Valuetainment - Episode 457： The Superpower of Great Leaders

00:00:00.000 you know for whatever reason society has taught us to be turned on by six packs right sexy men

00:00:28.260 with nice muscle this is coming from a guy that used to lift weights and wanted to be mr olympia

00:00:32.880 or women that have beautiful thighs and nice legs and nice toes and 36 24 36 beautiful face oh my 1.00

00:00:40.660 gosh she's so sexy right or even when it comes down to business or folks who are talented who speak so 0.55

00:00:46.520 well they're so eloquent with the way they put their words together oh my goodness this is so crazy

00:00:51.660 but behind closed doors in the world of business i've seen so many talented people so many folks

00:00:59.080 who are brilliant so many of them who are semi-geniuses right but behind closed door they

00:01:05.260 lack one thing and that is willpower let me tell you what i mean by willpower as crazy as it sounds

00:01:10.900 some of the most crazy tough intense strong brutally tough to the point that you can't do anything

00:01:20.000 to stop them are those that on the outside don't seem impressive some of the most impressive people

00:01:25.540 i've ever met because deep down inside there's one thing they don't compromise let me tell you what

00:01:28.940 that is again willpower what is willpower here's what willpower is you'll hear a lot of times people

00:01:34.720 say you know what i'm gonna try to give my best i'll give my best i'll see what happened yeah i'm

00:01:38.560 gonna try my best i'll try to be at this thing yeah i'm gonna do my best i'm telling you i don't know

00:01:43.420 but i'm gonna do my best we'll see i'm gonna do my best and all this other stuff there's always an

00:01:47.640 out to their commitment yeah but there's always an out there's always a way to exit so flight and i

00:01:53.580 don't have to fully commit to making a work right always then you have a small group of people

00:01:58.360 these groups of people are like somebody you go on a date with and you're sitting there you're

00:02:03.220 looking at this person and then you start talking to them and you ask a question then you feel the

00:02:07.860 depth and you say wait a minute that was different where is this depth coming from you sit down with

00:02:14.740 somebody you're at a lunch and there's four or five people there are new people you're meeting

00:02:17.620 one of the guys you knew one of the girls you knew and then somebody not talking 30 minutes later he

00:02:23.080 opens his mouth and gives his thoughts on something and you start peeling the onion you start layers

00:02:28.280 on top of layers like wow it's pretty intense what she just said or what he just said or you start

00:02:33.620 doing business with somebody and casually the person says no problem i'll get that person's phone

00:02:38.420 number two by two o'clock today two o'clock today you get the phone number you forgot about it she

00:02:43.740 didn't forget about it casually you do business with somebody and they tell you next friday at four

00:02:49.080 o'clock i'll get this email to you with the 10 things you requested you forgot about it next friday

00:02:55.260 four o'clock you get the email with everything you requested and more what happened to this person

00:03:00.480 willpower when they say they're going to do something they do it now the other person that's talented

00:03:05.880 they sell you on the stream and it's so amazing and it's so phenomenal i'm going to come through for

00:03:11.400 you no follow through no follow-up just gibberish just talk just looks just sexy on the outside

00:03:21.240 but on the inside willpower is missing look there's a lot of things you can lose there's a lot of things

00:03:27.340 you can compromise there's a lot of things that's okay if you drop the ball on it's okay if you drop the

00:03:33.440 ball on a lot of different things it's okay maybe you're not the most eloquent communicator speaker

00:03:37.740 out there it's okay if you're not the smartest it's okay if you're not the brightest but it's

00:03:43.040 not okay if you say you're going to do something and you don't come through because there's only one

00:03:47.760 person it hurts when you say you're going to do something and you don't come through and that's

00:03:51.560 your willpower and the more and more and more your willpower gets used to you saying things and not

00:03:57.020 doing your willpower stops having faith in the words that come out of your mouth

00:04:01.020 and the moment your your willpower your spirit stops having faith in the words that come out

00:04:06.200 of your mouth whatever you start telling yourself your mind is telling you oh whatever he's not

00:04:10.380 going to do it she's not going to do it he's all talk she's all he's not going to do it no substance

00:04:14.140 all looks all sexy on the outside all attractive but on the inside no follow-through no follow-up no

00:04:20.940 willpower never ever put yourself in a situation where you hurt your willpower never because eventually

00:04:29.260 the world businesses companies families anything is ran by leaders not because they're talented not

00:04:37.760 because they speak better than everybody else not because they're the best at reading books not

00:04:41.800 because they have the fanciest degree because in a boardroom when this guy or this gal says he or she's

00:04:47.260 going to do something you can bank it you can cash the check baby and people like that are not a dime

00:04:53.740 a dozen they are rarer than diamond you can rarely find people like this and when you find people like

00:04:59.900 this you lock on to them because they're going places the market values anybody that this here when

00:05:06.940 they say something they're going to do they do it if you're somebody like that and you're about to work

00:05:11.660 on your willpower and it's not as good as you think it is start small say something you're going to be

00:05:16.620 doing do whatever you can to make it happen make some commitments do whatever you can to make sure

00:05:21.580 that commitment comes through stop saying i'll try my best i'll see what i can do start saying i will get

00:05:28.540 it done by we will get this done by i will commit to this and get it done by i will we will and then come

00:05:37.900 through more and more and more you put these things together these events together eventually you start

00:05:43.980 kind of sitting up a little bit you're confident your eyes changing and people start looking at you

00:05:48.300 saying why do you look at people like this why do you have those that look on your face it's called

00:05:52.060 willpower you can call it whatever else you want but really underneath everything else it's simply

00:05:57.500 willpower and people who work with that person know that that person's got willpower once you get

00:06:01.820 that once you get that no matter what room you're in you declare what you're going to be doing

00:06:06.860 it looks around says listen man if she's saying it's going to get done if he's saying it's going

00:06:11.340 to get done you want to be there it'll take you places you never thought were possible thanks

00:06:17.180 everybody for listening and by the way if you haven't already subscribed to valutainment on itunes

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Valuetainment - April 20, 2020

Episode 457： The Superpower of Great Leaders

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