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00:01:00.000 Hi, my name's Gigi. I'm 19. I'm from Sacramento, but I am here in Santa Barbara for school, and I'm majoring in psychology.

00:01:10.660 All right. And are you a second year?

00:01:13.200 First year.

00:01:13.900 First year?

00:01:14.460 Yes.

00:01:15.680 And you're at the City College or the University?

00:01:17.440 City College.

00:01:18.260 City College.

00:01:18.880 Okay. And have you taken any psychology classes?

00:01:22.520 Yes.

00:01:23.440 Currently, you're taking some?

00:01:24.500 One, yeah.

00:01:25.700 Have you taken any tests or essays or anything?

00:01:28.580 No.

00:01:29.140 Is it just intro to psychology?

00:01:30.880 Yeah.

00:01:31.500 Okay. Can you relay to me one takeaway that you've learned from your psychology class?

00:01:39.800 No.

00:01:40.120 The class that you're currently in, when's the last time you had a class? Like two days ago?

00:01:47.960 Um, I didn't go to class last week, so like it's been like almost two weeks.

00:01:54.280 You skipped school?

00:01:56.640 I did, yes.

00:01:57.680 For any particular reason? Like you did a concert or something or?

00:02:01.320 No. Just didn't really feel like going.

00:02:04.240 Okay.

00:02:05.280 Yeah.

00:02:06.240 Okay.

00:02:07.340 Would you say, some people, look, I'm pragmatic about this. Some people go to college for social

00:02:12.800 reasons. Their parents make them in some cases. Do you feel like, and there's no wrong answer

00:02:19.740 on this, do you feel like you are not super interested in college?

00:02:25.300 I am. I don't skip school often, but me and my friends, the weather was just getting nice,

00:02:30.800 so we chose to go to the beach instead.

00:02:33.620 Okay.

00:02:33.660 Um, so.

00:02:35.460 Okay.

00:02:35.960 Yeah, I don't feel like I'm being forced or anything to go to school.

00:02:39.680 And how long has, it's at the city college, is it semester or quarter?

00:02:43.900 Semester.

00:02:44.620 Semester. How long has the semester lasted so far? It started back in January?

00:02:47.960 Um, yes. Yeah.

00:02:49.760 Okay. So you've been taking this class for like two months now?

00:02:53.820 Yeah.

00:02:54.640 Okay. Tell me one thing you've learned from the class.

00:02:58.540 Um, that psychological development starts,

00:03:03.600 at a young age.

00:03:06.920 Okay.

00:03:07.600 W education.

00:03:10.620 And, uh, did you say where you're from?

00:03:13.340 Sacramento.

00:03:13.980 Sacramento.

00:03:14.700 Okay.

00:03:14.900 Yes.

00:03:15.260 All right.

00:03:16.040 Uh, what about you?

00:03:18.120 Hi, I'm Camila.

00:03:19.300 I'm from Seattle, Washington.

00:03:21.680 Uh, I graduated from University of Texas in Arlington.

00:03:26.920 Um, currently a import car model and OF creator.

00:03:30.760 Okay. Age?

00:03:32.120 27.

00:03:33.400 27.

00:03:34.340 What did you study in college?

00:03:36.180 Psychology.

00:03:37.240 Psychology.

00:03:37.940 When did you graduate?

00:03:39.860 Uh, 2020.

00:03:42.160 So, okay.

00:03:42.660 Five, six years ago.

00:03:43.580 Mm-hmm.

00:03:44.540 Okay.

00:03:44.860 You know the question that's coming.

00:03:46.360 Yes.

00:03:46.980 Tell me one takeaway.

00:03:48.640 Okay.

00:03:48.900 So, I think the more interesting that happened recently was, you know, the little monkey

00:03:55.540 that got bullied.

00:03:57.100 Mm-hmm.

00:03:57.480 So, with the little monkey, and it was interesting to me how they handed him a little stuffed animal.

00:04:02.940 So, with, like, Harry Hollow study was that they made a study on a monkey where they gave

00:04:08.420 him a cloth mother and then a metal mother.

00:04:12.780 And the monkey still preferred the cloth mother, despite the metal mother starting to feed the

00:04:17.960 monkey food, showing that, like, it's just innate in, like, humans and animals to want

00:04:24.580 to feel comforted, just, like, over the need for food.

00:04:29.480 Hmm.

00:04:30.960 Interesting.

00:04:32.020 But that's not something you learned at university, though, because that happened recently.

00:04:35.160 Well, no, this happened recently.

00:04:36.900 But the Harry Hollow stuff I learned in university, that's part of my study in psychology.

00:04:40.640 Oh, I see.

00:04:40.700 Oh, okay.

00:04:41.320 Okay, I understand.

00:04:42.000 I thought this was, like, a new...

00:04:45.000 No, no.

00:04:45.620 ...something new related to this recent monkey happening.

00:04:48.160 Well, I'm just...

00:04:49.420 ...in relating to what I just saw recently and then what I learned.

00:04:52.480 Okay.

00:04:53.760 Really quick before...

00:04:54.980 I want to get through the intros, but really quick, I did have a thought on this, and maybe

00:04:58.280 this is already too spicy for so early on in the show.

00:05:02.560 Who here is familiar with the monkey thing?

00:05:07.080 Mm-hmm.

00:05:07.360 Can somebody just really quick...

00:05:08.760 So, what...

00:05:09.540 There was a monkey that was being bullied, a baby monkey?

00:05:12.000 His mom abandoned him, and because you are, like, a priming animal in a whole zoo in Japan, he had no one else really protecting him.

00:05:23.380 And so, everybody, or every other monkey within the zoo was bullying him, throwing him around, beating him up.

00:05:28.440 And so, the zookeepers decided to give him a little, like, monkey-cloth stuffed animal, and he was just carrying that little stuffed animal around, because that's his only comfort.

00:05:39.720 And so, he would sleep with it.

00:05:40.940 Anytime that he would get beat up, he would run to it for comfort.

00:05:43.400 Okay.

00:05:44.400 Okay.

00:05:45.400 Okay.

00:05:46.400 Got it.

00:05:47.400 Um...

00:05:48.400 Who here felt sad about the monkey thing?

00:05:52.780 Who here felt sad about the little monkey that was abandoned by its mom?

00:05:57.780 Do I go here?

00:06:01.420 I don't know.

00:06:02.040 Ah, sure.

00:06:02.740 Fuck it.

00:06:03.000 Why not?

00:06:04.740 Who here is pro-choice?

00:06:08.880 Pro-life?

00:06:09.560 So, pro-choice?

00:06:13.920 Pro-choice.

00:06:14.340 And then, are you pro-choice or pro-life, or...?

00:06:16.980 I'm pro-choice.

00:06:18.220 And, sorry, did you raise your hand for the...

00:06:19.500 I did not.

00:06:20.100 Okay, so you don't give a fuck about the monkey?

00:06:21.280 Yeah.

00:06:21.900 Okay.

00:06:22.640 So, the question I was going to ask is, and I saw some discourse about this online, is, on one hand, you have a lot of women who are upset that this poor monkey, an animal, many monkeys are deemed actually kind of almost pests in many countries.

00:06:37.540 Um, and they're often quite annoying for tourists in certain countries.

00:06:43.000 Uh, women seem to have more empathy for this abandoned monkey than, for example, like, the millions upon millions of, of, uh, babies who, human babies, who are aborted.

00:06:54.020 So, I was curious how you might reconcile the empathy for this monkey, which is an animal.

00:07:01.480 I would say it doesn't have as much, uh, worth or value as a human baby, for example.

00:07:06.720 So, how would you reconcile that?

00:07:08.880 Well, I understand that, but personally, for me, having empathy for a monkey is just humanity.

00:07:15.880 I feel like, as a human, you should have empathy for animals, other humans.

00:07:21.060 But in terms of being pro-choice, in my opinion, it's more of the fact that, like, there are so many other circumstances that could happen to a woman, and I don't think that it's virtually right for, to force a woman to go full term, not knowing everything that could have possibly happened to her.

00:07:38.820 Okay, so you're saying, like, there might have been incest, or there might have been essay, for example.

00:07:43.220 Well, if I were to sit here and grant, in the instances where there is life of the mother, incest, or essay, that we would actually be willing to grant abortion in those instances,

00:07:54.220 would you then be against the instances in which women are just pure, like, you know, they're having consensual sex with a boyfriend, or they just have, like, a hookup at a frat house, oopsie, pregnant, would you be against abortion in those instances?

00:08:07.860 Yes, still.

00:08:08.800 Only for the fact that I...

00:08:10.280 Wait, yes, yes, you would?

00:08:11.600 I would still be for pro-choice.

00:08:13.860 Okay.

00:08:14.140 So your issue isn't necessarily these, you know, extenuating circumstances.

00:08:20.020 Well, not just that.

00:08:21.060 I don't think that, like, giving birth and having to, like, give birth to her child is not only just for those circumstances as well, but also, like, there's so much more to, like, having a child.

00:08:34.580 You could have a child, but then, next thing you know, you're still living within your parents' household.

00:08:39.540 You are not economically well-off enough to give this child the best life it possibly could.

00:08:44.900 And so now you're bringing in a life that could have so much more difficulties and traumas, and then now you yourself are also still figuring out your own life while having to raise something else.

00:08:55.900 And so for me, personally, I just believe in giving birth and providing a life as easy as possible.

00:09:04.200 I mean, granted, life is not perfect, but just lessen the chances.

00:09:08.060 So of the people who are currently struggling economically, financially, should we just unalive them?

00:09:14.900 No.

00:09:15.120 The people that are alive, but they're struggling financially.

00:09:17.020 No, but that's their own choice, though.

00:09:18.880 And, like, my thing is, like, if this is your choice...

00:09:22.240 Well, nobody chooses to be born.

00:09:24.360 Yeah, no one chooses to be born.

00:09:25.880 But if you are given the choice...

00:09:27.120 Like, if you...

00:09:27.940 You don't...

00:09:28.500 You yourself don't choose to be born, right?

00:09:30.260 But if you are given the choice whether or not you want to give birth and raise a child within the same difficulties that you did,

00:09:38.060 knowing that you are currently not in a position to give your child a better life, why would you do that again?

00:09:45.460 Well, I don't think...

00:09:46.440 I mean, it kind of worked for all of human history.

00:09:48.640 Most people were in extreme poverty, comparatively speaking.

00:09:52.280 And they seemed to...

00:09:54.780 Oftentimes, they had tens of...

00:09:58.620 You know, maybe not tens, but they had huge, large families.

00:10:01.720 And I think the other thing I would perhaps ask you is, would you grant to men the same allowance?

00:10:11.880 So, for example, let's say a guy gets a woman pregnant and she wants to keep the child, would you allow the man an escape from being a father?

00:10:20.480 If he himself feels like this is not within his own path and that there's other things that he has to do in life,

00:10:29.700 but it's the mother that wants to keep the child and believes that she herself and her family can help with this child, by all means, that's hers.

00:10:38.280 But, like, within that circumstances, don't, like, then guilt him into it.

00:10:44.820 Because at the end of the day, it's more like it's her body.

00:10:47.060 So what about...

00:10:47.760 So a guy...

00:10:48.520 I mean, there's a couple different scenarios, but let's say there was a guy who, you know, he met a girl at the party, got her pregnant.

00:10:55.500 She decides to keep the kid.

00:10:56.920 And then you'd be okay with him not having some way, because as the law currently stands, she can completely go ahead with the pregnancy.

00:11:08.520 He would have zero say whatsoever.

00:11:12.040 And, by the way, it would go both ways.

00:11:14.360 He can't force her to get an abortion.

00:11:16.580 He can't force her to keep the child.

00:11:18.280 So if she wants to get the abortion, she can have it.

00:11:20.120 She wants to keep the kid.

00:11:21.140 She can, like, the man has no say.

00:11:22.460 But would you grant to the man an exit?

00:11:27.300 So, for example, child support.

00:11:29.840 Men have a legal obligation and duty.

00:11:32.120 They can be forced through the court system to pay child support anywhere from 18 to 21 years.

00:11:37.220 Sometimes if the child has health issues that would extend into adulthood, they actually, I think, sometimes might have to pay support.

00:11:45.500 I'd have to fact check this indefinitely.

00:11:49.260 In any case, are you okay with men not paying child support?

00:11:52.000 Like, being able to escape child support legally?

00:11:55.140 I think that this is where you would have the communication with that partner during the moment that you found out.

00:11:59.880 And I feel like it's important for men as well to be like, okay, like, if he himself wants to stay at that moment, wants that child, then you should make a legal agreement for him to pay child support continuously throughout the child's leave.

00:12:14.240 No, but assume in a situation, the woman wants to keep it, she needs financial support, but the man, he didn't want any part in being a father, any sort of parental responsibility.

00:12:26.940 In that situation, do you think the man should have a legal escape from having to pay child support?

00:12:31.900 Within that situation, yes, because he himself doesn't want the child, cannot help with the child.

00:12:39.640 Question for you on this.

00:12:41.520 Do you think a really, would you be okay with, like, a billionaire woman getting an abortion?

00:12:48.220 Yes.

00:12:48.420 So she has the financial ability to raise the child.

00:12:51.780 In fact, she could pretty much birth the kid and have full-time staff taking care of the kid.

00:12:59.060 But you would still be okay with a billionaire woman having an abortion.

00:13:02.460 Because she himself doesn't want the child of a woman.

00:13:05.020 Yeah, she just doesn't want it.

00:13:05.940 Would you be okay with a billionaire man, say I, you know, say I make millions of dollars a year, I knock up a woman, she wants to keep the kid, I want to, I don't want to, you know, wasn't my intention.

00:13:18.880 As a rich man, should I be able to escape?

00:13:21.220 Mm-hmm.

00:13:22.000 Okay, well, I guess you're consistent then.

00:13:23.740 All right.

00:13:24.980 Introduce yourself, please.

00:13:26.420 Hi, guys.

00:13:27.380 I'm Samantha from Brooklyn, New York.

00:13:29.900 I am a live streamer, and I dropped out of college.

00:13:33.420 Age?

00:13:34.460 21.

00:13:35.500 21.

00:13:35.940 Live streamer?

00:13:37.240 I do TikToks.

00:13:38.760 TikToks?

00:13:39.440 You do dances?

00:13:41.260 I do battles, and I dance, yeah.

00:13:43.400 What are battles?

00:13:44.280 What's that?

00:13:45.560 It's like a really small community on TikTok, and you just battle other people, so it's like streamer against streamer.

00:13:52.820 Like dance battle?

00:13:54.040 No, people like throw gifts at you.

00:13:56.940 I know what you're talking about.

00:13:58.500 Yeah.

00:13:59.520 Okay.

00:13:59.960 Yeah.

00:14:00.320 And you're from where again?

00:14:01.840 Brooklyn, New York.

00:14:02.700 Brooklyn.

00:14:04.120 Okay, Brooklyn, New York.

00:14:05.400 And you grew up there?

00:14:06.840 Yes, born and raised.

00:14:08.060 Okay, New Yorker.

00:14:09.300 And education?

00:14:11.140 You dropped out of high school?

00:14:12.560 College.

00:14:13.140 College.

00:14:13.780 What were you studying?

00:14:14.820 I was studying dental hygiene.

00:14:16.700 Dental hygiene.

00:14:17.740 Okay.

00:14:18.220 Now, TikTok live streamer.

00:14:20.740 Got it.

00:14:22.000 And do you have a, like, background in dance, like ballet?

00:14:26.460 Yeah, I do.

00:14:26.880 Yeah, I was a dancer my whole entire life, too.

00:14:28.860 I went to high school for dance.

00:14:31.300 Okay.

00:14:31.700 You went to high school for dance?

00:14:32.740 Yeah, high school and middle school for dance.

00:14:34.960 We're a little tied at the table.

00:14:36.200 I was going to ask you to show me, like, a pirouette or a plie or something.

00:14:38.680 Yeah, I could do something, for sure.

00:14:40.860 Maybe at some point later if you get up.

00:14:44.360 Yeah.

00:14:45.220 Okay, cool.

00:14:45.960 What about you?

00:14:46.680 My name is Nicole Blade.

00:14:48.100 I live in Mississippi.

00:14:49.520 I work as a church secretary, custodian, and an usher part-time at the Coast Coliseum.

00:14:57.660 And I am 33.

00:15:00.060 33.

00:15:00.860 Any college or anything like that?

00:15:02.820 Our Institute of Dallas for a little bit.

00:15:05.080 Didn't finish it.

00:15:05.960 And then Texas Center for Massage Therapy.

00:15:08.020 Okay.

00:15:08.720 And so you're, are you a, what is it, what's the term for, like, a certified massage therapist?

00:15:15.960 Licensed massage therapist.

00:15:17.240 Licensed massage therapist.

00:15:18.320 How tall are you?

00:15:19.640 Six foot.

00:15:20.260 Six foot.

00:15:21.060 All right.

00:15:21.640 We'll talk about some tall people dating then.

00:15:24.120 What about you?

00:15:25.460 I'm Sarah.

00:15:26.180 I'm from Kentucky.

00:15:27.200 I am 42.

00:15:28.440 I am a sales manager, and I graduated college a long time ago.

00:15:34.180 What did you get your?

00:15:35.660 History.

00:15:36.740 History.

00:15:37.620 What, okay, history.

00:15:40.660 That was a long time ago.

00:15:41.940 I won't quiz you.

00:15:42.840 What about you?

00:15:43.840 Hi, I'm Priyanka.

00:15:45.320 I'm 47 years old.

00:15:46.760 I'm from Connecticut.

00:15:49.520 I am a full-time software engineer, a part-time real estate agent.

00:15:54.000 I have a henna art business.

00:15:56.680 I'm a social media influencer and runway and commercial modeling.

00:16:02.380 Okay.

00:16:03.780 And I am a president and founder of my nonprofit, Creating Wings.

00:16:09.920 Okay.

00:16:10.720 And I have done my bachelor's undergrad in electronics, mathematics, and physics.

00:16:18.240 My master's in finance and other master's in computer science.

00:16:23.720 And I have recently finished postgraduate diploma in artificial intelligence from University of UT, Austin.

00:16:32.300 All right.

00:16:33.160 You have quite the pedigree there, I guess.

00:16:35.440 You said computer science, so you do software engineering?

00:16:40.240 Yes.

00:16:40.840 Okay.

00:16:41.780 Of course, I do detect a bit of an accent.

00:16:44.740 Were you born in the United States?

00:16:46.340 No, I was born in India.

00:16:49.440 What part?

00:16:51.140 Center.

00:16:52.120 The center of it?

00:16:53.220 Okay.

00:16:53.400 And when did you move to the United States?

00:16:57.520 Ten years ago.

00:16:58.480 Ten years ago.

00:16:59.400 Do you have, I guess, what are the, do you have a visa?

00:17:05.900 Have you become a naturalized citizen?

00:17:07.280 So, it was my second marriage.

00:17:09.000 I married to a U.S. citizen.

00:17:11.480 So, you have your green card?

00:17:12.960 Is that correct?

00:17:13.420 No, I'm a citizen.

00:17:14.020 Oh, okay.

00:17:14.680 You became a naturalized citizen?

00:17:16.360 Yes.

00:17:17.120 Okay.

00:17:18.340 So, you had to go through the citizenship process, though, for that?

00:17:21.020 I came on a green card and then became a citizen.

00:17:25.020 I see.

00:17:26.420 Okay.

00:17:28.100 And I'm trying to think if I had some other question for you on some of this.

00:17:33.640 You've done quite a bit of education.

00:17:36.160 Do you have student loan debt?

00:17:39.640 Unfortunately, not.

00:17:41.300 You don't have?

00:17:42.240 No.

00:17:42.720 Oh, wow.

00:17:43.240 Okay.

00:17:44.140 Because I, most of my study was in India, and it was way cheaper.

00:17:49.660 Okay.

00:17:50.340 Gotcha.

00:17:50.620 At that time.

00:17:51.980 All right.

00:17:52.520 And you do runway modeling, you said?

00:17:55.220 Yeah, I did New York Fashion Week, Milan Fashion Week, Paris Fashion Week.

00:17:59.920 My daughter is in college, so I have a lot of time to just enjoy my life now.

00:18:06.180 Okay.

00:18:06.820 All right.

00:18:07.660 What about you?

00:18:08.840 My name is Erin.

00:18:10.040 I am 42.

00:18:11.460 I live in New York City now, but I'm from Wisconsin, where I went to school for communication graphic design.

00:18:20.660 Okay.

00:18:21.480 And you're a comedian?

00:18:23.600 Stand-up comedian?

00:18:24.180 Yes, I am a stand-up comedian.

00:18:25.520 You're on Kill Tony, is that correct?

00:18:27.580 Twice on Kill Tony, and I think I'm on, like, my seventh appearance on Legion of Skanks.

00:18:33.820 And usually they give you, like, what, a one or two-minute set on Kill Tony?

00:18:37.680 Yeah, you do a minute, yeah.

00:18:38.700 Give us your minute.

00:18:39.800 My first one?

00:18:41.640 My first time ever?

00:18:42.860 So I can do both if you want.

00:18:44.080 All right.

00:18:44.360 Oh, my gosh.

00:18:46.520 Wow.

00:18:46.760 It's been seven years.

00:18:48.300 My first minute I did.

00:18:52.100 I knew I had to start doing stand-up now because I'm getting older, and I don't want to end up getting famous for my comedy before it's too late,

00:19:01.360 like, or get famous for being amazing when it's too late, like, you know, like Galileo or Van Gogh or JonBenet.

00:19:11.960 Okay, but, yeah, and I have to be careful.

00:19:18.680 I'm totally forgetting my minute right now.

00:19:20.660 I do have to be careful because you want to make sure that you don't impersonate the greats when you do it.

00:19:26.660 And, you know, some of those people were really legends.

00:19:29.020 Like, for example, I met one of the legends once.

00:19:31.060 I met Bill Cosby in Chicago in a hotel.

00:19:34.380 It was whatever.

00:19:35.380 It wasn't important.

00:19:36.340 It wasn't memorable.

00:19:38.260 Oh, fuck.

00:19:39.120 You ever have your punchline fucked up by a repressed memory?

00:19:43.140 Hashtag me too.

00:19:45.080 But you do also have to be careful when you do stand-up because you don't want to be, like, the obvious thing.

00:19:50.300 Like, I didn't want to be sitting up here talking about, like, how much I love dick because then I'd just become the answer to the question no one is asking.

00:19:57.280 Could Amy Schumer be more well-fed?

00:20:02.460 Okay.

00:20:03.720 I actually messed that up.

00:20:05.540 I forgot a few.

00:20:07.120 There.

00:20:07.500 Sorry.

00:20:07.700 I don't have any, I don't have his cat noise, but I figured I'd play.

00:20:11.220 Okay.

00:20:12.840 All right.

00:20:13.580 Let's worry about it.

00:20:14.320 What about you?

00:20:16.640 My name is Lisa.

00:20:18.200 I'm 26.

00:20:20.160 I'm currently working in retail, but I do have my esthetician license, and I want to pursue my cosmetology.

00:20:27.100 And then eventually I want to, like, run my own business and have my own hair salon.

00:20:33.820 Okay.

00:20:34.540 Got it.

00:20:35.060 Did you say anything education-wise or?

00:20:39.060 Education-wise, I did go to Chaminade University.

00:20:44.160 I didn't finish it.

00:20:45.940 Instead, I'm more interested in trade school and cosmetology.

00:20:50.620 Can I have you just tilt your microphone down?

00:20:54.500 And then what about you?

00:20:56.440 I'm Mandy.

00:20:57.340 I'm 39.

00:20:58.540 I'm from Quebec, Canada, and I only have my high school diploma.

00:21:04.240 All right.

00:21:04.900 It's Quebec, Canada.

00:21:08.080 Let's see.

00:21:08.840 What do you do for work?

00:21:09.700 Oh, sorry.

00:21:10.960 I'm a sales representative.

00:21:12.620 I sell tractor attachments.

00:21:14.980 Okay.

00:21:15.820 We have a very geographically diverse group here.

00:21:19.880 I guess also diverse in other ways.

00:21:23.660 No black women at the table.

00:21:25.040 And I'm the oldest one here, I guess.

00:21:27.280 And it does skew a little on the older side with the panel here.

00:21:33.760 And you're the only...

00:21:35.180 Nobody else does, like, sex work or anything?

00:21:36.900 You do OF?

00:21:38.280 Nobody's, like, feet pics or anything?

00:21:40.580 Or no sugar daddies?

00:21:41.880 Feet pics.

00:21:42.900 Feet pics?

00:21:43.380 You sold feet pics?

00:21:44.240 Currently.

00:21:44.760 Are we going to give her the sex worker label?

00:21:46.420 I don't know.

00:21:47.500 Have you had a sugar daddy?

00:21:48.820 No.

00:21:49.480 Okay.

00:21:50.580 So, okay.

00:21:51.340 Good.

00:21:51.580 I mean, I tend to prefer the panels that have fewer...

00:21:55.120 No offense.

00:21:56.140 Fewer sex workers.

00:21:57.400 But just people...

00:21:59.780 It's a criticism we get.

00:22:01.080 Like, oh, you only bring on OF girls, blah, blah.

00:22:03.500 But here we have a group of pretty normal people.

00:22:06.760 Well, that's to be determined.

00:22:08.980 But your careers are normal, so to speak.

00:22:14.380 So, okay.

00:22:15.980 And, like, so, New York, and you're from...

00:22:21.620 Seattle.

00:22:22.120 Seattle.

00:22:22.900 You're from...

00:22:23.560 I live in Mississippi.

00:22:24.660 Mississippi.

00:22:25.380 Someone's from Kentucky?

00:22:26.820 Kentucky.

00:22:27.900 You're Indian, and you're in there, and you're from New York or something.

00:22:34.020 But originally from...

00:22:35.220 Wisconsin.

00:22:35.940 Wisconsin.

00:22:37.240 I'm from Kansas.

00:22:38.100 And then...

00:22:38.980 I'm originally, actually, like, from Germany, born there.

00:22:43.000 Oh.

00:22:43.200 And then I moved to San Diego, California.

00:22:46.660 Interesting.

00:22:47.460 I'm originally from Michigan.

00:22:49.040 Originally from Michigan.

00:22:50.100 Yeah.

00:22:50.440 I was born in China.

00:22:51.820 I was born in Vietnam.

00:22:53.380 Born in...

00:22:53.860 Oh, wow.

00:22:54.760 Yo, this is a very diverse group.

00:22:56.720 Okay, wait.

00:22:57.320 I want to write some notes here.

00:22:58.900 Okay, so China.

00:23:00.720 Vietnam.

00:23:02.760 And then...

00:23:04.720 India.

00:23:06.580 India.

00:23:07.020 And then Germany.

00:23:11.820 Okay.

00:23:13.060 All right.

00:23:14.640 And you're in...

00:23:15.560 You don't have, like, U.S. citizenship.

00:23:17.300 You're Canadian?

00:23:18.140 No.

00:23:18.480 No, I'd love to.

00:23:18.740 Into the mic, please.

00:23:20.560 No, I'd love to be a U.S. citizen, but I am not.

00:23:23.820 Well, Canada is kind of...

00:23:28.320 Cooked.

00:23:28.980 Cooked.

00:23:29.420 That's one way to cook.

00:23:30.500 It's definitely cooked.

00:23:31.360 Definitely cooked.

00:23:32.120 Definitely cooked.

00:23:32.760 But really quick question, and here, you know what I got to ask?

00:23:39.880 Are you, like, Waysian?

00:23:42.260 Yes.

00:23:45.300 Filipina?

00:23:46.080 Mm-hmm.

00:23:46.580 Fucking nailed it.

00:23:48.440 Okay.

00:23:49.240 White and Filipina?

00:23:50.700 Yeah.

00:23:51.060 Okay.

00:23:52.080 All right.

00:23:53.700 And so you were born in China?

00:23:55.340 Yes.

00:23:56.880 Did you...

00:23:57.780 Were you adopted, or did your parents...

00:23:59.560 No.

00:24:00.180 You came with your parents?

00:24:01.060 Yeah.

00:24:01.240 Mm-hmm.

00:24:02.180 Okay.

00:24:03.720 And then you were born in Vietnam?

00:24:07.440 Okay.

00:24:07.880 I was born and raised in Vietnam.

00:24:09.360 When did you move to the U.S.?

00:24:10.740 When I was seven.

00:24:12.080 Okay.

00:24:12.380 So you're a citizen then?

00:24:13.820 Now, yes.

00:24:14.540 Now, yes.

00:24:15.240 Okay.

00:24:16.020 Parents became citizens too, or...?

00:24:18.620 Yeah.

00:24:18.920 Parents became citizens because my grandparents were in the Vietnam War.

00:24:24.360 Okay.

00:24:24.780 Gotcha.

00:24:25.000 Gotcha.

00:24:25.140 They were the NVA?

00:24:28.820 H-O?

00:24:29.660 No.

00:24:30.460 Hold on.

00:24:31.060 There's the VC.

00:24:32.320 Mm-hmm.

00:24:32.640 I'm trying to remember the names for the belligerents.

00:24:37.580 The VC were opposed to the Americans.

00:24:41.780 Is that also...

00:24:42.720 Wait.

00:24:43.040 Hold on.

00:24:43.520 Chat.

00:24:44.060 Yo, chat.

00:24:44.600 Is NVA, that was our side?

00:24:46.400 American side?

00:24:47.240 NVA?

00:24:48.200 Would that be North or no?

00:24:50.440 Wait.

00:24:52.160 They're the South, and Americans was helping the South.

00:24:55.520 It's been a minute since I played Battlefield Vietnam, sorry.

00:25:02.840 I forgot the...

00:25:04.140 Okay.

00:25:04.420 Anyways.

00:25:05.720 Okay.

00:25:06.020 Question for the...

00:25:06.680 Really quick, just on this topic.

00:25:08.740 Hold on.

00:25:09.320 Let me get my notes on this.

00:25:12.520 And your parents, are they still together?

00:25:15.240 Yes.

00:25:16.000 Okay.

00:25:16.400 Parents still together?

00:25:17.980 Okay.

00:25:18.280 Have they...

00:25:20.160 Have your parents become citizens of the U.S.?

00:25:23.660 My dad is a citizen, but my mom has a green card.

00:25:28.460 Gotcha.

00:25:29.540 Okay.

00:25:30.260 So question for the very diverse people here at the table.

00:25:36.180 One sec.

00:25:36.860 Let me see if I can find the actual notes on this.

00:25:40.500 All right.

00:25:40.980 Well, normally I do this a little later on, but figured why not?

00:25:43.720 We're already talking about it.

00:25:45.220 All right.

00:25:45.540 So I'm going to present a hypothetical to some of you here.

00:25:47.620 In a morally neutral, blame-free hypothetical conflict between the United States and either your birth country or country of your parents' origin, where neither side is right or wrong, to which country is your allegiance?

00:26:08.020 United States.

00:26:08.960 United States.

00:26:10.160 W.

00:26:10.980 Let's go, Gigi.

00:26:12.580 Okay.

00:26:12.940 United States.

00:26:13.640 What about you?

00:26:14.200 United States.

00:26:15.100 United States.

00:26:16.060 Same.

00:26:16.300 United States.

00:26:16.960 The Philippines, I guess.

00:26:18.360 Yeah.

00:26:19.800 Your allegiance, United States or India?

00:26:22.740 So, yes, United States, but, you know, I love equally both the countries because that's my mother country.

00:26:28.700 But if it's any conflict, I will always be with United States.

00:26:32.400 What about you, Germany, I guess?

00:26:34.500 I would say United States, especially with what's going on in Germany right now.

00:26:39.360 Like, we have all of the, like, other Muslims coming in and, like, kind of taking over.

00:26:46.960 So, definitely U.S.

00:26:51.180 Okay.

00:26:51.840 Wow.

00:26:52.360 And, by the way, just to be clear, this, when I ask this question, it doesn't mean that you, you know, if the country of your origin speaks a different language or, you know, you have family there or it doesn't mean you have to completely revoke an affinity for your home country or, you know, the cultural ties or anything like this.

00:27:10.680 It's purely just if there was some, you know, conflict, to which country is your allegiance.

00:27:17.860 It almost reminds me a little bit of the Olympics.

00:27:20.220 There was a bit of a, you know what I'm talking about, with Alyssa Liu and Eileen Gu, where Alyssa Liu, they're both, I'm trying to remember the, I don't know the exact background.

00:27:37.200 But Eileen Gu, like, I think, I don't know if she was born in China, but grew up her whole life in San Francisco, goes in, but she's, like, half white, half Chinese.

00:27:49.760 She, even though having lived in the United States pretty much her whole life, represents China in the Winter Olympics.

00:28:00.280 And, there's, like, this big kind of drama conflict there.

00:28:04.240 And, then, you have, like, based Alyssa Liu, the ice skater, who represented the United States.

00:28:17.060 No thoughts?

00:28:17.940 Well, I think there was also a guy that was Ukrainian that skated for the United States.

00:28:22.820 Oh.

00:28:23.480 As well.

00:28:23.780 He was, like, part of the, like, the duo.

00:28:27.780 Got it.

00:28:28.540 All right.

00:28:29.360 We're going to go around the table once more.

00:28:31.500 Actually, do I do the intro?

00:28:33.640 No, I'll do the intro in a little bit.

00:28:35.120 Let's do everyone's relationship status.

00:28:37.940 So, tell me your relationship status.

00:28:40.780 If you're in a relationship, how long have you been in the relationship?

00:28:43.780 If you're single, how long have you been single?

00:28:45.920 And, what's the longest for either one?

00:28:48.380 What's the longest relationship you've ever had, starting with you?

00:28:52.560 I have a boyfriend.

00:28:54.060 We have been together for about two and a half years.

00:28:56.640 And, he is my longest relationship.

00:28:59.080 You guys met in high school?

00:29:00.760 Yes.

00:29:01.500 Okay.

00:29:02.580 And, is he, is it long distance, or is he here?

00:29:05.220 Long distance.

00:29:06.860 Where is he?

00:29:08.080 He goes to ASU.

00:29:09.080 Okay, not too far, but, I mean, a plane, it's a plane ride.

00:29:14.220 Okay, do you guys, does he come visit you?

00:29:16.640 Do you go visit him?

00:29:18.280 I have gone and visited him the past two times, but he is coming in April to visit me.

00:29:24.900 Okay.

00:29:25.760 And, it's, you're both, for both of you, it's your first year in college?

00:29:29.560 Yes.

00:29:30.020 Okay.

00:29:30.340 Yeah.

00:29:31.120 ASU, that's quite a party school, isn't it?

00:29:33.060 It is.

00:29:34.080 Is he in a fraternity?

00:29:35.240 No.

00:29:36.060 Okay.

00:29:36.420 Do you ever worry?

00:29:37.400 No.

00:29:37.760 You, you trust him?

00:29:39.120 Yes.

00:29:39.320 Okay.

00:29:40.680 You see, this area, Santa Barbara.

00:29:42.880 Yeah, I mean, I'm in Santa Barbara.

00:29:44.380 Quite a party school, party area too, I guess you could say.

00:29:47.520 What about you?

00:29:48.820 Uh, single.

00:29:50.200 It's complicated.

00:29:52.900 Uh, oh, it's single or it's complicated?

00:29:56.720 Single, but it's complicated.

00:29:58.860 I'm talking to someone, um, just kind of scared to get in a relationship.

00:30:04.100 How long have you been single for?

00:30:07.760 A year now.

00:30:09.000 Sitting a year now.

00:30:09.720 One year.

00:30:10.380 But in that year, have you had a situationship?

00:30:12.820 Yes.

00:30:13.820 Like, what was the period of time that that situationship lasted?

00:30:17.820 I'm in one right now.

00:30:19.800 How long have you, the situationship, how long have you been in it?

00:30:22.940 Uh, I believe three months.

00:30:24.740 Three months.

00:30:25.560 Okay.

00:30:26.280 Longest relationship ever been in?

00:30:27.820 Four years.

00:30:28.740 Four years.

00:30:29.280 When did that end?

00:30:31.860 2020.

00:30:32.300 Okay, who broke up with who?

00:30:35.460 I broke up with him.

00:30:37.060 Any reason?

00:30:38.920 I just couldn't stay in Texas.

00:30:42.740 I knew, I wanted more for my life.

00:30:46.180 Okay.

00:30:46.920 Um, how long have you been doing OF, by the way?

00:30:52.760 Since 2023.

00:30:55.300 2023.

00:30:57.720 Gotcha.

00:30:58.440 Okay.

00:30:59.020 Uh, got it.

00:31:01.340 Okay.

00:31:02.860 Um, are you seeing just one guy currently?

00:31:06.780 Yes.

00:31:07.520 Okay.

00:31:07.820 You don't have a roster?

00:31:10.680 No.

00:31:11.160 I, surprising.

00:31:13.680 I believe in monogamy.

00:31:16.000 Um, it's just more like, I feel like there's, every sex worker is different.

00:31:21.480 Um, personally for me, my circumstances may be a lot more surprising than the normal stereotype.

00:31:29.100 Um, yeah.

00:31:31.860 All right.

00:31:32.500 Uh, the guy you're dating, is he also a OnlyFans?

00:31:35.940 No.

00:31:36.920 Person or whatever?

00:31:37.820 No, he's not an OF creator.

00:31:39.220 Do you, do you, do you do boy-girl content?

00:31:41.640 I do not.

00:31:42.940 Ever?

00:31:43.260 It's just me.

00:31:43.900 Nope.

00:31:44.340 Only solo content?

00:31:45.360 Mm-hmm.

00:31:46.440 Okay.

00:31:47.340 All right.

00:31:47.920 What about you?

00:31:48.880 I'm single.

00:31:50.200 The longest relationship I've ever been in is, uh, two years.

00:31:54.440 Okay.

00:31:55.400 Uh, how long have you been single for?

00:31:58.000 Um, a year and a half.

00:32:02.060 Is there a guy in the picture currently?

00:32:03.800 No.

00:32:04.260 Nothing?

00:32:04.760 Nothing.

00:32:05.280 Zero?

00:32:05.660 Zero.

00:32:06.060 Zilch?

00:32:06.560 Zero.

00:32:06.960 Nine.

00:32:07.400 Texting?

00:32:07.920 Nine.

00:32:08.300 Nothing.

00:32:09.100 Texting, messaging?

00:32:10.740 Nothing.

00:32:11.180 Dating app?

00:32:12.120 No.

00:32:12.320 You're not on any dating apps?

00:32:13.280 I am on them, but I haven't touched it in like three months.

00:32:15.580 You haven't logged in?

00:32:16.380 Okay.

00:32:16.640 Yeah.

00:32:17.160 And the last guy I saw tried to kiss me and I don't want to do that.

00:32:21.820 Kiss?

00:32:22.740 I just met him.

00:32:23.900 What the hell?

00:32:24.460 I'm not kissing him.

00:32:25.860 I've never done that.

00:32:27.140 That was like-

00:32:27.640 Kissed somebody?

00:32:28.300 On the first meetup?

00:32:29.860 Yeah.

00:32:30.120 That's pretty normal, I think.

00:32:31.140 I can't do that.

00:32:32.600 Really?

00:32:33.160 Yeah.

00:32:33.480 Well, tell us what you can do.

00:32:37.000 Like on a late, like a first?

00:32:39.040 Well, in your messages to us, you included a very interesting anecdote.

00:32:44.820 I'd like you to regale us with the tale.

00:32:49.220 Okay.

00:32:50.080 So just start from-

00:32:51.420 Just right into it.

00:32:52.540 Jumping right in.

00:32:53.280 We're doing this.

00:32:54.040 Okay.

00:32:55.060 So, when I was 17, I was dating a guy four years older than me.

00:33:02.120 And he was living with me for a couple, like, months.

00:33:05.600 And it was because his house was in foreclosure.

00:33:08.460 So I had him stay with me.

00:33:10.700 And I went on a vacation.

00:33:12.040 He ended up cheating on me while I was on the vacation.

00:33:15.020 While he was staying with me, I looked through his phone.

00:33:18.620 I looked through the phone.

00:33:19.920 I see that he cheated on me.

00:33:21.580 Wonderful.

00:33:21.940 So then that same day, I went to my first boyfriend's house.

00:33:26.620 So he's my ex.

00:33:28.300 And that's his friend, too.

00:33:30.080 So they were both friends.

00:33:32.500 I saw him and my boyfriend.

00:33:35.860 He came in me.

00:33:37.860 And then-

00:33:38.760 Repeat that one more time.

00:33:39.940 Yeah.

00:33:40.200 My first boyfriend came in me.

00:33:43.960 Ejaculated.

00:33:44.400 Yes.

00:33:44.920 Ejaculated.

00:33:45.820 Ejaculated.

00:33:46.440 Yeah.

00:33:46.660 Yeah.

00:33:46.900 Just need to make it clear.

00:33:48.600 Yes.

00:33:48.720 Yes.

00:33:49.100 All right.

00:33:49.560 Continue.

00:33:49.860 Then I went home to my current boyfriend.

00:33:53.980 And I don't like getting ate out.

00:33:57.660 But I didn't care.

00:34:01.160 So he then ate me out with his friend's semen in me.

00:34:07.040 The same day.

00:34:08.540 What?

00:34:09.800 What?

00:34:11.280 Yeah.

00:34:11.680 Excuse me?

00:34:16.780 That's fucking disgusting.

00:34:20.400 You know what?

00:34:21.260 He did cheat on you, though.

00:34:22.380 And he lived in your house.

00:34:24.980 Yeah.

00:34:26.420 Gave him a job and everything, too.

00:34:28.500 But he doesn't know.

00:34:29.400 But now he will.

00:34:30.080 Oh.

00:34:30.260 So if you're out there, I did you so dirty.

00:34:40.240 Wow.

00:34:40.660 I just did you so dirty.

00:34:43.240 How long ago was this?

00:34:45.000 I was 17, so like four or five years ago.

00:34:49.680 I would never do something like that now.

00:34:51.980 Have you done something like that?

00:34:54.240 No, after that, I never did anything like that ever again.

00:34:58.760 That was just rage and not giving a fuck.

00:35:03.700 Sorry.

00:35:04.200 Excuse me.

00:35:04.440 You know, I have some thoughts on this, but I'd like to hear from the women at the table.

00:35:09.400 So, okay.

00:35:10.040 Just so I understand, the guy you were seeing at the time, he cheated on you.

00:35:14.100 Yes.

00:35:14.420 And you were upset, you go console yourself with your ex-boyfriend.

00:35:21.320 Yeah, who was also his friend.

00:35:23.160 Oh, they were friends.

00:35:23.820 Yeah, they were friends.

00:35:24.240 That adds a layer to it.

00:35:25.700 He ejaculates in you.

00:35:29.660 There's no better way to say it.

00:35:32.200 And then, what was it, 30 minutes later?

00:35:35.580 Oh, it was like 15.

00:35:36.800 15.

00:35:37.400 So, just...

00:35:38.580 Just the ride, the Lyft ride home.

00:35:41.380 In the Lyft.

00:35:42.620 No, no, no, no.

00:35:43.140 I was alone in the Lyft, you know, I went home.

00:35:45.680 Yeah.

00:35:46.160 And then...

00:35:47.080 But, so was the...

00:35:48.560 And he was at my house waiting for me.

00:35:52.680 But, so, was this like, you hooked up?

00:35:56.240 Like, were you planning it?

00:35:57.940 No, it was just, I was mad.

00:35:59.760 I texted him.

00:36:00.640 He said, okay, come over.

00:36:01.880 I came over.

00:36:02.900 But normally, I think in your notes you said you normally don't like it when men go down.

00:36:07.320 Yeah, I don't.

00:36:07.920 I don't.

00:36:08.360 I do not like that.

00:36:09.140 So, but you asked him specifically to go down.

00:36:12.460 Is that correct?

00:36:12.940 Yes.

00:36:14.160 Because...

00:36:14.720 Because, yes.

00:36:15.360 There was another man's seed.

00:36:17.320 Yes.

00:36:18.460 Inside.

00:36:19.060 Yes.

00:36:19.440 And leaking out of you.

00:36:21.640 Yes.

00:36:23.020 Did you...

00:36:23.600 That is fucking...

00:36:24.900 I cleaned up a little bit.

00:36:25.900 I still had to make sure there was some in there.

00:36:27.580 Did you, after finishing that act, did you at least tell the current boyfriend, I know

00:36:32.160 you cheated on me?

00:36:33.140 Did you confront him at all?

00:36:34.220 Oh, I confronted him that same night I found out.

00:36:37.600 I confronted him.

00:36:38.540 I was like, what the fuck is this?

00:36:40.400 Excuse me.

00:36:40.860 And, yeah.

00:36:43.580 So, just, I don't know if you want to share your thoughts going around the table.

00:36:47.940 I mean, like, yeah, I think it's gross.

00:36:49.740 But honestly, if I found out that a guy who was living in my house cheated on me, I mean,

00:36:58.240 that, like, come on, like, really, like, that's...

00:37:01.240 Well, yeah, cheating's wrong.

00:37:04.300 Shouldn't cheat.

00:37:06.240 But, so, do you have a sense of, like, fair game, kind of?

00:37:10.040 Yeah, yeah.

00:37:11.020 It's, like, kind of, if you go low, I'll go lower.

00:37:14.080 You know, they say that the best revenge is moving on.

00:37:19.500 I mean, yeah, that too.

00:37:20.940 Oh, I carried it on.

00:37:22.440 I've made that shit for a year.

00:37:24.340 Yikes.

00:37:24.940 Your thoughts?

00:37:26.640 I just have a question.

00:37:28.560 In what form of, like, cheating did you find out he was participating in?

00:37:31.500 If you can, try to talk straight.

00:37:33.680 In what form of cheating did you find out that he was participating in?

00:37:37.200 Um, he was going to another girl's house while I was, um, away on a vacation and seeing other

00:37:45.720 girls at the house.

00:37:47.540 Like, he didn't bring them inside, but he had them drop him off at the house, and he

00:37:52.160 was doing other things with the women.

00:37:54.680 So he was physically cheating?

00:37:56.020 Yeah, physically, yeah.

00:37:56.480 Okay.

00:37:56.740 I saw pictures and stuff.

00:37:58.060 It was not pretty.

00:37:59.220 Okay, then.

00:37:59.640 I think that's fair.

00:38:01.720 Thoughts?

00:38:02.340 You moved in the shadows.

00:38:04.480 Wow.

00:38:05.380 That's all I have to say.

00:38:06.480 That's, um, while it's not something I would do, I think that it's a great story.

00:38:12.520 I mean, you know, you, consequences for your actions.

00:38:19.040 So, I completely agree with her, because as a woman, we do a lot for a man when we are

00:38:25.700 in love, especially me.

00:38:27.400 We pour the whole heart out and everything, and when we found out that somebody is cheating,

00:38:33.140 whereas we are giving them so much of love and respect and everything.

00:38:38.920 So, is she just used another way?

00:38:41.600 I had used something completely different, but as brutal.

00:38:46.340 So, I'm with you.

00:38:49.180 Do you want to tell us what that was, super quick?

00:38:51.680 Yeah.

00:38:51.760 So, my last boyfriend, he cheated on me in the sense that he came to United States, and

00:39:00.940 we met on Hinge, and he said, you know, whatever relationship status, he said, you know, I said,

00:39:08.180 I'm completely monogamous, and we were dating for three years, and I did every possible thing,

00:39:15.600 even I put a fast for him, you know, for his long life.

00:39:19.760 And I realized that he was just here alone, because the wife is taking care of the kid

00:39:26.400 in college back in India, and he is at an executive position at a very big company where

00:39:32.520 I used to work, so I know him through LinkedIn and all.

00:39:35.800 And when I realized that his wife is coming, from eight hours talking, he completely, like,

00:39:44.200 blocked me.

00:39:45.000 Just because my three-year period is over, and now the wife is coming, so I applied all

00:39:51.400 my software engineering mind, found his wife, called his wife, that I used so many tactics

00:40:00.580 to do that, and God helped me with that, and I told his wife, and the wife was completely

00:40:06.300 shocked, and then I realized from the wife Instagram, like, he did not have any post with

00:40:12.920 wife on his social media, but the wife does.

00:40:16.940 And I realized, like, he met me in U.S., went to India, and then went on a vacation with his

00:40:23.920 wife, and he told me I'm going to a temple because my mother passed away, you know, he

00:40:29.940 used his mother who passed away in every conversation, like, he's such a saint.

00:40:34.920 So it's like when you're heartbroken, so I told his wife, like, I completely ruined, because

00:40:41.220 they belong to a completely orthodox traditional family.

00:40:46.240 And I not just told his wife, but I spread the news in all his relatives on Instagram.

00:40:52.660 Yes.

00:40:53.560 Okay.

00:40:54.600 Your thoughts on her thing?

00:40:56.080 For you, you were young, and I think that you and the boyfriend at the time were just

00:41:01.900 in a position where you didn't respect yourselves at all, just to be real.

00:41:05.980 You were young.

00:41:07.180 You clearly learned a lesson.

00:41:08.660 You did something wrong.

00:41:09.900 There's no fair game.

00:41:11.120 You did something wrong, and you know it.

00:41:13.800 You're a grown-ass woman, though.

00:41:16.020 I'm just putting that out there.

00:41:17.340 You're a grown woman, and you just said completely unapologetically that you sought out and made

00:41:24.300 multiple steps to ruin someone's life.

00:41:26.300 It doesn't matter what he did.

00:41:27.920 You're accountable for your actions, and to say that God helped lead you to ruin someone's

00:41:32.760 life, that's a completely different story than a 17-year-old who did something sideways.

00:41:37.920 As a woman, other women should know.

00:41:40.340 Like, he's cheating the wife, and he said I had no...

00:41:43.960 But you said it wasn't just the wife.

00:41:45.180 You also said you told his whole family.

00:41:47.340 You set out.

00:41:48.260 Yes.

00:41:48.440 You just admitted.

00:41:49.280 You set out to ruin his life.

00:41:50.980 Yes.

00:41:51.340 That no matter what he did, you're responsible for your actions, and to say that God helped

00:41:56.300 you be petty is out of pocket.

00:41:58.240 I slept over it, and I asked God, if I can reach his wife somehow, that means you want

00:42:04.960 me to communicate to the wife, and so I...

00:42:07.560 Wait, really quick.

00:42:08.720 I'm sorry.

00:42:09.380 I was, like, focusing on something else, so I kind of, like, zoned out.

00:42:12.420 But he, it was a guy cheating on his wife.

00:42:15.800 What was your involvement again?

00:42:17.500 Was, were you dating him, or...

00:42:19.640 Yeah, we met, I met him in U.S.

00:42:23.560 Okay.

00:42:23.960 On Hinge dating app.

00:42:25.380 And did you go, did you go on dates with him, or...

00:42:28.080 We dated three years.

00:42:30.180 Oh, three years.

00:42:30.880 Okay.

00:42:31.100 Like, close to three years.

00:42:32.760 And he had a wife the whole time?

00:42:34.140 Yes, in India.

00:42:36.240 In India?

00:42:36.720 And went on a vacation?

00:42:37.300 Yeah, not here.

00:42:38.160 That's why he used to live in my house, I used to live in his house.

00:42:41.060 His wife was in India, but he was living here for three years?

00:42:44.080 Yeah, because he moved for the job, you know?

00:42:46.640 No, that's common.

00:42:48.840 Uh, okay.

00:42:50.380 My only question is...

00:42:52.700 So, you approached the wife first, yes?

00:42:54.940 Yes.

00:42:55.600 So, did you ask the wife how she would feel if you were to tell everyone else?

00:43:01.560 Like, if she was okay with it?

00:43:04.240 I understand.

00:43:04.560 No, I did not, because I know the Indian culture, the wife is promoting the behavior.

00:43:11.260 You know, that's why he's going on and on.

00:43:13.380 Like, the wife is okay with the behavior?

00:43:15.420 Yes, I think so.

00:43:16.900 A lot...

00:43:17.640 But, but you just said you think so.

00:43:19.260 Because, according to him, he is cheating, and the wife caught years ago.

00:43:25.000 So, that means it's a repeating behavior, and the wife is still, like, due to the social pressure, the wife is still with the...

00:43:34.340 Well, yes, it could be a repeating behavior, but at the same time, maybe, like, there's so much situations where you don't know.

00:43:42.960 She could believe that he could change, or that, like, there's family involved.

00:43:47.340 There's just so much within it, and I think it's just more of a respect thing for her as well to ask whether or not she would be okay with you telling everyone else.

00:43:56.080 Because it also looks bad for her.

00:43:58.540 Yes.

00:43:58.600 Yeah, I mean, I guess I don't want to linger on that for too long, but there could be some argument made that it's acceptable to tell the direct person that is affected by this.

00:44:10.120 I wasn't paying attention to all the details.

00:44:12.180 I was distracted by a tech thing going on, but the going to the family, that seems...

00:44:20.120 I think people might side with you on the going to the wife thing, letting her know, but I think that ought to have probably been the extent of it.

00:44:30.080 Telling the whole family seems particularly malicious and vindictive.

00:44:37.720 I know.

00:44:38.460 Okay, all right.

00:44:39.240 Your thoughts, Lisa, on her?

00:44:42.720 My thoughts.

00:44:44.060 I feel like you were young, so I feel like when somebody cheats, especially when that guy is older, when you're young, I feel like you don't really, like...

00:44:54.240 I don't want to say you don't think about it, but...

00:44:56.760 I definitely wasn't thinking.

00:44:58.380 Yeah, so what I'm saying is, like, you can still take the accountability for it, but I think because you were so young, it's like, you don't really think about it, so you just do it.

00:45:08.840 Yeah.

00:45:09.640 I wouldn't, like, justify that, but as I don't...

00:45:12.300 What do you think?

00:45:12.820 I think there's a certain element to keeping your dignity intact, right, and taking the higher ground.

00:45:18.520 I'm sure you're sorry for it now, and as long as, you know, you're sorry...

00:45:22.480 I'm not sorry.

00:45:22.980 I don't care.

00:45:24.980 I was really banking on that, but I mean, you know, I think eventually you're gonna have to, like, just come to terms with yourself eventually and just kind of feel bad about it a little bit, because in the end, you've given him the validation for cheating on you, right?

00:45:43.360 Oh, well, she was crazy anyway.

00:45:45.720 Look what she did to me, so...

00:45:47.260 That's fine.

00:45:47.740 Yeah.

00:45:48.100 That's his opinion.

00:45:49.540 Nice.

00:45:51.080 Yeah.

00:45:52.520 I mean, she definitely got revenge on the dude.

00:45:56.100 Like, that's fucking disgusting.

00:45:58.240 Nobody wants to say it.

00:45:59.940 That is gross.

00:46:01.960 You basically forced him to be almost kind of gay, to be honest.

00:46:05.520 He definitely was.

00:46:06.740 He told me that he kisses boys.

00:46:08.460 Oh, well, I guess it...

00:46:10.220 So he was bi?

00:46:11.320 I don't know.

00:46:12.060 Maybe it's actually not even a revenge.

00:46:13.120 I don't know.

00:46:13.500 It's probably an army thing.

00:46:14.720 That might...

00:46:15.300 Nope.

00:46:15.620 Nope.

00:46:16.500 It might not even be a revenge thing.

00:46:17.180 I know a bunch of army boys that kiss...

00:46:18.860 If he's, like, into that, he might be, like, dope, I guess.

00:46:22.360 Good reward.

00:46:23.240 I personally find that fucking one of the most disgusting things ever.

00:46:26.740 I remember once, this girl never actually ended up making on the show, but she sent in pre-show notes similar to you.

00:46:32.880 I wish she came on the show, because I would have had some words with her.

00:46:37.180 She, and not a cheating situation.

00:46:39.720 She was dating this guy, and I'll open this up to the panel to give your input.

00:46:45.300 This girl was dating this guy, and she says he, after she went down on him, he didn't like to kiss afterwards.

00:46:53.240 He had a sexual boundary.

00:46:55.120 You know, she goes down on him.

00:46:56.680 He didn't want to kiss afterwards.

00:46:57.700 And so, what she wrote was, I guess she didn't like that, right?

00:47:05.280 Hide it for now.

00:47:06.340 She didn't like that.

00:47:07.280 So, she said, the next time that they hooked up and she received his seed, I guess you could say, she kept the seed in her mouth and spit it in his mouth.

00:47:24.520 Now, I think that that's fucking a sex crime, to be honest.

00:47:31.940 Yeah.

00:47:32.140 That's like.

00:47:32.620 I totally agree.

00:47:33.440 Total sex crime.

00:47:34.380 Yeah.

00:47:34.720 If it was up to me, I was the fucking cops.

00:47:36.920 I'd arrest her.

00:47:37.760 If I was the judge, you're going on the sex offender registry.

00:47:41.080 I mean, you're going to prison, like, that's completely, I'm sorry.

00:47:45.000 If a guy has stated, just even kiss, like, even if she, you know, she, and he has an issue with kissing, then you're going to, that's.

00:47:56.160 That would actually be illegal because it's a bodily fluid.

00:47:59.360 That person could have had a disease or something.

00:48:01.220 That's, that would be illegal.

00:48:02.540 You're right.

00:48:02.920 That would be a crime.

00:48:03.720 In my, I mean, I don't know how the courts would view it, but that's, I mean, it's.

00:48:09.840 Wow.

00:48:11.080 I don't know, like, look, fuck, I don't know if I should.

00:48:15.180 If a girl did that to me, do I fucking, you know what?

00:48:21.120 There's some things I'm not going to say on the internet.

00:48:22.280 You can punch me.

00:48:23.700 No, not, not what you did.

00:48:24.980 No, no, no.

00:48:25.420 I know.

00:48:25.760 If I did what she did, you can punch me.

00:48:28.880 You can punch me.

00:48:31.120 It would be just the fire.

00:48:31.800 I'm not going to say it on the internet.

00:48:33.380 I'm not going to say it on the internet, but.

00:48:35.800 This is a comedy skit?

00:48:37.500 Yeah.

00:48:37.960 In Fortnite.

00:48:39.240 In Fortnite.

00:48:39.980 In GTA.

00:48:40.460 I think it would be justified if you did.

00:48:43.900 I mean, look, I.

00:48:45.840 I think even for a very mentally stable man, that would be extremely triggering, like, and

00:48:49.860 you probably would not even be able to control what you did next.

00:48:52.320 Also just.

00:48:52.860 100%.

00:48:53.300 Speaking.

00:48:54.660 I would restrain myself, but there would be a temptation.

00:48:58.240 Speaking as a woman, keeping that in your mouth is both disgusting and a weird challenge.

00:49:03.540 That's gross.

00:49:04.480 I concur.

00:49:05.160 I concur.

00:49:06.960 Well, I mean, some women have different appetites, but.

00:49:12.120 Look at this beautiful sunset we have.

00:49:14.440 Look at the sky.

00:49:15.660 Very lovely.

00:49:16.480 Very nice.

00:49:17.480 Very nice day in Santa Barbara, California.

00:49:19.680 By the way, speaking of beach weather, it's been very nice in Santa Barbara.

00:49:23.740 I feel sorry if there's anybody viewing from a cold region.

00:49:29.840 Who's in the cold region, lives in the cold region?

00:49:32.860 Well, back home, like today or yesterday or in a couple days, what's the temperature?

00:49:37.220 Snowstorm.

00:49:38.560 Snowstorm.

00:49:39.560 Freezing.

00:49:40.560 Okay.

00:49:40.900 All right.

00:49:41.120 Yeah, we had a blizzard on Monday, so.

00:49:43.220 Okay.

00:49:43.900 My husband's sitting sick at home with a cold.

00:49:48.840 Okay.

00:49:49.520 Here we have a super chat.

00:49:51.520 I'll just read really quick.

00:49:53.700 Corey, thank you for the super chat.

00:49:55.540 Can you ask the women why they think Trump won over Kamala?

00:50:00.360 Thank you for the super chat.

00:50:03.340 Maybe woke stuff.

00:50:04.260 Also cool.

00:50:04.760 Andrew was on Rogan, LOL.

00:50:05.660 Well, I need like a one sentence answer if you'd like to answer the question.

00:50:13.640 Why you think Trump won over Kamala?

00:50:17.140 Because he was like going to be a better president.

00:50:21.120 He was better, except what do you think?

00:50:22.940 I don't think America's ready for a female president.

00:50:26.360 Not ready?

00:50:27.080 Okay.

00:50:27.200 He's a man.

00:50:28.260 He's a man.

00:50:29.060 That's why he won?

00:50:30.260 He had coherent sentences and you could understand him.

00:50:33.240 More coherent?

00:50:35.040 Okay.

00:50:35.660 All right.

00:50:36.480 What about you?

00:50:37.980 I think that the left is just getting too far extreme that some people, even the lean

00:50:42.960 left, are a little uncomfortable with it.

00:50:44.940 Okay.

00:50:45.280 Go ahead.

00:50:46.420 She doesn't make any sense when she responds something.

00:50:49.840 I just cannot.

00:50:51.880 Because the American issues the American people are facing, she doesn't think about that.

00:50:58.160 And Trump was spot on.

00:51:00.060 Okay.

00:51:00.720 She lied about being a Tupac fan.

00:51:02.540 You can't lie in a legend.

00:51:04.000 Can't lie about that.

00:51:05.160 What about you?

00:51:06.780 Maybe because she has a camel toe in life.

00:51:11.320 A what?

00:51:12.060 She has a what?

00:51:13.140 Because they were saying Kamala and then camel toe Kamala house.

00:51:17.540 Okay.

00:51:17.980 That's a first.

00:51:18.860 Okay.

00:51:20.080 Everything they said and he has a riz too.

00:51:23.260 All righty then.

00:51:24.380 True.

00:51:24.880 Okay.

00:51:25.440 Okay.

00:51:25.960 Let's continue on with the relationship status.

00:51:27.980 But by the way, disavow.

00:51:30.140 That's so funny.

00:51:31.840 I'm sorry.

00:51:32.540 That's so gross.

00:51:32.980 I would never do that ever again.

00:51:34.940 Ever.

00:51:35.860 So you learned your lesson.

00:51:37.060 Oh yeah.

00:51:37.440 I learned my lesson.

00:51:38.280 I don't regret it though.

00:51:40.240 See?

00:51:40.480 So you do.

00:51:41.000 Oh, you don't.

00:51:41.700 I don't.

00:51:42.360 I don't care.

00:51:43.580 Because I don't care.

00:51:44.200 Look, cheating's wrong.

00:51:45.660 You shouldn't.

00:51:46.120 The guy shouldn't have been cheating.

00:51:47.300 Exactly.

00:51:48.120 But damn.

00:51:48.460 That's brutal.

00:51:50.480 I don't think.

00:51:50.920 I don't know if there's something.

00:51:52.380 Like what the fuck could a guy do that would be even equivalent to that?

00:51:57.040 There's not.

00:51:57.700 I feel like there's nothing a guy can do that's as gross.

00:52:02.420 Really.

00:52:03.060 Good.

00:52:03.320 But like, I don't know what.

00:52:07.480 Yeah.

00:52:07.940 What could a guy do?

00:52:11.880 AIDS.

00:52:12.380 Double deep.

00:52:13.300 AIDS.

00:52:13.880 Oh gosh.

00:52:14.800 Go down to the little truck area.

00:52:19.020 Do the little deed and then go do the deed with them.

00:52:21.820 Well, I mean, I don't think HIV would transfer that fast.

00:52:25.800 That would cost him too.

00:52:28.180 I don't think it's like.

00:52:29.860 Or you know what?

00:52:31.160 Anyways, whatever.

00:52:32.540 Relationship status?

00:52:33.540 Single.

00:52:34.560 All right.

00:52:35.060 How long you been single for?

00:52:36.260 2019.

00:52:38.220 So like six, seven years?

00:52:40.780 Sure.

00:52:41.260 I'm bad at math.

00:52:42.520 Longest relationship?

00:52:43.780 Two and a half years, long distance.

00:52:45.600 I'm assuming that's the one that ended seven years ago?

00:52:48.800 2019.

00:52:49.660 It was long distance?

00:52:50.760 He was a Marine.

00:52:52.020 Okay.

00:52:52.320 How many times were there periods where you guys were in the same city?

00:52:57.400 Anytime he was on leave, I would either visit him or he would come and see me.

00:53:02.500 Okay.

00:53:03.120 Do you know how many times, sometimes there's long distance relationships, you might see

00:53:06.860 each other once a month.

00:53:09.480 So you might even be like, do you think you only saw him?

00:53:13.580 Less than that.

00:53:14.700 Like 10 times?

00:53:15.760 20 times?

00:53:17.380 Probably three times.

00:53:20.100 In person, you only met three per year.

00:53:23.340 Yeah.

00:53:23.580 So maybe you met less than 10 times.

00:53:28.340 Yeah.

00:53:28.900 Most of our relationship was over.

00:53:30.160 And then how long would you spend together?

00:53:32.560 A couple days?

00:53:33.240 A couple weeks?

00:53:34.540 A week.

00:53:35.340 One week.

00:53:38.380 Two and a half years.

00:53:40.520 Yeah.

00:53:40.820 And y'all spent...

00:53:41.900 Like two months together, basically?

00:53:47.160 Pretty much.

00:53:47.540 Maybe.

00:53:48.560 Okay.

00:53:49.800 Was it monogamous?

00:53:51.300 Mm-hmm.

00:53:52.540 He did cheat on me, though.

00:53:54.260 What branch of the military?

00:53:55.520 Marines.

00:53:55.760 Marines.

00:53:56.500 Okay.

00:53:57.360 Semper Fi, I guess.

00:53:58.480 This is your only boyfriend.

00:54:02.320 Is that correct?

00:54:03.280 Yeah.

00:54:04.020 Okay.

00:54:04.640 You had only boyfriend long distance.

00:54:06.020 And this was...

00:54:07.000 Wait.

00:54:07.440 This was the one that ended...

00:54:09.200 In 2019.

00:54:09.800 2019.

00:54:10.560 Mm-hmm.

00:54:11.160 Okay.

00:54:11.460 So you had your first boyfriend at 20...

00:54:13.600 I think it was 2016 I met him.

00:54:17.620 And you were how old then?

00:54:20.240 You're asking me to do math right now.

00:54:22.700 Well, you're 33 now.

00:54:24.540 So maybe you were in your mid-20s when you met?

00:54:27.600 Yeah, I would say early 20s.

00:54:28.880 Okay.

00:54:29.480 And the point of clarification, you're saying it's your first boyfriend.

00:54:32.340 Mm-hmm.

00:54:33.080 Were you a virgin?

00:54:34.700 No.

00:54:35.680 Okay.

00:54:36.080 So you've had more casual experiences.

00:54:40.440 I had a hoe phase.

00:54:41.740 You had a hoe phase.

00:54:42.840 I did.

00:54:43.520 Did you have a hoe phase after?

00:54:45.340 No.

00:54:46.700 So have you been celibate for seven years?

00:54:50.060 No, unfortunately.

00:54:52.280 And I wouldn't say celibate.

00:54:53.560 So then...

00:54:54.120 Abstinent.

00:54:54.520 When's the last time that you've...

00:54:57.840 Have you had a situationship in the past seven years?

00:55:00.860 The end of 2023 and February 2024.

00:55:04.900 So less than two and a half months.

00:55:09.660 So, okay.

00:55:10.880 December 2023.

00:55:12.580 Between those two.

00:55:13.520 So like the last week.

00:55:14.580 And then February 2024.

00:55:16.500 So you've been...

00:55:17.400 Have you been celibate for two years?

00:55:19.240 Abstinent.

00:55:20.400 Abstinent.

00:55:21.180 Yes.

00:55:21.700 Okay.

00:55:22.020 What's the difference?

00:55:23.200 Celibacy is like...

00:55:24.240 That is your...

00:55:26.920 Mission in life.

00:55:28.880 That you just want to stay single.

00:55:30.320 Like Paul.

00:55:31.220 He just remained.

00:55:32.320 Oh.

00:55:32.920 And then abstinent is your choosing.

00:55:35.340 Okay.

00:55:37.000 And then you said you had a hoe phase?

00:55:39.320 I did.

00:55:40.620 What age to what age was the hoe phase?

00:55:45.560 Early 20s to mid 20s.

00:55:47.380 Were you...

00:55:48.240 Did you go to high school?

00:55:49.040 Not high school.

00:55:50.000 I did go to high school.

00:55:51.100 Excuse me.

00:55:51.640 College.

00:55:52.340 I guess you could have a hoe phase in college.

00:55:53.480 No, not college.

00:55:54.580 It was Art Institute of Dallas for like less than a year.

00:55:58.260 Hey, you know, look.

00:55:59.000 Even your most gracious host has had a hoe phase.

00:56:04.580 Who here just showed...

00:56:05.680 Maybe going around the table.

00:56:06.960 Yes or no.

00:56:07.480 Have you had a hoe phase?

00:56:09.240 I'll answer first.

00:56:10.300 Yes.

00:56:10.640 I've had a hoe phase.

00:56:12.440 Hoe phase?

00:56:13.020 Yes.

00:56:14.060 Yeah.

00:56:14.300 Oh, before the boyfriend?

00:56:16.220 Yeah.

00:56:17.040 No.

00:56:17.300 No hoe phase?

00:56:19.580 No.

00:56:20.100 Really?

00:56:20.660 Yes, really.

00:56:21.240 Okay.

00:56:22.540 Yes.

00:56:23.200 Hoe phase?

00:56:24.040 Hoe phase?

00:56:24.800 No.

00:56:25.200 Hoe phase?

00:56:25.700 Can you please explain?

00:56:26.980 Oh.

00:56:28.620 A 3-0 foe, a strumpet, a slut, a sloot, a whore.

00:56:35.920 A slew.

00:56:37.760 No.

00:56:38.480 Having carnal knowledge with many men.

00:56:41.480 No.

00:56:41.680 Sexual intercourse with many men.

00:56:45.180 No.

00:56:45.680 A good amount of men.

00:56:47.220 P in the V.

00:56:49.740 Okay.

00:56:51.120 Hoe phase?

00:56:51.840 No.

00:56:52.580 Hoe phase?

00:56:53.540 No.

00:56:54.360 Hoe phase?

00:56:54.940 No.

00:56:55.560 No hoe phase.

00:56:56.180 I'm just curious.

00:56:58.520 You know what?

00:56:59.420 Really quick, just because I'm curious.

00:57:00.940 Mm-hmm.

00:57:01.200 When you say hoe phase, though, that can mean something pretty, nothing too crazy, you know?

00:57:09.260 Still hoe phase, but not like Bonnie Blue, fucking hundred dude, gangbang type shit.

00:57:15.120 Definitely not that.

00:57:16.040 Can you explain to the audience and to the table, what was the hoe phase?

00:57:22.140 Um, I did the dating apps, Tinder, Plenty of Fish, when that was popular.

00:57:31.820 Christian Mingle?

00:57:32.760 Ugh.

00:57:33.440 No, not Christian Mingle.

00:57:34.400 Hinge?

00:57:35.200 Farmers only?

00:57:35.900 Never did Hinge.

00:57:39.420 And, um, I'd meet the guys, and obviously we'd have a few dates, I guess, meetups or whatever.

00:57:48.960 And yes, I slept with them.

00:57:51.180 Okay.

00:57:51.440 And you said this was, like, going on for a period of, like, a couple years?

00:57:59.660 Two and a half years, possibly.

00:58:01.900 And would you go on, like, a date every week, or?

00:58:05.740 No.

00:58:06.400 It was spread out.

00:58:07.380 Spread out, okay.

00:58:08.220 Very spread out.

00:58:08.560 Well, Gigi, what was the hoe phase?

00:58:09.960 What was the hoe phase?

00:58:10.740 Well, it was not, like, sleeping with people.

00:58:12.840 Okay.

00:58:12.960 It was just, like...

00:58:14.020 Like, dating a couple guys, or?

00:58:16.000 Yeah.

00:58:17.380 Okay.

00:58:19.280 Nothing crazy.

00:58:20.080 Hoe phase?

00:58:21.080 Tell us about the hoe phase.

00:58:22.960 It was, um...

00:58:23.740 Is it ongoing, currently?

00:58:25.320 No.

00:58:25.980 No?

00:58:26.300 No?

00:58:26.620 No?

00:58:26.800 No current?

00:58:27.760 Nothing right now.

00:58:28.700 Absolutely nothing.

00:58:29.300 No ongoing hoe phase.

00:58:29.800 Okay.

00:58:30.000 Um, it was with that boyfriend that I was with, so...

00:58:34.360 Wait, you had the hoe phase?

00:58:35.760 Yeah.

00:58:36.460 So you were cheating on him, too?

00:58:38.060 No, that was only after.

00:58:39.660 Oh, after.

00:58:40.500 Okay.

00:58:40.940 After.

00:58:41.680 So then I, um...

00:58:43.120 I had sex with my coworker that I knew for a couple months.

00:58:47.740 Sure.

00:58:48.440 And then I had sex with another man that was my friend for a couple years.

00:58:54.160 Okay.

00:58:55.200 And then I did that again, and then I broke up with him.

00:58:58.220 Any women in there?

00:58:59.500 No women.

00:59:00.060 In the mix?

00:59:00.320 No.

00:59:01.180 All right.

00:59:02.020 Any other...

00:59:03.420 Okay.

00:59:03.860 All right.

00:59:05.120 Um...

00:59:05.640 Okay, so one boyfriend...

00:59:09.140 Did you say I love you to him?

00:59:11.240 Mm-hmm.

00:59:12.120 Only guy you said I love you to?

00:59:13.800 Yes.

00:59:14.420 Okay.

00:59:15.260 Uh, you've had some shorter-term flings, it sounds like.

00:59:19.120 If you call it that, yeah.

00:59:20.720 All right.

00:59:21.160 Um, hmm.

00:59:24.000 You're Christian, correct?

00:59:25.940 I really don't like to use that term anymore.

00:59:28.200 Oh, okay.

00:59:28.980 You're not Christian.

00:59:29.980 Because it's lost all meaning.

00:59:34.300 Uh...

00:59:34.780 How so?

00:59:36.740 The women that come on here and claim they're Christian, and...

00:59:40.820 Sure.

00:59:41.820 Mm-hmm.

00:59:42.660 So I'd like to say I'm God-fearing.

00:59:45.560 I go by the Bible.

00:59:48.060 I'm a disciple of Christ.

00:59:49.200 So, a Christian?

00:59:52.520 Sure.

00:59:53.100 Do you want to put it that way?

00:59:53.600 Well, I mean, just because, look, people come on the show, and they are Christian, or claim to be Christian,

00:59:58.020 but perhaps they're not walking in alignment,

01:00:02.160 I don't think that would preclude you from just whatever happens on whatever podcast isn't necessarily

01:00:09.720 a broader indictment of Christianity as a whole.

01:00:13.600 Um, but, uh, are you waiting until marriage?

01:00:17.660 Yes.

01:00:18.980 Hey, we, we gotta, we gotta have, I'm sorry, can you repeat that?

01:00:22.480 Yes, I am.

01:00:23.420 Okay, so you're waiting until marriage.

01:00:24.780 Um...

01:00:26.780 Hmm.

01:00:33.160 Uh, what, and, how long have you, you said two years that you've been celibate?

01:00:39.320 Or, uh, what is it, what was the word you used?

01:00:42.240 Uh...

01:00:42.280 Abstinent.

01:00:43.080 Abstinent.

01:00:43.740 Okay.

01:00:45.320 Uh, and you're 33, correct?

01:00:48.780 Okay.

01:00:49.080 Now, here is where things get interesting.

01:00:55.960 Um, I'm assuming you want to, you want to get married?

01:00:59.820 I do.

01:01:00.160 You want to have kids?

01:01:01.000 I do.

01:01:02.840 Okay.

01:01:03.840 Um, I assume you want to marry a Christian man?

01:01:08.960 Absolutely.

01:01:10.260 Okay.

01:01:10.680 Uh, and now, how steadfast...

01:01:15.400 Camera switch, please.

01:01:17.200 How steadfast are you?

01:01:19.080 On this waiting until marriage thing.

01:01:22.680 110%.

01:01:23.080 So you meet a great guy, Christian guy, but he's like, look, we're both, you know, we're

01:01:28.840 in our mid-30s, neither of us are virgins, we have our past, I don't want to wait.

01:01:36.220 He's not Christian.

01:01:40.900 Uh, well, you've struggled with dating, is that correct?

01:01:45.780 Yes.

01:01:45.980 The issue is, is that the type of man who's going to be willing to wait, uh, look, people

01:01:56.480 can change.

01:01:56.980 Are God-fearing men.

01:01:59.180 Well, you know, look...

01:02:00.980 Temptation happens.

01:02:02.080 I get that.

01:02:02.780 I do understand that, because I did.

01:02:04.300 I fell, I fell into temptation.

01:02:06.360 I think if you put that boundary down, and they still pressure you, then they're not

01:02:11.500 respecting you and your wishes.

01:02:13.360 Exactly.

01:02:13.420 So they still keep pushing and pushing and pushing, and you've said, no, this is where

01:02:17.080 we stop, and they keep pushing, that's probably a sign that that's not the one.

01:02:21.300 He's not for me.

01:02:23.000 Sure.

01:02:23.600 I just think the proportion of men...

01:02:25.800 So what, what's the age range of men you would date?

01:02:31.220 Late 20s to early 40s.

01:02:34.280 Okay.

01:02:35.660 So, have to be willing to wait until marriage.

01:02:38.680 Absolutely.

01:02:39.300 Have to want marriage.

01:02:40.460 Yes.

01:02:40.540 Have to be Christian, or at least share your outlook, it seems.

01:02:45.020 We have to be aligned in Christ.

01:02:46.380 And you're six feet tall?

01:02:47.540 I am.

01:02:47.880 Will you date a guy shorter than you?

01:02:49.340 5'11", at the least.

01:02:55.860 I did put six feet, but 5'11", at the least.

01:02:58.600 You did write six feet on the minimum line?

01:03:01.000 Okay, so that's only 15% of men are six feet and over, so of the remaining 15% of men of

01:03:09.020 the population, and I'm assuming it, I mean, you're six feet, they're six feet, you're probably

01:03:15.280 like, the guy who's just same, your same height, I'm assuming that's still less than ideal,

01:03:20.540 correct?

01:03:21.540 Like, that's your bare minimum, but you'd probably like 6'3", right?

01:03:25.640 6'1".

01:03:26.600 Okay, well then we're talking about like, less than 10% of the population, how many kids

01:03:32.960 do you want?

01:03:33.920 As many as God will give me, being 33.

01:03:37.580 Okay, well, I mean, I guess I'd give you some feedback here, can you turn your head that

01:03:44.280 way?

01:03:45.280 And then back this way?

01:03:47.680 Okay, you have neck tattoos.

01:03:50.460 Do you have any hand tattoos?

01:03:54.340 Okay.

01:03:56.440 And you recently, I did know that you have very short hair too.

01:04:02.000 Yes, I shaved my head last year.

01:04:03.760 Why?

01:04:04.520 It was a bucket list thing, I wanted to do it.

01:04:08.180 There wasn't a particular reason, or?

01:04:11.060 Just wanted to shave it.

01:04:12.320 Shaved your head?

01:04:12.740 Oh, this is a good topic, actually, the head shave thing.

01:04:16.080 But before we get into that, I think, well, one thing, I think you're going to have to

01:04:24.580 grow out your hair longer.

01:04:25.940 I am.

01:04:26.340 I'm trying to grow it out.

01:04:26.860 You should probably remove the tattoos.

01:04:29.120 A waiting until marriage Christian man is not, I, Frank, look, there's Christian men with

01:04:35.460 tattoos or there's Christian men without tattoos that are okay with tattoos.

01:04:39.840 But it's like, the kind of guy you're going for that's chaste is going to be okay with chastity,

01:04:46.800 okay waiting until marriage, also considering, notwithstanding your past indiscretions, the

01:04:53.520 short hair, the tattoos, you read like liberal visually.

01:05:00.720 I do, I know.

01:05:01.360 Like you read, so, I mean, the pool of, look, hey, the pool of men that you're choosing

01:05:11.840 from and that are going to choose you, it's the Venn diagram.

01:05:15.060 The Venn diagram of Christian men waiting until marriage and then you, which is 33-year-old

01:05:24.880 with extensive sexual history and neck and blasted, not super blasted, tattoos, like

01:05:33.060 physically basically look like a liberal and short hair.

01:05:39.380 That Venn diagram is like, there's very little overlap or perhaps none at all.

01:05:48.760 It'll be a miracle.

01:05:50.860 Are you willing to become a nun?

01:05:53.400 No.

01:05:55.640 Not a nun, but if God calls me to single-ness.

01:05:57.960 Can I ask you a question though, like, just a hypothetical.

01:06:01.060 Okay.

01:06:01.440 Let's say, you've struggled so far to find a guy.

01:06:07.620 Mm-hmm.

01:06:07.920 Let's say 10 years goes by and then you just, you've been, you've been, uh, why do I keep

01:06:15.520 blanking on the word?

01:06:18.540 Abstinent.

01:06:19.200 Abstinent.

01:06:19.720 Oh my God.

01:06:20.500 I always go to celibacy.

01:06:22.160 You've been abstinent.

01:06:23.560 There's fucking cobwebs down there and shit.

01:06:27.220 Do you relent a little bit?

01:06:28.740 You're like, fuck, I'm 43.

01:06:31.440 I guess I'll just spring break, Cancun, just like get some dick.

01:06:35.000 No.

01:06:35.240 You know?

01:06:35.600 No?

01:06:35.760 Mm-hmm.

01:06:36.580 So, okay, you'll die.

01:06:38.880 You're willing to die?

01:06:40.720 Without a husband?

01:06:42.780 Like, never having sex again?

01:06:44.300 Yeah.

01:06:45.500 Okay.

01:06:46.000 She has a constitution there.

01:06:49.480 She's steadfast.

01:06:52.460 Okay.

01:06:54.000 Question for you.

01:06:55.060 Do you have a celebrity crush?

01:06:57.340 Mm-hmm.

01:06:57.700 Who?

01:07:01.260 Off the top of my head right now, Gabriel Basso.

01:07:07.200 Who the fuck is that guy?

01:07:09.100 Who the fuck is who?

01:07:10.280 From Night Agent.

01:07:11.920 I don't need, that doesn't help.

01:07:13.460 Yeah.

01:07:13.960 Yeah.

01:07:14.140 I just.

01:07:15.920 Okay.

01:07:16.580 He played JD.

01:07:17.080 No idea.

01:07:18.080 Yes.

01:07:18.820 Mm-hmm.

01:07:20.000 Hillbilly Elegy or something like that, yeah.

01:07:22.220 I have no idea who that is.

01:07:23.420 But is he an attractive guy or?

01:07:25.440 You can Google him.

01:07:27.160 Nathan, do you want to Google?

01:07:29.060 Do you have it?

01:07:31.680 What was the name?

01:07:33.180 Gabriel Basso.

01:07:34.200 So?

01:07:34.280 Do you break your rule?

01:07:40.700 No.

01:07:41.340 Huh?

01:07:42.000 What?

01:07:42.700 No.

01:07:43.400 You don't break the rule?

01:07:44.260 I don't break the rule.

01:07:45.020 Okay.

01:07:45.360 All right.

01:07:45.700 Well, I guess you're consistent.

01:07:48.580 You have it?

01:07:49.540 No.

01:07:50.600 Okay.

01:07:51.080 Fuck.

01:07:51.300 It doesn't matter.

01:07:51.920 Whatever.

01:07:58.300 I don't know.

01:07:59.740 I don't know.

01:08:01.160 Do you have an income requirement, too?

01:08:04.280 What's that?

01:08:05.880 Income, $65,000, $75,000.

01:08:09.060 That's not too bad.

01:08:10.540 Okay.

01:08:11.480 All right.

01:08:12.620 I don't mean to pick on you, but.

01:08:14.240 That's fine.

01:08:17.220 I guess I'm just being realistic, pragmatic.

01:08:20.440 I understand.

01:08:21.920 That.

01:08:22.660 I had to be realistic with myself, too.

01:08:24.700 The Venn diagram, it's like.

01:08:29.340 We can want.

01:08:31.860 We can all want.

01:08:34.480 This.

01:08:35.000 This ideal.

01:08:35.680 This perfect thing.

01:08:36.960 Like, it'd be great if I just had, like, a constant stream of, like, 20-year-old virgin supermodels.

01:08:42.520 Who were, like, super based and submissive and, like, agreed with me on everything.

01:08:46.240 That'd be wonderful.

01:08:47.400 But I also have to be pragmatic.

01:08:48.960 Like, I'm a little chubby.

01:08:49.840 I'm older.

01:08:51.000 Poor skin clarity.

01:08:52.220 Big nose.

01:08:56.520 Like, controversial podcasts.

01:08:57.980 Like, I'm probably not going to be just running through, like, 20-year-old supermodels.

01:09:02.760 You know, I got to be realistic, you know.

01:09:06.960 I do understand that looks matter, but character matters most.

01:09:11.340 Yeah.

01:09:11.980 But, I mean, I would say, I mean, if I were to actually give advice, I mean, you got to make yourself probably more appealing to that demographic.

01:09:19.900 I think you got to maybe lose the.

01:09:21.200 When did you get the neck tattoo?

01:09:23.620 These are old.

01:09:24.860 They're old?

01:09:25.560 Yeah.

01:09:25.740 Okay.

01:09:28.760 It's my ministry.

01:09:30.020 Okay.

01:09:31.700 You wanted to come in on something?

01:09:33.680 Yeah.

01:09:35.320 Because you're demanding that your future husband has all of these qualifications.

01:09:40.640 So, what are you preparing to give up or give to him in that relationship so he wants to marry you?

01:09:46.340 Because you have all of these qualifications that you want in him.

01:09:49.300 A submissive wife.

01:09:51.760 What they call Ephesians, Titus, Proverbs as a biblical wife.

01:09:56.980 Okay.

01:09:57.740 You're 33.

01:09:59.840 I'm sure that there's, and I mean this in the most respectful way, I'm sure that there are younger women and more fertile women that can offer the same.

01:10:09.500 So, you would have to either lower your standards or change something about yourself in order for that man to want to desire you or want you as a wife.

01:10:23.680 I understand that, and I think a lot of Christianity today is very weak, and it's not, it's so Americanized right now.

01:10:35.260 And so, maybe they're not, like, they're just Christian by name, and a man wants a God-fearing woman.

01:10:41.340 I mean, I'm that.

01:10:43.680 But a Christian man, the one that you talk about, wants a woman with a low body count, young, who's going to support him in anything he does.

01:10:54.740 What's the definition of a low body count?

01:10:55.900 How many?

01:10:56.220 I mean, preferably Christian men want virgin women.

01:11:00.980 Obviously, in 2026, it's probably not the norm, but I would say less than five.

01:11:10.840 We all know that, you know, men don't normally desire women with high body counts.

01:11:16.340 It's not.

01:11:17.060 So, like I said, you would have to sacrifice something at that point, and that would probably be maybe giving it up before marriage.

01:11:23.620 I mean, I respect that, like, you've, you know, accepted that you may die alone, and that's fine.

01:11:32.620 But, yeah, I think the, like, the man that you're looking for is probably slim to none without sacrificing something yourself.

01:11:45.460 I mean, I think it's, by the way, I think it's totally fine for you to have this standard where you want to wait until marriage.

01:11:50.940 I'm just trying to be pragmatic and realistic about the probability, you know, how many men in their, you know, mid-30s are still inclined to wait to have sex, wait until marriage.

01:12:06.840 Of course, there's Christian men at all ages, but it's going to be difficult.

01:12:15.420 And it might, because, for example, I think they're, you're an attractive woman, you're an attractive woman, but I think that there are men who, for example, would date you, but they are, they're like, look, I'm not a virgin.

01:12:34.800 I'm not waiting for marriage.

01:12:39.400 They would otherwise be great boyfriends or great husbands, but I think a lot of guys today, and again, your standard's perfectly fine, but a lot of guys today are just, they don't want to wait, and they'll find somebody else.

01:12:56.380 And so, like, so a guy could otherwise be a good partner to you, a good boyfriend, good husband, but that could be a sticking point for them in the same way it's a sticking point for you.

01:13:11.320 Again, not trying to get you to change your, your preference or whatever, but it is a consideration.

01:13:20.380 Okay.

01:13:20.820 It may be destiny.

01:13:25.000 I believe in destiny.

01:13:25.880 What the fuck is that?

01:13:26.420 Destiny?

01:13:27.500 Yeah, I mean.

01:13:28.060 Fuck that.

01:13:28.360 I believe in free will.

01:13:29.580 Fuck it.

01:13:30.220 Destiny out of here.

01:13:31.820 I wouldn't throw all my chips in destiny, that's for sure.

01:13:35.220 Destiny?

01:13:36.460 Hell no.

01:13:37.280 I'm carving a fucking path my own way, regardless of what the world throws at me.

01:13:42.580 Fuck that shit.

01:13:43.800 Destiny can get fucked.

01:13:45.500 Are we talking about the streamer?

01:13:47.000 No, just kidding.

01:13:48.660 We're talking about destiny.

01:13:50.140 I don't know, right?

01:13:50.660 Free will?

01:13:51.480 I don't know.

01:13:53.520 Anyways.

01:13:54.140 God's will.

01:13:54.680 Is destiny, is that a Christian?

01:13:57.640 Do Christians believe in destiny?

01:13:59.420 No.

01:13:59.820 I'm a Hindu and I do believe in like astrology and destiny a lot.

01:14:04.060 Oh, well.

01:14:04.700 Karmas.

01:14:05.580 So you were destined to get cheated on all this time?

01:14:10.180 Because of my, some karmas in my last life or something, I have done something wrong.

01:14:15.900 You know what?

01:14:16.520 We once had a girl on the show who she, she said in the past life, she dated Hitler.

01:14:24.000 I remember that.

01:14:25.900 And Abraham Lincoln.

01:14:28.100 Oh yeah.

01:14:29.080 Or no, no, sorry.

01:14:29.900 She dated a guy.

01:14:30.960 I think she did date Hitler in a past life, but she dated a guy who in his past life was

01:14:37.780 a Roman emperor and was Abraham Lincoln.

01:14:43.940 Oh.

01:14:44.620 Yeah.

01:14:45.280 Are you sure she wasn't in psychosis?

01:14:48.980 She had something going on.

01:14:50.600 She had something to get out.

01:14:51.720 Oh, I wanted that.

01:14:54.640 Okay.

01:14:54.840 So you shaved your head.

01:14:56.180 I do.

01:14:56.380 Question for you.

01:14:56.900 Let's say you had, at the time, you were in a relationship, you were in a relationship,

01:15:01.300 hypothetically.

01:15:03.820 And you tell your boyfriend your plan.

01:15:05.760 You don't do it yet.

01:15:07.560 Your boyfriend, or it could even be your husband, whichever you prefer for this hypothetical,

01:15:14.020 tells you no.

01:15:15.480 Do you shave your head anyways?

01:15:16.860 No.

01:15:18.160 Okay.

01:15:18.600 All right.

01:15:18.800 She's consistent.

01:15:19.500 Going around the table, for all the women, you want to shave your head.

01:15:23.660 Now, I know most of you probably wouldn't want to do that in actuality, but let's say

01:15:27.920 you want to shave your head.

01:15:30.440 Your boyfriend's like, what about a bob?

01:15:34.540 No.

01:15:34.860 Your boyfriend's like, hey, please don't.

01:15:38.940 Don't shave your head.

01:15:40.620 Do you shave your head?

01:15:41.800 No.

01:15:42.620 No.

01:15:43.180 Yes.

01:15:43.940 Yes?

01:15:44.460 Okay.

01:15:44.940 Rebellious?

01:15:46.260 No.

01:15:46.900 No.

01:15:47.940 No.

01:15:48.340 No.

01:15:48.900 Okay.

01:15:50.200 All right.

01:15:51.900 To be fair, I have plans on shaving my head soon.

01:15:56.120 How soon?

01:15:57.340 I don't know.

01:15:59.180 I'm hitting a milestone on TikTok, woo, so I just wanted to donate my hair.

01:16:03.980 Wait, wait, wait.

01:16:05.000 What's the milestone?

01:16:06.620 There's, like, leagues in this TikTok.

01:16:09.920 Like, follower count?

01:16:11.440 No.

01:16:11.960 Like, it's like you make a lot of diamonds in the day and you, like, move up in leagues.

01:16:18.720 So you start at D5 and then you make your way all the way to A1.

01:16:22.680 Wow.

01:16:23.300 I know.

01:16:23.880 It's wow.

01:16:24.520 But I want to donate my hair.

01:16:25.680 Well, you know what?

01:16:26.820 You're going to donate your hair?

01:16:27.520 I'm donating it.

01:16:28.520 And then I'm shaving it.

01:16:28.720 I have clippers.

01:16:29.760 Can we just do it right now?

01:16:31.640 Shave your head on the whatever podcast?

01:16:33.140 Yes.

01:16:33.320 Let's do it.

01:16:34.680 Come on.

01:16:35.100 You down?

01:16:36.340 Okay, but we have to cut the hair so I can at least still donate it because that's the

01:16:41.020 goal.

01:16:41.400 I wanted to donate it.

01:16:42.640 Well, we can just shave, scalp you.

01:16:45.120 But I want my hair, you know.

01:16:47.000 Put your hair in a ponytail.

01:16:48.240 Oh, we have scissors.

01:16:49.160 Yeah, no.

01:16:49.480 Cut that and then you can do that.

01:16:51.020 Fuck it.

01:16:51.760 Sorry.

01:16:52.900 Yeah, you're down.

01:16:53.440 You do hair?

01:16:53.880 I'm down.

01:16:54.400 You're actually down.

01:16:54.860 I'm down.

01:16:56.380 Let's do it.

01:16:57.980 She does hair.

01:16:58.780 We'll do it.

01:16:59.260 You know what, though?

01:17:00.540 It's a healthy reset.

01:17:01.820 Wait, wait, wait.

01:17:02.380 Chat, chat, chat.

01:17:03.200 I promise.

01:17:03.820 At the end.

01:17:05.220 Yeah, at the end.

01:17:06.100 Okay, you're for sure down.

01:17:08.520 I'll shake on it.

01:17:09.340 That'll be pretty dope.

01:17:12.720 I'll shake on that.

01:17:14.220 You'll shake on it?

01:17:14.880 She does hair so she'll know how to cut it right.

01:17:17.160 I can't reach, but I'm going to give somebody my proxy.

01:17:20.820 Gigi, you're my proxy.

01:17:22.180 Shake on my behalf.

01:17:24.500 Okay.

01:17:25.960 That was my proxy.

01:17:27.320 Yeah, we're doing it.

01:17:28.760 Legally binding.

01:17:29.500 Okay.

01:17:30.080 Wow.

01:17:31.680 Okay, so we'll do it a little later.

01:17:33.200 But I think I need a champagne pop for that.

01:17:38.140 I need you guys to pop a bottle of champagne.

01:17:41.080 Pop a bottle of champagne.

01:17:42.520 I don't think I should do it, though, because I think optically that would be really...

01:17:46.660 I feel like that would look bad on me.

01:17:48.800 Why?

01:17:49.120 If I'm the one scalping you.

01:17:51.180 What if you were requesting it?

01:17:51.940 No, I'd want you to do it.

01:17:53.860 She's going to school for hair.

01:17:55.220 And you can do it, like zigzag, do whatever you want.

01:17:57.960 I'll give you a mohawk or something.

01:17:59.160 Yeah, let's do it.

01:18:00.760 Let's do it.

01:18:01.480 All right.

01:18:02.480 Wait, TOS?

01:18:03.600 Somebody in the chat says TOS.

01:18:04.880 I don't know.

01:18:07.440 Because you probably said scalp.

01:18:09.120 I don't know.

01:18:09.820 No, I'm not going to fucking...

01:18:10.880 I don't know.

01:18:11.620 I don't mean it like that.

01:18:14.100 Okay.

01:18:14.900 Here we have...

01:18:16.980 Anybody else down to get in on this?

01:18:20.200 Anybody want...

01:18:20.880 I don't think anyone is down.

01:18:23.220 Oh, here's a good question.

01:18:24.620 Okay.

01:18:25.040 On shaving your head.

01:18:28.820 When you...

01:18:29.620 Going around the table.

01:18:32.940 Would you shave your head for a million dollars?

01:18:38.800 Yes.

01:18:40.120 No.

01:18:41.620 Obviously, yes.

01:18:42.400 Well, you'd do it for a hamburger.

01:18:43.580 Shave it again for a million dollars?

01:18:45.960 Sure.

01:18:48.080 Yeah.

01:18:49.600 Yes.

01:18:50.180 No.

01:18:50.880 No.

01:18:52.820 Yes.

01:18:53.880 Yeah.

01:18:54.460 Wait, is it tax-free?

01:18:56.000 Tax-free.

01:18:56.680 It has to be.

01:18:58.580 Cash.

01:18:59.140 Cash.

01:19:00.080 Please.

01:19:00.920 And, Nadi, do we do like a...

01:19:02.820 You can't wear a wig?

01:19:05.060 Like, you just have to rock it.

01:19:05.620 I already ordered my wigs.

01:19:07.700 What's the...

01:19:08.660 You won't wear it.

01:19:09.360 For those of you who said no, like...

01:19:10.820 No, sorry.

01:19:11.480 For those of you who said yes,

01:19:13.420 what's the lowest for a head shave?

01:19:18.580 100K?

01:19:18.980 Yeah.

01:19:22.740 You do it for 100K?

01:19:23.920 All right.

01:19:24.300 Trooper.

01:19:24.780 Trooper.

01:19:26.340 Did you...

01:19:26.860 No.

01:19:27.060 I said no.

01:19:27.680 What's the most, then?

01:19:28.680 If you said no, how much would it cost to shave your head?

01:19:32.640 Two.

01:19:33.340 Two mil.

01:19:33.800 Two mil?

01:19:34.320 Okay.

01:19:35.300 You said yes?

01:19:36.480 Yes.

01:19:36.780 Lowest amount?

01:19:37.320 200,000.

01:19:41.100 200K?

01:19:41.700 All right.

01:19:42.760 I don't know.

01:19:43.300 Probably enough to pay off my house, so...

01:19:45.460 Okay.

01:19:45.860 300.

01:19:46.460 300?

01:19:47.160 You said 300?

01:19:48.000 A million is the lowest?

01:19:50.260 Yeah.

01:19:50.560 Okay.

01:19:50.900 I don't have a number.

01:19:51.880 I wouldn't do it.

01:19:52.500 You wouldn't do it?

01:19:53.140 No.

01:19:53.420 I'm good with what I have.

01:19:55.680 10 million?

01:19:56.740 No.

01:19:57.400 100 million?

01:19:58.280 No.

01:19:58.740 1 billion?

01:19:59.620 Nope.

01:20:00.160 100 billion?

01:20:01.100 No.

01:20:01.420 1 trillion?

01:20:02.140 No.

01:20:02.740 Damn.

01:20:03.160 Wait, are you...

01:20:03.820 Think about it.

01:20:04.640 Hold on, bro.

01:20:06.200 That's crazy.

01:20:07.200 That is crazy.

01:20:08.740 What if we let you wear a wig?

01:20:11.060 Those are so hot and uncomfortable and shifty.

01:20:13.900 No.

01:20:14.720 It's not that.

01:20:15.700 It's just I have the money I have that I live a happy enough life.

01:20:19.060 Like, money isn't a massive decider for me, even if it's a ridiculous amount.

01:20:23.120 But, I mean, if you have $100 billion, you can give to the charitable organizations of your choice.

01:20:33.040 You can...

01:20:33.760 You'd never have to work again.

01:20:35.160 You're generations upon generations, completely set financially.

01:20:39.980 Hire a maid.

01:20:41.140 Hire multiple...

01:20:41.960 You have an entire staff.

01:20:43.560 You can buy yachts.

01:20:44.980 Huh?

01:20:45.260 I love cleaning.

01:20:46.240 I don't want a maid.

01:20:47.520 Okay.

01:20:47.820 Then still clean, but you can still pop in every dad.

01:20:51.480 That's crazy.

01:20:52.280 You wouldn't do it for...

01:20:53.200 That's crazy.

01:20:54.080 Come on.

01:20:54.840 Do you have kids?

01:20:55.700 No.

01:20:56.380 Do you want kids?

01:20:57.640 Yes.

01:20:58.000 If I had children, that would be different.

01:20:59.660 Then I would do it if I had kids to consider.

01:21:01.980 If I had kids, then you take the money.

01:21:03.180 Okay.

01:21:03.420 Yeah.

01:21:04.640 Your answer?

01:21:06.600 Probably $100,000.

01:21:08.200 $100,000 minimum?

01:21:09.440 Yo, anybody...

01:21:11.200 Okay.

01:21:13.480 Anybody...

01:21:14.120 Any fucking whales?

01:21:15.920 Any...

01:21:16.560 What about you?

01:21:18.180 I'd probably do it for lower, like $80,000.

01:21:21.220 Okay.

01:21:21.740 All right.

01:21:23.180 Interesting.

01:21:24.000 It's always interesting to me, the women who would not do it whatsoever.

01:21:26.700 I'm like, look, I get somebody, somebody offers you 10K.

01:21:30.540 Okay.

01:21:30.900 That's bull.

01:21:31.720 A lot of women, I think, would take that, but whatever.

01:21:36.320 $100 million?

01:21:38.040 That's like generational wealth, never have to work again money.

01:21:41.920 And then you ask them, like you could ask a girl that she would never do it.

01:21:46.840 How much do you make?

01:21:48.100 $40,000.

01:21:48.900 I'm a waitress.

01:21:50.040 It would take you millennia to make that much money, and you won't...

01:21:59.640 Your hair will grow back in like a year.

01:22:04.340 Anyways, whatever.

01:22:06.320 Okay.

01:22:06.820 We have some chats coming through.

01:22:08.220 Oh, I need to finish the...

01:22:10.320 Here, I'll read this.

01:22:11.420 Actually, you know what?

01:22:12.100 Gigi, you're our official reader.

01:22:13.500 Can I have you read the chat?

01:22:16.260 Girl in red dress is very hot.

01:22:18.680 I would date her.

01:22:19.320 Can you also ask their opinion on how Trump is doing?

01:22:23.120 Love you, Brian.

01:22:24.480 Who's the girl in the red dress?

01:22:26.360 Am I pink?

01:22:27.320 Do you think it's you?

01:22:28.360 It's not a dress.

01:22:29.640 Well.

01:22:30.840 Shirt.

01:22:32.260 That's a shirt.

01:22:33.900 But that's pink.

01:22:34.760 Yeah.

01:22:35.160 And that's a dress.

01:22:36.000 But that's a dress.

01:22:36.620 Yeah.

01:22:36.960 So I'm assuming.

01:22:38.480 Yeah.

01:22:39.120 Because I said something about Trump, I guess.

01:22:41.920 I guess going around the table really quick, just so you can give me one sentence answer,

01:22:46.920 just because they asked for it.

01:22:50.000 Opinion on how Trump is doing.

01:22:53.240 How about this?

01:22:54.100 Just approve or disapprove?

01:22:56.740 Approve.

01:22:57.820 No.

01:22:59.200 No?

01:22:59.740 So disapprove?

01:23:00.600 Disapprove.

01:23:01.160 Approve.

01:23:01.700 Approve?

01:23:05.240 Disapprove.

01:23:06.780 Approve.

01:23:08.120 Approve.

01:23:08.940 Approve.

01:23:09.440 I want to say approve, but because there's some things that I don't agree with what he's

01:23:19.000 doing with love.

01:23:19.780 Overall?

01:23:22.120 Approve.

01:23:22.720 Okay.

01:23:23.660 Approve.

01:23:24.100 All right.

01:23:25.180 Emma, E-Money, thank you very much for your chat there.

01:23:27.840 Appreciate it.

01:23:28.420 Okay.

01:23:29.480 I do want to finish up on the relationship status.

01:23:31.660 We've lingered a bit.

01:23:32.860 That's my fault.

01:23:33.580 What about you?

01:23:34.060 I'm married.

01:23:35.280 For how long?

01:23:36.260 20 years.

01:23:37.800 Assuming that's your longest relationship.

01:23:40.120 Kids?

01:23:40.960 Yeah.

01:23:41.340 How many kids?

01:23:42.320 We have two together, and he had a son from his previous marriage.

01:23:46.160 Okay.

01:23:46.500 So you have a stepkid from him.

01:23:48.500 Okay.

01:23:48.640 Gotcha.

01:23:50.180 What about you?

01:23:52.100 I'm single.

01:23:54.000 Longest relationship, six years, my second marriage, and the last relationship, more than

01:24:01.100 a year now.

01:24:02.300 And you've been married two times?

01:24:04.000 Yes.

01:24:04.880 And have you been married before?

01:24:06.480 Okay.

01:24:08.360 Married two times, first marriage, did he have to pay you alimony?

01:24:14.960 Or was that in India?

01:24:17.000 Yeah.

01:24:17.440 So we had a daughter together.

01:24:20.440 Oh, you have a kid?

01:24:21.400 Yeah.

01:24:21.860 Okay.

01:24:22.200 How old's your kid?

01:24:23.720 She's in college.

01:24:25.500 Okay.

01:24:26.540 Shit, we should have done the mother-daughter episode or something.

01:24:31.080 Okay.

01:24:32.040 She's in the USA?

01:24:33.200 Yes.

01:24:33.800 Okay.

01:24:37.260 So you had a kid with your first husband, and you have just one kid?

01:24:41.680 Yes.

01:24:42.960 Okay.

01:24:43.600 At what point did you divorce?

01:24:46.060 When I was pregnant.

01:24:47.760 Oh, while you were pregnant, you initiated the divorce?

01:24:52.460 Actually, divorce was not an option in my community that time, but I never returned back

01:24:57.500 to his house because he wanted a baby boy, and I delivered a baby girl.

01:25:03.660 This is in India, correct?

01:25:05.060 Yes.

01:25:05.920 Okay.

01:25:06.340 Yeah.

01:25:06.460 I think I recall in your notes, they wanted you to get an abortion.

01:25:10.180 Yes.

01:25:10.460 Is that correct?

01:25:11.100 Yes.

01:25:11.340 Because it was a girl, obviously wrong.

01:25:15.940 So you escaped that situation, is that correct?

01:25:21.200 Yes.

01:25:21.960 Okay.

01:25:22.560 All right.

01:25:22.920 My grandmother took me to their house.

01:25:26.300 So, yeah.

01:25:26.840 I'm not going to dive into the Indian laws relating to marriage, divorce, whatever, but

01:25:32.420 you did have a marriage in the United States, correct?

01:25:35.580 Yes.

01:25:36.300 Okay.

01:25:36.560 How long were you with him?

01:25:39.840 My second marriage lasts like six years.

01:25:43.500 Second marriage, six years.

01:25:45.500 Both were arranged marriages.

01:25:48.100 Okay.

01:25:48.740 But it was here in the USA?

01:25:50.380 He was a U.S. citizen, yeah.

01:25:52.320 But the marriage took place in the United States?

01:25:55.120 No.

01:25:55.580 He came to India, we got married, and then he applied for the green card.

01:26:00.400 For you?

01:26:01.300 Yeah.

01:26:01.860 Because he was a U.S. citizen.

01:26:03.180 But you, so you, you got married in India?

01:26:07.160 Yes.

01:26:08.560 Did the United States courts oversee your divorce?

01:26:13.480 I'll take that.

01:26:14.260 Yes.

01:26:14.740 Yes.

01:26:15.600 Okay.

01:26:15.920 Did he have to pay you alimony?

01:26:18.220 He offered, but I said no.

01:26:20.260 Oh, okay.

01:26:20.880 Like, the lawyer offered me, but I said no.

01:26:22.640 Can you open the door, please?

01:26:24.200 Go ahead.

01:26:25.940 I've been, I'm single.

01:26:27.180 I've been single for about four years.

01:26:29.040 My longest relationship, we were sort of together for almost 20 years, and we were officially

01:26:35.600 together for eight years.

01:26:37.920 Any kids?

01:26:38.920 No.

01:26:39.480 And sorry, did you say you were married or not married?

01:26:42.280 No, we did not get married.

01:26:43.320 Okay, got it.

01:26:44.340 What about you?

01:26:46.520 I am dating someone right now, and then my longest relationship was in high school.

01:26:52.520 It was about a year.

01:26:53.880 How long have you been with your current guy?

01:26:57.000 The current one is a couple of months.

01:27:00.260 Okay.

01:27:00.900 What about you?

01:27:02.320 I'm married.

01:27:03.240 My longest relationship is seven years.

01:27:05.320 Is that your marriage?

01:27:06.460 No.

01:27:07.020 I've been with my husband for five years.

01:27:09.300 We just got married in August of last year.

01:27:12.200 All right.

01:27:12.580 Any kids?

01:27:14.200 I have three, so they are not with my husband that I am currently with.

01:27:21.680 And how long have you been married to your current husband?

01:27:25.360 Since August, last year.

01:27:27.880 Okay.

01:27:28.400 But you've been together five years?

01:27:29.960 Yeah, five years.

01:27:30.880 Okay.

01:27:31.240 And then you said three kids.

01:27:32.940 Are they separate fathers, or?

01:27:37.040 Yes.

01:27:37.600 So my first two boys are from my first marriage.

01:27:41.620 First marriage.

01:27:42.460 Okay.

01:27:42.720 Yeah.

01:27:43.800 You've had two marriages?

01:27:45.100 Is that correct?

01:27:45.660 This is my second one, yes.

01:27:46.700 This is your second?

01:27:47.340 Okay.

01:27:47.480 So two boys from your first marriage, and then one from a relationship?

01:27:52.700 Yeah, one from a relationship.

01:27:53.980 So I was with him for seven years, about five years into the relationship.

01:27:59.400 We decided to have our daughter, and yeah.

01:28:03.760 Okay.

01:28:04.640 And are you planning to have kids with your current husband, or no?

01:28:10.960 No, I'm infertile.

01:28:11.800 Oh, okay.

01:28:14.960 And does he have kids from any prior relationships?

01:28:18.400 No.

01:28:19.220 Okay.

01:28:20.280 All right.

01:28:21.020 Got it.

01:28:22.500 Your first marriage, how long were you married to the guy?

01:28:27.840 So I was married to him for about a year and a half.

01:28:32.780 And you were with him for longer, though?

01:28:34.480 Yeah, I was with him.

01:28:35.220 And you had two kids?

01:28:37.120 Yes.

01:28:37.720 Okay.

01:28:38.180 Who initiated the divorce?

01:28:39.780 I did.

01:28:40.700 Okay.

01:28:41.660 Did he pay you alimony?

01:28:44.580 No.

01:28:45.480 Okay.

01:28:45.820 Did he pay you child support?

01:28:46.880 No.

01:28:47.280 Did you pay him child support?

01:28:48.540 No.

01:28:48.960 Shared custody or full custody?

01:28:50.320 We had shared custody up until I moved to Ontario.

01:28:55.560 So, yeah.

01:28:57.240 Okay.

01:28:58.220 And then your third child, child support from the ex?

01:29:02.900 No, I pay child support.

01:29:04.100 You pay child support to him?

01:29:06.120 Shared custody?

01:29:07.720 No.

01:29:08.080 Unfortunately, because I live in a different province than my daughter, I have access rates.

01:29:13.520 But I see my daughter all the time.

01:29:15.180 Me and my father's daughter.

01:29:17.260 Sorry.

01:29:17.580 My daughter's father get along really well.

01:29:19.920 I see her.

01:29:21.020 I travel a lot to the East Coast.

01:29:22.840 And my job is mostly in Quebec.

01:29:24.900 So when I go there, I see my daughter anytime.

01:29:27.360 He keeps her up for me.

01:29:28.480 He does.

01:29:28.760 He's great.

01:29:30.800 There was no, it was never, it wasn't because I was into anything nefarious or I was a bad

01:29:37.260 person.

01:29:38.400 It just, the circumstances were just not there.

01:29:42.060 We, it was pretty toxic at the end.

01:29:46.360 But given that when I moved to Ontario, I didn't have a setup.

01:29:52.680 So he obviously got custody, but I settled in court.

01:29:55.720 Sure.

01:29:55.820 So he has the primary custody.

01:29:58.620 Yeah, he does.

01:29:59.160 Okay.

01:29:59.520 Got it.

01:30:00.140 All right.

01:30:00.420 That's everyone's relationship status.

01:30:01.820 We're going to jump into some topics now, but first I have to do my very delayed introduction.

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01:30:58.880 Now, if you missed it, if you're just tuning in, guys, we're going to bundle.

01:31:02.120 We're going to do a little bundle.

01:31:03.420 So with the champagne, you know what?

01:31:05.560 Should we make it?

01:31:06.840 What's the Ethereum price right now?

01:31:09.480 ETH price.

01:31:11.000 Because we have Cristal.

01:31:12.500 Actually, you know what?

01:31:13.580 But Ethereum dropped below $2,000.

01:31:16.480 So for a little bit more, if you send an Ethereum, we'll pop a very fancy ball of champagne.

01:31:21.940 We'll pop Cristal.

01:31:24.540 Anybody here had Cristal before?

01:31:27.140 It's very nice.

01:31:27.840 Very nice.

01:31:28.940 Otherwise, we get the fucking Trader Joe's champagne.

01:31:35.240 It's still good.

01:31:36.340 It's still champagne.

01:31:37.000 So for a champagne pop, whether it's the...

01:31:40.160 Should I make it just for the Ethereum?

01:31:41.500 We'll do whichever, because I already offered it.

01:31:44.140 For either the Cristal pop, which is one Ethereum, or the regular champagne pop, she's going to shave her head.

01:31:55.200 We're going to scalp her on stream.

01:31:59.880 Shave her head.

01:32:01.060 Her hair is going to be shaved off.

01:32:02.540 And then she's going to donate it to...

01:32:04.860 Hair we share.

01:32:07.780 Yes, because I dye my hair.

01:32:08.980 So guys, this is going to be a potential first for the whatever podcast.

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01:32:38.680 Also, we have channel memberships.

01:32:41.980 If you can start pulling those up, I'll give people shout-outs.

01:32:45.860 It's just $5 a month.

01:32:47.700 Devin, thank you for the membership.

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01:32:53.180 Oh, my God, Natalia, I missed that.

01:32:55.200 Rachel will pull that up in just a second.

01:32:56.760 Yo, Rachel, good to see you.

01:32:57.980 W's in the chat, Rachel.

01:32:59.160 Yo, Rachel, we're going to get you soon.

01:33:01.180 Oh, no!

01:33:01.900 I dropped my phone.

01:33:03.160 Rachel, we're going to get you on the show soon.

01:33:04.700 W's in the chat for Rachel.

01:33:05.820 Court, Jen, thank you for the membership.

01:33:07.600 And Natalia with the big gifted 50 memberships.

01:33:12.260 Guys, W's in the chat for Natalia.

01:33:13.580 I don't know why the ding didn't happen.

01:33:15.260 I apologize, Natalia, but I'll do a little manual ding for you.

01:33:20.420 Boom.

01:33:21.060 Thank you, Natalia.

01:33:21.700 You're a fucking legend.

01:33:23.580 And I hope you're safe, by the way, because I think you're – I'm not going to, like,

01:33:29.840 say where, but you're not in the United States.

01:33:31.440 You're in somewhere else, which may or may not be near conflict zones.

01:33:38.720 Anyways, W, Natalia.

01:33:40.840 Prayers for Natalia in the chat.

01:33:42.440 No fucking drones are coming from Natalia.

01:33:45.620 Protection prayers for, I don't know, Natalia.

01:33:49.540 Let's see here.

01:33:50.560 What was the next – sorry, I lost track.

01:33:53.200 Oh, Twitch.

01:33:53.800 We're live on Twitch.

01:33:54.800 If you can pull – just checked out.

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01:33:57.140 Pull up the Twitch thing on StreamYard and the overlay.

01:34:00.880 Guys, we're also live on Twitch right now.

01:34:03.160 Yep, pull it up right there.

01:34:04.460 Guys, I'm holding the stream hostage.

01:34:07.080 I need to see three Prime subs.

01:34:08.960 It's been 16 minutes – it's been one minute since we had the Prime sub.

01:34:12.960 I need to see three Prime subs.

01:34:14.660 I'm holding this shit hostage.

01:34:16.180 Drop us a follow.

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01:34:35.580 Every single month, you get a Twitch Prime sub, and you can support the show.

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01:34:56.020 Guys, I run the least amount of ads on Twitch.

01:34:59.900 I run three minutes per hour.

01:35:02.520 That's the minimum you can have so you guys don't get blasted with those annoying pre-rolls on Twitch.

01:35:07.660 I hate joining a stream and they just hit you with a pre-roll immediately.

01:35:12.000 I disable pre-rolls because I want the viewing experience to be good over there on Twitch.

01:35:17.320 So if you guys can show us some support because we make fucking dog shit ad revenue on Twitch

01:35:21.820 because it's very minimal.

01:35:23.700 Drops the Prime sub, Happy, thank you for the Prime.

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01:35:26.960 Okay, what else do we have?

01:35:29.560 And by the way, guys, I'm not like playing World of Warcraft.

01:35:32.380 This is an involved production.

01:35:34.460 I have staff, I have team, crazy setup here.

01:35:38.920 It's very involved.

01:35:40.380 It's very time-intensive, money-intensive, effort-intensive to do a production like this.

01:35:46.020 I'm not just sitting in front of a computer playing fucking Ark Raiders, Fortnite, World of Warcraft.

01:35:54.100 You know, that's – so, you know, we need your support on Twitch.

01:35:58.100 You know what I'm saying?

01:35:59.180 Don't give it to fucking Lacey.

01:36:00.960 Don't give it to that fucking guy.

01:36:02.860 Don't give it to fucking Lacey.

01:36:04.520 Don't give it to – oh, man, I'm making enemies right now.

01:36:07.500 I don't know.

01:36:07.860 Give it – hey, we – they're just fucking – what are they doing?

01:36:10.860 Anyways, whatever.

01:36:11.840 Not to hate.

01:36:12.560 There's nothing wrong with the video game guys.

01:36:15.000 No shade at the guys who play video games.

01:36:18.100 I'm just saying.

01:36:19.820 Hi, you're – more involved production.

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01:36:28.500 Pull up the merch.

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01:36:49.940 fucking printed on dog shit.

01:36:51.420 I actually took the time to make sure that the blanks, the material we print on, it's

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01:37:10.920 Any women who want to be on the show, you can DM us at whatever on Instagram.

01:37:17.420 Yeah, DM us there if you want to be on the show.

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01:37:26.760 Yep, follow me on X.

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01:37:34.960 And then quick public service announcement.

01:37:39.760 I'm the founder of the nonprofit and grassroots movement, tab over, Big Labia Matter, or BLM

01:37:45.940 for short.

01:37:49.380 All labia can't matter until Big Labia Matter.

01:37:52.260 As someone who only dates women with large labia, this is important for me, like it hurts

01:37:56.260 me.

01:37:57.020 Sometimes I cry thinking about it at night.

01:37:59.800 It keeps me up at night.

01:38:00.840 10,000 labiaplasties a year in the United States alone.

01:38:05.780 These plastic surgeons, I'm telling you, man.

01:38:08.800 You know how like, never mind.

01:38:10.520 That's probably, okay, never mind.

01:38:12.380 I don't know.

01:38:13.340 There's a lot going on right now.

01:38:14.680 Fucking Iran, Venezuela, Ukraine, Middle East, immigration, ICE.

01:38:21.940 That shit is a distraction.

01:38:24.520 That shit is psyop.

01:38:26.400 This is the pressing issue of our time.

01:38:28.240 10,000 labiaplasties a year.

01:38:29.760 These women, they're chopping their bits off.

01:38:31.700 Pisses me the fuck off.

01:38:33.560 So, I don't know.

01:38:35.760 Anyways, whatever.

01:38:39.440 Starving children in Africa.

01:38:41.200 Like, ridiculous.

01:38:43.960 Oh, if you can't catch the full shows, we have a Clips channel.

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01:38:57.560 Yeah.

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01:39:01.220 Behind the scenes, hate mail, research studies, a bunch of other stuff.

01:39:03.980 I post all the hate mail I get.

01:39:05.400 It's fucking crazy, guys.

01:39:06.400 I'm going to go through it one day on stream, probably.

01:39:10.280 It's wild.

01:39:11.220 If you're my Caucasian, you will join the Discord.

01:39:14.340 Okay.

01:39:15.040 All right.

01:39:15.500 I think that's...

01:39:16.260 Is that it?

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01:39:42.120 Okay.

01:39:42.440 Back to it, guys.

01:39:44.220 Long-winded there.

01:39:45.240 Long-winded.

01:39:45.680 Thank you, everybody, on Twitch there for the primes, too.

01:39:47.800 By the way.

01:39:48.120 Appreciate it, guys.

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01:39:49.820 I can't do this without you, guys.

01:39:51.260 I can't do the show without you, you know?

01:39:53.600 Because fucking Athletic Greens, they're not coming around anytime soon.

01:39:58.380 Shit.

01:39:59.600 Fucking, I don't know.

01:40:00.540 What's the other...

01:40:01.560 What's that audio book?

01:40:04.500 Audible.

01:40:05.160 Audible?

01:40:06.200 Audible ain't coming around to the whatever podcast anytime soon.

01:40:10.460 Liquid Death ain't coming.

01:40:13.240 Who else ain't coming?

01:40:13.920 Who's all the big sponsors there?

01:40:15.380 Blue Chew?

01:40:16.120 Seems perfect.

01:40:16.560 Where are those little stupid mobile games?

01:40:18.280 Fucking...

01:40:19.120 What's that mobile?

01:40:19.940 White Out.

01:40:20.240 Winter White Out.

01:40:21.160 No, no.

01:40:21.720 Oh, that's a good one.

01:40:22.840 What the fucking...

01:40:23.560 What was that video game that was like dog shit, but it was doing a bunch of sponsorships?

01:40:28.400 Dragon...

01:40:28.960 Wait, no.

01:40:29.540 Fuck.

01:40:29.800 I'm so sorry.

01:40:30.800 Anybody know?

01:40:31.500 Anybody a fucking gamer?

01:40:33.320 Anybody a fucking gamer?

01:40:34.880 Clash Royale.

01:40:35.720 Yes.

01:40:36.200 Clash of Clans.

01:40:37.020 Yeah, they're not coming.

01:40:38.080 Raid Shadow Legends.

01:40:39.200 Raid Shadow Legends.

01:40:40.440 They're not fucking coming.

01:40:43.240 Boom Beach?

01:40:43.860 Is that...

01:40:44.820 Anybody?

01:40:45.740 That's...

01:40:46.420 I used to play that game.

01:40:48.740 I was fucking addicted to that for like six months.

01:40:51.780 Luckily, I didn't spend any money, but that's like...

01:40:54.820 Whew.

01:40:55.200 That is...

01:40:56.240 You must be...

01:40:58.420 Anyways, whatever.

01:40:59.360 All right.

01:40:59.960 Anybody remember Boom Beach?

01:41:02.360 Who watched A Night of the Seven Kingdom?

01:41:04.760 Anybody?

01:41:06.080 That was pretty good.

01:41:07.080 I like that shit.

01:41:07.680 Now, I wanted...

01:41:09.920 You might be wondering, Brian, what the fuck does that have to do with dating?

01:41:13.340 This is what it has to do with dating.

01:41:15.180 Now, we can't show the clip because HBO or whatever will copyright us.

01:41:21.880 In the final episode of A Night of the Seven Kingdom, which is a prequel to Game of Thrones,

01:41:28.120 there was a scene where...

01:41:32.080 Oh, wait.

01:41:33.160 Is this spoilers?

01:41:35.340 Yeah.

01:41:37.420 Actually, no.

01:41:38.160 This isn't spoilers.

01:41:39.460 It's not really a spoiler.

01:41:40.600 Fuck yours.

01:41:41.360 It's not a spoiler.

01:41:42.440 It's not like central...

01:41:44.520 It's not a central spoiler.

01:41:46.340 Okay.

01:41:46.860 And it's from the show.

01:41:48.640 Okay.

01:41:48.840 So, Raymond Fossaway of House Fossaway, their sigil is an apple, but he became...

01:41:58.560 There's the red apple Fossaways and the green apple Fossaways, but that's another conversation

01:42:07.060 we're not going to get into.

01:42:09.260 Basically, Raymond Fossaway, who just had participated in this trial by seven combat, he showed up big

01:42:18.020 for Dunk.

01:42:19.240 You guys know what I'm talking about.

01:42:21.240 So, get this right.

01:42:22.400 I feel like this is not bro code.

01:42:24.660 So, earlier in the season...

01:42:27.700 Oh, my God.

01:42:28.860 Hold on.

01:42:29.480 Let me...

01:42:29.980 Okay.

01:42:30.260 Okay.

01:42:30.440 I got it.

01:42:31.140 Earlier in the show, Dunk encounters a prostitute.

01:42:34.680 I forgot her name.

01:42:35.640 It's like Rose or Ross or some shit.

01:42:37.620 Dustin.

01:42:37.860 Red-haired...

01:42:38.740 Red-haired...

01:42:39.860 Red-haired lady, and she's a prostitute.

01:42:42.960 And she was getting funky, down and funky with Steph...

01:42:49.240 It doesn't matter.

01:42:50.000 Some other lord or some bullshit.

01:42:52.320 You know, some lord.

01:42:53.640 And then she links up with our homeboy, Green Apple Fossaway, Raymond Fossaway.

01:43:00.840 But she doesn't tell him that she was a prostitute, and he's, like, gonna marry this chick, and...

01:43:08.600 But she...

01:43:09.320 Yeah, yeah.

01:43:10.360 She's gonna marry...

01:43:11.120 He's gonna marry this chick, and she's like, oh, I think I might be pregnant with Raymond

01:43:15.700 Fossaway, Green Apple Fossaway baby.

01:43:18.700 And Dunk here, who kind of fucking fucks up the bro code, he knows that she's a hoe.

01:43:28.840 Sir Duncan the Tall, he knows that she's a hoe.

01:43:32.920 A hoe for show.

01:43:35.200 But he doesn't let his boy know...

01:43:36.740 Oh, wait, wait, wait.

01:43:37.420 This is even worse.

01:43:38.560 His boy participated in the trial of a seven.

01:43:43.700 Trial of a seven is combat to the death.

01:43:46.040 So his homeboy fought for him, could have died for him, took injuries for him, for Sir Duncan

01:43:55.020 the Tall, and he's not gonna let his boy know that he's dealing with a hoe.

01:44:04.340 A strumpet.

01:44:05.620 These are the nights of our lives.

01:44:07.980 Right, exactly.

01:44:09.420 And so, I'm curious what y'all think, like, I don't know.

01:44:14.980 She's pregnant by somebody else, but she's saying it's Raymond Fossaway's...

01:44:23.960 It's his kid.

01:44:27.060 But she was being a prostitute for this other night, or Lord, or some shit.

01:44:32.400 You know what I mean, dog?

01:44:34.600 No?

01:44:35.340 Okay.

01:44:35.960 I think they're checked out.

01:44:37.200 She's showing pretty good, too, hasn't she?

01:44:41.700 She's like, I don't know what I'm doing.

01:44:44.000 Yeah, but I'm like, yo, Sir Duncan, how are you gonna, like, fucking honor, protect the innocent?

01:44:50.600 Like, as a knight in Westeros, if you become a knight, although, to be fair, no spoilers,

01:44:57.060 if you're a knight, Sir Duncan the Tall, protect the innocent.

01:45:01.320 His homeboy's innocent, innocent in this.

01:45:05.060 He's gonna let his homeboy get cut.

01:45:07.220 Oh, I get it now.

01:45:08.480 He's gonna let him...

01:45:09.280 So, he didn't say anything.

01:45:10.500 He knew that that chick was being a hoe.

01:45:14.140 So, what y'all think about that, yo?

01:45:18.040 No?

01:45:19.000 Hello?

01:45:20.520 He definitely should have said something.

01:45:22.300 Or at least bring him...

01:45:23.060 Take him aside.

01:45:24.040 Yo, Gigi, what do you think?

01:45:25.500 What do you think about that?

01:45:26.540 Um...

01:45:29.540 I don't know.

01:45:35.520 You don't know?

01:45:36.700 No, I...

01:45:37.760 Like, there's, like, a prostitute, and she's, like, hooking up with people is all I really

01:45:42.440 caught on to.

01:45:43.760 Okay, I feel like...

01:45:44.840 How about this, right?

01:45:46.020 How about this?

01:45:46.900 You know what?

01:45:49.300 A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms might be...

01:45:51.720 Terrible fucking name, by the way, for the show.

01:45:54.460 It might be too much.

01:45:55.560 Let's go back to Game of Thrones, okay?

01:45:58.060 So, Cersei Lannister is married to the fucking king.

01:46:05.660 Not a lord.

01:46:06.740 To King...

01:46:08.060 Bobby B. Robert Baratheon.

01:46:11.520 The stag.

01:46:12.880 The man...

01:46:13.780 The usurper.

01:46:15.480 The usurper.

01:46:16.500 Usurped the Mad King.

01:46:18.420 Mad King Aerys Targaryen.

01:46:20.960 She...

01:46:21.880 She...

01:46:22.500 Get this shit, right?

01:46:23.360 Now, look, there's some issues in the marriage.

01:46:25.560 She's married to the king, though.

01:46:26.840 The most powerful man in all of Westeros.

01:46:30.540 She's fucking her brother.

01:46:32.620 And her kids, Cersei Lannister's kids, are the brother's kids.

01:46:39.120 But she thinks...

01:46:43.440 Everybody thinks it's the kids of the king, Bobby B., Robert Baratheon.

01:46:50.060 Now, he's the king, right?

01:46:51.320 That's his lineage.

01:46:52.240 Like, that's his...

01:46:53.060 That's his...

01:46:54.140 What's the term?

01:46:55.920 The...

01:46:56.620 Bloodline.

01:46:57.700 Dynasty?

01:46:58.760 No, there's another word for it.

01:47:01.460 Bloodline?

01:47:02.060 His son would take the throne next.

01:47:04.000 But it's not his son is a thing.

01:47:06.400 And it could throw the realm...

01:47:08.340 It could totally throw the realm into complete fucking chaos.

01:47:12.960 Well, and it did.

01:47:14.220 Yeah.

01:47:14.700 It threw the realm into chaos.

01:47:16.380 Because now there's other claims.

01:47:18.640 Well, that's a bastard son.

01:47:20.600 He doesn't have claim to the Iron Throne.

01:47:22.920 Here comes Renly Baratheon.

01:47:24.680 Here comes Stannis Baratheon.

01:47:26.520 All because Cersei Lannister is a trifling bitch.

01:47:31.220 Facts.

01:47:32.460 She be fucking her brother.

01:47:35.020 Now, what do y'all think about that?

01:47:38.160 I mean, it sounds pretty fucked up.

01:47:39.980 Super fucked up.

01:47:41.500 She's the worst.

01:47:43.460 I literally...

01:47:44.320 I don't want to...

01:47:45.120 Like, at the end, like, I wish that she had gotten a little bit worse.

01:47:49.820 She got it pretty bad.

01:47:51.240 She got everything that was coming to her.

01:47:53.820 That analogy confused me.

01:47:57.580 What analogy?

01:47:59.420 Like, whatever you just used in Game of Thrones.

01:48:02.400 The other one was better.

01:48:03.760 The other one?

01:48:04.500 Yeah.

01:48:05.020 I understood it better with the other one.

01:48:07.200 I'm not going to lie.

01:48:08.660 Now, get this shit right.

01:48:09.920 Here's some dating problems.

01:48:12.740 Jon Snow, really Aegon Targaryen...

01:48:15.820 There's a fight for the Iron Throne.

01:48:24.640 But Jon Snow has a stronger...

01:48:26.520 Wait, does Jon Snow have a stronger claim to the throne?

01:48:29.560 Yo, chat, does Jon Snow have the stronger claim to the Iron Throne?

01:48:32.820 Yeah, he does.

01:48:33.400 No, but...

01:48:34.140 Oh, because he's male.

01:48:36.200 Huh?

01:48:36.820 Because he's...

01:48:37.320 Because Daenerys was the direct daughter of the Mad King Aerys Targaryen.

01:48:46.480 But so...

01:48:47.460 And then, here's what's complicated.

01:48:49.320 Daenerys Targaryen, the one with the dragons, the dragon queen, she doesn't know that that's technically her relative.

01:48:56.760 So they start fucking.

01:48:58.060 It's her nephew, right?

01:48:59.460 Her nephew, technically.

01:49:00.460 Because Jon Snow...

01:49:01.740 Jon Snow...

01:49:03.460 Aerys had a...

01:49:05.000 Fuck, what was the name of the son?

01:49:07.540 Rhaegar.

01:49:08.440 Rhaegar Targaryen was Daenerys' older brother.

01:49:13.040 And Rhaegar done fucked Lyanna Stark.

01:49:17.420 Lyanna Stark?

01:49:18.660 Cool.

01:49:19.140 And had a son, Jon Snow.

01:49:23.160 Or Aegon.

01:49:24.400 I think they called it...

01:49:25.080 I think he's technically Aegon Targaryen?

01:49:28.480 But wait.

01:49:28.840 Yes, Aegon Targaryen.

01:49:31.780 This is all very complicated.

01:49:35.100 This honesty is missing, you know.

01:49:37.320 You just have to be honest in every relation, whether it's some relationship, your husband or wife, or if it's a friendship.

01:49:45.520 You just have to be open and honest.

01:49:48.180 Well, that's the thing, is that Jon Snow, or Aegon Targaryen, has learned of his parentage.

01:50:00.280 And he then cuts off dating Daenerys Targaryen, and then she just fucking scorches all of King's Landing.

01:50:10.280 So it's like, question for you.

01:50:15.960 You're Jon Snow.

01:50:17.200 You're Aegon Targaryen.

01:50:20.660 For the sake of the realm, do you keep secretly giving it to your aunt, Daenerys Targaryen, to keep the peace?

01:50:33.360 No.

01:50:35.480 You don't keep banging your aunt, okay?

01:50:38.280 No.

01:50:40.140 I'll do it.

01:50:42.520 Take one for the team.

01:50:44.420 No.

01:50:45.320 No.

01:50:46.340 No.

01:50:47.300 I mean, look.

01:50:47.980 Only in this situation, though, okay?

01:50:49.300 It's not keeping peace, though.

01:50:51.080 Just in this situation.

01:50:53.300 Just in this situation.

01:50:54.060 You know, look, I think, look, the Targaryens were inbreeding a lot.

01:51:00.820 Incest was kind of tolerated in this universe.

01:51:06.980 And we saw what happened.

01:51:08.320 Queen Daenerys went, you know, she fucking, you know, destroyed King's Landing, burned everyone alive, basically.

01:51:17.840 I think Jon Snow, he should have just kept, you know, piping her.

01:51:22.740 But wasn't that a really good example of don't bang crazy?

01:51:27.240 Don't.

01:51:28.080 Well, at that point, we hadn't established that she was crazy, you know?

01:51:32.220 Well, she came from crazy bloodline.

01:51:34.380 The ending of Game of Thrones was fucking dog shit, by the way.

01:51:37.040 Fucking terrible.

01:51:37.580 Because he's not finished a series, right?

01:51:39.480 And it's like that was like an example of what not to do.

01:51:44.760 Don't do that.

01:51:46.840 Anyways, I'll move it on from that.

01:51:48.240 That's crazy.

01:51:49.440 Okay.

01:51:49.980 Let me see here if we have any.

01:51:53.500 Here.

01:51:54.720 Can I have you read this, Camilla?

01:51:56.780 Did I say that?

01:51:58.800 Eric Malkus donated $100.

01:52:01.420 The girl in the right corner is super hot and red.

01:52:03.960 I think I'm in love with her.

01:52:05.220 She should follow me on Instagram.

01:52:06.540 Brian, you are the go.

01:52:07.640 Ellen, I love you.

01:52:09.000 And so many people around me love you.

01:52:10.800 Love you.

01:52:11.660 Oh, thank you very much.

01:52:12.820 Appreciate it.

01:52:14.780 Let's see here.

01:52:15.660 That's destiny.

01:52:16.340 All right.

01:52:20.840 Dale, looks like you bought some merch.

01:52:23.320 Thank you for the merch purchase.

01:52:25.600 Appreciate it, man.

01:52:26.320 Thank you very much.

01:52:27.080 Oh, and she does the bow.

01:52:28.040 That's very cool.

01:52:29.460 Thank you.

01:52:29.800 Thank you for the, looks like you bought a hoodie there.

01:52:32.020 So appreciate it.

01:52:33.340 All right.

01:52:33.780 Is Rachel Wilson still in the chat?

01:52:35.340 Where's Rachel?

01:52:36.000 Are you still here, Rachel?

01:52:37.060 What's up?

01:52:37.480 What's up?

01:52:37.840 What's going on?

01:52:38.920 All right.

01:52:39.200 Let's get into some topics here.

01:52:40.520 Okay, we did that.

01:52:43.620 One sec, guys.

01:52:44.340 I'm just getting, oh, wait.

01:52:47.580 Okay.

01:52:49.960 Where did I want to go?

01:52:52.320 Let's see.

01:52:53.180 We talked about your situation.

01:52:55.440 Yeah.

01:52:56.580 Remind me.

01:52:57.660 Don't make, don't let me forget head shave.

01:53:00.920 Don't let me forget before the end of the show.

01:53:04.240 I definitely will not forget.

01:53:06.100 That'd be pretty cool, though, to do it on the whatever podcast.

01:53:09.160 That'd be pretty dope.

01:53:10.900 I was going to go live and do it, but it's okay.

01:53:13.600 It's way better here.

01:53:14.840 It's still live.

01:53:15.920 I know, I know, I know.

01:53:18.020 Camilla, you describe yourself as a professional spoiled brat.

01:53:23.840 What does that mean?

01:53:27.420 Internet personality.

01:53:28.700 I feel like when you have a platform and you put yourself out there,

01:53:33.980 you could choose to fully be fully transparent,

01:53:39.100 or you can play as a personality,

01:53:41.560 and I choose the other way.

01:53:43.980 All right.

01:53:44.320 But weren't you just agreeing with her when she was talking about,

01:53:47.100 you should always be honest in all your relationships,

01:53:49.480 and you were nodding along with her,

01:53:51.400 and then you just a few minutes later said,

01:53:54.100 but I play up a personality so I can get money.

01:53:56.440 Within my relationship,

01:53:58.260 like within my own private life,

01:54:01.160 but if I'm portraying something online...

01:54:04.640 So you're saying clearly that as an OnlyFans girl,

01:54:06.720 you have no relationship with any of these men?

01:54:09.140 No.

01:54:09.900 Okay.

01:54:10.140 I think that's why they pay you, but okay.

01:54:14.420 Word.

01:54:14.820 I care for them, and I do talk to them.

01:54:17.520 There's a few of them that basically believe that I'm a therapist, per se,

01:54:24.500 for them.

01:54:26.460 But in terms of actual dating relationship, no.

01:54:31.460 Does the guy that you're saying, does he know that you do it,

01:54:34.240 and does he mind or have any issues?

01:54:36.060 Yes, he knows that.

01:54:36.940 Do you have any issues with you doing that?

01:54:39.140 No, he doesn't.

01:54:40.260 I need to step away for just a moment,

01:54:42.280 if you guys want to continue the convo.

01:54:44.220 Yeah, I guess I would just say,

01:54:46.220 I mean, it's discussed off and on here,

01:54:48.860 that the point of OnlyFans is not just the sexual gratification.

01:54:53.020 It's the feeling of a relationship with that person,

01:54:55.500 and being let into something that's private and intimate with them.

01:54:59.200 So you're saying that in your personal relationships,

01:55:01.720 you're very honest,

01:55:02.580 but in your persona, you're portraying something which isn't honest.

01:55:06.440 So doesn't that contradict itself?

01:55:08.620 Well, the thing is, is that my Instagram,

01:55:11.780 and within the OF community, is just rage bait.

01:55:15.940 People hate you regardless of what you do as an OF creator.

01:55:20.620 So why do I have to be honest if,

01:55:24.140 like on Instagram platform,

01:55:25.880 if people are just going to hate me anyways,

01:55:27.740 but within my subscribers' relationships,

01:55:31.000 I'm very honest with them.

01:55:32.360 They do know, like, I talk to them on a daily,

01:55:35.620 they do know how I am within the platform.

01:55:37.740 If I may ask, you say that people are going to hate you no matter what

01:55:40.700 because you're an OF girl.

01:55:42.200 Why do you think people hate somebody no matter what if they're an OF girl?

01:55:46.420 What do you think the reason is for that?

01:55:47.920 Well, clearly it's because of the reason of selling your body for money.

01:55:52.860 See, now, that's where I would disagree with you

01:55:55.300 because I feel like there's not,

01:55:58.120 there may be some,

01:55:59.460 but I feel like there's a much smaller portion of the population

01:56:02.400 that are going,

01:56:03.400 I hate this porn star because she's a porn star.

01:56:06.280 Again, the OnlyFans thing,

01:56:08.480 it's not just a sexuality,

01:56:10.320 which is a morality and a debauchery.

01:56:12.680 It's also that you're creating relationships with these people,

01:56:16.460 relationships that are often false

01:56:18.160 because you have a management team

01:56:19.880 or you have somebody that's speaking and typing for you.

01:56:23.560 So it's that you're not just playing up,

01:56:26.280 again, the sexual gratification,

01:56:28.160 you're creating a relationship with someone

01:56:30.180 who you would never have an actual relationship with

01:56:33.140 and in doing so, in a lot of instances,

01:56:36.120 you're stopping them from actually finding a healthy relationship with someone

01:56:39.980 and creating bonds that truly exist for them in their private lives.

01:56:44.640 Oh no, I actually talk to them.

01:56:47.740 So do you feel that there's a chance

01:56:49.540 that any of these regulars of yours are so dedicated to you

01:56:53.020 that it might be stopping them

01:56:54.400 from actually seeking someone outside of you

01:56:56.540 and really finding someone in their own personal or private lives?

01:57:00.440 There's definitely subscribers of mine

01:57:04.360 who are a virgin per se.

01:57:06.260 I mean, I feel like a lot of that is typical.

01:57:09.020 However, like I don't,

01:57:11.120 within my relationship with them,

01:57:12.620 I don't ever be like,

01:57:13.900 oh, like I don't ever play the idea of like,

01:57:16.400 oh, you are going to eventually meet me or anything like that either.

01:57:20.940 Like, and there's just a lot of times,

01:57:22.440 it's just more of the fact of companionship, right?

01:57:25.400 And so whenever they have difficult days or something,

01:57:28.540 they would tell me about it

01:57:29.580 and I would like talk to them for it.

01:57:31.640 But if there was any...

01:57:32.260 For someone who studied psychology,

01:57:33.440 you don't feel it would be much healthier

01:57:35.060 for them to not have this outlet

01:57:37.580 and actually seek companionship with someone

01:57:40.140 who will give them a real relationship

01:57:42.100 in their personal and private life.

01:57:44.260 Well, but my thing is,

01:57:45.320 is that I'm not stopping them from that.

01:57:47.700 If there were, like,

01:57:49.120 there are times where they'll be like,

01:57:50.660 oh, I'm going to go on a date with this person.

01:57:52.660 And I'm like, oh, okay, like,

01:57:54.340 good luck, I hope that go well.

01:57:55.580 I guess I'll ask the other girls on the table,

01:57:57.460 do any of you feel like

01:57:58.600 that might be stopping these men

01:58:00.080 from pursuing another woman in actual life?

01:58:03.340 Yeah, no, I can 100% see, like,

01:58:05.080 somebody being so, like,

01:58:08.060 you know, immersed in you

01:58:10.260 and your relationship with them

01:58:11.820 that they're coming to you with their problems

01:58:14.120 when maybe they should have,

01:58:15.960 like she was saying,

01:58:16.540 someone in their lives

01:58:17.780 that they can actually sit down with

01:58:20.220 and they don't have to pay.

01:58:21.580 I mean, I'm not trying to be mean

01:58:23.120 or disrespectful or anything,

01:58:24.080 but, like, you know, like my husband,

01:58:25.840 I sit down with him

01:58:26.560 and I can talk to him

01:58:27.480 and share the things

01:58:28.600 that are going on with me.

01:58:30.140 And, you know,

01:58:30.760 I know that he genuinely cares for me

01:58:32.540 and I'm not saying you don't

01:58:33.500 genuinely care for any of these people,

01:58:34.720 but I do think that it is important

01:58:36.380 to be able to sit down with someone

01:58:37.960 that is, like, your person, I think,

01:58:40.300 is what I'm trying to get to.

01:58:41.640 Yeah, I just,

01:58:43.080 I think that that's my real issue

01:58:45.420 with the concept of OnlyFans

01:58:47.000 rather than pornography,

01:58:48.880 which has its own issues,

01:58:50.380 is that even if this is not

01:58:52.680 what you're encouraging,

01:58:53.880 they're putting that into you.

01:58:55.060 You're a beautiful woman.

01:58:56.380 You're absolutely beautiful

01:58:57.400 and you definitely seem

01:58:58.720 like a cool person.

01:59:00.340 So a guy that,

01:59:01.620 especially a guy

01:59:02.240 that doesn't socialize naturally,

01:59:04.340 he's going to be so excited

01:59:05.660 to talk to you,

01:59:06.780 especially when you're willing

01:59:08.440 to give him the sexual part.

01:59:09.900 You're a beautiful woman.

01:59:11.000 You're a young woman.

01:59:12.300 You're willing to,

01:59:13.460 as far as he knows,

01:59:14.620 give him time

01:59:15.340 and be there for him

01:59:16.300 in his low days

01:59:17.040 and his low moments.

01:59:18.140 So why would he seek

01:59:19.360 anything outside of that?

01:59:20.920 So really,

01:59:21.720 that is stopping him

01:59:22.960 from finding that.

01:59:24.000 And there is something

01:59:25.260 heartbreaking about that

01:59:26.520 because while men

01:59:27.700 do have more time

01:59:28.800 than we do,

01:59:29.780 nobody has an infinite amount

01:59:31.060 of time in this world.

01:59:32.420 God comes for all of us

01:59:33.440 at some point.

01:59:34.660 So you really are

01:59:36.320 stopping them

01:59:37.080 from being able

01:59:37.580 to find that

01:59:38.240 in a real way

01:59:39.460 with someone like

01:59:40.340 the beautiful thing

01:59:41.240 she has with her husband

01:59:42.220 and the beautiful thing

01:59:43.000 that she has

01:59:43.420 with her husband.

01:59:44.340 You're stopping these men

01:59:45.780 from doing that.

01:59:46.940 And social skills

01:59:47.800 are like a bicep.

01:59:49.340 You have to work them

01:59:50.600 for them to be strong.

01:59:51.960 So if you're doing

01:59:53.060 your socializing

01:59:53.860 with an OF girl

01:59:54.960 who's not being honest,

01:59:56.940 who's being the spoiled brat

01:59:58.260 or whatever persona,

01:59:59.960 this is stopping them

02:00:01.020 from getting those social skills

02:00:02.120 to go to their church

02:00:03.120 or go to like a salsa class

02:00:05.200 or something

02:00:05.620 and find a woman in life.

02:00:08.200 Again, I think

02:00:09.240 I want to clarify

02:00:10.060 that the spoiled brat

02:00:11.320 is for within the content

02:00:12.760 I'm making for Instagram.

02:00:14.380 Now within the relationship

02:00:15.460 that I like talk with

02:00:17.080 with my subscribers,

02:00:18.020 that's completely different

02:00:18.840 and they fully know

02:00:19.600 within my own life.

02:00:20.540 And like with like

02:00:22.280 I'm honest to them.

02:00:23.420 Sorry, I got to move it on.

02:00:24.860 Richard, thank you for the hundred.

02:00:26.960 Gigi, can I have you read this?

02:00:28.580 Hey guys, love this show.

02:00:29.900 Have you considered

02:00:30.640 having Levi Nix

02:00:32.920 on your podcast?

02:00:34.400 I think that would be

02:00:35.100 a great mashup.

02:00:36.540 Thank you, Richard,

02:00:37.300 for the message.

02:00:37.920 I'm actually not

02:00:38.920 for the name.

02:00:41.140 It's not striking a bell.

02:00:42.180 He's funny.

02:00:42.880 But thank you

02:00:44.240 for the message, man.

02:00:45.160 I do very much appreciate it.

02:00:47.440 Let's just, you know what?

02:00:48.460 Jump right into this.

02:00:49.240 Okay, so the question is

02:00:52.180 fix split, please.

02:00:55.580 On a scale of zero to ten,

02:01:00.060 can't pick seven,

02:01:01.440 rate your looks

02:01:02.260 and do it like this.

02:01:04.460 So face, body, total.

02:01:05.920 So my face is a ten,

02:01:07.140 body a ten, total ten.

02:01:10.680 I would overall six.

02:01:13.240 I think it kind of depends

02:01:14.320 on everyone's preference.

02:01:15.760 Okay.

02:01:15.900 Um, yeah.

02:01:18.200 Uh, but, so say face.

02:01:20.780 Face, six, body, six.

02:01:22.960 Every, yeah, overall six.

02:01:24.700 Sure.

02:01:25.920 Six.

02:01:27.280 Okay, what about you?

02:01:28.820 Overall six.

02:01:30.560 Yeah, everything.

02:01:31.500 Everything, okay.

02:01:32.740 What about you?

02:01:33.300 Six across the board.

02:01:34.520 Wow.

02:01:35.580 Same.

02:01:36.320 What?

02:01:36.920 Okay.

02:01:37.800 Nine across.

02:01:39.220 Nine across the board?

02:01:40.460 Uh, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:01:45.400 You, sorry.

02:01:46.000 Uh, I'm going to say

02:01:46.680 eight face, three body.

02:01:48.400 So about, uh, five.

02:01:50.340 Eight face, three body.

02:01:52.600 Okay.

02:01:53.100 Five total.

02:01:54.400 Um, I would say body is

02:01:56.700 five point five.

02:01:58.180 Um, face, maybe, um, six.

02:02:02.920 Okay.

02:02:03.620 What about you?

02:02:05.400 Face, three body, five.

02:02:07.820 Okay.

02:02:08.560 Uh, I give myself four point five,

02:02:10.000 four point five, four point five

02:02:11.720 across the board.

02:02:13.960 Um, pretty reasonable panel

02:02:18.020 tonight with the exception

02:02:20.980 of two of you.

02:02:23.360 Now let's explore this,

02:02:24.860 shall we?

02:02:26.400 Uh, all right.

02:02:28.340 Nine across the board, you said?

02:02:29.980 Yeah, I love myself.

02:02:31.920 I'm a self-obsessed person.

02:02:34.660 Question for you.

02:02:36.500 Uh, I, sometimes you can have

02:02:38.300 your own rating.

02:02:39.960 If a hundred thousand men

02:02:41.740 were to rate you,

02:02:43.020 what do you think they would rate you?

02:02:44.920 Oh, um, I don't know.

02:02:51.820 Do you think they would rate you

02:02:52.840 a nine, uh, face?

02:02:56.920 Some of them, maybe they lie,

02:02:58.460 but they might say.

02:02:59.980 Well, I understand, like,

02:03:01.340 some of them might rate you that,

02:03:04.000 but I'm asking the average.

02:03:06.500 Before marriage, they say I'm 10.

02:03:08.780 After marriage or after the relationship,

02:03:11.060 I don't know, you know?

02:03:12.380 So they lie.

02:03:13.740 So I cannot trust, uh,

02:03:15.460 guys on rating me

02:03:16.820 because when they want to impress you,

02:03:19.400 they will say, like,

02:03:20.540 you're the most beautiful girl

02:03:21.900 in the world.

02:03:22.620 But when they get what they want,

02:03:25.700 you might not be as good, you know?

02:03:27.760 So it's like, uh, I say I'm beautiful

02:03:31.040 because my heart is way bigger

02:03:34.880 and beautiful, and I'm a giver,

02:03:36.440 and that reflects on my face,

02:03:38.720 and I just love myself, you know?

02:03:41.300 And I'm, I'm doing everything

02:03:43.640 to be in shape at this age,

02:03:46.200 you know, diet, exercise, everything.

02:03:49.920 But the missing point, one,

02:03:51.960 is my height.

02:03:54.260 Men don't really care about height,

02:03:57.060 to be honest.

02:03:57.640 I think you're beautiful.

02:04:00.340 Do you?

02:04:01.460 Yeah, I think she is.

02:04:02.780 What do you rate her?

02:04:03.140 And also, she's very educated

02:04:04.620 to be smart.

02:04:05.800 Honestly, in my opinion,

02:04:06.860 I would rate you a 10.

02:04:07.700 What would that have to do

02:04:07.720 with her looks, though?

02:04:08.560 You give her a 10?

02:04:09.580 Yeah.

02:04:10.140 Thank you.

02:04:10.740 You give her 10,

02:04:11.780 and you rate yourself a 6?

02:04:13.360 Yeah.

02:04:14.000 Since you have an interesting rating outlook,

02:04:17.380 rate each of the women?

02:04:18.140 I think Gigi's a 9.

02:04:23.380 And then repeat your rating?

02:04:25.100 I think I'm a 6.

02:04:26.600 I think she's an 8.

02:04:29.580 I think you are a 7.

02:04:33.620 7?

02:04:34.920 10?

02:04:35.900 Thank you.

02:04:37.300 6.5?

02:04:38.700 I think you're a 10.

02:04:40.820 I think 6.

02:04:42.980 And then me?

02:04:44.620 I think you're a 6.

02:04:45.700 I think you're too mean on yourself.

02:04:47.400 Yeah.

02:04:47.660 I'm too mean.

02:04:48.480 Okay.

02:04:50.620 I think all of them are...

02:04:52.340 So, you're a 6,

02:04:55.180 and she's a 9.

02:04:57.120 She's a 10.

02:04:57.560 Oh, sorry, 10.

02:04:58.260 Excuse me.

02:04:59.360 Is she the only one you gave a 10 to?

02:05:01.320 No.

02:05:02.100 Oh, also her, too.

02:05:03.940 You gave her a 10.

02:05:04.740 You gave her a 10?

02:05:05.260 Oh, yeah.

02:05:07.020 She looks very, like, angelic to me.

02:05:09.140 Thank you.

02:05:09.620 So, you rate yourself lower in attractiveness in terms of looks than her?

02:05:17.180 Mm-hmm.

02:05:18.180 I think you're always harder on yourself, no?

02:05:20.120 I'm just supposed that you're so beautiful.

02:05:24.700 Well, and I think also, like, you have an insane, like, educational record.

02:05:31.220 What would that have to do with her looks, though?

02:05:32.880 Mm-hmm.

02:05:33.160 I, for me, I see attractiveness as in, within everything.

02:05:39.000 So, I feel like...

02:05:39.280 Yeah, but the question's about looks.

02:05:40.760 Okay.

02:05:41.080 Well, even looks aside, like, she has really nice teeth.

02:05:43.400 She has really big, nice eyes.

02:05:45.200 That is looks.

02:05:46.560 Well, I'm saying, you're saying, what, if it's just looks still?

02:05:49.300 Yeah, teeth looks, eyes looks.

02:05:51.420 I'm saying, if it's just looks still, I still think she's very beautiful.

02:05:55.480 Thank you.

02:05:57.280 Okay.

02:05:57.920 And here's what, you're a nine.

02:06:01.080 You gave yourself an eight face.

02:06:04.540 Can you tell me a celebrity that, a female celebrity that you think is a nine in looks?

02:06:12.040 Aishwarya Rai?

02:06:13.080 Huh?

02:06:13.680 Aishwarya Rai Miss World?

02:06:15.920 From India?

02:06:17.420 Aishwarya Rai.

02:06:19.120 Can you give us an American?

02:06:20.380 Oh, my God.

02:06:21.140 Wait, sorry, I didn't mean to impress that.

02:06:23.060 Nathan, get ready to Google these.

02:06:25.580 Is there, like, an American, like, an Indian American that we could look up?

02:06:33.960 Priyanka Chopra?

02:06:35.420 Okay, Google it.

02:06:36.320 Stunning.

02:06:38.480 A woman who's an eight?

02:06:39.900 Like I said, face.

02:06:40.800 So, face alone, I wish, this won't be shocking, Christina Hendricks.

02:06:44.640 Okay, Google those two.

02:06:46.920 Uh, first show is Priyanka, whatever, whatever.

02:06:50.000 Aishwarya Rai.

02:06:51.140 Um, that's going to be really easy for my producer to, my white producer to.

02:06:56.620 And Priyanka Chopra.

02:06:57.720 Priyanka.

02:06:58.180 Yeah.

02:06:58.320 She was Miss World, too.

02:07:00.480 Mm-hmm.

02:07:00.680 They both were Miss World.

02:07:02.040 Okay, so you, Priyanka Chopra.

02:07:06.980 Okay.

02:07:07.840 Uh, and then what was?

02:07:09.120 Christina Hendricks.

02:07:10.120 Can you Google Christina Hendricks, please?

02:07:11.720 Uh, okay.

02:07:15.480 All right.

02:07:16.180 Uh, Rain, thank you for the super chat.

02:07:22.180 Christina Hendricks.

02:07:23.280 Can you, uh, go to the images tab?

02:07:25.500 Oh, the thick girl from Mad Men.

02:07:27.280 Mm-hmm.

02:07:27.460 Okay.

02:07:28.240 We're talking face, not body.

02:07:30.340 Right, so, I mean, hmm.

02:07:33.560 But you would say face equivalent, um, and keep it there for a sec, Nathan.

02:07:37.080 I'm gonna, uh, F11 again for me.

02:07:39.220 Can you, uh, control mouse wheel up on this page?

02:07:45.540 Uh, control, like, scroll the mouse wheel so it makes it bigger?

02:07:50.820 Other way?

02:07:51.420 Yeah.

02:07:51.900 Perfect.

02:07:53.220 Okay, so, this is your face looks equivalent.

02:08:01.220 So, also, part of how I base my scale is, part of how I base my scale is on prior episodes.

02:08:09.220 And how you've described how the scale works.

02:08:11.840 And one of the things that stood out to me is, um, when you had Andrew on, and he described

02:08:17.100 how many times you get a second glance on the street.

02:08:19.860 And while I know that the body is wrecked, I, in L.A. just yesterday, and in New York constantly,

02:08:27.860 I get second glances on the street.

02:08:29.720 It even surprises me at the rate that it happens.

02:08:32.800 So, if we're basing it off of that scale that was described on a prior episode, I'll give it to myself.

02:08:38.140 Well, that's a scale Andrew used.

02:08:40.400 Fair.

02:08:40.900 And I did, if you recall, um, much love and respect to Andrew.

02:08:45.960 I, I think that is not the correct way to frame it.

02:08:51.820 Okay.

02:08:52.020 Um, I rebuked him.

02:08:54.220 No, um, no, I just think it was not the right way to frame it.

02:08:57.880 Because the reality is, even average or even way below average looking women, uh, there's

02:09:04.380 no shortage of supply who, uh, of men who, uh, would have sex with them.

02:09:10.020 Uh, so, this idea that you would rank your attractiveness based on the lust or sexual attraction

02:09:20.420 of men is erroneous.

02:09:23.860 Because a man could look at a supermodel and look at an average woman and experience, to

02:09:32.160 some degree, somewhat similar levels of lust for both of them.

02:09:35.600 Um, thus, it would not be a reasonable metric, uh, to use, I, I think, in the assessment.

02:09:42.840 Okay.

02:09:43.120 Uh, so, so for looks, if we're not talking about men lusting, what would you say is a

02:09:53.240 better way to sum up looks?

02:09:54.900 And I would have actually said a seven if I was allowed for the record, but if, how would

02:09:58.680 we sum up the looks if it's not lusting?

02:10:02.560 Are you, are you talking more like symmetry, like age on the face, that sort of stuff too?

02:10:06.420 So, okay.

02:10:07.380 So, well, so beauty, um, beauty is subjective.

02:10:12.200 However, there are objective measurements that we can take of the face.

02:10:16.500 So while beauty in the strict philosophical sense is subjective, uh, it is grounded, like

02:10:24.240 there's universal principles.

02:10:25.720 It is grounded in, um, objective measurements.

02:10:31.100 So that would be facial symmetry, facial harmony, interpupillary distance, you know, various

02:10:36.440 other facial thirds, um, certain other things that, that are measurable.

02:10:42.140 Like, so that would be the objective components of beauty.

02:10:45.640 Um, and so, uh, in this case, yes, it would be those measurements.

02:10:51.900 Yeah.

02:10:52.380 I mean, I would, if you want a, an assessment on the, like, if I had to put a descriptor

02:10:57.720 to the number, I would say five average, six cute, seven pretty, eight beautiful, nine

02:11:04.800 elite, 10 perfect.

02:11:06.720 There's no women who are tens.

02:11:08.480 Fair.

02:11:10.420 Nobody's perfect.

02:11:11.040 There's no men who are tens either.

02:11:12.180 Then I would definitely air myself on cute more so than beautiful.

02:11:15.340 I don't think I'd say beautiful.

02:11:16.360 You'd reassess to six.

02:11:17.560 Sure.

02:11:18.280 Well, yes.

02:11:19.060 Uh, rate me.

02:11:20.500 Me?

02:11:21.180 Yeah.

02:11:21.460 Rate me.

02:11:21.780 Uh, I would go with the six and the six.

02:11:24.460 Yeah.

02:11:25.240 I think you're above average.

02:11:26.460 I think just like everybody else here, you're hard on yourself.

02:11:28.920 Hmm.

02:11:29.540 But are, is your rating still, uh, eight or does that change with my new metric?

02:11:36.840 Uh, with how you just described it, especially with the word descriptors, I would say a six

02:11:41.280 then we'll drop it down to a six.

02:11:42.840 Yeah.

02:11:43.040 Okay.

02:11:43.260 So from your perspective, we would be a looks match.

02:11:46.180 Yes.

02:11:46.720 Okay.

02:11:46.960 Going around the table.

02:11:47.640 Do you think me and her are looks match?

02:11:49.060 No.

02:11:53.440 What do you think?

02:11:54.620 Well, wait, in which direction?

02:11:57.340 Like, is she out of my league?

02:11:58.820 Like I'd be lucky to get her.

02:12:02.860 No, it's okay.

02:12:03.800 No, I'm not going to blush.

02:12:05.140 I'm putting them on the spot.

02:12:06.780 It's fine.

02:12:07.140 It's okay.

02:12:07.580 It's a whatever podcast.

02:12:09.580 No.

02:12:09.880 Uh, qualify the statement though.

02:12:16.620 I'm sorry.

02:12:17.300 So is she out of my league?

02:12:20.480 Oh, no.

02:12:21.160 I'm out of hers.

02:12:22.040 Again, I did put body at a three, so we're lower on the body.

02:12:25.520 Well, you can just judge it off of, uh, face, I guess.

02:12:28.940 But what do you think?

02:12:29.720 Out of your league.

02:12:30.740 Huh?

02:12:31.160 Out of your league.

02:12:32.020 She's out of my league?

02:12:32.920 No, you're out of her league.

02:12:34.060 Oh, okay.

02:12:34.760 I see.

02:12:35.420 All right.

02:12:35.780 Go ahead.

02:12:36.360 Can you explain the question again?

02:12:37.880 I'm sorry.

02:12:38.620 Go ahead.

02:12:40.180 No, you're, I think you're out.

02:12:42.240 What do you think?

02:12:42.780 I think if, just face, yes.

02:12:45.360 Okay.

02:12:46.740 If we ignore age and everything, yeah.

02:12:49.760 Um, I would, um, agree with the face.

02:12:52.020 Probably yes.

02:12:52.900 With the body, probably not.

02:12:56.040 Wait, what do you mean?

02:12:58.040 So, um.

02:12:58.920 She's, hold on.

02:13:00.020 Yeah.

02:13:01.540 Hold on.

02:13:02.520 Look, hey, look, I'm the first.

02:13:04.100 I'm not, I'm not offended by it.

02:13:05.640 I'm a little chubby.

02:13:06.220 I could stand to lose a bit of weight.

02:13:08.180 Yeah.

02:13:09.160 I'm not offended.

02:13:09.960 You think.

02:13:11.080 No, I was saying you.

02:13:13.540 You're out of my league body wise.

02:13:15.080 Yeah.

02:13:15.420 Yeah.

02:13:15.860 Yeah.

02:13:16.140 Yeah.

02:13:16.340 Yeah.

02:13:18.580 But she mogs me face.

02:13:20.420 In the face.

02:13:21.580 She mogs.

02:13:22.960 Yeah, I feel like the face is.

02:13:24.220 No.

02:13:25.540 Okay.

02:13:26.200 Uh, what do you think?

02:13:28.980 It's fine.

02:13:29.980 It doesn't bother me.

02:13:30.860 I know it's brutal.

02:13:31.100 I'm not going to have a ride home later.

02:13:32.740 It doesn't bother me, babe.

02:13:33.740 It's a brutal convo.

02:13:34.620 I get it.

02:13:34.880 No, it's fine.

02:13:35.820 Yeah, Brian is out of your league.

02:13:37.540 Okay.

02:13:38.580 Okay.

02:13:39.080 Um, and then I'm going to address that though.

02:13:41.720 Do you want to rate me?

02:13:43.340 Or did she already rate me?

02:13:45.380 Give me an, okay.

02:13:46.040 That's an, that's overrating, but, um, I'm not an eight, but okay.

02:13:50.100 Uh, and you gave yourself a nine, but so you're still settling for me.

02:13:54.860 Okay.

02:13:55.560 Um, now you guys might be wondering, Brian, why do you ask this?

02:14:00.300 It's kind of insensitive.

02:14:01.300 How dare you?

02:14:02.220 Like, but I think it is an interesting temperature check.

02:14:05.540 I don't think I'm a little bit, look, I don't think I'm anything special.

02:14:08.280 I get myself below average ratings.

02:14:10.660 I had 4.5, 4.5.

02:14:12.620 Maybe if I lost a little bit of weight, we could get five, 5.5, maybe six.

02:14:16.000 If I'm lucky, you know, um, you know, thinned out in the face a little bit and the body.

02:14:21.940 But, uh, the reason I bring it up is because I do think there is a tendency, not with all

02:14:26.180 women, because you got, most of you are pretty reasonable.

02:14:27.980 I'm not really going to challenge much of the six, six stuff, even if I think there might

02:14:32.860 have been some, I could actually give you guys ratings.

02:14:35.040 Maybe we'll do that.

02:14:35.700 But, uh, I do think that there is, when it comes to dating and men can be guilty of this

02:14:41.720 too, where men are delusional and think they're more attractive than they actually are.

02:14:47.200 I do think this phenomenon is a little bit, perhaps a little bit is an understatement.

02:14:52.280 And this phenomenon is a bit more common in women where they assess themselves as more

02:14:58.240 attractive than they actually are.

02:15:00.240 And this can extend beyond just looks, even better personality, funnier than they actually

02:15:05.300 are.

02:15:05.780 No offense to you, the comedian, um, more likable, whatever, whatever other characteristics.

02:15:13.380 I do think there's a tendency for women to assess themselves as a little bit higher than

02:15:18.500 where they actually are in actuality.

02:15:21.280 And so it is worth discussing because I do think that, and look, men can do this too.

02:15:28.180 You can have a guy who's like, what's he bringing to the table, but he wants to date a supermodel.

02:15:32.880 He needs to reassess his standards and the type of woman he can realistically get.

02:15:38.980 Likewise, women who think that they're more attractive than they actually are, they're going

02:15:43.260 to be, uh, aiming for a certain caliber of guy that, and this is, well, this is actually

02:15:49.040 a difference between men and women, you might be able to sleep with that guy and never get

02:15:51.900 commitment from him.

02:15:52.720 So sometimes women can get what I, uh, limited sexual access to a guy.

02:15:57.500 And then that, that in and of itself will be a bolster to their erroneous self-assessment.

02:16:05.320 Uh, but I do think it's important to know where you stand.

02:16:09.400 Otherwise, like I said earlier, you know, if I'm with, if me, fucking pasty below, like

02:16:22.180 average, below average looking guy, 36, if I'm trying to, Oh, I, I deserve a 10 out of

02:16:30.260 10 elite supermodel, like it's not going to fucking happen.

02:16:35.980 Uh, so I don't know.

02:16:38.340 Somebody had specific disagreements to me on the rating thing.

02:16:41.000 Was it you or I'm trying to remember?

02:16:43.300 I don't think.

02:16:44.980 I'll put that in notes.

02:16:45.800 Somebody had actual disagreements.

02:16:47.280 No, that wasn't me.

02:16:48.380 Anybody want to?

02:16:49.300 It was, might be me.

02:16:51.460 I think it was me.

02:16:52.280 In the form that I filled, I guess.

02:16:55.020 Yeah.

02:16:55.200 Yeah.

02:16:55.340 On the questionnaires, like in the DMS or whatever.

02:16:58.880 Um, it was you who disagreed with the looks rating?

02:17:02.100 Yeah.

02:17:03.940 No, it wasn't in your notes, but it was, uh, in the form I just filled.

02:17:07.980 Yeah.

02:17:08.260 Lisa, you said you don't always agree.

02:17:11.220 Yeah.

02:17:11.500 I don't always, um, agree because I think, uh, some people are really harsh on themselves

02:17:18.640 and I feel like you're being harsh on yourselves as everybody here has said.

02:17:23.020 So, I, I don't really think I'm being particularly harsh, but, um, on myself anyways, uh, but

02:17:32.140 can you, can you further explain your disagreement?

02:17:36.800 Um, my disagreement, like sometimes I think like, like yes, looks matter and like, yes,

02:17:43.380 you should be like attracted to someone, but I also feel like, uh, personality sometimes

02:17:49.020 like weighs that out a lot more.

02:17:51.060 Or like, um.

02:17:52.180 It can make someone more attractive or less attractive.

02:17:53.980 Well, yeah.

02:17:54.460 Yeah.

02:17:54.660 Like.

02:17:55.220 But that's not what we're saying.

02:17:56.660 Like if, if a guy's like funny, I tend to be more attractive.

02:18:00.880 But the rating is specifically about looks.

02:18:03.140 I mean, yeah, we can have a separate conversation about how personality fits in, especially with

02:18:07.760 women's attractiveness to men or like qualifiers, like power or whatever, but we're just talking

02:18:13.180 looks right now.

02:18:13.840 So it's a different conversation.

02:18:14.860 And men aren't like when they first see her, they're not, they're not saying like, wow,

02:18:19.380 I wonder what her personality is.

02:18:20.880 Right.

02:18:21.280 Like, right.

02:18:21.840 They're going, is she hot?

02:18:23.100 Well, look at her face.

02:18:24.100 Look at her butt.

02:18:24.780 Look at it.

02:18:25.080 You know what I mean?

02:18:25.540 They're not going, wow.

02:18:26.240 Look at her labia.

02:18:28.360 I wonder if she, you know, I wonder if she likes kids.

02:18:31.100 Like no man is thinking that.

02:18:33.240 Would you date a disabled person?

02:18:34.460 I think, you know what?

02:18:35.260 I, I think about that though.

02:18:36.680 I, I look at a woman and I'm like, does she want to bear me seven children?

02:18:40.820 What?

02:18:41.260 That's a factor or 10 even, you know, what was your question?

02:18:45.300 Would you date a disabled person?

02:18:46.800 What do you mean by disabled?

02:18:47.920 Um, my last ex had one arm.

02:18:50.260 You're disabled.

02:18:51.200 Tell me.

02:18:51.640 No, I'm not disabled.

02:18:52.820 I just dated a disabled.

02:18:54.180 Yeah.

02:18:54.460 Okay.

02:18:54.800 Just checking.

02:18:55.520 Yeah.

02:18:55.680 I'm good.

02:18:56.360 That's actually a good topic to get into.

02:18:59.020 Well, we won't shift quite yet.

02:19:00.900 I want to finish up the thing on the rating, but, uh, would I, would I date a disabled?

02:19:06.040 Yeah.

02:19:06.260 Like what would that make the rating go down is what I'm saying.

02:19:10.060 Like if she's missing a limb?

02:19:11.840 Yeah.

02:19:12.280 Like, it's a fair question.

02:19:13.480 Um, look, I mean, I'll answer truthfully.

02:19:19.080 Uh, it's not a deal breaker.

02:19:20.820 However, would it like practically speaking, would it be more optimal to date a woman who

02:19:26.240 has two arms?

02:19:28.480 Yeah.

02:19:29.180 She's giving you seven kids.

02:19:30.300 It'd be hard to carry them with one arm.

02:19:32.500 Yeah.

02:19:32.820 I mean, okay.

02:19:33.280 Well, he had a nub in a little something.

02:19:37.000 So he could, yeah, I mean, I don't think, I mean, look, if she otherwise, if she's, uh,

02:19:41.600 otherwise attractive and meets my other metrics, yeah, if she was like missing an arm, that's

02:19:46.040 like very small portion of the population.

02:19:48.620 But, uh, yeah, I, I would, it wouldn't be a deal breaker, but, um, uh, I could see it

02:19:56.940 presenting, uh, like possible problems, I guess.

02:20:03.280 I don't know.

02:20:04.120 Like, but, but no, it wouldn't be a deal breaker.

02:20:07.160 Okay.

02:20:07.340 But yes, realistically, if, if you're dating somebody who is disabled, as you put it,

02:20:12.960 is someone missing an arm disabled?

02:20:15.960 Yeah.

02:20:16.540 Yeah.

02:20:16.900 Yeah.

02:20:17.180 You're not able to use.

02:20:19.540 Yeah.

02:20:19.880 Yeah.

02:20:20.500 It's, you know, like if you're ableist, you know, you're.

02:20:23.300 Yeah.

02:20:23.680 Yeah.

02:20:23.960 If you're missing a pinky, are you disabled?

02:20:26.580 Yeah.

02:20:26.960 Yeah.

02:20:27.380 I don't, you're not disabled.

02:20:28.680 I don't think you're.

02:20:29.460 Because if you look at the opposite of the, of the disabled definition, it's someone who's

02:20:34.120 fully able bodied.

02:20:35.320 If you're missing even any part of your body, you're not fully able bodied.

02:20:39.740 Well, that's not true.

02:20:40.280 So I think if you were missing a, like one singular toe or like a, I don't think that

02:20:48.400 that would be like, even if you were a woodworker, I don't, Oh, look, I'm not a, maybe you need

02:20:55.760 the, the pinky, you need the pinky to rest.

02:20:59.220 I don't know.

02:21:00.240 I had an uncle that was missing three toes and it really messed him up.

02:21:03.340 It messes up your equilibrium.

02:21:04.400 You can't walk right.

02:21:05.580 Sure.

02:21:05.840 Yeah.

02:21:06.060 Sure.

02:21:06.480 Well, in any case, uh, not a deal breaker, but back to the looks rating thing, um, your

02:21:11.300 disagreement.

02:21:13.060 Yeah.

02:21:13.560 I think sometimes people can be too harsh on themselves and like also other people.

02:21:18.460 I think it's the opposite.

02:21:19.620 I think people are too delusional.

02:21:22.020 They think they're more attractive than they actually are.

02:21:23.980 Um, but I agree with you that, so men, for example, they can bring other things to the

02:21:31.920 table to make themselves appealing or attractive to women.

02:21:35.120 I'm not suggesting that looks are the only thing that matter, the be all end all, uh, plenty

02:21:43.680 of women date average looking men, plenty of average looking men, date average looking

02:21:48.520 women.

02:21:49.180 Um, some people date up, some people date down.

02:21:51.560 Some people are with their mostly looks equivalent, but I think to ignore the power that looks

02:21:59.640 does have is kind of a bit of a disservice.

02:22:05.880 Uh, I think if you're exceptionally good looking, whether you're a man or woman, you move through

02:22:12.340 the world in a very different way than an average looking person, uh, both for men and

02:22:18.100 for women, although perhaps the benefits are somewhat different.

02:22:21.280 Uh, and certainly when it comes to dating and, uh, one's romantic prospects, it certainly

02:22:28.520 helps to be good looking.

02:22:29.880 May I ask a question?

02:22:31.840 Well, I would like her to respond and then you can ask.

02:22:35.880 Um, do you disagree?

02:22:38.260 Like, do you think, do you think an average looking guy is going to have the same optionality

02:22:44.640 as like a 10 out of 10 fucking giga chad male?

02:22:50.400 Um, maybe not, but I think, um.

02:22:56.640 Uh, okay.

02:22:58.740 I, uh.

02:22:59.900 Not definitively?

02:23:01.440 It's, it's a maybe, okay.

02:23:04.520 Go ahead, continue.

02:23:05.580 Like, um, I do think that a more attractive person might have, like, more chances that

02:23:11.560 with, um, a person that's, like, also, like, the same attraction level as them, because

02:23:17.760 usually people are geared toward, like, when they're, like, kind of just as attractive

02:23:23.120 as each other, like, that's kind of how it goes.

02:23:26.580 So they would be able to date more attractive people?

02:23:31.560 Maybe.

02:23:32.760 Maybe.

02:23:36.200 Okay, so an average guy who lives in Idaho who works at Walmart, he's maybe on par with,

02:23:46.300 like, like, a male supermodel in terms of his ability to, uh, pull attraction from women?

02:23:56.280 Then probably not in that case, but it also, it always depends on the situation, too.

02:24:02.380 Because.

02:24:02.980 Okay.

02:24:03.600 Put the male supermodel.

02:24:04.320 Some attractive people think.

02:24:05.720 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

02:24:06.660 Put the male supermodel in that Walmart in Idaho.

02:24:10.540 Do the women in that Walmart, do you think they would, like, in terms of their attraction

02:24:16.440 to these two men, the average versus the average looking guy who's just an employee there,

02:24:20.680 uh, you think they're going to be, like, there's going to be an equal distribution of attraction?

02:24:25.960 Well, no.

02:24:29.060 Okay.

02:24:30.260 Um.

02:24:34.280 So.

02:24:38.360 Do you agree?

02:24:39.400 I'm just, or.

02:24:42.640 So, I agree, but I would say there's also situations where, like, depends a lot of the time.

02:24:50.680 Because some people date, um, some people are really, really attractive and they end up

02:24:56.000 dating, like, really, really average people.

02:24:58.520 Sure.

02:24:58.920 That, that phenomenon does happen.

02:25:00.800 But I'm not really interested in the depends.

02:25:03.160 I'm interested in more general principles here.

02:25:05.380 I acknowledge that there are, uh, people who can end up with somebody who's more physically

02:25:11.100 attractive than them.

02:25:12.520 Uh, that definitely happens in both directions.

02:25:16.540 Men and women will, will date up or down.

02:25:19.420 Um, but, uh, I guess I'm looking more for, as a general principle.

02:25:28.200 Oh.

02:25:33.180 But, yeah, I guess as a general principle, like, usually more attractive people will find, like,

02:25:39.860 more attractive people.

02:25:41.000 Like, if you look at it only in that sense, then yes.

02:25:45.180 Well, it's not just more attractive people will get the more attractive people.

02:25:50.220 If a really attractive man was so inclined, he could, like, basically have a harem of, like,

02:25:58.440 20 average-looking women.

02:26:00.320 If he was inclined to date them.

02:26:02.160 And they would be, they would, you, you give an average-looking woman access to a top-tier

02:26:08.360 man.

02:26:08.780 She will break all her fucking rules.

02:26:11.160 Not all women, just to be clear.

02:26:12.780 She'll break her rules.

02:26:13.960 She'll fuck them immediately.

02:26:15.360 She'll tolerate bad behavior.

02:26:17.200 She'll tolerate abuse.

02:26:18.620 She'll tolerate mistreatment.

02:26:19.980 Again, not all women.

02:26:22.680 To be with that guy who's just a better, frankly, truthfully genetic potential.

02:26:28.320 Yeah, yeah, that makes sense, I would say.

02:26:35.500 Again, not all women, though.

02:26:36.580 I'm not saying all women are going to tolerate poor behavior from men.

02:26:39.180 And I'm also not even saying, even if the guy is more attractive than the girl he's dating,

02:26:44.160 that he's going to mistreat her.

02:26:45.120 I'm not suggesting that.

02:26:46.840 But I am saying that in a, the dating marketplace is very competitive.

02:26:54.600 So you could have, and this is what we actually see on dating apps,

02:26:58.320 so you have basically 80% of the attention on dating apps from women.

02:27:02.540 And so that's going to encompass the most attractive women, attractive women,

02:27:07.660 average women, below average women.

02:27:09.740 All their attention, regardless of their own standing,

02:27:13.200 is still going up towards the most attractive men.

02:27:19.560 And so if a man was so inclined, he could have like 20 girlfriends.

02:27:23.400 Some of them could be as attractive as him.

02:27:25.280 And so what you'd have happening is some really attractive guy.

02:27:30.240 He's got 10 girlfriends.

02:27:31.500 He's got a bunch of chicks on the roster.

02:27:33.160 They're happy.

02:27:34.200 This average girl is just happy to be gang dick by some really hot dude.

02:27:38.440 And then the guy who's actually her looks equivalent,

02:27:41.000 who's on their equivalent league, he can't get her.

02:27:46.840 He, the average man, no longer has access to the average woman

02:27:50.920 because she's getting limited sexual access to a guy who's more attractive.

02:27:58.820 I just think it's very, very subjective.

02:28:06.540 What do you mean, subjective?

02:28:07.880 What's subjective?

02:28:08.500 For me, the intelligence level so that I can talk to some person

02:28:12.760 brings a lot of attractiveness, whether the face is not as attractive.

02:28:17.760 But yeah, I do look for some physical for the first time,

02:28:20.640 like the hair and height, for example, and whether he's fit.

02:28:25.300 How tall are you?

02:28:25.960 Um, 5'5".

02:28:28.040 What's the minimum height you would do?

02:28:30.120 5'10", because I wear heels.

02:28:33.020 Okay.

02:28:35.680 I mean...

02:28:36.560 So, you know, sometimes it's not like how symmetric the face

02:28:40.800 and how good looking or what's the color of the face.

02:28:43.600 It's mostly, I first exchange like the LinkedIn or like,

02:28:47.860 what's your education and job, you know?

02:28:50.340 Yeah, I mean, sometimes it reflects in your personality.

02:28:53.920 Like, I'm talking.

02:28:54.820 I should be talking with him.

02:28:57.280 Have you ever heard of something called pretty privilege?

02:29:00.920 No?

02:29:01.460 So, statistically, women, or generally people who are better looking

02:29:07.080 do better in life, generally.

02:29:09.960 So, looks do matter, right?

02:29:12.960 So, if you are unattractive, the chances of you getting that job that you wanted over somebody

02:29:19.860 that's really, really pretty isn't going to happen.

02:29:23.380 It's something called pretty privilege.

02:29:24.760 So, looks do matter, no matter what you say.

02:29:28.560 Yeah.

02:29:28.860 Really quick, I just need to shout some people out.

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02:29:39.680 Thank you, guys.

02:29:40.240 Appreciate it.

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02:29:44.320 Appreciate it.

02:29:44.800 So, I mean, you mentioned intelligence.

02:29:50.860 I think, and you guys feel free to weigh in, I think for women, I think for women it's

02:29:56.700 really hard to date a guy who's stupider than you.

02:30:00.220 Not sure if I can say the same thing about men.

02:30:02.300 I don't think really men care.

02:30:03.840 Well, hold on.

02:30:05.140 Let me qualify my statement.

02:30:06.460 Men are okay with dating women who are less intelligent than them.

02:30:13.180 I don't think men really look for that as a priority in women.

02:30:17.300 Now, I'm not saying it's not a positive.

02:30:20.060 I think it's good to, if the woman is intelligent, ideally she would have like a very high IQ

02:30:26.340 because if your desires of having children, you want to confer as many benefits to your

02:30:31.820 children as possible.

02:30:32.620 If she's intelligent and you're intelligent, I think IQ has to some degree.

02:30:36.720 Intelligence, to perhaps a large degree, can be genetic-based.

02:30:41.560 Not to say that, you know, we are not completely beholden and slaves to our genetic destiny,

02:30:49.780 as you might say.

02:30:50.860 But, yeah.

02:30:53.260 Like, if you want to have intelligent kids, it's probably good that you don't get with

02:30:59.160 like a really...

02:31:00.280 Okay, hold on.

02:31:00.820 I don't want to get...

02:31:01.880 I don't know if I'll get cancelled, but I do think, absent that, I don't think men

02:31:08.020 care that much about a woman's intelligence.

02:31:11.340 Actually, it's opposite.

02:31:12.940 I mean, both of my ex-husbands, they don't like that I'm more educated than them because

02:31:19.600 socially...

02:31:19.920 There's a reason they're...

02:31:20.720 Because socially...

02:31:21.740 They're your ex-husbands, right?

02:31:23.460 Yeah.

02:31:24.420 Yeah, I mean...

02:31:25.300 So, I mean, they feel so inferior, like they try to just make some, oh, she is just part-time

02:31:30.700 masters or like something to just pull me down in front of the society.

02:31:35.820 So, it's...

02:31:36.540 Yeah.

02:31:36.980 Yeah.

02:31:37.200 Well, I think, look, a woman having intelligence is a plus, although I want to caveat it with

02:31:44.580 I think sometimes people who are intelligent, and I think they've actually done studies on

02:31:52.120 this, there's a higher...

02:31:53.160 They tend to be a little higher in trait neuroticism.

02:31:56.300 So, that's like susceptibility to negative emotion, or you have a higher...

02:32:03.300 You experience negative emotion more, more sensitive to having negative emotion.

02:32:08.660 I think if you're kind of...

02:32:10.200 I don't want to say stupid.

02:32:12.020 Maybe stupid's the right word.

02:32:14.220 Simple.

02:32:14.900 If you're simple, like intellectually simple, in some ways it's like ignorance is bliss.

02:32:20.520 But if you're really intelligent, then you sometimes see things in the world, and you

02:32:26.260 ponder things, and you philosophize, and you're like...

02:32:30.980 I think sometimes being intelligent can be...

02:32:33.920 I don't know if I'm explaining this the right way.

02:32:36.560 So, like if my mother-in-law say that having a girl or boy, it's on me, and if I'm like innocently

02:32:45.140 dumb or something, I say, oh, yes, it's my problem, you know?

02:32:48.920 And then I will be happily ever after, you know, just aborting all my girl, child, and

02:32:54.220 having a boy one day.

02:32:55.560 And everybody happy, I'm still married to my first husband, yes.

02:32:59.300 So, if I'm uneducated, yes, I'm still married.

02:33:02.800 And I'm still, whatever violence is happening, I will still be happy.

02:33:07.380 I completely agree with your point.

02:33:10.620 I actually don't think education means you're smarter than everybody.

02:33:14.060 I think men in general, they don't want you to be remedial, but I mean, not having a lot

02:33:23.460 of experiences in the sense that they can teach you something, right?

02:33:26.560 So, it's about them showing you experiences that, like my husband, I consider very, very

02:33:30.540 intelligent, because he is.

02:33:32.180 And there was a lot that I didn't know.

02:33:34.460 There was a lot that, like, I was very misinformed about, and I had my own opinions and this and

02:33:38.980 that, and when he was able to show me and have these conversations with me, I'm not as

02:33:44.320 smart as him by any means, but I learned through him.

02:33:48.220 So, I don't think, like Brian said, I don't think it matters to a man how intelligent you

02:33:53.820 are.

02:33:54.240 I think it just matters your willingness to learn through him and to be able to kind

02:33:58.240 of embrace whatever he believes in at that point.

02:34:01.460 So, I don't think education really correlates to how smart you are.

02:34:07.500 That's true.

02:34:08.900 That's definitely true.

02:34:09.600 Like, you can still be very intelligent and not ever go to college.

02:34:15.680 So, intelligence isn't necessarily linked to, like, your education.

02:34:18.740 Yeah, that I say, because a lot of people have their startups and they are so successful,

02:34:23.900 drop out from school and college.

02:34:25.700 So, intelligence is different than education.

02:34:29.400 And I have, like, two master's degrees, but I cannot say that I'm a very intelligent person,

02:34:36.040 you know.

02:34:37.180 I feel like does, is some of that, like, cultural, though?

02:34:40.280 Yes.

02:34:40.720 Yes.

02:34:41.440 Yes.

02:34:41.760 I mean, whenever I talk, it's my emotional, like, intelligence, like, my past experience.

02:34:49.900 Okay.

02:34:52.680 Trying to think if there was anything else on the looks thing.

02:34:55.400 Could I ask my question?

02:34:56.580 Oh, yeah, yeah.

02:34:57.120 Of course.

02:34:57.200 Thank you.

02:34:57.540 Um, you had a resource on the Whatever Discord that was awesome that was a chart of the ratings,

02:35:04.120 the 10 to the 1, with a few photos of some celebrities.

02:35:08.080 Do you, I don't know if it's still available on there, and I'm wondering if that's still

02:35:11.820 available on there, if you agree with it overall.

02:35:15.920 Oh, I know what you're talking about.

02:35:17.600 That's from, like, the looks rating.

02:35:19.520 Right?

02:35:20.040 Yep.

02:35:21.060 Yeah, I don't think we have to pull it up, but I know what you're talking about.

02:35:23.900 Um, yeah.

02:35:25.340 I'm just curious, because that was another thing that I used to base my decisions, and

02:35:29.660 when I saw, like, like you said, you consider yourself a 4, 4.5, and you're saying you think

02:35:34.720 I'm below you, and when I saw, like, some of those 3s and 2s, they were, like, genetic

02:35:39.760 mishaps.

02:35:40.940 So, I'm just curious.

02:35:43.200 Uh, I'd have to pull it up.

02:35:45.400 Yeah.

02:35:45.600 Um, yeah.

02:35:48.320 That's fair.

02:35:48.760 I don't mean to detract.

02:35:49.720 Apologies.

02:35:50.880 Yeah, no, I mean, um, well, I, I think you're, like, talking about, like, 0.51, where it's,

02:35:57.380 yeah, I mean, it's, it's bad.

02:35:59.280 Um, but, like, 4, 3, I mean, it's, I don't think you're getting into.

02:36:06.240 The 2s and 3s were pretty brutal.

02:36:09.240 Yeah, I don't know.

02:36:10.120 Um, okay.

02:36:11.040 Uh, I'm trying to think if there's anything else on the looks rating.

02:36:13.860 By the way, uh, Nathan, have you checked the research tab for the, like, the AI stuff?

02:36:22.000 Yeah, we have it.

02:36:23.620 If you want to start pulling those, there's, looks like there's two batches.

02:36:29.220 Yeah, yeah, pull both batches if you can.

02:36:32.260 Um, and we'll do those momentarily.

02:36:35.220 Uh, Lisa, it looks like you had other disagreements, too.

02:36:39.420 Uh, well, you write, you feel like there's more to dating than just looks.

02:36:42.900 A person can be attractive, but it's more about the personality than the looks.

02:36:48.620 I mean, personality obviously matters for both men and women.

02:36:52.320 But I think, I think looks is going to be kind of the first thing.

02:36:57.440 It's going to be the first thing.

02:36:59.420 Yeah.

02:37:00.800 And, uh, yeah.

02:37:03.360 Um, you don't agree with the whole thing about asking people if they're a virgin right away?

02:37:08.180 Until you get to know the person more?

02:37:10.360 Can you clarify?

02:37:11.900 Yeah, so that, um, means that there has to be, like, a sort of, like, level of dating where you, um, are able to open up to the person more about, like, um, personal things like that.

02:37:27.540 Um, and then also, like, that's not something that, um, I would personally answer, like, on the first date.

02:37:37.120 I think maybe, like, um, maybe, like, more of the third date.

02:37:43.820 Um, are you Christian?

02:37:45.860 Yes.

02:37:46.620 What denomination?

02:37:48.080 Um, Orthodox Christianity.

02:37:50.480 Eastern Orthodox?

02:37:51.760 Yes.

02:37:52.680 Okay.

02:37:53.700 Have you been baptized?

02:37:55.620 Uh, not yet.

02:37:56.540 I'm a catechumen.

02:37:58.100 Okay, but you go to, like, divine liturgy and...

02:38:00.820 Yes.

02:38:01.440 Okay.

02:38:02.520 Um, why do you object to being asked that question?

02:38:12.360 I don't understand.

02:38:13.880 Um, because it's...

02:38:15.120 Like, what's wrong with it?

02:38:17.340 It's not necessarily that it's wrong to ask that question.

02:38:20.820 It's more so just, um, you have to be, like, in a comfortable spot, like, to answer that question.

02:38:29.200 Um, it's not something that I personally would answer on a first date.

02:38:33.460 I mean, if other people do, that's fine, but it's not something that I personally prefer.

02:38:40.140 Hmm.

02:38:43.520 Well, that's hinting at you not being a virgin.

02:38:46.640 Is that fair to say?

02:38:47.680 Um, I'm not going to get into that.

02:38:51.460 Okay.

02:38:52.180 Um, people are going to make some assumptions, then.

02:38:57.120 Uh, well, that seems a bit unfair.

02:39:00.280 So just to...

02:39:00.860 So let me ask you this.

02:39:01.780 Let's say you're on a date with an Orthodox Christian man, and he...

02:39:05.500 He asks you on the first date, uh, if you're a virgin,

02:39:10.680 would you refuse to answer the question?

02:39:14.420 It would depend on the guy, probably.

02:39:19.140 Like, say the date goes well, like, um, and then if he asks me that question, like,

02:39:24.400 by the way, are you a virgin?

02:39:26.260 I would probably answer, but if the date goes wrong, and, like, if I'm not comfortable with,

02:39:31.800 like, answering that, I don't see why I would answer that.

02:39:36.560 Okay.

02:39:37.100 I'll be...

02:39:37.740 I'm going to come right back to this conversation.

02:39:39.520 It looks like you want to...

02:39:40.280 What's wrong with that question?

02:39:41.980 Like, why wouldn't you want them to ask that?

02:39:45.100 Like, what's the big deal?

02:39:47.520 Um, it's just, um, like, not something that I'm comfortable with on the first date, so...

02:39:55.400 But for them, if it's a requirement for them, and you really, really like them, like, you

02:39:59.680 really like them, he's perfect in every way, and it's a requirement for him to know that

02:40:03.860 your body count isn't, like, 70, you know?

02:40:07.020 Or if he, like, if you're a virgin, this is the one thing that is going to determine whether

02:40:10.540 or not you two go further.

02:40:12.600 Why is he not allowed to know?

02:40:14.800 Like, why does that bother you?

02:40:15.800 Um, I mean, if that's the only thing that matters, then maybe I would answer it.

02:40:23.380 Okay.

02:40:24.240 Maybe it's the way they ask, too.

02:40:25.200 It is important.

02:40:26.380 It could be the way they ask.

02:40:27.620 Maybe they could say, like, you know, instead of going, hey, so, like, have you ever done

02:40:30.480 it?

02:40:30.660 Or, hey, are you a virgin?

02:40:31.740 You know?

02:40:32.060 It could just be like, hey, like, so what are your views on this?

02:40:35.620 Well, if we could parallel, an absolute deal breaker for her is, do you want to have sex

02:40:41.580 before marriage?

02:40:42.680 Isn't it fair for her to ask that on a first date?

02:40:45.800 Um, yes, that would be fair.

02:40:49.980 So, it's a sexual question, and it's a deal breaker, and something that's really important

02:40:53.660 to her.

02:40:54.380 So, if you're on a date with a man, the virginity question is, or body count question, is a deal

02:41:02.220 breaker potentially for them, and it's a sexually related question.

02:41:04.900 So, why is there the double standard there?

02:41:07.640 Um, it could be a deal breaker.

02:41:10.980 Um, but, again, I would say, like, if you're not comfortable with a certain question, I

02:41:17.700 don't think you have to answer it on the first date.

02:41:19.620 Um, maybe they'll, um, be like, okay, um, that's really important to me, then this doesn't

02:41:25.800 work out.

02:41:26.420 Um, and then, at that point, you would just have to, like, find, um, like, what, like,

02:41:34.800 works for you.

02:41:36.240 Like, that's why you go on dates to, like, find a good match.

02:41:39.940 But, like, why, why is it, like, why is it bad to ask?

02:41:43.720 Like, really quick before you answer, I'm going to let this TTS come out.

02:41:47.420 Thank you, Justin.

02:41:48.460 Based underscore Justin 69 donated $200.

02:41:52.240 Thank you, man.

02:41:53.080 Intelligence, sure.

02:41:54.880 An educated woman with degrees, big red flag.

02:41:58.040 Almost certainly an unmanageable and destructive level of feminist indoctrination that provides

02:42:03.940 no upside for a family.

02:42:06.220 Okay.

02:42:06.900 That's a lot of Indian men thinks that way.

02:42:09.640 That a working woman who has, who is educated is a red flag.

02:42:14.600 But in my, both of my marriage, I was a giver.

02:42:18.860 I was like, they said, you have to wear sari.

02:42:22.280 And I wear sari whether I'm comfortable or not.

02:42:25.320 Okay, sorry.

02:42:26.020 I did not, like, say, yeah.

02:42:27.620 Somebody donated, looks like you bought a T-shirt and a hoodie.

02:42:30.700 Thank you very much, man.

02:42:31.420 Appreciate it.

02:42:32.400 Okay, so back to the, that thing.

02:42:35.960 But it seems like, is it fair to say that for Christian, how old are you again?

02:42:44.920 I'm 26.

02:42:46.060 26.

02:42:47.240 Okay.

02:42:47.860 For Christian men, perhaps even Orthodox Christian men, that this could be something that's important

02:42:53.880 to them?

02:42:54.780 Yes.

02:42:55.120 Like, they wanted their virgin.

02:42:57.040 Saying they want a woman who's a virgin?

02:42:58.720 Yes.

02:42:59.660 Okay, so, I mean, the read here from the male perspective would be, like, they're just going

02:43:06.780 to assume your refusal to not answer the question, she's not a virgin.

02:43:12.000 Probably.

02:43:12.480 And I feel like they would assume that with other women in the church who are also not

02:43:18.940 virgins if they refuse to answer that question.

02:43:21.440 Or it might just be, like, you have to feel more comfortable to answer that question, like,

02:43:28.080 later on.

02:43:29.000 Like, maybe not the first date, but, like...

02:43:31.480 Yeah, I feel like that's something, like, is not typical, like, first date questions.

02:43:35.820 Usually it's, like, what's your favorite color?

02:43:37.400 What kind of bands do you like?

02:43:39.260 How many guys have you slept with?

02:43:40.500 That's not really, like, something I see on, like, first dates.

02:43:43.180 You know, so I'm...

02:43:44.040 I'm fine with it, though.

02:43:45.120 I'll accept it.

02:43:46.420 So, it's kind of like, and, you know, if it's a first date, like, I'm not sure if I

02:43:49.920 feel comfortable sharing...

02:43:50.360 Closer to the mic, please.

02:43:51.200 Sorry.

02:43:51.620 I don't know if I would, like, feel comfortable sharing, you know, very intimate details about

02:43:55.520 myself.

02:43:55.960 Say, for God forbid, something happened to my husband and, you know, dated somebody.

02:44:01.480 I don't think I would want on a first date to, like, give him my whole...

02:44:05.780 Well, so...

02:44:06.680 Oh, did you want to come in?

02:44:07.640 Yeah.

02:44:07.980 Um, I mean, like, I agree.

02:44:09.620 I don't think, like, it's something that I'm going, hey, like, I'm going to go on a first

02:44:12.560 date and tell this guy my body count, but at the same time, I feel like it's unfair because,

02:44:16.900 like, for example, you're waiting to be comfortable with them.

02:44:19.660 What if you guys are, like, a month in, you guys aren't dating, but you guys have been talking,

02:44:24.180 and all of a sudden you find out he has a body count of 70?

02:44:28.540 Like, how are you going to feel about that?

02:44:30.520 Don't you wish you would have known that sooner before you got deeper into it?

02:44:34.140 Um, well, it depends because in my, like, dating, I like to take things more slow rather

02:44:43.620 than to, like, rush it, so the way that I date, I tell the guys straight up, hey, I

02:44:48.020 just like to take things kind of slower, um, and then...

02:44:52.020 But I'm saying for you, like, what if you fell for someone in a time span of a month,

02:44:55.720 and you're a Christian, how would you feel if this person that you've created a relation,

02:45:00.860 somewhat of a relationship with, all of a sudden tells you, hey, I have a 70 body count.

02:45:05.360 Are you going to wish you knew that sooner before getting deeper in?

02:45:09.200 Probably, but at that point, I don't think it, like, would matter if it didn't work out.

02:45:17.480 But if I can, let's change the body count to...

02:45:22.100 The body count isn't just about the body count.

02:45:24.540 It's an indicator of behavior.

02:45:26.180 So it's the choices you make and the way you behave.

02:45:30.720 So in the same sense, let's say that you get, you ask a guy, do you have a criminal record?

02:45:35.740 And he goes, I'm not comfortable discussing that with you.

02:45:38.640 I'll be comfortable to discuss that maybe a month or two from now.

02:45:41.660 There really isn't a difference there because if it's something that matters and it's a personality

02:45:46.760 indicator, it's critical to know that right off the bat because, frankly, you don't want

02:45:51.500 to waste time with someone who doesn't align with you.

02:45:54.260 If I like someone on the first date, like, very impressive personality, and maybe I might

02:46:02.620 share.

02:46:03.520 But if I meet somebody on the first date and I say something looking fishy or something,

02:46:08.900 I will not be comfortable sharing.

02:46:11.460 You know, so it's very subjective.

02:46:12.600 Well, yeah, but you already don't like the guys, so...

02:46:14.840 Yeah, so, like, it doesn't matter.

02:46:15.960 I mean, it's like, at that point...

02:46:17.700 It also depends on the guy, too.

02:46:20.060 If I'm really comfortable on the first date, then, yeah, I might share that, so...

02:46:24.100 Like, physical appearance.

02:46:25.160 But I think what we're getting at here is it's seeing...

02:46:28.020 I'm curious if...

02:46:29.700 If they ask the question, are you going to feel upset that they asked it?

02:46:36.180 Offended.

02:46:36.560 I'm not necessarily going to feel offended.

02:46:40.420 I would just...

02:46:41.220 I might feel a little uncomfortable, but I would probably answer it.

02:46:46.840 Like, if that was a deal-breaker for him, and if that was serious, then, yeah, I would

02:46:52.540 answer that.

02:46:54.020 I think he just wants evidence of your self-control.

02:46:56.200 Yeah.

02:46:59.580 Yeah.

02:47:01.080 But you...

02:47:02.040 It wasn't just, like, that you would feel discomfort with it.

02:47:06.920 You specifically wrote you don't agree with asking people if they're a virgin right away.

02:47:12.340 So you had a specific disagreement.

02:47:15.400 You have an actual issue with the question itself being asked.

02:47:18.760 Um, it's not necessarily, like, an issue asking it.

02:47:27.660 I think maybe more the way it's being asked.

02:47:30.620 Is it wrong for a guy to ask the question?

02:47:32.800 No.

02:47:34.480 Okay.

02:47:34.980 But you disagree with them asking it.

02:47:37.640 I mean, you pointed out that it perhaps is a bit not normal.

02:47:43.380 Yeah, maybe it's the timing.

02:47:44.280 Most men don't do that.

02:47:45.800 But actually, I mean, I can't actually see any objection.

02:47:49.300 Look, if you're dating intentionally, and you're like, I'm trying to see if you're going

02:47:54.960 to be a future girlfriend, I understand, like, you know, to be fair, though, I mean, just

02:48:00.180 thinking about it in my head, you know, maybe there's not, there's certain questions you're

02:48:06.040 not going to immediately just ask, I guess.

02:48:09.960 I would say important and hard questions right up front.

02:48:12.580 Yeah, I agree.

02:48:13.380 I feel like it's better to not waste your time.

02:48:15.560 If it's something that's important to you, and it's potentially a deal breaker, like,

02:48:19.220 for example, how about this?

02:48:21.600 You want to have kids, you want to get married.

02:48:25.280 On a first date, you're not, probably not planning to have kids, like, anytime soon, but I think

02:48:30.960 it's, do you want to have kids?

02:48:33.600 And if they say no, that's a complete misalignment.

02:48:36.760 You probably want to, why would you continue dating them?

02:48:40.660 Exactly.

02:48:41.160 So like for, in this case, it's like they're perhaps asking the question, because if it's

02:48:47.680 important to them, they, I mean, it's maybe you want to date them, and this revelation

02:48:54.300 to them might change their mind.

02:48:56.740 But wouldn't you want to get out sooner rather than later?

02:48:59.420 Like if there's something about me, uh, that would be a problem for a woman, I'd rather

02:49:04.100 she just know sooner that way.

02:49:06.280 I'm not wasting time.

02:49:07.220 She's not wasting time.

02:49:08.100 Yep.

02:49:08.560 Yeah.

02:49:08.960 So for me, I just kind of want to get, I want to know the details.

02:49:14.140 Shit.

02:49:14.600 I got a girlfriend application.

02:49:16.480 They got it.

02:49:17.360 It's a fucking questionnaire.

02:49:18.940 A hundred questions.

02:49:20.420 Not, not a hundred.

02:49:21.960 They got it.

02:49:22.680 Shit.

02:49:23.960 There's a lot.

02:49:24.680 Have you been to therapy?

02:49:27.980 I should show it one day.

02:49:29.540 I'm going to, one day I'm going to show my, my girlfriend application.

02:49:33.000 It's intense.

02:49:33.760 It's fucking gnarly.

02:49:35.740 You know, I'm asking, I think I'm asking way more invasive questions.

02:49:40.520 Do you take any medications?

02:49:43.640 That's a good one.

02:49:44.720 Yeah.

02:49:44.920 That's a really good one.

02:49:45.820 That's a good one.

02:49:46.480 Therapy.

02:49:46.920 I don't know.

02:49:47.340 Shit.

02:49:47.500 She's on fucking psycho, whatever the, psycho, what the, um,

02:49:52.480 psychotropic, no, not, not, not psychedelic.

02:50:00.220 Like if you, like for example, if a woman has schizophrenia, I think I'd rather know

02:50:05.400 up front, but like, I feel like if you don't ask that, maybe you can tell, I guess, but

02:50:10.420 if they're medicated, eh, not really.

02:50:12.480 Anybody here have schizophrenia?

02:50:14.080 You?

02:50:14.700 Oh, you made a face.

02:50:15.440 I don't know.

02:50:17.600 Who's bipolar?

02:50:18.600 Anybody bipolar here at the BPD?

02:50:21.580 Anything?

02:50:21.860 Any personality disorders here?

02:50:23.740 We have a very mentally healthy panel, I guess.

02:50:25.780 Uh, we have a, hold on, uh, TTS here coming in right away from Brian.

02:50:30.900 Brian donated $200.

02:50:33.480 Do you value honesty and people being up front with you?

02:50:37.380 Yes or no?

02:50:38.540 If yes, don't waste people's tome.

02:50:41.560 Ask and answer the hard questions on the first date.

02:50:44.700 Look, I get that it can feel a bit like interrogation or interviewee or autistic to like ask some

02:50:52.360 of these questions on the first date.

02:50:54.620 I get that like the vibe or whatever, you know, the vibe.

02:50:57.560 That's your potential spouse.

02:50:59.060 Yeah, if it's important and look, people are busy, who wants to waste time?

02:51:06.020 Like, well, I'm going to take a girl on four dates, pay for the, by the way, it's an interesting

02:51:09.400 position.

02:51:10.020 Should the guy pay for the first date?

02:51:11.480 No.

02:51:12.800 Well, that's right.

02:51:13.340 I would say yes.

02:51:14.760 Second date.

02:51:15.360 Should the guys pay for the dates?

02:51:16.880 Yes.

02:51:18.040 Okay.

02:51:18.640 Now, so now it's like both of you are investing your time, but from the male perspective,

02:51:23.460 it's not, look, I mean, depends on what kind of expectations, what kind of lifestyle you're

02:51:28.920 living.

02:51:29.360 But from the guy's perspective, it's like, it's not just his time.

02:51:34.760 Now he's spending money.

02:51:35.860 Now it's like, okay, give me the intel.

02:51:38.160 Give me the intel.

02:51:38.800 But even just from time perspective, like I'd rather a red flag or a deal breaker surface

02:51:44.620 immediately than it surfaced six months into a relationship.

02:51:49.300 Great.

02:51:49.500 I fucking wasted six months.

02:51:50.780 And women can feel that way too.

02:51:52.340 Oh my God.

02:51:52.760 I spent, I gave this guy three years from, I gave him my best years and deal breaker two

02:52:00.980 years in.

02:52:02.040 Didn't think to ask about it.

02:52:03.440 You know, he didn't want kids.

02:52:05.580 It's like, okay, well, shit.

02:52:08.020 So in an arranged marriage setup, like Indian arranged marriage, you have a-

02:52:12.400 This applies to like 0.0001% of the population in the United States.

02:52:15.980 I know, but they have like a bio data.

02:52:18.120 That's what I'm like-

02:52:18.960 A bio?

02:52:19.840 Yeah.

02:52:20.300 The bio data of a girl and bio data of a boy.

02:52:22.760 Bio data?

02:52:23.760 Yes.

02:52:24.080 I'm fucking adding that to my-

02:52:25.840 She has to, she's got to take a genetic test.

02:52:30.000 She's got to take, I'm going to, in fact, I'm adding IQ test.

02:52:34.400 Fertility.

02:52:34.840 I'm, she's got to do the water level test.

02:52:39.320 All the girls, I printed this on the back of the questionnaires, guys.

02:52:42.580 I don't know if you guys are familiar with the water level test.

02:52:45.520 I made all the women at the table do it.

02:52:48.260 I think I'm going to have my, you know, girlfriend prospects do that.

02:52:52.500 IQ test, genetic testing, fertility testing.

02:52:57.200 Anyways, whatever.

02:53:00.780 I like that, though.

02:53:02.080 And then astrological match.

02:53:04.820 Well, that's-

02:53:05.760 Your charts.

02:53:07.040 So, you know, like, then I realized, yes, is in India, we use all the, before even the

02:53:14.000 girls and the boy meet, we check, okay, what's the color of the girl?

02:53:19.000 Is she fair?

02:53:19.840 It's too fair if she wheatish?

02:53:22.280 That's also our criteria.

02:53:23.420 Like the skin color?

02:53:24.440 Yes.

02:53:24.840 Damn, what the fuck, India?

02:53:26.360 Yeah.

02:53:26.800 Shit, racist.

02:53:28.300 Yeah.

02:53:29.060 What the fuck, India?

02:53:29.680 But-

02:53:30.300 The caste, is it the caste system or is that something else?

02:53:32.920 That's, that's like your position.

02:53:34.680 That's like Asia.

02:53:35.480 But you're saying how great the system is and you have two arranged marriages that are

02:53:39.940 failures.

02:53:40.400 Do you think I-

02:53:40.760 No, I don't, I don't say that's a good system.

02:53:43.700 Okay.

02:53:44.000 You know, like, I like American system, to be honest.

02:53:46.700 Do you think I would kill it in India?

02:53:48.860 Do you think I would do good?

02:53:50.140 Like, do you think I'd crush-

02:53:51.180 Oh, you are like 10 out of 10.

02:53:53.460 Would I crush it in India?

02:53:55.480 You know what's crazy to think about?

02:53:56.840 There's 1.4 million, billion, excuse me, 1.4 billion people in India.

02:54:01.520 And then also in China.

02:54:02.860 See?

02:54:03.380 I think India's a little bit ahead in population.

02:54:05.840 And we only have, what, like 300, 400 mil?

02:54:08.360 Yeah.

02:54:09.100 In between there in the US?

02:54:10.880 What's the number?

02:54:12.660 Can you, what's the exact population number?

02:54:14.840 Maybe the chat.

02:54:18.440 Have more babies, Americans.

02:54:21.040 How?

02:54:21.460 How much?

02:54:22.060 3.40.

02:54:22.600 3.40.

02:54:23.580 Damn.

02:54:24.540 So China has like 4X?

02:54:28.120 4 times.

02:54:29.040 And I wonder if that 3.40 is factoring in legal immigrants as well.

02:54:34.300 I don't know.

02:54:35.200 Probably, maybe.

02:54:36.580 But shit.

02:54:38.260 Damn.

02:54:38.960 That's crazy.

02:54:40.400 That's a lot of people.

02:54:41.520 So one of my husband's, like, my, I hit above my, like, he's way better than me in every

02:54:50.700 way.

02:54:51.060 Like, I did well.

02:54:52.940 But one of his things when he told me, and a lot of girls are going to come for me for

02:54:57.760 this, or come for him for this, was one of his requirements was that I had to lose weight.

02:55:04.240 I was 240 pounds.

02:55:05.880 And he, deadass, looked at me and said, I, if you want to, if I have to spend the rest

02:55:11.680 of my life with you, you're going to have to lose weight.

02:55:14.340 Yes!

02:55:16.200 Yeah.

02:55:17.540 Yes!

02:55:18.360 So, how did you weigh differently?

02:55:20.420 How did the women feel about that?

02:55:22.260 Wait, wait.

02:55:22.720 So he said, wait, he was like dating you though?

02:55:26.180 We were seeing each other.

02:55:27.480 So he was, and he was like, yo, listen, you kind of fat.

02:55:32.560 Did he say that shit?

02:55:33.740 His exact words, I love you, babe.

02:55:36.200 But his exact words were, because I remember we were in a restaurant and a firefighter

02:55:41.760 got up and she was a woman.

02:55:42.820 She was thin.

02:55:43.540 Her body was like amazing.

02:55:45.760 And he looked at her and he looked at me and he said, if I'm going to spend the rest of

02:55:51.200 my life with you, you're going to have to give me something to look at.

02:55:56.060 And that motivated you to do it.

02:55:58.300 And I did.

02:55:59.120 Yeah.

02:55:59.360 And you look amazing.

02:56:00.140 I lost a hundred pounds.

02:56:02.280 Sometimes it's sickness, you know?

02:56:04.560 It's sickness.

02:56:05.060 Yes.

02:56:05.520 Damn.

02:56:06.140 Your husband?

02:56:08.300 That's my husband.

02:56:09.560 Is kind of a savage.

02:56:11.520 And it worked.

02:56:12.880 Like, I'm kind of an asshole.

02:56:16.000 I don't even think I could get away with that.

02:56:18.300 That's shit.

02:56:20.620 Well, like I said, like my, like.

02:56:22.280 Like, like, why not, but why not just start out with a skinny woman?

02:56:25.740 Like, if you're going to pick, like, go on the date, like, were you catfishing?

02:56:30.000 No, of course not.

02:56:30.960 But I was.

02:56:31.560 Then why did he, if it's important to him, I mean, good for you though that you've lost

02:56:35.820 some weight.

02:56:36.460 But.

02:56:36.780 Well, here's the thing.

02:56:38.040 It's because I had all, like, I had all the aspects that he wanted.

02:56:41.440 Like, I wasn't, I wasn't very educated.

02:56:43.660 I was very, I gave him all of, like, everything that he wanted.

02:56:48.720 But the weight problem.

02:56:49.940 You said yourself, Brian, though, that men will sleep with a woman and not necessarily go

02:56:53.880 into the relationship.

02:56:55.100 So, maybe they were there.

02:56:56.960 And he said, if we want to go all the way and if you want me to really take you serious,

02:57:00.360 this is the thing that's my deal breaker.

02:57:02.340 Yeah.

02:57:02.440 So, I mean, that's up.

02:57:03.460 And that was a deal breaker for him.

02:57:05.280 He could have said it more gently, baby.

02:57:06.560 Was it the first date, though?

02:57:08.220 It worked.

02:57:09.140 Was it the first date?

02:57:09.480 That's just tone policing, right?

02:57:10.780 If he goes, I mean, whether he's saying it that way and getting to the point or going,

02:57:15.800 hey, babe, like, maybe we should go take a walk together.

02:57:19.400 It's not, it's still the same thing.

02:57:20.400 No, I'm not talking like that.

02:57:22.480 It's just.

02:57:22.880 That's the principle.

02:57:23.720 Yeah, exactly.

02:57:24.800 And I think the fact that you accepted it means that you knew it, too, that you weren't giving

02:57:28.840 yourself as much as you could and that you wanted to do better for you, too.

02:57:32.080 My life changed after that.

02:57:34.240 It was, my life changed exponentially.

02:57:37.100 Like, my, it was crazy.

02:57:39.200 And I had more value in my, like, I felt my self-worth was more after that because I had

02:57:45.240 tried so hard to lose the weight, be a better person, go to church, all of that.

02:57:51.100 And it was all because of him and for him.

02:57:54.280 And he is the most wonderful person you'll ever meet.

02:57:58.240 Like, I love this man, like, unconditionally.

02:58:02.940 And to carry a baby, you know, if you are fit, then it's easier to carry the babies.

02:58:08.680 So sometimes.

02:58:09.060 Well, we're not having kids.

02:58:10.480 But I mean, like.

02:58:11.380 Oh, yeah.

02:58:11.840 Yeah.

02:58:12.160 But, like, we, I mean, we're close.

02:58:14.720 He cares about you.

02:58:15.580 Tough love.

02:58:16.120 It is tough love.

02:58:17.000 Well, let's be fair.

02:58:18.440 He cares about your health.

02:58:19.220 Yeah.

02:58:19.580 Yeah.

02:58:19.820 Like, I'm saying it with no context.

02:58:21.960 Like, I was a hardcore feminist.

02:58:24.040 Like, hardcore.

02:58:25.500 Just all of that.

02:58:26.820 And he, like, he changed my world around me.

02:58:29.960 He converted you.

02:58:30.600 Oh, yeah.

02:58:31.040 Like, as much as we have this modern thing where women are saying, I love the fact that

02:58:35.980 I'm fat, all the women who, celebrity-wise, that say that they love that they're fat got

02:58:41.040 on GLP-1s and are now some of the skinniest broads you see.

02:58:44.340 Yep.

02:58:44.540 So, I mean, if we're really being honest, and I'm speaking to someone where I understand

02:58:48.060 I'm not kidding myself.

02:58:49.720 I know what I look like.

02:58:51.120 But I also know that when I did lose weight, and I lost 80 pounds and unfortunately put it

02:58:56.280 back on, when I lost that weight, I feel better about myself in every way.

02:58:59.700 I loved going to the gym.

02:59:01.680 I loved, like, everything I was doing.

02:59:03.500 I loved the attention I was getting from it.

02:59:05.800 I felt much better about myself.

02:59:08.560 And it gave me advantages.

02:59:10.000 Like, you talked about the pretty privilege.

02:59:11.700 It gave me job advantages.

02:59:13.520 It gave me a lot of advantages.

02:59:15.140 So, to absolutely say, like I said, him pushing you there, I mean, you're stunning.

02:59:20.760 Like, you killed it.

02:59:21.760 There's that.

02:59:23.360 And because, I mean, it wasn't just the weight thing.

02:59:26.600 It was, like, changing my entire life around and losing the weight.

02:59:30.060 He respects me on a whole other level.

02:59:32.800 Like, in a way that I never thought I could see in a man.

02:59:36.860 Like, I have everything.

02:59:38.400 He affords me everything.

02:59:39.880 I would not be here if it wasn't for him.

02:59:42.540 Like, he's not visiting California, right?

02:59:46.540 I am.

02:59:47.180 And that was afforded to me because of him.

02:59:50.700 So, I mean, it may not be the nicest way to say something, but it got me to where I am.

02:59:57.580 And it got me the man that I wanted.

02:59:59.340 All right, boys.

02:59:59.900 This is what you have to fucking do.

03:00:04.320 How did you meet him?

03:00:05.140 A dating app?

03:00:05.820 Or what was the?

03:00:06.800 Oh, boy.

03:00:07.600 We actually, you're going to laugh.

03:00:09.660 We met each other on Discord playing video games.

03:00:13.340 All right, boys.

03:00:14.980 This is what you're going to do.

03:00:16.180 You're going to meet some chick.

03:00:17.360 You're going to be at what was the game?

03:00:19.060 Oh, Splatoon.

03:00:20.900 Splatoon.

03:00:21.340 Oh, wow.

03:00:22.980 All right, boys.

03:00:23.820 Go me.

03:00:24.640 You're in the fucking Megabonk Discord.

03:00:27.520 And you're going to find a 240-pound woman.

03:00:31.940 And the first date, what you're going to do, just so romantic, she's going to swoon after this.

03:00:38.120 You're going to call her fat and be like, listen, you want a piece of this?

03:00:42.340 You got to lose some fucking weight.

03:00:44.180 It'll work 99% of the time.

03:00:46.020 Trust me, boys.

03:00:47.160 She can agree.

03:00:48.100 She can vouch.

03:00:49.460 It'll 100%.

03:00:49.980 Look, it worked in your situation.

03:00:52.720 Yeah, I know.

03:00:53.460 For sure.

03:00:53.920 Super savage thing to say.

03:00:55.260 How long did you know him prior?

03:00:56.760 One sec before that.

03:00:58.000 Yeah, but that is not going to fly for like 90 minutes.

03:01:04.200 I realize that, but.

03:01:06.820 Not going to fly.

03:01:08.000 But you're one of 100, I guess.

03:01:10.740 But like my, you have to understand that men are not, like when they're really, really nice and they say stuff to you that sounds so perfect, that's not a man.

03:01:22.220 Yeah.

03:01:22.400 A man is direct and they need to get whatever it is out.

03:01:25.940 And you have to allow them that.

03:01:27.480 If you want something with them, you have to allow them to be able to say what they have and not be all emotional about it.

03:01:33.500 Because they know, and I think Brian can agree, they know that sometimes when they say something, it doesn't come out the way that they want it to, but they mean well.

03:01:43.700 It's, it's kind of that.

03:01:45.240 You kind of just got to accept that and maybe just ask, like, wait.

03:01:49.040 Sorry, continue, continue.

03:01:50.140 No, I go ahead.

03:01:50.920 I'm done.

03:01:51.300 Oh, yeah, I had a question.

03:01:52.740 Did y'all, you know, have, it was the first date he said that?

03:01:56.540 No, no, no, no.

03:01:57.140 We had been dating for, I think it was like, oh, like a month.

03:02:01.000 No, no, no, no, no.

03:02:02.060 Still, still early on though.

03:02:03.800 Yeah.

03:02:04.060 Had you guys been intimate though, prior to this, the statement?

03:02:08.520 No, actually.

03:02:10.240 He, I.

03:02:12.740 Oh, he was holding back.

03:02:13.880 Yeah, he was.

03:02:15.160 He was holding back.

03:02:16.220 He was.

03:02:16.880 So you were trying.

03:02:17.940 Mm-hmm.

03:02:18.420 Oh, shit.

03:02:19.780 Yeah.

03:02:20.280 Oh, shit.

03:02:21.200 Okay.

03:02:21.660 Damn.

03:02:22.200 Well, of course he was.

03:02:23.280 And he was like, you get drop below two.

03:02:26.140 Yep.

03:02:26.320 Then you get some dick.

03:02:27.280 Mm-hmm.

03:02:27.580 Was that actually.

03:02:28.560 Well, he, he was basically like, I can't do this.

03:02:32.240 Oh, shit.

03:02:33.140 Okay.

03:02:34.300 Oh, he, wait, were you guys naked?

03:02:37.460 And he.

03:02:37.940 No, no, no, no.

03:02:39.040 We were at breakfast.

03:02:40.000 That's brutal.

03:02:40.900 Imagine you undress.

03:02:42.120 Imagine you undress a woman.

03:02:43.640 And then you're like.

03:02:45.860 Now put your clothes back on.

03:02:46.800 I changed my mind.

03:02:48.020 I changed my mind.

03:02:49.300 I feel like shit.

03:02:50.440 I mean, look.

03:02:51.380 Hey, look.

03:02:52.060 Guy.

03:02:52.640 Man.

03:02:54.140 Whew.

03:02:54.640 You're a trooper.

03:02:55.420 I mean, I don't know what else to say.

03:02:56.700 You're a trooper for that.

03:02:57.680 That's.

03:03:00.720 I'm going to try that, though.

03:03:01.860 Next girl I date.

03:03:02.700 I'm like, I'm going to just pinch her.

03:03:06.880 And be like, look.

03:03:08.860 You want it to work long term?

03:03:10.720 I need you to message me if it works.

03:03:14.460 I think that's an even better test than the bow.

03:03:17.080 If a woman's willing to go through that, that's your ride or die.

03:03:21.260 I guess.

03:03:22.380 I guess.

03:03:23.260 I also feel it's very risky.

03:03:25.340 You know, it's like.

03:03:26.880 It's very risky.

03:03:28.280 I feel like a lot of.

03:03:29.420 Not a lot of women are going to be okay with that.

03:03:32.800 I don't like to.

03:03:33.960 I don't like to like insult a girl I'm dating.

03:03:37.100 You know.

03:03:38.320 Plus, who am I to speak?

03:03:39.220 I'm a little chubby.

03:03:39.800 I think a lot of women.

03:03:41.460 Well, I think a lot of women.

03:03:43.060 Like you said, they're kind of delusional.

03:03:44.980 My mom calls me.

03:03:45.680 No, but hold on.

03:03:46.400 Women are like.

03:03:47.080 A lot of women are insecure about like.

03:03:49.100 Their looks.

03:03:49.940 Their body, et cetera.

03:03:51.120 Like, come on.

03:03:51.900 Sounds like a skill issue.

03:03:53.740 Why would that be a skill issue?

03:03:54.800 That's not the right chick, then.

03:03:56.920 So, hold on.

03:03:58.260 Let's be.

03:03:58.720 Let's be real.

03:04:01.000 What percentage of women don't have some degree of like.

03:04:05.580 Insecurity about something to do with their body?

03:04:07.540 Well, sure.

03:04:07.940 Men do, too.

03:04:08.500 Even men, yes.

03:04:09.360 But you have to be adult enough to go.

03:04:11.960 All right.

03:04:12.280 Yeah.

03:04:12.720 Fair enough.

03:04:13.440 Like, again.

03:04:13.960 It worked out great for her.

03:04:15.660 Like, she's so much healthier now.

03:04:18.820 He added years to her life.

03:04:20.440 Yeah.

03:04:20.700 No.

03:04:21.120 It worked out.

03:04:22.300 It worked out.

03:04:23.080 But I'm just being realistic here.

03:04:25.620 Also, I mean.

03:04:26.200 My.

03:04:26.480 Look.

03:04:26.820 My simple perspective is.

03:04:29.140 Look.

03:04:29.640 If.

03:04:30.760 If you want to date a skinny girl.

03:04:33.180 Find yourself a skinny girl.

03:04:34.640 Like, I feel like.

03:04:35.900 Look.

03:04:36.540 Of course.

03:04:37.220 Yeah.

03:04:37.360 If you're overweight.

03:04:38.200 You should lose weight.

03:04:39.100 I don't disagree.

03:04:40.520 But I do think.

03:04:42.820 And it worked, by the way.

03:04:44.020 Hey.

03:04:44.660 Congratulations.

03:04:46.620 And that's a tough.

03:04:48.200 I don't know if the women agree or disagree.

03:04:50.180 Not to be anecdotal.

03:04:51.320 But.

03:04:51.580 That's going to be a tough sell.

03:04:52.920 It shows a level of devotion from the woman, right?

03:04:56.800 Yeah.

03:04:57.060 Yes.

03:04:57.320 Yes.

03:04:57.940 That's.

03:04:58.580 Exactly.

03:04:59.180 That's not to be anecdotal.

03:05:00.380 But there are definitely men out there.

03:05:02.420 That want to shape their women.

03:05:04.200 It's part of the reason.

03:05:05.160 I know that we talk about how men like younger women.

03:05:07.240 Because of like.

03:05:08.100 The fertility and everything.

03:05:09.640 But men also like younger women.

03:05:11.260 Because they're not like.

03:05:12.920 This is how I am.

03:05:14.020 I'm.

03:05:14.420 You know.

03:05:14.680 At 36.

03:05:15.320 I know what I want.

03:05:16.080 And I know what I am.

03:05:17.060 And blah, blah, blah.

03:05:17.660 Like.

03:05:18.100 At a younger age.

03:05:19.180 You're willing to go.

03:05:20.160 I'm going to let a man lead me.

03:05:21.580 I'm going to go along with what he says.

03:05:23.780 So there are men who want to find a woman.

03:05:25.760 That they can improve and mold into the woman that they want.

03:05:28.960 And they want to put that work in.

03:05:30.500 I'm not saying every man.

03:05:31.560 But those men definitely exist out there.

03:05:33.520 They want to take those reins.

03:05:34.760 And say.

03:05:35.260 I'm going to make you the woman that I see.

03:05:37.500 You're almost there.

03:05:38.300 Let's get you all the way there.

03:05:39.480 So we can really.

03:05:40.980 What if you're a feeder though?

03:05:42.800 Like you just want to fatten her up.

03:05:44.800 I mean.

03:05:45.080 Those exist too.

03:05:46.200 Yeah.

03:05:46.380 That's happening to me.

03:05:47.220 That's going to happen.

03:05:47.800 That happened to you?

03:05:49.220 Yeah.

03:05:50.000 What?

03:05:50.320 I was like really fat.

03:05:53.100 Sorry.

03:05:53.620 That was bad.

03:05:54.300 What?

03:05:55.020 I was like really fat.

03:05:56.620 You were?

03:05:57.420 Yeah.

03:05:57.860 Were?

03:05:58.140 Because I was.

03:05:58.900 Were?

03:05:59.580 No.

03:05:59.840 I am.

03:06:00.260 I am still.

03:06:00.960 I have chubby.

03:06:01.680 Like I am still chubby for sure.

03:06:03.660 That's not what I was meaning.

03:06:04.940 No.

03:06:05.400 No.

03:06:05.800 That's just me.

03:06:06.420 Like.

03:06:07.020 I look at the mirror.

03:06:07.980 I call myself fat.

03:06:08.820 That's just me.

03:06:09.680 But.

03:06:11.040 Yeah.

03:06:11.700 You let your ballet teacher down.

03:06:14.240 What?

03:06:14.840 Your ballet teacher.

03:06:17.200 Yeah.

03:06:17.420 Oh yeah.

03:06:17.900 Yeah.

03:06:18.160 Bad joke.

03:06:19.040 Never mind.

03:06:19.540 No.

03:06:19.800 I got it.

03:06:20.500 But.

03:06:21.240 Yeah.

03:06:21.460 He fattened me up.

03:06:22.660 He wanted me to be.

03:06:24.540 So he fed you.

03:06:25.860 Yeah.

03:06:26.380 Oh he said that.

03:06:27.120 He wanted you to be thick.

03:06:27.980 Yeah.

03:06:29.500 And I.

03:06:30.040 And I didn't feel good.

03:06:31.160 I didn't feel good.

03:06:32.040 Like I felt like.

03:06:34.200 I was eating so much sugar.

03:06:35.500 It was horrible.

03:06:36.260 I think those feeder men.

03:06:37.660 They want that.

03:06:38.400 Because they want a woman that's broken.

03:06:40.260 Because they can control a broken woman more.

03:06:42.440 Yeah.

03:06:42.800 Yeah.

03:06:43.300 That's a different motivation.

03:06:44.940 Yeah.

03:06:45.820 Yeah.

03:06:46.580 Okay.

03:06:47.140 I guess we're going to move on to next topic here.

03:06:51.060 We have Gigi.

03:06:52.360 Gigi.

03:06:53.120 So you said your current relationship.

03:06:54.380 Long distance.

03:06:55.500 You had a past relationship that ended.

03:06:57.220 Because someone from your past came back into your life.

03:07:01.640 Yes.

03:07:04.260 You were in a talking.

03:07:05.500 Wait.

03:07:06.920 I think they were like scattered.

03:07:08.860 They were just like random little things I threw out.

03:07:11.360 Okay.

03:07:12.360 Talking stage where the guy was totally playing you.

03:07:14.540 But you stayed with him.

03:07:15.900 And was a little attached.

03:07:17.960 But we got into it.

03:07:19.080 Into this thing.

03:07:20.260 And the next day he went to a girl.

03:07:21.980 You were friends with House.

03:07:22.980 And begged for her.

03:07:24.120 And you have it on the ring camera.

03:07:25.760 Yes.

03:07:26.040 I do.

03:07:27.760 Like.

03:07:28.320 So this is a high school or.

03:07:29.880 Yes.

03:07:30.360 Caught in 4K.

03:07:31.800 So you were kind of dating him.

03:07:34.220 Dealing with him.

03:07:34.960 And then.

03:07:36.560 He was trying to get at your friend.

03:07:38.920 Your girlfriend.

03:07:41.360 Well they had known each other prior.

03:07:44.540 But.

03:07:45.500 And me and her weren't really friends.

03:07:47.240 We were more acquaintances.

03:07:49.560 Okay.

03:07:50.660 And then.

03:07:52.280 Yeah.

03:07:53.200 And then.

03:07:54.060 Like.

03:07:54.420 I'm not sure if you're asking me a specific question.

03:07:58.940 Or what.

03:07:59.960 Oh just the story.

03:08:01.060 But I have something else.

03:08:02.800 You said that you used to have no self.

03:08:05.120 Self respect for yourself.

03:08:06.840 And you let guys step all over you.

03:08:09.440 Essentially.

03:08:09.780 And it took you a long time to stand up.

03:08:11.420 And gain that self respect.

03:08:12.640 So like.

03:08:13.980 This was with maybe a couple different guys.

03:08:16.300 Yeah.

03:08:16.740 Definitely.

03:08:17.300 No self respect.

03:08:17.960 And so how would the guys.

03:08:20.700 How would you have no self respect.

03:08:22.760 And how would they be stepping all over you.

03:08:25.060 Like for example.

03:08:26.040 That guy we were talking about.

03:08:28.160 I took him back after that.

03:08:30.460 And even after.

03:08:31.640 And he did that multiple times.

03:08:33.240 Not with the same girl.

03:08:34.480 But like.

03:08:34.940 He would be texting other girls.

03:08:37.040 And like.

03:08:38.280 Asking.

03:08:39.060 Like.

03:08:39.380 Or saying in boys group chats.

03:08:40.640 Like.

03:08:40.960 Oh I want her.

03:08:41.880 I want her.

03:08:42.380 I want her.

03:08:43.360 I saw all of that.

03:08:44.220 I saw all of the proof.

03:08:45.580 I would still take him back.

03:08:47.960 So he would do this multiple times.

03:08:49.720 Yes.

03:08:50.240 Okay.

03:08:51.420 Okay.

03:08:51.880 And were there other examples though.

03:08:53.440 Of not.

03:08:54.280 Like.

03:08:54.660 In addition to that.

03:08:55.940 Was he.

03:08:57.020 Like mistreating you.

03:08:58.400 Or being rude.

03:08:59.400 Or.

03:08:59.800 Um.

03:09:01.080 No.

03:09:01.600 I would say like.

03:09:03.080 Manipulative in a way.

03:09:04.280 I mean.

03:09:04.440 Because everything that came out of his mouth.

03:09:06.800 And you know.

03:09:07.240 I mean.

03:09:07.480 He would drive me places.

03:09:08.820 He would.

03:09:10.040 Pay for things.

03:09:11.500 Like.

03:09:12.120 That part was.

03:09:13.980 Fine.

03:09:14.560 But you know.

03:09:15.180 Behind the scenes.

03:09:16.620 He was.

03:09:17.960 Lusting towards other women.

03:09:21.060 I see.

03:09:21.880 And.

03:09:23.040 Um.

03:09:23.480 It got to a point.

03:09:24.600 Where like.

03:09:25.080 He kind of told me like.

03:09:26.160 Oh like.

03:09:26.960 I would see proof.

03:09:28.000 And he would try to misguide me.

03:09:29.520 And be like.

03:09:30.060 Oh like.

03:09:30.440 That was just a joke.

03:09:31.720 Like.

03:09:31.980 Da da da.

03:09:32.340 This.

03:09:32.680 Da da da.

03:09:33.020 That.

03:09:33.400 If he had never acted on it.

03:09:34.980 And was just.

03:09:36.140 Had the thoughts.

03:09:36.860 And the lusting.

03:09:37.600 Would that still have not been acceptable to you.

03:09:39.440 If he never acted on it.

03:09:40.980 What do you mean?

03:09:42.040 Like.

03:09:42.400 If you saw a bunch of texts.

03:09:43.880 Where he's like.

03:09:44.280 I want her.

03:09:44.800 I want her.

03:09:45.140 Or if he's one of those guys.

03:09:46.780 That's like liking IG models all day.

03:09:48.680 Oh.

03:09:49.000 But he never actually did any.

03:09:50.940 Cheating behavior.

03:09:52.080 Like now.

03:09:52.860 Yeah.

03:09:53.040 Like he never had the actions.

03:09:54.640 It was just the thoughts.

03:09:55.860 Like before I gained my self respect.

03:09:57.500 Or after.

03:09:58.100 Either or.

03:09:58.860 I mean.

03:09:59.220 Right now.

03:09:59.800 Absolutely not.

03:10:00.500 I would not take that.

03:10:01.580 Back then.

03:10:02.100 One hundred percent.

03:10:03.020 It would.

03:10:03.340 I would.

03:10:04.240 Minority report.

03:10:05.660 Yeah.

03:10:06.160 I would.

03:10:07.100 Be like.

03:10:07.460 Okay.

03:10:07.700 Oh well.

03:10:08.380 Like sucks.

03:10:09.060 Let's see here.

03:10:10.300 We have.

03:10:12.760 Oh.

03:10:13.040 Samantha got up from the table.

03:10:15.260 Samantha.

03:10:15.660 I was about to ask you some.

03:10:17.120 Some questions here.

03:10:19.220 Oh.

03:10:19.380 Is she in the bathroom?

03:10:20.140 No.

03:10:20.420 I'm right here.

03:10:20.940 Oh.

03:10:21.140 Okay.

03:10:22.580 I'll wait until you're back.

03:10:24.520 Lisa.

03:10:25.560 You write.

03:10:26.660 Wrote.

03:10:27.100 Dating as a disabled woman.

03:10:31.000 So.

03:10:32.040 Do you want to.

03:10:33.080 Like.

03:10:33.320 What.

03:10:33.900 What's.

03:10:34.720 The story.

03:10:37.000 Yeah.

03:10:37.720 So.

03:10:38.120 Going back to that.

03:10:41.560 I think that's like.

03:10:43.320 An interesting.

03:10:44.720 Like.

03:10:45.120 Factor to talk about.

03:10:46.540 Because I always.

03:10:48.660 Think of like.

03:10:50.380 My.

03:10:51.200 Chronic conditions.

03:10:52.220 And how that affects.

03:10:53.940 The guys.

03:10:54.900 When I date.

03:10:55.860 Because I always take that into consideration.

03:10:58.140 And I always.

03:10:59.440 Like.

03:10:59.980 That is something that I.

03:11:01.400 Would let them know.

03:11:02.360 Like.

03:11:02.600 Right away.

03:11:03.200 Like.

03:11:03.480 I always ask them.

03:11:04.600 If that's a deal breaker.

03:11:05.820 Because.

03:11:06.800 I think that that's.

03:11:07.860 Important.

03:11:09.740 To.

03:11:10.620 Get into.

03:11:12.700 Okay.

03:11:12.980 Are you wanting to share.

03:11:14.920 Like.

03:11:15.140 What specifically.

03:11:15.900 The disability is.

03:11:17.000 Or.

03:11:18.520 Yes.

03:11:19.180 So.

03:11:19.480 I do get.

03:11:20.700 Like.

03:11:21.320 Fainting spells.

03:11:22.360 And.

03:11:22.960 Seizures.

03:11:23.880 So.

03:11:24.560 That is always something.

03:11:26.020 With dating.

03:11:27.260 And like.

03:11:28.280 Dating in the future.

03:11:29.380 And marriage.

03:11:29.900 That is always something.

03:11:30.780 That I think about.

03:11:32.600 And that is always something.

03:11:33.820 That I take into consideration.

03:11:35.340 When it comes to dating.

03:11:38.060 And it's something.

03:11:38.680 That I'll ask guys about.

03:11:40.560 And they'll be like.

03:11:41.300 Hey.

03:11:41.500 Is this a deal breaker?

03:11:42.620 Is this a problem for you?

03:11:43.980 Because it could be scary.

03:11:45.240 Okay.

03:11:45.820 Medically.

03:11:46.660 Got it.

03:11:48.800 You also write.

03:11:49.900 You don't agree.

03:11:50.780 With the alpha male trend.

03:11:53.220 So what do you mean by that?

03:11:54.160 The alpha male trend.

03:11:57.780 I don't necessarily agree with it.

03:11:59.900 But I also don't agree with like.

03:12:01.380 An alpha woman trend.

03:12:02.980 Necessarily either.

03:12:03.800 But what.

03:12:04.000 What.

03:12:04.760 What is the alpha male trend?

03:12:06.380 What do you mean by.

03:12:07.820 What is the alpha male trend?

03:12:09.380 It's kind of like.

03:12:11.300 To me.

03:12:12.320 I feel like it's.

03:12:13.580 Where men think they're like.

03:12:15.160 Better than other men.

03:12:17.000 And I'm like.

03:12:18.460 I don't.

03:12:20.240 Necessarily.

03:12:21.380 Like egotistical.

03:12:22.220 Yeah.

03:12:23.040 Like it's like an ego thing.

03:12:27.980 Okay.

03:12:30.780 Does it pertain to this podcast at all?

03:12:33.200 Are you.

03:12:34.040 Do you think the.

03:12:34.980 Whatever podcast.

03:12:36.640 Is part of the alpha male.

03:12:39.460 Trends.

03:12:43.060 Not necessarily.

03:12:44.820 But I think the alpha male trend.

03:12:46.320 Is something that's like.

03:12:48.240 Relevant.

03:12:49.800 Like a relevant topic.

03:12:51.440 In general.

03:12:52.220 To talk about.

03:12:53.540 In terms of.

03:12:54.980 Dating.

03:12:55.460 Because I feel like.

03:12:56.760 Like dating.

03:12:58.200 Like women that date.

03:12:59.940 Run.

03:13:00.700 Sometimes into a lot of like.

03:13:02.160 Men that can be a little bit more.

03:13:04.680 Like they have more of an ego.

03:13:07.040 Some.

03:13:07.720 Some men have like.

03:13:09.260 Good like plans for their future.

03:13:11.080 Like wanting a business.

03:13:12.560 Wanting to provide.

03:13:13.760 But then there's also like.

03:13:15.040 This really really high ego.

03:13:16.920 And it's not just men.

03:13:18.600 It's also women.

03:13:19.680 Sometimes too.

03:13:20.500 Like there's an ego thing.

03:13:22.860 Okay.

03:13:23.260 Well I mean.

03:13:23.620 I think that alpha.

03:13:24.940 Beta male.

03:13:26.300 Thing is.

03:13:27.520 It.

03:13:27.760 It.

03:13:28.500 Originates from like.

03:13:29.320 This study of wolf packs.

03:13:31.280 And there was an alpha wolf.

03:13:32.700 The actual.

03:13:33.120 I think the study's actually.

03:13:34.180 Been debunked.

03:13:34.780 I think it can sometimes be.

03:13:36.000 Sometimes a helpful descriptor.

03:13:38.720 But any.

03:13:39.580 Any man who calls himself alpha male.

03:13:41.600 Is incredibly cringe.

03:13:44.460 It's just super cringe.

03:13:45.640 To call yourself alpha.

03:13:48.060 Sigma male though.

03:13:49.220 Sigma male.

03:13:50.060 Grind that.

03:13:51.280 Which.

03:13:52.060 Yeah.

03:13:53.100 I don't know.

03:13:54.000 I'm sorry.

03:13:54.120 My opinion basically.

03:13:55.360 Is that I think.

03:13:56.340 It's pretty cringy.

03:13:57.840 Like overall.

03:13:59.940 The alpha male trend.

03:14:02.140 Okay.

03:14:02.800 All right.

03:14:03.740 Well.

03:14:04.180 Then I'm sure.

03:14:05.240 Here.

03:14:06.040 Going.

03:14:06.780 While we have everybody.

03:14:07.460 At the table.

03:14:08.480 Nathan.

03:14:09.000 We're going to pull up.

03:14:10.060 We've put all of you through AI.

03:14:11.440 We have two AI segments.

03:14:13.440 The first segment is.

03:14:16.340 This is a new one.

03:14:17.340 We're testing out.

03:14:18.120 I don't know.

03:14:18.700 But what they did was.

03:14:19.800 And we're probably.

03:14:20.860 I.

03:14:22.580 I don't know if it's great for this panel.

03:14:26.640 Uh oh.

03:14:27.280 I'm worried about that.

03:14:28.500 Do we?

03:14:28.940 I don't know if we do it.

03:14:29.940 Let's do it.

03:14:30.460 Let's do it.

03:14:30.980 Please.

03:14:31.380 Let's do it.

03:14:32.560 Well.

03:14:33.160 So.

03:14:33.820 Oftentimes.

03:14:34.220 You guys were pretty reasonable.

03:14:36.760 Except for two.

03:14:37.460 A lot of times.

03:14:40.900 A lot of the panelists.

03:14:41.840 Would be like.

03:14:42.180 I'm a 10.

03:14:42.560 I'm a 10.

03:14:42.920 I'm a 10.

03:14:43.640 And so.

03:14:44.280 I was thinking like.

03:14:45.100 Okay.

03:14:46.640 What if we ran.

03:14:49.680 People through AI.

03:14:50.920 And the prompt.

03:14:51.800 For the AI.

03:14:52.420 Would be.

03:14:53.020 Make them more beautiful.

03:14:54.840 And if they're more beautiful.

03:14:56.460 I'm so curious.

03:14:57.380 After being ran through AI.

03:14:58.500 Then how could you possibly.

03:14:59.780 Be a 10 prior to.

03:15:01.640 But the only problem is.

03:15:02.980 I think we need to adjust.

03:15:04.900 One of the people.

03:15:05.540 In my discord.

03:15:05.980 Does it.

03:15:06.440 I think we can't.

03:15:08.960 Change the makeup.

03:15:10.160 It has to be like.

03:15:11.380 Actual change.

03:15:12.260 The facial structure.

03:15:12.960 But fuck it.

03:15:13.340 We'll just do it super quick.

03:15:14.720 All right.

03:15:15.080 This is going to be fucking brutal.

03:15:16.640 But.

03:15:17.340 Let's go.

03:15:17.820 Gigi's going to be fine.

03:15:18.660 All right.

03:15:19.300 Yeah.

03:15:19.640 Right.

03:15:20.220 Gigi's going to be fine.

03:15:21.200 All right.

03:15:21.540 Go ahead.

03:15:22.240 Pull it up.

03:15:23.900 You got to zoom it out.

03:15:25.160 A little bit.

03:15:25.840 I think.

03:15:26.580 Yeah.

03:15:27.220 Zoom these out.

03:15:28.500 She.

03:15:28.920 No.

03:15:29.500 It's just like a.

03:15:30.400 Like a.

03:15:31.820 Basically.

03:15:32.400 The fucking.

03:15:32.900 Yeah.

03:15:33.180 I mean.

03:15:34.960 It looks like.

03:15:35.540 They put more eyeliner on you.

03:15:37.160 They brightened your lips a little bit.

03:15:39.120 Maybe like.

03:15:39.640 Even out the teeth.

03:15:40.380 Put a little bit more color in your face.

03:15:42.920 Her cheekbones.

03:15:43.620 The hair is flawless.

03:15:44.500 Like a little.

03:15:45.220 Okay.

03:15:45.720 Lush effect.

03:15:46.620 But I mean.

03:15:47.840 Okay.

03:15:48.340 Next.

03:15:49.000 You look great.

03:15:50.700 Oh.

03:15:51.260 Who the fuck is that?

03:15:53.340 Next.

03:15:54.380 K-pop.

03:15:56.220 Oh no.

03:15:57.420 That's a horrible angle.

03:15:58.420 But that's whatever.

03:15:59.340 I feel like it's ugly.

03:16:00.660 I feel like it's ugly.

03:16:01.380 Okay.

03:16:01.840 Interesting.

03:16:02.360 Next.

03:16:02.560 I feel like everyone kind of looks the same.

03:16:03.540 Yeah.

03:16:03.680 Right.

03:16:04.020 What the hell is that?

03:16:04.780 It is funny how all the age.

03:16:06.100 That's the exact same.

03:16:07.200 Yeah.

03:16:07.460 You look the same.

03:16:08.240 I feel like you look the same.

03:16:09.060 You look the same.

03:16:09.680 Yeah.

03:16:10.060 It's not even my face.

03:16:11.900 Wait.

03:16:12.660 Okay.

03:16:13.180 What?

03:16:13.420 We got it.

03:16:14.060 That's just a bad picture of you in actual life.

03:16:16.700 Yeah.

03:16:17.020 Yeah.

03:16:17.620 Next.

03:16:17.900 Or.

03:16:18.580 No.

03:16:19.060 Try to get uniformity.

03:16:21.240 Nathan and like the.

03:16:22.460 The bad ones are bad.

03:16:23.600 We don't want to.

03:16:24.440 I look like her.

03:16:25.900 Yeah.

03:16:26.480 Yeah.

03:16:26.740 This is the.

03:16:27.400 This is where you want to be.

03:16:28.620 Okay.

03:16:29.340 Next.

03:16:29.980 No.

03:16:30.680 Not me.

03:16:31.460 How did you get them smiling?

03:16:32.700 But these don't actually look like us.

03:16:34.440 Makeup.

03:16:35.060 Yeah.

03:16:35.540 This just looks like K-pop stars.

03:16:37.240 Is there a next?

03:16:37.740 Oh boy.

03:16:38.060 This is going to be brutal.

03:16:38.860 It's going to be me.

03:16:39.820 Huh?

03:16:41.000 Yeah.

03:16:41.220 There's not.

03:16:41.640 There's not a me.

03:16:42.340 Oh.

03:16:43.680 Okay.

03:16:44.560 Now.

03:16:44.980 Come on.

03:16:45.460 We've gender swapped all of you.

03:16:46.620 Made you all men.

03:16:47.960 Oh.

03:16:48.380 I'm a fine man.

03:16:49.340 Oh.

03:16:49.420 I'm a fine man.

03:16:50.700 I don't know.

03:16:51.260 Can you run through it first.

03:16:52.900 And like make sure they're all the same size.

03:16:55.180 I did one of those ones.

03:16:56.360 And I looked like the dad from Stranger Things.

03:16:58.600 I just looked like my dad.

03:16:59.680 Hey guys.

03:17:00.680 If you're enjoying the stream.

03:17:02.180 Like the video please.

03:17:03.360 While Nathan's just getting that all set.

03:17:04.960 Like the video please.

03:17:05.960 I think that was terrible.

03:17:06.120 Just show some support for the stream.

03:17:08.920 We are.

03:17:09.840 Where are we sitting at?

03:17:10.780 I'm terrible.

03:17:11.760 We have.

03:17:14.020 We have.

03:17:15.860 Guys.

03:17:16.240 Get this to 2,000 likes.

03:17:17.480 We're at 1,500.

03:17:19.680 There's 500.

03:17:22.400 Or excuse me.

03:17:23.380 5,500 people watching.

03:17:25.980 Get this to 2,000 likes please.

03:17:27.640 All right.

03:17:27.800 Nathan.

03:17:28.060 Do you have it ready?

03:17:30.000 All right.

03:17:31.540 Would.

03:17:32.200 I look like my brother.

03:17:36.120 So the question is.

03:17:38.900 Would you date.

03:17:39.620 No.

03:17:40.020 The male version of you.

03:17:41.400 Mm-mm.

03:17:41.920 I don't.

03:17:42.480 He's kind of chatting.

03:17:43.100 I don't date Asian men.

03:17:44.240 Me either.

03:17:44.520 Oh.

03:17:44.960 I don't either.

03:17:46.160 You don't date ever?

03:17:48.080 Like you've never dated an Asian guy?

03:17:49.580 The guy that I was in that situationship with was Asian.

03:17:53.800 But before that I have a personal preference.

03:17:56.460 I don't find Asian men attractive usually.

03:18:00.380 Interesting.

03:18:00.680 The way that they look is just too feminine for me.

03:18:03.720 Too feminine.

03:18:03.820 I feel like Asian men look very feminine.

03:18:05.960 Interesting.

03:18:06.560 Especially like the K-pop people I find very gross.

03:18:10.380 Mm-hmm.

03:18:11.980 Yeah.

03:18:12.680 Like never.

03:18:14.340 Do you find some Asian men attractive?

03:18:16.020 If they're mixed with something potentially.

03:18:18.900 If they're mixed?

03:18:20.200 Potentially.

03:18:20.840 If they're mixed.

03:18:21.240 Potentially.

03:18:21.800 Yeah.

03:18:21.900 Like Asian guys.

03:18:23.080 I wouldn't.

03:18:23.520 Or Blasian.

03:18:25.300 No.

03:18:26.140 No.

03:18:26.460 Not Blasians.

03:18:27.800 White boys is usually my.

03:18:30.920 But there are Asian men who are.

03:18:33.400 You'd agree.

03:18:33.840 Who do have very masculine faces.

03:18:35.520 Yes.

03:18:35.560 Yes.

03:18:35.660 And like I'll say like.

03:18:37.300 Yeah.

03:18:37.560 Like I'll.

03:18:38.360 Like you can be an attractive Asian man.

03:18:40.700 But I personally would never.

03:18:43.240 I could never see myself getting married to one.

03:18:45.660 Just the white guys.

03:18:46.420 Yeah.

03:18:46.680 Okay.

03:18:46.960 Like if I was.

03:18:47.780 Like if I'm.

03:18:48.300 I'm currently dating to marry.

03:18:49.940 But.

03:18:50.200 Right.

03:18:50.860 If say I wasn't in a relationship.

03:18:53.000 Dating to marry.

03:18:53.600 I would never go for an Asian guy.

03:18:56.220 Damn.

03:18:57.200 Ever.

03:18:57.920 R.I.P.

03:18:58.460 Asian.

03:19:00.380 R.I.P.

03:19:00.900 Asian men in the chat.

03:19:01.900 Brutal.

03:19:02.720 Brutal.

03:19:03.540 What do they call it?

03:19:04.200 Is that.

03:19:04.700 There's some.

03:19:05.740 Never mind.

03:19:07.280 Like.

03:19:08.720 Okay.

03:19:12.660 I don't know where I was going with that.

03:19:14.820 Well.

03:19:15.140 Here.

03:19:15.340 We have other Asian women here.

03:19:16.480 Do you have a.

03:19:17.520 Do you.

03:19:18.160 No longer interested in Asian.

03:19:19.800 You don't.

03:19:21.860 You too?

03:19:23.040 Me too.

03:19:23.800 Yes.

03:19:24.380 You too?

03:19:24.880 Yes.

03:19:25.320 And what about you?

03:19:26.060 I'm Asian.

03:19:26.560 Yeah.

03:19:26.840 I don't.

03:19:27.360 Never dated Asian.

03:19:28.520 Wow.

03:19:28.700 What about the Waysian guy?

03:19:30.100 Because you're Waysian.

03:19:30.840 Yeah.

03:19:31.380 I know.

03:19:32.560 Would you date an Indian guy?

03:19:34.680 Not anymore.

03:19:35.440 I will just.

03:19:35.960 It's a data robot.

03:19:38.920 Brutal.

03:19:39.600 The Asian men in the chat.

03:19:41.080 Black-pilled.

03:19:42.120 Black-pilled.

03:19:43.280 Holy fuck.

03:19:44.240 Okay.

03:19:44.600 Hey.

03:19:45.120 You know what's interesting though about that?

03:19:47.540 Is that.

03:19:49.260 I think it.

03:19:50.560 No offense.

03:19:52.300 This is a bit.

03:19:52.960 This is just a pure analysis.

03:19:56.260 I don't know if I'm.

03:19:57.620 Don't be offended.

03:19:59.440 It may be slightly.

03:20:02.400 Dysfunctional.

03:20:03.960 Me?

03:20:04.460 I don't know.

03:20:04.760 Well, for example, historically, you, like 300 years ago, wherever you were living, there

03:20:12.440 weren't.

03:20:13.080 Yeah.

03:20:13.620 You saw your race.

03:20:14.960 Yeah.

03:20:15.160 100%.

03:20:15.360 Especially like if you were in China, Korea, Japan.

03:20:18.720 Unless you were like were in port and there was like American Dutch traders coming or some

03:20:26.660 shit.

03:20:27.040 Like you did never.

03:20:28.360 You never saw a white person.

03:20:30.000 And I was like, I feel like it would be like if you were just not attracted to.

03:20:37.540 To your own race.

03:20:42.040 Like you just exit yourself out of the gene pool, basically.

03:20:46.040 I don't know.

03:20:48.040 What do you mean?

03:20:48.720 I mean, it's nothing.

03:20:51.400 It's just a personal preference.

03:20:52.800 It's not racist.

03:20:53.720 Like a lot of people like to tell me like I'm being racist to my own race.

03:20:57.880 So I don't think it's racist.

03:20:59.160 I think people can have racial preferences when it comes to dating.

03:21:01.700 I'm not, I'm not putting that label on, but I think, and obviously we don't live in a

03:21:06.860 historical setting.

03:21:07.660 We live in a modern setting, especially in America, multiculturalism.

03:21:11.640 There's, there's black people, white people, Arabic people, you know, all kinds of skin

03:21:15.280 colors, et cetera.

03:21:16.880 So there's no shortage of opportunity to date outside of your race.

03:21:20.540 In fact, there's more opportunity.

03:21:24.320 But it does occur to me from like a more analytical perspective that it would be historically in

03:21:30.300 a historical context.

03:21:31.400 If you didn't find your own race attractive, it would be pretty somewhat dysfunction.

03:21:36.260 Cause that would be the, your only option.

03:21:37.560 No, actually I'm the most attracted towards Indian men still, but I don't trust them.

03:21:44.640 Yeah.

03:21:44.980 It's not the looks.

03:21:46.560 It's the, the something else.

03:21:48.260 Okay.

03:21:48.540 Yeah.

03:21:49.000 Culture.

03:21:49.420 For me, it's looks.

03:21:50.480 For you, it's looks.

03:21:51.220 Yes.

03:21:51.660 Okay.

03:21:52.200 Got it.

03:21:52.980 Okay.

03:21:53.680 Uh, and you said you don't date Asian guys too?

03:21:56.860 Anymore.

03:21:57.620 Anymore bad experience or?

03:21:59.880 All of them.

03:22:01.060 And you, no.

03:22:02.180 Never.

03:22:02.700 Are you just not attracted to them?

03:22:04.100 I feel like they're, I'm all related to them.

03:22:06.400 You know, like, yeah, you know, I'm related to every Asian.

03:22:12.580 Well, yeah, I've, I've heard that from some Asian women.

03:22:14.440 They say it would feel like dating my brother.

03:22:16.900 Yeah.

03:22:17.280 And I have a brother and I do not want to do that.

03:22:19.820 But don't you think that'd be like, don't Asian men have.

03:22:24.980 Oh, come on.

03:22:25.640 That's.

03:22:26.040 Oh, that is.

03:22:28.340 Did we just learn you're a size queen?

03:22:29.820 What?

03:22:31.900 Did we just learn you're a size queen?

03:22:33.940 Maybe.

03:22:35.660 Shit.

03:22:36.100 My chances are out the window now.

03:22:38.600 But, uh.

03:22:39.280 That's maybe.

03:22:40.180 If you don't know how to use it, then.

03:22:43.900 Okay.

03:22:45.020 Wow.

03:22:45.580 That is a lot of info there.

03:22:51.220 Damn.

03:22:51.900 Okay.

03:22:52.340 I don't know where I, I feel like I could go.

03:22:54.460 I'm going to go somewhere with the, that thing.

03:22:56.860 That's interesting.

03:22:57.420 Um.

03:23:00.780 Okay.

03:23:01.380 Uh.

03:23:01.860 Let's continue on with the AI thing, then.

03:23:03.900 If I have any further thoughts on the race thing.

03:23:08.520 Uh.

03:23:09.020 Next.

03:23:11.200 Oh.

03:23:11.940 No.

03:23:12.540 You, you would, you would date him?

03:23:13.880 He's kind of.

03:23:14.460 No.

03:23:14.920 That's that middle one?

03:23:15.720 Middle one.

03:23:16.540 Middle one.

03:23:17.580 No.

03:23:18.520 No.

03:23:19.360 No.

03:23:20.020 Okay.

03:23:20.900 Next.

03:23:22.540 Oh.

03:23:22.960 No.

03:23:23.300 No.

03:23:23.720 No.

03:23:24.200 I look like my brother.

03:23:25.800 Yeah.

03:23:26.460 Would you date him?

03:23:28.120 No.

03:23:29.180 What's wrong with him?

03:23:30.140 She's not Cersei Lannister.

03:23:32.140 I look like my brother.

03:23:33.200 Let's assume he's genetically different.

03:23:35.060 Would you date him?

03:23:36.060 No.

03:23:37.300 What's wrong with him?

03:23:38.100 I don't like Asians.

03:23:39.560 Oh.

03:23:40.000 Okay.

03:23:40.500 What's your type?

03:23:41.380 White?

03:23:41.720 Black?

03:23:42.500 Black?

03:23:42.760 Black?

03:23:42.920 Anything but Asian.

03:23:44.080 Anything but Asian.

03:23:44.780 Anything but Asian.

03:23:45.720 Latino?

03:23:46.360 Black?

03:23:46.700 Anything.

03:23:47.000 Last boyfriend?

03:23:48.180 Um.

03:23:48.720 Russian, Polish.

03:23:50.100 A.

03:23:50.500 Last guy you hooked up with?

03:23:53.320 Spanish and Russian.

03:23:55.240 What's going on in New York?

03:23:58.120 Okay.

03:23:58.780 Wow.

03:23:59.260 Back in Brooklyn.

03:24:00.100 That's real.

03:24:00.420 Okay.

03:24:01.960 Next.

03:24:05.560 What the hell is this?

03:24:06.780 Hang on.

03:24:07.820 You look good.

03:24:08.480 What are you doing to me?

03:24:09.460 Wait.

03:24:09.640 Can we go back to that?

03:24:10.460 Yeah.

03:24:11.620 Middle one's cute.

03:24:12.800 Yeah.

03:24:13.280 They're decent.

03:24:14.040 The middle one's cute.

03:24:14.820 Would you date the AI gender swap of you?

03:24:20.520 Maybe the center one.

03:24:22.940 Okay.

03:24:23.300 Next.

03:24:23.500 Yeah.

03:24:25.420 Nope.

03:24:26.240 Wow.

03:24:26.960 Nope.

03:24:27.500 Nope.

03:24:28.000 Nope.

03:24:28.180 Nope.

03:24:28.260 It's not bad.

03:24:28.820 No.

03:24:29.140 That's better.

03:24:29.700 Terrible.

03:24:30.520 I like the buzz cut one.

03:24:31.200 The one on the.

03:24:32.320 The buzz cut.

03:24:33.040 No.

03:24:33.680 Still not.

03:24:34.820 All right.

03:24:35.120 Maybe we've got to pass them to the Asian girls.

03:24:39.900 The single ones, anyways.

03:24:41.240 All right.

03:24:42.380 Next.

03:24:42.780 Oh, he has a lipstick like me.

03:24:49.320 I will consider a baby.

03:24:51.380 He's a robot.

03:24:53.360 Yeah.

03:24:56.220 Bacon Bomb.

03:24:57.080 Thank you for the gifted 10 over there on Twitch.

03:24:59.160 Thank you, man.

03:24:59.800 Next.

03:25:01.740 No.

03:25:04.640 No?

03:25:05.320 No.

03:25:06.160 Really?

03:25:06.660 Again, the lipstick.

03:25:07.620 Yeah.

03:25:08.080 The lipstick.

03:25:08.780 Also, the first picture I don't think looks like me, but okay.

03:25:11.840 Yeah.

03:25:13.320 You sure about that?

03:25:14.540 I'm pretty sure about that.

03:25:16.320 He looks like he plays magic.

03:25:21.600 Nothing wrong with a good card game.

03:25:22.980 Come on.

03:25:23.540 Next.

03:25:25.260 Uh, no.

03:25:27.300 No?

03:25:28.040 What?

03:25:28.220 Wait, hold on.

03:25:28.820 The girl who doesn't care about looks.

03:25:31.680 What's wrong with him?

03:25:33.000 He's adorable.

03:25:33.800 He kind of mocks.

03:25:34.600 I'm not going to lie.

03:25:35.160 He lokey does.

03:25:35.940 He kind of mocks.

03:25:36.820 Maybe.

03:25:37.300 Okay, maybe.

03:25:37.980 I'm going to have to get a closer look.

03:25:39.380 I like the last one.

03:25:40.280 Well, what's wrong with the one on the right?

03:25:42.820 The right.

03:25:43.120 He's got a stye.

03:25:44.620 Yeah.

03:25:45.240 What's a stye?

03:25:46.140 Under his eye.

03:25:47.000 On the right?

03:25:47.700 Yeah.

03:25:48.800 Oh, it's AI.

03:25:49.840 It's AI.

03:25:50.520 You got to see through the impurities.

03:25:52.840 You got to suspend disbelief a little bit.

03:25:54.900 Um, so yes, no.

03:25:57.280 Into the mic, please.

03:25:58.620 Put into the mic, please.

03:25:59.900 Probably in the middle.

03:26:01.040 Can you eat the chocolate and then pocket the wrapper, please?

03:26:06.560 Answer.

03:26:07.100 Answer.

03:26:07.320 The middle.

03:26:08.380 Okay.

03:26:09.160 Uh.

03:26:09.760 Oh, no.

03:26:10.900 Next.

03:26:13.260 That is still a woman.

03:26:14.600 That is a gay man.

03:26:16.600 That man would not date a woman.

03:26:18.240 That is just you.

03:26:23.080 That's just you.

03:26:23.920 With short hair.

03:26:25.800 That's me as a lesbian.

03:26:27.720 Yep.

03:26:28.180 Well, there you have it.

03:26:28.920 Not to their sibling.

03:26:29.440 They're twins.

03:26:30.440 That is a trans individual.

03:26:32.100 Oh, my goodness.

03:26:33.160 All right.

03:26:33.460 Next.

03:26:36.120 Oh, we've seen this one.

03:26:36.800 Oh, I'm before.

03:26:37.520 Yeah.

03:26:38.020 Yeah.

03:26:38.840 Yeah, she can get it.

03:26:39.960 Yeah.

03:26:40.740 Yeah.

03:26:41.540 That's cheating.

03:26:42.320 100%.

03:26:42.920 What?

03:26:43.880 Oh.

03:26:44.980 Yeah, she can get it.

03:26:45.640 Girl, Brian, has always been pretty.

03:26:47.160 Like, Yon doesn't look your sister, you know?

03:26:48.420 Like.

03:26:50.180 She doesn't look your sister.

03:26:51.680 An Emily.

03:26:52.540 All right.

03:26:52.800 You can, Nathan, all of those.

03:26:54.340 She looks like she plays the Utelele.

03:26:55.220 You can close them out.

03:26:55.840 Because girls are more beautiful.

03:26:57.120 Uh.

03:26:57.320 Let's see here.

03:26:58.980 Getting into.

03:27:00.100 Does anybody have any disagreements about anything?

03:27:05.340 You need to improve the AI version.

03:27:07.300 The model that you're using.

03:27:09.520 Major improvement.

03:27:12.000 Yeah.

03:27:12.920 Uh.

03:27:13.400 Any disagreements from anybody on any other topics?

03:27:18.100 Otherwise, I have further show notes to get into.

03:27:21.940 Uh.

03:27:22.460 I was going to get into something from you, if I recall.

03:27:27.800 It was.

03:27:28.600 One sec.

03:27:29.080 Let me see if I can find it.

03:27:31.500 Okay.

03:27:31.740 We did.

03:27:32.240 Is it Camila?

03:27:33.560 Camila?

03:27:34.160 Camila.

03:27:34.700 Camila.

03:27:35.220 Camila.

03:27:36.260 Okay.

03:27:36.780 We did yours.

03:27:37.560 Gigi, we did yours.

03:27:38.700 Samantha, you told us about the.

03:27:40.980 Can you repeat it?

03:27:41.720 Like, give me the bullet point version super quick again for the new people who joined.

03:27:45.500 Okay.

03:27:46.120 Um.

03:27:47.420 Ex-boyfriend.

03:27:48.420 Um.

03:27:48.860 Friends with current boyfriend.

03:27:53.560 Ex-boyfriend came in me, ejaculated in me.

03:27:56.840 I went to current boyfriend, and he ate the ejaculation from me.

03:28:04.540 Yes.

03:28:05.520 At your request.

03:28:08.160 Excuse me?

03:28:09.620 I didn't even say anything.

03:28:10.920 I just.

03:28:11.320 I want to go home.

03:28:13.580 Holy shit.

03:28:14.600 Okay.

03:28:15.400 Crazy even hearing it for the third time.

03:28:18.280 Yeah.

03:28:18.900 Uh.

03:28:19.860 Okay.

03:28:20.440 You think things should be equal in a relationship.

03:28:23.340 Yeah.

03:28:23.820 You wrote that.

03:28:24.620 Yeah.

03:28:24.820 You said never 50-50, but 100% from both parties.

03:28:27.600 So when you say things should be equal in a relationship, what do you mean?

03:28:30.240 I just mean, like, you know, just reciprocation, I guess.

03:28:36.840 So it should just be 100% from each side.

03:28:41.340 Like, at all times.

03:28:43.240 And I was really tired when I wrote that.

03:28:45.660 Mm-hmm.

03:28:45.960 I remember when I wrote that.

03:28:47.180 Uh-huh.

03:28:47.700 So yeah.

03:28:48.360 Okay.

03:28:48.620 So I wasn't really thinking.

03:28:51.240 Video.

03:28:51.940 Okay.

03:28:52.400 Uh.

03:28:54.100 Should things be equal?

03:28:55.680 What about.

03:28:57.940 What do you guys think about if there's a disagreement?

03:29:00.700 Who do you think, if you even think this, should lead that situation?

03:29:07.160 Whoever's having the disagreement.

03:29:10.160 Like, whoever, like.

03:29:11.380 Well, let's say you're at a roadblock.

03:29:13.020 Okay.

03:29:13.260 Let's say there's a roadblock.

03:29:14.680 I'm right.

03:29:15.820 I think I'm right.

03:29:16.920 You think you're right.

03:29:18.620 Who should be the tiebreaker?

03:29:22.320 Or do you just break up?

03:29:24.860 No, that's when I bring a third party in.

03:29:27.380 A third party?

03:29:28.220 Ugh.

03:29:28.720 Yeah.

03:29:29.080 Like, just like, just like a friend that knows a little bit into the relationship.

03:29:33.140 Whose friend?

03:29:33.820 Your friend?

03:29:34.460 My friend?

03:29:35.260 No.

03:29:36.080 My bro?

03:29:36.940 Personally, I'm, when I'm in a relationship, I'm friends with their friends.

03:29:41.940 And they're, we're all friends.

03:29:43.860 Like, it's a whole friend group as soon as we, like, start.

03:29:46.320 So, I would just bring, I would ask.

03:29:49.060 At the beginning?

03:29:49.960 Yeah.

03:29:50.260 Y'all, like that Spice Girl song, if you want to be my lover.

03:29:54.120 No, I'm just.

03:29:54.560 You gotta get with my friends.

03:29:55.140 We're just all friends.

03:29:56.240 Yeah.

03:29:57.060 Making love forever.

03:29:59.060 Friendship never ends.

03:30:00.040 Yeah.

03:30:00.940 I think you gotta delay the meeting the friends for very long.

03:30:04.600 Me, personally.

03:30:07.260 I don't agree on telling your business to your friends.

03:30:10.900 I don't either.

03:30:11.740 Yes.

03:30:12.420 Yeah.

03:30:12.660 Yeah.

03:30:12.760 W, W, G, G, W.

03:30:16.080 Camila.

03:30:16.740 Camila.

03:30:17.680 C-Dog.

03:30:18.360 And I also don't believe that 100% from both parties at all time is possible.

03:30:24.260 Yeah.

03:30:24.480 That's not realistic either.

03:30:28.460 Well, it would have to, like, there would have to be communication in that, like, if

03:30:32.400 you're not fully at 100%, let's say you're 30, like, I can do more for you in that relationship,

03:30:40.040 even if you're down.

03:30:41.000 Because, obviously, no one's going to be at their 100% every single day.

03:30:44.200 I just think, like, you have to be able to find the balance between both of them and

03:30:49.460 find a communication and a common ground.

03:30:52.000 What about chores?

03:30:53.040 Should chores be equal?

03:30:54.700 Fuck it.

03:30:55.060 A woman should do it.

03:30:56.320 Hmm?

03:30:56.880 Women should be doing it.

03:30:59.400 Oh.

03:30:59.860 I wasn't expecting that.

03:31:00.820 And if a man wants to, you know, help out, sure, I guess.

03:31:05.500 Okay.

03:31:06.140 But as an Asian, you know.

03:31:07.740 Yes.

03:31:08.500 As an Asian.

03:31:09.040 Well, you're only 50%.

03:31:10.280 Yeah, but I grew up with my Asian side fully.

03:31:13.520 Like, my brother and sister are fully Asian.

03:31:15.900 They're my half-siblings, so that's what I grew up with.

03:31:18.540 You're half-Filipina?

03:31:19.860 Yeah.

03:31:21.760 Okay.

03:31:24.200 I see.

03:31:28.140 Can I share something about observations from...

03:31:34.960 Oh, well, we got Vietnamese woman here, too.

03:31:37.680 Okay.

03:31:38.080 All right.

03:31:38.600 All right.

03:31:39.760 I've noticed...

03:31:41.280 Okay.

03:31:43.520 My own anecdotal experience, when it comes to the Asian women, the Vietnamese and the

03:31:51.960 Filipinos are the most toxic.

03:31:54.240 I don't think so.

03:31:55.040 Just saying.

03:31:56.040 Just saying.

03:31:57.940 You know.

03:31:59.280 Me, personally, I don't think so.

03:32:01.020 You know, with the Chinese, the Mongolians, of course, is very pleasant.

03:32:06.640 Isn't that a common conception within the Asian community, that there's actually the most

03:32:11.300 racism in any community is Asians against other Asians, and that Japanese and Chinese

03:32:16.700 are determined to be, like, superior than, like, Thai, Filipino, or Vietnamese?

03:32:22.300 Like, isn't that...

03:32:23.140 And I'm speaking from things I've heard from other people.

03:32:26.140 If I'm wrong, call me out.

03:32:27.440 But I've heard that that's actually a thing within Asian communities.

03:32:30.960 Well, colorism is really big within Asian communities, just like how her metric is.

03:32:35.720 Like, although I think toxism is just individual.

03:32:41.140 I don't think it's, like, every region...

03:32:44.280 By the way, I'm not saying all Vietnamese women and Filipinas are toxic.

03:32:48.700 No, they are.

03:32:49.120 Yeah, they're not Latinas.

03:32:49.920 They are.

03:32:50.400 It's more like...

03:32:51.400 Wait, did I say Latina?

03:32:53.440 Oh, shit.

03:32:54.200 Fuck.

03:32:55.440 Freudian slip.

03:32:56.000 Freudian slip.

03:32:56.980 No.

03:32:57.160 Wait.

03:32:57.920 Filipinas and Vietnamese.

03:33:00.480 I'm not saying all of them are toxic.

03:33:02.720 My mom is the least toxic person.

03:33:03.580 I've just noticed.

03:33:06.660 And my mom is the most toxic person.

03:33:09.160 My mom.

03:33:09.720 Your mom's toxic?

03:33:10.820 Yeah, and my aunt is Vietnamese, and she's not as toxic as my mother is.

03:33:14.740 The Philippines has the happiest people.

03:33:16.980 I think it's just more like woman within the Philippines, Vietnam, and then honestly kind

03:33:22.800 of Thailand, no shade.

03:33:24.440 I think it's just more Southeast Asian woman or more vocal.

03:33:29.020 And I think that's where the toxicity comes from.

03:33:32.040 Is that you're just...

03:33:34.380 I feel like women within Southeast Asia are more vocal because they have to do so much

03:33:39.940 within even like in Asia itself, and even when they come to America, they do so much

03:33:45.440 that they have to feel like their voice is being heard.

03:33:48.120 Well, I also think like historically, you have to consider the fact that, you know, you had

03:33:55.440 like Japanese, Korean, Chinese immigration under different circumstances than, for example,

03:34:01.960 like Vietnamese, a lot of Vietnamese immigrants were fleeing under like war-torn country circumstances.

03:34:09.120 So I think, I don't know, I'm just kind of blabbering a little bit.

03:34:15.180 But look, I'm, by the way, no shade, no shade, just saying.

03:34:22.040 But anecdotally, I've, by the way, I've known some very pleasant Filipino women, known

03:34:27.920 some pleasant Vietnamese women.

03:34:29.860 I mean, I did have a toxic Vietnamese ex, though.

03:34:32.720 I gotta, I gotta say that.

03:34:34.860 You know.

03:34:37.180 Okay, good talk.

03:34:39.380 Good talk.

03:34:40.580 Good talk.

03:34:41.600 Hey, at least I'm willing to date an Asian.

03:34:44.560 Y'all won't even date Asians.

03:34:46.800 Don't be all mad.

03:34:47.860 Oh my God, he's so, oh my God.

03:34:50.140 I'm just saying.

03:34:50.880 I found one that I would, but I never did anything.

03:34:52.820 Yeah, because white guys never date Asian women.

03:34:55.000 Who's the real bad person here?

03:34:56.600 I'll have sex with an Asian woman.

03:34:58.840 Okay, I'll do that, but I won't date them.

03:35:00.840 I'll date, but you guys won't.

03:35:02.280 I won't date them.

03:35:03.500 Oh, you'll smash, but you won't.

03:35:05.360 Yeah.

03:35:08.300 That's interesting.

03:35:09.040 The other way around for me.

03:35:11.420 I'll date an Asian woman.

03:35:13.640 I'll, you know, it's you, you guys are so, you guys are really toxic here towards Asian

03:35:19.580 people.

03:35:20.100 Here I am benevolent.

03:35:21.660 I guess I'll have sex with Asian women.

03:35:23.440 I guess.

03:35:23.940 If they insist.

03:35:25.460 Okay, anyway, sorry.

03:35:26.480 By the way, just to be clear, just to be clear, because I feel like I'm about to be labeled

03:35:29.720 here.

03:35:31.020 I mostly date white women and Latinas and Asian women.

03:35:37.340 I feel like white women are more toxic than, they're like the most toxic.

03:35:41.560 Just to be clear, you can find toxicity everywhere.

03:35:45.900 I'm not singling out Asian women.

03:35:47.660 I've known plenty of toxic white women, Latina women.

03:35:51.720 Right.

03:35:51.820 But I feel like-

03:35:53.060 And I gotta be honest, though.

03:35:55.860 Have not dated a black girl.

03:35:57.800 I feel like men seek out Asians because they're less toxic than white women.

03:36:02.720 Well, I don't think so.

03:36:04.480 I think you nailed it earlier.

03:36:05.720 I think it's more about the femininity.

03:36:07.320 Like you said, Asian men are more feminine.

03:36:11.320 And it's not just looks-wise, it's culturally as well.

03:36:14.200 It's more acceptable to be feminine in quite a few cultures currently.

03:36:18.380 Is it?

03:36:18.700 And women seek masculinity.

03:36:20.800 Like we want like rough hands and we want that kind of thing.

03:36:24.920 So, and men want feminine and tiny and like I could throw her around and you're gonna find

03:36:30.680 that more in that, yeah.

03:36:32.760 I don't know if I agree that you might make the argument in terms of physical appearance, but

03:36:37.960 in terms of personality, I don't know if I would agree.

03:36:41.020 By the way, there's like a book, like Asians are very varied culturally.

03:36:45.500 Like, you know, China, Korea, Japan, Vietnam, Thailand, Cambodia, you know, there's plenty

03:36:54.600 of other countries, Philippines, Singapore, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.

03:36:58.860 There's like these cultures definitely differ quite substantially.

03:37:03.680 I, you know, I'm curious when it comes to Chinese men, for example, I don't know if it's

03:37:09.560 actually the case that you could say that Chinese men are less masculine than the

03:37:15.500 American men, for example.

03:37:16.500 Would you describe Chinese men as assertive?

03:37:20.600 I think they both.

03:37:20.980 Well, are you talking about the Chinese American or are you talking about Chinese men?

03:37:24.240 Chinese.

03:37:25.060 Well, I, and I don't know, do you go to China or visit China?

03:37:29.520 It's been a while, but yeah.

03:37:31.440 So, I mean, I haven't.

03:37:33.140 Yeah, I don't, I don't think I would necessarily agree.

03:37:36.220 Like my dad, for example, I think is a very masculine man.

03:37:41.360 But would you agree with this?

03:37:43.080 My impression of many Asian cultures and Chinese culture is it's a bit more traditional.

03:37:50.260 Yeah, it is.

03:37:50.600 Like they tend to be more traditional.

03:37:52.020 It is more traditional.

03:37:52.860 Which would probably, I would suspect, perhaps lean more, I mean, but then you hear about,

03:37:58.220 you know, there's the tiger moms, or I don't know the exact term, where like the moms are

03:38:01.860 kind of a little bossy and dominant, and I think you see that sometimes in Japan, where

03:38:07.080 they'll like the, the, the Japanese wives kind of a little bossy with the husbands.

03:38:13.700 So I've heard, of course, I'm sure that's not the case for all dynamics, but I think

03:38:18.560 that in many Asian countries, there's a more traditional dynamic, whereas here you have

03:38:23.660 like boss babes, super liberal women who are handpacking the men, and you've got like soy

03:38:30.000 boy, like, I don't know, are they, wait, hold on, I was about to say that people be changing

03:38:37.920 gender here, but then I, I did remember about Thailand.

03:38:42.840 And you're also like, in California though, like California men are very different than

03:38:47.280 Midwestern men or men in Texas.

03:38:49.240 Like they're definitely a lot more, like coming from the Midwest, like Midwestern men are still

03:38:54.120 pretty damn masculine.

03:38:55.640 Like some farm boys, way different than California dudes.

03:38:59.440 I saw that thing, like a guy was doing an interview with a bunch of Chinese women.

03:39:04.640 They were saying that, I mean, correct me if I'm wrong, but they were saying that like

03:39:08.420 men from China, like in China are more cold than most men.

03:39:14.360 I mean, yeah.

03:39:15.620 Like they're more standoffish, they're more like.

03:39:17.700 I think Asian men in general is, Asian culture in general doesn't really accept mental health

03:39:22.980 opening up emotionally.

03:39:24.560 Right.

03:39:25.120 So I think that's where the like cold idea is.

03:39:27.780 And then also.

03:39:29.060 Yeah, I think, I think a lot of our men need more of that because it's, it's not, it's not

03:39:36.620 good.

03:39:36.960 Uh, okay.

03:39:39.400 Uh, where were we going?

03:39:41.560 Oh, the 50, 50 thing.

03:39:43.460 Okay.

03:39:44.160 Uh, um, you wrote that you, you personally think most women, your words, not mine.

03:39:53.720 Uh, most women are immature and are stupid, sadly.

03:39:57.380 Whoa, that's super sexist.

03:39:59.580 How dare you?

03:40:00.120 I know.

03:40:00.800 Uh, disavow, disavow, rebuke.

03:40:03.640 You're right.

03:40:05.460 There are only a few women you can sit back and appreciate, appreciate sight.

03:40:10.140 Yeah.

03:40:10.700 As I said, I was very tired.

03:40:13.080 I can, I can appreciate a man's work ethic more than a woman.

03:40:18.040 Women just do way too much and cannot take accountability for anything.

03:40:22.600 Therefore, if the woman can't take accountability, she shouldn't be in a relationship.

03:40:26.140 Most likely they're going to push their insecurity onto the man, which usually makes the man look

03:40:30.000 like the asshole in the end.

03:40:31.800 And she'll just play victim and blame everything on the man instead of reflecting, not reflecting

03:40:38.240 on their actions and faults.

03:40:41.060 Uh, wow.

03:40:41.580 This is very misogynistic take from you.

03:40:44.360 I think you should maybe apologize to all the women here for what you just said.

03:40:48.120 I need to get up.

03:40:48.660 Don't apologize.

03:40:49.640 Yeah, we're good.

03:40:50.220 We're good.

03:40:50.720 I wasn't going to apologize.

03:40:52.380 No, you're good.

03:40:52.860 Because sitting back, you know, like if I got to know you, then that obviously would

03:40:58.000 change.

03:40:58.740 I just have a very, like, I just keep this facade for everyone that like, it's just a

03:41:04.620 lot of women, especially on the show, like you guys see it, you know, like, exactly.

03:41:09.200 And I, and it doesn't go for, that's why I said it doesn't go for every single woman

03:41:12.780 out there because if you know yourself and you know that, that comment wouldn't bother

03:41:17.840 you, you know what I mean?

03:41:18.940 Yep.

03:41:19.520 Right.

03:41:20.040 Does not bother me.

03:41:21.320 Yeah.

03:41:22.020 No.

03:41:22.280 Would you say, could you relate it more to people your age versus women overall?

03:41:28.020 I just, I honestly wrote that because when I was in high school, they had asked me a

03:41:33.700 question.

03:41:34.480 Do you think a woman should become president or can be president?

03:41:38.200 And I said, no.

03:41:39.800 And I got called sexist.

03:41:41.940 Piled on, yeah.

03:41:42.500 Like, and I, I went to a pretty liberal school while I transferred.

03:41:45.940 New York.

03:41:46.440 So yeah.

03:41:47.060 Yeah.

03:41:47.500 So they were like, oh, she's sexist.

03:41:50.320 She's this.

03:41:50.800 But I just was like, women, like sometimes when they're under pressure, they don't think

03:41:55.880 more emotional.

03:41:56.960 Yeah.

03:41:57.100 They're very emotional with what they think.

03:41:59.420 And I do that too.

03:42:00.760 And that's the thing.

03:42:01.540 I can admit that I can do things based on emotion.

03:42:05.720 A hundred percent.

03:42:06.280 And I totally agree with that.

03:42:08.060 Like push the head down.

03:42:09.020 And I think it's great that like a young, like a young woman says it because the problem

03:42:15.020 is millennial women big time.

03:42:17.100 They're the ones that are setting the course for.

03:42:19.280 And they're pushing it.

03:42:19.880 Exactly.

03:42:20.460 So they're unhappy with their lives.

03:42:21.880 They're single.

03:42:22.620 They've got their cats and their wine and their, with their weed or whatever.

03:42:26.180 And I'm not a part of that by the way.

03:42:27.900 And they, you know, I wasn't talking about you specifically, but I literally heard middle-aged

03:42:34.180 women sit there and go, age is just a number.

03:42:37.360 No, no, there is an objective truth.

03:42:39.620 And I've watched other women sit there and tell younger women, well, just go out, live

03:42:43.440 your life, go and ride the carousel as much as you can.

03:42:46.960 You need your experiences.

03:42:47.880 And it completely sabotages younger women from getting.

03:42:50.500 I did believe that in my twenties.

03:42:51.880 Oh, I, and it ruined me.

03:42:54.200 I'm a millennial.

03:42:55.660 Like, and my, and I remember like it was go to college, go to, you know, go and get an

03:43:00.900 education.

03:43:01.660 A man, a man's not going to want you if you, if you work, like you're never, a man is never

03:43:05.960 going to marry you if you don't work.

03:43:07.080 You have to pull your weight.

03:43:08.040 You have to, no one ever told, like I'm a millennial and nobody's ever told me that

03:43:13.320 men just want a nice girl, a complacent girl.

03:43:17.360 Yeah, yeah, exactly.

03:43:18.380 And had somebody had told me in my twenties that all I had to do was be pretty and nice

03:43:24.160 and I could just write out that my life doing my nails and taking care of my children and

03:43:29.840 homeschooling them, my life would have been a lot different than I wouldn't have made

03:43:32.800 the mistakes that I had made.

03:43:34.300 So good on you for being so young and like actually recognizing that, that women are

03:43:40.240 a problem, especially millennial women.

03:43:41.380 That's why I actively, I will, I will say that millennial women are a problem.

03:43:45.280 That's why I actively started watching this show.

03:43:47.960 Like I see why the aim of the show is to make women aware, not just women, but make people

03:43:53.000 aware of this.

03:43:53.680 And I really do hope that people who are younger learn that lesson because it can get to the

03:43:58.720 point where, oh shit, it's too late.

03:44:00.680 It really can get to that point where, oh shit, it's too late.

03:44:04.140 Yeah.

03:44:04.220 I know a millennial, she went on vacation and she talked about going to a cave party.

03:44:11.360 I was like, you're 40.

03:44:13.120 Is it like a burning man thing?

03:44:14.420 I don't know.

03:44:15.420 Yeah.

03:44:15.660 Like you're 40.

03:44:16.460 Oh, I guess that is technically a millennial.

03:44:17.160 Like what are you doing?

03:44:18.220 Like no one wants to see you dance around in a bikini.

03:44:21.040 Like absolutely nobody wants that.

03:44:23.680 Like, and it's, it's sad.

03:44:26.000 It's like, honestly, for me to look at that, it's, well, it's so pathetic.

03:44:31.320 I mean, I mean, somebody who has the word stepmom in their search history wants to see that.

03:44:38.160 It's just a joke.

03:44:39.080 It's just a joke.

03:44:40.160 It's just a joke.

03:44:41.720 But yeah, no, I think it's great.

03:44:43.580 And I think more young women should take that on and accept, because that, like you said,

03:44:47.940 there's no responsibility.

03:44:49.420 There's no accountability for women.

03:44:50.800 They can just go, eh, well, you know, he was mean to me.

03:44:54.380 He said a naughty thing to me, so I don't have to, like, I don't have to accept that.

03:44:59.220 That's abuse.

03:45:00.120 Everything is abuse when it comes to women.

03:45:01.700 They never take accountability.

03:45:02.960 I've made choices in my life.

03:45:04.180 And the women that say that they've been abused in these relationships are people who have never

03:45:08.820 experienced abuse in their life.

03:45:11.120 Yeah.

03:45:11.260 Like they, they don't even know the half of it when people are actually staying and being

03:45:15.740 in these abusive relationships.

03:45:17.300 They're the ones who aren't speaking out.

03:45:19.620 They're the ones who stay quiet.

03:45:20.820 It's so, no, and it's like the thing my husband said to me, right?

03:45:25.500 Like a lot of women would look at that and go, wow, he's abusive.

03:45:28.480 He's so abusive to her.

03:45:29.660 He's mentally, he's brainwashed.

03:45:31.320 And I, it's not that it's, he wanted what was best for me.

03:45:36.040 And I think that's fair.

03:45:37.580 And yeah, I think a lot of millennial women should just kind of take the, I have a question

03:45:43.100 since the topic of abuse came up, I have a question and it's not, it's not a heavy

03:45:47.620 question or anything, uh, I, I had a girl, I think it was a couple of shows ago, ask me,

03:45:55.780 uh, I do pretty well, but she would ask me and you know, I would like to, uh, whoever

03:46:01.740 I'm with long-term, she doesn't have to work.

03:46:04.000 I'm going to take care of everything.

03:46:06.820 Um, but she asked, well, what would that entail?

03:46:09.360 Like what if your girlfriend wants a luxury bag?

03:46:13.920 Uh, well, let me, let me tell you, let me ask the question first and I'll, do you guys

03:46:18.100 think it would be, it's financial abuse?

03:46:20.600 Let's say I'm got a, you know, long-term girlfriend.

03:46:24.760 We have kids, whatever.

03:46:25.800 Is it financial abuse?

03:46:28.860 If I don't buy my girlfriend, a Louis Vuitton purse?

03:46:34.980 No.

03:46:35.680 Absolutely not.

03:46:36.520 Anybody think it's abuse?

03:46:38.380 Am I financially, financial abuse?

03:46:40.560 No.

03:46:40.780 Financial abuse.

03:46:41.400 No.

03:46:41.700 Like she really wants the purse though.

03:46:44.040 Good for her.

03:46:44.640 Is it for like a special occasion?

03:46:45.900 Buy it herself.

03:46:46.880 Special, special occasion.

03:46:48.320 Yeah.

03:46:48.820 Well, he's saying that he supports her and financially supports her.

03:46:52.840 She's at home.

03:46:53.820 So like, as far as like the buy it yourself thing, that's not an option.

03:46:57.780 She can't buy it herself.

03:46:58.680 Why?

03:46:59.060 I mean.

03:46:59.540 Then no, because she's not working.

03:47:01.660 I think that if her biggest priority is getting a bag, she should re-evaluate her priorities

03:47:07.140 and you're a good man for showing that to her.

03:47:09.780 How about this?

03:47:11.020 She wants a Lexus.

03:47:12.860 I get her a Toyota.

03:47:15.280 Financial abuse?

03:47:16.280 No.

03:47:17.020 Financial abuse?

03:47:18.080 No.

03:47:18.800 Okay.

03:47:19.420 You got her a car.

03:47:20.000 We're just not off tonight.

03:47:20.660 You still got her a car.

03:47:22.000 Yeah.

03:47:22.620 Yeah.

03:47:23.880 Sorry.

03:47:24.320 How about, how about, I'm trying to think of another example I could give.

03:47:32.360 I think it's financial abuse.

03:47:33.300 Like if you get yourself nice things and won't get her something nice.

03:47:36.180 Well, probably more along that line.

03:47:37.800 Well, hold on.

03:47:38.600 So yeah, yeah.

03:47:39.420 I buy myself a McLaren or Ferrari, but she gets a Toyota.

03:47:46.600 Well, it's still your money though.

03:47:47.500 Is it financial abuse?

03:47:49.080 No.

03:47:49.340 She wants to take on an expensive hobby.

03:47:54.820 Like she wants to start doing something where the supplies and the stuff to do it would be

03:47:58.860 really costly.

03:47:59.860 What about that?

03:48:00.640 Oh, that's good.

03:48:01.460 Horses.

03:48:02.680 Ooh.

03:48:03.420 Horses.

03:48:04.040 She wants a horse.

03:48:05.940 Three horses.

03:48:07.740 Does it contribute?

03:48:08.460 And I say no.

03:48:09.460 But I could afford it, but I say no.

03:48:11.820 Does it?

03:48:12.420 Huh?

03:48:12.740 Sorry.

03:48:13.300 Go ahead.

03:48:13.580 No, you go ahead.

03:48:14.600 Does it contribute to anything like as far as their living?

03:48:18.500 What do you mean?

03:48:18.780 The expensive hobby?

03:48:20.160 Like, yeah.

03:48:20.900 Is it any kind of contribute?

03:48:22.480 If it's not, then no.

03:48:23.420 I wouldn't.

03:48:24.160 Well, I mean, it'd be a hobby and past time.

03:48:26.560 Is it going to bring in money?

03:48:28.820 No.

03:48:29.320 Okay.

03:48:29.920 I would make it racist.

03:48:31.020 That's the only way.

03:48:31.820 That's the only way.

03:48:31.840 That's the only way.

03:48:32.440 Yeah.

03:48:33.000 I would lose money.

03:48:34.780 But, okay.

03:48:36.120 So not financial abuse.

03:48:37.440 Okay.

03:48:37.700 Because I got a bit of flack, you know.

03:48:39.540 Because I, this girl, you know, we were talking about it.

03:48:44.140 And she got, I would say, oh, I'd get her a bag at Costco or Amazon.

03:48:51.900 I get you.

03:48:52.660 Sure.

03:48:54.680 If you have style, you can rock that Amazon bag just as good as you can rock that Louis bag.

03:48:59.400 But, I guess, from my perspective, it's, even if I could afford it, I would, and I'm fully providing, I'm taking care of everything, I would still want authority over purchases.

03:49:14.000 I mean, not in totality, but, okay, you want to spend, like, if my girlfriend were to come to me and I'm taking care of everything, oh, I want a $3,000 bag.

03:49:26.240 No.

03:49:28.240 No.

03:49:28.680 I agree.

03:49:29.860 Because my dad is the only moneymaker in our family.

03:49:32.640 Yeah.

03:49:32.980 So, and my mom does not work at all.

03:49:35.620 W.

03:49:36.060 And has very irrational asks.

03:49:38.580 Oh, you're, wait, you said your mom was kind of toxic or, switches, please.

03:49:43.760 Yeah.

03:49:45.580 Okay.

03:49:46.360 What about you?

03:49:46.800 So, I have a complete different story.

03:49:49.400 So, I love rings.

03:49:51.260 The only jewelry I love is my rings.

03:49:53.360 So, I asked my second husband that my wedding ring, because this is America, I need it prettier, you know?

03:50:02.040 Like, this one is $100,000 only.

03:50:05.060 So, it's not, like, super-duper expensive.

03:50:07.960 And I asked him.

03:50:08.800 What?

03:50:09.240 Whoa.

03:50:09.440 That's expensive.

03:50:10.480 What?

03:50:11.240 $100,000?

03:50:12.020 What?

03:50:12.560 No, no, no.

03:50:13.120 Only $100.

03:50:13.760 $1,000.

03:50:14.640 $1,000.

03:50:15.020 Oh.

03:50:15.680 Okay, okay, okay.

03:50:18.980 $1,000.

03:50:19.860 $1,000.

03:50:19.900 So, $1,000 ring, I was asking.

03:50:23.340 And I say, if you want, I can buy from India from my own money, because I have money in India.

03:50:28.900 But he said, no, I will buy from here.

03:50:31.740 And he got, like, I don't know what metal it was, like, $200.

03:50:36.640 And it was really bad.

03:50:39.320 Like, really, really.

03:50:40.040 It turns black after a few months.

03:50:42.400 So, you know, do you think this is a financial abuse?

03:50:45.280 He don't let me spend my own money and what I want to wear every day as a sign of a marriage.

03:50:54.180 May I just say this?

03:50:55.540 You said that he won't let you spend your own money.

03:50:57.660 Yes.

03:50:57.820 I will say this, and apologies, I'm speaking to someone who's not married.

03:51:01.320 But when you get married, the point is that it's not your money or his money.

03:51:04.660 It's money that's your married.

03:51:07.120 It's our money.

03:51:08.400 Yeah, our money.

03:51:08.800 But he said, do not buy clothes for my daughter, because it's my daughter, not his.

03:51:13.680 It's from my own salary also, like, whatever joint account.

03:51:16.920 But he don't let me.

03:51:18.640 So that's financial abuse, you know, because.

03:51:22.560 Okay.

03:51:23.620 Going to Lisa, finishing up your notes.

03:51:26.520 Lisa, you wrote, when your ex cheated, then went to jail the same day?

03:51:33.580 Yeah, that was an interesting dating story.

03:51:37.460 What did he go to jail for?

03:51:38.520 He went to jail for punching someone, and then the person went into the hospital.

03:51:50.800 Okay.

03:51:51.020 So, yeah.

03:51:53.120 Okay.

03:51:53.640 You also wrote here your final thing.

03:51:55.400 You have other interesting opinions you share on the podcast.

03:51:58.100 You believe, your word's not mine, you believe women should be stay at home and help their husbands.

03:52:02.360 You're a Christian, so you're traditional.

03:52:06.680 You don't think women should be pastors and speak in the church.

03:52:10.100 You say women belong at home, married with kids, not working full time, and men should provide and protect.

03:52:16.160 You believe in full tradition.

03:52:17.920 Even churches have embraced the modern too much to the point that there's female pastors, and you don't agree with that.

03:52:25.820 You think society needs to regress women, women belong in the kitchen, making our husbands a sandwich.

03:52:34.860 Wow.

03:52:36.040 Basic.

03:52:36.400 Hey, you know, I'm the, oh, man.

03:52:38.540 100%.

03:52:38.920 Y'all spicy tonight.

03:52:40.420 Okay.

03:52:40.880 To an extent, yeah.

03:52:42.640 To an extent, yes.

03:52:43.720 Absolutely.

03:52:44.120 Like, me personally, I do want to work, not full time, but, like, I want to cook, I want to clean, I want to take care of kids, but I would also like to have a job as well, just because I feel like me personally, I would get bored from just, not bored, but as fulfilling as that would be, I think it would also be cool to have a job.

03:53:05.680 Isn't that a really good example of wanting it all, though?

03:53:08.480 Like, the pie is only so big, you can only cut so many pieces out of it.

03:53:11.700 Yeah, but it's, like, even, like, I mean, I joke about it with my boyfriend all the time, like, yeah, I don't, like, I just want to sit at home on my ass and do nothing, but it's, like, he would also, like, say, me and him do get married, he would also want me working.

03:53:27.980 And you want children.

03:53:29.100 Yes.

03:53:29.660 So if you're, again, okay, imagine there's a pie, and you cut out a slice, and that pie is your time, and you cut out a slice for your husband, of course, I'm making the food analogy.

03:53:41.700 You cut out a slice for your husband, you cut out a slice for your children, if you're cutting a slice for a job, your husband and your child are getting less of a slice.

03:53:54.200 Well, that's why at one point you'll have to get to a place where your job is making money without you fully being there for it.

03:54:00.420 Exactly, and, like, for example, like, I want to be, like, a teacher.

03:54:06.840 When I'm teaching, my kids are going to be in school.

03:54:10.320 So then.

03:54:10.800 I'll be home when they're home.

03:54:12.640 If you have the kids, and you have the husband, teach Sunday school.

03:54:16.800 I mean, I help assist teaching Sunday school at my church, and it wouldn't take me away from that.

03:54:23.220 It would be something you do one day a week, and you still get that fulfillment, and you still get that ability to teach.

03:54:28.420 100%.

03:54:28.820 Or tutoring.

03:54:29.800 Yeah, like, I want to be a teacher, but as, like, a teacher, like, yeah, I need to prep, and all of that is going to take time as well.

03:54:36.060 But that's stuff that can be done at home.

03:54:38.760 Like, I'm not going to nurture my husband or my children less because I also.

03:54:44.440 And again, I don't want to speak about something I don't understand.

03:54:46.660 So I'm going to ask the people here that have children, even when your children get older, could you still find the time to do it all?

03:54:56.680 Is that a realistic thing?

03:54:59.300 Personally, I mean, I, when I graduated from college, I had to go find a job, you know, being straight out of school.

03:55:06.680 But my ultimate goal was to be a stay-at-home mom.

03:55:09.480 Like, that was what I wanted to do.

03:55:10.920 I wanted to have kids and stay at home.

03:55:12.860 And that's what my husband wanted as well.

03:55:14.280 And that's what I did for the, you know, the first several years of our marriage.

03:55:19.420 And then he lost his job.

03:55:22.380 He took a second job.

03:55:23.580 That job didn't pay as well.

03:55:24.980 And so financially, I had to go back to work when my son was, like, three.

03:55:29.720 So I had to go back.

03:55:31.460 And so now I am very fortunate to have a job where I am working from home.

03:55:37.100 So I am at home if the kids need me, if one's home sick from school or something like that.

03:55:42.640 So I don't feel necessarily like I'm taking time away from my kids or my husband.

03:55:48.660 I feel like everybody feels that their needs are met.

03:55:52.720 You know, my house isn't as clean as I would like for it to be, maybe.

03:55:55.460 But I still, I cook dinner.

03:55:57.920 I cook my husband breakfast every morning.

03:55:59.900 I cook my family dinner six nights a week.

03:56:02.160 We do go out and eat one night a week.

03:56:03.580 But I'm very hands-on that way as well.

03:56:06.220 When I was growing up, you know, my only dream was having a husband.

03:56:11.340 I will be just home and taking care of house.

03:56:14.880 And my grandma, you know, taught me all the things to be a perfect wife.

03:56:19.040 So my only dream is I will be having an arranged marriage.

03:56:22.640 My husband will be as good as my father, you know, like my father with my mom.

03:56:27.040 And then I will be just sitting and not doing anything, raising kids, taking care of guests and house.

03:56:32.220 But what happened is during my first marriage, my father asked that you got a job offer.

03:56:38.960 Can you ask your to-be husband and in-laws that are you allowed to be work?

03:56:45.040 Like what they want.

03:56:46.000 So I asked them.

03:56:47.220 And they say, no, you should work.

03:56:48.760 You're a software engineer.

03:56:49.780 It's a good job.

03:56:50.580 You should work.

03:56:51.700 So now when I'm working, because they like me to work because they want extra money,

03:56:57.400 but my husband will not contribute equally in home, you know, like they say, Indian men

03:57:05.160 doesn't work, do the house stuff, you know, like raising kids or anything.

03:57:10.680 So then I say husband and wife should complement each other.

03:57:14.520 If a woman is just like house maker, then husband should do all the other responsibilities.

03:57:21.220 If woman is 50, like doing job as well as taking care, husband should also.

03:57:26.300 But they both should complement each other, like to be a perfect couple, you know.

03:57:31.780 Yeah, like if me getting a job would affect my family, then obviously I'm not going to.

03:57:37.240 Right on.

03:57:37.660 Yeah.

03:57:37.980 But if like everything, like it works, then it works.

03:57:42.440 Yeah.

03:57:42.760 And I don't want to say that I'm taking the stance of like don't work.

03:57:45.600 I'm just saying that like knowing that you're a little bit younger, are you doing the same

03:57:49.860 thing we just talked about?

03:57:50.880 Angle, angle, angle.

03:57:52.240 Wanting it all.

03:57:53.080 I'll tell you, as a mom that does work, a married woman that did work and had three

03:57:57.800 kids, choosing to go to work is probably the worst thing you can do for your children.

03:58:05.380 You say, yeah, but you disagree.

03:58:07.420 No, I agree.

03:58:09.700 It's the worst thing you can do for your children because they don't take on your personality.

03:58:13.520 They don't take on your values.

03:58:14.680 They take on the government's values and whatever they decide to put in your school.

03:58:18.640 So my children are now products of the government because I made a choice.

03:58:23.760 So I had to, my son who's 17, I had to take him away from everything like technology, electronics,

03:58:32.760 this and that, and really force him back into my values.

03:58:36.700 Because he believed in the whole like men can be women, blah, blah, blah, blah, all that

03:58:41.940 crap that all came out of the public schools.

03:58:45.120 He told me God wasn't real.

03:58:46.900 He told me all of that.

03:58:48.080 So I'm telling you as a mom who sent her three children to public schools, it's not a good

03:58:54.220 thing.

03:58:54.620 As a person with a stay at home mom, it was probably the most miserable thing ever.

03:59:02.900 It made me and my siblings lives probably like if she had a job, I believe our entire

03:59:08.260 family would be, it's different for everyone.

03:59:10.440 But do you think you're going to be like your mother?

03:59:12.680 No.

03:59:13.140 Okay.

03:59:13.480 So you'll probably be a better mother than her.

03:59:15.560 Yeah.

03:59:15.960 But like, I feel like, like what you're saying is like principles, like how are you going to

03:59:19.800 raise your children?

03:59:20.560 What are they going to believe?

03:59:21.420 What are they not going to believe right from wrong?

03:59:23.360 Right.

03:59:23.600 Yeah.

03:59:24.160 Like, I feel like that, like definitely has a play in how like there you are, but at

03:59:31.140 the same time, it's like, are you saying it's because she was a helicopter mom that was overbearing

03:59:35.580 or are you saying it's because she wasn't fulfilled and took it out on y'all?

03:59:38.600 She wasn't fulfilled and took it out on all of us.

03:59:41.480 Yeah.

03:59:41.820 Like, like insanely.

03:59:43.620 I had one of those too.

03:59:44.400 Yeah.

03:59:44.880 But like you say, like you admit that you're not going to be like your mother, right?

03:59:48.380 Yeah.

03:59:48.580 Like, and that's fine.

03:59:50.400 And then you can, you know, you can kind of build off that.

03:59:53.080 But as like, I can tell you, and living in Canada, obviously it's not the same as living

03:59:58.560 in America, but in Canada, there are things that we are not like, if my son comes home

04:00:03.040 and says, I'm a girl, we're not allowed to tell him no, we have to affirm it.

04:00:12.520 Okay.

04:00:12.920 El Canada.

04:00:13.840 Yeah.

04:00:14.160 The government should not be stepping into that because they will take your kid and put

04:00:21.000 them in the system.

04:00:22.240 So that's why I'm saying like, it's so important that your values go into your children than

04:00:28.700 the government's values going into your children.

04:00:30.680 You already said you're not going to be like your mother.

04:00:32.400 And I believe that.

04:00:33.260 So I, I mean, I would definitely maybe seek out someone that can provide your young, your

04:00:38.860 beautiful, you can seek out somebody good enough.

04:00:42.340 And that can provide, so you can stay at home with the children.

04:00:45.000 Trust me, it's more fulfilling than working 40 hours a week.

04:00:49.860 Oh, I know.

04:00:50.340 Here's a question for you.

04:00:51.840 Let's say, you know, you, you end up with your current boyfriend or whatever, you guys

04:00:55.520 get married and, uh, let's say he becomes, I don't know, either through his job or some

04:01:02.520 other way, very wealthy to the point where financially speaking, you don't have to work,

04:01:07.260 uh, under that sort of circumstance where it wasn't a financial decision, would you, and

04:01:12.840 he was like, Hey, I want you to stay at home.

04:01:14.600 Would you stay at home?

04:01:15.480 Yes.

04:01:15.720 One hundred percent.

04:01:16.560 That's why I'm saying if my family will prosper still from me working, if it's going to

04:01:23.460 deteriorate my family, then one hundred percent, I'm not going to do it.

04:01:26.180 And like I said, like, that's why I went back to work.

04:01:28.200 It's because financially, I, we, we, I had to, yeah, if I, if, if we could, you know,

04:01:34.100 be financially well off where I didn't have to work, yeah, my butt would be at the house.

04:01:37.620 I would be cleaning and cooking and, and, and actually, to your point, like you were talking

04:01:42.100 about the schools, we actually homeschool our daughter.

04:01:44.800 So I am actually able to be at home with her.

04:01:47.080 My, my, my, my younger son, he is still in public school, but you know, where I am, they're

04:01:52.960 a little bit more conservative.

04:01:53.880 Like they don't, but yeah, I see that.

04:01:57.240 And he's actually talked to me about staying at home to do homeschooling.

04:02:01.120 I'm just like, uh, I think you want to do that just so you can wake up later in Canada.

04:02:05.880 Like it's like, if you're living off, if there's only one income in the house, like you're killing

04:02:12.460 it because it's almost impossible.

04:02:14.660 The average person does not stay.

04:02:16.640 There's not one person staying at home.

04:02:18.360 Like it's just not, no, it's not feasible in Canada.

04:02:21.320 It's just not.

04:02:22.400 In India, like we have so many maids and servants and drivers, like my mom had three kids, but

04:02:28.220 she, she has all the help.

04:02:30.880 Like when, when I had my daughter, I have all the help.

04:02:34.420 Like they just give me to feed her.

04:02:35.960 Otherwise, you know, all the family members and maids and servants, they were, so it's

04:02:40.780 so easy, you know, you just going to, I guess, to your notes, Priyanka, you did write,

04:02:47.580 you have one meaningful disagreement.

04:02:49.140 You said a lot of conversations around women's issues are centered only on the, the United

04:02:54.360 States, but women's struggles are also deeply shaped by culture, family systems, and traditions

04:02:59.900 across the world.

04:03:01.880 That's fair.

04:03:02.780 Like when I married and came to America, I thought he has American mentality, not India,

04:03:09.200 but his, his mom came to our house and say, why my son is doing the dishes.

04:03:15.400 The man in my house doesn't do dishes, but I say, I'm also a software engineer as your,

04:03:23.320 you know, and I have a daughter also to take care of.

04:03:26.060 So, you know, sometimes even it's, it's culturally sometimes very difficult.

04:03:32.600 Well, it is a difficult position where both people are working and then I do it all.

04:03:37.820 Yeah.

04:03:38.100 I work a full-time job.

04:03:39.680 I cook, like I clean, I cook, I take care of my son.

04:03:42.580 I bring, like, we do it all.

04:03:44.280 My son, my, my, my husband is a rugby coach.

04:03:48.900 My son plays rugby.

04:03:50.600 Like if he calls me up and says, Hey, I need this.

04:03:53.280 Boom.

04:03:53.480 I'm in that car and I'm going like.

04:03:56.840 Great sport.

04:03:57.480 Well, I mean, like, I'm actually going to Scotland to go and coach the rugby.

04:04:04.500 And I feel like, like from the sounds of it, your family, is your family doing worse because

04:04:09.480 you're working or are you, like, are you guys in a good position?

04:04:13.800 We're in a, we're in a fantastic position, but I feel like my, my husband's an electrician.

04:04:20.620 So let's say if we were in Florida, he would be probably making, doing, be doing better,

04:04:27.960 like be able to support me, which it's like, that's not what our plan is, but like, he would

04:04:32.620 probably be able to support me on his own.

04:04:34.660 But Canada takes a lot of taxes, a lot of taxes, but yeah, no, like I, why can't you do

04:04:44.100 the dishes and do all that?

04:04:45.620 Why is that so like, like, cause I do it.

04:04:49.560 My husband, I'm going to call him out.

04:04:51.740 I'm going to blow up his spot a little bit, but like, I left for a week cause I had a,

04:04:55.180 a show to do.

04:04:56.980 And, uh, I come back home and he's like, I bought dishwasher, dishwasher pods or whatever.

04:05:01.840 And I got back and they were like gain pods.

04:05:05.780 My husband is so out of the loop when it comes to cleaning that he can't even, he can't even

04:05:11.400 buy proper pots.

04:05:12.760 He didn't put them in the dishwasher, did he?

04:05:14.380 I don't even like for my husband to load the dishwasher.

04:05:16.760 I'm like, you're doing it wrong.

04:05:17.780 You're just letting me do it.

04:05:18.420 You're doing it wrong.

04:05:18.520 Well, he's not even that he'll pick up the broom and I'm immediately insulted that he

04:05:22.460 did that.

04:05:22.980 Cause I was like, what?

04:05:23.700 I didn't do it fast enough.

04:05:24.640 Like what's going on?

04:05:25.600 Like, give me that, sit down.

04:05:26.940 Like my husband, I make his tea every single night before he goes to bed.

04:05:31.280 I make his tea.

04:05:32.020 I make it.

04:05:32.360 I get up at five in the morning.

04:05:33.460 I get dressed.

04:05:34.060 I make his coffee.

04:05:34.860 So it's ready and set to go.

04:05:36.400 Like I literally do everything for my husband.

04:05:38.900 Because you know, uh, when we were talking initially on the matrimonial app, uh, we had the

04:05:45.360 same conversation, you know, like if I'm, uh, I'm working, will you share the responsibility?

04:05:51.300 Because growing up, I never did dishes or anything.

04:05:54.120 We always had help.

04:05:55.400 I grew up in a business class family with a joint family of people.

04:05:59.180 I learned to do everything, cooking, cleaning, stewing, whatnot.

04:06:03.460 But it's just the shared responsibility because see, I have a full-time software engineer job

04:06:08.440 as he has, but I have a henna business also.

04:06:12.000 I work weekends too.

04:06:13.820 I have three kids, a full-time job.

04:06:16.060 I travel for a living.

04:06:17.040 So you want that he should not do dishes?

04:06:19.120 No.

04:06:19.700 Okay.

04:06:20.180 You know what?

04:06:20.740 I'm going to just get a sugar mama and she can still do all the work.

04:06:24.720 She can do all everything.

04:06:26.000 I'm going to just retire.

04:06:27.320 She can work.

04:06:28.240 Yeah.

04:06:28.560 She can work and she still has to come home.

04:06:30.920 She busted her ass for 60 hours.

04:06:33.420 She's still doing the dishes.

04:06:34.940 She's still mopping.

04:06:36.200 And she's doing everything.

04:06:37.660 Well, like I came out here and whenever I have to go on trips for work, like I'm out

04:06:41.560 here, I go to a trade show tomorrow.

04:06:44.220 I don't want my family to feel my absence as much as possible.

04:06:48.140 So before I actually go on these trips, I will prep their meals.

04:06:52.440 Their dinners for this week are ready in the fridge and all you got to do.

04:06:55.500 I'm not that good.

04:06:57.140 I'm not that good.

04:06:57.960 Just blasting through some of the other notes.

04:07:00.460 Sarah, right?

04:07:01.160 Uh, you married a man 15 years older than you.

04:07:04.960 He was a college football coach.

04:07:07.860 Yep.

04:07:08.440 He told you guys your age, uh, thought a certain way.

04:07:13.500 Uh, and you've been married 20 years.

04:07:16.760 You said?

04:07:17.180 20 years.

04:07:17.620 Yeah.

04:07:18.000 Okay.

04:07:18.220 So you were, were you in college when you met him or?

04:07:20.900 I was in college when I met him.

04:07:22.020 Yeah.

04:07:22.440 Okay.

04:07:22.820 Yeah.

04:07:22.900 College.

04:07:23.340 And he was the, he was the football coach at that college?

04:07:25.720 He was actually the football coach at my college.

04:07:27.540 Oh, is that?

04:07:28.200 That's not how it all started.

04:07:29.700 Oh, okay.

04:07:30.360 That's not how it started.

04:07:31.960 So no, actually it was really, it was really interesting how it all started.

04:07:35.520 So, um, I went to a very small college and he was the football coach and, um, he was actually

04:07:42.700 married with a kid.

04:07:44.120 I was engaged at the time to like my high school boyfriend and I was doing work study

04:07:49.640 for one of his assistants.

04:07:51.460 And I remember like his ex-wife at the time, well, ex-wife, wife at the time would come

04:07:57.060 up and she would like see him, have lunch with him or whatever.

04:07:59.080 And I would always babysit his little boy.

04:08:00.740 I even offered like, Hey, if you all want to go out on a date, I'll, I'll babysit your

04:08:04.680 little boy for free, you know, loved him.

04:08:06.740 Well, things happened between the two of them.

04:08:09.420 She ended up, uh, leaving and moving back cause they're from South Carolina.

04:08:14.320 She moved back to South Carolina.

04:08:16.380 Um, he and I became friends and then he got a job back in South Carolina to try to get,

04:08:21.160 be closer to his son cause he didn't want to be four states away.

04:08:24.800 Um, I was like, man, yeah.

04:08:26.660 Oh, I thought you were right for moving your hand.

04:08:28.440 I do got to move it on here.

04:08:29.740 Are, do you want to finish the story though?

04:08:32.600 No, no, no.

04:08:33.140 We ended up like staying in touch and started a long distance relationship after they got

04:08:37.680 a divorce and 20 years later and three, two kids were, we're here.

04:08:42.300 Uh, uh, wait, hold on guys.

04:08:45.600 I got to go private for a second.

04:08:59.740 Okay.

04:09:00.660 Um, continuing on with your notes, Sarah.

04:09:03.540 No, you're good.

04:09:04.320 Uh, so yeah.

04:09:05.080 Well, so you said women need to remain pure as long as possible, preferably until marriage

04:09:10.940 due to high levels of cancer, emotional.

04:09:13.760 So you're talking about like HPV?

04:09:15.300 Yeah, there are actually, um, it's, there's, um, there are studies that have been shown

04:09:19.940 that the higher, the body count, the higher your risk of cervical cancer, HPV and things

04:09:25.400 like that.

04:09:25.840 And so it's not, I mean, for me, it's more morality, but for others, it's, there's also

04:09:30.680 health risks involved.

04:09:31.920 Okay.

04:09:32.340 Gotcha.

04:09:33.340 Just curious who here is a, uh, Christian who's Christian.

04:09:36.800 Oh, you're Christian, Christian, Christian, Christian.

04:09:39.200 Oh, wow.

04:09:39.960 I don't know about, uh, her.

04:09:41.920 I don't get the impression, but, uh, not that, not that that's any shade, but, uh, okay.

04:09:48.100 Nicole, uh, to you, uh, so you're waiting until marriage.

04:09:53.220 Yes.

04:09:53.980 Um, we covered some of that earlier on in the show.

04:09:58.320 You said you've never actually dated.

04:10:01.660 Yeah.

04:10:02.180 Uh, but I mean, you've, what's the definition of a date?

04:10:05.980 Well, I mean, like when I say the term date, people want to map on that.

04:10:11.920 Like formality to that.

04:10:13.840 I would consider a date.

04:10:15.540 You're hanging on individually one-on-one with a guy you like.

04:10:19.220 That's to me would constitute a date.

04:10:23.160 Okay.

04:10:23.480 That's, that's like women will do this thing where it's like, oh, I've never dated, but

04:10:28.900 I've had sex with a hundred men.

04:10:33.080 I mean, you have dating experience.

04:10:36.740 You're not like lacking in dating experience.

04:10:39.740 It's just short-lived.

04:10:42.820 Okay.

04:10:43.580 Um, but you've had some situationships short term.

04:10:48.200 Uh, why do you think it's short-lived with a lot of these guys?

04:10:52.300 You say you're chronically single.

04:10:54.680 What is it?

04:10:55.560 In the past?

04:10:56.420 Oh, that was before I came to Christ.

04:10:57.940 But like, why do you, were the guys just, it was them?

04:11:03.200 Was it you?

04:11:03.940 Was it both?

04:11:04.700 What?

04:11:06.560 I think it was God's protection.

04:11:10.120 And God's protection.

04:11:11.680 Yeah.

04:11:12.000 He was just pulling me away from them and dragging, like just dragging me away from them.

04:11:18.140 Um, whether there was like a different situation where there, we just didn't vibe, I guess.

04:11:25.480 It was God's inter divine intervention.

04:11:30.020 A hundred percent.

04:11:30.520 Yes.

04:11:31.400 But, uh, did you like go into those relationships seeking like an actual long-term thing?

04:11:39.700 Yes, I did.

04:11:40.780 And I was seeking validation and love in all the wrong places.

04:11:44.460 You did write here, uh, actually, can I, the, you sent a, I don't want to like, you sent a message about someone, can I share it, or you prefer not?

04:11:59.840 Sure.

04:12:00.420 That's fine.

04:12:00.680 Okay.

04:12:00.900 You said you wanted to shoot your shot with Chase, who's been on the show previously, but only if he's single.

04:12:07.840 Yeah.

04:12:09.500 Good, dude.

04:12:11.160 Uh, okay.

04:12:12.260 All right.

04:12:13.000 Uh, I can't, I mean, go for it, I guess.

04:12:18.660 Uh, is he single?

04:12:19.640 Huh?

04:12:19.960 Is he single?

04:12:21.140 Uh, I actually don't know.

04:12:22.980 I, I spoke to him, uh, geez, it's been a couple months since I spoke to him.

04:12:26.720 I don't know what his current relationship status is.

04:12:28.900 Then I'll hold off until I know for sure.

04:12:30.820 But.

04:12:33.160 Chase, if you're watching.

04:12:34.280 I thought he was the last show.

04:12:35.320 I gotta be honest, though.

04:12:36.480 I know he doesn't like tattoos.

04:12:37.780 I don't know if.

04:12:38.400 I know.

04:12:38.960 Yeah.

04:12:39.260 But they're all very God-centered.

04:12:42.060 So.

04:12:42.540 Okay.

04:12:43.100 That's different.

04:12:44.020 They're not vulgar or anything.

04:12:46.000 Do you consider yourself a born-again virgin?

04:12:48.480 No.

04:12:48.960 No, not that.

04:12:49.820 Okay.

04:12:50.440 Uh, Erin, uh, going to your notes then.

04:12:53.600 Actually, you know what, before we get into the notes, I want to do some questionnaire stuff

04:12:56.820 because, no offense to everyone, the questionnaire stuff's a bit more interesting.

04:13:00.780 Uh, going around the table, what is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband?

04:13:04.260 Um, I put 150,000?

04:13:05.260 Um, I put 150,000.

04:13:07.640 150,000?

04:13:08.560 What about you?

04:13:09.040 I think I put either 65 or 70.

04:13:11.640 70K?

04:13:12.100 Okay.

04:13:13.640 I didn't know what to put, but I put 250K.

04:13:17.140 250K?

04:13:18.000 Yeah.

04:13:18.960 Uh, minimum.

04:13:22.560 Like, so, not, a guy makes 100K?

04:13:25.620 That's fine.

04:13:26.220 I really don't care.

04:13:27.120 I know.

04:13:27.380 But the question is minimum.

04:13:29.060 I, I know.

04:13:29.900 I just didn't know what to put.

04:13:31.480 I just, okay.

04:13:32.480 Um, 250K, though, that is, I think, to be top 1%, it's 400,000.

04:13:38.480 So, you're getting close to the top 1%.

04:13:40.020 Uh, what about you?

04:13:41.700 I think I said 65 to 75,000.

04:13:44.140 Okay.

04:13:44.160 What about you?

04:13:44.680 I think I said 50, but honestly, as long as it's an honest job, I don't really care.

04:13:48.100 Okay.

04:13:48.380 What about you?

04:13:49.600 I mean, um, if I fell for someone, and if he's a really good guy, then it's negotiable.

04:13:56.840 But at least whatever I am making, but ideally, like, half a million.

04:14:01.600 Half a million?

04:14:02.960 A year.

04:14:04.160 A year.

04:14:04.860 She called him a year.

04:14:06.180 Now, when you say if he's a really good guy, because you said if he's a really good guy,

04:14:12.220 you have the vibe, whatever.

04:14:14.320 If the chemistry and everything.

04:14:15.620 But, but you wouldn't date a guy who works at McDonald's, correct?

04:14:21.460 Then, uh, I cannot date.

04:14:23.180 Right.

04:14:23.580 So, it's, you would go lower, but I'm suspecting it would still be.

04:14:28.400 Not lower than my salary.

04:14:29.580 Which is what?

04:14:31.640 Oh.

04:14:32.620 Well, you don't need that.

04:14:33.340 200 plus, yeah.

04:14:35.080 Okay.

04:14:35.340 So, if you really like the guy, 200,000.

04:14:39.340 He has to make 200,000.

04:14:40.560 I can't use, yeah.

04:14:41.380 250.

04:14:41.560 But you'd love, you did write minimum 500,000.

04:14:47.500 Okay.

04:14:47.940 I'll get to that in a moment.

04:14:48.900 What about you?

04:14:49.900 With living in New York, I tried to pick a number that was a little bit lower than mine,

04:14:53.380 so I said 80.

04:14:55.540 80K.

04:14:56.040 All right.

04:14:56.860 What about you?

04:14:58.120 Um, I think I put 100K in there.

04:15:02.600 You did write 100K.

04:15:04.640 Yeah.

04:15:05.980 Uh, you said you think it's realistic to want a husband that can provide.

04:15:11.540 Okay.

04:15:11.900 It is above the, uh, average income, though.

04:15:16.100 Um, okay.

04:15:18.780 Uh, and then what did you write?

04:15:21.880 I think I said 60K.

04:15:23.560 All right.

04:15:24.640 100K is not too crazy, and yes, it is true.

04:15:27.120 If you do want to take on the role of staying at home, be a stay-at-home wife, uh, the husband

04:15:33.420 does need to meet a certain income threshold.

04:15:35.700 Of course, it depends on where you live.

04:15:38.220 500,000?

04:15:40.440 Yeah, because he will be at least three years, something elder than me, so when I will be

04:15:45.560 his age, my salary might be.

04:15:47.680 So something.

04:15:49.540 But it's, it's negotiable.

04:15:51.020 Like, it all depends on what he is, you know, if he's completely in love with me.

04:15:56.220 You gotta make half a mil a year.

04:15:58.400 You gotta make, you gotta make half a mil a year to, oh man.

04:16:03.320 You said you were in your 40s, right?

04:16:05.360 47.

04:16:06.160 You're 47?

04:16:07.120 And you have kids, right?

04:16:08.600 Yeah, I have a daughter in college.

04:16:10.720 Do you think a man that makes 500K is going to want a 47-year-old single mom?

04:16:17.140 I mean, that's why I'm not even looking for marriage.

04:16:19.960 Somebody who makes 500K is going to go for, like...

04:16:23.820 So, you know, like, I...

04:16:24.920 Unless she did, you have to go into, like, the 60s, 70s, 80s.

04:16:29.020 Actually, like, my colleagues in my office, that's the reference, you know?

04:16:32.920 Like, in software company, they're not dating you, right?

04:16:37.020 And, like, somebody in California is easily making 500 if he's in...

04:16:41.040 Easily?

04:16:41.640 What?

04:16:42.000 But 50 and...

04:16:43.440 Yeah, in software.

04:16:44.360 That's fine.

04:16:45.320 Let's just say, like, let's say 20% of the men were making 500K.

04:16:51.520 What makes them want a 47-year-old woman, single mom, and couldn't get a woman that's 25, 30, you know?

04:17:03.700 Like, you can't have kids anymore, I'm guessing.

04:17:07.140 It's your, like, you're past your prime.

04:17:09.280 Like, a man that makes 500K, I'm sorry, doesn't want a woman that's 47.

04:17:15.020 Actually, it's all about my past experiences.

04:17:18.300 My father was industrialist, so I came up from a very wealthy family.

04:17:23.060 So, when my father was looking a guy for me, I said, I do not want a man with money.

04:17:30.400 I want an educated man, self-made man.

04:17:33.780 But now I realize it was a bad decision.

04:17:35.980 Even if we take the kid part out of it, which it definitely factors in, let's take the kid part out of it.

04:17:40.640 You mentioned your coworkers.

04:17:41.740 Of your coworkers who are not single, of the men you know in software that are making that 500K, how many of them, even at your age or older, are dating or married to women in their 20s or early 30s?

04:17:57.420 No, same age.

04:17:59.820 No, I know they're the same age, but they're not going after women that are in their 40s, right?

04:18:05.720 I mean, my personal experience, a lot of colleagues did ask me.

04:18:10.400 Okay, but you're not with them, right?

04:18:13.340 No.

04:18:13.860 Okay, so...

04:18:14.640 Because I don't want to marry again.

04:18:16.680 I feel like, say the man was like 55, would that, and he does make 500K, would that be more like...

04:18:22.340 He's probably going to go for somebody that's in mid-30s.

04:18:24.140 See, I wanted love...

04:18:25.360 Yeah, like, generally, yes.

04:18:27.400 Yeah.

04:18:27.680 I agree with that.

04:18:28.200 I wanted love, a lot of love.

04:18:30.420 So, I said, God, if you are not able to give me love, then give me money.

04:18:34.500 It's simple.

04:18:35.100 If a man is providing me romance and love and everything, I will do everything I negotiate on the money part.

04:18:43.220 But if it's just like a arranged marriage, you know, set up, then...

04:18:47.820 I don't think you're in...

04:18:48.720 You know, if she's not good looking, she better be my fucking slave.

04:18:52.820 She better...

04:18:54.100 I don't think you're in a position where you can negotiate.

04:18:57.880 That's why I'm not looking.

04:18:58.840 I'm already done marrying, so I'm not even thinking.

04:19:02.380 But if you say, no, even today, if you don't want to marry, but what is the criteria?

04:19:07.800 That is my current criteria, which is completely opposite to, like, what I was thinking 30 years ago.

04:19:14.680 You were 30 years ago, and if you were asking for a man who was making 500K, you probably would have gotten that.

04:19:20.800 30 years ago.

04:19:21.500 30 years ago.

04:19:22.220 You're not going to get that.

04:19:22.980 Because what you were saying about men who are 55...

04:19:24.620 No, I was getting the proposals.

04:19:25.600 I rejected them, because I said, God, maybe...

04:19:27.940 Yeah, 30 years ago.

04:19:28.880 So, what you were saying about men, like, what if they're, like, 55?

04:19:32.020 I'm not looking.

04:19:32.220 Now, I'm only speaking for New York, which is different than everywhere else.

04:19:35.540 Men at 55, I'm telling you right now, I've gone on a few dates where they've been like,

04:19:40.820 yeah, I might settle down in, like, five years.

04:19:42.820 I might start having kids in, like, five years, maybe.

04:19:45.060 Like, that is still the attitude, 100%.

04:19:47.760 And if they are looking to settle down, they're like, maybe, like, a 33-year-old.

04:19:52.260 Like, if I'm really pushing it.

04:19:53.560 Like, they're still trying to, like, start having kids and start having a family at,

04:19:57.580 like, 55, 60.

04:19:58.740 I think you're at a point where, you know, you may have to settle for a man that's retired.

04:20:03.180 500K is a big ask for...

04:20:05.340 And I'm sorry, but, like, for someone your age and with a child, it is a big ask from

04:20:10.540 a man to be like, yeah, sure, I'm going to...

04:20:13.080 I mean, it's my ask, and I'm not...

04:20:15.100 I do not want to marry, you know?

04:20:17.660 So, that's why I'm not even looking.

04:20:19.340 No, I think maybe a bus driver might be an option.

04:20:23.960 Maybe try a bus driver.

04:20:25.760 Maybe, look, don't sleep on the bus drivers.

04:20:27.860 A cab driver could be an option.

04:20:29.860 If I may make one other point, I used to work, my first office job was for a company that sold

04:20:34.640 medical equipment.

04:20:35.740 So, the majority of my time was working with people that were elderly.

04:20:39.320 You say you don't want to marry, I can promise you something right now.

04:20:42.860 You don't want to be a person that's alone in the end.

04:20:45.080 You want somebody there in the end.

04:20:46.900 I never wanted to be.

04:20:47.560 I just wanted one man for my whole life.

04:20:49.640 But now you're saying now.

04:20:50.940 We're not talking about 20 years ago.

04:20:52.220 We're talking about now.

04:20:53.280 And I'm telling you now, when you get to 65, 75, ma'am, you do not want to do it alone.

04:21:00.820 You want to have somebody there with you.

04:21:03.020 I promise.

04:21:04.280 It broke my heart to see the people who had no birdies versus the people that had somebody.

04:21:08.140 Actually, I don't know whether you believe in astrology or not.

04:21:10.780 No.

04:21:11.060 So, all the astrologers to my dad told that marriage will not be successful.

04:21:17.540 It's very, very dangerous for me.

04:21:19.300 Do you believe in God or do you believe in astrology?

04:21:22.020 Because they're related.

04:21:23.540 No, they're not.

04:21:24.040 No, they're not.

04:21:24.360 That's my sign.

04:21:26.260 I don't know.

04:21:27.140 It's time of birth, date of birth, place of birth.

04:21:32.100 Like, what's the vibe?

04:21:33.000 What sign do you?

04:21:34.520 No, it's the chart.

04:21:36.220 Like cancer?

04:21:36.880 Am I giving cancer vibes?

04:21:39.000 Capricorn vibes?

04:21:39.840 No.

04:21:40.080 What's the vibe?

04:21:41.420 Astrology is very complicated than zodiac sign and just, you know, it's very complicated.

04:21:45.200 If I were to tell you that I was a...

04:21:48.200 Like, all your planet situation and all my planet situation, so it's very complicated.

04:21:52.640 But if I were to tell you that I'm a cancer, knowing what you know about cancers, would you be like, I see that, Brian.

04:22:00.160 No.

04:22:00.400 If you just say cancer, then you're dividing the whole world in 12 people, right?

04:22:05.280 Zodiac sign.

04:22:06.360 But it's way more deeper than just...

04:22:08.620 Like Jupiter rising or whatever?

04:22:10.080 All that.

04:22:11.460 Okay.

04:22:12.260 If I were to tell you I'm a cancer, Jupiter rising, fucking moon...

04:22:15.520 And you know, like, both of the marriage, I do not want to go away with that.

04:22:20.240 You know, it's just like, it's the threat.

04:22:23.440 Astrology is pseudoscience.

04:22:26.480 Well, it's not even a pseudoscience.

04:22:27.820 It's just BS.

04:22:28.680 It's a feeling.

04:22:30.860 It's just a feeling.

04:22:31.960 That's all it is.

04:22:32.180 It's like hands-proofed, you know, like for me.

04:22:35.240 She made a very valid point, though.

04:22:37.500 Yeah.

04:22:38.060 How do you figure God and astrology go hand in hand?

04:22:41.380 I don't know.

04:22:41.620 Yeah, I was just going to say that.

04:22:42.940 Well, you're Hindu, right?

04:22:46.180 So we even worship all the nine planets.

04:22:49.700 That's how it's all related.

04:22:51.200 Yes.

04:22:51.640 That's not God.

04:22:52.640 Yeah, that's not God.

04:22:54.120 We worship all the nine planets.

04:22:56.440 But you say God, that's a monotheistic.

04:22:58.280 That's one.

04:22:59.100 Yeah.

04:22:59.400 So you're saying God's...

04:23:00.740 Oh, we have so many gods.

04:23:01.700 I'll have a question.

04:23:03.040 If Pluto is not a planet anymore, do you just worship eight?

04:23:08.180 You know what I mean?

04:23:08.660 Yeah, even we worship sun every day because that's a living proof that we have God.

04:23:13.960 Wow.

04:23:14.160 You know, so...

04:23:14.860 Well, that's what we're saying is that we can't...

04:23:16.640 Everything is living proof that God.

04:23:17.600 It's not God.

04:23:18.920 It's just...

04:23:19.740 You're just reiterating theosophy at that point.

04:23:22.660 But, like, it has nothing to do with God.

04:23:25.220 There's one God.

04:23:26.440 It's not...

04:23:27.000 And God is everywhere.

04:23:28.560 Yes, but you're talking about astrology.

04:23:30.220 In different forms, you know.

04:23:31.520 And you're asking whatever astrology to give you a husband or a boyfriend or whatever,

04:23:38.100 give you a guy who makes 500K.

04:23:41.540 I mean, it's not only pseudoscience.

04:23:43.780 It's just delusional on a whole other level.

04:23:48.200 Like, if you...

04:23:49.080 Well, I think it's more like she built herself to be so successful, though.

04:23:52.440 So if that's what her goal is and then what she wants in the end.

04:23:56.020 Yeah, I mean, she has a right to feel that way.

04:23:57.760 I mean, you can believe in what you believe in, but that's not God, though.

04:24:00.720 That's God's, is what you believe in.

04:24:03.480 It's not, like, Bible, God.

04:24:05.060 See, I'm a very optimistic person.

04:24:07.220 Whatever my situation is, I'm super happy.

04:24:10.040 You know, I know I just needed one loving husband.

04:24:12.600 I didn't get it, but I'm very happy.

04:24:14.520 I'm running my nonprofit.

04:24:16.020 But your optimism...

04:24:16.680 Helping people, you know?

04:24:17.680 But your optimism is going to end you alone.

04:24:20.280 It's okay.

04:24:21.020 I will not settle...

04:24:21.680 Homicidal optimism.

04:24:22.860 I will not settle until all these college women around here want to get with this 36-year-old.

04:24:32.080 I will not settle for less.

04:24:33.840 They need to be down.

04:24:35.600 Like, but I won't even date just one.

04:24:37.620 Like, they all...

04:24:38.200 It's got to be a harem, and they have to be okay with it.

04:24:41.420 It's totally going to pan out.

04:24:43.140 Trust me.

04:24:43.880 Have you ever heard the popular slang of calling something cope?

04:24:49.800 Yeah, you're coping.

04:24:50.720 This is cope.

04:24:51.580 You know what coping means?

04:24:52.680 Do you know that word?

04:24:53.400 I feel bad now.

04:24:54.060 Okay.

04:24:54.620 I mean...

04:24:55.600 Getting dogpiled.

04:24:56.740 Yeah, and again, it's like...

04:24:59.800 Follow your heart, but I'm telling you now, this isn't just, like, a some people thing.

04:25:04.900 In the end, you want somebody there.

04:25:07.720 I know, but I gave up.

04:25:10.200 I cannot trust anybody.

04:25:11.400 You shouldn't give up.

04:25:12.300 Like, it's...

04:25:13.420 You know, I needed to save my daughter.

04:25:16.500 I needed to save my daughter from both my husband.

04:25:19.880 And this was very scary.

04:25:21.520 But we're not talking about your husband.

04:25:22.040 You have a child in your womb, and they wanted to kill.

04:25:25.620 Okay, but that's...

04:25:26.160 But the person you are...

04:25:27.920 I have my trauma.

04:25:28.840 But we're not talking about your last husband.

04:25:30.420 But the person you are also informs the person your daughter becomes, and she's still young.

04:25:34.660 So what if she sees you going, I don't need marriage.

04:25:37.520 I can just be alone.

04:25:38.560 And she follows that same path.

04:25:39.800 It's a decision.

04:25:40.520 Yeah, but you're not, like...

04:25:42.820 Whatever happened to you before, that's before.

04:25:45.360 Who cares about that?

04:25:46.380 No one...

04:25:46.900 Like, you say you're over it.

04:25:48.480 You say you had to go through that.

04:25:50.220 That's fine.

04:25:51.580 But what are you planning to do for your future at this point?

04:25:55.340 Because you're going to end up...

04:25:56.180 I want to help as many women as I can.

04:25:58.400 How are you going to help them when you can't...

04:25:59.800 I'm creating an artificial intelligence-based chatbot for women's financial independence.

04:26:04.660 I do a lot of life sessions.

04:26:05.920 But that's not helping women.

04:26:06.660 I do one-on-one.

04:26:08.020 That's not helping women.

04:26:09.240 Helping women be financially independent is a detriment to society.

04:26:14.940 It is an...

04:26:15.400 No, it's not even...

04:26:17.200 It's...

04:26:17.600 Financial independence doesn't mean that you have to divorce your husband or live single.

04:26:22.300 But it means you're not dependent on your husband.

04:26:23.660 Support your husband when he needed it.

04:26:26.740 Or just understand the finances in the family.

04:26:30.140 That's it.

04:26:31.100 So that is something happened to your husband one day.

04:26:33.840 And you say, I do not have any idea what the finances are.

04:26:37.360 No.

04:26:37.480 And that's fine.

04:26:38.100 And the woman, like, what she did, she went off and she got a job and stuff like that.

04:26:42.220 She's helping her husband.

04:26:42.600 But if you believe in God, you believe in one flesh.

04:26:47.600 And you are supposed to be...

04:26:50.120 Not completely depend...

04:26:51.300 Like, you're supposed to depend on him financially and all of that.

04:26:54.200 And you making women financially independent is...

04:26:57.620 Is...

04:26:58.460 How do we say...

04:26:59.440 It's not...

04:27:00.500 It's not that.

04:27:02.060 It's not one flesh.

04:27:03.040 You're telling women that...

04:27:04.140 I don't need no man.

04:27:04.880 You should make...

04:27:05.720 Yeah.

04:27:06.120 I don't need a man.

04:27:07.040 Yeah, it's very feminist.

04:27:07.500 And that's what you're...

04:27:08.160 And that's what you're doing.

04:27:09.100 You're definitely a feminist.

04:27:09.600 I don't need a man.

04:27:10.560 I don't need it.

04:27:11.220 No.

04:27:11.360 No.

04:27:11.520 That doesn't translate into I don't need a man.

04:27:14.220 It's just that you should be just aware of finances.

04:27:17.180 You should know how to invest, how to save.

04:27:19.440 You know, my mom was a housemaker.

04:27:21.800 She used to save secretly.

04:27:24.180 And whenever my father is in trouble, she used to help her with that emergency fund.

04:27:29.700 So you're saying that women should hide money from their husbands?

04:27:33.400 Yeah, you just said earlier that it's all about honesty.

04:27:36.280 You said always be honest, always be upfront.

04:27:38.380 And now you're saying it was good that she lied and deceived.

04:27:41.460 I'm not saying that she is a perfect woman.

04:27:41.480 I said she did that.

04:27:42.700 I mean, like...

04:27:44.180 So are you saying that women that don't work don't know anything about finances?

04:27:50.060 They don't know how to...

04:27:50.880 That's why it doesn't matter what I help people.

04:27:54.160 It doesn't mean that you have to go and work.

04:27:56.380 It's just to understand the finances.

04:27:58.220 But do you think...

04:27:58.920 Understand the...

04:27:59.420 But do you think without AI, they wouldn't be able to do that?

04:28:02.240 No.

04:28:02.820 I didn't say that.

04:28:04.020 It's just that I am helping women one-on-one who comes to me by looking at me.

04:28:08.680 They discuss one-on-one.

04:28:09.800 I want to create a chatbot.

04:28:11.320 Like, I can help a million women at a time.

04:28:13.660 Tell them to get married young.

04:28:15.280 Tell them to get married young.

04:28:17.000 That's what you should be telling them.

04:28:18.200 Oh, yeah.

04:28:19.340 The first family who came to see me, I was 17.

04:28:23.100 You shouldn't be telling them to be financially independent.

04:28:25.460 That's not...

04:28:26.100 That's your...

04:28:27.280 That's sabotage to other women.

04:28:29.620 That is plain sabotage.

04:28:30.960 That's your point of view.

04:28:31.780 It's also created...

04:28:32.800 It's actually everybody's...

04:28:34.000 It's a good point of view.

04:28:35.740 You're lucky enough.

04:28:35.780 I'm not lucky.

04:28:36.800 No.

04:28:37.200 I have to work.

04:28:38.700 I have to work.

04:28:39.680 My husband and I can't afford to live in Canada on, like, just on one salary.

04:28:44.400 But my money is his money.

04:28:46.640 I don't hide money from him.

04:28:47.860 And if he told me tomorrow, if he had started making $250,000 and he said, I need you to

04:28:52.720 stop working, it would be done.

04:28:54.960 I wouldn't even go...

04:28:55.720 I wouldn't go, well, I need to be financially independent.

04:28:58.460 Also, AI...

04:28:59.740 It's not...

04:29:00.540 AI has a lot of values.

04:29:02.040 It can diagnose illnesses before a doctor can.

04:29:04.280 It can do things like that.

04:29:05.120 But if you're creating an AI chat bot to talk to people about their finances, that's taking

04:29:10.260 that opportunity away from an actual person and that's putting these resources into, again,

04:29:17.520 teaching a lesson that doesn't need to be taught for many people.

04:29:20.500 And if that lesson does need to be taught, shouldn't a human being have that job and that can support

04:29:27.320 them?

04:29:27.960 Isn't that giving...

04:29:29.000 Aren't you taking financial independence away from the humans that are doing that job right

04:29:33.080 now by creating a bot that can do it for 10,000 people instead of 5,000 people having

04:29:38.180 an actual job that they can make money off of it?

04:29:40.860 See, I'm talking about my story.

04:29:44.780 My story is a lot of domestic abuse.

04:29:47.240 It's a lot of, like, he put a pillow on my face and he sit on top of it.

04:29:51.700 If I'm not earning, I can never be able to...

04:29:55.120 Your trauma dump won't change the facts.

04:29:57.060 Hold on.

04:29:57.460 What I'm saying is...

04:29:58.760 But that's the problem is you're taking your bad experiences and you're sabotaging women

04:30:04.440 around you.

04:30:05.280 No.

04:30:05.620 Yes, you are.

04:30:06.560 Yes.

04:30:06.840 Because you're sitting and going, I've had a bad relationship.

04:30:09.540 Therefore, you're going to have a bad relationship and you need to be independent from your husband

04:30:14.320 because of it.

04:30:15.000 Because I had a...

04:30:15.660 That's your perspective.

04:30:16.400 No, because I've had bad experiences too with men.

04:30:18.740 But I can tell you that I'm not financially independent from my husband, even though I

04:30:22.380 work.

04:30:22.860 And my husband is one of the best people on this planet, I believe.

04:30:26.620 And telling women, younger women, that they should be financially independent because

04:30:30.460 you had a bad experience with men is plain sabotage.

04:30:34.300 I mean, it's your perspective.

04:30:35.860 Do you believe...

04:30:36.240 I just want to help.

04:30:37.280 You know, you should see the...

04:30:38.460 It's objective.

04:30:38.480 May I ask a question?

04:30:39.280 May I ask a question?

04:30:40.420 If a woman gets cheated on, do you think that she should go out and tell every other woman

04:30:44.060 a man's always going to cheat?

04:30:45.820 No, I'm not saying.

04:30:46.580 So why is that different?

04:30:47.360 I'm not saying.

04:30:48.220 Even, you know, my father was the best husband in the world.

04:30:51.560 And I think there is a lot of men who is as good as my father and more good maybe than

04:30:56.520 him.

04:30:57.580 It's just that if a woman is stuck somewhere, she should...

04:31:02.220 And I'm not like forcing my app to all the women in the world.

04:31:05.640 I'm just saying the help is available to whoever wants it.

04:31:09.280 So you're saying instead of the woman taking accountability for choosing the man that she

04:31:14.080 chose, that she should just be financially independent and refrain from any type of responsibility, any type of accountability?

04:31:21.420 No, I'm not saying that.

04:31:22.380 But then you should be telling...

04:31:24.100 It all depends on what woman wants to ask the app.

04:31:27.060 It has job option, career option, education option.

04:31:30.460 Women should not have careers.

04:31:31.540 If she's in a domestic abuse situation, what she should do as a first step, a lot of women

04:31:36.900 doesn't know.

04:31:37.480 I don't think anyone should ask AI those things.

04:31:40.600 She should call the cops and have him remove.

04:31:43.360 You're saying you're creating a life coach, essentially, an AI life coach.

04:31:47.140 Yeah, you can say.

04:31:48.180 Yikes.

04:31:48.480 But it all depends, you know.

04:31:50.360 Big yikes.

04:31:50.880 Like I said, you're telling women that they shouldn't trust the men that they're with,

04:31:56.640 that they should always have a backup plan, when in reality you should be telling women

04:32:00.600 choose the right man.

04:32:02.860 Well, but that's the thing.

04:32:03.860 In her defense, like in other cultures, or even within her case, she was in an arranged

04:32:09.840 marriage.

04:32:10.280 Not everyone has the ability to choose the right man.

04:32:13.740 So I feel like it genuinely is a privilege to be able to be married to someone that loves

04:32:19.220 you and want to provide for you and take care of you.

04:32:21.520 And not everybody has that.

04:32:23.280 I'm not taking that.

04:32:25.120 No, I'm just saying, like, I think within her perspective, it's more like she just wants

04:32:29.340 to create an outing for a woman who doesn't have that choice.

04:32:33.380 There are outs, no matter what, there is an out.

04:32:35.620 And like I was saying, like, well, yes, because you can call the cops.

04:32:39.880 You can have them removed from the home.

04:32:41.480 Not in every country.

04:32:42.380 You can call the cops.

04:32:43.160 Well, we're talking specifically about America.

04:32:45.180 I understand that you had.

04:32:46.540 But we weren't.

04:32:47.720 Well, that she's in India.

04:32:50.260 That she was in India and that's what happened to her.

04:32:52.200 But she's telling Western women.

04:32:54.900 Here also, the same thing happened.

04:32:57.220 He said that he hate my daughter because of her skin color.

04:33:01.120 Okay, but.

04:33:01.520 And he threatened us a lot.

04:33:03.160 But because of your culture, they chose your husband, right?

04:33:05.980 Yeah.

04:33:06.360 Okay, so, but you're telling Western women based on your experience with your culture.

04:33:11.760 It's a global app.

04:33:13.160 I didn't say it's just for U.S.

04:33:15.320 Okay, well.

04:33:15.880 It's a global app.

04:33:16.460 But domestic abuse also happens within America as well.

04:33:19.820 And I understand that, like, from an outsider point of view, that it's like, oh, you could always call the cops.

04:33:26.040 But I feel like when you are within that situation, there's so much that goes within it.

04:33:30.480 And, like, there's just, like, you could, you can feel like you want to call the cops or your child or life is in danger, for example.

04:33:39.200 But, like.

04:33:40.200 Can I ask you a question about that, though?

04:33:41.740 I agree that people can be in really scary situations that they feel that they can't escape.

04:33:46.360 Let me ask you specifically this question.

04:33:48.900 If they're in that terrible of a situation, do you think AI is going to help them?

04:33:53.180 No.

04:33:54.040 Thank you.

04:33:54.440 But you didn't know the architecture of my AI at all, you know?

04:33:59.560 Because I believe that human capital is more valuable than AI, no matter how good the architecture of the AI is.

04:34:05.980 The other day I asked ChatGPT how old, this is like a week ago, I said, how old was Joe Biden when he left office?

04:34:12.040 And ChatGPT told me he's still the president.

04:34:14.240 Like, yo, that's some weird wishful thinking, ChatGPT.

04:34:19.100 I'm going back to Grok.

04:34:20.180 Going back to what you were saying, there is a way out, okay?

04:34:22.740 I get it that it's hard.

04:34:24.100 I know my mother had that experience, okay?

04:34:26.900 I lived that life.

04:34:28.280 I was in, as a child, I was in a very difficult situation.

04:34:31.340 My mother had the option.

04:34:33.220 There was people that went and got her.

04:34:34.960 There was people that went and saw her and all of that.

04:34:38.200 And she could have called the cops.

04:34:39.340 She didn't.

04:34:40.720 And that was a choice she made.

04:34:42.340 And that's the point, though.

04:34:45.080 You always have a choice to get out of the situation.

04:34:48.680 Will you sacrifice?

04:34:49.380 In America.

04:34:51.480 Will you sacrifice?

04:34:53.460 Yes, absolutely.

04:34:54.380 You will probably sacrifice quite a bit.

04:34:56.440 But there's never a situation that you can't get out of.

04:34:59.580 Well, here's my question.

04:35:00.460 Did your mother have the financial stability to be able to get out of that situation?

04:35:04.040 No, but she had family.

04:35:05.980 But at the same time, a lot of people also feel like it's a burden to ask for help from their family.

04:35:10.380 Then you're not in a bad enough situation.

04:35:11.980 But the conversation of financial stability, and again, I'm not speaking for the entire world.

04:35:16.360 I'm speaking of the United States, okay?

04:35:19.780 Any sort of financial situation, there are sources to resolve that.

04:35:26.920 And I'm not even talking about government sources.

04:35:28.600 I'm not talking about handouts.

04:35:29.620 I'm talking about churches, community, nonprofits.

04:35:33.400 Like, there are so many of those from every angle that if you put in a little bit of footwork, that financial, even when you were talking earlier about being pro-choice, that financial break, that gap can be filled by these programs.

04:35:45.360 And I'm speaking as someone who, fortunately, thank God, I have an amazing job right now that I can provide for myself.

04:35:51.900 But I have absolutely had points in my past.

04:35:54.100 I grew up poor.

04:35:56.040 And I'm not trying to be anecdotal.

04:35:57.660 I know we're all kind of doing that right now.

04:35:59.120 And I got out of it based on the decisions I made for myself and the work that I put in and not selling myself short.

04:36:08.360 So I can't speak for other countries.

04:36:10.280 I've only been here in America.

04:36:11.680 But here in America, there are resources to help you and save you and push you forward, even without leaning into shitty, badly run government ones.

04:36:20.260 Yes, but also, like, the thing within, like, Asian culture, for example, it's just, even if you are no longer within Asia, it's still ingrained within you, like, to not ask for help.

04:36:31.560 But it's, like, a shameful thing.

04:36:32.540 So would an AI change that?

04:36:33.860 A divorce is also, like, looked down upon within Asian culture, for example.

04:36:38.240 I'm working with other NGOs, and they are feeding information to my AI.

04:36:44.160 So I am working with all other nonprofits, you know?

04:36:47.840 No, but in the West, it doesn't matter what culture you are, there is a way out.

04:36:54.340 And if you're married and you're in that sort of situation, I don't know how far I can go in this situation, the husband pays an alimony, right?

04:37:05.200 He's punished for that.

04:37:06.760 He goes to jail, you know, all of that.

04:37:09.140 So there is always a way out.

04:37:10.880 It's whether or not you want to take the accountability for it.

04:37:13.540 And what I mean by accountability is you chose the wrong man.

04:37:16.280 And I hear what you're saying about it being harder.

04:37:18.600 Yeah.

04:37:18.860 I hear that.

04:37:19.840 I hear that.

04:37:20.580 Because you speak on Asian culture.

04:37:22.320 There's also other cultures, including very traditional Christian cultures, who, I mean, if you look at Catholics, like, divorce is a sin.

04:37:31.060 It is a sin, sin, sin, right?

04:37:33.500 So, but still, it's harder, but it's still a choice.

04:37:39.520 It's all, the choice is there.

04:37:41.580 So, so if you see what she's saying, like, at least here, even if it's hard, the choice is still there.

04:37:47.560 Well, even in Christianity, even way back when, what would happen is that, like, if there was a situation like that, the woman was removed or whatever, the man was ostracized from the, from the community that he was, like, thrown out of the church.

04:38:00.920 Nobody talked to him, and he still had to pay the woman.

04:38:04.080 They were still married, but they still had to, he had to pay a certain amount and stuff like that.

04:38:10.260 I think there's a, I get that it sucks.

04:38:14.200 There's bad men in the world, and there's bad women in the world, too.

04:38:16.720 And at some point, we both, like, as women, we have to take responsibility for that.

04:38:20.140 I know that you could, like, let's say he abuses you.

04:38:23.640 Yes, what he did was wrong, but I chose that man, and I should have chose better for me, is what I'm saying.

04:38:32.320 You can't blame everybody around you.

04:38:35.340 You've got to take some responsibility, and then after that, you're able to grow from that.

04:38:38.800 But then taking that experience and telling women that, well, you know, you can be financially independent if something bad happens.

04:38:46.920 Why we have NGOs?

04:38:48.480 Why we have other non-profits?

04:38:50.600 Good question.

04:38:51.160 Why we have other non-profits?

04:38:52.660 I also have one non-profit, Jess, as the other.

04:38:55.940 So women will go to these non-profits when they needed it.

04:38:59.740 I'm not asking, like, everybody has to use this AI.

04:39:02.760 No.

04:39:03.520 Only the woman who is coming to me, she will go to the app, you know.

04:39:07.060 Like, it's as simple.

04:39:08.460 Why we have other non-profits helping women?

04:39:11.620 Mine is also another one, and everybody is using AI for all different purposes.

04:39:16.760 I want to use AI for something better.

04:39:19.220 Well, that's not better.

04:39:20.860 That's just not better.

04:39:21.820 That's all your perspective.

04:39:23.380 That's a dangerous thing, though, because, again, AI has some really valuable uses.

04:39:27.180 That's why we are other.

04:39:28.140 But we can't turn to it for everything.

04:39:30.160 AI is just like a gun.

04:39:31.880 Guns are awesome, okay?

04:39:33.560 But guns are not awesome if they're used for the wrong thing.

04:39:36.500 And if they're used, a chainsaw is not as good of a hammer when you need to use a hammer.

04:39:42.060 Graph-based Rack technology, we are feeding the chatbot to what to say.

04:39:48.300 It's not like, just go on the internet.

04:39:50.960 Have you seen Maltbook?

04:39:52.260 As someone who is an AI, do you know what Maltbook is?

04:39:55.720 M-O-L-T-B-O-O-K?

04:39:58.140 Maltbook?

04:39:59.180 So Maltbook is a social media where AIs communicate with each other.

04:40:03.060 And you talk about what's being fed into the AI.

04:40:05.180 Maltbook is using API to just post comments in there.

04:40:08.980 No, no, no, but that's not the point.

04:40:10.220 My point is that you're saying what's fed into the AI, so it's just reflecting what's

04:40:15.360 fed into the AI.

04:40:16.620 So AI has a human bias, then, if it's being fed by humans.

04:40:21.420 No, RAG is a completely different system.

04:40:24.420 So if you're going to a chat GPT and say, suggest me a lip color, it says Maybelline,

04:40:30.180 L'Oreal, second, third is Lekme or something.

04:40:32.680 But if you're going to RAG-based, and if you use L'Oreal-specific chatbot based on RAG,

04:40:39.880 and if you ask, what is the best lip color for me, it will only recommend L'Oreal.

04:40:45.860 Not go to the whole internet and buy us.

04:40:49.460 So it's just like an election.

04:40:51.720 The person who puts the most money in is the person who wins with your AI?

04:40:55.740 No, the other non-profits I'm collecting data with.

04:40:58.600 I want to ask something.

04:40:59.180 So a woman's being abused by her husband, and she's supposed to go, dear AI, what do I do next?

04:41:07.400 Yeah, she can talk to any language, to the app, if you're so impersonal.

04:41:11.180 Oh, that's so crazy.

04:41:16.180 Yes!

04:41:16.700 Oh, will you bow?

04:41:27.580 Like right now?

04:41:29.200 I don't think right now, but he's asking in general.

04:41:31.520 Guys, W's in the chat for B-Timby.

04:41:33.020 I don't know if you're aware of this, B-Timby.

04:41:35.840 Hair pop.

04:41:36.500 We're going to buzz her hair, slash cut it off, for the champagne pop.

04:41:43.760 We'll do it a little bit later, but we will do it.

04:41:45.700 We'll also pop a bottle of champagne.

04:41:47.500 We should also pull up the bow video here in a moment.

04:41:51.220 So we'll get to that in just a moment.

04:41:52.800 I have another chat coming in from Based Justin.

04:41:55.680 Sorry for the delays on these guys.

04:41:57.220 I was up from the seat.

04:41:59.580 Sorry, I didn't see these coming.

04:42:01.320 Based underscore Justin 69 donated $200.

04:42:06.740 Feminist indoctrination results in young ladies focused on becoming the men they wish to marry.

04:42:12.400 Nature will have healed when only 5% of young women go to college, but it's still a scam.

04:42:18.760 Thank you, Based Justin, for your message there.

04:42:21.380 Cheers.

04:42:22.260 Okay, so two things.

04:42:23.860 I need to get the champagne.

04:42:25.600 Nathan, can you grab me a champagne bottle from the refrigerator?

04:42:29.340 Who wants champagne?

04:42:31.320 I'm not old enough, sorry.

04:42:34.240 Everybody's over 21, though.

04:42:36.060 So champagne, champagne, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7.

04:42:46.320 Rock and roll.

04:42:47.520 It's Lent, wine only.

04:42:49.320 Can you get me the bottle?

04:42:51.760 Yeah, I'll open it.

04:42:53.200 Nice cups.

04:42:55.040 Oh, awesome.

04:42:55.980 The Leiser cup is great.

04:42:58.480 That's so cool.

04:42:59.440 Oh, paper towel, actually, I got one.

04:43:01.560 For me, it's better.

04:43:02.120 Yo, guys, W's in the chat for Indy.

04:43:05.840 Yeah.

04:43:06.600 He's a legend.

04:43:07.700 It's been a while since we had a champagne pop.

04:43:09.320 Thank you, man.

04:43:10.000 That's not the crystal.

04:43:10.980 Huh?

04:43:11.280 That's not the crystal.

04:43:12.020 It's Ethereum.

04:43:13.320 Chill, chill, chill.

04:43:14.040 You have to donate an Ethereum for the crystal.

04:43:17.040 You forgot that part?

04:43:18.060 Chill, chill, chill.

04:43:18.880 We just thought her hair was worth it.

04:43:20.440 No, no, no, no, stop it.

04:43:21.520 Yeah, so thank you, Indy.

04:43:25.560 Appreciate it.

04:43:26.620 Awesome.

04:43:27.340 This would be a good moment to ask you guys to like the video if you're enjoying the stream.

04:43:32.880 Like the video.

04:43:34.580 Hold on.

04:43:36.060 Oh, it's about to pop.

04:43:37.800 Hold on.

04:43:39.380 Here we go.

04:43:40.260 Hey.

04:43:41.080 Could you hide the like the video thing?

04:43:43.540 All right, guys, W's in the chat for Indy here.

04:43:45.940 Yikes.

04:43:48.260 Hold on.

04:43:49.780 Let me adjust so you guys can hear the pop.

04:43:53.440 Sorry.

04:43:54.000 Got a fucking slicked voice.

04:43:56.980 Hello.

04:43:58.560 Oh.

04:43:59.440 There we go.

04:44:00.540 There we go.

04:44:01.180 Easy peasy.

04:44:02.040 Easy peasy.

04:44:02.600 Thank you, Indy, for that.

04:44:04.280 Very much appreciate it.

04:44:05.140 And, Justin, thank you again for your TTS.

04:44:07.020 This would be a good time if you want to go ahead and pull up Twitch.

04:44:09.700 Gigi, can you give the Twitch, do the Twitch thing for me?

04:44:14.140 Remember how I was grifting earlier?

04:44:17.440 No.

04:44:18.820 Just read the Prime subs and be like, thank you.

04:44:22.840 Here, pull it up, Nathan.

04:44:24.880 And then on the, yep, there too.

04:44:26.800 The left or the hearts or the?

04:44:29.180 The blue stars.

04:44:31.360 The blue stars.

04:44:32.920 Yeah, so bacon bomb, thank you for the gift.

04:44:35.280 Guys, check if you have a Prime sub available.

04:44:37.920 It's been, I don't know, it's been two hours since we got a Prime sub.

04:44:41.520 Drop us a Prime sub if you have one.

04:44:42.840 And our good, our homegirl, Gigi here, she will thank you and say your name.

04:44:51.320 When they start coming in.

04:44:52.540 Yeah, and you guys should be like, yeah, send in some Prime subs, pass it down.

04:44:58.760 Come on, guys.

04:45:01.080 Come on, you're killing me here.

04:45:02.260 We're good.

04:45:04.320 I guess I'll.

04:45:05.260 At least for Gigi.

04:45:06.880 Rip.

04:45:07.820 Rip, boys.

04:45:09.040 Prime subs.

04:45:10.440 Prime subs.

04:45:10.980 Okay.

04:45:13.400 You got a new follow.

04:45:14.360 There we go.

04:45:15.120 Alpha smasher.

04:45:16.840 What a fucking alpha male.

04:45:18.380 17 months.

04:45:19.440 Nice.

04:45:20.300 Okay.

04:45:20.660 He smashes alphas.

04:45:23.460 La la la la ha ha ha one.

04:45:26.240 Thanks for the follow.

04:45:28.040 You're 21, man.

04:45:30.420 Munch.

04:45:31.620 You guys wanted some, right?

04:45:33.120 X.

04:45:33.920 No.

04:45:35.360 You don't want any?

04:45:36.800 Online mag.

04:45:38.140 One, two, three, four.

04:45:39.800 I need one more cup.

04:45:42.600 You can thank the followers.

04:45:44.300 Guys, follow us on Twitch.

04:45:46.040 Drop a Prime sub.

04:45:47.420 Sorry, guys.

04:45:47.780 I'm getting the alcohol poured, so.

04:45:49.520 I stopped drinking to our energy.

04:45:50.940 All right, we're going to do cheers.

04:45:52.160 Hide that.

04:45:52.660 Hide that, please, Nathan.

04:45:53.960 All right, guys.

04:45:54.700 Cheers to Indy.

04:45:56.100 Thank you for the big champagne.

04:45:56.960 Water.

04:45:57.940 Cheers.

04:45:59.400 Cheers.

04:45:59.880 Cheers.

04:46:00.440 Cheers.

04:46:00.520 Cheers.

04:46:00.760 Cheers.

04:46:00.820 Cheers.

04:46:00.860 Cheers.

04:46:00.880 Cheers.

04:46:00.940 Cheers.

04:46:01.020 Cheers.

04:46:01.440 Cheers.

04:46:01.940 Cheers.

04:46:02.440 Cheers.

04:46:02.940 Cheers.

04:46:04.340 It's been a while.

04:46:06.300 It's been a minute.

04:46:07.320 Thank you, man.

04:46:07.840 Thank you very much.

04:46:08.720 Really appreciate your support.

04:46:09.960 That also does get you.

04:46:11.320 We're scalping her.

04:46:14.420 I don't like that term, scalping.

04:46:16.520 Okay, we're going to shave your head on the stream.

04:46:19.900 You're not backing out, are you?

04:46:21.080 No, no, no, no, no.

04:46:21.700 Okay, she's.

04:46:22.540 Yeah, she's shook on it.

04:46:23.340 I'm a trooper.

04:46:23.900 She's shook on it.

04:46:24.400 Yeah.

04:46:24.580 She's a trooper.

04:46:25.360 And Gigi gets to do the honors.

04:46:29.180 You down?

04:46:30.840 Yeah.

04:46:32.100 Yeah, sure.

04:46:33.120 Why not?

04:46:33.440 I mean, do you have a preference of who does it?

04:46:35.300 Lisa does hair.

04:46:36.420 Like, that's her thing.

04:46:37.240 She said she wanted you to do it earlier.

04:46:38.600 I already said that.

04:46:39.800 Yeah.

04:46:40.000 Oh.

04:46:40.240 Yeah.

04:46:40.660 You want me to do it?

04:46:41.600 Yeah.

04:46:41.820 Yeah.

04:46:42.460 It absolves you of any risk of somebody coming at you.

04:46:44.820 Just go down the middle.

04:46:45.540 I feel like, Chad, do you want me to shave her head or should I have one of the girls do

04:46:51.980 it?

04:46:52.200 I think I should have a girl do it.

04:46:53.340 I don't know.

04:46:54.760 We'll see.

04:46:55.620 We'll see.

04:46:56.100 We're not going to do it right now, but we will do it in a moment.

04:46:58.540 How tall are you going around the table and what's the minimum height of a man you would

04:47:01.640 date?

04:47:02.440 I'm 5'4".

04:47:03.480 I put down 5'3".

04:47:05.280 5'10".

04:47:07.280 I'm 5'10".

04:47:08.620 Okay.

04:47:09.600 I'm 5'2", and I put 5'8".

04:47:12.520 Six foot, and I guess 5'11".

04:47:15.620 You wrote six foot, but okay.

04:47:17.180 I'm 5'6", and I put six foot.

04:47:20.200 I'm 5'5", and 5'10".

04:47:22.320 5'6", and 5'7".

04:47:25.140 I'm 5'4", and the minimum I would date is 5'5".

04:47:33.060 I'm 5'9", and my first husband was 5'6".

04:47:37.220 My husband now is 5'8".

04:47:41.240 All right.

04:47:41.600 I don't know if this is going to make any sense, but Nathan, the water level test one,

04:47:47.720 the one with the blue water, if you can get that going on the window tab.

04:47:51.200 So guys, I've updated my questionnaire here a little bit to include on the backside something

04:47:56.600 called the water level test, and Nathan, show the audience because it's, you know, the

04:48:03.180 other one.

04:48:03.880 No, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

04:48:04.940 It's the one with the blue.

04:48:07.220 It should be prior to that one.

04:48:09.400 I hope I got it right.

04:48:11.200 I got it wrong at first because I didn't read the word water.

04:48:13.820 Stop, stop, stop.

04:48:14.240 Louder, please.

04:48:15.080 There's nothing else.

04:48:16.960 There's not prior to that tab.

04:48:19.400 There's not.

04:48:19.920 Okay, go to the Discord then.

04:48:26.600 It's going to be in the, where is it, the Media tab under Resources.

04:48:33.660 Media tab under Resources.

04:48:35.340 You're going to see it there.

04:48:37.320 It'll be the first one, and then you'll just click it and then go to the Window tab.

04:48:40.220 Okay, so this is what's on the back of the paper.

04:48:49.740 Figure A shows a glass with some water in it.

04:48:52.380 Figure B, the glass has been tilted.

04:48:54.560 Draw a line to show where the water line would be.

04:48:57.100 So starting with, starting with, I guess I'll just hold it up to the monitor.

04:49:01.660 Starting with the results here for chair one.

04:49:05.160 Chair one.

04:49:06.060 Okay?

04:49:06.460 Going around.

04:49:06.980 That's not my paper.

04:49:08.080 That's chair nine.

04:49:09.180 Oh, fuck.

04:49:09.980 Okay.

04:49:10.520 Starting with, starting with the woman next to me going around that way.

04:49:16.220 I got my shit backwards.

04:49:18.320 I don't know if this, this is probably better.

04:49:21.320 Okay, so that's, that's her.

04:49:29.180 Whose is this?

04:49:30.020 Is this yours, Lisa?

04:49:32.620 I think so.

04:49:33.640 I think you, did she fail?

04:49:39.700 I don't know.

04:49:40.260 Is that a fail?

04:49:41.000 I think that's a fail.

04:49:42.100 It was close.

04:49:42.960 It was close.

04:49:43.600 It's supposed to be even.

04:49:44.760 Yeah.

04:49:45.380 With the gravity.

04:49:46.540 What is that?

04:49:47.600 I, yeah, I didn't read the question fully at first.

04:49:51.400 You definitely, I did.

04:49:52.440 Fail.

04:49:52.860 I did.

04:49:53.680 Fail.

04:49:55.580 Okay, going to Priyanka.

04:50:00.840 Nailed it.

04:50:02.020 Got it correct.

04:50:02.620 This might be the stupidest thing I've ever done.

04:50:09.100 I think that is, I think you got it right.

04:50:11.500 Yeah.

04:50:11.820 I did get it right.

04:50:12.640 I just put more water in there.

04:50:14.800 You did add a bit of water, but it's about the one.

04:50:17.080 I just know it's supposed to be parallel to the table.

04:50:19.620 She got it right.

04:50:20.680 Yay.

04:50:22.240 It's actually for him.

04:50:23.460 Yeah, I just added too much water.

04:50:25.160 You did add a lot of water.

04:50:27.300 Well, there I go.

04:50:27.900 A glass half full.

04:50:31.200 I believe.

04:50:32.380 That's pretty good.

04:50:34.000 Maybe you just don't know how to draw straight.

04:50:37.120 And then, Gigi.

04:50:39.120 Wow.

04:50:39.880 Congratulations.

04:50:40.560 I think that's everybody.

04:50:42.080 Okay.

04:50:42.600 That was the most uneventful thing.

04:50:47.280 Apparently, maybe you guys are just all really smart.

04:50:49.300 Apparently, and there's a difference between men and women when you test them on this, women fail it more than men.

04:50:57.660 Not to say that all women fail it, but I think they've done this test on college campuses, and women fail it at like 2x the rate that men do.

04:51:07.700 Not surprising.

04:51:08.600 Interesting.

04:51:09.380 Hey, that's very sexist and misogynistic of you.

04:51:13.040 I figured you were going to do some type of intelligence test, because I've seen videos where you are asking all kinds of historical questions.

04:51:21.420 We will get to that.

04:51:23.280 Okay, Sam, you think women are the – you agree with the statement that women are the primary victims of war?

04:51:29.760 Why is that?

04:51:30.660 Of war?

04:51:31.420 Honestly, I didn't understand the question.

04:51:33.320 You didn't understand.

04:51:34.360 Okay.

04:51:34.800 What war?

04:51:36.480 War in general.

04:51:37.980 In general?

04:51:38.700 In general, yeah.

04:51:40.040 But I mean, we could even do specific wars.

04:51:42.360 Yeah, so no, then I don't agree.

04:51:43.600 Okay, Priyanka, you said it depends.

04:51:45.140 Why is that?

04:51:46.220 What?

04:51:46.820 Sorry, the question?

04:51:48.260 So the statement is women are the primary victims of war, not men.

04:51:52.300 You circled it stating you agree, but that it depends.

04:51:56.920 Yeah, it depends like what kind of people they are.

04:51:59.700 Sometimes they do brutal things to the women after the war.

04:52:03.000 Or, like, they cut their private parts, and then they rape them, and then they slowly kill them, and stuff like that.

04:52:09.620 So it all depends on what kind of war it is.

04:52:12.440 Yeah.

04:52:12.720 I think it's pretty – I think it's pretty – I think it's pretty 50 feet in different ways.

04:52:16.380 It's like the men are generally the ones that – like, physically that are being affected, but then their families are having to deal with post-traumatic stress when they – if they come home.

04:52:26.260 The men also deal with that.

04:52:27.840 Yeah.

04:52:28.020 Well –

04:52:28.340 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

04:52:29.100 Like, they both have things to do with it.

04:52:30.860 That's why I say it depends, you know.

04:52:31.380 I feel like death is worse than –

04:52:33.160 Absolutely.

04:52:33.960 No, I can't think that they do.

04:52:34.740 Well, it's not just death.

04:52:35.540 The men that survive it still have – my father had full disability from PTSD.

04:52:41.040 Yeah.

04:52:41.460 So, I mean, also, men go through that during war also, right?

04:52:45.620 Like, it's not just women.

04:52:46.560 And then they die.

04:52:47.560 No, I'm not taking that away.

04:52:48.800 I'm saying, like –

04:52:49.400 That's why you know it's both sometimes.

04:52:50.540 I'm saying men are the main sufferers, and then their families also suffer, not to the extent that the men do, but they suffer as well.

04:52:59.900 But the claim is not about women don't suffer in war.

04:53:05.360 We're trying to just test if you think women are the primary victims of war, not men, to which you seem to think – is it 50-50?

04:53:13.060 Like, some of the war I knew about is, like, something brutal happened with the woman after the war.

04:53:19.100 Yes, there's no dispute that bad things happen to women.

04:53:22.080 Very bad things happen to women.

04:53:23.340 Yeah, it depends.

04:53:24.500 But –

04:53:25.820 Like, somebody killed you is one thing, and then somebody has, like, brutally raped you over the years.

04:53:31.880 But men experience that in war too, right?

04:53:33.800 Yeah.

04:53:33.960 Like, they experience rape and torture and all that.

04:53:36.180 Just the same thing that you're saying women experience, men experience too, and then they die.

04:53:40.960 Well, I'm even willing to grant that this happens more to women, and just for the sake of argument, I'd be prepared to grant that – let's even say it never happens to men and only happens to women.

04:53:52.400 Men are still the primary victims of war because – well, I guess let me ask you a question.

04:53:59.180 How many men would you be willing to kill to prevent one rape?

04:54:03.880 Actually, I will not kill anybody.

04:54:12.300 Well, I understand –

04:54:13.560 Because my religion is I cannot kill even a mosque.

04:54:16.160 So the hypothetical – okay, let's say – I guess you don't kill – are you familiar with the trolley problem, the trolley dilemma?

04:54:24.760 You don't know the trolley dilemma?

04:54:27.120 Here, really quick, Nathan, can you Google, like, insane trolley problem?

04:54:31.520 And then it should be probably the first result.

04:54:34.460 I don't think that's the exact phrasing, but just for context.

04:54:37.660 And then just pull it up as soon as possible.

04:54:43.340 And then just the website, probably the first result, I'm assuming.

04:54:48.000 Hold on.

04:54:48.480 Do you have it?

04:54:53.300 Mute the audio.

04:54:54.540 Mute the audio.

04:54:57.120 Do you – wait.

04:54:59.640 Hold on.

04:55:01.420 Oh, my God.

04:55:02.080 What's it called?

04:55:04.440 Oh, absurd – it's not a video.

04:55:07.280 Did you pull up a video?

04:55:08.660 No.

04:55:09.600 What did you pull up?

04:55:12.040 Is it the absurd trolley?

04:55:14.080 It's the website?

04:55:17.200 Okay.

04:55:17.740 Yeah, that's correct.

04:55:18.760 All right.

04:55:19.200 Here, let me ask you this.

04:55:20.400 Absurd trolley problems.

04:55:22.840 A trolley is heading towards five people.

04:55:24.840 You're the person by the lever.

04:55:27.360 You can pull the lever to divert it to the other track, killing one person instead.

04:55:31.300 What do you do?

04:55:32.280 I will just stop it.

04:55:34.220 What do you mean?

04:55:36.080 I mean, I will just stop the train.

04:55:37.060 It's fucking hypothetical.

04:55:38.760 What?

04:55:39.720 You have those two options.

04:55:41.120 You're tied up.

04:55:41.500 Those are the only options.

04:55:42.680 Your only option.

04:55:43.700 You're literally tied up.

04:55:44.340 Like, one person.

04:55:45.840 The brakes are out.

04:55:46.720 It won't stop.

04:55:47.380 One person, right?

04:55:48.560 Okay.

04:55:48.880 So, you pull the lever.

04:55:50.700 Is that correct?

04:55:53.120 Yes?

04:55:53.820 Yeah.

04:55:54.500 Okay.

04:55:54.860 You pull the lever to prevent five people from dying.

04:55:57.520 Okay.

04:55:57.940 Let's change it.

04:55:59.460 Instead, we would flip it.

04:56:06.620 Actually.

04:56:08.400 I think it's something like if you have a relative or something.

04:56:10.980 We're going to change it.

04:56:11.880 So, the five people are on the top.

04:56:15.020 Okay?

04:56:15.440 And then we're going to put the one woman at the bottom.

04:56:18.200 And that's a rape trolley.

04:56:21.620 Okay?

04:56:22.180 We don't laugh at calling it a rape trolley.

04:56:24.500 So, if you don't pull the lever, the woman gets raped.

04:56:29.500 If you do pull the lever, the woman doesn't get raped and five men die instead.

04:56:34.540 Your face right now.

04:56:36.020 That's like such a complicated question.

04:56:39.200 I know.

04:56:39.640 Well, I would still try to save five men.

04:56:45.200 I would just save five men because it's their life, you know?

04:56:51.000 Okay.

04:56:51.500 All right.

04:56:52.540 Well, in any case, what I'm trying to get out there is bad things definitely do happen to women.

04:56:58.400 That's terrible.

04:57:00.060 Terrible crimes happen to women during war.

04:57:04.100 That's not in dispute.

04:57:05.460 But, again, the question is, are women the primary victims?

04:57:08.680 In some cases.

04:57:10.520 Most of the time it's men.

04:57:12.160 But I'm in totality.

04:57:13.820 So, yes.

04:57:14.280 For example, a man who is not on the front line, who's in the internal of the country, and he's safe.

04:57:25.040 And then there's, like, a woman, there's, like, an invading army, and she gets raped.

04:57:29.100 In that instance, if you're comparing that woman to the man who's safe in a different city, then in that individual example, she's the primary victim.

04:57:40.460 But the question is not about individual victims.

04:57:42.620 It's about victimhood in totality.

04:57:45.840 So, for example, you'd acknowledge that some men are raped, right?

04:57:50.220 And are there some women who've never been raped?

04:57:52.460 But, in general, would you say that this is a crime that mostly impacts women?

04:58:00.580 No, I can say, like, mostly war is men.

04:58:03.500 But it depends, like, some cases is extremely bad for the woman.

04:58:06.980 Because they lose their either father or brother or somebody they're dependent on.

04:58:11.680 And then also victim of rape and brutal murder of them.

04:58:16.060 I think it's worse for the dad that died, though.

04:58:18.160 Okay, can I ask you this?

04:58:20.300 Okay, let's say your loving husband, hypothetical loving husband, he gets shipped off to war.

04:58:25.880 He dies.

04:58:27.320 That sucks for you and your kids.

04:58:29.980 And you're going to be grieving.

04:58:31.540 Between you and the husband who died, who's the primary victim of war?

04:58:36.020 Yeah, my husband.

04:58:37.540 Okay, so then can't you map that on to, like, all men and all women?

04:58:43.140 Yeah, that's the ideal situation, you know?

04:58:46.740 Okay.

04:58:47.180 I mean, most of the cases.

04:58:50.360 All right.

04:58:53.860 Priyanka, you think women can't be sexist towards men?

04:58:57.940 Why is that?

04:58:59.540 You agree with the statement?

04:59:00.580 Nobody should be sexist, you know?

04:59:03.140 Whether it's women towards men.

04:59:04.440 But can women be sexist?

04:59:05.460 But can they?

04:59:06.100 But can they be sexist towards men?

04:59:09.220 Is it possible for women to be sexist towards men?

04:59:11.220 Yeah.

04:59:11.560 Okay, then I guess disregard that.

04:59:14.640 You also said people of color can't be racist towards white people.

04:59:20.460 Or you agree with the statement?

04:59:22.420 Yeah.

04:59:22.660 I mean, my point is, like, nobody should be racist whether you're color.

04:59:26.660 That's not the purpose of the question.

04:59:30.940 I mean, it should and can.

04:59:31.780 Can, okay.

04:59:32.840 Yeah.

04:59:34.080 Here in America, can a black person be racist towards me?

04:59:37.160 I mean, nobody should be racist towards each other.

04:59:42.280 I mean, I just mess right the can and should.

04:59:47.080 Right, right, right.

04:59:47.580 So that's my bad.

04:59:48.620 Is it possible?

04:59:49.440 That I misunderstand the question.

04:59:50.560 Is it possible?

04:59:51.020 But he's asking you now.

04:59:52.220 Yeah.

04:59:52.640 I agree.

04:59:53.180 It's possible.

04:59:53.560 You should not be racist.

04:59:54.760 You should not be sexist.

04:59:55.660 Yeah, it's possible.

04:59:56.400 Both ways.

04:59:56.900 You say that women do not have equal rights.

05:00:02.280 Well, the statement is women do not have equal rights to men in the USA, to which you agree.

05:00:07.540 Why is that?

05:00:09.980 I mean, it's just my personal experience as in, like, the job and career and opportunities, the salary.

05:00:17.360 And, you know, it's just, like, a perspective, you know?

05:00:24.260 Like, if you're a woman, you just got, like, you should do not do this.

05:00:29.160 You should do that.

05:00:30.140 I mean, it's sometimes, you know, there is a – I still feel that even in the U.S. is the case.

05:00:37.720 What is a right?

05:00:40.500 Hmm?

05:00:40.980 So, I mean, discrimination can exist in corporations, but typically a right – corporations typically don't grant you rights.

05:00:50.460 The government would grant rights as far as – just for simplicity's sake, rights don't really exist, but we're not going to – we're not going to get into that.

05:01:00.140 But, like, for example, the right to bear arms, you would agree that both men and women have that right to have firearms in the United States?

05:01:13.880 Okay.

05:01:14.280 So, is there a right that men have that women don't?

05:01:19.960 You said in USA, and I'm just talking about my situation with my ex-husband, you know, so I'm just, like –

05:01:26.960 But this is specifically about the USA, and then in parentheses you say, better than India, though.

05:01:32.380 Yeah.

05:01:32.740 So, I acknowledge that, yeah, shit is whatever.

05:01:35.700 It's bad in India, although there's definitely some men's rights issues in India.

05:01:42.940 But I'm asking about the USA.

05:01:45.220 Who cares about me?

05:01:47.340 Like, my American husband said that he can go to the swimming pool, but I cannot swim because I'm a woman.

05:01:54.180 There's no law in the United States that prevents women from swimming.

05:01:57.360 Yeah, law is a different thing.

05:01:58.520 I'm just saying, behind the scenes, a lot of things are happening.

05:02:01.720 It's not everything about law.

05:02:03.100 If you were married and you told your husband, no, you can't go to the swimming pool, would this be evidence of men not having rights?

05:02:11.200 I think this is just a language barrier thing, to be honest.

05:02:13.620 Yeah.

05:02:13.960 Yeah.

05:02:14.340 Like, I misread the thing.

05:02:16.360 Okay.

05:02:16.600 If it's about law, then, yeah, law is equal.

05:02:22.100 Wrong for high body count men to prefer to date low body count slash virgin women.

05:02:28.620 Gigi, you agree.

05:02:30.440 Camilla, agree.

05:02:32.000 Sam, agree.

05:02:34.640 Nicole, agree.

05:02:36.620 Sarah, agree.

05:02:38.180 Priyanka, agree.

05:02:40.700 Aaron, nothing for Aaron.

05:02:42.780 Lisa, agree.

05:02:43.800 So, why would it be wrong for a lot of you, you all can be, feel free to weigh in, what would actually be wrong with a guy who has a high body count and he wants to date a woman with a low body count?

05:02:58.300 Well, he can want all he wants to, but getting that, it's a lot of times a woman with a very low body count has higher standards.

05:03:05.060 And if she finds a man who has a body count, like, you know, a big one, then she's probably going to shy away from him.

05:03:13.740 Well, just to be clear, I don't have, like, if a woman doesn't want to date a guy with a high body count, that's totally fine.

05:03:21.320 But I think you would acknowledge, not all the time, but typically men who are able to bed many women tend to have attractive traits.

05:03:32.880 So, she can have that specific standard about not wanting to date, you know, a guy with a high body count.

05:03:39.980 But I don't know if I would call into question, I don't know, the, the, like, I agree.

05:03:51.060 I don't think a guy who has a high body count would have an inability to attract women with low body count.

05:03:56.220 No, no, he could probably attract, I mean, obviously, I mean, but also guys will do it with about anything.

05:04:02.600 So, I mean, it's, I mean, if he's got a high body count, maybe he's attractive, maybe he just has, you know, do anything.

05:04:07.300 Well, I think also just morally, a guy with a higher body count has a completely different lifestyle than someone who, more than likely have a different lifestyle than someone, a woman with a lower body count, too.

05:04:19.460 So, in that case, he's not approaching her with the intent, probably the same intent that she wants within a relationship.

05:04:25.500 Well, let's, let's grant for the sake of the convo that he's had his fun.

05:04:31.940 He's done run through a hundred chicks, but he's like, you know what?

05:04:35.540 The women that I find to, that, that I just find more attractive and that I think are just better, make for better girlfriends are the women with low body counts.

05:04:45.280 So, he's like, I'm going to date them.

05:04:48.140 Well, is he going to that date with, like, being fully transparent within it?

05:04:54.300 I mean, if she asks him, he can be honest, sure.

05:04:57.820 Then I feel like if he's fully transparent, then I feel like she could give him the chance, but then that's on her.

05:05:02.820 Right, but the question, the statement is wrong for high body count men to prefer to date low, low body count or virgin women.

05:05:10.720 This doesn't say include or incorporate anything about the woman's proclivity to date or not date a high body count man.

05:05:18.400 It's simply the desire from the high body count man to prefer to date low body count woman.

05:05:24.640 I mean, it's not wrong to prefer.

05:05:26.160 I mean, he can prefer, that's his, that's his personal choice and personal opinion.

05:05:30.500 You know, like you all say, like, you don't want to date age, that's your personal choice.

05:05:34.500 So, it's okay for him to have that, but saying he's going to get it is a difference.

05:05:39.580 Oh, yeah, that is absolutely different.

05:05:41.160 Although, I do think it might actually be the case that high body count men might actually outcompete low body count men in getting low body count women.

05:05:51.280 Because men who have high body counts typically tend to have traits that are more attractive.

05:05:59.020 Women are a bit more forgiving on the body count promiscuity thing.

05:06:02.800 Not to say that women can't or don't care about it.

05:06:06.840 I just tend to find that they care less about it or they don't care at all.

05:06:10.580 Also, women like to tame the wild beast, too.

05:06:12.760 So, if he's, like, gone out and done a bunch and you're the one that gets him to stop, I mean, that's another thing.

05:06:17.680 True.

05:06:18.080 I guess I have.

05:06:18.660 True.

05:06:18.840 Well, I think that comes with, like, with women, the more women that a man has around him, the more attractive he is.

05:06:27.420 I think that comes along with that.

05:06:28.680 So, I think a man with a high body count, you want them to have a high body count because they're just more attractive to us that way.

05:06:35.280 Because we're competitive.

05:06:37.840 When it becomes, when it's about a man and who we're trying to have kids with or whatever, it's always, you know, we see it as, like, the man's super attractive and he's, you know, everybody wants him.

05:06:50.920 And if you win him, then, you know.

05:06:52.780 Yep.

05:06:53.740 I have a video to play.

05:06:55.700 Can you pull up the bow video?

05:06:56.780 It came up earlier and somebody asked in a TTS or something about the bow video.

05:07:05.340 To Indy, will you bow?

05:07:07.660 Let me get back to that.

05:07:09.160 Do you have the bow video?

05:07:10.420 Okay.

05:07:11.280 This is a video I took of my ex-girlfriend.

05:07:14.140 I show it to future girlfriends as a tutorial so they know how to behave and act properly like a lady of good repute.

05:07:25.160 All right.

05:07:25.740 Go ahead.

05:07:25.980 Pull it up.

05:07:26.780 Good repute.

05:07:28.720 Play it.

05:07:30.980 Boom.

05:07:31.480 Huge fucking bow.

05:07:32.360 She has to bow immediately as soon as I get home.

05:07:35.040 This was after a long podcast day, you know, immediately right to the laundry.

05:07:40.180 And then, of course, as you see, she has my dinner ready, ready to go as soon as I'm home.

05:07:44.560 She's got a scamp or two.

05:07:46.560 If she lollygags, it's a deal breaker.

05:07:49.540 She's cut if she lollygags, cracks open the beer for me, stirs my noodles, obviously.

05:07:56.160 Very important.

05:07:58.420 Very important.

05:07:58.540 And then get ready to play it again.

05:08:02.600 And then, boom!

05:08:04.080 Huge bow, huge bow, submissive.

05:08:06.620 She didn't feed you?

05:08:07.980 Huh?

05:08:08.300 She didn't, like, feed you?

05:08:09.360 She disturbed it.

05:08:10.020 She didn't actually feed you?

05:08:11.540 No.

05:08:12.120 I find that the eye-hand coordination for women is suspect a little bit.

05:08:19.520 So, I prefer to do it myself, you know?

05:08:21.960 No.

05:08:22.660 If she's trained as an athlete in archery or, like, the cello, then I will allow it.

05:08:30.800 They still struggle with it, though.

05:08:34.120 But, yeah, so going around the table, would you bow for your boyfriend, your husband?

05:08:42.780 Yes.

05:08:44.580 WGG?

05:08:45.600 Yes, if that makes them happy.

05:08:47.120 Love it.

05:08:47.940 Would you bow?

05:08:48.620 Yeah.

05:08:49.720 Yeah.

05:08:50.620 Obviously.

05:08:51.620 I mean.

05:08:52.340 Would you bow?

05:08:53.460 No.

05:08:53.880 The only man I'm bowing for is Jesus.

05:08:55.960 Ooh, this is interesting.

05:08:56.940 Wait, I'm going to come back to that.

05:08:57.960 But, okay, we'll get everybody's answer.

05:08:59.540 Okay.

05:09:00.040 I don't know.

05:09:00.460 It depends on what he does for me.

05:09:01.500 Your husband.

05:09:02.100 Your current husband.

05:09:02.740 Okay.

05:09:03.060 If it's important to him, then yes.

05:09:05.480 It's very important.

05:09:06.580 Priyanka, what do you bow?

05:09:07.480 Yeah, I used to touch feet of both of them.

05:09:10.260 Okay.

05:09:10.620 My husband, yeah.

05:09:11.640 All right.

05:09:11.980 What about you?

05:09:12.560 Yes.

05:09:13.500 What about you?

05:09:14.320 Yes.

05:09:14.960 What about you?

05:09:15.520 Yeah.

05:09:16.260 Dub you, panel, except you.

05:09:18.500 Okay.

05:09:19.520 So, can I ask you a question?

05:09:21.680 Okay.

05:09:22.280 So, in the Bible, what does it say wives should be?

05:09:26.380 Submissive.

05:09:27.200 Should they obey their husband?

05:09:28.700 Yeah.

05:09:28.980 Yes.

05:09:29.440 Okay.

05:09:29.720 So, would it be in contradiction of Christian ethics for a husband?

05:09:32.500 Although it's a bit culturally peculiar, perhaps, and a bit eccentric, I don't think it's actually

05:09:39.700 contradictory to anything in Christianity.

05:09:42.600 Reconcile with me your refusal to obey your husband's...

05:09:46.200 So, if my husband asked me to bow to him?

05:09:48.660 Yeah.

05:09:49.540 I will.

05:09:50.900 Okay.

05:09:51.140 You literally just said you wouldn't, though.

05:09:54.200 You thought you said Neil.

05:09:55.300 Neil.

05:09:56.040 Random guys, like a boyfriend.

05:09:58.280 No, yeah.

05:09:59.100 A husband.

05:10:01.180 Your husband, correct.

05:10:02.320 And Jesus.

05:10:04.460 Jesus is not your husband.

05:10:05.640 No, no, no.

05:10:06.540 Unless, well, do nuns?

05:10:08.140 Yeah, nuns.

05:10:08.880 He is a bridegroom.

05:10:09.880 But, anyways.

05:10:10.660 Okay.

05:10:11.900 Yeah, yeah.

05:10:12.320 Your husband.

05:10:12.860 You do it for your husband.

05:10:13.760 Yes.

05:10:13.980 Oh, okay.

05:10:14.560 Then, yeah, yeah.

05:10:15.440 That's what I was talking about.

05:10:16.560 All right.

05:10:16.860 Then, disregard.

05:10:18.700 How about this?

05:10:19.520 First time, I believe, the first time a girl comes over, she should do laundry.

05:10:23.840 How about that?

05:10:24.500 Would you do that, Gigi?

05:10:26.060 I have done it.

05:10:27.740 Damn, bro.

05:10:29.080 Lucky boyfriend.

05:10:30.180 What about you?

05:10:30.960 I've done laundry.

05:10:31.700 I've cooked.

05:10:32.720 Clean.

05:10:33.280 Like, first time going over, though.

05:10:36.120 Yeah.

05:10:37.580 I'm not going over to my boyfriend's house.

05:10:40.280 Ever?

05:10:41.620 Well, it's Gigi.

05:10:42.460 Like, not to smash.

05:10:44.040 But to, like, I don't know, read the Bible or something.

05:10:48.680 Oh, my God.

05:10:49.900 Oh, my God.

05:10:50.680 First Corinthians?

05:10:51.680 It depends.

05:10:52.240 Sorry.

05:10:52.740 Cringe.

05:10:53.360 Huh?

05:10:53.620 What?

05:10:53.960 It depends.

05:10:56.020 I'll help him out.

05:10:56.820 I'll help him out.

05:10:57.860 I'll do some laundry.

05:10:58.740 I'll do the dishes.

05:10:59.680 Yeah.

05:11:00.020 Yeah?

05:11:00.300 What about you?

05:11:00.700 The first date?

05:11:01.820 Not first date, necessarily.

05:11:03.920 Yeah, I did.

05:11:04.720 I'll fold those underwear.

05:11:06.320 I did.

05:11:07.080 I cleaned those underwear.

05:11:08.220 All right.

05:11:08.400 What about you?

05:11:09.020 Do the laundry?

05:11:09.380 Yeah, if I got asked, sure.

05:11:10.580 Do the laundry?

05:11:11.400 Yes, I do the laundry.

05:11:12.540 Wow.

05:11:12.820 You guys are too based or whatever.

05:11:17.200 All right.

05:11:17.720 I got to find something to disagree with you guys on, I guess.

05:11:21.580 Let's see here.

05:11:22.640 Going to Sam, you say men are more privileged in society than women, or you agree with the

05:11:31.040 statement anyways.

05:11:31.960 Why is that?

05:11:32.520 As we learned, I'm sexist towards women, so I just think that throughout history, men

05:11:44.920 have always been the person that we look up to or we follow, so I don't see why it should

05:11:53.120 be a woman.

05:11:56.620 Wait, what?

05:11:56.920 Did I misunderstand the question?

05:11:58.400 Yeah, I think so.

05:12:00.840 Men are more...

05:12:01.660 So you think women are more privileged?

05:12:03.620 Oh, no, no, no, no, no.

05:12:04.600 Men are more privileged.

05:12:05.740 Oh, men are more privileged.

05:12:06.480 Because I would rather look up to a man than a woman.

05:12:09.580 Oh, I see what you're saying.

05:12:11.200 Like, all of our presidents have been male.

05:12:15.540 Yes.

05:12:15.960 So why wouldn't I assume that men have it easier?

05:12:21.300 And not in all aspects, because obviously women have, you know, they're pretty privileged

05:12:25.520 and whatnot, just I think men have a higher success rate than women.

05:12:32.500 But you realize how many presidents have there been?

05:12:35.800 47, although there's been some repeat.

05:12:38.280 Ooh.

05:12:38.600 Yeah.

05:12:38.900 What's the total number of presidents?

05:12:40.600 It's 40-something.

05:12:43.560 Wait, hold on.

05:12:44.040 No.

05:12:44.340 Would you count Trump...

05:12:45.780 So Trump has had two terms in between Joe Biden.

05:12:50.500 Would you count that...

05:12:53.540 You wouldn't...

05:12:54.240 No, duh.

05:12:54.880 Of course, that wouldn't...

05:12:55.400 That wouldn't be...

05:12:57.340 Wait.

05:13:01.380 But no, but on his hats, it's like 45...

05:13:04.400 45, 47.

05:13:06.620 Yeah, 45, 47.

05:13:08.260 So do you count...

05:13:08.340 Do you count Trump as the...

05:13:10.340 He's the 45th and the 47th president.

05:13:12.480 Chronologically, yes.

05:13:13.760 Yeah.

05:13:14.340 But in terms of the total number of presidents...

05:13:16.500 Individual men who have been president.

05:13:19.000 Yeah.

05:13:19.360 So what's the total number of...

05:13:21.960 I don't know.

05:13:22.160 It's in the 40...

05:13:23.180 45, 46, I mean, whatever.

05:13:25.020 46.

05:13:26.460 46, probably.

05:13:27.660 46?

05:13:28.720 Wait.

05:13:29.060 No, it would not be 40.

05:13:30.280 It would be like late 30s, early 30s.

05:13:32.500 Yeah, late 30s.

05:13:33.500 Because there's a lot of presidents that have been repeated.

05:13:36.040 I mean, if you go back to like 1980, only George Bush Sr. and Joe Biden have not had a second term.

05:13:41.320 Everybody else has.

05:13:42.380 Yeah.

05:13:42.700 How many total presidents?

05:13:44.760 47.

05:13:46.400 No.

05:13:46.960 No.

05:13:47.920 That's how many...

05:13:48.480 That's how many presidential terms, I guess, are you paying?

05:13:51.200 Yeah.

05:13:51.700 Presidential elections, I guess.

05:13:53.440 The terms, yeah.

05:13:54.480 I would probably ask how many presidents...

05:13:55.780 Unique presidents, not counting, repeating.

05:13:58.000 Unique presidents.

05:13:58.720 Unique presidents.

05:13:59.960 Unique presidents.

05:14:00.920 45.

05:14:01.760 Really?

05:14:02.620 No, that can't be.

05:14:03.660 That's not possible.

05:14:04.400 That's not...

05:14:05.240 Right?

05:14:05.780 That can't be possible.

05:14:07.020 No, because...

05:14:07.720 Yeah.

05:14:08.240 That would mean there were only two presidents that had two terms.

05:14:10.460 It does say 45 different individuals have served as president.

05:14:13.540 That's not true.

05:14:13.940 That doesn't add up.

05:14:14.980 Oh, well, actually, no, it does, because when they pass away, like Nixon...

05:14:18.820 Yeah, there have been presidents who have died, I guess.

05:14:21.980 Like, during the time they switched?

05:14:25.160 Oh, he said, it says the difference exists because Grover Cleveland served two non-consecutive

05:14:31.320 terms, and then Donald Trump served two non-consecutive...

05:14:34.720 Okay.

05:14:35.480 All right.

05:14:35.960 I'm learning something new every day, I guess.

05:14:38.780 But that's like, so there's over...

05:14:42.760 What?

05:14:44.580 170 men.

05:14:46.400 Excuse me.

05:14:47.060 170 million men in the United States.

05:14:49.140 Only 45 men, like, throughout the entire history of the United States have been president.

05:14:54.660 So, that seems like a really small proportion.

05:14:58.340 Like, I don't think we can map on male privilege to all men because 45 men have been president.

05:15:07.360 I see what you're saying.

05:15:09.800 But I think it also applies to, like, when I would just go out into the city and I would

05:15:15.040 see all the finance...

05:15:16.260 Like, most of the finance bros, it's like they're all guys.

05:15:18.900 Like, you rarely will see a woman in that.

05:15:22.500 Well, with the president thing, it'd almost be like me saying, well, Taylor Swift is...

05:15:27.720 Isn't she a billionaire?

05:15:29.560 Like, but that wouldn't map on to all of women's experiences, you know?

05:15:34.880 I think it also depends on, like, what they go into.

05:15:38.340 Maybe the majority of people who want to go into finance are men, and maybe that's why.

05:15:42.860 Yeah.

05:15:44.160 Let's see here.

05:15:45.000 A woman's career, money status, makes her more attractive to men.

05:15:48.960 Sam, you agree with that?

05:15:50.360 Why is that?

05:15:50.760 Um, that's just what I've noticed from, like, my friends that, who are, like, very successful.

05:15:58.740 Successful women?

05:15:59.520 Yeah.

05:16:00.080 That I see that, um, men tend to, like, go towards them just because of their status.

05:16:07.360 Because of the women's status?

05:16:08.800 Yeah.

05:16:09.120 And, like, her wealth and how much she makes and stuff.

05:16:13.860 Um.

05:16:15.260 Like, that's all they care about.

05:16:16.760 That's just what I've experienced.

05:16:18.640 Are they also good-looking?

05:16:22.140 Yes.

05:16:23.540 Okay.

05:16:24.540 Well, I mean, I'll just tell you the male perspective.

05:16:27.500 Obviously, not all men probably share my perspective.

05:16:29.840 But generally speaking, I would say, uh, men don't really prioritize or even care about

05:16:35.360 a woman's career, money, or status.

05:16:38.960 Not to say it might be a nice, I mean, it can actually and sometimes be a detriment.

05:16:44.260 Um.

05:16:45.740 Like, if a woman's really busy.

05:16:47.680 For example, I recall an instance where I was dating a woman who was, I think, finishing

05:16:52.800 up medical school.

05:16:54.260 And, like, she was insanely busy to the point where it fizzled out.

05:16:59.440 Like, she wasn't available.

05:17:01.660 It was, like, a pain in the ass scheduling.

05:17:03.720 Like, I would be much more, even though, great, she's got a great career.

05:17:07.640 Being a doctor is high status.

05:17:08.800 You eventually make good money, like, down the road because you fucking met, uh, student

05:17:15.120 debt, et cetera, et cetera.

05:17:16.820 Um.

05:17:17.220 Uh, I mean, it just, it's kind of, I think men would prefer a woman who's a bit more

05:17:24.500 available, works a more reasonable job in terms of the hours than even the doctor.

05:17:30.500 Well, she has her own hours.

05:17:31.900 Like.

05:17:32.200 Well, also, let me give you an example.

05:17:33.580 I think a man, you, you put the, hmm, how do I frame this the best way?

05:17:39.620 A 30-year-old woman who's a doctor and then you have a 20-year-old barista, men are picking

05:17:45.980 the 20-year-old barista over the 30-year-old doctor.

05:17:48.920 Okay.

05:17:49.980 You can change the age to 35-year-old doctor, 25-year-old barista.

05:17:54.520 A lot of men pick the 25-year-old barista over the female doctor.

05:18:01.140 Does that parse for you or do you disagree?

05:18:02.940 No, that makes sense.

05:18:03.960 No, that makes sense 100%.

05:18:05.560 Okay.

05:18:06.340 Uh, not all, I mean, some men might disagree with me, but I think most men, it's, uh, it

05:18:11.940 doesn't really matter.

05:18:13.160 And I think one of the reasons is when it comes to money, even women who make a lot of money

05:18:19.220 typically are not as generous or generous at all with their money.

05:18:24.520 Uh, I think a lot of women, even if they make good money, even if they out earn a guy, they

05:18:29.060 still might not in all cases might have an expectation that the man pay for dates.

05:18:34.640 I remember when I was younger, I actually was, uh, briefly dating this girl who was a lawyer

05:18:39.540 and she was a litigation attorney.

05:18:41.880 She was making three X as much as I was making at the time.

05:18:45.040 She still wanted me to pay for dates.

05:18:47.720 And I was like, you make more than me.

05:18:49.220 Uh, so even when women do make money, like, even if men were inclined to care about money,

05:18:56.760 a limiting factor in men's, even if they, you know, wanted to care, did care, uh, we wouldn't

05:19:04.300 actually receive any benefit from dating a wealthy woman.

05:19:06.700 Really?

05:19:07.800 Cause like women don't spend money on men in the same way.

05:19:12.620 Like not all women, some women you'll get, you'll, okay, you've been dating a guy for

05:19:17.180 a year, you'll buy him an X-Box.

05:19:18.620 Great.

05:19:21.220 But like a woman who's got a lot of money, I don't know.

05:19:25.160 Women don't really simp like that.

05:19:26.340 I feel like.

05:19:26.840 If the woman had offered to pay for your date, like, would you have let her?

05:19:34.480 Uh, or was it just like the time?

05:19:36.020 Honestly, fuck yeah.

05:19:37.360 Probably.

05:19:37.980 Cause I'm not just like, it's just the principle of the thing, you know, like, is that, you

05:19:41.560 know, like, I just want you to offer.

05:19:43.200 Of course I'm not going to let you pay.

05:19:44.220 Just, I want you to offer.

05:19:45.420 Like, I didn't know like how some guys are like that.

05:19:48.060 I don't know.

05:19:48.280 Uh, just, I was just like, I just, uh, a question.

05:19:51.980 Just curious.

05:19:52.680 Yeah.

05:19:52.720 Yeah.

05:19:52.840 Yeah.

05:19:52.960 Uh, what was the question?

05:19:56.020 Sorry.

05:19:56.840 I just said like, if she had offered to pay for your date, would you have let her or was

05:20:02.940 it more of the principle?

05:20:03.820 Like she didn't even offer and she expected it from you.

05:20:06.480 I mean, I don't mind.

05:20:07.580 Uh, I'm fine paying for everything, but I, I kind of like it if a girl simps, to be honest.

05:20:13.800 I'll take that.

05:20:14.600 I'll take that deal.

05:20:15.660 With me, it's probably like, I would expect him to pay for the dates, but I love like getting

05:20:19.120 presents and gifts for my, you know, for my significant other.

05:20:22.340 So I might not pay for dinner, but I'll get you like a really nice pair of sunglasses or something.

05:20:26.760 Like out of the blue, just to let you know, I was thinking of it.

05:20:29.960 And by the way, to be clear, it's not even about the money necessarily.

05:20:33.740 Like, Oh, I'm saving money.

05:20:35.260 It's like a girl who's, who is going outside of a typical role.

05:20:41.180 She's really down bad for you.

05:20:43.100 She's simping.

05:20:43.880 Like she really likes you.

05:20:47.100 If she's doing like, if she's doing that, and, uh, uh, that's a good dynamic.

05:20:53.720 I think the girl, I don't know.

05:20:55.720 My perspective, the girl has to like the guy more than the reverse.

05:21:00.640 I could, Hey, you guys can disagree though.

05:21:02.880 Speaking of, who needs a sugar bottle?

05:21:07.400 The underscore Indy donated $1,000.

05:21:09.700 All right.

05:21:09.720 One more champagne bottle, please.

05:21:10.860 W panel.

05:21:12.080 Brian, would you gift Sage 2 a hoodie?

05:21:15.060 Her top is absurdly immodest.

05:21:17.440 Sage 2, would you accept this gift?

05:21:20.360 You know what, dude?

05:21:21.200 Donate like $50, $51, and then I'll put my jacket on.

05:21:27.340 Indy, uh, donate.

05:21:29.620 If you do another champagne pop, I will, um, I'll get her an Arby's t-shirt to wear for

05:21:34.540 the rest of the stream.

05:21:35.620 Yes, do that.

05:21:37.340 Do that.

05:21:38.180 Uh, who wants more champagne?

05:21:39.240 If you want, pass your cup down back.

05:21:41.560 Uh, just pass it down through the guests, please.

05:21:45.960 Yo, Indy, you're a fucking legend.

05:21:47.840 Guys, W's in the chat for Indy.

05:21:49.340 W Indy.

05:21:49.960 It's been a minute since we got champagne pops.

05:21:52.220 It's, it's, it's been a minute.

05:21:53.300 Oh, you're fine.

05:21:54.340 And, you know, I feel like shit, you know, inflation, we're about, I don't know if recession's

05:21:58.120 coming.

05:21:58.860 You know, I feel like, uh, you know, we, so some people, uh, you know, disappeared a little

05:22:04.100 bit.

05:22:04.540 So it's, uh, I appreciate the support, guys.

05:22:07.220 Uh, hold up.

05:22:09.400 All right.

05:22:10.800 All right.

05:22:11.040 Musical chairs over here.

05:22:13.320 All right.

05:22:16.020 To, uh, thank you, Indy.

05:22:18.140 Oh, boy.

05:22:19.120 Thank you, Indy.

05:22:20.080 Oh, no.

05:22:20.460 It's going to leak, I think.

05:22:22.120 Hello?

05:22:24.020 Hello?

05:22:24.920 Hi.

05:22:26.600 Oh, no.

05:22:27.460 I fucked it up.

05:22:31.560 Oh, we got it.

05:22:32.720 There we go.

05:22:33.520 That was good the last time, I think.

05:22:35.140 You're getting pretty good at that.

05:22:35.880 That was a better one than the last time.

05:22:37.180 No, the first one, I think I was pretty, pretty fast with it.

05:22:40.040 No, that sounds better.

05:22:40.840 Pass it down?

05:22:41.640 Just pass all the cups down?

05:22:43.200 Oh, wait.

05:22:43.680 How do I remember?

05:22:44.640 Yeah, maybe one at a time.

05:22:46.180 This is mine.

05:22:46.800 One at a time.

05:22:47.920 Did you guys, have you guys tapped on it?

05:22:48.680 So I think that one's mine.

05:22:49.520 Yeah, that's hers.

05:22:50.520 Here, I'm just, you know what?

05:22:51.960 Nathan, can you just get me, uh, the, the solo cups?

05:22:55.380 Here.

05:22:56.000 Collect all those.

05:22:56.720 Can you, like, pound, pound it.

05:23:01.380 You want me to pound it?

05:23:02.140 It's now a frat party.

05:23:03.120 Chug, chug, chug.

05:23:04.500 There's still some in there.

05:23:05.620 I think I need...

05:23:07.120 Chug.

05:23:07.500 Go, go, go, go.

05:23:09.400 Champagne?

05:23:10.420 Champagne?

05:23:11.540 Champagne?

05:23:12.340 I'm good.

05:23:13.060 One, two.

05:23:14.340 There we go.

05:23:15.820 Three, four, and then...

05:23:18.520 Lisa, does she want some more?

05:23:20.680 Yes.

05:23:21.960 I don't know.

05:23:22.940 Here, while I'm pouring, do you guys want to talk amongst yourselves about something?

05:23:26.720 Keep them, keep, keep them entertained.

05:23:29.660 How's everyone's butt feeling?

05:23:31.460 Butt?

05:23:32.100 Right?

05:23:33.100 My back is killing me.

05:23:34.580 Not my butt, but my back is killing me.

05:23:36.760 I just have to stand just to stand.

05:23:38.240 It's my back.

05:23:39.020 I will say it's really cool that these...

05:23:41.300 Terrible.

05:23:41.940 I do think it's really cool these guys thought to put the cushions on the chair, so it was

05:23:45.180 really thoughtful, and they have helped a lot.

05:23:46.960 Yeah.

05:23:48.260 Wait.

05:23:48.640 I think it's more jet lag.

05:23:49.960 I'm feeling a little bit of jet lag.

05:23:51.840 Oh.

05:23:52.540 Yeah, I suppose it's three hours later for us.

05:23:55.120 Yeah.

05:23:55.360 Okay, this is for you.

05:23:56.300 Yeah, me too.

05:23:57.780 It's 1.30 in the morning, my time.

05:23:59.880 Who's next?

05:24:00.480 I'm using it.

05:24:01.340 Wait, what time is it?

05:24:02.040 That's true.

05:24:02.800 Wait.

05:24:03.400 No, no.

05:24:03.800 Who's next?

05:24:04.860 Just put it for Lisa.

05:24:05.840 Just right here.

05:24:06.320 Right here.

05:24:06.640 Right here.

05:24:06.920 Right here.

05:24:07.140 Oh, sorry.

05:24:07.720 Right here.

05:24:08.180 Right here.

05:24:08.600 Right here.

05:24:08.940 Right here.

05:24:09.340 Right here.

05:24:09.540 Got it.

05:24:09.860 Right here.

05:24:09.960 Right here.

05:24:10.520 All right.

05:24:11.300 Well, we're not going to wait for Lisa or...

05:24:13.960 Bro.

05:24:16.560 Bro.

05:24:16.920 I should have got more water.

05:24:19.020 Okay.

05:24:20.120 Cheers to Indie.

05:24:22.440 Yeah, Indie.

05:24:23.180 Legends or fucking legend.

05:24:24.380 Salud.

05:24:25.100 Awesome.

05:24:25.420 That's pretty good.

05:24:33.220 Yeah, I'm sure I'll take this one.

05:24:35.700 Okay.

05:24:37.000 Hold on one second.

05:24:38.780 So you said that's the Trader Joe's one?

05:24:42.020 Shit.

05:24:42.840 I don't know if you got...

05:24:44.040 Indie, you got Ethereum?

05:24:45.540 Because we got Cristal.

05:24:47.060 We got some Primo champagne.

05:24:50.320 Okay.

05:24:50.660 Where were we on the notes?

05:24:53.040 I'm trying to remember.

05:24:54.960 Privilege.

05:24:55.480 Oh, woman's career.

05:24:56.520 Oh.

05:24:57.040 Wrong, Sam.

05:24:58.040 Wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex.

05:25:03.400 Why is that, Sam?

05:25:04.660 Wait, what was the question?

05:25:07.640 Wrong for a man to...

05:25:09.680 You agree with the statement.

05:25:10.840 Wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex.

05:25:15.440 Oh, yeah, I agree because I couldn't do anything for a while with one of my boyfriends and he didn't break up with me.

05:25:24.640 I ended up breaking up with him.

05:25:28.420 Yikes.

05:25:28.920 Okay.

05:25:30.920 For six months, we didn't do anything.

05:25:32.560 But that's because...

05:25:33.720 Why couldn't you?

05:25:34.780 Yeah.

05:25:36.700 He didn't get me wet anymore.

05:25:40.160 What?

05:25:42.280 So it's more like you lost attraction?

05:25:44.800 Yeah, like I forced it for a while and it was not good.

05:25:47.540 So that wasn't necessarily his fault.

05:25:49.560 Yeah.

05:25:49.900 How long did you continue dating him?

05:25:51.500 Six months.

05:25:52.700 But...

05:25:52.980 Oh.

05:25:53.240 That's kind of proof then that if he couldn't do that for you, your body...

05:26:00.800 That's your body's way of saying, like, we're not a good match.

05:26:03.160 We should end this.

05:26:04.500 Yeah.

05:26:04.660 So if anything, he should break up with you because that's six months of wasted time.

05:26:11.020 I guess you're right, but we had a good connection.

05:26:14.320 Like, we didn't have to do that for us to have a good time and stuff like that.

05:26:18.720 They were roommates.

05:26:19.820 Were you...

05:26:21.740 Did you live together?

05:26:22.920 No.

05:26:23.440 This is totally an inappropriate question.

05:26:25.080 You do not have to answer it, but was there, like, any medication or anything involved at

05:26:28.300 the time?

05:26:28.680 It was just...

05:26:29.660 I'm on it.

05:26:30.160 Yeah.

05:26:30.380 That's your body telling you, like, I'm not into bro.

05:26:32.800 Like, you can just be homies.

05:26:35.960 I mean, but that's...

05:26:36.680 Okay, birth control.

05:26:37.260 There you go.

05:26:37.780 Birth control.

05:26:38.620 But he made me go on it, too.

05:26:40.380 So it was, like, a lot of factors.

05:26:42.340 So that's why I also, you know, broke up.

05:26:43.920 But birth control can definitely mess with that.

05:26:46.260 Yeah.

05:26:46.460 Yeah.

05:26:46.620 So maybe it was that.

05:26:47.440 So initially, were you attracted to him?

05:26:51.240 Eh.

05:26:52.020 Yeah?

05:26:52.400 Oh.

05:26:52.800 Oh.

05:26:53.080 Oh, boy.

05:26:54.220 Okay.

05:26:54.940 Okay.

05:26:55.980 But you did have sex initially.

05:26:58.380 Yeah, we did.

05:26:59.860 Okay.

05:27:00.840 But he couldn't...

05:27:02.180 Okay.

05:27:02.620 When you weren't having it, did he still have a really healthy sex drive?

05:27:06.280 Like, he wanted it all the time?

05:27:08.700 Yeah.

05:27:09.780 Don't give a guy blue balls.

05:27:11.820 Oh, I do that a lot.

05:27:17.580 Okay.

05:27:18.220 He just gave you the ah.

05:27:19.800 He's like...

05:27:20.120 Well, like, not on purpose.

05:27:22.760 It just happens.

05:27:24.420 I've just been told that I do that.

05:27:26.600 But I don't do anything.

05:27:28.320 Well, yeah, that'll give him blue balls.

05:27:30.940 You're right.

05:27:32.620 Okay.

05:27:33.960 Here, we'll do...

05:27:35.260 Wow.

05:27:35.660 I need to wait for Lisa, I guess.

05:27:38.860 Past...

05:27:39.500 Hold on.

05:27:42.160 We'll wait for that one.

05:27:43.020 I was in a sexless marriage for six years.

05:27:45.960 Yikes.

05:27:46.660 And I didn't leave him because of that.

05:27:50.060 You left him or you...

05:27:51.720 No, I didn't leave him because of that.

05:27:53.400 Was it sexless because of my daughter?

05:27:55.740 Was it sexless because of him?

05:27:57.980 Him.

05:27:58.400 Him.

05:27:58.480 Or because...

05:27:59.000 So you wanted a...

05:27:59.920 Yes.

05:28:00.480 You wanted a...

05:28:00.940 I wanted a second marriage because of...

05:28:02.700 Yeah, he was having sex with someone else.

05:28:03.920 Everything, right?

05:28:04.980 See, I consider that abusive when you, like, on either side of the woman's...

05:28:09.280 And I wanted to talk to him, but he doesn't even talk.

05:28:12.020 Yeah, I find that abusive because sex is a very important part of your relationship and

05:28:16.140 keeping that connection.

05:28:16.960 And if your spouse doesn't...

05:28:18.280 Is refusing to have sex or vice versa, I think that's abuse.

05:28:22.340 I think it's neglect.

05:28:23.040 I'm so open to tell him, you know, what I exactly want.

05:28:25.880 Yeah.

05:28:26.220 I was only 16 when this happened.

05:28:28.760 Indy donated 50 and said, I'll take the jacket.

05:28:30.740 Wait, what was the deal?

05:28:32.380 I thought the deal was...

05:28:33.180 I said if he donate 50, I'll put my jacket on.

05:28:36.120 Oh, I didn't hear that.

05:28:37.260 No.

05:28:38.160 No.

05:28:39.360 He's refusing it.

05:28:40.240 He wants 1,000, Indy, for an Arby shirt.

05:28:43.640 I'll give her the Arby shirt, but he wants the jacket.

05:28:47.040 Indy can help a lot of girls, Chakra Stahl, who've never tried it.

05:28:49.720 Sounds like you're giving them blue balls.

05:28:50.840 $50 more, Indy, in New York.

05:28:54.220 Well, look, I don't know.

05:28:55.080 If you made a deal with him, I don't know if I can interfere with that, I guess.

05:29:01.320 It's a cute jacket.

05:29:02.160 She did offer...

05:29:03.160 I don't know.

05:29:05.820 Whatever.

05:29:06.680 I don't know.

05:29:07.600 I was not a party to the negotiations there, Indy.

05:29:13.780 He's going to be sad, Indy.

05:29:15.260 Don't do this to him.

05:29:16.860 Okay.

05:29:17.120 But so, uh, dead bedroom.

05:29:22.180 I'm just curious, though, like, are men allowed to be like, you know what, I just don't feel

05:29:27.100 like going to work, so I'm just not going to go to work.

05:29:31.600 Like, assuming, you know, you know what I mean?

05:29:34.800 Like, work as in, like, job?

05:29:37.880 Or, like, work?

05:29:39.460 No, I mean, like, a profession, a career.

05:29:44.340 Oh, oh, okay.

05:29:45.640 Yeah.

05:29:46.480 Like, I'm just not in the mood today, and I just don't want to go to work.

05:29:49.120 Like, men...

05:29:51.420 I mean, they should be able to do that.

05:29:52.860 I mean, they got me too, so...

05:29:54.380 But I mean, it's like, do you care about your partner's needs and striking a balance between...

05:30:01.980 Well, I think it depends, too.

05:30:03.320 It depends on different things.

05:30:04.840 Like, if it's a manipulation tactic, then no, that's wrong.

05:30:09.320 If it's, hey, I'm sick, or hey...

05:30:11.700 Oh, of course.

05:30:12.220 You know, whatever.

05:30:12.940 But I think if it's, like, manipulation, or you getting back at them for something, or

05:30:16.800 holding out for whatever reason, I don't think that's right.

05:30:20.580 Because that is one of the main...

05:30:22.360 Men are pretty simple creatures.

05:30:23.960 They want respect.

05:30:25.060 They want loyalty.

05:30:25.920 They want sex.

05:30:26.760 I mean, that is a need that men have generally more than women.

05:30:29.720 And so, like, it's more important to them than it is to us a lot of times.

05:30:34.600 I've seen a lot of women sit there and tell their husbands, well, if you do this, we'll

05:30:39.800 have sex tonight.

05:30:40.700 Well, if you do this, we'll have sex tonight.

05:30:42.760 No, I don't like that.

05:30:43.880 And then the men always come back and complain.

05:30:45.560 They're like, no, I never got it.

05:30:46.600 And I don't think women understand.

05:30:48.460 I think women should...

05:30:48.760 That's also a manipulation tactic.

05:30:50.300 Exactly.

05:30:50.920 Yeah.

05:30:51.580 That's manipulation.

05:30:52.580 You used to what?

05:30:53.200 That's what I would do.

05:30:54.220 No, explain it.

05:30:55.080 Oh, you're a monster.

05:30:55.700 Explain it.

05:30:56.160 I would be like, oh, if you clean that, we can do it.

05:31:01.840 Even though I didn't want to.

05:31:03.740 Yeah, you have no desire to be with them at that point.

05:31:06.240 I personally think chore play is great when the woman does it, though.

05:31:11.360 Like, seeing a woman scrubbing the floor kind of gets me randy.

05:31:15.920 My husband says the same thing.

05:31:18.060 That's a very real thing.

05:31:19.140 She's just cleaning the bathroom.

05:31:21.380 Hot.

05:31:22.300 Sexy.

05:31:23.040 You know?

05:31:23.240 So, I think that works, like, from men to women.

05:31:28.320 But it's, like, a masculine...

05:31:30.360 If it's, like, the man has to do the chores to get some...

05:31:35.020 But it wasn't a chore.

05:31:35.900 It was just, like, if I couldn't do it.

05:31:37.520 Like, if it was heavy or, like, make him go to the store for me because I didn't want

05:31:42.080 to walk.

05:31:44.440 Oh, boy.

05:31:45.360 All right.

05:31:45.540 Give me a big, a big, a big, a big cheese.

05:31:47.060 But, yeah, I mean, look, if part of being in a monogamous relationship is you guys are

05:31:53.800 only going to have sex with each other.

05:31:55.440 I, of course, like, look, if your girlfriend's sick, you're sick, and you're not feeling well,

05:31:59.740 that's totally fine.

05:32:00.880 But this is more like a repeated pattern.

05:32:02.940 We're talking weeks, months.

05:32:04.980 They're not sick.

05:32:05.720 Like, they're just not having sex, turning you down.

05:32:11.680 I think, you know, I think it can be, you can address it first.

05:32:15.160 But I think...

05:32:15.880 If that were to happen, there's a bigger question that needs to be.

05:32:19.080 Exactly.

05:32:19.940 I wasn't the one that wanted to stay in that.

05:32:22.520 Like, it was...

05:32:23.720 There was a conversation, obviously.

05:32:25.700 It wasn't like I was silent about it the whole time.

05:32:28.060 And, like, I didn't tell him that I wasn't getting that feeling anymore.

05:32:33.220 But there was, like, a mutual connection where I was like, okay, we have a good connection.

05:32:38.360 We can talk all the time.

05:32:39.360 We're friends.

05:32:40.500 Okay.

05:32:41.120 Here, we're going to do past should not matter.

05:32:45.820 So, body count.

05:32:47.200 Gigi, you agree with the statement.

05:32:49.260 Past should not matter.

05:32:50.580 Camilla, agree.

05:32:51.780 Sam, agree.

05:32:52.620 Gigi, Priyanka, depends.

05:33:01.320 And, Mandy, you agree.

05:33:03.860 Okay.

05:33:05.400 Why?

05:33:06.480 Oh, I meant the opposite.

05:33:07.740 Okay.

05:33:08.140 Then you guys, I guess.

05:33:09.180 Should not matter.

05:33:09.920 I think I misconfused myself.

05:33:11.480 Wait.

05:33:12.200 So, past should not matter.

05:33:14.480 Circle if you agree.

05:33:16.100 Yeah, I got confused.

05:33:17.500 Sorry.

05:33:18.020 Okay.

05:33:18.260 Then let's just do this.

05:33:20.320 What's everyone's body count?

05:33:21.640 Starting with you.

05:33:22.460 Just my boyfriend.

05:33:23.720 One?

05:33:24.140 Yeah.

05:33:24.520 Okay.

05:33:25.140 Nine.

05:33:25.740 Nine?

05:33:26.160 Okay.

05:33:26.400 Eleven.

05:33:27.040 Eleven?

05:33:27.940 Nine.

05:33:28.900 Nine?

05:33:29.420 Okay.

05:33:29.860 Husband.

05:33:30.480 One?

05:33:30.800 Just one?

05:33:31.400 Husband.

05:33:31.840 All right.

05:33:32.140 The college football coach.

05:33:33.680 Five.

05:33:34.480 Five?

05:33:35.120 Fourteen.

05:33:35.700 Fourteen?

05:33:36.540 Four.

05:33:37.480 Four?

05:33:38.520 Oh, okay.

05:33:40.500 I'm married, so I won't say the exact number, but it's below five.

05:33:44.860 Okay.

05:33:45.960 All right.

05:33:46.520 Wow.

05:33:46.860 I don't know if that's a...

05:33:48.640 We got to...

05:33:49.200 I feel like we got to change this chair.

05:33:50.460 We probably should have already done it.

05:33:51.500 Sorry.

05:33:51.780 Hey, can we swap chairs, please?

05:33:53.560 I wish I'd done it sooner.

05:33:54.760 I'm annoying Brian.

05:33:55.600 No, it's not your fault.

05:33:56.660 No, no, no.

05:33:57.320 It's not your fault.

05:33:58.180 It's the shitty chair.

05:34:01.500 Yeah, it's a squeaker.

05:34:03.600 Okay.

05:34:04.460 Body count.

05:34:05.140 Wow.

05:34:05.420 Okay.

05:34:05.600 Everybody answered the body count question.

05:34:07.260 That's cool.

05:34:08.580 Men should pay on first dates.

05:34:11.280 Men should provide protects.

05:34:12.820 Hold on.

05:34:13.220 We'll get to that in a moment.

05:34:14.520 Test it out first, though.

05:34:15.680 Make sure.

05:34:16.780 Test it out.

05:34:18.580 Add that to the resume.

05:34:19.800 Swap it.

05:34:20.300 Maybe you could walk that chair over there.

05:34:23.240 Sure.

05:34:24.660 Here, bring it back so she can walk it out.

05:34:27.520 Like the dance.

05:34:28.560 Do you know how to walk it out?

05:34:29.980 Yeah.

05:34:30.500 Do you know how to lean with it?

05:34:33.160 Rock with it?

05:34:34.080 Yes.

05:34:34.140 Do you know how to crank dat Soulja Boy?

05:34:39.300 Wow.

05:34:41.460 Yeah, just try to be careful as you can.

05:34:44.940 All right.

05:34:46.320 Okay.

05:34:47.740 Let's do...

05:34:49.820 Hold on.

05:34:52.880 One sec, guys.

05:34:54.960 Priyanka, you agree getting laid is harder for women?

05:35:01.660 For me, yeah.

05:35:04.140 I mean, I think...

05:35:06.400 Women, plural, in general.

05:35:08.300 Yeah, so it's difficult.

05:35:10.500 But so for you, it's harder to get laid than, like, an average-looking Indian guy who's 50?

05:35:16.420 No, it's because I need to be, like, very much emotionally involved and committed to be able to...

05:35:21.700 Oh, my God.

05:35:22.160 Waste of time.

05:35:22.900 That's right.

05:35:24.640 But, okay.

05:35:26.780 In general, do you think it's harder for women to get laid?

05:35:34.140 So, to get laid, to get sex, is it harder for women to get sex?

05:35:41.540 Yeah, because they're shy and they don't go and, like, directly...

05:35:46.920 Like, men are directly asked, you know, you know, like, sex or something, but women are shy and they don't...

05:35:52.540 And do men typically get rejected if they just directly ask a woman to fuck?

05:35:56.920 Yeah.

05:35:57.520 Yeah.

05:35:57.720 They get rejected too, but...

05:35:59.260 Let's test it.

05:36:00.280 No, I'm just kidding.

05:36:02.020 We can test it out super easy.

05:36:05.060 All right.

05:36:06.700 Okay.

05:36:08.900 So, you think...

05:36:10.260 If we had a 50-year-old Indian software engineer, he would have an easier time getting laid than you?

05:36:19.920 Or we can just even say 47-year-old.

05:36:22.520 Me?

05:36:23.140 Yeah.

05:36:23.560 He would have an easier time getting laid.

05:36:28.920 I'm just, like, so emotional that...

05:36:31.480 An easier time getting someone to say yes.

05:36:33.540 Oh, my God.

05:36:33.860 Oh, yes.

05:36:34.360 Yes.

05:36:34.800 Yeah.

05:36:35.200 Yeah.

05:36:35.380 There we go.

05:36:35.660 I will be easier to get laid.

05:36:37.600 Okay.

05:36:37.960 Yes.

05:36:38.480 Yes.

05:36:38.920 Yes.

05:36:39.080 There we go.

05:36:39.440 All right.

05:36:40.240 All right.

05:36:42.120 Sorry.

05:36:42.740 You know, like, I misinterpreted.

05:36:44.720 Oh, it's cute.

05:36:46.620 That's one way to put it.

05:36:47.740 Because sometimes, you know, I don't even recognize the vocabulary, you know, we are using, so...

05:36:52.960 Everything is general.

05:36:53.960 Okay.

05:36:55.640 It's, like, borderline.

05:36:57.460 Yeah.

05:36:57.700 All the other...

05:36:58.420 All the questions are in general.

05:37:00.580 It's not about you specifically.

05:37:02.300 It's about in general.

05:37:03.700 Yeah.

05:37:04.020 So, like, my sisters and all, you know, like, the top of the friends.

05:37:07.540 Love that for you.

05:37:09.000 Sam, men should provide protect.

05:37:12.020 You agree?

05:37:12.720 Men should be chivalrous.

05:37:13.780 You agree?

05:37:14.500 Yes.

05:37:15.620 You want to get married?

05:37:17.680 I do.

05:37:18.520 You write that you will keep your last name or hyphenate in marriage.

05:37:22.420 Is that correct?

05:37:22.620 Oh, I just want...

05:37:23.160 Yeah, I just...

05:37:23.580 I would keep my last name.

05:37:24.700 What about for your kids?

05:37:25.580 Would they hyphenate?

05:37:26.740 They would have my husband's name.

05:37:29.420 Last name.

05:37:29.960 Okay.

05:37:31.120 Isn't it kind of the traditional thing, though, in marriage that you take your husband's last name?

05:37:35.020 Yeah, but the only reason I want to do that is because I'm...

05:37:39.020 My dad's, like, only daughter as an inch.

05:37:43.100 Like, my last name.

05:37:44.660 He has another daughter, but my last name is...

05:37:47.120 I just want to keep my last name.

05:37:48.300 Wouldn't you also be your mom's only daughter?

05:37:51.580 And she also...

05:37:52.780 Well, she has two other kids.

05:37:54.760 Oh, okay.

05:37:55.260 That complicates things.

05:37:56.380 Never mind.

05:37:57.320 Yeah.

05:37:59.500 Okay.

05:38:03.060 Sarah?

05:38:04.600 You?

05:38:05.800 You will keep your last name in marriage.

05:38:07.260 No, no, I'm sorry.

05:38:07.940 I must have misunderstood that one.

05:38:09.800 Okay.

05:38:09.820 Priyanka, you write, or you agree, men should pay on first dates?

05:38:15.540 Just looking for a yes or not.

05:38:16.120 Yes, but I always offer to split first.

05:38:18.720 Men should provide protect.

05:38:20.160 Do you agree?

05:38:20.780 Yes.

05:38:22.320 Men should be chivalrous.

05:38:23.580 Do you agree?

05:38:24.220 Yes.

05:38:24.600 Husband should be willing to die protecting you.

05:38:27.480 You agree?

05:38:28.500 Yeah.

05:38:29.380 You will keep your last name or hyphenate in marriage.

05:38:32.220 You agree?

05:38:33.860 Yeah.

05:38:35.200 What about, let's say...

05:38:37.140 What if my husband insists, then, yeah.

05:38:40.260 I will keep his last name.

05:38:42.660 But I prefer to just...

05:38:45.060 I mean, let's assume...

05:38:46.800 In, like, both of my marriages, the last name was same.

05:38:49.520 So it was never a situation.

05:38:51.100 Let me guess.

05:38:51.760 Sing?

05:38:52.700 Sing.

05:38:53.440 Sing?

05:38:54.600 Same, last name, because we use the religion...

05:38:57.200 Or wait, no, hold on, that's not even that...

05:38:59.160 Same, she said.

05:39:00.660 I'm thinking of Patel?

05:39:01.680 Patel.

05:39:02.280 Jen.

05:39:03.220 Jen is a religion, then a caste, and we both have that.

05:39:06.040 Yeah, I think that might be cultural.

05:39:07.900 My mom has her last name still, but there's only, like, a one-letter difference.

05:39:12.860 Oh, okay.

05:39:13.900 Yeah.

05:39:14.760 Well, so, but let's say you marry an American guy, and he has a different last name than you.

05:39:18.740 Do you take his last name?

05:39:19.780 Um, if it's love, yes.

05:39:24.460 What do you mean?

05:39:25.260 If we are in love.

05:39:26.920 What other...

05:39:27.440 But what other context...

05:39:29.800 Look, I mean, it's plausible that you can marry for money, you can marry for other reasons,

05:39:33.420 but why would that prevent you in the other scenarios or other reasons in which people could marry?

05:39:38.720 Because the last two marriages were arranged, you know, that's why.

05:39:41.640 If I fell in love, I can do anything.

05:39:43.820 I have a question, would you only get married if you were in love with a man?

05:39:48.320 Now, yes.

05:39:51.120 So it's a given...

05:39:53.080 Wait, I don't know why you need...

05:39:54.120 Okay, yes, go.

05:39:55.080 I will take that.

05:39:56.100 I mean, but I would prefer to have mine.

05:39:59.420 Because of the bad experiences, you know, so nothing is permanent, so that's why now I do not want to...

05:40:05.000 But you said husband should be willing to die protecting you, that's permanent, that's really permanent, that he has to die for you,

05:40:12.980 but you won't spend a few hours on a Saturday changing your last name?

05:40:19.740 I got to fucking die for a woman?

05:40:22.880 And she can't be bothered spending a few hours on a Sunday fucking calling up credit cards and blah, blah, blah, changing her shit?

05:40:30.740 Yeah, because all the men I committed to, you know, all of them, and they cheated.

05:40:36.160 So, you know, I do not want to have all the hesitation.

05:40:37.460 Do you understand that's not all men, right?

05:40:39.080 Like, are you just going to keep dating awful men?

05:40:41.560 Is that your plan?

05:40:43.300 No, I just don't.

05:40:43.680 If they make 500K.

05:40:44.620 I just stop dating.

05:40:45.920 I stop dating.

05:40:47.240 So, like, if you get married, you're probably going to try and date somebody that doesn't cheat on you, right?

05:40:53.120 Okay, so would you take that guy's last name?

05:40:54.580 He's not going to cheat on you.

05:40:55.900 This man is not.

05:40:56.540 You've learned your lesson.

05:40:57.860 All of your bad experiences gone out the window.

05:41:00.160 Are you taking his last name?

05:41:01.760 Yes.

05:41:02.160 Okay.

05:41:03.540 I mean, if it was a deal breaker, I would take him too.

05:41:06.600 Pulling two.

05:41:08.860 All right.

05:41:11.300 When I was younger, I did have an Indian dentist.

05:41:17.940 I did.

05:41:19.080 Last name Padel.

05:41:19.760 Oh, I thought you were reading that off the table.

05:41:23.940 No, just.

05:41:24.680 One of her screens.

05:41:25.960 Oh, that's great.

05:41:26.880 Me too.

05:41:27.320 That's great.

05:41:29.520 No.

05:41:30.160 You, you yourself had it.

05:41:32.000 I had an Indian dentist when I was young.

05:41:33.940 That's where I'm going to say, yeah.

05:41:35.000 Okay, good.

05:41:35.580 And, anyways.

05:41:37.420 Okay.

05:41:38.420 Yo.

05:41:39.320 Yeah.

05:41:41.140 Let's see here.

05:41:42.180 I think we're pretty much done with the questionnaire.

05:41:44.700 Let me just take one more glance at it.

05:41:48.180 That's insane.

05:41:51.120 Wait.

05:41:52.800 Hold on.

05:41:53.200 Indy, I will take the jacket.

05:41:57.460 Indy, I will take the jacket.

05:41:58.620 A yellow card is appropriate for chair two.

05:42:00.940 You want me to yellow carder?

05:42:02.460 You get a yellow card.

05:42:04.860 Cammie.

05:42:06.420 He said you made a promise, madam.

05:42:07.580 You get a yellow card.

05:42:09.260 Dang.

05:42:10.240 Offer acceptance.

05:42:11.620 Offer acceptance.

05:42:13.140 After 100.

05:42:14.280 She gets one more card.

05:42:15.240 Nathan, can you get...

05:42:16.080 What's your...

05:42:16.820 I have my jacket.

05:42:17.860 Nathan will get it.

05:42:19.160 You stay...

05:42:20.660 What's it look like?

05:42:22.120 The leather one.

05:42:23.100 The leather jacket.

05:42:24.460 The leather jacket.

05:42:25.480 Yeah.

05:42:26.100 All right.

05:42:27.700 Yeah.

05:42:28.440 I should...

05:42:29.040 You know what?

05:42:29.760 I just thought that would be fucking genius is I should just like buy 10 burkas on Amazon.

05:42:36.980 You know, I basically helped you just now.

05:42:39.040 And you can pass it.

05:42:41.420 You're done.

05:42:42.060 I'll turn the camera off so you're not in front.

05:42:44.620 And men can donate money to progressively put the women in the burkas.

05:42:50.680 I would hate that.

05:42:51.640 I would hate that.

05:42:52.700 Didn't we just build my brand over there?

05:42:54.200 I don't know.

05:42:54.680 Oh, it's because of where I live.

05:42:56.600 I'd wear it.

05:42:58.480 You'd wear it?

05:42:59.420 Yeah, I'd put it on.

05:43:00.260 Because of where I live, I would hate that.

05:43:01.920 She's a ride or die.

05:43:03.060 She's fucking doing it.

05:43:03.900 For real.

05:43:05.380 She's going to shave her head.

05:43:06.580 That's why.

05:43:07.240 Can somebody...

05:43:08.020 Can I door dash a fucking burka to the studio?

05:43:11.800 She is.

05:43:12.420 Let me...

05:43:12.740 I'm actually going to search door dash.

05:43:16.000 Do it for the Lord.

05:43:17.080 You're down, girl.

05:43:18.000 At this hour.

05:43:18.580 Oh, I am very down.

05:43:20.220 At this hour.

05:43:21.140 Very unlikely.

05:43:22.180 I procure...

05:43:24.220 A burka.

05:43:27.680 You're that girl if something...

05:43:29.220 If your friend does something...

05:43:30.480 Oh, yeah.

05:43:30.740 That's how I was in school.

05:43:31.820 I'm doing it.

05:43:32.860 If somebody threw a ball at the teacher, I was like, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

05:43:34.860 That was me.

05:43:36.040 Yeah.

05:43:36.320 But you're like...

05:43:36.960 Just because.

05:43:37.640 You're that girl of like, if I do something wrong, I can be like, yo, I need your help

05:43:41.840 hiding the body.

05:43:42.920 And you're like, I'll bring the shovel.

05:43:44.460 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

05:43:46.660 I'm there.

05:43:47.340 Don't you worry.

05:43:48.640 I don't know you.

05:43:49.420 I don't know your name, but I'm down.

05:43:50.960 I got the acid.

05:43:51.820 We'll just dissolve the body.

05:43:54.140 Go on.

05:43:54.920 Wow.

05:43:55.480 Last thing from the...

05:43:56.400 Breaking bad.

05:43:56.880 Last thing from the questionnaire here.

05:43:59.400 Husband should be willing to die protecting me.

05:44:01.840 Take the bullet.

05:44:02.860 Yep.

05:44:03.040 If we're...

05:44:06.340 And, you know, men should pay on first dates.

05:44:08.120 Men should provide, protect.

05:44:09.760 Men should be chivalrous.

05:44:10.880 Husband should be willing to die protecting me.

05:44:13.100 If we're allowed to, and it's okay to say men should.

05:44:17.380 Men should do this.

05:44:18.640 Men should do that.

05:44:19.320 Men should do X, Y, Z.

05:44:20.680 Men should do all these things.

05:44:22.280 What are we allowed to say women should?

05:44:26.180 The same thing.

05:44:28.440 Like if he's...

05:44:29.380 The same things?

05:44:30.180 Well, no, I mean like for the bullet one, he's willing to take a bullet for me.

05:44:34.240 I'll take a bullet for him.

05:44:35.960 Well, I think also if you talk, if you want to bring, you know, go back into faith, like

05:44:39.200 bring, you know, a lot of women have issues with the part of the Bible where it says wives

05:44:43.920 submit to your husbands.

05:44:45.200 Okay.

05:44:45.500 A lot of women have problems.

05:44:46.980 They don't think about the next part that said husbands treat your wife as Christ did

05:44:51.520 the church.

05:44:52.280 What did Christ do for the church?

05:44:53.520 He died for it.

05:44:55.200 So it's like, hey, listen, you know what?

05:44:57.140 If a man loves me, if he is willing to die for me, you know what?

05:45:02.120 I'll make him a sandwich.

05:45:03.980 Well, I agree.

05:45:04.920 I agree.

05:45:05.940 Yes, of course.

05:45:06.580 If the man is doing all these things, sacrificing in those ways, providing, protecting, willing

05:45:12.040 to die for you as Christ did, then the least the women can do is not be quarrelsome, be

05:45:19.840 peaceful and submit and obey.

05:45:23.960 I don't get the impression that a lot of women are doing that because it's contrary

05:45:29.840 to modernity and feminism and boss babe and having lived in a feminist culture.

05:45:37.000 I think if men are obligated to take a bullet for you, I think you have a duty to give them

05:45:44.320 children.

05:45:44.880 No, it's.

05:45:46.320 Yes.

05:45:46.620 The whole man taking the bullet for the woman thing stems back to when in society, if a man

05:45:53.320 in a relationship dies, the woman can't go on to go anywhere else.

05:45:57.480 It's not acceptable.

05:45:58.680 And this is an old instinct.

05:46:00.540 So it's an outdated concept that just needs to, pun not intended, die.

05:46:04.940 Because there was a time in culture, like a very long time ago, where if a man died, the

05:46:11.540 woman was not allowed to remarry.

05:46:13.680 She had to go with his family and they had to take care of her.

05:46:17.120 And that's what was required of society.

05:46:19.220 And that's something that has not happened for a very long time.

05:46:22.180 So it's something that kind of just needs to go away.

05:46:26.360 What needs to go away?

05:46:27.500 This notion that it has to be the man that dies for the woman.

05:46:33.380 You know, I think, I don't know.

05:46:37.720 I feel like, what about this?

05:46:40.660 If the husband should be willing to die or the boyfriend should be willing to die, maybe

05:46:46.920 the woman has to be a virgin.

05:46:52.520 That can be.

05:46:57.500 That can be reasonable because women should, you know, provide a lot of things to the table.

05:47:07.460 If a man has to die for her, that's a high expectation.

05:47:11.880 So then there should definitely be a lot of expectations for women, like staying at home

05:47:20.120 with the kids, cooking and cleaning.

05:47:22.340 Like if you have a good husband, you should definitely submit to him.

05:47:25.980 And you should definitely do all of those things in a godly relationship.

05:47:33.300 I think.

05:47:33.840 Go ahead, Tori.

05:47:34.820 Sorry.

05:47:35.760 I think if men, like even like a random dude sees a woman in distress, should protect her

05:47:42.780 at any cost.

05:47:44.140 But that.

05:47:44.880 A random woman?

05:47:45.880 Yeah.

05:47:46.620 But like, but for that to happen, I think we'd have to abolish abortion.

05:47:50.900 Wait, what?

05:47:52.140 Why are they, why are those two things related?

05:47:53.840 Well, because I think that women have a duty, just like men have a duty to protect us.

05:47:58.480 Women have a duty to have kids.

05:48:00.660 And women also have a duty to nurture and protect children.

05:48:05.020 That's naturally what women are made for.

05:48:08.320 That's the role of a woman.

05:48:10.700 Right.

05:48:11.080 So.

05:48:11.780 Because a patriarchy was built around protecting women and children and stuff like that.

05:48:16.060 And if women are just out, you know, unaliving their babies, then there's absolutely no reason

05:48:21.520 to protect them at this point.

05:48:22.780 They're equal at that point.

05:48:24.280 I don't think, I don't think that, I think if you're married, because you asked, you know,

05:48:28.660 what if it's only a virgin can the man die for?

05:48:31.240 I don't think that should apply because, you know, if you're married, you've become one flesh

05:48:36.900 at that point.

05:48:37.420 And the man is the husband and he should, it's like God, husband, wife, kids, like we

05:48:44.500 protect those under us.

05:48:46.200 And I think that, you know, whether you're a virgin or, or not, you know, you could be

05:48:51.740 on your, your second marriage, you know, and, and, and that's okay.

05:48:55.020 And if the man loves you and he wants to spend the rest of his life with you and commit to

05:48:58.140 you and, you know, he should be willing.

05:49:01.140 I totally agree with that.

05:49:01.700 Yeah.

05:49:02.860 Okay.

05:49:03.880 Well, we're done with the questionnaire.

05:49:05.320 We have a few more notes.

05:49:06.900 We have our rapid fire segment.

05:49:08.980 Uh, so we'll do that right now.

05:49:11.820 Um, I almost, I don't know if I want to, Hmm.

05:49:17.800 Ooh, you mentioned alpha male stuff earlier, like the alpha male.

05:49:22.280 Yeah.

05:49:23.320 What is more alpha male?

05:49:27.880 The guy dying, like jumping in front of the bullet, protecting his woman or letting her

05:49:33.740 die and that, so he can find another woman and reproduce with her.

05:49:38.260 What's more alpha male?

05:49:44.260 Um, probably the first one.

05:49:49.440 I feel like that's kind of beta soy boy energy, to be honest.

05:49:53.700 No, they run.

05:49:54.340 I think, I think, well, they run, but I think like a true cerebral alpha male, she's got to

05:50:05.860 go.

05:50:06.660 Like, I think it's more alpha to let the woman die.

05:50:10.240 That's way more alpha male.

05:50:12.460 The girls definitely don't like this one.

05:50:14.240 Yeah.

05:50:14.580 I don't think that's...

05:50:15.200 Gigi, what do you think?

05:50:16.080 What do you think about that?

05:50:17.100 It's awful.

05:50:17.680 I mean, I don't...

05:50:18.640 It's awful?

05:50:19.180 I don't think so, because for example, you said you're now infertile and you and your

05:50:24.060 current husband aren't planning on having, like, I don't think you should die for that.

05:50:29.740 I don't think so either.

05:50:30.780 Yeah, like I...

05:50:31.980 Wait, I'm confused.

05:50:34.320 Like, the whole, like, getting with a nut, like, letting, like, say you were in a position

05:50:39.900 where you had a gun at you.

05:50:43.060 Like, I don't think your husband should just let you get shot so that he can find someone

05:50:47.440 who is fertile and have kids with her.

05:50:50.260 Well, it's not, I mean, it's not, the having kids part isn't the primary thing necessarily.

05:50:55.920 Oh, okay.

05:50:56.740 But I would say that...

05:50:57.940 Yeah, no, I still don't...

05:50:58.520 Like, for example, Genghis Khan, right?

05:51:01.040 Okay, Genghis Khan, this guy had dozens of wives, dozens of concubines.

05:51:07.580 Do you think he would sacrifice his life to save the life of one of his wives or concubines?

05:51:12.340 This guy had the largest contiguous land empire in all of human history.

05:51:19.040 The motherfucker was an alpha male, but he's not sacrificing his life for one of his many,

05:51:24.280 many wives.

05:51:25.580 That's some alpha male shit.

05:51:28.620 That's alpha...

05:51:29.700 He's not a beta male.

05:51:31.480 Genghis, Genghis Khan, fucking millions of bodies in fucking Asia.

05:51:36.160 He just loves himself better than that.

05:51:37.280 Was not a beta male.

05:51:39.320 Like, there's no argument.

05:51:40.820 He's clearly, like, arguably, you could say the epitome of a historical alpha male.

05:51:45.760 So, I mean, again, I think alpha beta male distinction, super cringe, but your point, I think it's interesting.

05:51:53.720 I do think it actually, from an outsider's perspective, technically, I think, would be more alpha male to just be like,

05:52:01.720 oh my god, I love you, let me die for you, blah.

05:52:07.100 Versus, versus, I can find another one.

05:52:13.040 That's gangster.

05:52:14.520 That's more alpha male.

05:52:16.120 That's completely narcissistic and selfish.

05:52:18.420 Yeah.

05:52:19.240 But why do I have to fucking die for a woman?

05:52:22.500 Why do I have to die for a woman?

05:52:23.280 Because she would die for you.

05:52:24.660 Girl, she will be back on Tinder at the funeral.

05:52:27.740 That girl right there, her boyfriend dies.

05:52:30.200 Then she ain't the one.

05:52:30.680 Sam, your boyfriend dies.

05:52:31.920 You're dating me.

05:52:32.900 You're dating me.

05:52:33.920 Be honest.

05:52:34.600 You're back on Tinder at the funeral.

05:52:37.600 You're at the wake.

05:52:38.620 I'm fucking dead.

05:52:40.100 You're at the wake.

05:52:41.240 I'm open casket, son.

05:52:43.200 And you're on Hinge.

05:52:44.480 No, I'm not on Hinge.

05:52:45.460 You're on Haya.

05:52:46.840 She's not on Hinge.

05:52:48.860 No, I'm on nothing.

05:52:50.120 You're trying to get,

05:52:50.820 a guy's going to Uber you from the wake,

05:52:53.020 from the funeral, to his house.

05:52:55.520 No.

05:52:56.180 Yes.

05:52:56.720 No.

05:52:56.920 Irish.

05:52:57.600 Irish.

05:52:58.500 Irish?

05:52:59.140 Fucking Irish what?

05:53:00.280 Irish funeral.

05:53:01.480 The fuck is that?

05:53:02.160 It's where they celebrate.

05:53:03.460 There's no sadness.

05:53:05.120 Even worse,

05:53:05.660 they're going to like,

05:53:06.340 fuck a guy at the funeral.

05:53:07.720 No, no, no.

05:53:08.460 Don't they like lay the body out

05:53:09.540 in like a house and stuff?

05:53:11.300 Yeah, it's in the house.

05:53:12.280 Yeah.

05:53:12.560 Do you think in the history of all funerals,

05:53:14.660 a grieving widow

05:53:16.860 has fucked another man

05:53:19.320 at the funeral?

05:53:20.240 I would never do that, though.

05:53:21.460 It's definitely happened.

05:53:22.400 It's happened.

05:53:22.900 I'm sure.

05:53:23.200 I believe it happened.

05:53:24.160 To be fair, probably extremely great.

05:53:25.120 She probably planned it before.

05:53:26.580 I was going to say,

05:53:27.100 she was probably 20

05:53:27.920 and the guy was probably like 80.

05:53:29.240 So, you know.

05:53:30.680 But look, I'm just saying,

05:53:32.120 if we're talking about alpha males,

05:53:33.720 because you brought up alpha males,

05:53:35.700 I kind of got to say,

05:53:37.960 it's more alpha

05:53:38.520 to just let the woman die.

05:53:39.900 It is.

05:53:40.360 Agreed.

05:53:40.640 It's cringe.

05:53:41.780 It's cringe?

05:53:42.680 Yeah, you said alphas are cringe.

05:53:43.900 No, hold on.

05:53:45.520 Hold on.

05:53:46.260 I said men who call themselves alpha

05:53:48.840 are cringe.

05:53:49.680 Yes.

05:53:50.260 Yes, they are.

05:53:50.780 But being an actual alpha male,

05:53:52.760 whatever the fuck that means,

05:53:54.320 isn't cringe in and of itself.

05:53:57.640 You're not calling yourself alpha male.

05:53:59.420 Everyone else can see it.

05:54:00.420 Or like some of the cringe behavior

05:54:02.100 that might be associated

05:54:04.360 with someone who might otherwise

05:54:05.800 call themselves alpha male.

05:54:07.160 being, if you are a alpha male,

05:54:11.740 however you designate that,

05:54:13.320 that's not cringe.

05:54:16.020 Exactly.

05:54:16.480 Calling yourself alpha male is cringe.

05:54:18.360 Yes.

05:54:18.700 Okay.

05:54:19.160 You're probably,

05:54:19.800 I feel like you're not an alpha male

05:54:20.880 if you call yourself an alpha male.

05:54:22.200 Yeah.

05:54:22.440 I mean, you,

05:54:23.200 logically it's possible,

05:54:24.440 but it's super cringe.

05:54:25.940 I don't know.

05:54:26.660 I'm just saying.

05:54:29.160 Oopsies.

05:54:29.480 What do you guys think?

05:54:32.440 That always turns,

05:54:33.300 I don't care who,

05:54:34.120 if it's conservative women,

05:54:35.320 liberal women,

05:54:36.300 you tell them it's more alpha male

05:54:38.760 to let the woman die.

05:54:41.260 That turns the,

05:54:42.120 that turns the panel,

05:54:43.680 I think.

05:54:45.460 No?

05:54:46.540 Really?

05:54:47.100 Okay.

05:54:47.640 Comment?

05:54:48.100 Nothing?

05:54:48.220 Well, because part of the thing

05:54:49.480 with a woman is,

05:54:50.120 I said men want to be respected.

05:54:51.480 They want sex.

05:54:52.160 They want,

05:54:52.500 women want security.

05:54:54.100 We want to know that the man

05:54:55.280 we're with is going to protect us.

05:54:56.780 And if the man that I'm with

05:54:58.320 is not willing to do that,

05:54:59.480 then like.

05:55:00.320 Well,

05:55:00.680 protect to a point.

05:55:02.640 So,

05:55:03.140 you know,

05:55:03.640 you can make it a threat assessment,

05:55:05.540 risk assessment,

05:55:06.320 determination.

05:55:07.900 I'll,

05:55:08.020 I'll be vicious.

05:55:09.700 I'll be vicious.

05:55:10.640 I'll protect.

05:55:12.300 But if I make a calculation,

05:55:14.340 is it me or is it her?

05:55:19.020 The alpha male thing

05:55:20.240 in that situation,

05:55:22.320 you let her die.

05:55:23.760 What the alpha and the omega did.

05:55:25.280 Alpha male,

05:55:25.940 sigma male,

05:55:26.660 grind set.

05:55:27.400 Let's fucking go.

05:55:29.220 Letting women die,

05:55:30.360 2026.

05:55:31.720 W.

05:55:32.500 No?

05:55:33.100 No.

05:55:33.760 You guys aren't liking this.

05:55:34.440 I'm going to have to disagree

05:55:35.260 with this one.

05:55:36.180 They probably disagree.

05:55:37.080 If there was like

05:55:38.080 a husband and wife

05:55:39.260 and they're walking

05:55:39.660 with their children

05:55:40.200 and the woman tried,

05:55:41.460 the wife tried to go

05:55:42.900 and sacrifice herself,

05:55:45.000 she'd probably end up failing

05:55:46.600 and then just be paralyzed

05:55:47.860 and whine about it

05:55:48.660 for the rest of her life

05:55:49.280 and that poor husband

05:55:50.020 would have to put up with it.

05:55:51.540 Well,

05:55:51.760 also,

05:55:52.160 okay,

05:55:52.480 let's look at this point.

05:55:53.360 A woman is with her kids,

05:55:54.880 like you said,

05:55:55.400 a woman's with her kids

05:55:56.240 and somebody comes out

05:55:58.280 and tries to shoot the kid

05:55:59.960 and the woman jumps

05:56:00.700 in front of it

05:56:01.440 to sacrifice.

05:56:02.700 She's going to take

05:56:03.380 a bullet for her baby.

05:56:04.780 Of course, yeah.

05:56:05.600 All right?

05:56:06.260 But wait,

05:56:06.880 she can have more kids.

05:56:07.780 Why don't we just let

05:56:08.180 the kid die?

05:56:09.660 Oh.

05:56:10.760 Kids are different.

05:56:12.540 Kids are different.

05:56:13.480 Kids are different.

05:56:14.160 Kids are blood.

05:56:14.400 I mean,

05:56:14.600 everybody's somebody's kid though.

05:56:16.400 I think kids are different.

05:56:21.040 But look,

05:56:22.280 hey,

05:56:22.580 you know,

05:56:23.120 I think you got to

05:56:23.960 protect your girl.

05:56:25.020 I'm just saying

05:56:26.040 the alpha male thing

05:56:28.400 would be to let her die

05:56:31.080 and then

05:56:32.320 as the man,

05:56:35.420 you're at the funeral

05:56:36.300 on Tinder.

05:56:38.340 Look,

05:56:38.840 I think me and get other things

05:56:40.420 I want to be serious here

05:56:41.080 for a sec.

05:56:41.900 You should mourn

05:56:42.900 for at least two weeks.

05:56:46.400 Your girlfriend dies

05:56:47.280 two weeks.

05:56:49.440 That's the polite,

05:56:50.420 polite thing to do.

05:56:51.840 Then

05:56:52.280 bumble,

05:56:54.100 hinge,

05:56:54.940 Tinder.

05:56:56.780 I'm a nice guy.

05:56:57.840 Okay?

05:56:58.340 I'm not a dick.

05:56:59.500 I'll wait two weeks.

05:57:00.800 Two weeks.

05:57:01.360 I've been with her

05:57:01.840 for three years.

05:57:02.940 She dies.

05:57:04.040 Oh,

05:57:04.440 fuck no.

05:57:05.000 Two weeks.

05:57:05.520 I'm a very,

05:57:06.260 yeah.

05:57:07.020 I think if you're in love,

05:57:08.500 it's very hard to move on.

05:57:10.580 I had an aunt

05:57:11.360 who brought her new boyfriend

05:57:12.400 to her husband's funeral.

05:57:14.140 I'm not even kidding.

05:57:15.200 Oh,

05:57:16.280 shit.

05:57:19.300 Oh,

05:57:19.740 my goodness.

05:57:20.440 He's on fire.

05:57:21.260 No.

05:57:24.580 Thank you.

05:57:25.980 Thank you,

05:57:26.900 Brian.

05:57:27.460 Indy is our hero.

05:57:28.900 Jacket is fine.

05:57:29.920 Wait,

05:57:30.120 so I got to wear the jacket?

05:57:31.380 Camila's like,

05:57:32.080 hey,

05:57:32.360 like,

05:57:32.660 this is my only thing.

05:57:37.080 I'm wondering.

05:57:38.280 I could use a patron like you.

05:57:40.820 Seriously.

05:57:41.900 Do I have?

05:57:43.000 Indy.

05:57:44.260 Get me another paper towel,

05:57:46.240 please,

05:57:46.520 if you can.

05:57:48.280 For number three.

05:57:50.220 Holy shit.

05:57:51.020 Guys,

05:57:51.300 W's in the chat for Indy.

05:57:52.320 Fucking legend.

05:57:52.820 Yeah,

05:57:53.280 W,

05:57:53.820 Indy.

05:57:54.200 Fucking legend.

05:57:56.720 Legendary.

05:57:57.200 Big ups.

05:57:58.460 All right,

05:57:59.080 thank you.

05:58:00.340 All right.

05:58:01.100 Champagne bottle.

05:58:02.140 Yeah.

05:58:02.400 Number three.

05:58:04.240 Oh,

05:58:04.680 my goodness.

05:58:05.220 I'm a lightweight,

05:58:05.920 guys.

05:58:06.160 I don't even drink,

05:58:07.180 so I took a few sips.

05:58:08.500 I'm already,

05:58:09.200 I'm gone.

05:58:10.820 I'm blasted.

05:58:11.640 I don't drink.

05:58:14.940 I don't really drink,

05:58:15.760 you know.

05:58:16.260 All right,

05:58:17.460 here,

05:58:17.680 guys,

05:58:17.960 while I'm opening,

05:58:19.060 opening this up,

05:58:20.080 you guys have any,

05:58:21.280 any other,

05:58:22.380 Erin,

05:58:22.680 you had some notes.

05:58:23.640 Do you recall the notes that you sent?

05:58:25.260 I don't have them in front of me immediately,

05:58:26.880 but.

05:58:30.940 Boy,

05:58:31.340 howdy.

05:58:31.740 The passport pro thing.

05:58:33.780 What about it?

05:58:34.260 I think that passport bros are totally going in the wrong direction for a few different reasons.

05:58:41.980 First off.

05:58:43.340 Wait,

05:58:43.480 wait,

05:58:43.620 I'm sorry to interrupt you.

05:58:44.540 What's a passport bro?

05:58:45.200 So passport bros are guys that believe that all Western women are cooked,

05:58:49.660 so if they go to another country and they buy a wife,

05:58:53.540 that they're going to be so much better off by doing that,

05:58:56.020 because they're going to find a submissive woman,

05:58:57.960 that they can move in a certain direction.

05:59:00.140 And my biggest argument against this is an argument that Brian often makes against marriage,

05:59:06.900 is that marriage is not financially beneficial to a man.

05:59:11.580 If you marry someone,

05:59:13.060 you end up being the one who has to pay for it.

05:59:15.420 Well,

05:59:15.920 if anybody here has ever watched the super trashy TV show,

05:59:19.680 90 Day Fiance,

05:59:20.780 you learn two things quick.

05:59:22.740 One,

05:59:23.460 women from other countries can be just as much of 304s and just as difficult and make your life a nightmare.

05:59:29.480 In fact,

05:59:30.040 most of the ones you see do.

05:59:32.040 And second,

05:59:32.960 the way a K-1 visa works is if you marry someone from another country and bring them to America,

05:59:38.680 you are financially responsible for them for,

05:59:41.380 I believe,

05:59:42.080 10 years.

05:59:43.200 You'd have to check on the exact amount of years,

05:59:44.820 but I believe it's 10 years.

05:59:46.180 And on top of the financial responsibility,

05:59:48.580 if they get in any level of criminal trouble,

05:59:51.260 you are also responsible for that.

05:59:53.220 So even if you divorce,

05:59:54.960 you're still responsible for that person as if you were still with them.

05:59:59.580 So it's actually like a really terrible idea.

06:00:03.360 And it's actually just not good for Western culture in general.

06:00:07.460 Like we need to pervert,

06:00:08.860 preserve Western culture where we can.

06:00:10.780 So to be fair,

06:00:12.120 Aaron,

06:00:12.320 I think that most of these passport bros look like the guys on 90 Day Fiance.

06:00:18.920 To be fair,

06:00:19.920 I think there's a lot,

06:00:20.860 I think there's a lot of propaganda behind that.

06:00:24.540 They're like,

06:00:24.800 Oh,

06:00:25.020 look,

06:00:25.260 passport.

06:00:25.560 But most of these guys are like neck beards.

06:00:28.880 But,

06:00:29.080 but that's what I'm saying is that they really quick here.

06:00:31.900 Uh,

06:00:32.180 cheers to,

06:00:33.260 uh,

06:00:34.200 to Indy.

06:00:34.840 Salud.

06:00:35.340 Thank you,

06:00:35.700 Indy.

06:00:35.880 You're a fucking legend.

06:00:37.680 Cheers.

06:00:41.640 Thank you,

06:00:42.260 Indy.

06:00:42.440 You're a fucking legend.

06:00:43.240 Guys,

06:00:43.440 W's in the chat for Indy.

06:00:44.460 Big supporter.

06:00:45.600 Big supporter.

06:00:46.520 Thank you,

06:00:46.800 man.

06:00:47.260 Uh,

06:00:47.720 passport bros.

06:00:50.240 Uh,

06:00:50.580 yeah,

06:00:50.760 some of these women can be predatory.

06:00:52.140 A lot of them are just looking for a green card.

06:00:53.700 They're looking for a level up.

06:00:55.000 They're not,

06:00:55.500 they don't have a genuine interest in these guys.

06:00:57.520 However,

06:00:57.840 I do think there's a component of go to where you're appreciated.

06:01:01.260 Uh,

06:01:01.620 some of these,

06:01:02.680 uh,

06:01:03.740 yeah,

06:01:05.140 sure.

06:01:05.360 Some of these women are doing it from a transactional lens,

06:01:08.180 but some of these women are also,

06:01:09.600 um,

06:01:10.940 I don't think it's fair to say that all like foreign women are purely approaching dating from a transactional lens.

06:01:20.520 So also these women tend to be more,

06:01:23.140 tend to be not always more traditional,

06:01:25.280 more submissive.

06:01:26.420 Uh,

06:01:27.120 not always though,

06:01:28.200 but,

06:01:28.680 uh,

06:01:29.340 gratitude doesn't promise loyalty though.

06:01:31.140 I have a really interesting story on that.

06:01:33.520 I had a girl from Russia.

06:01:35.960 I'm sorry if she's watching this,

06:01:37.520 but this is true.

06:01:38.120 She came over to marry a guy.

06:01:40.760 He decided,

06:01:41.780 uh,

06:01:42.300 I don't think I really want to marry you.

06:01:43.700 We took her into our house for like two months and let her stay with us.

06:01:47.700 Cause she had nowhere to stay and talking to her.

06:01:50.160 She was literally just trying to find somebody to marry her so she could stay here.

06:01:53.680 And I remember talking to her and we were talking about,

06:01:56.040 and she was like 35,

06:01:57.200 I think.

06:01:57.620 And I,

06:01:57.900 she was like,

06:01:59.100 we were talking about,

06:02:00.240 well,

06:02:00.740 what kind of guy do you want?

06:02:02.020 And she was like,

06:02:02.340 well,

06:02:02.420 he can't have kids.

06:02:04.020 And we're like,

06:02:04.880 well,

06:02:05.020 why not?

06:02:05.280 Well,

06:02:05.420 I dated a guy that had kids and he got his son on the weekend.

06:02:09.000 And that,

06:02:09.320 those were,

06:02:09.680 that was a time for me.

06:02:10.800 I wanted that time.

06:02:11.800 And she's like,

06:02:12.460 but that's the only time he got him.

06:02:13.460 And so she's like,

06:02:14.060 so I don't want anybody with kids.

06:02:15.040 Cause I want to be number one priority.

06:02:16.580 And my husband goes,

06:02:18.560 well,

06:02:18.820 what if you had kids and the,

06:02:21.920 a guy I didn't want to date you?

06:02:23.040 She's like,

06:02:23.340 oh,

06:02:23.520 well,

06:02:23.620 if I had kids and you know,

06:02:25.080 I,

06:02:25.260 I was divorced or something,

06:02:26.240 I would just give my kids to my mother and I would go off with the boy.

06:02:29.040 She,

06:02:29.420 no,

06:02:30.560 no,

06:02:30.860 no apologies.

06:02:31.580 Technically my dad is a passport bro.

06:02:34.280 Um,

06:02:35.200 he visited,

06:02:36.980 uh,

06:02:37.920 Vietnam when he met my mom.

06:02:40.520 What's your dad?

06:02:42.020 He's still Vietnamese.

06:02:43.440 Oh,

06:02:43.580 he's Vietnamese American.

06:02:44.500 But Vietnamese American.

06:02:45.860 Oh,

06:02:46.940 but did he intentionally go in order to seek a wife or did he go there,

06:02:51.120 meet someone?

06:02:51.740 And okay.

06:02:52.160 Yeah,

06:02:52.380 yeah,

06:02:52.620 yeah.

06:02:53.200 And,

06:02:53.680 um,

06:02:54.360 my mom family was from poverty.

06:02:56.580 We were like growing up in the countryside.

06:02:58.720 And so her intention to marry him was to get her family out of poverty.

06:03:03.540 All right.

06:03:04.300 Uh,

06:03:04.620 here,

06:03:04.840 we're going to blast through some of the other notes here.

06:03:06.920 Uh,

06:03:07.820 for Aaron,

06:03:09.120 I saw something about 1600 men on a dating app.

06:03:14.120 You,

06:03:14.380 and then you canceled a date.

06:03:16.000 No,

06:03:16.460 that wasn't me.

06:03:19.800 Like you had swiped on 1600.

06:03:21.740 Oh my God.

06:03:22.500 I forgot about that.

06:03:23.580 Yeah.

06:03:23.780 No,

06:03:24.100 it was,

06:03:24.860 I did the thing.

06:03:26.280 So on Bumble,

06:03:27.180 you can do a thing where you don't pay for the full membership,

06:03:29.880 but you can pay $3 to see who all of your matches are.

06:03:34.100 And out of the 1600 men,

06:03:36.840 I like narrowed it down.

06:03:38.540 I just went through and went through all of them.

06:03:40.480 And ultimately it did not lead to a single date.

06:03:44.400 There was one date that ultimately just got canceled and it wasn't because I have high standards.

06:03:49.500 Like I'm absolutely willing to give people a shot and give it a go.

06:03:53.320 And it just was a total,

06:03:56.260 just no.

06:03:58.480 It,

06:03:58.900 yeah.

06:03:59.320 Okay.

06:03:59.920 Uh,

06:04:00.160 we have a chat here from desert.

06:04:01.760 Jorge,

06:04:02.740 uh,

06:04:03.360 Gigi,

06:04:04.300 can you read this for us?

06:04:05.180 It's like when Joffrey yelled,

06:04:08.100 I am the King and everyone cringed.

06:04:12.060 Tywin responds with pure wisdom.

06:04:14.780 Any man who must say I am the King is no true King.

06:04:18.740 Real punks don't call themselves punks.

06:04:19.760 We actually talked about earlier in the show,

06:04:22.200 Game of Thrones dating stuff.

06:04:24.460 I have one more example I would like to share about a Game of Thrones dating scenario.

06:04:29.880 Okay.

06:04:30.160 So your father went down to King's Landing to become the hand of the King,

06:04:36.380 basically second in command.

06:04:37.720 But there's a bunch of scheming politics,

06:04:40.160 the Lannisters scheming,

06:04:41.880 Littlefinger scheming,

06:04:43.380 Littlefinger in love with your,

06:04:45.740 well,

06:04:46.480 the,

06:04:46.700 the,

06:04:47.120 the,

06:04:47.260 your wife.

06:04:49.100 And then you end up,

06:04:51.240 the King dies and then you end up being,

06:04:55.380 uh,

06:04:56.660 beheaded.

06:04:58.000 Talk about Ned,

06:04:59.020 aren't we?

06:04:59.260 And then,

06:04:59.620 and then,

06:05:01.240 uh,

06:05:02.140 your son,

06:05:03.580 uh,

06:05:04.000 your,

06:05:04.260 your oldest.

06:05:05.700 Wait,

06:05:06.220 it was Rob.

06:05:07.140 Yeah.

06:05:07.320 Yeah.

06:05:07.500 Rob.

06:05:07.980 Well,

06:05:08.180 think about John.

06:05:09.120 Was John older than Rob?

06:05:11.640 Well,

06:05:12.440 Rob was the oldest.

06:05:13.660 John's a bastard.

06:05:14.200 Rob was the oldest.

06:05:15.300 And actually,

06:05:15.820 truthfully,

06:05:16.200 not even Ned's son.

06:05:17.600 But anyways,

06:05:18.400 uh,

06:05:18.720 so Rob,

06:05:19.320 your eldest son,

06:05:20.240 uh,

06:05:20.880 goes on the war path for your now slain and beheaded father.

06:05:25.000 Now he has all these alliances and he committed,

06:05:29.060 himself to marrying someone from house fray.

06:05:34.140 Uh,

06:05:34.700 house fray is not a very,

06:05:36.980 uh,

06:05:37.460 a house in good repute house fray.

06:05:40.920 And then the Lord is not a particularly attractive man.

06:05:43.620 And he,

06:05:44.700 he said that Rob Stark can marry,

06:05:47.000 uh,

06:05:47.840 any of the daughters,

06:05:48.740 right?

06:05:49.200 Or something like that had to marry one of them.

06:05:51.640 And he made a vow.

06:05:52.780 He made a sacred vow and promise to Lord fray that he would marry one of his

06:05:56.660 daughters.

06:05:57.180 He meets some low born or I don't know if she's low born,

06:06:00.600 but he meets some like nurse chick on the battlefield and he falls in love

06:06:05.560 with the nurse.

06:06:06.500 And then he knocks her up and then marries her breaking his vow,

06:06:12.180 his,

06:06:12.860 his military Alliance,

06:06:14.420 essentially with house fray house fray.

06:06:17.440 Uh,

06:06:18.100 and by the way,

06:06:18.720 he's also making tons of fucking other terrible military errors in the North,

06:06:25.480 Rob Stark,

06:06:26.060 and they're losing the war.

06:06:28.200 Roos Bolton fucking pissed off.

06:06:30.360 And so they,

06:06:31.580 but they,

06:06:31.960 they,

06:06:32.300 they're kicking it at,

06:06:33.740 um,

06:06:34.220 they're kicking it at,

06:06:36.020 uh,

06:06:36.820 it was at,

06:06:37.920 I'm trying to remember the castle for the,

06:06:40.360 wait,

06:06:40.700 fuck.

06:06:40.960 What's the castle for house fray?

06:06:42.800 Hey,

06:06:43.040 stay for this.

06:06:43.560 You're going to want to hear the Sam dog.

06:06:47.280 It's the twins.

06:06:48.680 Wait,

06:06:49.140 the twins.

06:06:49.840 Fuck.

06:06:50.780 The whatever that fucking castle.

06:06:53.640 And there's a big celebration.

06:06:56.340 There's a wedding.

06:06:58.220 Rob Stark,

06:06:59.520 instead of him marrying the,

06:07:00.960 the fray girl,

06:07:01.740 Hey,

06:07:01.860 stop talking.

06:07:02.620 Uh,

06:07:03.100 instead of,

06:07:03.760 uh,

06:07:04.760 marrying the fray girl,

06:07:06.100 he offers up his like nephew or cousin from house Tully house Tully.

06:07:11.340 I forgot the name of the guy.

06:07:12.420 One of the,

06:07:13.260 the,

06:07:13.680 the,

06:07:14.040 the river Lords or whatever the fuck.

06:07:17.000 Um,

06:07:18.760 and,

06:07:19.080 and,

06:07:20.760 and,

06:07:20.860 and so what ends up happening,

06:07:22.080 uh,

06:07:22.840 at this wedding,

06:07:24.300 uh,

06:07:24.720 house fray and house Bolton,

06:07:27.700 uh,

06:07:28.960 betray house Stark and mutiny and,

06:07:32.920 uh,

06:07:33.320 kill house Stark.

06:07:35.320 They kill Rob.

06:07:36.340 They kill Rob's mom.

06:07:37.540 All because this motherfucker broke his marriage vow to house fray.

06:07:44.320 Like,

06:07:44.740 what do you guys think about that?

06:07:45.640 Like,

06:07:45.780 that seems kind of fucked up,

06:07:46.820 you know,

06:07:47.100 like promise to marry a woman.

06:07:49.700 It's dating related.

06:07:50.960 No,

06:07:51.800 love is superior.

06:07:53.520 I think there was a much more like a pleasant way to like,

06:07:59.820 I think Rob has pretty privilege.

06:08:02.400 So I watched fray like the ugliest of all the,

06:08:06.780 well,

06:08:06.920 you know,

06:08:07.280 it's actually funny.

06:08:07.880 The daughter that ended up getting married was fucking,

06:08:11.380 she actually logged.

06:08:12.720 This is so funny.

06:08:13.640 The daughter that was,

06:08:15.260 uh,

06:08:15.700 put up for marriage,

06:08:16.460 uh,

06:08:17.140 that married the,

06:08:17.860 the cousin or whatever actually mogged the shit out of this fucking,

06:08:22.320 she wasn't even a Westerosi.

06:08:25.760 She was like from fucking East S sauce.

06:08:31.700 Yeah.

06:08:34.140 I don't know.

06:08:34.960 I don't know.

06:08:35.620 Look,

06:08:35.920 they,

06:08:36.220 Rob Stark fucked up.

06:08:37.940 Rob Stark fucked up.

06:08:40.120 It was wrong.

06:08:40.980 What happened?

06:08:41.640 You shouldn't kill somebody under guest.

06:08:43.340 Right.

06:08:44.260 But yeah,

06:08:46.480 you girls definitely know what I'm fucking.

06:08:48.900 When I read that in the book,

06:08:50.980 I stood up and like walked around the room.

06:08:53.100 I got so mad at that scene at the red wedding.

06:08:55.760 I've never read the books.

06:08:56.540 I've watched the great books,

06:08:57.600 but never,

06:08:57.980 I've,

06:08:58.420 but I've heard that the books in the series,

06:09:00.460 some things happen.

06:09:02.140 They're very different.

06:09:03.040 Very different.

06:09:03.600 Yeah.

06:09:03.980 Yeah.

06:09:04.340 Uh,

06:09:04.660 okay.

06:09:05.020 Moving on.

06:09:05.940 Um,

06:09:07.260 you,

06:09:07.820 Aaron,

06:09:08.080 you dated a guy who had just gone out of prison back in your twenties twice.

06:09:12.500 Two different guys.

06:09:13.620 Irish,

06:09:14.180 two Irish guys.

06:09:15.240 Yes.

06:09:15.920 Because everybody makes the assumption with me being a thick girl.

06:09:19.120 They just assumed they were black men and they were not,

06:09:21.020 they were Irish.

06:09:22.040 Uh,

06:09:22.440 uh,

06:09:23.380 you also write,

06:09:24.720 uh,

06:09:25.080 you think Brian would like church more than he thinks.

06:09:28.300 Yes.

06:09:29.020 And I think so even more so now that I've been in this area today,

06:09:32.740 I went to an amazing church today.

06:09:35.640 And on the way there,

06:09:36.760 I saw multiple other churches.

06:09:38.360 I think I,

06:09:40.060 I understand that everybody has their own faith journey,

06:09:42.460 but the community that you find there surprises you.

06:09:45.840 Even if you're not like a very social,

06:09:47.580 if you're more of an introvert and you have so many of the ideals and you say

06:09:52.900 that you respect Christianity on such a large level that I think it would

06:09:56.740 really surprise you.

06:09:57.800 You would meet a good girl that would impress you.

06:10:00.900 There's some beautiful women looking for a man there looking for that.

06:10:03.740 And not that that's the reason to go,

06:10:05.820 but it helps.

06:10:06.740 And it's a beautiful community of people.

06:10:09.200 Um,

06:10:09.480 another podcaster that's almost at your level.

06:10:12.080 Joe Rogan made a great point where he said that now that he starts going to church,

06:10:15.840 when he starts going to church,

06:10:17.600 when everybody's leaving at the end of church,

06:10:19.740 they're not like beeping their horn,

06:10:21.460 let me through there.

06:10:22.280 You go next,

06:10:23.160 you go next.

06:10:24.020 And I think that it might be a little hard at times that you might kind of think

06:10:28.680 the worst of people,

06:10:29.640 if you're dealing with like the worst and it would give you a positive light on

06:10:34.120 people that I think is really healthy and it's a beautiful community and it's

06:10:37.900 really good people and the ritual and the love of God,

06:10:42.260 the more I let God in,

06:10:44.160 the more God shows up.

06:10:46.520 My advice,

06:10:47.680 find a Bible teaching church,

06:10:49.360 a Bible believing church.

06:10:50.320 Absolutely.

06:10:50.600 My advice is find an Orthodox church.

06:10:52.960 Divine liturgy is beautiful.

06:10:55.560 Yeah.

06:10:56.040 Well,

06:10:56.180 I mean,

06:10:56.400 obviously a close friend of mine,

06:10:57.580 Andrew Wilson,

06:10:58.140 Rachel Wilson,

06:10:58.840 uh,

06:10:59.180 they are Orthodox Christians and Rachel got me on that road.

06:11:02.880 They've got me.

06:11:04.200 Oh,

06:11:04.560 you,

06:11:05.020 both of you guys.

06:11:05.840 Yeah.

06:11:06.020 Andrew totally got me on there.

06:11:07.400 Is Rachel still watching?

06:11:08.520 I love Rachel.

06:11:09.220 Yeah.

06:11:09.780 Yeah.

06:11:10.100 I'm sure.

06:11:10.740 Yeah.

06:11:11.140 I listened to her book twice.

06:11:12.580 I'm now reading it twice.

06:11:14.240 I was in all of like,

06:11:15.480 she doesn't have a lot of debates,

06:11:17.160 but I listened to her debates.

06:11:18.260 I listened to her husband's debates.

06:11:19.360 I love them.

06:11:20.120 I knew that Protestant was not the move anymore,

06:11:23.340 especially in New York.

06:11:24.280 It's so progressive.

06:11:25.240 It's scary.

06:11:25.720 And I was in a really bad situation in the church I was in.

06:11:28.640 And I knew I needed to try something new.

06:11:30.500 And I wanted something.

06:11:31.860 When you go to a Protestant church,

06:11:33.680 it's a cult of personality where it's about the pastor.

06:11:37.120 And if the pastor leaves,

06:11:38.400 well,

06:11:38.640 you don't get his sermon anymore.

06:11:39.840 So half the people leave.

06:11:41.200 But with Orthodoxy,

06:11:42.460 it's about Christ.

06:11:44.360 The center is Christ.

06:11:45.360 The center is the rituals that existed that way since the beginning.

06:11:49.380 Oh,

06:11:49.700 Nat,

06:11:50.760 love you.

06:11:52.320 It's the people that existed since the beginning.

06:11:54.740 And it's the way that it's been written out since the Bible.

06:11:57.800 And I,

06:11:58.360 in particular,

06:11:58.880 was drawn toward Greek Orthodoxy because the Bible is written in Greek.

06:12:03.020 And in Greek,

06:12:03.940 there's a lot of words where it gets translated into English as the same word.

06:12:09.660 Like love is a great example.

06:12:10.920 There's a difference between agape and eros,

06:12:13.580 for example.

06:12:14.760 And so the Greek really gives me that context where when I have those

06:12:18.180 conversations with father,

06:12:19.620 it allows me to really dig in and find the true meaning of what's being said in

06:12:23.660 the Bible.

06:12:24.220 And it's beautiful.

06:12:26.080 It's really inspiring.

06:12:28.320 They put time to make it a beautiful place.

06:12:30.560 There's a great one not far from here,

06:12:31.960 like 10 minutes away.

06:12:33.020 That I went today and it.

06:12:34.740 Okay.

06:12:37.060 Yeah.

06:12:37.540 Well,

06:12:37.700 yeah,

06:12:37.840 I mean,

06:12:38.040 look,

06:12:38.240 I think there's a quite a strong value in Christian ethics and I'm not,

06:12:44.380 uh,

06:12:45.020 I think Christianity is good.

06:12:47.060 Uh,

06:12:47.500 however,

06:12:48.720 as far as going to church goes,

06:12:50.840 I,

06:12:51.860 I,

06:12:53.700 I mean,

06:12:54.460 look,

06:12:54.900 Christianity is a good way for,

06:12:56.420 uh,

06:12:57.580 for society to be a built around Christianity,

06:12:59.720 but like,

06:13:01.240 I don't believe.

06:13:04.480 Yeah.

06:13:05.080 I don't believe.

06:13:06.300 It's just,

06:13:07.280 you don't believe in God or you don't believe in Christ.

06:13:10.460 I believe in the value of Christianity,

06:13:11.900 but like my own personal individualized.

06:13:14.900 So I'd consider myself agnostic.

06:13:16.640 I don't know.

06:13:17.380 I'm not saying God doesn't exist,

06:13:19.000 but I have not,

06:13:20.140 I have not received in front of me definitive proof that of God's existence.

06:13:24.560 So I'm just so on.

06:13:25.940 What's that?

06:13:26.460 Well,

06:13:26.700 yeah,

06:13:27.820 on an,

06:13:28.500 on an intellectual level,

06:13:30.300 uh,

06:13:31.040 in order to be a Christian,

06:13:32.020 you have to tell the truth.

06:13:33.500 If I were to claim I'm a Christian,

06:13:34.860 but I don't believe in God,

06:13:35.940 that would be a lie.

06:13:37.100 Uh,

06:13:37.460 it would be beneficial for me to claim I'm a Christian,

06:13:40.900 uh,

06:13:42.060 for grifting reasons,

06:13:43.180 but I believe in telling the truth.

06:13:45.000 Uh,

06:13:45.240 and so,

06:13:46.400 yeah,

06:13:46.700 just faith is an instant.

06:13:48.040 It's a journey.

06:13:48.800 Yeah.

06:13:49.260 Give it a shot.

06:13:49.920 See what happens.

06:13:50.480 You never know.

06:13:51.100 Maybe I'll get there.

06:13:52.140 Maybe I'll get there.

06:13:52.800 Go with Rachel and Andrew next time they're here.

06:13:55.100 Maybe I'll get there one day,

06:13:56.340 but I,

06:13:56.860 I just intellectually,

06:13:58.060 I,

06:13:59.740 there are steps.

06:14:01.100 You don't,

06:14:01.540 I mean,

06:14:02.040 honestly,

06:14:02.700 the goal is to become more Christ.

06:14:04.580 Like I obviously make several mistakes,

06:14:08.600 like daily make mistakes.

06:14:10.220 The first step,

06:14:11.460 the only thing you have to do to be a Christian is to accept Christ.

06:14:15.540 That's what you have to do.

06:14:17.020 Past that is just become more like him.

06:14:19.560 And that's the,

06:14:20.940 that's the thing.

06:14:21.540 Like you can't,

06:14:22.200 you're not going to be perfect.

06:14:23.340 I don't,

06:14:24.220 the thing is,

06:14:25.040 is with like religion and this,

06:14:27.300 it's not,

06:14:27.500 you can't tell people to go to church.

06:14:29.400 You can't tell people to believe in God.

06:14:31.360 It's,

06:14:31.820 they have to see the fruits of the spirit,

06:14:33.460 right?

06:14:34.000 So telling Brian that,

06:14:35.880 well,

06:14:35.940 you need to go to church and you need to believe in God is not Christian.

06:14:40.020 Like I'm not saying you have to believe in God.

06:14:43.220 I'm saying,

06:14:43.660 and this is a poor example,

06:14:44.740 but it's just the first thing that comes to mind.

06:14:46.280 Cause you know what I'm thinking about?

06:14:48.060 You don't know if you like a food till you try it.

06:14:50.260 So put it on your tongue and see what happens.

06:14:52.100 But it's,

06:14:53.240 he has to,

06:14:54.620 he has to have the desire to look for it is what I'm saying.

06:14:57.720 He can't,

06:14:58.500 you can't be like,

06:14:59.760 Brian,

06:15:00.240 look,

06:15:00.680 God's real.

06:15:01.560 Look,

06:15:01.840 look,

06:15:02.000 look,

06:15:02.180 look,

06:15:02.400 try it.

06:15:03.120 He has to be able to go,

06:15:04.880 wait,

06:15:05.400 there's something here.

06:15:06.900 I need to go and,

06:15:08.820 and,

06:15:09.140 and look at this or go to myself.

06:15:11.480 It's not by somebody going,

06:15:12.820 come here,

06:15:13.220 come with me.

06:15:13.740 Or like,

06:15:14.340 it really has to be him.

06:15:15.780 Otherwise he's just going to go and he's going to be like,

06:15:17.980 well,

06:15:18.120 this sucks.

06:15:18.720 And then he's just going to,

06:15:20.200 you know,

06:15:20.420 never,

06:15:20.900 and it'll never be a thing for him.

06:15:22.480 It's,

06:15:22.860 you don't know till you try it.

06:15:24.460 Well,

06:15:24.500 look,

06:15:24.680 I,

06:15:24.860 I mean,

06:15:25.200 there's,

06:15:25.600 there's,

06:15:26.200 uh,

06:15:26.680 if you're looking at biblical scripture,

06:15:28.480 there's plenty of,

06:15:29.940 uh,

06:15:30.480 compelling things in the Bible,

06:15:32.380 uh,

06:15:33.280 things that I think are based and true and et cetera.

06:15:37.120 But in terms of the,

06:15:39.040 I don't know the correct framing of it in terms of some of the,

06:15:45.360 what's the word for it?

06:15:46.540 The more,

06:15:47.540 um,

06:15:49.640 not spiritual,

06:15:51.300 but the more,

06:15:52.340 uh,

06:15:54.760 metaphysical,

06:15:55.920 I don't know if that's the right word.

06:15:57.180 Even the metaphysical claims.

06:15:59.480 I,

06:15:59.920 I don't know about that.

06:16:06.720 Anyways,

06:16:06.940 I can't linger on this topic because it's,

06:16:09.400 yeah,

06:16:09.600 I think it's kind of dull for the audience.

06:16:11.620 Um,

06:16:12.740 uh,

06:16:13.340 okay.

06:16:13.680 You understand putting people in their correct leagues,

06:16:15.700 but you think guys should recognize their league too.

06:16:18.620 Okay.

06:16:19.000 I kind of talked about it.

06:16:20.220 People shouldn't marry or push out kids until they're at least in their mid

06:16:23.420 twenties.

06:16:24.500 Yeah.

06:16:24.980 So not shouldn't marry,

06:16:26.400 shouldn't push out kids,

06:16:27.300 but I just want to reframe the,

06:16:29.900 um,

06:16:30.840 the conversation.

06:16:31.580 I think it gets misrepresented so often.

06:16:33.740 The whole thing about women mature faster than men and the brain at 25.

06:16:38.540 I think that that's always described,

06:16:41.140 not quite accurately.

06:16:42.840 And I just think that it's good that if the conversation and that point keeps coming up,

06:16:47.360 it should be explained correctly.

06:16:49.240 First off,

06:16:50.060 the women maturing faster than men thing is not about psychological.

06:16:54.360 It's about hormonal.

06:16:56.760 That's two completely different things.

06:16:58.860 Women reach like puberty and things like that faster than men do.

06:17:02.740 It's a completely different thing.

06:17:04.440 So that's the first point is to sit there and say,

06:17:06.860 well,

06:17:06.980 yeah,

06:17:07.160 we all know that women are more mature than men.

06:17:09.100 Like not true.

06:17:10.520 Even Sam said that earlier,

06:17:11.620 like not true.

06:17:12.740 And the other thing is,

06:17:14.060 as far as the 25 thing,

06:17:16.400 the prefrontal cortex,

06:17:17.480 it doesn't mean like the brain isn't full until then it's a very specific part of the brain.

06:17:24.500 And it's the part of the brain that's decided that's attached to decision-making and impulsive decision-making.

06:17:31.320 And I would even say,

06:17:32.820 and again,

06:17:33.160 I hate to bring it up with him,

06:17:34.500 not here,

06:17:34.900 but just last week,

06:17:35.880 I was just listening to Andrew make the point that I don't want 18 year olds to vote because 18 year olds,

06:17:41.060 if you ever talked to one,

06:17:41.980 they're an idiot.

06:17:43.080 The reason that is,

06:17:44.400 is because your prefrontal cortex does not finish its development until 25.

06:17:49.840 No matter what your life's experiences are,

06:17:52.300 no matter this,

06:17:53.140 no matter that,

06:17:53.800 it is a biological fact that that is how the brain works for almost everyone besides like specific genetic like outliers.

06:18:02.120 Andrew also said that after 25,

06:18:04.220 the prefrontal cortex actually starts to.

06:18:07.360 I was about to make that point as well.

06:18:09.140 So here's,

06:18:09.640 so here's the thing about that point.

06:18:11.040 When he sits there and says,

06:18:12.220 well,

06:18:12.260 after that point,

06:18:12.840 it starts to deteriorate.

06:18:13.920 The deterioration does not happen as fast as the growth.

06:18:18.240 The deterioration is a much,

06:18:19.940 it's,

06:18:20.120 it's like a,

06:18:21.040 it's like a,

06:18:21.940 like the opposite of a roller coaster.

06:18:23.560 If you take that first bump on a roller coaster,

06:18:25.720 it goes backwards.

06:18:26.760 It goes up real,

06:18:27.800 real fast and it drops real,

06:18:30.180 real slow.

06:18:31.100 So I think that's just something to consider is that I think anybody here,

06:18:35.360 and I apologize to anyone here who's under 25,

06:18:38.000 but anyone here,

06:18:39.240 if you have a conversation with someone who's 18 versus someone who's 27,

06:18:43.980 it is a dramatically different conversation,

06:18:47.320 dramatically different.

06:18:48.540 And the number 18 is completely arbitrary.

06:18:52.180 The number 18 was created by a society that had no concept of how a brain works.

06:18:57.340 It couldn't do scans on brains.

06:18:58.620 It couldn't study hormones.

06:19:00.420 It couldn't study chemical reactions in the way that we now can.

06:19:03.900 So 18 is an arbitrary number that just got thrown out there that we're going,

06:19:08.560 yeah,

06:19:08.740 let's keep running with that.

06:19:09.920 Shane Gillis even made an awesome skit about this with Gillian Keeves,

06:19:13.100 where they talked about like 18,

06:19:14.660 like it was based,

06:19:15.480 it was hilarious.

06:19:16.820 So I think that 25 is really the only scientifically and biologically measurable.

06:19:24.080 Now that's not me saying don't get married at 18,

06:19:26.460 don't have a child at 18,

06:19:27.980 but I'm just making the point that again,

06:19:30.400 the voting age,

06:19:31.220 we shouldn't have the same expectations of an 18 year old that we do of a 28 year old.

06:19:38.380 I'm just going to push back a little bit.

06:19:41.920 There's for me,

06:19:43.380 like a woman takes on her husband's personality,

06:19:47.640 whether they're 18 or 35,

06:19:50.400 they're still like the maturity doesn't change unless they have a man to actually give them the experiences and stuff like that.

06:19:58.140 So at like,

06:19:59.240 let's say,

06:19:59.600 I'm not going to say 18 cause we're like,

06:20:01.300 that's a line,

06:20:01.920 but like,

06:20:02.760 let's say 21.

06:20:03.700 It's okay for a woman to have a baby at 20 or 21 because she's taking on her husband's personality and his traits and stuff like that,

06:20:10.420 because that's what women do.

06:20:11.500 Women are easily influenced by the environment around them.

06:20:14.740 So I don't think that's correct is what I'm saying.

06:20:19.700 After 25,

06:20:20.780 I mean,

06:20:21.620 they,

06:20:21.880 they can have babies before.

06:20:23.300 Just make sure you choose right now.

06:20:24.440 You and then you,

06:20:25.200 Lisa,

06:20:25.560 go ahead.

06:20:25.920 I just have a quick question.

06:20:26.860 Cause we were talking about the 25.

06:20:28.160 So for like voting,

06:20:31.140 but now also let's think about like the military.

06:20:33.780 So if people's minds have not,

06:20:36.560 and I've heard that the 25 year old,

06:20:38.220 so should they,

06:20:39.720 do you think that maybe we should move back?

06:20:42.520 Like,

06:20:42.620 cause they've moved back like the,

06:20:43.880 the,

06:20:44.280 the age to buy cigarettes,

06:20:46.240 the age to buy alcohol is 21.

06:20:47.980 You can go fight for your country and die for it at 18,

06:20:50.700 but you can't have a beer or you can't have a cigarette.

06:20:52.640 So do you think that maybe,

06:20:55.400 do you think that the voting age and then maybe the service age should be pushed back as well?

06:21:00.140 So the military age is a completely different thing.

06:21:02.340 Cause anybody here who knows somebody closely that was military or has served themselves knows that the,

06:21:07.900 one of the biggest things that a military teaches you is how to fall in line.

06:21:11.940 And it trains you into how to fall in line and how to be a machine that does what the military tells you to do.

06:21:19.280 It can teach you that.

06:21:20.600 Go ahead.

06:21:22.720 So I don't agree with the age being pushed back because with that being said,

06:21:29.580 for an example,

06:21:30.520 women are more fertile at a younger age.

06:21:33.760 So it is actually better to get married and have children at a younger age versus when you're 30,

06:21:40.020 because usually when you're 30,

06:21:42.980 it's only about like maybe 50% of women that get married.

06:21:47.800 So it's like better.

06:21:51.640 The fertile ages.

06:21:52.480 I'm jumping in after Lisa.

06:21:54.100 Okay.

06:21:55.180 Did you want to finish Lisa?

06:21:56.720 That's basically it.

06:21:58.560 Are you against age gap relationships?

06:22:00.440 Not at all.

06:22:00.960 Okay.

06:22:05.820 So like a 30 year old dating a 20 year old?

06:22:08.480 If it works for them.

06:22:10.020 Oh,

06:22:10.200 okay.

06:22:11.000 I just,

06:22:11.700 but the brain doesn't pull any form until 25.

06:22:13.780 I want to make the point that it's misrepresenting my argument to say you're telling somebody to have a kid at 30 or 32.

06:22:20.300 I'm just saying that.

06:22:22.940 And again,

06:22:23.540 I'm never,

06:22:23.980 I'm not the one saying don't get married.

06:22:25.380 Don't have a child at all.

06:22:26.360 I'm saying it'll be more successful after 25 when those impulsive decision-making skills are cemented.

06:22:34.220 Okay.

06:22:36.740 You actually,

06:22:38.960 no,

06:22:39.100 I think that's it.

06:22:40.740 Mandy,

06:22:41.540 you're a Christian nationalist,

06:22:42.640 anti-feminist.

06:22:44.400 You have a young son dating and the quality of women,

06:22:48.560 girls scares the hell out of you.

06:22:49.880 The double standards between men and women,

06:22:52.040 delusional middle age,

06:22:53.100 unmarried women,

06:22:54.300 bad advice from older women to younger women.

06:22:56.460 And you also mentioned in your notes,

06:22:58.100 women deserve less.

06:22:59.160 Do you want to hit on any of those things?

06:23:02.440 So like women deserve less.

06:23:04.920 I see you talk a lot about like on a first date,

06:23:08.940 they should do laundry or like dishes or stuff like that.

06:23:12.400 I think that's great.

06:23:13.500 I think that women today should start instead of men forking out the money and,

06:23:18.880 you know,

06:23:19.840 paying for suppers and taking them out and planning all of these days.

06:23:22.560 I think women should go over,

06:23:25.040 cook a dinner,

06:23:26.440 clean their house and prove what kind of wife or quality of wife they could be.

06:23:32.620 Word.

06:23:33.800 Yeah.

06:23:34.260 Okay.

06:23:35.260 Was there anything else on those other things?

06:23:37.560 I mean,

06:23:38.940 my son's 17.

06:23:40.160 He's,

06:23:40.440 he's dating and stuff like that.

06:23:41.680 And the quality of women is just,

06:23:43.300 you know,

06:23:43.520 like they want all of these things out of him.

06:23:46.140 Like he's obviously not like they want his time.

06:23:50.360 And then they want him to take him like to go out for dinner all the time.

06:23:53.700 He has to accept like if they have,

06:23:55.700 because at a young age they have mental illness,

06:23:57.760 all of that.

06:23:58.880 And they have to be accepted if they're overweight and stuff like that.

06:24:01.520 And if like,

06:24:02.060 I did a video on it,

06:24:03.260 but like,

06:24:04.100 I don't think I do not advise my son to date women that are overweight.

06:24:09.400 It's just something I am against.

06:24:11.760 I tell my son that he shouldn't date a woman that's overweight because they come with issues.

06:24:16.760 They come normally with,

06:24:18.160 you know,

06:24:18.740 mental health issues.

06:24:20.140 They are,

06:24:21.280 how do I say it?

06:24:23.820 They're very selfish.

06:24:25.240 They need what they,

06:24:26.020 like they're very low impulse.

06:24:27.780 And,

06:24:28.280 I mean,

06:24:30.340 not every woman,

06:24:31.580 but like just instant gratification,

06:24:34.160 all of that.

06:24:34.580 Do you think any of that is related to what you said to her earlier,

06:24:37.220 that she was just applying her situation to most people?

06:24:40.400 What do you mean?

06:24:41.400 No,

06:24:41.720 I just,

06:24:42.100 I see it all the time.

06:24:43.040 You dated your husband for some,

06:24:45.920 quite some time when you were overweight,

06:24:48.460 but you don't want your child.

06:24:50.420 I dated my husband for a month while I was overweight.

06:24:52.680 Yeah.

06:24:53.180 But you dated for a month.

06:24:54.560 Yeah.

06:24:54.820 When you were overweight and you just lose all the way.

06:24:57.640 No,

06:24:57.860 I see it all the time.

06:24:59.000 Like you,

06:24:59.420 you can see it in like Tik TOK videos,

06:25:02.000 everything.

06:25:02.540 They're all on it.

06:25:03.420 Like most of them are on SSRIs.

06:25:05.520 Most of them are all about instant gratification.

06:25:08.040 And you see it all the time,

06:25:08.700 like body positivity,

06:25:10.020 Lizzo.

06:25:10.820 It doesn't matter.

06:25:11.880 It's all lost the weight.

06:25:12.900 If your husband hadn't asked you to.

06:25:16.300 Uh,

06:25:16.820 probably not.

06:25:18.060 Cause I was on a lot of SSRIs.

06:25:19.400 Would you advise your son to do the same thing that your husband did?

06:25:23.180 I would advise my son not to date a woman.

06:25:25.780 That's over.

06:25:26.060 I don't think it's healthy to base women on people on Tik TOK.

06:25:29.080 People on Tik TOK are not just every,

06:25:30.820 it's every it's like,

06:25:33.340 it's most what I need is it's not only Tik TOK,

06:25:36.560 right?

06:25:36.760 It's all women all around.

06:25:39.020 Like there's a lot of overweight women that sit there and say like,

06:25:41.940 you have to accept me the way I am.

06:25:44.260 No,

06:25:44.500 you don't.

06:25:45.360 You don't have to accept the person the way they are.

06:25:47.580 My husband,

06:25:48.100 my husband,

06:25:48.660 my,

06:25:48.920 my son does not have to date an overweight chick because she's having a

06:25:52.740 feeling about herself.

06:25:53.800 Right.

06:25:54.760 So no,

06:25:55.660 he has to date her because she's someone he's into.

06:25:57.640 He digs her personality.

06:25:58.560 He likes hanging out with her.

06:25:59.420 He's attracted to her.

06:26:00.460 That's the only reason you should date anyone.

06:26:02.420 See,

06:26:02.660 I think that men that are attracted to overweight women,

06:26:06.980 and I'm not saying all of them,

06:26:08.460 but I'm saying like most of them are probably have a fetish or they're,

06:26:14.240 they,

06:26:14.680 they're low value men because a high value man is not going to go after

06:26:20.560 somebody that has a BMI of like 25.

06:26:23.920 They're just not.

06:26:25.240 So then are you saying your husband was low value at one point?

06:26:29.720 I would say he considered himself low value.

06:26:31.740 Yes.

06:26:32.600 I didn't think he was low value,

06:26:34.040 but I would say he considered himself.

06:26:35.840 Yeah.

06:26:35.940 So then would you allow your son to have the ability to choose to tell a

06:26:40.820 woman to lose the weight if he likes her to that extent?

06:26:43.660 Yeah,

06:26:43.880 for sure.

06:26:44.340 But that's,

06:26:45.060 that's the thing,

06:26:46.020 but I won't allow.

06:26:47.040 She doesn't want him to do it at all.

06:26:49.160 Like she's enforcing it.

06:26:51.240 So like that he doesn't do it to begin with.

06:26:54.360 So he doesn't have to be the one to say,

06:26:56.540 Hey,

06:26:57.180 um,

06:26:57.560 you have to lose the weight.

06:26:58.940 She doesn't want that girl to feel basically what she felt.

06:27:02.080 Cause obviously it wasn't not that you felt great about it.

06:27:05.260 Cause obviously,

06:27:05.980 you know,

06:27:06.240 it's not talking about your way.

06:27:07.600 You know,

06:27:07.760 it hurts my feelings.

06:27:08.820 Exactly.

06:27:09.360 But you don't want another girl to feel that way.

06:27:12.380 So I get where she's coming from.

06:27:14.420 Right.

06:27:14.680 Uh,

06:27:17.040 we got to cut your hair off.

06:27:19.400 Yeah.

06:27:20.260 Let's go.

06:27:20.840 Are we actually doing this?

06:27:23.420 Only if you're the one doing it.

06:27:25.620 I have to do it.

06:27:26.400 Why do I have to do it?

06:27:27.320 No,

06:27:27.980 Gigi was going to do it.

06:27:29.220 No,

06:27:29.760 I just,

06:27:30.100 I just,

06:27:30.720 I just,

06:27:30.920 I just,

06:27:31.420 I just,

06:27:32.180 I just,

06:27:32.920 I just,

06:27:33.220 I just,

06:27:33.440 I just,

06:27:33.480 I just,

06:27:33.520 I just,

06:27:33.780 I just,

06:27:34.680 I just,

06:27:35.080 because my friend who also goes live was supposed to do it.

06:27:38.820 So now I have to give power.

06:27:41.120 I'm giving Gigi my proxy.

06:27:42.860 Would you let her go live while you do it?

06:27:44.580 Would you let her go live?

06:27:45.540 She is live.

06:27:46.400 No,

06:27:46.560 no,

06:27:46.660 with her phone.

06:27:47.520 She's live right now.

06:27:47.940 On her TikTok.

06:27:48.420 Can I tell my people to come?

06:27:50.640 They're already,

06:27:51.440 they've already came.

06:27:52.340 Yeah,

06:27:52.560 I know they're,

06:27:53.240 they are,

06:27:53.640 some of them are here.

06:27:56.360 Like I need to like make sure that.

06:27:58.300 You want to do it,

06:27:59.140 Gigi?

06:27:59.940 I mean,

06:28:00.240 I'll do it if she allows me to.

06:28:03.680 I said the only way I'm doing it is if you do it.

06:28:06.920 Yeah,

06:28:07.040 I think you might have to do it.

06:28:08.320 Come on,

06:28:08.700 right?

06:28:09.000 It's your podcast.

06:28:10.500 Why don't you want to?

06:28:11.800 Pop that champagne.

06:28:12.880 Boom.

06:28:12.980 I feel like the optics of it would look fucking really bad.

06:28:16.740 But she's asking you over and over.

06:28:18.440 She's asking you to do it.

06:28:20.840 I still think the optics are bad.

06:28:22.920 I think the optics are bad for me to do it.

06:28:25.620 I think it's worse if she's asking you to do it,

06:28:28.120 but you're having someone else do it.

06:28:29.680 Yeah.

06:28:30.400 No.

06:28:30.720 And if you just,

06:28:31.720 you're honoring her request.

06:28:33.060 And if we don't end up doing it,

06:28:34.360 you just blew all your whole audience.

06:28:35.940 Yeah.

06:28:36.320 And she's donating,

06:28:37.880 so there is a purpose,

06:28:39.220 you know,

06:28:39.520 like she's donating the hair.

06:28:41.540 So you are going to do it first.

06:28:42.460 You said before,

06:28:43.220 it's just hair.

06:28:43.780 It grows back.

06:28:44.580 Word the narrative to,

06:28:46.180 I'm helping donate.

06:28:47.700 Yes.

06:28:48.240 The intention.

06:28:49.180 Real.

06:28:49.900 Yes.

06:28:50.360 Real.

06:28:50.960 Hold on,

06:28:51.540 let me change the episode title to,

06:28:54.000 shaving her head.

06:28:55.660 And you can even put after she begs me to.

06:28:59.560 One sec.

06:29:01.500 Shaving.

06:29:02.000 She demands I shave her head.

06:29:03.560 Yeah.

06:29:04.240 She demands.

06:29:04.960 S-C.

06:29:05.760 S-C.

06:29:06.500 Shaving head imminent.

06:29:09.420 Okay.

06:29:09.940 Now I'm really going to be Eminem.

06:29:12.160 Shaving head imminent.

06:29:15.020 I don't know.

06:29:16.220 Will the real Sam shave you please stand up?

06:29:18.200 Let me change it on the page.

06:29:18.720 Thank God I'm getting drunk.

06:29:23.700 This is great.

06:29:24.800 Another champagne bottle please.

06:29:27.460 Oh,

06:29:27.920 Andy,

06:29:28.420 where you at?

06:29:29.000 Andy,

06:29:29.500 where you at?

06:29:30.820 Andy,

06:29:31.200 where you at?

06:29:31.700 You got Ethereum dude?

06:29:32.760 We got,

06:29:33.080 we got Cristal.

06:29:34.200 We got,

06:29:34.400 we got Cristal.

06:29:35.100 Andy,

06:29:35.380 just send up a bottle of TVs.

06:29:36.400 Hey,

06:29:36.740 Nathan,

06:29:38.240 really quick.

06:29:38.660 Andy,

06:29:38.920 I know you got it.

06:29:39.500 Pull up Twitch really quick.

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06:31:13.380 I love you.

06:31:13.920 We just need two more guys.

06:31:15.080 Show some love over there on Twitch.

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06:31:18.180 Do we have it?

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06:31:19.920 They do got it.

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06:31:29.480 Lethal.

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06:31:30.540 One more.

06:31:31.180 Hey, Lethal Dojo.

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06:31:38.280 Just hijacking the stream here a little bit.

06:31:40.100 Drop us a follow.

06:31:40.480 Guys, if you're watching over on YouTube,

06:31:42.020 just open up another tab really quick

06:31:43.540 and drop us a follow on Twitch.

06:31:46.160 Drop us a check if you have a Prime sub available

06:31:48.020 and show some love.

06:31:49.780 Give us a one more Prime sub.

06:31:51.380 You got this.

06:31:52.120 Yep.

06:31:52.540 Brian's teeny peeny.

06:31:53.360 It's average, but whatever.

06:31:56.300 Come on.

06:31:56.780 Prime subs are free.

06:31:59.140 There it is.

06:31:59.660 Oh my God.

06:32:00.240 Real Bubba.

06:32:00.880 Thank you.

06:32:01.440 Bye-bye.

06:32:01.800 You real as fuck.

06:32:02.760 Debbie Bubba.

06:32:03.340 Debbie Bubba.

06:32:04.120 It's a real one.

06:32:05.080 You real.

06:32:05.380 You know what?

06:32:05.920 I wonder, should I?

06:32:07.840 Yes.

06:32:08.840 You know what?

06:32:09.600 Pull it back up real quick.

06:32:11.820 Pull it back up.

06:32:13.020 When Brian asks, should I ask?

06:32:14.180 I'll say yes.

06:32:14.760 Not that.

06:32:16.440 Guys, here's what I'm going to do.

06:32:18.960 Wait.

06:32:19.680 Wait.

06:32:19.980 Is it?

06:32:21.220 Oh shit.

06:32:21.920 Lethal.

06:32:22.180 Oh my God.

06:32:22.680 MP.

06:32:23.040 Thank you.

06:32:23.380 Is it against TOS to offer a VIP badge in exchange for Prime?

06:32:30.600 Is that TOS?

06:32:32.320 Any mods in the chat?

06:32:33.320 Can somebody in the chat, Twitch chat?

06:32:34.820 I'm reading the Twitch chat right now.

06:32:36.360 Is it TOS?

06:32:37.040 Blue Knight.

06:32:37.460 Thank you.

06:32:38.300 Is it TOS to offer a VIP badge for if somebody drops a Prime?

06:32:43.100 Okay.

06:32:43.340 So, the, whoever, oh my God.

06:32:52.340 Dree, thank you.

06:32:54.100 You know what?

06:32:54.620 I'll do it later.

06:32:55.420 I'll do it later.

06:32:56.080 Somebody's going to get a VIP badge.

06:32:58.240 Anyways.

06:32:59.560 Okay.

06:33:00.340 How do I do this?

06:33:02.000 Oh, the shaving.

06:33:02.980 Oh, fuck.

06:33:04.740 Do you want to be rapid fire first?

06:33:07.580 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

06:33:08.120 Yeah, let's do, let's save, we'll like have the haircut be the cherry on top at the end

06:33:14.220 of the stream.

06:33:14.820 Oh, yeah.

06:33:15.380 It'll be like the little final.

06:33:16.820 Hell, yeah, but I need clips.

06:33:18.160 The final.

06:33:19.620 He's a dude.

06:33:20.480 He's like, leave.

06:33:21.560 The finale.

06:33:22.700 Yeah, the finale.

06:33:23.400 Grand finale.

06:33:24.880 Salvo.

06:33:25.420 The final salvo.

06:33:26.960 Okay.

06:33:27.240 Salvo.

06:33:27.520 Okay.

06:33:28.080 Let me Google that to make sure I'm using that word.

06:33:30.180 No, yeah.

06:33:30.500 Frame it.

06:33:30.800 Salvo is like a style.

06:33:31.680 He should.

06:33:32.480 He should.

06:33:33.760 I'm going to be the first.

06:33:35.160 You need to frame like a little bit of her hair.

06:33:38.200 And hang it up.

06:33:39.100 There's a blank space right there.

06:33:40.720 I'm not sure if I used that word correctly.

06:33:42.520 I don't think you did.

06:33:43.320 No, it makes sense.

06:33:44.340 It could.

06:33:44.820 There could be a final salvo.

06:33:46.800 Oh, my goodness.

06:33:47.600 Tencode.

06:33:47.980 Thank you for the gifted 20 subs over there on Twitch.

06:33:50.280 Oh, W.

06:33:50.700 Really appreciate it.

06:33:52.080 W.

06:33:52.440 Thank you, Tencode.

06:33:53.240 Fucking legend.

06:33:54.600 I don't know.

06:33:54.920 YouTube thing doesn't work, but Twitch does for some reason.

06:33:58.120 W.

06:33:58.400 Twitch.

06:33:59.140 W.

06:33:59.500 Natalia.

06:33:59.860 She gifted 50 earlier.

06:34:01.420 W's Natalia.

06:34:01.900 W.

06:34:02.380 All right.

06:34:03.080 Rapid fire segment.

06:34:04.100 I'm going to wait until Lisa is back.

06:34:06.440 Are there any topics that any of you guys wanted to hit on before we get into the rapid

06:34:13.780 fire segment?

06:34:15.080 Basically, the final segment of the show.

06:34:17.660 Sort of.

06:34:17.880 Kind of.

06:34:18.340 Sort of.

06:34:19.620 I think we're good.

06:34:20.140 Okay.

06:34:25.300 Hmm.

06:34:29.260 Okay.

06:34:29.900 Well.

06:34:32.800 I have to.

06:34:33.320 I'm going to wait until Lisa is back.

06:34:34.300 We can start interviewing you if you want.

06:34:36.040 W.

06:34:36.180 Tencode.

06:34:36.380 We can, like, interview you all day.

06:34:38.200 If you want, I guess.

06:34:39.940 How about this?

06:34:40.800 Uh, I've done a segment called Big Brother Brian, where, uh, sometimes you might find

06:34:48.560 that guys won't be honest with you about, maybe you have a question, but they're not

06:34:53.960 going to give you the brutal truth.

06:34:55.420 I will give you the brutal truth.

06:34:56.640 You've always wanted to ask a man a question.

06:34:59.440 I will not pull any punches.

06:35:01.180 I will give you the straight answer, even if it hurts feelings.

06:35:06.640 I have one.

06:35:07.240 Okay.

06:35:07.800 Go ahead.

06:35:08.060 Should I message Chase, or should I wait for him to message me?

06:35:12.780 Why the fuck would he, why the fuck would he message you?

06:35:16.580 Okay.

06:35:17.100 Hey, I told you I'd give the brutal truth.

06:35:19.000 He doesn't, Chase isn't, like, watching this podcast and that, like, one girl's like,

06:35:24.020 Chase, you got to message him.

06:35:26.700 He's not going to message you.

06:35:30.880 Okay.

06:35:31.660 Because you're honest, don't mean you have to be mean.

06:35:33.840 That wasn't mean.

06:35:34.680 That's the honest truth.

06:35:36.100 What the fuck?

06:35:36.800 Oh, my God.

06:35:38.820 I like, that'd be like, I really like Rihanna.

06:35:43.080 Well, she's, let me change it up.

06:35:46.120 I really liked Megan Fox when she was 20.

06:35:50.260 Should I DM her?

06:35:51.760 I mean, obviously, no fucking chance either way, but should I wait for Megan Fox to DM me?

06:35:57.580 She wasn't asking if she should wait for Chase to DM her.

06:36:02.000 She just wanted to know if she should DM him.

06:36:04.600 No, that's literally what she said.

06:36:05.600 How does somebody, is Chase going to, like, have, like, a vision appear to him, like, wow, this girl who I don't fucking know, I'm just going to miraculously find her?

06:36:19.240 No.

06:36:19.580 If you like somebody and they don't know who the fuck you are, yeah, you got to be the one that reaches out.

06:36:28.560 That reaches out.

06:36:29.760 Okay, you've seen him.

06:36:31.340 He's an attractive base dude who has people that follow him.

06:36:35.780 You really think he doesn't have those DMs blowing up every day?

06:36:40.240 Like.

06:36:40.640 Real.

06:36:41.360 Yeah.

06:36:41.560 Chase does not chase.

06:36:44.080 He gets chased.

06:36:45.820 Same.

06:36:46.880 But tribes.

06:36:47.860 That's my middle name, so.

06:36:52.280 So my question is, do you think I will survive alone?

06:36:58.320 Survive alone?

06:36:59.040 Not happily.

06:37:00.520 Happily?

06:37:02.600 Like, I'm happy.

06:37:04.260 I think so.

06:37:04.900 You have your children.

06:37:05.620 Cloud Strife, thank you for the gifted five.

06:37:07.200 Yeah.

06:37:07.440 Thank you, Cloud.

06:37:08.140 Don't be a cloud.

06:37:08.720 I mean, I think sometimes it can be lonely in later adulthood if you don't have a family.

06:37:19.460 I mean, you already have a daughter, though, but I don't know.

06:37:26.240 But you have a daughter, but her whole life can't be you.

06:37:31.040 She has to go have her own life and her own family.

06:37:33.440 In college, like, she's not living with me, but, like, I get used to it.

06:37:37.320 It's a life that now.

06:37:39.840 So, I think.

06:37:41.400 When you were young, what was the one thing you wanted the most?

06:37:44.280 Did you want love or did you want a career?

06:37:46.920 Oh, I just wanted love.

06:37:48.740 I never wanted a career.

06:37:49.820 I think that's your answer, then, is that eventually you're going to still want that love.

06:37:55.360 All right.

06:37:56.300 Getting into the questions here, so we're going to do, let's see.

06:38:03.820 Name three countries besides the USA.

06:38:10.180 Oh, China, Russia, Canada.

06:38:15.220 You can't repeat, by the way.

06:38:16.500 Go ahead.

06:38:17.260 Vietnam, Korea, Japan.

06:38:21.520 Germany, Italy, Philippines.

06:38:25.100 Chad, Uganda, Panama.

06:38:29.140 England, France, Spain.

06:38:31.680 India, Pakistan, Afghanistan.

06:38:36.180 Poland, Greece, and Mexico.

06:38:44.260 Netherland, Sweden, and Finland.

06:38:50.760 Why did I just drop, like, Ireland.

06:38:55.100 Iceland, and Greenland.

06:38:57.800 Okay.

06:38:58.420 How many continents are there?

06:39:02.480 Seven.

06:39:04.100 Name.

06:39:05.000 Not everybody's going to get to answer this, but name one continent.

06:39:09.920 You can't repeat.

06:39:11.940 Asia.

06:39:13.240 Australia.

06:39:14.740 Europe.

06:39:15.680 Antarctica.

06:39:16.580 North America.

06:39:17.660 South America.

06:39:18.260 You said that.

06:39:22.820 Oh, wow.

06:39:23.920 I failed.

06:39:24.580 Europe.

06:39:25.440 I said that.

06:39:26.520 What?

06:39:26.820 I'm not paying attention today.

06:39:28.340 Oh, my gosh.

06:39:28.420 Now you get to name all seven continents.

06:39:30.440 Oh, okay.

06:39:31.960 North America, South America, Australia, Antarctica, Europe, Asia, and oh, my gosh, I am blinking

06:39:42.700 on seven.

06:39:45.100 How embarrassing.

06:39:45.760 Can I give you a hint?

06:39:46.820 Yes, please.

06:39:47.380 Thank you.

06:39:48.060 It's the guys that you said earlier that you, people would think you date, but you don't

06:39:53.420 date.

06:39:53.660 Oh, my God.

06:39:54.240 Africa.

06:39:56.560 Yo, I'm sorry.

06:39:57.660 I was just trying to celebrate Black History Month on date.

06:40:01.420 Okay.

06:40:02.100 It's a comedy skit.

06:40:03.000 How many, I'm going to pick on the Canadian here.

06:40:05.580 How many states in the USA?

06:40:07.160 It's so embarrassing.

06:40:07.780 Hopefully, 51.

06:40:12.700 It's probably the best answer we've gotten to that.

06:40:15.360 She wants us to annex Canada.

06:40:18.700 What is the capital of the USA?

06:40:20.160 Back to Canada.

06:40:22.280 Washington.

06:40:24.440 We will accept it.

06:40:26.660 Name.

06:40:31.320 This one's kind of whatever.

06:40:32.820 I'm going to skip.

06:40:35.880 Wait.

06:40:37.780 How many planets are in our solar system?

06:40:44.900 Eight.

06:40:45.720 Huh?

06:40:46.200 Eight?

06:40:47.180 Do we count?

06:40:48.740 I think it's back.

06:40:50.880 Eight, nine.

06:40:51.660 I thought Pluto was back.

06:40:52.860 Eight, nine.

06:40:54.080 Six, seven.

06:40:54.640 Eight, nine.

06:40:55.460 Six, seven.

06:40:56.060 Exactly.

06:40:57.560 If you count Pluto, nine.

06:40:58.980 Who's from California?

06:41:00.280 Not me.

06:41:02.060 All right, Lisa, what is the capital of California?

06:41:04.520 Sacramento.

06:41:05.660 Who's from New York?

06:41:06.560 What is the capital of New York?

06:41:11.040 Albany.

06:41:12.160 What river runs through Egypt?

06:41:16.520 Denial.

06:41:18.180 Denial river.

06:41:19.560 Denial.

06:41:20.580 Denial river.

06:41:21.820 Denial is a river in Egypt.

06:41:25.160 Can you scoot your mic to the edge of the table?

06:41:27.600 Yeah.

06:41:27.720 All right.

06:41:31.020 What country is directly north of Mexico, Lisa?

06:41:40.340 America.

06:41:42.100 We will accept it.

06:41:44.060 How many months are in a year?

06:41:46.320 Twelve.

06:41:46.900 How many hours in a day?

06:41:47.880 Twenty-four.

06:41:49.800 How many minutes are in an hour?

06:41:53.880 358.

06:41:54.340 I have no idea.

06:41:55.620 Wait, wait, wait.

06:41:57.460 Wait, in an hour?

06:41:58.660 Oh, in an hour.

06:41:59.620 Sixty.

06:42:00.080 Sorry.

06:42:00.500 I didn't hear.

06:42:01.080 I heard it.

06:42:01.720 I thought you were still in 24 hours.

06:42:03.960 How many seconds are in a minute?

06:42:05.560 Sixty.

06:42:06.280 How many sides does a triangle have?

06:42:08.240 How many what?

06:42:08.940 Sides?

06:42:09.480 Does a triangle have?

06:42:10.200 Three.

06:42:11.200 What do you call a shape with five sides?

06:42:14.740 Pentagon.

06:42:15.860 Eight sides.

06:42:17.000 Octagon.

06:42:17.880 What country gifted the Statue of Liberty to the USA?

06:42:24.860 England.

06:42:27.800 Yeah.

06:42:30.520 Wait, wait, wait.

06:42:31.260 Take another guess.

06:42:32.920 I'm sorry.

06:42:33.700 It's not England, but take another guess.

06:42:35.920 Hey, no help.

06:42:36.840 No help.

06:42:38.760 You got this, Lisa.

06:42:39.740 Do you want a hint?

06:42:50.660 Sure.

06:42:52.480 I don't want it to be too easy.

06:42:54.280 No, no, no, no.

06:43:02.120 Germany occupied them during World War II.

06:43:05.120 Okay.

06:43:05.680 So it's Germany?

06:43:09.820 Wait, wait, wait.

06:43:10.760 Nobody help.

06:43:11.340 Nobody help.

06:43:13.800 Wait, wait, what?

06:43:15.540 Technically.

06:43:15.940 Technically.

06:43:16.640 Germany occupied Germany.

06:43:19.100 And Germany gifted the Statue of Liberty to the US.

06:43:22.180 Definitely not.

06:43:22.720 So, okay, Germany occupied the country during World War II.

06:43:27.860 Which country gifted the Statue of Liberty to the US?

06:43:32.740 Just start naming countries.

06:43:44.140 Germany?

06:43:48.100 You already said that, Lisa.

06:43:50.040 Lisa, you already said that.

06:43:51.540 Here.

06:43:52.140 Maybe.

06:43:52.860 How about this?

06:43:53.340 Wait, which countries did Germany occupy during World War II?

06:43:57.660 Let's start there.

06:44:00.300 Germany?

06:44:00.780 No, no, no, no.

06:44:02.800 Germany can't occupy itself.

06:44:05.620 Germany occupied Australia?

06:44:07.860 No, Austria.

06:44:09.680 Oh, well, they kind of like...

06:44:14.240 No, not really.

06:44:18.720 I wouldn't categorize Germany as occupying Austria.

06:44:24.820 But so Austria gifted the Statue of Liberty to the US?

06:44:27.420 Um, yes.

06:44:33.100 Maybe if you ask the question a different way, maybe if you mimed it to her.

06:44:38.660 Lol.

06:44:39.160 Mime it?

06:44:39.740 Ha ha.

06:44:40.320 Ha ha.

06:44:40.360 Wait, I got it.

06:44:41.060 I got it.

06:44:41.660 The colors of the flag that gifted the Statue of Liberty include white, red, and blue.

06:44:48.820 Oh, it's America.

06:44:49.740 Oh, my God.

06:44:55.100 Bless your heart.

06:44:56.180 Oh, no.

06:44:56.620 Wait.

06:44:57.040 Bless your heart.

06:44:58.160 Oh, sorry.

06:44:58.840 I did not miss it.

06:45:00.660 I misclicked.

06:45:03.240 The United States gifted the Statue of Liberty to itself.

06:45:07.160 To the United States.

06:45:07.460 To the United States.

06:45:07.760 To the United States.

06:45:07.860 You can actually hear the crickets outside.

06:45:24.720 But we'll just play it.

06:45:27.940 Hold on.

06:45:28.600 I'll let this TTS.

06:45:29.720 Here, think while this TTS comes in.

06:45:32.660 Cloud Strife, Norton, $200.

06:45:35.320 Thank you, man.

06:45:35.860 Appreciate it.

06:45:36.260 To the 140 and not-so-erudite debates and watching last week's Stating Pod with Andrew,

06:45:42.520 I had to throw some money your way.

06:45:44.460 I appreciate the support.

06:45:45.060 Keep it up, Brian.

06:45:46.300 Hey, I appreciate the support, man.

06:45:47.860 We ain't getting no sponsorships from Athletic Greens.

06:45:50.840 We're not getting sponsorships, really.

06:45:53.680 So I appreciate the support.

06:45:54.920 We're pretty much fan-funded.

06:45:56.020 So thank you, man.

06:45:56.580 I really appreciate it.

06:45:58.360 Okay.

06:45:58.760 Let me think if I can.

06:46:00.780 I want to think of a hint.

06:46:02.960 Okay.

06:46:03.520 Blue, red, white.

06:46:05.760 White.

06:46:06.740 Color of the flags.

06:46:08.640 They were occupied by Germany during World War II.

06:46:13.600 Famous bread.

06:46:16.260 Let me do the hints.

06:46:18.700 Germans definitely have famous bread.

06:46:20.720 Wait.

06:46:21.060 Right there.

06:46:21.840 Let me.

06:46:22.600 Step to that.

06:46:23.700 Let's see.

06:46:25.500 The.

06:46:26.120 We.

06:46:28.000 Hey.

06:46:28.500 Stop.

06:46:28.820 Stop.

06:46:29.020 Stop.

06:46:29.120 Sorry.

06:46:29.320 I said.

06:46:30.480 Uh.

06:46:31.140 Hmm.

06:46:35.780 Okay.

06:46:37.460 Uh.

06:46:38.020 There was a famous general who went by Charles de Gaulle.

06:46:42.580 And there's an airport named after that general.

06:46:45.480 Which country gifted the Statue of Liberty to the USA?

06:46:53.380 Charles de Gaulle.

06:46:54.420 What country?

06:47:00.140 Was it France?

06:47:01.700 Oh, my.

06:47:02.880 Good.

06:47:03.160 Good job.

06:47:03.720 Good job.

06:47:05.440 You got it.

06:47:06.440 Um.

06:47:06.980 Okay.

06:47:07.460 Uh.

06:47:07.800 For you.

06:47:08.300 What gas.

06:47:09.200 Into the mic.

06:47:10.140 Uh.

06:47:10.340 What gas do humans breathe in to survive?

06:47:13.960 Carbon dioxide?

06:47:15.380 No.

06:47:16.260 What?

06:47:17.140 No.

06:47:17.880 Uh.

06:47:19.700 Monoxide?

06:47:20.140 I don't know.

06:47:21.880 I would love to get you in a room full of carbon.

06:47:24.640 Yo.

06:47:26.160 Monoxide.

06:47:26.600 Carbon monoxide.

06:47:27.520 Carbon dioxide.

06:47:28.920 All of that.

06:47:29.320 Oxygen?

06:47:30.200 Yeah.

06:47:31.000 Beautiful.

06:47:32.620 You are correct.

06:47:34.380 Okay.

06:47:35.460 Basically.

06:47:35.860 We exhale carbon dioxide, right?

06:47:37.520 Yeah.

06:47:38.160 Yes.

06:47:38.400 True.

06:47:38.740 True.

06:47:38.880 Uh.

06:47:39.700 Okay.

06:47:40.040 What gas do plants absorb from the air?

06:47:49.260 Oxygen.

06:47:50.140 Right?

06:47:52.940 Because they give out carbon dioxide?

06:47:56.000 Or let's see.

06:47:56.660 What are we here?

06:47:57.240 Carbon dioxide?

06:48:02.240 Um.

06:48:03.400 What do you think?

06:48:04.380 I don't know.

06:48:05.600 Plants absorb carbon dioxide and give out oxygen to humans.

06:48:09.420 Okay.

06:48:10.120 What organ pumps blood through your body?

06:48:13.260 Organ?

06:48:14.780 My heart?

06:48:18.440 You're correct.

06:48:19.360 Don't tilt your mic down for me.

06:48:21.000 I'm awkward.

06:48:22.160 What continent is Brazil in?

06:48:26.700 South America.

06:48:28.020 What continent is Egypt in?

06:48:31.000 Africa.

06:48:31.900 What continent is Japan in?

06:48:37.220 Lisa.

06:48:39.720 Asia.

06:48:40.280 How many dimes make a dollar?

06:48:44.240 Dimes.

06:48:45.220 The coin.

06:48:48.120 Ten.

06:48:51.440 I have to give this one to Lisa.

06:48:54.000 What is the capital of France?

06:48:57.080 Paris.

06:48:58.440 Huh?

06:48:58.880 Paris.

06:48:59.620 Yep.

06:48:59.880 Uh, okay.

06:49:01.160 Uh, what is the capital of Japan?

06:49:04.640 Is it Kyoto?

06:49:07.500 No?

06:49:08.500 Yeah.

06:49:09.240 The fives.

06:49:10.160 Eya.

06:49:10.480 Oh, Tokyo.

06:49:15.060 I thought it was Kyoto.

06:49:15.820 As she whispered it to you.

06:49:16.960 Oh, I didn't even hear it.

06:49:18.900 What country, I'm going for Lisa again, what country is immediately south of the United

06:49:24.300 States?

06:49:26.320 Um, Mexico.

06:49:28.780 Final answer.

06:49:31.540 Final answer.

06:49:32.300 Like, South America.

06:49:41.460 You had it right the first time.

06:49:43.420 Uh, it is, in fact, Mexico.

06:49:45.300 Uh, for you, what is a thousand divided by ten?

06:49:50.620 A hundred?

06:49:53.300 Yeah.

06:49:53.900 Damn, the, the, I need to get our better fucking chairs.

06:49:56.120 Fucking squeaking.

06:49:57.860 Uh, maybe if you scoot in a little bit, so it's like less of a lean in.

06:50:01.780 Uh, if today, if today is Monday, what day is it in three days?

06:50:08.120 Counting Monday?

06:50:09.960 In three days.

06:50:12.080 Wednesday?

06:50:13.680 Thursday?

06:50:16.520 Okay.

06:50:16.920 Uh, it is Thursday.

06:50:18.820 If you have three quarters, how much money do you have?

06:50:22.240 75 cents.

06:50:23.420 How many, hold on.

06:50:26.180 How many nickels, got to pronounce it that properly, make a dollar.

06:50:30.440 50?

06:50:31.780 I'm an Asian that can't do math.

06:50:36.500 No, me too, girl.

06:50:40.300 Wait, hold on, I have a button for this.

06:50:42.120 A nickel is, like, worth a, one cent, right?

06:50:45.580 You're, you're an Asian.

06:50:46.860 I'm just kidding, I'm just kidding.

06:50:48.340 Well, you're half white, so.

06:50:49.260 Yeah.

06:50:49.820 I guess we can blame.

06:50:51.900 Let's blame Germany.

06:50:52.980 Uh, how many, so what's the answer?

06:50:55.860 50, you said?

06:50:56.660 50 nickels?

06:50:57.640 Make a dollar?

06:51:01.820 Is it not?

06:51:02.980 20.

06:51:04.100 20.

06:51:04.780 There you go.

06:51:05.800 That.

06:51:06.100 What is 50% of 200?

06:51:12.420 You.

06:51:13.280 I know.

06:51:13.920 Oh, okay, okay, okay.

06:51:14.760 She's thinking.

06:51:15.780 I thought you didn't hear, okay.

06:51:19.540 Pass?

06:51:20.060 No, no, no, no, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, hold on.

06:51:22.160 Guess.

06:51:23.320 50% of 200?

06:51:24.720 Yeah.

06:51:25.700 100.

06:51:26.780 Why did you pass that?

06:51:27.940 I don't know.

06:51:29.060 Pass?

06:51:29.660 Now I'm worried about what I'm going to say.

06:51:31.340 I know.

06:51:31.860 10% of 100.

06:51:33.680 10.

06:51:35.120 Uh, 5 times 5?

06:51:36.940 25.

06:51:38.320 Into the mics if you can.

06:51:39.420 12 divide by 3?

06:51:40.940 4.

06:51:41.980 100 divide by 4?

06:51:44.560 25.

06:51:46.020 15 plus 35?

06:51:51.620 50.

06:51:52.940 Final answer?

06:51:54.040 Yes.

06:51:54.600 Correct.

06:51:56.820 90 minus, uh, what is 90 minus 45?

06:51:59.560 90 minus 45 is 45.

06:52:03.100 Final answer?

06:52:04.180 Yes.

06:52:04.620 You are correct.

06:52:05.740 Uh, how many, oh, fuck, wait.

06:52:08.780 Hold on one sec, boys.

06:52:10.940 Okay, we're still good.

06:52:12.680 Uh, wait.

06:52:14.040 I ordered pizza for everybody, so.

06:52:16.860 Thanks.

06:52:17.620 Uh, okay.

06:52:18.460 Um.

06:52:19.200 The Birkin.

06:52:20.520 How many branches of the U.S. government are there?

06:52:25.580 Three.

06:52:26.840 Name one branch of the U.S. government.

06:52:28.820 Executive.

06:52:29.560 Legislative.

06:52:30.480 Judicial.

06:52:31.920 What document begins with, we the people?

06:52:39.080 The.

06:52:40.280 You probably had to do this for your citizenship.

06:52:45.580 Real.

06:52:46.340 The Constitution.

06:52:48.520 Is it the Constitution?

06:52:50.720 Declaration.

06:52:51.560 Are you guys sure about that?

06:52:53.200 Yeah.

06:52:54.080 Declaration of Independence.

06:52:56.020 Bill of Rights.

06:52:56.660 It could be the Bill of Rights.

06:53:00.340 It could be the Gettysburg Address.

06:53:02.640 I was going to say Bill of Rights.

06:53:03.260 Who really knows?

06:53:04.720 Who really knows?

06:53:05.580 Declaration of Independence.

06:53:06.760 The first document.

06:53:07.920 Declaration of Independence.

06:53:09.000 It could be a rap from a rap song.

06:53:15.680 Dr. Seuss.

06:53:16.800 It could be from Dr. Seuss.

06:53:18.200 That's my song.

06:53:18.760 It could be Harry Potter.

06:53:19.880 Sam I am.

06:53:20.560 Okay.

06:53:21.520 How many stars are on the U.S. flag?

06:53:24.460 Oh, 50.

06:53:25.620 What century are we in for Lisa?

06:53:28.800 20th.

06:53:30.480 Final answer.

06:53:31.440 21st.

06:53:32.940 Okay.

06:53:33.420 You know what?

06:53:36.780 If you get it wrong, I get to continue with you.

06:53:39.840 What galaxy do we live in, Lisa?

06:53:43.020 In the universe.

06:53:46.060 We do live in the universe.

06:53:48.300 But what galaxy specifically do we live in?

06:53:57.260 The candy bar.

06:53:58.440 Andromeda?

06:54:04.440 Are we in Andromeda?

06:54:07.200 Here.

06:54:07.500 Multiple choice.

06:54:08.400 Andromeda.

06:54:12.500 Wait.

06:54:13.000 Hold on.

06:54:13.480 Hold on.

06:54:14.240 It's on the top.

06:54:15.400 Oh, my God.

06:54:15.840 I can't believe.

06:54:20.100 There's another one.

06:54:22.060 Anybody know any other galaxy names?

06:54:25.140 Fuck.

06:54:25.480 Wait.

06:54:26.220 Andromeda.

06:54:26.420 Black hole.

06:54:28.440 It's on the tip of my tongue.

06:54:29.360 I just had it.

06:54:34.940 Okay.

06:54:38.080 Blank dud.

06:54:41.520 Fill in the blank.

06:54:42.500 Blank dud.

06:54:47.920 Maybe that's too hard.

06:54:49.020 It's a chocolate candy.

06:54:50.480 The candy bar.

06:54:51.600 She's so bad.

06:54:53.220 Is it even a drink in here?

06:54:56.420 I think so.

06:54:56.920 It does.

06:54:57.400 It does.

06:54:57.780 It does.

06:54:58.440 I'm Canadian.

06:54:59.520 We don't get this.

06:55:02.400 What do cows make?

06:55:11.740 Milk dud.

06:55:12.880 Babies.

06:55:13.800 Milk dud.

06:55:15.280 The milk dud galaxy?

06:55:18.540 Milkway.

06:55:19.740 Milkway.

06:55:20.360 There you go.

06:55:20.820 Yes.

06:55:21.140 The milkway galaxy.

06:55:22.480 The milkway.

06:55:23.080 There you go.

06:55:23.740 There you go.

06:55:24.300 That was too easy of a hint.

06:55:25.380 Milkway.

06:55:25.980 The hint was too good.

06:55:27.880 Let's see.

06:55:28.980 How many in one dozen?

06:55:31.780 Twelve.

06:55:33.440 How many months in a decade?

06:55:36.700 Months in a decade?

06:55:37.920 Mm-hmm.

06:55:42.120 120.

06:55:43.600 Final answer?

06:55:44.360 Yes.

06:55:45.880 You're correct.

06:55:46.880 Congratulations.

06:55:48.900 Let's see.

06:55:49.520 What year was the U.S.

06:55:50.860 What year was the U.S. founded?

06:56:03.560 Does any of you know this?

06:56:05.700 Yes.

06:56:06.700 Hey, Nathan.

06:56:07.480 Can you head?

06:56:08.620 Yeah.

06:56:10.700 Pass?

06:56:11.480 Pass.

06:56:11.860 1776.

06:56:14.040 Final answer?

06:56:15.260 In August, actually.

06:56:16.660 Ooh.

06:56:17.000 Nice.

06:56:18.160 Congrats.

06:56:18.840 Fucking legend.

06:56:19.800 Yeah.

06:56:20.320 All right.

06:56:22.660 Not July 4th.

06:56:24.960 What?

06:56:25.540 This is for Lisa.

06:56:28.800 What country did the U.S. gain its independence from?

06:56:36.540 I think it was France or England.

06:56:41.860 Which one of the two?

06:56:50.800 If you had to lean.

06:56:51.860 I think France.

06:56:55.940 No, it was England.

06:56:58.140 My face.

06:56:58.980 I got the terrible poker face.

06:57:00.460 Okay.

06:57:02.060 Yes, England.

06:57:03.720 England.

06:57:06.220 The United States gained its independence from France,

06:57:09.060 and then France gave us the statue.

06:57:13.980 What an interesting turn of events.

06:57:17.060 All right.

06:57:18.060 Who was the first president of the U.S.A.?

06:57:23.260 George Washington.

06:57:24.160 What country is the Great Wall of China in?

06:57:33.840 The Great Wall of China?

06:57:35.220 What country is it in?

06:57:36.840 China.

06:57:38.020 Are you sure?

06:57:39.500 Final answer.

06:57:41.320 You are correct.

06:57:42.480 How many inches in a foot?

06:57:43.480 12.

06:57:45.360 12.

06:57:46.360 How many seasons are there?

06:57:48.200 Four.

06:57:49.160 How many days in a year?

06:57:50.920 365.

06:57:52.100 Unless it's a leap year.

06:57:53.000 How many letters in the alphabet?

06:57:55.720 28 or 27.

06:57:57.760 Or 26.

06:57:59.060 One of those three.

06:58:00.160 Which one?

06:58:08.240 Which one of those three?

06:58:13.120 Can I, like, count on my fingers?

06:58:15.980 Are you going to recite the alphabet right now?

06:58:18.980 My head.

06:58:19.980 Yeah, yeah, go ahead.

06:58:20.740 I also, while you're...

06:58:23.000 Say it out loud, though.

06:58:24.020 Yeah.

06:58:24.540 Say the alphabet.

06:58:26.000 Yeah.

06:58:26.760 Welcome back to kindergarten.

06:58:27.900 A-B-C-D-E-F-T-H-I-J-K-L-M-N-O-P-Q-R-S-T-U-B-W-X-Y-N-C.

06:58:41.260 26.

06:58:42.080 26.

06:58:42.720 Also, can you read the first few pages of...

06:58:45.180 That's my favorite book.

06:58:46.500 ...of that book for us?

06:58:47.720 Yeah.

06:58:48.800 Okay.

06:58:49.780 Green Eggs and Ham.

06:58:55.740 I am Sam.

06:58:57.900 I am Sam.

06:59:00.520 Sam, I am.

06:59:03.080 That Sam, I am.

06:59:04.600 That Sam, I am.

06:59:05.640 I do not like that Sam, I am.

06:59:08.540 Do you like green eggs?

06:59:11.260 Green Eggs and Ham?

06:59:13.300 I do not like them, Sam, I am.

06:59:15.740 I do not like Green Eggs and Ham.

06:59:18.100 Would you like them here or there?

06:59:21.020 I would not like them here or there.

06:59:23.600 I would not like them anywhere.

06:59:25.380 I do not like Green Eggs and Ham.

06:59:27.180 can i keep that it's your favorite book you don't already own it i lost it when i was moving

06:59:35.280 we'll see do you have cash on you i'll sell it to you i have a hundred dollars you'll take it or

06:59:39.420 leave it deal go get your hundred dollars i'll give you the book oh wow you better sign it for

06:59:45.440 i'll sign it i'll sign so now you have to make it out like a bandit i oh she's getting her head

06:59:50.460 that's for sure you should give it to her free imagine that this is no hey a deal's a deal sam

07:00:00.120 wow guys she actually gave me a hundred dollars i'm not gonna lie i found out when i got out of

07:00:07.420 the airport no really nice hey she's paying it for hell yeah see i come out of this uh little come

07:00:13.640 up there thank you sam uh remind me come come get the book for me after the show i'll hook you up

07:00:18.460 and i'll sign it too thank you i'll sign it too um you're welcome all right let's see where where

07:00:23.800 did we leave off sam i am on the abc uh how oh how many letters okay how many days of the week

07:00:29.380 and with the letter y all of them hold on oh shit wait one sec oh we're good okay seven yes correct

07:00:38.240 what language do the people in idaho speak english what ocean is california next to pacific

07:00:46.800 uh oh the foods here um we're pretty close to the end you guys want the food now or should we just

07:00:56.000 wait until just me oh sorry i don't want to decide who by the way who wants some pizza maybe i should

07:01:01.360 have asked this before i need about gg i drink oh shit i don't know if there's enough slices i won't

07:01:06.820 have a slice i don't need one but well we'll see we'll i'm sure we'll figure it out but okay wait uh

07:01:14.520 oh my god i'm fucking tipsy um same lightweight uh poquito what the fuck how many years how many

07:01:25.860 are in a decade 10 how many are in a century 100 if a dozen eggs costs three dollars how much is each

07:01:36.100 egg lisa um like 12 cents 25 i didn't even hear the question wait why do you say the wrong one

07:01:50.440 right after i think she'd like you gotta say the right one first she's the type to erase the

07:02:01.300 i'm making indy to do one donation so we can get him going because he's he's almost there you go

07:02:07.960 yeah oh yeah yeah honestly uh let's see what is the club i'm sorry lisa i got if you get it wrong i

07:02:15.420 get to ask you again what is the closest star to earth you know this no just let her let her

07:02:26.560 think don't try to distract her it's some star it is that is true it is some star but which star

07:02:41.580 is it the name of the star that is closest to earth

07:02:47.140 i'll pass i'll give you a hint i'm gonna help i'll give you a hint okay um hmm

07:03:02.720 it's i don't know if that's too much of a hint uh three letters

07:03:11.020 like that's four letters north star something north star

07:03:23.440 um okay do you do you want kids

07:03:37.780 yes okay how many daughters do you want maybe two how many sons do you want one okay

07:03:49.380 whenever you're ready

07:03:59.680 lisa come on you got this you got this okay this might be like too niche but if you know the song

07:04:09.740 it's going to instantly give it to you uh eddie vetter covered a song called hard blank

07:04:16.580 hard blank that's probably not going to be helpful no okay well how about black hole

07:04:23.980 oh that's a good one black hole uh what's the band it's uh stone temple pilots sound garden wait

07:04:31.460 yeah sound garden yeah yes uh getting my grunge bands fucking mixed up uh here i'm gonna let the

07:04:37.180 tts come in think about it lisa you fucking got this

07:04:39.940 strike lord donated two hundred dollars oh thank you couple more bucks nl been watching the show for

07:04:45.640 years currently on pilgrimage at the dutch pilgrim from netherlands to portugal on foot

07:04:51.240 nice so your show is getting me through thank you yeah no i saw the nl and i was like you must be dutch

07:04:57.060 by the way i don't like big cities but amsterdam is i actually really like amsterdam i've been there

07:05:02.100 three times so hey calvin y'all what's that that means i love you in dutch in calvin and yeah in dutch

07:05:10.400 in dutch yeah i see nice well uh yeah dutch are cool okay closest star to earth

07:05:20.380 the dutch okay more hints more hints it um

07:05:31.020 it's gonna be i feel like this might be too easy oh the wait do it again

07:05:41.880 you make me happy when skies are gray you never know are you so please don't take my

07:05:58.820 away can i try a hint please a hint yeah can i try one what you got it's the star you can't see at

07:06:07.800 night w

07:06:10.940 okay uh it rises that was really good a rising star

07:06:20.180 house of the rising it rises oh the the yeah house of the rising

07:06:27.840 blank

07:06:30.140 star oh no lisa come on lisa what's going on uh planets okay moon here i feel like this

07:06:39.780 this has to be a win for someone marry her i got this i got this moon rise

07:06:45.560 moon rise blank rise sunrise there you go all right she got it that's the closest start to earth

07:06:55.600 okay uh do you know what year the war of 1812 started for you 1812 you are correct back to lisa

07:07:03.400 since you failed that one uh what country is the panama panama canal in

07:07:08.740 panama well done lisa hey we got we we got to take a victory where we can take a victory uh where did the attack

07:07:19.720 on pearl harbor take place

07:07:23.380 hawaii you are correct what is 34 plus 66 lisa

07:07:28.380 well done lisa guys give it let's i need to see w's in the chat for lisa

07:07:42.680 w's in the chat for lisa redeeming herself one question at a time let's go what country

07:07:48.520 did the vietnam war happen in

07:07:51.320 i don't know you don't know what the vietnam war what country did the vietnam war happen in

07:08:02.160 maybe vietnam maybe vietnam final answer it's a guess yeah it could what since you say maybe

07:08:09.700 could you tell us some other countries that maybe could be okay uh what is 100 minus 66

07:08:17.620 34 how much is a quarter of an hour 15 minutes what is 100 minus 34

07:08:26.860 66 who is the current u.s president

07:08:31.880 lisa trump there we go i gotta get i gotta give her a couple w's uh who was the u.s president before

07:08:43.680 trump gg joe biden before joe biden trump before trump

07:08:51.780 um

07:09:03.240 you want to hit no because i feel like i know it

07:09:11.420 you got this you got this gg is g what's is it short for something like gianna gianna or something

07:09:18.720 no it's just it's actually your legal name on your driver's license is gg yes

07:09:24.480 but you have like a uh a chinese name i do but my chinese name used to be the legal name but then i

07:09:32.700 got it legally changed to gg gotcha okay uh president before trump term one obama yeah there

07:09:41.000 you go good job uh let's see name oh we already just did that uh what is 77 plus 33

07:09:48.100 77 plus 33 is 100 uh final answer 100 100 100 yes do you agree 100 is it is it 100

07:10:00.760 hey yeah stop that huh what disagree i think it's 110

07:10:04.320 i'm lit it is 100 uh 66 plus 44 i don't do okay if you were born 10 years ago hey lisa where are you

07:10:18.800 going lisa i got more questions for you i got more questions uh if you're born 10 years ago lisa

07:10:26.900 how old would you be today 16

07:10:30.800 16

07:10:30.840 no 10 years ago yeah what's yeah because how old are you now 26 20 and what year were you born

07:10:47.320 1999 right so we got to do the math so if you were born 10 years ago

07:10:51.720 how old would you be today if we just do the math because like 36 now born 20 you said 2000

07:11:02.960 25 1999 99 that's kind of that's kind of dope year to be born like you just made it

07:11:10.620 before the millennium you know but like if you were born 10 years ago i know this one

07:11:18.560 question if you uh yeah if you were born 10 years ago how old would you be today

07:11:25.500 of course you must factor in that you're 26

07:11:31.140 oh 99 you got to think you got to factor that in

07:11:37.840 what are you looking at

07:11:45.780 10 years ago from today you were born

07:11:58.280 oh it would be into the mic a little closer to the mic a little closer to the mic a little closer

07:12:05.320 to the mic your age minus 10 yeah so 16 right now

07:12:11.340 not cool lisa

07:12:14.820 wait how about this let's say you were born in 1990

07:12:19.940 how old how old did i feel like this how would you be 10 how old would you be wait you're born in

07:12:26.760 1999 oh my god this is so never right

07:12:28.780 so today is march 1st let's yeah go ahead gg if you were born 10 years ago on march 1st how old would

07:12:39.420 you be today like 1st march 9 uh 2015 16 2016 yeah

07:12:48.420 are you sure you want to homeschool your children

07:12:54.120 get like a an assistant maybe or like an aide

07:12:59.360 lisa well you don't think she'll homeschool drunk

07:13:04.320 i think i would

07:13:08.080 okay does anybody not know the answer

07:13:12.160 if you were born 10 years ago how old would you be today

07:13:17.160 me yeah you i'd be like 10 or 11

07:13:23.160 because you're 21 right yeah i'm turning 22 this year but if you were let's say you're 30 how old would

07:13:30.040 you be if you're born 10 years ago i'd be 20

07:13:33.800 no

07:13:35.740 19

07:13:38.640 bless your hearts if you were 70 if uh say you're 70

07:13:44.400 uh but you were born 10 years ago 60

07:13:48.560 are you fucking with us i'm i'm actually lit

07:13:52.720 so like numbers are not working in my brain oh shit okay um like genuinely give me a history

07:13:59.020 question maybe okay okay uh the answer is 10

07:14:02.300 for lisa and for you i'd be 10

07:14:05.520 i feel like i'm 10 if you

07:14:07.660 if you were born 10 years ago that means you were born 10 years ago so you don't want to be 10

07:14:14.380 does that make sense oh i get it now i'm understanding the question i was not understanding the question

07:14:20.140 uh how many we know blame indy guys everybody blame indy i am yeah honestly if i was sober i would

07:14:27.340 get this speaking of which he sent a message i'm so sorry uh chair six does java use a virtual

07:14:32.140 machine or compiler for you

07:14:34.780 compiler

07:14:38.780 i i have no idea

07:14:41.740 i'll take your word for it okay uh how many world wars were there two

07:14:47.840 okay what uh this is for everybody going around the table what decade was world war one so a decade

07:14:54.880 would be the 1850s the 1970s uh looking for the decade world war one

07:15:00.080 the 1860s 1860s okay what about you

07:15:05.280 the 20s 1820s oh no no no 18 1720s which 20s

07:15:16.400 because this is think about it no no no okay then it's the first world war so you got to like go

07:15:21.600 back you know 18

07:15:26.400 1860s 1860s 1860s 1860s 1910 19 19 the 19 teens 19 10 yeah 19 10 i guess 19 teens

07:15:35.120 that makes more 19 10s 19 10. what am i thinking about it is the 19 10s that i don't know

07:15:43.760 i don't know sammy i don't know

07:15:47.280 not sammy no hell no i just did no no no no no all right not saying unless you're close with me okay

07:15:54.720 okay what was the primary decade of world war ii

07:16:02.400 oh world war one happened during the 1910s i thought it was the 1860s

07:16:09.440 it definitely happened after the 1860s we know that

07:16:12.160 um 1960s 1960s okay beatles time 1950s 1850s 1950s 1940s 1940s 30s

07:16:29.280 third primary decade okay started in the 30s and in the 40s okay yeah i think 1930s 1930s

07:16:35.920 uh 1930s 1939 what is when it started anyways uh okay uh primary yeah name one allied power and

07:16:48.080 one axis power from world war ii i'm gonna give you one so one allied power was the usa one axis

07:16:54.880 power was germany i'm looking for one of each can't can't repeat mine gg

07:17:02.480 allied would be britain okay one axis and then access did you say germany or i did say germany okay

07:17:15.760 so i'm looking for a different one um russia

07:17:20.880 britain's is an ally

07:17:41.280 nathan do you want to who wanted pizza i think we'll just start serving it out at the moment right

07:17:45.920 now just for if you want to start putting them on plates and just passing them iran iran no

07:17:55.040 was that even a country

07:17:57.760 yep was it okay uh

07:18:06.560 japan for access power yeah and another allied power i thought we already named all three allied

07:18:12.400 didn't we well there's more there were more than the three there's more than three uh did we say

07:18:16.800 france yet we did yes france the uk america um boy howdy i don't even know one paper towel per plate

07:18:27.680 also uh okay who here watches listens to k-pop anybody fuck no lisa are you a k-pop

07:18:34.000 no no no okay no no no why is that we don't even like we don't like asian men first of all

07:18:45.360 i was pointing everywhere okay and then you went like no no no uh okay uh lisa no i'm just kidding

07:18:52.960 name three kardashians kim carly did you say carly carly which one's that she's hannah montana half

07:19:05.840 the time i'm curious wait wait hold on wait wait wait repeat it sorry kim chloe and uh carl

07:19:22.960 okay yeah you can you can keep uh if you guys could just reach back and start grabbing them

07:19:30.320 and passing them maybe pass them down just so it's a little easier i'm down uh you can also bring them

07:19:37.600 over to me nate and i can pass um go ahead okay uh we have a few more no i'm good i'm good uh wait one

07:19:48.400 two three four five six seven okay so boom boom boom boom yeah behind you if you can grab

07:19:58.240 uh okay hold on how would you feel i honestly don't want to eat but i know i need to i can't it

07:20:06.480 looks delicious so thank you you probably shouldn't eat to be honest shouldn't shouldn't do you have a

07:20:12.320 salad for me then i i got watermelon i got applesauce for you oh that actually sounds really good give

07:20:19.120 you some applesauce can i get some applesauce can i feed you the applesauce i can't eat the pizza

07:20:26.080 get your minds out of the gutter hey i didn't even mean it like oh okay like here comes the airplane

07:20:31.920 kind of thing it actually comes in like this weird tube contraption oh that's how i drink my protein

07:20:38.080 shakes okay there you go all right um let's see uh sorry guys we're getting the pizza passed out for

07:20:45.360 our hungry guests here she doesn't pass can you guys pat can you guys pass i can't oh i'm fasting

07:20:56.800 you're a bodybuilder right yeah can we see the double bicep that's beautiful yeah oh

07:21:02.560 shit again sorry i missed it again wow wow damn congrats yeah back in the day i'm scared it smells

07:21:11.920 so good uh let's see here uh okay here we go i found the next part yeah but it's free that makes

07:21:23.840 it taste better um does it not always eat it for me that new york water let me be vicarious through

07:21:30.560 you did anybody see like a light no no no i thought i sounded like a weird i always see a light

07:21:38.880 uh you always see a light all right i think that's it can i get some applesauce though

07:21:45.280 wait yeah where's the applesauce please we'll give you guys after the show how about that okay

07:21:49.360 okay this is kind of complicated uh put it in the refrigerator nathan if you can all right

07:21:53.520 what percent of men and just be wary i'm gonna go around on this so don't take a bite quite yet

07:22:01.280 or well i mean just time it properly if you can what percent of men do you think are over six feet

07:22:08.480 two okay 15 like one percent not enough um because you're six feet

07:22:17.760 i thought you said 15 earlier in the show maybe i did less than two percent less than two i'll say

07:22:25.840 15 that sounds about right like one percent okay i think it's like less than one percent oh

07:22:33.120 shit it's pizza's made will you tell us 15 who said the pizza's bad you said it's bad

07:22:40.960 i said it's mid mid mid motherfucker what the what the fuck oh no i'm sorry go get the rest of your

07:22:50.720 cash i want the rest of you got all of it unless you want two dollars you're of them on me um okay so

07:22:56.880 uh let's see here okay okay uh what percentage of men make at least one million dollars a year one

07:23:07.200 one two point five at less than one in dollars no in indian rupees

07:23:20.640 maybe like one percent or less than five i'll guess point seven percent

07:23:24.080 um something percent what kind of medications are you taking lisa

07:23:35.600 you've gone to the bathroom a couple times i don't know um does that does that medication does it

07:23:43.520 affect with your brain it makes it worse

07:23:46.080 yeah okay there we go that makes sense less than one percent okay what percent of what's the answer

07:23:54.880 don't worry about it what percent of men have yachts oh into the mic

07:24:02.880 two two percent of men less than one percent i'm gonna say two i'm gonna say two okay what about you

07:24:10.080 less than one less than one less than one less than one um less than one definitely less than one

07:24:19.600 okay uh oh what's it that's gonna

07:24:24.400 indy said both you should get a refund wait damn i should get a refund

07:24:29.120 wait i'm confused what is this in reference to yeah me refund for what the book

07:24:42.000 he should get my hundred dollars back he just paid for it exactly

07:24:46.880 indy loves me what the fuck indy

07:24:51.040 indy i love you if that's what you mean uh let's see

07:24:53.760 uh do any of you thank you leo on your phone of all the men you've been with no no no i did for

07:25:02.480 the show you have it you have it uh what's your phone nathan will grab it for you do

07:25:09.040 no no list lisa list no list no list no list okay well yours would be easy it's one person i'll tell

07:25:15.920 i'll say all the names though did you find it nathan

07:25:23.760 they're all big black i love big black bricks

07:25:30.320 i'm getting saucy that pizza's so mid you had two pieces on what no this is the first one okay okay

07:25:37.040 question uh have you ever had a roster show of hands

07:25:40.080 roster dating multiple men at the same time okay have you ever slept i'll answer this question

07:25:48.400 have you ever slept with someone the same day you met them yes i i have i have gg no not even your

07:25:55.840 boyfriend no okay no really no cammy no no neat yet neat neat yeah neat no what hell no no really

07:26:07.920 really that was your ex that you did that yeah that was my ex yeah okay that was that's a recycle

07:26:19.760 then uh exactly no really for really first like uh okay no no yes no no damn we're the only honest

07:26:34.560 ones here at the table hey she okay i'm not proud of it but i'm being honest how about this what's the

07:26:41.760 quickest you've ever slept with someone i'll be honest it was probably

07:26:52.400 under an hour does it count whoa does it count if i knew the person prior then like met up with them

07:27:01.360 and then did it like we had no like relation before that it was just like friends but you didn't

07:27:09.920 meet them that day like okay so me okay no that's why i'm just trying to understand the circumstances

07:27:16.080 so that's why i'm trying to i'm trying to see from your point of view like well how quick was that one

07:27:20.960 like he drove to me four hours damn and does mine still count if i knew the person online

07:27:28.960 beforehand nine years prior but then we we just started talking girls here drive four hours for

07:27:35.520 some dick yeah he drove four hours on everything i don't even want to drive 30 minutes for driving

07:27:43.760 four hours when i leave here 30 minutes is too much of a drive for me okay he lived in miami yeah

07:27:49.760 joshua tree four hours uh your list what did you want on it i i guess do you want to just read i

07:27:55.600 assume you just put the name i know the names in my first name don't do last name first name

07:28:00.640 into the mic please yeah no last name you just want the first names did you include other details

07:28:05.280 like i don't know you put their fucking what their penis size or something can i look

07:28:10.240 oh she oh she's like yo i know him i know him

07:28:16.800 no she she has some details but let's just do the name first names like oh he's okay sure okay

07:28:24.000 indy from the chat josh dane sean jake matt john brandon sam matt she's just naming disciples

07:28:36.000 that was the most

07:28:41.120 same day basic yeah there's some white boys me too though there wasn't like a

07:28:46.560 fucking brayden in there or like a tyrone or anything exactly there wasn't like a they were all white

07:28:54.560 like yeah like a uh i don't know i'm trying to think of whatever okay uh

07:29:00.640 uh quickest you slept with somebody six months six months how your boyfriend

07:29:10.080 three weeks three no genuinely

07:29:18.480 no i'm serious i talked to him for three weeks after that then that's when we did anything

07:29:24.640 oh my god i'm so sick look me in the eye and tell me

07:29:33.040 my body cow is not

07:29:42.000 okay okay all right what about you quickest three months sammy

07:29:50.880 bullshit bullshit i swear three months three months my first boyfriend get out your bible for

07:29:59.280 her to swear on you're a fucking liar i i will i will actually swear on it no way come on that's

07:30:03.520 crazy i've never slept with anyone all right quickest week i don't even remember months it's been a

07:30:10.080 long time i think a little over a month just to clarify i talked to this person online for a

07:30:16.240 while beforehand but about like nine hours okay lisa i don't know you forgot were you on your

07:30:25.360 no medication when it happened all right what about you i don't know like maybe two weeks okay but i

07:30:36.800 married uh has anyone here just show of hands anyone here ever had a threesome

07:30:40.480 no more than a threesome no no okay all right uh we already talked about the hose ho face stuff

07:30:50.480 has anyone here ever hooked up with two guys in a 24 hour period yeah we know that three guys 24 hour

07:31:00.240 hour period uh how um 15 minutes

07:31:06.800 wait 15 minutes remember i told you the uber ride home was the dude finished uber rod back to

07:31:12.320 the 15 minutes between that was the yeah the time maybe maybe 30 because i did spend a little time with

07:31:17.600 my ex yeah just cut him up yeah i missed him not anymore but oh okay here we go um is it gay

07:31:25.360 for a man to date a trans woman yes yes yes yes indeed cammy i don't think so you don't think so no

07:31:37.040 so if you saw that's a man let's say you saw two people and they both had penises and you saw one of

07:31:45.680 them s-ing the d of the other oh look at this base trad wife almost uh okay you saw two people

07:32:00.080 engaging in sexual intercourse but they both had penises but one of them during the intercourse

07:32:07.440 yells out at you sees you because you're a voyeur or some by the way i identify as a woman

07:32:17.200 was that a heterosexual act do they look like a woman besides from the penis they have

07:32:23.920 a wig poorly done makeup and fake titties

07:32:28.000 i don't think it's gay do you have implants look big enough for it i mean you do have fake

07:32:39.440 you do have fake uh okay never mind um so okay what it so it's it's straight i yeah i don't think it's

07:32:47.840 gay but i feel like what is that i feel like a lot of my exes would argue you stole her you stole

07:32:56.960 somebody you stole her food it's okay oh i'm so sorry there's bananas back there if you're looking

07:33:04.320 for i hate bananas oh okay i only like real bananas girl oh exactly

07:33:13.680 oh you know what i mean but no we got it it's a girl it's girl talk now uh just not yellow

07:33:20.800 uh we are going to do each other's hair soon we're going to do hers what what is a woman

07:33:25.440 someone who densifies as a woman yeah but you can't use the board and the definition yeah so

07:33:37.680 yeah that's a circular definition oh boy what is that vagina xx chromosome are you talking about

07:33:44.640 biological if biological then yes xy what is a woman what then you said um biologically xy chromosomes with

07:33:55.120 a vagina okay so wait if you have the question if you said that a woman is someone who identifies as a

07:34:06.960 woman if i came up to you and said i identify as vietnamese would that be okay no why is that not

07:34:16.080 okay but the other one is because race is different why

07:34:23.200 personally i don't care what people identify as in terms of their sexuality that but that doesn't

07:34:31.120 answer my question why is race different because race is what like your parents are born as what you

07:34:40.480 and and you're racist yes what if they can change themselves they can't they're still gonna have

07:34:48.480 the same dna and the same biological yeah even if they whack it off they're still okay well then can

07:34:54.560 i say that if they identify as a female do they do you not consider them as a female though absolutely

07:35:01.280 not no no just like in thailand they they they they're like they're you know they yeah yeah it's

07:35:07.520 a totally separate thing and same in the philippines like they do the same thing but they make it known

07:35:11.760 that they're still a guy at the end of the day yeah so female is binary i'm not saying like don't go

07:35:18.080 into a relationship or approach a man without like the consensus of telling them who you actually are

07:35:24.640 because i feel like they deserve to know that part as well but biologically that's what makes them a

07:35:29.920 man biologically yes but why is it okay to you to choose a gender but not choose a race what well

07:35:38.480 because i don't if someone feels like they identify as a certain sex i it's not my business i feel like

07:35:46.320 i'm a black queen tonight i want to be american does that mean i'm american or am i still canadian

07:35:53.440 yeah i really want to be here's my point though i would not say that i'm vietnamese or chinese or

07:35:59.920 black or anything like that because it's not just what you're born as it's what you earn through how

07:36:05.280 people treat you through what you go through through your life through those specific instances it's the

07:36:10.800 same thing as a female if a if a male comes to me and says like oh my cramps for my period anybody

07:36:17.520 here who's had cramps would go yo that ain't right that ain't yeah like i understand where you're

07:36:22.720 comforting but my perspective is just how people want to identify if it's none of my business

07:36:27.680 like if someone comes in the restroom like i will not feel comfortable if a trans

07:36:34.400 like if they just come in the restroom i don't feel comfortable maybe they claim and they did

07:36:39.760 everything but i i like lily tino i don't feel comfortable my aunt is in the locker room or my aunt

07:36:45.680 is like completely like she's lesbian she dresses up like a guy but she still uses the women's bathroom you

07:36:50.640 know she only like you know wears a binder yeah just yeah not even a binder sports bra you know

07:36:56.240 just to make it look like she has less and just and just to be clear i have people that i love dearly

07:37:01.200 that are trans i love them dearly okay and that's part of why i think this discussion needs to be had

07:37:06.960 too because if anybody here knows somebody who's trans it is expensive it is painful it is multiple

07:37:14.400 surgeries it is money um the female to male have to go through hrt for their entire lives it is a huge

07:37:24.000 huge commitment that is painful your hormones constantly fluctuate you get the and it's not

07:37:30.160 just outside sources it's going through that process so so just

07:37:35.200 to what end well even after all the surgeries and hormones and stuff like that they're still not

07:37:44.720 men at the end of the day they're still not men oh sorry they're still not women my bad or either

07:37:51.120 or either or i mean depending on which way they turn it yeah yeah no either way are we doing this

07:37:55.600 or are we actually doing this to cut my hair well i actually have some that haven't been on my head

07:38:00.720 in my purse do you want me to grab one of those can you read this gg yes do you want me to grab one

07:38:05.040 i didn't wait wait hold on guys i don't care wait wait quiet please sorry trick question java uses both

07:38:10.960 a virtual machine and compiler cs101 chair six should get a refund on a degree or two oh your response

07:38:21.680 to in uh indy i mean that was a tricky question like i don't even understand what he wanted to ask

07:38:29.760 me java uses compiler that was a statement yeah java virtual machine yeah but it's not virtual

07:38:36.000 machine is completely different it's it's virtual machine can be a virtual machine he didn't say java

07:38:41.680 virtual machine chat can someone else super chat and be the deciding answer vm vm is a completely

07:38:49.200 different thing than java in a virtual machine look at those shitty ass scissors these are good

07:38:54.800 these are this is scotch i don't give up damn these will get the job done no they will not

07:39:00.720 of course they'll get the job done and if they don't you had some like fabric scissors or something

07:39:04.800 at least those will work that's what i used to cut my hair now i want now i'm willing to give you a uh

07:39:14.880 uh white side he's trying to get out of it give you an out don't let him do it okay but how you

07:39:22.560 just blew all your all your shaving it regardless he's just trying he's just trying to not do it

07:39:28.880 somebody can save you okay within the next 10 minutes or five minutes chat we want this one ethereum

07:39:36.800 one ethereum yeah no one loves her to save her no one's gonna listen if a guy you're not balling

07:39:44.800 none of you are going to take a bullet he's not gonna give money i'm sorry i'm sorry none of them

07:39:48.960 are balling if any of them are balling what number episode are you up to at this point uh 284 imagine

07:39:56.000 being the first person in almost 300 episodes to do something but if we do get what what is it you said

07:40:02.080 one ethereum one ethereum so like ethereum equals a tick tock universe in my eyes so um if we do get

07:40:09.200 that i will not shave my head but if we don't ask the eight ball if you should do it and indy it indy do

07:40:18.080 you consent i don't know if indy's still watching but he oh he's i can't indy i know you're balling

07:40:24.080 screw over yo you just blue balled all of them no no no it's okay it's okay and all of us

07:40:30.480 if i get it or not shaving my head regardless indy tonight i guess indy would have to consent to

07:40:38.480 this arrangement because uh just saying he's gonna it's gonna make the episode title a lie i'll allow

07:40:46.000 like five minutes to come in i don't know if you guys finished off the convo about like

07:40:50.160 the trans thing or whatever but um yeah i don't know i thought i maybe had a couple notes about the

07:40:57.280 trans thing uh yeah i don't know

07:41:06.240 i i almost wonder is it like because you're a little tipsy right just a little bit i feel like

07:41:12.160 you know it's like she gave consent before i did before i even drank yeah i did because i am actually

07:41:18.560 doing it like for my whole like okay i was at a party in brooklyn where a guy genuinely asked he he was

07:41:24.560 getting to know a girl and he was really really into her and they got home and they started hooking

07:41:29.680 up and he found out it was a guy and he still went through with it and enjoyed it now my friend my

07:41:35.840 other friend dex shout out dex at that party said here's the deal if you're a vegetarian and you think

07:41:41.280 you're eating a hot dog that's vegetarian and it and you've turns out it's a meat hot dog if you never

07:41:47.360 have a meat hot dog again you're still a vegetarian but if you start craving that beef you're not a vegetarian

07:41:53.440 anymore i would think that and when a guy found out it was another guy he would like

07:42:02.320 have you ever known a guy in that moment only if they're really straight i mean i've actually dated

07:42:08.560 men who would say they would be okay with it same yeah one of my exes yeah you're in brooklyn no kidding

07:42:16.560 they're gay i'm actually not in brooklyn i'm just from there yeah then they're just gay

07:42:20.560 i don't live there anymore are you still in the city no i don't want to talk to you florida oh oh

07:42:28.400 well just because my friend how are you america's armpit

07:42:31.680 how are you so pale living in florida because i don't i don't go outside i live stream all day

07:42:37.440 wait you live in florida or new york i live in florida now oh okay i show but i'm born and raised in

07:42:43.440 new york so i'm gonna ask the chat that sucks i thought we were gonna party after this i was

07:42:48.320 gonna invite i am going to new york after this though for real for real let's but i only go to

07:42:53.360 new york for raves how about a freestyle hip-hop battle i judge them every i only do i only do like um

07:43:02.080 like fruity bars if you understand what i mean that could have been i know fruity loops i don't know

07:43:08.640 fruity bars oh okay very good there you go oh it is definitely yeah shout out secret port it is

07:43:16.080 definitely well it's not just a gay bar it's an everybody bar but yeah you would love it there's

07:43:21.440 yeah well i went to school in manhattan so it's in brooklyn bedside oh i went can gg do it no i i

07:43:30.080 have to do it come on brian but i need you to buzz it oh she cuts she can cut but you need a

07:43:37.040 you need a buzz okay i'll buzz that's fair that's fine okay okay i'm down deal's a deal teamwork makes

07:43:42.320 the dream work thank you uh just don't get it on her jacket yeah do we have a towel i think we're

07:43:48.880 just gonna just flip your head up i think we're just gonna have to vacuum that won't be like the

07:43:52.960 position you have a sweatshirt i could wear over this because i'm not trying to get hair the arby

07:43:57.760 shirt oh yeah paper towels um i'm sure we could find uh you put the arby shirt around your shoulders

07:44:03.520 hold on i'll be right back you guys talk i don't want to can i come up with you what

07:44:10.080 i don't want to wear this while i get my hair cut so it's a real banana this is this is expensive

07:44:18.560 it looks cheap but it's expensive for some reason aritzia guys oh you know hey chat isn't lisa the

07:44:25.840 cutest thing ever someone wife this up adorable yes i love it i love the highlighter yeah so good

07:44:31.360 thank you ben in deutsch she looks like the angel with the highlighter and why is he walking up the

07:44:38.080 stairs like because he's a g no he's just like that look i'm getting a glow yeah

07:44:43.600 you're supposed to be the sweet one never i didn't say you we know better

07:44:59.680 we already figured out your trouble

07:45:02.880 well you wouldn't know until you talk to me are you in the um extremely warm part of florida or more

07:45:07.760 okay no i'm in the middle not miami girl i never orlando area but i'm not in orlando there

07:45:16.960 just that area like no you want to move to california no i'm an hour north yeah like no

07:45:21.360 i told my husband my heart's in california and so expensive though oh i just i can't why are gas

07:45:26.720 prices for she lost all that wait for you take her to california canada is so much worse

07:45:31.760 florida's great i love florida and florida's great yeah my husband and i are actually going

07:45:37.040 to move there it's the beauty of new york move to mississippi mississippi it's too cold for my

07:45:41.760 husband the coast i'm walking up the stairs i'm fucking intoxicated i'm not trying to trip

07:45:50.960 over on the stairs i wasn't talking all right i got three options rage uh rage against the machine

07:45:57.280 the base i got the chat they don't rage anymore though they rage for the machine now pantera

07:46:05.360 and another cowboys from hell pantera shirt okay either the chat picks or you guys can pick for me

07:46:11.040 you pick i'm very yeah send in the super chats as number two she needs a man to decide for her

07:46:17.200 that's not a bad thing no white so black the second pantera or the first pantera he showed that one

07:46:21.840 cowboys from hell oh vulgar display of power what is the chat saying what is the chat saying

07:46:27.520 nope bad i like the vulgar display of power rage against the machine is kind of a little

07:46:32.720 woke i don't know yeah yeah they rage for the machine these days brian tom morello you suck

07:46:41.680 what's the chat saying

07:46:45.760 i genuinely want the chat to pick

07:46:49.840 i don't know pantera here do you'll do the red pick whatever you pick

07:46:53.280 do the red pantera one got you say less

07:46:57.440 all right

07:46:57.760 all right

07:47:01.680 why did we get her a shirt because i don't want to cut my hair and get it dirty

07:47:08.080 she doesn't want to get hair on her sweat yeah when you get hair on your it like it's itchy

07:47:11.760 you would know you're a god oh my god the homeless sweatshirt heaven forbid

07:47:16.480 she's just trying to make her money back after the book she's trying to get a little extra

07:47:21.920 are you still here indy all right so gg you're gonna cut

07:47:26.160 the hair and i will buzz

07:47:27.840 sounds good and then we'll probably have you uh you know what i'm gonna have you wait wait don't

07:47:34.640 sit down sam don't sit down you scoot chair over

07:47:40.960 then uh and then i'm almost thinking here let's do this sam why don't you

07:47:47.840 sit there and then gg why don't you stand up and you'll be behind her chat just be careful for that

07:47:54.160 camera behind you chat come up with some good ball jokes for the rose session oh

07:47:58.880 guys if you guys you guys are mean no i never pretended i wasn't okay wait wait wait we can

07:48:05.520 who is actually we gotta do a countdown we gotta do like a before and after picture oh yeah that's

07:48:10.160 a good point yeah before and after picture is the move i don't care wait wait wait wait for my

07:48:16.560 go ahead brian can you take a before and after picture when you go home people are gonna be like

07:48:20.400 what the ass wait wait wait wait wait one of my best friends i'm waiting i'm waiting i'm waiting

07:48:25.360 sued for sued for coercion no stop that don't are there any lawyers in the chat is this is there

07:48:32.560 not any legal liability here she brought it up first she brought it up she wants to do it she has

07:48:38.560 consent yeah i'll sign something if it's really that binding like you know i'll legally bind a sign

07:48:44.160 like a signature intoxicated now so it wouldn't matter that's a good point

07:48:49.520 she said it before she started drinking before yeah she did it before

07:48:53.840 it's an oral contract she shook somebody's hand on it she shook somebody's hand on it

07:49:01.360 wait hold on but okay think about this people get tattoos look i have a

07:49:05.920 fucking crazy that's actually not legal yeah like there you go it's not you're actually legally

07:49:10.880 legal i don't think that's uh i am a notary i didn't bring my stamp oh there you go he's

07:49:19.360 you you have video actually i can't it has nothing to do with the state of new york i have to be she

07:49:24.400 had like over the course of fucking eight hours like this is a comedy i could have said no mad long

07:49:29.840 no no here's the thing she and she could before yeah before she honestly every single one like name

07:49:35.680 of my lives on tiktok have been i'm going bald can we put it on the screen this is a comedy skit

07:49:42.240 whatever yeah not just on the whatever podcast but on my tiktoks on my live streams

07:49:47.920 i say i'm going bald once i hit the certain goal before she started drinking too yeah no yeah yeah

07:49:55.520 yeah we're good look i am 21 look i'm i'm uh i got to do some risk aversion here i just gotta be

07:50:02.320 she's really ready though she's holding my hair she wants to do it

07:50:06.960 she wants to do it let me think what's the best angle is the thing you know what we do we'll have you

07:50:13.280 you'll scoot the chair that way but then you'll face this way kind of yeah yeah that's perfect

07:50:19.200 that's perfect that's perfect wait don't do it yet though hold on hold on boys

07:50:23.840 wait wait let me just think wait let me ask chat oh that is a great angle guys my future man should

07:50:28.560 wait wait you know what though make sure with the blue make sure that you're the one behind her not

07:50:33.280 in the black because the black yeah kind of hides it yeah you gotta scoot yeah into the table you

07:50:37.840 scoot no you scoot you go the other way gg yeah there you go now we can really see it wait

07:50:44.160 and you scoot that way please sorry i didn't mean to be pushing wait wait let me just ask chat gpt really

07:50:50.000 quick okay wait wait hold on no it's it's it's okay okay it nathan i'm gonna start going so he can't

07:50:56.880 stop no no no no no we're almost let him let him almost there uh oh my god indy just sent in that

07:51:03.760 wait no clapping no clapping oh yeah sorry wait indy do you does that is that to cut the hair or is

07:51:18.240 that for a champagne pop because i i did it's both oh here okay nathan pull up her let's get the

07:51:24.560 drink so i can finish it yeah yeah well we'll do the drink and then i'll celebrate do the drink to

07:51:30.080 celebrate the buzz we'll do the drink um okay this is what you're gonna type in a row session uh 21 year

07:51:36.080 old brooklyn uh brooklyn tiktok streamer tiktok star live streamer wait what the i don't know why

07:51:50.320 that would matter no that wouldn't matter okay it'll bring people to your channel get rid of the tiktok

07:51:54.480 watch it 21 year old girl woman excuse me i'll get it naturally 21 year old woman appears on the

07:52:02.480 podcast and agrees to have the host cut off her hair and then buzz her hair however since agreeing she

07:52:15.200 has consumed precisely two because no it was three it was three but those were fucking happy no you did

07:52:22.240 not fill that last one the last one i think that was full it was mine was completely okay she had

07:52:27.760 three glasses of champagne over the course of eight hours not really eight hours we got into four hours

07:52:36.960 in four hours in we got the champagne i don't know but she agreed before she agreed prior to what a title

07:52:46.160 this prompt is drunk as fuck she agreed pop another prior to drinking but now she is currently

07:52:54.960 semi-tipsy and she had three glasses for us chat of champagne can she now agree to the haircut

07:53:06.560 and donation but because she said she we don't need to add that to the chat it's okay it's okay don't

07:53:12.400 matter i don't get okay that was sorry nathan that must have been like ridiculous to type that

07:53:18.640 i'm sorry do you have it nathan yeah w nathan w nathan put it in and then pull up a window

07:53:26.240 look at gg she's fucking ready she's playing with my hair she's like oh my god this beautiful hair is

07:53:31.440 going away legally and ethically that becomes risky even though she agreed earlier while sober what matters

07:53:37.520 at the time the act happens is whether she currently has no capacity consent um here's how

07:53:43.040 this generally consent must be ongoing but you're not like incapacitated no i'm not i'm not i can walk

07:53:50.000 home if i wanted to informed exactly voluntarily uh three glasses of champagne over eight hours scroll

07:53:57.360 down not automatically incapacitating i need a bottle of vodka to be drunk do you are you a heavyweight

07:54:04.720 when it comes to drinking yes i need a whole bottle of chopin to be okay girl she's pretty fine

07:54:12.400 because i think you're i'm you're drunker than me no no no sorry i'm drunker than you that's how

07:54:18.640 drunk i am yeah okay and you weigh more and i'm like yeah i'm fat no i used to be fat so i used to

07:54:25.120 drink way more so i could be a lightweight i don't know but i'm so i'm uh i i don't drink really unless

07:54:30.560 it's a champagne pot so scroll down prior agreement is not but do you think i'm mildly impaired no

07:54:38.320 boo ask rock chat gpt is a bitch no but it's like yeah chat do you think i'm impaired post the

07:54:45.920 safest approach would be postpone the haircut reconfirm consent while fully so possibly i can't

07:54:50.960 wait that long chat gpt thinks biden is still the president public exploitation yeah yeah optics bro

07:54:57.680 optics can she technically no possibly she still has capacity boom y'all are fine i'm not laying down

07:55:05.680 passed out drunk like oh my god i just had so much to drink i think it's a lot um this is like her idea

07:55:12.000 in the first place exactly i brought it up that's yeah she was gonna do it anyways you have this recorded

07:55:18.880 of her saying all of this you're right you have you have legal but it literally says even like

07:55:25.040 consent before she yeah yeah i'm doing this regardless but this is she's gonna do it anyway

07:55:33.200 i want him to be the one to say that this is do you have any receipts where you can show us like

07:55:38.480 that you were planning to do this yes i can okay all right oh my god sorry guys i'm being a little

07:55:43.760 pussy bitch i just gotta cover my bases i gotta cover my bases all right uh well gg just grab a

07:55:52.400 handful of her hair and go for it she hasn't she she you haven't been drinking her hair looks so cute

07:56:00.480 no okay then just rip out her weave no i don't get that's not a weave yeah extensions you don't have

07:56:08.240 extensions they're just clips rip out her extensions you've previously had your head shaved do you want

07:56:23.840 round two this will get you in trouble trying to push people to it you just encourage her to grow

07:56:29.360 it out you haven't been drinking right you're sober i had a cup of champagne like that much

07:56:34.880 yeah champagne okay but i'm growing my hair out so no oh my goodness yeah you you were encouraging

07:56:40.480 her earlier to grow it out yeah because guys don't like short hair apparently

07:56:47.520 no it's not you know

07:56:48.560 you just did it on lives how about you let her go on her own

07:57:00.240 and on my tiktok oh yeah yeah but like they just switched owners so that's why

07:57:08.800 but i swear wait i think do we belong by tiktok no no i feel like we postponed no

07:57:15.920 because she's going back to florida oh she's already gonna be we're flying her back we'll fly

07:57:20.800 she came all the way from canada for this i will shake on it then i will i will actually shake my

07:57:25.760 head i swear i'm so sad i'm on yeah gg wants to do it

07:57:34.400 i'll stay here too i'll take how about gg

07:57:39.280 i'll take the i'll stay here repercussions no no no no no i wouldn't want you to do that

07:57:44.640 do not do that but you're not are you gonna regret it because if you say that that makes it seem like

07:57:48.240 you're gonna regret it which means no he's making me feel like i'm gonna regret it because he's now

07:57:52.560 like taking too long and postponing this so now okay can i just say as the person who has not been

07:57:57.680 drinking you're overthinking this way too much she said she was agreeing to do it but now but okay

07:58:03.280 we're both intoxicated and we're both overthinking it and it literally says her consent before she

07:58:08.640 was drinking doesn't matter chat gpt is kind of retarded just it is it is it is that's what i'm

07:58:13.920 saying ask grok grok will be like let's go i think grok would do the same thing her like begging for

07:58:20.640 you to cut her hair yeah yeah i wasn't begging though i was not not begging but before the champagne

07:58:25.920 pops happened i did say i would do it and we shook on it me and her they should as your proxy it's a

07:58:32.320 but it goes out the window i'm drinking exactly but she's not she's not incapacitated i'm not

07:58:38.240 incapacitated like okay if you go and get i could drive if you have a shot before you get a tattoo

07:58:43.040 the tattoo artist isn't like yes they are they are because how will they know are you gonna wait

07:58:49.440 you tell them you sign i mean i'm honest when you get a tattoo you sign off on something saying that

07:58:54.480 you're not intoxicated that's legally binding that's different though this is hair it grows back

07:59:01.920 this isn't a tattoo for the rest of your life indy what do we think it's a haircut it's a haircut

07:59:07.600 you said just do it indy do love me he dropped a lot of times for this i feel like we should have

07:59:13.600 done it mad long ago when i was drinking yeah brian just trying to get out of it i almost we could

07:59:19.840 do your aren't you in town for like two days or some shit i could i could do that we could just i

07:59:25.360 could fucking come here and just stream the me cutting my hair i'm down or i could just fucking

07:59:31.120 take a i don't even need to stream it i could just take a video yeah for real we could but i would

07:59:37.120 have to stream it though so one of us would have to stream it i know it's probably like

07:59:45.200 totally overthinking it what is chat saying i mean there are some people are like mostly

07:59:50.160 everyone's just saying do it do it yeah this is worse than like asking your girlfriend where

07:59:53.920 she wants to go eat yeah yeah hey this is what if we add that this is all being recorded live yeah

08:00:01.760 it is it is we can i know that chat knows we can just say it's ai you have it in writing you have

08:00:09.120 a hand in writing you have it recording it recorded as an oral agreement prior and throughout

08:00:15.840 i'm not scamming i'm not scamming i have to consider the fucking liability yeah he's not he he's not

08:00:21.120 scamming i'll i think i might have legal like i might honestly i might honestly have to postpone it

08:00:28.240 just but i'll do it are fucking terrible bro but i'll do it we'll get her back we'll

08:00:34.240 fucking fly you back asap pronto tonto i'm given how comfortable or we might even just be able to

08:00:39.360 fucking come in tomorrow or something yeah and then yeah indie i can't do it oh my god

08:00:48.320 what's that it's it's a while wait wait breathalyzer does anybody have a

08:00:54.240 fucking breathalyzer i would fail i would fail on god no i don't think i know i would yeah three

08:00:59.680 glasses i just finished my glass i had three glasses yeah i finished it before i walked out

08:01:05.600 i think it's like 45 minutes somebody called an hour and a half for the shot or something

08:01:12.240 i think i have a warrant out for my roast champion doesn't have

08:01:14.960 yeah how much alcohol is even in that champagne yeah 16 14 14 14 at least at least okay okay here

08:01:28.000 you cut the hair right wait now he sent what did he send let me get half

08:01:34.400 yo indy you cut the hair give her what she wants brian indy's base only a hundred dollars though

08:01:39.760 i mean 4 000 yeah indy's giving you a lot indy needs been an indy got it like that so 100 isn't

08:01:47.440 really i'm gonna give you a field sobriety test okay there you go put your fingers out on either side

08:01:53.920 further like down by your side okay touch your nose

08:01:59.040 other hand touch your nose okay follow the tip of my pen hold on i'd rather follow the tip of

08:02:06.240 of something else but hold on i gotta play a sound for that stop it

08:02:19.520 okay follow follow the tip of the pen

08:02:24.960 i'm supposed to be like way closer doing this

08:02:27.360 i don't see nystagmus i don't see nystagmus folks i don't

08:02:34.960 oh this reminds me of some type of a stroke test

08:02:38.240 where you're gonna wake up tomorrow and be like

08:02:39.680 why i think i would i think i would from this lit

08:02:45.280 oh all right then we're not gonna do it yeah

08:02:48.000 i'll do it another day how about this you have to promise you're you're not gonna like go do it

08:02:53.920 on your own you're gonna do it on the whatever podcast but we have to postpone it okay but

08:02:59.920 okay okay okay we're doing it we're doing it okay all right as long as i get my sam

08:03:04.400 i'm sorry sam i am book i just too much i i am lit i'm sorry guys i'm sorry guys they're putting

08:03:11.760 we're doing it we're doing it though we're fucking 100 doing we're doing it i'll even try to do it

08:03:16.320 on god we'll do it live hey chat i'm sorry but it's like it's way too much the landscape guys

08:03:24.160 it's way too much of an optics fuck the chat's like l tomatoes

08:03:29.200 hey boys you'll get it tomorrow it's actually a w because you you don't want to see brian

08:03:33.520 fucking canceled for scalping a well when you put it like that you might get canceled you don't want

08:03:39.920 me to scalp but you are going to scalp me when i'm sober tipsy filipino woman

08:03:46.560 you don't want to see that all right it's too much liability at this point but maybe

08:03:50.880 shit we might even try to do it either tomorrow or wait when do you leave you need a ride home

08:03:56.320 do you leave tomorrow i do leave tomorrow but i can i can do something about that

08:03:59.520 okay we'll figure it out we'll figure it out i can i can get you either we might have to just

08:04:03.920 get you back out for another show you're fun so we'll have you on another panel asap and then we'll

08:04:08.480 do it we'll do it at the top of the show i'm fine that's cool then i'll be bald the rest of the show

08:04:15.600 that's amazing guys now the rose session is going to be me can you bring your barber in

08:04:22.320 can you get him right can you bring your indian dentist

08:04:28.800 yo but indy i feel bad so if you want to chop it up after the show indy i'll make it right uh

08:04:36.720 and uh yeah yeah you definitely will yeah yeah sorry guys sorry guys i didn't hey oh my goodness

08:04:45.760 they're mad at you now they're fucking yeah they're mad they waited all night for this yeah

08:04:54.080 stay tuned i literally didn't think about like oh okay getting drunk on you know what i blame indy

08:04:59.840 this motherfucker yeah he's the one who kept doing it he kept one if i had one i would have been

08:05:05.280 l indy guys technically you guys are supposed to pop one more that is not the way to repay his

08:05:10.240 loyalty yeah yeah he did wait wait so then yeah give him a free pop i'm so sorry yeah he did give

08:05:20.960 him a free pop at least indy we're we're gonna um tell you what indy i i do want to wrap the show for

08:05:27.520 everybody um indy do you have instagram just message me on instagram you don't even have to send in the

08:05:32.960 tts i'll chop it up with you maybe i'll do a like a fucking complimentary uh crystal pop like

08:05:40.080 next show or some shit so you don't even have to you don't have to it'll just be a free crystal pop

08:05:45.440 too and my head will be shaved yeah we could save it for that show too uh indy do you have instagram

08:05:54.400 indy indy i love you send me a dm at whatever at whatever on instagram send me a dm right now

08:05:59.520 quick quick quick indy quick indy right now uh just let me know if you're cool with that

08:06:04.880 let me know if you're cool with that here any uh dating things any final thoughts from any of the

08:06:08.720 panelists before we wrap this show up i love you guys all right

08:06:20.240 nice being here i think dating wise there's nothing that gets a woman going more than a

08:06:24.640 man who says he's going to shave a head and actually does it yeah it's too late for all that

08:06:29.760 as i'm a gentleman you know i respect him for this i'm totally for real yeah i don't see anything

08:06:37.600 from indy i got him i will i will do my my research are you gonna dm me indy all right we'll chop it

08:06:48.000 up after the show i i don't see a dm quite yet but uh hmm yeah yeah yeah okay uh all right well uh

08:06:57.760 i'm pretty are we forgetting anything uh nathan or is that everything okay all right cool uh all

08:07:05.840 right guys well that was a very interesting uh show i want to say gg well played last call hit the like

08:07:13.680 button please on your way out also please leave a nice comment once the live ends i read them

08:07:19.280 um fuck but like oh my god i'm in like such a bind i know because he fucking did the champagne

08:07:25.440 oh my god i know indy i blame you but thank you uh

08:07:38.320 were the other champagne pops in furtherance of the haircut or was it just the one champagne pop

08:07:44.480 at the beginning it was all for the hair i believe it's only the first one could you send him some

08:07:48.960 merch yeah and then the last one was do it yeah he started them once we made but but that wasn't

08:07:55.760 they were all for the haircut he already had three bottles at that point why don't you just send him

08:07:59.920 some merch send him some cups i'll send you you got a lot did he dm me let me just check really

08:08:05.360 quick check check is he i don't even know if he's still watching i don't see it did you send it to my

08:08:10.320 hold on indy did you send it to my personal ig indy i love you he sent it to your cat's ig okay he

08:08:18.160 likes your cat more now well we'll we'll i gotta be careful you don't want to see the whatever

08:08:23.920 podcast getting canceled yeah no we don't want that yeah yeah they're i'm i'm thinking like

08:08:28.400 i care liabilities in terms of you know i wouldn't do that but still anyways i feel

08:08:34.880 florida ruined woman ruins good podcast yeah that's fine do that filipino woman

08:08:41.040 we probably should have done it before but in the moment it wasn't a consideration like

08:08:46.000 but uh yeah we'll get it done who knew we were gonna get lit yeah maybe i feel like i just come

08:08:50.880 in tomorrow and just i'm down hell yeah we'll figure either that either that or we'll schedule

08:08:56.240 it within what time do you leave tomorrow we'll schedule it we'll schedule it again for

08:09:00.960 march because i'm going to new york yeah it is much oh uh gg last call hit the like button

08:09:06.880 please on your way out also please leave a nice comment once the live ends i read them positivity

08:09:11.520 is nice and it helps the algorithm thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in

08:09:15.760 the world but you're here with me i appreciate that uh thank you to everyone who super chats

08:09:20.160 donates and supports the show we will be live again sunday 5 p.m pacific any girls who want to be

08:09:25.200 on the show you can dm at whatever on instagram if you can make it to uh santa barbara just seeing

08:09:32.320 if we forgot anything i don't think so uh oh no indy

08:09:42.000 all right fucking cut her hair up no uh

08:09:44.960 indy i swear on on everything on my mom's life on some new york shit i'm gonna cut indy send me a dm

08:09:52.240 bro i'll uh yeah please send me a dm and i'll fucking at least do an ig live when you do it so

08:09:58.160 he can see it if you are going to do it tomorrow let him watch it live no we would do it we just

08:10:03.120 fucking we'd stream it live yeah yeah indy i'll either get you a refund for the for the uh yeah

08:10:10.400 yeah i'll get you sorted but you send me a dm so i can sort you out uh so yeah okay all right

08:10:17.040 sorry that was very anticlimactic fucking in there i apologize i'm sorry i'm sorry it's not

08:10:22.480 your fault but i we just got to be cautious you know don't want to don't want to you know

08:10:28.640 optically guys fucking people be trying to write hit pieces and shit oh my god toxic podcaster

08:10:35.760 takes advantage yeah not even me like other people of vulnerable

08:10:39.200 21 year old thank you she's basically a child her brain's not even developed her

08:10:45.120 she's not 25 her prefrontal cortex oh my god she's stupid yeah indy uh indy send me an email send me a

08:10:53.680 dm we'll get you sorted we'll we'll get it figured out but we are gonna we are gonna do it i'm down

08:10:59.680 i have to postpone it okay that's fine oh sevens i want to see this will happen oh sevens in the chat

08:11:04.960 um oh sevens in the chat um let me see uh yeah oh sevens in the chat good night guys thank you for

08:11:15.280 watching and we will see you next time all right good night guys um okay we wow we're we're wrapped

08:11:23.840 guys just curious did anybody like did anybody lie about their body count no no i think i did actually

08:11:32.240 so you did but like i think i added one oh it's lower yeah oh okay okay yeah yeah i think it's 10

08:11:40.800 it's not 11 okay i think you're still live nathan we're still fucking streaming what are you nathan

08:11:48.800 hey hey hey at least i was on

08:12:01.200 oh

08:12:01.520 oh fuck that's crazy sorry guys sorry chat sorry chat when i was just guys i have a new producer

08:12:07.440 and like nathan so what we do when i say okay oh sevens in the chat tonight guys you got to put it to

08:12:12.000 the intro sorry guys nathan's new i'll do a better job than he's still learning the ropes i'm getting

08:12:19.360 him caught up to speed it's okay nathan don't do it next time okay all right oh uh good night guys

08:12:28.080 good night guys we'll see you next time good night guys

08:12:42.000 good night

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