Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #71

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00:04:14.720 further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves, so please tell us your name, age,

00:04:19.020 and occupation. Go ahead. Hello. My name is Giselle. I am 22, and I stream on Twitch.

00:04:27.960 What's your, what do you stream on Twitch? Video games? Just chatting? What I like to do is kind

00:04:34.040 of more therapy, so if anyone is having any problems at home or in any type of relationships,

00:04:40.180 they can come and talk to me. And you said you're 22, right? Yes. So you're a therapist? I'm not

00:04:47.900 certified therapist. Okay. But what I do is basically like therapy. You give relationship

00:04:54.340 advice. Advice. Ish. Okay. Got it. Okay, very cool. What about you? My name is Rihanna. I am 21,

00:05:01.720 and I'm just a waitress. Just a waitress? No content creation? No. Just a waitress? Yeah. Okay,

00:05:09.260 got it. What about you? Hi, I'm Destiny. I'm an artist, so I do music, and I'm also on TikTok.

00:05:16.400 I'm basically on all platforms, and I'm a lash tech, and I do all my fans. Okay, wow. You wear many

00:05:23.120 hats. Age? Oh, 21. 21. Okay, where are you from, by the way? I was raised in Oklahoma.

00:05:31.700 And I stay in San Diego. Okay, I detect a bit of an accent, so. What is it? Are you from like the

00:05:37.560 sticks? Yeah. In Oklahoma? Basically, it's the country. Okay. There we go. What about you?

00:05:42.540 Hi, my name is Jen. I'm from Long Beach, California, but. The LBC? Yeah, but I stay in Ohio right now.

00:05:49.780 Are you affiliated? Huh? No, but. Is that the word? I got a couple people that are. Oh, okay. Yeah.

00:05:56.960 How old are you? I'm 19. And then your occupation? I'm a travel nurse, and I do OnlyFans.

00:06:04.500 Wait, did you just say. And I'm a dancer. Wait, hold on. Travel nurse? Yeah.

00:06:10.500 You're an RN? No, I'm working. Closer to the mic. Yeah, I'm working towards my OPN,

00:06:16.500 but I'm a travel, like, phlebotomist, so. That's a little different than the travel nurse.

00:06:21.920 Well, categorize it kind of the same. Well, phlebotomist, I mean, it's the entry level to

00:06:29.300 become a phlebotomist is substantially lower than a nurse. Right. So, could you look at my

00:06:37.540 veins later and tell me if I've got, like, good? Yeah, for sure. Okay, cool. Yeah. Okay,

00:06:41.480 and then you also do OnlyFans. Yeah. Have you ever thought of combining the two? Phlebotomy?

00:06:50.420 Yeah, I never thought of it. And OnlyFans. I don't really know how I can kind of put those

00:06:55.100 together. Maybe I can figure out later. There's something for everybody. Okay. How long have

00:07:01.300 you been doing OnlyFans? Probably about four months now. Four months. Okay, got it. Cool.

00:07:07.500 What about you? Hi, I'm Kelly. I'm 21. I'm a student, and I'm a branded stylist through

00:07:12.640 Nordstrom, and I also do content creation and social media for them. For Nordstrom?

00:07:17.440 Mm-hmm. Oh, cool. Okay. Hi, my name is Apelinaria. I am 25 years old. I am studying in Santa Monica

00:07:27.780 College for my prerequisites for a master's, and also working at a startup. Okay.

00:07:35.380 Hi, my name is Ksenia. I'm from Russia, but I've been traveling a lot, and I also moved

00:07:41.520 to different countries. I've been living in Austria, and now I'm here. I just finished UCLA

00:07:46.320 in application programming, so I'm in tech, and in the future, I want to start my startup

00:07:52.180 as well. Age?

00:07:53.960 I'm 25. 25. Okay. How many languages do you two speak?

00:07:58.940 I speak free. Oh, by the way, we've been knowing each other for 17 years, so yeah. We're both

00:08:05.780 from the same city in Russia, apparently. Smolensk? No. Is that Russia? It is. Or is

00:08:11.940 that Poland? It's very random that you know Smolensk.

00:08:14.760 Smolensk. It's Russia, but not from Smolensk.

00:08:18.080 No, not from Smolensk. It's just, there's this famous painting by a Polish painter. Anyways,

00:08:23.720 what about you?

00:08:25.800 My name is Lauren. I do content creation, and I am 29.

00:08:32.820 29. What kind of content creation do you do?

00:08:35.720 I'm on YouTube. My YouTube channel is called Lauren de Laguna, and I just graduated law school,

00:08:42.340 and I just passed the bar, so I do. Congrats. Thanks. So I do like some legal stuff, and

00:08:50.560 we also do morning news. We do interviews, but our crown jewel of Lauren de Laguna is our

00:08:58.680 like Judge Judy type show, where I'm the judge, and it's called Lauren Order, so yeah.

00:09:05.840 So you're like hearing like, are you arbitrating small claims type stuff, or what?

00:09:10.400 Well, you know, if we do have people who are actually in real life court, we put their

00:09:17.020 issues, their real life issues over our content creation, so we try to wait for real life issues

00:09:24.020 to wrap up. For instance, we had this award-winning journalist, Aiden Carney, aka Turtle Boy, and

00:09:32.180 he was accused of harassing a person, and they had a whole hit, the person, some other person,

00:09:41.120 other content creator accused him of harassing someone, and they had the whole debate on my

00:09:45.820 show, but they did it after the legal decision was already decided in real court, and he won

00:09:52.740 in real court. Okay, and are you currently actually practicing law, or? So you have to wait for

00:10:01.220 something called character and fitness, and I just passed the bar in Florida, so I'm just waiting

00:10:06.940 for all of that, and hopefully all of that finishes soon, and then I could get sworn in, and then I

00:10:13.940 will be working. Yeah, I'm very excited for that. What kind of law are you going to be practicing?

00:10:18.900 Previously, so right after law school, I went into public defense work, and I really enjoyed

00:10:25.560 that, and I'm currently speaking with a public defense office in Florida, and I really, I've

00:10:33.540 spoken to a lot of the employees there, and they're just so wonderful, and so I hope to work in that

00:10:37.480 office as soon as I'm certified. Okay, very cool, very cool.

00:10:41.480 Hello, my name is John, and I am 44 years old, and I am the creator of the It's Complicated

00:10:49.840 channel on YouTube, also known as the Rules of Modern Dating and Understanding Women. I frequent

00:10:55.880 the Las Vegas Strip, and I just interview random people and ask them questions about dating.

00:11:00.660 It's a really good channel, guys. Go check it out, and let's see. How long have you been

00:11:06.600 doing the channel, by the way?

00:11:07.460 I think it's about over three years now. What was your occupation before that?

00:11:12.620 I would sell collectibles on eBay. I worked at a music venue, and yeah, that's pretty much.

00:11:20.740 Okay, got it. Got it. Okay, cool. So we're going to go around the table once more. Current

00:11:26.320 relationship status, so are you single? You got friends with benefits, talking stage, situationship,

00:11:31.280 relationship, engaged, married, and also what is your longest relationship? Go ahead.

00:11:37.460 Okay. I'm single, and my longest relationship was a little over a year.

00:11:43.020 Okay. How long ago was that relationship?

00:11:50.700 Over a year ago.

00:11:52.020 Over a year ago.

00:11:52.500 Or a year ago now, yeah.

00:11:53.660 Okay, so that was your most recent relationship, too? Or you've had something in between?

00:11:59.220 No, no, no, no. Okay, so my longest one was, like, three years ago, and then my most recent

00:12:06.520 one was a year ago.

00:12:07.800 Okay, got it.

00:12:08.700 Yeah.

00:12:09.500 What about you?

00:12:10.980 I'm single. I, the longest relationship I have, I think it's, it was a little over a

00:12:16.780 year. Other than that.

00:12:22.300 Um, complicated, and my longest relationship was, like, six years.

00:12:30.020 Complicated. Okay. Well, what do you mean, what do you mean by it's complicated? Go subscribe.

00:12:36.180 Like, I mean, it's, like, it's kind of just stuff happening, like, now. You know what I'm

00:12:41.640 saying?

00:12:42.620 I don't know what you're saying.

00:12:43.460 Like, it was cool up until, like, the past couple days. So it's, like, it's recent. So

00:12:48.060 it's kind of, like, complicated.

00:12:49.180 How long have you been seeing the, it's complicated guy? Not.

00:12:52.620 Like, five months.

00:12:53.900 Five months. But recently, as of a couple days ago, there's been some conflict.

00:12:57.720 Mm-hmm.

00:12:58.100 Did you cheat on him? 0.99

00:13:01.060 No. What?

00:13:01.940 Huh?

00:13:02.120 Wait, what'd you say?

00:13:02.680 Would you consider him your boyfriend?

00:13:03.960 Oh, yeah. No, we was living together. Like, we lived together and everything, so.

00:13:07.280 Okay. So you're in a relationship.

00:13:09.620 Yeah, we're just, like.

00:13:10.700 Are you, are you guys on a break?

00:13:12.260 Yeah. No. No.

00:13:14.720 We're literally in the process of basically, like, splitting up our apartments and everything,

00:13:19.220 so.

00:13:19.700 So you guys are, the breakup is.

00:13:21.880 But it's toxic, because we're, like, staying together right now. So it's, like, you know

00:13:25.440 what I'm saying?

00:13:25.920 So the breakup is imminent?

00:13:27.640 It's, yes.

00:13:28.980 Okay. But you're living together. Has either of you brought someone else to the pad?

00:13:36.820 No.

00:13:37.840 What would you do if he did?

00:13:39.160 He definitely wouldn't, because.

00:13:40.360 You wouldn't do that, because.

00:13:41.640 I would definitely.

00:13:42.740 What would you do? Tell us what would you do.

00:13:44.040 I mean, you said I can, because I would beat a bitch up. 1.00

00:13:47.860 You'd beat the bitch up? 1.00

00:13:48.880 Yeah. 1.00

00:13:49.340 A bitch up. 1.00

00:13:49.880 But then I'd have to beat him up, too. 1.00

00:13:51.340 You'd beat him?

00:13:52.060 But he wouldn't do that.

00:13:52.340 Who would you beat up first?

00:13:54.420 It just depends on the situation.

00:13:56.920 You know?

00:13:57.060 Okay.

00:13:57.540 It's, like.

00:13:58.240 Tell it.

00:13:58.680 What would.

00:13:59.280 That could happen a lot of different ways.

00:14:00.860 It could go down a couple different ways.

00:14:02.080 Mm-hmm.

00:14:02.500 Okay.

00:14:03.300 It's a patio.

00:14:04.720 There's a patio.

00:14:05.580 I could, like, you know, toss him over or something.

00:14:07.200 Toss him over the patio.

00:14:08.000 Yeah.

00:14:08.040 There's a patio.

00:14:08.300 Okay, cool.

00:14:09.380 Domestic violence.

00:14:10.160 Good times.

00:14:11.240 So, why is it, has it been on the rocks for a while, or?

00:14:15.140 No, it's, like, it's really recent.

00:14:16.820 That's why I say it's complicated.

00:14:18.240 Like, it's just, it's kind of, like, you know.

00:14:20.980 Infidelity involved, or no?

00:14:22.740 But you guys are going to break up.

00:14:24.460 It's kind of, like, in between.

00:14:27.340 That's, like, the best.

00:14:28.060 Do you want to break up with him?

00:14:29.680 I don't, but it's kind of, like, we're two different people.

00:14:32.680 I see, like, two different paths, and it's kind of, you know?

00:14:36.500 Okay.

00:14:37.300 Interesting.

00:14:38.000 That's why I say it's complicated, because, I don't know.

00:14:41.420 How old is he?

00:14:42.640 He just turned 21.

00:14:46.000 Huh.

00:14:46.520 Okay.

00:14:46.960 Complicated.

00:14:47.940 In the process of, who, was there, has there been, like, a definitive breakup conversation?

00:14:54.780 Or are you guys just fighting right now?

00:14:56.800 It's really just, like, right now.

00:14:58.380 Like, it's, um, I don't know how to explain it.

00:15:01.860 Like, what do you mean?

00:15:03.440 Well, I mean, has there been, like.

00:15:04.040 Like, has it been a topic of. . .

00:15:05.920 Has there been a conversation where, like, we're done?

00:15:08.640 Or have you, are you guys just in conflict right now?

00:15:11.020 It's in conflict, but. . .

00:15:12.580 Okay.

00:15:12.900 We're, like, back and forth, because it's, like, we live together, so we try to work it out.

00:15:16.500 And it's, like, no.

00:15:17.320 Is he watching the show right now?

00:15:18.620 He might be.

00:15:19.380 What's up?

00:15:19.860 What's up, babe?

00:15:21.200 What's his name?

00:15:22.720 Jalen.

00:15:23.620 Jalen.

00:15:23.940 Yeah.

00:15:25.420 Jalen.

00:15:25.980 Is there a chance of reconciliation here, you know?

00:15:28.760 Just, um, I don't know.

00:15:30.460 No?

00:15:31.380 No.

00:15:31.660 She did threaten to domestically attack you. 0.96

00:15:36.520 In the event. . .

00:15:37.420 Yes.

00:15:37.680 In the event. . .

00:15:38.020 You have to add that in there.

00:15:38.860 In the event of infidelity.

00:15:40.160 So be careful, Jalen.

00:15:41.260 Mm-hmm. 1.00

00:15:42.020 She'll fuck both of you up. 1.00

00:15:43.020 Okay. 1.00

00:15:43.220 Exactly.

00:15:43.460 Uh, what about you?

00:15:45.700 Um, what was that again?

00:15:48.840 I'm sorry.

00:15:49.220 Yeah.

00:15:49.680 Relationship status.

00:15:50.660 How long is relationship?

00:15:51.500 Um, so I'm currently single.

00:15:54.020 Um, my longest relationship was two and a half years.

00:15:58.060 Okay.

00:15:58.620 Currently single, two and a half years.

00:15:59.960 Uh, when was that?

00:16:00.980 It was, uh, over a year ago.

00:16:04.380 Okay.

00:16:05.000 Got it.

00:16:06.060 What about you?

00:16:07.160 Um, I'm in a relationship.

00:16:08.940 And this is, this is probably my longest one.

00:16:11.460 It's like a year and four months now.

00:16:13.640 Okay.

00:16:14.200 Got it.

00:16:14.780 Uh, yeah.

00:16:17.080 I'm also in a relationship and this is my current longest one.

00:16:21.740 Uh, for two and a half years, we've been official.

00:16:25.780 All right.

00:16:27.700 Um, I'm single and my longest were around two and a half years.

00:16:31.980 And it was around a year and a half ago before I moved to Los Angeles.

00:16:37.500 Okay.

00:16:40.120 I'm single and I'm.

00:16:43.860 Just me.

00:16:45.100 Oh, yeah.

00:16:45.640 Just go ahead.

00:16:46.360 All right.

00:16:48.200 And, um, and I don't think I've ever really had any very long-term relationships.

00:16:54.880 Yeah.

00:16:55.440 Okay.

00:16:55.740 That one.

00:16:56.180 That's fair.

00:16:56.680 Is that an eight?

00:16:57.460 What's the audio at, Eric?

00:16:59.020 Oh, that's weird.

00:16:59.820 Okay.

00:17:00.100 Um, you don't think you've had many, any long-term relationships?

00:17:05.380 Yeah.

00:17:05.720 I've had like situationships that were long-term on and off again, but nothing that I would

00:17:10.940 consider a legitimate partner.

00:17:13.320 What's the longest period of time that you've, uh, seen somebody?

00:17:16.720 Uh, like two and a half years.

00:17:18.900 You've had a two and a half year situationship?

00:17:21.220 It was very on and off again.

00:17:22.900 I wouldn't consider that a legitimate relationship.

00:17:24.160 Was it long distance?

00:17:25.280 It was long distance.

00:17:26.220 How long distance?

00:17:26.820 He was in New York and I was in California. 1.00

00:17:29.560 Oh, damn. 0.99

00:17:30.620 Why? 1.00

00:17:31.260 Okay.

00:17:31.640 But, um, uh, so a bunch of situationships.

00:17:36.840 You had the 2.5.

00:17:37.900 Were you dating other people during this on and off again, 2.5 year situationship?

00:17:43.160 Um, not, not seriously.

00:17:46.280 I'd go on dates with people, but like get dinner, see if it works, but I wouldn't have

00:17:52.640 like a boyfriend during this time.

00:17:54.740 Um, because you were still caught up on 2.5 year men?

00:18:00.280 No, just, it never happened.

00:18:02.100 Oh, you just didn't meet a guy that you liked enough, I guess.

00:18:05.300 Yeah.

00:18:06.360 And were you living in Florida during?

00:18:08.720 California.

00:18:09.400 Oh, you were in, you were in California.

00:18:10.640 Okay.

00:18:11.240 He was in New York, I was in California.

00:18:13.640 How did you end up in Florida?

00:18:16.160 Uh, I'm moving to Florida because I just passed the Florida bar.

00:18:20.840 Yay.

00:18:21.800 Right.

00:18:22.100 I remember that.

00:18:23.340 Yeah, yeah, but you're not currently living in Florida, but you passed the bar in Florida?

00:18:27.860 Oh, yeah, because I'm waiting for character and fitness, so I figured it'd be easier to

00:18:31.900 move in with family, save that money, save that scrilla.

00:18:35.620 Yeah, I'm content creating, yo, I'm not a lawyer yet, so.

00:18:39.040 Okay.

00:18:39.480 I'm not making no money.

00:18:41.680 Okay, um.

00:18:43.140 I have a YouTube channel, not an OnlyFans.

00:18:45.420 Sure, so you've never, but you've never had someone that you would consider a boyfriend?

00:18:49.580 No.

00:18:50.200 Have you ever been in love?

00:18:55.560 Probably no, no.

00:18:57.920 There's time.

00:18:59.000 Yeah, maybe, maybe one day.

00:19:00.280 Did you just think of someone's name?

00:19:02.180 There's, uh, there's a person that I really liked, but we, we dated for such a short period

00:19:06.900 of time, it'd be ridiculous to call that love, so I don't really know who, I have some idea

00:19:12.580 of some person, but I'm sure that person is not the man he really is.

00:19:17.060 Wait, how long, how long of a period of time was that?

00:19:19.260 Like, less than a month, I just really, really connected with him very strongly, and then

00:19:23.760 I definitely wouldn't call that, but that name came to mind.

00:19:26.960 Would you call it Lust?

00:19:28.400 Maybe, probably.

00:19:29.420 Closer to the mic, by the way.

00:19:30.500 So that, was that your, you would say your strongest connection you've ever had?

00:19:34.020 Yeah.

00:19:35.260 In a month?

00:19:35.820 Okay.

00:19:36.260 Yeah.

00:19:36.560 Did you have stronger feelings for month man than 2.5 year man?

00:19:40.260 Oh, absolutely.

00:19:41.420 After month man and I broke up, I, like, called 2.5 year man and was like, can I just, like,

00:19:46.880 make it work?

00:19:47.580 Can we just, like, try to make this work?

00:19:49.500 And we tried, and then, because he was just kind of, like, a, he was always there.

00:19:54.300 Month man or 2.5 year?

00:19:56.020 2.5 year.

00:19:56.400 I like that we've, we've assigned nicknames to them based on the length of these situations.

00:20:02.580 This is great.

00:20:03.240 Situations.

00:20:03.920 Okay.

00:20:05.620 Huh.

00:20:06.400 All right.

00:20:06.980 Yeah.

00:20:07.240 2.5 year man might be watching.

00:20:09.080 He's still friends with me, so.

00:20:10.860 Why, why do you think you've not had a boyfriend?

00:20:14.740 I'm, I'm picky, and then also when I meet a guy that I like, I could be a little bit.

00:20:27.060 Expectations.

00:20:27.600 I have high expectations of people.

00:20:29.600 Yeah.

00:20:30.100 What are, what are your high expectations?

00:20:31.660 Why are you picky?

00:20:33.100 Like, okay, if you say, if you say you're going to do something, I really expect you

00:20:37.380 to do it, and that's for anyone, females or males, and it's just, I find when, especially

00:20:44.580 with dating, like, you tell me you're going to be at a restaurant at this time, do it.

00:20:49.460 Why are, why do men struggle with that so much?

00:20:52.860 But besides.

00:20:53.640 Is that really a man struggle, though?

00:20:56.200 It's not just a man struggle, it's a woman struggle, too. 0.93

00:20:59.480 It's a societal struggle that I think that all of society is, I, my girlfriend the other

00:21:05.160 day, Faith, I love you, I'm going to call you out, girl.

00:21:08.200 Um, she showed up, like, two days, and, like, she kept postponing our lunch date, and then

00:21:14.860 when we finally had the lunch date, she was an hour late, that girl, Faith.

00:21:18.660 So then, if that's your friend that's doing that, how come you don't have the same expectations

00:21:22.720 for your friend?

00:21:23.200 I do, I, oh, I absolutely do.

00:21:25.360 But would you dump a guy?

00:21:26.240 I told her, like, if you keep doing this, I'd find, I'll show you our text afterwards,

00:21:30.700 I was like, I find this really disrespectful, we had a conversation about it, yada yada,

00:21:34.460 but if you try to have that conversation with your, like, a guy that you just start dating,

00:21:38.400 excuse me, sir, sit down, I'm finding the way that you treat me very disrespectful, yada

00:21:43.140 da, you're not going to be in a relationship much longer, I don't know, I'm not someone's

00:21:47.580 mom.

00:21:48.360 Okay, so being late is a major problem for you.

00:21:51.580 Yeah.

00:21:51.880 Just, I agree with you, justifiably so, you said you were picky, and then you also said

00:21:58.420 you had high expectations, so besides punctuality, what else?

00:22:02.800 Okay, I want you to be, I don't, I suppose I don't care if you're highly educated as long

00:22:09.500 as you are pursuing, like, something worthwhile, so for instance, if you are starting a business,

00:22:16.040 like, plumbers do a great job, like, anyone going to trade school, welding, stuff like that,

00:22:21.860 that's awesome, or high ambitions with education, I need to see that ambition,

00:22:28.400 and I'm seeing just such a lack of, in just society in general.

00:22:33.040 It sounds like you want somebody who follows through, accountability is follow through.

00:22:38.380 Yeah.

00:22:39.580 That's big.

00:22:42.600 Anything else?

00:22:45.960 No.

00:22:46.840 Oh my god, these are all people from, that love and hate me, all my haters and my fans

00:22:52.520 are in chat.

00:22:53.020 Hi y'all, that glow, why are you hating me right now?

00:22:55.220 You should be a fan.

00:22:56.560 You have haters?

00:22:57.480 Oh, I have a lot of haters, it's fine.

00:22:59.820 Okay.

00:23:00.160 That's why you're a lawyer.

00:23:01.780 Okay.

00:23:02.260 Soon to be, C&F.

00:23:04.420 What about you?

00:23:05.340 Relationships and longest relationship?

00:23:07.360 I am currently single, my longest relationship was over, just over three years, it's probably

00:23:12.860 been about six years since that relationship ended.

00:23:14.860 I still, you know, am friendly and fond with that person, but, you know, it just, irreconcilable

00:23:23.420 differences, I guess you would call it, I don't know.

00:23:25.120 Were you married?

00:23:26.120 No, no, no, I don't know what that means, honestly.

00:23:28.240 I just, we're just, you know, but, you know, no hard feelings, basically, so.

00:23:33.640 Do you want to get married?

00:23:34.480 Um, while I do believe that, uh, families are very important, uh, I believe that marriage

00:23:41.420 is kind of the worst contract a man can sign, I think that it's just extremely dangerous,

00:23:46.740 uh, to do that, and I think that there's real no, there's really nothing that a married

00:23:50.620 couple can do that an unmarried couple can't do, so. 0.99

00:23:53.460 So, I think, honestly, uh, relationships are, are almost, in my opinion, stronger when

00:23:58.740 either one can leave at any time, and the only reason you stay together is because you

00:24:02.300 want to be and not because you're obligated to.

00:24:04.480 Word?

00:24:06.300 Question, so you do this, your YouTube show, how often do you post videos, like once a

00:24:12.080 week, about?

00:24:12.900 Uh, it takes a while sometimes, but, uh, I try to get them out at the most, uh, or,

00:24:18.160 sorry, at the latest every two weeks, but, um, if I could get them out, you know, multiple

00:24:22.140 times a week, I would.

00:24:23.200 Question for you, have you ever dated any of the women or girls you've interviewed?

00:24:30.000 Uh, not, not, not, not dated, but there was, you know,

00:24:34.480 a time where I kind of, you know, just hung out and spent some quality time with somebody.

00:24:38.100 Sure.

00:24:38.380 Um, but not like, you know, I mean, a lot of people are tourists, so they're kind of like

00:24:41.700 in and out of town, so.

00:24:43.500 Okay, cool, cool, cool.

00:24:45.460 All right, so I, I do want to go around a bit here again, because we had a lot of people

00:24:49.020 here who are single, so, uh, what does being single actually mean, you know, uh, so, because

00:25:01.340 I, I have a sense of what being single means, but, uh, so are you currently talking to somebody?

00:25:07.040 No.

00:25:08.620 Nobody.

00:25:09.320 There's no one in the picture.

00:25:10.720 No.

00:25:10.860 Not like, uh, friends with benefits.

00:25:13.200 Nothing.

00:25:13.800 No.

00:25:15.220 Zilch.

00:25:15.860 Zilch.

00:25:16.240 Zero.

00:25:17.060 Zero.

00:25:17.940 Nothing.

00:25:18.700 No.

00:25:19.160 Nada.

00:25:19.740 Nothing.

00:25:20.260 Okay.

00:25:21.540 All right.

00:25:22.820 You sure?

00:25:23.940 Yes.

00:25:25.460 You sure?

00:25:25.760 Positive.

00:25:26.220 Okay.

00:25:26.820 All right.

00:25:29.480 There's somebody, come on, there's someone in the picture, right?

00:25:31.900 Oh, no.

00:25:32.840 Somebody.

00:25:33.280 I used to, well, I, I had a little bit of a bump in the road with somebody, but, like.

00:25:40.480 What, what do you mean a bump in the road?

00:25:41.980 I mean, like, I was seeing this person for a couple months, but, like, I, I tend to do

00:25:47.820 things that, like, I shouldn't be doing, you know, so, like.

00:25:51.460 What do you mean?

00:25:52.420 Just, like, um, like, homeboy would be, like, oh, we're together, you know, da, da, da,

00:25:58.860 or, and then be, like, acting like I'm crazy if I find something out, you know, like, of

00:26:04.740 him going and doing something with somebody else, and I caught him doing it one night,

00:26:09.140 and I, like, chased him in the car down the road and stuff.

00:26:12.440 I didn't, like, run him over or anything like that, like, I would just, like, want him to

00:26:16.240 see, like, I see, you know?

00:26:17.880 You should have.

00:26:19.100 So, you were trying to run him over, but not really?

00:26:21.600 No, like, he was driving his car, and I was driving another car, like, side by side,

00:26:26.700 like, you know?

00:26:28.260 So, let's reenact, so, um, what's your name again?

00:26:33.540 Giselle.

00:26:34.360 Giselle.

00:26:35.500 Giselle's your boyfriend.

00:26:37.100 Uh-huh.

00:26:37.500 I want you guys to, like, put your hands on the steering wheel.

00:26:40.640 Let's reenact what you were doing.

00:26:43.320 I was just, like, oh, my gosh, I'm, like, so crazy.

00:26:46.460 Wait, by the way, was your, is he your boyfriend?

00:26:49.460 Well, I don't know what to call him.

00:26:51.060 No.

00:26:51.500 What was his name?

00:26:51.860 Just, like, a little, oh.

00:26:53.660 Just make up a name if you want.

00:26:55.200 We'll call him, like, Jose.

00:26:57.620 Okay, Jose over here.

00:27:00.680 This is your situationship or whatever.

00:27:03.080 Yeah. 1.00

00:27:03.460 He's, he's being a fuckboy. 0.99

00:27:04.760 He's driving his S-class Mercedes. 1.00

00:27:07.420 Well, he had a girl in his passenger seat. 0.97

00:27:08.780 What kind of car did he, was it a Hummer?

00:27:11.040 No, it was a Dodge Challenger.

00:27:13.240 Dodge Charger?

00:27:13.920 Yeah.

00:27:14.420 It's always a car.

00:27:14.920 Charger.

00:27:15.040 One of those cars.

00:27:16.360 What color?

00:27:17.020 What color?

00:27:17.540 It's black. 0.53

00:27:18.460 Okay.

00:27:19.320 All right.

00:27:20.100 But he was, like, it was, like, he told me he had went to bed, and I was, it's so crazy.

00:27:25.920 He lives down the same road as my sister, right?

00:27:28.020 So he had told me he, like, went to bed, like, an hour before, and I just so happened to, like,

00:27:33.580 be going to my sister's.

00:27:35.060 And as I was driving past, like, this plaza area where, like, In-N-Out and stuff was, this

00:27:40.220 lady was, like, stuck in the side of the road. 1.00

00:27:42.420 So we turned around.

00:27:43.580 Yeah, Jose.

00:27:44.320 Hands on the wheel.

00:27:45.060 Yeah.

00:27:45.420 So while I turned around and went and parked in the plaza, because we were going to push

00:27:48.960 this car out of the road, as soon as I'm, like, backing up, I see him, I lock eyes with

00:27:54.420 him, and he just, like, kept driving, because there's, like, a stoplight, so he has to wait.

00:28:00.080 So I'm, like, getting out of the car.

00:28:01.300 I'm, like, running after that, like, crazy, because I'm, like, ready for bed, like,

00:28:04.660 and everything.

00:28:05.420 Let me just interrupt you.

00:28:07.100 Jose, does he, is he both hands on the wheel, or is he, like, a one?

00:28:10.920 Well, he's usually.

00:28:12.360 Is he a one hand?

00:28:13.840 Well, he's, like, he's a pretty booked dude, so he's, like, always like this.

00:28:17.540 Jose, please adjust.

00:28:18.800 Please adjust.

00:28:19.620 Okay, thank you.

00:28:20.120 Yeah, something like that.

00:28:20.820 Exactly like that, actually.

00:28:22.040 That's the angle I saw him at, you know?

00:28:24.320 And I started running.

00:28:24.680 Maybe other hands.

00:28:25.400 Let's see the other hands.

00:28:26.460 Yeah, there we go.

00:28:27.020 Okay.

00:28:27.280 Yeah, something like that. 0.99

00:28:28.600 And just look more like a fuckboy, okay? 0.99

00:28:30.720 Yeah. 0.99

00:28:32.260 There we go.

00:28:32.980 That's better.

00:28:33.620 Okay.

00:28:33.780 I feel like just like it, but, yeah, it was just, like, you know, after you see something

00:28:38.640 like that, I'm, like, oh, crap, like, get in the car.

00:28:41.040 I was telling my sister, like, get back in the car, and she's, like, no, so we pushed it

00:28:44.360 out, and I, like, whipped around and drove all the way to his apartments, and he pulled

00:28:49.020 out at the same time, so we're just, like, she's here, and I'm here, and he tries to,

00:28:54.840 like, duke me out at, like, a stoplight or whatever, like, he thought he was going to turn

00:28:58.740 quick.

00:28:59.120 Like, well, he ended up turning, and I was on the other side of him because, like, you

00:29:02.940 know, but then I was, like, yeah.

00:29:05.740 Yeah, I know.

00:29:06.380 Yeah.

00:29:06.660 Has any of this resulted in litigation?

00:29:08.700 Criminal prosecution?

00:29:10.060 Yeah.

00:29:10.380 Okay.

00:29:10.620 And what?

00:29:11.500 Any court processes?

00:29:13.500 No.

00:29:13.980 No way.

00:29:14.580 He didn't call him.

00:29:14.960 No, this is just, like, normal.

00:29:16.900 He knew he was wrong.

00:29:18.040 He's, like, gaslighting me.

00:29:19.160 So, were you, you were chasing him?

00:29:20.560 Yeah. 0.99

00:29:20.920 This is, like, some Fast and Furious shit? 0.99

00:29:22.300 Yeah, that's what I felt like. 0.99

00:29:23.580 I felt like I was in a movie.

00:29:24.840 Like, everything was slow, but everything was so quick.

00:29:27.360 I had to, like, snap back and be, like, oh, crap, I can't be doing this. 0.89

00:29:30.900 Like, I'm crazy. 1.00

00:29:31.640 Like, no, not, like, I'm crazy, but, like, it's pretty stupid to do that over, like, a man, 0.99

00:29:36.720 you know what I mean? 0.98

00:29:37.700 But he's not your boyfriend?

00:29:39.200 Was he trifling?

00:29:40.620 He was trifling for sure.

00:29:41.620 Was he trifling?

00:29:42.340 Yes.

00:29:43.300 He was trifling.

00:29:43.540 Can't believe he was trifling.

00:29:44.680 I know.

00:29:45.600 Can't believe it.

00:29:46.300 Wait, so, was there a woman in the car with him?

00:29:49.080 Yes, there was.

00:29:50.020 There was a blonde girl. 0.99

00:29:51.160 See, at this time, I had brown hair.

00:29:52.960 Oh.

00:29:53.400 So, that's what popped out to me, because if he was just.

00:29:56.360 Because it wasn't you in the car.

00:29:57.760 No, I caught him.

00:29:58.480 Because if you had brown hair.

00:30:00.560 Yeah.

00:30:01.020 And you also weren't in the car with him.

00:30:02.740 Yeah.

00:30:03.380 So, I knew it wasn't me.

00:30:04.680 Yeah.

00:30:05.020 Yeah.

00:30:05.640 Okay.

00:30:06.140 For sure.

00:30:06.780 Wait, so, blonde chick. 1.00

00:30:08.220 Yeah.

00:30:09.060 I don't even know who she is to this day.

00:30:11.200 Is that why your hair's blonde now?

00:30:12.940 Oh, no.

00:30:13.500 No, I always dye my hair.

00:30:15.240 You can see, like, all over my page.

00:30:17.300 It goes from, I dye it from, like, brown to blonde all the time.

00:30:21.500 Okay.

00:30:22.200 Depending on my mood.

00:30:23.580 Like, it's summer, it's going to be blonde. 1.00

00:30:25.120 In winter, it's going to be brown, you know?

00:30:27.120 Changes personality.

00:30:27.460 What were your thoughts on the woman that was in the car with him? 1.00

00:30:30.620 Who is this bitch? 1.00

00:30:32.080 Who's this bitch? 1.00

00:30:33.900 Describe her. 1.00

00:30:34.720 Well, I can't get.

00:30:36.160 Did she have a face tattoo? 0.93

00:30:37.240 I couldn't even see that quick, like, I was.

00:30:39.760 Face tattoo?

00:30:40.480 No.

00:30:40.940 Teardrop?

00:30:41.320 I don't know.

00:30:41.840 I shouldn't even see her.

00:30:42.960 Was she cute? 1.00

00:30:44.020 You couldn't see her?

00:30:45.180 I could see, like, her head bobbing and stuff.

00:30:47.340 Yeah, he has a tinted car.

00:30:48.940 What do you mean bobbing?

00:30:49.980 Dodge Charger, by the way.

00:30:50.880 You know, like, when you're driving a car and it's like.

00:30:53.280 Oh, okay.

00:30:55.000 Sorry.

00:30:55.820 Was he listening to me?

00:30:56.880 Did he see you?

00:30:57.840 Yeah, he definitely saw me because I was walking up to his car.

00:31:00.680 Wait, just a question.

00:31:01.160 So, you were in your car and he was in his car.

00:31:03.620 Yeah.

00:31:03.800 When you first saw him, correct?

00:31:05.800 Were you guys, like, crossing paths like this?

00:31:08.480 No, like, I had just backed into his spot.

00:31:11.120 So, yeah, he was coming like this and I had just parked.

00:31:13.980 And he got out of the car because I wanted to make sure there was him.

00:31:16.840 Yeah.

00:31:17.080 I saw, like, running up to the car.

00:31:18.900 And he's, like, rolling up his window.

00:31:21.120 I'm, like, calling him.

00:31:21.980 One request.

00:31:22.500 Can you pop your, it's just clanging on the table.

00:31:25.620 It's all good.

00:31:26.360 So, continue.

00:31:26.880 You saw him with trifling with this blonde woman. 1.00

00:31:31.920 This blonde woman. 1.00

00:31:32.680 I could call her a bitch. 1.00

00:31:33.720 That's rude because I don't know, you know. 1.00

00:31:35.740 But, yeah, I saw that.

00:31:38.160 So, it's just, like, you know when you see something that really bugs you and you just, like, have that quick moment.

00:31:42.580 What if it was, like, a cousin or a sister or a mom?

00:31:45.520 Oh, it definitely was not.

00:31:46.800 He has no family here.

00:31:48.660 Or a friend or a co-worker. 0.99

00:31:50.320 Or a prostitute. 1.00

00:31:50.980 Or a blonde hair. 0.99

00:31:51.780 You don't know.

00:31:52.620 Yeah, you don't know.

00:31:52.880 No, but, see, I know. 0.99

00:31:54.260 It was a prostitute. 1.00

00:31:55.920 It might have been. 0.99

00:31:56.460 Could have been.

00:31:56.880 I know.

00:31:57.480 That's, I know.

00:31:58.980 It's like you have a problem.

00:32:00.060 You seem, it's, oh, my God.

00:32:03.060 Hold on.

00:32:03.480 Beat in Cheeks donated $105.

00:32:07.080 It's complicated.

00:32:08.460 John, cook this panel, please.

00:32:10.360 My ears are bleeding.

00:32:12.020 The others on stream, do not simp and sub to these Twitch slasher.

00:32:15.560 I think it's okay.

00:32:16.400 I think it's okay.

00:32:17.000 Save your money for Brian.

00:32:18.220 Is it okay?

00:32:18.700 It's complicated channel and my rumble.

00:32:21.660 This blonde thought is making me dumber by the moment. 1.00

00:32:24.840 Wow. 0.98

00:32:25.500 Okay, do you want to.

00:32:26.380 Do you want to respond to Beat in Cheeks?

00:32:29.480 No, not really.

00:32:30.420 I don't really care.

00:32:31.400 You just gave money.

00:32:32.700 Do you want to.

00:32:33.600 You can roast him back if you want.

00:32:35.340 No, it's cool.

00:32:36.020 His name is Beat in Cheeks.

00:32:37.380 I know.

00:32:38.400 He probably doesn't give me.

00:32:38.880 First name, last name.

00:32:39.620 First name, last name.

00:32:39.700 That's actually his legal name.

00:32:41.140 Oh.

00:32:41.660 He proved it.

00:32:42.380 He showed me a birth certificate.

00:32:44.440 Oh, my God.

00:32:44.980 Wow.

00:32:45.100 And his Kazakhstani passport.

00:32:48.200 Whatever, man.

00:32:48.800 Because he's from Kazakhstan.

00:32:50.060 Oh.

00:32:51.080 He actually is.

00:32:52.840 Okay.

00:32:53.240 They have weird naming, right?

00:32:55.780 You guys are from that region.

00:32:57.520 Well, we are from Russia, which is a completely different country.

00:33:00.980 Cheeks is a common Russian, like a Slavic last name, isn't it?

00:33:05.340 Not really.

00:33:07.120 Well, maybe a little bit, somewhere, yeah, but not in Russian.

00:33:11.380 In Russian, Kazakhstan?

00:33:12.100 Cheeks? 0.66

00:33:13.100 Wait.

00:33:13.540 How would you say?

00:33:15.000 Okay.

00:33:15.440 I don't know.

00:33:15.940 What was your question?

00:33:16.860 About serving or about looks?

00:33:18.300 I'm not sure.

00:33:19.440 Go ahead.

00:33:20.540 I don't remember.

00:33:21.040 With your story.

00:33:21.780 You're telling, you're driving.

00:33:23.640 Yeah. 1.00

00:33:24.060 You see trifling, boyfriend, prostitute, situation shit, prostitute, drug dealing. 1.00

00:33:29.960 Okay. 1.00

00:33:30.620 Was there drugs involved?

00:33:31.680 No, definitely not.

00:33:34.120 No drugs?

00:33:35.480 No, I didn't.

00:33:36.480 No, no, no, but like, he's got a black Dodge Charger.

00:33:40.260 Yeah, but he's in the military.

00:33:41.060 It's kind of a drug dealer.

00:33:42.120 Oh.

00:33:42.740 Yeah.

00:33:43.440 Yeah, that's more of a military car, to be honest.

00:33:45.120 Yeah.

00:33:45.420 They buy the Mustangs and the Chargers.

00:33:48.620 Okay.

00:33:49.520 Good times.

00:33:51.620 So, single?

00:33:55.080 Yeah, most definitely.

00:33:56.380 Have you had a rebound since Dude?

00:33:58.520 I mean, yeah, but like, there's nothing.

00:34:00.360 A couple rebounds?

00:34:01.860 Just one rebound?

00:34:04.780 Because if my boyfriend was trifling like that, I might be tempted to trifle myself.

00:34:13.000 Yeah, but I didn't have a rebound like, right away, because I was more like, I guess like,

00:34:19.120 man, I had to take a step back from, you know, like everything going on.

00:34:23.240 But, I ended up having one when I went out to North Carolina, but that's it.

00:34:29.380 Okay.

00:34:30.180 Got it.

00:34:32.620 Oh, you had your complicated situation.

00:34:35.040 You're single.

00:34:35.940 Yeah.

00:34:36.260 But, come on, there's a guy in the picture.

00:34:39.780 Come on.

00:34:41.380 Yeah, there's one.

00:34:43.120 What's going on?

00:34:43.840 How long you've been seeing him?

00:34:48.680 Well, there's a couple in the picture.

00:34:52.480 A couple in the picture?

00:34:53.340 Yeah.

00:34:54.080 Why don't you, when you say a couple, are we talking a baker's dozen?

00:34:58.080 Probably got like four.

00:34:59.560 Four?

00:35:00.020 Yeah.

00:35:01.140 Questions, do you have like a main piece?

00:35:03.000 Yeah.

00:35:03.540 And then like, you got a rotation?

00:35:05.560 Mm-hmm.

00:35:05.860 You got a roster?

00:35:07.560 Yeah.

00:35:08.640 But, it's like.

00:35:10.120 Did you say girl?

00:35:11.240 There was a girl in it? 1.00

00:35:11.980 No.

00:35:12.500 Okay.

00:35:13.580 All dudes. 0.64

00:35:14.420 All guys.

00:35:14.780 Girls are cute. 1.00

00:35:15.300 Like, I get down with a girl, but like, relationship-wise, I'm not there yet.

00:35:21.380 Okay.

00:35:21.580 Have you been with a girl?

00:35:23.120 I have.

00:35:24.300 Yeah.

00:35:24.820 You?

00:35:25.060 More than one?

00:35:26.120 No, it was just one.

00:35:27.340 Okay.

00:35:28.700 So, currently four guys.

00:35:31.840 And you said there's.

00:35:32.620 Oh, hold on.

00:35:34.640 Black Socrates. 0.88

00:35:35.480 Thank you, man.

00:35:35.800 I appreciate it.

00:35:36.160 $99.

00:35:37.940 Nowhere in your annually, incoherent responses did you come close to anything that could be

00:35:43.140 considered a rational thought. 0.99

00:35:45.220 Everyone in this room is now dumber for having listened to it. 0.94

00:35:48.680 I award you no points. 0.97

00:35:50.060 And my God have mercy on your 304 souls.

00:35:54.480 It's a quote from a movie.

00:35:56.280 Billy Madison.

00:35:57.240 Don't worry, girl.

00:35:58.180 Was that for me?

00:35:59.160 Don't. 1.00

00:35:59.580 Damn. 1.00

00:36:00.020 Girl, no. 1.00

00:36:00.700 Don't take that seriously.

00:36:01.640 I'm not tripping.

00:36:01.860 It's from Billy Matt.

00:36:02.680 You've seen Billy Madison, right?

00:36:04.040 No.

00:36:04.620 Okay. 0.99

00:36:04.960 It's dumb. 1.00

00:36:05.480 It's a dumb movie. 1.00

00:36:06.240 Yeah. 0.99

00:36:06.680 Well, at least he donated money.

00:36:08.660 I don't know if who.

00:36:10.340 It might be.

00:36:11.900 I don't think it's addressed towards you.

00:36:14.820 But, yeah.

00:36:16.380 What was we talking about?

00:36:19.140 I feel like I have that on my soundboard somewhere.

00:36:22.200 I think I've heard it before.

00:36:24.020 I feel like I have it.

00:36:25.300 You were talking about your rotations and girls.

00:36:27.060 I like athletes, so it's a little difficult for me.

00:36:33.460 Oh, hold on. 1.00

00:36:34.060 What you've just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. 1.00

00:36:39.860 At no point in your rambling, incoherent response. 1.00

00:36:43.960 Okay.

00:36:44.280 We get...

00:36:44.660 Thank you for the TTS.

00:36:46.820 Appreciate it.

00:36:47.400 Thank you.

00:36:47.620 So, you like athletes.

00:36:48.700 Yeah.

00:36:49.540 What...

00:36:50.160 And how...

00:36:51.100 Which athletes?

00:36:52.700 Like, I used to really, like, mess with football players, but I'm leaning a lot towards basketball

00:37:00.620 players right now.

00:37:01.600 You're leaning towards the basketball players?

00:37:03.220 Yeah.

00:37:03.480 Okay.

00:37:04.320 So, how many?

00:37:05.360 So, there's four.

00:37:06.640 Yeah.

00:37:06.920 Are they all basketball players?

00:37:08.520 Yes.

00:37:10.520 Yes.

00:37:11.920 Same team?

00:37:13.520 No.

00:37:15.420 I don't want to name drop nobody.

00:37:17.840 MBA?

00:37:18.600 Yeah.

00:37:19.260 Huh?

00:37:20.500 God...

00:37:20.860 Oh, wow.

00:37:21.420 Good for you.

00:37:22.080 All right.

00:37:23.740 I mean, if you want to name drop, you can name drop.

00:37:25.560 I can name, like, teams.

00:37:26.940 Okay.

00:37:29.200 Somebody from the Cavs.

00:37:31.640 Cavaliers?

00:37:32.580 Yeah.

00:37:33.240 Okay.

00:37:34.900 The Milwaukee Bucks.

00:37:36.840 Milwaukee Bucks.

00:37:37.740 Okay.

00:37:38.520 The Detroit Pistons.

00:37:42.980 I think that's it.

00:37:44.460 Because there's two from the same team, but I'm not going to say that.

00:37:47.200 And then, like, the one you rarely see is playing college ball?

00:37:52.200 I got two that's playing college ball, and then I got another one.

00:37:56.660 I got two that's about to go into the draft this year.

00:38:01.600 Wait.

00:38:03.280 So, is there more than four?

00:38:04.960 Yeah.

00:38:05.180 There's more than four, but there's, like, a four that, like...

00:38:07.740 Wait, closer to the mic, closer to the mic.

00:38:08.980 There's, like, a four that I text on, like, a daily basis, like, hi, good morning.

00:38:12.260 That you text...

00:38:14.080 You send...

00:38:14.880 Well, like, they either text me or I text them.

00:38:17.480 You know what?

00:38:17.940 There's a thing in your phone where you can actually automate text messages to go out.

00:38:22.620 Like, at a certain time?

00:38:23.780 At a certain time, every single day.

00:38:25.460 I forgot, it's in the automation setting, so you might want to look into that, just so

00:38:28.840 you can automate the good morning text, you know?

00:38:31.800 I think they could also automate it based off when they leave their house.

00:38:34.920 So, that could change every time.

00:38:36.620 Sure.

00:38:36.960 I did not know that.

00:38:37.780 Wait, so, okay, so there's...

00:38:39.260 How many total...

00:38:40.840 Is it...

00:38:41.320 There's none...

00:38:41.840 There's no football players in there?

00:38:43.520 Just basketball players?

00:38:45.960 There's a couple football players.

00:38:48.300 I don't think I've messed with anybody in the NFL right now.

00:38:52.120 Maybe in the past, but previously there was some NFL?

00:38:55.700 I forgot that one team, the Jets.

00:38:58.820 Something from, like...

00:38:59.780 Is that from New York?

00:39:00.280 New Jersey, I think.

00:39:01.500 New York.

00:39:02.160 Something like that, right?

00:39:03.180 Wait, okay, so...

00:39:04.280 But, so currently you're seeing three NBA players.

00:39:07.300 Yeah.

00:39:08.740 Do they buy you stuff?

00:39:10.780 They buy me plane tickets.

00:39:12.840 That's it.

00:39:13.820 For the most part.

00:39:14.920 You don't get a bag or anything?

00:39:16.120 I mean, if I ask...

00:39:17.160 Girl, you need to get a bag. 1.00

00:39:18.180 I know.

00:39:18.600 Okay, so here's the thing.

00:39:19.760 Like, for me, like...

00:39:22.760 I make money my other way.

00:39:27.280 What do you mean? 0.99

00:39:28.160 But if you're fucking with somebody that... 0.99

00:39:29.240 Right. 0.97

00:39:29.620 Makes that certain amount of money.

00:39:30.540 Right, that's what I'm saying.

00:39:32.500 I just expect a good time whenever we go, like...

00:39:35.760 Whether it's vacations or they fly me out to their house

00:39:39.160 and we do whatever we do there or wherever they're at, like...

00:39:42.840 They're in Chicago, New York, like...

00:39:45.360 Spend time with them for a weekend.

00:39:46.340 Can I ask something?

00:39:47.320 Yeah, go ahead.

00:39:47.820 I want to know, is there an ever...

00:39:50.620 Sorry.

00:39:51.860 We'll have this.

00:39:52.580 It's donated $100.

00:39:54.920 I don't think she knows the difference between a football and a basketball.

00:40:00.560 Wow.

00:40:01.860 Hey, Nick, can you pass me the rugby ball over there?

00:40:04.640 It's on the top of the chair.

00:40:06.180 Not the rugby ball.

00:40:07.640 Any rugby players?

00:40:10.180 Thanks, Nick.

00:40:11.620 I've played female rugby. 0.99

00:40:13.040 Here, catch.

00:40:13.800 No rugby players in there?

00:40:18.520 No, no, no.

00:40:19.260 Okay.

00:40:20.220 I mean, I'm not opposed to it, like...

00:40:22.680 Rugby players who are watching, her DMs are open.

00:40:25.500 Okay, so...

00:40:26.600 Go ahead.

00:40:27.540 I wanted to ask you a question about that.

00:40:30.060 Is there an extra level of expectation when somebody does some grand romantic gesture?

00:40:35.500 Uh-huh.

00:40:36.480 What do you mean?

00:40:37.360 Like, if somebody set up, like, a nice date for me, is it, like...

00:40:40.620 Like, do you believe that men initially do really nice things for women because they want sex?

00:40:45.900 I think it definitely plays a part, yes.

00:40:48.420 Like, the further a man goes for you, he's definitely trying a lot harder to get to that point than somebody just not doing nothing.

00:40:57.380 So, if so, why would a woman ever accept an extravagant offer from a man if she wasn't interested in having sex? 0.61

00:41:04.220 Well...

00:41:04.620 Would that be leading him on?

00:41:05.940 Right.

00:41:07.380 I think accepting the offer and then even, like, change your mind later, it really just depends.

00:41:14.220 Like, you can see how the offer goes.

00:41:15.660 Maybe she's just giving it a try.

00:41:18.620 But, like...

00:41:19.920 How would you feel about reimbursing a man if that relationship didn't end up happening?

00:41:25.500 That's not my fault.

00:41:26.600 If he wanted to pay for whatever, do whatever, that's...

00:41:29.880 I didn't ask, so...

00:41:31.160 Okay.

00:41:31.720 But don't you feel like if you, um...

00:41:34.380 Once you, once you're, like, talking to somebody...

00:41:36.360 Mm-hmm. 0.96

00:41:36.600 I feel like you already know if you're gonna have sex with them or not. 0.82

00:41:38.900 Yeah, like, straight off the bat.

00:41:40.220 So, it's, like, at that point, are you really just leading them on if you're accepting everything that they're giving,

00:41:45.180 knowing that you aren't gonna have sex with them? 0.73

00:41:47.500 Well... 0.93

00:41:47.740 Wait, just one thing.

00:41:48.600 Just when you're speaking, I do need you a little closer to the microphone.

00:41:50.900 Go ahead.

00:41:51.660 If I keep accepting something from that man...

00:41:55.720 Then, obviously, I have some type of intention towards him.

00:42:00.120 But, more than likely, if I really don't like him, I'm gonna just let him know.

00:42:04.800 Can I ask you one more?

00:42:05.720 Yeah, yeah.

00:42:06.120 When you first meet a guy, how do you know whether he's going to be a friend or more than a friend?

00:42:10.900 Mm-hmm.

00:42:11.080 And, more importantly, when do you decide?

00:42:12.960 Because it's often said a woman will know right away.

00:42:15.020 Right.

00:42:15.320 It's really, based off that first conversation, just how their vibe is.

00:42:21.680 If they're, like, quiet and, like, just kind of, like, hi, how are you?

00:42:26.340 How was your day?

00:42:27.540 But, like, they don't know how to, like, really have a conversation with me, then it's probably not gonna go no further.

00:42:32.720 But, if they're, like, kind of comfortable with me, like, talking, like, cracking jokes, like, just being comfortable.

00:42:41.220 But, I'm saying, if most women would know right away, and then they're willing to accept and extravagant offer from a man,

00:42:46.140 isn't that almost, like, you know, in a way, consenting to the possibility of, I'm interested in, you know...

00:42:53.860 Yeah.

00:42:54.140 Why would you accept the offer if you wasn't interested?

00:42:58.040 Okay.

00:42:58.880 How do you, um, did you have more questions, or...?

00:43:01.520 Oh, that's as far as that goes.

00:43:03.140 Sure.

00:43:04.120 How did you meet them?

00:43:06.100 Was it in person?

00:43:07.040 Was it, did they message you on Instagram?

00:43:08.780 Instagram, really, like...

00:43:10.420 Yeah.

00:43:10.740 Did you message them?

00:43:11.660 Did they message you?

00:43:12.580 I, personally, I don't like to message nobody, because if you don't like me, then you don't like me, and that's just that.

00:43:19.400 Mm-hmm.

00:43:20.920 I've played a game, though, like, you know, you like their photos.

00:43:24.140 Or, like, I don't comment on nobody's stuff, but, like, if they have highlights, you like their highlights.

00:43:31.060 And then...

00:43:31.380 Okay.

00:43:31.600 But why waste time?

00:43:32.780 Mm-hmm.

00:43:33.060 Like, why not to just talk to them, potentially, or make the first move?

00:43:36.740 Well, you never know what somebody got going on.

00:43:39.580 Like, not everybody posts their, like, significant other.

00:43:43.200 So, if they're putting that, like, effort towards me, then I'm gonna go for it.

00:43:48.660 So, okay.

00:43:50.320 Sorry, could I...

00:43:51.240 Just one more question?

00:43:51.800 Go ahead.

00:43:51.940 So, for you, it's mostly to make sure that they are single?

00:43:56.020 Yeah.

00:43:56.520 Okay.

00:43:56.780 Yeah.

00:43:57.500 But guys don't...

00:43:58.940 Just because they're...

00:43:59.980 Yeah.

00:44:00.640 You just never know, because they be DMing you, and they're not single.

00:44:03.540 Right.

00:44:04.200 A lot of the time.

00:44:04.980 And it's happened before.

00:44:07.420 Closer to the mic.

00:44:08.620 Yeah, it's happened before.

00:44:11.540 I'm not gonna out that one person, but they are currently in a relationship.

00:44:15.040 One of the basketball players.

00:44:19.620 But they're also seeing you.

00:44:22.760 Her lips are sealed.

00:44:24.460 I'm trifling.

00:44:25.540 So, you said you're currently seeing four.

00:44:30.720 Yeah.

00:44:31.300 Well, I'm not having, like...

00:44:32.400 I'm not having sex with all four, but, like, currently talking to and, like, interacting,

00:44:37.540 like, calling, texting, snapping, FaceTiming on a day.

00:44:41.560 Do they all fly you out?

00:44:42.160 How many are you...

00:44:43.400 You said you're not sleeping with all four.

00:44:45.260 How many are you hooking up with? 0.96

00:44:47.340 Well, their schedule's busy, so it's not like I could just go hook up with one of my little things.

00:44:52.500 Eric, can you close the door?

00:44:56.880 So, do they fly you out?

00:44:58.320 Yeah.

00:45:00.040 Is there potential to hook up with all of them on the table?

00:45:03.640 Yes.

00:45:04.220 Okay.

00:45:05.500 Okay.

00:45:06.740 So, there's...

00:45:08.500 How many currently?

00:45:10.400 Because you said there's more than four.

00:45:11.860 Well, there's, like...

00:45:13.800 That's just, like, NBA.

00:45:15.380 And then, like you said, like...

00:45:17.140 Four in the NBA?

00:45:18.260 Yeah.

00:45:18.560 That you're talking...

00:45:19.920 That are already in there, but there's two...

00:45:21.640 Wait, wait.

00:45:22.180 That you're...

00:45:23.060 What do you mean, you're already in there?

00:45:25.380 Like, they're already drafted.

00:45:27.220 No, no, but four...

00:45:28.760 You've met them in person?

00:45:30.000 Yeah.

00:45:30.300 All of them?

00:45:31.000 Multiple times?

00:45:32.180 No.

00:45:32.740 Some of them, I've only got them flown out, like, once.

00:45:35.140 And we met that time.

00:45:36.420 Did you hook up?

00:45:36.820 Yeah.

00:45:37.920 Okay.

00:45:38.800 But that's it, like...

00:45:40.040 Got it.

00:45:40.800 Okay.

00:45:41.240 And then...

00:45:41.860 Oh, my...

00:45:42.820 Hold on.

00:45:43.640 Ross Kahn donated $100.

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00:45:53.120 The PDF elves and whatever.

00:45:55.160 Panel and chat are interesting.

00:45:57.460 Thanks.

00:45:58.400 Oh, and...

00:45:59.680 Anarchy Sheik wants her super chats acknowledged. 1.00

00:46:02.600 Hello.

00:46:03.380 Hi, Anarchy Chick.

00:46:04.620 Those are all the people from my, like, YouTube community.

00:46:07.500 Awesome.

00:46:07.700 So, hi, Ross Kahn.

00:46:08.320 Hey, good to see the, uh...

00:46:09.840 Lauren...

00:46:10.380 Is it Lauren DeLaguna?

00:46:11.860 Yeah.

00:46:13.760 YouTube community.

00:46:14.680 Welcome, guys.

00:46:15.180 Thank you.

00:46:15.440 Appreciate the, uh...

00:46:16.160 Big TTS.

00:46:16.980 Thank you, guys.

00:46:17.440 Appreciate it.

00:46:17.840 So, you said that was just the NBA.

00:46:21.820 Let's talk about, um...

00:46:23.760 Badminton.

00:46:25.200 How many...

00:46:25.860 You got any...

00:46:26.760 No.

00:46:27.260 Any Bays...

00:46:28.200 No other sports, really.

00:46:28.920 Badminton Bays?

00:46:30.160 Mm-mm.

00:46:31.140 Soccer?

00:46:32.220 No.

00:46:33.320 I wouldn't mind, though.

00:46:34.660 Any cricket?

00:46:35.560 No.

00:46:35.980 No cricket?

00:46:36.680 No.

00:46:36.940 What about, um...

00:46:40.440 Any gamers?

00:46:43.220 No.

00:46:44.340 Like, any esports chads?

00:46:46.740 No.

00:46:47.460 League of Legends, World of Warcraft?

00:46:49.300 No.

00:46:49.760 But I'm not opposed to none of that, but no.

00:46:52.260 Like, what if they have a really good, like, micro?

00:46:53.880 Like, would you be attracted to a dude who's just, like, micro?

00:46:57.300 Like, just going in, like...

00:46:58.600 Like, boom.

00:46:59.040 Send a tech...

00:46:59.560 Like, Command & Conquer.

00:47:00.620 Send a technical rush.

00:47:02.120 I mean...

00:47:02.720 GLA.

00:47:03.480 If it pays the bills, then yes.

00:47:06.080 China Inf? 0.96

00:47:07.640 What if they, like, play China Inf?

00:47:09.080 Okay, so, hold on.

00:47:10.000 Fine.

00:47:10.900 But so you would date a gamer?

00:47:12.180 Yeah, I would.

00:47:13.340 Okay.

00:47:13.980 But you primarily prefer, like, proper athletes, not like, you know, gamers, you know?

00:47:18.400 I don't really mind.

00:47:19.220 I'm not particularly picky.

00:47:21.140 Baseball?

00:47:21.800 You got a baseball?

00:47:22.620 Yeah, I have talked to people.

00:47:24.240 What if you found out that gamers actually made more money than ballers? 0.99

00:47:28.500 I doubt that.

00:47:29.240 Well...

00:47:29.920 No.

00:47:30.680 Asian gamers are you getting in Asia?

00:47:33.660 Like, the computer game players?

00:47:37.520 They make...

00:47:38.000 How am I?

00:47:38.800 Millions?

00:47:40.640 Well, the top of the top.

00:47:42.500 Yeah, they can't.

00:47:43.320 Some of them, the top guys can make a lot of money.

00:47:45.280 But, okay, so you're currently also seeing a baseball player or multiple baseball players?

00:47:49.360 No, I'm not seeing no baseball players.

00:47:50.940 Oh, previously, though, you had...

00:47:51.800 I've had, like, a couple, like, in my DMs.

00:47:54.020 What is the league for the, what is it, the, what's the league for baseball?

00:47:59.400 MLB.

00:48:00.000 MLB?

00:48:00.640 Mm-hmm.

00:48:01.040 Any MLB players?

00:48:02.320 Mm-hmm.

00:48:02.980 Okay.

00:48:03.260 So there's football players?

00:48:08.040 Yeah.

00:48:08.420 How many football players you got right now?

00:48:09.880 Just two.

00:48:10.840 Just two?

00:48:11.340 Just two.

00:48:12.040 Okay.

00:48:12.560 Just two.

00:48:13.440 Yeah.

00:48:13.760 NFL?

00:48:15.660 Just one in the NFL.

00:48:17.040 And then one college player?

00:48:19.040 Yeah.

00:48:20.180 And then for basketball, any college players?

00:48:23.800 Yes.

00:48:24.620 Okay.

00:48:25.920 All right.

00:48:26.500 You're successful with the athletes.

00:48:28.940 Congratulations.

00:48:29.840 Okay, so, and you said you meet most of them through Instagram.

00:48:34.560 Yeah, all of it is through Instagram.

00:48:37.480 Is there any reason, like, are you not wanting to date just one?

00:48:44.880 Well, if one showed me that he was, like, really pursuing me, like, because I'm a little

00:48:52.600 picky, too.

00:48:54.560 I mean, clearly.

00:48:56.520 Yeah.

00:48:57.120 You like exceptional athletes.

00:49:00.960 Do you think that women have the privilege of being more picky because they have more 0.91

00:49:04.740 options?

00:49:05.440 Yes.

00:49:06.460 Yes.

00:49:07.060 Why do you think that so many women today are so reluctant to admit that they have privilege? 0.88

00:49:13.260 All right.

00:49:13.880 Going for it.

00:49:16.860 I feel like some girls just don't want to be perceived in a certain light, so they just

00:49:22.580 try to keep things open instead of just, if they feel some type of way, they just stand

00:49:27.140 to it.

00:49:28.400 Plus, there's a difference between privilege in dating and privilege in life, but definitely

00:49:35.080 girls have privilege in dating. 1.00

00:49:36.240 I think how is, isn't dating a huge aspect of life?

00:49:41.960 Yeah, go ahead.

00:49:43.200 I was just going to add on that.

00:49:44.580 I think a lot of women do, unfortunately, have trouble with taking accountability, and 1.00

00:49:48.560 they do also...

00:49:50.400 Hold on.

00:49:51.420 Soulful Lich donated $104.20.

00:49:56.140 Love you guys.

00:49:57.860 Why do women choose the male role while also resenting the less salaried man? 1.00

00:50:02.940 Men traditionally are providers, yet 47S50Ks often won't look down on her. 1.00

00:50:08.060 But if a woman provides, she often resents the man when she forcibly switched the roles. 0.83

00:50:15.320 Word, huh?

00:50:17.920 Why do women choose the male role while also resenting the less salaried man? 1.00

00:50:22.520 I'm not sure the answer to that question.

00:50:24.160 Women tend to be more masculine. 1.00

00:50:25.760 Go ahead.

00:50:27.860 I think that there comes more of a victim mindset, maybe because women tend to lead more emotionally. 0.98

00:50:35.100 I think that's kind of my thoughts.

00:50:38.400 So just being emotional goes hand in hand with claiming victimhood?

00:50:44.260 I think not necessarily, but I think that they don't take too much of the time to step back

00:50:51.040 and logically think to proceed, if that makes any sense.

00:50:55.520 Do you think there's a level of power and privilege that comes with victimhood?

00:51:01.560 Yes.

00:51:02.160 So could that possibly be linked to it?

00:51:06.000 Yeah.

00:51:06.300 I think that they want to be seen as not privileged because it kind of intertwines with also being less than victim mindset.

00:51:15.640 I mean, is it possible for women to be strong and independent but also victims?

00:51:20.840 Yo, Eric, I think you need to boost your microphone a little bit.

00:51:23.180 I think it's number 10.

00:51:24.180 Strong and independent in the sense of, you know, they're taking care of themselves maybe financially and everything like that.

00:51:29.980 Sure.

00:51:30.700 And they can also play the victim.

00:51:32.140 I think you can be both.

00:51:33.980 Isn't that a contradiction?

00:51:35.560 I don't think so.

00:51:37.120 Okay.

00:51:37.780 Hey, guys, is the volume a little better?

00:51:39.620 One in the chat if the volume's a bit better or two in the chat if we still need to boost it a little bit.

00:51:43.740 Are you dating any civilians right now?

00:51:48.420 Yeah, I'm talking to a couple of other regular guys.

00:51:52.220 A couple of regular guys?

00:51:53.320 Yeah.

00:51:53.700 What's a regular guy to you?

00:51:54.820 A regular guy is just someone who's not an NBA, somebody who's not a rapper, someone who's not in the industry.

00:52:00.740 Are any of them?

00:52:02.860 But are they, like, are they wealthy?

00:52:06.900 Just not famous?

00:52:08.200 Yeah.

00:52:08.740 Okay.

00:52:09.160 I try to be with somebody a little bit more well-off.

00:52:12.540 Sure.

00:52:13.540 Okay.

00:52:13.840 Well, first off, I'm, like, I appreciate just your forthcomingness and honesty, sharing all that.

00:52:22.900 That's certainly pretty impressive to me, although I think it's not uncommon, especially, you live in Los Angeles, correct?

00:52:34.440 I don't.

00:52:35.180 Oh, where do you live?

00:52:35.880 I live in Ohio right now.

00:52:37.340 Wait.

00:52:37.740 Oh, right.

00:52:38.480 Okay, you're in Ohio.

00:52:39.460 Yeah.

00:52:40.080 I thought, wait.

00:52:41.960 LBC?

00:52:42.920 Is that?

00:52:43.140 So, I come back here almost, like, every other month because the majority of my family does, like, still live here.

00:52:49.820 So, I'll come, like, kick it with my family.

00:52:52.400 Okay.

00:52:53.300 Interesting.

00:52:54.020 Okay.

00:52:55.220 Just, I want to ask everyone else at the table here.

00:52:57.880 So, she's dating or has dated multiple NBA players, NFL players, some other athletes.

00:53:05.360 Any musicians, actors?

00:53:09.200 Yeah.

00:53:10.880 Yeah.

00:53:11.980 Producers?

00:53:12.460 Yeah.

00:53:13.660 Um, mainly just rappers.

00:53:16.880 Any, any names we would know?

00:53:18.620 I wouldn't put it out there.

00:53:19.940 You wouldn't want, okay, of course, of course.

00:53:21.900 Um.

00:53:22.540 But would we know the names?

00:53:24.040 Yeah.

00:53:25.020 You would.

00:53:25.580 Most of them do stay in LA.

00:53:27.000 Do, does it start with a D and end with a rake?

00:53:31.840 Uh-uh.

00:53:32.360 No.

00:53:32.760 No Drake.

00:53:33.580 Not yet.

00:53:33.820 But I love that man.

00:53:34.760 It's in the works.

00:53:35.360 Next question.

00:53:35.780 If Drake slides into your DMs.

00:53:37.640 Hell yeah.

00:53:38.760 Are you, are you on it?

00:53:39.980 I mean, let everybody go.

00:53:42.920 They're all gone.

00:53:43.620 The rest are gone.

00:53:44.320 Everybody's gone.

00:53:45.180 Ooh.

00:53:45.980 Can I ask a question about that?

00:53:47.060 I don't care.

00:53:47.080 You think he would do that for you, though?

00:53:48.420 I don't care.

00:53:49.060 You don't care?

00:53:49.700 I really don't.

00:53:50.260 You don't care about the, like, loving relationship with a man?

00:53:53.000 I mean, okay, listen, though, like.

00:53:54.260 It's Drake.

00:53:54.980 It's Drake. 0.99

00:53:55.320 I don't have no fucking loving relationship. 0.98

00:53:58.500 So, so I have a question about that, right? 0.98

00:54:00.120 So, I'm sure each of you has a celebrity crush, right?

00:54:02.620 Yeah.

00:54:03.160 Uh, I'd like to pose a question to the panel.

00:54:05.300 If, if each of you had the opportunity to hook up with your celebrity crush, would you

00:54:09.200 take it?

00:54:10.580 Yes.

00:54:11.140 Like, that's my crush.

00:54:12.240 So, when a woman says I'm not that type of girl, is she really saying I'm not the type of

00:54:16.960 girl with you, but I am that type of girl with my celebrity crush?

00:54:20.880 Yes, with you.

00:54:21.940 So, wouldn't that mean that women will make rules for the wrong guy, but break rules for 1.00

00:54:25.700 the right guy?

00:54:26.320 Yeah.

00:54:27.780 Okay.

00:54:28.800 Modern dating 2023.

00:54:31.420 Sorry.

00:54:31.600 Okay.

00:54:32.080 So, there are the rules.

00:54:33.360 There are no rules.

00:54:35.980 So, okay.

00:54:37.400 I want to open this up to the rest of the table.

00:54:39.820 So, and I know Instagram recently, anyone can get a blue check mark now, so it's not a

00:54:45.560 big deal, but like, before that, have any of you here been contacted via Instagram by

00:54:53.760 someone with a blue check mark prior to the recent changes?

00:54:57.620 So, we're talking a famous athlete, musician, actor, whatever it may be.

00:55:04.580 Yes.

00:55:05.220 However, if I do not feel a connection with them, I do not take it further.

00:55:09.260 Have you taken it further with a blue check mark person? 0.66

00:55:12.680 I guess I've dated someone, but that was a serious relationship.

00:55:18.420 It wasn't just a hookup.

00:55:19.660 You ended up dating them?

00:55:20.740 Yeah.

00:55:21.100 And he DM'd you?

00:55:22.200 Yes.

00:55:22.580 So, you guys met online?

00:55:24.020 Yes.

00:55:24.460 Through Instagram?

00:55:25.840 No, not through Instagram.

00:55:27.260 Twitch streamer?

00:55:28.060 Yes.

00:55:28.440 He's a Twitch streamer?

00:55:29.220 Yes.

00:55:29.720 XQC?

00:55:30.600 No.

00:55:31.780 Okay.

00:55:33.280 But a Twitch streamer.

00:55:34.400 Okay.

00:55:35.000 What about you?

00:55:36.420 No.

00:55:37.260 No blue check marks?

00:55:38.080 No.

00:55:38.420 But I'm sure you've gotten a blue check mark in your DMs.

00:55:41.520 No.

00:55:41.960 No?

00:55:42.660 No.

00:55:43.200 Okay.

00:55:44.460 What about you?

00:55:45.540 Some blue check marks?

00:55:46.620 Yeah.

00:55:46.980 In the DMs?

00:55:47.860 NBA players?

00:55:49.220 You guys might be Eskimo sisters, maybe.

00:55:51.060 I don't know.

00:55:52.940 I mean, I'm going to be honest.

00:55:54.120 You really never know.

00:55:56.060 I'm not going to say they're easy, but they are.

00:55:58.800 They get around.

00:55:59.540 If they like them, they just...

00:56:02.020 I mean, they're athletes.

00:56:03.000 They're athletes.

00:56:03.980 If you look good, you can get them.

00:56:04.600 Exactly.

00:56:05.040 That's all it takes.

00:56:07.420 It's easy.

00:56:08.100 Okay.

00:56:08.320 You said you got some blue check marks?

00:56:11.880 Yeah, but it never went anywhere.

00:56:13.760 This was like...

00:56:14.600 Did you meet up?

00:56:15.740 No.

00:56:16.300 Okay, but...

00:56:17.180 It was just like conversation.

00:56:18.220 It kind of led to nothing, so...

00:56:19.380 Yeah.

00:56:20.060 It's kind of...

00:56:20.360 And just...

00:56:21.640 I want to add one thing to this.

00:56:23.860 Have you ever had an offer to be flown out to?

00:56:27.800 Yes, and usually I decline.

00:56:29.280 Any fly-out offers?

00:56:34.400 No.

00:56:36.300 Yeah?

00:56:36.860 Yeah.

00:56:37.320 Take it or no?

00:56:38.040 No.

00:56:38.440 Okay. 0.98

00:56:38.740 I shut up. 0.76

00:56:39.540 And you've been flown out? 0.93

00:56:40.820 Yeah.

00:56:41.220 I mean, if you had to put a number on it, how many times have you been flown out by a guy?

00:56:47.800 Close to the mic, please.

00:56:49.020 This trip, I actually got flown out.

00:56:50.920 To California?

00:56:51.600 Yeah.

00:56:52.280 By an NBA player?

00:56:53.680 No, he's put his name in the draft, but...

00:56:57.600 He's an athlete?

00:56:58.320 Yeah.

00:56:59.160 Okay.

00:57:00.040 So he flew you out because you're in Ohio, but he flew you out to LA?

00:57:03.460 Yeah, because he...

00:57:04.720 A lot of them are in LA right now for, like, workouts and stuff.

00:57:11.520 What's up?

00:57:12.460 I have a question.

00:57:13.560 Do they know that you're on here, and do they know about each other?

00:57:17.880 I hope not.

00:57:20.800 But if they see me, we're probably going to talk about it later.

00:57:25.160 I don't doubt anything would change, though.

00:57:29.580 I had to block one, though.

00:57:31.020 A what?

00:57:31.540 You had to block one of them?

00:57:32.260 I had to block an NBA player.

00:57:33.700 You blocked an NBA player?

00:57:36.280 Why is that?

00:57:37.260 He didn't score enough points in his last game?

00:57:40.800 To be honest, I don't really watch their games much, unless I'm there at the game.

00:57:45.720 Um...

00:57:46.760 Have you...

00:57:47.440 Has a guy ever who was in the NBA flown you out, and then you go and see his game?

00:57:52.880 Mm-hmm.

00:57:53.380 That's the majority of the time.

00:57:54.600 Do you get courtside, or you're, like, in the back?

00:57:57.240 No, I'd just be in his stands.

00:57:58.760 I mean, I could ask him for courtside, but I'd rather not make anything too obvious.

00:58:04.420 Yeah.

00:58:05.000 Especially if they got other stuff.

00:58:07.320 Yeah.

00:58:07.780 Okay.

00:58:08.740 Has there ever been a situation where an NBA player...

00:58:12.580 How many games have you been comped?

00:58:17.040 Just two.

00:58:18.060 Oh, just two?

00:58:18.720 Yeah, just two.

00:58:19.180 Question.

00:58:19.800 Mm-hmm.

00:58:19.980 Have you ever been seeing a guy from both teams, and they're playing against each other?

00:58:26.860 I've had guys from...

00:58:29.860 Actually, yeah, I have.

00:58:31.520 Oh, yeah, I did.

00:58:33.400 Oh.

00:58:34.040 From the Indiana Pacers, when they was playing against the Bucs.

00:58:38.300 Playing against the Bucs?

00:58:39.620 Yeah.

00:58:39.840 So you were seeing...

00:58:40.860 I wasn't seeing them at the same time.

00:58:43.280 I don't know their positions.

00:58:44.460 Well, I know their positions, but I don't know them off the top of my head.

00:58:46.620 Were they both starters?

00:58:47.500 I don't know.

00:58:49.020 So one of them was from the Pacers.

00:58:50.920 She doesn't date people on the bench, okay?

00:58:53.320 She only dates starters. 0.99

00:58:54.580 That's a lie.

00:58:55.180 I've messed with one guy.

00:58:56.000 Can I ask this also?

00:58:56.660 He didn't play much.

00:58:58.380 A lot of you talk about wanting this high-value guy.

00:59:01.760 Mm-hmm.

00:59:02.240 Would you be more interested in sharing a high-value man with another woman or having an average 0.94

00:59:08.160 man all to yourself?

00:59:09.060 Right.

00:59:09.240 Good question.

00:59:10.000 So here's my take on that, and you guys can...

00:59:12.700 Yeah, we'll have everyone answer this one.

00:59:14.260 But for me, dating now, it's definitely different.

00:59:20.720 I guess as long as I'm taking care of my tuition, taking care of car notes, taking care of living...

00:59:30.780 Sorry.

00:59:31.460 Hold on just one second.

00:59:32.260 Yeah, go ahead.

00:59:32.580 Yo, Flan Life, thank you for the 50 gifted memberships.

00:59:38.140 We'll do the fit check here in just a sec.

00:59:40.100 Let me write that down.

00:59:40.840 You were saying that your tuition is paid for, your car note is paid for.

00:59:44.320 Yeah.

00:59:44.500 So you have the guys who you're seeing, is it the NBA players that are paying for this?

00:59:50.100 Nobody's paying for nothing right now.

00:59:51.560 Oh, okay.

00:59:51.960 I thought...

00:59:52.960 I was a little confused.

00:59:53.700 I'm just saying, from that point, when he asked me, okay, are you okay with sharing a

00:59:57.680 dude?

00:59:58.480 Honestly, as long as he's not all up in my face, like he just brought another girl over 0.93

01:00:02.560 and I'm there, I'm not about to go look through your phone and make something of something

01:00:08.580 if I'm taking care of.

01:00:10.160 So as long as you don't know about it, you're okay with it.

01:00:11.880 Yeah.

01:00:12.380 And that she's being provided for.

01:00:14.280 Yeah, and now I'm obviously being taken care of.

01:00:16.240 Okay.

01:00:17.380 Okay.

01:00:17.620 Okay.

01:00:18.020 And so the question is, would they rather share a high status guy or get commitment,

01:00:24.780 monogamy from...

01:00:26.540 More of an average.

01:00:27.560 A normal guy.

01:00:28.180 Do you want kids?

01:00:31.460 I'm not opposed to it.

01:00:33.500 Well, let's go around the table on his question.

01:00:36.020 So would you rather have a really high status guy?

01:00:40.460 Say you're the...

01:00:41.360 Let's maybe in this example, she's the main chick. 1.00

01:00:44.280 Is that fair?

01:00:45.240 Sure.

01:00:45.640 She's the main chick, but there's going to be side chicks. 1.00

01:00:47.480 Right.

01:00:48.580 Or do you get monogamy commitment, but from like a normal guy?

01:00:55.140 So let's say you're a celebrity crush.

01:00:57.320 You're the main chick for your celebrity crush, but there's going to be some other chicks involved. 1.00

01:01:02.420 I'm super into monogamy.

01:01:04.640 I find it really special because it is a choice that we make.

01:01:08.480 So I would go for the average committed relationship.

01:01:12.380 Guys, how's the volume?

01:01:13.740 One in the chat, if the volume on her microphone's okay.

01:01:16.060 Is it not peaking?

01:01:17.460 One in the chat, if her audio's okay or if it's too low.

01:01:20.120 How's the audio?

01:01:22.720 Hello?

01:01:25.300 Chat?

01:01:27.580 Audio's good?

01:01:28.300 Looks like audio's okay?

01:01:29.640 Okay, cool.

01:01:30.320 Guys, if it's peaking, let us know.

01:01:32.100 Eric, keep an eye on that.

01:01:33.120 Would you rather share a high-status guy or get monogamy from a normal, average guy?

01:01:42.820 I think I would...

01:01:43.920 Closer to the mic.

01:01:44.800 I think I would definitely share if it's a high-status guy.

01:01:52.560 I mean, it's different, though.

01:01:54.060 It's like, yeah, if you keep it on low, don't tell me about it.

01:01:58.420 It's whatever.

01:01:59.020 But, like, if we have to, like, be able to discuss that, though, and say, like, this is what this is, you know, rather than being blindsided about it, even though it's, like, you know.

01:02:11.860 You'd want him to be up front with it?

01:02:13.540 Yeah.

01:02:13.940 Okay, sure.

01:02:15.160 So some people want to know and some people don't want to know, which I think is interesting.

01:02:18.680 Yeah.

01:02:21.300 It just depends, because it's like, if you're dating a more valued man or high-valued man,

01:02:27.740 and he has, like, like, y'all have no connection, like, are you saying, like, you would have a connection with that person

01:02:33.340 and they're talking to other people and doing, like, stuff with other people?

01:02:37.500 You're the main chick.

01:02:39.860 He's high-status.

01:02:41.060 You're a celebrity crush.

01:02:41.980 Yeah, I would definitely have to be, like, I don't know, communicated and I'd have to be taken care of for real if I was.

01:02:49.520 Sure.

01:02:49.700 Like, is emotional taking care of a factor at all?

01:02:54.820 Is it just financial?

01:02:55.240 That is, because it's like, if I don't feel no connection with that person, I'm not going to be there and be like, yeah, I'm with him just so that he takes care of me.

01:03:02.360 Gotcha.

01:03:03.560 But what, if you had kids with this person, would you care then?

01:03:08.160 I don't think I would let it get that far.

01:03:09.560 Or, like, if I, I feel like I would know before it got to the point of children if I really had a connection with that person.

01:03:16.140 But why date anyone if you're not, like, eventually trying to get to?

01:03:19.860 It's true, but you're also, like, trying to learn people.

01:03:22.840 Like, nobody's going to show you who they truly are at first, you know?

01:03:27.020 Like, it's kind of like you learn more about people and then make the decision as you go.

01:03:30.960 So you want to go from, like, polyamorous to monogamous eventually?

01:03:35.120 So, like, for instance, if you like a man, but you're in some sort of polyamorous relationship or noncommittal relationship, and then you want to turn that into a husband, you just plan on him switching to monogamy now?

01:03:50.520 Hmm.

01:03:52.400 I don't know.

01:03:53.540 No.

01:03:54.240 Well, a lot of the time, I'm going to be honest, if you're doing that with that man, you know, he already got his other things.

01:04:01.680 Sorry about that.

01:04:03.700 It's not going to work with him.

01:04:05.120 You're going to have to find some videos.

01:04:07.000 Unless, like, y'all really talk and y'all really, like, okay, like, I'm messing with you.

01:04:11.360 Like, I've tried all these other people and it's just not working.

01:04:15.040 I keep coming back to you, then you guys can have that talk.

01:04:17.460 But more than likely, if you are trying to really settle down and you're with somebody like that, it's just not going to work.

01:04:23.540 So just to continue going around the table on this, would you rather share a high-status guy, you're the main chick, but he's going to have side chicks, or get monogamy from, like, average normal dude?

01:04:35.560 Well, I already said it.

01:04:38.840 I would rather be with somebody who has a good life together. 1.00

01:04:42.180 Taking care of all your shit. 1.00

01:04:43.320 Yeah. 1.00

01:04:43.720 Yeah.

01:04:44.580 Because I'm not...

01:04:47.720 Some people don't date for kids and, like, oh, I need him to be all about me, like, marriage, marriage, marriage.

01:04:55.580 Like, if I'm looking for a good vibe and he give that to me and he's respectful, because a lot of them are respectful, to me at least.

01:05:04.900 Okay.

01:05:05.180 You don't want kids, or?

01:05:09.020 If they come into play, then I'll have that conversation when I have kids.

01:05:13.100 You want to be married before you have kids? 1.00

01:05:14.700 Yeah.

01:05:15.520 You have to be married. 0.73

01:05:16.440 Yeah.

01:05:17.680 What about you?

01:05:18.320 Share, or?

01:05:20.400 Well, if it's, like, what is the sharing?

01:05:24.520 Am I sharing you with another woman all the time? 1.00

01:05:27.920 Or is it that my husband went on vacation, he fucked a bitch in Brazil and came back home to me, never going to see her again? 1.00

01:05:38.700 Let's say, like, El Salvador. 1.00

01:05:41.480 Let's not say Brazil.

01:05:43.420 It was in El Salvador, so it's a little...

01:05:46.760 Peru, maybe Chile.

01:05:49.400 But it's not, like, it's a mistress.

01:05:52.100 Am I sharing him with somebody else like that?

01:05:55.000 Or am I the queen, and then he, guys are going to get horny anywhere they go. 1.00

01:06:01.940 He goes on vacation, some big booty bitch is on him, and he fucks up. 1.00

01:06:06.740 But it's, like, if we were married for 20 years, is that, and we have kids, that's not really fair of me to just, done, go away. 1.00

01:06:15.420 If it just happened once, and you're never going to see this woman again.

01:06:18.060 Would you see that almost more of, like, emotional cheating versus just sexual gratification?

01:06:22.680 That would just be, like, sexual gratification.

01:06:25.480 Right.

01:06:25.860 So it's, like, it's just more logical to not leave you if that's the situation that happened.

01:06:33.120 But then it's, like, if you're allowing another woman to feel the same way that I'm feeling,

01:06:38.020 and you're letting another woman feel like she's in the same position as me, then that's completely different.

01:06:43.140 That's having a mistress. 1.00

01:06:43.960 So, let's say, yes, there's a mistress. 0.93

01:06:47.800 There's a mistress, and no. 1.00

01:06:49.180 I'll settle for the loyalty.

01:06:51.000 I don't need.

01:06:51.860 What about, like, once a quarter, he, like, hooks up some chick in.

01:06:57.120 Once a quarter? 0.99

01:06:58.120 In, like, Luxembourg or some shit. 0.99

01:07:00.720 Like, once a year? 0.96

01:07:01.600 Or, like, a couple of times a year?

01:07:03.980 Four times a year, like once a quarter.

01:07:05.460 That's a little much.

01:07:06.200 Like, Q1, Q2, Q3, Q4.

01:07:07.600 That's a little much.

01:07:08.360 If we're married, that's a little much.

01:07:10.040 If it happened, like, if it happened, like, we were married for 10 years and it happened, it would be really easy.

01:07:16.840 Hold on, just.

01:07:17.840 Oh, yo, AB check.

01:07:18.980 Thank you for the 20 gift.

01:07:20.020 Appreciate it.

01:07:21.060 Thank you so much, man.

01:07:22.380 Flan life, we will get the fit check here in just a sec.

01:07:24.360 I just want to finish going around on this table, so.

01:07:26.780 Like, it's just, if you have kids with that person and you have a marriage with that person and you have, like, you know,

01:07:31.860 you've built your life with this person already and they cheated because they were horny, 1.00

01:07:37.220 men are going to cheat. 0.99

01:07:38.280 Men are animals. 0.99

01:07:39.480 They're loiter than you guys are just going to cheat. 0.95

01:07:40.860 It's just in your nature.

01:07:41.840 Erroneous.

01:07:43.180 Erroneous.

01:07:44.820 There's a lot of men that are loyal.

01:07:46.360 There's a lot of men.

01:07:46.920 Of course there's a lot of men that are loyal, but, like, it is in, it's in a lot of men's nature that's, like,

01:07:52.660 they're, it's hard to have them commit to one person, commit to one woman, and, you know,

01:07:57.920 it's hard for one man to go 20, 25, 30, 40 years with one woman, and I, like, I'm not going to say,

01:08:06.020 we're not going to say the same thing.

01:08:07.120 We're going to think other guys are attractive.

01:08:09.100 I'm pretty sure we have more control over that as women, but, you know, a man, it's really hard for, 0.88

01:08:14.920 I know that it's going to be really hard for one man to be having sex, just sex with one person for that long of a time.

01:08:22.280 Are your parents together?

01:08:24.080 No, but my mom's married with my stepdad. 0.99

01:08:27.580 Do you think your stepdad cheats on your mom?

01:08:30.080 I don't think my stepdad cheats on my mom.

01:08:31.600 So why can your stepdad do it?

01:08:33.500 What do you mean?

01:08:34.140 I didn't say he could do it.

01:08:35.500 Like, your dad, like, I'm saying your stepdad is able to remain in a monogamous relationship with your mom,

01:08:41.160 and he's not going around.

01:08:43.720 If my mom had kids with my stepdad and he cheated on her, she wouldn't divorce him. 0.99

01:08:49.920 If they were together for that long.

01:08:51.720 Based? Based, huh?

01:08:53.740 What?

01:08:54.920 Are you, by any chance, Vietnamese?

01:08:56.580 Yeah.

01:08:57.200 How did you know?

01:08:57.720 Well, slightly bloke, but also the talk about divorce, because Vietnamese culture doesn't really... 0.97

01:09:04.060 Divorce you, yeah.

01:09:05.200 Hold on.

01:09:06.520 Robert.

01:09:07.560 Thank you.

01:09:08.180 Robert Mugavi donated $101.

01:09:10.080 Girl in red, what's your end goal with NBA players? 0.99

01:09:14.020 Let's be real. 0.96

01:09:15.320 You're being flown out for sex only. 0.84

01:09:18.040 Those players have busloads of women lining up for them for the same thing. 1.00

01:09:22.020 Dot, why do you think they'll do more for you besides just running through you?

01:09:26.060 Your response to Robert Mugavi.

01:09:29.300 Okay, Robert.

01:09:30.880 Let me read that real quick.

01:09:34.580 To be honest, rather than just getting...

01:09:39.400 I'm going to just be a little vulgar here. 0.98

01:09:42.140 Rather than just getting fucked by some random who don't have nothing to him, 1.00

01:09:47.160 I'd rather be fucked by a baller. 1.00

01:09:49.500 But why get fucked at all? 1.00

01:09:51.980 Why not? 1.00

01:09:52.460 Can't you just chill at home and pet your cat? 1.00

01:09:55.780 Can I not fuck? 1.00

01:09:57.960 I just be like... 1.00

01:09:59.020 Is that a euphemism? 0.99

01:10:00.600 She's like, why get fucked at all? 0.99

01:10:02.540 I mean, don't get me wrong. 0.99

01:10:04.400 Sure.

01:10:05.100 Even the euphemism, I just don't understand why you need to... 0.91

01:10:08.540 Do you actually gain that much from having sex with these men? 0.88

01:10:14.420 And do you enjoy that so much? 1.00

01:10:16.280 I mean, it's not more so like, oh my God, I'm gaining so much from fucking this dude. 0.97

01:10:23.300 It's not that. 0.98

01:10:24.160 It's just like, I mean, how many times... 0.99

01:10:26.660 How many times do you get to fuck an NBA player? 1.00

01:10:28.440 How many times do you get to flown out, go to games, and do all this extra stuff? 0.99

01:10:31.840 Like, it sounds kind of frequent though.

01:10:34.920 Yeah. 1.00

01:10:35.600 Like, you got that shit on a lot. 1.00

01:10:37.400 You got that shit figured out. 1.00

01:10:38.900 Right. 1.00

01:10:39.560 And you called them easy.

01:10:41.080 Yeah, I just figured it out.

01:10:42.280 You said a lot of them are easy.

01:10:44.160 Yeah.

01:10:44.780 So...

01:10:45.500 Easy to get attention-wise.

01:10:47.740 Like, on Instagram.

01:10:48.940 Yeah, so apparently, a lot of times, you'll have that opportunity.

01:10:52.420 It's not a rare opportunity.

01:10:54.160 It's my...

01:10:54.740 Well, it really just depends on how the girl looks. 1.00

01:10:59.140 That's what I mean by it can be easy.

01:11:01.980 I'm not saying anybody can just, like, have a DM or start liking everybody's pictures and somebody's going to talk to you.

01:11:07.760 That's not always the case.

01:11:09.900 In my case, I just get lucky to be noticed.

01:11:13.160 So...

01:11:13.400 Sure.

01:11:14.060 Let's just continue with the question.

01:11:15.640 So, would you rather share a high-status guy or get monogamy from a normal guy?

01:11:20.980 Well, if I was not in the relationship, definitely a normal guy.

01:11:24.920 Sorry.

01:11:25.460 Hold on.

01:11:26.320 Big donated $100.

01:11:29.140 I think Lauren is too smart for the rest of this panel. 1.00

01:11:32.560 She is growing on me and making something grow on me, LOL. 1.00

01:11:36.360 I would let her litigate all over me anytime. 0.82

01:11:40.680 Thank you.

01:11:41.740 What a simp.

01:11:43.900 I love my simp.

01:11:45.240 Litigate all over me anytime.

01:11:47.560 Okay.

01:11:48.880 Go ahead.

01:11:49.560 Yeah.

01:11:50.560 So, if I was not dating my boyfriend, then I would definitely choose an average guy that was loyal.

01:11:56.360 But I am lucky and I got a high-value status man all to myself.

01:12:01.040 So...

01:12:01.120 Well, you're...

01:12:01.640 Hold on.

01:12:01.940 You're 21, right?

01:12:03.180 25.

01:12:04.000 Okay.

01:12:04.440 I got that mixed up.

01:12:05.080 25.

01:12:06.560 When you say he's a high-value man, what do you mean?

01:12:09.320 To my eyes.

01:12:10.180 Sure.

01:12:10.380 To me.

01:12:10.960 For me.

01:12:11.340 Okay.

01:12:11.860 And what does that look like to you?

01:12:15.320 Definitely...

01:12:17.680 Okay.

01:12:18.140 So, like, a high-value man or him as a high-value man?

01:12:22.500 What's the difference?

01:12:25.180 Well...

01:12:25.740 Closer to the mic.

01:12:26.440 Well, because I could be just describing him, but it's not necessarily that what it takes to be a high-value man.

01:12:37.600 Well, what does it take?

01:12:38.520 What do you think is that?

01:12:39.240 What does it take?

01:12:39.640 Okay.

01:12:39.840 Is he a high earner?

01:12:41.720 For his age, I'd argue.

01:12:43.160 Okay.

01:12:44.500 Is that the only high-value man?

01:12:46.320 No.

01:12:46.500 I mean, there's other metrics, but that's one potential component of it.

01:12:50.860 Go ahead.

01:12:51.160 Would you say that looks, money, and status are part of that equation for most women? 1.00

01:12:54.640 For most women, for sure. 0.97

01:12:57.940 I think one of the most important things for me is his intelligence, but for most women, I agree.

01:13:03.360 Okay.

01:13:03.700 So, for most women. 0.98

01:13:04.480 So, if most women... 1.00

01:13:06.640 If a man typically has to have looks, money, and status in order to attract lots of beautiful women, how is the man not considered the prize?

01:13:14.000 Oh, I definitely think I won.

01:13:16.600 Well, right.

01:13:17.040 But I'm saying when you ask people when it comes to dating and relationships who's typically seen as the prize, the man or the woman, most people say the woman.

01:13:23.980 Right.

01:13:24.180 Why is it...

01:13:24.760 Should we go around the table on this?

01:13:26.160 I mean...

01:13:27.080 Really quick?

01:13:27.600 Yeah, yeah, we can.

01:13:28.620 Just, who's the prize?

01:13:31.500 Who do you think is the prize?

01:13:32.980 I don't think anyone in specific is the prize.

01:13:36.280 Okay.

01:13:37.080 Yeah, I don't...

01:13:38.120 Are you the prize?

01:13:38.680 Okay.

01:13:39.040 Are you the prize or is the man the prize?

01:13:40.400 I don't really know because sometimes it's just different on different, like, standards and...

01:13:46.880 Sure.

01:13:47.360 ...situations there.

01:13:50.600 Just be honest.

01:13:51.320 You can say it.

01:13:52.340 You can say it.

01:13:53.420 Yeah, I'm the prize.

01:13:54.820 Okay.

01:13:55.460 A little closer to the mic, though.

01:13:56.420 I don't know if they heard.

01:13:57.180 Yeah, I'm the prize.

01:13:59.800 Does her mic need to be boosted to chat?

01:14:02.220 Hello?

01:14:02.360 We do...

01:14:04.360 I'm the camera a little bit, too.

01:14:05.660 Okay.

01:14:06.840 The red restaurant drink.

01:14:08.200 Go ahead.

01:14:10.420 Logically, I think the man is the prize.

01:14:12.820 Okay.

01:14:13.120 I think that my man, for me, is a prize, but I hope that I am his prize.

01:14:22.120 I think that both are prize for each other because men choose women and women choose men, 0.97

01:14:27.260 so, yeah, they both are for each other.

01:14:30.500 Lauren?

01:14:31.400 Yeah, same.

01:14:33.300 Okay.

01:14:33.560 Both prizes for each other.

01:14:34.860 Do you want to continue with that?

01:14:35.920 I'll just say happy spouse, happy house.

01:14:38.440 Okay.

01:14:39.380 Word?

01:14:39.920 And it goes both ways.

01:14:41.360 It should, yeah.

01:14:42.120 Bringing it to you, high-status man, but you're sharing him.

01:14:46.180 Normal guy, but...

01:14:48.600 Well, I'm actually into monogamy, so, for me, it would be very difficult to share someone.

01:14:55.020 I would be very jealous, even though, before that, I didn't think that I'm jealous.

01:14:58.900 I mean, not before that, but, like, when I was younger, I didn't think that I'm jealous,

01:15:01.760 but, yeah, for real.

01:15:03.440 Just one man.

01:15:04.620 And I also think that every man can be successful in life, especially if they have goal and if they

01:15:10.760 have brain, they can definitely be, so, and if they want, yeah, of course, if they want

01:15:16.680 to be successful.

01:15:17.660 You're both from Russia, right?

01:15:19.200 Isn't it somewhat common, at least this is what I've heard, in Russia, for there to be

01:15:24.360 a mistress?

01:15:25.940 Is that common in Russia?

01:15:27.340 Are you talking about France?

01:15:28.940 Are you maybe mixing us up with France?

01:15:31.740 You sure?

01:15:32.560 I think I'm thinking about Russia.

01:15:34.700 I mean, I would not hope so.

01:15:39.400 I would not know, probably, but not as far as, like, the people that I know.

01:15:44.560 Okay, all right.

01:15:45.780 So, Lauren, what about you?

01:15:46.980 Share or monogamy?

01:15:49.740 Monogamy.

01:15:50.600 And also, I kind of take issue with the question, because you're talking about high-valued

01:15:56.220 man, and I just don't value people.

01:15:58.660 I think you could say high-earning man, maybe, so are we just talking about, does a man have

01:16:04.900 a lot of money?

01:16:06.080 I feel like, essentially, the question is, if a man has a lot of money, would you let him 1.00

01:16:10.660 fuck a lot of women? 1.00

01:16:11.400 And it's like, no, it doesn't matter how much money my man makes, I want my man to be. 1.00

01:16:17.320 It's not even so much about being loyal to me, it's more about being a good role model

01:16:23.640 as a father, and I don't want to be with a man who I don't think would make a good father

01:16:29.300 to my kids, so, and I wouldn't want my kids to see their dad running around with other

01:16:35.980 women. 0.81

01:16:36.720 I just think that's gross, so. 0.98

01:16:39.880 Yeah.

01:16:40.240 By the way, Flann Life, thank you for the extra gifted subs.

01:16:43.000 We'll get the fit check here in just a sec.

01:16:44.480 Like, did you have a string that you wanted to continue with?

01:16:47.780 Well, I was just going to say, I'd be willing to share myself with multiple women.

01:16:50.980 No, I'm just kidding.

01:16:52.060 Okay, I'd like to, all right, let's try this one.

01:16:57.900 Have any of you guys ever used Tinder or dating apps before, and what was your experience?

01:17:03.080 Hated Tinder.

01:17:03.800 Yeah, Tinder is, like, sucky, but, like, Hinge is not bad.

01:17:09.860 Okay, I've heard a lot of people talk about Hinge.

01:17:11.580 Okay.

01:17:12.340 I'm on the right stuff.

01:17:14.760 Do you, um, why do you think that women typically get far more matches than men?

01:17:18.580 Go ahead.

01:17:23.920 Well, I just wanted to say that men probably just swipe right and then see who swipes right

01:17:28.720 on them.

01:17:29.300 I think it's because men are on there, and it's a lot easier for men to find a woman attractive

01:17:35.140 than women to find men attractive. 0.98

01:17:36.500 So, we're all going to say, it's a lot more, it's a lot more probable for a woman to get

01:17:44.620 more people that, finding her attractive than a random man to just get, um, have women

01:17:50.480 constantly finding them attractive.

01:17:52.640 And I also feel like you're not just looking at, at least for women, I...

01:17:56.500 Uh, hold on.

01:17:58.500 Robert Mugabe donated $101.

01:18:00.380 Thank you, man, appreciate it.

01:18:02.020 Okay, so let me get this straight.

01:18:04.540 Girl in red is happy to just her back blown out, but NBA players for now. 1.00

01:18:09.280 But what about the long term?

01:18:11.280 Do you want to get married eventually?

01:18:13.560 How do you think your future potential husband will feel about that?

01:18:17.920 Your answer quickly.

01:18:19.100 Yes.

01:18:19.740 So, um, hopefully my husband can accept me for me.

01:18:23.500 Um, I'm still young now, so I'm going to use that as my excuse.

01:18:27.040 Um, but everything I do, I definitely think about, um, whether it's a lot of people,

01:18:34.520 that sex protection is used, um...

01:18:38.680 Protection's used?

01:18:39.600 Yeah.

01:18:40.920 Really?

01:18:41.600 Yeah.

01:18:42.180 You sure?

01:18:42.840 Yeah.

01:18:43.560 You sure?

01:18:44.140 A lot of them want to use it.

01:18:46.020 Oh, yeah, the hot sauce thing.

01:18:47.980 Yeah, a lot of them want to use it, so I'm not against it.

01:18:50.500 Okay.

01:18:50.700 Apparently, in the NBA, even going back to the 90s, they would send out these memos instructing

01:18:59.540 these new NBA drafts, who are perhaps a bit naive and young, that not only should they

01:19:07.600 wear condoms when sleeping with these women, they should also be sure to, like, tie a knot 1.00

01:19:13.200 in it and flush it down the toilet, because what these women would do is, like, and I think 1.00

01:19:18.540 this happened to Drake recently or some shit, the women would, like, get the condoms and, 1.00

01:19:24.660 like, try to inseminate themselves so they could get a baby, so that they could get child 0.87

01:19:28.180 support from, presumably, well, athletes tend to make a good amount of money, so, and

01:19:33.520 they're also athletes, so that's...

01:19:35.200 I mean, yeah, you gotta think, like, I'm not saying I do this, but I'm...

01:19:41.140 Oh, my God.

01:19:43.180 Pushy Magnet donated $100.69.

01:19:46.560 Great name.

01:19:47.620 Ever had bad vibes with a high-value man?

01:19:50.600 Are vibes synonymous with good looks?

01:19:53.260 Yeah.

01:19:53.500 Thank you, Pushy Magnet, for the $100.69.

01:19:57.040 Appreciate it.

01:19:57.540 I mean, like I said, I had a block of NBA player before, because he was just...

01:20:02.540 Every time we would talk, it was always about sex, and then when I would, like, defer from

01:20:09.000 that topic, he would, like, he would low-key trip on me, like, and I was not going for

01:20:14.500 nothing. 0.98

01:20:14.580 Oh, so he just wanted you for sex, basically? 0.72

01:20:16.720 It was, it was, yeah, and sometimes it's like that, but if I can't even have, like, a 1.00

01:20:20.900 regular conversation with him, I just can't, like, if you always sending me your dick, 0.99

01:20:26.920 like, yeah, like... 1.00

01:20:28.540 Send him the D?

01:20:29.760 Like snapping, yeah, throughout the day.

01:20:31.860 They'd be, like, 2 p.m., and they'd be in their bed, just... 1.00

01:20:35.460 The fuck? 1.00

01:20:36.640 Yeah. 1.00

01:20:37.300 See, I wouldn't, I can't, I mean, I guess they do it, but to me, it's just like, you

01:20:42.680 know, why would you, if you're out there in the public, you know, why would you, because

01:20:51.420 it could get leaked.

01:20:52.420 Right, well... 0.99

01:20:53.580 I've never sent a dick pic. 0.99

01:20:54.840 Yeah, I love it. 0.99

01:20:55.340 I wouldn't send a dick pic. 1.00

01:20:56.100 I'm not trying to get that shit out there, you know? 1.00

01:20:57.720 Don't. 0.99

01:20:58.420 I mean, that's what I'm thinking. 1.00

01:21:00.120 I think women should send pussy pics, though. 1.00

01:21:03.740 I'm in favor of pussy pics. 1.00

01:21:04.780 Women should start sending pussy pics. 1.00

01:21:06.140 Revenge. 1.00

01:21:06.680 I think it's revenge for all the dick pics that's just been sliding around for... 0.99

01:21:10.280 Hold on. 0.99

01:21:12.260 Mike Davis donated...

01:21:13.460 Yo, thank you, Mike Davis.

01:21:14.300 What's good shorty with the red and dark hair?

01:21:18.060 I'm no NBA player, but I probably got more bread and brains than those bench players.

01:21:23.520 I earned my way.

01:21:24.900 If not for athleticism, they'd be hustling a mixtape on the street corner.

01:21:29.340 Let me slide in.

01:21:31.100 Well, you got my Instagram.

01:21:32.600 If you want to take a look at the screen here, this is Mike Davis.

01:21:35.140 We have a photo of him in the studio.

01:21:36.940 He's one of our longtime patrons.

01:21:40.040 I don't know if you can tell, he works...

01:21:42.040 Oh, that's him?

01:21:42.780 That's Mike Davis.

01:21:43.800 That's the guy who just super chat.

01:21:44.840 Handsome guy, right?

01:21:46.260 He owns like 331 Burger King restaurants on the East Coast. 1.00

01:21:52.500 He's trying to fuck with me? 1.00

01:21:54.240 Wait, question. 1.00

01:21:55.720 Like, Mike Davis...

01:21:56.900 Yeah.

01:21:57.420 I've known Mike Davis for a very long time.

01:21:59.580 He once...

01:22:00.120 We were on a camping trip, and believe it or not, it was like in the...

01:22:04.520 What's the mountain range in California?

01:22:06.720 It's the...

01:22:07.920 It was the Appalachian Trail.

01:22:09.400 Me and we were camping together.

01:22:11.020 They're...

01:22:11.900 Oh, y'all are close, like...

01:22:13.480 We're close.

01:22:15.280 Platonically.

01:22:15.940 Like, there's no romance or anything.

01:22:17.880 We did share a tent once, though.

01:22:19.260 Like, on the Appalachian Trail.

01:22:20.500 Bromance.

01:22:20.980 It was a bromance.

01:22:21.660 It's okay.

01:22:22.440 Yeah.

01:22:22.880 He's a patron of mine, so I fly out and we talk.

01:22:26.720 But he rescued me from a bear.

01:22:30.320 And so I'm like forever in his debt.

01:22:32.080 So, like, can I connect you with Mike Davis?

01:22:35.700 He got my Instagram.

01:22:37.180 How did he rescue you from a bear?

01:22:39.000 Yeah.

01:22:39.720 So, he was on the night patrol because it was the Appalachian Mountains, so we didn't want 0.57

01:22:44.240 like any meth heads, like, trying to fuck us up. 0.90

01:22:46.300 So, he's like standing guard outside the tent, right? 0.99

01:22:48.840 And I'm like, I need my beauty sleep. 0.99

01:22:51.000 So, I was like, fucking knock the fuck out. 0.99

01:22:53.300 So, he was like, you know, chilling. 1.00

01:22:56.220 And there's a fucking black bear. 0.99

01:22:58.660 How did he... 1.00

01:22:59.520 I mean, it's a bear night.

01:22:59.940 Because we left some food out accidentally. 0.98

01:23:01.620 Like, there's some Burger King wrappers and shit just, like, strewn across the campsite. 0.99

01:23:07.200 So, like, he fucking, like, he had some bear mace, like, one of those big canisters. 0.99

01:23:11.620 Oh, my God. 0.99

01:23:11.820 So, he, like, this black bear comes charging. 1.00

01:23:14.980 Fucking charging at him. 0.99

01:23:16.480 Boom. 1.00

01:23:16.980 Sprays the fucker. 1.00

01:23:18.180 Saved me. 1.00

01:23:20.000 Did you wake up?

01:23:21.140 Or was you just...

01:23:21.620 Yeah, I woke up. 0.89

01:23:22.300 The black bear was tripping the fuck out. 1.00

01:23:23.880 And Mike Davis was like, fuck off. 1.00

01:23:26.040 So, he saved me. 1.00

01:23:27.000 So, like, can I...

01:23:28.040 I'm, like, kind of his wingman.

01:23:30.060 Yeah.

01:23:30.440 Are you down...

01:23:31.340 Like, can I get you guys linked up?

01:23:32.980 He's a good dude.

01:23:33.780 Linked up?

01:23:34.320 Like, what you mean?

01:23:35.040 Like, is he trying to go on vacation or something?

01:23:36.320 He's down to fly you out.

01:23:37.860 Where'd he stay?

01:23:39.440 He's on the East Coast.

01:23:41.440 Oh, he's on the East Coast.

01:23:42.180 You're down...

01:23:42.620 Can I get you guys linked up, huh?

01:23:44.020 We could talk about that.

01:23:45.000 And he's a gentleman, too.

01:23:46.800 He owns a couple of...

01:23:47.540 He'll comp whatever you want at Burger King.

01:23:49.800 Why would you choose NBA players over somebody who's, like, actually worked hard, made a living,

01:23:55.320 have, like, grand sizes?

01:23:55.960 Like Mike Davis.

01:23:57.220 Like Mike Davis.

01:23:58.060 I mean, he's a handsome man.

01:23:59.480 This is...

01:23:59.920 I mean, I'm going to be honest.

01:24:01.100 I'm not knocking nobody who worked hard for their money.

01:24:04.120 Like, Mike looked cool.

01:24:05.500 Like, I'm not knocking nobody for their money.

01:24:08.360 I don't care how you get the money as long as you got it.

01:24:11.600 And...

01:24:11.960 These aren't prescription, by the way.

01:24:13.480 He has perfect 20-20 vision.

01:24:15.080 He just...

01:24:15.580 It's more like an aesthetic.

01:24:17.060 Very cool.

01:24:17.640 It's an aesthetic thing.

01:24:18.840 His vision's good.

01:24:19.840 So his genes are good.

01:24:21.120 Uh-huh.

01:24:21.780 Are you down?

01:24:22.340 How tall is he?

01:24:24.060 6'3".

01:24:25.380 I'm a basketball player.

01:24:27.520 Yeah, 6'3".

01:24:28.280 I'm pretty...

01:24:28.520 Can...

01:24:28.880 So, after the show, can I get you guys connected?

01:24:30.980 Yeah, we can talk about it.

01:24:32.460 Or...

01:24:32.900 You know what, Mike Davis?

01:24:33.780 I got it.

01:24:35.060 Mike Davis, just slide into her DMs.

01:24:36.720 Yeah, you got my Instagram.

01:24:37.940 Okay.

01:24:39.200 So, anyways, what were we talking about?

01:24:41.000 Yeah.

01:24:41.400 Well, I wanted to ask a question also.

01:24:43.240 What are your thoughts on, like, there's a common perception about modern women today?

01:24:47.240 Yeah.

01:24:47.420 I've heard, they say, modern women today don't care about a man's struggles, they just want 1.00

01:24:51.840 to show up at the finish line and pick the winners.

01:24:54.220 Do you think that's true?

01:24:54.980 And if so, why?

01:24:56.060 Well, I'm going to be honest.

01:24:57.660 I've messed with a couple guys that have been through stuff, like, more challenges in life

01:25:02.120 than somebody who was just born into money.

01:25:05.160 And, honestly, they're a lot more down to earth.

01:25:08.880 Yeah, like, I can have a conversation with somebody who slept in their car before, or had

01:25:13.100 to sleep in their car before.

01:25:14.080 Wait, question.

01:25:14.740 Is 6'3 too short?

01:25:16.600 No, 6'3's fine.

01:25:17.360 Because you kind of scoffed when I said 6'3.

01:25:19.120 I know you date NBA ballers, but is that too short for you?

01:25:23.780 The tallest I had was, like, 7'2.

01:25:26.900 And I'll be honest, like, it's kind of hard.

01:25:28.480 It's a wrap.

01:25:29.060 I'm sorry, Mike Davidson.

01:25:30.040 It's over for you, Rob.

01:25:30.980 No, like, 6'3's perfect.

01:25:31.900 Stop it.

01:25:33.140 Get some help.

01:25:35.300 6'3's perfect.

01:25:37.320 I think anything over, like, because I'm a little taller, I'm, like, 5'6.

01:25:41.660 I think anything over, like, 5'8 is fine for me.

01:25:44.100 Oh, anything more than 5'8.

01:25:45.620 Go ahead.

01:25:45.820 Yeah.

01:25:46.000 Do you think you're more likely to meet a beautiful woman who's down-to-earth or a high-value man who's down-to-earth?

01:25:51.120 Oh, a beautiful woman that's more down-to-earth.

01:25:54.180 Which one was more likely to overcome hardship?

01:25:57.000 I'd probably say the woman. 0.93

01:25:59.020 Can you compare the ugly duckling woman to the high-value man who had to earn his status? 0.99

01:26:04.200 Wait. 0.96

01:26:04.720 Why are y'all shaking your heads?

01:26:06.500 Am I missing something?

01:26:07.740 You really think that a pretty woman has a harder time throughout life than a man who has to work for his wealth and strive to get to the top? 1.00

01:26:15.920 I'm just...

01:26:16.420 Like, okay, like, who has it harder, Heidi Klum or Mark Cuban, throughout life?

01:26:21.600 Maybe you're going to have to lower them numbers.

01:26:24.200 I don't know.

01:26:25.380 Oh, you don't know those people?

01:26:26.440 Okay.

01:26:27.600 Who had it harder, Hayley Bieber or, I'm trying to find, like, Gen Z people.

01:26:32.900 Like, um...

01:26:33.660 Right.

01:26:34.180 What? 1.00

01:26:35.120 The fuck is this question? 1.00

01:26:36.820 Okay. 0.99

01:26:38.640 Here, let's do a fit check because flan life has been...

01:26:41.220 Okay.

01:26:41.800 All right, so a fit check, everybody.

01:26:43.100 We've got to do a little stand-up.

01:26:44.300 We're going to check everyone's fit, you know.

01:26:46.960 So if everyone wants to stand up.

01:26:49.480 You can say, you know, where your outfit's from.

01:26:52.580 You know, uh...

01:26:53.180 Are we doing a group stretch?

01:26:54.360 Eh, if you want.

01:26:56.940 Join us.

01:26:58.340 All right.

01:26:58.820 Uh, is this, uh, Balenciaga over here?

01:27:03.040 What you got?

01:27:04.020 Oh, yeah, I just bought this from Korea.

01:27:06.600 Korea? 0.70

01:27:07.320 Yeah.

01:27:08.080 Like, the government?

01:27:09.860 The country.

01:27:10.200 The government sold it to you?

01:27:11.500 No, like, that's...

01:27:12.600 North Korea? 0.67

01:27:13.420 No.

01:27:14.180 It's, like, just bulk?

01:27:15.840 I traveled to Korea and I bought it.

01:27:17.660 North Korea? 0.67

01:27:18.400 South Korea.

01:27:18.640 You're tied with Kim Jong?

01:27:20.680 What are the tattoos on your, uh, what are those, what does they say?

01:27:24.420 Angel?

01:27:24.680 One says angel, another one says devil.

01:27:26.920 Is there something in between angel and devil?

01:27:32.500 Like a fallen angel?

01:27:34.180 I don't know.

01:27:35.360 Okay.

01:27:35.940 Um, there's the fitcher.

01:27:37.260 Does everyone want to do a little spin so they can, you know, we got to see the, you

01:27:40.740 know, the spins.

01:27:42.560 Full spin.

01:27:43.840 Full spin-a-roo.

01:27:44.840 Okay.

01:27:45.440 We got some jeans over here.

01:27:46.960 We got some Balenciaga.

01:27:48.500 We got...

01:27:49.580 I'm not sure what...

01:27:51.740 What do you call those, these pants with the sides visible?

01:27:55.740 I'm not really sure.

01:27:56.120 Is there a name for them?

01:27:57.300 Did you rip them yourself or did they come like that?

01:27:59.460 No, they came like this.

01:28:00.240 Fresh and over.

01:28:00.780 Okay.

01:28:01.200 Thank you, Flan Life.

01:28:03.620 And, uh, this is, um, this is, um, Teespring t-shirt, right?

01:28:08.780 I think that's something.

01:28:09.460 Teespring.

01:28:09.700 It's actually Teespring.

01:28:10.920 Um, it's complicated.

01:28:11.860 That's his YouTube channel.

01:28:13.120 He's got the Nirvana, smells like teen spirit, um, white, um, thing, you know, under, you

01:28:19.160 know, rocking that.

01:28:20.540 And, um, some black jeans.

01:28:22.560 He's got the New Balance.

01:28:23.860 Yo, guys, show the New Balance.

01:28:25.540 Oh, my God.

01:28:27.040 We got Steve.

01:28:27.780 Oh, he's taking it off.

01:28:28.660 Are you gonna...

01:28:30.320 I dare you to smell it.

01:28:31.960 Okay, that's...

01:28:32.460 Don't do that.

01:28:33.640 Um, okay, everyone can sit down now.

01:28:36.500 Um, thank you, Flan Life, for...

01:28:39.880 Okay, where were we?

01:28:43.380 We were talking...

01:28:43.800 Oh, um, I want to finish off on a previous conversation we were having.

01:28:48.460 So, we were talking about blue checks.

01:28:51.080 Blue checks.

01:28:53.400 By the way, guys, I have OCD.

01:28:57.020 Is...

01:28:57.580 Can you guys see the screen flickering?

01:28:59.160 Is his screen flickering?

01:29:00.820 Actually, I don't really see it anymore.

01:29:02.180 Maybe it's the angle.

01:29:02.940 It's fine.

01:29:03.400 Um, okay, I think we left off with you.

01:29:07.400 So, have you had any blue check marks slide into your DMs?

01:29:10.260 Yes.

01:29:11.200 How many?

01:29:12.340 A lot.

01:29:13.280 A lot.

01:29:14.080 How many?

01:29:14.920 What are we talking here?

01:29:16.320 Break it down.

01:29:17.340 Well, when I was single, it used to be a lot, a lot more, but...

01:29:22.940 Did you post your boyfriend?

01:29:24.880 Um...

01:29:25.080 Hold on, on your Instagram?

01:29:26.760 Not, like, that.

01:29:27.940 Not, like, his face, but, like, you know, like...

01:29:31.220 Wait, Eric, can you pull up her Instagram?

01:29:33.540 We'll do a little deep dive here.

01:29:34.940 All right.

01:29:35.140 One point five...

01:29:35.900 One point...

01:29:36.640 Wait, one year relationship?

01:29:38.100 Yeah, like, it's been, like, a year and four months.

01:29:39.920 Year and four months.

01:29:42.420 That's kind of post-your-boyfriend territory.

01:29:44.680 Well, like, I don't, like, post him...

01:29:46.640 Like, I, like, don't...

01:29:47.300 I'm not gonna, like, make, like, a whole post about him.

01:29:49.020 Like, oh, hey, baby, I love you so much.

01:29:50.540 Like, this is why I love you.

01:29:51.360 Like, you know, like, happy birthday.

01:29:52.480 Like, I'm not gonna do that.

01:29:53.860 But, like, I post, like, my dates that I go on with him.

01:29:58.000 To your stories?

01:29:58.800 Yeah.

01:29:59.020 Which disappear?

01:30:00.060 Which disappear, yeah.

01:30:01.000 Like, put it on my highlights.

01:30:01.940 Eric, can you pull up the Instagram?

01:30:04.140 What's your name?

01:30:05.680 Hey, Kelly Lou. 1.00

01:30:06.920 What?

01:30:08.220 K-E-L-L-I.

01:30:09.080 It's in the description of the video.

01:30:12.160 Oh, that sounds like that.

01:30:13.760 No, 4-0.

01:30:16.640 But, so, okay, you get blue check marks in your DMs.

01:30:21.800 Have you ever met up with any of them?

01:30:23.920 Yeah.

01:30:25.000 Before.

01:30:25.620 But this is when I was thinking of.

01:30:26.460 Well, yeah, I'm talking when you're single.

01:30:27.960 Well, obviously, you're in a relationship now, but prior to your current relationship.

01:30:31.100 Yeah.

01:30:33.400 What's, like, the baddest MFer that slid into your DMs? 0.94

01:30:37.940 NBA player?

01:30:39.180 Well, it's, like, a bunch of, yeah, it's a bunch of those and a bunch of, like, you know,

01:30:42.540 athletes.

01:30:43.780 Yeah.

01:30:44.060 Or just, like, random guys who, like, I don't know.

01:30:46.680 Okay.

01:30:47.160 Oh, here it is.

01:30:48.300 Okay.

01:30:49.140 So, we're gonna just take a look.

01:30:51.760 Scroll down, Eric.

01:30:52.520 Let's see.

01:30:53.460 Let's look at the Instagram.

01:30:55.340 Okay.

01:30:55.900 Keep going.

01:30:57.740 Keep, keep going.

01:31:00.400 One.

01:31:01.900 Where's, where's the boyfriend?

01:31:03.520 No, I told you.

01:31:04.180 I don't post him on there, but if you go on my stories.

01:31:06.720 Oh, the stories.

01:31:07.740 Yeah.

01:31:09.120 Okay.

01:31:09.640 All right.

01:31:11.040 1.4 year relationship.

01:31:14.140 He don't post me there, I told you.

01:31:15.360 He doesn't post you?

01:31:16.120 No, I told him.

01:31:16.780 Oh, he doesn't.

01:31:17.260 Well, he'll, like, you know, I'll post a story, too.

01:31:19.960 But, like, all, every single thing, like, I post on my story, it was, like, usually

01:31:23.300 with him.

01:31:23.820 He knows that.

01:31:24.920 Okay.

01:31:25.800 How many DMs do you still get, though, from guys, even though you're in a relationship?

01:31:31.720 So, I'm a stylist, so I...

01:31:33.720 Well, I'm talking romantically.

01:31:36.020 Like, it's clear that you're a stylist for men or for women?

01:31:38.480 Both.

01:31:40.080 Okay.

01:31:41.040 How many DMs, it's, like, where it's kind of evident that the guy's sliding in,

01:31:45.340 where there's a romantic interest?

01:31:47.280 A lot of the...

01:31:48.480 I would say maybe, like, out of all the DMs I get, like, definitely, like, 80% of them

01:31:53.440 are guys who are trying to, like, you know, get at me.

01:31:56.220 But then the other 20% is either, like, a client who's actually serious about working

01:32:01.740 with me or just, like, my friends, guys that are just, you know.

01:32:07.820 How many DMs a day do you get?

01:32:10.700 Like, from different people?

01:32:12.080 Yeah.

01:32:12.660 Maybe, like, six or seven only.

01:32:14.980 Okay.

01:32:15.240 And how many are, like, romantically, like, shooting their shot?

01:32:19.720 So, are, like, am I talking back to them?

01:32:21.580 Because if it's just...

01:32:21.900 No, no, no.

01:32:22.280 Just them hitting you up.

01:32:24.860 I don't reply.

01:32:25.440 I don't really reply at all.

01:32:26.880 But how many are hitting you up in a day or in a week?

01:32:29.920 In a week, I would say, like, 10 to 15.

01:32:34.220 Okay.

01:32:34.820 But, like, that's, like, in the, like, requests and everything.

01:32:37.000 I'm not replying to everything.

01:32:38.180 Sure, sure.

01:32:38.960 Okay.

01:32:39.160 Did you have something related to this?

01:32:42.460 Sort of.

01:32:42.960 I mean, obviously, we were talking about dating apps earlier, but I think a lot of people

01:32:46.640 almost use Tinder as, you know, a dating app.

01:32:49.880 Right.

01:32:50.120 A form of dating app.

01:32:51.300 So, I was wondering...

01:32:52.960 They use Instagram or they use Tinder?

01:32:55.220 Well, they'll use Tinder, but I think also a lot of people will slide into your DMs on Tinder.

01:33:00.760 So, Tinder's...

01:33:01.760 Sorry, not Tinder.

01:33:02.380 Tinder.

01:33:02.860 On Instagram.

01:33:03.580 And so, Instagram is almost, like, another dating app for some women, I think. 0.64

01:33:07.580 It is a dating app.

01:33:08.160 I would say that for sure.

01:33:09.180 I think I would definitely agree.

01:33:10.600 But, like, honestly, like, I prefer...

01:33:12.620 If I was using it as a dating app, I prefer to use Instagram over Tinder anyways, to be honest.

01:33:17.880 So, where I was going with this is, if a woman has lots of sexy photos on her dating profile 0.99

01:33:24.400 or maybe her Instagram and no bio, should she be surprised if guys are only contacting

01:33:29.260 her for hookups? 1.00

01:33:30.120 Of course not.

01:33:30.720 Yeah, that's what she's... 0.99

01:33:32.820 That's, you know, that's why I don't get...

01:33:34.440 I'm not getting mad or I'm not texting these guys, like, don't talk to me, I have a boyfriend.

01:33:38.580 You know?

01:33:39.040 It's like, I'm not going to get mad at you.

01:33:41.000 I don't post my boyfriend.

01:33:42.140 I already know that.

01:33:42.840 So, it's like, people are going to assume that I'm single.

01:33:45.900 So, you feel like she's kind of putting herself out there in that way?

01:33:49.460 What do you...

01:33:50.000 Like, she's...

01:33:51.220 In other words, if she's got, you know, a dating profile, no bio, lots of sexy photos, 0.94

01:33:55.880 you feel like she's kind of sending a message, like, I'm just open to hookups.

01:34:00.480 I don't think it's just, I'm open to hookups.

01:34:02.400 It's just, this is what I'm posting.

01:34:04.680 This is...

01:34:05.180 Okay, but, I mean, should she be surprised if she's getting...

01:34:07.920 No.

01:34:08.320 ...contacted?

01:34:08.960 Why not?

01:34:09.480 She's not surprised, because that's...

01:34:11.280 You're...

01:34:12.560 Like I said before, like, women are going to get men that are finding you attractive. 1.00

01:34:18.840 Men are going to find women attractive. 0.92

01:34:20.560 Like, anyone, every single one of us in this room have men in our DMs who think they're

01:34:24.560 attractive.

01:34:25.460 So, it's like, how are we...

01:34:27.640 But why are we going to get mad at somebody who's just complimenting you?

01:34:31.120 Because these guys are going out of their way DMing you because they think you're attractive. 0.78

01:34:35.220 Brian, are you getting DMs from guys thinking that you're attractive?

01:34:39.100 From dudes?

01:34:39.780 From guys. 0.99

01:34:40.420 Actually, yeah, there's been some dudes fucking hitting me up and shit. 0.98

01:34:45.020 Not a lot, but... 0.98

01:34:46.720 I'm trying to answer...

01:34:48.280 Oh, sorry.

01:34:48.580 Hold on.

01:34:49.540 Robert Mugabe donated $101.

01:34:53.180 She justified getting run through by NBA players by saying I'm young now.

01:34:58.460 I'm going to use that as my excuse.

01:35:01.220 Brian, John, and Lauren, I am disappointed in you for not pressing her enough on this.

01:35:07.160 Age is not a good excuse for being a 350. 1.00

01:35:11.380 Isn't Robert Mugabe like some fucking... 1.00

01:35:15.980 Isn't that like some guy in Africa who's like a dictator, tyrant, or some shit? 1.00

01:35:22.840 Confirm or deny, are you the fucking president of some... 1.00

01:35:26.280 Where should I say to that? 1.00

01:35:30.180 Old dictator?

01:35:32.240 Oh my god.

01:35:34.200 Mike Davis donated $100.

01:35:37.060 Brian, I'm not going to lie.

01:35:38.980 I was about to let that bear pounce.

01:35:41.420 But then God came to me in a revelation and said, it's not your time yet.

01:35:45.360 You still have work left on this earth gatekeeping these streets.

01:35:49.620 Praise the Lord, not me.

01:35:51.400 Hallelujah.

01:35:51.940 Yo, Mike Davis.

01:35:53.920 Thank you, man.

01:35:54.420 Yeah.

01:35:54.600 I appreciate you being there to defend me against that.

01:36:00.440 I think it might have had rabies, too.

01:36:02.200 Like, it was frothing at the mouth.

01:36:03.840 So, like, yeah, they had a...

01:36:06.340 He had to go to the hospital after because he got a little...

01:36:09.540 He got cut.

01:36:10.120 So if you actually meet him, he'll show you the scars from the bear.

01:36:15.740 Dang, I didn't know the bear got that close.

01:36:17.100 Yeah, he has battle scars.

01:36:19.360 So, yeah.

01:36:21.280 You owe him a lot.

01:36:22.320 I am indebted to him.

01:36:24.280 For life.

01:36:24.980 Big time.

01:36:25.980 That's why I'm trying to get a little connection between...

01:36:29.100 Okay.

01:36:29.680 All right.

01:36:31.100 We were going around the table.

01:36:32.340 Blue check marks.

01:36:33.040 You've had a bunch.

01:36:35.840 What about you?

01:36:36.280 Any blue check marks in your DMs?

01:36:37.660 Yeah.

01:36:38.120 No, actually...

01:36:38.540 Into the mic, please.

01:36:39.460 No, any blue check marks ever.

01:36:42.100 And, in fact, the fact that Instagram could be used as a dating website,

01:36:46.860 I found out about three months ago, four months ago.

01:36:49.700 I don't get content used by that.

01:36:54.220 You?

01:36:55.140 Not really.

01:36:55.820 No.

01:36:57.240 Maybe, like, longer ago, but not really now.

01:37:00.920 No.

01:37:01.360 Okay.

01:37:01.800 What about you, Lauren?

01:37:03.700 In the past.

01:37:04.740 I don't really post on Instagram, though.

01:37:09.620 Okay.

01:37:10.240 All right.

01:37:12.080 All right.

01:37:12.840 Let's do a couple super chats here.

01:37:14.360 We need to get caught up on them.

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01:38:35.240 Oh.

01:38:35.500 Have you gotten any blue check marks?

01:38:37.580 From some babes in your DMs or what? 1.00

01:38:39.720 Not quite yet.

01:38:40.800 But I'm thinking that I could.

01:38:43.280 Nowadays everyone could just buy their blue check marks.

01:38:45.220 So does it really have any value?

01:38:46.440 Oh.

01:38:46.600 Oh.

01:38:46.740 Before?

01:38:47.160 Oh.

01:38:47.400 Yeah.

01:38:47.760 No.

01:38:48.220 But I'm looking forward to it.

01:38:49.280 I actually.

01:38:50.060 I had a month ago.

01:38:51.380 I had my first blue check mark DM from a chick. 1.00

01:38:55.580 And bro. 1.00

01:38:57.060 Girls have no fucking game. 1.00

01:38:58.380 You'll have zero fucking game. 1.00

01:38:59.960 Holy shit. 1.00

01:39:00.840 If I was sending that exact same message to a chick. 1.00

01:39:04.680 Bro.

01:39:04.860 Shane responded.

01:39:05.820 But I mean as a blue check mark.

01:39:07.300 Going to make that girl you know more attractive to you. 0.51

01:39:10.040 You know as far as.

01:39:10.780 I mean guys don't really care about status.

01:39:12.140 No actually it's worse.

01:39:13.400 Yeah.

01:39:13.780 It's actually worse.

01:39:14.980 Wait what did she say?

01:39:16.780 So okay.

01:39:17.200 I have this thing where like I've said.

01:39:20.160 That I like.

01:39:21.600 Look.

01:39:22.000 I don't really care about height.

01:39:23.500 But I like short women. 1.00

01:39:25.500 Like four.

01:39:26.340 Four feet.

01:39:27.920 Four eleven.

01:39:28.680 You know.

01:39:29.260 If her height doesn't start with four she ain't the one. 1.00

01:39:31.100 That type of shit. 1.00

01:39:32.700 Well women have height preferences. 1.00

01:39:34.600 Huh.

01:39:35.080 It's all.

01:39:35.500 It's wrong.

01:39:36.220 If a dude has a height preference.

01:39:37.380 Hmm.

01:39:38.300 Are you into tiny women? 0.99

01:39:40.020 I would.

01:39:40.640 Bro.

01:39:40.900 I would be so down for a dwarf.

01:39:42.680 If anybody knows any dwarves.

01:39:43.900 Can you hook it up?

01:39:44.520 Oh really?

01:39:45.340 Yeah.

01:39:45.520 Hook it up.

01:39:46.240 Like female dwarves. 1.00

01:39:48.340 I don't know if they go by that term.

01:39:49.600 Like I'd be down to be friends with like a male dwarf. 1.00

01:39:52.000 Oh okay.

01:39:52.540 No dwarf. 0.64

01:39:53.200 Dwarf is the.

01:39:54.440 Well I guess now it's moving towards little person.

01:39:57.020 Yeah.

01:39:57.380 Now that's what it was.

01:39:58.300 Like how sure.

01:39:59.120 But I think dwarf is still like appropriate.

01:40:02.160 It's still appropriate.

01:40:03.300 But yeah.

01:40:03.560 If you guys know anybody.

01:40:04.840 Hook it up.

01:40:05.960 Do you know somebody?

01:40:07.060 Who's a dwarf? 0.97

01:40:07.960 Who's a dwarf? 0.97

01:40:08.880 How tall are you?

01:40:09.400 I'm four eleven.

01:40:11.580 Oh.

01:40:13.000 Oh there you go. 1.00

01:40:15.020 Oh fuck. 1.00

01:40:15.960 It's not work. 1.00

01:40:16.580 God damn it. 0.99

01:40:17.080 The Romeo sound. 0.99

01:40:17.960 Eric.

01:40:18.440 Do you have a blue check mark?

01:40:19.140 It's not your fault.

01:40:20.180 I do not.

01:40:21.120 She doesn't have blue check mark.

01:40:21.580 I only have a check mark on Twitch.

01:40:23.280 That's it.

01:40:24.840 That's a blue check.

01:40:25.800 There you go.

01:40:26.920 Purple.

01:40:27.680 Purple check.

01:40:29.020 Wait.

01:40:29.620 Jose.

01:40:30.640 Blue with a tinge of red.

01:40:31.760 Will you marry me?

01:40:32.880 Jose.

01:40:34.860 Can I try it on?

01:40:36.840 Yeah.

01:40:37.140 Sure.

01:40:37.520 It's pretty.

01:40:37.780 Hold on.

01:40:38.220 She's keeping the ring.

01:40:39.200 Hold on.

01:40:40.500 Oh.

01:40:41.300 Oh good catch.

01:40:42.180 Oh.

01:40:42.900 Bad throw.

01:40:43.420 If it doesn't fit.

01:40:45.760 It's a no.

01:40:46.720 Rest in peace.

01:40:47.580 RIP's in the chat.

01:40:49.020 Preemptively.

01:40:50.000 It's probably too big.

01:40:50.660 Where did you pull that?

01:40:51.400 Yeah.

01:40:53.200 Rip.

01:40:54.060 RIP's in the chat for Brian.

01:40:55.220 Okay.

01:40:55.460 Here.

01:40:55.580 I'll take it back.

01:40:55.980 She's got dwarf fingers. 0.57

01:40:57.680 Yeah.

01:40:58.040 She's four eleven.

01:40:58.580 I don't know.

01:41:01.280 Where was I going with that?

01:41:02.360 You got a DM from a blue check mark and she said something.

01:41:05.040 She was like, I'm five one.

01:41:07.400 That's it.

01:41:08.400 And I was like, I was like, oh, sorry.

01:41:10.500 Too tall for me.

01:41:12.320 Like in a joking way.

01:41:13.680 Wait, that's so cute.

01:41:14.660 How do you say that's five?

01:41:16.380 Wait, is that the first thing she said?

01:41:17.740 She just said I'm five one and then she shucked the rest of the conversational burden on me.

01:41:22.300 Like she had 11 million followers, by the way.

01:41:24.280 And I'm like, okay.

01:41:26.060 I think that's kind of cute.

01:41:27.660 Like she knows what you're into.

01:41:28.440 It would have been cute if she continued the conversation, but she's just like, I don't

01:41:31.240 know.

01:41:31.520 Girls have no game. 1.00

01:41:32.240 Okay.

01:41:32.700 Here, I'll take it back.

01:41:34.040 I'm sorry.

01:41:34.580 We're divorced.

01:41:36.580 Thank you.

01:41:36.980 Just give me it.

01:41:38.040 All right.

01:41:38.500 Cool.

01:41:38.920 Okay.

01:41:39.180 It's just the girls you interact with have no game because some girls do. 0.96

01:41:42.160 Not many.

01:41:42.700 Not many.

01:41:43.400 But some do.

01:41:45.500 Women don't. 1.00

01:41:46.020 Well, here's the thing. 0.79

01:41:46.640 Women don't need game. 1.00

01:41:49.020 Sometimes they do.

01:41:50.460 At least from personal experience.

01:41:52.000 I can tell you I do.

01:41:53.380 Lesbians. 1.00

01:41:53.700 Okay, so if you woke up tomorrow as a man and you wanted to get laid like a lot of guys 0.99

01:41:57.960 do, how would you do it?

01:41:59.580 I don't think I would have that desire one morning that I wake up randomly, but I have

01:42:05.220 definitely had to make the first move.

01:42:07.120 I had to write to a guy.

01:42:09.400 I actively put myself out there.

01:42:14.240 Here, pull the mic closer to you.

01:42:15.800 Just put it at the very edge of the table.

01:42:17.420 So, yeah, I just think personally, I do make the move, but I do know that not most people

01:42:25.640 do.

01:42:25.920 Well, the exception doesn't make the rule.

01:42:27.460 In general speaking, women don't need game to get a guy. 1.00

01:42:32.520 I mean, it sort of ties into the whole, like, a lot of you getting DMs, right?

01:42:38.560 You kind of just have to be out in the ether and guys will come to you.

01:42:43.120 Again, still not the case for everyone.

01:42:45.360 I just said I have no blue check marks.

01:42:48.020 What do you mean?

01:42:48.700 Well, just an example, right?

01:42:50.660 Yeah, but if you were to download the dating app, for example, like, you would just be getting

01:42:54.020 matches, boom, boom, boom.

01:42:55.180 Oh, true, true.

01:42:55.540 On a dating app.

01:42:56.040 They would be messaging you.

01:42:57.360 They would be asking you for the date.

01:42:58.920 They'd be asking you for the number.

01:43:00.460 They would be setting up the date, planning the date, paying for the date, moving things

01:43:03.860 forward on the date, going for the first kiss, moving things forward sexually.

01:43:07.100 So guys are expected to pretty much do everything throughout the entire early stages of a relationship.

01:43:13.000 Again, would be nice for sure, but there have been so many times that I had to do that,

01:43:19.440 which I actually don't find a problem with.

01:43:21.320 I just think that, like, there are different women. 0.99

01:43:23.080 All I'm arguing here, so sorry, so sorry, just to finish Brian's point, Brian, that,

01:43:29.100 yeah, to say no women have game, that's just incorrect. 1.00

01:43:33.880 Some women will have it. 1.00

01:43:35.560 Most women will not. 1.00

01:43:36.180 Okay, sure.

01:43:37.500 I suppose I'll refine my statement.

01:43:39.780 Women don't need game. 1.00

01:43:41.360 Oh, sure.

01:43:41.700 And most women don't have game, though, because they don't need it. 1.00

01:43:45.440 Fully agree now with the statement.

01:43:46.960 But I wanted to ask you, a lot of women, I ask them why don't they typically approach men,

01:43:51.240 and they will often say because they're afraid of rejection.

01:43:53.780 So I ask them, if a woman chooses to approach a man and shoot her shot, 0.58

01:43:57.400 is she more or less likely to be rejected than if a man approaches a woman?

01:44:01.180 I'm probably less likely to be rejected, yeah.

01:44:03.560 Why do you think women are afraid of being rejected when they're far less likely to be rejected?

01:44:07.920 I think it's just, like, a mental thing.

01:44:09.800 Like, you just think...

01:44:11.100 So what advice would you give to men who fear rejection?

01:44:14.220 Oh, well, to both men and women, I would give the same advice, which is just go for it. 0.95

01:44:18.480 If they will reject you, they're not meant for you, and so don't waste your time.

01:44:23.100 I always say rejection is simply redirection.

01:44:26.640 So if that person does not want you, then you are being directed to another pathway that's better for you.

01:44:32.160 I don't think you should go somewhere where you're not appreciated, obviously.

01:44:39.280 Right, yeah.

01:44:40.100 But I didn't like your premise to that, something about...

01:44:45.060 Closer to the mic.

01:44:45.840 Can you reread that question again?

01:44:48.140 Oh, that was in my head.

01:44:49.160 What was the...

01:44:49.940 This is in his brain.

01:44:51.480 Yeah, in my memory bank.

01:44:52.920 Okay, you said that women approach men because they're... 1.00

01:44:56.160 Or, sorry, women don't approach men because they're afraid of rejection, but that's not the reason women don't approach men.

01:45:03.040 What would your reason...

01:45:04.360 Women don't approach men because they want masculine men, and they want the qualities of a man who is going to be the type of man to approach them. 0.99

01:45:13.620 They don't want the type of man who is going to accept a woman. 1.00

01:45:18.000 And there's actually a dating book.

01:45:20.360 I wish I remembered the name of it.

01:45:21.640 But a woman says if you are reaching out to the man, that relationship will not work because you are acting... 1.00

01:45:28.200 Fake news.

01:45:29.100 Disavow.

01:45:30.220 Can I have a question about that?

01:45:31.400 Go ahead.

01:45:31.920 Go ahead.

01:45:32.180 Continue.

01:45:33.380 Why do you...

01:45:34.080 I'm curious as to why that's fake news.

01:45:36.320 I actually...

01:45:36.920 I think that the instances where a woman is being a bit... 1.00

01:45:42.000 Not, like, pursuing in the same way that the man is, but she's actually, like, putting in effort.

01:45:47.760 Those actually tend to be the ones that, in my experience, are the strongest.

01:45:55.060 Mine as well.

01:45:56.320 Like, not these ones where she's, like, playing hard to get.

01:46:00.680 Like, hold on.

01:46:03.020 Thank you, man.

01:46:03.360 Rickson, on behalf of the military homies, can you ask the panel why most modern women say or think a dude being in the military is a red flag?

01:46:11.600 And can they provide insight on why?

01:46:14.320 P.S. Big ups to Mike Davis.

01:46:16.840 Based.

01:46:18.200 Based.

01:46:19.540 Yeah, we can go around really quick on this.

01:46:21.680 Well, I'll just ask a question.

01:46:23.140 If a guy's in the military, current active duty military, red flag or no?

01:46:28.800 Just a...

01:46:29.260 No.

01:46:30.840 Yes.

01:46:32.240 Mm-hmm.

01:46:33.200 No.

01:46:33.980 Yeah.

01:46:34.780 Guys, please.

01:46:35.700 Yeah.

01:46:36.080 You have to be speaking into the mics.

01:46:37.640 I really don't know.

01:46:39.660 No.

01:46:40.360 Could you repeat the question?

01:46:41.500 Sorry, I missed that.

01:46:43.500 Red flag if a guy's in active duty military?

01:46:45.940 No.

01:46:46.200 No.

01:46:46.900 Okay.

01:46:47.160 You two said yes, just why do you think that is?

01:46:50.200 I don't think you're wrong, I mean, necessarily.

01:46:53.300 Well, it's because, like, I'm very, like, you know, men or women, they could be very, like, red flag because they end up going on,

01:47:02.500 these deployments and stuff like that.

01:47:04.080 And usually, like, when people join the military, they're really young and they don't really know what they're going in life and type.

01:47:10.860 So, let's say they've been with somebody and they go get deployed and they're there for so long.

01:47:15.960 People are going to want the other physical connection with somebody else, you know, so there's always opportunity for them to be able to cheat on you.

01:47:23.300 Like, I don't know how to explain it.

01:47:25.440 I just feel like if someone's in the military and they're not older, then yes.

01:47:30.220 But, like, if they're a little bit, if they're, like, over 25, then no.

01:47:34.660 I think I've actually heard the reverse is that it's more often the case that the men will go off to deployment. 0.99

01:47:40.900 Maybe they're married or they have a girlfriend and the girlfriend or wife cheats on them while they're getting fucking IED'd and shit. 0.97

01:47:52.460 Yeah, either way, like, it's either the woman cheats on him because he's gone or, like, he cheats on her. 0.93

01:47:58.880 Like, either way, it's just not really.

01:47:59.960 What is it called?

01:48:00.900 A dependipotamus? 0.99

01:48:02.000 Like, basically, they get their military wives and spouses, they get their military benefits, and then they fucking divorce the guys and cheat and all this bullshit. 0.98

01:48:09.240 Anyone here been in the military? 0.99

01:48:11.940 No.

01:48:13.560 I dated a guy in the military.

01:48:15.480 Yeah.

01:48:15.940 That counts.

01:48:17.080 You're pretty much in the military.

01:48:18.960 You know, it's funny, like, these military wives are like, I'm basically in the military.

01:48:22.740 Because you hear everything.

01:48:23.720 Because I'm married to a private first class.

01:48:27.740 Well, it's because then they come home and they're, like, they talk about everything.

01:48:30.760 Like, my sister's in the military, so, like, a lot of things, like, I know and understand because of that.

01:48:35.980 Well, thank you for her service.

01:48:37.120 Yes.

01:48:38.320 Wait, you're, who are you thanking her?

01:48:40.160 Her sister is in the military.

01:48:41.980 You're thanking her for her service, but she's not even here?

01:48:44.940 Okay, like, I did military for two years.

01:48:47.620 Oh, you were in the military?

01:48:48.640 Yeah.

01:48:49.160 Which branch?

01:48:49.880 Air Force.

01:48:50.980 Does that really count, though?

01:48:53.480 I'd like to see you go to the academy.

01:48:54.860 Yes.

01:48:56.120 I'm teasing you, but I'll take basic.

01:48:59.560 I thought Air Force were the coolest ones, no?

01:49:01.720 No, it was the Marines.

01:49:02.320 Chair Force, yeah.

01:49:03.260 Chair Force.

01:49:03.820 It is what it is.

01:49:06.140 It is what it is.

01:49:07.120 Okay.

01:49:08.240 Let's, I'm trying to remember where we were at before, but here, we have a question here

01:49:12.940 from Stifler.

01:49:13.500 Ask the ladies to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten. 0.74

01:49:15.720 I would say for, oh, sorry, hold on.

01:49:24.280 Oh, I'll read it. 0.99

01:49:25.960 The military is literally protecting your asses from crazy MFers in North Korean, China, 1.00

01:49:29.760 and y'all think a man being in the military is a red flag? 0.99

01:49:31.940 Whoa, what the actual F?

01:49:33.140 Thousands of dudes did not die in Normandy Beach for y'all to say that.

01:49:38.680 Do you guys have a response?

01:49:40.260 No comment on that.

01:49:41.380 I don't think it's necessarily wrong for someone to not want to, I don't know if it's a red 1.00

01:49:48.540 flag, but I don't think it's wrong for someone to not want to date someone in the military

01:49:52.840 in the same way that it wouldn't be wrong for someone to not want to have a long-distance

01:49:56.460 relationship with somebody, because deployments, you know, they might be gone.

01:49:59.760 Thank you, man.

01:50:00.820 Thank you, man.

01:50:00.920 $1.69.

01:50:03.080 Loram and Tony Hawk have been spitting facts for the 304s on the other side of the table. 0.96

01:50:09.280 These thoughts are beyond the streets.

01:50:11.640 They're for the forest.

01:50:13.140 One-plus-year relationship and no couple pick.

01:50:16.200 Run the way, King.

01:50:17.460 Oh.

01:50:17.800 Where is based Chase?

01:50:19.500 We need him back.

01:50:20.840 Your response?

01:50:24.260 No.

01:50:25.260 No response?

01:50:26.460 I have a question.

01:50:27.100 He's saying, he's saying, 1.4-year relationship, no photos of your boyfriend on Instagram, public

01:50:33.820 profile, posting stuff.

01:50:36.320 I don't know why that's such a big deal, if me and my boyfriend don't care.

01:50:42.200 I think that the thing is, is that Instagram is, to some degree, a dating app, and women 0.99

01:50:50.400 are primarily the ones getting attention on Instagram, so you're basically, by hot take

01:50:56.380 of the night, you're basically keeping your options open by having an Instagram, if you're

01:51:01.120 in a long-term relationship.

01:51:02.460 If you're not.

01:51:03.160 Especially if you're not posting your boyfriend, bare minimum.

01:51:06.480 But what if you use that for, what if your social media is for work, too?

01:51:10.620 Is that how you procure most of your clients, is through Instagram?

01:51:15.340 What do you mean?

01:51:15.940 Well, you say you're a stylist for Nordstrom.

01:51:17.660 Is that the way in which you procure most of your clients?

01:51:20.960 Well, I prefer to give them my Instagram to talk to them, rather than giving them my

01:51:25.280 phone number, my personal phone number.

01:51:26.920 Okay.

01:51:27.700 So, that's where I direct them to first, is Instagram.

01:51:31.880 Are you monetized on Instagram?

01:51:34.000 Mm-mm.

01:51:35.600 Would you call Instagram your portfolio?

01:51:37.240 Your business portfolio, your professional portfolio?

01:51:41.720 Not really, because I have other, I don't just do stuff on Instagram.

01:51:46.160 Like, I do Instagram posts on social media, I'll give them content, stuff like that, and

01:51:51.060 then they have other things that go with that.

01:51:54.320 Gotcha.

01:51:54.680 Is that, I guess, what I just wanted to say in your defense, I feel like Instagram

01:51:58.280 nowadays is used as a business card.

01:52:01.040 You know, nowadays you don't give out a printed business card, you give an Instagram.

01:52:04.560 And especially for artists, having a big Instagram and, like, having, like, the type of Instagram

01:52:10.680 that you have is actually quite essential just for business and career.

01:52:14.220 But why exclude her boyfriend, even in business aspects?

01:52:17.980 But I don't exclude him because I still post, it's not like I'm not posting pictures of him.

01:52:24.100 He's in every, every time, every single time I go on a date, I take a picture with him

01:52:27.280 in the picture.

01:52:28.200 I think what people are saying is, like, they'll go to your Instagram page and they'll see all

01:52:33.720 of these beautiful, you look beautiful, and all of those pictures.

01:52:37.520 And then you're going to appear single.

01:52:39.980 So it seems like if you're not doing it for the money, what are you possibly doing it for?

01:52:44.840 Why are you having all of these beautiful pictures of you and none of your boyfriend,

01:52:48.500 like, readily available?

01:52:50.920 Well, I just don't think it's that serious if you're not entertaining it.

01:52:56.260 So, but what's the purpose, I guess?

01:52:59.640 I can't post pictures of myself, right?

01:53:01.240 It could be for someone's self.

01:53:02.560 Like, if you see yourself in a different light, maybe you're just trying.

01:53:06.720 Like, you could really love yourself and just want to post you and people like that.

01:53:11.100 Like, people fall in love with people on the internet.

01:53:12.860 You know what I'm saying?

01:53:14.480 A little.

01:53:15.440 Black Socrates donated $99.

01:53:18.900 That's made you copium.

01:53:20.780 You don't post pictures of your boyfriend because you know it'll make men more likely

01:53:25.020 to slide into your DMs, which in turn will make it more likely for you to rope them into 0.81

01:53:29.960 business.

01:53:31.100 Posting someone on a 24-hour story doesn't count.

01:53:35.440 Bro, I would literally post a picture of my boyfriend right now.

01:53:38.940 But, like, do it.

01:53:41.460 Do it.

01:53:42.200 If your boyfriend bought OnlyFans content every week from the same creator, would you

01:53:46.760 consider that cheating?

01:53:49.880 Yeah, but my boyfriend would never do that.

01:53:51.440 My boyfriend would never spend money on...

01:53:52.580 But I'm saying, like, if somebody, you know, has, like, an online relationship with another

01:53:57.000 creator, does that at some point become, you know...

01:54:00.140 Yeah, that's weird.

01:54:00.980 It's a little bit weird.

01:54:01.820 Yeah, that's weird.

01:54:03.860 But I don't do that.

01:54:04.920 I don't have relationships with these people that are DMing me.

01:54:08.660 I don't even reply to them.

01:54:09.920 Oh, yeah.

01:54:10.240 Okay.

01:54:10.400 The most I'll do is double-tap the picture, like the picture.

01:54:14.420 I mean, like the response.

01:54:16.360 What do you gain from your Instagram?

01:54:19.020 Not that you can't have one.

01:54:20.020 Well, I use it as a...

01:54:20.780 I see you shaking your head, because I don't mean it to be, like, a...

01:54:23.560 Yeah, because, I mean...

01:54:24.500 But I think it's funny, also, because you do social media, too.

01:54:27.300 Right, because I gain things...

01:54:27.960 And you're single.

01:54:28.800 Right, and I gain things from it.

01:54:30.480 Like, so I'm trying to promote my YouTube content, and I am trying...

01:54:34.440 So, like, for me, it's all 100% business.

01:54:37.440 I'm trying to make money from it.

01:54:39.300 And if I had a boyfriend, I don't...

01:54:42.760 I could understand if it's 100% business, and I'm making money off having, like, simps give money to me.

01:54:49.920 I could understand in that case why you wouldn't post your boyfriend.

01:54:52.860 But if I'm being honest with my fans, and I had a boyfriend, I feel like an Instagram is really just kind of a story of your life, just like Facebook was.

01:55:02.740 And you would want to include important people in your life, your friends, your boyfriend, yada, yada.

01:55:08.800 Yeah, and I do do that.

01:55:11.240 Okay.

01:55:12.540 Like, yeah, I do do that.

01:55:14.560 Like, everyone pretty much knows that, like, everyone important to me knows that I have a boyfriend.

01:55:19.240 When guys hit on me at work, I tell them straight up, I have a boyfriend, and then they don't try again.

01:55:26.300 Well, sometimes they will try again, but then it's always, like, period, I have a boyfriend.

01:55:30.680 I'm not...

01:55:31.060 I know that I'm not going to do anything else with other guys, so...

01:55:34.320 And he knows that as well, and he knows that I use social media as a way to keep connections.

01:55:39.200 I don't like giving people my number.

01:55:40.460 I never give people my number.

01:55:42.980 So...

01:55:43.380 Into the mic.

01:55:44.320 Into the mic.

01:55:44.800 What other better way to do it is from Instagram.

01:55:50.060 Here, we're going to pull up something that's kind of related to this, then we're going to get into the soup chats.

01:55:53.900 Eric, can you pull up the Twitter page?

01:55:56.440 You're going to have to control mouse wheel up.

01:55:59.220 Okay.

01:56:00.340 Yeah, that's good.

01:56:01.360 So, women run passive game. 1.00

01:56:03.420 They don't approach men, but they put themselves in positions where they could be approached by men.

01:56:07.940 They won't DM a man, but they'll post pictures to lure him into DMing them.

01:56:14.480 Mainstream media doesn't want you to know this.

01:56:16.240 Scroll down, Eric.

01:56:17.300 Men are salesmen.

01:56:18.260 Women are marketers. 1.00

01:56:19.120 But most guys are too naive and lack the capacity for nuanced thinking to be able to identify this distinction.

01:56:25.000 In a committed relationship, a man should stop pitching, and a woman should stop advertising. 1.00

01:56:30.780 Fair proposition.

01:56:31.500 But most men are fooled into believing that just because their woman isn't also initiating conversations with other men, then everything is good.

01:56:39.440 She was never initiating conversations.

01:56:41.800 That's not how she operates. 0.99

01:56:43.900 We'd utilize different strategies to get similar outcomes.

01:56:47.980 You stopped talking to women and gave up your edge as a man, but she never stopped putting herself out there.

01:56:54.660 That's why she already had a replacement for you after the breakup, because she never stopped marketing. 0.99

01:56:59.340 She was generating leads the whole time.

01:57:02.800 A lion and a rhino are about to fight, and the lion tells the rhino, take off your horn so that we can have a fair fight since I don't have a horn.

01:57:08.640 The rhino foolishly agrees.

01:57:10.420 Fight begins, and he gets torn to shreds by the lion because the lion used his teeth and claws. 1.00

01:57:16.020 You're the foolish rhino. 1.00

01:57:19.580 Women are the lion. 1.00

01:57:21.040 A lion and a rhino are not the same, so they can't play by the same rules.

01:57:24.860 If the rhino takes off his horn, then the lion will need to remove its teeth and claws.

01:57:28.800 You both have to give up your edge to even the playing field.

01:57:32.520 In regards to the situation with my ex, I know you may be thinking, so what if she was at the grocery store?

01:57:37.280 I think this is related to something else.

01:57:40.700 Okay, grocery store that's totally different from her intentionally walking into the lion's den, the club. 0.99

01:57:46.640 This is a little different.

01:57:47.460 And just to further clarify what I told my ex, it was a euphemism which basically was me saying that we'll both be single because if she's putting herself out there, in turn, I'll start talking to other girls, which means we're no longer in a committed relationship.

01:58:01.800 Scroll down.

01:58:02.320 That might be the end of it.

01:58:03.740 Yeah, so those first few tweets are kind of the crux of it is that because you as women are getting initiated upon at the bar, at the club, on Instagram, you're keeping your options open, whereas men don't really be getting DMs like that.

01:58:20.280 And you're not posting your boyfriend.

01:58:24.240 And maybe your boyfriend's fine with that, but you're generating leads while he's probably cut off all his options.

01:58:32.940 Well, his job, I wouldn't say is like, I would say he has the same kind of job where he has to keep his Instagram the same way because he's always talking to other people too.

01:58:45.480 He has connections to other people as well.

01:58:47.320 So he uses Instagram as a way to connect with people the same way that I do.

01:58:52.000 Okay, sure, fair enough.

01:58:53.280 I mean, maybe I should have asked this question before I gave that, read from that tweet, but would you think it's a red flag or an issue if a guy you were dating who wanted to be monogamous with you said,

01:59:04.540 I'm prepared to commit to you, but I don't want you going to the club anymore.

01:59:09.100 I don't want you going to bars.

01:59:10.760 And let's say he wants you to private your Instagram.

01:59:13.620 Agree or disagree?

01:59:17.860 That's fine.

01:59:18.600 Hold on.

01:59:18.960 Let's go around the table.

01:59:19.700 Go ahead.

01:59:20.140 When I'm in a relationship, I fully dedicate and devote myself.

01:59:23.780 So if he thinks that that's the best decision for me, then I will listen to him.

01:59:29.900 Wow.

01:59:30.520 Okay.

01:59:31.300 Not bad.

01:59:32.080 What about you?

01:59:32.480 You can be honest.

01:59:34.980 I think it really just depends if I want to have a girls' night and actually at least keep them updated on what I'm doing, what time I'm coming back, and be honest and truthful.

01:59:46.920 I think there's no problem with that, but they ask you to do something that's a little more like, you know, I agree with the fact that the woman is a lion and the man is, what was it?

01:59:59.760 A rhino. 0.99

02:00:00.340 Don't worry about the rhino and the kingdom shit. 0.99

02:00:03.820 But you know what I mean? 0.98

02:00:04.360 That's part of why a man would want you to go private on your Instagram and stuff like that, though, so you're not advertising yourself in a way.

02:00:13.400 Okay.

02:00:13.880 But about do not, it's different, though.

02:00:17.360 What about like, okay, let's talk about clubs, though.

02:00:19.780 Clubs, bars, parties.

02:00:20.900 Yeah.

02:00:21.140 You want to be monogamous with your, you want commitment from your boyfriend.

02:00:26.120 He says, cool, I don't want you going to bars and clubs anymore.

02:00:30.740 Are you going along with that?

02:00:32.160 You're saying you're not going to control me.

02:00:33.500 I'm going to do what I want to do.

02:00:35.460 No.

02:00:35.820 Like, I'll let you know what I'm doing and where I'm at, but I'm not going to just, just because you don't want me to go out.

02:00:42.840 No.

02:00:43.620 Here, we'll go around.

02:00:44.980 Let's get everyone to answer.

02:00:46.100 Okay.

02:00:46.820 So, you would still go out?

02:00:49.460 Yeah.

02:00:49.900 Okay.

02:00:50.320 What about you?

02:00:52.120 I would definitely still go out.

02:00:56.180 I don't think that has anything to do with, like, if we're going to start dating, I think trust is a big thing.

02:01:01.560 And if you're saying that, it's probably because you can't trust somebody.

02:01:07.540 Okay.

02:01:07.940 I'll respond to that.

02:01:08.600 I want everyone to answer first, though.

02:01:09.940 Go ahead.

02:01:10.220 I think if I've gotten to that point where I really, like, mess with a guy.

02:01:17.000 LeBron James, he's like, look, I want to be monogamous with you, but.

02:01:21.440 I wouldn't use him.

02:01:22.720 He's too old for you?

02:01:23.800 I would do, like, not even stuff.

02:01:28.300 Like, anybody married, I'm cool on it.

02:01:30.180 He's like Drake.

02:01:31.340 Yeah, Drake.

02:01:33.700 Drake what?

02:01:35.020 No, that's good.

02:01:35.680 But, okay, yeah, it's not a fair scenario.

02:01:37.580 Let's just say, like, some dude who's prepared to commit to you, and he says, look, I don't want you going to the bars and clubs anymore.

02:01:45.300 Yeah, I mean, if I'm to that point, I'm kicking it with him every day.

02:01:49.240 I like him.

02:01:49.900 We're texting.

02:01:50.880 And, like, I'm dating him.

02:01:52.480 Okay, like, that's fine.

02:01:54.260 Sure.

02:01:55.220 What, you want to go to the club together?

02:01:56.960 Like, if I want to go that bad, I'll ask him.

02:01:59.120 Yeah.

02:01:59.400 But I'm not going to die if I don't go out.

02:02:03.340 Sure.

02:02:04.040 What about you?

02:02:05.260 Yeah, I would do it.

02:02:06.040 I'm okay.

02:02:06.720 Whatever he wants.

02:02:08.080 Well, with your current relationship, do you guys go out to bars, clubs with him, by yourself, girls?

02:02:14.700 Both.

02:02:15.260 I can go by myself, and then I go with him.

02:02:17.880 He doesn't mind?

02:02:18.640 No.

02:02:18.940 A lot of guys are cool with it.

02:02:21.100 Well, he also, he'll just, like, pick me up, so he doesn't have a problem with that either.

02:02:28.160 Oh, it stings.

02:02:29.140 It hurts.

02:02:29.620 Okay, what about you?

02:02:31.020 I barely exist on Instagram, so if my boyfriend was to prohibit me from using it, I would definitely raise how...

02:02:38.700 You'd raise how?

02:02:39.520 Well, no, no, no.

02:02:40.420 I would raise how, like, controlling is he.

02:02:44.680 If, when a girl barely uses her Instagram posts once a year, if he would want her to shut that down, like, I think it would be a controlling thing.

02:02:54.480 Sure.

02:02:54.680 However, I don't even like clubs, so that's totally down with that one.

02:02:59.020 Sure.

02:02:59.400 What about you?

02:03:00.480 I'm the same.

02:03:01.520 I don't like clubs, and to the bars I can go with him.

02:03:04.140 The only thing is that I think that sometimes people need their own space, so girls need to go out with their friends.

02:03:11.260 At the same time, guys need to go out with their friends.

02:03:14.280 But, here comes but, they can go out to the restaurants, for example, and not to the clubs.

02:03:20.580 So, yeah, as for Instagram, I don't care.

02:03:23.240 I can make it private.

02:03:24.580 And we chill most of the time out of my apartment, so I don't know what she's talking about, but...

02:03:28.800 What about you?

02:03:29.340 My Instagram's only public today, so that I can be here.

02:03:32.880 Okay.

02:03:33.560 What about bars and clubs?

02:03:35.340 I hate bars and clubs.

02:03:36.940 It's the only time I ever go to the bars and clubs, is because I'm like, maybe I'll meet a cute guy.

02:03:41.080 Oh, then I go home.

02:03:42.580 No.

02:03:43.260 No, I'm not. 0.90

02:03:44.180 I'm going to meet Trash.

02:03:47.300 Thank you, man.

02:03:48.000 I appreciate it.

02:03:48.280 Men don't get mad you are going out because they are insecure.

02:03:51.740 They get upset because they aren't there to protect you in case something happens.

02:03:56.460 It's because they love and care for you.

02:03:58.420 Because men know some men nasty ate dirt bags. 0.99

02:04:03.220 Yeah, that's definitely 100% another component.

02:04:06.260 Bads underscore EXE.

02:04:07.520 Thank you, man.

02:04:07.840 I really appreciate it.

02:04:08.460 Go ahead.

02:04:08.680 I'd like to ask a question about going to clubs.

02:04:12.180 Why are there women who say they go to clubs only to dance and not be approached by men? 1.00

02:04:16.600 Can we say one more time?

02:04:20.360 Why are there women who say they go to clubs only to dance and not be approached by men? 1.00

02:04:25.060 I think that being approached by men is just, that's being a part of it.

02:04:32.040 You're going outside.

02:04:33.520 It's not just, oh, I'm going to go dance.

02:04:36.860 Hopefully I get hit on.

02:04:37.920 If I'm going outside, period, I'm probably going to get hit on. 0.62

02:04:40.620 If I go to the gas station, I get hit on.

02:04:43.460 It's not necessarily like, I'm going to go dance and get hit on.

02:04:46.920 Any other responses?

02:04:48.940 Well, I agree.

02:04:49.900 Women, I feel like the thread that you were showing earlier, women get hit on anywhere. 1.00

02:04:54.580 You don't have to be on Instagram.

02:04:55.680 You don't have to be anywhere.

02:04:57.060 Well, there's a difference.

02:04:58.380 Oh, for sure.

02:04:59.020 For sure. 0.88

02:04:59.300 What I'm wondering is, if women don't like being approached, why not just go to gay clubs? 1.00

02:05:04.100 Oh, we do. 0.87

02:05:05.000 But there are actually straight men pretending to be gay in those clubs.

02:05:10.320 Okay, but I'm just saying, wouldn't that put your boyfriend's mind at ease?

02:05:15.020 If you have to go out and have a girls' night, then at least he doesn't have to worry.

02:05:18.340 It would be like if your boyfriend said, I'm going to go out to the strip club with all my guy friends,

02:05:22.140 you might have a problem with that.

02:05:23.640 I mean, let's not sugarcoat it.

02:05:24.840 Women go to clubs and bars to get attention from men. 1.00

02:05:27.720 I do know women. 1.00

02:05:28.740 Some, very few. 0.83

02:05:30.160 I know some married women who go to gay clubs to dance. 1.00

02:05:33.260 Well, I'm not talking about gay clubs anymore.

02:05:35.180 Okay, in that scenario, then.

02:05:37.840 Or even just following up on this point, why are there women-only gyms and various safe spaces, 1.00

02:05:42.620 but no women-only nightclubs? 0.53

02:05:44.380 Would that even make sense?

02:05:45.960 It would be cool if there was a woman. 1.00

02:05:46.800 Should we start one?

02:05:48.260 That's a good idea.

02:05:49.180 Yes.

02:05:50.240 I mean, isn't that the environment women complain about the most? 1.00

02:05:55.520 There are some women-only clubs.

02:05:57.980 But, I mean, how would it make money?

02:05:59.900 Who's women getting to the club for free? 1.00

02:06:02.000 Who's spending the money?

02:06:03.200 The women who spend money at the bar. 1.00

02:06:05.940 Unless it's a lesbian club. 1.00

02:06:07.420 I don't see the logic.

02:06:08.520 I mean, if there's nobody paying for drinks, obviously, I know I'm going to have to pay.

02:06:11.860 Right.

02:06:12.160 So, can we conclude that women go to clubs because they get attention from men?

02:06:16.780 What do you mean?

02:06:18.020 Can we conclude that's the purpose of women going to clubs is to get attention from men? 0.97

02:06:22.920 I don't think it's the sole purpose.

02:06:25.740 But then can you understand why a man might have a problem with his girlfriend going out and taking a girls' night?

02:06:31.660 Of course, yeah.

02:06:32.680 I understand.

02:06:33.520 It definitely feeds into it, though.

02:06:40.760 Sure, sure.

02:06:42.140 Do you guys think it's controlling if a guy didn't want his girlfriend going to a bar or club?

02:06:49.620 No.

02:06:49.980 Is it controlling?

02:06:50.620 If she wants to do it every single day, then no, I don't think it's controlling because he's just trying to moderate her.

02:06:58.980 But if she goes once in two months, then it could be controlling.

02:07:03.980 Or less than once in the end.

02:07:05.700 Sorry.

02:07:06.780 Is jealousy a turn-on or a turn-off for you?

02:07:10.180 In other words, what is the difference between protecting your woman and being possessive?

02:07:14.860 Is that a personal question?

02:07:16.220 Yeah.

02:07:16.400 Or just anyone who has an answer.

02:07:18.640 I think possessive is more like, or like controlling is more like, you can't do this, you can't do that.

02:07:25.760 And then possessive is like, what are you doing?

02:07:28.280 Who's going to be there?

02:07:29.640 What time are you going to be back?

02:07:30.620 Like, you know, asking questions about what you're doing rather than like telling you you can't do that.

02:07:35.600 But I mean, is there good jealousy?

02:07:37.020 Is there jealousy that kind of is a turn-on?

02:07:38.780 Well, I would say yeah, because when my boyfriend asked me like, oh, what are you doing?

02:07:42.620 Like, where are you at?

02:07:43.620 Like, who's there?

02:07:44.800 Who are you with?

02:07:45.400 It's like, I like that because it's like, you're wondering, like, you know, you're thinking about what I'm doing.

02:07:50.520 But then it's like, he's not going to, but I wouldn't, I would not like if he told me, no, you can't do that.

02:07:55.820 You can't, you can't do this.

02:07:57.040 You can't do that.

02:07:57.680 But I would still just comply because that's my boyfriend.

02:08:01.640 I would tell him I don't like it.

02:08:03.640 But then I would just have to comply because that's my boyfriend.

02:08:05.720 Wait, question for you.

02:08:08.200 So your current boyfriend, you've been dating him for a year and four months.

02:08:11.600 If he just shifts all of a sudden after watching the show because he's like, oh, that's not a bad idea.

02:08:17.460 He's like, listen, Gertrude.

02:08:21.280 Kelly, right?

02:08:22.480 Yeah.

02:08:22.660 It's Kelly, right?

02:08:23.500 Okay.

02:08:25.220 Gertrude's your middle name.

02:08:26.660 Sometimes you go by Gertrude, right?

02:08:28.340 No.

02:08:29.880 Agatha?

02:08:30.680 No.

02:08:31.060 Okay, never mind.

02:08:33.140 He's like, look, I don't want you going to the club anymore.

02:08:38.260 And I want your Instagram to be private.

02:08:42.020 Yes or no?

02:08:43.240 Yeah.

02:08:44.260 Okay.

02:08:45.500 Wait, but so going back to my question, does anyone here think, and it's okay if you do,

02:08:50.000 do you think it's controlling or insecure if a guy doesn't want his girlfriend going to the club?

02:08:58.080 Controlling or insecure?

02:08:59.900 It's okay to disagree.

02:09:01.800 I think it just really depends on, like, what the reasoning is of it.

02:09:08.260 The reason?

02:09:09.180 They could do it for themselves or they could do it out of, like, they're saying they just want you safe

02:09:14.600 and they don't want you to go out because that can put you into a situation.

02:09:18.100 I mean, I think the primary thing is they basically don't want you getting hit on and flirted with

02:09:26.600 and approached by other men, primarily.

02:09:29.120 I mean, there's some, I think a safety component is part of that,

02:09:32.140 but I'd say the primary reason is you're kind of keeping your options open by going to these environments.

02:09:38.100 Oh, my God.

02:09:39.420 Good to see you, man.

02:09:40.540 It's been a while.

02:09:41.040 John from It's Complicated, I wish I could shake that man's hand and buy him a beer.

02:09:46.740 Excellent questions, content, but minus the cigar-smoking lesbian and few others, 1.00

02:09:53.160 the bobbleheads are the same across the board.

02:09:56.120 Cheers to you and Brian.

02:09:57.500 Hey, Zentians.

02:09:58.160 Thank you, man.

02:09:58.640 Cheers.

02:09:58.900 He's a longtime supporter of the show.

02:10:01.860 Thank you, Zentians.

02:10:02.560 Good to see you back, man.

02:10:03.440 Thank you for stopping by the stream.

02:10:05.960 Okay, let's move on from this.

02:10:07.180 Let's do some super chats here.

02:10:08.760 We never get the number.

02:10:10.260 Oh, the rating one?

02:10:10.980 Yeah.

02:10:11.960 All right, we have Stifler here.

02:10:13.060 Ask the ladies to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10.

02:10:16.880 You were about to answer this.

02:10:18.420 Go ahead.

02:10:19.280 I would say maybe a 4 or 5.

02:10:22.800 Stop the cat. 1.00

02:10:23.920 Okay, come on.

02:10:24.940 Come on.

02:10:25.260 No, that is, I have a lot of, I guess, past trauma due to my appearance, so.

02:10:31.580 Well, he's asking, rate their looks.

02:10:34.060 Right, my looks, yes.

02:10:36.180 Your self-assessment, okay.

02:10:38.500 Well, I think you're underselling yourself a little bit, but.

02:10:42.480 What do you think it would take to make you a 10?

02:10:44.420 Like, what would you want to improve about yourself or your looks?

02:10:48.240 There's a lot of things I dislike about myself, so, I mean, I'm not sure,

02:10:52.180 but if I were to be able to change things, I would mainly change maybe my face.

02:10:58.800 That's all of it.

02:10:59.980 You're so pretty.

02:11:00.980 Yeah.

02:11:01.340 I think you're beautiful, yeah.

02:11:03.740 Thank you.

02:11:04.560 Okay.

02:11:06.800 But you mentioned, I mean, I don't know if you want to get into it,

02:11:11.220 but you mentioned past trauma, how is that related to your physical appearance?

02:11:16.740 Well, growing up, I had a sister, and she was the one more complimented than I was

02:11:21.420 when we would go out, or.

02:11:22.820 By your parents?

02:11:23.780 By, yeah, by my parents.

02:11:24.740 Or just other people in general?

02:11:26.320 All together.

02:11:27.480 And on top of that, growing up, I did get bullied for a little while.

02:11:30.860 I did look a lot different when I was younger,

02:11:32.700 but to me, I still see that little girl that I was, and, you know, who people bullied.

02:11:38.700 Have you had any plastic surgery?

02:11:41.500 No, but I have had something done with my chin,

02:11:45.140 because it was uneven, and I fixed it.

02:11:48.040 Okay, gotcha.

02:11:49.200 Okay.

02:11:51.000 Got it.

02:11:52.140 What about you?

02:11:53.360 What do you rate yourself, looks-wise, 1 to 10?

02:11:56.820 Probably, like, like a 5 or, like a 6 on, like, a good day, you know?

02:12:02.220 Okay.

02:12:02.560 Got to stay humble.

02:12:03.580 Sure.

02:12:05.560 8.

02:12:07.940 I would give myself a 9.

02:12:10.860 8.

02:12:12.900 Could I withhold myself from answering?

02:12:14.620 Unless you want to make it a discussion, which I would love to, but.

02:12:17.000 Unless I want what?

02:12:18.380 If you want to make it a discussion, then.

02:12:20.480 We can discuss.

02:12:21.200 Okay.

02:12:21.500 Let's discuss.

02:12:22.300 Okay, why do you object to answering the question, first off?

02:12:24.300 I just think it so heavily depends.

02:12:27.340 Like, if you were to ask, let's say,

02:12:29.240 what do I think men in California would, on average, rate me, let's say, you know?

02:12:36.200 That would be different from, like, myself.

02:12:37.780 From Smolensk?

02:12:39.440 Like, you're rating in Smolensk?

02:12:41.440 Or over, like, other different places, for sure, yeah.

02:12:44.960 Okay.

02:12:46.120 Like, Siberia?

02:12:48.020 What's your rating in Siberia?

02:12:49.840 I would probably be on a higher upscale in Siberia than in L.A.

02:12:53.680 Than in L.A.?

02:12:54.300 Okay, okay.

02:12:54.960 What's your rating from 100 years ago?

02:12:56.700 You know what I mean?

02:12:57.060 It's, like, different time periods.

02:12:58.320 The beauty standards have changed.

02:12:59.280 The renaissance.

02:13:00.380 There's the renaissance.

02:13:01.560 There's the...

02:13:02.040 Okay, but it's not just about the time I can hop on the plane and be in the country where

02:13:06.080 I, like, my status all of a sudden, like, drastically changes.

02:13:09.240 Okay.

02:13:09.660 Based on the way that I look.

02:13:10.720 Right now.

02:13:11.680 Like, two more, I could be in another region.

02:13:13.620 But what would you rate yourself?

02:13:15.680 Right.

02:13:16.240 But that's why I have the problem with this question, you know?

02:13:20.180 Like, it's a very general question.

02:13:22.280 But since you're asking on the...

02:13:25.240 Like, yeah.

02:13:26.160 It just so depends.

02:13:27.660 I could be a two one day, and then the next day I could be a nine.

02:13:31.540 How about we drop you... 0.54

02:13:34.580 We're not going to put you in L.A.

02:13:35.960 We're going to drop you in, like, Columbus, Ohio.

02:13:41.500 Is that where you are?

02:13:42.540 Yeah.

02:13:43.000 Okay.

02:13:43.700 I would say probably, like, an eight.

02:13:46.080 Are you a nine in Columbus, Ohio?

02:13:47.740 I'm a ten over there.

02:13:48.800 Oh, ten in Ohio.

02:13:49.920 Okay, I see.

02:13:50.400 I see.

02:13:50.720 What's up?

02:13:51.200 I'm probably going to be, like, an eight or a nine in Ohio.

02:13:53.660 In Columbus, Ohio?

02:13:54.920 Yeah.

02:13:55.500 Okay.

02:13:55.740 What about, like, Idaho?

02:13:56.900 I don't know too much about Idaho, so I would not know.

02:14:01.920 West Virginia?

02:14:03.560 I would not know.

02:14:05.440 It's a sliding scale.

02:14:06.640 Louisiana?

02:14:08.180 What's it in Louisiana?

02:14:10.240 No, even less than Louisiana.

02:14:11.380 Nantucket.

02:14:12.000 What about Nantucket?

02:14:15.300 Okay, let's try Canada.

02:14:16.620 What about Quebec?

02:14:18.980 The Quebecois?

02:14:20.320 Again, also slightly on the higher than, let's say, in the lay, for sure.

02:14:22.680 Okay.

02:14:23.360 All right, fair enough.

02:14:24.960 Moving on.

02:14:25.620 What about you?

02:14:26.020 What do you rate yourself on a scale of one to ten?

02:14:27.620 Well, for me, it depends on mood, because sometimes I also feel different.

02:14:31.420 But I would say it's going to be, like, seven, sometimes eight.

02:14:34.760 But for me, it's also important how I don't just feel, like, when I look at myself, but

02:14:39.880 also what I feel inside, because it's very connected.

02:14:42.940 Sure.

02:14:43.520 So, yeah.

02:14:45.240 Lauren DeLaguna.

02:14:48.120 Idaho, three, LA, seven.

02:14:51.860 Wait, wait, wait.

02:14:52.780 How is it?

02:14:55.000 What?

02:14:55.940 Yeah.

02:14:56.820 So, you're more attractive in LA versus Idaho.

02:14:58.880 Are you saying Idahoans are, I don't know if that's the right word.

02:15:00.980 What if you can't use seven?

02:15:01.700 Are you saying Idahoans are unattractive, and that Los Angeles Hollyweird freaks are attractive?

02:15:07.780 No, but there's definitely more models and, like, very attractive people in California 0.99

02:15:14.580 than I'm sure Idaho, simply because there's more people in California.

02:15:17.860 So, there's probably going to be more attractive people in California.

02:15:20.640 And more homeless people.

02:15:21.940 True, true, true.

02:15:22.740 I'm not, I'm not like.

02:15:23.400 You're saying you hit them up, those homeless women.

02:15:25.000 Are you comparing yourself to homeless women?

02:15:27.340 I'm seven, according to Idahoans.

02:15:28.920 Okay.

02:15:29.160 And then I go home.

02:15:30.060 Fair enough, fair enough.

02:15:31.320 What about, you said you're moving to Florida, so are you going to Miami?

02:15:34.900 Good point, good point.

02:15:35.620 Miami's going to be tough.

02:15:36.900 I'm looking at all parts of Florida.

02:15:40.760 Not really Miami, though.

02:15:42.260 Kind of.

02:15:42.920 Fort Launderdale?

02:15:44.280 Yes, yeah.

02:15:45.900 And Treasure Coast.

02:15:49.560 Treasure Coast or Cove.

02:15:51.100 I don't know.

02:15:52.200 Jepson Beach.

02:15:53.740 Jepson Beach.

02:15:54.920 Jepson Beach.

02:15:55.840 I feel like this question really isn't all that hard, but okay, you guys want to make

02:15:58.440 it about geography. 0.82

02:15:59.080 What, what, what about like your rating and fucking, I'm trying to think of a, like, small 0.99

02:16:11.480 European country. 0.99

02:16:13.540 Luxembourg's pretty small.

02:16:14.580 What's the one that's like super small?

02:16:16.680 Is it Luxembourg?

02:16:17.540 Croatia.

02:16:18.140 No, there's like a really small one.

02:16:19.820 Lichtenstein.

02:16:20.920 Lichtenstein.

02:16:22.200 Lichtenstein.

02:16:23.160 Lichtenstein.

02:16:24.120 The Vatican?

02:16:25.460 Technically not.

02:16:26.120 In Lichtenstein, girls are blonde and pretty tall because it's basically German-speaking

02:16:33.180 country and they all come from, like, mountains, I would say.

02:16:37.100 So it's definitely not the country for you, Brian, to look for a girl.

02:16:40.360 Because they're too tall?

02:16:41.200 Yeah.

02:16:41.720 Well, I heard the tallest people are in the Netherlands.

02:16:45.140 In Scandinavia.

02:16:46.600 Netherlands is like the tallest people, so, which is unfortunate because I really like

02:16:50.940 Amsterdam.

02:16:51.580 Okay, moving on from that, thank you guys for the lovely ratings.

02:16:54.160 We have Ross Kahn here.

02:16:55.660 Hi, whatever, hello, Lauren, other panelists in chat.

02:16:57.620 Hey, what's up, Ross Kahn?

02:16:58.940 Is that, he's got a mullet? 1.00

02:17:00.660 Fuck yeah. 1.00

02:17:00.780 Ross Kahn, she. 1.00

02:17:02.580 That's a she? 1.00

02:17:03.500 Yeah, it is a she. 1.00

02:17:05.480 Yeah, there's some awesome videos.

02:17:07.880 She is a content creator as well.

02:17:10.480 She is named Ross?

02:17:12.140 Ross Kahn, yeah.

02:17:14.220 I promise.

02:17:14.520 Is Ross a common female name?

02:17:17.040 No.

02:17:17.240 I just know my, I just know my, I see my people in chat.

02:17:21.800 Well, I apologize for misgendering you, Ross Kahn.

02:17:24.800 I sure do.

02:17:25.240 You have a lovely mullet. 0.97

02:17:26.680 Okay, thank you. 0.99

02:17:28.140 Oh, my, Romy, oh, this is, shit, I wish we got to this sooner. 0.93

02:17:31.360 Sorry, we're getting to this like two hours later. 0.98

02:17:34.020 Romy, wait, do you know this girl?

02:17:36.320 No.

02:17:37.000 Why did you?

02:17:37.600 I saw the comment earlier on the, they wanted me to shift gears in the car.

02:17:42.440 Were you, were you shifting or?

02:17:44.300 No, because I saw it too late.

02:17:45.980 Shoot.

02:17:46.880 Hey, I believe this is Roma Army. 0.89

02:17:49.660 Sorry that we're finally getting to this now.

02:17:51.240 Now simulate shifting gears manually.

02:17:53.540 Thank you for the big 300 Canadian dollars.

02:17:59.300 Thank you so much for your support.

02:18:00.260 Thank you for your big super chat last show too.

02:18:02.840 Really appreciate it.

02:18:03.540 I don't know if you're still in the, in the stream.

02:18:05.580 I know you sent this like two hours ago.

02:18:06.920 We're finally getting to the super chat.

02:18:08.100 Sorry for the delay, guys.

02:18:10.160 We're going to try to, I'm pretty sure this is Roma. 1.00

02:18:12.440 Romy, Chloe.

02:18:13.640 So we're going to try to get her on the show eventually.

02:18:16.540 Thank you so much.

02:18:17.320 Appreciate it.

02:18:18.100 Do you want to show us the little shift?

02:18:20.180 Did you drive a stick?

02:18:22.380 No, but I know you like, there's a switch pedal, isn't there?

02:18:25.380 Yeah, demonstrate.

02:18:27.940 Wait, can you make the noises too?

02:18:30.920 You're, you're about to make the noise.

02:18:33.400 Like the driving noise.

02:18:34.600 I was just going.

02:18:37.900 Yeah, that's good enough.

02:18:38.880 Wait, can we hear it?

02:18:39.540 Like, like what I just did into the mic though?

02:18:44.720 Okay, sorry, I'm being cringed.

02:18:46.440 I'm being cringed.

02:18:47.140 You can do it if you want though.

02:18:48.400 Brian, what number are you?

02:18:50.220 What do I rate myself as?

02:18:52.040 Yeah.

02:18:53.040 Like six, 6.9 on a good day.

02:18:57.600 Okay, do you feel like a lot of the times, not this panel, no one called themselves a 10,

02:19:03.140 but I do feel like a lot of the times this show will bring in, like, kind of 7s or above,

02:19:10.200 and then they call themselves 10s, and we scoff at that.

02:19:14.160 7s and above?

02:19:15.300 You sure about that one?

02:19:17.060 Most of the time.

02:19:18.620 I don't know, sometimes they'd be lower than 7s, claiming 10.

02:19:22.860 But go ahead with your point.

02:19:25.100 What's your, what, go ahead.

02:19:26.280 I just, like, and we scoff and make fun of that, so just, like, what makes you a 6?

02:19:30.740 Like, what makes you the level of a 6?

02:19:32.880 Me personally?

02:19:33.640 Like, my own self-assessment of my, are you wanting me to articulate?

02:19:37.360 Yeah, like, what makes you better than over 50% of men that are available and some?

02:19:42.900 You're a 6.

02:19:43.580 You're not just 5.

02:19:44.600 Well, I mean, and I could certainly be wrong.

02:19:47.660 I think that's just my own self-assessment.

02:19:51.260 I think I'm, and I'm not saying it to be cocky, I don't think I'm a 10, but if 5 is the average,

02:19:57.340 I think I'm perhaps maybe slightly above average.

02:20:01.840 Do you go to the gym?

02:20:03.380 Do I go to the gym? 1.00

02:20:05.320 I've been eating kind of shit, so I need to lose, like, 10 pounds. 0.99

02:20:08.080 I got a little belly here, you know, so rocking a bit of a dad bomb. 0.99

02:20:12.300 How does the beard factor into that number?

02:20:14.800 The beard?

02:20:15.440 Yeah, the beard.

02:20:16.380 Into the number?

02:20:17.280 Yeah.

02:20:17.440 You know what, isn't there some YouTuber who, like, does, like, face ratings, wheat waffles?

02:20:22.460 Do you know?

02:20:22.620 Oh, didn't you do something with wheat?

02:20:24.460 Wait, I'm trying to think.

02:20:25.220 I didn't, but I've seen what you're talking about.

02:20:26.960 You know who I'm talking about.

02:20:27.800 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1.00

02:20:28.160 He does, like, the face, like, breakdown, like, the fucking. 1.00

02:20:30.820 Symmetry. 1.00

02:20:31.400 The epicanthal folds and shit, or what does he fucking talk about? 0.99

02:20:34.480 He talks about, like, he's a good guy, but I'm trying to think what he talks about. 0.99

02:20:38.800 I think it was, like, facial symmetry, or bone structure, or something like that, or cheating.

02:20:44.160 Oh, okay, so I'm, I still, my hair isn't totally gone yet, so I guess that's good, at least for my age, I reckon.

02:20:53.280 Blue eyes, got the baby blues, got the long eyelashes, you know what I'm saying?

02:20:57.260 And, yeah, I don't, I don't think I'm an exceptionally good looking, but I think I'm, I'm, I'm decent, I'm okay.

02:21:08.320 Oh, God.

02:21:08.820 Yeah.

02:21:09.300 I just, I don't know.

02:21:10.440 Big nose, probably, I got big nose, so that probably takes off, I don't know, a point or two, and then I'm pale, super pale, and I've got, my hands kind of shake, because I, I haven't eaten anything today. 0.97

02:21:24.180 And, uh, or I, I didn't eat much today, and, uh, I have, I have dainty hands, and I think if I had big muscular man hands that were thick and fat, it, that'd be, like, an extra .5, but I got these gamer hands, you know, fucking my micro. 0.97

02:21:42.100 What's that? 0.96

02:21:42.580 You know how you get muscles, though? 0.64

02:21:45.680 Sex? 0.78

02:21:46.480 The gym. 0.96

02:21:47.560 Huh?

02:21:47.880 The gym, that's how you get the muscles.

02:21:49.560 Yeah, but, like, some people just genetically, for example, my dad, he's a software engineer. 0.96

02:21:54.660 He doesn't exercise, he doesn't lift, he's got fucking man hands, like, big, fat, meaty, strong man hands, and I got these dainty, what? 0.95

02:22:05.000 Okay. 0.99

02:22:06.800 I got these dainty gamer hands for, like, playing the piano and shit, like, I could bust out some Chopin, but I ain't about to, like, do nine hours of physical labor in the fields. 0.81

02:22:15.580 So, okay, so my point is, a lot of this show is scoffing at women who think that they are prettier than they are, and then I rarely see us turn it around on the men, and, like, I'm sure you're a nice guy, and you have a great show, but I, I wouldn't say, like...

02:22:32.840 Can I give you the, the guy's version of that?

02:22:35.060 Sure.

02:22:35.240 The delusional women thinking they're a ten, the man version of that is men who declare themselves an alpha male. 0.94

02:22:42.540 I think that that is comparable.

02:22:44.740 They were asking about looks, though.

02:22:46.740 Well, I think Lauren, Lauren was about to say that I'm, I'm actually not a six, but go ahead, Lauren.

02:22:51.620 No, that, yeah, that, you got it, you got the point.

02:22:53.580 Well, go ahead, say it for yourself.

02:22:54.820 I finished it, I finished my thought, but...

02:22:56.460 Well, you didn't, because John came in, but go ahead.

02:22:59.020 Thanks, John, you saved me.

02:23:00.640 Save five of John.

02:23:01.760 Go ahead.

02:23:02.040 I finished my, okay, my point being, I don't know if I would, yes, I don't know if I'd qualify you as a six, and I do feel like, why would you scoff at women who are incorrect about their beauty?

02:23:14.160 Like, I don't understand.

02:23:15.420 What, what do you rate me, just out of curiosity?

02:23:17.680 Oh, gosh.

02:23:18.820 If I'm not a six, what do you, what do you, I mean, we could also ask the chat, too.

02:23:22.860 Chat, do you guys want to rate me?

02:23:24.040 Go ahead.

02:23:24.240 Yes, let's let the chat, you want me to rate you?

02:23:27.700 Yeah, what do you rate me?

02:23:28.520 I think, okay, first of all, I think you're very kind, but we have to go based off just looks, right?

02:23:34.300 Just looks.

02:23:35.580 Like, a four, three or four.

02:23:37.560 Three or four, and what do you rate yourself?

02:23:39.740 I said a three.

02:23:41.460 You're a three?

02:23:42.240 I don't think you're a three.

02:23:43.120 I said three in Ohio, and I said a seven LA. 1.00

02:23:45.460 Okay, just forget the fucking bullshit geographic shit. 1.00

02:23:48.020 Geographic, bullshit geographic. 1.00

02:23:48.600 What do you rate yourself on a scale of one to ten? 0.99

02:23:50.500 Like a five or a six.

02:23:51.900 Okay.

02:23:53.960 You know what's funny is actually I would say, you know, there's, I don't know if any of you have seen this on TikTok.

02:23:59.180 There's this app that, like, makes you, like, the male version of you, and it's something like, if you wouldn't date, like, and often you see girls doing this.

02:24:07.280 If you wouldn't date the male version of you, your standards are too high.

02:24:10.560 Yes, but that app, the face changing, is literally, it's not even altering your features to make you look like a man.

02:24:17.540 It's, like, a stencil app where it's just, like, applying another man's face over your face, so that app doesn't even actually turn you into the male version of yourself.

02:24:25.600 It just turns you into some random guy.

02:24:27.500 Because have you ever tried, like, the male filter on yourself?

02:24:30.480 Because I know the female filter on myself doesn't make me just look like a more feminine woman.

02:24:35.720 It makes me look like a different woman. 0.94

02:24:38.400 You know what I mean?

02:24:39.180 It's not just masculine.

02:24:41.440 Let's ask the chat.

02:24:42.460 Who's more attractive, me or, what's, Lauren?

02:24:45.120 Who's more physically attractive?

02:24:46.940 Or are we looks equivalents?

02:24:49.700 Because I was going to say, just looking at you, I actually think there are some similar, to some degree, I mean.

02:24:54.780 Are you Irish?

02:24:55.700 Are you Irish?

02:24:57.220 No, but I would say we're, to some degree, I would consider us.

02:25:01.100 Brother or sister?

02:25:02.260 No, no, I would say we're kind of, to some degree, comparable looks-wise, I think.

02:25:06.580 Okay, interesting.

02:25:07.260 But you think you're more attractive than me, that's totally fine, fair enough.

02:25:10.160 I'm not for everybody.

02:25:12.360 They said Lauren is effing hot. 1.00

02:25:14.100 Sitting next to me, everyone looks better, of course.

02:25:16.140 Yeah, chat, are we on-

02:25:16.840 No, you're Tony Hawk.

02:25:17.900 No, I'm Tony Hawk.

02:25:18.580 I love Tony Hawk.

02:25:19.380 Tony Hawk, what would you rate Tony Hawk?

02:25:21.200 Tony Hawk, he was like a child.

02:25:22.680 I loved watching the skateboarding growing up, I was really into him, and then I also had the Tony Hawk video game thing that was on my PS, so I just, I love Tony Hawk.

02:25:34.060 There's a reason I don't show my face on camera.

02:25:36.740 No, I'm just kidding.

02:25:37.360 I haven't been reading the chat, but what's the chat been saying?

02:25:39.960 You've only seven.

02:25:40.880 It's been saying Brian.

02:25:41.580 It's been saying seven.

02:25:42.840 Brian.

02:25:43.720 Yeah, your beautiful man looks good.

02:25:45.860 Brian's a ton.

02:25:46.300 But, okay, so your original question is, and so you're-

02:25:50.560 Are you going to ask him what number he is?

02:25:52.480 Do we even get into that?

02:25:53.920 Or do we just completely skip over him?

02:25:56.020 Like, do men not matter?

02:25:57.080 Well, the original question was, ask the ladies to rate themselves on the looks to ten. 1.00

02:26:01.020 But if you want to try to deflect from where I'm about to go with this conversation, we can pass it to John really quick.

02:26:07.480 What do you rate yourself on a scale of one to ten?

02:26:09.540 Well, I mean, whatever.

02:26:11.360 If you want to delay my rebuttal, but go ahead.

02:26:13.400 I mean, what is Tony Hawk?

02:26:15.500 I mean, apparently he's my doppelganger, so, I mean, you know.

02:26:19.080 Do you have a skateboard on you?

02:26:20.800 You know what?

02:26:21.580 I don't have a skateboard on me.

02:26:23.540 But I would say, you know, above average, I would think.

02:26:28.200 I mean, six, seven, something like that, possibly.

02:26:31.900 But, you know, I mean, I don't show my face on camera for a reason, you know.

02:26:36.340 Fair.

02:26:36.820 Okay, so, so you're-

02:26:40.020 I think the difference is, though, and I guess your qualm is, is because you think I've rated myself higher than how you view me.

02:26:48.180 And perhaps you're right.

02:26:49.700 Perhaps I'm not a six.

02:26:50.540 Hold on.

02:26:50.820 He's donated $99.

02:26:53.160 False equivalence there, lawyer.

02:26:55.620 We don't scoff at women who merely rate themselves inaccurately.

02:26:59.540 We scoff at women who default to saying they're nine or ten purely based on this self-generated notion they have that they're inherently high value. 0.89

02:27:07.840 Sure.

02:27:08.800 So, I mean, let's give, by the way, Black Socrates, thank you for the donation.

02:27:13.840 Appreciate it.

02:27:14.620 So, I think there's a difference between someone being within the margin of error of a rating, so either plus or minus a point.

02:27:21.600 So, perhaps I'm a five, right?

02:27:23.840 My self-assessment is a six.

02:27:25.800 I think that's within the margin of error. 0.99

02:27:27.600 Now we're getting kind of, hold on, we're getting fucking a little nerdy with this shit. 1.00

02:27:31.660 Hold on. 1.00

02:27:32.660 With the fucking maths and shit. 1.00

02:27:34.520 But the difference is when a girl who's like a six or a seven, she thinks she's a ten. 1.00

02:27:43.280 Because if a girl says she's a six and I think she's a five, I'm not like, I'm not calling that out. 0.96

02:27:49.680 But if a girl who's a six says she's a ten, who says she's on par with the most beautiful women in the world, that's where I'm like, you're delusional. 0.89

02:28:00.280 So, I think there's a difference there.

02:28:01.580 I think it's the degree, you know, if you're within, again, the margin of error, that's one thing.

02:28:06.300 But if you're, we have below average women come on the podcast saying, I'm a ten. 1.00

02:28:12.380 I'm on par with the most beautiful women in the world.

02:28:15.120 I'm on par with lingerie models, runway models, magazine models, the most beautiful women in the world.

02:28:23.080 That, to me, is delusional.

02:28:24.260 That's where we scoff.

02:28:25.400 I don't scoff at a girl who's a five who says she's a six.

02:28:28.280 Go ahead.

02:28:29.380 Oh, sorry.

02:28:30.320 Hold on.

02:28:30.960 Bad Zonda's Corex donated $100.

02:28:33.820 It's the scoff because a lot of women that come on have a self-inflated ego because of makeup, angles, lighting, and filters that thirsty simps in the DMs gas up, when in reality they are very mid or lower. 1.00

02:28:48.000 If I said I was a ten, that's like, bro, that's like me saying I'm on par with Brad Pitt when he was in his mid-twenties. 0.98

02:28:58.380 And he's also been a fucking babe, and like, he's still a fucking babe, but. 0.97

02:29:02.040 So tens get modeling contracts. 0.99

02:29:04.460 If you're a ten, why would you even wear makeup?

02:29:06.960 I mean, I've done this interview on the street before, and many women have said they're tens, and I guess they conflate it with confidence.

02:29:16.460 If I am super confident, then that makes me a ten.

02:29:20.860 But then there's also a beauty standard.

02:29:23.900 There's obviously, you know, just because I think I'm a billionaire, does that mean that my bank account reflects that?

02:29:30.500 You know what I mean?

02:29:30.880 There's certain just things that have to back up what you're saying.

02:29:36.120 Did you want to respond?

02:29:37.340 Oh, go ahead.

02:29:38.260 No, I just wanted to say, like, maybe for someone who's really in love with her, she's a full ten, you know?

02:29:44.120 And for him, she's ten, and she's better than all others because he's in love with her.

02:29:48.980 That's beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but that still doesn't disprove the fact that we do have certain opportunities that come along with certain levels of beauty.

02:30:01.540 All right, he's in the chat, boys, for Brian.

02:30:04.260 Okay, let's move on from that.

02:30:05.800 Did you want to respond, Lauren?

02:30:07.340 No, I mean, that really does make a lot of sense.

02:30:10.840 Like, I get where you're coming from with the saying, okay, I'm a nine or a ten, and I'm in that difference.

02:30:17.720 However, I do think that we could experience some nuance and recognize that we, that at least you on this podcast, do avoid asking the men that question.

02:30:27.660 And then also, you know, what I already said.

02:30:33.200 Also what?

02:30:34.540 Oh, did you want to come in?

02:30:35.380 Oh, no, no, did you finish?

02:30:36.960 Yeah, okay.

02:30:37.980 I just want to point out, I think you're talking about almost like self-awareness because, like, if a woman, let's say she thinks she's a ten, she's actually a seven, but it doesn't even matter what, you know, just like, she thinks not the reality. 0.90

02:30:53.580 And then don't you think that the world, the reality will kind of slap her in her place at some point?

02:31:01.800 Like, she will realize that she is not as, like, old as she thinks she is.

02:31:07.980 And if she doesn't realize that that's not so much, like, inflated ego, but at least I would view it more as not having self-reflection.

02:31:17.020 I mean, I definitely think, I think it's perhaps harder for women to have the self-awareness of their own physical attractiveness for a couple reasons.

02:31:29.540 One, if you look at, and some people really aren't active on social media, but, for example, if you look at a lot of girls' Instagram profiles, their friends are in the comments gassing them up.

02:31:40.100 Even, like, let's be honest, even average, below average women, their friends are saying, you're a fucking slay queen, you're a babe, you're a hot, ten out of ten, you're perfect, blah, blah, blah.

02:31:50.880 So their own female friends, their own peers are gassing them up. 1.00

02:31:54.800 Guys really don't do that to their male friends on social media or in, I mean, some guys do, but, like, guys really aren't gassing each other up in that same way.

02:32:04.600 Guys typically are going to, like, call out their friends more so.

02:32:08.880 So, like, men and women kind of interact differently. 0.96

02:32:11.540 Like, men will bond by basically fucking roasting each other to death, whereas, whereas, and then saying really nice things about them, like, behind their backs. 0.95

02:32:24.220 And then I think it's almost the reverse with women. 1.00

02:32:26.420 Women will say really nice things to a girl to her face and then talk mad shit about her behind her back. 1.00

02:32:32.540 Not all women here, but. 1.00

02:32:35.220 I have a question about this.

02:32:36.900 Basically, do you.

02:32:37.660 Oh, sorry.

02:32:38.200 Sorry.

02:32:38.880 Thank you, man.

02:32:41.680 I appreciate it.

02:32:42.120 I donated $100.

02:32:44.040 This is my first time commenting.

02:32:46.620 Not to sound like a simp, but the girl on the end with low self-esteem, please don't change a thing. 0.98

02:32:52.760 You are the prettiest girl on the panel.

02:32:55.280 And quick question, are you of Korean descent?

02:32:58.080 Beautiful either way.

02:33:00.400 Are you of Korean descent?

02:33:02.020 I'm descent.

02:33:02.800 Decent.

02:33:03.220 Are you Korean descent?

02:33:05.260 No.

02:33:05.800 Or indecent.

02:33:06.200 I'm not of Korean descent.

02:33:07.800 I am Latina, Dominican, and Cuban.

02:33:10.560 Okay.

02:33:11.520 Just picking up on your point from before.

02:33:13.820 Do you think it's true that men will insult each other and not mean it, while women will compliment each other and not mean it?

02:33:20.760 Oh, I believe a bunch of delusion is fed to women, yes. 0.98

02:33:25.280 And I believe that women come across as like, they'll compliment a woman to try to be their friend, even if they don't mean that compliment.

02:33:32.200 Do we still have Kelly's Instagram pulled up?

02:33:36.640 Can we just pull it up really quick?

02:33:38.760 Okay.

02:33:39.460 And I'll come back to your point.

02:33:41.000 I will respond.

02:33:42.320 Okay.

02:33:42.960 Let's go down.

02:33:45.060 Go down.

02:33:46.460 Here, do the most recent one.

02:33:49.120 Maybe, I guess, the pinned one.

02:33:51.060 Let's see.

02:33:52.780 Baby.

02:33:53.460 Stunning.

02:33:54.200 How is this even possible?

02:33:55.340 Yes, queen.

02:33:56.200 Hot.

02:33:56.940 You're such a hottie.

02:33:58.060 Body.

02:33:58.560 Fire emoji.

02:33:59.460 Heart.

02:34:00.040 She is hot. 1.00

02:34:00.960 But, granted, Kelly, you are very attractive. 0.99

02:34:03.080 Yeah, go find an ugly girl and then try to show me that chat. 1.00

02:34:07.200 Like, this isn't a fair, she's hot. 1.00

02:34:09.400 That should be the comment.

02:34:10.480 Sure, sure.

02:34:11.360 Granted, yes, Kelly's very attractive. 0.99

02:34:13.300 However, however, however, like, I've seen like, that same exact comment section, you can copy and paste it to like, an average girl.

02:34:25.360 Okay, okay, that girl that usually sits where Giselle is sitting. 1.00

02:34:29.260 Uh, Kiko.

02:34:29.760 Yo, pull up, hold, who's, uh.

02:34:31.020 That Kiko girl is pretty, right? 1.00

02:34:31.560 Pull up Lizzo's, pull up Lizzo's, uh, Instagram list.

02:34:34.420 Okay, but Kiko. 0.99

02:34:34.980 That's not fair.

02:34:35.420 Kiko, who's not here, she's, she usually sits there. 0.97

02:34:38.060 She's very pretty.

02:34:38.880 What about her?

02:34:39.640 And she calls herself a 10.

02:34:41.140 And I just feel like it sucks because everyone's like, ugh, ugh, and it's like, she's pretty. 1.00

02:34:45.800 Holy shit. 1.00

02:34:46.260 Sorry. 1.00

02:34:46.560 Did you guys see the spit just fucking flying? 0.99

02:34:48.880 Oh, my God. 0.99

02:34:49.580 Good times.

02:34:50.300 You touched it.

02:34:51.020 Why didn't you touch it?

02:34:53.200 Oh, don't.

02:34:53.980 Don't, you don't touch it.

02:34:55.080 I'll clean it.

02:34:55.660 Okay, anyway.

02:34:56.240 But everyone's just like scoffing and like spitting all over the microphone and everything.

02:34:59.700 And like, oh, my God, she's not, she's not a 10.

02:35:03.000 And it's like.

02:35:03.620 She's not though.

02:35:04.760 Okay, but she's like an eight or a nine. 1.00

02:35:07.920 Why are we losing?

02:35:09.480 Go ahead, John.

02:35:10.160 I have an appropriate question for this, I think.

02:35:12.600 Okay.

02:35:13.560 Is the pressure greater on men to be successful or on women to be beautiful?

02:35:18.360 Sorry, go ahead.

02:35:18.960 One more time.

02:35:19.340 One more time.

02:35:20.040 Is the pressure greater on men to be successful or on women to be beautiful?

02:35:25.500 I think there's more pressure on men only because for women, that's more of a choice if we like want to try to be beautiful.

02:35:32.400 Whereas a man, he kind of like has to be successful to get anywhere in life. 0.99

02:35:36.980 So the average man's salary in the U.S. is 40.

02:35:41.140 Oh, wait, sorry.

02:35:41.760 Hold on.

02:35:42.780 Slow underscore Joe underscore 69 donated $101.69.

02:35:49.500 Brian, you're a king.

02:35:51.420 Respect to girl in gray skirt for keeping her hands folded on the table. 0.54

02:35:56.200 Good manners.

02:35:57.500 Other smooth brains on panel can learn manners from her. 1.00

02:36:01.080 Hashtag Christ is Lord.

02:36:02.680 Slow Joe 69.

02:36:05.060 Thank you for the $101.69.

02:36:10.280 Much appreciated, my friend.

02:36:11.420 Do you have a response to Slow Joe 69?

02:36:16.260 Not really.

02:36:17.460 Do I say thank you?

02:36:18.620 I don't know if that's a compliment or not.

02:36:21.900 I don't know.

02:36:22.520 Thank you, I guess.

02:36:23.380 Question mark.

02:36:25.040 Okay.

02:36:25.660 So I was going to continue here.

02:36:27.440 The average man's salary in the U.S. is $40,000.

02:36:30.020 The average woman in the U.S. weighs 170 pounds. 1.00

02:36:34.640 Why is there a fat acceptance movement for women, but there's no broke acceptance movement for men?

02:36:39.800 I don't believe that maybe the whole body positivity thing.

02:36:51.160 I believe that we should be taking care of ourselves as best as we can.

02:36:54.940 So I'm not sure why that happens, but I don't agree with it.

02:36:59.180 But do you think that plays a role in over-inflating a woman's self-awareness or perception?

02:37:07.540 Yes.

02:37:08.340 Delusion, yes.

02:37:09.140 I do believe that it plays into why a lot of women are delusional. 1.00

02:37:13.080 So then do you make an argument potentially that fat people don't know they're fat?

02:37:21.040 Or what delusion part?

02:37:24.540 I'm just not.

02:37:25.580 I think being fat is a bit different than just going off of like...

02:37:30.420 I think fat people know that they are fat, but they don't do anything about it.

02:37:35.360 And women and men, they're a bit different, right? 0.99

02:37:38.680 I'm sure men get a lot of pressure to work out and everything like that.

02:37:43.920 Whereas women don't get as much pressure. 1.00

02:37:46.600 Like, I guess society puts that pressure on them.

02:37:48.800 But there is a lot of, like, oh, it's my body.

02:37:51.660 Like, I should be happy because it's my body.

02:37:54.100 Instead of forcing them to, like, more so actually take care of themselves.

02:37:58.400 Like they're told that they're stunning, beautiful at any size.

02:38:00.820 Right, without working out.

02:38:02.340 Whereas a guy will mainly only get compliments if he does work out.

02:38:05.880 That's a double standard.

02:38:06.940 Yeah, yeah, it is.

02:38:10.000 There are a lot of double standards out there, for sure.

02:38:12.240 Yes, there is.

02:38:12.980 Really quick on the rating thing, just to kind of address your point.

02:38:16.160 So can you just quickly paraphrase what your original question was in terms of self-awareness when it comes to rating?

02:38:23.660 Well, yeah, so I guess my hypothesis is that an average person, if they're not, like, what they think they are, reality will come in and let you know at a certain point, like slap you in the face.

02:38:39.000 And if you are unable to see that reality, if you're unable to see those slaps, then you're just not self-aware.

02:38:48.520 And if you are able to see them, then you, like, eventually start wondering, okay, maybe it is me.

02:38:53.820 And then, you know, you will.

02:38:56.780 Yo, AB Check, big thank you for the 20 gifted memberships.

02:39:00.340 Thank you so much, man, appreciate it.

02:39:01.740 Go ahead.

02:39:02.160 So it just seems to me that women that think that they are a 10 and will keep struggling in life because they will never, you know, understand the reality, are not self-aware women rather than, like.

02:39:16.200 Yeah, I understand, I think I understand your question.

02:39:18.820 I mean, my response to that is, I mean, women are certainly capable of self-awareness. 1.00

02:39:24.160 I think, however, where women get into trouble and where a lot of them don't receive the so-called slap in the face is that women can sleep with men that are more attractive than them, who are higher status than them, who either, so, who are basically hypergamy.

02:39:42.500 So, who either socioeconomically are higher, so that could be status, it could be money, or it could also be looks.

02:39:50.180 And here's why, because men welcome the easy access, flan life, thank you for the 10 gifted, women welcome the easy access, excuse me, women welcome the easy access, wait, sorry, getting, am I having a stroke?

02:40:04.520 Men welcome, yeah, I got it, I got tongue twisted. 0.96

02:40:07.320 Men welcome the easy access to sex. 0.93

02:40:09.080 So, a guy who, let's say, and look, in common, like, obviously we're having an intellectual conversation here, in, like, common conversation, I'm not, like, referring to people as 10s and 7s, but because we're trying to, like, get to the truth of things, I am trying to have, like, a rather, to some degree, shallow or superficial approach to this.

02:40:28.320 But, for conversation's sake, it's very easy to say, looks wise, she's a 6, looks wise, he's a 7, whatever it may be.

02:40:36.080 So, a girl who's a 6 could sleep with a dude who's a 9, because he's, like, easy access to sex, cool, but he's never going to give her a commitment. 0.54

02:40:44.600 So, that's, I think women don't really get the slap in the face, because it's pretty easy for women, and let me just finish my point, and I'll have you come in, John. 0.57

02:40:52.200 Okay, sorry.

02:40:52.600 So, women can sleep with men that, on pretty much all levels, are more attractive than them, whether, again, that's status, wealth, or looks, or even personality. 0.66

02:41:04.820 A lot of women want a guy who's funny, charismatic, confident, all these things, even if they don't have those same qualities.

02:41:12.500 So, basically, what you have happening is women are going to... 1.00

02:41:16.420 Hold on.

02:41:18.320 Spencer, thank you, man.

02:41:19.180 Spencer Park donated $100.

02:41:20.520 Body counts, including the men.

02:41:23.500 We'll talk...

02:41:24.220 We'll get to body count.

02:41:25.580 Thank you, man.

02:41:26.000 Spencer, appreciate it.

02:41:27.300 So, here's the difference, right?

02:41:29.840 A guy will gladly sleep with, hook up with, keep a girl around for... 1.00

02:41:35.920 That's...

02:41:36.360 This is basically what situationships are.

02:41:39.720 Casual sex, right?

02:41:41.140 With a girl who's less physically attractive than him, because he welcomes the easy access to sex, he'll never commit to her, she'll never be his boyfriend, she'll never get the ring.

02:41:51.480 Look, it happens occasionally.

02:41:53.140 Let me just finish my point.

02:41:54.420 And so, here's the difference.

02:41:57.760 A guy will sleep with a woman who's not as attractive as he is, and he'll never commit to her.

02:42:04.900 But for women to sleep with a guy, he needs to be at least... 1.00

02:42:10.220 For a woman to be able to sleep with a guy, he needs to be at least good-looking enough to be considered for a relationship. 0.99

02:42:19.120 He has to be at least attractive enough that she would be in a relationship with him.

02:42:23.480 But the same is not the case for men.

02:42:25.660 Men will sleep with women of a certain physical attractiveness that they would never commit to.

02:42:31.440 They just welcome the easy access to sex. 0.78

02:42:33.620 So, women can sleep with these guys who are really high status, who are really good-looking, and they'll never get commitment. 0.92

02:42:40.940 So, they think, if I can get a guy who is a 9, thus, I must, too, be a 9, because for me to be able to do that, he has to be, like, on my...

02:42:54.220 He has to be good-looking enough for me to commit to him.

02:42:58.000 But men and women, we don't play by the same rules, so, like, yeah. 0.92

02:43:02.880 I actually absolutely agree with everything you've said.

02:43:06.720 The part where I would just kind of, like, rile back.

02:43:09.900 So, the moment you even said it yourself, the man will not be dating that woman. 0.99

02:43:14.900 He will have sex with her, right? 0.99

02:43:16.760 But we also know that women prefer relationships. 1.00

02:43:20.520 They don't prefer sleeping around.

02:43:22.360 Now, we could, of course, go into an argument that it might be different, and now we're in age.

02:43:27.800 However, what I'm trying to say is that woman that the guy had sex with, she will want to have a relationship with that guy. 0.97

02:43:34.360 He will not give her the relationship, and that's the slap that she will get.

02:43:38.800 Like, she will think to herself that, oh, I can get this guy.

02:43:42.160 We must be on the same level.

02:43:43.400 But the guy, potentially, when she'll be going for the relationship, he will let her know, like, dude, we can have sex, but you're not on the level.

02:43:52.360 I think some, perhaps a few women will make that connection, but I think there's going to be a lack of accountability, and they're going to, instead of being like, hmm, I was sleeping with a guy outside of my league. 0.97

02:44:05.140 I was sleeping with a guy with way too much status compared to where I'm at in life. 0.99

02:44:09.560 They're going to say, he's a fuckboy. 0.99

02:44:12.200 They're not going to say, I'm just not that attractive. 0.99

02:44:16.120 So, I think some women might get the slap, and you're right that women get rejected on the back end.

02:44:22.820 So, men get rejected on the front end.

02:44:25.040 Like, we go up instantly.

02:44:27.100 The girl's like, no. 0.98

02:44:28.380 Women tend to, women don't really get rejected typically on the front end, like, because women really aren't the initiators like that. 1.00

02:44:34.380 Women are the selectors. 1.00

02:44:35.240 So, they're going to pick, um, thank you, man.

02:44:39.240 Thank you, man.

02:44:40.940 Intelligence and humility are what makes a person attractive.

02:44:44.680 I've seen tens be fours and fours be tens.

02:44:47.920 Let's save the planet.

02:44:49.600 Let's plant more trees.

02:44:51.620 Once again, thank you, Brian.

02:44:53.700 Thank you.

02:44:53.940 For the amazing content.

02:44:55.820 Your guest is a legend.

02:44:57.740 Much love from Houston, Texas.

02:44:59.640 Thank you, man.

02:45:01.000 Really appreciate it.

02:45:02.600 Yo, Vile, Rontala, Vile, thank you for the ten gifted memberships.

02:45:07.900 Appreciate it.

02:45:08.480 Did you?

02:45:09.760 Couldn't get somebody to remind me.

02:45:11.360 I just wanted to add, though, that the lack of self-reflection is due because of the delusion that has been implemented in them.

02:45:18.980 It's going to be harder for them to reflect when that delusion has been food, you know, spoon-fed to them.

02:45:26.500 I totally, 100% agree with what you're saying.

02:45:29.360 And, Brian, like, to your point, I see what you're saying.

02:45:34.560 And I will, like, my point to your, both you guys is going to be, like, yeah, self-awareness is one of the largest humanity problems nowadays.

02:45:42.000 I don't think it's just women. 1.00

02:45:42.960 I don't think it's just men.

02:45:44.100 But I do think that that is one of the key issues of a lot of, like, dating relationships, relationships in general, is that, like, lack of self-awareness.

02:45:51.380 Can I pick up on that self-awareness for a minute?

02:45:53.500 Okay.

02:45:54.260 Question for the ladies. 0.99

02:45:55.800 A man has two women. 0.98

02:45:59.220 Every time.

02:46:00.060 Good to see you, Mark Wavius.

02:46:03.080 Thank you.

02:46:03.460 This tiny Latina, you seem uncomfortable with compliments, which in itself is delightful.

02:46:09.320 Let's make it simple.

02:46:11.180 You're attractive, polite, demure, articulate, based.

02:46:15.660 You are the standard men should be seeking.

02:46:18.320 Brian, make a move or I'll be very disappointed.

02:46:21.400 You know what?

02:46:22.220 That ring didn't fit, but.

02:46:24.780 Oh.

02:46:25.400 Here, hold on.

02:46:25.980 You want me to try that?

02:46:26.960 Yeah, try this one.

02:46:27.820 Oh, my.

02:46:28.140 Oh, my God.

02:46:28.840 Jesus Christ.

02:46:29.420 You didn't say no just because he can't throw.

02:46:31.620 That was a great throw.

02:46:32.640 Bro, bro, get it together.

02:46:34.800 Hello?

02:46:35.760 Your hands are too powerful.

02:46:36.720 I was aiming for her head, by the way.

02:46:38.160 You have these powerful hands.

02:46:39.700 You clearly played video games and not sports in high school, Brian.

02:46:42.780 It was an underhanded softball throw, okay?

02:46:45.480 I screwed it up.

02:46:47.440 No, it's still too big.

02:46:48.920 Oh, my God.

02:46:49.640 Four 11 hands.

02:46:50.400 Wait, I, no, if I move.

02:46:52.040 Oh, rip. 1.00

02:46:52.400 Oh, Jesus.

02:46:53.040 Yeah.

02:46:54.060 Okay.

02:46:54.620 All right.

02:46:55.160 You tried.

02:46:55.860 You tempted.

02:46:56.500 All right, Marquavius.

02:46:59.740 All right, we'll just leave it there for the rest of the show.

02:47:05.520 Thank you, man.

02:47:06.240 Appreciate it.

02:47:08.640 I just wanted to finish this one question, get the ladies' input on this. 1.00

02:47:12.540 Okay.

02:47:12.800 A man has two women. 0.98

02:47:14.360 He lies to one.

02:47:15.720 He tells the truth to the other.

02:47:17.640 Which one does he love?

02:47:20.740 Truth.

02:47:21.500 The one he's lying to.

02:47:22.480 Yeah.

02:47:23.340 No.

02:47:24.740 The one he's lying to.

02:47:26.040 The one he's telling the truth to is, like, has to be a side, because, like, if he's lying

02:47:34.260 to his main person, he's going to, like, tell the side chick, like, what's up, so that

02:47:38.460 way he, she's not, like, ratting him out in a tough way, if you know what I mean.

02:47:42.660 I think.

02:47:44.200 Is he protecting her, or is he feeding her delusion?

02:47:46.480 Well, the one that he's lying is trying to, per se, protect her, but, like, the one that

02:47:52.060 he's not lying to is the one that he just doesn't want to get, like, feelings attached

02:47:58.020 in, stuff like that, you know?

02:47:59.960 Because it's more like a side piece.

02:48:02.360 I feel like a man is going to lie to a woman that he loves because he's going to want to

02:48:06.560 try to keep her.

02:48:07.780 If he's cheating on her, he's not going to straight up tell her, I'm cheating on you

02:48:11.560 because she's going to leave.

02:48:12.460 So, it's like, you're going to tell, but you're going to tell the truth to your side, 1.00

02:48:16.840 you're going to, men are going to tell the side bitch, you're the side bitch. 1.00

02:48:20.220 They're going to say, they're going to tell you, I have a girlfriend, you know you're 1.00

02:48:23.200 the side bitch, so. 1.00

02:48:24.440 Should a woman get mad about cheating if she's already a side bitch? 1.00

02:48:27.900 No. 1.00

02:48:28.340 If she's the side bitch, should she get mad? 1.00

02:48:30.080 If she's already a side piece, should she get mad about cheating? 1.00

02:48:32.140 No, because you chose to be the side bitch. 1.00

02:48:34.400 Once a cheater, always a cheater, is what I've always heard. 1.00

02:48:36.480 So, if he cheats on his woman to be with you, why would you be surprised if he cheats

02:48:39.960 on you to be with some other woman? 0.65

02:48:41.160 You shouldn't be.

02:48:41.440 You shouldn't be surprised.

02:48:43.460 Yeah.

02:48:43.840 Oh, actually, another question I have about cheating as well.

02:48:46.660 What do you find more intimate, having a deep conversation or having sex?

02:48:52.960 Deep conversation.

02:48:54.460 Why is it that cheating is usually more about having sex than having a deep conversation

02:49:00.460 with a stranger?

02:49:01.540 Well, I would actually disagree with this.

02:49:06.380 Because sometimes I feel like that sex is just how she was talking about that men are

02:49:11.480 animals and they sometimes kind of like need it.

02:49:14.060 But when it gets to the emotional part, when they have really connection through the deep

02:49:19.460 dialogue or through the things they're sharing or something like this, then it's more...

02:49:24.880 I mean, both things like cheating don't understand me wrong.

02:49:27.540 It just hurts more.

02:49:28.420 Yeah, exactly.

02:49:29.520 Well, it's like you hear about how men and women are judged differently on cheating.

02:49:34.160 It's often said that women are more likely to forgive cheating than men because when men

02:49:39.840 cheat, it's usually for sexual gratification.

02:49:41.540 Women are more likely to cheat with feelings. 1.00

02:49:42.800 So men take it as more of a betrayal.

02:49:45.340 So I'm just saying it's like there's emotional cheating and then there's physical cheating

02:49:48.800 apparently.

02:49:49.520 So, you know, I guess emotional cheating hurts more.

02:49:54.300 That's definitely true.

02:49:54.960 Oh, yeah.

02:49:55.320 Emotional cheating does hurt more.

02:49:56.500 It's like how you let somebody else...

02:50:00.660 Like you had a conversation with somebody else, that's a conversation that, you know, that

02:50:04.060 me and you should have been having.

02:50:05.500 It's like, why would you let somebody else feel the same way?

02:50:08.580 Like I said before, you're treating someone else the same way that you're supposed to be

02:50:13.500 treating me. 0.97

02:50:14.420 And it's like when it comes down to it, if that's the side bitch, she shouldn't be getting 1.00

02:50:17.820 that same treatment. 1.00

02:50:20.660 Does dick size matter? 0.99

02:50:23.260 And if so, has it affected past relationships as if they dated strictly for the size of their 0.99

02:50:30.160 partner?

02:50:32.460 Yes, it matters.

02:50:33.660 It cannot be too big.

02:50:35.360 Yeah, I agree on that.

02:50:38.580 It does matter.

02:50:40.780 It can't be too big.

02:50:42.660 It's uncomfortable.

02:50:43.680 I didn't say that.

02:50:44.840 I think it just really depends on like how a person knows like how to use it because like

02:50:51.120 if they're just like no good and they don't have like, you know, like a good size, like,

02:50:57.620 you know, then no.

02:50:59.360 Yeah. 1.00

02:50:59.700 But like, you can have like, you can have like a small, you can have like a small penis 1.00

02:51:04.740 and know what you're doing and satisfy your lady and you can have a big one and still know 1.00

02:51:10.220 what you're doing.

02:51:10.860 It just matters about if they know what they're doing with it, you know?

02:51:15.000 Why? 0.99

02:51:15.540 The fuck did I come back to? 0.99

02:51:16.960 It's not about the size of the boat. 0.99

02:51:18.840 It's the motion of the ocean.

02:51:20.360 Yeah.

02:51:20.840 Why is there so much focus on the size of a man as opposed to the tightness of a woman?

02:51:24.680 Well, I think, oh, I don't know.

02:51:28.160 I mean, like, I mean, like a woman is going to like naturally go back to its regular size. 1.00

02:51:36.080 A man can't change their size. 1.00

02:51:37.840 I don't think.

02:51:38.340 Can it?

02:51:38.660 But what if their regular size is quite cavernous as a man likes to say?

02:51:44.420 Cavernous.

02:51:45.180 What do you mean?

02:51:46.340 Like a cavern.

02:51:47.580 If a woman is naturally just a gaping hole, like if that's her natural position. 1.00

02:51:52.700 Wait, here's a perfect segue.

02:51:54.100 Does a woman's body count affect her tightness? 1.00

02:51:56.540 I don't think so.

02:51:57.160 No.

02:51:57.460 Probably not.

02:51:58.060 No, no, no.

02:51:58.640 Because a woman will go back to this, like, let's say I just hopped on Big John's last 1.00

02:52:04.960 night, right?

02:52:06.120 That's me.

02:52:06.680 And like three days later, I'm like chilling.

02:52:10.900 It's going to, it's literally, it goes back to the same size.

02:52:14.280 I mean, I don't know.

02:52:15.180 I didn't even know women could stay like a bigger size. 1.00

02:52:16.960 Well, you've heard of the Kegel exercise, but women also can push out a baby and apparently 1.00

02:52:20.980 it'll go back.

02:52:21.820 Yeah.

02:52:22.240 I mean, it's not like you stretched out for life just because you had sex with somebody 0.91

02:52:26.840 that's bigger.

02:52:27.400 Like, that's not the key.

02:52:28.440 Yeah, I don't think it works that way.

02:52:29.700 No, it don't.

02:52:30.220 The other thing I hear is some people think that if a woman has a high body count, that 0.99

02:52:35.640 the labia gets bigger too. 0.76

02:52:38.640 That ain't true.

02:52:39.920 That ain't true.

02:52:41.720 That makes no biological sense.

02:52:43.620 Right.

02:52:44.260 That makes no biological sense.

02:52:45.540 A virgin could have, look, I don't like these terms, but they're used.

02:52:49.760 There, there's terms like roast, roast beef, beef curtains, which I'm against.

02:52:55.400 I'm a fan of Audi's. 0.98

02:52:56.640 Just want to say women, they have, they have, you guys were speaking about penis size. 0.99

02:53:01.340 Women have preferences when it comes to men's genitalia. 1.00

02:53:04.140 I happen to have a preference when it comes to women's genitalia. 1.00

02:53:06.820 Hmm. 0.99

02:53:07.400 What?

02:53:08.020 Yeah, that's right. 0.98

02:53:09.460 I like large labia. 0.87

02:53:10.720 What's up? 0.97

02:53:12.020 Deal with it.

02:53:12.840 Okay.

02:53:13.220 If y'all can like tall dudes, I can like dwarves.

02:53:17.340 Deal with it.

02:53:18.580 Miss NBA dater.

02:53:20.560 You don't got to bring that up.

02:53:21.680 Oh, sorry.

02:53:22.140 I didn't mean to.

02:53:22.700 I'm sorry.

02:53:23.400 I'm sorry.

02:53:24.100 By the way, I, I, I found like a, a ketchup packet.

02:53:27.160 How much for someone to down this ketchup packet for a soup chat?

02:53:31.960 What's that?

02:53:32.620 It's Heinz.

02:53:33.240 Heinz ketchup.

02:53:34.720 Well, it's Heinz.

02:53:35.640 We don't want to support that.

02:53:36.320 What if it's Heinz?

02:53:37.120 Is Heinz better?

02:53:38.280 Is anyone down to shoot this Heinz ketchup packet?

02:53:41.180 Here.

02:53:41.760 Catch.

02:53:42.540 Oh my God.

02:53:43.100 That's such a bad throw.

02:53:45.220 For what?

02:53:45.600 Gamer hands, by the way. 0.99

02:53:46.620 Can you just like shoot it right now? 0.99

02:53:49.320 Would you eat it? 1.00

02:53:49.920 You want me to suck on it? 1.00

02:53:51.360 What the fuck? 1.00

02:53:52.020 No. 1.00

02:53:52.740 Just like.

02:53:53.400 That's what she said.

02:53:54.660 No.

02:53:55.180 Just like eat it. 1.00

02:53:56.180 Just suck on it a little bit. 1.00

02:53:56.540 Don't suck. 1.00

02:53:57.600 Bro, you guys don't have to make it like so sexual. 1.00

02:53:59.460 Just eat the, eat it.

02:54:00.900 It's not, it's an innocent.

02:54:01.980 Just eat it.

02:54:02.480 For what?

02:54:02.680 Don't make it sexual.

02:54:03.340 Just eat it. 0.98

02:54:04.120 Just put it in your mouth.

02:54:04.980 Don't think about it. 0.95

02:54:06.100 Just put it in your mouth.

02:54:07.220 I can't pour it.

02:54:08.520 Are you actually down to do this on stream?

02:54:11.020 For a donation.

02:54:12.020 Oh, for a donation.

02:54:12.640 Okay.

02:54:12.800 I got to help you out.

02:54:13.580 Wait.

02:54:13.940 Martin?

02:54:14.820 Marquavius?

02:54:15.540 Wait.

02:54:16.080 For a good cause.

02:54:17.800 Does she get a portion of that dono? 0.66

02:54:19.640 Whatever it may be.

02:54:21.300 I have some like three days old cake that you can have in as compensation.

02:54:28.280 You want to give me cake for eating a ketchup packet?

02:54:31.100 That seems comm, that seems commensurate.

02:54:33.160 Sold.

02:54:33.560 Right?

02:54:33.980 That seems fair.

02:54:34.700 How much for the ketchup packet?

02:54:36.320 I don't know.

02:54:38.020 It's probably like five cents or something.

02:54:39.480 Nope.

02:54:40.080 How much for the donation for the, so I do it.

02:54:44.960 What's fair?

02:54:45.580 What do you guys think is fair?

02:54:46.480 500? 0.99

02:54:47.480 For just fucking shoot the ketchup packet packet? 0.99

02:54:50.520 Can we start the bidding? 0.99

02:54:51.660 Can we start the bidding?

02:54:52.300 If anybody else wants to get on this, I have a second one too, so.

02:54:56.680 Kelly, I'm looking at you.

02:54:57.700 Oh my God.

02:54:58.600 Jesus Christ, I can't throw.

02:55:00.100 I love food.

02:55:00.860 Like, I have no, like, I'm not picky at all, but I will not eat ketchup.

02:55:05.740 Just like straight up from the package.

02:55:07.140 Like, at all.

02:55:08.500 Eat the ketchup, Artie.

02:55:09.840 Fletcher Park donated $100.

02:55:12.180 Eat the ketchup, I already $300 anyways.

02:55:15.860 Let's do a $300 donation, yeah?

02:55:19.300 Would you do it for $300?

02:55:21.060 Yeah. 0.99

02:55:21.560 It goes into my pocket, but you're just like a fucking legend helping me out. 0.98

02:55:25.980 Because like, I'm a broke college student trying to make it. 0.99

02:55:27.840 He can pay you back by getting you a drink after some time.

02:55:31.880 Oh, wing woman over here. 1.00

02:55:33.060 Okay.

02:55:34.160 Really quick.

02:55:35.460 Eric, do you recall last stream?

02:55:37.020 I feel really bad about this.

02:55:38.140 It might have been Marquavius.

02:55:40.480 Do you recall someone at the table last stream was stepped away, and a super chat was directed

02:55:46.600 at them?

02:55:47.280 It was a TTS.

02:55:48.100 It came in, but she wasn't even there, and I said, I'll pull it back up when she's here. 0.85

02:55:52.120 And I don't, do you remember that, Eric?

02:55:54.980 Yeah, I didn't know.

02:55:55.840 It was from last stream.

02:55:56.720 Do you remember if I pulled it up again?

02:56:00.280 It might have been Marden, so whoever that was last stream, it just occurred to me.

02:56:05.880 Sorry.

02:56:07.180 Oh my god.

02:56:08.900 The chat is on fire.

02:56:10.940 The chat is on fire.

02:56:12.380 High body count and a long history of being single equals, not a prize.

02:56:17.100 It's just the way men view it.

02:56:19.320 It's one of our very few double standards.

02:56:22.180 If you have been ran through and not wifed up, it's just a red flag for men.

02:56:27.380 Word?

02:56:28.520 Oh, wait.

02:56:30.780 Thank you, BADS underscore EXE.

02:56:33.100 Appreciate it, Ben.

02:56:34.040 We'll talk about body count here in just a sec here.

02:56:37.100 Really, last quick thing on the whole 10 thing and getting slapped in the face, I think you

02:56:41.140 were talking about.

02:56:41.740 In terms of women being able to date across and up socioeconomic hierarchies, you're 19, correct? 1.00

02:56:55.780 Yeah.

02:56:56.660 Wait, closer to the mic.

02:56:58.420 Yes.

02:56:58.740 You're 19.

02:56:59.360 You're a travel phlebotomist.

02:57:00.960 Yeah.

02:57:01.540 Correct?

02:57:02.060 What is that, $18 an hour?

02:57:03.960 It's $21.

02:57:04.780 $21 an hour?

02:57:05.840 Mm-hmm.

02:57:06.780 You are dating NBA players, NFL players.

02:57:11.400 It sounds like you're dating multiple of them.

02:57:13.500 Mm-hmm.

02:57:13.760 They're flying you across the country.

02:57:16.500 You're an attractive girl, right?

02:57:18.120 But you're 19 and you're making $21 an hour.

02:57:21.220 Right.

02:57:21.700 You are moving in circles.

02:57:23.340 You are moving in the most elite group of men that there is.

02:57:28.360 Right.

02:57:28.620 High status, physically attractive, athletes, desired by many women.

02:57:34.320 Yeah.

02:57:36.160 What else?

02:57:37.180 Did I say wealthy?

02:57:38.320 I don't know.

02:57:41.240 That is quite a socioeconomic.

02:57:44.080 That's a big jump.

02:57:45.460 Difference.

02:57:47.260 SoCal Surfer.

02:57:49.100 Thank you for the 100.

02:57:50.100 Same for girls. 1.00

02:57:50.720 Some girls have huge vaginas. 1.00

02:57:52.820 I've been with plenty and it's kind of messed up to judge someone on their parts. 0.99

02:57:56.760 Some girls are tighter, shallower, et cetera. 1.00

02:57:58.380 The girls who are better at sex know how to blank. 1.00

02:58:02.020 Same like guys, et cetera. 0.92

02:58:03.900 Some girls are tighter, shallower. 1.00

02:58:05.120 The girls who are better at sex know how to. 1.00

02:58:08.640 I mean, the girls who are better at sex know how to. 1.00

02:58:12.160 Okay.

02:58:14.000 I've been with plenty and it's kind of messed up to judge someone on.

02:58:16.720 Oh, word.

02:58:17.320 I agree.

02:58:17.840 Yo, is this.

02:58:19.720 SoCal Surfer 805.

02:58:21.320 Do you have curly hair?

02:58:22.540 Blonde curly hair?

02:58:24.620 Do we.

02:58:25.440 Is that.

02:58:25.800 You know who I'm talking about?

02:58:28.800 First name starts with a D.

02:58:30.960 I'm not going to dox you, but thank you very much for the super chat.

02:58:37.220 Much appreciated.

02:58:38.440 I just.

02:58:39.320 805 is the area code for Santa Barbara, so it might be somebody.

02:58:41.720 I'm from Santa Barbara, so it might be somebody I know.

02:58:45.400 Where was I going with it?

02:58:46.720 Okay. 0.99

02:58:46.960 So you're dating NBA players and shit. 0.97

02:58:50.280 Obviously, men and women want different things, but the circles you're moving in, there's not like 18, 19-year-old dudes who are like getting flown out, who are getting comped trips, who are like getting attention from like really, really, really, really high status women. 0.94

02:59:08.840 Right.

02:59:09.320 It's just not happening.

02:59:10.880 I mean, and part of that just comes down to the differences between men and women.

02:59:14.320 We both tend to value different things in people for whether it's short-term or long-term relationships.

02:59:19.960 But, you know, that kind of plays into your point about, you know, women are able to, and it's, I mean, it doesn't sound like any of them are trying to wife you up at this point.

02:59:33.040 Yeah, maybe, maybe they are.

02:59:34.520 I don't know.

02:59:35.160 I mean. 1.00

02:59:36.900 They just want to fuck, let's be honest. 1.00

02:59:38.700 Yeah, that's just what we mean. 1.00

02:59:39.380 But you're fine with it, right?

02:59:40.280 You're just kicking it. 0.91

02:59:40.760 You're just kicking it.

02:59:41.780 I mean, I'm not over here like, oh, I need to be in a relationship.

02:59:45.260 I'm trying to be like wiped up.

02:59:46.760 I understand if that's what I wanted, but I'm smart enough to know where I can go and look for that.

02:59:53.420 I'm not going to go to no NBA player and be like, okay, I need a ring.

02:59:57.300 I need the house.

02:59:58.160 I need all this.

02:59:58.880 I'm not.

02:59:59.660 Well, you're, to some degree, I mean, are you, you're kind of living your best life.

03:00:05.200 Right.

03:00:05.460 You're moving in circles and getting attention from the top tier of men, from athletes who I presume are in incredible shape, physically attractive, really tall.

03:00:16.760 Like, making good money, high status, playing professional basketball, which I think is probably maybe the number second sport after football.

03:00:30.480 No, it's the highest paying sport.

03:00:32.600 It's the highest paying sport.

03:00:33.520 It's the highest paying sport.

03:00:34.100 Okay.

03:00:35.000 I don't know if it's, is it more popular than football, though?

03:00:37.720 It might be higher paying, but I don't know if it's.

03:00:39.420 I think football's second, but when I recently checked, it was the highest paying.

03:00:43.180 Well, in any case, you're basically, oh, my God, Spencer Park donated, okay.

03:00:48.380 Spencer Park donated $200.

03:00:50.900 Eat the ketchup.

03:00:52.160 We said three.

03:00:53.840 Yeah, he sent a hundred.

03:00:55.300 He said a hundred before.

03:00:57.120 The ketchup.

03:00:58.300 How do we do it?

03:00:59.480 Oh, what do you, bro, is that how you open a ketchup?

03:01:02.000 You scuffed it.

03:01:03.020 I tried, I tried.

03:01:03.600 Wait, show it to the camera so they see how messed up you did it.

03:01:05.980 I tried turning it.

03:01:06.760 You're supposed to rip the little, the corner.

03:01:10.180 Listen, I'm bad at this.

03:01:11.020 It's like opening up a condom. 0.56

03:01:13.100 I don't know how to do that.

03:01:15.880 What?

03:01:19.440 I can't believe she's doing it.

03:01:21.540 Yo.

03:01:22.760 Let's.

03:01:23.960 Hold it up to the camera.

03:01:25.860 Is it good?

03:01:26.420 Oh, my.

03:01:27.120 Bro, this trick is.

03:01:29.200 I'm, wow, okay.

03:01:30.700 Spit or swallow? 0.98

03:01:32.880 Always swallow. 0.99

03:01:33.820 Have you seen that, going back to the vagina thing, have you seen that curb your enthusiasm 1.00

03:01:39.180 thing where it's like, you know, you know when women go like this, you know, this thing, 1.00

03:01:44.220 when women do this thing. 1.00

03:01:45.460 Yeah.

03:01:45.880 For a guy who's small.

03:01:46.840 Yeah.

03:01:47.460 How do you know it's not.

03:01:50.800 What do you mean?

03:01:51.620 How do you know it's not. 1.00

03:01:52.820 Like if a woman has a vagina. 1.00

03:01:55.420 Cavernous. 1.00

03:01:55.780 Cavernous.

03:01:55.940 Really.

03:01:56.460 I think guys need to start.

03:01:58.460 I think it would be more like a.

03:01:59.780 Women do this. 1.00

03:01:59.800 Guys got to start.

03:02:01.120 Okay.

03:02:02.320 Okay.

03:02:02.680 Can I bounce something off of.

03:02:06.060 Because she said, sorry, I can't look at you, but.

03:02:09.100 Wait, one thing. 0.97

03:02:09.960 Yo, W's in the chat for Giselle for fucking being a legend, for being a champion, for. 1.00

03:02:16.000 Brian could have opened it for her like a gentleman. 0.97

03:02:18.620 I apologize.

03:02:19.360 That was not very gentlemanly of me.

03:02:21.580 Let's get some W's in the chat. 0.98

03:02:23.040 She actually fucking pounded a Heinz ketchup packet on stream. 1.00

03:02:29.080 First ever, by the way. 0.99

03:02:30.060 That's like a, that's quite a milestone in this podcast's sordid history.

03:02:37.800 Okay.

03:02:38.040 Clip it.

03:02:38.560 Clip it, guys.

03:02:39.420 Clip it and ship it.

03:02:40.360 Okay.

03:02:41.860 What a G. 0.96

03:02:42.940 Okay, go ahead.

03:02:43.460 She said she wanted to become a wife, right?

03:02:45.960 I'm sorry.

03:02:46.320 I can't look.

03:02:47.440 Is that correct?

03:02:48.080 Did I say that?

03:02:48.640 Like, you wanted to be wife, you wanted to be wifed up. 0.87

03:02:51.860 When did I say that?

03:02:53.380 Is that what you said is what I'm asking?

03:02:55.400 No.

03:02:55.700 I said I'm not out here like wanting to be wifed up.

03:02:58.240 Like, I'm just vibing right now.

03:03:00.220 Like, that's just not at the tip of my mind.

03:03:02.260 Like, I'm not where I want to be in life.

03:03:04.380 So, I'm not about to be like, okay, I'm trying to get married.

03:03:08.020 Like, that's just not off the top of my head right now.

03:03:10.780 If you're not where you want to be at life, wouldn't it be better for you to focus on trying to get there than hooking up with a bunch of random people?

03:03:19.640 Well, what I do in my time is my business.

03:03:27.140 So.

03:03:28.600 How do you plan to keep men interested in you once your looks begin to fade? 1.00

03:03:34.240 I think I'm just going to have to figure that out once my looks begin to fade.

03:03:37.880 But I don't plan on just, like, sleeping around and hooking up with whoever forever.

03:03:44.580 I think I'm just young and certain.

03:03:47.660 I'm just living my life right now.

03:03:49.320 Are you worried that's going to affect your future options, especially, like, with this chat and seeing all the men here and, like, just the culture that this has, that all of these men.

03:04:00.080 It definitely, like, crosses my mind.

03:04:02.460 I'm not going to sit here and be like, oh, I don't care.

03:04:04.840 I do care about it.

03:04:06.020 Like, you know, how is my future husband, if I do ever get to that point, going to think, like, how is he going to feel?

03:04:13.660 So, obviously, I feel like I could be a lot worse.

03:04:17.540 But I'm not at that point yet.

03:04:19.800 I want to address one thing with this.

03:04:21.540 And this sort of almost ties into what you were saying about and what I was saying about how women are able to secure sexual attention from men that are higher than them in terms of socioeconomic status.

03:04:34.100 Because if you don't marry or have a long-term relationship with one of these NBA players, I honestly think you're going to be really unhappy in a future relationship.

03:04:52.820 Because you are now accustomed to a certain caliber of man, NBA player, tall, good-looking, wealthy, high social status, successful, etc.

03:05:06.720 And then there's a certain confidence that comes with being a professional athlete.

03:05:12.800 Like, just in terms, okay, I mean, we can approach that from a sexual angle.

03:05:19.920 We can approach it from just personality, all the components, right, the whole package.

03:05:24.520 Do you think the guy that you're going to marry is going to be an NBA player?

03:05:30.900 It could be.

03:05:31.920 Right.

03:05:32.160 It could be.

03:05:32.820 But if you don't, you've basically, and I'm sort of repeating myself, you've become so accustomed to these really attractive, really high-status dudes.

03:05:42.660 The normal travel phlebotomist isn't appealing to you anymore from a status point of view. 0.96

03:05:49.760 Well, I mean, like I said, I still do fuck with, like, regular guys. 0.95

03:05:55.780 Like, it's not like I'm strictly NBA players. 0.96

03:05:59.520 You have four NBA players right now.

03:06:01.460 Yes, I'm saying that's my type. 1.00

03:06:02.780 Okay, I fuck with them. 1.00

03:06:03.320 Your type is NBA player. 1.00

03:06:04.660 Yeah.

03:06:05.220 Go ahead.

03:06:05.500 Go ahead.

03:06:06.000 I believe we call that alpha widowed. 1.00

03:06:09.080 How much money does a man have to make for you to fuck with him? 1.00

03:06:12.440 Good question. 1.00

03:06:13.440 Thank you, Kelly.

03:06:14.180 I would say for, like, a yearly or, like, monthly.

03:06:20.200 Like, a year salary.

03:06:21.340 Both.

03:06:21.520 How about both?

03:06:22.080 Both.

03:06:23.180 Probably at least, like, $100,000 a year.

03:06:26.340 $100,000?

03:06:27.120 Yeah.

03:06:27.360 $100,000 a year.

03:06:29.020 Okay.

03:06:29.200 So, um...

03:06:30.600 But you're 19, right?

03:06:32.220 Mm-hmm.

03:06:32.440 How many men your age, do you, are you have any interest in men your age?

03:06:37.440 I mean, yeah, the last dude I was just messing with who's about to be drafted, he's 19, too.

03:06:44.560 Okay, but I'm talking, like, normal guys.

03:06:46.520 Normal guys your age are not making $100,000 a year.

03:06:49.620 They're not even making it. 0.98

03:06:50.880 They're maybe in college or some shit. 0.99

03:06:52.520 Right. 0.99

03:06:53.980 Lauren, did you want to say something?

03:06:56.140 Oh, I was checking out Rue's chat.

03:06:58.520 Oh, okay.

03:07:00.160 Yeah, we're...

03:07:01.160 Go ahead.

03:07:02.180 What did they say?

03:07:02.980 Don't worry about it.

03:07:03.500 Don't worry about it.

03:07:05.140 So, okay, bare minimum for you in terms of financials is $100,000 a year.

03:07:11.560 Right.

03:07:12.360 Okay.

03:07:12.980 Oh, yeah, actually...

03:07:14.160 Have you ever made $100,000 in one year?

03:07:16.520 No.

03:07:18.180 I think, like, the statistic is, like, only 17% of men in the United States make over $100,000.

03:07:23.760 I think it's less...

03:07:24.540 Isn't it less than 10%?

03:07:26.700 Shall we look it up?

03:07:28.500 Just...

03:07:29.100 I think it's less than 10% of men make...

03:07:31.020 Maybe...

03:07:31.340 Is it 50...

03:07:31.900 It's maybe 10 or 15.

03:07:34.160 Erica, are you looking at that?

03:07:35.140 Most of them are in their, like, 75, like, 80s years old.

03:07:37.940 I think the average is, like, 40,000...

03:07:39.940 Do you know this, John?

03:07:40.580 Is it, like, 40,000 for average income for a man in the U.S.?

03:07:44.040 Yeah, I believe it was 40, but it might have been a little bit more.

03:07:46.240 45, something like that.

03:07:47.540 Yeah.

03:07:49.240 When you date a guy, it's 45,000.

03:07:52.220 Yeah.

03:07:52.540 11% of women... 1.00

03:07:55.440 No, no, no, no, no.

03:07:55.920 No, men.

03:07:56.700 Men.

03:07:57.040 21%.

03:07:57.480 21% of men make...

03:07:59.900 That's CNBC.

03:08:04.220 Can we change the question?

03:08:05.620 Go to Wikipedia.

03:08:07.840 CNBC.

03:08:08.660 Wikipedia is also fake news.

03:08:09.680 Wikipedia is so liberal, too.

03:08:12.140 Also, the people who run Wikipedia.

03:08:13.060 Can you go to that first question right there?

03:08:14.860 Anyone can submit it, but the people who run it will actually lock pages.

03:08:18.400 What percentage of men make over 100K?

03:08:21.080 17%.

03:08:22.920 Okay.

03:08:23.660 Oh, that's all right.

03:08:25.100 Really?

03:08:25.640 All ages, though.

03:08:27.760 Yeah, obviously, it's going to change.

03:08:30.080 But what about California exactly?

03:08:31.540 That's counting, like, dudes in their 60s.

03:08:33.600 That's counting everyone, yes.

03:08:35.300 But then it's, like, only 17%.

03:08:37.900 Let's do the delusion calculator.

03:08:39.280 Eric, can you pull up the delusion calculator?

03:08:43.540 Go ahead.

03:08:48.820 It's a tab.

03:08:49.800 It's one of the favorited tabs.

03:08:51.520 I think it's calculator or something.

03:08:55.640 What was the question I had about this?

03:08:57.020 Here, we'll fill this out really quick for you and any other girls who want to do it. 1.00

03:09:00.580 We can do it for you, too.

03:09:01.720 So what are the chances to find the men of my dreams?

03:09:05.940 Ideal age for you? 0.80

03:09:07.160 Like, age range for a guy?

03:09:09.020 Into the mic?

03:09:09.620 That works for me, yeah.

03:09:11.080 20 to 40?

03:09:12.820 Exclude married?

03:09:14.480 Yeah.

03:09:15.280 You don't care if they're married? 1.00

03:09:16.260 I thought you said no Steph Curry, no LeBron.

03:09:17.960 I'd rather not.

03:09:19.020 Marriage is kind of a little...

03:09:20.100 Wait, into the mic, into the mic.

03:09:21.340 I said I'd rather not if they're married.

03:09:23.400 Okay, so exclude married.

03:09:26.140 Race?

03:09:26.600 Do you have a preference?

03:09:27.540 No.

03:09:28.300 Okay.

03:09:29.200 Minimum height?

03:09:32.240 Let's do 5'8".

03:09:33.600 5'8"?

03:09:34.180 Okay, fair.

03:09:36.240 Oh, Eric, scuffed. 0.86

03:09:39.520 Exclude obese men. 1.00

03:09:40.660 Um, no, I would fuck with a bigger dude. 1.00

03:09:44.280 You'd fuck with an obese dude. 1.00

03:09:45.560 Yeah, like, if he's tall, not nobody, like, not nobody, like, yeah, like, stubby, but, 1.00

03:09:54.040 like, say, like, he got a little, he got a little muscle to him, I don't care.

03:10:00.080 Alignment, in other words.

03:10:01.520 Yeah, like, I don't mind.

03:10:02.760 All right, fine.

03:10:03.940 Proportional.

03:10:05.080 Minimum income, put it at 100K.

03:10:06.780 Okay, okay, find out.

03:10:10.720 Might not be terrible, but.

03:10:12.860 Okay, that's 2.5%.

03:10:15.340 What is this even rating?

03:10:17.300 It's, like, delusion calculator, like, what do you mean?

03:10:19.340 That's your ideal man.

03:10:20.420 I think it's the chances of you finding that ideal man.

03:10:23.080 So, 2.5% of men between the ages of 20 to 40 who are 5'8 and above, who make 100K or more.

03:10:30.640 So, you get 3 out of 5 cat packs.

03:10:35.100 To be fair.

03:10:36.020 They put in any of her information, like, how hot she is, and, like, how successful she is. 1.00

03:10:42.200 But this is just pointing out the proportion of men that meet those standards.

03:10:48.320 So, who's more delusional, the average woman holding out for the rich alpha male, or the average woman holding out for the lingerie model? 0.97

03:10:55.680 Wait, you mean the average man holding out for the lingerie model?

03:10:57.940 One more time.

03:10:58.400 Who do you think is more delusional?

03:11:00.720 The average woman holding out for the rich alpha male, which we just saw in that delusion calculator, or the average woman, or sorry, the average man holding out for the lingerie model?

03:11:11.420 Sorry, I screwed it up.

03:11:12.400 A woman expecting, like, waiting for that man is way more delusional. 0.99

03:11:18.000 How many lingerie models are there out there? 1.00

03:11:21.100 I'm just saying, like, when you say, like, do you literally mean lingerie model, or are you just speaking about beauty?

03:11:27.080 Well, what I'm saying is that the average man can work on himself.

03:11:31.160 Right.

03:11:31.420 And probably, eventually, get to a status where he's going to attract all the lingerie women.

03:11:36.120 Right.

03:11:36.900 But the average woman holding out for the rich alpha male, we see how, you know, few, based on that delusion calculator, how rare they are. 0.72

03:11:44.520 Yes, because alpha males are more rare.

03:11:48.420 They're successful.

03:11:49.260 They're more successful.

03:11:50.120 They're more rare.

03:11:50.700 That's why I said in the beginning that men are the price, because there are way less successful, high-value men than there are beautiful women.

03:11:57.960 And throughout history, the most powerful men have usually had multiple women, so going back to our idea of monogamy, would you say that polyamory is almost, like, where we're headed based on the delusional expectations of women? 0.61

03:12:12.120 I wouldn't say that's where we're heading, but, yes, that does play into the delusion of women nowadays, for sure. 1.00

03:12:21.320 With the society heading towards polyamory, you were talking about, like, for instance, with dating apps, almost all women date the same, like, 5% to 10% of men.

03:12:33.680 Is that what you're referring to?

03:12:35.660 Well, not all women, but they're all gravitating towards the top men.

03:12:40.940 And we see this playing out on dating apps, for example.

03:12:42.980 Most women will say, I'm only swiping on, like, 10% of men, and all women are swiping on those same 10% of men. 0.96

03:12:52.520 And then I think if you ask, I mean, we can go around the table, like, what percentage of men that, for example, you see in real life do you say, I find him attractive?

03:13:03.180 So why don't we start with you?

03:13:04.720 Oh, it's exceedingly low.

03:13:07.200 And reminder, earlier, you said that you're picky and that you have high expectations.

03:13:11.980 So in day-to-day, what percentage of men would you say you find physically attractive?

03:13:19.180 Yeah.

03:13:19.560 Or that you're attracted to?

03:13:20.580 This is a really hard one because I do recognize that, like, I'm not perfect, and I don't know if my standards are necessarily realistic either, I guess.

03:13:30.600 But I find such a slim number of men attractive, especially these days.

03:13:36.840 I'm really attracted to masculinity, and men just are not masculine anymore.

03:13:43.180 So, like, it is very difficult to find a man.

03:13:46.280 When you say masculine, what do you mean?

03:13:49.600 Like, what are your, like, what are your, what's your definition?

03:13:51.960 Like, I want him to go to the gym, and I just want him to have.

03:13:56.200 That's why she read me on.

03:13:58.100 Well, I mean, like, working out is really important to me, and then having just that super manly drive, like, waking up early, business, business, business.

03:14:09.740 Not that, and Brian does.

03:14:10.580 But how is that, but what is that, what is that masculine?

03:14:13.140 Gotta lose some weight.

03:14:14.280 What's masculine about waking up early?

03:14:17.140 The hard work ethic.

03:14:18.600 She wants someone who's ambitious.

03:14:19.840 Ambition.

03:14:20.320 Yeah.

03:14:20.860 Yeah, I find ambition.

03:14:22.580 I guess maybe it's not masculine.

03:14:24.360 Is that a masculine, would you consider that a masculine trait?

03:14:26.260 I mean, not necessarily, but what other things are masculine, I suppose.

03:14:33.780 A rugged jawline, broad shoulders, all of the, all of the stereotypical, basic, masculine.

03:14:42.200 Okay, so, but.

03:14:43.000 Gaston as a human being, okay?

03:14:44.740 But besides the physical appearance, so does masculine, like, personality traits have to do with anything?

03:14:50.100 Is that what you're looking for?

03:14:50.840 I mean, yeah, too.

03:14:50.860 Or are you just looking for a physically masculine man?

03:14:53.420 But we were just talking about on looks, like.

03:14:56.820 So you, that's, that's why, that's why I'm asking, so like.

03:14:58.740 Just based on looks, yeah, I'm looking for masculine.

03:15:02.340 But, and then if we're also including personality, yeah, I would like the masculine traits of protectiveness.

03:15:09.760 And, obviously, there's some feminine traits that I want, like caring and nurturing. 1.00

03:15:14.880 But I wouldn't want that overboard.

03:15:17.460 I wouldn't want a clinking man.

03:15:19.540 So, yeah, I would want masculine, masculine men.

03:15:22.320 And there's just, like, a severe lack of testosterone in society these days. 0.98

03:15:26.060 I just look around and I see a bunch of beta bitches and I'm not, not really into it. 1.00

03:15:31.800 Do you think that reason is because a lot of women nowadays are more masculine? 0.99

03:15:36.600 So true.

03:15:37.640 And also because of our water, Alex Jones.

03:15:39.760 There's plastic.

03:15:40.300 Alex Jones knows what's up.

03:15:40.620 Plastic in the water.

03:15:41.520 Can I ask you this question?

03:15:42.740 Yeah.

03:15:42.960 When it comes to relationships, are men more likely to be held to a masculine standard than women are held to a feminine standard?

03:15:50.020 Yeah. 0.97

03:15:50.640 That's a damn good question. 0.96

03:15:52.080 Yeah, they are. 0.95

03:15:52.720 What are those standards and who defines them?

03:15:54.860 I mean, it's so crazy because, I mean, clothing is a great example of how society relaxes in women's standards much quicker than it does with men's standards.

03:16:05.000 So, like, for instance, women have always worn, like, dresses for as long as I know clothing standards.

03:16:11.920 Until recently, now it's acceptable for women to wear pants and it's totally normal within society. 0.77

03:16:16.940 And yet, we haven't slipped with men yet.

03:16:20.020 We are now just starting to see the brink of that.

03:16:22.920 So, I just think it's, like, a slower thing, but it's definitely, it's trending for both genders.

03:16:29.180 I've got a question for you.

03:16:30.200 You said that you like a guy who works out.

03:16:32.460 So, are you saying, like, he just has to be in, like, a modicum, I don't know if I used that word right, modicum of fitness?

03:16:40.140 Or are you saying, like, you want, like, a really, like, muscular guy?

03:16:44.880 He doesn't have to be, like, vascular, if that's what you're asking.

03:16:47.100 No, I'm saying just muscular.

03:16:50.340 I want a man who's been working out and considered working out a part of his daily routine, or at least five times a week routine.

03:16:59.360 Do you work out?

03:17:00.280 I was just going to ask that.

03:17:02.180 I do work out.

03:17:03.040 But you also said you want a guy, broad shoulders, chiseled jaw, Gaston.

03:17:07.680 Yeah. 0.98

03:17:08.480 What's that song from the fucking, how's it go? 0.99

03:17:10.540 That's a banger, dude. 0.99

03:17:15.760 I fucking love that song. 0.99

03:17:17.180 Let's keep going. 1.00

03:17:18.400 Keep going.

03:17:20.780 No, it's a good song.

03:17:24.140 Okay, I don't know where I was going with that.

03:17:25.600 You want a Gaston.

03:17:26.900 Like, so you want a Chad.

03:17:28.220 You want, like, a 10.

03:17:29.300 Yes, I want a Chad.

03:17:30.860 Yeah.

03:17:31.400 I want a big Chad wife. 1.00

03:17:32.900 I want a Chad man.

03:17:34.060 I want it all.

03:17:35.380 I want little kids on a commune.

03:17:38.280 Didn't you rate yourself a 6 or a 7?

03:17:40.540 Yes.

03:17:41.280 Do you want a guy who's, I mean, you're kind of describing, like, a guy who's maybe an 8, 9, or 10.

03:17:46.820 Do you want an 8, 9, or a 10?

03:17:48.840 Yeah.

03:17:49.760 Who doesn't want the top? 0.98

03:17:51.560 But then you think you can still strive, even if you can't reach it.

03:17:53.720 But that's where the double standard comes in for you, because it's like, how are you expecting a perfect man?

03:17:59.220 I'm not expecting.

03:18:00.200 How are you expecting an 8, 9, or 10 when you don't?

03:18:02.600 I'm not.

03:18:03.840 I'm saying I would like that.

03:18:05.740 I'm striving for that.

03:18:06.860 But I would be very happy with somebody who wouldn't be considered your standard 8, 9, or 10.

03:18:12.420 Obviously, that's what I'm attracted to.

03:18:14.580 I feel like a lot of men that are in the 8, 9, and 10 range are looking in the 8, 9, and 10 range of women, too.

03:18:20.100 Doesn't everyone settle?

03:18:21.620 No one gets their ideal.

03:18:23.040 Yeah.

03:18:23.140 So, technically, I mean, but...

03:18:25.320 Spencer Parker, $100.

03:18:28.100 I am a 32-year-old man that makes $800,000 a year.

03:18:33.000 Drive a supercar.

03:18:34.300 Let's go.

03:18:35.060 Live in a penthouse.

03:18:35.700 Hell yeah.

03:18:35.960 And I can tell you money doesn't not affect my dating life.

03:18:39.120 Doesn't not.

03:18:39.520 Doesn't matter how much money you have.

03:18:41.380 Women won't see you unless you are conventionally attractive. 0.91

03:18:44.340 Yeah, I definitely think looks are kind of like the main primary thing that has to come first.

03:18:50.920 So, Spencer, can you tell us a little bit, like, obviously, you're a successful dude, 800K a year.

03:18:55.960 That's fantastic.

03:18:56.800 Congratulations, man.

03:18:57.500 Sounds like you have your life in order.

03:18:59.580 Obviously, I don't know if you're prepared to submit a photo, but can you tell us a little bit about your appearance?

03:19:03.460 Like, how would you rate yourself?

03:19:04.400 How tall are you?

03:19:05.080 Are you in good shape?

03:19:07.140 I mean, race sometimes comes into play here.

03:19:09.600 So, you know, but...

03:19:11.600 So, you were...

03:19:12.520 Go ahead, John.

03:19:13.060 You were about to...

03:19:14.080 Oh, I was just going to say...

03:19:15.260 Thank you, Spencer.

03:19:16.020 Women will often complain about the feminine standards placed on women. 1.00

03:19:20.280 You know, you've got to have, you know, boobs, ass, you know, you've got to have a skinny waist. 1.00

03:19:24.840 Which is more unrealistic, the masculine standards placed on men or the feminine standards placed on women? 0.99

03:19:31.140 The masculine standards?

03:19:33.500 Well...

03:19:34.100 I think it's harder to get a six-pack for a man than it is for a woman to go get a BBL. 1.00

03:19:39.620 Is it harder to grow muscles or just not overeat?

03:19:41.880 It's harder to grow muscles.

03:19:45.840 So...

03:19:46.280 And we should maybe go around the table on this.

03:19:48.400 And that's a good line of questioning.

03:19:49.660 So, is it harder to be good-looking as a woman or as a man? 0.76

03:19:55.640 Mm-hmm.

03:19:56.140 Mm-hmm.

03:19:56.680 Mm-hmm.

03:19:58.800 Define...

03:19:59.360 As a man.

03:20:00.400 Mm-hmm.

03:20:01.500 As a man, for sure.

03:20:03.100 Like...

03:20:03.540 Like life being harder?

03:20:06.020 Well...

03:20:06.740 To look good, I think you said.

03:20:08.360 Just to be considered physically attractive.

03:20:10.920 The steps it takes to be physically attractive.

03:20:13.320 Oh, yeah.

03:20:14.240 Men.

03:20:15.600 Definitely men.

03:20:16.820 Yeah.

03:20:17.520 Harder.

03:20:18.820 Define it harder.

03:20:20.020 Like, so...

03:20:21.580 Like men... 0.98

03:20:23.120 To be deemed attractive physically.

03:20:25.220 Well, for example, like you said there's slim...

03:20:28.540 Describing the way that it looks.

03:20:31.860 Oh, what?

03:20:32.780 It was a hundred...

03:20:34.220 Was it 50?

03:20:35.300 Yeah.

03:20:36.420 I'll pull it up here in a sec.

03:20:38.060 Let me see if I can hold on.

03:20:39.680 Continue.

03:20:40.180 Go ahead.

03:20:40.540 Go ahead.

03:20:41.420 While I pull it up.

03:20:41.900 You just said the, like, let's say the skinny waist, right?

03:20:44.200 I was going to say, like, an example of this.

03:20:46.180 You know, I live in Vegas.

03:20:47.040 You look at the strip clubs, right?

03:20:48.720 And if you look at male versus female strippers, you know, female strippers, you know, just basically have to be fit and slender. 1.00

03:20:56.460 Slender or curvy, I guess you would say, is the ideal body type. 0.67

03:20:59.460 What is the ideal body type for a male stripper? 0.98

03:21:01.580 He's got to have, you know, he's got to be chiseled, right?

03:21:03.520 He's got to have a body of a Greek god.

03:21:05.200 That takes hours of, you know, you have to become a gym rat.

03:21:08.740 You have to be obsessed with that.

03:21:10.980 And diet, nutrition.

03:21:12.480 So, I mean, that's kind of, I think, where I'm going with this.

03:21:15.620 Right.

03:21:15.800 Absolutely.

03:21:16.280 Like, I do 100% agree men have to put a lot of work, but just slightly depending on, like, physical time and effort.

03:21:23.920 On that, I'll agree.

03:21:25.320 But the reason that I'll have hard times agreeing on the harder part for women is because, like you said, slimmer waist. 1.00

03:21:31.700 And, yes, we can do the surgery, but, first of all, cost money to earn money.

03:21:35.960 Not easy.

03:21:36.900 Second of all, yeah, that's a cop-out a little bit.

03:21:39.280 Like, would it be as easy physically, like, naturally, biologically for me to get that waist?

03:21:44.600 I think it would be just as hard for me as for a guy.

03:21:47.340 But, yes, women, it's easier for a woman to use a cop-out in the 21st century. 1.00

03:21:51.880 Now, what if a man had a very successful status but had a dad bod versus a guy who's just, you know, broke but he's an F-boy?

03:22:02.660 I mean, is it more, is it looks over money and status for you or, you know, will be...

03:22:06.900 I might be the wrong person to ask because I like dad bod.

03:22:09.740 You prefer dad bods?

03:22:11.440 Yeah.

03:22:12.180 Well, prefer to what?

03:22:13.700 To a scrawny little dude?

03:22:15.220 No, not that, but I'm saying if we talk about, you obviously, I seriously doubt that you prefer it over a man who's chiseled.

03:22:22.520 Well, yeah, well, of course, but then there are different, like, levels.

03:22:25.600 If you, you could be chiseled and very skinny, and I would prefer a dad bod over a skinny chiseled, but, of course, a good chisel, yeah, will be better than a dad bod.

03:22:36.800 What?

03:22:38.060 Sorry.

03:22:38.820 Oh, so, okay, I want to, let's talk about your perfect man here.

03:22:42.240 So, and also, you're an attorney, so you're successful.

03:22:44.840 Not yet, I'm waiting on character and fitness.

03:22:48.440 So, you're a lawyer, because my understanding is, is that you can be a lawyer but not an attorney.

03:22:53.600 I graduated law school, I passed the bar.

03:22:54.860 Okay, but you will be.

03:22:56.060 So, technically, I'm a lawyer.

03:22:56.500 But you will be an attorney.

03:22:58.040 If everything is a lawyer.

03:22:58.780 Do you have something in your background that you're...

03:23:00.760 I legally don't want to tell anyone that I'm an attorney when I'm not an attorney, because then I could be accused of giving legal advice,

03:23:07.120 and then I just, legally, and also my mom is watching.

03:23:10.720 Shout out to my mom. 0.99

03:23:11.380 Yo, shout out. 0.65

03:23:11.820 She's an attorney.

03:23:12.420 Shout out Lauren DeLaguna's mom. 1.00

03:23:14.300 DLG in the chat.

03:23:15.060 Let's go.

03:23:15.740 Yeah.

03:23:16.140 Okay.

03:23:17.080 But you will be, I suspect, a high earner, correct?

03:23:21.520 Attorneys make decent money.

03:23:23.840 Yeah.

03:23:24.380 When you are, assuming you're...

03:23:27.180 Yes, I will probably be a high earner.

03:23:29.200 And you're a content creator, and hopefully that is successful for you.

03:23:32.440 And can you tell us, in terms of, we talked a little bit about what you're looking for in terms of physical appearance,

03:23:38.660 but maybe let's talk a bit of status, let's talk education, let's talk status, education, and income.

03:23:48.080 How much money are you, would you be looking for a potential partner?

03:23:51.940 I definitely don't look at, like, how much money someone's making.

03:23:56.360 I'm looking at how much effort they're putting in, and then also how logical their effort is.

03:24:01.800 Like, if they're just wasting time at, like, MLMs, then I don't care how ambitious they are.

03:24:08.500 But if they're, you know, if they're working for something, and it's something admirable, then why not?

03:24:17.980 So, for instance, if they dropped out of high school and then went to a trade school and started their own business,

03:24:24.360 I find, first of all, plumbers, electricians, carpenters, these people make very good money.

03:24:30.260 Yeah, they make good money.

03:24:31.040 Yeah, so I don't have any issue with a lack of education or...

03:24:36.320 Okay.

03:24:37.280 Well, I mean, that's refreshing because, I mean, I think you often, a lot of, my impression is a lot of women don't want to date down socioeconomically.

03:24:46.180 Now, these tradesmen, they make good money, and what they do is incredibly valuable to society.

03:24:51.360 However, I think there's going to be an educational unevenness and perhaps an achievement uneven...

03:25:04.640 I'm not saying...

03:25:05.840 Here's why I disagree with what you're trying to say.

03:25:08.020 Like, with men, first of all, I just don't value education that much.

03:25:13.620 That's fair.

03:25:13.920 A lot of the people that I graduated law school with, and I'm sorry before I say this, and I thank you to my law school and to Dean Ferrari and everyone. 0.87

03:25:21.840 That being said, a lot of the people I graduated law school with are some of the dumbest human beings I've ever had the displeasure of sitting in a room with, including some of my professors.

03:25:30.420 So, I just really don't value education, and some of the smartest people I ever met are high school dropouts. 0.86

03:25:37.380 So, why am I going to be, oh, wow, you didn't waste hundreds of thousands of dollars in school like I did that I totally regret?

03:25:45.580 You're excluded from my dating pool.

03:25:48.300 That's not, like, what they're asking you is, like, what they ask me.

03:25:53.180 How much do you want your desired man to make a year? 0.87

03:25:57.580 I really don't care about a dollar a year.

03:25:59.480 So, are you saying, like, that...

03:26:00.700 Well, I'm not sure if I totally agree with you, but Kelly, did you want to say something?

03:26:05.180 If you have a startup business that's losing money, I could be interested.

03:26:08.660 Well, I'm just saying, but you're saying that you don't care what amount of money that your man makes.

03:26:13.340 Do you want kids?

03:26:14.480 I do.

03:26:15.040 So, if you want kids, your man, your husband's going to have to support you and your kids.

03:26:20.700 So, your man's going to have to make a certain amount of money to support you guys.

03:26:24.180 I would agree with that in most cases.

03:26:26.060 Can I just say, though, that I don't think it should matter initially right when you meet the man.

03:26:31.160 For me, for instance, I believe that if he isn't where I would want him to be,

03:26:35.580 I will do everything I can as a woman to support him to get to that place.

03:26:39.840 I'll make sure that he will achieve whatever he wants to achieve.

03:26:43.620 I think that's a part of a good, healthy relationship, too.

03:26:48.100 Not just expecting him to have it right when you meet him.

03:26:50.960 I love that answer.

03:26:51.920 That's a W. 0.50

03:26:52.660 I love that answer.

03:26:53.540 It's beautiful.

03:26:54.600 You're beautiful.

03:26:56.380 That's what Brian's thinking.

03:26:58.040 Okay.

03:26:58.640 I just have a couple more questions for you.

03:27:00.880 So, because, I mean, and it certainly could be the case that you don't really care so much about that. 0.94

03:27:06.400 And you make some, you do raise some good arguments as far as, hey, you could be college educated and be dumb as bricks, 0.97

03:27:12.680 and it's an indoctrination factory, all this stuff, right? 0.93

03:27:15.020 But I do think that there is, they've done studies on this, and generally speaking, I think women, for example, 0.75

03:27:21.000 who have bachelor's degrees or who have higher-level graduate degrees, for example, master's and PhDs,

03:27:27.080 they've surveyed them, and they typically want to date men educationally who are on their level or higher.

03:27:34.260 So if she has a bachelor, she wants to date a guy who's at least as educated as she is.

03:27:40.200 But that survey is done by a bunch of people in the education, like, who are receiving education.

03:27:45.020 People in the education who are indoctrinated by the education.

03:27:47.880 Like, college is very indoctrinating in itself.

03:27:50.540 Sure.

03:27:50.800 And then there's a lot of the, wow, you graduated college, you're a special person while you're in college.

03:27:56.480 So then you get some of that, like, egoness.

03:27:59.500 I don't, I just feel like, I don't care about a poll of people's opinions.

03:28:03.560 Oh, I want someone who's more educated than me.

03:28:06.180 Sure.

03:28:06.840 But, okay, so that's fair.

03:28:08.060 But I think for a lot of women, they're going to, if they've gone to college, most of them want someone who's at least, 1.00

03:28:13.960 because there's these articles coming out, maybe some of you have seen it, a lot of women are saying, 1.00

03:28:18.820 I'm struggling to find men who are economically attractive.

03:28:25.700 Because women are starting to now, at least in, for example, major cities, 1.00

03:28:29.700 women who have never had children, never been married, who are single,

03:28:33.680 people between the ages of 18 and 30 are out earning their male counterparts in that same demographic group in major cities across the U.S.

03:28:40.980 So a lot of women now, they're, I mean, since 1980s, there's been more women in college than men. 1.00

03:28:45.900 So for pretty much, and now women who graduate in 1980, they're now in their 60s, they're retirement age. 1.00

03:28:51.600 So we've had equality in terms of college education since 1980.

03:28:56.180 There's actually more women in college nowadays. 1.00

03:28:57.960 Yeah, it's like 60 to 40, I've heard as high as 65 to 35.

03:29:02.980 So there's more women going to college. 1.00

03:29:06.180 So they're going into, they're making more money.

03:29:08.400 I think a lot of positive outcomes are disproportionately to the benefit of women in these cases. 0.68

03:29:13.880 But so in any case, you mentioned, though, that you, well, let me touch on the physical thing first.

03:29:18.980 So I have a couple of photos here.

03:29:20.680 Please tell me if this is what you're, and you can look into the camera for this.

03:29:24.100 So I'm going to raise up, oh, wait, Eric, put it over, yeah, we're going to raise it up here.

03:29:29.480 Is this, would you say, this is Greg Plitt helping you stay fit?

03:29:34.160 Yo, RIPs in the chat for Greg Plitt, RIPs.

03:29:37.400 Did he ride?

03:29:38.600 Yeah.

03:29:39.400 Oh, that's so sad.

03:29:40.280 Yeah, it's very sad.

03:29:41.020 There was a terrible train accident.

03:29:43.220 Like, legit, actually a terrible train accident.

03:29:45.600 This is related to our Patrice.

03:29:46.660 He obviously didn't die from being unhealthy, so.

03:29:49.960 You can bring him back.

03:29:50.760 So, Greg Plitt, would you, is this the type of guy you're going up to?

03:29:55.200 You said you'd want a strong, muscular guy.

03:29:57.340 I mean.

03:29:58.380 Is this what we're talking about?

03:29:59.000 That is an attractive man, yes.

03:30:02.160 Eric.

03:30:02.920 Yeah.

03:30:03.880 Yeah.

03:30:04.220 So is that like.

03:30:05.920 Is that the only man?

03:30:07.180 Is that, like, that's peak.

03:30:08.800 Am I going to, am I saying I'm only going to settle for just that?

03:30:12.340 No.

03:30:12.660 But, yeah, if he was interested in me, I would consider going on a date with him very quickly.

03:30:19.960 Oh, you'd consider?

03:30:20.800 I'd probably.

03:30:21.820 I would very quickly accept the hour.

03:30:25.140 You know what?

03:30:25.600 I have another photo here for you.

03:30:27.320 Eric, could you swap it?

03:30:29.260 Actually, here, I'll hold it up here first, and then I'll do it.

03:30:31.460 Okay.

03:30:31.760 Put it.

03:30:32.140 Other one.

03:30:32.740 Other one.

03:30:33.580 Eric, take control, man.

03:30:35.620 All right.

03:30:36.640 No.

03:30:36.860 What do you.

03:30:37.240 No.

03:30:37.560 Over.

03:30:39.080 Okay.

03:30:39.680 What about this guy?

03:30:40.300 Oh, my God.

03:30:43.580 Sylvester Stallone?

03:30:44.820 Is that his name?

03:30:45.160 Oh, my God.

03:30:46.160 Oh, that's right.

03:30:47.080 Are you Myron?

03:30:48.180 Are you Myron his aesthetics?

03:30:50.980 He's attractive.

03:30:52.560 Yes.

03:30:53.280 Are you Myron his aesthetics?

03:30:55.120 I think he's an attractive man.

03:30:56.560 No, no, no.

03:30:56.960 I'm asking, are you Myron his aesthetics?

03:30:59.760 Yeah.

03:31:00.240 Yeah.

03:31:00.620 I want you to say you're Myron.

03:31:02.140 I'm Myron.

03:31:02.800 You're Myron.

03:31:03.380 I am Myron.

03:31:03.820 Myron.

03:31:04.400 Okay.

03:31:04.660 I am Myron.

03:31:05.620 Everyone's in here.

03:31:06.820 All right.

03:31:07.160 Ziz for you.

03:31:08.600 Okay.

03:31:09.080 That's Ziz. 0.98

03:31:10.200 Okay.

03:31:10.500 All right.

03:31:11.260 So that.

03:31:11.700 That's the type of dude you're going after?

03:31:14.780 I'm not saying.

03:31:15.860 I mean, obviously, that would be my peak.

03:31:17.720 I'm sure, like, if you saw a beautiful woman that was out of your league, you might shoot 1.00

03:31:22.320 your shot, right?

03:31:23.920 If someone that is out of my league wanted to date me, I absolutely would not say no.

03:31:30.120 But are you holding out?

03:31:32.140 No.

03:31:32.540 For?

03:31:33.160 No, absolutely not.

03:31:33.880 But, I mean, you're 29 and you've never had a long-term relationship.

03:31:37.460 Yeah.

03:31:37.640 You've never had a boyfriend or a girl.

03:31:38.860 It's not so much holding out.

03:31:40.180 Like, I'll meet people and I'll try to get to know them and I just don't, like, connect

03:31:44.700 with people.

03:31:46.020 Can I ask you a question?

03:31:47.080 Yeah.

03:31:47.940 Do you feel like you're in competition with other women? 0.86

03:31:50.240 I try really hard when I notice someone that I think is, like, objectively prettier than

03:31:59.480 me to, like, internalize, oh, I might be experiencing jealousy right now.

03:32:03.660 I should definitely try extra hard to be nice to that person.

03:32:07.620 So, whenever I feel jealousy, like, the first thing I do is try to recognize that I'm feeling

03:32:14.120 jealous and then go out of my way to be nice to that person because usually the prettier 1.00

03:32:18.860 the girl is, the meaner other women are to her. 1.00

03:32:22.420 So, I try to be really, I don't know, my competition with them.

03:32:27.360 Yeah, like, I'm not going to, like, you know, I'm probably not going to get that guy if,

03:32:34.240 you know, if Giselle and I are walking down the street, Giselle's going to get that guy 1.00

03:32:37.660 and that's okay.

03:32:38.560 That's fine.

03:32:39.360 Like, that's okay.

03:32:42.040 I'm not, I'm okay not being the top prettiest chick on this panel.

03:32:47.060 Like, I'm okay.

03:32:47.520 So, then, I just, that, I just, the way that you feel about that doesn't line up with your

03:32:54.000 standards, I feel like.

03:32:55.000 Because, like, you have, you have expectations of, like, a man, but then it's, like.

03:32:59.800 It's not that I'm, it's not that I'm holding out.

03:33:02.380 Mech 88 donated $100.

03:33:04.080 Thank you, man, appreciate it.

03:33:05.320 Good show, Brian.

03:33:06.900 Giselle loose the tattoos and lips find a ring that fits.

03:33:10.500 I'm making low six figures.

03:33:12.760 Rate myself as a five, but trying to improve.

03:33:16.100 Make low six figures.

03:33:18.060 Ladies, what is the first thing you notice about a guy?

03:33:21.080 Body, facial hair, teeth, et cetera?

03:33:26.960 We'll go around the table really quick.

03:33:28.300 First thing you notice is a guy, and then you guys continue your little back and forth.

03:33:30.900 Go ahead.

03:33:31.240 Just physical?

03:33:33.000 Yeah.

03:33:34.600 How about both?

03:33:35.320 Okay, well, I notice, like, how he physically takes care of himself, whether that's, like,

03:33:42.240 if he does his hair, or if I can tell he takes care of, like, maybe his skin or his fashion.

03:33:48.080 And then personality-based, I know, I observe his actions, the way he treats me or other

03:33:54.440 women, like, open the door, like, chivalry type of things. 1.00

03:33:57.460 That's what I notice.

03:33:59.040 Okay.

03:33:59.680 All right.

03:34:01.400 I would just do, like, I don't know, like, facial.

03:34:04.780 I like facial hair or, like, I guess how they dress.

03:34:11.140 But that's the first things I notice.

03:34:13.540 If you see that they, like, visibly take care of themselves, and also teeth, I really like

03:34:24.020 straight teeth.

03:34:24.660 Like, if I see somebody with straight teeth, that's super attractive.

03:34:30.980 I like a nice face.

03:34:33.400 Like, like I said, I don't mind a man who's a little bit bigger, but if he got a nice face,

03:34:38.560 then.

03:34:38.800 You like a bigger man who's, like, seven feet?

03:34:41.680 Honestly, I think I do relate, yeah.

03:34:43.200 NBA player, by the way.

03:34:44.680 Okay.

03:34:47.020 I think I look for hair, the hair first.

03:34:49.980 I look for the hair, and then, like, the way they dress.

03:34:54.940 What I look for, what I notice, I forgot the question.

03:34:58.920 What you notice first.

03:35:00.020 Oh, gotcha.

03:35:01.420 Then it's, like, the beefiness of their shoulders and breasts.

03:35:09.460 I agree.

03:35:10.120 I think, like, overall body, like, how tall he is, and also if he's taking care of his

03:35:16.260 skin and teeth.

03:35:17.400 I mean, it's important.

03:35:19.400 Yeah.

03:35:19.800 First thing is body.

03:35:21.160 Second thing is teeth. 1.00

03:35:25.200 Word.

03:35:25.660 Thank you for the super chat.

03:35:26.300 By the way, Spencer came in here really quick, so I'm going to address it.

03:35:28.880 Sorry, Spencer, that we're, the little delay on getting to this.

03:35:32.140 At Spencer Parker on Instagram.

03:35:33.340 Eric, did you pull this up?

03:35:34.160 I'm 6'3".

03:35:34.720 I'm probably a 6 out of 10.

03:35:36.680 Well, Spencer, wait.

03:35:37.940 Actually, before we pull it up, is it okay if we, I mean, he included it, so I'm assuming

03:35:42.680 he's okay if we react to it.

03:35:45.120 I spend more time working than working out.

03:35:47.900 Spencer, confirm or deny?

03:35:49.340 Is it cool if we pull up, you cool if we pull up your Instagram?

03:35:53.500 Let us know.

03:35:54.040 I don't, I mean, I'm assuming it's okay because you included it in the soup chat.

03:35:57.580 What do you guys think?

03:35:58.140 You think it's okay?

03:35:58.960 Yeah.

03:35:59.320 Why would he say it if he doesn't want it to show it up?

03:36:01.700 I don't know.

03:36:02.300 Chat?

03:36:03.480 I just don't, I mean, I don't know if he wants us to.

03:36:05.500 Doxing?

03:36:05.760 No doxing?

03:36:08.120 Chat, is it okay if we pull it up, you think?

03:36:09.900 Or, I don't know, I want it.

03:36:10.860 I believe since he announced it through a donation, it would be okay.

03:36:14.520 I just want to be considerate of Spencer Parker.

03:36:16.780 He said yes.

03:36:17.600 People in chat.

03:36:18.100 All right, let's do it.

03:36:19.880 Eric, do you have it pulled up?

03:36:21.460 Scroll up.

03:36:23.660 Spencer Park, San Diego, home test box, 007, fast land.

03:36:29.700 Okay.

03:36:30.460 Roofing solar investor.

03:36:32.380 Is that a rolls, wait, what is that?

03:36:37.000 Okay, I didn't see the.

03:36:38.720 A what?

03:36:39.300 A DB11. 0.98

03:36:40.140 Oh, wow, she knows her.

03:36:41.300 I mean, it's written there, but I also know.

03:36:43.060 Oh, okay, she knows.

03:36:44.460 Let's see that photo of him with the palm trees.

03:36:46.880 Click on it.

03:36:48.100 You're going to have to go to video.

03:36:51.400 Wait, no, actually, I don't know how to see that.

03:36:53.520 I can't, we can't.

03:36:55.220 Here, in the sources, just hide us for a sec.

03:36:59.480 The eyeball.

03:37:01.580 Nope, nope.

03:37:02.720 GH5.

03:37:04.800 It's the GH5.

03:37:05.880 It's the GH5.

03:37:06.520 Okay, all right, a bit of a, is that a dad bod kind of?

03:37:14.680 It's a tortoise, y'all.

03:37:15.660 Can you swipe?

03:37:16.480 Yeah.

03:37:17.360 Here, go down.

03:37:19.260 Oh, there's more?

03:37:19.940 Okay.

03:37:20.140 Yeah. 0.75

03:37:20.360 Those are some cocks. 1.00

03:37:23.340 Okay. 0.88

03:37:23.660 Those are some cocks. 1.00

03:37:25.240 All right, just here, get out of that. 0.93

03:37:27.120 Get out of it.

03:37:27.860 No, just out, out, out, X.

03:37:30.060 No, no, no, no, no.

03:37:30.660 Go back, go back.

03:37:31.600 We want to see the rest of his Instagram.

03:37:33.780 Okay, we have cars.

03:37:36.320 That's you passed out, I guess.

03:37:38.800 That's you in, there's a, is that a sex in the city? 0.84

03:37:44.640 What are you drinking, dude? 0.55

03:37:45.920 What's up with all the fruit?

03:37:46.920 Okay, scroll down.

03:37:48.280 Is this you in the, oh my God, look at this man.

03:37:52.220 Look at that suit.

03:37:53.160 He's like a main character in an anime.

03:37:57.240 They look like different people.

03:37:58.160 Yeah, I know.

03:37:58.940 I'm confused on who's.

03:38:00.760 Click that one.

03:38:03.620 Yeah.

03:38:04.220 Because who is that?

03:38:06.200 Oh, 2014.

03:38:07.820 Younger version.

03:38:08.420 2014, okay.

03:38:09.900 And then click on the left one.

03:38:14.900 Bro, what?

03:38:15.920 Hello?

03:38:16.880 What happened in, oh, it is an eight year difference.

03:38:21.140 Okay.

03:38:22.260 I think you should bring back the emo hair, bro.

03:38:24.600 I think it's a good look.

03:38:26.260 Absolutely not.

03:38:27.260 Just, no?

03:38:28.760 You don't think so, Kelly?

03:38:30.860 You're a fashion consultant or what is it?

03:38:33.900 Stylist?

03:38:34.460 No.

03:38:35.060 Not a good look?

03:38:36.020 Yo, don't listen to her. 1.00

03:38:37.820 She works at Nordstrom's like, bro, don't.

03:38:41.360 I'm telling you, bro, it's a good look.

03:38:42.680 Bring it back.

03:38:43.680 See, look, they're all hyping them up.

03:38:47.040 I actually think he looks better or older.

03:38:49.320 Yeah.

03:38:50.320 Don't listen to them.

03:38:51.460 Rock that.

03:38:51.980 Oh, wow.

03:38:52.160 Rock that maroon, button down with the shoulder pads and the, is that a gray suit?

03:39:00.120 Just keep rocking it, bro.

03:39:01.620 This is like a Onizuka, great teacher Onizuka costume.

03:39:05.420 Okay.

03:39:05.900 Appreciate it, man.

03:39:06.860 So, ladies, Spencer Park, 800K a year. 1.00

03:39:11.640 Fucking giga, Chad. 1.00

03:39:12.700 Do you go for him? 1.00

03:39:16.460 No.

03:39:17.660 No?

03:39:18.980 How did, did he say his age?

03:39:21.140 Hello?

03:39:23.120 What, would you go for him, Giselle?

03:39:25.360 Is that actually, is that your name?

03:39:27.120 Giselle's my real name.

03:39:28.500 Angelica's my online name.

03:39:29.920 Oh, okay, got it.

03:39:30.720 Okay.

03:39:31.200 Did you go for him?

03:39:32.100 I don't know anything about his personality, so I can't say.

03:39:35.320 Makes 800K.

03:39:37.040 He's, I need more than that.

03:39:40.440 Okay, fair enough.

03:39:41.120 What about you?

03:39:42.920 He could be nice, but.

03:39:45.000 Not your type?

03:39:45.560 I also don't know, not even that, it's like you can't, I'm not going to sit here and say

03:39:49.940 I'd be down if I don't, if I've never met him.

03:39:52.780 Just based off of the Instagram and that he's a giga, Chad making 800K a year, that puts

03:39:58.960 him in like the top.

03:39:59.640 Oh, that doesn't even matter.

03:40:01.120 Top, top 1%.

03:40:01.740 What about you?

03:40:04.200 Just based off his Instagram, no.

03:40:07.720 I'm sorry, Spencer.

03:40:09.220 I'm sorry.

03:40:10.560 Go ahead.

03:40:11.440 Kelly.

03:40:11.880 It's just because Asian guys remind me of my brother.

03:40:16.120 What the?

03:40:17.020 And that's why.

03:40:18.520 What?

03:40:20.020 Asian guys remind you of your brother?

03:40:24.520 Yeah.

03:40:25.500 You don't date Asian guys?

03:40:27.740 I've never, no.

03:40:29.120 Really?

03:40:29.400 Mm-mm.

03:40:30.600 Oh, interesting.

03:40:31.980 Yeah.

03:40:32.960 Interesting.

03:40:33.680 Why don't you like Asian guys? 1.00

03:40:40.900 Are you a race traitor? 1.00

03:40:43.620 A race traitor? 1.00

03:40:43.960 Are you a race traitor? 0.99

03:40:45.740 No. 1.00

03:40:46.500 You wouldn't even date a Vietnamese guy? 1.00

03:40:49.080 No, not really.

03:40:50.160 I actually, like, I just, I don't know.

03:40:52.360 They just come off, like, I get so close, like, they're just my friends.

03:40:55.820 Like, they give me, like, my brother, like, they remind me so much, like, the way that

03:41:00.120 they, like, they carry themselves.

03:41:01.700 They remind me so much of my brother that it's like.

03:41:04.620 Sorry.

03:41:05.020 Go ahead.

03:41:05.320 Continue.

03:41:05.580 That I have, like, that I have, like, a brotherly relationship with most Asian men that I meet.

03:41:11.800 Wait, can you scoot your chair into the table so we can get you a little better posture?

03:41:16.860 And can everyone push their cups into the table just a little bit?

03:41:19.840 Thank you, thank you, thank you.

03:41:20.540 So, it reminds you of your brother.

03:41:22.580 Yeah.

03:41:23.240 Like, most of the, like, I don't know too many Asian guys because I didn't grow up in, like,

03:41:28.460 an area where there's a lot of Asians.

03:41:31.100 Where did you grow up?

03:41:32.440 In, like, Calabasas, Woodland Hills.

03:41:34.360 Okay.

03:41:35.120 Okay.

03:41:35.720 Yeah, so not too many Asians, but, yeah, like, they, they, they, like, every single Asian

03:41:42.480 guy that I have, I have met and, like, I have, like, some kind of, like, friendship

03:41:45.580 with, just, they just remind me of my brother.

03:41:49.260 And I, I, I can't, I don't know, I can't describe it.

03:41:54.720 They remind you of your brother.

03:41:56.820 Yeah, like, they have the same personality traits as, like, my brother.

03:42:00.480 Oh, that's a bit, that's a bit, you know.

03:42:02.360 I don't know.

03:42:02.840 Are you saying all Asian men are the same?

03:42:04.640 No, no, no, I'm not saying that, just the ones that I've, that I've met.

03:42:07.560 The ones that I've met.

03:42:08.720 All remind you of how your brother acts?

03:42:11.200 Most, yes, the ones that I have met, yes.

03:42:13.400 Or, like, one of my cousins or something.

03:42:15.100 I don't know, it's just, like, I don't know.

03:42:17.700 What about, like, a nice Filipino boy?

03:42:20.400 There's a lot of nice Filipino boys.

03:42:21.660 Men, excuse me. 0.85

03:42:22.700 Men.

03:42:23.140 Well, you know what I mean.

03:42:24.240 Yeah, there's a, I've met, like, I've met a lot of them, yeah.

03:42:27.060 I just.

03:42:27.840 Laos?

03:42:28.560 What about a Laos, a guy from Laos?

03:42:30.540 Maybe, like, American-born, but Laos. 0.98

03:42:32.200 Never, no, not, not from Laos.

03:42:33.900 Cambodian? 0.93

03:42:34.520 Do you, no Cambodians? 0.98

03:42:36.380 No.

03:42:37.100 Most.

03:42:37.340 Definitely, it sounds, like, not Vietnamese because your brother's Vietnamese, so that's, like, 1.00

03:42:40.900 yeah, Vietnamese, like, I don't know, it's just, like, we, we're two alike.

03:42:44.880 Too alike.

03:42:45.520 You know, like, I'm, I can, I can relate to you so much that I can't learn anything from

03:42:51.300 you, so it's, like.

03:42:53.740 Mongolian? 0.93

03:42:55.680 No.

03:42:56.640 Korean? 0.91

03:42:57.760 Japanese?

03:42:58.700 Chinese?

03:42:59.380 I'm Chinese, too, so I'm Chinese.

03:43:01.060 You're part Chinese, part Vietnamese.

03:43:02.560 Okay, what about, um, I'm running out of Asian countries.

03:43:08.020 Japan, China.

03:43:09.880 Thai?

03:43:11.220 Uh, I've met, I only know one Thai.

03:43:13.440 Indonesian?

03:43:14.980 Mm-mm.

03:43:15.420 How about, like, Filipino?

03:43:16.520 Already said that.

03:43:17.060 Yeah, I've met Filipino guys, but just. 0.99

03:43:19.520 By the way, how's my.

03:43:22.860 Geography?

03:43:23.380 How's my geography, guys?

03:43:24.480 It's pretty, okay.

03:43:26.900 What am I, uh, where was the.

03:43:30.360 We were talking about if you would date that guy on Instagram, and then we were going around.

03:43:35.500 I'm missing, like, at least one or two of the Southeast Asian countries.

03:43:40.820 Mm, Korea?

03:43:42.300 I hit Korea, hit Laos, hit Cambodia. 0.96

03:43:46.080 But Korea's not Southeast Asian. 0.53

03:43:47.720 Yeah, Korea's not Southeast Asian. 0.76

03:43:48.480 No, no, no, it said Taiwan.

03:43:50.400 Oh, I missed Taiwan, thank you.

03:43:51.620 Thailand and Taiwan.

03:43:53.480 I said, I said Thailand.

03:43:55.440 You got Laos, you got Cambodia. 0.57

03:43:57.220 I got Cambodia.

03:43:57.980 I got China.

03:43:58.540 Yeah, and Vietnam, Southeast Asian.

03:44:00.540 Yeah, and Vietnam.

03:44:00.960 Malaysia.

03:44:01.840 Malaysia, thank you.

03:44:03.180 Yeah.

03:44:03.460 Malaysian guy.

03:44:06.660 What about the North Korean guy?

03:44:09.060 What do you do?

03:44:09.660 I've never met a North Korean guy, actually.

03:44:11.320 So maybe you're open, maybe he's outstanding.

03:44:12.780 I don't know.

03:44:13.100 I'm like, I'm just, just based off, like, who I've met, because, like I've said, like,

03:44:17.420 I've, I grew up some, I don't meet that many people.

03:44:21.600 You know, like, my high school is, like, most mainly, like, white people, and, like, so

03:44:25.460 they, I didn't, like, experience.

03:44:27.980 Burma? 0.81

03:44:29.780 No, never met anybody.

03:44:32.340 So are you just not attracted to Asian men?

03:44:35.320 Yeah, I would say that too.

03:44:37.180 And then like I said, it's just the thing,

03:44:38.820 we're just so alike.

03:44:40.320 I like learning from my man.

03:44:42.820 I like learning about different culture too.

03:44:45.640 And I like just experiencing new things.

03:44:47.920 But it's like with somebody,

03:44:49.980 if I was dating a Vietnamese guy,

03:44:51.280 we relate so much.

03:44:53.540 Do you speak Vietnamese?

03:44:54.960 I understand it, but I don't speak it.

03:44:56.660 Okay.

03:44:57.740 Wait, so you would relate too much to them?

03:45:02.720 And that's...

03:45:04.580 I know it sounds weird.

03:45:06.060 It's just like I can't learn from you.

03:45:10.340 Or you can't really teach me new things about culture.

03:45:15.060 Is that really a primary thing you care about though?

03:45:19.060 Learning from my boyfriend?

03:45:23.080 Yeah, I care about that a lot.

03:45:24.220 I like learning from...

03:45:25.400 About their culture?

03:45:26.980 Of course.

03:45:27.620 Yeah, I love...

03:45:28.520 Yes.

03:45:28.820 Is that...

03:45:29.240 That's a primary like thing you care about?

03:45:31.680 That's a really big...

03:45:32.640 Yeah, it is a big thing that I care about.

03:45:34.960 About...

03:45:35.520 I care about he...

03:45:36.400 If he cares about my culture

03:45:37.640 and he wants to learn more about my culture 0.98

03:45:39.320 and my boyfriend right now, he's black.

03:45:41.260 And he goes to extremes to try to teach me more about black culture.

03:45:46.580 And he tries to help me understand it better so that I have a better understanding of him.

03:45:51.520 I don't think I've ever heard a girl say that one of the primary things they care about is learning.

03:45:59.620 I mean, hey, if that's your thing, cool.

03:46:01.720 But learning about a potential partner's culture.

03:46:05.800 Cool?

03:46:06.820 I mean, like, why wouldn't you want to learn about how they grew up and like how...

03:46:09.980 what their family traditions are like and how they...

03:46:13.980 They want to...

03:46:15.540 Like, I want to teach my kids about Vietnamese traditions.

03:46:18.780 Sure.

03:46:19.080 You know?

03:46:19.540 What did you learn about black culture that you didn't know before?

03:46:22.900 How deep it is and how much deeper...

03:46:24.780 I honestly, like, before even dating my boyfriend now, I'm not going to lie,

03:46:29.040 I was probably...

03:46:29.600 I was definitely ignorant about some topics.

03:46:32.520 And then he made me...

03:46:34.240 Let's get rid of this.

03:46:35.260 Go ahead.

03:46:35.600 Sorry.

03:46:36.040 It's okay.

03:46:36.600 He made me open my eyes more about a lot of things that...

03:46:41.060 Nobody in here is black.

03:46:43.060 But, like, I don't think anybody in this room would really understand. 0.93

03:46:46.220 Are you black?

03:46:47.040 My mom's Asian. 0.97

03:46:48.020 Yeah, your mom's Asian. 1.00

03:46:48.800 But, like, there's a lot of things that go into black culture that somebody who isn't black is not going to understand unless it's taught to them.

03:46:57.760 And unless...

03:46:59.000 I don't know if it's, like, really been taught like that, if you've really learned about it like that.

03:47:03.520 But, like, when it's coming from somebody who is so passionate about it and is so passionate about you learning about it,

03:47:10.180 you have a deeper understanding.

03:47:12.360 You form a deeper understanding of it, which is why it means so much to me.

03:47:16.900 Okay.

03:47:17.140 Fun fact, my boyfriend is Vietnamese.

03:47:20.480 Oh, really?

03:47:20.920 Yeah.

03:47:21.500 And I love learning about his culture.

03:47:23.660 Yeah.

03:47:23.780 It's a very important thing.

03:47:24.900 And there's something beautiful about, like, exchanging cultures.

03:47:27.820 Of course.

03:47:28.160 Yeah.

03:47:28.600 I agree.

03:47:29.160 Yeah.

03:47:30.740 Was your boyfriend into BLM?

03:47:33.920 Just out of curiosity. 1.00

03:47:34.880 Oh, fucking... 1.00

03:47:35.520 Dater. 1.00

03:47:36.820 Sorry, I'm just curious.

03:47:37.820 No, he's very, like, he's very, very...

03:47:40.180 He does...

03:47:40.660 He's done rallies.

03:47:41.480 He's led rallies before.

03:47:42.460 He's led protests.

03:47:43.380 Like, he's very, like, passionate about his culture, which is...

03:47:47.380 Which was why I would say it's unfair of me to disregard it and not want to learn about it more.

03:47:52.500 Because if he cares about it so much, why should I make him feel like I don't care about it?

03:47:57.580 Well, I mean, I think it's great that you want to learn about his culture.

03:48:03.620 I just...

03:48:04.300 In terms of an attraction trigger, I've never heard someone say, learning about, like, it would...

03:48:11.580 I would not be attracted to someone if I could not learn from their culture.

03:48:19.040 And if that's the case for you, hey, that's totally fine.

03:48:22.300 Mm-hmm.

03:48:22.540 But, yeah, I don't know.

03:48:25.360 I don't know, it's not just, like, just the culture thing.

03:48:28.520 It's just a learning, like, learning period.

03:48:30.760 Like, I like to learn from, like, anything, like, that he can teach me, you know?

03:48:36.080 Like, if we have the same experiences, if we're on this, like, you know, if we've done the same thing our whole lives, if we're not...

03:48:41.560 If we're...

03:48:42.440 You know how people say, like, opposites attract?

03:48:44.200 Like, if we're, like, the same, then I'm not really learning from you that much, like...

03:48:49.860 I think... 0.99

03:48:50.660 Well, I think opposites attract is kind of bullshit. 0.99

03:48:53.040 No offense. 0.99

03:48:53.560 I just, I don't believe...

03:48:55.940 I think I actually have...

03:48:56.840 No, I was just saying that in general, like, you know how, like, people will say that, like, that's...

03:49:00.620 I'm not saying that's exactly how I feel, like, it's...

03:49:03.160 Sure, sure.

03:49:03.720 Let's move on from that.

03:49:04.900 There's an interesting comment on the screen.

03:49:07.060 Did you see it by any chance?

03:49:09.040 Which one?

03:49:09.680 What about an Asian guy who was raised by white parents?

03:49:14.240 Oh, yeah.

03:49:14.740 That's interesting.

03:49:16.740 I'm...

03:49:17.300 Same thing.

03:49:18.040 Like, I've never, like, talked to a guy, like, an Asian guy who was raised by white parents, so I wouldn't know.

03:49:23.740 And I just wanted to ask something about your culture also.

03:49:25.540 What do you think about all the American men traveling to Asian countries to find wives?

03:49:30.660 I mean, what do you think about women in those cultures and how they treat their men? 0.99

03:49:34.440 I think the reason why they're leaving this country to go to different countries to find wives is because of that. 0.68

03:49:39.920 Spencer Park donated $100.

03:49:41.420 Thank you, man.

03:49:41.780 Appreciate it.

03:49:43.220 Rate my girl at Michaela.noel.

03:49:45.860 She gives permission to post Instagram.

03:49:48.540 We are watching this together.

03:49:50.500 ImkureanBTW.

03:49:52.400 I also don't hate on the Asian girl. 0.77

03:49:55.060 I am not attracted to Asia, neither.

03:49:58.100 For her.

03:49:59.120 Eric, you can go ahead and pull that up.

03:50:01.420 Rate my girl Michaela.noel.

03:50:04.760 Is there a dot also at the end, or is that just a period?

03:50:09.920 Do you think that those women treat their men a certain way because they want to, or because they're forced to? 0.98

03:50:19.900 What do you think about that?

03:50:21.080 Not that they're forced to, but it's just the culture.

03:50:23.760 The culture is different.

03:50:24.720 The culture is different in Vietnam than it is here. 0.88

03:50:29.440 Women in other cultures are taught to be submissive to their man. 1.00

03:50:35.460 They're not supposed to be, they're not taught to be the man of the relationship.

03:50:41.020 They're not supposed to be masculine.

03:50:42.260 They're not supposed to be dominant.

03:50:43.360 They're taught to be nurturing, like actual feminine traits. 1.00

03:50:47.080 Like we're taught, that's how we're, that's how we're taught to be wives. 1.00

03:50:50.760 We're not here to cause issues for our husband.

03:50:54.300 We're not here to cause, we're not trying to nag them all the time. 0.98

03:50:57.120 We're not trying to be on their ass all the time about stuff. 0.86

03:50:58.900 Like we just, all we wanted to do is bring peace to them. 0.97

03:51:01.540 And that's how, I don't, in my culture, that's all, that's, that's how I was taught to grow up.

03:51:06.440 That's. 0.97

03:51:07.320 Do you, do you think those women are ignorant slaves or are they happy? 0.99

03:51:11.860 No, they're not. 1.00

03:51:12.660 It's a choice.

03:51:13.560 You know, obviously like women, you know, you don't have to, you don't have to do that, but that's just culture. 1.00

03:51:18.440 Culturally, that's how we are brought up.

03:51:20.480 Why do you, why do you think that a lot of American women can't learn from those women and say, okay. 1.00

03:51:25.400 I can't answer that for you because I have no idea why.

03:51:28.100 I think they're just more open.

03:51:29.840 Here, let's, let's react to, oh, go ahead.

03:51:32.220 Go ahead.

03:51:32.880 Oh, let's react to Spencer's girlfriend, Michaela Noel.

03:51:38.160 Okay.

03:51:39.080 Very pretty.

03:51:41.120 Cool.

03:51:42.140 Yep.

03:51:42.940 Why is he in none of the pictures though, if it's his girlfriend?

03:51:45.900 How long have you guys been dating, confirm or deny?

03:51:51.280 Hello.

03:51:52.440 Okay.

03:51:53.160 Yep.

03:51:55.400 Cool.

03:51:57.780 All right.

03:51:59.060 There, what, what, you want us to rate her?

03:52:01.200 Was that, was that, what was the original question?

03:52:03.060 Eric, do you remember?

03:52:05.140 I think it was, yeah.

03:52:07.980 Rate my girl.

03:52:10.960 I don't know.

03:52:11.620 I'd have to see her in person, you know, so maybe you guys can be on the show.

03:52:14.680 I don't know.

03:52:15.160 But if you guys want to rate her, that's fine.

03:52:17.780 Let's do some super chats here.

03:52:19.640 All right.

03:52:19.880 We have to, we definitely have to get caught up on super chats.

03:52:22.100 Sorry that we're finally getting to these guys.

03:52:23.700 I know it's taken a really long time.

03:52:26.600 Yeah.

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03:52:28.040 Thanks for the reminder.

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03:53:31.880 All right, let's do these super chats.

03:53:32.880 But, again, sorry guys that we're finally getting to these.

03:53:36.960 I know these came in a while ago.

03:53:38.940 My bad, guys.

03:53:39.940 I do try.

03:53:41.760 We're pretty consistent, though.

03:53:43.140 Like, we do get pretty much every super chat that's above the threshold.

03:53:48.140 Did we do this one?

03:53:49.580 Did we read this?

03:53:50.260 No, no.

03:53:51.780 Giselle, my voice is getting a little hoarse.

03:53:54.080 Can I have you read these super chats for me?

03:53:56.280 Okay.

03:53:57.440 Any woman who says content creating, uh... 1.00

03:54:00.800 I'm a captain, you lieutenant, donated $101.

03:54:06.020 One.

03:54:07.020 Kudos to Scrawny Hawk for asking the good questions.

03:54:10.920 Two.

03:54:11.640 Living your best life today, i.e. being a 304, lowers your chances of finding a high-quality

03:54:17.640 husband in the future, looking at you, NBA girl.

03:54:20.960 Three.

03:54:21.940 Spencer, your Aston is a GT car, not a super car.

03:54:28.700 Throwing out all the disses today.

03:54:31.020 Wow.

03:54:31.520 I'm a captain.

03:54:32.600 You a lieutenant.

03:54:33.460 Thank you so much, man, for the TTS.

03:54:35.260 Really appreciate it, man.

03:54:35.980 Thank you, thank you, thank you.

03:54:37.380 Really appreciate all the support, guys, tonight.

03:54:39.380 You guys are killing it.

03:54:40.480 Just a reminder, mid-chat, I know I mentioned at the beginning of the stream, if you're

03:54:44.200 going to super chat, YouTube takes a 30% cut, so if you can, you don't have to, it's

03:54:51.180 fine if you super chat, but I'm just throwing it out there.

03:54:53.160 If you want more of your patronage to actually go towards whatever and not in the pockets

03:54:57.060 of woke YouTube, head on over to Streamlabs.

03:55:00.800 More of your contribution will go towards us.

03:55:03.020 Either way, we're going to read everything, but just want to let you guys know that that's

03:55:06.000 an option, too, and it's 50 and up to read, whether it's on super chat or on Streamlabs

03:55:10.780 through a donation.

03:55:12.100 So, okay, we have this one here from, by the way, her, and thank you for that $50 super

03:55:16.240 chat.

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03:55:18.020 Go ahead, Giselle, if you want to read this.

03:55:19.880 Lawyer girl, women love to say she wants a man who is consistent and follows through, 1.00

03:55:25.560 but eventually, why do women call men boring and predictable? 0.77

03:55:31.320 No, I understand.

03:55:33.160 I think it's, that might be a problem with society and our hookup dating culture. 0.99

03:55:43.380 That being said, me personally, I don't find predictability boring.

03:55:48.540 I enjoy knowing where, person that, I enjoy knowing what's up with my relationship, if

03:55:56.620 I ever have one, which I haven't.

03:55:59.260 So.

03:56:01.260 Would you rather be in a drama-filled relationship for the excitement or a boring relationship

03:56:05.300 for the security?

03:56:05.960 Boring.

03:56:07.360 I have no desire to be in a drama-filled anything.

03:56:10.360 I, like, if, if I start dating, that's another reason, like, as soon as someone, like, I started

03:56:15.840 dating someone in law school, he was really great, really liked him, and then he just

03:56:19.520 always wanted to start drama with me over nonsense, so.

03:56:25.800 Not into it.

03:56:26.560 Word, okay.

03:56:28.360 Apparently, the panel is too disagreeable.

03:56:30.580 Maybe I can get you guys worked up.

03:56:32.460 Deal breaker if a guy doesn't go, won't go down on you.

03:56:37.000 Go ahead, Giselle.

03:56:38.140 No, I've dated someone who didn't want to.

03:56:40.720 That's okay.

03:56:45.260 What about you?

03:56:46.360 What was the question again?

03:56:47.400 Bro, I literally just asked it.

03:56:49.100 Okay.

03:56:49.240 I know.

03:56:49.740 Deal breaker if a guy doesn't want to go down on you.

03:56:54.440 Doesn't like to go down, in general, let's say.

03:56:57.380 No, because it's, like, if, like, they don't, like, like it either, like, that's cool.

03:57:04.800 That's less for me.

03:57:06.880 But he, what if he still wants head?

03:57:09.140 Then no, you're not getting head if you're not giving it.

03:57:12.940 Giselle, your thoughts on that?

03:57:15.700 I would still give it.

03:57:19.660 Of course you would say that.

03:57:21.840 What about you?

03:57:22.320 What about you?

03:57:24.660 I don't know.

03:57:25.280 It's kind of, like, for a why.

03:57:26.740 Like, if it's, like.

03:57:28.600 He just doesn't like it.

03:57:29.540 Oh, that, related to this. 0.99

03:57:31.760 There was a news article that came out that apparently oral sex is, and this is my, I heard this from, who was it? 0.98

03:57:40.660 Who's that guy, that famous actor, the dad of Charlie Sheen, I think? 0.98

03:57:45.100 Do you know who I'm talking about?

03:57:46.760 Something Sheen? 1.00

03:57:47.520 In any case, he had throat cancer, and he thinks it's from eating pussy. 1.00

03:57:55.440 That's what he thinks. 1.00

03:57:56.240 He thinks he got throat cancer because he was eating too much pussy. 1.00

03:57:59.360 But actually, it's, okay, I'm not a doctor, but if you have HPV, I think that it can cause something like that. 0.99

03:58:09.000 Yeah, it can.

03:58:09.940 Eric, do you want to find that recent news article, just something like throat cancer, oral sex, okay, which apparently impacts men more for some reason, okay. 0.97

03:58:24.100 Is it a deal breaker? 0.97

03:58:25.680 He found it.

03:58:27.380 Before, wait.

03:58:29.880 The conversation, that's not, I don't think that's a reputable website.

03:58:33.320 It's a reading factor.

03:58:34.260 Cancer, wow.

03:58:36.100 Wait, no, no, no, no, pull it back.

03:58:38.780 New York Post, that's slightly more reputable, maybe.

03:58:42.180 Scroll down.

03:58:43.240 Medical News Today, that, scroll down, let's see what else.

03:58:47.660 How can you... 0.99

03:58:48.140 Huh, Jerry Springer died of oral sex, what, huh? 1.00

03:58:52.660 What's that time? 0.99

03:58:54.120 Breakfast Club, okay, keep scrolling.

03:58:56.060 When you get cancer, can they tell you how you got it for certain? 0.97

03:58:58.420 Business Insider, oral sex is the leading risk factor for a throat cancer. 0.99

03:59:02.740 Oral sex is... 1.00

03:59:04.180 People Magazine, so it must be true. 0.85

03:59:07.360 But, guys, you in America usually get the vaccine, so I think you're...

03:59:12.120 Oh, my God, the chat is on fire.

03:59:15.980 ...donated $105.

03:59:18.600 Top of the morning, Brian, have some money for your inhumane patients.

03:59:23.720 Yo, Victor, thank you so much, man.

03:59:25.160 Really appreciate the very generous donation.

03:59:28.400 Thank you to everybody who's donating.

03:59:29.680 You guys are blowing me away tonight.

03:59:30.860 Thank you guys so much.

03:59:32.740 Uh...

03:59:33.300 You can't track cancer, though.

03:59:35.520 You can't what?

03:59:36.380 You can't determine how you got cancer.

03:59:38.380 Inhumane patients.

03:59:40.200 Is my patients inhumane?

03:59:42.420 I mean...

03:59:43.100 You decide.

03:59:44.220 You can't track how you got cancer?

03:59:46.740 What?

03:59:47.700 I was just trying to play a Game Boy earlier.

03:59:55.680 Inpatient.

03:59:56.120 Okay, so...

03:59:57.680 Okay, so...

03:59:58.680 I mean, if you have throat cancer, what is it?

04:00:07.220 Oroth...

04:00:07.800 What was it called?

04:00:08.680 Oroth...

04:00:09.240 Something, something.

04:00:10.520 Pharyngeal.

04:00:11.580 Anybody?

04:00:12.580 Is anybody reading that?

04:00:13.400 Okay, what... 0.99

04:00:13.760 Does it make a difference if it's men or women giving oral sex? 0.99

04:00:17.500 Is it, like, the type of cancer you're saying that you could then trace it to... 0.99

04:00:20.480 Closer to mine. 0.99

04:00:21.300 Okay, if it's the type of cancer, you could then trace it to the vagina? 1.00

04:00:24.720 Is that what I'm asking versus, like, whether it's tobacco versus... 0.94

04:00:28.540 Like, can you look at the type of throat cancer and determine, oh, that's a vagina throat cancer, 1.00

04:00:32.780 you know?

04:00:33.220 Well, I mean, you could determine...

04:00:34.820 I don't know if there's tests, but if...

04:00:36.940 I think you can test for HPV, and if there's...

04:00:39.500 I assume they do some sort of swabbing, or maybe they get...

04:00:42.500 What's it called when they take a...

04:00:44.220 Biopsy?

04:00:45.000 Biopsy, thank you.

04:00:46.520 They could take a biopsy and determine, hmm, there's some HPV here.

04:00:52.820 So it's plausible.

04:00:53.640 In any case, deal breaker if...

04:00:57.340 Bro, these chicks are on... 0.95

04:00:58.640 Get off your phones, dorks. 0.97

04:00:59.920 Okay.

04:01:01.820 Deal breaker if a guy doesn't want to go down on you.

04:01:04.040 Did you answer?

04:01:05.380 So after this, I do got to get going, because I got, like, a two-hour drive back.

04:01:10.900 But, no, it's not a deal breaker for me.

04:01:14.720 What about you?

04:01:15.940 No.

04:01:18.380 Would not be a deal breaker, no.

04:01:21.280 Also not.

04:01:22.980 No.

04:01:24.640 Okay.

04:01:25.460 Good to know.

04:01:26.400 Good to know.

04:01:27.040 All right.

04:01:27.280 We have some more Super Chats here.

04:01:28.660 We have...

04:01:29.380 Did we read this one?

04:01:30.540 Yeah.

04:01:31.200 Came through.

04:01:33.220 Did you read this one, Giselle?

04:01:35.280 No.

04:01:35.700 What about this one?

04:01:37.460 No.

04:01:38.320 Wait.

04:01:38.860 No to the last one either.

04:01:40.040 Oh, we didn't read this one?

04:01:40.940 Nobunaga?

04:01:41.460 No, no, no.

04:01:41.820 We...

04:01:42.280 Oh, yeah, I didn't know.

04:01:42.980 We haven't read that one.

04:01:43.580 Wait.

04:01:43.600 Giselle, did you read this one?

04:01:44.560 No.

04:01:45.060 Okay, go ahead.

04:01:45.540 Go ahead.

04:01:46.640 Ladies, some game. 1.00

04:01:48.520 If you find yourself being with a lot of celebrities, but none has wifed you up,

04:01:52.660 they are telling their celeb group that you're an easy lay and you're just getting passed

04:01:57.280 around.

04:01:59.480 And once we get through these Super Chats, we're going to wrap up here pretty soon.

04:02:03.180 So guys, get your last minute Super Chats in.

04:02:04.960 And thank you, Nobunaga, for the 50.

04:02:06.760 Appreciate it.

04:02:08.000 Go ahead, Giselle.

04:02:09.780 Robert is right.

04:02:10.920 I'm young now.

04:02:12.140 It's not a good excuse to be a 304. 0.98

04:02:14.840 Brian and Lauren, please ask Red Girl elaborate on that.

04:02:20.180 I think it's orange.

04:02:22.280 It's orange, actually.

04:02:23.280 It's an orange top, just FYI.

04:02:24.700 I think it's red on camera.

04:02:25.800 Yeah.

04:02:26.120 I don't know.

04:02:27.140 Do you have a response to VD cars?

04:02:29.400 I think a lot of people are tripping about the way I spend my time, and everybody has

04:02:38.580 their own opinions.

04:02:40.060 Has the chat been tripping?

04:02:41.580 Yeah.

04:02:41.800 I haven't been reading the chat, so I don't know.

04:02:43.440 I have.

04:02:44.320 You've been locked in on the chat.

04:02:45.720 Okay.

04:02:46.060 I warned you guys before the show.

04:02:48.160 I mean, I'm not mad at it.

04:02:49.740 Everybody has their own opinions.

04:02:51.280 So I just feel like if I'm young now and I choose to live how I live, that's just how

04:02:58.540 it is, like, what you're going to do about it.

04:03:04.480 Okay.

04:03:05.080 Beating cheeks here.

04:03:05.940 I think you're the 50.

04:03:06.780 Go ahead, Giselle.

04:03:07.780 Ha, ha.

04:03:09.500 Dependipotamus. 0.96

04:03:09.980 Women are typically fat, entitled military wives that don't know anything of military 1.00

04:03:16.720 regulations. 0.96

04:03:18.100 I'm a prior AD Air Force guy and deployed and lived in many countries and military wives

04:03:23.580 overseas, went wilding during those days.

04:03:26.420 Thank you for your service.

04:03:28.540 Thank you, Cheeks.

04:03:31.100 Appreciate it.

04:03:31.620 Thank you for the 50.

04:03:32.980 Go ahead, Giselle.

04:03:34.300 I don't give people my number.

04:03:36.700 Any man on social media has the capability to message you, call you, video chat you, send

04:03:42.220 you photos, et cetera.

04:03:43.780 Honestly, your boyfriend sounds like a little simp, but I have a doctor who can raise his 1.00

04:03:48.680 testosterone levels.

04:03:49.960 I bet he does look at that picture.

04:03:52.680 Look at that picture.

04:03:53.620 I'm sure he does have a doctor that can give him testosterone.

04:03:57.420 Steroids.

04:03:57.960 My boyfriend does not need those.

04:04:02.080 Are you saying that a ventide fallacy is on steroids?

04:04:05.400 I mean, I think that's what...

04:04:06.940 Are you looking at his profile picture?

04:04:09.520 I feel like he's trying to...

04:04:10.160 Because he's saying to raise his testosterone levels.

04:04:13.040 And he has doctors that can help with that.

04:04:14.860 He says, yeah, that's what I'm saying.

04:04:16.480 Oh, okay.

04:04:16.960 I see what you're saying.

04:04:18.120 Do you want to say anything to ventide fallacy? 1.00

04:04:21.380 I think you have a little dick. 1.00

04:04:23.720 Oh, my God. 1.00

04:04:25.060 I mean...

04:04:25.460 A ventide.

04:04:26.540 You can't stand for that.

04:04:28.040 I know you sent this like three or two hours ago.

04:04:28.660 Are you saying that because of the testosterone? 0.90

04:04:30.880 Like, the added testosterone does actually make your genitalia shrivel up, right?

04:04:34.940 Can I think of that? 0.81

04:04:35.940 You're making my statement more true.

04:04:37.580 I was genuinely thinking that before you said it.

04:04:40.000 Oh, nice.

04:04:40.860 No, no.

04:04:41.180 No, that really wasn't what I was thinking, but I just...

04:04:46.020 Eric, you can show it really quick.

04:04:47.360 Great, mine's single-like.

04:04:47.980 Yeah.

04:04:49.880 Okay.

04:04:51.020 What?

04:04:51.700 Oh, my...

04:04:52.660 Okay, that's cool.

04:04:54.700 Giselle, go for it. 0.99

04:04:56.360 Lower your standards.

04:04:57.920 Everything is so much easier and better when I decided to give my boyfriend a chance.

04:05:03.040 Average man.

04:05:04.000 The complete opposite of what I used to look for.

04:05:06.940 Submitted to a man for the first time and respect his boundaries instead of fighting him.

04:05:13.260 Okay.

04:05:14.340 Thank you. 0.98

04:05:15.080 Sorry, you said it's fucked up. 0.80

04:05:16.300 I'm just curious why because I kind of agree. 0.97

04:05:18.560 Because she just said, I decided to give my boyfriend a chance.

04:05:22.260 Average man.

04:05:23.720 Yeah.

04:05:24.240 Yeah.

04:05:24.500 Because it's like...

04:05:25.940 That's just like, yeah, why are you...

04:05:28.560 Why are you like...

04:05:30.400 Oh, like, you were good enough.

04:05:31.680 I gave you a chance.

04:05:33.420 Yeah.

04:05:33.580 How is it...

04:05:34.140 I don't know if that was directed at you, was it?

04:05:36.660 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

04:05:38.000 I'm just saying...

04:05:38.820 Oh, you were just responding. 0.97

04:05:39.360 No, because I said that's fucked up when she was reading the comment because I felt like 0.98

04:05:42.620 she's like saying like, oh, I gave... 0.99

04:05:45.080 I just gave him a chance.

04:05:46.400 He's an average man.

04:05:47.280 No, like, she just settled for him.

04:05:49.120 Why do you need to say that?

04:05:50.540 I have a question about that.

04:05:51.500 I agree absolutely.

04:05:52.140 Why is dating advice usually about advising men to step up to women rather than telling

04:05:58.300 women to settle for more average men like they did in the past? 1.00

04:06:03.900 Step...

04:06:04.500 What do you mean?

04:06:05.340 Like men are just...

04:06:07.500 Dating advice is usually about telling men to, you know, they have to sculpt themselves

04:06:11.780 to be what women want. 1.00

04:06:12.920 In other words, why are men still expected to be what women want if women are no longer 0.69

04:06:16.760 encouraged to be what men want?

04:06:17.840 Well, I would say that I think women need to start changing themselves because we're 1.00

04:06:23.860 the ones...

04:06:24.740 Like you said, oh, I don't know if you were the one that said it, but we're the ones with

04:06:27.900 the choice.

04:06:28.800 We're the ones with the choice.

04:06:29.600 The selectors, yes.

04:06:30.260 Yeah, we are the selectors, yes.

04:06:31.960 So we have...

04:06:34.680 Yes, we're going to have lots of men who are like throwing themselves at us just because

04:06:39.340 of the fact that we're women, but we are the ones who are choosing which men we want

04:06:43.540 to be with.

04:06:45.700 So like...

04:06:47.480 And related to that, do you think that it's fair for women to complain about men when they're 0.95

04:06:52.060 the ones choosing the shitty men? 0.57

04:06:53.800 No, absolutely not because it's unfair for us to be choosing and having such high standards 0.98

04:06:57.820 because women are going to put their standards so high, but then they're not realizing that 1.00

04:07:03.420 the men who are in those standards are not looking for the...

04:07:06.960 They're not like...

04:07:08.580 These women that are asking for that, these are not the type of women that those men are 0.87

04:07:11.280 looking for.

04:07:11.820 And do you think that women's delusional standards require men to set delusional goals?

04:07:17.740 Of course, yeah.

04:07:18.740 They set delusional goals, but it's like...

04:07:21.820 I think the change has to be with the women first. 1.00

04:07:25.000 I agree.

04:07:25.580 Thank you, man.

04:07:28.540 Appreciate it.

04:07:28.960 Hey, Brian, love the part.

04:07:30.260 But how you got Tony Hawk on the pain?

04:07:33.120 Definitely in love with Giselle on the right.

04:07:35.640 Having a good wife will make you happy. 0.98

04:07:37.720 A bad wife will make you a philosopher, Black Socrates Prowley. 1.00

04:07:41.520 Hey, 100.

04:07:42.260 Thank you so much for the donation, man.

04:07:44.220 Really appreciate it.

04:07:44.900 Thank you.

04:07:46.180 And Tony Hawk Pro Skater 2 is a pretty good game.

04:07:50.180 Okay.

04:07:50.500 Boney Hawk.

04:07:51.140 Right.

04:07:51.680 There we go.

04:07:52.580 God.

04:07:53.120 And then we had this one come in from Eddie Scripto.

04:07:57.020 Oh, wait.

04:07:58.100 What?

04:07:58.660 I'm a captain.

04:07:59.500 You all left ten and donated $101.

04:08:02.720 It's all love, Phony Hawk.

04:08:04.960 Brian, please bring him on another show.

04:08:07.820 And Chase, too.

04:08:09.360 Giselle is positively enchanting.

04:08:11.820 Lauren, you're okay, too, I guess.

04:08:14.360 Aw, that's so sweet.

04:08:16.700 You're okay, too, I guess.

04:08:18.680 Aw.

04:08:19.000 Is that just the nicest thing you've ever heard?

04:08:22.680 You're okay, too.

04:08:25.000 Yes.

04:08:25.680 It's the nicest compliment.

04:08:27.000 It's like the best compliments ever.

04:08:28.800 Okay, cool.

04:08:30.620 Eddie Scripto, thank you for the 50.

04:08:31.960 Brian, you are the Jerry Springer of podcasting,

04:08:33.880 and I do mean that as a compliment to the Asian gal. 1.00

04:08:35.960 I respect you for wanting a man who broadens your horizons.

04:08:42.920 Word?

04:08:43.480 Thank you, man.

04:08:43.780 I appreciate it.

04:08:44.580 Okay.

04:08:45.280 We have here, let's see.

04:08:48.240 We did this one.

04:08:50.540 Mr. Cappadocia, I think you're the 50.

04:08:52.280 Go ahead, Giselle.

04:08:53.660 Ladies, what's the weirdest thing that you consistently find sexy 1.00

04:08:58.280 or look for in a guy that no one would expect? 0.98

04:09:01.420 Like, damn, I like me a sexy forehead, 0.99

04:09:04.780 or I lose it between the knees for guys who play Dungeons and Dragons. 0.99

04:09:10.820 No duplicate answers.

04:09:12.040 Yeah, we'll go around the table on this.

04:09:15.180 Let's start over here.

04:09:16.320 Go ahead.

04:09:21.960 Can I go last, actually?

04:09:23.560 I need to think.

04:09:24.120 You need to think?

04:09:24.700 Sure, go ahead.

04:09:25.160 I don't know.

04:09:27.420 That's such a hard question, I think.

04:09:29.380 But I don't know.

04:09:30.140 Like, you know, like, when certain people got that, like, crazy look to them.

04:09:36.920 You know what I mean?

04:09:37.840 Like, when you just look at them, and you just, like, be like, yeah, it looks a little crazy.

04:09:43.540 So you like criminals?

04:09:46.860 No, and they don't have to be criminals.

04:09:48.840 Oh, my bad.

04:09:49.860 It's just, like, you know, you, like, you ever seen You?

04:09:52.760 You look at Joe, he's got that, like...

04:09:55.120 Who?

04:09:55.860 Joe.

04:09:56.360 The show You.

04:09:58.420 Netflix.

04:09:59.080 Where he's, like, he's, like, a stalker.

04:10:00.840 Like, I'm not saying I'm into stalkers, but he's, like, a stalker, and he's got... 1.00

04:10:04.080 Who the fuck is that guy? 1.00

04:10:05.300 Who? 1.00

04:10:06.340 I don't even know.

04:10:07.140 You?

04:10:07.540 He's from a TV show.

04:10:08.800 Yeah.

04:10:09.060 Okay, he's, so...

04:10:10.260 It's hard to explain.

04:10:12.440 So, okay, but he's, you said he's a stalker.

04:10:15.620 Yeah, but I'm, like, I'm not into stalkers, just, like...

04:10:18.120 But?

04:10:18.780 Those people that just, like, you look at them, and you're, like, yeah, he looks a little crazy.

04:10:23.820 I could vibe with it.

04:10:24.740 It's wrong.

04:10:26.040 But, uh, I mean, I've seen studies that women are attracted to a criminality component in men.

04:10:33.280 Well, it doesn't necessarily have to be, like...

04:10:36.080 There can be people that's not, like, a criminal and still kind of...

04:10:40.840 Does that make you feel unsafe, though?

04:10:42.480 No.

04:10:43.200 What do you...

04:10:43.680 I think it's more, like...

04:10:46.080 It's what...

04:10:46.760 Oh, go ahead, go ahead.

04:10:47.520 More, like...

04:10:49.500 I mean, they would probably be, like, yeah.

04:10:51.460 They're excited by it.

04:10:52.520 Yeah.

04:10:53.180 A little more excitement, but also, like, they are also the type that could probably slap you around.

04:10:57.780 Would you ever do one of those prison...

04:10:59.800 Such a methodology.

04:11:01.280 Would you ever do one of those prison dating websites?

04:11:03.960 If he was really cute, yeah, but, I mean...

04:11:07.520 I mean, would you literally go to the website and troll...

04:11:10.780 Oh, sorry.

04:11:11.260 I didn't mean to press that one.

04:11:14.300 Sorry.

04:11:14.820 Go ahead.

04:11:15.280 Would you literally troll through a website like that looking for a pen pal?

04:11:20.040 Actually, I've actually licked on it because I've seen it on TikTok at one point...

04:11:26.460 Oh, I know what you're talking about.

04:11:27.400 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

04:11:28.500 I've seen it at one point that there was...

04:11:30.400 I was like, oh, you know, some of them are actually, like, really cute, but they're, like, serial killers or something.

04:11:34.660 I can't even say it right.

04:11:35.580 So, you're not okay with them being a serial killer?

04:11:37.920 I mean, like...

04:11:38.220 What if they just killed, like, one or two people?

04:11:40.000 I mean, if it was, like, a freak accident, that's different, but, like, if he had intentions, like, I'm gonna go in there and...

04:11:45.020 Stop it.

04:11:45.720 You know?

04:11:46.100 Oh, sorry.

04:11:46.440 Get some help.

04:11:48.280 It's different.

04:11:50.060 No, I...

04:11:51.220 Okay.

04:11:53.200 What was that?

04:11:54.280 The TikTok girl, she was... 0.50

04:11:56.020 She had a boyfriend in prison, right?

04:11:57.240 And she wanted to promote other dudes in prison? 0.99

04:12:00.060 I don't...

04:12:00.700 I don't even remember.

04:12:01.440 It was just, like, yeah, I think she had a man...

04:12:03.600 She has a man that's in prison.

04:12:04.940 She's like, oh, how I found my husband that's in prison, da-da-da, like, type thing.

04:12:09.780 And I just went and licked, like, I never really...

04:12:11.220 What about that attracted you?

04:12:12.900 Like, what about her TikTok page?

04:12:16.180 I don't know, because it's kind of...

04:12:17.400 It's kind of wild.

04:12:17.960 ...Corex donated $100.

04:12:21.260 Bro, the chick in the purple look like Lola Scumpy from Big Mouth. 1.00

04:12:24.900 What is that?

04:12:25.340 It just needed to be said.

04:12:27.280 Big UPS to Bony Hawk.

04:12:29.400 Bony Hawk.

04:12:30.680 What?

04:12:31.000 Who is Lola Scumpy? 1.00

04:12:32.500 Bro, it's that girl.

04:12:34.140 She'd be, like... 0.99

04:12:35.380 You seen the episode where she's, like, I put sunscreen all over my butt cheeks. 1.00

04:12:40.180 She's, like, just very, like... 1.00

04:12:42.940 Fuck you for that. 1.00

04:12:43.920 But, you know. 1.00

04:12:46.100 Okay.

04:12:46.940 Wait, so...

04:12:47.580 I want to see her.

04:12:48.380 The other girl's here.

04:12:49.720 Do you guys kind of agree with her? 0.99

04:12:50.940 Like, it's kind of attractive if a guy's, like, a little fucking crazy or, like, a little... 1.00

04:12:57.620 Toxic. 1.00

04:12:58.320 A little toxic or a little bad boy or a little asshole. 1.00

04:13:01.380 Is it attractive? 1.00

04:13:02.800 Well, how next...

04:13:03.880 A little felonious?

04:13:04.960 Like, we can't really disagree or agree with her personal opinion.

04:13:09.500 Like, do we share one?

04:13:10.980 Maybe not.

04:13:11.760 But we can't disagree or agree with her opinion.

04:13:14.840 You know?

04:13:15.260 He's asking, like, would you agree, like, in yourself?

04:13:19.120 Would you agree with her?

04:13:20.040 Would you want the same thing?

04:13:21.160 I mean, no.

04:13:21.760 But at the same time, like, we have different people.

04:13:23.740 Right.

04:13:23.920 By the way, a reminder, guys.

04:13:24.820 Please speak into the microphones.

04:13:26.940 Anybody?

04:13:27.560 You were kind of shaking your head.

04:13:28.980 Yes.

04:13:29.340 I love men who have committed felonies.

04:13:31.380 I mean...

04:13:31.620 I...

04:13:31.900 Not felonies.

04:13:33.240 I don't do those no more.

04:13:35.760 Like...

04:13:36.160 You don't?

04:13:36.400 I don't like nobody I can't go out the country with.

04:13:39.260 Like, if you can't go to certain countries, I can't do that.

04:13:42.180 Have you had experience?

04:13:44.580 Like, I've had...

04:13:45.060 Previous experience?

04:13:45.660 I've had...

04:13:46.260 Have you dated a gangbanger?

04:13:48.860 Yeah, my ex.

04:13:50.660 Your ex was a gangbanger?

04:13:52.120 He wasn't a gangbanger, but he was...

04:13:54.780 I definitely feel like he was trying to be something he wasn't.

04:13:57.740 And that got him into more trouble than it.

04:14:00.440 Who here has dated...

04:14:02.060 Like a gangster.

04:14:07.900 Kelly. 0.93

04:14:09.840 Or a drug dealer. 1.00

04:14:11.160 Or a scammer. 0.88

04:14:12.380 Or whatever the terms are.

04:14:14.180 Show of hands.

04:14:14.660 Drug dealer, including, like, selling weed at college.

04:14:17.520 No, like... 0.99

04:14:18.440 Like, selling cocaine and shit like that. 0.96

04:14:20.940 Yeah. 0.76

04:14:21.420 Yeah.

04:14:23.240 I mean, it's interesting because there is, like, a subset of women that will, like, 1.00

04:14:27.920 become pen pals with these men in prison and will marry them.

04:14:32.060 And that's kind of an interesting pathology, I think, but...

04:14:35.900 It's a TikTok thing.

04:14:36.900 I think I know the girl that you're talking about.

04:14:39.160 And she is like, oh, my God.

04:14:40.980 I am so in love.

04:14:42.340 It is so great having a husband.

04:14:44.660 Yeah.

04:14:44.920 And you read the comments section.

04:14:46.160 These girls are like, oh, my God. 1.00

04:14:47.700 What a great idea.

04:14:48.700 Yeah.

04:14:48.820 You know exactly where your husband is at all times.

04:14:51.180 I mean, da, da, da.

04:14:52.040 I think it's different when you just, like, message them or something.

04:14:55.500 But, like, getting in a whole relationship with somebody that you physically cannot see

04:15:00.040 outside of a building, like, that's different.

04:15:02.680 I wouldn't be able to do that.

04:15:04.000 Why do men have to put on an act to be the bad boy to attract women while women have 0.99

04:15:11.120 to put on an act to be sweet and submissive to get a man? 0.83

04:15:16.140 Exactly.

04:15:16.720 It plays into male femininity and masculine roles. 0.99

04:15:20.760 Yeah.

04:15:21.380 But do you think that is genuine or do you think it's an act?

04:15:23.680 It's an act, for sure.

04:15:25.100 Not everybody is.

04:15:26.880 I wouldn't say it's an act because some men are just naturally masculine.

04:15:31.460 Some women are just naturally feminine. 1.00

04:15:33.900 So.

04:15:34.240 Are you able to, like, what signs do you look for to know if it's genuine?

04:15:38.600 Just how they are as a person.

04:15:40.200 Like, you know, you can tell.

04:15:41.320 Like, you can tell if, like, if he's trying to act hard and all of this, blah, blah, blah.

04:15:45.780 But then he's put in a situation where he needs to act hard and he doesn't do it.

04:15:50.040 He doesn't act upon his words.

04:15:51.420 So going back to you, would you prefer someone who's genuinely crazy or someone who's just putting

04:15:54.800 on an act? 0.93

04:15:55.460 No, someone that's genuinely, like, crazy.

04:15:58.820 I appreciate the honesty.

04:16:00.520 Yeah.

04:16:00.940 Like, I like him, like, for realness, you know?

04:16:04.200 You want that unpredictability.

04:16:05.720 Yeah.

04:16:06.080 I mean, sometimes, yeah, it's kind of cool.

04:16:08.040 I mean, not really, but, like.

04:16:09.420 Until it's not cool.

04:16:10.100 It's spicy, you know?

04:16:11.060 Until it's not cool.

04:16:11.700 Yeah, until it's not.

04:16:12.880 But, you know, you're just going to dice. 1.00

04:16:14.540 You know what's interesting to me is women very often complain about men being jerks, 1.00

04:16:19.960 men being assholes. 1.00

04:16:20.860 Yet, these are the types of men that they find themselves attracted to and choose. 1.00

04:16:27.140 They choose them.

04:16:29.320 And it's just, it's interesting to me that, I mean, it's just, you don't see men, like,

04:16:35.920 jumping.

04:16:36.480 Like, if a girl, if I detect, like, any sort of criminality, I detect, like, and men want, 0.72

04:16:43.720 like, calm, chill.

04:16:46.560 Like, we don't want, the last thing we want is that kind of energy in our lives.

04:16:51.580 So it's just very interesting, the differences there.

04:16:54.980 And I think one component of it is men who demonstrate a degree of criminality.

04:16:59.600 I think it almost plays into, like, provide a protector.

04:17:02.320 Like, a man who's willing to basically break the law to do something, he, in some view,

04:17:08.500 is more capable of providing for you because he's willing to bend rules.

04:17:14.140 And also, there's a component of protection, too, because I think criminality coincides with

04:17:18.660 the violence.

04:17:19.180 And men who are capable of violence are more attractive to women because women don't want 0.98

04:17:24.060 to be with a guy who would not be prepared to protect them in some sort of situation where

04:17:29.760 violence would be warranted.

04:17:32.420 So that's just a very interesting thing to me.

04:17:35.180 But let's move on from that.

04:17:36.220 So we want to get everyone on this question really quick, if you can, if you guys recall

04:17:41.260 what the question was.

04:17:42.160 Actually, before that, before I pull that back up, chat's been dying for us to talk about

04:17:46.200 body count.

04:17:47.100 Yeah, dark triad.

04:17:48.040 Yeah, it's the dark triad, narcissism, what are the, do you know what the, for the dark

04:17:53.960 triad personality traits?

04:17:55.860 It's narcissism, Machiavellianism, can anyone in the chat help me?

04:18:03.040 Narcissism, Machiavellianism, and what?

04:18:06.380 The chat's been dying to ask about body count.

04:18:10.440 Who, show of hands, should, does body count matter, should body count matter?

04:18:16.540 No.

04:18:16.940 No, body count shouldn't matter.

04:18:21.040 Here's a different question.

04:18:22.300 Is it wrong for men to care about body count? 0.99

04:18:25.000 Or do you object to men caring about body count?

04:18:27.780 I think it really depends on like, sorry, I think it really depends on like, if this man

04:18:34.760 is out there doing whatever, banging whatever, like has like a high body count, he should

04:18:40.680 least expect to find a woman that's like pure, like really pure to like a body count of like 0.65

04:18:46.780 two or three because that's very double standard and it's like, you didn't even try to like

04:18:52.100 save yourself, so why should you're, you know?

04:18:54.780 Well, men and women are different.

04:18:57.100 Yeah, but still it's double standard.

04:19:00.040 So, well, I mean, speaking of double standards, do you think that in order for you to desire a trait in a partner,

04:19:12.960 you yourself must possess said trait?

04:19:20.380 What's the question?

04:19:21.240 So, you said that it's a double standard.

04:19:23.900 For example, let's say a guy who has a, he has a high body count.

04:19:27.280 Right.

04:19:27.600 But he prefers women.

04:19:28.980 He wants a woman with a low body count. 1.00

04:19:30.780 You would say that's a double standard, right?

04:19:32.800 You would say perhaps that's unfair, right?

04:19:35.060 I mean, I'm not saying like he's wrong because that's like how men are going to want it,

04:19:41.140 but I'm saying like you can't have your cake and eat it too, you know what I mean?

04:19:44.560 Well, so the question is though, do you think that in order for you to desire something in a partner,

04:19:51.640 and this is a question for all of you, do you think in order to desire something in a partner,

04:19:56.440 you too must possess that quality in yourself?

04:20:01.020 No. 0.99

04:20:01.960 Otherwise, we would all be lesbian and gay. 0.97

04:20:04.540 Sure.

04:20:05.120 So, I don't think it's a double standard that even men with high body counts want women with low body counts

04:20:10.240 in the same way that, for example, women who are short like men who are tall

04:20:15.060 or women who have no confidence are attracted to men who do have confidence

04:20:19.520 or women who are not funny want a guy who's funny. 0.97

04:20:23.120 I don't think that there needs to be a reciprocity necessarily in all the traits that we desire in each other.

04:20:32.220 Right.

04:20:32.540 The question I have about body count with men is why are there some men who will shame women

04:20:40.520 for having high body counts but then also complain how hard it is to get laid?

04:20:44.720 Is that a double standard?

04:20:46.760 I do find that funny.

04:20:48.060 Like wouldn't you be encouraging?

04:20:50.040 Up up your body count, girl. 0.98

04:20:51.880 Include me in it.

04:20:53.240 Like, you know?

04:20:53.960 That's an interesting question.

04:20:54.820 Do men want women to be easy or not? 0.86

04:20:56.720 But I would assume that the difference is there are some men treat this like it's sport.

04:21:04.100 You know what I mean?

04:21:04.340 There are some women who are recreational use only and some women who are wives. 0.97

04:21:08.160 And I think if a man is going to settle down with a woman, 0.72

04:21:11.440 he doesn't want someone that everyone else has had that someone's been ran through.

04:21:16.140 But if it's just a quickie, it's just fun.

04:21:18.100 I don't understand why it would be a problem.

04:21:19.960 Right.

04:21:20.960 Okay, show of hands.

04:21:21.780 Should body count matter?

04:21:23.360 Yes or no?

04:21:25.700 Candidate.

04:21:26.140 Hand is a yes.

04:21:28.300 Oh, hand is a yes.

04:21:31.900 It doesn't matter, though.

04:21:33.180 It does.

04:21:33.840 It does matter.

04:21:34.760 Okay.

04:21:34.900 I mean, I just, I never ask, like, when we're going to just be like,

04:21:39.060 how many people you slept with? 0.92

04:21:40.720 Sure.

04:21:41.080 I think it matters scientifically because of pair bonding.

04:21:44.480 Mm-hmm.

04:21:45.640 Well, okay.

04:21:46.340 So just who here doesn't care about body count or how about, here's a better question.

04:21:51.900 Do you object to men if they cared about your body count, for example?

04:21:54.760 No, because I can understand why a man would not want to be with a woman who's been with 0.99

04:22:00.600 so many people.

04:22:01.720 Okay.

04:22:02.080 That's completely understandable.

04:22:04.280 Same no, but then I should be allowed to judge him based on that same thing.

04:22:08.880 Sure.

04:22:09.800 Sure.

04:22:10.000 So, for those of you, I mean, I guess everyone can answer, but some of you said body count

04:22:18.080 shouldn't matter, whatever.

04:22:19.600 What's your body count?

04:22:20.640 Let's start with you.

04:22:21.440 Oh, no comment.

04:22:23.220 Come on.

04:22:23.960 No way.

04:22:24.820 Come on.

04:22:25.160 I mean, it's not bad, but it's just like, that's more, that's more like secret to me.

04:22:31.900 I give you like a range, but I'm not going to give you like a pinpoint number.

04:22:38.940 So just do it.

04:22:41.000 Make your dreams come true.

04:22:43.760 Just do it.

04:22:46.180 Do you want to answer the question, though?

04:22:47.740 I feel like my range is like 10 to like 20.

04:22:52.740 10 to 20?

04:22:53.660 Okay.

04:22:55.540 Body count?

04:22:56.000 Five.

04:22:56.680 Five?

04:22:58.260 17.

04:22:59.320 17?

04:22:59.720 Okay.

04:23:02.000 12.

04:23:04.520 Private information from the abortion.

04:23:07.180 Okay.

04:23:09.320 Well, I'm on the same point because I wouldn't want to share, not because I had too many,

04:23:15.020 but just it's too private, I think.

04:23:17.120 Sure.

04:23:17.540 Lauren?

04:23:18.840 It's not zero, and I wish it was, and my parents are watching, and just the fact that I even

04:23:24.120 admit that it's not zero, I think is enough shame for my father for tonight.

04:23:29.720 So 20?

04:23:31.880 No.

04:23:32.320 No.

04:23:32.860 Oh.

04:23:33.600 Like, I'm just not going to give my number because my dad's watching, and I love my father.

04:23:37.780 What if it's, is he on the East Coast?

04:23:40.340 No.

04:23:41.140 Oh.

04:23:41.600 That's good.

04:23:42.020 All right.

04:23:42.460 Okay.

04:23:42.520 Who's more likely to lie about their body count, men or women?

04:23:45.500 Women. 0.81

04:23:45.900 Don't men lie about having more, and women lie about having less? 0.98

04:23:49.480 Yeah.

04:23:49.520 Yeah.

04:23:49.760 Yeah.

04:23:50.740 What's your body count?

04:23:52.340 My body count, which I am disappointed in, it's six.

04:23:56.000 Okay.

04:23:56.900 Well, some of you answered, some of you didn't, but?

04:24:00.340 Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.

04:24:02.600 Oh, so cool.

04:24:03.420 I love it, man.

04:24:03.620 I've heard that before.

04:24:04.780 Good times.

04:24:05.440 Okay, so there's the body count thing, boom.

04:24:08.860 Let's continue on with the soup chats, and then let's wrap up here pretty soon.

04:24:12.280 All right, we have, did it, if you guys can try to be quick, just so we can get through

04:24:17.260 the soup chats, did anyone want to come in on this, like a little interesting thing that

04:24:20.720 you find sexy?

04:24:21.880 Did you figure out one?

04:24:23.180 Yeah, oh, I think that maybe other people would find it a bit weird, but I really love

04:24:27.740 assertiveness, and when they kind of control, like, everything that happens in my life.

04:24:33.220 So, like, even if we go out to dinner, like, he's picking what I'm eating or something, but

04:24:36.940 that may come across weird to other people, that I let another human being decide everything

04:24:41.340 for me.

04:24:42.720 And are you talking about, like, I mean, this is within the realm of, like, the kink community, 0.99

04:24:47.600 but are you talking about a dumb sub? 0.97

04:24:49.600 Yeah, basically, yes. 0.99

04:24:50.920 Okay, got it.

04:24:51.680 So, sorry, just to, like, to clarify, would you ever consider being the 24-7 lifestyle?

04:24:58.420 Are you, like, master-slave level?

04:25:00.680 What are we talking here?

04:25:02.380 I mean, I'm talking about when I'm in the relationship, he can order me to do whatever

04:25:07.600 he wants, you know?

04:25:08.660 Would you ever be interested in 24-7 dinner?

04:25:11.420 Why are you, why are you like?

04:25:14.480 What?

04:25:16.220 24-7, he's dominant over me.

04:25:19.020 Well, whichever one you're into.

04:25:20.980 Yeah, yeah, I'm submissive.

04:25:22.580 Yeah, that's how I would hope my relationship is, yeah.

04:25:25.560 Well, I think when you're referencing 24-7, you're specifically talking about BDSM, right?

04:25:31.420 You're talking, like, because for some people, they want the dumb sub dynamic strictly in 0.76

04:25:36.180 the bedroom.

04:25:37.160 But some people, that extends into the broader relationship.

04:25:40.700 Maybe it's not everything, but there's some components that seep into the relationship. 0.73

04:25:45.860 And for some, it's everything is within the frame of this dumb sub dynamic, so. 0.73

04:25:52.240 Right, yeah, yeah. 0.89

04:25:52.800 That's exactly what I'm asking.

04:25:53.560 I'm just curious because...

04:25:54.640 Yeah, everything, as far as even my clothing, too, if he wants to choose what I wear, like

04:26:00.340 that, yeah.

04:26:01.620 Yes!

04:26:03.160 That's awesome!

04:26:05.740 Okay, do you have an interesting thing that just gets you going?

04:26:10.640 Mm-mm.

04:26:11.280 Like he...

04:26:12.460 I'm going to have to pass.

04:26:13.580 I can't even think of one. 0.98

04:26:14.540 He's got an eye tattoo, like a teardrop or some shit. 0.86

04:26:17.920 I don't think that was... 0.99

04:26:18.840 He eats ketchup packets.

04:26:21.380 Yo.

04:26:21.960 Ryan thing.

04:26:23.680 I like...

04:26:24.120 Yes, I like to force my women to just... 1.00

04:26:26.740 It's like a degradation thing. 0.99

04:26:28.320 I just love it when they just, like, consume just odd food condiments and shit. 0.99

04:26:35.520 That just... 0.99

04:26:36.320 I got a mustard packet in the back if you're down, Giselle.

04:26:41.660 Thank you, Henry.

04:26:42.640 Strange thing.

04:26:43.180 Do you like, uh...

04:26:45.500 You like it if they can, like, three-point?

04:26:48.840 I just like them being tall, like...

04:26:51.640 Like, abnormally tall.

04:26:53.120 I like that.

04:26:55.300 Okay.

04:26:55.940 What about you, Kelly?

04:26:57.480 I like when they can...

04:26:59.400 When they, like, do stuff, like, themselves and, like...

04:27:03.000 Like, my boyfriend will move, like, his apartment.

04:27:05.120 Like, he moved apartments and he would move all of it by himself.

04:27:07.920 Like, when they're doing, like, super...

04:27:09.740 Like, super manly stuff, like...

04:27:11.960 Okay.

04:27:12.400 I like that.

04:27:12.680 Okay.

04:27:13.000 That's cool.

04:27:13.460 That's cool.

04:27:14.240 All right.

04:27:14.820 So, he was, like... 0.99

04:27:16.240 Had, like, a couch and shit on his shoulders. 0.99

04:27:18.020 Yes. 0.99

04:27:18.040 Like, just, like, his whole bed.

04:27:19.440 Just, like...

04:27:20.180 Like, just carrying it down the stairs.

04:27:22.360 Like, no help.

04:27:22.960 I'm just holding the door open for him.

04:27:24.480 Like, like...

04:27:25.580 That got you going?

04:27:26.460 That...

04:27:26.740 Yes.

04:27:27.060 That's how I was like...

04:27:27.700 You're like...

04:27:28.000 I'm like, do you want me to help?

04:27:29.120 No.

04:27:29.420 Don't help.

04:27:29.900 Like, I don't even have to ask if he needs help because he's going to say...

04:27:32.680 I already know.

04:27:33.200 Like, no.

04:27:33.760 I'm not...

04:27:33.900 Was it the mattress?

04:27:35.320 Oh, yeah.

04:27:36.020 He'll take the whole mattress down himself.

04:27:38.500 When you saw him doing that, were you like, babe, put down the mattress.

04:27:43.600 Let's go.

04:27:44.380 Yes.

04:27:44.640 Let's go.

04:27:45.100 Okay, cool.

04:27:45.880 What about you?

04:27:47.160 If he's willing to, like, get on with my quirks and has, like, childlike quirks of his

04:27:52.200 own, I find that very endearing.

04:27:54.260 Okay.

04:27:55.520 I like when the guy can cook and does it with passion and, like, cook something and I'm like,

04:28:00.960 oh, look what I cook. 0.65

04:28:01.940 So, you're like, hmm.

04:28:03.060 And it's usually good.

04:28:04.220 So, yeah.

04:28:04.940 Like, guys who can cook sometimes. 1.00

04:28:07.040 Good shit. 1.00

04:28:08.140 Lauren? 1.00

04:28:08.900 I guess a guy who's really strong at math.

04:28:11.360 I have a math degree, so I like...

04:28:16.000 What?

04:28:16.680 I like doing math puzzles and stuff.

04:28:20.520 Yes.

04:28:21.140 Yeah.

04:28:21.480 None of those are hard equations.

04:28:23.200 Oh, you've got them all figured out?

04:28:24.840 I mean, one half FaceTime height.

04:28:27.260 I hope I can figure out the area.

04:28:28.640 The area of a triangle.

04:28:29.780 Yeah.

04:28:30.540 Yeah.

04:28:32.160 Okay.

04:28:32.760 Cool, cool, cool.

04:28:33.400 All right.

04:28:33.780 We have this chat here from Austin Michael.

04:28:37.420 Giselle, do the honors, please. 0.99

04:28:39.260 Ladies.

04:28:39.860 Oh, sorry.

04:28:40.360 Good.

04:28:41.360 If your man isn't putting boundaries on you, you are not the wife zone for him. 0.99

04:28:46.440 In the wife zone for him. 0.97

04:28:47.700 It should be a relief for you when a man starts to try and rein you in.

04:28:51.620 It's because he loves you and doesn't want you in a certain light.

04:28:55.080 That's actually a really good point. 0.98

04:28:56.660 Like, if a guy isn't serious about you, like, if he just doesn't give a fuck about you, he's 0.98

04:29:02.980 going to be like, all right, whatever. 1.00

04:29:04.000 Like, I don't give a fuck. 0.98

04:29:04.720 But if he actually is interested in you, I think it's a good sign. 0.99

04:29:08.800 So, and that's actually somewhat related to body count, too.

04:29:11.360 If a guy gets curious about your past and your body count, it could potentially disqualify

04:29:16.920 you, but I think guys who are asking that question, I think women shouldn't view it as, oh, that's

04:29:21.660 weird.

04:29:22.000 He's prying.

04:29:22.700 He's like, why should he care about my past?

04:29:25.180 That actually means that he's probably serious about you if he's asking that kind of question

04:29:29.440 because he's trying to, like, do a bit of screening. 0.96

04:29:32.400 So, whereas a guy who's just, like, wants to fucking chuck you, like, he probably doesn't 0.98

04:29:36.260 care a whole lot about your body count. 0.98

04:29:38.080 We have Spencer Park here.

04:29:39.080 Thank you for the 100.

04:29:39.760 Oh, yeah, body counts.

04:29:40.540 We just hit this.

04:29:41.200 Thank you, man.

04:29:41.540 Appreciate it.

04:29:42.580 Roma Clips. 0.96

04:29:43.280 Thank you for the Canadian 50.

04:29:44.320 Can we get a fit check?

04:29:45.480 You're welcome, chat.

04:29:46.580 But we, I think we already got a fit check, if I recall.

04:29:51.300 Roma Clips. 0.96

04:29:52.920 Thank you for the Canadian 50.

04:29:54.000 Merci beaucoup.

04:29:54.680 C'est très bien ça.

04:29:55.400 Merci.

04:29:56.300 I don't know if you're from the French-speaking part of, if you're Kevacois or whatever, but

04:30:00.260 merci.

04:30:03.120 We have Pipe and Ain't Easy.

04:30:08.240 Thank you for the 50.

04:30:08.880 Go ahead, Giselle.

04:30:09.420 For the OnlyFans' wannabe moms, when your son or daughter comes home emotionally damaged

04:30:17.660 because of your OnlyFans' sight, do you take responsibility or blame men for your situation

04:30:23.280 or circumstances?

04:30:27.800 You're the only one with an OF, right? 0.84

04:30:30.760 Anyone?

04:30:31.260 Who here has an OF?

04:30:34.800 Your response to Pipe and Ain't Easy.

04:30:39.420 It really ain't.

04:30:43.760 Kelly knows.

04:30:46.520 This is funny.

04:30:49.260 I would definitely, if I were to have children, that would be something, I would just take

04:30:54.900 responsibility for it, but it's also not something that I'm wanting.

04:31:00.140 I'm not really wanting children.

04:31:03.720 Okay.

04:31:04.300 All right.

04:31:04.740 Thank you.

04:31:05.360 You can pull that one back up in the sec here, Eric.

04:31:07.440 The Mystery of Godliness.

04:31:08.380 Thank you for the 100, man.

04:31:09.500 Appreciate it.

04:31:11.960 Giselle, do the honors, please. 0.99

04:31:13.860 God made masculine and feminine.

04:31:16.220 The problem with the relationship between men and women today is the lack in the natural

04:31:20.600 order of life.

04:31:21.860 Men represent what women cannot, and women represent what men cannot. 0.99

04:31:26.540 Having a lead role only works with a support.

04:31:29.720 Yo, The Mystery of Godliness.

04:31:31.000 Big thank you for the $100 soup chat, man.

04:31:32.940 Really appreciate the support.

04:31:33.900 Thank you, man.

04:31:37.120 Word? 0.98

04:31:37.660 That is some poetic Socratic shit. 0.98

04:31:39.700 Thank you, man. 0.99

04:31:42.220 Giselle, hablas espanol.

04:31:45.180 Un poquito.

04:31:46.400 Un poquito.

04:31:47.040 What was that song we were singing before?

04:31:51.380 The Gaston song.

04:31:52.400 Can you guys sing it?

04:31:54.320 Okay.

04:31:55.300 Mex Carito.

04:31:56.080 Thank you to the 50.

04:31:57.140 Love your podcast, Brian.

04:31:58.440 The Twitch streamer to the far right.

04:31:59.740 I love your outfit.

04:32:00.760 Could I treat you to a dinner at TwitchCon?

04:32:02.520 Also, may I slide into your DMs?

04:32:05.140 Giselle, that's for you.

04:32:06.020 Thank you for the outfit compliment, but I will have to refuse the dinner.

04:32:14.740 I'm sorry.

04:32:17.620 Why?

04:32:18.120 Wow, that's so unfortunate.

04:32:19.940 Because I don't know anything about him.

04:32:22.260 Well, you let him slide into your DMs and learn about him, and then maybe he gets into

04:32:26.720 your picture.

04:32:27.300 Maybe you could be attracted to him after he slides into said DMs, and then maybe you could

04:32:30.800 get dinner.

04:32:31.160 I don't answer any of my DMs, so I mean, if he did, then he would get lost in the abyss.

04:32:37.820 The abyss.

04:32:38.840 How many DMs do you get?

04:32:40.840 I don't know.

04:32:41.340 I don't really check them.

04:32:43.300 Here, pull that. 1.00

04:32:43.840 Do you have your phone on you?

04:32:44.800 Yeah.

04:32:45.240 Just tell us how much are on your requested.

04:32:48.140 Question for the panel on Mex Carito, though.

04:32:50.960 Do you see that photo of him?

04:32:52.800 It's like a mini anime thing, and he's wearing a sombrero.

04:32:58.700 Is that, like, thoughts on that?

04:33:08.060 Do you know what Carito is?

04:33:10.320 Warcraft, rabbits, think of the 50, women's standards, bend time, space, a man who works 0.96

04:33:14.060 out all the time, works all the time, spends all his time with me and the family, these

04:33:18.040 expectations plus society, haranguing to man up to meet him, wait, haranguing to man

04:33:23.360 up to meet him equals deletion, funny watching Brian stagger?

04:33:28.700 Wait, stagger?

04:33:31.080 Swagger? 0.99

04:33:32.100 That's obviously a typo he's talking about, my fucking, okay. 0.98

04:33:35.760 Thank you, man, appreciate it. 0.97

04:33:36.800 Dav with the big merci beaucoup pour la canadienne 280, merci, c'est vraiment génial ça, merci.

04:33:46.060 My rating, okay, this is the rating.

04:33:47.700 Latina Blackpink, 9.5, Humble Silent Bob, 7, Art Major Sniffles, 6.5, Rookie of the Year,

04:34:00.440 7.5, Dim Sum Girl, 6.

04:34:05.080 Isn't your thing on Instagram, like, you're a dim sum restaurant?

04:34:08.540 Okay, Babushka with the 6, her granddaughter with the 8, Brian's hot lawyer sister, yeah, 0.99

04:34:16.620 we're related, with the 8, Tony Hawk and his huge Toshiba laptop, god damn, that thing's 0.88

04:34:23.820 a tank, holy shit, Brian, closer to the mic, Atlas 7.5, apologies for the interruption.

04:34:33.900 Well, thank you very much there for the official rating for tonight, coming all the way from 0.96

04:34:39.820 Quebecois, Canada, merci beaucoup.

04:34:41.660 And then we had Doc Venables with the 100, with no message there, but Doc, your soup chat

04:34:48.540 is greatly appreciated, thank you for the patronage, it's very welcome, thank you, Doc.

04:34:54.360 And he did a subsequent one, too, another one, Doc, thank you so much for the support tonight,

04:34:58.960 man, much appreciated.

04:35:00.320 And finally, he figured out how to use his keyboard, Doc, Giselle, you are beautiful,

04:35:05.060 sensible, and classy, may I introduce you to my half-Cuban son, Summa Cum Laude,

04:35:11.660 did I say that right?

04:35:12.820 Summa Cum Laude.

04:35:13.500 Summa Cum Laude, soon-to-be lawyer in a sweet alpha male, Patria y Vida, did I,

04:35:21.560 did I say that right, is that Spanish?

04:35:25.400 Father is life, Patria, isn't that father?

04:35:29.520 Do you want to respond to this, Giselle?

04:35:32.200 I will have to politely decline again, I'm just at a point in my life where I'm...

04:35:39.020 That did nothing, Eric, by the way, just so.

04:35:40.800 Just made more noise, okay, go ahead, Giselle. 1.00

04:35:46.560 I'm not accepting anyone at the moment, or seeing anyone at the moment, because I want

04:35:51.480 to focus on getting myself to the best place that I can be to be the perfect wife one day,

04:35:56.960 so that's just what I'm focused on at the moment.

04:35:58.960 Okay, and then final super chat, Sugar Bomb B-13 with a 50, Giselle wants the Patrick Bateman type. 0.99

04:36:08.100 Is that true?

04:36:09.240 Yes.

04:36:10.340 Have you seen American Psycho?

04:36:12.540 No.

04:36:13.540 You guys have seen American Psycho?

04:36:14.960 She wants American Psycho. 0.98

04:36:16.400 Yeah.

04:36:16.640 I think she does.

04:36:18.220 What is his type? 0.66

04:36:19.600 She wants the crazy eyes.

04:36:22.000 Here, let me just ask, maybe this is a clarifying question.

04:36:24.500 Do you like Huey Lewis in the news?

04:36:33.140 Their early work was a little too new wave for my taste, but when sports came out in 83,

04:36:37.780 they really came into their own, both creatively and artistically.

04:36:41.560 I'd say their undisputed masterpiece has to be Hip to be Square, a song so catchy, most

04:36:46.780 people don't even listen to the lyrics, but they should.

04:36:49.820 Okay, anyways.

04:36:51.360 Can you hum it for us?

04:36:52.760 Huh?

04:36:53.100 Can you sing it for us?

04:36:54.500 Sing what?

04:36:55.280 The song you just mentioned.

04:36:57.020 Oh.

04:36:57.260 Only if you do the Gaston song.

04:36:58.720 I don't know the Gaston song.

04:36:59.180 Where's my, I need to return some tapes.

04:37:01.300 It must break out into song.

04:37:03.440 We can hum as an accompaniment.

04:37:06.080 A what?

04:37:06.880 Hum as an accompaniment.

04:37:09.240 The Gaston song?

04:37:10.640 Are we humming?

04:37:12.220 Okay, that's all the soup chats, that's all the donations.

04:37:14.720 Guys, if you want, get your last minute soup chats in.

04:37:16.520 Otherwise, we're going to wrap up here pretty soon in a couple minutes.

04:37:20.540 So, I'm trying to think.

04:37:21.920 So, before we wrap, and I wish I got to this question earlier, one of the things I often

04:37:26.940 like to ask is, is there anything dating related that you want to get off your chest?

04:37:35.200 I wish I asked it earlier, but the conversation was just flowing.

04:37:37.780 So, I know it's getting late here, but does anyone have a final thought or question or something

04:37:42.900 dating related you want to get off your chest?

04:37:47.140 I'd like to just ask the ladies, if you, each of you, were looking for a quality man,

04:37:53.200 where would you expect to find one?

04:37:55.140 Where?

04:37:55.460 I would, that's why I want to find a job and look for a man in this circle, like in my

04:38:03.280 career, what I'm pursuing, so, because I'm going to be on a certain level, and he's going

04:38:07.840 to be on a certain level, and then we are going to be, well, more compatible.

04:38:12.920 So, yeah, we're going to match each other much more if we are going to be in the same

04:38:16.540 work field, which is tick.

04:38:19.180 I agree with her.

04:38:21.560 So, you just kind of leave it up to fate, or you kind of like manifest it into your life,

04:38:27.960 or do you actually like want to go seek, seek it out?

04:38:31.100 Definitely not seek it out, more of just like fate, like whatever, however it happens.

04:38:38.720 You know, I like to ask women, why is it when it comes to their education or their career, 1.00

04:38:42.600 being assertive and going after what you want is a good quality?

04:38:45.580 Why not also in dating?

04:38:46.580 To be honest, I don't know.

04:38:51.080 I feel like with women, like I feel like me saying what I want, or me saying what I'm 1.00

04:38:57.660 like doing, I don't know, I feel like that's a big problem for certain people.

04:39:02.000 Do you feel like that's a masculine quality, like it's just something that, that's what

04:39:05.220 I'm assuming you would say about that?

04:39:06.700 I just, from my understanding with relationships, that if one person is going to be the dominant

04:39:12.300 person, and if you are an aggressor in a relationship, then you're taking that dominant

04:39:17.880 role away from your male partner, and then your male partner is not going to be giving

04:39:23.840 you the masculine, like energy that you're desiring out of a relationship.

04:39:29.300 If I'm constantly pursuing men, I'm going to end up with a beta man.

04:39:33.940 Well, I will say that I, despite me being very submissive, when I know that I like someone,

04:39:40.840 I do make it evident to them, and I do, I actually prefer to make the move rather than

04:39:47.020 on me.

04:39:48.440 That's actually surprising, because you seem very submissive.

04:39:51.540 I am very submissive, however, I am also peculiar in what I want, and the certain energy

04:39:57.580 that I want a man to give me, I need to pick that out, so that's why, I guess, maybe I'm

04:40:03.920 just picky, I don't know.

04:40:05.780 What is the certain thing that you want?

04:40:07.820 A certain dominant energy that a lot of men seem to lack nowadays, but I'm just saying

04:40:17.980 that, like, in my past, the man that I, one of my exes, who I did approach, that was the

04:40:23.940 best dominant submissive relationship I had, honestly.

04:40:27.360 Okay.

04:40:27.580 Um, but also to answer your question, I think women should be told that, uh, I don't really

04:40:34.220 believe in wasting too much time.

04:40:35.660 I think the worry, at least for me, would be, even, like, when I was, uh, before I, I had

04:40:40.280 my boyfriend, um, if you just sit around and wait for a guy to approach you, how do you

04:40:45.980 know it's going to be a good guy that comes along?

04:40:47.920 How are you going to, how are you going to know it's going to be the right type of for you

04:40:51.120 guy that is going to come along? 0.97

04:40:52.140 How do you know it's not going to be a beta that just, like, got a little bit more balls

04:40:55.280 in the moment and approached you?

04:40:57.660 So, I, I think...

04:40:59.140 Chad donated $100, 37-year-old combat veteran, Iraq, AFG.

04:41:07.900 I've never known that men had such hardships to get women.

04:41:11.540 I've always been able to drop the hottest women, if for any reason, drama to my life. 0.98

04:41:17.100 I don't have an Insta, but rate me on FB Chad Ivey.

04:41:20.540 Pick his tattooed guy, Haldi.

04:41:24.020 Um...

04:41:24.740 Thank you for your service.

04:41:26.160 I just wanted to follow up on that also.

04:41:30.320 If, if women are the ones who determine that men should lead relationships, wouldn't that 1.00

04:41:34.520 mean that women are really the ones in charge? 1.00

04:41:37.200 Um...

04:41:37.720 Uh, you know, in Russia we say men is the head and women are the neck. 0.81

04:41:42.580 Correct.

04:41:43.320 So...

04:41:43.760 Wherever the neck turns, the head looks.

04:41:46.300 How can men lead if it's by women's terms? 1.00

04:41:48.800 And, sorry, and if everyone wants men to lead, is it any wonder why most leadership positions

04:41:54.200 are held by men?

04:41:56.160 There's, there's a lot in there.

04:41:58.960 Which part would you like?

04:41:59.840 Uh, the first part.

04:42:00.760 Basically, how can men lead by, if it's by women's terms? 0.96

04:42:03.480 I don't think it's by women's terms. 0.97

04:42:05.240 I think there should be like a give and take, right?

04:42:08.020 Like, uh, like for example, the submission, right?

04:42:10.500 I personally believe that both partners should be submitting both to each other, to their relationship,

04:42:16.120 to, you know, growing and getting better together.

04:42:18.420 So, uh, no, I don't think that it should be, um...

04:42:22.700 And did you want to answer that second, that last part?

04:42:24.940 Just basically, if everyone thinks that men should, you know, lead relationships, is it any wonder

04:42:30.320 why men also tend to be in a lot of leadership positions just in society?

04:42:34.960 Do you think there's a correlation there?

04:42:36.180 Oh, for sure, there's a correlation.

04:42:38.060 There's a lot of, I feel like, arguments that we don't have time to go into, like, biologically,

04:42:41.900 like why women might choose to not take certain leadership positions, you know, or why men would,

04:42:47.800 you know, stuff like that.

04:42:48.680 Uh, but, yeah, absolutely, it's, it correlates, but I also, as I said, I do think women should step up, 0.98

04:42:55.420 especially when it comes to choosing the men that they want.

04:42:58.860 Fair.

04:43:00.300 Okay, uh, we're good on super chats, I think.

04:43:03.120 We're good on, oh, okay, I'll read this really quick.

04:43:05.640 Puffy Vegas, 50, I'm gonna rate every girl, 8, 6, 7, 6, 6, 7, 5, 7, 7.

04:43:14.160 Which, is it this way, is it that way?

04:43:16.360 Yeah, that way.

04:43:16.980 Okay.

04:43:17.900 Oh, yeah, definitely.

04:43:18.420 Puffy Vegas, thank you for the, uh, what is your, what is going on in your profile photo?

04:43:25.620 What the?

04:43:26.740 Oh, I know, I know him.

04:43:28.000 Oh, that's your homie? 1.00

04:43:28.820 Yeah.

04:43:29.460 Rock and roll.

04:43:30.240 And I think we're good here with, uh, Streamlabs, too.

04:43:33.440 Uh, okay.

04:43:35.500 Lawyer girl.

04:43:36.600 Except on drugs, why am I on drugs?

04:43:39.820 All right.

04:43:40.760 Uh, let me shout out the Twitch people, then we're gonna wrap here, and then I'm gonna rate, we're gonna rate someone on Twitch, I guess.

04:43:46.220 I'm trying to figure out how to do that.

04:43:48.420 Yeah, oh my god, Faith, thank you for the, uh, raid, uh, appreciate it, I know it was a while ago, I know most people on Twitch are, like, shouting it out as soon as they get a raid, but we're just doing it a little differently since we're primarily on YouTube.

04:43:59.160 Thank you, man, appreciate it.

04:44:01.100 Robo, Robert, Jesus, I can't speak anymore.

04:44:03.940 Okay, Robert, think for the prime.

04:44:06.280 Fura, fur, man, I don't know, think for the prime.

04:44:10.640 Think for the bits, guys.

04:44:12.040 Uh, zombie, think for the follow.

04:44:14.280 Keck, think for the follow.

04:44:15.800 Uh, three, Sparta, Kush. 0.97

04:44:18.580 Is that like a weed strain?

04:44:19.680 Think of the follow.

04:44:20.160 Uh, guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever, drop us a follow, drop us a prime sub on your way out of the live stream tonight.

04:44:27.940 Uh, like I said, if you have Amazon Prime, you link it to your Twitch, quick, free, easy way to support the show every single month.

04:44:32.620 Thank you for all the follows, guys.

04:44:33.880 Thank you for all the prompts tonight.

04:44:34.800 Thank you, everyone, for the super chats and donations.

04:44:36.660 Really appreciate it.

04:44:37.360 Um, and I, I'm trying to think, are we going to, one last video, do we do a tape video?

04:44:44.240 We could do a tape video, let's do a tape video and then we'll wrap.

04:44:46.900 Um, anyone, anyone else, final thoughts, last chance, speak now?

04:44:51.320 Oh, the ketchup packet, Kelly. 0.99

04:44:53.920 Shoot it. 1.00

04:44:55.080 Me? 1.00

04:44:55.640 Yeah, do it, Kelly.

04:44:56.900 No, I hate ketchup.

04:44:58.780 Huh?

04:44:59.420 I hate ketchup.

04:45:00.280 You don't like ketchup?

04:45:01.040 I haven't eaten a drop of ketchup since I was like three years old.

04:45:03.460 All the more reason to do it right now when you're live in front of, like, 5,000 people.

04:45:08.540 I'll do it, but they've got to donate $500.

04:45:11.860 $500 this late in the game?

04:45:13.720 That's it.

04:45:14.140 It could, hey.

04:45:15.560 I'll do it.

04:45:16.220 She's, she'll do it.

04:45:17.660 Well, how would, how would you do it?

04:45:20.260 Would you, like, can you do a pour?

04:45:22.000 Uh, yeah.

04:45:23.620 I don't know, I'm not going to hand swipe that to do that, but.

04:45:26.620 Okay, all right, 500 guys and she will eat. 0.99

04:45:29.560 Can, can you pass the ketchup packet over here, Kelly?

04:45:31.620 Oh, okay.

04:45:32.240 So I can hold it up for the camera.

04:45:33.940 Yeah, so, uh, here's the ketchup packet, Heinz, tomato ketchup.

04:45:40.420 It's simply, so no artificial sweeteners.

04:45:43.400 So, guys, it's, I guess, a slightly healthier version of the.

04:45:47.600 Giselle, do you just want to do, like, a two-for-two thing, or what's that?

04:45:51.240 If you want.

04:45:52.300 So you'll do it for 500.

04:45:53.720 How much, is this a bidding war?

04:45:56.140 How much will you, I guess you're bidding for lower, I guess.

04:46:00.540 What's the minimum?

04:46:02.760 Anybody will do it for, like, 10 bucks?

04:46:03.940 If someone did it for another 100.

04:46:06.420 You'll do it, Xenia?

04:46:07.340 No, I wanted to say, maybe you just need to tell her to do it, and then she'll do it. 0.63

04:46:11.760 I just need a.

04:46:12.360 No. 0.98

04:46:14.040 Can I just throw it at your face again?

04:46:15.760 I feel like it's donation-worthy, though.

04:46:22.380 And over here, she says 500.

04:46:25.240 Well, Eric, can you, let me actually look at the tape videos that we have available to us,

04:46:29.700 and then we'll watch a video, two minutes, get your reaction, then we're going to wrap.

04:46:35.300 Forty minutes later, okay.

04:46:37.000 Where's the videos?

04:46:38.840 Oh, here we go.

04:46:39.520 Hold on.

04:46:39.740 Let's see, what was the topic?

04:46:42.800 Okay, we could talk about, we didn't really talk about that.

04:46:45.580 Stephen Catter.

04:46:46.380 I don't know.

04:46:47.460 Tate.

04:46:47.920 What's that?

04:46:50.020 Stephen Catter.

04:46:51.980 Yeah.

04:46:52.320 There's a short one called Tate to Submissive.

04:46:56.460 We haven't reacted to that one in a long time.

04:46:58.680 There's a Tate folder.

04:47:00.520 Yeah, it's in the Tate folder.

04:47:01.780 Or in that folder.

04:47:03.100 In the videos folder, in the podcast folder.

04:47:06.120 How much for Giselle to eat a popsicle? 1.00

04:47:10.800 I have like a cake.

04:47:11.880 Do you want to just start munching on some cake, do you?

04:47:14.520 He just likes to watch her eat. 1.00

04:47:16.120 What the fuck? 1.00

04:47:16.720 No, I'm just like, she looks hungry. 1.00

04:47:18.540 We want Giselle muckbanks. 1.00

04:47:19.500 I'm considering it.

04:47:20.300 Okay. 1.00

04:47:20.700 What the fuck? 1.00

04:47:21.320 Whatever podcast is going to have a spinoff, Giselle muckbanks. 1.00

04:47:24.120 Yeah, it's in the works.

04:47:26.300 It's going to be a popular segment.

04:47:29.320 Did you find it, Eric?

04:47:30.100 Eric.

04:47:33.260 Should we just do 100 for Giselle?

04:47:36.120 To eat the ketchup.

04:47:37.240 Actually, for Kelly to eat the ketchup, right?

04:47:40.860 What?

04:47:41.280 100 bucks in my pocket for you to consume this ketchup packet.

04:47:47.100 In your pocket?

04:47:47.640 In my pocket.

04:47:48.560 Because you're nice like that.

04:47:49.860 Like, you're looking out for me.

04:47:50.800 Come on, Kelly.

04:47:51.920 Hold on, hold on.

04:47:52.600 I'm not yet.

04:47:53.100 There you go.

04:47:54.480 Dude, I have not.

04:47:55.660 I hate ketchup.

04:47:57.540 But that's almost why, like, Giselle already had one.

04:47:59.820 You have not eaten ketchup since you were three.

04:48:02.640 How old are you?

04:48:03.120 You're 21.

04:48:04.020 That's like two decades, son, with zero ketchup.

04:48:07.100 I know.

04:48:07.240 I hate it.

04:48:08.140 Like, when I make my sandwich for my boyfriend, like, I can't even pour the ketchup on it.

04:48:12.620 You can't even be around ketchup?

04:48:14.160 I can eat it.

04:48:14.680 It's just like...

04:48:15.380 I can just eat it. 1.00

04:48:15.860 She's like, hurry this shit up. 1.00

04:48:17.160 Like, yeah. 1.00

04:48:18.040 I can just eat it so we can go to the next topic.

04:48:20.520 Well, but I'm kind of, like, kind of dug in with Kelly here because she hasn't had ketchup

04:48:25.920 since, like, the Bush administration.

04:48:28.440 Can I have some water?

04:48:30.780 Oh, yeah, of course.

04:48:31.940 Here.

04:48:32.880 Is there...

04:48:34.200 Yeah.

04:48:35.040 Here you go.

04:48:36.880 You can just, like, pour that in a cup.

04:48:40.380 Is she actually going to do it? 1.00

04:48:41.580 I feel like my friends are going to, like, call me a pussy if I don't... 1.00

04:48:47.240 Let's fucking go. 1.00

04:48:48.580 Hell yeah. 1.00

04:48:50.780 That's a lot of water.

04:48:51.780 Okay.

04:48:52.280 Here, you can throw the...

04:48:53.200 Pass the water back over here.

04:48:54.960 Oh, okay.

04:48:55.760 Then...

04:48:56.960 Oh, she needs more. 0.98

04:48:58.980 Are you going to, like, vomit?

04:49:00.480 No.

04:49:01.000 I'm not going to vomit.

04:49:01.540 It's not that bad.

04:49:01.860 I don't vomit.

04:49:02.600 Okay. 0.75

04:49:03.320 You're a...

04:49:04.040 She has no gag reflex.

04:49:07.800 Rule number 76.

04:49:09.100 No excuses.

04:49:09.680 Play with a champion.

04:49:10.640 Okay.

04:49:10.840 I'm going to, like, throw to you like a frisbee.

04:49:13.500 Bro, Kelly.

04:49:14.620 Your throw is really bad.

04:49:16.560 Your aim is really bad.

04:49:18.200 You chucked the ring box, like, all the way over her head.

04:49:22.040 I was testing her.

04:49:23.580 What sports did you play in high school? 1.00

04:49:25.000 I need a girl with, like, good fucking reflexes. 1.00

04:49:27.860 What sports did you play in high school? 1.00

04:49:28.580 I wrestled.

04:49:29.440 Yeah.

04:49:29.600 I didn't play any ball sports.

04:49:30.800 First off, you don't play wrestling.

04:49:33.680 You do wrestling.

04:49:34.520 The only sport that you don't play, you do.

04:49:37.060 But, unfortunately, I'm not good with handling balls.

04:49:44.180 Your hand-eye coordination is a bit off. 0.98

04:49:45.860 Or shooting.

04:49:46.240 It's a bit off. 0.50

04:49:47.180 But wrestling, I can touch a man's body all over the place.

04:49:51.020 Okay.

04:49:51.500 Okay.

04:49:52.400 Wow.

04:49:53.520 Yeah.

04:49:54.060 JV, what's up?

04:49:55.300 Junior varsity, let's go.

04:49:58.520 All right.

04:49:59.100 Let's go, Kelly.

04:49:59.940 Nobody even sent $100.

04:50:02.500 I don't know if anyone's going to do it.

04:50:05.780 For free?

04:50:07.220 She's going to?

04:50:08.300 Anybody?

04:50:10.440 Is this, are we abusing?

04:50:13.720 Am I abusing the chat a little bit?

04:50:18.580 Is this?

04:50:20.420 Abusive?

04:50:21.400 No, I'm like, I mean, I'm being a bit facetious.

04:50:23.880 But is this, am I abusing the chat a little bit?

04:50:28.220 So do you want to just, just shoot it? 1.00

04:50:30.360 Otherwise, Zenya's going to fucking rip it out of your hands. 1.00

04:50:33.720 Yeah, because I'm so hungry already. 0.99

04:50:35.780 She's starving.

04:50:36.420 It's like 12 p.m. and we've been here for six hours.

04:50:38.540 What are you going to eat?

04:50:40.160 Do it, Kelly.

04:50:41.240 Do it.

04:50:42.100 Eat it.

04:50:42.980 What are you going to eat?

04:50:44.200 In-N-Out.

04:50:44.640 Oh, yeah, nice.

04:50:45.800 You smelled it?

04:50:46.900 Why did you smell it, bro?

04:50:48.260 Oh, my God.

04:50:48.700 I want some In-N-Out too now.

04:50:50.060 I don't know.

04:50:50.560 I don't know what was the expiration date.

04:50:52.860 This is like, I just got this.

04:50:54.440 It's fresh ketchup.

04:50:55.080 Don't smell it. 0.94

04:50:56.220 Just go crazy.

04:50:56.860 Just pour it in. 0.52

04:50:58.220 Just pour it in.

04:50:59.620 Just do, just do like one of them.

04:51:01.280 Here, I'll do it for you.

04:51:02.260 You know what I mean?

04:51:02.480 No, no, no.

04:51:02.940 No, no, no.

04:51:03.460 Kelly has to do it.

04:51:04.220 She hasn't had ketchup in 20 years.

04:51:05.840 No, I feel like this is the easiest thing to do.

04:51:08.340 She's just like, oh, yeah.

04:51:10.900 Just don't breathe.

04:51:12.160 Just don't breathe.

04:51:12.900 Yeah, don't breathe.

04:51:13.520 Just hold it.

04:51:14.180 And don't drink the water. 0.99

04:51:16.560 Let's fucking go. 0.99

04:51:18.160 Don't drink the water. 1.00

04:51:19.180 Good for you.

04:51:20.680 Can we all get a round of applause for Kelly?

04:51:25.380 It's good for you.

04:51:26.860 For overstepping your fears. 1.00

04:51:30.920 Let's fucking go. 1.00

04:51:32.020 Okay. 0.99

04:51:32.960 I don't think, oh, super chat.

04:51:34.640 Yeah, let me read this and we're going to wrap it up.

04:51:36.080 Okay.

04:51:36.900 Wait, this one?

04:51:38.000 I started with the girl in the black.

04:51:39.280 Hey, Puffy Vegas.

04:51:39.960 Thank you, man.

04:51:40.720 Appreciate the 50.

04:51:41.880 Max, thank you for the 50.

04:51:42.980 Giselle, how would be the best way to interact with you?

04:51:44.940 I would like to get to know you, even if it is just as a friend.

04:51:48.800 I respect your answer to dinner.

04:51:50.800 My profile picture is my Twitch logo.

04:51:52.920 It is Corito, but Mexican hence Mex Corito.

04:51:56.280 Your response?

04:51:56.940 I mean, I will be at TwitchCon, so if you approach and say hello, I will say hello back.

04:52:04.340 When is TwitchCon?

04:52:06.060 October.

04:52:06.860 The end of October.

04:52:08.240 Do you have a booth?

04:52:09.900 Nope.

04:52:11.280 I'm just going to go.

04:52:13.300 That'll be fine.

04:52:15.780 Good times.

04:52:16.620 All right, sweet.

04:52:17.460 Okay.

04:52:17.980 Oh, the tape video.

04:52:18.860 Okay.

04:52:19.220 We're on the tape video.

04:52:19.920 And also, too, I worry if I'm too submissive, will he not respect me?

04:52:28.600 No, no, no, no, no.

04:52:29.860 Get rid of that.

04:52:30.960 Get rid of that.

04:52:32.160 Get rid of that. 1.00

04:52:32.700 That won't respect me crap. 0.99

04:52:34.820 That's not real. 0.99

04:52:35.420 Is that real?

04:52:36.220 You know what?

04:52:36.880 So many women say to me, you're so, Andrew, you know what?

04:52:39.340 You're so rich, but you're smart, and you're actually very intelligent, and I know you'd

04:52:42.140 get really bored of a, like, a robot. 1.00

04:52:43.840 And I'm sitting there thinking, bitch, I wish to God you were a robot. 1.00

04:52:46.840 You better shut the fuck up. 1.00

04:52:51.240 We're talking about star signs? 1.00

04:52:52.720 Oh, yeah, I'm so glad.

04:52:53.840 Tell me more about Sagittarius Rising. 1.00

04:52:56.520 You idiot. 1.00

04:52:57.540 I don't give a fuck. 1.00

04:52:58.620 Give me a robot. 1.00

04:52:59.640 All men want robots. 1.00

04:53:01.280 That's all we want.

04:53:02.400 Four wives robots, inshallah.

04:53:04.680 Put the, put the, put the berg on. 0.99

04:53:07.200 Yep.

04:53:07.500 What are you talking about?

04:53:08.440 We don't care.

04:53:09.180 Two coffees.

04:53:10.460 That's it.

04:53:11.500 It's nice and easy.

04:53:12.940 There's no such thing as two submissive.

04:53:15.280 There's no such thing.

04:53:16.260 There's, I'm never going to look at a beautiful woman who does everything I say and go, you 1.00

04:53:19.960 know what?

04:53:20.880 You do too much of what I say.

04:53:22.260 I want to go get some disagreeable baby. 1.00

04:53:25.220 Okay, your guys' reaction to that.

04:53:27.360 Let's start over here with Lauren. 0.99

04:53:28.760 Go ahead.

04:53:29.540 I think generally the concept I would tend to agree, the concept I would agree with, but

04:53:35.360 overall, no, because if he genuinely just wanted to F a robot, he could purchase a robot.

04:53:40.580 They, they exist.

04:53:42.020 Go purchase a robot then. 1.00

04:53:43.420 Yeah, go, go fuck Kiki. 1.00

04:53:47.120 Like, Kiki's a nice, beautiful, blue-haired bitch. 1.00

04:53:50.720 She's single. 1.00

04:53:52.000 She just doesn't have a niece. 1.00

04:53:53.940 But I guess it's okay.

04:53:55.880 Your response to the video?

04:53:57.820 I mean, if someone likes to be a robot, then I think it's their choice.

04:54:04.480 But, elsewise, I agree with Lauren.

04:54:07.480 I think there's something scary about being, like, wanting to, like, any of your humans 1.00

04:54:13.560 that you care about to be, like, robots.

04:54:17.160 Yeah.

04:54:17.560 I don't think he's literally saying he wants his wife to act like a robot.

04:54:22.800 I think he's just saying, like, that's just how, like, if you're continuously giving your

04:54:28.040 man what he wants, then that's a continuous thing.

04:54:30.180 Like, a robot is going to continuously do the same thing.

04:54:33.040 So, I don't think that's unfair of him to ask for, I don't think it's unfair of a man to

04:54:37.340 ask for his woman to listen to him all the time. 0.92

04:54:39.880 Yeah.

04:54:40.100 I mean, I think he just wants a really submissive woman that doesn't really challenge him and

04:54:45.840 just kind of...

04:54:46.740 Well, we're not supposed to challenge, that's not what a purpose of a woman is supposed to 1.00

04:54:49.440 do.

04:54:49.600 You're not supposed to challenge your man.

04:54:50.960 Well, I, but a lot of women do challenge men. 1.00

04:54:53.860 But most men don't want a challenge.

04:54:56.400 We don't want to be challenged.

04:54:58.380 Wouldn't you say people grow when they're being challenged?

04:55:01.240 Yeah.

04:55:02.140 When we, when I say challenge, I mean nobody wants, no man wants a girl who's going to 1.00

04:55:06.180 nag at him. 0.89

04:55:07.280 Oh, fair, fair, fair. 1.00

04:55:08.260 You don't have to be a bitch. 1.00

04:55:09.220 No guy, no guy wants a girl who, if he's, like, just picking at every little thing he 1.00

04:55:14.260 does, or is like, oh, you can't do this for me, why?

04:55:17.680 Like, no man wants to have, always have to deal with that.

04:55:20.340 I ask, why should men believe that women will submit in a relationship when they can't 1.00

04:55:25.040 even submit in an argument?

04:55:26.820 They, if they, if a woman can't just shut up and say okay, then they're, 1.00

04:55:31.240 no, they can't be submissive. 0.88

04:55:32.500 There's no, that's not a submissive woman. 1.00

04:55:34.300 Like, if you can't listen to your man and simply say okay, and be okay with that, and

04:55:39.440 that's it, that's the end of the argument, then, you know, I don't think you can be with

04:55:43.500 an alpha male.

04:55:44.220 But we hear the expression, you know, the need to be right.

04:55:47.540 No, there is, in a relationship there is no need to be right.

04:55:50.040 It's if you're, if you're in a relationship with someone, you don't work things, that's

04:55:53.580 not, you're right, you're wrong.

04:55:54.620 You're two people, you're two people working into one relationship.

04:55:58.740 And I would also add that in the relationship, right and wrong is when you are not being

04:56:03.520 good to each other.

04:56:04.700 So, like, whatever, like, right depends and wrong depends.

04:56:09.060 As long as you are being, like, on the same page, you are understanding each other.

04:56:12.060 That, by definition, to me, is good.

04:56:13.400 Well, don't we have the, don't we have the expression being the bigger man?

04:56:16.120 Aren't men more likely to concede even if they're not wrong?

04:56:18.280 So, when you say being the bigger man, do you mean, like, a woman's just, like, like, 1.00

04:56:24.840 just saying, like, just dealing with what her man has to say and saying, like, okay?

04:56:28.980 Well, I'm saying that, you know, men will often...

04:56:31.560 I think...

04:56:32.560 Or, I don't know, you think that's...

04:56:34.000 Well, I think it works a lot, it works very well in a woman's favor to just shut up and 1.00

04:56:39.460 just be, like, okay, like, you know, just to be submissive.

04:56:42.400 It works very, very well because it's going to make the man want to do things for you more

04:56:47.600 because it's, like, if you're giving the man everything he wants, why wouldn't he do

04:56:52.000 it in return for you?

04:56:54.100 It's that simple.

04:56:55.300 You, we have, women have power in their femininity and we, you get more power for being more 1.00

04:57:00.160 feminine.

04:57:00.700 You get more power for being more nurturing, more caring, more, more sweet.

04:57:04.140 You, if you're bickering with your man all the time, why is he going to want to be,

04:57:08.660 why is he going to be nice to you?

04:57:10.080 He's not going to want to do that.

04:57:11.640 Yo, can we get some W's in the chat for Kelly over here? 0.91

04:57:14.520 I want to see W Kelly or Welly.

04:57:16.540 Let's see Welly in the chat. 0.99

04:57:17.600 She fucking downed, that's her first catch-up in two decades and she's pissed. 1.00

04:57:24.520 Okay. 0.99

04:57:27.100 But she doesn't post her boyfriend on Instagram, so it's kind of like, you know, but, you know.

04:57:31.920 Okay.

04:57:34.180 Your take on the video.

04:57:36.620 I don't mind.

04:57:38.460 I really don't mind doing whatever my man wants me to do as long as I'm being taken care of.

04:57:43.660 I feel like it's not just a one-way street.

04:57:46.760 I got to prove myself to be a wife first.

04:57:50.520 Like, I feel like we can work together because that's what it's about.

04:57:53.480 If I do choose to be in a relationship, can he show me that he want to take care of me?

04:57:58.840 Can I show him that I want to take care of him?

04:58:01.720 I definitely agree with you.

04:58:05.380 You agree with him?

04:58:06.180 Yeah.

04:58:07.420 You guys agree?

04:58:08.460 Yeah.

04:58:09.240 Okay.

04:58:09.840 Wow.

04:58:10.060 Surprising.

04:58:11.160 Giselle, what about you?

04:58:12.000 I don't really have any issues with what he said in the video.

04:58:18.960 I mean, comparing it to a robot is a bit silly, but I think he was trying to exaggerate how

04:58:24.000 submissive he would want his woman. 0.88

04:58:26.300 Right. 0.87

04:58:26.720 Yeah.

04:58:27.160 Yeah.

04:58:27.940 I don't think he literally wants a robot.

04:58:30.160 Yeah.

04:58:31.400 The sentiment was there, but it was...

04:58:34.000 I think he could have worded it.

04:58:35.780 He always takes everything one step too far.

04:58:37.460 He could have worded a bit better, but I think what he's saying is accurate, yes.

04:58:41.140 I think just one thing on this that occurred to me is, you know, I think with feminism

04:58:49.000 and kind of the modern view on things, men are in a bit of a tough spot when it comes

04:58:54.420 to leading and being dominant and women following and being submissive.

04:58:59.360 A lot of women want a guy to lead. 1.00

04:59:03.100 You know, how often do you see girls on dating apps? 1.00

04:59:04.860 For example, I don't know if you're on any dating apps, but you frequently say, at least

04:59:08.120 I frequently see women saying they want a guy who's decisive, they want a guy who plans 0.99

04:59:14.500 the date, sets the date, sets the time, meet me here at this time, pick me up, all this

04:59:19.520 stuff.

04:59:21.400 A lot of girls will say, I don't know where I want to eat. 1.00

04:59:25.240 They want a guy to make these sorts of decisions.

04:59:27.980 They like that leadership in men.

04:59:29.280 However, I think women, some women are struggling with this, like, when it comes to feminism 0.99

04:59:35.520 and being told, like, basically, what's the term?

04:59:41.460 Basically being told, hey, you're a strong, independent woman.

04:59:45.800 You don't need a little man.

04:59:47.000 But I think biologically, women want men to lead. 0.91

04:59:50.700 But I think in today's society, I'm starting to repeat myself.

04:59:54.420 Sorry, guys.

04:59:54.720 Because it's like, a lot of women want men to lead, but they don't want to follow. 1.00

05:00:00.000 Have you ever heard of a notion of a brat in BDSM? 0.98

05:00:04.060 Yeah, I've heard of that.

05:00:04.960 Right.

05:00:05.860 So, what would you...

05:00:11.000 Are you within the confines of BDSM?

05:00:12.980 Well, in the question, like, the question you were asking, think of a brat. 0.83

05:00:16.820 Most people are not, like, don't play with BDSM, so, like... 0.66

05:00:22.980 Well, brat...

05:00:23.840 Okay, so it is in the context of BDSM, but it actually describes... 0.97

05:00:26.820 Okay, within the context of BDSM, I don't like brats. 1.00

05:00:29.020 No, no, no.

05:00:29.400 But it describes, like, something psychological.

05:00:31.840 Like, you can take it outside of the sexual connotation alone.

05:00:34.940 So, basically, what it talks about is, like, women, specifically, mostly, that do want a man they could follow, but they don't want that man to...

05:00:46.740 Like, they don't want to give in.

05:00:47.860 They want the man to fight, because how do we check that they're a strong leader otherwise, you know what I mean?

05:00:52.840 So, if, like, I want my man to be dominant, but I don't want to just submit.

05:01:00.820 I would want him to make me submit, so that I understand that I can, like, this is the type of dominant man.

05:01:06.940 I think we're talking about the concept of conditional femininity, where a woman wants a man to come along, and if he's the right man, he, you know, exhibits his dominance, and then he'll magically unlock her femininity, you know?

05:01:20.560 And then she could fall at ease into her feminine traits, basically. 0.97

05:01:24.540 Simpy the Simp donated $100.

05:01:27.480 Big shout-out to the raw dogs heading to Cambodia next week, the three amigos. 1.00

05:01:32.600 Thanks for the entertainment, ladies. 1.00

05:01:34.420 I personally married a virgin 26 lady, and best thing I ever had.

05:01:38.780 Smile, peace out.

05:01:41.060 Simpy the Simp, thanks for the $100 soup.

05:01:43.480 Chad, congrats on your bride.

05:01:47.200 I don't know, I'm not sure, the Cambodian thing next week, the three amigos. 1.00

05:01:54.100 Who's the raw dogs? 1.00

05:01:55.540 Not sure.

05:01:56.440 Thank you, man.

05:01:56.840 I really appreciate the support.

05:01:58.080 Final thing, if you guys want to continue, and then we're going to wrap.

05:02:00.620 Did you have a response to that at all?

05:02:02.520 I forgot what you said.

05:02:03.740 I'm so sorry.

05:02:04.160 Oh, just the idea of just conditional femininity.

05:02:06.340 Basically, the idea that the man's masculine role is static, the woman's feminine role is conditional, where if the right man comes along, basically, you know, man can't say, okay, I dress in women's clothing, and all of a sudden, one day when the right woman comes along, I'll unlock my masculinity, and I'll exhibit that for you.

05:02:27.700 But women, it's almost like I asked this question, why is it when a woman doesn't have a man, she often has to take on a masculine role, but when a man doesn't have a woman, he doesn't necessarily have to take on a feminine role?

05:02:40.220 I would argue because in the society, the masculine traits are the ones that get you further in a lot of things.

05:02:46.200 So men don't need the need to have that versus women if they want to be alone in the society. 0.93

05:02:52.900 They often would because just...

05:02:54.880 So wouldn't that mean that masculinity is more essential for survival than femininity? 1.00

05:02:59.120 Yeah, from that perspective, yeah.

05:03:00.040 So why is masculinity labeled toxic?

05:03:02.580 I never said that.

05:03:04.000 I'm not saying you did, but why is our society...

05:03:06.040 I mean, we're getting conflicting messages in our society because we want men to be...

05:03:10.440 You know, women want men to be like these hyper-masculine alpha males now, but then also masculinity is toxic. 0.85

05:03:15.740 So I don't know...

05:03:16.740 I think you and I should get some time and have more conversations because I would love your questions.

05:03:22.740 I would love to answer all of them, but I feel like we're making everybody, you know, irritated.

05:03:25.560 Okay, I know.

05:03:26.260 We can go down the rabbit hole.

05:03:28.200 Okay, let's wrap it up.

05:03:30.220 Okay, guys.

05:03:31.820 For those of you on Twitch, I'm going to send you here shortly after I get through a little bit of this outro to...

05:03:38.400 I know normally we don't do e-girls, but a couple people aren't on.

05:03:41.600 I'm going to send you to a streamer called Jenna Earth.

05:03:44.740 Go say what's up to her and then tell her she should come be on the panel. 1.00

05:03:51.060 So, guys, last call.

05:03:52.000 Hit that like button, please, on your way out.

05:03:54.040 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

05:03:54.980 You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.

05:03:57.760 I appreciate that.

05:03:59.080 Thank you to everyone who super chats and supports the show.

05:04:01.920 It really means the world.

05:04:02.720 Thank you for all the support tonight, guys.

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05:04:06.680 You know, YouTube is kind of making moves against some of this, you know, a bit more...

05:04:12.060 I don't know how you would categorize us, but, you know, YouTube's pretty woke.

05:04:17.600 So, thank you, guys.

05:04:19.040 Big thank you to the panel, guys.

05:04:20.360 I know we had a long show tonight, so appreciate your patience.

05:04:23.480 Thank you guys for sticking around.

05:04:25.340 Thank you for coming.

05:04:26.120 Really appreciate it.

05:04:26.900 You guys were a great panel.

05:04:28.600 Thank you to our chat mods.

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05:04:30.500 Thank you to everyone who's helping out with the show.

05:04:32.800 Shout out to Nick, behind the scenes, big dog.

05:04:36.600 Appreciate all the help, man.

05:04:39.420 Let's see.

05:04:40.060 Oh, any women who want to be on the show, DM out whatever on Instagram. 1.00

05:04:43.060 Guys, we will be live again Sunday at 7 p.m. Pacific with an insane panel.

05:04:49.540 Some big names.

05:04:50.340 I don't want to reveal them yet.

05:04:51.360 I try not to reveal the names beforehand.

05:04:53.740 Got some really good guests coming.

05:04:55.580 I mean, I have a really good lineup for the entire month of May.

05:04:59.520 Pretty much really a solid guest almost every single show.

05:05:02.540 So, be sure you tune in Sunday, 7 p.m. Pacific.

05:05:05.700 For those of you on Twitch, I'm going to send you over to Jenner or say what's up to her.

05:05:09.560 She's playing Valorant.

05:05:10.840 And if you can let her know, she should come on the whatever podcast.

05:05:14.480 I'm starting the raid over there.

05:05:16.960 Oh, wait.

05:05:17.380 We're ready to raid in seven seconds.

05:05:21.140 Hold on, guys.

05:05:21.980 Going to send you over there in three, two, one.

05:05:24.220 Thank you to everyone on Twitch for tuning in.

05:05:26.420 I'll see you guys next time.

05:05:27.460 I'm sending you over a rating now.

05:05:29.880 And let's see.

05:05:31.340 Last thing.

05:05:32.040 Okay.

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05:05:37.600 And I didn't miss any soup chats.

05:05:39.660 Just want to make sure I didn't miss anything.

05:05:41.020 Eric?

05:05:42.220 I think we're good.

05:05:42.840 We're good.

05:05:43.400 Okay, perfect.

05:05:44.600 Yeah, guys.

05:05:45.060 Thanks again for tuning in.

05:05:46.060 We'll see you next time.

05:05:47.300 Hope you guys have a good night.

05:05:48.240 Good night, guys.

05:05:50.080 Good night, guys.

05:05:50.100 Good night.

Whatever Podcast - May 03, 2023

Dating Talk #71

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