Valuetainment - July 21, 2026


“I'd Put You in a Nursing Home”- Stephen A's Daughter Goes OFF on Podcast

Topics
nursing home
Hosted by
Patrick Bet-David
Mentioned
Stephen A Vinny Stephen Bartlett Oliver North Jerry Rice Platinums Samantha Gabriel Steven Gucci Adam Babs
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Episode Stats


Length

12 minutes

Words per minute

182.84

Word count

2,226

Sentence count

124

Harmful content

Misogyny

10

sentences flagged

Toxicity

4

sentences flagged


Summary

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Stephen A. shares his thoughts on what his daughter would do if she got older and had to take care of him in an old folks' home, and Adam shares his perspective on what he would do. Also, Adam and Adam talk about what it's like to be a Yankees fan in New York, and what it was like growing up in the Bronx.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Stephen A's daughter was on his podcast.
00:00:02.160 Stephen A was just with us two days ago.
00:00:03.920 I don't know what it was.
00:00:04.480 Three days ago we were together.
00:00:05.520 He came.
00:00:05.920 He was at the Yankees game with us.
00:00:08.500 But him and his daughter are on the podcast.
00:00:10.660 I think his daughter is going to be a superstar.
00:00:13.020 I think she's going to be a superstar.
00:00:15.180 Talented.
00:00:15.720 But what they're there, they ask a question of what his daughter would do
00:00:21.240 if Stephen A got older.
00:00:23.280 Would she have him living with her and hiring a nurse
00:00:29.120 or putting him in an old folks' home?
00:00:32.020 Listen to this answer, and I'm curious, Tom,
00:00:33.980 what you think about this.
00:00:34.700 Go for it.
00:00:36.020 You need to find me my own house. 1.00
00:00:42.560 You really are on drugs. 0.99
00:00:44.720 You need to find me an Amex card. 0.99
00:00:49.740 You need to find me more clothes.
00:00:51.840 You know what I mean?
00:00:52.800 Like, there's so much to build.
00:00:54.140 Like how you said you're still going up.
00:00:56.000 We can go up together.
00:00:57.600 this doesn't have to be a you thing it can be a we thing and then when I'm
00:01:02.520 older and I have nothing nursing home and I need you to take care of me you
00:01:06.480 can't do that nursing home you're not gonna do that two words dad nursing home
00:01:10.840 so you'd put your dad in a nursing home nursing home well what else would I do
00:01:14.760 take care of you myself how about that or put me in your home and have 24 hour 1.00
00:01:20.760 nursing assistant in my house with my kids and my car and my husband and my pool and my guest room
00:01:33.600 i'm just your dad the one that made it all possible i would love you from a distance dad
00:01:40.620 you know i love you from a distance we better that way you my heart though
00:01:46.100 can we leave now can you just say goodbye to the audience because i'm done i'm done with this
00:01:53.440 i had a great time here with you guys right there i would watch this reality show all day
00:01:58.040 so what do you think top what do you think about what she said nursing home he's making the money
00:02:04.260 this that's the highest paid guy in the marketplace okay he's the goat in the space he's made a lot
00:02:11.260 of money that money's probably going to go to her what do you think about the answer she gave
00:02:15.480 um steven a if you're listening and i know you are i have two lovely daughters that have a
00:02:21.200 slightly different perspective and i think they need to get together because i think it's just
00:02:24.820 perspective of kids sometimes and that they need to see it my mom lived with us and grandma was
00:02:31.540 playing cards grandma was playing uno and they loved it absolutely loved it my sister's up in
00:02:38.340 boynton beach we come to visit we would go each other dinner and it was a really precious time
00:02:44.040 And I think as your daughter gets older and closer to that, and she can see the joy of her kids with grandpa, you know, doing things, playing Uno, going out in the pool, doing all that, clearly, Stephen A., you're going to have your own house.
00:02:59.360 It'd be more like she and her husband, her kids, maybe they get the privilege to move into your house, this side of inheritance, and then you all live together as a family.
00:03:10.180 But if you ever want to get together, one of my daughters in town, you and Samantha, let's get together.
00:03:15.060 It won't be a fight.
00:03:15.920 It's going to be a perspectives on the table.
00:03:18.060 Steven, if I was you, I would right now, you know, when you're doing the trust and everything, put it in there.
00:03:23.760 Make it, sign it to where nobody gets anything unless you get to live in the house with them.
00:03:29.100 They have to take care of you.
00:03:30.360 You do that?
00:03:31.200 Nobody gets one dollar.
00:03:32.640 You don't get a dollar until I'm in my underwear walking around your house with a coffee, doing whatever I want to do.
00:03:39.420 He's down the street from some of the best estate planners in Miami.
00:03:41.860 Oh, he's Gucci.
00:03:42.280 He can get it done.
00:03:43.640 Adam, how do you process it?
00:03:44.860 Do you have a different angle than what Tom and Vinny just said?
00:03:48.620 Yeah, I do, man.
00:03:49.880 Look, I love Stephen A., but when I watch that little thing,
00:03:52.920 you know that emoji with the face that goes like this?
00:03:56.300 That was me for Stephen A.
00:03:57.740 But at the very least, we know, you know, they say you get it from your mama.
00:04:01.800 She gets her talent and her personality from her dad.
00:04:05.000 She is captivating.
00:04:05.900 I'll give her that.
00:04:07.300 But she failed the test.
00:04:09.420 You think Stephen A. is not thinking in 3D?
00:04:12.280 He says, let me put my beautiful, talented daughter on camera,
00:04:15.740 and I'm going to test her. 1.00
00:04:17.280 Let me see if she's going to take care of Dad when he gets old. 0.99
00:04:20.820 Sweetheart, unless you make $100 million, 0.94
00:04:23.280 you're not going to have what Dad has.
00:04:25.100 He's going to have what's called an estate plan and long-term care,
00:04:29.140 and he's going to have it all set up.
00:04:30.680 He was seeing if his daughter loved him enough
00:04:32.960 to not throw him under the bus on TV,
00:04:36.320 and she did, with grace, I may add. 0.84
00:04:38.680 but not the best look but Stephen A ain't stupid he knows what he's doing I agree with Vinny
00:04:43.760 on the will but I see what PBD does with his dad moved him across the country part of the life
00:04:50.520 it's it's incredible I see the relationship that Tom has with Babs I see the relationship that
00:04:57.080 Vinny has with his mom it makes me want to get closer with my mom we all know that my dad isn't
00:05:03.060 here but uh at the end of the day i hope that steven and his daughter worked this out it wasn't
00:05:08.760 the best look for her yeah so luz look listen i mean a part of this i'm sure they're having fun
00:05:15.180 and they're trolling the audience of course and they're rage baiting the audience but let me tell
00:05:19.660 you i saw something just yesterday maybe even early this morning by dr oz okay i don't know
00:05:25.960 if you have that clip i just sent you i just texted it to you there's a clip i just saw from
00:05:30.320 dr oz the benefits of having your kids around your grand around your parents meaning grandparents
00:05:37.940 watch this go ahead and break it down if you can refresh it watch this folks
00:05:42.160 secret weapon for success may not be a tutor or coach or an expensive app it might be a grandparent
00:05:49.820 and as one i love this research watch this see what i'm talking about first off grandparents
00:05:55.500 are anxiety busters kids with involved grandparents tend to have better emotional well-being why is
00:06:00.200 that? Because grandparents provide unconditional love with a lot fewer
00:06:03.920 rules. We can hand out cookies and life advice in the same afternoon. Second, we're
00:06:08.120 brain builders. Studies show grandparents can have a huge impact on a child's
00:06:11.480 vocabulary and their language development. It turns out that hearing the
00:06:14.100 same story for the 50th time is actually educational. Who knew? And third, this is
00:06:19.640 a big one, a strong bond with a grandparent can help protect kids from
00:06:23.240 risky behaviors, like jumping into the pool, right? They can help them feel
00:06:27.440 connected to someone who loves them, believes in them,
00:06:29.660 and occasionally sneaks them extra dessert.
00:06:31.700 They tend to make better choices that way.
00:06:33.380 So the next time you're deciding whether to call
00:06:35.500 grandma or granddad, remind
00:06:37.160 everybody that it's not just family time.
00:06:39.740 It's emotional support. It's brain training.
00:06:41.560 A little extra protection for the...
00:06:42.840 I don't know. Does Gabriel ever sneak an extra
00:06:45.600 dessert? Are you kidding me?
00:06:47.380 If you look at Brooklyn,
00:06:49.660 I don't even want to get it.
00:06:50.900 Yesterday we come home, and she goes
00:06:53.000 to Vinny.
00:06:54.560 Uncle Vinny, they hid all the
00:06:56.960 cookie and i'm like uncle and vinnie goes like this oh they can't do that everything i'm like
00:07:04.440 vinnie no she goes let me tell you guys what happened i'm gonna give you the funniest scene
00:07:08.840 i wish that we're recording this we're at the yankee stadium we're giving a tour to all our
00:07:13.620 clients at bedavid consulting if you're one of our clients that you know we had an event at the house
00:07:18.420 here which did uh anyways so we go to the yankee stadium we're done with the tour i come out jen
00:07:26.480 brought the kids okay try to visualize i come out brooklyn is 20 yards away from me i'm walking up
00:07:34.440 to her vinny's over here brooklyn goes like this oh my god she's running like this and i put my 0.61
00:07:41.080 hands out and she runs right past me to vinny and she goes to vinny you know why cookies brought a 0.55
00:07:47.940 ring what do you call it ring pops you ask don't get me wrong she loves vinny so it's not just a
00:07:53.040 They have a very good relationship together.
00:07:55.120 I love her. 0.86
00:07:55.640 But she runs up, and then she gets the ring popped. 0.99
00:07:58.600 Everybody wants to do everything for Brooklyn.
00:08:01.180 The part I want to go back to with Stephen A. and his daughter is
00:08:05.080 there's a massive benefit to being around grandparents who are positive
00:08:11.280 and who give good advice and counsel to the kids.
00:08:16.180 By the way, when my kids are around Tom, you're getting smart.
00:08:19.160 Forget about kids.
00:08:19.820 I'm getting smart.
00:08:20.480 Every time I'm around Tom, they're telling stories.
00:08:22.440 When I came back yesterday, we were talking about Homer.
00:08:24.740 It was a competition of who can give more stories about Homer.
00:08:28.020 And it's him or Brooke.
00:08:30.020 It's like, well, here's what happened.
00:08:31.100 Here's what happened. 0.87
00:08:31.680 Brooke won. 1.00
00:08:32.640 Brooke won.
00:08:33.320 But the idea is you're always learning.
00:08:35.360 So, you know, I think it's a special gift when you have your grandparents,
00:08:40.200 your parents around your kids.
00:08:41.700 It's an added layer of reassurance, knowledge, wisdom, a bunch of benefits,
00:08:47.140 and probably a little bit more cookie and candy because Papa knows.
00:08:50.700 Papa has a section, and he tells me,
00:08:52.560 but I only give sugar-free candy to Brooklyn.
00:08:55.540 It's only sugar-free candy.
00:08:56.820 I said, Dad, it's still red.
00:08:59.100 These are not good things.
00:09:00.440 No, no, it's okay, it's okay.
00:09:01.900 Anyways, I got to change some of the guidelines we have
00:09:05.080 when it comes down to candy, but we're figuring that part out.
00:09:07.200 People ask us and say, hey, we'd love to come to the campus,
00:09:09.880 get a tour, an entire new headquarters, 11 acres on the airport.
00:09:12.980 Allegedly, this was a former CIA DOD property
00:09:15.740 that Oliver North did the Iran contract,
00:09:17.700 this airport that you guys now own.
00:09:19.440 Yes.
00:09:20.180 Wait a minute.
00:09:20.900 Is that real?
00:09:21.940 Yes.
00:09:22.720 We're doing the annual networking event at our office, June 29th, 6 to 8 p.m.
00:09:29.020 Those who have CEO tickets, I'm going to give you a tour the entire place.
00:09:32.300 Founder tickets, Tom, I'll give you a tour the entire place.
00:09:35.060 A lot of new upgrades have happened since the last time you guys were here.
00:09:38.700 Executives will get a tour from our staff, and then Platinums and Generals, you'll get a chance to do networking.
00:09:43.380 And then I think a few people who buy the CEOs and founders will go to the cigar lounge afterwards for networking.
00:09:48.600 and he went at our lounge.
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