Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #3

00:00:00.000 Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, coming to you live from Isla Vista, Santa Barbara, California.

00:00:07.660 I'm your host, Brian Atlas. It's Brian with an X. The X is silent.

00:00:12.400 You don't pronounce it.

00:00:13.880 Brixen.

00:00:14.400 Brixen, yes. I'm joined by my co-host, Kiki.

00:00:17.360 I know you guys have been wondering what's the relationship status between me and her.

00:00:22.400 It's strictly business.

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00:00:32.680 This is the Dating Talk podcast where we talk about dating, debauchery, and relationships.

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00:02:41.020 Without further ado, let's get right into it.

00:02:44.180 We're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:02:46.520 So, please tell us your name, age, occupation, or if you're in school, your major, and relationship

00:02:53.720 status.

00:02:54.840 And we're going to start with Kylie.

00:02:57.280 So, as he said, I'm Kylie.

00:03:00.100 I'm 19.

00:03:01.840 I am a student at UCSB.

00:03:03.620 And I'm also an Apex Legends content creator and streamer.

00:03:08.500 And my OnlyFans is plugged down below.

00:03:11.080 So, if you want to help me pay my rent, I would very much appreciate it.

00:03:15.620 What kind of stuff do you post on your OnlyFans?

00:03:18.400 I mean, some people do cooking on there, so.

00:03:22.600 Yeah, well, it depends what you're into.

00:03:26.580 I do all sorts of stuff.

00:03:28.660 People have paid me to play Apex with them.

00:03:31.720 So, if you want to get carried, just pay me 20 bucks and I'll get you a couple dubs.

00:03:36.580 Okay.

00:03:37.280 How much, just out of curiosity, so, how long have you been doing OnlyFans?

00:03:42.080 Since September of last year.

00:03:45.200 So, almost a year.

00:03:46.080 So, almost a year.

00:03:47.040 Yeah.

00:03:47.600 Do you want to know, like, the total amount that I've made?

00:03:50.580 Like, is that what you're asking?

00:03:51.020 Oh, your earnings?

00:03:51.560 Yeah, sure.

00:03:53.260 I think, like, 25,000?

00:03:57.000 Oh, my God.

00:03:57.520 25,000?

00:03:58.340 Around there.

00:03:59.440 But, like, I don't really promote it that much, which is why it's so surprising that it's,

00:04:02.520 like, decently successful, because I posted it, like, once or twice.

00:04:06.700 And now I can pay my rent.

00:04:08.920 And do you do solo stuff, or do you have, like, a partner?

00:04:12.620 Or is that, that's to find out?

00:04:14.380 Well, that was my final answer.

00:04:15.140 Recently, I've been doing some partner content since I just got into a relationship recently.

00:04:19.240 So, shout out to him.

00:04:20.920 Love you, bro.

00:04:22.320 Thank you for understanding the OnlyFans.

00:04:25.320 Wait, so you have a partner, but you...

00:04:28.160 Yeah, he's completely fine with it.

00:04:30.060 Like, I'm just super open about it.

00:04:32.140 And we, like, discussed it.

00:04:33.520 That was one of the things that I had to talk to him about, because I know a lot of guys

00:04:36.900 are like, oh, I would never, like, I would never date a girl with an OnlyFans. 1.00

00:04:39.980 Like, that's disgusting. 0.86

00:04:40.960 Like, she needs to respect herself. 0.81

00:04:42.020 But he respects me chasing the bag, so...

00:04:45.440 Wait, but so you said you're doing hardcore on OnlyFans.

00:04:50.800 Well...

00:04:51.320 With him?

00:04:52.100 With him.

00:04:52.440 With another guy?

00:04:53.080 Oh, okay.

00:04:53.440 No, no, no.

00:04:53.900 Oh, my God.

00:04:54.340 No, with him.

00:04:54.440 I thought there was another guy.

00:04:55.440 With him.

00:04:55.920 I see, I see.

00:04:56.640 Okay.

00:04:56.880 Yeah.

00:04:57.660 Got it.

00:04:58.320 Yeah.

00:04:58.940 Okay, cool.

00:04:59.760 Um, hi, I'm Sydney.

00:05:03.120 I'm also a student at UCSB.

00:05:06.420 What are you studying?

00:05:07.300 I'm studying economics and communication, since we don't have business.

00:05:11.880 Um, and I'm currently single.

00:05:17.460 I've been single for three years now?

00:05:22.340 Yeah.

00:05:22.540 Three years?

00:05:23.460 Mm-hmm.

00:05:23.740 You got that good.

00:05:24.280 Okay, why? 0.93

00:05:24.920 Um, UCSB men are just the worst. 1.00

00:05:32.060 Like, when you meet a cute guy, they just, like, their personality either sucks, or they've 0.99

00:05:38.380 hooked up with, like, everyone you know. 0.88

00:05:40.680 Yeah.

00:05:41.220 And, yeah.

00:05:43.260 Just, no one's worth my time yet.

00:05:46.880 Okay.

00:05:48.080 Yeah.

00:05:48.660 Um, I'm Sabrina.

00:05:50.240 I'm 19.

00:05:51.340 I'm an art major.

00:05:52.960 Um, and yeah.

00:05:54.640 Uh, I've actually never had a boyfriend.

00:05:56.980 Always been single.

00:05:58.820 I'm a little picky.

00:06:00.260 Wait, never?

00:06:01.300 As you should.

00:06:01.720 And, sorry, how old are you again?

00:06:02.900 Never.

00:06:03.260 19.

00:06:03.860 19.

00:06:04.440 I mean, that's not unheard of.

00:06:06.520 No.

00:06:06.780 There's time, I think.

00:06:08.720 I'm chilling.

00:06:09.560 You're chilling.

00:06:10.080 Yeah, I'm doing just my time.

00:06:11.360 Never, but never had a boyfriend.

00:06:13.060 No.

00:06:13.140 What's the longest you've seen a guy?

00:06:16.100 Like, maybe, or only one, only one night stands?

00:06:19.220 Uh, no.

00:06:20.360 No, no, God, no.

00:06:21.140 So, you've dated a guy for a period of time.

00:06:23.280 But, it's just never, like, I would never, yeah, I've never, like, considered anyone

00:06:27.720 my boyfriend.

00:06:29.020 Okay.

00:06:29.640 Yeah.

00:06:30.520 Like, yeah, just, like, long gated flings off and on for a year, maybe.

00:06:35.680 It's about it.

00:06:37.020 I feel that because I feel like, at this age, like, dating is, like, marriage.

00:06:41.640 Like, if you start dating someone, you're, like, so committed, it's, like, we're gonna

00:06:44.920 get married.

00:06:45.360 No, yeah, you become, like, the parents of the friend group.

00:06:48.680 Yeah.

00:06:49.320 Yeah. 0.84

00:06:49.860 And then, yeah, it's ridiculous. 0.70

00:06:51.800 And then the breakup drama. 0.75

00:06:54.620 Um, hi.

00:06:56.340 I'm Aline.

00:06:57.480 Um, I am a student at UCSB.

00:07:00.520 I'm a bio major.

00:07:02.180 I'm currently taking OCHEM in the summer.

00:07:05.780 Um, I do TikTok, kind of.

00:07:09.020 Um, but it's, like, just for fun.

00:07:12.060 Um.

00:07:13.720 What's your TikTok?

00:07:15.120 Oh.

00:07:16.160 Chunky Funky Monkey.

00:07:18.700 Okay.

00:07:19.520 It, I made the name off of a, of a, like, a smoke shop in San Diego.

00:07:24.980 Pacific Beach.

00:07:25.800 Shout out.

00:07:26.900 Um, and then, like, the chunky part. 0.95

00:07:31.600 Like, I used to be a fat kid, so. 0.99

00:07:34.340 Like, not a fat kid, like a fat baby. 0.99

00:07:36.540 But, like, yeah. 0.89

00:07:37.420 That's, that's my name.

00:07:38.300 Like, like, all eyes at the end.

00:07:40.700 Chunky Funky Monkey.

00:07:43.300 And then, um, I'm single.

00:07:47.860 How long have you been single?

00:07:49.920 Um, I don't know if I would consider, like, a two-week relationship an actual relationship.

00:07:56.940 So, your most recent situation was a two-week?

00:07:59.880 Yeah, so I wouldn't consider that.

00:08:00.940 Oh, so you're currently seeing this guy.

00:08:03.980 No.

00:08:04.400 Or it ended.

00:08:05.340 It ended, like, a while.

00:08:05.900 Two weeks ago.

00:08:06.480 No, the relationship was two weeks.

00:08:09.520 That was your, and that was your longest relationship?

00:08:12.760 My longest relationship was a month.

00:08:14.640 But, like, honestly, I think I've always.

00:08:18.840 She's on the streets. 0.99

00:08:20.720 I'm kidding.

00:08:21.600 I'm kidding.

00:08:22.880 But, um, I'm a relationship person.

00:08:25.380 I just can't find out.

00:08:26.300 Well, hold on.

00:08:26.960 Your longest relationship is a month.

00:08:32.000 It was a month.

00:08:32.980 Yeah.

00:08:33.120 But you're a relationship person.

00:08:35.240 Yes.

00:08:40.040 Okay, I'm being cringe at the sound.

00:08:42.880 Wait, but, and so, and you're how old again?

00:08:45.900 I'm 19.

00:08:46.600 19.

00:08:47.060 I mean, again, like.

00:08:48.240 Yeah.

00:08:48.600 It's still pretty young.

00:08:49.280 Like, I feel like a lot of people.

00:08:50.860 I don't, I'm not into a lot, like, hookup stuff.

00:08:53.800 Yeah.

00:08:54.740 But, like, you know.

00:08:55.200 But, like, men here.

00:08:57.640 Men here?

00:08:58.300 Men here are.

00:08:59.320 That's, that's what I'm going to say.

00:09:01.020 In San La Barbera?

00:09:01.760 Yes.

00:09:02.420 100%.

00:09:02.780 Like, if, I've, I've, like, I've, like, tried, like, talking to guys here.

00:09:07.260 And, like, I've, like, had, I have a lot of girlfriends.

00:09:10.080 And, like, I'd, like, talk to girls.

00:09:11.820 Like, oh, do you know this guy?

00:09:13.060 Like, yeah.

00:09:13.920 Like, everybody knows this guy.

00:09:15.240 Like, or, like, everyone's, like, Eskimos sisters.

00:09:17.540 Yeah.

00:09:18.480 Yeah.

00:09:19.380 It's just, like, it's, it's a situation here.

00:09:22.320 You mentioned Eskimo sisters.

00:09:24.000 Do you guys think that there are more Eskimo brothers or Eskimo sisters out there?

00:09:30.760 Sisters.

00:09:31.340 Sisters.

00:09:31.920 Sisters.

00:09:32.300 100%.

00:09:32.800 So, more women that have slept with the same guys. 0.98

00:09:36.380 Yeah.

00:09:36.740 Because we're way pickier.

00:09:37.680 And there's a reason why that one guy is getting all the girls.

00:09:40.400 Yeah.

00:09:40.520 Yeah.

00:09:42.580 Nice.

00:09:43.680 No, it's true.

00:09:44.580 It's true.

00:09:44.880 Um, okay.

00:09:47.200 So, that, we should come back to, to that.

00:09:50.900 The, no boyfriend thing yet.

00:09:53.460 So, first question for today.

00:09:57.460 And, we're going to watch some videos, too.

00:09:59.240 We're going to react to some videos related to this topic.

00:10:01.960 But, we'll just kind of go around the panel and get your guys' input.

00:10:06.060 Who pays on a first date?

00:10:10.060 Start with, yeah, I'll start with you.

00:10:11.080 Okay, um, so, my answer to that is, definitely, whoever asks.

00:10:17.380 If you're asking someone, then you're interested in them, and you're trying to persuade them to, like, go out on a date with you.

00:10:24.660 You're trying to persuade them to like you.

00:10:26.860 So, if you're asking, oh, do you want to go to dinner with me?

00:10:30.860 I think that this person should pay.

00:10:33.780 Because you're obviously trying to, like, will them, persuade them for you to like them.

00:10:39.860 And, in my, like, case, I don't, I don't necessarily think it, it can be either, like, a man or woman.

00:10:46.340 I definitely think it's someone, um, who's interested in the other person.

00:10:51.000 But, in my case, I don't, I don't, like, necessarily, like, approach other men.

00:10:57.180 I, so, generally, I would prefer if the man paid for me, because that means that the man has approached me, and they want to go out with me.

00:11:08.520 And I want to see, like, this is sort of like a first impression.

00:11:12.340 Like, if I went out with a man who paid for my dinner versus a man who didn't pay for my dinner, like, who would I like more?

00:11:20.140 If they were both, like, if they were both, like, equally attractive, equally, like, um, just, like, they have, like, equally as good personalities, but one pays, one doesn't.

00:11:32.160 Like, you're always going to have the upper hand in that situation, and you're always going to, and, like, if, it's just, like, if you want someone to like you more, then you should pay.

00:11:42.840 But, like, there's no, like, oh, all men should pay.

00:11:46.340 Oh, all women should pay. 1.00

00:11:47.800 And I don't think in, I don't think, like, splitting the bill is, like, like, just either.

00:11:54.880 It's just whoever asks the date, the first date.

00:11:59.300 Okay, so you think whoever asks, they should pay.

00:12:02.400 You would prefer the man to pay, right?

00:12:04.980 Yeah, yeah.

00:12:05.420 And, okay.

00:12:07.540 Assuming that I, like, that men approach women.

00:12:11.280 Got it.

00:12:11.800 Yeah.

00:12:11.980 And let's say a guy asks you out on a date.

00:12:14.320 Yeah.

00:12:14.540 And, you know, the date's going well, whatever, but he says, checks, you know, date's wrapping up.

00:12:24.100 What do you think about splitting the bill?

00:12:25.960 Does that change how you feel?

00:12:28.400 Okay, so the thing is, I will definitely pay if they suggest splitting the bill.

00:12:34.380 But in my head, I'm like, okay, he asked me to split the bill.

00:12:38.240 That's going to be considered in how much I like this guy.

00:12:41.700 So you will feel a certain type of way if the guy says, hey, I want to split.

00:12:45.740 I will do it.

00:12:45.960 I'm not going to make the guy, I'm not going to make the guy pay the bill.

00:12:49.080 But you might like him a bit less is kind of what you're saying.

00:12:51.320 He's putting himself at a disadvantage.

00:12:53.000 At a disadvantage.

00:12:53.540 That's also just like, in general, even when it doesn't come to dates, like you don't invite

00:12:58.720 someone out to dinner or invite them over for a dinner party at your house and be like,

00:13:02.580 oh, can you Venmo me for all the food?

00:13:05.120 Like, you don't do that.

00:13:06.360 You know, if you're the one asking, you're the one paying.

00:13:08.320 You're the one inviting the other out to dinner.

00:13:10.160 But I mean, if you were to get, go out with just a friend, for example, to get, grab dinner,

00:13:16.500 do you, you guys pay each other?

00:13:18.880 Like, you split as if you're just hanging out with your buddies, you know?

00:13:22.980 Okay.

00:13:23.340 Like a little Venmo.

00:13:24.360 Yeah, a little Venmo option.

00:13:25.720 Okay.

00:13:26.180 Yeah.

00:13:26.500 But so, do you want to just answer the question from the beginning?

00:13:30.500 Like, whether or not.

00:13:31.700 Yeah.

00:13:32.020 So, who should, like, who pays on a first date?

00:13:34.200 Oh, I fully think that it's whoever asks.

00:13:37.260 Okay.

00:13:37.880 You know?

00:13:39.020 Like, I don't know about you, but someone asks you out on a date, they're the ones pursuing,

00:13:45.020 like, if a guy asks me out on a date, like, they're pursuing me, they should pay.

00:13:51.300 If I ask a guy out on a date, I will pay.

00:13:53.900 You know?

00:13:54.280 It's an invitation.

00:13:55.620 Okay.

00:13:56.540 Have, I'm going to come back to this.

00:13:58.880 I want to let everybody answer first, so go ahead.

00:14:02.180 Honestly, this is something I've always been kind of torn about.

00:14:04.980 Like, I don't want to expect people to pay for me because, like, I know I can, like,

00:14:08.320 afford to pay for myself.

00:14:09.660 Like, I just don't like to expect anything from anyone.

00:14:12.100 But if a guy pays for me, I'm definitely, like, that's hot.

00:14:16.480 Like, and, like, if they ask me to split the bill, I'm going to be, like, sure, buddy.

00:14:20.760 Like, and then I'm going to be, like, okay, like, take me home.

00:14:22.940 You know?

00:14:23.180 Like, take me to my house and you're not coming.

00:14:24.940 But, like, it definitely just, it's, like, oh, okay.

00:14:28.380 It's, like, a nice little thing and I will always offer to pay.

00:14:31.380 And if they accept my offer, like, I'll still pay.

00:14:34.000 But I'd prefer someone to pay for me, but I don't need it to happen.

00:14:37.640 But it's definitely a turn on.

00:14:39.660 So, the asker.

00:14:42.720 So, yeah, if I asked a guy on a date, I still would not pay for the whole thing.

00:14:47.800 But, so, the guy should pay.

00:14:49.380 Like, we should split it.

00:14:51.040 If a girl asks a guy, we split it. 0.97

00:14:53.340 But if a guy asks a girl, they pay. 0.54

00:14:54.720 He pays.

00:14:55.680 Yeah.

00:14:55.860 Okay.

00:14:56.240 Got it.

00:14:56.740 On that, though, if a girl asks a guy or whatever, you know, like, the person who asked should pay.

00:15:06.920 But, also, if you ask a guy on a date and they offer to pay, then that's, like, two points.

00:15:13.220 Like, double.

00:15:13.700 Yeah.

00:15:13.980 Double points.

00:15:15.020 Double the points.

00:15:15.920 Also, one thing we are, like, we're only thinking about, like, dinner dates, I feel like.

00:15:19.220 But, like, if we're going to, like, the zoo or something, I wouldn't expect them to pay for my $40 ticket.

00:15:24.020 Like, if we're, like, something like that, like, I would want to pay for, I wouldn't want them to pay for me.

00:15:29.980 I don't know.

00:15:30.420 That's just me.

00:15:31.160 I'm, like, I can pay for myself.

00:15:32.640 Sometimes I also, like, depending on how a guy says it, I find it kind of offensive.

00:15:37.520 And I'm, like, I can pay for myself.

00:15:40.220 Like, I mean.

00:15:40.860 What do you mean by it being offensive?

00:15:42.540 Like, it depends how they, like, state it.

00:15:43.940 But they're, like, oh, you can't do that.

00:15:45.980 I'm, like, I can do that.

00:15:47.320 Like, what?

00:15:48.000 Like, I don't know.

00:15:48.640 I feel like they can put it in offensive.

00:15:49.600 Oh, so if you offer and the guy's, like, no, no, no.

00:15:52.420 Yeah, they're, like, no, you can't.

00:15:53.300 So you want the guy to pay.

00:15:56.160 But if you offer and he gives pushback, then you're offended.

00:16:02.900 Okay.

00:16:03.300 A little bit.

00:16:03.800 When you put it like that.

00:16:06.980 It's just the lose-lose for these men out here.

00:16:08.760 Yeah.

00:16:09.480 I don't know.

00:16:10.160 I honestly just, like, really don't like dinner dates.

00:16:12.580 Like, I'm, like, a very fidgety person.

00:16:14.820 And I don't like sitting across from someone and talking to them for hours.

00:16:17.580 Because I'm, like, what am I going to say next?

00:16:18.680 What am I going to say next?

00:16:19.340 I'd rather, like, go to the zoo.

00:16:21.120 Or, like.

00:16:21.520 The zoo?

00:16:22.260 Like, I don't know.

00:16:22.980 Like, the aquarium.

00:16:24.640 Or, like, go swimming.

00:16:25.720 I'm not judging the zoo, by the way.

00:16:26.680 I'm just.

00:16:27.360 Yeah.

00:16:27.920 I like to be doing something, like, outside.

00:16:30.160 Yeah.

00:16:30.600 I actually agree with you that I think for a first date, dinner date, that's not it.

00:16:36.040 That's not it.

00:16:36.340 I love dinner dates.

00:16:37.400 Yeah.

00:16:37.600 Well, we'll come back to the dinner thing.

00:16:40.600 But, yeah.

00:16:42.080 I mean, my take on the dinner dates is, like, I feel like you want, at least initially, something

00:16:49.220 a little bit low commitment.

00:16:50.680 Because you could show up.

00:16:52.540 And even if you.

00:16:53.320 I'll always want to speak to a girl on the phone before I meet up with her.

00:16:57.280 Just to feel it out a little bit.

00:16:59.180 But some people don't do that.

00:17:00.480 So, you could get to the date.

00:17:01.840 And then it's just.

00:17:04.300 And then you got to sit there.

00:17:06.100 It's awkward.

00:17:06.880 For the waiter.

00:17:07.220 And even if you're getting along with the person, it's just kind of, the waiter comes

00:17:11.300 by, interrupts you.

00:17:13.660 And then, like, I don't know about you guys, but when I eat, I don't like to talk when I

00:17:19.520 eat.

00:17:19.780 I just want to eat.

00:17:20.800 You know?

00:17:21.200 I'm weird, though.

00:17:21.940 It depends on how good the food is.

00:17:22.460 I'm weird.

00:17:22.900 That's true.

00:17:23.480 Yeah.

00:17:24.380 Yeah.

00:17:25.100 Anyways.

00:17:26.400 Oh.

00:17:27.860 I agree to a certain extent with all of you guys.

00:17:31.580 But I personally would just go in 50-50.

00:17:34.660 Like, I don't care if a guy pays for my dinner.

00:17:38.680 But, as you were saying, I do get offended if the guy is like, oh, no, like, and fights

00:17:44.360 me on it.

00:17:44.800 Like, if I'm like, no, like, let's split it.

00:17:46.160 And he will argue with me about it.

00:17:48.160 Be like, no, I'm paying.

00:17:49.360 Like, I'm the man here.

00:17:51.180 I'm like, I don't care.

00:17:52.720 Like, if you want to pay for me, thank you.

00:17:54.640 But going in, I would just expect 50-50, honestly.

00:17:58.080 Like, I don't.

00:17:59.040 And I'll pay for your dinner.

00:18:00.640 Like, if I ask, I 100%.

00:18:02.540 I don't care.

00:18:03.180 Like, if I ask a guy on a date, and I have a lot.

00:18:06.260 Like, I feel like I'm a very assertive person.

00:18:08.240 And I go after, like, who and what I want.

00:18:11.800 Then, like, I'll pay for your dinner.

00:18:13.720 I don't care.

00:18:14.840 Good answer.

00:18:16.660 So, coming back here to Aline.

00:18:19.200 So, you said whoever asks, they should pay.

00:18:22.980 Correct.

00:18:23.740 So, can I ask you a question?

00:18:25.340 Yeah.

00:18:25.560 Do you ever ask guys out on dates?

00:18:29.060 No.

00:18:31.100 Okay, you?

00:18:31.820 Do you ever ask guys out on dates?

00:18:33.180 Yeah.

00:18:33.540 If I like a guy, I'll ask him out.

00:18:35.680 Have you ever asked?

00:18:37.140 But you would ask him out.

00:18:39.040 Yeah.

00:18:39.420 But have you ever asked a guy out?

00:18:40.760 You would.

00:18:41.640 You've asked guys out?

00:18:42.500 Yeah.

00:18:42.680 Okay.

00:18:43.180 When was the last time you asked a guy out on a date?

00:18:45.160 Um, I've been, like, back home for the past couple months.

00:18:50.480 Yeah.

00:18:51.760 I would say, like, February.

00:18:53.520 Okay.

00:18:54.500 It's been a minute.

00:18:55.140 All right.

00:18:55.380 It's been a minute.

00:18:57.040 When was the last time you went on a date?

00:19:01.580 Oh, God.

00:19:02.500 Was it February?

00:19:03.960 Yeah.

00:19:04.200 Oh, yeah.

00:19:04.660 Like, February.

00:19:05.800 Yeah.

00:19:06.140 Yeah.

00:19:06.860 Maybe we should define what a date is.

00:19:10.300 Because a date's a very specific thing.

00:19:12.240 Yeah.

00:19:12.400 There's other kind of encounters that might not qualify as a date, but there's an interaction

00:19:19.580 that occurs, so.

00:19:22.660 So, okay.

00:19:23.520 You also were saying that the person who asks, they should pay.

00:19:30.020 But do you ever ask guys out on dates?

00:19:32.780 I don't ask guys out on dates, but, like, I ask them to hang out.

00:19:36.420 Let me specify the question a bit more.

00:19:38.660 Have you ever asked a guy out on a first date?

00:19:41.580 Like, the first time you're meeting?

00:19:43.700 No.

00:19:44.120 Because certainly, if it's a guy you've met before, then I think it's a bit, then you

00:19:47.760 can kind of open up a bit, I feel like, as a girl.

00:19:49.960 I mean, personally, I mean, I've never met someone.

00:19:54.200 I've never met up with someone from a dating app.

00:19:56.900 So, like, I've always known the person and, like, hung out with them for multiple hours

00:20:00.660 before hanging out with them again in, like, a more, like, romantic setting.

00:20:04.680 So, like, a friend.

00:20:05.620 Yeah, like, I'm friends with, I think that relationships work best when you're friends

00:20:09.180 with someone first.

00:20:10.140 Right.

00:20:10.440 And you've never been on the dating app?

00:20:13.300 I've been on them, but it's just, like, to swipe and, like, get, like, validation.

00:20:17.200 Okay.

00:20:17.680 Oh, for validation.

00:20:18.880 Okay.

00:20:19.500 I just like when they, like, slide into my, I'm not going to respond, really, like, sometimes.

00:20:24.040 But I've never, like, met up with them.

00:20:26.260 Okay.

00:20:26.980 So, of the times you've been on dating apps, you've never gotten a date or met up with

00:20:31.360 anybody.

00:20:32.060 Just, like, chat it a little bit.

00:20:33.280 Strictly for the.

00:20:34.420 For the swipe.

00:20:35.220 Hey, at least you're honest.

00:20:36.820 I mean, that's good.

00:20:38.780 Okay.

00:20:39.140 So, okay.

00:20:42.800 You were saying that.

00:20:45.280 And are you in the sorority?

00:20:46.800 Yes, I am.

00:20:47.720 Okay.

00:20:48.040 Can we name the sorority?

00:20:49.680 Yeah.

00:20:49.860 I'm in Kappa Alpha Theta.

00:20:52.860 Shout out.

00:20:53.580 I have three positions in my sorority.

00:20:56.200 Three positions?

00:20:57.080 Yeah.

00:20:58.380 Okay.

00:20:58.880 What are those?

00:20:59.820 I'm the recruitment director, so I'm planning all of the recruitment for fall right now.

00:21:04.200 I'm the social planner, so I plan all of our events with frats.

00:21:08.120 And then I'm the finance assistant.

00:21:10.700 Nice.

00:21:11.620 Very cool.

00:21:12.540 And so, I imagine, since you're in a sorority, that there's a lot of opportunities to socialize.

00:21:19.360 There's parties and stuff with the fraternities.

00:21:21.020 So, I feel like that's maybe one of the reasons why you haven't relied so heavily on dating

00:21:27.000 apps is because you're meeting people a lot more organically in these more organic social

00:21:33.560 situations.

00:21:35.840 Okay.

00:21:36.600 Interesting.

00:21:37.800 So, I guess going back to Aline, you've never asked a guy out on the first date, though.

00:21:47.260 Correct.

00:21:47.660 Correct.

00:21:48.180 Okay.

00:21:48.900 Got it.

00:21:49.960 Okay.

00:21:51.260 Interesting.

00:21:52.140 Interesting.

00:21:53.060 So, I'm going to give my take on the whole, like, whoever asks should pay thing.

00:21:59.920 And I'm probably going to just get heat from both sides here because I definitely think

00:22:07.520 there's guys who agree, like, if you ask, you should pay, the man should pay.

00:22:12.160 So, I mean, I think it's at best, the whole whoever asks should pay thing, I think it's

00:22:23.940 at best kind of naive and at worst kind of like bad faith, willful ignorance.

00:22:30.820 And here's why.

00:22:33.140 Because de facto, overwhelmingly, men must initiate. 0.67

00:22:40.060 So, like, most women, like, they don't ask men on first dates.

00:22:44.480 So, of course, like, if the asker is always going to be men, then they de facto have to

00:22:52.060 pay.

00:22:53.300 So, like, that, to me, I don't know, whoever asks, like, if, it's just going to be the

00:23:00.840 guy.

00:23:01.400 So, that's my take.

00:23:04.220 You know, yeah.

00:23:05.260 Chris, can we, why don't we pull up one of the videos?

00:23:11.500 Yes.

00:23:12.180 Let's do it together.

00:23:15.460 Here we go.

00:23:16.260 I guess you'll be on the Twitch tab first.

00:23:19.120 Oh, do you want to go back to the Twitch tab?

00:23:21.360 We're not windowed mode yet.

00:23:23.860 Oh.

00:23:25.700 Here we go.

00:23:28.180 Okay.

00:23:29.760 Wait, is this windowed?

00:23:31.960 Yeah, it's windowed.

00:23:33.020 It's windowed.

00:23:34.140 Okay.

00:23:34.540 Can you start it at the very beginning?

00:23:37.340 Sure.

00:23:38.420 Just the very beginning and go full screen.

00:23:41.120 Here we go.

00:23:42.920 Okay.

00:23:43.860 By the way, before you play, Chris, so, guys, in chat, this is our first time playing a video

00:23:52.320 during stream.

00:23:54.480 So, we're still kind of playing with the noise on it.

00:23:57.780 In chat, guys, let us know if the noise from the video is either too loud or too low.

00:24:04.820 Why don't you go ahead, Chris?

00:24:09.560 Serious question.

00:24:10.320 What would you ladies do if a man asks you to split the bill on the first date? 1.00

00:24:14.440 I would simply split the bill, but I will never see him again.

00:24:16.680 Peace out.

00:24:18.540 And, Chris, can you skip ahead to pause it?

00:24:22.440 Skip to 112 in the video.

00:24:25.080 This is like a TikTok stitch compilation.

00:24:29.200 Serious question.

00:24:30.080 What would you ladies do if a man asks you to split the bill on the first date? 1.00

00:24:33.900 I would say, yeah, of course.

00:24:34.740 Actually, let me just pay for the whole thing.

00:24:37.000 Be super nice about it.

00:24:38.740 Bye.

00:24:39.200 And then I would never talk to him again.

00:24:41.280 Very simple.

00:24:42.280 Queen.

00:24:42.700 Absolutely.

00:24:44.300 Let it play, Chris.

00:24:45.800 There's one more.

00:24:47.380 Serious question.

00:24:48.140 What would you ladies do if a man asks you to split the bill on the first date? 1.00

00:24:55.380 Okay.

00:24:56.300 Serious question.

00:24:56.900 Pause it, Chris.

00:24:57.420 What would you ladies do if a man... 1.00

00:24:59.220 And then skip to...

00:25:02.420 Oh, shoot.

00:25:03.100 I didn't write this down.

00:25:04.540 Oh, actually, here we go.

00:25:05.760 Skip to 529.

00:25:07.560 People are saying it's slightly too...

00:25:14.520 Can you actually pause it, Chris?

00:25:16.360 Let me just read the chats.

00:25:17.900 Most people said a little low.

00:25:19.360 We'll say a little low.

00:25:20.320 It looks like, yeah, there's some mix.

00:25:22.820 Some people are saying too low.

00:25:24.740 Some guy said my ears.

00:25:27.960 Some guy said it's perfect.

00:25:29.640 Can you scroll up on those just so we can see?

00:25:34.400 I think it's quiet.

00:25:35.640 Too loud.

00:25:36.320 This guy says it's...

00:25:37.600 We're getting very...

00:25:38.500 There's only one person saying it's too loud, though.

00:25:40.420 We're getting very mixed.

00:25:42.520 Oh, he might be trolling. 0.95

00:25:43.300 Are you a troll? 0.90

00:25:45.360 Yeah, who's lying and who's not? 0.99

00:25:47.500 The sub guy.

00:25:48.340 Which one of y'all is lying?

00:25:49.280 Asking you two.

00:25:49.940 Yeah, sub-yob.

00:25:51.480 Sub-yob. 0.78

00:25:51.880 Just sub-yob.

00:25:52.560 Chris, can you boost the decibel to unity?

00:25:55.300 Audio people are saying it's too low.

00:25:59.000 Not too high, not too low.

00:26:00.540 Yeah, he said just trolling.

00:26:02.120 Okay.

00:26:02.800 We're gonna...

00:26:03.640 We just adjusted the audio, guys.

00:26:05.380 If it's still too low, let us know.

00:26:09.200 Play it, Chris.

00:26:10.160 Believe it or not, I've actually been in this situation before, and I think this is the perfect

00:26:14.040 way to handle it.

00:26:15.000 So when the bill comes, if he asks to split it with you, the audacity, then I would just

00:26:19.580 be like, yeah, no problem.

00:26:21.360 Split the bill.

00:26:21.980 Don't make a fuss.

00:26:22.860 And after the date, go no contact.

00:26:24.740 Okay?

00:26:24.880 You don't need to text him and be like, thanks for a great time because you paid for yourself.

00:26:28.580 However, if he tries asking you out a second time, then I would say this.

00:26:32.180 Oh, you mean like on a date?

00:26:33.880 And if he was like, yeah, obviously, then I would be like, oh, okay, I guess I'm just

00:26:37.860 surprised because I didn't think you were interested in me last time.

00:26:40.760 And then he's probably gonna be like, why?

00:26:42.420 And then you can be like, well, typically if I split the bill with a guy, it's more of

00:26:45.540 like a friend thing.

00:26:46.460 And the reason this is a good reply is because he's probably gonna feel a little embarrassed,

00:26:49.680 which he should.

00:26:50.520 It's not chivalrous.

00:26:51.320 And you're also asserting your standard in a really classy way.

00:26:54.320 Hit the plus to follow for more and good luck.

00:26:58.020 And then Chris, skip to 725.

00:27:00.440 Hit the plus to follow.

00:27:03.360 Okay, I learned this the hard way when I was younger, so I hope...

00:27:05.920 Actually, just go back like five seconds.

00:27:11.220 Go ahead, play it.

00:27:12.320 And asks you to split the bill on the first date.

00:27:15.020 Okay, I learned this the hard way when I was younger, so I hope a younger girl watches 0.99

00:27:18.740 this and gets something from it.

00:27:21.320 You pay for your part of the bill, you leave, and you never speak to them again.

00:27:25.500 If you know that you want to find a girl that wants to be taken care of in a relationship. 0.52

00:27:29.300 If you want to be wined and dined, you want to be gifted, you want the finer parts of life

00:27:33.100 and a relationship, you never talk to them again for your own good.

00:27:37.820 Because this is basically them signaling to you that they are not going to do that.

00:27:42.920 That's not something they're interested in.

00:27:44.720 It's not the way that they are.

00:27:46.600 It's not the way they're built.

00:27:47.780 They'll never be that.

00:27:48.620 Because that kind of guy will never ask you to split the bill.

00:27:53.360 So, if you know that you're that kind of person, that kind of girl, like I am, you pay for

00:27:59.600 your part, you leave, and go find someone who will do all those things for you.

00:28:04.540 Oh! 0.60

00:28:07.220 Okay.

00:28:07.960 Chris, you can go back to regular.

00:28:10.220 Did you guys have any thoughts on some of those videos we just watched?

00:28:14.760 Why don't we start with Kylie? 0.86

00:28:15.660 That was absolutely ridiculous. 0.98

00:28:17.180 Like, hearing that, I hate that. 0.99

00:28:20.740 Because women that automatically assume that a guy is less, like his personality is not as

00:28:28.680 good because, oh, he won't pay for my meal. 0.99

00:28:30.780 That opinion is just absolutely ridiculous to me.

00:28:34.460 Like, I don't know why people should expect a man to pay on the first date. 0.95

00:28:39.420 Like, we're both eating our own food, so we should both pay for our own food.

00:28:44.800 It's just as simple as that, in my opinion.

00:28:48.080 I feel like, I don't know.

00:28:51.580 I feel like they're obviously not expected to, but if they ask me, like, can we split it?

00:28:56.500 I just kind of get the ick.

00:28:58.280 I can't control the ick.

00:29:00.840 Hey, you know, I think it's totally okay for both genders, both men and women, to have

00:29:06.600 their preferences for what they want in a partner.

00:29:08.640 And so if you want the guy to pay, I think that is a reasonable preference to have.

00:29:16.640 I personally disagree with it, but I totally think you're entitled to feel that way.

00:29:21.380 I think that totally circles back to whoever asked to go on the date because whoever asked

00:29:28.480 to go on the date has the power to decide what the date is and where the date is and

00:29:31.780 how much money the date is going to cost.

00:29:33.480 And so if you can't afford to pay for the other person and you're the one who asked,

00:29:38.080 go have a little picnic in the park, you know?

00:29:40.540 Go to a fair, you know, buy her a churro or buy him a churro.

00:29:45.220 So, you know, like, if you ask, you pay, man, you know?

00:29:50.600 And if you were to ask to split it on the first day and he was the one who asked or they

00:29:54.040 were the one to have asked, I just think that's kind of ridiculous because I go into a date,

00:30:00.420 like, if someone were to ask me, I would go into it being like, oh, they're going to pay.

00:30:04.620 And then the unexpected curveball at the end, it's like, oh, you didn't bring your wallet?

00:30:08.860 Can we split it?

00:30:09.720 And it's like, really, man?

00:30:11.540 Wait, so here's a question.

00:30:12.680 Let's say the date's gone great.

00:30:14.260 You're really feeling the guy, you're attracted to him, but he does say, hey, let's split.

00:30:18.680 Is that a wrap or is it just a little negative, a little negative?

00:30:23.340 Or is it just it's over?

00:30:25.480 No, I would straight up be like, yo, dude, I really like you, but I was like,

00:30:30.280 I wasn't really expecting to split.

00:30:32.240 Oh, sorry.

00:30:33.860 Honestly, if that were to happen and I actually really liked him and it was going great,

00:30:38.700 I would, it also depends.

00:30:41.160 Like, if a guy says, like, oh, do you want to go on a date or do you want to hang out?

00:30:45.360 Like, if it's just hanging out with a friend that you, like, don't really know is interested in you,

00:30:49.440 like, I suck at, like, taking a hint, you know?

00:30:52.720 I'll just assume that we're just hanging out.

00:30:54.920 I won't assume that there's any romantics involved.

00:30:59.380 And if there is, I'll just be like, yo, that's totally cool.

00:31:02.180 You want to get next time?

00:31:02.900 Okay.

00:31:04.740 I, like, disagreed with the video because, like, a lot of guys, it's not all about, like,

00:31:14.140 if they have, like, money, especially in college.

00:31:16.300 A lot of guys are, like, not, like, they don't have, like, a lot of money,

00:31:20.460 but they want to take you out to, like, a nice dinner.

00:31:22.920 They want to take you out and, like, have a good time, like, eat some really good food.

00:31:26.660 But, like, if I, like, really like the guy, I'm going to like the guy.

00:31:32.040 Like, splitting the bill, like, it'll dock some points off for me,

00:31:37.060 but usually, like, with guys, if I like them, then I like them.

00:31:41.380 Like, I'm down bad.

00:31:44.100 Like, I'll still like them.

00:31:47.440 Like, it'll, of course, it's a little dock, but it's nothing that'll deter if I actually like you, you know?

00:31:56.660 Like, it's all about, like, impressing, like, the girl, like, in the date, you know?

00:32:02.080 Like, yeah.

00:32:03.660 I agree with that because it's, like, their personality kind of comes first

00:32:06.740 and, like, if they pay for it, it's more of a bonus.

00:32:09.780 And also, if they do ask you to split the bill, it depends on how they offer it.

00:32:12.860 If they're, like, not confident about it and, like, super awkward, like,

00:32:15.980 like, would you mind, like, splitting the bill?

00:32:18.580 Like, I would not like that at all.

00:32:21.280 So, if they're, like, hey, like, would you want to split this?

00:32:23.480 I'd be, like, yeah, of course.

00:32:24.440 And then some of those videos were also talking about your reaction after.

00:32:28.500 I would not make a big deal about it because you also, like, don't know someone's financial situation.

00:32:33.100 Like, I've dated guys in the past who, like, don't have money and I've paid for him

00:32:36.820 because, like, I'm not going to, like, make him, like, go out of his budget when I know, like, I don't need it, you know?

00:32:43.600 But I also, if someone asked me to pay later, I wouldn't, like, give them a hard time about it

00:32:47.520 because, I don't know, something weird about me is that I don't like to make other people embarrassed.

00:32:52.180 Like, if someone does something embarrassing, I'm like, no, you're good.

00:32:54.960 Like, I hate when, because I hate feeling embarrassed, so I don't want other people to feel embarrassed.

00:32:59.280 So, I wouldn't, like, say something to make them feel bad about themselves.

00:33:02.780 Okay.

00:33:03.740 On that note, also, like, just because we're all in college, we're all very aware that most of us are super broke.

00:33:09.740 Yeah.

00:33:10.240 You know, we're in college, student debt.

00:33:11.680 But, like, obviously, there's huge understanding around that and it's, like, yo, if you can't afford to pay for a date and I can, then, yeah, I'll totally cover it.

00:33:19.220 Yeah.

00:33:20.380 Yeah.

00:33:20.960 And it goes both ways, by the way, from the comments that are, like, talking about, like, same-sex dates and stuff like that.

00:33:27.700 That's just my personal opinion.

00:33:29.520 Like, unless I'm going on a date with, like, a guy that I know is rich, and then they ask me to pay, I'm going to be like, no.

00:33:37.800 Only if they're using them, if you're using them.

00:33:40.000 But, okay, I shouldn't have said that.

00:33:42.080 Take that back.

00:33:43.100 Dude, who are you going on dates with, sugar daddies? 1.00

00:33:45.660 I respect it.

00:33:46.740 The honesty is good.

00:33:48.960 Wait, so, have any of you ever gone on what is, and, well, actually, before I go there, I guess I'll give my take on the video.

00:33:57.040 Yeah.

00:33:57.240 Um, so, it kind of echoed, to some degree, what you guys said, but I think they were kind of, uh, I think you guys would probably feel a type of way about it, but the impression I got is you guys would be polite about it.

00:34:13.440 Whereas they, I don't know if they were just hamming it up a bit for the TikTok, but, like, they were definitely seemed like, I don't know, a bit rude, it seemed like.

00:34:23.100 Like, and I don't know if that's what they would actually do on a date, but one of the girls was, like, the way she was saying how she'd walk through it, she'd be very condescending. 0.98

00:34:32.620 You know what?

00:34:33.020 No, let me just pay for the whole thing.

00:34:34.720 You're broke.

00:34:36.040 Brokey.

00:34:36.360 And then, I'm like, I don't think that's, that's necessary, even if you feel, again, a certain type of way about, you know, if you have your preference to have the guy pay, I think that would be, to me, that'd be a bit rude.

00:34:50.880 Um, no, I definitely agree.

00:34:53.560 Like, it's also, like, in the moment, like, the vibe, but, like, I would never be, like, oh, no, I don't know, that's, that one was rude.

00:35:00.340 Yeah.

00:35:00.640 I feel like people have a lot of negative, toxic takes on TikTok, and, and I'll, again, I don't know if they're hamming it up specifically for the TikTok just to, like, drum up controversy, because I can't imagine, I don't know, I like to generally think people are decent.

00:35:17.660 I can't imagine, like, if you were having a, if you were in person with, with them, that they would say that, like, to me, that's just.

00:35:25.460 Intentionally ghosting, just because you don't pay for a meal, seems a little extreme. 0.99

00:35:29.460 Like, it's just, if you like the guy, like, if you had a good time, just pay the fucking bill. 0.99

00:35:34.780 It doesn't matter. 0.98

00:35:35.960 Yeah.

00:35:36.340 Well, I mean, even if that's a deal breaker that the guy pays, I, you know, again, I kind of disagree with that stance, but if that's the girl's boundary or preference, um, and, hey,

00:35:47.400 if she doesn't want to see the guy again, I disagree, but, hey, that's her call, but if you, then if you're rude about it.

00:35:54.320 Yeah, at least be polite.

00:35:55.040 If you're rude, you know, so, um, so, have any of you ever gone on a foodie call?

00:36:03.440 Aline, let's start with you.

00:36:04.540 So, a foodie call is, like, you had, you had no romantic interest in this person, but this person offered to take you out to dinner, or, I mean, fly you to, you know.

00:36:17.380 You know, somewhere, like, take you out on a date, but you had, it was clear they had a romantic interest in you, but you didn't have a romantic interest in them.

00:36:26.380 Have you ever been on a foodie call?

00:36:28.180 Um, I'm not going to name names, but there was this guy.

00:36:32.080 Name drop, name drop.

00:36:33.140 There was this guy, um, I think, like, every, like, after, like, Friday night or whatever, like, I'd, I'd be, like, home from, like, partying or whatever, and he'd, like, he'd, he'd, like, text me, he'd be, like, yo, let's grab In-N-Out, like, but I'd go, like, he'd pay for my food, like, but there was, like, I'm, I'm pretty sure he's, like, interested in me, but, like, he never made a move or anything.

00:36:56.600 So I was just, like, like, that's, that's chill, that's fine, like, and I just, like, kept going, like, getting In-N-Out with this man, like, every, every night.

00:37:09.020 Yeah, but, like, I, like, he was, like, I think he was in me, like, he would, like, text me shit, like, he'd call me, like, baby girl, like, whatever.

00:37:17.600 And you guys, every Friday night would go to In-N-Out. Get the In-N-Out hat, Chris. Chris, can you bring me the In-N-Out hat? It's, it's, uh, yeah, thank you, sir. 0.90

00:37:27.320 Bring me the In-N-Out hat.

00:37:28.680 You get to wear it, you get the honor.

00:37:30.320 Thank you, thank you, Chris. This is Calamity Chris, by the way. First, first time on the stream.

00:37:36.020 Go on, I'm in, and I'm out.

00:37:37.480 Yeah.

00:37:38.560 All right, here, put this on.

00:37:40.840 Yeah, one thing about me is that.

00:37:42.100 Is it gonna ruin your hair, though? We don't wanna ruin your hair.

00:37:44.120 Okay, it's worth it.

00:37:45.320 One thing about me is that I'll eat, I'm gonna eat food.

00:37:49.620 I'm gonna eat food. 0.99

00:37:50.860 Like, if that shit's free, I'm gonna eat it. 0.99

00:37:53.100 Okay, don't ask me why I have that, guys. 0.99

00:37:56.800 So, and was this pretty consistent every Friday?

00:38:00.520 Um, and I think, like, I just, like, wouldn't, like, I wouldn't, like, because I think he knew that, um, that I knew he liked me, but, like, I would never, like, give in to it.

00:38:11.180 He'd be, like, hey, like, like, I don't know, I don't remember, but he was, like, you're gonna give me a kiss or something?

00:38:18.360 I was, like, dude, this guy.

00:38:19.580 Wait, he said that?

00:38:20.160 Yeah, he was, he was kind of cringy.

00:38:22.060 He was kind of cringy, but.

00:38:23.760 Rip.

00:38:24.760 He had, like, a nice car.

00:38:26.180 He was pretty hot, like, but, like.

00:38:28.700 What perfect package.

00:38:30.460 Like, he was, he was, he was kind of like a, he was like a player.

00:38:34.320 He was a player.

00:38:34.800 He was not into that.

00:38:35.980 Um, so I was just, like.

00:38:37.020 He was a player?

00:38:37.720 Yeah.

00:38:39.300 Yeah.

00:38:39.540 Wow.

00:38:40.120 So, like, because I, like, talked to his, like, roommates and what, oh my god, everyone's gonna know now.

00:38:46.260 And they're all just, like, yeah, he's a player, like, he has girls all over, all the time, but, like, I don't know.

00:38:51.560 I'm just, I'm, like, I don't want, and then, and then he blocked me because I, like, never, like, get, like, I never, like, like, did anything with him, I guess.

00:39:00.100 Why, why did he block you?

00:39:02.500 I don't know.

00:39:03.360 He just, like, out of the blue.

00:39:04.200 Out of the blue.

00:39:04.800 Oh, yeah.

00:39:05.460 And how many times did you go on dates with him?

00:39:09.160 I wouldn't say dates.

00:39:10.080 Or what, you, like.

00:39:12.040 He bought you in and out.

00:39:13.900 Yeah.

00:39:14.060 What did you get, by the way?

00:39:15.120 You seem like an animal style comic girl. 0.98

00:39:16.800 I am.

00:39:17.520 Yeah.

00:39:18.660 Um, I eat a lot.

00:39:22.340 Um, I'm, like, um, I get, like, um, double, double, single, both animal style, animal style fries, sometimes a shake.

00:39:33.920 God. 0.99

00:39:34.800 Damn. 1.00

00:39:35.120 Damn. 1.00

00:39:35.360 Okay. 0.99

00:39:35.820 Thanks.

00:39:36.620 Um, and so, but you went out with, or, not, not dates, but how many times did this occur before the ghosts happened?

00:39:44.020 Probably, like, the ghost.

00:39:49.800 Probably, like, at least nine times.

00:39:51.640 Nine times.

00:39:52.840 Yeah.

00:39:53.080 Wait, and this guy was, was a player.

00:39:56.260 Yeah.

00:39:56.620 And he went on nine dates with you?

00:39:59.560 Oh.

00:40:00.100 He was, he was really feeling you then.

00:40:02.200 I was, like.

00:40:03.400 And he, nothing?

00:40:05.080 Like, half an hour, like, food sesh.

00:40:08.440 Would he drive?

00:40:09.280 He'd buy me, like, yeah.

00:40:10.140 Would you meet there?

00:40:11.260 He'd pick me up and it's, like.

00:40:12.740 In his, what's his car?

00:40:13.660 What's his car?

00:40:15.020 What's the license plate number?

00:40:17.020 Yeah.

00:40:18.000 What's the VIN?

00:40:19.140 He's got a, he's got a yellow Mustang.

00:40:22.340 Wait, I've seen that guy at In-N-Out.

00:40:24.480 No.

00:40:24.980 I've seen him at In-N-Out.

00:40:26.740 It's loud.

00:40:28.240 Does he play music?

00:40:30.000 Does he blast the music?

00:40:30.880 Yeah, it's, like, electronic, like, Polish music.

00:40:33.780 I've been behind, I have been behind that yellow Mustang at that In-N-Out.

00:40:39.660 He must be.

00:40:40.300 Have you seen his face?

00:40:41.640 I haven't seen his face, but he must be going through that In-N-Out.

00:40:44.200 So, he must be a player, because, I mean.

00:40:45.640 Yeah.

00:40:46.040 I've seen him there at least two or three times.

00:40:47.640 I saw someone back, like, back into the entire In-N-Out drive-thru today.

00:40:52.480 Oh, like, reversed?

00:40:53.340 Yeah.

00:40:53.920 Like, reversed into the whole drive-thru.

00:40:55.820 I've seen a horse.

00:40:56.240 And the opposite your way.

00:40:57.600 I saw a horse go through. 1.00

00:40:59.480 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:41:00.120 Yeah. 1.00

00:41:02.220 Interesting.

00:41:03.060 I think that guys like you more when you don't give them the attention.

00:41:07.100 Like, so, if this guy, like, he's a player, that actually would make sense that he kept

00:41:11.400 taking you to In-N-Out.

00:41:12.400 Oh, my God.

00:41:13.060 Because you weren't giving him the attention.

00:41:15.000 He's probably just used to girls just, like, putting out.

00:41:17.640 I know the answer to this.

00:41:19.180 Okay.

00:41:19.660 This man is extremely cocky. 0.97

00:41:22.260 So, like, he talks, and he's, like, cocky. 1.00

00:41:26.400 He, like, knows that he's hot shit. 1.00

00:41:28.220 He's, like. 1.00

00:41:28.640 I hate those guys.

00:41:29.600 Okay. 0.94

00:41:29.960 Now, everyone's going to know who he is, but I'm not going to say his name.

00:41:32.220 But he's, like, muscular.

00:41:34.020 He's, like, this, like.

00:41:35.740 He's got, like, a European accent.

00:41:37.560 Okay?

00:41:38.280 So, then.

00:41:39.060 Wait.

00:41:39.840 If you're watching.

00:41:41.360 Did we talk about him earlier?

00:41:43.280 Did we talk about him earlier?

00:41:44.320 If you're watching Mustang Guy, we want to hear your side of the story.

00:41:52.160 You're coming on the next show. 0.99

00:41:54.700 But the thing is, like, I knew whatever the fuck he was doing. 0.99

00:41:59.700 I was, like, this man's cocky. 0.99

00:42:01.680 I'm not going to give in to it. 1.00

00:42:03.180 I'm just going to be, like, yeah, you're not hot shit. 0.99

00:42:05.640 I'm just, like, I'm just not going to, like, play into whatever. 0.99

00:42:08.480 So, you finessed him for a double-double animal-style fries and milkshake.

00:42:15.160 Nine times.

00:42:17.160 Wait.

00:42:17.560 What is it out of there now?

00:42:19.020 We need to get a calculator.

00:42:20.180 When did he, uh, did he make his move?

00:42:23.540 Because you said he'd try to, like, kiss her or whatever.

00:42:25.060 Was that the first time you hung out?

00:42:26.380 Or was it, like, the fourth in and out run?

00:42:29.360 No.

00:42:29.760 He didn't try to kiss me.

00:42:31.120 He was just, like, you're going to give me a goodnight kiss.

00:42:33.500 Like, he said like that.

00:42:34.540 I was just, like.

00:42:35.820 I was, like.

00:42:36.260 Ew.

00:42:36.860 Nah, I'm good.

00:42:38.480 So.

00:42:44.260 Wow. 1.00

00:42:45.140 Damn. 1.00

00:42:46.720 Like, if a guy's not, like, we've all been through the situation where it's, like, you 0.99

00:42:50.880 make it known that you don't like a guy.

00:42:52.860 And they just, like, won't leave you alone.

00:42:54.580 And they continue to, like, try.

00:42:56.700 And they continue.

00:42:57.500 And it's, like, all right.

00:42:58.500 Like, if you're not going to leave me, if you're not going to leave me alone anyways,

00:43:02.100 might as well buy me food all the time.

00:43:04.300 Like, if you know that I'm not into you and you just want to buy me food, go for it.

00:43:08.620 I'm not going to stop you, you know?

00:43:10.760 Apparently, Mustang guy is in the chat.

00:43:13.940 And he's Miles.

00:43:14.940 Wait, no.

00:43:16.120 Where?

00:43:16.700 Nah, I think it's probably just some guy messing around.

00:43:19.000 She led me on.

00:43:20.440 But is that his name?

00:43:21.600 Is his name Miles?

00:43:23.620 No.

00:43:24.260 Okay.

00:43:24.940 It's just some random guy messing around.

00:43:27.900 He's got a European name.

00:43:29.380 Wait.

00:43:29.700 So, you were saying that you've been overt with guys and you're like, hey, I'm not interested.

00:43:36.500 But they still pursue you.

00:43:38.100 Yeah.

00:43:38.440 I mean, we've all been through that.

00:43:40.560 Every girl. 1.00

00:43:42.380 Damn. 1.00

00:43:42.840 Yeah. 0.99

00:43:43.080 It's really fun.

00:43:44.720 Especially when, like, you don't know them and they're creepy.

00:43:47.960 And it's just like...

00:43:48.420 But you continued, despite this, you continued...

00:43:51.120 No.

00:43:51.580 That's not what I'm saying.

00:43:52.100 If they're creepy.

00:43:53.120 But you did say that you've let it be known that you're not into the guy, but you'd continue

00:43:58.660 to go out for dinner with him or whatever.

00:44:00.900 Okay.

00:44:01.100 So, you know when, like, you have a guy friend and, like, it is very obvious that he's new.

00:44:05.040 He likes you.

00:44:05.600 He's got a crush.

00:44:06.440 Yeah.

00:44:06.480 He likes you, whatever.

00:44:07.900 And he tries to make a move on you.

00:44:09.420 And you, like, make it known that, like, you're not into him like that.

00:44:12.800 And he keeps...

00:44:13.740 And he still, like, pursues you.

00:44:15.780 You know how it kind of turns into he just, like, wants to, like, be around you?

00:44:20.220 Yeah.

00:44:20.440 You know?

00:44:20.800 And it's, like, okay, like, I liked you as, like, I'll keep hanging out with you as a

00:44:24.980 friend.

00:44:25.140 Like, I will view you as a friend.

00:44:27.060 And if you want to buy me food and stuff because you like me and you know that I don't like

00:44:30.980 you...

00:44:31.260 Yeah.

00:44:31.560 Like, if you want to torture yourself, like, knowing that I don't want to be with you,

00:44:35.940 like, by all means, go ahead.

00:44:37.520 Yeah.

00:44:37.960 Exactly.

00:44:38.200 I also think, like, men, like, like, half the reason why they pursue women is for the

00:44:43.660 chase.

00:44:44.780 Yeah.

00:44:44.900 Like, honestly, like, when, like, honestly, men are...

00:44:49.560 Nope.

00:44:49.800 Their, like, main objective is, like, let's see if I can get this girl.

00:44:56.760 Like, let's see if I can bag this dime.

00:44:59.980 Like, once they get it and then they know, I think, like, half, like, the attraction has

00:45:07.700 decreased.

00:45:08.760 Post-nut clarity.

00:45:09.480 Mm-hmm.

00:45:11.000 I was actually talking...

00:45:12.440 I was talking about this with my guy friends the other day. 0.60

00:45:15.720 And my guy friend was, like, if you want to keep seeing a guy, you can't have sex with 0.80

00:45:20.220 them because immediately when you have sex with them, they lose all feelings. 0.97

00:45:22.760 Yeah. 0.97

00:45:22.860 And I was, like...

00:45:23.940 I sat there. 0.99

00:45:24.700 I was, like, damn it. 0.99

00:45:26.740 You actually like a guy. 0.99

00:45:27.520 That's what my mom says.

00:45:28.300 My mom was always, like, when guys get the milk for free, they never want to, like, buy

00:45:32.480 the cow.

00:45:33.180 Mm-hmm.

00:45:33.640 That's what my mom always told me.

00:45:35.640 Your milkshake.

00:45:38.220 Right.

00:45:38.980 Sorry.

00:45:39.980 I am...

00:45:40.980 Right.

00:45:41.800 There will be blood reference.

00:45:43.060 Okay.

00:45:43.200 So, there...

00:45:46.600 Well, there's a whole lot of things there.

00:45:48.100 So, your guys' experience has been, if you've hooked up with a guy too soon, that's it.

00:45:57.100 That's a wrap.

00:45:57.760 They don't care as much?

00:45:58.580 Yeah.

00:45:59.740 I don't know.

00:46:00.580 So, you have to hold out for as long as possible.

00:46:02.740 Dude.

00:46:03.180 I disagree.

00:46:04.740 Of course you do.

00:46:05.520 I disagree.

00:46:06.220 I'm going to get mad.

00:46:08.220 The sooner, the better.

00:46:10.100 Second, third date, I think, is good.

00:46:12.480 And, could even be the first.

00:46:14.200 I feel...

00:46:14.520 We're on different pages.

00:46:17.120 We are on different pages.

00:46:19.140 I feel like maybe I'm a bit of an outlier, but, like, I wouldn't judge a girl necessarily

00:46:27.980 if she slept with me on, like, the second or third date.

00:46:31.380 In fact, I think a lot of people have...

00:46:33.080 I think both men and women, maybe more so men, have, like, a third date rule.

00:46:37.940 Like, if you don't hook up by the third date, then that's not really a good...

00:46:43.460 What?

00:46:43.920 Yeah.

00:46:44.360 I think the key word here is necessarily...

00:46:46.560 You've heard the third date?

00:46:47.820 No.

00:46:48.220 You've never heard the third date thing?

00:46:49.180 Well, that's never going to apply to me.

00:46:50.900 One time, I hung out with a guy, and I was like, let's...

00:46:54.720 Okay, this guy, he...

00:46:56.080 Okay.

00:46:57.000 They're for sure...

00:46:57.700 This other guy.

00:46:58.620 Okay.

00:46:59.300 He was like...

00:47:00.160 He told me...

00:47:01.100 This is really funny.

00:47:02.160 He told me, I want you to be my girlfriend.

00:47:05.520 And he knows that I don't like hooking up with people.

00:47:08.040 And I'm like, you're so just going to want to hook up with me.

00:47:12.840 And I know that.

00:47:13.740 And then he's like, I swear to God, I will not hook up with you for six months.

00:47:19.440 And I just want to, like, hang out with you, and I want you to be my girlfriend.

00:47:23.420 I hung out with this man for two weeks.

00:47:25.860 What?

00:47:26.860 For two weeks.

00:47:29.620 And then, like, one time he tried to, like, get with me, and I was like, no.

00:47:36.300 And he was like...

00:47:37.380 He literally got mad.

00:47:40.140 I hate when I see that.

00:47:41.880 He was like...

00:47:43.440 It's that...

00:47:44.320 It's like torture at this point.

00:47:46.200 Like...

00:47:46.320 The blue balling man.

00:47:47.420 He's the one who said it. 0.99

00:47:48.300 We've been hanging out for, like, two fucking weeks every day. 1.00

00:47:52.500 I'm like, this is fucking torture. 0.99

00:47:54.040 Like, what do you expect from me? 1.00

00:47:55.780 I'm just like...

00:47:57.300 You said six months, my guy.

00:48:01.340 Like, I can tell...

00:48:03.500 I can, like, read past men.

00:48:05.680 Like, I know what they want.

00:48:07.580 Like, you can...

00:48:08.240 Like, basically, for all, like, the women, like, you basically just have to, like, interpret 1.00

00:48:13.900 everything that a guy is saying as if he's saying it as a way to achieve, like, get closer

00:48:20.700 in getting with you.

00:48:22.940 Like, at least, like...

00:48:24.340 So if a guy says, I want to hook up with you tonight, first date...

00:48:28.420 Not even.

00:48:28.800 Not even.

00:48:29.240 Just say, hey, do you want to come watch Netflix on my house?

00:48:32.780 Red flag.

00:48:33.400 No. 1.00

00:48:33.560 He wants to fuck you. 1.00

00:48:34.340 Um, like, anything, like, oh, like, or you're at a party. 1.00

00:48:40.280 He was like, hey, let's go, like, inside or something.

00:48:44.200 And I was...

00:48:44.900 I went inside, and he was like, let's go to the storage closet.

00:48:49.020 I was like... 1.00

00:48:49.320 What the fuck? 1.00

00:48:50.020 The storage closet? 1.00

00:48:51.940 That's very romantic.

00:48:53.500 I know.

00:48:54.560 It's a great...

00:48:55.000 You didn't live in the house.

00:48:55.880 Great spot.

00:48:56.340 I was like, no, thank you.

00:48:58.760 So, take everything that men say with a grain of salt.

00:49:05.580 I feel like in Isla Vista, that's definitely true.

00:49:07.920 Hopefully, like, when you're not in this, like, hookup culture, it'll be better for a

00:49:13.080 lot of people.

00:49:13.640 Yeah.

00:49:13.940 Because I feel like most of the men here, like, nine out of ten of the people here 1.00

00:49:17.780 are just looking, like, to fuck. 0.99

00:49:20.260 At least in my experience, like, I somehow managed to find someone, like, to date, but 1.00

00:49:25.520 it took me, like, a year and a half of being here to actually find someone, in my opinion,

00:49:30.500 that was worth dating.

00:49:32.120 Because everyone is just always hooking up with each other.

00:49:35.500 I agree.

00:49:36.000 And I mean, like, that's...

00:49:37.780 That's not a problem.

00:49:39.080 Like, if you're on the same page, then, hell yeah.

00:49:42.340 Hookup.

00:49:42.880 Hot girl summer.

00:49:43.840 We're young.

00:49:44.140 Hot girl summer, you know?

00:49:45.520 But, like, going back to what you said, though, because of the gnarly hookup culture here,

00:49:51.540 I mean, let's be honest.

00:49:52.380 Guys will do anything.

00:49:53.440 It's too easy.

00:49:54.760 I don't think that people on this channel don't understand the UCSB hookup culture. 0.97

00:49:59.040 It's ridiculous. 0.52

00:49:59.300 But to give you some context, I have met multiple guys who are bragging about their body counts 0.53

00:50:04.920 being 80 plus.

00:50:06.300 Yeah.

00:50:07.020 Are they...

00:50:07.520 Which fraternity?

00:50:08.880 Which fraternity?

00:50:09.960 Sigma Nu. 0.96

00:50:10.620 Shout out Sigma Nu.

00:50:13.100 I totally believe that.

00:50:14.540 I totally believe that. 1.00

00:50:15.520 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:50:16.100 Okay. 1.00

00:50:16.520 Sigma Nu. 0.96

00:50:17.320 Sorry to the couple Sigma Nu's that I lied.

00:50:18.700 Sigma Nu. 0.96

00:50:19.600 Sigma Nu. 0.96

00:50:20.240 You're invited to come on and...

00:50:21.420 No.

00:50:21.820 No.

00:50:22.220 No.

00:50:22.820 No.

00:50:23.320 No.

00:50:24.120 No.

00:50:24.700 Not Snoo House.

00:50:26.260 And, no.

00:50:27.360 They're just... 1.00

00:50:27.820 They're on some shit. 1.00

00:50:28.700 But, like, for context, like, that is how much people get around here and they're, 1.00

00:50:33.120 like, bragging about it.

00:50:34.300 And I'm like, no one thinks that's hot.

00:50:36.820 Fun fact.

00:50:37.760 We have our own strain of gonorrhea in Isla Vista.

00:50:41.540 Isla Vista has that?

00:50:42.600 It's just our own...

00:50:43.800 It's on the national list of STDs.

00:50:46.860 It's our own, like, strain of gonorrhea.

00:50:49.460 Yes, ma'am.

00:50:50.160 Like, I'm not proud of that.

00:50:51.220 It has evolved in Isla Vista.

00:50:53.940 Chris, can you, on the other window, can you pull up, like, a Google map of Isla Vista just

00:50:58.480 so people understand, just so we can give, like, a context?

00:51:01.680 It's like a horrific little Disneyland.

00:51:03.780 It's one square mile with 25,000 people under the age of 23, I think.

00:51:09.640 We have the highest person per...

00:51:12.080 Or 18 to 23 people per square mile in the country.

00:51:17.760 Yeah.

00:51:18.020 So, basically, guys, there's UCSB, the University of California, Santa Barbara,

00:51:22.500 a.k.a. the University of Casual Sex and Beer, and then there's also Santa Barbara City College.

00:51:29.980 There you go.

00:51:31.540 Okay.

00:51:32.080 Can you...

00:51:32.420 Is it F11?

00:51:33.880 Can you zoom in, Chris?

00:51:34.960 To show what Isla Vista...

00:51:36.220 Give us a satellite view, Chris.

00:51:38.220 Isla Vista is El Calejo right there.

00:51:40.400 Wait.

00:51:40.840 No.

00:51:41.300 No.

00:51:41.600 You want, like, the...

00:51:42.660 The...

00:51:43.280 Yeah.

00:51:44.460 Okay.

00:51:44.760 Zoom in.

00:51:46.240 Zoom in.

00:51:47.300 Oh, God.

00:51:47.440 Bad little square.

00:51:48.680 Are we going to get doxxed here?

00:51:49.840 No, I was about to say, I was like, well, they know we're in Isla Vista.

00:51:54.540 So, you don't have to zoom in there, but on the right, that's fine, Chris, leave it there.

00:51:57.680 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:51:58.380 So, on the right is UCSB, what is it, 20,000, 30,000 students, something like that.

00:52:04.440 Basically, it's a square mile.

00:52:06.400 It's almost 95% students that live in the square mile, and so, I guess, that contributes

00:52:14.220 to a substantial amount of hookup.

00:52:16.940 Because it's just sex and partying, pretty much. 0.67

00:52:20.660 You can go back, Chris.

00:52:22.280 And, like, other colleges, if you want to, like, go over to someone's house, from what

00:52:26.240 I've heard, at least, you have to, like, take an Uber or something, and here, the max walk,

00:52:30.700 like, maximum is 20 minutes.

00:52:33.060 Yeah.

00:52:33.580 And then, yeah, so it's just...

00:52:35.220 Do you guys live in IV?

00:52:36.880 Yeah.

00:52:37.260 Everyone here?

00:52:38.300 Yeah.

00:52:38.620 It's just, like, really weird.

00:52:40.040 Like, you don't see anyone over, like, 24, and no one younger than 18.

00:52:45.300 And if you do, it's weird.

00:52:46.520 Like, it's a crime to bring a child here.

00:52:47.300 I'm like, oh, my God, there's an old person. 1.00

00:52:48.940 I get scared when I see young kids.

00:52:50.760 I'm like, please take them away.

00:52:52.140 No, I once saw, like, a 40-year-old dude at, like, a random party on DP, and I was like,

00:52:57.600 what are you doing here?

00:52:59.320 It's probably...

00:52:59.760 Super, super senior.

00:53:00.880 Yeah.

00:53:01.740 I was like, yeah.

00:53:03.860 Huh.

00:53:04.540 UCSB is a social experiment.

00:53:05.960 They were like, let's put a bunch of hot 20-somethings on the beach with alcohol, and then let's

00:53:12.980 see what happens.

00:53:14.240 And one way in, one way out.

00:53:15.400 Pack as much as you can in one square mile.

00:53:18.260 Oh, yeah, and it's right by the beach, too.

00:53:20.080 Yeah.

00:53:20.140 It's right by the beach.

00:53:20.920 Right on the beach.

00:53:21.500 And they also have, like, 20 people on our houses.

00:53:22.520 Everyone's, like, half naked all the time, partying with a bunch of alcoholics.

00:53:27.740 Every single store here, even the grocery or, like, the co-op or anything, they just sell

00:53:33.400 alcohol.

00:53:34.180 The deli market.

00:53:34.860 You know what, though?

00:53:35.960 I feel like just because the audience is worldwide, I don't know if we should get too much into

00:53:41.940 the dating meta of Isla Vista, just because they're going to be like, this doesn't...

00:53:47.060 Just for context.

00:53:47.740 But just so people understand where you guys are coming from in terms of why you feel the

00:53:54.580 way you do.

00:53:55.760 Chris, why don't we pull up the singular super chat we have?

00:53:59.700 Sure, we have a super chat here.

00:54:02.640 It's very super for Mr. Stephen Krug.

00:54:06.460 Stephen Krug with the $10 super chat.

00:54:08.860 Hey, Stephen, thank you, man.

00:54:09.800 You've been here every single dating stream we've had, so really appreciate you, dude,

00:54:14.820 every time.

00:54:15.260 Snap for Stephen.

00:54:15.880 Thank you, Mr. Krug.

00:54:16.280 Yeah, dude, Stephen.

00:54:17.720 Thank you, man.

00:54:18.700 Monetization idea.

00:54:19.980 What if this podcast has an additional UCSB college chat theme, like a college radio podcast

00:54:25.500 for UCSB might be able to get a bunch of UCSB viewers that way.

00:54:30.360 What if this podcast has an additional chat theme?

00:54:36.860 So it's basically...

00:54:38.360 I mean, it would be dope if a large portion of people who lived in Isla Vista were like,

00:54:46.100 are you going to catch the whatever show tonight, 7 p.m.?

00:54:48.320 That'd be pretty cool.

00:54:49.400 So I definitely was thinking about that, if we got some local buzz going.

00:54:53.560 So, yeah.

00:54:56.360 Oh, let's just get this super chat since we got it in right now.

00:54:59.300 Hi, Brian.

00:54:59.720 Mr. Mojo Rising with the $10 super chat.

00:55:02.960 Hi, Brian.

00:55:03.980 Hello, man.

00:55:04.520 Thank you so much for the support.

00:55:05.760 Really appreciate it, dude.

00:55:06.880 You were here last stream, too, on Tuesday.

00:55:08.940 So I remember your name.

00:55:10.160 Thank you, man.

00:55:10.580 Appreciate it.

00:55:13.500 And, yeah.

00:55:14.900 So, okay.

00:55:16.340 So we hit on, like, a lot of topics there.

00:55:19.540 I'm still curious about the In-N-Out guy.

00:55:22.260 Me, too.

00:55:23.040 We're name-dropping later.

00:55:24.720 I will, yeah.

00:55:25.900 Don't worry about it.

00:55:26.520 So, but, see, what I don't get is if you're a player, like, if he's a player, that means he's got other girls.

00:55:33.800 He doesn't.

00:55:34.600 Well, I told you.

00:55:35.460 He just, like, wanted to see if he could get me.

00:55:38.000 He couldn't.

00:55:38.540 But I feel like most players are going to move on.

00:55:40.700 Like, if you're not.

00:55:42.340 No, he wants to see if he can get me.

00:55:44.800 They like the chase.

00:55:45.800 They like the chase.

00:55:46.360 It's all the chase.

00:55:47.300 It's a game.

00:55:48.160 Everyone likes the chase.

00:55:49.300 You can't play up to the chase.

00:55:51.300 No.

00:55:51.520 We all want what we can't have.

00:55:52.640 There are some, there's some masochists out there. 1.00

00:55:55.460 But, like, most, most guys don't want to, they don't want to be challenged.

00:56:00.900 They don't want, they don't want to.

00:56:01.800 They want the challenge.

00:56:02.340 They don't.

00:56:03.040 They love the challenge.

00:56:05.040 But here's the thing, though.

00:56:05.820 You do that.

00:56:06.460 The more fun it is, they'll be, like, the more fun it is for them.

00:56:10.120 But you do that, and you may very well, if you push away a guy you like, too.

00:56:14.600 Exactly.

00:56:15.000 So it's like.

00:56:15.620 It's like the delicate balance of, like.

00:56:17.160 You do that.

00:56:17.920 Yeah.

00:56:18.180 The tease.

00:56:18.780 Like, how much is too much?

00:56:20.280 Yeah.

00:56:20.760 What if I just don't want him because he's a player?

00:56:23.780 I'm just like.

00:56:24.440 Well, you were finessing him.

00:56:25.560 You were doing the finesse.

00:56:26.500 You were.

00:56:27.120 You were doing the finesse.

00:56:28.060 But, I mean, I mean, at least for me and a lot of guys I've spoken to, like, if the girl's playing hard to get or it's just, like, moving kind of slow.

00:56:39.520 And, like, bear in mind, so I think maybe.

00:56:41.480 Well, he did block me, so.

00:56:43.540 After nine dates, I think that's excessive.

00:56:45.800 But, I mean, at least for me, like, if, and again, I might be an outlier here.

00:56:50.920 If I sleep with a girl, I want to pursue that. 0.99

00:56:52.840 I want to keep seeing her.

00:56:54.180 So, for me, it's like second, third date.

00:56:57.120 I'm not going to look at you a different kind of way.

00:56:59.140 There's, to me, there's other better indicators than the speed in which a girl sleeps with you to see if, like, she's for the streets. 0.94

00:57:08.040 There's better indicators than, like, how quick she sleeps with you. 1.00

00:57:10.480 I would hope so.

00:57:11.200 I think.

00:57:11.680 You sound like a nice guy, though.

00:57:13.560 But I don't think that.

00:57:15.480 I have my moments.

00:57:16.400 I have my moments.

00:57:17.020 You're speaking for the majority of UCSB.

00:57:20.180 So, okay.

00:57:20.900 Yeah, I mean.

00:57:21.600 They just want to.

00:57:22.320 No, literally, I hear guys, the way that guys talk about girls.

00:57:25.920 Oh, my God.

00:57:26.400 This was, okay, I was at home in Huntington Beach, and my friend and I were sitting there tanning, and there's these, like, three guys sitting with these, like, three girls, and the girls, like, went to swim in the ocean.

00:57:37.520 And, like, one of the guys was, like, so, like, I don't mean to intrude, but what are you guys?

00:57:41.040 And he's, like, oh, I don't like her. 1.00

00:57:42.800 I just fuck her. 1.00

00:57:44.220 Like, in that voice. 1.00

00:57:45.300 Yikes.

00:57:45.540 And then I was, like, whoa. 1.00

00:57:47.020 And then she's, like, she wants to date me, but, like, I just, like, want to fuck her. 1.00

00:57:51.000 Like, in exact tone. 1.00

00:57:52.500 Like, that's.

00:57:52.840 Oh, I mean, there's definitely, there's definitely guys with the locker room talk, and there's certainly guys that just want to run through a bunch of girls.

00:58:00.060 They want to, to me, though, like, the whole sleep with somebody once and then never see them again, I think that's weird.

00:58:07.460 I think that's weird.

00:58:08.460 Even when I was younger, even when I was 18, 19, 20, if I hooked up with a girl, I wanted to pursue it.

00:58:13.740 Did it always go somewhere?

00:58:14.860 No.

00:58:15.440 But, like, there's only maybe a couple times where, on my end, I was, like, I only want to hook up with this girl once.

00:58:22.820 I've had girls actually hook up with me, and sometimes girls also, they just want to, you know. 0.96

00:58:28.040 I honestly feel like it's a phase that a bunch of people, like, kind of have to, your little hoe phase, where you're, like, oh, I'm going to sleep with a bunch of people, like, oh, I'm so bad. 0.99

00:58:36.440 Like, I'm just going to never see them again.

00:58:38.800 Like, that's so hot.

00:58:39.860 Like, that's so sexy. 0.90

00:58:40.500 And then as you, like, grow out of that, you're, like, wow, that was kind of disgusting. 0.70

00:58:45.120 Yeah, seriously.

00:58:46.680 But no shame in the hoe phase. 1.00

00:58:47.780 No shame in the hoe phase. 1.00

00:58:48.540 Everyone wants to have the hoe phase. 1.00

00:58:49.920 No shame.

00:58:50.720 A little shame?

00:58:52.020 Maybe a little?

00:58:52.740 Well, that's a thing.

00:58:53.340 No.

00:58:53.860 You need to find out where you like, what works for you.

00:58:57.640 No, but that's the thing is, have you ever slept with someone and regretted it?

00:59:01.380 Yeah.

00:59:01.880 So, then.

00:59:02.460 That's part of it.

00:59:03.180 Then that's the shame part of it.

00:59:04.440 That's a shame aspect.

00:59:05.120 Well, but it's still funny.

00:59:06.100 Like, all my regrets make funny stories, so I don't really regret them.

00:59:08.940 It's true.

00:59:09.640 The little anecdote. 1.00

00:59:10.900 Like, oh, my God, can you believe that I fucked him? 1.00

00:59:12.980 Like, ew. 1.00

00:59:13.980 Yeah.

00:59:14.380 Or, like, you can, like, hook up with someone, like, for the clout, you know?

00:59:17.340 The clout?

00:59:18.400 Yeah.

00:59:18.660 Girl. 1.00

00:59:18.900 Who did you fuck for the clout? 1.00

00:59:20.320 Yeah. 1.00

00:59:20.900 Name drop.

00:59:21.300 Name drop.

00:59:21.640 Name drop.

00:59:22.020 He was in Sigma Nu, wasn't he?

00:59:24.000 No.

00:59:24.480 No.

00:59:25.800 He doesn't go to UCSB.

00:59:27.460 Oh.

00:59:27.660 Is he, like, famous?

00:59:28.280 Is he famous?

00:59:29.020 Does he have a blue check?

00:59:29.840 Kind of.

00:59:30.320 Blue check?

00:59:30.860 I have a blue check.

00:59:31.480 Musician?

00:59:33.660 Athlete?

00:59:34.880 Stripper? 1.00

00:59:35.700 No, athlete.

00:59:36.440 Okay.

00:59:36.880 Male stripper? 0.98

00:59:37.720 No.

00:59:38.160 There's some.

00:59:39.280 You went from athlete, she said yes to a stripper. 1.00

00:59:41.400 Yeah, I was like, is stripping an athletic event now?

00:59:44.340 That's a sport, right?

00:59:45.660 Yeah.

00:59:46.200 Porqué, no los dos.

00:59:47.500 Oh, you're definitely name dropping after this.

00:59:49.140 Yeah, 100%.

00:59:50.200 I'll show you.

00:59:50.780 I have, too.

00:59:51.600 He's super ripped, really.

00:59:52.840 Is it all the same?

00:59:53.540 What was the name for?

00:59:55.220 What was the call?

00:59:55.620 I can't say it because then if people are here from my account, then they're going to

01:00:00.900 know.

01:00:01.840 Yeah.

01:00:02.880 By the way, Kylie has an OnlyFans.

01:00:04.740 Yeah, by the way.

01:00:05.680 Throw that in there. 0.98

01:00:06.420 Reminder, as we're talking more about this, go check it out.

01:00:09.940 It's going to be worth your while.

01:00:11.620 Wait, circling back, though, but you're not, you're saying that, oh, you've always wanted

01:00:18.580 to actually date the girl.

01:00:23.020 Sure.

01:00:23.200 You're not, you're not in a college town or you're not our age where it's like literally

01:00:29.780 a constant revolving door of just hot people and cool people and it's like, you've got

01:00:34.860 a lot of options, you know, man?

01:00:36.180 Yeah.

01:00:36.580 It's overwhelming.

01:00:37.700 I mean, so I grew up in Santa Barbara, so like, I'm a bit older, so, but you know, I had

01:00:42.280 my fun when I was, I was younger.

01:00:44.960 But even then, like when I was younger, to me, to me, it didn't make sense to only hook

01:00:49.580 up one time with a girl.

01:00:50.920 Now, certainly there's situations where, again, like the girl, she was in her mode

01:00:57.360 and she just wanted to hook up once, whatever.

01:01:00.220 Maybe I didn't put down the, how's it go?

01:01:04.420 Put down the dizzle.

01:01:06.140 I didn't.

01:01:06.560 What?

01:01:06.980 The dizzle?

01:01:08.000 The dizzle.

01:01:08.340 What year were you born in?

01:01:09.300 Yeah, what?

01:01:09.840 Don't worry about it.

01:01:11.400 No, but, no, but, no, I'm trying to, I was watching this Curb Your Enthusiasm episode

01:01:17.480 and they referred, Larry David referred to it as the dizzle.

01:01:21.460 Anyways, or no, it was his housemate.

01:01:24.000 Anyways, so, but, where am I going with this?

01:01:29.020 Yeah.

01:01:29.280 No, I didn't.

01:01:29.640 I'm losing my train of thought.

01:01:31.200 Everything's moving quick.

01:01:32.200 The dizzle.

01:01:32.800 Yeah, no, so, I want to continue seeing a girl if I sleep with her, even if it's second, 1.00

01:01:38.440 third date.

01:01:38.800 What if it's bad?

01:01:39.700 Yeah, yeah.

01:01:40.320 What do you mean?

01:01:40.940 The sex is bad? 0.56

01:01:41.080 Like, what if the sex is really bad?

01:01:43.700 Then you're like, they don't want to be bad. 0.99

01:01:44.600 I mean, she has to fuck up pretty bad for this, and here's an, this could actually be 0.90

01:01:49.440 an interesting conversation, like, first, I know pretty much exactly what I want and 0.99

01:01:55.100 I like to take the lead, and so, like, I guess, I mean, but, but I do think, I actually

01:02:03.560 do think it's, it's a bit easier for a girl to be good in bed, let's say. 0.98

01:02:10.960 Yeah, it is.

01:02:11.720 In so far as there's not, you don't really gotta do much.

01:02:16.840 You don't really gotta do much.

01:02:18.600 And if the, and, well, it depends.

01:02:20.340 It depends.

01:02:20.900 Depends on who you've been sleeping with.

01:02:21.820 If the guy knows, if the guy knows what, what he wants, he knows how to lead, if he's 0.97

01:02:26.880 prefers to be a bit more dominant, then, like, I can take a virgin, and I could, the sex 0.99

01:02:34.320 will be good. 1.00

01:02:34.800 I could craft her into a sex demon. 1.00

01:02:37.160 Yes. 1.00

01:02:37.700 Oh my God.

01:02:39.140 Get that.

01:02:39.640 Oh, yeah.

01:02:40.580 Me and Kiki, by the way.

01:02:42.180 No, but I mean, like, that, that could be, wait, what?

01:02:47.560 Dude.

01:02:48.300 That's your virgin? 1.00

01:02:49.280 Is she a virgin? 0.99

01:02:50.040 Well, her, me and her, strictly business, her virtue is intact.

01:02:55.880 Business casual or just, like, strictly business?

01:02:57.760 Strictly business, strictly business.

01:02:59.480 Risky business?

01:03:01.600 Strictly business, strictly business.

01:03:03.720 But Kylie's gonna arrange something afterwards, so. 0.76

01:03:06.080 Oh, I'm most of them.

01:03:07.240 Kylie, Kylie wanted to undress her earlier.

01:03:11.980 You mean it?

01:03:12.660 That's a boy.

01:03:14.400 Is she overage? 0.96

01:03:14.820 She wanted to do more, you wanted to do more than undress, but. 1.00

01:03:18.040 That is, I usually do.

01:03:19.800 On that note, though, like, girls are way more emotionally involved, usually, you know?

01:03:25.300 Like.

01:03:25.640 I agree with that.

01:03:26.320 Like, we're, I would say, just a lot more complicated than you guys are.

01:03:30.740 Yeah.

01:03:30.860 Y'all are pretty simple.

01:03:31.960 It's like, bam, bam, done, you know?

01:03:34.120 Girls, it's like, okay, here's a puzzle. 0.95

01:03:36.180 Here's a quiz.

01:03:37.140 Like, what's this, this, this, and this? 0.92

01:03:39.360 The clitoris is the Rubik's Cube of nature. 1.00

01:03:41.880 What even is that? 0.97

01:03:42.900 I'm kidding.

01:03:43.840 I'm kidding.

01:03:44.360 What? 0.78

01:03:44.480 What even is the clitoris? 1.00

01:03:45.940 I've never heard of that. 0.84

01:03:47.160 What is that thing?

01:03:48.120 What is the clitoris? 1.00

01:03:49.140 It actually doesn't exist. 0.51

01:03:50.220 What is that?

01:03:50.900 We have a class at UCSB that's all about, like, sex.

01:03:54.780 Yeah, we do.

01:03:55.260 And they, it's called SOC 152A.

01:03:57.540 This, like, old couple teaches it together.

01:03:59.160 They're so cute.

01:03:59.820 And they were, they talked about how, like, men's hormones after you have sex are, like,

01:04:06.220 they make you, like, unattached, and women's hormones make you, like, fall in love. 1.00

01:04:10.260 Post-net clarity, man.

01:04:11.640 Like, it's, like, completely opposite, which is, like, why would they do that to us?

01:04:14.960 That's so rude.

01:04:16.560 Like, that's, like, their, like, God was out to get us.

01:04:20.020 God.

01:04:21.540 I just have a quick question.

01:04:23.040 What's up?

01:04:23.300 So, circling back to what you were saying earlier, Al, about how, like, you think, like,

01:04:28.020 the guy should always pay.

01:04:29.620 So, the kid will, in the comments, said, like, what if you're dating?

01:04:34.580 Do you think that if you're actually dating, he should always pay as well?

01:04:38.160 That's a good question.

01:04:39.100 I was going to ask that.

01:04:39.820 Thank you.

01:04:40.260 That'd be great.

01:04:41.560 If we're, if we're dating, first of all, I don't have that much dating experience.

01:04:45.160 One month, by the way.

01:04:46.700 Yeah.

01:04:47.780 The guy that I did date, like, he would fight me to pay.

01:04:51.600 And I would be, like, okay.

01:04:55.220 But the thing is, I would, like, fight him back.

01:04:57.920 I would, I would give him the same energy.

01:05:00.120 I'd be, like, no, I'm going to pay for my own food, blah, blah, blah.

01:05:02.600 And he'd fight me back to pay.

01:05:04.500 But, like, you can't really expect that from guys these days.

01:05:11.780 But I think when we're dating, I think anything's game.

01:05:17.540 But especially, especially if you're the one who's, like, making the plans.

01:05:23.960 If you're making the plans, then, like, say, oh, let's go to dinner tonight, blah, blah, blah.

01:05:30.540 Then I'd say I would pay for mine.

01:05:33.340 And then if he, or, like, I think, like, I don't really think about it too much.

01:05:40.420 I think I just, like, whatever, like, in the moment.

01:05:43.060 Like, if the check's there, I'll grab it.

01:05:45.500 Like, I mean, I paid.

01:05:47.860 I was hanging out with my dude friends last night.

01:05:50.380 Shout out.

01:05:52.320 I think they're watching anyways.

01:05:54.160 I sent them the link.

01:05:54.900 But I paid for their bill.

01:05:58.100 So it was $120.

01:06:02.320 You paid for the whole thing?

01:06:03.200 They bought us the Albertsons the other day.

01:06:06.160 All of them.

01:06:06.920 When we went.

01:06:07.900 Oh, yeah.

01:06:08.540 Yeah.

01:06:09.560 See, it's, like, it's, like, a cooperative thing.

01:06:11.660 Like, they do something and then you do something.

01:06:14.360 It's not always, like, you doing something all the time.

01:06:17.280 And, like, honestly, money isn't, like, I'm, like, pretty, I'm, like, pretty, um, like, grateful for, like, everything that I have.

01:06:25.600 So, like, money isn't really the most important thing for me.

01:06:28.960 I'm not going to be your sugar mama. 0.86

01:06:30.920 But I do enjoy, I think that your company, your time is the most valuable thing that's happening.

01:06:39.760 Okay, hear me out.

01:06:41.580 If you're dating, how about the person who comes more?

01:06:45.860 Pays for everything.

01:06:46.660 Oh, hell yeah.

01:06:48.360 I have, can we do that?

01:06:49.560 Fun fact, that has never happened to me.

01:06:51.680 The person who has orgasms more. 0.65

01:06:52.860 Who orgasms the most. 0.97

01:06:54.640 Really?

01:06:55.220 Fun fact, I've never orgasmed from another end.

01:06:57.320 No, you, like, keep a tally.

01:06:58.380 I'm so sorry.

01:06:59.200 Whoever, whoever comes more.

01:07:02.000 That's a good rule.

01:07:02.920 Yeah, I think it's a good rule.

01:07:04.560 When I had a boyfriend, I would, we would trade off a lot of the time.

01:07:09.820 Like, paying-wise?

01:07:10.960 Yeah, I didn't want him, I felt bad, like, paying for me all the time.

01:07:14.240 Like, that gets expensive.

01:07:15.200 Like, in the end, you're both still, like, little, like, you're still humans and, like,

01:07:19.380 money and stuff.

01:07:20.400 I don't know.

01:07:21.300 But it's like, a first date is so much different than, like, a boyfriend.

01:07:24.100 100%.

01:07:24.500 That's what I'm saying.

01:07:25.100 Totally different.

01:07:25.880 I don't know.

01:07:26.460 Make it fun.

01:07:27.200 Make a game out of it.

01:07:28.120 Like, you don't want to pay for dinner tonight?

01:07:29.520 Okay.

01:07:30.140 Prove it.

01:07:31.380 Then I'm never paying for dinner.

01:07:33.700 Oh, girl.

01:07:35.460 What did I miss? 0.99

01:07:36.880 We're talking about orgasms without you. 0.94

01:07:38.760 So, whoever, whoever comes most pays. 0.80

01:07:42.900 Because I feel like a lot of guys don't really care, you know?

01:07:46.100 Especially, like, during hookup culture, but I want to be dating someone who cares enough.

01:07:50.620 You know what I mean?

01:07:51.060 Yeah.

01:07:51.840 I don't know.

01:07:52.240 My rule is she comes first. 1.00

01:07:54.060 Thank you.

01:07:54.680 She comes first. 0.81

01:07:55.540 A lot of men, SB, don't think that.

01:07:59.360 No, she's got to come first.

01:08:00.560 Like, that's my rule.

01:08:01.680 But, I mean, I feel like that's, I mean, a lot of women can have multiple orgasms, though. 0.99

01:08:07.140 So, that might, I'm down with it, you know, if she comes more than she pays. 0.90

01:08:13.320 But, y'all can come, like, some of y'all can come, like, five times in five minutes, you know?

01:08:20.000 So, okay.

01:08:21.700 Yeah, we should maybe put that into, like, a law, maybe.

01:08:24.380 Put that on my gravestone.

01:08:26.500 Put that on my gravestone. 1.00

01:08:27.800 Your fucking epitaph. 1.00

01:08:29.400 I'm announcing my candidacy for mayor of Isla Vista. 1.00

01:08:34.440 Where I'm going to...

01:08:36.320 Orgasms for everyone. 0.56

01:08:38.000 Oh, hell yeah.

01:08:39.700 Campaign slogan.

01:08:41.380 Orgasms for everyone.

01:08:44.060 Free vibrators.

01:08:45.600 Cool.

01:08:47.180 So, going back to the foodie call thing, we went on some crazy tangents with you.

01:08:52.320 We, like, made it to the air.

01:08:53.240 I have a lot of stories.

01:08:55.360 We'll get some of those.

01:08:56.940 Have you ever been on a foodie call?

01:09:00.060 Oh, by the way, just for those of you tuning in, a foodie call is generally, well, I guess a guy could do a foodie call, too.

01:09:08.800 But if a woman goes on a date with a guy, the guy has a romantic interest in her, but she is really just there for the dinner. 0.90

01:09:19.200 She doesn't have any authentic intention to date him.

01:09:22.820 Have you ever been on a foodie call?

01:09:24.380 I mean, no, because I think that it would be, like, gut-wrenching and terrible to just sit there and listen to someone that you don't like.

01:09:33.520 Stop the cap. 0.94

01:09:34.400 But wait, just earlier, didn't you say that there was a guy who you were...

01:09:40.080 Of course, that's different.

01:09:41.400 But he was into you.

01:09:42.640 Yeah.

01:09:43.240 Well, no, I'm not saying that that happened.

01:09:45.520 I mean, it kind of happened to me.

01:09:46.480 But what I'm saying is that, like, in general, if a guy is into you and they're aware of the fact that you're not into them and they still just want to do things for you, I just don't think there's anything wrong with that.

01:10:00.100 And it's like, and if you're cool with it, like, he's very obvious.

01:10:03.640 It's very known that he's being used.

01:10:05.600 I mean, some guys are into that, you know?

01:10:08.400 Blinded by love.

01:10:09.140 But, like, yeah, no.

01:10:10.820 Personally, though, no.

01:10:12.160 I don't think I've ever been on, like, a foodie date.

01:10:16.000 I do have a deal with my friend right now, though.

01:10:18.000 Actually, this morning, my guy friend.

01:10:19.600 I drove him around for, like, a day.

01:10:20.980 Basically, he's Uber.

01:10:21.900 So, he's been buying my In-N-Out for, like, the past couple days.

01:10:24.320 That's fair.

01:10:25.060 Especially with gas prices.

01:10:26.640 Oh, yeah.

01:10:27.720 I've never been on a foodie call, but I feel like it's mostly because I get a lot of anxiety eating in front of, like, guys that I'm on dates with.

01:10:36.120 Like, I don't know.

01:10:36.900 For the first date, yeah.

01:10:38.020 Yeah.

01:10:38.320 And just, like, in general, honestly, like, you won't, unless I'm really comfortable with the person, you won't see me, like, chomping down a burger.

01:10:44.940 In front of them.

01:10:46.060 I just think food dates are kind of awkward because.

01:10:48.320 Yeah.

01:10:48.620 That's what I'm saying in the zoo, bro.

01:10:49.860 Yeah.

01:10:50.300 Especially early on when you're not quite yet comfortable in silence.

01:10:56.400 There's this feeling of you want to always have something to say or have.

01:11:02.340 Otherwise, there's that awkward silence, which doesn't exist if you've been with someone for longer.

01:11:07.240 Then you can sit comfortably in silence and it's not a big deal.

01:11:09.920 Definitely.

01:11:10.320 But, like, you kind of want to eat.

01:11:13.260 Yeah.

01:11:13.500 And, like, then the food gets cold, you know.

01:11:18.460 And you feel like you need to be talking and feeling the time, but, like, you both don't even want to be.

01:11:22.560 I don't know.

01:11:22.720 Yeah.

01:11:23.020 It's, that's why I was saying, like, going to the beach or going to the zoo is so much more, like, that's so much more my vibe for, like, a date.

01:11:31.100 And I like casual things where I can really get to, you're not going to actually get to know who a person is through, like, I like through actions.

01:11:38.400 Like, so you have to go on, like, a date and, like, doing something versus, like, they're all talk if you're just sitting there at dinner and they're talking about themselves.

01:11:45.760 Like, I don't care.

01:11:46.660 I want to see, you know.

01:11:48.740 Drinks are good.

01:11:49.940 Like, getting drinks.

01:11:50.800 Getting drinks, yeah.

01:11:51.720 But then you get, like, progressively more drunk.

01:11:55.540 It's easier.

01:11:57.920 Kylie, ever been on a foodie call?

01:12:00.020 Um, not in person, for sure, but, like, as a streamer, I have a lot of, like, people, just random people slide into my DMs being, like, oh, like, let me spoil you.

01:12:11.160 Like, let me pay for whatever.

01:12:14.460 I've had people send me, like, food.

01:12:17.400 Like, they've sent me money over Venmo so that I can, like, get a meal on stream and, like, eat it because I guess they like that, like, they like knowing that they gave that to me, I guess.

01:12:30.020 So, in that way, yeah, but I've never, like, really tried to manipulate or, like, take advantage of someone.

01:12:37.200 It's just, if they're offering and I'm, like, okay, like, sure, by all means.

01:12:42.720 And are these people in Santa Barbara or just from?

01:12:45.980 No, no, no, no, just, like, everyone because, like, TikTok, exactly, like, TikTok, my, I think my second most viewed, like, country is just Britain.

01:12:56.580 Like, literally people from Europe could be watching my stream and, like, sending me stuff.

01:13:01.380 And that's pretty, I think that's pretty cool.

01:13:02.800 Like, I love connecting with people, especially if it, like, gives me a free slushie, you know what I mean?

01:13:06.780 You seem like the type of girl, looks-wise, that British guys would like.

01:13:12.020 Really?

01:13:12.600 That's, like, the strangest compliment.

01:13:14.140 I don't know.

01:13:14.760 Is that a compliment?

01:13:15.660 It might not be.

01:13:17.860 That's weird.

01:13:18.860 My, my, um.

01:13:20.840 I'm kidding, I'm kidding.

01:13:21.660 My audience on TikTok is mostly Australia.

01:13:24.580 It's really weird.

01:13:25.420 Yeah, like, I think it's kind of how it shows you.

01:13:27.700 Like, it just shows you where.

01:13:28.500 I think it's because of your Sailor Moon TikTok that you did.

01:13:31.140 What, what about that does?

01:13:33.520 In Australia?

01:13:34.540 Yeah.

01:13:35.100 I don't know.

01:13:37.500 Don't know.

01:13:38.060 Mine is, like, old men, so. 0.98

01:13:41.020 Um, so, okay.

01:13:43.380 But you said guys would DM you, like, slide into your DMs?

01:13:46.620 Oh, all the time.

01:13:47.820 Like, the.

01:13:48.420 How many DMs?

01:13:48.960 Do you get, like, at least a few DMs a day?

01:13:50.780 Oh, um, when, whenever, like, a TikTok would blow up, get, like, hundreds of thousands

01:13:55.580 of views, I would get, like, thousands of new DMs.

01:13:58.080 Like, yes.

01:13:59.060 You're not exaggerating.

01:13:59.740 Thousands.

01:13:59.840 Not exaggerating in the slightest, because.

01:14:01.560 Just from TikTok.

01:14:02.580 Yeah, just from, like, TikTok.

01:14:03.580 How many, but, like, when you say you get a lot of views.

01:14:06.740 On, like, a TikTok?

01:14:08.340 A couple hundred thousand.

01:14:09.540 A couple hundred thousand to, like, a million, like, around there.

01:14:12.240 It just depends on, like, if it gets on the For You page, you know.

01:14:14.800 What do you post on TikTok?

01:14:16.200 Well, on that one.

01:14:17.040 Is, like, clear straps for OnlyFans?

01:14:18.600 No, not at all.

01:14:19.300 It's literally just gaming content.

01:14:20.780 Really?

01:14:21.240 Yeah.

01:14:22.060 That makes sense, because a lot of guys consume gaming stuff.

01:14:25.100 It would be linked to, like, the gaming Instagram that I have, and then they would just, like,

01:14:29.220 shoot me an Apex pickup line, you know, be, like.

01:14:32.120 Some of them are really weird.

01:14:34.020 Like, my DMs on that account are a horrible place.

01:14:38.520 I can imagine. 1.00

01:14:39.360 I discovered that a small penis humiliation is a thing. 0.99

01:14:43.140 Oh, I've been known. 0.99

01:14:44.100 It was on Euphoria.

01:14:45.280 Yeah.

01:14:45.880 No, I got to go through that.

01:14:48.500 It was pretty, pretty awesome.

01:14:50.120 You, like, phone call them? 1.00

01:14:51.080 Yeah, you just got to talk shit. 1.00

01:14:52.660 Get paid for it. 0.99

01:14:53.960 Was that a service that you provided on your OnlyFans?

01:14:57.500 Not at that point.

01:14:58.200 Because I know that on OnlyFans, the guys can request videos, and they can also chat with

01:15:03.000 you, right?

01:15:03.580 Mm-hmm.

01:15:03.960 And so I imagine that some guys will get into their kinks or whatever.

01:15:10.340 Oh, 100%. 1.00

01:15:11.320 Small penis humiliation is, uh, the first time I saw that, I was, like, what the fuck? 0.99

01:15:18.000 Like, I didn't realize people were into that in the slightest, but it's actually pretty 0.99

01:15:21.620 common. 1.00

01:15:22.560 Like, if your dick is this small, like, what are you going to do with it except get degraded? 1.00

01:15:27.120 Can you show us again? 1.00

01:15:29.400 Probably like that.

01:15:30.240 Have you guys ever seen a micropenis?

01:15:31.840 Yeah.

01:15:33.020 Have you?

01:15:34.040 Wait, like, in person?

01:15:35.360 Yes.

01:15:35.760 Was it the Mustang guy?

01:15:36.620 Is that why you didn't?

01:15:38.080 I've never, like, I've never even made out with him.

01:15:42.080 Okay.

01:15:42.980 Yeah.

01:15:43.560 But I have, yeah.

01:15:45.020 I left immediately.

01:15:47.000 I'm sorry.

01:15:47.200 Wait, the micro guy?

01:15:48.660 Yeah.

01:15:49.120 You left?

01:15:50.020 Yes.

01:15:50.440 Immediately.

01:15:51.120 Whoa, hold on.

01:15:52.880 Are you exaggerating?

01:15:54.620 Like, you left immediately?

01:15:57.340 Immediately.

01:15:58.460 It's, like, it startled me.

01:16:00.380 It scared you.

01:16:01.420 Yeah.

01:16:01.600 So I'm scared.

01:16:02.260 You were frightened.

01:16:03.040 Do you know?

01:16:03.860 Wait.

01:16:04.100 I don't think you understand what a micropenis is.

01:16:05.960 Oh, I understand.

01:16:06.880 It's, like, it's, like, it's, like, a belly button, but, like, an Audi.

01:16:10.740 That's it.

01:16:11.520 Yeah.

01:16:11.920 Like, an Audi.

01:16:12.720 A very aggressive Audi.

01:16:13.800 Because there's guys who, there are guys who are growers, not showers.

01:16:17.960 No, he, he, he is fully grown.

01:16:19.720 He, legit, he was a wreck.

01:16:21.200 Fully grown.

01:16:22.340 Fully grown.

01:16:22.860 Fully erect.

01:16:24.000 Fully erect. 1.00

01:16:24.720 Damn. 1.00

01:16:25.040 Oh, my God. 0.99

01:16:25.500 And I'm so sorry for this man, but I'm sorry for, I wish him the best in life.

01:16:30.900 So did you, when you left, were you just, like, I gotta go?

01:16:37.520 I was, like.

01:16:38.220 Like, did you, did you say anything to him?

01:16:40.820 I was, like, sorry.

01:16:43.820 And then I left.

01:16:44.960 Oh, he must have, like, cried himself to sleep.

01:16:46.700 Like, what are you supposed to do?

01:16:47.780 Like, kiss it, you know?

01:16:48.940 Yeah.

01:16:49.300 Like, you can't really do that.

01:16:50.520 Yeah, you're giving me nothing to work with.

01:16:52.400 I'm not, I'm not gay.

01:16:53.520 I'm sorry.

01:16:54.540 Like.

01:16:55.240 A finger job. 0.66

01:16:56.480 If I wanted to be with a girl, I would. 0.55

01:16:59.440 But, like, nah.

01:17:00.940 Hello, darkness, my old friend.

01:17:04.560 Wow. 1.00

01:17:05.220 Goddamn. 0.99

01:17:06.700 This is, like, the third conversation about micropenises I've had in, like, the past week. 0.99

01:17:10.520 Micropenai.

01:17:10.720 I don't know what's going on.

01:17:12.700 Micropenai.

01:17:13.640 Thank you.

01:17:14.800 So, that must have been pretty brutal for him.

01:17:18.080 Wait, was it Aline?

01:17:19.720 Wait, is that actually Andrew Tate?

01:17:21.580 Yeah, that's what I was going to say.

01:17:22.560 Am I going to get canceled?

01:17:23.740 No.

01:17:24.180 No, it's definitely.

01:17:24.780 He's coming on the show, though.

01:17:25.900 We already are.

01:17:27.200 No, that's not him. 0.99

01:17:28.600 No fucking way. 0.99

01:17:29.240 No. 1.00

01:17:29.420 It's probably just some guy posing as him.

01:17:31.300 Andrew Tate, we've been DMing.

01:17:33.820 If that's actually you.

01:17:35.600 No, that's just some guy posing as Andrew Tate.

01:17:37.760 For sure.

01:17:38.780 We will get Andrew Tate, guys, in, I think, November.

01:17:42.380 He will come on the show.

01:17:43.320 Are you serious?

01:17:43.440 He will be a guest.

01:17:44.100 Can I be there?

01:17:44.960 Yeah, can I please?

01:17:45.780 Can we be there?

01:17:46.160 Yes.

01:17:47.040 Hell yeah.

01:17:47.520 We actually went.

01:17:48.440 So he said, he might not like them.

01:17:53.340 Well, he said that he's going to be in the States in November, December.

01:17:57.300 And I've been texting him since October.

01:17:59.680 Who is that?

01:18:01.260 He's like this super viral. 0.99

01:18:04.520 He hates women. 0.98

01:18:05.860 You know what, though? 0.98

01:18:06.720 I think it's a bit of an act. 0.99

01:18:07.980 Like incel type shit. 0.99

01:18:08.320 No, I was talking to someone about this literally yesterday. 0.99

01:18:10.980 He's definitely not an incel, though.

01:18:12.220 Me too.

01:18:12.840 He's not.

01:18:13.520 He's very educated on his opinions.

01:18:15.380 It's just like, I feel like he says.

01:18:17.920 He has some hot takes.

01:18:18.960 Yeah.

01:18:19.200 He's just, I feel like sometimes he layers it on, like, just to get, like, the clickbait.

01:18:23.880 You know what I mean?

01:18:24.280 Like, oh, Andrew Tate says that.

01:18:25.640 He says controversial things, and it clearly works, because he went, because I was talking

01:18:30.540 to him back in October.

01:18:32.640 I was actually aware of Andrew Tate since, like, 2019, 2020.

01:18:36.380 But I think a couple months ago, he had, like, 200,000, 300,000 followers on Instagram.

01:18:40.940 He's got, like, 2.5 or 3 mil on Instagram now.

01:18:44.660 He's been blown up on TikTok.

01:18:46.660 A bunch of people are interviewing him.

01:18:48.000 And he's very interesting.

01:18:51.120 I don't agree with him on everything.

01:18:53.040 Something, I definitely agree with him on some stuff.

01:18:55.400 And so, he definitely, he would agree with you guys on the overall topic of the show,

01:19:00.840 which is, he's like, yeah, of course.

01:19:03.080 Guy pays.

01:19:03.660 Yeah, but, like, obvious, like, you know, it's very apparent, like, when people do things

01:19:10.420 for, like, the shock value and to get more, like, more popular.

01:19:14.220 But even with that, then that begs the question of, like, okay, so is the shock value of saying

01:19:22.000 this messed up thing more important to you than actually believing that and having morals?

01:19:27.720 You know?

01:19:28.140 For some people, yeah.

01:19:29.300 I mean, he's making the bag now.

01:19:31.360 Like, he's farming views.

01:19:32.640 He's getting so many.

01:19:34.100 Top G.

01:19:34.220 Oh, yeah.

01:19:34.780 He's making money.

01:19:36.080 Don't get me wrong.

01:19:37.000 He's smart and he's educated.

01:19:38.780 People are talking about him, so, like, no press is bad for us, I guess.

01:19:42.720 I mean, yeah, at that point.

01:19:43.680 We've been messaging on Instagram and we will try to get him on the show, so.

01:19:47.140 I would love to get him.

01:19:48.020 I'm going to do a one-on-one interview with him and then I think I'll try to get him on

01:19:51.080 to do one of the dating talk shows, too.

01:19:53.460 I would love that.

01:19:54.280 I'd be super interested.

01:19:55.220 I'd be on it.

01:19:56.020 Sure.

01:19:56.720 Can we all be there?

01:19:58.100 Just, like, squad.

01:19:58.920 Just stay in touch.

01:19:59.680 Stay in touch.

01:20:00.780 Speaking of hot takes, are you guys, it's a little, is it warm in here for you guys at

01:20:05.500 all or are you guys okay?

01:20:07.460 Temperature-wise.

01:20:08.360 Oh.

01:20:08.700 I can't lift my arms to say that.

01:20:10.480 I'm sticking to the chair, but I kind of like it.

01:20:14.760 She says, I like it sticky.

01:20:17.260 Hey.

01:20:17.800 Your reaction.

01:20:18.720 Hey, Chris, can you just pop the double doors open and I think it's just so warm and if

01:20:25.000 it's, if we get a little extra noise, it's okay.

01:20:28.220 What does get me a refill mean?

01:20:30.120 Get me a refill.

01:20:32.520 We also, uh.

01:20:34.180 Oh, are you talking about that?

01:20:35.040 Oh my God, it's Kurt Cobain.

01:20:35.780 Wait, this one or that one?

01:20:36.980 Yeah, I'm talking about you.

01:20:38.960 Kurt Cobain, we miss you, man.

01:20:41.740 Smells like teen spirit.

01:20:42.840 Morals.

01:20:43.200 What is she talking about?

01:20:44.040 LOL.

01:20:44.140 Do you think he cares?

01:20:45.160 Who?

01:20:45.840 Kurt Cobain.

01:20:47.500 Cares?

01:20:48.100 About what?

01:20:48.760 About who pays on the first date?

01:20:51.040 It was a joke about the song that's like, I don't care.

01:20:54.720 Like, it's just, he repeatedly says that.

01:20:57.140 Oh, and it smells like teen spirit.

01:20:58.480 It's okay.

01:20:59.000 You're an educated.

01:20:59.980 Whoosh.

01:21:00.840 Went right over my head.

01:21:02.740 Hi, Carlos.

01:21:03.720 Bro, I really love Carlos.

01:21:05.280 Like being like, let's go on a run.

01:21:06.500 I know.

01:21:06.900 He's like, he's like, he can't run.

01:21:08.900 I tore my knee, um, three months ago.

01:21:12.860 I tore my, I have like a very rare knee injury.

01:21:15.740 I was, my first night in Cabo San Lucas on spring break.

01:21:19.840 Um, I was, I was walking and I fell and I slipped.

01:21:24.220 I was actually with a boy when this happened and he like barely helped me.

01:21:27.680 Didn't talk to me again after I was like, wow.

01:21:30.400 Um, but that'd be really awkward if he's watching this.

01:21:34.020 Bro, you should give Carlos a chance.

01:21:35.600 He's like, but then I won the twerk comp the next day after I like fully dislocated my knee.

01:21:40.240 You won the twerk comp?

01:21:41.200 After, yeah.

01:21:42.140 The mango deck twerk comp.

01:21:44.000 Um, can you, are we going to get a demo?

01:21:46.120 Oh my point.

01:21:46.680 Oh, I, yeah.

01:21:49.460 Wait, like on the table?

01:21:50.900 I mean, we all know.

01:21:51.380 I want to do the video.

01:21:52.860 I like, actually the video is a little explicit.

01:21:56.000 Um, there's a little, this department, I mean, everybody's like get on the table and shake 0.99

01:21:59.800 some ass. 1.00

01:22:00.220 Like, um, but when I fell, I tore a, my patella tendon and when my tendon tore and tore off a 0.99

01:22:08.940 piece of bone and so then I came back from Cabo and I had surgery on April 14th and I

01:22:17.300 just started to be able to walk without a crutch, um, about a month ago and I can run.

01:22:23.040 I think I'm going to get cleared to run in two weeks.

01:22:24.680 Okay, dude.

01:22:25.440 I did something kind of similar to that, like same premise.

01:22:29.300 So also a side note, the week before my birthday for the past three years, I've like significantly

01:22:35.680 broke myself snowboarding, but I also messed my knee up, fully tore my ACL, my meniscus,

01:22:42.180 everything.

01:22:43.320 And I was snowboarding and where I was, like it had an Olympic park.

01:22:48.160 So like giant rails and I just, I messed up on a rail and I straight up, I was with a boy.

01:22:53.300 I was totally trying to impress him.

01:22:54.900 I hit, I literally, I hit a pole straight on sideways with my legs, snapped him. 0.65

01:23:01.840 Um, and then I didn't notice that, that I didn't notice that that even happened cause

01:23:08.460 I couldn't feel it.

01:23:09.060 And long story short, I, uh, I got surgery and I told the male nurse that his man bun

01:23:16.020 was really ugly and that I shaved for him. 0.83

01:23:19.140 Wow. 0.96

01:23:20.040 Cause I was really high.

01:23:22.000 Are you man bun shaming?

01:23:23.480 How dare you?

01:23:24.740 I mean, Hey, I'm just saying, look, very few people can pull it off.

01:23:27.420 How dare you, sir?

01:23:27.920 Like if you can pull it off, it's impressive, but most people can't.

01:23:31.480 Let's go back to micropenises.

01:23:33.120 So bring it back, bring it back.

01:23:36.920 And I know we've just, we've been having a bit of fun, but I do want to maybe try to

01:23:42.600 bring it back here.

01:23:43.640 Honestly, give us a really brutal, like we'll be completely honest.

01:23:46.780 Ryan, you got something to tell us about micropenises?

01:23:48.860 Do you have?

01:23:49.980 No.

01:23:50.620 Brian, I'm so sorry to hear.

01:23:51.860 Brian, I'm so sorry for your loss.

01:23:53.180 When were you diagnosed?

01:23:54.920 It's, uh.

01:23:55.640 Self-diagnosed.

01:23:56.200 Self-diagnosed.

01:23:58.240 Average, average in the bulge, I would say.

01:24:01.780 Grow or not.

01:24:02.400 Okay.

01:24:03.080 But.

01:24:03.800 What's the exact inch count?

01:24:05.760 What's that?

01:24:06.780 Oh, I'm not, I'm not telling you my size, but tell you what, I will tell you my size

01:24:10.780 if every lady here tells us the.

01:24:15.100 My cup size?

01:24:15.800 The body count? 0.82

01:24:16.760 The labia size. 1.00

01:24:17.720 What the fuck? 1.00

01:24:18.840 Labia size. 1.00

01:24:19.280 I haven't measured it.

01:24:20.980 You're aware that you're like 10 years older than all of us, right?

01:24:23.300 What does that have to do?

01:24:25.020 Age is just a number, Sabrina.

01:24:26.900 Age is just a number. 0.99

01:24:27.760 Y'all just solicited my penis size, so I mean, it's kind of fair. 0.99

01:24:31.280 Hey, one of us. 0.99

01:24:32.440 Yeah, we were after.

01:24:32.900 One of us.

01:24:34.320 Me, yeah.

01:24:35.040 One. 1.00

01:24:35.280 My group penis. 1.00

01:24:36.320 My group. 1.00

01:24:36.680 But wait, well, hold on.

01:24:37.700 Let me challenge you on that.

01:24:38.740 What does my age have to do with it, with it, with asking that question? 0.98

01:24:43.160 Well, you just asked for like 19 to 20 year old girls about their vagina, and I want 1.00

01:24:48.440 to say you're like 35. 0.99

01:24:49.680 33.

01:24:50.600 Yeah, exactly.

01:24:51.200 That was a good guess.

01:24:51.880 But what, I mean, I don't see what, what does my age have to, would it have been a more

01:24:58.640 appropriate question if I was 21?

01:25:01.540 No, I just, never mind.

01:25:03.600 I just.

01:25:05.520 Okay.

01:25:05.920 I don't think I've ever told anyone my labia size, because I don't know.

01:25:08.840 Is that open in measurement?

01:25:10.420 I mean, I'm going to go home, and I'm going to find out now.

01:25:13.380 Like, which, like, where do you, where do you measure it from?

01:25:15.380 Do you, like, stretch it out like a butterfly?

01:25:17.140 Or does it just, like, unstretched?

01:25:22.720 This is such a great discussion.

01:25:24.600 Anyways, who should pay on the first date?

01:25:26.820 Anyways.

01:25:27.820 Anyways.

01:25:28.480 I couldn't tell you my labia size if I wanted to.

01:25:30.600 No, literally.

01:25:31.140 And how do I compare it? 0.94

01:25:32.180 Like, I've never seen another girl's labia. 0.74

01:25:33.820 Like, you're, like, looking in the mirror. 0.99

01:25:34.900 Like, I've never seen another girl's labia. 0.77

01:25:37.420 Like, how do I know how long it is? 0.99

01:25:38.760 And all, like, the pictures of vaginas are too deep. 1.00

01:25:39.980 Well, there's, like, innies, there's innies and outies. 0.99

01:25:41.840 Yeah, you would know better.

01:25:42.640 Are there, actually?

01:25:43.500 There's innies and outies.

01:25:45.000 I didn't know.

01:25:45.800 What? 0.98

01:25:46.400 I don't know if anyone here has, like, had experience with vaginas. 1.00

01:25:49.040 I don't know. 0.95

01:25:49.520 Well, there's, like, innies and outies, so to speak.

01:25:53.960 Oh, yeah.

01:25:55.000 There's also middies.

01:25:56.500 My friends and I, freshman year, all diagnosed each other.

01:25:59.640 As middies?

01:26:00.860 Okay.

01:26:02.080 No, well, no.

01:26:02.680 No, like, what, there's, like, the categories. 0.71

01:26:04.460 You're either an innie, a middie, or an outie. 0.75

01:26:08.180 There's three.

01:26:08.840 Like, it's not, there's not a black and white.

01:26:10.320 The gray area is a middie. 0.94

01:26:10.920 Well, I'm going to need to see some, like, picture references after this because I'm

01:26:13.820 very confused.

01:26:14.400 Like, a middie is, like, the clip.

01:26:15.360 It's, like, peeking out a little.

01:26:16.780 An innie is, like, just the flaps.

01:26:18.620 And then an outie is, like, it's, like, fully, like, out.

01:26:21.960 No hate on any of them. 0.99

01:26:24.560 All vaginas are beautiful. 1.00

01:26:25.300 All vaginas are beautiful. 1.00

01:26:26.760 I'm with you. 0.99

01:26:27.500 I'm with you on that. 1.00

01:26:28.960 Do you think it's a turnoff if a girl has, like, a certain type of vagina? 1.00

01:26:33.800 No, not alone. 0.99

01:26:34.620 Because, like, I have a friend in the past. 1.00

01:26:36.060 If she got a vagina, she got a vagina. 1.00

01:26:39.060 And you're lucky to be there. 1.00

01:26:40.780 Men don't care, babe. 1.00

01:26:41.740 But I'm still hit that.

01:26:43.020 Trust.

01:26:43.600 So, sorry, go ahead.

01:26:44.540 Continue.

01:26:44.900 By the way, guys, if we can, just try to keep it to one mic at a time.

01:26:48.120 One of my friends once, like, she hooked up with this guy.

01:26:51.740 And then he was, like, making fun of her.

01:26:53.480 Like, went and told all of his friends.

01:26:54.940 Like, she had an outie, right?

01:26:56.220 Yeah.

01:26:56.720 And I was, like, that's just so messed up.

01:26:59.140 Like, I don't know. 0.99

01:27:00.200 But then also, like, I guess it's, like, kind of, like, making fun of someone's dick size. 0.99

01:27:04.500 Right. 0.99

01:27:04.980 Kind of a double standard, isn't it?

01:27:06.320 But, no, so my take on that is as far as, like, I like outies, actually.

01:27:14.140 I mean, whatever it is, if it's an innie, I like it.

01:27:16.700 If it's an outie, I like it.

01:27:18.140 I actually would say, maybe I'm exposing myself here.

01:27:23.500 Do it.

01:27:24.020 I'm going to say it.

01:27:24.600 Labia love.

01:27:26.180 Outies, I like outies. 0.97

01:27:28.100 Okay.

01:27:28.560 Maybe.

01:27:29.080 Okay.

01:27:29.620 I'm not going to, if a girl has an innie. 1.00

01:27:32.400 Don't discriminate.

01:27:33.920 I'm not, that's not a no for me.

01:27:36.080 But, like, outies are nice. 1.00

01:27:38.560 Okay.

01:27:39.480 Fair enough. 1.00

01:27:40.240 Pussy is pussy, bro. 1.00

01:27:41.360 Yeah. 1.00

01:27:41.680 Yeah.

01:27:42.280 I don't. 0.98

01:27:44.960 Vagina friction. 1.00

01:27:45.880 Outie, fully tongue accessible.

01:27:48.860 That's right.

01:27:49.700 Well said.

01:27:50.320 Like, I don't think I've ever made fun of someone being like, oh, yeah, like, he has a, he has 1.00

01:27:53.500 a small dick. 1.00

01:27:54.040 Like, we can't control that. 1.00

01:27:55.240 Like, bro, if he's going to say she has big labia, just say he has a small dick. 1.00

01:27:59.920 Like, nobody's going to check. 1.00

01:28:01.720 Her labia was huge, bro. 1.00

01:28:03.340 I hate it, bro. 0.99

01:28:04.740 No, but they're definitely.

01:28:05.360 I don't think anyone's ever said that.

01:28:06.960 No, sometimes if it's too big, it's like.

01:28:09.660 Do you have experience with her?

01:28:09.960 The bigger, the better.

01:28:11.280 The bigger, the better.

01:28:12.560 Oh, the bigger.

01:28:12.900 Like the Jurassic Park gates or something? 0.99

01:28:14.520 What the fuck? 0.99

01:28:16.840 But the. 1.00

01:28:18.220 No, I mean.

01:28:19.600 What do you think, Chris?

01:28:20.700 What are your opinions?

01:28:22.400 So, I think, um, I've only seen my mom when I came out.

01:28:25.660 Jesus Christ. 0.99

01:28:27.220 I would never go back into a vagina since birth. 0.99

01:28:29.700 He said, I will never. 1.00

01:28:33.020 That's a fucking 50 DKP minus. 1.00

01:28:36.420 What the fuck was that shit? 1.00

01:28:38.660 That's funny. 1.00

01:28:39.840 They didn't even hear it.

01:28:41.120 He just said.

01:28:41.640 Minus 50 DKP minus. 1.00

01:28:43.540 He just said, I haven't been in another woman's vagina except my mother's. 1.00

01:28:46.800 Jesus. 1.00

01:28:46.900 When she pushed me out.

01:28:48.080 Why would I want to go back in?

01:28:49.400 I spent all.

01:28:50.080 Jesus Christ.

01:28:50.500 I spent nine months. 1.00

01:28:51.640 Nine months trying to get out of a vagina. 1.00

01:28:53.520 He was growing in there. 1.00

01:28:54.760 Nine months.

01:28:55.400 He was growing.

01:28:56.180 It'd be backtracking.

01:28:57.020 I don't like that kind of talk.

01:29:00.660 Okay. 0.97

01:29:01.380 So, um, there are definitely guys that shame women for their labia. 1.00

01:29:05.860 I've heard terms like beef curtains, wizard sleeve. 1.00

01:29:08.940 And I know this sounds, I know this shit. 0.97

01:29:11.200 I know it sounds funny, but I do think it's, it is offensive because like that's something. 0.99

01:29:16.540 Well, I guess there's like labia place D, but like, don't fucking chop. 0.97

01:29:20.980 Like, don't do it. 0.98

01:29:22.580 Arby's.

01:29:22.980 Don't do it.

01:29:23.720 Like, but I do really like, there are some girls and I've definitely had

01:29:26.920 experience.

01:29:27.900 I hooked up with one girl.

01:29:29.940 She, she had an Audi and I was, I was for it, but she was self-conscious because a previous

01:29:36.600 guy had made some comments and she was insecure about it.

01:29:40.520 And I was like, no, I like, I like it. 1.00

01:29:42.920 Like that guy's a dick, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

01:29:45.620 So. 1.00

01:29:47.740 Yeah.

01:29:48.140 I don't know.

01:29:48.580 I think, I think it's, uh, in the same way, in the same way that I would think.

01:29:52.500 Like, yeah. 0.95

01:29:53.680 In the same way that I, I would think like if a girl was penis shaming the guy, oh, and 1.00

01:29:58.020 you know what? 0.99

01:29:58.800 We can talk, let's talk about that.

01:30:00.880 I don't think anybody should be shamed for their genitalia, be it a man, be it a woman.

01:30:06.660 But I would say it does seem to be the case. 0.99

01:30:11.160 The shame in penises is just kind of more acceptable. 0.99

01:30:13.820 I disagree with it, but you hear terms like big dick energy, which, which I suppose is 1.00

01:30:22.720 a compliment to men with big dicks. 1.00

01:30:24.460 But the, you can infer from that, that if someone has small, if they don't have big dick 1.00

01:30:30.640 energy, they got small dick energy. 1.00

01:30:32.080 Ergo, if you have a small, smaller and average sized penis, there's something wrong with 1.00

01:30:39.240 you, son. 1.00

01:30:39.880 And I don't think that's right.

01:30:41.840 I don't think that's fair.

01:30:42.560 I mean, body shaming isn't okay in like any aspect.

01:30:45.440 It's just, it's like banter, I guess. 0.77

01:30:47.440 The reason that like dick shaming is probably so, um, relevant.

01:30:51.300 It's socially acceptable. 0.56

01:30:52.180 Yeah.

01:30:52.400 It's.

01:30:52.720 I don't think it should be though.

01:30:54.460 Well, I guess it's just like, like, oh, how was he?

01:30:57.580 And like, maybe if she didn't have a good time, like that's her first instinct to be 1.00

01:31:00.640 like, oh yeah, like his dick was small. 0.99

01:31:02.740 Like if she was feeling insecure or if like a guy was feeling insecure, he could say the 1.00

01:31:06.220 same thing about like her pussy. 1.00

01:31:08.380 It was like, oh, I've heard a, it was like a hot dog in a hallway. 1.00

01:31:12.120 I've heard that one a lot.

01:31:13.460 Like, oh yeah, she has hella bodies. 1.00

01:31:15.080 Like I basically couldn't even feel anything.

01:31:17.480 And I was like, really? 1.00

01:31:18.440 Or is your dick just small? 1.00

01:31:19.660 Yeah. 1.00

01:31:20.220 It's like that.

01:31:21.020 Like, it's just, for me, it's the banter. 0.99

01:31:22.820 Like, I don't think I've ever seriously been like, yeah, his dick was like fucking tiny 0.99

01:31:28.300 and meant it like in a really rude way. 0.99

01:31:30.600 It's like. 0.84

01:31:31.280 But have, have any of you guys use the term big dick energy? 0.98

01:31:35.480 Yeah. 0.98

01:31:35.760 This girl's got it right here. 1.00

01:31:37.040 Hardcore.

01:31:37.520 Have you met Kylie?

01:31:39.580 But would you similarly be okay? 0.93

01:31:42.540 So who thinks like the term big dick energy is like, it's okay. 0.95

01:31:47.520 I don't. 0.74

01:31:47.940 It's like, it's okay.

01:31:49.220 It's the energy someone gives off.

01:31:51.420 So let me ask you a question.

01:31:52.420 We're going to, we're going to start with Aline here.

01:31:56.160 Uh, would you be okay with the term small tit energy, small titty energy?

01:32:02.680 Yes. 0.99

01:32:03.080 Small tits rise up. 1.00

01:32:04.240 What? 0.99

01:32:05.680 Period.

01:32:06.520 Purr.

01:32:07.420 Dude, like I'm never going to sag like ever.

01:32:10.260 Like that's amazing.

01:32:11.140 I'm so jealous.

01:32:11.620 What about loose?

01:32:12.640 Okay.

01:32:13.260 Dude, it's in now.

01:32:14.540 Like it's like model body type and guys like it.

01:32:17.960 So like, I'm not complaining.

01:32:19.380 I actually prefer smaller breasts. 0.74

01:32:22.180 See?

01:32:22.620 Like, but, but I'm, so what I, when I asked that question, I'm not saying that.

01:32:26.660 Oh, is it like an offensive type way?

01:32:28.380 Well, yeah.

01:32:28.940 So I mean, definitely, I think some guys certainly have preference for larger breasts, but I think 1.00

01:32:34.160 one thing some women are insecure about if they have smaller breasts or they're flat 1.00

01:32:38.140 or whatever, maybe flat's not the right word.

01:32:40.000 But, um, they might be insecure about that. 0.99

01:32:45.120 And so small tit and some guy might say, oh, small tit energy, you know, small dick energy. 0.99

01:32:52.980 I feel like it's kind of different because you can like kind of see it. 1.00

01:32:54.900 It's like loose pussy energy. 1.00

01:32:57.280 Loose pussy is loose, is loose pussy energy. 1.00

01:33:01.900 That's funny. 1.00

01:33:03.080 Matt, hold on.

01:33:04.280 Let me think.

01:33:05.280 Cavernous vag energy.

01:33:07.120 Oh, God.

01:33:08.020 Is that?

01:33:08.580 Grand Canyon vag.

01:33:10.020 Is, is that offensive, Aline?

01:33:13.420 Is it offensive?

01:33:14.240 Yes. 0.99

01:33:14.760 I think that's funny as fuck. 0.99

01:33:16.760 Okay. 0.99

01:33:18.220 It is kind of funny.

01:33:19.260 Because they, they'll never know.

01:33:20.820 Like, it's, you can't prove it.

01:33:23.160 Like, like.

01:33:24.580 Sure. 1.00

01:33:24.820 It's just a guy saying shit and guys say shit all the time. 1.00

01:33:27.760 Yeah. 1.00

01:33:28.080 I think it's a funny joke. 0.99

01:33:29.360 Like, I can say like, oh, he has a small dick energy. 0.99

01:33:32.300 Like. 0.99

01:33:33.080 But there, so there is kind of like a political correctness.

01:33:38.300 I just don't get like offended that easily.

01:33:41.080 So maybe like other people.

01:33:42.040 So me personally, I don't find it offensive.

01:33:43.460 But I feel like if we're going to start playing by the, if we're going to start playing by the

01:33:46.980 rules of we, everything is offensive nowadays.

01:33:50.540 I don't agree with that.

01:33:51.800 I don't think it should be that.

01:33:53.500 Everything's offensive.

01:33:54.520 Everybody, you know.

01:33:55.900 But I think we have to be consistent in what we find offensive or what we find offensive.

01:34:06.860 Well, to each individual.

01:34:08.300 To each their own.

01:34:09.160 Right.

01:34:09.520 There, there's, nobody's going to like, like the whole mass is, no one's going to have

01:34:14.180 like, like the same thoughts.

01:34:16.780 Everyone's going to be like subjective to like what they're thinking.

01:34:21.020 So like, you can't please everyone.

01:34:23.980 And like, not one person is right all the time.

01:34:27.280 So you kind of just have to like be open-minded and like keep your opinions to yourself if

01:34:33.240 you think it's going to hurt someone else.

01:34:35.300 But like don't, also don't force opinions on other people.

01:34:39.240 Sure.

01:34:39.500 I think, yeah.

01:34:40.280 Okay.

01:34:41.800 I can, honestly, I couldn't agree more.

01:34:44.200 With Aline.

01:34:45.380 Aline.

01:34:45.940 Yeah.

01:34:46.880 So, I mean.

01:34:49.360 Small, or so cavernous vag energy, not a problem.

01:34:54.240 That's not a term people use.

01:34:55.840 So I just think it's funny.

01:34:56.240 I'm starting.

01:34:56.680 Like if it, if it was, if it wasn't, do you care?

01:35:00.520 I wouldn't care.

01:35:01.780 Got it.

01:35:02.500 Some people would be offended.

01:35:03.700 Equality.

01:35:04.080 Wait, what was the term?

01:35:04.660 Equality.

01:35:05.580 So there's either small, small tit energy, cavernous vag energy. 0.99

01:35:11.380 Cavernous vag and small dick energy. 1.00

01:35:14.160 Would be the equivalence. 0.99

01:35:15.280 Yeah. 0.99

01:35:16.060 What about, what about like balls? 0.97

01:35:18.760 Thoughts on low hanging balls. 0.99

01:35:21.400 I'm about to get exposed here. 0.96

01:35:23.660 Oh my God. 0.98

01:35:25.080 Thoughts on balls? 0.95

01:35:25.640 Can I, like. 0.99

01:35:26.720 Yeah, do you like your balls touched or no? 0.99

01:35:28.920 Wait. 1.00

01:35:29.340 Wow.

01:35:29.600 Okay.

01:35:29.900 Well, hold on.

01:35:30.200 I don't like that.

01:35:31.180 Hold on. 0.99

01:35:31.800 I don't like balls, dude. 0.99

01:35:34.300 Yeah. 0.99

01:35:35.860 Go for it.

01:35:36.660 Thank you.

01:35:37.580 So, wait.

01:35:38.500 Hold on.

01:35:41.340 So.

01:35:43.140 Because, okay.

01:35:44.160 Should we like finish that?

01:35:45.120 Sorry.

01:35:45.320 And then come back to the ball fondling?

01:35:46.820 Yeah, ball fondling is important.

01:35:48.920 We got a little distracted just because she had to get up to go to the bathroom. 0.63

01:35:51.760 So, your thoughts on the sort of. 0.80

01:35:56.040 The small boobs? 0.88

01:35:57.140 Small. 1.00

01:35:57.740 Cavernous vag. 1.00

01:35:58.480 Small dick energy, okay. 1.00

01:36:00.060 Cavernous vag energy, okay. 0.99

01:36:02.680 Well, I mean, cavernous vag is just so, so descriptive.

01:36:07.500 And like, like when you say.

01:36:08.740 Oh, sorry.

01:36:09.440 Whenever, like, so if someone says that, it's like, there's an image in my head.

01:36:12.920 You know, there's, it's not.

01:36:14.200 Like, if I'm thinking big dick energy, it's just, it's just a normal term. 0.97

01:36:17.040 Like, cavernous vag, like, I don't know. 0.99

01:36:19.880 I, I'm not okay. 0.90

01:36:21.560 You can say cavernous vag if you want. 0.97

01:36:23.520 I don't really care. 0.70

01:36:24.440 But I'm not, I would never say that myself.

01:36:26.140 But like, I say girls, I would never say that to a guy. 0.97

01:36:29.700 But like, big dick energy is kind of like a gender neutral term. 1.00

01:36:32.900 Even though like, women don't have dicks. 1.00

01:36:34.460 Even. 0.99

01:36:34.760 It's a very gender neutral term.

01:36:35.060 Like, she just referred to me. 0.99

01:36:36.580 Like, she was like, she has big dick energy. 1.00

01:36:38.640 It doesn't, like, I can say, she has big dick energy. 1.00

01:36:40.900 But no, no. 0.98

01:36:41.420 So it, I don't disagree with that.

01:36:43.300 It can still. 0.98

01:36:43.940 Well, you could say an animal has big dick energy, right? 0.98

01:36:48.420 Well, I, some of it. 0.98

01:36:49.580 Oh, pause.

01:36:50.800 Right?

01:36:51.160 Pause.

01:36:51.700 No?

01:36:52.400 Dolphins.

01:36:53.340 No?

01:36:53.980 No? 1.00

01:36:54.720 Chris, you can't say shit. 1.00

01:36:55.860 What? 1.00

01:36:56.140 Eciality?

01:36:57.440 No, no, no, no.

01:36:58.120 Well, hold on, hold on.

01:36:59.340 Ayo, Bolt's kind of hot, though.

01:37:01.300 Jesus.

01:37:01.940 What?

01:37:02.620 Okay.

01:37:03.620 Let me walk that back here. 0.99

01:37:05.000 So, yes, I understand that you could refer to a woman having big dick energy. 1.00

01:37:10.720 But the implication is that big dicks are desirable, thus, small dicks are undesirable and, or 1.00

01:37:21.800 to be laughed at, or to be, no, that's not how, okay. 1.00

01:37:25.460 If someone has, like, a nine-inch dick, it's just, like, not it. 0.99

01:37:30.160 It's just not it. 0.99

01:37:31.360 Word? 0.99

01:37:32.540 It's the old dick size? 0.99

01:37:34.320 What? 0.99

01:37:34.860 Yeah.

01:37:35.280 It's not the size, bro.

01:37:36.540 It's not the size of the wave.

01:37:38.340 It's how you use it.

01:37:38.640 It's not the size of the wave.

01:37:39.740 It's the motion of the ocean.

01:37:41.240 So true.

01:37:42.540 Yeah, so.

01:37:44.520 How did we?

01:37:45.820 Where were?

01:37:46.640 Okay, you gave your take, right?

01:37:48.580 No. 0.58

01:37:49.220 On boobs? 0.96

01:37:50.120 Was it on the comparison? 0.62

01:37:52.760 No.

01:37:53.420 It's just, for me, I just think it's funny because someone who would say that, like, 1.00

01:37:57.680 a guy that would be like, oh, yeah, she has cavernous vag energy, would get zero pussy. 1.00

01:38:03.160 Facts. 1.00

01:38:03.700 Like, that's why I think it's funny, because I know that someone who says that isn't going

01:38:07.440 to get laid.

01:38:07.860 I think most women would quarrel, would take quarrel with a guy using that term in the 0.99

01:38:14.640 same way that, that either, like, a man or a woman just would say big dick energy. 1.00

01:38:20.520 Like, people just let that shit slide. 1.00

01:38:23.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:38:23.580 I feel like, for me, if someone said that to me, I would laugh, like, in his face.

01:38:27.100 Yeah.

01:38:27.540 Because I'm like, is that an insult?

01:38:29.280 Like, you're never going to know.

01:38:30.640 Exactly. 1.00

01:38:30.920 They just look stupid. 1.00

01:38:32.280 Yeah. 1.00

01:38:32.440 Chris, let's move on from the genitalia. 0.99

01:38:35.680 Chris, can you pull up the Twitch window?

01:38:37.360 I need a shout out.

01:38:38.000 The Twitch homies. 1.00

01:38:40.280 Serious question.

01:38:41.840 Oops.

01:38:45.220 Yeah, we have other TikToks we can react to.

01:38:48.180 Oh, awesome.

01:38:49.840 We need to go back to the other topic.

01:38:51.940 Oh, God.

01:38:52.660 What was it?

01:38:53.080 The ball fondling.

01:38:54.160 Oh, Jesus.

01:38:54.780 Oh, God.

01:38:55.460 Okay. 1.00

01:38:55.760 Do you like your balls fondling? 1.00

01:38:57.460 Do you like your balls fondling? 1.00

01:38:58.400 Yeah, we're getting paid, bro. 1.00

01:38:58.960 Let me just hit these Twitch people. 0.93

01:39:03.000 By the way, guys, we are also live on Twitch, twitch.tv slash whatever.

01:39:09.580 Drop us a follow if you've got an account.

01:39:11.540 If you have an Amazon Prime, show us a little love.

01:39:15.280 It's totally free.

01:39:17.200 And so thank you to jcard underscore, is that S-I or S-J?

01:39:22.660 I can't see it.

01:39:23.200 S-I.

01:39:23.360 Thank you for the prime sub, man.

01:39:25.780 Really appreciate it.

01:39:26.600 Metal and bones.

01:39:27.540 Thank you for the follow.

01:39:28.140 Appreciate it, man.

01:39:29.500 Okay, Chris, let's pull up one of the loaded videos.

01:39:33.220 Wait, what about the ball fondling?

01:39:34.460 Oh, the ball.

01:39:35.140 Okay, Chris, come back.

01:39:35.600 Just give it a quick yes or no.

01:39:36.960 No, just give it a quick yes or no. 0.99

01:39:38.680 Okay, first, do you like fondling with balls? 0.99

01:39:41.300 And then second, we all have to say, do we like fondling? 0.99

01:39:44.540 Or do you like balls being fondled? 0.99

01:39:46.060 And do we like fondling with balls? 0.99

01:39:48.380 I've never fondled balls before. 0.99

01:39:52.200 Right. 0.92

01:39:52.540 Just to clarify.

01:39:53.360 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:39:54.640 Received.

01:39:56.600 I don't know how much I want to expose myself here.

01:40:00.640 Literally quick yes or no.

01:40:01.400 I don't know.

01:40:01.520 I feel like it's like a secret.

01:40:03.140 Like a lot of guys like it, but it's like for some reason weird to talk about.

01:40:07.320 It's like taboo. 1.00

01:40:07.900 But it's like still a part of your penis. 1.00

01:40:09.320 Like why is the shaft isn't weird, but the balls are. 1.00

01:40:12.760 Okay, I'm going to answer this. 0.92

01:40:15.820 Hold on, wait.

01:40:16.540 Wait. 0.99

01:40:20.420 Answer the balls question. 0.82

01:40:21.840 Okay, so I really like it, but. 0.72

01:40:28.460 Good for you.

01:40:29.360 Do you think that's common?

01:40:30.160 What does men do? 0.99

01:40:31.320 Do I think it's common?

01:40:32.300 Do you think most guys do?

01:40:33.440 Honestly, I feel like us guys, we don't really talk like that.

01:40:37.820 Hey, Chris.

01:40:38.380 I don't.

01:40:39.340 Yo, Chris.

01:40:40.080 Yo, Chris.

01:40:40.660 What do you think, man?

01:40:41.520 Dude, yeah, I've never, I feel like guys don't, if there was an earthquake, it's the only

01:40:47.140 thing that would make me feel safe.

01:40:48.840 I will say that.

01:40:51.580 Oh.

01:40:52.800 Oh, like you need reassurance?

01:40:54.440 If there was an earthquake, it was a funny joke.

01:40:58.020 Just, I think it whooshed a little bit.

01:41:00.140 Flew over my head. 0.99

01:41:00.880 Um, so, groundbreaking sucking balls, word, um, actually, she said, I prefer that to 1.00

01:41:13.880 regular head. 0.99

01:41:14.520 I'm not going to lie.

01:41:15.400 Yeah.

01:41:15.960 I'd rather have that than. 0.98

01:41:18.220 Some guys like head over sex. 0.98

01:41:20.160 That's crazy to me. 0.99

01:41:21.140 I prefer sex. 0.74

01:41:22.060 Because there's no protection involved sometimes. 0.98

01:41:25.500 I mean, can't you have sex without protection?

01:41:28.120 She's responsible.

01:41:29.280 She's only.

01:41:29.840 We are responsible women.

01:41:30.920 Are you, wait, are you on birth control?

01:41:33.320 It doesn't matter.

01:41:35.180 Well, you can.

01:41:36.220 It matters.

01:41:36.860 Did you not hear?

01:41:37.480 We have our own strain of gonorrhea.

01:41:39.620 Yeah.

01:41:41.020 But it's for my acne.

01:41:42.780 If you're.

01:41:43.400 If you're dating, sure.

01:41:44.560 If you're committed to somebody.

01:41:45.600 Yeah, but most of the time, like, we have our own strain of gonorrhea.

01:41:48.240 If I'm on birth control, I'm still going to use protection.

01:41:51.400 Really?

01:41:51.680 Yeah.

01:41:52.200 But have you, have you ever been on birth control?

01:41:53.660 We have our own strain.

01:41:54.520 I am on birth control.

01:41:55.380 No, but what I'm saying is you're in a committed relationship with a guy.

01:41:58.240 You've been seeing him for a while.

01:41:59.640 You're on birth control.

01:42:00.760 Still use condoms?

01:42:02.100 Um, no.

01:42:03.240 Okay.

01:42:03.800 Agreed.

01:42:04.280 Yeah.

01:42:04.560 Agreed.

01:42:05.520 It's, if it's just one guy.

01:42:07.700 But yeah, if it's.

01:42:08.400 That way you know if he's cheating. 0.99

01:42:09.680 Like, if you get a new disease, you're going to be like, where the fuck did you get this? 0.99

01:42:12.940 I'd rather not go to that extreme. 0.98

01:42:14.580 The tried and true STD test.

01:42:16.860 Oh, yeah.

01:42:17.280 Or the infidelity test, rather.

01:42:19.320 The infidelity test.

01:42:21.340 Wait, okay. 0.91

01:42:22.940 Balls. 0.93

01:42:23.380 What was I asking?

01:42:24.380 No, we have to go around and say whether we enjoy ball touching or not.

01:42:29.920 I do not personally say. 0.91

01:42:32.280 She doesn't like balls. 1.00

01:42:32.980 I hate balls. 1.00

01:42:34.280 Especially the saggy ones. 1.00

01:42:37.400 Like, okay, this is getting really.

01:42:42.180 When they're like long, it's like an extra like, whap.

01:42:48.780 It's like a bam. 0.64

01:42:51.360 Like missionary?

01:42:52.580 Yeah. 0.74

01:42:53.000 You gotta get like the slap.

01:42:53.900 It's like getting backsplash from a toilet.

01:42:56.440 I'm not gonna lie.

01:42:57.400 It's like.

01:42:58.060 Whap. 0.99

01:42:58.460 Is that, is that what you're doing to the balls? 0.99

01:43:02.480 You're. 0.99

01:43:02.780 No.

01:43:03.340 Missionary.

01:43:03.680 No, like during sex. 0.96

01:43:04.720 Like it's slapping. 0.97

01:43:05.080 During missionary.

01:43:06.060 Yeah.

01:43:07.540 It's not great.

01:43:09.020 That's why.

01:43:09.500 That, that has led me to entirely ghost a guy. 1.00

01:43:14.180 That's why I stick to anal sex. 1.00

01:43:16.360 Oh. 1.00

01:43:17.840 That's.

01:43:18.140 That wasn't me.

01:43:18.720 That was a soundboard.

01:43:19.540 God's loophole right there. 0.98

01:43:20.660 Um, that's why you don't have missionary sex, guys. 0.94

01:43:23.880 Okay. 0.99

01:43:25.060 Huh?

01:43:25.700 Use no sex at all, ever.

01:43:27.620 Do you guys ever have that version?

01:43:28.840 Actually, it's just keep.

01:43:29.280 Yes.

01:43:29.700 I'm a man of God.

01:43:30.820 I love you during missionary.

01:43:32.220 Man of God.

01:43:33.360 Yeah.

01:43:34.160 Abstinence, of course.

01:43:35.960 Duh.

01:43:36.180 Um, did, did, are we, I guess, do you guys want to go around the panel?

01:43:41.240 What, what, I don't even know. 0.80

01:43:42.700 Balls? 0.99

01:43:43.100 Talk about balls. 0.99

01:43:44.200 I mean, my answer is pretty simple. 0.99

01:43:46.040 It's for me to know and for whomever to find out.

01:43:48.300 Yeah.

01:43:48.800 Yeah.

01:43:50.400 That was a chair squeak, by the way.

01:43:52.300 Um, like sometimes I'll dapple in it and see their reaction.

01:43:58.220 If there's no reaction, I'm not going to keep doing it.

01:44:01.880 I used to dislike it when I was younger.

01:44:04.340 I don't know why.

01:44:06.180 It's an, it's a, what is it?

01:44:08.380 It's an acquired, acquired taste.

01:44:10.340 It's for the mature.

01:44:13.540 Oh.

01:44:14.020 Kylie.

01:44:14.540 Um, I will do whatever makes him feel the best.

01:44:18.900 So if he's like, hey, I like this, I'll try it.

01:44:21.840 You know, like, no, I feel like no matter what it is, I'm a very open person.

01:44:24.680 If he's like, oh, like, I want you to take control or like, I want to be dominant.

01:44:28.700 Like, I really don't care. 0.99

01:44:30.280 Like, so you're so submissive that you would, if the guy wants you to be dumb, you'll be 1.00

01:44:38.020 dumb. 1.00

01:44:38.560 No, I'm just a people pleaser. 1.00

01:44:40.500 Okay.

01:44:40.920 Like, it's just, I, I'm very flexible with what I like.

01:44:44.320 Like, I'll just, like, if he wanted to role play, I'd be like, hell yeah, what costume,

01:44:47.980 bro?

01:44:48.540 It was, okay, this is a, this is a discussion I've had with many people.

01:44:52.340 That's one of the first questions I've asked a lot of my guy friends, um, is like, would 1.00

01:44:57.060 you let a girl eat your ass? 1.00

01:44:59.580 And I feel like that's a really taboo thing. 1.00

01:45:01.140 Like, a lot of guys are like, oh, like, that's super gay.

01:45:03.600 Like, that's, like, why would I ever do that?

01:45:05.480 And I'm like, okay, then I won't be your friend.

01:45:07.660 You know what I mean?

01:45:08.240 Nah, it's not gay, but if she, if she wanted to peg you, that's a little, that's different. 0.99

01:45:11.760 Yeah, that's a little sussy. 0.99

01:45:12.640 That's like getting over to that side.

01:45:14.640 But, I don't know, he's clean, why not?

01:45:17.920 If it feels better, I'd do it.

01:45:19.700 I don't care. 0.99

01:45:21.400 Damn. 1.00

01:45:22.140 Word. 1.00

01:45:22.840 A word.

01:45:23.700 Word.

01:45:24.460 Respect.

01:45:26.000 Wow, we've, we've jumped around a whole bunch of different, I feel like we've kind of derailed

01:45:31.580 substantially from kind of the main topic, but, um, Chris, let's pull up.

01:45:38.220 Oh, yeah, the videos.

01:45:39.140 Oh, yeah.

01:45:39.800 Fact.

01:45:41.600 Paying on a first date, let's go.

01:45:44.640 Called the whacking the thunderclap.

01:45:46.620 So true.

01:45:47.440 Sapphire.

01:45:48.760 Um, next one, not this one, if you want to just hit control tab, Chris.

01:45:52.180 Yeah, here, just play that one. 0.67

01:45:53.920 One, two, three, let's go.

01:46:00.460 Next one, Chris.

01:46:04.100 I'm going to give my two cents on who pays on a first date.

01:46:07.580 And this might not be a popular opinion, and that's okay, I've never been one to go with

01:46:11.420 the grain anyway.

01:46:12.180 Um, so basically, I listen to my ancestors.

01:46:16.940 El que invita paga.

01:46:18.400 What that means is, if I invite you somewhere, I'm paying.

01:46:22.060 If I say, hey, let me take you out, I'm going to pay. 0.99

01:46:25.760 I always show up prepared to pay for my stuff anyway.

01:46:29.320 But if you invited me, you took me out of my routine, you're taking me somewhere to potentially

01:46:35.120 spend money that I wasn't planning on spending, I expect you to pay.

01:46:39.140 And that's not an expectation because you're a man.

01:46:42.340 It's not an expectation because I'm a woman.

01:46:44.640 It's an expectation because you said, I'd like to take you here or there.

01:46:50.220 It's no other reason except for that.

01:46:53.160 You might have a different opinion, but if I invite, I'm paying.

01:46:56.440 If you invite, you're paying.

01:46:58.060 That's it.

01:46:58.700 And if you can't figure it out, then speak about it in advance.

01:47:02.040 Go full screen, Chris.

01:47:04.920 All right.

01:47:05.200 So, I mean, I'm just going to.

01:47:06.600 I like that.

01:47:07.620 I agree.

01:47:07.980 I agree with that.

01:47:09.200 Also, her eyeliner looked fantastic.

01:47:11.900 I'm going to disagree.

01:47:13.460 I'm going to disagree. 1.00

01:47:15.180 All that shit she said. 1.00

01:47:16.720 You didn't like her eyeliner? 1.00

01:47:17.980 Oh, no. 0.99

01:47:18.480 I don't give a fuck about the eyeliner. 0.99

01:47:21.040 No. 0.98

01:47:21.340 So, I'll just reiterate what I already said.

01:47:24.400 De facto, as far as the guy or whoever asks, they should pay.

01:47:31.660 The thing is, is that the sort of way that the dating meta is, men de facto have to initiate.

01:47:41.180 So, men de facto initiate.

01:47:45.100 Well, then you need to get a better girl. 1.00

01:47:46.640 That's the thing.

01:47:47.460 But I can't sit around and say I'd really wish if women started initiating because I can't be in that position because broadly speaking, I'm not saying all women.

01:47:59.840 There are definitely women that do initiate, but it's pretty rare.

01:48:05.000 It's very rare.

01:48:06.880 I think I had a girl ask me out once.

01:48:11.340 She got me a burrito.

01:48:12.580 I was very thankful.

01:48:14.840 That was very.

01:48:15.640 I was.

01:48:16.200 And, like, I actually like that.

01:48:18.100 I'm not going to lie.

01:48:18.800 I like when.

01:48:20.540 It's nice if they take initiative.

01:48:22.700 I like it.

01:48:23.940 I like it because it's so rare.

01:48:26.280 I feel like guys really like that.

01:48:28.180 But because most men are not inundated, most men are not validated in that way.

01:48:34.640 Now, you might say, oh, men shouldn't have to be validated, but I do think a lot of guys would genuinely appreciate it and it'd be like a breath of fresh air.

01:48:45.080 But I think just what you are sort of in a better position as a woman to be. 0.97

01:48:53.840 No, well, not even financially, but you are in a better, let's say, negotiating position if someone's coming to you in the same way.

01:49:00.860 Like, for example, if I'm, you know, you might have this, Kylie, you're a Twitch streamer.

01:49:05.660 You've probably been approached for, like, sponsorships and stuff, right?

01:49:09.980 Who's in a stronger position?

01:49:11.160 If you're reaching out to the company, proposing a sponsorship or they're coming to you.

01:49:16.860 It's them coming to me.

01:49:18.540 So I've tried to reach out to companies for sponsorships.

01:49:22.940 They won't respond.

01:49:24.600 I'm probably going to get a lower price than I otherwise could.

01:49:28.540 But if they come to me, I'm in a stronger negotiating position.

01:49:32.080 So not to, like, not to reduce dating and relationships between men and women to, I don't want to make it sound transactional.

01:49:40.960 I'm just using an analogy.

01:49:43.460 That's kind of what we're doing right now, you know, like the transactional, like reducing, going on dates to purely, like, who's paying, you know, like, it's kind of making it transactional, which is why I'm, like, 50-50.

01:49:54.600 No, let me put in a new perspective of why men should pay.

01:49:58.040 First of all, the pink tax.

01:50:00.420 Do you know how much men razors are versus women razors?

01:50:03.780 Women razors are significantly more expensive because they're pink and they're for women. 1.00

01:50:07.560 Women's deodorant is more expensive than men's. 0.93

01:50:09.880 We also make significantly less than men in the work industry.

01:50:13.240 And on top of that, women wear makeup. 1.00

01:50:15.220 And I'm not saying that men can't wear makeup, but it's, like, more typical that they don't.

01:50:18.600 So if you think about that, that's, if we're going out for a date, we're doing our makeup.

01:50:21.780 And, like, things just cost more for women. 1.00

01:50:25.040 So it kind of defeats the little income gap there.

01:50:30.060 I mean.

01:50:30.980 In a way, if you want to think about it, if you want a justification for paying for someone's date.

01:50:35.460 So I do think that there are certainly ways in which women have to spend more on certain things. 1.00

01:50:44.300 But, I mean, I think you can also make the same argument for men.

01:50:48.380 Like, what?

01:50:49.560 Well, men, because of our larger size, we need to eat more food. 0.95

01:50:52.900 So our base metabolic.

01:50:55.720 I mean, I know it sounds silly, but, I mean, we do need to eat more food just for maintenance.

01:51:01.160 So we need to eat more food.

01:51:02.960 So there's that.

01:51:06.200 Men can eat a lot of food.

01:51:07.540 Yeah.

01:51:07.720 We know you eat a lot of food.

01:51:10.140 Also, that's your biology.

01:51:11.480 People aren't forcing you or charging you a tax to buy more food because you are more hungry.

01:51:17.940 You know, we literally have to pay a tax, like she was saying, to get any sort of, like, feminine product. 0.96

01:51:24.300 You know?

01:51:25.180 So, like, no one's forcing you to buy more food.

01:51:28.060 Buy a bunch of ramen.

01:51:29.260 You can save money.

01:51:30.640 But, okay, so this is definitely an interesting conversation.

01:51:35.000 So, as far as, like, the pink tax goes, some of that stuff, I mean, I'm not sure how closely it applies.

01:51:44.020 But the makeup one, for example, what if the guy was like, I'm giving you a makeup pass. 0.98

01:51:48.580 In fact, I've actually asked girls not to wear makeup when they meet me because I don't give a fuck. 0.98

01:51:51.700 Well, I don't wear makeup for guys. 0.99

01:51:53.480 I wear it for myself.

01:51:54.800 Yeah.

01:51:55.480 It's what makes me feel more.

01:51:57.020 Don't get me wrong.

01:51:57.860 I feel completely confident without makeup and stuff.

01:52:00.180 But that's, I would, if I'm going on a date and I want to look nice and I, it's what I prefer.

01:52:05.120 I'm not doing it to be like, oh, my God, I really hope he likes my eyeliner tonight because he's probably not going to notice it.

01:52:09.300 I know that.

01:52:10.060 It's for myself.

01:52:10.860 And, like, I like it for myself.

01:52:12.880 So, like, if they tell me not to wear makeup, I honestly would be like, like, I'd.

01:52:16.580 You'd find that off-putting.

01:52:17.600 I would find that off-putting.

01:52:18.700 I'm like, that's.

01:52:19.060 Don't wear makeup.

01:52:19.500 That's my decision.

01:52:20.800 But couldn't you view it in a way, like, he is less interested in your appearance?

01:52:28.240 Kind of.

01:52:28.820 Like, wouldn't it to some degree?

01:52:30.200 If we're doing something nice and we're taking pictures, I'm going to want to put makeup on.

01:52:33.380 Like, it just, and, like, say I am someone who wears, like, a ton of makeup and I feel super insecure without any makeup on, then I'm just going to feel insecure the whole time.

01:52:41.320 So, like, they shouldn't have any say in my makeup that I wear.

01:52:46.660 Yeah.

01:52:47.780 It shouldn't matter, though.

01:52:50.260 Like, it doesn't matter whether a girl feels insecure without makeup or whether she's more comfortable with makeup.

01:52:56.360 It doesn't matter her reason.

01:52:58.120 Makeup is makeup.

01:52:59.740 And it's, like, a lot of things about women. 1.00

01:53:03.180 It literally does not matter why we do things with our own bodies.

01:53:06.220 And it's nobody else's opinion.

01:53:08.420 No.

01:53:08.720 So, with that being said, why would you, why did you ask girls to not wear makeup on first dates?

01:53:15.040 Or just dates in general?

01:53:18.440 So.

01:53:19.660 He wants to see if they're cap-ish.

01:53:21.620 Honestly, anything more than some eyeliner is kind of a letdown for me.

01:53:24.800 I'm not going to lie.

01:53:26.320 Anything what?

01:53:27.200 Anything more than, like, some eyeliner, it's a bit of a letdown for me.

01:53:30.140 Like lashes?

01:53:30.640 On a date.

01:53:31.540 What's that?

01:53:31.980 Fake lashes?

01:53:33.380 I'm not a fan. 0.99

01:53:34.440 But who gives a shit? 0.99

01:53:35.320 I don't feel like, well, okay, I'll say this. 0.99

01:53:37.540 And so, like, if, if a girl has, like, what's the powder on the face called?

01:53:47.140 Is that?

01:53:47.660 Powder?

01:53:48.200 Powder.

01:53:48.820 Is it just powder?

01:53:49.340 Which one?

01:53:49.620 So, like, by the way, I'm not saying that, I'm not saying that women shouldn't wear makeup.

01:53:53.540 It's just, like, a personal preference.

01:53:54.560 This is my personal preference.

01:53:55.880 Like, honestly, maybe I'm low maintenance.

01:53:59.240 Like, you don't have to wear makeup around me.

01:54:01.720 Like, I don't care.

01:54:03.560 Obviously, like, standard grooming stuff and, you know, being clean or whatever.

01:54:09.020 But, yeah, I mean, I don't, I honestly, I don't like makeup.

01:54:14.580 I don't like the look of it so much.

01:54:16.260 A little eyeliner is okay, I guess. 1.00

01:54:20.080 But the big thing is, is if you're kissing a girl and the fucking shit gets on your pillow or, like, you're kissing and it gets on your face, I don't like that. 1.00

01:54:28.960 I mean. 1.00

01:54:29.180 I'm prone to acne, so.

01:54:31.260 You've got to keep the skin flawless.

01:54:34.060 The acne gets on my face and then I'll.

01:54:36.160 She needs a better setting spray. 1.00

01:54:37.720 I mean, the, like, the pillow thing makes sense, but I'm curious about, like, why, with, again, a lot of things, why do you think that the girl is wearing makeup specifically for you?

01:54:52.780 I didn't say that.

01:54:53.840 Well, you, I mean, you're expressing the opinion of what you like and don't like and then you ask girls not to wear makeup on a first date.

01:54:59.120 Yeah, I've done that.

01:54:59.660 So, with that being said, if she enjoys wearing makeup and it makes her feel happy and it makes her feel pretty, shouldn't you just appreciate that and be happy that she's happy because you like her?

01:55:10.420 Well, I'm not, I wouldn't force a girl to do anything. 0.99

01:55:12.880 I would, I would ask.

01:55:15.020 She's, and she's ultimately free to, if she wants to wear makeup.

01:55:19.000 Do you think it's a red flag if she said, no, I want to wear makeup?

01:55:23.120 No, not necessarily.

01:55:24.280 I think most people are pretty amenable and agreeable and, of, of the experience, of the experience, what's that music?

01:55:31.360 Is that from outside, Chris?

01:55:33.200 Yeah, it's from outside.

01:55:34.320 Oh, okay.

01:55:35.660 I think that's my phone.

01:55:37.720 Oh, Chris, can you silence the phone, Chris?

01:55:40.040 Silence the phone, Chris.

01:55:44.340 Malibu, 1992.

01:55:46.080 Yeah, I don't know.

01:55:47.060 I feel like even if you wear makeup, it doesn't mean you're fake.

01:55:49.220 Like, I'm looking at that one comment right there, but.

01:55:52.060 Um, and, like, you can also, like, you can ask girls, like, if a guy was, like, if a guy was, like, don't wear makeup, I'd be, like.

01:56:00.940 I would never demand.

01:56:02.220 Yeah.

01:56:02.600 I would politely ask.

01:56:03.880 I'd be, like.

01:56:04.600 Or you could just make it a suggestion and be, like, don't feel like you need to, like, completely dress up if you don't want to.

01:56:09.180 I think more just, like.

01:56:10.060 Oh, I'll tell girls to wear sweatpants. 1.00

01:56:11.280 Yeah, like, something like that.

01:56:12.500 But not being, like, not being, like, you should not wear makeup if you're comfortable with that.

01:56:17.260 It should be more, like, oh, if you don't want to wear makeup, like, if you don't feel like getting all dressed up, like, we can just do something chill.

01:56:22.320 Yeah, I'll try.

01:56:22.900 I'll sometimes try to frame it that way.

01:56:24.300 Yeah, I would definitely, like, that would, I would totally be, like, oh, my God, like, that's hot.

01:56:28.100 I would think that's hot if a guy said that to me.

01:56:29.520 But if he's, like, don't wear makeup.

01:56:31.360 Yeah, it's, like, who's for you to say?

01:56:33.960 There's this old, old Drake song.

01:56:36.960 I think it's something She's the Best.

01:56:39.720 Or, wait, You the Best?

01:56:42.700 Does anybody know what I'm talking about?

01:56:44.280 I do know.

01:56:44.700 No.

01:56:44.920 Something like, you're the prettiest when your hair is tight. 1.00

01:56:51.960 It's, fuck. 0.99

01:56:52.460 Does anyone, anyone in the chat? 1.00

01:56:55.080 Drake.

01:56:55.480 Anyone in the chat, please.

01:56:57.260 It's a Drake song.

01:56:58.440 Like, one of his, I think it was his first single.

01:57:00.380 Drake's first single.

01:57:02.180 But I think I know what you're saying.

01:57:03.520 Like, the more casual look, like, is the best in a lot of men's opinions.

01:57:07.400 Yeah, can someone type, put the lyrics in the chat, guys, because it's not coming to me.

01:57:12.820 If you can search for something like, hair-tied, hair-tied, chilling, chilling with no makeup.

01:57:22.540 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:57:24.960 Wait, what is it called?

01:57:26.180 Quick side note, though.

01:57:28.200 Whoever Tone Space is.

01:57:30.280 No, dude, I totally think that it goes both ways.

01:57:33.120 I don't think that a girl has the right to tell a guy to shave or not to shave, or et cetera, either. 0.99

01:57:39.980 Do whatever the hell you want.

01:57:41.580 Yeah.

01:57:42.040 Do what makes you feel sexy.

01:57:43.600 Would you date a guy with a beard?

01:57:46.180 Um, actually, you know what?

01:57:48.860 A lot of women have issue with guys who have facial hair. 1.00

01:57:52.340 Well, I mean, it gives you, like, raise, like, rug burn.

01:57:55.080 But with that being said, like, I grew up with my mom telling me that, like, you know you actually love someone

01:58:02.100 when you love the thing on them that you've never liked before.

01:58:04.660 Best you ever had.

01:58:05.360 Best you, okay, best, is it Best You Ever Had by Drake?

01:58:08.080 Yeah.

01:58:08.340 Yeah, so it's, uh, can anyone, anyone put the lyrics in chat?

01:58:13.000 They are.

01:58:13.300 Baby, you're my everything.

01:58:14.740 You are what I ever wanted.

01:58:16.300 We can do the big thing.

01:58:17.280 Yeah, sweatpants.

01:58:18.100 You haven't done it.

01:58:18.800 Hold on.

01:58:19.740 Chilling with no makeup on. 1.00

01:58:21.400 You're my fucking thing. 1.00

01:58:22.880 No, sweatpants, hair-tied, chilling with no makeup on. 1.00

01:58:26.120 That's when you're the prettiest, something like that.

01:58:27.920 That's when you're the prettiest.

01:58:29.180 So that's me.

01:58:30.560 I don't, like, I don't.

01:58:31.520 But if we're going to dinner, they're not going to wear sweatpants.

01:58:33.900 Yeah. 1.00

01:58:34.160 Shit, wear sweatpants to dinner. 1.00

01:58:35.940 Wear sweatpants to the drink. 1.00

01:58:37.280 But, like, not on the first date.

01:58:37.820 First date.

01:58:38.720 What?

01:58:39.120 First date.

01:58:39.840 I would think that you're trying to hook up with me.

01:58:42.200 If I wear sweatpants?

01:58:43.000 Yeah, like, chill out in my house.

01:58:44.440 Good.

01:58:44.460 Watch Netflix.

01:58:47.620 I'm kidding.

01:58:48.540 I'm kidding.

01:58:49.200 I'd be like, can we do something in public?

01:58:51.040 Like, I would deadass say, like, can we do something in public?

01:58:53.640 Because I'd want to hang out with this guy.

01:58:54.980 I'd be like, let's see if he actually wants to hang out in public and not, like, at his own house.

01:58:59.320 Yeah, and there's something really nice about, like, actually being on, like, a real date and not just, like, yeah, come, like, hang over at my house and chill.

01:59:06.860 Let's watch some Netflix.

01:59:08.180 Yeah.

01:59:08.860 Like, let's actually have a conversation and enjoy each other's company, you know?

01:59:13.400 Absolutely.

01:59:13.720 Um, the thing you asked about beards, I, it depends if a guy takes care of their beard, because if a guy takes care of their beard, it will not, like, cause me to break out or cause me to have, like, beard burn on my face.

01:59:26.480 And, like, it's fine.

01:59:27.660 It doesn't get in the way or anything.

01:59:28.960 But if they have, like, a weird stubble and they don't wash their face, then your face will literally be, like, messed up for, like, two weeks.

01:59:39.400 Like, and it's, like, then you're just, like, ew, the next day you're, like, they don't wash their face and it just, like, got all over me.

01:59:44.600 But, like, if a man, if a guy has a beard, I have no issue with it as long as they, like, take care of it.

01:59:49.840 Because also if they don't take care of it, it just, like, looks bad.

01:59:51.900 No, my, my friend made out with a guy that had, like, stubble on his chin and she had, like, a pus-filled, like, wart that was here that grew because he, like, was so disgusting. 0.99

02:00:03.380 And it was there for, like, two, three weeks.

02:00:05.240 Like, she wore a band-aid from just, like, stubble.

02:00:07.420 Like, it was scratching on her face.

02:00:09.020 And he definitely didn't wash it.

02:00:09.920 And definitely didn't wash it.

02:00:11.120 Same thing happened in, well, not the same thing at all.

02:00:12.820 I just had, like, full razor burn.

02:00:14.580 Yeah.

02:00:14.900 Like, not razor burn.

02:00:16.300 Like, rug burn right here.

02:00:18.740 But honestly, like, I don't know.

02:00:20.480 I think it's super interesting how, like, you know, how, like, you really won't like something about a guy or, like, you'll have a specific type, whatever, or whoever you're into.

02:00:29.780 And then one day you start liking a person who has that feature.

02:00:34.320 Like, let's say you hate beards.

02:00:35.440 You don't like beards.

02:00:36.280 And then you find yourself really liking a guy with a beard.

02:00:39.320 It flips you, you know?

02:00:41.100 Well, so, I think it doesn't really.

02:00:43.000 That's definitely happened to me.

02:00:44.300 Yeah, me too.

02:00:45.440 I like mustaches, but not beards.

02:00:47.880 Oh, that Top Gun?

02:00:49.340 It's Top Gun.

02:00:50.260 No, I've liked it before.

02:00:52.060 I like, like, that indie guy look with, like, the hat and, like, the mustache.

02:00:56.640 Hipster?

02:00:57.600 Hipster look?

02:00:58.380 No, hipsters aren't a thing anymore.

02:01:00.440 Yeah.

02:01:00.720 I feel like a lot of the time people are, like, really judgmental, like, of each other.

02:01:09.260 I don't know.

02:01:09.960 Like, I know that girls have definitely looked at me and been like, oh, like, I don't even know what they would say. 0.80

02:01:16.720 Just, like, being rude is like, oh, like, she definitely has, like, a lot of bodies or, like, she talks to a lot of guys. 1.00

02:01:21.700 Like, or insulting my appearance, but I also feel like, like, men don't do that as often as, like, women do that to each other. 0.99

02:01:30.040 That's an interesting take.

02:01:31.140 And, like.

02:01:31.540 And I, so, what you're, if I can sort of.

02:01:33.660 Yeah.

02:01:34.220 Re, give, recap what you're saying a little bit. 0.84

02:01:36.520 So, you actually think that it's more often women who are, let's say, slut-shaming other women than it is men slut-shaming women. 0.94

02:01:44.800 100%. 0.56

02:01:45.040 I have definitely, like, at my old high school, I was bullied, like, a lot from, like, all these different girls because they were, like, oh, she hangs out with, like, a lot of guys. 0.99

02:01:56.080 Like, she's definitely a slut. 1.00

02:01:57.200 Like, it's so gross. 1.00

02:01:58.560 Like, she's so ugly. 0.99

02:01:59.660 Like, she has no friends. 0.99

02:02:01.180 And I had to deal with that for a long time.

02:02:04.400 And the only time that I've been, like, insulted more by men was, like, over the internet rather than, like, in person because I feel like with women.

02:02:12.040 Oh, yeah, the internet's super toxic.

02:02:13.380 Exactly.

02:02:13.960 Super toxic.

02:02:15.100 As, I don't know, because, like, the whole makeup thing, men are, like, oh, yeah, like, she has a cake face.

02:02:22.480 You know what I mean?

02:02:22.920 But girls can, like, be ruthless. 1.00

02:02:25.440 They'll be, like, oh, yeah, her highlighter, like, is disgusting. 0.91

02:02:28.460 Like, she needs to do her contour.

02:02:29.980 They know.

02:02:30.760 They know.

02:02:31.360 They know where it hurts.

02:02:32.540 Like, wow, she's wearing that much makeup and, like, still looks like that.

02:02:35.760 Like, I don't know.

02:02:36.920 That's just high school, honestly.

02:02:38.760 That's, like, now too.

02:02:40.200 College, I think a lot of girls are more genuine now.

02:02:43.180 It's true.

02:02:43.640 Well, it's also because I look a lot different than high school and college and people treat

02:02:48.120 you differently based on how, like, pretty or how, like, you look. 0.94

02:02:52.640 Like, because girls are just toxic. 1.00

02:02:54.300 Like, they, they're really shallow. 0.95

02:02:56.100 Like, like, I don't care, like, what kind of, like, who you say you are.

02:03:00.660 Like, girls are shallow. 1.00

02:03:02.360 Like, like, they will, they will, like, judge you.

02:03:06.300 But, like, I guess here people are more mature and know not to say it, like, behind their back.

02:03:11.380 Because it doesn't matter as much anymore.

02:03:13.440 I don't think.

02:03:14.240 Like, yeah, I definitely think, like, girls in high school were more harsh. 1.00

02:03:19.600 But, like, I think in college, most of the time I'm walking down the street and I'm, like,

02:03:23.140 love your outfit, girl.

02:03:24.040 Like, that literally happened when we were outside.

02:03:25.940 Like, you were, like, I love your outfit to this girl. 0.96

02:03:27.920 And she was, like, I love yours, too.

02:03:28.960 Like, I feel like there's a lot more girl love now than before.

02:03:32.160 Or unless girls hate each other if they're, like, hooking up with, like, the same person. 1.00

02:03:36.100 Eskimo sisters.

02:03:37.520 Eskimo sisters usually don't like each other if it's, like, happening at the same time. 0.99

02:03:42.300 But if it's, like, later and it's, like, oh, my God, you got with him, too.

02:03:44.500 That's funny.

02:03:45.260 Yeah.

02:03:45.500 It also just, like, totally depends on who you are.

02:03:47.720 And, like, let's be honest. 1.00

02:03:48.720 Like, most of that shit, like, stems from jealousy. 1.00

02:03:52.400 Oh, 100%. 1.00

02:03:53.400 You know?

02:03:53.660 And it's, like, oh, she has perfect lashes.

02:03:56.080 Like, you do right now, your fake lashes. 1.00

02:03:58.060 And it's some girl's 100% going to talk shit about you. 1.00

02:04:01.280 Why is she wearing fake lashes? 1.00

02:04:02.320 It's a Thursday.

02:04:03.520 Yeah, it's a Thursday.

02:04:04.740 It's a Thursday.

02:04:05.140 And, like, that's fine.

02:04:05.760 She's trying too hard.

02:04:06.700 You know, you do you. 0.99

02:04:07.460 But it's just, like, when it comes to anyone talking shit, it says way more about them than it does about you. 0.99

02:04:12.940 It's, like, dude, stop projecting. 0.99

02:04:15.720 Yeah, no, it's just the insecurity.

02:04:18.060 Men with other men, it's completely different.

02:04:21.060 Like, men will be friends with any guy.

02:04:23.420 Like, they don't care how he looks.

02:04:25.200 Yeah.

02:04:25.800 Like, there's no, like, appearance-based friendships with guys.

02:04:30.000 Guys, they like each other based off their personality, their vibe.

02:04:34.000 Girls, I see that they tend to, like, click together more when they're more similar-looking with each other. 0.97

02:04:39.620 Yeah, 100%.

02:04:40.900 Yeah.

02:04:42.080 I feel like that also kind of shows in, like, frats and sororities.

02:04:45.720 Like, the sorority rush is, like, this, like, cut-out thing.

02:04:48.940 Like, it's, like, cookie-cutter.

02:04:50.040 Like, everyone has to be, like, standing a certain way.

02:04:52.200 Like, when I was rushing, I was like, oh, like, I need to be sitting up straight.

02:04:55.320 But then for guys, they're like, what's your favorite beer?

02:04:57.720 Yeah, and they're like, chug this alcohol.

02:04:59.880 And then for us, they're like, don't talk about, like, alcohol, boys, and stuff like that.

02:05:03.680 And then boys just talk about boys.

02:05:05.580 Isn't there, like, a sorority that literally just looks at your Instagram and see how many followers and how pretty you are? 1.00

02:05:11.640 And then they decide just off that and no, like, interviews or anything.

02:05:15.820 Some definitely do.

02:05:16.980 That's what they did to us to get us here.

02:05:19.180 Really?

02:05:19.400 I was like, I knew, I knew, I knew Brian before, but, yeah. 0.99

02:05:25.680 You guys were like, damn, look at, look at their Instagram. 0.97

02:05:29.380 Let's get these college ladies on here. 1.00

02:05:31.900 Hey.

02:05:32.700 What's up about that, Brian?

02:05:34.180 What's up with what?

02:05:35.920 How, how'd you pick your women? 1.00

02:05:38.600 How'd I pick my, how'd I?

02:05:40.160 Well, my friend recommended me to this, I think.

02:05:42.260 Yeah, so, I was taught.

02:05:43.980 So you reached out?

02:05:44.600 Shoo? 0.99

02:05:45.160 What's his name?

02:05:45.920 Shush.

02:05:46.640 Shout out, Shush. 1.00

02:05:47.480 He was here earlier.

02:05:48.140 He actually asked a question earlier.

02:05:49.520 I wanted to shout out, but it was like, he said, ask them if they've ever paid.

02:05:54.660 But he, he's the main DJ for my favorite fraternity.

02:05:59.780 And he's like, no. 1.00

02:06:01.900 Fuck, no. 1.00

02:06:02.820 ZBT. 1.00

02:06:03.600 But he, he's like one of my really close friends.

02:06:06.740 And you guys DMed him and were like, do you know anyone that would want to be on this show?

02:06:09.900 Immediately, he texted me.

02:06:10.880 He's like, Sid, you need to go on this.

02:06:12.440 Because a lot of my friends tell me that I would be really good on Too Hot to Handle.

02:06:15.960 Because like, I like love money, but then also like have no self, um, resistance, self-control.

02:06:23.760 Yeah.

02:06:24.800 Wow.

02:06:25.440 No, I, I think, uh, he made a really good recommendation.

02:06:29.120 You've been a great, great panelist.

02:06:30.660 Um, I totally disagree with that.

02:06:33.040 Wait, so what was Aline's question?

02:06:36.540 Did I say your name right?

02:06:37.760 Yeah.

02:06:38.060 Okay.

02:06:38.600 Yeah.

02:06:38.900 Well, you, you asked me a question.

02:06:40.600 Oh, oh, okay.

02:06:41.380 How did you pick us?

02:06:42.720 Oh, how did, like, what was your criteria?

02:06:44.640 Okay.

02:06:44.920 So for you, I actually, I think I saw one of your TikToks.

02:06:49.180 Okay.

02:06:49.680 And then, cause it was like tagged under UCSB or something.

02:06:52.940 It was like one of the top ones.

02:06:55.060 Was it swerving Sigma Chi men?

02:06:57.120 No, you were in a, you were, you were in a sailor.

02:07:00.640 Moon costume.

02:07:01.480 Oh, that was my Halloween one.

02:07:03.040 That was a while ago.

02:07:04.280 You just saw on your for you page?

02:07:05.700 What's that?

02:07:06.200 You just saw on your for you page?

02:07:07.420 I saw the, I think a while ago.

02:07:09.100 And I think I was just like, oh, she goes to UCSB.

02:07:11.980 Cause I was at the time I was posting a ton of stuff on TikTok.

02:07:14.900 Yeah.

02:07:15.160 And I was looking at the top posts on, under all the tags for UCSB.

02:07:18.920 Oh yeah.

02:07:19.500 I'm like the, like the third one.

02:07:20.840 You're like one of the top ones for your sailor Moon one or whatever.

02:07:24.420 Under the UCSB.

02:07:25.180 Or it was like, yeah, I think it was something like, should I go to class in this, uh, in this

02:07:29.380 costume?

02:07:29.740 By the way, guys, should, should one in the chat, should Aline come back?

02:07:35.820 And she offered to wear her sailor Moon costume.

02:07:38.300 That's fast.

02:07:38.700 Wait, right?

02:07:40.000 Um, I'll wear yours, that one.

02:07:42.660 You'll wear that one?

02:07:43.320 I don't know if I have mine anymore.

02:07:44.460 Oh, okay.

02:07:44.880 You got rid of it?

02:07:45.680 Yeah. 1.00

02:07:45.900 Darn. 1.00

02:07:46.140 It's like, I'm going back home and like, I have strict parents. 1.00

02:07:49.400 Like I can't bring that.

02:07:51.900 Um, so, but would you be down to come back on?

02:07:55.340 Yeah.

02:07:55.840 Okay.

02:07:56.420 One in, one in the chat, if you want to lean to come back on, she's had some, some fun

02:07:59.780 takes.

02:08:00.540 This has been a dope panel.

02:08:01.580 I'm not going to lie.

02:08:02.060 Like really, probably the best panel so far.

02:08:04.380 We're like, we're like, we're like, um, we knew this is a frat chat.

02:08:10.240 Wait, so, oh, and then you're friends with Aline, right?

02:08:14.700 Yeah.

02:08:14.980 Yeah.

02:08:15.120 So you, she's the plus one and then Kylie was through, through, through Moo.

02:08:20.620 If you guys don't know, Moo Esports was this, uh, Esports cafe here in Isla Vista, unfortunately

02:08:25.700 closed, uh, a couple of months ago.

02:08:28.700 The guy, John, um, it was nice, really nice guy.

02:08:32.360 He actually gifted me something before he left.

02:08:35.120 Yeah.

02:08:35.440 Really nice guy.

02:08:36.440 Super, uh, super hospitable.

02:08:38.640 And, uh, but he, he went to New York.

02:08:41.620 Really?

02:08:42.000 Like permanently?

02:08:42.540 To NYU.

02:08:43.420 Oh, wow.

02:08:43.980 For, for school.

02:08:44.880 Good for him.

02:08:45.660 So, um, let's do some super chats here, Chris, cause we got a few.

02:08:50.920 Super chats.

02:08:52.380 We are, we have Mr.

02:08:53.780 Oh, and some Twitch.

02:08:54.520 We'll pull up Twitch after too.

02:08:55.540 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:08:55.760 We have, uh, yeah.

02:08:57.120 Let's, uh, we have Will Smith here.

02:08:58.960 Uh, he says that, uh.

02:09:00.140 Or I think there's one before that.

02:09:02.420 The J card one.

02:09:04.140 Oh, okay.

02:09:04.860 J card.

02:09:05.820 Thank you for the $2 super chat.

02:09:07.440 Much appreciated, man.

02:09:08.140 Hi, best Tinder pickup line.

02:09:10.840 That could be fun.

02:09:12.040 Um, I'll let the girls go and then I'll give you my gangster line. 1.00

02:09:16.280 Like guys say to you?

02:09:17.800 For guys to say to you.

02:09:18.940 Oh.

02:09:19.460 What would be like the best?

02:09:20.740 I've never had a dating app.

02:09:22.580 You've never had a dating app?

02:09:24.220 I haven't needed to.

02:09:25.840 No, I'm kidding.

02:09:26.640 I just don't, I don't know.

02:09:28.720 It seems like so shallow to me.

02:09:30.360 I don't really like having that, like, shallow interaction, like, purely, because most, a lot

02:09:35.400 of people, they only look at, like, what you wrote if they're like, oh yeah, like, she's

02:09:39.880 hot enough, you know?

02:09:40.860 Yeah.

02:09:41.000 But, so I've never had a dating app, but I honestly, I like, like, cheesy puns personally.

02:09:48.460 Like, that would, that would get you a first date for sure.

02:09:51.760 Did you know that on Tinder, I matched with my chem TA, and then he slid in my DMs?

02:10:00.300 Isn't that illegal?

02:10:01.740 No, because it's not the professor.

02:10:02.820 The TA.

02:10:03.500 Oh, TAs are.

02:10:04.680 The teacher's assistant.

02:10:06.620 But if it was the professor, that might be.

02:10:07.800 I don't even think that's illegal, because we're over 18.

02:10:09.900 When I say illegal, I just mean.

02:10:11.220 It's found a pun.

02:10:11.720 It's, well, no, I think, uh, the teacher could get in, not criminally, but the teacher

02:10:16.680 could get in trouble with the school.

02:10:18.440 Yeah.

02:10:18.880 For dating. 1.00

02:10:19.720 My friend fucked her professor. 1.00

02:10:20.340 I had such a hot professor, dude. 1.00

02:10:22.480 And then I found out he was married, and I was like.

02:10:26.180 No way.

02:10:27.240 Yeah.

02:10:27.940 Name drop after.

02:10:29.440 Yeah.

02:10:31.100 Oh, I had dinner after this.

02:10:33.020 Oh.

02:10:33.380 Loki.

02:10:35.180 Who's paying?

02:10:35.660 By the way.

02:10:36.220 Yeah, who's paying?

02:10:37.120 You're paying, you ask.

02:10:38.380 Ryan's paying.

02:10:38.960 Ryan, you paying?

02:10:40.300 Best pickup line, what?

02:10:42.040 Best pickup line.

02:10:44.940 I don't know.

02:10:45.940 I have a really good Tinder buy.

02:10:47.420 I actually just deleted Tinder recently.

02:10:48.980 Um, but I have a really good Tinder bio, so people come up with a lot of creative things.

02:10:56.680 Um, it's swipe right if you like tall girls and sleepovers, because I, I mentioned I'm 1.00

02:11:02.680 tall to, like, fend off the short kings.

02:11:05.140 We love short kings.

02:11:06.680 I love short kings.

02:11:07.520 Short kings is a slur.

02:11:07.880 No discrimination, but it's just, like, I'm 5'10", and, like, if we're 5'6", like, besties.

02:11:14.020 Like, I don't know.

02:11:14.820 It just doesn't work.

02:11:15.760 And everyone's like, oh, you're the same height in bed.

02:11:17.440 You're not.

02:11:18.140 You're not.

02:11:19.100 But, um, what do I think about high?

02:11:21.560 I think high is a little basic.

02:11:22.780 I'm probably not going to respond to that.

02:11:24.120 Oh, wait.

02:11:25.020 He wasn't, he wasn't even asking a question.

02:11:27.100 No.

02:11:27.320 He was saying, hi.

02:11:28.400 He was, like, insert best pickup line.

02:11:29.580 No, I'm sorry.

02:11:30.620 I think that's sarcastic.

02:11:31.860 Yeah, yeah, J card.

02:11:32.920 Like, I, no, that's a terrible Tinder pickup line.

02:11:36.440 Never say hi.

02:11:37.000 I mean, what else are you supposed to say?

02:11:38.320 Never say hi.

02:11:39.760 I mean, the thing is, is that every, like, I'm sure you, of the girls here who have been

02:11:44.740 on dating apps, like, a lot of guys just, the first thing they'll say is, hi, hey,

02:11:50.640 how you doing?

02:11:51.340 Something very basic.

02:11:52.860 And maybe if he's, maybe if he's good looking, then you'll let it slide.

02:11:56.100 But, like, if you get a hundred of those, you might, you might be a bit more intrigued

02:11:59.820 by the guy who, like, maybe says something a bit clever or, you know.

02:12:03.760 So, yeah, let's move on to the next Super Chat, Chris.

02:12:07.160 Will Smith.

02:12:09.560 Two dollars.

02:12:10.400 She belonged to the streets.

02:12:12.560 I don't know who you're referring to.

02:12:14.200 She belongs to the streets. 0.92

02:12:15.480 But Will Smith, where's your buddy Bill Gates, dude?

02:12:18.360 So, our first show, there was a Bill Gates going back and forth with Will Smith.

02:12:22.400 Yeah, sorry about Jada, dude.

02:12:23.640 You got cucked.

02:12:24.440 Um, next Super Chat, Chris.

02:12:26.840 Oh, we got some J card with some cheers on Twitch.

02:12:31.780 Thank you, buddy.

02:12:32.600 Appreciate it.

02:12:33.400 69 biddies.

02:12:34.680 Appreciate all the Twitch supporters.

02:12:36.920 Thank you.

02:12:37.620 And you can, I guess, show all of them.

02:12:39.780 Why not?

02:12:40.200 Just show them real quick.

02:12:41.340 Meow.

02:12:41.800 Boom, lol.

02:12:42.380 Meow, meow.

02:12:44.300 Meow.

02:12:46.040 You'll not, by the way, Chris, you don't have to hide them before you show the next one.

02:12:49.400 I think you can just show.

02:12:50.700 Yeah.

02:12:50.840 Yeah.

02:12:50.900 Mr. Mojo Ryzen, $10 Super Chat.

02:12:55.400 Thank you for the Super Chat, man.

02:12:56.580 Appreciate it.

02:12:57.460 Brian, these girls don't understand how much of a legend you are.

02:13:01.340 You and Loft were my favorite channels back in the day.

02:13:04.040 Well, thank you for the Super Chat.

02:13:05.140 Much appreciated.

02:13:05.820 Thank you for the kind words.

02:13:09.260 Am I a legend?

02:13:10.080 I don't know, dude. 1.00

02:13:10.660 I'm like a D-list, Z-list fuck. 0.99

02:13:13.540 I mean, so here's, and like, and maybe this is because I stayed in Santa Barbara. 0.99

02:13:18.660 I never went to L.A., and I think that's kind of what, you know, when I was building

02:13:23.880 up the YouTube career, what kept my head on.

02:13:26.800 Staying in Santa Barbara, I can't stand L.A.

02:13:29.120 No offense to anybody who's from L.A.

02:13:30.660 or lives in L.A.

02:13:31.800 Growing up in a smaller town, I just, the traffic's bad, whatever.

02:13:35.820 But I think being in a community where I was, there's not a lot of other YouTubers, like 1.00

02:13:41.840 people don't really give a fuck about if you have a YouTube channel or whatnot, like, I 0.60

02:13:46.800 think it kept me fairly grounded.

02:13:49.400 But yeah, as far as where, like, where you, where I rank social media people, and maybe

02:13:55.060 this is because I'm a bit older, I feel like now you ask young people, what do you want

02:13:58.840 to be?

02:13:59.440 It's like, I want to be a YouTuber.

02:14:01.280 I want to do social media.

02:14:02.440 You ask, like, younger kids.

02:14:04.100 And so there, I think younger people are looking up to, like, their favorite YouTuber, their

02:14:09.740 favorite Twitch streamer, like, that's the new A-list actor to them.

02:14:15.260 That's the new Justin Bieber, like, that's, that's how people view them.

02:14:18.500 It's also because there's so much content to consume of them, and they post a lot of

02:14:21.700 personal things, so you feel like you can be a part of their life, and you're like,

02:14:24.400 oh, I want to do that too.

02:14:25.500 Yeah.

02:14:25.820 You feel more personal, so you look up to them even more.

02:14:28.180 Yeah, but so just as far as the legend thing, so that, you know, there's, like, ventriloquist,

02:14:34.100 stage ventriloquist, and then there's a YouTuber down here.

02:14:37.420 So that's kind of my, my take on that. 0.99

02:14:39.540 I, I fucked my favorite Twitch streamer. 0.98

02:14:41.700 Who? 1.00

02:14:41.940 Oh, hell yeah.

02:14:43.280 I'll name Jeff it afterward.

02:14:44.620 No.

02:14:44.940 Say it.

02:14:45.320 No.

02:14:46.740 No, that's the thing.

02:14:47.740 Was it XQC?

02:14:48.760 Oh, for sure.

02:14:49.580 No, because I, like, looked up to him as, like, a content creator, and I was like, wow,

02:14:53.420 like, I would really.

02:14:54.540 So the poppin?

02:14:56.160 No.

02:14:56.520 Was it so the poppin?

02:14:56.940 I'm not going to say it on live, but, um, but, you know, I looked up to him, and then

02:15:02.480 Asmongold?

02:15:02.900 And then he looked down on me.

02:15:04.860 Was it, do you know Asmongold?

02:15:06.680 No.

02:15:07.300 Was it, it was, it wasn't Asmongold?

02:15:09.760 No.

02:15:10.660 Trying to think of the other Twitch streamers I know.

02:15:12.620 Oh, my God.

02:15:13.580 I'll just tell you after.

02:15:15.020 Okay, fine.

02:15:15.660 I'm not saying it.

02:15:16.180 I'm sorry.

02:15:16.720 I'm sorry.

02:15:17.780 I have a 3.5.

02:15:18.900 No exposure.

02:15:19.960 I have a 4.5 in high school.

02:15:22.640 I had a 4.4 in high school.

02:15:24.360 We had all the super chats, Chris.

02:15:25.640 I'm an art major.

02:15:26.760 Oh, Chris, can we just pull up?

02:15:28.820 Yeah, we're going to Twitch.

02:15:30.140 I'm going to give my two cents.

02:15:31.960 Wait, Chris.

02:15:32.600 Yeah, yeah.

02:15:33.040 Can you pull up Twitch?

02:15:34.220 Coming, coming.

02:15:35.060 Yep.

02:15:37.100 It's really cool, though.

02:15:38.180 Like, everybody, especially us, like, in this day and age, we remember our favorite YouTubers

02:15:42.300 growing up.

02:15:43.420 You know?

02:15:43.960 And, like, you feel like you know them.

02:15:45.260 You are excited to get home from school so, like, you can watch the new video of that

02:15:49.820 day.

02:15:50.340 Scott is Minecraft.

02:15:51.580 And so, like, I don't know.

02:15:52.620 People rely on you.

02:15:54.020 My favorite YouTuber is A$AP Science.

02:15:56.420 Ay.

02:15:57.400 I like just in my time.

02:15:58.400 Hang green all the way.

02:15:59.140 Oh, mine was Smosh.

02:16:01.200 Yeah.

02:16:01.880 Smosh was good.

02:16:04.380 I don't know.

02:16:05.260 This guy seems noob mother.

02:16:07.680 ABG gets it.

02:16:08.740 Ay.

02:16:09.960 Do you consider yourself an ABG?

02:16:12.440 People call me that, but I've never called myself that.

02:16:15.260 For people, what do you want to explain to the audience if they don't know what that

02:16:19.100 means?

02:16:19.440 I believe it stands for Asian baby girl.

02:16:22.400 I've heard Asian boba girl. 1.00

02:16:24.060 Is that also a thing?

02:16:25.820 It's baby girl?

02:16:26.640 Fun fact, I don't like boba. 1.00

02:16:28.200 I don't like boba either.

02:16:29.360 It's, like, mid at best. 0.98

02:16:33.420 And, like, the stereotype for ABGs are they're dating a Kevin Nguyen, which is, like, a fuckboy, 0.95

02:16:44.000 like, Asian guy with the tattoos. 0.86

02:16:45.240 Like, the basic, the basic, the default skin.

02:16:47.540 Yeah.

02:16:48.080 Yeah, exactly.

02:16:48.580 And then, um, they, they're, like, sorry guys.

02:16:51.260 They're, like, addicted to nicotine.

02:16:53.240 They drive, like, a Lexus.

02:16:54.960 They go to raves.

02:16:56.600 They, they have, like, tattoos.

02:16:58.200 I don't do any of that.

02:16:59.820 I do drive a Lexus, though.

02:17:02.360 You drive a Lexus?

02:17:03.220 I think it means you're, like, pretty, like, you dress nice and, like, like, I don't know.

02:17:07.240 I feel like, like, they all, you have, like, a cute sense of style.

02:17:09.400 I think it's more of, like, like, Americanized Asian girl.

02:17:15.000 That's my take.

02:17:16.020 Are you Vietnamese?

02:17:17.480 Yeah, how'd you know?

02:17:19.440 I know.

02:17:21.840 Someone just asked advice.

02:17:23.780 Someone's asking for advice.

02:17:25.080 Let's help you out.

02:17:25.320 For dating advice.

02:17:27.340 Let's get this.

02:17:27.620 How do you pronounce that very common last name?

02:17:29.420 Is it Nguyen?

02:17:30.660 Nguyen.

02:17:31.240 Nguyen.

02:17:31.940 Okay.

02:17:33.100 What can a short guy that's about 5'6", 130 pounds do to attract more women on dating apps?

02:17:39.940 And where can I meet you?

02:17:40.480 Be funny.

02:17:41.540 Yeah.

02:17:42.180 Yeah.

02:17:43.060 Have a good bio.

02:17:44.640 Like, you can't not have a bio.

02:17:46.700 I think that's...

02:17:47.260 Be smart.

02:17:48.060 Other than dating apps.

02:17:49.640 The sackings rock. 1.00

02:17:52.320 Thank you for the $5, man.

02:17:53.440 So, uh, what kind of short guy that's 5'6".

02:17:56.840 I mean, date shorter women, but you know what's actually interesting is that... 0.94

02:18:00.820 Work out.

02:18:01.960 You know what's actually interesting is that it seems to me that, like, average height women 1.00

02:18:06.880 seem to care a little bit less than...

02:18:09.220 Not to say that, like, average height or taller women don't care about height, but, like, 1.00

02:18:15.120 women who are, like, 5 feet and under, 4'11", they still... 1.00

02:18:21.760 What's that?

02:18:22.140 Don't take my tall men. 0.99

02:18:24.160 Yeah, that's true.

02:18:25.360 Like, everyone wants a tall guy.

02:18:27.340 It's almost like a...

02:18:28.840 What's the word?

02:18:30.920 They're overcompensating...

02:18:32.840 Not all women, but I have noticed a bit of a pattern where, like, 4'11", 5-foot girl, 1.00

02:18:40.840 who you're 6 feet tall...

02:18:42.020 Or, sorry, 6 inches taller than her, but she still wants... 1.00

02:18:45.060 She wants a 6-foot guy. 1.00

02:18:46.300 Yeah, but also...

02:18:47.240 Not all women, though, but... 1.00

02:18:48.900 I mean, yeah.

02:18:49.660 I mean, no, I totally agree with you.

02:18:51.700 How tall are you, by the way?

02:18:52.800 Me?

02:18:53.220 Yeah.

02:18:53.420 I'm 5'3", at max.

02:18:56.400 On a good time.

02:18:57.260 On a good day.

02:18:57.900 Can he slide into the DMs?

02:18:59.600 Yeah.

02:19:00.260 5'6", king?

02:19:01.580 5'6", king?

02:19:02.960 Can he...

02:19:03.340 I am actually currently with a different short king.

02:19:07.040 Oh, you have a boyfriend?

02:19:08.200 You have a boyfriend?

02:19:08.720 I thought you were single.

02:19:09.500 I don't even have a boyfriend.

02:19:11.440 Okay, I'm not...

02:19:12.540 They're just talking.

02:19:13.680 I'm literally just talking to him.

02:19:15.620 But I'm a loyal girl.

02:19:17.700 Wait, but you're loyal.

02:19:19.500 So it's a bit more than just casual, though.

02:19:21.440 You're loyal during the talking stage.

02:19:22.940 Have you established anything?

02:19:24.880 No. 0.99

02:19:25.940 I mean, she doesn't have to fuck other guys. 1.00

02:19:28.580 Yeah. 1.00

02:19:28.760 No, yeah.

02:19:29.120 I just have to.

02:19:30.280 Hey, props.

02:19:31.100 That's a good thing.

02:19:31.540 I want to.

02:19:32.720 But with that being said...

02:19:34.440 Sorry, I don't know where that came from.

02:19:37.920 Wait, but with that being said, though,

02:19:39.760 like, one thing that really is in your favor

02:19:41.480 is that, like,

02:19:43.720 short kings?

02:19:44.420 Like, there's a reason why short kings

02:19:45.700 is, like, such a phrase right now.

02:19:47.220 You guys are trendy, you know?

02:19:49.240 You're trendy.

02:19:49.740 You really are.

02:19:50.940 And I know a lot of, actually,

02:19:52.360 like, really tall girls

02:19:53.460 that like a small guy, you know?

02:19:55.420 Like, flip it.

02:19:56.760 Pocket-sized.

02:19:57.880 Exactly.

02:19:58.500 Fun-sized.

02:19:59.340 Let's go.

02:20:00.280 I mean, this is a very broad question.

02:20:02.120 Like, what to do to attract more women 0.99

02:20:03.900 on dating apps than your...

02:20:05.540 Other.

02:20:05.880 Your circumstances are just

02:20:07.060 that you're short

02:20:07.960 and you're 130 pounds.

02:20:09.220 And then, I mean,

02:20:10.020 where can you meet women 0.99

02:20:10.940 other than dating apps?

02:20:12.240 I mean, you can school, certainly,

02:20:13.940 but if you've aged out of that,

02:20:16.120 it can definitely become harder

02:20:18.200 to meet people more organically.

02:20:20.060 School?

02:20:20.460 I mean, honestly, university is like...

02:20:22.240 It's hard meeting people at school. 0.98

02:20:24.800 Wait until you're in a fucking career, but... 0.99

02:20:27.940 Like a job? 1.00

02:20:29.800 No, I mean, I do not understand...

02:20:31.760 Like, people don't come up to you

02:20:32.980 at school, like, in class.

02:20:34.460 Well, I...

02:20:35.040 Parties, so many.

02:20:36.740 You know what?

02:20:37.180 I think dating apps

02:20:38.060 have actually diminished

02:20:39.820 the need for men 0.89

02:20:42.040 to, like, approach women in person.

02:20:44.520 So, I think it has...

02:20:45.140 I don't like that.

02:20:46.040 You don't like when guys come up to you?

02:20:48.160 No, I like when guys come up to me.

02:20:49.620 I don't...

02:20:50.020 Like, it's so easy

02:20:50.940 for them to hide behind a screen.

02:20:52.440 I don't like that.

02:20:52.720 You don't like that it's...

02:20:53.460 Now, guys are less likely to...

02:20:55.720 But I feel like 0.74

02:20:56.540 it can be a damned-if-you-do, 0.97

02:20:58.000 damned-if-you-don't situation 0.97

02:20:59.020 because now it's like... 0.99

02:21:01.680 The guy...

02:21:02.980 The guy get...

02:21:03.920 Guys don't want to get rejected

02:21:04.960 and then there's like...

02:21:06.140 Oh, then...

02:21:07.640 See, if you got rejected in the past,

02:21:09.320 like, that's it.

02:21:09.960 But then now it...

02:21:11.200 We're so much more connected

02:21:12.200 with social media, so...

02:21:14.600 Oh, she's a Kardashian?

02:21:16.560 No.

02:21:17.180 Which one are you laughing at?

02:21:18.040 No, I'm staring.

02:21:19.420 I was like...

02:21:20.180 Right up there.

02:21:20.740 Yeah, you gotta keep winking

02:21:21.680 at the camera, I think.

02:21:22.480 Isn't it?

02:21:23.320 Give the camera a little winks.

02:21:25.720 But...

02:21:26.400 So, I mean...

02:21:29.280 You're short.

02:21:30.220 You gotta...

02:21:30.620 You gotta work with...

02:21:33.020 That's the thing.

02:21:33.500 Work out.

02:21:33.900 If you go in being like,

02:21:35.740 oh, I'm short,

02:21:37.180 like, what can I do

02:21:38.240 to get more girls? 0.99

02:21:39.120 Like, I understand that...

02:21:40.820 Like, both of us are 5'10".

02:21:42.600 I personally don't care

02:21:44.360 how tall a guy is.

02:21:45.260 It's just the mindset

02:21:46.440 of being like,

02:21:48.220 oh, women don't want me 1.00

02:21:49.420 because I'm short

02:21:50.380 and, like, that's it.

02:21:51.380 So you would date

02:21:51.940 a guy who's shorter than you?

02:21:53.700 I did.

02:21:54.400 You have?

02:21:54.960 Yes, I have.

02:21:55.360 How short was he?

02:21:55.920 He was 5'7".

02:21:57.100 5'7".

02:21:57.400 That's three inches

02:21:58.540 shorter than you.

02:21:59.220 Yeah.

02:22:00.180 And how long

02:22:00.980 are you guys dating for?

02:22:01.700 Nine months.

02:22:02.480 Nine, okay.

02:22:02.920 Like, it was a very large

02:22:05.060 chunk of my life

02:22:05.740 and, like, that was always 0.73

02:22:06.560 something he was super

02:22:07.400 insecure about

02:22:08.100 and I was like,

02:22:08.860 why aren't you insecure?

02:22:09.940 Like...

02:22:10.420 Well, you're based.

02:22:11.120 I feel like you're an outlier

02:22:12.060 in that regard.

02:22:13.340 It's true. 1.00

02:22:13.660 Yeah, you're a bad bitch. 1.00

02:22:15.260 You are. 1.00

02:22:16.200 You are.

02:22:17.060 This thing is...

02:22:17.600 But I just hate that mindset

02:22:19.560 of, like, not against

02:22:21.860 the Sackings Rock

02:22:23.000 personally of being, like,

02:22:24.800 I just don't like guys

02:22:25.820 that are, like,

02:22:26.320 oh, like, I'm so short.

02:22:28.180 Feel sorry for me.

02:22:29.240 You know what I mean?

02:22:29.680 I've had guys come up to me,

02:22:31.360 not come up to me,

02:22:32.180 but, like, on Twitch

02:22:33.000 being, like,

02:22:33.700 oh, I could never pull you.

02:22:35.480 Like, I'm 5'4'' or something.

02:22:38.160 And I'm like,

02:22:39.360 well, you automatically just

02:22:41.040 quote-unquote lost

02:22:42.420 because you're like,

02:22:43.780 oh, I'm a beta male.

02:22:46.640 Like, I'm less than you

02:22:47.620 for being this tall.

02:22:48.500 I'm like, I don't care.

02:22:49.320 Like, if you come up

02:22:50.000 with the same amount

02:22:50.660 of confidence

02:22:51.160 as someone that's six feet,

02:22:53.040 like, it's not going

02:22:53.500 to make a difference.

02:22:54.460 Yeah.

02:22:54.740 Not with that.

02:22:55.420 It's the humiliation.

02:22:56.900 It's the humiliation. 0.97

02:22:57.920 Like, I could step on you.

02:22:59.720 But, you know,

02:23:00.500 I do want to add,

02:23:02.520 I do think, though,

02:23:03.420 like, even if a guy's

02:23:04.880 really confident,

02:23:06.140 there are just certain,

02:23:07.740 I think,

02:23:08.900 baseline criteria

02:23:10.900 that someone will want

02:23:12.900 in terms of being,

02:23:14.400 needing to be physically

02:23:15.860 attracted to somebody.

02:23:17.240 So I do think, like,

02:23:19.460 even if you're the most 0.94

02:23:20.420 fucking fantastic guy 0.93

02:23:21.400 in the world, 1.00

02:23:21.780 if you're shorter than a girl,

02:23:23.600 like, some girls,

02:23:25.080 it is just,

02:23:25.760 it is their preference.

02:23:26.820 They're always going to be

02:23:27.980 very shallow people.

02:23:29.280 It is what it is.

02:23:29.460 But you could say that

02:23:30.120 about everyone, you know?

02:23:31.940 Like, guys who only like blondes, 0.88

02:23:34.320 you know, and stuff like,

02:23:36.020 or only likes brunettes, 0.99

02:23:37.460 or whatever.

02:23:39.620 But, like,

02:23:40.900 confidence is sexy.

02:23:42.160 We all know this.

02:23:42.760 Yeah.

02:23:43.240 For everyone.

02:23:44.480 I have a friend, Nate. 1.00

02:23:45.980 Oh, shit. 0.99

02:23:46.520 I named that. 0.99

02:23:47.160 Sorry.

02:23:47.700 That was a fake name.

02:23:48.700 That was a fake name.

02:23:49.400 It was a fake name.

02:23:50.160 His name is

02:23:50.680 Bartholomew.

02:23:53.400 Call him Bartholomew.

02:23:54.800 Barry.

02:23:55.040 Barry.

02:23:55.660 He's, like,

02:23:56.880 he's a,

02:23:57.580 he's a,

02:23:58.580 he's a fun-sized king.

02:24:02.400 Anyways.

02:24:03.300 Fun-sized?

02:24:03.920 He's super confident.

02:24:05.860 Like,

02:24:06.260 he's talkative.

02:24:07.600 He's super confident.

02:24:09.160 And it makes him

02:24:09.640 more attractive, right?

02:24:10.480 And I've,

02:24:11.720 I've brought my friends over

02:24:13.720 to hang out in his house

02:24:15.180 because he has,

02:24:15.900 like,

02:24:15.940 a nice house

02:24:16.560 and, like,

02:24:16.880 set up and, like,

02:24:17.540 drinks and that and that and that.

02:24:18.280 And, like,

02:24:19.300 I was, like,

02:24:21.260 hey, Barry.

02:24:23.460 I brought you a bunch of girls. 1.00

02:24:24.940 You should try and get with some of them.

02:24:26.320 I was, like,

02:24:26.840 I didn't think he would get with any of them.

02:24:29.620 First night.

02:24:31.240 This man's confidence.

02:24:32.980 He got,

02:24:33.520 okay,

02:24:33.760 I was, like,

02:24:34.200 do you like any of them?

02:24:35.140 He was, like,

02:24:36.100 yeah,

02:24:36.320 that one over there.

02:24:37.040 And then,

02:24:37.800 end of the night,

02:24:38.320 he went home with her.

02:24:39.500 How tall is he?

02:24:40.720 How tall is he?

02:24:41.240 He was about 5'5".

02:24:43.040 I think I know who you're talking about.

02:24:45.460 Yeah.

02:24:46.020 Barry.

02:24:46.740 Barry.

02:24:47.220 Barry.

02:24:47.580 Oh, no.

02:24:47.900 I mean.

02:24:48.380 He's very talkative.

02:24:49.840 I mean,

02:24:50.080 there is.

02:24:50.540 He's confident.

02:24:51.300 If he can do it,

02:24:52.600 you can do it.

02:24:53.960 But the thing is,

02:24:54.640 he does,

02:24:55.340 he does work out.

02:24:56.380 So that might be,

02:24:57.020 like,

02:24:57.180 a bonus for him.

02:24:57.900 Yeah.

02:24:58.160 I mean,

02:24:58.360 there's certainly something to be said for charisma and confidence.

02:25:02.140 Yeah.

02:25:02.640 Yeah.

02:25:02.940 So.

02:25:03.500 Also,

02:25:03.820 if you're short,

02:25:04.480 like,

02:25:04.680 don't be afraid to,

02:25:06.180 well,

02:25:06.300 I see a lot of people in the chat being,

02:25:07.640 like,

02:25:07.740 oh,

02:25:07.940 these girls don't walk up to people. 1.00

02:25:09.360 I have literally shot my shot with so many guys.

02:25:12.780 And don't get me wrong,

02:25:13.440 like,

02:25:13.620 I'll land it,

02:25:14.300 like,

02:25:14.800 I'll land a lot of them and I'll get rejected from a lot too.

02:25:17.460 And,

02:25:17.620 like,

02:25:17.740 the more you get rejected.

02:25:19.680 No.

02:25:21.400 The more you get rejected,

02:25:23.000 the more you're used to it.

02:25:23.900 And you're like,

02:25:24.260 oh,

02:25:24.540 whatever.

02:25:25.000 They're lost.

02:25:25.580 And then you just,

02:25:26.040 like,

02:25:26.100 walk away.

02:25:26.680 But,

02:25:26.960 like,

02:25:27.300 you have to be comfortable with going into the situation,

02:25:29.620 knowing you're going to get rejected.

02:25:30.600 Are you talking about,

02:25:31.440 like,

02:25:31.580 at a frat party,

02:25:32.400 you're doing this?

02:25:33.180 Like,

02:25:33.420 any party,

02:25:34.000 any time.

02:25:34.800 I've made the first move on,

02:25:36.100 like,

02:25:36.260 I would say it's 75% of everything that I've done.

02:25:40.480 Yeah.

02:25:41.020 I prefer it.

02:25:42.520 Yeah,

02:25:42.740 me too.

02:25:45.000 Hey,

02:25:45.560 I don't even know,

02:25:47.260 man.

02:25:47.520 I make the first move.

02:25:48.740 I just think it's so much easier.

02:25:49.860 Like,

02:25:50.020 why would I wait if I know who I want?

02:25:52.400 Like,

02:25:52.580 I don't want to wait and be like,

02:25:54.120 oh,

02:25:54.420 like,

02:25:54.720 when is he going to ask me on a date?

02:25:56.180 Like,

02:25:56.460 and buy dinner and like pay the bill.

02:25:58.700 Like,

02:25:59.000 oh my God,

02:25:59.460 he's such a man.

02:26:00.180 Like,

02:26:00.440 no,

02:26:00.700 I'm going to walk up,

02:26:01.420 be like,

02:26:01.820 hey,

02:26:02.120 like,

02:26:02.300 my name's Kylie.

02:26:02.860 Nice to meet you.

02:26:03.440 Yeah.

02:26:04.060 Agreed.

02:26:04.480 Well,

02:26:04.600 you're based.

02:26:05.520 You're based.

02:26:06.160 So,

02:26:06.340 I mean, 0.99

02:26:06.680 I got big dick energy. 0.99

02:26:09.440 My, 1.00

02:26:10.040 like,

02:26:10.400 my mindset is if he won't talk to me,

02:26:13.380 he doesn't want me enough.

02:26:14.700 So,

02:26:15.200 I'm not going to pursue that.

02:26:18.280 If he,

02:26:18.600 like,

02:26:19.280 there's nothing wrong with that.

02:26:20.360 Like,

02:26:20.460 if he doesn't,

02:26:21.420 if,

02:26:21.900 if he doesn't come up to me,

02:26:24.000 like,

02:26:24.540 he doesn't want me enough.

02:26:26.940 That's just my mentality.

02:26:28.760 For me,

02:26:29.180 if I see a hot guy and they're really hot,

02:26:30.680 I literally will walk up to them and be like,

02:26:32.080 hey,

02:26:32.380 what's your name?

02:26:33.180 Like,

02:26:33.780 you're,

02:26:34.220 I sometimes will literally straight up tell them,

02:26:35.700 like,

02:26:35.840 you're hot.

02:26:37.420 I've done that.

02:26:38.240 I'm curious.

02:26:38.960 So,

02:26:40.540 how frequently does that work for you?

02:26:43.620 Like,

02:26:44.640 like,

02:26:45.160 are you pretty successful?

02:26:46.700 I'm pretty successful because if you go into it confident and like off the bat and like give them a compliment,

02:26:51.520 like,

02:26:52.160 no one's going to be like,

02:26:52.840 oh, 1.00

02:26:53.240 fuck off. 1.00

02:26:53.780 You just called me hot. 1.00

02:26:54.760 Like,

02:26:55.100 no,

02:26:55.560 they're going to be like flattered and want to keep talking to you,

02:26:58.520 you know?

02:26:58.920 Because men like that.

02:27:00.040 I feel like they like it more than having to approach women all the time.

02:27:04.400 Like,

02:27:04.660 it's just easier.

02:27:05.780 I prefer it.

02:27:06.300 I like making those men like feel good because then it gives me a bump.

02:27:10.260 You know what I mean?

02:27:10.740 It's like,

02:27:11.540 oh,

02:27:11.840 well,

02:27:12.560 it's better for both of us because now I feel like confident in myself to walk up and like start a conversation.

02:27:19.600 Like,

02:27:19.740 I'm not going to sit patiently in a corner with my legs crossed trying to look pretty for some guy.

02:27:24.980 I'm going to be like,

02:27:25.740 hey,

02:27:25.980 do you want to take a shot with me? 1.00

02:27:27.420 Hypothetically, 0.99

02:27:27.880 because we're underage.

02:27:29.320 A shot of water.

02:27:30.380 Allegedly.

02:27:31.480 Allegedly.

02:27:32.240 Allegedly.

02:27:33.220 Yeah.

02:27:33.580 I feel like guys like in general think that we care so much more about looks than we actually do.

02:27:41.000 You know what I mean?

02:27:42.360 Like,

02:27:42.600 we're such personalities from like who I know you guys.

02:27:47.060 Not just you guys.

02:27:47.980 It's like personality and honestly,

02:27:50.760 there's a reason why all these comedians have like drop dead gorgeous wives, 1.00

02:27:55.760 you know?

02:27:56.460 Like,

02:27:56.560 you know me. 0.91

02:27:57.320 I got with the ugliest guy doing charity work.

02:28:02.360 She knows.

02:28:03.240 She was around that time and he played me.

02:28:06.420 Ain't no way.

02:28:07.340 Was this the one month guy?

02:28:10.020 No.

02:28:10.760 I,

02:28:11.180 we didn't like get to dating,

02:28:13.100 but actually he,

02:28:14.520 he asked to be exclusive,

02:28:16.040 but he never asked to like date.

02:28:18.820 I don't know what that means.

02:28:19.720 Isn't,

02:28:20.240 I mean,

02:28:20.500 wouldn't that kind of coincide?

02:28:22.580 And then,

02:28:22.620 I don't want to get to the specifics,

02:28:25.140 but I got played.

02:28:26.380 He was like a solid two.

02:28:28.680 You got played?

02:28:29.500 So did you guys hook up?

02:28:30.820 Yeah. 0.96

02:28:31.560 Had sex? 0.80

02:28:32.380 Yeah. 0.98

02:28:33.300 And you got played?

02:28:34.160 I got played.

02:28:34.980 How so?

02:28:35.720 So hard.

02:28:36.800 Super hard.

02:28:37.560 How did you get played?

02:28:38.220 I got played.

02:28:38.500 I got kicked out of his house.

02:28:40.120 He didn't want me there.

02:28:41.060 Wait,

02:28:41.360 so like the first time you hooked up,

02:28:43.760 he kicked you out?

02:28:45.120 No.

02:28:46.040 No.

02:28:46.920 Like we were,

02:28:47.720 we were like a thing for like a,

02:28:49.820 like a solid,

02:28:50.860 like a few weeks.

02:28:53.760 Right.

02:28:54.360 And then like one day he's just like,

02:28:56.340 I changed my mind.

02:28:57.980 You're not attracted to me anymore.

02:29:00.060 What?

02:29:00.900 This man is a two.

02:29:02.640 You can attest for that.

02:29:04.220 Right.

02:29:04.420 Yeah.

02:29:05.100 I,

02:29:05.840 I'm not going to rate him,

02:29:07.460 but you know,

02:29:08.360 I feel about him.

02:29:10.000 Um,

02:29:10.840 but yeah,

02:29:11.520 I'm just saying the,

02:29:13.280 the bully,

02:29:14.040 the message of this is looks don't matter.

02:29:17.620 Well,

02:29:18.700 okay.

02:29:19.200 Let's do it.

02:29:19.640 Hey,

02:29:19.680 Chris,

02:29:19.880 I sent you a text.

02:29:20.580 If you can look at it.

02:29:21.600 Um,

02:29:22.300 if you like first,

02:29:23.620 I mean,

02:29:24.040 my initial attraction is worth it.

02:29:26.240 Like I'm really,

02:29:27.460 someone's personality is a game changer for me,

02:29:30.320 but I can't just look at them and be like,

02:29:31.980 I bet they're so funny.

02:29:33.260 So like the physical attractiveness is the first thing,

02:29:35.940 but you can be mid and then become hot from your personality.

02:29:40.120 It's true.

02:29:41.260 Like personality matters a lot more to me because like,

02:29:43.940 I'm not going to date someone who's hot and boring. 1.00

02:29:45.840 Like that sucks. 0.99

02:29:47.280 But like, 0.92

02:29:47.940 if I'm going to be walking up to someone,

02:29:49.820 obviously I have to find them super hot,

02:29:51.600 you know?

02:29:53.080 I don't,

02:29:53.560 I don't have to find someone super hot to walk up to them. 1.00

02:29:55.900 Like I just start conversations with people.

02:29:57.640 Well,

02:29:57.760 like if I'm like with a goal,

02:29:59.920 if I'm right,

02:30:00.400 if you're like with a goal,

02:30:01.940 you're like,

02:30:02.240 I want to get someone's number today.

02:30:05.020 Yeah.

02:30:05.420 I mean,

02:30:05.620 but also like,

02:30:06.180 you know,

02:30:06.540 to each their own,

02:30:07.380 everybody has different,

02:30:08.380 like,

02:30:08.780 since you're another one,

02:30:09.660 Chris are attractive,

02:30:10.740 you know?

02:30:14.280 Word,

02:30:14.720 word.

02:30:16.300 Wait,

02:30:16.600 let's talk a bit about OnlyFans.

02:30:18.800 Oh,

02:30:19.240 great.

02:30:19.480 We didn't really go too far into that.

02:30:21.140 I'm ready.

02:30:21.800 So wait,

02:30:22.440 remind me,

02:30:22.820 how long have you been doing OnlyFans?

02:30:24.140 Almost a year,

02:30:25.580 like eight months,

02:30:27.200 I would say.

02:30:27.960 Okay.

02:30:28.440 And you've set,

02:30:29.220 and so far you said you've made like 25K.

02:30:32.300 What was your highest earning month?

02:30:35.020 I,

02:30:35.440 it was the first month I had it and I made,

02:30:38.340 I would say like 6,000.

02:30:43.040 And that was your first month?

02:30:44.320 Yeah.

02:30:44.560 And it was like part of a month.

02:30:46.240 Like it was,

02:30:47.020 I started halfway through the month and I got 6,000.

02:30:50.000 Pretty good.

02:30:50.660 Yeah.

02:30:51.160 No,

02:30:51.420 for me at the time,

02:30:52.480 because I was still living in the dorms and I realized that snag was not going to fund my illicit college activities.

02:31:00.480 And I was like,

02:31:01.220 wow,

02:31:01.460 I need to do something.

02:31:02.400 And so I posted on my story,

02:31:04.160 like the gaming Instagram.

02:31:05.780 Oh,

02:31:06.540 like,

02:31:06.760 what should I do to make extra cash?

02:31:08.520 And pretty much it was an overwhelming,

02:31:10.120 you should make an OnlyFans.

02:31:11.600 And I was like,

02:31:12.200 am I really going to be that person?

02:31:14.460 Turns out,

02:31:15.180 yes,

02:31:15.860 I was going to be that person.

02:31:17.060 And now I have a super nice PC and I can like buy my boyfriend dinner.

02:31:23.340 I can,

02:31:24.000 I can pay for the bill.

02:31:25.100 Just to go back to the super chat actually,

02:31:28.380 because I didn't,

02:31:29.280 I just realized I didn't really give my total answer.

02:31:34.060 I mean,

02:31:35.040 get your finances right,

02:31:36.720 work out,

02:31:37.860 get fit.

02:31:40.360 And if you don't want to meet them on dating apps,

02:31:42.260 I mean,

02:31:42.480 there's clubs and social things that you can join.

02:31:45.520 Join a frat.

02:31:46.580 If you're in school,

02:31:47.220 I feel like all frat guys get play.

02:31:48.920 If you're in a,

02:31:49.540 yeah,

02:31:49.760 if you're in a school,

02:31:50.380 you can join a fraternity if you want.

02:31:53.140 Sigma Nu,

02:31:53.840 from what I hear,

02:31:54.760 Sigma Nu at UCSB apparently sounds like the best one. 1.00

02:31:59.740 I didn't mean to start this slander.

02:32:01.660 I didn't mean to.

02:32:02.600 Yeah,

02:32:02.860 there,

02:32:03.120 you're going to get a mouthful from Sigma Nu.

02:32:06.620 Oh,

02:32:06.800 they're gone?

02:32:07.500 Yeah,

02:32:07.760 because they,

02:32:08.860 no,

02:32:09.120 they're almost,

02:32:09.720 they're,

02:32:10.020 they're so close.

02:32:11.100 This podcast is what's sending them over. 1.00

02:32:13.580 Fuck Sigma Nu. 0.99

02:32:14.880 I don't want to expose them too hard. 1.00

02:32:16.120 Sigma Nu,

02:32:16.880 I will be,

02:32:17.240 I know what happened.

02:32:18.000 Sigma Nu,

02:32:18.700 I will be,

02:32:20.020 Sigma Nu,

02:32:21.060 I will be a character witness for you.

02:32:23.180 At your cancellation,

02:32:24.760 or whatever's happening.

02:32:26.080 I will keep you guys around.

02:32:28.340 Pike,

02:32:29.120 Pike. 1.00

02:32:29.980 We don't have a Pike.

02:32:31.040 I'm dating myself quite substantially,

02:32:33.020 but Pike was the,

02:32:35.060 they got canceled a long time.

02:32:37.120 Pike here? 1.00

02:32:38.440 We had Pike here?

02:32:39.460 There was a Pike, 0.77

02:32:39.880 yeah.

02:32:40.740 By the way,

02:32:41.820 I was,

02:32:42.060 a different breed.

02:32:43.060 I was not,

02:32:43.980 I was not in the fraternity when I was in college,

02:32:46.660 but I mean,

02:32:47.040 you kind of associate when you're in Isla Vista,

02:32:49.520 so.

02:32:49.880 Yeah.

02:32:50.520 Yeah.

02:32:50.620 Yeah.

02:32:51.640 So.

02:32:51.820 So I'm making OnlyFans,

02:32:52.780 you're inspiring me.

02:32:54.120 Uh,

02:32:54.660 no.

02:32:55.660 Why?

02:32:56.380 Oh,

02:32:56.620 you're recommending she doesn't do OnlyFans?

02:32:58.380 I'm recommending you don't,

02:32:59.100 because the only reason that mine had any sort of traction was because of the gaming thing.

02:33:05.480 You already had a following on Twitch.

02:33:06.580 Because I already had the following on Twitch,

02:33:08.780 and it was just like the,

02:33:10.800 the,

02:33:11.340 um,

02:33:11.920 what is it called?

02:33:12.600 Like the link tree.

02:33:13.620 Like they were just like,

02:33:14.860 oh,

02:33:15.460 going from my TikTok to like,

02:33:17.200 oh,

02:33:17.340 she has Instagram,

02:33:18.440 Twitter,

02:33:18.660 and then they'd be like,

02:33:19.440 oh,

02:33:19.580 she has OnlyFans. 0.93

02:33:20.400 And so like,

02:33:20.860 then it would just turn into that.

02:33:22.280 But making one like from scratch,

02:33:24.460 you have to like build it from zero,

02:33:27.600 you know?

02:33:27.860 Like who is going to be that first,

02:33:29.660 um,

02:33:30.840 like which guy,

02:33:31.540 some random man on the internet scrolling through.

02:33:34.100 Exactly.

02:33:34.660 Like who would it be?

02:33:35.600 They have to know some background.

02:33:37.020 And that's the thing.

02:33:37.560 It's like,

02:33:37.900 it's weird.

02:33:39.340 It's really like a,

02:33:41.260 it's kind of an L for me because it's something that I have to bring up.

02:33:45.100 Obviously,

02:33:45.420 if I'm trying to be in a relationship with somebody.

02:33:47.900 Right.

02:33:48.760 Oh yeah.

02:33:49.440 Like I have an OnlyFans by the way.

02:33:52.240 And like,

02:33:52.900 if my current boyfriend was like,

02:33:53.920 Hey,

02:33:54.120 like I want you to stop.

02:33:55.140 Like,

02:33:55.280 I'm not feeling comfortable.

02:33:56.100 I'd be like,

02:33:56.640 okay,

02:33:56.940 like that's fine.

02:33:57.740 But he sees me as more than just,

02:34:01.000 oh, 0.93

02:34:01.140 like she's gross. 0.99

02:34:02.040 Like she doesn't have self-respect for selling her body on the internet. 0.99

02:34:05.620 Like it's just,

02:34:07.320 it's,

02:34:08.120 that's not what it is. 0.62

02:34:08.760 It's just making it so I don't have to get a shitty minimum wage job. 0.97

02:34:12.340 Like this is my shitty minimum wage job. 0.99

02:34:14.960 How, 0.98

02:34:15.460 how are you,

02:34:16.220 uh,

02:34:16.420 as far as monetization,

02:34:17.700 how's Twitch for you?

02:34:18.920 Um,

02:34:19.460 well,

02:34:19.800 since I haven't been able to stream recently,

02:34:21.800 um,

02:34:22.840 monetization,

02:34:23.400 it's fine.

02:34:24.300 Like the subs,

02:34:25.500 I would get like a couple hundred a month,

02:34:27.260 but nowhere near like what I was making.

02:34:29.240 How many followers do you have on Twitch?

02:34:30.860 I'm not sure.

02:34:31.820 I haven't looked in a while.

02:34:34.340 A couple thousand.

02:34:35.120 Like,

02:34:35.880 cause I only streamed for a couple months.

02:34:37.960 I was making Tik Toks and I didn't have anything.

02:34:40.480 And then I was like,

02:34:41.320 oh,

02:34:41.480 I'll just like try streaming out for a bit.

02:34:43.500 And it was super fun.

02:34:44.600 And I loved it.

02:34:45.880 Um,

02:34:46.540 because I like got to play Apex, 0.98

02:34:49.700 which I fucking love. 0.95

02:34:50.600 And then I also got to like talk to people.

02:34:52.520 Are you good?

02:34:53.580 Yeah.

02:34:54.720 I'm a,

02:34:55.280 I don't know if you know what that means.

02:34:56.240 I,

02:34:56.720 um,

02:34:57.220 am masters rank,

02:34:58.520 which is like,

02:34:59.980 cause like it was Apex Pred and that's the top like 750.

02:35:03.700 And then it's masters.

02:35:04.600 I've seen it on Twitch,

02:35:05.480 but I've never played.

02:35:06.540 Yeah.

02:35:06.740 But so you're,

02:35:07.660 you're good.

02:35:09.220 Yes,

02:35:09.520 I'm,

02:35:09.820 I am good.

02:35:10.480 People literally on only fans.

02:35:12.180 That's how it started.

02:35:12.880 They would pay to get carried.

02:35:14.800 To get carried.

02:35:15.600 They'd be like,

02:35:15.860 Oh my God.

02:35:16.440 Like mommy,

02:35:17.340 take me to a,

02:35:18.020 like carry me to a win.

02:35:19.760 And I,

02:35:20.300 and I had to like fight through the cringe of being like,

02:35:22.660 Oh yeah.

02:35:23.060 Like you can call me mommy while we play.

02:35:24.980 But do you ever do like Twitch role play?

02:35:27.600 I didn't because I was streaming in a public place for the majority of that.

02:35:31.480 I would,

02:35:32.180 I have a Loba cosplay.

02:35:33.900 Like I own one,

02:35:35.160 like a really nice cosplay.

02:35:37.880 Literally just Apex.

02:35:39.400 Because like the characters.

02:35:40.360 Yeah.

02:35:40.740 Characters from the game.

02:35:41.360 Yeah.

02:35:41.700 Yeah.

02:35:42.300 ASMR.

02:35:42.660 ASMR.

02:35:43.960 I did send a couple of custom ASMR videos.

02:35:47.360 Um,

02:35:47.560 because I had like my nice streaming mic and I'd be like,

02:35:50.900 like they,

02:35:51.440 they would tell me what to say.

02:35:52.980 Like the,

02:35:54.020 they're not really creepy though.

02:35:54.940 They're not like,

02:35:55.360 Oh,

02:35:55.460 like tell me what you would do to me,

02:35:57.060 which is what I was expecting.

02:35:57.920 It's like,

02:35:58.360 tell me about yourself.

02:35:59.700 Like,

02:36:00.080 what do you like?

02:36:00.920 Like,

02:36:01.140 what are your hobbies?

02:36:02.040 And I was like,

02:36:02.480 well,

02:36:02.800 I can talk about myself as long as I want to.

02:36:07.280 Hmm.

02:36:08.360 Good times.

02:36:09.240 It's pretty sick.

02:36:10.380 I think by the way,

02:36:12.080 Reese Reese,

02:36:13.580 if you're still in the chat,

02:36:14.820 I missed your,

02:36:16.360 uh,

02:36:16.760 comments with the lyric.

02:36:17.960 I don't think you'll be able to find it.

02:36:19.160 Chris Reese.

02:36:20.100 If you're still in the chat,

02:36:21.000 can you send the Drake lyrics?

02:36:22.940 Cause I'm,

02:36:23.420 I'm still on that.

02:36:24.560 I'm still curious.

02:36:25.700 Um,

02:36:26.200 so you were talking about only fans and you feel like you,

02:36:30.080 you're sort of mixed about it because you do feel like,

02:36:32.780 uh,

02:36:35.100 there could be some issues when entering into a new relationship with a new guy.

02:36:38.860 Yeah.

02:36:39.180 And so while I go around the panel and I guess we could talk a bit about that.

02:36:44.820 Um,

02:36:45.280 do you think,

02:36:46.940 Hmm,

02:36:47.720 I'm not sure how I want to frame this question.

02:36:49.360 Exactly.

02:36:50.400 Um,

02:36:51.740 would you object to a guy taking quarrel with,

02:36:57.500 um,

02:36:59.240 or let's say,

02:37:00.180 would you object to a guy who didn't want to date a girl because she hadn't only fans,

02:37:05.660 she was a stripper or she did porn either currently or in the past? 0.99

02:37:10.500 Would you object to that? 0.83

02:37:11.840 No,

02:37:12.180 that's the thing is I would completely understand.

02:37:15.740 It just depends how they wait.

02:37:17.220 Actually,

02:37:17.640 you know what?

02:37:18.060 Why don't we start with the line and we'll come to you at the end.

02:37:20.360 Okay.

02:37:20.900 Um,

02:37:21.900 I honestly like a guy who's like that because that means that like our morals are in line.

02:37:28.140 Cause I personally would never make an only fans.

02:37:30.360 I would never do sex work.

02:37:32.940 Um,

02:37:33.440 there's nothing against people who do.

02:37:35.120 I totally support them and they're like a crucial part in our community.

02:37:40.040 Um,

02:37:40.580 but I,

02:37:42.640 it's just like me personally.

02:37:44.480 I,

02:37:45.240 I would never,

02:37:46.100 um,

02:37:46.860 do that,

02:37:47.340 that line of work because,

02:37:49.640 um,

02:37:51.020 honestly,

02:37:51.520 I don't know.

02:37:52.200 Like,

02:37:52.740 I feel like that's like exploiting like my body or,

02:37:56.600 or whatever.

02:37:57.980 But,

02:37:58.540 um,

02:37:59.620 that's just like in line with my morals.

02:38:02.100 Um,

02:38:03.380 and honestly,

02:38:04.560 I like to,

02:38:05.740 I'd prefer like guys who like worked,

02:38:08.760 um,

02:38:09.580 using their like intelligence or their like,

02:38:12.800 um,

02:38:13.780 like strengths,

02:38:14.820 like,

02:38:16.220 um,

02:38:17.100 like things that they like took a lot of time and effort and display like hard work.

02:38:23.340 I get,

02:38:23.680 I feel like that's more attractive to me because that's what I would do in my life.

02:38:27.320 Answer.

02:38:29.760 What?

02:38:31.080 No part.

02:38:33.000 Um,

02:38:34.160 oh wait,

02:38:37.280 Chris,

02:38:37.500 I'll read,

02:38:37.820 let me read that real quick.

02:38:39.260 So yeah,

02:38:39.600 the Drake thing is sweatpants,

02:38:40.860 hair tied,

02:38:41.260 chilling with no makeup on.

02:38:42.240 That's when you're the prettiest.

02:38:43.160 I hope that you don't take it wrong.

02:38:45.040 Okay.

02:38:45.840 That was well.

02:38:46.440 That was it.

02:38:47.060 That was all.

02:38:48.300 You're good.

02:38:49.240 Um,

02:38:49.700 honestly,

02:38:50.120 personally,

02:38:50.880 I,

02:38:51.260 I mean,

02:38:56.400 it's okay to disagree by the way,

02:38:58.020 if you,

02:38:58.600 if you,

02:38:59.660 there's,

02:39:00.820 I thought it was an opinion thing.

02:39:02.960 Yeah.

02:39:03.360 It's an opinion thing.

02:39:04.120 Yeah.

02:39:04.280 Just opinion thing.

02:39:05.020 Yeah.

02:39:05.400 Well,

02:39:05.780 I think that like personally,

02:39:07.800 like with your,

02:39:12.620 like with you spit, 0.78

02:39:13.620 like,

02:39:13.820 okay.

02:39:13.960 So for example,

02:39:14.780 like most girls or most people who have an only fans and they're in a

02:39:19.140 relationship,

02:39:19.560 their partners are fully supportive,

02:39:21.580 you know?

02:39:22.260 And if you're don't like that,

02:39:25.300 I think, 0.99

02:39:26.680 damn, 0.98

02:39:27.640 this is actually kind of a hard question. 0.99

02:39:29.580 Um,

02:39:30.860 personally,

02:39:34.460 I get it.

02:39:35.460 I wouldn't want my partner to have an only fans,

02:39:40.120 but then again,

02:39:40.980 there's an extent to that because like only fans doesn't have to be like

02:39:46.960 hardcore all or nothing,

02:39:49.440 you know?

02:39:50.780 Like what?

02:39:51.420 If he wants to post some ad pics and get money for it,

02:39:54.020 I don't care.

02:39:54.880 Go for it.

02:39:55.940 You know,

02:39:57.020 there's,

02:39:57.480 there's certainly degrees.

02:39:58.920 I mean,

02:39:59.420 there's like tasteful lingerie shoots versus like double penetration.

02:40:06.020 Like,

02:40:06.600 you know,

02:40:07.180 like,

02:40:08.240 so there's definitely degrees to,

02:40:10.420 to sex work for sure.

02:40:13.120 Yeah.

02:40:13.620 I totally agree.

02:40:14.960 Yeah.

02:40:15.360 For me,

02:40:16.120 I honestly wouldn't be opposed to like an only fans, 1.00

02:40:18.980 but I would definitely like be wearing clothes.

02:40:21.280 I wouldn't do something like fully naked.

02:40:22.860 So just to clarify.

02:40:24.100 So the question is,

02:40:25.000 um,

02:40:25.680 would you object to a man,

02:40:27.740 to a man,

02:40:28.400 to man,

02:40:29.040 no,

02:40:29.360 to a guy having issue or not being willing to date a girl who did only fans,

02:40:37.180 was,

02:40:37.720 or was a stripper or did porn either currently or even in the past?

02:40:42.400 I would understand the porn and stripper part,

02:40:47.200 but like only fans,

02:40:48.940 only fans is very new too,

02:40:50.420 I think.

02:40:51.020 But I just think that kind of shows they're insecure if they don't accept them for doing that.

02:40:57.280 Because it's like,

02:40:58.120 we're not doing that because we want like a girl,

02:41:00.520 not,

02:41:00.780 not that I've done that,

02:41:01.400 but someone's not doing that because they want to,

02:41:03.420 they're doing it for money.

02:41:04.200 Like they're not like doing it because this is fun.

02:41:06.320 Like they're just doing it because they know they can make money off that.

02:41:10.080 And,

02:41:10.520 um,

02:41:11.360 I think it just shows a guy's kind of insecure,

02:41:13.520 but I would understand like porn and stuff,

02:41:15.740 but not necessarily only fans.

02:41:17.880 Unless it's like,

02:41:18.160 what?

02:41:18.500 So,

02:41:18.840 but why would the guy be insecure?

02:41:20.920 Because they like,

02:41:21.660 they're like,

02:41:22.140 people are looking at my girl.

02:41:23.400 Like they,

02:41:23.960 they think that like it takes away from like her value,

02:41:27.480 which I don't know.

02:41:29.160 I think that comes out of like their insecurities of like sharing.

02:41:32.740 I don't know.

02:41:33.840 Okay.

02:41:34.740 Does that make sense?

02:41:35.640 No.

02:41:36.500 I'm not sure if it makes them insecure.

02:41:39.300 Or like not insecure in their relationship,

02:41:41.600 like saying they don't trust them.

02:41:43.240 And it doesn't like having an only fans doesn't say anything about that person.

02:41:46.780 But like if someone,

02:41:48.200 if a guy can't handle it,

02:41:49.300 they can't handle it.

02:41:50.540 But what about,

02:41:51.840 what about if the girl was doing porn? 0.99

02:41:53.420 So in other words,

02:41:55.400 she was sleeping with, 0.90

02:41:58.040 she was having sex with other people on camera. 1.00

02:42:00.340 I can understand. 0.81

02:42:00.860 Either while with him,

02:42:01.860 or let's say even in the past.

02:42:03.640 Yeah.

02:42:04.020 I can understand.

02:42:04.740 Like it's,

02:42:05.700 I feel like it's,

02:42:08.440 you know what you're getting into when you're getting into it.

02:42:12.080 Or like,

02:42:12.820 I don't know.

02:42:13.520 I don't know.

02:42:14.100 This is a hard question.

02:42:15.900 I would understand why a guy wouldn't want to be with a porn star.

02:42:19.000 They're like,

02:42:19.240 so many girls have seen my girl like doing what I'm doing with her. 1.00

02:42:21.980 Like it does,

02:42:22.440 it feels less special.

02:42:23.900 Well, 1.00

02:42:24.260 she's also fucking another person too. 1.00

02:42:27.600 Yeah. 1.00

02:42:28.080 I mean,

02:42:28.300 there's that,

02:42:28.720 right?

02:42:29.060 Yeah.

02:42:30.120 But yeah,

02:42:30.960 there is that.

02:42:32.240 Okay.

02:42:33.660 Kylie.

02:42:35.460 Um,

02:42:36.060 I think that I agree with her in the fact that I could understand like where the

02:42:43.320 guy's coming from.

02:42:44.620 If they're like,

02:42:45.540 Oh,

02:42:46.040 like,

02:42:47.060 I don't want my girl to be on the internet like that.

02:42:49.060 Like I had to have,

02:42:50.420 I,

02:42:50.500 and I do have a very open discussion with my current boyfriend about it because I

02:42:55.220 want him to know everything.

02:42:57.180 You know what I mean?

02:42:57.640 Like,

02:42:57.840 I don't want to hide it.

02:42:58.920 I don't want to do anything behind his back or like anything shady.

02:43:01.920 Like I'm not sleeping with other people.

02:43:04.360 I'm not sending nudes to other people.

02:43:06.880 Like that's something that he made very clear.

02:43:08.680 He was like,

02:43:09.080 Hey,

02:43:09.680 like I'm completely fine with you doing this,

02:43:11.700 but can you not do this one like specific thing?

02:43:14.280 Because it makes me uncomfortable.

02:43:15.520 And I was like,

02:43:16.360 of course,

02:43:16.900 like I'll stop 100%.

02:43:18.180 Um,

02:43:19.200 but he doesn't care.

02:43:20.640 And he's very supportive because like,

02:43:24.280 I don't know.

02:43:26.000 I could not date a porn star personally because I'm way too jealous of a

02:43:31.860 person.

02:43:33.020 Um,

02:43:33.500 like to see like it just manifested there. 0.89

02:43:37.600 Like him having sex with another woman and it works the other way around as 0.80

02:43:41.500 well. 0.98

02:43:42.160 Um, 0.99

02:43:43.300 I wouldn't want him to be like sending dick pics online. 0.99

02:43:47.680 You know what I mean? 0.99

02:43:48.400 Like to have other girls drooling over it. 1.00

02:43:50.560 But we like look at the people online on my only fans and we laugh together 1.00

02:43:55.860 because of all the ridiculous shit that these like old men are saying. 0.96

02:43:59.000 Like the people that buy the only fans are a very specific type of person. 1.00

02:44:06.080 They're like,

02:44:06.440 I don't talk to women in real life. 1.00

02:44:09.060 So I'm going to pay to talk to one online.

02:44:12.200 And like they're paying for my attention pretty much,

02:44:15.940 which I think is a little bit of an ego boost because I'm like,

02:44:20.020 I,

02:44:20.560 and my boyfriend understands that.

02:44:21.980 And he's,

02:44:22.420 he's like,

02:44:22.980 well,

02:44:23.340 I don't care what they say to you because at the end of the day,

02:44:26.240 like I'm the one that gets to love you.

02:44:28.400 You know what I mean?

02:44:28.740 Like I'm the one that gets to spend time with you.

02:44:30.980 So I were,

02:44:32.240 were you guys dating before you started your only fans?

02:44:35.700 Oh no,

02:44:36.020 no,

02:44:36.140 no.

02:44:36.340 So you had started your only fans and then you started dating him.

02:44:40.460 Yes.

02:44:40.980 Okay.

02:44:41.420 But you,

02:44:42.200 he knew.

02:44:43.840 Yeah.

02:44:44.440 I was very open about it.

02:44:45.700 Yeah.

02:44:46.480 And it sounds like you guys now make videos together.

02:44:49.900 Not,

02:44:50.460 not yet.

02:44:51.180 $4.99 boys.

02:44:52.440 $4.99.

02:44:53.000 Right.

02:44:53.300 How much?

02:44:53.720 What's yours?

02:44:54.140 It's not that cheap,

02:44:54.920 bro.

02:44:55.140 What is it?

02:44:56.240 For like a video like that?

02:44:57.720 Well,

02:44:57.860 don't you have to sub to the,

02:44:59.340 or no,

02:45:00.040 mine's free.

02:45:00.880 Oh,

02:45:01.020 it's free.

02:45:01.340 Like to get to the main page,

02:45:03.060 but like anything that actually shows like substance,

02:45:06.140 like,

02:45:06.320 like bikini pictures,

02:45:08.020 fine.

02:45:08.480 I don't care.

02:45:09.100 Right.

02:45:09.400 You know what I mean?

02:45:09.740 Like that's,

02:45:10.140 what's on the main page,

02:45:11.060 but like anything more than that lingerie,

02:45:13.020 little,

02:45:13.480 little feet pick every once in a while,

02:45:15.120 you know,

02:45:15.600 you gotta pay for that.

02:45:16.740 Okay.

02:45:17.000 But I would say like,

02:45:19.800 not full nude, 0.76

02:45:22.780 but still like intercourse kind of,

02:45:26.040 that's like 30,

02:45:27.480 $40.

02:45:29.220 Got it.

02:45:29.780 So,

02:45:30.820 but people like literally will send nudes for like five bucks on OnlyFans. 1.00

02:45:35.080 And I feel like people in the chat are like,

02:45:36.900 oh yeah,

02:45:37.400 she's for the streets. 1.00

02:45:39.040 Like she has OnlyFans.

02:45:39.820 I'm very particular. 1.00

02:45:40.900 Like if you don't want to buy my shit, 1.00

02:45:43.120 then like go to some girl on the internet who sells it for two bucks. 1.00

02:45:47.560 Cause if you don't want to help me pay for my rent,

02:45:49.740 then I don't care about your opinion.

02:45:51.920 Yeah.

02:45:52.360 So I'll just say this.

02:45:54.060 You know,

02:45:54.740 I,

02:45:55.020 I don't think it,

02:45:56.260 I don't think it's insecure for having personal boundaries or preferences.

02:45:59.420 of course not.

02:46:01.360 And yeah.

02:46:03.380 So good times.

02:46:06.440 Okay.

02:46:06.840 So Aline,

02:46:08.880 did you have something?

02:46:11.120 I was just going to say like,

02:46:13.160 I value like intelligence and like hard work as like a way of,

02:46:19.560 of like getting money.

02:46:23.680 And that's just like a personal thing,

02:46:25.640 but also like having like that line of work,

02:46:29.660 like no,

02:46:30.720 no judge to it.

02:46:31.720 But personally,

02:46:32.400 I don't like that kind of reputation on myself.

02:46:35.640 And also if I ever have like a family,

02:46:38.060 like kids,

02:46:38.880 like kids are going to see it.

02:46:40.160 Like your family,

02:46:40.920 your mom and dad's going to know about it.

02:46:41.980 The kids' friends.

02:46:43.240 Yeah.

02:46:43.540 Like if I ever a kid,

02:46:44.840 they're going to be like,

02:46:45.700 oh,

02:46:45.940 your mom has an OnlyFans. 1.00

02:46:47.940 Like my parents. 1.00

02:46:49.360 Look at Timmy's tits. 1.00

02:46:50.940 Yeah. 1.00

02:46:51.180 Timmy's mom's tits. 1.00

02:46:52.280 My parents support. 1.00

02:46:53.620 My parents support,

02:46:54.560 man.

02:46:54.760 Second of all,

02:46:55.180 second of all,

02:46:57.080 if when you're like older,

02:46:59.240 like obviously you might not make as much money,

02:47:02.100 like wherever,

02:47:03.700 like you're not going to,

02:47:04.960 you're like reliant on this like form of money that you're not spending time in

02:47:09.860 other areas in like developing,

02:47:12.980 like learning things like taking classes,

02:47:18.620 getting jobs,

02:47:20.240 experience so that you can't get a job later when you can't no longer earn that type of money.

02:47:26.860 Why can't you do both?

02:47:29.420 What do you,

02:47:30.100 what do you mean?

02:47:30.660 I'm saying,

02:47:30.860 I'm saying like,

02:47:31.800 oh,

02:47:32.260 like there are some,

02:47:33.300 there are some instances where people are like,

02:47:37.960 they're getting this cash flow.

02:47:39.600 They're getting this cash flow of like a lot of money and they're relying on this money to sustain them.

02:47:46.600 I'm not saying you can't,

02:47:48.740 but there's,

02:47:50.000 it's,

02:47:50.220 it's sort of like,

02:47:51.900 it's easy money.

02:47:53.440 Like you're not getting experience from other jobs.

02:47:56.220 You're just getting money from this particular income source and you're not getting like job experiences.

02:48:03.180 Like,

02:48:03.420 like where I worked at like Shake Shack,

02:48:05.960 like it was terrible.

02:48:08.380 Like,

02:48:09.340 like the managers hated me.

02:48:11.100 I like worked like a lot,

02:48:12.740 but like it's still experience in my book.

02:48:16.600 And I can put that in like other like resumes and stuff.

02:48:20.380 I worked at a hospital.

02:48:22.020 Like there's like stuff that I can write down in my resume.

02:48:26.100 Like you can't write that in your resume.

02:48:27.720 I still have like other jobs.

02:48:29.160 Like I have sources of income.

02:48:30.860 It's just,

02:48:31.080 this is something for a little extra cash on the side.

02:48:33.960 I'm just saying like some people can be reliant.

02:48:36.960 Right.

02:48:37.260 Exactly.

02:48:37.940 Agreed.

02:48:38.360 I fully agree with you,

02:48:39.360 but also like in the sense where,

02:48:43.340 like we were saying earlier,

02:48:45.500 most,

02:48:45.740 and when OnlyFans first came out,

02:48:48.580 there were very few people on it.

02:48:50.480 So yeah,

02:48:50.980 if you had an OnlyFans,

02:48:51.880 whether you had a platform or not,

02:48:53.280 you'd probably make a good amount of money.

02:48:54.880 Whereas now it's extremely popular and every other person has one,

02:48:59.100 but the people who actually make money off of it and who are actually successful with it

02:49:03.640 are people that have built platforms themselves in the first place.

02:49:06.760 So they already have fans.

02:49:09.060 So with that being said,

02:49:11.020 as of right now,

02:49:11.980 you can't really have a successful OnlyFans without putting your hard work and having a different businesses

02:49:17.460 and having jobs and educating yourself.

02:49:19.640 I think that that can be true for some instances.

02:49:24.540 But also for me,

02:49:25.720 I have a TikTok and I've had it for a while now,

02:49:28.680 but I say that I do TikTok like whatever,

02:49:31.660 because I literally just post whatever I want on it.

02:49:33.940 I don't put any effort or I just do it for fun.

02:49:37.320 But the thing is,

02:49:38.580 I've had it since I was like a minor.

02:49:40.880 And the moment I turned 18,

02:49:42.740 I had like thousands of comments saying OnlyFans debut,

02:49:47.620 OnlyFans debut,

02:49:48.580 like when's OnlyFans coming out?

02:49:50.400 Like I could easily make an OnlyFans,

02:49:52.500 but I put no effort into my TikTok whatsoever.

02:49:55.400 It's the thing that I-

02:49:56.480 I don't know.

02:49:56.820 I saw that Sailor Moon one.

02:49:58.300 I had,

02:49:58.980 yeah,

02:49:59.500 there was no effort.

02:50:00.840 That was a draft.

02:50:02.100 My friend was in the back.

02:50:03.840 She was like in a hoodie.

02:50:04.660 Like I just,

02:50:05.900 I made that like coming home, 1.00

02:50:07.720 like tired as fuck. 0.99

02:50:09.300 And then I just put some shitty like caption on it. 0.99

02:50:12.200 And then like I got like 2 million views or whatever.

02:50:14.880 But I put no effort into it.

02:50:17.080 But that's just my case scenario.

02:50:18.360 Like I can have a platform,

02:50:19.960 put no effort into it.

02:50:21.360 And like still like find a way to like,

02:50:25.980 if I could have an OnlyFans,

02:50:27.760 but I'm not going to.

02:50:28.920 That's just the end of the story.

02:50:30.460 Oh,

02:50:30.580 are you just talking like,

02:50:32.060 like complete personal opinion?

02:50:33.660 Like if you would yourself?

02:50:35.700 I'm just saying like,

02:50:36.940 there are like,

02:50:38.200 not every instance is going to be like that.

02:50:40.520 Okay.

02:50:40.940 Yeah.

02:50:41.380 Yeah.

02:50:41.480 And also like every different types of OnlyFans

02:50:43.580 and really anything you find online.

02:50:45.200 Yeah.

02:50:45.460 Everyone has their own business

02:50:46.640 and their own context.

02:50:47.300 Yeah,

02:50:47.540 of course.

02:50:47.740 That's unique in itself.

02:50:49.020 Of course.

02:50:49.480 Some people-

02:50:49.820 A lot of people can put a lot of hard work

02:50:51.620 into building their platforms.

02:50:52.820 I'm not discrediting that.

02:50:53.940 I'm just saying like my personal like experience,

02:50:57.700 I didn't have to put a lot of work.

02:50:59.040 And there was a lot of pressure for me

02:51:01.800 to make an OnlyFans,

02:51:02.960 but I never did.

02:51:04.260 It's just,

02:51:05.520 I think I kept my morals strong.

02:51:11.560 I just stick to whatever I believe in.

02:51:13.560 But like,

02:51:13.800 yeah.

02:51:14.460 There's no shame to it though.

02:51:16.760 I'm really,

02:51:17.620 I'm friends with a lot of girls

02:51:19.620 who do like OnlyFans.

02:51:22.720 A lot of like, 0.92

02:51:25.920 like strippers. 1.00

02:51:26.740 Like I'm friends with a lot of those.

02:51:29.300 No shame.

02:51:30.520 I just,

02:51:31.060 my personal preference.

02:51:32.240 Yeah,

02:51:32.480 no.

02:51:32.820 And it's really not for everyone.

02:51:34.840 Like in the beginning,

02:51:35.720 I found it really difficult

02:51:37.560 to like put that,

02:51:39.300 the moral aspect aside.

02:51:41.420 Because like,

02:51:42.140 I remember like two years ago

02:51:44.180 with the,

02:51:44.720 with the like five,

02:51:45.380 seven guy that I was dating,

02:51:46.560 he was like famous on TikTok

02:51:48.840 and he was like super insecure.

02:51:51.480 He was like,

02:51:51.980 you better not make an OnlyFans.

02:51:53.340 Like I'm going to break up with you

02:51:54.840 if you have that.

02:51:55.500 And I was like,

02:51:55.980 I would never like,

02:51:56.980 that's nasty.

02:51:57.500 Like selling your body on the internet.

02:51:59.500 And then I literally was desperate enough

02:52:01.620 money wise to be like,

02:52:03.640 Hey,

02:52:04.820 I don't know if I can like survive in college

02:52:09.000 without doing this.

02:52:10.020 And so in the beginning,

02:52:10.820 I was like forced to do it.

02:52:13.240 And it was really hard

02:52:15.080 because the people on there,

02:52:16.840 they say like such grotesque things.

02:52:19.360 Like it's not insulting.

02:52:20.460 They're just like,

02:52:21.080 Oh,

02:52:21.260 the things I would do to you,

02:52:22.620 it's I'm toning it down.

02:52:24.480 Like really,

02:52:25.000 it's just, 0.99

02:52:25.480 I get sent like 10 dick pics on the daily 0.98

02:52:29.540 that I don't want to see 0.99

02:52:30.760 because they're like,

02:52:31.940 Oh yeah.

02:52:32.260 Like you like that baby girl.

02:52:33.660 And I'm like,

02:52:34.440 eh,

02:52:35.240 like no,

02:52:36.260 yeah.

02:52:37.020 You know,

02:52:37.500 but you have to like keep up the act.

02:52:38.940 Like I hate,

02:52:40.340 I hate the fact that I have OnlyFans sometimes,

02:52:42.880 you know,

02:52:43.020 even though it makes me money,

02:52:44.280 it's just,

02:52:45.360 is it really worth it in the long run?

02:52:48.200 And there's pros and cons.

02:52:49.340 Yeah.

02:52:49.760 Oh,

02:52:50.060 for sure.

02:52:50.980 Like it's just,

02:52:51.760 it weighs on me sometimes.

02:52:53.540 Let's talk about,

02:52:54.680 you go ahead.

02:52:55.660 I was going to say,

02:52:56.120 do you find it like empowering at all?

02:52:59.580 To have an OnlyFans?

02:53:01.920 Um,

02:53:02.860 sometimes in certain aspects,

02:53:05.300 yes,

02:53:05.880 but it's just there.

02:53:08.040 I feel like there are a lot more cons

02:53:09.820 and like the main pro,

02:53:11.180 like basically the only pro is just money.

02:53:13.920 But sometimes it's like,

02:53:15.700 Oh,

02:53:15.860 I've made a decent amount of money.

02:53:17.400 Like I've,

02:53:18.120 I've kind of manipulated these men to being like,

02:53:21.840 Oh yeah.

02:53:22.320 Like I'm going to pay this girl for pictures of her feet. 1.00

02:53:24.620 And I'm like,

02:53:24.960 well,

02:53:25.260 you could just,

02:53:26.380 I wear sandals all the time. 1.00

02:53:27.680 People see that shit for free. 1.00

02:53:28.800 But like, 1.00

02:53:29.180 if you want to,

02:53:30.400 if you want to pay my rent,

02:53:31.640 go ahead.

02:53:32.460 You know,

02:53:32.780 it's just,

02:53:33.160 it's not really empowering so much as it's like necessary.

02:53:37.060 Sometimes you heard it here.

02:53:38.820 First folks,

02:53:40.400 Kylie pays her rent with fee picks.

02:53:42.560 I'm not,

02:53:43.180 I'm not shy about that.

02:53:44.480 Like she's killing it. 0.99

02:53:45.580 I'm killing it. 0.99

02:53:46.460 Only fans. 0.89

02:53:48.280 Just,

02:53:49.280 uh,

02:53:50.300 ask her for free picks and she will oblige.

02:53:52.720 Right.

02:53:53.480 Of course.

02:53:54.120 Literally.

02:53:54.620 If you little package bundle,

02:53:56.980 30 bucks,

02:53:57.800 got you.

02:53:59.220 And the answer to that question is no,

02:54:01.100 cats are not as emotionally attached as dogs.

02:54:04.100 Obviously not.

02:54:05.140 I have two golden retrievers.

02:54:06.900 They are my children.

02:54:09.100 Cats just,

02:54:10.960 not really a cat person.

02:54:13.360 Who paid $4 to say,

02:54:15.720 ask Sydney about Dylan?

02:54:17.760 And how do you know Dylan?

02:54:19.060 Uh oh.

02:54:20.140 Uh oh.

02:54:20.580 Dylan is my brother.

02:54:22.000 He is currently getting his PhD for computer architecture at UCLA.

02:54:25.580 The smartest person I've ever met.

02:54:27.400 And he graduated from UCSB.

02:54:29.740 Um,

02:54:30.440 I love him.

02:54:31.740 Yeah,

02:54:32.000 that's,

02:54:32.240 that's Dylan.

02:54:32.840 Who's,

02:54:33.160 who's Nina Hepburn.

02:54:34.820 Let's,

02:54:35.260 uh,

02:54:35.420 well,

02:54:36.140 we'll,

02:54:36.540 we'll read the super chats later,

02:54:37.900 I guess.

02:54:38.540 Oh my God.

02:54:39.260 Is that?

02:54:39.960 No,

02:54:40.500 no,

02:54:40.780 I don't know about it.

02:54:41.420 What are we doing?

02:54:47.300 Okay.

02:54:47.900 So,

02:54:48.300 uh,

02:54:48.800 we'll,

02:54:49.220 we'll probably wrap up here in a little bit,

02:54:51.700 but,

02:54:52.180 um,

02:54:53.120 what time is it?

02:54:54.160 It is 10 o'clock.

02:54:56.040 Oh my God.

02:54:56.760 So we'll wrap up here in a,

02:54:58.660 in maybe,

02:54:59.920 uh,

02:55:00.180 10,

02:55:00.660 15 minutes.

02:55:01.840 Um,

02:55:02.440 what I want to do is give you guys the opportunity.

02:55:04.220 If you have a question for me or the panel,

02:55:06.280 uh,

02:55:07.160 feel free to just ask a question.

02:55:09.020 If you have one,

02:55:09.720 uh,

02:55:10.360 why don't we start with Kylie?

02:55:12.940 Um,

02:55:14.180 we can come back to you.

02:55:15.740 I don't really have anything.

02:55:17.240 I'll think of something.

02:55:17.880 You got something?

02:55:18.320 I think we've covered our topics.

02:55:20.400 Okay.

02:55:21.240 And we covered the ball fondling.

02:55:23.040 Oh Jesus.

02:55:24.400 I'm kidding.

02:55:25.160 Um,

02:55:25.840 I don't know.

02:55:26.340 No,

02:55:26.700 I've done everything right now.

02:55:28.560 Okay.

02:55:29.560 Aline or.

02:55:32.040 Oh,

02:55:32.760 um,

02:55:33.820 any questions for the panel?

02:55:35.140 I mean,

02:55:35.280 I guess like the topic of this whole podcast video in the first place was who pays on the first day.

02:55:41.440 Yeah.

02:55:41.660 We can talk a little bit more about that.

02:55:43.560 Whoever asked,

02:55:44.280 I guess I think that's like a clear consensus.

02:55:46.260 That's my brother.

02:55:47.280 Oh my God.

02:55:49.020 Why is he watching this?

02:55:50.840 I'll leave.

02:55:51.920 Don't worry about it.

02:55:52.640 Don't worry about it.

02:55:53.140 Dylan,

02:55:53.160 go off.

02:55:54.520 It's past your bedtime.

02:55:57.480 Literally my brother.

02:55:59.140 Hi Dylan.

02:56:00.320 Dylan Kopsch.

02:56:01.480 Uh,

02:56:01.680 he's just,

02:56:02.340 uh,

02:56:02.620 okay.

02:56:03.820 Uh,

02:56:04.180 Aline,

02:56:04.520 do you want to pose a question?

02:56:06.740 It could be related to the topic at hand or just something totally unrelated to the panel or to myself or.

02:56:13.280 Um,

02:56:14.560 let me think.

02:56:16.740 Um,

02:56:17.780 thoughts on,

02:56:19.700 guys who like girls with like childish features,

02:56:25.560 like personality,

02:56:28.020 childish features,

02:56:29.260 physically,

02:56:29.760 like when they act like the,

02:56:31.080 like the baby.

02:56:31.460 I want them to be short with a high pitched voice,

02:56:33.940 no body hair.

02:56:34.760 And,

02:56:35.440 Oh,

02:56:36.360 just like,

02:56:37.680 uh,

02:56:37.900 like a submissive little girl.

02:56:39.600 I mean,

02:56:40.180 that is a,

02:56:40.680 I think that is a kink for some people.

02:56:42.900 I feel like,

02:56:44.020 I feel like,

02:56:44.440 I feel like men's standard for women. 0.71

02:56:48.040 Men's standard for women is generally like that.

02:56:51.340 Like I,

02:56:52.640 like I saw,

02:56:53.360 you mean just generally feminine or generally like,

02:56:56.860 like the beauty standard for women for men is like small,

02:57:02.340 like petite,

02:57:03.340 petite,

02:57:04.080 like submissive, 0.95

02:57:05.160 like very feminine,

02:57:06.640 like childish.

02:57:09.080 What do you think?

02:57:11.920 Um,

02:57:12.900 is that weird or is that normal?

02:57:15.060 Well,

02:57:15.180 that's very weird.

02:57:16.480 The childish thing that is maybe a bit,

02:57:19.940 like a lot.

02:57:21.380 I think guys who say that they liked that wouldn't consider it childish.

02:57:24.660 They would just consider,

02:57:26.020 Oh,

02:57:26.200 I want my girl to look like a girl like that to look like a little girl. 0.98

02:57:32.660 I think that like a traditional,

02:57:35.480 like I mean,

02:57:36.880 Tradition,

02:57:37.480 traditionally feminine.

02:57:39.260 I don't think that's,

02:57:40.740 I don't think if a guy wants like specifically,

02:57:43.400 like no body hair,

02:57:44.720 like she has to shave,

02:57:46.740 like she has to wear makeup,

02:57:48.820 like dress up their preferences,

02:57:50.540 which is fine.

02:57:51.340 But if you get in a relationship with that person or like you're with that person

02:57:54.280 and then you want them to change after,

02:57:56.200 that's not fine.

02:57:57.100 Like you can go for that person off the bat and that's fine.

02:58:00.180 Yeah.

02:58:00.460 And like,

02:58:01.060 if that's what you like,

02:58:02.080 then like,

02:58:02.820 okay.

02:58:03.300 Even like someone may think it's weird.

02:58:05.060 Someone may like agree with it,

02:58:06.300 but you shouldn't tell them after the fact,

02:58:08.780 um,

02:58:08.980 by the way,

02:58:09.380 like this and you should be doing this.

02:58:10.800 I think it's,

02:58:11.360 I think like baby talking is so weird.

02:58:13.300 It's creepy.

02:58:13.740 Like that's what I thought you were talking about.

02:58:15.140 Yeah.

02:58:15.240 That's what I thought you were talking about first too.

02:58:16.600 Like,

02:58:16.920 I think that's so nasty.

02:58:18.780 Would you ever let a guy be a little spoon? 0.93

02:58:21.560 Yes.

02:58:22.080 Yeah.

02:58:22.600 Every night,

02:58:23.360 bro.

02:58:23.860 Honestly,

02:58:24.840 Yeah. 0.99

02:58:25.620 Little spoons where it's fucking at. 0.99

02:58:26.920 I'm going to say it. 1.00

02:58:28.380 I'm going to say it.

02:58:29.740 So you've never,

02:58:30.880 you wouldn't,

02:58:31.480 you wouldn't be big spoon.

02:58:32.320 One time a guy asked me to do it and I was like,

02:58:33.860 yo.

02:58:34.400 I love that.

02:58:35.660 I bet you can.

02:58:36.540 You should try to jet pack.

02:58:38.080 Can I,

02:58:38.440 can I be a little spoon?

02:58:40.020 Bro,

02:58:40.580 I'm five nine.

02:58:41.720 You have to switch sides.

02:58:42.840 You got it.

02:58:43.280 You got a jet pack.

02:58:44.740 You should try it.

02:58:45.480 You got to be a little koala.

02:58:47.420 I don't like that.

02:58:47.860 I'm just saying.

02:58:48.700 You got a jet pack.

02:58:50.600 Y'all,

02:58:50.880 y'all women have had little spoon on lock 1.00

02:58:53.860 for too long.

02:58:54.820 I like that.

02:58:56.060 I am starting.

02:58:57.340 But it's also easier to be little spoon when you're smaller.

02:58:59.920 Yeah.

02:59:00.920 But I'm not saying,

02:59:01.780 I'm not anti little spoon.

02:59:03.240 I like,

02:59:03.860 I mean,

02:59:04.340 I'm not anti big spoon.

02:59:05.640 I'm down,

02:59:06.300 but like,

02:59:06.600 I'd prefer,

02:59:07.520 I mean,

02:59:07.820 you get the hair in the face and you're breathing it.

02:59:13.020 Little spoon is where it's at.

02:59:14.520 I prefer being the big spoon a lot of the time.

02:59:17.600 Cause I just get to like,

02:59:19.380 I just get to like wrap around them,

02:59:20.880 you know?

02:59:21.700 It's more comfortable.

02:59:22.940 It's more comfortable.

02:59:24.320 What are you guys's types of men?

02:59:27.160 I don't have a type.

02:59:28.380 I don't either.

02:59:29.200 Honestly,

02:59:29.440 I was thinking about this today.

02:59:30.240 I like,

02:59:30.600 I like half Asian,

02:59:31.760 half white men.

02:59:32.480 A lot of people like that.

02:59:34.300 I'm just going to say like the wasions.

02:59:36.980 Hold on.

02:59:38.080 Did I thought I,

02:59:39.460 I think I misheard you.

02:59:40.980 He was just like,

02:59:41.400 I thought you just said I like half Asian,

02:59:44.320 half white men.

02:59:45.020 I was like,

02:59:47.120 she did ask.

02:59:48.040 Is that not what you said?

02:59:49.460 No,

02:59:49.660 that's what you said.

02:59:52.400 She asked what kind of men the panel likes.

02:59:55.420 And I,

02:59:55.960 you know,

02:59:56.240 I'm like half Asian.

02:59:58.700 No,

02:59:59.160 I'm kidding.

03:00:00.260 No,

03:00:00.740 I mean,

03:00:01.180 I like them.

03:00:01.940 No judgment.

03:00:02.480 No judgment.

03:00:03.480 Yeah.

03:00:03.800 Okay.

03:00:04.840 I don't really have a type.

03:00:06.440 I thought I did.

03:00:07.800 Um,

03:00:08.400 but I find myself not really caring if they're like a nice guy and we get along.

03:00:13.260 Yeah.

03:00:13.840 Short Kings. 0.80

03:00:14.680 No,

03:00:15.780 no,

03:00:16.100 for me,

03:00:16.440 for me,

03:00:17.020 for me,

03:00:18.620 she said,

03:00:19.240 she said no.

03:00:21.080 I'm sorry.

03:00:21.820 No,

03:00:22.060 thank you.

03:00:22.760 If I was five,

03:00:23.620 two,

03:00:23.740 I'd be all for a short King.

03:00:24.960 Like for me,

03:00:25.720 if I'm like getting with a guy who's six foot,

03:00:27.680 that's like,

03:00:28.060 like one to two inches taller than me based on the shoes we're wearing.

03:00:32.620 And that's not very much compared.

03:00:34.380 Like if someone who's five,

03:00:35.160 he's getting with someone who's five,

03:00:36.120 six,

03:00:36.280 that's four inches for me to get with four inches.

03:00:38.340 They have to be six,

03:00:39.040 two.

03:00:39.320 So like,

03:00:40.360 I don't,

03:00:40.700 if I was five,

03:00:41.380 two,

03:00:41.660 then five,

03:00:42.140 six would be totally fine.

03:00:43.180 I don't know.

03:00:44.620 Hmm.

03:00:45.440 Kylie,

03:00:45.940 did you want to answer her question?

03:00:48.200 There were a few questions there.

03:00:49.240 So I think,

03:00:49.740 so were you talking about,

03:00:51.060 so there is,

03:00:51.720 but before that you were talking like about guys who kind of like the,

03:00:55.840 I think it's a kink thing or something. 1.00

03:00:58.880 We discussed it.

03:01:00.000 Yeah.

03:01:00.480 We,

03:01:00.600 we ran that.

03:01:01.500 Yeah.

03:01:02.240 Okay.

03:01:02.640 I think this is a better question.

03:01:04.580 Okay.

03:01:04.900 My type of men,

03:01:05.500 I love like a good smile.

03:01:07.520 That's like a huge thing for me.

03:01:09.240 Good teeth.

03:01:10.080 Uh-huh.

03:01:10.460 Like the good,

03:01:10.940 even if it's not good teeth,

03:01:11.820 like it's just,

03:01:13.060 like it's just like,

03:01:13.660 it's just the grin,

03:01:14.700 the cheese.

03:01:16.180 And I love it.

03:01:17.000 And it's like the smile lines,

03:01:18.460 like the little dimples,

03:01:19.400 dimples all the way.

03:01:20.640 I'm down horrendous.

03:01:21.520 Going off of that.

03:01:22.200 Do you guys think nice guys finish first or last?

03:01:24.880 Like have you just loved nice guys?

03:01:26.500 Last.

03:01:27.140 No,

03:01:27.520 I love last.

03:01:28.800 You have to treat women. 1.00

03:01:29.960 Well,

03:01:30.240 that's the thing.

03:01:30.780 Like that's why Mustang guy never won.

03:01:34.000 He bought you in and out.

03:01:35.220 We're back to Mustang guy.

03:01:37.120 He can't act like that.

03:01:38.540 Well,

03:01:38.660 then he's not a nice guy.

03:01:39.520 What if he's cocky?

03:01:41.120 Yeah,

03:01:41.360 I said that he,

03:01:42.160 that's why he said he's not a nice guy.

03:01:43.180 Oh,

03:01:43.340 he's finished last.

03:01:43.960 I don't know.

03:01:44.480 I like,

03:01:44.800 I like a guy that has like extra confidence,

03:01:47.080 you know,

03:01:47.260 not necessarily like cocky to the point where he's like bragging about everything,

03:01:50.140 but you know,

03:01:50.960 a guy that'll like do a little leg set and then like check himself out in the mirror. 1.00

03:01:55.280 I fuck with that. 1.00

03:01:56.460 Like self, 1.00

03:01:57.360 um,

03:01:58.780 I think there's a really big difference between confidence and,

03:02:03.060 um,

03:02:03.840 self-esteem.

03:02:05.000 Mm-hmm.

03:02:05.460 You know,

03:02:06.360 like confidence,

03:02:08.680 like you could have no self-esteem and have a bunch of confidence,

03:02:11.280 like just full on fake it till you're make it,

03:02:13.400 you know,

03:02:14.340 but self-esteem is really attractive when guys actually like believe that themselves,

03:02:19.360 you know?

03:02:19.640 Mm-hmm.

03:02:20.640 Yeah.

03:02:21.040 Hot take back dimples on guys are really hot.

03:02:25.360 Backs are cool.

03:02:26.020 If a guy has a nice back,

03:02:28.680 I'm all for it. 0.99

03:02:30.180 I love a good ass. 1.00

03:02:31.300 Yeah. 1.00

03:02:31.800 Oh, 1.00

03:02:32.160 a nice ass too? 1.00

03:02:33.260 Yeah. 1.00

03:02:33.920 I'm, 1.00

03:02:34.300 I literally stay smacking my man's ass, 1.00

03:02:35.960 bro. 1.00

03:02:36.280 He fucking hits me back like five times harder. 1.00

03:02:38.600 Oh. 1.00

03:02:39.060 He's like,

03:02:39.440 no,

03:02:39.760 cause he's like equal rights,

03:02:40.940 equal fights. 1.00

03:02:41.400 Cause I keep smacking his ass super hard. 1.00

03:02:43.160 He's like, 1.00

03:02:43.540 come here.

03:02:44.720 Yeah.

03:02:45.720 Um,

03:02:46.240 Oh,

03:02:47.040 go ahead.

03:02:47.580 I was going to say what part of my type is I like lifts a lot.

03:02:51.240 And so if like a guy goes to the,

03:02:52.940 really,

03:02:53.240 we should live together.

03:02:54.340 Wait,

03:02:54.600 the Rex one.

03:02:56.040 Both fitness 19 and the Rex one.

03:02:57.460 I do fitness 19 too.

03:02:58.700 But I really like if a guy lifts and I can tell,

03:03:04.020 or like,

03:03:04.760 I love like gym guys.

03:03:06.120 I think that definitely makes it.

03:03:07.420 Cause also it's not even just about the way that it changes.

03:03:09.700 They look,

03:03:10.160 it shows they care about themselves and they spend the time.

03:03:12.340 You know what I mean?

03:03:13.400 Okay.

03:03:13.660 So guys,

03:03:14.240 uh,

03:03:14.520 we are wrapping up here pretty soon in a couple of minutes.

03:03:17.020 Um,

03:03:17.560 if you want,

03:03:18.180 just get your last minute super chats in.

03:03:19.900 If you want us to read them,

03:03:20.700 we do have to go over some super chats,

03:03:22.140 but before we do that,

03:03:23.360 just to kind of wrap up the topic of tonight,

03:03:25.800 which is who should pay on a first date,

03:03:28.300 Chris,

03:03:28.520 will you pull up?

03:03:29.220 I don't think we watched.

03:03:30.500 Did we watch all of the videos,

03:03:32.800 Chris,

03:03:34.000 the Tik TOK videos that we had check here?

03:03:36.420 Yeah.

03:03:36.780 We went,

03:03:37.340 uh,

03:03:37.840 we did not.

03:03:39.780 We missed one.

03:03:41.380 This gem.

03:03:42.000 Oh,

03:03:42.300 okay.

03:03:42.520 This is a good one.

03:03:43.180 This is a slightly different.

03:03:44.740 Is this before you play it,

03:03:46.020 Chris,

03:03:46.260 is this the last one?

03:03:49.520 Can you just cycle through?

03:03:55.300 Okay.

03:03:56.020 We'll watch.

03:03:56.580 We'll watch this one.

03:03:57.720 We'll watch this.

03:03:58.440 We'll give our take and then we'll do super chats and wrap it up. 0.97

03:04:02.580 I'm going to take a second to go ahead and talk about something that just happened to me because literally I fucking cannot. 0.86

03:04:08.700 Let me put my shades on to try to hide the disdain. 0.94

03:04:11.020 I went out on a casual little like get to meet and greet with this dude who we have both canceled on each other multiple times.

03:04:18.460 We go to like a local little bar thing and you know,

03:04:21.240 he orders two drinks.

03:04:22.020 I order one.

03:04:23.000 He's like,

03:04:23.360 let's go eat.

03:04:23.820 I'm like,

03:04:24.120 sounds great.

03:04:24.760 Like,

03:04:25.200 cool.

03:04:25.580 We'll go eat.

03:04:26.200 I asked for the checks and he's like,

03:04:27.880 yeah,

03:04:28.060 the checks.

03:04:28.920 Pause it,

03:04:29.240 Chris.

03:04:31.000 Pause it.

03:04:32.400 Just,

03:04:32.920 just want to point out here.

03:04:34.020 She asks for the checks.

03:04:36.460 She asked.

03:04:37.540 Continue the video.

03:04:39.760 He proceeds to pay with his bill in cash and I pay mine,

03:04:43.060 you know,

03:04:43.440 with my card.

03:04:44.500 We walk out and this man,

03:04:46.260 I'm like,

03:04:46.880 yeah,

03:04:47.180 no,

03:04:47.440 I'm not going to go.

03:04:48.300 And he's like,

03:04:48.760 are you sure?

03:04:49.180 And I'm like,

03:04:49.480 yeah,

03:04:49.680 no,

03:04:50.020 not for me. 1.00

03:04:50.820 The fuck I look like you got me fucked up. 1.00

03:04:53.040 This man then proceeds to call me on my way home as I'm complaining to my homegirl about what a fucking horrible idea this was. 1.00

03:05:00.620 And he's like, 0.97

03:05:01.200 what was it?

03:05:02.340 And I was like,

03:05:02.780 bro,

03:05:02.980 you know,

03:05:03.440 it's the checks things.

03:05:04.720 And he's like,

03:05:05.140 well,

03:05:05.360 I don't owe you anything.

03:05:06.580 And like,

03:05:06.920 this is not how I wanted to meet.

03:05:08.500 Excuse me.

03:05:10.460 Okay.

03:05:11.220 You can go back,

03:05:12.220 Chris,

03:05:12.500 to a full screen.

03:05:13.920 Yo,

03:05:14.080 my guy dodged a bullet with this one.

03:05:15.760 I'm not going to lie.

03:05:18.080 Like,

03:05:18.680 she asked to split the checks. 0.75

03:05:22.000 And then,

03:05:22.720 someone gets upset when he agrees.

03:05:28.960 Thoughts?

03:05:29.940 Why don't we start with,

03:05:30.840 let's start with Aline.

03:05:35.000 I think I would do this,

03:05:37.360 but I wouldn't get upset.

03:05:40.240 I wouldn't get upset.

03:05:41.340 I would ask to split the check.

03:05:42.760 And I'd test him in my brain.

03:05:44.860 I'd be like,

03:05:46.640 let's see if you do this.

03:05:48.060 Let's see if you pay for the bill.

03:05:50.920 Pick up the bill.

03:05:51.780 I'll offer to pay for mine.

03:05:54.540 But,

03:05:55.060 if you actually do it,

03:05:57.120 I won't get upset.

03:05:57.840 Because I'm the one who said it.

03:06:00.060 But so,

03:06:00.760 when you offer.

03:06:01.780 But like,

03:06:01.840 the thing is,

03:06:02.600 if,

03:06:02.980 if he,

03:06:03.680 if he pays for mine,

03:06:04.960 I'm like,

03:06:06.200 he's the one.

03:06:07.420 He's the one.

03:06:08.380 But so,

03:06:09.020 if you were to offer,

03:06:10.860 it's sort of a token thing.

03:06:12.200 You still,

03:06:12.720 even when you offer,

03:06:13.760 you want the guy to pay.

03:06:16.100 Yes.

03:06:16.760 Even though you offered.

03:06:17.940 Yes.

03:06:18.340 It's a,

03:06:18.840 it's always a test.

03:06:20.140 It's a,

03:06:20.400 it's always a test for women. 1.00

03:06:22.400 Bro,

03:06:22.860 women, 1.00

03:06:23.360 you gotta,

03:06:24.000 hold on.

03:06:24.340 Hold on.

03:06:26.240 I totally disagree.

03:06:27.200 Hold on.

03:06:27.580 All these rules.

03:06:29.680 What do you think?

03:06:31.240 I disagree.

03:06:32.400 I think that if you don't want something to happen,

03:06:34.440 then don't do it.

03:06:36.040 That's like,

03:06:36.800 step one into being manipulative.

03:06:38.560 You know?

03:06:41.020 Like,

03:06:41.360 why,

03:06:41.860 why would you be like,

03:06:43.660 oh,

03:06:44.100 I'm going to get two checks.

03:06:45.700 And then also,

03:06:46.380 why would you even do that in the first place?

03:06:48.240 If you wanted him to pay,

03:06:50.960 then let him do that.

03:06:52.480 You know?

03:06:53.420 Like,

03:06:53.880 let him ask for the checks if you want him to pay.

03:06:57.040 You know what I mean?

03:06:58.380 And with that being said too,

03:06:59.480 even if he did offer to pay yours,

03:07:01.120 then she has to go back,

03:07:03.000 put everything on one check.

03:07:04.440 Like,

03:07:04.700 it's a hassle.

03:07:05.640 Like,

03:07:05.800 that,

03:07:06.060 what's the point of doing it?

03:07:08.280 If you,

03:07:09.220 like,

03:07:10.680 like,

03:07:11.460 you know?

03:07:13.860 Sorry.

03:07:14.440 I love you.

03:07:16.400 Sydney,

03:07:16.860 what do you think?

03:07:17.560 I honestly don't care that much.

03:07:20.020 But for me,

03:07:20.740 it's not a set,

03:07:21.760 it's a bonus point if they pay,

03:07:23.900 but it's not like a setback if they don't.

03:07:26.700 Like,

03:07:26.900 if they don't,

03:07:27.540 I'll be like,

03:07:27.960 oh,

03:07:28.180 whatever.

03:07:28.620 Like,

03:07:28.820 I totally understand.

03:07:29.960 But if they pay,

03:07:31.300 then I'll be like,

03:07:31.700 oh,

03:07:32.040 like,

03:07:32.280 thank you so much.

03:07:33.000 I almost like feel bad when people pay for me.

03:07:35.180 So like,

03:07:35.720 sometimes I prefer to pay for myself and I'm like,

03:07:37.960 I'm like,

03:07:38.580 oh,

03:07:38.740 well,

03:07:38.900 thank you so much.

03:07:39.500 Like,

03:07:39.620 are you sure?

03:07:40.140 Are you sure?

03:07:40.540 And I'll,

03:07:40.960 I've never not offered to pay.

03:07:43.220 So.

03:07:44.080 But when you offered to pay,

03:07:46.560 would you,

03:07:47.200 is it like a token offer?

03:07:48.320 No,

03:07:48.540 I will pay them.

03:07:49.560 Okay.

03:07:49.820 Like,

03:07:50.080 how much was it?

03:07:50.780 And I won't be offended.

03:07:52.100 Got it.

03:07:52.500 So what's your take on her?

03:07:53.840 Because she offered to pay,

03:07:55.180 but then he was,

03:07:56.940 he took her up on it.

03:07:58.940 Maybe he didn't understand the subtext,

03:08:01.360 but.

03:08:01.520 No,

03:08:01.640 I don't think she should have gotten,

03:08:02.940 if you,

03:08:03.620 it wasn't a genuine offer of hers then,

03:08:06.220 like,

03:08:06.400 don't make the offer if you don't want someone to accept it.

03:08:08.960 That's on her.

03:08:09.740 Right.

03:08:10.980 I think it's very manipulative and just super immature,

03:08:15.200 like to do it as a test,

03:08:16.820 just be like,

03:08:17.500 Oh yeah.

03:08:17.800 Like separate checks and then get upset.

03:08:20.460 If he doesn't immediately be like,

03:08:21.860 Oh yeah.

03:08:22.200 Like we'll pay.

03:08:23.020 Like,

03:08:23.180 how is he supposed to know that that's a test?

03:08:26.240 Like,

03:08:26.960 why are we,

03:08:27.940 why is dating supposed to be like a game now?

03:08:30.740 Like,

03:08:30.940 I don't understand.

03:08:31.960 Like,

03:08:32.140 why can't we just happen?

03:08:33.620 What happened?

03:08:34.460 Like,

03:08:35.220 well,

03:08:35.640 it's not,

03:08:38.980 it's not,

03:08:39.460 it's not a test per se.

03:08:41.200 Exactly.

03:08:41.800 It's because I won't get mad if he doesn't because I've offered.

03:08:45.700 It's more of a bonus.

03:08:48.060 Yeah.

03:08:48.340 Bonus point.

03:08:49.040 It's not,

03:08:49.540 it's not like he's not losing points if he,

03:08:52.280 if he doesn't,

03:08:53.500 but he's going to,

03:08:54.140 it's free points that if he does,

03:08:56.140 that's what I'm saying.

03:08:57.400 Okay.

03:08:58.000 I could see that.

03:08:59.040 I could see that.

03:08:59.380 I'm not going to get mad because obviously.

03:09:01.820 Yeah.

03:09:01.940 You shouldn't expect it.

03:09:03.080 Yeah,

03:09:03.220 exactly.

03:09:03.900 I'm always,

03:09:04.620 I'm always going to go to the,

03:09:05.820 the date ready to pay for my own.

03:09:07.680 Yeah.

03:09:07.900 The question is,

03:09:08.800 is that with you is,

03:09:10.360 is it a test or are you actually genuinely offering?

03:09:14.860 It's,

03:09:15.400 I'm genuinely offering.

03:09:16.820 I'm just saying it's a test because it can affect the way that I like and perceive you.

03:09:21.240 So it's a predetermined thing.

03:09:23.860 Yeah.

03:09:24.360 Like you go in being like,

03:09:25.460 Oh,

03:09:25.580 I'm going to ask him.

03:09:27.960 No,

03:09:28.220 it's,

03:09:28.480 it's no,

03:09:29.060 it's,

03:09:29.320 I don't go in.

03:09:29.920 It's like at the moment,

03:09:31.180 Oh,

03:09:31.780 the bills in front of me.

03:09:33.080 I'm like,

03:09:33.620 let's,

03:09:33.920 let's split.

03:09:34.700 Like,

03:09:35.080 I'm not expecting anything.

03:09:36.580 Like you're expecting to pay.

03:09:38.380 I'm expecting to pay.

03:09:40.260 Yeah.

03:09:40.440 Okay.

03:09:40.720 Okay.

03:09:40.900 But if he offers to pay for mine,

03:09:42.680 that's bonus points.

03:09:43.880 Oh,

03:09:44.040 that makes sense.

03:09:44.760 That's what I'm saying.

03:09:45.940 I'm not going to get upset if he,

03:09:47.400 if he doesn't say that.

03:09:48.340 That's fine.

03:09:48.840 Yeah.

03:09:49.500 Oh,

03:09:49.980 King.

03:09:50.500 I,

03:09:52.100 so my take on it as far as her freak out or whatever,

03:09:55.860 I mean,

03:09:56.420 she's the one who asked for the checks.

03:10:00.420 You can't get upset when he agrees.

03:10:02.940 Oh no.

03:10:03.700 The consequences of my actions.

03:10:06.240 Like,

03:10:07.240 I mean,

03:10:08.000 he dodged a bullet for sure.

03:10:09.200 Also stay away from,

03:10:11.200 from women who do these hand gestures when talking,

03:10:15.340 just saying.

03:10:16.200 What hand gesture?

03:10:16.960 Disagreed.

03:10:17.700 I love talking with my hands.

03:10:19.440 No,

03:10:19.580 no,

03:10:19.660 no.

03:10:19.800 I'm not saying.

03:10:21.240 Her.

03:10:22.120 No,

03:10:22.480 the,

03:10:22.560 the,

03:10:23.020 the clapping.

03:10:25.160 Yeah.

03:10:25.300 Just the way that the ratchet clap.

03:10:27.660 Stay away.

03:10:29.620 Red flag.

03:10:30.620 Okay.

03:10:32.080 So stay away from men who wear American flags, 1.00

03:10:35.760 not bags.

03:10:38.280 Well,

03:10:39.080 actually the only reason I put it on is because you guys were roasting me

03:10:41.980 before the show started because I had some dandruff.

03:10:43.980 I said that as a courtesy.

03:10:46.080 You had stuff in your hair.

03:10:47.500 Hey,

03:10:47.720 I'm not,

03:10:48.000 I'm not upset.

03:10:48.960 I wasn't making fun of you.

03:10:50.020 I was just like,

03:10:50.480 yo,

03:10:50.700 I'm not upset.

03:10:51.140 You got dandruff in your hair.

03:10:52.360 I,

03:10:52.620 I threw the hat on though,

03:10:53.980 just cause I was not stream ready.

03:10:57.060 So I'm going to kind of end the thing with who should pay.

03:11:01.880 Go ahead.

03:11:03.860 I'm going to give my,

03:11:05.000 my take.

03:11:08.900 So would you guys agree that the guy paying is a traditional,

03:11:15.340 it's a traditional thing,

03:11:16.740 right?

03:11:16.900 It is tradition.

03:11:17.760 The guy pays.

03:11:18.480 That's facts.

03:11:18.940 That's not an opinion.

03:11:20.300 Okay.

03:11:21.100 Yeah.

03:11:21.320 So would you agree?

03:11:23.380 I agree.

03:11:24.340 Traditionally.

03:11:24.740 Yeah.

03:11:25.180 Yeah.

03:11:25.460 Tradition.

03:11:26.020 Like it's a traditional thing for the guy to pay,

03:11:28.480 to provide,

03:11:29.420 et cetera.

03:11:30.220 Yeah.

03:11:30.700 Um,

03:11:31.060 I mean,

03:11:31.320 so my advice to men is you do not participate in traditional courtship with

03:11:37.680 non-traditional women.

03:11:39.520 That's that.

03:11:40.480 Okay.

03:11:40.980 You,

03:11:41.420 you,

03:11:41.580 you really had us in the first half.

03:11:42.980 You saved yourself there,

03:11:44.600 man.

03:11:44.920 That's,

03:11:45.420 that's my thing.

03:11:46.200 And newsflash,

03:11:47.360 by the way,

03:11:48.980 it's 2022.

03:11:50.740 No way.

03:11:51.860 Wow.

03:11:52.820 Sabrina went newsflash. 0.97

03:11:54.700 Uh,

03:11:55.300 I would wager to say that probably most women are not traditional. 0.99

03:12:00.940 And probably,

03:12:01.780 I think a lot of guys are not traditional anymore either.

03:12:05.340 Um,

03:12:05.800 but if you,

03:12:06.300 honestly,

03:12:06.520 if you try to be traditional with a non-traditional woman,

03:12:10.780 you're probably gonna get burned. 0.58

03:12:11.860 I think. 0.66

03:12:12.940 Or just be yourself.

03:12:15.080 Or just,

03:12:15.740 or just communicate in a healthy manner.

03:12:17.760 Don't be somebody else for someone.

03:12:20.320 Yeah.

03:12:20.600 Yeah.

03:12:20.780 Only pay if you want to.

03:12:21.860 No matter what relationship it is,

03:12:23.820 like communication.

03:12:25.380 Exactly.

03:12:26.040 It's key.

03:12:26.500 And if you communicated properly,

03:12:28.460 you would know that your personalities didn't work well together.

03:12:32.140 And if you did,

03:12:33.500 then guess what?

03:12:34.100 You may be non-traditional and she may be traditional or vice versa.

03:12:37.720 Who cares?

03:12:38.180 Opposites attract.

03:12:39.100 Do you,

03:12:39.760 if she likes it,

03:12:40.500 if they like it,

03:12:41.280 if your partner likes it,

03:12:42.320 keep doing it and vice versa.

03:12:43.920 Yeah.

03:12:44.100 I mean,

03:12:44.380 every,

03:12:44.640 everybody can operate how they want,

03:12:48.160 but,

03:12:48.260 but I,

03:12:49.300 I would say that,

03:12:51.260 at least for me,

03:12:52.660 my take,

03:12:53.380 traditional courtship

03:12:54.300 is reserved for traditional women. 0.98

03:12:57.660 That's,

03:12:58.080 that's my take.

03:12:59.260 Um,

03:12:59.360 and you know,

03:13:00.080 the other thing is,

03:13:00.800 is that,

03:13:02.040 so,

03:13:05.680 the dating meta is such,

03:13:06.980 and I think this is on both sides,

03:13:08.540 I don't want to provide if she's sleeping with another guy. 1.00

03:13:18.460 And if you go on a first date with a girl,

03:13:21.280 the dating meta is such,

03:13:23.220 not all women,

03:13:24.000 I'm not saying this is for all women,

03:13:25.560 but the dating meta is such that you have to assume that the other person is sleeping with at least one other person.

03:13:33.140 At least.

03:13:34.720 And this could be,

03:13:35.480 this could be guys too.

03:13:36.960 If you're a girl,

03:13:37.700 you're going on a date with a guy,

03:13:39.560 you probably,

03:13:40.360 you,

03:13:40.560 unless you,

03:13:41.240 how can you know beforehand going in,

03:13:43.140 you have to assume he's sleeping with at least one other girl.

03:13:46.240 We had a girl on,

03:13:48.100 um,

03:13:48.600 I'm trying to remember if it was one of the previous shows,

03:13:51.480 but I mean like,

03:13:52.460 she was saying that she was,

03:13:53.780 had been,

03:13:55.500 um,

03:13:56.520 she,

03:13:56.960 at,

03:13:57.180 at her peak,

03:13:58.120 she was concurrently hooking up with five guys. 1.00

03:14:01.840 Okay.

03:14:03.240 So,

03:14:04.360 uh,

03:14:04.700 to me,

03:14:05.280 I just,

03:14:05.780 I don't want to spend money on a girl, 1.00

03:14:09.500 but there's no way to know because the dating,

03:14:12.280 the dating meta is such that,

03:14:14.200 like I said,

03:14:15.600 you have to assume that they're sleeping with somebody else.

03:14:18.660 on the first date because you're,

03:14:20.140 I don't pay,

03:14:20.480 I won't pay on the first date.

03:14:21.980 I won't pay on the first date.

03:14:23.280 Why?

03:14:24.500 You're not going to,

03:14:25.260 because you're assuming that she's hooking up with other people. 1.00

03:14:28.300 You have to assume that.

03:14:29.400 And even if she is,

03:14:29.980 it's the first date.

03:14:31.180 It's not like you guys are dating.

03:14:32.620 But,

03:14:32.880 but,

03:14:33.300 so why,

03:14:34.020 but why do I have to adhere to my,

03:14:36.260 you don't have to,

03:14:37.060 it's if you want to.

03:14:37.620 You don't have to,

03:14:38.320 but just know what that makes you look like.

03:14:40.040 But I shouldn't,

03:14:41.160 my,

03:14:41.640 my take is,

03:14:42.400 is that I shouldn't have to adhere to my traditional gender roles. 0.91

03:14:46.740 If she's not adhering to hers.

03:14:49.040 You don't know that.

03:14:50.860 There's no way to know.

03:14:52.080 There's no way to know.

03:14:53.100 But I mean like the meta,

03:14:55.160 like the dating meta is like,

03:14:56.580 you have to assume.

03:14:57.760 Yo, 1.00

03:14:57.920 are you fucking? 1.00

03:14:58.840 Yeah, 1.00

03:14:59.100 you fucking bro. 1.00

03:15:00.040 You put out. 1.00

03:15:01.400 No,

03:15:01.600 okay.

03:15:01.780 I kind of,

03:15:02.140 I get what you're saying.

03:15:03.140 You won't adhere to your true.

03:15:05.060 Okay.

03:15:05.240 But question.

03:15:07.200 When you say, 1.00

03:15:08.520 damn, 1.00

03:15:08.880 you're ripped. 1.00

03:15:09.440 She lifting,

03:15:10.060 bro.

03:15:10.160 She's ripped.

03:15:10.620 She lifting,

03:15:11.520 lifting.

03:15:12.200 Do it again.

03:15:13.360 Do it again.

03:15:13.920 Let's see the guns.

03:15:15.940 Hell yeah. 1.00

03:15:17.740 God damn. 1.00

03:15:18.740 Okay. 1.00

03:15:19.200 Go off,

03:15:19.560 Val. 0.98

03:15:20.440 Death by snoo snoo. 0.82

03:15:21.640 Okay.

03:15:21.840 Sorry.

03:15:23.220 Go ahead.

03:15:23.400 I don't think I left at all.

03:15:25.640 I was just going to ask her when you said you don't want to adhere to your traditional

03:15:32.480 dating tropes.

03:15:34.520 If we're not.

03:15:35.560 Yeah.

03:15:35.840 Right.

03:15:36.220 Like the rules.

03:15:37.180 Yeah.

03:15:37.520 Traditional dating role.

03:15:38.840 If she isn't.

03:15:41.180 And to what extent are you going to take that?

03:15:44.780 You know?

03:15:45.220 Because like with anything that is traditional or even anything now,

03:15:50.320 you could take things to extremes,

03:15:51.820 but it's also saying that you refuse to pay on the first date.

03:15:58.020 No matter you,

03:15:59.580 no matter what.

03:16:02.160 Like that sounds like an ultimatum.

03:16:05.820 And that's like,

03:16:07.040 it's not an ultimatum.

03:16:09.100 So you make her pay for your meal? 1.00

03:16:11.200 No,

03:16:11.340 no,

03:16:11.520 she doesn't pay for me. 1.00

03:16:12.700 Oh,

03:16:12.840 it's like 50,

03:16:13.320 50.

03:16:13.420 I would.

03:16:14.260 Yeah.

03:16:14.400 It'd be like 50,

03:16:15.240 50 either split or we just,

03:16:16.900 we pay our own way.

03:16:18.080 I would not have a girl pay for me. 1.00

03:16:20.000 Oh,

03:16:20.500 okay.

03:16:20.760 If she offered,

03:16:21.540 I'd maybe take her up on it.

03:16:23.440 the way you said it,

03:16:24.300 it kind of made me like,

03:16:25.120 I'm not paying on the first date.

03:16:26.040 It's not great,

03:16:26.680 but it's fine.

03:16:27.140 Absolutely not.

03:16:27.800 I'm not saying,

03:16:28.240 I'm not saying that.

03:16:30.100 I'm definitely not saying that,

03:16:31.600 uh,

03:16:32.620 I would make the girl pay. 0.98

03:16:34.120 It's,

03:16:34.540 it's not that it's just,

03:16:35.480 I would pay for whatever I get.

03:16:36.980 She pays for whatever she gets.

03:16:38.640 That's my personal thing.

03:16:40.380 Um,

03:16:40.780 I know that for,

03:16:42.580 that's probably some girls, 1.00

03:16:44.400 decent amount of girls are going to take coral with that. 1.00

03:16:47.280 And that's fine.

03:16:48.300 Would,

03:16:49.040 would you make that clear before you went on the date?

03:16:52.360 Because I,

03:16:53.040 I would not,

03:16:53.560 you wouldn't.

03:16:54.020 I would not say that I'm paying for you.

03:16:55.460 Okay.

03:16:55.480 So,

03:16:56.120 but I don't,

03:16:56.480 I don't take girls on like dinner dates. 0.85

03:16:58.520 I'll get,

03:16:59.000 I'll grab a drink with the girl. 0.98

03:17:00.240 Okay.

03:17:00.460 Well,

03:17:00.620 no,

03:17:00.720 I'm saying,

03:17:01.140 would you make it clear that you want to split the bill on a date before the date even starts?

03:17:08.420 Like,

03:17:08.840 will you make that clear?

03:17:10.080 And be like,

03:17:10.800 Hey,

03:17:10.940 at the end of this,

03:17:11.920 we're,

03:17:12.520 can we split the bill?

03:17:13.440 that'd just be,

03:17:13.460 that'd just be awkward. 0.99

03:17:15.060 If you want to hear some gangster shit, 0.99

03:17:16.780 you get there five minutes early. 1.00

03:17:18.240 You tell the waiter,

03:17:19.700 waiter,

03:17:20.360 I'm going,

03:17:21.300 I have a beautiful young lady coming. 0.99

03:17:25.860 By the,

03:17:26.560 at the end,

03:17:27.100 I want you to bring me two checks.

03:17:28.620 Boom.

03:17:30.180 There you go.

03:17:31.120 That makes it less awkward.

03:17:31.880 That's,

03:17:32.780 okay.

03:17:33.240 That's one way to do it.

03:17:34.100 But,

03:17:34.600 I really like the way that one woman, 1.00

03:17:39.120 the way,

03:17:39.720 the thing that that one woman said with the fantastic eyeliner, 1.00

03:17:42.800 how she said that if someone is asking you out on a date,

03:17:47.760 you are going out of your way.

03:17:49.600 But women do not ask guys out on a date. 1.00

03:17:51.300 I do.

03:17:51.980 She does.

03:17:52.800 We are literally proving like,

03:17:55.220 yeah,

03:17:55.480 huh?

03:17:56.040 Okay.

03:17:56.680 Let me,

03:17:57.180 okay.

03:17:57.640 So,

03:17:58.180 but that's the issues you think we do.

03:18:00.660 Yeah.

03:18:01.000 You guys assume y'all.

03:18:02.540 Okay.

03:18:02.740 So maybe you do that with the top 10,

03:18:04.640 20% of guys,

03:18:05.480 but I think I'm like average looking.

03:18:07.260 So my,

03:18:08.120 my dating experiences.

03:18:09.860 Okay.

03:18:10.400 Once again,

03:18:10.940 there's nothing less attractive than I don't,

03:18:14.700 I may be wrong.

03:18:15.440 This is for me personally,

03:18:16.260 but back me up here.

03:18:17.180 If you agree.

03:18:18.360 Um,

03:18:19.300 I said this earlier,

03:18:20.540 guys assume that we care that much about looks personality is means way more to us.

03:18:29.280 Honestly,

03:18:29.840 probably than what it means to you guys.

03:18:32.720 Yeah.

03:18:33.280 So they have four random girls telling you this who are in college.

03:18:38.640 Looks,

03:18:39.060 looks are certainly a factor.

03:18:41.460 I don't think it's the be all end all,

03:18:43.580 but certainly it's a factor.

03:18:45.020 I agree.

03:18:45.800 I think you can make up for it with confidence,

03:18:47.940 personality.

03:18:48.440 If you have some status,

03:18:49.760 um,

03:18:50.820 if you're financially well off,

03:18:52.220 there's,

03:18:52.500 there's plenty of ways to make up for it.

03:18:54.040 But,

03:18:54.460 uh,

03:18:55.560 I mean,

03:18:55.900 my experience has been,

03:18:57.400 and this is more so like on dating apps.

03:19:00.680 If I don't make the first move, 0.98

03:19:02.640 that shit's never happening. 0.99

03:19:05.680 I have to take initiative. 0.99

03:19:07.480 That's true.

03:19:08.160 If I wait,

03:19:09.160 if it's what,

03:19:11.360 I mean,

03:19:11.980 it's on me.

03:19:12.680 No,

03:19:13.020 it's well,

03:19:13.400 I mean,

03:19:13.680 of course it's on me.

03:19:14.600 I have to take,

03:19:15.140 I know,

03:19:15.480 I know you're right.

03:19:16.180 but so my experience is like,

03:19:21.320 as far as initiative from be it asking the girl for a number,

03:19:26.960 asking her on a date,

03:19:28.120 setting the date up,

03:19:29.540 going for the kiss,

03:19:30.780 moving things forward sexually,

03:19:32.680 every single step along the way.

03:19:34.900 If I didn't do it,

03:19:37.780 she's,

03:19:38.620 she's not going to do it.

03:19:39.820 Would you overwhelmingly,

03:19:42.020 would you,

03:19:42.780 would you be okay?

03:19:46.420 With the girl making the first move in every situation. 0.91

03:19:49.860 Has that ever happened to you?

03:19:51.160 Would I be,

03:19:51.880 well,

03:19:52.180 I would of course be okay with it.

03:19:54.680 In fact,

03:19:55.020 I would invite it.

03:19:56.080 In fact,

03:19:56.420 it's refreshing.

03:19:57.360 The thing is though,

03:19:58.280 is that I have to live in a reality.

03:20:00.300 It just does not happen.

03:20:01.560 And if I don't do it as the man,

03:20:03.340 if I don't take initiative and I don't get me wrong,

03:20:05.800 I take,

03:20:06.480 I will definitely take initiative.

03:20:08.340 But if I don't,

03:20:10.180 then it's just never going to happen.

03:20:13.460 Do you think you make it known?

03:20:15.940 On date?

03:20:16.500 That you think that way?

03:20:17.740 What do you mean think that way?

03:20:19.120 Because like,

03:20:19.900 that I would like them to take initiative.

03:20:21.720 If the girl already knows that you're going to take initiative for everything,

03:20:24.520 if anyone already knows you're going to take,

03:20:26.360 you're going to do everything.

03:20:27.260 That's a fair point.

03:20:27.840 You could just sit back,

03:20:29.000 relax and enjoy it.

03:20:31.400 You know,

03:20:31.640 you don't have to do anything.

03:20:33.100 Because it is easier to be,

03:20:34.620 I guess,

03:20:35.060 initiated upon.

03:20:35.960 So then why change it up?

03:20:38.360 So that's,

03:20:38.740 that's a fair point.

03:20:39.480 Yeah.

03:20:39.940 And if you make that known that you like,

03:20:42.780 you know what I mean?

03:20:43.840 Like if you're the first one to do everything,

03:20:45.920 why would,

03:20:46.700 why would she do like something else? 1.00

03:20:49.520 I sort of agree with you,

03:20:51.020 but,

03:20:52.020 um,

03:20:52.600 so if I'm dating someone for a while,

03:20:55.480 let's say we've been dating for a couple of weeks,

03:20:58.720 a month,

03:20:59.060 a couple of months,

03:20:59.540 whatever.

03:21:00.100 Yeah.

03:21:00.600 And I find that,

03:21:01.780 for example,

03:21:02.180 I'm the only always the one that sort of has to initiate things or start

03:21:06.260 things for sex.

03:21:08.880 Like I might say, 0.98

03:21:10.500 Hey,

03:21:10.660 you know,

03:21:10.920 I just,

03:21:11.220 I'd have a conversation with her and just say,

03:21:13.000 you know what?

03:21:13.660 It really turns me on.

03:21:14.840 If you were to initiate once,

03:21:17.460 well,

03:21:17.720 that that's maybe not the exact wording,

03:21:19.580 but I,

03:21:20.640 I would appreciate it.

03:21:21.600 If you initiated,

03:21:23.080 do you think that maybe that leads more to her not reciprocating?

03:21:29.320 Wait,

03:21:29.800 what do you mean?

03:21:30.000 And it being a bigger issue than it,

03:21:32.300 than just that.

03:21:33.760 Like if a relationship,

03:21:35.920 it sounds a little one-sided,

03:21:37.400 I'm not going to lie.

03:21:38.300 Like,

03:21:38.500 that's a bummer.

03:21:39.200 Oh,

03:21:39.380 you mean if it's one side,

03:21:40.720 it's that I'm putting in too much shy.

03:21:42.740 I mean,

03:21:43.140 I,

03:21:43.400 but I think that I do think level of it,

03:21:47.340 but also,

03:21:49.500 so,

03:21:49.720 but speaking more so in the initial,

03:21:51.600 phases of dating.

03:21:54.040 Like you said,

03:21:55.060 I should try to communicate that,

03:21:56.420 but I'm not,

03:21:57.420 you think if I'm messaging a girl on Tinder,

03:22:01.160 or I actually,

03:22:01.760 I'm not on Tinder.

03:22:02.440 I haven't been on there on the wall hinge.

03:22:04.260 That's a good one.

03:22:05.760 I'm like,

03:22:06.500 Hey,

03:22:07.240 we've been chatting for a while.

03:22:08.600 I'd really like it.

03:22:09.680 If you know,

03:22:10.520 you,

03:22:10.800 you asked me out.

03:22:12.740 I don't think that's going to go over well.

03:22:14.360 No,

03:22:14.600 that's not what I'm saying.

03:22:15.640 I'm,

03:22:16.360 I,

03:22:16.600 when I,

03:22:16.860 when I told,

03:22:17.500 when I said that,

03:22:18.460 I was referring more to when you said that you refused to pay for her the first date,

03:22:24.800 no matter what,

03:22:26.200 no matter what kind of girl she is,

03:22:27.520 no matter anything,

03:22:28.060 it's just kind of,

03:22:28.660 actually there's one exception.

03:22:30.100 If I'm dating someone who's a bit younger and I'm like clearly the breadwinner,

03:22:34.880 then like,

03:22:36.480 you know,

03:22:36.780 if she's in college,

03:22:37.540 then there's a bit more leeway.

03:22:40.840 You dating college girls, 0.55

03:22:42.180 bro?

03:22:42.780 Bro.

03:22:43.280 I,

03:22:43.520 I have a range.

03:22:44.640 Whoa.

03:22:45.240 Okay.

03:22:45.420 We can talk,

03:22:46.100 we can get into this one quite a bit.

03:22:47.820 No,

03:22:48.060 can we not?

03:22:48.700 I have to go home and sleep,

03:22:49.900 my guy.

03:22:50.720 Yeah.

03:22:51.000 You're tired?

03:22:52.400 Why don't we,

03:22:53.520 you sure you don't want to get into this?

03:22:54.740 Cause this is a good one.

03:22:56.700 We could do a part two.

03:22:57.960 Jell-O waiting at home.

03:23:00.820 Jell-O.

03:23:01.180 So wait,

03:23:02.080 so you,

03:23:02.460 you would object to me dating a girl who's like 21,

03:23:04.780 22?

03:23:05.680 I don't care.

03:23:06.460 33?

03:23:06.880 33.

03:23:07.400 Yeah.

03:23:08.200 I don't care.

03:23:09.420 It's just,

03:23:10.160 no,

03:23:10.780 like that age gap isn't that large.

03:23:13.780 It's just like,

03:23:14.740 I like adults.

03:23:16.540 I like older guys.

03:23:18.500 Same.

03:23:19.700 But I don't know.

03:23:20.880 For me,

03:23:21.300 like just,

03:23:21.740 just hearing it out loud sounds weird to me.

03:23:24.900 Why?

03:23:25.040 If they like you,

03:23:26.000 then.

03:23:27.080 I mean,

03:23:27.700 that's,

03:23:28.120 she's,

03:23:28.380 she's mature for her age.

03:23:29.920 It's like that,

03:23:30.500 that sense.

03:23:31.760 Don't get like,

03:23:32.260 don't get me wrong.

03:23:32.940 It's not that I would exclusively.

03:23:35.360 Yeah.

03:23:35.580 Right.

03:23:35.920 Like college girls. 0.99

03:23:36.980 Yeah.

03:23:37.260 Like actually a girl I was dating.

03:23:40.140 Maybe I'll even get flack for this.

03:23:41.500 I was dating a woman who's 45 over the summer.

03:23:44.560 Good for you.

03:23:45.720 No chat.

03:23:46.700 She didn't have kids. 0.91

03:23:47.640 Okay.

03:23:48.200 Not a single mother.

03:23:49.140 But like,

03:23:50.400 I'd say most of the women I date are like late twenties, 1.00

03:23:53.640 early thirties in that age range.

03:23:56.200 But like,

03:23:57.160 I would not have an issue dating a woman who's 21.

03:24:01.500 Well,

03:24:01.820 that doesn't,

03:24:02.360 we're not saying that that's okay.

03:24:03.700 No,

03:24:03.860 but you guys were coiled.

03:24:05.440 Well,

03:24:05.660 that's because there will always be,

03:24:08.120 especially,

03:24:09.020 you didn't have an issue with it.

03:24:10.460 There will always be,

03:24:11.980 even if it's just a man,

03:24:13.280 there will be a man and a woman.

03:24:14.940 But the fact that it's a man who is much,

03:24:17.080 much older,

03:24:17.960 there will always be an abuse of power.

03:24:19.580 And even you just said that if I was the breadwinner,

03:24:22.940 I would pay.

03:24:23.860 And the only time I would ever pay for a girl on a date or do that for her 0.94

03:24:27.700 is if she was younger than me.

03:24:30.140 Cause that's about proportionality if she doesn't like, 0.74

03:24:33.820 if she's in college,

03:24:34.360 she doesn't make money. 1.00

03:24:35.220 I w and I want to take her.

03:24:36.860 Well,

03:24:37.280 okay.

03:24:37.520 There's a few things.

03:24:38.420 If I want to take her somewhere nice,

03:24:39.860 like I want to take a girl to the Ritz. 0.97

03:24:41.580 Oh bar,

03:24:42.360 by the way,

03:24:43.600 I used to work there.

03:24:45.060 My friend loved that bar.

03:24:46.900 Or,

03:24:47.220 or if I want to like take my girl to Hawaii and she's in college and I want,

03:24:55.280 like I'm a treater.

03:24:56.180 It's so it's like,

03:24:57.880 you got to wait for her winter break.

03:25:00.140 But like,

03:25:01.900 okay.

03:25:02.280 So,

03:25:02.560 but I do know,

03:25:03.340 but college,

03:25:04.080 we're real adults.

03:25:04.940 Like,

03:25:05.220 it's not like,

03:25:05.900 even though we're in school,

03:25:06.860 like,

03:25:07.220 yeah.

03:25:07.520 Like,

03:25:08.340 see,

03:25:08.680 this is the thing.

03:25:09.440 Like men are not allowed. 0.95

03:25:12.120 Men are not allowed to have preferences, 0.99

03:25:14.980 standards,

03:25:15.680 and boundaries. 1.00

03:25:16.700 That is bullshit. 1.00

03:25:18.100 It's always met with contempt and shaming language. 1.00

03:25:21.920 Oh,

03:25:22.220 that's,

03:25:22.860 I mean,

03:25:23.280 I guess just keep it to yourself.

03:25:24.900 You can have like,

03:25:26.280 you can have like preferences,

03:25:27.900 but just don't like voice them.

03:25:29.640 Don't make it like a fetish.

03:25:31.040 Yeah,

03:25:31.280 just don't tell anyone you want ever.

03:25:33.080 Well,

03:25:33.260 I don't,

03:25:33.560 I didn't think,

03:25:34.200 I don't think I made it a fetish.

03:25:35.860 No,

03:25:36.020 no,

03:25:36.200 you didn't.

03:25:36.580 I'm saying it would be weird if it was a fetish,

03:25:38.580 but I think there's no problem with dating someone younger.

03:25:41.060 Cause like we date.

03:25:42.260 I think we recoiled because.

03:25:44.200 When I heard college girls, 1.00

03:25:45.580 I thought it was exclusively college girls. 1.00

03:25:48.220 Yeah.

03:25:48.700 Yeah.

03:25:49.020 Yeah.

03:25:49.440 I just like my brain.

03:25:50.920 It's like,

03:25:51.560 yeah,

03:25:51.800 I thought abuse of power.

03:25:53.080 And you're currently sitting with four college girls. 0.86

03:25:56.460 I just feel like that's me.

03:25:57.420 And I'm like,

03:25:57.820 I don't feel like an adult.

03:25:59.140 You know what I mean?

03:26:00.500 Like I still.

03:26:01.240 Yeah,

03:26:01.280 but we were talking about context in which I would pay for a date.

03:26:04.440 And that is one contact context in which I would more willingly be willing to pay because there's a proportionality in terms of what we can afford.

03:26:14.480 And so I think I'd,

03:26:16.900 if I want to go to a really nice place and she doesn't work and she's in college,

03:26:22.260 then.

03:26:23.980 Yeah.

03:26:24.480 Then I'd be more willing to pay.

03:26:26.420 But if I'm person asked me to a nice place,

03:26:27.940 I expect them to pay.

03:26:28.700 But like I've had experiences where.

03:26:31.960 Why wouldn't you just do it to be kind?

03:26:33.860 So why isn't that an option?

03:26:35.840 Let me just finish.

03:26:36.740 So I've had some experiences where I've dated women who are make more money than I do. 1.00

03:26:43.000 And so in those scenarios,

03:26:46.520 I mean,

03:26:46.820 should they pay?

03:26:47.380 I mean,

03:26:47.580 it's just weird because I've dated.

03:26:51.340 There's one woman in particular.

03:26:53.080 She was a litigation attorney making 200 to $300,000 a year.

03:26:58.920 She still wanted the guy, 0.92

03:27:01.700 like the guy to pay.

03:27:02.600 And I'm like,

03:27:03.740 bruv,

03:27:04.340 you make $300,000.

03:27:07.600 Sorry,

03:27:08.120 Andrew Tate is rubbing off on me.

03:27:10.340 bruv.

03:27:11.540 So,

03:27:12.020 but I don't really.

03:27:14.580 Okay.

03:27:14.800 So I do want to challenge the age thing a bit.

03:27:17.340 So what do you think about cougars?

03:27:20.460 I,

03:27:21.200 the only thing that I said is that no matter what relationship,

03:27:25.260 especially with that big of an age difference,

03:27:27.420 there will always be an abuse of power.

03:27:30.720 So you think though,

03:27:31.420 that is my opinion.

03:27:32.300 So you think whether it's an older guy dating someone younger or an older woman dating someone younger?

03:27:37.900 Yeah.

03:27:38.600 There's,

03:27:39.100 there is a power imbalance and it's abusive.

03:27:43.120 No,

03:27:43.640 an abuse of power.

03:27:45.060 That doesn't mean you're being abusive.

03:27:47.060 It's an abuse of power during relationships.

03:27:51.620 It's like if your boss,

03:27:54.060 not,

03:27:54.760 there's not a great analogy,

03:27:56.580 but you're just,

03:27:58.700 you're older.

03:27:59.500 There's like,

03:28:00.140 there's that extent being that much older,

03:28:02.700 like 10.

03:28:03.260 Oh,

03:28:03.780 okay.

03:28:04.120 And your situation,

03:28:05.100 not really.

03:28:06.280 Okay.

03:28:06.680 being employer employee.

03:28:08.320 That's a whole different.

03:28:09.060 No,

03:28:09.220 I know.

03:28:09.520 That's why I didn't go off,

03:28:10.700 go on there.

03:28:11.320 It was a bad analogy.

03:28:12.300 But what I'm saying is that with relationships that have such a large age gap,

03:28:17.300 there will be an abuse of power because there is an extensive amount of experience that the younger one had just never experienced.

03:28:26.520 And it's super,

03:28:27.440 and it's easier to take advantage of,

03:28:29.480 you know,

03:28:30.160 in certain situations,

03:28:31.160 like with certain people,

03:28:32.060 not necessarily like you specifically.

03:28:34.040 No,

03:28:34.440 I'm not talking about you.

03:28:35.560 I'm saying in general,

03:28:36.660 but we could also say that women get more experience romantically than men do.

03:28:43.940 Who cares?

03:28:44.920 That's,

03:28:45.320 but that's,

03:28:46.500 no.

03:28:47.120 Okay.

03:28:47.360 I don't get why that's okay.

03:28:50.600 So what if you were dating someone with dementia and he's like,

03:28:55.000 wait,

03:28:55.200 what?

03:28:57.040 It's Chris.

03:28:58.460 Chris.

03:28:59.420 Bring out the, 0.88

03:29:00.180 it's getting late,

03:29:01.120 but wait,

03:29:01.640 I don't understand why that has anything to do with it.

03:29:04.440 Hold on.

03:29:04.640 I got to play this for Chris.

03:29:05.800 Hold on.

03:29:06.580 Everybody knows you never go full of your time.

03:29:09.660 You see what I'm saying though?

03:29:11.400 Like if,

03:29:11.780 if you were like a young woman and there was like this very old man with dementia and he wanted to date him because he likes going to Denny's and he wanted to use it as a senior discount.

03:29:21.040 Dementia.

03:29:21.580 That's totally different.

03:29:22.360 That's totally different.

03:29:23.120 I don't get why we keep bringing things up that are basically the same that are just like the switched version version of it with male and woman.

03:29:33.700 And it doesn't make it any better or any worse.

03:29:37.580 But I do think broadly speaking,

03:29:40.380 like what people view as socially acceptable,

03:29:42.380 like I don't think anyone has like people wouldn't look down on cougars. 0.91

03:29:49.000 Like it has its own Wikipedia page and shit. 0.81

03:29:51.340 Yeah. 0.99

03:29:51.480 It's also a huge fetish.

03:29:53.220 Literally like that's,

03:29:54.900 everyone gets looked down on.

03:29:55.800 It's not looked down on as much as older men dating younger women because cougars and milfs are a fetish that have been come up by men.

03:30:06.380 Like dilfs are just now starting to be like, 1.00

03:30:11.380 okay,

03:30:11.760 maybe like maybe let's not criticize that and judge that just now.

03:30:18.460 Right?

03:30:19.020 Like,

03:30:19.180 do you know what I'm trying to say?

03:30:20.160 Whereas like,

03:30:20.900 for example,

03:30:21.580 just easy example,

03:30:23.040 Stacy's mom,

03:30:24.540 literally a middle school.

03:30:26.160 She got it going on.

03:30:28.460 Yeah.

03:30:28.700 It's just,

03:30:29.380 it's not criticized as much because it's not fetishized because it's fetishized.

03:30:35.100 You know what I mean?

03:30:36.080 Yeah.

03:30:36.740 Love is love applies to age.

03:30:39.320 Um,

03:30:39.920 and I think that people are going to get hate for whatever they do.

03:30:44.360 Agreed.

03:30:44.860 Anything.

03:30:45.760 So just do whatever you want.

03:30:47.860 That is the moral of the podcast.

03:30:50.420 Do what you want to do.

03:30:51.300 Pay for her, 0.63

03:30:52.120 pay for her food. 0.99

03:30:53.240 Do whatever you want.

03:30:54.420 If you don't and she gets mad,

03:30:55.440 she wasn't the one.

03:30:56.420 Exactly.

03:30:57.000 Communication.

03:30:58.920 Communication is key.

03:31:00.980 Communication major over here.

03:31:04.000 But,

03:31:04.600 uh,

03:31:05.060 yeah.

03:31:05.220 Yeah.

03:31:06.240 I mean,

03:31:06.980 yeah,

03:31:07.280 I just feel like that,

03:31:10.200 that was an interesting insight there.

03:31:12.440 It does seem to me that men are very often shamed when they have,

03:31:18.180 and I,

03:31:18.660 I don't even have a,

03:31:20.300 necessarily a preference for women who are like younger. 0.86

03:31:25.060 And when I say younger,

03:31:26.060 I mean like say 18 to 23 or whatever,

03:31:28.580 like,

03:31:29.560 um,

03:31:30.400 but,

03:31:30.840 and I mean,

03:31:32.040 it's of the women I've dated in the past couple of years,

03:31:36.040 like most of them are 27 to 33 in that.

03:31:42.420 We're just saying in general,

03:31:43.300 45,

03:31:43.860 I guess.

03:31:44.720 Sounds like that,

03:31:45.620 that,

03:31:45.820 yeah,

03:31:46.220 I don't want to get too deep into that just because,

03:31:48.900 but,

03:31:49.120 um,

03:31:49.960 yeah.

03:31:50.240 So,

03:31:50.680 um,

03:31:51.400 kind of just to bringing it back to,

03:31:53.720 uh,

03:31:55.220 the who should pay thing.

03:31:58.980 Um,

03:31:59.380 I'm trying to, 0.98

03:32:00.020 I am so fucking tired. 0.91

03:32:02.320 We're almost done. 0.80

03:32:02.860 I'm sorry,

03:32:03.340 Kylie.

03:32:03.720 We are almost done.

03:32:04.440 We'll wrap up in five minutes here.

03:32:05.880 You said that.

03:32:06.760 I know.

03:32:07.180 I know.

03:32:07.580 We went off.

03:32:09.840 We went off.

03:32:11.860 I'm in.

03:32:12.520 I had plans at like nine.

03:32:14.220 Okay.

03:32:14.400 Let's read the,

03:32:15.180 then let's just read the super chats here and then we'll,

03:32:17.240 we'll wrap it up.

03:32:17.960 Chris,

03:32:18.140 can you pull up the super chat?

03:32:19.000 You could always do like a part two.

03:32:20.660 Yeah.

03:32:21.860 I like this panel.

03:32:23.260 This was really good panel.

03:32:25.060 I liked the debate.

03:32:26.240 Um,

03:32:26.480 you guys were awesome.

03:32:27.960 Multiple people in the comments want you guys,

03:32:30.080 all of you guys.

03:32:30.760 Yeah.

03:32:31.020 So we're going to do some shows next week so we can always have you guys on.

03:32:34.040 We're the breadwinners here.

03:32:36.200 So,

03:32:36.360 so guys,

03:32:37.120 we're the breadwinners.

03:32:38.040 Yeah.

03:32:38.280 We're the breadwinners.

03:32:38.980 So what we'll do is we'll pick up,

03:32:40.520 pick back up some of these conversations next week.

03:32:43.480 Um,

03:32:44.000 okay.

03:32:45.040 Waffles.

03:32:45.700 A hundred percent.

03:32:46.500 Wait,

03:32:46.860 uh,

03:32:47.080 Chris,

03:32:47.320 can you,

03:32:47.620 sorry,

03:32:47.800 can you go back up just so I can read them?

03:32:49.340 I don't know where we left off at ask Cindy about.

03:32:52.240 No,

03:32:52.360 I think we were on juuling.

03:32:54.280 No,

03:32:54.680 no,

03:32:55.120 I haven't seen that.

03:32:56.540 Wait,

03:32:56.940 I don't think I read it though.

03:32:57.980 I just got to read it.

03:32:59.160 Does professional juuling garbage fries,

03:33:01.480 $2 does professional juuling.

03:33:03.400 No,

03:33:03.800 up someone's dating value.

03:33:05.040 Negative.

03:33:05.320 Thank you for the $2 super chat.

03:33:06.900 He's a 10,

03:33:07.460 but he's a professional jeweler.

03:33:08.520 Next one.

03:33:09.360 That's a great one.

03:33:11.140 Uh,

03:33:11.500 Nina Hepburn,

03:33:12.500 $7.

03:33:13.200 Thank you for the $2 super chat.

03:33:14.740 This was the Dylan one.

03:33:15.720 Much appreciated.

03:33:16.660 They meant to tie it to this.

03:33:17.880 Nina Hepburn,

03:33:18.640 ask Sydney.

03:33:19.320 Okay,

03:33:19.620 next.

03:33:22.300 Uh,

03:33:22.700 Sam Wilkins,

03:33:23.340 do you guys think cats are as emotionally attached as dogs?

03:33:27.560 No,

03:33:28.020 cats will eat you if you die.

03:33:29.640 Um, 0.89

03:33:30.040 next question.

03:33:31.560 As they should.

03:33:32.440 I like Mr.

03:33:32.940 Mojo rising with the $2 super chat.

03:33:35.040 What do you like more?

03:33:35.760 Waffles.

03:33:36.460 Waffles.

03:33:37.020 Duh.

03:33:37.560 Waffles.

03:33:38.160 Neither.

03:33:38.780 Fresh toast.

03:33:39.380 Keto.

03:33:39.760 French toast.

03:33:40.560 Keto.

03:33:41.420 Keto's a fake diet.

03:33:43.020 Keto doesn't work.

03:33:43.640 Keto is fake.

03:33:44.260 Sorry,

03:33:44.660 it's bad for you.

03:33:45.500 Keto's fake.

03:33:45.700 It's bad for you.

03:33:47.960 Listen,

03:33:48.620 I've,

03:33:49.320 I've gotten a little bit chubby.

03:33:51.020 Are you keto?

03:33:51.820 I'm getting a little chubby.

03:33:52.960 I'm,

03:33:53.060 I'm doing low carb.

03:33:54.220 Are you bulking?

03:33:54.700 High protein.

03:33:55.560 Low carb.

03:33:56.140 Just work out.

03:33:57.040 I've been stressed.

03:33:58.080 I've,

03:33:58.160 I've gotten a little chubby.

03:34:00.140 I'm,

03:34:00.480 I need a little chubby. 1.00

03:34:03.100 Next one,

03:34:03.720 Chris.

03:34:05.500 Next one.

03:34:06.260 How do you get started in the podcast game?

03:34:09.680 Question for the host.

03:34:10.880 Hey,

03:34:11.060 Sam Wilkins,

03:34:11.840 really appreciate the Canadian $14.

03:34:14.960 Thank you.

03:34:16.080 Are you from the French speaking or the English?

03:34:19.920 Oui,

03:34:20.200 je parle un peu,

03:34:20.960 mais pas très bien.

03:34:22.340 Sam Wilkins,

03:34:23.180 how do you get started in the podcast game?

03:34:26.200 That's a nice car,

03:34:27.080 by the way,

03:34:27.520 dude,

03:34:27.740 in your thumbnail.

03:34:28.640 Sam, 0.99

03:34:29.540 so it took us six months to get this fucking podcast going. 0.99

03:34:33.900 We definitely pulled out all the stops. 0.99

03:34:37.760 I thought,

03:34:38.680 honestly,

03:34:38.980 when I got started,

03:34:41.240 I thought it'd be two weeks,

03:34:43.040 but it turned into six months of prep.

03:34:45.080 So,

03:34:45.460 honestly,

03:34:46.580 just research a ton.

03:34:47.940 I self-taught everything,

03:34:49.740 and with the help of Calamity Chris back there on the ones and twos.

03:34:53.220 Maybe I'll do a,

03:34:54.340 you know,

03:34:55.160 a video at some point on our whole setup,

03:34:57.060 but,

03:34:57.340 yeah,

03:34:58.520 I mean,

03:34:58.760 and we're,

03:34:59.100 we're new to the podcast game,

03:35:00.300 so we're still figuring it out.

03:35:01.380 CJ the Spartan.

03:35:07.720 Oh,

03:35:07.980 wait,

03:35:08.160 I got you.

03:35:08.560 I got something for you,

03:35:09.420 buddy.

03:35:11.300 This is Sparta!

03:35:14.680 Thank you.

03:35:15.860 Thank you for the $2 super chat,

03:35:17.380 man.

03:35:17.580 Appreciate it.

03:35:18.060 Would you date a man under five feet under 410?

03:35:20.360 No.

03:35:20.720 Just really quick.

03:35:21.240 No.

03:35:21.700 No.

03:35:21.840 Okay.

03:35:22.740 Sorry.

03:35:23.980 Listen,

03:35:25.920 I've never seen a man that's a little person.

03:35:28.300 That's like 99th percentile men.

03:35:32.340 No.

03:35:32.780 That's very small.

03:35:33.900 There's someone out there for you,

03:35:35.180 though. 0.99

03:35:35.500 It's just not the 510 bitches. 1.00

03:35:36.920 It's just not me. 1.00

03:35:37.400 Micro penis status. 1.00

03:35:39.040 Jesus. 1.00

03:35:39.660 No,

03:35:39.880 I'm sorry.

03:35:40.300 Jesus.

03:35:41.100 What if they're packing,

03:35:42.040 though?

03:35:42.100 Like,

03:35:42.440 no,

03:35:42.900 I'm sorry.

03:35:43.400 The proportion. 1.00

03:35:43.960 What's up with you and micro penis? 1.00

03:35:45.380 I think she's going to eat. 1.00

03:35:46.180 No,

03:35:46.380 it's like the slim,

03:35:48.040 unfortunate population.

03:35:50.240 Very small,

03:35:51.340 unfortunate population.

03:35:51.540 And we're so sorry.

03:35:53.160 We're very sorry.

03:35:53.940 We're the ones for you.

03:35:56.120 I'll tell you this.

03:35:57.060 There's someone.

03:35:57.600 If her height doesn't start with 4,

03:35:59.360 she ain't the one.

03:36:00.100 Okay,

03:36:00.360 next super chat.

03:36:01.500 Okay.

03:36:03.940 Mr.

03:36:04.480 Mojo Risen.

03:36:05.460 Thank you for all the super chats,

03:36:07.180 man.

03:36:07.280 Appreciate it.

03:36:07.720 $5 super chat.

03:36:08.540 Just wanted to say thank you to these lovely girls. 0.95

03:36:11.300 They made this an entertaining and fun podcast.

03:36:13.820 No sex before marriage. 0.85

03:36:15.540 Well said.

03:36:16.040 Yes.

03:36:16.700 Man of God.

03:36:17.200 Well said.

03:36:17.460 I'm a virgin.

03:36:18.160 Abstinence is key.

03:36:19.320 Duh.

03:36:20.380 Next one,

03:36:21.160 Chris.

03:36:21.620 Hold on.

03:36:22.220 One sec.

03:36:22.980 So true.

03:36:23.540 Cougars are scary.

03:36:25.040 What are Panthers?

03:36:25.880 Is that the male equivalent?

03:36:27.160 It's basically the same.

03:36:28.300 Oh,

03:36:28.500 I don't know actually.

03:36:29.620 Silver Fox?

03:36:30.120 Black Panther?

03:36:30.640 I don't know.

03:36:31.220 I have no idea.

03:36:32.400 Donald?

03:36:33.080 Donald?

03:36:33.600 Oh,

03:36:33.720 that's Pink Panther.

03:36:34.200 I think it was a joke.

03:36:35.200 I think it was a joke.

03:36:35.920 Yeah,

03:36:36.140 it was very much a joke.

03:36:38.020 This one's a little serious though.

03:36:42.580 Oh,

03:36:43.140 is this the new?

03:36:43.920 Is this the last one?

03:36:45.300 Have you ever seen Harry Wynn?

03:36:47.140 Are Caucasian women attracted to Asian?

03:36:50.080 My boyfriend is half Asian.

03:36:51.180 I think it's the K-pop wave.

03:36:53.800 Yeah.

03:36:54.200 Yeah.

03:36:54.900 Definitely.

03:36:55.480 Oh my God,

03:36:55.900 BTS.

03:36:56.780 But I also think like a majority of Asian girls,

03:37:00.240 like I'm friends with a lot of them,

03:37:01.800 and everyone's pretty much attracted to white guys,

03:37:05.200 which is strange.

03:37:07.200 I don't know why.

03:37:08.780 Wait,

03:37:09.060 the Asian women,

03:37:09.920 they're attracted to white guys? 0.72

03:37:11.400 A lot of them are.

03:37:12.740 Like exclusively white guys. 0.80

03:37:14.820 Would you date an Asian guy?

03:37:17.000 Yeah.

03:37:17.840 Yeah.

03:37:18.100 But like,

03:37:18.880 I'd say like a lot of my friends who are Asian,

03:37:21.860 they tend to look at like white guys more for some reason.

03:37:26.740 And it's not like,

03:37:27.540 it's not like a fetish thing or whatever.

03:37:31.260 Yeah.

03:37:31.680 It's like a preference.

03:37:32.720 But I don't know.

03:37:33.460 It's like strange.

03:37:34.920 I'm actually.

03:37:35.280 You look at statistics,

03:37:36.060 or you like interview a bunch of them,

03:37:37.600 they'll say like white guys.

03:37:38.900 It's weird.

03:37:39.320 I'm actually surprised that women. 1.00

03:37:44.080 I need to be careful how I phrase this.

03:37:47.020 Don't get canceled.

03:37:47.400 Well,

03:37:47.620 it's not even that bad,

03:37:48.560 but I am surprised there does seem to be.

03:37:52.680 I do think Asian guys can struggle dating wise, 1.00

03:37:58.220 even within their own race.

03:38:00.140 I'm not,

03:38:00.700 I'm certainly not an expert in it.

03:38:01.860 It could be interesting to bring on an Asian guy and see what he has to say.

03:38:04.380 But I think women should date Asian men are great.

03:38:11.700 It's not because they're Asian.

03:38:14.060 It's because a majority of them are like shorter in height or they don't have like,

03:38:19.680 like a majority of them aren't like that,

03:38:22.340 like masculine,

03:38:24.980 like I'm not saying like all of them.

03:38:28.720 I'm saying like statistically speaking,

03:38:31.500 like it can be hard for like,

03:38:35.520 like you don't see a lot of Asian guys in athletics and like a lot of girls are into athletes,

03:38:40.560 like muscular,

03:38:41.800 muscular,

03:38:42.960 like,

03:38:43.840 but yeah,

03:38:45.320 that's like,

03:38:46.500 for me,

03:38:46.960 I don't,

03:38:47.380 I mean,

03:38:47.580 I'm not going to like,

03:38:48.280 just cause someone's race.

03:38:49.220 I'm not going to be like,

03:38:49.820 Oh,

03:38:50.000 I don't like,

03:38:50.600 it's not like,

03:38:51.340 it's not like,

03:38:51.900 it's not my first pick.

03:38:53.380 I don't know.

03:38:53.640 It's more of like a correlation,

03:38:56.040 not really like a,

03:38:57.500 like an exact,

03:38:58.680 like it's,

03:38:59.380 I would say for me,

03:39:01.120 it's personal preference.

03:39:02.120 It's nothing personal.

03:39:02.880 They don't like an Asian guy probably wouldn't. 1.00

03:39:05.740 I mean,

03:39:05.940 it's like a hot,

03:39:06.780 I don't know if they're hot,

03:39:07.640 they're hot.

03:39:08.440 Yeah.

03:39:08.880 If they're hot,

03:39:09.400 they're hot.

03:39:10.160 It's not like a race thing.

03:39:11.780 It's not even a race thing,

03:39:13.460 but I don't know.

03:39:15.220 I think white guys catch my eye more,

03:39:17.180 but let me some Asian men.

03:39:18.200 Yeah.

03:39:18.720 Yeah.

03:39:19.360 Well,

03:39:19.560 I've seen Blade Runner exclusively Asian men. 0.98

03:39:22.420 Like it just depends on the girl.

03:39:24.300 Yeah.

03:39:24.540 But I'm,

03:39:25.360 I'm talking like overall majority.

03:39:27.040 Yeah.

03:39:27.600 And I have,

03:39:28.360 I've spoken to,

03:39:30.060 we'll get you out of here just a sec.

03:39:32.360 Yeah.

03:39:32.540 I've spoken to some,

03:39:33.720 some Asian guys and they've told me that they've definitely felt like they're at a disadvantage.

03:39:40.160 And so I do think there's certainly some truth to that,

03:39:42.600 but I mean,

03:39:43.760 I,

03:39:44.440 they're, 1.00

03:39:45.880 I know a ton of fucking dope, 0.99

03:39:48.080 awesome Asian guys. 0.98

03:39:49.460 And so,

03:39:51.580 yeah.

03:39:52.840 Anyways,

03:39:53.920 we will pick up some of these topics next week.

03:39:57.360 I think maybe we'll see some similar faces again.

03:40:00.980 I think we had a really great panel.

03:40:03.180 Thank you guys so much for coming.

03:40:06.500 I got all the super chats,

03:40:07.880 Chris,

03:40:09.320 Chris.

03:40:09.960 Yes.

03:40:10.320 All the super chats have been super.

03:40:12.520 Great.

03:40:13.120 All right.

03:40:13.380 Well,

03:40:13.580 thank you guys so much for tuning in.

03:40:15.480 We are going,

03:40:16.360 the next dating talk show will be,

03:40:18.540 we're going to do for sure Tuesday,

03:40:20.580 Thursday,

03:40:21.500 7 PM next week.

03:40:23.440 And I might be doing an interview with somebody.

03:40:25.840 It might be Clydesdale.

03:40:26.860 If you guys know who that is Sunday,

03:40:29.800 maybe I'm trying to wrangle them in.

03:40:32.780 But yeah,

03:40:33.260 thank you guys so much for tuning in.

03:40:34.580 Thank you to my panel and we'll see you next time.

03:40:37.220 Thank you guys.

03:40:39.340 Bye.

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Whatever Podcast - January 29, 2023

Dating Talk #3

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