820And finally, and I'd been asked, Gad, to run for office in the past, and the timing was never quite right.
00:02:11.040This is a seat where a Democrat is stepping down.
00:02:28.620And when we inform voters, yeah, everyone thinks Minnesota is cobalt blue, and it's really not. It's much more of a purple state. It's just been a while since we've had, I think, an opportunity like this. And so, yeah, I think people are starting to notice that this is a real race. And we are extremely excited about it because we have a chance to flip this seat and help maintain the Republican majority in the Senate.
00:02:55.780Have you received the usual sort of hit piece accusations?
00:03:00.600You're, who knows, an extreme far-right person.
00:03:19.060It has, I think, really made people think,
00:03:21.720OK, what does he mean? Oh, suicidal. OK, wait a minute. I get this. Yeah, I've gotten all the hit pieces. No question about it. I'm going to be a rubber stamp for Trump. And all that I can say, look, Trump isn't hugely popular here in Minnesota. And what I will tell people is when he's doing something right, when the Republican Party is doing something right, I will get on board. And when they're not, I will stand up and I will not go along with it.
00:03:50.440So I'm very much an independent thinker in my own person.
00:03:54.860I know what I think my moral, I have a moral clarity.
00:04:15.740She's said a number of things and she certainly has a record.
00:04:19.820She's been our lieutenant governor for eight years, while all the fraud and all the chaos and all the declining test scores and all the crime have exploded here in Minnesota.
00:04:48.660uh have you have you had the immense pleasure of interacting in person with ilhan omar
00:04:55.180not in person no have you no okay i think she wants to keep about a 300 mile radius away from
00:05:04.040me because i don't i don't suffer fools gladly and certainly not one of her ilk so i don't think
00:05:10.920she'll be inviting me for an espresso anytime soon but i suspect that at some point uh god
00:05:17.960willing, should you win this thing, there will be some interesting conversations in the hallways,
00:05:23.780no? I would expect them to be very interesting or just getting the cold shoulder. You know,
00:05:30.520this is one of the things, too, that makes me really sad, because when I was growing up in
00:05:34.900America, Democrats and Republicans talked to each other. I mean, there were divisions here and there,
00:05:39.900but they certainly weren't as pronounced as they are now. And with the left, Gad, going even
00:05:45.780further left, just going to that extreme communist positions. They say socialist,
00:05:53.500but we all know where it's going. It just feels incredibly divided. And I'd like to get us back
00:06:01.440to the place where we can work together, at least on some legislation. My goodness, it's
00:06:07.160always been said, hasn't it, that if America falls, it will be at its own hands. It will be
00:06:14.540destruction from within, not from without. And it feels like we're getting closer to that than we
00:06:20.900ever have before. And I'd like to stand in the way of that. If you were to become one of the
00:06:27.300two senators in Minnesota, do you think that there is a I mean, I know one can never promise
00:06:32.420something with 100 percent assuredness, but will someone be held accountable in a truly meaningful
00:06:39.760way or or all the people that have stolen i don't know what the latest count in terms of the fraud
00:06:45.100is it 10 billion 15 billion what what's the current number well you know it's still estimates
00:06:49.980because the the everything's still being done the the the number that i tend to go with is the 9
00:06:55.640billion which is a again a uh i think yeah yes yes and and in terms of holding people accountable
00:07:03.460I'll tell you something. That's what Minnesotans want. They're angry and they're exhausted that they've been treated like chumps. I mean, honestly, this is their money. It was stolen, sent out through the airports. The people who steal it just live lavish lives around us.
00:07:23.460around us. People have seen it with their own eyes and they've seen the repercussions that a
00:07:28.820lot of these programs where people were supposed to be getting help just got ignored, got neglected,
00:07:34.400or just not a single dollar went to those programs. So people are livid. But the most
00:07:39.740important thing to them, to a person, is who is going to be held accountable and when? Because so
00:07:46.000far, the only person who has paid even a modicum of a price is Tim Walz because he's not running
00:07:52.900for governor again. He was going to run for a third term. But because this scandal blew out,
00:07:58.120you know, just got so big, he realized he couldn't win. So he stepped down. But other than that,
00:08:04.380I mean, his right hand is Peggy Flanagan, my opponent. She was lieutenant governor all these
00:08:10.500years. And she cannot run away from this. She cannot say, oh, I wasn't part of that part of
00:08:16.020the administration. Yes, you were. You were attached at the hip. You were in every meeting.
00:08:20.200you can't cherry pick what you were and weren't a part of so she needs to be held responsible as
00:08:25.320well so will there be debates between you and her at some point and what's the timeline if she shows
00:08:33.380up we're we're saying yes to debates uh they're being scheduled now and we're gonna we're gonna
00:08:38.960show up um we don't know if she will she tends to cancel a lot of her appearances what are some
00:08:45.200things that happened exactly as you you would expect once you've thrown in your hat? And what
00:08:52.920are some things that have totally sideswiped you that surprised you about the whole political
00:08:58.380process? You know, I expected all the brutal nicknames and the stupid attacks. You can expect
00:09:07.380those kind of like, you know, that giving birth is going to be difficult. But until you go through
00:09:12.660you don't really know what it's like. So I expected the attacks, but until you go through
00:09:19.020them, you don't know how they're going to affect you. And you know, I've got a family too. So I'm
00:09:22.660very protective of my kids and my husband. I don't want them being attacked in any way.
00:09:27.780They're not running. I am. So as far as the unexpected thing, it's been interesting in that
00:09:34.300I think every person that I come into contact with feels that they have the answer, the silver
00:09:41.100bullet on how to win this race. You've got to do billboards. You've got to do more yard signs.
00:09:47.340If you use this in an ad, this will really work. It's just amazing to me. I knew that existed in
00:09:54.620sports, but it is off the charts in this realm. It's incredible. So that's been kind of an amusing
00:10:01.980surprise, but it's a lot of fun to talk to people about it. Well, I'm glad that you mentioned your
00:10:06.820previous sports career, because my next question was going to be, what are some things that you
00:10:13.060learned as a sports broadcaster that have offered you a unique set within your toolbox of abilities
00:10:20.960in your now political run? I think the one thing I think of immediately when you say that
00:10:27.940is all of the times that I talked to an angry coach at halftime who did not want to see me,
00:10:35.260did not want to talk to me, wanted nothing to do with me, and was going to, you know,
00:10:41.080treat me accordingly. Most coaches, I will say, were very nice and very just amicable and answered
00:10:49.080the questions. Not all of them were quite that way. And you really had to brace yourself and you
00:10:55.400had to prepare for sort of the counterattacks and the sort of the treatment that you were going to
00:11:01.280Gat. Let me tell you about the thick skin I earned in 30 years of doing that, Gat. It's been across
00:11:08.020the board from athletes and players and owners and coaches. And it was a pleasure and an honor
00:11:14.500to do that job. I'm so grateful I can't even put it into words, but that will teach you a lot about
00:11:21.000dealing with people, about straightening your spine, knowing that the question you're going to
00:11:26.240ask matters, believing in what you're doing out there, holding your own. And there have been even
00:11:33.020early in my career and even late in my career, people who just decided they weren't going to
00:11:38.840treat you well or decided you were not important. You have to be able and willing to stand up for
00:11:46.900yourself, to advocate for yourself and to just endure the sort of the grinder, the blender
00:11:55.640that is that job and if anyone tells you it's easy they're lying
00:12:00.900tell me if this is too personal of a question but uh it's not so personal you know i'm an
00:12:07.980evolutionary psychologist so i i love studying things like that dynamics between men and women
00:12:13.360so you you were a sports broadcaster hanging around with a bunch of you know handsome athletic
00:12:20.940gorgeous men, did the beautiful husband ever come to you and say, I'm starting to get tired of my
00:12:29.480beautiful wife hanging around all these gorgeous guys? Any of that ever happen? And if not, my
00:12:35.240goodness, he must be confident. He is a very secure man. And, you know, I think when he met
00:12:42.140me, I was already in this business and he was kind of in it too, because he was the son of a
00:12:47.640college football coach. He saw what that industry was all about. He himself played baseball as a
00:12:53.720division one baseball player, you know, and so no, it, it never bothered him. He, at least he didn't
00:13:01.900tell me that it did. And I'll tell you something else. You have to conduct yourself in such a way
00:13:07.700that is professional and under, and, and accepts the fact, cause it is a fact as you and I will
00:13:15.900agree I think that these relationships that men and women interact a certain way and you've got
00:13:21.240to comport yourself in a way that suggests I'm here as a professional I'm here as a journalist
00:13:27.440there is no other reason that I'm here so don't even go there and I never presumed that anybody
00:13:33.740would or did but I made very very clear walking into any situation that I was there to do a job
00:13:40.620and that was it and so um so no one ever violated it no one ever took a run at michelle uh not not
00:13:47.920in my television career no wow that's incredible either that or i'm really stupid and naive and i
00:13:54.380didn't know it was happening uh i don't know if you know this but uh maybe it's a plug for my
00:14:01.180family my nephew is arguably maybe not arguably maybe clearly the the top mma broadcast journalist
00:14:10.600of all time do you know who that is no can you guess a name who's the most famous mma
00:14:16.960broadcast i don't mean to put you on the spot you're putting me on the spot because i'm not
00:14:21.000an mma okay so then i'll tell you have you ever heard of ariel helwani yes that's my maternal
00:14:28.860nephew well bravo all of the humor that he exhibits is due to one single person his glorious and
00:14:38.720handsome uncle any of his faults are not due to me of course not of course he only took the
00:14:44.860positive there you go that is incredible you must be really proud i i really am he's fantastic now
00:14:50.260here's an incredible story and then i'll ask you the same question once i set it up i used to take
00:14:55.840him when he was maybe eight nine years old to the first his first ever i don't know what it was
00:15:01.400called WWF or WWE, whatever. Okay. And back then, he was already exhibiting the interest to
00:15:09.500eventually become a sports, you know, broadcaster and journalist, he ended up going to Syracuse
00:15:15.420University, where they have a very good, you know, program. So he really is living out his childhood
00:15:21.980dream and the most literal direct sense. So I turn it to you. Was this something that you had
00:15:29.220hoped for when you then ended up being a sports broadcaster you know what it not when i was a kid
00:15:35.140i think as a little girl gosh so you took him to his first match first absolutely you got to take
00:15:43.620a ton of credit for this guy's career i'm sorry you just do um but he's not giving me any of his
00:15:49.080big contracts any of the royalties any of anything please speak he needs he needs to plug your books
00:15:55.820he needs to do whatever he can uh he needs to take care of you um listen i my first major league
00:16:03.240baseball game when i was little my dad took my brother and me uh and it was nolan ryan pitching
00:16:09.420a no hitter against the cal for the california angels against the minnesota twins where i now
00:16:13.700live in minnesota i then lived in los angeles so that was kind of that's kind of an interesting
00:16:17.800little tie-in but i remember just the excitement i loved the nfl more than anything growing up i
00:16:24.140just loved it but it wasn't until I got to college that I even remotely thought about a woman being
00:16:30.440a sports journalist because there really weren't any before then and you know Gail Gardner and then
00:16:37.300you saw Robin Roberts, Hannah Storm, Leslie Visser and that's when I started thinking maybe I can do
00:16:43.160this and I'm really honored and proud to call Leslie Visser a good friend she's been a wonderful
00:16:47.640supporter of mine. Um, but yes, I think once I got there and I was doing it, I could, I can look
00:16:55.940back now and say, that's what I dreamed of doing, especially Monday night and Sunday night football.
00:17:00.460I mean, there's no better event and the Olympic games. Um, so yes, that was the, that was sort of
00:17:07.000the pinnacle of the dream. And, uh, but I never really, um, when I was going to work and doing
00:17:14.240my job, I was just so hell bent on doing it well and earning everything that I was getting, you
00:17:21.060know, and making sure that, you know, that the work was being put in, that I really didn't take
00:17:27.020much time to reflect on, wow, I'm living the dream. Other people kind of mentioned it to me,
00:17:31.500like, this is what you always wanted, you know, but I honestly had blinders on. I was so
00:17:36.740concerned about doing the job well and doing it right. And nothing was going to distract me from
00:17:43.640that. So I think in retrospect, yes, I got to live the dream. I do remember one time,
00:17:50.800Rio de Janeiro Olympics 2016, I was covering the pool. So I was covering Michael Phelps and Katie
00:17:56.500Ledecky and this unbelievable American Olympic swim team. And I'd leave there sometimes in the
00:18:04.340evening thinking, I can't believe this is my job. This is I'm getting paid to do this. That's crazy
00:18:11.960because it was so, so fun. So those are a couple of moments. But honestly, I just had my head down
00:18:19.200and I was working. Amazing. Well, you know, in this book right here, the happiness book,
00:18:25.080I have a chapter where I talk about the two most important decisions that will either impart great
00:18:31.340happiness upon you or great misery, depending on whether you choose properly. Number one is your
00:18:36.440choice of spouse. If I wake up next to someone and go, yes, and then I return to that someone
00:18:42.040at night, that's a good thing. And then in between those two, if I go off to a job that I also go,
00:18:48.700yes, that I'm really excited about, as you just said, I can't believe I'm getting paid to do this.
00:18:53.260And I feel that all the time. I get to just play with ideas all day long and speak to interesting
00:18:58.680people and come up with interesting theories and share them with the world. I would do this for
00:19:04.300free and i get paid for it wow i'm lucky uh is there a prescription that you can give people
00:19:10.440aspiring you know there are young people that watch the show that that based on your experience
00:19:15.440that can help us make the good decision for either decision one spouse or decision two occupation
00:19:21.460it's while you were describing that when i was probably i don't know i don't know if i was in
00:19:30.600grad school. I don't remember when I did this exercise, GAD, but I sat down and I said,
00:19:35.860when I'm laying on my deathbed, what do I want to be thinking about? What do I want to have
00:19:42.160accomplished? What do I want to have done? What do I want to feel? And it was really peace of mind,
00:19:48.920happiness. Okay. So then I went from there. Okay. That's the end game. How do I get there?
00:19:55.780And I just thought two things, just two goals.
00:19:58.820And one was I wanted a great family and I wanted a great career.