Valuetainment - March 23, 2020


Episode 445： There Are Levels to Respect


Episode Stats

Length

22 minutes

Words per Minute

194.8352

Word Count

4,469

Sentence Count

260

Misogynist Sentences

11

Hate Speech Sentences

6


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 30 seconds.
00:00:22.000 You said you want to have respect, yes?
00:00:24.000 Did you not say you want respect?
00:00:26.000 What kind of respect do you want?
00:00:27.000 You want respect for everybody to stop, yes?
00:00:29.000 You want to go to a family gathering?
00:00:31.000 Anybody been to a family gathering or a party or Thanksgiving?
00:00:33.000 You knock on the door.
00:00:35.000 You're there with your girl.
00:00:37.000 Your cousin sees you.
00:00:39.000 You come in.
00:00:41.000 Oh, hey, John. Can you go around?
00:00:43.000 Everybody's in the back.
00:00:45.000 Go around. Everybody's in the back.
00:00:47.000 Oh, good to see you, bro. Hey, Mary. Okay, go around, please.
00:00:49.000 Okay. So, what were you saying again?
00:00:51.000 Go ahead. Yeah, what happened with the Lakers earlier?
00:00:53.000 They ignored you.
00:00:55.000 You like that?
00:00:57.000 You like being invited to parties like this where you walk in the door
00:00:59.000 and the guy tells you to go around and you're kind of like,
00:01:01.000 oh, wow, no one even said.
00:01:03.000 Okay.
00:01:05.000 We'll go around.
00:01:07.000 Can you go around?
00:01:09.000 Now, you're somebody,
00:01:11.000 you walk to the party, you knock.
00:01:13.000 Who's it, who's it, Bobby?
00:01:15.000 Who's at the door?
00:01:17.000 Oh, it's Ricky and Erica. It's who?
00:01:19.000 Oh, my gosh.
00:01:21.000 How are you, man? How you doing?
00:01:23.000 Erica, how you feeling? Oh, my gosh, great.
00:01:24.000 Can I get you a drink?
00:01:25.000 Guys, what would you like? Anything.
00:01:26.000 Just tell me what you like.
00:01:27.000 I got you. Come here.
00:01:28.000 No, guys. Oh, my gosh.
00:01:29.000 I'm so glad you guys made it.
00:01:30.000 Come on in here.
00:01:31.000 Hey, babe, can we get a meatloaf?
00:01:33.000 Meatloaf, ma!
00:01:34.000 Put meatloaf for these guys.
00:01:35.000 Whatever you want.
00:01:36.000 Get them whatever they want.
00:01:37.000 Any kind of treatment, right?
00:01:39.000 You walk in.
00:01:40.000 Different treatment.
00:01:41.000 Same party.
00:01:42.000 Same party.
00:01:43.000 Different treatment.
00:01:44.000 You walk in.
00:01:46.000 You're ignored.
00:01:47.000 You walk in.
00:01:48.000 Everyone stops.
00:01:49.000 What kind of respect you want?
00:01:51.000 I remember I used to go to this WAMU
00:01:53.000 when I had no money.
00:01:55.000 Minus $49,000 in the bank.
00:01:57.000 I'd go to this WAMU.
00:01:58.000 Here's how the teller was.
00:02:01.000 Next, I'd come in.
00:02:04.000 Yes, I'd like to make a $200 deposit.
00:02:07.000 Let me see your slip.
00:02:09.000 Here's my slip.
00:02:11.000 Can you please fill out the slip?
00:02:13.000 We're really busy today.
00:02:14.000 Just fill out the slip.
00:02:16.000 Yeah, put your card number.
00:02:17.000 It's this account number.
00:02:18.000 And sign the bottom.
00:02:23.000 Okay.
00:02:24.000 You're good.
00:02:25.000 Good?
00:02:26.000 Okay.
00:02:27.000 Great.
00:02:28.000 Next.
00:02:29.000 $200 deposit.
00:02:31.000 Minus $500 account.
00:02:33.000 So I said, okay.
00:02:35.000 I don't like the way she looked at me.
00:02:37.000 I don't like this kind of a look.
00:02:39.000 What is this look all about?
00:02:40.000 Then I said, I wonder how she's going to treat me when I got $50,000 in the bank.
00:02:44.000 And I'm depositing 10 grand.
00:02:46.000 So now I graduated to $50,000.
00:02:48.000 And I'm depositing 10 grand.
00:02:50.000 Next, please.
00:02:51.000 Next.
00:02:52.000 Yes, I'd like to make a deposit.
00:02:54.000 Sure.
00:02:55.000 Again, $10,000.
00:02:56.000 Okay.
00:02:57.000 Thank you, Patrick, so much.
00:03:01.000 Thank you.
00:03:02.000 Have a great day.
00:03:03.000 Okay, great.
00:03:04.000 Okay.
00:03:05.000 Thank you.
00:03:06.000 Have a great day.
00:03:07.000 Okay, great.
00:03:08.000 Okay.
00:03:09.000 Thank you, Patrick.
00:03:10.000 Cool.
00:03:11.000 So then next.
00:03:12.000 Quarter million dollars in the bank.
00:03:14.000 $20,000 deposit.
00:03:15.000 Comes.
00:03:16.000 Next.
00:03:17.000 $20,000 deposit.
00:03:18.000 Okay.
00:03:19.000 Good to see you again.
00:03:31.000 Thank you so much.
00:03:33.000 Whatever you need.
00:03:34.000 Thank you.
00:03:35.000 Thank you so much.
00:03:36.000 Or really like this.
00:03:37.000 This kind of treatment.
00:03:38.000 No problem.
00:03:39.000 I want to have a million dollar account.
00:03:41.000 And deposit a couple hundred thousand dollars.
00:03:42.000 See how you treat me.
00:03:43.000 Then you come in.
00:03:44.000 Next.
00:03:45.000 Oh.
00:03:46.000 Mr. David.
00:03:47.000 I got it.
00:03:48.000 I got it.
00:03:49.000 Mr. David.
00:03:50.000 How are you, Mr. David?
00:03:51.000 Oh my gosh.
00:03:52.000 No, no.
00:03:53.000 You don't stand in line.
00:03:54.000 Mr. David doesn't stand in line.
00:03:55.000 Excuse me.
00:03:56.000 Mr. David, let's go over here.
00:03:57.000 Can we go?
00:03:58.000 Can I get you?
00:03:59.000 Can we get him some spark?
00:04:00.000 You like spark?
00:04:01.000 You told me sparkling water.
00:04:02.000 Right over here.
00:04:03.000 Grab a seat over here.
00:04:04.000 Oh my gosh.
00:04:05.000 How's everything?
00:04:06.000 How you doing?
00:04:07.000 Everything good?
00:04:08.000 Can we help you out with anything?
00:04:09.000 Mr. David.
00:04:10.000 Mr. David.
00:04:11.000 Mr. David.
00:04:12.000 Mr. David.
00:04:13.000 What happened here?
00:04:14.000 I'm the same guy.
00:04:17.000 Uh-huh.
00:04:18.000 Two hundred dollar deposit.
00:04:20.000 Next.
00:04:21.000 Fifty thousand dollars.
00:04:22.000 Ten thousand dollar deposit.
00:04:23.000 Thank you, Patrick.
00:04:25.000 Quarter million dollars.
00:04:26.000 Twenty thousand dollar deposit.
00:04:27.000 Oh my gosh.
00:04:28.000 Thank you for being a great customer.
00:04:30.000 Million dollars.
00:04:31.000 Hundred thousand.
00:04:32.000 Two hundred thousand dollar deposit.
00:04:33.000 Mr. David, I don't stand in line.
00:04:34.000 Come around.
00:04:35.000 I said, okay.
00:04:36.000 No problem.
00:04:37.000 I won't forget this.
00:04:38.000 I got a place on Ventura who treated me like crap.
00:04:42.000 I said, I'm going to pull the biggest flipping prank on you.
00:04:45.000 I said, let's go.
00:04:46.000 So, I call my guy Mike.
00:04:48.000 Michael Wooderson.
00:04:49.000 By the way, where's Mario at?
00:04:50.000 Mario, this is your time.
00:04:51.000 Here.
00:04:52.000 This is Mario's time.
00:04:53.000 There's a few things you guys don't know about Mario.
00:04:55.000 I have to say it.
00:04:56.000 One of the things people don't know about Mario is, I don't know if this is the right
00:05:01.000 time for because of time sensitivity.
00:05:03.000 Paul, do you think this is the right time for?
00:05:04.000 Paul would know this better than anybody else.
00:05:06.000 Yeah.
00:05:07.000 Mario can sing in ways nobody else knows how to sing.
00:05:11.000 Paul, would you agree?
00:05:12.000 Yes or no?
00:05:13.000 Mario.
00:05:14.000 Yes or no?
00:05:15.000 Mario's ability to sing at four or five o'clock in the morning, impeccable.
00:05:20.000 Impeccable.
00:05:21.000 If we had more time, I'd bring him up right now to do that, but I'm not going to do it
00:05:24.000 today.
00:05:25.000 So, we're going to forget Mario.
00:05:26.000 How many of you guys would like to hear Mario sing?
00:05:28.000 Maybe tomorrow.
00:05:29.000 Maybe tomorrow.
00:05:30.000 Not today.
00:05:31.000 We're going to let him go.
00:05:32.000 But one of Mario's biggest abilities that he has, aside from singing, Mario knows how
00:05:37.000 to hold a straight face.
00:05:41.000 Okay?
00:05:42.000 So, we'll be on a flight.
00:05:45.000 And we're going on the flight.
00:05:46.000 It's one of those flights where you don't go through the gate.
00:05:48.000 You go out and you walk on the, what do you call it, tarmac.
00:05:51.000 And on this one flight, we're going, there's two flights.
00:05:54.000 One's going to Santa Barbara.
00:05:56.000 The other one's going to Phoenix.
00:05:57.000 You have to walk to the plane.
00:05:59.000 Okay?
00:06:00.000 So, we get down and the employee says, Santa Barbara, this way.
00:06:04.000 Phoenix, this way.
00:06:05.000 So, we're Phoenix.
00:06:06.000 So, we go Phoenix.
00:06:08.000 We go on this plane.
00:06:09.000 This poor old lady sitting to our left with her grandson or something like that.
00:06:13.000 Granddaughter.
00:06:14.000 And I look at Mario real quick.
00:06:15.000 I said, Mario, they closed the doors.
00:06:17.000 So, we know we're going to Phoenix.
00:06:19.000 I said, Mario, what time is our appointment tonight in Santa Barbara?
00:06:21.000 He said, oh, six o'clock.
00:06:23.000 I've already come.
00:06:24.000 I've confirmed.
00:06:25.000 I said, okay.
00:06:26.000 Make sure they know we're going to be the Santa Barbara at six o'clock on flight.
00:06:27.000 The old lady says, wait, wait, wait.
00:06:30.000 Where's this flight going?
00:06:31.000 Santa Barbara.
00:06:32.000 We're going to Santa Barbara right now.
00:06:33.000 It's going to have a great night.
00:06:34.000 Mario's like, Santa Barbara.
00:06:35.000 It's a beautiful city.
00:06:36.000 He said, but I'm not going to Santa Barbara.
00:06:38.000 I'm going to Phoenix.
00:06:39.000 I said, you're going to Phoenix?
00:06:41.000 I said, you've got to tell them if you're going to Phoenix, this is Santa Barbara.
00:06:44.000 So, she looks at them.
00:06:45.000 She calls the, what do you call the people that are giving you drinks?
00:06:48.000 The flight attendant comes.
00:06:49.000 Ma'am, I'm so sorry.
00:06:51.000 My granddaughter and I are on the wrong flight.
00:06:54.000 We're trying to go to Phoenix.
00:06:56.000 This is Santa Barbara.
00:06:57.000 The door is closed.
00:06:58.000 The lady says, ma'am, this is Phoenix.
00:07:00.000 What are you talking about?
00:07:01.000 She looks at us and we're like, ma'am, we're just giving you a hard time.
00:07:04.000 I was just having a hard time.
00:07:05.000 Mario is that legit.
00:07:07.000 But as good as Mario is, my partner 10 years ago, Mike, was at a different level.
00:07:12.000 He was from New Zealand and he knew how to hold a good face.
00:07:16.000 So, we go to the bank that mistreated me and I never forgot about it.
00:07:21.000 And I walked in with Mike.
00:07:24.000 We walk in and the lady comes in.
00:07:28.000 Said, we'd like to open up an account, a new account, business account.
00:07:33.000 Perfect.
00:07:34.000 No problem, sir.
00:07:35.000 Can you please grab a seat over here?
00:07:36.000 I said, sir?
00:07:37.000 Yeah.
00:07:38.000 Let's grab a seat right here, sir.
00:07:40.000 We'll be with you in a minute.
00:07:42.000 I said, please don't call me sir.
00:07:44.000 And my friend's like, it's very offensive to call him sir.
00:07:47.000 Why would you call him sir?
00:07:48.000 I'm so sorry.
00:07:49.000 Can you just wait over here?
00:07:50.000 We'll be with you in a minute.
00:07:51.000 I promise you.
00:07:52.000 We'll wait over here.
00:07:53.000 So, we sit down over there.
00:07:54.000 Mike is like this.
00:07:55.000 So, we sit down.
00:07:56.000 She comes.
00:07:57.000 Help you guys right here.
00:07:58.000 Right here.
00:07:59.000 So, we walk up.
00:08:00.000 We sit right by the table.
00:08:01.000 Everything's good.
00:08:02.000 What can I help you with?
00:08:03.000 We'd like to open up a joint account between the two of us, business partner and I.
00:08:05.000 Great.
00:08:06.000 What's your name, sir?
00:08:07.000 I said, can you please stop calling me sir?
00:08:08.000 It's very offensive.
00:08:09.000 I said, would you like me to call you?
00:08:10.000 I said, my name is Prince Patrick by David.
00:08:12.000 Sorry,rest."
00:08:13.000 Qué2 of us business partner and I.
00:08:14.000 Great.
00:08:15.000 What's your name, sir?
00:08:16.000 I said, can you please stop calling me sir?
00:08:18.960 It's very offensive.
00:08:20.020 Would you like me to call you?
00:08:21.360 I said, my name is Prince Patrick by David.
00:08:24.780 Excuse me?
00:08:31.220 Prince Patrick by I'm part of a royalty family from Saudi Arabia?
00:08:34.220 Prince Patrick by David.
00:08:36.180 So she says.
00:08:37.180 Prince?
00:08:38.180 Yes.
00:08:39.140 it's just but we don't we have doctor we have mister we have missus we don't we
00:08:44.280 don't have miss you we don't have prints it's just I can't put prints it doesn't
00:08:47.420 give me a drop down of prints so Mike says you don't want a princess money do
00:08:51.920 you know what kind of a royalty family is from Bank of America can do prints
00:08:54.640 can you do prints like so I'm told we can't do prints it doesn't give me an
00:08:58.160 option you may want to call New York and find out about that so she goes let me
00:09:02.060 call New York she steps away so she goes for 30 minutes 30 minutes later Mike is
00:09:07.800 still like this legit staying very poised she comes back I got the news I called
00:09:12.780 New York they've approved the drop down it's officially gonna have your title
00:09:16.320 Prince Patrick met David I said thank you so much so they open up the check in
00:09:20.340 account with Prince Patrick met David so I'm like there's no way this is gonna
00:09:23.880 happen then the checkbooks the credit card the check card everything shows up
00:09:27.900 Prince period Patrick met David I have it till today by the way right I have five
00:09:33.300 decks I've checked in my house so we leave thank you thank you Prince
00:09:39.440 Prince David thank you so much so we walk out every week we would go eat at that
00:09:46.740 what was that burrito place I don't know what it was called it was a good burrito
00:09:50.280 place but no no no the ones that had the lobster burrito that they stopped
00:09:54.720 serving it because something happened to what's it called Rubio's there's been to
00:09:58.800 Rubio's before we'd go in at Rubio's and that one will bank was always next to it
00:10:03.000 I'd always go in just to tease him I'd go in and you would see that everybody
00:10:06.840 would be shaken up Oh Prince but David how are you please Prince he's a Prince
00:10:14.340 Prince just walked in like this I said you forgot I used to take my deposit was
00:10:20.640 only $200 and I had negative $700 you can call me Prince for the rest of your life at
00:10:25.560 this bomber place I'm not gonna forget this so now what is the moral of the
00:10:31.260 story I told you at the beginning what kind of respect you want when you walk in
00:10:37.080 how do you want people to look at you do you think about that do you think
00:10:42.600 about that Thanksgiving party you go to and you get ignored and you're pissed
00:10:47.700 what are you pissed off for you haven't earned that kind of respect yet well
00:10:52.260 that's not fair Pat people should respect each other yes but there's levels to
00:10:56.540 respect there's a levels to this game it's Bill Vogel in the room or he's left
00:11:02.340 already where's Bill Vogel at where's Bill Vogel at did he leave already I wish
00:11:05.880 I could tell you a story with Bill in here there's levels to this game people
00:11:12.180 come to me and they say Pat man when you look at Vargas why do you look at him the
00:11:17.500 way you do why don't you look at us that way when you look at Sopalos you look at
00:11:21.820 him differently when you look at Gaetan you look at them differently when you
00:11:26.560 look at Ricky and Erica Del Toros you look at these guys how come you don't look at
00:11:30.640 me like that I said they've earned that look you have not you want that kind of
00:11:35.800 look you got to change your results you know many many years ago I started
00:11:41.920 studying everybody and find out who to work with who not to work with I found out
00:11:45.640 the most difficult people to work with who will never be satisfied they are the
00:11:52.240 most unhappiest people I've ever met in my life are extremely ambitious lazy
00:11:58.660 people let me say this one more time ambitious they want to change the world
00:12:03.880 they want to be somebody so bad they're so competitive they feel they're watching
00:12:09.620 this right now saying I should be on the stage man I will kill it if I'm on the
00:12:13.080 stage but when they leave and I give you a challenge tonight they don't do none
00:12:17.580 of it they just go to bed or they go drink and they do nothing when they go
00:12:22.560 and leave this place they don't want an appointment they're late to phone zone
00:12:25.740 late to BOM late to conference call late to everything you're ambitious you want
00:12:30.600 to change the world but you're secretly so lazy terrible combination because
00:12:35.220 you're miserable because you know you think bigger than everybody else but you're
00:12:39.280 not willing to work when the cameras are off this is not work here this is a show
00:12:42.600 work happens when you leave this event tomorrow night that's when the work
00:12:47.200 really starts so Pat I don't know what are you saying to me here let me paint a
00:12:51.000 picture picture to you in the next 5 10 15 20 years 30 years some of you guys who
00:12:58.340 have kids some of you guys don't have kids the levels of respect also happen
00:13:02.440 with parenting and kids here's how it goes
00:13:04.700 there's not a kid that doesn't love their parents there's not no kids not
00:13:10.640 gonna love their parents but there's levels to parenting there's kids who look
00:13:15.560 at their parents this way they look at him like oh my gosh my dad's my hero that's
00:13:22.120 how Luke looks at Jose oh my gosh man it's my hero I won't be like my dad when I
00:13:29.800 grow up I love my mom so much man she's so amazing and they look up at their parents and
00:13:38.140 it's such a priceless feeling but you can't buy that and force your kids to respect you
00:13:43.040 because if you don't 5 10 15 20 years later you're gonna have a conversation like this
00:13:47.920 with one of your kids one of your kids is gonna come one day and they're gonna just be secretly
00:13:52.080 holding on to so much baggage of you that they haven't told you in your face yet and one day
00:13:59.660 you're gonna say the smallest thing they're gonna snap at you you're gonna make a comment about
00:14:04.860 money you know my life is not all about money they're gonna say mom I am so sick and tired of your
00:14:11.360 bullshit I watched you for years you watch novellas every freaking day you bitched about
00:14:18.300 every one of our relatives who made money you complain about every single person I watched you
00:14:24.340 over and over and over again acting like a victim I'm so sick of your crap I wish you would have
00:14:30.540 watched fewer movies and fewer shows and all these networks I wish you would have worked a little bit
00:14:36.460 more rather than coming home every day at five o'clock and I wish that you would have worked a
00:14:41.000 little bit harder if you would have worked a little bit harder I could have been a doctor today
00:14:43.780 I wish you would have worked a little harder every day you came home at five o'clock you sat on the
00:14:48.640 bench you sat on the couch you got your remote you changed your channels you had a beer a second one
00:14:53.700 a third one a sixth one you were drunk then you went to sleep you didn't even play with us you were
00:14:58.560 so lazy all you cared about was the Lakers I'm sick of your bullshit dad you're full of it you're so
00:15:04.340 lazy that conversation is going to be had by the way watch my next question how many guys have had a
00:15:12.580 conversation with your parents at one point like that raise your hand I've had it anybody's had it
00:15:17.200 it's a tough conversation to have you've said some of that stuff to your mom and dad they don't like
00:15:23.320 it you know what happens in that moment here's what happens in that moment in that moment when
00:15:28.320 that conversation's had when they're speaking at you for a moment you're not going to be in the room
00:15:33.840 you're going to disappear you're physically there you're not emotionally there you're going to
00:15:41.020 disappear and you know where you're going to go to let me tell you where you're going to go to
00:15:44.340 in your mind you're going to go to
00:15:46.220 why the hell did you watch those 4,000 tv shows man that's 4,000 hours you could have put into a
00:15:55.920 business why the hell did you hang out with that cousin of yours that complained all the damn time
00:16:01.620 why did you always hang out with that negative friend every day you came home every single one
00:16:06.760 of your bosses you blamed all of them in that moment you're going to be thinking about you're
00:16:10.500 not going to tell your kids in that moment your spirit's going to age 10 years it's going to hurt
00:16:14.520 a lot because you're just going to come back 10 15 20 years and that pain is worse than Tyson
00:16:22.620 punching you in the face worse pain because that lasts that stays stays right here that visual stays
00:16:30.620 right here and he's like man i don't want my kids to talk to me like that but sometimes it's too late
00:16:35.920 you may be 73 years old at the time you may be 68 years old at the time what are you going to do now
00:16:41.260 see for a lot of you guys here that are attending this event some of you guys here for the first time i
00:16:46.680 met a lot of people i took a lot of pictures i enjoy meeting every single one of you guys
00:16:49.880 but the biggest thing about tonight is the following why am i telling you this story
00:16:54.680 tico can we turn on that picture i just want to turn your attention to this picture here watch this picture
00:16:59.680 here this remind me of guyton conor mcgregor just posted this picture today you know what's crazy
00:17:06.620 about this picture the top picture that's conor mcgregor doesn't even look like the guy
00:17:12.020 that's in 2008 no one in the world knows who's conor mcgregor nobody does and he's taking a picture
00:17:21.380 with who chuck liddell in the bottom it's 2020 conor mcgregor everybody knows who he is guess who's
00:17:30.040 in the audience chuck liddell tables have turned conor mcgregor went from a fan boy
00:17:37.700 to the face of the world for mma i'm showing this picture to you because your theme here's what
00:17:44.280 mma you know how bad he wanted that kind of respect you know how bad he wanted to be able to walk
00:17:50.060 like this where everybody walks like this and imitates him you know how bad he wanted that you
00:17:54.400 know how bad he wanted that you don't think he thought about that 24 7 you don't think he trained
00:17:59.440 for it over and over and over again you don't think him and his girl sacrificed everything you don't
00:18:04.400 think he did of course he did they asked him a question what's the biggest thing that's changed
00:18:08.320 with you you guys hear what he said recently he said if lebron james can put a million and a half
00:18:12.700 dollars into his body and his mind and if i do the same i don't even know how big i'm going to get
00:18:17.040 and how good i'm going to get i finally learned what it is to be a student how about you here
00:18:22.460 you're in the audience you're watching hector and erica speak million dollar earner you watch ricky
00:18:29.660 host you watch gaitan over here by the way i'm the guy sitting over there taking pictures of gaitan
00:18:34.980 and gaitan's up here to connor i'm the one taking videos of hector erica i'm the one taking pictures
00:18:41.100 of ricky and erica i'm the one taking pictures of wendy muñoz what happened here i'm sending a video
00:18:46.600 to alejandro alejandro yano are dancing it's like such a beautiful show just watching these guys
00:18:50.280 how happy they are watching them dance foreign christian walking up speaking and they're dancing
00:18:55.300 all over the place it's a beautiful thing man but this right here tells so many stories
00:19:01.100 this right here tells so many stories look tonight here's what's going to happen just so you know this
00:19:06.820 everybody heard the same message there's half the room that all you're thinking about is your pillow
00:19:13.060 right now that's all you're thinking about there's about 20 of you guys i want to go slap and make
00:19:19.040 some noise for your neighbors like that's the story that stuck with you babe i can't wait to leave
00:19:23.660 it's all i care about right now
00:19:25.180 but let me tell you there's about 10 of the room here that you didn't just come to this event to
00:19:34.120 have a drink and network and meet another girl or a guy or any of that stuff you came here from
00:19:39.640 from la or whatever other place and you invest the time and sacrifice your money because you
00:19:46.040 kind of want to do something big with your life and you're hoping you find something you know guy
00:19:51.480 ton said something in the opening he said we're just regular people man look at their eyes eyes never
00:19:57.100 lie look at ricky man he's just talking here's who i am he's just telling the story look at alejandro
00:20:02.860 in his tears hector i've seen him cry twice once was this one was a special moment hector and i had
00:20:08.860 together about a month and a half ago two months ago he knows what it is i love it fires me up but
00:20:15.620 that's why you're here for you're not here just because of insurance or some of this stuff you're
00:20:20.600 here because you want this to happen to you you're here because you want your wife to look at you like
00:20:25.340 this you want your kids to look at you like this you want your husband to lay in the bed next to you
00:20:30.140 saying man i married a real g my wife this is a tough cookie right here i'm not gonna find somebody
00:20:36.300 like this husband may not tell you this but deep down aside i don't know if another woman can deal
00:20:41.700 with me it's a legit woman i married right there and she's gonna lay next to her and she's gonna say
00:20:46.800 let me tell you something man this dude's not perfect but i tell you one thing he makes me feel safe
00:20:50.660 he takes care of our family i married a hero hero of our family i admire this guy marlene said
00:20:56.340 something special she said one of the things about women to husbands and what men want is a
00:21:01.180 woman that admires them she says i admire my husband think about how gaitan sleeps at night
00:21:05.660 i admire my husband and she says i'm so proud of you babe on what you've done who you've become
00:21:11.040 you know you want that you know you watch the movie gladiator and you see when he gets up
00:21:16.920 and he says gladiator i want to see your face and he gets done he takes that thing up you know what
00:21:22.220 scene i'm talking about and he says show your face he doesn't show his face he says don't turn
00:21:26.220 your back on me you know what scene i'm talking about don't turn your back on me and then he takes
00:21:31.340 his mask and he turns on he says here's who i am father of a murdered dog you watch that and then
00:21:39.580 the scene at the end when he gets his redemption tell me you didn't cry tell me you didn't get
00:21:45.540 emotional what are you crying for you're crying for russell crow acting no russell crow's not the real
00:21:51.460 gladius you're not crying for russell crow you're crying because for that two and a half hour watch
00:21:57.020 of that movie you're in tears for an hour afterwards you're like i want that feeling man
00:22:02.640 just want that feeling i want that feeling right there i want to have that feeling with my family
00:22:08.780 i want redemption i want everybody in school who said you'll never amount to anything i want every
00:22:13.260 one of them to know that guy was my classmate i cannot believe who this girl is what happened to
00:22:19.520 my mom and dad i cannot believe who these people are you watch it and get emotional because that
00:22:23.660 scene nothing more nothing less so either tonight when you're hearing this message you're either
00:22:29.360 going to do something about it or you're not thanks everybody for listening and by the way if you haven't
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00:22:54.520 today take care everybody bye
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