Valuetainment - How The Wrong Woman Can Ruin A Man’s Life

00:00:00.000 You ever heard the same, behind every great man you'll find a great woman? 0.84

00:00:02.640 You ever heard that before?

00:00:03.920 If that is true, the opposite has to also be true, no?

00:00:07.220 Let me kind of get into it.

00:00:08.200 By the way, some of the ladies watching this, you may not like it. 1.00

00:00:11.260 Some of you are going to love it.

00:00:12.400 Fellas, this is a message for you. 1.00

00:00:15.260 Pay attention and pay attention very, very closely.

00:00:18.940 If you get value from this video, give it a thumbs up and subscribe.

00:00:22.180 Let's get right into it.

00:00:23.340 Behind every defeated man, you'll find a woman who ruined his life. 1.00

00:00:27.940 This is something I tweeted this week.

00:00:31.000 I want to read the whole thing.

00:00:32.020 Again, stay with me.

00:00:33.100 Behind every great man, you'll find a wonderful woman.

00:00:35.180 Behind every defeated man, you'll find a woman that ruined his life. 1.00

00:00:38.440 Is this true?

00:00:39.320 Let me continue.

00:00:40.360 There are two ways men get castrated.

00:00:42.480 One is surgical. 0.52

00:00:43.800 The other is emotional when marrying the wrong woman.

00:00:46.340 The wrong woman can ruin a man's life. 1.00

00:00:48.360 You can see it on his face.

00:00:49.780 No man knows how to act when they get married for the first time.

00:00:52.520 There's not a manual for it.

00:00:53.880 I call this the last appointment syndrome.

00:00:55.660 Whoever you talk to last before going to sleep will dictate your future.

00:01:00.440 Pat, how could you say this?

00:01:01.500 I mean, this isn't fair.

00:01:02.340 Isn't the opposite true as well?

00:01:04.420 Shouldn't the opposite be true?

00:01:06.100 What if a woman that also marries the wrong man, could a girl also ruin her life by marrying 1.00

00:01:09.920 the wrong man?

00:01:10.920 Absolutely.

00:01:12.000 However, the American system protects the woman and there's a greater risk for a man to

00:01:17.820 get married than a woman to get married. 0.99

00:01:19.740 And that's just the truth.

00:01:21.120 There isn't any more of a way a man can show loyalty to a woman, meaning to say that I'm 0.98

00:01:29.220 all in with you once they have a kid together and they're married.

00:01:32.360 Because one, tax code, I took the biggest risk.

00:01:35.840 Two, I had a kid with you, I took the biggest risk.

00:01:38.720 What else do you want me to do to show you my love?

00:01:41.060 Right?

00:01:41.280 Some of you may say, well, Pat, you can't be saying that.

00:01:43.160 Isn't the opposite true as well with women, with this, with that? 0.97

00:01:45.880 Of course, the opposite can be true with your friends, your cousin, who you hang out

00:01:49.220 with, for women, all that other stuff. 0.65

00:01:50.860 But, in Iran, men are protected. 0.84

00:01:55.100 So women have to be careful who to marry. 1.00

00:01:57.200 In Iran, if a woman divorces a husband and leaves, doesn't get half of what the husband

00:02:00.060 has.

00:02:00.720 The husband doesn't give nothing to the wife in Iran.

00:02:03.180 If he doesn't want to, because the law defends men. 0.61

00:02:05.460 In America, Western society defends women. 0.51

00:02:08.060 So if a man is married to a woman, and the ultimate way by law and taxes for a man to show 0.82

00:02:13.280 that the liability, purely financially, is through getting married and having a kid with

00:02:17.860 a woman, you're financially tied where you have to take care of that person if you don't 1.00

00:02:20.880 have an optional agreement in place, which means in America, the man has to be careful

00:02:24.920 who to marry, because she can totally ruin your life if you marry the wrong person. 1.00

00:02:30.140 That's in America.

00:02:31.260 Okay?

00:02:32.020 So now, if you listen to this right now, so, Pat, what should I be looking at?

00:02:34.520 Number one, take your time.

00:02:35.480 For me, as a man in America, if you want to get married, 30 to 40, the right age. 0.74

00:02:39.360 Take your time.

00:02:40.080 There is no competition.

00:02:41.600 You know the race, like, hey, let's see who can run 100 yards.

00:02:44.460 Hey, let's see who can do the 40. 0.99

00:02:45.920 In marriage, no one cares how soon you get married at 18, 22, 28, or 32.

00:02:50.840 No one cares.

00:02:52.100 You can take your time, get married at 35, get married at 38, at 31, at 30, you are fine.

00:02:57.480 Doing it too early, you don't have enough experience, because marriage comes, doesn't 1.00

00:03:02.360 come with a manual.

00:03:03.280 As much as your mom, your dad, your friends, your peers are going to try to tell you how to

00:03:06.340 get married and how to do it the right way, 99% of whatever anybody tells you about

00:03:10.460 marriage, you're going to have to go through it with yourself.

00:03:12.780 So pump the brakes.

00:03:13.540 Take your time.

00:03:14.520 Look at the things that matter physically.

00:03:16.640 Does she need to be attractive to you? 1.00

00:03:18.160 It's important.

00:03:18.980 Number two, values and principles.

00:03:20.720 Best be common.

00:03:21.880 You best believe in similar values and principle.

00:03:25.000 How to raise family.

00:03:26.160 How many kids.

00:03:27.760 Financially.

00:03:28.360 Who's in charge?

00:03:29.140 Who makes the decision?

00:03:30.100 Where do we live?

00:03:31.220 Travel.

00:03:32.140 All of those things matter.

00:03:33.800 And if you do that part correctly, and you choose the right one, you'll have higher chances

00:03:40.000 of doing something big in your life.

00:03:41.400 I cannot tell you how many men I saw killed it in their careers, were doing so well.

00:03:47.300 Suddenly, they married the wrong person, and everything went down.

00:03:51.380 I've seen men who were regular guys, average guys, always making 80 grand a year, 60 grand

00:03:57.240 a year, 40 grand a year.

00:03:58.540 Where all of a sudden, they marry a woman that believes in them, next thing you know,

00:04:03.140 300, 600, a million, running $20 million in your business, because somebody behind closed

00:04:08.940 doors saying, baby, I believe in you.

00:04:11.000 Baby, let's make it work.

00:04:12.520 Baby, you got this.

00:04:13.760 I got your back.

00:04:15.020 You're amazing.

00:04:15.900 And he's doing his part.

00:04:16.880 The guy's got to do his part.

00:04:18.500 He's got to go and do his part.

00:04:20.240 But behind closed doors, somebody is saying, I believe in you.

00:04:22.400 Somebody behind, there's not nagging, negative, all that other stuff.

00:04:25.520 That combination together, you see big things happening with them.

00:04:28.360 So again, I'm expecting a lot of people to not like this, but I'm expecting many, many

00:04:33.860 more to understand this message and receive it properly.

00:04:37.940 If that's you and you received it, pump the brakes.

00:04:41.100 Take your time.

00:04:42.080 Marriage is a big decision.

00:04:43.240 Don't wing it.

00:04:44.260 I'm a guy that's pro-marriage.

00:04:45.680 I'm a guy that's got four kids.

00:04:47.000 I'm a guy that loves partnerships, but I'm a guy that also doesn't encourage to do it

00:04:51.460 and wing it. 0.85

00:04:52.200 Take your time with that decision.

00:04:53.340 So if I got you thinking, those of you that are thinking right now saying this kind of does

00:04:56.200 make sense, give it a thumbs up, subscribe to the channel.

00:04:58.580 I got another video I want you to watch, The Rise of Weak Men.

00:05:01.220 If you've never watched it, click here to watch it.

00:05:03.120 Take care, everybody.

00:05:03.880 Bye-bye, bye-bye.

Valuetainment - January 23, 2023

How The Wrong Woman Can Ruin A Man’s Life

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