Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #19

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00:02:24.060 at UCSB and apparently UCSB was ranked the number one party school in America by niche.com

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00:03:32.380 us your name age occupation and your school major starting with you okay my name's Nailani and I'm 18

00:03:38.820 and I'm not working right now and I'm a psychology major at UCSP or SPCC okay cool hi I'm Aline I I'm a student I'm a second year at UCSB and I'm a bio major

00:03:53.340 hi I'm Sophia I'm also second year at UCSB and I'm an actuarial science major

00:04:00.860 my name is Giselle I'm 20 and I'm a third year I work at blenders the smoothie place and I'm double majoring in psych and

00:04:11.860 biological anthropology

00:04:13.860 um I'm Maddie I'm 21 I'm a fourth year and I'm a poli sci major

00:04:20.740 I'm Natasha I'm 19 I'm not in school right now but I do do content creation

00:04:26.700 okay by the way someone in chat just uh here said Zach Frisbee said poor girls got bounced by UCLA do you guys uh have a response to that

00:04:35.620 um I got rejected from UCLA so yeah okay so he was right yeah all of you got rejected from UCLA

00:04:43.900 yeah okay cool cool so we're gonna go around once more uh by the way guys all the girls instagrams 1.00

00:04:52.580 around this are in the description show them some love give them a follow so we're gonna go around

00:04:57.800 again relationship status current relationship status longest relationship and are you on the dating app

00:05:02.540 um my relationship status status is kind of complicated I'm not really gonna elaborate on

00:05:09.500 that um but I'm not on any dating apps

00:05:12.460 but I feel like there was a third part of that longest relationship oh my longest relationship

00:05:18.780 was a year so you're not you don't want to elaborate on the kind of complicated no okay she's

00:05:24.840 got three boyfriends okay you go ahead I am not available I'm with one guy but it's just complicated

00:05:30.020 sugar daddy no okay that's fine um I'm not in a relationship what was the other questions

00:05:38.900 uh so current relationship status longest relationship and are you on a dating app

00:05:46.580 longest relationship uh like a month and then

00:05:50.740 I'm like I have a dating app but I don't really check it

00:05:56.260 so does it count which one which dating app hinge because I'm banned from tinder

00:06:01.300 oh why why did you get banned from tinder what did you do I didn't do anything who did you hurt

00:06:07.860 I promise I didn't do anything yeah you okay

00:06:11.460 you know what we should do we should do a dating app review like review

00:06:17.940 the panel's dating profiles we'll do it we'll do it next show okay uh go ahead um my current

00:06:24.580 relationship status is I have a boyfriend um my longest relationship is two and a half years and I'm

00:06:32.420 not on a dating app is that your current no it was a past one okay um I am currently single

00:06:41.060 I have always been single I've never had a longest relationship and I oh and I'm on tinder

00:06:51.540 just for for fun so never had a relationship never

00:06:58.660 what's the longest period of time that you've seen a guy uh probably like

00:07:05.460 like a year but not well but whoa a year but not like exclusively your choice or his um mutual

00:07:19.540 okay so is was it inconsistent because a year's a fairly long time to see somebody yeah it was it

00:07:25.540 was inconsistent it was like I went to college and then I would like come home and you know okay

00:07:32.820 all right go ahead um my current relationship status is that I have a girlfriend uh my longest

00:07:40.020 relationship was like a year and a half and I'm not on any dating apps right now so are you bi or are

00:07:45.780 you lesbian I'm bi okay got it um I'm single my longest relationship was a year and a half and I'm on

00:07:54.500 hinge but I don't use it like the profiles paused you know allegedly allegedly okay I want to go around 0.75

00:08:02.500 just once more on this so this isn't it's kind of a dating app but not really have any of you either

00:08:07.700 been on seeking arrangements or had a sugar daddy at some point I've never heard of seeking arrangements

00:08:14.820 okay I've heard of it but I'm not on it have you ever had a sugar daddy no besides the I've had

00:08:24.260 offers but I've just never taken you had you had offers like on my dms like they'll be like yeah

00:08:29.620 yeah I'm sure every girl what about the in and out guy that took you on like nine my dates

00:08:37.220 I mean a person a person well I remember our previous conversation but I mean a person your

00:08:43.620 age could still be a sugar daddy oh but it's basically just there's a like it's not an old

00:08:49.460 man then but they just well general I would say generally a sugar daddy would be old but they don't

00:08:55.620 have to be old so they just like buy me food or things for my company pretty much well so it could

00:09:02.900 be your exact you've had that yeah I don't think I'm pretty sure every girl has every girl's had that

00:09:09.380 yeah have you had that wait what was it like some guy just buys you like stuff oh I mean like

00:09:14.500 it doesn't have to be old sugar daddy is like when you're like doing something pull the microphone a

00:09:18.500 bit closer towards you like doing something with a guy keep going in exchange for money so I don't never

00:09:25.220 had that okay I mean I wasn't really like doing anything I was just hanging out with him but was it

00:09:35.140 clear that the guy had a romantic interest in you yes yes okay but you didn't have a romantic

00:09:39.780 interest in the guy not necessarily no okay so have you ever had that where there's a guy

00:09:45.700 you know he was your dinner guy you had no interest in him but he'd take you out to dinner

00:09:50.740 yeah he's actually on here right now he's in the chat yeah Harvey took me out to dinner one like a few

00:09:55.380 times with no interest you'll see him pop in there are you guys friendly or is he gonna

00:09:59.780 me and him are like best friends now he's like one of my closest friends yeah so he's in the friend

00:10:04.020 zone oh he's been in the rip can we can we get a candle vigil in the in the chat for what's his name

00:10:10.820 Harvey Harvey yeah can we get either skulls or candles in the chat for for Harvey sorry Harvey

00:10:18.100 I literally kept seeing him pop up because so you curved you curved poor Harvey he curved me first

00:10:24.980 he curved like we were like a thing like a year ago and then I'm not gonna he just looks a little

00:10:32.100 different now okay uh have so have you ever had a uh been on seeking arrangements or had a

00:10:39.540 no I haven't heard of that either okay no Giselle absolutely not

00:10:44.500 Kiki she said yes okay oh um go ahead I haven't heard of seeking arrangements but I do have a guy

00:10:54.580 that just sends me money sometimes love that how much does he send you however much I ask for

00:11:03.460 what's the most that you've asked for I think at one time I got around 300

00:11:09.220 dollars and is there an any expectation of getting something in return like do you send fee pics or just

00:11:17.300 what like he just sends you money some people are into like sending women money

00:11:23.060 just for no reason like knowing that the girl is gonna spend their money they're into that 0.98

00:11:28.740 yeah yeah it's that's weird it's called being a pay pig it's fucking okay um wait so 0.93

00:11:38.580 what what was what were the circumstances of that happening um he was sending doing it to my friend 0.89

00:11:47.540 first because he's from where my old roommate lives he's so he's from Florida so I've never met this man

00:11:52.260 but and you're from you're from Florida no I'm from California oh okay um so you just

00:12:00.980 what do you send him something

00:12:04.980 did you send him nudes you can say yeah what occasionally not all the time so like

00:12:10.180 what kind of nudes feet pics no our feet pics nudes no no then what did you

00:12:17.940 it varies just whatever whatever I feel like okay interesting uh Natasha I've never been on

00:12:26.660 seeking arrangements no ever had a sugar daddy no okay where are all the women who want to be 1.00

00:12:34.340 sugar mamas there's never been a girl that's like dm'd me hey brian send me pics of your hands

00:12:40.820 how do I have a I've had girls reach out I've had girls yeah but it's usually like it's a bot it's

00:12:46.820 always like I feel like all the guys who reach out are bots too like I never respond wait you've had

00:12:51.540 girls reach out to you yeah but they're bots yeah but it's because they just reach out to everyone they 1.00

00:12:56.740 don't even realize that they're a girl yeah and when when you say bots do you actually mean like

00:13:00.980 there's not it's a fake profile it's a fake profile so they're trying to scam they're usually like

00:13:06.180 bitcoin scams oh yeah no I mean yeah so I mean genuine I have you wow wait you've had a girl 0.99

00:13:15.780 reach out to me to view but she creeped me out and it was in person so I didn't do it oh 0.68

00:13:20.180 shit but you could have finessed I was scared for my I was scared for your safety yes wait was she like 0.98

00:13:27.860 older woman yes butch no it was it was just an older woman and it scared me okay I thought I was 1.00

00:13:39.380 gonna get kidnapped good times good times yeah I'm just I've been waiting if there's any women in 1.00

00:13:46.260 santa barbara that want a sugar baby dms are my dms are open what are you talking about they're like

00:13:52.500 19 18 19 yeah what do you mean like if if I were to be a sugar mama I'd pick like a nice young buck 1.00

00:14:04.020 I mean like you know I you know I I got a couple years left to me you know um you know when do you

00:14:12.980 plan on dying Ryan I mean but for now this wild buck has to roam free or he will die okay uh

00:14:20.740 I want to go around the table on our last little thing here uh let's see so

00:14:31.060 we went over relationship status and stuff okay so really curious so actually never mind so do you

00:14:37.700 identify as a feminist in political orientation uh I do not identify as a feminist but when it comes

00:14:44.660 like politics I'm kind of in the middle because like my dad's like a really strong like trump supporter

00:14:50.020 and my mom's like a really strong Biden supporter so it kind of just throws me right in the middle of

00:14:54.180 that are your parents still together hell no they have been split up since I was 18 months

00:15:00.100 like they are never been together never will be my dad has my mom blocked on everything right now

00:15:05.780 sounds like a great relationship wait so and we're but they were married no oh okay I was like I am like

00:15:14.260 from a hookup good times yeah good times yeah they told you that no I just know that that's how it was

00:15:21.300 like they like you know that they like I was like a hookup and then they like I was not planned at all

00:15:25.220 whatsoever and then they like kind of got together like cuz of me but like that didn't work out

00:15:28.740 yeah wow yeah good times okay what else you got for us let's save that for later there's a lot okay uh

00:15:40.740 so you're moderate kind of because your dad he's Trump supporter mom super liberal yeah I just don't

00:15:46.740 have a strong like opinion on either that's fine like moderate cool Aline um I would say I'm more of an

00:15:55.380 egalitarian rather than a feminist because when people say feminist it's more of like people have 0.95

00:16:03.700 like an idea of what how like of how women are how like a feminist woman or woman is in society but 1.00

00:16:13.140 egalitarianism is more of just equality like equal like how you um how you treat each other

00:16:23.380 um but feminists sometimes it has um people can view that as women thinking that they're better 1.00

00:16:31.940 than men or thinking that um she's like don't worry she's not laughing at you she's laughing at the

00:16:37.860 chat reading the chat so yeah you should probably yeah just avert avert your eyes just but yeah I'm an

00:16:44.100 egalitarian okay rock and roll rock and roll have you been reading up on some literature over the

00:16:50.980 summer since your last appearance on the podcast no okay uh political orientation political orientation

00:16:59.620 um I don't like to dabble in politics I know it's like a pretty privileged thing to say but

00:17:07.700 honestly I'd say whatever like I'd say I'm a pretty um I'd say I'm a traditional like democrat

00:17:20.580 thought you're about to say traditional communist

00:17:24.180 traditional democrat no my classical my relatives fought against the communists so actually

00:17:30.580 oh pro-america pro-capitalism yeah I'm Vietnamese right okay we've left they fought against the

00:17:39.940 vietcong the vc yes okay good times good times okay so am I a feminist uh do you identify as a feminist

00:17:51.140 in political orientation um I don't know I you know I'm all for equality girls supporting girls guys

00:17:57.140 supporting girls girls supporting guys so I don't know you know sure um yeah and political orientation

00:18:04.580 um I would say like left-leaning by the way I just want to say if someone's very liberal if someone's

00:18:11.460 conservative no judgment yeah we invite a diversity of thought on here so go ahead

00:18:17.540 I would consider myself a feminist I feel like feminism has gotten really misconstrued in the past few

00:18:22.580 years um and it's been sort of associated with like hating men which and I don't think that that's

00:18:29.780 accurate at all I think at its core feminism is just feminism is just um believing in equality of the 1.00

00:18:38.340 sexes and that's something that I can get behind absolutely so you think that feminism has been 1.00

00:18:43.380 misconstrued yeah I do because of the they people do you think people wrongly think that feminism equates to 0.93

00:18:51.860 man-hating yeah that's correct I think at its core like feminism is just about equality of all people 1.00

00:18:57.380 sure regardless of sex or gender okay I'm not going to stay on this topic too long just to keep it more

00:19:02.500 focused on dating but um what is the I just want to ask you what is the core tenet of feminism 1.00

00:19:11.220 I mean I don't know that I can like speak on that here I'll ask so um

00:19:15.700 um do you believe in the patriarchy theory do you believe in the patriarchy like how would you describe

00:19:24.740 that uh what how would I describe the patriarchy like basically a society I mean there's varying

00:19:31.380 definitions but I mean a lot of feminists would say it's a society run by men for the benefit of men 1.00

00:19:38.660 yeah I mean I definitely and or you could say men are oppressing women

00:19:47.940 I don't know that I would go as far to say as men are oppressing women but I think that there are 0.99

00:19:53.940 certain like systematic structures that sort of put men in power and benefit men okay we'll move on

00:20:04.900 we'll move on maybe we'll touch on all that stuff later on in the show go ahead um I would say so

00:20:10.500 just for the sake of equality like I think that we should all just be equal and um I'm definitely

00:20:16.660 left-leaning but I don't identify with any party okay Natasha I wouldn't say I'm a feminist and I also

00:20:23.620 don't identify with any political party um I think politics are unnecessary yeah okay based so

00:20:33.860 we're going to uh get into our first question here actually you know what we might do a video reaction

00:20:39.780 so let's see uh hmm actually before we get into our first video I actually want to open it up to you

00:20:47.380 guys so is there anything dating related that you want to either get off your chest maybe you recently

00:20:53.460 had a bad date men are pissing you off in some way or there's a trend in dating that annoys you

00:20:59.540 something you hate about dating apps etc uh let's open it up go ahead anything that comes to mind

00:21:07.060 oh there's a lot that comes to mind I don't know if I want to put that on the internet put it on the

00:21:10.340 internet um okay first of all in the chat please stop talking about Harvey I literally keep seeing

00:21:17.300 Harvey's name and that was like 20 minutes ago that's my first thing yeah you should probably just

00:21:22.740 not look at chat no I'm waiting no I'm gonna have like 30 minutes calls but I don't want my phone

00:21:27.140 for a minute oh um okay stop reading chat just ignore chat ignore chat um I think like the biggest

00:21:35.700 like I think like the biggest thing that like annoys me in like the whole dating world is like 0.91

00:21:40.580 fucking talking stages like that's just so annoying like the whole like 0.97

00:21:45.220 and just like the inconsistency in them like I literally like hate that like so much am I like 0.99

00:21:49.380 far away from it still you're fine okay but I think that's like my biggest thing it's just like

00:21:53.460 what what specifically just like the fact of just like you like I don't know how to word this

00:22:01.060 like in like talking stages and it's just like you're like labeled that and it's like people like

00:22:05.060 are considered like you can't like you're just like confused and like most of the time like the

00:22:10.420 girl get like gets like attached or something and they like see it like it's gonna lead to a 1.00

00:22:14.340 relationship and it's always not and it's just like that's like my biggest thing is like I just

00:22:19.940 hate the whole like how like talking stages are so like normalized like traditional dating does not

00:22:24.660 exist in this generation so are you desirous of traditional dating yeah okay just like I've like

00:22:32.260 cannot tell you like the last time I was asked on like an actual like normal date like it's not

00:22:36.740 like that so you're sorry go ahead no I didn't really have anything else well so you're saying that

00:22:41.620 your experiences are mostly what guys just saying hey come over yeah like type yeah okay

00:22:47.700 or just or are there just also guys that are just saying hey do you want to hang out yeah it's just

00:22:52.580 like that like it's never like no shit's never planned out anymore like it's always just like

00:22:56.340 little like spontaneous like come over it's never like okay let's go do this and this like guys don't

00:23:00.660 do that anymore yeah I mean there's a select few of course but I think that you're you're 18 right

00:23:06.420 yeah so I think that probably starts to change once you get out of yeah college a little bit

00:23:11.140 I hope so a little bit yeah it definitely changes but uh I mean I think broadly speaking we've

00:23:17.220 definitely moved away from the more traditional courtship yeah 100 okay and so you're you were

00:23:22.660 desirous of you want a guy that take you out yeah just like traditional okay so your current boyfriend

00:23:31.060 ish sort of quasi sort of situation thing going on did was he traditional with you no and he also

00:23:39.620 lives far like he lives in vegas wait so it's a long distance relationship yeah and before he lived

00:23:44.660 in long beach so then like I moved to Santa Barbara so then we were like how's your boyfriend huh how's

00:23:49.220 your boyfriend he's a first year too he's 18 not boyfriend what please don't use that word um

00:23:54.420 situationship yeah okay so hold on you're in a long distance situationship that's what I mean when

00:24:01.780 I said complicated like what I could if you're in a like a long-term committed serious relationship

00:24:08.020 I could kind of see doing long distance even then long distance is ill-advised but okay so

00:24:16.260 what yeah I know that's what I meant by complicated

00:24:19.140 okay so he didn't do the traditional thing with you and wait are you from Santa Barbara no I'm from

00:24:25.700 like the bay area okay and but you moved here to go to SBCC yeah okay so and you guys met in the bay

00:24:33.140 no he's he's from Long Beach Long Beach yeah

00:24:38.900 this is very complicated I know so like we met through social media and then like you met through

00:24:43.780 he dm'd you or you dm'd him I think I met him on tiktok okay so like I followed him on tiktok and

00:24:50.740 then like I got his snap and like I reached out to him first and then like we just started like

00:24:54.740 facetiming does he have a blue check no I mean he's a 65 d1 baseball player ah the truth reveals itself

00:25:03.220 okay so so 65 d1 baseball player yeah I think you've and he's in Vegas you've just you've probably

00:25:12.580 just doxxed him but okay I know um all right chat's gonna probably figure out who he is um

00:25:20.180 I mean okay so um so you just why did you dm him you just thought he was a he was a babe yeah

00:25:29.140 what what don't hide don't he's like no I'm trying to like not look at the chat okay it's

00:25:33.780 like strawberry blonde like curly hair he was really attractive okay yeah was he making weird

00:25:38.580 like tiktok dances or what no it was like baseball probably like a baseball related tiktok yeah okay

00:25:46.020 so he won't commit to you is what I'm getting no you won't commit to him I would 100 commit to him

00:25:52.100 like right now so he won't commit to you then yeah tilt the microphone down towards you just a bit

00:25:56.740 okay bro my whole love life I see I just don't get like you're you're 18 why do the long distance

00:26:05.700 thing I don't know I just there's some tall baseball players here in Santa Barbara I know I haven't met

00:26:10.980 anyone but I'm also just like really have like when I like talk to guys I have like a tendency of like

00:26:16.260 putting like guys up on like a pedestal and just like I don't want to say like worshiping them but

00:26:21.060 just like having like an idea of them in my head which they aren't and like that just like happens in

00:26:26.660 like every kind of situation I have with guys like I just like put them on like this high pedestal

00:26:31.380 and I have like idea of them that like that really doesn't exist like that's not really who they are

00:26:36.420 what specifically are you doing by putting them on a pedestal like are you proper simping

00:26:41.860 oh I'm a total are you afraid to admit that I'm a simp when it comes to guys but only for 0.98

00:26:46.900 fucking six five no no no I've had you probably fucking curve like all these other dudes all the 0.99

00:26:54.260 dudes in the chat are gonna get curved but okay go ahead yeah maybe not there's some d1 athletes in 0.99

00:26:59.140 there maybe I don't know no I'm pretty like in my head I'm like committed to like this situation

00:27:03.380 but okay so how are you simping for your current guy I'm just like there's like not like the most

00:27:08.260 I swear to god if he watches this holy shit there's just like no like effort from like his side like as

00:27:13.380 of right now like it's just obviously been like distant because like obviously like practices 0.97

00:27:16.900 every day and everything and I'm just like still putting in the effort like looking at like flights

00:27:20.500 to vegas and type shit you know so it's like that kind of ordeal would you say you're down bad dude 0.76

00:27:28.660 I'm so down bad for this man yes I'm down bad 100% have you flown to him before no have you guys met in 0.94

00:27:36.740 person oh yeah okay yeah I don't know you said you met him on tick tock and yeah no like when I

00:27:43.380 when I like he literally like uh stayed at my apartment the first time I moved so I was adjusting

00:27:47.780 he like stayed at my apartment like the first time I like like the day I moved to my apartment like down

00:27:52.100 the street he like came here and then I drove up to Long Beach like probably a few days after and then

00:27:56.660 he moved what are some specifically what are some things that you're doing that you're simping for

00:28:02.660 him like what are some specifics like literally just like staying in like a situation where I

00:28:06.980 don't feel appreciated I feel like that's like simping like it's just like you're doing like 0.87

00:28:11.780 all this extra shit for a guy who's not doing it back I feel like lack of reciprocation and you're 0.88

00:28:18.180 like doing something like that's when it's like simping okay you know what I mean have you simped for 0.99

00:28:23.380 previous guys or is this 100% yes I've been in like a lot of like failed like failed talking stages or

00:28:31.220 whatever you call it and how tall were the other oh no this is like 100 percent tallest guy I've

00:28:35.620 talked to how tall are you I'm like five seven five eight okay yeah tall guys want tall girls 0.99

00:28:42.100 so he's is he on scholarship I think like a 95 scholarship okay six five very attractive guy d1

00:28:51.220 athlete in Vegas do you think he's being loyal to you I don't know you don't know yeah well do you guys

00:28:58.500 have a uh an understanding like are you guys he doesn't know how to communicate wow this sounds

00:29:04.820 like a great guy I know he is a good guy like he's sweet I just I don't know I'm well I I mean just

00:29:13.940 maybe I shouldn't I don't want I shouldn't talk about him but no I mean um yeah unless you watch this

00:29:20.260 maybe he's just not that into you is that I think that could be it I don't know I mean maybe probably

00:29:27.780 that's probably what it is I just refuse to accept that fact have you ever bought him roses

00:29:34.980 uh no but I've definitely like sent him money and stuff you've sent him money yeah I mean like how

00:29:39.540 much money not that much but I mean like if like is he broke no I mean he's in college like

00:29:45.060 I don't work either bro he's finessing you dude no you're getting finessed oh my god well okay so

00:29:51.780 no not like that like that I don't even know why I brought that up like it's not like oh my god I

00:29:55.060 sent him money like I've just like sent him probably like 20 bucks for like maybe like a

00:29:57.700 vape or something before d1 athlete six five in Vegas

00:30:05.700 are you willing to share him is my question no absolutely not well you are sharing him

00:30:10.100 I don't think so I don't you don't think so he's not communicating with you he's kind of

00:30:17.700 like you're sharing him for sure I don't think so you don't think so I mean I hope not but you

00:30:22.420 you've been how long have you been dating him a year no that like relationship was from my sophomore

00:30:27.300 year in high school which you've been that like sorry that a year thing okay so how long has this

00:30:32.580 thing been uh it started in like the like the right like the very beginning of august okay so it's like

00:30:38.820 coming up on two months like I think our streak on snapchat hit like 50 days today

00:30:44.180 just I don't guy or girl like don't do long distance it just doesn't I think long distance

00:30:50.340 is like totally doable like if both parties are willing to put in the effort and it's just

00:30:55.780 I'm the only party willing to put in the effort in this you guys don't have a previous relationship

00:31:00.660 so there's no like if you had been dating for a year oh yeah it would make sense yeah I know it

00:31:05.780 makes no sense but like you basically what yeah you went on the first date yeah and then you're

00:31:10.580 like hey let's be in a long distance relationship pretty much anyways well we can move on from that

00:31:16.420 so you're but your main gripe with dating is it sounded like the talking phase that's what bothers

00:31:22.420 you yeah and just like inconsistency like within the talking stage as well and is that more so coming

00:31:28.500 from the guy that's just from like everyone that's just a generalization both both sides are doing a lot

00:31:33.780 of that yeah sure we'll move on Aline um if you remember do you remember the kind of the prompt yeah

00:31:40.580 um something that I'm frustrated about definitely in college is um specifically UCSB in general

00:31:49.620 um hookup culture I feel like um yeah it's kind of the same thing and it's really hard to like

00:31:57.860 actually get on serious dates here if you're more of a relationship person it's 0.98

00:32:06.100 Isla Vista is honestly just a cesspool of people fucking and like people being horny and wanting 0.99

00:32:13.940 to try to fuck like um I don't know even like if a guy says to like come over like you already know 1.00

00:32:22.820 like what this guy wants like you know he's not gonna make you dinner he's not gonna make you um 0.99

00:32:28.820 like I don't know anything nice he's just gonna like

00:32:37.540 have his way but um that's just something that I'm frustrated about and I'm I know that's probably

00:32:45.700 just part of the college experience or whatever but honestly I'm kind of over it and um 0.95

00:32:54.020 kind of like looking forward to like when I'm like out of here and like men grow the fuck up

00:33:00.820 okay now I have a question so

00:33:04.900 your big gripe is hookup culture yes right but previously you said that you've not had any long-term

00:33:11.540 relationships yeah but I'm sure there's aren't there guys that you know right now that would

00:33:17.780 jump at the chance to be in a relationship with you no none no you mean you don't have any guys in

00:33:24.420 the friend zone I'm sure I'm sure some guys have like tried to talk to me but then I just like don't

00:33:34.980 like like them or I don't find them attractive like see I think that's the problem with I mean

00:33:41.220 the complaints about hookup culture is the guys that a lot of women are chasing after the top 10 top 20 1.00

00:33:48.820 of guys of course they're just gonna say come over but there are guys that you don't find attractive

00:33:56.980 that would be loyal dutiful boyfriends but they don't excite you they're not a bad boy they're not

00:34:02.660 six foot five they're not d1 baseball the whole process about this is that if you're an attractive

00:34:10.020 guy then you have all these prospects who could you could get with you're gonna have that ability

00:34:17.380 to get with a lot of girls and if you're a guy you're gonna be able to you're gonna be able to do

00:34:21.860 that and you will do that if you're a guy that doesn't have all these options of women you're gonna 1.00

00:34:29.620 have to try an alternate route and try to date them try to be friendlier more approachable be a

00:34:35.780 nice guy let me just interrupt you really quick while we have it up every day edgar says uh with

00:34:40.740 the ten dollar soup chat eight cups don't get home home cooked meals do you have a response

00:34:47.940 put put it back eric um the response is i have gotten a home cooked meal so 0.99

00:34:53.220 fuck you edgar okay everyday edgar thank you for the ten dollar soup chat much appreciated man 1.00

00:34:59.140 thanks for the ten bucks um okay so go ahead continue with your point um yeah i'm just saying 1.00

00:35:07.220 like like like because of of these men being a certain level of more attractive than other men

00:35:16.500 they have more options so they're able to indulge in this more hookup lifestyle rather than what is this

00:35:24.340 rather than um a man who has less options and he has to find a way that he can impress girls you know

00:35:35.540 know don't don't worry about the chat don't worry about the chat um

00:35:43.940 so wait aline your your point is that what again 0.97

00:35:50.420 i'm saying that men yeah if they're attractive and they can pull bitches yes then they have the option to 1.00

00:35:58.980 they so totally fucking would right but if they don't have the option to pull bitches they gotta be a nice 1.00

00:36:05.060 guy and give a bitch roses or some shit like that right tilt the microphone up towards you just a 1.00

00:36:09.620 bit okay um like if men can't get bitches they're gonna be nicer but if they can they're gonna be a 1.00

00:36:18.500 fucking dick and they're gonna fuck all the bitches they want not want to commit a relationship 1.00

00:36:22.660 because they can they do it because they can it's not because i like the the bad boys or whatever i like 1.00

00:36:28.180 nice guys but like the trap there's no attractive nice guys because all the attractive guys are 0.99

00:36:34.900 fucking dicks that's what my point is okay yeah uh go ahead honestly i don't really have any problems 0.99

00:36:42.820 i'm doing fine you're currently in a relationship yeah well what about before were you ever at any 1.00

00:36:48.820 point on a dating app no never been on the dating app okay so no annoyances um with dating before you

00:36:57.060 met your boyfriend well like what um noelie noelie said noelani noelani i'm so sorry um i guess talking

00:37:05.300 stages just being inconsistent like that was like the most annoying thing i would say give us like an

00:37:09.860 example of how that would play out for you well it's just like you're talking to someone you're getting

00:37:15.460 to know them like okay like you like them but who's to say they're not doing that with like

00:37:20.020 three other girls you know you just never really know until until like someone commits to you like

00:37:26.020 you're never certain were you doing that with three other guys though it depends on what stage of like

00:37:33.940 talking you know what i mean like you're getting to know someone i'm not gonna like stop talking to

00:37:38.820 everyone else for one person that i'm just started texting okay cool yeah my issues with dating i can

00:37:50.020 repeat the question yeah what's the question yeah so if there's anything dated dating sorry guys i'm

00:37:55.700 english is my second language um is there anything dating related that you want to get off your chest so

00:38:01.460 if you recently went on a bad date some guy curved you your men are pissing you off in some way uh

00:38:10.260 something annoying about a dating app um dating app i guess i can speak to

00:38:19.060 this all right time and time again never okay but the fish pictures what i think we've all seen them

00:38:25.860 the fish pictures um have to stop into the microphone into the microphone okay the fish

00:38:34.820 pictures um what oh were you gonna list more or were you gonna explain the whole fish picture thing

00:38:40.340 i think that speaks for itself the fish picture thing no please elaborate elaborate please the picture

00:38:46.100 of the guy with like the big fish or it's like holding it across his chest well i think i know why

00:38:53.300 i think i know why guys post that it's because a lot of like well girls they just take pictures all 0.93

00:38:58.020 the time we know that but guys they don't really take pictures they take pictures when they have

00:39:02.100 like accomplishments you know like like oh i caught a big fish time to take a picture like they don't

00:39:07.860 take pictures because they they're like going somewhere nice or dressed up or anything guys take

00:39:12.340 pictures when they have like oh i won this little baseball championship whatever it's a good answer yeah

00:39:18.580 yeah wait so what what do you take issue with what why do you have an issue with the fish pictures

00:39:27.460 i think it's just like it's overdone it's overdone it's yeah every do you have a second man has a fish

00:39:36.340 picture every second guy has a fish pic absolutely really it's that common i'd say so what so 50

00:39:48.020 percent of profiles have a fish pic come on it's probably maybe one in ten like 30 okay 30

00:39:54.180 percent yeah but so your issue with it is it it's because it's overdone or is it because it's a dead

00:40:01.460 animal it's a it's a little bit of both i think like a duck is worse like if they're like a dead or

00:40:08.020 like a deer yeah for sure or a deer oh that's out now absolutely not they'll be holding antlers

00:40:13.380 sometimes what gross natasha your thoughts on the fish oh i've seen it before you're you guys are

00:40:19.540 right it's like every single guy at least from my high school i remember like looking through guys

00:40:24.820 snapchat it's a lot of guys that live in like country areas too so country boys need to get together

00:40:31.140 no more fish pictures so everyone here doesn't like the fish picture we just don't like hunters

00:40:37.300 i'm getting out of this i don't have a fish picture i don't mind it it's not terrible but

00:40:43.060 a picture i don't like is if they have like a picture with their like x or like or like a girl i'm

00:40:49.060 just like nah like why am i seeing a girl here like like get that off your dating profile 1.00

00:40:55.620 or like yeah like anything yeah yeah i feel like they post it to be like oh look i'm not a loser i 0.88

00:41:04.020 have i have bitches or whatever i have talked to a woman wow i talked to women but then it comes off 1.00

00:41:10.100 weird you know like other women see that and they're just like you're trying to show off or 1.00

00:41:13.940 something like yeah it's not flattering for your profile i just don't know the fish thing the fish

00:41:20.260 i don't care i don't let me ask but do you eat fish no are you vegan no i'm not it's not it's not

00:41:26.820 necessarily like an animal cruelty thing it's just like i like i eat meat and stuff i don't eat fish

00:41:32.820 because i don't like it it's not it's not really an animal cruelty thing it's just like so you don't

00:41:36.660 have tuna i don't like fish either no sushi okay well okay that's interesting i don't get the fish thing 0.98

00:41:44.180 but okay you just see it too much it's it's like i get it because i see shit that girls do on dating 1.00

00:41:50.580 apps i'm like bitch sorry i i would never say hold on i take that back my dear my dear 1.00

00:41:59.780 my dear i've seen that in a hundred other profiles so i kind of get it i kind of get it

00:42:06.580 what the big one that really bothers me for some reason on hinge there you can answer prompts i don't

00:42:11.780 know how many of you are on hinge but one of them is something like i'm the type of texter who

00:42:16.660 either responds right away or in two to five business days i'm like shut oh my everyone okay

00:42:22.340 so anyways uh we're gonna go to you on this one um not the fish thing the any quarrels with dating

00:42:31.380 oh my relationship right now is going pretty good but before it would be um straight girls 0.92

00:42:36.420 wanting to experiment with me okay so like you smash and then they're just like

00:42:44.740 no it's more like them coming up to me at a party or something because i look a little

00:42:48.260 bit masculine i'm six foot tall like it's easy comparison to a guy so it'd be like straight girls

00:42:54.900 being like oh my gosh i'm straight but like do you want to make out or do you want to come back to my

00:42:58.740 place with me or something like that and i'm just like no no not really yeah okay huh i'm curious i'm

00:43:07.700 kind of curious about the whole uh i'm just curious so like when you go on a date with have you gone on

00:43:14.260 a proper traditional date with a woman like to dinner to get drinks or something yes who pays um 0.92

00:43:23.060 usually it's whoever asks the other person out so if i was to ask someone out i would pay if they

00:43:27.540 were to ask me out i would expect them to pay and that's usually how it goes okay yeah well maybe

00:43:36.420 we'll talk about paying on dates later on in the show uh natasha you're sorry go ahead okay i was

00:43:43.780 gonna say i don't really have any problems with dating but i do have one thing to say because we're

00:43:48.740 kind of talking about it earlier if a guy is keeping holding you on a leash keeping you on his little

00:43:56.580 little fishing reel you know he doesn't like you what i feel called out i'm sorry he doesn't like

00:44:04.100 you and he just wants to keep you for later for a time when he's there for time when he's available

00:44:09.940 and not talking to other girls my feelings are hurt i'm sorry no it's fine it's not your fault

00:44:17.860 why are your feelings hurt because i'm literally i'm on a leash right now yeah and you don't deserve to

00:44:22.340 be on the leash no and i know that i don't deserve it i just like have like attachment issues

00:44:26.820 good times we have a lot of baseball players here here in santa barbara just saying just saying she's

00:44:32.820 just saying okay so we're gonna react to a video it's kind of went viral i think over the weekend

00:44:39.940 there's this lady who uh has been dating a famous or was dating a famous musician

00:44:46.420 mr adam levine her name's sumner stro um and we're gonna react to her uh she did this video

00:44:55.220 did two videos that she released on tiktok um eric if you want to go ahead and pull it up it's in the

00:45:01.140 videos tab and it's uh the first one and before you play it eric uh i'm going to be having you pause

00:45:08.900 it at points throughout the show or throughout the video because i need to translate the womanese

00:45:14.740 so eric if you can go ahead and start it i'm just gonna rip the band it off because i've

00:45:19.540 retaken this like 10 times now essentially i was having an affair with a man who's married

00:45:26.020 to a victoria's secret model at the time you know i was young i was naive and i mean quite

00:45:32.740 frankly i feel exploited i okay pause it scene like okay so

00:45:37.220 so so far no accountability right young and naive and by the way according to some news reports on

00:45:46.660 this like it happened a year ago so she's still the same age basically maybe it was even sooner

00:45:52.900 and then she said i don't know if you caught it guys she said she was exploited exploited okay the 0.99

00:45:59.700 fuck uh so yeah zero accountability zero accountability pretty typical um anyways continue 0.98

00:46:06.980 i am now um so i was definitely very easily manipulated maroon 5 is practically elevator 0.99

00:46:13.940 music at this point so i'm sure you know who adam lavine is um but adam and i were seeing each other

00:46:20.660 for about a year after i stopped talking to him over you know a period of months this is uh how he came back

00:46:28.020 into my life he said okay serious question i'm having another baby and if it's a boy i really uh

00:46:35.380 want to name it sumner you okay with that dead serious um i was like i'm in hell like i have to be 0.64

00:46:47.460 in hell at this point i mean my morals were unknowingly compromised i was completely manipulated

00:46:53.540 i didn't handle this privately okay okay okay so there's a lot there um we'll go back to it in a

00:47:01.300 sec but her morals were unknowingly compromised 0.99

00:47:09.300 what what completely manipulated i don't get that like she kept i watched like that whole video earlier

00:47:15.860 and she just like brought up manipulation like the whole time this is this is like a bingo card for

00:47:21.300 victim mentality go ahead continue with the rest of the video we'll finish it off to come forward

00:47:26.100 because obviously i know the implications that come with doing what i do making money the way i do and

00:47:30.900 being an instagram model um so being tied to a story like this it's like i know the stereotypes i had

00:47:37.460 sent um i had sent some screenshots recklessly to a few friends i thought i trusted and one of them had

00:47:43.060 attempted to sell to a tabloid um so here i am all right we're gonna uh open it up to you guys if you

00:47:54.900 want to give your reaction or your thoughts on on this situation i feel like there was just like a

00:48:00.020 better way she could have handled it like because she keeps talking about like obviously she has like 0.88

00:48:03.780 a known like name and like whatever industry she's in and so like for her to go out of the way to like

00:48:08.660 post that on social media and just like embarrass like adam's wife when she there was a total way 1.00

00:48:13.380 this could have like been handled privately and i feel like the whole clout chasing idea like i think

00:48:19.140 that is totally 100 percent like maybe not in the front of her mind but in the back of her head like

00:48:23.940 clout is the biggest motivation here i'm sorry i think she had also mentioned that she was going

00:48:30.740 public with it because someone was like threatening her with screenshots oh yeah because she had shared it

00:48:34.900 with her friends and then one of her friends was trying to sell it to a tabloid so i feel like she

00:48:40.420 was trying to kind of like not seem guilty because like she had to say it either way because she thought

00:48:47.140 like someone was gonna like sell it and it was gonna be exposed so she was trying to like make the best

00:48:52.180 of it but i don't know it just kind of sounds like an excuse i don't think it's that hard to know like

00:48:58.180 that he was married yeah what a tabloid even i mean he is kind of famous he's like pretty famous

00:49:07.620 i feel like he's really he's pretty i mean he did he did play at the super bowl yeah he's like super

00:49:12.900 famous yeah but like what but his like does anyone care like rooted from like it's not like a tick tocker

00:49:19.300 fame it's like rooted fame from like years ago no i'm i'm familiar with him just to me it's like

00:49:25.140 like does anyone care like care about is his relationship in the tabloids like who cares

00:49:32.180 yeah i don't know like oh well i don't know i could be wrong but aline do you want to give

00:49:36.820 your take on this or no comment i mean none of my business honestly that's just my stuff okay anybody

00:49:43.460 else any take

00:49:48.900 i think that she was 100 doing it for attention because how do you not know when he has a wife 1.00

00:49:53.700 when you could google it yeah and the manipulation thing like what yeah obviously he wasn't manipulating

00:49:58.580 you like girl it doesn't make sense okay i'm not defending her necessarily but there is another

00:50:04.100 video in which she like speaks on it more and she says that like she knew that he had a wife but she

00:50:11.140 thought that um she thought that they were breaking up or something and that they like hadn't released it

00:50:17.860 to the public yet because of like their fame and like the caliber that they were at so i mean i don't

00:50:23.940 know if that's true or not but that's something that she said in another video so natasha i would

00:50:29.780 say it's kind of silly to believe that she didn't know that she was dealing with a man that was married

00:50:35.380 because it's it she can't you can't just go off the basis of oh maybe they are because i read this

00:50:42.740 article like no he should come out and say like i'm not married i'm gonna talk to you tell you how

00:50:46.740 hot you are blah blah blah um it's kind of hard with adam levine and with a lot of like famous men

00:50:54.100 because it's almost like they have so much fame and money and like power not necessarily influence

00:51:00.980 because he's just like an artist and he's kind of outdated a little bit but um some of these guys

00:51:06.420 they just get a pass for doing it you know just because they are so known they have so much money

00:51:10.740 they can really do whatever they want um i do feel bad for the victoria's secret model because

00:51:15.940 i mean she's gorgeous and i haven't heard anything about her cheating on her husband but um yeah it's 0.99

00:51:22.260 it's unfortunate wait so okay you were you were saying something about how adam levine like it's just not

00:51:35.460 okay for him to be cheating right okay yeah and i don't want to go down that path okay so what is it

00:51:42.180 no no that's okay so yeah basically i mean she's taking zero accountability we do have the other

00:51:46.580 video i mean she's kind of boring but we'll pull it up really quick um

00:51:50.260 i just wanted to make a part two um i feel like it's obviously necessary um hindsight is 2020 i

00:52:03.940 initially wanted to go in and talk about how remorseful i feel and how embarrassed and disgusted

00:52:12.100 i am with myself but i didn't want people to look at it and think like oh she's playing the victim

00:52:18.900 but in reality it had the opposite effect something i now realize i didn't touch on enough was the fact

00:52:25.460 that um one of my friends had attempted to sell it um which i realized yesterday whenever they reached

00:52:32.740 out to me for comment and so i was completely frantic that is why that video is for one just so

00:52:40.420 all over the place into why i didn't touch on some of the things that i initially would have liked so

00:52:47.380 in this video i would like to address some of those things i only came forward because i wanted to kill

00:52:53.460 whatever story the tabloid had the most important part that i did definitely gloss over is the fact

00:52:59.620 that i was under the impression that their marriage was over i believe that they were keeping it quiet to

00:53:04.660 avoid the negative press because as i had said i was new to la so i just assumed that with celebrities

00:53:10.500 of that caliber that that's just how it was and that's why i feel exploited because he knew i believed

00:53:16.340 everything that he said because of my vulnerable position of being new to la pause it also he was

00:53:22.100 so she i think she said she wasn't in the scene like she was now uh i think was that in the first

00:53:31.540 video or this video but she said she wasn't in the scene like she wasn't pretty sure yeah so i mean

00:53:37.300 translation she hasn't been passed around as much by top tier high status men slash celebrities 0.72

00:53:42.580 that's the translation and then she said that she's new to la which she like tried to blame on like

00:53:47.780 her morals being compromised was like just a new yeah it's just weird yeah she's new to la exploited 0.90

00:53:54.980 because she was vulnerable because she was new to la like what okay um i don't know it's just the

00:54:02.340 whole thing's kind of weird um and i don't know like a girl like that for her to say that she was naive

00:54:11.220 and exploited like bro she's super plastic she's got the lip filler like i don't know women that look 1.00

00:54:16.740 like that have so much experience dealing with men so like nobody's taking advantage of you like

00:54:23.620 obviously you're in it for the cloud you're an ig model adam levine whatever the only reason she

00:54:28.020 came out about it was to not look like a homewrecker yeah but also if she did come out of like on like a 1.00

00:54:34.020 tabloid i don't think anyone would be like oh i know her because she's an instagram model like i don't 0.95

00:54:38.740 think anyone really knows instagram models or cares that much but people care about adam levine

00:54:42.980 and i think that that tarnishes his image even more that she posted that tick tock yeah i'll say

00:54:49.620 this uh and i don't want to finish the video just because she's kind of annoying but uh so women 1.00

00:54:56.340 won't date a man who lives with his mom but they will date a man who lives with his wife

00:55:01.220 i'll ask would it well uh you guys are all kind of young but would you date a guy who lives with his

00:55:12.020 parents

00:55:12.340 yeah i mean i mean i'm only 19. yeah you guys are too young i still love my parents when i'm in the summer

00:55:23.620 i don't i can't expect shit that's fair that's fair anyways we're gonna move on um if does anybody 0.88

00:55:31.140 want to give a just to wrap that up a take on that whole thing or no no nothing okay so hold on i just

00:55:43.220 want to see if we have another actually you know what we're gonna do super chats and then we'll get

00:55:45.940 into the next question all right so we have uh first off we have a comment from junior soprano here

00:55:54.100 these girls never had the makings of a varsity athlete 1.00

00:55:59.860 whoops whoops uh response do you guys have a response to mr junior soprano i believe that is the uh

00:56:06.820 the what's it called uh

00:56:08.420 the mob boss of the new jersey crime family the demio crime family in new jersey you guys have a

00:56:17.860 response to junior soprano um i played college basketball before coming here so you are six

00:56:24.980 feet i am okay moving on uh stiffmeister asked the ladies to rate themselves on a scale of one to ten 1.00

00:56:30.740 okay we'll do that really quick um what do you rate yourself on the scale of one to ten

00:56:34.260 myself like a seven a bit louder just i'll give myself seven and a half okay aline seven seven and

00:56:42.580 a half i'd rather not i think it depends on the day and how confident i'm feeling day to day so

00:56:50.660 fair enough like a six natasha i'd say like an eight maybe okay there you have it stifler thank you

00:56:58.900 or stiff meister thank you for the question um let's see really quick uh vitaly zd tv would any

00:57:06.340 of you date a felon and that does look like a mugshot uh would any of you date a felon no no no

00:57:17.140 okay this guy um when i was like in pacific beach in san diego i was just walking around and then he

00:57:24.580 asked me for my number and then he told me he's in a gang and i was like what and he said yeah i

00:57:31.540 kill people i was like i mean and then he asked me like what i wanted to do when i was older and i 0.99

00:57:38.660 said i wanted to be a doctor and he's like okay i'll kill people you save people wow and then you 0.97

00:57:43.940 guys went on a date afterwards no was he all lasted with tats he was very scary he was like 0.68

00:57:52.980 no no yeah okay but he was like i don't know i i could tell he had like a gun on him like you could

00:58:02.500 you could tell he had a gun on him yeah you could just tell i can just tell okay actually i want to

00:58:09.060 add a second thing to this would you date a guy who legally owned a firearm on this question oh yeah

00:58:14.740 i think i would yeah okay so uh would you date a felon would you date a guy who legally owns firearms

00:58:20.180 um i would not date a felon um sure maybe i would date a guy who legally owns a firearm i don't

00:58:27.700 really know okay i think in terms of the firearm question if we were like living together and

00:58:33.860 especially if we like had kids that would be a no-go for me because i just know how many like

00:58:38.660 accidents there are with firearms and like a kid in the house so that would really

00:58:43.460 like make me uneasy um and the felon question probably not

00:58:55.460 um felon question i feel like it would depend like maybe and the firearm thing i i wouldn't care my

00:59:03.460 family's very country so i grew up around guns with for the felon thing i might maybe there's there's

00:59:13.540 a chance i might it depends on what they did um for the firearm thing yeah i don't care about guns

00:59:19.860 by the way red bull tastes like i haven't had a red bull in like 10 years i love red bull it's my

00:59:25.620 first red bull in 10 years and my energy was running a bit low last stream so i was like oh yeah i need

00:59:31.300 i need a bit of energy but um wait so you would not want to date a guy who owns a firearm when you

00:59:38.980 have kids yeah that's correct let me ask you a question hypothetical scenario you have two kids

00:59:46.100 young babies you're married to a nice gentleman home invasion three men break into the house what do you

00:59:55.060 do you don't have a firearm by the way right i would call 911 okay and so they're going to be there in

01:00:02.500 10 minutes so in that 10 minute period of time what are they going to do i don't know it would just

01:00:07.060 depend on the situation i think like the flight or fight response would kick in i would do everything

01:00:11.060 to protect my family but i just think in general like guns tend to escalate situations and i there wait

01:00:18.020 guns escalate situations i mean it's already pretty escalated because three strange men have just broken

01:00:22.420 into your house and yeah it is already escalated obviously so the gun would make it worse is what

01:00:27.380 you're saying i think so that if like if my partner were to pull out a gun and then like they pull out

01:00:32.580 a gun and like then it's just a show but but what if their intention is to in to harm you

01:00:41.380 like i said or your kids do everything to protect my family i just but there's three men

01:00:46.580 but okay there's three men they could be armed you don't know right it's you two children

01:00:52.260 so it's two children two babies versus a woman and and your husband right or whatever the odds

01:01:00.020 aren't looking good in that scenario would you want a gun would you want either you or your husband 0.93

01:01:07.860 whatever partner to have a gun in that scenario i mean like i said no like i would i would feel

01:01:14.260 honestly less safe with a gun in the house knowing like all the chances of like accidents and just yeah

01:01:21.780 like the potential to escalate a situation or for something for like it to go off like hastily or

01:01:27.780 to harm somebody or anything like that so but okay even in the home invasion scenario you still wouldn't

01:01:33.940 want to have a gun in that scenario in the specific scenario there's a home invasion yes

01:01:41.620 yes you would not want to have a gun in that situation

01:01:48.580 i don't know i mean i can't say what i would be feeling like in that moment if somebody was coming

01:01:52.900 for me and my family but i there's no situation in which i would like want to have a gun in my house

01:02:01.540 there's no situation where you'd ever want a gun in your house

01:02:04.180 even the situation i think it's i think it's a larger issue of like i don't want to get like super

01:02:10.740 political with this but like gun control in general like if guns are less accessible to everybody then

01:02:14.740 like i could feel safer knowing that that like the people breaking into my home wouldn't necessarily

01:02:21.220 have a gun and so then let me ask you well let me just make a point on that so okay

01:02:25.620 is breaking into a home illegal yes okay would owning a gun even if guns were banned would that be

01:02:36.020 illegal let's say guns were banned right let me let me ask a different question um is cocaine illegal

01:02:45.540 yes do people still get cocaine yes it's not about i mean yes people will still find a way it's about

01:02:50.900 accessibility and if you make something less accessible people are less likely to like find

01:02:57.220 ways to seek it out and it's just you know if guns are illegal or if more heavily regulated then they're

01:03:03.700 less accessible in general and they're less just out and about and i think that that's a step in the

01:03:09.780 right direction okay fair enough we'll move on from the uh gun debate so okay we have uh let's see here

01:03:17.060 uh we have mr andrew tate uh noelani did i get it right this time noelani it's like the e's like a y

01:03:26.500 noelani noelani yeah okay come to romania baby flower emoji um pass that's mr andrew tate he he's

01:03:36.100 invited you to romania are you taking his invitation no do you know who andrew tate is yes okay we'll watch

01:03:42.660 some of his videos later all right uh meowler with the uh 10 canadian dollars thank you man

01:03:53.700 can i call you lonnie yeah you call me lonnie or no okay sorry because nicknames it's okay i know

01:03:58.500 it's complicated okay lonnie baby you can have poland denmark the eiffel tower if you want plus me and

01:04:03.620 your dad would get along beautifully that is not easy that is from uh i believe his name's adolf

01:04:09.940 mealer but he's changed it since last stream uh thank you for the 10 canadian and much appreciated

01:04:16.180 uh let's see stephen krug with the five dollar soup chat 18 year old chick so obviously intentionally 0.69

01:04:21.060 attracts attention to herself but tries to play it off like she's not trying to do so cringe okay

01:04:29.380 it might be about you okay okay we got that one stephen krug with the ten dollar soup chat um

01:04:36.900 okay he's i don't know we don't want to dox this guy um no i mean it's no i actually want to read

01:04:43.300 that i want to see what he said stephen krug ten dollar soup chat bs alert unlv is the only d1 college

01:04:48.100 in vegas and nobody on the roster is six five my bet is 18 year old chick is full of it possible she's 1.00

01:04:52.820 being honest really doubt it i got attention-seeking vibes like where is like the whole attention-seeking 0.96

01:04:58.100 shit coming from i don't get that stephen krug is our resident roaster for tonight i guess mike davis 0.88

01:05:04.260 is nowhere to be found um but uh are you sure he's six five i mean that's what he said yeah i'm pretty 0.99

01:05:11.860 sure he's six five watch he's actually five eleven no i know he's really tall no he's really fucking 0.97

01:05:17.780 tall maybe he's six four like i'm not going to take guys his name because then i'll actually have to

01:05:22.020 just send my life here so okay but he's on the roster i have no idea what this one i'm not sure

01:05:29.780 what eyes i don't get my eyes have you been looking at my chest during the show yeah maybe i like your

01:05:36.580 flannel how dare you how dare you okay um glad to sell a thing for the ten dollar soup chat is nat a

01:05:44.340 co-host now that's great ladies men like their fish leave it alone lol yeah i know the whole fish thing i

01:05:50.340 mean i don't i don't really get it but i'm a dude right i don't get it um part of me thinks a lot

01:05:58.020 of it is it's kind of a uh animal rights compassion thing oh it's a the dead fish i don't know i could

01:06:08.340 be wrong though i think i only feel like that one it's like a duck like i don't really care about a

01:06:11.700 fish but like if you post a duck like that's gonna make me kind of like that's gonna make me kind of sad

01:06:16.020 hmm i think i've seen a woman holding a fish in a dating profile before that's funny red fly 1.00

01:06:25.380 she's gone crazy wifey material right there okay we're gonna move on thank you guys so much for

01:06:30.980 the soup chats if you want get some in ten dollars and up guys all right so let's see moving on here

01:06:37.940 have you ever and this is sort of related to our topic of guys getting friend zoned have you ever

01:06:49.060 been fuck zoned by a guy like so you like friends with benefits i'm guessing so basically like you want 0.99

01:06:58.980 something more you want a relationship but he just wants sex and he's keeping you around for sex 1.00

01:07:03.540 move the microphone towards that way yeah and you can pull it close towards you 0.58

01:07:10.980 bring it in all the way in you speak softly so i just want i want you uh tilt it down towards you

01:07:19.140 right there a little more there you go perfect okay i don't think so maybe your current it could

01:07:25.860 your current guy it might it could be i mean good possibly yeah maybe that's my current situation i'm 0.99

01:07:33.540 fuck zoned i mean it's hard to fuck me all the way from vegas though but i mean who knows so are you 0.98

01:07:39.860 like triple texting him and he doesn't respond i don't like like i mean i chase but i don't 0.99

01:07:44.420 fucking do that bullshit i thought you said you were simping i'm simping but i don't like i'm not gonna 0.99

01:07:49.540 like like do all that like okay you don't respond you don't respond i mean i might be sad about it but 1.00

01:07:55.780 i'm not gonna be like why the fuck aren't you responding like type shit no do you love him no love is 0.95

01:08:00.980 such a strong word i've never been in love like i was dated a guy for a year but like 0.99

01:08:05.220 i've never been in love but i'm obsessed with the idea of love wait question so you dated a guy for

01:08:10.260 a year did you but you were you were not in love with him no did you say you were in love with him

01:08:17.460 i did say love you but i was not in love with him like the way he treated me like i could never fall

01:08:21.300 in love with him like he was a cheater he he this is like i don't know if this should be on trauma dump

01:08:29.300 you said you wanted to right like okay me and him broke like we broke up in like the middle of our

01:08:33.780 relationship in like july we ended in like i broke up with him december of 2020 and we went on a break

01:08:39.220 in like july and like the girls about it in his town heard about it and one of them texted me and was

01:08:44.260 like noelani i need to tell you something and like she didn't even have to say anything else and i was

01:08:49.300 like i was like kylie please don't tell me he raped you that's not her actual name wait what yeah like he 0.93

01:08:54.500 raped a girl i knew and i got back together with him so there's your trauma dump for the night 0.96

01:09:03.860 okay that's the end of the show guys thank you for tuning in no i'm just kidding um okay

01:09:11.460 you asked you asked for that but wait was did you have a sense that he was falsely accused

01:09:17.700 um i mean because i'm sure he probably told you it was bullshit right 100 but like the way she like 0.94

01:09:25.380 explained it like you let's not go into it the details you just can't like make that up like you

01:09:30.580 know i mean you can but like the details i heard it's like that there was no way okay can i ask why 0.97

01:09:36.260 you took him back i don't know like i alluded to this day like he's so fucking ugly it hurts 0.98

01:09:42.340 so i don't even know like what it was just like me like freshman like just i don't even know 0.92

01:09:48.660 i can't even i don't even want to look at the chat after i just said that okay we're gonna move on 0.96

01:09:52.660 uh aline have you ever been fuck zoned by a guy yeah obviously that's why i hate hookup culture so 0.97

01:10:02.020 much tilt the microphone down there you go that's why i hate hookup culture so much but if a guy's gonna 1.00

01:10:08.340 do that i'm not gonna i'm obviously not gonna let them like i'm not like like a simp like that

01:10:13.300 i don't care how like hot like rich i don't care like how how much status you have famous if you if 0.71

01:10:22.580 you just want me for sex like i'm not gonna i'm not gonna give into it like that's just not my style 0.99

01:10:29.700 like but obviously yeah it's happened to me so you were there was a guy that you wanted something more

01:10:36.420 you wanted a relationship but he didn't want it not necessarily like he wanted to just like 0.91

01:10:42.020 fuck but it's more of like oh i don't really want a relationship but we can be friends with benefits 0.99

01:10:47.060 and stuff no never been fuck zoned no i've never been fuck zoned not really okay but you've never had 0.99

01:10:55.940 a relationship though yeah but never been fuck zoned yeah wait can i say something because i it's not the 0.99

01:11:01.780 baseball player like it's not this was like two years ago like i don't want that to be an association 0.65

01:11:06.660 there at all that they're making there okay continue yeah probably don't reach out like jesus christ 0.92

01:11:15.940 i cannot i'm getting these two mixed up no i haven't but i've fuck zoned other people oh you 0.99

01:11:21.860 fuck yeah we actually really quick the rest of the panel have you ever fuck zoned a guy 0.99

01:11:32.740 no um no no no okay natasha your answer have you ever been fuck zoned or have you 0.99

01:11:42.740 fuck zoned a guy neither and no girls should allow themselves to be fuck zoned because that's all guys 1.00

01:11:48.900 want all guys want is pussy swear to god what natasha okay no no no let me rephrase that 1.00

01:11:56.900 shitty men want pussy and that's all they want from you higher guys that are worth more that will 1.00

01:12:05.620 benefit your life more they're not just gonna want pussy from you and that's a fact or could it be that 1.00

01:12:12.020 the men that only want pussy the men that only want sex from women is because that's all that 1.00

01:12:20.260 the women have to offer because for me if pussy is all you're offering pussy is all i want yeah 1.00

01:12:29.460 aline why are you cuddling with the microphone you're like nuzzling up against the microphone with 1.00

01:12:34.980 your cheek it's just it was very intimate moment um it's very intimate moment you have a weird mind

01:12:40.820 brian you're not wrong okay so moving on from the huh you were nuzzling the microphone it was like

01:12:50.340 okay anyways um let's see so hmm let's see so we did the rating thing earlier do you think it's wrong of

01:13:01.060 men to rate women on a scale of one to ten do you think it's wrong do you object to it

01:13:09.620 i mean i don't really think so i mean i think it's weird to like assign a number because like

01:13:15.060 i mean especially because like when the whole like rate thing it just comes down to wait what are we

01:13:19.140 talking about do you think it's wrong to oh rating i thought i thought you okay go ahead oh what oh my

01:13:25.540 yes no you speak very softly so i'm sorry um i think that like it's kind of weird to like assign

01:13:31.540 a number because it's all like based on like attractiveness i mean like you don't really like

01:13:34.420 involve the personality unless like the one to ten rating things so i mean but it's not like

01:13:39.620 it's just like a part of today so i don't think it's like that big of a deal sure what was the

01:13:44.100 question again no so do you think it's wrong of men to rate women on a scale of one to ten you know

01:13:57.380 if they're with their boys oh she's a seven she's a ten it doesn't matter if i'm wrong or not they're

01:14:02.820 gonna do it anyways but do you think it's wrong no it's not wrong because i rate men yeah i just think

01:14:10.100 it's kind of weird but it's like okay i don't know i mean i think it's more problematic when it

01:14:15.140 becomes like a public thing and it's like actually like written down or like posted somewhere i think

01:14:20.580 that's when it becomes like more problematic and more hurtful but i think everyone's kind of

01:14:26.580 entitled to their like preferences and their opinions in a way sure i don't really see an issue

01:14:32.340 with it but okay natasha no no issue all right based panel okay so next question who do you think

01:14:42.420 is more shallow men or women take a deep breath shallow think about it who's more shallow men or women

01:14:53.940 like you only look them like them for their looks or what it could be other things other material

01:15:02.500 things like could be oh i think women yeah women are more shallow yeah we're just like i feel like

01:15:08.340 women tend to be more like materialistic it's like the thing okay um i think that's like a pretty good 1.00

01:15:15.700 question i don't know if i could really say one for sure but i'm kind of leaning towards men right now

01:15:21.300 i feel like men and women are shallow in different ways like i i think men tend to be more interested

01:15:28.180 in women like solely based on appearance and i think women tend to be interested in men based on

01:15:34.260 like status and i think those are both shallow but not necessarily in the same way yeah i think definitely

01:15:43.140 women okay okay i mean she's wait so but so you're by so you're you're by so you have experience

01:15:55.460 romantic experience with women why why do you think women are more shallow than men um because

01:16:02.500 um women can be brutal i'm not gonna lie and men are i feel like are easier to see through like you 0.55

01:16:13.060 if they only want you for one thing they're gonna let it known that they only yeah you can like see

01:16:17.060 like a man's a man's intentions way more clearly than you can with like a woman honestly that's true 1.00

01:16:21.860 but like women just choose to ignore like really really because i i mean i've heard from a lot of women 1.00

01:16:27.380 that y'all get played we let it like we know like we know the intention like most of like nine times

01:16:34.900 out of ten i feel like we know a dude's intention it's just like we ignore it like with the it's you

01:16:38.900 can't really read like we're a lot more complex than you like ignore the red flags because yeah

01:16:44.340 because he's like making you like feel it's love it's usually love bombing makes you ignore type

01:16:50.660 yeah and women tend to see like the best out of um other people more often than men do um because

01:16:59.700 women are more like nurturing and caring like motherly and like they want more like affectionate 1.00

01:17:06.980 and romantic relationships while men tend to be really quick thinking they're more like um they're

01:17:16.180 they're they're not very um i don't know how to say it but like men just don't think the same way

01:17:24.820 that women do like if if a man gets rejected or he'll be like okay yeah like that that's it i'm not

01:17:32.660 gonna do anything else but like women they will they they see red flags they ignore it because they 1.00

01:17:41.140 they feel like oh they they kind of construe like some stories for themselves to make themselves feel

01:17:47.780 better wait seriously you think women that was a lot ignore no it's all fine it's good you think 1.00

01:17:54.740 women ignore red flags yeah i don't think a lot of women do i don't think you're wrong but i i think that

01:17:59.940 women are far pickier and far more selective than men are yeah so so on a date yeah i feel like on on a date 1.00

01:18:08.740 like you're most women are going to be looking for reasons to disqualify the guy oh yeah this is 1.00

01:18:17.220 completely if it's based on the scenario if a woman like really really likes a guy 0.86

01:18:22.740 right and then he starts falling off he's giving us some really suspicious red flags like

01:18:29.620 oh i can't hang out like i gotta go with my buddies or you'll he'll never like bring around his buddies

01:18:34.580 um like some red flags start showing up you're gonna if you really like him you're gonna make

01:18:40.580 up some some stories in your head yeah you're gonna say like oh he's just probably really busy like

01:18:46.980 i know that he's a good guy because like you make up like your own exactly exactly like yeah you you

01:18:54.660 picture this guy as like someone who's a very good person versus a man who's who sees red flags in a

01:19:02.340 woman they'll see it as red flags they're not gonna like put it like they're not gonna make excuses

01:19:08.580 for you yeah they're more straight they just like see it through like they see as what it is like

01:19:14.660 women don't do that usually yeah okay good time i think women are more naive like most of the time 1.00

01:19:24.500 women are more naive yeah you think yeah definitely you think definitely we like to like 1.00

01:19:33.300 not see like all the problems or ignore them like oh like even if there are problems we might we 0.95

01:19:43.300 might not might not even like

01:19:46.660 give solutions to them we might just ignore them like oh that's fine there's a little

01:19:50.820 error in the system i wouldn't say naive but i feel like they ignore more they choose to

01:19:58.500 ignore women ignore more yeah it's oh it's only if they really like them this is not a first date

01:20:04.420 scenario i wouldn't say scenario women are the most judgy ever okay i see because i was gonna yeah 1.00

01:20:10.660 that's what i was gonna yeah kind of get at first date scenario the woman's gonna be testing you left 1.00

01:20:16.340 and right like everything she's asking you and everything you're applying to her even like

01:20:23.140 well i think this applies to everyone i think everyone is judging you very like

01:20:28.900 even in the back of their head like minds they're judging you from the moment that you walk in

01:20:35.780 like everything i'm just saying that's deep it's like an interview there you go um but i want to touch on

01:20:41.860 that really quick but why is everyone in chat talking about post malone did you get did you guys

01:20:46.820 they've been saying that the whole time

01:20:51.620 wait why are you post malone probably because my hair is in a bun

01:20:56.900 i mean you don't have enough tap face tats for that i i wish i had post malone

01:21:02.020 they've just been like putting post malone lyrics in the chat for the past 30 minutes they're calling me

01:21:06.580 a cups i'm not mad but like they're calling you a cups 0.86

01:21:12.900 damn roasted she is post malone roasted does anyone here gang does anyone here have any plastic surgery 0.99

01:21:19.700 no i have implants you have no i'm just kidding you have breast implants no oh okay anybody plastic 0.99

01:21:27.220 surgery lip filler anybody nobody natty okay all natty yeah i mean small boobs are good

01:21:36.580 you know i'm a fan of small boobs in general just saying 0.99

01:21:42.500 did you have to tell us that i i mean you know i thank you brian just you know very insightful

01:21:49.060 small 0.87

01:21:52.100 small boob

01:21:53.940 small boob solidarity 0.93

01:21:56.980 there you go okay

01:21:57.940 we're gonna react to a video guys yeah eric can you open the other uh window or sorry the other

01:22:13.540 door please it's a little a little toasty a little toasty 0.92

01:22:17.860 like my ass sweat thank you eric okay tmi tmi all right we're by the way guys we will be selling 1.00

01:22:27.380 that chair on ebay after the after the show if you guys want to start my dead ass ass and like 1.00

01:22:36.100 bidding starts at seventy dollars okay 0.98

01:22:38.500 okay we we need a all right let's uh eric if uh if you can pull up the uh videos tab

01:22:51.060 for us thank you uh start your bids boys let's do uh anna akana yeah we'll do that one

01:22:59.540 and my argument oh wait sorry can you pause it can you hit ctrl f just ctrl f

01:23:04.340 yeah there we go uh start from the beginning if you can i should pay for date just uh press yeah

01:23:11.540 there you go against why guys should pay for dates has always been like look girls take hours to get 1.00

01:23:18.180 ready our investment is looking really nice for you makeup clothes that costs money too okay

01:23:26.340 so anna akana she's like a you been a youtuber for a decade plus i don't really like her that much but 0.59

01:23:32.580 uh she's anyways her argument is men should pay for dates because 1.00

01:23:40.900 the women they got to do more to get ready and put on makeup and all this stuff so do you agree 1.00

01:23:46.820 with that

01:23:52.340 that like a guy should always pay on yeah just scoot the microphone 0.66

01:23:55.780 i'm probably like here apparently tilt it down towards oh my gosh i don't know how it gets like

01:24:02.500 that go ahead okay what's the like what's the question so anna kana youtuber she thinks that

01:24:08.500 men should pay for the date because women we have to spend more time getting ready we got to buy 1.00

01:24:12.820 makeup put on makeup etc etc i don't think like that should be like the reasoning as to like why like

01:24:18.260 a guy should like pay for a date like i mean like i mean guys like have to get ready but i mean

01:24:23.060 makeup isn't always like a part of it either and me and hair too but i mean

01:24:27.300 i don't think that's necessarily should be the reasoning is why a guy should pay like i mean a guy

01:24:30.660 should pay like if he invites you out on a date like usually like when someone invites you out like

01:24:34.820 most of the time like if it's like a date date scenario you're gonna expect the guy to pay

01:24:39.380 but i mean if it's just like more of a chiller thing then it might just be

01:24:43.700 split the bill or whatever but i think it depends on the scenario

01:24:46.580 okay uh go ahead um i yeah i totally agree um i think it's definitely whoever asks and just

01:25:00.980 because a woman puts on makeup well women don't have to put on makeup to go on a date like we can 1.00

01:25:08.820 probably spend as much time getting ready as much as you are it's a little unlikely but um

01:25:14.020 it's it's it what she's saying doesn't really apply to every scenario is what i'm saying yeah

01:25:21.060 and men a lot of like well well off men can take care of themselves and they can get ready too it

01:25:28.820 doesn't mean that they have to pay for the date just because it's a girl you know i mean it's more

01:25:33.700 of a traditional thing and i know that it's like rooted in society but um definitely if a girl asks

01:25:40.100 a guy out on a date then she should be the one who's paying for it since she's so just suggesting 0.75

01:25:45.540 it you know i think whoever asked the other person should pay i think that's fair i don't know i feel

01:25:52.900 like it'd be weird like um a girl's like hey do you want to go get dinner and then i don't know

01:25:59.220 like you ask the person you pay you know have you ever asked a guy out on a date no

01:26:03.620 okay go ahead i think that's a good point like i don't think it necessarily needs to be rooted in

01:26:10.980 like who spends more money or more time getting ready but yeah i think you could just like take

01:26:16.740 turns or like whoever asks the other one out is like the one who pays yeah i think it's whoever asks

01:26:23.220 should pay when it so when you're dating women are you asking or are you who's getting asked out more

01:26:31.540 often it's both yeah it's probably like 50 50. okay yeah um eric i'm not sure if we should pull up

01:26:44.020 this super chat that just came in just heads up um i mean i let me think about that one star it though

01:26:53.460 star it eric um go ahead natasha yeah um men shouldn't pay just because women put makeup on 0.84

01:27:02.900 um i think men should pay as a rule especially on a first date it shows that you like the girl it

01:27:08.820 shows that you want to see her again it shows her that you actually um are financially stable um and yeah

01:27:16.420 so you want the guy to pay on the first date yeah okay

01:27:26.100 why not but equality no no no no no so what would you do you're on the first date with a guy

01:27:35.540 and he's like the check comes and he's like how do you want to you want to split this he's like hey

01:27:39.700 let's split if he wants to split it there's no future ahead of us are you are you gonna be upset

01:27:47.460 on the date like are you gonna you're just gonna be like yeah sure and then just never see him again

01:27:55.700 i wouldn't say that i'll oh okay sorry always messing with the cups um i'm gonna be respectful

01:28:02.100 about it i'll go ahead and pay and i won't even say a word about it but i do believe that men

01:28:09.780 should be you know kind of courting the girl and being you know be dominant like be the bigger person

01:28:20.340 it's it's a man's job to take care of you as long as you are taking care of him as well and i think

01:28:27.780 on the first date it's really important for a man to show that he is interested in you that he's

01:28:34.420 serious about you and i think paying is just kind of the bare minimum on a first date for a man

01:28:41.780 does anyone on panel want to respond to um i would like to say that um

01:28:46.980 um it's it's it's a valid point but also um i think that

01:28:59.220 most situations yeah men men men are men tend to be like the dominant um person in the relationship

01:29:08.100 but there's also relationships where women are taking care of men and that's not not necessarily my 0.99

01:29:15.700 type of relationship but i do think that that is a valid relationship and i think that that can

01:29:23.140 exist and it's something that um is possible and would definitely work and i think that's definitely

01:29:32.180 okay but that doesn't mean that men all the time have to do that men don't have to pay just because

01:29:39.380 they're men i do think that whoever asks though is um this is a this is uh yeah

01:29:51.700 if i recall correctly this differs a little bit from your previous take on this no i no i said that

01:29:57.380 didn't you say that men should pay no on the last okay so i said nothing wrong with that but

01:30:02.580 i said that i whoever asked should pay but in my my personal um experiences i don't i've never asked

01:30:11.700 out a man i've only been asked out so in my personal situations men have always paid for me

01:30:17.460 and in my circumstances if i'm like whatever she said if he asked to split like i would be like 0.94

01:30:24.980 fuck like he asked me on a date and he wants me to split the bill like i'm not not going to pursue 0.97

01:30:30.420 this anymore you know like sure like he's not putting in his effort like why why would you take 1.00

01:30:35.140 me out to this expensive restaurant and expect me to pay for something that you can't afford sure so

01:30:40.900 that's that's my take okay yeah i'll get my take on it after we react to one more video on this eric

01:30:46.580 if you can pull up the uh i think the next video it is yeah that one go for it what you're looking at

01:30:56.660 here is an invoice i received after an unsuccessful date as it reads above under project no joke due

01:31:04.260 date asap i am not kidding i told him i didn't have a romantic connection with him over message

01:31:10.180 politely um and this is the response he said it's not a matter of money it's the principle 29 pounds man

01:31:17.940 come on give me a break i mean would you do this i just i can't believe it

01:31:24.820 okay so basically she went on a date with a guy first date she wasn't interested and then after

01:31:31.780 the date he invoiced her for i guess her portion of the bill so your reaction to that what do you

01:31:39.300 think and actually we're going to start over here with natasha and work our way around but so basically

01:31:43.940 he asked her to pay no so he paid he paid on the date she messaged him after the fact and said

01:31:50.500 or sorry she messaged him and maybe that he was trying to set up a second date she said she wasn't

01:31:57.620 interested so at that point he invoiced her and said hey here's her portion of the date and so he

01:32:04.340 wanted her to pay it after the fact yeah that that's very unattractive um well she's already 1.00

01:32:10.900 rejected him so i mean just don't pay it yeah like her pay it yeah like didn't he request her to pay 0.89

01:32:21.300 for the the date that he paid right so um just don't fucking pay i know the audacity of the guy 0.94

01:32:27.940 right yeah yeah but like he yeah i don't know why is it audacious it's why is that audacious 0.95

01:32:36.980 he's like oh you rejected me now you're gonna have to fucking give me my money back 0.97

01:32:41.540 it's just like fucking audacity like just move on it's like having a small ego and not knowing how 0.99

01:32:47.060 to take rejection exactly he's well he doesn't know how to take rejection well he took rejection 0.99

01:32:52.260 but it's it's just petty it's like if you wanted if you wanted to take this girl girl out on a date

01:32:57.380 she went with you like okay like you paid like unfortunately she just wasn't into you like okay 1.00

01:33:03.540 that's that like that's just so petty to be like okay pay me back okay but let me ask you guys a

01:33:07.380 question how soon into the date do you think she wasn't interested in him i want to say probably 0.83

01:33:12.980 within the first 10 minutes but she knew how do you know we don't but i mean most women what does it 1.00

01:33:18.260 matter like she's maybe he just had a really bad person well my point the reason i bring that up

01:33:22.900 the reason why i bring it up by the time the check came she probably knew i'm not going to go on a date

01:33:29.220 with this guy again she could have then offered to split the bill but she didn't why would we still

01:33:35.940 asked her he's he still asked her out on the date yeah okay why would she offer to split the bill if

01:33:42.500 she didn't even like the date all the more reason to split the bill why why would why would she pay for 0.99

01:33:48.660 something that she doesn't like like she's on the side she got food she she ate she drank well he was

01:33:55.620 the guy that offered to take her there to get to know him and she didn't like what she was

01:34:03.300 experiencing why would she pay for lonnie why are you looking at the chat like that

01:34:09.220 i have to squint like i'm like i have to like

01:34:13.380 you're like giving the chat a stink eye over there i can't i have really really bad vision it's okay

01:34:18.980 really bad i have some glasses i have mine oh yes throw them on throw them on

01:34:26.900 anyways so okay wait now i'm gonna like really be able to see everything

01:34:34.020 okay so where were we did anyone else want to come in on the reaction i think you kind of wanted to come

01:34:40.980 in right yeah i think it goes off principle even if they like it didn't work out you still asked them

01:34:45.780 to pay like i mean you still asked them on the date you expected them to be there you took them there

01:34:50.500 so you're expected to pay so just because she didn't like you and it didn't work out doesn't

01:34:55.780 i don't feel like that's a i feel like that's a little boy yeah i like that description he has a 1.00

01:35:02.020 small dick and balls it's like i'll shrivel up and it went inside and it turned into a vagina 1.00

01:35:08.100 oh my god pussy boy what stop pointing at me no genitalia shaming here how dare you how dare you 1.00

01:35:20.260 we can talk about that soon okay so and your take on this well i just think i mean imagine like if you 1.00

01:35:25.860 guys date for like a year and then you break up are you gonna like venmo request like hundreds of

01:35:31.940 dollars like okay like you owe me like eight thousand dollars for like all the dates we've

01:35:36.660 been on in the past you know it's like the principle of it like in the sorry in the moment

01:35:42.020 if you're like i'm gonna pay and like this was a date you know whether it's like a guy or a girl

01:35:48.020 paying like you're doing something nice it's a date like you don't just retract that because like

01:35:53.540 things don't work out well so if you were in a long-term relationship with a girl and one of the

01:35:59.140 partners in the relationship paid more than the other you know whatever to me yes i would agree

01:36:05.620 that's kind of weird oh pay me back for the several dozen dates we went on or whatever the yeah that's

01:36:11.380 a bit that's a bit much but i think on the first date it's a bit different so i'm coming to uh this

01:36:17.700 guy's defense here and it's different because back in the day back in the day if you went on a date

01:36:25.700 with somebody and when i say back in the day i don't know let's say before dating apps before

01:36:29.300 social media maybe 10 20 years ago whatever it is um or even back in the 1950s if you went on a

01:36:35.460 date with someone and you paid for them there was a very high likelihood that it was going to go

01:36:40.900 somewhere but now people have so many options people are seeing so many people at the same time

01:36:45.540 people aren't i mean i know there's a few outliers here i think natasha is one of them most people

01:36:50.900 are dating multiple people at a time so the chances do that isn't dating exclusive like

01:36:57.700 well when i say date like to go on a date with a guy oh girls girls will go on a date on a guy to be 0.99

01:37:03.700 dating someone is that what we're to this is within the context of a first date just say like going on

01:37:09.460 dates with people with multiple sure okay going on dates with people so there was previously an

01:37:15.700 expectation that like if you went on a first date with someone they probably weren't entertaining a whole

01:37:20.420 bunch of options but now i know average women like unremarkable women that can have four or five 1.00

01:37:30.980 dates lined up in a week easy average men can't do that average women can so and also there's this uh

01:37:39.540 thing called a foodie foodie call i mean i think you invented that word i'm honest i'm never i've never

01:37:45.620 they've done studies on this i've never heard of that foodie call so basically i've only heard that

01:37:49.620 from you well i'm i am the uh resource of knowledge on on these sort of topics but so women will go on 1.00

01:37:56.980 dates with guys just for free dinner mustang guy i it's not the majority of women but it's it happens 1.00

01:38:02.980 it's happened to me girl goes on date with me or it could even be even if it's not a foodie call it

01:38:09.140 could be hey i go on a date with a girl and then she's just not feeling she there's not a second

01:38:14.100 date how about guys just stop buying girls food and do well that's i don't so i don't go to the

01:38:20.500 beach go to the beach that's free and fun but some girls have an issue with those days there are 1.00

01:38:28.340 definitely girls that are like if she has an issue with that then she's just trying she's trying to 1.00

01:38:32.900 use you for your money and food like that's i would that's what women do not sorry that's what 1.00

01:38:37.940 some women do i would love to go to the beach like and i think that's a great great date or get a 1.00

01:38:42.980 coffee do something low commitment yeah exactly like you don't have i don't do dinner dates you don't

01:38:47.380 have to do that like nobody's making you so stop complaining about like women using you for like food

01:38:53.060 or whatever honestly that's true yeah yeah it's like just put more effort into like there's so many

01:38:58.900 up with something so many things that you could do that that would be more memorable than getting

01:39:06.020 like an expensive meal trying to impress her something material you know then you know like

01:39:11.780 oh she's she's like a true one like she doesn't care about like material things like food or or a fancy 1.00

01:39:21.380 experience she just wants to do something like memorable that's fair enough but i think it filters out

01:39:29.060 yeah and my recommendation to men and this has been my stance on this for a long time first date

01:39:35.140 first off i don't even like food dates to begin with um but first date food not a good call you

01:39:40.500 want to do something low commitment in the event maybe she's not feeling it you're not feeling it

01:39:45.380 me for an hour less even you can always dip if there's food involved then they exactly you got to

01:39:51.220 wait for the waiter and then the waiter interrupts you while you're having a conversation and then you

01:39:56.180 can't get like talk oh yeah you're eating you look like gross when you eat and stuff and like

01:40:01.140 yeah it's awkward like oh i think this is good the food gets cold the conversations are so forced

01:40:06.980 on like dinner dates i feel like yeah like i feel like in an activity like a conversation might fall

01:40:11.220 out a little easier yeah an activity yeah okay what's an example of golfing i swear i think

01:40:16.420 going to a theme park but okay that costs money the best one theme park for a first date

01:40:20.340 yeah yeah that's extra i don't know about that y'all i think the best one for me is a guy taught

01:40:26.260 me how to surf oh that's and i think that was the best thing ever i mean that's a that that's pretty

01:40:33.140 extra no it's not it's that's a whole he was a surfing instructor and i'm okay so i met him at a

01:40:40.500 party like literally the last night the night before and he's like come start with me tomorrow like

01:40:45.380 you're not gonna come like i know you're not and then i and i went it was like literally the best

01:40:49.380 time ever and it was so fun i learned how to surf so i mean okay so here's here's my thing here's

01:40:56.100 well i mean there's the did you have a wetsuit well it was his what what time of year was it it was

01:41:02.740 literally you are tall so maybe his wetsuit would have fit i don't know if you guys see i have a

01:41:06.420 surfboard behind me i used to surf all the time and like my whole thing is honestly like

01:41:12.820 i mean you could take a girl out on a small day but it's just like he got a 0.96

01:41:17.620 a fucking teacher i mean it's a good date but it's like you got to get all the boards and go 0.98

01:41:23.780 it's a whole thing right for a first date i feel like it's the same thing like surfing with your 1.00

01:41:28.740 guys but you get to talk to a girl i don't like i was holding the like surfboard the whole time

01:41:35.460 i mean like he wasn't holding it for me like i don't know but you gotta push her into the wave

01:41:39.860 no no he didn't you just told me what to do the first time so you first hold on the first

01:41:44.740 wave you ever caught you paddled into it i did and you stood up and caught it he didn't push you

01:41:50.020 he didn't give you anything and i stood up on myself he just told me how to do it i'm i'm

01:41:54.900 i'm being serious all right fair enough fair enough that's pretty believe me i mean i've taught

01:41:59.220 people to surf and i mean he's a surfing instructor yeah yeah yeah it's a good date but that's more

01:42:04.340 com that's a bigger commitment than just getting dinner it's not it was all but you gotta bring

01:42:08.740 already in his car you gotta bring the surfboards to the beach it's a whole thing he was ready

01:42:16.260 they have a wetsuit you can't first off in california if it's the winter time the wetsuit on me

01:42:21.780 i was doing it myself yeah but okay you're tall so i'm okay most guys aren't like here let me just

01:42:29.460 keep an inventory of like women's sized wetsuits she's gonna be freezing if it's in like any any time 0.88

01:42:37.700 past october well okay so even in summer you need he lives in a house with a bunch of okay this is

01:42:44.500 a very okay circumstance he lives in a house with a bunch of surfers so he has a bunch of like

01:42:49.220 surfing gear of all different types of sizes so it's pretty convenient for him yeah no i mean

01:42:54.180 it's circumstantial maybe not for you i've i've done that once but it's just like honestly

01:42:59.300 for me like when i went surfing i wanted to go alone okay so i don't want to take someone

01:43:04.820 with me not my i'm a lone wolf not my problem no wonder you're still single okay what about the

01:43:12.500 what about the people that don't that are landlocked that don't live in a coastal city and there's no

01:43:17.780 waves okay picnic you you don't you don't need to even buy anything from the store get it from your 0.78

01:43:22.420 pantry i know your mom has like some chocolate covered strawberries or some shit she's nice she's 1.00

01:43:28.420 nice okay so uh anyways so okay we were i don't know how we got into it so the the 0.83

01:43:35.620 whole non-coastal people picnics paying hiking is fun hiking is very fun i think she should have been

01:43:41.780 i think she should have paid him back huh oh the girl she should have paid him back 0.99

01:43:46.500 she should have paid him back what yeah that's insane you would be that type of guy you know

01:43:54.260 what your damage you may go and you make women pay on the first day like it depends not always 1.00

01:44:01.620 depends do you go on first dates do i go on i mean do women like pay for you has a woman paid for me 1.00

01:44:08.020 yeah i remember you said one time she asked you for she gave you a burrito a christian woman yes a

01:44:13.380 christian woman 10 years ago asked she asked i don't even know if she asked me out on date

01:44:20.260 we i was like hey let's meet up sometime and then she she said let's go this place let's go here

01:44:25.300 i'll pay and i was like okay and she bought me a burrito the one time

01:44:30.500 a burrito whereas we had a girl on like two shows ago who went what um is it time to take your birth 1.00

01:44:41.540 control hey oh my god why would you say that i mean you're you have an alarm on your phone no it's

01:44:49.380 just uh it's bedtime okay nine o'clock time i'm gonna sleep okay so anyways um what's it oh yeah

01:44:59.540 yeah she paid for my burrito we had a girl on two weeks ago and she was talking about

01:45:04.980 she off she got offered a thousand dollars for a starbucks date and she took it she got paid a 0.98

01:45:09.860 thousand bucks just to meet a guy for starbucks now this was off of a seeking arrangements sort of

01:45:15.060 thing but like bruv a thousand bruv one time in my life a girl paid for me i'm so proud of you 0.99

01:45:27.140 yeah but she was waiting for marriage so i was like yeah you're nice thank you can i pay you for

01:45:33.220 the burrito nice enough can i pay you for the burrito but she's like no it's okay so there was

01:45:39.780 no second date well i mean we were just she wanted to wait until marriage to have sex which hey

01:45:46.020 good for you rock and roll but like for me i'm okay i'm gonna turn up i'm all right i'm all right

01:45:56.900 but uh maybe i should have taken her up on on that but anyways um yeah i think you know what she should

01:46:04.340 the the lady in that thing she should have paid him because i guarantee you if you ask her she's 1.00

01:46:09.140 probably like oh yeah i'm a feminist i believe in equality blah blah blah but what happens if she 1.00

01:46:14.020 doesn't pay nothing nothing yeah she doesn't have to why why does she have to pay then because she 1.00

01:46:21.620 she was provided value she was provided of benefit she got a free meal right yeah so why does she have 1.00

01:46:27.860 to pay what do you mean she should pay her way right why she ate the food she received the value yes 0.59

01:46:37.140 the free food that he bought for her and yeah at the date yeah right yeah why does she have to pay for 0.99

01:46:43.700 it because good answer brian because she she probably on the date was not genuinely interested in him

01:46:54.260 she could have split it right then and there but she didn't why would you but but so why is it always

01:46:59.940 falling on men well he why didn't he ask her to split it at the end why do you have to because 1.00

01:47:06.340 he was trying to be a gentleman why did he ask her after to split because she turned him down and he

01:47:14.020 spent this money on a date what does that matter though it was it's not because of the the food it's

01:47:19.940 because of she didn't like your your personality or whatever she didn't like your persona right 0.71

01:47:29.380 so why does she have to pay she doesn't have to pay you said she should so you're not telling me 0.99

01:47:35.700 any reasons why okay under those circumstances why should she why should she pay she turned him 1.00

01:47:42.260 down she there was there was no like courtesy or like what just to make you feel better he spent

01:47:48.980 money on her as a romantic gesture she has no romantic interest in him well she didn't know that

01:47:56.980 until after she met him right i mean well we don't know all the details but i think we should reach out to

01:48:03.060 the girl yeah we should ask her anyways we're gonna move on we're gonna move on from this um

01:48:09.300 see here's the thing i'm an egalitarian right i believe people should pay

01:48:16.740 people it should split i believe in splitting the bill because you can't be feminist until the check comes 1.00

01:48:23.460 feminism equality is not a buffet you don't get to pick and choose 1.00

01:48:27.300 oh i want i'm an egalitarian until i'm drafted oh jesus okay anyways we're gonna move on from that

01:48:35.780 um we're gonna do a video reaction to mr tate cobra tate eric if i can have you uh pull up the video

01:48:42.260 goods is he still coming up um probably not because he got banned uh the forehead one banned from what

01:48:50.340 it you didn't hear about that hold on we'll we'll watch this and then i think 99 of the world's

01:48:57.460 problems would be solved if females walked through life with their body count on their forehead 1.00

01:49:03.060 because it would prevent because it would prevent all of the disintegration of morals it would prevent

01:49:11.220 so many things about the world and women would be like to be with me as a man i don't want to put 1.00

01:49:18.340 another number on my forehead you have to be a good man they wouldn't stop in these idiots and 1.00

01:49:22.420 stop being idiots and all the idiocy would disappear all the degeneracy would disappear 1.00

01:49:26.660 families would return virgins meeting their first man staying with him her whole life and being proud 1.00

01:49:31.860 of it wouldn't we couldn't we go back to such a beautiful age all we have to do is start putting

01:49:35.700 numbers on girls foreheads we could fix everything that attitude is disgusting okay your reaction to it 1.00

01:49:42.740 by the way pop your glasses off oh yeah so i can't read the chat yeah um your reaction to the video

01:49:50.340 i feel like he's like literally just like saying that like a body count kind of just like changes

01:49:55.540 like who you are as a person and just like it like affects your like morals but like

01:50:01.620 like it just like that's just not how it works and like i have a fairly low body count but like my

01:50:07.700 body count compared to like someone who's like 15 like we could have like the exact same morals like

01:50:11.460 that doesn't change anything or we can want the same thing in life like it just really doesn't

01:50:14.900 change anything

01:50:19.140 was he saying like oh like put the body counts of these women's on their head and like their forehead 1.00

01:50:26.340 on their forehead and like the the true body count or what yes you watch the video right i think i

01:50:32.820 couldn't hear anything i'm like kind of deaf yeah i'm actually like really deaf like he's just talking so

01:50:38.900 fast basically what he's saying is all the world's problems would be fixed if women all of the 1.00

01:50:44.260 problems i mean if only women had their body world or everyone it's a bit it's a bit of hyperbole but 1.00

01:50:50.340 he's saying women if they have their body count on their forehead right here it would fix everything 1.00

01:50:57.220 fix all the problems in the world now i think more specifically let's try to keep it within the context of

01:51:04.660 dating but your reaction to that statement we're gonna go around the table i'm gonna get up for

01:51:12.340 just a sec so just continue on along the panel okay actually i'll listen i'll say go ahead um i don't

01:51:19.220 know i just think that like i can see how how he how a lot of men think that oh women are ran through or

01:51:28.900 whatever but like i don't know like that's not gonna solve everything you know but i know i know

01:51:39.220 that body count does matter to a lot of people it matters to me and it matters like to people who want

01:51:46.260 like especially people who want um marriage first like religious people um

01:51:55.060 um it matters but not to that extent is what i'm saying you know

01:52:04.180 um yeah i don't know i guess i kind of agree with the lean i guess it

01:52:09.220 it's like personal preference but like how he's saying like oh like all women like okay like

01:52:13.540 if you want to be like that then why not like everyone i don't know i guess it's really like

01:52:18.660 what you want out of someone if you don't if you feel a certain way about someone having like a

01:52:24.020 high body count then like that's you you know like do what you want to do yeah

01:52:31.140 does anybody want some red bull by the way it's too late i'm gonna sleep after this you want to pour

01:52:38.580 it in your cups i'll get some more go go on with your answers though um i don't know i mean i think

01:52:48.900 there's like a double standard with body count like men especially like in their friend circles

01:52:54.500 are praised for like having a higher body count while like women are demonized for it so i don't

01:53:00.740 know i don't think it's that important i don't think there's that much can we do that for the show is

01:53:05.780 that okay oh personally i don't think body count matters at all and i'm coming from a perspective of

01:53:14.180 someone who dates women so i don't think body count matters at all a person's body count doesn't

01:53:19.300 determine what kind of person they are and so i feel like anyone who does say that like oh i they

01:53:26.980 can't have over this amount of bodies it's just kind of seeing women as property and not as actual 1.00

01:53:31.860 people natasha body count does matter one million percent you have natasha tate in the building by the

01:53:40.100 way guys is it super overexposed guys yeah i like how you can see the screen through my glasses um

01:53:49.060 but yeah body count does matter and especially matters to men um i was thinking about this was

01:53:54.740 while i was watching the video like if you put your body count on your forehead and men it's kind of like

01:54:03.300 a weird example but let's say like guys were out roaming free and they were able to be like

01:54:11.140 you know let's say they were able to stand next to the girl that they find more desirable based on 0.57

01:54:16.500 their body count they're going to gravitate towards the girls with the lower body count 1.00

01:54:22.420 and now if the roles were reversed and guys body counts were on their forehead i think a lot of

01:54:29.460 girls would go for the guys with the higher body counts no i don't think that's true i don't think so

01:54:38.340 body count it really doesn't matter for men

01:54:44.020 because when men to have a high body count yes okay and i've seen this happen in my own life and

01:54:49.380 i've experienced this like and i hear it from guys in my friend group um they're all young and you know

01:54:56.340 having fun doing whatever but it's like when they have a hookup they genuinely do not care about that

01:55:02.660 girl beyond the physical realm they do not care about if she dies tomorrow like but for women they 0.90

01:55:09.620 have sex with a guy and they could be hooked on him for months and women are just designed to be that 1.00

01:55:15.940 way like we are supposed to be loyal to the person that we're sexual with and we are supposed to 0.92

01:55:22.580 to trust them and all that stuff but guys they can just around and not care about girls

01:55:30.900 and yeah i just so my question is like you're saying that body count does matter but you're

01:55:36.980 saying that you'd prefer a guy with a higher body count i would prefer a guy that's more experienced

01:55:42.900 wait hold on natasha i got to challenge you on this one last in one of the last podcasts i don't

01:55:48.340 remember remember which one it was you said that you wouldn't want a guy that had a body count over

01:55:53.300 five i remember you i remember that i remember saying that is that still the case or no it isn't

01:55:58.980 i realized after the podcast that it's unrealistic that's that's true she's she's adjusted her stance on

01:56:06.500 this okay so if you were a guy would you want a girl with a lower body count if i were a guy would i want 1.00

01:56:13.380 i would not that one's hard because i am a woman and i don't judge women based on their body counts i 0.99

01:56:32.020 don't like i like you guys said it doesn't really change yeah who a person is yeah

01:56:36.020 i don't know that's hard one that's a hard one because i'm not a guy yeah and i want to believe

01:56:45.380 that guys can could look beyond body count and all that stuff but i think but you're saying that

01:56:51.220 body count does matter yeah like as a woman you're saying i want a guy with a higher body count 1.00

01:56:58.340 i would like a guy who's more experienced and you're saying that

01:57:05.220 like body count for women how how would you say like a woman should have her body should it be high 1.00

01:57:10.420 or low or what like you don't have to pretend you're a guy you're just like in this day society

01:57:16.740 girls our age like how high or low should our body count be i don't think there's a number that i can

01:57:22.420 say that a woman should be within but i think you don't have to do a number just high or low

01:57:30.900 i mean i think low and guys should be high i don't think they they should but like if it is high i

01:57:37.540 don't think it matters so much does it matter if a girl's body count is high i think if you ask 0.98

01:57:44.980 it's like for friends like like if you had if you're friends with a girl who was who had a high body

01:57:50.100 count versus a girl with a lower body count does that matter no doesn't matter okay so uh but in 1.00

01:57:55.780 relationships and dating and yourself like would it matter if you had a higher body count or a lower

01:58:01.380 body count how high would your self-worth be in your own self i believe that when you have a higher

01:58:09.860 body count there's a good chance that somewhere along the line you put yourself below the standard that

01:58:19.300 you really could be at you know not every guy that you meet at a party is going to be a good

01:58:25.460 man and who's going to treat you right right so if my body count was high that means i was sleeping

01:58:31.620 around with a lot of dudes that really didn't deserve me to be that way and as for my self-esteem

01:58:36.980 that kind of does play into it because having a lower body count means that i'm being more selective

01:58:41.860 because i know i deserve the guys that are higher quality so you're saying that guys with high body

01:58:50.020 count but are more experienced but that means that they don't get with girls they don't pick girls who

01:58:57.460 are who are more loving and they don't tend they tend to not have those meaningful relationships that

01:59:02.820 you might want in a guy yeah and so they they're having a lot of meaningless sex yeah and so um 0.80

01:59:11.780 that's not necessarily something that you might want in a guy and also if he has a low body count

01:59:16.340 it doesn't necessarily mean that he's unexperienced it could be like he's been in a long relationship

01:59:20.500 and he's learned how to satisfy a woman obviously he knows how how to do all that but he just has a

01:59:26.660 low body count it doesn't mean he's not experienced so what's your take on that i think that is true um

01:59:38.740 i don't really know what to say in response to that to be honest

01:59:45.220 okay what what did i miss while i was gone i saw a bunch of like red flag emojis

01:59:50.180 in the chat i was just wondering a lot of a lot of red flag all the uh logistics per se what what did

01:59:58.100 i miss i'm not gonna repeat that okay you can rewatch it fair enough fair enough hey eric did we

02:00:05.300 okay we got it never mind we're good um so i want to just go around the panel um kind of to bring it

02:00:12.020 back a little bit to the video do you think you would be more selective with who you sleep with do you

02:00:18.740 think your body count would be lower if you had your body count on your forehead

02:00:25.220 uh how do those two like play with each other move the mic how do those two like playing to

02:00:28.980 like what would like my body count be on my forehead and like making me choose oh i guess

02:00:33.220 that makes sense actually i mean i mean i guess i mean i guess yeah i mean i'm already pretty selective

02:00:41.540 like most of the people that i've like slept with i've been like romantically involved with

02:00:46.420 but um i feel like yeah that would like probably cause me to be more selective like probably just

02:00:53.300 not want the number to go up if it's like literally being like publicly viewed to literally everyone

02:01:01.700 do i want i we've got a lot of super chats we'll go around on this and we'll do the super chats go

02:01:06.900 ahead elene um i think definitely yeah like i want to be honest yeah like that's going to affect who i

02:01:12.820 who i sleep with because everyone that i know is going to see that number my parents are going to

02:01:17.940 see that number kids are going to see that number people who interview me for jobs are going to see

02:01:21.700 that number it's not just other guys like everyone's going to see that number and i'm going to try to

02:01:26.900 keep it at a number i want it to be because i i value my self-image and that's and i don't care what

02:01:36.580 people say reputation is a real thing like it how people treat you because of how they know like

02:01:43.060 what type of person you are it's a real thing like you can't just not care and do whatever the

02:01:48.660 fuck you want because it affects how people treat you yeah i agree i think people are going to look at 0.98

02:01:54.900 you like differently obviously so i feel like i'd be more i would want to be careful about that 0.99

02:02:00.660 yeah i mean i think i'd be more like conscious of it but also i could see a world in which like

02:02:08.740 there's just sort of because everybody has their number like displayed on their forehead there's

02:02:12.900 like a change in people and how people like perceive body count and people don't necessarily like

02:02:18.820 put so much weight on it

02:02:22.420 um i don't think it would change anything for me i i'm not selective but i don't think that like

02:02:28.260 body can't really matter so i don't i don't know i probably wouldn't change a thing sure

02:02:32.900 natasha yeah it would definitely affect how um i feel about myself and because it would change the

02:02:38.340 people that i attract into my life so my next question is should body count matter i think they

02:02:47.060 just had a whole debate about that but i want i want everyone no i just want everyone to go around

02:02:53.700 really quick if body count should matter just a yes or no i think like to an extent into the mic

02:02:59.380 please yeah i'm just gonna say yeah yes yes okay yes um maybe yeah i'd say no i'd say no natasha okay so

02:03:16.260 so the chat's been asking what's your body count we'll start with natasha three

02:03:28.900 i don't want to give a number but mine's relatively high can you break it down by men and women a lot

02:03:36.420 more women than men but like i don't know do you want to give a range 1.00

02:03:41.860 um can we not do this yeah yeah i'm not gonna answer this this is on the internet and it's

02:03:50.580 inappropriate like like jobs could see this like we're young we're yeah we're like she's 18 she like

02:03:55.380 just right what did what do you mean wait let's not do this question does anybody want it you can

02:04:02.820 skip but does anyone yeah but there's new there's new new people in the stream yeah you don't have to

02:04:10.260 you don't have to answer yeah they can watch the other one but you don't have to answer

02:04:16.260 okay so skip do you want to skip just skip all of us skip don't want to answer i've already said

02:04:23.540 another one they can look back what's that i've already said in the other podcast they can look

02:04:28.020 back at it that you're what my body count that you've asked but oh you've yeah i know you've already

02:04:33.940 said it yeah but i mean there's people in the chat that it's okay that was like two months ago go look

02:04:38.820 another one okay so i've missed a little bit about the back and forth between you two on body count

02:04:49.380 let's see uh what does chat think we'll let chat guess well i mean if you guys omit your answers then

02:04:59.380 we do have to open it up to chat so chat you have to guess everyone's body counts i guess you could

02:05:04.100 guess mine included too so i think do we have one more video no sorry we we have to get to super

02:05:12.740 chats we're gonna do super chats okay let's see uh i believe we're on this one everyday edgar ten

02:05:19.860 dollar super chat question for post malone who at the table would you turn out oh for post okay they're

02:05:27.300 calling you post malone what are you what's rude that they're calling her post malone yeah it's

02:05:32.740 like it's whatever it's internet i mean the comments are gonna be what i mean they're giving

02:05:39.300 people nicknames and stuff we weren't we warned you be careful call me leilani we warned you be

02:05:45.300 careful with the chat um so is there any do you want to answer this one turn out by like like which

02:05:51.220 i guess you don't have to no what what does that why i assume that means like which girl would you 0.96

02:05:57.540 hit up would you want to date at the table i have a girlfriend so nobody okay every day i grow things

02:06:04.820 for the ten dollar soup chat devon jackson with the ten dollar soup chat quick question for the ladies i

02:06:09.940 know guys will reject girls for having itty bitties or looking like jesus okay but how would you feel

02:06:16.180 if a six five stud told you that you were too short for him

02:06:23.300 huh i'm five nine so that would never happen to me i'm five nine i'm like five eight who's the

02:06:30.820 shortest giselle i think i'm like five one five one yeah what if what if a guy told you you're too

02:06:37.140 tall for him i'm too tall you're too tall i'm sorry five one i mean i like women i like very short 0.99

02:06:44.420 women so like 4 11 4 10. i mean i'll date i it's not like i don't care it's not like a

02:06:50.180 a deal breaker for me i'll date a girl who's six five i don't care but yeah sorry you're too you're 0.97

02:06:55.060 just too tall for me yeah just too tall all right more power to him yeah uh but yeah devon jackson

02:07:00.820 thank you for the ten dollar soup chat um let's see currency with the i'll pull it up but i don't know

02:07:08.820 if i want to go into this um uh i mean chat give me what do you guys think chat do we move on like um

02:07:23.540 who's who's elliot roger yeah yeah i mean sorry man like we just can't talk about we're not going

02:07:28.260 to talk about elliot roger um devon jackson thank you for the ten dollar soup chat just put in more

02:07:32.580 effort uh says just put in more effort says the panel of women that never planned to first date in 0.97

02:07:37.460 their lives i've planned a first date with a woman yeah i i pull so it's not that hard okay but so

02:07:45.940 but but like you're a bit of an outlier because you are bisexual so it's a bit different for you i

02:07:51.220 think versus like heterosexual women like most heterosexual women are really not initiating like

02:07:57.220 that so i mean he makes a very good point just and did someone at the panel say just put in more

02:08:02.900 effort what was this in response to does anyone know this is probably like 30 plus minutes when

02:08:08.100 we were talking about like um other date dates other than like uh going to go get food oh right

02:08:14.340 when we were talking about like take go on a surf date you know yeah yeah i mean it it is kind of

02:08:19.780 convenient since for y'all to say that when you've probably never planned a date set up the date set the

02:08:25.940 time all this stuff so i mean devon jackson with the ten dollar soup chat she goes she goes you get

02:08:33.940 to talk to a girl i've seen you talk for 10 minutes and can tell you you aren't that interesting i'm not

02:08:38.660 sure who this is who who said this is devon jackson shooting shots at one of the girls on panel i don't

02:08:46.980 know do you guys does one of you want to respond to no

02:08:58.820 okay

02:09:02.180 devon jackson with the big subsequent ten dollar soup chat i'm willing to spend more money

02:09:07.060 on these super chats than i would on the first date with any of y'all uh girls he's shooting

02:09:11.220 shots you you have an opportunity to fire back um good for him good thing we aren't he saved money

02:09:17.700 yeah no he did it oh yeah he's spending money like being so butthurt so it's like

02:09:24.180 devon now devon chargers adolph mealer okay he's got the name back okay oh god

02:09:32.260 i think it's okay right what do you think natasha i think it's fine that's all right i mean

02:09:37.380 meow or can you change it to i don't know i don't know like i don't want to be all pc

02:09:43.300 i don't know whatever natasha's textbook example that no matter how hot she is 1.00

02:09:48.020 someone somewhere is tired of her um okay damn bro the chat's been brutal tonight okay um 0.94

02:09:57.460 i'm not okay devon jackson with the ten dollar soup chat do you want to respond to that by the way 0.99

02:10:04.340 natasha i have no comment i thought that fire some shots last show you were really nice i don't know

02:10:11.780 what happened like this maybe this is a compliment no matter how hot she is someone no that he's 1.00

02:10:19.540 saying someone's tired of me oh devon jackson with the big fifty dollar soup chat whoa

02:10:26.420 big fifty dollar soup chat from mr devon jackson yo you know all this money is going to brian right

02:10:33.220 yeah you're taking him on a date like hey devon jackson we can go for a surf session okay um

02:10:41.060 that was okay uh devon jackson with the ten dollar soup chat he's saying if women 0.99

02:10:47.060 kind of a good one he's saying if women were more concerned about their body count they would

02:10:51.060 require men to be better men to sleep with them all of the progress society has made was 0.65

02:10:55.460 was men improving themselves for women i mean that's definitely true because

02:11:01.860 if women were more selective men would have to work harder i mean the fact of the matter is though men

02:11:08.100 already have to work hard to get laid as it is i mean yeah you guys if you guys are just going

02:11:14.660 after the top 10 or 20 percent of men yeah they'll just hook up with you but a lot of men have to

02:11:21.140 become men men have no like innate value um or sorry sorry let me rephrase that men have to create 0.99

02:11:30.580 their value women are born with their value so as a woman you're 18 you're you're good looking that's 1.00

02:11:36.820 all you need to attract a partner but for most men it doesn't seem that easy what's that it does not

02:11:43.700 seem that easy does not seem that easy well what do you mean like attract a partner like like you 0.95

02:11:48.260 want like to fuck for for a guy to be attractive he has to he has to become something unless he's just 0.97

02:11:57.220 like ridiculously good looking he could bring value guys can be born good looking just yes sure but 0.99

02:12:03.140 that's usually not throughout their life they're a man's looks is not going to be enough to carry

02:12:09.540 them okay that's true okay that's like there's no there's no 18 year old dudes that are getting

02:12:14.500 invited onto yachts by women in their 30s i actually know a guy who has been he's he's my age same guy

02:12:21.460 surfer guy yeah he taught me how to surf um he said over the over he was in europe in croatia this old

02:12:29.220 sugar mommy but put him on a yacht he's my age he's like he's not even like extremely good looking he's 0.87

02:12:36.740 he's cute not extremely good looking he's not super tall is he croatian because maybe that's his 1.00

02:12:42.100 fucking he's from san diego or some bullshit san diego so okay well that's five eleven i mean that's 0.98

02:12:49.300 the exception not the rule for for most for an 18 year old guy to get into a room with a man who's very 0.99

02:12:55.220 high status who's like blue check mark drake bro you you got to be providing some value an 18 year old 0.53

02:13:03.700 girl any girl here at this panel you can be you could be maneuvering and moving in rooms with some 0.99

02:13:10.580 very very high status men that's why i'm saying like for women it's a lot like attracting people

02:13:17.460 is a lot easier for women because i feel like we're being chased and we're not doing the chasing and that's 1.00

02:13:27.380 just how most things are like most of the time i'm saying most of the time but um there are exceptions

02:13:34.260 you know but um going to like parties or clubs or whatever girls kind of just have to stand there 1.00

02:13:40.740 and guys will come up to them but for guys i've said this before guys they kind of have to grab their 0.99

02:13:46.500 fucking balls go and talk to a girl you know like or else nothing's gonna happen they stand there all 1.00

02:13:51.940 night nothing's gonna happen they gotta yeah they gotta do something about it you know 1.00

02:13:57.540 true yeah true it life as a woman is easier in terms of attracting partners i want to open

02:14:05.700 it up to the panel on what aileen aileen sorry aileen just said uh your thoughts

02:14:11.460 what'd she say i said um attracting one um attracting partners as a woman is easier than 0.99

02:14:22.020 100 i agree yeah okay basically a lot of people basically if i'll frame it as a question is dating

02:14:28.740 harder for men or women that's a totally like different like thing there yeah attracting partners

02:14:36.420 starting it versus like keeping it yeah like attracting a partner at a party dating is very

02:14:41.860 very hard especially here especially for women especially for women is it harder for men or women

02:14:47.380 for like men generally generally i think it's easier for men to date here because a lot of women 1.00

02:14:53.620 there's a lot of women here that want to see it's easier for so many couples yeah it's actually insane

02:14:59.700 it is i think it's easier for men to date women here because i feel like a lot of women there's

02:15:07.700 not even not a lot but like there's a good amount of women who are over this hookup culture and they 1.00

02:15:13.140 kind of just want a relationship but there's like almost every guy every attractive guy almost every

02:15:18.660 attractive guy is in the hookup culture so like the very few guys i want to date it's very easy for

02:15:25.140 them to get a girlfriend but girls i'd say not really well is that is that because i mean i kind

02:15:32.420 of disagree with your premise but is that because women are chasing after the top 10 or 20 percent of 1.00

02:15:37.380 men no no it's because like i said before at the beginning of the podcast by the way that's actually

02:15:41.060 not a question i want to reframe that that's a statement that is fact women are chasing after the 1.00

02:15:45.140 top 10 and 20 percent of men and disregarding all the rest go ahead i'm saying like these attractive

02:15:50.820 men yeah they have these options right they have no reason they have no they have no why would they

02:15:57.060 date when they have so many pretty girls exactly lined up for them yep they get to all of them and 1.00

02:16:02.980 body count doesn't matter matter for men apparently right if they get a high body count is which yeah 0.99

02:16:08.980 if they get a high body count then they get to brag about to their to their guy friends sure like oh

02:16:13.860 my god i fight this girl like sure it's a good thing for them yeah it being an attractive male is a good

02:16:18.900 thing for them yes they they don't want to date and girls want to date them because they're attractive 0.99

02:16:28.420 girls don't want to date on unattractive guys well part of that can you can sorry go ahead can can

02:16:35.940 you like can i agree with that like girls women girls like attractive guys yes i i don't it would

02:16:42.020 not necessarily 10 and 20 percent they're not like successful or anything we're all college kids

02:16:47.700 i'm saying like well yeah i mean most most but okay so yes when you're in college if you're between

02:16:52.900 the ages of 18 or 21 you're probably less interested in the guy's yeah financial status and financial

02:16:59.620 situation it's honestly just gonna be looks physical attractiveness yeah yeah so i think my thing is

02:17:06.340 though is that if you're you should only obviously if you're not attracted to a guy that's an issue

02:17:18.420 but my thing is is that do women have an unreasonable self-assessment of their own attractiveness 0.99

02:17:25.620 and also do women find the vast majority of men as unattractive and they've done these studies on these

02:17:31.860 dating apps where women are just swiping right and it's like they're either 10 of the guys on the 1.00

02:17:37.620 dating apps that they find attractive in person if you only find let's say we can go around the panel

02:17:42.660 really quick on this what percentage of men would you say you find attractive what percentage

02:17:49.060 like 30 30 men okay honestly for me at this point my brain has like figured it out and i'm like

02:18:00.820 attractive guys i know that they're not in it for the long run so i kind of just dig kind of low and

02:18:07.780 i like like a little bit unattractive but not it's like me but not like yeah yeah that's like the

02:18:13.460 trend i feel like i feel like a lot of women are getting on this wave but like they're not super

02:18:20.180 hideous but they're not like hot hot you know they're like the average joe you know they'll treat 0.91

02:18:26.900 you right but they're not gonna fucking play you you know so this is what a lot of women i think are 1.00

02:18:32.260 going for a happy medium you know like i'm i see hot guys i kind of just don't like it they're just too 0.99

02:18:39.460 hot like i know like they're just they're just fucking like bunnies so fair enough go ahead um 0.98

02:18:45.940 what was the question sorry one more time uh of of the men that you see on a day-to-day basis or you 0.99

02:18:51.780 see on dating apps what percentage of them would you say you find attractive i don't know i'm not

02:18:55.940 really looking when you're hypothetically you're not in before your boyfriend um i would say like not

02:19:04.500 like a super high amount percentage 10 20 percent attractive yeah the percentage of men that you

02:19:11.220 find attractive um 20 okay go ahead i'd say like 30 sure i'd say like 20 natasha probably saying like

02:19:21.860 20 20 okay fair enough fair enough so i don't even know where we were going with all that we this we're

02:19:29.780 gonna average it and put on an excel sheet yeah we're gonna we're gonna figure that out well this

02:19:34.980 was the super chat um and we kind of went all over the place with that but anyways we're gonna

02:19:41.940 continue with this yeah we already did that one that was just i was pulling it back up but we're

02:19:46.020 gonna move on devon jackson ten dollar super chat thank you man it's ridiculous to think who you've

02:19:50.420 allowed into your body has no effect on who you are as a person do you guys want to respond really

02:19:55.940 quickly to that i agree like it does affect who you are as a person but it doesn't affect it 100

02:20:02.580 it's not going to define who you are but it does affect a little bit just like everything else will

02:20:08.180 affect you all your friends will affect you your like childhood household will affect you everything's

02:20:13.460 gonna affect you but not 100 it's not gonna define you sure sure devon thank you for the ten

02:20:17.780 dollar super chat man uh wally would you date a cross-dresser um okay ten dollars and up just a reminder

02:20:24.340 uh jamis with the ten dollar soup chat put put natasha on with the girls from dating talk number 16

02:20:29.700 that's the one with minnesota girl by the way brian um i don't honestly i don't remember what the

02:20:35.860 panel was but um uh let's see yeah well maybe i i'll have to remember which girls those were but 1.00

02:20:45.780 thank you for the ten dollar soup chat man devon jackson with the big fifty dollar soup chat i'm

02:20:50.020 disappointed with the no clap backs ladies you got your opportunity i mean you kind of

02:20:55.540 clapped back a little bit but go spend your money on something else no don't listen to her

02:21:03.860 devon jackson your uh patronage is deeply appreciated on the whatever podcast my friend

02:21:09.780 anthony lopez with the ten dollar soup chat hypothetically described the best scenario for

02:21:14.260 meeting someone organically it could be a time of day location potentially a monogamous 0.99

02:21:19.380 uh relationship okay uh really quick just best place to meet someone uh i can't like think i

02:21:26.740 feel what's like a good place to meet someone and maybe like school like i mean like at a party like

02:21:33.060 people are going to parties and most of the time you know if they're like you know people are going 0.62

02:21:39.060 to parties with like most of the time to find like something to fuck that night so i feel like 0.84

02:21:45.540 school like people are there like for to get like an education so i feel like that's probably like

02:21:51.300 the best like you can just already get like a sense of a person there based on the fact that they're at

02:21:54.500 school sure okay um let's see uh aline um i i think like a good place would be like the library or

02:22:07.780 school or class but i don't think it happens enough because everyone's just like oh my gosh they're

02:22:12.980 studying i don't want to interrupt them like it's just too um it's too like academic you know it's

02:22:22.340 too everyone's all focused and listening to the teacher and everything it's just like

02:22:26.420 not a great time but i feel like a lot of people would appreciate it more wait lonnie don't don't hide

02:22:34.100 from the microphone i'm just like i'm tired we're gonna wrap soon um what was the question oh uh

02:22:40.900 like best scenario for meeting someone organically um honestly anywhere like if if you're just out

02:22:48.580 and you see someone you approach them i don't know in public anywhere yeah i mean i agree like i think

02:22:56.420 school is a good one especially if there's somebody in your class and like i know it's weird if it's

02:23:00.660 like an academic setting but like after class you already have something in common you might have

02:23:04.660 the same major like that's an easy one where you like already have something in common something to

02:23:09.380 talk about go ahead uh just like any social event if you're like talking and hanging out with your

02:23:15.380 friends like they're gonna bring their friends that you don't know i feel like that's a good place

02:23:20.500 i would say anywhere other than a party or a club i agree

02:23:23.700 oh i guess i can answer the question uh definitely not a bar club or party um i don't go to i don't

02:23:32.340 really drink much barely drink don't party don't go to bars don't go to clubs um and i don't think

02:23:38.820 you should what's that but you're starting a frat delta out of the kappa baby it's in the works 0.99

02:23:43.860 it's in the works you can be a honorary member okay yeah all right devon jackson with the 10 dollar

02:23:50.020 soup chat yes i do know where the money is going i get paid i'm not i'm not sure exactly what this is

02:23:55.300 in response to but uh because we were saying like he was the one who sent the 50 yeah we're like bro

02:24:00.660 like where like what are you doing with your money he devon jackson is a very where's mike davis by the

02:24:06.740 way um you should invite him on the show i have you know what he i wait no i mike davis yeah

02:24:13.620 yeah yeah he uh devon jackson on the show he's like he could potentially uh dm me devon jackson send

02:24:21.380 me a dm let's get you on okay uh wicket wicket one 1988 with the i believe this is check currency can

02:24:29.940 if you're still in chat can you um confirm if this is a check currency is it check crowns

02:24:38.580 i don't know um but hey thank you for the big 200 check crowns much appreciated tasha you are

02:24:42.820 awesome do you have a response to mr wicket one thank you mr wicket appreciate you thank you for

02:24:48.020 the big uh super chat i much appreciated nerd lonnie hey look at that's you what is that oh my god

02:24:55.700 that's someone i someone was quick on the terrible that is a terrible picture of me what do you mean

02:25:03.060 it looks looks good remove that my i'm smarter than i act and sound i promise that's canadian by the

02:25:09.780 the way so that might be is that like is that supposed to be me saying that because i am smarter

02:25:13.140 than i act and sound so thank you okay but guys did i just see on the screen are you have you been

02:25:23.540 enjoying chat lonnie or no no no they would not stop i feel like they are still bringing up harvey here

02:25:30.100 every once in a while okay by the way we do need more people to do these little funny things where you

02:25:36.980 like take a little clip from the podcast and pretend to be someone on the panel it's fun it's fun guys

02:25:42.340 yeah it's a terrible picture and we're gonna wrap up here pretty soon guys so if you want get your

02:25:45.780 last minute super chats in once again i will read answer super chats ten dollars and up uh so get them

02:25:52.660 in guys we're gonna wrap up here pretty soon um i'm trying to remember if we have one more video

02:25:57.860 can you go the video tab really quick just so i can see if uh okay we have um scroll up scroll up all

02:26:04.660 the way up all the way up uh wait no scroll up hold on um make wait

02:26:12.020 yeah yeah we'll do the girls approach guys one really cool 0.98

02:26:28.980 imagine if guys were hit on the same way that girls are hit on like imagine like you're a guy 0.99

02:26:42.180 at a at a bar and a girl comes up and it's just like damn bro 1.00

02:26:48.580 shit i saw your package from all the way across the bar god damn that bowl really 1.00

02:26:56.660 shit look at them arms them shits are vascular look at them babe i don't even wait is this a prank 1.00

02:27:02.420 can i buy you a drink shit dude i'm gonna treat you right i'm gonna treat you right let me cook for 1.00

02:27:08.580 you let me clean for you let me do your laundry bitch bring that ass over here 1.00

02:27:14.660 okay so that's um i guess that's a girl like trying to say oh imagine if 1.00

02:27:26.500 we went up to guys the horror right but in reality like the vast majority of men would be 0.66

02:27:33.780 fucking super for it because most men get absolutely no attention most men to most women are invisible

02:27:42.500 did someone spill by the way what happened there was a red bull yeah sorry um can we get some uh and 0.99

02:27:48.420 we'll clean it up after the show um so yeah most men are invisible it's eric it's all right we'll

02:27:55.460 get it after the show we'll do that after the show um so your guys's thoughts i want to ask have

02:28:03.140 any of you ever approached a guy yeah y'all yes okay tell us tell us about that i mean just like

02:28:14.100 it's not even like a one-time occurrence i mean closer towards you like i'm just gonna hug it like

02:28:19.620 at this yes hello um i mean it's not even like a one-time occurrence like i'm at a party and find

02:28:24.660 a guy attracted like i'm just gonna go up and start a conversation can you still not hear me

02:28:30.100 go ahead continue i'm listening i just i mean yeah i go up to guys at parties or whatever

02:28:38.500 i mean or i hit them up on social media like it's not that rare

02:28:44.820 so you've approached a guy at a party what do you say

02:28:49.460 no i like want to say i say hey but i watched one of the segments where you guys were like hating on

02:28:53.380 like the whole like thing of like saying like hey at first well that's not no that was for bumble oh 0.95

02:28:58.260 i mean yeah i just like go blank hey like where are you the classic where are you from like sorry

02:29:02.340 but i'm gonna use that okay let's role play i'm i'm the dude that you're hitting on at a party

02:29:07.460 okay we're at a party okay okay go ahead what i'm not an actress approach me oh like hey like

02:29:14.900 where are you from like it's just like that and then it's like that's your that's your opening line

02:29:18.660 it works every time she doesn't have to say anything else i mean like it's a girl it's easy for a guy like

02:29:24.340 like like guys don't have to guys they have to like come something like nice to say tilt the

02:29:30.740 microphone up a bit no guy like came up to me like in like in like and just like immediately started

02:29:39.060 like i don't know like praising me like over dramatically like i wouldn't like be all over

02:29:46.340 that if that makes sense so your opening line is hey where are you from yes if a guy came up to

02:29:52.980 you or the party was like hey where are you from i would respond that'd be okay yeah okay

02:29:58.660 go on you were saying something oh i was just saying how like it's a girl approaching a guy like

02:30:04.260 she doesn't have to say anything special she just has to say something but a guy he he has to say

02:30:09.860 something special like maybe like a one-liner or like something like commenting her yeah like that's

02:30:17.460 usually how how it's gonna go yeah um sorry what was the question no sorry uh so

02:30:30.020 have you ever like approached a guy and no honestly no okay go ahead i'm sure i have like in a party

02:30:37.940 scenario but i can't think of like a specific instance sure i haven't approached the guy but

02:30:44.260 i've approached girls i have approached a guy what was your uh opening line it's funny it happened so

02:30:53.780 fast i don't even remember what i said but it worked out well i mean i think it mostly works out well

02:31:00.740 like she was saying for girls it's always kind of easy i mean i don't approach guys but like to like in

02:31:07.300 like a romantic context but if i see something like that they're wearing i'm like usually i'm from

02:31:12.500 san diego so i if i see like like chargers or san diego padres i'm like oh my god are you from san

02:31:18.340 diego i don't say it because i want to hit on them i just saying it like oh my gosh like we might be

02:31:24.100 neighbors like it's not me trying to hit on them is that weird like i don't know i don't know maybe a

02:31:31.460 little bit maybe they probably think i'm hitting on them huh i mean i think that's actually

02:31:37.140 one reason women say that they don't like to compliment guys because then they'll think oh 1.00

02:31:42.500 the guys will think oh she's sitting oh my gosh me and chazelle we were like literally right before

02:31:46.980 this that some guy came up to us he's like is there any like bars or anything happening tonight

02:31:54.180 or anything going on we're like no we just thought he was like new and he was a tourist but then he was

02:31:58.820 like can i get your guys's number and then we finally realized that he was hitting on us we just

02:32:03.620 thought he was like did we he like didn't know where anything was like he was new like it just

02:32:10.740 happened so he's basically being indirect and i don't i don't know like i just we just didn't know

02:32:19.140 that he was hitting on us i just thought he was kind of weird sort of asking so i do want to go back

02:32:25.700 to the whole thing about because you guys push back a little bit on this and i appreciate it

02:32:31.860 that dating is is harder i don't know if you guys said dating is harder for women you kind of did sort

02:32:39.620 of ish yeah okay and you did everyone get an opportunity to respond to that i think natasha did

02:32:49.140 you give your take um i don't think i did um but i would say that dating is

02:32:57.540 i would say it's harder for men

02:33:01.220 i think obviously women have a lot more options 1.00

02:33:06.820 and that makes it easier for women to go out and find a guy 1.00

02:33:12.820 word i think dating is difficult for unattractive men

02:33:16.740 i mean sure the more attractive you are the better your prospects are but i i would actually

02:33:25.460 say that even it's even okay so let's talk just getting laid just getting laid an average woman can 1.00

02:33:36.100 outperform even like a top tier guy when it comes to getting laid yeah so there's already some

02:33:42.020 advantages there and also women don't really like some women initiate but like 1.00

02:33:47.940 i would say if you had to compare it a top tier male model looking guy is going to get initiated

02:33:54.260 upon at about the same level as like an average looking girl on dating apps

02:34:03.300 i feel like it's like easier for women to have more options but that doesn't mean it's easier for 1.00

02:34:09.060 them to like actually find a boyfriend i feel like more times like girl maybe i'm wrong but i feel

02:34:14.820 like more times girls want the relationship more than like a guy does so like if a girl has like so 1.00

02:34:21.700 many guys like hitting her up that doesn't mean like she can just pick one and they're gonna start 0.98

02:34:26.180 dating you know like i feel like it's harder for them to actually find a guy who's gonna want a

02:34:31.460 relationship and like for the guy i don't know you know like you're yeah i don't know why do you

02:34:39.140 think it's harder for women to find relationships because i feel like oftentimes like guys don't want

02:34:45.940 them yeah i agree it's like less common for a guy to be like seeking out the relationship 0.98

02:34:51.460 why don't men want relationships because there's a lot of times to be in multiple pussies like yeah 0.99

02:35:00.260 because men say it with your chest i will say that with my chest like men do not want relationships 1.00

02:35:06.020 because they literally want to fuck multiple people at once like because one girl is just never good 1.00

02:35:10.020 enough for them especially even married men one girl is not enough men want variety yeah especially at a 0.99

02:35:17.780 young age men men they can fuck like a lot but like especially when they grow older they can still 0.99

02:35:25.540 fuck a lot but women as they grow older they want a relationship they want a family men they they 1.00

02:35:31.220 men want men want kids and family but i feel like then they cheat on the girl that they have the kids 1.00

02:35:35.780 with usually yeah exactly women actually women have to carry the children women carry the children 1.00

02:35:40.740 men spread their seed what's that women actually cheat more than men women cheat more than men 0.95

02:35:46.900 we're just better and y'all cheat for more fucked up reasons like guys will cheat just because they're 1.00

02:35:52.260 horny but they could still love when a girl cheats like that shit is so like deeply rooted like you 0.99

02:35:58.900 have like it's the men's fucking up like i don't know like guys like they could have like the perfect 1.00

02:36:03.140 girl and they're just like accountability go ahead continue what am i supposed to be taking account 0.96

02:36:07.380 warrior well i'm just saying go ahead continue continue i'll respond um like in like relationships

02:36:13.140 like when like a girl cheats it's usually for like love and affection and when like a guy cheats it's 0.98

02:36:18.980 usually simply just for like you said like a variety of pussy but like it's just so much like 0.98

02:36:24.660 women cheat for such like a deeper reason i feel like and then like for men it's just like a surface 0.99

02:36:29.700 level yeah see a man can cheat on you and still be in love with his girl but for a woman to cheat 1.00

02:36:36.260 yeah huh i think i think like you can like you can cheat and still like love the guy she's with

02:36:42.420 i think cheating in general is not loving the other person yeah if you love if you genuinely love them

02:36:47.300 you wouldn't cheat on them now i'm not recommending people cheat but what i'm saying is is that a man

02:36:53.620 it can just be it's just need to get off like you can there could be no why don't you go to your

02:36:59.860 girlfriend i mean in a long distance in a long distance thing like you know like that makes

02:37:05.540 sense right i think exhibit a over here but but like if you're like bro like if you're like five 0.99

02:37:13.380 minutes away from your girlfriend and you're still like fucking another bitch like what like 1.00

02:37:16.980 just like i don't even know like that should just not make sense to me 1.00

02:37:20.580 so i don't necessarily agree with this but some men will say that the best 0.99

02:37:24.580 pussy is new pussy i don't agree with that because i'm a gentleman i'm a man of god i am 1.00

02:37:31.140 a man of god but but that is a thing but 1.00

02:37:38.180 you know the thing is is also what's really interesting is why is it why is it that women 1.00

02:37:44.580 push so hard and i know this isn't all relationships are different but but what's that i'm like awake

02:37:50.820 now you're awake here drink some more of the red bull i brought that out by the way i mean we're

02:37:57.140 gonna anyway so where where was i uh something about men being dumb something about cheating or

02:38:05.860 something what you my teeth oh your nails you can't are your nails too long uh they're grown out yeah okay 0.97

02:38:13.140 so why is it that women push so hard so desperately want commitment from a man want monogamy and yet

02:38:22.820 you often hear like also women complaining don't do that you also hear women complaining when they're 0.98

02:38:28.980 in relationships he's always up on me he always wants to fuck like so like and i i know that's not 0.98

02:38:35.780 the case for all women some women are just always down but i hear this complaint sometimes from women he 0.99

02:38:40.980 always wants to fuck well news flash well okay but there's you definitely hear this in marriages 0.99

02:38:49.220 that it's the woman that's like i guess the dead bedroom is on the woman's side yeah marriages it 0.99

02:38:55.620 gets long old and like but but you wanted the commitment you wanted the ring so you're the one

02:39:02.740 who's you want monogamy that's why i'm scared of marriage like like i'm like i have to pick someone

02:39:07.780 that i'm gonna be in love with like forever i'm gonna be totally excited to do things with

02:39:11.620 them forever like if you're not gonna be like that then that's not marriage worthy for me

02:39:17.060 you know but i think for women i like why they want commitment so much more than men is because 0.99

02:39:26.740 they have so many offers from men to fuck like women just want stability yeah so like if like women if 1.00

02:39:34.740 they wanted to fuck they could but that's easy for them they want something that's that's 1.00

02:39:39.940 challenging that's growing them that's intimacy that's pushing them they want intimacy they want 0.99

02:39:44.180 closeness they want um like just a partner and like men crave that too but they just happen to

02:39:51.940 crave it from multiple women they crave something that they don't have everyone craves something they

02:39:57.380 don't have and i do think like there is definitely some conversations about like men are only as

02:40:02.580 faith faithful as their options but i actually i kind of disagree with that i do there's a saying

02:40:07.940 that goes men are only as faithful as their options so if a man has a lot of options he's not going to

02:40:13.300 be faithful oh okay yeah so i mean my my take is is i do genuinely think men can be monogamous and

02:40:22.820 there are plenty of men out there that can be monogamous just so but it happens to be the case if

02:40:27.540 you're chasing after very high status men or very attractive men because they have so many options

02:40:33.940 and also it's just like a lot i'm gonna be i'm gonna be up front a lot of women are not bringing 1.00

02:40:40.180 anything to the table besides sex they're not adding value to his life besides just sex and for a lot of

02:40:46.820 guys that a lot of men that's all they want right but for like the guys you're probably chasing after 1.00

02:40:53.780 you're going to have to provide some value besides just your pussy besides just sex because like i 1.00

02:40:59.220 said before if pussies all you offer pussies all i want so the top tier guys are going to be thinking 1.00

02:41:04.660 like that so i mean but just to bring it back to the cheating thing a man can fuck a girl 1.00

02:41:13.220 cheat and still love his his girlfriend his wife but if a woman cheats how is it different yeah how's 0.99

02:41:22.980 it different why is it well just like she said women will cheat for like emotional reasons yeah 1.00

02:41:27.460 so it's like i mean so men can't cheat for emotional reasons well women for women and for most women to

02:41:34.900 want to sleep with someone i trust me i know there's there's girls out there with 100 body count 1.00

02:41:38.820 they're just running through dudes they're super they're totally into casual sex hey that's fine 0.93

02:41:43.220 whatever do your thing but some women some women certainly can detach emotion from sex but for a lot 1.00

02:41:50.420 of women for them to be interested in a guy and to sleep with a guy there's going to be some component 1.00

02:41:55.700 of i potentially see something there with him there's like an emotional thing sorry go ahead

02:42:01.940 that was like the best point you made all night well thank you for the endorsement no a lani did i say

02:42:07.460 right fuck we'll have to practice we'll get you back on next time i'll get you i'll get it i'll get it 0.95

02:42:12.340 right um so did anyone want to come in on the this whole thing the cheating thing natasha anybody i still 0.99

02:42:20.100 think if you cheat you just don't love your partner i mean like if a girl cheats on a guy

02:42:25.140 she doesn't love him if a guy cheats on a girl he doesn't love her like like whether it's emotional

02:42:30.340 it's like emotional or physical like if a guy just don't because of the physical reasons then that kind

02:42:37.300 of just shows that like his girlfriend just simply was not enough for him and that's not loving her

02:42:43.300 loving is is giving everything and loyalty loyalty and respect having everything between

02:42:53.620 yourselves like it doesn't extend outside of that i loved every girlfriend i cheated on

02:43:00.020 like if you were to ask most men that if their girlfriend was okay if the real if she was still

02:43:26.100 loyal to him but if his girlfriend was okay with him sleeping with other women and there would be

02:43:31.300 no repercussions and nothing at all that's an open relationship that's not but but would most men

02:43:38.420 would most men desire that that your main chick is okay with you sleeping with other women but she's 1.00

02:43:46.340 still loyal to you i think most men if you ask them would be okay i agree with that i agree but if

02:43:53.700 you're looking if you're looking for the best top tier men they're not going to do that well actually

02:44:00.820 they're more likely to do that no i'm not i'm not saying like social status like good men yeah

02:44:07.460 sure yes okay they're not going to do that yeah but i'm not i'm not saying like adam levine type men

02:44:12.980 right i'm speaking like men with a lot of status men who are wealthier the top tier men in terms of

02:44:17.700 looks i'm talking about good men men who want real men who want relationships men who want like

02:44:26.020 commitment and a family and just like a strong household you know they're not going to do that

02:44:34.420 i want to go this maybe one more one or two more questions do any of you have a celebrity crush

02:44:41.140 so either an actor or musician or athlete just a guy who you think is super attractive that's notable

02:44:47.140 anakin skywalker what what's the actor's name kristen haydenson okay he's a bit older than that

02:44:58.820 that was like 20 years ago i've had a crush on him since i was a kid okay so wait okay so christian

02:45:06.900 haydenson or whatever do you have a celebrity crush or anything not that i can think of maybe i need like

02:45:11.860 30 seconds um growing up my celebrity crush was nick jonas oh yeah me too i literally had

02:45:19.540 like the jones brothers all me too yeah hayden christensen he's 41 years old by the way go ahead

02:45:28.660 young hayden christians okay any celebrity crush or anything i would say jack harlow and for the

02:45:34.180 longest time i didn't see the hype and i don't think he's necessary okay aline i don't think he's

02:45:39.460 necessarily like the most physically attractive but he's just so charismatic and appealing in that

02:45:45.460 way sure did you come up with one or um hi sweetie oh yeah clay thompson clay thompson is that a

02:45:57.060 football oh basketball player yeah okay over here megan fox probably oh she's a babe for sure i'd 1.00

02:46:06.420 probably say like young leonardo dicaprio oh yes definitely definitely babes down this okay young

02:46:15.220 ryan i mean we should have those by king i think the panel should get the buttons too like so we can do

02:46:21.700 that next show i'll get you a i'll get you a stream deck yeah well i mean the beach have you get what

02:46:27.140 was that movie was it the beach with leo leo the beach huh i haven't heard of that one is that oh i

02:46:33.860 think i know what you're talking about the one where he's like in thailand and there there's like

02:46:37.620 he goes to this island kofifi i think anyways um in chat is it called the beach the film the you guys

02:46:45.620 know what i'm talking about anyways um so think of your celebrity crush would you be willing to

02:46:54.180 share him with other women but you're the main chick 1.00

02:46:59.380 clay thompson

02:47:03.300 you're the main chick but you have to share him no i just like wouldn't even do that

02:47:08.980 nba very famous nba player tall taller than your current i'll stick to my inconsistent

02:47:15.060 six five baseball player thank you is he is he a white boy yeah he's strawberry blonde he's almost

02:47:22.500 ginger okay go ahead um no you would not share hayden young hayden christensen no i don't care okay

02:47:31.860 i said i don't care about status or fame like if they're not gonna like sure the whole thing yeah i

02:47:36.340 would not share either no no i would you would so you would share young leonardo dicaprio for a

02:47:45.860 chance with leonardo dicaprio yes yeah and young leonardo drop you when you're 25 oh yeah we should

02:47:52.100 pull that up that's true but i'd be living well until then yeah nice yacht a little party yes yeah okay

02:47:59.140 and i mean if i mean you can use him for his yacht from what i've heard of uh young leonardo dicaprio

02:48:04.740 i mean even current leonardo dicaprio he got he got around definitely got around so yeah so i want to

02:48:16.820 open it up last thing guys um what yeah okay i want to open it up to you guys final thought or

02:48:29.300 question either for if you want to ask the panel you want to ask me something natasha we'll start with you

02:48:35.700 um final thought or question

02:48:40.500 i'm surprised i feel like we all have like a lot of the same opinions on things i think

02:48:44.820 none of us like hookup culture none of us like guys who cheat necessarily um

02:48:51.300 so yeah i think we can skip me until i maybe think of something yeah i don't have anything

02:48:57.140 i have nothing yeah i don't have anything no okay nothing don't who was the one who wanted to dump

02:49:05.620 more trauma was that you okay one segment that you did that i watched like pull the microphone

02:49:11.620 closer towards you a while ago was like you asked i really liked listening to the people's

02:49:15.300 answer it was like you asked if a relationship should be equal partnership sure i like that

02:49:20.180 question you should go ask the panel that okay we'll do that so what's your answer oh i have to go

02:49:25.620 first um so i think it was like talked about like if it was like should be 50 50 and i think when like

02:49:32.100 you're like considering like an equal partnership in a relationship you have to like consider like

02:49:36.260 outside factors and not everyone is capable of the same amount of effort you are and like

02:49:40.740 i would be okay if in like a 60 40 relationship like i'm giving 60 and they're giving 40 if that's

02:49:46.580 all they're capable of doing as long as it's like you know it's like as much like effort as

02:49:50.580 they can put and like their best foot is being put forward and then like i mean like i don't know

02:49:55.620 if that's considered like equal partnership but i think that like you have to just consider like

02:49:59.220 like the outside factors that like affect how much effort someone is able to put in

02:50:05.060 what's the percentage split on your current relationship 70 30 70 30 i had to do that you're

02:50:12.100 doing 70 and he's doing 30. i would say that i mean it's not no okay it's not even like that

02:50:17.300 because like i'm like someone who like matches energy to a t so like whatever like i want to put

02:50:23.460 in like 100 million 10 percent but like i'm not going to do that because i'm literally just going

02:50:28.740 to match whatever he does so it's not even that it's like honestly like i would say it's like 55 45

02:50:34.820 like i don't even know it's just like i'm just going to match whatever however he acts so yeah

02:50:41.540 okay do you believe in 50 50 relationships yeah but i personally like when the guy puts more effort

02:50:48.420 because it's just more romantic and it's just it feels like he's providing and i'm like

02:50:58.740 and i feel like the woman is like you know giving being there for like emotional support 0.92

02:51:06.260 whatnot and like the guy provides material comfort and like it's just more strong that way i feel like

02:51:16.500 um yeah i think 50 50 is a good like relationship dynamic i think if you're going to be in a relationship

02:51:23.380 then you guys are both you know a team and helping each other out so i think it should be 50 50.

02:51:32.980 yeah i would second everything she just said i think it should be 50 50.

02:51:38.020 yeah i agree like as long as you're giving 100 of your effort or whatever you can give to your

02:51:42.100 partner then it's 50 50. i think it's hard for relationships to be 50 50 especially if the man is

02:51:49.860 like the provider in a family because he's obviously going out and exerting more work into the world

02:51:56.420 he's you know getting money getting you know working and stuff um but i think the woman also serves a 1.00

02:52:07.380 really important role in the relationship so i think like being like a housewife and like taking care of

02:52:14.180 children is really really important to their relationship as well and it puts a lot of like

02:52:19.380 help in into the relationship you're putting a lot of effort by staying at home and taking care

02:52:23.300 of children it's it's a really big role and it's super time consuming exhausting and i think that

02:52:30.660 that is pretty much 50 50. yeah you're staying home taking care of the kids and the man uh provides

02:52:36.740 money and that's pretty much 50 50 and i think that's i know but how can you do like 50 50 in like

02:52:40.980 a relationship at like 18 19 though because like that's like a that's like years away like that's

02:52:46.580 actually it might be the best time to do 50 50 is when you're young because when you start getting

02:52:53.940 older and then finances come into the picture yeah that's true then that's when it gets yeah when you're

02:52:58.500 very complicated you're just you're just hanging out like you nobody's really like yeah like paying for

02:53:04.660 other people's stuff like nobody's putting food on the table like you're not living together

02:53:08.820 it's more of like you're just dating and surviving and it's light and it's fun yeah yeah i mean and

02:53:17.460 also there's been a lot of comments in the chat saying a hundred a hundred i think that's a good

02:53:22.340 attitude to have towards this both people need to be like a hundred percent a hundred percent but like

02:53:26.420 people's hundred percent look different and you just have to like know your person and know yeah

02:53:30.180 like yeah that's true 100 looks like because my hundred percent can look a lot different from like

02:53:35.700 what's your hundred percent a lot but i never like it's i never i feel like i never get to show my

02:53:42.580 100 ever because like i said i'm such like a match energy i just want to like back up and just like

02:53:48.660 i'm such like a match energy like when it comes to like relationships and i haven't like had a guy

02:53:52.820 who's like shown like so much effort that it like it wouldn't like feel invalidating to do like all the

02:53:57.780 things that i do want to do for him if that makes any sense yeah well you're i think you are dating

02:54:05.700 younger guys and yeah but i like yeah i don't like to see myself like dating anyone older i'm like

02:54:11.540 i'm not that's not what i'm suggesting but i just when you're younger i think people are still kind of

02:54:15.700 working out how to like a lot of people haven't even had like a long-term relationship so it's like

02:54:21.220 you know they don't really know how to maneuver correctly it's like so true like i feel like all like

02:54:26.260 girls agree with this like because this is always said like when you get out of a relationship like

02:54:30.180 he doesn't know what he wants like that's like like so like true like i feel like they just don't

02:54:35.700 know what they want like i don't know word word well so i guess my question is so a lot of you said

02:54:43.460 like 50 50 relationships but all of you said like for the paying for the first date thing that

02:54:50.340 essentially the guy should pay you y'all said whoever asks our biggest thing is like there's

02:54:57.700 a difference between like going on a first date versus like a relationship yeah exactly that's

02:55:02.260 like two but but what precedes a relationship there's the initial dating stage like the day

02:55:08.660 that you asked me to be your girlfriend we're in a relationship like that's the date like that day like

02:55:13.060 like now we're but what precedes a relationship is the dating stage so you're saying i don't want

02:55:21.780 to do 50 50 during the well i mean just the first i feel like the first date is just like that's just

02:55:27.780 like a huge deciding factor the day after i mean i mean i really don't mind like paying for guys like

02:55:33.540 that's not like a huge deal i mean the first one like it'd be nice but i mean if we split the bill

02:55:37.460 whatever i mean yeah i would probably like agree like i probably wouldn't be like 100 motivated to

02:55:43.860 like keep something going with you um but i mean i mean like it's just like the first date is just

02:55:51.540 like the huge deciding factor i'm like yeah the guy should probably pay and then like whatever

02:55:54.820 proceeds after that then it's kind of like a mix-up like it's just a toss-up on whether who pays then

02:55:59.620 yeah i mean i don't know the whole thing with like the 50 50 relationship thing

02:56:03.460 like maybe when you finally get to the relationship but everything building up to it

02:56:10.420 yeah i i want to say it's like 90 10 men well i feel like if like let's say a guy asks you on a

02:56:16.500 date you're gonna expect him to pay because he asked you but if you guys had like a really good time

02:56:20.660 and at the end you're like oh yeah we should hang out again then there i don't think there's a problem

02:56:25.620 with the girl paying next time like well i wouldn't expect the guy to pay if i was like wanting to go on

02:56:31.780 a second date then i'd have like no problem paying would you offer yeah because it's not

02:56:38.340 usually a given that even if you go on a second date that i would offer fair enough so i guess

02:56:43.700 my question is so you know men are typically expected to court women approach women ask them

02:56:49.460 out on dates maybe pick them up pay for dates make the first move etc what are women expected to do 1.00

02:56:56.580 to build a relationship so i'm talking about that initial stage what are women expected to do 1.00

02:57:04.820 wait so are are we are we saying that like

02:57:10.980 are we saying that like we know this man wants a relationship right and he wants to see or he wants

02:57:18.020 to see if you're worthy of relationship or what like he takes you on a date no he's like so like when

02:57:24.340 you're like let's say like the first date like usually on a first date like a guy picks you up

02:57:27.940 like he takes you there and he's like expected to pay but like what are like you expected to do kind

02:57:32.020 of like in these like dating like you're just be yourself conversation be yourself like like

02:57:40.020 but okay so here's the process here's the process for a guy are you expected to to impress him do you

02:57:46.180 want to do a party trick i don't know i feel like that like goes back to like this is like just like

02:57:50.820 the the way that like traditional dating has like faded out it's like now we have to make it like

02:57:56.260 unnormal for like a guy to like do the things that they like did before which like what were the

02:58:02.340 what were the things women did before exactly i don't know i mean see but you you said you were 1.00

02:58:08.820 you said you were desirous of traditional courtship correct yeah okay and do you know what

02:58:13.940 that looks like from a guy's end what do you mean okay so asking you out taking initiative

02:58:22.020 planning the date wednesday 7 p.m i'm taking you here uh maybe picking you up leading on the date so i

02:58:31.700 however that looks paying for the date et cetera et cetera and then initiating from there maybe going

02:58:37.220 going for the first kiss you know maybe this occurs on the second or third date escalating things forward

02:58:42.500 sexually so if those are the male the men's traditional roles what were the women's

02:58:50.660 traditional roles i don't even know that's actually a hard question i don't even know like it's like

02:58:56.820 i feel like in the beginning stages of dating like there's not a lot like a girl can do just besides

02:59:02.500 like i mean really just like show up i mean i mean until like things progress and you can like feel

02:59:08.340 like you can like kind of like give more into the relationship like you know like buying things

02:59:12.900 and stuff but you're not comfortable doing that at first and like i mean it all like depends on like

02:59:16.580 also like i'm a huge like believer in like love languages and it's just like you can't like really

02:59:21.140 like express like your love languages until you're in a more like progressed relationship

02:59:26.580 so i guess my question is what do you bring to the table or are you the table

02:59:33.700 okay i don't know i mean i never like thought like yeah because i mean like when i think of

02:59:40.420 like traditional dating i'm obviously just thinking of like what i expect from a guy i'm not thinking of

02:59:43.940 what i expect for myself and that yeah so what if you were in a if you were dating a traditional guy

02:59:50.660 in what ways would you be traditional i mean would you listen to what he says would you let him lead

02:59:56.180 other dudes okay yeah like listen to him let him lead like yeah that's like one way is just like

03:00:01.380 listening and like respecting like the conversations he has or like just like yeah i mean like listening

03:00:05.700 i mean there's just not a lot like you can do to like leave like a huge first impression besides

03:00:09.860 like what she said like being yourself sure like it's just like i mean until the relationship

03:00:14.260 progresses there's just not a lot of things like a girl can do to show her appreciation it's not 0.92

03:00:17.860 that she's not until further and you said it's the initial stage the big one is fidelity

03:00:22.820 the big one is fidelity well even if you're not like even well you're not well you're not dating yet

03:00:28.580 right so you expect that girl to be loyal to you before on the first date that okay so as a guy

03:00:34.500 that is probably the most attractive thing a girl could do but it's not saying i'm not seeing other

03:00:40.740 guys right now i'm just talking to you that is probably the most attractive thing a girl could do 1.00

03:00:45.620 or say i can guarantee you that on a third but i mean on the first day i'm still feeling it out and

03:00:53.060 then i mean so you're not a traditional woman well what i mean when you're most of the time when 0.71

03:00:59.940 people are dating like when you're in like dating like you're usually like you're feeling out like

03:01:05.060 different situations and then like you usually like pick one and then like commit to that and then i'm

03:01:09.860 like done like everyone else is cut off and then it's only you yeah you're not a traditional woman 0.93

03:01:15.220 if you are entertaining if you're entertaining multiple options

03:01:18.500 then you're not adhering to your traditional gender roles which is fidelity

03:01:25.380 brian can i say go ahead like what you said you can disagree i know so i have an

03:01:30.980 like an example like i told a guy like that i wasn't dating i'm not seeing other guys eric and

03:01:38.740 are you seeing other girls and he's like yeah i'm seeing other girls i don't expect you to see other

03:01:44.980 guys yeah and he wanted he and then i and i got all like kind of like riled up about it and he was

03:01:50.980 like i don't know why you're mad we're not dating yet so i don't know what kind of guys you're talking

03:01:57.380 about but i think well he wanted to date me and then he got all like startled because i went up went

03:02:04.180 off about him about how i expected all of this you know and then he was just like i wanted to date you

03:02:13.300 and now i don't because because you're you're all like crazy about how all like you expect me to

03:02:22.900 completely just yeah to be loyal when we're not dating and you're saying how

03:02:29.700 guys like it when women are loyal before they're dating well i don't think that's true yeah i think both 1.00

03:02:36.980 of them i think the guy wait you think guys would be upset if you're like by the way i'm not sleeping

03:02:44.260 with anybody else i'm only sleeping with you or i'm only talking to you but this is like before you're 0.69

03:02:49.220 sleeping with them like that's the whole point like if it's like a first like i'm just like

03:02:52.820 talking about like the first day like by the second or third day like if i'm going to continue

03:02:56.020 to see you most i don't know why i like want to move away from the bike so bad like if i'm like

03:03:00.420 continuing to see you most of the time like yeah i'm gonna cut off everyone else because if i go on a second or a third

03:03:04.900 date with you like my interest has peaked in just you like i'm not going on dates with multiple guys

03:03:10.740 but like just like for that we're talking about like before the first date like you're expecting

03:03:15.300 us to like not talk to any other dudes no i so okay i'm i realize we're in 2022 and

03:03:22.740 it's not that i have an expectation i'm not like it would just be nice she went on a date last week

03:03:28.420 like it's a deal breaker no yeah but like is it something that would i me i would find incredibly

03:03:34.660 attractive yes but i feel like men like the chase but i also feel i don't like the chase

03:03:41.540 i want a girl who's just up front who's like brian i like you let's cut through the

03:03:45.700 bullshit i'm about the game that is new even if a guy doesn't like the chase he's he if i said 0.93

03:03:53.140 like within like the first three days i'm not seeing anyone i'm just seeing you and he'd be 0.99

03:03:57.940 like what the fuck this is attached to me she's kind of crazy like she's like obsessed or some 1.00

03:04:03.780 shit so i'm like now i gotta drop all my hoes for her men this is how you fidelity men value 1.00

03:04:10.420 purity i know but they're gonna think you're psycho because no women do that i mean if you're 1.00

03:04:14.980 no if a girl just says hey just letting you if you're like not weird there would have to be other

03:04:19.780 indicators of you being like needy or clingy for the guy to actually think that i feel like it's just

03:04:24.420 different at like i don't know your age like i didn't want to like say it like that but no there's

03:04:31.060 no guy who's like gee i really wish the girl that i'm i'm talking to right now is like 0.83

03:04:35.940 fucking a couple other dudes that really like that there's no guys that are thinking that you know 0.88

03:04:39.940 what about the guy do you like do you expect when the do you expect yourself to be like loyal 0.99

03:04:45.140 within the first few dates it's not it's not an expectation it's just no no you do you are you

03:04:52.340 loyal within the first few dates i'm so busy i'm i'm not like i'm not like how a lot of girls are

03:04:58.580 out here dating like five guys in a week okay how about if i'm about your buddies your friends

03:05:04.180 like who aren't as busy and they probably get hella busy i have okay my buddy chase who i don't know if 0.87

03:05:09.460 he's in the chat he's a conservative christian guy who's waiting till marriage to have sex

03:05:14.900 so he's not moving like that but i mean i is that your one friend you know what actually you know

03:05:21.540 i i'm a very lonely i'm a recluse i have no friends but um

03:05:26.660 i feel like the question like to like kind of like settle our point is like let's say you're single

03:05:32.100 right now don't like even like put your just picture yourself as a man like don't even picture

03:05:36.020 yourself like all how you're busy and stuff like you are single so you're just kind of like filling

03:05:41.140 out a few girls and like one of the girls asked you out on a date are you going to cut off all

03:05:45.220 those other girls you're talking to because you got asked out on a date she asked what do you mean 0.98

03:05:48.500 she asked me on them well this is a very rare scenario no but that's what i'm saying but you're

03:05:52.740 already assuming that the status quo is that either the girl or the guy is already seeing multiple

03:06:00.100 people i'm not like one i'm a okay so i can speak about me personally i'm so busy i don't have

03:06:08.580 really i don't really have time to date like i'm running this business like it's keeping me super

03:06:13.300 busy so i'm really only dating like if i'm gonna go on a date with the girl i'm probably not seeing

03:06:20.660 anybody else okay well like i'm not and also i'm not interested in just running harder for you so i'm

03:06:27.780 not interested in just running through a bunch of chicks and then also like to me i'm because

03:06:33.060 i don't get it that's weird if you're just gonna sleep with someone one time i think that's weird

03:06:36.820 i want to hookups yeah yeah if if i have sex with someone i want to pursue that for potential long

03:06:42.260 term yeah maybe that's not there but i'm gonna continue seeing them for sure a girl has for me at

03:06:47.300 least a girl for me to sleep with a girl and then not want to see her again she has to majorly 1.00

03:06:52.020 fuck up in some way yeah majorly fuck up yeah so i mean there's a there's a bit i wanted to uh 0.96

03:06:59.540 something about the hooking up and fidelity thing i forgot but what's up when are we gonna wrap up 0.98

03:07:06.420 pretty soon pretty soon um yeah i just have to do some super chats but did anyone want to come in on

03:07:12.740 this no move on next okay so man there's a bit that i wanted to uh hit but i totally forgot um

03:07:23.860 okay so we are going to do some super chats and then get your super chats in if you want and then

03:07:30.740 we're gonna wrap up okay uh i think this is where we left off devon jackson thank you the ten dollar

03:07:37.300 soup chat i'm in new jersey lol i will only come out for a chargers game but it's a hard maybe

03:07:42.580 oh because they were talking about like you putting them on uh killoo

03:07:47.460 kaluminati shakur okay tupac what's up ten dollar soup chat i just want the fact to remain that body

03:07:53.460 count does matter and the ladies proved it by an action to prove it doesn't when they had the 1.00

03:07:58.740 chance to spill theirs that hurts my brain a little bit but um but i mean you know kaluminati shakur

03:08:10.260 most of the women here did say that they thought body count matters so i've already said my body

03:08:14.900 count on the other one was it three four four no you said three i said four you said three i'm pretty

03:08:21.780 sure i said four go look back you sure yeah okay guys and chat do a little investigation has it has

03:08:29.220 it increased since last time no okay all right uh jesse paul can any of the girls touch both their

03:08:38.180 elbows together um i think i think that's directed towards lonnie 100 but not even ten dollars oh so

03:08:45.060 you need a ten dollar soup chat for the saying like there was no not even ten dollars that one

03:08:49.140 should have been read out loud okay lonnie is now the co-host of the show by the way um yusuf hijazi

03:08:57.300 wait is this one of those meme names okay ten dollar soup chat thank you man much appreciated

03:09:02.820 el mayo she just said dating is harder for unattractive men and no one went over 30

03:09:07.860 when asked what amount of men were attractive i'm confused why it's even a question with who's got

03:09:12.420 it harder okay that kind of goes back to the the uh that do you guys have a response to this or

03:09:19.140 okay we got devon jackson with the ten dollar soup chat a man cheats for the same reason you eat a

03:09:23.940 different meal every day yeah i mean for men it's just like for us it's just like

03:09:27.780 why is that kind of funny yeah for us it's just like food it's just like

03:09:36.580 we can you can still love your girl and hook up you're gonna cheat on your wife no not me 1.00

03:09:45.700 not me why are you saying that just adam levine not me you're not adam levine i'm not adam 0.82

03:09:51.380 oh jesus don't get don't say that like just a little oh my god okay and i think that is it for

03:10:00.660 the super chats okay so i there's something i really wanted to respond to about like the hook

03:10:06.100 up fidelity thing about the like what were we talking about before that was it the 50 50 thing or was it

03:10:12.020 yeah so it's my bedtime relax relax almost done almost done okay um study for a psych test

03:10:20.340 yeah she has to study it's i nerd learning whatever i forgot it anyways um so i did open it up for

03:10:27.460 final thoughts but it sounded like you guys did not have anything else so what we're going to do now is

03:10:34.260 is i'm gonna say goodbye to the viewers so guys uh we're gonna wrap up thank you for tuning in

03:10:39.700 tonight you could have been doing anything else but you're here with me i appreciate that

03:10:44.260 we will be live again thursday at 7 p.m pacific and then we are also going to be doing a show

03:10:51.460 sunday at 7 p.m pacific normally we're not doing the dating talks on sunday i want to give a big

03:10:57.700 thanks to the lovely panel thank you guys you guys were great thank you guys for watching

03:11:02.260 watching and uh we will see you guys next time see you guys have a good night

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Whatever Podcast - February 02, 2023

Dating Talk #19

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