00:12:16.580It's the same kind of argument as well.
00:12:18.720You know, that would be diplomatically damaging for the UK's reputation abroad to withdraw from this international convention.
00:12:26.620You'd be putting us in the same group as Russia and, you know, which was kicked out of the Council of Europe.0.88
00:12:34.040We don't want to be in the same group as Russia. You're destroying civil liberties.0.51
00:12:39.380How dare you say that we could leave the East HR? We're a respectable country that prides itself on civil liberties protections.
00:12:45.800So those are the kinds of red herring arguments, all eminently rebuttable, but which are routinely trotted out by the Remainer wets, the establishment liberals, which make up the largest part of the Conservative Party to oppose leaving the ECHR.
00:13:04.400And that was the, they won that argument. I lost the argument within the Conservative Party.
00:13:09.740And, you know, that's why I left the Conservative Party, because they ultimately don't agree with that policy.
00:13:14.660They say superficially that they've changed their mind.
00:13:17.000Three years later, you know, they caught up with me and Kemi said, oh, actually, maybe Suella had a point and we should copy this policy because it seems to be quite popular.
00:13:25.500And Reform's said it and Nigel's been saying it for years.
00:13:28.240So let's just copy it and hope no one notices that we don't really mean it.
00:13:32.340But the truth is that the vast majority of Tory MPs are implacably opposed to leaving the European Convention on Human Rights because of those reasons that I set out.
00:13:42.220And, you know, it is a it is another big fat Tory lie.
00:13:47.560Is, you know, I am old for people having different opinions about different issues and being opposed to policies on matters of rationality and principle and workability.
00:13:56.860But those are some terrible arguments, aren't they?
00:18:12.720by illegal migrants. I visited Piddington a few weeks ago, and I met the women of Piddington who
00:18:21.360were having sleepless nights, literally because of the prospect of over a thousand
00:18:27.340fighting age, illegal migrant men being housed on the outskirts of this very small rural village
00:18:35.620in Oxfordshire. And so people are scared. They've lost faith in the government. They have no
00:18:41.080confidence in the authorities, and you're right, they're beginning to organise themselves,
00:18:46.140mobilise themselves, and take the law into their own hands. And that is, you know, when we get to
00:18:53.120that point, I really fear for public safety, and I fear for, yeah, as I said, public order.
00:18:59.280I can't remember what day it was last week, but I think it was around about over 700 illegal
00:19:04.860migrants came into this country. In one day. In one day. And then I'm seeing both online,
00:19:12.940but also people that I know, the temperature really starting to rise. And my question is,
00:19:18.540when are the government going to wake up? Because this situation, let's be frank,
00:19:22.680it's only going to escalate. It is. It is only escalating. It's because the numbers are still,
00:19:29.800you know, the government says, oh, well, there are fewer arrivals compared to last year.
00:19:32.960as you say, the dinghies are getting bigger, the numbers per day are still incredibly high,
00:19:40.100and the threat is getting closer to home. And so I think that, and people are getting more and more
00:19:47.880furious about it. They're getting scared. They're scared and they're angry. And I'm scared and I'm
00:19:54.820angry, actually. And having, you know, I served as Home Secretary, and I have no confidence in
00:20:01.000the government. I have no confidence in the Conservative Party or this Labour government
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00:21:42.560because it does. But also, when is the point, Suella, when we're actually going to tackle
00:21:50.760this? Because this can't go on. At some point, the metaphorical rubber is going to hit the road.
00:21:56.260And that's when it's going to get really worrying.
00:21:58.220Yeah. Well, this is why, I mean, that's why I joined Reform.
00:22:03.220I mean, I lost all faith in the Conservative Party.
00:22:08.560I couldn't believe a word any of them said ever.
00:22:12.840And so the only party which has the credibility,
00:22:16.980which has been consistent on this issue, amongst others, is Reform.
00:22:22.720And Nigel himself has been talking about leaving the East HR, you know, far earlier than I was.
00:22:31.560He's the one who's pointed out the mass migration disaster.1.00
00:22:36.240Ten years ago, during the Brexit referendum, he stood in front of that poster and said that we're at breaking point because of the influx of legal migrants.0.99
00:22:44.420For all of that, for that courage, you know, he's been called all sorts of bad things.
00:22:52.460he's been attacked physically, you know, he's been ostracized, demonized by the mainstream media
00:22:59.020and the establishment. But he has never withdrawn from that fight to tell the truth for the British
00:23:05.920people. And so I finally have, you know, thank goodness for reform, I finally have a political
00:23:11.360home that I can have faith in on this issue. And the final question I want to ask on this issue is
00:23:43.940which is only possible if we leave the ETHR,
00:23:45.940we actually also need a diplomatic solution.
00:23:48.120And that is cooperation, genuine cooperation with the French. And again, I talk about it in the book, how I would, you know, talk and implore my French opposite number. At the time, it was Gerard Darmena, Interior Minister for France.
00:24:04.740You know, and I used to tell him, this is a win-win, OK, for you and me. If you intercepted the boats, if you genuinely took border security seriously on your northern French coast, intercepted, detained and managed the illegal migrants, you, this would not only be a win for us on the UK side of the channel, but it would also be a victory for you.
00:24:28.300because these migrants are heading in their thousands to the Calais and the Pas de Calais region
00:24:35.760because they want to get to Dover.0.95
00:24:38.200And it's ruined that region of northern France.
00:24:41.580The municipal authorities are furious with the French government
00:26:36.880because he saw the Conservatives as responsible for Brexit.
00:26:39.940But that's why, again, I don't know if you saw it,
00:26:43.160an agreement was reached between Nigel Farage and Jordan Bardella.
00:26:47.480Jordan Bardella is very likely to be part of the next French government.
00:26:53.100And Bardella and his party actually do recognise the deleterious impact of illegal migration in France.
00:27:01.980And they see that there is a real necessity for genuine Franco-Britannique collaboration on the channel to stop this.
00:27:10.880And I think there's a real commitment that we've got there, albeit political, not legal, between Bardella and Farage.
00:27:17.680So I want to touch on something that you've been commenting on.
00:27:20.760Actually, I've sort of I've made some comments on the podcast with Fraser Nelson and about Rishi Sunak not being English.
00:27:27.900And it all got very messy and it became a big public debate.0.91
00:27:31.880But I think these two things are connected because the level of mass migration we've had has forced it's well, it's that.
00:27:40.880And then it's the identitarian politics we've had for the last two decades where everyone's been encouraged to think of themselves as their community.
00:27:50.000You know, you're a British Asian and I'm a British Eastern European and a Francis, obviously, Venezuelan, as everyone knows.
00:27:56.100Right. So we're all we're all members of a community instead of all being British.
00:28:01.140And so now you've had waves of mass immigration.
00:28:04.020The demographic proportion of the original British population has gone down significantly,
00:28:32.000And you kind of came to my defense, I think it's fair to say, and you talk about it in the book as well.
00:28:37.720Can you just lay this out for people? Because the polls apparently are against us.
00:28:41.760Apparently, most people, if you look at the polling, say that anyone can be English as long as they were born here, which may be true, maybe not. I don't know.
00:28:48.600Well, it just seems that some people don't know who we are, literally.
00:28:52.080And I think you're right. It is a consequence of the mass immigration experiment and the sense of cohesion, a sense of unifying identity.
00:29:02.000has become harder to define. And there's Britishness on one hand, which is actually
00:29:09.380warrants a really serious debate, which is not quite what we're talking about here.
00:29:13.120But how we treat Britishness in this country is a scandal. Anyone can basically be British.
00:29:18.140That's become a mere administrative box ticking exercise. You come here as a low school migrant,1.00
00:29:25.920part of the Boris wave uh you're um earning you know um working on the black market potentially
00:29:33.840here for a couple of few years you can become you can apply to become a British citizen
00:29:38.260pretty quickly and there'll be very few barriers to becoming a British citizen um
00:29:44.060no no inquiry as to whether you actually love this country whether you've contributed to it
00:29:48.580whether you are you know uh culturally um you know consistent with Britain uh compare that to
00:29:55.220other countries, where they take a much more deferential view of their citizenship. Japan,
00:30:02.200Singapore, to become a Singaporean, you've got to be a very high net worth individual who has made
00:30:07.360a considerable contribution to the Singaporean economy. And only then, maybe, if you're lucky,
00:30:13.660will you be granted their very special status as Singaporean, similarly with other countries.
00:30:18.660So, but here, it's a free-for-all. Then we've got this issue of Englishness. And I agree with you,
00:30:23.460I was, and I quote you in the book because the debate that you sparked was quite bemusing for
00:30:30.360me. I'd never really thought about it. I'd never really questioned it. I've grown up with my
00:30:35.560parents, my family, and we've never described ourselves as English. And my parents and our
00:30:44.180social circle would never have described themselves as English. And I never described
00:30:50.060myself as English. It feels very unnatural. It feels bizarre and strange and wrong for me to say
00:30:56.540I'm English. Very happy to say I'm British. And I'm obviously of Asian, Indian ethnicity.
00:31:04.720That seems to be, that's definitely the box on the census form that's available for me to tick.
00:31:10.680And I've never questioned it until you made the point. And, you know, it triggered
00:34:02.360And I have, as the book sets out, and I've worked with a historian on my ancestry to fill out the details at the beginning of this book, I have my roots in India, in Mauritius, in Kenya via Mozambique.
00:37:35.760Well, from our historical perspective,
00:37:37.940as I said out in the book, the British Empire,
00:37:39.560Yes, of course, there were mistakes which were made and there were indefensible wrongs, but there were also immeasurable good.
00:37:48.640There was also immeasurable good that was done by British investment, British risk, British contribution, British service, not least ending and abolishing slavery.
00:37:59.600And industrialising and developing whole parts of the country.
00:38:03.620Mauritius is a great example. It was effectively a jungle outpost.1.00
00:38:09.560before the British came. The French were there and they laid some important foundations
00:38:13.340and they started the development and generation of Mauritius. But the British, you know, put it
00:38:20.180on rocket boosters and it became one of the biggest sugar producing countries or islands in
00:38:25.820the world by the middle of the 20th century, thanks to British innovation, industry and
00:38:31.440ingenuity. And that's just one example. Kenya is another example. Infrastructure, schools,
00:38:36.940legal systems, democratic systems, all instituted by the British. And these are,0.69
00:38:43.740you know, small examples of the role that Britain played in global history, something
00:38:50.820schools don't pay enough attention to in the classroom, and that young people are coming out
00:38:56.680wholly unaware of. And I just think that from a historical perspective, but also from a cultural
00:39:02.320perspective, I talk about my education, and it was in my classroom where I really fell in love
00:39:06.380with Britain. It was through my teachers, you know, showing me the beauty of the great,
00:39:15.380great English literature and great, beautiful British hymns, learning about our war heroes
00:39:25.060and the bravery of, you know, during the Second World War primarily, that my heart was stopped
00:39:36.080in admiration and gratitude for what Britain has done for the world and continues to do,
00:39:43.080to set the standard, to stand for quality, for fairness, for decency, for
00:39:52.280all of the great values that we cherish. But if you were to say this, you're seen as some
00:39:58.960jingoistic pub boar who waves his union flag and is, you know, is a far-right thug.
00:40:08.900That is, that's not reflective of what I believe the majority, the silent majority in our country.
00:40:14.200You know, it's interesting. My four-year-old and I went on the train to London and for some reason,
00:40:19.760this is, I promise you, this is not my indoctrination. He went into one of the
00:40:23.880tourist shop in London on a previous trip and demanded that I buy him the biggest British flag
00:56:23.520He was the first mover on saying the European Union was destroying our democracy.
00:56:27.880For that, the establishment tried to shut him down and he's not given up.
00:56:33.080And I think that takes a special kind of courage and resilience,
00:56:37.380which is unique in British politics right now.
00:56:39.640All of these politicians are so plastic and they're so superficial and they just are following
00:56:45.960the latest fad and they want to get on the latest bandwagon to get a little high in the polls or a
00:56:51.940headline on the papers or a puff piece. But it's not real. And I saw that up close. I saw that with
00:56:59.520Rishi. I saw that with Kemi, with Boris, with Cameron. It's all about the show. And I think
00:57:06.780that the way I put it, you know, the Conservative Party is like a cheating partner. You know, he
00:57:13.340keeps breaking your heart with other women, and he keeps coming back with a bunch of flowers and
00:57:19.180a box of chocolates. And he says, honey, I'm really sorry. I'm a changed man. I won't do it again.
00:57:23.840And you forgive him. And then he goes and does it again. And you keep yourself for forgiving him.
00:57:29.580And that's the Conservative Party keeps doing. I'm changed. I won't do it again. I promise.
00:57:34.920but they do it again. The reform parties, like that guy who's kind of walked through fire for
00:57:43.100you, is a bit bruised and battered, but is the real deal because he'll go through the swamp for
00:57:51.460you, and he'll do what's necessary. He'll say what's necessary. He means it with his heart and
00:57:57.180soul, and he's been right. And that's why reform exists. It's the faithful heart of the country.
00:58:07.200And they haven't, you know, Nigel's not reneed, he's not flip-flopped, he's not followed the fads.
00:58:13.320That's what reform attracts. It attracts those people who have that sincerity of spirit
00:58:17.900and who are not in it for titles and status and power. It's the real deal. And yeah, are there a
00:58:24.480few growing pains and do some things need to be fixed of course of course and that's what we're
00:58:29.480doing and it's professionalizing at a rapid speed but the fundamentals are all there and the British
00:58:35.260people can see it well you know in terms of Nigel this is actually something I when people ask me I
00:58:40.460go like whatever you think about him the one thing you can't accuse him of is being in it for for
00:58:46.820money or whatever because he was doing very well in the city and then he basically went and stood
00:58:53.160and lost, I think he lost his deposit and, you know, just pursued a very unpopular cause
00:58:57.800because he believed in it. So that part of it, I get, but you're a bright woman. You know what
00:59:03.820we're asking. I mean, if you want to talk about being realistic, there is a very realistic
00:59:09.200prospect that come the next election, despite the beautiful story about the cheating boyfriend and
00:59:15.520all the rest of it that you tell us, a lot of people will remain with the Conservative Party.
00:59:20.420It may be small. It may be 40 seats or 50 seats or 100 seats. And you need those seats to form a government. And so the question is, will reform, if that happens, or even in advance of that, be open to some kind of electoral pact or after the fact, come together in the interest of the country and say, OK, you know, this guy, not very reliable, but we're in charge.
00:59:45.320They're the minor partner in this coalition.
00:59:47.860We can deliver on our agenda because, as you say yourself,
01:07:43.020I just look at the popularity of things like the mansion tax and all of these sort of...
01:07:47.180I've never used the phrase politics of envy, but a lot of it, it's like the VAT on school fees.
01:07:53.160All it's done is it's the rich are continuing to send their kids to private school.
01:07:57.360But people who were on the brink, who were just about scraping enough to send their kids to private school,
01:08:03.260They're the ones that are having to stick their kids in state schools now, which is making state schools worse because there's now more people per class, etc.
01:08:10.780And that's just a policy of basically saying, we're all feeling a bit poorer, so let's just stick it to people who have a bit more.
01:08:17.220And those policies are becoming quite popular in the country. They are.
01:08:21.480Well, I would say that we believe in a welfare state for the vulnerable and those who cannot work genuinely, and we look after those people.
01:08:31.500But we've got a system which is not defined by genuine vulnerability anymore and genuine need.
01:08:38.380We've got a system which actively disincentivises work.
01:08:42.040We've got a system which is a soft touch.
01:08:44.440And so we've got far too many people claiming that they're sick or incapacitated, cannot work, when actually they can.
01:08:52.480So what will you do about all of this, Rala?
01:08:54.120Well, massive welfare reforms have been set out by the party.
01:08:57.640We would make it much more rigorous in the actual assessment. We would cut the welfare bill by about £50 billion. That's a big saving. Divert that funding to things like defence or other aspects of our economy, which really need the investment. We're the only party that set out quite a bold plan on welfare reform.
01:09:18.240You will be accused when it happens, as Ian Duncan Smith was, of, you know, hurting people,
01:09:24.360killing people, perhaps. And such is the unwieldy nature of these massive government
01:09:29.700systems that, unfortunately, if you ever reduce welfare for people who've been diagnosed with
01:09:35.060ADHD or anxiety or whatever, it will turn out that some of them were really in a bad way and
01:09:39.580didn't need the help. How are you going to navigate all that? And that's, again, you know,
01:09:44.400there's a lot of lessons that can be learned from the conservative experience. They tried
01:09:47.440welfare reform, you know, they didn't go far enough because welfare ballooned on their watch.
01:09:53.020The Labour Party is a very good case in point. Every Labour Prime Minister, it seems, is trying
01:09:57.480to cut welfare, but there are a hundred or so Labour backbenchers who are adamantly against it
01:10:03.720and will not let it go through. And so I doubt Andy Burnham will make any headway in cutting
01:10:10.840the welfare bill. So I think that needs, this is again why I'm very glad that reform exists. You
01:10:15.700know, there is a political coherence amongst people. Again, this is one of the reasons I'm
01:10:20.480very happy to be in reform. You know, you talk about invasion. I said it was an invasion when
01:10:26.200I was Home Secretary, I think in 2022 or 23. Tory MPs, you know, lost their marbles and their heads
01:10:34.860wobbled and they said I was divisive and they said the tone was wrong and the rhetoric was wrong.
01:10:39.960And, you know, I was, you know, criticised by my own colleagues, including members of the cabinet.
01:10:46.700Everybody in the Reform Party calls it, thinks it's an invasion and is very comfortable with describing it as such.
01:10:53.800It's the same with things like welfare reform.
01:10:56.760You know, it will be a party, already we're a party, and it will continue to be a party that is united on this issue
01:11:04.220because we all see the enormity of the problem and the essential need to cut the bill
01:11:12.400because nothing else is possible. Economic growth is not possible.
01:11:15.700with the state of welfare spending as it is.
01:11:18.240Investing in our defence is impossible
01:11:20.120if we carry on spending so much on welfare.
01:11:24.580You know, that's even before you get to schools and hospitals.
01:11:28.480So it is the number one economic priority
01:11:31.100if we're going to cut taxes and get economic growth going.
01:11:35.320One thing I think is interesting to your point
01:11:37.040about being divisive and saying certain things at a certain time
01:11:39.920is our former guest, Matthew Saeed, who we love having on the show,
01:11:43.040he wrote an article in The Times this week talking,
01:11:45.500Matthew is great because he's wonderful at speaking to the kind of center of British politics and people on the left will listen to him as well.
01:11:55.980But kind of saying the things that people like you were saying just five or six or 10 years ago.
01:12:01.540And he wrote an article basically saying that the Angela Merkel's, David Cameron's, you know, Macron's of the world, they were the extremists while they were being celebrated.
01:12:12.080And it does feel increasingly like the consensus or certainly the Overton window is shifting so rapidly.
01:12:19.920And now more and more people are given permission to believe things that we've argued about for a long time.
01:12:28.520Do you see in that the possibility for reform to genuinely win the next election as a result of that?
01:12:35.160I think more people are. I think you're right. The Overton window is shifting.
01:12:39.100but I also think that more people are getting more desperate there's a greater sense of
01:12:48.720desperation about what to do about the various crises afflicting our country and in many ways
01:12:59.460the worse it gets under Labour and it will get worse under this Labour government the budget
01:13:03.700it will be a disaster. There may well be a financial crisis in the next 12 months with
01:13:08.860this country. Immigration is going to get worse. There will be more riots. There will be more1.00
01:13:15.060protests. There will be more two-tier policing. There'll be more Islamism. Grooming gangs,
01:13:21.220the victims of grooming gangs will not get justice. You know, every year that it slides
01:13:28.360down a notch in our country, the greater the levels of desperation, fear, and anger.
01:13:34.300And I think that, again, that's why I'm very grateful to be in a party that's fearless
01:13:41.760with the solutions that it's offering.
01:13:43.980We're the only party that's saying, well, we'll actually militarize our border.
01:19:53.800I mean, I am working on the basis that we have Prime Minister Farage installed in number 10 at the next general election.
01:19:59.280That is the only way that we, you know, restore some hope and confidence to the country and begin the, you know, the recovery, frankly, because the country is in deep, deep crisis.
01:20:13.840The economics are awful, as we just set out. The migration problem needs fixing. You know, our schools need fixing, which is my area.0.98
01:20:23.800people can't get a GP appointment. We are wholly and dangerously exposed when it comes to our
01:20:29.180armed forces. We will not be able to defend ourselves if we were attacked by a hostile
01:20:33.660state. We are crippled. Our heavy industry is decimated because of net zero madness. There is
01:20:40.720so much, and I haven't even got there to the dysfunction of Whitehall and the courts and
01:20:48.820the administrative organs of the state, which just don't work. So there is so much
01:20:54.760profound rewiring, radical change, responsible radicalism that is needed
01:21:00.280that, you know, the sooner we get on with it, the better.
01:21:06.020So what is the one thing that we're not talking about that we should be?
01:21:10.000Before Suello answers the final question at the end of the interview,
01:21:13.460make sure to head over to triggerpod.co.uk where you'll be able to see this.
01:21:18.820What would you do differently about the police or what would you do to the police?
01:21:23.500What's the one thing about Britain that you believe has been lost in your lifetime
01:21:26.600and can politics realistically bring it back?
01:21:30.320What is the one thing that we're not talking about that we should be?
01:21:36.520Well, I think you've talked about it a little bit, so maybe this isn't the right answer.
01:21:39.960But I touch on it in my book and I'm prepared for the backlash.
01:22:38.720which is involuntary childlessness and a collapsing birth rate and actually just for
01:22:48.640context it's kind of illustrated quite nicely in the book you know my grandmother was born in 1922
01:22:52.840she was one of nine children she got married at 18 and she had five children three of them survived
01:23:00.800so that's one of them my mother my mum then had me in 1980 and I'm an only child if we carry that
01:23:08.320trajectory on with my daughter, she's not going to have any children. And we're not going to
01:23:14.800produce the labor force, the citizenry, the energy, the dynamism, the people to sustain
01:23:24.540our country. And there is a massive social and economic time bomb waiting to, which is already
01:23:33.780actually exploding. You see it in many parts of the world where governments are beginning to take
01:23:39.680the collapsing birth rate seriously. And it's something that we need to start talking about.
01:23:46.780And since you bring it up, so it's really interesting, you mentioned that it's something
01:23:50.180that it's another debate I've sparked with my irresponsible comments. But actually,
01:23:54.920we'll have a couple of very interesting commentators coming on to do a debate on the show about it.
01:24:00.100what what was it you mentioned you i mean you're one of the lucky ones in that you were able to
01:24:06.000jump on the boat right as it was in the nick of time in the nick of time and that has its own
01:24:10.300challenges by the way because you're having kids very close after each other which is not easy as
01:24:14.420we both know etc what was it that that made you be in that position we you know what were the
01:24:22.200things that caused you to to find yourself yeah place and this is something i explore in the book
01:24:27.200um I think the large the largest reason was that I was raised um to put academic and professional
01:24:38.280achievement first and I was raised to be a girl boss and I was raised and my parents will happily
01:24:45.780accept this and we talk about it a lot they said to me and this is born out of my mother's
01:24:51.640experience and my grandmother's experience don't get married don't don't get married don't tie
01:24:57.040yourself down, don't settle, God forbid, don't have a baby too early because that will just ruin
01:25:02.940your professional chances, it will ruin your career and, you know, go for your career. And
01:25:08.100throughout my 20s and my 30s, that's what I did. And I did that to kind of textbook perfection.
01:25:15.840And then I found myself in my mid to late 30s, childless and unmarried and actually pretty
01:25:22.360worried that I might have made a mistake and a wrong choice. And so I think there's a cultural
01:25:30.640question about what are we telling our young people and our young girls. I don't think we
01:25:36.920tell them that fertility is finite. I don't think we talk about family enough in positive terms.
01:25:42.920I don't think we celebrate men as dads and fathers and providers enough in our kind of cultural narrative.
01:25:55.200And of course, economically, we've made it very difficult, if not impossible, for young people to settle down and think about marrying and having a baby.
01:26:05.040You know, if you've gone to university, you are starting off with £50,000 worth of debt in your early 20s.