Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #67

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00:04:55.880 we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age and

00:05:01.560 occupation I'm 21 years old you can't argue with me closer to the mic I'm 21 years old you can't argue

00:05:07.140 with me my name is Lexi Pantera I'm a singer songwriter actress dancer and an entrepreneur

00:05:12.700 and the baddest bitch alive wait what stop the cat here we go with the button bad baddest I wish

00:05:21.880 I had a button the baddest bitch alive okay go stream bad bitch my new single I need to take notes on

00:05:27.800 this one okay so you sit you claim to be 21 yeah well google me if you'd like but yes I am 21 and

00:05:34.180 forever and forever will be here I'm googling it oh lord if we're googling it we've gotta go

00:05:40.700 what it uh google seems to think that you're 33 yes 33 going on 21 like I fucking said

00:05:50.820 going on 21 I look 21 though don't I I know I don't know about it's just 33 I will be your mother

00:05:56.560 what about you I don't know how to follow that

00:06:01.880 um my name is Ivy Wolf I'm 26 I'm a porn star um dancer model singer author

00:06:12.480 and bad bitch I don't want to say that

00:06:16.620 go ahead I'm soul I'm touch therapist masseuse dancer movement coach everything about touch is

00:06:27.980 about me age age okay 28 why why the hesitation I know it's just like people judge you by your age

00:06:40.920 like oh you do that oh you're 28 what do you do like in general no it's not about what I do it's

00:06:47.560 about like just general age yeah I judge guys just because like oh you're 26 oh I'm not dating with

00:06:54.320 you just because you're like you're too young but I know like some good guys can be smart and mature

00:07:00.400 so but I mean wouldn't it make sense to if you have no interest in younger men to be forthcoming

00:07:06.380 about your older age so to speak older age yeah oh yeah it's older than 26 I get it relative yeah

00:07:14.260 can we go to the next person it's the tone yeah no I mean I can say my age I'm I'm okay with that

00:07:23.520 I just doesn't make any sense like to put it I'm okay AJ someone in the chat is saying you're did you

00:07:29.600 used to date sneeko sneeko I didn't know who's that no we never dated okay what about you hello

00:07:37.960 I'm ellis I am 26 years old and health and wellness coach social media managed influencer is basically

00:07:45.200 anything that you want me to do I could probably figure out how to do it can you pull the microphone

00:07:49.460 a little closer to you hi perfect do you do only fans I do you should subscribe to me

00:07:56.260 do all of you do all of you do only fans I'm gonna do next month yeah you're gonna start

00:08:00.760 I'm gonna launch my okay sure what about you see hi my name is elo musk I'm not related to elon musk

00:08:08.680 I'm much better than him and better looking um I am proudly 34 richer too I am proudly 34 years old

00:08:16.880 and um I'm a model actress and I am the hookah queen I am a hookah influencer and I travel the world

00:08:24.180 for that oh wow oh what queen hookah oh hookah queen shisha okay shisha have you gotten your lungs

00:08:32.060 checked recently absolutely yes it's good health yep good okay what about you um my name is alicia

00:08:38.760 waldner um and I am 27 years old I run a few different companies so just do a bunch of random

00:08:46.540 different shit okay yeah only fans I have only fans as well included yeah everybody that's a side

00:08:54.420 you guys you can't but can I say something about that about what about the only fans part and like

00:09:00.400 how everybody has one real quick well I'm gonna say it anyway the reason is like why post a bikini

00:09:07.960 picture showing more on instagram for zero money when I can post it on only fans and get some kind

00:09:14.540 of money for it and it's not just out on instagram 24 7 like that's all it is free money that's all

00:09:20.780 it is you don't have to be on there naked doing whatever you can go for it do it love people that

00:09:26.280 do it what you're doing on only fans yeah yeah I do there's no nudity I don't never show any nudity

00:09:33.100 and I don't need to but that way I have I have a connection with certain followers and they can see

00:09:38.580 different pictures and I take pictures I want to post them but I don't want to post them on instagram

00:09:42.800 for free for people to what screenshot and I don't get paid for it no so Instagram is a promotional

00:09:49.380 vehicle yeah it's gonna get get my people maybe to my only fans but in with a different you know

00:09:55.940 view of my picture but that's about it okay fair enough let's keep it moving um go ahead

00:10:01.400 my name is Brett Sanchez-Smith I'm a trainer online coach uh and a competitive bodybuilder

00:10:09.020 and I'm going to school to be a massage therapist oh hello oh I'm 29 29 and you're underselling

00:10:16.880 yourself a little bit because you're I mean you compete in bodybuilding and you recently you've

00:10:21.160 won a mr california mr california and then can we get like a double buy

00:10:25.360 take it off baby let's go let's go sweaty as fuck we like three of us we all are it's okay

00:10:34.520 go ahead I am Ben Samuels I'm 23 and I'm a holistic health practitioner and a owner of a supplement

00:10:42.120 company rock and roll Arlen Moore I am 26 years old entrepreneur and uh been on YouTube for a while

00:10:51.160 and no only fans but maybe soon who knows maybe I'll learn something tonight

00:10:57.100 I'm Grady I'm 28 and I'm a stay-at-home mom

00:11:05.860 wow let me google that let's see the baby

00:11:10.000 looking into only fans though prospective only fans we inspired you oh yeah I mean

00:11:17.700 beyond honestly today I've always had an inclination for it people have been begging

00:11:23.760 me for years to do it so what do you actually do music music okay yes all right he's talented

00:11:32.460 thanks Lexi that was sweet that was so sweet okay so uh we're gonna go around the table once

00:11:39.700 more on a couple things uh let's see here um so Lexi uh we actually collaborated a long time ago

00:11:47.260 I don't know if you remember wow okay well what I don't remember really damn I feel bad this happens

00:11:55.240 to me this is funny uh do you want it here just it can't be a couple seconds do you want to just

00:12:02.360 think it over I have no fucking clue really wow okay you sorry for cutting you must have done a lot

00:12:07.460 of drugs during your time in LA that's what you assume I used to smoke a lot of weed when was this

00:12:14.460 first of all uh Eric can you pull up the video okay oh my god I'm so scared do you remember this

00:12:23.620 video twerking in public 52 million views wait wait that was you that was us seven years ago

00:12:30.320 52 million views the fact that I don't remember you from this is insane this is one of the biggest

00:12:36.820 videos this twerking in public went insane that's wild I didn't recognize well that's why because you

00:12:43.680 reached out saying hey come I want to be on the pod or whatever and I was like just I thought

00:12:47.720 oh yeah into the mic damn awkward awkward on my part that's crazy crazy you didn't have what was

00:12:57.480 the name of the it was it this it was the whatever it's called whatever okay yeah oh my god we're very

00:13:03.180 forgetful if you guys haven't seen that video you need to go see it yeah I mean I just worked with so

00:13:08.960 many people that time that's when I was like blowing up so it's like yeah so it just went by like a

00:13:13.300 blur it's our seven year anniversary oh my god yeah it's wild congratulations 52 million are you

00:13:21.960 yeah but uh and and I imagine a lot has changed since we last uh collaborated so a lot has thanks

00:13:29.620 to you as well no I mean you were you were on your way with or without me anyways a lot can happen in

00:13:35.040 21 years damn I wish I would have known that like a little bit place okay um okay so we're gonna go

00:13:42.120 around the table once more current relationship status so are you single do you have a friends

00:13:46.780 with benefits talking stage situationship relationship engaged married and what's your

00:13:52.400 longest relationship you've ever had go ahead Lexi close to the mic longest relationship I've had is

00:13:58.740 three years and I am single right now I'm talking to people it's single but talking to people

00:14:05.620 talking to some people some people how many people like three three people three or four

00:14:11.940 three or four all guys or is there girl all all guys all guys okay three or four guys are they

00:14:19.680 aware that I'm not saying that I'm banging them but like maybe conversating I might be interested a

00:14:23.800 little bit yeah sure a couple guys is there one that you are hooking up with no it took you a little

00:14:30.560 second you can't wait till this gets to the boys side of the table um you know

00:14:46.760 yes all right currently no but yes have I hooked up with one yes okay so one of them you are

00:14:56.160 I may have been recently or not okay I'm a lady I can't tell you all the details okay so my personal

00:15:04.020 business so three of them you've been hooking up with no no okay one of them and there's like three

00:15:10.460 or four guys that you're talking to any of them have a blue check mark

00:15:13.900 they all have blue check marks really right now everybody can get a blue check mark because you

00:15:23.900 just can't pay for that are you kidding me that's the one thing I had the one thing I had going for

00:15:31.360 me I'm doomed I didn't know they rolled that out yet is it rolled out yeah it is oh so you're not

00:15:38.040 special anymore if you have a blue check mark well doesn't mean anything but I assume maybe they

00:15:42.520 were blue check marks before the purchased blue check mark they've been blue check marks for a

00:15:46.720 while you know I've dated my um share of non blue check marks and I found it um they're all the same

00:15:53.440 so it really doesn't matter they are all the same so men are all the same yes perhaps the men you date

00:16:00.300 are no all men are the same all men okay that's we'll come back to that trust me I've dated a lot so

00:16:06.440 I know you've dated a lot what does that mean I've had my share of all ethnicities I've definitely

00:16:11.840 dated a wide spectrum of men have you tried to dwarf no but why would they be different

00:16:17.120 I don't know it just seems like I've met some really good dwarves I can get you linked up

00:16:22.160 are you you're in Florida right so I just feel like I want my man to be taller than me

00:16:27.440 for me to feel more feminine I need that okay because I'm a tall I'm not big but like I'd say

00:16:36.200 I'm a taller bigger girl okay so in any case there's one guy you're kind of hooking up with

00:16:41.280 and then three or three other guys that you're kind of entertaining talking to okay got it what

00:16:46.700 about you current relationship status longest relationship

00:16:53.080 I'm single I'm talking to like six people I'm not doing anything with any of them

00:17:03.460 talking to six people yeah all guys no mix girls and guys girls and guys and animals okay

00:17:11.420 that's a little bestiality sprinkled in there okay only on Friday so

00:17:16.280 and you're but you're not you're not hooking up with any of them no but you're talking to are you

00:17:26.040 going on out on dates though like for dinner or drinks or something exactly they're all in

00:17:30.980 they're all in Russia yeah they're all in some other country or what's that

00:17:34.020 no I just I don't want to fuck them yet and I know I will so you know you will

00:17:40.140 fuck all six of them at some point probably

00:17:43.140 okay yeah write that down

00:17:46.740 I'm writing

00:17:47.940 write that down write that down in your notes

00:17:50.620 I think I have a button for this hold on

00:17:52.640 oh god oh god oh god oh god

00:17:55.780 I can't find it in any case

00:17:57.900 why are you waiting you know you're just gonna fuck them

00:18:00.380 because I don't actually really want to I just know myself

00:18:02.620 all right got it oh and just just a self-awareness quick recap self-awareness yes

00:18:07.860 so you are I know Lexi you're in Florida correct you live in Florida I live I've just moved yeah

00:18:14.860 okay everyone else are you guys in LA Miami LA LA LA okay so her and you guys are in Miami

00:18:21.960 yeah okay got it uh what's your longest relationship that you've had

00:18:25.380 uh four years four years four years okay

00:18:27.660 because we were poly

00:18:28.940 okay well I suppose that would explain the six

00:18:33.160 are you polyamorous yes okay yeah have you ever been monogamous

00:18:37.320 yes I also like that okay takes a special person

00:18:40.620 uh what about you um I'm dating not hook up with anyone

00:18:46.740 um you're you're dating yeah I mean I'm single

00:18:50.000 but you're single for yeah kind of like many years I didn't have a serious relationship

00:18:53.980 um over eight years so my longest yeah my longest relationship was three years when I was 16

00:19:00.980 so from 19 to 28 you've been single

00:19:04.520 uh I'm I had like a two three months relationship I don't call it serious relationship because we didn't live

00:19:11.720 together and like yeah so they I don't I didn't introduce my kid to my uh boyfriend so it doesn't

00:19:21.000 it means it's not serious you have a kid yeah how old four four years old we're okay so does anyone

00:19:28.280 else here have a child or is it just just you no okay um so but from 19 to 28 which is right now

00:19:39.000 you've not had a long-term relationship um the kid but you had a kid four years ago so who

00:19:47.080 like related yeah so I I got or I had a relationship while I was in Hong Kong

00:19:55.560 while I was in Hong Kong it was I don't say again like it was not serious for me because we didn't live

00:20:01.320 together um we was dating for like four or five months then we broke up and then we randomly ended up

00:20:08.440 having sex and I'm randomly getting pregnant that's it wow okay is he involved is he in the picture

00:20:14.760 right right now not he's not involved not financially not emotionally doesn't call I'm okay with that

00:20:21.960 no child support um I he doesn't pay he's not officially that so I can do whatever I want with

00:20:28.520 my kid I don't have to ask permission to bring my kid to another country so I'm 100 good with that

00:20:34.040 okay so you're currently single I'm single but you said you were dating uh I what I I go on a date

00:20:43.880 that's what I mean like I just talk with the people yeah sometimes when I'm like have time I'm like okay

00:20:50.440 let's go in a hinge or like I don't use gender okay but so you're single when's the last time you went on

00:20:55.640 a date uh yesterday yesterday what about before that uh two days before same guy or different guy

00:21:02.680 oh different what about before that so when I go on a date it doesn't mean that it's like

00:21:09.320 oh we kisses or like we planning a hookup so it's like I just I'm so wifey material so when I'm dating

00:21:17.160 with a person stop the cow what hold on we're getting free dinners in here is what she's talking

00:21:22.520 about your wifey material hold on repeat that say it one more time I'm wifey material are you being

00:21:30.840 ironic or like are you being ironic huh are you being ironic i'm serious your wifey material yeah

00:21:39.080 i love cook for a man i like to serve for a man i want to be a wife run it but why hasn't a guy in

00:21:45.560 the since you were 19 for almost a 10 year period because i'm so good because i know what i want

00:21:54.120 and i can't and i'm dating only our black guys and i didn't live in america before so like when you're

00:22:01.720 into black guys and you live somewhere like russia or like thailand you like

00:22:05.800 oh okay wherever we're not dating here wait so hold on wait let's go back to the

00:22:14.840 oh yeah i'm complicated so you only date black guys oh yeah um have you ever dated the white guy

00:22:21.480 hell yeah i never saw a black person till uh 18 years old so i saw black person for the first time

00:22:29.160 and you're like that's my right there exactly that's the

00:22:32.360 shit i like culture with their african culture first and then like oh i actually love black guys

00:22:38.920 and then i'm once you go back once you go black you never come back so you've never so

00:22:47.720 you're so beautiful you're amazing wait so since you were eight since your first black eye but 18.

00:22:56.200 oh no it was no no no it was like uh so i moved in china when i was 20 and in 21 i started dating

00:23:03.640 the black guys and since that time i was trying so i was like okay i'm dating black guys maybe i'll

00:23:09.960 try like white again and then like oh no so no no more what there hasn't been any white guys since the

00:23:16.360 first oh i was dating a specifically russian guy which is like super crazy for me but he was like

00:23:23.080 because you're russian yeah i was like i don't i don't deal with the russian guys yeah i mean i

00:23:28.520 know him as a friend i was like i know you're into black guys let's go on a date i was like

00:23:34.360 okay so i he knows not gonna work i know it's not gonna work but i'm like okay let's see and

00:23:40.840 immediately i figured out like oh that's the reason why i don't date russians why i don't date white

00:23:46.040 log wherever okay so hey you like what you like it's beautiful that's awesome okay so you're wifey

00:23:55.400 material uh-huh but you i mean you have we're all wifey material hell yeah in different ways amen

00:24:03.480 in different ways amen preach specific man yeah exactly yeah so it's like do you i mean don't you

00:24:11.480 think it's gonna be hard to find a husband given that you have a child oh i don't think it's a

00:24:19.240 problem 100 no you don't think it's well it might not be completely preventing you from finding someone

00:24:25.960 but you don't think that a lot of men look at a single mother and say i'd rather date someone who

00:24:31.640 doesn't have a kid so one thing a year ago i was like completely broke um financially i was in houston

00:24:41.320 and i already had like some followers on instagram and people like oh i want to take you on a date

00:24:47.160 blah blah blah and i'm good i'm sitting at home with no money with a kid and like okay if you pay

00:24:53.000 for a babysitter we can go on a date so yeah i i remember i put that video on tiktok and i'm like

00:24:59.640 i only date the guys who's paying for babysitter because i has no money so it's not like i'm trying

00:25:05.240 to get money from you so no i take your money and i pay for a babysitter for real so did it work uh

00:25:12.120 yeah every time so i i did it wow okay okay can i say okay can i can i continue sorry a little bit

00:25:21.960 wait i'm gonna blow your mind what one point of clarification so you would match with guys guys

00:25:27.000 would want to take you no no it was not even on tinder i mean i had tinder but the question is

00:25:31.960 you would if a guy wanted to go on a date with you you would say yes but you have to pay for the yeah

00:25:37.640 that's exactly what i say i'm like i like you that's cool but i have a kid i can't bring a kid to

00:25:43.240 the day it's not like what it like so you want the guy to pay for the was it child what was the term

00:25:49.000 a babysitter he uh some guys they like oh you just can't go outside why you're like why your kids are

00:25:55.800 sleeping we can just sit in a car i was like hell no i'm like i respect myself i want to like go on

00:26:03.240 a date i don't want to sit in a car with talking with you bro that's okay one quick story i'm gonna

00:26:10.200 blow your mind okay blow our minds okay so i did it for a while like maybe two months or something but

00:26:16.520 i'm starting like getting money like slowly and my ukrainian friend just come to my place and we

00:26:22.680 started living together because i like have to help her because the war started blah blah so and

00:26:28.040 we actually like both broken i'm like barely paying my bills and uh she obviously doesn't have documents

00:26:34.760 nothing she just moved from ukraine and we like just made a business so we basically go on tinder

00:26:40.600 we're just looking for guys to go on a date with we're saying that we need to pay for a babysitter 100

00:26:47.720 bucks and we just share our kids so we're betting she has a kids too she has a kid too so she go on

00:26:54.920 the date the guy paying like 100 bucks for a babysitter and we just share this money to buy

00:26:59.880 we surviving like buying a grocery like just buying the basic shit at home paying our bills and then the

00:27:07.720 next day or like the same day just another time i go on a date with another guy he's paying for

00:27:13.640 for if someone who was on a date with me like a year ago i'm so sorry it was like for surviving

00:27:19.720 purpose so we did it like one month it worked because the trash man wanted to leave her after

00:27:26.120 she had a child by the way the men the men did a good deed at the end of the day wait so she's getting

00:27:30.680 revenge on no she's just hustling there's no revenge did the dad want to leave or did you want him to

00:27:36.920 leave did the baby daddy want to leave or did you want him to leave uh oh we broke up because he

00:27:44.200 just showed up with like oh i actually married and have a kid and i'm like oh okay so we're broken

00:27:51.880 up he's like no i want to be together i was like hell no wait one question the guy you have a kid with

00:27:57.400 yeah how long did you know him before you had the kid uh so we met and so we we was together like

00:28:04.760 five five or four months then we broke up for like five six months and then we like had randomly

00:28:11.240 sex and then i got pregnant so it's like a one night stand after you got back to you didn't get

00:28:14.840 back together well no no no i was like oh i'm so boring i'm like i don't want to have sex with a

00:28:21.400 random person i don't i'm not this kind of person like it's better to just you know with someone you

00:28:27.080 know yeah it's like with the act so i was just too stupid to like not control so you were hustling men

00:28:34.280 on tinder for babysitters with your girlfriend no no not a girl like yeah yeah with your girlfriend

00:28:42.600 i don't even have a kid but i might try that kind of genius is there more is there more to that story

00:28:48.120 or no we just like um no we did it for like for one two months we like sometimes uh she bring more

00:28:56.600 than 100 bucks because she's like she's smart she's like i'm i'm yeah it's like she just explained

00:29:02.920 in the basic situation like hey you know i just i just left my country because there's war there

00:29:08.760 so i'm on a date here trying to you know just entertain myself get help and some guys like oh

00:29:15.240 i can give you like 500 bucks that's wait so okay and we again we're like basically paying our bills

00:29:22.520 grocery and sometimes she's from ukraine yeah so was she justifying her fraud but because she was

00:29:28.840 fleeing from war i mean it's just like bro men do the same thing by the way they find women and they

00:29:34.920 just live off of us so what's the difference yeah well perhaps in rare instances but women are

00:29:41.320 not women are finessing men like this much more than men are finessing women back in 1900s we used to

00:29:48.440 have babies and then stay home for like five hell yes i agree with her except the feminists

00:29:52.600 came by no one taking care of the kids oh my god we need to work too yeah but like you know that's

00:29:56.680 what you're against feminists no i'm not against it's just turn up in the wrong direction

00:30:02.440 feminism you know it just it just flipped around real quick no now we gotta work our way back

00:30:14.680 let's go back to when the men were taking care of us cheers cheers to that i mean we have no rights

00:30:22.120 but we should i don't want to make money i want to raise my kids i want to make a business just for

00:30:27.000 a hobby i don't want to go and make an only fans to be honest i never had an only fan i never had

00:30:34.520 even i repeat you don't want to be honest what did you know i said i want to be honest like i don't

00:30:39.080 want to have only fans like i do that just because i need to survive okay how much money did you make

00:30:46.360 from this little uh scheme with you and your girlfriend oh we didn't count which again like

00:30:52.760 our grocery uh we like eat pretty good like i just eat it when i say pretty good i mean clean diet

00:30:59.960 healthy stuff but not crazy so we just painted grocery and my bills was uh one one one innocent

00:31:08.280 she is this is purity right here i'm not if she's finessing men yes it is she's pure

00:31:15.400 wife material by the way wife material by the way using our bodies yeah why is it okay to be a

00:31:21.400 fuck boy but yeah but she can't but it's okay for me but it's okay for me so i can help i don't

00:31:28.680 force you to give money i'm like that's my situation all the time like that's my situation

00:31:33.400 that's a general statement i'm i'm receiving that it's the same like yeah but you see it's one thing

00:31:40.520 for you to on your own since the child is actually yours to first off it's more it's more criticism on

00:31:47.880 the men that they would actually agree for a first date to pay a hundred dollars for a babysitter

00:31:54.120 i mean that's an l as a dude that's kind of on them no that's a fucking l on them guys hold on

00:32:01.000 guys this is why you don't date single mothers but okay so wow so single mothers if you're not

00:32:07.080 interested in that everybody has and you don't date single mothers if you're broke i actually

00:32:10.920 prefer choosing the guy who already has a kid so he know what is that so i don't have to explain

00:32:17.640 like oh i'm not sleeping tonight because my my kid has a fever or something okay so i'm like

00:32:23.560 love to date when you get to 30 35 don't you think a guy is looking for more of a woman who's like

00:32:29.080 ready to settle in settle down she doesn't need to have a kid in tow to do that

00:32:33.320 need to have children or at least a dog show them some responsibility you know no single mothers are

00:32:39.240 typically look if you want to date a single mom that's great but i think it's a bad bet if you're

00:32:44.280 if you don't have kids as a guy or even if you do have kids as a guy okay like it's so it's so easy

00:32:49.880 i'm in houston i'm like super broke i'm like immigrant so in houston i have no friends no family

00:32:57.000 all my family in russia no people to help me and i'm sitting i'm good at home i'm trying to figure

00:33:04.120 out my shit i'm trying to make money and some guys just dm me like oh i want to take you on a date

00:33:09.880 i'm like cool if you want you can pay if you don't want i'm good with that it's not like i text them

00:33:16.360 can i say something um i love that you said that if a guy pays a hundred dollars for guys copy and

00:33:21.720 paste that go ahead sorry go ahead um i love that you said that it's an l for a guy if he pays for

00:33:26.920 a babysitter to go out on a date with her however a guy that pays uh somebody's uh for her nails

00:33:33.720 for a gucci bag and all that that's a freaking l because i think that's an l too that's an l not to

00:33:39.320 go and pay for a you know a babysitter to go out with the with the men do not listen these are all

00:33:44.040 dubs these are all dubs yeah pay for the nails i mean i think it shows i i don't i don't do nails

00:33:51.000 i think everybody is different i don't have a makeup i think it shows he really cares about you

00:33:55.160 you know if he's going to do that he's really interested like he wants to take you out really

00:33:58.600 it's just like the guy really has to be interested to do that know me and i get it like i then give

00:34:04.120 more energy to this person men have everything at their fingertips you guys have women at your

00:34:09.080 fingertips you guys don't have to do anything basically besides work well you're not going to like

00:34:12.840 my take on even who should pay for the first date but i'll i'll come to that later oh no we

00:34:16.840 already talked about this so uh just a woman should pay for the first day wait can we just go

00:34:22.840 there now who hurt you yeah somebody hurt you and i can tell that's crazy that's like you got

00:34:31.320 your heart broken a lot something yeah in any case um yeah

00:34:38.600 need a shoulder to cry on eric can you get me the tylenol i'm gonna need it

00:34:43.400 all right so uh one one question one more question yeah a point of clarification on

00:34:49.640 your whole story with the ukrainian women where you were defrauding men so um

00:34:56.520 i'm so confident enough like well so uh so basically you had a con where your ukrainian

00:35:02.120 friend was pretending that your child was hers in order to get uh no she had a child too she had what

00:35:08.840 yeah yeah i said we share kids yeah they had just two children so listen up so they were helping

00:35:14.440 each other and not a child in ukraine still so she okay i misheard i thought she was using your kid

00:35:22.840 to okay just how like guys they would share the hundred dollars so 50 50 because of the two kids

00:35:28.600 it makes more sense so she's she's a refugee from ukraine yeah yeah so she's finesse where is she in

00:35:35.000 houston also or right now she's in la but she was in houston man that's convenient the boys aren't

00:35:43.160 saying anything she's finessing she's finessing men for to pay a hundred dollars for a babysitter for a

00:35:49.560 child that's not theirs meanwhile the men in ukraine are getting well can't leave the country that's

00:35:56.360 interesting that's not their fault at home i don't think a guy should pay for these extracurricular

00:36:01.480 things if he is not dating her officially i can agree yeah yeah she has to be committed to you

00:36:08.760 nope nope absolutely not she she has to be only seeing you and exclusively yes and then even then

00:36:15.720 i had a girl where where we were starting to see each other and after the first time we slept together

00:36:21.480 she texted me the next day she's like are you gonna pay for my nails i'm like you're not my girlfriend

00:36:24.680 no and she still stays that's a little aggressive you should be offering that right you don't like

00:36:30.200 when they're asking no absolutely not why would i want to pay for her nails if she's not my girlfriend

00:36:34.200 yeah she didn't even want to be in a relationship yet so why would i want to pay for her nails

00:36:38.520 if she didn't want to be in a relationship yet yeah i agree with you too guys guys

00:36:43.160 it's like using you yeah that's that's aggressive yeah that's different okay she didn't do that to start

00:36:49.160 with that it just happened that somebody offered her so she's like oh

00:36:52.600 shit thank you so much yeah why not that's different here one one reminder guys just

00:36:57.560 please one microphone at a time because the audience can't hear just one microphone at a

00:37:01.080 time please did you want to say something oh i just think it's it's just a matter of managing

00:37:05.160 expectations right like if if you're someone that enjoys showing love by giving gifts then you should

00:37:13.480 be with someone that likes receiving gifts right but where where misalignment comes in where it

00:37:19.000 sounds like it does in your case you're not someone that likes to show love initially

00:37:23.720 by giving gifts which is a super normal thing which is why there's so many guys that do go out

00:37:28.680 and like splurge on their on new girls and like you look at you go what what the fuck are you doing

00:37:32.840 just like give them a hug you know that's what i want to do um we all just have different love

00:37:37.320 languages right and so when when i meet girls that are like what are you not going to like get my nails

00:37:42.840 i'm like no like that's just not that's not how i show a new person love but like you totally deserve

00:37:48.840 to be with someone that gives you that you know what i mean it's it's just a matter of love languages

00:37:54.040 right like also love language isn't about what you're giving them it's how they receive it yeah

00:38:00.440 love by getting gifts that's what you have to do yeah whether you like it or not sure it's just a

00:38:05.240 matter of managing expectations right there's also a difference between a love language and them

00:38:09.960 expecting these things i just said managing expectations yeah i mean it was after the

00:38:13.400 first date you said right i feel disrespected we were like it was like a month or so in and then

00:38:20.200 of us like kind of talking and then we slept together the first time and then literally the

00:38:23.880 next morning i get that text and i was like that's just toxic so yeah i know that i don't know yeah i

00:38:30.200 agree talking about else buddy she's like oh i got that i have to get that yeah so it was like

00:38:35.720 but after once you guys are established she wants that so she's telling you hey this is

00:38:39.880 then you could talk about the location so she just asked for it which i think is pretty cool

00:38:47.640 when when you were she could have been nicer about it when you were going on these dates

00:38:52.120 were you potentially expecting to meet an actual partner oh yeah oh you were okay it's not like i just

00:38:59.160 and i could again like uh i even was not in a date again with their white guys who i'm normally don't

00:39:06.440 date so if i really don't like the person it was like it's not even like attractive i'm like oh i'm

00:39:13.000 not going but my friend she's like i need money we're going everywhere she's like she's just so what

00:39:19.720 you're saying there's basically you've discovered there's an abundance of guys that are interested in

00:39:26.600 a single mom is is what you've discovered so uh i'm a little bit different i'm not american people

00:39:33.560 can see me as so different i have another mentality i'm i consider myself like super authentic and so

00:39:42.280 different so when some guys like see me or like on that time like they saw me in social media and see

00:39:48.840 my personality they like oh i want you specifically i don't care you have kids or not they like i want

00:39:55.720 to know you and i'm like okay if you can pay i'm like i'm going so again like i i was like oh i can

00:40:04.440 i really can make like some maybe i can find my partner yeah two birds with one stone hit two birds

00:40:11.720 with one stone you find your partner and you pay for your baby so actually i remember like i really like

00:40:16.920 one guy so he paid two times for a babysitter and then the third time he was like uh i was like you

00:40:23.320 don't have to pay for a babysitter i just can't go and like again talking with the car in the car

00:40:27.800 because i already like you i already know you like we just can't like you know talking in the car a

00:40:32.920 little bit and that's it hey car conversations are okay question so question for you how many dates

00:40:40.440 with different men would you say you've you went on where you requested that they pay for i didn't

00:40:46.280 count more than 10 no i guess it's around like 10 or 12 or something it was not a lot again like we

00:40:55.960 like share kids sometimes they're and my friends do that so okay okay makes me sad uh but so you

00:41:04.440 your claim is i'm i'm not i actually have a problem to it's my like therapy to asking a man some help or

00:41:12.840 money or anything because i can't do that i was raised like oh you can do by yourself everything

00:41:18.200 like that so okay one thing really quick i'll come back to that um chat can you guys tell me if stream

00:41:26.680 labs is not working there's been a couple people that said they've been trying to donate through

00:41:31.560 stream labs but apparently it's not working not going through i'm not really sure what's going on

00:41:36.760 uh eric can you show me the chat so i can see what the deal is um so you were saying that uh hold

00:41:45.720 on let me just see cannot donate on stream labs anybody else

00:41:48.760 can somebody else can anybody else try on stream labs but uh yeah that's really weird i don't know why

00:42:17.000 that's happening i'll try to fix it guys we'll we'll get it figured out otherwise i'll just switch

00:42:21.320 the i'll switch uh all the tts over to uh super chats uh so one question for you uh

00:42:32.120 remind me how many guys did you 10 to 12 10 to 12. i don't remember actually because i don't count

00:42:38.360 this was like oh i getting money okay i'm just counting like where's their day of paying bills and

00:42:44.440 how much i have right now that on that time was like that okay but you so you consider yourself

00:42:50.920 a wifey material though oh yeah i mean i i'm and i'm not saying this to be rude but i think the fact

00:42:56.360 that you have a child kind of you're you're not wifey material why but she already shows that she

00:43:05.240 can take care it doesn't make any sense for me you're telling me right now brian what's a wifey material to

00:43:10.680 you what's a wife material to you material would would would be a girl that at bare minimum doesn't

00:43:17.320 have a child in tow from another father well why why is that that's a great opinion it's just happened

00:43:23.720 yeah you're a man too and loving and passionate and like and i all these things to bring someone that

00:43:32.200 doesn't have a dad and take them in as their own that's really special and lucky to be honest it's

00:43:39.480 just not for you well i think it's just not for you we're all allowed our own opinion sure

00:43:44.840 to think that yeah yeah and i i don't i don't have a double standard on this if a woman didn't want

00:43:51.640 to date a guy because he had a kid i'm totally fine with that i don't object to that some women

00:43:56.920 wouldn't want to date a guy who has a kid maybe they want to start their own family maybe they

00:44:01.240 recognize that there's potential issues there so yeah i'm like i don't date yeah like i don't date

00:44:09.080 with the guys who are not ready for family or who doesn't want to have kids because it doesn't make

00:44:14.040 any sense like i want to have a family i want to have kids i'm i'm not looking for a husband it's just

00:44:19.480 gonna happen i'm not like pincer whatever is that i'm like come on let's looking for no i'm not that

00:44:26.120 but like if you tell me clearly i'm not sure i want to have kids i'm like i'm leaving like what i'm

00:44:32.680 doing here okay uh we're gonna continue moving on uh your relationship status and uh current

00:44:38.920 relationship status longest relationship my longest relationship was two two and a half years

00:44:44.360 my current relationship status is single but looking for an online boyfriend link in bio

00:44:52.440 man what an era we're in it's crazy i'm just vibing so you're you're currently

00:45:00.600 single correct yes when's the last time you went on the date the last time i went on a date was

00:45:07.240 probably a week ago when's the last time you hooked up with somebody oh my gosh

00:45:11.960 oh it's been it's been a minute it's been a minute it's been a minute a fortnight a fortnight

00:45:18.360 fortnight it's been it's been like a couple months probably 14 days okay no it's been it's been a few

00:45:22.920 fortnights a few four score and seven years ago i'm an angel okay what about you over there me yeah um

00:45:37.240 um my longest relationship was about eight years um

00:45:42.760 current relationship status taken okay relationship relationship okay how long have you been dating

00:45:49.400 um a little over a year okay got it but you're still just not looking for anything serious right

00:45:56.040 still just no it's we're i think he's joking yeah i was just joking go ahead

00:46:02.920 um that was a joke my my longest like relationship was probably two years but i was just like recently

00:46:10.360 in one that was like five years on and off so i don't know if the on and off shit makes five years

00:46:16.600 but that's kind of yeah i'll just say you know what i'll just say two years but you're currently

00:46:22.680 single yeah i am single yes okay how long have you been single uh about two and a half months

00:46:27.720 two and a half months yes okay and you said your longest was like a two year on and on and

00:46:32.040 well again off again thing that was five years on and off oh excuse me five years on and off and is

00:46:36.200 that the one that recently ended yes okay have you had a rebound uh no no a rebound guy no i mean

00:46:43.080 i'm at a really interesting point in my life like i don't i'm just really steady and comfortable with

00:46:48.440 being with oh sorry with being with myself and i don't know i'm not really like looking for anything

00:46:53.640 i'm just enjoying life that's how you find the right person yeah like i'm not yeah i have no

00:46:59.960 expectations i'm just riding the wave yeah i'm just riding man eric eric can you pull up the chat

00:47:06.520 really quick um hey guys what are you guys getting an error when you're trying to donate through streamlabs

00:47:12.920 is there an error that's happening um let me know in the chat i'm just going to look at it here for a

00:47:19.000 couple seconds and try to troubleshoot i yeah i'll i'll have to try to switch it over to uh youtube but

00:47:28.600 uh i did get one that came through on uh stream labs which is weird uh cheeks i don't know if you're still

00:47:34.600 in the chat did you get an error message uh cheeks that's weird mr cheeks are you with us

00:47:48.360 um hold on uh so these comments are so interesting i know so i'm gonna have you guys answer uh your

00:47:55.880 current relationship status and longest relationship i'm currently single and my longest relationship was

00:48:02.760 three years should we fill should we like fill it in well how how was it how were the question why

00:48:12.680 did it end yeah um that's a good question i could hardly remember that was like 2017 that it ended when

00:48:19.640 was your last relationship uh ended in january why did that end uh i basically was not you couldn't

00:48:28.680 lift enough no that's not um i mean simply like i basically like left um we competed at the same

00:48:37.640 show and i basically just like left and didn't kind of watch her compete yeah why did you do that um

00:48:44.280 um just some a lot of things were happening within my work environment that led me to believe

00:48:51.720 essentially that like she was against me in a way and i instead of communicating that i just kind of

00:48:58.840 wanted to handle my own business and what did we learn through that experience um well

00:49:05.720 don't date a woman that lists more than you you're right you're right no i'll admit that like yeah it's a

00:49:09.720 regret but i also told her that we would talk about it on sunday after and i'm like just let

00:49:14.600 me do my own thing and we can talk about it on sunday which was the day very weird that there was

00:49:19.240 a competition between you two you don't hear that no you weren't no we weren't competing against

00:49:24.200 each other but you said there was some sort of competition like you felt like i competed in bodybuilding

00:49:27.800 and she competed in bikini like we were at a show but it got complicated you said because

00:49:32.440 there was a competition thing that that's no no there was like external factors were

00:49:38.360 were playing into it where it led me to believe that like she was not on my side as my partner

00:49:47.320 wasn't supporting you properly um no it's more like work related and it was like a he said she said

00:49:54.680 thing and i was just like i just want to not even think about this right now and just handle my own

00:49:59.640 shit so i was just like overly selfish and then we tried to like work it out after but then

00:50:06.520 didn't really work it out after

00:50:11.720 r.i.p

00:50:16.040 i am currently single and the longest relationship was three years

00:50:19.720 so did you ever test her poop

00:50:25.240 he tests people's poop ben does like a heavy metal mineral analysis of people

00:50:30.280 uh not in that relationship no

00:50:35.000 i wasn't wasn't into that yet but uh very important microbiome of your partner you don't want to be

00:50:40.120 getting parasites from your partner so wait wait wait but it's like no i'm joking um i test heavy metals in

00:50:48.680 the body uh but if your partner has parasites and you have sex with them you're going to transfer

00:50:52.920 the parasites so hookup culture very dangerous for your health without condom and with condom

00:50:58.920 kissing all of it oh yeah you're gonna get wow i must have everything yeah what if you all have

00:51:05.000 parasites yeah probably what if your partner is vegan you got parasites kate's got some hot takes

00:51:11.160 yeah obviously isn't it mostly for me that you get parasites no no no it can be from everywhere but it

00:51:17.560 just depends on how strong your body like they're can fight it it's a myth it's a myth that they just

00:51:22.840 come from third world countries yeah i mean it's like your immune system's deficient you don't

00:51:26.920 have all your nutrients you'll attract parasites so gotcha oh asian so yeah so you got a lot of

00:51:31.160 people are unhealthy in our world you got hookup culture everyone's sharing nastiness go to

00:51:35.240 disneyland you'll see a lot of unhealthy people oh hell yes to america though i don't go to disney

00:51:40.760 food's just getting worse over there it used to be better now it's trash

00:51:49.080 uh i am currently in a relationship it's been about a year and it's been my longest relationship

00:51:55.400 oh that's cute and she's in the building can we get her over here

00:52:02.520 over there she's a hottie she's beautiful what about you um i've never been in a relationship over a

00:52:09.720 year i think longest capped at like eight or nine months and why do you think that is

00:52:15.880 i think what are your flaws grady's a lover he's there's too much yeah i think i think it really

00:52:22.200 just boils down to not being in a place where like with a lot of uh options available i was like

00:52:28.200 centered enough to like lock in and now kind of got like a main thing so she got me these pajamas

00:52:35.160 i'll maintain yeah but she was in another state so like what are those i would call them pjs but

00:52:43.160 i guess they could polar bears i think or like really poorly drawn some other animal but i think

00:52:50.120 it's polar bears very likely that the artist was was attempting at a polar bear have you ever seen

00:52:55.960 but again could could be a multitude of things could be a really really bad ant you know you said you

00:53:01.640 you've never been in a relationship that was over like eight or nine months i think that's

00:53:06.520 usually a lover he said but you're like a lover yeah so it was more of the girl that was like

00:53:11.560 usually the problem i wouldn't i wouldn't boil it down to that i would say i'm largely problematic i

00:53:16.680 think it just boils down to like being able to recognize differences and like maybe the fact that you

00:53:24.760 are one way at the beginning of a year and at the end of it you're not and you're like i'm not going to

00:53:28.440 keep being someone that i'm not in order to like appease someone else i think at a certain point

00:53:33.160 you have to be spiritually selfish and right look out for yourself first so like and and honestly just

00:53:38.600 like a byproduct of being scatterbrained i think like i'm just fucking insane and but you know i feel

00:53:46.680 like i'm getting i'm getting in a good routine i'm starting to figure it out you know you're doing

00:53:50.520 cold plunges yeah very self-aware doing my sodas cold plunges yeah thinking straight huh

00:53:56.280 why did i know that we did we did them on the way here we stopped by diplo's house on the way up and

00:54:00.920 and did a 34 degree cold plunge so shout out diplo thank you for the cold plunge sorry for getting

00:54:07.240 your floor we're finally friends again gang again yeah we just recently met at a wedding won't go into

00:54:13.960 detail but we're friends again you guys previously hooked up no we have never hooked up no allegedly okay

00:54:19.000 only person literally i was gonna say shockingly uh didn't you have seven girlfriends no i didn't

00:54:26.200 know who's seven girlfriends no that was you okay you told me that you had seven girl i didn't know

00:54:30.760 seven girlfriends it was no it was a it was it was an interesting situation um i was just i was in an

00:54:37.240 open relationship with a girl um my parents just gotten divorced i i was probably in like a pretty low

00:54:42.680 point and uh and so i was just like kind of open to whatever and uh how old were you when this

00:54:49.480 happened it's like 23 24 and uh what does that look what is that you just analyzing handled a breakup

00:54:57.480 in your grown age that way i just wouldn't for sure yeah i mean there was there was a lot of other

00:55:02.040 shit going on but like i also it was just like i met a dope girl and she happened to be bi we're in an

00:55:08.200 open relationship um one thing led to another uh met one girl that wanted to have three ways met

00:55:15.480 another one and it just kind of like compounded into this like super group of girls that all women

00:55:21.560 how did you feel in that moment it at a certain point it just felt normal you know it was just like

00:55:27.480 imagine if a girl regular situation imagine the comments of a girl said that

00:55:31.240 that'd be crazy she do right hello but but no it was it was uh great i think the way you explained

00:55:41.720 it to me the first time was that you you were dating a girl and then it turned out she was dating the

00:55:47.720 same girl that you were also dating no no no no it's not like that no no no so basically uh

00:55:55.320 one of one of the girls that i like took out while i was dating this chick um was going on a

00:56:01.000 date with a girl that i had just hooked up with and i was like and she was like i want to go hook

00:56:06.600 up with this girl but i'm too nervous to do it on my own will you come and i'm like absolutely and so

00:56:11.640 i was sort of like i was sort of like the liaison for their like sexuality opening you know and so

00:56:18.760 that sort of like blossomed into a much so she'd never been with a girl she'd never been with a girl

00:56:23.800 how'd you get out of all of that i i guess like a volcano eruption yeah just one beautiful final

00:56:32.120 goodbye and i waved my way back to los angeles and never looked back i want to make a comment too on

00:56:37.640 this is and not that it matters a ton but i mean maybe people watching see gradient of onesie and

00:56:44.280 might make some judgments but grady dates and is typically friends with some of the most beautiful

00:56:50.440 woman i've ever seen wow that's so great it he i don't know what it is about grady but what do you

00:56:55.240 mean you don't know what it look at me he's like i don't know i don't know i don't know i have no idea

00:57:03.400 no i kind of feel like it this we were in uh croatia this summer and he like showed up with this like

00:57:08.760 six foot like new york runway model like i was just like it doesn't it doesn't compute sometimes so

00:57:15.480 big dick that it could be it maybe it's gotta be more than that you know i don't know

00:57:21.160 it's all about the personality oh man he just seems like a genuine dude like a cool chill genuine

00:57:27.160 girls like to laugh grounded guy you're libra yeah i'm a libra

00:57:32.440 oh why you didn't ask like a zodiac sign what i mean why didn't ask like everybody's zodiac sign

00:57:44.840 because he's not crazy we're all connected to the stars i believe it i believe it i think we're

00:57:50.040 celestial beings for sure i just i think that i think a lot of people put too much on it you know

00:57:55.400 i think a lot of people use it as you don't know enough about it sure or you know too much right like

00:58:00.680 i think i think a lot of people will use it as a crutch and say well you know i'm only an

00:58:05.000 asshole on wednesdays because the star said so and it's like you're just being an asshole on a

00:58:09.800 wednesday and maybe take accountability you know i think i think i think i think people like in this

00:58:15.640 day and age have a lot of trouble with taking accountability so that's just the bottom line

00:58:19.080 your natal chart is you basically your blueprint however you get to do whatever you want with that

00:58:25.400 blueprint so you don't have to be what exactly that's how i feel i i felt

00:58:30.600 i felt very aligned with a lot of stuff i've read i've gone to shamans i've done done a lot of that

00:58:36.040 stuff i mean like i i try yeah i mean i try to stay tapped in i don't i don't do drugs but i do a lot

00:58:42.280 of mushrooms i like i i always i always try to like keep keep myself in check spiritually and and i've i've

00:58:49.720 definitely felt a lot of times like really seen by by stuff that i read with astrology and and i think

00:58:55.960 there's power to it i just think just like with anything else you got to realize that you're the

00:59:00.280 one in the in the driver's seat it's like the same with the religion you can use that like oh my my

00:59:06.600 dad or my daughter he said like uh one time i'm like uh i need some money it's on on some point we

00:59:13.400 was talking and he was helping sometimes financially so he was like i need some money money for like for

00:59:20.040 my daughter for like clothes and he's like what what do you gonna send something or not he's like

00:59:26.920 oh you know allah doesn't give me money

00:59:31.240 i'm bad months and i'm like i can see your red flames coming out of your head yeah it's like

00:59:36.760 okay um i'm gonna i need to get caught up on some of the chats um sorry guys stream labs is is broken

00:59:43.400 um i've enabled tts on youtube i just enabled it so i did see some come through so i'll have to uh

00:59:51.080 i'm gonna re-trigger them now if i can um eric before i do that can you just pull up twitch really

00:59:55.640 quick all right guys go over to twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow the link is in the

01:00:02.600 description mods if you can just uh put the link there uh drop us a follow on twitch twitch.tv slash

01:00:08.520 whatever if you have a prime sub drop us a prime sub yo thank you all so much everyone

01:00:13.240 for uh following appreciate it guys okay let me get these uh chats here so we have uh i don't know

01:00:19.080 if this is going to trigger but oh okay yo stream labs might be working now can somebody go over there

01:00:25.000 and double check and see if stream labs is working um yo krug thank you man uh lexi in college we would

01:00:31.800 blast dj snake middle where you're twerking hollywood blah uh let me trigger it again gang gang stay tuned baby

01:00:39.720 one sec is it not gonna uh i'm drinking a cocktail right now in your honor talking about the money

01:00:50.840 again cheers to you all right stephen krug thank you for that man yes bitch i have a kid you have to pay

01:00:58.920 for a kid yeah the question is are you on my of is what i really want to know yeah

01:01:08.440 uh okay for some reason stream labs is just absolutely scuffed it doesn't even want to trigger

01:01:15.160 anything so that's too much energy here yeah i'm have no idea stream labs is obviously scuffed i don't

01:01:23.160 think it's on i don't think it's on our end because people weren't even able to donate so um

01:01:28.600 i'm just gonna read eric were you still starring everything yeah okay uh i'm just gonna have to

01:01:33.560 read the uh soup chat sorry guys um stream labs must be scuffed right now yo cheeks thank you man

01:01:39.400 thank you for the 200 of girls and single mothers are barely made for recreational use let alone wifey

01:01:45.240 these delusional thoughts have it easy to simp giving them whatever they ask brian i'll see you

01:01:50.040 soon i sent you the days verify please guys don't stop to of it's foul and they don't give

01:01:54.680 you anything back you're wearing a bow tie bro you're not a fan of bow ties he's 50 and he doesn't

01:02:01.000 get laid would you date a guy with a bow tie no potentially those aren't even cool anymore

01:02:06.440 you have zero sense of style and you're probably balding in the back okay shots fired thank thank you

01:02:12.200 cheeks yo dustin bond thank you man thank you for the 200 whoa just tuned in in this panel of high

01:02:18.040 value is this the panel of high value men question for each dude how much did you pay last year to

01:02:22.680 the irs i paid just short of 400k come get us daddy man somebody get this guy on dustin bonds thank you

01:02:31.480 man um look at his picture you see that he's a champion that guy's a chad okay come pay mine

01:02:42.680 he is kind of a chad yeah my uh my bills are high as well all right um yo cheeks thank you man

01:02:50.600 uh as a man that is black and latino i run through girls like you and give you a nice spit oh jesus christ

01:02:55.560 oh jesus

01:02:58.680 the thing is is honey you have to pay for your women yeah hourly also real men of status won't

01:03:04.360 ever marry any of you three of foes what are three of foes what is that hold on

01:03:08.840 area code of hoes let me read these guys it's we'll consider you in the running with your

01:03:13.160 odious behavior and endeavor shut up i can't get any messages on labs sorry man yeah the stream labs is

01:03:19.480 uh is scuffed right now so uh yeah working and you need to pay to be heard so yo marquavius martin

01:03:26.280 thank you man sorry sorry to you too i stream labs is fucked um hearing this panel give advice is like

01:03:32.120 making a mcdonald's fry cook your financial advisor or ted bundy your dating coach you have lexi the adhd

01:03:37.880 grandmother of twerking uh a hobbit there's nothing wrong with a hobbit in a onesie

01:03:46.840 is that me

01:03:50.040 is that me oh my god thank you martin thank you for that 200 feedback martin can't even have a profile

01:03:56.600 pick he's so ugly wow do i have any lord of the rings music on my stream deck oh i hope so i can run

01:04:03.320 that up are you kidding people spend so much money to write that it's so funny and they telling me

01:04:10.200 like oh so yo shut up and a gaggle of fatherless bro it's just stop a gaggle of fatherless digital

01:04:19.240 streetwalkers have any of you ever listened to yourselves lord yo thank you man appreciate it

01:04:26.840 all right we have uh sebastian hundred dollar soup chat thank you man uh dating a single mom you build

01:04:31.000 a bond with the child in the event you two don't work out you lose the child as well that you have

01:04:35.800 no rights to think about how having a father figure in the child's life that then went to get milk talk

01:04:41.160 about childhood trauma facts from experience based uh eric did we miss any of the uh super chance

01:04:52.520 no you sure okay uh let me see if i can trigger this nope that's not working that's really weird no

01:05:02.120 idea what's going on um hold on let me check one thing see if that'll do it nope okay uh i'll just

01:05:10.200 have to read it but it's not going to be visible on stream here so we have a 200 donation from or

01:05:18.120 excuse me 100 donation from why thank you man brian i'm sorry about not making it tonight i can fly out

01:05:23.800 from mt whenever your neck is fully healed and the podcast is up and running neck tat it is essential

01:05:29.640 to match the level of energy your man gives who's talking back there bro why are you distracting my

01:05:38.280 producer what are you doing can you rejoin the panel or what's what's the deal

01:05:43.960 huh you're eating what the

01:05:50.440 yo but don't don't be sitting next to him just like go in the bathroom or some

01:05:54.440 sit on the toilet while you eat let's be respectful

01:05:58.840 all right uh wyatt it is essential to match the level of energy your man gives you seem to only

01:06:08.440 bring issues to the table who's this directed to wyatt i don't know

01:06:18.520 confirm or deny wyatt sorry wyatt sorry that your donation didn't come through normally stream

01:06:23.080 labs is uh not sure what's going on i want to redirect everyone to just super chat through

01:06:29.000 youtube we'll just treat it tts might not even be working so uh yeah um i'll just we'll have to

01:06:37.640 play it by ear okay um everyone got to uh give their uh relationship status so my question is uh all of

01:06:47.080 you most of you guys are on only fans so have you encountered any issues with dating because of

01:06:54.520 having only fans i've got guys definitely get kind of upset but it's like if you're not gonna pay my

01:06:59.400 bills you can't tell me to stop making my income sort of thing you know i advertise as polyamorous so

01:07:04.760 i'm pretty straightforward from the beginning this is what it is so one question on the polyamory so um

01:07:10.280 what's the most amount of partners you've had at one time like that i'm in love with

01:07:17.320 sexual partners oh love or not it's intriguing question isn't it yeah i love to know i've never

01:07:24.280 really kept track is that something you do do you keep track well i'm typically one woman person i

01:07:31.960 typically only sleep with one girl at a time so you're monogamous typically yes gotcha okay but so

01:07:37.560 i mean and i'm speaking concurrently so at the same time so maybe not like same day but say over the

01:07:44.360 stretch of a two-week period a month period i would say three or four three or four is that

01:07:48.200 the most i don't see them all the time like you know have you ever had like seven at the same

01:07:52.760 time no that's a bit much that's a bit much hard to keep track too much on monday through sunday

01:07:58.760 yeah your monday man and like and you're saying like tuesday shorty right like you're actually in

01:08:02.520 relationships yeah like you're actually yeah and i'm very in love with her and then i have a

01:08:07.880 boyfriend yeah and i'm very in love with him here leave this uh eric leave this up i'm gonna read it

01:08:12.760 while it's here yo vd cars thank you for the 200 you want men to be traditional and pay for things

01:08:16.840 but none of you act like traditional women if i shared a photo of the national flags of tonga

01:08:22.120 albania china morocco singapore tunisia switzerland and isle of man there would still be fewer red flags in

01:08:27.960 that image than on this podcast actually i'm so traditional but you just can't see that like you

01:08:35.240 don't know how you know that it went not tradition tradition like who cares about tradition i am not

01:08:41.000 you didn't want to be just saying like not paying bills for women that's not called tradition

01:08:47.160 that literally is called tradition nobody said i want my bills oh yeah that's different like you

01:08:52.840 don't want men being providers men being providers is them being traditional

01:08:58.520 adhering to their traditional gender roles what's traditional mean and like traditional woman it's

01:09:03.640 who who's staying at home and raise the kids but i i can't i can't raise a kid by myself well i mean

01:09:08.920 like and don't work but you can be traditional in i'm don't like i'm so old-fashioned i'm i'm monogamous

01:09:15.720 i'm so old-fashioned in so many different ways because i was born and raised in russia it's like my

01:09:21.480 mentality is like it's so traditional and old-fashioned but again how we how we can know

01:09:29.560 like you can't just because the way i talk it's you can't see that i also think it's i think i also

01:09:35.000 think it's like way harder to be like quote unquote traditional in this day and age like just with how

01:09:43.000 expensive just living is now um it is nearly impossible to be like a dude like just a

01:09:51.080 regular dude working a regular job and be able to provide for you and your spouse and a kid and like

01:09:57.640 get a house like that's insane it's it's actually impossible yeah like it doesn't operate the

01:10:02.520 regular job yeah and so like america so like you know people people are just kind of reaching for

01:10:08.040 for like fewer and fewer fruits because like you're not talking about just finding a guy that has a job

01:10:14.600 anymore you're talking about like like a very small pool of men that have managed to like beat the

01:10:20.760 odds and and have a career that is sustainable you know um but that's that's why that's why

01:10:27.960 this like idea of tradition at least in america is like impossible it's like doesn't exist i don't

01:10:35.720 think it's impossible but you do make a good point that there are certain economic realities where it

01:10:40.200 makes it harder for the man to be the sole breadwinner in a family and everything everything is a trickle

01:10:45.240 down from that isn't it traditional woman should cook it clean it's just a question should what

01:10:50.440 should cook and clean yeah i mean when i'm thinking of traditional it's it's more about

01:10:55.400 just your demeanor like how you act yeah okay how do you act in a life cooking and cleaning like

01:11:03.240 that's cool so your girl can have an only fan is that a way of acting so why wouldn't you want to

01:11:10.760 hate someone with what if she's like super traditional but it's her like really hobby and

01:11:15.720 because like i my friend she's like super traditional typical russian woman has two kids

01:11:21.880 she's married but she has like her own things about like not only fans but like sexual stuff

01:11:28.440 which she and and for her it's like a hobby so it's like but she's still traditional that's fine

01:11:34.920 but i think a lot of men will look at women who are really invested in their career and think for

01:11:39.480 example the guy who wants family and kids he's going to look at a girl who's really invested in her

01:11:44.120 career and think well maybe she's not going to be particularly involved or wanting to be involved

01:11:49.000 in the household when it comes to raising the kids because and hey if she wants to pursue career that's

01:11:53.640 great but i think men might look at that and be like well maybe i'd want to pursue someone who might

01:11:58.920 be more willing to work part-time or even not work at all and let me be the breadwinner and they take

01:12:03.720 care of that inner household while the man takes care of the outer household i totally agree with that

01:12:08.360 like even myself because i run several different companies and i feel men are often intimidated by that

01:12:12.920 but and like it's a turnoff because they want and like i even looked at the guys that i would date

01:12:18.200 and they're all with somebody just like that that would take that part-time job or was just working

01:12:23.400 like a babysitting job they were a teacher and they can just finagle their way out of there but any girl

01:12:29.000 that's running their own shit i think it is often very intimidating for men not all men but a lot of men

01:12:35.000 i can go ahead i'm sorry i can stop uh i i don't say stop my career but i'm like i can pause my

01:12:42.120 projects if i'm really getting into the marriage and the kids so it's like i still have my passion

01:12:49.240 about dancing like massage all that stuff but if i'm like getting into serious relationship and there i i

01:12:56.280 i think like i need like put more attention in there and into the family and relationship i can

01:13:03.480 like okay my project can wait and i'm like yeah that's yeah no i couldn't do that not this point

01:13:08.840 in my life yeah not at all um yeah i'm totally okay with that so it's like just again like my family is

01:13:15.160 my priority like my daughter is my priority when i have a husband husband my family is my priority i can

01:13:21.160 i can pause the business i can pause everything in in my relationship right now i would say it's

01:13:26.200 generally pretty traditional where i make all the money and my girlfriend who's here in the studio is

01:13:35.240 her main goal is to just have a family as as soon as possible um and she has some career goals but

01:13:44.040 she's said you know from the start like as soon as i'm ready to have a kid she's ready uh that's a

01:13:49.640 full-time job does her family have money does her family have money where her family taking care of

01:13:55.560 her i'm taking care of her before that uh she was yeah yeah yeah i mean she had a she had a job she

01:14:02.600 had a internship but um well women who are independent on their own they have no they don't have an

01:14:08.200 opportunity or you're just gonna be on the street so some people have that hustle and they're working

01:14:11.560 working working and that's all they can do so it's like okay now i'm successful and now a guy comes

01:14:16.520 around and i have all this and then suddenly they don't want you because you're too busy you're not

01:14:20.680 hand and foot at them that's it's an issue you wanted to go yes i just wanted to say something

01:14:25.960 to what you um just mentioned my boyfriend himself as well he knows i work and you know i'm successful

01:14:32.440 he's successful but he also says i don't have to work if i you know don't want to or because he could

01:14:39.000 provide and he would provide because that's how he was raised and that's what he would want to do

01:14:43.080 for the woman that he loves so i love that you're doing that okay i'm gonna do a couple uh super

01:14:49.560 chats here by the way i think i have tts working on youtube it might be working on youtube it might

01:14:55.480 not but what what i'll do is if you are at the super chat shaker for 200 and it's just like not

01:15:01.480 it doesn't work i'll try to read it immediately as possible so it's almost like a tts um thank you

01:15:06.520 for hanging in there with me guys okay so did we do this one yeah i think we did that one we did this one

01:15:11.720 we had cheeks here thank you for the hundred as a 50 year old balding black man no matter what

01:15:17.400 insults are thrown at me you still will never be respected by anyone with your current activities

01:15:21.640 and only homies for the record my bow tie still costs more than your whole outfits combined kobe

01:15:27.400 uh brian verify days hey you got him on the ball bro the fact that you just said kobe you're corny

01:15:32.760 you got him on the balding part lexi he admitted he's balding i'm glad he's bad money

01:15:39.560 and what is respected by anybody we're respected by plenty of people and people that we care about

01:15:44.120 i don't really care about anyone's opinion other the people that well that too i agree 100 yeah

01:15:49.960 all right we have a minnesota liz here thank you for the hundred the only comments these women will

01:15:53.400 listen to will be the comments from the children's mouths when they are embarrassed by how you

01:15:56.680 presented yourself guys as a custody evaluator this of world makes it easier for all you men

01:16:02.200 in court to gain custody that's actually false but okay yeah is that true is that true no that's

01:16:07.320 absolutely how did you did you call minnesota liz oh wow you did you call minnesota liz a karen

01:16:13.800 sorry is she a karen absolutely go home to your hubby when girls have to put other girls down

01:16:18.600 okay we have uh captain bamalam yeah something's going on there liz a hundred dollars thank you man

01:16:23.080 hey brixton i'm just dropping by to say keep up the good work my brother thank you man

01:16:26.360 i've been working on my certifications head down and focused well done i pray you and your family

01:16:31.320 are in good health shout out to the chat love you guys yo we like that okay thank you yo captain bam

01:16:38.120 thank you man thank you man appreciate it uh very nice of you uh really appreciate the support captain

01:16:44.360 here i'll do it i'll give you a little uh jet janan claussen uh merci beaucoup for the 137 canadian

01:16:53.000 uh and over six families with 18 plus children families doing just fine on single father income

01:16:59.160 the fathers for the most part are your average contractor it is very much possible to make it

01:17:04.760 and be successful stop the cap and become a proper man working 500 hours a week where your children

01:17:10.200 don't see you okay oh wow depends on the job but yeah sean's fired i'd love to see that the

01:17:19.320 breakdown of that i really want to see the house i want to see how they live how well are they really

01:17:26.920 canada 18 children okay um so everyone here lives in la right i mean you used to live in la

01:17:38.920 miami that's so crazy have you ever lived in la didn't you guys traditionally do this with ucsb students

01:17:45.160 yeah yeah yeah we we still get ucsb students on but uh it's just all transplants now yeah it's just

01:17:52.040 people commuting i guess we made a trap today it's harder to get ucsb students on because

01:17:58.280 we're a little a little getting a little too big at this point um some of them don't want to

01:18:03.720 talk about some of this yeah uh so uh yeah um okay so let's talk about dating in la since most of

01:18:12.040 you have trash live in la or dating around the world oh it's it's just trash everywhere yes these men

01:18:18.120 they all have wives girlfriends cheaters talk about men let's talk about women sure what do you

01:18:26.840 want to say about men lexi i just feel like most men i'm gonna say most are unloyal most men are

01:18:33.720 unloyal especially with me please disloyal so are disloyal when you say most men can you assign a

01:18:39.720 percentage i would say about 85 85 percent of men yeah you think are unloyal yeah do you have any

01:18:46.680 guys in the friend zone yes do you think any of them would be loyal to you no even the guys in

01:18:54.680 your friend zone yeah and most of my guy friends will say that yes every guy that they know has

01:18:59.560 cheated so there's not a guy that's just like super down for you but you're just not like he does he's

01:19:04.360 not exciting he's in your friend zone he's he's safe not exciting you know maybe i can think of

01:19:10.040 one okay but you're not attracted to him um i yeah i just never really liked him that i feel like the

01:19:16.440 chemistry just wasn't there like that just wasn't there i feel like you're just so what's helped me

01:19:21.480 like i really feel that for me and i'm gonna go against this a little bit men really for me

01:19:26.440 like aren't that unloyal because i just have been able to create like a really safe space where i'm

01:19:31.320 just very straightforward and i give them the space to say whatever they want i don't try to control

01:19:35.880 them and when i noticed i took that away and they took that away off me it's just like straight

01:19:40.520 vulnerability and it's like this beautiful communication i get to have with i've tried

01:19:44.040 that they still lie i have another problem i'm not saying it's easy but that's helped me a ton

01:19:49.160 let me just i bet if you go through their phone you'd find something let me i don't want to touch

01:19:52.440 i think for a quality woman i don't i don't know okay let me just address lexi's thing really quick

01:19:58.440 so i mean you said 85 of men are disloyal are all the men that you've dated have they've all been

01:20:04.600 disloyal all of them no okay most of them have you ever cheated no i'm not a cheater no never once

01:20:13.000 never not once okay i'm a loyal girl i smile just because i'm smiling but no okay i'm a very loyal

01:20:19.400 girl and i expect that back and yeah i don't think they've all cheated but i do think that

01:20:27.960 they didn't have to go as far as like hooking up or kissing but like

01:20:31.160 like texting or like doing some things in their phone that i wouldn't like yes every boyfriend i

01:20:37.560 most wouldn't it probably be cheating though if you're messaging people on only fans that's kind

01:20:42.360 of like who said we're the ones no but if you're replying to them i'm saying no i don't think so

01:20:47.640 do you do content with other creators no that's just me though so i have another problem no one

01:20:54.440 would want to have a family like i i'm really going to dates and i'm like i'm not looking for

01:21:01.160 a husband but i wish i can have a family and people like oh i'm not ready blah blah blah all

01:21:07.800 that stuff or they like oh one day guys don't want to commit they don't want to have kids in the

01:21:15.400 family but you just said you don't want a husband i want husband oh you do want i want to have a

01:21:19.960 husband i want to have kids uh and like if i i was trying to date like my age like 29 20 even like

01:21:28.920 30 31 it's still not age specifically no less like it's that age like oh they just still figure out

01:21:38.360 they hardly paying their own bills so they're not ready financially emotionally for any kind of family

01:21:44.280 have you tried guys that have kids already oh yeah sure and they still oh no they okay it was just

01:21:50.760 another thing it's not about the kids so i again like i i love to date with the guys who has already

01:21:57.080 kids but yeah but they don't they don't want a family but they are no they want families just uh

01:22:05.480 guys with the kids they have another thing sometimes they like oh i'm not sure like i want to

01:22:12.120 have like people so scared to get divorced they like i don't want to uh married again if they if

01:22:19.800 they had a kid and got married before like i don't want to marry again just because i'm scared i'm going

01:22:25.080 to divorce again and i don't want to go again for that shit because women most of the time takes

01:22:30.600 everything it's like all that custody is just like pain or you know wherever child support all right i'm

01:22:38.360 going to do these uh soup chats here hold on we have a minnesota liz thank you for the 100.

01:22:43.640 karen's back here uh lexi can you read this oh karen you say yeah o f is how you get attention from

01:22:50.360 men paying to see your snatch i get money by giving attention to father's rights and no snatch required

01:22:56.120 from me only respect guys you'll find better parenting advice on the back of a truckers magazine what

01:23:02.120 is um attention to father's rights what's that mean i don't get that father's rights like mother's

01:23:09.800 rights but father's may i share my opinion on this one but yeah and i don't show my snatch so

01:23:14.760 i make more money than you ever will without showing snatch you don't no snatch no i'm not

01:23:19.640 naked on my only fan bikini only baby and i still am the most subscribed person on only fans karen you

01:23:24.840 will never be anybody you're the most subscribed on only fans yeah yeah wait really isn't there like

01:23:30.440 no i am jeez yeah i think in terms of getting attention from men yeah i think that so many

01:23:40.280 men are in our dms honestly degrading us and we don't get attention if you want to message me you

01:23:45.320 have to that's not how we get attention from men yeah like delusion i think she was talking about

01:23:49.240 her job like so much attention because we're last call men no of is how you get attention from men

01:23:54.120 no when she said i get money by giving attention to father's rights because of her last job she's

01:23:58.760 an evaluator yeah homeless people give us way more attention than anyone especially in venues

01:24:03.640 like in the way that's great when you're looking the bummiest too just like them so like right now

01:24:10.040 what do you mean like right now like you know how we go to the uh the gas station it's like oh he's

01:24:15.560 the bomb that like yeah it's trying to hit even though they're the sweetest but we're looking like

01:24:20.360 terrible like death yeah and they're so sweet all the time followers everybody is usually really nice to me

01:24:26.280 i don't so we can get attention from the bomb okay it doesn't have to be on only fans all right vd cars

01:24:31.320 thanks for the hundred most men equals most men you want i was actually about to say this i.e high

01:24:36.040 value men the average guy would be loyal to you but you don't want those guys and the high value men

01:24:40.600 yo can you no we've had very guys shut up we've had low value men in our lives as well they guys if

01:24:46.680 i'm reading the super chats shut the up let me read them please i've told you guys multiple times

01:24:52.040 all right and the high value men have the options which is why they don't pick you

01:24:57.080 yeah i mean lexi i was gonna say you said a lot of guys i dated a guy that worked at universal i would

01:25:01.640 say he's a very low value man to be honest and they still the guys you you complain about psycho

01:25:08.120 you're complaining about all these men being disloyal but it's the guys that you're picking

01:25:12.200 i've dated like i said a very wide variety of what they do for a living what they look like what

01:25:18.360 ethnicity they are and it's all the same would you say typically you date fairly attractive men

01:25:27.480 no not all mostly it's for me it's about chemistry and personality

01:25:32.840 narcissists yes possibly yes okay you date narcissists or yes okay i tend to date more of

01:25:40.600 the narcissist yes well that could certainly if i mean by your own admission the fact that you

01:25:46.440 date narcissists can you stop interrupting the fact that you date narcissists would indicate to me that

01:25:51.720 i would suspect someone who's a narcissist is more likely to cheat on you yes they're psychopaths

01:25:58.840 i agree yeah i agree but narcissists that's i was gonna say that about when you said 85 of men are

01:26:05.560 this disloyal or cheaters i would disagree because i think there's a lot of narcissists

01:26:10.840 and like gaslighting assholes out there hurting women than cheating cheaters i literally just put that

01:26:38.840 on my twitter the other day i was like what's worse a cheater or a narcissistic asshole who's

01:26:43.560 abusive emotionally mentally i just know all the guys i'm around have said that they don't know one

01:26:48.680 person that has not been loyal so that says something i mean that that says a lot about the

01:26:53.160 people you're hanging out with i mean i have good guys around me i mean do you think that narcissists

01:26:57.480 guys are high value i'd probably put them at like well they care about themselves more i think you know

01:27:04.360 physically they they take care of themselves and that's kind of attractive yeah but they're like a

01:27:09.560 actual psychopath yeah in a place like la like so many narcissists around because everyone just cares

01:27:14.040 about superficial things to be honest i think that's why it's so hard to date in la it's like so many

01:27:19.160 models fitness instructor like athletes are you like and at the same time like when you on a certain

01:27:28.200 level of your conscious of like the business of like yourself in general you can't date a regular guy

01:27:35.640 it's like yeah i had the guys who was like really nice to me and but they i don't say they they could

01:27:42.200 provide me a regular life but i am too ambitious for that i'm too ambitious yeah how much money do you

01:27:47.880 make right now um she said ambitious that's different i don't i don't want i don't want to

01:27:54.600 say because more than six figures huh no no no well you're you're 28 you have a child in tow i mean

01:28:02.920 i just moved to america like don't forget that like i just i started from from this crash here okay so

01:28:11.080 question what and so you said you want an ambitious partner then huh you want an ambitious partner do you

01:28:16.360 you want a successful partner who's currently successful uh no we can grow together i'm good

01:28:20.680 but how much does a guy need to make per year for you i don't i don't have that i don't care because

01:28:26.440 i had guys who has a lot of money but they spend a lot because they like have super luxury lifestyle

01:28:33.960 and i had a guy who's like making the same money but he has a regular lifestyle so he does he saved

01:28:40.360 more than he like spending so i don't care how much he's making i care how much he

01:28:46.120 provide for me and like our family about his financial decisions yeah yeah this like he should

01:28:52.760 be smart about money because i am smart about money i'm like saving i want to buy properties i don't

01:28:58.760 want to i don't want to work every fucking day i want to you you you say you say you're smart about

01:29:04.920 money but you previously had to have men pay for your babysitters to go on dates i was broken as

01:29:09.800 fuck i just moved to america immigrating to give her family a better life you never experienced that

01:29:14.920 are you american well i was born in france so i have french citizenship and i have a u.s

01:29:19.400 you were born as a citizen but you'll never know you was not moving to another country like when you

01:29:24.840 was an adult and you're not a woman you were never an immigrant like that's so and you're white if

01:29:29.720 what does what does my skin color have to do with this privilege i'll know no what does my skin color

01:29:34.840 have to do with dating privilege what do you mean why i i reject that but so why are we bringing

01:29:43.000 don't you think it's a bit don't you think it's a bit racist to bring up skin color in a dating

01:29:46.600 conversation no i've heard you say this before it's not racist at all there's nothing racist being said

01:29:51.640 to highlight someone's skin color there's a privilege being that way instead of a woman

01:29:56.280 coming to america seven months ago from another country that's she's gonna have it and the way

01:30:02.920 hold on okay sure if there was a black girl at this table and and i was attempting to dismiss her

01:30:09.000 points because of the her skin color you don't think that would be racist there's not dismissing

01:30:12.600 a point you were you were saying that i don't have because i'm white i don't have you can't relate

01:30:18.040 you don't know what you're talking about well i'm a human you're not a woman i said woman too

01:30:22.120 you didn't say anything about that well i'll address that after i'll address that after but

01:30:26.120 i do i can't have an opinion opinion on things because i'm a human with a functioning brain

01:30:30.600 and i'm capable of rational thought that's what i can you stop cutting me off can you stop cutting

01:30:35.160 me off please yes brian bro what's you you've got i mean i'm not surprised your issues with men

01:30:42.600 you've got an attitude i've been perfectly polite to you but this is not an attitude if you can't i

01:30:47.080 mean you're interrupting me you're cutting me off yes brian it's being you're being a little

01:30:51.720 condescending conversation we're going back and forth okay so to address the woman thing

01:30:57.080 what i don't see how being a woman immigrant makes it more complicated than if you were a

01:31:03.240 male immigrant it's actually i would assume it's actually harder to be a male immigrant

01:31:08.760 or in single mom than single mom i don't think so you have more responsibility for a kid you have

01:31:15.000 to take care of your kid single dad if you want to do one-to-one then you'd have to think a single

01:31:19.640 dad but you're you're not single dad i'm not an immigrant either where this is a hypothetical scenario

01:31:26.600 so basically uh the way i moved to america and the way like the first months after i moved was

01:31:33.240 happening it was like too crazy so i was in that position where i have no i had a lot of choice but

01:31:39.800 just because i have something that i can do like okay right now i'm that position i can do that i

01:31:46.200 can make this money i can be smarter than everybody else and that's it so i i don't think it's like an

01:31:54.280 issue and yeah no he it started off saying that he's saying that you are not smart with your money

01:32:00.360 because of what you did oh i'm so smart i was so smart about the money i think i agree but i think

01:32:06.520 when you come to any country it doesn't even matter if you have you were born here and now

01:32:11.080 you hit rock bottom if you need to do whatever you had to do to feed your child then it is what

01:32:17.480 it's not like she's out there on on corners doing whatever she needed to do no offense to those people

01:32:22.840 but i'm just saying like it could have been worse you can offend them if you want you can

01:32:27.080 offend the street watchers you have to you have to do some bullshit before you become a great person

01:32:33.160 it's just yeah offend the prosecutors they're watching right now no i don't want to get your

01:32:38.040 big sis get your big sis earlier you were saying that you didn't care how much your partner made

01:32:43.560 right huh you're saying you didn't care how much your partner made i mean it doesn't i don't care

01:32:48.600 about the numbers i care if you provide everybody everybody everything what i need how much he makes

01:32:54.440 if he's trying to provide huh shouldn't it matter how much he makes if he's trying to provide you

01:32:58.360 you said yeah and you said no i want a successful person so then you care about how much he's making

01:33:03.560 numbers it's about mentality you care about wealth is here my it's about mindset those two ideas are

01:33:08.840 contradicting each other right now what exactly but you could be with a guy who makes a million

01:33:12.920 dollars a year who spends 12 like 1.2 mil or a guy who makes 100k a year exactly what i'm that's

01:33:18.520 what i'm talking about how much do you need him to save i don't i don't want numbers why are you so

01:33:25.240 obsessed with you said you said so long as he provides for me be specific what do you mean by

01:33:31.000 provides for you provides for our family so again we gonna work i gonna work too just because i love

01:33:39.880 that i wish i can just like being a mom but right now i can't so uh my perfect picture of like my dream

01:33:49.240 life it's uh having multiple properties like my own and my husband has um have a lot of kids has a

01:33:57.640 babysitter or huge house and not just only one because i probably gonna leave something between

01:34:03.800 america and asia huh what does it take to get all that yeah what do you mean what does it take to

01:34:09.400 achieve that level of status by myself or with my partner oh that's different because like i i know how

01:34:15.320 i achieve by myself right that comes down to the finances right yeah so you're gonna you're gonna

01:34:21.080 want a guy to at least match your level of income right or exceed it correct again i don't i'm not

01:34:27.320 looking for rich men i i don't you just like you just said we can grow together it's it's about

01:34:35.800 mindset so so long run the number and i can see the number doesn't count she'll grow with

01:34:41.640 so if the number doesn't count working towards that making 100k a year he's not going to get

01:34:46.600 you that big house with the babysitter not not right now but she says she's willing to work toward

01:34:52.120 that they can work towards that i i don't want to i don't need to reach guy right now like it i don't

01:35:00.200 care as long as it feels like driving i don't like luxury stuff like i i spend my own point that

01:35:06.120 number does matter though at some point that even if it's not money matters yes thank you obviously

01:35:12.280 oh big i have a kid do you know how much money kids like really and i want to have like five kids

01:35:18.360 and i don't want to i want to have a big family i want to have a helper babysitter where i was more

01:35:23.400 pointing out the fact that a male providing for his woman and not caring how much the male is making

01:35:30.920 is completely contradictive and it goes against each other like when i say i don't or i don't care

01:35:37.560 about their in the long run in the long run like it's i don't have like in the long run my man should

01:35:42.680 have like one million of that because again depends on how much he's spending how we spend it together

01:35:49.240 which kind of lifestyle he has like i have my own lifestyle i don't know like it's why you put the

01:35:56.760 numbers like exactly but in the long run that number is going to matter if you want that big

01:36:01.560 house and that babysitter and everything so again it's about ambition and mindset i get that it's about

01:36:07.640 ambition yes but then like what if he is not able to achieve yeah like at a certain point you can't

01:36:12.840 just have like he's at the top of his job i am as a woman i'm a neck uh and the man in the house is

01:36:19.640 ahead so i i i know how feminine energy and the smart woman works so they just like uh help their

01:36:28.840 husband to achieve some goals so again like i see the man you're successful you know what i what are you

01:36:36.040 doing you're growing we started dating and i can as a woman i can like just help you to

01:36:42.520 grow or in your business because again like when you have a woman who support you who gives you all

01:36:49.320 the love and everything you need because most of the time i'm asking a man what do you want from a

01:36:53.720 woman i'm again i'm so traditional i'm cool clean i love that stuff but they like oh i'm okay with that

01:37:00.360 i don't need that i need support if i'm doing if i'm struggling but i'm like growing i need my woman

01:37:06.600 comes to me and i'm like i'm with you no matter what are you doing right now like we're making one

01:37:11.880 million dollars tomorrow we're gonna lose that lose that but he's still with me this is actually

01:37:17.720 very woman we're gonna be loyal i'm gonna stay with that man and i think it's pretty based what

01:37:23.160 she's saying i don't know i understand i understand i understand him and he i guess okay i understand

01:37:30.600 what she's saying i don't think it's i don't think it's crazy i i understand you're saying he might not

01:37:35.720 be making the money that you want now but if over time you work together you provide him support

01:37:41.240 he works his ass off then you'll have your three houses your nanny and your family because i'm russian

01:37:45.720 i i don't have these level she's eastern european i think i think i can relate a little bit i

01:37:51.800 i happen to have had a relationship with a half ukrainian half russian woman with two kids

01:37:56.280 so i can see the situation now you tell us now you say this i was debating it was like

01:38:02.120 it's in my place should i have bad information about that so yeah complicated situation i know

01:38:08.280 you should have spoke a long time ago yeah what the heck don't touch the mic like that man

01:38:12.920 what are you doing bro come on man okay you're you're this is where the audio is you're like

01:38:19.080 it's so soft and tender it's just enjoyable chat were you hearing him chat were you hearing him

01:38:24.520 eric show me the chat were you hearing him like touching the microphone like that and

01:38:28.200 shit yeah could you hear that the muffling or whatever the fuck

01:38:43.160 not really oh no no no all right guys don't touch the microphones right here that's where the

01:38:49.640 fucking audio is coming through all right it's pretty divisive got a lot of yeses and noes in

01:38:56.120 should we do some breathing exercises i have a meditation i have breathing strips for everybody

01:38:59.560 we could take some deep inhales yo shut the fuck up what are you doing you want to say that to a guy

01:39:06.600 so don't say that to us i'm just a little because the guy will punch you in the head but you know

01:39:10.360 we can't so don't don't test us yo you're screaming on my podcast what are you doing guys just let it

01:39:15.400 out that's all she was letting out her anger just letting it out look i didn't mean there's been a

01:39:19.720 couple issues so far tonight man you're you're touching the microphone you're on your phone

01:39:23.640 i asked just please maybe leave the microphone on the desk okay i think you need a spa day brian

01:39:31.720 no i think it's just nice it's just basic decency yeah no it's just basic decency there's people

01:39:39.080 he doesn't want them to hear all this yeah like i'm trying to run a show guys this is a professional

01:39:43.160 show are going into their ear too like right in their ear headphones all right i'm gonna do some

01:39:50.360 soup chats okay we have uh md here i'm here for more economic from the musician onesie hobbit

01:39:58.040 wondering from the of girls and russian fraudster where they draw the line between taking babysitter

01:40:03.560 money and actual payment for sex if a guy offered you 1g or 5g's for the full night you would you turn it

01:40:10.440 down yeah yeah obviously i didn't i didn't have sex for money yeah none of us say we're prostitutes

01:40:22.520 just because you're on only fans doesn't mean you're selling sex for money that's very very different

01:40:30.760 all right we have aaron martinez thank you for the 100 man seriously best thing you can learn from

01:40:35.240 tonight's podcast is to stay as far away from girls like lexi as possible not even recreational use

01:40:41.800 with attitude like that this kind of girl is not worth the drama and certainly doesn't deserve the

01:40:46.280 attention she would demand your response

01:40:50.360 that's all you got you got anything more to say no that's it we love you lex thank you lucia thank you

01:40:57.720 for the uh 16 million indonesian i don't know what the r is uh can the guests stop talking over the

01:41:04.840 hosts especially the women traditional women would act classy more than trashy and supposedly have

01:41:09.640 more humility to listen it's his podcast calm down it's not like your words bring exemplary

01:41:15.000 value to this conversation or society okay then tell me why brian has all of us here

01:41:21.880 yeah it's gonna be just brian and he's just gonna talk to this is what makes a podcast please suck on

01:41:27.640 that but why are you watching so many people it's just hard to and we talking about like a hot topic so

01:41:34.040 maybe brian should get this is why we're here so people can just listen to you talk all day long

01:41:38.920 brian yeah lucia how about that that's a good idea i didn't really come here to fight with the

01:41:43.960 unfizzed yeah unfizzed okay these podcasts are about honey we put our on the table well just do me

01:41:54.120 i need a joint yeah i'm having a great time there's a certain decorum that should be observed when

01:42:01.720 someone's trying to operate a professional production that's all i'll say i can respect that

01:42:08.920 okay um let me just check if we have any from uh if stream labs is working again

01:42:16.200 we know it gets clicks this all right hold up let's see here

01:42:22.920 okay so you were talking about you know we we touched a little bit about you know you wanting

01:42:34.760 a guy who's ambitious right and you wanting multiple properties and whatnot do you want to get married

01:42:39.400 again huh do you want to get married again oh yeah i want a husband and kids okay what's the ideal age

01:42:45.640 of the guy you'd be looking to marry i would say between 33 and my maximum i guess like 42 42

01:42:58.280 okay and uh by what age would you like to get married again huh by what age would you like to

01:43:03.480 be married ideally like my age what age do you want to be when you get married yeah oh like i can

01:43:10.440 be married tomorrow okay i'm like ready right now and so you boys line up i'm like it's like two

01:43:16.440 nights i'm like two nights i can go okay so you you currently have one kid do you want to have more

01:43:23.720 kids yeah five six you want to i don't care how how i mean there's certain biological realities you're 28

01:43:31.160 so i mean so well how many kids do you want i told you i mean three to six between three and six and

01:43:39.160 so if i am uh me and my husband we like have a successful relationship family we're rich and we

01:43:49.560 have a help from our family again maybe babysitters i can have a lot of kids i'm okay with getting

01:43:55.560 being pregnant i'm okay with their breastfeeding my kids i'm okay with that okay how many so okay five

01:44:04.600 five okay just get to the point does the guy have to be black he has to be black oh sure yeah okay

01:44:11.320 has to okay has to be black take him off the table when i say i date only black guys thank you for

01:44:16.600 reminding me uh only black okay uh so you want five kids um how much of the family income do you

01:44:24.280 personally want to contribute so 50 i don't have these thoughts well to be honest i don't know so you

01:44:31.560 you want to have five kids do you want to be working during all those pregnancies no i'm gonna

01:44:36.360 be uh i'm gonna have passive income if i'm talking about my money but again like your money or our

01:44:43.800 money i hope i will find a person who is there can provide for the whole family without me putting my

01:44:52.840 money in our family but i'm okay putting my money spending my money on my kids or on some like needs in

01:44:59.160 our family don't don't do that look because i'm again i'm so traditional i care about the kids

01:45:05.240 you're making money you but earlier you were saying how you want to also be working and you don't really

01:45:10.840 care when i say working it doesn't mean i go to the office and i don't work nine to five i don't do

01:45:16.600 that i don't do a regular thing i i want a woman to work or you don't want a woman to work where do you

01:45:21.320 guys stand because at this point we can't work because then we can't lock down a guy and then if we

01:45:26.040 don't work we're looking for your money so where is it where does that leave us women well i'll come

01:45:31.160 to that if you can remind me later i'm going to continue with you so the way i see i'm working

01:45:38.520 it i go to my uh social media or like i'm i know that i have like multiple properties it makes me money

01:45:47.080 passive income so i just control sometimes or i have a manager who control that shit and i have social

01:45:52.040 media like everything just already working on me passively so i don't have to work every day and

01:45:59.240 control that shit like i do right now okay so and you want five kids uh you don't want to be working

01:46:07.000 while you are working while you are pregnant with your kids and perhaps raising them in infancy um so

01:46:15.560 ideally you want it sounds like you want a guy to take care of a hundred percent of the

01:46:19.240 household income again i'm uh i'm flexible enough i'm smart enough and i understand if a man my

01:46:30.040 husband who i have a kid with uh has some issues with his business and i has money i 100 put it in

01:46:39.320 my family it's my family it's our family i'm not like that selfish but can you just give me a percentage

01:46:45.400 how much of the family income do you personally want to contribute number zero percent fifty

01:46:50.760 percent uh putting my money in our family yeah how much of the family income do you personally

01:46:56.120 want to contribute zero percent fifty percent okay say 50 you want to you want to be 50 50 but you just

01:47:02.520 i mean that's not that kind of contradicts what you just said because you said while you are pregnant

01:47:07.400 with you said you want to have five more kids and you already have one are you talking about pregnancy

01:47:11.800 are you talking about like between pregnancy or like while i'm breastfeeding well if you're going

01:47:15.960 to have five different states like where you when i'm pregnant i don't want to work at all so i'm like

01:47:21.720 stopping my businesses or like i have something who taking care of my shit yeah you're going to be

01:47:28.440 pregnant pretty much for five year period but she's saying she wants passive income so she doesn't

01:47:33.160 have to physically be working and she still has income coming in i mean but you would have to

01:47:36.680 telling you that past do you know yes but you have to do something to set up that passive income

01:47:41.080 right now i'm working yeah i don't have a family i'm but setting up my all my businesses

01:47:47.640 okay so how much passive income do you anticipate having okay when people make a visual board

01:47:56.120 uh all that stuff just quick answer no i i you're asking me a number i don't know because he's asking

01:48:01.800 what your plan is i don't i know which kind of car i want which kind of lifestyle i know how i want to

01:48:07.240 fill i don't have numbers in my head okay i'm telling you i don't know that's fine then let's talk

01:48:11.080 about that house size huh you said you want multiple properties let's say your primary residence how

01:48:16.280 big do you want your house to be uh i want to land like 20 acres 20 acres in la or tennessee or atlanta

01:48:24.280 texas okay so 20 acres i mean maybe that's landscaping uh square foot of the actual house

01:48:31.080 i don't know okay how many bedrooms what do you like in the house in your primary residence depends

01:48:36.680 on that time like you say you want six kids right so maybe a master bedroom and then you want

01:48:42.600 six seven seven seven bedrooms how many baths god damn the same seven okay that's fine seven

01:48:49.560 you're manifesting you better know what you want i know which kind of house i want it's just okay

01:48:54.360 and not in my mind right now do you do too many questions like in yeah do you currently live in

01:48:59.800 california yeah do you want to stay in california no okay so you'd be open having this house somewhere

01:49:04.920 outside of california yeah okay do you know specific place orlando orlando oh yeah bali mexico like the

01:49:12.440 i have multiple properties and again like i said i want to live between uh america and asia probably

01:49:19.960 like thailand or bali i i'm just confused you said previously that you don't really care about having

01:49:24.680 a luxury lifestyle but having multiple properties in major cities when i say luxury lifestyle it's like

01:49:30.440 having their like brands or yards i don't know like boats well there is something luxurious spending

01:49:37.320 money like traveling i mean i love travel i but okay so perhaps the decor might not look luxurious

01:49:44.120 but it is a luxurious lifestyle to have multiple properties if you have a huge land it doesn't

01:49:49.400 should be luxury and i'm into sustainable life and i you want like a farm somehow yeah i will definitely

01:49:57.640 have a farm garden um obviously i'm not gonna do that everything by myself i'm gonna okay it's still

01:50:03.880 luxurious okay so and yeah it's like if you're talking about having just the land in california

01:50:10.520 it's already sounds luxury but when i say luxury it's like i'm talking about like you want cars too

01:50:15.240 i assume right how many cars would you like to have at your primary residence um i have i have to have my

01:50:20.840 own car family car and i don't care how many cars have my husband okay and are you okay if they're

01:50:26.840 regular cars do they would you like a nice mid-tier luxury car i don't know what's the luxury car for you

01:50:32.600 my dream car bmw toyota and their 50 000 car yeah you'd like a thank you multiple 50 000 at least

01:50:41.640 two 50 000 car oh family car maybe it's gonna be like big big and we have like five kids probably

01:50:48.840 gonna be two cars i don't know okay um do you want to be vacationing regularly um i don't know you said

01:50:56.200 traveling i mean i i would like to go on vacation with my husband but i am more so when i go to

01:51:03.640 another country it's not like i stay in a hotel so i rather to go to another country for three months

01:51:09.800 or get apartment for three months and live in like a local so i don't call it vacation so like vacation go

01:51:17.560 go to hawaii go to you know vacation go to europe whatever maybe yeah but again like i i i'm more

01:51:25.320 like exploring i don't stay in a hotel i again i rather to go not in vacation which you talk in like

01:51:32.040 two weeks i will go and maybe with my kids for like two months and go to different areas yeah i loved

01:51:39.080 i definitely love travel okay so and that includes international travel and you said yeah you want to

01:51:45.080 have multiple properties so you'd be going between these multiple properties okay um so keeping all

01:51:51.080 this in mind and i know you didn't really quite want to give a number previously keeping all of

01:51:57.000 what you just said in mind what would your husband's income need to be to facilitate that

01:52:02.920 lifestyle i will not ask that question because i don't know i'm not american i even don't know how

01:52:07.720 much certain things currently currently what would you have to make for that to happen currently what

01:52:13.080 would she doesn't care she believes but for that to happen right now okay why i should like oh i

01:52:17.960 have to do like my husband like doing these jobs i don't care which kind of job okay it doesn't matter

01:52:23.080 what his job is how about this what percentage of men make enough to facilitate the lifestyle oh it's

01:52:28.680 like really low and we're talking about like black guys it's like so less than less than one percent

01:52:35.000 we should do the let's do the calculator we should do the calculator on this um how are you gonna do so my my

01:52:42.520 question to you is first off i'm i'm what you've just described you're looking at a less than one

01:52:47.880 percent guy you're looking at i'm not looking for a manifest that's so different i'm sitting here

01:52:54.760 and i build a image of life and their family which i want so it's you just not in this you just not

01:53:05.240 spiritual so you will not understand me you like super um i i don't say closed mind i'll actually

01:53:12.840 say i think i think brian is relatively spiritual he has some like eckhart tolle books back there

01:53:18.280 i'm but maybe not enough are you are you trying to be realistic like he's so

01:53:24.680 i'm a little bit different i'm wild okay i'm wild i'm crazy you're gonna consider myself as a wild

01:53:31.240 woman because everybody keep even my friends keep telling me like oh you want this man and you

01:53:37.400 deserve that you're okay with that but he also has uh you you also want a black man and i'm like yes

01:53:43.800 and i will get that 100 you're not going to get him okay you are you are delusional if you think

01:53:49.880 you uh swear god i promise i will come to you in a few years when i have a kids and a husband and

01:53:55.880 and i will call you and i will send you a picture because i want to come listen there is no way so

01:54:02.520 i'm struggling for like i don't say all my life but my life is not easy and the last seven years of

01:54:09.400 my life the craziest one after i got pregnant like they're crazy like i'm in stress almost every time

01:54:17.080 last last five years i'm okay right doesn't buy happiness yeah so and uh i don't believe that i

01:54:24.600 deserve like their bare minimum i'm not i know that i will meet a person who i deserve because i

01:54:31.640 like right now i know they're dating in l.a it sucks and i had this mindset so i changed my mindset

01:54:38.040 like oh i will get a really nice guy in l.a and it has to manifest and think about that concentrating

01:54:44.040 that and i started dating a guy who's like awesome they're like oh my god i just like i have so many

01:54:49.240 options because oh these guys are nice he's like lore he's a smart he's like super polite these guys

01:54:54.840 he's like fashion designer but still like very spiritual and very like super successful not like

01:55:00.680 too artistic like crazy and i'm like ah i'm changing my mindset so i'm getting these like successful guys

01:55:08.360 they're not rich they're regular guys but they getting already their own shit they can afford living

01:55:13.560 in the two bedrooms just because they want and all that stuff so it's like you're not dating a guy

01:55:19.400 who's like renting a room in l.a i'm i'm not dating like these okay guys so and i i i already saw i

01:55:27.000 already see that i was like i can potentially build a fucking empire with these guys just because he's

01:55:32.760 smart he's successful i'm the same and we we can build together like i want to have the flag of my

01:55:39.160 family i want to have like specific like stuff or and like you know just build an empire not just

01:55:47.240 like a regular family i'm gonna build empire okay i'm i'm not saying this to be mean but

01:55:52.600 you're delusional i'm not saying that to insult you but you're delusional okay i don't care

01:55:58.040 i'm because i'm super excited because like i would no one believe me my mom doesn't believe me

01:56:03.800 no all my friends they like i would be like high like the expectation is too high i would love for

01:56:10.280 you to look if you prove me wrong that's great for you i'm not gonna prove you i don't care i just

01:56:14.840 gonna like but that would be great for you however you're you're looking for a less than one percent

01:56:20.440 man and you yes you are she's a one percent female no she's not you're not you're not you're not

01:56:28.040 value you're not you don't know me you don't know what i put on the table in relationships the

01:56:32.520 most the most a single uh you're a single mother you are not so you are not i'm not saying this to

01:56:38.120 be mean but you are not are you mean let me finish okay you are not in the one percent of desirable

01:56:44.520 partners out there you're just not okay you might be a fantastic person okay you might be a fantastic

01:56:50.120 person the guys who's like oh i would love to care about your kid because i want to have a kid

01:56:55.640 uh i see you as a great mom and it's not even the guys who i'm dating it's like a bunch of people

01:57:00.440 in my dms they they feel my energy they see me on the social media as a like really authentic

01:57:07.000 person they like always get make that's great like how great mom i am and yeah i'm i'm okay with that

01:57:16.360 with your opinion isn't your opinion that's i mean that's wonderful that you're authentic i think

01:57:20.680 authenticity is a great trait to have however i just based off of all the things you've provided

01:57:27.720 you're looking for a less than one percent man and it's possible but it's not probable

01:57:34.440 so what or do you want me to low my standards or what what what you're like well i if you want to

01:57:43.800 find i'd rather to be alone you'd rather then agree with their bare minimum period there it is

01:57:50.440 that's why i'm so but that's why i feel like i would disagree with you because if you find somebody

01:57:56.360 who's like that's your freaking real love and you have that connection and this is all and he's not

01:58:01.400 going to be able to give you exactly that or what if he can't even have kids okay whatever you can

01:58:06.520 no kids is like super like okay but then what if okay so then again like i can't has the money

01:58:13.000 and then what if money will come money will come what if he has the money and he's amazing the best

01:58:19.080 person ever and he's black but he can't have children um we just not we just not go in a

01:58:26.440 point where i figure out that he's a great person like if a person tell me if a person tell me like

01:58:32.280 i can't have a kids and it's like 100 like and i don't want a kids we just not go on a second date

01:58:38.920 period so it's a non-negotiable kids not okay it's like i don't i don't see myself having a

01:58:45.960 one kid i want to have a lot of kids it's just my value let's um here let me do some super chats

01:58:50.600 and then we're going to pull up the delusional calculator so we can get an actual number so we

01:58:55.320 can get an actual number on this um actually really quick here uh we're going to go around

01:58:59.800 the table stifler ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten um

01:59:04.680 um lexi you first rate our looks your rate your i'm a ten with a hint of narcissism i'm a ten with

01:59:14.600 a hint of narcissism an eight or seven you're a ten of course okay i have a ten too self-love baby

01:59:22.920 into the mics guys i would say ten um eight always room for improvement gentlemen for

01:59:33.000 bro you're more than a four shut up shut up dude your phone show us the double bye with my clothes

01:59:37.400 off if i'm about to compete i'm like an eight only for my body okay what about you ten thank you

01:59:50.200 so ten um i think well i think uh with the male population probably

01:59:58.200 i would personally rank myself probably between a six or seven but my girlfriend tells me i'm a

02:00:04.280 ten so that's all that matters right i cannot adorable okay what about you i'll go with a

02:00:15.080 solid six okay yeah down with it yeah honestly the lower the better because life is so good that you

02:00:21.800 know if i if i can get away with the life that i have being a six i think it's way cooler than what

02:00:27.080 what about you brian i give myself six six all right there's no tens at this table i'm just gonna

02:00:33.400 say there's definitely tens at the table don't play you guys have a man i'm not right let me let me

02:00:40.200 ask you this honey what is what is a 10 what is a 10 out of 10 relationship partner beyond physical

02:00:46.040 what does that look like to you oh 10 out of 10 yeah this is all perspective i mean i mean of course it

02:00:51.640 is of course i'm asking brian what what checks every box like i i mean i mean physically emotionally

02:00:58.600 mentally professionally looks no i mean i mean as a partner what do you look for sure uh well i would

02:01:05.000 say first off uh no forehead tattoo just kidding i'm kidding um all right can i ask what that's about

02:01:16.200 yeah is that like from an anime what is the forehead tattoo no it's a symbol of feminine masculine

02:01:20.840 energy it's the moon and the sun from what culture from what culture it's just a symbol i just found

02:01:26.520 it on pinterest you just found it they just it's a pinterest tattoo that's good i i have it's it's

02:01:33.000 actually the moon uh rising women yeah it says rising women i have that tattoo too it's like your

02:01:37.960 feminine masculine okay um so yeah as far as what i'm looking for in a girl that would be like a

02:01:43.640 perfect 10 personality wise first off i don't think anyone's a 10 in any regard but uh peace if she

02:01:50.600 can bring me peace that's a big one loyalty fidelity low body count what's your why why is

02:01:57.400 a low body count important i mean does the vagina feel different yeah wait wait it's important to me

02:02:04.280 too yeah uh just basically don't i mean there's a ton of reasons don't want the town bicycle

02:02:10.520 don't want a higher likelihood of getting an std there's a higher likelihood of infidelity

02:02:15.080 higher likelihood of divorce higher likelihood of reporting relationship to satisfaction the as

02:02:20.200 the as it as your number of premarital sexual partners increases so do so to do all these uh

02:02:28.040 things i just listed also it's just gross like a woman who with a high body count that's a pro that's

02:02:33.320 a proxy for promiscuity so to me i don't want to even date a girl who's sleeping with another guy

02:02:39.480 like i i want a girl to come properly single if she's going to date me so the thought of going

02:02:43.720 on a date with a girl kissing a girl hooking up with a girl and she's another dude to me that's

02:02:48.200 disgusting so body count is a proxy for promise are you are you a serial monogamist

02:02:54.280 like like a hookup culture just not something you're interested in engaging in

02:02:57.480 i'm not interested in hookup hookup culture i have no interest in one night stands if i sleep with

02:03:01.240 a girl i want there to be a continuity that's really cute brian yeah that's sweet and cute we don't need a

02:03:06.920 lot of men like you brian i would 100 agree with your values on that thank you man yeah i i if i

02:03:13.640 sleep with a girl i want to continue seeing her i would never sleep with a girl with the intention

02:03:17.240 of ever sleeping with her yeah absolutely just one time brian you won't date me listen i i understand

02:03:23.080 you i have like we go way back seven years ago that's also why i was asking earlier the tension

02:03:29.000 the passion's there that's why i was also asking earlier if like replying to only fans would be like

02:03:33.640 cheating because there's emotional cheating too uh well you know the thing with only fans is and i

02:03:40.600 kind of get dragged for this i ideally i wouldn't date a girl who has only oh no and i would not yeah

02:03:47.000 i've i've never dated a girl who has only fans however i would i would date a girl who did solo

02:03:53.000 content i've it's never happened well obviously if i put two two girls together i'd prefer to

02:03:59.960 date the girl without the only fans what what's the difference between solo content and only

02:04:04.520 fans like well well like a girl on only fans could like be doing tradition like porn like

02:04:09.400 fucking other dudes oh no so if she's other dudes on camera like no way so if she's like djing it

02:04:16.360 by herself you're totally cool with that on only fans oh there would i what about girl and girl only

02:04:23.560 girl and girl content that's a good one i like that uh yeah i suppose that would be okay it's not

02:04:31.960 ideal though okay especially but without we can make things work brian personal preference i would

02:04:38.120 not want to date someone the amount of people i fucked i don't know about it propose to me lexi

02:04:43.160 you gotta get over the fucking are you are you gonna propose to me lexi i like this ring if from

02:04:49.400 my perspective if another man is paying ten or twenty dollars amazon for seven bucks if another man's

02:04:55.560 paying ten or twenty dollars to watch a girl's you know doing her thing um and i have to pay like

02:05:02.200 way more than that just to even get to that level like i think that's not very cool i'm not being a

02:05:08.280 provider for a chick with only fans okay but being your provider for like a regular girl who like

02:05:16.200 don't get more i understand i i had this go back to what i said i have to because you guys put us in

02:05:21.480 a hard spot you put men put us in a hard spot you want a woman that doesn't work but then

02:05:27.320 you don't want to oh we moved on we moved on from that no we haven't well there was like a million

02:05:32.120 questions oh i do too much so i can't you know that there's a there's a thing there that we're in

02:05:36.120 between now it's either you want a woman that doesn't work or you want a woman that works

02:05:41.480 that has maybe less time so where the hell do we survive at

02:05:48.120 i'm not really following the question so you want women

02:05:52.920 a girl basically men don't want a woman usually that works too much that's not available when they

02:05:58.200 want that has a fucking career and passionate job a blah blah because they're always busy and they're

02:06:02.600 making money and they're independent all these things and then suddenly you don't want a broke

02:06:07.240 bitch it's just like you i want a man that's going to pay for me and support me and blah blah blah so

02:06:12.040 it's like well what do you want i think you can find guys that are would be happy to have a 50 50 and

02:06:16.760 i think you are happy to find guys that uh would be willing to be the sole breadwinners and be willing

02:06:24.600 to be the traditional provider type i think there's guys that are happy to be 50 50 and there's guys that

02:06:31.160 are cool being the provider agree it's just about finding the guy she she kind of repulsed or i don't

02:06:38.120 know the term uh you kind of recoiled when i said 50 50 you find that disgusting i guess no no no no

02:06:44.360 i don't okay i don't know you don't you don't get pregnant you don't breastfeeding it's it shouldn't

02:06:50.600 be 50 50. okay i'm as the man even the man is a problem makes them very very very insecure some men

02:06:56.520 sure most yes yeah i mean but it is the case though that i think women are unsatisfied in

02:07:03.960 those relationships too well the man feels like they can't provide or give anything to the woman

02:07:08.360 so they feel like oh well what does she want what does she need me for i mean what can i give her

02:07:12.680 that she can't give herself and then they start being insecure then they start going to the bottom

02:07:16.040 of the barrel women they just don't do shit or whatever you want to call that and then they go and

02:07:21.000 usually fuck around with those girls you said you date a lot of narcissists right yeah which they

02:07:25.720 do that but those were the women uh the men that are already insecure if you find a man that's

02:07:30.600 not that was a pretty big leap of logic that wouldn't happen then yeah he's gonna be proud of

02:07:35.480 you for making that money and making that bread is really fucked because yeah all of the guys i've

02:07:39.640 dated are very insecure yeah what do you what do you want like do you want a husband do you want a

02:07:44.840 family yeah i want a husband what do you like what's your one percent man build lifestyle i want

02:07:52.920 a husband that can match my lifestyle well you said you're the number one only fans earner so he's

02:07:59.400 making like you're making like you're making what like half a million a month for me because

02:08:03.960 of the insecurity it comes with how you must be making more than half a million a month right now

02:08:08.760 no no you're making six figures the most money no oh most subscribed yeah most subscribed person

02:08:14.280 but that doesn't mean i'm making the most money got it okay so what's his what's his income

02:08:25.240 there's not a lot of men that make this much money no what is it i would say over two hundred

02:08:31.080 thousand okay a month all right and then you're you're what like five eleven five ten five seven you're

02:08:38.120 five seven okay you look taller for some reason okay i thought you're taller too than that no yeah

02:08:44.040 it's very slim to none men but i have dated the opposite and i've had zero absolutely zero luck with

02:08:50.680 them and you need a specific ethnicity no no not even like american what they are where they're from

02:08:58.600 no you don't care if they're from brazil asia i don't care okay will you move for them yes

02:09:05.880 yes okay all right so what what's your ideal lifestyle um i'd like my kids i want a couple

02:09:15.640 kids i want them to be homeschooled i want to be able to travel and have one or two houses maybe

02:09:21.640 okay maybe a birkin or two i don't really give a fuck hell yeah i want a birkin yeah no that's it i mean

02:09:28.120 i want to be comfortable okay so you want a guy i have i can pay for that myself but i'd like the

02:09:35.560 guy to match that yes okay for him to be taller than me okay so what do you think is preventing

02:09:40.600 you from getting that the guy is my my type that i go for but that that actually seems actually a

02:09:47.400 lot less specific than i'm sorry i forget your name but that's actually what soul okay so into the

02:09:54.360 mics guys just well so you want a guy that's making like roughly two at least 200k a year

02:09:59.080 you want a couple properties oh okay that's where it came in oh yeah you want the guy who

02:10:04.760 makes 200k a month i said they need to match my lifestyle or more yeah and so you're making 200k

02:10:09.400 a month around about okay that's what i said okay okay and i said yeah it's a lot it's a lot

02:10:16.360 are you sure you don't want to date an only fans girl now it's not a lot of people no but she

02:10:20.360 needs a guy to match her her level of income yeah i'm not making that i'm not making that much

02:10:25.720 insecure guys and i'm not saying that i have guys around me all the time that i have a lot of guy

02:10:29.960 friends like i don't feel like i do anything to make them insecure if anything i'm very supportive

02:10:34.520 and all these things right and i can help i help them but it makes them feel very small and it makes

02:10:40.200 them feel demasculated domestic whatever the hell the word is it just it doesn't it doesn't work out

02:10:45.000 for me i'd date a girl who makes more than me i wouldn't wouldn't really bother me you're very

02:10:49.480 secure with yourself but there's really not a lot of men that are like that at all there really

02:10:52.920 aren't and so that that has been my problem and i did date a guy that made good money a little like

02:10:59.320 less than me but he made good money but his lifestyle was very very um he didn't we didn't

02:11:04.280 want the same things so he didn't like to travel that much he didn't want to own other properties

02:11:09.000 you know i was just like okay well i don't see myself with you when they start to get insecure

02:11:13.160 what does that what does that look like um they put you down welcome to therapy putting you down

02:11:20.760 they try to control you too they try to control you maybe talking to the other girls or they it's

02:11:25.320 very controlling with what you're wearing who you're hanging out with try to make your your

02:11:31.240 success like try to make you lower than them it's very much like how can i make them lower than i am

02:11:37.240 because i feel low wait so you like did you have an issue where for example a guy maybe you were

02:11:43.400 dating him for a couple months and he for example didn't want you going to the club or to a party or

02:11:48.440 bar because you mentioned like controlling what you wear controlling what you do is that kind of what

02:11:52.680 you mean i kind of don't really want to do that so that's really not a problem what do you what you

02:11:57.560 can sacrifice for relationship because i had i remember i made a list where like oh this is a guy like

02:12:04.280 less than one percent and i know like i can sacrifice let's do it i will not sacrifice my

02:12:08.440 career that my passion that i'm driven like that's definitely i'm not going to do that and i know in

02:12:14.280 my industry i have a certain time frame where i have you know it's about time you give it up type

02:12:18.280 of thing i'm very aware of that and so i'm willing to kind of put things on the back burner a little

02:12:24.520 bit and do other things when i want to settle down have kids and do all that yeah sure okay you do want

02:12:30.360 kids though right you want kids you want to get married okay and uh so eric i want to pull it back

02:12:37.800 up for her can we do the little calculator okay so i'm we're going to have you fill this in um eric

02:12:43.800 scroll down just a tad um so what's the ideal age of let's just make this snappy okay snap lap 33 or 42

02:12:52.200 between 33 and 42 exclude someone who's already married obviously yes okay uh race put it at

02:13:00.280 that's black minimum height how tall does he have to be i'm five two so i don't care like

02:13:06.600 everything like well taller than me so you can put like four you can put like five four i don't

02:13:16.520 care five four okay five four uh exclude obese do you want to exclude obese yes uh minimum income

02:13:25.160 you're gonna have to max that because of what she wants in a month or like that's a year you just

02:13:29.960 have to max it you're gonna have to max for what she wants um okay go ahead find out um wow okay zero

02:13:36.360 i don't know if this makes sense okay the limit does not exist yeah i don't care there's no black

02:13:45.880 man like but do you see you see what i mean like why why i said you're delusional i think that website's

02:13:51.320 not real like bullshit program and you're trying to prove that i am wrong in my thoughts it's the

02:13:57.480 census bureau huh that's the well never mind but i don't care do you see this cat bag right here

02:14:05.320 this this is uh in your future i think cat cat food she's gonna be a cat mom yes wow

02:14:14.920 is that a subtle sponsorship that was incredible that was incredible wait oh one thing going back to uh

02:14:21.960 stiflers uh ask yourself to rate everyone on a scale of one to ten um uh would would you guys

02:14:29.480 hide this eric you guys down to revise your answer yeah i have some makeup remover

02:14:38.760 i wanted to come completely without makeup but i didn't know how it looks i'm i don't wear makeup at

02:14:45.960 all in your real life that's hilarious dermatologist recommended so does anybody want to revise their

02:14:52.840 answer no i literally look better with that all right um okay eric pull it back up we're going to

02:14:59.560 do lexi's uh delusional calculator are you about to wrap i thought you were okay uh can you give him your

02:15:10.520 answers um you know age i mean up to like 42 i think that's the age we can go lower than 33 if we'd like

02:15:22.280 yeah like that's fine about 28 28 thank you thank you to what to 42

02:15:29.560 um any color of shade honey height um minimum height six foot okay like i said i'm tall

02:15:38.360 exclude obese minimum income oh into the mic into the mic is that a year in a year

02:15:45.480 that's too low 500 500k is too low it's laughable you might as well keep that

02:15:50.840 find out fuck around and find out 0.011 percent of men there's hope i need that 0.11 to slide through

02:15:59.240 my dm oh boy slander only fans dick size is that in there like not enough questions

02:16:10.120 long on this planet you're right honey i don't yeah i agree well and and that's just off of those

02:16:16.840 soul questions i'm sure all of you have other you know disqualifying things you know personality is

02:16:22.920 he physically attractive that's not even the component of it it's a tough one you know so

02:16:27.400 you gotta be there and then brian my husband's just not a non-percent because he's still not making that

02:16:33.960 money right now but he will so oh god he's gonna pop up girl though if she could stand behind her

02:16:41.880 man and like listen we're gonna go we're gonna come up together that's fucking cool just enjoy the

02:16:47.320 cat food that is what i have to say i'm enjoying my life and i know that's great god so but you said

02:16:53.960 manifest it like you you can't let me ask you a question do you think you can manifest anything

02:16:58.680 everything yes so if i have terminal cancer i'm terminal i believe you can heal the everything

02:17:08.360 a hundred percent yes if i if my arm gets chopped off can i heal my arm is that

02:17:13.080 bullshit oh but it's like you cut your arm like you you can't put it together i thought you could

02:17:17.320 manifest anything no that's the robot arm it's like we're talking about the healing but you can

02:17:23.160 you can't put the arm back it's just yeah it's just something we can't talk about that because

02:17:29.560 we're gonna be here until tomorrow because there's so much you can talk about everybody's gonna have

02:17:33.320 i'm 100 sure about my mentality and mindset so you will you can heal any disease they say you can

02:17:40.200 still feel it you can you can heal any disease yes by yourself by manifesting by mentality by your mind

02:17:47.480 so somebody who has cancer whatever is that yeah you can have you heard of your teeth yes have you

02:17:54.120 heard of the brain eating amoeba it's called nigleria flowery i think the if you if you get it the death

02:18:01.000 rate is like 97 99 can you heal that okay we're talking you're gonna ask no but it's a disease yeah i

02:18:08.760 know but you're gonna continue asking like oh what is about that disease what about i said my point

02:18:13.720 100 sure that you can heal any disease but what about this soul listen i didn't finish okay if the

02:18:20.920 soul comes to this planet to die on a second day it's gonna die it's the same like a miss miscarriage

02:18:28.680 when you lose a kid or when you miscarry so if this soul this kid like this baby inside didn't has

02:18:38.520 like any chance to survive because it's not it's supposed to be like that this soul came on that

02:18:44.760 planet i'm too spiritual i told you this year they just came to this planet for for that purpose

02:18:52.360 um sorry i was just typing you're messing up my podcast i mean your podcast and people can't

02:18:57.640 hear correctly oops i'm so rude um okay so have you heard of joe dispensa sounds familiar what you

02:19:07.880 should you should read the whole books please and then we will talk okay okay so have you heard of

02:19:14.360 prions i don't know what is that prions i don't know what it's these i think it's uh i feel like we're

02:19:19.880 going too far on this come on hold on prions so it's basically proteins that are that have

02:19:26.440 misfolded and it's basically like melts your brain do you think you can manifest healing if you have

02:19:32.040 like prions how do you know about that it's like there's a lot of scary out there guys don't don't

02:19:36.840 do not google hold on okay do not google prions if you want to sleep tonight uh i i started in

02:19:43.400 medical college i can go where i will sleep so can you manifest the end of prions listen i have

02:19:48.600 the question like you born with that and then you die the next day or like what uh well it depends

02:19:55.000 but pretty much once it starts replicating or i don't know if that's the exact correct terminology

02:19:59.480 but it's like you're dead manifest so you're pretty much dead if you have prions yeah but the babies

02:20:05.480 can manifest we're talking about babies like the babies can just like a baby comes i'm not talking

02:20:11.080 about babies i'm talking about humans just any human who gets a prion so this disease you you just

02:20:16.600 got it like infection or you was born with that or what um i think my understanding it you can get it

02:20:23.080 it's i don't know if you've heard mad cow disease but you can get it through consuming it uh perhaps

02:20:28.360 there's blood-borne ways you can get it um but basically like if you get it you die basically you

02:20:35.560 you can't manifest so you can definitely people that have brain tumors that definitely have no body

02:20:40.600 nope can't heal that my point it's still the same what's your point you can heal any disease if

02:20:48.040 you're conscious enough through your mind that's it don't even eat food and they survive she mentioned

02:20:54.120 joe dispenser please read his books and like his podcast wherever he has like meditation everything

02:20:59.480 what about what about jesus raising the dead can anything be done fox manifestation

02:21:04.040 he manifested himself to be alive again so anything's possible is that you let me is that

02:21:08.840 where you are are you jesus

02:21:12.600 all right let me do a couple super chats here

02:21:17.320 do you believe in jesus i love jesus yeah you believe in jesus i love him yeah

02:21:21.800 i know him and i don't really believe in believing i believe in knowing have you seen

02:21:26.440 the secret secret on youtube no you should google it the secret secret that's

02:21:31.080 secret secret this is that like the sequel to the secret secret no it's where they get all the

02:21:36.680 terms like christos i think okay here i got to do some super chats md it's all body oriented though

02:21:42.520 here lexi can you read this for us i'm here for more economic oh we read that before musician onesie

02:21:49.400 hobbit wondering did we read that yeah oh my bad economic i remember the hobbit uh

02:21:54.600 and this one yeah okay is it i think we haven't read this one go ahead it's hilarious that the

02:22:02.040 girl getting paid millions to do nothing that's me with no credentials what's the kind of what's

02:22:06.120 credentials really mean though thinks that white men are the most privileged class have some

02:22:10.360 awareness are you saying that i'm the most privileged sounds like he's jealous of you to be

02:22:14.200 honest i don't think so but levi thank you for the uh hundred dollar soup chat sorry that it took

02:22:19.320 us a while to get to it appreciate you saying jeremy korea uh go ahead lexi you've got a pleasant

02:22:23.800 speaking voice the whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of

02:22:27.880 themselves and wise people are just so full of doubt bertrand russell mathematician logician philosopher

02:22:34.760 jeremy korea thank you man appreciate it go ahead lexi just say you want a rich dude to take care of

02:22:40.360 five kids and have multiple properties nothing wrong with wanting that a dude making that kind

02:22:44.520 of money age 33 to 42 is in his prime and probably would not choose a 28 year old single mother

02:22:49.320 realistically what is your plan to get a guy like that yeah you have to ask yourself

02:22:53.960 what does the guy that you want what does he want what do you mean well you can

02:23:02.280 as a girl you can think well i want this this this all these traits in the partner but you have

02:23:06.200 to think well the guy that i want what does he want and if it's not you you're from the relationship

02:23:11.400 from me from a girl does he want you with a child 28 yes oh thank you lexi oh yeah well thank you thank

02:23:19.320 you i i just know what i put in the table that's it she's conceded that she's delusional she she's

02:23:28.040 optimistically delusional i'm delusional i'm wild i'm i don't think i think we're beating a dead

02:23:33.480 horse here you're gonna go back to my point again and again and i will tell you again and again the

02:23:38.040 same shit don't be the dead horse brian yo vd cars um sorry i know this came this was a uh trigger for

02:23:45.960 tts just the tts is still not working not sure what's going on uh so sorry about that but thank

02:23:51.480 you man for your patience all right and then we have matt t thank you for the 100 man uh hey brian

02:23:56.760 can you ask the ladies what they would tell a man who says he'd go on a date with them if she

02:24:00.680 gives him a hundred dollars to pay for a babysitter if being able to pull that off

02:24:05.000 isn't a sign of privilege i don't know what is oh wait oh stream labs is working again

02:24:12.200 is stream labs working again hello that comment's crazy i didn't read it okay i'll pull that one up

02:24:17.000 again let me wait so let me i'll pull that one up again um so would you guys let's say you you met

02:24:23.400 matched with a guy and um he had uh a kid he had a son single father and he asked you you know you

02:24:31.560 guys were trying to plan plan the date and he asked you hey could you pay me a hundred dollars

02:24:36.760 uh for a babysitter so i can go on a date with you yeah what would your answer be let's start with you

02:24:40.680 lexi oh you can't even take me out to dinner at that point like what's not gonna happen you what

02:24:46.040 do you mean into the mic would you pay the guy a hundred dollars if i really liked him yeah

02:24:51.880 you'd you'd pay a hundred dollars for the babysitter okay that's fine i don't pay she

02:24:58.200 doesn't pay okay no the man that i'm gonna end up with doesn't need the hundred dollars for the

02:25:03.400 babysitter okay that would never happen to me but hypothetically speaking i would say yes because if

02:25:08.520 he's gonna have a little date or something at the house or he comes over my house and we have a little

02:25:13.080 date if he can't afford a date outside and he is a genuine good guy and he just is in a shithole

02:25:19.720 position and has a child that he has to bring all that baggage i'll do it i mean we can be friends

02:25:26.040 it doesn't mean that you're gonna be something you're just there for the person i just don't

02:25:29.000 i just don't think that any any man that has a potential husband just like her you know it's a

02:25:34.200 fucking tinder date so who knows if it's gonna be your husband or your best friend or are you gonna

02:25:38.040 hate him okay can i can i say something i just don't think that any dude that has a kid should be

02:25:43.960 prioritizing going on dates and if they have a kid that they can't even pay for you know you

02:25:48.680 know like their number one priority should be getting enough money to take care of their kid

02:25:52.440 before they're gonna get a good wife out of her cook clean sex blah blah blah i mean if the guy

02:25:57.480 can't pay what the hell else are we gonna get from the guy i mean that's just a bare minimum i mean

02:26:02.440 i agree with you i personally i know i couldn't date somebody with a kid so i wouldn't even go there

02:26:07.240 but i wouldn't also expect somebody to do that if i had a kid so um yeah i just i mean i kind of

02:26:14.280 it just wouldn't be a situation i'd be in i also was never on on any apps on dating apps i would

02:26:19.000 never want to do that stuff yeah all right i will say hey i want to take you on a date here's

02:26:22.680 a hundred dollars for your babysitter that's the ultimate goal there yeah um yo socal surfer 805 that

02:26:29.880 it did pop up on the screen but for some reason i don't know i'm not able to trigger it again

02:26:34.680 so uh i'll just read it question for the ladies what do you think about men who make decent money

02:26:39.560 130 to 200k but love to get high on edibles and smash hot hot hookers all day dateable must he lie

02:26:45.960 he wants to make more money eventually but overall just chill surf eat be honest please what is this

02:26:50.840 question it's kind of ridiculous but how about just a thumbs up or thumbs down on that one sounded

02:26:55.720 almost like a guy i dated so parents had money ate edibles all day liked to play a lot of video

02:27:02.040 games basically he was like a 24 year old retired dude already didn't smash napa baby girls though

02:27:08.360 so that's a little different no i'm speaking for all of us okay uh good times all right so we have

02:27:18.520 two miss super chats from last week that i need to get to uh this is from cheeks he he asks

02:27:25.400 marriageable man or instagram so would you get rid of your instagram or social media

02:27:32.680 for a marriageable man lexi would you give up your career for a man is the question well you

02:27:39.800 because i'm a singer so i need my instagram yes no okay that's fine what about you no into the

02:27:45.960 mic you gotta speak into the mic no same thing no no you're asking me to give up my career why would

02:27:53.480 like absolutely not whether it's my career or not um i've done that before and he was a narcissistic

02:27:59.000 asshole and i had to divorce him so i would definitely say no good times um yeah i have

02:28:05.320 to agree no like i just for something like that i don't want to there's little things that i would

02:28:11.720 change to be with somebody and yeah like it's just controlling and that just not great even yeah it's

02:28:17.400 not fucking healthy so it's like what if he was willing to he was very wealthy and he was prepared to

02:28:23.640 totally provide for you under those circumstances we do this because we don't have social media just

02:28:29.160 because money money doesn't make social media doesn't make you just i'm helping people through

02:28:33.880 my social media to connect with their body to heal their body so it's like it's not just about money

02:28:40.840 i'm really i see one of my purpose like to helping people with the certain things i wasn't i mean i'm

02:28:46.200 still movement coaches and i don't just don't work right now but i'm helping people with the posture so

02:28:52.120 i use my social media just like yeah get this knowledge and like dude like it doesn't make

02:28:58.360 any principle it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship like why are you so insecure that

02:29:02.280 you're making me yeah like i wouldn't want to change that person that person shouldn't change me

02:29:06.680 and regardless if they can pay for stuff that means nothing to me so can i have you just tilt your

02:29:11.160 microphone up just a tad thank you perfect yeah um well just on your point really quick so

02:29:18.280 i i would say that

02:29:25.720 you you said that you want to have six kids so perhaps for example for you your husband is looking

02:29:30.200 to you to stay home and take care of the six children that you're gonna have and you won't

02:29:35.720 have time what is stay home mom for you like six kids that's a lot you can still work from home though

02:29:42.200 you still you still can work you still can travel you still can do so many things and the certain

02:29:47.400 poor and kids are need a lot of attention but i can imagine like my daughter right now four and i

02:29:54.920 imagine if i have a house i even don't need a daycare or school she gonna be outside i just need to prepare

02:30:02.520 food for her she can go to the bathroom by herself i know how to teach her like basic things and she can

02:30:08.920 just play outside so it's like she doesn't need me so like i see that um i can't this thing i mean

02:30:19.480 maybe it's like delusional about that point but i see like it's easier to raise the kids when you have

02:30:25.960 a huge land when you have like a money you have a house or kids need just space and entertainment and

02:30:33.400 they can entertain themselves especially if it's like not one kid because like right now i'm living

02:30:38.840 in there when my friend has like three kids they entertain each other so it's like sure but he's

02:30:44.680 saying whether or not if if the guy was to ask you to delete your instagram otherwise he wasn't going

02:30:50.600 to marry you and then he continued saying oh but you're gonna you want six children and x y and z but

02:30:57.720 her instagram was her passive income so that already cancels your i thought but you said you

02:31:03.720 want to do healing right so wouldn't that be like for example you do massage right so i mean you can't

02:31:09.400 really make passive income from massage because that's a service i mean are you gonna make massage

02:31:15.320 instructional videos but like online courses i'm gonna do a retreat house um okay like that's so many

02:31:22.840 things like online passive income i'm selling my massage oil so it's like sure

02:31:30.120 i i my plan i don't work even like i have few customers in a week because like

02:31:36.520 i'm gonna increase my price more and more and i just get like a higher value customers who like

02:31:42.120 okay with my price and then like even tip so i don't have to period okay give her a goddamn break

02:31:47.720 um arlen you wanted to come in on something yeah i have a lot on my mind but okay my first question

02:31:54.200 is so you guys if you had to choose between your personal careers and having a family you you would

02:31:59.560 choose personal career a lot of our careers are happiness too it's not just family right but if you

02:32:05.400 had to choose gonna make us happy i'm not sure but if you had to choose career as a hobby so

02:32:10.920 it shouldn't be like you so like right now i put all my attention in my career can we can we do that

02:32:17.320 though like why do we have to choose can we reverse this like go around the table guys like career

02:32:22.040 family which you would choose oh yeah yeah we can do that yeah we have to choose let's just keep it

02:32:30.440 as simple as just what would you do if she was a breadwinner like would you give up your passions

02:32:34.600 and the you love the most that's what i'm saying just to be like okay i'm gonna give all

02:32:37.800 this up just to be a stay-at-home dad and a wife would you guys be a stay-at-home dad

02:32:42.280 give up if i know if she was capable of providing and she was a good woman and it was and you're

02:32:49.160 giving me like this only option although i i'm not sure how set i am on if i want to have a family

02:32:56.200 or whatever but perhaps but uh ryan we can't be together then rip i'm the same way i don't know

02:33:02.120 he's in the chat i think most men are it might it might sound cold but most men are going to be

02:33:07.560 generally pretty like if men can't actually work if they can't go out and exercise their

02:33:15.960 essentially like masculine urges they're gonna be pretty miserable miserable so if you could put a

02:33:21.640 guy in like a daycare and you say like you can't build anything you just have to play with kids all

02:33:25.720 day he's gonna be kind of men are not heterosexual straight men he will be the worst that's how i feel

02:33:32.200 just reverse but so that's how i feel reversed but i also too i'm similar i don't know what i want

02:33:37.720 in the future like marriage family i don't know independent women that have something we're working

02:33:42.520 towards it's like well how do you balance finding a man that wants that and you want that and and

02:33:47.000 being successful and all this together i mean it's it's not we just need a woman on a podcast

02:33:51.880 who already balanced their family and business i feel like if i knew someone long enough like say

02:33:58.040 i had a friendship with them for a decade 15 years and then we got together and there was

02:34:03.480 the necessity for me to choose the family i would have enough trust at that point to to do so i agree

02:34:11.000 with that i think that it really like it really just depends on how long i've known somebody how

02:34:16.760 much i trust i'm sure we've all thought about that yeah so i think that question is a little

02:34:22.360 yeah it's a little black and white when that situation's a little colorful well it's kind of sad that

02:34:26.760 we've in some ways perhaps even for both men and women that the ultimate happiness that we've been

02:34:33.160 sold that we will receive in life is through a career when i i think for both men and women it's

02:34:38.920 going to actually be through a family it's about passion my reasoning is basically just but i think

02:34:45.080 willing to give it up sorry um i'm willing to give it up but i need to know that i can trust

02:34:51.320 that i'm going to be taken care of and okay and not suddenly dropped if i give up the momentum of

02:34:58.520 my career and stuff like that so if i had that time to develop that trust over because that's the only

02:35:05.000 thing that will really give you that is the long long long period of time i think in that situation

02:35:10.760 yeah you drop you're dropped now i'm now i'm with a child and no money because i didn't work on my

02:35:16.600 career and he left me because he like wouldn't the objective be to not get divorced marriage is for

02:35:23.320 life yeah there ain't no divorce speaking specifically though you leave them that leaves you out in the

02:35:29.080 dust and you have nothing you have three kids with them you lost your whole fucking career your whole

02:35:32.680 life and dedicated you're all your i wouldn't do that to you lexi well i wouldn't do that to you

02:35:36.760 i'm very tainted you're tainted what do you mean um so you actually when we were talking about that

02:35:46.040 so you said did you should we talk about body count body count should body count matter yes or

02:35:50.760 no oh is it what's your body count is what i want to know i would love to know as a man of god

02:35:58.120 as a man of god as a man of god i do not reveal my body count oh yeah i prefer i prefer women it

02:36:08.120 doesn't matter to me what's your body count you gotta tell us i'm not gonna share it but i

02:36:11.320 prefer what does it bother you are you a virgin i'm not a virgin are you sure so multiply by three

02:36:17.080 it's at least three totally why does it bother you that i've slept with so many men why have you

02:36:23.560 i want to know why have you i think he explained earlier there's a good amount of men so why would

02:36:27.880 you feel uncomfortable about that he explained earlier why that matters you just can't stand

02:36:32.760 the fact because it's gross he was saying it was gross gross that sounds very immature like what is

02:36:36.760 it really but it's not gross if your dick has been in a lot of vaginas like what does that mean and

02:36:41.320 no because that doesn't mean i'm fucking other people while i'm having sex with you i don't have

02:36:45.400 an std currently so i mean but didn't you say that you're currently sleeping with one guy and

02:36:49.560 dating three to four total texting well that would that would already to me that would already

02:36:55.240 disqualify a girl because even if you weren't sleeping with any of the other guys if i know a

02:36:59.880 girl's dating four four other dudes i'm like i'm just not going to pursue it why until i maybe i want

02:37:07.240 to actually wait and see who i really like and with it's really not that hard to hold on hold on

02:37:13.080 it's really not that hard to date just one person at a time maybe that call me old-fashioned

02:37:17.400 not of course not i've done that my whole life but i and that's why i think people get

02:37:21.560 so stuck in situationships and why people are so dissatisfied with modern dating is

02:37:25.880 this so many options or illusion of options i think people ought to date one person at a time

02:37:31.720 if it doesn't work fine move on to the next one but you got people who are i don't want to be

02:37:35.160 hung up i kind of i like i like that though i don't want to get emotional but i think the the so

02:37:39.400 that's again that's your problem that that's why you can't find somebody because like what brian is

02:37:43.400 saying you if if you're dating multiple men then yeah you're not giving a hundred percent to that

02:37:49.160 one guy so you're automatically not getting a hundred percent back either get it when you

02:37:52.840 know they're giving you a hundred percent if i'm treated like an option i'm gonna treat you

02:37:55.960 you gotta show up you gotta show up first i'm agree with you i was in that point when i moved

02:38:02.680 to remember because i did it before like if i'm dating with you like i only dated with you and i

02:38:08.360 came here and i'm like oh that's not gonna work here because guys like really doing the same like

02:38:15.400 i'm like telling them like oh so i'm like to do everything like faster like oh we like commit like

02:38:23.720 we dating only each other and they're like oh i can't do that i like i need to like to choose i'm

02:38:30.040 talking with that girl with that girl and i just realized like it's how everything works here but

02:38:36.280 obviously i when i'm like going to date with the different guys i don't want to sleep with

02:38:41.400 everybody but it's like ended up like yeah you choosing you need to weigh out your options here

02:38:48.360 but i think a lot of especially nowadays um people are dating multiple people without having sex with

02:38:55.320 them because they have they've been in a shitty relationship or situationship where they can't

02:39:01.160 they have trust issues with themselves and with the person they're dating so they're like okay just in case

02:39:05.960 let me keep keep this one in a basket and this one in a basket in a different basket just in case

02:39:10.360 if one doesn't work they can go to the other and that's what kind of like anxiety and like trust

02:39:14.840 issues and things like that kind of come up this is where i don't have anxiety you talking to multiple

02:39:19.880 guys me talking to one guy gives me more anxiety can you tilt the microphone down a little bit yeah

02:39:25.480 i said talking to multiple guys doesn't give me anxiety right now but because i've been in a couple past

02:39:30.760 shitty relationships yeah i'm probably like oh like i want to just talk to multiple guys or not

02:39:36.520 i don't want to like we're talking about talking with talk like talking this is sleeping until somebody

02:39:42.280 this is like the root of the problem though i mean i i went through with not the root of the problem i

02:39:47.000 i've had many boyfriends like i've been in relationships my whole life right no but my my point is that you're

02:39:54.600 your fear and not to put you on the spot but your fear and insecurity that's putting you in a position

02:40:01.560 where you can only have surface level relationships with a few guys is preventing you from getting a

02:40:06.120 deeper one like when i was when i was in my i've had the deeper one when i was in college i had the

02:40:12.120 same mindset like i want to you know well yeah i mean i i wanted to date multiple girls at a time

02:40:19.960 have the whole rotation thing um but i realized after a while that that was actually mostly out

02:40:26.520 of insecurity uh and there was a moment in my life where i was like wouldn't it be nice

02:40:32.200 if i could just be happy with one girl i've had that multiple times i guess i'm just in a different

02:40:37.800 headspace how does it work like uh i i'm super straightforward so most of the time i'm like

02:40:43.720 okay uh do we like kind of like uh building right now the base of the future relationship and i'm

02:40:50.680 like coming up with that idea and then like oh i i'm not sure i'm ready for that most of the guys

02:40:57.240 telling me that so i'm i'm ready to date and one guy and like focus in and give that all the all my

02:41:04.440 energy but they are not ready guys are not they like oh i i'm he they're like kind of like a scared

02:41:12.200 of relationship or like yeah i mean many many but i would honestly look at that and ask yourself

02:41:17.400 like are you really ready right i'm ready mentally and emotionally for relationship what about you

02:41:23.400 lexi what are you ready i'm ready to give in like my time your name's not lexi but okay i don't know

02:41:31.080 if i'm ready right now i'm not ready right now you're not well i mean yeah you're sleeping with one

02:41:36.600 guy and you're dating yeah i'm not ready no i've been in a couple past like i said i've been in these

02:41:40.680 other relationships i'm not no and i'm really focused right now on my shit on your shit okay

02:41:47.480 so not really i think it's perfectly normal to date around a lot i've been in relationships

02:41:52.200 with guys who have had multiple girlfriends and know where they went wrong and are able to do

02:41:58.040 better because of that and i've also dated guys i was their first girlfriend and they don't know what

02:42:00.840 the they're doing because they've never experienced it before and i feel like i'm teaching them so i

02:42:05.000 almost feel like it's better in my opinion from my experience to be with people who've experienced other

02:42:09.640 people amen to that oh yeah for sure uh wait so you're saying you've had boyfriends who didn't

02:42:16.120 have experience yeah i've been their first girlfriend and then i've had boyfriends who've

02:42:19.240 dated like quite a few girls and usually it's better when they've had the experience they know

02:42:23.240 where they went wrong i think i think it's the opposite for men i think it's the opposite for men

02:42:28.920 how do you know what you want if you don't experience different things

02:42:32.040 because you could think you want something in your mind and then you try it out and you're bored

02:42:34.840 by it you don't even know what's out there a lot of you guys sound like you've had a lot of dating

02:42:38.600 experience and have you been able to find a good relationship are you guys religious at all by

02:42:46.200 chance super spiritual most of them so i think part of i think part of like finding a uh if you're

02:42:52.920 actually interested in looking for a life partner is being open to leaving part of it up to whatever

02:42:58.520 higher power you believe in 100 i agree because you're going to attract someone who's like generally

02:43:03.800 what you want but they're going to have some you know uh

02:43:08.440 shit that they got to deal with nobody's perfect right and people change exactly a lot so yeah i

02:43:13.880 think you have to be open to an imperfect human i agree to that of course i agree to that and i feel

02:43:20.520 like that's how i found my perfect match in a way because i i told the girls earlier i was like

02:43:26.680 i decided okay i'm healing myself i love myself i found finally found like a rhythm within myself and

02:43:32.600 then again you kind of just let it you know don't just have make it put the decision on somebody

02:43:38.760 else too like you were saying you know either either it's spiritually or religiously and um

02:43:44.840 you kind of just continue working you know every day towards becoming a better person a better you

02:43:50.680 without having to date around 24 7 because i feel like i don't want to spend my time on dating and

02:43:56.120 doing x y and z and talking and texting when it's going to be for nothing like why spend my energy

02:44:02.280 on on somebody that's not going to matter to me and then you know things happen and you find the

02:44:06.760 right person look ultimately it's just not it's really not that hard to date one person at a time

02:44:12.360 it doesn't if it doesn't work you can meet someone new but i think people are getting into trouble

02:44:18.280 and it's i don't think it's conducive to the development of a relationship if you're dating

02:44:22.840 a ton of people at the same time but you can go on different dates and not be sleeping with them

02:44:26.280 and stuff you can just kind of see what you want that's true that's true but then you also have

02:44:30.040 girls that are sleeping with like three four five guys at the same time so that's their own if

02:44:35.240 they're okay with their partner's okay with it who cares honestly most men would not be cool if you

02:44:39.160 ask most men guys live like that they're doing it behind your back so i think you just have to know

02:44:45.560 quite often yeah well that's what men do i feel like a lot of what you guys have been saying is

02:44:50.520 is very indicative of the type of men that you end up associating with and i think even even in a place

02:44:57.320 like la like you're talking about a city of 10 million people you might just be talking about

02:45:02.200 a very niche demographic that we're in the industry we're in exactly exactly my point

02:45:08.920 to date anybody first of all so but but what what i'm saying some random guy down the street normally

02:45:14.040 know and then you have people online that maybe might be a fan of yours or you don't know who

02:45:17.880 they are or you meet someone with a check mark that's been in the industry that's fucked so it's

02:45:21.720 like i guess i guess what i'm saying is is your own career aside like you shouldn't you shouldn't be

02:45:28.680 prioritizing what you're doing when you're looking for someone else right like they have to have their

02:45:34.840 own life regardless of of how it aligns like professionally i think i think a lot of the times i i hear

02:45:42.200 girls complaining about how the guys every guy is so trash when like they're sort of just dating a

02:45:48.680 copy and pasted version with like a different haircut of like the same base traits in a dude

02:45:54.840 you know and emotionally unavailable and sort of like like like removed detached from reality in a lot

02:46:01.960 of ways that i think you are in that like you've had you've had a pretty like successful career in

02:46:06.840 your 20s and i think as an attractive person or a successful person when you're young when you have

02:46:12.040 that you have sort of a removal of of a necessity for accountability and you have the ability to sort

02:46:17.960 of say this is who i am this is what i want fuck what you want i'm gonna put my foot down and like

02:46:23.320 you haven't really had to ever you know put your ego aside and just be a you know be an adult for a

02:46:30.360 sec because you you can afford the luxury of saying fuck you i don't gotta deal with this i'm i'm rich and

02:46:35.240 i'm hot and i got my own thing going on like move along instead of instead of taking a second to

02:46:40.440 like check in with yourself and say what what am i doing wrong here where where where are the where

02:46:45.240 are the parts that i might not be stepping up to the plate in this relationship and why am i

02:46:49.960 consistently finding people that i don't connect with and that are mistreating me am i mistreating

02:46:55.160 myself first and foremost am i am i am i am i not giving myself enough love because it seems like i'm

02:47:01.000 constantly you talk about manifestation it's all it's magnetism too it doesn't even it doesn't even

02:47:06.760 matter what you're asking the universe for it's what you're telling yourself too it's about what

02:47:11.480 it's about it's about the relationship that you have with yourself and i think a lot of women and men

02:47:16.760 um are are are caught in a loop of really just toxic relationships because they have a toxic

02:47:24.680 relationship with themselves and i think a lot of i think a lot of what that comes from is totally not

02:47:30.040 our fault and like everybody watching like we we we didn't ask for this right like when i was

02:47:36.040 when i was in high school i started using social media and became like painstakingly aware of the

02:47:41.400 fact that there's just a million options at all times and especially when you're in the industry

02:47:45.800 you're an attractive girl like those options are just always available to you and so it's been really

02:47:51.240 hard for me to be monogamous and like lock in with people that would have been absolutely amazing

02:47:56.680 for me that had nothing wrong with them you know and that i was the one that fell short and i had

02:48:01.640 to take responsibility for that and know that because i was in a position where where i could afford to

02:48:06.280 be with you know really hot girls and like live an incredible life i didn't take accountability as a

02:48:12.200 man to to be the person that that a partner would need and i think that's where a lot of men fall short is

02:48:18.680 that is is their lack of accountability and it's the same thing with with women you know we we really

02:48:25.000 have have gotten so much ego with no basis and and you have just a generation of people that are so

02:48:31.640 blameless and and act like they're they're god's gift to earth when when really we're all looking for

02:48:39.000 the same thing we want to be loved like everybody wants to be loved okay well but women do too and it's in

02:48:46.200 and and lexi men men just need to great great and and you're and you're just god's gift to earth

02:48:51.320 right because i've been an amazing girlfriend i'm sure you have but you've also been like

02:48:56.040 consistently talking over people and and not allowing space when when people are having a

02:49:01.640 dialogue like there there are certain components of of having a mature dynamic with someone that i

02:49:07.080 think you could still work on that's there's nothing wrong with that you know you've gotten a

02:49:11.320 coast by and and whatever but like in order to get the the relationship that you're shying away

02:49:17.400 from by by having these surface level relationships you do need to like first do that work with yourself

02:49:22.200 and i don't mean like checking co-star i don't mean like like looking at tarot cards i mean i mean like

02:49:28.200 like actually just taking a look at yourself and i'm not talking to you specifically i'm talking to

02:49:32.440 everybody like myself included i think i think we all have been barraged with with so much information

02:49:41.080 that it has clouded us and clouded our ability to really even know ourselves and and you have to

02:49:45.640 clear that out before you can ever like even be the person like you in order to be the person that

02:49:52.200 you like need to be to have that partner because that's where i'm at in my life right like i've

02:49:56.680 consistently fallen short with with relationships or they've fallen short for me where it doesn't work

02:50:02.280 and i and i keep going oh they're just not right they're just not right they're just not right

02:50:05.800 but i think the reality is that i haven't really done that own cross checklist checklist on myself

02:50:11.480 right and gone what what type of person am i looking for what are those boxes that i need to check

02:50:17.800 and what do i need to bring to the table what kind of man do i need to be in order to attract that kind

02:50:22.840 of person because it because it's not just going to come to you and and like you you thinking that like

02:50:27.480 manifestation only gets you so far application is what is what delivers results and you have to

02:50:33.160 you have to know exactly what you're looking for and what it takes to get that

02:50:37.400 in order to to manifest to that level you know a key component of manifestation is like real true

02:50:43.160 genuine effort effort yeah man that was let me shake your hand man that was that was quite

02:50:47.880 that was a great stretch yeah cool and i have a very similar journey too like i was super hurt

02:50:54.360 for or i was hurting people and i didn't understand why and i had such amazing men that were coming into

02:50:58.920 my life but really it came down to me and i had to realize like i was not okay and i had to do all

02:51:03.400 this healing work to actually be able to like own my feminine and like love back so it's been like

02:51:08.200 a beautiful process for sure people sometimes like mirror for you yeah okay let me let me do a couple

02:51:14.920 super chats that came in here all right yo marquavis martin sorry we didn't treat this as a tts

02:51:19.560 yeah uh men want purity we're territorial protective we are conquerors wanting feminine unfettering females

02:51:25.960 is in our dna we would die for the woman we love a woman that is run through is not part of the

02:51:32.440 relationship equation for us she's coarse vulgar devalued already conquered okay so i think a lot of

02:51:42.280 the times people get caught up in the right and the wrong way to be and they have this opinion

02:51:47.640 on what that is and that's totally valid we're all allowed to have that but at the end of the day we're

02:51:52.600 each individually going to have a different opinion on what is right for us and we should really be able

02:51:58.360 to allow other people to have that opinion and to hold our own opinion on what's right for us

02:52:03.640 and i feel like as somebody who's chosen to be polyamorous or also been monogamous and for my

02:52:11.640 career choice a lot of people will apply what they think is the right way to be onto me not taking into

02:52:18.520 consideration maybe i'm an authentic honest communicative straightforward person who's just

02:52:25.240 my own person and just different and i think that it's really just about finding what's good for

02:52:32.520 you and making sure you're respecting yourself and you're respecting other people that you're clean

02:52:37.880 that you're kind and that you're communicative i really think at that at the end of the day we're

02:52:43.000 all going to have our own idea of what's right for us and what's right in our own part in our other

02:52:48.280 partner well i mean this is just marquavius's comment here is in response to why body counting about

02:52:55.560 the entire sure yeah he's saying uh in terms of uh why body count matters so and one thing that he uh

02:53:03.320 i mean there's opinion some people date porn stars and they're fine with it yeah i've had a lot of

02:53:08.200 partners everyone's different individual yeah i personally don't understand it but i i have met

02:53:13.800 guys who like are into that how often have you guys been tested here how often do you get std tests

02:53:18.600 i mean i see where you're going with this but like usually after every relationship that's

02:53:23.000 beautiful that's really amazing i go at least once a month to two times a month if not every

02:53:28.440 seven to fourteen but a lot of people so you do traditional adult contents correct yes how many

02:53:34.040 scenes do you do per month or week like one two a week if i feel like it okay with new individuals

02:53:42.040 correct yes who are also tested seven to fourteen days yeah but i mean the std rate in the for

02:53:47.640 example like hpv and herpes in the porn community in the adult content community is far higher than in

02:53:53.480 the general public correct like that's why there are plenty of things and ways that you can prevent

02:54:00.520 that well i mean and there are actually if people fuck without rubbers if you study the statistics of

02:54:07.240 herpes most people have it in their body but because they never get tested for it because they're like

02:54:12.520 oh my body count is low they actually have it in their body and most people that have it they just

02:54:18.120 don't have them they never know you don't even get tested for it anymore so if you think about the

02:54:22.680 way they're recording the information they're okay you're but you're being a little misleading

02:54:27.000 because there's two forms of herpes there's hsv1 and hsv2 i'm talking about both of them

02:54:31.640 you can have both in both places you can have both of them in your body yes most people have at least one

02:54:36.440 form what's common but they just don't have that right do you have genital herpes yeah that's what

02:54:41.960 i've heard i don't have it but i heard that it's very common nowadays we're talking about right well

02:54:45.960 there's cold sores but then your partner could have a cold sore and then give you head or whatever

02:54:50.920 and then you get it there even though it's type one so are you not going to date anybody because

02:54:55.160 they have a cold sore when it's like 90 of the population if your mom because they could eat you out

02:54:59.480 and give you like yeah but okay if you have to say i don't know which if it's hsv1 or hsv2 but

02:55:06.280 like that i'm just saying most people sorry most people don't have genital herpes you can't

02:55:14.360 sometimes you can't see the symptoms you guys really defending herpes like i'm just like what

02:55:18.120 the fuck they don't even test for it anymore when you get screened yeah they don't because

02:55:23.320 everyone has it some form of it for the most part i think i'd rather

02:55:26.360 90 percent of the population i'm good on that one all i was saying is everybody has their own

02:55:32.680 perspective on the right way to live in the wrong way to live and we're all allowed that sure and i

02:55:37.640 think respect communication integrity that's all that really matters yeah but i look women are free

02:55:44.120 if you want to have numerous man is allowed to have his perspective you're allowed to have yours and

02:55:49.400 we're allowed to have ours absolutely however however we are having a conversation and the fact of

02:55:54.120 the matter is most men don't want to have long-term relationships or marry women who

02:56:01.640 were promiscuous or are promiscuous or have a high body count i have experienced a lot of men who are

02:56:07.640 okay with it simply because there are some to be communicative respectful and authentic and i think

02:56:14.200 that a lot of the times girls will lie or we kind of like hide things won't be straight up about things

02:56:21.000 and that causes a lot of distrust and honestly that's dirty to just fucking lie that's dirty

02:56:27.560 that's gross 100 so you can date a girl basically and she said like oh my body count is five but

02:56:33.320 it's not true so how you know i mean there's sure a woman could lie about her body count but there's

02:56:39.800 certainly you know we as men we can look at a girl and sort of get a sense of you know not always but

02:56:47.880 you can look at their behavior and kind of get a sense of for promiscuity it's like

02:56:55.000 it's pretty true no you can look it's not like science like sure could a girl partake in certain

02:57:02.440 behaviors and have a low body count yes but you can like look at someone's character you can look

02:57:06.520 at certain things and kind of determine is she for the streets or not okay age we're talking about

02:57:13.720 like 22 year or a year old who's like just just finished the college no that doesn't matter because

02:57:20.040 nowadays we can be 30 and you can still be uh you can be for the streets can you just how about you

02:57:25.160 tell us what you think each of our body counts is like let's give us yeah let's play this game let's

02:57:31.880 go like i'm down for the thing do you have an estimate based on what you sure sure okay you're all at

02:57:37.640 least you're all at least double digit for sure guaranteed double digits like 10 or over what is

02:57:44.600 that about that you're all double digits wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong how about that what about you guys

02:57:51.720 what do we like okay also just want to say but you're i think i i'll put this down i've got i've

02:58:00.360 seen a lot of comments about me picking this thing up so we'll keep that keep it on the table i mean if

02:58:05.160 you've been sexually active for like 10 years and you've had 10 sexual partners that's it's like an

02:58:10.600 average of one a year so i don't really get the the upset even if it's 20 that's that's that if you're

02:58:16.040 if you're concerned about a girl having sex with with 20 people and she's been sexually active for 10

02:58:20.440 years you're concerned about someone sitting with two people a year which just to me is like

02:58:26.440 i mean listen like we're we're different people but that that just like isn't that's just not crazy

02:58:30.360 i think what brian's suggesting is that that might be normal that might be normal right now but i think

02:58:35.320 that's maybe not good for society no yeah my point was that he's saying that he can basically stereotype

02:58:43.000 a woman based on her behavior how she's dressed or how what her instagram pictures are that oh she

02:58:48.440 definitely has i think everyone does so many guys and that's what that's where you're wrong because

02:58:54.040 that's where you stereotype people without getting to know them once you know somebody then then how

02:58:58.840 would you say you just sat here and told told me that all of us have had double digits well you asked

02:59:03.640 me to guess so i i entertained right i entertained your request instagram okay so without you guys

02:59:11.480 revealing your body counts show of hands was i at least correct in my range assessment oh for sure

02:59:17.640 okay so i wasn't with the exception of you not like 18 years old no no no i'm just saying i don't

02:59:24.440 i hate when when certain women get and i get it maybe here these maybe you guys have had more sexual

02:59:31.080 partners cool i'm not saying it's a bad thing it's not a good thing i'm just saying i don't like that you

02:59:35.800 sit here and basically stereotype women based on where based on their behavior or or what they

02:59:42.920 dress women women make all kinds of judgment calls about men's i was gonna say i could call

02:59:48.120 guys we literally have been doing that we can call a guy a fuck boy yeah well women are much more

02:59:53.800 pickier than men and you guys have higher standards than men you guys have laundry lists of things

02:59:57.640 that you need in the man so heaven forbid men really don't ask for much but one thing men do value

03:00:02.840 again not all men which is but you don't ask for much let's go back on that one yeah men really

03:00:08.200 don't ask for a lot more than women does you think men ask for more you want us to give up our careers

03:00:14.360 you want us to have children stay home cook clean support you shit i don't know nails done hair done

03:00:21.320 i don't need that but not you scaring me but help me work don't need that with a lot of men or a lot

03:00:25.000 don't need that um i i actually prefer girls that don't wear any makeup what do we expect i don't

03:00:29.640 need fake nails but to support us be the provider and not protect us that's about it be your provider

03:00:36.360 be the protector and then you guys have laundry lists of things that you like what lexi you said

03:00:41.080 you want a guy who's at least six feet and makes five hundred thousand dollars a year

03:00:45.480 no sorry 200 000 a month which is like 2.2 million to be a man you guys want way more from us

03:00:52.600 then we want no women want more way more that's not true women need need and want way more from

03:00:58.440 men you don't believe that men really don't need a lot okay we we really don't sit there with that

03:01:05.400 one tonight because that's not true write a list of what you think a man wants and a woman wants and

03:01:09.480 i guess it's really it's it's pretty simple our list is it's really simple bring us peace be

03:01:14.440 pleasant be feminine don't be a whore it's really simple with brian on that one low-key like i i agree

03:01:19.720 with him yeah it's you really we don't we don't really care like your money is not a huge factor

03:01:26.120 like it you don't need to be like a lot of girls need a guy who's charismatic funny you see this all

03:01:32.680 this time on dating apps almost every single girl on the dating app says make me laugh be funny there's

03:01:38.120 so many personality traits that you guys are desirous of in men that are quite frankly you gotta make us

03:01:43.240 laugh you can get a real hot girl if you're ugly as you can make a great personality i just like

03:01:49.560 gonna get an amen

03:01:54.200 i mean you honestly in today's day and age you need you need a lot more than that i've never not

03:01:58.920 really not really men are like widely known as simple creatures so i think yeah i'm saying like

03:02:04.680 pretty he's absolutely right bro we really don't need like if you can just honestly you just bring

03:02:09.720 us peace and calm and don't be promiscuous and stay home and what about attractiveness level

03:02:16.520 and shut the fuck up what about attractiveness but those are the guys that you are attracting

03:02:21.720 and those are the bad guys not every guy is like yo let's go let's go but not every guy is like that

03:02:27.720 i think they want peace they don't if a true man who loves you he he can tell you okay you can work

03:02:35.480 good for you you don't have to though so that's already security and he just wants peace like

03:02:41.400 brian said how many men are like that you love my boyfriend most men how many most no how you guys

03:02:46.280 don't even want to support your women what are you but those are the wrong guys yeah those are the

03:02:52.040 wrong guys those are the wrong guys lexi you you want a guy who makes two million dollars a year

03:02:56.840 i don't care how much money but if you can't support me if you can't support me that's a problem and

03:03:01.560 a lot of men won't just support you everybody go home and pray man

03:03:09.800 they don't want to no matter how much they are

03:03:14.280 would you be okay with 50 50 i've done 50 50 a million times

03:03:21.880 here's the thing but you don't you don't need a guy to support you you make so much money you're

03:03:25.560 good but you want somebody with drive and ambition right sure which comes with success often do men

03:03:31.480 care about that in women no i think totally i think it depends on the guy some guys just want

03:03:37.320 a pretty girl some guys find it different things in a relationship that's pretty normal here well

03:03:41.800 here's the thing when it comes to relationships so a guy who because of the sort because of the

03:03:48.040 current economic landscape most people will need it will have to be a dual income household

03:03:53.800 so i suppose yes men who are lower earners for example they might look to a woman to

03:04:02.440 bolster the household finances but for the guy that lexi is looking for which is kind of

03:04:09.160 a high earning man most men who the more money a man makes the less he's going to care about

03:04:14.120 a woman's money whereas the more money a woman makes the more she cares about man's money because

03:04:20.360 most women don't want to hold down the guy yeah makes sense so but so a guy who has his money

03:04:26.440 right he doesn't really care what you're bringing financially to the table obviously don't be in

03:04:32.520 dead and don't be a bum you know don't be a bum and don't do and like be negative too you know of

03:04:38.760 course but like for example i would i would date a girl who works at chick-fil-a don't give a

03:04:45.480 fuck moat like lexi i don't think you're about to date a dude who works at chick-fil-a i just said

03:04:50.040 i dated what a couple years ago when i had only fans a guy that did shows at universal he didn't

03:04:54.520 have anything sounds like a fucking legend what are you talking about he was cool but he was a psycho

03:04:58.120 and i was afraid for my life eventually yes but i think that i have dated that before which he seemed

03:05:03.400 so fucking nice in the beginning so gentleman so caring so loving so like everything i thought i wanted

03:05:10.200 and then literally became psycho i it seems to be the case that you're constantly finding yourself

03:05:15.560 attracted to men who are psychopaths and sociopaths but go ahead yeah i think potentially lexi one of

03:05:21.960 your issues that you're finding a lot of high achieving women is that they want a guy who's

03:05:28.360 high achieving of course and you know a guy like brian for example very high achieving guy

03:05:33.640 brian um he wants a woman who gives him peace but a career uh building a successful business

03:05:40.040 building a successful career as you're doing oh my god i'm sorry i was gonna give you a ding my

03:05:45.080 thank you building a successful career is a stressful thing whether you're a man or a woman

03:05:49.640 so for brian you know he wants a woman to give him peace most successful men want a woman to give him

03:05:54.520 peace and if she's got a very difficult career she probably doesn't have a ton i would imagine and i

03:06:00.040 don't know but the music industry is probably extremely stressful are you coming home you know

03:06:04.920 like ready to give your man a massage or are you coming home like you needing a massage i think that's

03:06:10.120 what brought issue so i've never had a man to do any of that so i'd be more for the guy yeah but

03:06:16.280 does your career not stress you out whatsoever but i don't really bring that to the guy no but

03:06:20.280 that's why you haven't found the one because you're masculine i'm not as vulnerable a guy wants

03:06:24.600 to take care of me i haven't really had a guy to do that babe i can't pay my bills oh my god

03:06:29.160 babe i need this oh my god i need help i've never been the guy the girl to do that and that has been

03:06:33.000 the problem as well but your masculine energy is way too overpowering for the guy yeah and that's

03:06:39.400 what i had to and he can be the masculine energy for you and you being the female the feminine energy

03:06:45.400 that's where the problem right right that's all it is so it's really a problem within you within all

03:06:50.360 of us it just it's learning your feminine and owning your feminine because men want that

03:06:54.520 learning more yeah and how to attract that oh like my girl she gets everything from guys i'm

03:06:59.640 like lord how do you do it she has money she's like bitch i will call him on the phone like oh

03:07:04.040 my god i can't pay my rent but you're feminine i can't do that personally i feel weird doing that

03:07:10.360 well that's oh my god i need help paying my rent well you don't need help with this you don't need

03:07:15.240 help i don't or oh is she finessing but is it like cap and she's just trying to get like you're

03:07:19.480 feminine though yeah it's a finesse but it's more like the guy the guy is more on her because he

03:07:24.360 feels like oh let me go save a hoe yeah but like you're feminine too i want to take care of you

03:07:30.040 i've always wanted to do myself yeah well so what what he was saying like a really successful ambitious

03:07:36.440 higher earning man the guy that you're chasing after someone to be someone who's making that

03:07:41.160 amount of money is likely to be living a stressful life people who make a lot of money typically well

03:07:48.840 i mean it depends there could be some crypto pump you know made up a ton of money on crypto

03:07:52.760 whatever but um most men who are making a lot of money live stressful lives and the last thing that

03:07:59.320 a man who's successful wants to do is not only have to not only go out in the world and contend with

03:08:05.640 the world and you know business being cutthroat you're you're in business i want him to be there

03:08:10.520 for me as i am for him but it's because of i perhaps i mean you're incredibly successful because of

03:08:19.000 the cutthroat and you said you're in the music industry which is well known for being quite

03:08:24.360 cutthroat um you know you have perhaps developed a you've developed more masculine traits um and i'm

03:08:35.160 not saying this to attack you but my impression of you is you're uh you're very strong individual uh but

03:08:42.200 i do think you're pretty in your masculine i would say you're pretty combative yeah when i have a

03:08:49.240 boyfriend it's a little bit different sure and and to give you credit you know i've invited you

03:08:54.680 you've been invited on the podcast to have a conversation and and to have a debate to some

03:08:59.640 degree so i suspect the way that you might conduct yourself when you've been invited to have a debate

03:09:04.200 with someone yeah when you've invited to debate with someone is perhaps not how you're going to

03:09:09.080 conduct yourself when you're one-on-one in an intimate setting with with a partner so um in

03:09:14.440 the same way that we're all actors in a way that the way we conduct ourselves for example uh with in

03:09:20.600 the classroom or with a teacher is much different than how we might conduct ourselves when we're with

03:09:25.160 our friends or with a girlfriend so obviously i i don't suspect the way that you know we're interacting

03:09:31.240 now is how you you're going to interact with with a partner although i imagine to some degree you do

03:09:37.720 have you're very fiery you know and i you know uh so i i i would think i'm very fiery but i am very

03:09:46.920 like submissive with a guy are you yeah absolutely it's not too late for you to find out

03:09:53.160 but how but how submissive wants to be submitted i want to submit i like that

03:09:57.480 like i want a man to do that i think you're just in a protective mechanism but how but how submissive

03:10:03.400 because you're you're not willing to i mean give up my career no i'm not going to give up my passions

03:10:08.600 and my singing and my stuff i have a question what if what if you can still have a passion do

03:10:14.600 wherever you want but it's just not about money so you don't have to like rush and building career

03:10:21.240 so it's still it still is okay so it's like right now uh if no one paying me for what i'm doing i'm

03:10:27.640 still gonna do that without money because it's my passion yeah i do the same thing okay this is how

03:10:33.000 i feel um eric let's make a million dollars off my singing honey i make it off my only fan i do my

03:10:38.920 singing and all the other bullshit because i love it yeah okay um eric let's do a shout out to twitch

03:10:45.160 people and then we have a couple super chat okay uh yo mad thank you for the uh prime man appreciate

03:10:50.520 it guys go over to twitch.tv slash whatever mods if you could drop the link for that in the uh

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03:11:06.200 way to support the show every month hey thank you guys so much for all the uh follows really appreciate

03:11:12.280 it okay so um let me get these super chats here we have uh hello mind uh internet's favorite place

03:11:20.600 to buy that can we sponsor you uh brian at whatever.com if you want to discuss sponsors you can sponsor me

03:11:26.520 uh speedy the unsilent 100 the excuse they do it as well it's not a good excuse just because someone

03:11:33.720 else is doing it does not make it right i do not sleep around and i do not want a woman with that

03:11:38.760 history yeah same here i mean i'm not like trying to run through chicks it just doesn't interest me

03:11:43.480 um not interested in one night stand but uh yeah um all right we have uh marquavis martin

03:11:49.960 hundred dollar soup chat do you have a test for your soul wait what's this in reference to

03:11:54.840 you have a test for your i think you're calculating i i don't think it's a soul test

03:12:07.080 you have a test oh okay yo marquavis thank you man appreciate it hope the uh quiznos is wait is it

03:12:14.440 is it marquavis the one with the quiznos wait lexi can you scoot into the table a little bit you're

03:12:19.480 just popping out you don't have a soul oh actually yeah just on the center cam you're kind of cut off

03:12:26.360 there a little bit okay let me just check here all right um so oh we had one other hold on let me see

03:12:33.160 if i can pull it up cappadocia this is a miss super chat from my last stream uh this is a little lighter

03:12:38.280 question um favorite drink favorite kink favorite smoke go ahead lexi favorite drink favorite kink

03:12:44.760 favorite smoke i don't drink okay i'm just psycho like this not based um me too kink yeah

03:12:56.360 um it's probably some weird balloon shit or something no i feel like it's a little normal

03:13:02.760 i just like being like um balloon kinks not degraded in bed you like to be degraded in bed a little

03:13:08.840 choking and smacking i like all that so that's my kink what was the other question so she likes being

03:13:13.480 called a favorite smoke favorite smoke favorite smoke i don't smoke anymore either okay comments

03:13:18.200 are just the dirty talk okay see i can submit she likes this keep it up your comments are turning

03:13:25.320 me on why do you think i'm so oh my god you dirty whore you have this std test

03:13:32.680 i love the dirty whore talk you're a dirty whore oh i'm so

03:13:37.320 i wouldn't do that i wouldn't do that um what's it called uh okay um brian can't think straight now

03:13:48.120 look at him yeah he's flustered over here someone's getting a little rosy in the cheeks

03:13:52.600 why are you guys are you guys okay i think brian is a little crash that you say what that i said

03:14:02.200 that that's my kink was that you know i mean i'm familiar no i'm familiar with that just um i don't

03:14:09.160 know i i don't really want to speak your mind i've been speaking i don't know this whole like rough sex

03:14:15.400 meta with the fucking bdsm 50 shades of gray no it's not weird like i i don't have anything wrong

03:14:21.080 with it just it's not really some people don't like it some people feel really awkward doing it

03:14:24.840 i mean yeah and they're like i'm not comfortable with you're like hit me and they're like i'm like

03:14:31.480 yeah i'm not i'm not like trying to like hit a chick or some shit like that during sex that's not

03:14:37.320 really why though why if she tells you she likes that you're you're just i don't you don't want to

03:14:42.920 i'm not trying to catch a case for some pussy a lot of people say that but like that's

03:14:46.840 bro i'm not gonna put marks on that sucks if you do that in bed and then they're

03:14:50.280 want to be like damn like i'm coming after your money after that that sucks

03:14:54.680 i would never do that to you brian okay you could smack me if you'd like wow okay

03:15:01.960 i will not come for your money

03:15:06.440 we might be ubering back girls today i just say too

03:15:09.880 why is it grabbing the bible is this the bible he has one on hand

03:15:20.680 jesus all right god's name and bane over here it's him okay um

03:15:26.120 favorite favorite drink favorite kink favorite smoke um drink white wine favorite kink

03:15:37.800 either really sweet or bondage wait sweet love making yeah like really sweet i feel like i don't

03:15:46.920 get a lot of that as much so in my life it's been like oh

03:15:55.800 um what was the last one smoke favorite smoke they would smoke obviously the ganj

03:16:01.560 what about you i don't drink alcohol based i don't smoke too um favorite kink i love when guy lick my

03:16:10.280 feet what the oh yes baby put those toes in his mouth and actually i just figured out that last

03:16:19.320 year because i even didn't know that people like selling the feed stuff it was like not just popular

03:16:25.080 in russia so milk so i just when like the last year when i figured out the feed fetish i'm like oh okay

03:16:35.000 the guy's paying for that and then like the guy just they're like my feet and i'm like oh i like

03:16:40.520 that took some milk like it okay i think we all like that so the area in your brain that like controls

03:16:47.560 the feet and it sends this pleasure are right next to each other so sometimes the wires get crossed and

03:16:51.880 that's why how people fetishes are so common yeah it's actually science yeah yeah fun fact of the day

03:16:57.560 i do massage for a feet it like turns on many people palms feet my cat so it's like so many

03:17:05.640 it's it's reflexology right it's like the areas of your palm and feet are connected to every meridian

03:17:11.880 or uh organ in your body uh it's not just about that it's like just sense i even don't know how

03:17:19.240 to explain in english so never mind i just i can do it in russian huh never mind okay favorite favorite

03:17:27.080 drink my favorite drink is probably a start with espresso martini move on to moscow mule

03:17:32.840 and a vodka soda with five lemons um

03:17:39.320 okay my favorite smoke sativa my favorite kink probably public sex or getting choked

03:17:45.480 i'll make sweet love to you let's go um favorite drink tequila uh kink um between the public sex

03:18:02.600 or um like sweet love in bed and favorite smoke obviously hookah nice um my i i don't smoke

03:18:12.120 my i'm sorry i don't smoke my favorite drink is tequila ranch water and

03:18:17.240 and um yeah yeah it's like my new thing what is ranch water it's basically like seltzer water and

03:18:23.720 then lime juice so it's literally like a clean version of a margarita yeah but it's like yeah

03:18:28.600 so anyway ranch water and um my favorite kink is like i like a passionate daddy like i i can't have

03:18:37.800 i can't have sex with someone unless i like emotionally connect to them and mentally

03:18:43.640 so like that needs to be there so like i like the rough sex thing could be really hot but like i need

03:18:48.200 to connect with them emotionally so because of that it's usually very passionate so i do like being

03:18:53.560 choked i do like those things but it needs to come from love and not too intense i have a question

03:18:58.360 for you guys on the kind of the rough sex stuff was it something that you kind of came to on your

03:19:05.400 own or was there one specific guy that kind of introduced it into you into your life i had a

03:19:11.560 i had a girlfriend tell me that she liked being choked and so i was like let me try it out and it

03:19:15.160 honestly feels good because you when you cut off that oxygen to your brain it forces like you have

03:19:20.040 more sensation the other areas of your body so it's like just a physical thing it makes it feel

03:19:24.040 better the pressure in a certain point here you just feels good so it's not about like the action

03:19:29.320 it's like the action like you feel are the guys like dominates like they're mentally but there's

03:19:35.000 like specific things like yeah and you have to choke carefully yes you don't go like this you'll kill

03:19:40.040 them so you just there's a specific thing and you just yeah it's about the oxygen and you just get

03:19:46.760 google it before you do it make sure yeah don't kill them in bed yeah yeah i don't know when mine

03:19:51.080 started i've almost died in bed oh she does it on all the shows okay sorry brian you thought you

03:19:56.360 felt special yeah i thought i felt special all right we have uh mr scumbag here hundred dollar

03:20:02.280 soup chat brian every time you bring a giga chat on the show a simp presses his delete button

03:20:07.400 where is below average joe the displays point of view slash perspective for the education of these three

03:20:11.800 of foes not that they will ever listen or see it joe needs your help not chad i just want to say

03:20:18.920 thank you mr junior scumbag i've never been called a chad i know it's not a compliment but i just love

03:20:24.840 new experiences so thank you for that you guys what's a three or four area code probably i don't

03:20:31.400 think so i think it's about prostitution i think it's h-o-e it's about prostitution if you flip it

03:20:38.040 upside down it spells hell yeah oh yeah yeah yeah i didn't know that wow a person that sleeps for

03:20:46.040 money is that what that means yeah yeah kind of like that because i remember i saw the tiktok

03:20:51.240 with these hashtags and the girls like talking about shout out dark night gaming squad shout out to india

03:20:56.840 big love all the way from new zealand these guys going crazy let's go let's go okay um let's see here we

03:21:07.160 have uh we had one come through i think on uh nope okay uh so there was a lot we touched on oh there's

03:21:17.080 the last thing uh eric can you pull up the twitter thing i'm sexually drained you're that's haram hello

03:21:27.480 eric is the audio at 70 it seems a little low oh weird all right um can you zoom it in

03:21:37.000 one more good sir okay uh so this is from at little dick game on twitter and he had this

03:21:48.600 interesting thread when it comes to perhaps this is a double standard maybe not but he says and eric

03:21:54.920 scroll down as i start reading it i told my ex for every guy that approaches you i'll approach one girl

03:22:00.760 for every guy that messages you on instagram i'll message one girl she stopped going out to clubs and

03:22:07.320 made her instagram account private low iq individuals will say these are false equivalences

03:22:13.640 hold on there's a thread i'll read more so he's he continues by saying women run passive game they

03:22:20.840 don't approach men but they put themselves in positions where they could be approached by men

03:22:26.200 clubs they won't dm a man but they'll post pictures to lure him into dming them instagram

03:22:33.480 mainstream media doesn't want you to know this scroll down uh up eric uh men are salesmen women

03:22:40.680 are marketers but most guys are too naive and lack the capacity for nuanced thinking to be able to

03:22:46.520 identify this distinction in a committed relationship a man should stop pitching and a woman should stop

03:22:53.080 advertising fair proposition but most men are fooled into believing that just because their woman isn't

03:22:59.640 also initiating conversations with other men then everything is good she was never initiating

03:23:04.600 conversations that's not how she operates we utilize different strategies to get similar outcomes

03:23:12.280 you stopped talking to women and gave up your edge but she never stopped putting herself out there

03:23:17.960 that's why she already had a replacement for you after the breakup because she never stopped

03:23:23.000 marketing she was generating leads the whole time a lion and a rhino are about to fight and the

03:23:29.400 lino tells the and the lion tells the rhino take off your horn so that we can have a fair fight since

03:23:34.840 i don't have a horn the rhino foolishly agrees fight begins and he gets torn to shreds by the line

03:23:40.680 because the lion used his teeth and claws you're the foolish rhino women are the lion a lion and a rhino are

03:23:47.800 not the same so they can't play by the same rules if the rhino takes off his horn then the lion will

03:23:53.640 need to remove its teeth and claws you both have to give up your edge to even the playing field in

03:24:00.760 regards to the situation with my ex i know you may thinking so what if she was at the grocery store and

03:24:06.360 a guy approached her that's normal she didn't put herself in that position it's totally different from

03:24:12.440 her intentionally walking into the lion's den the club um well that that anyways that's pretty much

03:24:19.480 pretty much it but i think he has too much time on his hands to be honest i think that's true and

03:24:24.120 super profound do it for the girls some girls don't do it for the men yeah i post shit for i don't

03:24:28.760 myself yeah i go to the club for dancing and professional dancing some girls don't like to go to the

03:24:33.080 the club to get hit on by men it's like almost the opposite wait was i yelling in the microphone

03:24:38.040 someone says okay i think it on this topic like i definitely didn't when i was looking for a

03:24:45.720 girlfriend i didn't want her to go to the club um and actually when i first met her i invited her to

03:24:51.720 a club and she said no and that's kind of that was like an indicator that that would be a good girl for

03:24:56.760 me um i don't know i i don't think it's necessarily a lot to ask because this thread is suggesting to have

03:25:03.560 to say to to want your girl to give up going to a club if she enjoys it but also at the same time

03:25:10.360 you should also just be not looking for girls in clubs if if you want a girlfriend i 100 agree

03:25:14.600 the same with a man like i'm i'm not looking for a man or in the club like and if i know that the

03:25:20.600 man go to the club like every weekend oh that's not my type like i don't think but you don't know

03:25:25.000 that when you just go to a club you don't know anything about it i don't go to the clubs i work

03:25:28.120 there so i don't well you know that they're at the club you work at the clubs that's worse i work

03:25:33.800 as a dancer oh that's china in china huh yeah colorful in china for three years and i worked

03:25:40.680 in a girl who works at the club is almost worse than a girl who goes to the club huh why are you

03:25:47.000 getting paid a bartender brother um a professional dancer some dancers like to go to clubs just to shake

03:25:53.160 a little ass maybe they don't want to be in their home maybe they want to go out to the club and do

03:25:56.280 it with their girlfriend haram but it doesn't mean that they're looking for a guy because i

03:26:00.280 gotta go to a gay club and do that to be honest i also instant break i love going to club with my

03:26:05.080 girl i don't think this guy i mean obviously this guy wasn't dating like a a model or like a singer

03:26:12.040 or someone that like their career is literally based on them presenting themselves this girl this

03:26:18.520 guy's girl is an ex so who even gives a shit i'm just i'm just saying i'm just saying that like

03:26:25.080 like he talked he talked a lot about probably dump him too hold on yeah we all enjoy a damn

03:26:31.240 good club to go to the club to go like i used to dance like like hip-hop sorry i know i cut here

03:26:36.840 let him let him talk let me say what he's going

03:26:41.240 i mean just like anything else i think it's it's just nuanced you know i've dated plenty of people

03:26:46.920 that they're they're models in their their careers based on them being able to present themselves

03:26:52.040 looking attractive and i think that it goes with the territory that if you're dating an attractive

03:26:58.040 desirable girl the world is also going to recognize it and and pine for it but like just like with

03:27:04.840 anything else i think it's a matter of of self-control and accountability and just because and just because

03:27:09.720 someone is is dming like your girl doesn't mean that she's going through these dms doesn't mean you

03:27:16.120 should go dm that's crazy and that it's it's crazy the notion of like unwarranted like messages

03:27:24.280 that aren't even being checked in a folder being compared to like a dude being like all right well

03:27:29.480 then i get to pick out any chick that i want and just flirt with her like that's absurd that there's

03:27:34.200 a reason i think that i think it's right there's a reason that threads i i get i get it was a metaphor

03:27:41.000 no i'm i'm i'm more on your side probably i think little dick game i don't know i get it's kind of

03:27:45.560 a joke but i mean like if you're like i haven't talked a lot about myself but like i have

03:27:53.080 pretty successful business i have a social media following i get direct messages from girls all

03:27:57.800 the time as well you know i i think that was kind of a cope thread for a guy that just isn't

03:28:02.920 highly successful and if if that's your problem if you're gonna spend a lot of time tweeting about

03:28:07.400 that maybe just go build yourself to the point where girls are dming you or or are like i get

03:28:12.680 approached sometimes in the grocery store you know i work out i take care of myself um i i'm yeah i'm

03:28:19.400 i think that thread was a little bit cope from from that guy yeah i think i i mean that go ahead go

03:28:24.600 ahead um in regards to women that don't have to show face like models and things like that

03:28:30.760 um going to the club you're purposefully putting yourself in a position to get hit on men knowingly

03:28:35.960 going to those clubs knowing that that is a possibility um in regards to the instagram thing

03:28:43.320 yeah it can be an insecurity and insecurities work both ways totally but um you're also still

03:28:51.400 having those options that are there where they can reply at any given time and that's not something

03:28:58.280 that happens to men that often where they have the ability to just you know what i'm gonna go back to

03:29:02.680 this girl and reply to her now and she's still there because men are going to stick around forever

03:29:08.200 um i mean you've i'm sure all of you have seen it where they reply like a year later

03:29:13.800 i don't know to nothingness and they're in your dm still like women have those opportunities all the

03:29:19.480 time and men don't really have those opportunities so it's like yeah don't worry about this guy mr

03:29:25.720 universe or mr california has those come on yeah oh okay so to be honest tell us about your jams

03:29:33.000 the vast majority of my followers actually that i got were all gay dudes to be honest

03:29:37.560 um and it was because like i had like striations on my glutes and i posted this video of me just

03:29:43.080 like flexing and like oh you can see literally every muscle fiber on my ass um oh yeah hey whatever

03:29:48.360 it's just starting on but i talk more wow that's your instagram i do so so you can show your body

03:29:54.680 but a girl can't show theirs so the intent is different though for me i'm i'm looking for the

03:29:58.520 guys to be like i'm looking for the guys to be like yo you're fucking shredded dude like nice like

03:30:03.160 i'm looking for like i'm not posting this just to be like oh i look hot here i'm just like my body

03:30:09.080 looks fucking nuts right now it's the same same no because girls are purposefully showing their

03:30:15.560 buttholes on instagram the thing is the thing is the thing is the thing is from my perspective i am

03:30:26.920 building art and so like i literally i literally pay and to and get paid to step on stage to get

03:30:41.480 judged for how i don't leave the podcast we get paid for our sponsorships don't do it to yourself

03:30:47.240 so sponsorships from companies literally but what kind of sponsorships though specifically

03:30:51.480 let him talk please is it like clothing sponsorships or food sponsorships or sponsorships that

03:31:00.680 help you obtain that goal of getting that art that you're trying to work for you're gonna be surprised

03:31:06.040 but uh i i'm like twerk for many years i was a twerk teacher i'm a dance teacher in many different ways

03:31:12.360 so and i remember i posted and most of my um followers are girls so when i post like a twerk

03:31:20.600 video sometimes which is not even sexual like i'm fully closed i got a lot of messages like oh i wish

03:31:28.120 from women i wish i have this level of confidence like teach me please you inspires me a lot with your

03:31:34.360 feminine energy the way you express yourself okay this is so like okay i gotta interrupt you because

03:31:39.080 we're moving away from the original point kind of the original point that you were

03:31:42.200 trying to make is is that as a guy we don't have like chicks just ruthlessly sliding into our dms

03:31:49.800 like some people have again bro some okay without working fucking six five six five

03:31:56.120 fucking blue check mark athletes on instagram girls are dming them that's fine however average girls

03:32:03.080 thousand followers two thousand followers just average dick that goes to college is getting dozens of dms a

03:32:08.520 week

03:32:14.360 and they will still do that i'm living my life it's not about what we're posting either who

03:32:18.520 cares why do you care the the point is is that there's a difference there between the attention

03:32:25.000 that men and women receive an average girl an average girl has dudes sliding into her dms hold on

03:32:30.520 an average dude an average girl has average well average girl has dude sliding into her dm average

03:32:37.080 dudes ain't getting a dm in their entire fucking life so but it's not your problem but part of being in

03:32:46.200 a monogamous relationship means limiting your options you're living in this world you shouldn't

03:32:59.400 say that but you want the girl to give up her instagram if if you're for what what can you

03:33:04.840 elaborate just in general for what what is she giving it up she wants to be with you and

03:33:09.560 what this the whole twitter feed thing was about that your your question is still very vague to

03:33:15.480 instagram is a dating app you're saying point blank yeah business so here's the thing

03:33:20.040 i mean i have had it's a lot it's not just okay so so fine but for example let's say an average you

03:33:26.840 guys are all content creators whatever most girls are not content creators they're average chicks but

03:33:31.720 they have instagram dudes are sliding into their dms it would in that situation where finances are not a

03:33:37.400 component it's like i wouldn't have it would not be unreasonable for a guy to be like yo you're

03:33:41.640 getting dm'd by a bunch of dudes hungry if i was a normal chick like that i would give up my instagram

03:33:48.920 and not give a damn about it okay now if my livelihood didn't depend on it i wouldn't care at all and i

03:33:53.720 wouldn't have one but the fact that ours does yes it's different for us men and women are not the same

03:33:58.840 go ahead um i'll let these two go real quick okay i was i was gonna thank you um i was just gonna say

03:34:05.080 if you're in like a secure if you're secure with yourself both partners and you guys um

03:34:11.880 are secure with each other and have that foundation you can get hit on anywhere this could happen at

03:34:17.880 work this could happen um at the grocery store however however if you're secure with yourself in

03:34:24.120 your relationship you know that even if she's getting dm'd this amount of dms she's not going to

03:34:29.160 do anything with it and why does that bother you if it bothers you then that's something deep that you

03:34:33.240 need to go searching within yourself it's your own insecurity it's not insecurity it's

03:34:36.680 no you even mentioned no you even mentioned oh guys with check marks clearly you have something

03:34:41.160 about guys with check marks and you're worried about it because you've been cracking lexi all

03:34:45.480 night it's it's an insecurity with yourself i hate to say it but it is because if you were with

03:34:50.360 somebody right if you were with somebody that like you felt good about and you knew she was all about

03:34:56.200 you and you guys have trust and everything it doesn't matter because this can happen anywhere i think a

03:35:01.160 man should be proud if anything like oh yeah there's my there's my woman and she's doing

03:35:06.280 whatever the fuck she needs to do she looks good and people are loving her especially women and of

03:35:10.920 course men are going to look at her be proud of that but she's with me like okay so that's fine

03:35:17.560 that's fine but one of the things you guys were talking about well what makes a traditional woman

03:35:21.960 one of those things is modesty posting photos of your ass on instagram is not being modest

03:35:25.720 no but i actually we're not traditional that's cool then enjoy your 50 50 relationships enjoy your

03:35:32.360 50 50 relationships that's fine then you guys then when someone breaks into your house you guys can

03:35:39.240 defend it uh well duh i shoot guns and i'm a boxer so yeah see here's the thing this is this is one of

03:35:45.720 the primary issues in modern dating non-traditional women want men to adhere to their traditional gender

03:35:51.480 roles you want men to be men but you want to go post your shit on instagram you want to

03:35:56.120 fucking fuck around and be loose and be promiscuous

03:36:00.200 women are like everything together like we're going to express myself we want to love you guys we

03:36:04.600 do love you guys we're all for you guys but we can do that because you're not insecure and you'll

03:36:08.440 let us do those things it's not yo because you know that we're not doing it for men but wait i'm

03:36:12.200 not saying be proud be proud of somebody that's putting like her ass out like half naked to that

03:36:17.080 comment that's not what i'm talking about i'm talking about yeah i can be sexy in a dress

03:36:20.120 like i have a sexy look to me even if i'm wearing i'm fully close that's not my fault

03:36:25.720 that's not my fault i'm just sexually attracted to feminine woman and i'm just posting like my

03:36:32.280 shit it's just my passion like i'm like sexy and beautiful yeah like that's what it is and not even

03:36:37.720 like it's a job like it's just a regular photo just like i have brian needs a regular girl

03:36:41.880 is what it comes down just i date regular women and you said i date regular women i yeah that's

03:36:48.760 and one of the reasons why and i mean a lot of you guys live in la i mean this is why i've refused even

03:36:56.200 though despite having been doing content creation for 10 years i've refused to live or move to la

03:37:03.800 like it's just toxic as fuck but that's that's a whole nother conversation i date regular chicks i'm

03:37:09.480 not dating content creators i don't think i've actually ever dated a girl who does content or

03:37:14.120 who does only fans ever when you say content is like 100 like adult content or you i'm doing like

03:37:20.840 any kind of i'm dating like phd students and like corporate chicks like nurses strong jobs that are

03:37:27.720 like very stressful they come home and they're like oh my god my job's so stressful like you deal with

03:37:33.080 that stuff for sure with those girls um yeah i have i have dated probably more than the content creators

03:37:38.760 that's doubtful but uh i i've i've dated women who have stressful jobs i've dated a doctor i've

03:37:43.480 dated pharmacist i've dated a physician assistant how much time do they have sure yeah and nurses

03:37:49.000 honestly a little red they have time for you in the relationship well i these were more short-term

03:37:54.520 relationships but i mean most of the women i date i'd say are i mean first of all nurses are freaking

03:37:59.640 crazy and um i was i've dated way too many nurses so trust me i know but okay what you call

03:38:07.000 insecurity i just call having a boundary and and in regards to the insecurities and we were talking

03:38:12.200 about the dms and if there's like a bunch of guys what can you guys get off your phones please

03:38:16.120 sorry yeah um just 11 pm wrap in 10 minutes i okay okay i do get messages from men and women and then

03:38:24.040 men obviously i don't entertain but even the women like i've had people offer to fly me to new york and

03:38:27.880 like pay for all this shit and and i like delete that stuff i don't even reply i don't open it i delete it

03:38:33.400 because why would i want that sitting there like i kind of hold myself to a little bit of a higher

03:38:37.720 standard to be honest um to even have that in my dms just because like i'm single too i'm single and

03:38:44.360 i deleted like five messages this morning why would you do that oh maybe why would i want to entertain

03:38:50.040 because i have values and morals that i want to value is my woman can't take me on a trip

03:38:54.840 some random woman wants to pay for me to go somewhere you're psycho for that how are you

03:39:02.200 crazy i mean no no i understand him i'm like yeah absolutely not but still like maybe i'm acting the

03:39:11.240 same in dm because i i consider if i don't want if i don't want a girl that i want to date to be doing

03:39:16.040 this stuff i i'm not going to do it either so i want to have i want to date someone that's like

03:39:20.840 similar to me but that could be the boundary too just don't respond to them or delete them

03:39:24.120 i don't know exactly that's what i'm saying though like don't leave it in your dms to just like have

03:39:28.280 it sitting there and you don't reply and that could be the boundary because it's not my responsibility

03:39:32.840 someone text me like i can't control that yo bye felicia thank you for the hundred dollars

03:39:37.400 soup chat hey mom look i'm on tv thank you felicia appreciate it all right okay um love that move

03:39:44.040 let's move that specific thing away from instagram and let's just say a man doesn't want his girlfriend

03:39:50.280 going to the club do you object to that controlling totally controlling it's controlling

03:39:57.320 i would never want to restrict my guy from going to the club the strip club any of that

03:40:00.840 i don't believe in restriction at all i i believe in letting people do what they want to do

03:40:05.560 so they can always tell me their authentic truth they never have to hold back and if it's something

03:40:09.320 like you said i think you don't want them to you know respond to these dms or whatever then that's

03:40:14.840 the boundary and you just are able to create those boundaries but if you don't have that safe space

03:40:18.680 it's never going to happen and things will happen behind people's backs i guess i guess like

03:40:23.400 a good analogy for me is like and not not that in a relationship there should be a dog but like

03:40:29.720 like a dog that wants to be around you you don't have to have a leash on it right like i don't want to

03:40:34.200 have to like leash somebody and like tell them what they can and can't do if if someone wants to be with

03:40:42.280 me i want them to naturally do that without like me telling them like valid what what like i think

03:40:49.000 i think you lay out your needs you tell you tell people what what it is that you're looking for

03:40:53.320 and if they don't naturally have that like don't expect people to change for you there's so many

03:40:58.600 there's just so many people on this planet i just i don't i just don't get consumed by like

03:41:03.320 if something works 95 just don't compromise and don't expect someone else to compromise like

03:41:08.120 like everybody at least in my in my opinion i think everybody deserves to be with someone that

03:41:13.640 gives them the type of love that they need um obviously as i've already said that starts with

03:41:18.360 you being able to love yourself first and knowing who you are it's the only way that you'll ever be

03:41:22.520 able to look you know loved appropriately but once you do that i think you just got to know what it

03:41:28.360 is you're looking for and then and then be uncompromising like don't don't falter and don't don't

03:41:35.960 try to make someone something that they're not because you're going to end up getting upset at

03:41:40.680 them and and think and making them feel like a piece of shit for just being in a different phase

03:41:45.800 in their life and like for beta like the reality is like you don't brian you don't want to be with

03:41:51.560 someone that you have to tell that they have to like stop posting certain types of pics or like

03:41:56.520 going to places that you don't want them going like that just isn't your dating pool so it should

03:42:00.600 never be your concern it's not it's not the type of person like like the way the way i'm putting it

03:42:05.960 is like it's not like you're going to meet a girl that was going out to a club and then be like stop

03:42:10.840 going out to a club you don't want a girl that's going out to a club that's that's the the main point

03:42:15.320 yeah you're not you're not the end line of her club going you know she was never a person that was

03:42:20.920 a girl that wanted to be going out to a club are you wearing my rainbow i am all right we're married

03:42:24.520 yeah yeah oh my god it's official but but uh no i'm you you make a fair point i i guess uh

03:42:32.840 he didn't so so your fair point is that i agree with you ideally the girl just from the get-go

03:42:40.040 already has these things that i'm looking for i don't it's not like i have to coach her or try to

03:42:45.480 change bad habits for example however i mean the thing is is that the way society is hookup culture

03:42:51.160 all this stuff there is i think there's a lot of bad programming and i think some girls can be

03:42:57.560 unprogrammed in other words like a girl you guys are like what the fuck but like don't try to change

03:43:03.000 i just i just don't want to be i just want to be someone's knight in shining armor and i and i don't

03:43:07.240 i don't want to be sometimes some some people can't change if they're made for the streets or they just

03:43:12.520 feel like they always want to be out at clubs but like are you getting free drinks yeah are you like

03:43:17.800 trying to pick up like a dog from an adoption center do you want like the thoroughbred that

03:43:22.200 you were looking for what i mean is like i think it's rarely gonna exist that's i just stuff i talk

03:43:27.560 about with my girlfriend all the time is and judging from experiences looking at the people that we know

03:43:33.720 that have been really in relationships the longest um you know our parents or grandparents or other

03:43:41.080 you know adult figures still in relationships they all say that they had to compromise

03:43:45.800 they don't love everything about their partner but if you want long-term relationship well that's not

03:43:50.760 that's not what i'm saying i'm saying i'm saying if if a core value for you is i don't want other

03:43:56.440 men being able to approach i want you unapproachable but on a club topic yeah yeah you should definitely

03:44:02.600 find a girl then you should find a girl that's not going out to clubs i'm not saying like well i

03:44:06.600 prefer that she had blonde hair or i wish she was a little bit funnier like those those are those are

03:44:10.840 those are nuanced things i'm talking about like core values you want to you want a girl it sounds

03:44:15.640 like that's pretty important is what i'm saying and so like like me coming up like oh i i want

03:44:21.000 kids and a guy doesn't want kids and i'm trying you can't change he's mine you can't change someone

03:44:25.560 in the minute you think that you can change someone you're gonna get as far as the whole club thing

03:44:28.680 man these people these people in the i just i just wonder how like a lot of these dudes that are that

03:44:34.680 are in the comments live because all of them are saying like it's so cringe and it's an l i'm like

03:44:40.520 i did i just i wonder what happened in our world that like led to people thinking that they needed to

03:44:47.560 be so harsh yeah it's insane to me that you think that you need to be like this this toxic person in

03:44:55.240 order to to maintain something that is inherently volatile if you have to like be trying to make

03:45:01.080 someone something they're not you you yourself have insecurities that you have to be dealing

03:45:05.640 with look for example for example so when you first meet someone for example there's no expectation

03:45:13.320 on immediately of commitment or loyalty so perhaps they're sleeping with other people me personally

03:45:20.200 that's just a no-go from the get-go yeah but for some people they acknowledge hey when i'm first

03:45:25.560 meeting someone there's no expectation of exclusivity so i'm not exclusive they're not exclusive so

03:45:31.400 however once you have the conversation and say and this is a negotiation that that can be initiated

03:45:38.280 by either party of we want to now be monogamous you can't you you're both putting up a boundary which is

03:45:46.280 i'm not going to sleep with anybody you're not going to sleep with anybody my view of nightclubs

03:45:50.440 and bars is these are singles venues that just that just feels like hold on these are very specific

03:45:56.520 social gatherings these are for single people so that's that's the framework with which i view

03:46:02.120 these business i feel you something like i feel you but i guess i guess for me well it is different

03:46:07.160 between men and women because as a guy if you go to a club all alone without any intention of talking

03:46:13.000 to anybody nobody's going to talk to you the entire night however an average take two people an average

03:46:19.640 girl an average guy average guy goes to a nightclub or bar he goes into the corner he goes hold on

03:46:26.440 nobody's no girls coming to hit on the average dude however that average chick is probably going

03:46:31.480 to get approached multiple times but i can reject and go ahead yeah but it's about if you respect your

03:46:37.160 partner you just don't hold on if you respect your partner you just don't engage in activities

03:46:42.840 designed for single people i won't do it literally all he was saying is core values if you have

03:46:48.520 certain core values then you look for those core values that's it yeah sure yes and don't go for

03:46:54.280 the girl that doesn't have and you can't change them i don't change them because it's going to be

03:46:57.480 terrible i don't drink i don't go to bars i don't go to clubs i don't party so i'm looking for a

03:47:02.600 girl who's on my level yeah okay okay exactly i don't do i don't go to the clubs like really

03:47:09.560 but what if like one month one time in a year i want to go to their africa i love afro clubs i

03:47:15.720 dance afro and dance hall so you said you tell me my my point of i already have my standards so my

03:47:21.720 my standard is i'm not interested in the girl that's going to the club every night of the week

03:47:25.640 i guess i'm more so coming at it from the angle of almost like warning dudes don't get involved with

03:47:31.720 chicks that are clubbing all the time because a good girlfriend that does not make okay wait can

03:47:38.360 i can i just say i think i think a lot of people are misunderstanding me i'm not i'm not saying that

03:47:44.760 like if i'm seeing someone they they can do whatever they want of course they can do whatever they want

03:47:50.520 but if they're doing something that they want to be doing that i don't want my partner doing

03:47:55.400 end of the relationship and that's okay all respect all love like that that's what you have to

03:48:00.120 understand is if you're having to tell your partner like what you need after you guys have

03:48:06.440 already had that discussion you're you're you're in the wrong game let me ask you this so let's say

03:48:11.560 you you met let's say your girl was on hinge on a dating app on tinder sure and then that was a

03:48:17.720 behavior that she was engaging in prior to meeting you however now you guys are thinking about getting

03:48:24.600 in a relationship committed monogamous relationship i assume you'd want her maybe okay this would not

03:48:31.480 be controlling it would not be controlling to say hey we're both going to delete our dating apps in the

03:48:36.920 same way like hey and i think i think for me for me it just it just sort of feels and maybe this is

03:48:44.040 specific to me but it just sort of feels like a beta move to like have to even have that discussion

03:48:49.240 any girl that i've been genuinely interested in gave up everything immediately like didn't even

03:48:54.840 want to look at other people i didn't have to ask them like and that and that's that's because the

03:48:59.480 energy that i bring is is powerful enough i feel that i don't have to ask a girl or tell a girl what

03:49:04.920 she can and can't do she naturally wants to be with someone that's right for them right like if you have

03:49:11.160 to ask it's not the right person that's personally how i feel and if i do if i have to over extend

03:49:16.120 myself in any sort of way i don't want it you know what i mean yeah so so that's that's what

03:49:20.200 it comes down to like i'm not i'm not out here saying like my girl can do whatever she wants

03:49:25.800 if she's doing something that i don't want in in a relationship all all love you you guys all have

03:49:30.280 your own paths like live your life do your thing just i'm i'm just i just i know myself i respect

03:49:35.640 myself and and i and i know that i don't have to ask like i i i bring that energy you know i bring

03:49:42.360 an energy that that if if i start seeing someone like i i know that they're they're gonna you know

03:49:48.840 cut things off without without me even having to talk about it yeah i always want people to make

03:49:53.400 their own decisions that's my point and that's like yeah and if you have to try to make someone's

03:49:58.520 decision for them it's never you know what you know and i didn't mean that one-sided the same goes

03:50:04.120 for me is is from the jump if i if i rock with someone it's like i i get tunnel vision and i'm like

03:50:11.160 this is amazing yeah as long as it's amazing for you it's amazing for me and if it's not amazing

03:50:15.560 for you we'll talk about it or we'll exit it i agree with you about dating like looking for someone

03:50:21.080 looking for your partner that has those core values that you you know want to find in your

03:50:25.720 partner but i also think that where brian's coming from is like you're already dating for a

03:50:30.040 while and you find out that suddenly this person goes past a boundary that you have as your core

03:50:37.400 value um what do you do in those instances if you're not going to ask them to change but they've

03:50:42.840 already crossed that boundary but you've been together for a while and you just thought you

03:50:47.320 found that person that goes with your core values so so where where do you establish like

03:50:53.720 um the compromise there or do you just stop dating that person and you just wasted six months of your

03:50:58.280 life for sure um have to talk to her or him and but you just find this out last minute though

03:51:04.280 that's what i'm getting at right and make them understand where they you know messed up and how

03:51:09.640 that's not that's kind of like not what you were standing for and not what you wanted

03:51:14.040 it also depends if you set the boundaries beforehand how she's supposed to know your

03:51:18.920 boundaries are if you didn't tell her so if she did it behind your back or after knowing even though

03:51:23.640 she did it knowing that you don't like that shit then that's her problem but i'm what i'm getting

03:51:28.760 at is though you find the partner that you want and you've been dating for a while and then she

03:51:33.240 goes you know what it's tiffany's birthday tomorrow i'm going to go to the club with her just me and

03:51:38.120 the girls and we're going to celebrate yeah people and you don't want to you don't want to condone

03:51:43.320 for that what i'm getting at is if you if that if that already crosses one of your boundaries you

03:51:48.680 always need to check in and what are you going to do what is like what's the boundary that you

03:51:52.520 probably should have established that at the beginning of the relationship

03:51:59.160 okay so so what do you do then when you get into a relationship though that you do you like send a

03:52:03.080 whole ass paragraph and be like this is everything that i want in a person either you meet it or you go

03:52:08.200 actually yes you become friends that is what you do you get to know them obviously but i'm saying

03:52:12.520 after a while like what if they're just like hey i'm gonna go do this one thing well you have a

03:52:16.600 conversation you have a conversation about it so then you agree with compromise then no no no

03:52:22.360 in relationships in relationships you always have to check in things change i have to do this last

03:52:26.920 soup chat then we have one video to watch and then we got a wrap okay jeremy korea brian please go

03:52:33.480 around the table and ask each girl why she feels the need to yell into the mic at the same time as

03:52:37.880 everyone else my ears are bleeding yo alk uh thank you for the uh super chat brian you desperately

03:52:43.640 need a vacation love from nyc uh yeah i am taking a couple weeks off actually after tonight's show

03:52:49.080 uh well i was planning on doing that anyways but uh yeah i'm taking uh two three weeks off so uh

03:52:54.840 yeah um thank you man appreciate appreciate the donation man thank you all for the i don't know

03:53:00.600 about that okay i'll meet you there all right on my own dime okay all right um so

03:53:07.880 let's see here actually you'd have to pay you'd take me to hawaii sure maui i took my ex-boyfriend

03:53:13.400 to hawaii you might be upset about that i would be upset about that yeah because my past relationship

03:53:18.600 i mean are you were uh four seasons good for you oh it was good four seasons

03:53:23.640 on maui okay you pay for it get booked and you can dm me the details all right cool um miss breadwinner

03:53:30.680 all right okay so um eric can you uh pull up the uh patrice clip and then we're going to watch that

03:53:39.080 and then wrap

03:53:39.640 let me ask you a question here's a question here's a good serious question

03:53:55.080 okay ladies if you didn't have a vagina like say it was a terrible train accident right and the doctor

03:54:02.600 was like we have to remove your pussy right away or you're gonna die

03:54:10.760 how would you keep your man past you get a two-month guilty i can't leave the

03:54:17.480 bitch right away because she just lost the pussy in the train accident

03:54:24.040 can't just walk right out on him

03:54:25.400 how would you keep your man past that if you didn't have a vagina

03:54:35.720 positive eric um you can't

03:54:41.080 because men want pussy period there's no way you're keeping the

03:54:44.680 bitch yeah so this is what it is you guys are like that keep in mind you know recently there's

03:54:49.160 been some trained derailments in this country it's plausible that

03:54:53.240 a chick lost her pussy i'm just saying maybe a chick lost her pussy recently so this is very um

03:55:00.360 you know it's uh reese what's the term for uh i don't know and in any case so you've you've lost

03:55:07.080 the pussy pussy's gone what do you do though what do you do though lexi to keep your man

03:55:13.880 what that mouth do so we're bringing a girlfriend in

03:55:18.280 okay bringing yeah so i guess we got to bring in another chick okay because i know that's probably

03:55:25.880 what's gonna happen eventually anyway okay what about you um i don't know i expect he's gonna

03:55:30.440 communicate but polyamorous like i said so okay i'm probably gonna find a man who um asexual how you

03:55:40.440 call that person who like not into asexual okay so you'd leave the guy like there's no way you can

03:55:45.240 keep relationship because men's need that so oh and i'm not into like poly so oh i thought you're

03:55:52.280 about to say you're not into bjs huh i don't know what doesn't mean uh can someone translate

03:55:57.400 what a blow job blow job into russian for us the mouth the oral cavity uh for i i still believe

03:56:05.640 that for men is not enough not enough okay what about you honestly great idea finding somebody

03:56:09.880 who's asexual leaving your partner i guess i don't want to see him another girl so yeah okay

03:56:15.480 because i'd find somebody who doesn't want to fuck me i think i think men can live without sex um

03:56:21.640 depending on how strong will they are and there's also other ways of pleasuring a man it doesn't need

03:56:28.600 to be your vagina such as your mouth your hands or just your heart and your brain your feet ah

03:56:35.160 i see okay what about you um i would first have a conversation with him i'm a very open-minded

03:56:42.920 person so if he would be okay with me just pleasing him hand job blow job then great but if there's

03:56:50.440 something that he might need more i would be open to possibly bringing somebody else in or like

03:56:55.880 polyamory or something like that if he loves you you wouldn't have to do that so oh i i i

03:57:00.120 like to dip bit like go a little differently on that but i just i think it's the conversation with

03:57:06.520 the person all right eric let's play the rest of the clip

03:57:12.200 wow nothing you can talk you can talk

03:57:24.440 suck his dick okay mouth

03:57:26.440 has there been more than that brings references a lot yeah why so many

03:57:30.600 asshole okay great you see what i'm saying now i've been getting pussy beating the whole show right

03:57:37.000 but i give women the opportunity to say i'm gonna make myself worth more but you just classified

03:57:42.600 yourself as a series of holes but but you know i'm

03:57:49.800 i'm supposed to teach you special but you're just a bunch of holes for yourself

03:57:54.680 going to mordor no one said learn how to play xbox learn how to play pool

03:57:59.720 tell better stories get another that got a pussy to come on in

03:58:02.920 well look whatever

03:58:09.880 okay i don't think most of you didn't take the bait on that but uh yeah okay uh we have this from

03:58:15.480 jeremy korea well the bait is like typically the the girl's uh we'll say mouth anus

03:58:25.080 you gotta watch the clip all right we have uh jeremy korea thank you for the hundred man

03:58:29.560 yo brian thank you man please go around the table and ask oh wait oh i already got this i

03:58:33.560 thought was there another one eric did we miss one something about a hobbit

03:58:37.640 a what a hobbit i know that if a guy's dick falls off a woman would love him unconditionally still

03:58:43.320 and not fuck other people wait let me wait wait hold on most women i think most

03:58:50.920 yeah you might be the exception but i don't think most women so you would not

03:58:55.320 not the no if a guy's dick fell off a girl would still be okay to be with them if they love them

03:59:00.360 i think that i would still love him but i would want to have sex what if he doesn't give head

03:59:06.360 oh that's okay too we have dildos not everyone likes eric it's muted can you unmute it

03:59:12.440 yeah we need the building bro not everyone likes heads i don't know do we not have the the hip-hop

03:59:17.400 horn this one music in my ears all right here let me read this last one we have uh yo samita thank

03:59:25.320 you for the hundred man appreciate it the first girl is so cringe actually lexi why don't you read

03:59:30.360 this is this about me yeah you read it the first girl is so cringe the fact that she can't even like

03:59:35.240 herself she needs she needs to be bella supermodel whatever her life it's coming back up go ahead

03:59:41.240 whatever her oh bella hadib thanks honey whatever her last name is ladies tell me

03:59:46.920 are your mom stupid like y'all too because that i would understand why y'all stupid and sluts the

03:59:53.880 last person that talked about my mom i beat his ass by the way so you better watch your goddamn mouth

03:59:58.520 oh my god the chat is on fire you're just mad you probably chat is on fire hello yeah i want to

04:00:07.080 see you come out here and and see what i would love the thing is they would never see this stuff

04:00:11.480 in person i know from experience they never say this stuff in person yeah sure they become a fan

04:00:18.680 automatically when you respond who cares yeah they can say the worst stuff too then they're like oh

04:00:25.560 never mind i was just joking yeah i'm sure you were okay chat was this was this safe asteroid panel

04:00:34.040 yes or no eric can you show us catastrophic absolutely eric was this uh chat was it a uh

04:00:41.640 i will rain down on a godly firestorm upon you you're gonna have to call the

04:00:45.640 fucking united was it one in the chat if it was an asteroid episode one in the chat if it was an

04:00:51.320 asteroid episode asteroid emojis works too one in the chat i will you up

04:00:57.080 okay it seems to be the case that it was in fact an asteroid oh yeah that means we're gonna get so

04:01:04.280 many fucking views send the asteroid okay clout clout clout can you add those eric okay cool uh

04:01:12.200 final thought before i wrap anybody follow us on instagram follow me on only fans

04:01:17.480 get a massage find god find god that'd be a good idea please pray yeah find god if you believe in

04:01:25.240 him i love god i love jesus who says we don't believe in god we believe in god just because we

04:01:30.920 fuck doesn't mean we don't believe in god if you want an incredible partner start by working on

04:01:34.600 yourself yes amen to that one love yourself don't be judgy like brian yeah jk love you

04:01:44.120 no just know what you want thank you for having us brian i pray for our future yeah

04:01:50.840 if you can't children are our future so have more kids if you can't handle a hot girl don't

04:01:54.840 date a hot girl yeah if you can't take the heat did we make any progress did anyone learn anything

04:02:01.000 probably not i feel like this is a pretty pessimistic ending i learned that we're doomed

04:02:05.240 there's no way this is just how the world thinks this isn't this isn't normal i hope yeah i hope i

04:02:17.480 hope that y'all out there are smarter than this i just think there's a misconception i just think

04:02:21.480 you guys shouldn't take everything so damn seriously that's what i think exactly you should

04:02:25.640 definitely have some of these people on the chat work on like world peace man like go and like go out

04:02:31.240 and vote or something don't worry about voting that's rigged that's more important what oh my

04:02:37.960 god what is lexi doing sorry my shoes okay but so i'm judgmental you think no i think you just know

04:02:45.320 i think you just know what you want but you do i think have a very biased thing of the people and

04:02:49.400 what they do around you i truly believe that you are very educational and you will know exactly what

04:02:55.720 you want what you're saying are facts as fuck but i don't think you're seeing it from all the

04:03:02.120 perspectives because i think you only see it from one way and if i sat down one day with you and we

04:03:07.960 would have coffee and i told you my story then you'd be like oh i don't drink coffee i'm sorry okay you

04:03:12.280 can have your tea or your water i'll have some chamomile tea thank you very much love chamomile tea

04:03:17.240 you would understand that you can be a certain way or have a certain outlook on women or on men or

04:03:23.880 whatever people's lifestyles that's all but other than that i like you i think you're great i think

04:03:29.160 you're a great businessman brian congratulations to your podcast it's gonna thrive yeah slay slay

04:03:36.280 thank you thank you for the endorsement lexi i'm gonna put that on my you should twitter

04:03:40.440 or something you should um so wait i'm closed-minded yeah for me yeah i think you're closed-minded because

04:03:47.000 you only want to date um you have a very narrow group of men that you're going to that you want

04:03:55.320 to date oh the same i i know what i want that's not that's not like that you guys should date yeah

04:04:02.360 oh my god except maybe you can look past that you know what's funny actually my dad was born in

04:04:08.440 africa my mom was born in america so technically i'm african-american oh but it's not a loophole

04:04:16.600 south africa algeria but you know below maybe you know what under the belt oh my god i can promise

04:04:25.240 you brian is definitely african-american down there yeah what what the what rick how do you know

04:04:32.440 oh my god energy oh whoa whoa whoa okay uh

04:04:40.760 oh my god last thing last thing my friends uh eric can you pull it what wait why is this still okay

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04:05:36.200 much man i really appreciate it all right cool so guys if you don't know this i've got a nice pack

04:05:44.280 here i got a heat pack on my neck my neck is scuffed um tweaked so i'm taking two to three weeks off so

04:05:50.680 there's not going to be uh shows for about two three weeks uh i'll probably post something on my

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04:06:25.640 but anyways so thank you guys for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the

04:06:30.520 um hold on i i have something someone's flustered again

04:06:45.080 they can't they can't see yeah you're gonna have to do it again where's the camera you're just not

04:06:52.360 lining you gotta move to your eyes oh god jesus christ i'm gonna pretend like you need to just

04:07:00.040 make my dick go soft you're welcome i can already tell that i don't like you i'm gonna pretend like

04:07:07.080 you need to just make my dick go soft not quite opposite wait there was one more um wait here we go

04:07:14.360 hold on uh that crazy dancing making my penis soft wow that crazy dancing making my penis soft

04:07:25.160 okay all right so um thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world

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04:07:49.720 situation and tts not working we'll get it fixed for next time thank you to the wonderful panel for

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04:07:59.560 uh let's see go follow us on instagram any uh any women who are short and or have large labia my dms

04:08:05.640 are open bd underscore atlas what hello uh guys we'll be live again well i don't know when we'll be live

04:08:12.680 again but two to three weeks guys anyways guys that's it thank you guys so much for tuning in we'll see

04:08:17.240 you next time good night guys bye signing out

Whatever Podcast - March 29, 2023

Dating Talk #67

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