Dating Talk #12
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3 hours and 7 minutes
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173.23679
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131
Summary
On this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, we have our first guest on the show, Chris! Chris is a 21-year-old college student from the Bay Area. We talk about what it's like being in a relationship with someone who's single, and what it means to be in a committed relationship with a single person.
Transcript
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Hi, welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast.
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A few quick announcements before the show begins.
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Cat Lady from last stream stole my meow mix prop.
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So, but yeah, anyways, this channel is viewer supported.
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Or do you want to marginalize me until I'm out of my moment?
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And Sam, we saw your two super chats before the show.
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Without further ado, Chris, if you want to just bring it on back.
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We're going to have the guests introduce themselves, so please tell us your name, age, occupation, and or school major, and current relationship status.
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I'm a student at UCSB, and I'm majoring in Soch with an applied psych minor, and I'm in a relationship.
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I'm a brand ambassador for alcoholic beverages, and I don't care.
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I don't go to school anymore, but I graduated from CC in 2021.
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I'm a UCSB student studying psych and brain, and I'm single.
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I study economics at UCSB, and I am single as well.
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And for occupations, I just do internships at the moment.
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I'm actually in between jobs right now, so I'm going to be starting my next job next month.
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I'm working on becoming a firefighter right now.
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I just do wildland firefighting, and I'm single.
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I'm a student right now at Santa Barbara City College, and I'm an OnlyFans manager.
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Steven Krug, we have new alerts, and it threw me off.
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We are still using the previous overlays, but we're also introducing that.
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So, Steven, thank you for becoming a member, man.
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I think you're one of our first 10 members, so really appreciate it.
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And, okay, so just again, really quick show of hands.
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So, of those of you who said that you're single, when's the last time that you hooked
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So, you go to UCSB, graduate from SBCC, both of you, UCSB, and then Tristan, and sorry,
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We got some locals, some Santa Barbara locals on the panel.
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So, what I wanted to ask, there's a war between UCSB and SBCC.
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For those watching or you're not familiar, UCSB, the University of California, Santa Barbara,
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Do you look down upon men who go to Santa Barbara City College?
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And I think you should double bag it if you're hooking up with them.
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You should wear two condoms if you're hooking up with a guy at SBCC.
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You go to Del Playa, those dudes are active as hell.
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I feel like UCSB guys are a lot mustier, a lot dirtier than guys at SBCC.
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Because they come from other places that isn't Santa Barbara.
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And guys, locals to Santa Barbara are not dirty.
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That is a very good statement to make at this time.
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I'm a local from Santa Barbara, so I appreciate your rave review.
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So any thoughts on the, you know, SBCC guys versus UCSB guys?
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Because I've had only creepy experiences with SBCC guys on DP, so...
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Yeah, there's usually, it's like top tier, mid tier, like bottom tier, but I feel like
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here, we're not Alabama Rush, so it's not really like, oh my God, I got into this one.
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I mean, I don't, I don't come out to IV, so I don't really know the guys out here.
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On the topic of Greek life, I have a fraternity.
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You got to become a member, but you can be part of my fraternity.
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And Sam, we're going to get to your super chats after we do a quick article review here.
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Okay, so this is an article that was published in The Sun online.
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So, this nightclub, and I believe it's in Sydney, in Australia, they banned staring.
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So, they'll kick you out of the nightclub if you're staring.
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And you have to get verbal consent to stare at someone.
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Now, I'm not sure, like, if just taking a quick one-second glance at someone would constitute staring.
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You know, the panel, I wanted to open it up to the panel.
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I feel like it's creepier to go ask somebody if you can stare at them than just actually staring at them.
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I feel like you would have to come up with, like, a creative way of asking, like, I don't know.
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You would have to go up to them and be like, you're looking so beautiful, this and that.
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I would love to stare at you all day if I could, like, convince them to your best, you know?
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Yeah, creepy, but, you know, like, how are you going to, I don't even know, honestly, but.
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I feel like there's bigger problems to worry about that happen in nightclubs.
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I agree, and also, I feel like I would much rather, like, somebody stare at me than walk up to me and be like,
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you're so beautiful, am I allowed to stare at you?
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But, again, it depends on, did they actually ban staring or is there more to it?
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I believe they just outright banned staring, so.
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You're like, you go up to the bouncer, like, he's been staring at me, kick him out, please.
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Pretty much, and I also want to ask, who do you think is this going to most affect, men or women?
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Who are going to be the target of the enforcement by the nightclub staff?
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Who, what guy's going to be like, that bitch is staring at me.
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He'll be flexing, he'll be telling his boys, hey, that girl's been staring at me all night.
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Um, yeah, I think it's creepy for, I mean, it's creepy when people stare, but it's easy just to, like, turn around and, like, I just pretend, like, I don't see them.
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But, yeah, for someone to be like, hey, can I look at you?
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I feel like that's my, when people, like, send me a picture, I'm, like, go look at my page, you can stare all you want.
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You ask them to stare at them and then walk away and then look at them.
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I wouldn't do that personally, but I'm saying, like, the culture could be different over there.
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Yeah, so it might not be weird to them, you know?
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Not really, because my mom is from a different country and staring is, like, saying you're beautiful, so.
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Unless it's, like, for too long and they're, like, getting weird about it and, like, following you around or something like that.
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But, other than that, it's, like, saying that they're good looking and that it's, like, not a threat most of the time.
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What about a good looking person in a wheelchair?
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Because staring at someone in a wheelchair, right?
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It depends on what other people around you think or what the person in the wheelchair thinks.
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Like, what are you, you're really restricting someone's eyeballs from looking at someone?
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I mean, I get, like, full-on staring and it's weird, but, like, I mean, there's no point to even fucking state that.
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That you need to go ask for verbal consent before you can, I mean, I'm not saying staring, they should fucking stare, but, like, that's fucking weird.
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And it's just, like, it's just a weird, who wants to go to this club now?
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I'm trying to pick something up and running dry.
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You should invite some slow brain bimbos like Fresh and Fit, and the content writes itself.
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Okay, Stephen Krug, thank you for the super chat.
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We're trying out a new, new alerts, so that's the new alerts.
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We still have the StreamYard functionality here.
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While we have it up, we had a few super chats come in before the show.
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But don't know about you, but I'd rather be with someone who's experienced, uninhibited,
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who has fully explored and embraced their sexuality.
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To be clear, I never said body count doesn't matter, but why should it only matter at the high end?
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Do you not have high expectations in the bedroom?
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Well, Sam, thank you for the collective $20 super chat.
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So Sam, for those on the panel who are curious, he left a super chat our previous show, kind of roasting me about my body count preferences.
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And I don't want to get too into it, just because we've covered it, I think, almost every single show.
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It just happens to be the case that it comes up.
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But, yeah, so, I mean, Sam, why should it only matter at the high end?
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For me, I don't know if you like to take, and I'm not saying this to insult you,
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I don't know if you're more submissive and you like women to take the lead in bed,
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but I know what I'm doing, and I could take a girl who's, I'm trying to paint this in as generous of a sense as possible,
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but, like, I can lead, so I don't have, I could take someone who's inexperienced, and it can still be great sex for me.
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So, this is an argument between inexperienced people and inexperienced people?
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It's basically, I mean, I've, in a few podcasts, we've had the body count discussion come up
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and how a lot of men prefer, not all men, but most men, if you were to ask them, especially for, I mean, there's different tiers.
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So, you'd have, like, a one-night stand, you'd have a casual hookup, you'd have dating, you'd have a serious relationship, and you'd have marriage.
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I think as you continue to go up those tiers, men are going to be more and more selective when it comes to a woman's body count.
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So, if you just want to have a one-night stand with a girl, you're probably going to care a bit less.
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I think guys would still have a preference for someone who's just not, doesn't have a huge body count.
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But as you keep going up, you know, you get into a long-term relationship marriage area,
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then guys are going to value sexual purity for those sorts of relationships.
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Most men aren't going to be honest about it, though, but that's the thing.
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I don't know what kind of, like, acrobatic shit you're doing, dude.
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Like, I mean, if you want to be more dominant and you lead, like, you can get a girl on your program.
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Actually, let me finish off here, and I'm going to pull up your other one here.
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So, he'd rather have someone who's experienced, uninhibited, who has fully explored and embraced their sexuality.
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So, Sam, I mean, my question to you is, where do you draw the line?
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Because in your previous super chat from last week that you stated that you and your friends, you don't care.
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But you're telling me that you date a woman who slept with 200 men?
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I mean, I think a lot of guys would take oral with that.
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But I want to open it up to the panel, because why not?
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I haven't asked a single person that I've been with how many people they've been with, as long as they're healthy and they let me know.
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So, if a guy had slept with 100 women before you, not a problem.
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As long as he's not, like, STD, dirty dick, you know, for the streets.
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As long as he's mine and he's not, like, sleeping with a bunch of girls at the same time, I'm fine.
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So, do you think body count should matter, and would you take issue with a guy if it mattered to him?
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So, do you think body count should matter, and would you take issue with that being a guy's preference for having a partner who has a low body count?
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I mean, I don't care, obviously, but if he cared, then, like, he doesn't have to be with, like, me or any other girl, if that's, like, such a big deal for him.
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Yeah, I would agree that body count doesn't really matter.
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I feel like body count is a social construct, and I feel like.
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I mean, but there was actual acts, so it's not social, it's actually something that happened in reality.
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Yeah, it's something that happened, but it shouldn't have a huge say on what kind of person you are, and I think if you're with someone, it's natural to be curious, maybe, about how many people they've been with in the past, but if you have a problem with the amount of people they've been with, then I don't know about that.
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And so, the second part of the question, would you take issue with a guy taking issue with someone who's promiscuous or who has a high body count?
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I don't think body count matters for my personal preference.
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So, if I'm dating somebody and they have a really high body count, I don't, you know, hold it against them.
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I mean, I'm from Iran, so a lot of men in Iran, obviously, they want to marry virgin women, so I do think a lot of men, it's a religious thing or whatever, but if that's their thing, then, you know, a girl who slept with a lot of people, that's just not her girl, and maybe there's someone for everybody, and if a guy has a problem, then he's not for girls that have slept with guys, I guess.
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I mean, personally, in my opinion, you can't really control what a person does in their past, but...
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Yeah, but you have control over whether you want to be with them or not.
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So for you, if a girl was or is promiscuous, is that someone that you would entertain for a long-term serious relationship?
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It would just depend on how that person kind of made me feel.
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So she slept with 200, she slept with 200 guys before you.
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As you get older, obviously people are going to sleep with more people.
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Yeah, I mean, it's kind of like if you're younger and your body count's really high,
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it's, I mean, I'm not saying it's like a huge, you know, I'm not going to like talk
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to you at all, but like it's just once the body count reaches a certain number, you
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know, like you said, maybe mine would be a little lower than 20, I guess.
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You know, 20 is a good like line, but if it goes to a certain point, I wouldn't, I don't
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It just, I don't think I would be really interested.
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Yeah, I mean, my big thing is, is that I don't want to be sleeping with a woman while she's
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So I don't have, like, obviously when I'm going on a first date with a girl, I don't
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have an expectation that she's immediately loyal to me, but like it is the thought of
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sleeping with a woman who fucked a guy yesterday, it, I don't like that.
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She's free to, I want to make something very clear.
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If she wants to sleep with a hundred men, that's totally fine.
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Does that preclude her from having a long-term relationship with me?
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And that might be a disqualifier for, for her to, for her.
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She might be like, I mean, if he has an issue with it, then I'm not going to be with him.
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And women are totally free to have this preference too.
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If a woman has a preference for a man who is not promiscuous or who has a low body count,
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So I don't want to, some, some people who talk about this topic say, eh, it shouldn't,
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But I think women are more than free to have this exact same preference.
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I feel like a lot of women don't really care though.
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I think there is a, a, a symmetry there in terms of what men and women find attractive.
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And generally speaking, I think women care less.
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There are, there are certainly women that do care, but I think women care less.
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Can we get an F in the chat for our boy, Andrew Tate banned everywhere.
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He w he was going to come on the podcast, but unfortunately.
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And now it's, I was in touch with him via Instagram, but his Instagram is deleted.
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So yeah, basically I don't want to be sleeping with a girl who had sex, who's sleeping with
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To me, that's like getting into cock territory.
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What if it's like in her past, like she had a very dark past.
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Would you still be like, oh no, you slept with a lot of people when you were like 20.
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And because of that, you're not relationship material.
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Because you asked everybody where they draw the line.
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Like age is going to be a factor if she's a bit, you know, if she's a bit older, there's
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She's a bit, you know, if she's 19, 20 and she's got put up 30, 40 bodies, that's a bit
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Why would you be dating a 19-year-old in the first place?
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I mean, what do you have in common with a 19-year-old that just graduated high school?
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What do I have in common with a 33-year-old litigation attorney?
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Maybe you guys could talk about movies in the 80s or something.
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I'm actually probably more in tap with, like, people between, like, 19 and 25 than I am in
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tap with, like, I mean, besides some cultural stuff like music and TV shows that we're on.
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I'd rather masturbate with sandpaper than go to a...
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Then I'll have to address the body count thing.
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Men's preferences are almost always met with contempt, derision, shaming in one way or another.
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Nobody shames women for their preferences, standards, and boundaries.
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But so just to make something clear, most of the women, like, I've dated in the past couple
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years, I'd say are between the age of 25 and 34.
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I might have gone on a date with a girl who was 21 at one point.
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Well, you girls, what is your perspective on, like, age gaps?
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Because I feel like a lot of women, they prefer, like, guys that are older, right?
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So do you guys think that guys your age are immature?
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So how can you simultaneously hold that position but also shame me for wanting to date someone
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If you want to date, I assume you're more attracted to men who are older because they're
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Whereas these, I mean, I don't want to speak for all the men who are younger, but they're
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What if you, like, already fell in love with a girl and, like, were in a committed relationship
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and she lied about it and then you found out later?
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Are you, like, going on the first date and you're like, no.
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So I wouldn't be like, how many men have you slept with?
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I mean, it could somehow come up organically for, you know, on the topic of that.
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But I mean, I'd honestly try to suss it out in other ways.
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I'd probably ask, like, have you ever, are you ever done any swinging?
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I think threesomes can kind of be a good indicator.
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More than threesomes, foursomes can kind of be an indicator of promiscuity.
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I feel like a lot of people would lie about that.
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Yeah, the other thing is, even if you do, even if you are overtly asking, there's no guarantee
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Like, you know, if they're a bit older, I mean, you can start making some assumptions.
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I think you can, there's like some ways you can kind of suss it out.
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You can ask her about her relationship history.
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Since she's 30, she's probably for the streets, not going to lie.
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No offense, but if you're 30 and you haven't had any long-term relationships,
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but you've been casually dating, bro, that's got to be above 100, probably, I'm going to say.
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Like, she keeps herself busy and, you know, doesn't sleep around like that.
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But how are you going to determine that, like an outlier from somebody who's not an outlier?
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I mean, there's a certain kind of, does she party a lot?
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You know, so these are kind of other things to kind of suss it out.
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So, I know this is, Santa Barbara is a very, pretty much everyone here is an alcoholic.
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So, not at the panel, but people fucking drink heavy as fuck in Santa Barbara.
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Everyone's at, you know, so, especially UCSB, SBCC, very heavy party schools.
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So, I'm probably not making any fans by saying I'm not a big drinker.
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I think someone who's, if they frequently partake in nightlife, it can be an indicator that they're a bit more promiscuous.
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But, if you're getting fucking tanked three nights a week, I can start making some assumptions.
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So, you're giving me the death stare over there.
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But, as far as the age goes, I mean, so, you would take Quirrell with, like, a 30-year-old dating a 20-year-old?
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I mean, I feel like it depends on the situation.
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If, somehow, miraculously, they were to have a lot in common and there was some depth to the relationship, I guess it wouldn't be a big deal.
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I feel like there's a fine line between where it's predatory and where it's not.
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If somebody is a 20-year-old girl, let's say very successful, has her career, has her things together.
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I think in that situation is not as predatory because they have a lot in common.
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Wait, so you're saying remove the power that she has from being this business mogul, a five- to six-year age gap is predatory?
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Compare that to a 32-year-old man going to a college party, picking up a college girl who doesn't have any money.
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I'm not in fucking Del Playa trying to troll it.
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But, I'm just saying in general, it's different because in that case, it seems like he's just looking for a girl who's, you know, younger, doesn't have money.
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But, again, I think it depends on the circumstances and what they have in common.
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So, like, if you would date a YouTuber that's maybe 21 and, you know, you have a lot in common, I wouldn't think that's creepy.
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But, again, if you date a college girl who's 19.
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So, you think if I were to date a 19-year-old college girl, that would be creepy?
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I want to hear your perspective because you can come from a different point of view, you know, being 33 years old.
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Well, different perspective from you, definitely.
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Guys my age don't, like, I mean, they do, but I never go out with a young stud.
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So, and this is the thing, like, how you guys were saying, like, the older you get, the body count goes up.
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And I feel like, like, with just me looking at my life, when I was young, before I had kids, I was way more dumb and did dumb shit that, you know, I wouldn't do nowadays.
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Like, now it's, like, I have my kids to look, like, think about, and, like, that's basically my life.
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So, I'm not going, putting myself out there in dumb situations that I, you know, when I was single and didn't have no kids, like, you know, whatever.
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But now my life is different now, and now I'm, and I have two boys, so I'm just, like, uh.
00:37:33.740
Do you think having kids, like, is a big part of, like, why, you know, you don't really, I don't know.
00:37:48.840
No, I didn't say wild, but, I mean, you know, there's just.
00:37:53.500
Yeah, I grew up, and I had my, I was pregnant at 20, no, I had him at 21, my first.
00:38:04.120
Wait, so, you're a cougar is what you're saying.
00:38:09.280
What's the youngest, so you're 36, like, what's the youngest guy that you've dated?
00:38:26.820
Hooked up, talked to, dated, had a relationship with.
00:38:36.500
Well, I mean, well, because guys ask me out, but they're always younger.
00:38:40.180
And then I'll tell my sister, like, oh, I'm going to go on a date.
00:39:13.920
I think it depends on the stage of life they're in.
00:39:16.240
If you're somebody who's in their 30s, a woman with a full-time career, a job, why are you dating a boy that has to do homework till 10 p.m.?
00:39:25.420
You know, or has to go to the library to study for his finals.
00:39:30.320
You know, but again, if it's a 20-year-old who has his job, you know, is a.
00:39:35.780
It just depends on what stages of life they're in.
00:39:37.980
Well, I mean, first off, I would say heaven forbid a man find a woman who is at her peak physical attractiveness attractive.
00:39:46.240
So, and I think I was more physically attractive when I was younger.
00:39:54.080
I mean, there's also when you're younger, you've had fewer sexual partners, and we just talked about it.
00:39:58.000
I mean, most men, whether you like it or not, value sexual purity in a woman.
00:40:04.300
I know some 19-year-old girls that have been fucking run through.
00:40:13.700
Like, Chris doesn't know her in the biblical sense, but he knows who I'm talking about.
00:40:19.640
But it happens to be the case that someone who's younger has had fewer sexual partners.
00:40:27.560
I feel like that's a big reason why, like, you know, you see older guys, you know, there's a certain point where the girl starts getting older that, you know, she gets hit on a lot less by, you know, by guys.
00:40:39.020
Because I feel like they're, the focus on younger, the focus is on younger girls, I feel like, for guys, because they want to find, you know, someone who's not, who's less promiscuous, you know.
00:40:49.180
And the higher chance of them is when they're younger.
00:40:52.140
And, I mean, if I'm going to offend somebody, it's okay.
00:40:54.940
But it happens to be the case that when you're younger, you're more physically attractive.
00:41:01.560
And I imagine it's not a shocker to you, but men value women's looks.
00:41:13.140
So, I mean, not to say that a 30-year-old woman can't be attractive, but, I mean, if you compared her at 35 versus 25, when was she more physically attractive?
00:41:25.540
Can I at least, when was she more physically attractive, at 35 or 25?
00:41:33.360
Are you guys going to be more, let me ask this.
00:41:35.980
Are you guys more attractive now, or will you be more physically attractive in 10 years?
00:41:41.300
I believe I will be more attractive in 10 years.
00:41:43.500
You think you'll be more attractive in 10 years?
00:41:48.700
Are you more attractive now, or will you be more attractive in 10 years?
00:41:52.920
Maybe now, but if I were to get a lot of work done in 10 years, then maybe.
00:42:01.920
Yeah, that's what I meant, because when you're older, you have more.
00:42:04.720
Nah, you're going to be, you'll be more attractive now.
00:42:13.840
I think it depends on your genes, because right now I look so young.
00:42:17.440
Like, some people tell me I look 15 when I'm 21, and I remember when my mom was like
00:42:23.360
40, she looked like she was in like her early 25s, you know?
00:42:35.400
I mean, I think, like, I consider myself pretty attractive right now, but I still have, like,
00:42:40.740
I can work out more, I can do that, I can, like, change my hair up, so I can still be
00:42:46.780
You can, I'm not saying you're going to be, like, totally, unbearably ugly in 10 years.
00:42:55.160
I'm just asking, in 10 years' time, do you think you will be as attractive as you are
00:43:04.660
I mean, my mom still gets considered my sister half the time.
00:43:12.340
Are you going to be, are you more attractive now, or when you went in 20 years?
00:43:15.760
I mean, I think at that point, it depends, like, who's asking, because are the guys here
00:43:24.000
But if my husband's going to like me in 20 years, then why does it matter?
00:43:27.880
But I guess from, like, a, I'm trying to, are you, what about in 40 years?
00:43:42.180
So you're more attractive now than you will be in 40 years?
00:43:48.260
You know, you start getting the, what is it, the widow?
00:43:51.960
Crows feet coming in, get a little wrinkly, a little sun damage.
00:44:05.340
I mean, maybe your ass will get fatter when you're older.
00:44:12.680
Like, she had bigger boobs and fatter ass, and everyone was like, Linda,
00:44:26.240
I know you wanted to come in on something, but I continue.
00:44:28.920
I was just agreeing with her, because, I mean, when I say work done, I don't mean, like, it
00:44:33.980
doesn't have to be dramatic, but, you know, if I start, for example, a career, and I'm
00:44:37.960
older, I would love to get rid of, for example, my dark circles, you know, things like that,
00:44:43.660
At the moment, for example, I'm, let's say, working out, hopefully in 10 years, I would
00:44:49.580
have a very different body that I'm working towards.
00:44:52.280
So, again, it depends on the person, because I've seen plenty of people where they glow
00:44:58.160
And in their 20s, they were in college, they were eating junk food, drinking.
00:45:02.200
So, it really depends on the person, I believe.
00:45:35.100
So, yeah, no, so, I mean, the culture there is pretty, pretty different.
00:45:47.400
So, do you think, do you think they're watching Iran?
00:45:55.560
I mean, no, I don't think I'm, like, an important person for them to be monitoring
00:46:02.120
Persian, you know, influencers who are not big enough for them to care.
00:46:06.060
I think they mostly care about Iranian influencers who are very open about, I'm
00:46:14.680
So, they don't like that because they're like, you don't represent us.
00:46:21.260
By the way, Stephen Krug, thank you for the math in the chat.
00:46:25.060
So, I would also just, I just wanted to add, as far as the age thing, so, there are some,
00:46:31.280
like, intellectual reasons that guys can come up with for why.
00:46:34.480
I mean, well, beyond intellectual, there's biological reasons.
00:46:39.380
I mean, I'd say between the ages of, like, 18 and 25, I would say for, in terms of what
00:46:46.320
the age range that men deem, and they've done studies on this.
00:46:49.860
This isn't me just talking about out of my ass.
00:46:52.080
The age range that men find the most physically attractive is between 18 and 25 for women.
00:46:58.280
And I don't think that's really, it should be a shocker to you guys.
00:47:03.820
I mean, unless you've just been fed, like, 40 is the new 20, you know.
00:47:10.100
And I think, look, I was more physically attractive when I was younger, too.
00:47:18.460
Because I feel like a woman's range is going to be a lot bigger.
00:47:22.300
I'm not saying that, like, someone who's between the age of 30, 40, or even going into
00:47:26.680
her mid to late 40s can't be physically attractive.
00:47:31.380
That's not what I'm saying, but I'm saying peak physical attractiveness.
00:47:35.140
But do you, like, Kim Kardashian, do you think she's more attractive now or when she was 25?
00:47:39.320
She was more attractive when she was 18 than before all the work, for sure.
00:48:08.440
I don't like, I'm not attracted to women who have fake lips, fake tits, BBL, plastic,
00:48:32.860
But you, you keep saying most men and most men would say, no, Kim Kardashian is the hottest
00:48:41.620
Her, her sex tape was boring and it had so many views.
00:48:50.740
And that's your opinion, but I don't think it's most men.
00:48:56.800
Tristan, if you had a choice between a woman who had no plastic surgery, nothing, versus
00:49:04.340
plastic surgery, like full on fake tits, fake lips, BBL.
00:49:19.080
No, I mean, just because you got a bigger fucking fake ass, bigger fake boobs, I would
00:49:23.640
not prefer that over someone that has natural beauty.
00:49:28.240
Personally, I feel, I feel like, yeah, there's like, most men do prefer, you know, like, I
00:49:37.400
Wait, let's get Jacob's take, really take, and then we'll come to you.
00:49:42.500
What if she was like a cyborg and maybe like, you know, she can like fly around and stuff?
00:49:50.520
I feel like a lot of men claim to prefer natural beauty, but then the beauty standards that
00:49:56.440
you uphold, most of the time, they can't really be achieved naturally.
00:50:00.740
Do you wear makeup for men or do you wear it for you?
00:50:03.900
Okay, so that's just, the beauty standards, that's all you, that's a you thing.
00:50:11.400
You can't simultaneously say that you wear makeup for you and also say, well, we get plastic
00:50:20.680
Most men don't want their girl caking on the makeup.
00:50:26.900
Most men do not, most men do not like plastic surgery.
00:50:39.460
But see, that's where the beauty standard comes in.
00:50:41.800
You say naturally, and then there are women who don't have big boobs, don't have a big
00:51:05.900
I don't know if I'm going to get in trouble, but, I mean, I guess perforation, I'm on your
00:51:13.360
I don't, big boobs are nice, small boobs are nice, don't really care.
00:51:23.400
So, just to add to the age thing, it's also a biological thing.
00:51:28.700
It's biologically ingrained for men to like younger women.
00:51:32.280
And the biological reason is that it comes down to pregnancy.
00:51:37.680
A woman who's 45, the likelihood, I mean, after 35, you start getting into, you can still get
00:51:47.180
pregnant at 35, but the likelihood is diminished, there's a higher risk of birth defects, there's
00:51:56.820
So, there's a biological reason why men are attracted to younger women, and it's because of fertility, for fertility reasons.
00:52:10.000
So, it's like, in the same way, let me ask you guys a question.
00:52:14.620
Are you attracted to men who are shorter than you?
00:52:26.300
You need a, Chris, you need a, hold on, hold on.
00:52:29.380
Chris, you gotta, don't, no, no, no, don't move the fucking screen.
00:52:34.680
No, Chris, you need to preempt it, if I'm asking a question, put, you know, preempt it.
00:52:40.320
Okay, so, would you date a guy who's shorter than you?
00:52:48.040
Are you attracted to men who are shorter than you?
00:52:52.220
I have been with a guy who was shorter than me, and honestly, it was pretty good.
00:52:57.200
Like, I can't, I can't change the fact that he's shorter, so he was hot, and he had it going for himself, and that's all that really matters.
00:53:09.680
Personally, I can't see myself being attracted to someone who's shorter than me.
00:53:17.360
What is your, do they just have to be taller than you, or do you want a guy who's like 6 feet?
00:53:22.500
They just have to be taller, maybe a couple inches, nothing crazy.
00:53:27.020
They just have to be taller than me, and I'm not super tall.
00:53:30.600
Miss Platinum, do you have a height preference?
00:53:35.700
Because you said, oh, not an offense to you, my boobs were always big.
00:53:41.460
So, they were up until the point where I had my first son, and then I breastfed, and they were just huge, and I lost so much volume.
00:53:47.820
So, I told the doctor, like, I don't want to look weird, and I told him I don't want to look like Dolly Parton.
00:53:51.920
I said, just I want my volume back, so I just kind of wanted it to go back to, like, how I was before I had my son, before the breastfeeding.
00:54:08.720
What's your kind of preference as far as height?
00:54:20.640
If it's ideal, but I mean, lower, shorter, a little shorter is all right.
00:54:24.880
So, in the same way that it's biological for men to be attracted to younger women for this sort of evolutionary reason for fertility, women are biologically, evolutionarily attracted to men who are taller than them.
00:54:42.620
Mike Davis, you've got to fucking interrupt me, man.
00:54:51.520
So, it's evolutionary for women to be attracted to men who are taller.
00:54:56.760
If I asked you to articulate, why is it that you have a preference for men who are taller than you?
00:55:12.600
So, for evolutionary reasons, men who are taller were more capable of protecting you.
00:55:18.900
So, but a man being taller in today's day and age has absolutely no bearing on his ability to be a good partner, to provide for you, to be loving, to, I mean.
00:55:31.440
You could make the same argument for women because you said fertility, right?
00:55:35.320
Well, but, I mean, yes, but a woman who's 45 is so unlikely to get pregnant.
00:55:42.600
I mean, and today, what if she gets her ex-frozen, surrogacy?
00:55:50.540
You don't have to be tall to protect your woman because now it's about money.
00:55:55.360
Because, you know, men love to shame women for wanting men who are successful and rich.
00:56:00.500
Don't you think that's an evolution or anything?
00:56:03.360
I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:56:10.740
No, but I do think there is an evolutionary component because, I mean, one of the way women were looking for, back when we were fucking caveman days and shit, were looking for provisioning and protection.
00:56:24.040
So, a man with resources, so I think that's why, and I think that's why women care a bit more about a man's success, and I think most guys probably honestly don't give a fuck as far as if a woman is successful.
00:56:48.560
Like, for example, for me, I would date a woman who works at Chick-fil-A.
00:57:04.020
I wouldn't date, like, I don't know, I just don't feel like it's such a big deal.
00:57:09.600
Would you date a guy who lived with his parents?
00:57:20.960
But, I mean, yeah, that was, like, a while ago.
00:57:25.700
Well, it could be cultural if they live with their family.
00:57:29.080
Like, maybe their family had, like, their two older parents need to be taken care of, and, like, they live in a guest house, so it's not as bad.
00:57:39.100
Like, if you look at a bell curve, like, most women are going to prefer some things, and men are going to prefer some things, you know?
00:57:45.200
There's going to be outliers for everything, you know?
00:57:46.980
There's going to be people who prefer guys who, I mean, that she doesn't care about how much they make.
00:57:53.040
But, like, if you look at a bell curve, a lot of girls care about, you know, status of the guy.
00:57:57.240
You know, they're kind of, like, they're, they're, they're, what's it called, their characters and how successful they are is, you know, preferred than a guy that's, you know, sitting, playing fucking Fortnite at home all day, you know?
00:58:19.140
Like, just like you want a man who is taller than you, confident, ambitious, successful, can protect you, can provide for you.
00:58:24.780
We have these other evolutionary things that are built into us.
00:58:34.380
In fact, the vast majority of women are in their mid to late 20s, early 30s.
00:58:46.700
I mean, she didn't have, no offense, Ms. Platinum.
00:58:57.880
Yeah, but you know what's wrong about that, though?
00:59:03.480
If a girl, if a guy had a 12-year, you know, age gap, it's so much more frowned upon than if a girl does it.
00:59:14.320
I think it does get more frowned upon if it's like someone who's, say, 30 with a 20-year-old.
00:59:28.660
But I want to open it up back to you guys because I know I was ranting a bit.
00:59:34.100
I don't know if you guys have a response or we'll start here if you want to.
00:59:38.420
Well, how are we relaying this back to the original question?
00:59:50.320
I think, okay, the chat wanted to hear also, like, I want to hear from you guys, natural or plastic?
00:59:58.860
Because you did say that most guys lie about, you know, that they want natural beauty.
01:00:10.460
I think guys do truly, like, value natural beauty.
01:00:18.520
Well, what I was saying is that they say they value natural beauty, but their idea of natural
01:00:27.780
Chris, this one, this last one, I just started.
01:00:36.980
Like, what we were saying about a guy who wants a girl with, like, huge tits and a fat
01:00:44.700
I mean, sometimes that happens genetically, but a lot of the time, like, if she's super
01:00:53.900
I'm just saying expectations can be unrealistic to achieve naturally, but obviously everyone
01:01:06.020
Oh, I just have to do some super chats right now.
01:01:08.900
By the way, I appreciate you guys disagreeing with me.
01:01:20.720
All right, we got a super chat here from Mr. Mike Davis.
01:01:22.880
Hey, Mike, sorry for us taking a little long to get to this super chat.
01:01:32.680
I'm trying to cook something up, but running dry.
01:01:35.480
Hey, you should invite some slow-brained bimbos like Fresh and Fit, and the content writes
01:01:46.440
Santa Barbara is a bit more affluent than Miami, so we don't really have much hood rats.
01:01:57.320
That's not a shot at them, but it just happens to be the case.
01:01:59.520
They live in a geographic region where they got some hood rats.
01:02:03.780
I'm just saying, I got love for Fresh and Fit, but yeah, if anybody knows any hood rats
01:02:22.460
Women have a hard time distinguishing between girls who get attention for sexual reason,
01:02:37.700
I think my response to that would be Kim Kardashian, she started out with being sexual, but you
01:02:44.680
cannot deny that she truly made the most out of it.
01:02:49.100
She took something and ran with it, and for that, I respect her.
01:02:52.720
I'm not, like, a fan in a way that I'm like, oh my god, I love her, but I do respect her.
01:02:58.240
She truly made a business, and her children never have to worry about working or being
01:03:04.460
Again, probably her grandchildren don't have to even worry about it, so definitely respect
01:03:12.000
I think she has some brain cells up in there, but as a woman, sometimes you have to dumb it
01:03:25.320
Well, I just think if we're going back to his comment about how women like her only get
01:03:30.380
that for sexual attention, then women who don't look like her are going to think, oh,
01:03:36.380
He's never going to want to marry me, so why would they purposely seek out people like that?
01:03:44.220
I choked on some water there, so my voice is going to sound fucking goofy for a little
01:03:50.320
I want to go back very quickly here to the body count thing.
01:03:56.840
So I think famous people, especially Kim Kardashian, were chosen to be like an influencer on other
01:04:05.380
people, say this is how you're supposed to look or else you won't be accepted and stuff
01:04:12.060
I just feel like Cardi B is a good example also.
01:04:14.660
She has a bunch of plastic surgery and, you know, they all follow this shape of how their
01:04:21.960
bodies look, like big butt, big boobs, flat stomach.
01:04:26.760
Okay, well, listen, listen, that doesn't mean...
01:04:28.620
I think that girls care more about that than guys do.
01:04:32.740
I feel like they think this is the standard, like, I need to have that big of an ass, so
01:04:35.940
then they end up, you know, falling into the, oh, fuck, I need plastic surgery, but really
01:04:48.200
And the ones who don't believe this way, they keep their mouths shut because they don't
01:04:53.540
Have you guys ever heard a rap song about girls with flat asses and flat titties?
01:04:58.720
I think, yes, guys, a lot of guys like big boobs, a lot of guys like big butts.
01:05:05.780
Honestly, you make yourself less attractive when you get the BBL, when you get all that
01:05:13.920
Like, girls can just go get plastic surgery like that.
01:05:16.800
If a guy who is shorter and knowing, like, girls are attractive to taller guys, would
01:05:27.280
That would just go and, like, do that surgery to make them taller.
01:05:40.420
Just to make themselves, if that's what they want, and they feel better, comfortable, or
01:05:49.120
Fuck, I'd do it for a physical advantage in, like, fucking sports, but not for a girl.
01:05:55.880
Not every girl who goes and, like, gets plastic surgery is like, oh, it's because I want
01:06:01.300
Maybe they just want to look in the mirror and be like, I feel comfortable.
01:06:06.380
Like, girls do it more for themselves, not really for other guys.
01:06:11.160
It's more girls caring about, you know, like Kim K.
01:06:13.580
I feel like guys don't really give too much of a crap about Kim K, but girls, they look
01:06:19.360
So they think that she really is what guys desire, but really, in reality, she isn't.
01:06:24.960
Well, some guys, like, everybody, like, we went around the table and everybody here
01:06:29.680
If you read the chats, I'm telling you, most guys will say natural.
01:06:34.640
One in the chat, if you prefer no plastic surgery, natural.
01:06:39.000
They spam natural, and I'm pretty sure they say no Kim K.
01:06:48.900
What if, like, you really can't tell if she had plastic surgery?
01:06:53.060
Because I feel like when you guys say plastic surgery, you're thinking the most drastic,
01:06:56.600
like, Cardi B, but there's a lot of women who get surgery, and you can never tell.
01:07:02.460
That was like, because my boobs are the same, and they just...
01:07:08.060
I guess there's a certain extent where girls go overboard with it, like, they get fucking
01:07:11.960
So you guys are just against the look, not the plastic surgery.
01:07:17.780
I think you can tell when a girl has fake boobs, even if they're, like, a B or whatever.
01:07:28.060
I've got a radar for fake titties, let me tell you.
01:07:33.460
Like, there's a lot of skinny BBLs, they call it, and you cannot tell somebody had it.
01:07:44.240
I mean, I guess if a girl's insecure about her nose, and it is generally messed up, yeah,
01:07:55.480
Not for anybody, or not for you, but because I don't want to...
01:08:00.720
But let's say, like, the biggest part is, you know, your body.
01:08:04.360
A lot of girls want to work on their body, and they can work on it naturally, but they
01:08:10.360
I'm going to just get this fucking BBL, not go to the gym.
01:08:13.340
And yeah, genetics, you might be, like, at a certain point where you can't really get
01:08:17.340
to where you want to be, but, like, it's your natural, you know, your natural, like...
01:08:43.660
But, I mean, I think in terms of she's got a sex tape out there.
01:08:49.800
I mean, unless a guy's gold digging or wants access to her clout, like, she is not, for
01:09:05.340
Most men are not Kim Kardashian's ideal partner.
01:09:08.840
I mean, well, actually, because of how successful Kim K is, most women don't date down.
01:09:16.280
So, Kim K's potential pool of people, it's going to be other celebrities she's going
01:09:23.640
You know, that's why, like, Drake, he'll hook up with some random chick who's good-looking.
01:09:39.900
Anyways, I don't know where I'm going with that.
01:09:41.440
But, like, I'll say this about the plastic surgery.
01:09:46.920
I had hooked up with a girl who, she had a tummy tuck.
01:09:52.400
And, because she had, like, a little bit of that little chub, you know, on the lower
01:09:59.560
I would have preferred a little bit of chub in the lower, a little lower belly fat.
01:10:09.280
I think it's because when you get a tummy tuck.
01:10:11.240
Like, they have to cut your belly button and make a new one for you.
01:10:16.720
Did her belly button look, like, very long and vertical?
01:10:31.620
I would have much preferred her, like, a little fucking chubby than with a tummy tuck with
01:10:41.240
So, because at the end of the day, if a girl gets one, I don't know, if it's a milliliter
01:10:49.700
Or, like, very, very, like, minor procedure that you cannot tell.
01:10:59.340
Yeah, because people have insecurities that might be so little that they barely look different,
01:11:03.800
but to them, it's, like, the biggest difference, you know?
01:11:07.580
Well, Brian, I don't know about you, but, like, if it's, like, a minimal fix, I mean, I don't
01:11:10.800
think I would even really frown, like, even really care at all, you know?
01:11:15.180
But if it's minimal like that, I wouldn't care.
01:11:22.560
It definitely depends, because it doesn't feel natural.
01:11:28.260
Yeah, if you touch it, you can feel something's in there.
01:11:31.520
If I didn't know, like, if she genuinely tricked me, let's say, I just didn't know, and she just
01:11:51.020
But if she told me, if she revealed to me, by the way, I had this done here, I got this
01:11:56.500
done with my boobs, I had this done with my penis.
01:12:06.160
There actually could be a bit of judgment there, I would say.
01:12:11.880
But would you care if she told you, like, hey, I had this done, but you didn't notice?
01:12:18.300
Nose job's okay, because I've got a deviated septum.
01:12:23.080
I'm never going to get it done, just because...
01:12:43.460
And I actually have a genuine, not just, like, a cosmetic reason to do that.
01:12:54.180
You can kind of tell it's a little crooked right here.
01:13:02.560
I mean, I'm from Iran, and Iran is, like, the capital nose job of the world, like, in Tehran.
01:13:08.160
So, when I was 15, in my sophomore year of high school, about 80% of the girls had a nose job.
01:13:14.340
So, at that point, it was, like, a rite of passage.
01:13:17.640
It was, like, a neuron genetic, like, to just have a messed up nose?
01:13:27.360
The term natural plastic surgery actually kills me.
01:13:33.440
Well, yeah, I feel like a lot of us Middle Easterns have bigger noses than, let's say, European people.
01:13:39.420
So, that's what they're trying to achieve, the European look, I guess.
01:13:47.840
Like, the London look and the split teeth, you know?
01:13:54.680
Like, I was, like, for my sweet 16, please get me a nose job.
01:13:57.720
So, I think there's tiers to the intrusivity of plastic surgery.
01:14:15.680
If you're getting a nose job, don't watch the, like, procedure.
01:14:31.780
Like, they just have, like, some paper-thin lips and they're just, like, really self-conscious
01:14:50.720
Because a nose job is kind of corrective, whereas, like, lip filler...
01:14:55.940
I like this format where you bring on random college PPL.
01:15:11.500
But so, okay, let's say you have maybe lip fillers and nose job is interchangeable, and
01:15:17.820
then you have breast implants, and then you have BBL, so it's a tier, right?
01:15:29.160
Well, here's an example of, like, a big surgery that I think...
01:15:32.340
I think, you know, it's a huge surgery, and I think that I would be okay with it.
01:15:40.080
Skin's actually naturally, you know, it's expanded, and she physically cannot change that,
01:15:48.620
Like, let's say they're, like, overly large, you know, and they really work on their body,
01:15:51.940
and they lose fucking 200 pounds, whatever, and they literally have just loose skin.
01:15:56.060
And that surgery, you know, to get that skin off, I feel like that's...
01:15:59.100
They've earned, you know, they worked on their body naturally, and that's just getting
01:16:03.020
rid of something they can't fix, like, like that, you know?
01:16:05.920
So I guess a part of it is also about the work ethic.
01:16:08.460
You feel like it's kind of cheating to surgically enhance your body rather than working out first.
01:16:16.520
If they're willing to work on their body, instead of just being like, yeah, fuck you,
01:16:19.000
I'm going to just get all this fucking fat, like, removed, you know?
01:16:21.660
Like, I've worked on my body, and then they can...
01:16:27.960
They did what they could naturally, and then, you know, they fixed what is inevitable.
01:16:35.040
I feel like what you were saying, kind of like, I have a lot of friends, like, that have
01:16:38.520
gotten, like, tummy tucks and stuff, and they're moms, and they're, like,
01:16:43.360
done having kids, and, like, at that point in their life, they're like, well, you know,
01:16:48.000
I had birth, like, you know, I mean, your stomach gets huge, so for them, that's, like,
01:16:53.680
their kind of reward, I guess, like, how you're saying, like, whatever they do, like,
01:16:56.980
you can't get rid of that loose skin, because your stomach is, like, ginormous.
01:17:04.520
But they have that line that you were talking about, Brian, like, where they...
01:17:16.300
Yeah, and she gave you kids, and that bugs her.
01:17:19.060
Like, you, maybe it doesn't bother you, but for her, she just wants to be happy.
01:17:22.940
Well, I think pregnancy would introduce some changes that, I mean, it does, I think, create...
01:17:42.180
I think that's more understandable, but the woman, in my example, she had no children.
01:17:47.280
She just had, like, a little trouble area, a little chubby belly, and...
01:17:54.540
Speaking about how you should invite me back when I've been.
01:18:15.560
She had a bit of body dysmorphia, and she was actually, like, really fit, but she was
01:18:21.500
just like, yeah, I had this little bit, and she got a tummy tuck, and it just, her tummy
01:18:28.360
was flat, but I honestly would have preferred a little, some rolls, to be honest, because
01:18:32.860
it looked, to me, it looked weird, and I don't know, I certainly think that for both men
01:18:40.580
and women, there's a lot of pressure to look a certain way, and I think it affects both
01:18:57.800
I do think it impacts women more than it does men.
01:19:01.100
You know, this adherence, this desire to adhere to a certain beauty standard, and I think that's
01:19:06.940
That's also why I have, I know we're, I don't want to be flippant about this, because I do
01:19:12.620
genuinely mean it, even though I'm joking, the, you know, here, let me pull it up, all
01:19:24.280
That, that women are shamed for having a large labia.
01:19:40.140
No, but, yeah, they get, they got caught, they get called roasties and wizard sleeve.
01:19:47.880
Audies is, I think, probably the most appropriate term, but you're such a misogynist.
01:19:58.980
But, no, it is unfortunate that women are shamed for this, and, similarly, it is unfortunate
01:20:10.880
Men being shamed for having a small penis, I feel like most of the time, it's by other
01:20:17.300
You guys haven't been in the locker room comparing your, you know.
01:20:37.600
There's bro solidarity when it comes to penis size and height.
01:20:44.040
There is, and that's actually one of our topics coming up in a bit, height.
01:20:48.680
So, I want to bring it back really quick to body count.
01:20:52.020
Y'all said body count doesn't matter, besides Miss Platinum here.
01:21:23.480
Okay, you have to wear this for the next ten minutes.
01:21:39.020
I will not be answering that question at this time.
01:21:53.360
I am willing to tell you if you tell all of us.
01:22:00.840
It's because there's judgment behind it from men.
01:22:11.740
Wait, you're not going to give us an honest answer?
01:22:54.820
Multiply it by three and that's the real number.
01:23:10.240
If you refuse body count question, you have to put the tip of the hat up your butt.
01:23:27.100
By the way, I just want to make something clear.
01:23:41.120
So, if you have any concerns, it's not, you know, this is.
01:23:47.280
It's a German helmet, but World War I, so it's kind of okay.
01:23:51.900
But isn't that kind of weird, though, that they say they don't care about body count?
01:24:00.660
Hopefully, Uncle Joe's loan relief for these dropouts will help.
01:24:08.220
Hey, you should use Andrew Schultz's new comedy clip on Feminine.
01:24:14.020
Well, next week on Tuesday, we'll put it in the show.
01:24:52.360
There were a couple accusations last time in chat that you were a man-ho.
01:24:58.980
They accused you in chat of being a man-ho slash player.
01:25:06.860
Well, I grew up with you, so I can see that happening.
01:25:13.960
She went to high school with me, and she could see that.
01:26:17.560
Because I'm a man of God, and I'm a very discreet individual.
01:26:23.620
Does anyone want to keep it on, by the way, during the show?
01:26:30.040
Well, he's not a hypocrite, because he says the body counts do matter.
01:27:08.720
It was one of my friends in junior high, and I'm not really.
01:27:19.060
I wrote a note down here, because I wanted to bring this up in a previous conversation.
01:27:24.660
So, has a guy with a blue checkmark ever slid into any of your DMs?
01:27:33.080
I've had Gaten Marazio, the guy from Stranger Things.
01:28:02.100
I was like really into Stranger Things, and I think I like posted like a drawing or something.
01:28:08.100
And he just like slid in, and then we had like a couple conversations.
01:28:16.460
But that's one of the blue checkmarks who DM'd you.
01:28:25.020
Not blue checkmarks, but like people from like college football teams and stuff like that.
01:28:32.700
I think it's just because my Instagram is on public, and like I'm in a sorority.
01:28:37.260
So, if like they know people from, I don't know, my sorority, then they'll find me.
01:28:50.680
Would you, I mean, if you didn't have a boyfriend right now, would you and Gayton?
01:29:00.980
I mean, he's like kind of famous-ish, Stranger Things.
01:29:04.140
He's like famous, but like that doesn't really matter to me.
01:29:05.840
He's probably got like a couple mil on Instagram or something.
01:29:32.000
There's also this skater dude who has like millions of followers and he finally got a
01:29:39.140
blue check mark like close to after when I blocked him.
01:29:52.080
The skater dude from Florida, he was like crazy.
01:30:10.100
So, it's like innocent conversations, but like kind of flirty.
01:30:13.200
And then it just kind of like died out because then Stranger Things got like way up there.
01:30:26.000
So, anyways, this skater dude from Florida, he was saying stuff like, I'll pay you to
01:30:38.140
And he would like comment on my photos back when I allowed comments and say like just the
01:30:44.940
And he would like, I finally posted about him and then blocked him right after that.
01:30:50.360
And I got like so much people being like, oh my God, I can't believe he messaged you.
01:31:00.260
So, you've had a couple blue check marks DM you.
01:31:04.900
Do you not just give us a range like five, ten blue check mark DMs?
01:31:12.500
By the way, there's a few comments in chat here mentioning you.
01:31:21.400
Do you want, maybe you gotta, can you remove the jacket just so they can see the orange?
01:31:30.500
Before she was like teal and orange with the, anyways, any blue check marks in your DMs?
01:31:49.140
You don't have to tell us who, but was it athlete, musician?
01:31:54.740
Well, one of them was an athlete at UCSB, actually.
01:32:10.280
And then the other one was this guy who skates professionally.
01:32:20.900
Here comes the skate community to drag me in the comments.
01:32:23.740
So, and did you, so you hooked up with the baller?
01:32:32.500
Yeah, I went on dates with both of them, and then.
01:32:34.600
And by dates, you mean in the backseat of their Miata?
01:32:39.360
I don't think there's backseats in Miatas, but okay, go ahead.
01:32:58.000
How, when you say a couple, like three or four or five?
01:33:07.340
And they wanted to meet up, hook up, or it was clearly a romantic sort of thing.
01:33:11.100
And oh, there was one person who was like an influencer, but like, I feel like he's one
01:33:16.540
of those people who like runs a scam, buy my course type of thing.
01:33:22.040
Miss Platinum, any blue check marks in your Instagram DMs?
01:33:31.040
Did you meet any of them, go on dates with any of them?
01:33:34.960
Now, Jordan, has a girl with a blue check mark ever DMed you?
01:33:42.000
Tristan, blue check mark, has a girl with a blue check mark ever DMed you?
01:33:49.600
No girl with a blue check mark has ever DMed me.
01:33:52.880
So that is a state of the dating meta, guys, that there's clearly an advantage there.
01:34:00.880
Like, blue check mark chicks ain't sliding into like, college girl, college girl, college
01:34:19.180
I mean, it makes sense, but it's kind of like a very, and I appreciate you guys being honest
01:34:25.080
It demonstrates to me just kind of the differences that men and women experience when it comes
01:34:35.080
I feel like less girls will DM, you know, slide on the guy.
01:34:41.760
But I think, um, when I post a story on my Instagram, there's a bunch of random Instagrams
01:34:48.380
that are verified that constantly view my story.
01:34:51.960
And there are always women that are verified and they're followed by, like, a bunch of rappers
01:35:00.480
So my assumption, or my theory, I guess, is that there are people in the industry who go
01:35:06.640
out there and look for girls, for rappers, athletes, whatever, to DM.
01:35:16.440
It's, like, random influences that you're like, how did she find my Instagram?
01:35:35.140
And it's just, like, I guess, okay, my next question would be, do you think dating is
01:35:49.440
Because I feel like we have a lot more options, if that makes sense.
01:35:56.820
This is what happens when you don't invite chicanas or sisters.
01:36:13.680
I mean, I think women have an easier, was that the question?
01:36:20.560
Because I think if we want a certain type of guy or something, it's easy for us to go and
01:36:27.940
And, like you said earlier, how it's like, like, how women won't go down.
01:36:36.200
Like, if we're seeking out a guy, usually they'll probably like us back, if that makes
01:36:48.140
Um, I mean, I've gotten with every guy that I've wanted.
01:36:56.660
I mean, my current boyfriend, we met at a party.
01:36:58.900
And then I went and found him on Instagram and slid into his DMs.
01:37:02.640
And just to repeat, so you've gotten with every single guy that you've wanted.
01:37:10.400
That they can get most of the women that they want?
01:37:27.680
For the questions, have you ever slid into a guy's DM?
01:37:38.260
It's happened many times, but most of the time, I'm just looking for friendship, like, at first.
01:37:49.620
And then they usually end up making the romantic move on me if I, like, allow it, you know?
01:38:02.800
Have you rejected more men than have men rejected you?
01:38:45.520
More often than not, do you reject men or are men rejecting you?
01:38:54.280
I have slid in, but not first, if that makes sense.
01:39:00.980
I mean, for me, it's because I don't like to get rejected.
01:39:04.240
Um, so it's kind of like I approach men that have approached me first, so I know they're
01:39:09.520
interested, if that makes sense, most of the time.
01:39:12.660
But why is it that you think girls are, I don't know, scared to get denied more often?
01:39:17.200
Because, I mean, I guess it's not every girl that is scared to get denied, but least likely
01:39:25.880
One, because they don't have to, because they have an abundance of options to pick from,
01:39:38.820
I feel like for me, it's different, because especially since I moved here, I feel like
01:39:43.660
personally, I don't think I'm a lot of people's type here, so that's why I personally don't
01:39:50.020
Um, so I feel like maybe that's why for me personally.
01:39:57.580
Um, I don't, I don't think I have, but I did like find somebody because I,
01:40:04.240
I've seen them at the gym and I was like, oh, and then I found him on Instagram and
01:40:19.160
So, uh, we're going to do a couple of super chats, then we're going to react to a couple
01:40:28.360
Steven Stifler asks, ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten.
01:40:37.800
So, we're going to do that, uh, starting over here.
01:40:42.160
Um, I'd probably rate myself like a solid seven.
01:41:08.780
Don't, don't give a shit what they're going to think about what you rate yourself.
01:41:29.660
Yeah, I said I would say nine if I was a little taller.
01:41:33.580
Yeah, I give myself like six, 6.9 on a good day.
01:41:37.520
But, uh, thank you, Stifler, for the continued support.
01:41:44.480
These girls never had the makings of a varsity athlete.
01:41:47.780
Uh, that is Mr. Junior Soprano from the, uh, DeMio crime family in New Jersey.
01:41:56.180
So, do you guys want to clap back at Mr. Soprano here?
01:42:01.580
He's a, he's a mafia boss of the, in New Jersey.
01:42:17.240
We have a lot of Super Chats to, uh, catch up to.
01:42:19.620
So, we're, guys, if you submitted a Super Chats, um, let's see here.
01:42:30.300
Uh, we have, did we, Ahmed Suleiman with the $5 Soup Chat.
01:42:37.940
The fact that she's unironically using the term natural plastic surgery actually kills me.
01:42:49.840
I mean, I feel like it's a fair statement because it is a bit ironic.
01:42:53.900
What I meant is natural looking plastic surgery.
01:43:04.200
I like this format where you bring on random college people.
01:43:07.080
It's refreshing and brings back fun college memories, convos.
01:43:12.240
Last panel was, uh, interesting to say the least.
01:43:23.100
Just, there were some characters, let's just say.
01:43:30.780
Speaking about booties, you should invite Liv back on.
01:43:38.580
Mike Davis, uh, we will let her know and we'll definitely have her back on.
01:43:45.640
Mike Davis, um, thank you for the continued support week after week, man.
01:43:51.160
Um, like I said, I, I know you said last time you're a businessman, you can't come on the
01:43:55.300
show, but tell you what, here's what, here's what we're going to do, Mike Davis.
01:44:00.640
We're going to give you like a masquerade ball mask and fake name and you'll be on the panel.
01:44:08.620
The problem isn't, you'll be on the panel undercover.
01:44:18.220
Hopefully Uncle Joe's loan relief for these dropouts will help.
01:44:25.540
Uh, I, yes, I mean, I do imagine that you want to go to a top tier to get a trip to
01:44:35.560
So, uh, I guess if you're, it's kind of like with tattoos, right?
01:44:40.360
If you're going to spend the month, like invest, you know, or just don't get plastic surgery.
01:44:49.540
If you're, if you refuse body count question, you have to put the tip of the hat up your butt
01:44:58.660
Thought he was going to be a regular, hey, Walker, thank you for the, uh, uh, euro.
01:45:08.200
Um, Chase, uh, Chase is a great guy, but I got the impression, you know, we did two podcasts
01:45:14.440
with him and, uh, you know, I got the impression that he wasn't really feeling it, you know,
01:45:20.200
to come back on, you know, he's a professional and, you know, we do talk about some kind of like,
01:45:25.500
like, out there topics and, uh, he's a good Christian man.
01:45:29.680
And so, uh, I think he started having some second thoughts.
01:45:33.020
So I do not think we're going to see Chase again.
01:45:35.100
I'd love to have him back on, but, uh, yeah, I think that's just not going to happen.
01:45:41.180
Yeah, I was hoping that guy would be here today.
01:45:43.740
Yeah, I would have loved to actually potentially, you know, have him come on a bit more and
01:45:48.100
potentially even have him come on as co-host because he was a really solid guy.
01:45:51.740
But, uh, yeah, he's, that just, I don't think is going to happen.
01:45:55.740
So Mr. Mike Davis with the $5 soup chat, red hair hating on Tristan.
01:46:07.940
Mr. Walker 11 with the, uh, 450 British pounds.
01:46:14.040
This is what happens when you don't invite Chicanas or Sistas.
01:46:29.440
Yeah, I'm, and Chumash and Y, I'm like everything.
01:46:39.140
All right, girl number one, this one's for you.
01:46:45.300
Okay, so, uh, Chris, you're going to go over to the window tab and we are going to,
01:47:03.600
So this is a screenshot I took from a girl on Hinge.
01:47:19.800
I see this fairly consistently on dating apps and Hinge.
01:47:23.400
Um, to me, it's like there's a prompt for height on Hinge.
01:47:29.300
I don't know if that's the case on other dating apps, but I don't see, to me, it doesn't make
01:47:33.580
sense to, um, and I'm just going to switch it back here, Chris, uh, to me, it doesn't make sense to put that in the app when you can, you can just see what the guy's response is to me.
01:47:47.300
Um, I'm going to feel a certain type of way about, like, to me, that's just very judgy.
01:47:52.960
So, uh, thoughts on people being so overt with their preferences like that on a dating app?
01:48:00.540
I mean, I think that's kind of like what the dating app is for.
01:48:06.880
I've never been on one, but I assume you're going on there and you're looking for your specific preference.
01:48:12.540
So why would you, like, I don't know, why would you go on there if you don't want to get with someone?
01:48:26.200
Have you been on, what, what dating apps have you been on?
01:48:40.180
Prettiest girl rated herself 7.5 meanwhile some land animals be rating themselves 10s.
01:48:55.160
What about, because that's kind of a dating app-ish.
01:49:24.860
Are you asking my thoughts on the girl with her high preference?
01:49:31.860
Some people are just more straight up about it and other people aren't.
01:49:34.700
And second of all, I feel like anything you see on someone's dating profile is, like, not
01:49:42.320
Because they're all just, like, talking points and icebreakers.
01:49:45.420
Like, at the end of the day, if you put something on your profile, you want it to elicit conversation
01:50:00.720
Um, because if you're offended by that or you're somebody under 6V, you probably wouldn't
01:50:08.220
So, that's kind of, like, your cue to swipe left on them.
01:50:20.980
So, this, this is, uh, on Hinge, 23, she's 5'3".
01:50:27.400
So, presumably, it's a red flag if they're under 6 feet.
01:50:30.900
I mean, yeah, I feel like everybody likes their own thing.
01:50:34.320
So, she's just making it very clear what she's looking for.
01:50:55.380
Chris, why don't you control tab over to the next one first before I give my take?
01:51:07.520
So, in the other one, she says that, um, you know, she's got this height preference.
01:51:14.160
Would you take quarrel with a guy, uh, putting, let's see, would you take quarrel with a guy who stated in his hinge prompt that it's a green flag if a woman's under 130 pounds?
01:51:31.440
I just think I'd choose not to even talk to him.
01:51:38.100
I mean, if you want a woman that's under 130 pounds, I don't think that's the vast majority, so...
01:51:45.340
Well, only 15% of the male population is over 6 feet.
01:52:00.420
I mean, like, me personally, if I saw that in a bio, I wouldn't go for him, but then that can be the same way if a guy sees, oh, I want somebody over 6 foot, then I'm not going to go for him.
01:52:11.280
I think even a guy that's 6 foot, that would, that would speak about how that person is.
01:52:15.740
Yeah, if that's how you're, like, thinking of people, then...
01:52:18.500
If, if, for me, if a girl has that in her profile, I know she's probably toxic.
01:52:27.680
I feel like surface level stuff like that really just shows people's true intentions, and which is probably just to hook up with you or use you for your looks or however much you weigh.
01:52:40.420
I, and I don't really agree with either side of doing that, like, saying, I want a guy with a 6 pack, or, like, obviously it helps, but I'm not going to go out and say that I only want a guy with a 6 pack on my profile, you know?
01:52:56.160
Yeah, there's, like, only so much of your personality that you can convey on a dating app profile, so, like, at the end of the day, everybody's just swiping left or right on you, mostly based on your physical appearance, so...
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I feel like if I see a guy put that in his body, then that's my sign to swipe left.
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If you're into a skinnier woman, that's your preference.
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That means that I'm not for you, and you're not for me.
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But all of you seemed kind of okay with the previous one.
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If that's not your thing, then she's not for you.
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You know, you think she's toxic, then swipe left.
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If a guy says that, I would assume, like, you know, he's a very toxic person, because to put that in a dating app, I would personally swipe left.
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Yeah, no, I mean, kind of just what Tristan said.
01:54:04.800
But, like, going back to that picture that you accidentally brought up.
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So, she asks, I guess on Tinder, I haven't been on Tinder in a while, but there's not a height field, is there?
01:54:24.500
Anyways, this was before Tinder had, like, a height field, so people weren't always putting height in their bio.
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And he says, what are the numerical digits that appear on the scale when you proceed to apply your weight into it?
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But automatically, you went to the guy, though.
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I think, like, going off of her, we'll probably go after the guy first, just because there's, like, girl connection.
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You're not going to want to, like, see the wrong in her.
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And I, at the same time, I feel like the girl kind of initiated him to ask something like that.
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Especially if it's, like, the beginning of the conversation.
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It's, like, that's the first thing you're going to ask, is how tall are you?
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No, because, I mean, that's just, like I said, everybody has their own personal thing.
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He's like, my chick is 300 pounds and she protects me.
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So it's like, you know, as long as you're truthful and you're honest, it's like, why does it matter?
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And then, Google says 14.5 of, 14.5, 14.5% of men are 6 feet or taller.
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And then, I think at 6'3 and above, it then becomes, like, 1 or 2, maybe 3%.
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Yeah, the whole debate about my girlfriend saying 5'9.
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I was like, well, at least in her eyes, I'm 5'9.
01:57:04.720
So, on that similar note, I think, Chris, I'm going to have you pull up a video now.
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Okay, this is just, like, some little meme thing.
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This is me, actually, at a protest in Los Angeles.
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We invite over from Hinge that say they're six foot.
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Like, I don't think they meant it in a toxic way.
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Chris, if you want to go ahead and play the next one.
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When she's in front of the door, Chris, please.
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Why is I acting like it's something that I should know?
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I'm going to waste up everyone's time here, man.
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Chris, like, you're blowing it way out of proportion.
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Are we going to reconcile this, Chris, or are you...
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I have a hurtly fucking degree, but you're not even a dumb piece of shit, man.
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Chris, I think you're overreacting a little bit.
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I'm sorry if I've been too stern with my directions.
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I wrote this stuff out at the beginning of the show.
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So, if you want me to apologize that I was too loud with you, I do apologize, Chris.
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I'm sorry if I'm making fun with you, but, like, I make money, like, off of the house.
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You can fire on cameras and audio, and the fact that you're, like...
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Did you guys think I was being too tough on Chris?
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Not mean, but just, like, maybe a little snappy.
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You were kind of, like, trying to micromanage, and he's trying his best.
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Chris was late today, and he missed a couple super chats, and, you know, he...
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The thing is, is that this is kind of very fast-paced.
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It's a very, you know, it's a very hectic environment.
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And, you know, there's been a few times he's made some errors, and I'm just...
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I'm not going to be like, please, Chris, can you do this?
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I am going to be like, you know, that's maybe...
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The reason why I'm in this position that I'm, like, switching jobs is because the new managers
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are just, like, you have to talk to people nicely.
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If someone's going to talk to me nicely, I'm going to go over and above, like, and do whatever.
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But if you're going to be rude to me, like, I'm not going to, like, you know...
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I'm not a confrontational person, but I'm not going to sit around, like, I'm going to bounce.
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I haven't talked about this, but I'm a manager at a store, and, like, I get it.
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Like, there is a point where you can go overboard on it, you know, when you feel pressure on you.
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It's like, if you're a leader, you're a leader in a certain situation, you can feel that pressure,
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but you have to find a way to, like, calm it down, you know?
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You talk to somebody nicely, they're going to be, for the most part, nice to you, too.
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If you're going to be a dick to somebody, fuck, I'll be a dick, too.
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Yeah, but there's some points where, like, there needs to be some stern, or shit just won't get done.
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I mean, I was definitely stern with him, but there were a few times during the stream
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I would argue that what he just did is far more unprofessional
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than me kind of giving him very stern instructions.
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Yeah, I feel like it was probably not just what you said at the moment.
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I mean, I don't know what you guys went through earlier in the day,
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because I know when somebody tells me, hey, you're overreacting,
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If you tell a girl, like, you're, like, calm down, yeah.
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If you tell anybody when they're pissed off to calm down,
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Like, to him, he obviously felt, you know, hurt and offended.
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I'm trying to get, like, experience from this, stuff like that.
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I think he's thinking, oh, no, people are watching,
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Like, I understand he did mess up a few times, but I.
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He's more of a nerd than, like, a school shooter type.
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This might be the wrong time to ask, but is he single?
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Everything on my show is fucking inappropriate.
02:06:26.360
Okay, well, basically, I'm just going to say we were eating plants.
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Okay, well, basically, it was, like, some sort of rare type of fungus that had, like, stuff
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And it was, you only had to take one to, like, see visuals.
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And this guy, it was my first date with him, and I was like, let's take it, let's take it,
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And as soon as they hit, he started trying to throw up and, like, started screaming inside
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his house and running back and forth and, like, I was not ready for this.
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Like, how was I supposed to be, like, let's not do this?
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It is what, I mean, if you guys want to comment on this, I think that was peer pressure.
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Okay, well, then I try saying, let's go to the park, you'll calm down over there, and
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I'm just, like, sitting on the grass, like, enjoying my visuals, seeing all kinds of colors,
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By the way, so, just for, just hold on, guys, hold on.
02:07:56.820
So, just for those of you tuning in, my producer just quit.
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So, the show's going to be a bit more, I can control things here from my stream deck, but
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Admittedly, I was very stern with him, but the thing is, is that running a show is very
02:08:21.120
stressful, and we had, even before the show, we had one guy flake, and then we had a couple
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So, it was incredibly stressful before the show.
02:08:30.720
Chris was actually a little bit late, and it's always stressful.
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I tend to be someone who isn't the most, I'm easily prone to stress.
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When I'm stressed, I'm very, like, with my directions, when I give direction, it's not,
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hey, please, if you don't mind, can you do this?
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It's very much like, hey, I need you to do this, I need you to do that.
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Admittedly, I think I was a bit stern with him.
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I would say, though, that if he really should have waited, if he had a serious issue, he
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should have come to me and talked to me after the show.
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If stuff had been building up for a while, he should have came and talked to me.
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But, I would have been more than happy to address his concerns.
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But, yeah, so we had my producer, my showrunner, Calamity Chris, just quit on stream.
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Yeah, I don't think, I mean, I could have been a bit more, maybe slightly more tactful.
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We're going to have Jada Smith come on in the next episode, and you guys are going to talk
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Chris, if you're watching or if you watch this after, I mean, obviously, our working
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I wish you had, you know, brought that up to me, you know.
02:10:15.920
No, I wish you would have, you know, done it a bit more tactfully and not kind of caused
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And, Eric, if you're watching, you'll be here next Tuesday.
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No, it's unfortunate, though, because I otherwise liked working with Chris.
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Do you think you've come back from this, though?
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If he had stayed and I was like, hey, Chris, look, we'll talk after the show.
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Chris never had the makings of a varsity athlete.
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Yeah, by the way, guys, if you're just tuning in, my producer guy, he quit because I was a bit too stern with him.
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And, yeah, he was getting a little frustrated, so it is what it is.
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It's funny because somebody says, ladies, this is why you don't date an emotional man.
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And I think as soon as he got mad, the first thing she said was, he's kind of cute as he's single.
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So, let me just say that I'm attracted to men who are passionate and willing to express their emotions.
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Women, like, there's certain, like, things that men will do.
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If they don't find them, like, physically attractive, if they do something or they're, like, a certain type of way, that will make them feel, you know, attracted to that person.
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Or, like, they can talk to them without getting all angry and crazy and, like, nicely.
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Like, for me, I'm all about, I'm going to treat you the way you treat me.
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But if you're going to be snappy or whatever, I can be snappy, too, and then you're not going to like it.
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There's no, I mean, I'm just reading a comment here.
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If you want to freak out at, you know, some other job, fine.
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I don't think I was overtly insulting him or anything.
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I was saying as unprofessional as it was, I mean, dude had some balls to just be like, all right, fuck this somehow.
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That's what she's like, and she's like, that's a real man.
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There's a correct way to handle things, and that's definitely not it.
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And, I mean, it's live, so that's on the internet forever.
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When he unplugged his mic, I was like, oh, this is actually real.
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I feel like it could have been saved, but the, oh, you're overreacting, you're overreacting, that would have just.
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I would have been like, you want to see overreacting?
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You know, I think it could have, if it was me and somebody was like talking to me nicely, then I would have been like, hey, you know, I won't be rude anymore, or I'll be nice.
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I thought it was funny that he left his keys, though, after he slammed the door.
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I don't know if you guys heard, but he left, and then he slammed the door, came back, and he's like, fuck, I forgot my keys.
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That's not how you act, especially in a live environment.
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Any problems that were had was obviously on his side and not communicated.
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Yeah, I mean, if he, if he, you know, me and Chris have actually.
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Seven guests, and no one did nothing today, escalate the situation.
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And he or this, Chris doesn't have to take anything from you.
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Ask girl in the green if she'd like to join me next week on the show to discuss the passion
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If everybody has an ownership stake, road bumps are way easier to absorb.
02:15:20.480
I mean, yeah, that brings up the good question.
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Is there fucking past tension that was behind that?
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But I mean, it's actually for recently, there really hasn't been much.
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I was definitely a bit more stern with him today.
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And we did actually have a bit of a similar sort of blow up, I guess you could say.
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He was an hour and 30 minutes late when he was supposed to show up for, it's before we were going live.
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So yeah, by the way, guys, if you're just tuning in, my producer just had a meltdown and just quit live on the show.
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So it was thoroughly, it's, is it still thoroughly awkward?
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It's only awkward that you keep bringing it up instead of moving on.
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Making your show look, you know, like it's still live.
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Hey, Brandon, did you catch the whole thing, Brandon?
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I mean, I think I could have, Miss Platinum says I shouldn't have said, told him to calm down.
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I tried there a little bit to be like, hey, Chris, let's talk it out.
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Like, you're, to me, I thought he was blowing it out of proportion.
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But, I mean, look, I'm going to give stern direction.
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Because personally, if it would have been one thing, I feel like then I don't think he would have walked out.
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I think it's been like prior experiences, you know, you guys have had.
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Because if it really just was today, that is, I mean, I wouldn't have fucking walked out.
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The biggest piece of advice I have is from the other cheek.
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Learn from what happened and move forward with the podcast on what you learned.
02:18:02.760
Yeah, no, I mean, I'm not, I'm not talking, I don't really think I'm talking shit about Chris right now or anything.
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And so, um, Chris, if you're watching, hey man, no hard feelings.
02:18:24.040
Um, I thought things were going good, but clearly they weren't.
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I wish that you had brought up your concerns to me sooner.
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I would have, if, if you felt that I had been, or I was being too stern with you, I wish you had told me.
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You know, it's live, you know, things were, you'll, you know, things were super hectic today.
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We had last minute flakes and, you know, tardiness.
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Um, and, uh, I wish you good luck in your future endeavors.
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You're a very talented, uh, videographer and, uh, yeah, I wish you all the best.
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Hopefully there's no, uh, ill will, you know, we'll get you, we'll get you paid for what you're owed and then, you know, move on.
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And by the way, yes, if you're just tuning in, don't say it again.
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Should we continue the conversation on crazy dates?
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Okay, so I went on a date with this guy who ended up being homeless.
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So I met him on Hinge and he picked me up and we were going to go get drinks at some bar downtown.
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And, um, when he picked me up, he was like, I'm sorry, like, I really need to focus on driving.
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So he turns down the music and we're just, like, driving in total silence to the bar.
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And then I hear, like, a meow in the back seat.
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And I turn around and there's a fucking cat in the back seat, like, in a cage.
02:20:19.180
So I'm like, okay, like, maybe he just really loves his cat.
02:20:21.760
Like, just brings her everywhere with him, whatever.
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This cat is literally, he lets it out of the cage and it's, like, clawing my shit up.
02:20:29.560
Like, it literally ripped a hole in my jeans with its claws.
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And he's like, yeah, by the way, I should have mentioned that I live in my car.
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And I was like, yeah, maybe you should have, like, maybe you should have put that on your Hinge profile or something.
02:20:43.540
I don't know, just feels like a pretty big detail to leave out.
02:20:47.540
And, um, so we get there, we get to the bar and he literally drives right past it and, like, goes into this parking garage.
02:20:56.440
Yeah, he goes to, like, the top story of this parking garage where there's no other cars.
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Yeah, he's like, don't worry, I brought a Swiss army knife.
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He's like, we can just, like, smoke here for a little bit before we go in the bar.
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And I was like, okay, I guess, like, I'll sit here and watch you smoke.
02:21:14.180
So this man's, like, smoking for, like, 45 minutes, a blunt that he rolled.
02:21:18.000
And he's just talking about his life and talking and talking about his trauma.
02:21:21.880
Question, why didn't you say, can you take me home?
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Yeah, he's, like, telling me about his fucking past trauma, how his mom stole his car.
02:21:39.120
Like, and I'm just sitting there, like, ready to go the fuck home.
02:21:42.240
And he's like, so did you want to go to the bar?
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Because, like, he's like, I think we should just smoke here.
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And I was like, I think you should take me home.
02:21:49.180
So he takes me home, asks me to give him gas money to get back to IV.
02:21:53.920
So I was like, at this point, I'll literally just do anything to get home.
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I wish that was the end of it when he dropped me off.
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He was like, he's like, just let me pay you back.
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Also, can I, like, get a place to stay tonight?
02:22:19.620
Like, he's like, I just want to sleep in a bed.
02:23:29.180
So guys, if you're just watching, my producer quit on stream.
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So I'm going to be running back and forth between hosting and on the computer.
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I'm going to pull up the video because my showrunner just quit live on there.
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Can you, Brian, now that you're running the stream, can you unbend my other account from
02:24:03.780
Okay, so we were going to pull, okay, we were going to pull up a, oh, okay, we're going
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Okay, I'll be right back, guys, and then we're going to have the panel react to two clips.
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Here, put it on the, stick it on the, oh, no, boom, okay.
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We were talking about, oh, actually, Mike, Mike threw some shots at you, talking about.
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Yeah, he said Chris is going to end up homeless, right?
02:24:49.620
Yeah, well, Brian wasn't here to hear that, but what is your take on Mike telling you, you
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know, that you found that attractive, that he was, I don't know, bottling up his emotions
02:25:03.380
I don't know, it's probably, like, something that I need to work on in therapy is finding
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Is there, do you think there's a reason why you find that attractive?
02:25:20.480
That was nothing compared to some things I've seen, honestly.
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Yeah, that's what we're, that's what we're trying to get to.
02:25:52.520
Well, I mean, I'm guessing you, I'm guessing you just, you know.
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So this is, guys, so this is the video that we were going to watch, and I'll just play
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I mean, I feel like the guy would have gone completely roasted for putting that, you know,
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And even, even then, like, girls care about height, you know, like, they care about height,
02:26:45.300
That was like what one of the comments had said.
02:26:46.760
Yeah, I mean, someone in the comments said that.
02:26:48.440
Yeah, I can't change his height, but you can change your weight.
02:26:56.900
I mean, I feel like if somebody has, like, a preference of six feet over, like, you can't
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really get mad if a guy's like, well, yeah, you're too heavy for me, you know, it's
02:27:07.200
Yeah, I mean, yeah, but one, do you think in that, do you think in that situation, the
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girl would have gotten as much hate as the guy would have?
02:27:20.900
It's, like, quirky and funny when she does it, but then a guy would get crucified for the
02:27:28.600
Honestly, I'm gonna go on here and just say, fuck, cancel culture.
02:27:30.860
Like, it honestly changes what people really want to say, and it's fucking, like, they
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change what they actually think just to not fucking get canceled.
02:27:53.320
We just had such a, we had such a hectic fucking setup.
02:27:59.700
I will be adding everyone's Instagrams in the description of the show once we're done.
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We'll probably wrap up in about 10, 20 minutes.
02:28:08.780
We, if you're just tuning in, my producer quit live on stream.
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Because that was, uh, I think that would fluster anybody.
02:28:37.680
But, uh, did you guys, did they react to the clip?
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Like, it's, it's funny when the girl talks about that, but when that guy probably got fucking
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canceled or like got a whole bunch of hate on his comments.
02:28:53.960
Whereas literally the funny fact about that is the girl can change her weight, but you
02:28:59.920
So, it's something you can change, but you, you, like, it's something you get hated on
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So, I'm not saying you should fucking shame people for the weight, but like, the fact
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I'm fucking, I'm running behind the fucking thing.
02:29:19.520
Um, so I'm going to, I think we're going to pretty much end off with one video.
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I'm going to, I have to run behind the computer because you guys know why, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Don't forget to add our Instagrams because I want them to check my link.
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I will add everyone's Instagrams at the end of the video.
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Normally I have it at the beginning of the video, but I, I added and then it just got too
02:30:37.320
We are now going to be reacting to a Jim Jeffers video.
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Every single time a man saves a lot of women, he's got a slut.
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But if a woman saves a lot of men, he's got a slut.
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To be a slut, you have to be witty, charming, well-dressed, have nice shoes, and a fake job.
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Maybe in their own realm and nothing crossed over to our world.
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Well, I think Lord Tyrion from Game of Thrones can be considered a stunt.
02:32:01.520
I think, I don't know, that's all I really have to say about that video.
02:32:06.300
Because that's, like, the only thing that stayed in my mind.
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I mean, I don't really know what to say about that either.
02:32:30.380
The point he's trying to make is that a guy can be a stud.
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And he believes that the double standard is justified.
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So, do you feel that the double standard is not justified?
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Honestly, I mean, I've seen a bunch of ugly sluts that are guys.
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I mean, there's somebody for everybody, you know?
02:33:32.920
Like, if a guy was fat and ugly, like how he was saying.
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Because, like, I mean, if you go out and, like, you see some guy wearing nice clothes or, like, expensive stuff.
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Or, like, I feel like most girls are going to be more attracted to that.
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Rather than someone that doesn't have as nice of clothes or as nice of a car.
02:34:38.560
Ryan, don't worry about that Louis has passed her on her feet.
02:34:53.880
Oh, I think that's Brandon taking shots at Relly over here.
02:35:03.600
Because you are currently or were on seeking arrangements?
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So, Tristan, your reaction to the video that we just watched?
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Like, doesn't necessarily need to be good looking.
02:35:34.120
Most likely, if you're good looking, you can become a stud.
02:35:37.580
A lot more likely than a guy that's not very good looking, you know?
02:35:44.920
Or very rarely a personality will make a dude a stud.
02:35:50.040
They have to really have a good personality, you know?
02:36:14.340
English is my second language and I have a stutter.
02:36:40.980
That's from an old stand-up special of his from.
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So, he'd probably get canceled for some of the stuff he just said there.
02:36:54.520
He was, you know, speaking in his mind, not really caring about a canceled culture.
02:37:02.980
Usagi suggests that we turn off the text-to-speech, the TTS.
02:37:10.280
Guys, guys in the chat, I want to open it up to you.
02:37:25.480
You know, stick to pulling it up like this, you know, in StreamYard with the super chats.
02:37:31.180
One in the chat for, wait, fuck, I already forgot.
02:37:42.580
Yeah, one in the chat for keep it, two in the chat for get rid of the TTS.
02:37:47.000
Anyways, we're going to do, or no, I didn't give my full take.
02:37:50.020
First off, Jim Jeffries went from, like, based, just saying whatever he wants, to kind of, like, woke.
02:37:57.580
I don't know if you've seen any of his other non-stand-up specials, but, yeah.
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So, I actually don't think it's a double standard.
02:38:31.040
To get that from Mike Davis, who's our resident.
02:38:47.060
I think Mike is taking it easy on us just because we had that situation unfold.
02:38:59.480
So, y'all didn't really seem to take much quarrel with that, but I feel like that's, his stance
02:39:11.120
Well, I feel like bringing up seeking arrangements is, like, a perfect example of what they were
02:39:15.460
saying of how money can make such a big difference for a guy who maybe initially a lot of women
02:39:22.620
Like, because if you think about seeking arrangements, it's just a bunch of older men who have a lot
02:39:28.920
of money and then they use that money to attract younger, more attractive girls who, like, otherwise
02:39:37.700
So, there are ways that make it easier to be a stud, I guess.
02:39:47.200
Well, there's exceptions on seeking arrangements.
02:39:49.780
Wait, so it's, you're saying that there's ways guys can be a stud beyond their appearance?
02:39:58.920
Like, they were saying if a guy has money or...
02:40:11.700
A guy with all that stuff walks into a nightclub.
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What does he have to do to get laid that night?
02:40:28.860
Is women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can.
02:40:51.900
I mean, the way you're making them, men just sleep with whoever they can.
02:41:13.860
Most women could sleep with most men, but most men cannot sleep with most women.
02:41:26.960
I don't think that's generally always the goal for a lot of women.
02:42:12.980
I know you got a girlfriend, but let's say you didn't.
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If you downloaded a dating app right now, do you think you could get laid tonight?
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There's no such thing as last minute pussy on a Tuesday.
02:42:42.980
Ask her to go play a man taking over women for a sign of respect.
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Do you think if you were so inclined you could get laid tonight by a new guy?
02:43:17.540
But in that same tense, he would be able to, too.
02:43:21.300
Like, if a girl wanted to, then if a guy is also on that same app, it's gonna happen.
02:43:32.400
Guys are, like, thirsty, honestly, pretty much.
02:43:39.100
I guess as much hunting as much as guys are always.
02:43:42.080
Fucking, you know, thirsty as hell trying to look for a girl.
02:43:49.440
It would be based on what the girl's looking for, though.
02:44:07.780
Anyways, let's just do some super chats, and then we're gonna wrap up the show, guys.
02:44:15.700
There's so many that came in, I don't even know where I'm at.
02:44:56.560
Once he gets close, he goes to frat parties and hits on freshman chicks.
02:45:02.780
Definitely don't go to frat parties or fucking hit on freshman chicks.
02:45:16.580
I have not been starring all the super chats, so I'm gonna have to...
02:45:41.960
There has been, like, Naruto and, like, I don't know, some other dude that's, like, it's been
02:45:49.360
Honestly, I can confirm that Tristan is not like that, although he does give off, like,
02:45:59.620
We're gonna read the super chats, and then we're going to wrap up the stream, and...
02:46:17.020
I have to scroll all the way up through all the comments and star all of them if I want
02:46:24.660
Ryan, well, I didn't want you to see the chats after the big left.
02:46:29.220
Sure, that fool wasn't missing before I was in the room.
02:46:36.960
That was, you know, obviously, I'm sorry to the...
02:46:45.980
I hope that, you know, obviously, it's impacted the stream a little bit that...
02:46:51.800
I feel like it sparked everyone to talk about...
02:46:58.800
You know, we have viewers, and I do want to apologize to the viewers for that.
02:47:10.920
It would be interesting to have a chance to win on this.
02:47:37.220
I might have to pull it up some other way, guys.
02:47:44.920
By the way, Tristan, if you want to ask the panel...
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Why don't we do this while I'm getting the super chats?
02:48:06.360
But you expect them to tell you what their body counts are?
02:48:08.980
Well, the difference is that I believe body count matters, so...
02:48:51.180
Jacob, final thought or question for the panel?
02:48:56.360
I think it was kind of interesting how we all were talking about Chris Levin
02:49:23.720
Uh, the panel for their patience during the, uh...
02:49:29.920
To, uh, quote Fresh and Fit, that was a self-Frank Castle.
02:49:51.580
Well, this is the first time I'm hearing you actually say that.
02:49:58.340
No, you said it in another way that generally wasn't very specific.
02:50:02.280
I mean, I take accountability, but, I mean, his blow-up wasn't justified.
02:50:15.380
Can you remember which was the last one that we pulled up?
02:50:33.900
No, but, okay, so there's a difference between when it just popped up on its own, but, like,
02:51:07.700
What's it gonna take for you to leave your boyfriend...
02:51:12.700
...to get with Mike Davis, who's a very powerful businessman,
02:51:18.340
Rich, obviously, with his consecutive $5 soup chats.
02:52:38.520
Mike Davis, don't ask broads on how to pick up women.
02:52:40.780
That's on the roleplay of man picking up a woman, and they'll sound...
02:52:47.520
Would any of you like to do a kind of last-minute roleplay?
02:52:53.240
Are you guys down to extend the stream about another 10 minutes?
02:53:19.100
Wait, I thought you were reading that from the chat.
02:53:31.300
Tristan, let's watch Sonic 2 together and eat some wings.
02:53:45.340
I mean, we're not going to talk really much more about that.
02:53:50.520
So, of the girls on the panel, do any of you think that...
02:53:58.900
I think most of you said it was harder for men.
02:54:04.840
We'll do the role play for another stream just so we can wrap up here soon.
02:54:13.480
Orange dirt girl is the type most guys dream for.
02:54:15.720
Feminine, sweet, non-confrontational, and looks to match.
02:54:27.560
Jazz, do you have a response to Mr. Mike Davis?
02:54:49.220
Yeah, well, obviously, I'm, yeah, next show, I'll have someone else come in to run the stream.
02:54:56.480
Chris, if you're watching, I can fix you, baby.
02:55:06.780
Can you see how the following the channel is so split?
02:55:32.760
Okay, so Xavi is worth $7 million and five, seven with a dad bod.
02:55:38.860
That was probably in response to one of our previous.
02:55:43.440
This Asian family looked at me like this in their car.
02:56:11.880
But Brian, don't worry about that low testosterone.
02:56:15.160
Chris, dude, his Asperger's freak out will grow your show.
02:56:19.400
Mike Davis, yo, thank you for the support, man.
02:56:24.140
Yeah, I mean, I've got no ill will towards Chris.
02:56:38.960
I have other guys that can come in and run the show.
02:56:45.000
I wish he had just come and talked to me after the show, and if he wanted to quit, that would
02:56:48.920
But Girl in the Orange, can I take you to Paris?
02:56:59.820
You've got to take the jacket off now, because they don't know who you're talking about.
02:57:17.440
Hey, we're going to have everyone's Instagram in the description.
02:57:20.560
I'll have it up within about five minutes after we finish the stream.
02:57:24.880
Normally, I have it up during the show, but, you know, stuff happens.
02:57:35.380
Yeah, hey, Mike Davis, thank you for the soup chat.
02:57:47.600
A good boss acknowledges the integral part that Chris plays on the stream, swallow the pride,
02:57:54.220
In relationships, be them business, friendships, romantic relationships, there is a...
02:58:20.300
There's a point of no return, and, I mean, when that happens, if he had a quarrel with how things were going,
02:58:28.200
he should have come to me after the show, and we could have talked about it one-on-one.
02:58:31.040
But, yeah, I mean, there's no going back after that, so the relationship's done.
02:58:45.560
I was going to say the wars to come, like some Game of Thrones fucking dude, like, I've got a castle or some shit.
02:59:10.600
This female, and I believe he's referring to Chris when he's saying this female.
02:59:19.320
A real man expresses his emotions instead of bottling up and exploding.
02:59:24.240
Chris will be her next homeless date now that he's out of a job.
02:59:29.380
Because she found it attractive that he, you know, he got up and he had balls to do that, which we already talked about.
02:59:37.580
I mean, I think he should have expressed it beforehand.
02:59:40.120
If I was, you know, getting disrespected, I guess, or I guess not, you know, someone was being really stern repeatedly.
02:59:47.160
If I was being distracted, I would not, you know, probably be as drastic as that.
02:59:55.480
Don't worry, the green girl is feeling like that.
03:00:07.320
If I were in his situation, I would have just walked out silently, honestly.
03:00:11.840
Like, without saying anything and then just talk about it later and tell you what you did wrong.
03:00:19.340
Get up and literally walk out and be like, all right, fuck, I'm out.
03:00:26.060
I don't know what's on the internet is forever, so.
03:00:41.680
The biggest piece of advice I'd have is turn the other cheek, learn from what happened, and move forward with the podcast on what you learned.
03:00:54.960
Stephen Krug, starting an organization is hard.
03:01:00.840
If everybody has an ownership stake, road bumps are way easier to absorb.
03:01:08.980
I mean, forgiveness isn't an issue, but I mean, he's obviously not going to work again with me.
03:01:16.720
I mean, that's probably a mutual feeling, so I don't think there's any reconciliation that can happen.
03:01:22.180
But like I said, I don't have any ill will towards Chris.
03:01:26.240
But yeah, we're just not going to work together anymore.
03:01:32.840
Brandon, ask Girl in Green if she'd like to join me next week on the show to discuss the passion in dating.
03:02:00.440
Seven guests and no one did nothing to escalate the situation.
03:02:17.020
Base with the $5 soup chat, that's not how you act, especially in a live environment.
03:02:20.680
Any problems that were had was obviously on his side and not communicated.
03:02:30.820
Chris never had the makings of a varsity athlete.
03:02:41.100
First bimbo to leave the podcast and it wasn't a female.
03:02:43.300
I think, did we, it came in as a, I didn't pull it up like this.
03:02:52.600
Uh, why, Brian, why do many super chats after the beta left beta, beta, beta, beta, beta, beta?
03:03:01.880
Uh, sure that fool wasn't messing with your donos and routing them to his overdrawn bank.
03:03:06.460
No, I don't think there was any, uh, any shifty stuff going on there.
03:03:10.580
Um, it would be Michael literous with, with the, uh, 450 about the trans woman.
03:03:20.340
I'm trying to get them through them as quick as possible.
03:03:22.260
Tristan, the type of dude to go vegan for his girlfriend.
03:03:26.000
Ask orange girl what it would take to ditch the zero and go with the hero.
03:03:35.860
And I'm pretty sure that's all these super chats.
03:03:38.320
I'm very sorry if I missed any guys, uh, producer quit mid show, you know?
03:03:47.880
Um, I think we should put a dollar in the jar every time you say producer quit.
03:04:12.200
Um, I'm sure that's going to be clipped and, uh, yeah.
03:04:19.080
I'm, I'm a little flustered, uh, by what happened.
03:04:24.060
Um, I'm, you know, having to handle the soup chats and,
03:04:28.320
Um, I think we're going to, so we're going to wrap up there.
03:04:31.820
Um, I want to thank all of you for tuning in tonight.
03:04:45.080
Uh, I suppose it made for good, uh, good content, but, uh, yeah.
03:04:53.540
Um, we've got, we've got an opening by the way.
03:04:56.740
Well, I think Eric, I'll bring Eric on, but, uh, yeah, we do have an opening for a producer.
03:05:01.500
If you live in Santa Barbara and you want to, uh, you know, help out behind the scenes,
03:05:14.240
I might be doing an interview next week with Rolo Tomasi, the rational male.
03:05:21.300
We might try to get him on the dating talk panel.
03:05:23.480
Maybe, uh, it's in the, it's in the talk, in the talks.
03:05:28.280
Uh, but for the dating show, we will be live again Tuesday and then Thursday of next week.
03:05:32.980
I want to give a big thank you to the, uh, panel for coming.
03:05:38.260
Uh, I'll be getting their Instagrams in the description once we're done with the, uh,
03:05:46.080
Um, so yeah, there, everyone's Instagrams will be in the description and, uh, I want
03:05:55.420
Thank you for your patience while we were, you know, working out that whole mess.
03:05:59.260
And, uh, yeah, uh, I'm trying to think if there's anything else.
03:06:03.980
Uh, yeah, thank you guys for your patience before the show because we were a bit delayed
03:06:08.860
and thank you guys to your patience, uh, during the show.
03:06:12.260
So, and, uh, yes, it was, uh, an interesting night.
03:06:19.080
And, um, Tristan, why don't you, um, close it out?
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I want, uh, just, just to, just because I didn't include the Instagrams in the, uh, description.
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If everyone wants to just go around and just tell people your Instagram and then I'll,
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Uh, we'll see you next time, Tuesday, 7 PM and go ahead.
03:06:44.080
My Instagram is Jasmine dot Renee, but there's two J's.
03:06:50.380
My Instagram is really really, but you spell it like R E A L L I dot Relly.
03:07:20.180
Uh, my Instagram's J underscore via real seven.
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If you want to give a wave to everyone, thank you guys for peace out.