Valuetainment - October 29, 2026


Looksmaxxer Explains Why Ugly Guys Get Girls

The Call Her Daddy Advice DESTROYING Marriages Looksmaxxer Admits His Face Isn’t Why Girls DM Him

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Length

6 minutes

Words per minute

188.75

Word count

1,146

Sentence count

32

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Misogyny

2

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Toxicity

4

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4

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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I'm going back in high school, and I'm thinking about the guy that landed girls and what he looked like.
00:00:05.980 And then I'm going back in the military.
00:00:07.880 One of the guys that got more girls than any of us combined, he was 5'6", 125 pounds, not good looking, broke as hell.
00:00:17.640 He had nothing going on for himself.
00:00:19.620 He was very good at playing, what do you call it?
00:00:23.440 Pool?
00:00:24.280 Pool, billiard.
00:00:25.160 He was very good at that.
00:00:27.080 But if we went out, I don't know how many times we went out that he didn't land a girl.
00:00:31.160 And there was nothing about him that you would say.
00:00:33.720 He just would go out and he would go talk to everybody.
00:00:37.680 He had audacity and he had, you know, ways of approaching.
00:00:42.500 Then we had a guy who I'll never forget this guy.
00:00:45.700 Approaching, that's a key nuance.
00:00:47.120 And I want to get to this.
00:00:47.820 I want to get to this with you because I want to give you both and I want you to give me
00:00:50.160 insight on how both of you guys view this.
00:00:52.380 Because a part of it is also both of your personalities is very different personalities
00:00:56.280 from just talking to both of you guys.
00:00:58.340 Then I had another friend collab.
00:01:00.200 This guy was the best-looking guy we had in our group.
00:01:03.040 When I tell you best-looking, it's ridiculous what this guy looked like.
00:01:07.180 Face, perfect nose. 0.62
00:01:08.920 We're Middle Eastern.
00:01:09.820 You know Middle Eastern nose are legit.
00:01:11.580 You rarely find a Middle Eastern guy with a perfect nose, right?
00:01:15.000 He had the perfect nose, nice small ears, face was flawless,
00:01:18.980 incredible physique, bodybuilder, small little waist,
00:01:21.760 beautiful lats, beautiful body, danced better than all of us.
00:01:25.480 but god forbid if you went out with this guy and one girl gave him a look or was not interested
00:01:31.320 his goatee was off a little bit he's like i'm not going to land anybody tonight so what how do you
00:01:35.940 explain those two personalities it's it's got nothing to do with looks or fame how would you
00:01:40.840 break that down can i have a pen of course you can yeah for you right now you need a camera on
00:01:45.940 this or you're just going to show it to us i'll just hold it up after i'm done it's a quite simple
00:01:50.340 diagram so this is called the oofy doofy theory oofy doofy theory yes all right bear with me here
00:02:03.620 we're learning folks oofy doofy theory so oofy doofy theory right here so this is a a purgatory
00:02:10.280 graph right here okay so basically what's happening is from about the 45th or really about 49th to
00:02:18.260 95th percentile is a huge purgatory zone where these above average looking guys are attractive
00:02:25.780 enough to potentially get slaves that are are less look good looking than them or maybe get
00:02:31.160 into long-term relationships with their looks maxed but once they get into a relationship the
00:02:35.760 girl knows that they have other sexual partners so they view that relationship as unsafe right
00:02:41.100 the reason that the oofy doofy theory works in these five six jesters that are 120 pounds are 1.00
00:02:46.440 able to get women is because the girl likes to dominate that you know relationship dominate
00:02:52.480 all the different you know things there this guy was an alpha though clap this guy's an alpha
00:02:57.320 no if they're if it's an oofie doofie it's not an alpha they feel safe with that man they
00:03:00.840 there is nothing safe about this guy let me tell you why i'll tell you why they don't know that at
00:03:04.740 the time but i'm going to tell you this about this guy there is nothing safe about this guy nothing
00:03:09.500 he's maybe not this guy's girlfriends the guy's girlfriends wanted him there was nothing safe
00:03:15.360 about this guy and he was super confident alpha like girls would go out with him they were afraid
00:03:20.140 of losing him that's how he was i can i can tell you what i think about i want him to finish the
00:03:24.760 start i'm just pushing back a little so i want you to go a little so maybe not that example actually
00:03:28.100 but the oofy doofy theory so women would actually go against eugenics in favor uh worse looking looks
00:03:34.940 in uh in favor of security right so that's a quite interesting phenomenon see that rather than
00:03:41.320 dating their looks match the the person who's at an equivalent level um so if they can't so they
00:03:47.240 would rather uh ideally sleep with a chad you know but if that's not possible instead of a
00:03:52.720 risky relationship they want a safe option with oofy so so that part i get i don't think it applies
00:03:59.040 to this concept because all i'm thinking about is this guy now walk me through the other guy
00:04:02.960 walk me through the guy that's the best looking guy best physique best body
00:04:07.800 lights out girls were crazy about this guy but he was a little bit hesitant and smallest thing
00:04:14.520 would make him uncomfortable what do you call that um just someone who's high inhibition that's
00:04:19.700 in a whole nother spectrum so you know your looks you can have all these looks you could have all
00:04:25.560 this money but if you're not actually interacting with women in any way it's very unlikely that a 0.83
00:04:31.620 woman is going to come up and talk to you right that's just it also feels like emasculating to 0.91
00:04:37.340 have like a woman like old approach you you're just like sitting there in the corner of the bar 0.98
00:04:40.940 all reserved it's not an attractive thing so that's why even if you go up to a girl and tell 0.99
00:04:47.560 her that you just shit in your pants uh you're still doing better and you have better game than 0.97
00:04:51.700 like 99 of people because 99 of people are too nervous to have an interaction with a girl in 1.00
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