Whatever Podcast - Brian GOES OFF! Man vs. Bear HEATED DEBATE？! She's Single BUT STILL Sees Her Ex？!

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00:03:22.980 without further ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age

00:03:27.560 location and occupation go ahead hi i'm adeline star i am 26 i live in la originally from texas i am a

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00:04:01.920 if uh there's any lag or fps drops or anything like that uh what's your sorry what's your age again

00:04:08.580 26 26 all right what about you uh hi my name is johima i'm 28 years old i live in los angeles

00:04:15.860 and i am a social media manager all right welcome hi i'm jordan i'm 25 i live in riverside and me and

00:04:25.120 my husband own a gym in riverside okay welcome hi i'm jade warwick i'm 26 i'm from the uk i live in

00:04:32.840 seattle and i'm a film producer what part of the uk are you from originally wales okay do you speak

00:04:38.480 welsh is it i grew up speaking welsh can we hear a little demonstration my favorite sentence it doesn't

00:04:45.660 really make sense but it's um my babin yesi a pili pala a pascoddin wibbly wobbly and a poppity ping

00:04:51.720 absolutely yep i agree i'll tell you what that means later wait so is there what is what is gaelic

00:04:58.980 is that it's like um is that a welsh language it's a celtic language that came from the welsh language

00:05:05.420 it's in ireland and scotland so you don't speak i don't speak okay okay got it lauren what about you

00:05:14.440 uh my name is lauren i'm 31 years old and i am a courtesan at the moonlight bunny ranch and a

00:05:21.060 student okay and those for those who don't know when you say courtesan what does that mean so i'm a

00:05:27.200 legal uh legal uh girlfriend at um or i would say yeah legal courtesan legal um escort at uh the

00:05:41.200 moonlight bunny ranch and it's yeah 100 legal in nevada you it's like uh carnal knowledge yes

00:05:47.940 okay yeah hi my name is ashley i'm 25 years old and i'm in real estate and i'm studying interior

00:05:56.220 design all right welcome i'm natalie i'm 32 years old i live in la and i'm a content creator

00:06:03.480 um like politics okay gotcha i'm the q pill i'm 31 from raleigh north carolina i'm a behavioral

00:06:11.500 sciences certified relationship coach and a youtuber book author all right welcome everybody

00:06:17.140 so we're gonna go around the table once more what is everybody's current relationship status so

00:06:23.540 are you single talking stage situationship friends with benefits married polycule sex cult

00:06:31.100 harem whatever it may be if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest

00:06:36.360 relationship you've ever been in go ahead i am the audio's muted oh you're fine no you're fine go

00:06:42.520 okay i'm in a relationship really were you in a relationship last time i was okay how long have

00:06:48.320 you been in that relationship um about five months now six months how did you guys meet we met through

00:06:56.420 a mutual friend is he uh is he in the industry he is in the industry as well yes he he slangs

00:07:04.680 does he slang he does he slangs yes but only me now so only slangs you yeah he used to slaying others

00:07:11.120 yes now only slangs you correct okay all right and uh how you said it's been going for five to six

00:07:19.800 months yeah okay did you say longest relationship my longest is two years two years all right okay

00:07:26.760 what about you i'm single my longest relationship was five years i've been single for like four years

00:07:34.820 single for four years longest five years um was the one that ended four years ago your five-year

00:07:42.640 relationship it was why did he dump you um we were stuck in bali and it was covid and we just were

00:07:52.180 like let's not do this anymore so while you were stuck in bali yeah so you were did you break up with

00:07:59.360 him and then you but when you had to live together for eight months and we're like yeah maybe no

00:08:03.700 so did you guys like did one of you come back to the states or no we both wanted to stay in bali but

00:08:09.720 we had like an apartment there and it was covid so so wait were you guys still cohabitating while

00:08:14.660 like through the breakup yeah because covid and then even while you were single you guys were still

00:08:20.080 cohabitating yeah oh shit okay and you're dating for yeah it was great so how long were you

00:08:27.400 cohabitating for while you were split like a year we lived together split up but again covid so i would

00:08:35.440 not recommend it in a normal situation but you were living together prior to covid yeah right

00:08:40.720 yeah so then but then it was so do you think covid precipitated the breakup probably the inevitable

00:08:51.160 but you're already living together was it just like you were too much together we couldn't go

00:08:56.740 outside ah so you're stuck yeah we both like to go outside was it strict in indonesia yeah you

00:09:02.460 couldn't go out yeah couldn't serve couldn't do anything so oh you're a surfer he's a surfer he's

00:09:07.340 a pro surfer he's a surfer yeah wait is it rizzle um tanjung he's a surfer wait you dated the mayor of

00:09:18.520 bali absolutely that's uh rizzle i'm pretty sure i think if i recall nick could you google rizzle tanjung

00:09:26.280 he's a pro surfer from indonesia oh my god that's a quick note yeah well yeah you brought up the

00:09:32.240 surfing info i know about the you know i surf so uh wait find find this guy i used to watch his

00:09:39.200 surfing videos all the time like did you find him rizzle r-i-z-a-l tanjung i think it's t-a-n-j-u-n-g

00:09:48.340 he's got he probably got a wikipedia bro this guy's the mayor of bali i love my find his wikipedia

00:09:55.580 find his wikipedia she she dated the mayor of bali whatever exclusive here sure just go just go

00:10:03.340 along i guess just go along with it at this point you have it nick wikipedia oh my god

00:10:09.580 oh just good but usually there's like a google profile just show the google results for rizzle

00:10:16.580 you got it see let's see the spelling on this let's see how nick does with indonesian

00:10:22.940 oh it was close it was close all caps too rizzle bro what the

00:10:28.040 how you gonna put it rizzle not that kind of rizzle i meant yeah you didn't hear me say r-i-z-a-l

00:10:36.480 i i actually had his name last name right uh rizzle tanjung first indonesian oh my jeez what is going

00:10:43.580 on uh uh pull up his ig pull up his ig there he is rizzle so this is your ex-boyfriend yeah look

00:10:51.320 at this look at this legend scroll down nick damn bro look at those ads profile goddamn bro

00:10:56.940 bali had like one of the top uh surf spots in the world so is this your this is your boyfriend

00:11:05.440 that's my husband yeah your husband yeah what a legend there he is with is that no that's not

00:11:11.480 kelly who what is the other one kelly wait hold on go back up is that kelly none of these were my

00:11:16.900 ex-boyfriend but what's that madison fisher who fish you know surfers that's fisher

00:11:24.560 oh okay all right all right uh so you weren't dating rizzle tanjung i mean no okay i just wait um

00:11:33.820 i don't know why i go on these i go on these tangents i waste three minutes okay all right

00:11:38.280 what about what about you jordan uh married and this is my longest relationship five years five years

00:11:45.060 wait rahima rahima right coming back to you for just a sec because i forgot i forgot what my follow-up

00:11:50.180 was going to be so you were cohabitating for you said for like eight months nine months yeah yeah so

00:11:56.000 were you guys dating other people during this time period while you were still cohabitating after the

00:11:59.900 breakup yeah so you would bring like you'd bring back some like hot indo dude he'd bring back some

00:12:06.940 like bali chicks bring back rizzle yeah you brought back rizzle yeah rizzle for shizzle yeah okay

00:12:13.960 so but you actually like you were dating while still cohabitating with your ex is that correct

00:12:21.100 yeah how big was this house like huge you get a big house in bali like nothing i couldn't do it

00:12:29.720 even if we was exes you gotta stay outside hearing your girlfriend yeah that's uh you gotta move

00:12:41.500 anyways uh okay so you were both bringing people back to the house though i mean it wasn't like

00:12:47.920 like it wasn't but yeah there were people coming in and going huh okay you take wednesdays i take thursdays

00:12:56.500 word all right uh what about you hi um what was the question again oh current relationship status

00:13:05.600 okay in a relationship it's the longest one so far and it's been three years three years

00:13:11.440 how did you guys meet um i was working at a bar and he came in and he was on a date with someone

00:13:16.600 else and was what wait he was he was on a date with someone else he was and then you were just

00:13:25.040 there i was just working at the bar mate oh you were working trying to give him drinks and stuff he

00:13:29.560 was hitting on me and i was like i don't do this thing but like if you're single come back and you

00:13:34.940 know he'll get my number and he came back the same time a week later and he was like i broke up with

00:13:39.960 them i was like them that's plural and um yeah and then been together ever since we broke up with

00:13:47.080 them so there were he was dating multiple women he he broke up with them the second time like prior

00:13:55.600 to the second time he saw you yes that's romantic thank you yeah is um wait so just a couple

00:14:02.620 clarifying questions yeah that was a was that the first date that he was on at that no no they oh he

00:14:09.360 was it was dating that girl it was in seattle and it was like that poly situation where they're kind of

00:14:14.620 just seeing a few people at a time and i'm like listen i don't do that but if you want to try the

00:14:21.160 other thing hit me up what's the other thing the monogamous one okay well at the time were you seeing

00:14:28.500 anybody no not even nobody you worked at a bar you had no prospects and you were involved in the

00:14:35.140 nightlife yeah

00:14:36.240 it happens yeah okay so uh you he was on a so this girl he was in a engage in a sexual relationship with

00:14:50.500 her indeed and in front of her he hit on you she was hitting on me too it was that poly situation

00:14:57.340 like i said you know the fuck is going on in seattle god damn okay flattered but no thank you

00:15:05.200 okay so and he was

00:15:07.880 sorry all right so you said he was involved with multiple people yeah i never met you know how many

00:15:22.660 he was no i i didn't want to know

00:15:25.200 does it i mean do you have any concern for your monogamous relationship given this man's

00:15:35.700 proclivity to be involved with multiple people at the same time um yes i'm very health conscious

00:15:41.200 and so when we started seeing each other there was a long time before we were intimate and i made

00:15:46.840 sure that we were both fully tested before anything happened that could lead to a transmission well i'm

00:15:52.620 not even talking about vd i'm talking more so about potential infidelity because if he's inclined to

00:15:59.300 want to be dating multiple people at the same time when you met him he hit on you in front of the

00:16:05.140 girl he was currently fucking it occurs to me that unless he's had a total 180 in his conduct

00:16:13.400 this guy's gonna probably i don't want to throw this guy under the bus but

00:16:18.280 you think he's gonna be loyal to you i think so

00:16:22.460 he literally huh even right now like would you be in here on this trip yeah okay i think so well i guess

00:16:30.100 they have been dating for three years but but it's like he hit on you i know i guess he was

00:16:35.720 angling for a threesome but like he hit on you in front of the girl yeah he was currently having sex

00:16:41.520 with if he's that's pretty i mean i guess you're angling for threesome so yeah i mean i do believe

00:16:49.420 that people can change and if you wanted to try the monogamy thing and he ended up preferring it

00:16:54.700 um then that's good for him some people prefer being poly and that's fine too it's just not for

00:17:01.000 me okay all right lauren what about you uh so my longest relationship current relationship status

00:17:09.340 no relationship right now so single single yeah all right and then longest relationship three years

00:17:16.960 three years all right and you are a courtesan yes how many so those are kind of

00:17:27.240 temporary relationships i have a sexual nature so it's interesting yeah like i've known

00:17:35.720 some clients for like five to seven years and then my own relationships have only lasted like

00:17:41.640 three and um i always find it's because i love to change and i love to just try new things and do

00:17:50.240 new stuff and then if it's like the same i i don't mind it but i think then it if it starts

00:17:58.020 depleting me then then i'm like all right well i'll mention something then if i mention something

00:18:02.580 and then it doesn't work then that's how it goes okay yeah

00:18:08.280 could you ever see yourself dating one of your customers um you know i think that like there is

00:18:18.860 that fantasy there i think i i'm someone that like i own my problem is i only live in the moment

00:18:26.140 and i never think about the future and that's like my biggest issue and so i'm like i don't know

00:18:30.960 what's gonna happen like in that next chapter i don't i don't know so maybe okay

00:18:38.080 i know that sounds so weird but i i just like to do a lot of stuff and plan to do a lot of stuff but

00:18:45.160 i don't know like what's gonna happen and like but you get like any guys hitting on you at all um for

00:18:51.520 for at the at the ranch no like for a relationship um i do and then um i do get guys hitting on me

00:19:00.780 but then sometimes i wonder if it's it's just like like a fantasy thing um because you know

00:19:07.640 the bunny ranch and all that and so i'm like wondering if it's just that um so i wonder you

00:19:12.580 know is it for real for real um but uh i've yeah i've only had like intimate you know relationships

00:19:23.240 i guess years ago so i guess we'll see what happens like there's are there no guys sliding

00:19:30.860 into your dms there are but sometimes when they slide in i'll you know i will i like that a guy

00:19:36.900 has social media because it shows that like you know he has a image or something to protect even if

00:19:42.740 it's not like he's got like a million followers or something he he has something he shows up in the

00:19:46.960 world as a way and um i feel like if someone's like no i i don't have anything i get kind of

00:19:52.760 nervous i'm like oh what are you hiding um but i have guys reaching out to me but sometimes um

00:19:57.500 i i think that might the old me would have loved to date them but i think that the new me would

00:20:08.120 it's a little tough yeah wait do you uh you want to get married one day i mean if it happens

00:20:17.180 that would be cool but like i won't like i never bank on anything that like i can't control

00:20:23.460 because that's just one way to like avoid unhappiness is so i just like if it comes i'm

00:20:29.080 like cool like i guess we're doing it and if it doesn't then i'm like well at least i didn't bank

00:20:33.000 on it now i don't feel any shame for doing that so do you want kids um that would be really fun

00:20:38.940 i think i think that would be a i think that would be a good time i have some concerns about me having

00:20:44.480 kids but i think it would be fun okay what about you i'm single my longest relationship was four

00:20:53.000 years longest relation hold on i have just a question here though uh well how long have you been

00:20:58.560 single like a year one year yeah and the one that ended a year ago was that the four-year

00:21:05.440 relationship yeah okay uh a question though i think in your pre-show notes yeah you did indicate

00:21:12.680 that you're single but still figuring things out with your ex could you clarify on that yeah it's

00:21:18.480 really complicated he's like my best friend so i've known him for like is that the four year

00:21:24.200 so you're you're single but still figuring out with your ex who you dated for four years

00:21:28.840 right and you guys officially broke up one year ago yeah when's the last time you saw him in person

00:21:32.920 yesterday yeah uh yeah yesterday this morning bro

00:21:42.880 what yeah it's complicated um is it complicated it is wait so were you for the four-year period

00:21:52.240 was it were you monogamous yeah i was was it oh you were yeah so he was was it open on his end or was

00:22:00.520 he cheating on you he was fucking around yeah he was but was it hold on but was it was it open on

00:22:07.280 his end no it was not open okay so he was cheating on you how many women did he cheat on you with

00:22:12.160 um well we were on a break and we both agreed that we wouldn't

00:22:17.640 cheat or i'm sorry we wouldn't hook up with anybody but he did so i count that as cheating

00:22:26.600 who initiated the break um we it was like mutual mutual it was mutual well what prompted that

00:22:36.240 we were fighting a lot and so we just thought we needed some time apart because we didn't want

00:22:42.680 to end it completely

00:22:43.700 what say it what do you think q what are you thinking here i'm thinking if you were going to

00:22:56.220 work it out y'all should have stayed together you can't say he cheated because y'all were on a break

00:23:00.720 and he smashed some well there's like other things to it too there was other stuff you know

00:23:05.860 it's not just that one thing there was like other occasions it was just a lot it was just a lot and

00:23:12.840 he's older than me so i feel like right now i'm 25 and i'm at my prime how old is he he's 31

00:23:22.240 okay is he not at his prime well yeah but like me more so me you're more you're more at your prime

00:23:30.500 yeah okay wait so how many times because you said you were on a break right had that happened

00:23:36.360 multiple times that you guys we were on a break uh again no we were on and off and off again yeah

00:23:42.180 oh multiple times multiple times how many times were you would you say you were off and on for the

00:23:47.040 duration of the um probably like three times of those three times who initiated the

00:23:55.260 off i guess it was both of us but like we would take turns i guess yeah well so once you once him

00:24:04.540 yeah two times him two times i would say like half half you said three times well to the end of it

00:24:11.820 right okay what do you guys fight about oh my gosh um well it was my first time living with a guy

00:24:20.480 so like you know living with someone is like a whole different experience and i have certain

00:24:26.300 ocd tendencies and um what do you when you say ocd tendencies what are we talking about just like

00:24:34.120 the way the kitchen needs to be leave the totes yeah just like cleansing this like stuff like that

00:24:40.300 well that's not i don't think that's ocd if you prefer well he's a really clean guy like i'm not

00:24:45.320 saying that he wasn't clean oh so he was more clean than you no i was more the clean one the

00:24:50.000 more ocd one for sure just like stuff like that and it kind of just you know was it his place or

00:24:55.900 yours it was his place were you paying rent no okay so you were starting fights with him at his

00:25:02.640 place where he paid rent about the nature of his apartment did you have your own place at this time

00:25:10.100 no okay so you were uh how soon into the relationship did you start living with him

00:25:14.560 probably a year a year in okay yeah but i had known him since i was 15

00:25:19.040 and we started dating wait hold on we started dating when i was 21 was he like a family friend or

00:25:27.160 something family friend is that a little bit of impropriety there i'm not sure why it depends well

00:25:35.000 because he you're 25 he's 31 so that's a six-year age gap yeah but we didn't start we

00:25:40.100 didn't start dating no i'm not saying you guys start dating then but there's perhaps a slight

00:25:46.120 impropriety i i don't know if the panel concurs on that but grid one motorsports donated two hundred

00:25:55.060 dollars how are you still working shite out a year after another woman has sucked his rager

00:26:00.840 have some self-respect move the f on also the old hooker has a high likelihood of being the cat lady

00:26:07.840 do you want to respond to the cat lady allegations um well i have a british short hair with my sister

00:26:14.140 so yeah i guess it's kind of like starting a little bit yeah his name is sweet boy

00:26:21.060 and the boy is with an eye sweet boy really quick let me just pull this one up uh whatever fan

00:26:28.180 well i haven't the slightest clue what the fellow british lady just said bloody hell

00:26:32.840 it's like their favorite thing for me to say because it's from like harry potter or something

00:26:38.160 bloody hell harry bloody hell they love that all right should should the whole panel just try to

00:26:43.820 do a british accent for the rest of the show you guys down can you guys do british accents we'll just

00:26:49.580 we could try we're gonna pretend we're in wales don't know if i'm particularly good at that

00:26:55.280 that was a good one all right there you go okay uh so wait so to bring it back though

00:27:01.140 to this uh so okay it's been it's been on and off multiple times um you said you've been single

00:27:11.160 for a year seen yesterday but you are you still cohabitating with him no no you're so okay when you

00:27:24.020 guys broke up a year ago did you move out yeah okay so then how often because you saw him yesterday

00:27:32.940 so yeah we're like how often do you see him really good friends yeah more than friends

00:27:39.640 uh okay let me ask you a question did you have carnal knowledge yesterday no you guys didn't no you

00:27:46.780 guys didn't have sex no why would you guys see i'm just a little confused because it's been like such a

00:27:52.240 long it's been such a long relationship besides us dating you know and like he's like my best friend

00:28:00.140 in a way and i understand it sounds super unhealthy and like that's why i'm saying like i'm trying to

00:28:04.940 figure it out it's not like the most ideal situation and i wouldn't recommend it to like

00:28:11.080 any of my friends sorry do you want to be with him um i do and i do and i don't i do because i love him

00:28:19.120 so much but i don't because like i deserve more than that so she's good for you is he good for me

00:28:25.640 now i think he really is yeah like a good husband yeah he would be okay let's just get married

00:28:33.140 yeah so if that's fucking terrible advice that's terrible advice can i coming from bali

00:28:42.480 i'll be quick can i ask you a question so is the inability to commit on his behalf or your behalf

00:28:48.980 good question uh definitely mine now okay yours also it switched yeah it switched okay wait so

00:28:56.120 question though so okay you guys broke up a year ago have you guys you said you didn't hook up yesterday

00:29:02.820 or this morning whatever you guys haven't hooked up at all since you broke up a year ago

00:29:09.360 that doesn't that didn't sound very convincing it didn't look confident i don't really want to talk

00:29:16.160 about my sex life per se i'm i'm open to talking about like my dating experience but not so much

00:29:22.040 isn't it intertwined a little bit we don't need we don't need the details you don't need he hit it

00:29:26.540 from the back like we don't i don't need that no no it's been a long time it's been a long time so

00:29:33.260 like cleanliness is like kind of a nagging thing it's not necessarily like a fundamental argument

00:29:37.780 what was like the big issues it was just a lot of the times it was that like living together

00:29:42.620 and then also just you know like him with like i would find shit on his phone

00:29:48.740 just like constant girl stuff that would like trigger me a lot yeah so move to and we also like

00:29:56.680 sorry we also like it would go out a lot um and i think that also triggered a lot of stuff

00:30:05.120 so why is the inability uh inability to commit on your end right now why are you because he

00:30:11.000 obviously wants to get back together with me but it's a little bit more difficult for me how come

00:30:16.560 because i still hold on to the past the trust is broken yeah are you sure you trust him like you said

00:30:27.060 he's marriage material but yeah that's another thing is i think about if i were to have babies with

00:30:31.740 this man like it's not just me now it's like these kids that we would have and i don't know if that

00:30:38.120 like that's what scares me you know i can't i'm not just like taking care of myself anymore it's like

00:30:44.280 the future so you don't trust him i don't know i feel like i do trust him but i don't know how long

00:30:50.960 i'm gonna trust him it's on the fence grid one motorsports donated 200 dollars bitch you are the

00:30:57.360 most groomed woman i have ever seen on the show seriously get help get away from the cheater and

00:31:03.980 find yourself a heater the patriarchy stands ready to help get better yo grid one thank you man good

00:31:11.320 to see in the chat grid one the legend he's a brave and a decent man he's a pioneer he's a pioneer

00:31:16.860 um do you want to respond to grid one motorsports that was like so insulting but also like a compliment

00:31:22.980 and then yeah the get help part was what was the compliment part yeah he called me a bitch

00:31:28.340 he yeah he he did i think it was like an in an endearing way though like he's looking out for you

00:31:36.320 well then thanks but also talking mad shit just the wrong vocab but the message was there

00:31:40.180 appreciate it i'm working on it disregard uh you know they're just it was just for dramatic

00:31:45.840 effect it was for dramatic effects you feel like you're holding on to like do you think maybe

00:31:50.600 you're holding on to what could be you're holding on to maybe this story yeah but it's not because

00:31:55.780 like i envisioned my entire life with him you know do it you invested a long time yeah exactly

00:32:01.600 yeah i'm i'm just oh go ahead go ahead no it's been like a total of six years that before like we

00:32:09.840 officially got together four years ago but i was also like dealing with him for two years prior to that

00:32:14.900 so it's just a long time that i have another question i don't mean to interrupt so is he your

00:32:20.920 technically first love i think so yeah okay wait what do you mean you think so well because i've had

00:32:27.220 high school relationships and you say yeah i love you but he was he's definitely like the first how tall

00:32:34.060 is he uh five nine is he rich yeah he has money what's he do for work he's a chiropractor oh okay

00:32:45.060 he doesn't have enough money to be cheating on you no there's no amount of money you can have

00:32:51.080 to cheat but that's really like shocking um huh you saw him yesterday when you say you hold on just

00:33:02.040 to be clear did you spend the night at his place or did he spend the night at yours no you said you

00:33:08.780 saw him this morning yeah how would you have seen him this you guys just i saw him this morning

00:33:14.520 so i went to get breakfast no i just went over before i you didn't spend the night no you didn't

00:33:21.660 sleep over no

00:33:22.720 so you just yes is that normal for like most people no it's not normal i'm not saying this

00:33:31.320 is normal like i said i would not tell my girlfriends to do it but like i can't help it

00:33:37.160 you love him i love him yeah but i'm working on it wait you still you love him still of course

00:33:45.120 you mean after just to be clear you've been single for a year

00:33:49.740 single for a year he cheated on you and you still love him a couple other clarifying questions

00:33:58.360 uh have you dated any other guys in this one year period yeah i tried but

00:34:05.820 it wasn't unsuccessful what compares why uh i don't know i guess i just wasn't ready when

00:34:14.060 i started dating again i wasn't ready and it just felt weird i would compare him like everybody to

00:34:19.820 him so i just like gave it its time you know his hold on her is too strong wow that's it that's all

00:34:28.360 it is yeah i would think she was they and me but

00:34:30.120 so especially when that's like all you know yeah that's why you know it's your first love

00:34:36.320 because she's she said she had boyfriends those are the worst heartbreaks yeah but that's high

00:34:40.720 school yeah i feel like high school was okay um have were you intimate with any of these other men

00:34:48.360 or no um i'd rather not say

00:34:51.800 i'm just gonna take that for a yes then i mean refusal i'm just gonna take it for yes i mean um

00:35:01.640 are you on are you trying to date at all are you on any dating apps i don't really like dating apps

00:35:10.680 i've never been on one but like no and i'm kind of just open to whatever but um how did you meet

00:35:19.460 these other guys you said you went on some other dates instagram they would dm you or something yeah

00:35:24.180 okay when's the most what's the most recent time you've been on a date with a different guy

00:35:31.280 a couple months ago a couple months ago okay uh

00:35:38.820 i feel like you're not telling us all the details with with all of this but um i'm giving as much as

00:35:50.460 i can does this guy know you're going on these dates he did yeah and does it make him jealous

00:35:56.020 yeah and does that make you feel like he loves you when he gets jealous no not really given his

00:36:04.360 sexual involvement with other women during the relationship is there any doubt that he's currently

00:36:09.440 sexually involved with at least one woman i don't think so i don't i really don't think so but hold

00:36:15.720 on wait hold on just to be clear while you were in a monogamous relationship okay i get what you're

00:36:20.820 saying hold on hold on hold on while you were dating him in a monogamous relationship

00:36:24.880 he was sexually involved with multiple other women but now that you guys are broken up now he's

00:36:30.860 celibate i find that dubious at best he's probably i assume he's sexually involved with at least one

00:36:37.260 other one women possibly multiple you do you have no evidence for this no does he i don't know you saw

00:36:46.460 did you talk to him about yeah i mean he tells me he's not doing anything so that's probably what he

00:36:51.660 told you when you were together with him right what would he say when you would find stuff on his

00:36:56.740 phone when you guys were together uh because you'd confront him right yeah that he was just like

00:37:02.260 drunk or oh gosh upset oh what was he doing talking or looking at people's pictures sliding into people's

00:37:11.100 sliding into the dms type stuff oh my gosh wait did you go through his phone yeah without his

00:37:17.480 permission yeah she has good instincts well i just felt something was happening

00:37:22.780 grid one motorsports donated two hundred dollars just be honest the groomer interfered in every date

00:37:31.160 you even thought of having you need fucking help dude is on his couch with a chick on his lap right

00:37:37.080 now watching you simp i'm not even simping um so you don't want to get back with him or is that

00:37:45.200 cope and you actually like you're still madly in love with him and no i don't want to get back

00:37:49.200 with so why why are you still hanging out with him you saw him this morning what was the nature of

00:37:53.820 your hangout this morning to talk yeah he's like my he's like a best friend for me it's familiarity

00:38:00.840 and comfortability but can you guys be friends without entertaining the possibility of being

00:38:07.080 together maybe we'll see no if you could you would have by now i don't i don't know that's possible

00:38:12.220 with your guys's history and i think um i think that's a problem with taking breaks because regardless

00:38:18.820 of whether taking a break is considered being single for that short period of time you're gonna hold on

00:38:27.000 to whatever that person did while they were on the break and you're gonna remember that it's gonna

00:38:31.500 replay in your head over and over and over again doesn't go away so you have to make a decision

00:38:36.300 in my opinion this is what i would do if i were you because i had ex like this and it was like

00:38:40.880 constant but what i would say is either decide to not talk anymore or work it out yeah but he was

00:38:50.240 cheating on her even when they weren't on a break because he was dming girls yeah so he i mean he's not

00:38:55.760 loyal he's not a loyal guy she doesn't give a fuck i think you're not being fully hold on hold on i i

00:39:04.580 think there's more to this story that you're letting on you're still hanging out with him you saw him

00:39:08.500 yesterday did you see him yesterday too you hung out with him yesterday no i saw him yesterday sorry

00:39:14.580 i saw him yesterday how often do you see what you saw him yesterday and this morning and this morning

00:39:19.460 q do you just like like to hang out with girls just to like chit chat go to brunch

00:39:29.000 no i hang out with girls that i'm fucking right i mean

00:39:35.500 okay can i just say something and i don't want to turn this on to like we're harping on you or

00:39:42.400 beating you down or we're trying to it's coming from like a place of like best interest and it

00:39:46.920 hurts to kind of hear that so i just want to like share something and i hope that it resonates you

00:39:52.240 but every minute you spend with him is taking away from time and opportunity of spending it with someone

00:39:57.580 who's actually going to value you and love you and who's going to give you what you really need

00:40:02.740 because it sounds like he doesn't value you and that you he just has you sitting and like i like i have

00:40:07.480 chills right now because it sounds like he's just he knows you're gonna be there you know and take a while

00:40:13.240 so um i don't know i feel like i also just recently realized like i've turned him into the perfect guy

00:40:20.660 and now someone else can like oh someone else can like reap those you're in love with the potential

00:40:26.440 you're in love with the potential exactly hold on hold on hold on he's like you turn how did you turn him

00:40:32.960 into the perfect guy what do you mean because he's so great now you know but after you met him

00:40:37.220 i think just accept you made him get married have your babies because you know he's gonna do this

00:40:42.300 hold on just to be clear he's the perfect guy but he was fucking multiple other women now he is i'm

00:40:50.200 saying when's the last time you've gone through his phone i haven't i don't even care to go through

00:40:57.400 his phone wait wait hold on just to be clear you were you were in a sexual relationship with him

00:41:03.420 when he wasn't perfect now that he's perfect you have no interest in

00:41:08.380 no it just feels a little too late but i don't know that yet for sure so that's what i'm trying

00:41:14.660 to figure out like is it too late or can i still figure this out with him i think as long as happiness

00:41:20.500 is there just like we only live one time you know so like as long as it's there like get married

00:41:26.300 enjoy it this is terrible advice this is like i don't like i don't know if people at the table

00:41:34.400 or the viewers are hearing this like what i'm hearing but she's gonna do what she's gonna do

00:41:41.160 so but like can i say bloody hell again imagine i feel the situation's absolutely fucked i feel

00:41:48.440 fucking terrible for the next guy oh wow i feel terrible for the next i'm actually i'm not like

00:41:57.920 that i wouldn't i wouldn't drag what i've been through into the next relationship you've been

00:42:02.240 single for a year and you're still you're hung you hung out with your ex this morning yeah but

00:42:07.980 if i were to start talking to a guy and meeting guy and that was his boundary as to like hey i don't

00:42:14.280 want you talking to this guy if i if he shows me that like he's worth that then i would i would

00:42:21.040 stop talking to him if if he should yeah if he shows you who initiated who initiates the hangouts

00:42:27.080 do y'all talk every day do y'all text do y'all no not every day every other day you guys are

00:42:33.360 well he knows that we're trying to figure it out so does he think you're his girlfriend so no he

00:42:40.600 doesn't he knows i'm not his girlfriend so what does it mean when you say another guy would

00:42:43.800 have to prove that well i would not that he needs to prove but i would just have to feel

00:42:48.980 an in like a connection with that guy how are you going to feel a connection with the new guy

00:42:54.620 if you have this thing open with this old guy yeah because when he calls you go running that's a

00:43:00.280 valid point i don't know yet guys i'm figuring it out but these have a year these are good

00:43:04.400 these are good things that i need to go home and i need you guys not going to be okay with that

00:43:09.360 no you need absolutely this isn't hold on let me this is a fucking intervention

00:43:13.220 this is an intervention

00:43:16.580 fuck that i'm gonna go home and figure it out and have him come over tomorrow and we're gonna

00:43:21.620 talk about it this is what honestly you need hold on i'll get to it after this

00:43:25.580 yeah thank you nickelodeon good to see you man it's a miracle we finally found the common who

00:43:30.680 fixed the man she's obsessed with move on marry a good man that loves you only so you can leave

00:43:36.400 you cuz you fantasize about your ex's peen what does that even mean nickelodeon's a shakespearean

00:43:44.260 he speaks in poetry thank you nickelodeon appreciate it man he's saying if you date

00:43:49.760 somebody new you oh i'll always be thinking about my ex yeah i don't think so grid one motorsports

00:43:56.320 donated two hundred dollars perfect guys do not cheat on their girlfriends dude is not perfect

00:44:03.460 you are not a fucking doormat move on you cannot fix this dude cause he knows for a fact he can

00:44:10.540 fuck around and you will take it okay thank you grid one motorsports well put appreciate the uh

00:44:18.520 message good to see you in the chat okay intervention all right fuck this i'm gonna go home and i'm gonna

00:44:25.940 think about it i'm gonna meditate i'm gonna meditate on what i heard from the whatever podcast i'm gonna

00:44:31.340 consult with him and we might cut a little we're gonna cuddle a little bit and he's we're probably

00:44:35.980 gonna have carnal knowledge and intercourse whatever um honestly you're you're potentially

00:44:42.560 like i think it was you who said this you're gonna fuck it up for like that next guy that comes around

00:44:48.320 because if i was that next guy and if i was that perfect next guy and i heard that you're still like

00:44:54.020 involved with your ex and you just hung out with him that's a deal breaker killer of cereal donated

00:45:00.980 two hundred dollars he's had it once he's going to want it again you say it's just talk but your old

00:45:08.420 news ever since he moved on in more than one way he's trying to see what he can get out of you

00:45:14.240 move on well well put kill of cereal here's the intervention you need to block him right now we'll

00:45:21.080 give you your phone back you need to block him right now you need to make a commitment you're never

00:45:25.540 gonna see this guy again if you want to send him a text be like hey listen this isn't healthy um i wish

00:45:31.980 you the best but i don't think i can continue seeing you seeing you anymore uh i think you should do that

00:45:38.080 right now here on the podcast because i mean i don't know if there's a consensus here if y'all concur

00:45:44.500 this ain't gonna work it has to end now half of them are telling her to marry him just gerald

00:45:51.280 donated two hundred dollars complete separation is your only recourse rip off the band-aid break

00:45:58.440 your own heart and allow yourself to be whole again yeah like if you're too young and so much

00:46:05.420 potential there's there's the guy out there that will be loyal to you like i agree i agree i agree

00:46:12.000 i'm not saying that like i'm not gonna i'm not trying or i'm i'm just like not considering any other

00:46:19.500 guys i'm just saying right now that's my situation but that's why i can't get back with him because i

00:46:23.700 also agree like the right i think i'll meet a guy who's also learned the same lessons maybe that i've

00:46:29.700 learned or he's already done the bullshit shit and then you know i will be valued for like who who i am

00:46:37.920 because i'm a very loyal person i never all the times i never did anything to um to kind of get back

00:46:44.860 at him or anything like and you can hold on to that you can hold on to your loyalty but your

00:46:49.200 beautiful years of in your 20s and so i said i'm in my prime and you're 20 and you're wasting them

00:46:55.200 on this guy i'm not trying to that's why i'm not getting back with him but you have them on the

00:47:00.460 you're still hanging it wait what did you catch she just said she's not getting back with him

00:47:07.140 well so what are you doing then exactly you just said y'all was trying to figure things out i guess

00:47:12.760 i'm slowly ripping off the bandage slowly slowly ripping off the bandage that's an oxymoron

00:47:19.640 he's on the back burner she's got him on the back burner no he's on the front burner that's he's on

00:47:27.380 the back burner it's complicated could i ask a question but he's also so intertwined in my family

00:47:32.020 life oh my god okay okay anyways i don't want to talk about this unconditionally there's an

00:47:38.660 unconditional love yeah i definitely that doesn't exist i know i know there's no i just recently

00:47:45.100 learned that that like unconditional love is not real yeah isn't it like unrequited love isn't that

00:47:49.940 the only unconditional love that exists that's like a that's like a poem or something yeah there's

00:47:55.160 a poem that the only real unconditional love is love unrequited and that i've heard online

00:48:00.280 what were you saying go ahead i was just gonna say that even if it's unconditional whatever word

00:48:05.320 you want to use you can do that from a distance you can love him from afar but you have to let it go

00:48:10.600 and you have to move on you have to heal yourself direct that love to yourself jane thank you jane is

00:48:18.540 that not good no no i disagree i disagree here's what you got to do all right check this shit out

00:48:27.340 right i gave you the advice you've got to fucking listen listen this is what you're gonna do right

00:48:33.140 you got we're gonna give you back the your phone all right you get we're gonna give you back the

00:48:38.500 oh my god i'm losing no okay but hold on hold on you're gonna do it on your terms that look

00:48:44.860 look you you don't want to get back with him right that's what she said like 100 you never

00:48:51.160 are gonna have sex with him again you're never gonna date this guy again correct she can't look

00:48:56.540 she won't even say it listen listen listen listen she's not you're not being you're not being like

00:49:01.500 full full on with us she's watching right now i'm humiliating myself she can't no you're not

00:49:07.600 you can't imagine your life hold on guys go ahead you you can't imagine your life without him

00:49:14.020 he has a role in your life he's been a priority in life for as long as you've been romantically

00:49:20.900 involved with him maybe even prior and the only way the only way that you can get rid of that feeling

00:49:27.480 is to go without talking to him the fact every time you talk to him the same circuits of your brain

00:49:33.620 that light up that's attached are relit you put yourself right back in the same situation you are

00:49:39.480 clinging to something you clinging to hope even even even if you sit here saying you won't get back

00:49:44.840 with him your actions show that you're still hopeful that you guys can work something out and be together

00:49:50.960 down the line you have to cut off all ties you have to go cold turkey that is the only way and and just

00:49:57.360 to add to what q is saying and i think other a few other people here have mentioned this this isn't

00:50:02.020 radical advice we're giving you i think the the norm when it comes to the end of a relationship

00:50:06.540 you can't keep hanging out with the person you just broke up with it has to be like a a uh like

00:50:13.180 cold turkey hard i agree i like you can't you've been broken up you sit you claim to be single for

00:50:18.280 a year but you're it's a lot harder to do it because like i know if i was my own friend and i was she was

00:50:24.160 telling what she was going going through i would also be like you just have to not but it is a lot

00:50:29.380 harder it's not hard to do it it is no no no no no no okay but sometimes the process of it might be

00:50:36.120 difficult i'm more of like a an emotional person and then you're more i can tell you're more of a

00:50:40.800 logical person so it's easier for you to like just well that's you're not wrong but sometimes you have

00:50:47.260 to um when it comes to making those decisions because your emotions are so involved you actually

00:50:53.400 need to think about this objectively you need to put yourself in a position of seeing this

00:50:58.600 objectively and what is the best decision like make a list of pros and cons right is this person

00:51:04.560 making me happy are they fulfilling me are they challenging me do they love me are they loyal to me

00:51:09.360 sounds like a lot of those are no i would say your best bet this is this is for your happiness in the

00:51:15.940 long run is to literally walk away it's gonna hurt it's gonna suck you're gonna cry you're gonna need

00:51:22.820 your friends you're gonna need all your friends right now and everything positive but you have to

00:51:28.020 go through that suck yeah you know what i mean you have to go through that and you'll be so proud of

00:51:32.960 yourself you'll be so proud yeah like wow i was so strong that day maybe less than two years don't

00:51:38.160 worry it'll be okay the future i thought we weren't doing therapy okay okay okay

00:51:43.540 thank you guys i appreciate it i appreciate the advice from all of you well hold on you appreciate

00:51:50.260 the advice i but i do want to hopefully get a confirmation from you right here right now show

00:51:56.200 i'll let you know no no no no no no hold on hold on you've just been like advised she's married

00:52:01.620 she's given you good advice uh you're in a relationship for well we'll come back to your situation

00:52:07.420 uh um q's a dating coach

00:52:12.620 i said just do you i here's what i think we need right are you can you make a commitment here on the

00:52:24.060 whatever podcast that this is over you're really trying to save me well don't save you from yourself

00:52:32.080 you don't want to be seeing like like i said i and i'm telling you i think the best thing like if

00:52:39.940 you want to take massive action do massive change right because you like you said you could like

00:52:45.440 slowly rip off the band-aid which again doesn't really make sense you could do something step out

00:52:52.000 of your comfort zone right here right now we'll give you your phone you can send them a text be like

00:52:56.600 hey this isn't gonna work anymore and block him you don't know you don't owe this guy anything he

00:53:03.840 was cheating on you during the relationship now look i get it maybe you want to do i don't know in

00:53:10.040 person i don't know she can't do it and the reason she can't do it is because she's not giving us all

00:53:16.140 the details of the state of their relationship he apparently has done things that she cherishes that

00:53:21.580 she values appreciates respects and clings to a complete monster but we're not saying that but

00:53:26.880 that's what she's clinging to that's why she can't block him so how heavily intertwined is it is like

00:53:32.600 he has he has um does he pay your rent or something yeah is there like financial intertwining no no no

00:53:39.960 you guys were like friends for years right i mean you're the family friends so you're worried about

00:53:43.180 losing a friendship yeah it's difficult it's like they're asking you to go cold turkey she's saying

00:53:48.200 wean yourself off and you're just trying to figure out where you need to be yeah but i just want you

00:53:55.720 to think about every minute you're spending with him you are taking away from time that you can be

00:53:59.480 finding yourself even more and establishing your own independence and growing into your own

00:54:05.560 and that's thank you that's it i just thank you that's such a good point

00:54:10.380 i'm just curious like she needs to be ready though like you can't make that decision for her

00:54:17.740 she can just unblock them after the show you know what i mean at some point i think it's gonna come

00:54:22.020 down to just accepting like what you know is true if you really felt like he wasn't ever gonna cheat

00:54:28.320 on you again you saw that he was different somehow i don't know what that would take but then you

00:54:33.980 wouldn't hesitate you know it's true like you know it's just getting to the point where you accept

00:54:39.860 it and do whatever it takes to move on can i ask you straight up question do you want to get back

00:54:45.100 with him i don't know she is back with him i'm not back with him emotionally but what do you mean

00:54:53.820 you don't know i that's what i don't understand like i don't think i do i don't think i do but i am

00:55:01.160 still attached to like the friendship part of it are you okay if he's like dating someone else

00:55:05.920 i've thought about that and i'm kind of getting close to that point where i would wish him the

00:55:11.440 best okay you're getting close to the yeah like obviously i don't know maybe it would make me upset

00:55:18.500 upset because like i say that now you're not dating it's not your call yeah he dates if he was dating

00:55:24.200 someone else would you keep hanging out with him as friends no so you don't what if he is he probably

00:55:30.400 is dating i don't think so wait wait wait are you waiting for him to move on first to give you

00:55:34.940 no no no i'm not okay no i'm not i have a question let's say you meet a guy who you like and he likes

00:55:41.840 you what do you think that guy is going to think of this situation that you currently have going on

00:55:47.040 with your ex that it's a complicated sticky situation any guy worth his salt worth it like

00:55:54.980 who's worth anything you tell and i hope you would disclose this because this would this is a

00:56:00.900 potential major conflict for a future relationship that you're going to have with another guy

00:56:05.680 grid one motorsports donated two hundred dollars the emotion you should be feeling is run the eff away

00:56:13.320 the emotion i am feeling is get the rocks with a little scent the nukes mixed in go find a real

00:56:20.920 man that does not cheat i double dog dare you get the rocks yeah abdul yeah get the rock get the rock

00:56:27.860 have you guys ever heard of the saying like all men cheat do you guys believe that i don't i don't i

00:56:33.460 don't want to believe that it's not true yeah i don't believe in it but then again i wouldn't mind it

00:56:40.500 because i'd want a relationship where i think i've said what yeah it's not cheating let me just

00:56:46.960 finish up my my train of thought so this potential like a potential new guy that's interested in you

00:56:52.140 this is going to be a if again if he's like a man who's worth anything that if a girl told me this

00:56:59.560 bro i i don't want that fucking headache in my life you're still hung up on your ex you got to be

00:57:05.940 properly single if you want to date me i'm sure q you don't want to date a girl who's still hung

00:57:10.380 up on her ex hanging out going to brunch hanging out doing sleepovers who knows you know what you're

00:57:15.400 not telling us and um and look i'm giving you some tough love here i'm trying i know i'm coming off a

00:57:21.480 bit abrasive i'm trying to give you a bit of tough love this situation is absolutely foobar snafu fucked

00:57:27.400 up beyond all repair uh like i think you gotta i think the intervention here is what are you gonna do

00:57:36.800 you're gonna call him on the phone meet him in person have a sob sesh honestly send him send him

00:57:42.400 a thoughtful text i think you gotta just end it you guys are already broken up anyways you said

00:57:47.400 you're single so it's like you don't you don't owe him a closure talk a breakup talk yeah send him a

00:57:53.880 text be like look in order for me to meet somebody else move on with my life i gotta i gotta do a clean

00:57:59.400 cut send him a text if you gotta block him right after that's it he had his chance to be with you

00:58:05.460 he fucked it up he probably could still get you now but one of you's offensive or i don't know who

00:58:10.240 i think that we gotta leave the past who knows what he's gotta say but like he would say the same

00:58:18.620 he would say the same thing in addition to this situation just being super complicated like i just

00:58:23.280 said it's gonna present it's gonna be a major issue for any relationships moving forward like this

00:58:30.300 guy can't be in the picture i never really thought about that but this guy can't be in the picture

00:58:33.720 if you're trying to date somebody else and that guy who could be the guy who could be the guy

00:58:40.180 you're gonna lose him if he finds out this bullshit is going on with your ex and i know i'm saying it

00:58:45.760 kind of rough but you need some you need some what's the term medicine right now tough love

00:58:50.620 yeah thank you ryan it's actually really sweet of you what has he done to show you that he's not

00:58:59.260 gonna be texting other girls or looking at other girls or whatever like has he gone out of his way

00:59:03.740 to make you feel comfortable no does he offer you his phone and all he does he does yeah

00:59:08.320 without you asking yeah or what do you mean without me asking like you don't have to ask he's just like

00:59:15.820 hey i just want to like yeah he's like whatever you want whatever you want to do like if you want

00:59:20.840 to see my phone if you want my location if you want this and that but i don't want any of that

00:59:25.640 like i don't want your location that just seems to me weird you shouldn't have to have all that

00:59:30.420 stuff i know but we got to that point you know so but now it's like you know i i think that

00:59:37.860 probably what's hard for you is because every time you want to leave you're reminded of the good

00:59:45.040 yeah and they'll show you their best self you know to kind of pull you back in and that's

00:59:53.140 i know for real so are you single yeah well we're gonna move we're gonna move on we're gonna move on

01:00:01.600 but you don't have but my point was can i finish my point quick quick okay so my point was you don't

01:00:05.740 have to like discard those good memories you could hold on to those memories no you got no

01:00:11.940 hold on i have to interrupt i have to interrupt that's terrible advice that's terrible advice

01:00:18.580 it's disrespectful to your future partner to be thinking of that time he hit it really well

01:00:23.860 and although no you this guy needs to be in a fucking a thousand miles in the past this doesn't

01:00:30.000 make it he's got to be a thousand years in the past you can't be thinking oh i'm remembering all the

01:00:35.320 good memories it's disrespectful to the new guy that you're going to be with to be thinking about the

01:00:40.460 good times with your ex it's rude it's it's disrespectful i'm sorry do you just delete a

01:00:45.900 hard drive in your brain of every encounter you've ever had in your life well the memory is there but

01:00:50.800 i'm not like reminiscing while i'm with my new girlfriend i never said that i remember hitting

01:00:56.080 it really good with my other girl like i'm not like that i did not say that i remember all the

01:01:02.200 growth you know like oh yeah all that cool i remember the first times like you can't nobody's

01:01:09.580 saying to do that nobody's saying to do that i'm i'm saying that it's okay to still remember the good

01:01:16.640 times when you're feeling down you gotta be men in black with that shit you fucking remember or you

01:01:21.920 you forget all that okay well your brain's like a filing cabinet okay she's gonna keep the middle of

01:01:27.760 honestly i know it's in your head but it's like bro imagine q you're you're dating a girl you're in

01:01:33.520 love with her you've been dating her for one two years and like let's say she reveals to you yeah

01:01:38.300 i'm reminiscing about my other ex and let's say we we could say it's terrible if it's sexual

01:01:45.180 he was he was remember i'm remembering all the times he was hitting it raw better than you

01:01:51.080 blah blah blah and then oh also all the wholesome moments i'm reminiscing on all the you know the

01:01:56.280 cuddling and all the intimate moments can i oh my bro you got that that's in the past you think

01:02:01.480 about it less as you like as the years go on for sure and definitely when you're in a new relationship

01:02:06.300 you really shouldn't be like thinking about your ex constantly i mean clearly you haven't moved on

01:02:11.020 okay but my point was it might help her through this hard time to just remember the good thing no

01:02:18.220 what are you talking about hold on no okay no i'm saying she needs to leave him no no no no no

01:02:23.680 no why this is such a dog shit advice no offense in order for her to get over her no stop stop stop

01:02:30.880 stop stop stop stop in order for her to your advice is in order for her to get over her ex she needs to

01:02:37.880 think about all the amazing good times she had with her ex that's retarded no sorry i dropped the r

01:02:45.040 word but that's actually retarded okay you've already broke the first rule but i know but i had to

01:02:49.600 it was actually our first of all first of all i did not say in order to that's what you literally

01:02:54.260 said no i did not you said roll about okay you said something along the lines of during this hard

01:02:59.820 breakup time just keep thinking of all stop just keep thinking of all those really good times you had

01:03:06.360 with your ex that's the worst advice for getting over next okay what are you talking about

01:03:10.940 pros and cons list okay no we're making a pros and cons list of why to get over or why to stay

01:03:16.440 with someone you do think of the good you have to and then you think of the bad times and when you're

01:03:20.720 doing your like you're weighing those options you decide that what was negative is overseeing what

01:03:25.640 was positive so you do need to think about the negative give me the positive sorry bro you guys

01:03:29.740 i just i don't even know what to say this is getting crazy last thing on this and i'm gonna move it on

01:03:38.800 um my gosh ultimately though the big thing is is that this is for any for any men that was perfect

01:03:48.660 timing this is absolutely catastrophic if you're considering like this is why it's so important

01:03:55.400 for as a guy you need to screen out girls that are still like hung up on their exes this will

01:04:02.040 absolutely like the chances of her like getting into a three-month thing with some other guy and it's

01:04:08.560 like there's there's a budding relationship there there's a decent likelihood that her ex is in the

01:04:14.780 back of her mind and if he comes back and he's like babe i miss you so much let's get back together

01:04:19.520 i've changed i'll do better boom that three-month relationship is down the fucking toilet you best

01:04:25.240 believe she's getting back with her ex you best believe it that's why only date women that aren't

01:04:31.900 like fucking hung up on the ex don't date me i'm just saying that's what you're saying brian what

01:04:36.440 has he done i don't i wouldn't recommend a guy to date you given look you seem perfectly pleasant

01:04:41.560 you're an attractive girl great i wouldn't recommend a guy getting involved with you or a woman like you

01:04:47.520 who's currently still hung up on on your ex and you're still hanging out with him that's that's not

01:04:54.060 a good look i wouldn't even go on a first date with with a girl who's in that sort of situation

01:04:59.380 brian may i ask you a question what's up um i think what they were saying is they don't want her to

01:05:03.680 become bitter in her memories with him do you have any cares what her who cares do you have any fond

01:05:09.700 memories of anyone you've been with absolutely sure absolutely but i'm not in an effort to get over

01:05:15.120 you didn't delete it completely yes if i go into my brain i can think back precisely but i'm

01:05:20.840 your advice is is for her to start meditating no past good experiences again with the throwing in

01:05:27.420 the words in my mouth i did not say that i said she doesn't have to completely throw away the good

01:05:31.680 times when she's really going through a hard time she can think back yes there were good times and

01:05:36.960 bad times but the bad times outweighed the good times and she's choosing herself like i don't know if

01:05:43.760 the bad times this is yeah i don't i don't know if the bad times outweigh the good times

01:05:50.360 otherwise she would have been left if it was if it was that severe to the point to where

01:05:55.640 she experienced some acute trauma she would have been left i think i'm just a homeless romantic

01:06:00.100 but sometimes i invested so much of my time and energy and wait scoop out yeah so but it is what

01:06:06.600 it is and i'll figure it out guys i promise i know you will thank you see you can like don't cast

01:06:12.840 pearls before swine i gave you great advice no i am taking it and i appreciate it brian but i do yeah but

01:06:19.300 this look uh it's kind of like it's i'm not saying it as like oh i'm not gonna do anything

01:06:26.100 about it like i have been actively seeing him trying to figure it out you know and i know i know

01:06:34.360 the clock is ticking i know i have to make my decision so it will be done saying like the normal

01:06:40.120 the healthy thing after a breakup there's no contact you can't be hanging out with them it makes it

01:06:46.000 fucking impossible to move on especially if you're still like having if you're still sleeping with

01:06:51.780 them you're i know you don't want to get into that i'm just going to assume it's been the case though

01:06:55.600 you break up you're still sleeping with them occasionally you're still hanging out with them

01:06:59.600 cuddling whatever it makes it impossible to move on yeah like so anyways i can i can just keep

01:07:06.060 reiterating the same point it's not clear to me if you're going to take it but um i am she has to get

01:07:11.460 to that place where she asks herself those really really hard questions like have a moment with

01:07:17.300 yourself like and really think about that really think about what you're doing are you am i wasting

01:07:23.400 my time or not anyways moving on she went to the restroom yeah well i'm gonna read a chat dylan

01:07:30.640 lolly unfortunately streamlabs isn't letting me re-trigger it so i'm just gonna have to read it

01:07:36.740 uh so hold on one sec guys he says let's test the delusion tonight ladies you're alone in the woods

01:07:43.760 would you rather come across a bear or a man you don't know please explain your pick starting with

01:07:49.720 you go ahead i would say a man that i don't know because he might have tools to help and if he's a

01:08:01.520 terrible person then i'll take him out like that's it okay um you didn't specify the bear so i'm gonna

01:08:08.700 assume it's a sun bear and they are very cute so i'm going to choose the bear you chose the bear

01:08:14.560 the sun bear yeah they never said which bear i know so you're just assuming you're in indian i could

01:08:19.880 exactly so i could be a koala bear no that's not but still i choose the bear beautiful the man

01:08:27.900 the man i would choose the bear i would choose the bear you wait say it one more time i think we

01:08:36.260 missed it i would choose the bear okay why um because like a man that i don't know sounds really

01:08:46.160 scary yeah in the forest too in the forest he's doing something i don't like that yeah and maybe

01:08:50.860 you know a bear weighs like well over 400 pounds but i wouldn't even literally rip your skin off

01:08:55.820 your face i have high is it called hydrophobia so there well there's a fear of forests and um i have

01:09:02.440 a really big fear of like going in the forest like alone and especially if a man came there like i'm

01:09:07.980 like oh my gosh damn triggered and and but a bear i could just be like let the bear live its life

01:09:14.180 and i'll just you know get out my binocular or whatever did you all say man man i said man all of you

01:09:20.140 said man i said bear well okay let's assume it's like a uh a grizzly and they most likely don't

01:09:26.540 attack unless provoked well plus my mom worked missing persons so like a man in the forest was

01:09:31.740 always a bad bad sign i'll take the grizzly why men hunt oh wait so man bear man man bear bear

01:09:41.360 do you want to answer this what's the question man and bear okay you're alone in the you're alone in

01:09:48.460 the woods would you rather come across a bear or a man you don't know explain your pick oh

01:09:53.360 so i'm basically like rolling out the dice on what kind of guy this is yeah i said sure yeah

01:10:01.660 um i guess i'm alone in the woods and a bear maybe i mean because i kind of know what to do

01:10:15.800 if i encounter a bear you like okay maybe i don't do you play dead or do you make yourself big i

01:10:21.040 don't know i think it depends on the bear it depends on the color i don't know but a man if

01:10:26.200 he's good then i want the man because he'll protect me if he's bad then i don't know what to do

01:10:30.100 you don't know exactly so i guess um i guess a bear right it's just what are your chances like

01:10:37.620 which what would you rather take your chances on yeah bear because a bear you can like maybe get

01:10:42.840 to leave you alone but a man is just like i don't know can you what is the original what so

01:10:50.120 what is i've i've heard this it's been going i guess viral recently on tiktok what's the origination

01:10:55.400 of this question i think one of it is is it pointing out that women have this perception of

01:11:01.560 men that they're dangerous and so it's on one hand it's saying women feel this way about men

01:11:06.980 but isn't it a bit i mean the the sort of overwhelming answers for women being more

01:11:12.400 comfortable with a bear it seems like it's actually a bit sexist no i just explain why

01:11:20.140 you know how to handle a bear you like make yourself big and they leave you alone

01:11:23.900 if it's a man you make yourself big he doesn't care he could hurt you

01:11:28.440 you have to think worst case scenario you're alone in the woods yeah i mean the worst case scenario is

01:11:35.920 the fucking man can talk the bear the bear don't understand english so men the bear could be

01:11:41.340 no harm to a woman other than just like calling her bad men are not that's his whole point men are

01:11:45.740 not inherently bad no a man is not gonna hurt you you stumble across a man in the woods chances are

01:11:50.980 he's not gonna hurt you and that's the whole point of the question the bear is absolutely has a more like

01:11:56.380 a larger probability of hurting you than a man does in the woods and it's that simple just sure

01:12:02.020 disagree you can disagree but it ain't that ain't it's this fact it's a fact a bear wants to hunt

01:12:07.040 a bear does not attack humans like unless it's a polar bear a man i don't know what you're doing

01:12:11.920 in the woods you can you can even some bears attack people don't you watch these animals on net on

01:12:17.100 netflix don't you dare bring some bears into this conversation even they attack people

01:12:20.500 they attack people they attack people and then if and black bears attack people grizzly bears attack

01:12:26.900 people there's and men attack people too yeah but a man is a man is not gonna hurt you well let me

01:12:33.240 ask you guys a question right like let's say the scenario is like of all the men that you've walked

01:12:40.160 past throughout your life where they all had they possibly had an opportunity to attack you

01:12:47.640 did they did they yeah but you weren't alone in the woods wait so you're saying i don't i don't

01:12:53.520 even i'm not even the kind of like actually i i hold on hold on hold on let me go around the table

01:12:57.960 asking this question let's say you were alone in the woods and you walked past a man what do you guys

01:13:06.120 think like what do you think the probability is that just any random man would attack you if you were

01:13:15.380 to walk past you let's say you're on a hike through a trail or something what do you think

01:13:20.100 this probability is that he would attack you i feel like it's you never know what if you had to assign

01:13:27.360 a percent yeah i'd say 50 50. okay what about you um yeah alone in the woods why are you alone in the

01:13:36.760 woods he's hunting just let's say let's say it's just have you ever have you guys ever been hiking

01:13:41.580 alone yes yeah no no not alone well there's popular trails okay why would you do that who's

01:13:48.620 gonna hear me scream like okay let's okay fine you've walked past people while you're on a hike

01:13:54.320 i've hiked alone before yeah and it's always like it feels like 50 50 yeah what do you okay hold on

01:13:59.900 let's go around the table fully on this what about you

01:14:01.820 well i wouldn't hike alone as a woman you just don't do that i do i think it i think in generally

01:14:13.640 it's not safe to do that as a woman especially at night okay now we're adding other factors why

01:14:20.340 well because then you're you could be a potential victim of what of a creepy man

01:14:31.840 wanting to hurt you or what do you think the percentage chances though assault you okay what's

01:14:38.980 the percentage chance i don't know but i would say if it was me um

01:14:45.120 30 70 30 being he would assault me 30 37 30 70 70 wait 30 30 chance that he would okay what about

01:14:58.500 you um well i chose the man um because right yeah bears are pretty scary um especially if it's like a

01:15:06.140 mama bear and she's got like a kid oh you you reasonable yeah um but but also if you are alone

01:15:13.000 in a woods i do understand like a woman's fear being around around a man because i've been in a

01:15:18.520 room with a man on my own and been like oh he's giving me some weird energy over here and yes if

01:15:23.940 he feels as if he could get away with it you're in the middle of like you know the pacific northwest

01:15:28.540 and it's the woods it's like the sasquatch area right it's very very covered um there is a chance

01:15:36.060 that a man would attack but i don't know what the percentage is i would still choose the man over a bear

01:15:41.100 i have a question well i want to get everybody's answer on this so just give us a quick if you

01:15:45.180 can uh well my uh perspective probably isn't appropriate for youtube but um i was victim of

01:15:51.980 a violent crime yep but okay what percentage i don't well i've been victim of a few crimes but

01:16:00.620 one was really bad but okay so i would say a high percentage just from what i've seen what give us a

01:16:06.340 percentage 85 grid one motorsports donated 200 question a man alone in the woods is already tired

01:16:15.500 of a woman's shite thus a woman alone in the woods will never even know he was there and he would

01:16:20.960 likely take pity on the bear that ate he what about you what percentage i'd say 50 50 50 50 50 okay

01:16:29.500 um i'm not sure but i think it'd be very low like less than 10 i think most men are good and would

01:16:37.480 be good like not to sound bad but like especially if you're a pretty woman you're young you're

01:16:43.700 attractive depends what you're wearing like not to be rude but like girls who are like overweight

01:16:48.780 or who were not attractive they're probably not going to be like assaulted as much i think if you're

01:16:54.540 attractive he would be more inclined to help you yeah that's true but also more inclined to hurt you

01:17:00.420 if he's the wrong kind of guy if he's the wrong kind of guy is insane i think there's just too many

01:17:06.900 variables i think women have a victim complex and they have a really inflated look of course there's

01:17:13.800 men there's monsters out there there's men who do terrible things yeah this is a very small portion of

01:17:19.840 men a very small portion of men who who are criminals who have an inclination to uh attack

01:17:27.580 women or assault women in whatever way that might manifest itself um so the way you feel but like to

01:17:33.400 hear these numbers say 50 80 i don't know i heard what was the highest 85 was that you who said 85 i said

01:17:40.080 85 oh i don't know what did you say what percentage i said 30 30 50 50 it's like it's a coin toss just

01:17:47.280 walking by so that's basically what you guys are saying is 50 of men if given the opportunity would

01:17:57.120 say you would assault you essentially that's no that's only the man in the woods like you never

01:18:03.740 it's a 50 50 chance you never you don't know you don't know it's i probably say 20 these are

01:18:09.440 instincts of course you don't know what any given man exactly but i know a lot of us were also taught

01:18:16.620 to like not yeah go out at night alone as a woman you don't do that i think the like i think the

01:18:23.360 factor is you don't put yourself in that position it's a wooded area yeah it's a creepy yeah right

01:18:28.180 there's no there's no surveillance there's no police i think it also depends on your how you grew up like

01:18:34.500 i remember you know i mean bless my mom's heart but i grew up you know kind of interesting and some

01:18:39.300 you know she worked missing person she was a police officer so sometimes she'd be like you left the door

01:18:44.100 unlocked and i'd be like yeah and she'd be like say something very dark that would happen to me and

01:18:49.700 i'd be like whoa okay and that would be like for years decades and and so you kind of just internalize

01:18:55.820 it and hey you let it go but at the end of the day there's always that kind of lurking like what

01:19:00.120 but also but also i think this speaks volumes to the biased negative perception that y'all have

01:19:06.220 towards men because if you ask me the most likely man to be in the woods is a fucking park ranger

01:19:11.200 oh yeah no but i mean y'all automatically assume the a guy in the woods what is he doing in the

01:19:18.280 woods it could be a park ranger would you feel better if it was a park i would feel better but

01:19:22.900 yeah anytime there's an open-ended question the human mind is going to play into whatever its

01:19:27.580 biases are so that's why i said that's why i said that's why i said the question we're saying

01:19:32.820 more than likely he's not gonna attack us figure out how yes women perceive men so we're not gonna we

01:19:38.880 know not to be like well it's probably a park ranger no but it's open-ended so it could go

01:19:44.940 either way the fact that they literally stated a man in the woods is creepy that's open-ended a man

01:19:50.580 in the woods a man in the woods you give him a label that it could be a park maybe it's more like

01:19:55.520 we didn't say that alone with no one i didn't i never said that no not you i think she said i said

01:20:00.700 i prefer animals over humans and i want to say no i think you said a man in the woods is just creepy

01:20:05.200 one of you said a man in the woods is just creepy i think it was probably me was probably me yeah but

01:20:10.820 if it's a park ranger he's not creepy but i i take back the 80 because i was thinking 80 with a man

01:20:15.840 in the woods odds that he would be creepy but but if it was like just a regular man like on the street

01:20:20.180 20 not not high can i ask the group ask the group a question is it related to this yes okay um

01:20:27.240 has any woman here taken like self-defense classes and does that build your confidence and do you think

01:20:33.000 that your chances of surviving something like that encounter you're describing would be higher

01:20:38.020 given those lessons so after the crime that happened um i was very scared and i actually took

01:20:45.040 um like karate um when i you know didn't have this going on and i took karate for like i would say like

01:20:51.560 three to four months and i really liked it and i just kind of stopped and i don't know why but

01:20:56.480 um i i felt a lot of power doing that and i don't i don't know how much i could ward off but it felt

01:21:02.440 cool like it was good i think it's good for women to i don't have any objections to women learning

01:21:08.960 self-defense tactics taking martial arts jujitsu kickboxing whatever uh however i mean unless you

01:21:17.180 rise to very top levels in that sport the likelihood that you're going to be able to dispatch a man who has

01:21:22.740 60 pounds on you or even who's probably the same weight there's such a strength discrepancy between

01:21:29.520 men and women even of the same weight i gotta be honest like self-defense classes are probably not

01:21:38.060 you gotta be sufficient i think it was psychological i think it felt good well that's the other thing

01:21:43.620 like you're it's typically when it comes to your your sense of you feeling unsafe that that's exactly

01:21:49.680 what it is you feel unsafe whether you actually it's with this whole bear scenario you might feel

01:21:55.840 that way but the reality is what what you feel and what is reality is very different yeah like it

01:22:02.000 probably won't happen again keep in mind we chose man for a reason we know that the band the man is

01:22:06.860 more than likely not going to hurt us or attack us we're not saying that but you're also asking woman

01:22:12.840 if i were to ask you if you were alone in the woods would you rather you know be with a woman or a man

01:22:17.300 you would i mean you know a woman or a bear then you would choose the woman but women on average

01:22:23.040 get assaulted by men then vice versa kind of you're sure that's fine right women display aggression in

01:22:30.880 very different ways though sure but yeah so i mean and actually i think when i mean jeez i don't know if

01:22:40.440 i really want to go down that road but um uh i don't think self-defense would really help you

01:22:48.960 with most men like if you're like ufc champion woman you can probably actually like beat the

01:22:54.880 out of a guy who's for sure your size i think who's untrained can i ask a question have you ever

01:23:00.080 had a swift kick in the bollocks is that the boss a swift kick in the bollocks like you've been

01:23:05.720 kicked in the nuts is that what they teach you in the self-defense classes yeah in the uk i did two

01:23:10.320 years of military training and then two years of krav maga training yeah and the best thing they teach

01:23:14.620 women is the bollocks yeah i would i would say yeah i mean if you don't have to be ufc you just have

01:23:19.740 to get them there and it hurts doesn't it it hurt a little bit yeah yeah but do you think you would

01:23:25.460 really like it's like do you think like the you what you see in the movies where if you were to

01:23:31.300 strike a guy in the nuts he would just like oh fall over and he can no longer control his motor like

01:23:37.920 should we test it maybe if you mace him like i'm pretty sure i'm just saying that's a good start i'm

01:23:44.060 not going to tell people how to attack men i'm just saying if you take those classes they teach you

01:23:47.640 how about this let me give women better advice go get a firearm that'll that'll equalize bear that'll

01:23:53.700 equalize yeah much more than that that'll help you out much more in a self-defense situation against

01:23:59.960 a man than taking years of bjj okay or mace yeah also like i don't know it's pretty you just block

01:24:09.460 can you just block the nut shot i don't know i think it's kind of crazy to see like you know it's

01:24:16.780 like you said with the biases and everything i think it's really nice gustavo 140 anybody here anybody

01:24:23.160 here way more than 140 like i'm pretty sure you can't ask that question all right yeah you're

01:24:29.920 right sorry the autism's kicking in i don't know the whole bear thing though it's like uh

01:24:37.760 it kind of it's weird because on one hand it's like i feel like women think it's like a w yeah we're

01:24:45.240 more scared of men than bears just kind of like ridiculous yeah no well that then why why else would

01:24:53.100 like all these women say i'd rather be with the bear like because they're dumb well because like

01:24:59.020 i'd rather be with a safe man look there's absolutely that i feel safe with there's absolutely

01:25:04.500 men that would that do and would attack women but like i would argue that it's a risk that there's a

01:25:11.440 greater likelihood that you end up with a harmless man who might actually help you you're stuck in

01:25:17.040 the force he'll save you true yeah he'll save you i agree with that whereas if you cross paths you

01:25:23.160 cross paths with a bear most bears actually don't attack i don't know the stats on that that's polar

01:25:29.080 bears yeah the rest of them don't so they still attack i don't know and you're smaller than a man

01:25:36.220 i don't know i'm pretty sure like we're smaller than both i mean cross paths with the bear like

01:25:42.160 you have to think okay what's the worst scenario for both okay the guy is a piece of shit who wants

01:25:48.760 to assault you okay the bear is uh a fucking the the babies are there it's a mama bear it's gonna

01:25:56.120 fuck you up it's gonna maul you yeah if it was babies i would be scared of the bear if the babies

01:26:02.520 here's here's a question right um let's say you're not alone in the forest and you're with like

01:26:07.700 a group you're with a another man would you rather cross paths with two men or two bears

01:26:15.620 two men depends how big the man is two men two men i would say two men i would say two men two men

01:26:23.260 for sure because then one is there to watch if anything

01:26:25.380 there's definitely a bias against i mean there's a bias against men when it comes to this stuff

01:26:32.260 the um bears are the vast majority the vast majority of men would never hurt a woman in

01:26:39.280 this sort of hypothetical situation yeah there's monsters out there there's pieces of shit but the

01:26:44.880 vast majority of men are good men who would probably help you it's not the ideal situation regardless

01:26:52.020 of who you come across it's crazy it's crazy to say that bear yeah they must assume it is ted bundy

01:26:58.260 no i don't think anyone was assuming anything i was i think maybe i was assuming it feels a

01:27:06.120 certain way because she's been through things so you have to understand that but i don't think any

01:27:10.000 of us are actually assuming that a guy would just attack us i hope this isn't offensive but

01:27:15.240 let me ask you a question for those of you who you had bad experiences with men before

01:27:22.080 what if that guy slingshot donated two hundred dollars rather than wasting your money on jujitsu

01:27:31.400 karate self-defense classes go take you a gun and safety course and get your ccp it's way more

01:27:38.500 useful against a predator versus some fancy karate move yeah i mean you can get a firearm and you could

01:27:45.060 you could kill the best male heavyweight ufc fighter if he's got his hands you've got a gun

01:27:53.220 like gg well played so it's just yeah look it's not the gun wasn't a factor in the original question

01:27:59.260 and also it was a factor in my scenario it's really difficult to also get a firearm um especially as

01:28:05.740 an immigrant um and then there's also places you can't take your firearm and you know you won't have

01:28:11.060 it on you all the time so i think yes agree but also it's going to be hard to do that 24 7 for me

01:28:17.360 he had a firearm yikes i know right anyways i totally forgot sorry what else oh yeah no worries

01:28:26.980 do i go there probably not it's been like five years so okay i'm kind of like over it but but but

01:28:35.800 i'm i'm wiser now and i did karate it did make me feel better it did really made me feel better

01:28:39.980 yeah i don't give a shit okay what does it change the question at all if like if we were to put

01:28:49.060 like would you rather be in the force alone with a bear or a man of x race like let's say let's let's

01:28:58.640 racialize this a little bit let's say what about like a minority group no does that change anything

01:29:03.660 i think i think what it is is and i don't mean to speak for you yeah no worries no worries i know

01:29:11.700 it's so awkward i wish it didn't happen so no i don't mean to speak for you but i think it's about

01:29:16.080 where you place the most risk and what you have the most like how you view the the the greatest risk and

01:29:23.840 so it's like if you um for me i chose a man because i automatically know the bear's intent

01:29:33.060 and that bear could intentionally like potentially hurt me just gerald donated two hundred dollars

01:29:40.540 black bear will run brown bear will charge grizzly bear will hold you down and eat pieces off of you

01:29:48.160 while you're still alive screaming polar bears will kill you quickly and eat you quickly

01:29:53.880 good yo gerald it's good to see in the chat man yeah so i just just to wrap that up as i just feel

01:30:01.260 like you answer it based on where you see the most risk and if you see the most risk in in a man or

01:30:06.720 versus a bear and for me it's like i know the bear's intent and i'm not going to assume the man's

01:30:12.600 intent so i'm going to choose him and a bear is a different animal it i don't know how large

01:30:18.000 this potential bear is but it's a it's a different animal i don't know how to handle bears i don't

01:30:22.520 know any knowledge so i'm going to choose a man based on my knowledge and my experience

01:30:26.180 you guys is different and you have different viewpoints so that's why you should actually

01:30:31.060 i do have to move i do got to move it on yo i do have to move it on of official brandon collins

01:30:35.500 what's up everyone joining the stream late hey lauren glad to see you back hope you're well

01:30:39.100 question for the panel what are your types are trevy guys okay does size actually matter

01:30:43.060 we typically prefer to only like one question per thing so um what are your types are trevy

01:30:49.820 guys okay uh i'm just going to do the last one since we we do like one question per chat

01:30:55.480 but thank you brandon collins um we'll just do does size actually matter

01:30:59.740 it's about the motion in the ocean and your ability to please word i agree i agree yeah size

01:31:10.960 doesn't matter size doesn't matter to me uh so we're not speaking on body type it's like

01:31:16.060 the size of the pp okay no size doesn't matter oh i was gonna say the size of his heart does matter

01:31:22.880 oh yeah it does sweet

01:31:25.880 okay uh we have nickelodeon here the sadly ironic part is women only like men that treat them like

01:31:34.900 shite but look for a disney romance but if they ever found that romantic noble sweet man

01:31:40.160 he would give them the ick what not true i don't think so don't speak in generalities

01:31:48.840 but you guys have heard about the this sort of trope or stereotype which is true of women being

01:31:55.820 attracted to and liking bad boys and jerks and assholes i think like an asshole to the world but

01:32:01.180 a gentleman to your girl type thing you know that still sounds pretty so he treats everyone else like

01:32:06.880 no no no like tough boy exterior tough boy exterior but like inside like tough boy isn't like he can

01:32:14.560 get shit done he'll protect you he'll be able to defend you we're shifting the goalposts a little

01:32:19.380 bit here but is it a little bit but i do think i mean it is the case that women are attracted to bad

01:32:25.480 boys what's your definition of a bad boy i mean it's hard to precisely that's yeah i think i think

01:32:33.400 girls are definitely like attracted to that but as far as like them being relationship material

01:32:37.700 no i think it's like wired in us kind of to like like a strong women are attracted to

01:32:43.920 cues of masculinity yes okay we have dialedin 0430 hey thank you man really appreciate the message

01:32:54.040 the best way to choose your partner is to ask the question if your future children had any choice in

01:32:59.660 the world would they have picked that person as their father that's interesting oh so you're

01:33:07.020 making a decision for your children so what would your children choose would they want that guy as

01:33:13.240 the father i guess so because they wouldn't be born if it wasn't that guy technically it's their genes

01:33:20.700 i mean well i'm not sure if that's really what the question is getting at well yes technically

01:33:30.960 like a step over but yeah i get the point yeah yeah although well yeah then that specific child

01:33:38.280 wouldn't have been born yeah he'd be somebody else like would your future kids want your spouse to be

01:33:47.140 a parent david treziak did i say right this time let me know i think i did treziak distracted on the

01:33:56.940 call any response to last comment i'll pull it up after this pepper spray is better for bears and men

01:34:01.000 i've encountered black and brown bears in the wild and you just hold still respect to park rager

01:34:06.660 cmt comment comment oh okay and then this is the one he was referring to panel man who is a nine

01:34:14.900 but split 50 50 cost of life or mistress of your favorite celeb all paid in the penthouse 10 year

01:34:20.640 older man who rings it and set for life or brian or gustavo 60 40

01:34:25.420 so he's asking you to pick between a man who is i'll do it one more time hold on boom there it is

01:34:38.240 uh he's he's a nine but splits i guess it's a 50 50 relationship or you can be the mistress of

01:34:47.520 your favorite celeb everything's paid for in a penthouse but you're the mistress he's a 10 year

01:34:52.200 older man who rings it and you're set for life he would or bring his mistress brian or gustavo and

01:35:00.020 it's a 64 bro this is so complicated uh yeah so going around the table on this i'm gonna get up for a

01:35:06.060 if you want to take over okay yep going around the table starting with you thank you i would do

01:35:10.860 the 10 year old man who rings and sets me up for life as the mistress is he saying the mission

01:35:17.680 okay all right yeah what are the options 10 years older and marries you sets you up for life right

01:35:25.860 can you pull it back up maddie you know how to pull it back up wait just i'll read it okay panel man

01:35:31.980 who is nine but split 50 50 cost of life or mistress of your favorite celebrity all paid in a penthouse

01:35:39.120 or 10 year older man who rings it in and set for life

01:35:44.140 so basically a really a very attractive guy but he only goes 50 50 for you

01:35:55.220 mistress of your favorite celebrity so you don't really have to pay for anything

01:36:00.220 or a 10 year older man who sets you up for life 10 year older man easy yeah i don't know if i got

01:36:10.840 that right but it's easy one older man yeah i think that's what they're asking what about you i guess

01:36:18.860 yeah older guy older guy yeah yeah the older guy that was a really because he commits maybe that was

01:36:26.360 putting your ring on yeah i get it i get it that's kind of an easy choice if you understand women i mean

01:36:31.840 i see the same thing older guy what they want marriage stability

01:36:38.000 well yeah well you could be a 10 and thinking of like realistically like statistically realistic like

01:36:44.540 um example of someone 50 50 i don't know if i would like want that type of a relationship like

01:36:50.720 all the time that's super strict and then you know uh i don't know uh any of their like prep well i know

01:36:58.340 you know brian's preferences is to not date adult ladies so i was like okay that is statistically

01:37:03.540 wait what no no adult worker ladies so i'm a sex worker it was a i didn't want to say the s word

01:37:11.140 oh yeah no no i didn't want to say the s word um on there sorry and legs only adult yeah yeah i'm so

01:37:18.340 sorry yeah it yeah um and i didn't know your dating preferences either so i didn't want to intrude

01:37:23.960 and and then so i think the older guy okay i got it i got a question for the panel what would you

01:37:31.740 ladies say is worse a man cheating or a woman cheating which form of infidelity would you

01:37:37.680 consider worse same i think it's equal equal equal i think it's equal and if you want me to elaborate

01:37:44.860 i think it's like why are you cheating is the other you're not being fulfilled like so i think it kind

01:37:50.520 of goes both ways it's a man is there's no it's it's about the reasoning it's not about the gender

01:37:55.500 it's about why you did it i think it's a woman yeah i was gonna go off of that i mean statistically

01:38:01.400 women cheat emotionally and i feel like when women cheat it's like deeper than that but it is

01:38:06.740 equal that cheating is wrong if it's deeper than that you still feel like it's equal i feel like

01:38:13.340 when women cheat there's like i feel like men generally it's mostly about sex and women it's

01:38:19.020 like they're not being emotionally fulfilled okay so it's hurts harder maybe for the woman when they

01:38:24.620 get to that level but i think it's cheating's wrong on both ends so no one's right what would you say

01:38:29.900 yeah equal equal and you say equal i would say women it is more emotional um that's that's what i

01:38:37.200 would gather from what i've witnessed over time and you said equal yeah i think equal if yeah

01:38:44.880 yeah equal i think it's worse when a woman cheats

01:38:50.120 well not not because i'm being biased towards myself but i think it's worse when a woman cheats

01:38:56.660 because one most women cheat for emotional reasons they're emotionally dissatisfied and most of the

01:39:04.020 time they fall in love with the guy that they're cheating with and the relationship ends whereas a

01:39:08.880 guy if you know guys are cheating just to have sex most women still can find forgiveness and proceed

01:39:15.420 forward with the relationship so ultimately the way i'm framing it is if a woman cheats the

01:39:21.480 relationship ends if a man cheats the relationship doesn't necessarily end and let me add the the

01:39:28.220 final variable when a woman cheats she risks getting deleted

01:39:32.880 okay where you went off on a tangent i can't i can't the difference between you're asking the

01:39:40.340 difference between emotional cheating and physical cheating both men and women can do no no no i just

01:39:44.960 said which is worse because you're bringing it back to what i said about emotional cheating versus

01:39:48.480 physical cheating which both genders do both just women have a more preference for emotional cheating

01:39:53.100 than men but men can still emotionally cheat yeah but they don't they rarely do but then why are you

01:39:58.160 telling her she should leave the guy then what's the problem with her and that guy then why shouldn't

01:40:02.260 she go back to him i said she should cut him off if she wants to get over him but why should she get

01:40:06.660 over him why shouldn't she just be with him she i didn't say she couldn't i never said that you

01:40:10.500 didn't hear me say that but then why should she cut him off i i think because she she says she doesn't

01:40:14.740 want to be with him but why doesn't she want to be with him because they're besties for life

01:40:18.680 and when she has a new boyfriend yeah you tried to get me with a trap i didn't say that

01:40:23.880 i didn't say that at all so you think she should go back and be with him honestly i think they're

01:40:28.700 going to end up together anyway just but do you think it would be good for her to be with him

01:40:32.480 based on his behavior i don't disagree fine yeah i don't know okay just to circle back your point is

01:40:39.500 is kind of why it is was difficult to see it as because i know men like the sex thing is different

01:40:48.620 from like the emotion thing right like if a woman cheats it's emotion when when a man cheats so that's

01:40:53.300 why it would make it difficult in my head because i'm like okay he's not like in love with this other

01:40:58.380 girl exactly it's like that's the thing it's that's not cut and dry we just based on our

01:41:05.120 genders and our needs and relationships men can still emotionally cheat yeah yes but they don't

01:41:10.120 most of the time that's what i'm saying men have families of multiple women and they they leave

01:41:14.240 their wives for their mistresses they still emotionally yes but it's a matter of what happens

01:41:18.940 in actuality but do you think that actually makes women feel any better or hurt any less i'm not

01:41:24.520 talking about the emotional state i'm talking about i'm talking about i'm talking about the

01:41:28.320 outcome and what's more likely to happen versus what actually are you talking about like what's

01:41:34.020 sorry what's worse is the consequence are you asking about like the yeah yeah yeah i'm using i'm

01:41:39.560 using i'm using the consequences to to determine what actually makes it worse the impression that you

01:41:44.640 were asking with like if a morality standpoint i don't ask moral questions to as opposed to what

01:41:51.440 is what what what consequences are worse when a man cheats okay yes so i think it's just kind of

01:41:59.200 like what you were looking for yeah what i didn't understand yeah what consequences i assume i assumed

01:42:05.240 y'all would interpret it that way but okay yes so that so the consequences and that's why i said if a

01:42:10.640 woman cheats she's also more likely i don't know if we could say it on stream but she's also more

01:42:14.680 likely to be deleted but you guys know what that means i know i know what yeah yeah most actually

01:42:22.560 most actually most actually most spousal deletions are due to perceived infidelity or actual infidelity

01:42:29.980 so most of the time deletes herself no the man deletes the woman yeah the man deletes the woman yes

01:42:36.680 oh wow in most cases where you hear about a spouse committing that act on their spouse and

01:42:42.500 it's a male on female is due to perceived infidelity or actual infidelity well the consequences are

01:42:47.600 definitely going to be worse because you know although we live in a modern world and this and that

01:42:52.680 like if a woman cheats on a man she is potentially putting her you know safe not only her safety but also

01:42:59.920 her well-being her livelihood you know finances her home things like that you know all of that

01:43:06.660 can go down the drain so the consequences are much greater and women have much more to lose

01:43:12.880 in a way if they were to cheat if that's what the kind of yes you explained it perfectly there's my

01:43:19.840 yes i agree with like your answer but i just don't think that a lot of women think that way

01:43:25.860 so when a man cheats on a woman she thinks it's emotionally which is why she takes it a lot harder

01:43:30.900 yeah yeah you're right that's why um that's even when i deal with clients the number one thing

01:43:37.520 women who have been cheated on will ask is if he loves her a lot of women want to know does he love

01:43:45.120 her because women interpret male behavior in the same way they know they would do it or what it means

01:43:50.900 when they do it so she's wondering why did he cheat on me is he emotionally dissatisfied am i not enough

01:43:57.480 for him do he does he not love me that's normally what they're thinking and then i have to explain

01:44:01.860 to him no not necessarily guys it's just greedy we have a we have a preference for novelty we want

01:44:07.160 our cake and you know want to have our cake eat it too so yeah but do you get it i shouldn't men cheat

01:44:13.960 then who said they should i'm just saying i'm saying do you counsel men i counsel both so if it's no big

01:44:21.580 deal like they just do it because they're greedy whatever like it doesn't mean anything are you saying

01:44:26.340 it doesn't are you saying it doesn't mean anything if they cheat i'm saying it doesn't mean what women

01:44:30.280 think it means so what does it mean okay so if if a man cheats on a woman if i'm dealing with a woman

01:44:35.580 who has been cheated on she wants to know is the relationship hanging in the balance does this guy

01:44:40.380 not love her anymore i'm asking you what does it mean if a man cheats most of the time he's just

01:44:46.040 cheating because the opportunity presented itself so it doesn't really mean yeah it doesn't mean it

01:44:50.680 doesn't mean he's going to leave the relationship then why shouldn't he do it if it doesn't mean

01:44:54.280 anything why shouldn't a man cheat if it doesn't mean anything yeah well morally it can be emotionally

01:44:59.340 damaging can why it doesn't mean anything to the yeah to the woman i'm speaking objectively the woman

01:45:06.180 doesn't perceive it that way the woman doesn't so do you counsel men and tell them it's fine to cheat

01:45:11.680 oh the only reason men shouldn't cheat is because women will interpret it wrong

01:45:15.480 the sense of betrayal yeah you don't want you don't want your partner to feel that is a wild

01:45:24.060 thing to say it is but it's reality i'm a realist it's not so do you think it does mean something

01:45:29.080 so go ahead it does mean something what does it mean because other men would say that it does mean

01:45:34.080 something what does it mean there are other men who would say yeah it means something it's not just

01:45:38.520 women who will say that what does it mean it means he's not loyal he's not faithful i'm not saying

01:45:43.860 he's not disciplined yeah he's not disciplined he doesn't have self-control he's putting himself

01:45:48.380 over you okay yeah and that's wrong what's the point of having a relationship if people are just

01:45:54.120 gonna like act like that but you framed it that way though that's what you said i was i asked the

01:45:58.640 question about what's worse you just added all those different factors well should have you just

01:46:03.480 said should a man cheat i didn't say he should i explained why i gave you a proximate explanation of

01:46:08.960 why i said why shouldn't he if it doesn't mean anything if the if it doesn't mean anything it's

01:46:13.500 just because women will interpret it wrong but then to the conversation it's not just women who

01:46:17.740 interpret it that way so if men will interpret it that way then that's not what yeah i'm just giving

01:46:21.280 an approximate explanation he's just giving a motive you're adding more to it yeah cheating is wrong

01:46:26.220 regardless men or women he's just saying that like typically women will cheat more emotionally than men

01:46:31.940 will like men will just because they want a piece of ass yeah that's it that's it you say

01:46:37.940 so should they cheat i didn't say they should but it's wrong regardless i'm saying why shouldn't

01:46:42.900 they based on your because it's wrong just because women will interpret it the wrong way is basically

01:46:48.440 all you like i think both the physical and the emotional aspects of cheating are both terrible

01:46:54.220 that's why you shouldn't cheat but as women but men cheat for different reasons yes yeah so i'm saying

01:46:59.980 if men knew like a lot of men if they knew that it wouldn't hurt their woman they probably would

01:47:06.100 cheat so that's why so to speak into your point the fact that men want to take into consideration

01:47:11.940 the way a woman might feel if he does it because you just said if he cheats that means he's being

01:47:15.700 selfish so a lot of guys who don't cheat they take into consideration how that would break up their

01:47:20.580 family or how they would make their woman feel like for example if a man was with a woman and he loves

01:47:26.040 her like he loves her he'd put her over anything he'd he'd kill for her right but the woman tells the

01:47:33.080 man you know what if you want to have a fling here and there that's okay he would probably take

01:47:38.500 her up on it and he would probably do it even if he loves her a woman on the other hand physically

01:47:43.400 is impossible or almost impossible for her to cheat like a man would and just you know and still love

01:47:50.120 her her husband or her boyfriend it it's it's different it's like a we have a separation of

01:47:57.960 ideologies and men will cheat for a completely different reason it's purely physical because

01:48:04.260 men men will always want to have more options even if they love who they're with they're always

01:48:11.400 going to want more options that's just how men are it's in their dna when we have sex different

01:48:17.260 hormones are released too so right when women have sex or oxytocin happens that love whereas men

01:48:23.340 i think it's like it's vasopressin it's vasopressin so it's like it's just yeah it just makes us

01:48:29.320 territorial versus like actually getting like head over heels in love because we we do uh release

01:48:34.760 oxytocin during sex too in small quantities but that's what uh post post quarter narcolepsy is so a

01:48:41.960 lot of times when you have sex and you go to sleep like he goes to sleep after you guys have sex

01:48:46.740 oxytocin in us makes us go to sleep what about hungry what's that because i get that

01:48:52.140 you burned calories yeah you burned calories you got to keep the metabolism yeah you burned

01:49:00.160 calories yeah yeah cardio but but does it make more sense you see the distinction in what i'm

01:49:06.000 saying i wasn't i was saying that uh the guys who don't cheat is because they consider their

01:49:11.500 woman's feelings and what it would ultimately do if they value that too it's not it's temptation men

01:49:18.920 and women face temptation you know he's not going against that though he's just saying that

01:49:23.860 the the men that don't do it is because they are considering whereas the men that do cheat are not

01:49:30.360 considering yeah sure okay when a woman's in love her man is the only man she sees yeah yeah when a man

01:49:36.660 when a man's in love you know he loves her but agreed with that he's not the only one he sees he's like

01:49:43.560 you know like you have to understand that as a woman your man's gonna look but what is he gonna

01:49:48.840 do it's not true everyone will be tempted but not everyone will just do it everybody gets even

01:49:54.300 women but what we're talking about cheaters specifically like or are you just saying yeah

01:50:00.540 yeah no i thought we were talking about men and women yeah we were talking about okay yeah let's get

01:50:06.180 through relationship status oh we still haven't gone through that i'm married i've been married for

01:50:11.840 four years that's my longest relationship we already know her status yeah oh is it mine yeah oh damn we

01:50:20.560 still doing relationship status yeah we stopped at her and then that was like okay okay um i'm single

01:50:29.420 currently i'm chilling wait question for you you said married for four years yeah uh so how long were

01:50:41.500 you guys together before you got married we were together for eight months oh okay and then it's

01:50:47.000 four years total yeah it'll we'll be married four years in a couple months okay do you have any other

01:50:54.200 questions or should i ask a question you can ask one um what is one thing that each of you have done

01:51:02.160 wrong in one of your relationships past relationships that you can be aware of

01:51:06.320 genuine question to go down yeah yeah yeah oh you got you got my you got my list

01:51:16.880 i don't have it but do you have them memorized or um sorry i got i got i got my list

01:51:24.320 oh no you asked the question they're not even answering so i thought we were going to order

01:51:29.260 yeah i was starting right here but i'll go after this question yeah i'll keep i keep going after this

01:51:33.420 question okay so something that i've done more generally one thing that you can improve

01:51:38.520 oh i think one of the biggest things is it just comes with self-awareness and like working on

01:51:44.020 yourself is like i'm in a new relationship and so kind of carrying those same behaviors and reactions

01:51:51.460 to how i respond to my current partner needs to be different because of you know every everyone is

01:51:58.620 different so i think one of the biggest things is working on not carrying over those same habits

01:52:03.540 those same reactions and those same like kind of dynamics into a new relationship so that's something

01:52:08.380 that's going to with time because my old relationship was so long and this one is so new

01:52:13.180 it's like oh i responded this way or i viewed it in this way when you are a different person and i need

01:52:19.920 to see you for you and not who i perceived or automatically assumed or what i have been used to

01:52:26.360 due to my recent partner so i think that's one of the biggest things is like you know it's going to be

01:52:30.700 a constant like improvement and you have to catch yourself and i think a lot of people do that and that's

01:52:35.820 something that they don't acknowledge that's good that's good um i try to change him so i will never

01:52:41.440 try to change anyone in a relationship or a friendship ever again how have you tried to

01:52:45.800 change yeah what do you do um no we just were we got together when we were young and then we grew up

01:52:50.820 and we went in different paths and i tried to make him go through the path that i thought would be best

01:52:54.840 for him and that was horrible and against his nature and it wasn't making him happy so as in like a

01:53:00.400 career path or career path just kind of what i wanted in my expectations and it was just a whole

01:53:05.820 circus of him trying to make me happy and then him just not living up to my expectations and then it

01:53:11.020 just wasn't fair to him so i think you got to just date the person for who they are and see them for

01:53:15.900 their flaws and good things and just know what they are and just not try to change them

01:53:19.520 very valid so sorry was the question what do we want to improve on or what's something we've done

01:53:25.500 wrong what's something that you've learned from your past relationships that you have done wrong

01:53:29.700 and can't improve on or like improved on i can say one thing that i'm working on right now

01:53:38.440 is patience definitely patience um not like jumping to conclusions for sure during arguments during

01:53:51.700 arguments yeah like automatically assuming that you know for example like i mean i can talk about

01:53:58.420 you know my marriage like i something that i've definitely had to work on for sure is like um

01:54:04.500 like if we're arguing like i'll uh i'll assume that he's thinking a certain way but he hasn't expressed

01:54:11.720 that yet so like just being able to like allow him to communicate what he's feeling without assuming

01:54:18.420 that i know everything good self-awareness um somewhat similar but more in the line of the

01:54:28.660 jealousy aspect of doing a lot of self-work to be like just if he looks at another woman not to be

01:54:35.360 like i'm jealous of her like i wish i was like her and envious um just more of like okay he's looking

01:54:41.060 just leave it don't start shit just do you think like the way that you met your current boyfriend

01:54:47.480 kind of plays into that the jealousy part that has been such a huge like learning curve and it's

01:54:54.000 really um sort of catapulted me through that so having someone who has done that and being aware

01:55:00.420 that it is in their nature has really made me face that that's good shit as well because a lot of women

01:55:06.760 struggle with that the fact that you know how to intercept your negative feelings especially of

01:55:11.500 jealousy and not create drama over just that feeling that's very very good like the emotional

01:55:17.620 maturity is i think that's something i've had to work on too because majority of my husband's clients

01:55:22.440 are women so he has to get very up close and personal with them you know sometimes it gets you

01:55:28.900 know he has to physically touch them or whatever and like so i think that's something that i definitely

01:55:33.980 struggled with um more so in the beginning the jealousy too um i think a lot of women are like

01:55:40.440 that but it definitely takes a huge amount of strength to um have that self-awareness for sure

01:55:47.920 and strive to work on it i think a lot of women can have very jealous tendencies but we don't aim to

01:55:55.640 improve them but i think that's one thing that i've always aimed to improve as well because it doesn't

01:56:01.420 it doesn't reflect that i'm not valuable to my husband it reflects that he's a man in nature and

01:56:07.260 he loves me and he's proved that he's of me hence why he married me yeah but does he when you say

01:56:14.020 like not getting jealous if he looks at other women is did you mean like he's fine with looking at

01:56:19.640 other women or like do you know what i mean like oh he's looking and he's like what i'm just looking

01:56:25.400 or is it like oh he's like trying to kind of avert his eyes kind of thing do you know what i mean

01:56:29.600 like embracing it versus like the temptations there but trying to reject it do you know what

01:56:34.520 i mean um i'm not sure what his intention is in that moment but for me it's at any point if he's

01:56:39.700 looking at someone else like a woman walks into the room and you know she's wearing a really pretty

01:56:44.640 dress just gonna be calm does that include just like glancing like a quick like like glance at her

01:56:50.800 or you mean like he's different there's different kinds of looks right there's like the look and

01:56:55.940 then there's like the double take and then the like looking up and down and yeah have you seen

01:57:00.640 the meme with the guy and the woman he has arm around her and the woman he's like like yeah like

01:57:05.500 that or um well just anything okay any look okay and then we'll just assess it and if i really think

01:57:11.780 it's a problem like just to bring it up in a stoic manner um is what i'm working towards okay yeah okay

01:57:18.360 what about you i think uh like earlier with the bear and the the man i think that i have a lot i

01:57:26.040 wouldn't say a lot of biases but i've i've worked on a lot of biases that i've had in the past and

01:57:30.240 that's why i'm like you know i've worked on a lot of that but i think that seems to be the struggle is

01:57:35.980 i'd had a lot of fears and things and um yeah i don't want to really live valid yeah i don't really

01:57:41.900 want to live without fear anymore and be seen like that so i'm just trying to are we still on

01:57:48.020 the same the same question here yeah i'm sorry no offense madison

01:57:52.880 it's our faults in relationships yeah what are we trying to improve yeah

01:58:02.460 i'm gonna i actually want to ask the audience audience do we continue on with this question

01:58:08.000 or do we move it along to something else nick could you show me the chat please is it a boring

01:58:12.980 question or something well i'm just like back there and i'm like just i need to dealing with

01:58:17.900 some shit behind the scenes and then i'm just like seeing the viewership just go

01:58:21.440 fucking crashing down with no offense guys

01:58:25.560 well it's i want to at least put on something interesting for the show and if it's like no

01:58:32.060 offense it's kind of like well where's the makeup wipe can i take off my makeup

01:58:35.540 has anyone done that i did that last time oh you did okay i sure did i have wipes you do i do she

01:58:44.460 has wipes in my bag all right well let's do this let's do this uh this question yeah do you ladies

01:58:50.040 subscribe to the idea of happy wife happy life no yes let's start here

01:58:56.480 that guy slingshot donated two hundred dollars i've asked this question before but do you think

01:59:04.400 that dating has become over complicated compared out grandparents also our 40 and 50 year marriages

01:59:11.680 a thing of the past how do we get back to that that's a good question that's a beautiful question

01:59:18.460 compromise you want us to go down the line and answer um also 40 50 year old uh i mean i don't what

01:59:27.620 is the question is dating more complicated now than it was yeah we can only guys we can only do

01:59:34.180 uh one question per chat you asked three so i guess we'll have to do uh our 40 and 50 year

01:59:40.080 marriages a thing of the past i think it's a lot harder to make that a reality now than it was back

01:59:48.340 then okay i think the reason why the marriages were so long was because it was harder to get

01:59:54.460 divorced back then but i think they're still realistic it's definitely a lot more rare but

02:00:02.220 very much possible i agree with that um and also i was raised by my grandparents and they grew up in

02:00:08.780 like world war ii and they were married their whole lives and that is the relationship that i want and

02:00:14.260 i am a little bit jaded and i am concerned that it is a thing of the past i don't think it's a thing

02:00:19.740 of the past but um i think with less technology it's probably better um i think that yeah it's a

02:00:27.960 little bit more difficult to hit 40s and 50 year marriages just because there's so much

02:00:33.160 so much social media and like comparison and all of that the temptation exactly temptation's a lot

02:00:40.860 greater comparison and you always just like want the best of the best yeah that's probably true and

02:00:47.980 people are getting married later in life too but they'll still exist but they probably it probably

02:00:53.100 the percentage will go down i imagine you want to answer it too

02:00:58.660 did you answer no i'm saying you want me to answer you can no you can answer oh okay i mean yeah it's more

02:01:06.280 complicated than it was back then i think um feminism played a huge part in that um women

02:01:12.600 don't need men like they used to they aren't as dutiful as they once were in marriages and they can

02:01:19.280 prioritize making their own money and living their own life whereas it's not the same degree of um stress

02:01:26.520 or you know uh value marriage marriage uh relationship values that were once instilled in the older

02:01:33.780 generations you know they stress get married um fond love that's not taught to kids nowadays most

02:01:40.220 kids college students say that their parents don't pressure them to get married and so they feel no

02:01:45.820 pressure to get married all right i'll get to it in just a sec uh i mean as far as the 40 50 year

02:01:54.040 marriages they're still certainly possible uh but i think it's going to be a lot harder

02:01:59.280 you have a global sexual marketplace you have dating apps you have social media you have

02:02:05.400 um people are much more entitled uh it's not a good uh social landscape landscape it's not a good

02:02:15.600 dating landscape right now so uh also just don't get married i'm not in favor of getting married so

02:02:20.940 that works too yeah um also just want to clarify one thing maddie's question was actually a good

02:02:28.640 question perhaps my frustration was a bit misdirected no offense to you guys your answers

02:02:33.320 were actually phenomenal wait were they yeah they were they were just really in depth they was they

02:02:39.640 i mean i it makes sense though because they're in relationships so so they have good minds maddie's

02:02:45.960 question was good i just sitting back there and i was like i had really good answers though

02:02:51.480 sounded like a therapy session definitely but in like a good way anyways good question maddie

02:02:58.080 he was good at it she you good sport man what what's that okay good the therapy oh oh also i

02:03:04.860 forgot to mention this during the show guys we had um we had three no shows today super frustrating

02:03:10.380 kind of scuffed that's why we're a little late really quick on this actually and guys i usually

02:03:15.220 don't talk about it i just sometimes i talk about it usually don't talk about it though nick could

02:03:19.740 you pull up that photo so this is from a no show from our sunday show

02:03:24.080 that guy's slingshot donated two hundred dollars sorry there's only two hundred characters to work

02:03:32.680 with lol i didn't realize it was hard to read until i sent it uh no you're fine man i appreciate your

02:03:40.740 ttss thank you dude it's just uh you know just to be considerate of the other people who sent in

02:03:45.220 messages to the panelists to the other questions we have we uh we do limit the question asked to

02:03:51.800 just one question we can't just you know you can't just slam four questions in there and uh

02:03:57.700 we can't ask them all but thank you man really appreciate it and uh yeah man uh so pull that up

02:04:03.400 again so this is a girl sent this at mind you we ask the people to arrive at 4 p.m

02:04:09.560 uh she i messaged her at 4 30 she's already 30 minutes late i'm like hey checking in are you

02:04:15.560 coming this for this is for sunday she sends us this photo oh my i got into a car crash now this is

02:04:22.860 this is here locally in santa barbara this shot um it's uh this is old town uh this is this is old

02:04:30.420 town galita here

02:04:31.200 now you notice the sky you see how overcast it is you see those clouds i don't know if you guys

02:04:41.140 remember the stream on sunday it was clear skies all fucking day clear skies and i i uh don't live

02:04:49.680 too far i mean i'm probably five minutes from here um the other panelists could you know q you were here

02:04:56.480 on in santa barbara clear sky it was a sunny clear sky day so she sends me this and it's like i i deal

02:05:03.700 with these kind of lies every fucking week every show oh my car broke down some bullshit i'm sick

02:05:09.500 blah blah it's all lies they always lie they can't just say i'm a piece of shit i'm just not coming i

02:05:14.800 would appreciate that more than them oh here's a fake excuse so i'm doing and so today we had three

02:05:21.540 no shows some girl i was on the phone with her on the balcony call her at 4 30 hey so you still

02:05:26.740 coming blah blah blah she's like and you can't you guys i think you two overheard the phone call i had

02:05:31.760 her on speaker right what'd she say she said that she was she was sitting in traffic and she was 20

02:05:39.360 minutes away 20 minutes away yeah no show i don't even think this chick is in santa barbara

02:05:45.280 no they're just straight up liars we're dealing with this shit every week it's just annoying um it

02:05:51.380 gets on my nerves maybe i shouldn't take it so personally but yeah we're just dealing with

02:05:56.500 bullshit like that uh but yeah it's great i called that girl out i was like yo we live in santa barbara

02:06:04.560 too it was not overcast that day how are you gonna send me a picture you might as well have sent me a

02:06:11.020 picture of that car in new york it was not overcast that day you fucking liar that's a photo from like

02:06:16.680 three days ago 10 days ago it's not even probably not even her car fucking scumbag anyways okay just

02:06:23.900 remember it's a reflection of them and it has nothing to do with you it's their own self and their own

02:06:29.400 inability yeah you're right it is a reflection of them being fucking scumbags fucking pieces of shit

02:06:34.940 um so uh damn go off game sorry it is what it is like i am so sorry no i'm not it's just to me it's

02:06:45.260 just amusing because it's like how are you gonna send me a photo like at least you know send me a

02:06:51.860 photo look there was effort at least she like googled it or something like a wrecked car in santa

02:06:57.760 barbara said that looks good yeah it's probably what she did it's just it's weird though

02:07:03.600 bro but like and she wrecked it and i know i know this is a dating podcast right people are gonna

02:07:11.580 pull this same shit to you when you're dating oh an hour before the date oh uh i'm sorry my car broke

02:07:19.100 down now of course like most most people are just gonna like move on right but i'm gonna be like

02:07:26.400 not not for a dating perspective but for like the podcast i'm gonna be like if somebody is like oh my

02:07:31.840 car broke down i'm gonna be like prove that shit because they're all liars they're all lies there's

02:07:37.320 way too many cars bro i don't know the the economy for mechanics in the la california like santa barbara

02:07:43.960 area is fucking crazy or something all these girls cars are conveniently breaking down before them and

02:07:50.220 there's all these family emergence these vague family emergencies oh oh yeah i think a family

02:07:56.740 emergency what is it oh that's private okay i can't tell you i can't tell you what the family

02:08:02.180 emergency is it's all bullshit they're gonna go out oh i'm sick you look at their instagram story

02:08:08.100 later they're at the fucking club the bar at a party it's all savages people are fucking joke bro i'd

02:08:13.440 rather someone say you're i'd rather someone tell me brian you're a fucking piece of shit i hate your

02:08:17.940 podcast i'm not coming tell me that shit instead of my car broke down do they have walk-ins that come

02:08:25.400 in here like is there a sign ever that you guys put on the door you're like walk-ins welcome this

02:08:28.460 is a podcast come in because i saw that and i was going through something i'd be like you know what

02:08:32.280 this is my day i mean big credit to a madison and nick because uh luckily we're in a area where we

02:08:41.720 can just they can go down to the mean streets of santa barbara and just go up to people be like hey

02:08:46.280 you want to come on the podcast even yeah even yeah that and like a sign on the wall like some people

02:08:50.780 take things so like whoa like this is for me like i know i do that all the time so i'm sure

02:08:56.100 somebody else does too i deal with it all the time though because girls come on the podcast and i tell

02:09:02.760 them like you know my stances on dating and they're like who hurt you brian do you have trust issues i'm

02:09:08.460 like these these women who we schedule to come be on the podcast literally lie to my face every

02:09:16.300 twice a week every single fucking week of course i have fucking trust issues brian we showed up for

02:09:23.880 you no and i give you every single every single person who shows up i applaud that and i know more

02:09:30.240 you know typically more often than not the people we have scheduled do show up i will say though the

02:09:35.320 amount of people like it's it can be a bit grating can be a bit grating and i feel for the men who are

02:09:41.800 out there in the dating game because when it comes to the dating apps and shit and we're actually about

02:09:45.820 to react to something related to bumble because bumble made the news you're going to be dealing

02:09:51.300 with this kind of shit too when you're dating last minute flake friday you could here's the crazy

02:09:57.180 thing right and i don't know if you guys have experienced this as girls i'd love to hear

02:10:00.560 you could do everything right as a guy all the things that women tell you to do to be to don't be the guy

02:10:06.900 who texts you at on a friday or saturday at 11 p.m what you doing no be the guy who sets up a date

02:10:14.060 days in advance i want to this time i'll pick you up 5 p.m 6 p.m 7 p.m i'll pick you up you have

02:10:23.220 the date planned you're going to pay for the date you made the reservation you do all the right things

02:10:27.320 that they tell you to do and then 30 minutes before you're supposed to pick her up she's going to

02:10:32.860 cancel oh my i got a headache i gotta walk my goldfish i gotta walk my goldfish my pet honey

02:10:40.700 badger i've had some ridiculous excuses bro you know who deals with more excuses personal trainers

02:10:48.160 i've been you know when people skip the gym i've been stood up for several dates in my life like

02:10:53.580 several that i could count i'd say like at least 11 but it's never happened to me

02:10:59.120 well i think it's harder for men to get dates so they're probably much more reluctant to cancel

02:11:05.320 on a date whereas like if if you cancel on a date with a guy if you wanted to go on another date that

02:11:11.480 night you could probably arrange that like on a friday or sat even a prime night like friday or

02:11:16.440 saturday night any girl hop on a dating app oh i want to do another date boom you got it most guys

02:11:22.840 though like if a guy you match with a guy on a dating app 4 p.m on a friday bro you ain't going

02:11:31.320 on a date with him that night most likely most likely he's gonna have to plan that shit in advance

02:11:36.580 so most men aren't gonna flake like that

02:11:39.040 i had a guy flake on me at the cheesecake factory say it again i'm just saying flake on me at the

02:11:48.640 cheesecake factory people flake though because i use those excuses at work all the time just not in

02:11:55.200 this context okay all right we want to go back to my question yeah absolutely let it all out yeah he

02:12:02.840 got it i got it i needed a little uh was it a venting moment a little vent session that's what

02:12:08.840 male therapy is yeah women go to therapy men start podcast yeah true good go ahead okay so as i as i

02:12:17.440 asked um is happy wife happy life a thing do you agree with happy wife happy life going around the

02:12:22.480 table i believe there needs to be balance okay so it's a give and take that's my belief okay yeah

02:12:32.460 yes i think it's the thing why because i know like in my last relationship when i was upset

02:12:38.720 it threw him off but when we were like chilling it was great so he and he was doing well and

02:12:44.560 at work too so he never felt any type of negative emotions or anything oh no he knew like when i was

02:12:50.760 like going crazy and then he'd be like can you like relax and then he would like he knew what things

02:12:55.560 i needed to like chill if i was like stressed out or whatever so i think for him and like his work

02:13:00.120 was like affected by it so so had he not done that you wouldn't have left him earlier like like

02:13:08.360 like i'm saying if he didn't tend to you emotionally i think though i picked a partner who knew what i

02:13:13.900 wanted okay but also like you know things happen it might be that time of the month it might be a

02:13:19.660 little erratic things might be going on like at work and he just knew okay i need to make her happy

02:13:24.960 because if she's angry then i'm not gonna sleep so you believe a woman's feelings should be the focal

02:13:29.120 point of the relationship no but he definitely was happier when i was happier okay okay what about

02:13:35.620 you um there needs to be a balance i don't believe in the happy wife happy life thing i think you

02:13:42.820 should both be making each other happy constantly okay um yeah there's a thing called destination

02:13:48.180 happiness that i'm sure you're aware of and for some women like doesn't matter what you do for them

02:13:53.300 it's never going to be enough it's like no i'm going to be happy if i get this car or this handbag

02:13:57.520 and there's always something else i think if you try and do that with a woman like that who has

02:14:02.620 destination happiness it's never going to work out but then there are some women who are just

02:14:07.660 content and those are the ones that you probably could have that with so you don't believe in happy

02:14:14.020 wife happy life depends on the woman okay okay i i guess i believe in the wife should be happy he

02:14:21.660 should want to see her smile like you know and i i think that should happen but she shouldn't want to

02:14:26.660 see him uh you know unhappy at her smile you know disposition so i i do agree that um with what you

02:14:35.140 guys said i i think there needs to be a balance yeah i agree with the balance situation he shouldn't

02:14:41.200 be struggling to keep you happy yeah you said that perfectly um yeah i don't like the phrasing

02:14:49.020 because kind of like the way you said it makes it sound like the focal point is the woman's happiness

02:14:53.020 and that's all that matters and it almost sounds like happy wife happy life yeah and like if she's

02:14:58.040 not if she's not happy then no one's happy and it just kind of sounds aggressive i think yeah both

02:15:03.180 people should be striving to serve each other and think about each other's needs and what would make

02:15:08.460 the other person happy okay well the reason i ask that is because women experience a lot more negative

02:15:14.140 emotion in relationships and they're much more likely to end a relationship due to the negative

02:15:18.480 emotions that they feel so that's why i said it should a woman's feelings be the focal point of

02:15:22.740 the relationship because as a guy we're not as erratic or impulsive or neurotic as women typically

02:15:28.640 are so a lot of shit rolls off our back we let a lot of shit slide we don't need y'all to go above

02:15:32.940 and beyond to please us so we can suck a lot of shit up which speaks to her point about he was happy when i

02:15:38.980 was happy because his base state of happiness is i'm chilling ain't nothing wrong so that's why i said that's

02:15:43.320 why i asked that but brian this panel is really this might be the best panel of of women in a

02:15:49.040 relationship they give the best that's a good good panel um what do you think about i think the better

02:15:57.800 saying is and i don't know if you were leading into this happy spouse happy house yeah yeah that's

02:16:03.800 a good one yeah because i think the other one is a bit too one directional right both people should

02:16:11.460 be trying to make the other happy so what's the what would it be for happy husband half happy

02:16:17.840 happy both there's a reason it rhymes

02:16:22.580 does anything happy home or something does anything rhyme with happy happy happy home

02:16:29.020 happy husband happy husband husband husband hubby dust dust dust pan happy husband that's it

02:16:37.700 we we have the joshua cams uh let's actually have uh adeline yes can i have you start i'm gonna have

02:16:46.780 you read some of the chats go ahead sweetie you are beautiful he messed up you are worth more as a

02:16:54.140 christian i see your pain but god wants more for you so sweet beautiful thank you joshua kim sorry

02:17:00.740 that it took us a while to get to it uh we we um do prioritize the stream labs one but um she got

02:17:07.020 your message loud and clear thank you joshua man appreciate your soup chat and then we have uh let's

02:17:12.560 see here that we had one coming through stream labs oh david treziak treziak brian don't melt

02:17:19.280 punctuality is your kryptonite like me maddie read my comment read my comment correct views will

02:17:25.100 grow panel lied they would be a mistress to their favorite celeb lol british accent from corner

02:17:30.740 question mark it is a british accent yes isn't it welsh is it a welsh um accent or it's the same

02:17:36.060 british is kind of a group you know yeah it's a group of brits yeah from everywhere yeah

02:17:41.320 of course of course that was cute there you go uh thank you uh david

02:17:47.660 i'm it's treziak treziak okay and then we have av24 hey thank you man for the message

02:17:56.620 table roundabout what are three things you bring to a relationship follow-up question do you think

02:18:01.980 guys think those things are important i think it's that's either pretty much a yes or no so i'll

02:18:10.160 that's fine uh three things you bring to a relationship do you think guys think those

02:18:16.120 things are important go ahead i i'm supportive i'm loving and i am accepting

02:18:21.780 okay i'm wondering though just

02:18:26.600 aren't those sort of like the default things you should anyone should bring to a relationship

02:18:35.260 i think he's perhaps asking like assets or skills well like for example if someone were to he asks

02:18:43.660 three things you bring to a relationship and you were to respond to loyalty love like

02:18:49.420 like those are kind of like it's kind of

02:18:52.060 and okay conversation you know like i think those are important those are important because not

02:19:00.740 everyone's going to be accepting of you or accepting of your past or they might hold it against you or

02:19:05.740 they might throw things in your face so for me it's like i take you as you are okay and that's where my

02:19:11.660 that's what acceptance means to me and so it's that's that's why you bring acceptance

02:19:17.500 okay all right what about you um unpredictability

02:19:22.460 hey she's honest that's the next thing honesty

02:19:31.200 hold on okay what else um nurturing and then i am a cheerleader okay so do you think i was gonna use

02:19:40.460 that one do you think guys think those things are important um well my ex said he loved crazy

02:19:45.480 girls so i started oh my god what he never knew what he was gonna get that's why i never cheated

02:19:54.000 because there's a different person every single day uh so when you're unpredictable what does that

02:20:03.260 mean i just i always want to do different things i always want to like go for different things be

02:20:09.920 different places and so yeah that's what i guess everyone who's ever dated me are you crazy

02:20:15.520 probably okay have you ever slashed a guy's tires no not that crazy burned clothes no that got in

02:20:23.340 revenge no no gotten him fired from his job no i don't really care about that that's like vindictive

02:20:30.040 yeah i'm more like implosive rather than explosive are you do you get into arguments frequently with

02:20:35.720 your partners i like to debate but not arguments just anything like i'm gonna like i want to understand

02:20:44.260 the facts behind your opinion on a statement but not so much an argument like it's not going to be

02:20:49.100 like i'm this is my side and that's your side but i will poke the bear you'll poke the bear yeah sun

02:20:55.220 bear sun bear obviously wow okay and then your cheerleader yeah like can you show us a chair like in your

02:21:04.160 seat oh god um rah rah i'm the sun bear no like more so like whatever oh okay not literally like be a

02:21:15.400 cheerleader yeah be a cheerleader like celebrate their victory yeah no i wasn't just no that's like go

02:21:21.080 baby go yeah no like i'm talking about like with their goals and dreams and aspirations just being like

02:21:26.380 their number one supporter i guess maybe supportive like but extremely supportive like to the level where

02:21:31.660 it's like okay motivating yeah i'm a motivator good okay i like that what about you oh gosh they had

02:21:40.280 really good ones um i would definitely say i'm big on encouraging like believing in your goals

02:21:48.980 celebrating your victories with you i think that's really really big like a cheerleader um

02:21:56.020 very loving nurturing warm and welcoming like you know when he comes home give him a big warm welcome

02:22:03.160 um um feisty in all the good ways very passionate um feisty in the good ways when are those

02:22:14.040 like when it comes to intimacy oh okay moving on

02:22:21.840 um the three things i think i bring is i'm good with animals and kids which again is like a nurturing

02:22:29.980 thing um and it's a trend in the you know trad wife movement guys want a woman who like wants chickens

02:22:36.380 and stuff um and then the other two things is i don't drink alcohol i never have and i don't do drugs

02:22:44.220 and i never have and okay it might be good for a specific type of person maybe someone who's like

02:22:49.700 in recovery or someone who just doesn't want to drink um but that could be important to them

02:22:54.960 sure what about you um i would say i'm i'm a very supportive person i i really if somebody

02:23:03.740 that i'm dating like they have a dream i'm like okay like this this is gonna happen like we're gonna

02:23:09.120 do this and i have this like delusional sense of like not toxic positivity but like a delusional sense

02:23:14.420 of optimism that exists and it's just like if there ever anything i'm like wow we're gonna find

02:23:19.720 a way out of this one even if we're like sitting in a jail cell somewhere um i think that i don't know

02:23:27.120 and then um three um i would say i'm very um intimate i um i like intimacy and i like romance

02:23:39.920 and yeah that's what i like all right what about you um i would say that i want to be a mother

02:23:48.460 and i think that's like a really important thing for me in the future wait so that's what you bring

02:23:55.360 to a relationship yeah is your desire to be a mother well my warmth and my femininity yeah i think

02:24:02.800 like the the fact that i value to be a mom is really important not every woman yeah yeah not

02:24:09.460 every woman's willing isn't that like the default mode for like the entire history of humans i'm not

02:24:16.760 saying all women desire to be mothers but don't most women no no no hold on when i say most that means

02:24:23.860 51 or more i think a lot of women would also put their careers ahead of having children

02:24:30.280 mm-hmm and that's sure there's a lot of women who have children who are not do not want to be

02:24:36.380 mothers yeah that too where i would know that i would put my full focus on my my children that's

02:24:42.600 fair um i'm really honest to a default sometimes and yeah i'm a big supporter i'm a visionary so i think

02:24:53.720 power couple vibes if possible you know wait hold on hold on just a sec

02:24:58.880 when i think of power couple i think of the boss babe getting with the guy who's also

02:25:05.900 entrepreneur successful etc doesn't necessarily but it contradicts your previous right it doesn't

02:25:11.460 necessarily wanting to be a mother do you want to be a stay-at-home mom it doesn't necessarily mean

02:25:16.340 that's the only dynamic i could we could be a power couple and that means he's taking care of the

02:25:22.260 household and i'm taking or i'm sorry he's taking care of like the finances and all that if i'm taking

02:25:29.120 care of the kids in the house and that is also there's power in that as well but i mean i i feel

02:25:34.880 like power couple is typically like there's i think there's two ways to see it yeah you could also be

02:25:40.160 two boss ass people i mean i'll just come together and then you can also have a traditional type of

02:25:48.420 power couple vibe there's actually a wikipedia entry on this it's called a super super couple

02:25:59.600 also known as a power couple is a popular and or wealthy pairing that intrigues and fascinates the

02:26:05.220 public in an intense or obsessive fashion the term originated in the united states and is coined in

02:26:11.300 the early 1980s when intense public interest in fictional soap opera couple what the okay i don't

02:26:17.120 know what the well that's just my interpretation of it i mean i know some people have a different

02:26:22.420 idea of what a power couple it could also just be two really attractive people together people are

02:26:27.040 like oh what a power couple because they're both like you know really really attractive or they're

02:26:31.760 both in shape i'm getting some examples here from wikipedia ben affleck and jennifer lopez uh brad

02:26:38.120 pitt angelina jolie taylor swift and travis kelsey uh so like good looking people i think like what

02:26:45.020 defines a power couple is your ambition you both have matched ambition here well it also says so the

02:26:50.600 definition here super couples are defined as popular or financially wealthy pairings that are widely

02:26:55.780 admired in an intense in an intense or obsessive fashion and influence society's expectations of what a great

02:27:03.280 love story or relationship should be they may or may not be romantic or high profile and interest in the

02:27:09.920 pairings may be due to a combination of chemistry physical attractiveness or because they seem faded okay

02:27:15.200 it's like a jenny and forrest gump kind of hold on what the people's people's uh attraction towards jenny and

02:27:23.900 forrest gump she's like a hippie and he's like a soldier wait she has aids bro i know yeah that's such a sad

02:27:32.840 story of a relationship hold on she rejected forrest gump hold on no no no this isn't it's not a love story

02:27:39.760 she rejects forrest gump he gets rich off of shrimp she gets aids and and she gets it has a kid

02:27:48.360 and then what once he's rich of course then she her even though she rejected him previously

02:27:54.620 now she's into him after she has a kid has aids and he's rich love story but he loved her

02:28:02.460 oh my gosh he didn't he didn't know any better that's a love story that's a love story for women

02:28:08.240 and an absolute catastrophe for men simp just the worst sorry the worst the rawest deal you can get

02:28:17.600 oh my gosh yeah people have influence i guess people who have a lot of influence can be a power

02:28:25.260 couple lord power couple power couple i was gonna say that's what i think because that's another

02:28:35.560 power couple that was funny though i'm not gonna lie power forrest gump is a power couple

02:28:41.780 and then and he's also like isn't he like

02:28:46.920 actually he was functioning he was a good guy he was good he was a good man jenny i love you

02:29:00.260 why don't you love me

02:29:01.480 uh he was um slow he was yeah yeah but good man he meant good man yeah she had aids we all have

02:29:13.480 everything he had good cardio erroneous erroneous what the okay that's crazy son that's crazy

02:29:23.400 uh we were going around on did we get to everybody yeah no we didn't do it go for it go for it um i

02:29:30.760 would say i'm fun but i don't think this guy agrees we were going i don't doubt you i don't doubt that

02:29:36.920 okay um and yeah nurturing i love kids and animals um and then i'm i'm probably a little have toxic

02:29:47.640 positivity as well um just kind of always think everything's gonna work out and i think

02:29:54.200 yeah that's valuable especially if you're with someone who worries a lot yeah let me see um

02:30:01.000 um what do i bring i bring an endless supply of oxytocin highs um

02:30:11.320 creative intimacy what is that elaborate wait wait wait wait creative intimacy and emotional

02:30:18.040 stimulation and stability and security wow simple that's uh that that was that was great

02:30:29.720 vocabulary basically all he said he likes yeah uh let's see what do i bring to the table um

02:30:38.600 hold on i wrote these down wow just crickets get this right okay so so uh

02:30:50.280 so okay hold on let me just pull up my notes here uh you know i like uh i get all my arguing out on

02:30:58.520 the podcast so i'm like the chillest like i know it seems like oh he must be a dickhead but i'm

02:31:06.200 actually like super mellow i never like to argue like i the way this is like kind of an adversarial

02:31:13.400 show so i'm not like trying to get into arguments if i'm dating somebody like i don't like conflict

02:31:19.080 like i mean if it's like something necessary needs to be talked about i'll talk about it but i'm not like

02:31:24.360 trying to pick arguments and shit um and i tend to gravitate gravitate towards women who

02:31:30.760 like a lot of the women i've dated and had long-term relationships with like

02:31:35.080 very smooth sailing um so yeah i'm not like some dudes you know a lot of people think girls will

02:31:43.240 bring drama but guys can bring drama too wanting to argue and starting over nothing like i sometimes

02:31:49.800 you just mesh up really well with somebody and you never you guys never argue it's all good for the

02:31:55.240 most part um let's see no i don't engage in any vices don't drink don't smoke don't do drugs don't

02:32:03.000 go to bars nightclubs don't gamble um yeah don't otherwise party so yeah and um

02:32:10.040 yeah there you go good ones yeah let me get this chat here we have was that only two yeah that was

02:32:19.880 two yeah we'll leave it there uh the shy guy community that's all he has folks yeah thank you

02:32:24.440 for the uh uh 100 euro adeline could you read this yes okay dancing is trying to express your feelings

02:32:32.440 when i'm in the club i move the way i feel the music what you think about these guys dj's good or

02:32:39.960 straight into trash asking for the shy guys be honest wait wait what what oh what like if guys

02:32:49.720 are dancing is that what he's asking like if you see a guy dancing is that weird or what i don't think

02:32:55.080 it's weird i think is that the question yeah i think dancing okay let's so here's i guess i'll try to

02:32:59.800 paint it like this you're at the club you see a guy dancing is you like a guy who dances or not

02:33:09.960 i mean like you're confident and comfortable with yourself and you want to move and groove i don't

02:33:15.480 see that as like if you're scared of it being feminine or looking a certain way like if you're

02:33:20.600 enjoying yourself that's all that matters mm-hmm i judge people who are at the club not dancing

02:33:27.720 so if there's good and you're just sitting there it's actually weird if you're not

02:33:31.720 yeah um if i see a guy dancing on his own that's not particularly attractive to me if he's like

02:33:42.840 trying to dance with me that's different can you scoot your mic that way no no you me yeah that way

02:33:48.920 this way yep go ahead um well my dream man since i was a kid was gene kelly which he's he's dead now

02:33:55.240 but um he was a beautiful dancer so that's the answer um i i think it's cool if a guy dances but

02:34:00.520 i'm not like looking across the room like whoa like check out that guy like dancing like you know

02:34:05.480 i don't do that but i think it's cool um he definitely has to have like the energy behind it

02:34:12.200 like it needs to match what's going on in the room like read the room type thing but

02:34:15.720 no it's not weird if they're dancing yeah i'd probably agree with that

02:34:20.040 yeah like don't and no not like you're dancing because you feel good do you dance i think it's

02:34:27.240 when they pull out the chicken just like a little sway like by yourself no yeah see it's like that's

02:34:33.480 kind of weird right no that's amazing they're just feeling the vibe i mean i mean to each their own

02:34:39.160 if you're fishing for intention and trying to be the spectacle of the event then yeah that's that's

02:34:45.240 like oh no like why why are you yeah like terry cruz and white chicks yeah yeah or if they just

02:34:51.480 love the music and they're just you know confident and they're having a good time they don't need to

02:34:55.480 be on beat but there's there's um there's this song by blink 182 called first date and one of the

02:35:02.680 song lyrics goes is it wrong if i think it's lame to dance i think it's lame to dance i don't dance

02:35:10.520 oh well that's why you don't go out to like bars or you don't go to clubs and you don't drink

02:35:14.680 like even with a girl that makes i'll actually i i'll actually like fucking maybe dance around

02:35:19.080 just like at home but like maybe like ball to like go out and dance what if the girl wanted to

02:35:25.320 dance i don't dance with her i love dancing you're kind of sus if you're a dude and you're like oh

02:35:31.000 boys we're gonna go out and dance oh yeah if you put it in that way it's gonna dance the night away

02:35:39.400 because that's what girls do right but it's not what guys are doing fine if girls want to do it i

02:35:44.360 guess it's okay so would you not go line dancing with like cowboys and stuff

02:35:48.760 i go to like it's on places and there's so many guys who just go there to dance i ain't line

02:35:52.760 line dancing you look so good in the cowboy hat though thank you i guess do we have a cowboy hat

02:36:00.280 let's see yeah good idea uh guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever if you're watching over there on twitch

02:36:05.560 just hit that follow button really quick if you can and if you're watching on youtube pull up another

02:36:10.120 tab just if you got a twitch account go to twitch.tv slash whatever um nick could you hit the stream yard

02:36:17.880 thing in the sources at the top uh yeah uh twitch.tv slash whatever the uh link is in the description

02:36:27.960 drop us a follow in the prime sub if you have one guys appreciate it and uh oh yeah nick if you want

02:36:34.040 just pull that up that one up whenever we go to uh twitch uh let me see what else we have here uh you

02:36:40.440 know what we'll do this one we do have stifler coming in ask everyone to rate their looks on the

02:36:45.320 scale of one to ten starting with you go ahead ten ten i wasn't feeling my scarf but closer to the mic

02:36:55.640 go ahead nine like seven feeling like an eight and a half today

02:37:04.040 baby check thank you for the 20 gifted

02:37:07.240 hey i hate this question but yeah like a seven okay seven q six you're more than a six q you're more

02:37:20.680 than a six six point one come on you're you're better than that uh i give myself a five i give

02:37:27.800 myself a five so we have ten ten was it nine did you say nine last time you didn't say ten last time

02:37:35.800 no all right let's explore the tens a little bit perfect uh so why why are you a ten this is looks

02:37:44.040 mind you yeah i'm a 10 because i feel like a 10 and my partner thinks i'm a 10 so that's all that

02:37:51.800 matters thank you for the 10 subs during dolls uh and you're a 10 too yeah i think i'm a 10 but that's

02:38:00.360 i think everyone should think they're a 10 i have a question are you wearing color contacts no that's

02:38:04.520 your natural eye color yeah she's those are real eyes yeah and kenya yeah brazilian and kenya but

02:38:11.880 yeah i think every like that's how i feel about myself and i feel like everyone should feel that

02:38:15.400 way about themselves when they leave the house so i feel like a 10. do you think all women should

02:38:22.680 consider themselves tens yeah i think the world would be a better place if everyone considered

02:38:27.080 themselves a 10. do you agree ellen should everybody consider themselves a 10. i agree because if you look

02:38:33.240 good and you feel good that's what matters and then you're bringing that positivity into the world

02:38:37.640 if i feel like i'm a three i'm gonna go out and i'm gonna be bitter um would you though if you think

02:38:46.280 you're a three does that make you why would i want to feel like a three i wouldn't feel good my quality

02:38:51.160 of life would be greatly diminished i wouldn't bring that feel-good bubbliness to my environment and

02:39:00.600 people passing me are gonna know that i feel like i am a three i've got a question for both of you or

02:39:06.920 for the whole panel does saying you're something make it true to me yeah so if you're a millionaire

02:39:15.000 or you say you're a millionaire but you're not does it make make it true yes well no because

02:39:22.440 your bank account would indicate that you're not is it cumulative i don't think like a rate necessarily

02:39:29.400 defines you though like you can be like a five and a six it doesn't mean that you don't think so

02:39:35.960 highly of yourself you're just a little more realistic of like where you land you know it

02:39:40.520 doesn't mean that i don't have like a great personality or that like i'm super ambitious

02:39:44.680 or i have all this going for me and that's how i show up in the world but i think that when you

02:39:50.680 when you rate yourself like an absolute 10 it can also be like a little unrealistic but nobody else

02:39:56.840 matters i didn't mean to interrupt you but nobody else matters also that's true ask 10 people what

02:40:01.720 a 10 looks like you're gonna get 10 different opinions so my version of a 10 is me that might

02:40:07.480 not be someone else's version of a 10 but like yeah that's what i mean it's like it's all objective

02:40:13.160 q what do you think what do you think on this whole 10 thing um i did a i had a tweet this morning i

02:40:20.200 tweeted um this conversation came up on twitter and i posted a picture of um margaret margaret robbie

02:40:27.400 is that how you say margot robbie yeah margot robbie and leslie johnson who's who's leslie johnson

02:40:33.960 um she plays in ghostbusters the the you can you want to google her nick yeah you tweeted this

02:40:40.840 yeah yeah i tweeted this because it was on snl yeah yeah what's your what is it the q pill on twitter

02:40:45.160 yeah we can pull it up there's not it's not like tos or anything you ain't posting like d pics or

02:40:51.480 anything on no no no okay genghis kwan nick are you able to find it here i can send it to you if you

02:40:59.880 want but you're comparing private chat a photo of a woman in her 50s and a woman in her 30s yeah but

02:41:06.360 the point the point was that beauty is objective there's a consensus about what people will consider

02:41:12.840 attractive and it's based on culturally so whatever you think you are like most people

02:41:19.320 cross-culturally especially if you ask men to rate you will give you a similar rating and they may say

02:41:25.080 you're more attractive or less attractive relative to what average is considered well the reason why

02:41:31.240 i bring it up i used to live in china and in china their beauty standards are very different than

02:41:34.840 american beauty standards and like what so like that whole idea of 10 what's considered a 10 i i i

02:41:40.760 wouldn't say the standard is different because it's very different no no i wouldn't say not not

02:41:45.960 based on the research and the reason i say that is because because that's subjective the reason i say

02:41:50.040 that is because there are markers of what makes somebody attractive such as facial symmetry high

02:41:55.000 cheekbones those kind of things so typically if you if you're attractive you're going to have a more

02:41:59.800 symmetrical face as a woman more neonous features a small chin button nose typically regardless of where you

02:42:06.120 put place that woman in whatever culture whatever country she's going to be deemed attractive now

02:42:11.240 there can be variants in what people think is you know she may be eight or a seven or 7.5 but typically

02:42:19.800 if you say do you find this woman attractive that woman is going to be deemed attractive do you find

02:42:23.880 this woman unattractive or less attractive that woman is going to be deemed well going back to the

02:42:27.880 question the question was what did i read myself and that's a 10 now there is someone who's going to rate

02:42:32.440 everyone a 10 or one at one point so are we asking what a collective group of people would

02:42:38.360 well that's that that's what the question is actually that's what the question revolves around

02:42:42.200 it revolves around do you have self-awareness of what you would objectively be rated not i know it's

02:42:49.560 asking you to rate yourself but they really want to see if you're delusional if you believe that

02:42:54.360 you're yeah yeah they're they want to see if you rate yourself higher than what you actually would

02:43:00.440 be objectively well there was this quote that i saw recently um and this guy's like this woman was

02:43:05.720 posted and she was a plus size model and there's men commenting there like she ain't a lady until she

02:43:09.640 180 and i was like wow like okay and all of them were agreeing and i'm like i guess they were into you

02:43:16.600 know the they were into her and that's a kink though that's like a that's like a niche definitely niche

02:43:24.040 definitely a niche yeah go ahead pull it up nick put us on the but i don't think this is fair

02:43:31.320 because one is a woman who's can you make it one bigger well even when she was younger she wasn't

02:43:35.320 that cute objectively uh there's consensus on which you want to read it q oh yeah um scroll down a little

02:43:43.640 bit nick so you can see what i'm responding oh he said beauty is in the eye of the beholder all races

02:43:47.640 um and i was i was replying to it i said bullshit there's a consensus on which women are attractive

02:43:52.760 and which women aren't uh margot robbie is more attractive everywhere in the world leslie jones

02:43:56.680 is less attractive everywhere in the world i actually have something on this too from but from uh what

02:44:04.680 about ladies are there are there some men who are more attractive than others yeah yeah of course i think

02:44:15.160 you yeah so hold on um nick can you google actually hold on i'll give you what to google

02:44:22.520 google that and then google hold on this guy

02:44:32.680 one sec one sec

02:44:37.320 while he's doing that i'm going to read this ben george hey thank you man more importantly than looks

02:44:41.000 what would you rate your attitude one to ten does it reflect others attitude towards you

02:44:44.920 which is more important looks or attitude relative to one's health long term uh what would

02:44:49.800 you rate your attitude one to ten i'd say i'm a solid like eight to nine like a three

02:44:58.760 i'll be honest why i am very emotional and it changes from day to day are you uh like are you

02:45:07.000 bipolar no i have adhd and a low yeah so i have a low attention span and then i'll like say things

02:45:12.920 and completely forgot that i said it yeah i know 10 being like like the sassiest like you have a bad

02:45:23.560 attitude like your attitude oh like a good attitude versus bad attitude like okay um

02:45:28.360 um 10 being the best um i would say i'm like um seven okay yeah i'm so confused this doesn't mean

02:45:38.920 like you're really positive as a person like just peaceful you keep the peace

02:45:45.880 um i think a five because i'm just like chill and british and done you know i would say 10 because i

02:45:54.280 feel like people are like pokemon cards where they have different strengths and i feel like that is

02:45:57.960 one of my strengths so yes you're vibrant you are very vibrant yeah i'm a i'm a nine i'm really

02:46:04.360 optimistic yay okay uh what the guys have to answer i guess i'd say i'm a eight i'd say i'm eight i'm pretty

02:46:17.080 pretty mellow even tempered um some say i have a switch but i haven't seen that switch so yeah i'll

02:46:24.520 just give myself a seven i don't really know entirely what the question totally means but um

02:46:31.160 so i want to ask the girls we're going to compare two men now because you guys say well i often hear

02:46:36.920 this argument when it comes to the rating thing well you know beauty is in the eye of the beholder and

02:46:41.880 you know one person's 10 could be another person zero and beauty is subjective but i do think that

02:46:49.720 there are like sort of universal like if you could put a really attractive person in any culture any

02:46:56.360 country there would be some consensus like and you can compare let's say just some person who's really

02:47:03.080 attractive i guess you're saying well it's still subjective versus someone who's unattractive

02:47:08.920 attractive for i'll just remove the scale of they're attractive unattractive you could put two

02:47:15.160 people together who look different and ask a hundred thousand people from different cultures whatever to

02:47:20.600 rate them there's probably going to be some like correspondence between the uh answers i think

02:47:28.280 sorry no you go ahead i just i think it gets complicated when we put ourselves into the equation when

02:47:34.760 it when we start taking it personally i think that's when like there's no rules i guess for for what

02:47:41.560 also i was going to say when you ask them to rate other guys instagram pages we see the inconsistencies

02:47:47.560 i haven't seen them call anybody a 10 yet when it's other men nobody says oh yeah he's a 10.

02:47:54.680 yeah good point good point um and actually we'll do the bumble thing after this so

02:48:00.040 nick could you pull up the first guy all right this is a male model francisco lachowski um scroll down a

02:48:09.320 little bit scroll down uh uh supermodel uh you can stop there he's 31 so some of these might be when

02:48:23.000 he's he's he's a bit younger but he i think he's 31 now um uh would you guys all say that this is a

02:48:30.760 maybe he's not a 10 to you but he's an attractive like very attractive man yeah yeah yeah yeah okay

02:48:37.720 next guy this is luis guzman he is an actor um scroll down a bit

02:48:45.720 okay

02:48:52.840 ladies who is more attractive

02:48:57.720 the first or the second guy

02:49:01.560 in my opinion what i value would be the model but there are some people who would prefer the machismo

02:49:10.120 that the other guy has what machismo and i see that yeah in the adams family it's the energy

02:49:17.000 behind a man his eyes i could see it so yeah it's all about he was such a baby

02:49:24.920 well the first okay so hold on sorry which one is more attractive to you like which one would i

02:49:32.040 give a chance if he approached you yeah okay one's a child he's 31 he's older than you

02:49:42.680 wait you're 28 right you're being honest about your age yes i said he was 31 how could he be a child

02:49:48.920 we'll go back at those he looks young to me he looks like a baby so i just personally

02:49:53.800 it's not doing it for me are you actually 28 yeah okay you want my birth certificate

02:49:59.880 yeah i don't know she's 28 okay why would who lies about being 28 women oh yeah you'd be surprised

02:50:08.600 pull out the driver's license right now okay uh which one's more attractive

02:50:13.320 i'll say the model will that make you happy no no just answer it's not about what just what

02:50:18.520 just answer the question okay show the model okay the model the first one the model i would say

02:50:25.880 the model but i would approach the other one more to have a conversation like in a sense where

02:50:31.800 like i could see his eyes and be like oh you you connect with me we've seen some

02:50:35.000 shit like you know like and then we talk at the bar and i could see that happen so yeah okay

02:50:41.320 he'd be her friend clearly the model clearly the model well do you think that

02:50:46.200 you know dr nadlis thank you for the 20 gifted memberships

02:50:53.400 now now it's possible you know it's possible this is a very small sample size that we're just

02:50:58.520 all outliers here do you think if i just went around and asked a hundred thousand women this

02:51:03.640 question do you think that you know you think that it could i just could be totally wrong on this and

02:51:10.040 that you know maybe it's more 50 50 50 percent of women find that guy attractive what do you think

02:51:17.560 or do you think it's probably 99 of women think the first guy is more attractive can you get a photo

02:51:23.560 of him at the same age i could what does he look like i don't know we don't we don't we're

02:51:29.320 showing an older look it doesn't really matter though because even him younger the second guy even

02:51:33.880 him younger he doesn't doesn't do anything with the no comparison yeah there's thank you for

02:51:39.640 being honest yeah i mean i'm i don't think like you could put that guy at his

02:51:47.400 peak i don't think he's but it doesn't mean the second guy doesn't have like all these amazing

02:51:52.120 qualities you know yeah no and i'm not trying to bully the guy no no no i'm not saying you i'm just

02:51:56.360 telling them because you're talking about conventional beauty and what's symmetrical and what's pleasing to

02:52:01.000 the eye um with the first man he's very feminine he's very slim he is very pale it's a type that you're

02:52:08.520 asking me to pick between one and a completely different type of person the second man is very

02:52:13.480 masculine he is the mo one of the most masculine men i've ever seen and so you're asking a very

02:52:18.920 difficult question well hold on but wait fine oh okay google you said you said you said he's he's

02:52:25.720 are you talking about the way he acts just physically like the first one had more of that um

02:52:31.800 um conventional attractive face you described for a woman with the pointy nose and the slim chin

02:52:37.080 and he has a he had a good pretty good jawline yeah yeah yeah he did have that kind of

02:52:42.200 no i'm talking about the second guy you said he's uh come you said he's masculine yeah he's got a very

02:52:48.920 manly look about him the first one looked yeah but we could find like a super chadley

02:52:54.520 yeah yeah i don't know do you consider brad pitt to have a more masculine face yeah than who brad

02:53:00.920 pitt yeah but then then which one compared to the other masculine guy that you're talking about

02:53:07.000 the same guy yes like i think he's like because you you're you're saying well it's not fair brian

02:53:11.880 that guy has a feminine more feminine face okay well let me i'm trying to think of a mass a man who's

02:53:17.240 got a masculine face who's hyper attractive channing tatum do i uh channing tatum

02:53:23.160 chris uh chris hemsworth mm-hmm chris hemsworth yeah what about chris hemsworth is would he be

02:53:29.080 more of what you're describing the second guy that the first guy isn't facially um yeah chris

02:53:34.840 hemsworth is more masculine than the first man yeah sure definitely more yeah the model kind of looked

02:53:40.200 a little femme but it was very drasty yeah okay um no facial hair you know what i mean yeah

02:53:48.280 like a little baby a little baby just a little baby they use pictures like that in scenes as well

02:53:55.640 so that's what the women typically say thank you don't you think it's a bit delusional though to

02:54:00.840 consider yourself a 10 you got you tried to get me on this one last time it's a 10 is perfect like

02:54:08.440 perfect perfect perfect i'm like no flaws i i mean it's my reality so okay what about you don't you

02:54:16.920 think it's a bit delusional yeah but i'm a delusional about everything all right well at least you're honest

02:54:22.040 i guess um well here's another question related to this do you think you will be more physically

02:54:30.040 attractive in 10 years time starting with you i might be because i'm i feel like i'm

02:54:38.360 just i'm 26 and i feel like i'm just filling out into my body so every woman is different everyone

02:54:45.160 every no you i mean if i could show you some pictures me whenever i was younger and i feel

02:54:50.600 i am becoming more feminine in my shape my body has changed over time as is so many other women so

02:54:57.160 i may be more attractive in 10 years as you're getting older you're getting your shape is getting

02:55:01.560 more feminine my hips my hips i'm getting hips i'm getting an ass that i never had before you're

02:55:06.760 saying like you're gaining weight no my body can change in its shape for me when i was in high

02:55:13.400 school i was skinny mini i was a stick as i began to mature my body started to do more of this regardless

02:55:21.720 of my weight you can look at me whenever i was below 180 last year and then you can see i still have that

02:55:29.480 shape it doesn't matter it's my body is going to continue to change so i may be more attractive in

02:55:35.800 10 years regardless of the age puberty hit a while ago though okay we hit puberty like when we're a lot

02:55:42.200 younger your body changes based on diet environment and your well-being yeah what about aging does that

02:55:50.520 have an impact on on the body that's where preservation comes into play yeah you have to preserve yourself

02:55:56.920 are you saying a 30 there's i can i can guarantee you can pull up a 35 year old woman who looks

02:56:01.720 better than i do that's fine sure yeah there's anomalies yeah so it doesn't i might look better

02:56:09.080 in 10 years there's anomalies they're anomalies you're saying 35 year old women are not attractive

02:56:14.840 yeah because that's what you're getting at as they were when they were younger in general

02:56:18.440 there's no 30 all things being equal there's no such thing as a woman who's who at 35 is more

02:56:28.280 attractive than she was at 25 all things being equal well they're different when you carry yourself

02:56:34.920 differently so someone can look someone can be 25 and carry themselves like trash by the time they're 35

02:56:41.160 they've grown into themselves they feel good about themselves and how they present themselves changes so

02:56:46.360 therefore they may look better than they did at 25 but you know how i said all else being equal

02:56:51.400 so assume that this woman had all the things you know she dressed the right way she finally figured

02:56:57.080 out how to finally put the makeup on the right way i guess she she was wearing all the right clothes

02:57:03.240 she was at the peak of her fitness because like it always goes to well i was a drug addicted

02:57:10.200 you know it's like at 25 she was drug addicted obese didn't know how to put on makeup didn't know

02:57:16.040 how to dress had a dog shit personality and then miraculously at 35 she's totally sober at the peak

02:57:22.200 of her fitness knows how to do makeup knows how to wear clothes what if she knew all that stuff at 25

02:57:31.320 would there ever be an argument where she's more attractive at 35 all else being equal i don't

02:57:36.120 think though i think it's apples and oranges because like a 25 year old face compared to a 35

02:57:41.000 year old face i feel like there's a self it's an attractive person they're still beautiful like

02:57:46.120 one's more youthful obviously which is like a look but like you could say the same argument when you're 15

02:57:52.200 like like a 15 year old a 25 year old like i don't think 35 you're like decrepit

02:57:59.880 you're making it seem like she's falling apart now if she's like 65 it's a little bit that's not okay so

02:58:05.160 that's a lot more nuance i don't think you age that much in 10 years yeah you do from 25 to 35

02:58:10.440 yeah you do not in los angeles yeah yeah you do that's true yeah you do um

02:58:17.880 they say you're not ugly you're just broke you definitely see it in the face

02:58:21.640 and the skin not in los angeles do you think plastic surgery doesn't make you like plastic surgery

02:58:29.480 doesn't make you okay you're 35 you do some plastic surgery on your face you look 20 you look 25 again

02:58:35.800 no you look 35 with a bunch of fake shit in your face i wasn't saying plastic surgery i'm saying

02:58:41.160 like when you're 25 and you're broke and you can't go to the gym and you can't afford good skincare and

02:58:45.960 you eat like shit and you go to mcdonald's all the time and then you're 35 and you can actually go to

02:58:50.520 a nice gym and you wash your face all the time and you can afford extensions you're gonna look better

02:58:55.320 i would actually argue a woman who has poor skin at 25 is actually gonna probably beat out her

02:59:01.720 nickelodeon donated 300 there's no woman at 35 more attractive than a 25 woman logic if you build

02:59:10.840 it they will come yeah look i'm again just to be clear women can absolutely be very attractive at

02:59:19.720 35 that's not what we're arguing not at all you can still be very attractive at 35 40 45 even

02:59:27.320 mm-hmm i'm just not even even later yeah you're not going to be more that's going to be more

02:59:32.840 attractive exactly where at 25 y'all taking it to the extreme are you saying she's ugly

02:59:38.840 i'm just saying i think that some women like there's a glow up for a reason

02:59:42.760 but okay and men too i think you can get well men are a bit different no but i still think some

02:59:49.080 women look better when they get older just because they dress better and they know themselves more and

02:59:53.960 that like again this money okay but again like if if i let me use the term all else being equal so

03:00:03.160 so let's assume that all those things that you claim to be that could be in place at 35 are in place

03:00:11.880 at 25 would it would you agree that she is going to be ultimately more attractive at 25 than at 35

03:00:21.480 your question is is she more attractive at 25 all those things in place her fitness skin care whatever

03:00:30.440 how to dress all of those things are in place at 25 will she be more attractive at 25 than at 35

03:00:37.560 i really just don't think there's a difference there's no difference i mean obviously you i just

03:00:43.080 don't think you get like that much older at 35 let me ask you a question so you're 28 right so

03:00:47.880 uh do you think that you'll be more attractive at 38 than you are now yeah what about 48

03:00:55.480 probably so you'll be more attractive in 20 years i have a great doctor a great doctor

03:01:00.440 yeah what kind of doctor he's gonna face lift it up to the heavens see that's the point though why

03:01:06.200 does he have to lift it up wait wait why does he have to lift it up let's assume you 45 eight six

03:01:11.560 kids later the house the dog yeah i'm a kenyan i'm gonna be stressed i'm gonna be pull back so in

03:01:19.080 other words you're gonna look worse no no no because the doctor's gonna sniff that part off you're not

03:01:22.920 listening oh we're without the doctor okay we're listening that's a question without the doctor you're

03:01:28.920 gonna look worse oh the world will never know so you gotta exclude the doctor

03:01:35.960 so just to be clear so even if we remove the doctor you'll still be better looking in 20 years

03:01:42.840 20 years yeah that's what i asked you're 28 and you said 10 years well you said 48 and you did say

03:01:48.520 you forget things because you got adhd okay come home um

03:01:52.440 uh that one would be a bit of an argument not i will i will i will give you that one it might be

03:02:01.000 not as attractive okay but you will be more attractive at 38 than you are now at 28 yeah

03:02:06.200 because i definitely think i look better now than i did at 21 and i know so many people who do look

03:02:10.920 better now later 20s than they did in their early i have a question for you on that so couldn't you use

03:02:16.200 that logic then for like let's say you were 38 now and you said well because i look better now than i

03:02:22.920 did at 28 then my trajectory must continue to go up so why can't you make the argument for like i'll look

03:02:29.720 better at uh 45 or 48 because realistically that's a bigger plateau so like obviously once i have 50s then

03:02:36.440 i'm gonna have like more wrinkles and all that stuff beautiful gray hair when do but so

03:02:41.240 you start aging you know most people peak around the early 20s and they're then they'll start be

03:02:49.560 they'll start to be visible signs of aging you know progressively throughout your 20s yeah at 25 you

03:02:55.880 lose collagen your call you start to break down collagen but i don't my argument is i don't think at 35

03:03:01.720 you look that i mean obviously you look a little bit older but it's not like it's attractive goes down

03:03:06.680 by two you're that's fine yeah you can still be attractive but the difference between you now

03:03:11.880 at 28 versus 38 or any person for that matter is going to be massive you want to pull up some

03:03:17.560 celebrities and do the comparison celebrities are not good examples though it's not great examples but

03:03:25.640 uh unless they were a hot blank mess no 40 year old woman has ever looked back on their 20s

03:03:30.680 and thought i'm so glad my face doesn't look like that anymore i think definitely like the older

03:03:35.880 generation of women definitely aged a lot more gracefully than this generation like i know a lot

03:03:41.880 of like my clients who are in their 40s like say like like people like from my generation like age

03:03:47.480 so badly now um and there's many reasons for that that we don't have to get into but i think if you

03:03:54.840 do hit a plateau like my husband tells me when we first met versus now that like i've gotten more

03:04:03.080 attractive over the past few years but my husband but but yeah whatever and then but i do know it's

03:04:13.640 not gonna hold on let me just interrupt really quick i know it's not gonna hold on let me just

03:04:16.360 interrupt really quick i got a question for you really quick now how would it go over with your

03:04:22.840 husband if he said you know what babe you're starting to look look worse and worse over the

03:04:28.920 years would that go over well i don't think you would tell me that even if it was true

03:04:35.480 that's the point well that's the point that's what he's saying

03:04:40.680 no i i'm actually agreeing with you i'm saying i think sometimes in your early 20s you can look

03:04:46.360 better and then you hit a peak and then you start to regress that's what i'm saying okay i'm saying you

03:04:52.440 you can kind of look more like like you know a child and then you like you know you know you go

03:04:59.560 through your teenage years you develop you go through your teenage years you're developing and

03:05:03.800 then maybe you're still looking more and more womanly through your early 20s and then maybe at

03:05:08.440 like 25 every year after that you regress just a little bit more so yeah i agree that you're not

03:05:15.000 going to look better 10 years you know for myself i don't think i'll look better at 35 i mean i'll

03:05:21.320 look really good but i won't look better than i do now yeah i looked my words do you think there's

03:05:27.480 a like uh at 19 oh my god i was like 20 to 25 do you think that there's like a huge degradation

03:05:34.680 in appearance in that range there might be like part a little bit but yeah it would just it would

03:05:39.240 just be it would be yeah it'd be minimal fairly minimal or there's a transformation that happens from

03:05:45.480 20 to 25 you grow into your face and then from 25 to 30 you are owning that face and then in your 30s

03:05:54.680 you have your body and you have your face y'all aren't women you don't get it oh we get it

03:06:00.680 we get it like the older you get you start you don't get it that's the problem you don't get it

03:06:06.040 yeah you you just because you want to hold on to your i'm not trying to hold on to my youth i

03:06:12.920 understand that i'm going to age i get that i do oh my god i do yeah i'm 26 i'm like wow i have to

03:06:21.320 to put moisturizer on now i didn't do that before so you're 26 are you going to be more attractive

03:06:26.200 at 36 than you are now i might be what about 46 will you be more physically attractive then

03:06:32.280 i mean it depends depends on what depends i mean like on your preservation you're what does that

03:06:39.320 mean she's gonna freeze herself or something fucking cryonics she's gonna pause time so so

03:06:46.600 around what age then do y'all think women peak in their physical experience wait i'm not sure oh

03:06:53.000 let's let's actually ask that question share look at share i think like 25 to 28 i got 25 i'm just

03:07:00.200 going to go around the table on the question uh so are you going to be better looking in 10 years

03:07:05.240 as compared to how you look now no no i should have asked this first maybe but not 20 maybe better

03:07:15.080 looking in 10 years but not so you're wait you're 31 right yeah so you'll be better looking at 41 than

03:07:20.360 you are now 31 maybe yeah maybe okay i hope so but probably not and you're you're 25 right yeah so you

03:07:28.200 do you think you'll be better looking at 35 than you are now 25 i mean i hope so but let's remove

03:07:33.720 hope from this uh what do you actually think if i'm being honest i think so because i look so young

03:07:41.880 right now i feel like i don't even look 25 okay what about you you're 32 correct yeah so will you be

03:07:48.280 better looking at 42 than you are now at 32 probably not hopefully not too much worse okay and then q what

03:07:54.440 was the question that you were about to ask oh i said at what age do you think women peak in in

03:08:00.120 attractiveness facially i i believe like between 25 to 35 i didn't get my face i feel like i still

03:08:10.360 very much have a baby face at 26 like i i think it just depends but i would say i predict like my face

03:08:18.440 is changing now i can see it but i predict i don't know there's other women at the table so this is

03:08:24.040 just my opinion but i would say 25 to maybe like early 30s is when i will know but right now i still

03:08:31.160 very much have a baby face so it's going to be different for everyone everyone ages differently so

03:08:36.920 i don't think that there's a okay okay was the question like what age does your attractive

03:08:44.120 that like peak yeah yeah yeah because yeah like where do you think you're most at what age do you

03:08:49.320 think you're most attractive before it starts to decline i mean then you could just say like 20.

03:08:57.080 okay but you're saying the decline like what do you mean by me like the whole conversation we're

03:09:02.360 having about you're less attractive you'll will you be less attractive in 10 years or 20 years

03:09:06.920 you said you think you'd be more attractive in 10 years but not necessarily 20 which would which would

03:09:12.440 indicate that you think you'll continue to increase in beauty okay start to go down okay yes i understand

03:09:19.400 yes i do want to jump in here really quick when q said 20 you guys

03:09:27.080 made like a little face what what exactly you what was your qualm with the 20 thing

03:09:33.720 no she just said something oh you were like 20 and you said not me

03:09:38.360 yeah and then she left oh it wasn't that like that's weird for people to think that

03:09:45.640 women are at their peak at 20 it's not weird oh okay i just i wanted to clarify you know i didn't

03:09:50.040 say that i don't like i'm just saying for me that was i don't think that was the case at 20.

03:09:55.400 did you want to continue sure i will say 35 is peak okay

03:10:00.680 like 25 to 28 um i think 25 because it also depends on genetics they do play a huge role

03:10:11.640 for me um we were talking about the buccal is it called the buccal yeah um so genetically like my

03:10:17.720 face looked like this when i was like 14 and i have those photos so i looked really similar and i know

03:10:23.640 that in 10 years time this is going to get worse and i'm going to look like just kind of skeletal

03:10:30.920 and but there's a thing it's like then i'm going to probably go into more of the grunge like you know

03:10:35.400 you know tim burton look and we'll just run with that you know the heroine embrace it baby

03:10:44.440 um i think that i mean i don't i don't ever want to like say anyone can decline but i feel like um

03:10:53.800 when someone you can see their whole life in their eyes that's when they've reached their sexiest

03:11:01.000 peak like when you can see their story like in their eyes i i think that because some people if

03:11:05.880 they are distracted and you know dissociated to things you can't really they're they you don't

03:11:10.200 really know what what is happening but yeah so wait one when when do you think women um i would say

03:11:18.040 at 35 yeah i would say around 35 is like a peak because then people know who they are

03:11:24.680 well we're talking about looks but oh yeah let's move it on what about you i'd say probably mid to

03:11:29.560 mid 20s to late 20s okay all right i agree with that one i have a question for you on this so

03:11:38.600 you said like you know you're gonna look better when you're um in 10 years 20 years whatever

03:11:47.720 so if i could wave a magic wand that only advanced your outer appearance yeah to how you will look in

03:11:54.120 10 years no impact on your health you don't age your butt so you know your your uh longevity is the

03:12:00.120 exact same you wouldn't die 10 years sooner you wouldn't experience any health issues that would

03:12:05.400 have otherwise come 10 years sooner only advanced your outer appearance to how you look in 10 years

03:12:11.080 no impact on your health would you take it yeah and i'm only going off based on my family i have a

03:12:17.240 lot of people and like my mother and like people i know they look the same but you look at those

03:12:21.800 pictures it's not that much of a difference but it's okay no but you you would have to tell me can't

03:12:29.640 argue with this i guess sometimes there's no there's no getting through to people sometimes

03:12:35.960 i know there's no getting at 35 i have more money so even better does it make you more physically

03:12:40.120 attractive but i don't think i look that different i don't think i'll look that different that's my

03:12:44.360 opinion well you're 28 right do you have any photos of you from when you're 21 or yeah i look 18.

03:12:51.080 i looked worse i had acne and i drank a lot so i was more popular so uh i'm gonna read a chat here we

03:12:58.360 have lpe thank you man brian i bet all the doll hairs in my bank account the chair number two is

03:13:05.240 not 28 pull out the id or frank castle stop the damn cap lpe what if i make you a proposal i make

03:13:12.520 you a deal are you willing to do a champagne pop if she is you're so you're betting she's not

03:13:21.080 uh champagne pop if she is in fact 28 so we do champagne pop um that would be fun

03:13:27.560 can can i see your idea i won't show it to the okay i will not show it to the camera

03:13:34.040 we can get my 1995 baby i will not show it to the camera she is boys she's getting the id we're

03:13:40.440 getting the confirmation yeah here we go brie isn't a liar wait shouldn't it also be wait he doesn't wait

03:13:49.000 does he do champagne pop if she's if she is 28 yeah if she is he has to do champagne pop if she is 28.

03:13:56.680 yeah okay wait don't don't don't show hold on hold on pass it pass it over to me yeah the

03:14:03.080 verification all right thank you on the internet what's that q's gonna confirm sagittarius it's a

03:14:10.600 fake passport no kidding yeah okay well 29 1995 baby uh what year 1995 the best it does say 90 95 in your

03:14:24.520 passport so that's a champagne pop that'll be listen wait hold on cue it is just just so i'm not like

03:14:31.320 i'm i'm i have my brazilian passport too i have my kenyan passport too how many passports do you need

03:14:36.600 oh okay what if it's a fake such a flex that's such a nice first of all you wouldn't get a fake passport

03:14:41.880 you would get a fake id bro that's that's why wait why the passport not the id okay

03:14:46.600 oh that's the week did you guys see that flick it was the most feminine flick ever beta male flick um

03:14:58.520 yo that's a champagne pop lpe i you're you didn't even say yes or no but i'm just going to contractually

03:15:04.920 legally bind you and i'll send my my ruthless pitbull lawyer after you if you don't do a champagne pop

03:15:10.200 just kidding but uh if you want to i don't know she is 28 q verified gustava verified it does say 95

03:15:18.680 on her passport so no no no i'm gonna move i'm gonna move it on uh let's get into nick we got a lot to do

03:15:34.040 um related to looks and i want to wait until everybody's back sitting down because we have two

03:15:39.640 people who are up i want to do the bumble thing so what i we've been meaning to do this for a while

03:15:45.160 this it might be a little funky because it's our first time doing it it's clunky excuse me

03:15:50.600 we're going to pull up bumble and we're going to give each of the girls 10 swipes to see how picky

03:15:55.960 they are oh i shouldn't have said that fuck god damn it okay god damn it uh just okay just still be

03:16:02.920 honest you each get 10 swipes on bumble and we're going to see who you say yes to and who you say no

03:16:08.360 too now nick do you think that we we do just the first photo and they judge based off just the

03:16:14.920 first photo or do they get to see some of the profile no no no just just first just the first

03:16:21.880 that's all you really look at anyway like your first needs to be solid would you not look at the

03:16:28.040 information like they're high oh yeah what if he's like so we're gonna wait until all the girls are

03:16:33.560 back at the table um to do that okay so for clarification is this swiping is this for a

03:16:44.520 partner or is this for just a wham bam thank you ma'am yeah that's the that is a good question uh

03:16:52.760 uh i don't know just do you think they're attractive i guess okay so just off of looks

03:16:59.960 okay uh okay so i guess while we're waiting for them was there something else we were going to pull

03:17:04.760 up nick uh yeah there's a cnn thing with bumble uh yeah let's do the cnn article about bumble

03:17:16.440 right now yeah fuck it whatever uh adeline could i have you read the title yeah dating app bumble will

03:17:26.840 no longer you ready yeah dating app bumble will no longer require women to make the first move

03:17:34.520 all right that's uh quite a change and then we're gonna have you read um starting from the new york

03:17:41.880 10 years after creating a new model for dating apps with its women make the first move feature

03:17:47.560 bumble's opening the door to men starting conversations on its platform bumble is rolling

03:17:53.240 out a new feature called opening moves that will let female users set a prompt to which male suitors

03:17:59.960 can respond to initiate a conversation oh what wow the feature reverses a long-standing requirement

03:18:07.960 by the app that women send the first message to their matches which bumble said gave women more

03:18:13.240 power over their dating lives the new feature is part of a larger relaunch of the app announced

03:18:19.960 tuesday by new ceo jones who took over the top job from founder earlier this year the move comes as

03:18:27.720 dating apps broadly are working to maintain their relevance as some singles have become burnt out

03:18:34.040 on online dating and are seeking more in-person connections um let me see if there's anything

03:18:42.520 else worth reading here um they're just trying to stay relevant taking us a great call that kind of

03:18:51.640 takes away the whole novelty of what bumble was i uh read from the new opening moves actually can i have

03:18:59.240 you read it uh sure um the new opening moves feature is one way jones says bumble is evolving

03:19:06.040 while staying true to its original mission of empowering women now women women users will have

03:19:12.680 the option to continue initiating conversations with matches or to set an opening move for example

03:19:20.040 a question about a potential matches dream dinner guest that would indicate that they want their match

03:19:25.880 to reach out first for non-binary users or those seeking same gender matches either person can set

03:19:33.560 and respond to an opening move and we're going to skip that part scroll down just a bit

03:19:39.720 and then can you read just this these next ones who me yeah okay the changes could be key to returning

03:19:49.240 bumble which also owns dating apps badu and fruits to profitability after it posted a 1.9 million net

03:19:58.200 loss last year the company's share price has also plummeted 86 percent from its initial public offering

03:20:05.480 in february 2021 all right thank you for reading that guys we should have you read more that was good

03:20:10.920 that was really good thanks it's got a good good reading voice um so have any of you ever been on

03:20:16.760 bumble yeah yeah and so bumble at least they're changing it now it used to be that the woman had

03:20:24.520 to send the message first right uh what do you guys think of this new change yay nay i like it so it's

03:20:31.160 basically just like every other single dating app now yeah i i would this is my opinion on bumble and

03:20:37.800 tender i always said bumble is better quality and tender's trash unless you're looking for

03:20:42.360 purely a good time than tenders where the party's at bumble the men who are on there it are going to

03:20:50.120 be more conventionally attractive men because all of the other men are going to go to tender where they

03:20:55.880 have higher chances and they're going to spend more time there as opposed to the men who are going to

03:21:01.400 and you can look at you can play devil's advocate maybe all the players are on bumble but i would say

03:21:06.360 bumble's better quality because the the type of men there if you are a looks based person then

03:21:11.640 bumble's going to have a lot more looks more attractive men than tender it's my opinion

03:21:20.520 i have a quick okay i have a question then for the panel um those of you who were on bumble what was

03:21:25.000 your typical opening line hi were you on me i would just comment something on their profile i would just

03:21:34.440 try to find something to start a conversation okay i never never had bumble what about you um i tried

03:21:41.880 it and i would just be like howdy partner with a cowboy emoji okay okay i i think i would just feel

03:21:48.280 like make sure i had a lot of emojis because that if i'm excited and want to meet somebody new i like

03:21:53.720 emojis red flag no it's just why is emoji a red flag somebody like excessive emoji usage it's kind of

03:22:02.920 like this person's crazy you know what i mean okay yeah i've never had yeah i've never never had bumble

03:22:12.440 okay and q have you been on bumble i did the um when it i think when it first came out it had the

03:22:18.680 24 hour free thing i did like a little social experiment to see how many women would initiate

03:22:24.920 um for 24 hours i got like 33 34 uh initiations and then i cut it off after that is it a paid

03:22:33.480 platform now bumble it when i did it it was oh wow you had like a free trial or something like that

03:22:40.360 in the beginning in my in my days it was more in my days it was more it was more so it was just that

03:22:46.120 you have 24 hours to send a message and then they have 24 hours to respond to you and then it went

03:22:50.760 away that match would essentially expire and then you would just go on yeah it was something like

03:22:56.040 that it said 24 hours for something so i only did it for 24 hours and then i deleted it you match but

03:23:00.600 they have to respond no it should be free i don't know when you used it but it it was like it was like

03:23:04.680 three years ago three or four years ago yeah i don't know i haven't been on dating apps in a while but

03:23:09.880 i was on it for a decent amount of time have a good amount of experience with it

03:23:13.960 it's been a while though so i don't know what they've changed since then um my experience and

03:23:20.040 what i've heard from a lot of men is is that while yes women do have to message first and it was this

03:23:28.040 you know sometimes an idea idea like it makes sense but then when it's actually in practice

03:23:35.240 it really doesn't achieve its aimed goal or what it's actually trying to achieve so what often happens

03:23:42.440 on bumble and what i assume still does happen on bumble is even though women have to send the

03:23:47.640 first message typically and you mentioned your first messages was high they would do what women

03:23:54.600 hate on all the other dating apps which is if a guy just says hi a lot of women don't like that it's

03:24:00.680 low effort every other person's doing it you don't stand out my experience was i want to say 95

03:24:09.160 percent of women would say something like hi hey what's up how's it going hey with three y's hi with

03:24:16.040 seven eyes it was always the same and the same criticisms they have of men on other dating

03:24:21.560 platforms where men had to initiate women just repeated those same things that they took coral with

03:24:27.160 on tinder hinge whatever um so what would often happen is yes the woman has to send the first message

03:24:35.560 they send a hi or an emoji or a waving face whatever and then they immediately after the

03:24:42.360 token amount of initiative that they've they've taken they immediately push back all the other

03:24:51.160 burdens of trying to make something happen right back onto the guy so it didn't really achieve

03:24:56.840 anything it just made this token thing the woman just says hi boom conversational burden right back on

03:25:02.120 the guy asking for the first date right back on the guy getting the number right back on the guy

03:25:07.000 setting up the date right back on the guy you know moving things forward from there right back on the

03:25:11.480 guy so it didn't really achieve anything i think i think it wasn't empowering it was just fake empowering

03:25:20.280 i think the quality like she was saying is just a little bit better than tinder and then the

03:25:23.480 mentality behind it where people are just not going purely for hookups yeah it was probably i do think

03:25:29.400 bumble was a bit more people were probably still on there doing casual sex and stuff but a little

03:25:36.280 more or less hookup be than tinder and i would make the same argument for hinge hinge took it a step

03:25:42.040 forward and it was a bit more serious than both bumble and uh and tinder but uh it's just always

03:25:49.480 interesting to me like like the entire premise of of this was like women taking ownership initiating but

03:25:59.240 it's it's bogus yeah because it goes against their nature because okay you say hi and then you just

03:26:09.240 immediately revert to what you like how you would have conducted yourself if the guy messaged you first

03:26:16.600 you just immediately most women on bumble would say hi and then just immediately take the back seat

03:26:22.360 anyways and wait for the man to drive the entire rest of the conversation wait for him to ask for a

03:26:28.040 phone number wait for him to set up the date so that's because the premise of the app is stupid

03:26:36.440 women shouldn't be making the first move pursuing the guy especially on a dating app where both people

03:26:42.840 are on there for a relationship or to start talking if the guy knows that this girl is open

03:26:49.960 because she's on this app there's no excuse for him not to start the conversation yeah it's a shitty

03:26:55.720 strategy it's a it's a shitty strategy that they built it on they have a poor uh fundamental understanding

03:27:01.400 of male and female differences when it comes to um sexual pursuit i mean little lesson for y'all the

03:27:09.400 part of the brain that's responsible for sexual pursuit is 2.5 times larger in men than women

03:27:14.280 and that's why we are the ones who typically initiate and uh attraction is a lot more contextual for women

03:27:20.440 as well which is why even though they say hi the burden of um conversation falls back on men because

03:27:26.680 now men have to um elicit an attractive response by saying something that engages the woman letting the

03:27:34.680 woman know something about him he has to be able to basically hold a conversation a lot of women say

03:27:40.360 men can't hold conversations so that's why the burden of conversation falls back on men the woman says

03:27:46.200 hi the guy's like oh she's interested and now yep it's right back on you bro you got to say something

03:27:50.440 that makes me want to go out with you or that makes me um feel more interested in you essentially you

03:27:57.400 know yeah but i'd actually be curious to ask the chat maybe nick can you uh show us the chat here

03:28:05.960 so for the viewers those of you who had bumble would it more often than not be the case or the

03:28:13.480 majority of the time would the women just go hey or some permutation thereof and then would the ball

03:28:21.640 immediately just be back in your court can you uh scroll it up or make it a little bigger

03:28:32.440 you might have to you probably it probably has to be adjusted in the in that like youtube tab

03:28:38.120 uh we do have a bit of lag with the chat here we we changed something so the chat is going to lag

03:28:45.400 a little bit while that's you can hide this um just checking here a couple things

03:28:55.000 okay fine sorry guys the the chat is super delayed at this point so yes yes yes every time yep yes um

03:29:07.400 yep duh either hi or a dumb gif 95 of hey uh they would just post their instagram

03:29:16.280 she's not uh that's something okay all right so we're gonna do we're gonna switch to the segment

03:29:21.800 now where we're gonna have the girls swipe on some speaking of bumble swipe you each get 10 swipes okay

03:29:29.640 uh nick you can uh go for it and uh can you put us on maybe the other side actually and it should be

03:29:37.240 fine okay or corner corner yeah so uh just say yes or no yes yes

03:29:50.040 one girl at a time oh okay yes yeah nick go ahead oh how do we do it how do we do it without it

03:30:02.520 matching okay yeah just exile that as quick as you can um no no dirty mirror no full of himself

03:30:17.080 put together yes we should maybe do we adjust the age range possibly for the because you're 26 right

03:30:24.040 so you're probably not inclined to date no no just are you are they physically attracted i guess no

03:30:34.600 no i should probably just keep it over the x

03:30:38.040 no how many is that no i can't even see them are they trying to use the dog to get oh i i i was on

03:30:49.800 dating actually you know what my ability to wait look is very um you actually don't um you can just

03:30:56.040 pass on all of them because the the viewers hear the answer so was that 10 i should consider gustavo can

03:31:05.320 you keep track for me um we're going to you now go ahead uh no because i can't see this face okay

03:31:13.160 i don't know which one it is so no we might is it

03:31:18.760 yes but i don't like the guy in the back

03:31:20.360 like who is it unless he was the first one no because you need a better filter

03:31:28.120 oh kitty i know almost got her i can't tell which one so no

03:31:35.720 yes

03:31:37.880 yes damn he was hot

03:31:43.160 yes

03:31:43.320 okay what about you no no no no no she's married

03:32:03.880 yeah if you guys are dating someone just you know if you were single no i am okay okay no

03:32:09.640 no no not in public no no no okay no no uh no can i pet that dog no sorry no

03:32:28.840 no no no no no no no no no wait hold on nick can you make one adjustment can you actually put us

03:32:53.640 back back to uh write big um no no no no no no no um maybe i just have to see his face but no oh yeah

03:33:22.760 it's nice it's nice no no uh no definitely not um i don't yeah i don't know which one so no because

03:33:32.040 i don't know which one you no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no

03:33:49.560 oh no no no no no rup okay zero out of ten all right i'm going to pass you don't wanna do it

03:33:59.880 uh damn wait i want to hold on let's bring it back up really quick

03:34:02.760 Hold on.

03:34:03.140 Let's bring it back up really quick.

03:34:06.120 We're going to go until we get a yes.

03:34:07.700 Go ahead.

03:34:11.540 No.

03:34:13.440 No.

03:34:13.900 Mine was all no's too, by the way.

03:34:15.440 No.

03:34:16.360 Chandra Shekhar?

03:34:17.580 No.

03:34:19.180 No.

03:34:21.360 No.

03:34:23.640 No.

03:34:24.180 Is this how dating apps are?

03:34:25.860 Okay, no.

03:34:26.240 It's how women are on dating apps.

03:34:28.100 No.

03:34:28.680 It's a Kurt Cobain.

03:34:29.480 I mean, it's fair.

03:34:30.360 No.

03:34:30.800 No.

03:34:32.360 No.

03:34:34.120 No.

03:34:34.900 Robo, I got the yearbook picture.

03:34:36.400 No.

03:34:37.760 No.

03:34:39.460 No.

03:34:40.340 We're going to be here.

03:34:40.940 I got a bad one.

03:34:42.520 It's okay.

03:34:43.040 Don't worry.

03:34:43.500 We're still going.

03:34:44.480 Mine were bad too.

03:34:46.520 No.

03:34:47.360 Oh, you're okay.

03:34:48.160 No.

03:34:49.060 What?

03:34:50.360 No.

03:34:52.340 No.

03:34:54.180 No.

03:34:55.780 Oh, gosh.

03:34:56.520 No.

03:34:58.320 No.

03:34:58.880 No.

03:35:00.300 No.

03:35:01.140 I'm going to just take a nap.

03:35:02.340 No.

03:35:02.920 Who could you?

03:35:03.860 No.

03:35:04.800 I'm not being picky.

03:35:07.160 No.

03:35:07.740 Do you like older men?

03:35:09.060 No.

03:35:09.680 Yeah, I do like older men.

03:35:10.380 Hold on.

03:35:10.880 Just guys, guys.

03:35:11.760 Let her answer.

03:35:13.860 No.

03:35:15.660 Maybe him because he cooks.

03:35:17.560 Well, too bad.

03:35:18.340 You pat.

03:35:18.640 No.

03:35:19.880 Maybe change the age range.

03:35:21.600 No.

03:35:21.720 No.

03:35:22.920 No.

03:35:23.320 No.

03:35:23.420 Just jacket check reminder.

03:35:25.860 No.

03:35:28.000 No.

03:35:28.520 No.

03:35:30.280 No.

03:35:32.060 He's a lawyer, bro.

03:35:34.300 Maybe him.

03:35:35.120 Okay.

03:35:35.360 Maybe him.

03:35:35.720 Wait, which one?

03:35:36.880 The back one.

03:35:38.240 Which one?

03:35:39.500 The guy in the jacuzzi.

03:35:41.180 That's a magical face.

03:35:42.340 All right.

03:35:43.020 That was finally a yes.

03:35:45.900 So, how many was that?

03:35:47.180 Like 50?

03:35:48.260 46?

03:35:48.800 So, one out of 46.

03:35:49.620 They got, like, good ones up there.

03:35:50.840 Like, that's, like, 2% swipe rate or whatever.

03:35:54.320 Sorry.

03:35:54.740 And the range is around 6.

03:35:56.220 So, chat, I want to ask you.

03:35:57.920 Do you guys like this segment?

03:35:59.380 I'd like to do it again.

03:36:01.120 I don't know if you thought it was boring.

03:36:02.400 It's our first time doing it.

03:36:04.120 I think it was pretty interesting, though, guys.

03:36:06.580 It's a good experiment.

03:36:07.140 It's a good experiment.

03:36:07.880 And maybe we can do it.

03:36:08.860 It could not hurt.

03:36:09.040 Maybe we do, like, 20 per girl or something.

03:36:11.960 But, yo, chat.

03:36:14.540 Did you like it?

03:36:15.360 Did you like it?

03:36:15.960 Yes or no?

03:36:16.640 Did you like it?

03:36:17.520 Yes or no?

03:36:19.400 Liked it?

03:36:19.960 Yes or no?

03:36:24.000 Bumble is dead.

03:36:24.860 Good segment.

03:36:26.920 Okay.

03:36:27.380 Getting some yeses.

03:36:29.460 No, it sucks.

03:36:30.560 This is doomed.

03:36:31.520 That was brutal.

03:36:32.500 That was fun.

03:36:33.900 No, no, no, no, no, no.

03:36:34.940 Yeah, I think we need to adjust, like, for each girl, adjust the age range.

03:36:38.160 Yeah.

03:36:38.860 And do a couple adjustments.

03:36:39.820 But it was our first time doing it, so.

03:36:41.640 A lot of the reason.

03:36:42.300 I think if you guys didn't learn anything, group photos is a no-go.

03:36:47.840 Animal photos will get you considered.

03:36:50.440 Consider it, yeah.

03:36:51.540 And no buzz balls.

03:36:52.920 Like, who's drinking a buzz ball?

03:36:54.740 Don't do that either.

03:36:55.660 I think even if the guy was attractive, some of the reason why I said no to some of them

03:36:59.280 was because he kind of looked, like, kind of like a partier in the picture.

03:37:02.700 And I didn't want a partier.

03:37:04.100 So, like, yeah.

03:37:05.580 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

03:37:07.860 Drop us a follow and a prime sub if you have one.

03:37:11.200 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

03:37:12.980 Drop us a follow and a prime sub if you have one.

03:37:17.980 Yeah.

03:37:18.560 Thank you, guys.

03:37:19.380 And then what else?

03:37:21.060 Let's finally get into the show notes here.

03:37:23.100 One sec, guys.

03:37:26.460 So, we had, we did the, we got to do the view thing, the BBL video.

03:37:37.520 BBL video.

03:37:38.880 Was that no-go, right, Nick?

03:37:40.120 No.

03:37:40.460 Okay.

03:37:41.340 So, let's see.

03:37:42.920 We need to do.

03:37:45.180 Just Gerald donated $999.

03:37:51.340 Let me do it.

03:37:51.980 Let me do it.

03:37:52.500 I got it, Nick.

03:37:52.920 Don't stop.

03:37:54.340 I'll cover his debts.

03:37:55.120 Let's fucking go.

03:37:56.300 Celebrate the victories, Brian.

03:37:58.340 Don't open it all day.

03:37:58.720 There's a bear in my driveway breaking into the garbage again.

03:38:01.900 Does that mean we all get champagne?

03:38:02.480 Just a bear.

03:38:03.140 Yep.

03:38:03.520 Thank God it's not a man.

03:38:05.000 Oh, thank God it's...

03:38:06.000 I've got to go deal with this.

03:38:07.540 Wow.

03:38:08.300 Dude, Gerald, thank you for the fucking massive...

03:38:11.340 Thanks, Gerald.

03:38:12.520 Pop champagne.

03:38:13.120 Thank you, man.

03:38:13.740 Appreciate it.

03:38:14.280 Wow.

03:38:14.780 Here's the champagne bottle.

03:38:16.340 That's what I'm talking about!

03:38:17.880 That's why he's leaving me!

03:38:19.740 That's why he's the goat!

03:38:21.700 The goat!

03:38:23.060 Also, for Gerald...

03:38:24.680 He's a brave and a decent man.

03:38:26.260 He's a pioneer.

03:38:27.440 Now, mind you, we have multiple champagne bottles, so LPE, you know, you did do a bet.

03:38:32.060 You said...

03:38:32.900 What did you say?

03:38:33.600 You said you have all the dull hairs.

03:38:35.440 Ha-ha.

03:38:36.240 So, I guess, you know...

03:38:37.840 Goose, we get two.

03:38:38.400 Okay, we got the cups there.

03:38:39.540 All right, let me see.

03:38:40.160 I watched a tutorial, like, two weeks ago, because I keep fucking this up.

03:38:43.380 Let me see if I can finally...

03:38:45.440 Oh, I got it.

03:38:46.120 All right, don't worry.

03:38:47.040 I'll just aim it towards Nick.

03:38:48.460 Towards your very expensive...

03:38:50.040 Like, great scent?

03:38:51.520 You want some pro tips?

03:38:53.480 You gotta remove this.

03:38:54.620 Hold on.

03:38:54.880 Oh, you got it.

03:38:55.160 No, no, no.

03:38:55.600 Let me...

03:38:55.800 We should let him fail.

03:38:56.900 I need to learn finally.

03:38:58.340 Okay.

03:38:58.980 I need to learn.

03:38:59.700 Oh, goddammit.

03:39:00.600 It didn't fucking...

03:39:01.140 You didn't practice?

03:39:02.100 Fuck.

03:39:02.380 All right, so apparently you take this thing off.

03:39:06.160 This is the moment you've been waiting for.

03:39:07.660 And then you, uh...

03:39:08.500 This thing, you screw it.

03:39:09.940 It's, uh...

03:39:10.520 Yeah.

03:39:11.340 Oh, my god.

03:39:12.580 This is painful.

03:39:13.240 Amp towards the camera.

03:39:14.120 Yeah.

03:39:14.620 Apply pressure to the top.

03:39:16.240 Sorry, Ken.

03:39:16.660 You just aim it towards, uh...

03:39:18.160 You could use, like, a towel.

03:39:19.900 Mm-hmm.

03:39:21.760 Are you gonna shake it?

03:39:22.640 Oh, gosh.

03:39:23.500 Oh, my gosh.

03:39:23.880 It's going...

03:39:25.200 Okay, hold on.

03:39:26.000 I need a moment.

03:39:26.680 My hands are all sweaty.

03:39:29.020 Nervous, bro.

03:39:30.360 Uh, Q, while I'm doing this, do you want to ask them a question?

03:39:33.980 No.

03:39:34.300 That's how long it's going to take you.

03:39:38.200 Wait.

03:39:39.100 Here we go.

03:39:39.740 Oh!

03:39:41.380 Finally.

03:39:42.960 The last time I got bottles...

03:39:46.420 You know, I loosened it up for Madison that one time that she...

03:39:50.600 I don't know if, Maddie, have you opened one?

03:39:52.580 No, I think it was somebody else.

03:39:53.680 I always loosen it up for them, but, you know.

03:39:56.460 Um, so, everyone's over 21, right?

03:39:58.920 I'm 28.

03:39:59.800 Okay, you...

03:40:00.380 Who...

03:40:00.660 Who wants...

03:40:01.600 Who wants champagne?

03:40:03.000 I will take some.

03:40:03.440 Who wants everybody?

03:40:04.600 Yeah, me too.

03:40:05.120 Sure, I'll take some.

03:40:05.800 All right, we need to get liquored up.

03:40:08.480 You gotta get...

03:40:10.320 Thank you.

03:40:13.240 You're welcome.

03:40:13.940 All right.

03:40:14.000 Maybe still, like, leave it there until they pour it.

03:40:16.300 Oh, yeah.

03:40:16.820 Oh, yeah, you're right.

03:40:18.000 What's up?

03:40:18.460 That's smart.

03:40:19.080 You're smart.

03:40:20.740 Oh, the fuck was I thinking?

03:40:22.740 So...

03:40:23.140 That's why you need women.

03:40:24.520 I'm going to pour one out for my homies.

03:40:27.080 I'll pick up the slack every now and then.

03:40:28.940 I'm going to pour it out.

03:40:30.880 I'm going to pour it out.

03:40:32.040 Rest in peace.

03:40:33.240 Yeah.

03:40:35.040 Oh, shit.

03:40:35.700 I almost fucked that up.

03:40:37.060 Uh, Q, do you want to do the honors of serving everybody?

03:40:39.860 Yeah, pour it sideways so it doesn't bubble.

03:40:41.500 Yeah, I fucked that up.

03:40:43.040 You gotta go at an angle.

03:40:43.940 Yeah, like at an angle.

03:40:45.240 Yeah, at an angle.

03:40:46.100 Like, you would serve beer.

03:40:48.120 I've never served beer.

03:40:49.180 Cheers to Gerald.

03:40:50.160 Thanks, side.

03:40:51.200 LP.

03:40:52.020 How are you going to let another man pay your debt?

03:40:56.200 How are you going to let somebody else do that?

03:40:58.780 Uh, but yo, Gerald, thank you, man.

03:41:01.340 You're a fucking legend.

03:41:02.340 By the way, Gerald, your, um, I forgot if it was last week or on Sunday, your, um, wait,

03:41:11.860 who was it with?

03:41:12.660 You had this really good...

03:41:13.800 No, it was this...

03:41:14.620 Oh, that was the other conversation we were having.

03:41:16.720 So, we were having...

03:41:17.640 Every...

03:41:18.020 Why is everybody getting up right now?

03:41:19.360 Goddamn.

03:41:20.880 Goddamn.

03:41:21.340 Is it an intermission or something?

03:41:22.980 Um, they're coming back.

03:41:24.180 I just don't know what's going on.

03:41:25.940 Is there going to be enough?

03:41:27.180 Gerald.

03:41:27.660 I don't think so.

03:41:28.160 He had a very good point about...

03:41:30.280 I was having a lively debate with this woman.

03:41:32.740 Oh, and on the last one?

03:41:33.740 Um, about would you be willing to take a bullet for your man?

03:41:37.520 And I actually want to...

03:41:38.360 I think that's a great...

03:41:40.140 Uh, has great potential for conversations on this podcast.

03:41:43.000 Or no.

03:41:43.160 Would the man take a bullet for his woman?

03:41:46.700 Thank you.

03:41:47.460 Thank you.

03:41:48.360 So, Gerald, and you made a very astute observation of...

03:41:53.280 She wouldn't bow, but she wants her man to...

03:41:57.920 You know.

03:41:58.500 Anyways, so, uh, has everybody got some?

03:42:01.280 Yeah.

03:42:01.880 He's a brave and a decent man.

03:42:04.040 Oh, did I not?

03:42:05.120 Wait.

03:42:05.960 He's a brave and a decent man.

03:42:07.460 So, to Gerald.

03:42:07.740 He's a pioneer.

03:42:08.780 Thank you, brother.

03:42:09.740 Uh, is everybody...

03:42:10.520 Let's...

03:42:10.800 We'll do a cheer once everybody's back.

03:42:12.580 There's only one bathroom.

03:42:13.860 What are you guys doing back there?

03:42:15.320 She doesn't drink, though, right?

03:42:17.480 Yeah.

03:42:18.080 Oh, okay.

03:42:18.860 Oh, okay.

03:42:19.740 Are you just waiting for the bathroom, or...?

03:42:21.320 Yeah.

03:42:22.320 Okay.

03:42:23.520 Uh, well...

03:42:25.640 Fuck it.

03:42:26.120 We're gonna just...

03:42:26.740 All right.

03:42:27.140 Salud.

03:42:27.960 Cheers.

03:42:28.760 Cheers.

03:42:29.280 To...

03:42:29.720 To...

03:42:30.320 Thanks to...

03:42:31.000 Um...

03:42:31.440 Gerald.

03:42:32.920 Was that his name?

03:42:33.600 Thank you, Gerald.

03:42:33.880 Oh, he's...

03:42:34.400 Oh, cool.

03:42:35.020 He's got the bottle.

03:42:36.160 To Gerald.

03:42:37.300 Cheers.

03:42:37.560 Cheers.

03:42:40.400 Okay.

03:42:41.020 You missed it.

03:42:41.940 Cheers.

03:42:42.280 Cheers.

03:42:42.900 Are you drinking out of the bottle?

03:42:44.200 Hell, yeah.

03:42:44.740 That's so cool.

03:42:45.500 Let's go.

03:42:48.660 It's very good.

03:42:50.680 It's good champagne.

03:42:51.780 Mm-hmm.

03:42:52.180 All right.

03:42:52.900 Getting back on topic.

03:42:54.300 What were we talking about?

03:42:55.840 We just finished Bumble.

03:42:57.240 Just finished the Bumble.

03:42:59.000 And a bullet.

03:42:59.400 The Bumble.

03:43:00.340 Taking a bullet.

03:43:01.560 Oh, sure.

03:43:02.200 Why don't we go there?

03:43:02.920 We'll talk about that.

03:43:04.260 So...

03:43:05.260 Ladies, do you have an expectation of your man?

03:43:11.540 To take a bullet.

03:43:12.580 For him to give...

03:43:14.580 To make the sacrifice to give his life to protect you?

03:43:20.020 Would you want that quality in a man?

03:43:21.960 That he would be willing to sacrifice his life to protect you?

03:43:25.300 In some scenario where it's him or it's you.

03:43:31.000 I would hate for that to happen.

03:43:34.460 I think that that's a noble quality to have.

03:43:38.920 But I wouldn't want to ever be in that position.

03:43:42.660 So...

03:43:43.580 I say, yes, it's noble.

03:43:45.320 It's very noble.

03:43:46.240 Would you want a man to lay down his life to protect you?

03:43:50.340 Yes, but I think I would have tremendous survivor's guilt for that.

03:43:53.840 Okay.

03:43:55.700 I think yes, because I would do the same.

03:43:59.200 Yes, because I would do the same.

03:44:01.180 Yes.

03:44:04.400 I've lost two lovers, so no.

03:44:07.600 I don't know if I could do a third.

03:44:10.340 But it's not really the question, right?

03:44:12.080 But I just...

03:44:12.960 Did they lose their life protecting you?

03:44:15.500 No.

03:44:16.160 Yeah, so the question is...

03:44:17.060 I just don't know if I could live without him.

03:44:18.880 So you would...

03:44:21.520 Okay, so here's the scenario.

03:44:22.960 Doesn't mean I could die.

03:44:23.720 There's a bullet coming.

03:44:24.520 Yeah.

03:44:24.640 There's a bullet coming.

03:44:26.500 He can jump in front of you and protect you.

03:44:28.520 Would you prefer that over to you just taking the bullet and dying?

03:44:31.880 Yeah.

03:44:32.400 I just know it would be hard for me to...

03:44:34.660 But I would be like, wow, well, at least he died defending me,

03:44:37.600 and that's what he wanted to do.

03:44:39.600 Not like I...

03:44:40.020 Is it a man's duty to protect his woman?

03:44:42.640 I think a man should want to protect his woman, like be a protector.

03:44:47.140 I think that the right woman brings the protector out of the man.

03:44:50.440 But to the extent of sacrificing his own life to protect you...

03:44:54.920 I think that the right woman will bring that just out of a man naturally.

03:45:00.240 But if it's the wrong woman, no.

03:45:02.020 But all of a sudden, if it's the right woman, it will bring that out of him,

03:45:06.100 and he won't even know why he did it.

03:45:08.060 It's just like that.

03:45:09.780 Imagine finding out you're not the right woman, though.

03:45:14.000 You'd be dead.

03:45:15.020 What about you?

03:45:16.200 Yes.

03:45:17.960 Yes.

03:45:18.540 You'd want him to sacrifice his life to protect you.

03:45:21.100 Yeah.

03:45:21.720 Okay.

03:45:22.680 I hope he's ready to,

03:45:24.320 because I'm probably instinctually going to just jump behind him, right?

03:45:28.800 Yeah, like I would do it too.

03:45:30.480 That's why.

03:45:30.780 Now, Q, you were here for this.

03:45:32.420 Yes, I was.

03:45:33.000 I'm curious to know, like, would you lay down your life for a female friend?

03:45:38.300 Female, female girlfriend?

03:45:39.780 For my girlfriend.

03:45:40.980 For your girlfriend?

03:45:41.720 Yeah, because if she gets to that point, then I really, really care about her.

03:45:44.360 If she's my girlfriend, then I really, really care about her.

03:45:46.760 So, for me, it's instinctual.

03:45:48.200 I'm actually a very protective guy.

03:45:50.400 Yeah.

03:45:50.920 You'd take the bullet.

03:45:51.720 Good for you.

03:45:52.280 Yeah.

03:45:52.980 As a matter of fact, I might think I'm bulletproof.

03:45:55.480 So, you know, I might just be like, babe, get behind me.

03:45:57.680 I got this.

03:45:58.360 It, like, ricochets off of you.

03:45:59.580 Yeah.

03:46:00.240 You're a better man than me.

03:46:02.760 Question.

03:46:03.560 So.

03:46:04.080 Wait, you wouldn't?

03:46:05.060 Well, I'll get to that.

03:46:06.700 I'll get to that in just a sec.

03:46:08.540 Goddamn, I'm already fucking tipsy from the.

03:46:10.140 All right.

03:46:11.560 Guys, the only time I drink, only time I drink is when somebody does a champagne pop.

03:46:17.060 When was the last champagne pop?

03:46:18.320 Two months ago?

03:46:19.600 That was the last time I drank.

03:46:20.820 I never drink.

03:46:21.740 So, literally two sips, I'm already feeling.

03:46:24.340 Okay.

03:46:24.480 How early on would you want a guy to be, like, willing to take a bullet for you?

03:46:30.500 I feel like it may be a red flag if he does it too early on.

03:46:36.900 I would be like, oh, wow.

03:46:38.600 Let's say your boyfriend and girlfriend you've been dating for six months.

03:46:41.000 Uh-huh.

03:46:41.580 Should he take a bullet then?

03:46:43.280 Yeah.

03:46:44.000 Okay.

03:46:44.820 Oh, hold on.

03:46:46.340 Nickelodeon donated $200.

03:46:48.340 Yeah, thank you, man.

03:46:48.860 Why would he defend you?

03:46:50.740 He's just a man trying to assault you, and none of you trust men anyway.

03:46:54.680 Whoa, that's actually, like, a really interesting.

03:46:57.000 That's not true.

03:46:57.360 On one hand, women are terrified of men.

03:47:00.180 They'd prefer to be in a forest with a bear.

03:47:03.000 So different.

03:47:04.240 It's a guy you're dating.

03:47:05.200 But they also acknowledge that men are also typically the, when it, let's talk about the

03:47:11.800 heroism gap between men and women, men are also most likely to be the ones who do these

03:47:17.760 heroic deeds and save people.

03:47:20.640 So that's always interesting.

03:47:22.480 Can we, maybe I'm feeling it too, because now I'm curious what the actual, like, statistic

03:47:29.360 is on bear encounters, like how many deaths there are.

03:47:33.120 I am curious what that number is.

03:47:35.420 Thank you so much.

03:47:36.540 Well, let's go around the table on the how soon thing, but I'll look into that.

03:47:40.660 Go ahead.

03:47:41.060 I'll go with six months.

03:47:45.280 Six months?

03:47:46.160 Okay.

03:47:46.700 Oh, God, I don't know.

03:47:48.840 I've never thought about that.

03:47:52.460 At least a year?

03:47:56.680 Wait, I missed the first two questions.

03:47:58.020 So six months, no expectation for him to lay down his life?

03:48:01.980 No.

03:48:03.120 No.

03:48:04.600 How soon?

03:48:06.640 A year.

03:48:10.200 One year.

03:48:11.200 I literally missed so much.

03:48:12.940 So it's like, would I take a bullet for him?

03:48:14.820 Would you take a bullet for me?

03:48:15.700 And then how soon should he do that?

03:48:17.920 Yeah, she got it.

03:48:19.240 Okay.

03:48:20.580 I probably would take a bullet because, you know, I'm really dumb.

03:48:25.160 And then he probably should because he's a man and he's probably built that way.

03:48:28.460 That's why most infantry men are men.

03:48:32.500 And then, I mean, it should be instinctual for him.

03:48:36.000 But at the same time, like, why would a man risk losing his life and letting other people down to save someone who's just met?

03:48:43.740 So I don't know.

03:48:46.280 That's why I was like, oh.

03:48:47.440 So how soon into a relationship should a guy be willing to sacrifice his life for his girlfriend?

03:48:55.520 Time span, I'm not sure.

03:48:56.820 But when she's his, like...

03:48:58.800 Okay, here's the way to view this.

03:49:00.840 Here's the way to view this.

03:49:02.840 Your boyfriend and girlfriend with a guy you've only been dating for three months, though.

03:49:06.540 Would you want him in that instance?

03:49:09.600 Like, would you have an expectation of him to lay down his life for you?

03:49:14.060 No.

03:49:14.480 Your boyfriend and girlfriend.

03:49:15.440 He just met me probably, yeah, like a year into it.

03:49:18.620 Okay.

03:49:19.060 All right.

03:49:19.760 I think that when a guy says he loves me, like, if he's like, I love you.

03:49:24.120 And I'm like, really, would you take a bullet for me?

03:49:26.980 And he goes, ooh.

03:49:28.780 And then, no.

03:49:29.720 And then I'd be like, that's okay.

03:49:30.880 Like, I, you know, you don't have to.

03:49:33.280 I don't have no expectation.

03:49:34.520 But I wouldn't believe his love.

03:49:36.040 Like, I think that if...

03:49:38.620 It seems like it takes a guy a while to fall in love with me, apparently, according to my dating records.

03:49:42.680 But, yeah, maybe like a year or so.

03:49:46.180 Okay.

03:49:46.520 Yeah.

03:49:49.460 I don't know.

03:49:50.080 This is a complicated question.

03:49:51.260 Which I, in my head, I would say, like, immediately, like, whenever we're out and about.

03:49:56.740 First date?

03:49:57.320 But, yeah.

03:49:58.600 First date, he should die for you.

03:49:59.380 Like, to show that it's real.

03:50:01.280 Show that it's real.

03:50:01.860 So, for God, just to be clear, just to be clear.

03:50:03.920 So, you're currently still hung up on your ex.

03:50:06.560 Oh, my God.

03:50:08.940 I'm not hung up on my ex.

03:50:10.480 You want a guy who's going on a first date with you.

03:50:13.320 Let's say you go on a first date with a guy this Friday.

03:50:15.580 He doesn't have to take a bullet, literally.

03:50:17.080 You just hung out with your ex today.

03:50:21.260 You want that guy to take a bullet for you.

03:50:26.180 While on the date.

03:50:27.800 Hold on.

03:50:28.300 Just to be clear, also.

03:50:29.360 While on the date with this new guy, there's a 100% chance you're thinking about your ex.

03:50:36.260 No, that's not how it goes.

03:50:38.120 I guarantee you, if you're on a date, if you go on a date tomorrow, you're thinking about, you're caught up on your ex.

03:50:43.780 Get robbed at gunpoint for them on a date with you.

03:50:46.780 Like, hold up, bro.

03:50:47.660 Before you steal her money, let me call her ex real quick so he can come and intervene in this situation.

03:50:53.200 I'm out.

03:50:53.740 I don't know her.

03:50:54.420 I just met her.

03:50:55.060 I mean, like what she said, except different.

03:50:57.760 Like, if he were to tell me he loves me, at whatever point that is, then, like, yeah, you're going to take a bullet for me.

03:51:04.500 If that takes him three months to fall in love with me, or six months, or a year, whenever he claims.

03:51:10.580 Yeah.

03:51:11.080 What about you?

03:51:11.860 No.

03:51:12.400 Bro, if we are on a first date, and someone comes with a gun, and you hide behind me, or we're shot at, or whatever, and if I have to take the bullet for you.

03:51:21.940 It's a cringe.

03:51:23.340 And say we both survive.

03:51:24.660 I'm never going out with you ever again.

03:51:26.960 It's not happening.

03:51:27.660 I agree with that.

03:51:28.320 That's a good way to frame it.

03:51:29.800 Going around the table, would all your girls agree?

03:51:32.540 I agree.

03:51:33.060 That was a so day one.

03:51:34.300 Is that true?

03:51:34.600 Neither of you die, but it's just, like, you as the girl took the bullet.

03:51:37.880 Yeah, if you shrieked like the girl and shot, like, ran behind me.

03:51:40.880 Or pushed me in front of the guy.

03:51:42.400 Oh, yeah.

03:51:43.000 Let me just add, I've actually been in this situation before.

03:51:48.340 Yeah, I've been in this situation before with my first love.

03:51:52.420 I was in Atlanta.

03:51:54.100 We were coming out of the grocery store, and a guy said something to her.

03:51:58.360 He was basically trying to talk to her in front of me, and then he winked at me.

03:52:03.420 Things got escalated, and he pulled out a gun.

03:52:06.920 Yeah, but I was prepared.

03:52:08.360 I said, you're going to shoot me?

03:52:09.540 Like, you're going to shoot me?

03:52:11.220 It's whatever.

03:52:11.900 But my girl, I told her to get in the car, be cool.

03:52:14.160 Her sister actually came, though.

03:52:15.380 Her sister actually came and got in front of him and was like, no, we're not doing this here.

03:52:19.360 And then we had some other guys who wanted to check on us, just random guys we didn't know.

03:52:22.960 He was like, y'all good, y'all good.

03:52:24.180 He had a gun as well.

03:52:25.080 So I didn't have my gun at the time.

03:52:27.040 I couldn't carry in the state of Georgia.

03:52:28.860 So, yeah, but I've actually been in that situation.

03:52:31.560 And, I mean, I wasn't overwhelmed with fear.

03:52:34.580 I just wanted to make sure that my girlfriend was straight.

03:52:36.580 You know what I mean?

03:52:37.180 And that's really attractive.

03:52:38.420 Did you say it was like a first date?

03:52:39.960 No, no, no.

03:52:40.460 No, she was my first love.

03:52:41.940 We had been in a relationship for two years.

03:52:45.560 So, yeah.

03:52:46.260 And your instinct was to send her to safety.

03:52:48.480 And who stood there.

03:52:50.120 Yeah.

03:52:50.960 Okay.

03:52:52.300 So, here's where the whole panel turns against me.

03:52:59.640 Yeah, I don't think, actually, at any point ever in the relationship, you take the bullet for your woman ever.

03:53:07.180 Wow.

03:53:08.220 Ever.

03:53:08.880 You have kids.

03:53:09.680 You never take the bullet for her.

03:53:12.060 So, what do you do?

03:53:14.240 Do you push her in front?

03:53:15.460 We don't, I don't, I haven't really fully developed the precise circumstances of the hypothetical.

03:53:26.260 But just in a hypothetical where one of you has to die, I don't know if it's a, you know, it could be a violent other person.

03:53:33.120 It could be a train.

03:53:34.120 It could be an environmental disaster, zombies.

03:53:36.460 I don't know.

03:53:36.960 I don't know what it is.

03:53:39.100 I always think, you know, it's better if the guys, you survive.

03:53:43.180 What is wrong with you?

03:53:46.720 I guess, Ty.

03:53:47.800 I heard it as you would push your kids in front of the guy with them.

03:53:50.780 I was like, wait a minute.

03:53:51.980 Not a protector, ladies and gentlemen.

03:53:54.200 Well, I don't think you've been in love yet.

03:53:56.840 No, I've been, I've been in love.

03:53:58.720 And even when you were in love, you didn't feel like taking a bullet for a girl?

03:54:02.080 Oh, I mean, I'd obviously be protective of a girl.

03:54:04.980 But again, this is such a hypothetical specific scenario in some scenario where I have time to perhaps do the calculus of, okay, well, if I attempt to intervene, I'm going to die.

03:54:18.260 She survives.

03:54:21.080 Yeah, she could die.

03:54:22.440 So you value your life.

03:54:23.280 That's crazy.

03:54:24.500 Fuck yeah.

03:54:25.360 It's a level of you're valuing your life more than hers.

03:54:29.740 And then you have a level of selfishness.

03:54:32.160 The only, the only people I could potentially see myself sacrificing my life for, uh, would be my children.

03:54:39.300 And, um, I'm pretty confident.

03:54:41.440 Like I probably like do some crazy shit.

03:54:44.460 If like anything was going down with my parents, like a, like a, I don't know, a violent scenario or something.

03:54:50.580 I would, I would protect my parents.

03:54:52.100 So wife, why the difference, huh?

03:54:54.620 Why the difference?

03:54:55.740 Yeah.

03:54:56.280 Would you tell your girlfriend that?

03:54:57.040 I could get another wife.

03:54:58.340 Can't get, you know, huh?

03:54:59.920 Would you tell your girlfriend that?

03:55:01.300 Like if you had a girlfriend right now, she's, would you tell her like, I'm not, I'm not, I would not take a bullet for you.

03:55:09.280 Would she do it for, would she do it for me?

03:55:11.460 No.

03:55:11.960 Would you tell her to her face that she's, you're not taking a bullet for her?

03:55:15.780 I'll tell her, I'll tell her right to her face.

03:55:17.860 Just.

03:55:18.580 That's crazy.

03:55:19.520 Why is that crazy?

03:55:20.360 It's just not masculine.

03:55:22.780 How is it not masculine?

03:55:24.180 It's like the least masculine thing.

03:55:25.820 Yeah.

03:55:26.200 You're not being a protector.

03:55:27.680 You're not being like a gladiator.

03:55:29.360 Women don't get to determine what is masculine.

03:55:31.600 That's fine.

03:55:32.100 But we get to determine what's an ick and that's an ick.

03:55:34.640 I wonder if he, you're the type that would be possessed, like in a sense.

03:55:37.920 Let me ask you a question.

03:55:38.600 I feel like you would take a bullet, Brian.

03:55:40.460 Like you don't think you would do it now, but then all of a sudden it would happen.

03:55:43.480 You're like, fuck this shit.

03:55:44.420 And then you'd go and like do it.

03:55:45.800 And it's like, whoa, like, you know, I could just, yeah, you've never been in that situation.

03:55:50.800 So you don't know.

03:55:51.740 That's so crazy of you.

03:55:53.260 What if she's pregnant?

03:55:53.960 I could just get another wife.

03:55:54.900 But that's not how you would feel with the right woman.

03:55:56.780 That's so selfish.

03:55:57.380 I feel like it's another man trying to take a bullet.

03:55:59.200 If she died, I would be, I would be distraught.

03:56:01.960 It's not like I'm a heartless guy.

03:56:03.900 She asked you my question.

03:56:05.020 She said, what if, uh, what if she's pregnant?

03:56:06.740 What if she's pregnant?

03:56:08.520 Oh.

03:56:09.180 I asked him that.

03:56:10.200 I asked him that Sunday.

03:56:11.580 I said, what if she's pregnant?

03:56:13.300 She ran her.

03:56:14.300 With your child.

03:56:16.000 That's two deaths.

03:56:17.120 I'll tell you what.

03:56:17.720 That's a terrible scenario.

03:56:19.160 He wouldn't do it because it doesn't matter.

03:56:21.200 Because he, it doesn't matter.

03:56:22.380 Because he can get another girl pregnant, right?

03:56:24.340 Yes, I could get.

03:56:25.880 Monster.

03:56:28.480 Monster.

03:56:28.880 How's that, how, I failed to see how that's monstrous.

03:56:34.880 What do you mean?

03:56:36.960 Like, men are the ones on the front lines.

03:56:39.280 That's in your DNA.

03:56:40.480 Hold on, hold on.

03:56:41.480 But, okay, so, let me ask you all a question.

03:56:43.400 It's in your DNA.

03:56:44.300 Let me ask you a question.

03:56:45.360 Let's talk about the trolley dilemma.

03:56:47.340 So, are you guys familiar with the trolley problem, trolley dilemma?

03:56:51.080 Okay, there's a train track.

03:56:52.640 It diverges.

03:56:54.040 There's a lever.

03:56:55.060 If you pull the lever, you'll diverge it to the other train track.

03:56:57.820 Would you, so you have, there's five people who are tied on the train track.

03:57:03.600 You do nothing, the train just proceeds and kills the five people.

03:57:07.240 On the other track, if you pull the lever, it'll divert it, and it will, it'll, it'll kill your, your brother.

03:57:17.380 Which one do you pick?

03:57:18.520 Do you pull the lever?

03:57:19.860 That's horrible.

03:57:21.160 You pull the lever?

03:57:21.940 I wouldn't answer.

03:57:22.820 You have to answer.

03:57:23.760 Yeah, you have to.

03:57:24.360 It's a real psychological experiment.

03:57:25.720 I would definitely save my brother.

03:57:27.820 Yeah, my brother.

03:57:28.340 So, you'd kill five people.

03:57:29.760 Yep.

03:57:30.280 You're a monster then.

03:57:31.360 So.

03:57:31.600 I'm not a monster.

03:57:32.500 You're a monster either way.

03:57:34.020 I have a thought.

03:57:34.740 You're a monster either way.

03:57:35.720 Okay, so let's just put it.

03:57:37.080 But if you died, you're a pretty girlfriend.

03:57:38.200 So, here's the trolley dilemma.

03:57:38.740 I'm on the train track.

03:57:40.160 There's a lever next to me.

03:57:41.700 I can put, I can do nothing, and then the train just runs me over.

03:57:45.040 Or on the train track is my pregnant girlfriend.

03:57:47.100 I would run myself over.

03:57:48.440 Yeah, sorry.

03:57:48.940 I'm pulling the fucking lever.

03:57:50.340 Okay.

03:57:50.880 No, I'm sorry.

03:57:52.100 So, what would you actually do?

03:57:54.140 I need to know.

03:57:55.760 What would you actually do?

03:57:56.860 Call me a fucking monster.

03:57:57.580 Would you just run?

03:57:58.500 Yes.

03:57:59.060 I would preserve my life.

03:58:01.260 So, what if you're, Lisa?

03:58:02.520 You think you can run away from a bullet?

03:58:03.720 At least I'm honest about it.

03:58:05.200 Everybody, most people when asked this question are going to virtue signal.

03:58:09.140 No, of course.

03:58:10.180 I would, bro.

03:58:11.300 I would genuinely not pull any lever and just let it hit me.

03:58:15.160 But not making a choice is making a choice.

03:58:17.220 I think if, like, a boyfriend or a husband was to choose me over the kids, if he chose me,

03:58:21.120 I'd be like, you selfish son of a bitch.

03:58:23.020 And I wouldn't even, like, date him because I'd be like, you should have chosen the kids.

03:58:26.420 I should have fallen off the cliff.

03:58:27.800 It's like the question.

03:58:28.380 I can see that because a mother should want her kids to survive.

03:58:31.980 Does she be on your Bumble profile?

03:58:33.260 Yeah.

03:58:34.000 We will not take bullet for you.

03:58:36.280 Look, here's the reality, right?

03:58:38.000 We should have to be forced to make that decision.

03:58:39.040 We're talking about chivalry, right?

03:58:40.160 We're talking about chivalry, right?

03:58:42.140 A man, that's the ultimate form of chivalry, the ultimate form of masculinity, the ultimate

03:58:47.460 form of being a traditional man, all that shit, right?

03:58:52.700 Are you, are modern women deserving of the ultimate chivalry, the ultimate sacrifice on

03:59:00.500 a man's part, laying down his life?

03:59:02.760 Y'all are modern women and you want a man to fucking die for you, but you complain about

03:59:07.420 cooking for him, doing the laundry, doing all this shit?

03:59:10.580 I love doing all that.

03:59:11.360 Get the, bro, you want a man to lay down his life for you and all y'all are, I'm, I'm not

03:59:16.920 you guys.

03:59:17.420 stop stop stop go off king hold up hold up he's traumatized no no no i'm not traumatized

03:59:28.840 no one broke his heart check this shit out i'm not i'm not saying you guys in general i'm saying

03:59:33.720 i would argue the vast majority of women are not these okay look chivalry right that's you you're

03:59:41.140 a you're a gentleman are ladies the ones who are entitled to gentlemanly treatment

03:59:48.260 wait brian but that's why no no answer the question who's entitled to chivalry and gentlemanly

03:59:54.840 treatment ladies correct are women are modern women with their only fans and their promiscuity

04:00:01.700 and their lack of modesty and their sex work and their 10 20 30 40 50 plus body counts deserving

04:00:08.580 of a man to lay down his life that depends on how he feels about it that depends on his heart

04:00:14.560 other than their mom these women seem to really trust the bear ask the damn bear to take a bullet

04:00:21.280 yes dude stochastic decay all i'll know if i'll remember everyone's answers these girls would

04:00:28.060 rather be in a forest with a bear than with a man we're not talking about a random man but you want

04:00:34.080 a man to lay down his life for you but you guys have those of you who said the bear you guys have

04:00:38.540 dog shit views you guys have a terrible view you guys have terrible views on wait a minute hold on

04:00:44.320 terrible fucking views

04:00:45.160 you guys have contempt for men you guys have contempt for men let me talk you guys

04:00:51.100 you guys hate men you guys are misandrist you guys these modern women hold on let me talk you guys

04:00:59.860 are these modern women are misandrist they'd rather be with a bear in a forest than a man but they want

04:01:05.580 their boyfriend to lay down their lives for them that's some crazy shit you didn't say a bear

04:01:10.880 that's why you need to find a girl that this girl right here this girl right here hold on hold on

04:01:18.220 you wouldn't be dating a woman like that anyway i would go on a first i go on a first date with

04:01:23.800 this girl she just fucked her boy her ex-boyfriend last night she wants me to take a bullet she

04:01:29.960 fucked another guy you insane she fucked another guy the night before you want me to take a

04:01:36.080 fucking bullet absolutely not no no no no no absolutely not in that scenario first date with

04:01:45.000 the guy they fucked a guy the night before they want a guy to take a bullet let it out let it out

04:01:50.620 let it out king let it out king are you out your fucking box he ain't doing that shit nobody said

04:01:57.900 that oh my god two six more champagne no more champagne for you you're generalizing oh my god bro

04:02:09.180 first of all you wouldn't even be dating a woman like that so what are you talking about that's not

04:02:14.680 your type yeah fucking oh my god get him some water i'm gonna pass out calm down

04:02:23.240 i had three subs champagne boys

04:02:27.240 wait but you're you're kind of generalizing women to be like all women are doing only fans all women

04:02:35.620 are like degrading themselves that's not true that's why you should date a woman that has

04:02:39.900 shares the same values as you that way you would want to take a bullet

04:02:43.020 yeah oh bro cute pill i know you have something to say to him come on bro let me just triple down

04:02:50.300 come on she could be a virgin never had a first kiss i am securing my dynasty son my lineage okay

04:02:58.880 great she's a virgin i love that that's fantastic i'll just find another one

04:03:04.760 i'm in the chat i'm in the chat i'm in the chat i'm a guy in the chat brian such a beta male of course

04:03:18.400 i would take a bullet for a girl who i've been dating for three months go ahead dude why are you

04:03:22.500 doing that robot i'm just gonna i don't know bro i'm fucking drunk

04:03:26.320 three sips y'all

04:03:30.660 three sips call me a beta male i think it i think it would be showing his true colors i'm not an alpha

04:03:37.840 i'm calling myself an alpha male it would be the most fucking gangster alpha male sigma male shit

04:03:42.780 sigma grind set please do not call your unprotectiveness alpha sigma grind set

04:03:47.580 yeah man no man i'm a no she can no man take the bullet she can take the bullet i'm gonna find

04:03:55.240 another girl i'm gonna have seven sons i am gonna have seven sons and they will conquer what's that

04:04:02.400 freaking you know on the tomb of your ex-girlfriend what's that what's that bible verse uh children in

04:04:08.260 a man's youth are like arrows in the quiver of a oh my god i totally fucking butchered this of a

04:04:14.680 warrior bows and yeah okay yeah so anyway seven sons bro oh oh i'm so i'm so masculine let me just

04:04:23.320 end my life for this chick your girlfriend your mother of your children she's a random mother of

04:04:32.820 your children the chick yeah because oh let me double down let me double down yeah

04:04:38.280 i have three i she gave me three kids i love her so much and you just ran away like a little baby

04:04:49.860 and you're tough people think negatively about me oh no people think poorly we are very sorry

04:05:00.580 you don't have like something like hey why like you should try to save both of your lives i think if i

04:05:08.280 have kids hold on let me say this i think if i have kids i can make a better argument for me

04:05:14.580 surviving oh my god i'm more i'm more capable of protecting them i think it's not about the

04:05:20.740 why you can't protect her through your unprotected it's about the fact that if she were to die you

04:05:25.700 love her so much you cannot see your life without her and your life will be nothing that is everything

04:05:31.480 why how are you gonna protect your kids you couldn't even protect your girl

04:05:34.720 oh i could never love again oh it's called dying with honor i don't get out here with that disney

04:05:43.640 shit i'm fucking i'll i'll grieve there will be a grieving period i hope so it'll be a fortnight

04:05:49.480 i got things to do i'll find a new wife hold on i'm gonna grieve a fortnight 14 days

04:05:57.260 oh my god scheduled back on tinder scheduled no you're a monster i really think you just haven't

04:06:04.900 made such a deep i'm joking about that but what no you're being a little facetious i don't think

04:06:08.580 you've made a deep connection enough where you oh i've made some d

04:06:11.500 balls deeply highly doubt that highly balls deep what's up

04:06:18.400 that's not saying much though because i'm like average down there so

04:06:22.980 what if you like weren't there to save her in a sense where it happened to her but you

04:06:27.620 weren't keep talking brian like would that bother you like the rest of your life like oh my goodness

04:06:32.760 like i just wasn't that if i was there this wouldn't have happened because i know a guy that

04:06:37.780 that happened to you and that's all he says these days but yeah that's how i think about it yeah i

04:06:43.140 would think about it as a man aren't you biologically like made to like with withstand more

04:06:49.640 than a bullet yeah like aren't you strong aren't you stronger i am obviously we're speaking in

04:06:55.380 hypothetical bullets rip through flesh don't matter if you got a pussy or dick that shit going through

04:07:01.020 you it's going through it going through but there's just so much more respect if you

04:07:05.780 i don't think he cares about respect it would be his choice at the end he's going on tinder in a

04:07:12.940 fortnight i mean exactly you guys have like no preservation oh yeah i'm gonna you know go out

04:07:19.360 in a blaze of glory respect bro okay i'm not laying down my life for respect why maybe it was respect

04:07:27.800 for like a hundred years beyond like i was in a history book or something here's the okay look

04:07:31.260 here's an argument here's an argument i've heard right okay sure i could die but think of all the

04:07:37.040 other great deeds i could go on and do if i go on and live another 50 years what can i do for for my

04:07:43.300 kids if i have them what could i do for a future partner who knows sounds like you won't do those

04:07:47.960 either because you're only thinking about yourself yeah it sounds like you what if i'm a firefighter

04:07:51.460 firefighter and i would have saved i would have gone on to save a hundred other people had i not died

04:07:56.680 and that's you valuing your own life more than your partner and that's just i love this conversation

04:08:01.780 because there's no girl who's gonna agree with me on this shit i found the fucking magic

04:08:06.140 the guy that's i have found the magic bullet for the whatever podcast i can argue with anybody on

04:08:11.220 this shit doesn't matter doesn't matter if they're conservative or liberal or moderate your argument

04:08:15.940 is that you don't care feminist traditional uh all the what your argument is that you don't care

04:08:21.040 yeah like you have anything you care about enough it's not like i'm a monster i obviously care deeply

04:08:28.180 if i'm dating you would fortnight and then be on tinder the next week i was being that was a joke

04:08:34.260 i'm fucking tipsy three sips three sips brian what what's that nick what's going on what's going

04:08:43.660 on back there nick wait what's going on back there nick oh i saw a bit of an eye roll so

04:08:53.340 was there was there attitude with that nick you can talk to me just talk to me frankly oh uh what

04:09:02.740 what was the feeling on on on that i mean she just didn't want to be here for another two hours

04:09:07.180 i didn't say that what did you say why don't you how long does this usually go on for and he said

04:09:16.180 probably another two hours and i went she is the only one who hasn't had a drink and i just went off

04:09:20.520 to just like have a minute uh-huh so sometimes it's not it's just fun if you're not drinking and

04:09:26.220 other people are drinking so you're asking a question you're okay um i feel you i didn't drink

04:09:34.000 for a while either yeah okay now i'm done but i i know what you mean let's just keep having fun

04:09:41.620 yeah yeah we were having fun moving on having a good time ryan would shove us in front of a bullet

04:09:48.740 yeah yeah check this out trolley dilemma trolley dilemma i'm on a train track and it's all of you

04:09:56.320 on the other track that's crazy yeah i would i'm gonna pull i'm pulling the light that's not helping

04:10:02.280 here she's ready to go and you're like yeah i'm gonna put y'all on the tracks this is funny bro how

04:10:08.600 you guys you guys can't be upset with this shit i'm chilling no i'm good i think you've never been

04:10:13.120 in love i'd let the train i know it was more entertaining than anything were you let me ask

04:10:17.160 you hold on let me ask y'all a question right so i just said trolley dilemma i'm on the track and

04:10:21.660 then it's all of you on the other track if i pull the lever it means all y'all got to go for one i get

04:10:27.260 to survive would if if just replace you know the situation i'm betting that most of you would save

04:10:36.240 yourself who are you i want another body all of you all of you would save yourself if it was all

04:10:41.800 of us on the panel that you had to sacrifice right not me i'm from the military hold on hold on answer

04:10:47.580 the question go ahead who are who are you to me and what is the the number it's all of us on the panel

04:10:53.440 so you save yourself or everybody on the panel has to die which do you pick i think into the mic

04:11:00.100 tilt it okay i would i would have to choose everybody else because they would have a greater

04:11:05.960 impact on the world and then i know that it would if you want to get into a morality standpoint i do

04:11:11.100 believe that there is some kind of repercussions for a selfish act like that so bad karma call it

04:11:19.040 what you want yeah i'm gonna agree you'd sacrifice yourself for the greater good yeah for well these

04:11:24.900 total strangers okay i'm saving myself i'm sorry i appreciate your honesty thank you into the mic

04:11:31.820 i'm doing the same i would do everybody else and then i would die a hero everybody oh i would i would

04:11:39.420 um keep everybody else and then delete me and then and then i would be a hero and i'd be remembered

04:11:45.120 you certainly would be okay yeah i would sacrifice myself

04:11:48.540 wow total strangers what about you yeah um but also i believe in eternal life so i don't think

04:11:57.380 that you know i just can probably be over yeah would get me i kind of think there's some virtue

04:12:04.480 signaling going on i think secretly most people would preserve themselves they don't want to admit

04:12:09.260 it but i do think that there's people who aren't you can disagree with me but you can't fault me for

04:12:15.740 being honest we do have a chat here from lpe brian i should i said doll hairs lol and specifically

04:12:21.860 asked for id not the fake passport bro l for gerald b supporting cappers shout out to josie who's really

04:12:28.520 28 and not like that capping chair too who's josie josie josie who's josie and the pussycat

04:12:36.100 josie ann like the oh okay where do you even get a big pass Josie's also capping

04:12:40.780 oh yeah we'll turn to that okay we have ben george uh do you want to read it um women expect

04:12:50.080 a man to take a bullet for them women can't admit they want a man to take a bullet for them because

04:12:54.740 other women will demonize them we're gonna get you a kindle deal your voice is so soothing

04:13:01.560 yep uh thank you ben george for that chat man definitely appreciate it um

04:13:07.980 for shizzle for shizzle my nizzle not quite yet i want to linger here a little longer um

04:13:17.280 so is it the ultimate form of chivalry for a man to sacrifice his life for a woman

04:13:25.380 yes no yeah if the woman didn't want that done like example like for the kids like hey like

04:13:33.640 if i die i want you to take you know do the kids then i would say no that wouldn't be the ultimate

04:13:39.940 for me it would be yeah what would be a greater sacrifice than giving your life for somebody

04:13:44.900 then to listen to their will and be like hey well get rid of me and you can take the kids because i

04:13:49.960 know that i'm not going to make it that long so i think that would be greater because you're

04:13:53.120 listening to them yeah okay i think it's the i mean self-sacrifice is the ultimate thing like

04:14:01.080 i i don't want to get too far off but i one of my favorite movies is this is the end and at the end

04:14:06.660 they realize what they have to do in order to be saved because how the world is going to hell and

04:14:11.780 what they all they have to do is essentially sacrifice themselves and then they get sucked

04:14:15.820 up into heaven where the backstreet boys are so that's if you've never seen it you don't get it but

04:14:22.300 i'm sure plenty of people in chat have but the in in in literally like classic everybody knows that

04:14:28.340 that is the ultimate form of like that is the most noble thing you can do is self-sacrifice

04:14:33.460 so i think it is the greatest most chivalrous thing that's why you know but don't you think

04:14:39.480 that chivalry is dead no perfect example

04:14:43.600 i mean look it occurs to me that women have this expectation that men lay down their lives for them

04:14:55.120 that you've only been dating for a year no we said one day oh okay fine even worse i guess

04:15:01.640 yeah you two what said same day yeah so that is chivalrous treatment that's traditional treatment

04:15:10.880 that's masculine treatment that's men adhering to their traditional gender roles the ultimate

04:15:16.580 manifestation of a man's traditional gender role would be the ultimate manifestation of protection

04:15:23.020 would be to lay down your life for somebody else the ultimate manifestation

04:15:28.580 of i would argue a woman's traditional gender roles would be sexual purity remaining a virgin

04:15:35.400 most women aren't remaining virgins that i think that's a trade-off that should be the trade-off

04:15:44.120 one motorsports donate two hundred dollars brian the bloodline must absolutely until a man has

04:15:50.980 strong sons he must ensure his survival at all costs sorry ladies chivalry works against you here

04:15:58.460 like let me let me make this argument for people who think it's not masculine or not beta here's the

04:16:04.220 framing right let's say you've never had children and you're an only son you're the last of your

04:16:09.500 bloodline right what would be the most masculine if you want to use the term alpha would it be dying

04:16:17.400 for a woman who's going to go ahead and you don't have children remember you're the last of your

04:16:21.980 bloodline she's going to go procreate with another man she's going to forget you within three years

04:16:26.180 whatever however long or would it be more masculine and more alpha to secure your bloodline and go on and

04:16:34.520 survive and have the other person take the bullet that way you can go on and have seven sons

04:16:39.340 what is better for your bloodline answer the question it seems like your priorities aren't

04:16:44.660 straight i think anyone why should i why should i uh why should i pedestalize the woman's bloodline

04:16:52.600 over mine because you love them in this hypothetical situation but it's all about what you value and if

04:16:58.640 you value your bloodline over the love of the love of your life then that's that that we know where

04:17:05.320 your values stand uh okay yeah okay let me let me let me add let's let's change the frame let's change

04:17:15.120 it no i don't i don't want to i don't want to necessarily talk about what brian said i just want

04:17:18.500 to change i want to change the frame ladies and i don't wish this on anyone but this is just hypothetical

04:17:25.540 if you're pregnant and it save you or the baby baby baby baby baby baby baby if they save me i'd be

04:17:33.540 like you're selfish but they can always make more babies with you but that's my baby yeah but that's

04:17:41.480 pretty sacrificial on the women's behalf yeah if i sacrifice they can too right yeah yeah we would do

04:17:47.820 it in a heartbeat what do you what do you what do you say to that brian the like yeah if if women if

04:17:55.280 women yeah they're pregnant and it's like there's a save them yeah and it's save them or the baby

04:18:00.240 they all say save brian's definitely saving the baby what do i think of their answers yeah what do

04:18:06.460 you think of their answers well it's a bit different when it's your kid um oh my god that doesn't

04:18:10.640 inspire you it doesn't inspire you it doesn't inspire you oh yeah i said i said okay i would

04:18:16.280 be more inclined to risk my life for my child okay yeah okay but i'm saying like women have a

04:18:21.380 sacrificial love as well yeah but like let's also be realistic here uh who here is pro choice

04:18:30.700 going around the table i'm pro choice interesting you're pro choice pro life i'm undecided that's

04:18:41.240 helpful but i'm pro choice but i have one amendment to it but i if if they want to get into it i can

04:18:47.000 say the amendment in the case of an essay um well so so i think that i'm pro choice but why don't we

04:18:55.760 don't need to get into it okay yeah i would just say pro choice there's a little details i'm pro life

04:19:00.180 pro life okay well it seems to me that i don't know what the breakdown is on women who are pro

04:19:08.100 choice versus pro life a lot of women aren't protecting their kids sorry ladies it would be

04:19:16.420 my choice though to protect that one can i ask the question about the bloodline thing yeah so let's so

04:19:28.860 let's say that you have five brothers your bloodline is going to continue through either brothers or you

04:19:34.440 and let's say that the woman that you're with she's an only child and she doesn't have any siblings

04:19:39.800 would you rather save your bloodline which most likely is going to continue anyway or save hers

04:19:46.140 i'm still saving my life okay it's not about the bloodline no it's a component you do realize that

04:19:53.760 you do realize when you're making an argument there can be multiple reasons for why you want

04:19:58.640 something okay what are the other ones so uh i living's cool i'd like to live i'd like to continue

04:20:04.220 living um the bloodline thing death sucks there's probably going to be pain involved um

04:20:11.260 weak yeah why is that weak because it's because there's no nobility in that and honor i don't want

04:20:19.720 die she can die bro there's no nobility in honor y'all are yeah where did the ladies go hold on y'all

04:20:28.740 want gentlemen where did the ladies go where did the ladies go answer the question wait let me ask

04:20:34.100 you this do you not think it's honorable for like men who have sacrificed their lives for our country

04:20:38.400 what men talking about sacrificed their life for our country is that honorable yes or no it's a very

04:20:45.200 simple question yes okay yes that's heroic and it's sacrifice isn't it yes it's a sacrifice that

04:20:53.140 doesn't mean that i i necessarily want to for to be honorable no well hold on if being honorable means

04:21:03.040 i need to lay down my life for a woman that i'm on a first date with just as you said there's multiple

04:21:07.860 definitions that's one form of honor but you said you wouldn't do it even if you were like in love with

04:21:13.580 or pregnant yeah but okay i'm failing to see this like soldier component but there's certainly honor

04:21:21.360 in dying for someone yes greater good i don't i don't disagree that it would be like this honorable

04:21:28.040 thing to do that it would be heroic but you're just saying like it would be no no hold on just to be

04:21:35.020 clear something can be heroic and i could also desire to not do the heroic thing yes okay that's fair

04:21:43.100 if it puts my life at risk then yes okay again people can say feel how they want to feel of course

04:21:51.580 you as women are going to feel a certain type of way about that because you have this very gendered

04:21:56.580 expectation for men to sacrifice their lives because frankly you view men as disposable men not just by

04:22:04.420 women but by society at large are viewed as the disposable sex that's why we send men to war so they die

04:22:11.340 these poor 18 year old boys go to some look perhaps there are some wars that were um for righteous

04:22:18.420 causes most wars fucking monarchs are are butthurt over some fucking princess or some bullshit fucking

04:22:25.580 vietnam no fucking reason iraq no fucking reason afghanistan no fucking reason we got hundreds of

04:22:32.460 thousands of thousands of men ptsd fucking maimed dead injuries all this shit for what for the military

04:22:40.600 industrial complex so that rich people can get richer is that heroic maybe it's heroic on the micro level

04:22:48.960 on the macro level why the fuck are we in vietnam

04:22:52.280 well they they do you think the we we were america was under threat by the vietnamese

04:23:02.000 were they protecting their country was america who had just

04:23:06.560 back-to-back world war champs we were scared of vietnam which gender sent them to war were they

04:23:14.140 sacrificing were were they protecting their country they made a sacrifice they're heroic they got most of

04:23:19.560 these guys got fucking drafted in vietnam cannon fodder

04:23:23.320 i feel like if if the person didn't want family are you considered the man in the house

04:23:29.560 and just to be clear i have absolute these these men who died in these fucking

04:23:33.700 yo slayer thank you for the 20 gifted subs i absolutely have compassion these men who were

04:23:39.080 sent to these meaningless wars it's fucking terrible definitely i think if someone died i put the blame on

04:23:44.380 these fucking uh these these uh people that that stand that stood to make money from these wars

04:23:50.160 that's why we were in these conflicts i want to get back haliburton all that bullshit so i want to

04:23:55.620 just get back to like what you were saying about like women put this like gender thing on men that

04:24:00.520 they have to like sacrifice their love but like here's the thing though like even though we have

04:24:06.140 certain qualities about men and women that are different we kind of just have to take the good with the

04:24:12.400 bad like women we have to bear children we have to go through that pain right men if you have a

04:24:18.400 family you have a wife you have kids you're considered the man of the house somebody breaks into your

04:24:22.440 house you're going to be the one to protect your family right yeah okay i'll dispatch them with a

04:24:29.260 firearm but we're talking about hypothetical scenarios here i understand that's hypothetical but like i'm

04:24:36.140 saying like wouldn't you take that role as a man let me ask you a question so if men i would think

04:24:41.260 i think the ultimate sacrifice the ultimate thing you can ask of a man is to sacrifice his life

04:24:46.580 for for his girlfriend wife whatever why don't we have a corresponding demand and expectation for

04:24:56.720 women to be virgins what's going on there do you object i don't think that you object to that being

04:25:01.240 the standard because i'll tell you this much it's way easier to just be a virgin than it is to die

04:25:09.540 which do you think is like the bigger ask to remain a virgin or to die which one correlation

04:25:15.320 which is the bigger ask to be a virgin or to die we're asking you to take the risk of dying no no

04:25:20.900 answer the question what is a bigger ask for a woman to remain a virgin or for a man to lay down

04:25:26.580 his life and die answer the question

04:25:28.060 i would say the bigger ask is for the man to lay down his life do you guys agree i agree i think

04:25:36.680 that though like example let's say if a guy took a bullet for me in somewhere and on his dying breath

04:25:42.480 he's like dang i really didn't want to do that but i just thought that society told me i would think

04:25:47.340 about that for the rest of my life and be like damn he really shouldn't have you know he really shouldn't

04:25:51.180 right like you know because he didn't want to do it he was pressured into it by society so i would

04:25:55.840 want to if he did nobody's saying you have to want to do it if he did free out of free will okay but

04:26:01.280 if he didn't then i wouldn't want it but you're talking about virtue you're saying there's no

04:26:05.540 virtuous women who are worth dying for but we gave you the hypothetical say that the woman you're with

04:26:11.220 was virtuous right and you still said no right oh and just to throw that out there my girlfriend that i

04:26:18.980 almost uh took a bullet for she was a virgin i took her virgin oh wow good for you good for you

04:26:26.640 oh my god congrats congrats uh you look i'm not look again just to be clear there are plenty of

04:26:33.800 virtuous women out there even women who aren't virgins that's not what i'm arguing i'm just saying

04:26:38.320 that uh i think ann rand wrote a book called the virtue of selfishness and uh yeah

04:26:47.260 what did it say that's that being selfish that being selfish is a virtue self-preservation

04:26:59.300 no being selfish is a virtue the virtue of preserving yeah so i mean

04:27:05.460 he ain't dying but not in the case i mean it is what it is

04:27:11.720 it's true that women have the privilege in society because they have a finite number of eggs

04:27:19.660 and a finite number of years that they can get pregnant and have kids men can just go

04:27:25.700 you know sleep around get as many women pregnant as they want and there's a long you know gestational

04:27:30.980 period and then also because women are the weaker gender men have to protect them so because they are

04:27:37.860 both desired and weaker compared to men they need to be protected by society so yeah there's a big

04:27:44.120 you know social safety net and women are cherished and everything but that doesn't mean that

04:27:51.080 you should just like i don't know hate on them or something i get that women should be

04:27:59.160 wait is it hating on women to not want to die for a woman

04:28:01.920 well you're saying oh they're all just like hitting on our opinion of of why men should do that i mean

04:28:11.500 you have you have a different viewpoint that's fine yeah you bring up like the worst case

04:28:16.900 do i scenario what's the worst case scenario to brian yes women have special privileges yes brian

04:28:24.980 women have greater privileges than men and it sucks for men that's literally what i said sucks

04:28:31.620 fucking your defense like you know what do you mean i have there is like there is the tendency

04:28:37.200 in our culture today to hate on men and to talk trash about men and women could recognize that we have

04:28:44.800 these privileges we are cherished by society and we should be grateful and we should stop ragging on men

04:28:49.920 and i do wonder if a lot of what you're feeling is actually just a reaction to that sentiment of you

04:28:57.640 know men bashing and everything if it you actually mean it or if it's just like you know you're kind

04:29:04.040 of sick of and also you're saying it in today's society who knows what your opinion would be

04:29:08.680 you know if you were not in today's society like back in the day yeah sure yeah it could absolutely be

04:29:16.940 the case that that could be skewing your opinion in one direction oh i'd be but the yeah the answer

04:29:25.060 isn't to like stop being chivalrous and taking on the masculine role of the protector it's you know

04:29:31.700 maybe i don't know what you can do but i do agree that we should stop shitting on men and women should

04:29:38.280 be more grateful for men and the role that they play i agree uh well

04:29:43.920 anyways i still think uh yeah you have your you're not gonna convince me that's fine i don't i think

04:29:54.560 we're done trying to convince you i will never hear you when you're on a train you're fine you guys are

04:30:00.080 do you guys feel a little defeated no no because of no because literally nobody agrees with you so

04:30:08.280 that's fine that's your literally nobody you're you're like it's all based off feeling for you

04:30:14.360 yeah wait based off of feeling yeah it's like your preference what do you mean like that's what

04:30:20.180 you're gonna that's your that's your argument yeah my argument okay it's wrong but you know how's

04:30:26.780 how's it wrong for a man to not want to die for a woman explain it to me give me give me it's not

04:30:33.800 wrong it's weak it's morally unacceptable okay so here's here's the process here here's what

04:30:40.580 by the way we lowered the tts to 69 grid one motorsports donated two hundred dollars these

04:30:47.840 bimbo granny sits and smiles while saying it sucks for men but i bet she is a feminist who expects her

04:30:54.260 views to be enforced by men women rarely if ever value men as much as men value women

04:31:00.140 night man yo grid one thank you for tuning into the stream man appreciate it well put they call me

04:31:05.140 bimbo because i wear floral dresses and i have big glasses so i've got big boobs so it's like granny

04:31:10.920 style but bimbo are you are you a feminist i don't i i don't think so i'm not like oh my god

04:31:18.640 you won't find me at rallying you won't find me posting on social media you won't find me

04:31:24.260 partaking in that so i don't believe that i am a feminist let me just ask oh hold on i'll come

04:31:34.120 back donated 69 dollars if some of these women would call chivalry dead i couldn't come up with

04:31:40.840 a word for femininity w brian neos got a world to save you want to make it to the next movie

04:31:47.520 learn to dodge bullets i think he's talking about the matrix neo nobody's talking about

04:31:53.440 okay i have another question nobody was saying brian has to die we're saying he takes the risk

04:31:59.160 of dying i got i got another i got another question this one you gotta assume this one is more this one

04:32:03.740 is more open-ended um i just want to promote some discussion what would you ladies say or what do

04:32:10.000 you feel that men should do that they don't do in the context of dating or that they don't do

04:32:16.700 enough of that you wish they did more of starting starting here communicate your feelings tell me

04:32:24.360 exactly what you're thinking and how you feel that's okay your feelings should be heard and you're going

04:32:32.520 to create more issues you're going to build up that resentment if you don't communicate that's how

04:32:38.420 what do you say to the guys who say that when they communicate feelings especially i guess in the way

04:32:43.880 that you perceive them to communicate that would be more like when women talk about men communicating

04:32:49.160 feelings we normally communicate through anger so do you mean like in a more feminine way like

04:32:55.560 being more vulnerable communicating your feelings is not feminine it's a level of vulnerability and you

04:33:00.780 have to take out that scaredness and it's a level of trust that goes into it so you have to have a

04:33:06.320 what's good like you have to have a safe partner who's not going to use that against you

04:33:10.200 your vulnerability so yeah i mean like it's up to you to do like have discretion on who you're going

04:33:15.700 to be vulnerable with but it's okay to be a little vulnerable obviously you want to have a safeguard so

04:33:21.760 that you can protect yourself but communicate and it anger and aggression should not be i shouldn't have

04:33:29.680 to be like oh wow he's upset about that because he's you know like that that anger is coming out it

04:33:34.660 should if you're upset tell me why you're upset and tell me so that i can make sure that doesn't

04:33:40.440 happen again or do whatever's in my power to you know end that so do you think it's acceptable for

04:33:46.480 men to cry in front of you in private in front of you in front of me yeah like would you do you

04:33:55.280 believe you would be less if he's crying all of the time then we're gonna have to be like hey are you

04:34:00.440 okay like what else is underlying to where you're crying all the time like you may have some kind of

04:34:06.720 like issues that we need to sort through or like trauma and that's where like that care and concern

04:34:11.480 and that judgment you take the judgment out of it when that man is crying and you don't judge him for

04:34:17.980 crying you you get to the root cause of those those tears and then if you love him you will help him

04:34:24.700 navigate that and if you don't want to and you want to judge him for crying then maybe you're not for

04:34:30.360 him and he's not for you or maybe he has some issues and he doesn't want to deal with it it's

04:34:34.340 all like circumstantial but those are my beliefs on men crying if it's in private and it's not a

04:34:39.680 habitual thing then it's okay for a man to cry yeah that's a good answer that was a good explanation

04:34:45.880 you're very deep yeah that was phenomenal i mean that was phenomenal what about you sorry that took me a

04:34:51.640 minute um probably listening with not always trying to fix the situation so if i come and i'm just

04:34:58.340 complaining or talking about something not trying to constantly like make amends or try to fix it but

04:35:05.300 just like listen and hear me sometimes you're just trying to complain and just give advice when they

04:35:10.660 want i get that and i and i completely understand that and one of the most interesting things about

04:35:15.020 that a lot of women say that they don't understand why a man always wants to problem solve but the

04:35:19.480 interesting thing about that is actually you know the women the reason women are more sympathetic and

04:35:25.080 compassionate is because there's two emotional centers of the brain and with women it tends to

04:35:29.320 be the mirror neuron system that's you see me cry you want to cry you see me going through angst you

04:35:34.160 feel angst anxiety etc etc and men when it comes down to the way we perceive emotion that mirror neuron

04:35:41.240 system turns on just for a split second we we understand why you feel the way that you do but then we

04:35:45.840 immediately another part of the brain is activated that wants to solve problems it's really difficult for us

04:35:50.420 to turn it off so a lot of times when i hear women say that i just want them to understand that we

04:35:55.220 literally that's how we solve the problem like that's how we interpret your emotion we want to

04:35:59.900 fix whatever we perceive to be the problem immediately as soon as possible even if you know you just want

04:36:04.960 to rant we think it's a big deal because you're already complaining about it to begin with and a lot

04:36:10.060 of times we want peace as well so we just want to mitigate that as quickly as possible but that is

04:36:14.040 that is that i agree with that a lot of men have to learn to listen sometimes and just let a woman

04:36:18.540 vent actually i was gonna say that but a lot of women say that but i'll say i'll say something

04:36:26.580 different um maybe not be so reactionary like this is something um like me my husband i've had to work

04:36:33.880 through like sometimes i'll come home and i've had just a crap day and i'll be like so upset about

04:36:38.880 whatever and like venting blah blah blah blah and then like he'll think that i'm like bringing that

04:36:45.500 to him versus me just experiencing it and wanting to get it out he'll like be upset with me does that

04:36:52.060 make sense so he'll like react to my feelings and then he'll think i'm mad at him because i had a crap

04:36:59.020 day but i'm just really trying to vent it out does that make sense yeah yeah yeah i don't know why he

04:37:05.520 does it but he does it i still love you babe um what i would want men to do uh more in relationships

04:37:13.020 that's the question yes it's something you wish they did or something they don't do enough of that

04:37:17.500 you wish they did more of either or i think in the beginning um just establish that your core values

04:37:23.260 are aligned so that it can be long lasting okay okay well why do you say that what what experience do

04:37:29.480 you have um let's fix this yeah just to make sure that you're on the same page so you don't go through

04:37:36.460 like two to three years and then something crops up and it's like oh wait this is one of my core

04:37:40.520 values we never spoke about this okay are you with me like if this thing happens ben george donated

04:37:47.340 69 men see responsibility from 30 000 feet above and take on a great responsibility women see men from

04:37:56.180 10 feet away and expect them to treat them in kind yeah yeah okay we can continue so i think for me um

04:38:11.960 i think hmm men not expecting perfectionism on i wouldn't say i would say on honest mistakes as

04:38:25.680 opposed to immoral acts like um you know like let's say i went and slashed his tires like okay

04:38:32.140 like you don't have you know you don't have to forgive me for that but um i you know had dated

04:38:37.460 a guy one time and i was helping and with the business and stuff and i was really good at making

04:38:43.600 sales like i was really good at it and i still am um but um i couldn't close this one guy and he

04:38:50.460 speaked another language and it was impossible to communicate with him and at the end he was like

04:38:55.220 i can't believe that you didn't do this for me like you are like so like pitiful and i was like

04:39:00.440 i'm a good saleswoman like i'm a good person i just i couldn't get that one like i did not speak

04:39:05.040 mandarin like i can't and and so there's only so much beyond my control so you know being more

04:39:10.920 forgiving of honest mistakes as opposed to immoral like oh you slashed my tires like i don't like

04:39:16.960 that like something like that okay okay jerk yeah he apologized and you know we we had a talk but i

04:39:24.760 mean obviously we're not you know dating anymore but you know it was just i'm not super woman even

04:39:29.020 though i want to be like i'm not and so so it's like there's times where i can't do something um like

04:39:36.200 that i'm not a grander i would like to yeah okay yeah what about you wow um i guess i would love men

04:39:44.960 to work on being more loyal that one hit home we know why that why she said that one that one hit

04:39:53.080 home does it yeah okay yeah i was loyal men out there i was gonna say have more like sexual

04:40:00.940 discipline and not in my marriage um because you know i learned from old relationships but um

04:40:08.340 yeah like pornography or wait am i allowed to say that word

04:40:12.980 um yeah just like looking at other women and stuff like that yeah having more discipline

04:40:19.500 i noticed that was a trigger for you big thing i noticed that was a trigger for you when i was

04:40:23.600 talking about the infidelity when um earlier in the conversation when i was talking about infidelity

04:40:28.840 and you brought up sexual discipline like you you seem passionate about oh yeah infidelity i did

04:40:34.420 yeah yeah yeah when we had the conversation you was like are you just saying yeah you's like are you

04:40:38.980 just saying a man should cheat you know so so it's coming from experience you've experienced

04:40:43.840 infidelity yeah but that i don't think that well i don't know yeah could be yeah yeah could be

04:40:49.180 repressed i mean maybe okay okay i think it's more just i was like this doesn't make logical sense

04:40:53.960 to me or or they're like something's there's a component missing but um okay okay all right

04:41:00.700 you got a question maddie what about you what about me i guess it's for men huh yeah yeah it was yeah

04:41:06.240 what about you for a woman what about me for women um i wish women didn't have unrealistic expectations

04:41:14.240 in terms of expecting men to behave like women i think a lot of male behavior is perceived and

04:41:23.600 interpreted as if we were women so women behave as if like i stated earlier when a guy does something

04:41:30.540 the woman's automatic assumption is it means the same thing or it has the same motivation or intention

04:41:36.460 as it would have if she did it so a lot of times i have to explain that i'm different like it may not

04:41:43.980 be you may not be able to grasp that i have a different sense of motivation on certain things

04:41:48.740 or i have different intent behind certain things than what a woman does but it's the truth and i

04:41:53.180 think a lot of times women struggle with that because their automatic interpretation or perception

04:41:58.220 of what a man does is i would have did it if that were me that would have been the reason i did it so

04:42:03.100 that has to be the reason he did it and i just think that women need to be more understanding about men

04:42:08.960 has have different value systems so a lot of the times if you perceive something that he does

04:42:13.320 to be to have ill will or be bad faith or be spiteful you know things women will do when they're upset

04:42:19.660 you know it's not necessarily that especially like truth telling or being honest like women are a lot

04:42:24.520 more um i will say women believe they're the arbiters of morality in a lot of ways and they're quick to

04:42:30.500 say that makes you a bad person if you do something they dislike or they disagree with whereas men we're

04:42:35.200 just a lot more straightforward we're a lot more objective and logical so a lot of times when we say

04:42:39.880 things it can come off as abrasive or insensitive but we don't see it that way we just see that

04:42:45.520 there's value in the truth being told as it is whereas women don't necessarily want to they don't

04:42:51.280 necessarily take it that way don't necessarily perceive it that way and that creates a lot of

04:42:54.600 conflict in relationships so yeah so i just i just think there needs to be a better understanding of

04:42:59.980 that men are different and we have different perceptions we have different motivations we have

04:43:04.440 different intentions and everything is not always what it seems in terms of as bad faith as it comes

04:43:11.880 off we there's a lot of good intent behind a lot of the things we do even if women dislike it or

04:43:16.720 the guy won't take a bullet for you reminds me that movie think like a man or they're like reading that

04:43:22.320 book act like a lady think like a man is like the best way to love a man and attract the right guy is

04:43:27.080 to um act like a lady but also know a man's nature so you can love him in the right way

04:43:31.920 and understand why he does the things he does and thinks the way he does so communicate and be

04:43:36.740 less assumptive yes i agree yep last thing on the bullet thing

04:43:40.800 just want to just want to clarify because some people will just assume the worst

04:43:47.100 obviously i'd protect if i was dating somebody i'd protect them to the best of my ability

04:43:52.800 just won't take a bullet for them uh and that's not the best of your ability

04:44:00.120 uh well here i am okay let me ask you a question cool you're employed right you can make overtime and

04:44:09.400 your employer says well you just work as much as you want but you want a healthy work-life balance

04:44:14.500 but the maximum productivity and the best thing for the employer would would be for you to work 12

04:44:19.860 hour days five days a week but you only are inclined to do nine hour days five days a week

04:44:26.340 you're not giving it your all your best

04:44:30.420 i don't think there's a correlation between your loved one and your work

04:44:35.860 your employer asking you to work 12 hours

04:44:38.740 right but like sometimes doing the maximum thing that you can do isn't always the right thing

04:44:47.560 true and in this scenario i don't think the maximum way you could protect somebody

04:44:52.960 by sacrifice well technically yes if you dying for somebody technically yes that would be the maximum

04:45:01.940 thing that you could do to protect somebody but not going to do it okay that's fine but you said

04:45:09.640 you would do it to the best of your ability and i said if you won't take a bullet it's not your best

04:45:12.800 of your ability so yeah you're not maximizing it so just don't say to the best of your ability

04:45:16.800 just say i'll try the maximum the the maximum willingness the best yeah exactly no no no no hold on

04:45:25.480 i can't i can still say to the best of my ability excluding oh my willingness to take

04:45:34.660 a bullet what's the point of the caveat just don't even say to the best of your ability in the first

04:45:40.080 place just say you can still do something to the best of your ability like i'm trying to think of

04:45:46.800 something like uh an example here um something to the best of your ability um i'm gonna do the job

04:45:58.080 to the best of my ability i'm trying like i'm trying to think here yeah that like that seems reasonable

04:46:06.940 but i'm not willing to die like yeah you know um hey babe you dropped your phone in in the lake

04:46:13.760 huh it what froze

04:46:18.820 oh did you say oh fuck no it's not that god damn it uh hold on it just just give it a secs i'm still

04:46:31.680 getting connection did something get kicked while she started while somebody walked off over there

04:46:37.260 i don't think so give it just a sec i think it's coming back hold on hold on it looks like

04:46:43.380 oh fuck hold on uh one sec still lag still lag what what did we do last time to fix this

04:46:54.720 chat oh it keeps dropping to zero fuck um

04:47:04.440 shit even the camera we still that's weird though we're still seeing the uh

04:47:11.120 yeah the chat's still coming through yeah i'm not sure why

04:47:16.280 how can is our one sec what's going on

04:47:23.500 uh okay um

04:47:27.880 wait okay one in the chat one in the chat if you can see us at all even if it's laggy one in the

04:47:36.000 chat can you see us is anything coming through two in the chat if you can't see anything one in the

04:47:40.320 chat if it's working two in the chat if it's not working so maybe our upload just like got scuffed

04:47:48.560 what did somebody did somebody like step on the wire there or anything no i don't think so

04:47:58.360 uh it seems like not hold on i'm trying to think okay so we're still recording though we're still

04:48:09.940 recording so um nick close out all tabs um all unnecessary tabs just close them all out

04:48:22.460 um i'm gonna do a couple things here on my end close out all tabs i'm gonna try hold on no data

04:48:32.060 no data

04:48:35.060 um

04:48:39.560 hmm

04:48:41.960 shit

04:48:44.060 f the pod

04:48:47.420 let me check twitch

04:48:50.760 i'm assuming twitch is uh let me check hold on

04:48:55.360 sorry for for those of you who are watching this on playback

04:48:59.740 um on other platforms you're gonna experience a bit of a temporary stream frozen

04:49:05.860 uh working on a fix

04:49:09.780 uh

04:49:11.240 if you can tell them

04:49:14.380 uh nick hide the stream yards thing really quick

04:49:19.460 one sec guys we'll get this figured out

04:49:23.560 um oh yeah okay not working over there on twitch either

04:49:29.440 do we stop stream and restart

04:49:36.200 this is we've never had this happen

04:49:38.980 it's very peculiar

04:49:40.780 let me check a couple things on my end

04:49:43.700 what could it be

04:49:46.440 nick could you open the tab in the other window do a speed test

04:49:51.160 yeah

04:49:52.160 unfortunate

04:49:55.920 pull it over to this window so i could see it

04:50:02.920 uh

04:50:08.920 uh yeah minimize obs

04:50:13.680 it's frozen

04:50:15.680 like a system diagnostic

04:50:17.440 okay

04:50:18.440 it looks like it

04:50:20.440 download so that this is weird download is

04:50:22.440 working

04:50:24.200 the upload's very low

04:50:28.880 i'm not sure what the solution is here

04:50:32.000 yeah here's what we're gonna do

04:50:35.620 we're just gonna yolo this

04:50:36.940 so nick would i need you

04:50:38.980 oh wait i'm getting an excellent connection

04:50:40.980 hold on

04:50:42.640 uh one sec give it

04:50:45.840 ten seconds

04:50:46.880 fix it

04:50:47.740 too much

04:50:48.680 excluding what brand

04:50:49.740 uh those of you who are

04:50:52.680 watching this on

04:50:54.460 probably

04:50:55.240 spotify

04:50:57.040 never had this happen before

04:50:58.740 we live stream this

04:50:59.820 um

04:51:00.920 nick here's what i'm gonna have you do

04:51:02.460 i'm gonna have you

04:51:03.020 not do anything on the computer

04:51:05.020 i'm gonna have you unplug

04:51:06.320 just how you normally do

04:51:07.480 unplug those two things

04:51:08.680 they said we're back

04:51:10.140 wait hold on

04:51:11.200 hold on hold on

04:51:11.820 good thing

04:51:12.900 are we back boys

04:51:14.120 are we back

04:51:15.200 are we back

04:51:16.260 wait

04:51:21.100 back for a sec

04:51:22.800 but it's laggy

04:51:23.560 great

04:51:23.980 okay

04:51:24.420 maybe it was during that stream test

04:51:26.860 hold on guys

04:51:27.540 we're trying to get it figured

04:51:28.540 um

04:51:29.200 i wonder if

04:51:30.660 i wonder if that was while we were

04:51:32.780 uh

04:51:34.480 hold on guys

04:51:36.480 reset the router

04:51:43.840 one sec

04:51:44.600 one sec

04:51:45.020 you broke the internet with your bullet comment

04:51:50.300 every 30 seconds

04:51:52.140 unless youtube invalidated your stream key

04:51:55.980 uh go reset the modem

04:51:57.340 okay let's um

04:51:58.500 i think at this point

04:52:01.300 they said back for two seconds

04:52:02.700 unplug it

04:52:03.840 count to ten seconds

04:52:05.080 plug both of those back in

04:52:06.700 we're losing everybody

04:52:09.060 but hey

04:52:09.640 fuck it

04:52:10.120 you know

04:52:10.380 it is what it is

04:52:11.720 they'll come back

04:52:13.100 yeah we'll get some people to come back

04:52:14.480 yeah

04:52:14.840 it's only been five minutes

04:52:16.680 fucking cox is fucking dog shit

04:52:21.300 was there a tesla internet thing

04:52:23.860 because my friend at the ranch said

04:52:25.480 how long was it unplugged for nick

04:52:26.740 starlink

04:52:28.440 yeah starlink

04:52:29.460 she has that

04:52:30.120 and she was like

04:52:30.680 oh it's like perfect

04:52:31.640 starlink

04:52:32.360 that's what she said

04:52:33.400 uh

04:52:33.460 laggy

04:52:33.900 yeah

04:52:34.720 so maybe that does it

04:52:36.680 maybe not

04:52:37.560 we're gonna see

04:52:38.520 um

04:52:40.040 uh

04:52:40.620 can you

04:52:45.300 you might want to just x out of it

04:52:46.740 or refresh it

04:52:47.700 i don't know if you can from there

04:52:48.860 it's gonna probably take a minute to uh

04:52:52.540 restart

04:52:53.440 yeah wait pull up obs though

04:52:59.220 pull up obs

04:52:59.860 ignore that obs

04:53:01.140 just hide stream yard

04:53:02.460 hide stream yard

04:53:03.780 no no no no

04:53:04.900 in the sources

04:53:05.600 sources tab

04:53:06.260 okay now you can refresh

04:53:09.320 those of you watching

04:53:12.040 we are experiencing technical difficulties

04:53:13.940 we will be back momentarily

04:53:16.080 never had this

04:53:17.440 quite happened before

04:53:19.260 um

04:53:20.460 very peculiar

04:53:23.060 very peculiar

04:53:26.520 my dear

04:53:27.140 so i uh

04:53:31.260 is it only youtube

04:53:33.360 or just twitch too

04:53:34.540 oh boy

04:53:41.380 maybe we shouldn't have

04:53:43.340 i mean

04:53:43.920 hmm

04:53:45.040 trying to think

04:53:46.840 the best

04:53:47.540 so we have a couple options nick

04:53:49.260 we wait a little bit longer

04:53:51.480 see if this gets going again

04:53:52.640 the other option would be

04:53:53.940 i'm pretty confident

04:53:55.180 if we do a system reset

04:53:56.900 restart the computer

04:53:58.660 that means we do have to end stream

04:54:00.160 and restart the stream

04:54:02.000 uh

04:54:03.800 let's do it

04:54:05.220 i want to give it one minute

04:54:08.000 because sometimes it takes a little bit

04:54:10.280 so nick

04:54:11.740 could i have you just do a refresh here

04:54:13.220 and can you try to open up

04:54:14.980 there it is

04:54:15.860 okay

04:54:16.140 maybe this will bring it back

04:54:18.020 um

04:54:18.740 just

04:54:20.780 oh

04:54:21.800 too soon

04:54:22.480 too soon

04:54:22.880 wait

04:54:23.060 uh

04:54:23.660 uh

04:54:25.340 wait wait wait wait wait

04:54:26.440 mute stop cam

04:54:27.520 enter studio

04:54:29.000 okay

04:54:30.460 uh

04:54:31.200 pull obs back up

04:54:32.740 there we go

04:54:33.920 fixed

04:54:34.420 okay

04:54:34.880 i'm a fucking genius

04:54:36.740 uh

04:54:37.540 one's in the chat

04:54:38.280 pull up the chat for me

04:54:39.280 pull up the chat for me

04:54:40.960 hey guys

04:54:41.640 did we get it fixed

04:54:42.660 one in the chat if it's fixed

04:54:43.960 one in the chat if it's fixed

04:54:45.500 two in the chat if we're back

04:54:47.000 um

04:54:48.100 backup data plan

04:54:49.200 interesting

04:54:50.620 brian looking zesty

04:54:53.040 thanks

04:54:54.000 thanks

04:54:54.020 yo are we back

04:54:55.720 are we back

04:54:56.620 tell us we're back boys

04:54:58.200 tell us we're back

04:54:59.520 we've lost every

04:55:00.280 we've probably lost

04:55:01.100 3,000 viewers

04:55:02.100 are we back

04:55:03.260 he says we're back

04:55:04.140 oh one

04:55:04.580 there we go

04:55:05.580 isn't that beautiful

04:55:06.880 troubleshooting

04:55:08.020 figured out

04:55:09.280 easy peasy

04:55:10.500 he did it

04:55:14.780 uh

04:55:15.140 i got something good for this one

04:55:17.040 hold on

04:55:18.300 one sec boys

04:55:19.460 we are back

04:55:20.280 yes

04:55:22.620 that's awesome

04:55:24.640 we're back boys

04:55:26.020 we're back

04:55:26.540 we lost all the viewers

04:55:27.760 oh shit

04:55:30.300 sorry

04:55:30.600 i don't know what the fuck happened

04:55:32.080 we just restarted the router

04:55:33.560 it took about

04:55:34.340 we should have done that immediately

04:55:36.420 but we were hoping it would just naturally

04:55:37.980 figure itself out

04:55:39.160 i want to take this moment to thank the sponsor of today's video

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04:55:52.620 what's what's their stupid fucking slogan

04:55:55.760 the digital age

04:55:57.600 what's their fucking bullshit

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04:55:59.080 something the new paradigm digital cox digital age

04:56:03.160 what is it

04:56:03.860 i don't even fucking know

04:56:06.660 nobody knows what it is

04:56:07.640 i thought it was enter the digital age

04:56:08.960 i thought so

04:56:09.660 your friend in the digital age

04:56:11.180 is that it

04:56:11.640 that's it

04:56:12.080 yeah

04:56:12.380 cox communications

04:56:13.680 you're fucking op and enemy

04:56:15.560 in the digital age

04:56:16.520 um

04:56:16.920 there we go

04:56:17.640 we're back boys

04:56:18.300 sorry about that

04:56:19.140 um

04:56:20.020 never

04:56:21.420 we've never had that happen before

04:56:23.120 we've had lag issues

04:56:24.060 never had just a full drop

04:56:25.460 we're back boys though

04:56:26.980 it's all good

04:56:27.500 what's up nick

04:56:28.920 uh

04:56:30.500 can you pull up that super chat

04:56:32.160 we're gonna have our dear british friend

04:56:33.740 read it

04:56:34.480 oh rip

04:56:35.960 oh stream yard's not

04:56:36.780 sources sources

04:56:38.080 okay

04:56:40.540 i'd die for that lady in the middle

04:56:42.920 and there may be other women

04:56:44.600 who would be worthy of dying for

04:56:46.380 but they'd have to be honorable

04:56:48.040 loyal souls

04:56:49.380 whom yes

04:56:50.060 i'd feel it complete

04:56:51.580 what

04:56:52.060 completing to die for

04:56:54.060 but y'all wanting men to die for you

04:56:57.060 just cause

04:56:57.860 yeah

04:56:58.340 fuck that

04:56:59.120 that sounded so bad in my accent

04:57:02.960 it sounded

04:57:03.760 it was great

04:57:04.580 it was beautiful

04:57:06.580 it sounded terrible

04:57:07.400 um

04:57:07.960 it was beautiful

04:57:08.780 i don't know where

04:57:09.900 what were we talking about before

04:57:11.380 i think it sounded good

04:57:12.600 we were talking about

04:57:13.840 still the

04:57:14.280 bullet thing

04:57:15.380 still the bullet

04:57:16.340 still the bullet

04:57:17.960 please move on from that

04:57:20.700 the girls love it

04:57:22.560 that's what caused the lag

04:57:23.760 one final question

04:57:24.700 one final question on it

04:57:25.920 why

04:57:27.920 why what

04:57:29.740 why should men take a bullet for women

04:57:31.860 why

04:57:32.820 he shouldn't if he doesn't

04:57:33.940 go ahead

04:57:34.200 i think it's

04:57:38.620 obviously we know where your values stand

04:57:40.980 but it's about your values

04:57:43.340 your integrity

04:57:44.140 your nobility

04:57:45.040 and

04:57:45.920 whether you can live with yourself or not

04:57:49.260 and if you want to carry that

04:57:51.220 so those are those are the reasons why

04:57:54.220 i feel like that's just the standard

04:57:56.500 if you love her

04:58:00.360 you take a bullet for her

04:58:01.600 because it's honorable

04:58:06.900 dutiful

04:58:08.540 sacrificial love

04:58:09.820 is like the ultimate act

04:58:11.640 of nobility

04:58:13.500 period

04:58:14.820 because i thought it was just a built-in feature

04:58:18.280 she just thought it was in the system

04:58:21.200 it was in the system

04:58:22.420 i guess i was wrong

04:58:23.380 i just

04:58:24.860 built-in feature

04:58:25.700 it's just for brian

04:58:26.220 it's not in his system

04:58:27.100 he's an android

04:58:29.420 well i'm just

04:58:30.400 he's not an iphone

04:58:31.140 he's an android

04:58:31.700 i'll let everybody's answer

04:58:32.740 i'll give every

04:58:33.340 wait for

04:58:33.780 go ahead

04:58:34.160 um

04:58:34.820 why should

04:58:35.560 i i don't think they should

04:58:37.080 i just think that

04:58:38.380 um

04:58:38.920 if they say they love me

04:58:40.140 and there's no kids involved

04:58:41.380 then

04:58:41.780 i would hope

04:58:43.240 but

04:58:43.780 she said if you love them

04:58:49.360 you would die for them

04:58:50.440 yeah

04:58:53.380 i agree

04:58:54.180 i think

04:58:54.840 the bible says

04:58:56.280 love knows no greater than this

04:58:57.840 that

04:58:58.200 um

04:58:59.160 one would lay down his life

04:59:00.400 for his friend

04:59:01.040 so

04:59:01.700 yeah

04:59:02.420 yeah

04:59:03.520 yeah

04:59:03.980 so then

04:59:08.460 you said it's just built into men

04:59:11.460 i i thought it was a built-in feature

04:59:13.740 i thought so too

04:59:14.500 for all men

04:59:14.640 i i thought it was

04:59:15.660 let me ask you a question

04:59:16.340 as a man

04:59:17.660 if i say all women

04:59:18.940 are somehow duty bound

04:59:21.000 to

04:59:21.880 have children

04:59:23.020 they must have children

04:59:25.180 would you object to that

04:59:26.640 it doesn't matter what they think

04:59:28.400 they have to have children

04:59:29.680 would you object to that

04:59:30.840 are you saying women should have children

04:59:33.260 like you would force them to

04:59:34.400 or do you mean like

04:59:34.980 just gerald donated 69 dollars

04:59:39.320 sorry about the stream dropping

04:59:41.440 that's my bat

04:59:42.680 i'll send the bear over

04:59:44.220 to fix it

04:59:44.980 yeah

04:59:45.880 yo gerald

04:59:46.780 yeah it's probably the

04:59:47.660 i don't know

04:59:48.160 it's probably the

04:59:48.940 alcohol

04:59:49.800 blame it on the

04:59:50.460 do you mean like

04:59:53.400 um

04:59:53.700 it should be built into women

04:59:54.960 as that should be built

04:59:55.940 well this is

04:59:59.420 nat

04:59:59.620 uh

05:00:00.940 wait

05:00:01.220 i always forget

05:00:02.000 is it natalie or

05:00:02.800 i think it's natalie

05:00:03.760 or natalia

05:00:04.480 yo cox technical support

05:00:06.240 thank you

05:00:06.640 you owe me way more

05:00:07.760 bro

05:00:08.040 we the mount

05:00:08.600 we lost like

05:00:09.640 i don't know

05:00:10.280 3k or something

05:00:11.200 who knows

05:00:11.480 thank you

05:00:11.880 appreciate it

05:00:12.760 hi

05:00:13.520 i asked the question

05:00:17.180 sorry

05:00:17.640 oh i was

05:00:18.200 yeah

05:00:18.540 okay um

05:00:19.360 do you mean as in women

05:00:20.360 should have that

05:00:21.260 like innate

05:00:22.320 drive in them to have children

05:00:24.280 just as men should have that

05:00:25.620 innate drive to

05:00:26.440 lay down their life

05:00:27.160 or what do you mean by that

05:00:28.400 question

05:00:28.780 well

05:00:29.300 if women can have the position of

05:00:31.520 my expectation for a man

05:00:33.220 is that he's willing to die for me

05:00:34.940 then what would be the corresponding

05:00:36.520 demand

05:00:38.220 from men

05:00:39.840 i think yes

05:00:40.700 biologically

05:00:41.320 for the you know

05:00:42.700 continuing of

05:00:43.840 continuing

05:00:44.500 is that a word

05:00:45.140 for the continuing of the

05:00:47.000 human race

05:00:47.860 it probably should be built

05:00:49.540 into us

05:00:50.200 i don't know if that's going to be

05:00:52.700 the case any longer

05:00:53.640 given that we're really fusing

05:00:54.920 with technology

05:00:55.580 and we do seem to be like

05:00:56.940 evolving into a different

05:00:59.040 species altogether

05:01:00.300 um

05:01:01.380 but yeah

05:01:02.040 let me ask you a question

05:01:02.740 would you guys all say here

05:01:04.980 that a woman who doesn't want

05:01:06.560 to have children

05:01:07.240 she's not feminine

05:01:08.720 would you say that to a woman

05:01:12.020 who doesn't want to have kids

05:01:12.940 no

05:01:14.560 no

05:01:15.180 slightly

05:01:16.500 who doesn't want to

05:01:18.300 or who can't

05:01:19.200 who doesn't want to

05:01:20.560 okay

05:01:20.940 i'll just get it

05:01:25.140 go around the table

05:01:25.860 and just get a definitive answer

05:01:27.120 from everybody

05:01:27.740 i would

05:01:29.120 i wouldn't say that

05:01:30.060 that's not feminine

05:01:31.480 no

05:01:33.420 i would say that

05:01:37.960 yeah

05:01:38.360 you're a little less feminine

05:01:39.960 if you don't want children

05:01:41.360 wouldn't say it's a bad thing

05:01:42.760 but

05:01:43.000 yeah

05:01:43.680 is it masculine

05:01:45.300 to want to have children

05:01:46.900 no he's asking like

05:01:51.320 would it be less

05:01:52.040 well i'm trying to think

05:01:52.960 i'm trying to think

05:01:54.060 of a counterpoint

05:01:55.020 to me not being willing

05:01:56.660 to die for a woman

05:01:58.420 so i'm trying to figure out

05:01:59.520 if that's the expectation

05:02:01.100 on men

05:02:01.700 what's the like

05:02:02.960 equivalent

05:02:03.980 frankly there is none

05:02:05.160 what's the equivalent

05:02:06.300 gender expectation

05:02:07.240 on women

05:02:07.820 yeah i was just saying

05:02:08.880 don't men and women

05:02:09.640 want to procreate

05:02:10.980 that's true

05:02:11.760 i don't think so why

05:02:12.840 so

05:02:13.260 well maybe it's more

05:02:14.900 the strong

05:02:15.700 dying for the weak

05:02:16.860 the same way

05:02:17.700 a woman would die

05:02:18.780 for a child

05:02:19.400 yeah

05:02:19.880 yeah

05:02:20.480 okay fine

05:02:21.240 if a woman gets

05:02:22.280 an abortion

05:02:23.040 is she less feminine

05:02:24.100 yes

05:02:26.880 yes

05:02:30.060 and no

05:02:30.560 yeah

05:02:31.120 because yes

05:02:31.860 femininity would nurture

05:02:33.140 a child

05:02:33.540 i also think

05:02:34.280 yeah

05:02:34.460 if you don't want

05:02:35.180 to have kids

05:02:35.720 you are not as feminine

05:02:37.380 you're not in your

05:02:38.160 feminine energy

05:02:38.600 i'm not quite finding

05:02:39.540 the best example

05:02:40.280 i don't know

05:02:40.880 what it is

05:02:41.780 because frankly

05:02:42.960 there is no

05:02:43.400 there is no sacrifices

05:02:44.880 that women take on

05:02:47.780 that is comparable

05:02:48.640 to men

05:02:49.500 being willing

05:02:50.280 to die for a woman

05:02:51.180 for her child

05:02:52.220 dying for her child

05:02:54.400 okay

05:02:54.700 sacrificing her life

05:02:56.080 for her child

05:02:56.400 but i suppose

05:02:56.880 so that's the man

05:02:58.580 doing something

05:02:59.160 for the woman

05:02:59.840 what is something

05:03:01.320 that a woman

05:03:02.040 can do for a man

05:03:03.040 gender solid

05:03:03.700 donated 69 dollars

05:03:05.660 brian already

05:03:07.000 said it earlier

05:03:07.880 women expect chivalry

05:03:09.540 but don't reciprocate

05:03:10.980 with chastity

05:03:11.740 that's actually

05:03:12.180 very very well put

05:03:14.120 um

05:03:15.020 but again

05:03:16.280 it's

05:03:16.740 but who is your

05:03:17.600 partner that

05:03:18.340 i mean obviously

05:03:19.280 you're you're looking

05:03:20.300 for a woman

05:03:20.940 with chastity

05:03:21.720 so we're saying

05:03:23.040 if you're with

05:03:24.080 a woman who

05:03:25.040 who is very feminine

05:03:27.020 who is very traditional

05:03:28.160 say she

05:03:28.860 she checks all

05:03:29.740 of your boxes

05:03:30.320 you wouldn't lay

05:03:31.540 down your life

05:03:32.120 for her

05:03:32.600 she wouldn't be

05:03:34.500 deserving of that

05:03:35.380 he already said no

05:03:36.420 i wouldn't do it

05:03:37.580 in any scenario

05:03:38.400 but his point

05:03:40.260 was that

05:03:40.780 but you know

05:03:42.320 you wouldn't do it

05:03:42.980 for a modern woman

05:03:43.940 uh

05:03:45.880 do you think

05:03:48.080 that that woman

05:03:49.440 the one who's like

05:03:50.580 not the modern woman

05:03:51.500 the one that's

05:03:51.960 has the traits

05:03:53.180 that you're desiring

05:03:53.820 do you think

05:03:54.340 she's gonna go

05:03:54.940 for someone

05:03:55.520 like you

05:03:56.580 who won't lay

05:03:58.000 down their life

05:03:58.500 for her

05:03:58.860 that's a good

05:04:00.140 question

05:04:00.600 probably not

05:04:02.840 probably not

05:04:03.880 so are you prepared

05:04:05.780 to be single

05:04:06.520 for the rest

05:04:07.240 of your life

05:04:07.680 like come on

05:04:08.560 let's be real

05:04:09.520 you should reset

05:04:11.300 your expectations

05:04:12.480 with just a smidge

05:04:13.720 who i should

05:04:15.760 change my expectations

05:04:16.680 this is crazy

05:04:17.920 if you're not

05:04:20.120 willing to die

05:04:21.280 for a woman

05:04:21.840 you're just never

05:04:23.080 gonna find a woman

05:04:24.580 it's the love

05:04:25.180 of your life

05:04:25.900 it's the mother

05:04:26.460 of your kids

05:04:27.060 we're not just

05:04:27.580 talking about

05:04:27.960 blanket woman

05:04:28.720 the kind of woman

05:04:29.800 that you say

05:04:30.300 you want

05:04:30.840 only men

05:04:33.980 have to do

05:04:34.780 anything

05:04:35.240 to make

05:04:35.700 themselves

05:04:36.060 appealing

05:04:36.460 to women

05:04:36.940 women don't

05:04:37.720 have to do

05:04:38.140 anything

05:04:38.560 y'all don't

05:04:40.280 have to meet

05:04:40.740 any standards

05:04:41.620 or boundaries

05:04:42.540 or expectations

05:04:43.200 i don't believe

05:04:44.340 that's true

05:04:44.920 either

05:04:45.300 women are far

05:04:46.680 more picky

05:04:47.080 than men are

05:04:47.960 and that's okay

05:04:48.840 that's how it should be

05:04:50.020 which is why

05:04:50.800 women shouldn't

05:04:51.800 have so many

05:04:52.540 like such a

05:04:53.920 big body count

05:04:55.080 as well

05:04:55.700 they should have

05:04:56.680 standards

05:04:57.340 okay

05:04:58.640 yeah

05:04:59.060 i'm still trying

05:04:59.820 to like

05:05:00.320 find though

05:05:01.220 so what

05:05:03.180 would be

05:05:04.060 the corresponding

05:05:04.840 thing

05:05:05.500 that women

05:05:06.260 are supposed

05:05:06.680 to do for men

05:05:07.580 have babies

05:05:08.660 have their children

05:05:09.460 raise them

05:05:10.180 yeah

05:05:10.620 okay

05:05:11.360 give them a

05:05:13.020 home

05:05:13.240 yeah

05:05:13.860 so if a woman

05:05:15.680 is not willing

05:05:16.580 to do that

05:05:17.440 does that make

05:05:18.580 her

05:05:18.940 i don't know

05:05:20.020 if beta

05:05:20.660 really

05:05:20.940 does that make

05:05:22.560 her less feminine

05:05:23.520 does that make

05:05:25.180 her less deserving

05:05:26.020 of having a partner

05:05:26.860 answer the question

05:05:28.600 if why

05:05:29.180 because all of you

05:05:30.260 said let me

05:05:31.120 let me just

05:05:31.800 rewind the tape

05:05:32.800 here because

05:05:33.660 my position is

05:05:34.960 that i'm not

05:05:35.660 willing to

05:05:36.640 you can hide it

05:05:37.240 for a bit

05:05:37.640 didn't we already

05:05:38.480 show that one

05:05:39.220 did it

05:05:41.000 okay

05:05:41.200 oh my bad

05:05:42.060 same guy

05:05:42.540 all of you here

05:05:44.020 said that because

05:05:45.220 i am not willing

05:05:46.840 to die for a

05:05:48.100 girlfriend or wife

05:05:49.420 or whatever it is

05:05:50.460 that that makes

05:05:51.760 me beta

05:05:52.320 it makes me

05:05:53.020 less masculine

05:05:53.800 it makes me

05:05:54.720 effeminate

05:05:55.740 it makes me

05:05:57.140 not masculine

05:05:58.620 what would be the

05:06:00.820 corresponding thing

05:06:01.820 that a woman

05:06:02.440 refuses to do

05:06:03.540 for a man

05:06:04.220 that would make

05:06:05.140 her less feminine

05:06:06.000 or not have

05:06:07.400 a bitch

05:06:07.660 or what i don't

05:06:08.200 know

05:06:08.340 sleep around

05:06:09.760 promiscuity

05:06:11.240 not have children

05:06:11.880 yeah i think not

05:06:12.800 have children

05:06:13.240 not have his

05:06:13.780 that's the biggest

05:06:16.600 one i would say

05:06:17.340 because

05:06:17.760 to his

05:06:19.120 defense

05:06:20.120 he asked

05:06:21.200 would that make

05:06:22.080 women less feminine

05:06:22.780 if they decided

05:06:23.460 not to have kids

05:06:24.360 what am i preserving

05:06:25.220 if you're not

05:06:25.700 going to have kids

05:06:26.380 if you don't value

05:06:26.960 having children

05:06:27.640 then what the fuck

05:06:28.280 am i laying my

05:06:28.740 life on the line

05:06:29.360 for if you're not

05:06:30.080 going to continue

05:06:30.620 my genetic legacy

05:06:31.580 right i agree with

05:06:33.620 that because we're

05:06:34.240 all animals

05:06:34.860 yeah we're not

05:06:35.640 we're i mean we

05:06:37.440 we would understand

05:06:38.360 if you're if you're

05:06:39.280 not willing to lay

05:06:40.040 down your life

05:06:41.280 for a woman who

05:06:42.200 like doesn't share

05:06:43.380 the same doesn't

05:06:44.160 share the same

05:06:44.740 values that you

05:06:45.840 are like looking

05:06:47.320 for we're saying

05:06:48.080 for like the

05:06:48.860 ultimate

05:06:49.500 woman like the

05:06:51.320 woman of your

05:06:51.860 dreams you

05:06:53.900 wouldn't do that

05:06:54.600 for

05:06:54.880 well like okay

05:06:57.860 we're romanticizing

05:06:59.380 it by saying

05:07:00.140 like the woman

05:07:00.800 of your dreams

05:07:01.420 right

05:07:01.920 you just entertain

05:07:02.920 my hypothetical

05:07:03.740 okay but it's a

05:07:05.260 woman that that

05:07:05.980 shares the same

05:07:06.620 values and and

05:07:08.020 holds themselves to

05:07:08.980 a regard that you

05:07:10.120 would admire

05:07:11.080 it's just it's

05:07:12.960 it's look it's a

05:07:14.400 very gynocentric

05:07:15.400 attitude that men

05:07:17.700 ought to sacrifice

05:07:19.440 their life for

05:07:20.980 women it's very

05:07:22.300 how is it how

05:07:24.600 could that possibly

05:07:25.460 not be woman

05:07:26.580 focused that men

05:07:28.080 need to die for

05:07:30.580 women that's

05:07:31.600 incredibly female

05:07:33.260 centered you're

05:07:33.860 gonna have a hard

05:07:34.440 time finding something

05:07:35.380 that is just that

05:07:36.240 equal but also love

05:07:37.180 doesn't keep count

05:07:37.980 we do things for

05:07:39.060 each other just so i'm

05:07:39.800 clear because real

05:07:41.900 trump donated

05:07:42.740 69 dollars as men

05:07:45.140 we are supposed to

05:07:46.120 literally sink with

05:07:47.060 the titanic and

05:07:47.920 freeze to death to

05:07:48.880 save women but the

05:07:50.320 minute we ask her to

05:07:51.280 make a sandwich i

05:07:52.600 in a shirt or rub

05:07:53.840 our back we're the

05:07:54.720 misogynist you guys

05:07:56.200 are talking about the

05:07:57.160 worst like right so

05:07:58.700 not the women that

05:08:00.140 would deserve to take

05:08:01.560 a bullet for them

05:08:02.160 like of course if my

05:08:03.100 man wants his back

05:08:04.140 rubbed and he's

05:08:04.860 providing like his

05:08:06.360 share of the

05:08:07.120 relationship of course

05:08:08.100 i'm gonna want to do

05:08:08.900 all the things

05:08:09.460 exactly masculine

05:08:10.320 woman bring out our

05:08:11.420 feminine side

05:08:12.060 comparing it to like

05:08:13.180 girls that are just

05:08:14.080 like out here in

05:08:14.740 the streets they

05:08:15.360 don't care they're

05:08:16.180 just trying to be

05:08:16.860 like taken care of

05:08:18.820 basically for her

05:08:19.940 hold on but here's

05:08:21.120 the here's the issue

05:08:21.940 right you got a

05:08:22.880 bunch of modern

05:08:23.780 women who are not

05:08:24.700 traditional in any

05:08:25.700 sense who still

05:08:27.260 demand traditional

05:08:28.520 treatment from men

05:08:29.880 that is yeah i

05:08:30.820 disagree with them

05:08:31.740 that's an issue yeah

05:08:32.640 that is an issue

05:08:33.460 that's a real issue

05:08:34.720 okay but like let's

05:08:36.000 take it to the let's

05:08:36.960 take it to one of the

05:08:37.760 ultimate things that a

05:08:39.020 woman can do to be a

05:08:40.060 traditional woman which

05:08:41.260 is to be a virgin

05:08:42.540 until you meet your

05:08:43.460 life partner how

05:08:45.160 many of you have a

05:08:46.120 body count of one or

05:08:47.560 zero what is your

05:08:50.920 point what is your

05:08:56.180 actual point i'll

05:08:57.760 restate i'll restate

05:08:59.220 again what i've

05:08:59.900 already said but what

05:09:00.800 does it matter because

05:09:01.660 you don't even care if

05:09:02.520 they're virgins you

05:09:03.360 still i won't lay down

05:09:04.580 your life for them

05:09:05.400 anything right why

05:09:06.620 virgin or not but i'm

05:09:08.620 just i'm playing i'm

05:09:09.840 playing on the same

05:09:11.080 level because it's

05:09:12.360 for two because yes

05:09:14.680 here i'll explain why

05:09:16.040 because you have

05:09:17.840 non-traditional women

05:09:19.240 who will still get and

05:09:21.260 still expect the

05:09:22.680 traditional treatment

05:09:23.620 from men and that's

05:09:25.560 bad you a girl who

05:09:26.760 does i don't think

05:09:27.660 promiscuous and who's

05:09:29.240 who's not modest and

05:09:31.360 who's all this stuff

05:09:33.260 we all we all want to

05:09:36.800 get the maximum that we

05:09:38.720 can get right so i don't

05:09:41.580 i don't see any

05:09:42.420 objections at all to

05:09:43.640 me not not subscribing

05:09:46.100 y'all want equality

05:09:47.760 y'all you know feminism

05:09:48.880 is here to stay i'm i'm

05:09:50.180 adapting to the new

05:09:51.720 normal okay feminism is

05:09:53.680 here to stay right let me

05:09:55.680 ask you here let me

05:09:56.440 seems like it's serving

05:09:57.820 you seems like

05:09:59.600 look i don't even know

05:10:04.540 i i'd just be curious like

05:10:07.340 what would be the

05:10:07.900 equivalent thing a woman

05:10:08.920 could say where y'all would

05:10:10.180 dog pile her and be like

05:10:12.460 you're not you guys aren't

05:10:14.080 feminine level okay q why

05:10:17.040 would you sacrifice your life

05:10:19.900 for the woman you love

05:10:21.180 because i'm sexist

05:10:23.180 elaborate benevolent sexism

05:10:27.680 women are women are more

05:10:29.420 vulnerable creatures they're

05:10:30.460 weaker and i just would be

05:10:33.060 inclined to do it because i

05:10:34.180 feel is that my duty i

05:10:35.700 wouldn't be able to live

05:10:36.280 with myself if the girl

05:10:38.100 that i love died on my

05:10:39.940 hands okay so difference of

05:10:42.460 opinion sure i don't and

05:10:45.000 look if you guys take it up

05:10:46.240 with him so yeah you guys

05:10:47.440 should just have that

05:10:48.140 conversation if a guy's

05:10:49.420 willing to do it i mean

05:10:51.440 but his point is his

05:10:52.460 point still is valid i mean

05:10:53.940 he doesn't have to do

05:10:54.900 it nobody's saying he has

05:10:57.080 to you're you guys are

05:10:58.380 literally this for like the

05:10:59.380 last hour you guys are

05:11:00.640 literally saying you're

05:11:01.960 you're gonna be single

05:11:03.300 for the rest of your life

05:11:04.600 you don't have to do it

05:11:06.260 but it doesn't make you

05:11:07.340 right for not we you

05:11:09.480 don't have it's just

05:11:10.160 crazy the the gender

05:11:11.380 expectations on men of you

05:11:13.180 have to lay down your life

05:11:14.360 for me so are you trying

05:11:15.620 to change our mind but

05:11:17.680 it's just the moral

05:11:20.280 quandary because he really

05:11:23.220 has he doesn't have to so

05:11:25.820 it's like yeah that's what

05:11:27.300 we've been saying because

05:11:28.580 you're strong i do it out

05:11:30.180 of love here's a good

05:11:31.040 example you're on a plane

05:11:31.980 they always say put your

05:11:33.300 mask over your child's face

05:11:35.300 for or not put your face

05:11:36.940 sorry most people because

05:11:39.180 they say that because most

05:11:40.220 people will put a air mask

05:11:42.200 on their child before

05:11:43.060 themselves most mothers

05:11:44.920 will put you know try to

05:11:46.880 save their child before

05:11:47.880 themselves that's

05:11:48.960 expectation of a mother

05:11:49.780 but if the mother tries to

05:11:51.700 save herself before a

05:11:52.640 child that's the same

05:11:54.100 scenario it is they can do

05:11:55.900 that but obviously society's

05:11:57.400 gonna look bad at the

05:11:58.060 mother

05:11:58.160 okay i mean i mean what

05:12:02.520 would you want your wife

05:12:04.460 mother of your kids to do

05:12:05.980 save herself first or save

05:12:07.720 your kids

05:12:08.420 yeah would you would you

05:12:10.840 be with a woman who

05:12:11.680 wouldn't be willing to

05:12:12.480 lay your life down for a

05:12:13.420 child

05:12:13.620 well now we're introducing

05:12:13.900 the child component into it

05:12:15.440 yeah kids are more

05:12:16.160 innocent

05:12:16.540 i just think you're still

05:12:17.660 stuck on the certain type of

05:12:19.020 woman that doesn't deserve

05:12:20.160 that's an expectation of

05:12:22.300 most moms

05:12:23.320 i mean i would just simply

05:12:24.920 i'm trying to what was the

05:12:25.920 question i was demanding

05:12:26.820 be answered but nobody

05:12:28.480 answered it i forgot

05:12:29.380 what's the equivalent to a

05:12:31.980 man

05:12:32.080 yeah

05:12:33.280 a woman

05:12:34.380 a woman sacrificing her life

05:12:36.380 for her child

05:12:36.960 okay i mean look i'll just

05:12:39.380 again

05:12:40.260 it's instinct

05:12:41.260 again i i think perhaps

05:12:44.060 the ultimate form of

05:12:46.040 something that a woman

05:12:46.740 could give to a man would

05:12:48.040 be virginity

05:12:49.140 no i think i think that's

05:12:51.840 a smaller ask

05:12:52.700 do you think it's a smaller

05:12:54.580 okay but

05:12:55.340 so if if men value um

05:12:57.980 sexual purity in women

05:12:59.080 then

05:13:00.080 i mean

05:13:02.480 what what's or did i already

05:13:04.680 ask what's the bigger ask

05:13:06.080 asking someone to die

05:13:07.300 or a woman being a virgin

05:13:08.460 yes

05:13:09.000 okay well

05:13:10.180 but what would you value

05:13:11.880 more than brian would you

05:13:13.080 value being with a woman

05:13:14.420 who's a virgin but she can't

05:13:15.580 have kids

05:13:16.020 or being with a woman who's

05:13:17.460 had two bodies before you

05:13:19.140 but she gave you five kids

05:13:20.440 if i want to have kids then

05:13:23.000 yeah the woman with the two

05:13:24.180 bodies

05:13:24.540 if i don't want to have kids

05:13:26.020 the virgin

05:13:26.560 so we're saying what do you

05:13:28.440 want

05:13:28.780 kids or no kids

05:13:30.980 uh it's very likely yes that

05:13:33.320 i want to have kids

05:13:34.140 okay

05:13:34.940 would you be with a woman

05:13:37.340 who wasn't willing to

05:13:38.600 lay down her life for her

05:13:40.320 kids

05:13:40.420 i don't know where i was

05:13:40.580 going with that

05:13:41.020 it's okay

05:13:41.700 um i mean we're kind of i

05:13:43.960 don't know if that's totally

05:13:45.160 related but um

05:13:46.500 it's an expectation

05:13:47.400 yes i suppose i would hope

05:13:48.600 that she would be willing to

05:13:49.740 uh sacrifice herself for the

05:13:51.400 children

05:13:51.520 but what if she wasn't

05:13:51.980 what if she said no

05:13:52.660 what if she thought like you

05:13:54.300 did

05:13:54.540 i'd

05:13:55.020 what if she had

05:13:55.760 what if she had a brain

05:13:56.840 like you

05:13:57.320 what

05:13:57.640 but then i mean

05:13:58.440 every woman

05:13:59.460 who wouldn't be willing to

05:14:01.260 sacrifice herself for me

05:14:02.500 okay

05:14:02.820 i'm talking about

05:14:03.380 you mean this

05:14:03.720 wait hold on

05:14:04.980 do you mean the status quo

05:14:06.280 no

05:14:06.700 you mean the status quo

05:14:07.700 that's the thing when you're

05:14:08.440 in love with a person like

05:14:09.640 that girl would do that for

05:14:10.660 you too

05:14:11.040 i would do it for my

05:14:12.260 partner as well

05:14:13.160 but okay only one person

05:14:15.520 can do it

05:14:16.060 and if your answer is

05:14:17.040 i want the guy to lay down

05:14:18.420 his life for me

05:14:19.220 then you can't both die

05:14:21.040 i had this i had this

05:14:23.000 conversation too

05:14:23.720 i was like yeah women can

05:14:24.760 say i would do it

05:14:25.640 but would you actually

05:14:26.620 i would do it

05:14:28.860 for someone you love

05:14:29.980 i would get in there

05:14:31.800 i think that's different

05:14:32.540 look

05:14:34.020 it's not just women

05:14:34.820 i'd still

05:14:35.840 i would still

05:14:36.800 absolutely attempt to

05:14:38.380 if i'm dating a girl

05:14:39.440 i'd absolutely protect her

05:14:40.700 if there's a fucking

05:14:41.760 intruder breaking in

05:14:42.720 i'm grabbing the gun

05:14:43.660 and i'm gonna dispatch

05:14:44.880 the fucker

05:14:45.660 why

05:14:46.160 behind her

05:14:47.220 again we're talking

05:14:47.860 why though

05:14:49.440 why that scenario

05:14:51.520 it's a

05:14:54.000 okay

05:14:54.360 fine

05:14:54.880 i mean i could just

05:14:55.740 look i'll just turn this

05:14:56.580 around on you

05:14:57.180 none of y'all are virgins

05:14:58.140 i could just dunk

05:14:59.440 on you all night

05:15:00.260 i could dunk on you

05:15:01.440 all night

05:15:01.860 none of you are virgins

05:15:03.060 oh my gosh

05:15:03.080 my feelings are so hurt

05:15:04.660 you probably had

05:15:05.260 multiple sexual partners

05:15:06.500 yeah big deal

05:15:07.240 okay brian

05:15:07.860 okay moving on

05:15:08.800 would you be with the girl

05:15:10.220 who wouldn't die

05:15:11.300 for your kids

05:15:12.280 you have

05:15:13.060 would you be with her

05:15:14.060 if she did her best

05:15:17.040 right

05:15:17.840 to her ability

05:15:18.600 yeah

05:15:19.360 ah i mean it's

05:15:22.620 look this is a very

05:15:23.380 complicated question

05:15:24.240 probably um

05:15:25.480 i'd probably want

05:15:26.780 i would

05:15:27.240 i would want

05:15:28.160 a partner

05:15:29.100 that would be willing

05:15:30.560 because i would

05:15:31.500 that would be willing

05:15:32.280 to lay their lot

05:15:33.040 their life on the line

05:15:34.080 for their kids

05:15:34.860 but i would

05:15:36.100 i would want her

05:15:36.940 to do the same

05:15:37.660 but when i'm talking

05:15:38.560 about partner

05:15:39.180 to partner

05:15:39.760 i wouldn't sacrifice

05:15:41.360 my life for my partner

05:15:42.400 okay

05:15:44.200 i guess at this point

05:15:45.000 it's just a preference

05:15:45.800 of like what type of

05:15:46.860 med we're into

05:15:47.580 we can all agree

05:15:50.140 to disagree

05:15:50.480 but she could use

05:15:51.220 your logic

05:15:51.860 and say well

05:15:52.700 i'll just continue

05:15:53.560 the bloodline

05:15:54.640 and have other kids

05:15:56.200 this kid can die

05:15:58.660 whatever

05:15:59.060 and we'll just

05:16:00.120 make more kids

05:16:00.820 right

05:16:01.180 i think it's a little

05:16:01.920 dystopian

05:16:02.720 when it comes from

05:16:04.060 a woman

05:16:04.480 like because we expect

05:16:05.540 a woman to be

05:16:06.500 like nurturing

05:16:07.440 and motherly

05:16:08.400 and i think that

05:16:09.580 like i would

05:16:10.260 we expect men

05:16:11.180 to be protected

05:16:12.000 yeah

05:16:12.640 but i think it's

05:16:14.020 almost even scarier

05:16:15.220 if it comes from

05:16:15.740 because you're like

05:16:16.180 wow like i'm scared

05:16:17.780 like i don't know

05:16:18.540 like i think a creepy

05:16:20.420 woman is creepier

05:16:21.800 than a creepy man

05:16:22.820 i think if you love

05:16:23.860 someone brother

05:16:24.640 mother whatever

05:16:25.420 you're gonna want

05:16:26.280 to lead on your

05:16:27.420 life for them

05:16:27.800 period

05:16:28.060 let me ask you

05:16:28.880 a question right

05:16:29.540 what do you think

05:16:30.140 it's wrong

05:16:30.620 like so let's be

05:16:31.900 realistic about the

05:16:32.840 current dating landscape

05:16:33.880 a lot of women

05:16:35.480 who aren't necessarily

05:16:37.180 bad people

05:16:37.860 but a lot of women

05:16:38.760 are dating multiple

05:16:39.940 men at the same

05:16:40.860 time sleeping

05:16:41.860 with multiple

05:16:42.420 men at the same

05:16:43.100 time i don't think

05:16:44.080 it necessarily means

05:16:45.140 they're like bad

05:16:46.560 people necessarily

05:16:47.540 but it's a kind of

05:16:48.600 a shady way to

05:16:49.440 move especially

05:16:50.540 if there's a guy

05:16:51.140 who's genuinely

05:16:51.960 interested in you

05:16:52.920 and he's not

05:16:53.660 moving that way

05:16:54.340 right um we

05:16:56.340 talk about chivalry

05:16:57.240 it would be the

05:16:57.820 chivalrous thing

05:16:58.480 the gentlemanly

05:16:59.240 thing to go

05:17:00.500 ahead and sacrifice

05:17:02.620 your life

05:17:03.120 loose pussy energy

05:17:04.160 donated 69

05:17:05.600 dollars guys are

05:17:07.320 supposed to take a

05:17:08.380 bullet for gross

05:17:09.100 ran through

05:17:09.660 300 and fours

05:17:11.040 that won't bow

05:17:11.680 or submit to

05:17:12.440 their man

05:17:12.980 yeah

05:17:13.260 no thanks

05:17:14.940 you guys are

05:17:15.480 still talking

05:17:16.220 about

05:17:16.700 abdul is pulling

05:17:18.400 the lever now

05:17:19.380 hashtag get the

05:17:20.680 rocks number

05:17:21.280 eight at 18

05:17:22.200 get the rocks

05:17:23.120 like you guys are

05:17:23.900 not even talking

05:17:24.460 about high value

05:17:25.180 women

05:17:25.520 so like yeah

05:17:26.440 that makes sense

05:17:27.220 are you a high value

05:17:27.900 woman

05:17:28.180 i would think so

05:17:29.300 you said that it

05:17:30.240 didn't even matter

05:17:31.240 if they were modest

05:17:32.420 and all everything

05:17:33.340 you still wouldn't

05:17:34.480 do it

05:17:34.940 so what is it

05:17:35.900 why bring this

05:17:36.880 kind of these

05:17:37.320 points have you

05:17:38.720 know stand no

05:17:39.420 ground because it

05:17:40.120 doesn't matter either

05:17:40.900 way yeah for you

05:17:42.060 it doesn't matter

05:17:42.680 high value low

05:17:43.300 value whatever

05:17:44.040 look right

05:17:44.560 wouldn't do it

05:17:45.260 we get that there

05:17:46.720 is an inequality

05:17:47.840 here we get that

05:17:49.400 there is no

05:17:50.340 parallel to this

05:17:52.320 we get it we

05:17:54.060 understand your

05:17:55.620 values are

05:17:57.040 different than

05:17:58.340 what everyone at

05:17:59.940 this table desire

05:18:00.920 out of a man

05:18:01.660 yeah well i'm sure

05:18:03.520 perhaps i'm an

05:18:04.220 outlier i'm perhaps

05:18:05.620 making i'm making

05:18:07.120 the argument thank

05:18:08.080 you we're getting

05:18:08.520 somewhere i'm making

05:18:09.420 the argument for

05:18:10.280 other men which

05:18:11.740 one like a forced

05:18:12.600 morality argument

05:18:13.480 how are you gonna

05:18:14.100 be another guy and

05:18:15.800 lay like lay your

05:18:16.780 life on the line

05:18:17.600 for a girl that's

05:18:19.520 moving in this sort

05:18:20.920 of way i agree i

05:18:22.120 agree with that

05:18:22.800 my dear you want a

05:18:24.660 guy on a first date

05:18:25.940 to sacrifice his life

05:18:27.380 for you you just had

05:18:28.460 a cuddle session with

05:18:29.360 your boyfriend today

05:18:30.220 if a guy went on a

05:18:32.040 date with you tonight

05:18:32.820 even though you

05:18:33.440 claim to be single

05:18:34.220 for a year let me

05:18:34.920 ask you a question

05:18:35.440 if you if a guy

05:18:37.420 asked you out on a

05:18:38.180 date would you tell

05:18:40.040 him you've been

05:18:40.460 single for a year

05:18:41.140 would that be your

05:18:42.940 genuine answer

05:18:43.840 yeah but i would also

05:18:44.900 tell him that i'm

05:18:45.600 still yeah i'm still

05:18:46.880 figuring things out

05:18:47.600 with my ex and you

05:18:49.800 want that guy to lay

05:18:51.060 his life on the line

05:18:52.220 with you here's the

05:18:54.200 scenario let me paint

05:18:54.940 the scenario you're

05:18:56.620 still delusional you

05:18:57.620 are still hung up on

05:18:58.740 your ex you hung

05:19:00.480 out with him this

05:19:01.460 morning let's say

05:19:02.660 you went on a date

05:19:03.500 with a guy tonight

05:19:04.360 instead of coming on

05:19:05.200 this podcast he lays

05:19:06.980 his life on the line

05:19:08.000 with you how quickly

05:19:10.280 after he just

05:19:11.660 sacrificed his life

05:19:12.620 for with for you are

05:19:14.560 you talk to your ex

05:19:15.960 hanging out with your

05:19:17.020 ex-boyfriend here's the

05:19:18.400 thing i'm not answer

05:19:19.260 the question answer

05:19:20.100 the no no no no

05:19:20.860 what's your question

05:19:21.760 answer the question

05:19:22.640 what's your question

05:19:23.440 how soon after this

05:19:24.880 first date of yours

05:19:25.980 lays his life i would

05:19:27.480 not go then hang out

05:19:29.200 with my ex what it

05:19:30.800 well you you're

05:19:32.060 despite you being

05:19:33.600 broken up you hung

05:19:34.840 out with him i hung

05:19:35.800 out yesterday yeah

05:19:36.680 and today okay i would

05:19:38.440 suspect you would

05:19:39.100 actually probably

05:19:39.780 immediately go to him

05:19:41.060 because he's your

05:19:41.920 guy though like here's

05:19:43.300 the thing i don't just

05:19:44.120 go out on dates anyway

05:19:45.580 so if i'm going out on

05:19:46.860 a date with a guy

05:19:47.480 no no no don't

05:19:48.260 weasel don't weasel

05:19:49.100 out of it answer the

05:19:49.900 question people lay

05:19:50.840 their lives down for

05:19:51.720 strangers

05:19:52.140 answer the question

05:19:53.660 and that's a no

05:19:54.820 country how soon after

05:19:57.220 this guy lays his life

05:19:59.720 down for you are you

05:20:01.380 hanging out with your

05:20:02.140 ex i'm not never that's

05:20:05.000 that's the precipitating

05:20:06.040 factor and you finally

05:20:07.000 ending this toxic no

05:20:08.600 that's not what i'm

05:20:09.540 saying relationship i

05:20:10.800 don't know that's like

05:20:11.740 such a hypothetical that

05:20:12.800 i wouldn't within a week

05:20:13.820 how often do you see

05:20:14.620 him how often do you

05:20:15.740 see him currently i

05:20:16.780 don't know like once a

05:20:17.780 week so would you see

05:20:19.260 him within a week i'm

05:20:20.940 supposed to lay lay

05:20:22.160 down my life for a

05:20:23.100 girl my situation is

05:20:24.640 different though now

05:20:25.880 you're just kind of

05:20:26.700 like you're kind of

05:20:28.800 just trying to dunk on

05:20:29.980 me now obviously no

05:20:31.360 i'm just you yeah

05:20:33.120 because my situation is

05:20:34.260 like the worst situation

05:20:35.440 here catholic mimics

05:20:37.280 donated sixty nine

05:20:38.720 dollars false many of

05:20:41.200 them will kill their own

05:20:42.220 babies before they are

05:20:43.400 born why do we think

05:20:45.200 after the child is born

05:20:46.500 it will be any different

05:20:47.560 they put themselves first

05:20:49.620 already look there's

05:20:54.660 wonderful just to be

05:20:56.120 clear there's absolutely

05:20:57.500 wonderful women out

05:20:59.220 there virtuous women

05:21:01.000 women who don't move

05:21:02.400 shady like that aren't

05:21:04.380 promiscuous don't have a

05:21:05.500 high body count absolutely

05:21:07.240 but there's a large

05:21:09.560 portion of a lot of women

05:21:11.300 who do move kind of shady

05:21:13.700 who are dating multiple

05:21:14.920 guys who are still hung up

05:21:16.380 on the next who's alpha

05:21:17.580 widow who will go right

05:21:19.080 back to that ex after you

05:21:20.600 do the chivalrous thing

05:21:21.740 and lay down your life for

05:21:23.080 her and then she'll be

05:21:24.280 that's not true i think i

05:21:25.540 would feel so badly if a

05:21:27.640 guy laid down his life for

05:21:29.200 me go ahead no keep going

05:21:30.960 that's like oh that's it

05:21:32.220 that's like crazy for me to

05:21:33.360 then just go to my ex like

05:21:34.880 caught it yeah hold on

05:21:36.360 would you not let your

05:21:37.240 life down that's what it's

05:21:38.340 going to take that's what

05:21:39.240 it's going to take no that's

05:21:40.280 not what i'm saying that's

05:21:41.180 what it takes with your ex

05:21:42.260 no for a guy to die i'm

05:21:43.720 telling you that i would

05:21:44.800 even i would even delete

05:21:46.920 myself for people i don't

05:21:48.540 know and whether or not you

05:21:49.780 want to believe that that's

05:21:50.800 totally fine you would do

05:21:52.120 that for her ex you would

05:21:53.840 delete yourself yeah that's

05:21:55.600 exactly it like if i'm going

05:21:57.020 out on a date with a guy i'm

05:21:58.640 not i'm not like having my

05:22:00.960 ex i'm not seeing my ex like

05:22:02.480 that like i actually have to

05:22:03.520 like the guy and be like okay

05:22:04.920 i'm gonna invest my time and

05:22:06.020 my energy and this guy's

05:22:07.640 different in some way but i'm

05:22:09.660 not like trying to like

05:22:10.880 juggle both at the same

05:22:12.040 time do you think it's a

05:22:13.220 sexist sexist statement to

05:22:15.220 say that women this isn't my

05:22:17.860 just okay preface disclaimer i

05:22:21.560 don't necessarily believe this

05:22:23.100 i'm just using using an

05:22:25.140 example don't fucking clip me

05:22:26.880 you guys do you think it

05:22:28.240 would be a sexist statement

05:22:29.140 for someone to say women's

05:22:30.780 job is in the kitchen women's

05:22:34.460 job is to make a man a

05:22:35.440 sandwich do you object to

05:22:37.620 that framework yeah because

05:22:38.700 that can count so just to

05:22:40.520 be clear wait do you think

05:22:42.660 it's you do you object to

05:22:44.040 the statement yes or no

05:22:44.980 quick answers please yes

05:22:46.620 yeah we can get dark

05:22:48.160 is it sexist is that your

05:22:50.840 question yeah what's the

05:22:51.800 question exactly is it

05:22:53.040 wrong women's job is in the

05:22:54.960 kitchen yes is that wrong

05:22:56.320 to say it's framed so

05:22:57.680 horribly yeah that's yeah

05:22:59.160 it's like the happy wife

05:23:00.340 happy life just answer the

05:23:01.500 question yes bad

05:23:02.380 connotation answer the

05:23:03.220 question yes it sounds

05:23:04.280 terrible but in a way i do

05:23:06.080 kind of agree i'm sorry yeah

05:23:08.680 yes it's wrong i i think it's

05:23:11.380 wrong saying it's their job

05:23:12.480 go ahead i don't think it's

05:23:13.880 wrong i think it's a part of

05:23:14.860 our job okay what about you

05:23:17.020 sorry the question one more

05:23:19.980 time is it wrong to say that

05:23:22.400 women's job is i mean the other

05:23:26.200 one is like barefoot pregnant in

05:23:28.280 the kitchen yeah no is that wrong

05:23:31.340 to say that's women's job

05:23:32.900 women's job is in the kitchen

05:23:38.380 yeah

05:23:39.080 um i need to think about this

05:23:43.420 sorry i know it seems simple yes

05:23:46.680 or no

05:23:47.040 okay i just don't like that it's

05:23:50.180 worded

05:23:50.680 i think all of you said yes it's

05:23:53.020 wrong

05:23:53.300 yeah i said it's because like as

05:23:56.760 animals that is our job like you

05:23:59.640 know with our biology like um

05:24:01.600 those owls you've seen the

05:24:03.420 videos of them they go out the

05:24:04.440 men go out and they're

05:24:05.160 constantly hunting and they

05:24:06.700 bring back the food for the

05:24:08.020 woman and the babies and sorry

05:24:10.660 so the owls go out and they

05:24:12.020 bring back the food the men are

05:24:13.120 always out providing and it's

05:24:14.760 just in our nature so okay so

05:24:17.560 why is it so it's wrong though

05:24:19.100 no um no no i'm saying that like

05:24:21.260 genetically it is correct i just

05:24:24.880 think that that is such a loaded

05:24:27.380 statement and because of the way

05:24:29.060 that we're evolving right now and

05:24:30.380 how women are they're not like that

05:24:32.120 anymore

05:24:32.540 that it rubs them the wrong way

05:24:34.960 they're not

05:24:35.560 thank you for making thank you all

05:24:37.320 of you

05:24:37.720 for making my argument if you're

05:24:39.980 prepared to say that it's wrong

05:24:41.500 that a woman

05:24:42.160 ought to be cooking in the kitchen

05:24:44.720 how is it not orders of magnitude

05:24:47.440 hold on let me finish don't

05:24:49.180 interrupt

05:24:49.620 stop let me actually make my point

05:24:51.940 how is it not orders of magnitude

05:24:55.000 more objectionable and sexist and

05:24:58.020 disgusting to say that men are

05:24:59.800 disposable and men need to lay down

05:25:01.960 their lives for women men need to

05:25:04.380 die for women

05:25:05.360 hey i never said they're normal

05:25:06.480 i don't make the rules

05:25:07.660 i don't know if i'm if this is i'm

05:25:09.260 living in a fantasy land here okay

05:25:11.160 that seems way fucking worse way

05:25:14.420 more of a raw deal that men need to

05:25:16.640 die and women have to be in the

05:25:19.200 kitchen

05:25:19.600 seriously

05:25:20.140 why is it only sexist when it's

05:25:23.140 anything that impacts women but if

05:25:25.380 it men that's your traditional that's

05:25:27.060 your role that's your role as a man

05:25:28.600 you're a beta male you're a feminine

05:25:30.240 you're not masculine but as a woman i

05:25:33.240 want to be a boss babe go girl you

05:25:35.580 can be a boss babe that's sexist if

05:25:37.700 you say that women should be in the

05:25:38.940 kitchen

05:25:39.260 because y'all perceive it as degrading

05:25:42.100 we i did not say that i agree with

05:25:45.580 that fact that women you're the only one

05:25:47.600 at the kitchen she's the only one at

05:25:49.340 the table but but y'all perceive that

05:25:51.440 i'm intuitively that's degrading to

05:25:53.460 y'all

05:25:53.940 no no i here's the thing i it's just

05:25:56.380 the way that i agree with it i don't

05:25:57.760 like the way it's worded

05:25:59.000 yeah but we're we're sensitive we're

05:26:01.020 like we're in our emotions of course

05:26:02.820 the way things are gonna be said

05:26:04.180 hold on let me actually address the

05:26:05.980 tone thing here

05:26:06.860 it was the way you said it was totally

05:26:09.500 the way you said hold on let me

05:26:10.940 address nobody's saying here die i'll

05:26:13.060 even double down

05:26:14.000 i'll even double down your job is to

05:26:16.440 die for us let me let me let's talk

05:26:18.740 about tone for a sec so i would argue

05:26:21.720 even if the tone is as polite and

05:26:24.440 favorable favorable as it can be if you

05:26:27.180 frame the if you frame that men ought to

05:26:30.040 die for women and if you say it in the

05:26:32.860 most polite way oh dear men i really

05:26:36.060 think you guys it would be i'm trying

05:26:38.420 to think of it it would be really great

05:26:40.040 if you guys could die could die for

05:26:42.220 women versus if i were to say damn

05:26:45.060 these bitches gotta be in the fucking

05:26:47.060 kitchen these fucking bitches i would

05:26:50.320 still argue that you saying it politely

05:26:52.320 that men should die is still orders of

05:26:55.820 magnitude worse than a man being a

05:26:59.340 raging misogynist saying women fucking

05:27:01.400 these fucking bitches ought to be in the

05:27:03.100 fucking kitchen

05:27:03.820 i think brian we acknowledge the

05:27:06.400 inequality we understand you should not

05:27:09.380 look in sales there is inequality in

05:27:12.060 this specific scenario yes yeah you

05:27:16.300 have a calling and maybe it's not fair

05:27:19.560 but it's your delivery is everything

05:27:20.960 you objected again it's orders of

05:27:23.480 magnitude a bigger ask for a guy to lay

05:27:27.060 down his life and die for a woman then

05:27:29.080 for a guy to be like you belong in the

05:27:31.480 kitchen yeah you're saying you belong in

05:27:33.540 a grave which one's worse no no it's

05:27:37.500 worse you don't need to be disrespectful

05:27:40.520 about it you don't need to say it like

05:27:42.060 that one's really bad and one's it's

05:27:44.920 just from one extreme to the other like

05:27:47.280 it's kind of like women is you saying

05:27:50.840 that's our only purpose yeah that's the

05:27:54.220 that's where we have our soul but it's

05:27:57.520 that's where we have the issue is women

05:27:59.960 belong in the kitchen i'll give you a

05:28:03.620 more fair i'll give you i'll try to give

05:28:05.600 you one more last fair example then we'll

05:28:07.240 move on

05:28:07.640 um okay so uh do you okay let me think

05:28:12.280 how i want to frame this precisely uh is

05:28:14.860 it

05:28:15.060 uh

05:28:17.060 hmm

05:28:19.740 shit i kind of lost it because there is

05:28:23.160 no parallel and we acknowledge that not

05:28:25.260 what did we say it sucks tough okay

05:28:29.860 here's the question do you think a guy

05:28:32.020 who's not willing to lay down his life

05:28:34.020 for his wife do you think that should

05:28:35.760 preclude him from uh like being eligible

05:28:39.360 for marriage no no hold on that let me

05:28:43.400 frame it people marry losers all the time

05:28:45.560 sure but like do you think that he's

05:28:47.800 marriage worthy do you think do you

05:28:50.140 think that man should be able to uh get a

05:28:53.220 mate anyone should be able to find love

05:28:55.120 yeah it's just i think okay i don't

05:28:57.660 think mass murderers should find love yeah

05:28:59.720 but you it's like that song like how

05:29:01.760 deep is your love like that one song

05:29:04.000 like yeah maybe not like psychopaths is

05:29:10.160 it okay do you think men who are not

05:29:13.340 willing

05:29:13.740 do you think men who are not willing to

05:29:17.120 lay down their lives for their wives

05:29:19.380 uh are worthy of that woman depends on

05:29:25.800 the woman yeah that's fine but if she's

05:29:28.720 not okay with it do you think it's do

05:29:31.340 you think it's uh good conduct on the

05:29:35.740 man's part no no no okay so final

05:29:41.980 question then um do you shit i feel like

05:29:47.820 framing's fucked on this um the way i

05:29:51.400 wanted to frame it was like okay if men

05:29:53.740 who aren't willing to lay down their

05:29:55.740 lives they shouldn't get married i would

05:29:58.000 just ask if women aren't virgins should

05:30:00.780 they be you know good mates for marriage

05:30:04.100 yeah yeah yeah yeah is this supposed to

05:30:10.460 be like an own i just don't see how it's

05:30:12.820 an own because you can get married if you

05:30:14.480 don't want to lay it down i'm not trying

05:30:15.400 for a woman that's fine that's your

05:30:17.800 project your prerogative and there's

05:30:19.540 probably a woman who agrees with that i

05:30:21.460 just don't think society it's honorable

05:30:23.420 just don't get with the girl that has

05:30:25.220 caught so many bodies

05:30:26.420 okay like there's no nuance in what

05:30:29.860 you're saying at all

05:30:31.140 will you i'm going i'm curious would you

05:30:35.280 guys be submissive to a boyfriend i was

05:30:37.680 about to ask

05:30:38.340 yeah yeah yes yes yes

05:30:42.980 a boyfriend real trump donated 69 dollars

05:30:49.000 like i said we get to turn into human

05:30:52.040 popsicles in the atlantic while the

05:30:54.080 women stay alive on top of a floating

05:30:55.940 door i won't even give up a seat for a

05:30:58.440 pregnant woman anymore thanks feminism

05:31:01.120 not this is like the world is going

05:31:04.520 backwards thank you uh you were about to

05:31:07.560 say i mean if he shows up and in all the

05:31:11.000 ways then yes

05:31:11.760 you would be submissive yeah okay um to a

05:31:16.060 husband yeah but i mean i think you can

05:31:17.780 still have those like qualities while

05:31:19.820 you're dating

05:31:20.420 like go from being i don't know like

05:31:24.260 combative and everything you're married

05:31:25.560 let's say you're married to a guy

05:31:26.980 i don't know how this is gonna it just

05:31:30.020 it just popped into up into my mind i've

05:31:32.020 never used this

05:31:32.660 question before but you're dating a guy or

05:31:35.720 sorry you're married to a guy and

05:31:38.340 he tells you he wants you to vote

05:31:42.160 a certain way perhaps you disagree with

05:31:45.580 do you will and he says i want you to

05:31:50.100 vote for this this then this or this

05:31:52.720 politician

05:31:53.220 even though maybe you don't although

05:31:56.560 there's there's a deeper thing there

05:31:58.380 well if your values don't align

05:32:00.580 politically then i don't know

05:32:01.800 just answer the uh yeah would you would

05:32:04.980 you be like yes husband i will vote

05:32:07.220 for this politician who you're

05:32:08.920 instructing me to believes that that's

05:32:10.360 going to benefit us as a whole and us

05:32:12.400 as a household and that's going to help

05:32:14.400 us in the long term then i'm going to

05:32:16.320 trust his judgment and cast my vote on

05:32:20.480 what he says

05:32:21.140 i think yeah if i'm dating someone and

05:32:23.740 they like knew my values and what i

05:32:25.600 wanted and they support that then

05:32:27.200 there's going to be reason behind it

05:32:28.540 but i would also ask follow-up questions

05:32:30.520 so biblically we are as christians we

05:32:35.000 are supposed to submit to our husband

05:32:36.320 unless it's dishonorable to god so in

05:32:39.620 certain scenarios we do not have to

05:32:42.340 submit to everything but we still need

05:32:44.220 to have submissive qualities

05:32:45.380 sure

05:32:46.040 um would i agree with his vote and do

05:32:50.680 it like as he tells me to he's like i

05:32:53.160 want you to vote for this politician

05:32:54.460 perhaps you don't i'm going to vote

05:32:57.360 more emotionally so i'd rather follow

05:32:59.360 his logic

05:33:00.000 okay i'd say you know me um i i want to

05:33:04.740 know why and so i'd want to i want a

05:33:06.980 little like not like a debate but i'd

05:33:08.520 be like tell me why i should as opposed

05:33:10.580 to what i think about this person and if

05:33:12.680 your logic is better then i'll be swayed

05:33:16.200 yes because if i'm submitting to a man

05:33:18.960 i'm trusting him wholeheartedly

05:33:20.440 yes and these two girls gave like perfect

05:33:24.100 answers

05:33:24.500 sure it was my first time that just

05:33:27.120 popped into my head not sure if it was

05:33:28.800 the greatest

05:33:29.380 thing but let me get into some of my

05:33:33.380 notes here i'll try to get through them

05:33:34.480 as quickly as possible some a lot of you

05:33:36.360 provided some pre-show notes so we will

05:33:38.960 try our best to get into it uh rahima you

05:33:42.660 said you once went on a first date and

05:33:44.460 ended up in tijuana

05:33:45.340 tell us the quick story there um quick

05:33:50.800 story i turned 21 and i matched with this

05:33:53.580 guy who went to my school and none of my

05:33:56.280 friends are 21 so i really wanted to go to

05:33:58.080 the club and we were driving to the club

05:34:00.100 but then i realized that we were driving a

05:34:02.220 little south and then then he was like do

05:34:05.180 you have your passport and i'm like i do

05:34:06.980 okay and then we got there and we went to

05:34:11.280 a club called hong kong in tijuana and he

05:34:14.560 met a lady of the night because i didn't

05:34:16.080 want to sleep with him

05:34:16.800 um and then i had to call my main two

05:34:19.280 family out of tijuana

05:34:20.360 oh my god oh my god and i ran into him

05:34:24.140 on campus too

05:34:24.840 is that why you keep your passport on you

05:34:27.780 now oh yes just in case you never know

05:34:30.100 never know never know q you're trying to

05:34:32.500 go to tj tonight we can have fun

05:34:36.300 opposite way uh can i have you read this

05:34:40.480 one please slayer gtx thank you for the

05:34:43.040 69 year old nobility standard is it noble

05:34:47.180 and standard for you to not keep your body

05:34:49.080 a temple for the person whom you love

05:34:51.000 and flaunt it just because you can

05:34:53.040 brian not dying for women isn't bad when

05:34:56.120 the calculation is this generation ai

05:34:58.900 partners when

05:34:59.760 i can't yeah appreciate it slayer look i

05:35:06.700 just there are absolutely wonderful women

05:35:09.380 out there virtuous women great women

05:35:11.380 perhaps even women that you know

05:35:13.580 absolutely would be worth doing that

05:35:16.060 for um i just can't in good conscious

05:35:20.060 knowing the current dating landscape

05:35:22.600 just broad brush generally advise men

05:35:26.600 to lay down their life for any given

05:35:29.580 woman

05:35:29.960 um i just can't paint with that broad

05:35:33.900 brush the current dating landscape's

05:35:35.600 absolutely fucked

05:35:36.700 there's great people out there there's a

05:35:38.880 lot of bad people out there

05:35:39.940 i guess i can meet you there i get that

05:35:42.840 brian

05:35:43.120 okay beautiful uh yeah i mean but uh

05:35:48.580 yeah i don't know and uh just seems like

05:35:52.600 you know in order for there to be

05:35:55.140 chivalry there has to be some

05:35:56.820 corresponding behavior on women's part

05:35:59.040 to you know be deserving of said

05:36:04.420 chivalry

05:36:04.920 you don't just get to be a modern

05:36:06.640 woman but still expect to get chivalrous

05:36:09.680 treatment

05:36:10.020 can't be i think we all agree with you

05:36:12.600 on that one yeah

05:36:13.300 yeah well how many women are ladies

05:36:16.140 let's say

05:36:17.020 i can't give you a number are you asking

05:36:19.740 which one of us

05:36:20.440 uh i don't know but i mean i think

05:36:23.280 there's a massive for example what are

05:36:24.940 you saying

05:36:25.520 well what would be like the corresponding

05:36:27.400 chivalrous

05:36:28.100 women don't really are chivalrous but

05:36:31.060 real trump donated 69 dollars

05:36:34.140 feminism has given us the talking corpse

05:36:37.100 joe biden and what has that gotten us

05:36:39.180 high gas prices

05:36:40.680 crazy inflation

05:36:42.040 wars all over the world and pregnant men

05:36:45.120 only the goat d trump can fix this mess

05:36:48.060 yeah

05:36:48.420 uh thank you man appreciate it appreciate it

05:36:53.080 i just think what would be the corresponding

05:36:54.600 like chivalrous

05:36:55.380 chivalry thing for women

05:36:57.740 they don't have chivalry

05:36:58.940 having babies and nurturing them and raising them

05:37:01.820 well i mean i'm i'm talking more so from like a

05:37:04.000 behavior

05:37:04.400 behavioral

05:37:05.280 behavioral conduct thing i mean i see a

05:37:08.080 total lack of modesty

05:37:09.620 among a large swath of women

05:37:11.780 modesty's gone

05:37:13.400 promiscuity is rampant

05:37:15.500 and i just it occurs to me that

05:37:17.360 given the current climate that

05:37:19.200 it's not clear to me if

05:37:20.780 you're deserving of

05:37:23.340 chivalrous treatment

05:37:25.120 that's why the good ones are gems now

05:37:27.860 brian and you'll find one

05:37:29.120 wait what's that

05:37:29.860 the good ones are gems now

05:37:31.460 and you'll find one

05:37:32.240 yeah they'll be more rare

05:37:33.560 and just more precious to you

05:37:35.580 more special to you

05:37:36.620 yeah

05:37:36.980 anyways i promise we will

05:37:38.820 try to avoid going back to uh that thing

05:37:41.460 we read we read this one right

05:37:43.240 please

05:37:43.460 pretty pleased with the cherry on top

05:37:45.200 we'll get through the notes

05:37:46.000 let's see we were

05:37:47.180 uh yeah really quick guys go to twitch.tv

05:37:50.080 slash whatever

05:37:50.700 can you highlight the thing over there

05:37:52.740 it's twitch.tv

05:37:55.240 uh guys twitch.tv slash whatever

05:37:59.240 drops a follow

05:37:59.840 drop us a prime sub

05:38:00.700 if you have one

05:38:01.480 uh you can bring it back to the other one

05:38:03.400 okay and then

05:38:04.560 you disagreed

05:38:05.900 not really into the red pill stuff

05:38:07.880 i don't really consider myself

05:38:09.120 red pill

05:38:09.900 really

05:38:10.480 i don't know

05:38:12.340 i not like

05:38:13.160 so what what are your disagreements

05:38:15.980 on that

05:38:16.940 i just

05:38:17.520 i want another podcast

05:38:19.140 oh you are on the miami one

05:38:22.420 i thought i recognized you

05:38:25.560 for something

05:38:26.000 i was like i've seen her somewhere before

05:38:27.920 and they were

05:38:29.200 did you get kicked off

05:38:30.600 no

05:38:31.300 no i did not

05:38:32.280 okay

05:38:32.760 he was on a tirade about something else

05:38:34.600 okay

05:38:35.700 that's it just

05:38:38.300 you didn't fuck with the podcast

05:38:40.040 okay

05:38:40.440 uh we have jade

05:38:42.760 you said you're mixed feminist and traditionalist

05:38:45.160 what do you mean by that

05:38:47.260 i think um

05:38:48.720 og feminist

05:38:50.080 where you know i want women to be able to vote

05:38:52.040 and you know dress how they like

05:38:53.740 and i want women to have

05:38:55.820 you know their freedom

05:38:57.440 and their artistic expression

05:38:59.840 like i don't want to hide anything from anyone

05:39:02.220 like that's not my place

05:39:03.420 but for me personally

05:39:05.460 i i want a more traditional relationship

05:39:08.560 and i want to be more traditional

05:39:10.440 i was raised by my grandparents

05:39:12.000 and i i wish i was more like my grandma

05:39:14.420 she was stunning

05:39:15.580 you said that

05:39:16.860 women should be able to wear whatever they want

05:39:19.200 what i mean by that is

05:39:21.020 i don't want to tell a woman like

05:39:22.460 oh i i don't like how you're dressed

05:39:24.080 because you're not traditional

05:39:24.880 it's like i'm never going to tell a woman what to wear

05:39:27.160 i just personally am just like

05:39:29.160 i there's certain things i wouldn't wear

05:39:31.180 oh she's saying we should have the choice

05:39:32.840 yeah

05:39:33.380 but for me i want a more traditional relationship

05:39:35.800 and like people ask me like

05:39:37.240 why i wear corsets

05:39:38.120 i love corsets

05:39:38.980 because they're like old-fashioned

05:39:40.060 and even though this one is a little bit more

05:39:42.360 raunchy

05:39:43.220 um you did say come dress like you're on a date

05:39:45.620 or something

05:39:46.080 and you know

05:39:47.220 i i like wearing traditional clothing too

05:39:49.560 like victorian era clothing

05:39:50.900 it's really weird

05:39:52.700 bachelor girls

05:39:53.640 they were like the first feminists

05:39:55.040 isn't that the definition of feminism

05:39:57.060 have you ever worn a bodice

05:39:58.100 i thought the really tight one

05:40:01.000 no those hurt

05:40:02.340 those are fun

05:40:03.040 i mean i do want to dig in a little bit there

05:40:07.360 on the women should be able to wear

05:40:08.920 whatever they want

05:40:10.060 i don't disagree with you necessarily

05:40:14.360 what about tattoos

05:40:15.660 but

05:40:16.100 i i don't want tattoos on me

05:40:20.160 i have like commitment issues with tattoos

05:40:21.720 um but i i see some and i'm like

05:40:24.520 it's a work of art

05:40:25.320 it means something to you

05:40:26.360 there's tribal tattoos

05:40:27.780 traditional tattoos

05:40:28.880 celtic welsh tattoos

05:40:30.540 that are gorgeous

05:40:31.280 but i just i can't have them

05:40:33.400 but you know if you want them

05:40:35.560 do it

05:40:36.620 okay

05:40:37.000 you said you had a dating horror story

05:40:39.060 the perfect man on paper

05:40:40.840 do you want to tell us

05:40:42.240 that

05:40:42.820 um

05:40:44.240 you crying

05:40:44.840 no

05:40:45.460 it's like

05:40:46.360 it's terrible

05:40:47.520 um

05:40:48.380 so he's

05:40:49.480 a respectable like businessman

05:40:51.020 um

05:40:51.800 well spoken

05:40:52.600 highly educated

05:40:53.600 multiple languages

05:40:54.440 to me it was

05:40:55.680 this is a great guy

05:40:57.160 you know

05:40:57.440 he could have

05:40:57.920 a fantastic like future

05:40:59.420 ahead of him

05:40:59.980 i see a lot of potential in him

05:41:01.680 and um

05:41:03.240 we were going on a date

05:41:04.500 and his phone was blowing up

05:41:05.680 and i was like

05:41:06.220 he's a businessman

05:41:07.200 it's okay

05:41:07.680 i'm not gonna get jealous

05:41:08.620 um

05:41:09.560 but then as i was leaving his house

05:41:11.780 i saw a woman

05:41:12.800 coming up in like an uber

05:41:14.440 or something

05:41:15.040 and i was like

05:41:16.120 hmm

05:41:16.420 interesting

05:41:16.940 and i asked around

05:41:18.760 and i was like

05:41:19.320 hey do you know this

05:41:20.220 this guy

05:41:20.800 i just met him the other week

05:41:22.040 and he seems perfect

05:41:23.140 they're like

05:41:23.880 yeah he has a carousel of women

05:41:25.760 and he gets through

05:41:27.660 about four a day

05:41:28.540 and i was like

05:41:29.640 that's incredible

05:41:31.360 and you said rotating weekly

05:41:33.740 is that correct

05:41:34.500 so i found out from these girls

05:41:36.380 whether it's true or not

05:41:37.820 but there were similar stories

05:41:39.120 from all of them

05:41:39.740 that he would see

05:41:41.060 you know

05:41:41.800 multiple women in a day

05:41:42.780 and he had like

05:41:44.460 his set of women

05:41:45.460 that he would rotate

05:41:46.260 like this is my wednesday afternoon

05:41:47.840 this is gonna be my saturday morning

05:41:49.940 and we're gonna go play

05:41:50.860 badminton or whatever

05:41:52.200 badminton

05:41:53.380 and i was like

05:41:53.780 you know what

05:41:54.280 i'm

05:41:54.660 oh is it badminton

05:41:55.820 oh no no you're fine

05:41:56.940 you're fine

05:41:57.260 sorry

05:41:57.340 um

05:41:58.200 and so i was just like

05:41:59.320 okay i don't want to be

05:41:59.960 one of those carousel women

05:42:01.540 so i was like

05:42:02.080 right i'll end it

05:42:02.900 because there's no changing that

05:42:04.280 hmm

05:42:04.720 okay

05:42:05.460 and so he was seeing like

05:42:07.440 like 20

05:42:09.040 20 plus women per week

05:42:10.940 i would assume so

05:42:12.300 yeah

05:42:12.560 now when you say

05:42:13.740 he was the perfect man on paper

05:42:15.320 can you like list

05:42:16.560 the attributes

05:42:17.560 so for me

05:42:20.140 um

05:42:20.660 he was well traveled

05:42:21.700 spoke multiple languages

05:42:23.200 um

05:42:24.020 he could hold a conversation

05:42:26.040 he was

05:42:27.360 very well educated

05:42:28.880 had multiple businesses

05:42:30.220 and

05:42:30.740 i just saw him as very very attractive

05:42:33.020 like his

05:42:34.160 well

05:42:34.540 was he wealthy

05:42:35.180 he was wealthy

05:42:36.680 not like an extreme

05:42:37.760 wealth

05:42:38.340 but

05:42:38.640 yeah

05:42:39.300 he

05:42:39.580 owned multiple businesses

05:42:40.720 very attractive

05:42:41.640 very intelligent

05:42:42.460 yeah

05:42:42.980 good personality

05:42:44.600 and then let's all

05:42:45.920 just also looks wise

05:42:47.140 attract physically attractive

05:42:48.400 good yeah

05:42:49.300 yeah

05:42:49.660 tall

05:42:50.020 taller than me

05:42:51.580 which is always a

05:42:52.400 how

05:42:52.640 how tall are you

05:42:53.420 i'm five nine

05:42:54.320 and he was six foot

05:42:55.240 which is six foot

05:42:56.080 okay

05:42:56.480 um

05:42:57.960 good in the

05:43:00.560 bedroom

05:43:01.320 we never got around to that

05:43:02.860 that's

05:43:03.660 oh

05:43:03.860 yeah

05:43:04.540 okay

05:43:04.900 oh so you only

05:43:06.060 you only went on a date

05:43:07.480 like once or twice

05:43:08.440 or

05:43:08.720 i do have a rule of like

05:43:09.920 i have to really get to know them

05:43:11.120 before i

05:43:11.620 have the carnal

05:43:12.860 the carnal knowledge

05:43:13.900 interesting

05:43:14.580 okay

05:43:14.900 it's because i'm terrified

05:43:15.840 of like stds

05:43:17.160 personally

05:43:17.640 dd yeah

05:43:18.140 yeah

05:43:18.460 um

05:43:19.420 and so when i found out

05:43:21.000 i was like

05:43:21.340 i dodged

05:43:22.140 potentially a huge

05:43:23.480 bullet

05:43:24.120 right

05:43:24.520 you know

05:43:25.060 fair

05:43:25.440 and then uh

05:43:27.520 do you think he's still got the rotation going on

05:43:30.240 how long ago was this

05:43:31.380 that was six years ago

05:43:32.580 six years ago

05:43:33.300 so 21 women per week

05:43:35.140 hold on let me do some fucking math here

05:43:36.400 wait

05:43:37.000 21

05:43:37.520 times 54

05:43:39.080 let's just do 20 times 50

05:43:41.680 that's

05:43:42.580 wait

05:43:43.860 shit

05:43:44.780 is it the same women

05:43:46.080 is that a thousand a year

05:43:47.180 about a thousand a year

05:43:48.360 i don't

05:43:48.620 i think he had like

05:43:49.900 it was the same

05:43:50.700 yeah the same

05:43:51.780 rotating

05:43:52.660 and he was trying to put you in the rotation

05:43:53.940 what date were you on

05:43:54.940 oh he's trying to fit her in the rotation

05:43:56.380 he's trying to fit you on

05:43:57.240 i think he liked to collect

05:43:59.860 women

05:44:00.380 he's a

05:44:00.980 fucking desirable

05:44:01.760 and he was like

05:44:02.140 ooh a welsh one

05:44:03.100 yeah

05:44:04.160 i love that

05:44:04.860 is your

05:44:05.340 is your accent welsh by the way

05:44:06.700 um

05:44:07.300 is it like a welsh accent

05:44:08.640 no this is like received

05:44:09.960 rp

05:44:10.460 pronunciation

05:44:10.720 yeah

05:44:11.240 yeah

05:44:11.520 it's because if i spoke in my welsh accent

05:44:14.000 really up it

05:44:15.320 like make it really rp

05:44:16.740 um

05:44:18.380 like the

05:44:18.900 like the bbc

05:44:19.820 yeah

05:44:20.760 can we hear something

05:44:21.580 hi you're listening to bbc1 wales

05:44:26.020 tonight we have brian

05:44:28.020 that's good

05:44:29.620 we gotta hire her

05:44:30.980 we gotta get her on the pocket

05:44:32.540 you're gonna read

05:44:33.300 you're gonna do all the tts

05:44:34.700 all the super chats

05:44:35.780 we'll get you back

05:44:37.340 uh

05:44:37.900 probably not though

05:44:38.640 because you probably think

05:44:39.680 i'm a toxic piece of shit

05:44:40.900 who won't die for a woman

05:44:41.780 um

05:44:42.120 no

05:44:42.440 but

05:44:42.860 everyone's different

05:44:43.980 thank you

05:44:45.080 thank you

05:44:45.460 thank you

05:44:45.740 thank you

05:44:46.260 that's what i'm trying to say

05:44:47.480 what was i gonna say

05:44:48.580 uh

05:44:49.240 but uh

05:44:50.640 are you like super familiar

05:44:52.000 with all the other accents too

05:44:53.180 like can you do the uh

05:44:55.160 like scousin

05:44:56.140 can you do cockney

05:44:56.820 yeah

05:44:58.000 let's hear it

05:44:58.820 no

05:44:59.360 come on

05:45:00.100 it's so bad

05:45:00.880 um

05:45:01.480 i can do scottish really well

05:45:02.800 because my granddad was from edinburgh

05:45:04.440 so uh

05:45:05.800 from scott

05:45:06.460 i'll ask you a question

05:45:07.280 really deep in his throat

05:45:08.440 i'll ask you

05:45:09.020 i'll ask you a question

05:45:10.060 and we'll do

05:45:10.520 we'll have you respond in

05:45:11.580 scottish accent

05:45:13.040 you said that you wanted to

05:45:16.100 you disagreed on perhaps the body count issue

05:45:20.340 oh um

05:45:22.700 in scottish though

05:45:24.200 oh hi

05:45:25.340 uh

05:45:26.260 i think that like

05:45:27.920 people are really like obsessed with the whole like

05:45:31.040 oh what's your number

05:45:31.920 but like it shouldn't matter that much

05:45:33.760 you know if it's like 50 or like 500

05:45:36.500 it shouldn't matter

05:45:37.560 but

05:45:38.840 pretty good

05:45:39.220 yeah

05:45:39.580 can i go back to being normal again

05:45:41.240 yeah yeah

05:45:41.660 but so wait actually 50

05:45:43.480 sorry

05:45:43.780 no no i mean like

05:45:45.140 i was just trying to think of words that sounded good

05:45:47.620 so what's your yeah

05:45:48.780 what's your actual position

05:45:49.720 um

05:45:50.440 again with the society that we're in right now

05:45:53.540 um

05:45:54.100 the pressures

05:45:54.900 the media

05:45:55.440 everything that women are brought up with

05:45:57.020 um

05:45:57.900 i think there is a pressure for them to sleep with men

05:46:00.600 a lot younger now as well

05:46:02.500 um

05:46:03.400 so to say to a woman

05:46:05.180 you're not worth as much

05:46:06.500 because you have

05:46:07.600 a high body count

05:46:08.640 it's not fair on her

05:46:10.260 she can't change that

05:46:11.380 and if she goes

05:46:12.520 you know what

05:46:12.980 i'm a born again christian

05:46:14.260 and i want one man for the rest of my life

05:46:16.540 and i regret everything i did in my past

05:46:18.580 sure

05:46:18.840 then

05:46:19.580 like

05:46:20.480 good on her

05:46:21.200 and it shouldn't matter

05:46:22.360 and i would never judge her for that

05:46:23.840 but that's just one example

05:46:26.160 and one religion she could go down

05:46:27.880 it could be another one

05:46:28.940 wait so

05:46:31.240 because she can't change it

05:46:33.640 then she should be forgiven for it

05:46:36.020 is that

05:46:36.540 is that your position

05:46:38.400 um

05:46:39.000 if she

05:46:39.580 has like a regret for it

05:46:41.720 and real remorse

05:46:43.700 and she's like

05:46:44.740 god i really wish i hadn't done that

05:46:46.480 then

05:46:47.500 i'm gonna

05:46:48.600 i'm gonna be like yeah

05:46:49.640 that's interesting

05:46:50.480 because that was one of my questions

05:46:51.580 do you ladies have any

05:46:52.720 sexual regret

05:46:53.780 sexual

05:46:54.400 experiences that you regret

05:46:56.280 yeah

05:46:56.880 i think that

05:46:58.760 anything before college

05:47:00.520 um

05:47:01.720 yes

05:47:02.640 um

05:47:03.240 anything

05:47:03.720 anyone

05:47:04.320 well well i mean you know

05:47:06.140 you grow

05:47:06.500 i grew up in a small town

05:47:07.640 and you know

05:47:08.660 it was

05:47:09.160 you know people

05:47:10.020 they either had babies

05:47:11.260 or um

05:47:12.460 if they couldn't find a mate

05:47:13.440 they had to get out of town

05:47:14.440 you know

05:47:14.860 and so like

05:47:16.040 obviously

05:47:17.500 you know

05:47:18.400 you

05:47:19.080 have a couple connections

05:47:20.520 and

05:47:21.220 they don't work out

05:47:22.800 so it's like

05:47:23.500 okay

05:47:23.760 well

05:47:24.200 we've all settled down

05:47:25.280 it's like okay

05:47:25.760 time to skip town

05:47:26.500 go to another one

05:47:27.100 and then

05:47:27.580 you go

05:47:28.340 and you're like

05:47:28.800 oh man

05:47:29.160 like that's kind of

05:47:30.040 what i know

05:47:30.640 because it's what i

05:47:31.580 you know

05:47:33.380 what i know

05:47:33.840 so

05:47:34.180 i don't know if like

05:47:35.920 community

05:47:36.340 i wouldn't say community

05:47:37.740 is to blame

05:47:38.600 but i would say

05:47:39.340 the the area

05:47:40.420 that you live in

05:47:41.300 can affect

05:47:42.100 how you think

05:47:43.860 from a youth

05:47:44.920 and if that

05:47:45.980 is your life

05:47:46.780 as a youth

05:47:47.320 then i mean

05:47:48.420 you're gonna act like

05:47:49.100 that way

05:47:49.360 that way

05:47:49.380 as an adult

05:47:49.860 until it's like

05:47:50.820 oh well

05:47:51.260 do it

05:47:51.620 you're a virgin

05:47:52.000 and i'm like

05:47:52.340 dude that passed

05:47:52.920 long ago

05:47:53.940 real trump

05:47:56.320 donated

05:47:56.800 69 dollars

05:47:58.340 that pretty girl

05:47:59.720 looks like the young

05:48:00.660 hot queen

05:48:01.240 from that show

05:48:02.000 the crowd

05:48:02.500 question for her

05:48:04.080 what's her thoughts

05:48:05.140 on megan merkel

05:48:06.180 she married a prince

05:48:07.500 and she still

05:48:08.140 won't shut the eff up

05:48:09.260 they live near her

05:48:11.460 actually

05:48:11.960 megan merkel

05:48:13.040 and prince harry

05:48:14.080 oh god

05:48:14.600 um

05:48:15.640 what do i think

05:48:16.860 about megan merkel

05:48:17.740 yeah

05:48:18.200 do we really

05:48:19.720 want to go there

05:48:20.280 give us like a brief

05:48:21.480 like a 30 second

05:48:22.840 snippet

05:48:23.640 i'm not a royalist

05:48:24.760 i just wasn't

05:48:25.380 brought up that way

05:48:26.200 um

05:48:26.920 i do think that

05:48:28.180 she is extremely

05:48:29.120 blessed in her life

05:48:30.240 right now

05:48:30.640 she has

05:48:31.140 got so many privileges

05:48:32.700 that a lot of women

05:48:33.880 in her position

05:48:34.540 may not have

05:48:35.360 um

05:48:35.780 so i think

05:48:36.980 there's a certain

05:48:37.580 level of grace

05:48:38.320 that she's not

05:48:38.880 moving with

05:48:39.520 and that princess

05:48:40.420 diana had so much

05:48:41.560 grace

05:48:41.980 and i wish that

05:48:43.680 that was

05:48:44.380 you know

05:48:44.960 kept up

05:48:45.540 so you're not

05:48:48.040 in favor of the

05:48:49.080 the relationship

05:48:50.680 um

05:48:51.760 no i i don't

05:48:52.680 mind it

05:48:53.180 i just

05:48:53.620 i wish that

05:48:54.580 she was

05:48:55.220 i guess a little

05:48:56.100 bit more

05:48:56.680 grateful

05:48:57.620 and

05:48:58.600 had a little

05:48:59.420 bit more honor

05:48:59.980 and didn't seem

05:49:00.820 to be

05:49:01.280 complaining

05:49:01.840 because that's

05:49:02.220 what people

05:49:02.660 see her as

05:49:03.900 is complaining

05:49:04.640 okay

05:49:06.060 in response

05:49:06.980 to your

05:49:07.480 body count

05:49:08.500 objection

05:49:08.940 i always find

05:49:10.020 it interesting

05:49:10.520 because

05:49:11.460 women have

05:49:12.800 an issue

05:49:13.380 with a lot

05:49:13.980 of things

05:49:14.420 that hold

05:49:14.880 them accountable

05:49:15.480 and i say

05:49:17.360 all the time

05:49:17.980 women are just

05:49:18.860 they just don't

05:49:20.120 like anything

05:49:20.700 that's disadvantageous

05:49:21.840 to them

05:49:22.180 and when it

05:49:22.920 comes to body

05:49:23.420 count you're

05:49:23.940 essentially holding

05:49:24.480 a woman

05:49:24.820 accountable

05:49:25.400 so

05:49:26.180 in what

05:49:27.420 world

05:49:27.920 does

05:49:28.760 quantifiable

05:49:30.580 history not

05:49:31.300 matter

05:49:31.640 credit score

05:49:32.400 matters

05:49:32.900 school transcripts

05:49:34.160 matters

05:49:34.540 because these

05:49:35.420 things indicate

05:49:36.220 your patterns

05:49:37.500 of behavior

05:49:38.140 or they tell

05:49:38.960 a story about

05:49:39.640 what you did

05:49:40.480 in the past

05:49:41.040 and what you're

05:49:41.620 more likely to

05:49:42.240 do in the future

05:49:42.860 so

05:49:43.820 i guess

05:49:45.760 my question

05:49:46.440 is

05:49:46.940 why do y'all

05:49:48.440 have an issue

05:49:49.060 with the fact

05:49:49.980 that men

05:49:50.560 don't want

05:49:51.260 women who have

05:49:51.980 a higher body

05:49:52.660 count

05:49:52.980 what's the issue

05:49:54.020 with that

05:49:54.480 i don't personally

05:49:55.600 have an issue

05:49:56.020 with it

05:49:56.300 again i'm just

05:49:56.920 more of like

05:49:57.680 that's my

05:49:58.200 personal preference

05:49:59.060 um

05:50:00.040 accountability

05:50:02.340 donated 69

05:50:03.980 dollars

05:50:04.580 my friend

05:50:05.680 payseed

05:50:06.240 three days

05:50:07.360 later

05:50:07.760 while celebrating

05:50:08.860 his life

05:50:09.580 the gf asked

05:50:10.660 me to sleep

05:50:11.340 with her that

05:50:11.940 night

05:50:12.260 i was sick

05:50:13.420 if it helps

05:50:14.480 women not feel

05:50:15.360 negative emotions

05:50:16.380 any action

05:50:17.540 permissible

05:50:18.140 damn that's

05:50:20.020 crazy accountability

05:50:20.880 uh

05:50:22.080 shit

05:50:22.840 that's

05:50:23.940 wild

05:50:24.540 um

05:50:25.080 okay to answer

05:50:26.040 your question

05:50:26.520 um

05:50:27.020 i don't care

05:50:27.580 what someone's

05:50:28.120 body count is

05:50:29.000 male or female

05:50:29.840 um

05:50:30.780 if you say

05:50:31.900 i don't want a woman

05:50:32.780 who slept with more

05:50:33.580 than 10 people

05:50:34.340 i'm not gonna judge you

05:50:35.760 i that's what you want

05:50:37.620 that's fine

05:50:38.280 um

05:50:38.920 i just think that if a woman

05:50:40.720 maybe was in the

05:50:42.560 like

05:50:43.220 industry

05:50:44.440 you know

05:50:45.200 um

05:50:45.940 and then she comes out

05:50:46.740 of it and she's like

05:50:47.380 i really wish i hadn't

05:50:48.540 done that

05:50:48.880 and there's remorse

05:50:49.600 um

05:50:50.640 i'm not saying

05:50:52.360 you should forgive

05:50:53.080 her i'm just saying

05:50:53.880 that me

05:50:54.580 and it's not even

05:50:55.360 a forgiving thing

05:50:56.180 it's like okay

05:50:57.120 if you regret it

05:50:57.800 then that's

05:50:58.660 that's okay

05:51:00.080 that's good

05:51:00.740 in a way

05:51:01.340 but if okay

05:51:02.080 but we're talking

05:51:02.680 about dating here

05:51:03.720 so it

05:51:04.380 like it seems

05:51:06.040 to me like

05:51:06.580 you're saying

05:51:07.000 that men should

05:51:07.740 perhaps consider

05:51:08.900 overlooking it

05:51:10.380 i think in

05:51:12.200 rare cases

05:51:13.800 i think she's saying

05:51:16.460 that like

05:51:16.920 i think she's saying

05:51:18.260 that if a woman

05:51:18.920 decides to change

05:51:20.320 and she decides

05:51:21.620 to move her life

05:51:22.900 in a new direction

05:51:23.580 then her actions

05:51:26.420 and what she did

05:51:27.780 in the past

05:51:28.580 if a man chooses

05:51:30.380 not to forgive her

05:51:31.000 that's his prerogative

05:51:32.180 that's his prerogative

05:51:33.080 and that's

05:51:33.560 that's perfectly okay

05:51:34.680 but it doesn't mean

05:51:35.520 that she is

05:51:36.340 as a whole

05:51:37.160 100% unforgivable

05:51:38.780 somebody can still

05:51:40.560 love her

05:51:41.120 somebody can still

05:51:42.460 love her

05:51:42.780 but i don't

05:51:43.560 i don't consider

05:51:44.300 it a matter of forgiveness

05:51:45.300 i just consider

05:51:46.140 it a matter of

05:51:46.760 risk assessment

05:51:47.540 because of course

05:51:48.880 she should take

05:51:49.800 accountability

05:51:50.320 and own it

05:51:50.980 of course people

05:51:51.700 can change

05:51:52.400 but is there

05:51:53.500 anything about

05:51:54.460 this woman's

05:51:55.400 tendencies to behave

05:51:56.600 in certain ways

05:51:57.300 in the past

05:51:57.940 that may come up

05:51:59.640 in our relationship

05:52:00.880 you know

05:52:01.640 will she potentially

05:52:02.360 revert back

05:52:03.080 to her old ways

05:52:04.220 with me

05:52:05.020 will she cheat on me

05:52:06.520 it depends

05:52:07.100 like if she did that

05:52:08.420 while she was

05:52:09.140 in a relationship

05:52:09.880 or if she was

05:52:10.840 just single

05:52:11.400 for a long time

05:52:12.480 you know

05:52:13.500 if she has

05:52:13.940 history of cheating

05:52:14.660 then sure

05:52:15.260 i would think

05:52:15.860 that as a man

05:52:16.680 considering her

05:52:17.520 to be in a relationship

05:52:18.600 while he would

05:52:20.160 feel that she

05:52:21.780 could repeat

05:52:22.300 those patterns

05:52:23.000 i think promiscuity

05:52:25.940 in any shape

05:52:27.000 way or form

05:52:27.800 is not good

05:52:28.820 but i think

05:52:30.780 to her point

05:52:31.620 was that

05:52:32.580 if a woman

05:52:33.020 does decide

05:52:33.740 to have a recourse

05:52:35.160 and completely

05:52:36.500 change her life

05:52:37.460 then we're just

05:52:38.960 saying as a whole

05:52:39.820 she can still

05:52:41.960 be deserving

05:52:42.500 of a good man

05:52:43.320 and what if

05:52:44.780 i told you

05:52:45.320 that was me

05:52:46.020 what if i told you

05:52:46.940 that my body count

05:52:47.960 was well above 25

05:52:49.480 well above 50

05:52:50.720 and i have found

05:52:51.440 someone who has

05:52:51.980 accepted me

05:52:52.700 for the fact

05:52:53.440 that i have done

05:52:54.080 professional porn

05:52:54.980 that for the fact

05:52:55.920 that i have done

05:52:56.540 only fans

05:52:57.200 that does not

05:52:58.220 diminish my value

05:52:59.760 my body count

05:53:00.720 does not diminish

05:53:01.500 what i am able

05:53:02.880 to provide

05:53:03.680 outside of that

05:53:05.020 so i am that woman

05:53:06.560 that y'all are speaking

05:53:07.540 of and i am deserving

05:53:09.020 of love

05:53:09.720 and i have found

05:53:10.780 someone who is going

05:53:11.520 to accept me

05:53:12.260 for who i am

05:53:13.380 and accept my past

05:53:14.580 and look beyond that

05:53:15.780 because they themselves

05:53:16.780 have had their

05:53:18.000 fair share of things

05:53:19.720 but he's an industry

05:53:20.960 too right

05:53:21.480 or he was

05:53:22.460 and now we're done

05:53:23.600 now we're exclusive

05:53:24.840 oh that's easy

05:53:25.680 so he probably understands

05:53:26.680 yeah

05:53:27.040 but really if the body count

05:53:28.380 is a concern for you

05:53:29.440 then to that extreme

05:53:31.400 then you shouldn't

05:53:32.400 even consider that woman

05:53:33.380 just move on

05:53:33.980 go to find a woman

05:53:34.660 in your wheelhouse

05:53:35.420 and that's why i said

05:53:36.280 in the beginning

05:53:36.720 of a relationship

05:53:37.400 make sure your core values

05:53:39.060 are exactly the same

05:53:40.060 or very close

05:53:41.220 but i think the thing

05:53:42.120 when it comes to

05:53:42.640 the body count thing

05:53:43.500 is that

05:53:44.100 a lot of women

05:53:46.700 want to give pushback

05:53:48.020 instead of saying

05:53:49.140 oh hey

05:53:50.520 that's just your preference

05:53:51.640 you're entitled

05:53:52.260 to your preference

05:53:52.960 then they want to

05:53:53.840 start shaming men

05:53:54.940 for those preferences

05:53:56.480 by saying

05:53:57.200 oh

05:53:57.540 you're insecure

05:53:58.440 or even

05:53:59.840 yeah a lot of women

05:54:01.340 will say

05:54:01.700 that's insecure

05:54:03.040 why should you care

05:54:04.440 about body count

05:54:05.820 it's in her past

05:54:07.060 the past doesn't matter

05:54:08.460 then you start trying

05:54:10.200 to make argumentation

05:54:11.580 for it

05:54:12.520 that's when men

05:54:13.780 are going to provide

05:54:14.800 counter argumentation

05:54:16.080 and say

05:54:16.760 well actually

05:54:17.440 here's

05:54:18.120 a b c d

05:54:19.080 you know

05:54:19.660 x y z

05:54:20.400 here's the reasons

05:54:21.800 why it's

05:54:22.540 no

05:54:23.020 men shouldn't

05:54:24.040 and actually

05:54:24.660 and i think

05:54:25.180 i honestly

05:54:27.120 for like on an individual level

05:54:28.900 if you want to

05:54:29.480 like as a woman

05:54:30.140 you want to do it

05:54:30.880 don't really give a fuck

05:54:31.980 i mean i don't think

05:54:33.020 it's a great way to move

05:54:34.000 but like

05:54:34.960 if i'm going to give advice

05:54:36.780 to a guy

05:54:37.380 i think it's suboptimal

05:54:38.960 to date a woman

05:54:39.920 with a promiscuous past

05:54:41.540 or who's

05:54:42.560 who has a high body count

05:54:44.020 i think accountability

05:54:44.720 is extremely important

05:54:46.260 everybody should take

05:54:47.080 accountability

05:54:47.540 like if a man

05:54:48.780 was in a relationship

05:54:50.460 with a woman

05:54:50.960 and cheated on her

05:54:51.760 i think he should tell

05:54:52.820 his new girlfriend

05:54:53.540 that he cheated on his ex

05:54:54.660 and i think everybody

05:54:56.080 should take accountability

05:54:57.060 for what they've done

05:54:58.240 right

05:54:58.700 um

05:54:59.240 because you

05:55:00.360 you need to have that

05:55:01.560 um

05:55:02.560 and body counts allowed

05:55:04.260 to be a preference

05:55:04.980 i think

05:55:05.620 yeah

05:55:06.240 yeah

05:55:06.660 it could be a preference

05:55:07.340 but

05:55:07.800 why are you talking

05:55:09.360 about the people

05:55:10.460 you slept with

05:55:11.120 in your new relationship

05:55:11.680 i think just

05:55:12.540 if it's one person

05:55:13.900 or two people

05:55:14.560 some people value that

05:55:15.560 some people do value that

05:55:16.600 i just say the pushback

05:55:17.780 i think in general

05:55:18.660 is just like

05:55:19.260 starting off a conversation

05:55:20.620 like i want to know

05:55:21.540 all the people

05:55:22.420 you slept with

05:55:23.020 or

05:55:23.400 well it doesn't happen

05:55:24.760 like that necessarily

05:55:25.740 it usually

05:55:27.280 it yeah it could happen

05:55:28.700 but sometimes i think

05:55:29.960 when you get deep

05:55:30.720 into a relationship

05:55:32.000 with somebody

05:55:32.800 or like i would tell

05:55:34.240 the person that i'm like

05:55:35.360 actually considering

05:55:36.300 being in a relationship

05:55:37.180 with like

05:55:37.720 this is my body count

05:55:38.860 you know

05:55:39.740 if it comes up

05:55:40.880 if he asks me

05:55:42.200 let me make this interesting

05:55:42.500 i think it's totally fine

05:55:43.900 the guy on the first date

05:55:44.880 within 10 minutes

05:55:45.600 of meeting you

05:55:46.080 he can ask you

05:55:46.600 what your body count is

05:55:47.420 i don't want to know

05:55:49.380 no problems with that

05:55:50.060 and you guys might

05:55:51.020 object to it

05:55:51.620 you might think

05:55:52.100 it's not like

05:55:52.880 smooth or whatever

05:55:53.780 it's a bit like

05:55:54.860 kind of

05:55:55.340 socially uncalibrated

05:55:57.980 in today's climate

05:55:59.040 i mean i feel like

05:55:59.840 that's fair

05:56:00.220 yeah

05:56:00.840 bro

05:56:01.260 if it's a deal breaker

05:56:03.120 for me

05:56:03.520 wouldn't you rather

05:56:04.320 instead of me

05:56:04.980 like you know

05:56:05.820 doing the socially

05:56:06.740 like you know

05:56:07.860 the socially calibrated

05:56:09.300 thing

05:56:09.720 wouldn't you rather

05:56:10.960 if it's a deal breaker

05:56:11.980 for me just ask you

05:56:12.860 up front as soon as

05:56:13.700 possible

05:56:14.000 if it's a deal breaker

05:56:15.300 i ask it

05:56:16.340 if it's over the body

05:56:17.560 count i could be like

05:56:18.420 oh hey listen

05:56:20.280 it was really nice

05:56:20.840 meeting you

05:56:21.420 and also you don't

05:56:23.160 want to

05:56:23.380 do that immediately

05:56:24.000 you don't want to

05:56:24.520 waste your time

05:56:25.340 even before

05:56:27.060 bro i'll ask

05:56:28.080 before the date

05:56:28.780 i just think it's

05:56:31.220 bad for him to be

05:56:32.020 asking about

05:56:32.780 a person's sexual

05:56:34.040 past

05:56:34.540 if you if that's

05:56:36.140 your preference

05:56:36.620 and you want a woman

05:56:37.780 with a low body count

05:56:38.760 i think there's ways

05:56:39.780 to ask about it

05:56:40.140 well i'll tell you

05:56:40.840 this much right

05:56:41.440 if she has a low

05:56:42.360 body count

05:56:42.820 she's probably not

05:56:44.100 going to object

05:56:44.620 to answering the

05:56:45.280 question because

05:56:45.820 she's not

05:56:46.340 embarrassed

05:56:47.280 of her low body

05:56:48.560 count

05:56:48.800 if she has a high

05:56:49.680 body count

05:56:50.200 i don't want to

05:56:51.080 date her anyways

05:56:51.680 if she's feels a

05:56:52.720 certain type of way

05:56:53.300 they're the ones

05:56:53.780 that have the issue

05:56:54.520 socially retarded

05:56:55.480 fine

05:56:56.000 don't care

05:56:57.520 you don't ask

05:56:58.560 don't care

05:56:59.080 marry me maybe

05:57:01.340 donated 69 dollars

05:57:03.360 oh

05:57:03.720 lady welsh

05:57:04.740 i have never heard

05:57:05.940 a voice that's

05:57:06.760 soothing

05:57:07.060 i feel at peace

05:57:08.440 when you speak

05:57:09.360 do you know how

05:57:10.800 to do asmr

05:57:11.520 oh wow

05:57:12.880 she's got the

05:57:13.960 maybe she's got

05:57:14.580 an asmr voice

05:57:15.380 very nice

05:57:18.600 i'm so flattered

05:57:20.320 she's so flattered

05:57:21.380 so going around

05:57:22.880 the table really

05:57:23.360 quick do you

05:57:24.000 object to men

05:57:25.000 caring about a

05:57:26.020 woman's body

05:57:26.540 count

05:57:26.820 it's coming from

05:57:28.180 a place of

05:57:28.800 judgment

05:57:29.260 yes

05:57:30.660 how about it's

05:57:33.120 coming from a

05:57:33.620 place of i'm

05:57:34.260 trying to

05:57:34.900 qualify or

05:57:36.240 disqualify this

05:57:36.900 person from

05:57:37.480 like as

05:57:39.040 potential partner

05:57:39.860 that's judgment

05:57:41.240 oh okay

05:57:42.700 is it

05:57:43.660 or it's

05:57:44.300 discernment

05:57:44.840 yeah

05:57:45.120 okay

05:57:46.520 it is

05:57:47.840 discernment

05:57:48.420 but also

05:57:48.880 judgment

05:57:49.400 you because

05:57:49.900 you are

05:57:50.280 therefore

05:57:50.720 like okay

05:57:52.040 she has

05:57:52.760 been with

05:57:53.680 10 plus

05:57:54.640 men

05:57:55.100 i am judging

05:57:56.420 these past

05:57:58.220 actions

05:57:58.980 and i am

05:57:59.860 choosing to

05:58:00.700 see that as

05:58:01.420 a high risk

05:58:02.460 person

05:58:03.420 but when y'all

05:58:04.040 say judgment

05:58:04.620 do you mean

05:58:05.200 you know

05:58:06.200 you're a bad

05:58:07.000 person because

05:58:07.580 i don't we're

05:58:08.200 not saying

05:58:08.560 you're a bad

05:58:09.000 person for it

05:58:09.920 when women say

05:58:11.040 judge

05:58:11.660 but when you

05:58:13.140 say sub

05:58:13.880 optimal

05:58:14.480 that is

05:58:16.060 judgment

05:58:16.640 but the

05:58:17.940 best way

05:58:18.400 the best way

05:58:19.160 to predict

05:58:19.460 future is to

05:58:20.080 look at past

05:58:20.640 look at patterns

05:58:22.360 let me ask you

05:58:22.980 a question on

05:58:23.420 the sub

05:58:23.720 let me ask you

05:58:24.400 a question

05:58:24.760 stop

05:58:25.180 let me ask you

05:58:25.940 a question on

05:58:26.380 the sub

05:58:26.700 optimal thing

05:58:27.300 right

05:58:27.520 is it possible

05:58:29.900 for a man

05:58:30.800 in any realm

05:58:32.420 to be

05:58:33.260 a sub

05:58:34.320 optimal partner

05:58:35.140 in certain

05:58:36.700 realms

05:58:37.140 that women

05:58:38.460 will assess

05:58:39.800 a guy on

05:58:40.340 sure

05:58:42.720 like all the

05:58:43.660 bumble dates

05:58:44.180 you passed

05:58:45.060 all the

05:58:45.760 bumble profiles

05:58:46.760 yeah

05:58:47.380 yeah

05:58:47.880 that was

05:58:48.380 judgment

05:58:48.700 wasn't it

05:58:49.220 there was

05:58:49.700 judgment

05:58:50.140 but i don't

05:58:51.700 want to be

05:58:52.120 with someone

05:58:52.520 who's gonna

05:58:52.860 judge me

05:58:53.520 based off

05:58:54.200 of that

05:58:54.520 i want you

05:58:55.020 to judge

05:58:55.600 me based

05:58:56.420 on how

05:58:56.860 i'm interacting

05:58:57.420 with you

05:58:57.780 how i receive

05:58:58.600 you

05:58:58.900 how tall

05:58:59.000 are you

05:58:59.260 five seven

05:58:59.940 would you

05:59:00.740 date a guy

05:59:01.080 who's five

05:59:01.480 four

05:59:01.700 sure

05:59:02.940 if you

05:59:03.840 fulfilled me

05:59:04.380 in the ways

05:59:04.780 that i needed

05:59:05.340 what would

05:59:07.340 those ways

05:59:07.760 be

05:59:08.080 emotionally

05:59:10.660 what are the

05:59:11.760 other ways

05:59:12.200 sexually

05:59:13.320 okay what if a guy

05:59:14.820 was not so great

05:59:16.140 in bed

05:59:16.480 and he's

05:59:18.220 let's say

05:59:18.680 he's suboptimal

05:59:20.500 in bed

05:59:20.820 would you still

05:59:23.920 date him

05:59:24.300 i'm a sexual

05:59:25.040 person that's

05:59:25.700 something that i

05:59:26.240 need fulfilled

05:59:26.960 and if he is not

05:59:27.920 able to fulfill

05:59:28.920 that then it's

05:59:29.940 a no

05:59:30.380 and i'm a man

05:59:31.200 who prefers women

05:59:31.940 with a low body

05:59:32.640 count and if she's

05:59:33.580 not able to

05:59:34.120 fulfill that

05:59:34.860 then it's a

05:59:35.860 no

05:59:36.060 just preferences

05:59:38.600 it's honestly a

05:59:39.660 preference

05:59:39.920 but why is it

05:59:41.140 okay for women

05:59:41.800 to disqualify men

05:59:42.900 based on he's

05:59:44.000 suboptimal his

05:59:44.920 height suboptimal

05:59:45.720 his looks are

05:59:46.260 suboptimal

05:59:46.780 i don't call men

05:59:47.280 suboptimal

05:59:48.120 i say either you

05:59:49.160 check my boxes

05:59:50.020 you fulfill me

05:59:51.180 or you don't

05:59:52.980 again with the

05:59:53.660 words ryan

05:59:54.380 remember we're

05:59:55.140 women like words

05:59:56.340 are a big thing

05:59:57.260 with us

05:59:57.660 right let's go

05:59:58.260 with behavior

05:59:58.780 but suboptimal

05:59:59.720 is a totally

06:00:00.660 benign term

06:00:02.460 when it comes to

06:00:03.380 dating

06:00:03.720 it has a

06:00:05.480 neutral connection

06:00:06.060 connotation

06:00:06.400 it's not

06:00:06.900 like positive

06:00:07.660 or negative

06:00:08.080 suboptimal

06:00:08.120 seems so

06:00:08.980 suboptimal

06:00:09.880 is absolutely

06:00:10.700 benign

06:00:11.340 yeah it's a

06:00:12.640 neutral connotation

06:00:13.620 yeah i don't

06:00:14.140 think there's

06:00:14.660 there's nothing

06:00:15.200 positive or

06:00:15.860 negative about

06:00:16.540 it yeah

06:00:17.080 just suboptimal

06:00:18.360 it's just

06:00:19.520 suboptimal

06:00:20.340 suboptimal

06:00:21.140 yeah

06:00:22.280 it's

06:00:24.240 women in

06:00:25.400 words

06:00:25.580 like it's

06:00:26.140 like it's

06:00:26.880 like there's

06:00:27.740 nothing wrong

06:00:28.400 with a guy

06:00:30.480 who likes

06:00:31.100 blondes

06:00:32.040 nothing wrong

06:00:32.540 with a guy

06:00:33.160 who likes

06:00:33.800 brunettes

06:00:34.340 like there's

06:00:34.840 nothing wrong

06:00:35.480 with it

06:00:35.980 i think she

06:00:36.920 made a point

06:00:37.380 earlier that

06:00:38.020 it's important

06:00:38.560 in the beginning

06:00:39.180 to meet

06:00:40.020 someone who

06:00:40.600 has the same

06:00:41.080 world standing

06:00:41.940 as you

06:00:42.360 and take

06:00:43.040 those boxes

06:00:43.660 and that kind

06:00:44.560 of goes back

06:00:44.920 to all of

06:00:45.360 this

06:00:45.500 here's a

06:00:45.800 question though

06:00:46.340 right

06:00:46.540 what about

06:00:48.420 a guy who

06:00:49.280 like would

06:00:50.300 you date a

06:00:50.760 guy of

06:00:51.340 any income

06:00:52.100 bracket

06:00:52.520 any income

06:00:53.500 bracket

06:00:53.780 so i'm

06:00:54.080 talking like

06:00:54.580 makes ten

06:00:56.020 thousand dollars

06:00:56.520 a year

06:00:56.900 i have

06:00:57.660 you have

06:00:58.960 but you

06:01:00.180 want do

06:01:00.520 you want

06:01:00.700 family

06:01:01.020 you want

06:01:02.620 kids

06:01:02.960 i think

06:01:03.760 so

06:01:04.060 in order

06:01:04.740 to you

06:01:05.340 know give

06:01:05.780 your kids

06:01:06.120 a good

06:01:06.300 life you

06:01:06.700 need to

06:01:06.900 make a

06:01:07.380 decent

06:01:07.940 income

06:01:08.400 or at

06:01:08.760 least

06:01:08.980 right

06:01:09.260 yeah

06:01:09.860 so probably

06:01:10.840 i would

06:01:11.080 imagine part

06:01:11.720 of the

06:01:11.940 calculus at

06:01:12.580 least for

06:01:12.860 you in

06:01:13.760 terms of

06:01:14.180 finding a

06:01:14.980 suitable

06:01:15.700 mate suitable

06:01:16.580 partner is

06:01:18.020 does he make

06:01:19.520 a certain amount

06:01:19.940 of money

06:01:20.280 it might not

06:01:21.100 i'm not saying

06:01:21.480 he has to be

06:01:21.980 rich but

06:01:22.660 no especially

06:01:23.320 in america that

06:01:24.100 is a huge

06:01:24.640 factor i feel

06:01:25.800 like in the

06:01:26.240 uk is a

06:01:26.900 little bit

06:01:27.320 different

06:01:27.720 right it

06:01:29.140 is more

06:01:29.460 socialist the

06:01:30.120 government takes

06:01:30.680 care of a lot

06:01:31.260 more things

06:01:31.860 sure there so

06:01:33.020 you can date

06:01:33.780 someone who is

06:01:35.080 technically working

06:01:36.440 class as they

06:01:37.200 say and you're

06:01:38.100 still able to

06:01:38.940 support a family

06:01:39.860 whereas out here

06:01:40.720 that is

06:01:41.180 so you don't

06:01:42.600 care about a

06:01:43.300 man's income at

06:01:44.000 all he can make

06:01:45.000 zero i do now i

06:01:46.620 didn't in the past

06:01:47.420 okay so but

06:01:48.020 currently you do

06:01:48.700 right so would

06:01:50.220 you disqualify a

06:01:51.100 man for who

06:01:51.800 example makes

06:01:52.440 thirty thirty

06:01:53.240 thousand dollars a

06:01:53.980 year at this

06:01:55.120 point in my

06:01:55.560 life i would

06:01:56.140 what uh let

06:01:57.840 me just ask

06:01:58.240 what's the bare

06:01:58.860 minimum for you

06:01:59.680 um right now

06:02:03.780 maybe eighty

06:02:05.300 eighty thousand

06:02:06.340 with potential

06:02:07.460 for him to

06:02:08.320 grow you'd want

06:02:09.560 oh you'd want

06:02:10.160 them to make

06:02:10.560 more down the

06:02:11.220 down the road

06:02:11.940 well let me ask

06:02:13.060 you a question

06:02:13.440 because we're

06:02:13.820 talking about

06:02:14.240 past and then

06:02:14.820 what about you

06:02:15.320 do you have

06:02:15.680 like i feel

06:02:16.880 like you can be

06:02:17.700 at a certain

06:02:18.100 point but as

06:02:18.680 long as you

06:02:19.100 have this kind

06:02:19.940 of trajectory

06:02:20.600 that's what's

06:02:21.340 important so

06:02:22.040 earning potential

06:02:22.860 i would take you

06:02:23.860 at your 10k

06:02:24.840 if you have

06:02:25.740 ambition and

06:02:26.620 drive to go

06:02:27.600 up well okay

06:02:28.520 what would that

06:02:29.180 over after five

06:02:31.360 year period what

06:02:32.060 would that have

06:02:32.700 to be at

06:02:33.200 then we'll have

06:02:34.040 to talk we'll

06:02:34.900 have to have a

06:02:35.380 very important

06:02:35.920 conversation because

06:02:36.680 obviously you don't

06:02:37.440 value me or our

06:02:38.840 life together if

06:02:39.900 you're not striving

06:02:40.680 to increase our

06:02:42.500 quality of life

06:02:43.360 sure but so do you

06:02:45.200 have a sense of a

06:02:46.080 number like how

06:02:47.660 much the guy needs

06:02:48.480 to make or will

06:02:49.840 make when you're

06:02:50.440 in your planning to

06:02:51.880 have a family

06:02:52.380 period i guess

06:02:53.220 yeah what's what's

06:02:55.140 the minimum well

06:02:57.460 over a hundred

06:02:58.200 k well over a

06:02:59.200 hundred thousand

06:02:59.600 dollars okay so

06:03:02.060 i have a question

06:03:02.500 so you you guys

06:03:04.180 mentioned something

06:03:04.840 well it's it's in

06:03:05.900 the past well they

06:03:08.320 made and women they

06:03:09.540 make poor decisions

06:03:10.300 in the past they

06:03:11.000 have they've slept

06:03:12.220 with a bunch of

06:03:12.740 people whatever well

06:03:14.660 what about the man

06:03:15.260 who made poor

06:03:15.800 decisions when it

06:03:16.580 came to his

06:03:17.000 education and his

06:03:18.000 career in his

06:03:18.940 past and you

06:03:21.480 know then what

06:03:25.720 okay so he

06:03:29.040 actions and

06:03:31.160 behaviors in his

06:03:32.200 past have either

06:03:33.380 led to him

06:03:34.260 earning below what

06:03:36.380 you desire in a

06:03:37.560 partner or because

06:03:39.760 of those actions

06:03:40.560 even his future

06:03:41.620 trajectory there's

06:03:43.760 just no way he's

06:03:44.640 ever gonna go on

06:03:46.420 to make more than

06:03:47.100 80k or more than

06:03:48.540 100k it's

06:03:49.660 difficult and i've

06:03:50.300 actually do you

06:03:50.760 disqualify him yes

06:03:51.960 if he has no desire

06:03:53.600 for change that is

06:03:54.920 the disqualifier those

06:03:56.300 were yeah but not

06:03:58.100 everybody gets to be

06:03:58.940 the rock star some

06:03:59.880 people are going to

06:04:00.380 be working there's

06:04:01.640 going to be men who

06:04:02.320 are working average

06:04:03.260 jobs most don't

06:04:05.040 most men most men

06:04:06.300 are going to be

06:04:06.680 working the average

06:04:07.580 job they're not

06:04:08.840 going to be making

06:04:09.340 80k they're not

06:04:10.080 going to be making

06:04:10.560 over 100k and

06:04:12.600 there's women that

06:04:13.220 will accept that

06:04:14.000 settle for that

06:04:16.660 okay right there's

06:04:19.460 women that also

06:04:20.400 haven't made the

06:04:21.080 best decisions in

06:04:21.960 their lives so i

06:04:22.880 think that they're

06:04:23.580 going to be at the

06:04:24.320 same quality of life

06:04:25.760 as them right

06:04:26.760 right but i mean

06:04:28.420 just using the logic

06:04:29.500 here it's like well

06:04:30.500 it's in their past

06:04:31.620 you should just

06:04:32.280 forgive their past

06:04:33.880 mistakes when it

06:04:34.820 came to their

06:04:35.280 educational achievement

06:04:36.200 or their career path

06:04:37.660 you should you should

06:04:38.560 just accept it you

06:04:39.600 should still date

06:04:40.520 them even though

06:04:41.460 they're not meeting

06:04:42.140 your standard no

06:04:44.160 you could as long

06:04:45.020 as they're trying

06:04:46.260 to move forward

06:04:47.140 with their life

06:04:48.020 okay i really don't

06:04:49.840 think women date

06:04:50.940 men based off their

06:04:51.800 potential they kind

06:04:52.680 of want a man

06:04:53.200 that's already like

06:04:54.240 at our age should

06:04:55.580 be at a younger

06:04:57.180 age no it's

06:04:57.840 potential for sure

06:04:58.840 i also don't think

06:04:59.800 there's anything wrong

06:05:00.660 with having judgments

06:05:01.520 i mean like what

06:05:02.940 you said yeah like

06:05:04.300 what you said like

06:05:05.480 we all want the

06:05:07.380 the how did you

06:05:08.860 word it the best

06:05:09.580 case scenario yeah

06:05:10.520 we all want to get

06:05:11.080 the best yeah we

06:05:11.740 all want the the

06:05:12.680 best case scenario i

06:05:13.400 don't think there's

06:05:13.880 anything wrong with

06:05:14.760 that i mean what do

06:05:15.340 you think is the

06:05:15.760 whole basis of

06:05:16.400 dating apps anybody's

06:05:17.500 ever had a dating app

06:05:18.540 all you're doing is

06:05:19.300 judging all day yeah

06:05:20.540 i've never had a

06:05:21.520 dating app i prefer

06:05:22.620 things organic but at

06:05:24.680 the same time like am

06:05:26.520 i picky choosy absolutely

06:05:28.260 do i feel there's

06:05:29.880 anything wrong with

06:05:30.440 that absolutely not

06:05:31.980 and and and the

06:05:33.700 caveat is if you can

06:05:34.600 attract it a lot of

06:05:36.480 people forget that i

06:05:37.200 mean you can have

06:05:37.940 standards you can have

06:05:39.140 preferences based on

06:05:40.200 what you can attract

06:05:41.060 so if i can attract

06:05:42.640 virgins and women

06:05:43.960 with low body count

06:05:45.000 then i'm going to

06:05:45.600 develop a preference

06:05:46.280 for that it'd be a

06:05:47.340 little different if

06:05:47.920 you have a preference

06:05:48.460 for something you

06:05:49.060 can't obtain but if

06:05:50.020 you can attract what

06:05:51.320 you want if you can

06:05:52.060 attract your preferred

06:05:53.020 preference then you

06:05:54.000 can discriminate against

06:05:55.060 those who don't fit it

06:05:56.140 and also like like

06:05:58.400 negativity always pulls

06:06:00.040 you down it's very

06:06:00.980 hard to like uplift

06:06:01.860 somebody but negativity

06:06:02.800 always wants you down

06:06:04.120 with them so like i

06:06:05.320 feel like i it'd be

06:06:07.100 hard for me to be with

06:06:07.880 a guy who has like

06:06:08.680 very low ambition or

06:06:09.820 like doing a whole

06:06:10.500 lot of his life

06:06:11.160 because like that

06:06:12.220 wouldn't motivate me

06:06:13.220 and i need somebody

06:06:14.500 who motivates me to

06:06:15.620 like be better like

06:06:16.440 we can motivate each

06:06:17.280 other we can challenge

06:06:18.460 each other to be more

06:06:19.460 successful and i just

06:06:21.220 i just couldn't be with

06:06:22.660 a guy who just doesn't

06:06:23.680 have the same ambition

06:06:24.820 i agree i feel like a

06:06:26.220 man's a man's role as

06:06:27.540 well as to help elevate

06:06:28.640 a woman yeah

06:06:29.580 yeah a man's role is to

06:06:32.380 elevate a woman a part of

06:06:33.940 a man's role is to help

06:06:35.260 elevate a woman in which

06:06:36.380 way though if she has

06:06:38.680 goals and dreams and

06:06:39.520 aspirations they're there

06:06:41.560 to support each other

06:06:42.520 wait when you say she has

06:06:44.960 goals and dreams and

06:06:45.980 aspirations are you

06:06:46.800 talking about career

06:06:49.340 economic life in general

06:06:51.780 what so what's it like

06:06:53.660 using you as an example

06:06:54.640 what's one of your dreams

06:06:57.560 and aspirations aspirations

06:06:59.440 i would love to travel

06:07:00.900 all over the world you

06:07:02.900 know and i would love a

06:07:04.280 partner that also wants

06:07:05.480 that same who can pay for

06:07:07.740 it no who can fund it

06:07:09.060 no that has the same that

06:07:10.940 has the same kind of

06:07:12.080 direction of where they

06:07:12.960 want to spend their money

06:07:13.860 our money his money our

06:07:17.880 money but you said like

06:07:20.780 help or is there any

06:07:22.320 component of this that

06:07:23.300 it's like career focused

06:07:24.540 yeah it can be too

06:07:26.200 motivating it's not very

06:07:27.200 traditional of you why i

06:07:29.420 can't have a job as well

06:07:31.840 and be traditional do you

06:07:35.100 well too if he's if he's

06:07:36.780 if he wants me if he's

06:07:38.360 if he's capable of

06:07:39.200 providing everything and

06:07:40.100 he wants me to be a

06:07:40.920 stay-at-home mom i would

06:07:41.960 do that i think it's tough

06:07:43.600 in today's economy it is

06:07:45.180 a lot of us like a lot of

06:07:47.300 us you know though we have

06:07:48.540 traditional traits in

06:07:49.640 today's economy it's very

06:07:51.340 hard to like i would be

06:07:52.680 great to just like garden

06:07:54.000 he's uh and cook and

06:07:55.620 clean watch over the kids

06:07:58.140 let's say he's he just is

06:08:00.440 just capable that you're

06:08:02.580 able to stay home he's not

06:08:04.400 he's not insanely rich you

06:08:06.300 might actually struggle a

06:08:07.720 little bit but he wants you

06:08:09.360 to stay home and take care

06:08:10.140 of the kids

06:08:10.560 if we are married and that's

06:08:14.840 what he wants and i trust

06:08:15.940 him then i would do it

06:08:17.340 okay that's fair that's

06:08:19.780 fair um final thing here

06:08:22.340 on the body count question

06:08:24.180 we have two people up from

06:08:25.320 the table though i'll come

06:08:26.300 back to it in just a sec

06:08:27.360 real trump donated sixty nine

06:08:31.260 dollars just to enlighten the

06:08:33.440 women i'm an hvac technician

06:08:35.320 in nevada and i make one

06:08:37.080 hundred and fifty thousand a

06:08:38.840 year i see women overlook all

06:08:40.760 these good men who are in the

06:08:42.280 trades having no clue how

06:08:43.840 good you could have they can

06:08:45.360 make good money hvac hell yeah

06:08:47.780 brother yep install that

06:08:49.780 fucking air conditioning

06:08:50.740 kill it kill that shit real

06:08:53.100 trump and he's in nevada

06:08:54.880 plumbers need love too

06:08:56.100 out there he's doing he's oh

06:08:58.540 my god you're doing thank you

06:09:00.780 for keeping things cool right

06:09:02.600 cool in that las vegas heat

06:09:05.580 appreciate it brother going to

06:09:08.380 you got some notes for you and

06:09:10.940 then i actually have to go back

06:09:12.040 to jade after i go uh did we

06:09:14.600 have a dis for some reason i

06:09:16.120 seem to recall were we arguing

06:09:17.360 about plastic surgery when you

06:09:18.840 were last on no i don't think

06:09:21.340 so no we argued about we

06:09:23.420 argued about makeup wait were

06:09:25.560 you oh yes oh shit yeah i took

06:09:28.260 off my makeup remember that's so

06:09:31.400 funny wait did you say wait you

06:09:34.220 argued about a few things wait

06:09:36.340 do you do you have any plastic

06:09:39.700 surgery yes what breast augmentation

06:09:44.020 oh okay who was the girl some girl

06:09:46.240 came on the show and had clearly

06:09:48.760 that's the only thing you can't work

06:09:50.080 for in the gym i'm sorry

06:09:51.100 clearly fake boobs and she's like i

06:09:53.200 don't have fake boobs oh that's that

06:09:55.120 wasn't you that probably happens all

06:09:56.420 the time

06:09:56.820 no i am no it was it was not brie's

06:09:59.940 well it was brie but it was a

06:10:01.260 different i'm thinking of somebody

06:10:02.140 different

06:10:02.480 okay uh going back to jade really

06:10:04.640 quick you did say i'd like to

06:10:05.740 discuss women's expectations and

06:10:07.900 how it's unhealthy and unsustainable

06:10:09.340 and i'm sorry okay what would you

06:10:11.840 like to know oh just i mean did you

06:10:13.920 want to expand on that you said

06:10:15.280 women's expectations and how it's

06:10:17.220 unhealthy and unsustainable

06:10:18.400 um do i think that women's

06:10:22.420 expectations are too high today yes

06:10:24.460 do i also think that men's are yes

06:10:27.140 because we're all kind of wanting

06:10:29.340 this beautiful place where it's like

06:10:31.920 you know women are traditional and

06:10:33.200 men make all this money can support a

06:10:35.580 family and that might have been the

06:10:38.140 case you know 100 years ago

06:10:40.080 curtis underscore leon underscore

06:10:43.720 donated 69 dollars oh my god brit how

06:10:47.240 do brits view sex in afghanistan we had

06:10:50.400 brits on our base and the brit males

06:10:52.240 and females showered together also the

06:10:54.920 brit chicks would sunbathe with their

06:10:56.880 tops off in front of everyone

06:10:58.740 oh my god oh shot in the dark donated

06:11:03.620 69 dollars lady welsh i would pay you

06:11:07.560 in diamonds to hear you read on audible

06:11:09.980 feel like there's gonna be a bunch of

06:11:12.180 i'm gonna think about it i know i know

06:11:15.240 you had to sit here and listen to this

06:11:18.300 this toxic masculinity rant here or toxic

06:11:21.940 femininity i guess um but uh you know i

06:11:26.520 think some good things could come from

06:11:27.720 this maybe you're gonna saw an agency's

06:11:29.740 gonna reach out there and be like we

06:11:31.460 need you to do voiceover stuff you're

06:11:33.620 gonna have a budding career and like the

06:11:36.960 vo for like animated films like the

06:11:40.800 children's films like with the pixar that

06:11:42.860 shit voiceover enema adverts and enema

06:11:46.460 enema adverts oh no it's talking like

06:11:48.200 consult with your doctor before you take

06:11:49.860 this you might shit yourself to death

06:11:52.000 should we we should have you read

06:11:54.520 something that could be fun start your

06:11:56.020 start your own but the question how do

06:11:57.940 brits have sex and we don't say we're

06:12:00.060 coming we say oh i'm arriving just

06:12:03.140 kidding we don't say that really bad joke

06:12:06.460 i'm so sorry

06:12:07.120 it's good i liked it it's good uh did you

06:12:14.380 want to continue on with the uh

06:12:16.200 expectations or was it did you pretty

06:12:18.080 much make your point just we're living

06:12:20.300 in a modern world and yeah everything's

06:12:22.420 going to shit everything's going to

06:12:24.920 shit oh yeah uh oh okay so going around

06:12:28.360 the table on the body count question

06:12:29.800 some of you said body count doesn't

06:12:31.640 matter shouldn't matter what's your

06:12:34.260 body count god you tried to get me on

06:12:37.060 this last time did you answer it last

06:12:39.320 time i said undisclosed did you give a

06:12:41.660 like a range no oh okay i said oh you

06:12:44.580 were like well how many pin it down i

06:12:46.200 was like over a million and then you

06:12:47.880 were like oh no no no no i don't know i

06:12:51.800 think it's like eight to sixteen okay

06:12:55.840 eight to sixteen yeah what counts as a

06:12:58.720 body an orgasm p in the v yeah p in the v

06:13:02.520 pain the v if you got orgasm you're only

06:13:05.380 counting if you've climaxed no that's

06:13:08.160 probably like two

06:13:08.900 it's uh hold on it does include just a

06:13:16.440 tip just for a second just to see how it

06:13:18.260 feels

06:13:18.460 i don't know like eight range do you want

06:13:24.020 to do a range yeah eight to sixteen okay

06:13:25.980 sure

06:13:26.460 same answers last time i'm not

06:13:30.300 cheering

06:13:30.700 i just want to respect myself and my

06:13:33.960 partner and not say anything do you

06:13:36.240 guys want to do range

06:13:37.220 or above under like under 10

06:13:40.720 i'm not doing a range okay all right

06:13:43.080 that's fine just figured i'd give you

06:13:44.520 that option i'll do an audible book for

06:13:46.220 you instead

06:13:46.680 oh i should have had you go first okay

06:13:49.680 let's hear it lauren um i'm at like

06:13:52.340 probably 1100 and something 50 because i

06:13:58.300 mean i've been doing this a long time

06:13:59.920 over like 10 years so

06:14:01.120 like but the last first time i was on

06:14:04.200 the show i said a thousand and then i

06:14:05.660 went on another show

06:14:06.300 and then i was like 1100 and so now i'm

06:14:09.080 1150

06:14:10.340 okay it just keeps you're just gonna know

06:14:12.600 me through all

06:14:13.100 keeps saying keeps piling up

06:14:15.420 energizer pussy i appreciate the

06:14:18.900 energizer pussy

06:14:19.620 you need to clip this and put it on

06:14:23.180 your instagram lauren

06:14:23.880 he just gave you an endorsement yeah

06:14:26.340 energizer pussy

06:14:27.120 the energizer damn and you like you

06:14:29.780 work on a bunny ranch

06:14:30.680 you're on a bunny ranch energizer

06:14:33.240 pussy keeps going and going and oh

06:14:35.120 whoa

06:14:35.540 that is good yeah i know i should be a

06:14:39.040 marketing

06:14:39.420 uh so now that she's revealed it are

06:14:42.440 you guys more comfortable

06:14:43.280 or no

06:14:44.960 the way i was raised i'm sorry yeah

06:14:47.240 that's fine i'm totally fine no i'm

06:14:48.300 just thinking like damn are you tired

06:14:50.620 yeah

06:14:52.060 does it ever get tiring do you think

06:15:01.480 no and i think if it did then i

06:15:03.820 shouldn't be in the that intimate

06:15:06.600 industry anymore because then that's

06:15:08.240 when it becomes not good

06:15:09.380 okay

06:15:09.960 so you still find enjoyment

06:15:11.660 uh i will not disclose

06:15:13.700 yeah between me and my husband

06:15:16.020 interesting

06:15:17.820 ladies

06:15:18.640 we're gonna do a segment

06:15:21.120 called

06:15:21.720 hold my hand

06:15:25.620 donated 69 dollars

06:15:27.660 lady welsh

06:15:29.040 if your current man fucks it up

06:15:31.160 there's no other voice i'd love to

06:15:33.260 hear nagging about the thing you

06:15:34.840 mentioned eight times that i keep

06:15:36.700 saying i'll get to later

06:15:38.160 oh i love that actually

06:15:40.560 hold my hand

06:15:41.920 what was gonna be

06:15:43.180 got into later

06:15:44.380 curtis underscore leon

06:15:46.260 underscore donated

06:15:47.340 69 dollars

06:15:48.820 brian if you went to prison for

06:15:51.040 five years and could get a pardon

06:15:52.620 if you choose

06:15:53.340 one

06:15:54.000 of session three way with leila and

06:15:56.440 brie with water sports

06:15:57.840 two

06:15:58.740 take your chances in your sentence

06:16:01.020 with a life a celly

06:16:02.260 uh you always ask

06:16:03.680 yeah i'm gonna uh yeah i'd

06:16:09.700 rather not be in prison

06:16:10.880 for five years yes i'll have

06:16:13.780 water sports i i wouldn't sleep

06:16:16.520 with these women under normal

06:16:17.880 circumstances but yes i would

06:16:19.600 sleep with leila and brie uh if

06:16:22.440 it's meant sparing me a five-year

06:16:24.460 prison sentence i would probably do

06:16:26.800 far worse than having a three-way

06:16:28.980 with them

06:16:29.580 so i wouldn't do it just if you

06:16:34.380 asked me to do it i wouldn't do

06:16:35.760 it

06:16:36.000 just for funsies

06:16:37.760 no prison sentence involved but

06:16:40.620 yeah if the

06:16:41.300 yeah um

06:16:43.800 wait oh going around the table do

06:16:46.540 you consider yourself traditional

06:16:47.560 yes or no

06:16:53.440 no

06:16:54.100 no

06:16:56.200 it hurt her to say it yes yes

06:17:00.060 is a cowgirl traditional

06:17:01.880 i'm like a cowgirl like wild west

06:17:06.140 cowgirl

06:17:06.600 is that like a sexual position

06:17:08.500 joke

06:17:08.840 no i'm just a cowgirl

06:17:10.900 oh okay so like but not like a

06:17:13.920 housewife but like a cowgirl

06:17:15.080 housewife

06:17:15.560 i'm gonna say no for you i'll just

06:17:18.340 answer

06:17:18.560 that's a good way no

06:17:21.520 yes

06:17:22.640 i'm sorry i messed that up

06:17:26.000 did you say you said yes

06:17:27.940 traditional

06:17:28.380 yes

06:17:29.080 i was gonna say probably not but

06:17:31.920 maybe by some people's

06:17:33.420 i don't feel trad

06:17:34.960 real trump donated 69

06:17:37.020 dollars

06:17:37.640 holy crap

06:17:38.840 body count in the thousands

06:17:40.720 she's seen more wiener than the

06:17:42.900 oscar myer corporation

06:17:44.220 how on earth were you not brought

06:17:46.360 into the show in a wheelchair

06:17:47.700 she has a she has a crutch

06:17:49.780 yeah

06:17:50.380 i do a crutch

06:17:51.580 i do a crutch

06:17:52.300 she can't wobble in here

06:17:53.840 yeah it just you know

06:17:56.080 the feeling and everything

06:17:58.420 definitely hobbled in here

06:18:01.340 good times

06:18:12.700 good times she's a good sport

06:18:15.360 good sport

06:18:15.860 uh wait so

06:18:18.240 traditional traditional

06:18:20.440 traditional

06:18:21.900 you three

06:18:22.920 we're gonna do a segment called

06:18:24.420 are they traditional we must look

06:18:26.040 at their instagram profiles

06:18:27.320 maybe if you can get that pulled

06:18:28.740 up

06:18:28.880 this guy

06:18:29.400 oh great

06:18:30.180 well while he does that

06:18:33.640 while he does that let me see if

06:18:36.200 i have any other notes here

06:18:37.240 we have

06:18:39.780 i'm not naked

06:18:40.320 uh

06:18:41.540 brit

06:18:42.700 was the no show

06:18:43.980 loose pussy energy donated 69 dollars

06:18:48.660 brian

06:18:49.700 multiplied by three and that's the real

06:18:52.340 i keep forgetting

06:18:53.220 the audacity of these 304s to expect

06:18:56.160 the guy to take the bullet

06:18:57.500 get the fuck out of here

06:18:59.260 also

06:19:00.180 my bad nick

06:19:01.260 i got you bro

06:19:02.700 hashtag free nick

06:19:04.380 oh wait wait wait wait

06:19:06.800 multiplied by three and that's the real

06:19:08.720 number

06:19:09.080 free nick

06:19:10.320 hashtag free nick

06:19:11.260 uh

06:19:12.380 oh

06:19:14.200 so it's

06:19:15.880 ashley

06:19:16.880 jordan

06:19:20.380 jade

06:19:23.080 oh

06:19:24.280 let's get their instagrams

06:19:27.180 going

06:19:28.140 and then

06:19:30.200 what the heck

06:19:31.540 did we give

06:19:33.200 hold on one sec

06:19:33.920 did i give him permission

06:19:35.740 okay i hit most of my stuff

06:19:37.200 hmm

06:19:39.700 you got it

06:19:42.720 uh we need

06:19:45.160 don't pull up ashley's yet though

06:19:46.920 because she's not at the table

06:19:48.240 so let's do jordan

06:19:49.700 then jade

06:19:51.320 then ashley

06:19:52.140 once she's back

06:19:52.820 and then that's pretty much it for my notes

06:19:55.240 i have maybe one or two more things but

06:19:57.240 you ready

06:19:57.780 yes sir

06:19:58.780 we have baby j jordan

06:20:02.200 so the game is for the chat

06:20:06.540 traditional or not traditional based off the instagram

06:20:09.980 curtis

06:20:13.240 curtis underscordion underscordinated

06:20:15.220 $69

06:20:16.080 oh thanks brother

06:20:17.240 ladies who here would go on a date with brian to the sizzler

06:20:20.380 brit lady

06:20:21.340 sing fake plastic trees

06:20:23.440 what's that

06:20:26.100 my radio head

06:20:26.760 no

06:20:27.060 what's sick

06:20:28.100 what's that

06:20:29.160 um fake plastic trees

06:20:30.460 is that a song

06:20:31.160 yeah

06:20:31.640 but i don't know why they want me to do that

06:20:34.040 i'm sorry

06:20:34.500 who's the band that

06:20:36.140 oasis

06:20:37.040 is that an oasis song

06:20:38.580 is it

06:20:39.640 do you know

06:20:40.040 do you know oasis

06:20:41.080 i know oasis

06:20:41.620 do you know wonderwall

06:20:44.380 i do know wonderwall

06:20:45.480 can you sing wonderwall

06:20:46.360 will you sing it with me

06:20:48.000 no

06:20:48.820 yeah you start though

06:20:50.200 let's do it

06:20:51.400 i'll do it if there's music

06:20:52.640 i'll know the lyrics

06:20:53.300 we can't we can't play the music

06:20:54.800 but we just have to

06:20:55.680 can anybody do the instrumental

06:20:57.120 how do we get on this

06:20:58.400 i don't know

06:20:59.340 i was doing the instrumental

06:21:03.240 oh do it

06:21:03.860 do it do it

06:21:04.300 oh fuck

06:21:04.800 into the mic

06:21:05.340 well

06:21:05.860 go ahead

06:21:06.500 actually i think it's just the melody

06:21:08.360 okay that works

06:21:09.540 i don't know that i've ever heard this song

06:21:12.140 yeah we're gonna sing it

06:21:12.880 what's the first

06:21:13.380 oh yeah

06:21:17.540 come on

06:21:22.780 i don't know the lyrics

06:21:24.120 i'm just

06:21:24.620 i don't believe that anybody

06:21:26.180 feels the way i do

06:21:28.260 about you now

06:21:29.780 right

06:21:32.540 there we go

06:21:34.680 oh i've got some good singers

06:21:35.720 i feel left out

06:21:36.900 okay

06:21:39.460 sorry that is this cringe

06:21:41.040 is this cringe

06:21:41.540 no it's acapella group

06:21:42.880 on whatever

06:21:43.560 there you go

06:21:44.780 join us live

06:21:45.780 we should all start a band

06:21:48.200 let's continue with the traditional

06:21:49.840 all right

06:21:52.940 scroll down

06:21:54.040 scroll down

06:21:55.240 scroll down

06:21:56.160 is she traditional

06:21:57.880 there's the hubby

06:21:59.040 is she

06:22:01.440 you can keep going

06:22:02.880 uh

06:22:03.740 okay

06:22:04.780 all right

06:22:05.780 is she traditional

06:22:07.320 so it's just

06:22:08.800 all you're doing is traditional

06:22:09.920 or not traditional

06:22:10.860 in the chat

06:22:11.940 traditional not traditional

06:22:13.380 uh

06:22:14.440 then we're gonna move over

06:22:15.480 to jade

06:22:16.200 yeah great

06:22:17.180 yep

06:22:18.460 here's jade

06:22:20.540 traditional

06:22:22.820 we got a bathing suit photo

06:22:24.340 okay

06:22:24.840 all right

06:22:25.840 i have been a model

06:22:26.980 for 10 years

06:22:27.800 i'm sorry

06:22:28.340 model

06:22:28.460 uh

06:22:29.420 all right

06:22:30.480 here's some photo shoots

06:22:31.760 beautiful

06:22:33.340 all right

06:22:34.680 there's

06:22:35.540 yeah

06:22:36.140 all right

06:22:38.640 there she is

06:22:39.720 uh

06:22:40.720 a little uh

06:22:42.280 just a little slower

06:22:43.440 but keep going

06:22:44.080 okay

06:22:44.960 a little lingerie

06:22:46.300 i don't know

06:22:46.960 you know

06:22:47.280 it's a bit

06:22:47.900 that's my biden video

06:22:49.160 you know

06:22:50.240 all right

06:22:51.600 that's you

06:22:53.340 crying for a film

06:22:54.960 yeah

06:22:55.380 and then

06:22:57.100 all right

06:22:59.220 what do you guys think

06:22:59.800 traditional or not traditional

06:23:01.060 no i know

06:23:01.520 oh there's a little lingerie one

06:23:02.880 okay

06:23:03.180 does it change

06:23:04.840 if they're like

06:23:05.420 employed

06:23:06.060 you know

06:23:06.820 like they're doing this

06:23:08.020 it's like

06:23:08.460 paid photo shoots

06:23:10.080 i feel like it's

06:23:10.780 high fashion for work

06:23:12.200 and not for glamour

06:23:13.320 and i don't know

06:23:13.880 if it changes

06:23:14.420 i don't know

06:23:14.980 if it changes

06:23:15.420 vanity

06:23:15.800 so i've been um

06:23:17.240 a fashion model

06:23:18.260 for 10 years

06:23:18.980 i've been signed

06:23:19.780 in like europe

06:23:20.300 nice me too

06:23:20.920 i'm signed uh

06:23:22.380 with four agencies

06:23:23.160 right now

06:23:23.740 um

06:23:24.180 and i have worked

06:23:25.060 for very high-end clients

06:23:26.240 and that really is like

06:23:27.460 my work page

06:23:28.580 that i just turned into

06:23:29.740 um

06:23:30.540 i've worked for

06:23:31.000 ysaint laurent

06:23:31.960 um

06:23:32.540 you know

06:23:33.400 ug

06:23:33.800 hirvay leger

06:23:34.640 okay

06:23:34.940 kylie cosmetics

06:23:36.360 they were like

06:23:37.640 oh you're pale

06:23:38.300 so we're gonna give you

06:23:39.260 bone and stone

06:23:40.200 you've done anything

06:23:40.800 for like um

06:23:41.620 for like uh

06:23:43.360 foot locker

06:23:44.060 no i did do uh

06:23:47.320 zappos

06:23:48.160 they're in vegas

06:23:48.880 zappos

06:23:49.380 yeah

06:23:50.000 they do like

06:23:50.800 sneakers and stuff

06:23:51.740 yeah

06:23:52.780 and i found out

06:23:53.840 that someone

06:23:54.860 i have a stalker right

06:23:56.020 and they've taken my photos

06:23:57.740 from every photo shoot

06:23:58.780 i've ever done

06:23:59.380 that's weird

06:23:59.820 and they've uploaded it

06:24:00.800 to a foot website

06:24:01.860 and they zoom in on the feet

06:24:03.660 wait what is that

06:24:04.340 what's that called

06:24:04.940 it's uh

06:24:05.340 it's wiki feet

06:24:06.200 i'm on that shit too

06:24:08.460 wait genuinely

06:24:09.660 yeah some weirdo

06:24:10.680 put my feet on there

06:24:11.560 isn't it so weird

06:24:12.540 and then they rate you

06:24:13.720 it's kind of funny

06:24:14.480 but weird

06:24:14.760 and just like

06:24:15.520 you can find a profile

06:24:16.500 of anybody

06:24:17.000 and it's just like

06:24:17.780 you casually

06:24:18.340 like you're eating

06:24:18.840 a popsicle or something

06:24:19.760 and you're like

06:24:20.080 why are you looking

06:24:20.600 at my feet

06:24:21.080 right

06:24:21.340 shit's weird bruv

06:24:22.420 shit is weird

06:24:24.200 isn't it

06:24:24.680 i'm on that shit

06:24:25.600 what's your rating

06:24:26.240 is it pretty good

06:24:27.180 no

06:24:27.500 mine's pretty good

06:24:28.580 three and a half

06:24:29.440 and someone said

06:24:30.040 my arches are mid

06:24:31.300 and i was like

06:24:31.860 you didn't know

06:24:35.040 you were insecure

06:24:35.460 about something

06:24:36.060 until somebody

06:24:36.640 pointed out

06:24:37.760 damn what's wrong

06:24:38.980 with my feet

06:24:39.660 shit's fucked

06:24:40.900 you're fine

06:24:41.020 you're literally a model

06:24:42.160 all right

06:24:42.900 and then we're finally

06:24:44.000 gonna get to the

06:24:45.080 the great

06:24:45.900 ashley

06:24:47.000 i don't have that

06:24:48.600 many pictures

06:24:49.040 so this is ashley

06:24:49.960 so for the chat

06:24:51.580 traditional or not

06:24:52.580 traditional

06:24:53.020 i can fix her

06:24:55.700 um let's see

06:24:56.820 bikini photo

06:24:58.020 booty

06:25:00.380 a little

06:25:01.260 uh you know

06:25:02.240 i don't know

06:25:02.880 it's a little

06:25:04.080 sheer dress

06:25:05.220 thing with the bikini

06:25:06.180 wait click on

06:25:08.000 the bikini one

06:25:08.700 in the

06:25:09.660 the laying down

06:25:10.520 one

06:25:10.760 click on it

06:25:11.680 see the other

06:25:14.060 ones

06:25:14.360 the other arrow

06:25:15.600 okay bury it

06:25:17.260 basically the same

06:25:17.820 okay exile that

06:25:18.820 uh okay

06:25:21.000 all right

06:25:21.640 i mean it's not

06:25:22.360 the worst i've ever

06:25:23.200 seen

06:25:23.580 oh it's not bad

06:25:25.080 i'm really shy

06:25:25.800 wait do the

06:25:26.480 uh hot tub one

06:25:27.440 uh next

06:25:28.820 uh okay all right

06:25:31.020 okay all right

06:25:32.100 x

06:25:32.420 no that was in

06:25:33.460 my do the uh

06:25:34.420 the you know

06:25:36.040 the the one the

06:25:37.400 selfie in the

06:25:38.000 middle there next

06:25:38.660 to the hot tub

06:25:39.480 actually look at

06:25:43.300 me

06:25:43.540 okay that's you

06:25:46.020 in the water

06:25:47.040 okay

06:25:47.660 all right look

06:25:49.180 it's not the

06:25:49.820 worst

06:25:50.240 wait click that

06:25:51.460 the last one

06:25:52.840 oh just

06:25:54.700 here's my butt

06:25:55.660 that's not

06:25:56.560 my butt

06:25:57.340 it's like

06:25:57.760 legs

06:25:58.480 yeah you just

06:25:59.820 you randomly

06:26:00.580 turned around

06:26:01.280 and it was

06:26:01.700 oh twice

06:26:02.560 that's not your

06:26:03.500 butt that's legs

06:26:04.280 too

06:26:04.580 to be fair

06:26:05.800 she's wearing

06:26:06.340 like mom jeans

06:26:07.540 yeah exactly

06:26:08.600 to be fair

06:26:09.180 you can

06:26:10.660 you can

06:26:10.680 curtis

06:26:11.400 underscore

06:26:11.820 ununders

06:26:12.680 coordinated

06:26:13.320 sixty nine

06:26:14.260 dollars

06:26:14.660 brian it's one

06:26:16.500 year with a cellmate

06:26:17.540 who is known as a

06:26:18.420 notorious prison

06:26:19.420 daddy lifer

06:26:20.280 or layla

06:26:21.300 brie and

06:26:22.380 nicole mud and

06:26:23.580 water sports

06:26:24.420 and you have to

06:26:25.440 breed layla and

06:26:26.300 she announces

06:26:26.980 you're expecting

06:26:27.780 yeah i'll still

06:26:30.080 i'll still get

06:26:30.800 with the girls

06:26:31.400 like i'm not

06:26:32.080 a year in the

06:26:33.740 in the can

06:26:34.460 is not

06:26:35.000 uh

06:26:35.860 i'm not doing

06:26:36.880 that

06:26:37.200 bro yeah

06:26:38.800 i'll do

06:26:39.280 bro you

06:26:39.880 give me something

06:26:40.440 worse bro

06:26:41.120 give me something

06:26:41.940 worse

06:26:42.220 this is too

06:26:42.800 easy

06:26:43.100 yeah that's

06:26:43.420 pretty easy

06:26:43.920 give me something

06:26:44.400 tough man

06:26:45.120 no like i

06:26:45.860 don't know

06:26:46.120 i gotta

06:26:46.460 she's got

06:26:48.100 hiv give me

06:26:49.980 that

06:26:50.320 god i was

06:26:51.180 thinking like

06:26:51.640 tarantula

06:26:52.200 eat 30

06:26:53.000 tarantulas

06:26:53.800 or something

06:26:54.340 that's a

06:26:54.660 tough

06:26:54.880 yeah i mean

06:26:56.120 i'll do the

06:26:56.560 tarantulas

06:26:57.240 and that

06:26:57.780 give me something

06:26:58.680 tough buddy

06:26:59.240 give me something

06:26:59.820 tough

06:27:00.180 these are layups

06:27:01.160 these are too

06:27:01.680 easy

06:27:02.040 all right

06:27:02.900 i think

06:27:03.340 did i get

06:27:03.740 through all my

06:27:04.180 notes let me

06:27:04.680 just double check

06:27:05.360 and then we'll

06:27:06.860 do a few more

06:27:08.900 we'll have to do

06:27:11.100 it next show i

06:27:11.900 think what

06:27:12.720 just remind me

06:27:13.540 what were they

06:27:14.160 so there's the

06:27:14.760 that video from

06:27:15.740 the dude the

06:27:16.340 view thing and

06:27:17.020 then the bbl

06:27:17.620 video

06:27:18.160 uh and the

06:27:19.320 reaction to the

06:27:20.580 pictures

06:27:21.020 wait

06:27:21.980 tattoos

06:27:23.120 we'll save

06:27:24.600 it we'll save

06:27:25.320 all that stuff

06:27:25.920 for the next

06:27:26.420 show it's already

06:27:26.840 getting a bit

06:27:27.320 late here so i

06:27:28.120 don't want to

06:27:28.780 belabor

06:27:29.340 yeah i mean i'll

06:27:31.260 i have like one

06:27:32.200 or two more

06:27:32.540 questions but then

06:27:33.220 we'll wrap this

06:27:34.440 up so just want to

06:27:35.080 make sure i got to

06:27:35.740 everybody's notes

06:27:36.400 here i want to be

06:27:37.040 fair you know

06:27:37.740 okay um let me

06:27:40.520 just double check

06:27:41.240 here boys

06:27:41.980 jordan we hit

06:27:44.780 okay we got ashley

06:27:45.800 guys we are going

06:27:52.200 to enter the

06:27:53.320 chaos realm of

06:27:55.140 the whatever

06:27:55.680 podcast here in

06:27:56.800 just a moment

06:27:57.320 here prepare for

06:27:58.560 the chaos i'm

06:27:59.660 about to change

06:28:00.300 this shit one

06:28:01.540 sec boys okay

06:28:03.500 hold on so

06:28:06.680 here's what we're

06:28:08.800 doing for the

06:28:10.780 next like five

06:28:11.460 or ten minutes

06:28:12.080 of the show

06:28:12.940 tts is now at

06:28:14.340 at at 20 if

06:28:16.740 any of you want

06:28:17.220 to it's it's

06:28:20.780 ready it's ready

06:28:21.880 boys okay it's

06:28:22.740 out it's at 20 if

06:28:23.780 you guys want to

06:28:24.220 get a message in

06:28:24.960 uh guys no keep

06:28:27.180 it try to keep it

06:28:27.920 to a statement or

06:28:28.620 like quick yes or

06:28:29.800 no questions if

06:28:30.500 you're gonna ask a

06:28:31.020 question try to

06:28:32.000 keep it to a

06:28:32.520 question though if

06:28:33.720 you can for the

06:28:34.400 final few minutes

06:28:35.100 here of the show

06:28:36.280 while we descend

06:28:37.160 into absolute

06:28:38.000 whatever chaos

06:28:39.760 it's the final

06:28:42.640 countdown

06:28:43.660 let me do a

06:28:48.760 couple adjustments

06:28:49.480 q do you have

06:28:50.020 a question while

06:28:50.960 we uh curtis

06:28:52.140 underscully on

06:28:53.020 underscordinated

06:28:53.900 twenty dollars

06:28:55.060 thank you brother

06:28:55.600 okay the same

06:28:56.760 but you let

06:28:57.440 layla sit on

06:28:58.240 your face giving

06:28:59.060 you genital herpes

06:29:00.020 on your face and

06:29:01.000 in your nostrils

06:29:01.960 crabs in your

06:29:03.140 beard and hair and

06:29:04.120 the obsession has

06:29:04.900 the highest viewing

06:29:05.820 public ever or

06:29:07.320 what you forgot

06:29:08.540 the like what

06:29:09.360 you're in jail

06:29:10.000 a year

06:29:10.440 i think i take

06:29:15.160 the year

06:29:15.480 carolina girl

06:29:16.120 donated twenty

06:29:16.960 dollars

06:29:17.560 good time

06:29:18.120 threesome or

06:29:18.860 whatever

06:29:19.120 or let me on

06:29:20.440 woman tipping

06:29:21.320 hand

06:29:21.900 threesome or

06:29:23.620 whatever or let

06:29:25.060 me on

06:29:25.540 oh are you the

06:29:26.840 person i banned

06:29:27.560 in the chat

06:29:28.100 where i blocked

06:29:29.880 chinese motherfucker

06:29:31.200 donated twenty

06:29:32.120 dollars

06:29:32.620 what do you call

06:29:33.920 a small horse

06:29:34.740 in chinese

06:29:35.720 tiny boney

06:29:37.020 what do you call

06:29:38.220 a friend in

06:29:38.960 chinese

06:29:39.720 mine

06:29:40.540 eager

06:29:40.920 what do you

06:29:41.800 call a

06:29:42.240 three hundred

06:29:42.860 and four

06:29:43.380 oh my

06:29:43.700 wait hold on

06:29:44.340 wait it's fine

06:29:46.880 it's fine

06:29:47.140 guys what the

06:29:48.560 bro i gotta

06:29:49.280 i'm gonna if

06:29:49.900 you're doing

06:29:50.220 anything like

06:29:50.800 i'm gonna skip

06:29:51.480 it if you guys

06:29:52.100 do any fucking

06:29:52.800 uh like

06:29:54.680 racist guys

06:29:55.480 come on

06:29:55.880 don't get me

06:29:56.380 uh disavow

06:29:58.060 let me just say

06:29:58.660 that disavow

06:29:59.560 the

06:29:59.840 they

06:30:00.680 you know

06:30:01.520 bryans

06:30:02.800 underscore feeder

06:30:03.680 underscore

06:30:04.220 leo leo

06:30:05.100 donated twenty

06:30:05.940 dollars

06:30:06.500 hey hey

06:30:07.540 that's not fair

06:30:08.620 rahima give

06:30:09.660 that horse

06:30:10.180 back its

06:30:10.680 hair

06:30:11.100 wow that was

06:30:12.000 shakespearean

06:30:13.060 poetry

06:30:13.480 that was

06:30:14.340 beautiful

06:30:14.820 he spelled

06:30:15.740 rahima

06:30:16.200 wrong

06:30:17.300 learn how to spell

06:30:18.780 baby

06:30:19.040 learn how to spell

06:30:20.880 baby

06:30:21.400 bear in the forest

06:30:24.180 donated twenty

06:30:25.100 dollars

06:30:25.520 as a bear

06:30:26.800 i'd rather be

06:30:27.840 stuck with a

06:30:28.400 random guy than

06:30:29.300 these three hundred

06:30:30.320 and fours

06:30:31.360 bear in the forest

06:30:32.860 are you a black

06:30:33.540 bear are you a

06:30:34.160 grizzly bear

06:30:34.960 sun bear

06:30:35.900 um

06:30:36.460 would a bear

06:30:39.340 rather be with

06:30:40.100 like

06:30:40.400 would you rather

06:30:41.800 question to the

06:30:42.840 bear

06:30:42.980 would you rather be

06:30:43.760 with stuck in the

06:30:44.680 forest with a

06:30:45.460 woman or with

06:30:46.960 what's what

06:30:47.740 predates on a

06:30:49.920 bear

06:30:50.220 nothing are they

06:30:51.780 apex

06:30:52.120 apex

06:30:53.340 okay unless

06:30:54.200 it's a sun bear

06:30:54.920 grizzly bear

06:30:55.500 you're a grizzly

06:30:56.240 bear or no no

06:30:56.940 polar bear

06:30:58.180 would you rather be

06:30:59.200 on an iceberg

06:30:59.900 with a woman

06:31:00.940 or like go into

06:31:02.640 the water and

06:31:03.100 there's a shark

06:31:03.720 just gerald

06:31:04.480 donated twenty

06:31:05.420 dollars

06:31:06.000 lady welsh

06:31:07.360 i'm about to

06:31:08.340 fall asleep

06:31:09.060 will you sing

06:31:10.180 me to sleep

06:31:10.820 between tts

06:31:11.840 donations

06:31:12.400 i mean if they

06:31:14.460 come directly to

06:31:15.380 me we can talk

06:31:16.380 brian underscore

06:31:19.780 atlas donated

06:31:20.780 twenty dollars

06:31:21.780 ladies i'm a

06:31:23.540 little shy but

06:31:24.180 you didn't ask

06:31:25.020 a curtis underscore

06:31:26.060 leon underscore

06:31:26.880 question who

06:31:28.340 would go to the

06:31:29.120 sizzler with brian

06:31:30.060 i mean me

06:31:31.360 i was so toxic

06:31:32.740 tonight

06:31:33.140 underscore

06:31:34.360 skeet underscore

06:31:35.320 skeet underscore

06:31:36.220 six hundred and

06:31:37.660 ninety six thousand

06:31:38.800 nine hundred and

06:31:39.840 sixty nine

06:31:40.560 donated twenty

06:31:41.460 dollars

06:31:42.100 from the window

06:31:43.240 to the wall

06:31:43.880 till the sweat

06:31:44.540 dropped down

06:31:45.280 my balls

06:31:45.980 till all these

06:31:46.840 bitches crawl

06:31:47.720 till all skeet

06:31:48.620 skeet

06:31:49.020 m a fuck

06:31:49.580 till all skeet

06:31:50.620 skeet

06:31:51.020 got a young

06:31:51.700 till all skeet

06:31:52.580 skeet

06:31:52.960 m a fuck

06:31:53.520 till all skeet

06:31:54.520 skeet

06:31:55.080 i need a like a

06:31:56.760 little john

06:31:57.400 loose pussy energy

06:31:58.500 donated twenty

06:31:59.400 dollars

06:32:00.000 yo listen up

06:32:01.460 here's the story

06:32:02.620 about a little guy

06:32:03.560 that lives in a

06:32:04.180 blue world

06:32:04.740 and all day and

06:32:05.620 all night and

06:32:06.260 everything he sees

06:32:07.300 is just blue like

06:32:08.300 him inside and

06:32:09.540 outside

06:32:10.220 that's a good that's a

06:32:11.020 banger that's a

06:32:11.980 banger brother

06:32:12.580 that is a

06:32:14.400 banger

06:32:14.960 ladies

06:32:16.540 is there a break

06:32:18.680 here is this a

06:32:19.220 break uh he one

06:32:20.720 of the chatters

06:32:21.400 going around the

06:32:21.900 table it might take

06:32:22.880 us a while to get

06:32:23.420 to it would you

06:32:24.760 assuming you're

06:32:25.240 single would you

06:32:25.900 date me that's the

06:32:26.960 question is that

06:32:28.340 what a sizzler

06:32:29.040 means would you

06:32:30.460 go on a date with

06:32:31.320 me the sizzler i

06:32:32.100 guess

06:32:32.420 sizzler is a

06:32:33.120 restaurant

06:32:33.500 oh

06:32:34.620 didn't they go out

06:32:35.280 of the business

06:32:35.840 i don't know

06:32:37.300 would you yeah if

06:32:38.300 you were single

06:32:38.780 they're in the

06:32:41.600 forest donated

06:32:42.460 $20

06:32:43.180 as a bear i'd

06:32:45.100 rather take a

06:32:45.780 bullet to save a

06:32:46.720 shark than take a

06:32:47.660 bullet for the

06:32:48.240 women on the

06:32:48.780 panel

06:32:49.180 also tEND

06:32:50.420 I think he broke too.

06:33:03.100 Hashtag free Nick.

06:33:06.000 Quadman 808 donated $20.

06:33:09.800 Lady Welsh feel flattered.

06:33:11.680 You're a catch.

06:33:14.240 Danke schön.

06:33:16.560 Danke schön.

06:33:17.500 Danke schön, mein Schatz.

06:33:19.460 That's beautiful.

06:33:19.920 Do you speak German?

06:33:21.560 DI underscore for underscore big underscore labia donated $20.

06:33:26.620 There's one girl per panel that is gorgeous, Ashley.

06:33:29.800 You immediately wonder, why not married?

06:33:33.320 Insufferable worldview slash expectations.

06:33:36.660 That's why.

06:33:37.860 Girl in blue from last pod was the same.

06:33:40.920 Passport bro 26.

06:33:44.600 Real Trump donated $20.

06:33:46.740 Brian couldn't bring myself to send this on the last show, but a friend of mine said every

06:33:52.560 time you bring on Gorlock, all he can think is that two guys could be in a threesome with

06:33:57.600 him and never meet.

06:34:00.540 Loose pussy energy donated $20.

06:34:03.520 Blew his house with a blue little window and a blue Corvette and everything is blue for

06:34:07.940 him and himself and everybody around because he ain't got nobody to listen.

06:34:11.840 I'm blue da bar dee da bar dee.

06:34:14.820 That's beautiful.

06:34:16.100 Anonymous donated $20.

06:34:17.640 Bro, we have so many.

06:34:19.020 The ting goes scruff, pap, pap, pap, car, car, car, skidiki, pap, pap, and a poo, poo,

06:34:24.000 pow, boom, skier.

06:34:25.280 Do, do, co, coo, doom, doom, doom, poom, poom.

06:34:27.940 Do, done now.

06:34:28.580 Oh my gosh.

06:34:30.540 Uh.

06:34:31.040 Curtis underscore leon underscore donated $20.

06:34:34.860 Why should women not have driver's licenses?

06:34:37.700 There's no freeway between the kitchen and the bedroom.

06:34:40.820 Oh my gosh.

06:34:41.740 This is, I like all these jokes.

06:34:43.440 It's funny.

06:34:44.380 Yo.

06:34:44.520 The rabbit hole donated $20.

06:34:48.520 You fucking simps.

06:34:50.220 You fucking whores.

06:34:51.680 Fuck you.

06:34:52.560 Fuck you.

06:34:53.540 I fucking love bears.

06:34:55.120 Whoa.

06:34:56.640 Okay.

06:34:57.320 Aggressive.

06:34:58.260 Wow.

06:35:00.780 Oh my gosh.

06:35:01.560 Subcitizen donated $20.

06:35:03.800 Can we ask the Brit to speak more on the women can do whatever they want yet she wants

06:35:08.240 to be traditional?

06:35:09.660 One of the main tenets of this podcast is that that attitude is the problem with dating

06:35:14.240 today.

06:35:16.860 Cherry donated $20.

06:35:19.340 Brian, have you ever cried over a woman?

06:35:22.060 Quick yes or no.

06:35:23.080 Quick yes or no.

06:35:23.860 Quick yes or no.

06:35:24.780 We want to know.

06:35:25.840 Answer.

06:35:26.760 Answer.

06:35:27.060 A singular tear.

06:35:28.400 Aww.

06:35:29.540 Yeah, right.

06:35:30.940 Weep.

06:35:31.180 Singular tear.

06:35:32.120 One time.

06:35:32.520 Bobby.

06:35:33.060 Offes Maybe what did she know Bigg's donated $20.

06:35:34.400 Aww.

06:35:35.040 Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck

06:35:39.480 fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck.

06:35:39.760 Guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever, drop us a follow on the Prime sub if you want.

06:35:44.100 Twitch.tv, drop us a follow on the Prime sub if you have one.

06:35:47.220 Beyond Earth donated $20.

06:35:49.740 Ashley literally left the table and grabbed her phone and deleted photos from her Insta before

06:35:54.700 you guys put it up.

06:35:56.260 Oh.

06:35:56.660 LMFAO.

06:35:56.800 LMFAO.

06:35:57.480 Be honest.

06:35:58.540 Did you?

06:35:59.180 Ashley.

06:35:59.620 No, I went to go grab chips because I'm starving.

06:36:02.260 And my phone's on Do Not Disturb.

06:36:04.680 Women telling you to share your negative emotions with them is terrible advice.

06:36:09.160 The moment you share any fears, insecurities, weaknesses, or anything else negative,

06:36:14.640 they will use it against you.

06:36:16.580 Don't.

06:36:18.160 Yeah, you shouldn't be vulnerable.

06:36:19.280 Get on donated $20.

06:36:21.700 They'll use it against you.

06:36:23.160 Who would you date to ugly, fat, bald guy earning minimum wage but willing to take a bullet for you?

06:36:28.200 Or a super handsome rich man that would not take a bullet for you?

06:36:32.560 Uh, show of hands for the first one.

06:36:37.060 Show of hands for the second one.

06:36:38.940 Wait, sorry.

06:36:40.260 The first one's the poor.

06:36:41.800 He's a minimum wage guy.

06:36:43.380 49 Minnesota Oda underscore wise man $2024 donated $20.

06:36:49.700 Boys, you're six moths in the slammer with a smoking ladyboy getting the best BJs of your life.

06:36:55.340 Or an all-weekend threesome with the girls and butt you're only getting pegged, a.k.a. the Peggy Bought.

06:37:03.620 A ladyboy?

06:37:04.260 Nick Jr. donated $20.

06:37:06.300 Versus singular tier.

06:37:07.600 Versus the OF girl?

06:37:08.340 Is that why you stopped going down under?

06:37:10.980 Dad says hi.

06:37:12.800 I stopped going down in the bush during the Bush administration.

06:37:16.360 It was towards the end of the Bush administration.

06:37:18.620 Just never been a fan of it.

06:37:19.580 I'm a fan of pussy though.

06:37:20.820 Big labia matter.

06:37:22.040 Omk, it's my favorite kick slash OF model.

06:37:24.660 Love your work.

06:37:26.600 Um, I would pick to, to, to, to, to, there's too many coming in.

06:37:29.440 Thank you.

06:37:29.840 Minnesota, wise man.

06:37:30.920 I think the, I got to pick the, I think I picked the OF girls.

06:37:35.740 It's both terrible.

06:37:36.540 It's both terrible.

06:37:36.560 $20.

06:37:37.560 I love this show.

06:37:39.020 Keep it coming.

06:37:40.180 Thank you very much.

06:37:41.380 Thank you.

06:37:42.140 Thank you.

06:37:42.740 I appreciate it.

06:37:43.540 Thank you for the support.

06:37:44.480 Brian's number one simp.

06:37:46.200 Thank you.

06:37:46.920 Thank you very much.

06:37:47.700 11 second Eclipse donated $20.

06:37:52.280 What do you call a bear with no teeth?

06:37:54.720 A gummy bear.

06:37:56.000 A gummy bear.

06:37:56.680 How do you have dad jokes?

06:37:58.020 I never heard that one.

06:37:59.560 That's good.

06:38:00.000 I liked it.

06:38:00.420 That's cute.

06:38:00.660 That was good.

06:38:01.100 That was good.

06:38:01.620 Thank you.

06:38:02.120 That is a dad joke right there.

06:38:03.240 Thank you, Eclipse.

06:38:04.380 D-E-I underscore for underscore big underscore labia donated $20.

06:38:09.420 Brian, come work out with me.

06:38:11.720 You will have abs like the pretty Latina girl.

06:38:13.960 After we fix your body, we can search for the most beautiful labia on earth and hold hands

06:38:19.440 and run into the rainbow of plenty.

06:38:23.020 Hashtag big small we were donated $20.

06:38:26.180 What do you call a hundred black men day after their net?

06:38:31.200 Sorry, I had to skip it, bro.

06:38:32.480 I'm sorry.

06:38:33.020 I got it.

06:38:33.560 Bro, you can't be.

06:38:34.720 Guys, disavow.

06:38:37.020 Disavow.

06:38:37.720 Fucking disavow.

06:38:38.620 Stop that shit.

06:38:39.120 Anonymous donated $20.

06:38:40.220 I'll block you.

06:38:41.040 Brian, how are you so damn cute?

06:38:43.300 I literally LOL for all your jerks.

06:38:46.440 Smiley face.

06:38:48.200 Thank you very much.

06:38:49.380 Thank you.

06:38:49.780 Thank you.

06:38:50.160 Thank you.

06:38:50.780 Is this a man?

06:38:51.320 Are you a dude?

06:38:52.340 Thank you.

06:38:53.180 Thank you.

06:38:53.440 Thank you.

06:38:53.520 Refined Randy donated $20.

06:38:56.420 A row for train goes...

06:38:58.000 Vince Vaughn donated $20.

06:39:11.160 He's a brave and a decent man.

06:39:13.040 he's a pioneer he's a brave and a decent man he's a pioneer love Vince Vaughn love

06:39:20.360 wedding crashers one of the best good movie loose pussy energy donated $20 you let him hit it raw

06:39:27.800 you didn't have second thoughts now you're a single mom now you're a single mom you say

06:39:32.360 don't care if he's here or not now you're a single mom

06:39:36.860 black pill stochastic decay donated $20 quick question raise your hand if you would delete

06:39:45.680 your man for a marriageable man answer before the next TTS answer raise your hand

06:39:51.740 answer your man answer answer answer answer answer answer answer answer answer got your answer

06:40:00.740 curtis underscore leon underscore donated $100 brian to get out of prison you have to

06:40:07.700 participate in a naked human pyramid with 15 inmates including sally struthers and kenny

06:40:13.220 loggins kenny loggins you're at the bottom of the pyramid when it collapses is kenny loggins the

06:40:17.780 guy whose son highway to the day um ria donated $20 q i'm a virgin woman i'll do the i'll do the

06:40:26.780 human pyramid make all the sandwiches 29 f i'm a virgin woman who would love to be a wife

06:40:34.100 oh yeah she's talking about you oh q anonymous donated $20 your dms are open i've got a different

06:40:40.040 take on tonight's panel ria we need more details about you though not stand off for sure dismissive

06:40:45.160 attitude i wouldn't date any of them but it wasn't off the chart delusion list most shows are

06:40:51.040 billy underscore boberson donated $20 i was only nine years old i loved shrek so much i owned all

06:41:00.920 the movies and merchandise i pray to shrek every night thanking him for the life i have been given

06:41:06.940 shrek is love i say shrek is life oh my god shrek is life real trump donated $20 how do you know

06:41:16.020 when a woman is about to say something smart she starts the sentence with a man once told me

06:41:22.180 wow yeah it's a good one anonymous donated $20 brian why are you so damn cute i literally lol at all

06:41:34.700 your jokes thank you thank you very much appreciate it that's to you be honest donated $20 just want

06:41:45.900 to say you the man brian but the not dying for you wife slash your love is wild lol but ashley what if

06:41:51.640 the receipts are shown you deleted photo from insta is your word still good then go take a look

06:41:58.680 man of welsh dreams donated $20 jade they say dating is a numbers game so can i have yours also

06:42:07.400 what do you call a giant pile of cats a meowton hashtag king of the jokes do you do you accept his

06:42:16.440 oh you got a boyfriend though so yeah would you break break oh great show brian keep it going i agree

06:42:22.860 with brian oh that was below the threshold meow meow donated $20 don't you just hate it when your cat

06:42:30.220 wakes you up like this he said this meow meow meow meow meow meow meow meow meow meow meow meow meow it's gonna be

06:42:47.340 ingrained ingrained in my brain it's right here i'm gonna go to sleep at night and i'm gonna hear

06:42:51.660 bing you're gonna have trauma yeah maybe a matter donated $20 it's all scuffed can't stop looking at

06:42:56.940 bottom right my motorboat goes like room room room room room room room room room room room is that

06:43:07.260 i think he's supposed to be that serious i gotta see the people sitting in these tts man i gotta meet

06:43:16.860 these people oh my god

06:43:19.900 di underscore for underscore big underscore labia donated $20 seriously ashley why haven't you been

06:43:27.500 wiped up yet priya is young so she gets a pass not sure how old you are if it's past 27 teresa big

06:43:36.140 problems somewhere 25 right is it bcx worship men cop out that was a four-year relationship

06:43:42.460 shrek donated $20 what the fuck was that disavow

06:43:49.500 what was disavow what oh the the joke yeah yeah yeah the joke yeah yo what's up shrek thank you for

06:43:56.780 the support brother uh florida man i love the pod your wife and i watch on christ's lord christ's

06:44:05.660 lord he'll take a bullet you can i underscore hate underscore huge underscore labia's donated

06:44:11.180 twenty dollars you hate my mother taught me to never trust anything that bleeds once a month and

06:44:16.460 doesn't matter but only after i had accumulated six kids w slash four baby mamas all of which were

06:44:23.500 planned without my knowledge wait what curtis underscore leon underscore donated $20 you misogynist brian

06:44:31.660 you should have been a marine we would have had a hilarious time in afghanistan also the sizzler is

06:44:37.580 still open at least in san diego it is and i've been there do your fam have a castle no my family

06:44:44.460 does not have a castle but i did grow up right next to one oh yeah let's see i should have been

06:44:50.140 a marine it's beautiful i i was more of an air force i would have been more of an air force mr rogers

06:44:55.820 donated $20 the only reason i believe in transgender rights is for the possibility of brian becoming my

06:45:02.780 mom okay what what do you want to be a mother brian i'll adopt you mr rogers donated $20 ria is a 29

06:45:14.060 year old virgin someone quickly grab a net so we can catch her and study how that's even possible

06:45:20.780 i'm gonna go all out and send my number seven billion seven hundred and fifty seven million

06:45:25.980 two hundred and nine thousand eight hundred and twenty four

06:45:31.820 six hundred and ninety six six trillion nine hundred and sixty nine quintillion six hundred and ninety six

06:45:38.460 six thousand nine hundred and sixty nine donated twenty dollars three six nine damn you fine hoping

06:45:54.300 she can sock it to me one more time get low get low get low get low get low wow wow such wow fire show

06:46:02.540 tonight so the sweat drip down the wall all these mommy milk just donated $20 all skeet skeet skeet

06:46:08.380 motherfucker all skeet skeet got sorry sorry milky milk mommy milky mommy milky mommy milky who's this

06:46:15.020 directed to milky milk mommy milky mommy milky mommy milky mommy milky mommy milky

06:46:20.940 milky milky milky mommy milky milky milky yo we don't end the stream till till they're all done

06:46:30.300 the honest donated $20 we keep we keep actually clearly a liar that's why she's not married i got

06:46:36.060 the receipts to prove it i pulled up your insta right when you got up cause i could tell you were up

06:46:41.260 to something this is why we push back ashley did you hide the twerking video no you hid the twerking

06:46:48.700 video i mean you guys saw my instagram before i haven't had any i think it's a memory but um yeah

06:46:54.780 yeah yeah lying why i'm not married though what does that mean

06:47:01.420 you're not married you know why you're not married is because you're still

06:47:07.260 i'm not hung up on my eggs come on come on come on ashley no it's a different way of saying it

06:47:14.780 we should who was suggesting was it you nick that we should have the ex on the show

06:47:19.100 absolutely not would he come i want to hear his side of the story on all this he would take

06:47:26.140 accountability wait oh what if we did like a a couple show you guys come on together and then

06:47:33.420 we do like an intervention that way yeah no

06:47:37.580 if you're watching the show bro you can do a call in just saying crispy christopherson donated 20

06:47:47.340 much respect for the show i really enjoy seeing q pill on he brings good energy gustave is super

06:47:54.460 chill brian you're a great host really appreciate this panel and this podcast in general christopher

06:48:01.420 hashtag love you wait your first name is crispy oh crispy christopherson okay thank you man appreciate

06:48:09.420 it uh appreciate it do you think that q should uh just move to santa just just just finally move to

06:48:16.540 santa barbara and just like a you know gustavo's eye discipline donated 20 dollars good job keeping

06:48:24.540 your eyes up all show he did a great job he did a great job it was beautiful it was beautiful

06:48:38.940 i'm proud to be an american cherry donated 20 dollars brian you should bring your exes on the pod

06:48:46.700 that's a good idea that's tough that'd be

06:48:53.500 they probably wouldn't be like here's the thing i've made it i've never dated like a social media

06:48:58.380 chick never dated an influencer never dated a content creator i don't think they'd be down

06:49:02.940 for it they're like 20 she's definitely still hung up on me ask me how i know is that him

06:49:11.980 do you think he's watching right now no he has no idea i'm here he doesn't come on

06:49:17.660 roll donated 20 dollars oh i love this song never gonna give you up never gonna let you down

06:49:22.860 never gonna run around and desert you never gonna make you cry never gonna say goodbye never gonna

06:49:28.540 tell a lie and hurt you it's a good song wow that would those were some fire dance moves

06:49:34.060 no that's like the the little thing isn't it the little gift never gonna give you up never gonna give

06:49:39.260 you down oh i would you rather suck a prosthetic peen of a uh a tea or lick the prosthetic

06:49:52.220 uh

06:49:53.900 vagina i'll engage just as a hypothetical because i'm a nice guy

06:49:57.180 uh damn that's a hard one is it um yeah

06:50:10.060 i guess the so the trans man is the woman with the the the the peen i think i have to take the

06:50:17.020 prosthetic peen i think you have to that's still made out of vagina isn't it love the show can i get

06:50:21.900 it and wait what was it oh it was below the threshold what did you read that nick was it

06:50:26.460 below the threshold whichever one came in guys 20 and up just a reminder um which q what would

06:50:32.940 you do on that one

06:50:35.340 curtis underscore leon underscore donated twenty dollars brian and q arrive in prison at the same

06:50:41.740 day the gangs say you can't join unless you shank the other they throw a shank on the floor in the

06:50:47.820 shower who wins if you both refuse your fair game honestly dude i i it's i've got back problems i'll

06:50:57.580 win q's an athlete i'm i win i'm battle tested if it's like we're 10 feet away from the knife q's

06:51:03.420 faster than me bro like i'm a fighter i got a couple inches on q i you know what though i'm gonna i'm

06:51:11.580 gonna use my my tai chi and i'm gonna wait what's that thing that not tai chi my wingspan is longer

06:51:19.260 though bro i got long arms i got i got a 6-3 wingspan rito please donated 20 dollars mommy milk is

06:51:29.180 strategically placed right across from brian i see what you did there kappa oh whoops i should have

06:51:35.340 kept it my bed well actually the funny thing is my laptop blocks gustavo donated i can't see that

06:51:43.420 gustavo can you bow for me let's see oh that was beautiful gustavo gustavo simp yo what's crazy is

06:51:51.580 guys these girls are finding gustavo's instagram he's not linked anywhere these girls are like trying

06:51:57.900 to smash it's crazy like 20 chips i am the one that finds you so damn funny and cute brian i could

06:52:05.820 watch you all day oh uh thank you thank you is that a man's name oh my god madeira that could be a dude

06:52:18.860 you know what i mean no thank you though i appreciate the compliment thank you for the endorsement what was

06:52:24.140 the question that we were gonna get to i said that we were gonna get to it but then too many

06:52:29.420 oh yeah it was you first you answered it already oh if we were gonna oh yes thank you thank you good

06:52:34.220 one good one gustavo this guy 100 200 300 iq back here remembers everything and all the girls can

06:52:41.340 find his ig it's crazy how many girls have dm'd you gustavo you're not linked anywhere they're like

06:52:47.420 going through my profile it's crazy what sorry go ahead 10 10 chicks of girls are good

06:52:53.900 bro they investigated i'm like we go we look at the likes we look at who you follow who's liking

06:53:00.700 your stuff and who's commenting wait well did you guys remember that thing where there's this woman

06:53:06.140 who it was like a viral tick tock she saw a guy who like a grocery store or something and instead

06:53:12.780 of approaching him i think she looked on a receipt or something found his name searched up his mother

06:53:19.500 i these i might be getting a little backwards uh searched up his mom on facebook saw that she was

06:53:27.580 part of a book club went to the book club and then talked to the mom and then was like can you set me up

06:53:33.100 with your single song do you guys know what i'm talking about i did not see that but that is like next

06:53:38.780 level like i believe it great cest canadian ever donated 20 and 32 cents love the show thank you

06:53:46.780 brother all the way from canada hey dude can i get any from the panel smile hey wait is this like the

06:53:54.140 fonzie hey canadian wait what's there's a meme about the eighth oh wait the michael scott thing

06:54:01.100 wait what is that wait nick can you look up the office michael scott fonzie oh wait this might

06:54:12.780 actually they're super serious with hold on don't play it yet anything off of netflix they'll fuck no

06:54:18.380 don't do it jayakin donated twenty dollars ladies do you prefer beards or clean shaven brian i dig the

06:54:26.060 haircut about time yeah q great to see you again thank you thank you thank you jay

06:54:34.060 yeah we'll do it uh would you go on a date with me to sizzler

06:54:40.220 bro i'm i'm not offended by you don't have to worry about offending me i'm not worried about

06:54:45.420 offending you you're just mean i would feel you'd be mean oh now okay you could just you could have

06:54:51.020 just said no you could have just said no if you were nice i'm a nice guy

06:54:57.660 i'm a nice guy you know i'm a nice guy nice guy i won't take a bullet for you but still

06:55:03.500 i was gonna say no because what if there's a gun at sizzler you're not gonna take a bullet

06:55:08.380 if there's yeah you're right you're right if if there's a actually you know what first date

06:55:14.140 questions body count i gotta i gotta take the i don't gotta take the bullet at sizzler i gotta hit i

06:55:20.300 gotta protect you from the salad bar that shit i remember once i was a kid i went to sizzler you

06:55:25.420 know how in the it was like the self-service meatballs i had way too many of those i was

06:55:32.060 fucked up off those meatballs at sizzler holy i will protect you from the meatballs at sizzler i'll be

06:55:38.620 like babe if q was my girlfriend babe babe stay away from the meatballs

06:55:45.660 i got you see guys that was my protective instinct did you see that did you see how

06:55:52.220 protective i was of q no no no the meatballs no no no no no no so uh what about you i like meatballs

06:56:01.900 okay would you so would you go on a date with me the sizzler

06:56:10.620 oh blah blah blah blah blah six thousand nine hundred and sixty nine your last one's in guys

06:56:15.820 get your last one's in okay okay so 10 years in lock up or smash gorlock pick wisely also bottle

06:56:23.740 pop if the 28 i mean 48 year old ebony takes off the wig uh gorlock

06:56:31.420 gorlock hands donated 20 dollars hey brian i'm your biggest supporter from germany i'm gonna move to

06:56:39.020 the us and need some advice on dating differences between europe and usa maybe a good topic for one of

06:56:45.820 the next podcasts european girls are hot donated 20 dollars stay in europe dude don't come to the us

06:56:53.420 you dork i didn't mean sorry i i hands i'm you're not a dork i'm just saying german girls are beautiful

06:57:01.340 why are you coming to the us dude stay in germany i actually think german is a very sexy uh

06:57:08.780 language like a girl like have you ever had a girl speak german yeah dirty talk german

06:57:18.540 no i don't speak german i know well i know a couple words do you speak any other languages blitzkrieg

06:57:25.900 ryan what do you speak any other languages okay all right

06:57:30.780 that's it all right very good i can say more just uh did did the milk mommy milkers one come

06:57:40.780 through yeah you were talking while it wait it's not coming through it already came through it did

06:57:50.220 oh that's weird something's bugged oh there it is

06:57:54.380 nate donated twenty dollars holy mommy milkers

06:58:00.060 uh something is weird with the uh connection

06:58:05.260 oh sorry there's something weird going on in streamlabs

06:58:10.140 opcd on donated twenty dollars there's something still eagerly waiting to see grace thorpe on the show

06:58:16.140 her speed dates on playing with fire are so entertaining

06:58:19.420 uh opc don

06:58:24.700 gotlock underscore the underscore destroyer donated twenty dollars

06:58:29.260 tong bastong wang lipa chun kai ku yamaya stupa he's to rona old jedi mind trick

06:58:36.620 ho ho ho

06:58:41.260 get your last ones in guys get your last ones in

06:58:43.500 trump 2024 donated 20 dollars at natalie carey underscore has been based all night

06:58:50.060 yeah they like love your content they liked you natalie go follow her everyone yeah i watched your

06:58:54.460 content on instagram is very good i liked it oh thanks superman kill off krypton donated 20

06:59:01.500 not that you earned this money you owe the mental handicapped an apology for constantly in every

06:59:06.860 water stream saying the r word also you are turning slowly to myron jr with your semi-bullying

06:59:13.500 listen i think that you know i am holding up free speech by saying the r word okay

06:59:26.060 there's oh fucking chase posted this funny on twitter

06:59:29.660 oh myron myron from uh fresh and fit um what's it called uh i can't stand anyways i forgot that there

06:59:41.500 was a meme but whatever uh wait oh going around the table

06:59:47.900 would you date would you go on a date with me the sizzler

06:59:50.140 no okay that's fine what's up boo if i was single i would go on a date with you just to see if this

07:00:00.140 is a persona or if you're actually you know the same

07:00:05.580 bear in the forest donated 20 dollars brain any chance that circa comes on

07:00:11.100 uh isn't he like stuck in canada or something i don't know because he's a

07:00:18.780 Canadian citizen right isn't he like uh carly like california donated 20 dollars and 32 cents

07:00:25.660 hello beautiful ladies question for the panel would you be okay with your guy having a few friends as

07:00:31.900 girls yes yeah no i wouldn't be cool with my girl no having a couple guy friends i would not i would

07:00:43.500 not be okay with that you agree with that absolutely all right there we go

07:00:49.500 di underscore for underscore big underscore labia donated 20 dollars question for latina girl with apps

07:00:56.940 you are married right why come on this thing i know married come on to balance the of useless

07:01:02.940 set of whole thoughts but i'm genuinely curious what you get out of it which is i enjoy talking

07:01:10.380 are you latina mm-hmm half oh i thought you were like middle i'm half russian and half half what

07:01:16.780 russian oh half russian okay interesting lauren what about you would you go on a date with me to uh

07:01:23.260 sizzler would it be 50 50. no meatballs no meatballs i'm vegetarian i'm pescatarian oh yeah tell you

07:01:33.900 what in this scenario i would pay for the sizzler date okay why not okay all right uh smashly ashley

07:01:41.340 what about you no because you would not take a bullet for me and i'm not a virgin real trump donated

07:01:50.540 twenty dollars for the british what is your opinion american men uh to be honest when i went to

07:01:56.860 england i felt like there were more attractive women at a jenny craig party besides you of course

07:02:02.780 you're gorgeous okay i do think british women have donated twenty dollars this one's for you

07:02:09.740 motorboat time blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blue

07:02:15.980 wow that was wow america appreciate it nate no that was good that was a good one ian

07:02:21.580 ian haynes donated twenty dollars mommy milkers calcium cannons to go labor tees gonna be up all night

07:02:29.180 again because of the busty beauty oh wow okay thank you ian

07:02:34.220 jake azula donated twenty dollars i want to take tits muggy in a bathtub full of pepto-bismol because

07:02:42.780 i'm about to move down and get suffocated in those fun bags also why did simba's dad die he didn't

07:02:50.060 mufasa enough you're very interesting fans for those guys input from youtube do we raid so two

07:03:01.980 options for those on twitch do we raid whoa wow grandma or do we raid aladar aladar is uh the uh i think the

07:03:14.140 gentleman i think he's in his 40s who's playing world of warcraft or whoa grandma 82 she's playing

07:03:20.140 world of warcraft we did raid her previously so let me pull up the twitch chat and see what the

07:03:27.260 twitch chat says i'll let the twitch chat decide who do we raid aladar he's playing world of warcraft or

07:03:34.780 whoa grandma who do we raid who do we raid boys aladar always grandma grandma grandma grandma okay a lot

07:03:43.340 granny's uh nick can you uh pull up her we'll get that going here in just a sec uh wait so your answer

07:03:51.820 was no to the sizzler date is that correct because the bullet thing yeah fair fair valid you already know

07:03:58.300 what i'm gonna say yes of course no damn all right boys q would you go on a date with me the sizzler

07:04:10.380 hey i'll take what i can get with that said nick can you pull up

07:04:24.780 our dear friend whoa grandma we're gonna rate those of you who are watching on twitch

07:04:29.980 really quick actually go to open the twitch tab guys if you're watching on twitch before we raid

07:04:34.540 drop us a follow guys also pull up the thing from stream labs twitch.tv

07:04:41.580 twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you have one oh

07:04:47.180 shit wait did the session restart on twitch that sucks yeah that's weird oh well um

07:04:52.860 drops a follow drops prime sub over there on twitch would very much appreciate that guys

07:04:58.300 drops a follow drop us a prime sub if you have amazon prime you can link it to your twitch it's

07:05:03.820 a quick and free easy way to support the show every single month so uh yeah thank you guys appreciate it

07:05:09.980 now as far as the raid over there on twitch before let me just do my little outro thing so we are

07:05:15.260 going to raid whoa grandma well i just try to raid a smaller streamer give them some love she's 82 she

07:05:20.780 plays world of warcraft uh be nice to her guys when we send you over there also i want to wish a

07:05:26.540 speedy recovery to my twitch slash discord mod teeny she got food poisoning so feel better uh also if

07:05:33.740 anybody's in the santa barbara area i want to add two background characters if you're willing to

07:05:40.220 volunteer my budget's already stretched thin i don't know if i can you know i'm willing to pay

07:05:44.940 i shouldn't have said that uh i just you know we've already got the good background characters

07:05:51.820 and didn't you know but if you're down to volunteer to be a background character you just get to watch

07:05:56.460 the show and you get you get a uniform you get to be a soldier right if you're interested let me know

07:06:03.660 so gg well played to the panel thank you all for coming this was a long stream i appreciate you all making

07:06:08.140 it to the very end here gg well played those watching on youtube last call hit the like button

07:06:14.460 please on your way out thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world

07:06:19.260 but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donates and supports

07:06:24.220 the show especially everybody who uh even though we had some stream issues tonight you stuck with us

07:06:29.900 we will be live again sunday 5 p.m pacific with a fantastic show any girls who want to be on the show

07:06:36.700 you can dm out whatever on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara oh seven's in the chat nick

07:06:42.060 can you pull up our good friend rip rooney it's not

07:06:56.460 uh hold on let me oh

07:06:59.340 one sec let me let me check on my end hold on you know memento bully for the lawyer

07:07:14.940 hey be nice to whoa grandma oh can you pull it up yeah but it's not is is it's not loading

07:07:23.340 okay try one more time refresh try to do a refresh

07:07:30.860 shit okay try go to aladar a-l-o oh it's working now

07:07:39.580 we might have to raid him instead i guess if that's not working

07:07:45.980 hold on guys hold on speaking of

07:07:49.020 while we're getting this going who do you think is the primary victim of war men or women

07:07:59.660 i don't know

07:08:06.700 is aladar working nick uh a-l-o-d-a-r a-l-o-d-a-r

07:08:14.220 so who's the primary victim of war i don't know men are the ones that are dying and women and

07:08:22.940 children are the ones that are impacted by it so okay so who's the primary primary victim of

07:08:28.060 men they're dying no no no can't pass

07:08:32.460 children

07:08:35.580 that was what i thought hold on so the question is

07:08:38.140 a little too but yes men or women pause that who's the primary victim of war men or women

07:08:43.740 disregard the children

07:08:48.700 everyone i don't i'm gonna be i can't don't no no no don't weasel don't weasel answer the question

07:08:54.380 good for anybody okay so it's equally so your answer is it's equally bad equally sucks yeah for

07:09:01.740 both men and women equally sucks yes that's my opinion final answer yep men i would assume men

07:09:12.860 this is actually what my next album is about and i'd say everyone but i guess you could say the most

07:09:19.580 it's about um there's war and then how it affects communities and like okay yeah but but oh i will say

07:09:26.540 yeah i mean community yeah okay smashly do you want to answer this

07:09:34.860 all right what was it no go ahead go ahead well um men but you know if your country's being invaded

07:09:41.900 women get r the r word and stuff like that you know that happens a lot let's assume that that's the

07:09:48.620 case right so like during world war ii for example exactly uh there were definitely women who were uh

07:09:53.100 essayed a lot yep absolutely terrible thing who's the who's the primary victim of war even if women do

07:10:00.700 get essayed during the war right um i guess still men because they're dying yeah men

07:10:13.420 so you said it's equal you said it's equal everybody it changes communities because they

07:10:24.620 take them from those areas and put them in other areas and wait bringing it back to the bullet

07:10:32.860 if a man hold on hold on last thing if a man

07:10:37.980 sacrifices his life for you and you're in love with him

07:10:45.340 what again god damn it oh thank god oh jesus christ uh it's not the worst thing

07:10:53.180 it's the bullet talk when you bring it up yeah seriously

07:10:56.940 uh well okay so yeah i'm just gonna ask the question for the recorded video okay so the question is

07:11:02.460 the one who's the one who's dead he's gone so is it the only person who's alive like defaults to

07:11:28.300 being the victim are we saying that if you die you are the victim into the into the mic hi um if

07:11:35.180 someone dies are they should you just unplug replug it really quick let's just see if that works just

07:11:42.300 so i can say good night and we have to do the we have to do we should try to make it so it's a proper

07:11:47.420 stream end so we'll have to wait another few minutes to get that going again i don't know why that happened

07:11:52.220 um we'll just we'll just skip yeah skip no the guy is the dead one's okay the man yeah the guy who

07:12:02.060 dies guy who dies okay cool all right guys but what was that trying to prove okay you know we can

07:12:13.500 i was about to wrap we need to we do need to wait until it's so frustrating we need to wait until the

07:12:19.180 it should be just a few minutes as soon as it comes back i guarantee you we're gonna end the stream

07:12:26.380 um i just don't want it if we just like say it it could present some issues so i just want to be

07:12:35.740 i want to be careful here i want to be very careful i'll be right back in a minute guys

07:12:41.900 i'm hungry i'm hungry too she's over there eating everything

07:12:58.060 what are some good places around here that are open late for food

07:13:02.540 i go over there and she just over there

07:13:03.740 chips

07:13:04.140 where

07:13:05.900 well heaven

07:13:07.500 i said she just was eating everything every time she gave up and go over there

07:13:10.460 i was coming like two or three chips

07:13:12.300 yeah

07:13:13.740 i should have done that i was trying to get

07:13:15.980 no i was hungry i'm like

07:13:18.620 oh gosh

07:13:19.580 yeah we gotta get something

07:13:22.380 we're still going to denny's or something that'd be good

07:13:24.220 no we're done wait where where are we going to eat because the hotel's done on food right now

07:13:29.100 7 11.

07:13:29.660 7 11.

07:13:30.700 7 11.

07:13:31.660 in and out wait what time is it open until

07:13:33.340 in and out what time is it now until like 1 right

07:13:35.980 oh i want a burger okay we might oh doordash

07:13:41.740 let's doordash it up yeah we're gonna do it

07:13:44.540 i'm like there's the options there

07:13:46.220 yeah

07:13:46.700 so what are you

07:13:48.220 or taco bell

07:13:49.180 ooh taco bell

07:13:50.140 taco bell

07:13:50.700 my favorite i love the aardvark fries but with no chicken and no aardvark sauce for the best

07:13:57.100 it's so good

07:13:57.580 i had that

07:13:58.140 yeah just get it with no meat and and get it with um the avocado sauce and then no um aardvark sauce

07:14:05.820 because aardvark sauce is nice

07:14:07.660 can i get my phone back

07:14:12.140 i've been driving home right now

07:14:13.820 no we're not driving home from oh yeah we're going to a hotel yeah well the last thing you guys

07:14:18.380 i did it i was like on the verge of crying i'm like stay up who did me and rahima did oh you

07:14:23.420 did oh yeah yeah we we drove here with the lift and blast him i took a look at this time

07:14:29.740 i don't want to do it oh i see all right once she's back from the bathroom i'll uh

07:14:34.620 should we try and get this twitch raid going let's see if try to pull up will grandma just

07:14:42.700 try to pull up will grandma um

07:14:47.100 sorry guys we're back it's totally scuffed i pretty much read the outro so um yeah pull her

07:14:54.140 pull her up i don't even know if we have any okay i'm gonna start the raid thank you for watching

07:14:59.980 on twitch i'm sending you guys over there and just oh me oh is it is it going what the

07:15:07.340 i learned how to do this there's something weird this is dragon flight right or no i think i think i

07:15:12.700 know what's happening but i'll hear okay starting raid thank you for watching over there on twitch

07:15:19.420 see you guys uh next time good night guys over there on twitch

07:15:24.460 all right let's pray this works and then we'll

07:15:28.700 our chat on youtube so we can uh sure yeah

07:15:39.660 oh sober uh so there's whatever

07:15:45.980 thank you for the raid whatever they said you were trying and had problems so thank you for

07:15:52.700 continuing to try welcome everybody nick are you able to hide that bar at the bottom

07:15:58.700 absolutely uh so yeah there she is she's playing world of warcraft

07:16:08.460 hello there i'm doing dragon racing and it's frustrating but

07:16:14.140 it's good she's playing world of warcraft anyways uh okay you can uh you can exit out of that

07:16:21.180 yeah she's 82 guys she's streaming she's got a better stream setup than us obviously

07:16:25.580 internet internet internet problems it's uh it's been a major issue tonight so appreciate it guys um

07:16:34.060 that's pretty much it did the stream lab stop working because it's still been at 20 and nobody

07:16:38.940 sent anything which is making me think uh really quick just just so i know i'm not trying to

07:16:44.700 did the stream lab stop working guys like did any of you try to send anything in stream labs

07:16:49.660 and it stopped working um because it's a little peculiar i'm not like trying to solicit more on

07:16:57.180 stream labs but i'm concerned that our stream labs broke again so uh yeah and our chat is super delayed

07:17:06.140 i think i know what the problem is but

07:17:10.300 our chat's super delayed here that's weird okay well it is what it is it is it is what it is

07:17:17.660 uh oh sevens okay guys uh are we forgetting anything i think not i think we're good right

07:17:25.980 right everybody right we got everything all right guys thanks again so much for tuning in we'll be

07:17:31.100 live again sunday 5 p.m pacific oh sevens in the chat i hope you all oh where's madison she's not in

07:17:35.820 frame we should get mad we need to get madison pop in frame no no like cup pop okay oh sevens in the

07:17:44.700 chat guys uh hope you guys have a good night we'll see you next time

07:17:48.060 mm-hmm

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Whatever Podcast - May 01, 2024

Brian GOES OFF! Man vs. Bear HEATED DEBATE？! She's Single BUT STILL Sees Her Ex？! ｜ Dating Talk #157

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