Valuetainment - January 23, 2023


How The Wrong Woman Can Ruin A Man’s Life


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Length

5 minutes

Words per Minute

221.59427

Word Count

1,124

Sentence Count

92


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 You ever heard the same, behind every great man you'll find a great woman?
00:00:02.640 You ever heard that before?
00:00:03.920 If that is true, the opposite has to also be true, no?
00:00:07.220 Let me kind of get into it.
00:00:08.200 By the way, some of the ladies watching this, you may not like it.
00:00:11.260 Some of you are going to love it.
00:00:12.400 Fellas, this is a message for you.
00:00:15.260 Pay attention and pay attention very, very closely.
00:00:18.940 If you get value from this video, give it a thumbs up and subscribe.
00:00:22.180 Let's get right into it.
00:00:23.340 Behind every defeated man, you'll find a woman who ruined his life.
00:00:27.940 This is something I tweeted this week.
00:00:31.000 I want to read the whole thing.
00:00:32.020 Again, stay with me.
00:00:33.100 Behind every great man, you'll find a wonderful woman.
00:00:35.180 Behind every defeated man, you'll find a woman that ruined his life.
00:00:38.440 Is this true?
00:00:39.320 Let me continue.
00:00:40.360 There are two ways men get castrated.
00:00:42.480 One is surgical.
00:00:43.800 The other is emotional when marrying the wrong woman.
00:00:46.340 The wrong woman can ruin a man's life.
00:00:48.360 You can see it on his face.
00:00:49.780 No man knows how to act when they get married for the first time.
00:00:52.520 There's not a manual for it.
00:00:53.880 I call this the last appointment syndrome.
00:00:55.660 Whoever you talk to last before going to sleep will dictate your future.
00:01:00.440 Pat, how could you say this?
00:01:01.500 I mean, this isn't fair.
00:01:02.340 Isn't the opposite true as well?
00:01:04.420 Shouldn't the opposite be true?
00:01:06.100 What if a woman that also marries the wrong man, could a girl also ruin her life by marrying
00:01:09.920 the wrong man?
00:01:10.920 Absolutely.
00:01:12.000 However, the American system protects the woman and there's a greater risk for a man to
00:01:17.820 get married than a woman to get married.
00:01:19.740 And that's just the truth.
00:01:21.120 There isn't any more of a way a man can show loyalty to a woman, meaning to say that I'm
00:01:29.220 all in with you once they have a kid together and they're married.
00:01:32.360 Because one, tax code, I took the biggest risk.
00:01:35.840 Two, I had a kid with you, I took the biggest risk.
00:01:38.720 What else do you want me to do to show you my love?
00:01:41.060 Right?
00:01:41.280 Some of you may say, well, Pat, you can't be saying that.
00:01:43.160 Isn't the opposite true as well with women, with this, with that?
00:01:45.880 Of course, the opposite can be true with your friends, your cousin, who you hang out
00:01:49.220 with, for women, all that other stuff.
00:01:50.860 But, in Iran, men are protected.
00:01:55.100 So women have to be careful who to marry.
00:01:57.200 In Iran, if a woman divorces a husband and leaves, doesn't get half of what the husband
00:02:00.060 has.
00:02:00.720 The husband doesn't give nothing to the wife in Iran.
00:02:03.180 If he doesn't want to, because the law defends men.
00:02:05.460 In America, Western society defends women.
00:02:08.060 So if a man is married to a woman, and the ultimate way by law and taxes for a man to show
00:02:13.280 that the liability, purely financially, is through getting married and having a kid with
00:02:17.860 a woman, you're financially tied where you have to take care of that person if you don't
00:02:20.880 have an optional agreement in place, which means in America, the man has to be careful
00:02:24.920 who to marry, because she can totally ruin your life if you marry the wrong person.
00:02:30.140 That's in America.
00:02:31.260 Okay?
00:02:32.020 So now, if you listen to this right now, so, Pat, what should I be looking at?
00:02:34.520 Number one, take your time.
00:02:35.480 For me, as a man in America, if you want to get married, 30 to 40, the right age.
00:02:39.360 Take your time.
00:02:40.080 There is no competition.
00:02:41.600 You know the race, like, hey, let's see who can run 100 yards.
00:02:44.460 Hey, let's see who can do the 40.
00:02:45.920 In marriage, no one cares how soon you get married at 18, 22, 28, or 32.
00:02:50.840 No one cares.
00:02:52.100 You can take your time, get married at 35, get married at 38, at 31, at 30, you are fine.
00:02:57.480 Doing it too early, you don't have enough experience, because marriage comes, doesn't
00:03:02.360 come with a manual.
00:03:03.280 As much as your mom, your dad, your friends, your peers are going to try to tell you how to
00:03:06.340 get married and how to do it the right way, 99% of whatever anybody tells you about
00:03:10.460 marriage, you're going to have to go through it with yourself.
00:03:12.780 So pump the brakes.
00:03:13.540 Take your time.
00:03:14.520 Look at the things that matter physically.
00:03:16.640 Does she need to be attractive to you?
00:03:18.160 It's important.
00:03:18.980 Number two, values and principles.
00:03:20.720 Best be common.
00:03:21.880 You best believe in similar values and principle.
00:03:25.000 How to raise family.
00:03:26.160 How many kids.
00:03:27.760 Financially.
00:03:28.360 Who's in charge?
00:03:29.140 Who makes the decision?
00:03:30.100 Where do we live?
00:03:31.220 Travel.
00:03:32.140 All of those things matter.
00:03:33.800 And if you do that part correctly, and you choose the right one, you'll have higher chances
00:03:40.000 of doing something big in your life.
00:03:41.400 I cannot tell you how many men I saw killed it in their careers, were doing so well.
00:03:47.300 Suddenly, they married the wrong person, and everything went down.
00:03:51.380 I've seen men who were regular guys, average guys, always making 80 grand a year, 60 grand
00:03:57.240 a year, 40 grand a year.
00:03:58.540 Where all of a sudden, they marry a woman that believes in them, next thing you know,
00:04:03.140 300, 600, a million, running $20 million in your business, because somebody behind closed
00:04:08.940 doors saying, baby, I believe in you.
00:04:11.000 Baby, let's make it work.
00:04:12.520 Baby, you got this.
00:04:13.760 I got your back.
00:04:15.020 You're amazing.
00:04:15.900 And he's doing his part.
00:04:16.880 The guy's got to do his part.
00:04:18.500 He's got to go and do his part.
00:04:20.240 But behind closed doors, somebody is saying, I believe in you.
00:04:22.400 Somebody behind, there's not nagging, negative, all that other stuff.
00:04:25.520 That combination together, you see big things happening with them.
00:04:28.360 So again, I'm expecting a lot of people to not like this, but I'm expecting many, many
00:04:33.860 more to understand this message and receive it properly.
00:04:37.940 If that's you and you received it, pump the brakes.
00:04:41.100 Take your time.
00:04:42.080 Marriage is a big decision.
00:04:43.240 Don't wing it.
00:04:44.260 I'm a guy that's pro-marriage.
00:04:45.680 I'm a guy that's got four kids.
00:04:47.000 I'm a guy that loves partnerships, but I'm a guy that also doesn't encourage to do it
00:04:51.460 and wing it.
00:04:52.200 Take your time with that decision.
00:04:53.340 So if I got you thinking, those of you that are thinking right now saying this kind of does
00:04:56.200 make sense, give it a thumbs up, subscribe to the channel.
00:04:58.580 I got another video I want you to watch, The Rise of Weak Men.
00:05:01.220 If you've never watched it, click here to watch it.
00:05:03.120 Take care, everybody.
00:05:03.880 Bye-bye, bye-bye.