Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #17

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00:02:40.620 So we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:02:43.480 So please tell us your name, age, occupation, and or school major.

00:02:49.600 Hi, everyone.

00:02:50.500 I'm Natasha.

00:02:51.340 I'm 19.

00:02:52.680 I work at Starbucks and I am not in college right now.

00:02:55.740 So I don't have a major.

00:02:57.540 Well, tell us about your content creation too.

00:03:00.380 Yeah, I have a TikTok.

00:03:02.260 And I have an Instagram and I'm working on building my TikTok right now.

00:03:06.060 I'm hopefully going to start making YouTube videos sometime soon in the future.

00:03:10.140 And that's about it.

00:03:11.360 Okay.

00:03:11.580 We're going to be reacting to a couple of her TikToks.

00:03:14.740 She's on the come up, guys.

00:03:16.120 She's going to be huge.

00:03:17.260 She's going to be huge.

00:03:18.400 Hopefully.

00:03:19.760 Go ahead.

00:03:20.440 Your turn.

00:03:21.400 Hi, I'm Charlotte.

00:03:22.960 I'm 19.

00:03:24.200 I am a psychology major at Santa Barbara City College.

00:03:28.240 Thank you.

00:03:29.280 Hi, I'm Lulu.

00:03:33.120 I'm 21 years old.

00:03:34.700 I work at the front desk of a dormitory.

00:03:37.780 And I'm a biochem and a criminology major at Santa Barbara City College.

00:03:46.000 I forgot to have that part in there.

00:03:49.300 Hi, everyone.

00:03:50.380 My name is Kara.

00:03:51.460 I'm a model and fashion content creator and also a student in UCSB.

00:03:56.880 And my major is communication.

00:03:59.980 Hi, I'm Taylor.

00:04:01.040 I'm 19.

00:04:02.380 I'm a marketing major at SBCC.

00:04:06.420 Cool hair.

00:04:07.840 Yes.

00:04:08.280 My name is Blair.

00:04:09.300 I am 25 years old.

00:04:11.060 I am a personal trainer and amateur bodybuilder.

00:04:15.280 And I also work at Trader Joe's.

00:04:17.920 Okay.

00:04:18.600 Nice.

00:04:19.460 And I want to go around the table one more time.

00:04:23.960 Actually, you know what?

00:04:24.780 Before I get into that, I want to give a big thank you to Kara and Tasha for coming in.

00:04:32.080 Y'all came in super clutch.

00:04:33.560 We had a ton of last-minute cancellations.

00:04:36.500 So thank you guys for coming in on a short notice.

00:04:39.300 Really appreciated.

00:04:40.840 Like, originally, I was going to do a big panel.

00:04:42.880 Like, I was going to have, like, eight girls come.

00:04:45.200 But two of them were sick.

00:04:47.220 And then, and obviously, thank you to the other people on the panel, too.

00:04:51.000 And thank you for everyone else that's been on the show.

00:04:53.480 We really appreciate it.

00:04:54.380 Even if we get into some debates and disagreement, genuinely appreciate everyone that comes on the show.

00:05:00.040 Guys and girls.

00:05:00.660 So much appreciated.

00:05:01.840 So going back around the panel, current relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on a dating app?

00:05:09.920 My current relationship status is single.

00:05:12.400 My longest relationship was a year and a half.

00:05:14.980 And yes, I'm on dating apps.

00:05:16.760 I'm only on Hinge.

00:05:19.080 Have you been on other ones before?

00:05:21.340 Yes.

00:05:22.240 I've been on Tinder.

00:05:23.700 And actually, with Tinder, when I downloaded it, my phones are connected to my parents' phones.

00:05:30.060 And so any app that you download, it also downloads to your parents' phone.

00:05:34.720 And I didn't tell my parents I was downloading this app.

00:05:37.220 And so it popped up on my dad's phone.

00:05:40.020 He thought my mom downloaded it because they're separated.

00:05:42.600 Oh.

00:05:44.540 Well, if they were still together, I would imagine that would be worse.

00:05:48.220 They're married but separated.

00:05:50.180 But they're still married, right?

00:05:52.020 So that was a problem.

00:05:54.460 Was that used in the divorce proceedings?

00:05:56.920 No.

00:05:57.420 No, no, no.

00:05:57.780 I cleared it up.

00:05:58.620 I cleared my mom's name.

00:06:00.360 Yeah, it was a mess.

00:06:01.920 Okay.

00:06:02.820 Yeah, be careful, guys, if your phones are all linked up like that.

00:06:06.780 Okay, any seeking arrangements?

00:06:08.440 Anything like that?

00:06:09.140 No, definitely not.

00:06:09.860 Okay.

00:06:11.720 I'm Charlotte.

00:06:13.200 I am currently single.

00:06:14.580 My longest, like, relationship was six months.

00:06:21.200 And I'm not currently on Tinder or any dating apps, but I used to be.

00:06:25.960 Okay.

00:06:26.580 Yeah.

00:06:27.380 Posture check, by the way.

00:06:29.260 What?

00:06:29.740 Posture check.

00:06:30.500 Oh, sorry.

00:06:31.100 There we go.

00:06:31.920 Okay.

00:06:32.980 I'm looking out.

00:06:33.740 I'm looking out.

00:06:34.480 Go ahead.

00:06:35.480 Um, I'm single.

00:06:39.100 My longest relationship, I'd say, was, like, seven months.

00:06:47.340 I don't know.

00:06:48.000 It was a weird relationship.

00:06:49.160 He never really asked me to be his girlfriend, but it was, like, I was.

00:06:52.140 It was weird.

00:06:53.760 But I have a Tinder, but I haven't been on it in a really long time.

00:06:58.980 Like I said, like, a good, like, couple weeks.

00:07:02.980 But that's kind of it.

00:07:04.180 A long time.

00:07:04.840 That's a long time.

00:07:05.820 Yeah, it is a long time.

00:07:07.080 A couple weeks.

00:07:07.240 This is for Isla Vista.

00:07:08.320 That's a long time.

00:07:10.000 So, like, was it a fortnight ago?

00:07:12.920 It was.

00:07:14.980 14 days.

00:07:15.620 It was, well, ooh, how do I, like, put this into.

00:07:19.680 Can you define what Isla Vista time is?

00:07:22.480 Isla Vista time, a couple weeks.

00:07:24.780 I mean, I'd say it's, like, a whole, what, like, a year.

00:07:28.880 Yeah, it's like Love Island here.

00:07:30.380 Wow.

00:07:30.680 Yeah, we talk about it a lot.

00:07:32.340 It's, like, Love Island.

00:07:33.460 And if you're not on Tinder in Isla Vista, then it's kind of, like, you don't understand what's not happening in the villa.

00:07:39.700 So, yeah.

00:07:41.800 I feel like I, just because I haven't been on Tinder in a while, I feel like I've missed so much.

00:07:49.020 But, I mean, I still have it.

00:07:50.540 But I just haven't been on it in a while.

00:07:52.260 Any other dating apps?

00:07:53.840 I've tried Hinge and Bumble, but they're just, they're a totally different vibe.

00:07:58.400 I don't have good terms with Hinge.

00:08:00.840 And I, Bumble is a different, it's just a whole different vibe.

00:08:04.360 So, I just kind of stick with Tinder.

00:08:06.300 But, yeah.

00:08:06.780 You want to shoot your shot first?

00:08:09.040 Yeah.

00:08:10.280 Okay.

00:08:10.600 Sometimes I will shoot my shot first.

00:08:13.580 Like, because that's the person who I am.

00:08:15.340 I'll reach out first.

00:08:16.520 Like, I don't mind.

00:08:18.960 But if I have to be the one to shoot my shot first, I'm not going to do it.

00:08:23.760 Like, I don't want to, I don't, like, I will watch that time tick until it's done.

00:08:28.420 I don't want to be the only person that has to, like, playing cards in her hand.

00:08:32.320 Seeking arrangements?

00:08:36.920 I have dabbled with that a little bit.

00:08:40.740 The only thing I ever got from it was $40 to get my nails done.

00:08:45.020 Hey, small, small victories.

00:08:47.280 Senior year, it was senior year of high school.

00:08:49.620 It was amazing.

00:08:51.840 But that's the only time.

00:08:53.080 I mean, I went on seeking arrangements last year.

00:08:58.280 It was fine.

00:08:59.320 I didn't get anything out of it, though.

00:09:00.600 One of the guys still hits me up a lot, so I just kind of ignore him.

00:09:04.360 But that's it.

00:09:05.140 So you made $40 on seeking arrangements?

00:09:06.800 I did.

00:09:07.340 I made $40 off of seeking arrangements.

00:09:09.780 Did you have to meet the guy or just?

00:09:10.980 No.

00:09:11.360 He just paid you $40?

00:09:12.100 I told him, I was like, I really want to get my nails done.

00:09:14.620 Like, blah, blah, blah.

00:09:15.380 Like, me and my friend really want to go.

00:09:17.440 He goes, I can send you $40 for it.

00:09:19.500 I'm like, oh, my God, that'd be really good.

00:09:21.480 And then he sent me $40 through Venmo.

00:09:23.940 Why?

00:09:24.660 I just don't get it.

00:09:25.540 I don't either.

00:09:26.260 I don't get it.

00:09:26.720 Why would you?

00:09:27.300 I want to know what goes through their head, personally.

00:09:29.460 It was really nice, though.

00:09:31.520 So I got some really good nails out of it.

00:09:33.540 Charlotte, going back to you, have you been on seeking arrangements?

00:09:37.820 No.

00:09:38.880 One time, like, I've had, like, guys, like, DM me and be like, oh, like, be my sugar baby

00:09:44.000 or whatever.

00:09:44.900 And, like, one time I actually, like, went, oh, so sorry.

00:09:47.860 I, like, actually went through it and he sent me a check.

00:09:52.460 And then I had, like, my sister's friend, like, look into it and the check was fake.

00:09:57.860 So it was a check for, like, $5,000, though.

00:10:00.120 So if it was real, that'd be cool.

00:10:02.380 Wait, he sent you a fake bogus check?

00:10:04.860 Yeah.

00:10:06.280 Okay.

00:10:07.200 The scammer becomes the scammy.

00:10:09.820 I don't know.

00:10:10.180 Kara, you go ahead.

00:10:13.640 I'm dating someone and my longest relationship is a year.

00:10:18.020 I'm not currently on any dating apps after I start dating with my boyfriend.

00:10:23.620 Yeah.

00:10:24.280 Okay.

00:10:24.800 But have you been on dating apps?

00:10:26.280 Yeah.

00:10:26.600 Actually, but actually, like, me and my boyfriend, we met each other on Tinder.

00:10:30.540 Oh, okay.

00:10:31.160 Yeah.

00:10:31.780 A Tinder relationship.

00:10:33.260 There you go.

00:10:33.760 It happens.

00:10:34.620 It does.

00:10:35.240 It does.

00:10:35.960 It's pretty common these days.

00:10:36.780 Okay.

00:10:37.180 And were you, prior to your current boyfriend, were you on Seeking Arrangements?

00:10:40.900 No.

00:10:41.740 Okay.

00:10:41.960 Of course my boyfriend.

00:10:43.000 Yeah.

00:10:43.320 Okay.

00:10:43.700 Got it.

00:10:43.960 Yeah, yeah.

00:10:46.000 I'm currently single.

00:10:47.720 My longest relationship was only four months.

00:10:50.440 And I was on Tinder, but then I deleted it because I got kind of bored.

00:10:55.040 Never went on Seeking Arrangements, though.

00:10:56.720 I tried, but they were, like, I was under review or something like that.

00:11:00.460 They were, like, I don't know.

00:11:01.640 I never got to go on it.

00:11:03.340 It was kind of a failure, but it's fine.

00:11:06.260 Blair.

00:11:07.220 Yes.

00:11:09.220 I'm in a relationship, and my longest one is my current one.

00:11:12.900 We are coming on three years in January.

00:11:16.000 Nice.

00:11:16.820 And we did actually meet on Tinder as well.

00:11:19.060 Oh, shit.

00:11:20.120 Yeah.

00:11:20.680 What a Tinder relationship.

00:11:21.640 Okay.

00:11:22.040 Yes.

00:11:22.740 And were you ever on Seeking Arrangements?

00:11:26.440 I have not been, but I've been encouraging my girlfriend to get some money from a sugar daddy.

00:11:33.220 What?

00:11:33.840 I respect that.

00:11:34.700 Hold on.

00:11:35.500 I respect that.

00:11:36.240 You would be comfortable with your girlfriend being on?

00:11:40.280 It would depend on what they were asking for.

00:11:43.420 You know?

00:11:43.820 Like, I'm okay with feet picks, maybe, like, a bikini pick, but it's not going further than that.

00:11:48.920 Okay.

00:11:49.240 And if it's a big, you know, if it depends on how much they're offering, too, you know?

00:11:53.660 Wait, would you get a taste?

00:11:56.080 Would I get a taste?

00:11:56.920 Would you get a taste of the money that she would have?

00:11:58.580 Oh, yeah, yeah.

00:11:59.060 We're going to share it.

00:11:59.820 Yeah, absolutely.

00:12:00.420 Oh, okay.

00:12:01.460 I guess that's a bit more understandable.

00:12:03.200 Yeah.

00:12:03.380 But a lot of guys, I feel like they'd be like, nah.

00:12:06.500 You know?

00:12:07.000 You know what I mean?

00:12:08.060 At the end of the day, she's coming home to me.

00:12:09.640 That is true.

00:12:10.620 Fair enough.

00:12:11.160 Fair enough.

00:12:12.500 And so, okay, we talked a little bit about Seeking Arrangements.

00:12:15.060 Have any of you, you can get this without being on Seeking Arrangements, have any of you had a sugar daddy?

00:12:22.180 I have not.

00:12:23.460 Okay.

00:12:24.020 No, only the one I just mentioned.

00:12:25.740 Okay.

00:12:25.920 But he wasn't real.

00:12:26.780 Sure.

00:12:27.440 Santa.

00:12:28.440 I wouldn't say it was a long excursion.

00:12:31.860 He just gave me the $40.

00:12:34.480 That was kind of all.

00:12:36.340 But, yeah.

00:12:37.700 No.

00:12:38.440 Never.

00:12:39.480 Yeah, I haven't either.

00:12:40.680 I wish, though.

00:12:41.920 That would make my life a lot easier.

00:12:44.500 Blair?

00:12:45.840 You repeat the question, sorry.

00:12:47.460 Have you, well, have you ever had a sugar mama or?

00:12:51.180 Have you ever been a sugar daddy?

00:12:53.640 No to both of those questions.

00:12:55.560 Okay.

00:12:56.600 Rock and roll.

00:12:58.020 So, we're going to react to a video, but before we do that, what is the worst way a guy has ever tried to hit on you?

00:13:08.640 And we're going to start here.

00:13:12.420 Oh, man.

00:13:13.460 Eric.

00:13:15.860 The worst way a guy has hit on me.

00:13:17.760 That's a difficult question.

00:13:19.380 There's a lot of unfortunate ways that a guy can hit on you.

00:13:23.640 I would say the worst way that a guy can hit on you is in the DMs.

00:13:29.920 Just kind of, just saying, hey.

00:13:33.260 I think that that's probably the worst way.

00:13:34.880 If you want to get a girl, please don't go into their DMs and say, hey, because she's not going to talk to you back.

00:13:39.800 What if he has a blue check mark?

00:13:43.400 Come on now.

00:13:44.020 You could be much more creative.

00:13:46.360 Honestly, if he has a blue check mark, I don't think it matters.

00:13:51.720 I don't care.

00:13:52.520 You need to be more upfront.

00:13:53.520 You need to be more direct.

00:13:54.900 You need to tell me what you want.

00:13:57.300 You need to tell me what plans you have.

00:14:00.180 On the first DM?

00:14:01.720 I mean.

00:14:03.140 So what should they say to you?

00:14:05.700 On the very first DM?

00:14:07.320 I would say.

00:14:07.940 What would you like them to say?

00:14:08.780 I would want them to say, hi, I think you're beautiful.

00:14:11.900 I would love to take you out sometime soon if you're free.

00:14:14.360 I think that is a great way to start.

00:14:16.140 Not a simple hey.

00:14:17.340 I feel like that's a really cliche opener, though.

00:14:20.560 I feel like that's used too much.

00:14:21.980 It could be.

00:14:22.820 Or I guess some people feel that way.

00:14:24.940 But you might not.

00:14:25.640 Has a guy ever said that to you?

00:14:26.940 Or something approaching that?

00:14:29.680 No.

00:14:30.480 I mean, I'll get compliments.

00:14:32.200 But nothing like, I'd like to take you out here, this time, this place.

00:14:36.880 And I think that would be nice.

00:14:38.180 Okay.

00:14:38.680 So the worst line you've ever gotten is, hey.

00:14:43.460 It is a bad one.

00:14:44.380 I agree with you.

00:14:45.240 I'm sure I've gotten worse.

00:14:46.300 I can't think of it at the moment.

00:14:47.440 But hey is terrible.

00:14:48.240 Hey is bad.

00:14:49.040 I agree with you on that.

00:14:50.220 It's really bad.

00:14:51.680 It's very bad on dating apps.

00:14:54.320 Terrible on Instagram.

00:14:55.240 Because it's like, where do you, they're basically shucking the conversational burden onto you.

00:15:02.880 Then you have to, I mean, you could just respond hey, too, and see if they're going to put in an effort.

00:15:08.680 Yeah.

00:15:09.600 Yeah.

00:15:09.980 But if they say hey, 90% of the time, they're not going to continue a conversation with you.

00:15:14.760 I feel like that's a clear indicator that they are a dry texter.

00:15:18.000 And no one wants to go on a date with someone that doesn't talk to them in a full, you know, full conversationalist way.

00:15:23.620 So if the guy came with like a proper first message or conversationally he was bringing it, would you meet him?

00:15:31.180 Or do you find, even if the guy's kind of, and obviously I assume this has to do with if you find him attractive.

00:15:37.140 But would you, do you say that you're a good texter?

00:15:42.320 Or like you'll, you'll meet them or, cause there's definitely girls like, and it could just be that they're not so much interested in the guy.

00:15:48.740 But there's definitely girls where the guy will be like cleverest shit ever, some Don Juan type shit.

00:15:56.040 And the girl's like, okay, one word answers type shit.

00:15:58.800 But if we're going on the basis of, if I don't know him and he hasn't shown me that he's clever, he hasn't shown me that he's worth my time, then no, I'm not going to reply.

00:16:08.260 I'm not even going to think about it.

00:16:09.540 Sure.

00:16:10.080 Okay.

00:16:11.120 You know what's funny though about the whole hey thing?

00:16:13.720 So are you guys familiar with the dating app Bumble?

00:16:16.380 Yeah.

00:16:16.980 Yes.

00:16:17.220 So, so Bumble is a dating app where the girl has to message first.

00:16:22.400 Very familiar with that.

00:16:23.420 And, uh, I was on there for a bit.

00:16:24.940 I'm not on there anymore, but, uh, hinge is a good one.

00:16:28.440 I'm, I'm on hinge.

00:16:29.480 Uh, my experience on Bumble is finally women, y'all have the power.

00:16:37.140 90% of the first messages I got were, Hey, I can confirm that too.

00:16:42.560 Yeah.

00:16:42.820 It's always just, or like, how's it going?

00:16:45.280 Which is, I mean, that's still bad.

00:16:47.900 Yeah.

00:16:48.480 How's your day?

00:16:50.140 You know, and I had a fucking interesting as fuck profile too.

00:16:54.580 Like if it was me seeing that profile, I could come up with like 10 different things I could

00:16:58.620 open up with.

00:17:00.440 So.

00:17:01.300 Exactly.

00:17:02.600 Like if you're only going to say, Hey, hi, like how do you respond to that?

00:17:06.500 Especially if you're giving us stuff to work with, then like, I think the girl should have

00:17:10.640 been putting in more effort with you.

00:17:12.180 Yeah.

00:17:12.480 I think they're just straight up copy and pasting and just, that's exactly what I was

00:17:16.520 going to say as well.

00:17:17.340 They got, you know, they got like five or six lined up.

00:17:19.280 Hey, Hey, Hey, Hey, Hey.

00:17:20.200 Oh yeah.

00:17:20.580 So to your, to your credit, you know, that that's very reasonable.

00:17:23.520 Yeah.

00:17:24.100 They need to be more creative.

00:17:25.620 Yeah.

00:17:26.220 I've, but I've definitely seen that complaint.

00:17:27.800 Like girls will say in their, uh, in their bios, I've seen it on Tinder when I was not,

00:17:31.940 not on there anymore, but they'll say, don't open with, Hey, come up with something

00:17:36.140 more creative, whatever.

00:17:37.120 And, uh, it's just kind of interesting.

00:17:39.140 My experience on the dating apps, it's just, Hey, it's 90% Hey.

00:17:46.140 So anyways, um, so worst pickup line that you've ever gotten in person or I think just like

00:17:53.040 guys being hella creepy, like really creepy and being just like, Oh, I want to like come

00:17:58.740 on your face or something.

00:18:01.600 I don't know.

00:18:02.580 Like, at least he's, you know, honest with his intentions, honest with his intentions.

00:18:07.600 Can I say that?

00:18:09.780 Like, um, just, or like, like I don't, stuff like that.

00:18:17.060 Like I, maybe they're trying to be funny, but it's, it's really not, I don't really want

00:18:21.580 to text you after you tell me something like that.

00:18:23.660 And I don't even know who you are.

00:18:24.920 So you, that actually happened to you.

00:18:26.640 Yeah.

00:18:27.080 Or that, like, yeah, that, that has happened to me or like, like other things like that.

00:18:31.200 Like, Oh, just like show me your tits.

00:18:33.920 Like, and was this on dating apps or that was on like Tinder.

00:18:37.880 I've had like guys DM me though and be like, what's it look like without the swimsuit?

00:18:44.480 Would you prefer that or Hey?

00:18:46.380 Hey, for sure.

00:18:47.920 Okay.

00:18:48.280 Hey.

00:18:48.580 Okay.

00:18:49.060 So you don't like the overtly sexual.

00:18:53.400 Yeah.

00:18:54.340 Yeah.

00:18:54.960 I feel like I'm going to get murdered or something.

00:18:56.980 But would, would you still be okay with a guy being direct, but it was respectful?

00:19:01.180 Yeah.

00:19:01.420 Yeah.

00:19:01.620 If he was like, Oh, whoa, you're really hot.

00:19:03.660 Like, tell me about your brain or something.

00:19:06.820 Like, not like that, but like, tell me what's going through your mind.

00:19:10.480 You know what?

00:19:10.900 Yeah.

00:19:11.780 Like, okay.

00:19:12.360 I like that.

00:19:13.540 That's actually a good line.

00:19:14.780 You're really hot.

00:19:15.460 Tell me about your brain.

00:19:17.320 Guys, try that out tonight.

00:19:18.920 Let us know how it goes.

00:19:20.480 Yeah.

00:19:20.700 Okay.

00:19:21.400 What, any other just ridiculous lines you've gotten?

00:19:24.160 Um, I'm trying to think about like something somebody said on like DP or something.

00:19:29.540 For those who don't know DP, that's short for Del Playa.

00:19:32.160 That's like the main party street here in Isla Vista.

00:19:35.000 Probably.

00:19:35.700 I don't know.

00:19:36.820 They're not that they're bad there, but it's, I don't remember most of the things people say

00:19:41.580 to me there.

00:19:42.300 So.

00:19:42.680 Okay.

00:19:43.480 All right.

00:19:44.280 That's it.

00:19:46.280 Honestly, I think like, not like the worst DMs that I've ever had, but.

00:19:50.840 I just get a lot of like DMs where people just send me my own posts and they're like,

00:19:56.140 ugh.

00:19:56.360 They reply with a fire emoji or something like that, right?

00:19:58.480 Yeah.

00:19:58.740 Or like, they'll get really graphic about it.

00:20:00.540 They're like, you have no idea the things that I would do to you.

00:20:03.460 And I'm like, why are you sending a picture of my fucking body?

00:20:06.940 Like telling me the things, like, let me post what I want to post.

00:20:10.340 One.

00:20:11.180 Two.

00:20:12.120 Don't tell me what you want to do to my like body.

00:20:15.980 I look at their Instagram profile.

00:20:17.540 They've got like four followers and they're following like 3,000 people, zero posts.

00:20:23.380 And like, I'm going to do this, this, and this to you.

00:20:25.960 I'm like, what?

00:20:30.480 It's just kind of funny sometimes because they're like, oh, like, oh my God, like you

00:20:34.480 have no idea.

00:20:35.400 I would do so.

00:20:36.660 I would do you so right.

00:20:37.940 I don't want to know that.

00:20:39.420 Like, I don't want to know that.

00:20:40.580 Like, I'm okay with a hey.

00:20:42.500 Sometimes I'm okay with a hey.

00:20:44.780 I don't want to know in graphic detail what you're going to do to my body.

00:20:47.540 What's the ideal flirtatious first message to you?

00:20:51.400 Honestly, like, in my opinion, my ideal, like, flirtatious message is like, like, making

00:20:59.020 fun of me.

00:21:00.360 I think that.

00:21:01.120 Like, in what way?

00:21:02.160 In what way?

00:21:02.660 Like, oh, how do I, how do I go?

00:21:04.040 Like.

00:21:05.060 Like banter.

00:21:05.880 Yeah.

00:21:06.040 Like banter.

00:21:06.880 Like, like, just kind of like, oh, I don't know how to explain it.

00:21:10.340 You just need the chat.

00:21:11.820 Exactly.

00:21:12.380 Like, I need someone to, like, go back and forth with, if that makes sense.

00:21:16.120 Like, if they comment something sexual, like, I'm not going to really respond, but they're

00:21:20.000 like, if they comment.

00:21:23.720 Yeah, exactly.

00:21:24.940 Lulu wants to get roasted.

00:21:25.840 I do want to get roasted.

00:21:26.980 I think that's funny.

00:21:28.020 If someone roasted me in my DMs, I would 100% respond to that.

00:21:33.440 Like, what if he was like, hey, you got a five head.

00:21:35.280 I would say.

00:21:36.140 Yeah, exactly.

00:21:37.040 Okay, it worked.

00:21:37.500 I would say that because I know for a fact that I have a bigger forehead than most.

00:21:41.260 So, I think it's funny.

00:21:42.400 I wasn't thinking that, by the way.

00:21:44.520 Then why did it come to your mind?

00:21:46.360 That's the most common roast that I've heard.

00:21:49.000 No, but it's like simple things like that.

00:21:50.900 Like, if you were, if you say that to me in my DMs, I will 100% respond.

00:21:54.820 Because I think that's funny.

00:21:56.520 But if it's like, oh, I think you're so hot.

00:21:59.640 Like, I want your boobs in between.

00:22:01.040 I want your, I'm like my face in between your boobs.

00:22:02.960 No.

00:22:03.740 I don't, I would delete that.

00:22:05.940 I just want to like be roasted.

00:22:07.480 I think that's funny.

00:22:09.080 But yeah.

00:22:10.660 I don't know.

00:22:10.900 Poster check, Cara.

00:22:12.920 Shout out to Chase.

00:22:13.800 I see you, bro.

00:22:15.200 Oh, Chase is in the chat.

00:22:16.360 Chase is here.

00:22:16.860 Yo, what up, Chase?

00:22:17.800 How you doing, man?

00:22:19.340 Chase, guys, Chase is in the chat right now.

00:22:23.480 And he needs your convincing for him to come back on the show.

00:22:27.700 You know, he's, he's been very busy.

00:22:29.980 So guys, can you guys put, hmm, what should they put in the chat if they want Chase?

00:22:37.460 Giga Chase.

00:22:38.220 Giga Chase.

00:22:38.780 Giga Chase.

00:22:39.560 Okay.

00:22:39.900 Giga Chase in the chat.

00:22:40.920 I think Chase should come back on.

00:22:42.000 I don't know who Chase is.

00:22:43.320 I think you should too.

00:22:43.980 I said, hey, man, you coming on?

00:22:45.680 He goes, no, I'm not this, not this time.

00:22:47.400 So.

00:22:47.500 Come on, Chase, come back on the chat or come back on the podcast.

00:22:52.420 Worst pickup line ever.

00:22:55.380 A penis picture.

00:22:57.820 A penis picture.

00:22:59.500 Otherwise known as a dick pic.

00:23:02.920 Unsolicited.

00:23:03.800 That really goes for it.

00:23:05.180 When is it solicited?

00:23:05.940 You know what?

00:23:07.340 That's a good question.

00:23:08.340 When is it solicited?

00:23:09.140 On the topic of dick pics, has every girl here received a dick pic?

00:23:14.740 Yes.

00:23:15.660 You know what?

00:23:17.000 I've actually received a dick pic, believe it or not.

00:23:19.260 Really?

00:23:20.020 What was it like for you?

00:23:21.200 My viewers just somewhat.

00:23:23.880 Oh, great.

00:23:24.320 Now they're going to send me dick pics.

00:23:26.620 Okay, everyone.

00:23:27.920 Send him dick pics, please.

00:23:29.600 I've planted the seed and now I'm just, my inbox today is going to be.

00:23:34.700 Just don't check your, don't check your DMs after this.

00:23:37.400 Here's a question.

00:23:38.820 Have y'all ever sent a pussy pic?

00:23:42.640 No.

00:23:43.020 No.

00:23:44.900 Come on now.

00:23:46.440 Don't look awake.

00:23:47.580 Don't look awake.

00:23:48.420 Be honest.

00:23:49.480 No.

00:23:49.720 You know what?

00:23:53.120 It's yes or no.

00:23:54.660 It's yes or no.

00:23:56.560 Do you remember that?

00:23:57.960 I don't know if the girls here said, but these, I forgot the names, I'm sorry.

00:24:01.800 These two and this one here, they're all roommates.

00:24:03.820 Yeah.

00:24:04.000 So they, they, they know they got tea on each other.

00:24:06.760 Yeah.

00:24:07.160 Lulu hugged to help me out once for some old guy on Tinder.

00:24:09.920 It didn't really work out though.

00:24:11.860 Okay.

00:24:12.480 I may have done something.

00:24:15.340 What did you do?

00:24:16.160 Story time.

00:24:17.020 Let's hear it.

00:24:17.580 Story time.

00:24:18.120 Story time.

00:24:19.340 We were all, I didn't even.

00:24:22.300 Oh, wow.

00:24:23.120 Okay.

00:24:24.400 We were all really drunk.

00:24:27.980 Oh, mom and dad, I'm so sorry.

00:24:30.580 We, okay, so we were all really drunk one day.

00:24:35.320 And I think it was, someone kept, like, texting Taylor.

00:24:40.420 And.

00:24:41.600 Well, he called me.

00:24:42.760 No, yeah, he called her.

00:24:44.240 I was like, fuck, I don't know.

00:24:45.020 And so I had to, like, I had to have phone sex with him.

00:24:49.180 You went once.

00:24:50.200 Where were we?

00:24:50.920 Lulu's got content.

00:24:52.260 No.

00:24:52.580 Oh, where were we?

00:24:53.360 Yeah, no, it was in the boys.

00:24:54.760 It was in our friends.

00:24:55.600 It was in the boys' room.

00:24:56.460 And so we, so she didn't want to talk to them.

00:25:02.100 So I thought it'd be funny if, I was like, you know what, I'll talk to him for you.

00:25:06.360 So we were having, like, phone sex for just, like, it was, like, five minutes.

00:25:09.800 What kind of things did you say to him?

00:25:11.300 Just, like.

00:25:12.900 They were horrified.

00:25:13.980 Say it into the mic.

00:25:15.140 Let's not.

00:25:15.660 Just, like, reenact the scene.

00:25:17.680 We'll assume.

00:25:18.320 Bring us there.

00:25:19.140 We'll assume.

00:25:20.160 We'll assume just to keep it.

00:25:22.160 P.G.

00:25:22.680 Semi.

00:25:23.480 P.G.

00:25:23.880 P.G.

00:25:23.920 I was just telling him what I would do to him because that's what, like, the conversation

00:25:29.100 was.

00:25:30.620 But, okay, so you sent him a pussy pic is what we're getting at, correct?

00:25:37.020 Yes.

00:25:38.140 Well, don't be ashamed.

00:25:39.960 Yes.

00:25:40.740 I mean, you know what?

00:25:42.340 I'm not really ashamed of it.

00:25:44.500 Like, I think it was really funny, especially in the moment.

00:25:48.040 Like, I did what I had to do for my girlfriend.

00:25:51.400 Like, she's my best friend.

00:25:53.480 Like, I'm going to do it for her if she doesn't want to do it.

00:25:56.840 And, like.

00:25:57.380 I'm confused.

00:25:58.580 You were, you were having phone sex with this guy for the benefit of your girlfriend?

00:26:04.060 I wanted money.

00:26:04.940 She wanted the money.

00:26:06.020 And he just called me.

00:26:06.980 Oh, so you were pretending to be her?

00:26:08.100 I was pretending to be her.

00:26:09.300 Oh, okay.

00:26:09.820 And I was like, okay, I guess we'll just, I was like, I'm going to help her get a quick

00:26:17.140 band really fast.

00:26:19.180 So, like.

00:26:19.480 So, did you?

00:26:20.020 I did.

00:26:20.680 I helped her get a quick band.

00:26:23.000 He actually didn't send me any money.

00:26:24.260 He said he would, but he never did.

00:26:25.300 Yeah, he actually never did send the money.

00:26:26.380 What was he going to send you?

00:26:27.200 How much was he going to send you?

00:26:28.140 Like 50 bucks.

00:26:28.680 Yeah.

00:26:29.220 No, it was more than that.

00:26:30.480 I remember because I was like, I'm not going to do it for 50.

00:26:33.600 Like, I wasn't going to do it for anything under 100.

00:26:35.460 Yeah, maybe we negotiated.

00:26:36.760 I just remember.

00:26:37.140 We negotiated.

00:26:37.920 It was a high price.

00:26:39.480 It was a high price.

00:26:40.640 I don't remember what it was, though, but it was a high price.

00:26:43.560 And I was like, okay, we know who has a 30 plus.

00:26:47.120 I actually don't.

00:26:48.540 So, no, but I was like, you know what?

00:26:52.920 Okay.

00:26:53.300 Like, I'm going to help her out.

00:26:54.700 We were drunk.

00:26:55.620 And I was like, she's my best friend.

00:26:59.260 And I did it.

00:27:01.960 And I'm so grateful for it.

00:27:03.340 Good intentions, right?

00:27:04.640 It was good intentions.

00:27:06.560 We did not get the money, though.

00:27:08.960 Okay.

00:27:10.480 So, you know what?

00:27:12.500 Blair, you tell me.

00:27:13.680 Should women just start sending unsolicited?

00:27:16.580 It wasn't unsolicited.

00:27:17.860 He asked for it.

00:27:18.960 No, well, I'm moving on.

00:27:19.660 Oh, okay.

00:27:20.760 If they feel comfortable doing that, more power to them.

00:27:25.520 They will get a lot of success that way.

00:27:27.280 I will say that.

00:27:28.560 Facts.

00:27:28.920 So, I mean, that's up.

00:27:30.080 How so?

00:27:30.480 You can just kind of like, you know, go through it and just pick which ones you like.

00:27:35.900 Wait, what?

00:27:36.660 So, no, you send a pic to like 10 guys or maybe 15 guys.

00:27:41.100 And then you pick from that 15 guys.

00:27:43.320 Okay.

00:27:43.500 Which one's hot?

00:27:44.200 Which one's cool or whatever?

00:27:46.380 I don't do that anymore.

00:27:48.080 It was last year.

00:27:48.900 This is the redemption arc, I think, that women need is to start just mass sending pictures

00:27:56.320 of their vagina.

00:27:57.480 So, it's instead of unsolicited dick pics, it's unsolicited vagina pics?

00:28:02.320 Pussy pics.

00:28:03.220 Pussy pics, yeah.

00:28:04.000 Unsolicited pussy pics.

00:28:04.920 Double P.

00:28:05.240 Okay.

00:28:05.860 So, we just kind of.

00:28:08.060 I'm for it.

00:28:09.320 Unsolicited PP.

00:28:10.420 I think women should do it.

00:28:11.920 Okay.

00:28:12.400 Okay.

00:28:13.060 Interesting.

00:28:13.380 Okay.

00:28:13.520 So, worst pickup line ever.

00:28:18.780 Oh, is it my turn?

00:28:21.020 Oh, one time someone texted me and said that he would, or actually, he sent me a video and

00:28:28.480 said that he would, of him taking a bomb rip and asked me to hook up with him for money.

00:28:34.480 He's like, fuck no, I'm like 16.

00:28:37.060 Like, absolutely not.

00:28:38.780 He was like 21 or something.

00:28:40.180 Actually, I don't know.

00:28:40.860 He just looked at his fuck.

00:28:43.520 Yeah, so that was pretty bad.

00:28:44.920 That was really awkward.

00:28:46.140 Yikes.

00:28:46.860 Okay.

00:28:47.680 Blair.

00:28:49.380 Has a girl ever just.

00:28:51.240 Did you get hit on, Blair?

00:28:53.820 Man, not a whole lot, but I can recall a young lady from high school who, I'm sorry, this

00:29:03.920 girl looked like Shrek.

00:29:05.880 Like, I'm just going to be honest.

00:29:07.500 Oh, my gosh.

00:29:08.280 She, she was not cute and she was trying to holler big time and she was in my DMs on

00:29:14.340 Instagram, on my Facebook messenger, trying to get me on Snapchat, the whole nine, all

00:29:19.540 of it.

00:29:20.600 And, uh, I just, I just went like this.

00:29:24.000 I was like, I'm sorry.

00:29:25.520 I can't do it.

00:29:27.240 Damn.

00:29:27.860 Yeah.

00:29:28.100 Okay.

00:29:28.260 Good times.

00:29:29.380 Good times.

00:29:30.180 All, all, all my boys, some of them are watching.

00:29:32.360 They know who I'm talking about and they grill me about this to this day.

00:29:36.340 So did you, did you guys, you know, did you guys smash?

00:29:44.140 Absolutely not.

00:29:44.840 Y'all got it in.

00:29:45.440 Oh, okay.

00:29:46.320 All right.

00:29:46.880 Okay.

00:29:47.500 You can be honest.

00:29:49.180 This is a safe space.

00:29:51.040 All right.

00:29:51.620 So, uh, Eric, I'm going to have you pull up a video.

00:30:00.180 I think you dropped something.

00:30:03.340 Oh, you're standards.

00:30:04.640 Hi, I'm Brian.

00:30:05.500 Oh my God.

00:30:06.600 My, uh, sister's in town tonight.

00:30:08.500 Um, would you like to have a threesome?

00:30:11.000 No.

00:30:12.780 No?

00:30:13.360 No.

00:30:13.880 Is it because of the whole incest thing?

00:30:15.840 Do you like daggers?

00:30:18.340 I don't think I'm like.

00:30:19.040 Like knives.

00:30:20.480 Or eight daggers.

00:30:21.400 Have you ever been with a premature ejaculator?

00:30:26.200 No.

00:30:26.960 I'm Brian.

00:30:27.600 I'm Brooke.

00:30:28.100 Do you think that'd be a problem between us?

00:30:30.340 No.

00:30:30.960 Hey, are you guys feminists?

00:30:32.680 Sure.

00:30:36.560 I would like to, uh, smear green paint all over you and spank you like a disobedient avocado.

00:30:43.840 Which of you two has, uh, low standards?

00:30:46.800 What?

00:30:48.660 That's not true.

00:30:51.220 Oh, I'm looking for a girlfriend and, uh...

00:30:53.740 Does the carpet match the curtains?

00:30:56.700 Uh, it's hardwood floors.

00:30:58.100 Is your name Medusa?

00:31:01.140 No.

00:31:01.640 Because I'm rock hard right now.

00:31:04.580 Okay, uh, so that was me a couple years back with some fantastic pickup lines.

00:31:12.640 Which one was your favorite?

00:31:15.200 And would any of those work on you?

00:31:16.920 I was really proud of the avocado one.

00:31:20.220 That one was really funny.

00:31:21.240 You liked that one?

00:31:21.820 I did.

00:31:22.380 I did.

00:31:23.080 Um, I don't think it would have worked on me though.

00:31:25.020 The avocado one would not work on you.

00:31:27.160 I would have passed on that one.

00:31:28.740 Maybe if it was a different vegetable, you think?

00:31:31.120 Maybe like an eggplant?

00:31:32.940 No, I'm just kidding.

00:31:33.860 Okay.

00:31:34.280 No, but yeah, no.

00:31:35.460 Vegetables are out of the question.

00:31:37.380 Okay.

00:31:37.880 Bummer.

00:31:38.760 Uh, I like the premature ejaculation one.

00:31:41.580 I thought it was funny.

00:31:42.620 And she seemed into it, so.

00:31:44.400 You know what?

00:31:44.880 Yeah.

00:31:45.780 She kind of was.

00:31:47.040 She might not, she might not have known what that is.

00:31:51.460 What do you mean?

00:31:52.160 What?

00:31:52.820 She might have not known what premature ejaculation is.

00:31:56.700 Oh.

00:31:57.300 That's usually a problem with women, if you do that.

00:32:02.120 As a man.

00:32:03.160 What?

00:32:04.320 Wait, what?

00:32:07.700 What?

00:32:09.440 I don't get it.

00:32:12.180 Okay.

00:32:15.660 Go on.

00:32:16.620 I'd have to say the premature ejaculation.

00:32:18.840 That one was funny, and then I think also, for some reason, I thought the feminist one

00:32:24.280 was funny.

00:32:25.100 Like, when you asked if they were a feminist, and then you just walked away.

00:32:28.500 I'm like, no.

00:32:29.440 I wouldn't have like, wait a minute.

00:32:30.700 Wait.

00:32:33.760 None.

00:32:34.760 Oh, she didn't?

00:32:35.380 Okay.

00:32:35.780 She didn't like any of that.

00:32:36.780 Yeah.

00:32:37.800 Okay.

00:32:38.740 I thought the sister one was hella funny.

00:32:40.240 It probably wouldn't pull me, but it was still hella funny.

00:32:42.900 Like, kudos to you for thinking of that one.

00:32:45.920 All right.

00:32:46.480 Guys.

00:32:48.960 This weekend, try them out.

00:32:50.300 Okay.

00:32:51.940 So, I want to go, let's see.

00:32:55.480 Actually, you know what?

00:32:56.240 We're going to react to one of Tasha's videos here.

00:33:01.860 Tasha, she has a TikTok.

00:33:03.240 The link for it is in the description.

00:33:05.040 Up and comer, guys.

00:33:06.460 She's going to be huge.

00:33:07.660 Okay.

00:33:08.740 I'm excited.

00:33:09.120 We're going to react to one of her TikToks, just to give some context.

00:33:12.840 It's about a red flag.

00:33:14.340 So, Eric, if you can go ahead and.

00:33:18.540 Okay.

00:33:19.540 So, never, never, never, never, never, never, never, never.

00:33:35.100 Do it good.

00:33:35.880 I do it better.

00:33:36.540 Do it better.

00:33:37.020 Okay, just, there's a greater context to that.

00:33:43.300 But basically, so you think it's a red flag if a guy says that his ex-girlfriend was crazy or is crazy.

00:33:51.480 One million percent.

00:33:52.420 So, really quick, why do you, just curious, why do you think that is?

00:33:56.940 In every instance where I've had a guy say that to me, you learn more about the guy.

00:34:02.760 And then you start to figure out things like he's manipulative.

00:34:06.820 He's, you know, does a bunch of manipulative things.

00:34:10.200 And it's like, oh, why was your ex crazy?

00:34:13.000 And then you realize, oh, you made her that way.

00:34:15.840 And I fully believe that.

00:34:17.560 I've actually experienced it.

00:34:19.300 So.

00:34:19.660 Okay.

00:34:19.800 Really quick on this one, just around the table.

00:34:21.480 So, if you've had a guy say, oh, my ex is crazy.

00:34:27.880 Is that, do you look at that and say, maybe it's you?

00:34:30.940 So, yes.

00:34:34.760 Yes.

00:34:35.640 Yes, for a second.

00:34:36.660 But, like, actually, my boyfriend, he just told me, like, we were having about, like,

00:34:43.360 ex conversation yesterday night when we were FaceTime.

00:34:46.920 And he was talking about, like, his ex-girlfriend.

00:34:50.280 He was like, oh, she's crazy.

00:34:52.560 I think it really depends on the situation.

00:34:54.780 Because I think his ex-girlfriend is crazy.

00:34:57.720 But, I mean, not everyone's ex-girlfriend is, like, you know, crazy as they told others.

00:35:05.040 So, I think it really depends on the, yeah, situation.

00:35:10.720 Oh, yeah.

00:35:11.560 I mean, I kind of always think I'm crazy, like, all the time.

00:35:14.680 I don't really think a guy needs to say anything to, like, make me think I'm crazy myself.

00:35:18.960 Yeah.

00:35:19.320 Also, it's, like, I feel like a lot of times when a guy is, like, oh, my ex is, like, crazy

00:35:24.020 bitch, whatever.

00:35:25.000 Like, probably because you drove her to be that crazy.

00:35:28.200 Because it's, like, none of my ex, like, I don't, all my ex is, like, me.

00:35:32.780 And, like, I know I'm not crazy.

00:35:34.580 So, that means you're crazy.

00:35:36.520 Yeah, I got to agree with that part.

00:35:37.880 You know?

00:35:37.900 Like, it's, like, you made them all crazy because you, like, fucking, like, fuck the, not fuck

00:35:43.840 the shit out of them, but, like, like, like, manipulated them.

00:35:48.680 Yeah, I got to agree with her on that one.

00:35:50.700 Usually, it's, like, every time they say, it's, like, oh, my ex was so crazy.

00:35:55.300 It's, like, oh, really?

00:35:57.180 Because every single girl that you said that you'd gotten with was super crazy.

00:36:00.740 So, that's a really interesting, like, pattern.

00:36:05.620 I'm pretty sure you drove them to be like the ex.

00:36:08.000 And you, like, talk to the ex girl and you're, like, well, like, he said that you're crazy,

00:36:12.540 like, blah, blah, blah.

00:36:13.900 No, like, they made them crazy.

00:36:16.820 It's usually the guy that, like, makes them crazy.

00:36:19.000 And also, why do they keep dating crazy girls, too?

00:36:21.500 Yeah.

00:36:21.980 Like, that's not me, man.

00:36:23.220 You better.

00:36:24.500 So, let me ask a follow-up question.

00:36:27.140 Do any of you know any crazy chicks?

00:36:30.920 Yeah.

00:36:32.040 Yeah.

00:36:32.920 Nope.

00:36:33.480 I don't.

00:36:34.020 You know no crazy chicks?

00:36:36.560 What do you think is crazy?

00:36:39.300 What's considered crazy?

00:36:40.460 Yeah, like, what would you say is, like, the guidelines for a crazy, like, girl?

00:36:46.520 If that makes sense.

00:36:47.320 Claire, you come in.

00:36:47.940 I have a good example of this.

00:36:49.660 Okay.

00:36:50.380 I have a friend of mine.

00:36:52.520 She is constantly wrestling with, I really like this guy, but I don't want to date him.

00:36:57.860 And she just goes back and forth all day long about this.

00:37:03.600 That shows me she's a little cuckoo.

00:37:05.880 That's crazy to you?

00:37:07.180 A little bit.

00:37:07.660 Usually, like, crazy to me is, like, when she's, like, slashing her tires, breaking her windshield.

00:37:15.560 Well, that's the extreme end of the spectrum, but that's true, too.

00:37:19.020 Okay.

00:37:19.640 Because, yeah, like, usually.

00:37:20.920 I'm talking, like, ordinary behaviors that people might think are crazy.

00:37:24.360 Okay.

00:37:24.960 I feel like that's not crazy, though.

00:37:26.260 That's indecisive.

00:37:27.280 Or, like, you have, like, trust issues or something.

00:37:29.000 Well, no, not slashing tires.

00:37:31.040 Going back and forth over a guy.

00:37:32.540 I feel like that's pretty normal.

00:37:32.960 I'd say slashing tires is indecisive.

00:37:35.280 Yeah.

00:37:35.900 Okay.

00:37:36.580 Yeah.

00:37:37.700 Yeah.

00:37:38.060 I mean, so, I think my sense of crazy, one, I mean, there's some very obvious ones.

00:37:44.480 Like, if they're super vindictive.

00:37:47.860 Okay, yeah.

00:37:48.320 Super jealous.

00:37:50.300 The big one is vindictive.

00:37:52.040 So, if they either try to destroy your reputation in some way, they talk shit about, like, talk shit about you, try to poison your social circle.

00:38:00.540 Obviously, there's, the very obvious stuff would be, like, if they're physically violent.

00:38:09.240 A hundred percent.

00:38:09.820 Or if they, like, slash your tires or they do some sort of property damage.

00:38:14.080 That's definitely crazy.

00:38:15.160 I mean, then there's just also stuff related to mental illness.

00:38:19.540 Like, if they have borderline personality disorder, not everyone that has BPD is going to, it's not necessarily going to manifest itself in crazy behavior, so to speak.

00:38:30.940 But there's also, I mean, it could be bipolar 2 if they're, what is it, manic or I don't know, whatever it is.

00:38:36.540 And, so, I will say I've had one crazy girlfriend.

00:38:41.940 The rest of my girlfriend is totally normal.

00:38:45.660 Rave reviews.

00:38:47.420 And, to be fair, like, on a scale of 1 to 10 of craziness, she's, like, a 5 on the crazy scale.

00:38:52.500 And, to be, like, and I can give you reasons I don't want to, but I don't want to, like, I'm not the type of guy to really, well, I kind of did, but I was about to say, I'm not the type of guy to, like, talk poorly about an ex.

00:39:05.060 I think that's, that's actually another red flag, is someone that talks poorly about their ex.

00:39:11.180 Yeah.

00:39:11.260 I have to agree with that part.

00:39:12.620 Yeah.

00:39:12.900 Especially to a new partner.

00:39:14.660 Mm-hmm.

00:39:15.000 To me, that's always, like, I don't know.

00:39:19.680 Maybe, especially early on in the relationship, maybe, like, if it's been, you've been together for a while and your partner's curious, but.

00:39:26.820 Yeah.

00:39:27.180 I think talking poorly about exes is not a good thing, so.

00:39:30.480 Yeah.

00:39:30.680 Like, I'd say, like, in the first, like, couple weeks, if they're, like, really dogging on their ex or, like, an ex-girl that they had, like, a thing with, then, like, that's where it starts to get, like, ooh, like, okay.

00:39:43.340 And then when they, there's more than one, especially, that's when it really starts to get, like, a really big red flag.

00:39:49.060 Because it's, like, if they keep saying that all of their exes are crazy, then that's kind of a bit of a red flag for me.

00:39:58.440 Sure.

00:39:58.880 Because I think that's just, like, all of your exes are crazy.

00:40:02.280 Then that's your problem.

00:40:03.200 Exactly.

00:40:03.660 That's your problem.

00:40:04.540 You drove them.

00:40:06.360 Yeah.

00:40:06.880 Like, you drove them to be crazy.

00:40:09.300 Like, I'm not going to sit here and be like, oh, I'm so sorry.

00:40:12.600 Like, no.

00:40:14.020 You drove them to be like that, babes.

00:40:17.280 I'll give you one example.

00:40:18.820 So, the very first day I met her, first time hanging out, she went through my phone.

00:40:25.480 That's crazy.

00:40:26.320 That's crazy.

00:40:27.220 Nope.

00:40:27.520 That's.

00:40:28.160 Like, first time hanging out.

00:40:29.620 No, that's crazy.

00:40:30.900 Went through my phone and got mad at what she obviously discovered.

00:40:34.760 I mean, it was our first time hanging out, so there was no guarantee of, there was no loyalty there, you know.

00:40:41.320 And I'm guessing you guys didn't hang out for long.

00:40:45.140 I dated her for five years, but that's another, that's another.

00:40:48.320 That's also, that's a really bad person.

00:40:51.260 That's kind of on you.

00:40:51.880 That's a bad person.

00:40:52.440 Oh, okay.

00:40:53.180 So, you had a relationship with this woman for five years on the first date.

00:40:58.660 Yeah, she looked through my phone.

00:41:00.240 She got mad at what she saw, stormed down and left, and then that's when I knew she was the one.

00:41:06.360 No, I'm kidding.

00:41:07.020 I'm kidding.

00:41:07.860 It was clearly a red flag, but here's the thing.

00:41:10.200 So, what she, here's what she did is, I was like, well, I'm never going to see you again.

00:41:13.180 Goodbye.

00:41:13.640 Like, lose my number, blocked her, whatever.

00:41:16.020 She, I was very young.

00:41:18.660 I want to say I was very young and naive.

00:41:20.620 This was like my first ever, like, proper relationship.

00:41:23.660 So, what made you go back?

00:41:28.540 Because that would have turned me off right away.

00:41:30.620 No, it did, but she was like, she was, two or three days later, she's like, she gave me the most sincere apology.

00:41:39.800 Like, it was super believable.

00:41:42.540 Major, like, I'll never do it again.

00:41:45.260 I'm really sorry.

00:41:46.260 I'm just, I'm just a little crazy, you know?

00:41:48.960 If she, if she willingly admits that she's crazy, get out.

00:41:53.000 Get out.

00:41:53.900 No, coming from, like, a, like, yeah.

00:41:57.080 If, if a girl's going to, like, fully admit that she's crazy, like.

00:42:02.100 She's come to terms with it already.

00:42:03.520 Yeah, she's come to terms with it.

00:42:05.120 Like, honestly, it's fun.

00:42:07.660 But, like, if you're not in for that, then don't go for it.

00:42:12.140 I'm not proud of it.

00:42:13.320 He was obviously into it for five years.

00:42:15.120 Yeah.

00:42:15.800 It was, okay.

00:42:18.240 Did some of those behaviors come back up during that five-year relationship?

00:42:21.880 Yeah.

00:42:22.120 Okay, so I'll, I'll go into it.

00:42:23.720 Now, obviously, it was.

00:42:24.900 You can keep it brief if you want.

00:42:25.740 It was a mistake of me for not being steadfast in the numerous times I broke up with her.

00:42:32.280 But, basically, I'd break up with her.

00:42:34.720 We broke, it was on, on, again, off, again.

00:42:36.300 I don't know if any of you guys have had that sort of on, again, off, again relationship.

00:42:40.120 But I'd break up with her.

00:42:41.840 I think she broke up with me one time.

00:42:44.460 Like, 90% of the other times I'd break up with her.

00:42:47.900 And she, I'm pretty sure she had borderline personality disorder.

00:42:51.980 But that's another conversation.

00:42:54.500 That's for another time.

00:42:55.600 That's another time.

00:42:56.300 Can I make an assumption?

00:42:56.960 So, are you going to say the sex was really good?

00:42:59.940 Yep.

00:43:00.260 That's exactly what I was going to say.

00:43:02.460 Like, if that pussy's good, man, that'll get your wires crossed big time.

00:43:06.900 And I was young and naive and didn't have a lot of relationship experience.

00:43:11.880 So, but yeah, no, she repeated the same mistakes multiple times.

00:43:15.800 But every time she'd come back, like, heartfelt, I'm so sorry, I'll never do it again.

00:43:20.700 Here's how I'll do better.

00:43:21.840 And I believed it.

00:43:23.280 And young and naive Brian, guys.

00:43:25.520 Anyways.

00:43:25.940 Yeah.

00:43:26.380 That's okay.

00:43:26.860 Yes, I should have been steadfast in not getting back with her.

00:43:30.860 But.

00:43:31.380 That's okay.

00:43:31.780 Sometimes it's tough, you know, it's tough.

00:43:33.120 Anyways.

00:43:33.540 Agreed.

00:43:33.900 Moving on, moving on.

00:43:34.860 Oh, so, yeah, I wanted to open it up.

00:43:36.820 Or wait, did Blair, did you, where did, red flags.

00:43:41.620 Did everyone answer the whole, like, crazy ex thing?

00:43:44.060 I think we talked about it.

00:43:47.200 Yeah.

00:43:47.520 So I want to open it up just for, do you guys have any other, are there any other red flags

00:43:52.840 for you?

00:43:56.040 Oh, I'd say there's a lot.

00:43:57.160 Go ahead, Tasha.

00:43:58.920 There can be a lot of red flags.

00:44:01.300 Man, it's hard to think of all of them.

00:44:05.220 If they talk badly about their ex, for sure.

00:44:08.820 Ooh, this is kind of a controversial one that I've heard a lot of different opinions about.

00:44:13.220 But if a guy types in lowercase, I'm sorry.

00:44:17.900 I'm so sorry.

00:44:19.100 Come on.

00:44:19.400 Come on.

00:44:20.200 No, it is strange.

00:44:21.460 It's because typing, I mean, if a guy types in lowercase, like, why are you trying to be

00:44:27.280 feminine?

00:44:27.900 You know what's even worse?

00:44:29.760 What?

00:44:30.000 Like, the first word, or sorry, the first letter of every word is uppercase.

00:44:35.760 Oh, no.

00:44:36.620 That's sketchy.

00:44:38.260 I've never had that.

00:44:38.880 But you, like, if you have to willingly change all them to caps each time, you know what I

00:44:44.600 mean?

00:44:44.940 Yeah, the first, the first letter of every word is uppercase.

00:44:48.320 That's concerning.

00:44:49.540 I'm sorry, but if anybody has that, that's immediate psychotic behavior.

00:44:53.480 What about, like, a bunch of exclamation points or a lot of caps, stuff like that?

00:44:57.940 I feel like it depends on the context.

00:45:00.340 If you're excited, a lot of exclamation marks are fine, and all caps is okay.

00:45:05.200 But if you have every single first letter of the word after, like, if you're saying, what

00:45:11.820 are you doing tonight?

00:45:12.580 And every single, like, letter, like, the first word of every, no, the first letter of

00:45:17.160 every single word is capitalized, and all of a sudden you have a ton of, like, emojis

00:45:22.240 or whatever.

00:45:22.960 Yeah, too many emojis.

00:45:24.140 No.

00:45:24.840 I will have to block you right there, then.

00:45:26.840 That is so terrifying.

00:45:28.560 That is terrifying behavior.

00:45:31.080 So, Natasha, all lowercase.

00:45:34.060 All lowercase.

00:45:34.760 It's terrible.

00:45:35.680 That is something that girls do, and if a man does it, it's very feminine, and it's

00:45:39.040 very unattractive.

00:45:40.180 That's interesting.

00:45:41.200 Yeah.

00:45:41.500 I mean, I've learned that from just talking to different guys, but, yeah, if a guy really

00:45:45.240 cares, that means that he's also talked to a lot of girls, because that's what a lot

00:45:48.020 of girls do.

00:45:48.660 What if he's, like, a 10?

00:45:49.760 11 out of 10, and he's in all lowercase.

00:45:52.180 He's a 10, but he DMs me with K, and he types in lowercase.

00:45:57.380 It's not a deal breaker, but I just don't like it.

00:46:00.880 It's a red flag.

00:46:02.040 Not a fan.

00:46:02.520 Okay.

00:46:03.060 Okay.

00:46:03.420 Any other, I mean, anything else, or?

00:46:06.020 So many things.

00:46:06.740 If he talks badly about his parents, that's a huge red flag.

00:46:10.600 Yeah.

00:46:12.920 Let's see.

00:46:14.180 If he...

00:46:17.420 Gosh.

00:46:19.420 My mind is blinking.

00:46:20.780 The chat has a response to you, by the way.

00:46:22.500 How am I supposed to type?

00:46:25.860 That's my OCD.

00:46:26.800 It's really not.

00:46:28.520 I see you guys, and they're doing it, too.

00:46:30.560 I know it's all men.

00:46:31.060 I'll keep that in mind when I said that on the photo DS.

00:46:34.400 I like how it's all lowercase right now.

00:46:36.600 It's all lowercase.

00:46:37.500 Like, where did you learn that?

00:46:38.160 Keep in mind, by the way.

00:46:39.680 Oh, sorry.

00:46:40.220 Oh, I was just going to say, keep in mind, if they're on computer or PC, it's going to default

00:46:45.100 be in all lowercase.

00:46:46.340 Ooh.

00:46:46.860 So.

00:46:47.720 That's acceptable, but most people are talking over a phone where it just automatically does

00:46:52.280 it.

00:46:52.480 If you have to lowercase your eyes, what are you doing?

00:46:55.600 Like, what are you doing?

00:46:56.480 Oh, shit.

00:46:56.600 How am I supposed to type?

00:46:58.560 How many folks in shadow on a phone right now?

00:47:01.500 Her DMs are open, by the way, guys.

00:47:02.900 Okay.

00:47:04.260 All lowercase, guys.

00:47:05.560 All lowercase.

00:47:07.220 What's like a red flag for you?

00:47:12.400 Probably just somebody who, like, can't commit or, like, just, like, what's, I don't know.

00:47:20.240 Posture check.

00:47:21.160 So sorry.

00:47:22.220 You're like my mom.

00:47:23.120 Um, like, someone who can't commit, but it's, like, doing all the things that you would

00:47:28.280 do in, like, a relationship, you know?

00:47:31.140 Like, what's the difference?

00:47:32.580 Or that, or loud chewers.

00:47:36.060 It's more of, like, an ick than a red flag, but I can't stand it.

00:47:40.760 It's so annoying.

00:47:42.520 I'd say red flag for me is definitely, like, one, not liking their mom.

00:47:49.380 If they have, like, a really big problem with their mom for some reason.

00:47:53.120 I don't, I don't take that lightly.

00:47:55.420 Because it's, like, you're going to have a problem with the woman who birthed you.

00:47:58.800 Like, I don't know, like, if they really have a problem with their mom, I don't know the

00:48:02.300 whole, like, reason behind it.

00:48:04.620 But if there's no, like, logical reason behind it, it's, like, she's just, like, nothing intense

00:48:08.920 or serious, right?

00:48:09.400 Yeah, it's, like, she just tells me what to do.

00:48:10.780 She's, like, being a bitch.

00:48:11.720 I'm, like, don't talk to me.

00:48:14.520 Like, no.

00:48:15.680 Or a red flag.

00:48:17.280 Usually, okay, in my opinion, a lot of people say that toxicity is a red flag.

00:48:21.920 I love toxicity.

00:48:23.620 What does that look like to you?

00:48:25.080 Gas lighting.

00:48:28.060 Yeah, Lulu, that's a red flag, girl.

00:48:31.000 It's a red flag for most, but for some reason, I find it really fun.

00:48:34.520 It just creates a fun conversation because I kind of just, like, reciprocate.

00:48:39.360 You're going to get some really interesting DMs tonight.

00:48:41.900 Shawty's colorblind.

00:48:44.940 Honestly, the red flags to me just look like green flags, so.

00:48:49.460 I don't think I said that.

00:48:50.740 Ignorance of this.

00:48:52.200 Cara?

00:48:53.600 Like, for me, there's a couple.

00:48:55.660 The first one definitely is when you go through his Instagram follows, there's, like, I don't

00:49:02.420 know, like, a bunch of, you know, like, Instagram models, so many hot girls, probably, like,

00:49:08.280 3,000, like, follows like that.

00:49:10.880 But aren't you an Instagram model?

00:49:12.640 Yeah.

00:49:15.260 Yeah, but I mean, like, if a guy, I want to, like, date him, and if you go through his

00:49:20.500 follows, it's, like, a bunch of IG models and, like, hot girls.

00:49:26.160 I don't know.

00:49:27.240 It just kind of, it's reasonable, though, but it's just, like, a little red flag for me.

00:49:32.720 And another one definitely is, like, he's, like, implied to, like, he's being rude to,

00:49:37.960 like, waiters or any, like, friends.

00:49:41.160 That's a big one.

00:49:41.960 Like, parents or something, like, being rude to, like, the people around him or, like,

00:49:47.200 people he's not familiar with.

00:49:49.600 And I don't know.

00:49:52.200 Like, sometimes when guys talking to me, like, oh, I smoke a ton of weed and I'm an alcoholic

00:49:59.500 because I have anxiety and depression, I will be, like, it just turned me off immediately.

00:50:05.240 Like, if you have this problem, just go face it.

00:50:08.460 Go solve the problem.

00:50:10.460 Do not say, like, I do this, like, to, you know, just, it's just not reasonable.

00:50:17.380 It's really a turnoff.

00:50:19.580 Yeah.

00:50:21.440 Okay.

00:50:21.980 Oh, really quick.

00:50:22.760 While we're on the topic of red flags, can we get some Chinese flags in the chat for,

00:50:30.840 oh, okay.

00:50:31.880 That was a bad joke.

00:50:33.840 Because the Chinese flag is red.

00:50:36.280 Okay.

00:50:38.600 The China, is it the People's Republic of China?

00:50:41.860 Yeah.

00:50:42.260 Okay.

00:50:46.520 All right.

00:50:48.620 Red flags.

00:50:49.680 If you listen to The Smiths or The Cure, I think that's a red flag.

00:50:53.240 You listen to The Cure?

00:50:54.480 The Smiths or The Cure.

00:50:55.800 I mean.

00:50:56.200 What?

00:50:56.700 Hello?

00:50:57.620 I mean, I like them, but I think they're both fine.

00:50:59.680 But if you're, like, huge fans, there's this guy I follow on Spotify who has, like,

00:51:04.360 an 11-hour Smiths playlist called, like, Female Manipulator Music or something.

00:51:08.060 It's just, like, it's, like, kind of, like, a joke online, but it's kind of true that,

00:51:12.520 like, everyone who listens to The Smiths is, like, a piece of shit.

00:51:15.360 I, you know what?

00:51:17.360 Can we pull up Living on, wait.

00:51:20.720 That was funny.

00:51:21.160 Living on the Thin Line?

00:51:22.180 No, that's The Kinks.

00:51:23.840 What's the?

00:51:24.440 Just Like Heaven by The Cure?

00:51:25.660 Is that what you're thinking of?

00:51:26.580 No, I'm thinking of the Smiths song.

00:51:30.140 It's, uh.

00:51:30.460 The one that's, like, to die by your side.

00:51:33.120 What's their most famous one?

00:51:36.780 Kill the DJ?

00:51:37.820 No.

00:51:39.420 Anybody?

00:51:40.100 I don't know.

00:51:40.380 Oh, that's a really, yeah.

00:51:42.160 I don't know if it's a name of it, though.

00:51:43.700 I love that song.

00:51:44.980 That plays in 500 Days of Summer.

00:51:47.840 That's real.

00:51:49.400 I really like this chat.

00:51:51.120 I think they're funny.

00:51:52.900 Blair, any red flags for you?

00:51:55.000 Yeah, totally.

00:51:56.680 Excessive drinking, drunkenness, and or drug use.

00:51:59.980 Absolutely.

00:52:01.860 Okay.

00:52:02.480 I think that's a real cut and dry thing.

00:52:05.280 Solid.

00:52:05.680 What is that Smiths song?

00:52:07.680 Oh, How Soon Is Now is the one I was thinking about.

00:52:10.220 That's a great song.

00:52:11.560 You don't like the Smiths?

00:52:12.560 Anyways, whatever.

00:52:14.240 It's not that I don't like them.

00:52:15.300 It's just, like, the guys who listen to them are dicks.

00:52:18.920 I'm not generalizing, but just in my experience.

00:52:20.320 Is it about the music?

00:52:21.360 The lyrics?

00:52:22.200 What is it about?

00:52:22.660 I don't know.

00:52:23.580 It's just, like.

00:52:24.620 Morrissey?

00:52:25.340 They just, like.

00:52:26.780 Yeah, actually, maybe.

00:52:28.540 Maybe it is.

00:52:29.120 They're just trying to emulate Morrissey or something like that.

00:52:31.760 I don't know.

00:52:32.180 What is it about Morrissey?

00:52:33.480 I just think they just, like, kind of want, like, that rock star life where they're just,

00:52:37.840 like, fucking every bitch they come into contact with and do not care.

00:52:41.060 I'm sorry.

00:52:41.680 And, like, do not care about, like, feelings at all.

00:52:44.420 I used to have a hamster named Morrissey when I was 13.

00:52:47.880 Damn.

00:52:49.180 Okay.

00:52:50.380 I want all the guys in the chat, while this stream is on, go listen to How Soon Is Now

00:52:55.920 by the Smiths while you're watching this.

00:52:59.300 Okay.

00:53:00.100 So, and so you gave a couple of your right clients.

00:53:03.660 Yeah, so just to elaborate on that, like, I'm okay with, like, grabbing a drink with

00:53:06.220 their girlfriends, you know, and that kind of stuff.

00:53:08.160 But if it's just, like, every weekend, day in and day out, just sloppy drunk, drugs,

00:53:14.500 you know, it's just, I can't do that.

00:53:17.320 Like, you could probably say I'm a pretty fit and healthy person.

00:53:20.720 That's just, you know, that's just turn off for me.

00:53:23.700 We need to, can you do, like, show the tries a little bit?

00:53:26.060 Oh, here.

00:53:28.580 Do, like, a down one?

00:53:30.100 Oh, shit.

00:53:31.040 Fucking guns.

00:53:32.440 Watch out, Mike Davis.

00:53:33.500 He's coming for you.

00:53:35.360 Beta male music.

00:53:36.780 He's like, okay, god damn.

00:53:38.680 Okay.

00:53:39.780 Sorry, Chase.

00:53:41.080 Yeah, you're out doing Chase there.

00:53:44.620 Did you guys want to, so you said, like, go in the clubs and bars and things?

00:53:48.380 Well, so, no, no, you can go to the club and all that.

00:53:50.420 It's just, like, if you're just getting sloppy drunk all the time and doing a lot of drugs,

00:53:55.520 you know, that's where I draw the line.

00:53:57.060 Like, you can go to the club with your girlfriends, have some cocktails, dance, whatever.

00:54:00.200 Like, that's all fine.

00:54:01.040 I'll even have drinks with you, but we're not getting plastered all the time, you know?

00:54:05.800 Yeah, I'll give my red flag.

00:54:07.660 So, I mean, a big one is if they're rude to wait staff or retail staff.

00:54:12.620 Huge.

00:54:12.960 100% agree.

00:54:13.640 Like, if I'm out for dinner, for a drink, and they're, like, kind of rude to them.

00:54:17.080 I try to be, like, super polite to, like, people who are serving food or whatever.

00:54:22.580 So, that's a big one if they're rude to them.

00:54:25.680 If I'm on a date with a girl and she looks at her phone, that's, like, it's okay if she's, like, preempts it.

00:54:34.660 Like, hey, I'm sorry, I've got to text someone really quick.

00:54:36.620 Like, that's okay, but if they're, like, they pull out their phone and they're on it for a bit while we're having a conversation, I'll let it slide one time.

00:54:44.680 But if they do it two or three times, I'll just, I've done this before, and I recommend you guys do this.

00:54:49.780 Like, don't fucking tolerate this shit.

00:54:51.340 Literally just fucking get up and leave.

00:54:53.500 I have done that, like, because I'm not, I'm not going to, it's just, either she's not interested or she's just socially inept or rude.

00:55:05.080 So, to me, that's very rude.

00:55:06.420 That'd be, like, if I was having a conversation with you and I busted out a fucking newspaper.

00:55:10.800 Oh, what's the fucking book?

00:55:12.520 So, I mean, start reading a book and a conversation.

00:55:15.260 Especially on the first date.

00:55:16.380 Like, if you're with friends, like, it's a bit more acceptable to, like, here, let me pull out my phone.

00:55:21.520 But first date, and you're looking, like, you're pulling out your phone.

00:55:24.900 I've definitely had it.

00:55:26.280 And I've done this.

00:55:27.380 I will just get up, be like, hey, see ya.

00:55:30.600 And walk off.

00:55:31.840 Yeah.

00:55:32.480 And they're usually pissed as fuck after that.

00:55:35.360 But, I mean, it's just rude.

00:55:36.740 You also don't owe them an explanation as well.

00:55:38.900 Yeah, I mean.

00:55:39.560 Which you're done.

00:55:40.220 Yeah.

00:55:40.960 Let's see, what other, I think other, just, that's kind of a minor red flag, but.

00:55:45.880 I don't think that's a minor.

00:55:47.460 Well, I think that's a big deal.

00:55:48.500 I mean, there's certainly worse things.

00:55:50.880 Unless you're, like, showing them, hey, look at this cool thing I saw on Instagram.

00:55:54.100 Like, pull it up.

00:55:55.160 No, it's like, they're actually responding.

00:55:56.840 That's what I'm saying.

00:55:57.760 That's.

00:55:58.340 But if they preempt it, and it's like, hey, oh, this is my mom.

00:56:00.600 I got a text.

00:56:01.180 Right.

00:56:01.420 That's fine.

00:56:02.100 But if they just pull it up.

00:56:03.260 And I think once I saw a girl, like, look at her story or something.

00:56:06.380 I was like, okay.

00:56:07.960 She's on Tinder on the other side.

00:56:09.520 Yeah, she fucking pulls up.

00:56:11.580 Like, it's like, hold on, I got to do a page update.

00:56:14.320 Like, if they're just, like, on their phone for, like, the entire date.

00:56:17.760 You're just in there, like.

00:56:18.340 Why are you there?

00:56:18.800 Yeah, exactly.

00:56:19.700 Like, what the fuck are you doing?

00:56:21.260 Like, what, like, do you not want to engage in a conversation right now?

00:56:25.320 Like, if someone were to pull out their phone while we're on a date and just, like, go through

00:56:30.160 their Instagram feed, I'd be so upset.

00:56:33.060 Like, have a conversation with me.

00:56:35.200 Like, I want a conversation.

00:56:37.120 I'm not on my phone.

00:56:38.860 So don't be on yours.

00:56:40.260 Like, it's just also common decency at that point.

00:56:43.480 Like, hello.

00:56:44.420 Yeah.

00:56:44.680 And I want to make something clear.

00:56:45.620 I mean, that's pretty rare for that.

00:56:47.860 I've had that happen maybe, I mean, probably, I don't know what the percentage would be,

00:56:53.680 but maybe only three or four times.

00:56:56.080 One of the times I was like, and I kind of just sat there.

00:56:59.440 And then the rest, I, one time it was not a big deal.

00:57:03.240 She just checked it once.

00:57:04.020 I was like, let it go.

00:57:04.820 But then the other two is kind of chronic.

00:57:06.760 So then I legit just got up and left.

00:57:09.660 So.

00:57:09.920 As you should, honestly.

00:57:11.140 Like, if they're not going to try, don't try.

00:57:13.640 Maybe, do you guys think that's a bit extreme?

00:57:16.220 Because what am I going to do?

00:57:17.420 I could address it, but then I just feel like it's.

00:57:19.680 It's awkward to address it.

00:57:20.960 It's going to be weird.

00:57:22.000 You shouldn't have to address it.

00:57:22.860 What are you doing on there?

00:57:23.160 Get the fuck off your phone.

00:57:24.900 What you looking at?

00:57:27.060 No.

00:57:27.640 Like, I mean, if she's just going to be like constantly on her phone, it's like you guys

00:57:30.600 are on a date.

00:57:32.600 It's understandable to just like leave.

00:57:34.560 Yeah.

00:57:34.720 My impression is that it's probably like 50-50.

00:57:37.600 Either she's just kind of like, she's either a bit rude or she's just not interested.

00:57:42.400 Yeah.

00:57:43.160 So it's like.

00:57:44.020 Either way, it's just, I don't know.

00:57:45.880 It's kind of dumb.

00:57:46.700 Maybe she has like social anxiety or like.

00:57:48.700 It could be that.

00:57:49.320 Social like unawareness, you know.

00:57:51.360 It could be that too.

00:57:52.840 So maybe.

00:57:53.960 Can I add a red, semi red flag on that issue?

00:57:57.380 Being overly obsessive with social media also.

00:58:01.300 Oh, word.

00:58:02.120 Yeah.

00:58:02.460 So, you know, like always like super meticulous about how their photo looks or how many followers

00:58:07.760 they have or how many followers other people have, stuff like that, you know, unless it's

00:58:13.740 for a good purpose, right?

00:58:15.120 Like for you, for example, you have a social media presence and that's part of your end

00:58:19.540 goal is to grow that fan base.

00:58:20.780 So like that makes more sense.

00:58:21.820 But if it's just like you're just a casual person, like overly obsessing about your page

00:58:26.760 and it's like a little weird.

00:58:29.080 What do you guys think about this?

00:58:30.160 People that post a lot of stories, like I'm talking 10, 20 stories in a day, to me, that's

00:58:36.040 a little like unless they're like social media content creator, like just a normal person

00:58:41.200 and they're just posting like all this stuff to me, that's a slight indicator that they're

00:58:47.200 a little kind of like the same thing with the uppercase first letter of each word and

00:58:56.800 then just a shit ton of emojis.

00:58:58.420 I'm like a little bit like, uh, there's a little something.

00:59:01.660 I feel like it's like narcissistic tendencies.

00:59:05.540 A little bit.

00:59:06.220 Yeah.

00:59:06.360 A little bit.

00:59:06.720 Like nobody wants to see that.

00:59:08.080 Yeah.

00:59:08.420 Who cares if you're at 7-Eleven getting a Gatorade shut up?

00:59:11.980 Like no one cares.

00:59:13.260 Based.

00:59:13.840 Like I don't think they need to.

00:59:14.940 That's in the guy I'd post though.

00:59:16.680 Like I don't need to like, I don't need to see what you're doing every second of the

00:59:20.360 day.

00:59:20.820 Oh, you just went to the bank.

00:59:22.320 Okay.

00:59:23.020 I don't need to know that.

00:59:24.260 I don't think anybody needs to know that.

00:59:26.360 You just went to the doctor and got like what?

00:59:28.800 A colonoscopy.

00:59:29.860 I also don't need to know that.

00:59:31.440 Thank you so much for sharing, but I don't need to know that though.

00:59:35.060 It's just like some of them post every single second of their day and it's like, no, like

00:59:41.940 come on.

00:59:42.700 Like it just doesn't make any sense to me.

00:59:45.240 But I mean.

00:59:46.140 Also it's different though on a private story.

00:59:47.940 On a private.

00:59:48.560 That's true.

00:59:48.860 Yeah, because like then you're like, you're showing your homegirls, oh, look at this fun

00:59:53.240 stuff I'm doing.

00:59:54.100 Exactly.

00:59:54.840 On a private story, totally different.

00:59:56.660 But if you're doing it on your public story and you're telling them every single detail

01:00:00.300 to your life, on your public story, nobody needs to know that.

01:00:05.740 Nobody at all.

01:00:07.340 Thank you for sharing, but no.

01:00:09.200 Word, word.

01:00:10.320 I got two more red.

01:00:11.360 I mean, I have a bunch of red flags, but I'll just share two and then we'll move on to

01:00:14.420 the next topic.

01:00:15.040 So I don't really drink much.

01:00:18.860 Occasionally I'll have a beer, a glass of wine, but I don't drink much.

01:00:23.740 So a girl who drinks a lot, parties a lot, goes to nightclubs or bars regularly, to me

01:00:30.260 it's not so much a red flag.

01:00:33.100 It can sort of be.

01:00:34.480 It's just more like a, there's an, we're not, there's a commonality there that's just, it's

01:00:41.040 not linking up, you know?

01:00:42.640 So since I don't drink a lot, since I don't go to bars, I don't go to clubs, I don't really

01:00:47.280 party.

01:00:48.280 Frankly, I, and I've said this before, I'd rather masturbate, masturbate with sandpaper

01:00:52.440 than go to a nightclub or bar.

01:00:55.260 Um, that's how much I dislike bars and nightclubs.

01:01:00.520 Um, so because I don't like that, I, that's something I'd value in a partner.

01:01:06.220 They're not super into going to bars and nightclubs.

01:01:08.980 Homebody, right?

01:01:10.240 Yeah.

01:01:10.620 I think more of a home, I mean, we can go out and do things, go to the beach, like, I don't

01:01:15.240 know, see movies and stuff, but I don't like, I don't know.

01:01:18.380 I'm definitely more on the introverted side, so, um, and then here's the big one, high

01:01:24.520 body count.

01:01:26.920 That's a red flag.

01:01:28.200 I feel like it's worse to have a ton of X's than a high body count though.

01:01:32.080 Yeah.

01:01:32.400 I can, that's actually a very, I agree with it.

01:01:35.340 If you have like 10 X's, that's one thing.

01:01:37.360 But if you have like a body count of 15, I don't really care if you have a body count

01:01:40.900 of 15, but if you're my age and you have 10 X's, it's like, yeah, like you're a slut.

01:01:45.660 No, wait.

01:01:46.640 So hold on.

01:01:47.380 Like 10 X's, like you've ran through.

01:01:49.340 Wait, hold on.

01:01:49.900 Just to clarify.

01:01:50.620 So, okay.

01:01:51.560 A woman who slept with 10 men, but they're all, they were like longer term, you know,

01:01:57.740 they had some degree of relationship versus a woman who slept with say 50 men, but most

01:02:03.560 of them were like very short flings, one night stands.

01:02:09.280 You think the girl who's slept with 10 men and they're all X's, she is ran through.

01:02:16.340 Yeah.

01:02:16.840 And not just girls, guys too.

01:02:18.660 It's like, and I, from my perspective, I'm 19, you know, like I haven't had that much

01:02:23.700 time.

01:02:23.980 Like if you have like 10 X's by like 19, that's like, holy shit.

01:02:27.340 I don't even know mathematically how that, how you can have 10 X's.

01:02:31.060 That's like, yeah, that's a lot.

01:02:32.620 Well, I just kind of thought of a number, but like, yeah, I'm just trying to think like

01:02:36.420 at what point can someone be considered an X?

01:02:38.580 Is it like two, three months, like at minimum mark?

01:02:41.860 So.

01:02:42.120 I guess so.

01:02:43.060 Like I'm only 21.

01:02:44.200 I only have one X.

01:02:46.420 Ish.

01:02:47.060 Ish.

01:02:47.380 What does that mean?

01:02:48.840 Yeah.

01:02:49.240 He never really asked me to be his girlfriend, but like when people would ask if we were

01:02:53.860 like boyfriend and girlfriend, he was like, yeah, she's my girlfriend.

01:02:56.700 But like.

01:02:57.080 Is that what you said to you?

01:02:58.000 Oh yeah, this is my boyfriend.

01:02:59.340 Yeah.

01:02:59.820 Or is it the guy you're dating?

01:03:01.140 No.

01:03:01.420 Like I would tell people he was my boyfriend.

01:03:02.940 Cause it was like, it was like for a while.

01:03:05.080 Because I, because in my current relationship, I never asked her to be my girlfriend.

01:03:09.820 Yeah.

01:03:10.060 I don't know if it like works that way anymore.

01:03:11.980 I was just, yeah.

01:03:13.020 But like, yeah, he never like asked me to be like his girlfriend.

01:03:16.760 I just don't know really how it works anymore, I guess.

01:03:19.660 But like, I'm only 21 and like, I've only had like one X.

01:03:24.220 Like he was my only ever like closest thing that I've ever had to a boyfriend.

01:03:29.200 So, and that was like a whole ordeal.

01:03:32.880 But yeah, I mean, I don't know.

01:03:36.720 So I guess it's just different for people, but.

01:03:40.900 Yeah.

01:03:41.020 If someone were like my age and had like 13 X's, I'd be like, oh, how do you have 13 X's

01:03:48.900 at the age of 21?

01:03:50.620 Like someone's got to explain that to me a little bit, but.

01:03:52.900 I mean like, it depends on like how you definitely, you know, like how their acts like definition.

01:03:59.460 Yeah.

01:03:59.600 I mean like, I don't know, like in China, the dating culture, the dating culture in China,

01:04:03.420 like here is so different.

01:04:05.320 Let's talk about the dating culture in China while we're at it.

01:04:08.400 Like, I don't know.

01:04:10.240 Like in China, basically, if you guys are attractive to each other and you tell him, oh, I like

01:04:15.120 you and I like you too, then your boyfriend, girlfriend, that's easy.

01:04:19.640 Like you like each other and you guys are boyfriend, girlfriend, you're in a relationship.

01:04:23.040 But after I got here, it seems like, hmm, American dating culture is so much like complicated.

01:04:31.700 Like people can't sleep together.

01:04:33.560 You guys can't just live together.

01:04:35.160 And you guys are not even like in a relationship.

01:04:38.280 My girlfriend is Swedish and she has the exact same opinion as you.

01:04:41.400 She hates dating culture in America.

01:04:44.080 When I first got here, the dating culture here just confused me a lot.

01:04:48.380 I was like so confused about the whole situation, like what happened.

01:04:53.440 Yeah.

01:04:53.920 That's how it is in France too.

01:04:55.680 Really?

01:04:56.160 Yeah.

01:04:56.680 Wait, France?

01:04:58.080 Yeah.

01:04:58.780 Are you from France?

01:05:00.060 Yeah, I'm from France.

01:05:00.920 And I know.

01:05:02.340 Tu parles français?

01:05:03.660 Un peu.

01:05:04.180 C'est bien ça?

01:05:05.460 I barely know French.

01:05:06.420 That gets.

01:05:07.040 My dad gets so angry with me for it.

01:05:10.180 Oh.

01:05:10.500 But it's like, I mean, I go, okay, wait.

01:05:13.160 I go there like every year.

01:05:14.280 I mean, for you to talk about the dating culture in France, I would assume that you would need

01:05:17.560 a question that you at least know how that is.

01:05:19.640 No, yeah.

01:05:20.200 Like I know how it works, if that makes any sense.

01:05:23.540 Like it's.

01:05:24.200 It works?

01:05:25.140 Okay, how does it work in France?

01:05:26.160 It's like, it's not how it is here.

01:05:27.520 It's not like, do you want to be my girlfriend?

01:05:29.380 Do you want to be my boyfriend?

01:05:30.180 It's kind of like people just like start hanging out and they're like get together.

01:05:34.160 And then it's kind of just like an assumption at that point.

01:05:37.540 Like it's.

01:05:38.160 I kind of feel like that's how it is in the US.

01:05:40.460 Yeah.

01:05:40.760 But sometimes it's like, how do I like put this?

01:05:44.000 Do you mean when it comes to commitment?

01:05:45.700 Yeah.

01:05:46.300 Because like people here, like if you try to be like, oh, like we haven't established

01:05:51.040 anything, but what are we?

01:05:53.360 Then sometimes it's like, whoa.

01:05:56.840 But over there.

01:05:57.720 So what you're saying is when people are in France, if you sleep with someone, you're

01:06:03.200 essentially in the relation.

01:06:04.640 Is that what you're saying?

01:06:05.520 At least in my hometown.

01:06:07.020 That's where it's kind of like.

01:06:08.660 Yeah.

01:06:09.140 In Strasbourg.

01:06:11.420 Strasbourg, France.

01:06:12.340 In France.

01:06:13.820 Your hometown is, but you don't speak French.

01:06:18.120 No, but my citizenship is there.

01:06:20.100 Eh bien, tu es parlement en français, je pense.

01:06:24.120 Un peu parlement en français.

01:06:26.020 Anyways.

01:06:26.780 I know how to say hi, my name is Lulu.

01:06:28.300 Did you understand what I said though?

01:06:29.660 You said, do I speak French?

01:06:31.120 Oh, Jesus.

01:06:31.740 Okay.

01:06:33.860 So, okay.

01:06:36.360 Well, I've only, I was born in France and I moved to the US when I was five.

01:06:40.400 Really?

01:06:41.120 Yeah.

01:06:41.600 Where?

01:06:42.400 Where in France?

01:06:43.020 Paris.

01:06:44.000 Yeah.

01:06:45.100 Fun.

01:06:46.020 But I've not really been back there for long periods of time, so I can't really speak

01:06:50.060 to the dating culture.

01:06:52.320 Oh, no.

01:06:52.880 Is it true that French people are incredibly rude?

01:06:56.920 Is that true?

01:06:57.300 Parisians.

01:06:58.320 Parisians are rude.

01:06:59.380 Yeah, Parisians are rude.

01:07:00.740 But if you go outside of Paris.

01:07:00.900 But if you go to.

01:07:01.460 I don't like Paris, to be honest.

01:07:02.920 But go ahead.

01:07:03.480 If you go to Strasbourg, they're really nice.

01:07:05.380 Because it has a lot of, also, because we're so close to the German border.

01:07:08.920 Yeah.

01:07:09.460 It has a lot of German influence.

01:07:11.380 So, like, the people in Strasbourg, in my opinion, are really, really nice.

01:07:14.940 But if you do go to Paris, they're a little meaner.

01:07:18.700 I think also it's part of, like, there's so many tourists.

01:07:21.340 They're sick of tourists.

01:07:22.100 Like, yeah, that's understandable.

01:07:23.420 Yeah.

01:07:23.820 Yeah.

01:07:24.200 So.

01:07:24.880 Yeah, definitely.

01:07:25.460 Wait, so, okay, going back to China.

01:07:27.300 Can we get some Chinese flags in the chat, by the way?

01:07:29.600 And some French flags, too.

01:07:31.160 Get some French flags going.

01:07:34.260 So, because China's a very secular country, right?

01:07:38.420 It's not particularly religious, right?

01:07:41.160 Yeah.

01:07:41.520 So, my question for you is, is casual sex a pretty big thing in China?

01:07:47.740 Okay.

01:07:48.360 Or is it more?

01:07:49.100 Sorry, go ahead.

01:07:49.580 Yeah, here's the thing.

01:07:50.440 Like, I think it's not, like, for sex, this topic in China is not, like, that open than here.

01:08:01.660 You know, like, people talk about sex, like, pretty normal, pretty normal, like, every, they don't care about this topic.

01:08:08.400 But, like, in China, people do, I mean, like, this generation is getting better.

01:08:13.260 But back to my parents and, like, older generations, they do, like, avoid sex, this topic.

01:08:19.000 And I don't know.

01:08:20.800 Like, I think casual sex is definitely a big thing.

01:08:25.100 But people just don't put this topic on the table.

01:08:28.320 You know, they don't share this kind of thing, like.

01:08:31.260 Where do you think that comes from in China?

01:08:34.000 Because I, honestly, like, I grew up in China and now I'm just here for, like, college.

01:08:38.860 Because to add to that, people often say it's religion that is the catalyst to that, right?

01:08:44.720 No, it's not because of, like, religious reasons.

01:08:46.980 Right, right.

01:08:47.260 Because China's not a religious country.

01:08:48.340 Yeah, yeah.

01:08:48.500 So, what do you think that comes from then?

01:08:50.520 I just think, like, the lack of sex education, this is, I think, is a real big problem in China.

01:08:59.440 And so, people, I don't know, people are ashamed when they talk about sex, this topic.

01:09:04.720 So, like, their children are educated in a way, like, oh, don't talk sex in public.

01:09:12.120 It's such a, like, a shame topic, whatever.

01:09:14.980 Yeah.

01:09:15.140 Is it also true about the whole thing where you're limited to how many children you can have in China?

01:09:24.020 Is that still a thing?

01:09:25.460 Or has that ever been a thing?

01:09:26.200 It's not a thing anymore.

01:09:27.760 Like, government are encouraged.

01:09:29.040 Do you think that plays a role into it?

01:09:31.900 No.

01:09:32.780 I don't think so.

01:09:33.940 I just think, like, the overall, like, sex education level is not enough.

01:09:40.380 So, people are, like, avoiding this topic.

01:09:43.740 So, but I do think, like, casual sex is a thing.

01:09:46.220 But people just don't put it on the table.

01:09:48.320 Like, talk about it in a podcast.

01:09:51.580 Obviously.

01:09:52.340 Dude, is virginity something that's valued in China in the same way it is, like, for example, in other countries or in the U.S.?

01:09:59.920 At least amongst in religious circles.

01:10:03.200 I mean, I think, I don't know, like, I think after 2020s, like, after we enter, like, 21th century, people are caring less about virginity.

01:10:17.540 But I do think there's a majority, not majority, like, a big part of guys, they do care about virginity.

01:10:27.820 I'm curious about this when it comes to dating in China.

01:10:32.400 So, for, I'm trying to think.

01:10:37.280 So, are, is it looked down upon to, in China, to date outside of your race?

01:10:47.380 Like, say there's, like, a white guy in China.

01:10:50.560 My boyfriend is white.

01:10:51.780 So, you're in the U.S. right now, but if you were, like, in China, would, do you think the, would people look down on you for dating outside of your race or they don't really care?

01:11:01.100 Okay, like, I don't know.

01:11:02.780 Like, I think there's a group of this kind of people in every country.

01:11:06.120 Like, they're just being disrespectful.

01:11:08.900 But I don't know.

01:11:09.600 I don't think people will, like, look down on you if you date people, like, they're white, black, or anything.

01:11:16.020 To add on to that, I think, and again, I'm not from China.

01:11:19.300 This is just based on my observations.

01:11:20.720 You're not?

01:11:21.780 I've seen a lot of clips of black people in China, and they're just, like, obsessed with them.

01:11:28.360 They want to touch their hair.

01:11:29.200 They want to take pictures of them.

01:11:30.740 You know, that kind of stuff.

01:11:32.180 So, I think it's almost, there's novelty in a foreign partner.

01:11:36.960 Would you say that's true?

01:11:38.340 I mean, yeah, it's definitely novelty here.

01:11:41.260 And I think the big reason is because America is, like, an immigration country.

01:11:47.420 There are all different races of people.

01:11:49.860 So, you're, like, grow up, you do see all those different racist people, like, around you.

01:11:55.020 So, you're kind of, like, getting used to it.

01:11:56.860 But in China, it's, I don't know, like, it's just basically one race.

01:12:01.200 Or, I don't know, like, 99% people look similar.

01:12:05.860 Like, we're all in one race.

01:12:08.320 So, it's probably, like, pretty novel when you're dating, like, you know, like, black, white, any other people out of your race.

01:12:16.760 Yeah.

01:12:17.160 Okay.

01:12:18.600 Very interesting.

01:12:20.860 Okay.

01:12:21.360 We got to do, sorry, guys.

01:12:22.740 We are a little behind on super chats.

01:12:24.880 We're going to do some super chats.

01:12:26.180 First off, the American Network Against Labia Place, the hashtag All Labia Matter.

01:12:32.280 Guys, that is my nonprofit organization, anal for short.

01:12:38.240 And it really is a shame that women are shamed if they have a large labia.

01:12:45.360 I'm just going to say it.

01:12:46.180 It's unfortunate.

01:12:46.980 Some of them turn to plastic surgery.

01:12:49.880 It's really terrible.

01:12:51.000 So, I'm All Labia Matter.

01:12:52.680 Okay.

01:12:53.880 We got Stiffler.

01:12:55.360 Actually, we'll come back to Stiffler.

01:12:57.400 Yo, Glebis.

01:12:58.420 What's up, man?

01:12:59.020 Hey, how you doing, man?

01:13:00.180 Good to see you back in the chat week after week, man.

01:13:03.100 Really appreciate your support.

01:13:04.400 And for being a member, by the way.

01:13:05.960 By the way, guys, if you see that little icon next to his name, that means he's a member of the channel.

01:13:10.640 If you want to be a homie, consider hitting that join button.

01:13:16.080 Mr. Mike Davis, good to see you back, man.

01:13:17.780 Thank you for the $10 super chat.

01:13:18.960 Just tuning in and check it out.

01:13:20.340 Brian pulled another wannabe gangster off the streets.

01:13:25.440 This boy spent time in the pen, too.

01:13:28.620 Brandon smokes this boy.

01:13:30.660 Yeah.

01:13:32.140 You want to shoot back to?

01:13:33.980 Sure.

01:13:34.960 Not only am I into fitness, but I also do martial arts, so pull up.

01:13:40.080 Okay, Mike Davis, the challenge has been issued.

01:13:43.120 Come to the dojo anytime.

01:13:44.920 Okay.

01:13:45.260 Look it and act it at the same time.

01:13:48.100 Mr. Chase Paisley.

01:13:50.020 What's up, man?

01:13:51.340 Thank you for the $10 super chat.

01:13:52.740 Brian asked the chicks if they think it's important that their man slash future husband has post-apocalyptic warlord potential.

01:14:01.180 You know what, Chase?

01:14:01.920 I was actually thinking about this today.

01:14:03.320 So, yeah, we can go around the panel on this.

01:14:07.920 So, ladies, in the event of some crazy apocalyptic zombie scenario, nuclear holocaust, nuclear winter?

01:14:19.520 Anyways, whatever.

01:14:21.620 Would you want your man, future husband, to be a...

01:14:27.180 What's the term for it?

01:14:28.220 A prepper?

01:14:28.940 What is the term?

01:14:30.100 Thinking about the apocalypse day in and day out.

01:14:32.640 A survivalist?

01:14:33.720 A prepper?

01:14:34.060 Sure.

01:14:34.540 Yeah.

01:14:34.880 Yeah, like a survivalist.

01:14:36.040 Would you want him to have, like, an underground bunker in his house with, like, three years of food supplies?

01:14:43.340 Is that important to you?

01:14:46.320 I would say it's not important, but in general, I would want my man to be able to lead me through that time and be able to get me through that, you know?

01:14:55.760 He has to be strong.

01:14:56.820 He has to be a critical thinker of what's going to happen next and what we should do next.

01:15:01.100 I'm not saying he has to have an underground bunker, but there should be some, you know, survivalistic skills in his toolbox.

01:15:09.420 Okay.

01:15:10.160 Very good.

01:15:11.340 Yeah, fuck that.

01:15:12.380 That would be so annoying.

01:15:13.540 It would be like living with an extreme couponer.

01:15:17.000 Wait, what?

01:15:18.180 Go ahead.

01:15:18.600 Like, it would be like living with an extreme couponer, and he's like, oh, babe, I gotta go to the store and get more beans.

01:15:23.720 Like, they expired.

01:15:24.860 I actually have a story about that.

01:15:26.180 That's so annoying.

01:15:27.160 Like, I would not want that, and it would take up so much time.

01:15:29.920 I mean, like, he'd always be talking about it.

01:15:32.080 No.

01:15:33.380 That's my own answer.

01:15:34.740 I think either or.

01:15:36.920 I feel like I could definitely fend off a zombie if I needed to, if it went into, like, the post-apocalyptic, like, zombies were a thing.

01:15:43.060 What would be your weapon of choice?

01:15:44.500 I would, ooh, that's a, I'd say, like, a machete.

01:15:48.160 Sick.

01:15:48.800 I would go for a machete, thousand percent.

01:15:50.680 So, if, like, if my future man could, like, you know, like, hop up on my side and, like, help me with it, then, like, yeah, like, that would be, that would be, like, fucking rad, in my opinion.

01:16:01.880 I don't think he has to be, but, yeah.

01:16:04.740 Yeah, I mean, it's not necessary, but I don't have an opinion on that.

01:16:12.640 Yeah, I don't need him to be a survivalist, but I'd like to see that he has the potential to, like, help me out, you know?

01:16:18.100 I'm not trying to, like, board up in a closet and die in, like, the first three hours, so, yeah.

01:16:24.860 Okay.

01:16:26.900 Hmm, Blair?

01:16:27.980 I mean.

01:16:28.740 I mean, my girlfriend would just panic in the apocalypse.

01:16:31.260 She wouldn't even want to do anything.

01:16:32.320 She would just say, take the lead, you know, so.

01:16:36.040 Yeah.

01:16:37.320 Yeah, that, you know, I was thinking about that, Chase.

01:16:41.960 I make YouTube videos, so I feel like if there was, like, what, there would be groups that would form, right, in the event of an apocalypse?

01:16:49.120 Oh, absolutely.

01:16:49.700 Like, these little groups.

01:16:50.660 Yeah, yes.

01:16:51.040 Roving bands of, like, people and shit, and I'm, like, I was thinking, like, what the fuck would I offer?

01:16:56.900 I got boys with AKs, all kinds of guns and shit.

01:16:59.820 I'm going with them.

01:17:00.460 Like, do you think that my YouTube channel, like, do you think people, like, would maybe be, like, he was kind of funny back then, we'll help him out?

01:17:09.100 Or do you think I'm fucked?

01:17:10.940 You're fucked.

01:17:11.700 Yeah.

01:17:12.680 Join my squad, we'll make sure you survive.

01:17:14.960 Chase, Chase, if you're still in the chat, can I join you and Tanner in your group?

01:17:20.100 Anyways, I'll document it, you know, for historical recording reasons.

01:17:27.960 Okay.

01:17:29.000 With a camera.

01:17:29.780 All right.

01:17:30.720 Next super chat.

01:17:32.420 Sorry, one sec, guys.

01:17:33.300 Let me pull it up.

01:17:34.020 Okay, we got Elder Scrolls333.

01:17:36.420 Thank you for the $10 super chat.

01:17:38.060 Speaking of Warlords, Chase, your boy Blair kind of looked like Khal Drogo.

01:17:42.320 That is a massive compliment.

01:17:43.840 And I also say this, too.

01:17:46.240 That's not the first time somebody has said I look like Jason Momoa.

01:17:49.300 I don't know why.

01:17:50.260 I don't really look like him.

01:17:51.180 It's just the hair.

01:17:51.780 That's all it is.

01:17:52.420 But, yeah, I'll take it as a compliment for sure.

01:17:56.620 All right.

01:17:57.480 Game of Thrones, rock and roll.

01:17:58.880 Do we still have that crown?

01:17:59.840 Can we give you...

01:18:00.640 Yeah.

01:18:01.100 The crown was somewhere.

01:18:02.780 Do you want it?

01:18:03.960 He's going to grab it.

01:18:07.280 All right.

01:18:08.100 Elder Scrolls, thank you for the $10 super chat.

01:18:10.540 I mean, so this is the Baratheon crown.

01:18:16.160 Okay, let's see here.

01:18:17.040 It's not like the...

01:18:18.280 I don't think Khal Drogo had a crown.

01:18:21.280 I don't believe so.

01:18:22.160 I don't think he didn't have a crown.

01:18:24.400 I'm not all that caught up, so...

01:18:25.700 So we are...

01:18:26.240 This is not...

01:18:28.500 Okay, anyway.

01:18:31.040 Devon Jackson with the $10 super chat.

01:18:32.860 Thank you, man.

01:18:33.820 Brian, I think you are a fine gentleman, but this song is awful.

01:18:37.220 Okay, so that's the Smiths' How Soon Is Now.

01:18:40.720 Okay, well, shoot.

01:18:42.860 By the way, I don't think...

01:18:44.780 I don't know if from last stream I was asking, that's a Chargers symbol.

01:18:48.080 Is that Dos Pueblos Chargers, local high school?

01:18:51.380 I don't know if that's DP.

01:18:52.740 Do you know what I'm talking about?

01:18:53.680 Yeah, I went to DP.

01:18:54.320 That's not DP.

01:18:54.980 That's not DP?

01:18:55.700 No.

01:18:56.020 I thought that isn't the symbol a horse?

01:18:57.540 It is a horse, but...

01:18:58.280 And those are the colors.

01:18:58.780 It doesn't look like that, though.

01:18:59.680 It looks different.

01:19:00.340 Those are the colors for Dos Pueblos.

01:19:02.680 DP also means something else.

01:19:04.760 Okay.

01:19:05.280 Mike Hawk with the $2.

01:19:06.500 Thank you, man.

01:19:06.920 Appreciate it.

01:19:07.900 By the way, just a reminder, guys.

01:19:09.060 $10 and up if you want it red.

01:19:11.360 Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat.

01:19:14.380 Gangster wannabe is the type of dude to wash his hands after he takes a shower.

01:19:18.380 Brian, use a makeup removing wipe on him and watch it turn brown.

01:19:23.320 I actually do wash my hands quite often, so you're right.

01:19:28.180 Maybe not after a shower, but...

01:19:29.860 Okay.

01:19:30.640 Mike Davis.

01:19:32.200 Thank you for the $10 soup chat, man.

01:19:34.400 Good to see you back week after week, man.

01:19:37.120 Okay, I need to answer that one.

01:19:39.140 Can we just please go back?

01:19:40.960 Yeah.

01:19:41.100 Before Chinese date one.

01:19:42.200 Okay.

01:19:42.560 Sure, why not?

01:19:44.340 First, I'm rich by myself.

01:19:47.380 And my family is rich, so that's not a problem.

01:19:51.640 And second, whoever I date, I will never date a guy like you because it's kind of rude and

01:19:56.260 this huge red flag.

01:19:59.080 Thank you, guys.

01:20:00.400 Never date everyday Edgar.

01:20:02.260 He seems like a dick.

01:20:04.160 Okay.

01:20:05.140 Everyday Edgar.

01:20:05.700 Somebody said Blair.

01:20:06.540 He's a racist.

01:20:07.240 He's a racist.

01:20:07.940 I have to say that.

01:20:09.000 Somebody said Blair versus Mike Davis pay-per-view.

01:20:11.800 I can get behind that.

01:20:14.820 Yeah.

01:20:15.280 I think, you know what?

01:20:16.500 If you want more smoke from Kara over here, you're probably going to have to super chat

01:20:21.500 a bit higher than $2.

01:20:22.700 Just saying.

01:20:23.520 Yeah.

01:20:23.660 You know.

01:20:24.840 Anyways.

01:20:27.280 All right.

01:20:28.080 So, oh, we got another one.

01:20:30.000 Let's just get this one while it just came in.

01:20:33.420 From Glebis.

01:20:34.720 Thank you for the $10 super chat, man.

01:20:36.960 Much appreciated.

01:20:38.420 We'll pull it up here in just a sec.

01:20:39.880 It takes a second to refresh.

01:20:42.060 Brian, don't worry.

01:20:42.960 We would accept you into post-apocalyptic gang.

01:20:46.960 You'd be marriage therapist if you worry about your role.

01:20:50.700 Okay.

01:20:51.000 Wow.

01:20:51.360 I am going to be the marriage therapist in the...

01:20:55.060 Okay.

01:20:55.480 Great.

01:20:56.120 Cool.

01:20:59.560 Were you able to pull it up, Eric?

01:21:01.540 Or was it pulled up?

01:21:03.240 Can you see it?

01:21:05.360 Yeah.

01:21:05.820 Sorry, guys.

01:21:06.340 It takes like a little time.

01:21:07.460 There we go.

01:21:07.860 Oh, we got another one from...

01:21:09.500 Ooh, shit.

01:21:10.080 Okay.

01:21:10.340 Was that $20?

01:21:11.680 Yeah, we got another one.

01:21:13.240 Yeah, Glebis.

01:21:14.100 Thank you for the $10 super chat.

01:21:15.240 Much appreciated, man.

01:21:16.200 I'll pull this one up.

01:21:18.560 Buster Kitschup.

01:21:19.860 Lulu and TikTok.

01:21:21.240 Switch seats.

01:21:22.580 Thank you for the Canadian $20.

01:21:24.340 $20?

01:21:25.940 Big...

01:21:26.420 Thank you for the big donation.

01:21:29.440 What does that even mean?

01:21:31.380 I think he wants...

01:21:32.000 They want you to switch seats.

01:21:32.860 You do to switch seats, but you're going to have to donate $500 if you want that.

01:21:37.980 $500 Canadian.

01:21:38.840 Watch somebody do it.

01:21:39.640 Why do they want us to switch...

01:21:41.980 Because they think she's based.

01:21:43.360 I saw a few comments.

01:21:45.020 What does that mean?

01:21:45.880 I mean, I think Natasha's pretty based.

01:21:50.180 What does that mean?

01:21:50.800 I don't know what that means.

01:21:51.740 It's like you're basically a legend.

01:21:53.680 Like you're a fucking legend.

01:21:54.200 Very respectable, like...

01:21:56.040 Wow.

01:21:56.540 Solid opinions.

01:21:58.140 High caliber person.

01:21:59.480 Thank you to whoever said that.

01:22:00.240 Shout out Natasha.

01:22:00.920 I also saw 304 in the chat.

01:22:02.980 What does that mean?

01:22:03.140 What does 304 mean?

01:22:04.480 Area code, probably.

01:22:05.360 It was like, can someone...

01:22:09.200 Natasha, do you know what it means?

01:22:12.680 304.

01:22:13.180 Okay.

01:22:13.420 So it's something you type into a calculator and you turn it over.

01:22:16.580 What does it say?

01:22:17.780 I don't know, but someone said that with my name.

01:22:20.360 Oh.

01:22:21.160 Oh.

01:22:21.560 Okay.

01:22:22.380 Yeah, so...

01:22:23.540 500 Canadian is like 3 USD.

01:22:26.020 Okay.

01:22:26.920 Might come in then.

01:22:27.680 Might come in.

01:22:28.320 Rest in peace, Canada.

01:22:30.240 Okay.

01:22:30.540 All right.

01:22:32.200 Let's get back on track here.

01:22:34.020 Thank you guys so much for the super chats.

01:22:35.380 Much appreciated.

01:22:36.260 You guys are fucking legends.

01:22:37.420 Okay.

01:22:37.660 Okay.

01:22:38.140 So...

01:22:38.660 We already talked red flags.

01:22:43.540 Deal breaker, that's kind of the same thing, right?

01:22:45.560 Or is that...

01:22:46.040 Do you consider that different-ish?

01:22:48.020 I'd say it's like the same thing.

01:22:49.720 I would say deal breakers is when you're already in the relationship.

01:22:52.720 Yeah.

01:22:53.080 So like if their red flag continues to be in that relationship, then it equals a deal breaker.

01:22:58.800 You know what?

01:22:59.340 Why don't we react to another one of Tasha's videos?

01:23:02.720 If you can pull up the video.

01:23:04.320 Let's do it.

01:23:05.580 Go ahead and pull up the video.

01:23:10.960 Why did you make a sex tape?

01:23:13.820 Because I was horny and I felt like it.

01:23:17.360 Okay.

01:23:19.180 So I guess we could talk about that.

01:23:21.860 So how long do you guys think you should wait before having sex with someone?

01:23:33.640 Well, I've actually never done that.

01:23:36.260 I've never had sex on the first date.

01:23:38.320 Oh, I thought you were about to say you've never had sex.

01:23:40.020 No, no.

01:23:41.340 Just not on the first date.

01:23:42.720 I was about to say.

01:23:44.080 Yes.

01:23:48.000 No, I think you should wait, honestly, until you feel comfortable.

01:23:51.860 I would.

01:23:53.060 That was you in the TikTok, though, correct?

01:23:55.100 Yes, that was fully me.

01:23:57.200 But.

01:23:58.020 It doesn't apply to me.

01:23:59.780 Oh, okay.

01:24:00.660 Wait.

01:24:01.420 But that was you in the TikTok.

01:24:02.560 It was me in the TikTok.

01:24:03.600 Okay.

01:24:04.140 I see.

01:24:05.480 So how long do you think you should wait for, oh, nice, a little milestone there.

01:24:11.620 What's up, Clevis?

01:24:15.220 How long do you think you should wait?

01:24:18.080 I would say until you're comfortable, for sure.

01:24:20.860 But I would usually wait a month.

01:24:25.000 At least a month.

01:24:26.360 So how many dates would you say that is?

01:24:27.760 Or how many, like, third date, fourth date, fifth date?

01:24:30.360 What do you think?

01:24:30.840 Uh, I would say maybe fourth date.

01:24:35.500 I think fourth date is pretty good.

01:24:37.680 If you're talking every day.

01:24:39.940 Brian was about to marry her.

01:24:41.240 Okay.

01:24:42.540 Um, so fourth date.

01:24:44.220 What, what do you think?

01:24:44.940 How long should you?

01:24:46.040 Um, it kind of depends for me.

01:24:48.840 Like, there's been guys where it's like a meet them at a party.

01:24:52.540 Maybe it's in the next 10 minutes.

01:24:54.420 Not like that, not like that.

01:24:56.480 Let me, uh, rephrase the question.

01:24:58.120 Or, like, same night?

01:24:58.620 Maybe.

01:24:59.140 I want to, I want to two-part this question.

01:25:00.620 So what is the fastest that you've hooked up with a guy?

01:25:03.980 Oh.

01:25:04.340 And that can be down to minutes if you want.

01:25:06.720 Yeah.

01:25:07.480 And, uh, just also the previous question, like, how long should you wait?

01:25:12.540 Or do you wait?

01:25:13.720 Okay, yeah.

01:25:14.560 Typically, generally.

01:25:15.380 I think, yeah, the fastest, I'd say maybe, like, half an hour.

01:25:19.680 Uh, if I, like, like, I met him at a party.

01:25:22.920 The long.

01:25:23.800 I, but, like, there's also, like, I have, like, a guy, we've told each other we loved

01:25:29.240 each other and we never, like, fucked.

01:25:31.400 Why?

01:25:31.760 So, because it never, I don't know, it never happened and then he left and then we were

01:25:38.780 just randomly, like, together and he said it and then he left again because we had to

01:25:43.820 go back.

01:25:43.840 You weren't, that didn't put you off or anything?

01:25:46.120 Like.

01:25:46.460 No, no, no, no.

01:25:47.160 Because I loved him, too.

01:25:48.360 Yeah.

01:25:48.700 And I'd, like, always known that, but we never said it to each other.

01:25:52.460 Because that's kind of, like, two opposite ends of the spectrum.

01:25:54.760 Yeah.

01:25:54.820 Like, from 30 minutes and just, like, somebody you really love and you're just, like, not

01:25:57.600 doing it.

01:25:57.800 Yeah, and I was, like, after, like, a year, so.

01:26:00.360 After a year?

01:26:01.460 Well, of, like, knowing each other.

01:26:03.300 Yeah.

01:26:04.000 So, were you dating this guy, like, just kind of seeing in that relationship?

01:26:07.120 No, it, like, we were.

01:26:10.080 Situationship?

01:26:10.800 No, we'd never even kissed.

01:26:12.940 Oh.

01:26:13.340 But, like, we just knew.

01:26:14.560 I don't know, it's hard to.

01:26:15.200 But you loved him and never kissed him.

01:26:16.820 And I still do.

01:26:17.780 Interesting.

01:26:18.440 Yeah.

01:26:19.300 And we, like, talked about getting married and shit.

01:26:21.220 Really?

01:26:21.780 But we still haven't.

01:26:23.220 Yeah.

01:26:23.660 So.

01:26:24.160 I want to add one question onto this.

01:26:25.680 What's the longest you've made a guy wait to?

01:26:28.160 Oh, yeah, I guess.

01:26:29.420 So, that's.

01:26:30.420 I never, it never happened.

01:26:31.820 But I'd say probably, like, hmm.

01:26:35.220 I don't know.

01:26:35.600 Maybe, like, two weeks.

01:26:38.500 Okay.

01:26:39.300 Besides that.

01:26:39.900 By the way, for this one, like, obviously exclude the first guy that you've slept with.

01:26:44.720 But usually, I don't really sleep with the guy on the first time that I see them.

01:26:52.300 I like, I personally like to wait.

01:26:56.240 But usually.

01:26:57.680 Usually.

01:26:57.920 Most of the time.

01:26:58.960 Okay.

01:26:59.340 So, what are those other times?

01:27:00.500 There was only one time I ever got, because my body count's not that high, but.

01:27:06.080 What is it?

01:27:08.080 You might have time to explain the little hat back there.

01:27:10.040 My body count's only nine, but, I mean, to some people, that's a lot, but I have.

01:27:19.160 How old are you again?

01:27:19.940 21.

01:27:20.540 21.

01:27:21.060 Yeah.

01:27:21.460 So, I mean, that's not that.

01:27:25.580 No.

01:27:26.160 Right.

01:27:26.820 I mean, I don't think it's too bad.

01:27:28.640 It was a cap in the chat.

01:27:32.120 You have to save the whole cap in there.

01:27:33.760 It's.

01:27:34.300 I'm being serious.

01:27:37.760 Only at 29.

01:27:38.960 No.

01:27:39.920 Her count is.

01:27:40.500 It's not 27.

01:27:41.580 It's only nine.

01:27:42.800 But, um, I usually don't sleep with the guy on the first day.

01:27:47.140 It was only one guy ever.

01:27:49.320 And that was because I was.

01:27:52.860 I, it's, it's a long, long story.

01:27:55.620 But, like, even with the guy that I like now, I didn't go with him on the first, the first

01:28:00.540 time that we ever hung out.

01:28:01.540 The first day, and I didn't, I was like, I don't bring people up on the first, like,

01:28:06.340 day.

01:28:06.580 Because I don't.

01:28:07.140 And I don't want to, like, make him think that I do.

01:28:10.260 And, like, I know that it looks like I do, but I don't.

01:28:14.040 So, yeah, I usually, I usually wait, like, a couple weeks.

01:28:20.080 Like, I say one, two weeks.

01:28:21.740 I wait, like, depending on how many times.

01:28:24.520 The chat is on fire right now.

01:28:25.700 If that makes sense.

01:28:26.580 Is everyone like.

01:28:27.440 Oh, my God.

01:28:30.040 Yes.

01:28:30.360 R.I.P.

01:28:30.820 R.I.P.

01:28:31.300 To the guy who didn't get the coochie.

01:28:32.520 You guys.

01:28:33.280 It's.

01:28:34.280 Oh, man.

01:28:35.780 Tattoos tell the tale, huh?

01:28:37.800 Tattoos tell the tale.

01:28:38.840 How many tattoos have to be?

01:28:40.380 How many tattoos?

01:28:41.160 Because I've got a few, too.

01:28:41.940 Her body count is 9,000.

01:28:44.280 It's over 9,000.

01:28:47.500 No, wait.

01:28:48.080 These are actually kind of funny, though.

01:28:50.380 No, but it is.

01:28:51.060 It's only nine.

01:28:52.220 If you guys want to make fun of me for being an only nine.

01:28:54.420 It's over 9,000.

01:28:57.300 Okay.

01:28:57.840 Shout out to DBZ.

01:28:59.680 Cara.

01:29:03.200 I think.

01:29:05.980 For me.

01:29:07.580 It really.

01:29:08.140 I don't even know how to start the topic.

01:29:13.100 Like, how to start.

01:29:14.600 Because I remember, like, we talked in last episode, right?

01:29:18.060 Like, my body count is 2.

01:29:20.640 So.

01:29:24.000 I don't know.

01:29:25.040 Like, I think it's.

01:29:26.300 I mean, like, have sex with someone.

01:29:29.200 It's not that a big deal.

01:29:30.880 But it's kind of a big deal.

01:29:32.100 Like, for me.

01:29:32.740 So, like, at least I will get to know this guy first.

01:29:37.280 And, you know, I will never do, like, things, like, that will make me, like, regret later.

01:29:44.740 So, I would.

01:29:45.580 I just want to make sure, like, my choice is correct.

01:29:48.680 And I won't regret.

01:29:49.920 Maybe, like, after a year, I was like, oh, I shouldn't have sex with him.

01:29:53.480 I just don't want this kind of situation happen.

01:29:55.740 So, just try to make the right choice.

01:30:00.220 Yeah.

01:30:00.520 Sure, yeah.

01:30:03.020 Wait.

01:30:03.480 So, is it just, like, how long I would wait?

01:30:05.120 Or how long you should wait before you have sex with him?

01:30:06.780 Yeah, I add.

01:30:08.000 How long you have, I think.

01:30:09.800 How long I.

01:30:11.220 I don't know.

01:30:11.860 I'd probably wait, like, if I like him, maybe, like, a week or two.

01:30:16.220 I don't know.

01:30:17.160 I wouldn't wait that long, I don't think.

01:30:19.120 Yeah.

01:30:19.600 I agree.

01:30:21.100 That's what I did.

01:30:22.220 Yeah.

01:30:22.440 So, who's had that one-night stand?

01:30:25.720 And who's slept with someone the first time meeting the person?

01:30:32.940 It doesn't have to be a one-night stand.

01:30:34.240 You could have continued seeing them.

01:30:35.400 But have you slept with someone the first time meeting them?

01:30:39.900 Yes.

01:30:40.580 Yeah.

01:30:42.180 Yes.

01:30:44.000 Only once.

01:30:46.200 One-night stand?

01:30:47.620 No.

01:30:48.760 Yeah.

01:30:49.860 Blair?

01:30:51.260 Yeah.

01:30:51.740 The first time meeting, for sure.

01:30:53.760 Been there.

01:30:54.800 Wait, can I say something funny?

01:30:56.140 Sure.

01:30:56.760 Yes.

01:30:56.960 I hope it's funny.

01:30:58.380 There are two one-night...

01:31:00.780 Say it into the microphone.

01:31:02.280 Oh, her friends know.

01:31:03.540 Her friends know what it is, too.

01:31:04.820 I don't know what this is.

01:31:05.740 I don't either.

01:31:06.960 Oh, really?

01:31:07.520 Okay.

01:31:08.300 There, like, her only one-night stand, and one of hers and one of mine was all on the same

01:31:13.540 night in the same house.

01:31:14.680 Oh.

01:31:15.680 I remember that.

01:31:16.780 That was funny.

01:31:17.360 Insidious.

01:31:18.520 I remember that.

01:31:19.620 Yeah.

01:31:19.900 We were all in my hometown for a spring break, and that's why it happened.

01:31:25.140 Spring break.

01:31:26.460 The stars were aligned that night.

01:31:29.980 I guess astrology had a plan in that one.

01:31:32.040 Oh, gosh.

01:31:34.600 I don't know if I want to talk about astrology.

01:31:36.520 Okay.

01:31:36.900 Real quick.

01:31:37.720 Okay.

01:31:38.640 Do you believe in astrology?

01:31:40.760 I do not.

01:31:42.260 Based?

01:31:42.960 What a fucking legend.

01:31:44.200 Okay.

01:31:44.800 Bad brownie points over here.

01:31:46.000 So, 100,000%.

01:31:47.080 I'd have to say, yeah.

01:31:50.620 What was the question?

01:31:51.600 Do you believe in astrology?

01:31:53.060 Astrology?

01:31:53.480 Like, star sign?

01:31:54.280 Like, your Aries or your Gemini, that kind of stuff.

01:31:57.580 I mean, like, 10%.

01:31:59.460 10%.

01:32:00.380 Okay.

01:32:01.780 Yeah.

01:32:02.100 Yeah, I kind of believe in it.

01:32:03.240 I like to pick and choose.

01:32:04.260 I just think it's fun.

01:32:05.500 Yeah.

01:32:06.120 I absolutely do not believe in any of that crap.

01:32:08.660 I'm sorry.

01:32:09.360 What's your sign?

01:32:10.800 Guess.

01:32:12.320 You're Sagittarius.

01:32:13.060 I'll do guess.

01:32:13.720 Wait, one at a time.

01:32:14.780 Go ahead.

01:32:15.000 Who wants to go first?

01:32:16.540 Sagittarius.

01:32:18.680 Anyone else?

01:32:20.020 Vergoni.

01:32:21.980 What do you think?

01:32:23.980 Oh, my God.

01:32:28.240 Aquarius.

01:32:28.680 Okay.

01:32:29.720 Taurus.

01:32:30.640 All of them are wrong.

01:32:31.900 Wait, wait, wait.

01:32:32.440 Can I guess one more time?

01:32:34.640 You're a Libra.

01:32:36.100 Incorrect.

01:32:36.660 Fuck.

01:32:37.280 Capricorn.

01:32:38.000 Aries.

01:32:38.820 Oh.

01:32:39.960 That's why you don't believe it.

01:32:42.120 They're all thinking about it now.

01:32:43.320 But no, I don't.

01:32:45.740 It's just stars and gas in the sky and whatnot.

01:32:48.840 It's fun to look at, but that's all it is.

01:32:53.160 Agreed.

01:32:53.560 Okay.

01:32:56.460 I'm not going to get into that.

01:32:57.920 What I really hate is, and I hate when women are like, oh, you're a Libra.

01:33:03.520 I know everything about you.

01:33:04.620 You don't know a fucking thing about me.

01:33:05.740 Like, shut up.

01:33:08.460 Damn.

01:33:09.460 Base.

01:33:09.900 I'm sorry.

01:33:10.400 Like, that's just how I feel about it.

01:33:11.880 Oh, you know what?

01:33:12.400 Retweet.

01:33:12.740 The other big thing is, when people justify their shitty behavior.

01:33:16.880 Oh, don't get me started on that crap.

01:33:19.640 Like, show myself.

01:33:20.720 I'm a fucking Virgo, so.

01:33:23.460 And that goes back to, like, being crazy, also.

01:33:27.020 So I'm just irresponsible.

01:33:28.920 Like, okay.

01:33:29.520 Shut up.

01:33:30.220 Dork.

01:33:30.780 Okay.

01:33:31.780 Let's do it.

01:33:32.560 Let's get these soup chats while we got them real quick.

01:33:34.360 We got Mr. Mike Davis with the big $20 soup chat.

01:33:39.000 Thank you, man.

01:33:39.580 Much appreciated.

01:33:40.320 You're a fucking legend.

01:33:41.180 I really appreciate your support week after week, man.

01:33:43.760 Really do.

01:33:45.140 If me and Fake Tough Guy were to get it on, I would handle him easy work.

01:33:49.720 Be careful how you speak my name.

01:33:51.640 I would pop every one of his inflated muscles, and you better bring a mouth guard, or that's

01:33:56.100 another set of veneers.

01:33:57.480 You have veneers?

01:33:59.520 No.

01:34:00.520 I've got a mouth guard.

01:34:01.720 I've got a D at home.

01:34:02.800 I've got weapons.

01:34:05.780 He's got some nunchucks, dude.

01:34:08.420 Yeah.

01:34:08.740 Actually, my dad has an authentic pair of nunchucks.

01:34:11.020 Watch out.

01:34:11.720 Mike Davis.

01:34:13.660 What are those, like, throwing stars?

01:34:17.060 You got throwing stars?

01:34:17.540 Yep.

01:34:19.040 Shuriken.

01:34:19.680 Watch out, Mike Davis.

01:34:20.600 Oh, he's got some shuriken.

01:34:22.400 Yeah.

01:34:23.120 Yo, it's...

01:34:23.580 And somebody earlier asked what martial arts I do.

01:34:26.280 Hapkido Judo Unboxing.

01:34:28.340 Yo, Mike Davis, if you...

01:34:29.640 I mean, I'll know which way this is going to go, but...

01:34:31.640 I'm also an anime nerd.

01:34:37.200 I know that clip.

01:34:38.320 There we go.

01:34:39.260 Yo, Mike Davis, though.

01:34:40.260 Thank you for the $20 sub.

01:34:41.260 I love you, Mike Davis.

01:34:42.060 $20 soup chat.

01:34:43.080 It's hearing my words now.

01:34:44.600 John Deke with the $10 soup chat.

01:34:45.940 Wait until you're in your mid-30s and single.

01:34:47.800 Men don't care about body count then.

01:34:49.240 They care about finding a girl who can provide clean underwear, a hot meal, and has good credit.

01:34:55.760 Wait, what?

01:34:57.260 So, he's saying that as you get older, body count matters less.

01:35:01.060 You care more about it.

01:35:01.940 Can she cook for me?

01:35:02.800 Does she have good credit?

01:35:03.900 Yeah.

01:35:04.300 All these, you know...

01:35:05.920 I feel like a lot of...

01:35:06.640 I think I care more about body count now than I did when I was younger.

01:35:11.500 I feel like a lot of guys, like at least like 18 to 23, give a real...

01:35:17.380 Like, they really give a shit about what your body count is.

01:35:21.480 Like, if you give anything over 10, like they're like...

01:35:24.380 Anything over 5, honestly.

01:35:25.960 For older guys, you're saying?

01:35:27.380 No.

01:35:27.640 I'd say like anyone, like 18 to 23.

01:35:32.400 Oh, okay.

01:35:32.960 Like, anyone in that age, like they really care about your body count.

01:35:36.220 Yo, but imagine being on a date and you're like 35.

01:35:39.180 He's like, yeah, like I'm an investment banker, but like what's your body count?

01:35:43.900 At that point, it's like the woman's maybe in her 30s, like probably the same.

01:35:48.800 Probably the same body count at that point.

01:35:51.280 A lot of experience.

01:35:53.760 Clean underwear, a hot meal?

01:35:55.640 I mean...

01:35:56.420 What an interesting thing.

01:35:57.100 So, okay, he's basically saying laundry cook and not in serious debt.

01:36:04.600 I mean, those are good things, I guess, but yeah, I guess that's kind of almost getting

01:36:09.840 into traditional gender roles.

01:36:11.880 Yeah, you got to make sure they have a really good credit.

01:36:14.900 How are you going to buy a house?

01:36:15.960 How are you going to buy a car?

01:36:16.940 Exactly.

01:36:17.600 You got what?

01:36:18.420 A 340?

01:36:19.320 No, thank you.

01:36:20.480 I don't have credit score.

01:36:21.460 How far along in the relationship before you start getting some of these benefits?

01:36:25.780 It's clean underwear.

01:36:27.340 That's what I want to know.

01:36:28.640 Like, this guy's got some trauma with the underwear, it looks like.

01:36:32.000 I mean, I do my own laundry, but okay.

01:36:35.180 Well, it looks like he does that.

01:36:36.360 Body count?

01:36:36.380 I mean, I think men probably care about body count more than all three of these.

01:36:39.780 I mean, we can talk about it really quick.

01:36:41.920 If we...

01:36:42.220 We can go into it really quick.

01:36:43.560 I don't want to spend too much time on body count because it comes up almost every show,

01:36:47.880 but really quick, we'll go around the table.

01:36:50.100 Should body count matter?

01:36:51.560 Absolutely.

01:36:52.840 I will always ask a guy what his body count is on the first night of meeting him.

01:36:56.080 You're getting away...

01:36:57.380 Who is this girl?

01:36:58.720 Like, you're about to get hella points in the chat right now for that.

01:37:01.940 I mean, body count should matter.

01:37:03.200 Absolutely.

01:37:05.760 Yes!

01:37:07.700 I've met men with high body counts.

01:37:09.380 I've met girls with high body counts, you know, and vice versa.

01:37:15.020 I would prefer for my partner to have a low body count.

01:37:18.920 I think it shows that you are picky.

01:37:21.020 I think it shows that you have values and you stick to them because not every girl is

01:37:25.820 going to fit that value.

01:37:26.940 And if they did, then maybe it would be high.

01:37:30.140 But there's no reason for it to be high.

01:37:32.020 You shouldn't be sleeping with everyone that you meet.

01:37:34.180 Good answer.

01:37:36.800 Wow.

01:37:37.320 I think that's a first.

01:37:39.320 I don't think I've ever heard a girl on the panel say that yet.

01:37:42.980 And I don't know.

01:37:43.380 We're probably at like, I don't know, a few dozen at this point.

01:37:48.140 50, 60, 70 girls.

01:37:49.220 Okay.

01:37:51.980 You've probably poisoned the well for the rest of the answers here.

01:37:55.820 But okay, we'll let you go.

01:37:57.500 Yeah.

01:37:58.600 I don't know.

01:37:59.440 It doesn't really matter as much to me.

01:38:02.220 I think like, as long as it's under like, I don't know, 20, 25, you're probably chill.

01:38:08.320 I guess like, what do you determine what the number is?

01:38:11.720 Because that varies from person to person, you know?

01:38:14.460 So how do you determine the number?

01:38:16.300 Penetrative intercourse.

01:38:17.760 Head doesn't count.

01:38:18.620 Like, nothing besides, I don't know, sex.

01:38:24.220 So, yeah.

01:38:25.240 Okay.

01:38:26.360 I mean...

01:38:27.120 So your answer is it shouldn't matter?

01:38:29.300 It doesn't really matter.

01:38:30.520 But if it's like over, I don't know, like 25, 30 something.

01:38:36.000 That's a fair answer.

01:38:36.420 Then he probably has issues, you know?

01:38:39.100 That's a fair answer.

01:38:40.840 I mean, I'd say like, I'd have to agree with Charlotte.

01:38:44.060 Like, if it's like insanely high and if he's boasting about it, then like that is a red flag.

01:38:49.720 Like, I mean, if you're going to sit there and tell me that it's like, oh, like I fucked like 30 girls.

01:38:54.820 I'd be like, I don't, like, why do you want to like brag about that?

01:38:59.060 But, I mean, like a high body count, I mean, I really don't care.

01:39:04.820 But like at the same time, I do.

01:39:07.420 Yeah.

01:39:07.660 And like, you can't really judge them.

01:39:08.860 Yeah, like I don't really want to judge them based on what their body count is because they could probably be like a really good...

01:39:14.040 Like, I've met really, really good people and I've had like things with people who are like with guys that have treated me really, really well, but have a high body count.

01:39:22.000 So I don't think the body count really like defines a person, you know?

01:39:27.040 Tilt the microphone down towards you just slightly.

01:39:30.280 Perfect.

01:39:30.940 Yeah.

01:39:31.000 Okay.

01:39:31.720 But yeah, I just, I don't think the body count defines who a person is.

01:39:34.520 I do want to clarify the question a little bit.

01:39:36.720 So it's, it goes both ways, right?

01:39:39.060 Yeah.

01:39:39.400 So do you think body count should matter both in a partner you're looking for, but also for men if they're judging you based on that?

01:39:46.640 I mean, based on the chat, I mean, like, yeah, like men definitely, like if I tell them my body count, like apparently nine is a really high number.

01:39:55.400 So, I mean...

01:39:56.600 But what's an objectively high number though?

01:39:58.140 An objectively...

01:39:58.420 That goes back to like what I was asking before.

01:40:00.140 I guess it just like depends...

01:40:00.960 It depends on the age too.

01:40:01.860 I would have to say it depends on the age.

01:40:03.560 Like if you're 18 and say your body count is 30, I've got a, I've got a couple of questions.

01:40:10.540 Right.

01:40:10.760 I've got a couple of questions, but I'm only 21.

01:40:14.660 I'm, my body counts nine.

01:40:16.480 Like it's, it's not like excruciatingly high, but apparently nine is too high.

01:40:23.800 It's gross.

01:40:25.000 Apparently to some people it's different.

01:40:26.400 Some of these are trolls.

01:40:27.080 Some of these are serious.

01:40:27.680 Yeah, but some of them, like, I really don't care what they say, but it's like, I don't know, like, cause I know I'm not like sleeping around, but it's like, I don't know if people think that nine is too high, then like, okay.

01:40:38.840 But like when they meet me, they'll be like, oh, like body count doesn't have a problem.

01:40:42.120 You know, I think relatively speaking, I think nine living in Isla Vista is low.

01:40:52.560 Yeah.

01:40:53.060 I would have to agree.

01:40:53.720 Because I know girls that they're freshmen first quarter, is it quarter or semester at UCSB?

01:41:01.680 Quarter.

01:41:02.280 Quarter.

01:41:02.880 First quarter, 20 guys.

01:41:05.220 Yeah.

01:41:05.660 18 years old, 20 guys, first quarter.

01:41:07.760 I know guys that like will have like, they'll, sorry.

01:41:10.020 Oh, guys too.

01:41:10.720 Guys too.

01:41:11.060 Yeah, they'll fuck girls.

01:41:12.560 Like, they'll, I know someone who's like, fucked a girl, like, fuck four girls in one night.

01:41:17.400 Whoa.

01:41:18.440 Four girls in one night.

01:41:19.680 That's insane.

01:41:20.620 And it's like, am I going to do that?

01:41:23.140 Absolutely not.

01:41:26.000 Absolutely not.

01:41:27.160 I don't, my anxiety does not let me do that.

01:41:29.840 Well, I don't even think that's like really, I don't want to say sanitary, but that's just like kind of gross.

01:41:35.120 Yeah.

01:41:35.360 You know what I mean?

01:41:35.800 I mean, like, it's just like, I don't know.

01:41:38.580 That's yikes.

01:41:39.140 But I'd say 9 at 29 is high for sure.

01:41:43.320 I mean, I guess 9 at 29 is high.

01:41:45.740 But, yeah.

01:41:47.560 I don't know.

01:41:48.260 That's just my opinion on it.

01:41:50.240 I mean, for me, it does matter.

01:41:52.320 Especially, I'm looking for a partner, someone who I want to date, like, in a relationship with.

01:41:59.280 I do think, I don't know, like, I do think if you have a high body count in a young age, it means it shows, like, maybe you're into, like, casual sex.

01:42:14.400 And people who are really into, like, casual sex usually can't make, like, genuinely connection with others.

01:42:23.740 And, yeah, I just think, personally for me, because I'm always, like, looking for something serious.

01:42:32.060 So, I won't date anybody who, like, really into casual sex and stuff.

01:42:36.940 Yeah.

01:42:37.200 Same word, like I said last episode.

01:42:40.300 Like, at the end of the day, everyone wants to be loved.

01:42:43.220 But, yeah, I think, like, the real feelings is the most, like, it's a priority.

01:42:49.140 Yeah.

01:42:50.480 Yeah, I do not care at all.

01:42:52.300 Like, that's your past.

01:42:53.360 That has nothing to do with me.

01:42:54.580 Like, if, like, Lou said, if you're bragging about, like, your body count and how many girls you've been with, then that's, like, that's just icky.

01:43:00.440 But, like, I don't really care, like, so what?

01:43:04.100 Like, you like to have sex, that's fine.

01:43:05.960 Like, if you, I think, like, to me, if there's a red flag, it's going to be, like, something in his personality rather than just some number that's attached to him.

01:43:13.000 Or her.

01:43:13.700 Like, I just, I personally don't care.

01:43:15.760 Yeah.

01:43:17.620 So, yeah.

01:43:18.080 Blair?

01:43:18.620 So, yeah.

01:43:20.620 If you ask me.

01:43:21.240 Should we take the crown off, by the way?

01:43:22.360 I mean, do you think?

01:43:23.540 I mean.

01:43:24.260 If the chat wants to.

01:43:25.280 Yeah.

01:43:25.540 Wait, should we leave it to the chat?

01:43:26.940 Chat.

01:43:27.160 Yeah, if chat, let us know if you want me to keep the hat on.

01:43:29.380 Yay or nay.

01:43:29.880 Or the crown.

01:43:30.420 Okay.

01:43:31.820 Yeah, so if you asked me this question maybe four or five years ago, I'd have a really different answer.

01:43:39.080 I kind of lean towards no, but sort of yes.

01:43:43.440 That's something I actually wrestle with quite a bit because I don't know what objectively high body count is.

01:43:48.860 So, like, if somebody told me, hey, like, I've slept with 20 guys.

01:43:53.240 Like, I don't know if that's high or not, right?

01:43:57.900 And some might say that a higher body count is reflective of who you are as a person.

01:44:04.400 I don't know if I fully agree with that, but sometimes it can be.

01:44:08.420 So, I'm kind of really in the middle of that issue.

01:44:12.840 Okay.

01:44:14.800 Oh, is this for Natasha?

01:44:16.840 Is that the real one?

01:44:19.080 Andrew Tate, I'm flying Natasha to Romania.

01:44:21.640 Pack your bags.

01:44:22.880 I'm ready, Tate.

01:44:25.460 Wait, so do you know who Andrew Tate is?

01:44:28.820 Of course.

01:44:30.120 And do you like Andrew Tate?

01:44:31.560 I don't hate him.

01:44:33.160 I don't dislike Andrew Tate.

01:44:34.420 Okay, fair enough, fair enough.

01:44:35.520 Okay.

01:44:36.500 Her DMs are open.

01:44:37.900 Wait, is that the real Andrew?

01:44:38.740 Is that the real Andrew?

01:44:39.260 No, I think it was just a poser guy.

01:44:41.260 But that, okay, so your guys' answer.

01:44:45.000 Very different, actually.

01:44:46.040 That's the body count question.

01:44:47.780 I mean, I think overwhelmingly, most of the women say, oh, body count doesn't matter.

01:44:53.620 Not at all.

01:44:54.200 Shouldn't matter at all.

01:44:55.140 And they get very defensive about it.

01:44:58.240 I think maybe it's because Natasha, she was the first one to answer, so that might have poisoned the well.

01:45:05.040 I guess that's the saying.

01:45:06.040 But anyways, I'm very impressed by your guys' answers.

01:45:10.280 So, yeah, I do think body count matters for a variety of reasons.

01:45:14.040 Should we go around and continue the body count and ask everyone?

01:45:18.020 What their body count is?

01:45:18.640 Should we continue that?

01:45:19.400 Is that?

01:45:19.880 Yeah.

01:45:20.420 We could.

01:45:21.360 I've already said mine, so.

01:45:23.260 Sure, why not?

01:45:24.380 Natasha.

01:45:25.140 I'm just starting to pot.

01:45:25.840 My body count is three.

01:45:26.840 Three, okay.

01:45:29.960 My body count is 13.

01:45:33.180 My body count is nine.

01:45:35.580 My body count is two.

01:45:38.000 Mine's six.

01:45:40.980 Guess.

01:45:41.980 Again.

01:45:42.400 Oh, fair.

01:45:44.040 Blair, your body count is seven.

01:45:46.320 We said it.

01:45:46.860 You have to say it.

01:45:47.400 Or wait, 11.

01:45:49.200 I want to say 11.

01:45:51.280 Two.

01:45:52.920 Oh, wow.

01:45:56.060 And my body count is I'm omitting this question.

01:46:01.020 I'm not going to answer this question.

01:46:02.000 That's actually interesting because.

01:46:03.400 I feel like you should definitely answer that.

01:46:04.660 A few of the podcasts ago, they say it doesn't matter.

01:46:07.460 But if it doesn't matter, then why don't you want to answer the question?

01:46:10.160 Right?

01:46:10.340 Because not everyone needs to know my business like that.

01:46:13.380 And that's true.

01:46:14.020 That's true.

01:46:14.500 Well, they all answered.

01:46:15.300 So, first off, props to you guys for answering the question.

01:46:18.220 Thank you.

01:46:19.420 People will judge, but it's fine.

01:46:20.340 I'm a man of God, so I cannot.

01:46:21.840 I refuse to answer that question.

01:46:24.100 But we answered.

01:46:25.840 That's true.

01:46:26.480 I think body count matters.

01:46:28.440 Thus.

01:46:29.480 Thus.

01:46:30.280 Yes.

01:46:31.720 And I, you know.

01:46:32.800 Okay, whatever.

01:46:33.260 Yeah, I'm a very discreet individual.

01:46:37.100 I don't kiss and tell.

01:46:38.360 Okay.

01:46:39.560 Also, I think we had Tyler Durden come in here.

01:46:42.840 Chat needs a fit check on all the girls.

01:46:45.320 I love Fight Club.

01:46:46.740 I mean, I'll leave that to the girls if you guys want to do a fit check.

01:46:51.940 I don't mind.

01:46:52.820 I think they want to see some of your tattoos, too, if you want to show off the tats.

01:46:56.260 I mean, if you guys want a tattoo.

01:46:57.420 Fit check.

01:46:57.940 A tattoo check.

01:46:58.880 Yeah, do a fit check.

01:47:00.040 Do I stand up?

01:47:01.060 Yeah.

01:47:01.260 Everybody stands up.

01:47:02.100 Yeah, get in there.

01:47:03.700 Get in there, yeah.

01:47:05.760 Well.

01:47:06.420 Cheese.

01:47:08.940 Now they're just in their bodies.

01:47:12.700 Blair.

01:47:13.600 Blair, you do a fit check, too.

01:47:15.260 Yeah, I think we want Blair, too.

01:47:20.900 Got white shoes on.

01:47:22.900 Oh, wow.

01:47:23.900 Blair, can you hit, like, a ziz pose for us?

01:47:28.180 Flock.

01:47:28.840 Yeah, Blair.

01:47:30.000 Myron.

01:47:30.400 And then I, what, did, okay.

01:47:34.660 How do you do a fit check?

01:47:36.460 You just kind of, like.

01:47:37.040 You kind of just tell them, like, what you're wearing.

01:47:39.240 Oh, okay.

01:47:40.260 I'm a boomer, so.

01:47:41.580 Oh, you actually.

01:47:42.920 It's okay.

01:47:43.340 So it's great.

01:47:43.720 No, I'm not.

01:47:44.060 I'm not actually.

01:47:46.480 Okay.

01:47:47.180 Chat, is that satisfactory?

01:47:49.240 Did they want a spin, if you want?

01:47:51.300 A spin?

01:47:51.720 If you want.

01:47:54.480 There you go.

01:47:55.060 All right, okay, all right, xxxxxdm is thoroughly satisfied.

01:48:07.780 Okay, let's pull up another clip from Natasha.

01:48:13.580 By the way, her TikTok is in the description, if you guys want to show her a little love,

01:48:17.900 give her a follow.

01:48:19.440 Go ahead and pull up the videos tab.

01:48:25.060 Bro, you're not going to get bitches if you're not in the gym.

01:48:36.940 I'm so fucking sorry to say it, but, like, if you're not getting gains, you're not getting

01:48:43.140 brain.

01:48:43.660 Like, that's how it is.

01:48:44.540 I actually like that.

01:48:47.440 That one was funny.

01:48:48.620 That one is my most popular one.

01:48:50.880 It got, like, 300K, which is my first, like, major attention grab.

01:48:55.880 Like, it's my biggest one.

01:48:57.160 There's a lot of skinny string being white boys.

01:48:59.220 I get a lot of play, though.

01:49:00.440 Yeah, and there's a lot of angry skinny men in my comments, so.

01:49:04.160 And there are.

01:49:06.400 Okay.

01:49:06.800 I, you know, it's funny, like, all of the guys in my comments who are, like.

01:49:13.320 They get triggered, right?

01:49:14.340 They get triggered, and then you go look at their profile, and they are unattractive, not

01:49:19.200 fit, and they don't really have much going for that.

01:49:21.180 And they have all the power to transform themselves.

01:49:24.700 Absolutely.

01:49:25.460 They do.

01:49:25.700 And that's what's upsetting.

01:49:26.280 It's, like, I'm here saying things that are factual.

01:49:30.080 I'm here saying things that could literally, the whole point of that TikTok was to motivate

01:49:33.820 dudes.

01:49:34.600 Yeah.

01:49:34.660 And for the gym bros, it did.

01:49:36.880 All of the guys that are going to the gym consistently, like, this hit home for them, and it made them

01:49:41.640 feel good.

01:49:42.160 It was, like, oh, this literally just motivated me to go to the gym today.

01:49:45.680 Like, thank you.

01:49:46.660 Like, they were just all over it.

01:49:48.860 And then the guys that don't, they were just hating on me, calling me mid, calling me a

01:49:54.200 two.

01:49:54.520 They were just being so disrespectful, and I'm, like, you're not, this message wasn't for

01:49:59.100 you.

01:49:59.660 This wasn't, like, geared towards you.

01:50:02.340 It hit my, it hit the people that I wanted it to hit, but.

01:50:05.780 I think you need to change your name on social media from, well, just change your last name

01:50:10.120 to, like, Tasha Tate.

01:50:12.800 I was thinking about that earlier today.

01:50:14.200 I was like, damn, Natasha Tate has a really good ring to it.

01:50:16.560 It actually kind of does, actually.

01:50:17.740 It kind of does.

01:50:18.140 There you go.

01:50:20.100 So, would you date a guy that he wasn't obese, he wasn't fat, but he didn't work out?

01:50:26.140 Is that a deal breaker for you?

01:50:28.440 I really value physical fitness.

01:50:31.280 And if he's not in the gym, what else is he doing for his physical health?

01:50:35.780 If he's not in the gym, what is he eating?

01:50:37.880 It's, like, it all just kind of has a ripple effect.

01:50:40.120 It just, it all ties in together.

01:50:41.940 And you work out, too, though.

01:50:43.340 I do, yeah.

01:50:44.060 So, it's not, like, a double standard for you.

01:50:45.720 Like, you work out, also.

01:50:46.820 I hold myself to that standard, as well.

01:50:49.160 Like, any standard that I hold myself to, I expect my partner to do that, as well.

01:50:52.920 So, that's me.

01:50:54.180 How much do you squat?

01:50:56.660 I really don't keep track of it.

01:50:58.700 I can do a couple plates.

01:50:59.980 Nothing too heavy.

01:51:00.800 I'm not trying to get big or whatever, but I love going to the gym.

01:51:04.660 Yeah, because you got some quads.

01:51:06.000 Thank you, yes.

01:51:06.720 Should we, should we?

01:51:08.320 Quad check.

01:51:09.400 Can we do a quad check?

01:51:11.200 Are you serious?

01:51:12.300 Can we do a quad check?

01:51:12.900 Just for Natasha.

01:51:13.540 I mean, I can't.

01:51:14.760 Let's do a quad check.

01:51:15.840 All right.

01:51:16.160 Can you hide the chat, Eric?

01:51:17.720 Hide the chat.

01:51:18.300 Hide the chat.

01:51:18.600 I don't know if it's going to be impressive.

01:51:20.320 I don't know.

01:51:22.120 Wait.

01:51:22.380 Oh, I see it.

01:51:23.120 There it is.

01:51:23.660 I just saw it.

01:51:24.220 You just did it.

01:51:25.360 Hold on.

01:51:26.340 Yep, there it is.

01:51:27.040 A little, I'll just sleep there.

01:51:29.040 Yeah, okay.

01:51:30.260 The camera's not.

01:51:31.480 Yeah.

01:51:32.320 Yeah, there it is.

01:51:33.800 Good job.

01:51:34.320 Seriously, good job.

01:51:35.180 That looks really good.

01:51:36.560 Okay.

01:51:36.880 So, I want to open it up to the rest of the panel on this thing.

01:51:43.280 Actually, super chat?

01:51:44.820 No, I'll get to the soup chat.

01:51:46.160 Glebis, thank you for the big $50 soup chat.

01:51:48.140 We will get right to it, though.

01:51:49.420 You're a fucking legend, man.

01:51:51.040 So, I want to open it up to you guys.

01:51:53.500 Is physical fitness important for you and a partner?

01:51:56.220 Would you like a guy that's at the gym, who's lifting, who's taking care of himself?

01:52:00.640 I mean, I seem like, that's kind of like a duh, right?

01:52:03.280 Like, of course.

01:52:03.980 I don't know.

01:52:04.440 Like, well, this, I don't know.

01:52:06.480 Some women might say they don't like muscles and stuff like that, you know?

01:52:10.300 I think that's Cap, dude.

01:52:11.760 Can I say something?

01:52:12.760 Sure.

01:52:13.260 So, I feel like this ties into the body count thing, and it's just like holding people accountable.

01:52:17.680 It's like, all the same people who are saying that going to the gym doesn't matter are the

01:52:21.380 same people that's saying that body count doesn't matter because they don't hold themselves

01:52:24.160 to that standard.

01:52:25.260 Because they don't want to, like, be, what is it called?

01:52:30.960 Disciplined.

01:52:31.540 They don't want to be disciplined.

01:52:32.540 They just want to do whatever they want, and they think that it doesn't matter.

01:52:35.360 Respectful answer.

01:52:35.940 Yeah.

01:52:36.320 Definitely.

01:52:36.880 I have a response to that.

01:52:38.720 I don't go to the gym.

01:52:41.540 I eat like shit.

01:52:46.040 If I'm eating, it's, like, not good.

01:52:50.860 And I don't care about body count, and I love the way my life is.

01:52:56.880 I love that I can indulge in sex or in eating chicken nuggets, so.

01:53:05.660 Hey, there you go.

01:53:06.380 Also facts.

01:53:06.880 Yeah.

01:53:07.280 There you go.

01:53:08.100 But I do like a guy who goes to the gym.

01:53:10.600 Or I don't like, like, you know, if whatever they want, because I'm not going to, like,

01:53:15.620 make them go to the gym, because I don't.

01:53:17.080 What if he's a 10 but wants you to go to the gym with him?

01:53:20.160 Oh, that's, uh, the guy I'm currently talking to has been.

01:53:24.680 Trying to get you in?

01:53:25.580 He, I've been going.

01:53:26.920 Oh, you have been going.

01:53:28.280 She's been going.

01:53:29.400 Uh, yeah, I walk on the treadmill while he likes.

01:53:32.480 You got to pick up those dumbbells.

01:53:33.620 We got to get those gains in.

01:53:34.940 Yeah.

01:53:35.380 Yeah.

01:53:35.780 Come on now.

01:53:36.520 Okay.

01:53:36.820 I mean, I, I really don't have a preference.

01:53:41.160 Like, if he does go to the gym, like, it is nice, I guess.

01:53:43.800 Like, the guy that I like, he goes to the gym, and I think it's nice.

01:53:47.440 Like, I just like when they have, like, you know, like, muscly arms.

01:53:51.420 Like, my ex had really nice arms, and, like, I'm fine with that, but I really don't have

01:53:55.040 a preference.

01:53:55.660 If he goes to the gym, sure, love that.

01:53:58.060 But if he doesn't go to the gym, then I'm still fine with that.

01:54:00.360 It's whatever.

01:54:01.980 It happens.

01:54:02.920 I mean, for me, it's not a deal breaker.

01:54:05.500 If you're, if you don't go to the gym, but I definitely, like, prefer a guy who is,

01:54:10.980 like, taking care of their body, and, like, really do take care of their, like, appearance

01:54:16.020 and stuff.

01:54:16.620 I don't know.

01:54:17.080 Like, and also, I think another reason is, like, you should really try hard to get the

01:54:22.020 best version of yourself when you're at your best age, especially, like, in 20, no,

01:54:27.700 in, like, 18, like, 20s.

01:54:30.940 I mean.

01:54:31.680 18, 20s?

01:54:32.360 Uh, no, I mean, like, in your age, like, 18 or 20s.

01:54:36.720 Oh, okay, I see.

01:54:37.400 I thought you were talking about, like, 17s.

01:54:38.340 Yeah, it's basically, like, your, like, physical peak.

01:54:42.060 So, I really do think you should try to see what's your best version to take care of

01:54:48.080 yourself.

01:54:48.660 Yeah.

01:54:48.880 Sure.

01:54:49.340 Yeah.

01:54:50.240 Yeah, I also.

01:54:51.240 Wait, hold on.

01:54:51.760 We skipped over Kiki.

01:54:53.480 Oh, Kiki.

01:54:55.120 No.

01:54:56.140 Okay.

01:54:56.920 Go ahead.

01:54:57.900 Yeah, I also don't really care about the gym that much.

01:55:01.100 I just, like, if you, like, are disgusting, like, that's one thing.

01:55:05.080 But if you, like, don't, like, lift every day, I don't, I don't care.

01:55:08.120 Like, it's, I am not picky.

01:55:10.160 I don't think it means you don't have discipline.

01:55:11.860 I just, like, think it means, like, you're just not a gym bro.

01:55:14.940 And, like, I'd love to deal with that.

01:55:17.540 I don't want to hear about, like, what is it?

01:55:20.080 Cutting and, what's the other one?

01:55:21.880 Bulking.

01:55:22.560 Bulking.

01:55:23.180 In two seconds, like, God damn.

01:55:25.100 Yeah, shout out to all the gym bros out there.

01:55:27.660 Hey, Blair, can we get a, just a quick ziz?

01:55:30.180 Okay.

01:55:30.560 Oh, no, just, you can stay seated.

01:55:32.220 Oh, okay.

01:55:33.020 Seated?

01:55:34.060 Yeah.

01:55:35.040 Boom.

01:55:35.440 Okay.

01:55:35.700 Yes.

01:55:36.480 Gains.

01:55:36.760 All right.

01:55:37.100 Gains.

01:55:37.360 By the way, did they say anything about the crown?

01:55:39.780 What was the consensus?

01:55:40.760 Yeah, they said keep it on.

01:55:41.960 The consensus was keep it on.

01:55:44.300 Yeah.

01:55:44.400 Okay.

01:55:45.520 Well, there you go.

01:55:47.260 Blair, I assume gym is important to you for your.

01:55:50.300 Yeah, but, I mean, she doesn't have to be training as much as I am.

01:55:54.600 Like, she can just kind of, you know, go here and there.

01:55:56.520 Doesn't have to be super as dedicated as I am.

01:55:59.780 But at least making an effort to take care of yourself.

01:56:02.320 And that kind of goes back to what I talked about, you know, drinking and drugs and things of that nature.

01:56:07.060 It's all kind of connected for me.

01:56:11.020 Okay.

01:56:11.860 Yeah.

01:56:12.720 Good times.

01:56:13.480 My girlfriend's a dancer.

01:56:14.460 So she, like, that's perfect.

01:56:16.520 You know?

01:56:17.560 So.

01:56:18.340 Let me get caught up on a couple super chats here just because we had quite a few come in.

01:56:22.740 I'm trying to remember.

01:56:23.760 Did we get this one from Mike Davis?

01:56:26.600 Yeah.

01:56:26.860 Yo, short King.

01:56:27.720 Shout out to Kevin Grant.

01:56:28.700 Shout out.

01:56:29.020 Yeah, we did.

01:56:29.500 Okay, it's this one here.

01:56:31.180 Glebis.

01:56:32.020 Wait.

01:56:33.160 No, we got this one, right?

01:56:35.040 Yeah, yeah.

01:56:35.480 Okay.

01:56:35.820 Sorry, guys.

01:56:36.200 Just catching up here.

01:56:37.880 Okay, we got that one.

01:56:39.580 Did we get this one?

01:56:40.500 I'm pretty sure we got the 20.

01:56:42.040 Inflated muscles, yeah.

01:56:43.320 Okay, sorry, guys.

01:56:44.140 I'm catching up here.

01:56:46.000 Got my order all messed up.

01:56:48.040 I think this is new.

01:56:49.260 Mike Davis, thank you for the $10 super chat.

01:56:51.060 I've encountered many such individuals over the years who talk reckless, but when it comes face-to-face, man-to-man, they crumble.

01:56:59.480 This lightweight will be no different.

01:57:02.360 All right, we have the Middleton versus Davis pay-per-view coming to you in a couple weeks.

01:57:09.700 It's a boxing match, guys.

01:57:11.400 Tune in.

01:57:12.680 There will be nunchucks and strong stars.

01:57:15.060 There's just going to be blood and just weapons and just mayhem the entire time.

01:57:18.520 He spent, like, what, 30 bucks just to say all of this?

01:57:22.160 Joe Haffman.

01:57:24.480 Everyone's Instagrams are in the description.

01:57:27.620 They forgot.

01:57:28.520 Okay, Mike Hawk.

01:57:29.860 Reminder, guys, just $10 and over.

01:57:32.700 John Deke with the $10 super chat.

01:57:34.200 Thank you, John.

01:57:35.180 Brian, if every man on earth based his decision to date a girl on body count, then what should happen to all the girls with high body counts should remain single forever?

01:57:42.600 Do they deserve less in life?

01:57:44.400 So, I mean, I don't, first off, I don't think women have any problem finding new partners, be it for casual sex or for long-term relationships.

01:57:55.560 Men have such low standards that it's really not going to be an issue for most women if they do, there's always sims, right?

01:58:03.400 There's a bunch of sims out there that they'll be fine with it.

01:58:07.280 So, what should happen to them?

01:58:09.940 I mean, I'm not saying there should be some law or something that should prevent women from freely having sex with people.

01:58:18.380 You should be free to do whatever you want, but in that same vein, men should be within their freedom to choose not to date women without high body count.

01:58:25.800 For some men, some men just don't care, though.

01:58:29.320 So, should they remain single forever?

01:58:31.400 I mean, no.

01:58:35.340 I mean, my advice to men would be, though, if a woman has a very high body count, for long-term commitment, I think you should be cautious entering into that because they've done tons of studies.

01:58:47.540 Someone who has a promiscuous past, someone who has a high body count, and they've done studies on this.

01:58:56.120 There's a greater likelihood of infidelity, greater likelihood of both men and women reporting relationship dissatisfaction, greater likelihood of the relationship breaking up, greater likelihood of divorce.

01:59:10.020 So, I mean, greater likelihood of an STD, and I just genuinely think, I mean, someone with a high body count is probably not a relationship-minded person.

01:59:24.480 And if you want a relationship with someone, you should try to date relationship-minded people.

01:59:28.000 So, do they deserve less in life?

01:59:30.960 No.

01:59:31.200 So, but I do think they're going to, they could encounter, I mean, a lot of people are, a lot of people, both men and women with high body count are probably just going to lie about their body count, too.

01:59:44.540 So, anyways.

01:59:47.440 Can I ask what, like, study you got those numbers from?

01:59:52.640 I don't think that, like, I don't know if, like, that's data that's, like, empirical.

01:59:58.380 I don't know if you can measure it like that.

01:59:59.840 I think it's more.

02:00:00.740 Well, I'm pretty sure they've, we do have it.

02:00:03.780 We're not going to pull it up, but we do have the infographic.

02:00:07.720 I can pull it up online just so I can tell you the source of it.

02:00:10.720 Okay.

02:00:11.160 So.

02:00:11.640 I would love to read it.

02:00:13.260 So, they've done some studies.

02:00:15.140 Let's see here.

02:00:17.820 Let me just see if I can find it.

02:00:21.760 Hold on.

02:00:22.920 Can I say one thing really quick?

02:00:24.460 Sure, go ahead.

02:00:24.980 So, I saw a comment from, like, I think his name was Joe Hackman saying the pandemic lost the love for dad bods.

02:00:36.000 That's completely wrong.

02:00:37.660 I love dad bods.

02:00:39.200 So, the dad bod trend is not, you know, ruined.

02:00:44.560 I think they deserve all the love of the world, and I love them the most.

02:00:48.300 So, I just wanted to say that really quick.

02:00:51.380 Okay.

02:00:51.540 Because I saw that and I was like, no.

02:00:54.060 The trend is not ruined.

02:00:55.000 So, the CDC did a study on this.

02:00:59.920 Women who have more non-marital sexual partners are more likely to have an STD, less likely to have stable marriages, less likely to be happy, and more likely to be depressed.

02:01:17.000 We're not going to pull it up right now, but the CDC did release a study on that.

02:01:20.500 The CDC is doing studies on body counts?

02:01:23.220 Oh, damn.

02:01:23.900 Shout out to CDC.

02:01:24.820 I think it was about.

02:01:26.220 It was primarily probably with the STDs, and then the other stuff was, you know, part of the study.

02:01:31.140 I think there's a few others.

02:01:32.500 But, anyways, let me get the super chat here.

02:01:36.820 GlebisLA, dude, thank you for the big $50 super chat, man.

02:01:39.920 You're a fucking legend.

02:01:40.680 I really appreciate your support week after week.

02:01:42.540 Thank you for coming by, man.

02:01:44.400 Brian, how hard is to buy name stickers for guests?

02:01:47.640 I remember your comment from last week.

02:01:49.260 Little black dress girl is gorgy, straight gorgy.

02:01:53.180 Okay, great dress.

02:01:54.640 Chinese girl forgot to wear something on top of her bra.

02:01:57.780 Thank you.

02:01:58.600 I got this beautiful corset from Victoria's Secret.

02:02:03.580 Okay.

02:02:05.340 Yeah, name stickers?

02:02:06.900 Do you mean like the, hello, my name is so-and-so?

02:02:10.600 Like on, or do you mean, what do you mean, Glebis?

02:02:13.640 What do you mean by that?

02:02:14.280 Yeah, I don't know.

02:02:15.540 I just feel like it might add another layer of complexity.

02:02:23.200 A whole bunch of prep you got to do to get to me.

02:02:24.260 Yeah, a little extra prep.

02:02:25.720 And then if they flake, like I'd want to do it a bit beforehand.

02:02:28.520 And then a lot, I don't know if you remember, like at the beginning, we had seven people flake today.

02:02:32.660 So it was like last minute getting some new people.

02:02:34.920 So there's some considerations there.

02:02:37.800 But thank you for the big $50 soup chat.

02:02:39.860 I'll consider it.

02:02:40.920 Maybe I could also, there could be some other way to do like an overlay.

02:02:45.760 That could be another thing.

02:02:47.080 I like that, yeah.

02:02:48.060 Mr. Mike Davis with the big $10 soup chat.

02:02:50.260 Brian, bring back Liv for a fit check.

02:02:53.720 She got a whole dump truck.

02:02:55.440 Damn, Mike.

02:02:56.240 The DMV wants a license plate.

02:02:58.100 I like that one.

02:03:00.200 That was funny.

02:03:01.280 Yeah.

02:03:01.720 You know what, Mike Davis?

02:03:02.880 Actually, Liv, she sent me a DM and we're going to get her back.

02:03:07.700 She was going to come last week on Thursday, but she got COVID.

02:03:11.720 So we're going to get her back soon.

02:03:13.480 And she actually mentioned you.

02:03:14.800 She mentioned your name specifically, Mike Davis.

02:03:17.980 So who knows?

02:03:19.080 Like I said, there's still an open invite to get you on the show if you guys want to.

02:03:23.180 Maybe I'll work some magic, try to coordinate so you're both on at the same time.

02:03:27.480 I'm just saying, okay.

02:03:29.020 Mike Davis is a fan.

02:03:30.600 Mike Davis is a legend.

02:03:34.000 Okay.

02:03:34.660 Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat.

02:03:36.160 Boy has to convince Blondie to hit the gym for cardio.

02:03:38.640 She low-key outed him that he ain't getting none.

02:03:42.120 Is that, do you want to respond to that?

02:03:43.840 I don't think that's it.

02:03:46.880 Did he have to convince you to go?

02:03:48.900 Yeah.

02:03:50.000 Well, he was like, no, just come.

02:03:51.560 But I just wanted to spend time with him.

02:03:53.420 So I don't mind.

02:03:55.600 Yeah.

02:03:55.860 You can learn about exercise and stuff.

02:03:58.000 Exactly.

02:03:59.020 Can we get some?

02:04:00.200 I don't really get it.

02:04:01.080 Like, why would he not be getting any if he has to convince me to go to the gym?

02:04:04.540 Can we get some pig emojis in the chat, boys?

02:04:06.800 I'm sorry.

02:04:08.020 It's an accident.

02:04:10.100 Pig emojis in the chat.

02:04:11.440 Oh, there we go again.

02:04:13.720 I'm so sorry.

02:04:15.660 No, it's fine.

02:04:16.500 It's fine.

02:04:16.900 Don't even trip.

02:04:17.540 Don't even trip.

02:04:18.740 Okay.

02:04:18.980 I want to watch.

02:04:19.760 I want us to react.

02:04:21.680 Don't pull it up quite yet, Eric.

02:04:23.320 Oh, my God.

02:04:24.200 I'm going to take emojis.

02:04:26.840 Here, let me.

02:04:27.680 I'll pull a couple of these up.

02:04:30.200 I'm just going to keep doing it.

02:04:34.440 Are you good?

02:04:36.120 Bust her kitty up.

02:04:37.100 Knee thick, knee back.

02:04:38.100 She gets thicker every time.

02:04:39.180 I don't think Sydney's going to come back.

02:04:42.420 She was going to come back last week, but I think she got work.

02:04:46.740 So she's super busy with work.

02:04:48.320 Sydney was a hella Chad.

02:04:49.740 There's multiple Sydneys, though.

02:04:51.580 The one on the Chase episode.

02:04:53.340 Oh, yeah.

02:04:53.960 She was super cool.

02:04:55.160 I kind of feel bad, Sydney, if you're watching.

02:04:57.200 I feel bad for the roast.

02:04:59.880 Oh.

02:05:01.960 Sydney, I was.

02:05:02.800 Come on.

02:05:03.240 It was a little funny.

02:05:04.540 But I feel you.

02:05:05.660 I feel you, though.

02:05:06.160 I feel like whenever you're talking about that stuff.

02:05:07.880 True.

02:05:08.300 People, yeah.

02:05:08.600 No, no.

02:05:09.040 That's.

02:05:09.480 Yeah.

02:05:09.780 So I feel bad for the roast.

02:05:11.540 But.

02:05:12.760 Oh, yeah.

02:05:13.240 We got a whole bunch.

02:05:13.740 She seemed to take it like a champ, you know.

02:05:16.480 So.

02:05:16.760 Hold on.

02:05:19.880 Okay.

02:05:20.680 We got.

02:05:21.880 Okay.

02:05:22.400 A lot of piggies.

02:05:23.480 Lulu, baby.

02:05:26.460 And, yeah, we'll get.

02:05:27.900 By the way, guys.

02:05:28.620 Kylie, we will get her back on.

02:05:32.020 Is it the speed bump comment?

02:05:34.140 Oh, okay.

02:05:34.720 I see.

02:05:35.420 What's that?

02:05:36.720 Do you want me to explain it?

02:05:39.680 There was a speed bump?

02:05:41.280 Yeah.

02:05:41.540 Well, can you explain it to us, Blair?

02:05:43.300 It seems like he wants to drive with Lulu here and hit a speed bump.

02:05:48.800 No, I get it.

02:05:49.320 Okay.

02:05:53.160 Wait, that's actually pretty funny.

02:05:54.340 Should we pretend we're in a car?

02:05:56.880 Okay.

02:05:59.340 Or Lulu?

02:06:00.700 Do I have to pretend we're in a car?

02:06:01.560 I guess you do.

02:06:02.440 I mean, the chat, you pretty much have to give in to all of the bands.

02:06:05.800 You have to give in to all of chat's demands, you know.

02:06:09.300 Do I have to?

02:06:10.400 No, you don't have to.

02:06:11.760 You don't have to.

02:06:13.100 If you want to, I mean.

02:06:14.780 I think it'd be pretty funny if I did.

02:06:16.600 Okay, I guess the verdict is in.

02:06:20.760 Go ahead.

02:06:20.980 No, don't do it.

02:06:21.700 No, I'm not going to do it.

02:06:23.860 I'm helping you out.

02:06:25.380 Jumping jacks?

02:06:26.600 That's a new one.

02:06:27.280 That's not a new one.

02:06:29.340 Trampoline bar need a night in my room.

02:06:31.400 I have a trampoline in my backyard if anybody wants to come over.

02:06:35.840 Okay.

02:06:37.120 I don't get this emoji.

02:06:39.060 I'm not sure what he means by that.

02:06:39.960 That's the East Rowland head.

02:06:41.260 I know that, but I don't quite get what he means.

02:06:44.680 Okay, Eric, go ahead and pull up the next video.

02:06:47.400 I think we'll react to one.

02:07:02.300 This is probably not going to be relatable at all.

02:07:04.360 But I am so immensely, ferociously, unexplainably anti-makeup.

02:07:09.460 And yes, I'm wearing mascara.

02:07:10.580 But that is all.

02:07:11.620 I'm just saying makeup does more harm than good for you.

02:07:14.320 Pay attention to what you're putting on your body.

02:07:16.700 Can we play it back?

02:07:17.920 I didn't.

02:07:18.240 The audio was a little choppy.

02:07:20.800 Basically, slurring my words here.

02:07:24.840 Basically, she was saying that, well, I mean, if you want to put it in your own words, but

02:07:28.840 that you don't like makeup.

02:07:31.340 Yeah, I don't like makeup.

02:07:33.140 I'm against makeup.

02:07:34.900 I don't think it's good for women.

02:07:36.540 And I don't think they really need to be using it, honestly.

02:07:40.960 I think it takes away.

02:07:41.960 Yes!

02:07:43.040 That's awesome!

02:07:44.500 I mean...

02:07:45.040 Who are you?

02:07:46.160 I think it takes away from a woman's natural beauty.

02:07:49.260 And also, it is so bad for you.

02:07:52.540 Like, you think about how skin absorbs things.

02:07:55.640 I had something to say about that, actually.

02:07:56.880 Do you think there's a correlation between makeup use and women's obsessiveness with, like,

02:08:04.080 skincare and stuff like that?

02:08:05.360 Do you think the makeup is, like, damaging their skin?

02:08:09.480 One thousand percent.

02:08:11.160 There is literally no question.

02:08:12.920 When you read the ingredients on a foundation bottle, what is in it?

02:08:16.280 You can't even pronounce it.

02:08:17.400 It's a bunch of crap that you're putting on your face.

02:08:20.540 And that is, in turn, making your skin worse.

02:08:23.900 So, you have to keep buying more foundation to cover up what it's creating.

02:08:27.760 Well, because I have eczema.

02:08:28.900 So, I'm always hyper-aware of what is going on my skin.

02:08:32.420 Yeah.

02:08:32.620 And so, you know, if you've got patches or acne or whatever, that's, I would think that

02:08:38.860 would definitely irritate your skin quite a bit.

02:08:40.780 Absolutely.

02:08:41.480 And then acne is something you can heal from being healthy.

02:08:46.580 That's true.

02:08:46.880 Taking care of yourself, what you eat, what you ingest, the toxins that you're putting

02:08:50.560 in your household.

02:08:51.560 Like, it's just, I don't know.

02:08:53.880 Makeup is, it's capitalizing on women's insecurities when it's something that they can

02:08:58.600 easily fix.

02:08:59.900 Good.

02:09:00.580 What about girls?

02:09:01.620 Who is this?

02:09:02.700 Okay.

02:09:03.940 So, I want to open it up to you guys.

02:09:07.860 Yeah.

02:09:08.380 What about girls who, like, like me, whenever I'm just bored, I'll do my makeup because it's

02:09:14.280 fun to do and I like actually putting it on and I like, you know, seeing it like, it's

02:09:20.220 an artistic outlet for me, I guess.

02:09:23.420 And like I do with my sister, it's just a fun thing to do.

02:09:28.140 I think that's completely valid.

02:09:29.360 I think music, you know, people make careers out of it.

02:09:32.620 I, I think makeup's awesome.

02:09:34.900 I think it can really elevate someone's, you know, a visual experience of like you're seeing

02:09:39.420 something being created and it's like, it can elevate an experience.

02:09:43.500 I think it is great.

02:09:44.580 But I think, you know, it's creating more problems for you.

02:09:51.040 I mean, it's making your skin worse.

02:09:54.140 It's making your hormones out of whack.

02:09:56.040 It's creating a lot of problems that are going on that you're fixing with other things when

02:10:00.340 you could literally fix it by decreasing the amount of toxins that you're putting on and

02:10:03.500 into your body.

02:10:04.040 Love that.

02:10:04.840 What's the difference between you wearing mascara and me wearing like brow jump though?

02:10:08.460 Yeah.

02:10:08.760 Because you're wearing mascara.

02:10:09.740 I mean, like it's the same concept.

02:10:11.300 I guess it would depend on what ingredients and what products she's using, I would say.

02:10:14.520 Okay.

02:10:14.800 Well, what if I'm like using like vegan, like really?

02:10:17.140 I mean, I feel like if anything, it's like the makeup industry's problem, not makeup.

02:10:22.380 I don't think it's inherently makeup's fault.

02:10:24.520 I think it's how the makeup industry chooses to market their products to consumers.

02:10:30.060 I don't think that like just wearing foundation.

02:10:32.900 The whole point of that video was just to say that I don't like makeup because it creates

02:10:38.460 problems for women.

02:10:39.540 It's creating problems for your health.

02:10:43.040 That was all it was to say.

02:10:44.300 It wasn't to hate on girls that do do makeup or that like it.

02:10:47.540 Well, I mean, it's one of those things too where, you know, wearing it a couple of times

02:10:51.840 isn't going to have any acute damage, but maybe think, consider decades and decades of

02:10:58.120 applying these things to your face, you know, that's the same thing, the same thing with

02:11:03.140 food, you know, think about not to deter from the topic a little bit, but think about

02:11:07.200 the food you eat, right?

02:11:08.260 What kind of chemicals the FDA is approving in our foods here in America, that's not going

02:11:12.340 to harm you acutely, but over time, 20, 30 years, you're eating crap.

02:11:18.320 That's going to accumulate in you.

02:11:20.340 So, I think, yeah, there might be correlation with that.

02:11:24.820 I personally, you know, like I can understand when like some people think that like makeup

02:11:31.500 has like a problem for the skin, like, yeah, like if you're like, you know, like I'll be

02:11:35.360 honest, I sleep in my makeup sometimes, I get lazy, I'm not going to take it off when

02:11:38.780 I'm like really drunk and I'm just going to go to bed.

02:11:40.880 Am I going to do my three, five step skincare?

02:11:44.800 No, I'm just going to go to bed.

02:11:46.400 But, I mean, in my opinion, I think makeup is just like a fun part of my everyday routine.

02:11:54.160 Like, I love to do my makeup because like Charlotte said, it's like an artistic outlet for me and

02:11:59.980 I'm always excited to do like, you know, like, I don't know, like what am I going to do next?

02:12:06.080 Like when I go out, especially, I'm always excited to see like what kind of eye look I

02:12:09.520 can do, et cetera.

02:12:10.980 But I don't know.

02:12:12.440 I think makeup is definitely like an artistic outlet and I think it's a whole fun, different.

02:12:19.940 I can't think of the word, but it's just, it's a different thing that like a lot of people

02:12:25.740 can do different things with.

02:12:27.740 Yeah.

02:12:28.140 And I think, I think a lot of people can put their own abilities into that also.

02:12:32.960 So, and yeah, like it can be harmful for your skin, especially if you're not like, like

02:12:38.800 say if you're allergic to it and you don't know, yeah, that's harmful for it.

02:12:42.760 But I think it's also like a really good outlet for artistic people to like kind of showcase

02:12:48.700 their art.

02:12:50.120 I agree.

02:12:50.880 But how many people are actually using makeup to showcase their art rather than hide and

02:12:55.880 insecurity?

02:12:56.740 That's also true.

02:12:57.520 I feel like that's a generalization though.

02:12:59.420 Yeah.

02:12:59.920 And like also like going, I mean, I don't know, like going on the hormone thing, like

02:13:03.480 just wearing makeup, like.

02:13:04.780 That's not going to affect your hormones.

02:13:05.900 I'm sorry.

02:13:07.040 Wash it off.

02:13:07.360 Or even if it does, like so does our period and that's all natural.

02:13:10.580 Like so does like birth control.

02:13:11.920 It's like, I don't, who cares if like my fucking $20 skin tint is like going to give me pimples

02:13:16.080 or something.

02:13:16.840 Wearing a bunch of makeup, putting a bunch of chemicals on your body that aren't meant to be

02:13:22.720 on your body for the, like your entirety of your life, it's not natural.

02:13:26.800 It's not normal.

02:13:28.700 It's not normal at all.

02:13:30.160 But I love it.

02:13:31.180 If I have to say that.

02:13:33.620 You know what?

02:13:34.220 That's great.

02:13:34.960 You know, that's awesome.

02:13:35.820 It's, it's a lot of fun for me.

02:13:37.580 Like I take great care of my skin and I still like when it comes to my time of the month

02:13:42.740 around my chin, I'm going to get some, I'm going to get some fucking pimples a thousand

02:13:46.980 percent.

02:13:47.300 But also concealer helps me like get rid of that.

02:13:51.780 And like it helps hide that if that makes any sense.

02:13:54.840 And it makes me feel more confident.

02:13:56.800 I'm confident in my own skin, like without any makeup on, I, a thousand percent, I'll

02:14:01.680 go outside without makeup on all the time, all the fucking time.

02:14:05.080 But like, I'll also go to outside with makeup on like it, it's nothing to do with like insecurities.

02:14:11.020 It's just kind of like, I do it for myself.

02:14:13.460 I don't do it for anybody else.

02:14:14.940 So I stepped away there for a bit.

02:14:16.720 Did you have an opportunity to come in on this yet?

02:14:18.760 Yeah.

02:14:18.960 I do agree about part of Natasha's point.

02:14:23.500 Like, yeah, like this kind of products maybe like could harm our skin.

02:14:30.200 And I actually, I did a documentary about like makeup, like having what kind of impact on

02:14:36.660 women.

02:14:37.460 And I do think it is like, it increases your anxiety and depression.

02:14:42.500 Like when you, when you are trying to like hide your imperfections.

02:14:46.920 But another point I disagree with is that how, you know, like you put the makeup on about

02:14:54.860 your acne and your acne got like more serious for me, I've been struggling with like my acne

02:15:01.860 problem for over five years.

02:15:03.680 And I do know it's not about, not about my like schedule, like, uh, like personal hobby

02:15:12.540 or my sleeping schedule.

02:15:14.700 It's just my genetic thing.

02:15:16.480 Yeah.

02:15:17.000 Like something is, is this have nothing was makeup.

02:15:21.740 I mean, and, and also like, I do know how people are struggle with their problems on

02:15:28.960 their face.

02:15:29.520 So I do think like makeup is working like to, you know, help people to build, rebuild their

02:15:36.620 confidence.

02:15:37.680 Yeah.

02:15:38.240 That's just for my personal experience.

02:15:40.280 Cause I've been like struggle with acne for a super long time.

02:15:43.180 Yeah.

02:15:43.440 And I do get that kind of feeling like, oh, you put makeup on and you see like the perfect

02:15:48.860 version of your skin.

02:15:49.960 You're like so happy.

02:15:50.960 You, it's kind of like light up your day, you know?

02:15:53.780 Yeah.

02:15:54.080 There's pros and cons to it.

02:15:55.600 I mean, there's nothing that doesn't have pros and cons to it.

02:15:58.300 Like makeup definitely does, but it's like, I mean, I don't think there's a problem with

02:16:03.640 someone who definitely has a face full of makeup on and compared to someone who has like nothing

02:16:08.820 on.

02:16:09.180 I mean, it's all at like the end of the day.

02:16:11.380 It's a personal, it's a personal preference.

02:16:13.440 Natasha, your answer to them or your response.

02:16:17.420 I stand by what I said in the video.

02:16:19.900 I mean, makeup, if you're saying that makeup isn't harming your skin or your mental health,

02:16:24.240 then you're lying to yourself.

02:16:25.660 That's how I feel about it.

02:16:27.320 Makeup has never affected my skin and I've worn it since I was like 14.

02:16:30.880 There are some people who are genetically blessed.

02:16:32.520 What if it's impacting it in a way that you're not aware of?

02:16:35.080 Okay, then I'm not aware of it and I don't care about it.

02:16:38.320 See, like it looks fine to me, so I don't care with or without makeup.

02:16:45.880 Okay.

02:16:48.060 Blair, there's been some comments here that Mike Davis asserted that you wear makeup.

02:16:54.160 Yeah.

02:16:54.400 No, I don't wear makeup, but I have a sister who wears makeup, so you know, when you live

02:17:03.100 with your sister, you hear about these kind of things and yeah.

02:17:07.220 You know what?

02:17:07.920 Let's open it up to the guys here and by guys, I mean the two of us.

02:17:14.100 Do you like women that wear a lot of makeup or any makeup?

02:17:20.340 Not really, like, well, because my girlfriend is, I prefer her without makeup.

02:17:25.900 Like she looks great with makeup and natural, so I can speak on that.

02:17:30.980 But when they got like excessive amounts of eyeliner and just a really big false lashes,

02:17:36.960 it's just a little too much, you know.

02:17:40.540 What's that thing that makes it look like you're blushing?

02:17:43.240 What is that thing called?

02:17:44.000 Blush.

02:17:45.620 Pardon my man this, but.

02:17:47.320 Blush.

02:17:47.680 Yeah, I've just seen some chicks with just like way too much blush and they just look

02:17:51.160 like a clown, so, you know.

02:17:53.960 Wear a little mascara here and there, a little highlighter, do your thing, a little glitter

02:17:57.000 or whatnot, but don't overdo it, you know.

02:17:59.480 I want to ask the girls a question and we're going to start on this end.

02:18:03.560 Do you wear makeup for you or do you wear makeup for men?

02:18:10.520 Wait, where are we starting?

02:18:11.600 I'm sorry.

02:18:12.140 Here?

02:18:12.460 Yeah, with you.

02:18:13.060 Oh, for me.

02:18:13.700 I don't give a shit about like if men think I look good with makeup or without it.

02:18:17.500 Like, if they think I look ugly without makeup, then like, fuck you.

02:18:20.440 I don't want to talk to you.

02:18:21.180 I just like how I look with it.

02:18:22.400 I like making my eyelashes darker and look longer and I like putting blush on and making

02:18:26.580 my face.

02:18:27.020 I just think, I just prefer how I look with makeup on.

02:18:30.220 Yeah.

02:18:31.660 For me, I do think.

02:18:34.680 It doesn't have to, by the way, it doesn't have to be all or nothing.

02:18:37.140 I mean, obviously, you can say that maybe 50%.

02:18:43.280 Yeah, I mean, like 99.99% is for myself because after I put my makeup on, like, work out, I feel

02:18:50.260 like confident.

02:18:51.100 I'm beautiful.

02:18:51.660 I'm slaying.

02:18:52.200 And, like, I'm, and also, I think I'm not the left, like, zero, 0.01.

02:19:02.020 Zero, zero, zero.

02:19:02.820 Yeah, yeah.

02:19:04.400 I mean, like, honestly, just tell the truth.

02:19:07.940 Like, everyone won't get attention, right?

02:19:10.500 If, like, people are paying attention to you, like, you're happy.

02:19:13.620 If a guy or girl, like, compliment, oh, your makeup look beautiful today, like, you're

02:19:18.360 beautiful today, like, of course you're happy.

02:19:20.380 Everyone's happy with compliments.

02:19:22.200 So, yeah.

02:19:22.920 Okay.

02:19:23.200 So, you're saying there's a subconscious desire to wear makeup to get complimented.

02:19:27.500 Is that?

02:19:29.340 No.

02:19:29.980 I mean, like, 90% of my life, I don't wear any makeup.

02:19:34.100 Yeah.

02:19:34.840 Go ahead.

02:19:36.040 I personally just wear makeup for myself, like.

02:19:40.000 But, you know, like, there's no component, there's not even a sliver of a component of

02:19:44.640 it being, you want to appear more attractive to men.

02:19:48.680 No.

02:19:49.480 Not even a.

02:19:50.220 I will, I will 100% go out to DP with no makeup on.

02:19:53.700 I do not mind.

02:19:54.160 That was my next question, actually.

02:19:55.300 Yeah.

02:19:55.440 I do not care.

02:19:56.040 You go out to DP, go to the club, like, no makeup, right?

02:19:58.340 I will 100% go to the DP.

02:19:59.860 Massive respect.

02:20:00.080 I will 100% go to the club, DP, a bar, I don't care, with no makeup on.

02:20:03.560 Okay.

02:20:03.720 Because I feel like the makeup just doesn't define me.

02:20:05.820 I do makeup for myself.

02:20:07.100 I do it because I think it's fun.

02:20:08.640 Do I think I look pretty in it?

02:20:10.220 Yeah.

02:20:10.540 But I think I look just as pretty without my makeup on.

02:20:13.300 Yeah.

02:20:13.940 Honestly, like, for me, like.

02:20:17.860 For me, it's like, it's like, I brush my, it's like, a way for me to, like, wake up.

02:20:25.680 And it's like, part of my morning routine.

02:20:27.100 Wait, what, what, was there a chat?

02:20:28.960 It said, can Blondie stick out her tongue?

02:20:31.060 Oh.

02:20:31.680 Was I not supposed to do that?

02:20:33.000 No, you can't.

02:20:34.380 Give the people what they want, you know?

02:20:35.720 Doing it for free.

02:20:37.020 Yeah, make them pay you for it.

02:20:38.440 What is that ace all the girls make?

02:20:39.920 Ahi Gao?

02:20:40.560 Oh, don't.

02:20:41.640 What is Ahi Gao?

02:20:42.500 Wait.

02:20:43.040 I don't, it's like, am I pronouncing it?

02:20:46.080 Ahi Gao, I think.

02:20:47.040 Ahi Gao.

02:20:47.920 What is that?

02:20:48.220 I don't know what that is.

02:20:48.780 It's like, you cross your eyes, you kind of look up, and then you stick out your tongue.

02:20:53.320 Wait.

02:20:54.380 Sounds like someone's talking about it.

02:20:54.920 Do you want to do it?

02:20:56.360 I don't know.

02:20:57.160 No, I don't.

02:20:57.680 There's going to be screen caps of that if she does that.

02:21:00.240 It's like.

02:21:02.020 Okay.

02:21:05.380 Yeah, okay.

02:21:06.120 So, okay, makeup.

02:21:07.160 Yeah, it's like, it's like, it's how I get ready in the morning.

02:21:11.100 It's like how I know I'm starting my day, and it's just kind of a part of my morning

02:21:16.840 now.

02:21:17.080 It's like I brush my teeth every day.

02:21:18.920 I do my makeup every day.

02:21:20.800 Got it.

02:21:21.520 Yeah.

02:21:21.820 And I mean, we kind of know your answer to this a little bit.

02:21:24.580 So, do you think that women wear makeup to some degree to be more attractive for men?

02:21:32.120 Absolutely.

02:21:32.880 Like, I've never seen a girl out at a party not wearing makeup, and anyone who says that

02:21:37.620 they would, I just don't feel like that's the truth.

02:21:39.760 If, you know, like, maybe you say you would, but would you really do it?

02:21:45.000 Right.

02:21:45.500 I mean, I'm sure we've got pictures of us somewhere without makeup on DP together.

02:21:49.400 I'm not going to lie.

02:21:49.640 I don't know what DP is.

02:21:50.980 Wait, what is that?

02:21:51.320 It's the party street here.

02:21:52.780 Oh, okay.

02:21:53.300 Yeah, DP, it's not the other thing, guys.

02:21:57.720 It's Del Playa.

02:21:59.840 Del Playa Drive.

02:22:01.660 So, I want to ask the girls again.

02:22:03.820 And so, one thing I heard last week from one of the panelists was something along the

02:22:10.140 lines of, men should pay on first dates because we put in more effort to get ready for the

02:22:15.100 date by, for example, putting makeup on.

02:22:17.920 We have to put on makeup.

02:22:19.320 Makeup costs money.

02:22:20.980 So, and she's, the girl who said that, she's not here.

02:22:25.020 Was it you?

02:22:25.900 No, I don't think it was you.

02:22:27.100 I'm trying to remember.

02:22:27.760 I remember that one.

02:22:28.620 Yeah, so she said something along the lines of, men should pay for first dates because

02:22:32.640 it takes us, it takes women a lot more work to get ready because of makeup.

02:22:38.160 I disagree with the reasoning for that, but so, and I know none of you have said that yet,

02:22:44.460 but I, my question to you would be, how can someone, I don't want to put words in any

02:22:50.300 of your mouth, but how can someone simultaneously say that I don't wear makeup for men, but then

02:22:56.120 also say, well, guys should pay for me on first dates because I put on makeup.

02:23:01.680 I don't think guys necessarily need to pay for the date because you put on makeup.

02:23:05.840 I think, like, I mean, whoever asked you on the date should pay for the date.

02:23:10.840 I don't think it necessarily has to be the guy because you put on, or something.

02:23:14.140 I just, I don't know.

02:23:14.980 I think that's a weird concept.

02:23:16.660 I mean, I don't know, like, I can pay for the date too.

02:23:23.400 Okay.

02:23:25.860 Yeah, I feel like if he's asking me to go on a date, like, oh, like, do you want to go

02:23:31.640 get dinner with me?

02:23:32.620 Then, like, you're asking me to go.

02:23:35.480 Sure.

02:23:35.640 Shouldn't you pay for it?

02:23:36.940 I don't really think it has to do with makeup, though.

02:23:39.700 Okay.

02:23:40.360 Yeah, I mean.

02:23:40.840 Or, like, getting ready, or, like, I don't know.

02:23:42.780 I mean, it is nice, but most of the time on a first date, I'll be like, oh, I can get

02:23:48.600 mine.

02:23:49.260 Yeah.

02:23:49.880 Because, I mean, I very commonly, I hear both things.

02:23:52.620 So, I hear women say, I don't wear makeup for men.

02:23:55.400 And then I've also heard a lot of women say, men should pay on the first date because I'm

02:24:00.280 spending all this money and all this time getting ready.

02:24:02.400 Which is a choice.

02:24:03.300 Yes.

02:24:03.720 One of the chief ways women get ready for a date is putting on a face of makeup.

02:24:07.800 So, for me, those are two sort of counter positions to take.

02:24:13.440 So, Natasha, you want to come in on this real quick?

02:24:16.440 Well, for women to say, like, he should pay for the first date because I put on so much

02:24:20.700 makeup and I get ready and I'm, you know, putting myself together for him, it's like,

02:24:25.900 that's, you're undermining what men put in for dates and what, I mean, guys put in work.

02:24:37.800 To take girls out, you know.

02:24:39.920 You have to get the money.

02:24:41.540 You have to plan the date.

02:24:43.980 Men are also putting themselves together.

02:24:46.080 I think women just want to be catered to.

02:24:47.920 Well, and to kind of echo that, the individual said, oh, well, we're putting on all this effort

02:24:53.320 with our makeup and whatnot.

02:24:55.440 Put effort elsewhere, like, towards the date.

02:24:57.900 Yeah.

02:24:58.160 You know what I mean?

02:24:58.700 Absolutely.

02:24:58.960 So, yeah.

02:25:01.040 Yeah, I mean, guys definitely have to do a decent amount before the date, too.

02:25:05.240 You know, shower, shave, style hair, get dressed, smell good.

02:25:08.860 But getting ready, it's like, you were going to do that anyways.

02:25:11.100 Yeah.

02:25:11.260 Why are you using that as an excuse for why he should pay?

02:25:14.260 You're going to do that anyways.

02:25:15.960 I don't know.

02:25:16.780 Good point.

02:25:17.600 Good point.

02:25:19.080 What if you gave a woman a paint pass?

02:25:22.300 So she, like, you're like, listen, you don't have to put on makeup.

02:25:25.900 I've told girls that before, actually.

02:25:28.140 I'm like, because I don't like makeup.

02:25:30.960 Not a fan.

02:25:31.940 Honestly, anything more than a little, like, mascara or eyeliner, that's, to me, that's,

02:25:36.280 I'm kind of let down, not going to lie.

02:25:38.600 They can wear whatever they want, but there's a few reasons.

02:25:42.740 One, it's just, I'm going to get heat for this.

02:25:45.740 Makeup is essentially deception.

02:25:47.440 It's essentially a lie.

02:25:50.340 Essentially.

02:25:50.940 I mean, that's going to be, that's a little bit.

02:25:54.220 You could argue that for beards for guys, too, though.

02:25:56.480 Yeah.

02:25:57.000 Yeah, totally.

02:25:57.380 I'd say, like, beards is, like, makeup for guys.

02:25:59.260 I don't know, because a beard is a natural.

02:26:01.620 It's a natural thing that occurs on a man's body.

02:26:03.740 Okay, well, yeah, but it's, I mean, it does the same thing as makeup.

02:26:06.760 It, like, changes your face.

02:26:08.740 I mean, yeah, it can hide a weak chin, for sure.

02:26:11.020 That's like saying a girl, like, growing her eyebrows out is, like, you know what I mean?

02:26:15.220 Like, that's a natural thing that happens for men.

02:26:17.320 It's not hiding your face.

02:26:19.140 Yeah.

02:26:19.800 But, I mean, I think what.

02:26:21.720 She's sort of, kind of.

02:26:23.280 What that's more similar to would be, like, if a man is thinning, he's going bald,

02:26:27.020 wears a hat to cover his head, kind of thing, you know?

02:26:30.500 Word.

02:26:31.620 Word.

02:26:32.560 Yeah, no, I've actually, I've told girls before, like, hey, you don't have to wear makeup on

02:26:37.260 the date.

02:26:37.680 Like, I don't care.

02:26:38.240 Don't wear any.

02:26:39.220 Sometimes they get upset by that.

02:26:42.020 But I'm not saying you have to.

02:26:46.140 I'm just saying, hey.

02:26:46.980 I actually have something to ask on this subject.

02:26:49.840 Sure.

02:26:50.000 What do you all feel about men with, like, a toupee, or they, like, dye their beard, or

02:26:58.240 they, like, spray their beard to make it look full, you know, things of that nature.

02:27:05.840 Because those procedures do this, actually.

02:27:07.860 They, like, literally spray their face to make it look like it's dark.

02:27:10.300 Well, I feel like if you're wearing a toupee, or you have to, like, dye your beard or something,

02:27:14.380 then you're, like, 30 years older than me.

02:27:15.860 So, I would stay away from that at this point in my life.

02:27:21.560 One time, my cousin, he is only, like, I don't know how old is he, like, 27 or something.

02:27:29.100 And he's balding, and he got one of those, like, glue-in things.

02:27:32.180 Yeah.

02:27:32.600 That's what I'm talking about.

02:27:33.520 And it actually looks good, and it makes him a lot more confident, and he looks really

02:27:39.200 good, and he feels good.

02:27:40.740 So, I don't mind it.

02:27:42.420 Yeah.

02:27:42.640 Honestly, if you're wearing a toupee, and you have to dye your, or you have to, like, dye

02:27:45.940 your beard, or you have to, like, alter it in some way.

02:27:47.920 Or, like, draw your lineup, like, on your forehead.

02:27:49.960 Yeah.

02:27:50.240 Get your lineup.

02:27:50.880 Some folks will, like, take a black pen and literally draw the lineup on their head.

02:27:55.720 Honestly, if you feel more confident about yourself, and you feel happy when you do it,

02:28:00.440 as long as they're happy, I'm fine with it.

02:28:02.660 Like, I'm not going to hate someone for doing something that makes them feel happy and more

02:28:07.200 confident in their skin, because that would just be, like, hypocritical, like, back on

02:28:10.980 the makeup.

02:28:11.520 Like, when I do my makeup, that makes me feel like I do it for myself.

02:28:15.280 Sometimes, yeah, it makes me feel confident.

02:28:16.760 It's awesome.

02:28:17.620 But, like, am I going to hate on someone for, like, dyeing their beard, dyeing their hair,

02:28:21.520 or getting a toupee?

02:28:22.320 No.

02:28:23.180 That's fine.

02:28:23.980 I mean, it doesn't really matter.

02:28:26.160 Yeah.

02:28:26.660 Good take.

02:28:26.980 Can I ask you guys a question?

02:28:28.220 So, what do you think about if a guy wore a muscle suit?

02:28:36.660 I need you to elaborate on that more.

02:28:38.460 Like, do you mean, like, a muscle suit under his clothes?

02:28:41.560 Yeah.

02:28:41.700 So, you didn't know he was wearing a muscle suit?

02:28:43.260 Is it, like, when girls wear, like, butt pads?

02:28:45.180 Yes.

02:28:45.700 Like, butt pads.

02:28:46.420 Oh, so, like, underneath their shirt or something?

02:28:49.120 He's got, like, shoulder pads, like a chest, that make his chest look bulgy.

02:28:52.860 Right?

02:28:53.120 I feel like that's kind of almost an equivalent to makeup.

02:28:56.640 Nah, that's way...

02:28:57.860 No, I feel like that's different.

02:29:00.620 That's, like, such an extra step.

02:29:02.300 No, that's, like, if I wore butt pads, that's the equivalent to, like, the muscle stuff.

02:29:10.500 But guys can't really wear makeup.

02:29:12.280 I mean, they can.

02:29:13.040 They theoretically could.

02:29:14.080 They could, but most women would probably find that unattractive for a man to wear makeup.

02:29:20.680 Maybe not always.

02:29:21.400 Do you look at Prince or MJ?

02:29:23.240 But, I mean, these are, like...

02:29:24.700 But they're also celebrities.

02:29:25.920 Celebrities.

02:29:26.740 They're artists.

02:29:28.100 They're creative.

02:29:28.980 So, they get a bit more leeway.

02:29:30.500 And they have a shit ton of status, so...

02:29:32.000 You guys never seen Diary of a Wimpy Kid?

02:29:34.840 Roderick, when he wears the eyeliner?

02:29:36.220 Yeah.

02:29:36.620 Yeah, I haven't.

02:29:37.760 That's so hot.

02:29:38.300 That is so hot.

02:29:39.420 I have no idea what you're talking about.

02:29:40.320 I have a guyliner.

02:29:41.500 If they can pull it off, yeah.

02:29:43.500 I've never seen Diary of a Wimpy Kid.

02:29:45.580 Really?

02:29:46.460 I have a huge thing for Roderick.

02:29:48.000 I just want to say, nobody find my senior yearbook photo.

02:29:53.100 Okay, so moving on.

02:29:53.420 Everybody find his senior yearbook photo right now.

02:29:56.000 Moving on.

02:29:58.520 Where are we?

02:29:59.420 Should we do...

02:30:00.420 Oh, Blair.

02:30:01.160 Blair had a video he wanted us to react to.

02:30:03.840 So, we're going to pull it up.

02:30:05.000 Go to videos.

02:30:05.720 The comments under this video have been distasteful, disgusting, and outright disrespectful.

02:30:25.980 Okay, so, Blair, can you explain the kind of context for that video, what's going on there?

02:30:33.160 Yeah, I mean, just for context, I just saw this and thought it was funny.

02:30:38.120 Okay, that's all it is.

02:30:41.360 So, basically, she's saying, you know, I don't want a shrimp dick or whatever, you know, and

02:30:46.560 she's entitled to that.

02:30:48.160 And then the guy...

02:30:49.500 She's also playing this Cartman thing, which is talking about midgets.

02:30:52.840 Exactly, yeah.

02:30:54.160 And then the dude's like, oh, I don't want eight-cup titties, and then she gets all bent

02:30:58.100 out of shape about it.

02:31:00.120 And I find that inconsistency very interesting and funny.

02:31:04.460 Why is it an inconsistency for you?

02:31:07.040 Well, it's the same thing.

02:31:08.980 It's body-shaming on both ends of the spectrum, you know?

02:31:12.520 So, you know, you could say, oh, well, I don't want a little dick, but then if a man

02:31:19.980 doesn't want to date an overweight woman or whatever preference he has, then it's...

02:31:22.620 It's all hell breaks loose.

02:31:24.280 Yeah.

02:31:24.500 And the funny thing is, is at the end, she's all upset about the people in her comments.

02:31:28.860 Right.

02:31:29.480 When it's like, you kind of, like, invited that criticism, you know?

02:31:34.680 So...

02:31:35.280 I thought that'd be an interesting topic or an interesting thing to react to here.

02:31:38.520 So, I mean, there's two things there.

02:31:39.640 There's the sound, which is Cartman talking about short men, essentially.

02:31:44.400 And then there's also the peen size.

02:31:46.500 So, we can go into both of those real quick.

02:31:50.160 Let's talk a bit about height.

02:31:52.300 So, for you, do you have a height preference?

02:31:55.180 Do you have, like, minimum height for a guy?

02:31:57.420 Minimum six feet.

02:31:58.440 None of this wolf at me, by the way.

02:32:00.280 How tall are you, Blair, by the way?

02:32:02.360 I am a whopping five-five.

02:32:04.940 Woo!

02:32:05.280 Okay.

02:32:05.640 Manlet gang represent.

02:32:07.240 Manlet's in the chat.

02:32:08.160 Short kings.

02:32:09.440 We love our short kings.

02:32:11.400 I'm six feet, but I'm part of the solidarity movement.

02:32:16.300 So, with short men.

02:32:18.520 Okay.

02:32:19.420 Honestly, so, and I'll tell you why.

02:32:21.560 If I see a girl on a dating app, and she says anything about height, I don't care how fucking

02:32:27.460 babe status she is.

02:32:29.040 Boom.

02:32:30.360 Not right, left swipe?

02:32:32.300 Left swipe.

02:32:32.780 Whatever.

02:32:33.700 Anyways, minimum height for you.

02:32:36.480 Me?

02:32:36.900 Yeah.

02:32:38.900 Microphone?

02:32:39.340 There really isn't one.

02:32:40.980 I'm pretty short.

02:32:41.860 I'm, like, 5'4".

02:32:43.340 But, like, you know, I've been with a guy who's, like, 5'5".

02:32:48.040 And, yeah, I couldn't wear my platform slippers around him.

02:32:50.880 But why not, though?

02:32:52.820 Just to play devil's advocate.

02:32:54.420 It's, like, a little weird to be taller than the guy.

02:32:57.200 Why is that weird, though?

02:32:58.100 I don't want to go like that when I'm kissing him.

02:33:00.720 Like, I want to go like that, you know?

02:33:02.460 But I don't mind the same height.

02:33:03.940 Also, I like short guys.

02:33:05.140 I think short guys are funnier.

02:33:06.360 I think they're nicer.

02:33:07.200 And you're, so you're 5'4".

02:33:09.920 Yeah, so.

02:33:10.760 So that's very, that's pretty short.

02:33:12.220 Yeah.

02:33:12.820 Like, you know, I'm, I'll take anything as long as it's taller than me.

02:33:16.820 She'll take anything.

02:33:17.780 And, and they have a really good personality and they treat me right.

02:33:21.140 Okay.

02:33:21.720 But, you know, and, like, like, yeah.

02:33:24.140 I'd, like, kiss someone who's, like, 6'7".

02:33:25.960 And that's, like, kind of uncomfortable.

02:33:28.380 Go ahead.

02:33:29.360 I personally don't have a height reference, like, a height preference.

02:33:32.320 Like, I have, like, been with guys that are, like, shorter than I am.

02:33:36.360 And I'm only 5'6", 5'7", ish.

02:33:39.780 You're a person.

02:33:40.560 5'6".

02:33:41.260 Yeah, I'm, like, 5'6".

02:33:42.360 And I've been with guys that are 5'5".

02:33:43.900 The guy that I like right now, he's, like, he's, like, he's, like, 5'7".

02:33:47.440 He's my height.

02:33:48.560 5'7".

02:33:49.160 I'd say he's 5'7".

02:33:50.220 Wow.

02:33:50.420 I personally like shorter guys because everyone over 6'5", sometimes they can have an ego.

02:33:56.240 But, like, I think short kings are my favorite and I think they deserve the world.

02:33:59.720 So, I always give them a greater chance.

02:34:03.580 For me, I'm 5'8".

02:34:05.780 And I will take anything, like, taller than me.

02:34:09.860 How tall is your boyfriend?

02:34:13.660 Do they, centimeters?

02:34:15.660 I think.

02:34:16.040 What do they use in China?

02:34:17.180 Centimeters?

02:34:17.460 I think he's, like, 5'11", or 6'8".

02:34:21.780 So, about his height, right?

02:34:23.560 Yeah.

02:34:23.840 I'm 6'8".

02:34:24.380 Yeah.

02:34:25.320 I don't know.

02:34:26.220 I just want to be able to look up to them.

02:34:27.960 I'm, that's, you know, you don't have to be that tall for me to have to be that.

02:34:30.440 How tall are you?

02:34:31.380 5'2".

02:34:32.080 Oh, okay.

02:34:32.600 So.

02:34:33.100 Or, like, 4'11".

02:34:34.320 Sorry.

02:34:34.920 Okay, I'm not 4'11".

02:34:36.420 I always joke with her.

02:34:38.220 Lily likes to call me a gremlin.

02:34:39.580 It's brilliant.

02:34:40.820 I do my gremlin, too.

02:34:41.800 I always tell her I could step on her when we get in fights.

02:34:44.680 That I could just, like, put my foot up and I'd just, like, step right on her.

02:34:47.340 Because of how short she is compared to me.

02:34:49.360 But it's, like, a couple inches.

02:34:50.700 That's it.

02:34:52.800 Yeah, she found out I was 4 inches taller than a Noompa Loompa and won't let me forget it.

02:35:00.020 It's just so funny.

02:35:01.880 Can we get some pigs in the chat, boys?

02:35:03.460 Oh, not the pigs again.

02:35:06.340 So, next question.

02:35:08.340 Would you date a guy who lives with his parents?

02:35:11.920 Yeah.

02:35:12.840 Especially at my age.

02:35:14.000 I'm only 19.

02:35:15.500 It's too young, you know.

02:35:16.600 Let's say maybe when you're a bit older.

02:35:18.440 Let's say mid-20s.

02:35:19.980 Mid-20s.

02:35:21.200 No.

02:35:22.300 No.

02:35:23.800 Nah.

02:35:24.500 Like, he's in his childhood bedroom.

02:35:27.120 You're like...

02:35:28.740 What if he can't afford to move out?

02:35:30.420 What if he's disenfranchised financially?

02:35:34.540 You know, sure.

02:35:36.800 If he's a sweetheart, he loves his mom,

02:35:39.940 he's just trying to spend time with his family, hey.

02:35:45.740 Because not everyone has the luxury to just move out when they want to.

02:35:48.180 Yeah, yeah, no, for sure.

02:35:48.560 You know?

02:35:49.540 Yeah.

02:35:49.900 I need to just come in real quick because I didn't really answer the height question.

02:35:53.700 Six-petal flower.

02:35:56.700 Thank you for reminding me.

02:35:58.140 Brian, tell them you want a 4'11 beef curtains queen.

02:36:01.840 Yeah, honestly.

02:36:02.880 So, if her height doesn't start with four, she ain't the one.

02:36:07.740 No, I'm kidding.

02:36:08.420 I'm kidding.

02:36:09.340 Well, Taylor's perfect for you then because she's 4'11".

02:36:11.640 Okay, 5'2".

02:36:13.080 Check my driver's license.

02:36:14.620 My girlfriend thinks she's five foot.

02:36:17.640 I think she's 4'11".

02:36:18.740 Taylor at 5'2".

02:36:20.420 I'm sorry.

02:36:20.860 You're just too tall.

02:36:21.940 You're too tall for me, Taylor.

02:36:22.700 I get that all the time.

02:36:23.480 I'm sorry.

02:36:24.120 I'm sorry.

02:36:24.720 No, I don't really.

02:36:25.520 It just really shocks me.

02:36:26.240 I don't really care.

02:36:27.100 I don't really care.

02:36:27.880 I do definitely prefer.

02:36:29.500 I think I have a slight height preference, though, for shorter women, petite women.

02:36:33.360 But I don't care.

02:36:34.820 Like, height's not a big deal for me.

02:36:36.760 And I don't think height's a big deal for a lot of men.

02:36:39.780 Like, Blair, is your girlfriend, is she taller than you?

02:36:41.740 No, she's like five foot.

02:36:43.440 Okay.

02:36:43.880 You know?

02:36:44.480 But you would date a woman who's taller than you, right?

02:36:46.460 Yeah, absolutely.

02:36:47.020 I'd date a fucking Amazon girl.

02:36:49.000 Fucking 6'3", 6'4".

02:36:50.940 Fuck yeah.

02:36:51.400 Right.

02:36:51.640 Yeah.

02:36:51.840 I forgot to get into this with you.

02:36:53.500 So, have you experienced being someone who's 5'5", have you experienced women who don't

02:36:59.760 want to date you because of your height?

02:37:01.880 Not explicitly, because I don't think they would say why, you know what I mean?

02:37:07.620 They haven't overtly said it.

02:37:09.180 But do you have a suspicion that maybe that's been the case?

02:37:11.600 Totally, totally.

02:37:12.320 And that's, you know, very much an area of my life where I was very insecure.

02:37:19.740 And because, you know, a lot of men think that, well, a lot of women have very strict

02:37:26.020 preferences on height, generally speaking.

02:37:28.880 So, you know, you kind of feel a little left out sometimes.

02:37:31.120 But when I got into fitness and bodybuilding, that whole thing just changed because what

02:37:36.960 I can control is how I look and how I conduct myself.

02:37:41.120 So, and insane amounts of confidence was born from that endeavor.

02:37:47.300 So, it's not something that I think about even when I was single.

02:37:51.240 Word.

02:37:52.080 And yes, also, all labia matter.

02:37:54.740 Okay.

02:37:55.780 So, yeah, that too.

02:38:01.140 I mean, women can have a...

02:38:02.920 I like how you just, like, put that in there.

02:38:06.580 My DMs are open.

02:38:10.940 Jesus.

02:38:11.700 What?

02:38:12.500 Sorry, I thought you meant that in a different...

02:38:14.760 My DM?

02:38:15.820 What other way?

02:38:16.480 When you said all labia matter and then you said, my DMs are open, I was like, oh!

02:38:21.320 Pussy pics.

02:38:22.680 I don't get it.

02:38:23.960 Because I thought when you...

02:38:24.880 Pussy pics.

02:38:25.080 All labia matter.

02:38:26.580 And then you said, my DMs are open.

02:38:28.660 I thought you were talking about, like...

02:38:32.460 I'm like...

02:38:33.060 Say it.

02:38:33.440 You can say it.

02:38:34.560 Like, send me pussy pics.

02:38:36.000 That's what I thought you were talking about.

02:38:38.120 I mean, sure, I guess.

02:38:41.320 But, like, I meant more so if you're rocking.

02:38:45.380 Okay.

02:38:46.060 Purr.

02:38:46.620 We love that.

02:38:47.880 I mean, right?

02:38:48.900 Women have a penis size preference.

02:38:51.480 So, I have a...

02:38:52.900 I happen to have a labia preference.

02:38:55.280 That's a can of worms open right there.

02:38:58.620 Listen.

02:38:59.200 What do you prefer?

02:39:00.040 What do you prefer?

02:39:01.800 Yeah, what's your, like, labia preference?

02:39:05.180 Innie or Audi?

02:39:06.980 Audi, for sure.

02:39:08.680 Don't get me wrong.

02:39:09.680 It's not like...

02:39:10.360 That's not a deal breaker if she doesn't.

02:39:12.560 Yeah.

02:39:12.800 Like, I'm not...

02:39:14.560 He wants that.

02:39:15.000 He wants that.

02:39:16.060 Now you're getting all flustered.

02:39:18.460 Like, it's not...

02:39:19.760 It's not a necessity.

02:39:21.400 And I...

02:39:22.640 And Innie is...

02:39:24.320 Innie's are great, too.

02:39:25.860 Okay.

02:39:26.320 I love Innie's.

02:39:27.280 Midnie's are cool.

02:39:28.140 Apparently, that's a thing.

02:39:29.120 Midnie's.

02:39:30.340 Audi's, though.

02:39:31.340 I just...

02:39:31.880 Audi's are cool, you know.

02:39:33.260 But it's unfortunate.

02:39:36.160 It's unfortunate.

02:39:37.160 And I don't mean to be flippant.

02:39:39.140 I know we're kind of joking around, but I don't want to be flippant when I say this.

02:39:42.980 It is unfortunate that women are shamed for this if they have an Audi.

02:39:46.540 You know, you hear, like, Arby's, Beef Curtains, Wizard Sleeve.

02:39:49.920 Yeah.

02:39:50.680 Yeah.

02:39:50.920 In the same way that...

02:39:51.820 Yeah.

02:39:52.100 Yeah.

02:39:52.360 I don't...

02:39:52.640 I'm like, come on, guys.

02:39:53.680 Be nice.

02:39:54.220 But, uh...

02:39:55.240 Hey, send...

02:39:56.060 Come my way.

02:39:56.680 But, uh...

02:39:58.060 But, no, like, guys are also shamed for their, uh...

02:40:01.960 He said labia check, girls.

02:40:04.680 Labia check.

02:40:08.200 That'll be on the OnlyFans.

02:40:10.540 Oh, that's too good.

02:40:12.060 Yeah, just like the OnlyFans for that one.

02:40:14.900 Subscribe for however much money to see that.

02:40:18.180 Glebis.

02:40:18.800 By the way, oh, while I see this, Glebis, first off, thank you for the super chat right there.

02:40:23.160 Brian prefers three feet?

02:40:25.040 Wait, is that inch?

02:40:25.860 Three inch.

02:40:27.100 Three inch labia?

02:40:27.780 Three inch labia?

02:40:28.460 Honestly, the bigger, the bigger, the better.

02:40:30.440 I'm just gonna say.

02:40:31.200 Flappy.

02:40:32.780 Wow.

02:40:33.800 We got a wow from Natasha over here.

02:40:36.300 Um, but, uh, Glebis, for some reason on StreamYard, it doesn't, uh, it doesn't show that you gifted a sub to somebody.

02:40:45.300 Or, sorry, you gifted a membership to somebody.

02:40:47.440 So, Glebis, thank you very much for that.

02:40:49.320 And also, I, we saw your, like, anniversary membership thing.

02:40:53.080 Thank you for continuing to be a member of the channel.

02:40:55.100 Guys, if you want to join, we've got a ton of perks.

02:40:57.800 Just hit that join button.

02:40:59.480 And right now, the lowest, yeah, the lowest tier is like 250.

02:41:03.320 If you, and you get a really cool icon next to your name in chat.

02:41:06.240 Anyways, um.

02:41:07.100 Do you guys like peen?

02:41:08.120 But yeah, peening, peen shaming is unfortunate.

02:41:11.400 I'm sorry, did you say peen?

02:41:13.060 I thought you said pee shaming.

02:41:14.660 I was like.

02:41:15.460 Peen.

02:41:16.560 Peen.

02:41:17.000 Oh, okay.

02:41:17.560 Yes.

02:41:17.820 Because someone said pee in the chat, and I thought you said pee shaming.

02:41:21.580 I was like.

02:41:22.120 Peen shaming.

02:41:23.380 Oh, okay.

02:41:23.980 Penis.

02:41:24.360 Penis shaming, yeah.

02:41:25.320 No, we love all penises out there.

02:41:27.340 We don't penis shame.

02:41:29.660 Natasha wants to come in on this one.

02:41:31.920 Natasha, do you have a penis preference?

02:41:34.120 Okay.

02:41:34.540 No comment.

02:41:35.220 Okay, no comment.

02:41:36.040 Play the flip.

02:41:36.580 All right.

02:41:38.020 Okay.

02:41:39.120 Owen Wilson, wow.

02:41:40.380 Wait, where are you?

02:41:41.300 Oh, yeah, okay.

02:41:42.080 So we're talking about would you live with a guy, or sorry, would you date a guy who lives

02:41:45.480 with his parents?

02:41:46.040 Did everyone answer that?

02:41:47.020 Oh, I didn't answer that part.

02:41:48.480 We only went to me.

02:41:49.260 Okay, yeah.

02:41:50.340 I mean.

02:41:51.020 Hmm.

02:41:53.620 I guess if it's like in the, in like a separate house or like, I mean, I would also like someone

02:41:59.160 who has, you know, like their own stability.

02:42:02.800 Totally, but like, there's no shame in living with your parents.

02:42:05.900 I understand like at our age, it's difficult to like move out sometimes and like get that

02:42:10.460 money, but.

02:42:12.040 Especially in Santa Barbara here.

02:42:13.720 Especially in the Santa Barbara area.

02:42:15.280 Yeah, yeah.

02:42:15.780 So I think it just like kind of depends.

02:42:17.400 Like, I'm not going to shame you for it, but it's like.

02:42:20.720 I guess it depends.

02:42:21.500 It would be nice if there was like a little bit more privacy than having your parents

02:42:24.780 literally like right there, but there's no shame in it.

02:42:28.520 Uh, I don't have any opinion, but if you are like in your middle, mid like thirties, like

02:42:37.800 35 or like something, you're still live with your parents.

02:42:41.980 That's kind of weird.

02:42:43.520 Hmm.

02:42:43.740 And I'm curious because in some, there was a comment that came up in some parts of Europe.

02:42:49.740 It's common for, I believe in Italy and Spain, someone said, was that a super chat or just

02:42:54.340 a regular comment?

02:42:55.520 Okay.

02:42:55.920 We'll pull it up later, but basically saying in Italy and Spain, maybe some other European

02:42:59.960 countries, it's more common for people that can both men and women to continue living with

02:43:04.320 their parents throughout the course of their life.

02:43:05.940 Um, what's it like in China?

02:43:09.080 Do people, cause I know in many Asian cultures, uh, the family unit I think is much more valued.

02:43:15.900 So is, do we see people living with their parents, uh, much longer in China?

02:43:23.220 Uh, I think usually after people get married, uh, 90% couples will just move out into like,

02:43:30.800 uh, you know, like their house, their home, but they're still part of couples.

02:43:36.100 They will just like live together with their parents, you know, like probably you live together

02:43:43.620 with your husband's parents or live together with your parents and your husband.

02:43:49.540 Yeah.

02:43:50.380 This, this situation does exist.

02:43:53.980 Yeah.

02:43:54.340 Okay.

02:43:54.980 Uh, Kiki.

02:43:56.900 No.

02:43:58.760 Okay.

02:43:59.200 Insightful.

02:44:02.140 Okay.

02:44:02.640 Go ahead.

02:44:03.160 Um, yeah, I, once again, don't really care that much.

02:44:06.220 Like I, you're only nine.

02:44:08.400 Well, if you're my age, then you're 19.

02:44:11.040 Like I'm not expecting you to have your life together.

02:44:12.920 Like as long as you're not like a mooch or anything, then it's fine.

02:44:17.100 So yeah.

02:44:18.200 Rock and roll.

02:44:18.920 So what I want to do, we're probably going to wrap up in about 20 minutes or so.

02:44:23.180 I want to open it up to you guys.

02:44:25.300 If you guys have a final thought or a question for someone else on the panel or for us or,

02:44:31.460 or the chat.

02:44:33.300 So final thought or a final question that you want to ask.

02:44:37.480 Go ahead.

02:44:38.400 Oh, um, can you pass it along?

02:44:40.940 Yeah, we can come back to you.

02:44:42.960 Um, does anyone have like a question ready to go or final thought ready to go?

02:44:47.600 Um, I just have a little question.

02:44:49.420 Like I'm pretty interested in what kind of content Natasha do for your TikTok.

02:44:54.480 It's really all over the place right now.

02:44:56.840 Um, I mean, it, I, it really is all over the place.

02:45:01.360 I hit it kind of well with the gym community.

02:45:04.880 So I might just continue going with that.

02:45:07.100 Like the gym, like tutorials and stuff or.

02:45:10.040 Yeah, maybe I'd love to start making like.

02:45:11.820 Do you also post that stuff on IG?

02:45:14.560 No.

02:45:14.780 Cause I don't, cause I don't use TikTok.

02:45:15.780 So I can't like, I don't, I can't subscribe to you on there.

02:45:18.140 No, I don't post it on IG.

02:45:20.140 Just on Instagram.

02:45:21.120 I, I've been going out and taking my own photos.

02:45:23.540 Okay.

02:45:24.540 Doing that.

02:45:25.240 Cause I want to drop that support too.

02:45:26.800 Thank you.

02:45:27.580 Um.

02:45:27.820 And do a little collab in the gym.

02:45:28.880 Or just subscribe your, uh, account after the podcast.

02:45:32.840 I'm telling you, Natasha Tate.

02:45:37.220 That's the direction.

02:45:38.400 Honestly, I might have to go home and do that.

02:45:40.640 Just change that.

02:45:41.560 There you go.

02:45:42.040 Thank you.

02:45:42.420 Actually, you know what?

02:45:43.300 We'll watch one more of Natasha's TikToks.

02:45:45.800 Uh, Eric, if you can pull up the last one.

02:45:59.600 Okay.

02:45:59.960 But I agree with that one.

02:46:02.840 I'm sorry, but if, I mean, you know, I love my men toxic sometimes.

02:46:07.220 And, but if they came up to me with brown hair and blue eyes, I'm not looking at a damn

02:46:13.080 red flag.

02:46:15.460 I'm just looking at brown, brown curly hair.

02:46:22.480 Brown curly hair and brown eyes.

02:46:25.060 That's all.

02:46:25.660 So I have to agree with Natasha on that one.

02:46:31.180 Tasha or Natasha?

02:46:32.320 Either one.

02:46:32.980 Okay.

02:46:33.400 Either one.

02:46:33.920 I agree with your TikTok on that one.

02:46:35.820 You're welcome.

02:46:38.180 Okay.

02:46:38.680 So, um, do you have a final thought or question?

02:46:43.120 No.

02:46:43.880 No, I don't think so.

02:46:44.900 I'm kind of, yeah, I'm kind of blanking out right now.

02:46:46.640 Sure, sure.

02:46:48.100 Final thought or question?

02:46:49.060 Um, I don't know.

02:46:52.180 I don't think I have any questions personally.

02:46:55.800 Okay.

02:46:57.480 Um, I don't know.

02:46:59.400 I'm kind of scared of who's seen this because when I was in the bathroom, one of my friends

02:47:07.440 texted me and I was like, how does she, like, she's watching this?

02:47:10.720 Like, I mean, she's one of my besties, so I'm not surprised, but if you know me, say

02:47:16.320 your name.

02:47:16.960 Yeah.

02:47:17.140 There are a lot of people.

02:47:17.980 How many people are watching this right now?

02:47:19.740 Um, I don't know.

02:47:20.600 It's, uh, maybe 300.

02:47:23.000 I can't, I can't see.

02:47:24.520 300K?

02:47:25.220 No, it might be 300 concurrent.

02:47:27.100 Okay.

02:47:27.500 I was like, I'll definitely do it.

02:47:32.140 Yeah.

02:47:32.680 300K, just watch this all.

02:47:34.020 So do you have a question or?

02:47:35.700 No, I'm just, nobody's doing anything now, so.

02:47:38.960 Does the chat have any questions?

02:47:40.620 Yeah.

02:47:40.900 What is it?

02:47:41.000 Are we allowed to ask that?

02:47:42.420 Uh, well, I mean, super chats.

02:47:43.820 Oh, super chats.

02:47:44.460 Yeah, super chats.

02:47:45.600 Uh, Natasha, final thought or question?

02:47:48.500 I mean, I could think of some controversial questions, but.

02:47:53.640 Yeah.

02:47:54.000 Do it.

02:47:54.520 Give us the most controversial.

02:47:56.680 What's your, most controversial?

02:47:57.760 Ugh.

02:47:58.260 How about ask a question that would trigger the rest of the panel?

02:48:03.520 Ooh.

02:48:04.200 Or the girls.

02:48:05.060 That would trigger the girls.

02:48:06.680 Mm-hmm.

02:48:06.940 I think you've done that a decent amount, so.

02:48:11.100 I'm sorry.

02:48:12.540 It's so funny.

02:48:14.360 Well, we've talked about so much, body counts.

02:48:16.740 I could ask about, like, plastic surgery.

02:48:18.300 I could ask about, um, I could ask about.

02:48:23.720 You could trigger the guys, try to trigger us on something.

02:48:27.480 True.

02:48:27.840 Oh, my God, my mind is blank.

02:48:31.060 Yeah, I want to hear, I want to hear what your, like, most controversial question would

02:48:35.340 be.

02:48:35.480 Land us.

02:48:36.320 Because I'm just curious.

02:48:37.400 What is a position you hold when it comes to dating relationships or gender dynamics

02:48:43.160 that you think we might potentially take quarrel with?

02:48:47.660 Like, agree with or not agree with?

02:48:49.580 We take issue with.

02:48:50.800 Yeah, take issue with.

02:48:51.640 I mean, when it comes to relationship dynamics, I mean, honestly, I believe that women have

02:49:01.760 their place and men have their place.

02:49:03.740 Um, I guess that's kind of a controversial one with the girls more so.

02:49:08.080 Yeah, that's probably gonna.

02:49:09.040 Wait, can I ask you to elaborate on that, though?

02:49:10.880 Like, what do you mean we have our place and then have our, their place?

02:49:14.100 Yeah.

02:49:15.540 I'm not gonna say I'm full, like, women need to be in the kitchen and men need to go to

02:49:20.620 work and all that stuff.

02:49:21.340 But, obviously, both roles need expectations, you know?

02:49:26.720 Okay.

02:49:27.200 So, if, if you want your man to provide for you and to be out in the world busting his

02:49:33.180 ass every day, you definitely need to be taking care of stuff at home.

02:49:36.300 Like, one million percent.

02:49:37.840 But what if I told you, because I, I don't want to be at home all day.

02:49:41.580 Because, like, my, my dream job is to be.

02:49:44.720 So, you're working as well.

02:49:45.980 Yeah.

02:49:46.340 Like, I want to be a forensic scientist.

02:49:48.640 Okay.

02:49:48.860 So, like, if I want to do that, but my husband was working as well, and say, like, I have

02:49:53.680 a kid, what do you, like, do you think that I should still be at home caring for my kid?

02:49:58.780 I don't think that is a sustainable dynamic.

02:50:01.420 Both of you working full-time jobs.

02:50:03.700 It wouldn't be full.

02:50:04.320 With a kid at home.

02:50:05.080 Okay.

02:50:05.820 Like, who's gonna take care of your child?

02:50:09.040 Well, say, like, my husband.

02:50:09.740 Do you want someone else watching your child for the rest of your life?

02:50:11.900 Well, say my husband was a teacher.

02:50:14.520 So, say he was, like, he was, like, a substitute or something.

02:50:18.860 And say, like, I was the one bringing in most of the, like, income.

02:50:24.560 Is that, like, a problem?

02:50:26.320 Or, like.

02:50:27.060 Well, both of you are working full-time jobs with a kid at home who's being watched by

02:50:30.840 someone else.

02:50:31.500 So, you're not even seeing your child being raised.

02:50:33.500 Well, that's not true.

02:50:34.400 My dad, I mean, that was the same thing for my parents.

02:50:36.580 Yeah.

02:50:36.680 My dad worked nights.

02:50:37.320 My mom worked.

02:50:37.940 Like, I was.

02:50:38.640 So, they both got to interact.

02:50:40.220 I don't think, like, just because you guys both work, like, you're, like, shooting.

02:50:44.040 Well, I think the answer to that is maybe put your child in something extracurricular

02:50:47.560 like sports or, you know, some other activity outside of schools where you both can work.

02:50:52.280 I guess it depends on the age of the child.

02:50:53.220 Well, that's true, too.

02:50:54.200 You know?

02:50:54.420 Well, like, I was a nanny.

02:50:55.520 I've been a nanny for, like, multiple families at, like, once.

02:50:59.040 And, like, it was, like, very different age ranges.

02:51:01.060 And the parents are still very much involved.

02:51:03.780 So, it's, like, I feel like even if you have, like, full-time jobs, like, for one of the

02:51:07.600 families, like, the wife would travel a lot, but she was still heavily, really, in her

02:51:13.920 family's life.

02:51:14.920 So, I feel like even with a full-time job, like, I could still be in, what's the word?

02:51:19.700 Like, involved with my, like, kid's life.

02:51:23.740 And, like, so I feel like even though, like, both my, like, me and my husband had, like,

02:51:29.480 full-time jobs, I could definitely still be involved in my kid's life, even if, say,

02:51:33.440 I did have a nanny.

02:51:34.600 Because, like, I've been in that nanny's position.

02:51:36.720 And every time, like, the parents have always been very heavily involved.

02:51:40.520 I've never been in, like, a family.

02:51:42.060 I can't really speak on, like, a family that has never been involved in their kid's life.

02:51:45.940 But through my experience, I've always had, like, very heavily influence from the parents

02:51:52.080 still, no matter what.

02:51:53.360 Or, like, what about families?

02:51:54.840 They need both parents to work because they literally can't live.

02:51:58.980 If they don't, they need that money.

02:52:00.840 Because, like, California's really expensive.

02:52:02.720 So, I always think about, like, that sometimes where it's, like, no matter what, like, you

02:52:07.020 still have a mortgage to pay.

02:52:08.760 Yeah.

02:52:09.160 You know?

02:52:09.680 Yeah.

02:52:09.880 You've got to, like, do everything you can for your kid, even if that does mean working

02:52:13.800 so hard for them.

02:52:15.620 And, like, you might not be able to see them.

02:52:17.900 You might have to get a nanny.

02:52:19.020 But you still have to do that because they need to provide for the kids.

02:52:23.120 I guess I have a, you know, a kind of biased opinion.

02:52:29.540 I don't even know what the word is for it.

02:52:31.020 But I, because I grew up with a mom who was there for me growing up.

02:52:34.060 You know?

02:52:34.300 She was taking care of me, dropping off from school, picking me up, taking care of my baby

02:52:39.160 brother, you know?

02:52:39.840 So, I obviously have a different experience from other people.

02:52:42.380 But for me, when I have a child, I don't want them to be raised by someone else.

02:52:47.320 No, I fully understand that, too.

02:52:48.680 I want my partner to be able to take care of our family.

02:52:50.960 Yeah.

02:52:51.120 Like, that is what I'm searching for personally.

02:52:53.520 And, you know, as far as, like, financial situations, I mean, all of this has, you know,

02:53:00.780 different things that come into play.

02:53:02.660 But for me, personally, I'm looking for someone that can support a family.

02:53:07.120 And I will work and do my part up until we have a child.

02:53:10.640 And then I will.

02:53:11.500 No, I respect that.

02:53:12.440 Yeah.

02:53:12.560 100%.

02:53:13.040 Like, yeah.

02:53:13.640 Like, when I was a kid, like, my mom worked.

02:53:16.580 And then when she had me, she, like, took care of me until it was, like, I was old enough

02:53:22.240 to where, like, her and my dad could kind of, like, switch off.

02:53:25.220 But, no, I fully understand that part.

02:53:26.760 So, I get your side.

02:53:28.120 I just was curious on, like, what your standpoint was.

02:53:31.860 Wait.

02:53:32.220 So, Natasha, were you saying that you, were your parents separated?

02:53:36.760 My parents only separated when I was in high school.

02:53:39.460 So, we all lived together up until that point.

02:53:42.820 Okay.

02:53:44.320 What was the original question?

02:53:45.700 I totally blanked on that.

02:53:47.480 Last comment or question, I believe.

02:53:51.020 I think it was something about controversial.

02:53:53.620 Oh, right.

02:53:55.860 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, that one.

02:53:57.720 Yeah, yeah.

02:53:58.240 Final thoughts or final question.

02:54:00.780 Hey, there's a comment from one of my Trader Joe boys.

02:54:04.240 My man Arn, what do y'all think of guys that work at Trader Joe?

02:54:06.460 We love Trader Joe's.

02:54:08.400 I just went to Trader Joe's last weekend, literally.

02:54:11.500 People at Trader Joe's are always so nice and kind.

02:54:13.840 Yeah.

02:54:14.200 Everybody get the Castle Rock Rosé from Trader Joe's.

02:54:16.700 It's only $3.99, and it's the best thing that's ever happened in my life.

02:54:19.300 Shout out to Mighty Swell Gang as well.

02:54:22.420 There you go.

02:54:24.380 Can Trader Joe's sponsor this podcast?

02:54:27.460 I don't think so.

02:54:28.140 It's probably a little controversial, but.

02:54:31.140 I would love a sponsorship from Trader Joe's.

02:54:34.140 That would be clutch, a TJ sponsorship.

02:54:37.500 Yeah.

02:54:37.940 All right.

02:54:38.280 Let's do a couple soup chats, and then we'll maybe react to one last video, and then we

02:54:42.560 will wrap up.

02:54:44.560 Let's see.

02:54:45.560 Cool, cool, cool.

02:54:45.900 Trader Joe's.

02:54:48.200 Trader Joe's.

02:54:48.640 We have a group chat called that.

02:54:50.320 I think it changed a couple of years ago, but.

02:54:54.960 All right.

02:54:55.560 Mr. Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat makeup conversation, and Blair pipes up.

02:54:59.820 Wait, did we already do this one?

02:55:01.320 I saw it.

02:55:01.900 I don't think we talked about it, though.

02:55:02.860 I didn't say the makeup removing life comment for nothing.

02:55:05.360 I can read this bloke like a book.

02:55:07.160 Blair, he's asserting that you wear makeup.

02:55:11.320 Wow, Mike.

02:55:12.420 I'll just be Prince and be a short king who wears makeup, if that's what you think I do.

02:55:16.640 Wait, take the hat off.

02:55:17.920 And we support you through that.

02:55:20.440 Mike Davis hasn't been chatting a little bit, so I think he should pull up.

02:55:23.980 Oh.

02:55:25.300 You're all pissed now.

02:55:26.020 You gotta, yeah.

02:55:27.820 Anyways, Mike Davis, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

02:55:30.440 Much appreciated.

02:55:31.200 Like I said, Mike, open invitation for you to come on the show.

02:55:34.560 I know you said you want to hide your identity.

02:55:36.920 We'll put a masquerade ball, one of those masks, a masquerade mask on you.

02:55:41.660 We'll give you a fake name.

02:55:43.120 We'll call you Michael Hunt.

02:55:47.480 And we'll be good.

02:55:48.880 I think we should be good to go.

02:55:50.300 Okay.

02:55:51.520 E.G. with the $10 soup chat, wearing makeup is false advertisement.

02:55:55.120 Good looking men should be more appreciated.

02:55:57.540 Wait.

02:55:58.000 Wait.

02:55:58.420 Good looking men should.

02:56:00.900 I think.

02:56:01.860 I agree with the first part.

02:56:02.920 Like, men don't have, well, men don't have the luxury society-wise to wear makeup.

02:56:09.940 So, I guess he's saying, like, a good looking dude is fucked because he can't wear makeup,

02:56:14.140 I assume.

02:56:15.140 But women can wear makeup and kind of.

02:56:17.480 But if he's good looking, he doesn't.

02:56:18.960 You mean to further make himself more attractive?

02:56:21.800 Right.

02:56:23.480 Yeah.

02:56:24.020 I mean, I think this is probably the hot take, but I mean, we already talked a bit about makeup.

02:56:28.560 We won't stay too long on it.

02:56:30.020 But, yeah, I mean, to a certain degree, I think makeup is false advertising.

02:56:36.420 And, I mean, it depends.

02:56:39.540 I think women should be free to wear makeup.

02:56:43.200 There's definitely a threshold of what's too much and what's fine.

02:56:46.620 You know what?

02:56:47.180 I actually tanked a date because I commented on the girl's makeup.

02:56:53.100 But I'll tell you the quick story.

02:56:54.940 So, here's the story.

02:56:57.060 I don't know if you guys have seen me with these Poland Spring water bottles.

02:57:02.380 I was on a date with a girl.

02:57:03.740 I had this Poland Spring water bottle.

02:57:07.120 And the day was going well, but I got the sense she just wasn't feeling it.

02:57:11.740 That's fine.

02:57:12.400 So, you know, we're there.

02:57:13.800 We're grabbing a drink at a bar.

02:57:16.340 Only one or two hours in.

02:57:18.420 She's not really feeling it.

02:57:19.920 That was the impression I got.

02:57:21.140 But we were having an otherwise pleasant conversation.

02:57:23.100 Nothing weird going on.

02:57:24.500 And as we're about to say goodbye, she makes this final comment.

02:57:27.360 And she's like, hey, Brian.

02:57:29.680 And she was kind of condescending about it, a bit patronizing.

02:57:32.420 And she says, Brian, it's really inappropriate that you drink from plastic water bottles.

02:57:41.960 And I was like, okay.

02:57:46.080 And so I started like, well, I was telling her, well, I mean, I was running out the door.

02:57:51.420 I just grabbed these.

02:57:52.500 I have an RO system in my house.

02:57:54.280 I drink from, you know, I have like a glass bottle when I'm at the house.

02:57:59.100 I'm not just constantly downing water bottles.

02:58:03.180 But she like made it into a thing.

02:58:04.960 So I started, I'm not one to like back down from an argument.

02:58:09.160 And it was clear the date wasn't going to go anywhere.

02:58:11.120 So I was like, okay, well, let's, she's basically making an environmental argument.

02:58:16.000 How dare you use that plastic bottle, right?

02:58:17.160 Yeah, she was like, how dare you?

02:58:18.540 Yeah, totally.

02:58:19.240 You're polluting the environment and shit.

02:58:20.860 And she was wearing makeup.

02:58:22.300 So, so I was like, well, if you want to talk about the impact on the environment, let's talk about makeup.

02:58:31.780 And then I just, she was very offended.

02:58:34.240 I was, I said, I noticed you're wearing a bit of eyeliner, some mascara, maybe a little face powder.

02:58:39.700 You know, Mika, I don't know if you'd know about Mika.

02:58:41.980 That's in a lot of these makeup products.

02:58:43.940 It's basically poor African or Indian kids that are harvesting this under terrible conditions.

02:58:50.100 That's something folks don't talk about.

02:58:50.960 Oh, yeah, makeup, oh, for sure.

02:58:53.420 The makeup industry is definitely responsible for a lot of that stuff.

02:58:57.500 But anyways, I started going into that and I was like, what kind of car do you drive?

02:59:02.020 I drive this sort of car.

02:59:03.200 But, you know, oh, shit, whoops.

02:59:05.240 Anyways, I don't know where I was going with that.

02:59:07.160 But basically, it's very interesting.

02:59:09.380 One thing I've encountered is there's a lot of women who are very pro-environment.

02:59:14.620 But if you, and there are a lot of women who are pro-environment.

02:59:18.080 And they'll say, well, on the individual level, people should do more to limit their environmental impact.

02:59:25.940 And you say, well, what about you stop wearing makeup?

02:59:31.580 That's not going to go over very well.

02:59:33.240 Well, are any of you, do any of you, let me see if I can convince the women.

02:59:37.880 Do any of you care about the environment?

02:59:39.800 Yes.

02:59:40.720 Do you think that on an individual level, we should try to minimize our, say, carbon footprint or our environmental impact?

02:59:48.040 My mom's a big advocate for that.

02:59:50.280 She's always talking about decreasing her carbon footprint.

02:59:53.240 So just on the topic of the environment, I think the carbon footprint thing is actually,

02:59:58.460 basically corporations are the predominant polluters.

03:00:01.740 So the whole carbon footprint thing was, I think, actually gas companies or oil companies started this to sort of take the focus away from them.

03:00:12.960 But it's really corporations that are responsible for the vast majority of, you know, excessive water use, pollution, et cetera, et cetera.

03:00:20.440 So on an individual level, certainly as a consumer, there's things you can change.

03:00:23.600 But my challenge to you guys would be, if you really care about the environment, would you consider discontinuing purchasing and wearing makeup?

03:00:33.020 Yeah.

03:00:33.860 Couldn't I just get, like, vegan makeup or, like, safe makeup?

03:00:40.360 Well, I assume it comes in packaging, too, doesn't it?

03:00:43.740 Sure.

03:00:44.640 What, like, okay.

03:00:46.060 You want to come in on this?

03:00:47.040 I would say no, because obviously, like, there are rich people that take, like, private jet every single day.

03:00:56.660 That is so true.

03:00:58.100 You know, like.

03:00:59.360 Like, Kylie Jenner, like, she will take a private jet from, like, a 30-minute car ride.

03:01:04.740 Yeah, I mean, like, maybe, like, 10,000 girls, like, stop purchasing makeup.

03:01:09.260 It's not even, like, 10% of the private jet.

03:01:13.620 Well, let me ask, what utility does makeup serve?

03:01:16.840 Because you can make an argument for, like, plastic straws and spoons.

03:01:20.520 That at least has some sort of utility.

03:01:22.240 As far as I'm concerned, makeup has absolutely no utility.

03:01:26.240 Outside of perhaps theatrical performances or, you know, in film.

03:01:31.580 But on a day-to-day basis, makeup has no actual utility.

03:01:36.800 I mean, artistic utility.

03:01:39.000 Yeah, what about paint?

03:01:40.140 What about Party City?

03:01:41.480 That's theatrical.

03:01:42.180 Like, you're going to get rid of all the Party Cities in the world?

03:01:45.560 Like, what about her wig?

03:01:47.520 I'm sure that's leading to the carbon footprint.

03:01:50.460 For sure.

03:01:51.360 For sure.

03:01:52.900 Anyways, we're kind of derailing there a little bit.

03:01:56.260 Did any of you else want to come in on that?

03:02:00.840 Okay.

03:02:03.600 E.g., Italians and Spaniards often live with their parents until they are in their 30s and get married.

03:02:08.700 I think we mentioned this before.

03:02:10.000 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

03:02:11.720 Yes, that is, in fact, the case.

03:02:13.160 I believe in a few other European, maybe Greece.

03:02:19.460 Like, some of those southern European countries, I think it's a bit more common.

03:02:22.840 But, yeah.

03:02:23.880 You know what?

03:02:24.340 Actually, I heard this quote the other day.

03:02:26.000 A woman will not date a man, sleep with a man that lives with his parents, but they will sleep with a man who lives with his wife.

03:02:37.340 I have heard that one.

03:02:43.480 I'd rather sleep with a man who lives with his parents still than sleep with, like, sleep with a man who has a wife.

03:02:49.380 Yeah, facts.

03:02:50.800 It's getting late.

03:02:51.500 I'm starting to stutter now and butcher my delivery.

03:02:54.600 Sorry, guys.

03:02:55.400 Long night.

03:02:55.960 We're about to wrap up.

03:02:56.780 It's okay.

03:02:57.100 We forgive you.

03:02:57.940 With the $10 soup chat.

03:02:59.780 I think we already got this one.

03:03:01.020 Brian prefers three-inch plus.

03:03:03.440 I think he's referring to labia.

03:03:05.160 He could be referring to a penis, though.

03:03:08.040 I suppose, yes.

03:03:09.280 Yeah.

03:03:10.100 But I think to be generous, I think...

03:03:13.540 Okay, whatever.

03:03:16.160 Glad this.

03:03:16.720 Thank you for the $10 soup chat, man.

03:03:18.060 Much appreciated.

03:03:19.380 $5.

03:03:20.020 Real quick, Natasha, what's your nationality?

03:03:21.880 I'm Caucasian.

03:03:24.900 Well, yeah.

03:03:25.940 Is that right?

03:03:27.140 Say whatever you want.

03:03:28.020 You know, like...

03:03:28.860 Like, are you...

03:03:29.880 I'm Italian.

03:03:32.240 I'm...

03:03:32.560 What's your last name, if you're comfortable?

03:03:34.340 Blankenship.

03:03:35.160 Ooh.

03:03:35.640 Blankenship.

03:03:36.480 Blankenship.

03:03:37.200 Blankenship.

03:03:37.780 Yes.

03:03:38.260 I'm Italian, German, Swedish.

03:03:39.820 Okay, there you go.

03:03:40.800 Glebis, thank you for the $5, man.

03:03:42.120 Much appreciated.

03:03:43.260 Glebis with the $10 soup chat.

03:03:44.740 Oh, my God.

03:03:45.940 Natasha is so smart and logical.

03:03:47.540 Will you marry me?

03:03:49.360 That is a wedding proposal, Natasha.

03:03:50.880 Natasha, will you marry him?

03:03:54.240 If you come on to the next podcast.

03:03:56.000 Ooh.

03:03:56.680 Oh.

03:03:57.600 That is a good proposal.

03:03:58.520 Are we...

03:03:58.960 You coming back on?

03:04:00.440 I think you're a fan favorite.

03:04:02.000 I would like to be back on.

03:04:03.440 So, I'll see you at the next one.

03:04:05.220 Okay.

03:04:06.220 Glebis, you are invited, by the way.

03:04:07.980 Glebis, can you write in the chat, are you down to come on the show?

03:04:10.860 A lot of soup chatters just aren't down just because they got businesses and shouldn't...

03:04:15.380 You know, we do talk about some controversial things, so they don't want to get, you know,

03:04:19.180 canceled and whatnot.

03:04:20.840 But, Glebis, thank you for the big $10 soup chat.

03:04:23.360 And also, are you in LA, by chance, Glebis?

03:04:26.280 Anyways, whatever.

03:04:27.500 This is...

03:04:27.920 Oh, no, no, no, no, I am.

03:04:28.640 Go ahead.

03:04:29.240 Oh, no.

03:04:29.580 I thought he was pulling up something.

03:04:31.600 What currency is this?

03:04:34.060 Philippine?

03:04:34.600 No.

03:04:34.900 Okay, sorry, but Natasha is just outmatching other women in this panel so much, all this

03:04:40.440 makeup talk, et cetera.

03:04:41.540 I absolutely love her mindset.

03:04:44.080 Just so smart.

03:04:44.980 Evil Matt, thank you for the...

03:04:46.900 I have no clue whatsoever what that currency is, but thank you, man.

03:04:52.120 On Chan, $5.

03:04:53.580 This is my boy who we almost had on tonight.

03:04:55.480 Okay, we'll grab him.

03:04:56.400 We'll grab it.

03:04:57.580 Is having too high of a body count a deal breaker?

03:04:59.660 If so, what's too high?

03:05:00.600 Also, the girl with the Caroline tattoo is a vibe.

03:05:04.280 Coraline.

03:05:05.840 Coraline tattoo.

03:05:06.760 But thank you.

03:05:08.460 We kind of answered...

03:05:10.320 Didn't we kind of talk about this?

03:05:12.020 We did a little bit, yeah.

03:05:13.380 Yeah, I mean, we did.

03:05:14.400 Yeah, I think we did.

03:05:17.380 So, is what's too high?

03:05:22.740 I mean, the girls can go around really quick on that one.

03:05:25.080 What's too high of a body count for a guy?

03:05:27.180 I assume it depends on his age, but...

03:05:29.420 For me, it's like...

03:05:30.600 Over five.

03:05:31.560 More than five?

03:05:32.380 Yes.

03:05:33.080 Sorry.

03:05:35.300 Well, I met a guy with 20, and it really turned me off from him.

03:05:38.760 I just...

03:05:39.960 No.

03:05:40.560 Why?

03:05:42.000 Because it communicated to me that he wasn't picky, and I want someone that's picky, because

03:05:47.840 that makes me feel valued also.

03:05:49.800 Can I ask you a question?

03:05:50.960 Yeah.

03:05:51.340 Who's your...

03:05:52.760 Do you have, like, a celebrity crush?

03:05:54.540 I don't.

03:05:55.140 Genuinely, I mean...

03:05:57.480 Or, like, a musician, actor?

03:06:00.820 Shoot.

03:06:01.420 I mean...

03:06:03.720 Musician...

03:06:05.660 Can you give me some examples?

03:06:07.980 I'm, like, having trouble thinking...

03:06:09.660 I mean, I don't...

03:06:12.660 I'm not going to put words in your mouth for who you like, so...

03:06:16.020 I don't have a specific celebrity crush, honestly, I don't.

03:06:18.960 Timothy Chalamet?

03:06:19.900 No.

03:06:21.040 A million times, no.

03:06:21.980 Sorry, I love Timothy Chalamet.

03:06:22.940 I have a pillow of his face.

03:06:25.860 Whoa.

03:06:26.980 I love Timmy.

03:06:28.360 I'm trying to think of Harry Styles?

03:06:37.960 Justin Bieber?

03:06:39.960 He's okay.

03:06:40.980 He's pretty cute.

03:06:42.940 He's okay.

03:06:44.220 Okay.

03:06:45.020 There's no guy that you're just like...

03:06:47.320 There's no one I'm, like, starstruck by.

03:06:48.980 GK?

03:06:49.880 Come on.

03:06:50.680 Pete Davidson?

03:06:52.280 No.

03:06:53.080 Ew.

03:06:53.500 What?

03:06:54.220 I love Pete Davidson.

03:06:56.120 That guy's trashy.

03:06:58.080 Yo, Glebis.

03:06:59.060 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

03:07:01.560 Okay.

03:07:02.120 Apparently, he's down to come on the show.

03:07:04.460 I will see you there.

03:07:05.780 DM out, whatever.

03:07:06.780 We'll get you on, Glebis.

03:07:10.180 So, yeah, going around really quick.

03:07:12.220 What is too much for a body count?

03:07:14.620 At my age, like, 19, probably, like...

03:07:18.400 For a guy?

03:07:19.220 For a guy, like, 20.

03:07:21.360 More than 20, okay.

03:07:22.140 Yeah, maybe 25.

03:07:23.120 I don't know, but, like, there...

03:07:24.500 I know guys with, like, over 75, and, like, I've almost, like...

03:07:28.120 But I didn't, so...

03:07:29.740 But you didn't, so it's all good.

03:07:32.940 I...

03:07:33.380 Real quick, Ryan Reynolds, 100%.

03:07:35.280 I'm in so love with Ryan Reynolds.

03:07:37.080 Also, the hottest celebrity is Miles Teller.

03:07:41.060 Oh!

03:07:42.160 We love Miles Teller.

03:07:43.880 But I'd say, at my age, 21, too high of a body count,

03:07:47.740 I definitely have to say, like, over 50.

03:07:50.760 100% over 50.

03:07:51.840 I think that would...

03:07:52.680 50 or 15?

03:07:53.600 Oh, 50, 5-0.

03:07:54.880 Okay.

03:07:55.620 Yeah, I'd say that.

03:07:56.840 I'd be like...

03:07:58.840 Okay.

03:08:00.560 Okay.

03:08:01.660 Around 13-ish.

03:08:03.900 13 to 15.

03:08:05.260 Okay, more than that.

03:08:07.460 I'm so sorry.

03:08:08.300 Lily, look at that comment.

03:08:09.580 What's the comment?

03:08:10.440 Lily, we know you got that pillow.

03:08:11.540 Oh, that was funny as fuck.

03:08:23.700 I like that one.

03:08:26.400 Oh, but no.

03:08:27.560 Yeah, I don't really care about that.

03:08:29.280 I don't really think there's anything to...

03:08:31.180 I mean, maybe, like, I don't know, 30?

03:08:33.160 Like, that's a lot, but I don't really care.

03:08:34.440 You actually have a Timothee Chalamet pillow?

03:08:38.200 I do, and I think I have, like, a photo of it somewhere.

03:08:41.120 It is.

03:08:41.480 It's on my bed.

03:08:42.980 It's him as Virgin Mary, because a funny thing about it, an old friend of mine gave it to

03:08:48.280 me when I was a virgin, and Timothee Chalamet was, like, the love of my life.

03:08:52.800 I mean, he still is.

03:08:53.900 So she gave me a pillow of Timothee Chalamet posing as the Virgin Mary.

03:09:01.500 It's funny.

03:09:02.280 It's like an inside joke, but it's...

03:09:03.980 Do you ever hook up with guys in your room?

03:09:06.740 That's actually really funny.

03:09:08.400 Like, do you turn it over?

03:09:10.460 No, because if I turn it over, it's the same picture, so it's on both sides.

03:09:14.080 She hides it under the bed.

03:09:15.260 I've seen it.

03:09:15.360 I actually, yeah, because the guy that I like, when he comes over, I said one time,

03:09:21.100 it was on, like, the bed, and I was like, oh, and I threw it across the room.

03:09:27.140 I was like, we don't need Timmy up in here right now.

03:09:29.860 I think we need a black light on that pillow.

03:09:32.280 I'm just like, it's perfectly fine.

03:09:37.580 I haven't done any of that.

03:09:39.600 Mike Davis gives $5 BJs behind the Chinatown fish market.

03:09:43.120 Sorry, I love these comments.

03:09:46.320 They're so good.

03:09:47.620 Only a girl can have a pillow with someone who's still getting me.

03:09:57.580 That was really good.

03:10:01.280 Oh, man, I love the chat.

03:10:03.360 Yeah, chat's fucking legendary.

03:10:06.400 Chat's legendary.

03:10:07.680 Can we, in the chat, can we get a Tasha X?

03:10:13.120 Can we get Tasha X in the chat?

03:10:15.460 Okay.

03:10:16.020 That's a, don't worry about that.

03:10:18.860 Is it for Tasha as in Tasha over here or a different Tasha?

03:10:22.660 It's like kind of a whatever meme or inside joke.

03:10:28.280 The X are silent.

03:10:29.340 Yeah, so, like, in one of the videos, we saw it in the intro with this, one of the videos

03:10:34.700 I was doing, I introduced myself as Brian with an X.

03:10:38.200 The X is silent.

03:10:39.220 You don't pronounce it.

03:10:40.280 Oh.

03:10:40.540 You know how people like, Brian, is it with an I or a Y?

03:10:44.280 Anyways, and so people in the chat are just like, yeah, Tasha.

03:10:49.060 Tasha.

03:10:49.520 Tasha, Tasha.

03:10:50.060 Tasha, okay, rock and roll.

03:10:51.660 This was a fantastic panel.

03:10:53.260 You guys were awesome.

03:10:54.760 This was the funnest thing I've ever done.

03:10:55.880 This was probably, I think, one of my favorite panels for sure.

03:10:58.680 Like, really cool panel.

03:11:00.120 All of you, like, really appreciate you.

03:11:01.820 You guys were awesome.

03:11:02.760 I'm always around.

03:11:03.660 Yeah.

03:11:04.900 Let's run it back for sure.

03:11:06.280 All of your mates.

03:11:06.800 Yeah.

03:11:07.700 So we're going to have a try to think.

03:11:09.260 I want to end off with one video.

03:11:11.620 I'm not sure which one yet, though.

03:11:13.180 We have one more Super Chat.

03:11:15.940 Juan, we'll let some more Super Chats come in if they want to.

03:11:19.220 Super Chat.

03:11:20.840 Scream, Ivy.

03:11:22.000 Super Chat.

03:11:24.360 And there's some handsome men on this podcast.

03:11:26.820 If you guys want, last minute Super Chats and then.

03:11:29.440 Oh, yeah.

03:11:29.760 Wait, are you sure we.

03:11:30.880 Let's see what the Super Chats got to say.

03:11:32.900 Wait, didn't I.

03:11:33.600 I thought we got all the Super Chats.

03:11:35.520 That's way too loud.

03:11:37.500 Oh.

03:11:38.460 I don't see it.

03:11:40.880 I think launch the Super Chat again.

03:11:42.540 Did you show it?

03:11:43.320 Or.

03:11:44.040 Oh, the.

03:11:44.340 Oh, I see.

03:11:46.560 I see.

03:11:46.840 Okay.

03:11:47.060 Okay.

03:11:48.300 Hmm.

03:11:48.960 Okay.

03:11:49.360 I want to open it up to the chat.

03:11:51.920 So, chat.

03:11:53.160 We can either react to an Andrew Tate video.

03:11:56.040 We can either watch one of.

03:11:58.340 We'll compare Andrea and Brian.

03:12:01.800 So, me.

03:12:02.920 Going up.

03:12:04.020 Asking.

03:12:04.620 The social experiment.

03:12:05.540 Asking for sex.

03:12:07.260 And we'll have the panel react.

03:12:09.040 Or.

03:12:11.000 We can watch a Bill Maher clip.

03:12:13.640 On masculinity being in.

03:12:18.220 In crisis.

03:12:20.320 So, those three options, guys.

03:12:22.660 I love a good crisis.

03:12:25.260 Wait, what was.

03:12:26.040 I'm sorry.

03:12:26.700 Repeat the last one.

03:12:27.600 I heard crisis.

03:12:29.100 So, Bill Maher.

03:12:29.860 There's a segment on his most recent show about.

03:12:32.460 I think something along the lines of masculinity.

03:12:35.220 Men being in crisis.

03:12:37.360 Okay.

03:12:37.700 At this point.

03:12:38.660 So.

03:12:40.520 Okay.

03:12:41.000 We got Tate.

03:12:42.520 Maher.

03:12:44.640 Andrew Tate.

03:12:45.880 Masculinity.

03:12:46.580 Bill Maher.

03:12:48.460 Maher clip.

03:12:50.480 Where is Andrea?

03:12:51.520 I'm seeing a lot of the Bill Maher ones.

03:12:52.480 Yeah, I'm seeing a lot of Bill.

03:12:53.760 Yeah, we're going to do the Bill Maher one.

03:12:55.640 Before you pull that up.

03:12:56.680 Let me just grab this super chat.

03:12:57.860 By the way, guys.

03:12:58.480 We're going to wrap up here.

03:12:59.600 So, get your last minute super chats in if you want.

03:13:02.520 But, for those of you who already did.

03:13:04.400 Thank you so much for the support, guys.

03:13:05.660 Really appreciate it.

03:13:07.260 EG, natural redheaded girl is wife and tear.

03:13:09.740 Okay.

03:13:10.400 Thank you.

03:13:11.860 I will be expecting.

03:13:13.000 Are you Natty?

03:13:14.920 Natty redheaded?

03:13:16.300 Natty.

03:13:16.720 Oh, I'm sorry.

03:13:17.240 I thought he said natural.

03:13:18.920 Oh, I am a natural redhead.

03:13:20.160 Oh, okay.

03:13:20.660 Rocking you.

03:13:20.780 Rocking you.

03:13:20.800 Yeah, I looked like Annie when I was a kid.

03:13:23.140 Sure.

03:13:23.660 All right, Eric, go ahead and pull up the Maher clip.

03:13:25.680 Why are men in such crisis?

03:13:40.260 I mean, the stats are like only 40% go to college.

03:13:43.940 So, they're losing out to women there in a big way.

03:13:46.380 And women with degrees don't marry men who don't have degrees.

03:13:50.600 So, they're like, great, you'll be lonely forever, aren't you?

03:14:00.100 Why are you chewing that?

03:14:01.480 We have a crisis among young men, and it starts at a young age.

03:14:04.640 Young men are twice as likely on a behavior-adjusted basis to be suspended.

03:14:08.260 Seven in ten high school valedictorians are women for every one female, for every two female graduates from college in the next five years, you'll only have one.

03:14:16.140 The scariest stat, walking down the avenue that is America, only one in three men under the age of 30 have had sex in the last year.

03:14:22.760 And you hear sex, and your brain fires.

03:14:24.620 But the bottom line is, it's a key step to the elemental foundation of any society, and that is relationships.

03:14:30.520 Young men aren't attaching to work.

03:14:32.500 They aren't attaching to women.

03:14:33.980 They aren't attaching to schools.

03:14:35.740 Mating has been consolidated in the worst way.

03:14:37.460 Fifty men on Tinder, fifty women.

03:14:39.520 Forty-six of the women show all of their attention to just four men, leaving forty-six men pursuing just four women.

03:14:45.380 If mating was a country, it would be more unequal than Venezuela.

03:14:51.080 We have huge mating inequality.

03:14:53.340 And here's the problem.

03:14:54.580 When people don't get together, and there's no pheromones, and there's no vibe, women, and we don't like to say this on the left, primarily try and make very quick assumptions about this individual's ability to garner resources in the future.

03:15:04.860 So what you have is this concentration of interest, and you're ending up with Porsche polygamy, where 10% of the men get 90% of the attention, which does not lead to good behavior or form long-term relationships.

03:15:16.160 Online dating is disastrous for mating and for men.

03:15:19.560 It's terrible.

03:15:21.760 Okay.

03:15:23.000 That was a recent clip from Bill Maher on HBO.

03:15:27.300 Really cool show.

03:15:29.800 I'm going to open it up to the panel, your guys' reaction to that.

03:15:32.580 I know there were a lot of talking points there, but your take, Natasha?

03:15:39.900 I think it is true that masculinity is in crisis.

03:15:43.060 I see that men are becoming more, they're becoming less, I don't know how to explain it, they're losing their drive for things.

03:15:54.800 They're losing their drive to pursue women.

03:15:56.180 They're losing their drive to achieve goals and go out into the world and be things.

03:16:02.580 And they're consuming, you know, bad food.

03:16:08.840 They're consuming P-O-R-N.

03:16:10.960 It's just things that aren't contributing to their growth.

03:16:13.960 And I think, I don't know, we're in an era of, you know, girls want all the power and all that stuff.

03:16:20.840 I don't know if that intimidates men.

03:16:22.340 I don't know if, like, that's a contributor to this.

03:16:25.460 But I think we are, you know, men are becoming more feminine and becoming, you know, they're slacking.

03:16:32.260 We need to kick it up a notch.

03:16:34.860 Kirkland Andrew Tate, the guy that we reacted to.

03:16:39.440 That's funny.

03:16:40.180 Go ahead.

03:16:42.080 Honestly, I really don't give a rat's ass.

03:16:45.300 If men, if the male species is depleting, okay.

03:16:49.480 What?

03:16:50.540 You guys, you guys have had your time to shine.

03:16:53.960 If you guys want to get better, you guys can do that yourselves.

03:16:56.940 But I'm not going to get you out of the slump.

03:16:59.200 Sorry.

03:16:59.600 Sorry.

03:17:02.040 Okay.

03:17:03.640 Sorry.

03:17:04.180 It's just, like, I don't really care.

03:17:05.260 Like, that's on you guys.

03:17:06.280 If you guys aren't, like, working or not going to college, then I don't know how to fix that.

03:17:12.060 I am.

03:17:13.180 So, I don't know why you aren't.

03:17:17.520 What do you think of men?

03:17:21.220 I love men, you know.

03:17:23.080 I love.

03:17:25.700 But didn't you just say you didn't care if all the men diminished?

03:17:28.900 Yeah, no.

03:17:29.600 No, I don't.

03:17:30.140 It doesn't affect me.

03:17:31.440 Do you have any, do you have a brother?

03:17:33.240 No.

03:17:33.820 I have a dad, though.

03:17:36.760 Okay.

03:17:37.960 I just, I don't know.

03:17:39.020 I don't really care.

03:17:40.080 Like, I just don't care about guys.

03:17:43.640 You guys don't.

03:17:45.040 You guys aren't really here for me, so.

03:17:47.620 What do you mean by that?

03:17:49.220 Like, I don't really need.

03:17:50.240 Into the microphone.

03:17:51.240 So sorry.

03:17:51.780 I don't really need a guy to, like, I don't need a guy in my life.

03:17:56.540 It's fun if I have one, but if I'm not going to try and make you guys better, you guys

03:18:03.100 can do that on yourselves.

03:18:05.060 Like, does that make sense?

03:18:06.380 I don't know.

03:18:08.640 It's kind of like what Cher said.

03:18:10.720 If that makes any sense.

03:18:11.680 It's like, I love men.

03:18:13.740 Like, I think men are the coolest, but do, like, I don't need them to survive.

03:18:17.980 Yeah.

03:18:18.240 Like, I love men.

03:18:19.820 Actually, I have to come in on this.

03:18:22.940 If you, okay, this is, you do actually need men to survive.

03:18:27.080 And here's why.

03:18:27.840 Everything that you see around you was built and created and maintained by men.

03:18:34.900 Okay.

03:18:35.220 Everything.

03:18:35.900 The infrastructure in this country, in every single country in the world, is built, created,

03:18:42.260 and maintained by good, honest, hardworking men that just want to provide for their family.

03:18:47.420 Okay.

03:18:48.300 Everything.

03:18:48.860 The roads you drive on, the buildings you live in, the restaurant, everything.

03:18:54.800 The dirty work.

03:18:55.800 If all men were to disappear, it would be chaos.

03:19:02.040 That would be really interesting.

03:19:05.740 Yeah, no, I don't, I don't think that all men should die.

03:19:08.960 I don't think that women are better than men.

03:19:11.260 I don't think that, like, any of that.

03:19:14.660 I think men are great.

03:19:15.660 It's just, I don't have to fight for your guys' struggles.

03:19:19.300 Well, and what I think Lulu means, too, is, like, I mean, in this present day and age,

03:19:24.200 like, does she need a husband or a boyfriend or something?

03:19:28.140 Like, I don't need a man to be happy.

03:19:29.320 Like, you can get a job.

03:19:30.320 Like, yeah, like, I don't need a man to get a job.

03:19:33.260 So, well, I have a comment about that, and I'm just playing devil's advocate.

03:19:36.140 It's a preface.

03:19:36.600 Yeah.

03:19:36.780 Yeah.

03:19:37.220 You said you don't have to fight for them, right?

03:19:41.380 Yeah.

03:19:41.700 But isn't that what feminism is about?

03:19:43.820 Wouldn't you want us pioneering for you guys and on your issues?

03:19:46.760 I mean, yeah, but you guys have had the upper hand for so many years that now...

03:19:55.440 Erroneous!

03:19:57.120 Erroneous!

03:19:57.560 I mean, you have, like, we couldn't vote 100 years ago, and about, sorry, I don't give

03:20:05.820 or take 20 years.

03:20:06.620 It was about 100.

03:20:07.940 Yeah, it was about 100.

03:20:08.600 You were right.

03:20:09.400 It was 19, 20.

03:20:11.200 But, like...

03:20:11.660 19, 20.

03:20:13.760 I can tell you why that is.

03:20:15.480 I don't...

03:20:16.560 Why?

03:20:18.100 Should we pull up the...

03:20:19.060 I don't know if I want to pull up the infographic.

03:20:20.800 But, okay, so...

03:20:22.080 It's just...

03:20:22.740 It's like...

03:20:22.980 So, just on the voting thing really quick.

03:20:25.060 So, voting being widely available to the vast majority of the population, whether it be men

03:20:31.800 or women or both, is a very new thing within the past 200, 300 years.

03:20:38.340 Before that, you basically had tyrants and kings that controlled everything.

03:20:42.420 Yeah.

03:20:43.200 So, both men and women throughout the vast majority of history had no voting rights.

03:20:47.880 There was a period from about, I want to say, starting in about 16, 1700s up until the early

03:20:54.340 1900s, where men had a slight advantage, and that's because of warfare.

03:21:01.300 So, the way men got the right to vote before women is men...

03:21:06.760 And still, to this day, this is the case.

03:21:08.840 Men are subject to military conscription.

03:21:10.720 They're subject to the draft.

03:21:13.380 So, if there's a war, men are forced to go and die and be in the trenches and get fucking

03:21:19.200 chemical...

03:21:19.700 So are women.

03:21:20.040 Women can get drafted.

03:21:20.980 Women cannot get drafted.

03:21:22.440 Yeah, they can.

03:21:23.800 You think women can get drafted?

03:21:25.520 I don't know.

03:21:26.420 I want to say.

03:21:27.020 I don't think there's...

03:21:27.720 Put me up in Vietnam.

03:21:28.600 Like, I don't know.

03:21:29.940 Women were not drafted in Vietnam.

03:21:31.360 I know, but...

03:21:31.680 Okay, but the thing is, too, is, like, the voting thing, like, that...

03:21:34.620 I mean, I feel like...

03:21:35.380 I agree with you.

03:21:36.160 I think it was just, like, something you brought up.

03:21:38.120 Like, also, like, 250 years ago, like, if we got married, we're not our own person.

03:21:42.780 We belong to our fathers or our husbands.

03:21:44.400 Our kids belong to our fathers or our husbands, I guess.

03:21:47.600 And then, like, all our money...

03:21:49.340 Well, we don't have money because we're not allowed to work.

03:21:52.000 Yeah.

03:21:52.200 It's, like, and we can't do anything about that because, at the time, like, we couldn't

03:21:55.860 vote to change those laws.

03:21:57.480 So, I think it's...

03:21:59.200 Yeah, like, my dad taught me to always be self-reliant and to never rely on anyone, and

03:22:03.680 that's what I'm going to do.

03:22:04.800 And so, since I am relying on myself, I'm not going to worry about what you guys are doing.

03:22:11.860 Okay.

03:22:12.940 Fair.

03:22:13.860 All right.

03:22:14.260 We won't go too far down the rabbit hole on that one.

03:22:20.620 I forgot kind of where we were...

03:22:24.040 What was the...

03:22:24.560 It was about the...

03:22:25.260 What was the question again?

03:22:27.300 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

03:22:28.580 So, do you want to give your reaction to the Bill Maher clip?

03:22:33.880 I mean, after that debate, I kind of forgot what the Bill Maher clip was.

03:22:36.880 It was pretty much...

03:22:37.720 I mean, I don't think masculinity is really, like, completely gone.

03:22:42.600 I mean, some...

03:22:43.380 No, it's not completely gone, but it's...

03:22:45.260 Like, depleting?

03:22:46.380 Is that what he was...

03:22:47.060 Yeah.

03:22:47.380 Well, I think...

03:22:48.380 I think men can be feminine.

03:22:50.720 I think men can have the right to be feminine.

03:22:53.040 Just like, you know, like Harry Styles, he wore a dress on the cover of...

03:22:57.040 What was it?

03:22:57.360 Was it Vogue?

03:22:58.300 Yeah.

03:22:58.460 I think that's perfectly fine.

03:22:59.920 Like, men can do what they want.

03:23:01.360 You'd date a guy who wears a dress?

03:23:04.220 I would.

03:23:05.080 Honestly?

03:23:06.100 I absolutely would.

03:23:07.100 Yeah.

03:23:07.400 Like, if they wore a dress on, like...

03:23:10.500 Like, say, like, a magazine cover...

03:23:12.860 It's not the guy.

03:23:13.420 I'd be fine.

03:23:14.340 It's not the guy.

03:23:14.820 It's not the guy.

03:23:15.000 It's the ordinary guy.

03:23:15.660 Ordinary guy.

03:23:16.160 Yeah.

03:23:16.320 You're talking about a guy with status, so...

03:23:18.640 Guy with status.

03:23:19.540 Well, if he's on a magazine cover, he must have some degree of status.

03:23:22.540 And if he just, like, wore a dress...

03:23:23.160 But, like, an ordinary guy in IV, you're going to DP with him, your boyfriend, and he's

03:23:27.720 wearing...

03:23:28.280 Del Playa.

03:23:29.460 He's wearing a dress.

03:23:30.440 You're okay with that?

03:23:31.740 Well, the kind of guys that I go for have a really huge sense of humor, so I think he would definitely

03:23:36.100 wear a dress to be, like...

03:23:37.580 On the regular...

03:23:37.980 Well, like, not as a joke, though.

03:23:39.100 Like, he's just like, yeah, I want to wear a dress, just because he wants to.

03:23:41.340 Not as, like, a gag or, like, a, oh, look at me, I'm funny.

03:23:43.960 Just, I want to wear a dress.

03:23:45.360 Then I'd wear his clothes.

03:23:47.600 If he wore my clothes, I'd wear his clothes.

03:23:50.100 I think it'd be funny.

03:23:51.080 Like, I mean, I don't want to, like, hate on someone for, like, dressing feminine.

03:24:00.620 But, I mean, I don't think masculinity is, like, completely depleting, like, a thousand

03:24:04.500 percent.

03:24:05.920 I think men just are deciding to be who they want to be, and I think that's fine.

03:24:10.300 I think that's a really good choice.

03:24:11.800 They should be able to be who they want to be.

03:24:13.820 And if that means wearing a dress, then so be it.

03:24:17.280 Go for it.

03:24:17.960 Blair, would you wear a dress?

03:24:22.820 I think you would rock a bodycon.

03:24:24.920 Yeah, I was just about to say, too.

03:24:25.560 I don't know what that is.

03:24:26.320 Can you explain?

03:24:26.920 Like, a tight-fitted dress.

03:24:28.300 Yeah.

03:24:29.200 Well, usually short, I would say, right?

03:24:31.720 The closest thing I've worn to a dress is a wrestling singlet.

03:24:35.420 Oh, love.

03:24:36.920 Because that's, like, the uniform you wear in wrestling.

03:24:40.100 It's, like, a little, like, jumpsuit thing.

03:24:42.520 Love the vibes.

03:24:43.460 Did you wrestle at, wait, San Marcos?

03:24:45.580 DP wrestled all four years.

03:24:47.440 Oh, shit.

03:24:48.820 Varsity?

03:24:49.500 Yes.

03:24:50.240 Bam.

03:24:50.980 Was Coach Anthony his name?

03:24:54.420 Yeah, that's his name.

03:24:55.120 Can we say his name?

03:24:55.700 I don't know if we can say his name.

03:24:56.080 I don't know what he's going to say.

03:24:57.480 But, yeah.

03:24:58.040 No, I wrestled at San Marcos.

03:25:00.680 Oh, well, okay.

03:25:03.680 Yeah, I wrestled in high school.

03:25:04.860 I'll just say that.

03:25:05.700 Okay.

03:25:09.960 I don't know where I'm going with that.

03:25:11.020 Okay.

03:25:13.320 Final questions for you guys.

03:25:14.640 Has a blue check mark ever sent you, like, a guy with a blue check mark, has he ever DM'd you?

03:25:22.180 Yeah, but it was on accident, so.

03:25:24.580 It was on accident?

03:25:25.820 Yeah, kind of.

03:25:26.940 Okay.

03:25:27.520 I got a follow on TikTok, and he sent me some emojis and said, definitely didn't mean to send that.

03:25:31.920 Ha ha.

03:25:32.180 Yeah.

03:25:32.420 I want to add one other.

03:25:33.420 Didn't mean to send that.

03:25:34.420 Yeah.

03:25:35.520 I don't know.

03:25:35.920 It was weird.

03:25:36.180 I want to add one question to this.

03:25:39.940 On a, either day-to-day or week-to-week basis, how many Instagram DMs would you guys say you get from guys?

03:25:48.300 Instagram, not so much.

03:25:49.340 I don't have a huge following on there.

03:25:52.220 I mean, I get along matches on Hinge, so, I don't know.

03:25:55.840 Okay.

03:25:57.160 A decent amount.

03:25:57.820 I don't know, like, twice a week, maybe.

03:26:03.940 I mean, I get a good amount on Instagram.

03:26:06.160 You want to get a lot more tonight, too, after this?

03:26:07.900 I can tell.

03:26:08.920 Someone's already asking if they can wear my bra on their face, so.

03:26:12.440 Okay.

03:26:13.060 Mike Davis is back.

03:26:14.240 Mike Davis is back.

03:26:14.500 Entertain me has really been going on for it.

03:26:18.180 Kara.

03:26:20.200 Is it Kara or Kara?

03:26:23.400 I think both of them.

03:26:25.580 You know what's funny?

03:26:26.320 I actually dated a woman, and I fucked it, like, whoa.

03:26:30.840 I fucked.

03:26:31.480 I messed it up.

03:26:33.940 Her name was, it's K-A-R-A.

03:26:36.520 My name is K-A-R-A, too.

03:26:38.340 Well, it wasn't you.

03:26:39.320 Okay.

03:26:39.900 I know.

03:26:40.540 I know.

03:26:41.400 We know.

03:26:41.960 We know.

03:26:42.420 But, no, I dated, I was dating this girl named Kara.

03:26:45.480 Kara.

03:26:45.960 I can't even remember it to this day.

03:26:47.740 And, like, it was our second date, and I asked her for clarification.

03:26:50.840 I was like, hey, just tell me again how you pronounce it.

03:26:55.160 I didn't get her name wrong.

03:26:56.540 I didn't, like, call her Gertrude.

03:26:58.320 I knew the spelling of her name.

03:27:00.760 I was just like, what's the pronunciation?

03:27:02.400 And that was a deal breaker for her.

03:27:04.140 Sometimes they can get real angry about it.

03:27:05.920 No, she was like, hey, I'm not, like, it just ruined the night, and then we never, she was like, yeah.

03:27:11.680 What?

03:27:11.860 I, you forgot my name, basically.

03:27:13.420 I was like, I told her, I was like, well, I didn't call you Bertha.

03:27:17.900 Bertha.

03:27:18.520 I called you, like, I know what it is.

03:27:20.600 I was just asking for clarification on the pronunciation.

03:27:22.600 But, yeah.

03:27:24.100 It's tough out there, guys.

03:27:25.160 Okay.

03:27:25.660 So, blue checkmark in your DMs.

03:27:29.400 You just ignored me.

03:27:32.580 What?

03:27:33.260 No, no, I'm just kidding.

03:27:34.540 I'm just kidding, yeah.

03:27:35.280 Go ahead, go ahead.

03:27:36.260 You mean, like, how many DMs I receive in my Instagram?

03:27:39.280 Yeah, like, on a day-to-day basis, week-to-week basis.

03:27:42.240 Probably, like, seven or ten per day or something.

03:27:47.600 That's a lot.

03:27:48.200 That's a lot.

03:27:48.800 And it's, like, guys that it's apparent that they have a romantic interest.

03:27:54.440 Yeah.

03:27:54.880 Okay.

03:27:55.780 I'm curious.

03:27:56.840 So, you have a boyfriend.

03:27:58.460 You guys have been dating for a year, a year and a half?

03:28:00.860 No, no, no.

03:28:01.420 We've just been dating for, like, four or five months.

03:28:04.060 Okay.

03:28:04.380 At what point on your Instagram are you going to be posting?

03:28:08.940 Are you going to post your boyfriend on there?

03:28:11.460 I actually post my boyfriend before.

03:28:13.520 Oh, really?

03:28:14.080 Yeah, yeah.

03:28:14.680 Oh, okay.

03:28:15.960 And, but, we kind of, like, had, like, he is totally okay with, like, my, he's, like,

03:28:22.320 oh, it's your account.

03:28:23.180 It's your page.

03:28:24.060 You can do whatever you want.

03:28:25.560 I'm not going to force you to post me anyway.

03:28:28.120 Yeah.

03:28:29.020 But I think, I don't know, like, for a healthy relationship.

03:28:36.660 No, not healthy.

03:28:37.560 But, like, I just, I just don't want him to worry or anything.

03:28:41.220 Yeah.

03:28:41.560 Sure.

03:28:42.400 Yeah.

03:28:42.920 Okay.

03:28:43.140 I just gave him enough, like, security.

03:28:46.240 Yeah.

03:28:46.580 Yeah.

03:28:47.500 Okay.

03:28:49.020 Any blue DMs ever, blue check marks in your DMs?

03:28:52.100 Yeah, once, but it was, like, not anyone actually famous.

03:28:54.900 It was, like, some rando in, like, Kanye's DM, or Kanye's comments, you know, this, like,

03:28:58.840 random ass account.

03:28:59.980 It's, like, how the fuck do you have a blue check mark?

03:29:02.400 But, yeah, I mean, I didn't respond.

03:29:04.240 He was kind of weird.

03:29:05.820 Okay.

03:29:07.240 Blair?

03:29:07.820 I mean, any dudes?

03:29:08.980 No.

03:29:09.400 Oh, dudes.

03:29:10.000 Any dudes with blue check marks?

03:29:11.500 Well, not that are hollering at me.

03:29:13.120 In your DMs.

03:29:13.360 But, um, I've got you in there, and then I've got one of my mentors has a blue check.

03:29:18.020 We talk here and there, you know.

03:29:19.760 Oh, nice.

03:29:20.640 Good times.

03:29:21.240 Good times.

03:29:21.900 Yeah.

03:29:22.460 Yeah, I don't think I've ever gotten blue check marks.

03:29:24.660 No, no, no influencer girls in my DMs.

03:29:26.800 Nothing like that.

03:29:27.260 Yeah, same here.

03:29:27.800 Same here.

03:29:29.160 Um, actually, there might have been, no, there was one.

03:29:32.240 Wait.

03:29:33.740 I don't think so, actually.

03:29:35.040 Anyway.

03:29:35.300 Uh, let's see.

03:29:38.540 Super chats, guys, and then we're going to wrap up.

03:29:40.940 Uh, wait.

03:29:44.360 Hold on.

03:29:46.000 Did we get this one, guys?

03:29:48.080 Yeah, we got that.

03:29:48.860 Yeah.

03:29:49.060 Okay.

03:29:49.400 Yeah.

03:29:50.100 Uh, we got that one.

03:29:52.680 Uh, we'll, we'll let, do you want to answer this one?

03:29:56.120 Sure.

03:29:56.420 I'm not toxic.

03:29:57.400 I just, I'm sorry that I don't think that men's, men being feminine is a suffrage movement for them right now.

03:30:08.520 And that it's one I'm going to care about.

03:30:11.460 Okay.

03:30:11.980 Okay.

03:30:12.340 Evil Matt with the, I still don't know what currency this is.

03:30:15.100 Anyone in the chat?

03:30:15.720 Oh, he, he, he said it was from Poland.

03:30:17.820 Oh, Poland.

03:30:18.500 Yeah.

03:30:18.640 Of course.

03:30:19.320 Yeah.

03:30:19.580 So I think he said it's like five bucks or something.

03:30:21.740 Ah, Jindobre.

03:30:22.520 Okay.

03:30:22.840 Uh, yo, what's up with Andrea, by the way?

03:30:26.840 Um, by the way, it's got to be, I don't know if I, uh, Andrea, I mean, I'm not going to talk about that.

03:30:33.760 And I, I don't think I'll ever talk about what went on with Andrea.

03:30:38.000 But, uh, okay.

03:30:40.760 Anyone curious?

03:30:41.600 That's a girl I used to work with.

03:30:43.320 She was in some of the videos.

03:30:44.840 Uh, Mike Davis.

03:30:46.320 Nothing, nothing terrible.

03:30:47.780 Just, uh, you know, we haven't.

03:30:49.760 Classic Mike.

03:30:50.480 Uh, Blondie just had a feminist study class and is in her feelings, but it's going to

03:30:55.500 cringe in a few years when this is replayed.

03:30:57.560 Uh, Mike Davis, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

03:30:59.360 Do you have a response to Mr. Mike Davis?

03:31:00.880 Um, yeah, I have actually never taken a feminist class.

03:31:06.040 Um, I'm probably not.

03:31:07.920 I probably would have said this five years ago.

03:31:09.640 I'm saying it now.

03:31:11.420 I did see one chat though.

03:31:13.260 That was like her brain shut off during the video.

03:31:15.800 It did.

03:31:16.340 I, I, what I said is what I heard in my mind.

03:31:21.500 So yeah, like, like, like what, like what I like, what I respond, what I like responded

03:31:32.460 to the video.

03:31:33.120 Like that was how I interpreted the video, but honestly, I've selected hearing.

03:31:37.380 Yeah.

03:31:37.820 I, I, I wasn't listening to it that much.

03:31:41.460 Whoa.

03:31:42.240 Did you hear that scream?

03:31:44.120 Yeah.

03:31:44.600 So anyways, uh, I'm pretty sure that's it.

03:31:47.840 I know some of you skipped over the last thoughts.

03:31:50.640 Anyone want to come in real quick or.

03:31:53.680 Okay.

03:31:54.220 Can I just say a comment?

03:31:55.340 Sure.

03:31:55.640 Go for it.

03:31:56.160 I just want to thank everyone in the chat for complimenting my tattoos.

03:32:00.040 That's really nice of you guys.

03:32:03.740 Thanks.

03:32:04.420 Uh, someone's asking.

03:32:06.340 Not doing a feed check though.

03:32:09.240 Dude, XXX is like the biggest troll.

03:32:12.440 Um, he's always, there was a guy like Matt who was trolling me big time.

03:32:16.740 It was really funny.

03:32:17.640 Actually.

03:32:18.060 He's like, he was like, he's probably sitting on three phone books.

03:32:20.540 Yeah.

03:32:21.660 It was good.

03:32:22.620 Oh yeah.

03:32:22.840 We can wrap up just reading a couple of the chats.

03:32:25.120 Elite street says caught Kara the type to peg you without asking.

03:32:30.220 What?

03:32:30.740 Wait.

03:32:31.280 Um, what, what does it mean for a pack?

03:32:33.600 I'm sorry.

03:32:34.780 Pegging.

03:32:35.520 Um, be easy.

03:32:36.480 Tasha, can you explain to her what pegging is?

03:32:38.720 It's when you put, it's when you fuck a man.

03:32:42.440 It's when you put a dick on and you like have sex.

03:32:45.320 It could be a little plug.

03:32:46.140 So wait, it's a plastic harness and there's a dick attached to it.

03:32:49.560 Like a dildo.

03:32:50.100 And so instead of a fucking you, you're returning the favor.

03:32:55.580 Okay.

03:32:56.540 Lulu.

03:32:56.960 I mean.

03:32:57.400 Trader Joe's.

03:32:58.020 I'll be there too.

03:32:58.940 Oh, Pearl.

03:32:59.440 I'll be at Trader Joe's tomorrow.

03:33:01.040 I won't be there, but he'll be there.

03:33:02.220 Seriously, I definitely gonna, no, I was about to go to like Trader Joe's with my friends.

03:33:06.520 Come through.

03:33:07.200 Say hi to Blair.

03:33:07.900 Come through with me.

03:33:08.640 I have to.

03:33:09.780 No.

03:33:09.920 Clear.

03:33:11.760 Blondie's brain on SpongeBob cabinets on fire.

03:33:14.700 That's funny.

03:33:15.760 I love the chat.

03:33:17.280 The chat is so funny.

03:33:18.140 Yeah, chat's dope.

03:33:19.460 Love to chat.

03:33:21.060 Delete OF.

03:33:21.780 What is it in, do you speak Mandarin or Cantonese?

03:33:25.400 I speak Mandarin.

03:33:26.640 Yeah.

03:33:27.060 Yeah.

03:33:27.560 How would you say, I want to peg someone?

03:33:31.600 Oh, no.

03:33:33.540 How would you say that in Mandarin?

03:33:35.060 I'm not, no.

03:33:37.980 Can you translate for us?

03:33:39.080 The chat's been asking.

03:33:40.420 No, no, no.

03:33:41.420 Okay.

03:33:41.580 That's fine.

03:33:42.080 That's fine.

03:33:42.460 That's fine.

03:33:42.840 That's fine.

03:33:45.200 Okay.

03:33:45.800 So, oh, we got a big super chat from our homie.

03:33:49.680 Hold on.

03:33:50.380 Has it come through yet?

03:33:51.400 Not yet.

03:33:52.200 Glad this will get right to it.

03:33:54.860 Hey, yeah.

03:33:55.500 Chat.

03:33:55.900 Thank you guys for being so awesome.

03:33:57.320 Really appreciate it.

03:33:59.140 You guys are always hilarious.

03:34:01.900 Always good to see you.

03:34:03.280 Especially always good to see people coming back and returning.

03:34:06.600 I've started to notice all the regulars, you know.

03:34:08.940 Well, I've been noticing the regulars, but yeah.

03:34:12.420 Is this super chatting yet or no?

03:34:15.020 Not quite yet.

03:34:18.860 Okay.

03:34:20.420 Still waiting for it.

03:34:21.540 Still waiting for it.

03:34:22.320 Sorry, guys.

03:34:23.100 Yeah, we're going to wrap up.

03:34:23.940 Sorry, guys.

03:34:24.700 I've got a quick one.

03:34:25.860 Go ahead.

03:34:26.180 For the women.

03:34:27.160 Would you rather date a male stripper slash dancer or a male OnlyFans model?

03:34:33.380 The male stripper is giving lap dances the whole nine, and then the OnlyFans guy has

03:34:37.580 got his, like, dong out, his butt cheeks on there, his feet.

03:34:42.000 None.

03:34:42.520 What would you rather do?

03:34:43.360 Why would I have to chose doing this?

03:34:46.580 I'm just curious.

03:34:47.280 What would you choose?

03:34:49.520 I'd choose a stripper.

03:34:50.500 I want a lap dance.

03:34:51.700 I'd choose an OnlyFans.

03:34:53.020 I wouldn't want him.

03:34:53.680 But he's giving lap dances to other girls in Vegas, though.

03:34:56.440 That's why.

03:34:56.980 But good for them.

03:34:58.320 I'd do either or, honestly.

03:35:00.260 I'd do OnlyFans.

03:35:00.660 You've got to pick one.

03:35:00.880 You've got to pick one.

03:35:01.340 Who are you dating?

03:35:02.960 Okay, wait.

03:35:03.600 Is there, like, any other, like, rules?

03:35:07.060 No, yeah.

03:35:07.660 He gives lap dances.

03:35:09.620 To, like, other people?

03:35:10.880 Other girls.

03:35:11.800 Okay, that's fine.

03:35:12.160 In, like, Vegas type shit.

03:35:13.620 Well, he's getting that bag.

03:35:14.960 Yeah, well, yeah.

03:35:15.460 Like, think about it.

03:35:16.040 Like, would you rather him, like, get a lap dance?

03:35:18.520 So, like, every girl knows what his dick looks like.

03:35:20.180 The OnlyFans guy's getting the bag, too.

03:35:22.340 Ooh.

03:35:23.120 So, I mean.

03:35:24.100 Let's say they're getting paid the same amount of money.

03:35:25.820 It doesn't really.

03:35:26.320 I think.

03:35:27.020 Oh, shit.

03:35:28.100 I don't know.

03:35:28.600 Because, like, it would be also the same, like, say, if, like, you know, if it was me,

03:35:33.540 like, either a stripper or an OnlyFans, I mean, I'd probably go for, you know, I'd go for

03:35:37.240 the stripper.

03:35:38.900 I don't know.

03:35:39.840 Maybe.

03:35:40.360 Yeah, I'd go for the stripper.

03:35:42.580 Because what if I actually walked in on him doing his OnlyFans thing?

03:35:45.560 I'd be like, oh, I am so sorry that you are just showing your dick to three million people

03:35:51.380 right now.

03:35:51.900 I apologize.

03:35:53.380 Probably the stripper.

03:35:55.740 Okay.

03:35:56.520 I'm going to just, we'll wrap up here.

03:35:59.360 Glebis, thank you for the big $20 super chat, man.

03:36:01.500 Much appreciated.

03:36:02.320 Best panel yet.

03:36:02.960 Definitely a really cool panel.

03:36:04.320 Great panel.

03:36:06.020 Yeah, guys.

03:36:06.760 So, I want to thank all the viewers for tuning in tonight.

03:36:11.560 Much appreciated.

03:36:12.300 You could have been doing anything else, but you were here with me.

03:36:14.880 I appreciate that.

03:36:15.900 We will be live again Thursday at 7 p.m. Pacific.

03:36:20.680 And then, actually, this weekend, I'm finally doing another interview.

03:36:24.360 I believe that's going to be live Sunday at 3 p.m.

03:36:27.420 So, next Dating Talk Thursday at 7 p.m.

03:36:29.900 And then, I'll be doing an interview, I believe, 3 or 4 p.m.

03:36:34.640 So, yeah.

03:36:35.220 Thank you guys so much for tuning in.

03:36:37.180 Thank you to the wonderful panel for being awesome.

03:36:41.920 And, yeah.

03:36:42.700 We will see you next time, guys.

03:36:44.900 Hope you guys have a good night.

03:36:46.920 Bye.

03:36:47.280 Bye, everybody.

03:36:47.740 everybody.

Whatever Podcast - February 02, 2023

Dating Talk #17

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