Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #65

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00:03:41.000 Anyways, without further ado,

00:03:42.240 after that thoroughly long-winded introduction,

00:03:45.000 we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:03:47.820 So please tell us your name, age, occupation.

00:03:50.500 Go ahead.

00:03:51.180 My name is Madison Vu.

00:03:52.760 I am 18 years old,

00:03:54.220 and I'm a student at Santa Barbara City College,

00:03:57.120 currently studying accounting.

00:03:59.820 Okay.

00:04:01.760 My name is Kelsey.

00:04:03.260 I'm 22.

00:04:04.260 I go to LCC in Eugene, Oregon,

00:04:06.520 and I am a waitress,

00:04:08.040 and I also just started a podcast.

00:04:10.740 What's the name of the podcast?

00:04:12.540 Chronicles of Craving.

00:04:13.680 It's kind of about addiction.

00:04:15.740 Any kind of addiction?

00:04:17.380 Sex addiction. 0.89

00:04:18.600 I'm a recovered sex addict. 0.97

00:04:20.760 Are you your... 0.99

00:04:22.000 Yes.

00:04:22.640 Yes. 0.97

00:04:23.000 Recovering sex addicts. 0.90

00:04:23.740 Okay, we'll talk about that in a bit. 0.90

00:04:25.420 What about you?

00:04:26.520 My name is Kaylin.

00:04:27.500 I am 23 years old.

00:04:29.100 I live in Santa Barbara,

00:04:30.320 and I'm a sales and operations manager

00:04:32.620 for corporate events.

00:04:33.960 Cool.

00:04:35.460 My name is Mick.

00:04:36.700 I'm 27 years old.

00:04:38.480 I live in Santa Barbara,

00:04:39.680 and I'm an instrument dealer.

00:04:43.120 You deal instruments?

00:04:44.680 Yes.

00:04:45.320 Okay.

00:04:45.760 I don't know if I've ever heard that.

00:04:47.460 I like, you know,

00:04:48.260 like on Reverb Facebook Marketplace,

00:04:50.720 I meet people, I buy stuff,

00:04:52.340 I fix up like guitars, amplifiers,

00:04:54.700 and then I resell them for a little bit more,

00:04:57.260 and make a little on the side.

00:04:59.500 Sure.

00:05:00.240 What about you?

00:05:01.080 I'm Keeley.

00:05:01.920 I'm 25,

00:05:03.120 and I'm an adult entertainer,

00:05:05.000 stripper slash... 1.00

00:05:06.580 Sugar daddy, procurer.

00:05:10.220 Sugar baby, all that, yeah.

00:05:11.220 All the good stuff.

00:05:11.960 Okay.

00:05:12.340 What about you?

00:05:13.260 My name is Cassandra.

00:05:14.400 I'm 25 years old,

00:05:15.360 and I work in hospitality.

00:05:16.460 My name is Monica.

00:05:21.000 I'm 24,

00:05:22.460 and I'm a nanny.

00:05:24.660 I'm Vida.

00:05:25.560 I'm 22,

00:05:26.240 and I sell employee benefits.

00:05:28.460 Hi, I'm Isabel.

00:05:29.860 I'm 25 years old,

00:05:31.200 and I wear a ton of different hats for my job,

00:05:33.600 but generally speaking,

00:05:34.720 I'm a live streamer,

00:05:35.800 an author,

00:05:36.620 political commentator,

00:05:37.880 and just overall content creator every day.

00:05:40.660 Okay, cool.

00:05:41.800 Rock and roll.

00:05:42.660 We have a full packed house tonight,

00:05:44.380 so we got a good stream ahead of you all.

00:05:47.680 So we're going to go around the table on this.

00:05:51.680 What is your current relationship status?

00:05:53.620 So are you single?

00:05:54.800 Are you friends with benefits?

00:05:56.160 Are you in the talking stage?

00:05:58.100 Situationship, relationship, engaged, married, et cetera,

00:06:00.620 and what is your longest relationship

00:06:02.800 that you've ever had?

00:06:03.860 Go ahead.

00:06:04.400 I'm currently very taken.

00:06:07.500 Very taken.

00:06:08.520 Very taken.

00:06:09.080 I'm going to marry the man that I'm with right now.

00:06:11.620 Really?

00:06:12.380 And you're 18?

00:06:13.760 I am 18,

00:06:14.640 but when you know, you know.

00:06:16.340 Let's go.

00:06:17.120 When you know, you know.

00:06:17.900 How long have you guys been dating?

00:06:19.100 We've only been dating almost seven months,

00:06:22.040 so six and a half months,

00:06:23.500 but my longest relationship was probably 10 months.

00:06:28.040 Okay.

00:06:28.840 So, and you said this is,

00:06:31.280 you know, this is your guy.

00:06:32.940 I know.

00:06:33.880 Did you say that about your previous 10-month relationship?

00:06:36.500 No, I did not.

00:06:37.700 Okay.

00:06:38.060 How old is he?

00:06:39.920 My current boyfriend?

00:06:40.760 Yeah.

00:06:41.060 He's 21.

00:06:41.940 He's 21.

00:06:42.680 Okay.

00:06:43.080 You guys met in school, college?

00:06:45.500 We met on the beach in Santa Barbara.

00:06:46.920 You met on the beach?

00:06:48.060 I love Vista Beach right here.

00:06:50.320 That's a movie waiting to be made.

00:06:52.440 Okay.

00:06:53.220 That's cool, though.

00:06:54.020 Cool.

00:06:54.440 Congrats.

00:06:54.980 Thank you.

00:06:55.440 Are you guys engaged or just?

00:06:57.660 Planning on it.

00:06:59.760 Can, you know what, we should have him on,

00:07:01.560 and then he proposes to you on the show.

00:07:03.960 Oh, he would love to do that.

00:07:05.180 That would be cool.

00:07:05.680 I'd be more than willing to have my marriage proposal in this loft.

00:07:10.120 Yeah.

00:07:10.320 This beautiful set.

00:07:11.440 Yeah, I'm sure that'd be some wonderful memories.

00:07:13.760 Absolutely.

00:07:14.440 While we're talking about the nuances and frustrations of modern dating.

00:07:17.620 Okay.

00:07:18.540 What about you?

00:07:19.880 I am recently single.

00:07:23.400 I, like, so recent, I still live with my ex-boyfriend.

00:07:27.140 And, um...

00:07:28.320 Oh.

00:07:30.320 Sorry.

00:07:32.480 How newly single?

00:07:34.660 Probably, like, three weeks, I think.

00:07:38.200 Yeah.

00:07:38.380 Okay.

00:07:38.760 Why did he dump you?

00:07:40.640 I dumped him.

00:07:41.740 Why?

00:07:42.260 Yeah.

00:07:42.960 Um, I...

00:07:44.180 So, we were friends for, like, from the time I was 18, and I'm 22.

00:07:48.080 So, like, four and a half, five years, something like that.

00:07:53.140 And I just didn't see him as a boyfriend.

00:07:58.780 Like, I think the reason why we were friends for so long was because there wasn't any chemistry there.

00:08:04.180 So, I just figured it wasn't fair to him.

00:08:06.480 And, yeah.

00:08:07.640 Okay.

00:08:08.660 Uh, and remind me, how long had you guys been dating?

00:08:11.300 Because you said you were friends, right?

00:08:12.700 Yeah.

00:08:13.200 He was my longest relationship, actually.

00:08:15.200 So, like, ten months or something like that.

00:08:16.920 Ten months.

00:08:17.320 Yeah.

00:08:17.620 Okay.

00:08:18.820 Um, have you had a rebound since the breakup?

00:08:21.660 No.

00:08:22.640 Any other guys since the breakup?

00:08:24.340 No, I can't.

00:08:24.960 I mean, that would be a relapse for me.

00:08:27.020 So, I can't.

00:08:27.760 Okay.

00:08:28.060 So, yeah. 1.00

00:08:28.580 You mentioned earlier that you are a sex addict. 1.00

00:08:32.180 Yeah. 1.00

00:08:32.760 Yeah. 1.00

00:08:33.640 Recovering sex addict? 0.99

00:08:34.480 Recovering. 0.53

00:08:35.040 Mm-hmm.

00:08:35.160 Is there, like, a...

00:08:36.520 You know how there's AA or NA?

00:08:38.620 Yeah.

00:08:38.640 So, I go to SLAA, which stands for Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous.

00:08:44.920 Okay.

00:08:45.400 Typically, it's more women-friendly.

00:08:48.080 Uh, I just, obviously, like, going to a mixed SAA meeting is like going to, like, an AA meeting in a bar.

00:08:54.080 I have tried it, and guess what?

00:08:56.260 I relapsed, so, yeah.

00:08:57.900 But. 0.96

00:08:58.340 Uh, you relapsed with someone who attended the Sex Addicts meeting, who was also a sex addict.

00:09:06.980 Is that pretty frequent occurring?

00:09:08.700 Yeah.

00:09:09.080 Occurrence with the...

00:09:09.420 I don't even know why they have mixed meetings.

00:09:11.340 It's like, what, why even...

00:09:12.620 Oh, interesting.

00:09:13.460 Yeah.

00:09:13.960 Yeah.

00:09:15.100 That'd almost be like doing, uh, like, an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting in a bar.

00:09:20.700 Yeah, yeah.

00:09:21.640 It's just like, yeah, if you mix the...

00:09:23.240 I can see that.

00:09:24.140 Yeah.

00:09:24.660 Well, then, although I do suppose, like, you could be bi or...

00:09:28.900 In any case.

00:09:29.700 So, oh, oh.

00:09:31.160 Liberty donated $125.

00:09:34.320 Thank you, man.

00:09:34.660 Question for the panel.

00:09:36.300 I am a husband and father of two, raising a daughter in what, to me, is a continually falling world.

00:09:43.140 How could I be a better father by shaping her into a more whole woman for a worthy man to spend her life with?

00:09:49.600 Hey, Liberty.

00:09:50.780 Uh, thank you for the, uh, big donation there.

00:09:53.080 Um, I...

00:09:55.480 You know what I'm gonna do, just, just so I can get through this initial introduction stage of everyone sharing their, uh, relationship status.

00:10:03.620 I'll pull that back up.

00:10:05.200 I'll trigger it again, uh, in about maybe 10, 15 minutes once we kind of get through everybody.

00:10:10.500 But thank you for the, uh, TTS.

00:10:12.400 We will touch on that very soon, and I'll trigger it again.

00:10:16.300 Uh, so, okay, you're...

00:10:17.900 You were previously in...

00:10:20.000 What's it?

00:10:20.440 SLA.

00:10:21.560 What's the one you go to?

00:10:23.340 SLAA, and it's an all-women's... 1.00

00:10:25.160 Oh, sorry.

00:10:26.180 SLAA, and it's an all-women's, like, Zoom meeting.

00:10:29.400 Okay, so you're... 1.00

00:10:30.160 So you're a sex addict. 1.00

00:10:31.240 Mm-hmm. 1.00

00:10:31.460 Okay, so what...

00:10:32.660 What does that mean?

00:10:34.440 Um, it can look like a lot of different things for a lot of different people.

00:10:37.700 I'm, I'm also a recovered drug addict, but sex was kind of, like, my, um, switch away from opiates.

00:10:46.280 So I, once I got clean off of opiates, it just kind of transformed itself.

00:10:50.700 I mean, it's always been a problem, but it really...

00:10:52.980 Oh, hold, sorry, hold on.

00:10:54.160 Kostin Yoli donated $100.

00:10:57.340 Brian.

00:10:58.220 Brian.

00:10:59.320 Moktar Ogar.

00:11:00.620 Thank you.

00:11:01.800 I did top 1% DPS on my server for a Shadow Priest during Lich King.

00:11:06.940 Also loved the Murdoch sound effect from the last podcast.

00:11:11.260 Woot.

00:11:11.560 Hey, you, you sound like a gamer, dude. 0.96

00:11:17.460 A frickin' pumper, a gamer. 0.96

00:11:19.840 Hold on, I got, I got something for you. 0.95

00:11:23.040 There you go, man.

00:11:23.880 Hey, thank you so much for the, uh, for that soup chat, man.

00:11:26.620 Appreciate it.

00:11:27.200 Um, and you know what, if, maybe we'll talk about gamers later on.

00:11:33.100 Let me, let me write that down.

00:11:34.200 We'll, uh, we'll ask the girls about gamers later on in the show.

00:11:37.700 Uh, thank you, man.

00:11:38.860 Okay, so, wow, they really want to interrupt you on your sex addiction story.

00:11:43.280 Um, so you said you were also addicted to opiates, correct?

00:11:46.620 Yeah.

00:11:46.880 Uh, which ones, or?

00:11:48.600 Heroin and fentanyl.

00:11:49.760 Yeah.

00:11:49.980 I don't know if you can say that on it.

00:11:51.340 Sorry, I forgot if...

00:11:52.300 Eh, whatever.

00:11:52.780 It is, it is.

00:11:53.800 That's fine.

00:11:54.240 It's whatever.

00:11:55.160 It happens.

00:11:55.760 Um, okay, so, uh, how long have you been clean on those?

00:12:01.480 I've been clean on those since I was, like, 18 and a half.

00:12:04.800 Okay.

00:12:05.380 Um, after, like, my last OD, and it really scared me, so.

00:12:10.140 Wow, okay.

00:12:10.680 Yeah.

00:12:11.160 Um, and is it pretty common for people who have sex addiction to also have other kinds of addictions?

00:12:15.800 Yeah.

00:12:16.580 Okay.

00:12:16.920 My mom's an alcoholic, so obviously it's genetic, but she, she kind of knows, has always known

00:12:22.100 that I've had an addictive personality, so.

00:12:24.080 Yeah, so how did your sex addiction... 0.74

00:12:25.720 How did your sex addiction manifest?

00:12:27.460 Um, it looked like a lot of different things. 0.90

00:12:29.240 I think it started with, uh, can I say porn? 0.92

00:12:33.640 Porn. 0.99

00:12:34.320 Porn. 0.99

00:12:35.140 Oh, let's say, uh, adult content.

00:12:37.120 Okay.

00:12:37.680 Adult content.

00:12:38.380 Yeah, it started with adult content when I was, like, nine, ten years old or something

00:12:41.820 like that.

00:12:42.620 Yeah, so, and I just, I kept getting addicted to it, and I, like, could not stop watching

00:12:46.900 it.

00:12:47.640 Um, and then eventually it got to a point where, like, I was 19 and I got kicked out

00:12:52.060 of my house because I was, like, bringing over six dudes a night.

00:12:55.040 Like, it just was never enough.

00:12:57.880 Enough was never enough.

00:12:59.280 So, yeah.

00:13:00.620 What?

00:13:01.140 Wait, six dudes a night?

00:13:03.920 For, like, a consecutive week.

00:13:05.860 Yeah.

00:13:06.460 Yeah.

00:13:07.620 So...

00:13:07.860 Six times 30?

00:13:10.120 Wait.

00:13:11.160 Somewhere around there, yeah.

00:13:12.500 Hold on.

00:13:12.800 Six times six is 30.

00:13:13.700 Well, six times seven is...

00:13:14.720 She said, wait, six times, well, I'm thinking a weekday, a week, Monday through Friday.

00:13:20.360 Weekends were my rally days.

00:13:21.620 What do you mean?

00:13:22.540 Yeah.

00:13:23.160 Seven days a week.

00:13:24.060 Okay, my math needs some work here.

00:13:27.680 Oh, Eric, you're gonna have to hide that.

00:13:29.340 I don't know. 0.99

00:13:29.680 My fucking stream deck's scuffed. 0.99

00:13:33.320 Okay, so... 0.99

00:13:36.840 Six dudes a night?

00:13:38.800 Like, at the same time?

00:13:40.080 Or, like...

00:13:40.560 No, no, no.

00:13:41.100 After the other?

00:13:42.260 Yeah, one after the other.

00:13:43.480 Yeah.

00:13:43.680 And how were you meeting these guys?

00:13:46.460 Usually dating apps.

00:13:47.700 I have, like, a hard time approaching men.

00:13:49.380 I usually just wait until they approach me.

00:13:51.340 Or I used to like to drink a lot, too, so I would go to the bar, drink, and hook up with guys.

00:13:57.180 Yeah.

00:13:57.400 Okay, so you would sleep with six guys a night?

00:14:02.620 Mm-hmm.

00:14:04.060 So, like, would you slot them in, like, 7 p.m., 8 p.m., 9 p.m., 10 p.m.?

00:14:08.540 Yeah.

00:14:09.240 Yep.

00:14:09.640 Okay.

00:14:10.220 And then I would even...

00:14:11.200 Oh, sorry.

00:14:11.760 No, go ahead.

00:14:12.120 I would say I would even, like, have, like, my backup guys to where it was, like, if this

00:14:16.300 guy didn't come tonight, then I have...

00:14:18.180 Then I would invite this guy, and then if he did come, if the first guy did come, then

00:14:23.820 I'd tell the other guy, oh, I'm busy, like, I can't, you know, make it, or whatever.

00:14:28.500 So that, like, that way...

00:14:29.980 Did you have a spreadsheet, like, an Excel spreadsheet?

00:14:32.760 Kind of, yeah.

00:14:33.660 I mean, I had to write...

00:14:34.960 Eventually, like, I had to write people's names down, because it got, like, so insane.

00:14:38.660 Yeah.

00:14:39.220 Okay.

00:14:39.800 So, what's the most amount of men you've hooked up with in a 24-hour period?

00:14:48.060 Um, probably, like...

00:14:51.180 A little closer to that.

00:14:52.120 Oh, sorry.

00:14:53.020 Probably...

00:14:53.660 I think six is, like, the most.

00:14:55.460 Six is the most?

00:14:56.380 Yeah.

00:14:56.560 But was that pretty regular to have six?

00:14:59.860 That wasn't the regular, no.

00:15:01.000 Oh, that was just...

00:15:01.900 Okay.

00:15:02.220 Yeah, that was when I was, like, I was, like, really depressed, and when I'm depressed, like,

00:15:06.240 I am going out, like...

00:15:08.920 Were you using production?

00:15:11.500 No.

00:15:12.260 No?

00:15:12.560 No.

00:15:13.120 Mm-mm.

00:15:13.400 Okay.

00:15:14.300 And you were meeting, you said most, almost all of these guys from Tinder, or dating apps?

00:15:20.420 Tinder or Bumble.

00:15:21.060 I got kicked off.

00:15:21.740 I got permabanned off Tinder.

00:15:23.520 They will not have me back.

00:15:25.000 Okay.

00:15:25.560 Yeah.

00:15:25.820 Maybe for the best?

00:15:26.680 Yeah, now it is.

00:15:27.820 Maybe for the best?

00:15:28.260 Obviously, but, yeah.

00:15:29.580 Okay, so...

00:15:32.300 Um...

00:15:33.300 Do you...

00:15:35.180 I usually save this question for a little later on in the show, but do you have a sense

00:15:40.260 of how many men you've slept with?

00:15:42.120 Yeah, it's not...

00:15:43.320 It's honestly...

00:15:44.100 It's not, like, 300 or anything.

00:15:46.000 It's, like, 136, I think.

00:15:48.840 136?

00:15:49.300 Okay.

00:15:49.540 Yeah, yeah.

00:15:50.400 Yeah.

00:15:50.960 Which is a lot, but...

00:15:52.180 Sure.

00:15:52.680 Yeah.

00:15:53.340 Okay.

00:15:53.740 Okay.

00:15:53.820 Um, so, did you, uh, I have, like, a million questions, so I'm just, like, trying to...

00:16:02.160 Yeah, no, it's a crazy thing.

00:16:03.380 Yeah, that's...

00:16:03.660 People are like, what?

00:16:04.380 Yeah.

00:16:04.560 Okay, and, um, would you say that, uh, what's the most in, like, a week?

00:16:10.640 Because you said six in a day, in 24 hours, or about, like, a week?

00:16:14.540 Yeah, on average, it would probably be, like, like, if I wasn't, like, deep into it, like,

00:16:19.660 two to three times a week.

00:16:21.120 Like, but I was also, like, acting out, like, I would, like, like, flash my neighbors and

00:16:26.380 stuff, and, like, if I was just, like, I don't know, yeah.

00:16:30.280 Okay.

00:16:31.120 Flashing the neighbors.

00:16:32.060 I feel like this could help people, so I, I get, like, weird talking about it, but I feel

00:16:35.360 like if I talk about it, that people will, yeah.

00:16:37.240 Sure, sure, yeah.

00:16:38.020 Yeah.

00:16:38.260 Um, so, okay, uh, did, uh, how much per week, though?

00:16:42.680 Or, sorry, how, what was the most in a week?

00:16:44.640 Probably, like, two to three.

00:16:46.540 Well, no, but you said there was six in the night.

00:16:49.000 Yeah, but on average, it was, like, two to three per week.

00:16:52.220 Two to three new guys hooking up with per week.

00:16:54.660 Yeah, but, like, for a consecutive, like, one to two months, it was, like.

00:16:59.360 But is there one week where there was just, like, you went on a tear, and it was, like,

00:17:03.120 20 dudes?

00:17:04.040 Yeah.

00:17:04.220 Yeah.

00:17:04.540 What, how, do you know how much in, the most in one week?

00:17:09.120 Like, 30, 20, 20, 30?

00:17:11.760 Not 20 to 30.

00:17:13.320 It's probably, like, like, eight to 10.

00:17:16.240 Oh, okay.

00:17:16.920 Yeah.

00:17:17.060 Eight to 10.

00:17:17.520 So, that one, the six in the night, that was just, you went hard.

00:17:21.780 Yeah.

00:17:22.080 You went hard.

00:17:22.660 I went hard.

00:17:23.000 Okay, sure.

00:17:24.220 And then, um, what about in the month?

00:17:27.100 What's the most in a month?

00:17:28.840 Most men you've hooked up with in a month?

00:17:31.140 Probably, like, I don't know, like, maybe, like, like, 20?

00:17:40.600 Yeah.

00:17:41.120 20?

00:17:41.560 Okay.

00:17:41.780 Yeah.

00:17:42.040 Got it.

00:17:42.660 And so, you said you were meeting most of these men from dating apps.

00:17:45.300 Um, what, what was your procedure?

00:17:48.600 Like, would, would you kind of, me, like, make the move?

00:17:55.620 Because, because typically women don't need to make the move. 1.00

00:17:58.220 But, I mean, to put up six, to do six in the night, you're going to have to put in some

00:18:01.760 initiative.

00:18:02.220 Yeah.

00:18:02.500 Yeah.

00:18:02.660 I would, and I, like, on average, I was getting rejected probably more than the average woman

00:18:07.640 because I was, like, putting myself out there.

00:18:10.040 Sure.

00:18:10.340 But, it would, it's, like, being a woman, it's very easily accessible.

00:18:14.300 Sure. 0.99

00:18:14.500 Just looking at, have sex. 0.65

00:18:16.580 So, it was, like, I didn't really have to reach out most of the time.

00:18:19.440 Okay.

00:18:19.680 So, during your peak, would you say that if you were so inclined, you could almost, any

00:18:27.040 given night, you could guarantee get a guy?

00:18:30.920 Yeah. 0.98

00:18:31.040 Like, if you want, if you really wanted to, you could, you could have sex with a new guy? 0.99

00:18:35.760 Uh, yeah. 0.99

00:18:36.900 Especially if I went to the bar.

00:18:38.220 If you went to the bar?

00:18:39.020 Yeah.

00:18:39.320 For sure.

00:18:40.140 Okay.

00:18:40.900 And you're in a, you're, was this all in, you said you're from Oregon?

00:18:44.260 It was in Olympia.

00:18:46.000 So, I moved.

00:18:46.940 Because, like.

00:18:47.300 Washington.

00:18:48.060 Yeah.

00:18:48.420 You moved, because why?

00:18:50.160 Because, like, I was, like, hooking up with, like, everybody in the area.

00:18:54.120 And then, eventually, like, I literally, like, was out of control.

00:18:57.300 And then, eventually, my, like, my best friend, I think she's watching right now.

00:19:01.800 But, I was, it, like, I knew it was out of control when, like, I accidentally, like,

00:19:06.540 I didn't know about it.

00:19:07.240 But, I hooked up with one of the guys she was talking to.

00:19:09.900 And, she, um, she, like, told me about it.

00:19:13.420 And, I felt horrible.

00:19:15.060 Like, I, and then it really, like, that was, like, my bottom.

00:19:17.680 And, it really hit me that it was, like, this behavior is, like, out of control for me.

00:19:21.460 And, I need help.

00:19:22.460 So, I went to rehab in, um, Los Angeles.

00:19:24.960 Okay.

00:19:25.300 Did the guys know, the guys that you were hooking up with, did they know that you were hooking up with a bunch of other dudes?

00:19:32.300 Or, was it mostly one night stands?

00:19:33.820 Um, some guys did.

00:19:35.160 So, I used to, I don't know if I should say the restaurant that I worked at.

00:19:38.320 I used to work at a sports bar in Olympia.

00:19:41.140 And, um, I literally was such a hoe.

00:19:45.220 Like, I literally would, like, like, sleep around with any new guy that walked in the door. 0.74

00:19:50.220 So, like, I made a reputation of myself there of, like, where it was, like, dude, she's, like, crazy. 0.77

00:19:56.280 Yeah.

00:19:56.860 But, most of the time, no.

00:19:58.820 Or, they didn't care, you know.

00:20:02.060 Okay.

00:20:03.280 Uh, I'll, I might return to that a little bit later.

00:20:06.680 I want to let everyone have a chance to, uh, but thank you for sharing.

00:20:09.800 I mean, I appreciate your forthcomingness with all this.

00:20:13.440 And, uh, yeah, so, we'll, we'll return to all that.

00:20:16.780 Um, so, I don't know if you recall the initial question, but what's your, what's your relationship status, single, talking stage, situationship, relationship, uh, and your longest relationship?

00:20:28.780 I think I'm in a situationship.

00:20:31.120 You think you're on a, in a situationship?

00:20:32.860 I think so.

00:20:33.460 You, you think, that is, you, that's just another step.

00:20:39.220 Not only are you in a situationship, you think you're in a situationship.

00:20:42.480 Okay, uh, why don't you tell us a little bit about that?

00:20:45.200 Um, so, we've been dating for, like, maybe two months now.

00:20:49.520 Um, but he's, like, a little bit confusing and doesn't really know what he wants, but still wants to continue it, but didn't want a situationship, which, not very clear.

00:20:59.420 But, and then we did break up at one point, and then we got back together the same day.

00:21:03.120 Wow.

00:21:03.860 So, I, I think I'm in a situationship.

00:21:06.740 Okay.

00:21:07.520 Yo, Eric, my pen is dead.

00:21:09.420 Can you look in the, uh, where it's, under the island?

00:21:13.940 I think there's some other pens in there.

00:21:15.780 Sorry, boys.

00:21:16.480 Okay, so, two-month situationship.

00:21:20.740 Yeah.

00:21:21.340 What, what, and what's your longest relationship you've ever been in?

00:21:24.120 Um, probably another situationship, and it was, like, ten months.

00:21:27.620 Oh, I know.

00:21:28.280 Under, under the island.

00:21:29.400 Of, like, talking stage.

00:21:29.940 Like the, Eric, like this one.

00:21:31.220 All in all.

00:21:31.440 Like this one.

00:21:32.860 Okay.

00:21:33.220 Um, so, two-month situation.

00:21:38.680 Wait, sorry, I'm sorry, I was trying to get the pen.

00:21:40.380 Can you repeat the last part?

00:21:41.920 Um, my longest was probably, like, ten months.

00:21:45.220 Relationship or situationship?

00:21:46.900 Situationship.

00:21:47.280 I've never been in an actual, like, functioning relationship.

00:21:49.900 You've never called someone your boyfriend?

00:21:51.620 No.

00:21:52.120 Okay.

00:21:53.220 Did, have you ever had a guy who you called your boyfriend, but he didn't call you his girlfriend?

00:21:59.520 Um, not really.

00:22:01.580 I feel like we were all kind of on the same page.

00:22:03.320 If anything, it was probably that guy that was, like, the ten-month little stint.

00:22:07.700 Um, I feel like, I thought we were, like, kind of close to being there, but he was absolutely

00:22:11.560 not there.

00:22:12.420 And then we broke up, but it's for the better.

00:22:14.580 Okay, so you're, you're hooking up with your situationship currently?

00:22:17.980 Currently, yes.

00:22:18.620 Okay.

00:22:19.440 Um, because, well, I, I'm asking you because the way I invited you on the show is, I,

00:22:28.760 I did the reverse finesse, procured you from a dating app, Hinge.

00:22:33.380 Very true.

00:22:34.100 Um, so I assume, then, that your situationship is, you're not monogamous.

00:22:40.860 Um, yes and no.

00:22:43.700 I feel like if I ever did actually see someone, I would definitely tell him.

00:22:47.720 Um, I think I was getting really bored of this whole, like, back and forth, like, are

00:22:53.040 we something, are we not something, like, all that.

00:22:55.680 And I was like, I'm not gonna just sit here and wait for you to decide, so.

00:23:00.060 So, have you brought up the conversation about, do you want more from him?

00:23:05.140 Um, we've talked about it.

00:23:06.800 Oh, hold on.

00:23:07.480 Ben Martin super chatted $100.

00:23:09.860 Yo, Marquavius, thank you, man.

00:23:10.920 I know the restaurant pink sweater worked at.

00:23:13.520 It's at a shop called blown out holes.

00:23:17.240 Facts.

00:23:17.780 Confirm or deny.

00:23:18.880 Confirm or deny.

00:23:19.820 How did he know?

00:23:20.340 Thank you, Marquavius, uh, the, all right, um, have you brought up the, this up with

00:23:28.760 your situationship?

00:23:29.600 We've talked about it a lot.

00:23:31.300 He just, like, doesn't really know what he wants.

00:23:33.960 Um, he's in nursing school right now, so I kind of want to give him time to, like, develop

00:23:38.360 his own things, too.

00:23:40.500 Mm-hmm.

00:23:40.760 Um.

00:23:41.420 How often do you guys hang out?

00:23:43.120 It's, like, at least once a week.

00:23:44.720 Once a week.

00:23:45.460 Mm-hmm.

00:23:45.580 For about two months.

00:23:46.720 Yeah.

00:23:46.940 So, would you say maybe you guys have only hung out, like, ten times?

00:23:51.200 Yeah, maybe.

00:23:52.060 Ten-ish times?

00:23:52.820 Yeah.

00:23:53.000 Okay.

00:23:53.860 Okay.

00:23:54.640 Um, so, is he seeing other girls?

00:23:58.760 I don't know.

00:24:00.160 I don't think so, but we've never really talked about it.

00:24:04.280 Okay.

00:24:05.380 Well, because you're, you're on the dating apps.

00:24:07.180 Although, have you, while you've been seeing this guy, have there been other guys?

00:24:10.540 No.

00:24:11.200 It's just been, honestly, it kind of sucks because then I'm, like, okay, well, now I'm, like,

00:24:14.780 people are still talking to me, but it's, like, oh, I still really like him.

00:24:18.780 So, it's almost, like, making it more.

00:24:19.540 So, you want more.

00:24:20.820 You want more.

00:24:21.900 Yeah.

00:24:22.520 But he doesn't.

00:24:23.960 Apparently not.

00:24:25.040 Or, I'm unsure.

00:24:26.700 Well, I'd say move it along, but, uh, okay.

00:24:30.580 Yeah.

00:24:30.720 So, okay, so, two-month situationship.

00:24:35.720 Um, and you said prior to that, you, you haven't had an official relationship, but there was

00:24:42.400 a guy you were sort of seeing for 10 months.

00:24:45.340 Yeah.

00:24:46.020 Okay.

00:24:46.840 Got it.

00:24:47.520 And then, prior to those, have you kind of been, are you desirous of something more serious?

00:24:54.200 Or are you kind of, like, eh, it's cool.

00:24:56.420 I'm down with the more situation.

00:24:58.700 It's fine.

00:24:59.220 Just, I'm asking if it's, you're fine with the situationship or, uh, casual, more casual

00:25:03.660 stuff.

00:25:04.060 I definitely think I'm looking for, like, a little bit more, um, I'm a person that I

00:25:08.580 will give, like, everything to someone, and it's hard when you're in a situationship or,

00:25:12.700 like, just hooking up, because it's obviously not reciprocated.

00:25:15.300 So, I think I am looking for it.

00:25:17.340 I'm trying not to, like, force it, um, but.

00:25:20.980 How do you, when you say you give everything, what do you mean?

00:25:23.740 Like, I feel like, I'd, like, oh, I'd love to, like, cook for you, or, like, hang out with

00:25:29.240 you, or, um, like, if I'm free, like, we'll go, like, grab coffee.

00:25:34.060 And it doesn't, it's definitely not, like, I don't want to suffocate you.

00:25:37.540 Like, I have my own things to do, too.

00:25:39.140 But, um, like, I just feel like I'm a very giving person, just in general.

00:25:43.300 Sure.

00:25:43.720 That's kind of, like.

00:25:45.360 And are you currently doing those things for your situationship?

00:25:48.640 The cooking?

00:25:50.940 Not, like, specifically for him.

00:25:52.520 But if I, like, made cookies, I'd be like, oh, do you want to, like, come pick one up?

00:25:55.420 Like, I didn't make it specifically for him.

00:25:57.140 Okay.

00:25:57.480 But.

00:25:58.060 Got it.

00:25:58.700 Okay.

00:26:00.020 So, you two.

00:26:02.460 Yeah.

00:26:04.020 Yes.

00:26:08.220 I'm with her.

00:26:10.160 You're engaged to her.

00:26:11.380 Yes.

00:26:11.980 We are engaged.

00:26:12.840 Closer to the mic.

00:26:13.460 And, uh, we do love each other.

00:26:16.620 And, no, I'm not a cuck.

00:26:18.620 I do not enjoy, uh, watching her be with other men or any of that.

00:26:24.820 Uh, we were, had $100 in our bank account when she started to do the work. 0.98

00:26:30.100 And.

00:26:30.580 Get a little closer to the mic if you can.

00:26:32.160 If you need, you can hold it in your.

00:26:33.520 Yeah.

00:26:33.700 It's a little, little tough right here.

00:26:35.320 Um, no, I, uh, I, I don't have low testosterone.

00:26:40.100 I've actually had my testosterone tested.

00:26:42.380 So, and I've read all the hate comments.

00:26:44.540 I watched when you were all, when everybody was going live, I did see all the hate comments.

00:26:50.140 I did see what people are saying.

00:26:51.780 And, um, I respect people's decisions.

00:26:54.620 Most of the hate comments were from other men, not women.

00:26:58.100 Um, and if you don't want to be with a girl that, uh, has an OnlyFans or has done porn or adult work, then don't, don't be with that girl. 0.92

00:27:07.680 Uh, we were together for quite a bit of time before she did all that work.

00:27:12.060 And, uh, and I will be with her even after because I love her.

00:27:16.680 She's beautiful.

00:27:17.760 And we're together.

00:27:19.160 And, and that's that.

00:27:21.780 So what, why don't we give it, there might be new people tuning in.

00:27:25.360 Why don't we give it a bit of context?

00:27:26.640 Keely, you've been on the past two shows.

00:27:28.540 Can you push that cup into the table, please?

00:27:30.620 Um, so that cup right there.

00:27:32.900 Oh, that's my one.

00:27:34.400 So you guys are engaged.

00:27:37.620 Yeah.

00:27:37.900 Fiance.

00:27:38.500 Uh, you guys have been dating for what, four years?

00:27:41.320 Five, five, five years.

00:27:43.100 Okay.

00:27:43.460 So midway through your relationship, you started doing OnlyFans, correct?

00:27:48.260 Yeah.

00:27:48.600 And then stripping.

00:27:49.360 Mm-hmm.

00:27:49.900 And then procuring sugar daddies and, uh, doing escorting or no?

00:27:58.020 No escorting?

00:27:58.820 No.

00:27:59.640 Just like stripping at the club. 0.99

00:28:01.600 Stripping. 0.97

00:28:01.920 Going on OnlyFans.

00:28:03.180 Adult content with other men.

00:28:05.900 That's just to clarify.

00:28:06.900 For OnlyFans.

00:28:07.800 Yes.

00:28:07.840 If they have OnlyFans and they're into that, but.

00:28:10.180 Okay.

00:28:11.020 And then you also have like 10 sugar daddies?

00:28:13.340 Yeah.

00:28:13.700 I have guys that will just text me and just spoil me and send me a hundred bucks or whatever.

00:28:18.660 Just.

00:28:19.360 Okay.

00:28:19.620 Take me to get like Louis Vuitton bags or whatever.

00:28:22.500 So.

00:28:22.980 Sure.

00:28:23.320 Okay.

00:28:24.020 So, and, but you're okay with it.

00:28:25.880 I am okay with it.

00:28:27.840 Yes.

00:28:28.840 I, um, uh, you know, I, I don't watch any of her porn.

00:28:34.140 I don't, I don't, uh, help her with a lot of the stuff.

00:28:37.180 It's just something that I'm very passive.

00:28:39.280 I don't want to know about it.

00:28:40.880 You know, if I had to be very involved in it, I probably would be a little disturbed because

00:28:45.240 this is the woman that I do love and, and, and care for.

00:28:48.880 So yes, there is that aspect of it, but I don't get like, I don't think about it.

00:28:53.880 I don't let it keep me up at night.

00:28:55.820 It's just, you know, it's a letter do what she does and, and make the money and come 0.97

00:29:00.600 back because as long as she's not romantically involved with someone else, I don't view it

00:29:06.160 as cheating.

00:29:06.900 It's, it's the romance involved and eventually she does plan on retiring from it.

00:29:11.720 It's something we've had to do for quite a few years now, uh, to make money, but now

00:29:16.620 we have goals in mind.

00:29:17.880 We are going to get a cabin up in the Smokies and we're going to have our own businesses

00:29:22.940 and things that make profit.

00:29:25.140 So she doesn't have to do any of this stuff anymore.

00:29:27.720 Yeah.

00:29:28.240 It's just, it's just for profit.

00:29:30.080 And, uh, and some guys don't want to, uh, you know, allow their woman to do that for

00:29:36.700 profit.

00:29:37.080 And I understand that.

00:29:38.220 I totally understand it.

00:29:39.540 But, uh, for me, it just, when you're living in your car in one of the most expensive cities

00:29:44.760 in America and you have a hundred bucks in your bank account and she says, you know, look,

00:29:49.720 we're, we're going to go hungry if we don't do something.

00:29:51.760 And you're like, I don't know what we're going to do.

00:29:53.520 And I've been trying to look for work and I've been applying at hundreds of jobs and I

00:29:57.820 can't get a job and we need money.

00:30:00.180 And she says, Hey, if I just go to the club and, and dance for a night, I'll make a couple

00:30:05.160 hundred bucks.

00:30:05.700 And you say, okay, sure.

00:30:07.260 Go make a couple hundred bucks.

00:30:08.760 Because at first I didn't want her to do it.

00:30:11.440 I really didn't.

00:30:12.000 I was really nervous.

00:30:14.120 Let's go into that.

00:30:15.120 What would, so you said at first you didn't want her to do it.

00:30:17.940 Yeah.

00:30:18.220 Cause tell us what your initial instinct was.

00:30:21.660 Initial instinct was like, I'm really nervous.

00:30:24.180 I I've never been to a strip club.

00:30:26.080 You know, I hadn't been, I didn't, I didn't really watch a lot of porn and, and, and I

00:30:30.900 didn't, uh, understand the sex industry.

00:30:33.280 I didn't know that there's good people in it, that you can be safe in a strip club, that

00:30:37.860 they always felt like this unknown territory.

00:30:41.000 So I'm like, I don't know if I want to go to the, the Valley and, you know, some part

00:30:45.780 of sketchy part of town and let you dance for the night.

00:30:48.480 You know, I don't know who's going to be there or how it's going to be, but eventually, you

00:30:52.240 know, you just say, look, we're desperate for money.

00:30:54.740 Let's give it a try.

00:30:55.880 And we gave it a try and it's not as bad as people think it is.

00:30:59.300 Generally speaking, it's not as bad.

00:31:00.900 But so was there a gradual increase in terms of what was being done?

00:31:05.280 Because so first it was the strip club.

00:31:07.140 Hold on just a sec.

00:31:08.260 She still donated $100.

00:31:10.060 Thank you, man.

00:31:10.640 I appreciate it.

00:31:11.440 95% tax on sex work platforms to save America.

00:31:17.380 Anything that supports sex-subitionism, all dating apps, of, et cetera, Instagram, snap

00:31:23.240 as long as they permit hookups don't allow people to profit from degeneracy.

00:31:27.960 You can win 2024 running on this platform.

00:31:30.760 Yo, Shizzle, thank you for the big super chat, man.

00:31:36.680 Appreciate it.

00:31:37.440 Oh, my God.

00:31:38.400 The chat is on fire.

00:31:40.820 Thank you, Frankie. 0.97

00:31:41.360 You had $100 in your account because you're selling freaking instruments. 0.92

00:31:46.400 You're a man. 0.88

00:31:47.780 It's your job to have a job.

00:31:49.960 Instead, your woman sells her body to keep you afloat. 1.00

00:31:53.780 How can you say you don't want her to do it, but live your life in a way that she has

00:31:58.160 to?

00:31:58.420 Well, I will respond.

00:32:01.300 So, at that time, I was not selling instruments.

00:32:04.180 I got into selling instruments in 2020, which is because of lockdowns, and 2020 was the best

00:32:12.160 year for musical instrument sales in history.

00:32:15.860 So, I actually made quite a bit of money, thousands of dollars every month, and was doing

00:32:20.640 just fine when lots of other people weren't making any money.

00:32:23.580 So, I didn't need her for money to do that. 0.92

00:32:26.280 I can DoorDash, too, on the side.

00:32:28.060 I don't need her money.

00:32:30.320 We make more money now for things that I definitely wouldn't be able to afford.

00:32:34.820 I do plan on having my own recording studio up in those mountains, and that is very expensive,

00:32:40.800 and thankfully, she is helping fund that.

00:32:42.940 So, what was your...

00:32:43.660 It's our money.

00:32:44.200 We both spend it on stuff we want.

00:32:46.240 Like, I want my nails done.

00:32:47.200 I want my hair done.

00:32:47.940 I want to go get some clothes, you know?

00:32:49.720 He needs a new guitar, you know?

00:32:52.340 Like, we have things that we want and that we need, but we both, like, work, you know?

00:32:56.660 We both need money.

00:32:57.420 So, just really quick to go back to my initial question before the TTS came in.

00:33:00.640 So, you were kind of describing what your first initial instinct was.

00:33:05.060 Yeah.

00:33:06.220 And you initially were like, no, no, no, I'm not comfortable with this.

00:33:10.900 Yeah, we both had...

00:33:11.900 Sorry.

00:33:12.240 So, you started just stripping, right?

00:33:15.320 And then OnlyFans? 0.95

00:33:18.880 I would say it was then porn.

00:33:21.380 Yeah, and then it was OnlyFans after that.

00:33:22.600 And then it was OnlyFans you started.

00:33:25.320 Okay.

00:33:26.300 All right.

00:33:27.100 So, I mean, I guess my two questions are, you previously said that you consider you to be monogamous.

00:33:33.620 Yeah.

00:33:34.520 Do you agree with that assessment?

00:33:35.980 Yes, because she's not romantically involved with the other men.

00:33:39.140 I understand the implication that it is sleeping with other men on camera and stuff, but it's more acting.

00:33:47.580 So, you know, other people would say that's cheating.

00:33:50.680 I don't, because it's not romance involved.

00:33:53.300 Well, it may not necessarily be cheating, but I don't think you can classify what you guys have as monogamy.

00:34:03.100 And that's totally fine.

00:34:04.760 We all have our own opinions, but we're just doing it for money and so we can get a place.

00:34:08.140 It's because, you know, like we used to work in grocery stores and fast food and we were miserable and broke.

00:34:13.140 400 bucks a week or something and could barely eat.

00:34:16.000 And, like, we both have an understanding.

00:34:17.660 Like, one day we were just, like, really broke and had 100 bucks, like you said.

00:34:20.880 And I was like, well, what if I work at this club?

00:34:23.660 I know you and I think it's weird.

00:34:25.820 Are you okay with it?

00:34:26.900 I asked him permission before I did any of this.

00:34:29.080 Hold on.

00:34:29.700 Nashu Naboo donated $100.

00:34:32.820 This is my one simp post for Keeley.

00:34:35.260 Get a prenup before you get married just in case.

00:34:38.400 Don't put yourself in a losing position if things go south.

00:34:41.800 You may risk half if your boy ain't feeling it anymore.

00:34:44.900 Oh, okay.

00:34:45.620 That's why you're with her.

00:34:46.620 I do agree with prenups.

00:34:49.440 I think everybody should get a prenup, especially if you have a lot of money.

00:34:53.520 That's totally fine.

00:34:54.860 She's the breadwinner, though? 0.66

00:34:56.280 Even so, I have things that I don't want to give her.

00:35:01.460 And she has things that she probably wouldn't want to give me.

00:35:04.720 So a prenup makes sense.

00:35:06.460 Let me ask you a question.

00:35:07.240 If she were to sleep with another man, not within the context of creating adult content,

00:35:14.880 would you have an issue with that?

00:35:17.080 Yes.

00:35:17.580 Yeah, of course, because that's actually cheating.

00:35:19.560 No, but let's say it's just a one-night stand. 1.00

00:35:22.460 She just wanted to fuck. 1.00

00:35:23.520 There's no romantic component. 1.00

00:35:25.840 There's no emotional component.

00:35:27.360 She just wants to get her rocks off, whatever. 1.00

00:35:29.360 Would you have an issue with that?

00:35:30.600 I wouldn't.

00:35:30.960 She might not, but would you have an issue with that?

00:35:32.640 I would have an issue with that, yes.

00:35:34.940 Because that's not for the camera.

00:35:36.860 That's not for making money.

00:35:38.660 That's cheating.

00:35:39.740 Can I ask out of genuine curiosity, you said telling your story early on that you kind

00:35:43.960 of willfully remain ignorant about this, that you don't want to know what's going on behind

00:35:49.240 the scenes. 0.89

00:35:49.640 You don't watch the content.

00:35:50.740 You don't subscribe to the OnlyFans.

00:35:52.480 Do you think that's intentional?

00:35:53.920 Like there's a part of you that knows something is not quite right about that?

00:35:58.360 I do think so, yeah.

00:36:00.060 I think there's a part of me that is kind of a little disturbed by it.

00:36:03.640 I'm not going to lie.

00:36:04.560 Do you think that's because really biologically speaking, I mean, I studied biomedical sciences,

00:36:09.240 you can't separate the romantic emotional part of engaging in the most intimate experience

00:36:15.340 that you can with another human being from solely the act of getting a paycheck or making

00:36:19.480 money.

00:36:20.000 Well, that's the same thing because no actor, even actors don't want to watch their other

00:36:23.160 actor, if they're married, kiss another person on camera.

00:36:25.520 So it's normal to not want to see your other partner touching someone else, kissing someone

00:36:30.060 else, engaging in sexual acts with somebody else.

00:36:33.020 Is that hard then to see that escalate from?

00:36:36.180 I can always quit.

00:36:37.100 I mean, we both have an understanding that we're doing it for money.

00:36:40.220 And I asked him from the day one, like, hey, can I work at the club?

00:36:44.180 I won't do it if you don't want me to, but we need money.

00:36:46.560 And we both came to an understanding, like, sure, you can try it out.

00:36:49.860 Work at the club one night.

00:36:50.900 And it was a topless bar at the time.

00:36:52.720 So it wasn't even, like, a full strip club.

00:36:54.420 And they were like, okay, well, I'll do it for a night.

00:36:57.300 And if I don't like it, I never have to do it again.

00:36:59.140 And I was like, are you sure you can send to this, babe?

00:37:01.120 Are you sure?

00:37:01.720 And he was like, yeah.

00:37:03.000 And I'm like, okay, I do too.

00:37:04.320 And so, and every single day.

00:37:05.840 Things have changed really substantially since then, though, right?

00:37:07.360 Well, of course, yeah.

00:37:07.920 I mean, well, the strip clubs closed during COVID.

00:37:10.060 And so someone reached out to me online on Instagram asking if I wanted to do adult film.

00:37:14.360 And at first I was like, no way, that's just crazy.

00:37:16.760 But the clubs closed.

00:37:18.920 And I just said, are you, can we do this, babe?

00:37:21.820 Are you sure?

00:37:23.240 And, like, I always ask him if he's okay with it.

00:37:25.280 And he always says yes.

00:37:26.320 And to this day, if he wants me to quit right now and go back to a regular job, I would.

00:37:30.100 I mean, it would suck not having the money and being able to pay the bills.

00:37:33.100 But I would do it.

00:37:33.520 She definitely has wanted to quit many times, too.

00:37:35.720 I hate it.

00:37:36.180 Sometimes I hate it.

00:37:37.060 I just want to get it to happen, you know?

00:37:38.240 She definitely does not like it.

00:37:40.000 It's just literally for the money.

00:37:41.660 Society, it makes it hard to make money.

00:37:43.100 Now, if McDonald's paid a livable wage and I can make thousands a month, I would do it.

00:37:48.080 But it's just not the reality.

00:37:49.420 And that's definitely the type.

00:37:50.180 When we did have that $100 in our bank account and she did this, we did have jobs at the time. 0.67

00:37:56.160 They just were literally getting paid like $400 a week.

00:38:01.600 And then after food, gas, insurance, you know, any other bills, we only had $100.

00:38:08.220 And even that $100 was not going to last us the week.

00:38:12.780 So it was just tough.

00:38:15.080 I had to ask friends for money, stay on people's couches.

00:38:18.720 My car had, you know, engine issues, needed to get repaired.

00:38:23.000 It's tough.

00:38:23.920 And a lot of people have gone through this.

00:38:26.020 And some people find other alternatives to get out of it.

00:38:29.220 And then others, this is what you had to do to get out of it.

00:38:34.140 Go ahead.

00:38:34.800 I just have a question because, I mean, I've kind of been in similar situations like living in cars and going through hardships as well.

00:38:42.220 Did you guys ever try to get like food stamps or anything?

00:38:44.520 Because that helped significantly.

00:38:45.900 Yes, yeah, we applied for that.

00:38:47.740 I would find that the money was definitely.

00:38:49.960 Guys, just both of you, I need you speaking closer to mine.

00:38:52.060 I would definitely say that the money was not nearly enough from what you would get for food stamps.

00:38:57.340 I would say it would run out after like a week or two.

00:39:00.080 And then the other thing is the money that California tends to provide is like, I think it was like $300 a week or something, or $300 or something a month.

00:39:09.760 I mean, the state costs thousands of dollars to live comfortably, I would say.

00:39:13.840 A hundred percent, but just as someone who's been on food stamps before, that would mean that both of you guys are able to get it.

00:39:20.560 So then that's doubled at that time.

00:39:22.700 Yeah, and we had that and it still wasn't.

00:39:25.500 Well, one of us had a job because one of us had to get a job.

00:39:28.500 Both of us just quit and be on food stamps.

00:39:30.360 Even so, we would have the same amount of money or if not less, because if I'm making $400 a week at the grocery store and he's on food stamps, that's more than both of us on food stamps with no job.

00:39:40.080 Do you guys have a date for your wedding?

00:39:41.480 Is that out of curiosity?

00:39:43.180 No, it hasn't been top priority because buying a home and getting out of the car and having a nicer life, just nicer clothing.

00:39:55.340 Yeah, I mean, I don't want to have the wedding and people to show up and then, you know, I want to have a house first.

00:39:59.800 I don't want them to think, oh, like we're losers, we still have the car.

00:40:02.740 Like I want it to be picture perfect before we have the actual wedding.

00:40:06.080 So we invite people over after the wedding, the after party, you know, we have like some cheese and some wine, you know, or just...

00:40:13.680 Am I invited?

00:40:14.720 Everyone's invited.

00:40:15.580 Am I invited to the wedding?

00:40:16.580 I'll invite anyone who wants to come with us.

00:40:17.580 Anybody that wants to come.

00:40:18.760 But I mean, the wedding for me would just be, it's like, okay, now that we've done everything that we wanted, you can quit the industry, let's go get married.

00:40:28.260 Have you ever thought about the fact that marriage typically provides much stronger financial security and you could go to City Hall tomorrow and have a party a year and a half from now?

00:40:37.960 But we're already living together.

00:40:39.760 So what's, like, marriage, what is it?

00:40:42.620 Yeah, wait, what is the greater financial security?

00:40:46.740 If we're already sharing everything, our money, we live together.

00:40:49.320 I mean, all kinds of things.

00:40:49.940 It's easier to get a loan for a house.

00:40:51.580 You can combine your bank accounts.

00:40:53.100 You have much better tax obligations to the federal government.

00:40:56.200 We don't really pay taxes.

00:40:59.500 Based.

00:41:00.160 I mean, we kind of do, but like only...

00:41:02.680 Good for you.

00:41:04.000 I don't, yeah, I mean, I'm kind of libertarian.

00:41:07.080 I don't really believe in paying.

00:41:09.480 Are you a sovereign citizen?

00:41:11.360 No, no.

00:41:11.900 I mean, look, I do believe we need a government.

00:41:14.640 I'm not, like, libertarian who thinks there's, you know, we shouldn't have a government or police or some taxes.

00:41:22.540 We definitely need some taxes.

00:41:24.100 I'm just saying I don't want to pay them.

00:41:26.040 Okay.

00:41:26.600 Sure, sure, sure.

00:41:27.240 Fair enough.

00:41:27.840 Fair enough.

00:41:28.500 So to bring it back to kind of what we were talking about, your fiancé, your girlfriend, she strips, does OnlyFans. 0.58

00:41:38.080 Makes content with other men.

00:41:41.020 Do you have any concerns?

00:41:42.620 For example, I mean, the obvious one to me is STDs.

00:41:46.700 We get tested all the time, and it's people wear protection.

00:41:51.580 Oh, hold on.

00:41:52.320 Ben Martin superchatted $100.

00:41:54.160 Yeah, thanks, Marquavius.

00:41:55.420 Mick and Keeley.

00:41:56.560 Money, money, money.

00:41:57.960 I was born poor.

00:41:59.520 I'm in my 30s and am now a multimillionaire.

00:42:02.560 Brian can confirm that.

00:42:04.500 I can purchase anything imaginable.

00:42:07.180 Except this.

00:42:08.520 My soul.

00:42:09.500 Oh.

00:42:09.820 My character. 1.00

00:42:10.640 Damn. 0.99

00:42:10.760 My honor. 0.99

00:42:12.100 My reputation.

00:42:13.520 Those are very much perishable.

00:42:15.520 Not worth it.

00:42:16.820 What is a soul?

00:42:17.820 What is a soul?

00:42:19.180 Your response to Marquavius.

00:42:20.640 I think I get what you're trying to say, but nothing bad's going to happen to us.

00:42:24.720 We're forever.

00:42:25.300 I'm not even worried.

00:42:26.100 I never thought I would find anyone because both of us are really weird.

00:42:28.940 It's hard for anyone to find their soulmate, and once you find it, then you're good.

00:42:32.120 Well, my response is I don't believe in a soul, and I do meditate, though, and I just let

00:42:43.800 my mind be clear of thoughts and worries and depression and things like that, so if that's

00:42:50.500 how you feel, that's okay.

00:42:51.900 I don't think about it, like I said.

00:42:55.300 I have a question.

00:42:56.380 Go ahead.

00:42:56.640 In what ways has your industry negatively impacted you?

00:43:02.120 Well, I really don't think it has impacted me.

00:43:06.280 Obviously, I don't like what I'm doing, but it's not that big of a deal.

00:43:09.540 SL underscore I dot D dot underscore 72 E 9 F 52 D 0 2 4 F 3 0 6 donate to $100.

00:43:18.300 Another tip for people dogging Keeley's man.

00:43:21.180 At the end of the day, he's clapping her cheeks, and you'll likely be buying her content to watch

00:43:25.900 it happen. 0.61

00:43:26.980 Stay mad, single, and jerking her to her while she's getting clapped. 1.00

00:43:32.500 You're more a cup than him. 1.00

00:43:34.200 He's the pimp. 0.97

00:43:35.580 Confirm and deny. 0.96

00:43:36.440 Are you the pimp?

00:43:37.360 That's right, yeah. 0.98

00:43:38.280 We're each other's pimp.

00:43:39.400 We're like our, you know.

00:43:40.420 And you know what?

00:43:41.820 At the end of the night, she comes home to me, and I get to give her a hug and a kiss,

00:43:46.180 and the rest of you are all paying for that, so.

00:43:49.340 Yeah, they're just jealous because they're single behind a screen. 1.00

00:43:52.540 On that note, have you, ever since being on the show, this is your third appearance,

00:43:58.100 have you noticed an increase in OnlyFans subscribers?

00:44:01.840 I have, yeah.

00:44:02.720 Oh, God.

00:44:03.300 At least 100, yeah.

00:44:04.900 100?

00:44:05.580 What are you guys doing?

00:44:07.000 Yes, a ton of them are actually.

00:44:09.140 Bro, God.

00:44:09.180 I did check last night, and there's tons of you that are subscribing and following her,

00:44:15.480 so if you don't like it, then why are you giving us your money?

00:44:19.520 Yo, OnlyFans.com slash whatever.

00:44:21.560 OnlyFans.com slash whatever.

00:44:22.840 Okay, so the STD thing, is there a concern there?

00:44:28.640 No.

00:44:29.740 No, because they do get tested for the industry, and then there is protection,

00:44:36.240 but most of them can be done with medicine nowadays.

00:44:41.420 If she did get one of the ones that you can't take care of medicine, that would be a concern. 1.00

00:44:45.580 Well, sure.

00:44:46.060 I mean, there's the treatable ones, but I mean.

00:44:48.740 The non-treatable ones would be a concern, yeah, if it did happen.

00:44:52.380 Visuals and super chatted 100.

00:44:54.280 Yo, thank you, man.

00:44:55.500 Hello, Mr. IRS agent.

00:44:57.680 Yes, that's them over there. 0.99

00:44:59.260 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:45:00.120 Yes, well, you know what? 1.00

00:45:01.680 Look, we don't pay a lot of taxes, but we still have to pay some.

00:45:06.060 Closer to the mic.

00:45:06.620 Some taxes you still have to pay, okay?

00:45:09.660 OnlyFans, you still have to sign that stuff, okay?

00:45:12.360 But yes, some of the stuff.

00:45:13.460 Yeah, OnlyFans takes a lot of your money, too.

00:45:14.580 Yeah, and you know what?

00:45:15.960 And she gets, she doesn't, her agency, the management, everybody's getting a cut,

00:45:20.780 and by the time we pay the taxes, she doesn't get to keep a lot of stuff, too.

00:45:25.060 So if we paid a lot more of the taxes, we wouldn't have a lot of money.

00:45:30.520 Okay.

00:45:30.960 By the way, guys, there are 5,500 of you watching right now.

00:45:36.580 The chat is on fire.

00:45:38.160 Guys, get us to 2,000 likes if you can.

00:45:40.780 Get us to 2,000 likes, you know?

00:45:42.500 But yeah, almost 6,000 watching.

00:45:44.960 Sweet.

00:45:45.860 Get us to 2,000 likes if you can.

00:45:47.280 Okay, so.

00:45:50.440 Brian.

00:45:51.760 Oh, go ahead.

00:45:52.240 Can I go back to my question?

00:45:53.840 So you said that at times you want to quit, and you come home, and you hate your job.

00:45:57.920 Yeah.

00:45:58.260 Well, I mean, everyone has days like that at any job.

00:46:01.200 You know, it's not just the adult industry.

00:46:03.020 Everyone comes home crying. 0.97

00:46:04.460 Like, I used to come home crying because my manager was a dick, and I was making 400 bucks a week. 0.93

00:46:09.740 And, you know, they're like, you're not wearing your uniform right. 0.96

00:46:12.740 You know, and, like, I get less micromanagement with the adult industry.

00:46:16.020 At least I get to look cute, you know, and show up when I want and choose my own hours.

00:46:19.840 Mix donated $100.

00:46:21.240 Thanks, Mix.

00:46:22.060 Question to the cuck in the corner.

00:46:23.360 My God. 1.00

00:46:23.880 When you kiss your girl's mouth, do you usually taste a black man's cuck? 1.00

00:46:27.300 Oh, my God. 1.00

00:46:28.760 That's like, not right.

00:46:29.420 I obviously brush my, I don't touch him until I showered and brush my teeth because hygiene, you know?

00:46:34.160 Even after you pee, you know, you don't want to touch your person.

00:46:37.180 If he eats an onion, I'm not going to kiss him right after.

00:46:39.360 If he's sick, I'll make sure he, you know, blows his nose and brushes his teeth.

00:46:42.880 She refuses my kiss in the morning, you know?

00:46:45.360 Sometimes his breath stinks, and sometimes mine does, too, you know?

00:46:48.660 Normal.

00:46:49.220 So you brush your teeth, then you kiss.

00:46:50.480 Other shamed truth donated $100.

00:46:51.820 Thank you, man.

00:46:52.640 Thank you.

00:46:53.200 You have some self-respect.

00:46:55.140 Your woman is a representation of yourself. 1.00

00:46:58.000 If your woman is a 304, then you are low-value man. 1.00

00:47:02.480 There is thousands of people watching this, and you only got 100.

00:47:06.860 Not a big accomplishment.

00:47:07.900 A word?

00:47:11.500 Yeah, I mean.

00:47:12.220 I think that's good at math.

00:47:12.840 But I guess, so my question to you is.

00:47:14.620 You can't expect, I mean, 1 or 2% of the people are going to sub.

00:47:20.140 Not everybody, 5,000 people are not going to sub to our only fans.

00:47:23.360 I think that's an unrealistic expectation.

00:47:25.020 There's people who are going to like you, people who are not going to like you.

00:47:27.300 Just like all of us at this table.

00:47:28.740 Everyone's going to like some of us, then like some of us less, you know?

00:47:32.420 Like people have opinions, you know?

00:47:34.520 But, so it seemed like from what you said, the primary reason that you got into doing

00:47:40.640 adult content and stripping was for financial reasons.

00:47:44.380 For money.

00:47:44.880 And also, I got into dancing at the clubs because, for one, I was, I wanted something

00:47:49.860 glamorous and fun, like...

00:47:51.300 Oh, sorry.

00:47:52.040 Hold on.

00:47:52.320 Black Socrates super chatted $100. 0.82

00:47:55.760 Dude.

00:47:56.700 Keely opened herself up to danger and ridicule and still insists on sharing everything she 0.99

00:48:02.180 gets with you.

00:48:03.200 And you still sit there and say you want a prenup.

00:48:06.520 You don't deserve her.

00:48:07.660 And she doesn't deserve a guy so unwilling to sacrifice. 0.92

00:48:10.960 Because she resorts to sex work. 1.00

00:48:14.020 Yeah, but I mean, a prenup, too, also means I don't get to take all of her money either.

00:48:19.720 I mean, I literally just talked to...

00:48:21.640 Oh my god, the chat is on fire!

00:48:23.820 ...$100 to the boyfriend.

00:48:27.300 As an epic gamer, you can get in a union and make $35 an hour starting.

00:48:32.660 If money is your issue, there are plenty of options.

00:48:35.960 You're an able-bodied young man.

00:48:38.220 I'd never put myself in a position where my lover sells herself.

00:48:42.320 Lok-tar-ro-gar. 0.99

00:48:43.900 Yeah, like, you can make money gaming.

00:48:45.720 I don't play video games.

00:48:48.140 And it's not that I hate them.

00:48:50.140 I have tons of gamer friends.

00:48:52.060 I just don't care about video games.

00:48:54.020 I'm a musician.

00:48:54.660 I play guitar and I play with bands.

00:48:57.540 I don't play games.

00:48:59.080 I think a lot of us are hearing from both of you that there's some emotional wrestling

00:49:03.580 with what your current situation is looking like right now.

00:49:06.340 You kind of want to quit, and you say you really don't like your job, but you're not

00:49:09.060 sure when you want to retire, and it seems to be escalating every day.

00:49:12.160 You're happy.

00:49:12.620 You don't want to know what's happening behind the scenes.

00:49:14.800 Do you think that there's a chance that that could ruin the opportunity to get married

00:49:19.020 or leave some sort of emotional permanence?

00:49:21.920 We're together forever.

00:49:22.940 I'm not even worried, so...

00:49:24.540 I think she definitely wants to quit. 1.00

00:49:28.720 She comes back and is just like, I'm done with this job, and she has weeks where she 0.83

00:49:33.440 definitely is tired of it.

00:49:35.480 And if she wants to do it, then by far she can do it.

00:49:39.500 We're, you know...

00:49:40.300 What if she doesn't want to?

00:49:41.160 I'm all open.

00:49:41.680 If she doesn't want to, then that's fine, too.

00:49:43.540 It's, as long as she's working and bringing in money, and I'm working and bringing in

00:49:49.000 money, whatever job she has, she's probably going to quit in the next, you know, she's 1.00

00:49:54.280 25, we'll probably say five more years of it.

00:49:57.300 What if she doesn't?

00:49:57.960 It could be less.

00:49:58.540 Theoretically, what if you guys aren't married in a few years and the cycle has continued

00:50:02.460 If she doesn't, then I'll probably confront her and say, look, it's time to quit.

00:50:05.580 We have money coming in from other sources.

00:50:08.060 I believe she can keep the OnlyFans, but she doesn't need to do the other stuff. 0.98

00:50:12.400 As long as the OnlyFans is bringing in enough, that's honestly fine.

00:50:16.320 Why is that the boundary?

00:50:18.080 Because that would be just, like, stuff that's already out there, content that's already there.

00:50:22.920 And you can post whatever you want.

00:50:23.540 You don't have to do very much.

00:50:24.560 It doesn't have to be new to date.

00:50:26.260 It's a very passive income, I would say, while the other stuff is more active income.

00:50:31.820 Wait, Keely, if... 1.00

00:50:33.380 Sorry, your name again is...

00:50:35.440 Mick.

00:50:35.980 Mick.

00:50:36.300 Okay, I thought it was Mick for some reason.

00:50:38.820 Keely, if he started in the OnlyFans and started just, like, running through chicks, like, for content, 0.93

00:50:43.240 would you have an issue with him, like, just fucking other chicks for content? 0.95

00:50:45.680 Oh, of course. 0.99

00:50:46.260 Of course I would, because I'm already making so much money.

00:50:48.420 He doesn't need to do that.

00:50:49.760 And he's mine.

00:50:50.600 He can't touch anyone, so...

00:50:52.060 Whoa, whoa, whoa, okay.

00:50:54.380 We've unraveled another layer here.

00:50:56.260 So if he was making content, strictly content, no romantic, no emotional connection,

00:51:01.780 you would have an issue with him sleeping with other women? 0.96

00:51:04.380 Oh, of course.

00:51:05.320 Like, because I'm the one making money, and he doesn't need to touch anyone else.

00:51:09.760 Well...

00:51:09.960 I don't even want to touch anyone else, but, like...

00:51:11.640 Well, listen, Mick's a handsome guy.

00:51:13.100 Yeah, but he's mine, so anyone touches him, you would die.

00:51:15.720 What the...

00:51:16.000 Not literally, but, you know.

00:51:17.900 So why is it okay the other way around, then?

00:51:20.440 Well, because he...

00:51:21.620 We both decided that this is what we're going to do for money, so if he wants to have me

00:51:26.620 quit, I will.

00:51:27.360 And he needs to find another job that's not what I'm doing, so...

00:51:31.940 Has your job given you any trauma?

00:51:34.700 Every job can give you a little bit of trauma.

00:51:37.260 You got a big one?

00:51:38.300 I don't know.

00:51:39.180 Mick, you got a big one?

00:51:40.060 Like, really...

00:51:40.460 That's for him to answer.

00:51:41.720 He can answer.

00:51:42.400 It's up to him.

00:51:43.020 I would say it is pretty big, yeah.

00:51:45.220 Yeah, it is.

00:51:45.860 All right, Mick, what...

00:51:46.900 Listen.

00:51:48.140 Yo, this has been too one-sided here.

00:51:50.580 You need to start an OnlyFans, son, and start getting into the game.

00:51:54.440 Do it, then.

00:51:54.920 You know, I've actually...

00:51:55.640 Wait, but you just said that that would be a problem, though.

00:51:57.420 Okay, so I have, like, a boundary, so I was going to say...

00:52:00.080 What can I do?

00:52:00.600 I'm very torn on what I'm comfortable with, because I haven't really decided yet, but

00:52:05.360 I do think...

00:52:06.480 I've tried to get him a sugar mama, because I have sugar daddies, but he hasn't pursued it

00:52:11.960 enough, and I told him it's okay if he wants to, because, like...

00:52:15.200 But I guess...

00:52:16.080 She definitely has a jealous streak, where if I even talk to other girls who are just... 1.00

00:52:21.820 I have no intention of ever dating, or I'm not flirting at all, and I'm just talking

00:52:25.860 to them, you know, maybe they're just someone at the cashier counter, and they're literally

00:52:30.920 just taking my order for coffee, you know, and she's gotten jealous, like, how'd that 1.00

00:52:36.880 girl look at you and stuff? 1.00

00:52:38.220 Like, why is she looking at you like that? 0.52

00:52:39.280 Everyone feels that way.

00:52:40.000 Everyone watches TikTok.

00:52:41.480 Okay, hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:52:42.720 That's something she gets, and I don't get that way when she talks to other guys.

00:52:46.000 I'm not like, I don't think she's going to try to bone a guy just because she's talking 0.88

00:52:49.100 to them.

00:52:49.240 Does that bother you?

00:52:50.340 It does bother me.

00:52:51.180 I hate jealousy.

00:52:52.240 I hate jealousy in a relationship.

00:52:53.880 I think women... 1.00

00:52:55.020 If she should know that I'm with her, and just because I'm talking to another woman does 0.97

00:52:59.660 not mean that I want to sleep with her, and that's how I feel, but she definitely gets

00:53:03.720 very protective.

00:53:04.340 Well, it's different because I'm not worried because this is a podcast.

00:53:07.060 You could talk to other women. 0.99

00:53:08.480 I don't care, but like, it's about what you say, or I think it's maybe TikTok is very toxic

00:53:13.680 because everyone's posting, my man looked at this girl, and then they're posting it

00:53:18.420 on TikTok, and it's all just wrong.

00:53:19.780 Okay, hold on.

00:53:20.300 But it's okay to create adult content with other men, but he can't talk to a girl on TikTok.

00:53:26.060 No, but he would just be...

00:53:27.280 It's because it's for money.

00:53:27.720 He would be doing it.

00:53:28.540 The other stuff isn't for money, so it's not okay.

00:53:29.040 He would be doing it to make money, too.

00:53:30.940 But you just said it wouldn't be okay if he made an OnlyFans.

00:53:32.460 You wouldn't like it if he had an OnlyFans.

00:53:34.640 He's okay if he has an OnlyFans, but he can't touch anyone else.

00:53:37.680 No, he's going to sleep with other women. 0.64

00:53:40.880 Mick, I'm your manager.

00:53:42.500 Mick, I'm going to be your OnlyFans manager, okay?

00:53:46.280 We're going to start your OnlyFans.

00:53:47.560 It's going to be called...

00:53:48.100 Start one, that's fine.

00:53:48.620 Hold on, here's the name.

00:53:49.680 Big Dick Mick, okay?

00:53:50.880 That's the name of your OnlyFans.

00:53:52.880 That's what it is.

00:53:53.840 Mick, I'm your manager.

00:53:54.900 I'm going to take 50%.

00:53:55.800 Okay?

00:53:56.780 I know how to do these things.

00:53:58.240 Do you guys ever talk about this at home?

00:54:00.360 All the time.

00:54:00.940 Everything is an open book, you know?

00:54:02.460 So you've been together for over five years.

00:54:04.880 You're engaged, but you don't have a date for your wedding.

00:54:07.180 And there seems to be a dichotomy here between what people are comfortable with in the relationship,

00:54:13.560 but you're not on the same page with it.

00:54:15.660 Is that something you talk about at home?

00:54:17.700 Yeah, we talk about all this stuff we're kind of talking about right now.

00:54:21.340 So I think we just haven't come to maybe an agreement on it yet, and we still have a mutual feeling.

00:54:28.000 Well, you tell me.

00:54:28.660 You tell me.

00:54:29.300 I will quit this adult industry now if you want me to.

00:54:32.640 But you're always like, oh, but come on, babe, we need to make money.

00:54:36.100 So it's more you being lazy, not wanting to do stuff as much.

00:54:40.180 Oh, my God.

00:54:40.780 As much as I love you, both of us got to bring in a little bit of money. 1.00

00:54:43.840 Shit. 1.00

00:54:44.640 Wait. 1.00

00:54:45.100 So hold on.

00:54:45.820 More about the jealousy thing.

00:54:47.480 Yeah, yeah.

00:54:47.860 That thing we can't agree on.

00:54:48.820 I'm working on it, though.

00:54:49.200 She thinks it's okay to be jealous.

00:54:51.480 I don't believe that's healthy.

00:54:52.740 Well, you know, girls are more jealous than guys. 1.00

00:54:54.740 I think that's just a relationship thing, though.

00:54:56.780 Do you feel your jealousy is amplified, though?

00:54:58.520 Because as much as you say you don't care and you know that you guys are committed, there is a part of you that feels like he's going to leave for what you do?

00:55:05.540 Never.

00:55:06.160 I'm not even worried.

00:55:06.600 So then where does the jealousy come from, and why is it amplified if he can't talk to people, but you're sleeping with other people?

00:55:11.880 Hold on.

00:55:12.560 She wanted to come in.

00:55:13.460 Go ahead.

00:55:13.700 I think jealousy, period, aside from sleeping with other people, is in all relationships.

00:55:19.660 Yeah, exactly.

00:55:20.080 You can't say that you've had a boyfriend or girlfriend before, and you don't get jealous when they're talking to other girls or boys.

00:55:27.500 Like, every single relationship holds jealousy.

00:55:31.080 And I wanted to ask Mick a question, actually, but would you start or go into the adult industry?

00:55:39.600 That's not something I would actually be probably comfortable with.

00:55:43.920 I would be okay with starting in OnlyFans, but not the adult industry aspect.

00:55:49.520 He's too shy and nervous for that.

00:55:51.300 I am.

00:55:51.940 I get a little anxiety.

00:55:53.520 I mean, I get a little nervous with that type of stuff.

00:55:56.180 I don't feel like I could be comfortable with that situation.

00:55:59.340 Both of us are nervous just being here sometimes.

00:56:01.720 I mean, we're just...

00:56:02.560 That's why I want to be like a studio musician and have a producer.

00:56:06.600 I'm like the behind-the-scenes guy.

00:56:08.260 Like, even when I used to play live on stages with bands and we'd play rock and roll,

00:56:12.540 I was the guy in the background doing background vocals or background guitar.

00:56:16.980 I wasn't in front of everyone.

00:56:19.060 Mick.

00:56:19.920 Listen, as your manager, I think, you know, you're a handsome guy.

00:56:28.440 You kind of look like a young Burt Reynolds, kind of.

00:56:32.200 Does he?

00:56:32.880 I'll take it.

00:56:33.780 Thank you.

00:56:34.500 You know, you got the good jawline.

00:56:37.800 You know.

00:56:38.520 But I guess my confusion is you do OnlyFans.

00:56:44.560 He accepts it.

00:56:47.580 Allegedly, apparently.

00:56:48.640 Yeah.

00:56:48.780 However, you would have a major issue with him doing scenes with women.

00:56:53.500 Hold on.

00:56:53.720 Let's let this come.

00:56:54.520 Let's let this come.

00:56:54.540 Let's let this come in.

00:56:55.620 Yo, thank you, man.

00:56:57.040 Mick, save yourself and find someone who brings the best out of as you would with that person.

00:57:02.920 I'm the best thing he's ever going to get because I'm the best.

00:57:05.600 And we're soulmates.

00:57:06.660 What?

00:57:08.220 I think that she does bring the best out of me.

00:57:16.180 I think we both have our issues and we've both grown as people.

00:57:20.180 When we met each other, we were a lot younger.

00:57:22.100 We're a lot more mature.

00:57:23.240 Closer.

00:57:23.520 Closer.

00:57:23.760 We're a lot more mature and older now.

00:57:25.960 We certainly still have our issues just like in any relationship, but we work those issues out.

00:57:31.760 We talk to each other and that's all you can ask for in life.

00:57:36.420 And here's like my thing with it because I used to strip, right?

00:57:40.120 Like my not the ex that I currently live with, but another ex.

00:57:44.400 Yeah.

00:57:44.800 You used to strip too.

00:57:47.080 Okay.

00:57:47.240 Yeah.

00:57:47.560 Yeah.

00:57:48.020 So, but it was like an active addiction kind of like I was clean off my drug of choice,

00:57:54.780 but like not clean, clean.

00:57:55.920 So I was, it was more like doing it to make money so that I could go get high.

00:58:00.280 But I mean, you know, whatever people aren't going to care, but sorry.

00:58:06.300 Oh yeah.

00:58:06.700 A relationship is like a contract, right?

00:58:09.060 Like, and it's also about compromise.

00:58:11.400 If you respect each other, you're going to hear what each other has to say and you have

00:58:15.420 to listen to each other.

00:58:16.580 And so when my ex was telling me like he's uncomfortable with like the fact that I can

00:58:23.040 go to the strip club and do this, but like he can't make an OnlyFans or whatever, we made

00:58:27.180 a compromise and we actually made an OnlyFans together and like started making content together.

00:58:31.240 So like, it's all about compromise.

00:58:33.620 Yeah.

00:58:33.800 I'd be okay with that.

00:58:34.800 Yeah.

00:58:34.960 If he wants to make an OnlyFans, I'm totally fine with that. 1.00

00:58:37.580 I just would want him to do content with me.

00:58:39.600 And the reason I don't want him touching anyone else but me is because I've already done that

00:58:44.000 and have been making money and I don't even want to touch anyone else but him.

00:58:47.500 I just do it for money.

00:58:49.060 So yeah.

00:58:50.000 And that's something that you want her to quit eventually. 1.00

00:58:52.640 I want to quit today if I could, but you know, we just need the money.

00:58:55.800 How do you cope with that?

00:58:57.960 Like not quitting?

00:58:58.680 I sleep, I just look at the end of the light, at the end of the tunnel and be like, look,

00:59:03.200 there's people dying and all over the world.

00:59:06.120 Someone always has it worse.

00:59:07.620 And that's not to say that my situation isn't valid, but no one's perfect.

00:59:10.900 No one's life is perfect.

00:59:11.980 No one's relationship is perfect.

00:59:13.080 Okay, but wait, why don't you want Mick to start an OnlyFans? 0.90

00:59:16.540 I never said he couldn't.

00:59:17.720 He can't start one.

00:59:18.820 He hasn't started one.

00:59:20.220 You said you would have an issue if he was doing BG content.

00:59:23.100 With anyone but me because I'm already making all the money.

00:59:25.820 But that's what you do.

00:59:26.800 You do BG content.

00:59:27.780 I don't even want to do it though.

00:59:28.880 Yeah, but you do content with other men, but he can't do content with other women.

00:59:31.840 I don't even like it or want to do it, so.

00:59:32.620 Huh?

00:59:33.100 But I don't even want to do it.

00:59:34.240 I don't want to touch anyone else but him.

00:59:34.380 But you do it.

00:59:34.940 But you don't.

00:59:35.540 Why can't he do it?

00:59:36.820 Double standard, Tilla?

00:59:37.740 Because I'm already making all the money because I'm already making all the money.

00:59:39.560 Don't you want to double the money?

00:59:40.380 Do you have pressure for that?

00:59:42.060 That you have to make all the money in the relationship?

00:59:44.180 I mean, obviously a little bit because I want him to make money and pull his weight.

00:59:47.560 But I mean, I guess I just never, I don't know.

00:59:50.320 He just doesn't make as much.

00:59:51.820 But you are refusing to let him do an OnlyFans.

00:59:55.580 No, he can make an OnlyFans.

00:59:56.740 No, no, no, but with other women. 0.94

00:59:58.440 Well, obviously, yeah, because I'm already making money.

01:00:00.320 He's young Burt Reynolds.

01:00:01.280 But he's mine and I already, I'm doing, the point is he can't make an OnlyFans with content

01:00:07.020 with other people.

01:00:07.580 You can't keep a man that handsome.

01:00:09.460 I can and I will.

01:00:10.500 To yourself.

01:00:11.080 There's nothing you can do about it.

01:00:12.600 Mine, mine, mine.

01:00:13.340 I don't care.

01:00:14.320 Afterwards, manager.

01:00:15.620 I got you, man.

01:00:16.540 He can have an OnlyFans.

01:00:17.680 Look, he can totally have an OnlyFans, but he can only make content by himself or with

01:00:22.120 me.

01:00:22.300 Look, OnlyFans, you can have chefs on there, guitar people. 0.99

01:00:25.200 OnlyFans just isn't adult content, you know?

01:00:29.020 Okay, Mick.

01:00:30.420 I guess my question to you is, and I do want to continue moving because I want to give everybody

01:00:34.320 an opportunity to share their relationship status.

01:00:37.100 Mick, don't you think it would be more ideal to not have a girlfriend that is doing adult

01:00:44.600 content with other men to be stripping, to doing all this?

01:00:47.560 I would say it would be easier if she didn't have to do that, but I'm not going to leave

01:00:56.240 her for someone that isn't doing all that because I loved her before it.

01:01:02.540 I love her after it.

01:01:04.340 That's not an issue for me.

01:01:06.860 Does she have to right now?

01:01:08.640 I mean, how financially secure are you guys?

01:01:10.740 We have Louis Vuitton bags being gifted.

01:01:12.620 We only have like $15,000 in her account.

01:01:14.040 She doesn't have a Louis Vuitton bag.

01:01:15.380 So it's not a long-term sustainable strategy.

01:01:19.320 So what are you doing to build a sustainable strategy to get out of it?

01:01:23.240 If he made money, I'd quit doing what I'm doing.

01:01:25.460 If we both could find another job that wasn't in the adult entertainment, I would do it.

01:01:29.520 Like I always say to him, look, we can go work and I can-

01:01:32.380 It has to make more than what we are right now, which I doubt most jobs would be paying

01:01:38.060 as much as we're making right now.

01:01:39.520 However, I will say this.

01:01:41.380 We do have a plan.

01:01:42.760 We have a savings account.

01:01:43.980 We have about enough saved up.

01:01:45.800 We are planning on going to the Smokies and by the end of the summer.

01:01:49.100 Okay.

01:01:49.320 How about for income though?

01:01:50.260 Like what are you doing to train for a workforce position that's not in the adult film industry

01:01:55.380 or OnlyFans or having a sugar daddy?

01:01:58.740 Well, I'm going to build out my recording studio.

01:02:01.240 When he gets a place.

01:02:02.520 I'm going to start, once we have that house, I'm going to start doing my own content.

01:02:07.840 It's going to be YouTube related and things like that.

01:02:10.280 I'm going to be building the studio.

01:02:11.840 I'm going to be having people come in and charge them to use the recording studio for

01:02:18.060 whatever they are.

01:02:18.980 I'm going to be doing session work in Nashville with other guitarists and things like that.

01:02:23.300 So that's going to bring in an income for me.

01:02:25.360 She can get a job at a coffee shop or whatever if she wants to. 1.00

01:02:30.080 She can still do her OF if she wants to. 0.95

01:02:32.240 She does a lot of live streaming and things like that.

01:02:35.020 Yeah, I like live streaming.

01:02:35.800 Maybe one day I'll start my own podcast.

01:02:37.680 It's kind of fun, you know, talking to people and getting other people to stop them.

01:02:40.240 Hold on.

01:02:40.460 I just have to interrupt a little bit.

01:02:41.860 Guys, we put members only mode on just for a couple minutes here.

01:02:45.720 The chat was getting a little, it was hard for the mods and for Eric to keep up.

01:02:51.220 So I put members only mode on.

01:02:54.200 Slurring my words here.

01:02:55.240 I put members only mode on.

01:02:57.180 We'll leave it on for about 10, 15 minutes and then we'll switch back.

01:03:00.740 Okay, maybe we'll touch base on that again.

01:03:03.020 I do want to let the rest of the girls go. 1.00

01:03:04.380 So what's your current relationship status?

01:03:07.360 Single, situationship, relationship?

01:03:10.460 I'm in a relationship.

01:03:11.660 Okay.

01:03:12.080 How long has that?

01:03:13.740 A little shy of a year now.

01:03:15.240 Is that your longest relationship?

01:03:16.560 No, my longest is five years.

01:03:18.060 Five, five.

01:03:18.620 Okay.

01:03:18.960 What about you?

01:03:19.300 I am with a life partner for almost five years.

01:03:27.280 Super taken.

01:03:28.900 Okay, super taken.

01:03:30.360 Okay.

01:03:33.100 Sorry, I would just say something.

01:03:34.960 I'm from New York, so sometimes I'll say like New York slang.

01:03:38.360 So I don't know if that's like okay.

01:03:40.840 Like what's an example of what do you mean?

01:03:42.940 Like, oh, you're wilding right now.

01:03:44.080 I think that's a slang everywhere.

01:03:46.720 I've heard that before.

01:03:47.720 Well, okay.

01:03:48.620 Well, others.

01:03:49.560 Okay, got it.

01:03:51.140 Explain the neck tap, by the way.

01:03:54.480 I got it at a women's retreat.

01:03:56.300 Can you like pull your hair back so we can?

01:04:01.380 A woman's retreat. 1.00

01:04:03.480 Yeah.

01:04:03.760 Okay.

01:04:04.100 Okay, what about you?

01:04:10.500 I'm single and my longest relationship was two, two and a half years.

01:04:15.260 Okay, single.

01:04:16.520 Like proper single?

01:04:17.780 Like 100% single.

01:04:19.520 Sure.

01:04:20.040 What about you?

01:04:20.720 I am very happily engaged to my best friend.

01:04:24.020 Engaged?

01:04:24.720 Okay, how long have you guys been together?

01:04:27.460 We started dating in July of 2021 and he proposed in December.

01:04:32.360 And I know you're watching.

01:04:33.200 Hi, Brock.

01:04:33.540 Yo, what up, Brock?

01:04:35.460 How you doing?

01:04:37.400 Okay.

01:04:39.000 All right, so that's everyone's relationship.

01:04:41.960 Jesus.

01:04:44.040 This is a mess of a panel tonight.

01:04:48.140 Okay, so.

01:04:49.480 Hold on one second.

01:04:51.560 I wanted to bring it back to.

01:04:55.400 Sorry, guys.

01:04:56.480 Yeah?

01:04:56.860 By the way, I don't think some of the.

01:04:59.500 Super chats are.

01:05:01.740 They're not triggering.

01:05:03.700 Has more than one.

01:05:06.040 Oh, is that it?

01:05:07.420 Hey, W super chatted $99.99.

01:05:11.440 Oh, I know what happened there.

01:05:12.220 To the girl with red hair.

01:05:13.780 How can you say you love him and also say you are the best he can get?

01:05:17.940 Love is not selfish.

01:05:19.180 It's selfless.

01:05:20.580 Guy with the black t-shirt.

01:05:22.020 Why don't you get any respectable you can get until you can fulfill your dreams so she can 1.00

01:05:26.880 stop the of.

01:05:27.760 So to answer that, we're the best each other can get, but we love each other.

01:05:33.660 Like, you have to be a little bit selfish, not like, you can still respect your partner

01:05:38.320 and be a little bit selfish.

01:05:39.500 It's a balance, you know?

01:05:40.620 Oh, my God.

01:05:42.000 Truth donated $100. 0.63

01:05:44.600 What a pile of bull.

01:05:46.220 You say he is yours and no one else can have him. 1.00

01:05:49.260 Yet you are his and willing to give yourself away to male porn stars that care nothing about 0.89

01:05:53.980 you. 1.00

01:05:54.980 Garbage. 1.00

01:05:55.900 Love you, Brian. 0.98

01:05:57.140 Well, everyone's going to paycheck at the end of the day.

01:05:59.440 And honestly, I will quit.

01:06:00.960 But like, babe, do you want me to quit?

01:06:03.300 I'll quit today.

01:06:04.240 Oh, do you want her to quit? 1.00

01:06:06.260 I've been wanting to quit anyway.

01:06:07.820 Is this a whatever exclusive?

01:06:09.940 She can quit when she's ready. 1.00

01:06:11.420 Okay, but what do you want?

01:06:12.980 Yeah, what are you going to do to make money?

01:06:14.840 I would like her to quit, yes. 0.99

01:06:17.800 Well, you would like her to quit. 0.91

01:06:18.980 Do you want her to quit tonight on the whatever podcast?

01:06:22.660 Yeah.

01:06:24.620 Do you want to make it official?

01:06:26.360 Okay, we'll make it official.

01:06:27.900 She's quitting. 1.00

01:06:29.140 For real?

01:06:30.120 Yes.

01:06:31.000 Okay, then from this point on, what are we both going to do for money?

01:06:34.120 We need to have a plan.

01:06:36.080 You can still do OnlyFans.

01:06:38.180 Okay.

01:06:40.240 Compromise.

01:06:41.120 Compromise.

01:06:41.760 Okay.

01:06:42.520 Deal.

01:06:43.140 Oh, my God.

01:06:43.980 And just so you guys know, he has access to my phone anytime.

01:06:46.760 Like, I have nothing to hide.

01:06:48.200 So, if you want to look at who I'm texting, what pictures I'm liking, go ahead.

01:06:51.700 I've got nothing to hide.

01:06:52.600 Okay, so you're quitting.

01:06:53.520 Yeah.

01:06:54.620 Wow.

01:06:54.920 Right now.

01:06:55.740 Yeah. 1.00

01:06:56.260 You're going to delete your OnlyFans or you're going to keep that shit around? 1.00

01:06:58.380 Up to you, babe. 1.00

01:06:59.160 What do you want?

01:07:00.860 The OnlyFans money is too good.

01:07:05.120 Okay, then.

01:07:06.560 Wait.

01:07:07.540 Before you guys quit, though, you got to let Mick do one scene with another chick. 0.54

01:07:12.960 No.

01:07:13.520 Come on.

01:07:14.080 No way in hell.

01:07:15.060 It's only fair.

01:07:15.460 No, no way in hell.

01:07:16.540 Never happening.

01:07:17.080 Oh, he can't do a scene with a chick, but you can... 1.00

01:07:20.460 I don't even want to touch these people, though.

01:07:22.280 That's the thing.

01:07:23.020 Neither does he, but he needs the money.

01:07:25.080 I know, but I already have so much money from what I did.

01:07:27.400 Why do both of us need to do this?

01:07:28.560 Disregard her.

01:07:29.180 Listen to me, Mick.

01:07:29.800 I want you to say this.

01:07:31.360 Say, show me the money.

01:07:32.740 Say it.

01:07:33.760 Show me the money.

01:07:34.860 Louder.

01:07:35.280 Say it with your chest.

01:07:35.920 Show me the money.

01:07:37.060 Louder.

01:07:37.460 You show me the money.

01:07:38.280 Show me the money.

01:07:39.540 Louder, Mick.

01:07:40.120 The money.

01:07:41.080 Louder, Mick.

01:07:42.380 Show me the money.

01:07:43.980 There we go.

01:07:44.440 Oh, my God.

01:07:44.740 So cringe.

01:07:45.520 There we go.

01:07:46.860 Jerry Maguire, by the way.

01:07:47.920 Okay.

01:07:48.720 So, the super chat, the missed super chat there.

01:07:52.840 Can you pull it up?

01:07:53.420 I'll read it.

01:07:54.180 I know what happened there.

01:07:55.380 Oh, wait.

01:07:56.560 There's another one that just came in.

01:07:59.900 Actually, hide it because there's one that's about to come in.

01:08:03.280 So, by the way, thank you for all the memberships, guys.

01:08:06.040 Oh, my God.

01:08:07.240 Thank you.

01:08:07.880 Thank you, man.

01:08:08.240 I'm super chatted $99.99.

01:08:12.000 This is some double standard nonsense.

01:08:15.360 Yeah, here.

01:08:16.120 Well, men and women are different, right? 0.96

01:08:18.120 So, there should be double standards for some things.

01:08:20.860 But it's, I mean, you could, that argument could be made more so in favor of if it was Mick who was doing it.

01:08:26.800 Yes, I get that.

01:08:27.860 But this is what works for us, and it's not permanent.

01:08:30.760 Mick, just be honest.

01:08:31.620 Do you want to start an OnlyFans?

01:08:32.820 Just saying.

01:08:33.900 It's up to you.

01:08:35.000 I'm not stopping you from doing anything you want to do.

01:08:36.920 Well, you don't want him to do it with other girls. 0.58

01:08:39.540 Well, obviously, duh, because I'm already making so much money from mine.

01:08:42.100 Yeah, but you can double it.

01:08:43.300 Bro, this is Burt Reynolds in the flesh, son.

01:08:45.740 Yes, but he would be too nervous to do it anyway.

01:08:48.000 Instead of a two-bedroom, you could have a three-bedroom.

01:08:50.740 You're underselling your fiancé.

01:08:52.380 Not really. 0.78

01:08:53.040 I think he would kill it.

01:08:54.360 Yeah, but I just don't want him to. 0.64

01:08:55.740 And he doesn't want to either.

01:08:57.380 What's that movie with Mark Wahlberg from, like, the 70s or 80s?

01:09:02.760 Boogie Nights.

01:09:03.620 Boogie Nights.

01:09:04.280 That's you, dude.

01:09:05.640 It's a great movie.

01:09:06.340 You need to look yourself deep in the eyes in the mirror and just be like, 1.00

01:09:12.600 oh, what the fuck does he say in that movie? 0.99

01:09:14.240 Anyone in the chat, can you let me know what he says in that movie? 0.99

01:09:16.800 But that's a prosthetic.

01:09:19.300 Don't worry about it.

01:09:20.360 You wanted to go in.

01:09:22.360 What were you going to say?

01:09:23.680 I lost my train of thought.

01:09:25.260 I was going to say something.

01:09:26.260 You said there's nothing romantic about the job that you have, but if you're so against him having the same job, will you admit that there is something romantic about your job?

01:09:37.420 No, what?

01:09:39.200 I just think it's both things.

01:09:41.560 Both of us are together, and we just want to touch each other.

01:09:44.280 It's romantic, but I'm saying it's not romantic when I'm touching other people.

01:09:47.740 Like, I'm not enjoying it, is what I mean.

01:09:49.400 And he wouldn't enjoy it.

01:09:50.920 It's not enjoyable at all.

01:09:52.100 No, it's just awkward.

01:09:53.240 Because we need money.

01:09:54.260 Look, why do people work at McDonald's?

01:09:55.600 Is that enjoyable?

01:09:56.760 I was about to say, I think most sex workers are, they don't, it's a job, right?

01:10:02.060 Like, they're not necessarily having a great time 100% of the time, but the money is very, very good.

01:10:08.500 Like, you make very good money doing it, but it's like a job.

01:10:11.340 If you ask a sex worker, do you like your job?

01:10:13.440 It depends on the sex worker. 1.00

01:10:14.620 Some of them are like, yeah, I love getting railed by 15 guys.

01:10:17.720 Other girls are like, you know, I just kind of do this for money. 1.00

01:10:20.800 So it just really depends if you're, like, willing to take that risk.

01:10:24.600 So what then is the dollar amount that is the price of your peace and happiness?

01:10:29.260 Like, really, is it that worth it?

01:10:31.240 You really can't put a price on it, but.

01:10:32.380 If there's no price, then why not struggle financially to build a career path?

01:10:36.740 Because people say you don't need money to be happy, but you do.

01:10:39.420 You need money to eat.

01:10:40.300 You need money to pay your bills.

01:10:41.260 Well, yeah, absolutely, but you can get money to eat in a million different ways.

01:10:45.180 But at what cost?

01:10:46.460 What cost?

01:10:47.020 Once it's over and done and we have our place, we're never going to look back and be like,

01:10:50.300 yuck, we did what we did.

01:10:51.300 I worked at a burger place for minimum wage.

01:10:54.600 And did that for three months.

01:10:56.540 And the way the management and customers treated me there and throwing food at me and things

01:11:02.360 was one of the worst experiences in my life.

01:11:04.480 I was so stressful at that end of the three months, I quit.

01:11:07.920 I was, at that point, I was pulling my hair out and losing sleep.

01:11:11.560 And so stressed that I said, I would rather be homeless and starving than working at this

01:11:17.540 burger place.

01:11:18.480 I will not name it.

01:11:19.600 But wouldn't you be, wouldn't you rather be all those things and not have your girl getting 0.98

01:11:26.820 screwed by a bunch of dudes? 0.86

01:11:28.260 If it brings in money, then I'm okay with it. 0.58

01:11:32.980 It's like, you know.

01:11:33.140 It's, it's, it's, it is what it is.

01:11:36.420 It just, that's how our life has become.

01:11:38.900 And that's our life.

01:11:41.940 I mean, I didn't choose it.

01:11:43.240 She didn't choose it.

01:11:44.920 But, you know, a lot of, I've had dozens of odd jobs and 90% of them were awful.

01:11:51.800 I mean, the way I was treated, the, I wouldn't.

01:11:53.820 You look strong, Mick.

01:11:54.520 You look like an ox.

01:11:55.580 I think you could handle physical labor.

01:11:56.580 Well, I do work out every day.

01:11:58.280 Yeah.

01:11:58.440 I think you could handle like a good physical labor job.

01:12:01.200 I could.

01:12:01.720 I did forestry firefighting and that was actually really good.

01:12:04.820 And I had to, I had to have a backpack on me and jump through those mountains with

01:12:08.660 a chainsaw on my hand and I was in good shape back then, you know.

01:12:11.740 Got it.

01:12:12.080 Here, let's, I got to get to these soup chats.

01:12:14.180 Eric, can you pull up the one that I missed?

01:12:16.600 Or actually, wait, maybe I can do it.

01:12:19.500 Hold on.

01:12:20.460 I got it.

01:12:20.980 I got it.

01:12:21.440 Oh, oh, my bad.

01:12:22.540 Here, I got it.

01:12:24.300 By the way, guys, just a heads up.

01:12:26.420 If you're donating, donating in a different currency, if you're donating in a different

01:12:32.120 currency, you need to do the conversion for it to trigger TTS.

01:12:34.940 So it needs to be a hundred USD.

01:12:36.840 So if it's like, if you're donating Canadian or whatever other currency, it needs, for it

01:12:42.000 to trigger TTS, it needs to be a hundred USD.

01:12:44.600 So do the, do the maths on that. 0.99

01:12:49.120 Jay, oh shit. 0.99

01:12:50.540 Eric, can you hide those? 1.00

01:12:51.760 Scuffed.

01:12:54.000 Jay Ronald, thank you for the Australian 150, man.

01:12:56.300 Appreciate it.

01:12:57.100 This podcast is bloody fantastic, mate.

01:12:58.900 Always interesting and diverse guests with insights that surprise me for better or worse.

01:13:02.700 Keep up the good gif.

01:13:04.580 Gif? 0.99

01:13:04.900 What the fuck is that? 1.00

01:13:06.620 Brian, you absolute legend. 1.00

01:13:09.040 Thank you, man.

01:13:09.540 I appreciate it.

01:13:11.180 I don't know what time it is in Australia, but thank you, man.

01:13:14.600 Really appreciate your patronage.

01:13:16.000 And sorry I didn't come through as a TTS.

01:13:17.440 It's just, it's through Streamlabs, so the conversion has to be done.

01:13:21.520 But if it happens again, I'll always try to read it as, oh.

01:13:26.180 For me, Theist Venom super chatted $99.99.

01:13:30.020 I work full-time and go to school.

01:13:33.140 I'm not doing OnlyFans.

01:13:35.320 There's probably women in same shoes as me and do not have OnlyFans as their source of income. 1.00

01:13:40.340 Yo, Mick, now that she's gone, bro, look, the table's back.

01:13:45.740 We're going to back you, right?

01:13:47.020 Right, girls? 0.98

01:13:47.800 I'm going to share all of her dirty little secrets, yeah. 1.00

01:13:50.440 Look, listen, you need to start fucking chicks on OnlyFans. 1.00

01:13:55.260 That's what you got to do, bro. 1.00

01:13:57.200 Bro, she's doing it. 0.92

01:13:58.380 You're doing it.

01:13:58.680 It's only fair. 0.99

01:14:00.300 Would she kill you? 1.00

01:14:01.220 Would she, like, fucking stab you? 1.00

01:14:02.280 That's actually our saying is it's only fair. 1.00

01:14:04.740 That's what we always say to each other.

01:14:06.140 It's not fair, though.

01:14:07.180 I know.

01:14:07.820 Did you see what she said?

01:14:09.020 When she's like, oh, no, no other girls can have BDM. 0.96

01:14:15.040 Yeah.

01:14:15.440 Only she gets BDM. 1.00

01:14:17.240 No, not cool.

01:14:18.160 I just think you guys deserve better than it is what it is.

01:14:21.340 You know what I mean?

01:14:21.420 I know, but she doesn't, the thing is, is that I know she doesn't want to sleep with those other men.

01:14:28.700 And I don't want to sleep with other women. 1.00

01:14:32.580 I'm not going out trying to get with other women either.

01:14:35.680 So, for me, it's like, it's not like, oh, I got to go do this just to get, be fair.

01:14:41.380 I don't have that feeling.

01:14:46.460 I have a question for both of you.

01:14:50.500 Oh, Jesus.

01:14:53.480 Sorry.

01:14:54.100 I'm sorry, Chad.

01:14:55.100 Okay.

01:14:55.300 You good?

01:14:58.280 What's the hashtag, free Mick?

01:15:00.000 Free Mick.

01:15:00.720 Am I, like, in a toxic relationship where she's holding me?

01:15:05.600 Yeah, is our relationship so horrible?

01:15:06.580 Is it that bad?

01:15:07.720 We're happy, you know?

01:15:10.040 I mean, I'm happy.

01:15:10.980 Are you happy?

01:15:11.800 Which one of you wears the pants in the relationship?

01:15:14.600 Well, he drives.

01:15:15.440 I don't drive.

01:15:16.200 I just make most of the money.

01:15:17.680 So, I feel like we both wear the pants for certain things.

01:15:21.020 I cook.

01:15:21.600 I clean.

01:15:22.520 I drive.

01:15:23.560 I do most everything except for make as much as she does.

01:15:28.440 And I still do make money.

01:15:30.100 So, I would say I'm probably the pants in the relationship.

01:15:35.620 Okay.

01:15:36.020 Oh, my.

01:15:37.100 Kyle Henderson.

01:15:38.040 Yo, thank you, Kyle.

01:15:40.160 Mick could have joined the Carpenters Union or so another trade.

01:15:43.940 Thoughtful face.

01:15:45.780 I did forestry firefighting.

01:15:48.220 I went to trade school to do that.

01:15:50.340 And that was my profession for six months.

01:15:54.620 And it was very good.

01:15:55.660 And I wouldn't mind doing it again if I was hired.

01:16:01.500 Anybody knows, anybody in the forestry industry that wants to reach out, let me know.

01:16:08.860 If you want to save us, then you have to hire us at something that's going to make almost as much

01:16:14.360 as what we're doing now.

01:16:15.400 How much are you making right now?

01:16:17.300 How much do you think we're making?

01:16:18.680 I don't know.

01:16:19.180 How much?

01:16:19.500 From all your hustles and whatnot.

01:16:21.220 How much do you think?

01:16:22.600 I would say.

01:16:23.600 Closer to the mic, guys.

01:16:24.840 I would say five or six K a month.

01:16:29.340 But at what cost?

01:16:31.120 But at what cost?

01:16:32.560 At what cost?

01:16:33.280 I don't know.

01:16:33.660 I myself probably make a grand or two a month, maybe 3K on a good month from all of the instruments

01:16:43.580 and stuff I sell.

01:16:45.180 I sell lots of pedals lately, too, because they take up less space.

01:16:49.320 And people love pedals nowadays.

01:16:52.640 I have a question for Kiwi. 0.65

01:16:55.680 Would you ever consider taking care of kids or something?

01:16:59.060 Or like being a nanny?

01:17:01.220 Because that can pay a lot, too.

01:17:02.760 There's a very high demand in being a nanny. 0.57

01:17:05.160 I don't know if I'm very good with kids.

01:17:07.280 I've never changed a diaper.

01:17:08.980 I don't know what I am.

01:17:10.200 Your roles are swapped, Mick.

01:17:12.820 She provides, controls, and she's territorial over you. 1.00

01:17:17.420 I thought maybe you were just lazy and pudgy, and you are that, but you're also softer than

01:17:22.580 the role of Charm in Ultra.

01:17:24.420 Your story is painful.

01:17:25.720 But I mean, if you're happy, you're not the man.

01:17:30.180 What does it make you feel like most men, I would say most guys, would probably not be

01:17:35.680 cool with the arrangement that you guys have?

01:17:38.780 Yes, I would say that.

01:17:40.340 I've been heckled and given a hard time by some of my closest friends for years now, and

01:17:47.500 a lot of them don't think I should be with her.

01:17:51.240 But I'm okay with it, and it doesn't bother me.

01:17:55.640 It just doesn't.

01:17:58.500 I'm sorry if it bothers you, if it would bother you.

01:18:00.600 I thought it did bother you, though.

01:18:02.240 I said there's some level of that discomfort, and that, yes, I don't want this.

01:18:07.460 But at the end of the day, I follow that.

01:18:11.140 Compromise and sacrifice, I guess.

01:18:12.820 You say, okay, it's fine.

01:18:14.760 I can handle it.

01:18:15.940 Keely, why don't you just join the military?

01:18:18.460 I'm not cut out for it.

01:18:19.680 I'm very into fashion.

01:18:21.240 I have anxiety.

01:18:22.640 I don't want to get blown up and die, okay?

01:18:25.040 I'm not into that.

01:18:26.100 What's the point of the military?

01:18:27.860 That likely would not happen nowadays.

01:18:29.340 Okay, I'm just being dramatic.

01:18:30.420 But, you know, I don't want to be in the military.

01:18:32.080 I'm not cut out for it.

01:18:32.980 I respect, hey, if you do that, then more power to you.

01:18:35.980 Thank you for serving our country.

01:18:37.420 But I just, I'm not cut out for it.

01:18:39.820 Just like his friend.

01:18:40.640 He had a friend who was in the military, right?

01:18:42.260 And he wasn't cut out for it, and he had PTSD just from something.

01:18:46.040 Yeah, just for six months in the military, and he had back issues and PTSD.

01:18:49.900 But I know other guys that were in it and did four years and are great and doing fine.

01:18:55.440 It all depends who it is.

01:18:57.480 All right, I'm going to do a couple chats.

01:18:58.960 This one came in at the top of the show, Liberty.

01:19:01.780 I'm not able to re-trigger it for some reason.

01:19:03.860 But thank you for the $125 donation through Streamlabs.

01:19:07.760 By the way, guys, just a reminder, if you're just tuning in,

01:19:09.680 instead of donating through YouTube, doing a super chat, YouTube takes 30%.

01:19:14.240 Whereas if you donate through Streamlabs, the link for that is in the description.

01:19:18.080 They only take like 3%.

01:19:19.520 So if you donate to 100, YouTube takes $30.

01:19:22.400 If you donate through Streamlabs, they only take three.

01:19:24.840 So definitely I recommend if you guys would rather more of your patronage

01:19:29.860 to actually go towards whatever instead of just throwing it towards YouTube, think about that.

01:19:34.180 Liberty, thank you for doing it through Streamlabs.

01:19:35.880 Question for the panel.

01:19:36.620 I am a husband and father of two, raising a daughter in what?

01:19:39.520 To me, is a continually failing world.

01:19:42.380 How could I be a better father by shaping her into a more whole woman for a worthy man 0.54

01:19:46.400 to spend her life with?

01:19:48.220 Eric, can you close that?

01:19:49.400 It's just too noisy with the rain.

01:19:51.280 Can I answer that question?

01:19:52.600 Sure.

01:19:54.820 Don't worry about how much money he's making.

01:20:00.800 That's it?

01:20:01.340 Well, that's my biggest piece of advice.

01:20:03.980 If you're going to tell your daughter that.

01:20:07.080 I mean, it's like, I don't know.

01:20:10.040 My whole issue, I could go into it, but my whole issue with this like high value men thing

01:20:14.360 is that A, it's completely subjective.

01:20:17.680 People who designate themselves as high value men are not high value men to me because I

01:20:23.680 have a different set of morals and standards and values, right?

01:20:27.240 So, and if it's because they're making a lot of money, I don't date men who are rich.

01:20:31.940 So, that's just like my main issue with it.

01:20:36.460 I would say just be present in your daughter's life and spend time with her and just be honest.

01:20:40.740 If she has questions, just tell her like it is.

01:20:43.720 You know, some of the ugly truths are out there, but they're really important to know.

01:20:47.440 And when you have that coming from your father, it makes the greatest difference.

01:20:52.160 Oh, homeschool, by the way.

01:20:55.220 Homeschooling, not a bad idea.

01:20:55.880 Yeah, I think that's what we're going to do when we have kids one day too, right, babe?

01:20:58.660 Is that what you want to do is homeschool?

01:21:00.720 Well, public schools are indoctrination factors.

01:21:03.840 I definitely want to homeschool our children because I do not agree with the way public

01:21:09.860 school systems.

01:21:10.560 Also, my childhood was the worst time of my life as an adult.

01:21:15.760 I would say I'm much happier then.

01:21:21.920 Okay, we have a veteran carpenter here.

01:21:24.140 Thank you to the 50.

01:21:24.680 How worthless do you feel that your girl has to sell her body to feed you?

01:21:28.000 If I pulled every man in America, I bet you are one of one. 0.85

01:21:32.320 I mean, don't underestimate. 0.99

01:21:34.660 Oh, shit, I missed it. 1.00

01:21:35.620 Hold on. 1.00

01:21:37.020 God.

01:21:41.140 Sorry, I'm trying to re-trigger it.

01:21:42.840 You should be ashamed of yourself. 0.99

01:21:44.700 Go find a job and stop being a bee. 1.00

01:21:47.560 Your response to veteran carpenter.

01:21:51.880 Well, I would say that I know quite a few other people that are in a very similar situation,

01:21:57.720 and most of the people, the girls that she's met in the industry, have boyfriends, whether

01:22:03.120 it be at the strip club or on a film set. 0.99

01:22:05.500 But she does know, I mean, it's more than you think if you're jerking off to a porn star. 0.99

01:22:12.020 She likely has a husband or a boyfriend at home. 0.99

01:22:16.060 It just is.

01:22:16.700 And kids likely, too. 0.86

01:22:20.300 Also, there's been, like, ex-male porn stars on this show.

01:22:23.780 I think I watched it in episode, a couple episodes back, where he had, like, three girlfriends

01:22:28.500 or something like that. 0.72

01:22:29.720 So, like, it's okay for a man to do porn.

01:22:32.520 It's okay for a man to do all this stuff. 0.94

01:22:34.180 And the woman has to sit at home and be submissive. 1.00

01:22:37.200 But when a woman's doing it, she doesn't gain the same respect. 0.99

01:22:40.920 And I kind of understand where it's coming from, right?

01:22:43.060 Because biologically, I understand what you're saying, that, like, women aren't naturally designed 1.00

01:22:49.100 to have casual sex. 0.56

01:22:50.200 Like, I kind of agree with you there, but it doesn't, people don't really see it as

01:22:54.980 that anymore.

01:22:55.480 I think we've evolved to, like, it's about mutual respect.

01:22:59.380 Like, for example, if there's a dual-income household, why do I owe you submission if we're 0.71

01:23:04.840 making the same amount of money?

01:23:06.260 Why do I owe you submission if we're splitting chores?

01:23:09.040 Like, that doesn't make any sense. 0.85

01:23:10.120 Who says it's okay for men to be porn stars?

01:23:13.800 Like, I don't know.

01:23:14.760 I mean, I just, that's, like, the general opinion that I thought, like, the red pill community

01:23:19.240 kind of happened.

01:23:19.880 I mean, it's true.

01:23:20.600 People are not as hard on men.

01:23:22.920 Like, oh, when you're a kid in high school and you're a guy, for example, you sleep around

01:23:27.540 with a bunch of girls.

01:23:28.440 Everyone's like, go, bro. 1.00

01:23:29.640 But if a girl sleeps around, oh, she's a slut. 1.00

01:23:31.600 It's bad. 1.00

01:23:32.660 So, I get what you're saying.

01:23:33.880 Yeah. 0.99

01:23:35.060 But at the same time, it's like, I, listen, I'm a sex addict. 0.97

01:23:38.840 So, I agree.

01:23:39.440 I think, I think sex addiction can definitely be a byproduct of this, like, hookup culture

01:23:45.120 and casual sex.

01:23:45.960 Yeah. 0.70

01:23:46.180 Absolutely.

01:23:47.040 Like, it was for me.

01:23:48.780 It was, sex addiction for me was probably the only thing I got addicted to where nobody 0.99

01:23:54.000 could say shit to me because I would hide behind feminism. 1.00

01:23:57.040 And I'd be like, it's women empowerment, y'all. 1.00

01:23:59.400 Like, go.

01:24:00.000 Like, let's, you know. 0.98

01:24:01.040 And nobody said, I mean, people still call me a whore, obviously. 0.91

01:24:03.800 There was consequences for it.

01:24:05.180 But, generally, like, nobody really felt like they could call me out on it.

01:24:09.600 So, I see both sides.

01:24:12.040 But at the same time, it's like, I don't know.

01:24:14.440 Do you think feminism today is a problem? 1.00

01:24:17.020 Is toxic?

01:24:17.740 Yes.

01:24:17.940 I don't think.

01:24:19.580 Why?

01:24:20.960 It's literally, like, a supremacist group.

01:24:24.120 It is.

01:24:24.640 It's a cult.

01:24:25.580 It's a cult. 1.00

01:24:26.320 Feminism is just crazy. 1.00

01:24:27.280 Absolutely. 1.00

01:24:28.120 It's crazy.

01:24:28.140 It's rooted in brokenness.

01:24:29.520 Wait, somebody disagrees here, right?

01:24:33.040 I mean.

01:24:33.680 Well, I don't think.

01:24:35.060 Wait, you agree?

01:24:35.880 I agree.

01:24:36.500 I think people take it.

01:24:37.940 Noah Wolf is super chatted 169 New Zealand dollars and 99 cents.

01:24:42.620 Thank you, Noah.

01:24:43.540 Guy on right.

01:24:44.920 Rate every girl one to ten.

01:24:47.000 Ten means you'd hit if you can.

01:24:49.000 One means you would never.

01:24:50.820 So, I assume that's Mick.

01:24:53.120 Is he wanting me to rate all the women here?

01:24:54.960 He wants you to.

01:24:56.020 Maybe before we have you do that.

01:24:57.540 We'll have you do that.

01:24:59.860 By the way, thank you for the New Zealand 169, man.

01:25:03.560 Thank you.

01:25:04.640 Stifler asked the ladies to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten.

01:25:07.140 Then, Mick, we will have you do the ratings.

01:25:10.960 Let's start with, I don't know.

01:25:18.180 Okay, we'll just start over here.

01:25:19.860 We're rating ourselves one through ten.

01:25:21.620 Wait.

01:25:21.840 Or.

01:25:25.060 Start with.

01:25:26.460 I don't know how to start.

01:25:27.540 Yeah, okay.

01:25:28.460 Sure.

01:25:30.240 Your looks on a scale of one to ten.

01:25:31.860 A ten.

01:25:34.640 I genuinely don't know.

01:25:36.640 Like, I genuinely have no idea.

01:25:39.740 Well, if you just had to throw a number out there.

01:25:43.000 Four, I guess.

01:25:44.100 I don't know.

01:25:44.760 Okay.

01:25:45.320 Yeah.

01:25:45.900 It's like a seven.

01:25:47.900 Seven.

01:25:48.420 Okay.

01:25:49.880 Keeley.

01:25:50.680 K-Dawg. 1.00

01:25:51.080 He can't rate himself?

01:25:52.480 Let's ask the ladies. 1.00

01:25:53.620 Okay.

01:25:54.040 Well, I would say seven, but sometimes ten, because I feel like, I don't know, it's you.

01:25:59.400 Seven, but sometimes ten.

01:26:01.340 Yeah.

01:26:03.340 I think, like, six, but, like, a seven on a good day.

01:26:06.580 Okay.

01:26:07.820 Yeah, I rate myself a six, because I have crooked teeth.

01:26:11.960 I'd say six without makeup, seven with makeup.

01:26:17.080 A solid 8.3, because there's always room to be better.

01:26:21.380 Okay.

01:26:22.160 Solid 8.3.

01:26:23.300 Okay.

01:26:23.540 So, ten, four, seven.

01:26:28.020 Yeah, okay.

01:26:29.500 Mick, they want, he wants you to rate all the girls, so let's just try to run through

01:26:33.300 it quick.

01:26:33.760 Okay, well, first off, I think all of you are lovely, and I don't want to do this, so

01:26:39.020 just so you know, but he's wanting it, and I'm forced, my hands are tied.

01:26:43.580 I would say all of you are pretty accurate on what you gave yourself, or what I would

01:26:48.640 rate you.

01:26:49.120 I would say, I would say you could give yourself at least a six or seven.

01:26:53.620 You don't need to be, like, not knowing.

01:26:55.940 I was playing a seven.

01:26:56.620 You know, like, I would say, you know, a nine or a ten, you know, a six or a seven.

01:27:03.600 Obviously, you're my ten, of course.

01:27:06.160 I would say, like, a nine.

01:27:08.260 I would say a nine.

01:27:11.860 I would say, you know, like, eight and a half, yeah, eight and a half, like you said.

01:27:16.460 I would say about that.

01:27:18.340 What about Ryan?

01:27:19.040 What's he?

01:27:19.700 I think he's a ten when it comes to men, especially because...

01:27:22.760 Oh, wait.

01:27:23.280 So the girls are less than Brian?

01:27:25.040 No, no, no.

01:27:25.540 What?

01:27:25.940 Because here's the thing.

01:27:27.160 He's successful.

01:27:28.560 He has a good beard, and he dresses nice, and he carries himself well.

01:27:35.540 And as a man, that's important.

01:27:38.440 It's true.

01:27:39.160 All right.

01:27:39.580 Okay, so I'm actually fascinated by the fact, though, that everybody at this table thinks

01:27:43.580 that feminism is a scam. 1.00

01:27:45.040 Yeah, let's go back to feminism. 1.00

01:27:46.280 It really is.

01:27:46.980 Yeah, I agree with some things, right?

01:27:50.220 Like, as far as...

01:27:53.640 I don't believe in equality between men and women. 1.00

01:27:56.740 I believe in equity, right?

01:27:58.260 There's a difference.

01:27:59.240 So, like, there's place for women in the workplace, right? 1.00

01:28:02.180 But it's just in different areas.

01:28:04.820 Can you explain the difference to us, what you think the difference between equality and

01:28:08.240 equity is?

01:28:08.720 Yeah, so equality is, like, the same treatment given to, like, both sexes, right?

01:28:12.500 So that doesn't make any sense, because are men and women the same?

01:28:15.240 Obviously not.

01:28:16.420 So equity is giving the same opportunities to equate to each person's ability.

01:28:23.400 I think you might have them switched.

01:28:25.480 Generally speaking, equity is the end result is always the same.

01:28:29.540 So typically, countries that implement economic equity, for example, will bring the ceiling

01:28:35.240 down to make sure everybody's at the same ending point.

01:28:38.260 Whereas equality is giving everyone the same opportunity, and what you do with it, you

01:28:42.020 can run with, regardless of who you are.

01:28:43.980 Well, I, yeah, um, but yeah, like, general equity, equality, like, somewhere, like, I

01:28:51.580 think, I think feminism, as far as that's concerned, like, that makes sense in certain 1.00

01:28:55.840 circumstances, right?

01:28:57.840 So, like, if, if women are getting paid less in the caregiving industry, because it's a, 0.98

01:29:03.140 caregiving is a predominantly woman field, right? 1.00

01:29:05.660 And I hate this, um.

01:29:07.120 No amorphous super chatted 169 New Zealand dollars and 99 cents.

01:29:12.760 Honestly, rate your girl.

01:29:14.800 We lost Brian for this.

01:29:16.100 Honestly, absolutely.

01:29:19.120 Let's keep talking.

01:29:20.200 Okay.

01:29:20.820 I was gonna say.

01:29:21.260 You were in a good thought.

01:29:22.120 Yeah.

01:29:22.660 She's a 10.

01:29:25.200 Um.

01:29:26.120 We all are in our own way.

01:29:27.460 Where, where do you have an issue with modern feminism, then? 1.00

01:29:30.540 Oh, I mean, definitely hookup culture. 0.99

01:29:32.440 I think feminism, like, hot take, but I think feminism definitely. 1.00

01:29:37.220 Sivian super chatted 100 dollars.

01:29:39.700 Mick is the perfect example of a man-child. 0.93

01:29:43.580 This failure is entirely on him.

01:29:45.960 Big dreams, no direction.

01:29:48.500 His pattern of not making money, the entire relationship will not change and only continue

01:29:53.380 if she keeps enabling him.

01:29:55.540 He's taken the easy path.

01:29:57.880 I do make money, though.

01:29:59.980 No.

01:30:01.340 We're on feminism now, people. 1.00

01:30:02.800 Also, really quick, I did see while I was away from my chair that one of the TTSs sort 1.00

01:30:13.640 of triggered, but didn't get read.

01:30:14.980 Let me see if it.

01:30:18.100 Had to say it donated 100 dollars.

01:30:20.600 Weird.

01:30:20.740 Mick just googled jobs in SB.

01:30:23.980 You can apply, get a forestry fire job starting at 42K.

01:30:28.400 You need to get off here and apply.

01:30:30.620 Jobs are out there.

01:30:32.420 Also, Isabel, you are absolutely gorgeous.

01:30:35.740 Thank you.

01:30:36.200 That's very kind.

01:30:38.600 Sorry that it didn't trigger the first time it came through.

01:30:41.800 I'm not sure what happened there, but hey, had to say it.

01:30:44.780 Thank you for the hundred dollar donation, man.

01:30:47.660 I really appreciate it.

01:30:48.320 Thank you.

01:30:48.740 Okay.

01:30:49.180 Hookup culture.

01:30:49.900 Go.

01:30:50.040 Yes, yes, yes.

01:30:50.580 Yeah, so hookup culture for sure. 0.88

01:30:52.760 It makes men want to unalive themselves.

01:30:55.880 It makes women really self-conscious. 1.00

01:30:59.040 It's a horrible thing.

01:31:01.880 My ex has really, really bad mental health problems, and I think I said something on my

01:31:06.640 podcast, don't ever date a man under 25. 1.00

01:31:09.420 It was really stupid and generalizing, but don't ever date a man under 25. 1.00

01:31:13.320 All he's looking for is sex. 1.00

01:31:14.620 He's going to screw you over. 0.99

01:31:15.480 And he's like, you have to understand that when you make these generalizations about 0.77

01:31:18.900 men and how men do this and men do that, it makes me want to unalive myself.

01:31:24.700 And the male suicide rate is freaking skyrocketing.

01:31:27.600 It is so sad.

01:31:29.040 I even want to make another episode about men's mental health.

01:31:31.920 And I know most of this chat thinks I'm a hoe and they don't agree with me or whatever.

01:31:36.920 But regardless, I care about you guys and I want you here and alive, you know, so I just

01:31:44.800 think that males unalive rates are like not talked about enough as well.

01:31:48.640 Women too. 1.00

01:31:49.440 And what's really crazy is the CDC just put out a study a few weeks ago.

01:31:52.540 We can argue about the CDC later in the chat, just forewarning for that.

01:31:56.440 Yeah.

01:31:56.880 But teenage girls right now, more than ever before, are starting to struggle more than

01:32:02.200 teenage boys in modern America, particularly with mental health.

01:32:05.580 So teenage girls are starting to see higher levels of anxiety, higher levels of depression.

01:32:09.540 And in 2021, one in three teenage girls seriously considered taking their own, deleting themselves,

01:32:16.160 unaliving themselves because of the culture that we've created right now, which is so ironic,

01:32:21.200 right?

01:32:21.420 Like, wouldn't you think that this culture that's all about women doing whatever they want and 1.00

01:32:26.320 women having any pathway to success that they want to embrace? 1.00

01:32:29.780 We say that we live in this world. 0.99

01:32:31.360 And at the same time, the next generation of women, Gen Z women, are so unbelievably miserable 1.00

01:32:37.200 and unhappy and discontent in today's society that they don't even want to be here. 0.84

01:32:42.500 Right.

01:32:43.060 And I will say, I'll say this and then I'll be quiet because I know I talk a lot.

01:32:46.180 But I, like in active addiction, I tried to unalive myself five times and that wasn't even

01:32:53.460 substance abuse.

01:32:54.460 That was because I was convinced that no man was ever going to take me seriously or love 0.79

01:32:59.740 me because all they wanted from me was sex. 0.87

01:33:02.060 Seriously.

01:33:03.020 And I said, some part of me is still convinced of that because thought it was going to work

01:33:06.400 out with this guy.

01:33:07.020 It happened to not.

01:33:07.940 But I'm holding out hope and I'm waiting.

01:33:10.640 You know what I mean?

01:33:11.260 But it's, it's a real thing.

01:33:12.740 So, yeah.

01:33:13.540 Well, so you said that you think men might not want to take you seriously because.

01:33:18.740 Because of how many people I've slept with.

01:33:21.720 Yeah.

01:33:21.880 Because you guys say that a lot on the show and so I was like, oh, I guess that's what

01:33:24.900 guys don't want.

01:33:25.540 Well, I mean, that's kind of where I was going with it because you, you said that your concern

01:33:30.060 was men only wanting you for sex. 0.64

01:33:33.220 However, I would say that's probably not. 0.55

01:33:36.420 Oh, thank you.

01:33:38.120 Mark Wavius. 1.00

01:33:40.840 You're a manlet chasing your silly dreams. 1.00

01:33:44.200 Meanwhile, she's got DeMarcus making a human skin sock out of her innards. 1.00

01:33:48.820 Oh, my. 0.97

01:33:49.360 Inside my boxing gym, I'll get you on the right track in under five rounds.

01:33:54.300 After that, Raggedy Ann will do exactly as you demand. 1.00

01:33:58.120 Why do you keep calling me Raggedy Ann?

01:33:59.720 You're just a hater.

01:34:01.000 Oh, well, whatever.

01:34:02.620 I think it's cute.

01:34:03.860 I don't know.

01:34:04.180 I mean, I was Raggedy Ann in Halloween one year.

01:34:08.320 I mean, I wouldn't mind going to your gym and sprawling a little bit.

01:34:14.100 I started recently taking boxing lessons and everything.

01:34:18.200 So if you want to fight, let's fight.

01:34:20.560 Oh, oh, my.

01:34:21.780 Oh, wait.

01:34:22.900 We're going to we're going to live stream it.

01:34:24.840 Markwavius Martin versus Mick.

01:34:27.900 BD Mick.

01:34:28.680 As long as we have a, you know, a referee, you know.

01:34:33.220 That's it's a pay-per-view in the works.

01:34:35.540 Wait, so you want to fight someone, babe?

01:34:37.020 Why?

01:34:37.400 What happens?

01:34:38.460 Well, that's that's what men do. 0.99

01:34:40.840 We fight each other.

01:34:42.220 Yo, no amorphous.

01:34:43.500 Thank you for the 90 New Zealand Ranga.

01:34:45.900 By the way, if somebody donates, I'm trying to think how much in New Zealand dollars.

01:34:51.840 I will do the Hakka if it's impressive.

01:34:55.280 I'll do the Hakka for.

01:35:01.240 333 New Zealand dollars.

01:35:03.320 OK.

01:35:03.760 All right. 0.99

01:35:04.480 Fucking cash grab over here. 0.99

01:35:05.740 OK. 1.00

01:35:07.140 Oh, can I say one last thing?

01:35:08.840 I feel like there's such a pressure to be perfect.

01:35:10.860 And I feel like everyone should view themselves as a 10 because life is short.

01:35:14.460 Why do you have to be miserable?

01:35:15.480 Everyone deserves to be happy.

01:35:16.980 That's why I called myself a 10.

01:35:20.200 It's all about confidence.

01:35:21.740 Confidence will get you anywhere in life.

01:35:24.860 Really?

01:35:25.320 But the reason I didn't call myself a 10.

01:35:26.540 Hold on.

01:35:27.140 The reason I didn't say I was a 10 is because people will roast you in the chat if you call

01:35:30.740 yourself a 10, no matter how good looking you are.

01:35:32.840 Yeah, but I don't care.

01:35:34.300 You know what?

01:35:34.640 You're right.

01:35:35.040 We're all freaking 10s up in here.

01:35:36.800 All of us are 10s and we all deserve to be happy.

01:35:38.980 We're all beautiful.

01:35:39.980 Exactly.

01:35:41.580 Stop it.

01:35:42.860 Get some help.

01:35:43.600 Wait, so you said confidence can get you anywhere.

01:35:48.220 Absolutely.

01:35:50.560 Or what was it exactly that you said?

01:35:53.660 Confidence.

01:35:54.380 Like confidence in general, just like, I don't know.

01:35:58.740 If you're confident about going into a job interview, you're going to get it.

01:36:02.640 If you're confident about being pretty, you're pretty.

01:36:05.000 Well, I mean, when it comes to your physical attractiveness, there is an outside component

01:36:12.420 of that.

01:36:14.860 So how people view you, you know, you could, for example, like you said, just be confident.

01:36:21.360 Well, I would love to, you know, get paid tens of millions of dollars to go play in the NBA.

01:36:27.920 I don't, no matter how confident I am, that's just not gonna.

01:36:31.620 I would say I'm talking more personality confidence wise than physical appearance.

01:36:38.060 Wait, I'm confused.

01:36:41.560 You said that confidence can get you anywhere.

01:36:44.400 Yeah.

01:36:46.980 Can it though?

01:36:49.380 What makes you opposed to that?

01:36:50.140 Like, what if someone without legs wants to, you know.

01:36:54.820 That's why I was saying not physically.

01:36:56.540 Oh, not physically.

01:36:57.120 Like personality wise, like, and in your brain, if you're confident about something, like if

01:37:02.040 you're confident about getting a good grade on a test, most likely you, it's kind of like.

01:37:07.140 Or you could just study.

01:37:08.420 That might be.

01:37:09.520 Yeah, exactly.

01:37:09.980 Like after you study, if you're confident about getting a good grade on a test, you're

01:37:13.760 going to most likely get a good grade on that test.

01:37:16.060 What if you don't study yet?

01:37:17.300 You still have confidence.

01:37:19.320 Do you think you'll still get a good grade?

01:37:20.640 It's better than not having any confidence at all.

01:37:22.340 Well, I'm not sure if it would have, if it would have any impact on your actual test

01:37:29.020 score.

01:37:31.500 If your confidence, I don't suspect, let's say you take two people that one is a wreck

01:37:37.440 and the other is confident.

01:37:38.900 I can't imagine it would have much of an impact on your test score if neither of them have studied

01:37:44.240 the material.

01:37:45.400 Yeah, that's.

01:37:46.160 No, we're all tens, Gator. 0.99

01:37:47.220 Screw you. 0.99

01:37:47.660 I'm hot and you're not and you're just a hater and we're all hot. 1.00

01:37:49.880 Who, Gator? 0.88

01:37:51.300 Got it.

01:37:51.780 Yeah, he's hating.

01:37:52.680 He's literally hating on all of us for no reason.

01:37:54.920 My question is.

01:37:55.660 We're up here and you're not, so.

01:37:56.980 I think everybody's beautiful, but like it is a little different when you are.

01:38:00.040 Hold on.

01:38:00.620 Everybody's physically beautiful.

01:38:02.720 Can we.

01:38:03.140 Okay, wait.

01:38:03.640 Let me finish my thought though.

01:38:05.300 I think everybody is beautiful in their own way, but then when we're all together, there

01:38:09.520 is a difference.

01:38:11.000 It's because it's like competition in a way.

01:38:13.480 That's what I'm saying.

01:38:13.980 The world is a competition.

01:38:15.340 It's toxic.

01:38:16.260 Very.

01:38:16.560 Like, why don't we care?

01:38:17.700 Why don't we even rate ourselves at all?

01:38:19.320 Who cares?

01:38:19.820 We know that there's, listen, I understand if I was an exceptionally attractive human

01:38:24.660 being, I would be getting modeling contracts with Vogue.

01:38:27.340 I'm not stupid.

01:38:28.320 I don't think I'm ugly.

01:38:29.600 You know what I mean?

01:38:30.440 But like, I don't think I'm exceptionally attractive.

01:38:33.100 But like, why does it matter?

01:38:34.700 I think humans, like, judgment is there for a reason.

01:38:40.460 Yeah, but.

01:38:41.660 And that's just like with everything though.

01:38:42.620 Yeah, judge people on their character, not how they can't control how they look.

01:38:44.840 Yeah.

01:38:45.040 Oh, 100%.

01:38:45.640 But again, judgment is a human characteristic and we do it all the time.

01:38:49.900 Yeah.

01:38:50.020 Prenches.

01:38:50.580 Yeah, for sure.

01:38:51.200 We should try not to judge people on the way they look.

01:38:52.820 Look, if someone like.

01:38:53.900 I'm just saying though, it's a natural instinct and we all do it.

01:38:58.100 It honestly makes you who you are.

01:39:00.120 Like, I would say for you guys as a couple, I bet you guys get judged 24 seven. 0.99

01:39:05.520 They can suck it, so I'm better than them. 0.99

01:39:06.760 Yeah, exactly. 1.00

01:39:07.360 When I met her, I definitely found her to be attractive, but I still was looking for how 0.99

01:39:13.380 do we connect as human beings and do we like each other's, you know, the way we're reacting

01:39:19.360 and when we have long conversations late at night, do we get any meaning out of that?

01:39:24.420 I think men still want that connection with women.

01:39:27.520 There are certainly men out there that just want a hot girl and that's it. 0.74

01:39:31.040 Yeah, but the physical attractiveness had to come first.

01:39:34.220 Well, of course, but it's everything else that keeps the people together.

01:39:38.400 Right, but that has to come first.

01:39:39.540 Look at Amber Heard and Johnny Depp. 0.99

01:39:41.060 She's good looking, but she's a horrible person. 1.00

01:39:43.700 Wait, what? 0.99

01:39:44.200 I'm so confused how.

01:39:45.300 We're talking about appearance, right?

01:39:47.500 Just saying though, like judgment is there for a reason.

01:39:49.900 Yeah.

01:39:50.880 You can't keep somebody with a beautiful look.

01:39:54.020 You have to have everything else.

01:39:54.980 To go to your point, not everybody is beautiful.

01:39:59.040 Not everybody is a 10.

01:40:00.420 Okay, well, 100%, but I do think that it's important for everyone to like,

01:40:04.280 love themselves in some way, right?

01:40:05.560 Because if you're like staring at yourself in the mirror and you're like checking yourself

01:40:08.100 out before you go into the sea of 100 attractive people, right?

01:40:11.960 You have to love yourself at some point and be like, yeah, I'm kind of cute, you know?

01:40:15.300 Yeah, what's the point of living if you're like, oh, I hate myself.

01:40:17.820 I'm out of 10.

01:40:18.680 You have to have some self-love.

01:40:19.360 No, screw that.

01:40:19.820 Love yourself.

01:40:20.400 Be a 10 for yourself.

01:40:21.380 Look in the mirror.

01:40:21.840 Oh my God.

01:40:22.480 The show is not about you.

01:40:23.980 Let other people talk, please.

01:40:25.500 It's about everybody.

01:40:26.240 I like when Brittany, you know, you guys know Brittany Renner, right?

01:40:29.440 Like the infamous, you know, she's like incel nightmare, but she, they like hate Brittany 1.00

01:40:36.080 Renner for some reason.

01:40:37.100 But she said something that I really loved and she said, everybody is special to somebody.

01:40:41.360 You know what I mean?

01:40:42.000 Like we're all beautiful to somebody.

01:40:44.480 It doesn't, so therefore we're all beautiful.

01:40:46.260 Or you could have a pessimistic attitude at it and say, nobody's beautiful and nobody's

01:40:50.820 special.

01:40:51.380 It's like a, it's like a philosophical.

01:40:53.460 Scott Aragon donated $100.

01:40:55.660 Thank you, Scott.

01:40:56.420 Shout out to the whatever podcast for everything.

01:40:59.280 A bit off course, but question to Isabel.

01:41:01.940 Having a successful career, do you believe to let your man lead the household?

01:41:06.480 Be submissive to him?

01:41:08.140 Would you forgive him if he was to cheat?

01:41:10.260 Wow.

01:41:10.640 Those are three very distinctly different questions.

01:41:12.880 So I'll try to answer them as best as I can.

01:41:15.080 And yes, I do have a successful career.

01:41:17.200 I plan on continuing that successful career after we get married.

01:41:20.680 And as a parent, I grew up with two parents who worked in the home and my mom actually

01:41:24.920 traveled for her job the vast majority of my childhood, like five days a week for seven

01:41:28.740 years.

01:41:29.020 So I was very used to both parents taking on an active role in that capacity, but I am

01:41:35.180 extremely old fashioned in that I do believe that my husband will be the leader of our family

01:41:40.760 in many different capacities, largely spiritually and leading us in faith, which I believe to

01:41:44.840 be the foundation of a marriage, of building a family, and of a relationship that lasts,

01:41:50.020 which is incredibly rare these days and is something I feel incredibly lucky to be starting

01:41:54.740 out in the journey for.

01:41:56.680 Second question, would I ever forgive him if he were to cheat?

01:42:00.540 Forgiveness and the health of that relationship are two different things.

01:42:04.820 Perhaps I would forgive him.

01:42:06.120 I don't think he ever would.

01:42:07.200 I have been cheated on by many significant others before I met my fiance, and ultimately

01:42:12.120 that always led to the demise of the relationship, and it just couldn't survive beyond that.

01:42:15.940 I am a huge monogamist at heart.

01:42:18.040 I want undying commitment from the person that I am dating and that I'm going to spend the

01:42:22.340 rest of my life with.

01:42:23.460 I give that to them, and I expect that in return.

01:42:25.960 And I think our society's playing with that boundary is ultimately leading to a complete

01:42:32.100 breakdown of healthy relationships.

01:42:33.820 It's why you're seeing the vast majority of Gen Z unhappy in their relationships. 1.00

01:42:37.660 It's why we have the lowest marriage rate since America began recording marriage rates 0.99

01:42:41.360 in the 1860s, and we have the highest divorce rate as well.

01:42:45.920 So we're unhappy when we're dating.

01:42:47.500 We're not getting married.

01:42:48.540 If we do get married, we end up getting divorced.

01:42:50.640 And as a result, Pew Research has found that our generation is just taking ourselves off the

01:42:54.540 market entirely.

01:42:55.560 We decided it's not even worth it.

01:42:57.240 So I think that's a huge component.

01:42:59.320 Are you talking about that recently released data from Pew?

01:43:02.240 I mean, there's a whole bunch of data points, but the big one that I took from it was,

01:43:07.400 I think it was comparing men and women between the ages of 18 to 29, and they found that women

01:43:14.640 between the ages of 18 to 29 were twice as likely to be in relationships than men in

01:43:20.340 that same age group.

01:43:21.440 Separate study, but interesting study.

01:43:22.400 So the first one that I referenced, the majority of Gen Zers, if you are in a relationship,

01:43:27.480 you are unhappy.

01:43:28.120 I think the figure from Pew, if I'm remembering correctly, and obviously I don't have it right

01:43:31.140 in front of me, was about 73% of us who are dating are unhappy, really unhappy in our

01:43:35.780 relationships.

01:43:36.620 Those of us who aren't dating are intentionally not putting ourselves on the dating market

01:43:40.420 for either casual or committed relationships.

01:43:43.020 But the study that you're referencing was fascinating.

01:43:45.180 That came out a few weeks ago, that women our age are more likely to be in relationships 0.65

01:43:49.880 than men, which makes you think, who is everybody dating?

01:43:54.520 At the end of the day, if the women aren't dating the men, then how did that statistic 1.00

01:43:58.360 end up coming to fruition?

01:43:59.940 What crosses my mind is, I think there's perhaps two explanations.

01:44:03.000 One, women in that age group are dating older men, 30 to 40.

01:44:08.140 But I think the bigger thing is, is that women are, maybe think they're in a relationship 1.00

01:44:13.140 or are in a relationship, and they're sharing higher quality guys.

01:44:17.800 So, and there's this concept called hypergamy, women are all chasing after the top tier of 1.00

01:44:23.260 men.

01:44:23.640 So a lot of women are happier sharing a top tier guy than settling for a guy that's actually 1.00

01:44:30.660 on their level.

01:44:34.060 So, oh, sorry, go ahead.

01:44:36.280 I was going to say, I agree with you.

01:44:38.780 I like, I think I made like a TikTok the other day that was like, get yourself an average man,

01:44:42.780 ladies or something like that, because like the majority of your audience, I would say 0.51

01:44:48.000 is average males, right?

01:44:50.200 I don't know, there's some chads.

01:44:51.760 Well, yeah, but it's very, it's like what, less than 5% of men are making like a hundred

01:44:56.880 grand a year in America or something like that.

01:44:58.860 Like it's, it's really low.

01:45:00.860 So most people are average.

01:45:03.060 Yeah.

01:45:03.300 Yeah.

01:45:03.480 Just average.

01:45:04.320 Like, so I think we need to normalize the fact that like, if you get in a relationship,

01:45:09.380 he doesn't have to be making the same or more money than you, right?

01:45:14.060 Because that's true equality and like equity or whatever, however you want to phrase it.

01:45:19.840 It's about what you give to the relationship.

01:45:22.720 And so whether that's means that you're a stay at home mom and he's out there working full

01:45:26.980 time or vice versa, it's about like everybody doing their part, whether you're man or woman,

01:45:32.960 whatever role you want to play.

01:45:34.720 Yeah.

01:45:34.840 But here's the problem is that you basically, what you have going on in the dating marketplace

01:45:38.580 is average women don't want average guys. 1.00

01:45:42.020 They, and I'm, I'm encouraging them to, that's what my podcast is about.

01:45:45.320 Call me crazy.

01:45:46.340 Why wouldn't average women just decide to stop being average ourselves and raise the standards 1.00

01:45:51.020 for what we expect from the men that we're dating?

01:45:53.360 Sorry.

01:45:54.060 Explain that one more.

01:45:54.700 Rather than settling for an average guy, why wouldn't we just demand more from the men 0.99

01:45:59.880 that we're dating?

01:46:00.440 Because it's very hard for a certain, some people to take.

01:46:04.080 Men respond extremely well to boundaries.

01:46:07.280 They do psychologically.

01:46:08.340 If you set a boundary for a man, either intentionally or unintentionally, he will honor that boundary.

01:46:13.820 For example, if you let him continue getting away with cheating on you and being half in,

01:46:17.500 half out of a relationship, being a situationship for months upon months upon months without

01:46:21.900 ever committing to you or wanting to put a label on things.

01:46:24.600 That's a boundary that you've set saying it's acceptable for me to be treated that way.

01:46:28.820 Why wouldn't we as women, actual feminism, I suppose, to be theoretical about this, demand 1.00

01:46:35.720 more from the men that we're spending our lives with?

01:46:38.460 I agree.

01:46:40.120 And I think, like, here's where the problem lies, right?

01:46:44.580 Men end up leaving.

01:46:46.560 Because if they, that girl that's demanding respect and demanding boundaries, now she becomes 0.62

01:46:52.200 high maintenance to them.

01:46:53.340 This is, again, I'm not even, I'm speaking anecdotally, but I've heard this from men

01:46:57.720 before.

01:46:58.320 Now she's becomes high maintenance, so they're leaving and they're going to find somebody

01:47:02.640 that just says yes all the time.

01:47:04.100 So what if we all did it? 0.80

01:47:05.600 I hear all the time, all men want are sex. 0.99

01:47:08.340 All men want is sex. 1.00

01:47:09.280 All men want is sexual partners. 0.98

01:47:10.620 What if we as women just said, you know, we're not okay with that anymore. 1.00

01:47:14.280 We want more.

01:47:15.820 Wouldn't that force men to rise to that occasion?

01:47:19.180 And similarly, men who might be listening to this, you should be going after women who 1.00

01:47:24.740 expect those boundaries because a rising tide lifts all ships and that's going to improve.

01:47:28.620 Well, the genie, the genie is out of the bottle.

01:47:30.540 I mean, I think we can say in an ideal world, wouldn't it be fantastic if we did away with

01:47:35.520 hookup culture?

01:47:36.100 And I think that is desirable, but I don't think, you know, I think the culture war has

01:47:42.480 honestly been lost to decadence and degeneracy.

01:47:48.980 So like...

01:47:50.420 So there's no hope.

01:47:52.140 I mean, I think the culture war has been lost because you have academia, you have journalism,

01:47:58.600 you have the mainstream media, which is all basically very, and without really going so

01:48:03.720 much into politics, it's very left-leaning.

01:48:06.660 You know, every single university in the country has a feminist studies, a gender studies, a woman 1.00

01:48:11.140 studies program.

01:48:12.460 I mean, well, now this is getting into men's rights.

01:48:14.500 There's no equivalent men's studies or men's rights things in education.

01:48:21.440 We're two blocks away from UCSB, University of California, Santa Barbara.

01:48:25.740 It's the frequently ranked number one party school in the U.S., major hookup culture here.

01:48:31.280 And I would say across most universities and colleges, there is a major hookup culture.

01:48:36.600 And then beyond college, there's a major hookup culture where it's just casual sex, situationships,

01:48:42.240 all this stuff.

01:48:43.160 I don't think, I really think it's going to be a challenge to walk that back.

01:48:47.620 I don't see how...

01:48:48.840 Okay, so how about instead of walking it back, we as a generation and as a society acknowledge

01:48:54.220 we are at the end of our rope.

01:48:56.040 That we've never struggled more as a society from a cultural perspective than we are right

01:49:00.840 now, despite living in arguably the most progressive and advanced society ever, we're miserable.

01:49:06.520 So much so that a third of us as women in our teenage years and a significantly higher

01:49:12.940 portion of men in their young adult years say we don't even want to be here at all.

01:49:16.840 So maybe rather than walking back, we choose a new path forward.

01:49:21.540 Well, but so...

01:49:22.840 And you consider yourself pretty conservative, right?

01:49:24.740 Yeah.

01:49:25.040 Secrets out.

01:49:25.680 I'm extremely conservative.

01:49:26.720 Yeah.

01:49:27.320 Shocker.

01:49:27.760 I mean, one thing that occurred to me is, I mean, social media and dating apps, I think

01:49:34.560 that these are majorly at the forefront of hookup culture, all this stuff.

01:49:41.700 So government intervention, like how do you unwind the damage that social media and dating

01:49:51.140 apps has done?

01:49:51.980 Well, that's the problem.

01:49:52.940 You can't unwind, in my opinion.

01:49:54.520 And this is the really hard reality of where we go from here.

01:49:57.500 I work a lot with generations older than us.

01:50:00.340 And I cannot tell you how often every day I hear Gen Z is beyond all hope. 0.99

01:50:05.460 Gen Z is destroying America. 1.00

01:50:07.200 Your generation will be the end of us. 1.00

01:50:09.180 When in reality, somebody else built this world that we have grown up in and have really

01:50:13.360 struggled to come into adulthood in and now has been dropped in our laps and we have no

01:50:16.680 idea what to do with it moving forward.

01:50:18.900 Technology is a quintessential experience of what our day-to-day life is like, what reality

01:50:23.860 is like.

01:50:24.340 It involves our school, our jobs, our dating relationships.

01:50:26.820 Our sex is happening online.

01:50:28.880 Let's just be totally honest.

01:50:29.740 We've had a really long conversation about that on this podcast.

01:50:32.500 I don't know that you can walk it back.

01:50:34.520 I think we as a society would have to come to a cultural conversation point and change minds

01:50:40.200 and culture from the inside out rather than regulatory measures to do that by saying, this is not

01:50:45.660 working.

01:50:46.360 We need to do more.

01:50:48.160 I sound crazy that I'm like one of the only people in my own life that has never downloaded

01:50:52.720 a dating app, nor have I ever wanted to.

01:50:54.820 I've never had a desire to.

01:50:56.240 I don't seek out opportunities to watch adult content.

01:50:59.480 I don't surround myself with opportunities to do that because I've set a different standard

01:51:03.160 for my life and encourage the other people in my life to do that as well.

01:51:06.020 Imagine if we all banded together, regardless of politics, where everybody is seeking to

01:51:10.460 divide us on this issue, and start today by saying, this is not working.

01:51:15.340 Generation Z is falling apart at the seams.

01:51:17.440 Clearly, our dating life is a great place to start that needs more help than almost any

01:51:22.220 other aspect of our culture.

01:51:23.820 What can we do differently, returning to traditional values but in a new way, that would take us to

01:51:29.040 a stronger future?

01:51:30.360 I don't think it can be undone, honestly.

01:51:32.580 I think it's just going to be the status quo.

01:51:34.340 I mean, you have basically the destruction of the nuclear family.

01:51:39.940 That's gone.

01:51:40.720 You have feminism. 1.00

01:51:41.340 It's not gone yet.

01:51:42.280 People are attempting to.

01:51:43.580 It's not gone, but I mean, isn't it the majority of people are being raised in single mother

01:51:48.980 households?

01:51:50.380 People say it's acceptable.

01:51:51.500 The majority of Americans say it's acceptable for people to hear.

01:51:53.780 Well, that and the study of single mother households.

01:51:57.960 I mean, you're like 75% or something like that more likely to drop out of high school,

01:52:03.080 like, you know, more percentage like to go or get arrested, like all that kind of stuff.

01:52:06.960 Like, single mother households are like not good for kids. 1.00

01:52:10.240 They're just not.

01:52:11.080 I understand there's circumstances where some men leave, and there's nothing you can do

01:52:16.100 about it, but that's the thing, like, that's why I'm divided on that issue, because if we

01:52:23.780 make this general statement, like, you know, keep the nuclear family together, but if he

01:52:27.540 leaves, it's, how is it her fault, you know?

01:52:30.720 And then you could say, like, well, she picked a bad guy, but.

01:52:33.080 Right.

01:52:33.440 Well, there are ideal and unideal circumstances.

01:52:35.700 Right.

01:52:36.000 For sure.

01:52:36.120 But I guess just more generally, not pigeonholing ourselves in the single parent household

01:52:40.120 conversation, I'm curious what all of you would say, do you think that our generation

01:52:46.020 is happy?

01:52:47.100 Do you think that we're thriving?

01:52:48.520 Do you think that this progressive society that we've spent so many decades trying to

01:52:52.720 build a utopia to live in is working?

01:52:55.520 I don't think any, like, previous generations were either happy.

01:52:59.040 I wouldn't say happy either.

01:53:01.420 Like, obviously, Gen Z's, like, hookup culture, blah, blah, blah, they're so blindsided by that, 0.96

01:53:07.060 but it's because it's just, like, occupying them, like, living in a college town, living

01:53:11.480 here in Isla Vista, I go out, I see people have meaningless hookups, all this stuff, but

01:53:17.140 it, to them, it just, like, that's what college to them is about, and that is kind of, like,

01:53:21.360 ingrained into their minds from previous generations of people, too.

01:53:26.500 So how do we stop it?

01:53:27.940 We can't.

01:53:29.120 Yeah, I want to have faith that we can, like, do a drastic turnaround, but I don't think

01:53:33.480 it is.

01:53:33.840 It's, uh, the internet in itself, there's so much privacy of what somebody could do on

01:53:37.560 their phone anyway that, like, I think we're too far gone, honestly.

01:53:41.620 I also genuinely believe that people don't care anymore.

01:53:46.120 Yeah, well, one, I think one big issue is, so let's talk a little bit about divorce, too.

01:53:51.320 So there, I think there's really two solutions to the divorce issue is either the, okay, so

01:53:58.800 men are disincentivized to get married because of the financial risks that are involved, and,

01:54:04.260 you know, men are waking up to the fact that 50% of marriages and the divorce, 80% of marriages

01:54:09.480 are initiated, or sorry, excuse me, 80% of divorces are initiated by women. 0.88

01:54:14.600 So one of two things, or both things, have to happen.

01:54:17.140 Either we, as a society, we need to re-stigmatize getting divorced, which right now, there is

01:54:24.240 no, there's no longer any social stigma.

01:54:27.160 There used to be.

01:54:27.880 There's no longer any social repercussions to getting divorced.

01:54:32.040 That's not going to happen.

01:54:33.080 So the only thing that can happen is we need to change the marriage laws to re-incentivize 0.98

01:54:38.880 men to want to get married.

01:54:39.860 So there needs to, there can no longer be, and that might come to the detriment of some

01:54:46.280 women because a woman who does fully sacrifice her career to raise a family, there is to some 0.52

01:54:53.880 degree a legitimate argument to be made to continue supporting her in the event of a divorce.

01:54:58.700 However, I mean, I don't want to get too far down that.

01:55:02.000 There are some arguments to be made there.

01:55:03.580 There are definitely arguments for child support because it's for the benefit of the child.

01:55:07.080 However, the way it's currently is women are incentivized to get divorced because there's 1.00

01:55:12.640 a financial reward.

01:55:14.120 So you never sign a contract with someone who is rewarded for breaking it.

01:55:18.480 And if the male's a breadwinner, the woman's not, and there's a dispute in the relationship, 0.97

01:55:23.300 it can be very tempting to be like, well, if I divorce him, I get this much money and I

01:55:27.580 don't have to deal with him anymore.

01:55:28.600 So I think that probably the marriage laws have to be rewritten. 0.54

01:55:32.700 However, um, go ahead.

01:55:36.980 I was going to say, so the law doesn't specifically say, um, you know, women get all the money 1.00

01:55:43.000 in divorce, right?

01:55:43.960 It says whoever is making the most income is getting alimony.

01:55:49.120 So yes, if the woman's, you're right. 0.93

01:55:50.760 If the woman's the breadwinner, then, and she gets divorced, if she gets divorced, then she 1.00

01:55:55.880 might be paying alimony payments to the men.

01:55:57.600 However, the stats also further show, I think it's like 97, it's either 90 or 97% of alimony

01:56:03.100 payments go from men to women.

01:56:05.780 So there's that.

01:56:07.040 And then, uh, yeah, thank you, man.

01:56:11.480 Hello, Brian.

01:56:12.960 You're a legend.

01:56:13.840 Keep up the work.

01:56:14.960 Do you think making $1 million a month can get me almost any girl in America?

01:56:19.940 Dubai oil slash Prince, by the way, you're a oil geek Prince, by the way.

01:56:26.840 Um, hold on.

01:56:27.780 I got something for you.

01:56:29.320 I drink your milkshake.

01:56:32.960 Favorite movie.

01:56:35.080 I drink it up.

01:56:36.500 Yo, thank you, man.

01:56:37.660 Um, a mil, what was it?

01:56:38.500 A million a month?

01:56:39.520 He said?

01:56:40.460 A million a month?

01:56:41.700 We'll get you any girl in the U.S.? 1.00

01:56:43.180 I think you need more than just money.

01:56:46.060 Uh, yeah, you need more than just money in the U.S.

01:56:48.920 For, to, you need a, bro, you need an entire package in the U.S., I think.

01:56:52.600 Um, okay.

01:56:53.500 So to bring it back, we were talking about marriage. 0.99

01:56:55.220 So, um, shit, I... 0.99

01:56:58.000 Divorce. 1.00

01:56:59.200 Divorce.

01:56:59.900 Um, oh, yeah, 97, I think 90%, 97% of alimony payments go from men to women.

01:57:06.420 So, and, but in addition to that, even if, even if the, whether it's the man's the breadwinner,

01:57:12.320 the woman's the breadwinner, there's a bias in the court system against men. 1.00

01:57:15.740 So, I mean, I, I don't know if they've done studies on this, but I'd be curious to say

01:57:20.880 if, even in situations where the woman's the breadwinner, if there's a little more leniency, 1.00

01:57:25.540 perhaps men are less likely to seek alimony.

01:57:27.860 I'm not entirely sure on all those details, but there's 100% of bias in family court systems 0.74

01:57:32.720 when it comes to child custody and when it comes to alimony.

01:57:35.100 Well, I think it depends on where you live, right?

01:57:37.760 Like, if you're living in a predominantly conservative area in America, like Mississippi,

01:57:43.060 or, like, places where, um, I'll just say women's reproductive rights aren't legal, 1.00

01:57:48.460 I think they usually side with the men.

01:57:51.480 Like...

01:57:51.880 No.

01:57:53.600 I don't know.

01:57:54.060 Honestly, in, in some ways, this is, like, kind of a little advanced take on this.

01:57:59.220 Because feminism and conservative, uh, conservatives have a few things in common. 1.00

01:58:05.340 Women need to be protected. 1.00

01:58:06.740 Like, there, there are, it's, it's a different, I'm not sure exactly how to articulate this,

01:58:12.240 but...

01:58:15.720 What, whatever state you're in, there's a bias against men in the court system.

01:58:20.480 Doesn't matter what state.

01:58:21.400 It's worse than liberal, uh, liberal states, but there is a bias against men in the court system. 0.98

01:58:26.840 So, I agree.

01:58:27.580 Like, I grew up with a single dad for a little bit, right?

01:58:30.100 My mom was, like, she, she had her own issues, and so my, I had a very strong relationship with my dad.

01:58:36.560 My dad's, like, my best friend.

01:58:37.980 So, oh, is there...

01:58:39.840 It's, it's, it's about to come in, so...

01:58:41.980 So, yes.

01:58:43.180 So, he got screwed over by the court system plenty of times.

01:58:46.960 Uh, he tried to file a no-contact order against her, all this kind of stuff.

01:58:50.560 Got denied, got denied, got denied.

01:58:52.040 So, I agree that there's, like, a stigma.

01:58:54.720 But, wouldn't, like...

01:58:58.000 I don't agree with any extremes for anything, but in that scenario, I'd rather have...

01:59:05.560 This is gonna sound so horrible, but...

01:59:07.180 Hold that thought.

01:59:07.740 Speedy, the unsilent super-chatting...

01:59:09.060 Thank you, Speedy.

01:59:09.900 ...100 dollars.

01:59:11.120 As a high-value man myself, I do not want a woman who has slept around. 1.00

01:59:16.360 I want a woman who does not party. 1.00

01:59:18.740 I want a wife, not a 304-party girl. 1.00

01:59:22.480 Your past may be in the past, but that past will tell your future partner what you are capable of.

01:59:28.340 So, can I respond to that?

01:59:29.840 Yeah, I think there's a double, double up here, so...

01:59:32.280 Okay.

01:59:32.520 Maybe just, uh, hold up.

01:59:33.860 Speedy, thank you so much for the, uh, hundred dollars...

01:59:36.400 Oh, thank you, man.

01:59:37.500 So, confused, super-chatted, $100.

01:59:40.780 I'm a college professor, 33, 6 to 1.

01:59:43.700 I'm successful, have a house, honestly speaking, could work on myself a little bit.

01:59:48.380 What do you women want? 1.00

01:59:50.100 Also, I won't get married without a prenuptial agreement.

01:59:53.260 Also, great show.

01:59:55.500 What do women want? 1.00

01:59:58.240 Oh, also, as far as the prenups, just, I mean, they're not bulletproof.

02:00:03.260 Just letting you know.

02:00:04.420 Just be cognizant of that.

02:00:05.960 Yeah, I was gonna say, just really quick to that, if my past predicted my future, I, why wouldn't I relapse?

02:00:12.500 Like, that, that doesn't make any sense.

02:00:14.180 People can change.

02:00:15.040 People are, we're human beings.

02:00:16.420 We have issues.

02:00:17.720 My ex also sold drugs in his past, but do I, does that make him, like, a bad person today?

02:00:24.220 No.

02:00:24.800 You know, people make mistakes.

02:00:26.680 So, I don't know.

02:00:27.700 Are you, are you referencing the fact that you have a high body count?

02:00:30.980 Yeah, yeah.

02:00:31.760 Okay.

02:00:32.220 So, that's just my opinion.

02:00:33.260 Well, people, people can change, but because of your high body count and your previous sexual addiction,

02:00:37.640 that might be a reason or reasons why a man might want to disqualify you or preclude you,

02:00:44.100 preclude pursuing you because of that.

02:00:47.200 And that's fine.

02:00:47.820 That's their personal preference.

02:00:48.880 But if you're gonna use my past against me and say that, you know, like, I can no longer emotionally connect with a man because I've done this, this, and this with however many people, that's just not true.

02:00:59.380 I feel like, when I look at a man that I'm in love with, to this day, I still feel, I, I just, personal experience, I just don't feel that way.

02:01:06.180 But, but, I, the thing is, is that, I mean, sure, that could be the case, but, I mean, they've done, there's studies on this, CDC did the study on this.

02:01:14.680 I mean, the more premarital sexual partners you've had, the greater likelihood of infidelity, the greater likelihood of reporting relationship dissatisfaction, the greater likelihood of divorce, greater likelihood of STD, greater likelihood of, let's see, what else?

02:01:29.340 Because, um, there's, there, you have a more difficult time pair bonding, so.

02:01:34.720 Right, so, but did they do that study with women that were consistently sleeping with multiple and multiple men?

02:01:39.760 Or did they do that study with women that, like, slept with, like, 50 dudes, like, one year, and then they held off for, like, two years straight?

02:01:46.620 Because I feel like the longer, as time goes on, my body's kind of, like, reset itself, it's like I'm getting sober again, you know what I mean?

02:01:52.900 I'm finally seeing with, like, a, a clearer head and not having to sexualize everybody all the time.

02:01:57.180 Because I sexualize women just as much as I did men.

02:01:59.900 Like, it was always a competition thing, right? 0.99

02:02:01.880 Because I was trying to have sex.

02:02:03.520 So, but regardless, you know what I mean?

02:02:05.920 Well, I don't know if this is, and this just occurred to me, so I don't know if it's, if it's a perfect analogy, but you mentioned, well, what if, you know, how soon after the promiscuity, so to speak, did they do the study?

02:02:18.980 I, I'm not sure on that, but I, this might not be an apt analogy.

02:02:24.120 I think, take cigarette smokers, for example.

02:02:28.420 So, if someone's just constantly smoking every single day, and then you do a study on their lungs or something, this might be, this might not even make sense.

02:02:36.400 You do a study on their lungs, and they just smoked a pack yesterday, you know, maybe there's going to be something there.

02:02:40.900 But then if they cease smoking, say, for two years, I think there is some degree of regeneration that your lungs can undertake. 0.98

02:02:47.600 However, your lungs will still be fucked up. 0.89

02:02:50.520 There is some permanent damage there that's not going to be undone. 0.97

02:02:53.040 Yeah, and I'm just, listen, again, I'm not looking for a high-value man, you know what I mean?

02:02:57.760 I'm typically, I would probably find somebody within my league, like, somebody who's in recovery, somebody who knows how, even then, like, some people still can't understand sex addiction.

02:03:06.140 They don't even think it's a real thing, but, like, somebody who's in that field.

02:03:09.700 So, I think generally, in life, people date within their leagues.

02:03:13.080 I don't think men date down or anything like that, but.

02:03:16.320 Actually, well, men, I would say men do date.

02:03:18.860 I don't think they, well, why are, like, models marrying with athletes?

02:03:22.900 And, like, why are celebrities marrying celebrities? 0.98

02:03:26.120 You know what I mean?

02:03:27.040 Or models marrying presidents, or you could say, you know?

02:03:30.440 People date generally within their social class or league.

02:03:34.120 Well, I mean, there's, generally speaking, I say men date across and down socioeconomic hierarchies.

02:03:40.360 Women date across and up socioeconomic hierarchies. 1.00

02:03:45.340 I mean, I don't know.

02:03:46.420 It's just my opinion.

02:03:47.580 Not only date, but men will sleep down. 1.00

02:03:49.500 Most women won't sleep down. 1.00

02:03:50.600 Yeah, men will sleep down for sure, but I don't know. 0.99

02:03:54.320 I just, like.

02:03:54.800 Men date down, too.

02:03:57.280 I don't think so.

02:03:58.560 Men date down?

02:03:59.760 Yeah.

02:04:00.200 No.

02:04:00.540 It's way harder for men to get women than the reverse. 1.00

02:04:03.480 I'll tell you.

02:04:04.180 I've, like, flirted with guys that I know are out of my league, and they don't want anything

02:04:07.680 to do with me.

02:04:08.600 Yeah.

02:04:09.680 Sure.

02:04:10.000 So, they don't date down.

02:04:11.020 Well, it's not a guarantee that all men are going to, but I would say, generally speaking,

02:04:16.020 men will date down. 1.00

02:04:16.820 Oh, are you talking about social class or attractiveness?

02:04:19.640 Both.

02:04:21.340 Okay.

02:04:21.600 Men will definitely, okay, men definitely date down social class.

02:04:25.820 Okay, you could argue that.

02:04:27.060 A man who's a doctor, a man who's attorney will date a barista.

02:04:29.740 A female attorney, a female doctor, she's probably not looking a barista's way. 1.00

02:04:38.340 I, I don't know.

02:04:39.800 Attractiveness, that, that's a bit, I would, I'd say men still date down on that realm, but

02:04:44.680 that, I mean, that's a different.

02:04:45.720 No way, dude.

02:04:46.140 No, come on, Brian.

02:04:47.280 You can't be pulling my leg like that.

02:04:49.700 Well, here.

02:04:50.080 I think they'll screw down.

02:04:51.660 I think they'll screw what, you know how many, I've had, like, Instagram male models drive 1.00

02:04:56.340 all the way up from LA to, like, my house to come get it on with me.

02:05:01.220 What?

02:05:01.380 But would he ever date me?

02:05:02.960 No.

02:05:03.960 Okay, that, that's a fair point, yes.

02:05:05.500 Right.

02:05:05.740 A lot of men will sleep points down, you know, if you think of their equivalent attractiveness 1.00

02:05:12.900 level, yeah, they'll, they'll sleep down for sure, but you're, you're right that in terms

02:05:16.940 of getting commitment from that guy, no.

02:05:20.140 There you go.

02:05:21.220 That was my point.

02:05:22.320 No, so yes, you're right, like, but I would say, but here's the thing, though, is women 1.00

02:05:27.620 don't sleep down looks either, generally speaking.

02:05:31.820 For, for, I would say, and look, there, obviously there's outliers, some, some chick might be drunk 1.00

02:05:36.980 and she hooks up some frog or some shit. 1.00

02:05:37.720 Well, she will if, if she's into the guy, right? 0.98

02:05:40.160 Like, if she has an, okay, but yeah, so, so a guy can make up for it in other ways through

02:05:44.300 status, money, and personality.

02:05:46.660 So if charismatic, men can make up for their bad looks in other ways, whereas I think women, 1.00

02:05:52.660 you know, even if you've got a great personality, it's not gonna shift, shift that much in terms

02:05:57.660 of the kind of sexual pull that, or relationship pull that you can get from men.

02:06:01.900 However, for a woman to sleep with a guy, he needs to be at least attractive enough for 1.00

02:06:08.660 her to consider being in a relationship with him.

02:06:11.180 And when I say attractive, at least attractive enough, physically attractive enough.

02:06:16.780 Oh, yeah, I agree there.

02:06:18.240 He has to at least be physically attractive enough for her to consider being in a relationship

02:06:22.400 with, whereas for men, it's the opposite.

02:06:24.660 Men will sleep with women in terms of their physical appearance that they would never consider 0.99

02:06:29.100 being in a relationship with.

02:06:30.580 Right, but you said that men date down as far as women's appearance, and I said that. 0.97

02:06:34.800 They still do, because some men, yeah, because some men, like, yeah, men, men don't have a

02:06:42.200 lot of options.

02:06:43.360 So women sleep with who they want, men sleep with who they can. 0.97

02:06:46.480 So, and a lot of guys in the space.

02:06:47.920 Well, sleep or date?

02:06:48.960 Well, a lot of guys in this space say women control access to sex, men control access to 0.99

02:06:53.780 relationship.

02:06:54.440 Right.

02:06:54.820 I disagree with that.

02:06:55.720 Only the top tier men control access to relationships.

02:06:58.120 Women still have the power in both of those, because most men, like, a lot of men really

02:07:03.600 struggle to get women, whether that's even to sleep with, or, by the way, the computer's 0.98

02:07:08.640 going to go black, don't worry about it, whether that's to sleep with or to get a relationship 0.64

02:07:13.620 with. 0.99

02:07:14.000 Right.

02:07:14.180 But at the same time, like, sorry, I lost my train of thought.

02:07:20.000 It's all good.

02:07:21.440 Yeah, you can come back to me.

02:07:23.060 I'm sorry.

02:07:23.640 Did you want to come in on something?

02:07:24.820 Yeah, I feel like that goes both ways.

02:07:26.860 Like, speaking for all of us, like, for example, like, you're not going to walk up to a not that

02:07:33.300 pretty girl and talk to her. 1.00

02:07:35.180 As a guy?

02:07:36.020 As a guy, yeah.

02:07:36.940 Have you heard of 2 a.m.?

02:07:38.180 I mean, but, like, no, I mean, well, like, relationship-wise, okay, hookup-wise, maybe,

02:07:47.180 yeah, but relationship-wise, you're not going to, like, be at a bar and walk up to an ugly

02:07:51.580 girl trying to be in a relationship with her.

02:07:53.880 You're going to walk up to the prettiest girl that you see in the bar going for girls, too. 0.92

02:07:57.380 You're going to walk up to the most attractive guy you see in the bar.

02:08:00.060 Like, everything, first, initially, I believe, is based off appearance.

02:08:05.220 I would actually disagree.

02:08:06.260 Like, when you say guys go up to the most attractive girl, I actually think it's kind

02:08:10.380 of more like the average, maybe, like, above-average girls that actually get the most attention 0.99

02:08:14.460 because most guys see, like, the really, really, really hot girl, and some guys actually might

02:08:18.720 be like, I got no chance.

02:08:21.280 Well, I guess...

02:08:21.800 So, they're actually the girls who are, like, sevens and sixes and, like, bro, those are

02:08:25.300 the girls that are putting up numbers for sure. 1.00

02:08:28.120 Well, I guess just, like, what's attractive to you, like, as a person.

02:08:32.920 Yeah, but, I mean, I think...

02:08:34.660 And, actually, I think women can make up for it, their looks in some ways, and that's by 1.00

02:08:39.900 being feminine, submissive. 0.85

02:08:43.360 Like, if a girl, like, can bring you peace, I think most men would sacrifice on the looks

02:08:49.340 front if she brings you peace, she's feminine, she's submissive. 0.96

02:08:54.420 So, I think a lot of men would, like...

02:08:56.600 I think you ask most men, would you rather have, like, a chick who's a nine, who's a 1.00

02:09:00.460 smoke show, who's an absolute babe, but she's a fucking bitch and just, you know... 1.00

02:09:04.420 I think that goes for... 1.00

02:09:05.600 Just, like, masculine and uncooperative and all this stuff, and promiscuous. 0.51

02:09:09.600 That's the other thing. 0.86

02:09:10.220 If men will... 0.70

02:09:13.080 Men will... 0.89

02:09:14.080 How do I word this?

02:09:19.260 If you're...

02:09:21.080 If you have a low body count, or if...

02:09:25.080 Let's see.

02:09:26.440 If you're a virgin, or you have a low body count, men will... 0.77

02:09:30.080 That can bump you up in terms of your attractiveness to a guy.

02:09:33.800 I think that goes both ways, though.

02:09:35.820 With women, like, women want... 1.00

02:09:38.060 Low body counts?

02:09:39.000 A guy who...

02:09:39.980 I mean, it's better than having a high body count, for sure.

02:09:44.260 Well, I think some women do have that position. 1.00

02:09:46.700 Like, some women obviously don't want a guy who's promiscuous. 1.00

02:09:49.400 However, a lot of women, and we... 1.00

02:09:51.660 I think this is a bit more of a tame panel, but a lot of women will say, 1.00

02:09:54.940 I don't care about body count, body count doesn't matter, blah, blah, blah.

02:09:57.800 Like, it's not a thing to them.

02:09:59.320 But...

02:09:59.720 And because men and women kind of value different things,

02:10:02.000 I think...

02:10:02.440 I do think it's 100% something that some women do care about. 1.00

02:10:06.000 However, I think it comes down to experience and women value experience. 0.98

02:10:10.400 Thank you, man.

02:10:11.080 Can't believe you shut down Keely Rose.

02:10:12.860 I know this is not specifically her episode slash podcast,

02:10:16.500 but she gives a lot of points, even though I might not agree with them all.

02:10:21.380 Did I shut you down?

02:10:22.620 I haven't even spoken for the last 20 minutes, so...

02:10:25.340 Oh, no.

02:10:26.480 Well, I mean...

02:10:27.380 It's very nice of you.

02:10:28.520 The reason I told you to just...

02:10:29.820 Because she was talking, and we can't have two microphones at a time. 0.99

02:10:33.520 Some people talk too much, and I just get very passionate, but it...

02:10:37.040 Well, yeah, we...

02:10:37.840 I've been quiet.

02:10:38.800 No, it's all good.

02:10:39.300 We spent some time talking about your situation, so that's all good.

02:10:42.680 Go ahead.

02:10:43.300 Yeah, I remember what I was going to say.

02:10:44.960 So, like, as far as, like, men...

02:10:52.040 So, men talk about the friend zone a lot, right?

02:10:54.360 Yeah.

02:10:54.680 Because you said that men will date, you know, whoever they can for the most part.

02:10:58.380 Men will date, whoever.

02:10:59.380 So, they talk about being stuck in the friend zone. 1.00

02:11:01.360 But we never talk about, like, the fuck zone that women get stuck in. 1.00

02:11:05.340 You know how many times... 0.99

02:11:06.640 Because, again, I've slept with 134 people.

02:11:08.980 I thought it was 136.

02:11:10.980 I put down notes.

02:11:12.180 I have my notes.

02:11:13.380 Oh, sorry, Brian.

02:11:14.400 Sure.

02:11:14.780 Okay, so...

02:11:15.560 Go ahead.

02:11:15.760 So, yeah, we...

02:11:17.540 But, again, men have this, like, list or ladder of women that they sleep with, but they would 0.86

02:11:22.440 never date.

02:11:23.660 Ever, ever, ever, ever, ever.

02:11:25.120 And they lead these women on into thinking that they will so that they can keep sleeping 1.00

02:11:29.540 with them and keep them in this ladder.

02:11:31.600 You know what I'm saying?

02:11:32.220 So, I think it happens equally, but, like, perpetuating the notion that, like, men constantly

02:11:37.960 get stuck in the friend zone and women have all the advantages and that, you know, they 1.00

02:11:42.520 can't...

02:11:43.860 That it's not equalized.

02:11:45.420 It's just not true.

02:11:46.600 What's not...

02:11:47.380 One thing really quick here.

02:11:48.960 I will get to your point.

02:11:50.640 Yo, what's up, Big Mo?

02:11:51.760 Yo, can we get some W's in the chat for Big Mo?

02:11:54.960 Yo, Big Mo, he helps out with FNF. 0.99

02:11:58.880 Big Mo's a fucking legend. 0.97

02:12:00.080 And, by the way, Big Mo, if you're ever in California, please let me know. 0.99

02:12:02.880 We'll get you on the show, dude.

02:12:05.320 Major love for you.

02:12:06.120 This guy's awesome.

02:12:07.900 Big love for Big Mo.

02:12:09.560 And, yeah, W's in the chat for Big Mo, guys.

02:12:12.240 And let me do a quick Twitch shout-out really quick, and we will come back to your point.

02:12:16.320 Eric, can you pull up the Twitch?

02:12:17.420 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

02:12:20.440 Link is in the description.

02:12:21.460 Pull up another tab if you have to.

02:12:22.700 Drop us a follow.

02:12:23.900 And if you have a prime sub, drop us a prime sub.

02:12:27.260 It's a quick, free, easy way to support the show every month.

02:12:29.540 You link your Amazon Prime to Twitch.

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02:12:36.300 Well, oh, my God, the chat is on fire.

02:12:39.000 Yo, The Mantid Man, thank you for the prime.

02:12:41.520 JC Roan, thank you for the prime, man.

02:12:42.980 Thank you guys so much.

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02:12:46.100 Thank you guys so much.

02:12:47.320 Okay, back to your point.

02:12:48.840 Go ahead.

02:12:50.420 Sorry to cut you off there.

02:12:51.540 No, you're fine.

02:12:52.040 I saw Big Mo in the chat, so. 0.99

02:12:53.640 Yeah, I think I was talking about, like, the fuck zone compared to the friend zone, right? 0.99

02:12:57.040 Yeah. 0.97

02:12:57.440 Yeah, so, like, men and women have equal amount of struggle, I think.

02:13:02.800 It's just a matter of perspective.

02:13:05.360 You're living as a man, so you can't see what struggles we go through.

02:13:09.040 We are constantly trying to get taken seriously in the workplace, and we don't know if guys are, like, friends with us in the workplace, or giving us advantages, I mean, in the workplace, if it's because we're attractive and they're trying to have sex with us, or if it's because we're actually doing a good job and getting promoted. 0.97

02:13:25.640 Well, okay, so just to address the friend zone, fuck zone thing.

02:13:28.540 I mean, I don't think those two are necessarily equal, and here's why, is because I would say, like, 80, 90% of men, even, like, some top-tier dudes, get friend zoned. 0.84

02:13:43.180 Most men have the experience of being in the friend zone, and they get that treatment from most women. 0.90

02:13:52.040 However, women who get fuck zoned get that treatment from a much smaller proportion of men. 0.78

02:14:00.560 Most men, most women can friend zone most men. 0.99

02:14:04.580 Most women, sorry, hold on. 1.00

02:14:06.580 Most, jeez, I got this. 1.00

02:14:09.000 Most women can friend zone most men, but most men cannot fuck zone most women. 1.00

02:14:14.540 The men who fuck zone women are the top 10, top 20% of men. 0.99

02:14:19.500 I disagree with that. 0.99

02:14:20.600 I don't know if I agree with that.

02:14:21.260 Yeah.

02:14:21.480 It is her choice at the end of the day.

02:14:23.400 I agree with that.

02:14:23.960 At the end of the day, everybody wants sex, right?

02:14:26.180 It's a natural human emotion.

02:14:27.580 Everybody has it.

02:14:28.560 It's just in a way and a matter of how much you have it and, like, what you're having it with.

02:14:32.740 Do you think that you have a right to sex?

02:14:36.780 Like, to have sex? 0.98

02:14:37.800 Me, personally? 0.99

02:14:38.300 Yeah. 0.95

02:14:38.520 Do you have a right to have sex? 0.96

02:14:40.600 Yeah.

02:14:41.280 What makes you say that?

02:14:42.580 Because it's my reproductive right.

02:14:45.020 It was given to me to do to have children.

02:14:47.860 What's the purpose of sex?

02:14:49.520 To have children.

02:14:50.140 And I would argue emotionally.

02:14:52.320 Oh, yeah.

02:14:53.560 I'm okay.

02:14:54.740 Thank you, Markvavius.

02:14:55.620 Navy concepts.

02:14:57.120 Biology doesn't apply to me.

02:14:59.320 I'm special.

02:15:00.620 We can eradicate evil from planet Earth.

02:15:03.700 Vibes, signs, energy, astrology, manifestation.

02:15:08.720 Latitude 34 degrees north.

02:15:11.040 Longitude 119 degrees west.

02:15:14.240 Just giving the asteroid the GPS coordinates for your Carly location.

02:15:19.720 There it is.

02:15:20.600 The asteroid.

02:15:22.820 Boom.

02:15:23.280 Asteroids out.

02:15:23.800 So, arguably, sex has two purposes.

02:15:26.100 A, create new human life, which I think our society has forgotten about.

02:15:29.380 B, emotionally bond with the person that you're having sex with. 0.97

02:15:32.600 That's what your brain is designed to do. 0.96

02:15:34.580 Every time that you have sexual intercourse, your brain releases oxytocin, and it makes

02:15:38.080 you feel emotionally bonded to that person, which is why hookup culture is so damaging,

02:15:42.240 because it's not transactional.

02:15:43.720 It's not supposed to be transactional.

02:15:45.320 It's supposed to be bonding.

02:15:46.080 To suggest that we have a right to have sex, then, is to suggest that it's our way or the

02:15:53.340 highway all the time, and our emotional needs are more important than anything else for another

02:16:00.720 human being.

02:16:01.860 I think that line of thinking is what's led to an extremely pro-abortion culture.

02:16:06.540 I think that's what's led to an extremely pro-hookup culture.

02:16:09.240 I think that's what's led to women being stuck in this zone, and men being stuck in a zone 1.00

02:16:14.620 of not being able to have a meaningful connection with their sexual partner or their emotional

02:16:20.580 partner, right?

02:16:21.140 We're just constantly giving half of ourselves all the time.

02:16:24.700 I would argue we don't have a right to have sex.

02:16:27.140 It's a privilege.

02:16:28.300 It's a gift that we've been given from God, but it's not an inherent human right.

02:16:33.580 Well, yeah.

02:16:34.100 Yeah, so on the basis of that, I'm all about accountability for both sides, right?

02:16:39.860 Because I've heard the statement from the right that women don't have to take accountability 1.00

02:16:44.020 anymore if they-

02:16:45.440 Who says that?

02:16:46.960 What's her name?

02:16:47.820 Oh, God.

02:16:48.380 Who is it?

02:16:48.960 That super conservative red-headed girl. 0.75

02:16:50.580 I can't remember her name.

02:16:51.080 Pearl.

02:16:51.620 Pearl.

02:16:52.140 That's her name.

02:16:52.760 Yeah. 1.00

02:16:53.020 She constantly says that bullshit, but it's not true. 1.00

02:16:56.320 Oh. 0.99

02:16:57.160 Sir Ash donated $100.

02:16:58.520 Yo, thank you, Ash.

02:16:59.900 It wasn't meant as disrespect.

02:17:01.560 I want to hear you talk more.

02:17:03.220 I want to hear all you ladies and guys talk a lot.

02:17:06.860 It is a podcast.

02:17:07.540 Yeah, great.

02:17:08.060 Everybody jump in.

02:17:08.900 Yeah, sorry.

02:17:09.560 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:17:10.340 Actually, so maybe we can come back to that.

02:17:13.800 You said you got your neck tattoo at a woman's what?

02:17:17.300 At a woman's retreat? 0.99

02:17:18.500 Was it like a feminist thing? 1.00

02:17:20.240 Hell no.

02:17:20.800 Oh, okay.

02:17:21.560 Because you said you weren't a fan of feminism, correct?

02:17:24.220 Because I was like concerned there. 1.00

02:17:25.960 Like, what if you got brainwashed to getting a neck tattoo at this like feminist shit, and 1.00

02:17:30.020 you're like, fuck. 1.00

02:17:31.140 No. 1.00

02:17:31.500 But you like the tattoo.

02:17:33.460 Yes.

02:17:33.920 Okay.

02:17:34.140 It's kind of like a rites of passage tattoo, almost.

02:17:38.620 Is it like Native American? 0.99

02:17:40.820 Well, yeah, it stems from like indigenous symbolism.

02:17:44.680 Oh, cool.

02:17:46.120 Okay.

02:17:46.820 Gotcha.

02:17:47.200 I was just curious.

02:17:48.240 I was trying to loop you into the conversation a little bit there.

02:17:51.400 Okay.

02:17:51.900 Let me get these two really quick.

02:17:53.840 We have average organ earner.

02:17:57.280 Thank you, man.

02:17:57.940 As a fit five foot, five foot ten man who is an average earner.

02:18:01.620 All I want is a traditional woman who is morally Christian and a virgin. 1.00

02:18:05.120 It's now unrealistic for me to find that.

02:18:07.360 So why date other than to just get laid?

02:18:10.360 Self-improvement is now my life.

02:18:12.680 Hashtag passport bros.

02:18:14.580 So your standards are too high.

02:18:17.980 What is that telling you?

02:18:18.980 Exactly.

02:18:19.540 Like you could find a virgin Christian woman if you really tried. 1.00

02:18:23.200 Yeah.

02:18:23.480 It's tough.

02:18:24.120 You could.

02:18:24.820 But guess what?

02:18:26.060 What's that?

02:18:26.700 What about a church?

02:18:27.320 Go to church.

02:18:28.280 Go to church.

02:18:28.820 You'll find a virgin Christian woman. 0.90

02:18:30.020 Born again.

02:18:31.080 Virgin Christian woman right here.

02:18:32.080 Virgin Christian woman right here.

02:18:34.060 Hey, the DM's open for average organ earner.

02:18:39.260 He's five ten.

02:18:40.400 Aren't you from New York, though?

02:18:42.100 Where did you come from?

02:18:44.120 South Carolina.

02:18:45.140 Oh, she's an SC. 0.99

02:18:46.260 Okay.

02:18:47.160 Well, by the way.

02:18:47.980 Okay.

02:18:48.320 Well, five ten.

02:18:49.800 I think it's.

02:18:50.560 Average earner.

02:18:51.060 No, it's fine.

02:18:52.600 I think it's a completely normal standard.

02:18:55.220 Like, I don't think his standards are too high.

02:18:57.500 I think.

02:18:58.820 Oh, sorry.

02:18:59.520 I think it's hard.

02:19:00.760 Very, very hard for him to find what he's looking for, but.

02:19:04.000 Good point.

02:19:04.940 Good differentiation.

02:19:05.780 Like, we're the ones that.

02:19:08.160 Our society that we're in right now is the ones that created the idea that that's unrealistic.

02:19:14.660 That should be realistic.

02:19:16.240 Oh, my. 1.00

02:19:16.640 Holy shit. 1.00

02:19:18.220 Whoa. 0.99

02:19:18.480 PokeSmith donated $1,000.

02:19:21.020 Do the hocker.

02:19:21.700 Do that hocker.

02:19:22.880 Oh, my.

02:19:24.720 A thousand dollars, dude?

02:19:27.220 Wait, hold on.

02:19:27.920 Let me.

02:19:28.060 Three.

02:19:28.740 Well, you have to do it now.

02:19:29.920 And he did it.

02:19:30.640 Oh, yeah.

02:19:31.060 Hold on.

02:19:31.420 Let me.

02:19:31.560 Let me pull up a video.

02:19:33.340 Hold on.

02:19:33.600 More than that.

02:19:34.440 All right.

02:19:34.760 I'm going to do the hocker.

02:19:35.680 Continue with your point while I find the.

02:19:37.700 I need.

02:19:38.120 I need it playing while I do it.

02:19:39.520 I forgot what I was saying.

02:19:40.940 Yeah.

02:19:41.340 Okay.

02:19:41.700 Hey, honestly, like, the reason why we're even living in the world that we live in today

02:19:45.000 is because there's too much brokenness and we continue to go to our vices.

02:19:48.560 Like, for example, your previous sex addiction.

02:19:51.820 S.A. 0.90

02:19:52.940 Or, wait.

02:19:53.660 Yeah.

02:19:53.800 No.

02:19:53.940 Um, like, that was due to brokenness that was deep within, right?

02:19:58.420 Right.

02:19:58.700 Like, like, you weren't happy and you decided to, you know, get into that addiction, right?

02:20:03.200 Right, right.

02:20:04.140 Right.

02:20:04.380 So, it comes from an emotional place and the fact that we live, like, most of, I think

02:20:08.820 it's 50% of teenagers, they live in a single parent household.

02:20:13.180 That is, like, a setup for disaster.

02:20:15.200 Like, that's automatically, especially if it's a single mother and she's raising daughters, 0.92

02:20:20.780 that daughter is going to grow up looking for validation from other men. 0.77

02:20:25.260 Like, again and again and again and again.

02:20:27.360 Right, right.

02:20:28.120 And it all stands for brokenness.

02:20:30.060 And we're not looking in the right places to actually be healed of that brokenness.

02:20:36.260 Yeah, I agree with that.

02:20:37.880 As far as his standards are concerned, there's nothing wrong with being a virgin and Christian,

02:20:42.200 right?

02:20:42.400 And there's nothing wrong with wanting that.

02:20:44.600 I'm just saying it's improbable if you're not, this sounds terrible, but if we're living

02:20:50.620 in this world, like, in this type of reality, it's improbable if you're not making, like,

02:20:56.320 enough money for that.

02:20:57.580 You know what I mean?

02:20:58.060 Like, if you're saying, because women like that typically look for a man that's making 1.00

02:21:02.280 enough substantially so that she can be submissive. 0.93

02:21:09.720 So, it just doesn't make any sense.

02:21:12.900 Are you okay?

02:21:13.660 He's struggling with the hot dog.

02:21:14.900 Bro, I didn't think anybody would do it.

02:21:17.180 This guy drops $1,000 for me to do the hot dog.

02:21:19.800 You have to now.

02:21:20.300 It's $1,000.

02:21:21.120 Do I have to stand?

02:21:22.000 Do I have to stand up?

02:21:23.260 Yes, you have to put full.

02:21:24.360 The amount of your word.

02:21:26.120 That's good.

02:21:26.740 Oh, jeez.

02:21:27.960 All right.

02:21:29.360 Hold on.

02:21:29.820 Let me button this up.

02:21:30.700 Continue talking.

02:21:31.580 Wait.

02:21:31.820 So, when you say you're a virgin, though, like, born again or, like, actually?

02:21:35.360 100% a virgin.

02:21:36.560 Always, like, from birth.

02:21:37.520 From me, Theist Venom super chatted $99.99.

02:21:39.960 Thank you, man.

02:21:40.080 $99.99.

02:21:42.420 Woke culture says it's wrong.

02:21:45.500 Ah, jeez.

02:21:46.660 I can't believe I'm trying that. 1.00

02:21:49.320 Just fuck. 0.99

02:21:50.540 I think a lot of the confusion associated with this also has to do with the idea that the 1.00

02:21:55.660 only way to be submissive to your husband is to have him make more money than you. 0.99

02:21:59.540 Like, we've repeated that throughout the conversation tonight.

02:22:02.460 That's not what I'm saying.

02:22:03.480 I'm saying that women aren't going to want to do that for a man because the definition

02:22:08.900 of submission, right, is giving your, is being inferior to a superior, right?

02:22:15.380 It's authoritative.

02:22:16.160 I don't know that it's about inferiority.

02:22:17.600 I think it's about being a servant to the person, giving service, love to the person

02:22:23.080 that you've dedicated your life to.

02:22:24.640 I mean, we're called to lay down our lives for each other.

02:22:26.820 It's not just about women being inferior to men.

02:22:30.640 I think that's what culture says it is.

02:22:32.360 Well, the definition of submission is reporting to an authoritative figure, right?

02:22:39.980 So that automatically makes the man, no matter how much money he makes, no matter how much

02:22:44.100 he works.

02:22:44.600 I can't do it on the table, but I will do it. 0.97

02:22:55.080 So this is going to be so fucking cringe. 0.98

02:22:58.600 Oh my God. 0.97

02:23:00.080 All right.

02:23:00.540 I did say I would do it.

02:23:01.620 So, okay.

02:23:02.320 Let me just see if this is going to, uh, Eric, can you pull up the chat?

02:23:05.700 So I just need to ask the chat a question if they're going to be able to hear this.

02:23:10.780 Actually, Eric, can you, can you open up another tab YouTube?

02:23:14.100 Cause I'm going to do it along with the, the all blacks. 1.00

02:23:17.580 Uh, we won't, don't show it on the monitor, but pull up, uh, search in YouTube.

02:23:22.180 Kama day.

02:23:23.980 K a. 0.85

02:23:25.580 Actually, wait here.

02:23:26.300 Let me send you the video.

02:23:28.160 Eric, I'm going to send it, send the video.

02:23:29.780 I'm sorry.

02:23:30.260 Hold one sec guys.

02:23:31.100 We'll continue talking about virginity or whatever.

02:23:33.260 Oh my God. 1.00

02:23:34.040 You guys are crazy. 1.00

02:23:34.760 Wait, Eric, hold on, bro. 0.98

02:23:36.380 These guys got us, you guys got us to 106,000 followers.

02:23:41.420 How's that even possible?

02:23:43.560 Yo, they, oh my God.

02:23:45.620 Yo.

02:23:46.840 On Instagram.

02:23:47.940 On Instagram.

02:23:48.900 There's not, there hasn't even been that many.

02:23:50.660 Well, thank you guys.

02:23:51.300 Appreciate it.

02:23:52.080 Oh my God.

02:23:53.060 Um, well don't show here.

02:23:55.460 I'm going to message it to ourselves, Eric.

02:23:57.300 So, uh, don't show that, but, um, all right.

02:24:02.580 What?

02:24:03.020 Wait, wait, Jesus Christ.

02:24:06.240 Um, that's not, yeah, it's not sending.

02:24:08.680 Hold on.

02:24:09.600 I need to look it up.

02:24:11.040 Okay.

02:24:11.320 Yeah.

02:24:11.440 Pull up a YouTube tab.

02:24:12.520 Search Kama day.

02:24:15.820 Jesus.

02:24:16.740 This stream has been derailed many times.

02:24:19.160 Okay.

02:24:20.240 Um, so not born again.

02:24:22.680 No.

02:24:23.000 Not born again.

02:24:23.680 I am a born again Christian, but not a born again virgin.

02:24:26.640 Okay.

02:24:26.980 So you're a virgin.

02:24:28.740 Are you waiting until marriage?

02:24:30.120 100%.

02:24:30.600 100%.

02:24:31.280 Anybody else here a virgin?

02:24:34.360 Just kidding.

02:24:35.780 Well, born again.

02:24:36.820 Basically, what?

02:24:37.780 I'm absent.

02:24:39.400 Eric, search K-A, spit, commentate.

02:24:42.820 Well, I need to give you the right one. 0.99

02:24:45.100 It's the, uh, shit, I just had it too. 0.99

02:24:49.160 Guys, I, I, someone donated $1,000, so I'm doing the all blacks Haka. 1.00

02:24:54.200 I'm doing the Kama day. 0.98

02:24:56.460 What?

02:24:57.360 Table now.

02:24:58.300 I'm sorry.

02:24:58.940 I can't do, I can't, I can't do it.

02:25:00.020 Table now.

02:25:01.200 Table is much better.

02:25:03.920 They really want you to do this on the table.

02:25:05.880 I think you should.

02:25:07.340 I think the table's not strong enough. 0.96

02:25:09.020 I just fucking had it, but now it's gone. 0.98

02:25:11.180 Hold on. 0.99

02:25:12.240 It's doing that on purpose.

02:25:13.500 Do.

02:25:16.960 Hold on.

02:25:19.160 It's, uh, the, wait, it's the, wait, no, uh, a space between Kama day, Eric.

02:25:31.340 You, you can show it on here.

02:25:32.940 Show it on the stream.

02:25:33.640 That's fine.

02:25:34.240 I can't do the table.

02:25:35.140 I'm sorry, guys.

02:25:35.640 I got back problems.

02:25:37.540 Uh, yeah, search that.

02:25:38.920 It should be scroll down. 0.65

02:25:41.940 Uh, the all blacks. 1.00

02:25:43.120 I think that one. 0.96

02:25:45.420 All right.

02:25:45.960 Or wait, maybe, or maybe it's this one.

02:25:47.720 Hold on.

02:25:49.040 Here, no, do, okay, do the, go up.

02:25:53.660 Go up.

02:25:56.480 Yeah, do, do the second one down. 0.99

02:25:58.220 Oh, God, I can't believe I'm fucking doing this. 1.00

02:26:01.460 Goddamn. 1.00

02:26:05.200 Okay. 1.00

02:26:06.080 Oh, great.

02:26:07.360 What?

02:26:08.440 Hello.

02:26:09.060 Wait, you have to do it too, Eric?

02:26:10.240 Hello?

02:26:13.380 Oh, jeez.

02:26:14.160 Why don't I, I gotta never say that again.

02:26:18.120 Oh, scuffed.

02:26:19.340 Wait, what?

02:26:19.860 Here, put it center.

02:26:21.700 Go full out.

02:26:22.840 Mm-hmm.

02:26:23.180 Well, he said full send.

02:26:24.680 300 something.

02:26:25.640 All right, here we go.

02:26:28.660 Scuffed.

02:26:29.900 Scuffed left.

02:26:30.700 Sorry, guys.

02:26:31.580 Computer issues.

02:26:33.460 Welcome to the whatever podcast.

02:26:35.440 Professionalism.

02:26:39.180 Uh, yeah, here we go.

02:26:40.580 All right, so, they can't.

02:26:42.680 Just keep it.

02:26:44.380 I guess keep it.

02:26:45.320 No, that's not gonna work.

02:26:47.460 How am I gonna do this?

02:26:48.600 Hold on.

02:26:50.260 And, they're not gonna even hear me.

02:26:53.280 All right.

02:26:53.640 I need you to, um, move the tab over there.

02:27:00.960 Wait, how am I gonna move the tab?

02:27:04.540 There you go.

02:27:06.280 Here?

02:27:07.220 But, I need space for this.

02:27:08.940 Like, I need space.

02:27:10.340 You want us to move?

02:27:11.800 Swim.

02:27:12.460 Yeah, I need this whole area.

02:27:15.700 All right, guys.

02:27:16.840 So.

02:27:17.580 Brian, you know what I can do?

02:27:19.020 What could you do?

02:27:19.620 Is, so I can do this.

02:27:23.580 Nah, we're good.

02:27:24.740 And, just make this bigger.

02:27:26.980 No, don't, don't, don't, don't.

02:27:27.960 Control Z. 1.00

02:27:28.520 Don't fuck with that. 1.00

02:27:32.500 Oh, make it bigger? 1.00

02:27:33.800 I didn't like it.

02:27:34.480 Just make it bigger.

02:27:35.420 Just a little bit bigger.

02:27:37.260 And, put it back to the original.

02:27:38.940 Boom.

02:27:39.520 Come on.

02:27:40.000 Uh, I don't know if we want, we can have the background.

02:27:44.440 I don't know.

02:27:45.640 Am I doing this? 1.00

02:27:47.920 Ah, fuck. 1.00

02:27:49.540 I don't know how we're gonna say. 1.00

02:27:50.740 It's bigger.

02:27:51.420 Make it just a little bit bigger.

02:27:53.980 All right.

02:27:54.780 Well, I, but I need to see it.

02:27:56.440 Here, just, we'll keep it, keep it, keep it, we'll keep it like this.

02:27:59.780 Actually, wait.

02:28:00.480 Do we do it?

02:28:01.220 No, we'll do it like this. 0.99

02:28:02.200 I should have worn my, these are my baggy fucking sweatpants too. 0.99

02:28:06.800 I should have worn the better ones. 0.99

02:28:07.680 Okay.

02:28:08.820 Uh, but, pull over the, the window so I can see it.

02:28:14.120 Sorry, guys. 0.99

02:28:14.800 Fucking scuff. 0.99

02:28:19.640 Like, so it's on this monitor. 0.99

02:28:21.340 So just pull it up here and we'll keep it centered.

02:28:23.640 But make it big.

02:28:24.480 Make, I need just the whole screen, or half the screen.

02:28:27.820 Yeah, that, that works.

02:28:29.260 All right.

02:28:29.580 All right.

02:28:29.640 So, bro, he's gonna probably, he's, he's probably gonna do charge back too after this.

02:28:37.880 Okay.

02:28:39.940 All right, I'm ready.

02:28:41.800 This is so cringe, bro.

02:28:43.280 That got knocked out.

02:28:43.940 You did it to yourself.

02:28:45.200 Hey, lower, lower the volume.

02:28:47.460 Wait, lower the volume.

02:28:48.180 The hacker, Richie McCaw, in a World Cup match, holding the Webb Ellis Cup, the Golden Cup, above his head.

02:28:54.720 Now begins.

02:28:56.960 Ah.

02:28:57.240 New Zealanders in the chat, you should critique this whole thing.

02:29:04.260 Oh my God.

02:29:04.700 Oh my God.

02:29:04.800 Psst.

02:29:05.360 oh

02:29:16.360 It's so funny how to really do that one.

02:29:38.420 That was so good.

02:29:40.280 Cancel me.

02:29:42.800 A for effort.

02:29:46.360 Oh, my God.

02:29:50.300 I'm sorry.

02:29:51.100 That was so bad.

02:29:52.180 It was so bad.

02:29:54.280 They like it.

02:29:55.340 The people like it. 0.98

02:29:56.880 They're killing it.

02:29:57.640 Is that cultural appropriation, by the way?

02:29:59.720 Yeah, Frankie in the chat says that's cultural appropriation.

02:30:02.940 Rate his performance.

02:30:03.960 It was so bad.

02:30:05.280 It was like, no, it was bad.

02:30:08.040 Everyone's praising you.

02:30:08.980 I should have just done it without even the video, 1.00

02:30:12.180 because I know that shit memorized. 0.95

02:30:14.300 I think the video might mess you up a little. 0.99

02:30:17.340 Was it okay, guys?

02:30:19.660 Was it?

02:30:21.460 Is that cultural appropriation?

02:30:24.300 Somebody said he got a Polynesian pass.

02:30:28.500 Am I canceled?

02:30:30.100 Brian can never judge Keely again.

02:30:33.360 Oh, my God.

02:30:35.520 Bro, what?

02:30:36.400 I should have done it without the video, 1.00

02:30:40.280 because I know that shit memorized. 0.98

02:30:41.780 I'm a rugby fan, dude. 1.00

02:30:43.440 Look.

02:30:44.200 Rugby World Cup 2011, New Zealand.

02:30:47.540 But, okay.

02:30:51.380 I'll do it again without the video if you'd donate another.

02:30:56.760 Okay.

02:30:57.420 Just saying.

02:30:57.920 I'll do it again, but better this time.

02:30:59.800 Okay. 0.99

02:31:00.560 What the fuck we were talking about? 1.00

02:31:01.900 Virginity or some shit? 1.00

02:31:03.440 Sock check? 1.00

02:31:04.400 Oh, yeah.

02:31:05.180 Like, what a man is entitled to in a relationship, right?

02:31:08.320 So, if he...

02:31:10.180 If we're making equal to, or I'm making more money than him,

02:31:14.480 or not...

02:31:14.900 No, I won't even say equal to.

02:31:16.320 If I'm contributing more money than him,

02:31:19.220 which I've done with all my ex-boyfriends, right?

02:31:21.860 Which I'll give the example, like, doesn't happen very often,

02:31:25.480 but there's nothing other than by virtue of him being...

02:31:29.320 The Cardi B Super chatted $99.99.

02:31:33.760 I definitely agree, brain.

02:31:35.560 I've definitely settled looks-wise and status-wise

02:31:38.440 in my past relationships,

02:31:40.220 even considering the growth I've gone through.

02:31:42.660 Also, love the pod that was the greatest thing ever, Brian.

02:31:45.520 Are you talking about the haka?

02:31:46.980 Talking about the haka?

02:31:48.940 For what?

02:31:51.760 Oh, yeah.

02:31:52.960 Yeah, yeah, go ahead.

02:31:53.620 Hey, Dakota, thank you so much, man.

02:31:56.740 Honestly, I could have done a much better job, you know?

02:31:59.180 But I was, like, you know, I was a little nervous, you know?

02:32:02.880 Because it's, like, I got, like, all these, like, chicks here 1.00

02:32:05.560 and, like, Kiki and, like, the dude over there.

02:32:08.080 It's, like, you know?

02:32:09.340 It's, like, kind of nerve-wracking to, like, culturally appropriate

02:32:12.740 in front of, like, 7,000 people, you know?

02:32:15.140 That's great.

02:32:16.200 Now I'm, like, culturally appropriating Canada.

02:32:18.920 Okay.

02:32:20.680 All right.

02:32:21.360 Anyways.

02:32:21.860 Anyway.

02:32:22.120 Um, just, so, that makes it to where, by virtue of him just being born a man

02:32:28.580 and being in a heterosexual relationship with me,

02:32:32.160 he is entitled to my submission, right?

02:32:36.120 So, if he's not fulfilling his traditional role as a man and providing,

02:32:42.240 why am I going to fill my traditional role?

02:32:43.920 You're way too far from the microphone.

02:32:45.460 Oh, sorry.

02:32:45.820 Why am I going to fill my traditional role as a woman and submit?

02:32:51.100 You know what I mean?

02:32:51.780 It's not a fair...

02:32:52.280 I believe in, like, respect.

02:32:54.740 Absolutely.

02:32:55.400 Like, I believe you should respect your partner all the time,

02:32:58.140 healthy communication, all that good stuff.

02:33:00.220 But as far as submission, that undermines my authority with our children.

02:33:04.280 That means that, like, that he has the final say, so I can't, you know,

02:33:08.480 I might not be able to go out, you know, I just don't like it, so...

02:33:13.140 I would choose a man that I would want to submit to.

02:33:17.140 Yeah.

02:33:17.440 So, like, that's what I'm doing.

02:33:18.600 Like, I'm not...

02:33:19.240 I'm going to choose a man that I would be happy to submit to.

02:33:22.620 After you saw my Haka performance, like...

02:33:25.320 Submission right away.

02:33:26.800 Are you, like...

02:33:28.340 Did that get you a little excited?

02:33:30.360 If we're all 10s here, then that was a 10.

02:33:32.380 But that's not true.

02:33:33.680 Well, I guess...

02:33:36.500 I'm going to 10.

02:33:37.100 Sir Ash donated $100.

02:33:39.820 How much to have you twerk?

02:33:41.840 Wait, I correct myself to work passionately.

02:33:45.400 To have me twerk?

02:33:47.560 I don't even think I can do.

02:33:48.980 I don't know how to twerk.

02:33:50.060 I can't... 0.99

02:33:50.500 I don't dance, so I don't know how to do that shit, but... 0.98

02:33:52.800 I'll do a feet check for, like, $1,000, probably. 0.98

02:33:59.260 If you want foot check.

02:34:01.420 Feet picks, hello?

02:34:02.860 Oh, yo, that's... 0.99

02:34:03.800 You know what's fucking crazy, dude? 0.98

02:34:05.160 There is literally... 0.98

02:34:06.440 Frankie K superchatted $100.

02:34:09.720 Sorry, Frankie.

02:34:10.420 This is just to cut off Pinky. 1.00

02:34:12.880 Oh, it didn't work.

02:34:13.980 Yeah, you missed it.

02:34:15.240 You'll have to try again.

02:34:16.200 There's actually literally a website called, like...

02:34:20.200 It's, like, Feet Finder or some shit.

02:34:22.800 And they... 1.00

02:34:23.360 Bro, they got a fucking account on me. 1.00

02:34:26.260 Someone's pretending to be you? 1.00

02:34:27.460 No, no, no, no.

02:34:28.020 Like...

02:34:28.260 You're talking about WikiFeet?

02:34:29.700 I think it's WikiFeet, dude.

02:34:30.920 WikiFeet, yeah.

02:34:31.300 Yo, there's...

02:34:32.520 I love WikiFeet.

02:34:33.360 She has, like, five stars.

02:34:35.320 You do?

02:34:35.920 Yeah.

02:34:36.100 I'm so jealous. 1.00

02:34:37.180 Bro, this shit's crazy. 0.99

02:34:39.420 Like, dude's been, like, finding photos of me where my feet are visible. 1.00

02:34:43.000 And it's fucking weird. 0.97

02:34:44.400 Yeah. 0.98

02:34:44.880 Bro, I swear to God, Brian Atlas, WikiFeet. 1.00

02:34:47.920 That shit's weird, dude. 0.98

02:34:49.120 I've seen you on there, yeah. 1.00

02:34:50.080 What the fuck? 0.99

02:34:50.580 That means you have good feet, though. 1.00

02:34:54.280 Do I?

02:34:54.580 Do you have a high arch?

02:34:55.880 I don't know.

02:34:56.680 What is a feet or tens?

02:34:58.060 People have way too much time on there.

02:35:00.240 I learned about it from the Age 3 podcast, and he's, like, obsessed with it and stuff

02:35:04.900 because he was, like, trying to get his score higher on there.

02:35:08.160 He wanted a perfect five stars and everything, and that's how I searched, like, other podcasts.

02:35:12.180 Wait, you searched my feet?

02:35:13.560 And I searched it.

02:35:14.280 You saw my feet?

02:35:15.020 Yeah, I saw your feet on there.

02:35:16.060 No, the craziest thing, I wanted to search myself, so I typed in my name, and I looked

02:35:21.780 in the image search, and I, like, saw feet photos. 0.99

02:35:24.980 I was, like, what the fuck? 0.74

02:35:26.400 And there's literally, but this is, it's not new, like, because some of these videos that 0.98

02:35:32.640 they got the screenshots from, I took, I unlisted them, like, years ago.

02:35:38.460 Yeah.

02:35:38.780 People take images from, like, several years back and stuff, and we'll find it.

02:35:42.600 Yeah.

02:35:43.040 Bro.

02:35:43.600 It's crazy.

02:35:43.960 It was literally, like, screenshots from a vlog from, like, 2015 I did, and I took all

02:35:50.040 my vlogs down.

02:35:50.860 The internet is forever.

02:35:52.760 Bro, my feet.

02:35:54.520 Yo, my feet are out there.

02:35:57.220 That's just weird.

02:35:58.000 By the way, the Hawka, I think we lost, like, 500 viewers, so that was a big L. 0.62

02:36:02.300 I think that was a big L.

02:36:03.820 I don't know if it was.

02:36:04.340 Whoa, we're down to, like, 5,000.

02:36:06.400 I think we're, oh, Jesus Christ.

02:36:07.600 I'm sorry, guys.

02:36:08.520 I think, yeah, we lost, like, a ton of viewers there.

02:36:11.740 Was it worth it?

02:36:12.880 I don't know.

02:36:13.800 I mean, you made 1,000 bucks, so.

02:36:16.060 Yeah.

02:36:16.480 That's true.

02:36:17.060 Oh, wait.

02:36:17.500 Are we at, what's our viewership right now?

02:36:19.640 5.5K?

02:36:20.340 I think we lost 500.

02:36:22.460 Bricks and Loki selling few pics.

02:36:24.580 I don't know what the name is under.

02:36:26.300 By the way, thank you for all the new memberships, guys.

02:36:28.420 Eric, have you been, like, highlighting them really quick?

02:36:31.000 Not highlighting them, but showing the memberships?

02:36:33.320 It already shows it.

02:36:35.440 Oh, okay.

02:36:36.000 Gotcha.

02:36:36.640 Okay, cool.

02:36:37.840 I don't know where we were.

02:36:38.860 There was just a string of Super Chats and him doing the Hawka. 0.99

02:36:41.320 Something about, like, relationships and, like, what we're, oh, that's what I was going

02:36:45.520 to say, because Kiki said something like, I would find a man that I want to submit to,

02:36:49.600 right?

02:36:49.860 Wait.

02:36:50.140 Kiki.

02:36:50.640 Yeah, who's Kiki?

02:36:51.520 Oh, my gosh.

02:36:52.040 I'm so sorry.

02:36:52.880 I'm so sorry.

02:36:53.560 I didn't mean that.

02:36:55.060 No, it's fine.

02:36:55.540 Sorry.

02:36:56.080 Vita.

02:36:56.880 Yeah.

02:36:57.300 Okay.

02:36:57.980 Yeah, but you said I would.

02:36:59.720 No.

02:37:01.480 You said I would find a man that I would want to submit to, and that's great.

02:37:05.780 Like, I'm glad that you, like, feel happy to do that, but at the same time, I think that's

02:37:10.660 where it comes down to, like, a difference in preference.

02:37:13.640 You know what I mean?

02:37:14.140 I don't think there's any man that I could ever find that I would be okay with him having

02:37:18.700 the final say in every single decision we make.

02:37:21.160 Like, there has to be some, I'm probably one of the most, excuse me, agreeable partners

02:37:25.960 you'll ever have.

02:37:26.680 Like, I really am.

02:37:27.600 I'm super easygoing.

02:37:29.140 I don't argue.

02:37:30.140 Like, I don't care. 0.98

02:37:31.080 I'm low maintenance as fuck, but I don't like the idea of, like. 0.99

02:37:34.320 Wait, you're low maintenance? 0.99

02:37:35.560 Yeah.

02:37:36.940 Low maintenance?

02:37:38.520 Well, I should say easygoing.

02:37:42.100 What?

02:37:42.520 Low maintenance.

02:37:42.700 Because low maintenance means that you can just get me in the sack, right?

02:37:45.340 And that's not true.

02:37:46.100 No.

02:37:46.880 I don't think that's what that means.

02:37:48.240 Okay.

02:37:48.840 But, well, I mean, look, I don't know you, but, I mean, I don't know if I would, and 0.99

02:37:53.340 I'm not saying this to slight you, but you said that you're a recovering sex addict 1.00

02:38:00.320 and recovering drug addict. 0.99

02:38:03.620 I don't know if that qualifies as low maintenance.

02:38:06.780 Yeah.

02:38:06.980 I'm talking in regards to, like.

02:38:09.100 How she treats herself.

02:38:10.280 Like, she doesn't go. 0.95

02:38:11.160 Like, emotionally, how I would, you know, like, I'm not going to bitch at you every two 1.00

02:38:15.460 seconds.

02:38:15.900 You know what I mean?

02:38:16.620 Like, I don't care what you do.

02:38:18.140 If you want to go out to the bar, that's fine.

02:38:20.040 I don't.

02:38:20.860 If it, I will tell you this.

02:38:22.600 If it wasn't for my body count, I don't go out to bars.

02:38:26.280 I don't talk to other dudes, obviously, because I'm in recovery.

02:38:29.600 Everything I am is, like, technically a submissive traditional woman.

02:38:34.180 You're not a traditional woman. 1.00

02:38:35.600 Well, except, okay, not traditional.

02:38:38.020 Well, okay, yes.

02:38:38.820 You did preemptively say, besides my body count.

02:38:41.700 That's what I'm saying.

02:38:42.820 So, you know, but because this, that's why I'm saying men's standards are, like, a little

02:38:48.260 bit too high.

02:38:49.120 Men's standards are too high. 0.99

02:38:50.400 Who are caring about, like, stuff like body count.

02:38:53.320 You know what I mean?

02:38:53.680 Wait, so you think it's wrong for a man to care about body count?

02:38:56.420 If it, it depends on the, I will say this.

02:38:59.380 It depends on the way you carry yourself, right?

02:39:02.140 Like, it depends on the context of the situation.

02:39:04.740 Like, if I used to run around my old restaurant and throw it out there, you know, I got Only 1.00

02:39:09.900 Fans, fuck these men. 1.00

02:39:11.480 I don't give a shit. 1.00

02:39:12.020 She went on to the streets. 0.99

02:39:13.700 Yeah, exactly.

02:39:14.600 I was for the streets.

02:39:15.400 Like, no man wanted anything to do with me.

02:39:17.300 In that circumstance, absolutely.

02:39:19.020 Like, you know, I would totally understand why a guy would discriminate against me if

02:39:22.960 it were for my body count.

02:39:24.000 But if it was, like, I was recovering or, you know, whatever the case may be, some women 1.00

02:39:31.060 I know, try to find me a recovered drug addict that hasn't done sex work.

02:39:35.160 Because it, in today's day and age, especially when the drugs are so strong, it is, like, we

02:39:40.340 are selling our lives for our drugs. 0.99

02:39:42.680 There's no, there's no purity and fucking drug addiction, right? 1.00

02:39:46.820 There's nothing left of you. 0.99

02:39:49.400 So, there's certain circumstances where it's, like, is it, it's our fault?

02:39:53.740 Yes, but you have to take other considerations and factor, right?

02:39:57.480 Would you prefer a broke guy?

02:39:59.640 Oh.

02:39:59.960 Oh, go ahead.

02:40:00.920 Would you prefer a broke guy?

02:40:02.400 Yeah.

02:40:02.680 Like, completely broke?

02:40:03.560 Not completely broke.

02:40:04.560 I mean, I want him to have some type of job, but my ex was, like, a lead at a restaurant

02:40:09.160 up in Eugene.

02:40:10.100 I literally don't care.

02:40:11.580 Most men don't want to marry the town bicycle.

02:40:14.860 Right, that's, I mean, you know.

02:40:16.840 But men care about body count.

02:40:17.960 But I think I just said that, right?

02:40:19.640 That's why you meet somebody who is okay with what you do, like, you know, us.

02:40:23.840 Right, right.

02:40:24.360 Not everyone is for everyone.

02:40:25.840 Guys can want a virgin.

02:40:27.360 Guys can.

02:40:27.660 $100.

02:40:29.060 Mick will make him and Brian will make a feat finder.

02:40:34.540 Yo, Metro, thank you for the, thank you for the hundred.

02:40:36.800 Well, I mean, I do already have an OnlyFans, OnlyFans.com slash whatever.

02:40:40.280 Right now, we just have, like, seven pictures of Kiki on there.

02:40:43.960 It's very tasteful, very tasteful.

02:40:46.660 Obviously, like, you know, hit us up on OnlyFans.

02:40:51.180 I don't know.

02:40:51.740 Maybe I'll do something more with it. 0.99

02:40:53.000 But right now, it's just for the, it's a fucking meme. 0.99

02:40:54.720 It's a joke. 0.98

02:40:55.260 It's not serious.

02:40:58.100 I'm just, I'm trying to arrive, like, what exactly are you trying to argue?

02:41:02.520 You're saying men have, expect too much when it comes to a woman's body count? 0.90

02:41:08.540 I'm just trying to understand.

02:41:09.200 I'm saying men expect too much, average men expect too much out of average women and 1.00

02:41:13.680 vice versa.

02:41:14.980 Right?

02:41:15.660 No, because I disagree.

02:41:17.840 Why?

02:41:18.780 Well, I mean, there's this concept called hoflation, where basically men have to work five times

02:41:25.480 as hard.

02:41:26.540 Men, I think it goes something along the lines of, and this is hoflation, men have to work

02:41:32.840 five times as hard as their grandfathers for women who are 20 times as worse as their 1.00

02:41:38.680 grandmothers.

02:41:40.060 But again, 20 times worse.

02:41:41.760 I don't think most women are like me in this world.

02:41:44.300 Right?

02:41:44.620 I think most women, like, I can objectively say I am, like, not part of a common statistic.

02:41:50.160 Right?

02:41:50.360 There's not many women sex addicts. 1.00

02:41:52.100 There's not many women drug addicts. 1.00

02:41:53.440 Like, most women have relatively low body count. 1.00

02:41:56.920 I will say it's inflated by feminism. 1.00

02:41:59.320 I will say that.

02:42:00.340 Aroias!

02:42:00.740 Aroias! 0.99

02:42:01.020 No, most, I'd say most women are pretty promiscuous. 1.00

02:42:04.920 In today's day and age? 0.96

02:42:05.960 Well, let's remove most women from this. 1.00

02:42:09.180 Let me just say, women are more promiscuous than men. 1.00

02:42:11.920 I don't think you can deny that. 0.99

02:42:16.040 Sorry, there are more promiscuous women than there are promiscuous men. 1.00

02:42:19.920 That's the best way I can phrase it. 0.89

02:42:21.360 I don't know.

02:42:23.180 I really don't know, because part of me says yes, but then the other part of me is, like,

02:42:28.500 women are also naturally selective, right? 1.00

02:42:30.760 So, they're, and they're all selecting the same, the top tier of men.

02:42:36.300 Right, but then.

02:42:36.980 Those men have an abundance of options.

02:42:39.820 Hold on.

02:42:40.440 Let's let this come through.

02:42:41.320 Some super chatted $99.99.

02:42:44.980 Are they telling you to mute me?

02:42:46.900 Mute Peppa Pig.

02:42:48.180 How about giving some other guests a chance to speak?

02:42:51.220 Did they call me that?

02:42:51.760 I knew it.

02:42:51.980 Much respect for you, Brian, but you really need to toughen up and host more professionally.

02:42:56.720 I'm new to your channel and have seen this strand of poor management of speaking time.

02:43:03.440 Yeah, definitely.

02:43:04.680 You know, obviously trying to improve.

02:43:07.060 Yeah, I'm kind of, I mean, I'm kind of like a space cadet to begin with.

02:43:10.960 I'm, like, all over the place to begin with.

02:43:12.360 And then add in the TTS, add in the soup chats, add in, like, the craziness of having a bunch

02:43:17.140 of people sitting in the panel talking about this.

02:43:18.760 Yeah, I'm looking potentially to bring on a co-host where maybe, like, you know, can

02:43:25.680 take a little of the burden off of me.

02:43:29.020 I've been looking.

02:43:30.000 I'm looking.

02:43:30.960 But that's maybe in the works.

02:43:33.160 I'm entertaining a couple options there.

02:43:35.380 But, yeah, you're not wrong.

02:43:38.620 You're not wrong.

02:43:40.400 But, wait, okay. 0.99

02:43:42.960 So, shit, what were you saying? 0.99

02:43:44.820 I'm sorry. 0.99

02:43:45.600 I know I forgot to.

02:43:46.320 It was, you were saying.

02:43:48.940 You were saying that most girls go for the 1%. 0.96

02:43:53.160 Oh, yeah.

02:43:54.720 Okay, so, pretty much any girl can be promiscuous. 1.00

02:43:59.440 However, not any guy can be promiscuous.

02:44:02.720 I agree with that.

02:44:03.900 But are they?

02:44:05.420 You know what I mean?

02:44:05.960 Right.

02:44:06.260 So, even though a girl could be promiscuous, it doesn't mean that she is.

02:44:11.300 But, however, what you have happening is, like, an average woman or below average woman, 1.00

02:44:15.780 could be really promiscuous.

02:44:18.780 Whereas, like, a below average man, like, he's not getting laid.

02:44:24.900 He's not getting DMs.

02:44:26.180 He's not getting matches on Tinder.

02:44:27.500 He's not getting anything.

02:44:29.460 So.

02:44:30.400 Right.

02:44:30.720 But then, but then, is that below average women, like, going to be relationship material to certain men? 0.99

02:44:38.880 Like, it's all about a debate.

02:44:41.720 Like, of whether or not, again, I think men look for relationships, or women want relationships, men want sex, right?

02:44:47.820 So, if we're going with this line of thinking, there's an equal trade-off between men and women. 0.92

02:44:52.680 I wouldn't, I would say there's exceptions to the rule.

02:44:55.180 I think that definitely men struggle more as far as mental health is concerned.

02:44:58.440 But as far as sexual, intersexual dynamics.

02:45:02.240 What do you think?

02:45:03.480 I think that generally men and women have the same amount of struggle.

02:45:08.340 It's not the same struggle, but it's the same amount of struggle.

02:45:11.720 No, it is.

02:45:13.300 No, no, no, no, no.

02:45:13.880 It's, women have dating on easy mode compared to men. 0.99

02:45:16.740 No. 1.00

02:45:17.620 Yes, fucking, not dating. 1.00

02:45:19.680 But that, that's, that's a component of modern relationships. 0.99

02:45:24.160 Not if the guy's not looking for it.

02:45:26.480 If he's just looking for sex.

02:45:28.060 Eric, can you pull up that comic photo just to give it a little context here?

02:45:31.320 You know which one it is.

02:45:33.080 So, I mean, I'll address that, but.

02:45:36.100 See, here's the thing.

02:45:37.040 I don't think men only want sex. 0.54

02:45:39.920 Yeah.

02:45:40.000 Eric, if I can draw your attention to this.

02:45:42.340 So, I mean, this is how I think it looks for most women. 0.99

02:45:45.260 Like, you have a bunch of suitors.

02:45:47.340 Oh, I've seen this before.

02:45:48.720 Men aren't, like, friend zoning chicks.

02:45:50.720 Like, most, most girls have, like, probably have or could have, not, a good amount of women 1.00

02:45:57.440 have or could have a line of men that are, would be ready to be in a relationship with them.

02:46:03.640 Most men don't have any options, sexual or relationship. 0.56

02:46:07.560 I guarantee you.

02:46:09.180 I don't know if any of you have a guy, if you're, those of you who are single, if any

02:46:12.220 of you have a guy who's currently in your friend zone, he would be perfectly ready to

02:46:16.120 be loyal, excuse me, a loyal, dutiful boyfriend.

02:46:19.780 He'd be ready to be in a relationship with you.

02:46:21.560 You just don't happen to find him attractive and that's fine.

02:46:24.820 I'm not saying you should be in a relationship with someone you're not attracted to. 0.96

02:46:28.380 However, men don't have, like, girls that are just fucking dying to be in relationships 0.99

02:46:34.120 with them. 0.98

02:46:34.940 And they're just, some men, some men, yes.

02:46:37.260 But most, most men know.

02:46:39.960 Average women have guys in the friend zone. 1.00

02:46:41.800 Average men are, like, maybe getting two matches a month on Tinder.

02:46:46.760 But I also think it's, it's the demographic and where you're at, right?

02:46:50.980 Like, I'm sure a lot of these women can agree.

02:46:53.600 And I live on U of O campus.

02:46:55.280 Like, I live in the pinnacle of frat culture, okay?

02:46:57.820 Like, I live where men are not looking for relationships at all.

02:47:01.660 So it's, like, or, oh, sorry.

02:47:04.820 Or you could even say, like, below average men are looking for relationships because of,

02:47:08.860 like, frat culture. 0.99

02:47:09.440 And it's like, screw these women. 1.00

02:47:10.640 I don't care, da, da, da, da, da. 0.99

02:47:11.820 It's like a cultural thing, depending on where you live, right?

02:47:14.160 Sure.

02:47:14.420 And depending on the age demographic.

02:47:15.780 Yeah, I mean, definitely in universities, there's, especially here, we're right next

02:47:19.680 to UCSB, number one party school in the U.S.

02:47:22.640 There's a hookup culture. 0.98

02:47:24.280 A lot of guys and women aren't looking for commitment.

02:47:27.640 And I think part of that comes to, or, excuse me, is related to the fact that it's kind

02:47:34.880 of an age thing.

02:47:36.120 It's a cultural thing.

02:47:38.360 And there are some people that go here that are desirous of relationships, and they struggle

02:47:42.800 to find it, but you can't say that the average man and the average woman's experience is

02:47:49.020 comparable.

02:47:51.620 Not experience, but as far as struggle, yeah.

02:47:55.880 It's not comparable, but it's, like, equal.

02:47:58.920 Okay.

02:47:59.440 So you think that...

02:48:00.540 It's equal amount.

02:48:01.900 You think that men in...

02:48:03.140 Let's say we're taking an example of an average man, average woman.

02:48:09.260 Do you think that...

02:48:10.700 Can you guys stop flirting over there? 0.74

02:48:13.600 You think that it's an equal struggle.

02:48:15.940 Perhaps it's different the ways in which they struggle when it comes to dating.

02:48:20.360 However, it's an equal amount of struggle.

02:48:23.580 So, okay, I mean, I disagree with you immediately, but here, let me let you come in.

02:48:29.760 Go ahead.

02:48:30.380 I was going to say, I feel like it's not, like, that shouldn't be, like, I feel like

02:48:34.560 you're kind of projecting it as, like, a fact, but...

02:48:37.320 It is a fact.

02:48:38.560 Hold on.

02:48:38.780 Hold on.

02:48:39.220 Let's get this, and I'll have you come in.

02:48:41.460 Where is your World War I uniform?

02:48:44.060 Didn't he donate $1,000?

02:48:46.320 Oh, I mean, did he...

02:48:47.940 What's his name?

02:48:50.840 KTI Pokersmith? 0.52

02:48:52.240 Do you want me to put on...

02:48:53.940 Because you didn't...

02:48:54.520 You meant you wanted the Haka.

02:48:56.080 Do you want me to put on the World War I uniform?

02:48:58.200 Let me know.

02:48:58.740 Separate question.

02:48:59.600 Yeah.

02:48:59.840 So, yeah, I think it's, like, you gotta request one or the other, you know, but let me know

02:49:03.820 if you want it.

02:49:04.720 You wouldn't have to do another fucking massive Super Chat, but... 0.91

02:49:08.780 And by the way, thank you for your huge... 0.93

02:49:11.060 I think it's 1,300 so far donations tonight.

02:49:14.160 That's wild.

02:49:14.540 Thank you, man, so much.

02:49:15.940 You're...

02:49:16.540 Are you, like, the owner of the All Blacks or something?

02:49:20.440 Okay.

02:49:20.960 Sorry to interrupt you.

02:49:21.760 Go ahead.

02:49:26.100 Prometheus, they were super chatted $99.99.

02:49:30.120 I'm gonna...

02:49:30.840 Thank you, Prometheus.

02:49:31.740 If Gordon Ramsay was co-hosting with you, Brian, he'll be honest-y blunt about hook-up culture

02:49:36.020 and double standards.

02:49:37.900 I can't explicitly say it because his language is too unique.

02:49:41.340 Where is the lamb sauce?

02:49:43.780 You can all be Gordon Ramsay.

02:49:45.320 Okay, I think genuinely you guys are all trying to say the same thing, just listening to the

02:49:49.760 back and forth across this table, that both sides of this conversation are struggling,

02:49:56.300 right?

02:49:56.440 Both sides are admitting whatever we're doing in culture is not working.

02:49:59.680 And I think a lot of that has come from, to bring things full circle, at the risk of

02:50:03.320 sounding too much like Jen Psaki to circle back, feminism in this idea that women are being 1.00

02:50:09.480 specifically programmed by society to reject the idea of seeking out a life partner that

02:50:16.020 would be a good long-term commitment for them.

02:50:18.420 Instead, she should be putting her career first.

02:50:20.460 She should be putting...

02:50:21.660 I mean, the corporate ladder first.

02:50:22.820 She should be putting herself first.

02:50:24.600 Draw yourself a bubble bath and drink a glass of rose, girl, because self-love is going to

02:50:28.440 be way more important than investing in a long-term relationship.

02:50:31.540 Similarly, that is causing the friend zoning of countless men who are really looking for

02:50:37.400 that type of relationship.

02:50:38.540 But we've convinced ourselves that all men want is sex.

02:50:41.760 So why would we even spend the time?

02:50:43.780 Why would we give them five minutes of our day to invest in something that could be the

02:50:47.440 greatest thing that ever happened to us?

02:50:48.820 But instead, we're trying to put all of these pointless things first in our lives that ultimately

02:50:53.820 10, 20, 30, 40, 50 years down the road are not going to make us have wholesome, happy,

02:50:58.780 and fulfilling lifestyles.

02:51:00.000 So I find it interesting.

02:51:01.280 I think you guys are both saying similar things that come from the same root problem, but maybe

02:51:06.820 it's less so about who's struggling more and just the fact that our system isn't working.

02:51:12.340 You got interrupted.

02:51:13.440 Go ahead.

02:51:13.780 I was just going to say, like, I agree with you that, like, women definitely have a little 1.00

02:51:19.800 more authority when it comes to relationships, but as it goes, like, for men and women, it's

02:51:25.520 not just, like, just men want sex, women want relationships.

02:51:29.200 It's not like that at all.

02:51:30.260 Like, women do the same exact thing. 1.00

02:51:32.000 Like, women look for sex. 1.00

02:51:33.460 For example, like, I'm not trying to, like, target you, but, like, as a sex addict, you're 0.92

02:51:37.960 texting guys, like, to come over every single night. 0.60

02:51:41.380 I'm sorry.

02:51:42.080 I super chatted $99.99.

02:51:46.100 This whole conversation is why it's important for women to not sleep around. 1.00

02:51:51.080 People would naturally date their level.

02:51:53.380 But sadly, it's too late.

02:51:55.360 The heist value men are simply too scarce and valuable.

02:51:59.100 Now, when one woman holds out, another woman will always take her place. 1.00

02:52:03.860 Yeah, I think that's a good point.

02:52:06.680 Like, I think I said before, the genie's out of the bottle.

02:52:09.120 I really don't know what the solution is.

02:52:11.900 Sorry.

02:52:12.200 Continue on with your point.

02:52:13.660 Moral of the story, like, women do it too. 1.00

02:52:16.360 Like, it's, you can't target that specific, like, scenario towards men because I think

02:52:22.160 it fluctuates.

02:52:23.000 Which specific scenario? 0.96

02:52:24.040 That men only want sex. 0.98

02:52:26.560 Oh, I agree with you. 0.99

02:52:27.340 Yeah.

02:52:27.460 I think there's plenty of men out there that would, they don't want to run through a bunch

02:52:31.520 of chicks.

02:52:31.920 They want to have a relationship with one girl.

02:52:34.880 Well, and a lot of people in this space say, oh, men are only as faithful as their options.

02:52:39.760 They can't be monogamous.

02:52:41.060 But I think genuinely a lot of men are more than capable of being monogamous.

02:52:45.620 They don't want to run through a bunch of chicks. 1.00

02:52:47.940 Oh, my God.

02:52:48.780 KT Pokesmith donated $100.

02:52:51.980 Mute piggy pig.

02:52:53.520 I think the mute a mic option is a bit more than that.

02:52:57.080 So you'd have to send it, like, individually.

02:52:59.940 But, yeah.

02:53:03.760 KT Pokesmith.

02:53:05.440 Do you have a response to?

02:53:07.660 I mean, I can't tell if it's because I'm wearing pink or if I'm fat or both.

02:53:11.900 But if it is, I mean, cool. 0.99

02:53:13.980 You know, I don't give a fuck. 0.98

02:53:20.100 Okay. 0.99

02:53:22.000 They really like interrupting you, by the way.

02:53:24.040 Go ahead.

02:53:24.600 That's all I really had to say, that it's so different.

02:53:29.280 Like, you can't make it a fact that men do this and women do that.

02:53:34.680 Oh, okay.

02:53:37.680 So I think the point that I was making is just that there are men, and I think a lot of men,

02:53:42.500 that they'd be happy with just one girl.

02:53:44.860 Like, and for you to be consistently getting a lot of girls, you do have to become, like, I think a pretty top-tier guy to do it.

02:53:53.420 And so, and me personally, I've really never been interested in just, like, running through a bunch of chicks.

02:53:58.400 It doesn't interest me.

02:53:59.440 I'm very busy.

02:54:00.120 I've always been busy.

02:54:01.020 I've always been kind of determined in terms of business and, you know, being focused, whether that's on my health or finances.

02:54:08.720 Oh, my God.

02:54:09.180 A pretty Pocky Smith donated $100. 0.96

02:54:11.720 Thank you, man.

02:54:12.580 Now I'm the owner of Piggy, and where the world war won you.

02:54:15.500 And where the world war.

02:54:16.740 All right.

02:54:17.240 All right.

02:54:17.560 I'll grab it in a sec here.

02:54:20.020 And actually, let me just do one more really quick before it pops off.

02:54:26.360 One sec.

02:54:27.000 It's going to come through here.

02:54:29.480 My stream labs is lagging.

02:54:32.680 Bro, Pocky Smith, are you, can you, what do you do for work, man?

02:54:36.300 By the way, oh, send me a DM, dude, because we have a chat chads group on Instagram for chads like you. 0.93

02:54:42.040 Veteran carpenter, chicken, the pink lacks basic intelligence. 0.99

02:54:44.600 He needs to shut her mouth and listen. 0.99

02:54:47.180 His words, not mine. 1.00

02:54:47.940 It's better to be silent and let people think you're an idiot than open your mouth and prove you are. 1.00

02:54:53.900 Not my words. 1.00

02:54:55.020 That's a veteran carpenter.

02:54:57.260 Can I?

02:54:58.260 Yeah, go ahead.

02:55:00.180 Apparently, I just need to shut my mouth.

02:55:02.880 I mean, like, we were going back and forth, right?

02:55:06.940 This is how debates work.

02:55:08.240 If somebody else was like, oh, I have something to say.

02:55:10.080 Can I jump in and say something? 1.00

02:55:11.300 Of course, I'm not going to be like, no, fuck you. 1.00

02:55:13.220 Just shut up. 1.00

02:55:13.860 You know what I mean? 0.99

02:55:14.540 If anybody else wants to, I'm not trying to dominate the conversation.

02:55:17.400 I was just finishing my thought.

02:55:19.260 Of course, of course.

02:55:20.720 Okay, so what was your original thing that you were talking about?

02:55:27.920 I'm sorry. 0.99

02:55:28.280 This is fucking. 0.98

02:55:29.300 Oh, just about how, like, the struggles aren't exactly, I would say, equal. 0.99

02:55:34.940 Like, obviously, we have different struggles.

02:55:36.400 People struggle differently with specific things, but men are not entitled to just want sex for women.

02:55:46.300 No, and I don't think that they are.

02:55:49.260 I think there's plenty of men out there that would be perfectly happy in a monogamous relationship.

02:55:53.200 I think a lot of men are struggling to find that, and so are women.

02:56:00.200 Just to kind of address your thing.

02:56:01.740 So you said that you think that the struggle between men and women, it's about the same when it comes to dating.

02:56:08.960 Yeah.

02:56:09.320 But, I mean, like, the ease, and I know you said dating, but would you agree with the following point?

02:56:16.820 It's easier, it's much easier for women to get laid than it is for men to get laid. 0.95

02:56:21.680 Yeah.

02:56:22.740 Yeah.

02:56:22.920 Okay, so with that said, I mean, can you acknowledge that that is sort of, at least for most modern relationships,

02:56:30.320 that is the beginning stage of most relationships, getting, like, getting to intimacy, getting to sex?

02:56:37.360 I don't think, in my experience, and I've heard this from, like, most women, 0.94

02:56:41.680 I don't think if you sleep with a man on the first date, typically it's going to last very long.

02:56:47.320 Like, that's just my, that's been my experience, you know.

02:56:49.760 Like, if I even, because I've done this before, I've lied and told men I was a virgin.

02:56:53.540 I straight up, I was like, I was like, yeah, just to see what they would do.

02:56:57.360 I swear.

02:56:58.800 And they didn't, and guess what?

02:57:02.120 They didn't want anything to do with me after, like, the third date.

02:57:04.520 They were just like, bye.

02:57:05.660 You know, so, who knows.

02:57:07.960 So, wait, you lied to men saying you were a virgin in the hopes?

02:57:12.820 Yeah, so I did, I talked about this on my podcast.

02:57:14.980 I did, like, a little social experiment.

02:57:16.880 No, no, I wasn't, like, hoping to be with them.

02:57:18.820 But I was like, you know, I was like, I'm curious, because people's, or men say they value purity.

02:57:23.780 That's one of the things they value.

02:57:24.940 Yeah, but you're not pure. 1.00

02:57:26.540 Men, we can sniff that shit out. 1.00

02:57:28.420 No, I'm a good liar, Brian, I'm telling you. 1.00

02:57:30.740 I covered up all my tattoos and everything.

02:57:33.980 It's like girls say, oh, I've only, I've never done this before. 1.00

02:57:36.640 And then they got that fucking gluck gluck or whatever the fuck that bullshit's called. 1.00

02:57:40.940 And it's like, okay, look, most modern relationships, I mean, we can have a discussion over, well, would it be better if people wait until marriage? 1.00

02:57:50.280 Sure, that's a whole other concept.

02:57:52.500 However, I would say most modern relationships, it's not, hey, let's date for three months, then have sex. 0.53

02:57:58.860 It's, be in a relationship, then have sex.

02:58:01.680 It's most people, they hook up relatively early on, and then it develops into a relationship.

02:58:07.000 You continue hooking up with the person, and then it develops into a relationship.

02:58:10.440 We can have a conversation over, is that good?

02:58:13.260 What does that lead to?

02:58:14.620 Does it work?

02:58:15.560 But I'd say that's how most relationships develop.

02:58:17.860 So, sex is the first point. 0.50

02:58:23.320 So, I know you maybe disagree with me on this, but.

02:58:26.000 No, I agree that that's real.

02:58:27.920 I just hate that that's real.

02:58:29.180 Sure.

02:58:29.560 That breaks my heart that that is normal.

02:58:31.740 Yeah, but so, if sex, if the first step to getting a relationship is getting sex, it's not, I'm not phrasing this right.

02:58:40.940 But, if women can get sex very easily, then it would follow that women are more capable of getting relationships. 1.00

02:58:51.960 Well, sorry, I forgot what point I was going to say.

02:58:57.020 Well, you were, okay, you were saying that dating, men and women struggle about the same, in different ways, but we struggle about the same if there was some way to measure it.

02:59:06.140 Oh.

02:59:06.520 When it comes to courtship dating relationships, however, I disagree.

02:59:09.780 I think women have it easier. 1.00

02:59:10.940 Yeah, and so, to my point, like, fucking on the first date, for example, that may be true, I just have never heard and personally have ever had that experience, right? 0.99

02:59:21.080 Like, I think, I don't think men take you seriously when you sleep with them right away. 0.94

02:59:27.440 You don't, but you don't have to sleep with a guy on the first date.

02:59:29.880 No, but you're saying, like, the relationships, modern relationships typically start out sexual, so whether it's first, second, or third, it's pretty soon, right?

02:59:37.480 Yeah, it doesn't have to be the first, but yeah, typically, I'd say most within the first three dates.

02:59:42.160 Right, so if they start out sexual, like, really soon, how is a man supposed to respect you?

02:59:48.520 He doesn't, and the relationship doesn't last.

02:59:51.040 I disagree with, I disagree with that.

02:59:52.780 I don't feel like that's true either.

02:59:53.560 I disagree with that, in that you can have sex relatively early on, and still, it can flourish into a relationship, and you can still respect them.

03:00:04.980 And I think a girl can sleep with a guy relatively quick and still have a low body count. 1.00

03:00:11.860 See, I was just about to ask that.

03:00:13.640 How do you expect a girl to have a low body count and try to find her Prince Charming by sleeping with him on the second date? 1.00

03:00:20.200 So, yeah, I mean, it is a bit of a dilemma for women. 1.00

03:00:23.500 It is a bit of a dilemma for women, but, I mean, there's certain things that you can do, for example. 1.00

03:00:28.040 Like, first off, have a conversation with a guy.

03:00:30.820 Ask him bluntly what he's looking for. 0.99

03:00:32.580 Now, obviously, some dudes are going to lie to get sex. 1.00

03:00:36.640 Sure, that's going to happen.

03:00:38.460 But you can definitely ask, and, I mean, I think women have a really good social intuition. 0.53

03:00:43.220 I think, I mean, perhaps you want to believe his lies because you find him attractive.

03:00:47.520 That's another conversation.

03:00:48.980 But, also, what is the long-term potential there? 0.98

03:00:53.000 Like, does he seem like a fuckboy? 0.96

03:00:55.480 If he is, he's probably, like, no matter what he says, probably not a good bet. 0.99

03:00:59.700 So, does he seem like a fuckboy? 0.99

03:01:01.040 The other thing, oh. 0.88

03:01:01.640 Well, I mean, you can engage with me on this if you want, but he hasn't had, the trigger has to be all in one donation.

03:01:15.500 But, okay, so, is the guy, like, are you on spring break?

03:01:22.800 Are you in Tulum?

03:01:24.380 Are you in Miami? 1.00

03:01:25.820 Probably don't fuck a dude. 1.00

03:01:27.140 Like, if you don't want to rack up a high body count, don't sleep with men while you're traveling. 1.00

03:01:31.020 Don't sleep with men who are traveling. 0.99

03:01:32.880 Scoobaroo super chatted $100.

03:01:35.740 Thank you, man.

03:01:36.480 23, single engineer.

03:01:38.980 Haven dated in four years.

03:01:40.940 Too much risk.

03:01:42.440 Spend most of my time working or spending time with friends.

03:01:46.460 Most modern women don't see the common man looking for a relationship. 1.00

03:01:50.640 We don't even make it on their radar.

03:01:53.460 Engineer, what kind of engineer, man?

03:01:55.040 I mean, usually engineers do pretty well financially, I'd say.

03:01:57.640 But, I mean, that's kind of my stance is a lot of, you know, average women don't want average men. 0.83

03:02:06.840 So, okay, but in terms of keeping your body count low, so there's talking to him, seeing what he's about, getting a feel for him.

03:02:13.680 I think women have much stronger social intuition than men do.

03:02:16.340 Like, if you're traveling or you know that he's going to be leaving town in a month, don't sleep with him.

03:02:21.780 If he's leaving town in three months, don't sleep with him.

03:02:23.800 Like, feel out the logistic component of is there a potential, is there long-term potential here?

03:02:29.300 You know, like, some girls will, like, hook up with a guy who knows he's leaving town in three months.

03:02:33.960 But, are you, I mean, unless you're going to get into a long-distance relationship, which I was ill-advised.

03:02:39.060 But, so, feel it out on that end.

03:02:42.000 And then, I mean, I mean, I can speak from personal experience.

03:02:45.500 I've had multiple long-term relationships.

03:02:47.060 I've dated a girl for five years, three years, two years, nine months, one year.

03:02:50.420 I've had long, a few long-term relationships.

03:02:53.820 Most of these girls, like, we, I'd say we had sex the first, within the first three dates. 1.00

03:03:00.140 So, can I, can I ask you a question?

03:03:02.140 Yeah.

03:03:02.540 Would you, like.

03:03:04.140 And they had relatively low body counts, too.

03:03:06.540 Would you, would you say, like, a woman, for example, like, with a high body count like me,

03:03:11.380 would you say she's not deserving of anybody?

03:03:13.760 Or would you say she's deserving of, not high-value men, just average men?

03:03:22.140 Well, I mean, you're, I'm not saying that you don't deserve anybody.

03:03:26.260 But, I, you're, there are some men, I suppose, that will tolerate the fact that you're previously sex addicted

03:03:38.060 and have a really high body count, but.

03:03:39.700 Donated $100.

03:03:41.920 Piggy had more pipe than a plumber. 1.00

03:03:45.220 What the fuck? 1.00

03:03:46.300 Okay, anyways. 1.00

03:03:47.720 Okay, Jesus Christ.

03:03:48.860 I'm not even going to entertain that one.

03:03:50.300 Let's try to keep it polite, guys, if we can.

03:03:52.100 Let's try to keep it polite, guys.

03:03:54.300 So, yeah, I'm sure there's some guy out there, but, I mean, the high body count thing is probably going to be an issue for some guys.

03:04:01.720 For some guys, it's not.

03:04:02.580 Like, for example, do you care about body count?

03:04:04.600 No.

03:04:06.060 No.

03:04:07.060 Yeah, some dudes don't care about body count. 1.00

03:04:09.320 I think they're, perhaps, should have some standards on that front, but, I mean, everyone's entitled to their own, their own view.

03:04:17.460 So, yeah.

03:04:18.300 I'm not saying.

03:04:19.140 When I met him, I had a low body count.

03:04:21.540 I was very low.

03:04:22.680 And after, and while you were still with him, you bumped up your body count.

03:04:25.900 Because we had to make that money.

03:04:26.920 Oh, my God.

03:04:28.100 Oh, my God.

03:04:28.660 Okay, but I guess the point, and to bring it back to the sex thing, so you said your body count is 136, right?

03:04:38.760 Yeah, around there.

03:04:40.540 So, just to bring it back to the whole, like, men and women struggle the same, and I'm not saying this to be mean to you.

03:04:47.060 However, you're, I'm just trying, I want to state this as.

03:04:53.260 You're not going to hurt my feelings.

03:04:54.860 Sure.

03:04:55.200 I appreciate you saying that.

03:04:56.340 So, your male looks equivalent could not sleep with six women in a night, could not have a 136 body count. 0.82

03:05:06.720 Right, because you're saying I'm average looking, right?

03:05:10.600 I mean, I don't want to make comments about your appearance, but I'm just saying.

03:05:13.660 No, I know I am.

03:05:14.900 Yes, but your male looks equivalent could not sleep with six women in a night the same way that you slept with six men in a night. 1.00

03:05:23.020 Right, because men are willing to, like, fuck down. 0.99

03:05:25.880 Yeah, but basically, like, you have the equivalent sexual pull of a famous athlete, musician, or actor, A-list celebrity, and you're an average woman. 0.99

03:05:40.640 And I'm not saying that to insult you, but what I'm saying, I guess to make my point,

03:05:43.920 I mean, you can leverage your sexual pull to potentially, not guaranteed, secure a relationship.

03:05:54.020 T-Pokey Smith donated $136.

03:05:56.900 I don't, this, yo, chat, hold on. 0.65

03:05:59.080 Is he a troll?

03:05:59.860 Chat, let me ask chat, is, can you pull the chat over?

03:06:06.100 Or is this guy going to charge, like, I'm kind of getting worried that this is, like, might be chargeback territories.

03:06:15.460 Chat, your thoughts on this?

03:06:17.440 Like, I'm a little concerned.

03:06:18.400 It was his choice to donate, so.

03:06:20.360 That it's, I mean, I don't know.

03:06:24.540 Is it? 0.98

03:06:25.860 Hopefully not, because I did the fucking hawk up around. 0.99

03:06:28.460 If you, don't do it, don't do it. 0.97

03:06:31.500 Okay, so, you were going to respond, I think.

03:06:36.840 What was the last part of your statement?

03:06:38.600 I'm sorry.

03:06:39.680 Well, basically.

03:06:41.060 Oh, like, I could, basically, oh, sorry.

03:06:43.980 Eric, can you open the door?

03:06:45.860 I'm an average looking woman, so, but being, even at being an average looking woman,

03:06:51.400 I can still get more pull than an average looking man.

03:06:54.500 I understand that, but, so, like, what was your point in saying that?

03:06:59.160 The, like, women don't have as much loneliness, you know what I mean?

03:07:02.900 That it's harder for men.

03:07:04.420 Yeah.

03:07:04.880 That it's harder for men. 0.98

03:07:05.920 Yeah, to have sex.

03:07:07.980 Well, it's also harder for men in all other realms, too.

03:07:12.520 T-Poke Smith donated $100.

03:07:15.900 I want to charge back DW.

03:07:17.660 I don't know if you got that crazy oil money or something, or you got some Bitcoin.

03:07:21.460 Just, it, I, I believe you, but it's, the, the, the volume of super chats you're sending

03:07:29.560 makes me, you know, you know what I mean?

03:07:33.640 You know, I'm a little, it's crossing my mind, but thank you.

03:07:36.140 If, if you're not, like, I, your patronage is deeply appreciated, but I'm, you know,

03:07:41.660 it is something I'm considering.

03:07:44.560 Okay, so, I don't know how exactly I want to tackle this.

03:07:51.820 So, you, what was your previous point?

03:07:53.520 So, you, like, let me, let me kind of, like, wrap it up.

03:07:56.340 You know what I think?

03:07:56.980 I think, she's right.

03:07:58.400 I think we're arguing against feminism, but we're just picking at straws.

03:08:03.480 Yeah.

03:08:03.900 Because we're saying, who struggles the most, right?

03:08:06.980 Yeah.

03:08:07.120 So, I think I'm, like, arguing for, for feminism against feminism with, you know what I mean?

03:08:13.320 So, I think at the end of the day, we can come to the general conclusion that feminism 0.78

03:08:17.820 is, like, bad for society.

03:08:19.740 It's just a matter of, like, who started it.

03:08:22.820 I don't know.

03:08:23.560 Chicken or the egg kind of thing, right?

03:08:25.340 Because you could say women started it, yes, but you could also say that men went along

03:08:29.300 with it, you know what I mean?

03:08:30.900 Well, I'm not sure if that's really addressing kind of the point I'm trying to make here.

03:08:33.980 And the point, the point I'm, I've been making and the point you're pushing back against

03:08:37.320 is you're saying that the struggle that men and women experience when it comes to dating

03:08:42.800 is about equivalent.

03:08:44.280 And I'm saying that men struggle more on the sex front and the dating front.

03:08:50.640 Yeah.

03:08:51.200 I mean.

03:08:51.980 Okay.

03:08:52.280 Here, we, we can, we can change it.

03:08:55.400 Let's, let's even remove sex from this conversation.

03:09:00.200 How do most people meet?

03:09:01.400 They meet online nowadays, right?

03:09:03.400 They meet on, not me, but I, well, they, well, I mean, sorry, most people, that's what

03:09:07.880 you said, sorry.

03:09:08.420 Yeah.

03:09:08.540 Most people meet people online.

03:09:10.480 So as a woman on a dating app, you're far more likely.

03:09:14.280 And there are both men and women on dating apps who are looking for relationships.

03:09:18.540 So women get more matches. 1.00

03:09:20.880 They get more likes.

03:09:22.080 Women swipe no on more men than do men swipe no on women. 1.00

03:09:27.100 Women, as a guy, you're going to have to initiate typically the first message. 1.00

03:09:30.940 You're going to have to plan the date, set up the date, probably pay for the date.

03:09:37.000 Women, I mean, let me ask you a question. 1.00

03:09:40.280 Yeah.

03:09:40.960 Do women have more options than men? 1.00

03:09:45.340 Sexually?

03:09:45.800 Yes.

03:09:47.160 Relationship wise.

03:09:47.960 Do women have more options than men? 1.00

03:09:49.660 I don't, it depends, again, it depends on certain circumstances, right?

03:09:53.220 It depends on the age demographic.

03:09:54.740 It depends on, you know, how attractive these men are.

03:09:58.400 It depends on a lot of factors.

03:09:59.900 If we're talking about men 18 to 25, I think that, yeah, women have it harder, a lot harder

03:10:06.560 if they're dating within their age group.

03:10:08.040 If you have, like, a woman that's 25 and she's, like, dating within, like, 26 to, like, 35-year-old

03:10:14.680 men, then, yeah, the 25 to 35-year-old men are probably going to have it harder, but it

03:10:19.980 just depends.

03:10:22.920 Right?

03:10:23.980 I mean, I, does anybody else want to come in on this?

03:10:28.580 I want to open it up to the rest of the panel.

03:10:31.760 Anybody?

03:10:32.420 Hello?

03:10:32.680 I feel like you're just speaking for, like, a small minority, but generally speaking,

03:10:36.380 it's, like, pretty spot on about, like, what he's saying.

03:10:39.720 You mean, like, for men that, like, put women in the F-zone?

03:10:47.400 Okay, women. 1.00

03:10:48.160 I'm kindly saying this, right? 0.99

03:10:49.660 The only type of women who mostly get put in the fuck zone are people who place themselves 1.00

03:10:53.720 there. 0.99

03:10:55.340 Other than that, other than that, most women are, like, taken seriously.

03:11:01.940 Well, I agree with that, but the thing is, is, like,

03:11:04.800 I don't know.

03:11:06.960 Men also lie to women, too, right?

03:11:09.020 Yeah, but I think, as a woman, it's really easy to spot out lies, and you know, kind of,

03:11:13.080 exactly what to expect from guys.

03:11:15.700 Like, I feel like it's such, like, you're lying to yourself if you're going to sit here

03:11:20.160 and, like, listen to what guys tell you and then be like, oh, I can't believe this happened

03:11:24.120 this way.

03:11:24.660 Like, you know in your gut.

03:11:26.100 You know in your gut when it's going to be.

03:11:27.820 Sometimes you'll choose to ignore that, but that doesn't dismiss the fact that you knew

03:11:30.580 to begin with.

03:11:32.160 Yeah, I mean, I don't know.

03:11:34.000 I feel like I've been talking too much.

03:11:36.500 I'm sorry.

03:11:37.280 Yeah, let's move on to a different topic.

03:11:38.700 I think just ultimately, you know, even if you remove the sex component that there are,

03:11:46.060 in terms of struggle, there's also just more burden.

03:11:50.920 Even removing, well, who has an easier time attaining relationships?

03:11:56.160 There is a higher burden on men to perform.

03:12:00.040 For example, we have the burden of having to be the initiators.

03:12:04.120 I don't think you deny that.

03:12:05.380 Men have to initiate. 1.00

03:12:09.660 Generally speaking, men have to initiate. 0.97

03:12:12.300 Women want that generally, yeah. 1.00

03:12:13.780 Sure, women want it, but let's say a guy, he's shy, he's introverted, he's socially awkward,

03:12:18.940 has social anxiety. 0.99

03:12:19.820 He's probably fucked, whereas like, and actually, I mean, there's so many ways I can tackle 1.00

03:12:25.920 this. 1.00

03:12:26.280 Like, a guy who's neurodivergent is going to have a far higher time, excuse me, is going

03:12:30.960 to have a much harder time getting a girl than a girl who's neurodivergent. 0.99

03:12:35.260 Also, like, even a chick in a wheelchair, bro, she could put up some fucking bodies. 1.00

03:12:40.540 Whereas, like, a dude in a wheelchair, he's going to struggle. 1.00

03:12:43.120 Amputee?

03:12:43.540 Yeah, it's pretty fun.

03:12:45.640 Not necessarily, but.

03:12:47.020 I'm just kidding.

03:12:47.620 There's plenty of women in wheelchairs that are beautiful. 1.00

03:12:49.580 Also, there, I mean, here's another thing.

03:12:51.240 There's this femcel, I don't know if you know a femcel. 1.00

03:12:54.140 Yeah, like, where it's like.

03:12:55.680 It's not even real, because like, it's impossible.

03:12:57.200 No man wants me, and there's like, a bunch of guys that are like, trying to.

03:13:00.400 Yeah, I mean, basically, it's almost impossible for a woman to be involuntarily celibate. 0.99

03:13:04.520 And there's a forum on Reddit of femcels who claim to be involuntary celibate, and they 0.97

03:13:09.560 actually had to like, private it or shut it down, because a bunch of men were messaging

03:13:13.980 these supposed involuntarily celibate women, offering them relationships, offering them sex. 1.00

03:13:19.860 So, women are never, women can never be as lonely as a guy can.

03:13:25.080 You might not have the optimal suitor that you want, but there's a different degree of

03:13:31.180 loneliness that men experience when it comes to relationships than women.

03:13:35.560 See, I disagree with that.

03:13:37.400 In my active sex addiction, I was never lonelier in my life.

03:13:41.840 And, arguably, you could say, I shouldn't be, because I was having sex with the most

03:13:46.180 amount of people at that time, right?

03:13:47.620 I mean, you had 136 sexual partners.

03:13:50.440 But that's mostly because you're having like, an emotional response to it.

03:13:52.960 It's not because like, physically.

03:13:54.940 Yo, did any of the guys.

03:13:55.640 You're doing something.

03:13:56.740 Oh.

03:13:57.140 Sorry.

03:13:57.700 Let me just come in really quick, then I'll have you come in. 0.97

03:13:59.720 Did you cuddle with any of the guys that you hooked up with?

03:14:02.320 Yeah.

03:14:02.480 Do you know how, do you know how touch-starved most men are?

03:14:08.440 Perhaps, perhaps it was a one-night stand. 0.77

03:14:10.620 The guy didn't text you back, but you got sex. 0.97

03:14:13.460 You got a cuddle. 0.95

03:14:14.500 Most, like most men are so touch-starved that like, even the fact that you could cuddle.

03:14:19.740 So, and I don't, I'm not challenging the fact that you were perhaps dissatisfied or lonely

03:14:25.380 or depressed because of, you know, this, your phase of promiscuity.

03:14:31.380 But most men don't even, they can't even get that amount of attention.

03:14:36.720 Most men are, I shouldn't say most, a lot of men, maybe it is most, are invisible to women.

03:14:43.080 They're not getting, a girl's never sliding into their DMs. 1.00

03:14:46.000 A girl's never asking them out on a date. 1.00

03:14:47.700 A girl's never paying them a compliment. 1.00

03:14:49.440 A girl is never going on a date with them. 1.00

03:14:52.360 They're not getting cuddles.

03:14:53.400 They're not even getting sex.

03:14:54.480 At least you can, perhaps it's not what women want, but at least you can get that. 1.00

03:15:02.200 Yeah.

03:15:02.700 I mean, I agree.

03:15:03.400 So, so I do actually agree with that, but it's not like when you have like casual sex,

03:15:12.120 even if it's like a cuddle, even if there's like some type of intimacy and you know what

03:15:16.140 the other party's intentions are, it's not the same, it doesn't, it doesn't mean that

03:15:21.320 you get more satisfaction out of it versus when you're, you know, like alone.

03:15:27.360 I would rather be alone.

03:15:29.000 You know what I mean? 0.99

03:15:29.740 I would rather be alone than have meaningless sex ever again. 0.96

03:15:32.260 But you, but you, I'm just saying, and that's why kids, you should wait until you're married 1.00

03:15:38.500 to have sex. 0.98

03:15:39.620 Right. 0.76

03:15:40.000 But I mean, you had, I think sex is a, sex is considered almost a need or what is the

03:15:48.520 Maslow's hierarchy?

03:15:49.980 It's food, shelter, food, no, food, shelter and reproduction.

03:15:54.500 I'm pretty sure. 0.99

03:15:55.160 Well, I mean, I think women enjoy having sex. 1.00

03:15:59.420 Yeah. 0.86

03:16:00.580 And so I like, I agree with you in the sense that like probably most women are happier actually

03:16:08.380 having a relationship with one person instead of having a string of sexual partners.

03:16:11.860 But like, let's not deny the fact that women on their own end, happily, I don't know if

03:16:19.300 happily is the right word, they participate in hookup culture. 0.98

03:16:25.240 So.

03:16:26.060 So confused.

03:16:27.320 Thank you, man.

03:16:27.700 Appreciate it.

03:16:29.300 So I have a rule, no sex on the first three dates, but after that free game, but these chicks 1.00

03:16:34.880 come out for the free meal, say thanks and dip.

03:16:38.140 Single men will always be lonely and invisible. 1.00

03:16:40.660 I had a dating app for two years, got six matches and two dates, so men have it harder.

03:16:46.400 Yo, by the way, Pokey Smith, can you shoot me a DM on Instagram, please?

03:16:51.280 At whatever.

03:16:51.820 Shoot me a DM on Instagram.

03:16:52.800 Go ahead, Eric.

03:16:53.820 I need to step up for a sec to put on my World War I uniform because he's been asking for

03:16:59.540 it.

03:16:59.660 Sorry for the delay.

03:17:01.140 I want to open it up to you guys at the table if you want to give me two, three minutes

03:17:04.800 to go put my uniform on if you guys want to.

03:17:07.260 So maybe, oh my, I need to, I think I got to pump the TTS again.

03:17:14.320 I don't know, guys.

03:17:14.860 Someone say cuddle. 1.00

03:17:16.020 Thank you, man.

03:17:16.360 The struggle is real with a Spoonie. 0.99

03:17:18.400 No more dead arm for big spoons. 0.96

03:17:20.780 Yo, thank you, Spoonie.

03:17:21.720 By the way, I appreciate all the TTS.

03:17:23.740 Don't get it twisted.

03:17:24.900 I really appreciate all the patronage and support.

03:17:26.920 Okay, so I feel like some of you over here haven't had a lot of opportunity to talk,

03:17:32.340 so if you guys want, go ahead.

03:17:38.920 I feel like going back to your point you made kind of a while ago, I think a lot of the new

03:17:45.940 hookup culture is also really due to all the instant gratification that social media has

03:17:51.460 given people and, like, all of the, like, I don't know, like, kids these days have a

03:17:55.220 brain span of, like, six seconds.

03:17:56.440 Daniel Ludo super chatted $100.

03:17:59.480 The reason why Keely is so defensive over Mickey is because if he left her, no one would want

03:18:04.860 her.

03:18:05.480 She's selling her soul for money, which is cheap. 0.99

03:18:08.500 In men's eyes, the more a woman has sex, the less they are worth. 0.99

03:18:12.300 Okay. 0.98

03:18:12.480 My TW V2 is a total cutie.

03:18:15.480 Continue while you were saying.

03:18:17.540 But I thought that was such a big part of it, and I don't know that we could ever get

03:18:20.140 back to, like, what it was before to get rid of this instant gratification, but let's just

03:18:25.960 Oh, my God.

03:18:26.960 Veteran underscore carpenter donated $100. 0.95

03:18:30.660 Stop talking to the unintelligent 304. 1.00

03:18:34.460 Move this along.

03:18:36.020 Bout to unsubscribe.

03:18:37.880 Worst and most pointless conversation ever.

03:18:41.000 Do better, Brian. 1.00

03:18:43.100 Roasted.

03:18:44.340 No, I think you're right.

03:18:45.480 I think we've built a culture where everything is supposed to be immediate, right?

03:18:49.320 So the idea of setting a higher standard, of respecting a boundary, of putting in the

03:18:54.920 time and the effort and commitment for a long-term relationship that you're hoping to have for

03:18:58.900 the rest of your life, for decades of your life, that sounds so unappealing.

03:19:02.800 For God's sake, you can get pharmaceuticals delivered to your door from Amazon in 30 minutes,

03:19:06.800 right?

03:19:07.000 Why would you want to think about something that would spend the rest of your life constantly

03:19:11.940 requiring your attention, the demand of your energy, the demand of your emotions, sacrificing

03:19:17.960 things, laying down your life and being submissive to someone else, putting your needs behind

03:19:22.180 another person's needs?

03:19:23.180 That's so countercultural. 0.82

03:19:25.080 But I find it really interesting looking around this table, and we're all in very different

03:19:29.400 phases of our lives, of our relationship statuses.

03:19:33.400 We come from really different places.

03:19:35.000 I'm sure we all have dramatically different cultural and social and political backgrounds,

03:19:39.280 and yet every single one of us is sitting here saying something is not right with how

03:19:43.940 we're doing things right now.

03:19:44.960 So I don't know what that means of where we go forward from here, but wow, what a fascinating

03:19:51.060 social commentary in a time where they say that we should be more divided than ever, especially

03:19:56.680 on the biggest social and cultural issues of our day, like dating.

03:20:00.500 And I think the problem is that...

03:20:02.420 We're not different.

03:20:03.160 Go ahead.

03:20:03.720 Go ahead.

03:20:04.480 I think that just proves that we're all very similar, and no one's really unique because

03:20:09.340 we're all in this whole world together dealing with the same things, and no matter what your

03:20:13.420 political views are, no matter how you dress, no matter how many people you've slept with,

03:20:17.340 we're all the same, and we're all in this thing.

03:20:20.460 And we all deserve better.

03:20:21.500 Exactly.

03:20:22.020 And the problem is that it's only getting worse from here.

03:20:25.140 It's not going to get better.

03:20:27.000 The only way it could get better is if everyone got healed, but that's not happening.

03:20:33.280 One day we're going to look back to this and think, oh, those were actually some pretty

03:20:37.780 good days.

03:20:38.300 I would say a big problem, though, that I've noticed with men today that is certainly affecting 0.83

03:20:45.920 your mental state is low testosterone, and a big factor in that is the diet in America.

03:20:54.720 And I think if the government got...

03:20:57.100 I don't usually like the government getting involved in things, but if the FDA got more

03:21:02.600 involved in what we're eating, I mean, there's a lot of environmental factors we necessarily

03:21:06.940 can't control, but food factors we can certainly control.

03:21:11.900 And a lot of the processed oils and sugars and grains, and certainly that people are eating,

03:21:18.560 I have an autoimmune disorder that affects me where I'm a lot more sensitive than most

03:21:23.700 people.

03:21:24.100 So I sought out diet solutions for that.

03:21:26.680 Nobody cares!

03:21:27.500 But a lot of other people are not going to seek out those solutions, and I think that's

03:21:33.440 affecting people, men's testosterone, which does, a lot of people don't think, but the

03:21:37.960 hormones do affect your brain quite a bit.

03:21:41.000 And that's why a lot of men are depressed and not being good fathers that are staying

03:21:45.320 home, and why a lot of these social issues we're talking about really does, I know it

03:21:50.180 sounds dumb, but it really does have to do a lot with diet, I think.

03:21:53.680 Oh, it's a huge issue. 0.96

03:21:55.340 Women these days have more testosterone than they did, like, 50 years ago. 1.00

03:21:59.460 I made that up.

03:22:00.260 I mean, like, the year.

03:22:01.500 No, women definitely have higher testosterone now, because when you, it's like the opposite 1.00

03:22:05.860 of that.

03:22:06.200 So if you're overweight and you're a woman, then you are going to be having higher testosterone, 0.88

03:22:12.320 while a man will have higher estrogen levels if he's overweight.

03:22:15.440 So it's definitely an issue that women have to deal with, too. 1.00

03:22:18.940 Birth control.

03:22:20.700 Absolutely.

03:22:21.140 It literally screws up your hormones.

03:22:23.080 Throw it away, everybody.

03:22:24.260 That's why women on birth. 1.00

03:22:26.860 Is there a particular reason?

03:22:29.860 No.

03:22:31.040 But I want to do something.

03:22:33.820 Well, I'm taking the pill, but I would much rather resort to another form of birth control

03:22:40.160 than the pill.

03:22:41.460 When you met your boyfriend, right?

03:22:44.520 Yes.

03:22:44.660 You said you're very taken.

03:22:45.840 When you met your boyfriend, were you already on the pill or not yet?

03:22:48.200 Yeah, I've been on the pill since I would, I've been on the pill for about, like, two

03:22:52.240 and a half years, I would say.

03:22:54.240 Describe your boyfriend.

03:22:55.460 Like, is he, like, very masculine or is he kind of feminine?

03:22:59.160 He's pretty masculine, I would say.

03:23:01.740 Her boyfriend's a chat.

03:23:04.020 No, he's actually not.

03:23:05.480 He's actually very, like, classy, put together.

03:23:10.600 Like, he's like, no, Chad is like a frat guy.

03:23:14.580 So what's really crazy is that this is a really universal experience for women our age, that

03:23:19.500 when we were 15, 16, even going into college, we were recommended to be prescribed birth

03:23:24.680 control for anything.

03:23:26.240 Like, literally anything under the sun for really bad periods, for back cramps, for migraines,

03:23:30.940 even though the pill causes migraines, which makes no sense for acne.

03:23:34.120 That's why I started taking the pill when I was 15, because I was on Accutane, and the

03:23:38.040 government, the FDA, insisted that you absolutely must also take hormonal birth control with

03:23:42.680 this basically experimental dermatology drug while you're on Accutane, because Accutane

03:23:47.680 can cause birth defects if you become pregnant while you're taking the drug.

03:23:51.080 So they force you to take hormonal birth control, and then your dermatologist, or for

03:23:55.220 any other ailment outside of acne, they just suggest that you stay on it forever.

03:23:58.860 And the absolutely insane lie that we are feeding women right now totally plays into this diet 0.99

03:24:04.760 thing with men, that your hormones need to be balanced.

03:24:08.600 You need to regulate your hormones.

03:24:10.320 You need to even out all of your hormones.

03:24:12.540 Your hormones are supposed to peak and valley every single month.

03:24:16.020 But instead, we have an entire generation of women who for like 10 years have been fed this 1.00

03:24:20.660 lie that your hormones are supposed to stay stagnant.

03:24:22.960 Simply from a scientific perspective, your hormones are you.

03:24:26.140 You are your hormones.

03:24:26.980 It's how you respond to stress, who you're attracted to, how much you like listening to

03:24:30.860 music, what things smell like to you, how often you get sick in your immune system.

03:24:34.620 All of that is regulated by your hormones.

03:24:36.700 And now we're just starting to study the idea that your personality changes, what types of

03:24:41.980 people you spend time with, what your political beliefs are, your religious beliefs.

03:24:45.340 It's crazy.

03:24:46.820 And the same thing can be said about food.

03:24:48.300 I had a doctor that tried to prescribe me Accutane when I had acne when I was hitting puberty.

03:24:54.000 And he thankfully never prescribed it to me.

03:24:57.820 And I refused it because what they found out later on is that it was causing young boys

03:25:03.100 to develop breast, which is definitely not something you want as a young man.

03:25:07.900 And so, um, no, screw big pharma and, uh, they ruined my childhood.

03:25:14.400 I have a question for you.

03:25:16.420 Also, medications are bad too.

03:25:18.580 Have you heard about that whole like theory about how a lot of people or women specifically 1.00

03:25:22.740 get off the pill and then they like don't like their partner anymore?

03:25:25.640 Do you fear like that may happen?

03:25:27.080 Oh no, I don't fear that at all.

03:25:28.840 She said he's pretty masculine.

03:25:30.340 I was on birth control for many years and it caused me many horrible issues like my

03:25:34.580 skin, my acne, everything.

03:25:36.920 And then I've still been with him, so it didn't change it for me.

03:25:39.340 So I'm not on birth control anymore.

03:25:40.400 But then I would say, people are saying that.

03:25:42.600 She had, she had cancer like symptoms on birth control that was literally making her hair 0.96

03:25:47.400 fall out and her, her skin was horrible. 1.00

03:25:50.020 She was literally dying from it.

03:25:51.760 That's how messed up.

03:25:52.840 By the way, did the TTS, did the TTS come in that we talked over?

03:25:56.240 It didn't read it.

03:25:57.860 Oh, weird.

03:25:58.420 Okay.

03:25:59.060 I'll, I'll figure that out.

03:26:00.340 But I, is your boyfriend watching the stream, by the way?

03:26:03.280 Um, he was probably watching earlier, but I don't know about right now.

03:26:07.240 Okay.

03:26:07.700 Do you want to say hi to your boyfriend in the camera?

03:26:09.560 Hi Frankie.

03:26:10.720 I love you.

03:26:12.540 You said you guys were dating for how long?

03:26:14.600 We've been dating for six and a half months.

03:26:17.120 Very taken.

03:26:18.460 Very taken.

03:26:19.120 Very taken.

03:26:20.140 But you said you, you go out and party, right?

03:26:22.340 Is he cool with that?

03:26:23.360 Um, no, I go, I only go out and party when I'm with him because I don't know.

03:26:29.380 Like if I were to go out and party myself, like in, in, in a guy's mind, like, it's just

03:26:34.180 like, oh, she's going to cheat on me. 1.00

03:26:35.640 She's going to hook up with another guy. 1.00

03:26:36.660 I completely, like, I 100% respect my boyfriend.

03:26:39.960 So I do not go out without him.

03:26:42.240 Okay.

03:26:42.960 That's good.

03:26:43.260 Oh, based.

03:26:44.240 Okay.

03:26:44.460 I want to circle back to, I think there was a question asked, like, who is responsible

03:26:48.000 for like promiscuity?

03:26:50.020 Like who, who started that?

03:26:51.240 Like the chicken egg thing.

03:26:52.780 I don't even think it's necessarily men or necessarily women.

03:26:57.600 Um, I think it's due to the fact that birth control is extremely pushed and abortion is

03:27:02.340 celebrated and pushed.

03:27:04.220 Um, and if we completely annihilated both of those things, I mean, we would be way less,

03:27:10.680 we, we would be a way less of a promiscuous society because women, women would be getting 1.00

03:27:15.460 pregnant.

03:27:16.200 We'd be more cautious as we were like decades and decades and centuries ago.

03:27:22.300 Facts.

03:27:22.780 I think another thing that we should talk about is how women don't know their cycle. 1.00

03:27:29.580 I think a lot of young women just think their cycle is just their, their bleeding period.

03:27:35.700 And if you were to get to know your cycle, you would know when you are ovulating and when

03:27:41.020 you are fertile because you can only get pregnant one time out of the entire month. 0.85

03:27:46.780 And also you're, um, the most appealing to men when you're ovulating, whether they know

03:27:52.080 it or not.

03:27:52.780 True.

03:27:53.040 Yeah.

03:27:53.280 Notice like, you get, you know, I have the best, you know, when I'm, yeah.

03:27:59.100 So during, during your phase of ovulation, this is the crazy cool part of how your body

03:28:04.800 was designed.

03:28:05.840 Just the science nerd in me loves this stuff.

03:28:08.380 Literally, you look more attractive physically.

03:28:11.280 You look more attractive to the opposite sex when you are ovulating. 0.99

03:28:15.000 You get thinner, you're less bloated, you're glowing, your skin looks really great.

03:28:19.300 Your hair looks awesome.

03:28:20.340 Like you genuinely are more beautiful while you are ovulating and you're able to conceive 0.94

03:28:24.740 a child.

03:28:25.300 But when you take birth control pills, hormonal birth control pills, that's an important caveat.

03:28:29.480 Uh, you keep your hormone levels that peak that help you get to that point stagnant.

03:28:34.180 So instead of the peaks and valleys of your estrogen and progesterone, it stays flat all

03:28:38.660 month, all the time.

03:28:40.280 So you're mid in your emotions and how you respond to stress and what you look like all 0.99

03:28:44.780 month, every month, usually for decades on end.

03:28:47.700 And we're just now starting to research that, to ask that question.

03:28:51.620 Birth control has affected me a lot as like a person.

03:28:55.620 Like, I feel like the biggest thing, like people will always say, like my personality

03:29:01.180 changed the most, I would say.

03:29:03.520 How so?

03:29:03.780 Like out of everything.

03:29:04.340 Like, before I was on birth control, I would say I was like a little more like bubbly, fun,

03:29:11.760 you know?

03:29:12.440 But when I hopped on birth control, like I went on it for sex and my acne.

03:29:20.580 And like, I don't know, I was just so depressed.

03:29:23.760 Like it, it made me have more acne in a way.

03:29:26.480 Like I was depressed.

03:29:27.500 Like it kind of just like put me through this like phase of life where I felt like I was

03:29:34.080 like empty kind of, but I don't know.

03:29:37.580 I'm back to normal and I'm still on birth control.

03:29:40.640 So is it the same birth control?

03:29:44.800 Like, is it the same?

03:29:45.900 No, it's a little bit different.

03:29:47.380 Wait, why would you go back on it after?

03:29:49.420 I never stopped.

03:29:50.240 She doesn't quit.

03:29:50.680 Oh yeah.

03:29:51.260 I never stopped.

03:29:52.180 Okay, let's move it on to something else.

03:29:54.520 So you revealed your body count really quick.

03:29:58.560 Just a show of hands.

03:29:59.160 Should body count matter?

03:30:01.200 Yes.

03:30:01.780 Should body count matter?

03:30:02.700 No.

03:30:04.340 Shouldn't matter.

03:30:05.460 Yes.

03:30:06.060 Should matter.

03:30:07.260 Shouldn't matter.

03:30:08.400 Shouldn't matter.

03:30:08.880 Shouldn't matter.

03:30:12.740 Okay.

03:30:14.260 So you revealed your body count.

03:30:17.740 Just a show of hands again.

03:30:19.780 Who should body count matter? 0.95

03:30:22.180 Kind of.

03:30:23.680 Okay.

03:30:24.700 Keeley, what's your body count?

03:30:26.660 Like in the 20s.

03:30:28.340 What's your body count?

03:30:30.440 Closer to the mic.

03:30:31.200 Close, close, close, close.

03:30:32.180 I want to say like five or six.

03:30:37.280 You're lying, babe.

03:30:38.220 Come on.

03:30:38.340 That's not a lie.

03:30:39.100 You told me it was one when we met.

03:30:41.720 Wait.

03:30:42.080 He's lying because he's embarrassed because he hasn't been with anybody but me except for

03:30:45.540 like online.

03:30:46.220 It's okay.

03:30:46.840 That's a good thing.

03:30:47.720 Why do you have to lie about it?

03:30:48.900 Why do you have to lie about it?

03:30:49.940 Wait.

03:30:50.420 It was one after her or before her?

03:30:53.840 There's nobody after me.

03:30:55.260 Right?

03:30:55.720 I mean, as far as I know.

03:30:57.420 Wait.

03:30:57.640 So, did you lose your- 0.99

03:30:58.900 Oh, she doesn't consider like- I consider getting a blow job or kissing, like hooking up with 1.00

03:31:05.840 her. 0.98

03:31:05.920 I thought it was just regular.

03:31:06.640 But technically, she thinks it means like, you know, having insertion and stuff.

03:31:12.580 That's to her. 0.95

03:31:13.380 But I did have other girls that I like kissed or got a BJ from or whatever. 0.63

03:31:18.680 That you don't count in your body count?

03:31:19.900 I count that as body count, but she doesn't.

03:31:22.800 I don't know.

03:31:23.260 I thought body count means just sex.

03:31:24.420 Yeah.

03:31:24.720 It is.

03:31:26.660 I guess there has to be-

03:31:27.640 Closer-

03:31:27.720 Wait.

03:31:28.420 Both of you are closer to mine.

03:31:29.400 If it's just penetration, then yeah, it's like one or two.

03:31:32.680 Okay.

03:31:33.460 For you?

03:31:35.260 It's okay.

03:31:35.800 Yeah.

03:31:35.980 Before her.

03:31:37.540 So, you weren't like a virgin when you met her?

03:31:39.920 No, I wasn't.

03:31:41.160 Okay.

03:31:41.420 But so, for you, it's 20.

03:31:43.000 For you, it's five?

03:31:44.880 When I met him, I was at seven, and he was one number seven that I slept with.

03:31:49.000 When you met him, he was seven.

03:31:52.040 I was at number seven.

03:31:53.480 Body count.

03:31:53.580 And now you're at what?

03:31:54.860 Like in the 20s.

03:31:55.860 In the 20s.

03:31:57.480 It doesn't matter.

03:31:58.380 Engaged, by the way.

03:31:59.220 Because we're-

03:31:59.400 I consider us both-

03:32:00.240 Engaged, by the way.

03:32:01.380 Yeah.

03:32:01.900 I consider us both ones to each other, like no one else.

03:32:06.120 I wish we could have lost it to each other.

03:32:09.340 It's just the two of us.

03:32:10.620 Okay.

03:32:11.360 What's your body count?

03:32:13.500 20.

03:32:14.560 Body count's 20?

03:32:15.500 Okay.

03:32:16.500 Eight.

03:32:17.580 Eight?

03:32:18.140 Okay.

03:32:18.520 Oh, cool.

03:32:19.600 I sound like I'm judging.

03:32:20.880 I'm sorry.

03:32:21.260 No.

03:32:21.540 Go ahead.

03:32:22.580 I don't-

03:32:23.220 Closer to the mic?

03:32:24.060 I don't think I want to answer this one.

03:32:25.500 Fair enough.

03:32:26.140 What about you?

03:32:28.620 Are we talking about like penetration?

03:32:31.720 Yes.

03:32:31.960 All of it?

03:32:32.740 Yeah, penetration, I guess.

03:32:34.560 Ten.

03:32:35.900 Okay, throw in like handies in the back of a 7-Eleven.

03:32:40.080 I've never done that.

03:32:41.200 Oh, okay.

03:32:43.580 Zero.

03:32:44.460 Zero?

03:32:45.840 Okay.

03:32:46.240 But I will say that with girls, it'd be 15. 0.94

03:32:51.420 With-

03:32:51.780 Oh, including women. 0.99

03:32:52.940 Okay, because are you bi?

03:32:54.760 I assume.

03:32:55.660 Yeah.

03:32:56.140 Oh, Markwavius.

03:32:57.720 With $100.

03:32:59.480 Lieutenant Labia, better wrap up pretty soon.

03:33:02.760 Mick has a really early morning preparing Raggedy Annals meal for work tomorrow.

03:33:07.380 Yeah, I'm going to try to get through some super chats.

03:33:09.400 We're a little behind, so yeah.

03:33:14.440 Thank you, though, man.

03:33:16.060 By the way, all labia matter.

03:33:18.100 All labia matter in the chat, boys.

03:33:19.820 I want to see it.

03:33:21.380 You know, it's unfortunate that women get- 1.00

03:33:23.240 If a woman has a large labia, it's unfortunate that they get shamed. 1.00

03:33:27.720 If they do.

03:33:29.080 This is true.

03:33:30.300 But it goes for men, too.

03:33:32.080 Yeah, women get- 1.00

03:33:32.840 Or men get- 0.97

03:33:33.560 Yeah, you're right.

03:33:34.080 Men get shamed if they have small peens.

03:33:38.120 Or if they're not sore-forsized.

03:33:39.420 Or if they are, you know.

03:33:40.300 Yeah, that's like one of the biggest-

03:33:41.920 Like, one of my girlfriends, she was like, I will never touch an uncut thing.

03:33:46.460 And I was like, I didn't even tell the difference.

03:33:49.060 It's really minimal.

03:33:50.420 Yeah, we're all just a bunch of superficial-

03:33:53.540 Okay, not us.

03:33:55.340 Just humans.

03:33:56.500 Are you going to propose?

03:33:57.720 Am I going to propose?

03:33:59.580 Where did I-

03:34:00.140 Where's the ring?

03:34:00.560 Right there.

03:34:01.180 Right on your computer.

03:34:02.620 People were commenting they wanted you to propose to someone else.

03:34:05.800 To who?

03:34:06.620 I forget who they said.

03:34:09.640 Who has-

03:34:10.540 I mean, speaking of large labias, does anyone here rock it?

03:34:16.160 Oh, yeah.

03:34:16.800 You want people to say that?

03:34:18.320 Is anybody rocking a-

03:34:21.320 Beef curtain, or what do they call it? 0.99

03:34:23.980 Oh, my God.

03:34:24.360 Well, how dare you?

03:34:25.700 No, I would never call it that.

03:34:27.560 But I've seen-

03:34:28.620 Call it an Audi.

03:34:29.840 Audis.

03:34:30.280 Oh, an Audi.

03:34:31.160 Audis, yeah.

03:34:32.220 Yeah, it's just-

03:34:33.040 I don't like these terms, you know.

03:34:34.480 Women get shamed. 1.00

03:34:35.820 There's like beef curtains, wizard sleeve, roast beef.

03:34:39.880 That's-

03:34:40.140 It's not good.

03:34:42.360 I don't know.

03:34:43.060 Wizard sleeve sounds part of life.

03:34:44.420 I mean, it's good.

03:34:46.700 Anybody?

03:34:48.500 Large.

03:34:49.080 You got a large one?

03:34:52.200 You got it?

03:34:54.260 I just got a question.

03:34:55.880 It's so uncomfortable.

03:34:58.520 It's a terrible question.

03:35:00.640 Yeah.

03:35:02.260 I would never-

03:35:03.260 My body count is zero.

03:35:04.600 What makes you think I would ever answer that?

03:35:07.520 For the memes?

03:35:09.220 For the memes?

03:35:10.400 No.

03:35:10.880 Will you marry me?

03:35:13.940 How much money is in your bank account? 1.00

03:35:15.360 What the fuck? 1.00

03:35:18.060 No, I'm just kidding. 1.00

03:35:19.060 Yeah, sure.

03:35:19.480 Do I get to wear it?

03:35:20.400 Yeah, you can put it on.

03:35:21.380 All right.

03:35:22.020 This is for the engagement that never happened, that was supposed to happen.

03:35:26.080 Yeah.

03:35:27.120 Okay, all right.

03:35:27.640 Is it real?

03:35:28.920 It was like seven bucks on Amazon.

03:35:32.440 But it looks cool, right?

03:35:33.640 Put it on.

03:35:35.720 Put it on.

03:35:36.520 All right.

03:35:36.940 All right, guys.

03:35:37.440 This would be a bad time for me to ask you to repeat your name, right?

03:35:45.080 Vita.

03:35:45.600 V-I-T-A. 0.99

03:35:46.980 Vita.

03:35:47.800 No, like Vita.

03:35:49.480 Vita.

03:35:50.100 No, Vita.

03:35:50.860 Vita Coco.

03:35:51.680 Like Vita Magpheus.

03:35:52.540 That's such a weird name.

03:35:53.380 I'm sorry.

03:35:53.740 How am I saying it?

03:35:54.220 How do you spell it?

03:35:55.260 Vita.

03:35:55.680 V-I-T. 1.00

03:35:56.220 Bad News Blues super chatted $100.

03:35:59.640 Isabel, I have loved every comment you have had.

03:36:02.340 Would you be willing to co-host with Brian?

03:36:05.280 Please.

03:36:06.440 I have a stream every night.

03:36:08.360 I lost my booster seat, you guys.

03:36:10.460 I'm too short for this.

03:36:11.920 Go grab it.

03:36:12.080 Go grab it.

03:36:12.680 I have a stream every night, but certainly wouldn't talk to Brian about it.

03:36:16.880 I don't live here.

03:36:17.660 I live on the opposite coast.

03:36:19.180 Are you famous?

03:36:19.720 I live in the free state of Florida.

03:36:21.540 God bless.

03:36:22.780 What was the question?

03:36:23.480 Are you famous?

03:36:24.260 Yeah, she's so many.

03:36:25.300 I saw so many.

03:36:26.120 She's verified on IG.

03:36:27.040 Yeah, I do.

03:36:27.660 She's got a blue check.

03:36:30.140 Significant.

03:36:30.700 Do you have a YouTube?

03:36:31.720 I do, but I'm building my YouTube slowly, so we're getting there.

03:36:35.280 I think it's tagged somewhere in the chat.

03:36:37.440 You guys keep tagged.

03:36:38.080 By the way, guys, in terms of being a dictator, is the hand on the belt, is that part of the

03:36:47.100 act?

03:36:47.480 I don't know.

03:36:48.680 Do I keep the hand on the belt?

03:36:50.600 Okay.

03:36:51.280 What about the proposal?

03:36:53.880 Vita Atlas.

03:36:55.860 Do you have, what's the dowry looking like?

03:36:59.100 How many goats are you bringing to the table? 0.99

03:37:01.700 What does that mean?

03:37:03.180 Dowry.

03:37:04.100 The bride price.

03:37:05.520 Wouldn't you be bringing her the goats? 0.99

03:37:07.300 No, no.

03:37:07.600 It's the woman who comes with the dowry. 1.00

03:37:10.320 So what kind of livestock are we talking about?

03:37:13.860 I don't understand.

03:37:15.080 And also, like, how many tractors?

03:37:16.720 I need some farm equipment.

03:37:17.940 I'm selling an old Porsche right now.

03:37:20.000 Maybe.

03:37:21.320 All right.

03:37:21.800 Well, I'll have to talk to your father about it.

03:37:23.580 Okay.

03:37:24.560 By the way, do you guys remember there was a TTS that didn't came through, but it didn't

03:37:27.520 trigger?

03:37:27.840 Or was it, men are just grown boys?

03:37:30.140 Did that one come through?

03:37:31.360 Oh, that was the one that wasn't spoke like.

03:37:32.940 It was this one?

03:37:33.620 Yeah.

03:37:35.380 Oh, whoa.

03:37:36.140 Okay.

03:37:36.480 There's a little.

03:37:36.900 No.

03:37:37.720 Hi, Sel.

03:37:39.520 SL underscore I dot D dot underscore C F B 18 C F 0 E 99 3 F 32 donated $100.

03:37:49.060 Men are just grown boys.

03:37:51.340 Boys can learn camaraderie or they can learn animosity.

03:37:54.740 Men with animosity in their hearts will for ego.

03:37:57.860 The sex brings confidence, which brings more sex. 0.52

03:38:01.380 We are a society of adults who have retained our middle school hierarchy.

03:38:06.020 Hey, Noah.

03:38:07.840 I don't think I blocked you on Streamlabs.

03:38:10.000 I don't have anyone moderating really on Streamlabs, so I can't imagine why you're blocked.

03:38:14.700 It could be you're trying to send a word that is inappropriate, so it's automatically blocking

03:38:19.080 it from going through.

03:38:20.680 Otherwise, feel free to just do it through Super Chat if it's not working.

03:38:24.000 And we had a Zenitsu.

03:38:26.180 I already did it, but here, I'll give you a little.

03:38:28.480 Yes, you are a Chad.

03:38:33.220 Thank you, man.

03:38:33.540 I appreciate it.

03:38:34.340 Okay.

03:38:34.840 Let me get through a couple regular soup chats.

03:38:36.880 We got it.

03:38:37.240 Oh, my God. 1.00

03:38:37.980 Fuck. 1.00

03:38:39.860 Okay. 0.99

03:38:40.480 We have quite a lot, so I apologize to some of you guys.

03:38:44.160 I'm going to read them all, but we are going to power through them.

03:38:48.600 So, oh, before I do that, can we pull up Twitch, twitch.tv slash whatever.

03:38:53.960 Guys, go over to twitch.tv slash whatever.

03:38:55.680 Oh, my God.

03:38:56.040 Look at all these.

03:38:56.840 Cheers.

03:38:57.920 Asian Kyle NYC.

03:38:59.320 Okay.

03:39:00.120 I think that's like a penny.

03:39:01.440 Thank you, man.

03:39:02.700 Guys, go to Twitch, twitch.tv slash whatever.

03:39:04.960 Go give us a follow.

03:39:05.920 If you have Amazon Prime, you can link it to your Twitch account.

03:39:08.580 Quick, free, easy way every month to support the show.

03:39:11.400 Drop us a Prime sub if you have one.

03:39:13.400 Thank you guys all so much for following us.

03:39:15.440 Yo, Jaina, thank you for the follow.

03:39:17.760 Appreciate it.

03:39:18.280 Asian Kyle, thank you for all the bits.

03:39:20.300 Much appreciated.

03:39:21.720 Yeah, spam it.

03:39:22.540 Thank you, buddy.

03:39:22.960 That's nice.

03:39:24.420 I can't see the Primes that are coming through.

03:39:29.600 Asian underscore Kyle underscore NYC with the bits.

03:39:34.640 Okay.

03:39:34.860 Thank you guys for all that.

03:39:36.160 Amazon Prime go.

03:39:37.960 Oh, my God.

03:39:38.780 The Mad Bagger.

03:39:39.820 Thank you for the gifted sub, man.

03:39:41.220 Appreciate it.

03:39:41.660 Okay.

03:39:42.160 Let's do some super chats.

03:39:44.340 So, we have Dusker.

03:39:46.780 $50 super chat.

03:39:48.120 My voice is getting a bit parched.

03:39:50.220 Can I have you?

03:39:51.840 You have a pleasant speaking.

03:39:53.100 Oh, my God.

03:39:54.000 Wilder Beats donated $100.

03:39:57.100 Thank you, man.

03:39:57.800 Good panel tonight, Brixon.

03:39:58.680 Thank you.

03:39:59.200 Pinky actually refreshingly honest.

03:40:01.540 Oh, for sure.

03:40:02.140 Cool conservative girls. 1.00

03:40:03.680 You broke up an engagement, you'll see.

03:40:06.200 And for those who haven't spoke much tonight, you bring me peace like geeky.

03:40:12.660 Hey, yo, Wilder Beats.

03:40:15.500 Thank you, man.

03:40:16.600 And, yeah, actually, major credit to you.

03:40:19.880 I know you, honestly, you got scorched tonight.

03:40:23.120 I know.

03:40:23.420 I know.

03:40:24.000 Jeez.

03:40:24.240 But I actually commend you for, like, being so forthcoming about everything that you spoke

03:40:28.640 on, from the sex addiction to the narcotics addiction.

03:40:33.860 And I think you were really, like, super honest.

03:40:37.320 And I'm stoked on that.

03:40:38.360 Because a lot of people can have some hesitations about sharing some of that stuff.

03:40:41.760 So I commend you for your...

03:40:43.700 Yeah, and my family did warn me about it.

03:40:45.340 They said, this is going to come with consequences, you know.

03:40:48.040 And I said, if I can help one human being recover, that's my goal.

03:40:52.660 The best thing is that you're not justifying it and that, like, you know it's wrong and

03:40:56.400 you don't condone it at all.

03:40:57.600 Right.

03:40:58.660 By the way, we would have children with beautiful aquiline noses. 0.99

03:41:04.580 Okay, that was cringe as fuck. 1.00

03:41:05.900 We both have big noses. 0.99

03:41:07.940 All right.

03:41:08.560 Okay.

03:41:09.120 All right.

03:41:09.980 Here, we had Dusker here.

03:41:11.660 I'm going to have you read these if you can.

03:41:15.180 Dusker, if you're not in the content and other guys are, she ain't the one, bro.

03:41:21.020 Every company on the planet is hiring.

03:41:23.040 Stop making excuses.

03:41:25.440 I think that's...

03:41:26.080 I am the one, but I'm not actually doing adult film anymore.

03:41:29.720 I'm just doing the OnlyFans.

03:41:31.340 I haven't actually filmed a video in, like, more than six months, right?

03:41:36.480 I don't know.

03:41:36.900 Yeah.

03:41:37.180 By the way, guys, I do want to apologize that we're getting to these Super Chats so 1.00

03:41:41.260 late into the show.

03:41:42.140 Just we got a lot of TTS that came through and then we got a really high volume of Super

03:41:48.740 Chats. 0.99

03:41:49.160 I bumped it up two shows ago and people weren't happy about it, so I bumped it back down.

03:41:54.340 But maybe I think I just need to bump up the TTS maybe.

03:41:57.960 I don't know.

03:41:58.540 I'm still figuring it out, so I know a lot.

03:42:01.420 I'm probably going to get a couple complaints in the chat about the Super Chats. 0.96

03:42:05.160 And I'm not making excuses.

03:42:07.100 I have a job.

03:42:08.180 I'm self-employed, so I'm not complaining.

03:42:10.780 At the time, I was really desperate for anything, but not anymore.

03:42:14.800 Okay.

03:42:15.040 We have...

03:42:17.040 Here, actually.

03:42:18.780 You can keep going.

03:42:20.920 Go for it.

03:42:21.660 Kerm, what a perm gaming.

03:42:24.000 Bootleg Lloyd Griffin out here taking everyone's Peters while bro's door dashing.

03:42:29.760 SMH, this is madness.

03:42:31.500 Bring back the bangs, girl. 0.99

03:42:32.600 Yo, Kerm.

03:42:35.980 Thank you, man.

03:42:36.360 Appreciate it.

03:42:37.720 Hold on.

03:42:38.520 That one came through.

03:42:40.840 Oh, whoops.

03:42:41.820 Daniel Ludo Super Chatted $100.

03:42:44.880 A good reminder is our actions have consequences.

03:42:48.640 Most people try to ignore it in the future.

03:42:51.520 Eat yourselves this question.

03:42:53.480 Would you want your child to become what you are when they grow up?

03:42:56.980 A 304? 0.83

03:43:01.040 No.

03:43:02.600 Thank you, man.

03:43:06.300 Obviously, I don't condone.

03:43:08.260 Not everyone should do the job I'm doing, obviously.

03:43:11.320 I don't even want to do it, but it's just money and what you got to do in today's world.

03:43:16.340 Got to do what you got to do.

03:43:17.700 It's a good-being job.

03:43:20.480 All right.

03:43:20.960 We have...

03:43:21.560 Oh, by the way, for everyone who's asking about Shania's father from last stream.

03:43:27.700 Oh, I think it expired on my Instagram.

03:43:29.800 It's in one of my highlights in my Instagram story.

03:43:31.400 There's a photo of him, if you guys are curious.

03:43:34.500 Did he pass away?

03:43:36.620 Yeah, he did.

03:43:37.120 That person.

03:43:37.560 Okay.

03:43:37.760 Yeah, he did.

03:43:38.340 Yeah.

03:43:39.960 Okay.

03:43:42.900 Michael Metrok...

03:43:43.660 Eric, can you...

03:43:44.140 Oh, sorry.

03:43:44.560 Eric, can you close the door, please?

03:43:46.040 Go for it.

03:43:46.820 Michael Metrok IV.

03:43:48.700 The fourth.

03:43:48.960 Question for the ladies. 0.99

03:43:50.520 Would you get rid of your IG for a marriageable man? 0.67

03:43:54.540 We'll go around the table on this really quick.

03:43:56.200 Yes or no?

03:43:57.160 Yes.

03:43:59.020 Yes.

03:44:00.220 Yes.

03:44:01.520 I would get rid of my phone and everything.

03:44:03.460 Closer to my...

03:44:03.560 I would get rid of my phone and everything for him.

03:44:06.000 If he asked.

03:44:06.080 Can you push the cup?

03:44:07.360 Go ahead.

03:44:08.300 Hell yeah.

03:44:09.920 Yes.

03:44:11.040 Yes.

03:44:12.040 Yeah, it's a little bit more complicated than just an account, I think.

03:44:15.720 Because that's my livelihood.

03:44:16.940 That's my job.

03:44:17.580 But yeah, I would.

03:44:18.300 I would get rid of it.

03:44:19.120 Social media does not need to be a part of your relationship, to be honest.

03:44:24.620 Should we pull up your Instagram?

03:44:26.260 Because you have a boyfriend.

03:44:27.660 I do have a boyfriend.

03:44:29.480 Eric?

03:44:29.760 And I do have an Instagram.

03:44:31.100 Eric, should we do a little check?

03:44:34.060 Yeah, we'll do a look-see.

03:44:35.820 So if you're a boyfriend, has he asked you to delete your Instagram?

03:44:39.260 No.

03:44:39.800 Do you get a lot of DMs from guys?

03:44:41.660 Yes.

03:44:42.420 Yeah.

03:44:42.900 I assume after this show, you're probably going to get some too.

03:44:48.420 He doesn't have an issue with it?

03:44:50.400 Well, he knows that it's inevitable.

03:44:52.780 He can't control that.

03:44:54.240 Neither can I.

03:44:55.040 But we just ignore them.

03:44:57.900 We just ignore them or block them if they're being weird.

03:45:01.860 What if you were to private your Instagram?

03:45:05.420 What if I were to private my Instagram?

03:45:07.240 I mean, I suppose.

03:45:08.400 I mean, if your boyfriend's not asking for it, then.

03:45:11.340 And you do.

03:45:12.260 Do you post your boyfriend?

03:45:14.280 I do post my boyfriend.

03:45:15.280 Okay.

03:45:15.640 Well, that's better than some girls. 0.99

03:45:16.680 Some girls dating dudes for two years, and they're nowhere to be found on Instagram.

03:45:21.340 Yeah.

03:45:21.940 Okay.

03:45:22.560 I don't post mine.

03:45:23.160 We don't have to pull it up.

03:45:24.960 I would post mine, but he says it's not good for my money, which is true, because guys 1.00

03:45:29.940 are simps, but if he asked me to post him, I will, and he's on my Facebook and everything

03:45:34.340 else.

03:45:34.840 So, I mean, Instagram, you know, whatever.

03:45:37.400 Yeah.

03:45:37.580 Sorry.

03:45:37.880 Again, sorry, guys, that we're getting to these at the end of the show.

03:45:40.980 Just we had a really high volume today.

03:45:43.040 So, go ahead.

03:45:44.440 Matthew John, this is the exemplification of narcissism and manipulation under the guise

03:45:52.940 of money.

03:45:54.420 Mick, you have to wake up.

03:45:56.020 As someone who was subject to the same emotional abuse, it will erode your mind.

03:46:01.420 Who's the bad guy here, me or him?

03:46:03.040 Who are you attacking right now, Matthew?

03:46:05.880 Which one of us is being attacked?

03:46:07.400 No, he's saying that I'm being manipulated and abused by a narcissist.

03:46:10.880 How is he being manipulated?

03:46:12.540 I'm being manipulated, if anything.

03:46:14.500 He's a man and don't really make any money, and I'm the one doing the job I don't want

03:46:17.920 to do.

03:46:18.300 So, you can look at it from either way.

03:46:20.360 I could choose to not be with her if I didn't want to, but I choose to be with her.

03:46:27.180 There's nothing wrong with him, and there's nothing wrong with me.

03:46:29.520 I deserve to be happy, so does he.

03:46:32.400 Go for it.

03:46:33.080 J.A. says, Brian, as hilarious and off the hook this show sometimes is, there is something

03:46:40.500 really good about it.

03:46:41.560 I honestly think this is going to do a lot of good for this country somehow.

03:46:45.160 It has a lot to do with how you steer it.

03:46:47.260 Good God's work.

03:46:48.620 Props.

03:46:49.840 Hey, thank you, man.

03:46:51.140 I really appreciate it.

03:46:54.260 That's quite the endorsement there, J.A.

03:46:56.300 Sorry that I'm getting to your super chat so late here into the show.

03:46:59.940 I really appreciate that positive message, man.

03:47:03.080 Thank you.

03:47:03.860 Thank you.

03:47:04.200 Yeah, that's nice.

03:47:06.700 I hope I can, I mean, perhaps you're overselling me a little bit there, but thank you, man.

03:47:12.960 All right, we have, that one came through as a TTS.

03:47:15.720 TTS, thank you guys so much for all the TTSs tonight.

03:47:18.120 Kyle, thank you, Prometheus.

03:47:20.120 Dacata B, go ahead.

03:47:21.820 Dacata B says, let's get a flex check for Mick.

03:47:24.860 He looks like he has a sleeper fit.

03:47:26.860 He looks jacked under that shirt.

03:47:28.520 Wow, that was underwhelming.

03:47:34.020 Roll the sleeves up.

03:47:38.020 Let's.

03:47:39.300 Yay.

03:47:40.120 Okay.

03:47:40.800 Squishy, squishy. 0.91

03:47:41.360 He's solid.

03:47:42.300 Aw, that's so cute.

03:47:43.340 Isn't this a weapons-free zone?

03:47:45.220 Cute.

03:47:45.440 All right, go for it.

03:47:52.500 Black, so great.

03:47:55.300 Socrates.

03:47:55.800 Socrates.

03:47:56.580 Whack. 0.86

03:47:57.160 This guy is so self-centered and weak, he would rather Keeley sacrifice her standing, status, 0.90

03:48:02.560 and purity than deal with customers yelling at him in a store? 1.00

03:48:05.680 You're a disgrace, and that's a fact. 0.97

03:48:07.560 Okay, well, you're entitled to your opinion, and I respect that, but, you know, at the time, 0.98

03:48:16.980 I was on the edge of not even having the job anyway that I had, and I didn't have customers

03:48:23.440 yelling at me. 0.86

03:48:24.180 I was wiping old people's butts. 1.00

03:48:28.100 So. 0.74

03:48:32.860 I don't know why I played that one.

03:48:34.940 All right.

03:48:35.160 Yo, Noah, thank you, man.

03:48:38.340 Appreciate it.

03:48:39.480 Honestly, rate your girl honestly.

03:48:41.240 I don't think this came through, or did it?

03:48:42.660 It did.

03:48:43.180 It did come through.

03:48:43.240 It did?

03:48:43.560 Oh, okay.

03:48:44.040 Okay, cool.

03:48:45.240 Let's see.

03:48:45.740 We have this one.

03:48:46.920 Yo, Marquavius, thank you, man.

03:48:48.620 Sivin, thank you, man.

03:48:50.440 Noah.

03:48:51.620 Morphous?

03:48:52.020 Ranga?

03:48:52.100 That one came in.

03:48:53.340 Did it?

03:48:53.620 Okay.

03:48:54.440 Ian Adkins, thank you for the 55.

03:48:55.940 Question for Brian.

03:48:56.580 What is your ultimate goal for this podcast?

03:48:58.600 Also, Chick in the Maroon.

03:49:02.420 What's up?

03:49:05.160 Do you want to say anything to Ian Adkins?

03:49:08.300 Hello.

03:49:10.180 Okay, my ultimate goal for the podcast is, look, I need a little breathing space, okay?

03:49:17.500 We need a little Lebensraum, okay?

03:49:19.440 So, okay, this is a World War I costume, guys.

03:49:28.880 It's not World War II.

03:49:29.900 Relax.

03:49:31.800 Yeah, you know, just the Sudetenland would be nice.

03:49:35.700 But, yeah, I mean, honestly, just I'm enjoying, as it is right now, I'm overwhelmed with, like,

03:49:44.740 the huge increase in viewership we've had recently.

03:49:46.980 I'm overwhelmed by all the patronage we've had.

03:49:49.980 It's certainly more than I could have ever hoped for and hopefully keep growing.

03:49:55.220 And, yeah, I don't know if that ultimate goal for this podcast, just, yeah, keep having good conversations

03:50:03.380 and having debates and, yeah.

03:50:06.520 So, and I would like to, if I can build a solid team around me, I'd like to maybe do more shows a week,

03:50:16.120 bring on co-hosts, maybe have, like, I'd love to maybe even, like, have the same format,

03:50:22.360 but, like, have someone, me still host it, but maybe have, like, I don't know if you saw the show I did with Tay-Tay.

03:50:27.560 Like, maybe she could come in for, like, Tay-Tay Thursday or something.

03:50:30.340 And she's just, like, with a bunch of girls because she's fire. 1.00

03:50:34.180 So, yeah.

03:50:35.240 Okay, we have Corey Treverson.

03:50:36.540 Thank you for the 50-man.

03:50:37.380 Much appreciated.

03:50:40.000 Sunny, why don't you go ahead and read that one?

03:50:43.240 The blondie is delusional, and her way of thinking is the actual problem here in Western countries. 1.00

03:50:47.700 This idea that if you choose an average guy, you are settling is idiotic. 1.00

03:50:53.720 Women. 1.00

03:50:54.460 Sorry.

03:50:55.060 Sorry, I got to finish.

03:50:56.820 Women are and will be single and sad because of this type of narcissism. 1.00

03:51:01.500 I never said you were, I think I was actually advocating for you to date average men.

03:51:08.420 You know what I mean?

03:51:08.940 Because the minority is high-value men.

03:51:12.300 I literally was advocating for that, so I don't know what he's talking about.

03:51:15.860 Mort?

03:51:16.300 All right, we have Corey Treverson here.

03:51:22.720 Hey, Brian.

03:51:23.700 Got to stop bringing on all these annoying Jesus people. 0.98

03:51:27.280 Also, for everyone, if the world was about to end and you could escape alive on a spaceship

03:51:32.520 with one other human, who would it be?

03:51:35.820 Him.

03:51:37.040 My boyfriend.

03:51:38.420 My fiance.

03:51:39.580 Oh.

03:51:40.940 My dad.

03:51:43.380 On a spaceship? 0.99

03:51:44.800 Okay, see, I'm like a dude, so I'm going to think this shit out. 0.99

03:51:50.080 So, okay. 0.98

03:51:50.440 Are we eventually going to land on a habitable planet or are we stuck in space, you know,

03:51:57.040 forever?

03:51:57.580 Assume stuck in space.

03:51:59.440 There's no people who can direct you to a new planet.

03:52:02.520 The world's done.

03:52:04.040 Because I was going to say, like, if we crash land on some, like, alien planet that's habitable, 0.99

03:52:08.700 but there's, like, fucking dangerous, like, dinosaur-type shits in there and, like, survival. 0.99

03:52:14.280 Like, we need basic survival. 0.99

03:52:15.640 Who's that dude?

03:52:16.700 Is it Bear Grylls?

03:52:17.720 Who's the survival?

03:52:18.820 Yeah. 0.91

03:52:18.880 I'd honestly probably, like, I'd probably, like, shit, maybe, repopulation, though, so 0.79

03:52:27.200 maybe I pick a chick, but I feel like I'd want, like, to get someone who's, like, got 0.97

03:52:30.960 survival skills.

03:52:32.480 So, who's the guy who was on Joe Rogan who was the survival guy?

03:52:40.120 Does anybody know?

03:52:40.960 Cameron Haynes, the hunter?

03:52:43.020 He was on, like, some reality show where he got partnered with a girl in, like, a survival

03:52:48.740 situation.

03:52:49.280 Naked and Afraid?

03:52:49.940 It might have been Naked. 0.81

03:52:51.020 Yeah, I think it was Naked.

03:52:51.860 Yes, it was Naked and Afraid.

03:52:52.780 What's his name?

03:52:53.560 Nude?

03:52:54.320 No.

03:52:54.560 Wait, Naked and Afraid, Joe Rogan.

03:52:57.000 Naked and Afraid.

03:52:59.020 Who's that guy?

03:52:59.640 Maybe I'll partner with him.

03:53:01.240 Forrest Galante.

03:53:02.960 Maybe I'd try to partner with Forrest Galante, but if we're stuck on a spaceship and, like,

03:53:06.800 we're good, we're just going to die out.

03:53:08.280 Yeah, I guess a chick. 0.97

03:53:10.920 Your fiance?

03:53:12.000 Hello. 1.00

03:53:12.800 Oh, shit. 0.99

03:53:13.560 We just got engaged. 1.00

03:53:14.780 Aren't you thrilled?

03:53:16.740 How about The Rock with a spear?

03:53:20.020 Honestly, like, Jordan Peterson. 1.00

03:53:22.540 What the fuck? 1.00

03:53:23.920 Elon Musk. 1.00

03:53:25.400 Elon Musk, I would bring.

03:53:27.460 If I didn't have a boyfriend, I would say Elon Musk.

03:53:30.280 Wait, question.

03:53:30.980 So, you're a virgin.

03:53:32.440 Do you want your partner to be a virgin?

03:53:35.360 Or it doesn't really matter?

03:53:37.600 So, like, it is a preference, but I understand that that's not very common.

03:53:41.980 So, it's not like a, it's not a deal breaker, but I would want, I would have to see that his

03:53:48.760 life truly changed.

03:53:50.120 That his ways are different.

03:53:51.380 So, like, if he, if he's like, oh, okay, I'm waiting, but he still, like, uses pornography,

03:53:56.280 like, no.

03:53:59.440 You know?

03:54:01.160 Okay.

03:54:01.360 Hey, we're over.

03:54:02.000 I already have the ring.

03:54:02.740 We're going to figure it out.

03:54:03.720 We'll figure it out.

03:54:04.460 Okay.

03:54:05.540 Did this one come through?

03:54:06.820 Yeah.

03:54:07.400 Okay.

03:54:09.120 That one came in.

03:54:10.700 I feel like Leslie Knope in that episode of Parks and Rec and the Me, he's talking about

03:54:15.800 me.

03:54:16.240 Yo, Speedy.

03:54:16.800 Thank you, man.

03:54:17.260 So confused.

03:54:18.340 Thank you, man.

03:54:21.860 Go for it.

03:54:23.680 Like comedian John Mulaney said, men are just D salesmen.

03:54:29.240 Men are just D. 0.87

03:54:31.080 Dick salesmen.

03:54:32.080 I saw this good Twitter thread recently.

03:54:36.420 It's women are marketers and men are advertisers. 1.00

03:54:42.260 Wait, I don't, whatever.

03:54:43.520 I'll pull it up on a separate stream at some future point.

03:54:46.260 Thank you, man.

03:54:47.740 Yo, thank you, Prometheus.

03:54:49.260 That came through.

03:54:51.400 Flintstone, $50 stock check.

03:54:53.300 Listen, I'm not a cheat.

03:54:56.280 Hold on.

03:54:56.660 I got something here.

03:54:57.500 Wait, let me see if I can find it.

03:54:58.680 They need new picks for WikiFee.

03:55:00.820 I guess. 1.00

03:55:01.140 You are a cheap bitch, darling. 1.00

03:55:03.060 You are a cheap bitch, darling. 1.00

03:55:04.760 I'm not a cheap. 1.00

03:55:06.220 I'm not cheap.

03:55:06.940 It's going to cost more than that if you want a sock check.

03:55:09.740 Thank you, Flintstone.

03:55:10.580 Appreciate it.

03:55:12.080 All right.

03:55:12.520 Thank you guys all so much for all these TTSs that came through.

03:55:16.220 Okay.

03:55:16.680 Wow.

03:55:16.900 Oh, my God.

03:55:17.880 Okay.

03:55:18.180 Wow.

03:55:18.440 Okay.

03:55:18.720 So it's not too bad.

03:55:20.160 I think we're pretty close here to getting.

03:55:22.020 Oh, my.

03:55:22.400 Wow.

03:55:22.580 Okay.

03:55:23.680 Oh, all right.

03:55:24.180 These are all just TTSs.

03:55:25.820 Thank you so much, guys.

03:55:27.460 So we're caught up on that.

03:55:28.780 Let me just check if we have any here.

03:55:30.500 Now we're.

03:55:31.700 Okay.

03:55:32.060 Cool.

03:55:32.400 I'll cut up there.

03:55:34.200 So let's see.

03:55:39.240 We're going to wrap here pretty soon.

03:55:41.240 Anyone have anything, final thought or final question or anything that they wanted to chat about?

03:55:50.040 Maybe a dating frustration you have.

03:55:52.720 Maybe men are pissing you off in some way.

03:55:56.220 Anything?

03:55:58.100 Anything?

03:55:58.860 Stop watching porn.

03:56:00.840 Oh. 0.87

03:56:02.420 Agree.

03:56:03.380 Agreed.

03:56:03.800 Wait, what's your take on that? 0.79

03:56:05.260 Like, why do you disagree with watching porn?

03:56:08.300 It's just, like, ultimate lust after something that, like, doesn't bring anything.

03:56:13.000 And from that, you can kind of, like, lack intimacy with your partner because you're always listening

03:56:18.980 after something else.

03:56:21.440 It's true.

03:56:22.260 It's not done good for anyone whatsoever.

03:56:25.240 Like, it's, it's, it usually becomes an addiction and destroys marriages. 0.88

03:56:30.800 It destroys relationships.

03:56:32.740 It's also made really unrealistic standards for people.

03:56:36.520 And I think that's just, like, awesome.

03:56:38.300 Also, what do you mean?

03:56:38.920 I think, like, women are supposed to look like this and they're supposed to be waxed and, 1.00

03:56:43.000 you know, all of the, like, things you typically see in adult film where it's, like, this is 0.56

03:56:49.700 the picture-perfect woman and now you have to look like that in order to receive sex or 1.00

03:56:54.100 feel valued as, like, that kind of sexual person. 0.63

03:56:57.280 So, you're not a fan of waxing is what you're telling us?

03:57:00.280 Not saying that, but I think that because of, like, these adult kind of things, it's made

03:57:08.080 women, like, like social media, how it's made, like, this picture-perfect woman, like, these 0.94

03:57:12.440 are the standards you now have to try to obtain in order to feel attractive or to be, like,

03:57:17.000 a socially, or, yeah, attractive person.

03:57:20.940 Jordan Peterson actually does talk about it.

03:57:23.240 But, yeah, it, it definitely affects the chemicals in your brain and, and it has this way that

03:57:29.360 it's certainly unnatural to get all this, this high and dopamine hit immediately and there's

03:57:36.740 a dissatisfaction.

03:57:38.320 A lot of men you, you talk to and they don't feel satisfied with their relationship or, or

03:57:43.900 girls in real life because it, it, porn is more exciting and you can click through so many 0.95

03:57:49.200 things and we've never had this for our monkey minds of, for, you know, millions of years and

03:57:55.500 now to be in this world where we have something on our phone that gives us that quick access

03:58:00.180 is definitely not natural and it is definitely harming young men at a rapid rate and I think

03:58:06.940 society is, is being impacted by it, especially future generations, but.

03:58:14.120 And I also feel with the rise of, like, OnlyFans and everything, so many people will make you

03:58:18.100 sound like you're crazy if you're like, I don't want my partner to watch porn and then that

03:58:22.800 is just bad, like, being gaslit by whole society. 0.99

03:58:26.480 You were saying, go ahead.

03:58:28.060 I was just going to say, I agree, it's, it's seen as, like, jealousy for some reason, but.

03:58:32.120 Yeah, no, it's crazy.

03:58:33.100 Yeah, if anything, it's just, it just means you care about them.

03:58:36.360 Yeah.

03:58:36.900 Yeah, the fact that I'm, the fact that I'm jealous and don't want him doing certain things

03:58:40.800 means that I love him.

03:58:41.980 Like, if you don't care what your partner does at all, like, whatsoever, it's like, well,

03:58:46.020 then you don't really care about them at all, like, you can go hook up with whoever,

03:58:49.180 you know, but money aside, you know, this is different, obviously, but nobody actually

03:58:55.140 wants to be with somebody who's, like, lusting after someone on a screen all the time or, like,

03:58:59.980 scrolling through pictures, liking girls on Instagram, looking at girls on TikTok who

03:59:04.320 are wearing, like, bikinis and stuff.

03:59:06.020 I mean, post what you want, but if you're with somebody, you obviously don't want your

03:59:09.520 man looking at that stuff all the time.

03:59:11.460 What were you going to say?

03:59:13.020 I was just going to say, like, consuming porn literally decreases, like, levels of testosterone.

03:59:17.720 As you were saying earlier, that's a huge issue amongst men and pornography.

03:59:26.140 If I could add something, I want to add on to what he was saying about the youth.

03:59:31.080 I was watching this video, I don't know if it was, like, by that Jubilee YouTube, whatever,

03:59:36.580 they were doing, like, an anonymous thing with some teens, and they had them wear, like,

03:59:39.900 these masks, and they were talking about porn at some point.

03:59:42.140 Like, and one of the, these young men were saying how they watched so much porn, like,

03:59:50.520 a lot of them were addicted, and they go through so many pages, and then nothing appeals to them,

03:59:57.940 so they resort to something more aggressive, like transgender porn, and, like, just things

04:00:03.200 that they would normally not watch, because it's not, it's, nothing will suffice at that 0.93

04:00:09.360 point.

04:00:09.880 That's happened to me.

04:00:11.340 Oh, my God.

04:00:12.260 So, yeah, yeah, yeah.

04:00:13.600 I was actually in a relationship, and I found out that, like, my partner was cheating on

04:00:17.620 me with a guy, and he wasn't even gay. 0.99

04:00:19.960 I was like, damn, that's crazy. 0.99

04:00:21.540 Wow. 0.99

04:00:23.760 You want to comment on that?

04:00:24.860 That's crazy.

04:00:25.220 I would like to hear more about that, actually.

04:00:27.780 That's pretty crazy.

04:00:29.060 It was treacherous.

04:00:29.420 Wait, why do you want your boyfriend to comment about that?

04:00:32.540 Do I?

04:00:33.600 Did you?

04:00:34.260 I'm not slept with a guy.

04:00:35.860 No, no, no, no.

04:00:37.200 Do I want to say?

04:00:38.820 No, you don't need to say.

04:00:40.320 What are you trying to say?

04:00:41.520 No, I just...

04:00:41.800 No, no, no, say it.

04:00:42.780 Say it.

04:00:43.880 Into the mic.

04:00:44.700 Say it into the mic. 1.00

04:00:46.300 He's going to get mad at me if I'm going to kill her. 1.00

04:00:49.060 What the? 1.00

04:00:49.660 Oh, my God.

04:00:50.560 Okay, wait.

04:00:51.460 Either way, it was really crazy.

04:00:53.020 So I was with this person for probably two years, going on three years, and we lived together.

04:01:00.720 And so I would go to work early in the morning, and then he would just send out these crazy

04:01:05.800 messages to these people.

04:01:07.240 And I found this treacherous website for local cruising around and all of this stuff.

04:01:14.900 So addresses were being sent.

04:01:17.220 Yeah, I sound crazy right now.

04:01:19.080 I went through this guy's phone, obviously, because something felt wrong, but I didn't

04:01:22.500 have any, like, proof.

04:01:24.300 So I go through this phone, and I find, like, he has, like, alter ego type things and, like, 0.98

04:01:28.920 secret emails and so much shit. 0.98

04:01:31.240 It was the craziest thing I've ever experienced. 0.99

04:01:33.280 But aside from, like, the cheating, I think it, for me, what made me feel the most, like,

04:01:38.800 terrible is just the deceit of, like, I had been sharing my life with this person.

04:01:44.180 Like, I would go to sleep next to this person every single day.

04:01:46.520 And then, yeah, it was just, like...

04:01:49.540 How long were you with this guy?

04:01:53.160 A little over two years.

04:01:55.480 And he was hooking up with dudes, cruising?

04:01:58.420 Yeah.

04:01:59.080 Yeah, it was crazy.

04:02:00.020 Yikes. 0.99

04:02:00.600 And he was so nuts. 0.99

04:02:01.400 That's a yikes. 0.98

04:02:02.280 Also because, yeah, it was a lot.

04:02:06.940 Oh, look who it is.

04:02:07.880 Let's just say, I haven't recovered.

04:02:08.980 Look who finally joins us.

04:02:10.560 Mike Davis with the $50 soup chat.

04:02:13.240 Can you read this for us, dear?

04:02:14.840 Of course.

04:02:15.400 Thank you.

04:02:15.960 If I were to ever be stuck in a tight capsule with one other person, it must definitely

04:02:21.480 not be a female, unless I was suicidal. 1.00

04:02:24.380 I'd rather bust a nut until the end of time than be confined to that bullshit. 1.00

04:02:29.320 If I ever get bored, I'll use my left hand. 0.99

04:02:32.500 Jesus Christ.

04:02:32.820 Sounds like you need to meet better women. 1.00

04:02:36.080 Who would you bring then, Mike?

04:02:39.340 Hold on one thing.

04:02:40.220 So, Vita, right?

04:02:43.580 Did I say your name right?

04:02:45.440 Vita.

04:02:46.420 Vito?

04:02:47.440 Vita.

04:02:48.120 Vita.

04:02:48.640 Like, not Vita.

04:02:49.160 It's spelled with a T, but like pronounced with a D.

04:02:51.120 Oh, Vida.

04:02:51.640 Yeah.

04:02:51.960 Vida.

04:02:52.500 Okay, I see, I see.

04:02:53.380 Just like, kind of like Vita.

04:02:54.720 You live in South Carolina, right?

04:02:58.500 Mike Davis is in North Carolina.

04:03:00.460 Oh, gosh.

04:03:01.880 And here-

04:03:02.420 Three burgers, right?

04:03:03.180 Is that Burger King?

04:03:04.180 Can you show Mike Davis the ring I just gave you, by the way?

04:03:07.120 All $7?

04:03:08.780 Here, do a little-

04:03:10.720 Oh, what?

04:03:11.720 The light?

04:03:12.520 Yeah, do a little-

04:03:13.220 There we go.

04:03:13.760 Mike Davis, confirm or deny, would you be willing to get my fiancee some hamburgers when

04:03:21.700 she goes back to the East Coast? 0.96

04:03:23.880 He owns like 255 Burger King restaurants in the Carolinas.

04:03:29.300 I looked him up, and it says he's just a manager.

04:03:33.220 What?

04:03:33.720 Yeah, yeah.

04:03:34.800 Last night, like, I looked him up.

04:03:36.160 No, no, no.

04:03:36.920 You've got him confused.

04:03:39.700 You looked him up on LinkedIn?

04:03:41.340 Oh, I mean, I looked him up, and then the LinkedIn came up.

04:03:43.260 You're telling me you looked up Mike Davis on LinkedIn?

04:03:46.100 Yes, because you said the Burger King thing, and I was like, let me check this.

04:03:49.260 And it says he's a manager.

04:03:50.520 Are you doxing Mike Davis right now?

04:03:53.100 Mike Davis dox.

04:03:54.280 Please, free burgers.

04:03:54.480 He's the manager of what?

04:03:56.080 Of the Burger King?

04:03:56.760 Yeah, yeah.

04:03:57.420 No, he's the owner.

04:03:58.120 He's the proprietor.

04:03:59.620 I mean-

04:04:00.860 He's the proprietor.

04:04:01.820 Sure, but-

04:04:02.840 You think he's lying?

04:04:04.000 I mean, I would have thought if he truly, like, owned-

04:04:06.880 You said 200?

04:04:08.160 It would have come up.

04:04:09.960 Like, I dare you.

04:04:11.700 Maybe he goes by a different name.

04:04:15.400 Burger King. 1.00

04:04:16.000 That does seem a little-

04:04:18.040 Mike Davis.

04:04:20.420 Look, this is a photo of Mike Davis.

04:04:22.540 Here, let me put it up there.

04:04:26.140 Yeah, that's Mike Davis there.

04:04:28.260 Is that a Burger King hat?

04:04:29.680 Yeah, that's a manager hat.

04:04:31.880 When do owners wear their-

04:04:34.160 Well, here's the thing, right, is, like, he's, like, boots-on-the-ground leadership.

04:04:40.400 So, like, he's, like, those CEOs that will go in and, like, flip the burgers, like, every once in a while.

04:04:45.440 I'm sorry.

04:04:46.180 I'm so sorry.

04:04:47.120 So, like, I hope he says, like, free burgers.

04:04:49.500 But if you're-

04:04:50.400 If Mike Davis has misrepresented his steak in Burger King restaurants to me, that is a bigger deception than your boyfriend that's sleeping with dudes.

04:05:01.720 I'm just saying.

04:05:02.480 I know.

04:05:02.780 I'm saying.

04:05:03.260 Your boyfriend, your boyfriend who's, like, cruising for dudes.

04:05:06.340 Like, this, this, Mike Davis, if you're-

04:05:10.220 Wait, he's not my boyfriend, though.

04:05:11.320 Let's clarify that.

04:05:12.000 Oh, ex-boyfriend.

04:05:12.900 Wait, no, we do not claim him. 0.99

04:05:14.360 Damn, that's- 0.99

04:05:15.500 I hope he's still watching and can speak for himself. 0.99

04:05:19.240 Mike Davis?

04:05:20.060 Yeah, Mike Davis.

04:05:21.440 Well.

04:05:22.300 If he is the Burger King or not.

04:05:24.180 All right, we have DB here.

04:05:25.180 Mick.

04:05:26.540 Wait.

04:05:27.160 Oh, yeah.

04:05:28.180 Blink if you're being held against your will.

04:05:31.500 Never blinks again.

04:05:32.540 Wait, so, hold on.

04:05:33.460 I'm not going to let you guys off the hook that quick. 0.99

04:05:35.920 She was about to say that you had an orgy with dudes or some shit like that. 0.99

04:05:40.700 I was not about to say that. 0.99

04:05:41.440 I was not about to say that.

04:05:42.500 There was some sus-ness.

04:05:43.820 I was about to say something.

04:05:46.040 Say it.

04:05:47.380 Say it.

04:05:48.080 Do I have your consent to say it?

04:05:49.920 Consent.

04:05:50.680 I don't know what you're going to say, so you don't have consent.

04:05:53.780 What the-

04:05:54.520 I'm going to say something about the phone and the dirt.

04:06:00.400 Can I say anything about the stuff I found?

04:06:02.780 Mick, give her- 0.95

04:06:03.680 Come on.

04:06:04.240 Consent.

04:06:04.600 Can I do consent?

04:06:06.700 I feel like this has enough.

04:06:08.340 The phone and the dirt.

04:06:09.840 Okay, it's just-

04:06:10.800 She doesn't like that when I like certain people's Instagram photos.

04:06:15.120 No, it's not just that.

04:06:16.220 It's the searching.

04:06:17.580 He's actually on websites that he shouldn't be on.

04:06:20.800 And he's on dating websites.

04:06:23.080 I'm sorry, Mick.

04:06:23.840 I didn't mean to throw you out to the bus here, bro.

04:06:25.960 He's on Tammy.

04:06:26.820 He claims to-

04:06:27.580 What is that?

04:06:27.680 I hate to do this, but-

04:06:28.680 What is Tammy? 0.99

04:06:29.260 Don't talk about it.

04:06:30.440 Anything to go viral, right?

04:06:31.900 But at least we're being-

04:06:32.620 Oh, no, no, no.

04:06:33.620 It's not-

04:06:34.220 That's not going to go viral.

04:06:35.680 What if I-

04:06:36.600 The links, girl.

04:06:37.420 And you can't say that and then-

04:06:39.020 Wait, can I say the-

04:06:40.360 Can I say the truth about the thing?

04:06:42.200 No, you can't.

04:06:43.140 I'm fine.

04:06:43.620 No, you don't have permission. 0.91

04:06:45.360 No, what the heck?

04:06:46.600 I can't talk about-

04:06:47.920 Okay, I'm going to save you here, Mick.

04:06:49.220 And no, I'm on them for the same reason that she is, to make friends and to talk to people.

04:06:56.080 Yeah, that's why we're here, is to make friends and talk to people and just-

04:06:59.360 Welcome to the whatever council, whatever relationship counseling services-

04:07:05.720 Support group.

04:07:06.200 Yeah.

04:07:08.700 Do we-

04:07:09.300 I don't push on this one, I don't think.

04:07:10.820 I don't think I dig on this one.

04:07:12.020 Okay.

04:07:15.120 You really threw your boyfriend under the bus there.

04:07:17.540 If I'm going to say it, though, you threw him under the bus.

04:07:20.200 I, yeah.

04:07:21.160 Into the mic, mic, mic, mic, mic.

04:07:22.420 Yes, but I'm not trying to, but I'm tempted to because of something she said, and then it

04:07:27.420 just popped in my mind, but-

04:07:29.580 Because you're upset?

04:07:31.340 Are you upset?

04:07:31.700 I mean, something that bothers me a little bit.

04:07:33.500 Well, she's jealous of me talking to other people online.

04:07:35.720 I'm not perfect either.

04:07:35.740 I got my stuff.

04:07:36.540 Feel free to throw me in there, too.

04:07:38.140 I don't mind.

04:07:38.520 Or doing it, but I've gotten better about it.

04:07:40.800 I don't-

04:07:41.480 When you say talking to other people, are you talking to other women or other men?

04:07:44.940 Other women, other, like, people.

04:07:49.380 I don't know.

04:07:49.960 It just, but generally, like, you know, like, the Bumble friends or something. 1.00

04:07:53.480 She found me out, like, doing that or talking to people, and she's like, oh, are you meeting?

04:07:57.880 I haven't met anyone on any of these apps.

04:08:01.060 And then even going on Instagram and liking photos of other girls, like, I stopped doing

04:08:07.440 it.

04:08:07.740 I mean, when we were first together, yes, I was going on and still doing it.

04:08:11.280 I was still following a lot of other girls, but eventually I learned, like, you know, it's

04:08:15.880 proper when you're in a relationship not to do that stuff and everything, but I grew

04:08:19.960 over time.

04:08:20.580 She was my first serious relationship, you know.

04:08:23.880 So, yes, she still has an issue.

04:08:25.500 She's still held up on it.

04:08:27.560 Do you play for both teams?

04:08:29.380 No.

04:08:30.100 Okay, so you're straight.

04:08:31.160 Yeah.

04:08:31.340 But he told...

04:08:32.600 What?

04:08:33.040 I never told you anything.

04:08:34.280 He said that he...

04:08:35.900 Closer to the mic.

04:08:36.620 Mic, mic, mic, mic, mic.

04:08:37.920 Scoot your chair in if you have to.

04:08:39.640 Oh, my gosh.

04:08:40.300 There you go.

04:08:40.600 So, it's not really...

04:08:41.720 Oh, my gosh.

04:08:43.780 Do I really want to say this?

04:08:45.880 I do want to say this.

04:08:47.060 You're being kind of evil, though.

04:08:48.040 That's your point.

04:08:48.440 But, like, what if it...

04:08:49.320 But what if it...

04:08:50.300 What if it helps somebody else?

04:08:52.240 What if it helps somebody else?

04:08:53.440 It's not helping anybody.

04:08:54.800 You're just trying to embarrass me by things that are not evil.

04:08:57.760 Okay, honestly, honestly, honestly...

04:08:59.200 Just to go viral.

04:09:00.300 Honestly, you're right, but also not right, because it's something that I need advice

04:09:04.260 on, but I don't know.

04:09:06.100 I don't have no one to talk to but you about this thing that I can't talk about.

04:09:09.320 You can talk to me.

04:09:11.500 But you're not always honest about things.

04:09:13.600 I am honest with you.

04:09:15.280 For the most part, but, you know...

04:09:17.560 This is not the whatever podcast anymore.

04:09:20.760 Yo, I'm going to pull the super chat back up.

04:09:25.400 Mick?

04:09:26.660 Mick?

04:09:27.200 Is there something you want to tell us?

04:09:28.760 No, she's just trying to... 1.00

04:09:30.320 She's just trying to go viral right now. 1.00

04:09:31.840 Not true at all.

04:09:32.780 Not true at all.

04:09:33.660 Yes, she is.

04:09:33.780 Not true at all.

04:09:35.460 Do you guys...

04:09:36.060 Wait, I'll let you go in just a sec.

04:09:37.600 Do you guys live in Santa Barbara or you live, like, North... 0.94

04:09:40.180 Like Solvang or some shit? 0.99

04:09:41.540 Santa Barbara. 0.99

04:09:42.240 We live in SB.

04:09:43.640 What?

04:09:44.080 Mike Davis?

04:09:44.840 Oh, it didn't trigger.

04:09:46.280 Oh, did he do it through...

04:09:48.640 Oh, it's a super chat.

04:09:50.300 Never had a LinkedIn, so this female is talking out her blank.

04:09:53.980 I don't blank with Caucasian women, so it's a no from me. 0.98

04:10:00.580 If it's snowing, I ain't going.

04:10:03.900 If it ain't brown, it ain't down?

04:10:08.240 I ain't down.

04:10:09.540 Oh, I ain't down.

04:10:10.440 Excuse me.

04:10:11.040 Excuse me.

04:10:11.560 No problem.

04:10:12.220 I'm engaged.

04:10:13.620 Yeah, sorry.

04:10:15.360 No, no, no.

04:10:16.140 It was more like Mike Davis is the homie, so, like, it was more just like, you know, 0.98

04:10:20.820 he could get you some Burger King gift cards and, you know, maybe a complimentary burger.

04:10:25.420 No burger.

04:10:26.240 But, um...

04:10:27.380 Okay.

04:10:27.980 Well, I'll rescue us from...

04:10:28.700 Okay, I'll say what it actually is.

04:10:30.280 I'll say what it actually is.

04:10:32.460 Okay, one time I found him searching for something, but it was because of a pop-up ad because of...

04:10:37.780 You know how when you watch movies and you pirate them, I saw something and it wasn't

04:10:41.420 what I thought, so...

04:10:43.020 Like, you know those ads that come up with, like, inappropriate websites?

04:10:46.120 This is going to be a really awkward car ride back home for you, though.

04:10:49.240 Not really.

04:10:49.440 Nothing's awkward unless you make it awkward.

04:10:51.000 Jesus Christ.

04:10:52.320 I'm not awkward at all.

04:10:53.420 I really don't care.

04:10:54.580 I don't care.

04:10:55.720 I'm just saying that it wasn't really a big deal.

04:10:57.720 It was just something, like...

04:10:59.280 Because sometimes we don't want to, like, go on Netflix because there's nothing to watch.

04:11:02.840 So I wanted to watch a movie.

04:11:04.040 He wanted to watch...

04:11:05.000 What movie was it?

04:11:07.360 Pirates of the Caribbean?

04:11:08.000 Do you need advice on that?

04:11:08.860 It was some movie and...

04:11:10.560 Oh, I do love the first movie.

04:11:12.020 A. W. Superchatted $99.99.

04:11:16.340 Red.

04:11:17.160 How does it feel to contribute photos and videos that continue to deteriorate the human mind?

04:11:22.940 You stay with me not because you're the best he can do, but because he's the best you can do.

04:11:28.140 We're both amazing.

04:11:28.820 What a shame, beautiful face with a toxic heart.

04:11:31.140 I'm not toxic.

04:11:32.200 I'm an awesome person. 0.99

04:11:33.440 And screw you. 1.00

04:11:34.140 You're toxic. 1.00

04:11:35.300 I'm great. 0.99

04:11:36.040 He's great.

04:11:36.620 We love each other.

04:11:37.300 Otherwise, we wouldn't be together.

04:11:40.120 We wouldn't be together if we didn't love each other, obviously.

04:11:43.980 So I'm amazing.

04:11:45.780 I can get anybody I want.

04:11:46.900 And anyone who doesn't want me, I probably don't want them anyways.

04:11:48.540 Are you going to stand for that, Mick?

04:11:50.220 Stand for whatever you want.

04:11:51.380 Well, she does have suitors going after her, even though we're together every day, often.

04:11:58.980 Has she ever slashed her tires?

04:12:01.700 No, because we only have one car.

04:12:03.920 Oh, it'd kind of be like a self-inflicted wound.

04:12:07.400 Yeah.

04:12:08.500 Wait, I'm going to move away from this.

04:12:10.900 Okay, so do you have a brother?

04:12:12.800 I do have a brother.

04:12:13.700 Older, younger?

04:12:14.460 Younger.

04:12:15.100 Younger, how old?

04:12:15.940 16.

04:12:16.500 Oh, okay, never mind.

04:12:18.660 I was going to ask a dating-related question of his experience, but I assume he's too young

04:12:23.200 to really be dating.

04:12:24.660 He tells me that he has too many hoes to have a girlfriend. 1.00

04:12:30.120 My 16-year-old brother.

04:12:31.240 Your 16-year-old bro, he's got too many hoes. 1.00

04:12:32.960 Yes.

04:12:33.920 Really?

04:12:34.360 He's the 1%. 0.98

04:12:35.200 That's what he says.

04:12:37.060 Your little bro's a Chad?

04:12:38.200 Is he watching, you think?

04:12:39.320 I don't know.

04:12:40.040 Is he in the chat?

04:12:40.860 I haven't seen his name.

04:12:42.940 Shout out little brother.

04:12:44.340 Yeah, he's like a gamer, popular water polo player.

04:12:47.900 Oh, water polo.

04:12:48.740 Okay.

04:12:49.240 Okay.

04:12:50.100 So he's got too many hoes, his problem. 1.00

04:12:52.100 Yes.

04:12:52.820 All right.

04:12:53.560 Just curious there.

04:12:54.640 Okay.

04:12:54.800 Hold on.

04:12:57.440 Let me check if we have any.

04:12:59.660 Oh, from Indonesia. 1.00

04:13:01.680 Okay.

04:13:01.980 What's up?

04:13:03.020 Hold on.

04:13:04.540 Lucia, thank you for the 50.

04:13:05.680 Hello from Indonesia.

04:13:06.620 Q.

04:13:06.780 We want men to value sex by not watching corn, but women also get angry if men care about 0.99

04:13:12.040 body count when I think men who care about body count is because they think sex is valuable.

04:13:17.320 Isn't ignoring body count add up to hookup culture?

04:13:23.280 I don't think so at all.

04:13:27.840 I think if you don't care about body count and we don't have hookup culture, why would you need to care about body count?

04:13:35.160 If everybody's body count's low, right?

04:13:37.600 Why would you need to care?

04:13:38.820 Well, you would be caring about it.

04:13:43.140 Yeah, but if there's no hookup culture, right, and you assume your body count's low because there's no hookup culture, why would you need to care?

04:13:51.820 Well, I mean, if money grew on trees, then that would be cool, but it's a bit of a hypothetical scenario because there is a hookup culture.

04:14:00.200 And I mean, throughout, even when there wasn't a hookup culture, men throughout all of human history, actually, I think both genders throughout all human history valued chastity, valued sexual purity, both men and women for religious reasons, chiefly.

04:14:16.280 Although men were more invested in it because one of the reasons men care about a woman's body count or a woman's promiscuity, if a woman's promiscuous, you cannot guarantee paternity. 0.78

04:14:28.140 So one of the biggest L's as a guy that you can take is raising a child that's not yours. 0.67

04:14:31.740 So a promiscuous woman or a woman who's not a virgin, if she's sleeping with other men and she gets pregnant, then you can't guarantee who the father is. 0.96

04:14:41.380 Now, obviously, today in the past, I think DNA test came around in the 1980s.

04:14:46.140 Now we can determine who is the father.

04:14:48.420 However, that doesn't undo our evolution and our biology for men having a evolutionary hardwired desire to know that the child that we're raising and investing our time, energy and resources in is actually our child.

04:15:05.400 So that's I think that's one of the reasons why men care more about promiscuity and body count than women for evolutionary and biological reasons, because as a woman, if you get pregnant, you know, for certainty, the child is yours.

04:15:15.820 However, if a man, you it's unless you get a paternity test, there's really no way to ensure that.

04:15:21.500 And the way they ensured that as best as they could in the past was with the virgins.

04:15:27.740 If the woman's a virgin, she's had sex with no other men, you know, for certain that if you have a child with her, that the child is yours. 0.87

04:15:35.960 So yeah, I think but even like back in the day, right, I think you could tell if a woman was promiscuous because sex work and prostituting has been has existed since the dawn of time. 1.00

04:15:47.940 Women as soon as women figured out that they could commodify off of sex, that's what they did. 1.00

04:15:52.600 So it's like it was in the olden days.

04:15:54.960 So everyone thinks this whole OnlyFans stuff is new.

04:15:57.160 It's not, you know, but like, yeah, I think I think a true promiscuous woman like carries it with her like you can tell when a woman's sleeping around. 0.99

04:16:09.180 So yeah, you can.

04:16:09.900 I mean, there's definitely indicators, although I would say that there are definitely some unassuming women who you would not think who are shy and quiet and introverted and reserved and aren't blasted with tattoos. 0.99

04:16:21.900 And they can be there's some promiscuous chicks out there that you might not be able to I'm not and by the way, if you have tattoos, it's not for sure that you're promiscuous. 1.00

04:16:31.520 But like, that is one indicator that men are going to look at be like, is she heavily tatted? 1.00

04:16:36.560 She's maybe again, you might you could be super relationship status, but men do look at the degree to which you tattoo yourself and think she might she might be more promiscuous because of how fucking blasted she is on her fucking, you know, full sleeves or whatever it is, you know, so well, I'm sure you looked at me and like did not assume that like sex addict was the words that were going to come out of my mouth. 1.00

04:16:58.060 Right. Because it's like, well, like, you know, it's just like shocking. But yeah, so I agree with that. Yeah. 0.97

04:17:04.200 Yeah. I mean, the most I think a lot of guys can can tell. I mean, you know, it's in your behavior. It's how you move.

04:17:10.860 So although but again, we've we've had women on the show who you would never think it like very demure, mellow, like very reserved.

04:17:21.920 And they like we had a 19 year old girl who had slept with 33 people and she was like super like super sweet, very calm, reserved and just so stay safe out there, gentlemen, because some sometimes they're unassuming.

04:17:40.960 OK, so I had one final question, but it slipped my mind. Did anyone else have like a question or anything or yeah, not so much a question.

04:17:49.200 And we talked about it a bit earlier, but I just wanted to comment on how refreshing I think this conversation is.

04:17:56.220 Shockingly, we're very different people, but all of us have come together on a multitude of very countercultural talking points tonight, rejecting the pornography industry, rejecting the idea of hookup culture, quitting your hormonal birth control,

04:18:09.920 waiting until you're married to have sex, wanting committed long term relationships.

04:18:13.960 These are all things that very much go against the grain of what culture tells us we should be embracing and running toward.

04:18:21.000 And I have nothing but hope for our generation, despite so many people telling us that we are hopeless and destroying the foundation of Western society.

04:18:30.460 Conversations like this need to be happening more. And I'm just really refreshed and encouraged by this.

04:18:35.580 Well, hey, good times. Thank you.

04:18:38.720 OK, anybody else?

04:18:43.020 Anybody else? Speak now or forever. Hold your peace.

04:18:47.720 Mick, find the thought.

04:18:50.880 Follow my friend Jake McCollum. He has a smaller YouTube channel.

04:18:55.460 Just being a good friend.

04:18:58.340 OK.

04:19:00.220 What's that term called? Shameless plug. 1.00

04:19:03.460 OK.

04:19:03.800 I mean, you can you can follow my Instagram, too.

04:19:06.120 Oh, all right.

04:19:07.240 OK.

04:19:08.920 OK.

04:19:09.240 I feel like I had one last question.

04:19:13.140 Going up to the bars.

04:19:16.220 Gamers. Do we talk about we're talking about gamers.

04:19:19.340 Oh, yeah. Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

04:19:23.860 Twitch.tv slash whatever. Link is in the description.

04:19:27.040 Drop us a follow.

04:19:27.700 Eric, if you can pull it up. Drop us a follow.

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04:19:39.400 Hey, thank you, everyone, for following.

04:19:41.120 Thank you, everyone, for...

04:19:43.180 Bro, tonight was overwhelming.

04:19:44.440 All the chat and the comments and everything.

04:19:47.520 So really thank you guys so much for all your support and patronage tonight.

04:19:53.000 OK, so...

04:19:53.760 Oh, let's end.

04:19:54.400 Let's wrap on the Patrice clip.

04:19:55.600 Let's do Patrice O'Neill.

04:19:57.300 Eric, can you pull up the Patrice O'Neill clip?

04:20:00.080 Yeah.

04:20:00.900 Oh, here.

04:20:01.480 Pull this one up real quick.

04:20:03.460 Hashtag free Mick.

04:20:04.960 Mick?

04:20:05.720 You're free to go if you want to, but... 0.98

04:20:08.240 Bro, like I said, that's going to be a fucking awkward ride home. 0.98

04:20:11.300 Right? 0.99

04:20:13.940 Or is it good?

04:20:14.460 Are you guys good?

04:20:15.120 There's a little tension.

04:20:16.060 I'm not going to lie.

04:20:16.580 I'm good.

04:20:16.900 Like I said, I let go of things.

04:20:19.540 I'm very calm and fine right now.

04:20:25.220 Anybody?

04:20:25.720 I detected a little detention there.

04:20:27.360 I don't know.

04:20:28.280 A little tension.

04:20:28.800 We have arguments.

04:20:29.480 There's no tension.

04:20:30.500 Why is there tension?

04:20:31.620 I detected a little tension.

04:20:33.000 Where?

04:20:33.200 Just a little bit.

04:20:34.140 You're a gaslighter, Brian.

04:20:35.720 I'm gaslighter.

04:20:36.240 Do you want there to be tension?

04:20:37.540 No.

04:20:37.840 Do you want there to be tension?

04:20:38.520 No, no, no.

04:20:39.280 There isn't tension.

04:20:40.080 Well, you were...

04:20:42.440 Well, you know, sometimes we don't agree on everything, so sometimes we can get a little

04:20:46.540 annoyed for a minute, but that's not...

04:20:48.820 I'm fine.

04:20:49.540 We definitely, definitely have our disagreements.

04:20:52.240 You were airing his dirty laundry a little bit.

04:20:55.040 That's where the tension was.

04:20:55.880 Did I say anything?

04:20:56.840 Did I say anything?

04:20:57.780 I mean, you kind of alluded to him being potentially gay.

04:21:04.440 I don't know.

04:21:06.160 Which I'm not.

04:21:07.140 That seemed like the direction it was going.

04:21:10.200 I don't know.

04:21:10.560 Anyways, not that there's anything wrong with that.

04:21:13.180 It was literally just referring to like an ad pop-up, like on Google, you know, when

04:21:18.380 you're watching a movie, you're pirating it, and you see some, you know, corn on the internet

04:21:23.400 that you're not supposed to see.

04:21:24.820 Then what did you need advice for?

04:21:26.460 All right.

04:21:26.680 It was about what you think about Bumble.

04:21:30.160 Like if your boyfriend, girlfriend has Bumble, like do you think that's okay? 0.98

04:21:34.920 Keely, you're on OnlyFans.

04:21:37.880 Yeah. 0.99

04:21:38.100 You're getting fucked by other dudes. 1.00

04:21:40.260 Not anymore. 1.00

04:21:40.620 Give him a little space.

04:21:41.420 Not anymore.

04:21:42.480 No, you're still...

04:21:43.200 What do you mean not anymore?

04:21:44.140 I haven't even gone like doing a video in like more than six months, so I haven't touched

04:21:48.660 anyone else in like six months except for him.

04:21:50.960 Okay, but fine, but you had previously, do you still strip?

04:21:55.240 I haven't gone to the club in over like a week or two, but I don't, I'll quit today.

04:22:00.500 Like I said, I will quit.

04:22:02.620 Are we, should we, is this like an intervention?

04:22:05.160 Is this like your coming to Christ moment?

04:22:08.860 Can we get some Deus Volt?

04:22:11.620 I want to see Deus Volt in the chat, boys.

04:22:14.280 Okay.

04:22:16.460 Wait, so the whole thing about you stopping your OnlyFans, is that really, because you're

04:22:20.100 probably going to get some followers after the show, so.

04:22:22.120 But what if I don't post anything?

04:22:23.420 What if I'm just getting followers?

04:22:24.840 Or what if I just post a picture of me in like a regular outfit like this, like a selfie

04:22:29.700 without anything?

04:22:30.940 Because no one knows what you have on there until they subscribe.

04:22:33.440 Are you going to keep like the ahi gao and the like group scenes up? 0.73

04:22:38.600 The what?

04:22:39.320 Are you going to keep your existing content up?

04:22:41.140 I mean, I can't really take it down if it's online, but if it's on OnlyFans, I can take

04:22:45.420 it down if you want me to.

04:22:47.020 Do you want me to take it down?

04:22:47.840 No, she has great photos on there. 0.85

04:22:49.580 Right, you want her to keep making money, I assume. 1.00

04:22:52.140 Yes, they're very nice photos.

04:22:54.600 Okay.

04:22:55.240 Very, you know, good pics.

04:22:58.840 So are, is this a, are you going to do it?

04:23:04.700 Are you going to, is she deleting her OnlyFans or what?

04:23:07.600 No, I don't think she should.

04:23:09.380 If anything, that would be the one thing she shouldn't.

04:23:13.620 Deus Volt in the chat.

04:23:15.280 Okay.

04:23:15.860 What is it?

04:23:16.540 I'll, I'll start one to be fair.

04:23:19.280 I'll just post a feet pics.

04:23:22.020 Okay.

04:23:22.760 Oh, all right.

04:23:23.860 Okay.

04:23:25.460 One last question for you.

04:23:27.220 So you said, you said eight body count, correct?

04:23:33.160 Correct.

04:23:33.560 Okay.

04:23:34.480 Um, but so, so you're 18.

04:23:35.920 Was that mostly through high school?

04:23:37.140 Was it like, uh, all of them were high school besides my boyfriend now.

04:23:41.640 Are you, are you from Santa Barbara?

04:23:42.940 No, I'm from San Diego.

04:23:44.000 San Diego.

04:23:44.380 Would you say like, uh, amongst like in high school for people in San Diego, is there like

04:23:50.280 we're a pretty big hookup culture in, in high school?

04:23:53.520 Absolutely.

04:23:54.200 Really?

04:23:54.640 Okay.

04:23:55.740 In like middle school for kids, like elementary school.

04:23:59.740 Yikes.

04:24:00.640 It's that bad now.

04:24:02.240 Elementary school?

04:24:03.100 Mm-hmm.

04:24:03.500 In Chicago, the public school district is handing out free condoms to everyone starting

04:24:07.700 in fifth grade.

04:24:08.520 So 10 years old.

04:24:09.620 Oh my God. 1.00

04:24:10.160 What the fuck? 1.00

04:24:10.940 I heard a crazy story about Isla Vista Elementary School and how like a janitor like caught some 1.00

04:24:17.780 like fourth graders.

04:24:19.700 Okay, well, we, we, we know where you're going with that, but yeah, that's a yikes.

04:24:27.400 That's a major.

04:24:27.620 I mean, I was a virgin until I was like 17 and a half.

04:24:29.980 So I mean.

04:24:30.260 Lucky.

04:24:31.340 Oh my God.

04:24:32.200 My choice.

04:24:32.820 My choice.

04:24:33.900 It's like, uh, sorry.

04:24:36.480 Well, what about them putting condoms in the woman's restroom? 1.00

04:24:40.980 What about it?

04:24:41.940 Well, they're handing them out to at women's prisons even, which tells you something.

04:24:46.500 It tells you that something is allowed to go on in there, which shouldn't be allowed.

04:24:50.200 Well, and this might be a controversial take, but I don't think male prison guards should 0.95

04:24:54.400 be working in women's prisons. 1.00

04:24:56.540 Like it just, it, it creates like a horrible, you know, it's a risk because there's one guy

04:25:02.740 and all the, everyone wants something clearly.

04:25:05.000 Yeah.

04:25:05.400 It creates like, um, procuring prostitution. 1.00

04:25:09.420 He could just go and R word the girls if he wanted to.

04:25:12.420 And it's a prison.

04:25:13.260 Nobody's doing anything.

04:25:13.880 Female prison officers do that too, though. 1.00

04:25:16.360 That's true.

04:25:17.240 But they have a better chance of fighting back, you know?

04:25:20.180 Like if it, if a big old CO man is coming at you, what are you going to do?

04:25:24.880 And you're in prison.

04:25:25.640 They also have like men who identifies women going and impregnating.

04:25:34.900 It seems like we all agree on that topic before even getting there.

04:25:38.460 That's pretty scary.

04:25:39.200 I mean, what do you do at that point?

04:25:40.560 Last question.

04:25:43.160 Last question.

04:25:45.220 Oh, just, I wanted to go around the table on this.

04:25:47.580 How does everyone like identify politically?

04:25:51.040 Politically, I would say I'm pretty neutral, but a little more on the conservative side.

04:25:56.400 Oh, okay.

04:25:57.620 I'm pretty much straight down the middle moderate.

04:26:01.000 I go a little more liberal.

04:26:02.900 I would say a moderate libertarian that's a little more right-leaning.

04:26:09.380 Same.

04:26:10.760 I feel like I'm pretty neutral with like more conservative views.

04:26:16.920 I don't know.

04:26:18.140 I have been finding myself agreeing more with conservative views in the past few months.

04:26:23.440 So...

04:26:23.800 A little closer to the mic.

04:26:24.780 Oh, yeah, it's fine.

04:26:26.720 Very conservative.

04:26:27.660 I think the thumbnail speaks for itself in this video.

04:26:33.060 Well, I wanted to maybe...

04:26:34.580 I would have liked to have tried to stack the panel a little more, have some liberals, but

04:26:41.580 I mean, it seems like pretty moderate overall panel, I would say generally, with some perhaps

04:26:47.700 leaning a bit more conservative even.

04:26:50.240 Okay.

04:26:50.360 So, I mean, the follow-up question, the reason I ask is because my follow-up question was

04:26:55.020 going to be, would you date a guy who's conservative?

04:26:59.080 Yes.

04:26:59.700 Are we going one by one again?

04:27:00.800 Yeah, we'll start with you.

04:27:01.740 My boyfriend is very conservative, so yes.

04:27:04.580 Based.

04:27:05.680 I would date a conservative guy.

04:27:07.520 I don't think he'd want anything to do with me.

04:27:09.960 So, yeah.

04:27:11.660 Probably.

04:27:12.720 I like my liberal skinny boys that are, you know.

04:27:16.180 Oh, okay.

04:27:16.860 All right.

04:27:17.400 I think as long as we align with the same core values, you know, I think that's important.

04:27:23.380 Okay.

04:27:24.260 Well.

04:27:25.780 Oh, yeah.

04:27:26.260 Us together, you know, I'm conservative.

04:27:28.480 I want to be with a conservative guy, so what we got is good.

04:27:31.460 I would actually only date a, like, a more conservative, moderate-leading woman.

04:27:37.420 Are you guys conservative, though?

04:27:39.500 I mean...

04:27:40.500 I would say not lifestyle-wise, but politically.

04:27:44.380 And I think that it matters that much in a relationship, because if I was to be with

04:27:50.400 a woke, leftist person, I would...

04:27:54.680 It's just like, what, are we going to go on one date?

04:27:56.660 We're not going to agree on anything.

04:27:58.580 It's just that way.

04:27:59.920 But, you know, lifestyle-wise, yeah, we don't necessarily...

04:28:03.680 We're kind of like free-spirited hippies more.

04:28:05.760 Eric, could you open the door?

04:28:08.400 Go ahead.

04:28:09.820 I think I would.

04:28:12.700 Sure.

04:28:13.780 Well, and I assume you guys, since you're conservative, you date...

04:28:16.840 I'm marrying one.

04:28:18.220 God bless.

04:28:19.100 Would you guys, assuming, like, let's say you weren't in a relationship right now, would

04:28:23.600 either of you two date a liberal guy?

04:28:26.480 Absolutely not.

04:28:27.480 Depends on how you're defining the word liberal.

04:28:31.020 I think, by today's standards, a classically liberal worldview is, by modern standards, considered

04:28:37.200 conservative, and you're starting to see that benchmark transition very substantially before

04:28:41.140 our eyes.

04:28:41.840 Would I date a leftist?

04:28:44.660 No.

04:28:45.840 Okay, so you're saying, like, classical liberal.

04:28:47.900 Yeah.

04:28:48.500 Okay.

04:28:49.260 Gotcha.

04:28:50.260 Brian, what about you?

04:28:51.940 Because we're engaged, and I think this is pretty important.

04:28:54.720 Yeah, I mean, I would date...

04:28:58.720 I would date...

04:28:59.720 Are you liberal or conservative?

04:29:02.660 It's...

04:29:03.020 I mean, I don't...

04:29:04.420 I've previously said I consider myself kind of moderate center.

04:29:08.120 I don't know.

04:29:09.300 I'd have to go down each issue one by one, because I think...

04:29:16.000 I don't know.

04:29:16.440 It's hard to say what exactly I am.

04:29:18.400 I think I'm probably fairly moderate.

04:29:20.800 I think I'm right-leaning on stuff.

04:29:22.640 Maybe on some stuff, I'm left-leaning.

04:29:24.920 I would have to really go down each issue one by one with you, because I guess there's

04:29:30.580 a specific term for this.

04:29:31.980 I guess what I don't like to see is I think people can have a conservative view on one

04:29:36.580 thing and a liberal view on another, and I think it's kind of bad.

04:29:39.980 It's not necessarily bad, but if you know someone's position on one political issue,

04:29:46.600 you shouldn't really be able to know their position on the rest.

04:29:51.380 However, nowadays, if you know someone's position on one issue, you can pretty much guess.

04:29:57.360 A lot of moderate people on the right are for, like, there's that saying of, like, I want 0.79

04:30:03.880 a gay couple to protect their pot farm with a gun, you know? 0.96

04:30:10.640 Sure. 0.92

04:30:10.880 And that's the saying.

04:30:12.060 And a lot of people, I think, who are very moderate nowadays on the left and right both

04:30:16.900 have that viewpoint, you know?

04:30:18.480 Most polling is saying that we as a generation within Gen Z are politically homeless.

04:30:23.560 So 52% of us are registering as independent, not as Republicans or Democrats when we're

04:30:28.860 registering to vote.

04:30:29.800 And I think that's going to start to show really substantially.

04:30:32.400 It did in November, certainly, but will again next year.

04:30:35.680 And I'm anxious to see, because I think most people would agree with you, Brian, that it's

04:30:39.180 not a blanket statement.

04:30:40.460 It's not a letter next to your name.

04:30:41.800 It's a lot more nuanced and complicated than that.

04:30:44.020 Yeah.

04:30:44.940 So, I mean, to answer the question, I mean, I would date a conservative girl. 0.86

04:30:50.460 I suppose I would date a liberal girl. 1.00

04:30:54.960 It's really hard, because, like you said, these are kind of blanket terms.

04:31:00.000 And, like, what does that actually mean?

04:31:01.700 Because, you know, someone who identifies as conservative, that can manifest itself in

04:31:08.180 various ways in terms of what they actually believe.

04:31:11.040 And so I think there is a bit of a variety.

04:31:12.940 I forgot there's this exact term for it, political cohesion.

04:31:17.780 I don't know.

04:31:18.140 It doesn't really matter.

04:31:19.360 But, okay, we have Luke here.

04:31:22.360 Just tuned in.

04:31:23.280 A lot of things are making sense about OF girl now.

04:31:26.040 Keely, your response.

04:31:27.820 What things are making sense?

04:31:29.960 Good question.

04:31:31.720 Good question.

04:31:33.940 I think that's it.

04:31:36.820 Oh, okay.

04:31:37.580 One last firecracker question for the, I don't know.

04:31:42.940 Um, would you date a guy who's pro, do I want to go here?

04:31:49.560 Yes.

04:31:50.100 Do it.

04:31:50.360 Do it.

04:31:50.880 You do.

04:31:51.340 We've been here long.

04:31:52.040 Okay.

04:31:52.340 Let's do it.

04:31:52.660 Would you date, last question, then we're going to wrap.

04:31:54.540 Would you date a guy who is pro-life?

04:31:57.440 Um, yes.

04:32:04.700 Well, your boyfriend's conservative, so is he?

04:32:06.820 So he is.

04:32:07.680 Okay.

04:32:07.980 Very pro-life.

04:32:09.240 But why, I guess, why the hesitation?

04:32:11.040 Um, because I guess, like, before I was super, like, politically informed, I would say.

04:32:18.120 Like, before, like, years ago, before I even met my boyfriend, like, I was super, like, pro-choice.

04:32:25.100 Like, it's, like, it's your body.

04:32:27.560 You gotta decide whatever you want.

04:32:29.340 Interesting.

04:32:30.140 Okay.

04:32:30.300 I don't know, he kind of opened, like, a new perspective to me about pro-life and abortion and all of this.

04:32:35.720 So that's why, like, I hesitated.

04:32:37.520 Because I guess I, like, I would date a guy who's pro-life or pro-choice, so.

04:32:42.800 Okay.

04:32:43.320 But so, up until you met your current boyfriend, you were pro-choice?

04:32:47.760 Yes.

04:32:48.720 Okay.

04:32:49.820 And having dated him, he kind of maybe started introducing some more conservative thoughts.

04:32:58.400 And so you, you changed your view on it.

04:33:02.580 I wouldn't say, like, I completely, like, shifted my view.

04:33:05.580 I'm still kind of, like, in the air between the two right now.

04:33:08.020 Okay, sure.

04:33:08.380 But, yeah.

04:33:09.380 Got it.

04:33:10.080 So the answer is yes.

04:33:11.340 Oh.

04:33:12.420 Interesting.

04:33:13.060 Okay.

04:33:16.420 Um, if, if my boyfriend was pro-life, it depends on how.

04:33:20.540 Would you date a guy who's pro-life?

04:33:21.820 Yeah.

04:33:22.360 It depends on how pro-life he is.

04:33:25.040 If that makes any sense.

04:33:26.060 Like, if he's, like, no, you know, you know what's, then I, I would just be, like, like,

04:33:31.940 I don't think we can see eye to eye on, like, cultural differences and, like, understanding

04:33:37.120 why people do the things they do.

04:33:40.120 So, I think it would just be a statement of his values.

04:33:44.700 But if he could understand circumstances surrounding it, then maybe, yeah.

04:33:51.520 What about you?

04:33:52.580 Um, I think I agree.

04:33:53.760 I think my immediate choice was to say, like, no.

04:33:56.420 Sure.

04:33:56.580 Because I personally am pro-choice.

04:33:58.320 I think that, I know we talked a little about, about, like, birth controls and things and how

04:34:01.900 that's, kind of, been subject to why women are, kind of, more prone because they feel 1.00

04:34:06.580 more protected.

04:34:07.740 Um, I think that it's not something that should be used loosely.

04:34:11.460 I think that it's, like, these are for serious cases, but it should be available for those

04:34:15.440 cases, um, of, like, SA or anything that happened like that.

04:34:19.440 Um, and again, like, kind of, like, you said how it's, kind of, like, situational.

04:34:23.720 Like, if they're, like, oh, across the board, just, like, always, I think, probably not.

04:34:28.260 But if it's, like, if they understand the situations where you could see that, that could

04:34:31.800 be useful, I think, I think, yeah.

04:34:34.260 By the way, is this, I mean, is this, kind of, like, dragging the show on to bring this

04:34:39.400 up at the end of the show?

04:34:40.440 I don't know.

04:34:41.980 Is it maybe, uh, yeah.

04:34:44.380 People seem to be commenting on it, so.

04:34:47.240 I don't know.

04:34:47.760 I feel like it's a bit, uh, I want to be considerate of everyone's time here before we get into a debate.

04:34:53.040 You know, that's how we are, so, yeah.

04:34:56.300 Okay.

04:34:57.980 I would.

04:34:58.700 I think, um, abortion is, like, a really evil thing, and if a guy is, like, pro-choice on

04:35:04.040 that, I feel like they would try to push me to have an abortion if I ever got pregnant.

04:35:07.200 That is something I will never, ever do.

04:35:08.820 Man, I should have brought some more liberal girls on the show. 1.00

04:35:10.960 It's, like, it's a little too stacked.

04:35:12.480 Sorry, I think you're the only, I apologize.

04:35:14.340 I would have, I would have tried.

04:35:15.820 I stand my ground.

04:35:16.560 No, no, I mean, it's, it's fine.

04:35:19.020 Uh, I just feel like you're, you're maybe, uh, one against too many, so I, I feel like

04:35:24.860 that's perhaps a bit unfair to you, but, uh, go ahead.

04:35:28.040 You said, um, if he was pro-life?

04:35:30.060 Would you date a guy who's pro-life?

04:35:31.420 Yeah, as long as he's consistent, because, you know, like, I feel like there's some people

04:35:34.440 who are, like, pro-life but against the death penalty.

04:35:37.940 Well, I don't know if those two...

04:35:39.940 Or pro-death penalty, I mean.

04:35:41.960 I, I don't think that those two are necessarily the same thing.

04:35:45.840 I, I think that there is, like, a correlation, because it's still a human life, so, but I

04:35:51.540 think that I am ultimately also, like, pro-choice, but I'm also, like, calling it for what it

04:35:58.480 is.

04:35:58.740 Like, you are terminating a life, so you are committing, like, you are killing a being.

04:36:04.560 Sure.

04:36:04.780 Yeah, sure, do what you want, but call it what it is so that you don't try to, um, make

04:36:11.780 yourself feel better by being, like, oh, no.

04:36:14.160 And, and actually, I, I would say that in terms of the thing about the death penalty, um, I,

04:36:20.280 I think actually probably a lot of, well, I don't know, it's hard to say.

04:36:22.920 I, I don't know if they've done studies on this, but, um, I think a lot of people are actually,

04:36:28.240 a lot of people are against the death penalty, um, and I could definitely see a lot of pro-life

04:36:32.600 people being against the death penalty, chiefly because if you, innocent people get convicted

04:36:37.680 of crimes, so I think that's one really strong argument against the death penalty.

04:36:42.000 Leto superchatted $100.

04:36:43.920 Okay, we'll get to that, we'll, we'll, we'll, we'll get to that, and then we have to, that's

04:36:47.980 right, the Patrice clip, then we'll wrap, I'm sorry, guys, that we've gone a little long

04:36:51.720 here, but I think it's been a really good conversation, I think we'll wrap in about

04:36:54.680 10 minutes, guys, thank you for your patience.

04:36:56.560 Okay, so, uh, death penalty, there's obviously the risk of, you know, someone innocent getting convicted,

04:37:01.960 so I think a really strong argument against the death penalty is, hey, in the event of

04:37:06.640 a, someone who's innocent being convicted of a crime, where there's a death penalty

04:37:11.440 potentiality, then, you know, I think that's a good reason.

04:37:15.140 Also, it's actually more expensive, there's more, a burden on taxpayers, uh, to enact the

04:37:21.780 death penalty on someone because there's so many, there's like automatic appeals or something,

04:37:26.780 and then it takes years and years, and it's actually, apparently it's cheaper to just give

04:37:31.360 someone a life sentence, um, so for the, for those two reasons, I, I'm kind of against

04:37:35.680 the, the death penalty, although I suppose there are scenarios where, um, you know, it,

04:37:41.820 it's like undeniable that the person committed the crime, and the crime is so egregious and

04:37:47.100 so heinous that conceivably, perhaps, death is an appropriate punishment, but I think the

04:37:54.560 fact that innocent people have been put to death, and the burden on taxpayers, I think, I think

04:38:00.360 life imprisonment is, uh, anyways, um, anyways, that's a whole, that's totally not related to

04:38:08.740 dating, but, um, yeah, I don't know, I kind of derailed the conversation there, um, did you want to

04:38:15.820 come in on something, or?

04:38:17.420 I mean, short answer, I'm marrying somebody who's as pro-life as I am, um, this has been an issue that

04:38:23.480 I learned a bit about growing up, but really didn't encounter until I was studying fetal

04:38:28.360 development in college as part of my pre-med curriculum, and spent months learning about

04:38:33.480 every single tiny thing that happens in the womb, every insane, impossible miracle that has to happen

04:38:39.040 for us to even make it to a point of viability outside the womb, be born, be sitting here today,

04:38:45.780 uh, we could literally spend a PhD course talking about all of that, so I won't, but, uh, I just find

04:38:51.020 it so fascinating that this has become such a polarizing subject in a follow the science

04:38:55.540 society, when the science is abundantly clear about the reality that that's a genetically unique

04:39:02.340 human life that's never existed before, it never will exist again, and 96% of biologists across more

04:39:08.980 than a thousand higher education institutions, most of whom are pro-choice, call themselves pro-choice,

04:39:14.400 all agree that life begins at conception.

04:39:16.180 So that's an interesting study to go research from Princeton University, uh, but I am extremely

04:39:21.460 proud to be pro-life.

04:39:22.680 I believe that abortion is the single greatest genocide that human, the human race has ever 0.99

04:39:27.240 faced, and has stolen one-third of our generation in America, which is unbelievably tragic, continues

04:39:32.920 to steal millions of lives every day, uh, and if your man is not pro-life, go find a better one.

04:39:38.880 Okay, let's talk about Andrew Tate, um, your thoughts on Andrew Tate?

04:39:46.760 I love Andrew Tate.

04:39:48.020 I wouldn't say love, but, like, I like him, I like his morals, I like the way he talks,

04:39:54.940 with confidence, he has a lot of common sense, like, he just knows what he's doing.

04:39:59.600 He's a very smart man, and you can just see that from the way he speaks.

04:40:03.720 Oh, okay, all right.

04:40:07.960 So, this could be really long, but I'm gonna make it short.

04:40:11.840 Um, I at least respect Andrew Tate for the fact that he walks the walk.

04:40:17.180 He's got, like, three, four-plus girlfriends, you know what I mean?

04:40:20.700 Like, he's killing it with women, and I feel like a lot of times when high-value men give

04:40:26.180 other men advice, they're not, not that they're not slaying it out there, but they're either

04:40:33.120 single, or just, like, not even in a relationship, you know?

04:40:37.220 So, um, I respect him for that, but I, with that being said, I'll probably just let the

04:40:42.240 Romanian government, um, do the talking for me, and shut my mouth.

04:40:46.680 I honestly don't know enough about the subject to have an input.

04:40:49.860 Um, he's said things that I agree with and disagree with.

04:40:55.700 I think that he's being, uh, held, uh, illegally in the prison currently, and I do believe everybody

04:41:03.920 has the right to a fair trial.

04:41:06.280 Have I ever subscribed to his Hustlers University or listened to all his clips and everything?

04:41:12.160 No, not, not certainly.

04:41:14.180 I'm, I'm not into that, but I do think he's said a lot of things that the establishment,

04:41:19.240 uh, does not like, and that is why he is being, uh, held illegally, and I, I do, uh, think that's

04:41:27.000 very wrong, uh, free speech, you know?

04:41:30.300 Same here.

04:41:30.880 I agree with, basically, what he just said.

04:41:34.500 I like his message.

04:41:35.760 I feel like he does have a lot of common sense and makes valid points.

04:41:39.440 I don't know that I like his character and the act that he plays all the time, so it's

04:41:44.420 kind of like a, I don't know, 70, 30?

04:41:48.160 Sure.

04:41:49.720 Um, I think he's a genius in his own right, and, um, but, like, I also don't agree with

04:41:57.600 everything that he says, and I do agree that he deserves a fair trial.

04:42:01.680 I think Top G is quite fitting for him, but I completely, like, the one thing I completely

04:42:08.500 disagree with is the fact that he says that him, like, cheating on his women is not considered

04:42:14.520 cheating, because he's a man, and it's okay, and it doesn't make a difference.

04:42:19.520 Um, completely disagree with that.

04:42:20.900 I think he needs, at the end of the day, he needs the Lord.

04:42:25.540 He needs the Lord?

04:42:26.680 He needs Jesus.

04:42:28.360 Well, he's, he's a Muslim now.

04:42:29.760 Did you know that?

04:42:30.320 Right, I know, but his brother is, Tristan's a Christian.

04:42:34.040 Yeah, yeah.

04:42:34.920 Tristan's, I assume Tristan's.

04:42:36.380 Technically, Andrew Tate is supposed to.

04:42:39.820 Supposed to what?

04:42:40.640 Annihilate his brother.

04:42:43.040 Oh, because of? 0.97

04:42:44.680 The beliefs.

04:42:45.120 Oh, okay, okay.

04:42:46.080 Right, but.

04:42:48.420 What about you?

04:42:49.140 A lot to unpack there.

04:42:50.280 Yeah.

04:42:51.060 Um, I've spent a lot of time touching on this subject over the last several months, really

04:42:55.340 before any of the Romanian government trial conversation remotely started, but.

04:43:00.320 For whatever reason, mainstream media has gone after Andrew Tate with a vile hatred, unlike

04:43:07.180 anything I have ever seen.

04:43:09.500 Uh, and I, I wonder how much of that has to do with the assault on masculinity that our

04:43:14.360 culture has propped up for so very long.

04:43:16.200 I don't agree with every lifestyle choice that anybody makes, any human being, particularly

04:43:21.060 Andrew Tate.

04:43:21.980 I think there's a lot to be said about promiscuity and cheating and dating multiple people at

04:43:26.440 once that I personally do not align with as my worldview and my perspective religiously

04:43:31.780 on the world.

04:43:32.260 Uh, but our culture and our world is hungry for male role models, people who are going

04:43:38.040 to encourage men to embrace masculinity and be the person that God designed for them to

04:43:42.360 be.

04:43:42.620 And the role that he has played through that process has transformed so many people's lives

04:43:46.960 for the better.

04:43:47.580 However, it's very fun to read the headlines with people freaking out about that, uh, and

04:43:52.400 the posts on social media about it, but it just goes to show you how counter-cultural

04:43:57.000 it is to tell a man that they can have value in themselves, that they can become a better

04:44:01.660 version of themselves and embrace who they were supposed to be.

04:44:04.780 Okay.

04:44:05.180 All right.

04:44:06.220 That's everyone's thoughts on, uh, Andrew Tate.

04:44:09.240 All right, Eric, uh, by the way, guys, if you want, uh, we're going to react to Patrice

04:44:14.100 O'Neill.

04:44:14.640 So if you want, get your last minute TTS or, uh, super chat in, uh, otherwise, yeah, we're

04:44:19.500 going to watch this Patrice O'Neill clip.

04:44:21.800 If any, uh, super chats come in, we'll get to them after the clip and then, uh, yeah,

04:44:25.140 we're going to wrap up pretty soon.

04:44:26.360 All right, go ahead, Eric.

04:44:27.260 If you want to pull up that priest.

04:44:29.020 Oh, F11, please.

04:44:33.000 Let me ask you a question.

04:44:33.960 Here's a question.

04:44:34.440 Eric, hello. 1.00

04:44:35.180 Okay, ladies, if you didn't have a vagina, like say it was a terrible train accident, 1.00

04:44:43.360 right? 1.00

04:44:43.660 And the doctor was like, we have to remove your pussy right away or you're going to die. 1.00

04:44:52.620 How would you keep your man past, you get a two month guilty. 1.00

04:44:58.540 I can't leave the bitch right away because she just lost the pussy in a train accident. 1.00

04:45:00.940 Can't just walk right out on him. 1.00

04:45:07.120 How would you keep your man past that if you didn't have a vagina? 1.00

04:45:15.060 You can pause it, you can pause it there. 1.00

04:45:21.620 Go ahead.

04:45:23.480 It's a terrible train accident.

04:45:26.280 What do you do to keep your man?

04:45:27.440 I'm still gathering my thoughts right now, so I'll pass on to you.

04:45:32.720 Okay, we'll come back to you.

04:45:33.660 Go ahead.

04:45:33.900 God dang it. 0.98

04:45:36.140 Well, I guess I would let him sleep with other women. 1.00

04:45:39.040 Honestly.

04:45:39.700 Sure.

04:45:40.400 Yeah.

04:45:40.680 I feel like there's other means of things like oral or hand things that you could do.

04:45:47.500 Totally.

04:45:48.080 Keely, we'll skip you because you've already.

04:45:51.500 Yeah, I'm going to have to agree.

04:45:52.480 Into the mic.

04:45:53.260 I'm going to have to agree with you.

04:45:54.400 I just feel like that's even, I don't know, that's crazy.

04:45:58.540 If I went through a crazy accident like that and then my husband was like, can I sleep with other women? 0.98

04:46:02.480 But so the question is, the question is, you know, terrible train accident, had to remove the, you know.

04:46:10.300 Yeah.

04:46:11.180 What do you do to keep your man?

04:46:13.340 Well, I mean, if he's my husband and we're like already together, I feel like I've already done everything that I can do

04:46:19.000 and I'm going to continue to be a good wife to him.

04:46:22.560 Okay.

04:46:23.680 Did you think of something else?

04:46:25.500 That's honestly like exactly what I would say.

04:46:27.360 Like, I would not let my man go do things with other women. 1.00

04:46:32.060 Like, to keep my man, I think like, like, I don't know.

04:46:36.520 I'm already doing enough to keep him.

04:46:39.160 Like, so I would say like personalities enough.

04:46:44.460 Like, you don't need sex in a relationship, I would say.

04:46:48.240 Like, it does.

04:46:48.960 You don't?

04:46:49.460 I would say, okay, you don't need sex in a relationship, but it's nice.

04:46:54.140 And I think that sex, like, if you have sex in a relationship, like, it does, like, bring you closer to your partner, intimacy-wise, but you don't need it.

04:47:05.220 Okay.

04:47:05.900 What about you? 0.99

04:47:08.860 I would let him have sex with other women, but I would also still do what I'm doing now that has allowed me to keep my man this long. 0.99

04:47:19.360 And, yeah. 0.96

04:47:20.160 I don't have an answer, honestly.

04:47:26.840 Oh, okay.

04:47:28.140 All right.

04:47:28.740 I just love that I can answer this question with the reality that I am marrying my fiancé through biblical matrimony in sickness and in health for better or worse.

04:47:39.160 This is one of those worst scenarios.

04:47:40.960 And I think we view marriage as incredibly disposable today.

04:47:44.800 How unbelievably shallow for us to suggest that just because you can't continue doing one activity in your marriage, all of a sudden your marriage is going to fall apart.

04:47:54.880 Okay.

04:47:55.500 All right.

04:47:55.920 Those are some answers there.

04:47:57.200 Continue the clip, please.

04:48:01.960 Wow.

04:48:03.540 Nothing.

04:48:04.080 You can talk.

04:48:04.680 You can talk. 1.00

04:48:09.040 Suck his dick. 1.00

04:48:09.820 Okay. 1.00

04:48:10.420 Mouth. 1.00

04:48:10.960 Asshole. 1.00

04:48:15.300 Asshole. 1.00

04:48:15.880 Okay, great. 0.99

04:48:17.900 You see what I'm saying? 0.95

04:48:19.020 Now, I've been getting pussy bean the whole show, right? 0.98

04:48:21.640 But I give women the opportunity to say, I'm going to make myself worth more. 0.99

04:48:25.420 But you just classified yourself as a series of holes. 0.96

04:48:28.840 But, you know, I'm supposed to treat you special, but you're just a bunch of holes for yourself. 1.00

04:48:37.660 No one said learn how to play Xbox, learn how to play pool, tell better stories, get another bitch that got a pussy to come on in. 1.00

04:48:51.000 Well, look, whatever. 1.00

04:48:52.460 Okay, some of you, oh, go ahead.

04:48:56.240 I will say that I've already watched this show.

04:48:59.280 I saw it, okay.

04:49:00.020 And I also saw the podcast one Sunday.

04:49:03.060 I was watching.

04:49:04.200 But my answer, like, still the same.

04:49:07.920 Sure.

04:49:08.400 Yeah, some of you took the bait.

04:49:09.720 Some of you didn't.

04:49:10.560 So we'll leave it at that.

04:49:12.280 But anyways, I want to thank everyone for tuning in tonight.

04:49:18.680 Let me just double check here, make sure we don't have any.

04:49:21.400 No, we're good.

04:49:22.400 All right.

04:49:23.080 Thank everyone for tuning in tonight.

04:49:25.740 You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.

04:49:29.400 I appreciate that.

04:49:30.780 Thank you to everyone who super chatted and supports the show.

04:49:33.980 Your patronage is very much appreciated.

04:49:37.440 Thank you guys so much.

04:49:38.340 You guys blew me away tonight with all the support.

04:49:40.700 It was a lot.

04:49:43.520 It was a lot.

04:49:44.160 And thank you guys so much.

04:49:45.540 So maybe if you guys want to give me any feedback in terms of do I adjust, you know, how much.

04:49:53.660 I'm super appreciative, but the volume was, I felt like a couple people a few times got interrupted by the TTS.

04:50:00.640 So I'm going to go back and tinker with it and see if I bump up the TTS again.

04:50:04.900 I don't know.

04:50:05.280 But in any case, thank you to everyone who patronize, supports the show.

04:50:11.100 Thank you guys.

04:50:12.000 Big thank you to the wonderful panel.

04:50:14.880 We went a bit late tonight, guys, but it was a very, really good panel, I think.

04:50:20.500 Very good panel.

04:50:21.380 Thank you guys all so much for coming.

04:50:25.800 And thank you to all our chat mods.

04:50:29.660 And I feel like I'm forgetting.

04:50:31.980 I'm needing to thank somebody, but I'm...

04:50:34.000 Oh, thank you, Eric, the top producer, the top G, the top P.

04:50:39.600 BD, okay, okay, I feel like I'm forgetting somebody else.

04:50:43.000 Anyways, any women who want to be on the show, DM at whatever on Instagram, BD underscore Atlas, if you are shorter Avenatti. 0.97

04:50:55.500 Okay, guys, we'll be live again Sunday.

04:50:58.840 Wait, is today a Tuesday?

04:51:00.100 It is Tuesday.

04:51:00.940 We'll be live again Sunday at 7 p.m. Pacific.

04:51:03.840 Thanks again for tuning in.

04:51:04.980 We will see you next time.

04:51:07.200 Good night, guys.

04:51:07.960 Deus Volta in the chat.

04:51:09.120 Good night, guys.

04:51:10.680 Catch you later.

Whatever Podcast - March 23, 2023

Dating Talk #65

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