Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #72

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00:05:13.840 Check it out, guys. Okay, without further ado, after that thoroughly long-winded introduction

00:05:19.640 as usual, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves. So please, tell us your name, age,

00:05:25.700 and occupation. Go ahead. My name is Avery. I'm 28 and my occupation is OnlyFans.

00:05:31.980 Welcome back. My name is Farha. I'm 24 years old and I'm a TikToker and OnlyFans creator.

00:05:38.400 Okay. I'm Nikki. I'm 18 and I work at a warehouse. I'm Rosie and I'm 19 and I work at a Mexican restaurant.

00:05:49.640 My name is Ali. I'm 20 years old and I am a physical therapy aide as well as a kinesiology

00:05:55.060 major at Cal State San Marcos. I'm Nev. I'm 20. This is my business card. It's bone and the lettering

00:06:02.360 is silly and real. I love something called that. I work at PetSmart and yeah. Oh, and I'm majoring 0.59

00:06:08.980 in law. You're what? Majoring in law. By the way, you're way too far from the microphone so they probably

00:06:13.480 didn't hear. Eric, can you pull up the chat? We need to do, something's dropping. How's

00:06:20.480 the audio on her? Could you guys hear her? She was really far from the microphone. Yeah,

00:06:25.320 you can scoot the microphone a little closer towards you. All right, I'll get closer. Yeah,

00:06:28.920 do it one more time here. And while you're at it, since you're co-splaying as Patrick Bateman

00:06:33.280 from American Psycho, why don't you give us the whole monologue? I don't have the whole monologue,

00:06:36.900 but you guys ever hear of Huey Lewis and the News? Oh, continue. No, dude, I don't know. That's

00:06:42.760 it. That's all you got? I know that like, do you like Huey Lewis and the News? I like Huey

00:06:47.200 Lewis and the News. Their early work was a little too. Which album would you like? New Wave for

00:06:50.740 my taste. New Wave for my taste. Hey, Paul. That's my favorite part. Where's your axe? Okay. I can't

00:06:55.920 bring an axe. This is California. Is that, is that actually a? Dude, yeah, dead ass. Look, and it

00:07:01.040 is silly and real. It is full. Is that actually a business card though? Yeah, it is. That's my 0.98

00:07:06.340 vision's dog shit here. Look at, I don't remember this part. Okay, cool. I'll keep 0.99

00:07:12.060 that. You go to UCSB, right? No, I don't. Oh. I go to CC. Oh, what do you study there? I'm

00:07:19.200 studying administration of justice, which is basically a precursor to law. Okay, very

00:07:23.080 cool. What about you? My name is Aspen. I'm 27 years old. I'm an ER nurse, and then I work

00:07:29.600 at a pro-life clinic. Okay. My name is Kylie McGehee. I'm 21. I do modeling, but mainly I am

00:07:38.560 Michael Sartain's full-time girlfriend and cat mom. Okay, cool. Apparently, I'm the mystery guest.

00:07:45.120 I don't know if I'm Sneeko or Destiny, but surprise bitches, I'm Mia Khalifa. What's up? 0.57

00:07:50.820 No, I'm Michael Sartain, and I am a performance coach, and I host the Michael Sartain podcast.

00:07:55.300 What's age? Oh, I'm 45. Oh, wow. You look, I thought you were younger. Yeah. I thought

00:08:02.300 you were, and did you, sorry, Kylie, did you say your age? 21, yeah. 21? Mm-hmm. You're

00:08:07.720 21? Mm-hmm. Really? Mm-hmm. Okay, okay. Justin. Justin Waller, construction, real estate,

00:08:16.480 37. All right. Oh, Rolo Tomasi, author of the Irrational Mail series of books, and just

00:08:24.020 turned 55. Okay. Sweet. All right. We're going to go around the table once more. So, what's

00:08:31.680 your current relationship status? Are you single, friends with benefits, talking state, situation

00:08:36.020 ship, relationship, harem, and longest, what's your longest relationship? Concubine. Go ahead. 1.00

00:08:44.660 Uh, I'm so single, and I, my longest relationship was four years. I'm single, and my longest and

00:08:54.440 only relationship was three years. Oh, my. My longest relationship was four months, and I'm

00:09:02.280 single. How did you guys do it? How did you do it? How did you do it? How do you wake up and

00:09:09.060 see the same person, like, every day, and be like, wow, like, wow, how? Um, well, I'm single,

00:09:19.940 but I am talking to someone, uh, in my longest relationship, well, situation ship was seven

00:09:24.660 months. A little closer to the mic. My longest situation ship was seven months. Can I hear

00:09:28.800 me? Longest situation ship. Situationship. Was seven months. Yes. A seven-month situation ship.

00:09:34.440 Okay. Go ahead. I'm in a relationship, and my longest relationship was about two and a

00:09:40.440 half years. Okay. Um, I'm exclusive with someone right now, and my longest relationship was two

00:09:46.240 years. Um, my longest relationship was probably longer than four years, but I don't know if

00:09:53.900 it was five. It was on and off a lot. Current relationship status? Single. Single. And I've

00:10:00.480 been single for, like, six years. Been single for six years. Okay, we'll talk about that

00:10:05.240 in a sec. Uh, what? I'm in a relationship, and the ones before that didn't matter. With

00:10:11.280 the guy next to you. I forgot about him. Okay. Uh, and I, I suppose, Michael, it's the same

00:10:17.780 for you. Yeah, yeah, I'm in a relationship. I think my last relationship was, like, three

00:10:21.500 and a half years. Okay. Yep. And, uh, Justin, what's your current, uh, relationship status?

00:10:26.100 Wouldn't you like to know? And, uh, seven years. Longest is seven years. Is that your

00:10:30.920 current? Wouldn't you like to know, or? Not my current. Wouldn't you like to know? Okay.

00:10:36.380 Do you have a couple girlfriends, or do you keep it a mystery, or what? I keep it a mystery.

00:10:41.360 Okay. All right. Man of mystery. Okay. And, uh, Rolo, what about you? I, uh, despite popular

00:10:48.080 opinion, and, uh, contrary to that belief, I've been married for coming up on 27 years

00:10:53.760 now. Married for 27? Yeah, closed on her end, closed on my end. Okay. I think it's

00:10:58.540 going to make a comeback at some point. Closed, closed on both ends. Okay, got it. So no spinning

00:11:02.900 plates. No. No plate spinning. Okay. Got it, got it, got it. Okay, cool. Um, so, I, I just

00:11:09.540 wanted to address a couple things here. Just, uh, Aspen, right? Yep. You said you've been

00:11:13.780 single for six years. Yeah. What did you tell me in your Instagram message?

00:11:18.080 You said that nobody's caught your eye. Was that it? Yeah, there's been one. Closer

00:11:22.020 to the mic, please. There's been one person in probably close to six years that I thought

00:11:28.580 there would be, like, a chance with. Can you elaborate a little bit? Um, yeah. I mean,

00:11:34.420 I feel like there hasn't been any guys approaching me. There's been nobody that I felt like was really

00:11:42.740 trying to be in a relationship with me. I'm not on the dating apps. Um, I don't want to be

00:11:47.500 on the dating apps. They've, I have been on them before, but they were just depressing

00:11:52.500 and I hated it. And then, um, I, somebody reached out to me and I talked to him for

00:11:59.160 a little bit and then he said to me, I can't find anything wrong with you. That's what he

00:12:04.400 said to me. I can't find anything wrong with you. And then it was, he didn't want to hold

00:12:10.020 me back type of thing. That was the one guy in the six years that I actually, like, had

00:12:13.840 feelings for. And so what you, how many, do you guys went on dates or? Yeah, we hung out. Um, we

00:12:22.760 went, what's the period of time that you guys spent together? Um, probably like three or four

00:12:28.660 months. Okay. Yeah. That's a somewhat decent amount of time. Yeah. It's longer than some

00:12:34.040 people's relationships and it wasn't, but it wasn't a relationship. It was never like official,

00:12:37.460 but it was like, we were talking consistently and I enjoyed it. And it was like, um, I was like

00:12:44.600 growing feelings for this guy. And then actually what happened was I, he went out of town and I took

00:12:51.440 his mom out to lunch and I was like, I'm gonna have your mom tell me everything about you that

00:12:55.880 you haven't told me. And then that was like too much for him. Cause he was in a relationship for like

00:13:01.140 a long time. And, uh, anyways, that's like that kind of, I think it was moving

00:13:07.360 too fast for him. And so. Okay. So you, you've been single basically for six years. You say

00:13:13.000 nobody's caught your eye. So there's been no, no men that have showed interest in you or just

00:13:17.460 of the men that have shown interest. Like, like I don't, I don't get messages from people. I've

00:13:22.920 had a few guys, nothing in person. Well, I work in the ER and so there's like heads just like

00:13:30.180 trying to hit on you while they're getting resuscitated. Oh yeah, that happens. That's okay.

00:13:34.020 Yeah. Old guys, whatever. Like they make comments and whatever, but you know, I'm there to do 0.99

00:13:38.880 my job. Paramedics? Nope. Not one, not one firefighter, not one paramedic. No, I'm serious.

00:13:45.240 If you were attracted to him, you would give him your number at work. If I was attracted

00:13:48.220 to him? Yeah. Yeah, I would. But they didn't ask. They didn't, they didn't follow me on Instagram.

00:13:52.180 You said you were there for your job, but if the right guy came in, you'd give him your

00:13:54.560 number, right? Oh yeah. Yeah, definitely. So I'm just waiting for that to happen. So going

00:13:59.200 forward, how do you want to like meet a guy? Like, do you want to meet him by like complete

00:14:04.100 accident? Like. I don't care how it is. I, every time I go on the dating apps, I'll spend

00:14:09.660 like three days on it, meet a, like, you know, match with people, which it's hard for me to

00:14:13.980 swipe right on somebody, but I don't, I don't think that they're serious. I don't, you know,

00:14:21.100 at least the guys that I match with aren't serious. So who, like, what do you see like in

00:14:24.820 a guy? Like, what do you want? What do I want in a guy? Um, uh, all right, guys, let's

00:14:31.300 talk about this. Um, I love how the girl with the four month ever relationship is going to 0.62

00:14:35.340 fix it for you. Please do. A lot of people have types and a lot of things like work for

00:14:43.460 other people and it don't work for other people. No, for sure. Run it. Um, he has to love the

00:14:49.140 office. It's like a priority for me. Um, I love God. What? Hold on. Go ahead. The

00:14:55.620 first thing I'm kidding. I'm kidding. I'm kidding. Oh, your office. Show the office. Yeah.

00:15:03.240 I want him to love the office. I want him to love the office. Michael Scott. Yeah. Um,

00:15:08.400 I mean, if he doesn't, he's a psychopath, obviously. So I have some people that agree 0.92

00:15:12.240 with me. That's like a, Oh, she needs some. What? Wait, what else? What else does you

00:15:22.240 have to have? What's the criteria? Yeah. Um, the criteria, um, I need somebody that loves

00:15:29.160 God and takes that seriously. And, um, that's really, okay. And then, okay. Like going to

00:15:36.460 church every day, like Sunday. For me, it's not about church. It's about like a spiritual

00:15:41.660 connection that he has with God. That's what it is for me. A relationship with

00:15:46.600 God. And it doesn't matter what religion, if he's Hindu and you're Catholic. Yeah.

00:15:50.680 He needs to love the Bible. Okay. So yeah, we have to specify. Okay. Yeah. Um, that's

00:15:55.520 what I want. And can't be a Buddhist. No. Hindu. No, no. I see. Yeah. So, um, yeah,

00:16:03.420 that's what I want. Are you waiting until marriage? I am now. Huh? She is now. She's

00:16:09.000 underformed. To have sex. Yeah. I don't want to have any kind of sexual 1.00

00:16:12.620 relationship with anybody before my marriage. Okay. Um, but you have had sex

00:16:18.040 before because you said you are now. Okay. Yeah. Do you think that's going to

00:16:22.340 make it harder to find someone who's willing, like willing to wait? No. What

00:16:30.460 is it about now? Do I think someone that is willing to wait? Well, I think that's

00:16:35.000 going to help me weed people out. Well, I mean, it's, I mean, clearly it's

00:16:38.700 working. Oh, so I should go sleep around. No, no, no. I'm not saying you should. I'm

00:16:42.820 just saying that that's going to definitely filter out. Yeah. And that's

00:16:47.140 something that I take seriously. And I think that it has filtered a lot of

00:16:49.880 people out. Like I don't, that's not a boundary that. Why are you doing it now

00:16:53.460 and you were before? No. You don't tell him on the first date that you're not going to

00:16:56.760 I wouldn't even naturally God comes up in conversations that I have because it's

00:17:02.400 such a personal part of my life, but it's never like, are you a Christian?

00:17:07.360 Not your religious conviction. The fact that you will not be partaking in sexual

00:17:10.860 intercourse, no matter how well the date goes. No, I don't, no, I don't start off

00:17:13.460 with that. At what point do you inform the guy that that's the case? Um, maybe like

00:17:18.180 the second or second date. Like, yeah, do you really believe her? Uh, I'm just, I'm,

00:17:24.580 you know, your honor, counselor, I'm just trying to, I don't know. I don't know. I don't

00:17:27.900 think you're actively lying. I think that if he sat in front of you and you like really

00:17:31.700 had strong feelings for him, you would do it for sure. Yeah. Yeah, you would, especially

00:17:36.100 because it's going to take that kind of dude for you to want to marry him anyway. Like 0.94

00:17:39.000 he's going to be bad boy. He's not going to be like some punk that's like, Oh yeah,

00:17:41.940 let's read the Bible. Well then again, like it's not like, yeah, exactly. Exactly. We'll

00:17:47.360 cross the bridge when it comes. Yeah. You'll cross it hard. What's that? Do you, you want

00:17:51.220 to find out the hard way or you want to find out before marriage? Find out what? Like

00:17:56.060 if he's really good in bed. If what? If he's good in bed, that's what she does. Oh, I'm

00:18:01.660 not worried about that. You're not worried about that? No, I'm not worried about that.

00:18:04.340 Why the fuck would someone be worried about whether or not someone's good in bed? That 0.99

00:18:07.180 doesn't really, like, like you should judge people based on the content of their character, 0.99

00:18:11.660 not whether or not their dick works. Oh, that's right. I'm not saying it's just. Is that 0.99

00:18:16.340 something, is that something that you take like really seriously? Like they have to be

00:18:20.360 good in bed and like, it has to be the first time. If he's not good in bed the first night,

00:18:23.900 then you're just going to hold on just a sec. Mike Davis donated $200. There we go. Michael

00:18:29.560 Sartain is the type of dude to steal your watch and help you look for it. It's a seeking

00:18:35.940 arrangements paid actor. Great to see Waller, one of the brightest based minds walking the

00:18:42.180 planet. Send regards to take for me. Yo, Mike Davis, thank you for the big $200 donation,

00:18:47.580 man. Thank you so much. By the way, if anybody's curious, Eric, could you swap the angle? This

00:18:53.620 is Mike Davis here. We have, he's like one of our longtime supporters. So we have a photo

00:18:59.040 of him in the studio. That's him in his Burger King outfit. He owns like 300 Burger Kings on

00:19:03.660 the East Coast. So thank you for tuning in tonight. Michael, do you have a response to

00:19:08.420 Oh no. Kylie, babe, you're a paid actor. Did you know that? We're not in a relationship.

00:19:12.260 None of this is real. Wow. I guess it must be difficult for him to deal with that. Where's

00:19:14.980 my money? Where is it, babe? Where's the paycheck? I'll be sure to tell Tate hello and I still

00:19:21.520 have my watch so far. Yeah, still have it. Right? Yeah. Yeah. Actually, I just wrote Tate

00:19:26.960 right before this. We started this show. So yeah, we'll say, we'll say what's up to him for

00:19:30.680 Mike and I'll stop by Burger King for you. Wait a minute. 300 Burger Kings? That's a bad boy

00:19:35.080 though. That's impressive. Yeah. Yeah. Low key. Can I have a crown? Can you ask him

00:19:38.200 for a crown? I'm going to be flying soon. I want the Burger King crown. Isn't there

00:19:42.420 like 300 Burger Kings being shut down though? Like around the US? Which one? The crown?

00:19:46.740 Or no. I think so, right? Specifically the Burger King crown. I'm going to be going on a

00:19:53.820 flight soon. So are you like, are you looking for guys at Bible study or are you still looking

00:19:57.800 for them on Tinder? Because you mentioned Tinder just a little while ago. I was on Tinder and

00:20:04.100 I'm like, I'm looking for him anywhere. He can show up anywhere. Like when I would spend the time

00:20:08.660 on Tinder. Tinder's where you default to or? When I'm sad. I'm like, man, like nothing's happening.

00:20:15.800 So I go on there, create my little profile, you know, get, get a little attention. And then I'm

00:20:23.480 like, this is not how it's going to happen. Like it's not going to be on Tinder. It's not going to be on Tinder.

00:20:28.280 Like besides the apps, like have you ever like walked up to somebody and been like, Hey, like,

00:20:32.900 I think you're cute. Like this and this and that. Like, have you ever tried that? Or do you, are you

00:20:36.880 afraid of that? I think that I'm just naturally friendly and outgoing. I'm not going to go up

00:20:41.060 and say like, Hey, I would say, Hey, we, we should hang out sometime, but I would never say,

00:20:45.900 here's my number. You should call me. So you're not a direct person. So you're an indirect person.

00:20:51.560 Uh, sure. You have a question? Yeah, I do. I do. Um, okay. I was in the bathroom for this. So maybe

00:20:58.480 I'm wrong, but maybe instead of Tinder, you said like Christianity. Oh, Christian mingle. Yeah. I'm 0.66

00:21:03.660 not. No, no, no, no. Why would you not do Christian mingle? That was where the fucking 0.88

00:21:07.600 nerds are. I'm just curious. No, I'm just curious. What is your rationale? He's not wrong, but I'm 1.00

00:21:12.240 curious. Oh gosh, man. This is going to, like, do you not see the, the, the, the corner you've painted

00:21:18.420 yourself into? I painted myself in a corner. Good. This is good. Let's help me.

00:21:21.560 Okay. Look, but he's helping you. So why would you not choose Christian mingle? I'm just 0.97

00:21:26.820 curious. I think, so my brother actually got married to his wife on Tinder and my, I have

00:21:35.060 friends. I know other people that I've like had success on Tinder. A lot of girls I know

00:21:39.020 like really like hinge and, um, Bumble. I know they don't really like Bumble. Okay. Listen.

00:21:45.840 Okay. Sorry. Sorry. Sorry. So I was in the bathroom, but instead of going on Tinder, why don't

00:21:51.260 you just, if Christian, Christianity is something you value, why don't you just go to a church, 1.00

00:21:55.720 find a good man in the South? I don't know. Go to a church to find someone that you'll

00:21:58.820 like. Justin? I don't know. Or. Or. Okay. I don't know. Or. I feel like for this. You

00:22:04.760 can focus on yourself. No, I feel like for this, like she wants somebody who's also going to

00:22:08.900 like kind of match her in like other areas as well. So she doesn't want somebody like, 1.00

00:22:13.860 it's just like, Oh, Christianity, Christianity. Right. But it's been, but she also wants somebody

00:22:17.480 to like match her with like the other things that she does as well. Like what else do you

00:22:20.280 like to do? Well, no, listen, listen. Right. But it's been six years. I don't think she can

00:22:25.260 be that picky at this point. You know? 27. What do you mean by that? 27. I know. I'm running

00:22:29.720 out of time. Yeah. You're just getting into the epiphany phase as well. Well, no, I think she should

00:22:31.900 put her foot in the door or whatever and then experiment maybe with people depending 0.98

00:22:35.340 on what she likes. She's going to do things the right way, right? She doesn't need to

00:22:37.700 do anything. Yeah. She doesn't need to do anything. So what's changed between the time you were

00:22:42.740 like 23 and like 27 now? Like why is this now a sudden change for you? Well, I've been

00:22:48.180 single for so long and I'm like. How long is long? I was probably 21 or 22 when I, when I

00:22:54.840 broke up, when the like things ended, I went to nursing school and then. Have there been

00:22:58.420 guys between then and now? There's been one. One that I had. Well, a relationship

00:23:02.900 wise, but like, I mean, like people reaching out to me? One night stands, anything like

00:23:06.460 that? No. No. No. No. Even all that time on Tinder? You've never done one night stands.

00:23:11.300 No, I've never done a one night stand. I would never do that. Good. Ever. Ever. Have

00:23:17.660 you tried Christian Mingle? So why do you think? Okay. He wanted to ask me. He wanted to ask me

00:23:21.260 about that. I haven't done Christian Mingle because I. Farmers only? No. Should I try

00:23:31.000 that? It's worth a shot at this point. I'm just kidding. I don't want, like first off,

00:23:35.800 I don't really. One sec, one sec. We're, we're giving you a C, two C boosters just cause

00:23:40.160 to bump you up a little bit. Here, just pass it to her if you can. Ew. Me? Yeah. Bro.

00:23:44.980 You need a phone book. You're too short. Bro, what the fuck you mean? I'm 6'5". Clearly.

00:23:49.460 It still looks like she's sitting down. There we go. Okay, cool. Christian Mingle.

00:23:54.320 I'm sort of melting into the seat now. So are we trying to fix this problem for you? Yeah,

00:23:58.520 let's do it. Okay, cool. You don't know what the fuck you want. So let's start right there.

00:24:01.780 Oh, okay. All right. You clearly don't know what you want. You're not going to know until

00:24:03.980 it slaps you in the face. That's good. That can happen. I think that you should date guys 0.98

00:24:06.740 and run around telling them you're not going to sleep with them. It's probably not going

00:24:09.700 to help, but. Because I do agree with her that sex is going to matter to you. You say

00:24:14.080 it doesn't matter, but like. No, I didn't say it didn't matter to me. Yeah, well. No, she. You looked me in the

00:24:19.360 issue. And you told me. And I said. Right. It didn't matter. I said. She said. She said

00:24:23.780 it. Why would anybody. It would not matter. She said it. Yeah, it matters. I think that

00:24:27.060 that's really. I think that that's really important. Jesus Christ. Why do you think

00:24:31.320 that's the. Why it doesn't matter? I don't even know what the fuck I said 30 seconds ago.

00:24:34.700 Speaking of the mic. Okay. Okay. Okay. What did I say? What did I say? You said that sex 0.99

00:24:38.140 doesn't matter because you're going to judge based on character. You should base. Yeah. You should

00:24:41.740 judge based on character. Like what makes you say that you're good at sex? You know? Well, my thing is like,

00:24:47.120 like, yeah, sure. Sexuality has a lot to do with. Well, somewhat to do with compatibility,

00:24:53.080 but you should really base someone like base your judgments on whether or not someone's

00:24:57.520 good. You know, whether or not someone makes you laugh, whether or not blah, blah, blah,

00:25:00.840 blah, blah, blah. I don't know. Maybe you're not too familiar with that. Maybe I'm not too

00:25:03.880 familiar with that. Perfect is boring. I want to say it later. People in relationships because

00:25:09.340 they're attracted, not because they're perfect. My thing is when she had first when she had 0.91

00:25:12.920 first dated that, she didn't say that all she was looking for was sex. She didn't say 0.86

00:25:18.000 that. She was just saying that if he, like, for example, if he has a two-inch shirt and

00:25:23.040 it's not pleasuring her and it's like, come on now. Here we go. All right. Now we're off

00:25:27.060 to the right. But, but, but, but look, look, but, but look, look, if he had money, you guys

00:25:31.000 would be all over him, wouldn't you? No. Okay. But would you? No. No. Okay. Then why are you

00:25:34.960 going to know why? You want to know why? You know what I mean? Because I make my own money and

00:25:38.200 I don't need a guy to be there in my life when I, like, what? Justin, what do you think

00:25:43.580 of that? Which is why you'll be alone the rest of your life. I know, but you know what?

00:25:46.680 No, that's not true. Straight, straight into the mic, please. You want to know why? Because

00:25:50.840 I need a guy that I know will have my back. Just like some kind of Bonnie and Clyde thing.

00:25:56.340 You know, he has my back. I have his back. How do you making a bunch of money help him have

00:26:01.000 your back? Yes, because he'd be running his own thing. I'd be doing my own thing and I'd be doing

00:26:05.120 just like a 50-50 payment. So why does he need you? And then why are you competing

00:26:09.120 with your man? Okay, you want to know why he needs me? Because a lot of people, a lot

00:26:12.080 of people feel like, you know, there's always like that childhood side in you that you don't

00:26:16.040 feel like you've fulfilled enough, you know? And if you have enough money, you could fill

00:26:20.040 that in. And a lot of rich people say they have too much money. Totally. Which is the problem.

00:26:23.460 But how does that make you attractive to a man who would then want to be with you? Do you

00:26:28.060 understand the problem? Well, I don't need to be attractive to a man because

00:26:31.320 why would you not? Why would you not need to be attractive to a man? It does help. But

00:26:36.480 then again, I've had so many exes that told me that I'm ugly, that I've told that I've

00:26:41.000 like, I have been the ugly best friend where my best friend has been kicking up every single

00:26:45.620 guy that I thought was cute. And I was sitting on the side and I was jealous. You know why?

00:26:49.000 Because I was ugly. Because I fixed that. You can change your appearance and you can change

00:26:53.840 how you feel. Your self-confidence and you wear it, people would like that. You wear it on

00:26:58.760 your shoulder and your sleeve. Like, yeah, I'm that self-confident person. Then what do

00:27:04.420 you say would matter to me?

00:27:05.920 Your ex-boyfriends were calling you ugly? 0.99

00:27:07.920 They always call me ugly. 0.90

00:27:09.520 Like, while they were dating you? 0.59

00:27:10.760 Like, I mean, yeah, I have been cheating on. I have been the side bitch. I have been the 0.99

00:27:14.520 main bitch. I have been the bitch that you've cheated on me with to make somebody else jealous. 1.00

00:27:19.200 I've been through it all. But, you know, sleeping with a guy at the end of the day, you know, 0.99

00:27:24.760 he doesn't care what you look like. I have been left for a prettier girl.

00:27:28.420 Which is why I'm not just going to sleep with them.

00:27:30.420 I have been left for an ugly what? But you know what? At the end of the day, I moved on

00:27:33.520 my own. I did my own thing and I kept moving forward. And I made my own money and I still,

00:27:37.760 like, what? I'm not. Like, I make my own money and they always come back to me.

00:27:42.200 Going back to what you were saying, or one of you, you said, how does money make you attractive,

00:27:45.940 right? So, if you're a successful person, right? Are you really going to date somebody who

00:27:52.400 is like, I'm not saying below you. Are you talking about a man? Yes. A man would date

00:27:56.300 a woman who makes no money. Yes. A man does not care. All three of us in unison. You can

00:28:00.000 be a sandwich artist at Subway and that doesn't matter. All of us, we do not care because your

00:28:03.740 money is your money and our money is our money. See, that's for you guys. People my age, I

00:28:09.660 have met guys that they don't want to do that. They want to date. If you find a guy that cares

00:28:14.940 about how much money you make, you should leave the date immediately. Exactly. And that's what I

00:28:18.540 have done. But, like, all the guys that I have met, that I have talked to, they care about

00:28:21.940 the type of stuff. Those are fucking bombs. You know what? As a female, I can't even 1.00

00:28:25.440 imagine. Because their trophy, what's it called, participation trophy generation is not interested

00:28:33.980 in being successful. So, they think it's okay to live like that as a man to where they're

00:28:39.360 going to, like, I'm concerned with how much money she makes. I don't, I've dated women 1.00

00:28:43.000 that make $300,000 a year and women that make nothing. It doesn't make any difference to 1.00

00:28:46.300 me. It matters the attraction levels that I feel and the femininity that I get and the loyalty

00:28:50.440 that I get and the relationship that I get. Not how much money she makes. On the other 1.00

00:28:54.580 end, have women judged me based on my level of success, ambition, and how much money I

00:28:58.440 make? I'm sure they have. All the motherfucking times. That's all they do. See, for me, for

00:29:02.840 me, because I have dated so many guys that, for example, my last situationship that I was

00:29:07.300 with for seven months. For seven months, I spent 5K on him, okay? So, because I have already

00:29:12.120 been through that, I kind of, I know, it's terrible. I gave her that weight. I don't

00:29:16.260 know. I told her her man was not spending money on situationships. You make a down payment?

00:29:21.360 No, absolutely. I reality checked her. I actually, I reality checked her. I told her every single

00:29:26.260 week that she kept working her 9 to 5 job, she was spending half of that on her boyfriend.

00:29:31.540 Her boyfriend would drive all the way over. Sounds like somebody has some good dick down. 0.99

00:29:34.120 would drive all the way over to her, and then she would pay for everything. And then he 1.00

00:29:40.120 would still use her. Okay, but back to what I was saying. Explain use her. Oh, we're not,

00:29:45.460 we're not going to get to that. Knock it out with her? Okay, okay. But my thing is, my thing

00:29:48.840 is, because I have already been through that, I kind of want somebody at my level or higher

00:29:53.060 where I can know that if we go on a date, if we go on a date, I can know that he can pay

00:29:58.200 for his half, or he can pay for mine, and we can alternate. Like, of course, I'm going

00:30:01.440 to pay for my side, too. Don't date dudes that don't take the whole bill. Like, don't 0.69

00:30:04.740 date a man that will not, like, I refuse. Well, I feel like relationships should be

00:30:07.960 50-50. If me and you, hypothetically, went on a date, there's no fucking way on earth 0.97

00:30:11.520 you would pay the bill. At all. Like, ever. Ever. Because it's a man's job, and that's 0.99

00:30:16.040 okay. And it's okay. Why do you think it's a man's job? It is a man's job. You just said 0.91

00:30:19.960 you want a guy that's at your level or higher. At my level or higher. No, higher, higher.

00:30:24.280 You want to look up to him, because if you don't look up to him, you think y'all are equals,

00:30:27.140 you're going to leave him. Okay, but at the same time, that would be hypocritical, because like, for you

00:30:28.920 guys, you guys wouldn't care if the girl that you guys are dating has, like, a smaller amount

00:30:33.780 of money, right? Nobody cares. Yes, of course. You guys wouldn't care, but bro. If you're asking

00:30:37.260 if there's a double standard, yes. Join the Marine Corps. There's a double standard. Join

00:30:41.380 the U.S. Army. That's okay. There's a double standard. That's okay. I feel rude. I feel as

00:30:46.420 if, like, okay, if I'm going to expect this from this person, I'm going to expect it from

00:30:49.840 myself. And if I don't do that, I feel like I'm going to be an asshole. Well, then how about 0.99

00:30:52.300 you do that as far as, like, honesty and loyalty is concerned, but you don't need to do that

00:30:55.400 as far as finances, because we didn't ask you. That's what I was going to ask. You're not

00:30:58.580 sacrificing anything. It's a trade-off. So what strings come attached with that, paying

00:31:01.860 for the bill? Like, what do you expect out of the woman you're dating? Are you talking

00:31:04.620 about, like, a first date or something? In general. Nothing. Be pleasant. Be my peace.

00:31:08.640 You know? Eventually, down the road, there's probably going to be sex, and then there's 0.54

00:31:11.660 loyalty, and then that's it. You know? There's no obligation. That's it? There's no obligation.

00:31:15.540 That's what you're going to say. Yeah, that's what you're going to say. I wish I found somebody

00:31:18.560 that would, like, you guys face nowadays. People are not like that. Look, I don't need, like, I get plenty of that.

00:31:21.700 So, but that's the point I'm trying to make to you. But are you happy with that person?

00:31:26.980 If I'm talking about a first date, I think Justin's talking about a first date. We're talking

00:31:29.580 about a first date right now. No, no, no. I don't mean sexual orientation. So she gives

00:31:32.860 you everything, right? So she gives you everything, right? How she cleans the house. She watches

00:31:38.820 your kids. She pays, you know, maybe half the rent, maybe once or twice. No, no, she doesn't.

00:31:43.400 No, she doesn't. Half the rent. Let me just lay this out. This is from my point of view.

00:31:47.240 And so she pays half the rent. She takes care of everything. She drives everywhere. She 1.00

00:31:51.480 takes you sometimes a lot everywhere, right? And you still cheat on her. Why?

00:31:56.540 You're asking us why we cheat on people we haven't cheated on?

00:31:59.020 And she also provides loyalty. Out there, like, there's tons of people, like NLE Chopper,

00:32:04.540 like Nick Cannon, who cheat on their baby mamas. 0.91

00:32:07.300 Oh, I think those women are fully aware. I wouldn't consider that cheating. If you have a baby 1.00

00:32:11.220 with Nick Cannon.

00:32:11.900 And why do they continue to hop onto the next female? Because those females don't make them 1.00

00:32:15.940 happy. That's absolutely. Nick Cannon is a terrible example. That's not true.

00:32:19.540 It's because the girls are having sex with the guys. That's why. 1.00

00:32:23.140 Okay, but have you guys ever thought about it? Like, with guys, they think...

00:32:25.140 Okay, then what about Krishan Rock? Krishan Rock was so down bad for Blueface.

00:32:30.060 That's a lot of women. 1.00

00:32:30.960 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. 1.00

00:32:33.100 These are two mentally ill people. 0.98

00:32:34.560 That is not a low value. That is a person that was a victim of manipulation of falling in love. 0.97

00:32:41.440 Why do females fall in love? Answer my question. When do females fall in love? 1.00

00:32:44.820 It has to do with oxytocin release out of the owl for someone.

00:32:47.340 Attachment, attachment, attachment.

00:32:47.700 If you want to know the answer.

00:32:49.100 Exactly. And after that point, they become crazy. After that one night where they cuddle

00:32:53.620 you, they fuck you, and they sleep with you. And after that, they're down bad. 1.00

00:32:58.700 They're crazy. 0.99

00:32:59.480 Don't sleep with them, then. 1.00

00:33:01.460 Like, don't sleep with them.

00:33:02.320 You have that option.

00:33:03.900 You open the gate. 1.00

00:33:04.880 There's street whores, and there's house whores. There's two different types of females in this world. 1.00

00:33:10.380 Uh-huh. 0.99

00:33:10.820 Obviously, if your man is part of the house, I wouldn't consider, I don't know about street whores 1.00

00:33:14.900 and house whores, and that's it. 1.00

00:33:16.240 Obviously, I see you three as housewives, and I see myself on the streets. 0.97

00:33:20.420 You know why? You know why? You know why? Because the man that you're with, that you think

00:33:25.400 will provide for everything. You sit at home, and you worry about him.

00:33:29.020 Would you like me to tell you why you think of yourself that way?

00:33:30.940 If you have pride in my man cheating with you because you think that brings you up, that does not bring you up.

00:33:36.360 But you always have to have that constant fear that your man is cheating on you.

00:33:39.980 No, I don't. I trust my man.

00:33:41.380 Yeah, why? Why are you?

00:33:42.460 Yeah, you trust your man until one day some girl texts you,

00:33:45.800 hey, is this your man texting me?

00:33:47.380 And guess what? 0.58

00:33:48.460 You're going to blow up on him. You're going to hate him. 0.86

00:33:50.540 You're going to kick him out, and you're going to start all back over looking for another relationship.

00:33:55.200 Yeah, you just said you're going to kick him out.

00:33:57.160 Us street hosts don't need a relationship.

00:33:59.600 I don't need a relationship.

00:34:00.980 Every guy that I have ever slept with, I am a direct person.

00:34:04.440 Just like how she answered all the names, she's an indirect person.

00:34:07.580 Do you know why you don't need a relationship?

00:34:09.620 Because I don't rely on that guy.

00:34:10.860 Because you have become the man you want to have a relationship with.

00:34:14.960 Yeah, that's not a solution.

00:34:15.860 That's not a problem.

00:34:16.600 That's not a solution.

00:34:17.220 You're the guy.

00:34:18.300 That's not good.

00:34:18.940 You're the masculine. 0.51

00:34:20.040 Because you're hooking up randomly with people.

00:34:21.180 Yeah, okay.

00:34:21.620 You're taking advantage of men's feelings in some way that you don't want them to do to you.

00:34:23.960 No, because before I sleep with you, I always tell you what.

00:34:27.440 Every guy that I have ever had slept with, I always lay out the facts.

00:34:31.660 Listen, listen, I don't like you. 0.93

00:34:33.560 I like you for this type of period, and we can have sex, yes, yada, yada, yada. 0.96

00:34:37.980 I will never chase you.

00:34:38.900 Do you think that's conducive to a healthy relationship in the future?

00:34:41.820 I don't need a healthy relationship.

00:34:43.540 I'm communicating.

00:34:44.180 That's why you don't.

00:34:44.920 It's clear that you do not need a healthy relationship.

00:34:46.840 I'm telling you what I dislike and what I do.

00:34:48.480 It's because you don't need a guy. 1.00

00:34:49.320 He doesn't need to find out whether he needs to fuck me or not. 1.00

00:34:52.500 I can just tell him, you could fuck me, whatever. 1.00

00:34:54.880 I mean direct. 1.00

00:34:54.960 Okay, the reason why you're attracting these terrible males is because you're presenting yourself

00:34:58.080 as a low-value woman. 0.91

00:34:59.380 Based on the stuff that you are saying.

00:35:00.180 Anywhere near terrible males, I'm doing just fine.

00:35:02.380 Okay, but the people you're like, oh, I always have to worry whether or not he's cheating

00:35:05.320 on me.

00:35:05.960 The reason why you're getting those people is because you're presenting yourself as

00:35:08.840 a low-value woman. 0.99

00:35:10.020 Your ideals are all off the walls.

00:35:12.540 Okay, and you're putting it as if like it's a, oh, girl power moment.

00:35:17.480 Why do you think he feels it?

00:35:18.800 Well, that's the way you're presenting yourself.

00:35:20.980 Okay.

00:35:21.940 Okay, and if you're presenting yourself like this to us.

00:35:24.020 You did call yourself a street girl.

00:35:25.740 Okay, if you're presenting yourself like this to us, then what do you think they think of you? 0.98

00:35:29.460 If you're presenting yourself as a nigga, I don't care. 1.00

00:35:31.960 I will let a guy, they're like, I will let a guy. 1.00

00:35:34.540 Shut it down.

00:35:35.300 Pay for everything. 0.99

00:35:36.600 I'm black. 0.92

00:35:37.480 What are you talking about? 0.85

00:35:38.280 I'm king.

00:35:38.440 No, I said you have the card.

00:35:41.340 We were joking.

00:35:42.020 I was born with it.

00:35:43.500 I don't need to.

00:35:44.900 I have a question.

00:35:45.620 She didn't apply for the card.

00:35:46.520 I got a question for you.

00:35:48.700 That is not something you joke about.

00:35:49.560 Very important question for you.

00:35:51.340 How long have you had the neck tattoo?

00:35:53.100 This?

00:35:53.560 Yeah, how long have you had that spider?

00:35:54.900 Can you turn to the camera so the camera can just do a little turn, show them?

00:35:59.300 No, that is good ink, though.

00:36:01.160 So, how long have you had that tattoo?

00:36:03.800 For about, I think, a year.

00:36:05.900 Has it had an impact when it comes to dating?

00:36:09.280 I don't think she needs help with the tattoo.

00:36:11.120 Because actually, it fixed a lot of my dating.

00:36:14.180 It helps.

00:36:15.200 It saved me and my self-evaluation. 0.96

00:36:18.280 I used to be fucking with guys that used me for money. 0.84

00:36:21.280 I was in a two-year relationship. 0.96

00:36:22.580 I wouldn't even count it a relationship.

00:36:24.700 It was a situationship of two years. 0.98

00:36:26.860 What the fuck is a situationship? 0.96

00:36:28.340 I was dedicated to somebody else. 0.99

00:36:29.540 But he was dedicated to somebody else.

00:36:32.120 There's no labels.

00:36:32.860 And so, it was a situation between me and him.

00:36:35.280 Because he was dedicated to somebody else.

00:36:37.320 And I was dedicated to him.

00:36:38.720 So, a situationship.

00:36:39.760 Wait, is this?

00:36:40.040 Who was the one with the seven-month situationship?

00:36:42.980 Was that you?

00:36:43.600 No, it was me.

00:36:43.800 Okay, let's give you a little opportunity to talk.

00:36:46.260 Let's talk about your seven-month situationship.

00:36:48.600 Oh, Lord.

00:36:48.960 Did you want something more?

00:36:51.160 Or were you happy with...

00:36:52.560 Oh, no.

00:36:52.820 I wanted something more.

00:36:54.000 And I...

00:36:54.260 And he didn't?

00:36:54.920 Or...

00:36:55.320 So, he said he did.

00:36:56.740 He's in the military.

00:36:57.860 Red flag.

00:36:58.580 Automatically.

00:36:59.180 But anyways...

00:36:59.680 I'm sorry.

00:36:59.980 Oh, excuse me.

00:37:00.800 What?

00:37:01.420 Sorry, excuse me.

00:37:02.300 What?

00:37:02.760 Wait, wait.

00:37:03.240 Wait, wait.

00:37:03.420 Wait, wait.

00:37:03.520 Wait, wait.

00:37:03.540 Wait, wait.

00:37:03.680 Wait, wait.

00:37:03.820 Wait, wait.

00:37:04.000 Wait, wait.

00:37:04.320 Okay, maybe not too personally.

00:37:05.680 Excuse me.

00:37:05.860 I'm sorry.

00:37:06.180 What?

00:37:06.940 But no.

00:37:07.420 It was a red flag.

00:37:08.680 And...

00:37:09.160 But yeah.

00:37:09.640 So, basically, I wanted more.

00:37:12.220 I wanted to be together.

00:37:13.100 And I made that clear multiple times.

00:37:15.440 All the time.

00:37:17.300 And then...

00:37:18.580 He basically had told me that he was going to be...

00:37:22.080 He was going to go somewhere else.

00:37:23.180 A different state.

00:37:23.800 And when he came back, he wanted to make it official.

00:37:26.220 Well, we had broken up five times in the middle of the seven-month period.

00:37:32.280 And I would...

00:37:33.440 I don't know.

00:37:33.960 I was, like, in love.

00:37:35.180 But I think...

00:37:35.800 I feel as if I was just maybe just comfortable with the person.

00:37:37.980 And I pretty much was just, like, you know, like, I want to work this out.

00:37:43.780 This and this and that.

00:37:44.280 I felt like I was the problem.

00:37:45.700 But then after our last breakup, and I found out that he was already with somebody,

00:37:50.580 his best friend had called me and basically told me that he had already moved in with her.

00:37:55.600 So, I was, like, okay, that's cool.

00:37:57.600 So, after I heard that, I literally just, like, all the feelings just went away so quickly.

00:38:03.100 I started just, like, doing me, saving up, just working all the time.

00:38:07.060 It was just, like, just trying to make sure...

00:38:09.520 Is that where you're at now?

00:38:10.200 Yeah.

00:38:10.660 That's pretty much what I'm doing.

00:38:12.780 But recently, I just, like, met somebody, and I have been talking to him for a while.

00:38:16.220 But I'm still...

00:38:17.240 I still kind of have, like, that emotional, like, attachment wall kind of up because I

00:38:21.460 feel like I don't want to get close to a person.

00:38:23.440 Because I feel...

00:38:24.060 With me, I get attached so quickly.

00:38:26.260 And if I do that, I feel like I'm just going to get hurt again.

00:38:28.920 So, it's more of, like, the trust issues.

00:38:32.120 Like, I have...

00:38:32.920 It's terrible right now.

00:38:34.920 So, but yeah, I did want more.

00:38:37.340 But he obviously didn't want that.

00:38:39.240 I think this is good.

00:38:40.300 I think this is going to be a really good, like, turning point for you in your life.

00:38:44.600 Because you do deserve somebody that cares about you and doesn't treat you the way that

00:38:49.020 that guy treated you.

00:38:51.640 But also, you need to see your value as a woman.

00:38:54.820 And that's what I'm trying to do.

00:38:56.080 That's honestly what I'm trying to do.

00:38:58.060 I was always fixated on this, like, I need...

00:39:01.880 I feel...

00:39:02.880 I was fixated on always, like, oh, I need a relationship.

00:39:07.440 I want somebody to be there for me.

00:39:08.780 I want somebody to have my back.

00:39:10.380 I want, you know, somebody to just, like, be able to talk to and, like, lay my head

00:39:15.180 with next to...

00:39:15.900 And you can have that.

00:39:17.160 You can have that.

00:39:18.100 That's what I felt.

00:39:18.940 Is it a Spider-Man, like, a dirty Spider-Man costume?

00:39:23.200 It's snake skin.

00:39:23.960 Oh, okay.

00:39:24.280 My bad.

00:39:24.820 Yeah.

00:39:25.380 Okay.

00:39:25.760 Just curious.

00:39:26.380 Dirty skin.

00:39:26.560 Here, let's...

00:39:27.360 I need to get everyone else in here.

00:39:28.940 No, go ahead.

00:39:29.480 So, okay.

00:39:30.140 Just kind of going back to when it comes to relationship status.

00:39:33.080 You're single.

00:39:33.840 I proposed to you last show.

00:39:36.100 So, we are engaged.

00:39:38.060 I'd just like to remind you.

00:39:41.640 That's kind of rude that you say you're single.

00:39:43.480 Bravo.

00:39:43.720 Excuse me.

00:39:44.080 You said we're back.

00:39:44.580 Excuse me.

00:39:45.980 So, you were on the show two months ago.

00:39:48.080 Is that correct?

00:39:48.700 Yeah.

00:39:49.720 Any, you know, situations springing up in that time period?

00:39:54.500 Any infidelity?

00:39:55.640 You know, because clearly, you know.

00:39:58.140 No, actually.

00:39:59.100 I've tried, but...

00:40:00.980 I've tried to go on dates.

00:40:02.480 I've been going on dates, but...

00:40:03.500 Oh, yeah.

00:40:04.460 I've been going on dates, but it doesn't really get past the first date. 0.79

00:40:09.020 Doesn't get past the sexual intercourse? 0.60

00:40:11.800 No. 0.90

00:40:12.200 I've been staying...

00:40:13.200 I have not been having sex.

00:40:14.620 Really?

00:40:15.460 I'm really trying...

00:40:16.700 I'm really trying to date for marriage now.

00:40:19.120 Huh?

00:40:19.620 What kind of OnlyFans do you do?

00:40:23.240 I've done everything.

00:40:25.280 So, wait.

00:40:25.740 What are you doing now?

00:40:26.800 This is a really important question.

00:40:28.140 Right now, is there guy-girl content of you and another dude that's up that you're selling

00:40:33.580 while you're looking for another dude?

00:40:35.060 Yes.

00:40:35.600 You understand how that might be a conflict?

00:40:38.040 Yes.

00:40:38.700 I don't necessarily tell them that right away.

00:40:41.680 Okay.

00:40:42.220 If you start serious...

00:40:42.840 So, you allow them to discover it on their own.

00:40:44.520 Got it.

00:40:44.980 If you start seriously dating another guy and he asks you specifically, he doesn't even

00:40:48.440 want you to take your whole OF down, but he wants the guy-girl content of you with another 0.91

00:40:52.140 dude taken down off your page.

00:40:54.300 Would you do it?

00:40:55.460 If I felt he could be my husband, yeah.

00:40:57.400 What would he have to do?

00:40:59.280 What would he have to be to be that high?

00:41:02.440 Like, you know what?

00:41:03.140 I think I'm going to take down my OnlyFans.

00:41:05.220 I'm waiting for that rom-com moment where I'm like, oh my God, I've known you my whole

00:41:09.240 life and I haven't felt that.

00:41:11.500 But if I felt like that...

00:41:12.920 Do you understand how any man with any boundaries whatsoever is not going to find that acceptable?

00:41:17.920 Like, do you understand that?

00:41:18.960 Like, I'm not trying to be judgmental.

00:41:20.720 I'm trying to be as non-judgmental of you as possible. 0.97

00:41:24.200 There is no fucking way that a dude is going to be there like, oh, what does she do? 1.00

00:41:28.660 Oh, mom, check it out. 1.00

00:41:29.800 She sells, you know, porn of her fucking some other dude on her OF. 1.00

00:41:32.660 That's going to be a problem. 1.00

00:41:33.680 You see what I'm saying? 0.93

00:41:34.220 Yeah, bro, unless you find a cuck like Sneeko, you're not going to find a man. 0.75

00:41:37.240 Yo, yo, do not talk about it.

00:41:39.420 Yo, yo, yo, I do not co-sign on that.

00:41:41.920 Okay, okay, okay.

00:41:42.220 No.

00:41:43.240 Disavow.

00:41:43.820 All right, okay, unless you find a cuck, I don't think someone's...

00:41:46.120 You got a...

00:41:46.920 Speak closer to the mic, please. 0.90

00:41:48.080 Unless you find a cuck. 1.00

00:41:49.140 You got to talk shit about people, you got to talk into the mic. 1.00

00:41:51.100 Unless you find a cuck. 1.00

00:41:52.340 Yo, because Sneeko's on his way over here.

00:41:53.960 The way he's just going to be talking.

00:41:55.000 He can sit in the chair over there.

00:41:56.340 He can sit in the chair over there. 1.00

00:41:57.520 No, he needs to sit in the chair next to you so you can say that shit to his face. 1.00

00:41:59.860 No, no, no, but he sits in the cuck chair. 1.00

00:42:01.820 You got to understand, you got to sit right there.

00:42:03.340 The cuck chair.

00:42:04.600 All right, but unless you find a cuck or someone who really doesn't have respect for themselves,

00:42:08.800 you might not find a good man.

00:42:10.340 You'll find a man, but you might not find the man you're looking for.

00:42:13.640 I mean, you're really pretty, honestly.

00:42:14.980 I'd hit, but...

00:42:16.540 She would hit. 0.94

00:42:17.320 I would hit.

00:42:17.820 You know, look, it's really hard because my mom tells me this all the time, but I just...

00:42:25.200 I love working for myself and making a lot of money, and this is the way that I...

00:42:30.680 You got tattoos.

00:42:31.580 Can't get away from that money.

00:42:33.380 Show the tats.

00:42:34.100 All right, all right.

00:42:34.480 We'll show the tats.

00:42:35.600 Yeah, so this is the way that I found to do that, to make a lot of money and just do

00:42:39.700 whatever I want, but at the end of the day, I do really want love, so...

00:42:44.700 So you're aware of the conundrum that you've put yourself in.

00:42:47.020 How high a priority is that?

00:42:47.820 What I'm saying is you're not being delusional about it.

00:42:49.480 Like, where on the list of things, like OnlyFans, finding love, marriage, where's the marriage

00:42:55.640 and the finding love at?

00:42:56.920 I mean, you said you want a relationship, right?

00:42:59.180 I do.

00:42:59.960 I want to find love more than anything, but like, to quit OnlyFans, you know, just hoping

00:43:04.480 that that...

00:43:04.940 That's part of anything.

00:43:06.080 Also, I think I do hope that who, like, if it's my person, like in the movies, you know,

00:43:12.420 if it happens, like I'm the most incredible person in the world to them, right?

00:43:16.180 So I would think that they would not, that they would love me no matter what.

00:43:19.340 That's what I would hope.

00:43:20.480 You know what?

00:43:21.040 You realize that's a fairy tale, right?

00:43:22.580 I know, I believe in fairy tales, and I don't know if it's going to exist for me.

00:43:27.680 Don't you want a guy that says, get off of that? 1.00

00:43:31.420 Yeah.

00:43:31.960 That would say, you don't deserve that?

00:43:35.200 I mean, is that what you want?

00:43:36.780 Is that what you're looking for?

00:43:38.060 I don't, I don't, I don't want to do nothing.

00:43:40.240 That's the thing.

00:43:41.020 Well, you don't have to do nothing.

00:43:42.720 Like, is it nothing on OnlyFans or nothing like...

00:43:44.980 You know, like, I don't want a man to just be like, all right, I'm going to save you

00:43:48.120 and then give me all this money, and then I just sit around doing nothing.

00:43:51.000 Do you want to have kids?

00:43:52.500 Like, do you want to build a life with somebody?

00:43:54.860 And that's something I don't really, I don't know yet how that's going to work.

00:43:57.780 I don't know how having kids and doing OnlyFans, I haven't thought that.

00:44:02.140 You're OnlyFans, you're OnlyFans?

00:44:04.960 OnlyFans, OnlyFans, OnlyFans.

00:44:07.080 Hell no.

00:44:07.480 Just you two.

00:44:08.320 That's it.

00:44:08.780 Just us?

00:44:09.280 I mean.

00:44:10.440 You know what?

00:44:11.180 There was somebody, we'll pull up the video really quick since it's topical.

00:44:14.400 So, you were on the show last time, and we asked if, we'll go around the table really

00:44:19.200 quick on this.

00:44:20.260 Just a question, guys.

00:44:22.180 We're going to have you see if you would date the following guy.

00:44:25.440 Eric, could you pull up Zach really quick?

00:44:26.880 What is this?

00:44:28.400 I'm going to pull up.

00:44:29.640 This doesn't apply to the men at the table, unless you would be...

00:44:32.340 Bro.

00:44:32.680 Unless you...

00:44:33.440 Okay, so, would you date this guy?

00:44:35.700 He's a very nice guy.

00:44:36.460 His name is Zach.

00:44:36.880 Michael totally hit it.

00:44:38.240 Eric, scroll down.

00:44:40.100 Yep, his name's Zach.

00:44:41.240 Bro, it keeps getting better the further you go down.

00:44:43.040 It's Jesus!

00:44:44.400 He came to save you.

00:44:46.140 Are we doing Smasher Pass?

00:44:47.620 Have you met my lord and savior?

00:44:48.960 He's got some good flow in his hair.

00:44:51.060 And you know what?

00:44:51.800 He actually looks good when he doesn't have his hair looking like that.

00:44:53.460 He's got an axe.

00:44:54.100 He's capable of defending you, so there's that.

00:44:57.400 Just really quick, we'll go around the table for the girls. 1.00

00:44:59.640 Would you date him, yes or no?

00:45:01.120 Yes.

00:45:01.580 Hold on.

00:45:02.300 Again?

00:45:02.940 Yes.

00:45:03.380 Would you go on World of Warcraft raids with him?

00:45:05.380 Stop that.

00:45:05.960 Yes.

00:45:06.300 I see.

00:45:07.560 I've already seen the episode.

00:45:09.120 Just...

00:45:09.840 Yes or no?

00:45:11.100 Would you date Zach?

00:45:12.500 No.

00:45:12.680 Not your type?

00:45:13.260 No, but we'd be best friends.

00:45:19.580 You'd let him buy you dinner?

00:45:20.720 Is that what you're saying?

00:45:21.400 Yes.

00:45:22.160 I think I would, but he should play better games like Fallout.

00:45:25.300 That's a good one.

00:45:26.480 Skyrim's pretty good, too.

00:45:28.080 I agree on both. 1.00

00:45:28.780 Yeah, dude, you follow his fucking face. 1.00

00:45:30.300 You want to see my tattoo? 1.00

00:45:31.360 I agree.

00:45:31.940 I agree.

00:45:32.540 But I haven't thought about it.

00:45:33.280 Would you date him?

00:45:33.880 It's a no for me.

00:45:34.800 What if he's down to wait until marriage or whatever?

00:45:37.860 And he's Christian?

00:45:39.020 You meet him at Bible study.

00:45:40.500 That's not worth waiting for.

00:45:41.280 He's a good dancer.

00:45:42.000 No, it's not going to do it for me.

00:45:43.820 I mean, you've got a boyfriend, so I don't know if you're down.

00:45:45.820 Hell no. 0.61

00:45:46.340 Hell no.

00:45:46.740 Okay.

00:45:47.620 So, Eric, go back.

00:45:49.280 Pull up his profile again really quick.

00:45:51.900 Okay.

00:45:52.200 His name's Asmongold.

00:45:53.220 He's like all the way to the top.

00:45:55.500 He's probably one of the top Twitch streamers.

00:45:58.020 He makes millions of dollars a year.

00:46:00.020 He owns like some companies.

00:46:01.400 And he only has 110,000 followers?

00:46:03.760 Really?

00:46:04.360 He's huge on Twitch.

00:46:05.280 Twitch doesn't translate to Instagram.

00:46:06.240 He's huge on Twitch.

00:46:07.260 Yeah, he's huge on Twitch.

00:46:08.280 I should revise my statement.

00:46:10.200 He makes millions of dollars a month.

00:46:12.360 Does that change the calculus at all for any of you?

00:46:15.460 No.

00:46:16.440 Chad, World of Warcraft gamer.

00:46:17.920 Like, he's a Chad gamer.

00:46:19.220 I mean, like...

00:46:19.740 Like, top tier gamer.

00:46:21.300 I mean, I don't see what the problem with dating gamers is.

00:46:23.840 Like, I won't date a guy unless he plays video games.

00:46:25.700 Because then we don't really share a lot in common, so...

00:46:27.480 Priorities.

00:46:28.360 Well, yeah.

00:46:28.740 Well, okay.

00:46:29.160 Yeah, my priorities are kind of fun.

00:46:30.260 But, like, I want someone to play video games with.

00:46:32.520 Like, I want someone who's actually good at Dark Souls, you know?

00:46:36.080 Like, not some...

00:46:36.860 Elden Ring?

00:46:37.740 Yeah, Elden...

00:46:38.280 Dude, Elden Ring is...

00:46:39.300 Yeah, I want someone who can get past the Tree Sentinel.

00:46:41.820 Oh, Jesus.

00:46:42.320 That's all I'm asking for.

00:46:42.800 I have no idea what you're talking about. 1.00

00:46:44.140 I'll beat his ass 15 times. 1.00

00:46:45.460 Now, does that change your mind about this guy? 1.00

00:46:47.800 The Tree Sentinel.

00:46:48.460 So, he actually saw us on the previous stream.

00:46:52.000 I saw that he saw the clip.

00:46:52.880 Did you DM him?

00:46:53.840 Did you slide into the DMs?

00:46:55.160 I'm a little shy about that.

00:46:57.100 I'm a little shy about that.

00:46:58.040 So, I followed him on Twitter, and I was like, maybe he'll see that I followed him.

00:47:01.660 But, he didn't follow me back, and I'm very shy to DM a guy first.

00:47:05.620 Because, like, what if I get rejected?

00:47:07.160 That could have been your guy, and you just...

00:47:09.220 So, should I?

00:47:10.660 Probably. 0.98

00:47:11.900 Post a picture of yourself with an axe.

00:47:13.580 Get rid of the jacket behind you, if you can.

00:47:15.740 Just put it on the ground or something.

00:47:17.840 Okay, moving on.

00:47:18.920 You're single.

00:47:20.380 Rest in peace.

00:47:21.440 RIP's in the chat.

00:47:22.440 What's going on?

00:47:23.040 Like, because here's my question for everyone else who said they're single.

00:47:26.940 What does being single actually mean?

00:47:29.160 Because someone can say they're single and be sleeping with, like, three dudes, you know?

00:47:34.640 So, like, what...

00:47:37.040 When's the last time you hooked up?

00:47:39.500 When's the last time you've been on a date?

00:47:40.940 Like...

00:47:41.300 Got after it.

00:47:41.840 You're single, right?

00:47:42.760 But...

00:47:42.880 Yeah.

00:47:43.220 I'm actually a virgin.

00:47:45.380 Huh?

00:47:46.680 Do you have the Myron soundboard where you say that's Cap?

00:47:49.160 Or...

00:47:49.420 I have a different one.

00:47:50.380 Oh, okay.

00:47:51.700 Yes.

00:47:52.320 Yeah.

00:47:52.920 So...

00:47:53.680 And you're doing OnlyFans.

00:47:54.880 Yep.

00:47:55.380 A virgin... 0.99

00:47:56.080 So you're not doing, like, porn on OnlyFans. 1.00

00:47:59.560 I'm not having sex as a virgin, correct? 0.99

00:48:02.220 Yeah. 0.95

00:48:04.800 What is happening right now?

00:48:06.700 He's playing.

00:48:08.240 I think that's amazing.

00:48:10.340 Because you probably have a lot of guys that would be trying to get after you, especially

00:48:15.140 because you're on OnlyFans.

00:48:15.660 Is that because of religious reasons?

00:48:17.580 And that sounds like you've set a boundary.

00:48:18.920 If I was religious, I don't think I'd be participating in OnlyFans.

00:48:21.840 So no, it's not for religious reasons.

00:48:23.980 You wouldn't be the first one to say that.

00:48:25.400 That's what I'm just going to say.

00:48:26.360 It's like a lot of girls will be like, I... 0.98

00:48:27.960 Oh, gosh.

00:48:28.540 I forget where we saw this recently.

00:48:30.120 But it's like you go around the table and you've got all these girls who say, you know,

00:48:32.580 I believe in God, blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:48:34.160 And yet they're on OnlyFans or they're doing...

00:48:37.340 Sure.

00:48:38.200 I try to remain relatively consistent.

00:48:40.500 I'm just incredibly picky when it comes to...

00:48:42.680 So it's not a religious thing.

00:48:43.660 You're just like, I'm just...

00:48:44.600 No, it's just a visceral sense of pickiness.

00:48:46.980 And how old are you?

00:48:48.140 24.

00:48:48.840 Can you describe an incident where it got close and it didn't happen?

00:48:52.360 And why did it not happen?

00:48:53.640 Like for you, you're 24 and you've never had sex.

00:48:56.040 So like what happened where it got close and you decided to not do it?

00:48:59.360 Because you're saying you're not a virgin for moral reasons.

00:49:01.880 You're a virgin because you're picky.

00:49:03.320 So I'm just curious, did anybody even get close? 0.82

00:49:05.380 Or does this whole idea of sex just not seem appealing to you?

00:49:08.300 And before I have you answer that, Justin, just really quick.

00:49:11.080 Like, you think she's telling the truth?

00:49:15.080 I think she's...

00:49:15.840 I think it's the truth.

00:49:17.860 Not a betting man.

00:49:19.060 I'm pulling for her.

00:49:19.940 I hope she's telling the truth.

00:49:21.180 Okay.

00:49:21.620 So...

00:49:22.100 Do you want to answer Michael's...

00:49:23.500 Sure.

00:49:25.840 It could still be for moral reasons, just not for like conventional religious reasons.

00:49:29.340 Like I personally just don't believe in biting the bullet and just participating in hookup culture.

00:49:32.980 And even though it might seem inconsistent that I'm on OnlyFans, well, holding out for me, it's very consistent.

00:49:37.880 Because I just hold to my own moral compass in the sense of doing what I want to do.

00:49:43.600 And if I meet someone I'm in love with, then...

00:49:46.720 But do you ever make out with a guy that was hot and heavy and then something stopped you?

00:49:50.360 Does that...

00:49:50.840 Or does no guy even get that far?

00:49:54.280 I would say guys have definitely pursued.

00:49:56.520 I think just because I haven't done it, it's very easy for things in rest to stay in rest.

00:50:00.420 Because there's no muscle memory for it.

00:50:01.940 It's probably harder for you.

00:50:02.920 Is that Isaac Newton?

00:50:03.740 Yes, it is.

00:50:04.360 It's a three laws of motion.

00:50:05.840 Yeah. 0.99

00:50:06.040 She just used Isaac Newton for her vagina. 1.00

00:50:08.260 Respect. 1.00

00:50:09.020 Respect, no.

00:50:09.940 He said that about abstinence.

00:50:12.080 It's in the book Principia, written in 1689.

00:50:14.660 Yeah.

00:50:15.220 So I'd imagine it'd probably be harder for you because you have that muscle memory or that like remembrance of what it was like.

00:50:19.960 That's what I'm asking.

00:50:20.880 Have you even gotten that far? 0.76

00:50:22.180 Have you made out with a dude and considered having sex with him and then you stopped yourself during the night?

00:50:26.560 Or have you not even gotten that far?

00:50:28.380 We haven't even got to first base with a dude.

00:50:30.360 Elsa, is this a born again thing?

00:50:31.740 Or are you proper, proper virgin?

00:50:34.820 I'm a proper virgin.

00:50:36.140 Proper virgin. 0.52

00:50:36.840 Yes.

00:50:38.580 Brian's intrigued.

00:50:39.560 Do you understand what I'm asking?

00:50:40.640 Like you haven't even gotten to first base.

00:50:42.000 Like the dude hasn't even like made out with you where you thought about having sex with him.

00:50:45.000 I've had the desire, but the desire isn't congruent with my like mental desire, if that makes sense.

00:50:51.000 Like I've had like the bodily desire for it, but I have a completely independent thought process of that.

00:50:56.780 I totally get that because I'm a virgin as well, so.

00:50:59.480 Stop the cat. 1.00

00:51:00.740 Okay.

00:51:01.240 Okay.

00:51:01.600 Okay.

00:51:01.880 Okay.

00:51:02.240 There was this one time.

00:51:03.600 Okay.

00:51:04.040 There was this one time with my uncle, but I did not. 0.99

00:51:07.280 Oh shit. 1.00

00:51:07.700 I can't say shit. 1.00

00:51:08.320 Like I was kidding. 0.99

00:51:08.940 It was a joke.

00:51:09.460 It was a joke.

00:51:09.780 It was a joke.

00:51:11.060 It was a joke.

00:51:11.500 It was a joke. 0.99

00:51:11.840 It was a really fucked up joke. 0.93

00:51:13.020 And I'm sorry. 0.96

00:51:13.880 There was no time with my uncle.

00:51:15.420 He's in prison.

00:51:16.500 Not because of me, but it was a joke.

00:51:19.500 I'm really.

00:51:19.980 Let's move on.

00:51:20.440 What?

00:51:21.460 Okay.

00:51:22.120 Wait.

00:51:22.560 So question.

00:51:24.040 Are you waiting until marriage or it just, the right guy hasn't come along?

00:51:29.240 I'm just kind of a hopeless romantic.

00:51:30.680 Like I just want to be in love and I'm not sure if I have yet.

00:51:34.120 And for me, if I even kiss a guy at a club who I'm not into, like I'll go home feeling disgusted.

00:51:38.480 Okay.

00:51:38.660 I'm sorry.

00:51:38.980 That's my question.

00:51:39.940 You haven't answered.

00:51:40.660 Have you kissed a guy at a club?

00:51:41.980 Have you kissed a guy on a date?

00:51:43.440 Like, do you understand?

00:51:43.920 I'm not trying to pry too much, but like you're, you're telling Virgin, we'll just call that

00:51:47.360 getting all the way to home.

00:51:48.620 Have you even gotten to first base with the dude?

00:51:50.700 Cause that would actually be a completely different story that you're telling.

00:51:53.180 Do you understand what I'm saying?

00:51:54.060 First base as in kissed a guy?

00:51:55.380 Yeah.

00:51:56.200 Yes.

00:51:56.440 I've kissed guys.

00:51:57.180 Not, um, frequently in that setting, like that one time setting.

00:52:00.520 Cause a few times I have from that sample size, like I just personally don't feel good

00:52:03.840 afterwards, like kissing someone, kissing someone, even on a first date.

00:52:06.440 Like I have to go on at least three dates to kiss someone, to be honest,

00:52:08.600 to feel okay about it.

00:52:09.660 And then has anything ever gotten further than just kissing someone?

00:52:13.100 It'd be uncouth to give you a detailed sexual biography.

00:52:15.880 You have the right to do that.

00:52:17.060 Well, my point is like, it's for some people, there's like a mental fixation where like

00:52:21.020 they're just asexual.

00:52:22.420 That's what you're starting to sound like.

00:52:23.880 You're just not interested in sex at all.

00:52:25.880 No, that's not true at all.

00:52:26.820 Like I said, I have a very strong bodily desire.

00:52:28.740 And in the moment, like I could totally see myself enjoying it.

00:52:31.880 It's more so I know afterwards I won't feel good.

00:52:34.040 Cause if I don't feel good after kissing someone, it felt good in the moment.

00:52:36.740 Then I think sex would be, you know what I mean? 0.96

00:52:38.720 A way bigger bullet. 0.99

00:52:39.920 Can we just have you pull your hair behind your, put the hair behind your back? 1.00

00:52:45.020 Your hair.

00:52:46.020 Are you trying to see my cleavage?

00:52:47.400 Yeah.

00:52:48.000 Oh, okay.

00:52:48.960 Not, not me.

00:52:50.200 Like the chat's been asking for it.

00:52:51.280 No, no, it's good for business.

00:52:52.220 It's just like, you know, I'm just like, I'm looking out for you.

00:52:54.640 Like I pulled up your OnlyFans here just like to check, like if there's anything that

00:52:57.740 could like discredit your claim that you're a virgin.

00:52:59.620 Oh, you bought all my content for research.

00:53:01.440 Well, I didn't buy it.

00:53:02.180 I'm just like on your blank page.

00:53:03.580 Cause I don't, I don't pay for OnlyFans, but you only have eight posts like hello.

00:53:07.960 But I mean, a lot of it's in the messaging, you know?

00:53:10.260 Hey, do you write your own messages or do you have someone write your messages for you?

00:53:14.080 I script the messages.

00:53:15.780 Most people go on my OnlyFans to like debate me.

00:53:17.680 So I respond to a lot of people.

00:53:18.840 This is incredible.

00:53:19.760 Yeah.

00:53:20.140 She's found a business model by like, by, by being the virgin OnlyFans content.

00:53:24.580 Virgin OnlyFans girl.

00:53:25.340 I don't really brand as virgin because I feel like it conflicts with the OnlyFans image.

00:53:29.480 The virgin thing is a relative, I planned on not coming out with it for a while.

00:53:33.500 I think you should use that actually.

00:53:34.380 I was saying the same thing.

00:53:35.720 Like you could piss dudes off and get them like to pay to debate you and call you names.

00:53:40.640 I think that's a great way to make money.

00:53:42.800 Sure.

00:53:43.080 That's what we're doing now.

00:53:44.160 That's what me, Brian Rollo.

00:53:45.960 Do you think that being on OnlyFans is like limiting you from finding the guy for whom you 0.91

00:53:51.160 will eventually want to actually have sex with?

00:53:54.020 No, I mean, it's all subjective. 0.68

00:53:55.980 You could say that, you know, me not wearing a hijab, you know, I'm cutting off a section 1.00

00:54:00.280 of men, me being brown.

00:54:01.600 There's men who probably won't like me for my race.

00:54:03.540 I'll just find a man who has congruent values with me.

00:54:06.220 I'm not going to tailor my lifestyle to like a subsection of red-pilled men. 1.00

00:54:09.660 So if you have an OnlyFans and you're a virgin and you just explained to us that you're

00:54:17.260 waiting for like some very high quality guy.

00:54:20.300 I didn't say high quality.

00:54:21.020 Oh, really?

00:54:21.680 Okay.

00:54:22.080 So what would be your ideal guy then?

00:54:24.560 High level of chemistry.

00:54:25.640 When you say high value, you're probably relating to income, height, things like that.

00:54:29.440 Not high value, but I mean like it's high enough to sort of be your ideal guy that would be 0.82

00:54:33.340 the guy that you would want to have sex with. 0.80

00:54:34.340 I don't know if we have the same metrics of ideal.

00:54:35.900 What do you mean by ideal?

00:54:36.860 No, I'm just asking you. 0.83

00:54:37.920 What would be your ideal that you would want to have in a guy so that you will have sex 1.00

00:54:41.980 with him? 0.63

00:54:42.780 For me, romantic chemistry is incredibly volatile.

00:54:45.100 It's not based on any barometers of like, oh, he's in school.

00:54:47.540 He has this career or anything for me.

00:54:49.100 So it could just be random dude off the street?

00:54:51.200 100%.

00:54:51.480 I am not hypergamous at all.

00:54:54.400 I think you're probably way more hypergamous than you think you are.

00:54:57.200 I completely disagree. 0.98

00:54:57.760 In fact, you are so hypergamous, you won't have sex with a guy until the guy is the guy 0.92

00:55:01.720 that you're looking for. 0.63

00:55:02.360 Of course.

00:55:02.820 And then if I had had sex with guys and then they were, you know what I mean, made less

00:55:05.660 than me, and then you'd say, oh, because we broke up, it proves that none of those interactions

00:55:09.020 counted, right?

00:55:09.720 Can I just tilt the microphone a little, tilt it, other way, there you go.

00:55:17.540 I think the fact that you are a virgin right now just proves a point that you're hyper,

00:55:21.640 like to a very high degree.

00:55:23.480 The fact that I'm abstinent means that I'm waiting for someone richer than me?

00:55:26.800 No, no, so you're confused with hypergamous with this idea that women are bad. 1.00

00:55:31.400 Hypergamy doesn't mean women are bad. 1.00

00:55:32.920 When did I say bad?

00:55:33.740 When did I even imply that?

00:55:35.180 Yeah, you are the one who's saying that he, you're putting words in his mouth.

00:55:38.280 No, I'm just asking what would be your ideal enough to get with a guy.

00:55:40.840 But where did this notion of women being bad come in? 0.64

00:55:43.520 No, because no one is saying that.

00:55:45.500 Yeah, but you're saying to him, you're putting words in his mouth about what he's going to

00:55:49.280 say next after you have sex and that he's going to judge you, and that's not what we're

00:55:52.420 saying.

00:55:52.960 Hypergamy is just an algorithm, it's an evolutionary adaptation that women have. 1.00

00:55:56.500 It's not a negative or positive thing.

00:55:58.080 Like you said, it's not negative.

00:55:59.240 I'm not sure if it's an evolutionary adaptation.

00:56:00.940 I think the reason women have historically been hypergamous is because they were barred from higher 0.90

00:56:05.040 education, so obviously the average man was going to earn more than them, but by 2050,

00:56:08.280 we're going to see a total reversal of hypergamy.

00:56:09.920 Hypergamy and the Pleistocene epic was because of a barred from education?

00:56:15.160 In general, you can't really deduce anything from hypergamy historically because men on

00:56:20.020 average have just made more than women, but now women are out earning men.

00:56:23.200 Hypergamy existed before there was money. 1.00

00:56:24.900 Hypergamy has nothing to do with money. 1.00

00:56:27.260 I'm just telling you, studies have shown about that.

00:56:29.020 By 2050, we'll see a complete reversal of hypergamy.

00:56:31.460 Let me explain what you're doing here is you are conflating hypergamy with the values and

00:56:39.300 the monetary set and status of today, whereas when we talk about, well, I've talked about

00:56:45.600 hypergamy in the past.

00:56:46.660 It's not a social construct.

00:56:50.120 It's not something that's been created.

00:56:51.920 It's something that is innate.

00:56:52.980 I'm using the current definition of hypergamy, which is that women date someone with a superior 0.81

00:56:57.700 sociological or monetary background.

00:57:01.600 Sociological.

00:57:02.380 Socioeconomic background.

00:57:03.000 Yeah.

00:57:03.300 Socioeconomic.

00:57:03.880 Yeah.

00:57:05.120 No, because when we talk about hypergamy, it's not just about money.

00:57:09.840 It's not just about status.

00:57:12.500 It's also about, like, is this guy arousing enough for me to want to get with?

00:57:15.540 Is he a hot guy?

00:57:16.980 Is he the dude that I want to get with?

00:57:18.360 Because he does it for me.

00:57:20.840 That's what I was asking you.

00:57:22.180 I'm not asking you, like, how much money does he have to make?

00:57:25.140 I'm just saying, what's your ideal that that guy would get in there? 0.98

00:57:28.420 Who would be the guy that would make you, the OnlyFans virgin, want to have sex with this 0.99

00:57:34.740 guy? 0.99

00:57:35.140 Wait, I'm confused.

00:57:36.020 Can you clarify your definition of hypergamy?

00:57:37.720 You're saying now that someone...

00:57:38.480 Hypergamy is very simple. 0.98

00:57:39.940 It's alpha fucks and beta bucks, okay? 0.99

00:57:41.540 So it's, is this guy arousing? 1.00

00:57:43.520 Is he sexual? 0.76

00:57:46.000 Is he a good genetic match for me? 0.97

00:57:50.940 Is he somebody who turns me on?

00:57:52.460 Does he have a strong jawline?

00:57:53.840 Is he six foot tall?

00:57:55.020 Is he, you know, got a V tape?

00:57:56.580 Or does he have a six pack abs?

00:57:58.660 Does he turn me on?

00:57:59.980 There's the arousal side of that.

00:58:01.320 And then there's the beta buck side, which is the provisioning protection and parental

00:58:04.480 investment side of it.

00:58:06.020 So what you're focusing on right now is just that one single side.

00:58:09.000 What I'm saying is what combination of all that would be the guy for whom you would 0.94

00:58:13.860 want to have sex with? 0.97

00:58:15.240 Right. 0.81

00:58:15.660 And I don't think I can give you, like, on paper, a list of traits.

00:58:19.480 Like, I personally don't value height.

00:58:21.020 I don't value physique.

00:58:22.280 For me, like I said, romantic chemistry is incredibly volatile.

00:58:24.840 So the last guy you were with was, what, shorter than you?

00:58:28.540 Tall than you?

00:58:29.120 I'm not going to get into details of it, but I've been attracted to guys who are my height

00:58:32.120 or shorter.

00:58:32.780 I genuinely don't care.

00:58:33.840 For me, I'm hypergamous maybe in the sense that I want someone with equal intelligence.

00:58:38.120 But again, that's not a bad thing.

00:58:39.920 That's not a bad thing.

00:58:40.540 That's not a bad thing.

00:58:41.020 I haven't implied it's bad.

00:58:42.140 I'm just rejecting the premise that I subscribe to hypergamy.

00:58:45.120 It's not a subscription.

00:58:46.260 So let's just say you don't subscribe to it, but the supposition that you made previously

00:58:50.580 was that it was somehow cultural and it wasn't genetic.

00:58:53.780 So we've put that to bed over 40 years ago, okay?

00:58:56.600 The study of evolutionary psychology, Dr. David Buss's first study in 1989, where he looked

00:59:01.440 at 37 different cultures.

00:59:03.060 In all 37 cultures, women wanted men taller than them.

00:59:06.620 In all 37 cultures, men were more interested in casual sex than women.

00:59:10.180 In all 37 cultures, women were more interested in men who were better at provisioning. 0.91

00:59:13.900 This is not a fun...

00:59:14.540 And these cultures had no attachment to radios, television, or film.

00:59:18.960 They had no attachment to others.

00:59:20.280 So Papua New Guinea, or Papua New Guinea, sorry.

00:59:22.640 And the Andes, they had absolutely no contact with each other.

00:59:26.340 In all of these ones, men on average had 90% higher upper body muscle and 50% more lower

00:59:33.740 body muscle.

00:59:34.540 When you look at all these things, these are genetic.

00:59:36.840 These things are not a function of culture.

00:59:39.220 So that's a mistake to think that hypergamy is something that's created because men created

00:59:43.540 some sort of patriarchy that created a hypergamous situation. 1.00

00:59:46.440 That is not the case.

00:59:47.740 Well, I think we were just using conflicting definitions of hypergamy.

00:59:51.000 I was referring to socioeconomic background, which is the definition.

00:59:53.780 In your discussion with him, but in my discussion, because my podcast is on evolutionary psychology,

00:59:59.700 there is no evidence whatsoever that the concept of hypergamy comes from culture.

01:00:03.780 Just like my heterosexuality does not come from culture, and what people are attracted

01:00:06.960 to does not come from culture, we've proven unequivocally, unassailably, it is genetic.

01:00:11.780 Now, there's variations within a culture what some people find attractive as others, but

01:00:15.880 in all 37 cultures, they found symmetrical faces and signs of youth to be attractive.

01:00:21.000 And average, in general, men who are taller, not necessarily six feet tall, some places

01:00:25.600 don't use the imperial system, but not always, but generally men who are taller than women.

01:00:30.680 And in all of these different cases, the men who are more competent, an allegory or an

01:00:35.300 analogy for competency in 2023 is money, whereas there was no money during the plasticine epic.

01:00:40.600 Competency is now referred to as money.

01:00:42.700 The ability to garner resources, that's what's most important.

01:00:46.300 But there's no, to your point before, let me just stop right there.

01:00:50.600 There's no science behind the idea that it's cultural.

01:00:53.520 There is none whatsoever.

01:00:54.780 Because there would be some culture where it wasn't the case, and no such culture has

01:00:58.440 ever existed or currently exists.

01:01:00.520 Right.

01:01:00.780 And you're using a very multi-dimensional application of hypergamy.

01:01:04.260 Of course, people are attracted to competence.

01:01:06.080 I was referring again to socioeconomic background.

01:01:08.660 Competence can map onto a lot of different facets.

01:01:11.220 It can mean earning more.

01:01:12.420 It can mean competence in helping you as a woman take care of you, but that doesn't 1.00

01:01:16.420 translate.

01:01:17.040 Like, I kind of want you to give a more clear definition of what you mean by hypergamy in

01:01:20.640 the multi-dimensional sense.

01:01:22.100 Can I combat that?

01:01:23.680 Because, so you're saying that you think that socioeconomic is cultural.

01:01:29.360 Like, that's standard for us.

01:01:30.880 Not just looks, not taller, anything like that.

01:01:34.000 Repeat the question?

01:01:35.100 Okay.

01:01:35.600 So, say you're a woman who makes a lot of money. 1.00

01:01:39.060 You would date a man who makes less than you, because we're, we've bled that out of our

01:01:44.600 culture, right?

01:01:45.260 Women have the access to higher education, things like that, and we can make more money. 1.00

01:01:49.000 Correct?

01:01:49.600 Yeah, we're seeing, like, a reversal of hypergamy, at least in the socioeconomic sense, yeah.

01:01:53.640 So, and that's your standard for yourself.

01:01:56.260 Like, you think, like, you would not date a man who makes more than you, whatever.

01:01:59.520 Oh, it's not that I wouldn't.

01:02:00.560 I'm saying that's not, like, the cardinal reason I'm attracted to someone is not based

01:02:04.340 on wealth.

01:02:04.840 So, you don't think it should be?

01:02:06.420 Like, I don't know about should be, I don't know about adding morality to it.

01:02:10.260 I think you should do whatever you're, you know what I mean?

01:02:12.820 You should pursue what you're attracted to.

01:02:13.720 What is the cardinal reason for you to be attracted to somebody?

01:02:16.860 That volatile sense of chemistry.

01:02:18.940 And that's usually, what does that mean?

01:02:20.060 Usually it's based on a shared sense of intelligence or humor.

01:02:23.240 And if I find that in any person, for me to meet someone, I think, yeah.

01:02:26.480 So, the guy could be 400 pounds, and you would still find him sexually attractive

01:02:30.160 because he's as funny as Danny DeVito or Jim Carrey.

01:02:34.300 Well, funny and smart.

01:02:35.360 Isn't that what you're saying?

01:02:36.260 Yeah.

01:02:36.820 For me, it's about wits and humor.

01:02:38.520 I see.

01:02:38.920 So, all the fat guys in the audience right now are like, man, I just got to brush up

01:02:42.240 on my stand-up routine.

01:02:43.880 I have found overweight men who I'm very attracted to because I find them funny.

01:02:48.360 And some people might say that they develop that humor to kind of make up for their looks.

01:02:51.700 You realize they're looking at your Instagram right now.

01:02:54.440 What?

01:02:54.680 You realize the chat's probably digging up your Instagram right now.

01:02:57.340 Good for them.

01:02:58.540 But, yeah.

01:02:59.940 Okay, that was a bunch of word salad.

01:03:01.740 Can we talk about something else?

01:03:03.120 You had to get closer to the microphone.

01:03:04.280 Even I can see that you're too far away.

01:03:05.640 That was a bunch of word salad.

01:03:07.420 I think you're really intelligent, by the way.

01:03:09.000 But can we talk about something else, bro?

01:03:10.780 We've been on this for like 20 minutes straight.

01:03:13.220 I think we heard every third word you said.

01:03:15.720 Can we talk about something else because we've been on this for 20 minutes straight.

01:03:18.900 Did you hear that one, Michael?

01:03:19.960 Okay, here.

01:03:23.000 We're going to shout out everyone on Twitch.

01:03:25.600 Eric, could you pull up the Twitch?

01:03:28.340 Jeremy, we'll get to that in a sec.

01:03:29.560 Thank you, man.

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01:04:18.560 And then let's get a couple soup chats in while we have it.

01:04:21.160 So we have Karma here.

01:04:23.020 I'm going to re-trigger this.

01:04:25.360 Karma, I told you to leave the business card in your pocket, Nev. 0.99

01:04:29.040 God damn it. 0.99

01:04:30.380 What? 0.99

01:04:31.200 Huh? 1.00

01:04:31.780 Oh, shit. 0.99

01:04:32.520 Sorry. 0.99

01:04:32.840 My bad, bro.

01:04:33.920 Word.

01:04:34.680 Okay.

01:04:35.320 And then that's going to take a little second here to pass through.

01:04:38.660 I've got to wait for it here.

01:04:40.140 We have John Galt with the $101.

01:04:45.240 Thank you, John Galt.

01:04:47.480 I'm going to have you read this one, okay?

01:04:49.280 Go ahead.

01:04:49.700 All right.

01:04:50.320 So Rolo Tomasi tells men to get vasectomies, avoid marriage, and family creation.

01:04:55.940 Terrible advice. 0.99

01:04:57.300 Manosphere is equally as dysfunctional as the blue-haired feminists who hate men and childless cat ladies. 1.00

01:05:02.180 Look to Matt Walsh or Ben Shapiro for better advice. 0.97

01:05:04.820 Your response?

01:05:05.700 Yeah, well, first off, that tweet was, let's just say, tongue-in-cheek, first of all.

01:05:11.520 And then second of all, if I told you to go jump off a cliff, are you going to go do that?

01:05:16.480 If I told you that the fastest way to make a million dollars was to steal it, would you disagree with that?

01:05:22.720 If I told you, see, the thing is, the problem that I have with Twitter and a lot of the social media stuff that's going on right now is you can't open your mouth on social media without it being advice.

01:05:33.760 You can't go on a show, you can't go on Instagram, you can't go on Twitter without people saying, you're giving advice, you're trying to influence me to do something, rather than actually having some sort of thought experiment.

01:05:45.000 Now, when I was talking about that, when I brought that up, I was bringing up the idea of what makes a high-value guy and what is the quickest way or the quickest path from point A to point B.

01:05:54.940 Okay, so would that not be, these days, simply don't have, don't get married, do not be concerned with family creation, focus on your, focus on your, you know, your mission, whatever that happens to be.

01:06:07.720 And yes, I said, get a vasectomy.

01:06:09.580 And I'll tell you what's funny is when people come at me and they say, oh, Rolla thinks that we should all go and sterilize ourselves.

01:06:15.480 And I'm not telling you to do that, okay? 0.99

01:06:18.160 I'm not saying go get a fucking vasectomy, okay? 0.99

01:06:20.720 If that's what you want to do, fine, go ahead and do that. 0.99

01:06:23.840 But it's not, I'm not influencing, I'm just saying, look, this is the fastest way for you to protect yourself from having children, if that's the way you want to, if that's where you want to be.

01:06:33.320 So, guys who don't have those accountabilities, they don't have those liabilities, those are the guys who are going to outperform the guys who are already tied down by those things.

01:06:42.600 Whether or not that's a moral issue or an ethical issue, you can go take that up with Matt Walsh and Ben Shapiro all day long if you want.

01:06:48.900 We got one here from Zentians, think for the hundred man, to the ugly 30 foe, not sure who this is directed towards. 1.00

01:06:56.560 At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you ever even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. 0.98

01:07:01.220 Everyone is dumber for having listened to it. 0.98

01:07:03.080 I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul. 0.99

01:07:08.340 No idea.

01:07:09.140 Well, well, well, well quoted, well quoted from the movie.

01:07:12.760 Well done, well done.

01:07:13.940 Billy Madison, is that, is that it?

01:07:16.100 And then we have, we have, let's see here, we have Wiley50, thanks for the hundred.

01:07:22.880 Avery, go for it. 0.84

01:07:24.080 Good for you, Avery. 0.98

01:07:25.140 Sex is something beautiful between a husband and wife. 0.94

01:07:27.600 Sex outside marriage is pointless and cannot be blessed by God. 0.98

01:07:30.720 You're 100% correct.

01:07:31.820 Stay faithful.

01:07:32.640 Shalom.

01:07:33.220 Wait, but you didn't say. 0.97

01:07:33.820 Wait, I did have sex. 0.94

01:07:34.980 Shalom.

01:07:35.540 Yeah, you didn't say you're waiting until marriage.

01:07:37.180 Now I'm like trying to chill out, but I definitely haven't done that in the past.

01:07:40.360 You said you were dating for marriage.

01:07:41.860 I'm dating for marriage.

01:07:42.840 Dating for marriage.

01:07:43.620 I have had sex, yes. 0.72

01:07:47.080 Yeah, you're not waiting. 0.95

01:07:47.880 You've cheated on Brian.

01:07:48.940 Yeah.

01:07:49.480 You've cheated on Brian.

01:07:50.680 No, no, not since I've seen you.

01:07:52.860 Oh.

01:07:53.440 I've been a good girl, so.

01:07:56.600 All right, if you say so.

01:07:58.200 Okay.

01:07:58.900 All right, we have Roman here, CHF.

01:08:00.360 Thank you for the hundred, man.

01:08:01.100 I really appreciate the support.

01:08:02.400 Go for it, Avery.

01:08:03.760 Some of the people at this table are barely able to form a proper sentence.

01:08:07.560 Looks do matter, but so does language, among other things.

01:08:10.020 Greetings from Switzerland.

01:08:10.920 Thank you, Roman, for the donation from Switzerland.

01:08:15.840 I don't know if you're in the French-speaking part or the Swiss-German-speaking part, but much

01:08:19.140 appreciated, man.

01:08:19.720 Thank you.

01:08:20.020 Merci beaucoup.

01:08:22.580 Dankeschine, if you're, I don't know if that's the same in Swiss-German.

01:08:24.860 But okay, Jeremy, thank you for the big $200 soup chat, man.

01:08:28.540 Thank you.

01:08:30.680 Do you want to read this one?

01:08:31.840 You assume that's about me?

01:08:32.880 I'm the Mia Khalifa from Wish, in your eyes?

01:08:34.720 Yeah.

01:08:35.540 Not my words, Jeremy.

01:08:36.620 Well, considering you're related to Destiny, why don't you have a, take a shot at that one?

01:08:41.500 The Mia Khalifa from Wish came here with an agenda. 0.98

01:08:43.520 She's Destiny's little lapdog. 0.66

01:08:44.920 Destiny went on a world tour, calling them trafficker. 0.87

01:08:46.880 Shout out Justin Waller for helping men level up.

01:08:49.280 Real G. 0.95

01:08:50.440 Do you have a response to Jeremy? 0.95

01:08:54.400 That I'm here as Destiny's a lapdog?

01:08:56.020 No, I actually told him he's not allowed to watch this on stream right now.

01:08:58.440 I don't know if that's, if he is, but yeah.

01:09:00.220 You told him he's not allowed to watch?

01:09:02.100 Yeah.

01:09:03.220 Why is he not allowed to watch?

01:09:04.300 I don't, is that a Finn Dom thing?

01:09:05.940 What's going on there?

01:09:07.440 Oh, I just said, because he probably would have watched it.

01:09:10.180 Because you want him to watch it?

01:09:11.840 Huh?

01:09:12.160 Why would you not want him to watch it?

01:09:13.740 Yeah.

01:09:14.160 I don't know.

01:09:14.520 We're friends.

01:09:15.080 I was like, I want to see how I do first.

01:09:17.020 What?

01:09:17.740 I don't really follow.

01:09:18.620 It's not that deep.

01:09:19.160 I was more interested in your response to the Wish Mia Khalifa thing.

01:09:23.760 If you have thought, like a rebuttal, maybe more like a Walmart version.

01:09:29.160 I've heard every marketplace under the sun.

01:09:30.440 Do you want to shoot shots back at Jeremy?

01:09:32.860 You want to say something back to Jeremy?

01:09:34.300 Pearl Jam.

01:09:34.460 I'm flattered that he paid $200 when he only needed to pay $100 to get your attention,

01:09:38.160 right?

01:09:40.340 That's more directed than me.

01:09:41.860 That's more directed than me.

01:09:42.760 Can a porn star be of Middle Eastern descent and not be Mia Khalifa? 1.00

01:09:46.820 I think she's kind of like got the monopoly on that shit. 1.00

01:09:49.320 She's ruined the archetype. 1.00

01:09:50.100 You know what I'm saying?

01:09:50.640 It's like one art type.

01:09:51.700 Other people, there's a lot of people who look like that.

01:09:54.800 And then he also said something to Justin here.

01:09:57.940 Shout out Justin Waller for helping men level up Real G.

01:10:00.580 Do you want to say anything to Jeremy, Justin?

01:10:02.340 Yeah, man.

01:10:02.600 I appreciate it.

01:10:03.080 Thank you very much.

01:10:03.740 Thank you, Jeremy.

01:10:04.440 I appreciate it.

01:10:05.480 And then we have Davon Jackson here.

01:10:06.800 Thank you for the 100, man.

01:10:07.480 Good to see you back.

01:10:08.680 Michael, me personally, I wouldn't take that level of disrespect.

01:10:11.620 Oh, well.

01:10:13.040 Oh, well.

01:10:13.360 Did I miss something?

01:10:14.100 Was someone disrespecting Captain?

01:10:17.240 Cappy.

01:10:17.760 We're good.

01:10:18.340 I just said it a lot.

01:10:19.340 So I'm making sure he heard him.

01:10:20.480 It was a joke.

01:10:22.300 It's not that serious.

01:10:24.020 You can pull that.

01:10:24.600 It's really not that serious.

01:10:25.580 Go ahead, Eric.

01:10:26.120 You can pull it up.

01:10:27.820 Avery, if you want to read this one, go for it.

01:10:29.980 Translation. 0.96

01:10:30.660 She's got a business model of catering to fat, unhygienic midgets who all think they have 1.00

01:10:36.260 a chance to crack the code. 0.96

01:10:38.180 Tate 101.

01:10:39.080 She ain't slick. 0.77

01:10:39.840 It's all part of her tactics. 0.62

01:10:41.600 Waller, take over the mic like the alpha you are.

01:10:43.840 You're the reason I'm watching.

01:10:44.860 No pressure, huh?

01:10:51.180 So you believe that males are alphas?

01:10:55.100 No, Justin's an alpha.

01:10:56.540 You're an alpha?

01:10:57.340 No, this is Justin.

01:10:58.340 That's what Mike Davis is.

01:10:58.740 I know we all look alike, but this one's Justin right here.

01:11:00.680 I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

01:11:01.660 Why?

01:11:01.900 You don't think there's such a thing as an alpha male?

01:11:03.640 No.

01:11:03.960 Why?

01:11:05.100 Not really.

01:11:05.740 Do you think there's such a thing as an alpha female? 1.00

01:11:07.940 No.

01:11:08.460 Hey, out of curiosity.

01:11:09.060 I feel like there should be somebody who should pull the weight and somebody who should be

01:11:13.340 Okay, so you're egalitarian.

01:11:15.100 Obviously, a relationship is a scale.

01:11:17.360 So, you know, if you feel like you're investing too much and that person is obviously pulling away.

01:11:22.760 So what is there any reason for you?

01:11:24.920 Hold on, guys.

01:11:25.480 Hold on.

01:11:25.800 Was Corex donated $200.

01:11:28.220 Thank you, man.

01:11:28.880 Brian, first off, great panel, at least on the male side, very based.

01:11:33.520 Question for the girls on the panel who are your own models in life. 1.00

01:11:37.560 Second question, how many of them came from a broken home?

01:11:41.200 P.S. Brian, you thought the $200 price tag would stop.

01:11:46.480 Bad ZXC.

01:11:47.440 Thank you, man.

01:11:47.980 Really appreciate the $200.

01:11:49.340 By the way, guys, just a reminder, if you want to direct your donations to Streamlabs just

01:11:54.780 so we don't, you know, YouTube doesn't take their 30% woke cut.

01:11:59.360 Here, let me just pull that one up.

01:12:01.400 I guess I'll re-trigger it.

01:12:02.360 Wait, it was a question for the girls on the panel. 0.96

01:12:05.040 Who are your role models in life?

01:12:08.740 Besides Mia Khalifa.

01:12:09.660 And second question, how many of them came from a broken home?

01:12:14.940 Okay, that's in-depth.

01:12:16.120 I can answer that for you.

01:12:17.960 Avery, confirm or deny broken home?

01:12:20.680 I did not come from a broken home.

01:12:22.720 We'll go around really quickly on the broken home thing.

01:12:25.200 My parents are not together.

01:12:26.560 Is that broken?

01:12:27.420 Broken home?

01:12:27.940 No.

01:12:28.300 Broken home?

01:12:29.180 No, my parents haven't arranged marriage.

01:12:31.240 Broken home?

01:12:31.860 Yeah.

01:12:32.540 Broken home?

01:12:33.260 I would say, yeah.

01:12:34.880 Broken home?

01:12:36.060 Divorced, but still all in my life, so good.

01:12:38.500 Patrick Payton in Broken Home, confirm or deny?

01:12:40.220 Hell if I know, bro.

01:12:41.420 Oh, you're too far from the mind. 0.99

01:12:42.280 Okay, hell if I know if I came from a broken home or not. 0.61

01:12:44.780 Are your parents still together?

01:12:45.700 Oh, yeah, they're still together.

01:12:46.740 They've been together for like 20 or so.

01:12:47.820 What about you?

01:12:48.720 Huh?

01:12:49.180 Huh?

01:12:49.940 What?

01:12:50.520 I'm just like, how do you not know what...

01:12:52.580 Never mind.

01:12:53.100 No, no, I'm like, hell if I would know.

01:12:54.880 Like, I mean, my parents are still together. 0.98

01:12:56.740 Whether or not they like each other, I don't fucking know. 0.55

01:12:59.180 It's not about your parents, though. 0.98

01:13:01.180 It's about you.

01:13:02.060 Oh, me.

01:13:02.420 Were you loved as a child, basically?

01:13:03.840 Did you have a hard upbringing?

01:13:05.260 I guess so.

01:13:06.280 Okay.

01:13:07.500 My parents are married and they're in love.

01:13:11.680 Not a broken family.

01:13:14.140 No, I did not come from a broken home.

01:13:16.960 Okay, and then the other thing was just your role models in life.

01:13:23.180 Avery Harley Quinn?

01:13:26.980 Yeah, Harley Quinn's one of them.

01:13:28.560 Also, Steve Carell.

01:13:30.180 That's it.

01:13:30.680 Steve Carell and Harley Quinn.

01:13:32.140 That's a pair.

01:13:32.800 That's a good combo.

01:13:33.620 That is a pair.

01:13:34.360 I don't have any.

01:13:35.320 No role models?

01:13:36.180 No.

01:13:36.380 Destiny?

01:13:37.560 No, I think I can do better.

01:13:40.180 Yeah.

01:13:41.580 What about Andrew Tate?

01:13:42.820 Yeah, that's the one.

01:13:43.940 He's the one?

01:13:44.420 Yeah.

01:13:44.840 Okay.

01:13:46.340 My mom.

01:13:48.200 I would say my dad.

01:13:49.960 My grandpa. 1.00

01:13:51.400 Shit. 1.00

01:13:51.760 Patrick Bateman, Ryan Gosling. 1.00

01:13:54.080 Oh my god, this chick's a troll. 1.00

01:13:55.620 Okay. 0.99

01:13:56.100 No, I'm not.

01:13:56.700 I swear.

01:13:57.220 I swear.

01:13:57.940 I swear.

01:13:58.600 I swear.

01:13:59.540 I like his business ethic.

01:14:01.320 I like his work ethic.

01:14:02.360 Okay, I really like it.

01:14:04.080 I guess my uncle, too.

01:14:06.400 I don't know.

01:14:07.660 Okay.

01:14:08.580 Wait, you want to throw Batman in there, too?

01:14:10.600 Your uncle.

01:14:11.260 The one in prison.

01:14:12.540 Okay, my uncle is not in prison.

01:14:14.180 That was like a joke.

01:14:15.360 That was a joke.

01:14:16.000 My uncle's not in prison.

01:14:16.760 All right, the FBI's knocking on his door right now.

01:14:18.800 Go ahead.

01:14:19.740 Aspen.

01:14:20.600 My role models.

01:14:23.260 JC?

01:14:23.840 I got hope for you.

01:14:24.960 Come on.

01:14:25.380 Michael Scott.

01:14:26.080 No, I'm just kidding.

01:14:27.340 My role models are the people that pointed me towards truth and love and that are personally

01:14:34.660 in my life.

01:14:35.420 They're some of my high school mentors.

01:14:39.220 Teachers?

01:14:40.500 No, it's like youth group.

01:14:41.840 Okay.

01:14:42.560 Just when I went through my hard time in life, they just were there for me.

01:14:47.820 And they are happily married.

01:14:49.520 They're people that do amazing things with their lives.

01:14:53.340 Those are my role models.

01:14:55.100 But no one person in particular?

01:14:57.840 No one.

01:14:59.520 No.

01:15:01.340 Michael Scott.

01:15:02.700 JC?

01:15:03.940 JC?

01:15:04.460 JC?

01:15:04.580 Oh, Jesus?

01:15:06.040 Yeah, that guy.

01:15:06.620 I love Jesus.

01:15:07.140 Okay, cool.

01:15:07.720 There you go.

01:15:08.360 Role model?

01:15:10.260 I would say...

01:15:10.840 Besides Michael Sartain.

01:15:11.840 Besides Michael Sartain.

01:15:14.740 I would say just the women in my family, like my mom, my grandparents, my aunts, and then

01:15:19.540 also just like I grew up doing pageants and cheering.

01:15:23.360 I've done that my whole life.

01:15:25.800 Just women that were older than me that did that, too. 1.00

01:15:28.260 There was a lot of women that I could look up to that were involved in that as well. 1.00

01:15:32.620 All right, very cool.

01:15:33.300 We have a chat here from Wiley 5-0.

01:15:35.800 Thank you for the 100.

01:15:37.260 Correction on my last super chat.

01:15:38.700 It was meant for Aspen.

01:15:39.720 Avery, this one is for you.

01:15:41.360 In regards to giving up OF, the FAA is hiring air traffic controllers, early six figs, one

01:15:45.700 of the most respected jobs.

01:15:47.340 I'm not just saying this so I don't have to work overtime, I swear.

01:15:49.480 I mean, my understanding of the FAA, the air traffic ATC, it's a super stressful job and 0.99

01:15:55.600 they, like, for the first, like, what, 10 years you're in, like, some dog shit regional 0.97

01:15:59.840 airport for, like... 0.98

01:16:00.820 Yeah, it's really hard.

01:16:02.100 Yeah, and it's stressful.

01:16:03.400 It's a super stressful gig.

01:16:04.480 You want me to do that?

01:16:05.420 Yeah.

01:16:05.560 Oh, oh, I don't handle stress very well.

01:16:08.260 I don't know.

01:16:08.880 RIP in the chat.

01:16:09.700 That's...

01:16:10.260 I wonder if there's, like, any, like, one who has OnlyFans who's also in air traffic control 0.97

01:16:16.360 and they, like, do it at the same time and shit. 0.66

01:16:18.220 You know, like, how nurses will, like, go into the janitor closet and, like, get fired 1.00

01:16:22.200 from their hospital job?

01:16:23.560 Like, there's an ATC controller who's just, like...

01:16:25.920 Is OnlyFans, like, your only source of income?

01:16:28.240 Do you have another job besides...

01:16:30.080 Is it a side hustle or is it something that you do, like, just to the exception of everything

01:16:33.460 else?

01:16:33.720 It's my main source of income.

01:16:35.800 Yeah.

01:16:36.520 Uh, OnlyFans in tandem with, like, TikTok and sponsorships and stuff.

01:16:39.360 Okay, so influence and OnlyFans.

01:16:41.220 Yeah.

01:16:41.700 We got a question here from Stifler.

01:16:43.000 Ask the ladies to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10.

01:16:48.520 So...

01:16:48.960 Go ahead, Avery.

01:16:50.580 6.5.

01:16:52.500 1.

01:16:53.400 What?

01:16:54.080 Come on.

01:16:54.640 1?

01:16:55.120 I mean, isn't this a humbleness test?

01:16:56.640 Like, you say slang over 6.

01:16:57.760 And they humble you anyway?

01:16:59.640 Yeah, but I...

01:17:00.500 Is that too low?

01:17:01.340 5.

01:17:02.680 What?

01:17:03.760 I mean, now it just seems like you're wanting to give me the answer that you think we want

01:17:07.700 to hear, but what do you genuinely...

01:17:09.820 What's your own self-assessment of your physical appearance?

01:17:12.580 I don't know if I self-assess in that quantitative of a way.

01:17:15.500 Do you?

01:17:16.480 Yeah, I do.

01:17:17.320 You look at us all and you already have a number in your head.

01:17:19.380 Well, I want to give you guys more of a look over, but I could assign...

01:17:22.240 I think it's a simple question.

01:17:23.440 I suppose I could assign, like, a number.

01:17:25.480 Yes, 1 to 10.

01:17:26.160 I don't intend to do it unless you guys ask me to, but...

01:17:29.760 I feel like just rate yourself, like, today.

01:17:31.680 We'll go around the table.

01:17:32.380 What are you feeling right now?

01:17:33.440 5.

01:17:34.120 Sure.

01:17:34.580 What about you?

01:17:35.160 7.

01:17:37.000 I'm not humbling myself, but, you know, not everybody's perfect.

01:17:40.720 Like, no matter what they say.

01:17:41.980 I feel like it just depends on the day, but today it's like a 6.

01:17:44.860 Like a 6.

01:17:45.620 It's on a sliding scale per day.

01:17:46.940 I feel like it depends on the time of day and what day, but...

01:17:55.980 Today.

01:17:56.560 This day.

01:17:57.200 May 7th.

01:17:58.620 Probably a 7.

01:18:00.920 What about, like, around twilight?

01:18:02.880 Is it higher than...

01:18:03.540 Okay, I mean, like, when I'm just waking up in the morning, because we can go from 2 to 7.

01:18:07.220 No, like the evening twilight.

01:18:09.840 In twilight?

01:18:11.140 Like the twilight time?

01:18:12.260 7.

01:18:12.660 So better lighting that works for you?

01:18:14.160 Better lighting?

01:18:14.700 Like golden hour?

01:18:15.680 The golden hour.

01:18:16.420 Yeah.

01:18:16.900 Okay.

01:18:17.640 What about you?

01:18:18.200 Yeah, I kind of like the scale thing, too.

01:18:20.240 But I guess I'll say, like, a 7.

01:18:22.620 All right.

01:18:23.360 Okay.

01:18:23.740 Thank you, Stifler, for that.

01:18:26.240 I think that's the first time I've ever heard on any panel girls that didn't go say, 1.00

01:18:30.040 I'm a 10.

01:18:30.880 I'm a 10.

01:18:31.660 You guys are starting a movement.

01:18:33.320 Did that dude say he was a 10 on your show the other day?

01:18:36.340 The dude?

01:18:36.840 The dude?

01:18:37.340 Which dude?

01:18:37.640 Oh, wait.

01:18:38.640 No, he's talking about Gary in the Numbers guy.

01:18:40.920 No, that big gremlin-looking thing that was on your show.

01:18:43.700 Yeah, that was Gary in the Numbers guy.

01:18:44.900 Oh, no.

01:18:45.980 He made a thing.

01:18:47.780 It was on, what was it on?

01:18:48.680 Like a video talking about how she...

01:18:50.980 Gary's a 10.

01:18:52.080 Hold on.

01:18:52.400 Allie.

01:18:53.000 Allie.

01:18:53.420 Allie.

01:18:53.700 Allie.

01:18:54.020 Yeah.

01:18:54.180 So, Allie did, she was on No Jumper.

01:18:56.120 They showed her TikTok on No Jumper, and she said, these dudes don't understand that I'm

01:18:58.920 a 10, so I'm at Wendy's right now eating my feelings away.

01:19:01.360 Eating her feelings.

01:19:02.940 Good times.

01:19:04.360 Good.

01:19:04.940 So, did you object?

01:19:06.140 Do you object to the rating scale?

01:19:07.700 No, and object to it if someone sees themselves in a way where they can quantify it, go for

01:19:12.840 it.

01:19:13.120 Sure.

01:19:13.600 Because sometimes we get pushback on this question of like, oh, it's kind of weird, rude

01:19:19.320 to...

01:19:19.700 Dehumanizing.

01:19:20.100 ...try to view someone, you know, to rank someone by their, or rate someone by their

01:19:26.980 physical peers.

01:19:27.520 It's not even the rudeness.

01:19:28.820 I question the objectivity of it, because I've noticed when Fresh and Fit does this, and

01:19:32.440 you do this, the intention is kind of to rate the woman's delusion or humbleness,

01:19:36.340 which kind of proves that the rating system is subjective, because the argument is, it's

01:19:40.380 objective, but if the girl says 10, then the guys will call her a 2, and if the girl

01:19:43.720 says 2, they say, funny how the girl says 2 is the hottest girl, so they base it off

01:19:47.340 personality, proving that, you know what I mean?

01:19:49.580 You factor in personality with looks.

01:19:50.940 Well, it is personality, because if you're over here, and you're like, oh yeah, I'm hot 0.99

01:19:53.560 shit, this, this, and that, they're going to be like, whoa, she's over here thinking 0.99

01:19:56.260 she's all that, so let's go ahead and humble her really quick. 0.99

01:19:58.480 But if you're like, if you're kind of nice about it, and you're kind of like, oh yeah, I feel

01:20:01.540 like maybe I'm an 8, I'm a 9 today, like, you know, I'm feeling okay, then they're

01:20:04.640 going to be like, okay, that's cool.

01:20:05.920 Sure, which proves that looks aren't objective.

01:20:07.460 Actually, then, if we're talking about that, then I'd change my answer.

01:20:10.840 I'm a 10.

01:20:11.900 Uh-oh.

01:20:12.260 If we're talking about that, then I'm changing my answer, though.

01:20:14.820 Because if, I don't care what anybody says, like, everybody can say any hurtful thing.

01:20:21.460 I play COD.

01:20:22.820 Like, y'all have heard so much hurtful things.

01:20:25.060 Call of Duty.

01:20:25.740 Call of Duty, modern word for the first one, 2019.

01:20:26.920 Those are some hardcore lobbies, for sure.

01:20:28.880 Yeah, for sure.

01:20:29.460 SND2, I promise you.

01:20:31.360 Okay, but you're correct, it is subjective, and that's why we asked you, you're the subject

01:20:36.020 in this time, and you're rating yourself, right?

01:20:39.300 Sure.

01:20:39.920 I don't know if that's the optics of it.

01:20:41.340 Every time we do Access Vegas, we have some, in my opinion, some very stunningly gorgeous

01:20:47.060 girls on there. 1.00

01:20:47.780 Every guy in the chat says, oh, I can't, why don't you get some normal girls on there? 1.00

01:20:51.640 Why don't you get, like, that's the number one thing we had to deal with from day one,

01:20:55.020 was people saying that the girls on our show were fake, they had big lips, they had big 1.00

01:20:58.760 tits, they had, you know, they would get some real girls on there, kind of thing, and so 1.00

01:21:02.580 it was the subjective, like, opinion of these guys, that these aren't, like, quote-unquote

01:21:06.060 normal girls. 1.00

01:21:07.440 So, all you really have to do is go walk through any major airport today, and you can go find

01:21:11.740 normal people.

01:21:12.760 Are they going to be the people that you want to have on your podcast?

01:21:15.480 Are they going to be the people you're going to poll for, like, these kind of questions?

01:21:18.220 I don't think so.

01:21:19.140 Big announcement, guys.

01:21:20.180 We currently have 10,000 plus viewers.

01:21:23.800 That is a record.

01:21:24.620 You'll get more.

01:21:25.040 That is a record for whatever.

01:21:27.360 The chat is on fire. 1.00

01:21:29.160 Holy shit. 0.98

01:21:30.640 Thank you, guys. 0.96

01:21:31.320 I think our previous highest was, like, 8,000.

01:21:33.720 Yeah, go ahead.

01:21:34.480 Okay, I think everyone's, like, over-complicating things.

01:21:38.420 Like, it's just, they just asked you, like, whether or not you think you're a 10. 1.00

01:21:41.900 Like, in my opinion, if a fat bitch is fat, you call her fat, you know? 1.00

01:21:45.280 Or if someone's ugly, you call them butt-ugly, you know? 1.00

01:21:48.000 But, like, if we just over-complicate things, like, oh, oh, my worth is, like, you know? 0.91

01:21:52.560 Okay, I'm sorry, because this entire video, you have been talking about personality, how

01:21:57.440 it doesn't have to do-

01:21:58.320 Yeah, yeah, no, no, no, no, no, no.

01:22:00.160 I've been talking about personality.

01:22:01.480 No, no, no, no, no, because now you're talking down about somebody, how they're fat, how they're 0.99

01:22:04.760 ugly. 1.00

01:22:04.860 Okay, well, if a fat bitch is fat, you call her fat. 1.00

01:22:07.100 Like, personality is fat. 1.00

01:22:07.600 Well, if I say you have an ugly personality, do you have an ugly personality? 0.99

01:22:10.200 Well, yeah, that's your opinion. 0.98

01:22:11.580 But, like, personally-

01:22:12.380 Exactly.

01:22:12.400 So, at the end of the day, it's still an opinion.

01:22:15.080 Yeah, I am-

01:22:15.940 At the end of the day.

01:22:16.560 So, you're getting mad at her.

01:22:17.820 I don't think that that's contradicting herself.

01:22:18.760 She's talking about two different things.

01:22:20.400 Can you let me finish?

01:22:21.360 Can you let me talk?

01:22:22.620 Can you let me talk?

01:22:24.020 If I can talk after?

01:22:24.680 You just keep going.

01:22:26.540 You just keep going.

01:22:28.660 Are you done?

01:22:29.080 She has a neck tattoo.

01:22:30.480 Oh, my God.

01:22:31.640 I can wait.

01:22:32.420 Like, I'm one of those teachers.

01:22:33.600 Like, I can wait.

01:22:34.040 Hey, hold on.

01:22:34.760 Hold on.

01:22:35.800 Thank you, man.

01:22:36.500 Here is a better way to gauge this question.

01:22:39.560 When you rate yourself, what subconscious image do you use to rate yourself?

01:22:44.320 Your Instagram photos, or are you just getting out of the shower and looking at your-

01:22:48.740 You might not write that down.

01:22:49.860 That's an interesting question.

01:22:51.460 We're stealing that question.

01:22:52.560 Yes.

01:22:55.020 Thank you, BatsExC.

01:22:56.340 Thank you.

01:22:56.680 Really appreciate the support.

01:22:58.160 Speaking of the rating thing, and-

01:22:59.880 Oh, my God.

01:23:02.920 Mike Davis donated-

01:23:04.200 Thank you, man. 0.99

01:23:04.700 Holy shit. 0.98

01:23:06.120 Mike Davis' ratings for how much I'd pay for an out call with each guy. 1.00

01:23:10.660 Out call.

01:23:11.480 Bro, $300 Farrah, $0 Nikki, $0 Rosie, $0 Alley, $300 Neff, $500 Aspen, $300 Kylie, $0 Zartain.

01:23:25.860 If he returns my watch, Waller.

01:23:28.260 Dollar one, comma, oh, oh, comma, oh, oh, comma, oh, if he paid me.

01:23:33.440 Bro, I gave him his watch back, Pim.

01:23:34.920 What are you doing?

01:23:35.660 He's got it right here.

01:23:37.480 I'm sorry, Mike Davis. 0.99

01:23:38.440 I don't know what I did to Mike Davis, but damn, man. 0.97

01:23:41.140 Mike Davis, what's- 0.98

01:23:43.060 Thank you, guys, for all the support.

01:23:43.960 If he's using words like out call, he's from Nevada.

01:23:47.600 That's hilarious, man.

01:23:49.140 At least it's funny.

01:23:50.500 But anyways, back to what I was saying.

01:23:52.500 I'm not trying to be rude.

01:23:53.860 I'm really not.

01:23:54.740 I just don't like being cut off. 0.98

01:23:56.360 Because I literally just sat here two fucking hours to listen to you talk. 0.98

01:23:59.960 And I just can't talk? 0.99

01:24:00.940 You came here to talk to everybody.

01:24:02.720 I understand that.

01:24:03.640 But am I cutting you off?

01:24:05.120 You've been cutting people off this entire night.

01:24:07.060 I don't know that anywhere.

01:24:08.000 Who?

01:24:08.440 Ew.

01:24:08.860 And I just have- 0.95

01:24:10.200 You took up like 20 minutes vomiting, shitting out word salad. 0.98

01:24:15.240 Whoa. 0.96

01:24:16.200 20 minutes straight.

01:24:17.500 Why are you getting offended that I want to have the conversation with you?

01:24:21.160 I'm not offended.

01:24:22.280 Yeah, because you're trying to call me out.

01:24:23.680 You just jump in when I'm trying to literally finish my point.

01:24:26.300 I haven't even got to the period.

01:24:27.900 It was a comma.

01:24:28.520 Now is your time.

01:24:29.380 Go ahead.

01:24:29.440 It was literally a comma.

01:24:30.680 I literally forgot.

01:24:31.580 I'm so mad.

01:24:32.180 Ladies, ladies, ladies, you're both pretty. 1.00

01:24:34.260 It's okay.

01:24:35.140 It doesn't matter if I'm pretty. 0.99

01:24:36.580 It matters about what I fucking stand for. 0.97

01:24:39.160 You mentioned the period. 0.99

01:24:40.500 Can we please not talk about menstruation? 0.89

01:24:42.360 But I don't know.

01:24:44.060 You said something about periods or something?

01:24:45.260 I said a comma.

01:24:46.080 Can I bring some-

01:24:48.660 Can I get nerdy with us again real quick?

01:24:50.840 So beauty is actually not subjective.

01:24:53.220 There's tons of studies that show when you overlay-

01:24:56.020 There's a famous one where you overlay the pictures of several thousand psychology students

01:25:00.780 over each other.

01:25:01.660 You come up with an average, and that average is more attractive than the other people.

01:25:04.820 It's rated as more attractive than the people in the classroom.

01:25:07.480 Also, there's studies that show that infants, young children, look at people who are more

01:25:11.000 attractive for longer periods of time.

01:25:12.520 You know, I've hosted over 45 different bikini competitions, and exactly.

01:25:17.620 I've hosted over 45 different bikini competitions, and in doing so, when I ask the guys who's

01:25:22.240 going to win, it's almost always like the same three girls.

01:25:25.160 We generally agree.

01:25:26.700 There's no study that shows that beauty-

01:25:28.520 Now, to a certain extent, obviously, some people like bigger butts or bigger lips, but 0.99

01:25:32.140 the idea of facial symmetry and signs of youth, clear skin, things like that, those

01:25:37.060 things tend to be universal.

01:25:38.780 So those things are not subjective.

01:25:40.680 They're actually objective, and that's a really offensive thing to a lot of people.

01:25:44.100 When you, you know, look at Victoria's Secret, and they show other body types, and I'm all

01:25:48.020 for inclusivity, but they're not going to change what I find attractive, or what Justin

01:25:51.600 finds attractive, or what Rollo, or any of the men in the chat, what they find attractive,

01:25:55.700 because when you leave that door open, that beauty is subjective, it really, for the most

01:25:59.920 part, isn't.

01:26:00.680 Like, you can tell when something is beautiful because of symmetry and other things, and there's

01:26:05.220 just tons of studies.

01:26:06.040 There's tons of evidence to show this.

01:26:07.300 That was a beautiful point, but I would like to talk to you again.

01:26:13.720 What you said was that there was a double standard in what she was saying, and, okay,

01:26:22.140 what you said was she calls it like she sees it, and that's wrong, because, and then you,

01:26:28.560 you, sorry, was it you?

01:26:29.980 By what?

01:26:31.020 You talked, you talked about how, how we just got in that argument, but she, you're saying

01:26:35.940 that she's calling it a double standard for caring about somebody's personality when she

01:26:40.000 meets somebody, and then calling them ugly or fat. 1.00

01:26:42.880 I just don't want to fuck a fat bitch. 1.00

01:26:45.100 Sorry. 1.00

01:26:45.520 I just don't want to fuck a fat bitch, but, okay, yeah, you go. 1.00

01:26:48.200 Are you bi? 1.00

01:26:50.020 I mean. 0.86

01:26:50.500 Are you trolling?

01:26:51.260 Like, what's, what's going on?

01:26:52.260 Oh, I just don't want to go. 1.00

01:26:53.180 You're being fucked, like, you're funny and shit. 1.00

01:26:54.720 Okay, look me in the eye and tell me you'd fuck Thrognac the Destroyer who comes on here 1.00

01:26:58.580 every once in a while. 1.00

01:26:59.280 Okay, but that's not what we're saying.

01:27:01.000 I'm just trying to get a read.

01:27:03.580 Yo, Ivan, thank you for that, man.

01:27:05.240 Appreciate it.

01:27:05.640 Yo, Ivan Jr., thank you for the $200 donation.

01:27:27.680 Really appreciate all the support, guys.

01:27:29.640 Really appreciate all the support tonight. 0.99

01:27:32.520 Do you want to continue with your point about wanting the fuck? 1.00

01:27:35.640 I don't want to fuck fat bitches. 1.00

01:27:36.220 Okay, okay, I just don't want to fuck fat bitches, okay? 1.00

01:27:38.000 I just don't. 1.00

01:27:38.860 Aren't you saying you're, wait, what? 1.00

01:27:40.460 Dude, I just don't want to fuck a fat bitch. 1.00

01:27:41.360 I know you're, like, joking or whatever, but, like, what? 1.00

01:27:42.460 Okay, if a fat bitch went up to me and said, hey, sexy, I'd be like, hell not. 1.00

01:27:45.820 Are you bi? 1.00

01:27:46.760 Dude, I don't fucking know. 1.00

01:27:48.380 I don't know. 0.96

01:27:49.180 So you like what you like, basically.

01:27:50.860 I like what I like, but, like.

01:27:51.880 So you like a person, any person based off their personality, right? 1.00

01:27:54.220 Okay, okay, listen, I just don't want to fuck a fat bitch. 1.00

01:27:56.360 You don't have to overcomplicate it. 1.00

01:27:57.460 Okay, back to. 1.00

01:27:58.100 I don't want to fuck a fat bitch. 1.00

01:27:59.080 Back to what she was asking me. 1.00

01:27:59.940 She didn't answer my question.

01:28:00.680 Back to what she was asking me.

01:28:02.060 You were saying how I was basically saying that's contradicting, right?

01:28:05.380 Yeah.

01:28:05.740 Earlier, she was saying how are you going to marry somebody and then not know if they're

01:28:11.880 good in bed, right?

01:28:12.880 And she's over here saying.

01:28:14.140 Well, I know they're not good in bed because they'll break it.

01:28:15.680 Okay, first of all, let me finish, okay?

01:28:16.920 You want people to let you finish?

01:28:18.840 Thank you.

01:28:19.320 My thing is, you're over here saying that, oh, you're over here judging, you're being 0.98

01:28:24.860 biased, this and this and that, but yet you're over here saying, I wouldn't fuck somebody 1.00

01:28:27.800 who's bigger than me, like, who's ugly, this and this and that. 0.99

01:28:31.540 You have your own, like, perception as to who's ugly and who's big, right? 0.95

01:28:36.660 So it's, like, for you to be, like, straight up and say, like, oh, no, you're ugly, like, 0.85

01:28:41.240 you're fat, but yet you're over here saying, like, oh, no, I'm not judging, I'm not judging 0.98

01:28:45.460 that. 0.98

01:28:45.640 Oh, you are being biased.

01:28:47.300 Okay, okay.

01:28:47.760 Look, I'm not an architect. 1.00

01:28:49.320 I don't want to fuck a fat bitch. 1.00

01:28:50.760 Like, can we just, I don't want to fuck a fat bitch. 1.00

01:28:53.060 You don't have to. 1.00

01:28:53.520 So you have a type.

01:28:54.440 Okay.

01:28:54.760 We've established that.

01:28:55.640 Thank you very much.

01:28:56.220 But we don't have to overcomplicate things.

01:28:57.840 I doubt anyone, okay, but just.

01:28:59.100 I'm just, I'm just going to get down.

01:29:00.280 So you have a type in this personality.

01:29:01.320 I am not trying to complicate it.

01:29:02.820 She merely asked me a question, which is why I was just trying to reiterate it.

01:29:06.680 Can I simplify your point a little bit?

01:29:08.960 Go ahead.

01:29:09.380 Jesus.

01:29:09.720 Okay.

01:29:10.080 So I think the point is, you shouldn't judge someone based off the act of sex, right?

01:29:15.740 Sex isn't the end all be all.

01:29:17.060 Now, but biologically, we pick the mate that is best for us. 0.95

01:29:21.020 You're not going to want to mate with someone who, say, is obese, say, is short, and you

01:29:26.600 want your kids, you want your offspring to be stronger, powerful, tall, in good shape,

01:29:31.660 right?

01:29:32.060 Yes.

01:29:32.380 See, the way you are wording it is way better than what she has said.

01:29:35.720 That's why I said I was simplifying her point.

01:29:37.720 But hold on.

01:29:38.340 Let her finish. 0.98

01:29:39.180 Let her finish. 0.98

01:29:39.760 Go ahead.

01:29:40.260 The whole objective, like, her whole objective is, I'm going to have my preferences, but sex 0.99

01:29:45.600 isn't what makes those preferences.

01:29:47.780 It's the preferences that lead to the sex, right?

01:29:50.720 They lead to your picking a partner in general.

01:29:52.540 It's not just about sex. 0.92

01:29:53.860 So she's not being a hypocrite. 0.98

01:29:55.020 She's laying out her preferences that get you to the bed. 1.00

01:29:57.660 No, but what I was saying was earlier she asked us something about it being about, like,

01:30:01.780 how you feel towards a person and not about looks.

01:30:04.160 But now she's talking about looks.

01:30:06.620 How you feel towards a fat person or a skinny person is definitely about looks, but it is

01:30:12.160 also how you feel about those looks.

01:30:13.540 It doesn't change.

01:30:14.720 Everything is we see something, we all see the same thing, but we all perceive it differently.

01:30:18.720 So it is how you feel about a thing.

01:30:20.980 Does that make sense?

01:30:22.000 That makes sense.

01:30:22.540 Okay.

01:30:23.380 That makes no sense.

01:30:24.780 Really?

01:30:25.240 Absolutely makes no sense.

01:30:26.360 No, because, I mean, we're human beings.

01:30:28.020 We are very good at pattern recognition.

01:30:30.060 When we see someone who is overweight, when we see someone who has, like, lost a limb,

01:30:34.340 when we see someone who is in some way deformed or disabled, we look at them as not necessarily

01:30:39.800 a lesser human being because of their personal value, but we do look at them and we say

01:30:43.780 that that person is not going to be able to run away from,

01:30:48.720 from a bear, okay?

01:30:50.260 We look at that and we have an instant, instinctual understanding just by looking at that person, 0.95

01:30:55.840 whether or not they're going to be physically fit, whether I want to have sex with that

01:31:00.020 person, whether I do not want to have sex with that person, whether that person is going 0.89

01:31:03.100 to be somebody that I want in the trenches when I'm fighting a war or when I need somebody

01:31:07.880 to balance my accounts or something like that.

01:31:11.100 So there is absolutely a look that we see when we look at someone. 0.96

01:31:14.300 So when people say this bullshit about, like, oh, you can't judge a book by its cover, well,

01:31:17.940 the reason for a book cover is to sort of let you know what's inside the book in the 0.98

01:31:21.920 first place.

01:31:22.560 Yeah, no, I agree with you completely.

01:31:24.140 I was just...

01:31:24.580 Well, and then, you know, the other part of that is sex is the glue that keeps a relationship

01:31:28.000 together. 1.00

01:31:28.740 So without that sex, you've got no fucking relationship. 0.99

01:31:31.760 Yeah, well, what I was going to say was that, like, I was saying that I don't want to 0.99

01:31:37.060 judge anyone, like, based on their sexual performances. 0.97

01:31:40.940 And I wouldn't get to that point because I wouldn't go for a fat woman. 1.00

01:31:45.920 So I wouldn't know what her performance was like because I wouldn't bother with that.

01:31:52.600 If that makes sense?

01:31:54.040 All right, moving on.

01:31:55.720 Also, okay, one more question that guy said of tradition.

01:31:59.900 I come from a different background, and if we're talking about tradition, my parents

01:32:05.100 were immigrants.

01:32:06.140 So, not immigrants, but still, I come from a completely different background.

01:32:12.460 In my culture, whoever's the fastest person to pay, you get to pay.

01:32:16.940 However, you know, we eat as a family.

01:32:18.940 We don't...

01:32:19.400 There's no such thing as a separate dish.

01:32:21.500 Everybody eats off what everybody has.

01:32:23.920 Everybody eats.

01:32:24.540 Exactly, but in most cultures, there's different ways, and there's different thinking, and

01:32:30.080 there's different types.

01:32:31.060 Everybody has an opinion.

01:32:32.180 Everybody has a thing.

01:32:33.360 Me, personally, the reason why I've been in a four-month relationship is because there's

01:32:38.260 a standard there, and there's a boundary that I put out.

01:32:40.880 And if you don't succumb to that, you know, boundary, then...

01:32:44.440 Sorry.

01:32:45.160 If you don't come to that, you know, boundary or meet it in any type of way, then there's

01:32:50.400 no reason for me to move forward.

01:32:52.160 Because I feel like a relationship is a partnership, obviously.

01:32:56.660 I believe in 50-50 because of my cultural background.

01:33:00.340 What's your cultural background?

01:33:01.260 I'm Chinese.

01:33:01.920 I'm Chinese.

01:33:02.540 I'm black.

01:33:03.040 You think that the Chinese believe in 50-50?

01:33:05.840 No, but I believe because my parents divorced, and my dad left.

01:33:11.200 And so, obviously, there's split custody, and there's child support, and if you don't

01:33:16.240 pay for that child support, and then my parents...

01:33:18.500 I got that, but do you think that the reason why your parents split up is because

01:33:21.980 that egalitarian ideal didn't work out for the both of them?

01:33:25.240 Of course.

01:33:25.960 And that's...

01:33:26.700 Whatever it is, it's between them.

01:33:28.660 But as a kid, you're caught in the loop.

01:33:30.800 So is that cultural, or is that just something between a man and a woman?

01:33:33.600 No, but I also watched a cultural person come from a strict, you know, background.

01:33:38.500 My grandparents, she couldn't go outside. 1.00

01:33:41.440 She only had books, everything like that, working, everything, like 9 to 5, everything.

01:33:46.400 And so, my mom got sick of it and came here to America to live out the American dream. 1.00

01:33:50.440 And so, obviously, from that point, you have to start out from scratch.

01:33:54.180 And my mom started out from scratch by herself, with nobody to help her, until she met my

01:33:59.440 dad.

01:33:59.920 She met my dad, and my dad helped her and pushed her forward to a certain extent.

01:34:03.600 And so, their agreement, and there's this agreement, and didn't fulfill each other,

01:34:07.280 they divorced.

01:34:08.220 And I'm caught in the loop.

01:34:08.960 What was the agreement?

01:34:10.680 Their marriage.

01:34:11.360 You know, when you say vows, when you say vows.

01:34:14.120 Okay, what were the vows?

01:34:15.280 I don't know.

01:34:15.840 I wasn't there.

01:34:16.860 Because I was too young.

01:34:18.680 But in their terms, in their eyes, they have agreed to a certain vow, and a certain agreement.

01:34:24.960 And if one of them just, you know, doesn't fulfill, why would you stay in that relationship?

01:34:29.520 Someone breached the contract.

01:34:30.720 Yes.

01:34:31.060 So, why would you stay in that relationship?

01:34:33.100 You have no reason to.

01:34:34.500 So, you move on, you progress forward.

01:34:36.240 And as a man, you know, as a female, and you constantly rely as a man, and then the father 0.99

01:34:41.820 figure, the male figure of the household just disappears.

01:34:44.460 What do you have left in that household, in that foundation?

01:34:47.180 What do you build off of a male-built foundation? 0.56

01:34:50.280 Nothing.

01:34:50.860 So, you have to start out from scratch, and you build that foundation yourself.

01:34:54.900 And as a female.

01:34:55.740 Can you just, like, stop karate chopping the table first?

01:34:57.420 Oh, I'm sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry.

01:34:59.000 As a female, you know, from starting from nothing. 1.00

01:35:01.800 We know you're female. 1.00

01:35:02.760 That's been established.

01:35:03.440 My mother, starting from nothing, to something.

01:35:06.660 She, from below minimum wage, to above minimum wage. 1.00

01:35:09.440 Okay.

01:35:09.740 And by herself, she did that all by herself.

01:35:12.360 So, how many.

01:35:12.900 Would she have been better off if she had a guy? 0.82

01:35:14.760 Yes, of course.

01:35:15.980 But, you know, in those time periods when she needed the guy at most, she realized.

01:35:20.060 So, she needed a guy.

01:35:21.120 She needed a guy.

01:35:21.860 But you don't need a guy.

01:35:22.420 Obviously, my mom was so into, you know, a relationship where it's, you put a certain

01:35:27.860 degree, and you put a certain degree, and you make a house.

01:35:30.780 What are we talking about?

01:35:31.940 Where was this even going?

01:35:33.160 Like, you know, like, in a marriage, you need two people.

01:35:36.440 Are you still talking about 50-50?

01:35:37.740 I want to bring Justin in on this.

01:35:38.360 Yes, yes.

01:35:38.720 You need, like, you need a marriage. 0.84

01:35:40.480 I want half an hour of Justin Waller.

01:35:42.500 I'm giving you a layup.

01:35:43.420 How do you bring it to a marriage?

01:35:44.800 You don't mind brain her.

01:35:46.420 You don't mind wash her.

01:35:47.380 You don't force her to agree anything.

01:35:49.480 She chooses to agree to go, what is she into?

01:35:52.760 If you lay down now the foundation of what she's getting into.

01:35:55.340 A woman cannot look up to a man who is her equal. 1.00

01:35:58.800 But, okay, you said you're in favor of 50-50.

01:36:01.060 Justin, your thoughts on 50-50 dynamic?

01:36:04.960 I don't believe in 50-50 dynamic.

01:36:06.780 I believe a man should take care of a woman in every way.

01:36:09.120 And I think that's what he gets to do as a man.

01:36:11.300 And when you come across a real man, you will accept that because you'd be happy to be in his frame.

01:36:16.500 Because you look up to him.

01:36:17.340 You want to get behind him.

01:36:18.620 You want to be on that ride he's going to take you on.

01:36:20.360 Exactly.

01:36:21.060 But I also have a certain point.

01:36:22.940 Yes, but I'll tell you, a man is not going to sit there and listen to you tell him your standards because he's not.

01:36:30.880 I'm not going to tell him my standards.

01:36:32.100 I'm going to lay out a foundation of what I want in the relationship.

01:36:34.160 Hold on.

01:36:34.180 Just a sec, guys.

01:36:35.000 Hold on.

01:36:35.240 I just donated $200.

01:36:37.620 Jarry will no really cares about this woe is me backstory. 0.97

01:36:41.220 You came from a broken home and you dunked your dignity in the dumpster because you decided to not get professional help for your mental issues. 0.99

01:36:49.500 Godspeed. 0.97

01:36:50.900 Your response to BATS underscore EXE? 0.92

01:36:53.280 Mental issues are kind of shaky. 0.96

01:36:56.460 You have trust issues.

01:36:57.240 I have trust issues.

01:36:58.660 Yes, of course I do.

01:37:00.000 But then again, you can't breach.

01:37:03.300 Hold on.

01:37:03.680 Just a sec.

01:37:04.220 Mike Davis donated $200. 0.94

01:37:06.640 I'm not gay, but I'd go gay for Waller. 0.95

01:37:09.500 He's just firing red locks firmly in his face at his piercing gaze that cuts through my soul like a sharpened blade. 0.92

01:37:16.540 Ever since I discovered Waller, I got off Viagra. 0.97

01:37:19.740 Thanks to Mike.

01:37:22.320 Thanks to Mike.

01:37:24.660 Welcome to the whatever podcast.

01:37:27.460 I'm glad to be here.

01:37:29.500 Thanks, Mike, I think.

01:37:32.600 That's crazy.

01:37:33.400 Hey, man.

01:37:33.660 We're going to go to a Burger King afterwards, Mike.

01:37:35.400 Just for you, bro.

01:37:36.260 Can you tell me where the nearest Burger King is, 24 hours?

01:37:38.760 He owns 300 of them.

01:37:39.880 He owns 300 of them.

01:37:41.820 No, that was Mike Davis.

01:37:42.840 Yeah, I think that was Mike Davis, wasn't it?

01:37:44.240 That was Mike Davis.

01:37:45.980 You're in Miami, right?

01:37:47.260 Yeah.

01:37:47.680 Mike Davis, do you own any Burger Kings in Miami?

01:37:50.280 Could he host you at the Burger King?

01:37:51.960 Sure, bro.

01:37:52.740 I mean, maybe after what he said.

01:37:54.460 Yeah, that one's tough.

01:37:55.700 That one's tough.

01:37:56.480 It might be tough.

01:37:58.420 Sorry, we got two TTSs that came through one right after the other.

01:38:02.600 You guys were kind of having an exchange.

01:38:04.360 Justin, did you want to come back in or did you?

01:38:06.800 Go ahead.

01:38:07.200 No, no problem at all.

01:38:08.280 I said what I had to say.

01:38:09.520 I do believe that a man is going to want to take charge and control the relationship.

01:38:13.220 And oftentimes I think that women, particularly ones like you that are going to be a bit more headstrong, 0.99

01:38:17.980 they're going to want to hold on to their independence until they find a man that they find is worth letting go. 0.99

01:38:23.560 What's really hard for a woman nowadays is to find a man worth the fuck enough for you to be able to let go. 1.00

01:38:28.420 And I think that will be one of your biggest challenges moving forward, particularly because of how headstrong you are. 0.99

01:38:33.420 And that's all I really have to say about it.

01:38:35.260 If you find that right guy and he comes through and he's just like you, just everything that you think you want is, no offense, not true.

01:38:42.400 When that man walks into your life and you're going to know, you're going to be able to put a lot of walls down that you wouldn't previously be able to put down

01:38:48.400 because the man is worth you being able to do it.

01:38:50.780 And when you trust you can be inside his frame and you're safe inside of that, you will let go.

01:38:54.300 No, I absolutely agree.

01:38:55.320 So that's what you said was that she's going to have a hard time finding a guy because of how headstrong she is. 1.00

01:39:02.300 But he's being critical of men too.

01:39:03.720 No, I know, I know.

01:39:04.520 And her particularly, she's a little bit more voice. 0.99

01:39:07.000 I think that that is something that gets in the way of me finding a guy because I'm.

01:39:12.580 What's that?

01:39:13.440 Is your headstrong?

01:39:14.500 Yeah, because I'm, well.

01:39:15.980 No, no, you're not.

01:39:16.880 You're a sweetheart.

01:39:17.720 You and her are two different things.

01:39:20.180 No, I'm really headstrong.

01:39:21.120 No, I'm just kidding.

01:39:21.920 But I mean, I'm very independent.

01:39:24.240 I have goals for myself.

01:39:25.440 I think that that comes off as intimidating to a lot of guys.

01:39:32.020 Why do you think that?

01:39:33.500 Well, that's my only assumption.

01:39:35.120 I might be wrong.

01:39:36.040 But I don't understand.

01:39:36.580 I actually think it's the, I think it's the pipeline more than anything.

01:39:39.920 Can I give you guys all a piece of advice?

01:39:43.080 Write this down.

01:39:43.980 Do whatever with it you want.

01:39:45.800 I would find a local chapter of the SPCA and start volunteering there.

01:39:50.460 I would find as many soup kitchens and food pantries as I could and start volunteering there.

01:39:56.060 I have found empathetic human beings are the ones that you probably want to be with, people who show a level of kindness.

01:40:01.800 I throw charity events specifically for one of the reasons is you, generally people who are narcissists and psychopaths can't keep coming to charities where they don't get anything out of it.

01:40:10.040 Wounded warriors, anything for underprivileged children, shout out to the Midnight Mission in Los Angeles, shout out to Operations Blankets of Love, a domestic abuse charity, anything like that.

01:40:18.960 The people that are associated with that, I would not only would I try to find, meet other people I want to group with,

01:40:24.940 but I would also invite a date on that.

01:40:26.680 For me, frequently, it used to be my first date would be, it would be somebody that was interested in, we'd go volunteer at a soup kitchen.

01:40:32.620 We'd go volunteer at a food pantry.

01:40:34.220 Because the reason why is like a lot of the times you guys are talking about like cruelty and a lack of empathy.

01:40:38.740 I promise you that will work better than Tinder when it comes to personality if you guys started doing that.

01:40:43.800 But I haven't heard any of you say that because your method by which you're meeting people tends to be solely online.

01:40:49.820 And listen, I know Roland and I talk about this all the time.

01:40:52.220 Instagram is the number one dating app in the world.

01:40:53.900 And I agree that it's the number one dating app in the world, but it used to not be like that.

01:40:57.120 I'm old, and I remember when it wasn't like that before.

01:41:00.180 And so I would recommend you guys try some IRL stuff where you're actually volunteering and trying to serve other people.

01:41:06.380 And when you find somebody else in that method, especially with your values as a Christian,

01:41:10.840 I think you're going to be shocked at how awesome it is.

01:41:13.380 And I don't mean just going to church.

01:41:15.060 I mean finding someone else who's doing something for wounded warriors or especially for animal rescue.

01:41:20.180 That is the catch-all for everyone.

01:41:21.840 Everyone loves animal rescue.

01:41:23.960 So that's what I would recommend for all of you guys.

01:41:26.260 If you're having trouble finding someone who's compassionate or finding someone who's trustworthy, that's what I would do.

01:41:31.260 If I could just add to that, Michael, good chance you'll find a good guy at those places.

01:41:35.860 You might also find someone who committed like a misdemeanor and they're doing community service hours.

01:41:42.060 Just saying, just a caveat to Michael's thing.

01:41:45.520 And you might find a simp, too.

01:41:46.860 I mean, there's that risk, right?

01:41:47.820 There's that, too.

01:41:48.600 Right.

01:41:49.020 There's that, too.

01:41:50.160 There's a bit of psychopathy that works for love.

01:41:52.440 There's such thing as dark love, for sure.

01:41:54.720 All right.

01:41:55.020 We have a...

01:41:55.560 So I do help people, but to a certain extent.

01:41:58.940 Everybody deserves kindness to a certain extent.

01:42:01.860 You could help all these people, don't get me wrong, in a homeless shelter.

01:42:07.720 And some of them have some roughed-up lives where they were a child and they messed up and now they can't progress as an adult in life.

01:42:17.180 And that's why they're on the streets.

01:42:18.680 But then there's other people who have came from a great lifestyle, great parents.

01:42:22.860 They just messed up with drugs.

01:42:25.480 And then with drugs, they messed up and then now they're in a washed-up place.

01:42:29.420 And that's what I do.

01:42:30.460 I help them.

01:42:31.000 Yeah, I think we're confusing you for two different things.

01:42:33.340 I don't want you to date the people at home.

01:42:34.560 You don't need to date, but I'm just saying I do help them.

01:42:37.720 And I do help them to a certain extent.

01:42:39.980 I do help the people who are drugged out.

01:42:42.660 And they do show that progress that they want to change.

01:42:47.140 Everyone needs a little bit of realization of their lifestyle.

01:42:53.480 What are you talking about?

01:42:54.860 He's not saying date homeless guys.

01:42:56.560 He's saying when you go there, there will be people there that you might want.

01:42:59.780 I build my friend groups.

01:43:02.560 I specifically build my friend groups around charity.

01:43:04.700 I understand.

01:43:05.280 Wait, I'm sorry.

01:43:05.960 Were you saying to meet somebody there to continue going on those?

01:43:09.100 Bro, it's not that heavy.

01:43:10.320 It's not that heavy.

01:43:11.220 It's not that heavy.

01:43:11.860 It's not that complex.

01:43:12.940 How about this? 0.99

01:43:13.620 Talk about community service and shit. 0.99

01:43:15.260 Oh, to meet someone there and then continue going with them. 0.99

01:43:18.240 Oh, to meet somebody there.

01:43:18.480 Oh, Jesus Christ.

01:43:19.800 I heard you wrong.

01:43:20.540 I'm just saying that people in this world deserve a certain amount of kindness to a certain extent.

01:43:26.860 When you see a homeless person out in the streets by the freeways and everything asking for money,

01:43:32.200 what is your first thought?

01:43:33.260 What are you talking about?

01:43:34.900 The empty platitudes here.

01:43:36.040 We're going to move on from that.

01:43:37.040 I don't know where you're.

01:43:38.680 I'm saying, dude, you are so on topic.

01:43:40.540 Dating show.

01:43:41.200 Dating show.

01:43:41.780 We can talk about the nuances.

01:43:43.140 You're a great humanitarian.

01:43:44.580 I mean, we can talk about the nuances of humanitarian work, but kind of unrelated, you know?

01:43:49.860 Okay, might I just add something?

01:43:52.020 Honestly, I love your advice, but most people, most people I know nowadays, they don't want a good guy.

01:43:57.880 They don't really want that.

01:43:59.220 They want to be either.

01:44:00.000 I think I might be able to fix this with a sentence. 0.93

01:44:01.700 You want a man that can slit a throat and hold a baby in the same day. 1.00

01:44:05.480 That's what you want. 0.99

01:44:06.120 Yes.

01:44:06.480 Yeah.

01:44:07.120 That's who you're looking for.

01:44:08.780 So he's at Michael's event, but he could also be Michael when Michael was in the military.

01:44:12.500 I'm sorry, was that sarcasm or were you actually mean for real?

01:44:15.360 No, I mean for real, like a lot of people, like the partners that they choose, I don't know.

01:44:19.120 No, I'm talking about you.

01:44:20.260 You specifically.

01:44:21.440 That's what he was asking.

01:44:22.380 But what was the question? 0.91

01:44:24.020 If you would be with somebody who would slit a throat and hold a baby at the same time. 0.99

01:44:27.380 You're fucking right. 1.00

01:44:28.000 That's what you want as a woman. 1.00

01:44:29.120 That's what you want. 1.00

01:44:29.640 I want someone who isn't afraid of guns and shit. 0.99

01:44:31.980 I want someone who can hold their own. 1.00

01:44:33.580 That's the kind of man you want. 1.00

01:44:34.360 I don't want a fucking soy boy liberal cuck or whatever. 1.00

01:44:37.120 You want a man that could be good with your kids and at the same time kill somebody that 1.00

01:44:42.420 came in your house. 0.99

01:44:43.300 That's what you want.

01:44:44.080 So no blue hair then?

01:44:45.680 Hell no. 1.00

01:44:46.320 What the fuck, dude? 1.00

01:44:47.540 Who are we talking about, by the way? 1.00

01:44:49.500 I don't know, but I'm just saying.

01:44:51.620 All right.

01:44:51.960 Let me get a couple of these super chats here.

01:44:54.260 Let's see.

01:44:54.820 Did we?

01:44:55.120 I think we did.

01:44:57.320 Wait.

01:44:57.760 Did we do this one?

01:44:58.920 No, no.

01:44:59.420 We haven't done that yet.

01:45:00.340 Wait.

01:45:00.840 Did we do this?

01:45:01.540 Wait.

01:45:02.300 Yes, we did that one.

01:45:02.880 I'm keeping track of super chats for you now.

01:45:05.340 Landscaper 69, thank you for the 100.

01:45:06.800 Avery, do you want to read this one?

01:45:08.000 To the panel, what was it you dreamt of doing with your life when you were little?

01:45:11.420 How close or far are you from that dream?

01:45:13.720 What changed your path?

01:45:14.860 Just trying to understand this lost generation. 0.93

01:45:16.980 Let's keep the answer short on this one.

01:45:18.840 So what was it you dreamt of doing with your life when you were little?

01:45:23.160 Let's just answer that one.

01:45:24.520 Go ahead.

01:45:25.240 I wanted to be a singer.

01:45:26.740 I was doing that for a bit, and then I lost my record deal, and now I'm doing OnlyFans.

01:45:31.520 Can you sing pretty well?

01:45:32.860 Do you have a talent?

01:45:33.600 Let's hear it.

01:45:34.360 No, no.

01:45:37.060 What's that song, At Last?

01:45:38.620 Do you know that song?

01:45:41.400 I've heard it.

01:45:42.180 I don't know the words.

01:45:43.100 All right.

01:45:43.460 Go ahead.

01:45:44.600 I want to work in media, which I'm fulfilling.

01:45:48.480 You want to work in media?

01:45:50.620 Yeah.

01:45:51.080 Which you are fulfilling by doing what?

01:45:53.500 Working in media.

01:45:54.740 Are you talking about OnlyFans?

01:45:56.880 OnlyFans is an aspect of media, sure, but I also have a TikTok.

01:45:59.940 I also write for websites and magazines.

01:46:01.960 Okay.

01:46:02.440 But even if I was just doing OnlyFans, I would consider that fulfilling at sure.

01:46:05.580 But the question is, what was it you dreamt of doing with your life when you were little?

01:46:10.520 Did I specifically dream of doing OnlyFans when I was little?

01:46:12.440 No, it didn't exist.

01:46:13.080 Probably wasn't around.

01:46:13.840 Yeah.

01:46:14.380 I suppose sex was around.

01:46:15.300 Like I said, I dreamt of doing media.

01:46:17.100 Fair enough.

01:46:17.380 Working in media.

01:46:17.880 What about you?

01:46:19.360 Oh, just a one-piece journey.

01:46:22.140 Here, turn.

01:46:23.060 Microphone straight towards you.

01:46:24.480 One-piece journey.

01:46:25.000 There you go.

01:46:25.780 Go ahead.

01:46:26.660 Me?

01:46:28.340 Honestly, when I was little, I wanted to be a police officer, but I changed it.

01:46:31.140 I want to be a nurse.

01:46:32.900 Am I doing that right now?

01:46:34.000 No, but I'm currently working so that I can get my car and continue going to school.

01:46:40.580 What change I have?

01:46:41.700 Yeah, I don't know.

01:46:42.380 Go ahead.

01:46:43.260 Always wanted to be in the medical field.

01:46:44.920 I'm almost in the medical field.

01:46:46.640 Nothing straying me from that.

01:46:48.440 You're the ER nurse, right?

01:46:50.060 Physical therapy is what I'm looking at, yeah.

01:46:51.420 Physical therapy is what I'm looking at, yeah.

01:46:51.440 You're the ER nurse.

01:46:52.380 Okay.

01:46:53.140 I just want to be happy, and I want to make other people happy.

01:46:56.600 That was your childhood dream?

01:46:57.920 To be happy?

01:46:58.700 Yeah.

01:46:59.140 That's awesome.

01:46:59.720 I can see it.

01:47:00.340 What else?

01:47:01.040 Is there nothing more specific than just be happy?

01:47:03.300 I don't know.

01:47:03.720 I want to find what makes me happy.

01:47:05.240 I think it's a bigger thing.

01:47:06.840 I want to find what makes me happy, and I want to make other people happy at the same

01:47:09.780 time.

01:47:10.200 Like, I'm not sure what will make me happy, but I want to find it.

01:47:13.480 Go ahead.

01:47:13.920 You will not find happiness.

01:47:17.560 My dream as a child was to do something big with my life, I think make a big difference,

01:47:25.620 and later on it was being a trauma nurse, which I have found that, and then I'm moving

01:47:31.540 more towards humanitarian stuff.

01:47:33.160 Have you saved a life?

01:47:34.600 I've saved many lives.

01:47:35.700 See?

01:47:36.040 There you go.

01:47:36.400 You've done something big.

01:47:38.820 ER nurses stick in there. 1.00

01:47:42.140 You guys got this, and nurses in general, but even the ER gets tiring. 0.95

01:47:50.500 You feel like you're not doing enough in there.

01:47:52.640 What about you?

01:47:54.200 I always wanted to be a model and actress, but I kind of gave up on acting stuff, and now

01:48:00.100 I just do modeling.

01:48:01.680 Okay.

01:48:02.600 I suppose this is asked to the rest of the panel, so...

01:48:05.180 You're living the dream.

01:48:06.080 Michael?

01:48:07.460 It's funny, man.

01:48:08.260 I don't know.

01:48:08.840 I always wanted to be a Longhorn, and I ended up doing that, and then it was never my dream

01:48:14.680 to fly for the Air Force, but I ended up doing that.

01:48:16.780 I don't know, man.

01:48:17.300 It's tough, but I think maybe working in radio, but I sort of ended up doing that with a podcast,

01:48:21.660 so something similar to that.

01:48:23.180 You were a pilot, is that?

01:48:24.540 No, no.

01:48:24.900 I was a civilian pilot.

01:48:26.020 In the military, I was a navigator.

01:48:27.280 I was an instructor navigator on the KC-135, yeah.

01:48:29.260 Okay, but in the military, you were not a pilot?

01:48:32.200 No, I was a KC...

01:48:32.900 Yeah, navigator.

01:48:33.620 Navigator.

01:48:33.940 Okay, gotcha.

01:48:34.180 Yeah, and I worked in counterintelligence near the end of my career.

01:48:36.500 Okay, cool.

01:48:36.980 But then, you said in your civilian life, you're a pilot?

01:48:39.440 Yeah, I flew a Cessna 172 and a Piper Warrior.

01:48:41.720 Oh, awesome.

01:48:42.600 Super cool.

01:48:44.260 Justin?

01:48:45.400 Yeah, man.

01:48:45.740 When I was a kid, I always said I was going to be a businessman.

01:48:48.520 It was very vague.

01:48:49.260 I don't think I knew what I meant, but it couldn't have worked out better, man.

01:48:52.320 Life's a dream.

01:48:53.040 Hell yeah.

01:48:54.760 And when I was a kid, let's see, when I was 10, I wanted to be ace freely.

01:48:59.580 That's what I wanted to be.

01:49:00.500 I wanted to be in KISS.

01:49:01.400 That's what I wanted to be.

01:49:02.720 As simple as that.

01:49:03.540 No, I mean, I always wanted to be a touring musician, which I got to do for quite some

01:49:10.660 time when I was in the late 80s and early 90s, and I still play in a band right now.

01:49:14.880 But it's so much more than that.

01:49:16.280 It's like I'm a creative individual.

01:49:18.160 I don't think a lot of people really get that from me, because when I'm doing what I do here

01:49:22.520 right now, they think I'm super analytical, but I actually am very much, as you can tell

01:49:27.280 from my thumbnails, I'm very much an artist, too.

01:49:29.760 So I've always been an artist, and I do exactly what I wanted to do.

01:49:34.920 Very talented graphic designer.

01:49:37.260 And I suppose I'll answer the question.

01:49:39.000 At one point, I wanted to be a magician, and that didn't work out.

01:49:42.940 And then I wanted to be a professional surfer.

01:49:45.160 That also did not work out.

01:49:47.480 Landscaper 69, thank you for the donation.

01:49:49.920 Avery, go ahead.

01:49:51.020 Brian, it depends on if you go terminal, low tower, or en route radar.

01:49:56.960 En route gets paid way more, but it's significantly harder.

01:50:00.300 Aspen, have you ever listened to the Bible in a year podcast with Father Mike?

01:50:03.580 If you haven't, you should.

01:50:04.860 It's fantastic.

01:50:06.320 Aspen.

01:50:09.640 I have not done that.

01:50:11.360 Okay.

01:50:12.180 Cannon, thank you for the $100 soup chat.

01:50:13.640 I really appreciate it, man.

01:50:14.640 Is that a gecko face palming?

01:50:16.720 Hello?

01:50:17.500 Is that, like, the Geico gecko?

01:50:19.100 I don't know.

01:50:19.680 Thank you, man.

01:50:20.040 I appreciate it.

01:50:21.340 American virus is freedom.

01:50:23.540 Thank you for the $100.

01:50:24.700 Avery, go ahead.

01:50:25.640 As a traditional guy, I look at women that sleep with a lot of men as someone that is

01:50:29.000 willing to have a kid with those men.

01:50:30.820 A man that is willing to sleep with a lot of women are willing to emotionally damage ladies 1.00

01:50:34.300 they don't want to stay with.

01:50:35.460 Neither is healthy.

01:50:36.980 That is so true.

01:50:37.980 Anyone have, Justin, thoughts on this?

01:50:42.100 Michael?

01:50:43.140 Rovo? 0.94

01:50:44.340 Any thoughts? 0.90

01:50:45.300 I think you don't necessarily want to have kids with everyone you have sex with.

01:50:49.280 So I don't know if that's the case.

01:50:50.760 It's conflating.

01:50:51.260 I do think it's leverage to judge people.

01:50:53.260 But, I mean, in some cases you do.

01:50:54.920 Here's the thing.

01:50:56.040 Subconsciously, though, you do.

01:50:56.960 And it's more so with women than men, where women will, like, again, the oxytocin release 1.00

01:51:01.840 that happens after a woman has sex with a man is more powerful in women than it is 0.99

01:51:05.340 men.

01:51:05.500 So I could see that argument subconsciously.

01:51:07.720 But I think cognitively, I'm not sure if that's the case.

01:51:09.160 No, it's just the argument for licking the ice cream.

01:51:11.940 That's all.

01:51:12.860 There's the ice cream store.

01:51:14.080 And some guys get to go into the ice cream store earlier or, like, at all, go in there.

01:51:18.680 And what they do is they go and lick every flavor of ice cream.

01:51:21.720 So when everybody else goes in there, they realize that, oh, hey, this ice cream's been

01:51:25.740 licked.

01:51:26.460 That's a metaphor.

01:51:27.540 I know it's dangerous to use these days.

01:51:30.220 But it's a metaphor for the fact that guys, there's this belief that a certain percentage

01:51:35.400 of guys are going and essentially sleeping with all the women and then damaging those

01:51:39.800 women. 0.81

01:51:40.180 And then those women, when they find the real guy, when they finally get to be 28, 29, 0.99

01:51:45.080 30 years old, and they're trying to do the right thing, then they're damaged goods.

01:51:50.260 And all because some sinister group of very elite men, a small percentage of them, have 0.99

01:51:56.600 ruined those women because they had had sex with them. 0.73

01:51:59.860 Well, the problem with your estimate there is you also have to remember that women choose 0.99

01:52:03.840 to have sex with those guys in the first place. 0.61

01:52:06.280 So you got to look at it from both sides. 0.83

01:52:09.120 I know you got something to say.

01:52:12.000 No, I agree with you.

01:52:13.020 I don't think he's wrong.

01:52:14.140 I think that, you know, there's a certain level of man that can go through an alpha widow

01:52:17.700 with a bunch of women.

01:52:18.480 And I'm just saying I believe that.

01:52:22.140 And life isn't fair, man.

01:52:24.420 So you need to compete very, very hard, understand where you fall in the rank of things, and put

01:52:28.780 yourself in a position to be the highest level of man that she could be with.

01:52:32.560 Because until you do that, then there's not really a conversation.

01:52:35.080 I'll just keep rolling through them and all the other guys like me will.

01:52:37.760 So that's your problem to handle, my friend.

01:52:40.200 That's why you should work so hard. 1.00

01:52:41.380 That's why everybody watching this shit should work so fucking hard. 0.99

01:52:43.900 Be the best man you can possibly be, because if you love your wife, even if it's your future 1.00

01:52:48.540 wife, you are going to be faced with this scenario. 0.94

01:52:51.100 And that's the only way that you're going to win, my friend.

01:52:53.980 Justin, just a question.

01:52:55.160 When you say faced with that scenario, what do you mean?

01:52:57.760 So every man is going to compete after he's married, regardless.

01:53:01.600 Like, hypergamy is a real thing.

01:53:03.100 I mean, respectfully, by the way, it is very, very real.

01:53:08.360 And it is something that you're constantly going to be doing in your life is competing.

01:53:11.600 So performance.

01:53:12.520 You have a burden of performance.

01:53:13.800 Yeah, men do have a burden of performance.

01:53:15.240 And it's very important that you realize that and accept that ugly truth of the world.

01:53:18.760 You can get mad at women and blame it on women. 0.99

01:53:20.560 But the truth of the matter is, unless you're doing the work to maximize every part of you

01:53:23.600 in every way, then you should look at no one but yourself. 0.99

01:53:26.140 So go find a mirror, my friend, instead of typing on this channel and talking shit about 1.00

01:53:30.260 how women are hypergamous. 1.00

01:53:31.320 We already know that.

01:53:32.040 So all you can do is build yourself up to the man that she would never leave.

01:53:35.540 Yeah, his argument that it's unhealthy for men to run through a bunch of women is not 0.99

01:53:39.580 going to stop men, especially high-status men, from doing exactly that.

01:53:43.320 100%.

01:53:43.640 He's just complaining.

01:53:44.400 Yeah, and the fact that you complain about it isn't going to change it either.

01:53:47.200 Like, again, on one hand, we have, you know, 17, 18 years of Facebook.

01:53:51.120 And on the other hand, we have 300,000 years of homo sapien evolution.

01:53:55.060 The evolution means more.

01:53:57.020 And women will be hypergamous, and men will compete with other men over women. 0.97

01:54:00.100 That is not something that happened because of the United States of America or because

01:54:03.360 of TikTok.

01:54:03.920 That is something that has been the same since we were descended from Australopithecus.

01:54:08.320 That is always the way hominids have been. 1.00

01:54:11.680 All right.

01:54:12.160 We have Davon Jackson here.

01:54:13.740 Thank you for the $200 soup chat.

01:54:14.940 Yo, pause, please.

01:54:15.680 I believe this is in response to Mike Davis's comments towards Justin that were perhaps

01:54:24.660 romantic in nature.

01:54:28.060 Mike Davis seems to take a liking to sometimes the men on the panel.

01:54:31.840 He said he isn't gay. 0.59

01:54:33.980 But if he was gay, that's what he said.

01:54:36.240 He did qualify that.

01:54:37.600 Fair, fair. 1.00

01:54:39.000 Holy shit. 0.99

01:54:40.020 It's a really tricky position because he's being so nice to me. 0.97

01:54:42.360 Thank you, man.

01:54:45.440 On behalf of the military homies, are military guys red flags in the dating scene? 0.98

01:54:50.640 Why or why not?

01:54:51.680 Yeah, we can go around the table on this.

01:54:53.240 Avery, is it a red flag?

01:54:55.380 Why or why not?

01:54:56.900 I don't think so.

01:55:00.980 I don't know.

01:55:01.660 I've actually never dated or matched with a guy in the military.

01:55:06.200 But no.

01:55:08.400 No, it wouldn't be.

01:55:09.260 I'm kind of confused.

01:55:09.900 Why would it be?

01:55:10.900 Like, what's the person you're saying?

01:55:11.680 I suppose, I mean, PCS, TDYs, like, you're caused to travel on deployments and stuff.

01:55:18.320 But it's honestly the military men get taken advantage of more than they're the red flags.

01:55:22.560 It's quite the opposite.

01:55:23.740 Like, military men get cheated.

01:55:25.060 There was a show called Army Wives, I believe, on CBS that just illustrated this entire point.

01:55:29.940 It's women, especially after World War II, guys would be deployed for two years.

01:55:33.220 They'd come back, and it was like a 75% divorce rate after that. 0.76

01:55:35.640 So it's quite the opposite.

01:55:37.620 It's men who get married and then deploy.

01:55:40.080 That whole situation tends to be a red flag.

01:55:42.360 What's it called?

01:55:43.020 A dependipotamus?

01:55:44.660 Is that – have you heard that term, Mike?

01:55:47.160 Dependipotamus?

01:55:47.580 A dependipotamus.

01:55:48.400 A dependipotamus.

01:55:49.020 Well done.

01:55:49.620 Is that –

01:55:50.340 Yeah, there's women who just scour around Fort Hood, you know, is looking for – 1.00

01:55:55.040 I got a follow-up question for you, but let them finish.

01:55:56.780 But they just scour around Fort Hood looking for any, like, second lieutenant they can get their hands on or any – you know, it's just – so I think it's quite the opposite as far as being a red flag.

01:56:04.640 Most military guys I know don't have the ability to cheat.

01:56:06.740 When you do a 15-month deployment in Iraq, you don't have the ability to cheat, so.

01:56:10.860 Yeah.

01:56:11.260 Is that a red flag to you?

01:56:12.560 Yes.

01:56:13.360 Are military guys a red flag?

01:56:15.460 It's because I just don't like that feeling of just waiting for somebody.

01:56:19.060 I'm waiting for you.

01:56:20.280 I have loyalty.

01:56:22.680 I have trust.

01:56:23.960 I have this.

01:56:24.720 I have communication.

01:56:25.500 I have that as a person, and I invest all this with a person that's completely far away.

01:56:31.760 And now this person has a lot of other things in his, you know, view at this point.

01:56:36.180 He's exposed to new things.

01:56:38.000 He doesn't have time for that person that's waiting at home.

01:56:41.440 So now she's stuck at home waiting.

01:56:43.360 Okay, so no long-distance relationships.

01:56:44.940 Exactly.

01:56:45.140 Got it.

01:56:45.880 I'm going to say yes due to personal experience and also, like, other people's point of view.

01:56:52.840 So you dated a guy in the military?

01:56:54.360 I dated a guy in the military.

01:56:55.440 That was my seven-month situation, situationship.

01:56:58.680 Well, it's just between us.

01:57:00.620 But, like, for example, I would, like, you're not allowed to do this, but I would also sleep in his barracks.

01:57:06.740 And I would hear a lot of the rumors that was happening.

01:57:09.100 For example, he has this friend who is, has a fiance.

01:57:13.480 He has another friend that is married.

01:57:15.960 And they would have girls over at their rooms all the time. 1.00

01:57:19.140 They have these things called barrack bunnies or something like that.

01:57:23.000 Yeah, desert queens is when you're deployed in barrack bunnies. 0.99

01:57:26.600 I think the other thing we have to differentiate is, I think you're talking about enlisted infantry, and there's a big difference between that, or just enlisted in general.

01:57:34.080 Well, I'm talking about enlisted, and I'm talking about other people as well that were outside.

01:57:37.940 For example, like, I, obviously I have girlfriends, and then his friends would be like, hey, like, set me up with your girlfriends.

01:57:44.540 And I'd be like, you guys already have somebody, though.

01:57:46.800 Then they'd be like, okay, but they wouldn't have to know.

01:57:48.780 Because I don't know the girls personally.

01:57:50.960 So they're trying to get on the down low.

01:57:52.280 Exactly.

01:57:52.800 So I don't trust any of those guys.

01:57:55.400 So it's a trust thing.

01:57:56.420 It's a trust thing.

01:57:57.900 I don't think you can judge everybody by the actions of a few.

01:58:01.880 Speak up a little bit.

01:58:02.720 I don't think you can judge people by the actions of a few like that.

01:58:05.580 Like, it's not a trust thing.

01:58:07.040 I think if a man is willing to put his life on the line to learn how to protect our country and to protect me, I think that that's not a red flag.

01:58:15.160 Hey, maybe I'm biased because my uncle is a Marine, was a Marine.

01:58:19.860 But I have nothing but respect for a Marine.

01:58:22.160 Once a Marine, always a Marine.

01:58:23.140 No, he's still a Marine.

01:58:24.220 He's still a Marine.

01:58:24.800 He's still a Marine.

01:58:25.600 I have nothing but respect for members of the military.

01:58:29.020 Honestly, it wouldn't be a red flag at all because one that shows that the guy is very willing to die for his country, which means that he, you know, he has a good guy.

01:58:38.080 Pro-social.

01:58:38.720 Good guy.

01:58:39.240 Yeah, he's a good guy.

01:58:40.420 Aspen, what do you think?

01:58:41.220 Oh, yeah, I love this country and it would raise eyebrows just because one of my life goals is to have my husband with my kids there as much as possible.

01:58:52.180 But for the right guy, I would accept that.

01:58:54.920 Kylie, would you date a military guy?

01:58:57.920 Hey, Michael.

01:58:58.500 No, yeah, I think it's great.

01:59:01.960 I can see how some girls wouldn't want to, like, deal with, like, dating somebody actually, like, currently active duty, like, in the military because of the whole, like, waiting game or whatever.

01:59:10.920 But out of it, that's great.

01:59:12.760 Quick follow-up question.

01:59:14.240 Do you guys know the percentage of Americans who served in the military?

01:59:19.220 Or served?

01:59:19.720 Is it serving or served?

01:59:20.900 Ever served.

01:59:21.600 Ever served in the military?

01:59:22.840 Percentage of Americans?

01:59:24.140 Probably really a while.

01:59:24.780 No?

01:59:25.420 No?

01:59:25.720 65?

01:59:26.080 65%, really.

01:59:28.080 Anybody?

01:59:28.420 Anybody want to throw out some guests?

01:59:30.840 9%.

01:59:31.240 Anybody else?

01:59:33.040 435?

01:59:35.300 Yeah, the number is 6% of people have ever served, and that's active duty, reserve, or anything like that.

01:59:41.440 A lot of people don't realize is, like, less than 1% of the U.S. population is currently in the military.

01:59:45.400 And so, yeah, it's actually a much lower number than people think.

01:59:47.880 They did a YouGov survey, and people thought it was somewhere in the 40s.

01:59:50.580 Yeah.

01:59:50.860 That 40% of Americans, or no, they thought 65% of Americans had served in the military.

01:59:55.240 No, it's about 6% of people living right now have ever served in the military.

01:59:59.760 Can I have you just scoot your microphone?

02:00:02.440 Can I have you scoot your microphone to the edge of the table?

02:00:05.060 Pull it towards you.

02:00:05.780 Pull it towards you.

02:00:06.440 Thank you.

02:00:07.460 All right, we have a super chat here from AGM 1991.

02:00:11.080 Thank you for the super chat, man.

02:00:12.820 Appreciate it.

02:00:13.740 Avery, go ahead.

02:00:14.960 Avery, I have a question for you.

02:00:16.440 There is a woman that I'm interested in, and I feel a connection with her.

02:00:19.300 Any advice?

02:00:20.640 You want a perfect relationship?

02:00:22.080 Get your relationship with God, Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit, and God's Word, and KJV.

02:00:27.360 Trust me and believe me.

02:00:29.560 So what's the question?

02:00:30.460 There's a woman that I'm interested in, and I feel a connection with her.

02:00:32.640 Any advice?

02:00:34.400 I think that's really fair.

02:00:35.660 I feel like I need more information here, but...

02:00:37.900 I feel like he needs to be telling that girl the advice he just gave you when he asked

02:00:42.480 you for advice.

02:00:43.900 No, I think that was meant for Aspen, because there's another one under this that said, oh,

02:00:47.360 I said the wrong girl again later.

02:00:48.860 I don't know.

02:00:49.260 I saw it earlier.

02:00:50.440 Oh, okay.

02:00:51.240 I think that was meant for Aspen.

02:00:53.900 Well, then I'll let you answer.

02:00:55.540 This one?

02:00:56.280 Yeah.

02:00:56.780 I thought I saw one earlier.

02:00:57.820 I read this earlier.

02:00:58.220 I mean, this is a very general question.

02:01:01.200 Any advice?

02:01:04.180 Is it for Avery or for Aspen?

02:01:06.080 I don't know.

02:01:06.580 You should answer.

02:01:07.240 I'm curious.

02:01:08.260 I don't know.

02:01:09.340 I need more information, but I just can say what I want.

02:01:12.300 I just want to be treated like I'm the prettiest princess in all the land.

02:01:16.720 All the land?

02:01:17.720 Yes.

02:01:18.280 Out of curiosity, have you ever gone out with a guy who didn't treat you like you were

02:01:21.420 the prettiest princess in all the land?

02:01:22.640 Yeah.

02:01:22.860 A guy who maybe was a little harder to get, to go out with a night?

02:01:25.640 I feel like Manx won donated $100.

02:01:28.820 If only you really understood the relationship between real men and what they deserve.

02:01:34.000 Top G types and what they really look for is totally not what you get.

02:01:38.400 If the girl second from the left could find a guy worth having, we could save the world.

02:01:45.760 Derek Manx.

02:01:46.700 Thank you.

02:01:47.000 Second from the left. 0.83

02:01:48.140 That's you.

02:01:48.700 That's Aspen. 0.95

02:01:49.480 Just say Aspen.

02:01:50.820 Aspen's easy to remember.

02:01:52.780 Can I respond to that guy?

02:01:54.600 Sure. 0.98

02:01:55.340 I would say be somebody that can lead her towards the Lord and also someone that can cut a throat 0.99

02:02:02.640 and hold a baby. 0.97

02:02:03.240 Sorry guys, I'm adjusting something here.

02:02:06.900 That's going to go in the title of this show.

02:02:09.560 Sorry guys, I'm adjusting something here on my laptop.

02:02:15.780 While I do that, is there anything, this is a question I often ask, is there anything dating

02:02:22.300 related, anybody wants to get off your chest?

02:02:24.940 So either something that you specifically want to ask, maybe a question you want some

02:02:30.560 advice on, men are pissing you off in some way.

02:02:33.020 Is there anything dating related you want to get off your chest?

02:02:36.920 Go ahead Avery.

02:02:37.480 I, oh, I don't know.

02:02:41.520 I don't want, I mean, I'm not having luck in the dating department, but I'm not going 0.99

02:02:45.440 to like shit on men for that. 0.96

02:02:47.840 So, I don't know. 0.99

02:02:49.460 I don't have any questions at this time.

02:02:52.140 What about you?

02:02:53.140 I'm confused.

02:02:53.900 Am I inquiring dating advice?

02:02:55.960 What?

02:02:56.480 So, is there anything dating related that you want to get off your chest?

02:02:59.680 So, any specific topic that you'd like to talk about related to dating or maybe when

02:03:05.360 it comes to dating, men are pissing you off in some way.

02:03:07.480 Just give them some prompts here.

02:03:08.860 Well, they seem to be traditional, so I'd like to talk about like what their standards

02:03:12.420 are for a female partner.

02:03:15.460 You talking to Justin?

02:03:17.040 All of them.

02:03:18.340 I'm curious about that too.

02:03:19.620 Let's start with Justin.

02:03:20.380 Let's start with Justin.

02:03:21.240 Because you're willing to provide 100% for a woman. 0.91

02:03:23.120 So, when I asked earlier, strings attached, I didn't mean in terms of her putting out for

02:03:26.160 the date.

02:03:26.480 I meant like what woman qualifies for that treatment. 1.00

02:03:32.960 Loyalty.

02:03:33.400 I think positive feedback, giving appreciation.

02:03:37.920 See, the beautiful thing about love really is that when you give to your family, your

02:03:42.560 family tells you how much they appreciate it.

02:03:44.120 That's what makes it fun, right?

02:03:45.220 That's the beautiful thing about love is to be able to take care of somebody to provide

02:03:48.060 for and protect them.

02:03:48.720 Ideally, somebody that is very intelligent, that I can connect with on an intellectual

02:03:53.340 level, is very, very important to me.

02:03:55.580 I think it makes it better.

02:03:57.940 Particularly if it's going to be any kind of long-term thing, not short-term, like just

02:04:00.980 sex.

02:04:01.680 Like if I'm going to be around this person for a while, I'm going to want to respect them 0.87

02:04:05.080 mentally.

02:04:05.420 And also, I want that person to be on my mission with me, like supporting my mission.

02:04:13.480 So, particularly, like let's say I met a girl like you.

02:04:16.160 If you were doing OnlyFans, at some point, you would, ideally, you would recognize the

02:04:21.760 path that I'm on and want to get behind that program and support that program with all of

02:04:25.680 your talent and your efforts and everything.

02:04:27.140 So, I think a man should be able to give a woman a mission to get on with him, but is 1.00

02:04:31.340 on the path that he is leading.

02:04:32.600 A man should be the leader in the relationship, and for that reason, I'd want a woman that 1.00

02:04:36.540 could get inside of my frame and be happy, happy to be there.

02:04:40.920 So, in a nutshell, that's what I'd be looking for. 0.92

02:04:43.120 Okay, so you wouldn't want the woman to get off OnlyFans because it's like sex work, but 1.00

02:04:46.240 just because that's her individual career path and you'd want her to kind of like abandon 0.94

02:04:49.920 her career for your path, or specifically because it's OnlyFans slash sex work? 1.00

02:04:53.880 OnlyFans wouldn't be ideal, I can tell you.

02:04:56.280 Like I probably wouldn't like that if I'm being 100% with you, but as far as her wanting

02:05:01.600 to do something that she's passionate about, if she wanted to work, and for whatever reason

02:05:06.260 she had a passion in some area, I would support that.

02:05:09.100 Ideally, she'd want to help me with my mission, but if she wanted to do something that she

02:05:14.300 was passionate about, I would let her do it.

02:05:16.120 Now, would I wife up a girl in OnlyFans? 0.69

02:05:17.760 No, I wouldn't.

02:05:18.500 Would I look past it to get to a place where I could build her to somewhere else? 1.00

02:05:22.020 Yeah, I would.

02:05:22.900 And I think that is a man's job, is to build a woman up to where he wants to go. 0.97

02:05:25.700 For example, if you meet a woman, you should be wanting to build her up so you can take 1.00

02:05:30.640 her with you to meet those millionaires that are going to invest in your deal, or the billionaires 0.75

02:05:34.400 on a boat in Dubai.

02:05:35.820 A man's job should be, in part, to build a woman up to the highest level he possibly can. 1.00

02:05:40.960 So it's an investment that the man puts into a woman to try to build her up and make her 1.00

02:05:44.620 the perfect partner for him, and that's just a part of it.

02:05:47.980 So yeah, that's how I look at it.

02:05:50.200 That makes sense.

02:05:50.720 So the cardinal thing you look for is loyalty.

02:05:52.360 Can you characterize what makes a loyal woman?

02:05:53.940 Because depending where you fall in the red pill spectrum, or even not the red pill spectrum,

02:05:57.720 some guys consider a woman going to parties, or even having a public Instagram account

02:06:02.620 an act of infidelity.

02:06:04.400 So what do you consider a loyal woman? 1.00

02:06:06.340 I would probably have the password to that Instagram account if it got very serious.

02:06:10.220 I'd be able to see every message.

02:06:12.120 Yeah.

02:06:12.960 And she wouldn't have a problem with that, because she'd want to be inside my frame.

02:06:16.420 Women don't want space for men they're actually in love with. 1.00

02:06:20.480 They don't want that.

02:06:21.460 But in fact, women want nothing more to be enthralled by a man that they actually want. 0.68

02:06:27.180 They're like, please let me give this to you.

02:06:28.840 I want you.

02:06:30.000 That's the kind of...

02:06:30.680 That's the kind of...

02:06:31.460 And you can't fake genuine desire.

02:06:33.700 Yes.

02:06:34.060 So it's not transactional at that point.

02:06:35.660 At that point, you would want to do everything that it took to be a part of that man's life,

02:06:39.620 because you were truly, truly in love with him.

02:06:41.420 Sure.

02:06:41.680 Does that lack of space go both ways?

02:06:43.400 Would she also have your password?

02:06:44.700 Absolutely not.

02:06:45.300 No, she wouldn't.

02:06:45.740 So how does she feel your genuine love, just from the financial aspect of you caring for her and building her up?

02:06:50.720 I'm glad you asked that.

02:06:51.960 It's very, very important that the people in the Red Pill space start to include the fact that you're there for her.

02:06:58.080 You'll sit there with her knee to knee.

02:07:00.000 Like, you are truly best friends.

02:07:01.480 You are emotionally there for her.

02:07:03.760 I also say a lot that a man should be the mountain that a woman's emotional waves crash into. 0.71

02:07:09.480 He should be there for her fully.

02:07:11.300 This isn't like big G pimping type stuff.

02:07:13.680 Like, he's truly there for this woman in every way.

02:07:16.320 They're talking all the time.

02:07:17.660 They're in a constant contact.

02:07:18.840 They love each other.

02:07:19.620 It's true love.

02:07:20.560 Is it dark?

02:07:21.180 Yeah.

02:07:21.740 But listen, if it's not me and you against the world, if the love's not dark, if it's not me and you against everything that everybody's saying,

02:07:28.320 I don't want that love at all. 0.99

02:07:29.720 Because that's that boring shit that ends up going off anyway. 0.99

02:07:32.860 So many people get married every day in America. 1.00

02:07:35.060 They make these vows to be, you know, hey, I'm going to be the best man I can be and all this other stuff.

02:07:40.360 But they come home, they pop open a beer, and they get fat.

02:07:42.680 You want a man that's actually on a mission, that's out there trying to do something so he can make your dreams come true and take you on a carpet ride through time and space.

02:07:49.540 Nothing more.

02:07:50.420 I completely agree with the notion that a relationship should be two individuals building each other up and pushing each other.

02:07:56.180 I'm just trying to investigate the asymmetry and why you would have her passwords but not vice versa.

02:08:00.420 Is it that you wouldn't trust her?

02:08:02.580 Is it that you'd want to monitor the messages before they come in so that she doesn't see them first?

02:08:05.840 Like, what is the intention?

02:08:07.840 No, she would be able to see them.

02:08:09.380 But it's just a trust thing between me and a woman.

02:08:12.120 Like, you would want me to have your passwords.

02:08:14.580 Not even me.

02:08:15.720 If you were in love with said man, you would either want to either get off of it.

02:08:19.480 There it is.

02:08:20.180 Or, yeah, because you have to understand, as a man, like you, for example, beautiful woman.

02:08:25.680 Very smart, too, by the way.

02:08:26.880 I think you've been pretty impenetrable on this show.

02:08:29.260 I'm very impressed by you.

02:08:31.120 This isn't Riz.

02:08:31.880 Like, just genuine compliment.

02:08:32.980 Truly.

02:08:34.660 But your marketing yourself on the internet would be a no-go for me.

02:08:38.320 Because if you were truly, truly giving yourself away to a man, you wouldn't market on the internet. 0.98

02:08:43.380 And I do look at it as marketing when a woman has her titties all over the internet. 1.00

02:08:47.020 And that's no disrespect. 0.85

02:08:48.160 That's just if it were my girl and I'm the person that's doing everything I can to fight and make her life 10x would it be without me,

02:08:54.700 then that would be a simple expectation.

02:08:56.340 I don't think that's too much to ask.

02:08:57.520 I think that's 100% your prerogative.

02:08:59.440 My issue more is when men have asymmetrical standards.

02:09:01.920 So they want a girl who's not showing her titties on Instagram, but then their explore page is full of Instagram models, 0.98

02:09:07.520 and they're liking their posts, or they're watching porn. 0.95

02:09:09.880 So for me, if I found a guy who wouldn't want me on Instagram, and that was the love of my life,

02:09:14.440 I would just want him to not be on Instagram either.

02:09:17.900 If you wanted my passwords...

02:09:19.040 Are you talking...

02:09:19.660 Oh, sorry, go ahead.

02:09:20.580 If you want my passwords, the same cuts both ways.

02:09:22.580 And if anything, it makes more sense for the girl to have the guy's passwords,

02:09:25.980 because guys will be the first to argue that guys are the first to stray.

02:09:28.780 Just related to the asymmetry thing, so I kind of want to add a little bit to that.

02:09:34.400 So, for example, do you think that a guy who desires a woman with a low body count,

02:09:39.720 who doesn't have a promiscuous past, yet, for example, he might be promiscuous,

02:09:45.100 or he's got a bunch of women, or he has a high body count,

02:09:49.220 do you quarrel with that?

02:09:50.600 Do you take an issue with that?

02:09:51.600 Because you mentioned you have an issue with asymmetry.

02:09:54.140 Do you have an issue with that?

02:09:56.540 100%.

02:09:56.860 Like I said, I think it's your prerogative to find someone who matches your values.

02:09:59.880 I'm highly selective.

02:10:00.780 I want a partner who's also highly selective.

02:10:02.640 I don't think that maps onto body count, because, for instance,

02:10:04.720 if a girl tells you, like, I have 80 bodies, 0.95

02:10:07.120 you can't deduce how selective she is, because that could be...

02:10:10.000 No, you can deduce she's not selective, but she has 80 bodies. 0.99

02:10:12.680 You can't.

02:10:13.240 Yeah, it's a bit high.

02:10:13.700 You can't, because...

02:10:14.660 It's pretty high, but it's a bit high. 1.00

02:10:15.540 Wouldn't you argue women have access to fuck every single man on this planet? 1.00

02:10:18.380 She still has a 99.9999% curve rate. 1.00

02:10:21.280 80s.

02:10:21.640 That's not 80s.

02:10:22.920 You're proving my point.

02:10:24.120 That means 80s is pretty high. 1.00

02:10:25.220 That's a lot of penis. 1.00

02:10:26.180 I'm saying context is important, and I wouldn't... 1.00

02:10:28.880 A ton of penis. 0.99

02:10:29.460 Context is important, and I wouldn't reduce it to just a number. 1.00

02:10:31.620 For instance, body count usually just refers to penile vaginal sex. 1.00

02:10:34.900 Like, would you consider her selective if she has just a ton of lesbian sex? 1.00

02:10:39.300 But she's, like, fucking ran through. 1.00

02:10:40.760 That's the issue. 0.99

02:10:41.520 She's ran through.

02:10:42.200 Ran through in a very specific way. 1.00

02:10:44.600 They don't care if you fuck 1,000 women, but one guy, they care about it. 0.99

02:10:49.120 Wait, let's be very clear here. 1.00

02:10:50.240 I don't really want to get AIDS, so yes, I do care if they fuck 1,000 women. 1.00

02:10:52.760 Sure, but typically the traditional body count conversation doesn't care about that. 0.99

02:10:56.020 Here, let's have Justin come in.

02:10:57.180 Go ahead.

02:10:57.720 Well, I just want to be very clear about this.

02:10:59.300 You're looking for a fair situation, but newsflash, the light world is not fair.

02:11:04.340 Men and women are different.

02:11:05.620 That man is going to get up and go through stress every day and face the challenges of the world

02:11:09.080 while you have a pretty cush life.

02:11:11.220 Men have always slept with multiple women.

02:11:13.040 It's not fair. 1.00

02:11:13.660 It's bullshit. 0.99

02:11:14.240 I know it hurts. 1.00

02:11:14.900 I know it sucks.

02:11:15.680 I know it's not a good thing to say, but it is absolutely true. 0.99

02:11:19.320 And you are at the top of your sexual marketplace value.

02:11:23.480 And there's going to be, she's 24.

02:11:26.080 Am I past it?

02:11:27.100 Yeah.

02:11:28.340 No, you're at the, no.

02:11:29.260 You're about to, no.

02:11:29.840 I'm two days old in 24.

02:11:31.640 No, it's all good.

02:11:32.240 You're probably at the top.

02:11:33.360 But let me tell you where you're not.

02:11:35.160 You're not at 30 where you're out of time and you want to have children and you're absolutely

02:11:38.920 in love with a man and he loves you in every way and you feel safe around him.

02:11:42.200 You're not in that position yet.

02:11:43.540 So you can't see an outcome where you would give a little to take a little back.

02:11:47.060 And I'm cool with that.

02:11:48.320 But I will tell you this, when you get up higher in age and the clock's ticking and that man's

02:11:53.400 good to you and you trust him and you feel safe around him and he's truly your best friend

02:11:57.000 and you look up to him, admire him, then you might think differently about how you feel

02:12:00.460 now.

02:12:01.040 And I'm not saying you're wrong, but I'm just telling you that your opinion might change

02:12:05.100 in time.

02:12:06.120 Sure.

02:12:06.680 My point was in response to his, which is would I have a problem with the asymmetry of

02:12:10.280 wanting a woman with a low body count while having a high one? 1.00

02:12:12.660 And I would because what I consider a valid reason for preferring a partner with a low

02:12:16.660 body count is that it's better for pair bonding. 0.93

02:12:18.700 You're less likely, if you don't have that propensity to seek novelty, you're less likely

02:12:22.300 to stray.

02:12:22.820 People who are more promiscuous, they tend to be more unfaithful.

02:12:25.680 Correct.

02:12:25.820 That cuts both ways.

02:12:26.540 But those studies do not.

02:12:27.520 The studies clearly show that it is far, far more likely the case with women than men.

02:12:31.480 In fact, in some cases, after a certain amount, it's negligible with men.

02:12:35.740 With over 20, when women have slept with over 20 men, it's like a 17% chance that she's 0.99

02:12:39.900 still happy in a marriage.

02:12:41.180 For men, it does not show that drop off.

02:12:43.040 It does when we're talking about virgins.

02:12:45.120 We're talking about two virgins?

02:12:46.160 Yes.

02:12:46.720 But the thing, the question you asked before, what is the one thing before you went to the

02:12:50.300 bathroom that you're most upset about with dating?

02:12:52.180 It's that people don't look up these studies.

02:12:54.280 That is the one thing I'm the most upset about.

02:12:56.340 People are listening to Oprah Winfrey and Joy Behar and Whoopi Goldberg and Dr. Phil.

02:13:01.520 They're not listening to Dr. David Buss and Steven Stewart-Williams and Gad Saad.

02:13:06.080 There's studies on every one of these questions that we have, and they've been handled.

02:13:09.860 Beauty is subjective.

02:13:11.840 It is objective.

02:13:13.720 Hypergamy is not something that is created that's cultural.

02:13:16.580 We know now that it's genetic.

02:13:18.140 Sure.

02:13:18.360 Let's stay on topic.

02:13:19.180 My point was that guys are seeking virgins, so the reciprocity of that would be a guy

02:13:23.980 who's also a virgin.

02:13:24.640 And like you just said, you can cite a study that proves that when both partners are virgins,

02:13:28.900 there's a higher, like the pair bonding is more intense.

02:13:31.720 Correct.

02:13:32.320 Yeah, but you're not going to be attracted to a man that's a virgin.

02:13:34.280 Yeah, that's the other problem.

02:13:35.700 But guys typically, when they talk about body count, their ideal body count is zero in a

02:13:39.200 woman.

02:13:39.800 So I was giving you the converse. 1.00

02:13:42.440 Uneducated guys who don't fuck. 1.00

02:13:43.700 Yeah, yeah. 1.00

02:13:44.160 Those guys don't have sex. 0.94

02:13:45.140 Look, you want a low body count.

02:13:46.480 I'll say a single digit number is probably what you're looking for as a man.

02:13:49.540 I'm not even saying I'm looking for that.

02:13:50.660 Like I said, I don't think you can deduce selectiveness from a number because context

02:13:53.920 matters. 0.98

02:13:54.360 You could have gone through a breakup and been traumatized and maybe fucked 80 people in 0.97

02:13:57.620 one week, but then you were abstinent for six years. 0.99

02:13:59.600 I'll say that with a broken birth. 0.77

02:14:00.760 That still makes you a ho. 1.00

02:14:01.660 That's a broken birth.

02:14:03.040 Go ahead.

02:14:03.340 I got one, but go ahead.

02:14:04.320 Let her go. 0.99

02:14:04.900 Okay.

02:14:05.120 I just think, okay, you're overcomplicating things.

02:14:08.240 Again, everyone's overcomplicating things.

02:14:09.820 I don't think anyone wants to sleep with a woman or get, settle down with a woman who 1.00

02:14:15.020 has 80 bodies. 1.00

02:14:15.860 That's disgusting. 0.62

02:14:17.020 How am I overcomplicating? 0.94

02:14:17.980 I'm breaking down why.

02:14:19.120 I know you're breaking it down, but it's something that doesn't need to be broken down. 0.99

02:14:22.400 Most people, if they hear that you have 80 bodies, they'll be like, I bet she fucking 0.99

02:14:26.020 has 80. 0.96

02:14:26.520 Let me tag something on at the end of that there.

02:14:28.860 The reason why men have a sexual, I won't say revulsion response, because there's a human

02:14:32.700 revulsion response, but it's intense for certain things like you want to get away from

02:14:37.100 a dead body.

02:14:37.980 You want to get away from a dead body.

02:14:39.820 You want to get away from things that smell, like feces.

02:14:42.820 Yeah, fear of heights.

02:14:43.760 There are things that human beings are instinctually want to get themselves away from.

02:14:48.680 When you're looking for, when a woman, it seems like she's easy or she's had 80 bodies, 1.00

02:14:53.220 or she has children from another man, there is a hesitation in men that is instinctual.

02:14:59.560 The reason for that is because that woman represents a bad bet for his paternity. 0.82

02:15:04.280 That's why the body count matters to guys, and it doesn't matter quite as much to women. 0.89

02:15:09.620 For a guy who has a high body count, I believe it was Sterling who was saying this, is that

02:15:15.720 that is one of the highest ways of demonstrating higher value, or pre-selection, that's what 0.99

02:15:22.540 was because if a guy knows his way around your body better than you do, you know he fucks. 1.00

02:15:28.300 You know that he has been rewarded by other men, or other men, other women, who have had 0.98

02:15:33.620 sex with him in the past enough so he has the experience to know what he's doing in the

02:15:36.700 bedroom.

02:15:37.260 Right.

02:15:37.360 So there's that aspect, but then the other part of it is this, is that the reason why

02:15:40.600 promiscuity works one way for men and it does not work for women is because of that paternity. 0.86

02:15:45.420 It's the understanding and the ascertaining whether or not the child is his child.

02:15:51.120 Because for, since we were living in hunter-gatherer groups on the sub-Saharan African plains.

02:15:57.480 Up until 1980.

02:15:58.480 Yeah.

02:15:59.500 Until we could actually have DNA tests.

02:16:01.520 Up until 1980, we didn't have paternity tests.

02:16:03.120 Yeah, so we, men have, it's been in our biological, evolutionary, innate interests to know or to

02:16:09.960 try to ascertain whether or not the baby is our baby.

02:16:13.540 So that's why men make guard. 0.55

02:16:15.160 That's why when women and men get jealous because of infidelity, men tend to focus on the physical

02:16:21.820 act. 0.83

02:16:22.220 Did you have sex with him in the bathroom? 1.00

02:16:23.540 Did he cum? 1.00

02:16:24.420 Did he have a bigger dick than I did? 1.00

02:16:25.660 Did you get off? 1.00

02:16:26.660 Those are the particulars that guys want to know when infidelity takes place.

02:16:30.560 When a woman gets jealous because of infidelity, it's, do you love her? 0.87

02:16:35.300 Is, am I losing my investment?

02:16:37.660 Is my long-term security with this guy, is that in danger?

02:16:41.160 That's why that's where that jealousy comes from.

02:16:43.860 So there's differences because men and women are different and we have different priorities

02:16:47.700 when it comes to reproduction as well as family creation as well.

02:16:51.100 So when we're talking about 80 bodies, when you say, hey, I've had, I've had 80, 80 guys,

02:16:55.820 that's eight, that's a pool of 80 men in which one of those guys or probably some of those

02:17:00.380 guys could have been the guy that you can't get over.

02:17:02.840 Or maybe he's the guy that whether he did or he didn't doesn't make any difference, but

02:17:07.620 he's still thinking like on a, on a hindbrain, lizard brain level that there's a possibility

02:17:13.660 that she was impregnated by one of these guys and she can't get over that guy.

02:17:16.700 You're a bad bet for my paternity.

02:17:18.480 Yeah, sure.

02:17:19.580 Your response.

02:17:20.420 I just love that we revert to these primordial justifications for wanting a woman with a low 1.00

02:17:24.420 body count when guys are fucking with condoms, when guys find it hot when girls are on birth 0.99

02:17:28.500 control. 0.97

02:17:28.940 If guys' main prerogative is to like spread their seed, then why is it they're looking

02:17:32.200 for women who are on birth control?

02:17:33.800 They want, they're attracted to women.

02:17:35.000 They're not.

02:17:35.480 They're not.

02:17:35.520 They're not.

02:17:35.820 They're not.

02:17:37.100 I didn't say it was.

02:17:38.040 They're not.

02:17:38.980 I'm saying we use biology as an excuse when reality biology refers to life and life's processes

02:17:43.900 and our capacity, our capacity for culture, our capacity for culture falls under biology.

02:17:48.480 Our development of paternity tests, birth control, condoms, that all falls under biology and

02:17:52.680 our capacity for culture.

02:17:53.180 Culture is downstream from biology.

02:17:55.460 Yeah.

02:17:55.960 You don't get society, you don't get social construction without biology first that drives

02:18:02.320 that.

02:18:02.480 Yeah, I think you're over-intellectualizing a lot of this.

02:18:04.900 Like you said, it could be boiled down to biology.

02:18:08.360 That's not a response.

02:18:09.400 Well, no, no.

02:18:09.900 I just think that you're...

02:18:10.480 No, no, it is a response.

02:18:11.080 No, it is a response.

02:18:11.400 Well, your question is, is it right?

02:18:13.180 And his response is, this is why it is.

02:18:15.740 So the problem is, what people will do is they'll say, this man is just, what is it,

02:18:20.940 a small dick energy or whatever thing that they have to say to make or denigrate men for 0.83

02:18:25.620 having some sort of preference. 0.98

02:18:27.100 And the reality is, these things happen because men have 17 times as much testosterone as women.

02:18:31.600 And throughout our evolutionary history, we are the ones that were the disposable gender. 0.99

02:18:36.720 And because of that, we compete with other men for women.

02:18:39.700 The men who make it to the top throughout history have had more sexual partners.

02:18:42.960 That's just the way that it's been.

02:18:44.300 It's not an excuse.

02:18:45.120 You have every right to think it's wrong if you want to think it's wrong.

02:18:48.200 But it's not hypocritical because we're different.

02:18:50.320 If you and I were to join the Marine Corps, I have to do more push-ups than you because

02:18:53.480 the world is different for men than it is for women. 1.00

02:18:55.680 If you and I were to join the fire department, I have to do more pull-ups than you because

02:18:59.740 men and women are different.

02:19:00.760 And so in this case, it's the same thing.

02:19:02.600 I am not sure of the paternity of the child, of your child, but you always are. 0.99

02:19:07.600 And because of that reason, your body count will always matter more than mine.

02:19:11.920 That's just a function of biology.

02:19:13.500 That's a justification for not being polyamorous, not for not having a high body count. 0.99

02:19:18.340 So that makes sense why you wouldn't want your girlfriend to be fucking 10 guys at once 0.99

02:19:21.160 because you weren't able to discern it. 0.99

02:19:22.260 If a girl fucked 80 guys 10 years ago and has been abstinent still, how does that justification 1.00

02:19:25.860 matter? 0.98

02:19:26.600 It's an innate hesitation.

02:19:27.820 Okay, I also just wanted to say, on the topic of biology, women literally, they menstruate

02:19:34.840 around male testosterone.

02:19:38.400 The more they're exposed to testosterone, the more they have sex, the more their cycle

02:19:41.820 will align with that because of a very biological thing.

02:19:45.120 What is your point?

02:19:46.040 My point is that you're just intellectualizing, again, something that is very basic.

02:19:50.600 What does menstruation have to do with this?

02:19:51.980 Basically, because women, sorry, sorry, I'm not finished. 0.99

02:19:56.740 That's all you.

02:19:58.600 I mean, you said you were in cod lobby, so you should be used to this, right?

02:20:02.060 Okay, but you said go ahead.

02:20:02.960 All right, just go.

02:20:04.140 Just go, say your thing.

02:20:05.520 What I was just saying was that biologically, our bodies do.

02:20:07.600 Closer to the mic.

02:20:08.560 Yeah, our bodies do sort of correspond with males.

02:20:11.660 Like, it's like the testosterone that they emit kind of triggers something in us, like the

02:20:16.080 pheromones.

02:20:17.160 So you can't just intellectualize something when it's already so.

02:20:21.100 Okay, you wanted to go?

02:20:22.060 Go ahead.

02:20:22.400 Basically, the reason why men cheat is not because they don't like the girls.

02:20:27.620 For us, like, when you sleep with a guy, we're emotionally invested.

02:20:32.380 For a guy, he's not emotionally invested into us.

02:20:35.720 Most of the time, it's just the heat of the moment.

02:20:37.500 And then the next morning after, you know, that one-night stand, there's that post-nut

02:20:44.100 clarity that he feels like he doesn't see a life with you.

02:20:47.300 That's the oxytocin kicking in.

02:20:49.680 Exactly.

02:20:50.480 But, you know, he doesn't see a life with you, and he doesn't see you as a partner,

02:20:53.820 a relationship, or anything.

02:20:54.800 For her, it's oxytocin.

02:20:55.720 For him, it's striptophan.

02:20:56.540 And for a female, it's, you know, for guys, it's all performance. 0.73

02:21:00.540 It's performance-based.

02:21:02.020 For females, we don't really do as much during, like, you know, when we're on the bed. 1.00

02:21:08.100 It's usually the guys.

02:21:09.180 Can I clarify something really quickly?

02:21:10.700 Because what you're bringing up is kind of a common misperception, okay?

02:21:14.200 It's like, well, and I see this in the chat as well here, is that it's like, it's no longer

02:21:18.200 the devil made me do it.

02:21:19.260 It's my biology made me do it, and we don't have any control over it.

02:21:21.880 No, we absolutely are responsible for our own actions and for as far as the results

02:21:26.080 and any of the consequences that come after that.

02:21:28.580 And I'm not, you know, saying that we should be absolved of any of those things.

02:21:33.640 The other thing is that you're conflating what's known as, it's, what is it,

02:21:38.720 approximate goal versus ultimate goal.

02:21:40.300 So, in an evolutionary perspective, I might want, like, when I met my wife for the first

02:21:47.140 time and I saw her at the club, I didn't go, hmm, I wonder if she'd be a really good mother 1.00

02:21:51.300 for my children.

02:21:52.220 I wonder if we could start a family together and we could reproduce and, like, my focus

02:21:56.580 is on actually, you know, breeding with this woman that I just met in the club. 1.00

02:22:00.140 My focus is on, I want to tap that ass. 1.00

02:22:02.500 That's the proximate goal. 1.00

02:22:04.160 The ultimate goal is having kids and having a family and everything else.

02:22:07.620 Now, that ultimate goal is something that gets, that is also downstream, once again,

02:22:13.180 from the biology.

02:22:14.460 So, proximate goal and ultimate goal are both downstream from the biological fact that this

02:22:19.400 is what, this is what men are about.

02:22:21.880 Yeah.

02:22:22.760 Just one thing on biology, right?

02:22:24.820 So, and Roller, you were making the argument, hey, it's kind of based in biology, paternity,

02:22:29.860 uncertainty.

02:22:32.320 And you sort of objected to that a little bit.

02:22:35.000 At least that was my impression.

02:22:36.680 No, I didn't object to it.

02:22:37.380 I don't think she's not.

02:22:37.980 She's not.

02:22:38.800 I'm saying the objection could also be based in biology.

02:22:41.140 Sure.

02:22:42.280 Wait, what's the objection?

02:22:43.240 Well, no, it's the, the biology made me do it.

02:22:45.400 My, my, my selfish, my selfish gene made me do it.

02:22:49.160 I'm saying our involvement of culture is also biological.

02:22:52.080 Like, like you said, culture follows downstream.

02:22:54.360 But it's, but it's always, but our, our involvement of culture is always set up so that it fits

02:22:59.040 our biology.

02:22:59.760 Does that make sense?

02:23:00.360 We don't build cities made of sulfur and ammonia, right?

02:23:03.020 We, because that, we're, they're toxic to human beings and we don't generally jump off,

02:23:06.400 off, off our balconies every day.

02:23:07.820 We have elevators.

02:23:09.160 Our societies are created for the safety and procurement of, of homo sapiens.

02:23:13.240 So that's, biology leads culture.

02:23:15.720 Does that make sense?

02:23:16.200 In every case, biology leads culture.

02:23:18.060 But it's never the other way around.

02:23:18.920 I think what you were kind of getting at is you were saying, well, when you have sex

02:23:23.740 with someone, you know, you, you mentioned birth control, for example.

02:23:26.580 Well, why, you know, what's the deal with birth control?

02:23:30.120 You know, you, you recall when you were saying that?

02:23:33.280 So I guess my response to you is, well, if you're kind of saying men should disregard

02:23:41.600 their sort of innate biological response to this, then shouldn't women also, for example, 1.00

02:23:47.260 disregard their attraction towards men who are tall, for example, which has a root in

02:23:51.500 biology.

02:23:53.220 Or, sorry, go ahead. 1.00

02:23:54.980 I was saying men already disregard that biological need when they fuck with a condom on, 0.99

02:23:58.760 because if they're, like, if their goal is to spread their seed, because that's what 0.99

02:24:02.500 the biological instinct is.

02:24:04.720 But he kind of made the differentiation between approximate desire and then ultimate desire.

02:24:08.300 Or, or, or a conscious desire and a subconscious desire.

02:24:12.540 You have a neocortex.

02:24:13.560 That's what celebrates you.

02:24:14.520 I'm sorry, celebrates you.

02:24:15.400 Separates you from lizards.

02:24:16.980 Your, you have, you can cognitively, your genes have no contrast.

02:24:21.680 Your genes don't understand what contraceptives are.

02:24:23.940 If your genes understood what contraceptives are, they never let you use them.

02:24:26.540 Your genes want to replicate themselves, but you cognitively understand what contraceptives

02:24:31.200 are.

02:24:31.620 You subconsciously do not.

02:24:33.100 And that's where, that's where the, the, the conundrum comes in.

02:24:36.820 Exactly what Michael said.

02:24:38.100 Like, you can, you can want to spread your seed. 0.98

02:24:40.680 That's the objective of sex, right?

02:24:42.500 But you can also do that at a time where you're not ready to have a kid.

02:24:46.300 So your biology, your genes, everything is telling you, like, I want to go through with

02:24:50.580 this.

02:24:51.020 Your brain up here is saying, I don't want a kid right now.

02:24:53.700 So it has nothing to do with that argument. 0.67

02:24:56.000 Well, I would say also most people who are having sex, it's more for, it's like casual.

02:25:02.200 It's recreational.

02:25:02.940 It's, yeah, excuse me, recreational, yes.

02:25:06.140 I want to have just a little back and forth with you.

02:25:08.080 The thing about the tall preference?

02:25:10.300 A little bit, but it was more so, I guess you said it was a bit of a double standard,

02:25:15.260 right?

02:25:16.940 Well, you say, okay, when it comes, like, for example, a guy who has a high body count,

02:25:20.200 you object to him desiring a partner who has a low body count.

02:25:24.240 But then how come short women can desire tall men? 0.98

02:25:25.980 Is that what you were going to ask?

02:25:27.200 Well, you're preempting me a little bit there.

02:25:29.660 But basically, I mean, I guess my question to you is, is it wrong to desire things in

02:25:35.840 a partner that you yourself do not possess?

02:25:38.120 No, and I don't think that was the basis of my argument.

02:25:43.020 We were talking about a study which posits that two virgins have the optimal marriage 0.99

02:25:47.740 success rate.

02:25:49.200 So I'm saying in that, that's not...

02:25:51.320 Well, I think you're shifting a little bit because initially I think you were saying,

02:25:54.680 well, it's, I don't know your exact wording, but it sounded like you objected to, for example,

02:25:59.500 a guy who has a high body count desiring a woman with a low body count.

02:26:03.260 In that specific instance, but I'm not saying, I'm not making the generalization that you

02:26:07.040 can't want something that you personally lack.

02:26:10.060 I was saying in that specific instance, it doesn't map on because of the study we mentioned

02:26:14.000 where it does map on an equivalency.

02:26:15.320 It's just not reasonable to hope to, like, I'm just going to be honest with you, the probability

02:26:18.920 of you, the person you marrying being a virgin is infinitesimally low.

02:26:23.320 You understand that?

02:26:24.040 Why?

02:26:24.380 I thought guys are more often virgins than girls.

02:26:26.940 It's way harder for guys to get laid.

02:26:28.480 No, no, I agree with that.

02:26:29.880 You won't be attracted to them.

02:26:31.060 No matter what you tell us about your energy and the connection and the chemistry, no offense,

02:26:35.800 like, I just don't believe that you fully understand what you're attracted to.

02:26:38.520 I think later on, once you come to the realization that you keep finding these certain individuals

02:26:43.020 attractive for certain reasons, and those reasons have to do with hypergamy, you're going 0.99

02:26:47.240 to come to the realization that the things that cause those men to be virgins are the reasons

02:26:51.280 why you won't be attracted to them.

02:26:53.580 And the likelihood of you finding a man that you have chemistry with is far more likely

02:26:58.640 with a man who is attractive to the opposite sex.

02:27:01.600 So the likelihood of you finding a dude who is also a virgin is, it becomes progressively

02:27:05.740 lower, and probably lower the longer you wait, it becomes progressively lower.

02:27:08.740 Well, sorry. 0.99

02:27:09.880 I just wanted to go back to the point where you said, like, oh, they're fucking us with 0.99

02:27:13.780 condoms because they don't want to have kids. 0.99

02:27:15.680 I think the reason why they're fucking you with condoms, not you specifically, but in general, 0.99

02:27:19.000 is because you've made yourself so easy. 1.00

02:27:20.540 Like, they don't want to fuck someone who might give them gonorrhea, in my opinion. 0.99

02:27:24.920 I think it's more of a safety. 1.00

02:27:26.120 No, they want to fuck other girls that they don't want to get pregnant. 1.00

02:27:28.580 I don't think she's wrong, but I don't know where that came from. 1.00

02:27:30.560 No, no, no.

02:27:31.580 It's been stuck in my mind.

02:27:32.340 It's the proximate goal.

02:27:33.500 Like, I want to get off of that girl. 0.89

02:27:35.180 We got it.

02:27:35.620 It was a dunk that came out of nowhere, but I don't know where that, I don't know how

02:27:38.860 we got there.

02:27:39.740 It was a loose ball foul.

02:27:41.240 Yeah.

02:27:41.800 Technical two.

02:27:42.800 But two free throws.

02:27:43.760 That was a good point, but I don't know how we got there.

02:27:45.880 Question for you.

02:27:46.420 Is that an expectation that you have?

02:27:47.680 Do you think that's going to happen for you?

02:27:49.620 Marrying a virgin guy?

02:27:51.480 Yeah.

02:27:52.260 No, I don't care.

02:27:53.280 Like I said, I don't conflate selectiveness with body count.

02:27:56.260 I've reiterated that several times.

02:27:58.120 Okay.

02:27:58.560 I don't value the guy being a virgin.

02:28:00.040 I want someone who's selective and has high standards, because to me, that's what correlates

02:28:04.540 with infidelity.

02:28:05.720 Do you think there's men out there that would be with you and not slept with women that 0.92

02:28:10.700 are less attractive than you?

02:28:12.860 Wait, can you rephrase that?

02:28:13.900 So, for example, if you date a man, would you expect that all the women that he had slept with

02:28:17.660 would be at your level or higher?

02:28:19.620 Oh, that's not even technically what I meant by selectiveness.

02:28:22.060 I more so don't want to date a guy who's so horny and down bad that he gets like one

02:28:25.900 DM from a girl and he jumps on it.

02:28:28.180 Does that make sense?

02:28:28.780 So that's what I judge fidelity on.

02:28:30.860 That's like the parameter I use, not body count.

02:28:32.700 Okay, but can I ask you a question?

02:28:33.940 Because you're over here saying that you yourself are not selective, but you want the guy to

02:28:37.660 be selective.

02:28:38.180 When did I say I'm not selective?

02:28:39.060 Because I said I'm highly selective.

02:28:40.840 Well, no, but you were saying how you don't care if they're fat, if they're this, if they're

02:28:45.780 that, if they have more money, if they have less money.

02:28:47.800 I'm selective just using a different metric than you are.

02:28:51.780 So you just want them to be smart and funny, basically.

02:28:54.220 Yeah, I would say that's still highly selective. 1.00

02:28:55.800 The average person is a dumbass. 1.00

02:28:57.740 The average person is actually average. 1.00

02:29:00.060 The average person has a 100 IQ.

02:29:02.180 I understand what you're saying. 0.99

02:29:03.300 The average person is not a dumbass. 0.95

02:29:04.340 It's just, they're overrepresented by, you know, sorry, I'm going to go down a path and 1.00

02:29:08.860 I'm going to get myself in deep shit. 0.98

02:29:09.800 Sorry. 0.99

02:29:10.740 We got another one?

02:29:11.540 Yeah.

02:29:12.400 We got a live one.

02:29:13.560 We got a couple super chats here coming in.

02:29:15.080 I just wanted to kind of put a cherry on top on our little conversation.

02:29:17.780 So what I was kind of getting at, and I don't know if you've kind of almost walked back

02:29:21.960 your position a little bit, but I think it's this whole thing of women objecting, for example, 1.00

02:29:27.520 to a man who has a high body count and he doesn't want a woman with a high body count 1.00

02:29:33.620 or he wants a woman with a low body count.

02:29:35.580 I mean, women desire traits in men all the time that they don't possess themselves. 0.84

02:29:41.060 They want a guy who's funny, but they're not funny.

02:29:43.680 They want a guy who's rich, but she's not rich. 0.91

02:29:47.280 They want a guy who's charismatic, but she's not charismatic.

02:29:51.040 So, I mean, I think it's both men and women desire traits in partners that they themselves

02:29:58.020 don't possess.

02:29:59.560 Men and women are just, we're not equal. 0.99

02:30:01.020 Sure, if I prefer a brunette guy over blonde, that's a preference. 1.00

02:30:04.240 When guys talk about preferring a girl who's a virgin, that's not their preference.

02:30:07.340 That's a philosophy.

02:30:08.300 They're saying a girl who's a virgin, they're saying a girl, it's a preference.

02:30:12.180 It's a preference on the fact that they think that girl is less likely going to cheat.

02:30:15.180 They think she'll make a better wife. 1.00

02:30:16.780 When I prefer a brunette, it's not because I think he's going to be a better husband.

02:30:19.000 It's not because I think it'll propagate the nuclear family in America more than a blonde. 1.00

02:30:22.680 But when they talk about girls with low body counts, that's kind of what they're propagating.

02:30:25.460 So what you're saying is that it's a more valid preference?

02:30:31.220 I'm saying they're not really referring to preference.

02:30:33.200 They're saying there's a reason they use the term low-value woman. 1.00

02:30:35.820 I'm not calling a brunette a high-value guy or a blonde a low-value guy. 0.97

02:30:39.680 Red Pillars will call a girl with a high body count low value and a girl who's a virgin high value.

02:30:44.180 So it's not preference.

02:30:45.480 They're mapping it onto what they consider objective virtues.

02:30:48.260 If I prefer a woman with a low body count, isn't that a preference? 1.00

02:30:52.660 It is, but you know the sphere we're referring to, the red pill sphere.

02:30:55.840 They'll say that's an objective virtue.

02:30:57.100 A man who has never even heard of these terms could have a preference.

02:30:58.780 Have you heard of the red pill sphere?

02:30:59.880 I've never heard of this sphere.

02:31:00.600 Red pill sphere?

02:31:01.340 Is that what we're calling it now?

02:31:02.540 I thought it was a manosphere.

02:31:03.760 What red pill is this?

02:31:04.800 What is this thing she speaks of?

02:31:06.100 I don't know why you're attaching this.

02:31:07.760 I mean, the red pills are fairly new.

02:31:11.060 I mean, within the past 10 years, really.

02:31:13.440 20 years.

02:31:14.060 Get the book, by the way.

02:31:15.800 The difference.

02:31:16.540 National male, by the way.

02:31:17.120 What marks a preference is subjectivity, but when guys talk about girls with low body

02:31:20.380 counts, they're typically thinking of it in an objective way.

02:31:23.000 So even a guy who's not red pill, they'll probably say, this girl with a low body count 0.98

02:31:26.420 is objectively better, right?

02:31:29.020 That's why it's still a preference, but do you understand what I'm saying?

02:31:31.700 But that judgment is based on their biology, and it's based on subconscious effects that's

02:31:36.200 happened through evolutionary psychology, right?

02:31:37.640 But it's not really a preference for them specifically.

02:31:39.780 They're saying it's a preference for their gender. 1.00

02:31:41.540 Men just don't want to fuck whores. 1.00

02:31:43.400 Better for what? 1.00

02:31:44.180 Yeah, they do.

02:31:44.880 Better for what? 1.00

02:31:45.480 They want to fuck whores, but they don't want to, like, wear them. 1.00

02:31:46.940 Every man wants a slut, he just wants her to be his slut. 1.00

02:31:49.640 But, like, they don't want to marry that slut. 1.00

02:31:50.740 Every man wants a slut, he just wants her to be his. 1.00

02:31:52.780 So if I like brunettes over blunts, I'm not going to say girls prefer brunettes over 1.00

02:31:55.880 blunts.

02:31:56.240 When guys say, I have a preference for low body count, typically they say guys prefer

02:31:59.720 girls with low body count. 0.97

02:32:00.620 Do you understand why that's not necessarily a preference?

02:32:02.820 Because they're not speaking specifically for themselves.

02:32:05.720 That's why I'm saying it's more of a philosophy.

02:32:07.140 I prefer vanilla ice cream over poop ice cream, and that's because of my genetics.

02:32:11.240 Like, that's the reason why.

02:32:12.760 Let's go back.

02:32:13.500 Let's go back to this other thing you were saying.

02:32:14.940 How about this double standard?

02:32:16.760 I know several men, and I have several clients that are under six feet tall, and they don't

02:32:20.720 get chosen by women, shockingly.

02:32:22.320 Some of them don't get.

02:32:23.280 They have a harder time with women than taller men.

02:32:25.600 That preference is also based in evolution, and we as men are fully aware of it.

02:32:29.740 Do you think that's also a double standard that women have towards men?

02:32:32.360 Do women create a culture of podcasting and memes ridiculing men who are under six feet 0.65

02:32:37.800 tall?

02:32:38.200 Yes.

02:32:38.500 Do I tell a five foot ten guy is low value?

02:32:41.580 Yes.

02:32:42.040 In retaliation.

02:32:43.560 Call her daddy. 0.80

02:32:44.440 I don't want that.

02:32:45.320 Call her daddy. 0.80

02:32:46.060 The biggest podcast in the world.

02:32:47.460 Yes.

02:32:47.680 $50 million, by the way.

02:32:48.300 I'm just saying I have yet to see a blue pill podcast.

02:32:50.900 No, it's not blue pill podcast because they don't.

02:32:52.980 No.

02:32:53.580 There's all these things.

02:32:54.500 What do you call a guy who's 5'11"?

02:32:55.820 A friend?

02:32:56.320 You haven't seen this meme?

02:32:57.180 Absolutely.

02:32:57.360 Watch anything by Ben Shapiro and Matt Walsh.

02:32:58.940 You'll see a blue pill podcast.

02:33:00.060 Absolutely.

02:33:00.080 They crucify men, and they actually show, when you look at dating apps, they show Tinder,

02:33:05.560 Bumble, and Hinge.

02:33:06.580 They show a distribution of what women find attractive, and 6'3 is actually the prime number.

02:33:11.200 Once you get above 6'3", 6'6, it actually starts to drop.

02:33:13.740 At six feet tall, you're still really high.

02:33:15.400 It goes six feet, and at 5'11, it plummets.

02:33:17.820 This doesn't happen in Europe because they use the metric system, but in the United States,

02:33:21.060 at 5'11, it plummets.

02:33:23.100 Yes, men do get ridiculed for being short.

02:33:25.920 Yes, they do.

02:33:26.860 That's not being ridiculed.

02:33:28.380 Yeah, it is.

02:33:28.880 You just described it as a kid.

02:33:29.900 They're not being chosen selectively, and they're being made fun of for being short.

02:33:33.540 I hear women all the time. 1.00

02:33:34.620 I listen to women talk all the time, and one of the main complaints is he's a great guy, 0.99

02:33:38.360 but he's too short.

02:33:39.540 So women are- 1.00

02:33:40.360 That's not ridiculed.

02:33:41.120 Yeah, no, no, no, no.

02:33:41.720 That's literally in that instance preference.

02:33:43.380 No, listen, because when I said-

02:33:44.400 We're so ridiculed. 1.00

02:33:45.240 When I said I wouldn't fuck a fat bitch, you got mad. 1.00

02:33:47.440 But all of a sudden, now that height is into the equation for men, it's okay? 1.00

02:33:52.780 First of all, I wasn't the one who said that. 1.00

02:33:54.340 Some of you got mad at the whole entire fat bitch thing. 1.00

02:33:57.740 We're not mad anymore. 0.99

02:33:58.980 We've moved on from since then.

02:33:59.800 I know we moved on, but I'm just saying-

02:34:01.220 That was about an hour ago.

02:34:03.120 Okay, I know, but I'm just saying that.

02:34:04.600 That has everything to do with it because height, it's in the same way.

02:34:07.560 Well, it's a biological thing.

02:34:08.760 That's another thing.

02:34:09.440 It's an innate preference if you want to use those terms, but there's a difference between

02:34:15.940 saying, I want a girl who's got like a brunette girl and a blonde girl, whatever. 1.00

02:34:20.640 That's, yeah, that's a fetish, a preference, whatever.

02:34:23.140 But the reason why I am hesitant to get with a single mommy is because I have 100,000, 200,000

02:34:30.240 years of evolution that says that woman is provably already raising the child, or I would have 0.98

02:34:37.280 to raise the child of another man right there.

02:34:40.220 So that hesitancy is not a preference.

02:34:42.220 It is a biological adaptation to be aware that if I go and I put my resources towards

02:34:49.340 raising that, you know, participating in the parental investment of another man's child-

02:34:55.480 Hold on just a second here.

02:34:56.680 Roll up.

02:34:56.980 Mia Khalifa, you're failing to understand that the double standard of promiscuity applies

02:35:01.800 to marriage.

02:35:03.080 Men want female virgins for marriage. 1.00

02:35:06.300 For Institute for Family Studies, multiple sex partners reduced marital quality for women

02:35:11.860 but not men.

02:35:12.980 Alvin, Sam, thank you for the big $200 donut.

02:35:15.080 Appreciate it.

02:35:16.580 Yeah, I would say in general, women aren't necessarily more or less attracted to men based

02:35:20.440 off their body count, but if we're trying to propagate the healthiest and most successful

02:35:24.640 institution of marriage, that's based off both partners being virgins until marriage.

02:35:28.560 The original point you made was about a double standard, and the thing is, let's bring up

02:35:32.340 one more part about this double standard.

02:35:34.120 For me, being afraid to be with a woman who's been with 80 guys, there's actual studies that

02:35:39.680 show, from an evolutionary standpoint, Institute for Family Studies, the study he just brought

02:35:43.760 up, there's actual studies that show that, that could be deleterious for my relationship.

02:35:48.460 For you to choose a man who's under six feet tall, some of the best fighters on the planet

02:35:52.940 are under six feet tall.

02:35:54.140 Some of the baddest Marines and Navy SEALs on Earth are under six feet tall.

02:35:58.460 Probably most.

02:35:58.800 Probably most of them.

02:35:59.800 And so the point is, where you're provisioning, the reason why women prefer tall men is for

02:36:04.240 protection.

02:36:05.140 The protection paradigm doesn't fit anymore in 2023, because a guy who's five, six can

02:36:10.660 buy a Glock.

02:36:11.380 It's a different world now.

02:36:12.820 So what we have to believe, as far as our prejudice against a woman with a high body count, still

02:36:18.100 is effective.

02:36:19.280 It's still an effective protection for us in 2023.

02:36:22.780 But women choosing taller men is actually irrational. 0.99

02:36:25.500 It's actually irrational.

02:36:26.880 Jeff Bezos, like, it's actually irrational for you to do that.

02:36:30.080 Do you understand what I'm saying?

02:36:30.960 That's the reason why, for our preference, both of these preferences are based in evolution.

02:36:35.120 But our preference actually still makes sense, whereas the preference for tall men actually,

02:36:38.660 and I'm saying this as a guy who's six two, the preference for tall men actually doesn't

02:36:41.820 make sense anymore.

02:36:42.560 It doesn't.

02:36:43.440 And that's the thing that's so crazy about it.

02:36:45.140 So I actually think the women, men choosing women with a low body count actually makes more

02:36:50.260 sense from an evolutionary standpoint, is not a philosophy, and is actually just a preference

02:36:53.620 that's based on evolution.

02:36:54.440 You see, and just one thing really quick, you said that you seem to have an issue if we

02:37:00.380 use the plural.

02:37:01.480 So if on an individual level a guy says, I don't want a girl with a high body count, you 0.92

02:37:08.380 consider that a preference.

02:37:09.660 But if a guy were to say, men, generally speaking, don't want women who are promiscuous or don't

02:37:15.540 want women with high body count, then that becomes a what? 1.00

02:37:18.280 You said that's a philosophy, right?

02:37:21.600 I didn't say it's a philosophy because of the plurality.

02:37:23.580 I said it's a philosophy because it's usually tied to the idea that this is what's better

02:37:26.820 for society. 0.84

02:37:27.880 The downfall of Western society is because of female promiscuity. 1.00

02:37:30.880 That's usually what gets conflated in with this idea with low body count.

02:37:33.800 Well, I mean, you're taking it in an interesting direction.

02:37:36.220 Would it also be a philosophy then to say that if a woman were to say, generally speaking, 0.97

02:37:42.320 women prefer men who are tall?

02:37:45.520 Is that a philosophy or is that just an acknowledgment of women's?

02:37:49.660 It's a philosophy if they talk about it in a reciprocal way to the way they just did.

02:37:54.020 So if I were to say tall men are objectively better, and if I was like a tall man supremacist

02:37:57.920 because I said short men are less than, tall men are what we need for protection, but usually

02:38:02.780 women aren't even necessarily thinking about protection like he was saying, it's kind of 1.00

02:38:05.980 a false equivalency at this point.

02:38:07.280 But they are still attracted to those men.

02:38:08.580 They are, but he was asking what delineates between the preference and the philosophy,

02:38:11.440 so that was my answer.

02:38:13.320 Bro.

02:38:15.580 What?

02:38:16.500 Can we move on?

02:38:17.420 Can we please move on?

02:38:18.840 I have a question.

02:38:19.520 We're like in the, up in the, okay.

02:38:22.100 You asked me.

02:38:22.720 My question is, I know that the height thing is actually like a real issue for girls. 1.00

02:38:27.820 Hold on just a sec.

02:38:28.540 Ivan Jr.

02:38:29.400 Thank you, Ivan.

02:38:30.000 Appreciate it, man.

02:38:30.660 Men following model types doesn't mean they want one.

02:38:34.940 Social media is an illusion.

02:38:36.880 A cheater is a cheater with slash out social media.

02:38:40.260 Listen to Warner.

02:38:41.820 Feminism pushed both into working. 1.00

02:38:43.820 Have ladies lost trust to be dependent on men and let them lead? 1.00

02:38:47.520 Study 70-0.

02:38:48.980 Yo, Ivan, thank you for the big $200 super chat, man.

02:38:52.140 I really appreciate it.

02:38:52.860 Thank you.

02:38:53.720 You need to take us to Burger King with all these $200 super chats.

02:38:56.360 Let's go make Mike Davis rich. 0.95

02:38:57.860 Let's go back to the boat house, man.

02:38:58.260 Let's go make Mike Davis rich. 0.95

02:38:59.580 Come on, he's already rich. 1.00

02:39:00.600 He's got 300 fucking Burger Kings. 0.99

02:39:02.980 We got a couple hand raises here. 1.00

02:39:04.620 So why don't we, we'll go you.

02:39:06.520 Aspen was going.

02:39:07.620 Aspen, then we'll go you, then we'll go you.

02:39:09.220 Go ahead.

02:39:09.540 My question was, how can we, so I really liked your point about it actually still being a

02:39:15.740 problem for women to have high body counts, but it's really not a problem for guys to

02:39:21.300 be short and date them.

02:39:22.240 How do we help girls get over this? 1.00

02:39:24.180 I mean, there's a lot of ways to do this.

02:39:28.480 I actually think a function of gratitude and maybe, here's the issue that happens, and

02:39:34.020 this isn't the solution, but this is part of the problem.

02:39:36.180 What happens is a girl will go through her life and she'll be pretty average on social 1.00

02:39:40.640 media.

02:39:40.840 There's no average for men.

02:39:41.820 Men are really good on social media.

02:39:43.760 They look terrible. 1.00

02:39:44.960 For women, women can be average and still slide into a celebrity's DMs and still have sex with 1.00

02:39:49.140 a celebrity, right? 0.72

02:39:49.920 There's numerous stories about Leonardo DiCaprio, numerous about different guys just running

02:39:54.460 through girls throughout Hollywood, okay?

02:39:56.020 Chris Brown, Nick Cannon, et cetera, right?

02:40:00.340 And their rosters never end, okay, when it comes to that.

02:40:03.600 The problem is, is once she has sex with Blake Griffin the first time or Nick Cannon or whoever,

02:40:08.480 every man from that point afterwards, she compares to, or rather, she measures her value 0.99

02:40:14.200 based on the fact that she fucked an NBA power forward. 1.00

02:40:16.440 Now, every guy after that has to compare to the NBA power forward, and when he doesn't 0.98

02:40:21.200 because of his finances or his height or whatever reason, she has an easier escape route.

02:40:26.640 It's easier to pull the ripcord and to get out because she already knows that she could 0.98

02:40:30.400 have sex with a guy in her mind. 0.99

02:40:32.100 Maybe she can change him. 0.99

02:40:33.620 She can be the one to wife him up or for her to be wifed up, and I see this several times

02:40:39.960 where I have a lot of my female friends who are delusional who live in Los Angeles, and

02:40:43.980 they're saying, yeah, so-and-so, I used to date so-and-so.

02:40:46.040 And I'm like, no, you didn't.

02:40:47.240 I know him and his wife. 1.00

02:40:48.740 I'm sure he fucked you. 1.00

02:40:49.800 I have no doubt whatsoever. 1.00

02:40:51.200 That dude never claimed you for one fucking second in his life. 0.98

02:40:54.700 And I've seen this happen over and over again, and these girls legitimately defined their 1.00

02:40:59.120 own attractiveness and their standard by some celebrity they had sex with.

02:41:03.080 Or it could be, let's take it all the way back.

02:41:05.180 You're in high school, and it's the quarterback of the football team.

02:41:07.080 Or it's the manager at the Denny's.

02:41:08.700 Let's bring it way down. 0.66

02:41:09.760 It's still like that.

02:41:10.560 And so when that happens, you end up with women having, for lack of a better term, delusional 1.00

02:41:15.720 beliefs about what their levels of attractiveness are.

02:41:18.300 And so now everyone has to be at that range.

02:41:21.700 And now they have what's called dopamine resets.

02:41:23.740 Dr. Andrew Hubberman talks about this.

02:41:25.320 Their dopamine resets to the point where they can only feel attraction for these men who are

02:41:29.380 at these unattainable levels.

02:41:31.200 And then once they hit 30, you know, once they hit, you know, the end of their, once

02:41:36.120 they get to an epiphany phase, then all of a sudden those things don't become quite as

02:41:39.020 important.

02:41:39.600 And that's another evolutionary adaptation.

02:41:41.820 Because now they look back, and now when they were 23 and didn't want to settle down

02:41:45.300 and wanted to date the power forward, now they're 30, they look back, and now there's

02:41:49.180 a 23-year-old who is dating that power forward.

02:41:51.580 And he's not calling her back anymore.

02:41:53.120 Or if he does, it's just for sex. 0.73

02:41:55.140 And so that's the problem.

02:41:56.720 And so a cognitive, for women, a cognitive recognition that this is the cycle that you're 1.00

02:42:01.540 going through, and then deciding to not go through that cycle, that's the only thing

02:42:05.280 that I can tell you.

02:42:06.180 I mean, it's hard.

02:42:07.560 Yeah, it sounds like you have to actually rewire your brain and realize the good that

02:42:12.700 You have to understand the situation and the conditions you are in.

02:42:15.520 An exceptional amount of gratitude for the situation that you're in.

02:42:18.240 Yeah, and see the other good qualities that the guy might have and raise those higher

02:42:22.920 than his height.

02:42:23.480 He actually probably has more good qualities than the celebrity you had sex with, but

02:42:27.560 you're not noticing it.

02:42:28.400 Well, I mean, in their head.

02:42:28.780 Yeah, in their head.

02:42:29.560 Well, I mean, when you were first telling us your situation, when I asked you, like,

02:42:34.760 are your standards or are the guys you dated in your past, are they different than the

02:42:39.520 guy you idealized as being the guy who would be, you know, the guy who's aligned with God

02:42:44.500 and, you know, a good long-term relationship?

02:42:46.680 The reason is because when women get to be about 28, 29, 30, 31 years old, it's what I call 0.98

02:42:51.000 the epiphany phase, and that's when women start to reprioritize those things. 1.00

02:42:54.740 So when she was, like, 18 years old, she might be looking for nothing but the hottest guy

02:42:58.800 that she can get with, like, an athlete, a rock star, whatever it is, because that's

02:43:02.400 the sexual energy or whatever you want to call it that she really, she is at the peak 0.91

02:43:07.220 of her game and she can get that.

02:43:08.880 Once she gets down to be about 29, 30, 31 years old, it's not that she doesn't want

02:43:13.220 a hot guy.

02:43:13.880 She does.

02:43:14.280 It's just that the priority switch is where he's got to have a better job or he's got to love

02:43:17.820 his mom or he wants to have kids or he wants to love God and go forward in life.

02:43:21.420 I think that that is happening to me.

02:43:23.380 Like, I think that's actually starting to happen where it feels like I'm just maturing and being

02:43:27.000 like, oh, like, what are these more important qualities?

02:43:30.040 Because you're thinking in the long term, finally.

02:43:32.220 But when I was young, I was like, I want somebody that's hot and tall.

02:43:34.980 You're coming out of, you're coming out of what, not my words, you're coming out of what's

02:43:37.980 called the hoe phase. 0.97

02:43:39.160 18 to 28 years old, that's when we're at the party.

02:43:41.260 I was nice.

02:43:42.560 I called it the party phase.

02:43:44.380 Exploration phase.

02:43:45.180 Yes.

02:43:45.380 Because you can afford to do that. 0.99

02:43:46.900 Like, when women say, you know, men ain't shit and when women say men are threatened 0.99

02:43:51.960 by powerful or women or men are threatened by powerful men or they have fragile egos 0.99

02:43:56.300 or where are all the good guys, those women tend to be 29, 30, 31 years old or older than 1.00

02:44:01.800 that because that becomes a priority for them at that point.

02:44:04.800 You don't hear that from younger women. 0.95

02:44:06.600 It's just, it's funny because I have a lot of friends that are my age and they're virgins

02:44:12.020 and they're single and they're going to be amazing partners.

02:44:15.280 And I, so hearing what you're saying is actually making it make more sense.

02:44:20.420 But I do also feel that closer to the mic.

02:44:23.000 I do also feel that the guys aren't taking responsibility.

02:44:28.140 Oh yeah.

02:44:28.540 You're correct in that assumption.

02:44:30.300 And so it's like, there's like this trade-off.

02:44:32.440 Like we're going to not, I wouldn't say lower our standards, but we're, our priorities are

02:44:38.840 switching.

02:44:39.360 And then the guys I think are starting to wake up at that age too.

02:44:44.740 For sure.

02:44:45.460 I would, I would also argue that when you get to be 29, 30, 31 years old, you also got

02:44:50.680 to remember that that coincides with when women say my biological clock is ticking, which

02:44:54.700 is actually untrue.

02:44:55.500 So it was really probably when you were 22, 23 years old.

02:44:58.020 And then on top of that, what is the, uh, the average age of first marriage in the United

02:45:02.760 States?

02:45:03.240 29 for 29, 30 for men and 28, 29 for women.

02:45:06.800 So it all coincides right at that point.

02:45:09.820 Conveniently.

02:45:10.540 Let's get a couple of soup chats in here.

02:45:12.620 Did you guys still have a point?

02:45:14.460 You had a hand raised earlier.

02:45:15.820 We can get to it after the chat.

02:45:16.900 So you forgot what the question was.

02:45:17.980 Sure.

02:45:18.180 We can come back to it if you guys remember.

02:45:20.160 All right.

02:45:20.440 Dave on Jackson.

02:45:21.140 Thank you for the hundred.

02:45:21.740 Avery, can you read this one? 0.97

02:45:22.700 Yo, can y'all fucking chill with these? 0.96

02:45:26.080 Am I allowed to say that word? 0.98

02:45:27.120 Just blank over it. 0.99

02:45:28.180 Blank ass open-ended questions. 1.00

02:45:30.300 Nobody gives a fuck. 1.00

02:45:31.360 My friends, be funny, make a comment or shut the fuck up, please. 0.99

02:45:35.020 And thank you all. 0.98

02:45:35.840 So far is that Mr. Girl levels of never answering a question without a thorough meta combo first

02:45:41.320 word.

02:45:45.080 No, he's right.

02:45:47.100 But then again, I'm just talking.

02:45:49.160 You got to realize that I'm 18.

02:45:51.580 I'm way younger than everybody else in this panel.

02:45:54.820 Wait.

02:45:55.260 Way younger.

02:45:56.300 I'm not way younger.

02:45:57.940 But then again, as you said, I have a right to be in my whole face right now.

02:46:01.940 So anything I shoot out.

02:46:03.500 Hold on.

02:46:03.780 Wait.

02:46:04.380 No one has a right.

02:46:05.260 I said you were in your whole face.

02:46:07.020 I didn't say.

02:46:07.320 But there's a girl.

02:46:08.140 It's like saying I have a right.

02:46:09.400 Deserves got nothing to do with it.

02:46:10.880 Deserves got nothing to do with it.

02:46:11.880 You just get to do it.

02:46:12.680 You do it or you don't do it.

02:46:13.720 I do.

02:46:14.820 But then again, I do believe in a relationship.

02:46:18.140 I strongly do believe in a relationship.

02:46:19.600 But going forward right now, I don't see that because that does not benefit me in any way.

02:46:24.540 I need somebody that benefits me, that helps me push me to my goal.

02:46:29.580 And if you don't do that, then there's.

02:46:31.380 You don't need a man. 0.89

02:46:32.380 Exactly.

02:46:33.260 And so I just be the man and I play the man for so long until someday one guy will walk up to me and be that male lead and show me that, you know, that I don't need.

02:46:43.680 That guy will have to be more of a man than you are.

02:46:45.800 Exactly.

02:46:46.160 And he'll have to be into men as well.

02:46:48.600 Wait.

02:46:49.020 Huh?

02:46:49.220 Wait, what?

02:46:49.780 No, because you become the man you want to marry.

02:46:53.420 Why would you want to get with, like, why would a guy want to get with another guy if he was assuming he's heterosexual?

02:47:00.200 That's true.

02:47:01.080 But then again, I do have female qualities. 1.00

02:47:03.420 It's not just because.

02:47:04.340 It's just a front.

02:47:05.680 Do you think that you should develop those female?

02:47:07.540 Well, you're 18, right?

02:47:08.480 Of course.

02:47:08.860 Do you think that perhaps maybe you need to lean into your feminine a little bit? 0.68

02:47:13.380 Of course.

02:47:14.120 But, you know, down the line, I will experience that.

02:47:16.420 But right now, I'm so focused on many different qualities, just like how some people want to be doctors, how some people want to be lawyers.

02:47:23.280 I'm 18.

02:47:24.220 I'm starting out from that.

02:47:25.580 A hoe? 1.00

02:47:25.900 Well, you said you wanted to do like your hope is.

02:47:30.000 Some people, you know, go from 18 to 19.

02:47:32.900 She's in her party.

02:47:33.500 So if I get into a relationship, how does that push me to become a nurse?

02:47:37.980 What does that male do to push me to be a nurse?

02:47:40.640 Does he tell me to wake up on time to go to my classes?

02:47:43.400 Does he tell me to pay?

02:47:44.520 Does he pay for my courses?

02:47:45.340 Thank you for agreeing with my tweet from this week.

02:47:51.020 Jesus Christ.

02:47:52.900 I think you're setting yourself up for failure in a way.

02:47:55.940 If you're like doing your whole phases so early, like you're not going to end up with meaningful relationships if you keep it up, you know?

02:48:01.940 Speaking of.

02:48:02.520 Having a meaningful relationship.

02:48:04.780 Well, it seems like that's what you see.

02:48:06.120 Is two different things.

02:48:07.220 There's also a main person and there's a side person.

02:48:10.280 Whoa.

02:48:10.420 As a guy, there's always going to be some guys out there.

02:48:13.760 There's going to be a main and there's going to be a side.

02:48:15.980 The main will always get mad at you at everything.

02:48:18.600 Every little thing.

02:48:19.500 This is your philosophy at 18 years old?

02:48:21.500 Jesus Christ.

02:48:22.800 I have seen so many things.

02:48:24.580 I'm telling you.

02:48:25.040 I have seen so many things.

02:48:26.520 And as a female, you know, as a guy, you know, you don't want a girl constantly down your throat asking me where you are, who you're with, and where you're going. 1.00

02:48:34.800 You know, that's why a side person and a side doesn't really ask you that.

02:48:39.160 They just sleep with you one day and sleep with you another.

02:48:41.900 Whenever you ask, you always have that side person to talk to, to rant, to vent.

02:48:45.640 Can I redirect us here a little bit?

02:48:47.180 Have you been the side person?

02:48:48.340 Of course.

02:48:48.860 I've been the side and I have been the main.

02:48:50.200 And I have played all this type of parts.

02:48:51.660 Let me see if I can redirect you because we actually got on this tangent because the ladies were asking us what is our, like, our ideal mate, right? 0.99

02:49:00.800 I mean, I'm just going to read back because he came up with a very, a lot of this stuff, pretty much, whenever we're on, it's like I kind of let you pick up half of it and I'll pick up the other half.

02:49:10.400 But the other half is this, is that I don't want a woman who is submissive. 0.97

02:49:16.660 I want a woman who has genuine desire for me.

02:49:19.400 So when you talk about OnlyFans, I want a woman who is going to give up OnlyFans without being asked that I am the one that she wants to say, you know what, I don't want there to be any fucking confusion whether or not I am into this guy and I really want to be with this guy. 0.67

02:49:33.980 So I am going to take it upon myself to, to close my Instagram account, close my OnlyFans account because this is, I'm a ride or die girl.

02:49:43.220 This guy is the one for me.

02:49:45.040 I don't want to have babies.

02:49:46.380 I want to have his babies. 0.97

02:49:48.340 This is the guy that I want, and I want her to be so fucking sure of that, that she's going to change her religion and she's going to follow me across the ocean to my homeland and stay with me because she has that level of desire for me. 0.98

02:50:00.780 It's not submissive, it's not enslavement, it is desire, so much desire on the part of that woman for that guy that she wants to be with him no matter what, ride or die. 0.97

02:50:11.140 She's going to break me out of prison. 0.76

02:50:13.420 Why would it not, we have asked this on Access Vegas several times, and I think the question we need to be asking is this, especially for the ladies on the panel here, is if you met the right guy and you have OnlyFans or you have an Instagram account, would you take it upon yourself?

02:50:29.080 Would you have the insight to say, you know what, I don't want this guy to think that I'm actually advertising my sexuality to anyone else.

02:50:36.520 I'm going to take that down on my own without having to be asked.

02:50:40.200 Would you do that?

02:50:41.200 Absolutely.

02:50:41.780 If it was the right, if he was a ride or die girl. 0.97

02:50:44.120 Of course.

02:50:44.500 Or you were the ride or die girl.

02:50:45.760 I would give him my passers.

02:50:47.480 I would delete everything.

02:50:48.260 No passers. 1.00

02:50:48.820 Just kill everything off. 1.00

02:50:49.740 Just because I would want that security. 0.87

02:50:51.720 I want to have that security with my partner.

02:50:54.000 So what would you sacrifice and would it occur to you to want to delete your OnlyFans, delete your Instagram, delete any of it?

02:51:04.100 Because you don't want to advertise yourself and you don't want there to be any confusion with that guy.

02:51:08.180 Of course.

02:51:08.740 And I need that.

02:51:10.180 You need to be direct.

02:51:11.740 You need to tell me face-to-face, sit down with me.

02:51:14.000 No, you do it yourself.

02:51:15.600 You have that much desire to say, you know what, he doesn't need to ask me.

02:51:20.000 I don't need to know what the boundaries are.

02:51:21.360 I already know what they are and I'm going to do it myself.

02:51:24.140 There's a process before that.

02:51:25.560 There's a process before.

02:51:26.520 How are you going to find that guy?

02:51:27.820 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

02:51:28.880 One thing I would say is this about it.

02:51:30.980 Is that I would argue that that might not be in some girl's consciousness at 18.

02:51:35.180 So, although I agree with Rolo, him telling you directly and you being able to do it with no problem and knowing that's exactly what you want to do because you're so in love with him and you have that true genuine desire would be acceptable in my opinion.

02:51:47.720 I think you would agree with that.

02:51:48.560 Yeah, I would agree with that, but see the problem is you get into this quandary, I guess, because usually what they say is if the guy asked you to delete your account, would you do it?

02:51:59.860 Then what they'll say is, well, if he was the right guy, he wouldn't be asking me. 0.93

02:52:03.840 No, what I'm asking is if he's the ideal guy, would you think, would it be a concept in your head, an insight to say, I better cut this shit out? 0.99

02:52:13.040 Yes. 0.99

02:52:14.640 You go?

02:52:15.140 I don't want this to be taken the wrong way, but I'm going to say no due to the fact that, for example, OnlyFans.

02:52:20.660 I don't have it.

02:52:21.560 She does, right?

02:52:22.420 You have Instagram?

02:52:23.100 You have an Instagram.

02:52:23.540 I do have an Instagram, but I'm just saying, for example, OnlyFans because she is making an income out of it.

02:52:28.740 If she's talking to someone and she all of a sudden just stops doing OnlyFans, she has no income, and then that dude just ends up not being that person.

02:52:35.840 She can have a feeling like, oh, this person.

02:52:37.440 But that dude is like Justin Waller.

02:52:39.060 He's taking care of everything for you.

02:52:40.740 Okay, you want to come in?

02:52:41.720 Go ahead.

02:52:42.120 Yeah.

02:52:42.460 I just wanted to say, even when I'm talking to somebody, because I have a boyfriend now, and I've been talking to him.

02:52:49.660 We got together recently.

02:52:51.760 So it was important to me to make sure that I was talking to only him, even when we were just in the talking phase.

02:52:58.440 So I think this whole idea, like, oh, there's people on the sides, and even just giving up your socials and stuff, I'd do it in a heartbeat,

02:53:05.340 because immediately I cut off every guy when I'm just talking to this man.

02:53:09.920 He had my phone passwords.

02:53:11.200 I said, here, go through my Snapchat.

02:53:12.620 Like, it's all yours because it's important to show that you're committed before you even start the relationship.

02:53:18.420 That's how he knows.

02:53:19.300 Let me, can I, that's a really good observation because the follow-up to this is this, is you were talking about double standards just a minute ago, okay?

02:53:27.280 So when a man and a woman get together in some kind of relationship, men, when they are trying to get with a girl,

02:53:34.780 they're the ones who have to sell themselves because of performance.

02:53:37.100 We have to be the ones who can qualify.

02:53:39.000 We have to look good.

02:53:39.760 We have to have a good job.

02:53:41.380 We have to be funny.

02:53:42.300 I mean, you think about all the criteria that men have to have to actually get in a woman's pants, 0.93

02:53:46.740 much less have a relationship with that woman.

02:53:49.060 Men have to sell themselves on performance. 0.77

02:53:51.860 Women, on the other hand, advertise themselves on the sexual marketplace. 1.00

02:53:55.640 So whether that's Instagram or that's OnlyFans or however you're doing it, women are the advertisers. 1.00

02:54:01.840 Men are the ones who are the salesmen.

02:54:04.020 We're the pitchmen.

02:54:04.940 We're trying to get you to accept us as an intimate, okay?

02:54:09.500 So, and then some of them, some of us have a much easier time of this.

02:54:13.100 Other guys have to actually work their asses, have to ask, work their asses off to do that, right?

02:54:18.660 So when you- 0.91

02:54:19.280 For the record, I work my ass off.

02:54:20.120 Yeah.

02:54:20.460 You do work your ass off.

02:54:21.580 So when you get into a relationship, if it's closed on her end and closed on your end,

02:54:29.320 what that means is that that guy can no longer sell himself on the sexual marketplace.

02:54:33.220 He can't pitch himself because he would be a cheater, right?

02:54:35.460 If he's trying to go get with a waitress and you're in a relationship and he's flirting with her

02:54:40.340 and trying to promote himself to sell his sexuality to that person, we call that cheating.

02:54:46.120 But yet when women still advertise themselves on OnlyFans, on Instagram, 0.66

02:54:50.680 we don't have a problem with that.

02:54:52.660 Or women say it's my only source of income or whatever. 1.00

02:54:55.500 And that's the hard part of this is we've attached that advertising to women's revenue streams right now. 0.99

02:55:01.680 But it's okay for men or for us to call men who would advertise themselves in a relationship

02:55:07.900 or pitch themselves in a relationship.

02:55:10.100 We call them cheaters.

02:55:11.520 But we don't say the same thing for women who are advertising themselves. 0.51

02:55:14.160 That's why I was saying, advertise themselves once they are in that relationship.

02:55:19.020 If it is closed on his end and closed on her end, it should occur to you to say, 1.00

02:55:23.920 I'm going to stop advertising my sexy ass. 0.99

02:55:27.320 I'm not saying delete your Instagram, but take down the thong pictures, 1.00

02:55:30.980 take down the sexualized pictures so that there's no confusion.

02:55:36.580 Do you guys know what a soft launch is?

02:55:38.860 Somebody knows what a soft launch is.

02:55:40.340 Soft launch is when women have a new boyfriend and they don't show the boyfriend immediately. 1.00

02:55:45.420 They'll show like hands together or they'll show like their feet on the beach or some shit like that.

02:55:49.420 Because women know that they will lose market share on their advertising if they show a guy 1.00

02:55:54.840 and suddenly that promise, that fantasy of availability goes away.

02:56:00.000 The reason why women get upset about that is because they're still advertising from within a relationship 1.00

02:56:05.280 where the guy has stopped, but the woman has not stopped advertising.

02:56:08.740 Okay, two things.

02:56:10.900 What you just said, the last part, advertising in two different ways.

02:56:13.860 In terms of advertising on OnlyFans, yes, 100%.

02:56:16.180 If I was dating a guy, I don't know if I would advertise it because that would affect my business.

02:56:19.900 But not every woman, most women are not on OnlyFans.

02:56:22.680 Are you saying that like they wouldn't show hands because they still want to monkey branch 0.93

02:56:26.180 and for men to pursue them?

02:56:27.540 Nothing to do with monkey branch.

02:56:28.720 What it has to do is the perception of your availability is limited.

02:56:34.040 It is curtailed by having the boyfriend in the shots and the photos with you.

02:56:39.480 For example, there was a series of photos of, and I don't know the name, sorry,

02:56:44.040 but the professional soccer players with their wives and their girlfriends.

02:56:49.280 And you look at their Instagram.

02:56:50.980 They're on the same beach and the same vacation.

02:56:54.780 No dudes.

02:56:55.300 No nudes, no nothing.

02:56:56.800 No nudes at all.

02:56:57.320 And you look at their girlfriends or their wives' Instagram, and same beach,

02:57:02.160 just the girl that's all alone sitting in the surf and looking sexy. 0.99

02:57:07.380 If you look at like, so what is it, Ayesha Curry and Stephen Curry, 0.99

02:57:10.260 like she still wants to, even after, she's with Stephen Curry, for fuck's sake. 0.98

02:57:15.240 She's with Stephen Curry. 0.99

02:57:16.040 He signed a deal for $500 million.

02:57:17.840 And she still wants, she's on Red Table Talk wanting to still say, hey,

02:57:21.740 I want to be on Instagram.

02:57:23.120 I still want to advertise myself.

02:57:24.340 I still want to be, I still want other men to find me sexy.

02:57:27.500 That's what I mean by advertising.

02:57:29.040 It's not necessarily like the, I mean, the only fan saying, yeah,

02:57:31.460 you're advertising yourself sexually when you do that.

02:57:33.900 But it's not just that.

02:57:35.040 And it's not just, it's not just like the soft launch.

02:57:38.140 It is the fact that you are still there advertising while you would have a

02:57:42.020 conniption fit if the guy was out there flirting with the waitress.

02:57:45.380 Cause he's, he's following his sexual imperatives while he has to curtail

02:57:49.580 his and you're not.

02:57:50.480 I think I have something good to say with this.

02:57:52.020 If that's not a double standard, I don't know what it is.

02:57:53.800 Not that, um, like anything, I mean, it's fine.

02:57:56.800 If you, if you want to do OnlyFans or whatever,

02:57:58.580 and that's how you want to make your money, that is fine.

02:58:00.000 But then if you do have that, you cannot come then and say,

02:58:03.200 I want to find my perfect man.

02:58:05.580 I've never, I've never had OnlyFans.

02:58:07.360 I've never started OnlyFans.

02:58:08.460 I never will have an OnlyFans because I, like one of my goals in life

02:58:13.740 that I knew that I was going to want to have, whether that be like now,

02:58:16.800 which it has happened for me now.

02:58:18.140 I got lucky.

02:58:18.840 Like it happened for me.

02:58:20.480 Um, and I don't have an OnlyFans.

02:58:22.000 So that's proof that it can happen because it happened because of that.

02:58:25.360 Right.

02:58:25.680 That I have like the man, the perfect man that like,

02:58:28.220 I think that I would want that I would want to have is sitting right next to me.

02:58:31.800 So that is proof that for that.

02:58:34.940 But I always knew that I would want that one day.

02:58:36.700 Right.

02:58:36.860 Like I would want to have, be married to the perfect man of like my dreams per se

02:58:41.140 that I would want to be with, that I would want to raise my kids with me.

02:58:44.520 So I would never have that because I know that a man that I dream to have

02:58:50.200 would not want a woman that is doing that. 1.00

02:58:53.400 So like that's, that's kind of a little take on that.

02:58:56.940 And there's nothing, if that's what you want to do, that's fine.

02:58:58.580 But then you can't have them both.

02:59:00.220 It's just one of those things.

02:59:01.080 You can't have it both ways.

02:59:02.440 Like you pick and choose.

02:59:03.460 If you'd rather have OnlyFans and make all this money on OnlyFans,

02:59:05.720 which girls do, there's girls that make so much money to do it. 1.00

02:59:08.540 So if you want to do that and have that, you can have that and do it.

02:59:11.800 But just know you're, it's going to be a lot harder

02:59:13.780 and you probably aren't going to be able to have this as well.

02:59:16.560 So I had a question for you earlier and I totally forgot about it.

02:59:19.300 So right now you said you, you mentioned as OnlyFans,

02:59:21.940 you mentioned OnlyFans as a career path.

02:59:24.840 You said career path and you talk about a man taking away your career path.

02:59:27.920 I'm asking if you had gotten on the cover of Vogue,

02:59:30.620 if you had gotten on the cover of FHM,

02:59:32.200 if you had gotten on something else that didn't,

02:59:34.380 where you could make a salary over 200,000, 500,000 a year

02:59:38.100 and you didn't have to have OnlyFans, would you still do OnlyFans?

02:59:40.960 Yeah, I mean, I was already making a decent salary

02:59:42.560 to solve TikTok sponsorships, but OnlyFans is an insane amount of money.

02:59:45.820 So you would still do OnlyFans because of the money?

02:59:47.740 What I'm saying is that you got Giselle Munchin type money, 1.00

02:59:50.320 you'd still want to do OnlyFans?

02:59:51.980 Not necessarily.

02:59:52.700 Like I don't think I could be bought, like for instance,

02:59:54.380 like if someone offered me like 100 mil for my virginity,

02:59:56.560 I wouldn't do it.

02:59:57.240 Right, right.

02:59:57.520 So money isn't the incentive for me.

02:59:59.980 I would probably do it for 100 mil.

03:00:01.680 I'm not going to lie.

03:00:02.140 Wait, can I ask the guys a question?

03:00:03.560 Can you choose a different location if they offered more money than not OnlyFans?

03:00:07.020 I don't think that's what he's saying.

03:00:08.180 No, no, no.

03:00:08.540 What I'm not saying is that you called it a career path.

03:00:11.580 Does that make sense?

03:00:12.460 Like being in construction is a career path.

03:00:14.460 Lane Briggs is not a career path. 0.97

03:00:15.680 It's part of my overall career of content creation.

03:00:16.560 Right, well the overall,

03:00:17.500 but we're not worried about the TikTok part, right?

03:00:20.040 The guy you're going to marry is not super worried about the TikTok part.

03:00:22.420 It's this one part that they're going to have a little bit more concern about.

03:00:25.420 Do you understand how, my only question is,

03:00:27.380 I don't consider, I consider media maybe a career path,

03:00:30.080 but OnlyFans is not necessarily a career path.

03:00:32.460 Does that make sense?

03:00:33.200 That's what I was confused when you were saying before,

03:00:35.240 a man would want to take me away from my career path.

03:00:38.180 And I think you're calling it a career path

03:00:39.980 because it happens to be very lucrative for you.

03:00:42.180 But I don't think it's a career path.

03:00:43.280 I think if, and maybe I'm wrong,

03:00:45.180 but what I felt like is if you were more respected as a traditional model,

03:00:48.000 Mike, a little closer, a little closer to Mike.

03:00:49.420 Sorry, if you weren't,

03:00:50.060 if you were more respected as a traditional model,

03:00:51.800 you might not want to do OnlyFans.

03:00:53.520 That's the only thing I'm asking.

03:00:55.260 OnlyFans earns a lot more. 1.00

03:00:57.080 I was more so saying that because he was saying

03:00:58.500 if he met a girl who's on OnlyFans,

03:00:59.800 he'd want to transfer her into his mission, his framework.

03:01:02.280 So I was asking,

03:01:03.580 is the transferring because it's specifically OnlyFans

03:01:05.540 or just because that's what she's currently doing? 0.92

03:01:07.800 The three of us are in some way or another performance coaches

03:01:09.840 and it doesn't really look good for us to be dating girls who are doing things.

03:01:13.620 I could see if a girl had old photos that were bikini shots or whatever maybe, 1.00

03:01:18.120 but anything beyond that, 0.99

03:01:19.440 if we're doing stuff with dildos, girl, girl shit, 0.99

03:01:21.740 I think it's going to be a little bit harder for us to explain 0.99

03:01:24.260 as male improvement coaches why our girlfriends are doing that. 0.99

03:01:27.160 Does that make sense?

03:01:28.380 That's the reason why.

03:01:29.140 So from a business standpoint.

03:01:30.680 The optics, yeah.

03:01:31.560 Justin, I know you wanted to come in

03:01:32.900 and then after Justin goes,

03:01:34.240 guys, give me a little space to get through some of the soup chats here

03:01:37.140 and I'll try to get everyone caught up.

03:01:38.400 Go ahead, Justin.

03:01:39.220 I think you nailed it,

03:01:40.360 so I don't really have a whole lot more to say.

03:01:42.360 Okay.

03:01:42.780 I wouldn't make it, let it stop me,

03:01:44.860 but I would shut it down.

03:01:46.080 And yes, I would want her to be inside my frame,

03:01:48.220 not because it was OnlyFans,

03:01:49.320 because it's a family mission, it's a legacy.

03:01:51.700 You had something quick?

03:01:52.800 Yeah, something quick.

03:01:53.460 I just wanted to say that I think that having an OnlyFans

03:01:56.140 is further perpetuating the hedonism that's destroying the country.

03:02:00.200 I wouldn't want to be a part of that personally.

03:02:02.720 This is why I use the word philosophy.

03:02:05.000 Do you have a quick response to her?

03:02:06.360 Or she said that OnlyFans is the downfall of the West?

03:02:11.660 Is that what you said?

03:02:12.220 Yeah, basically.

03:02:13.080 She's affirming my point.

03:02:14.260 I said it's perpetuating the hedonism that's destroying the country 0.99

03:02:17.060 and it's really, really giving people fucked up. 0.99

03:02:20.420 Is that your Andrew? 0.99

03:02:21.280 Is Andrew here?

03:02:22.260 Andrew just showed up.

03:02:23.140 He's the mystery guest.

03:02:24.000 It wasn't me after all.

03:02:25.020 Come on, Andrew. 0.99

03:02:26.380 It's really ruining the way that people perceive relationships and shit. 0.98

03:02:30.760 Again, this is why I delineated between preference and philosophy 0.96

03:02:33.020 because usually people who believe that also believe that framework.

03:02:36.680 One question.

03:02:37.320 You said, and we're going to get to the soup chat,

03:02:39.920 so just, guys, let me get through all these.

03:02:42.680 You wouldn't sell your virginity for $100 million?

03:02:45.640 Nope. 1.00

03:02:46.100 Yes, the fuck you would. 1.00

03:02:47.260 Bro. 1.00

03:02:48.040 I wouldn't.

03:02:49.060 You sell your pics on OnlyFans.

03:02:50.220 I'm not going to lie.

03:02:50.940 Yeah, you would.

03:02:51.500 You sell your pics on OnlyFans.

03:02:52.120 Yeah, because that's still within my comfort zone.

03:02:53.920 You don't know the content I do on OnlyFans.

03:02:55.220 I might come up with a dude for $100 million.

03:02:56.500 I can make a lot more on OnlyFans if I do different types of content.

03:03:00.240 You could cure malaria in Africa for $100 million, bro.

03:03:03.880 You judged a book by its coverage.

03:03:04.620 When you literally just said you don't do that.

03:03:06.540 You normalize sex. 0.68

03:03:07.160 That's how it is.

03:03:07.680 Early on in this podcast, you literally just said you don't do that.

03:03:10.220 You get every dollar fixed in the United States.

03:03:11.820 I'm saying what I do on OnlyFans is within my comfort level.

03:03:17.040 I didn't know how much I was going to make on day one.

03:03:18.440 I had to take that risk.

03:03:19.200 I can make a dollar.

03:03:20.020 I can make a million dollars this month, right?

03:03:21.580 So it's within my comfort zone.

03:03:23.720 So I can 10x my profit if I went beyond my comfort zone on OnlyFans.

03:03:27.620 Because the guy who would pay $100 million for your virginity is not the guy you want 0.99

03:03:33.860 to be fucking in the first place. 1.00

03:03:35.280 He's going to be weird as shit, for sure. 1.00

03:03:36.180 For sure. 0.99

03:03:36.720 Hey.

03:03:37.080 Okay.

03:03:37.660 Hold on.

03:03:38.220 Shout out to Riyadh.

03:03:39.100 Okay.

03:03:39.320 Sorry.

03:03:39.540 Two questions for you guys.

03:03:42.520 So both of you do OnlyFans.

03:03:44.560 Just how much do you guys make on OnlyFans per month?

03:03:47.580 Avery?

03:03:47.720 Can't say.

03:03:48.620 Six figures?

03:03:49.640 Five figures?

03:03:50.480 Can you say what percentage of earners you're in?

03:03:53.200 That's the same thing.

03:03:55.680 Give us a range.

03:03:57.000 Five figures?

03:03:57.740 Six figures?

03:03:58.920 50K a month?

03:03:59.420 We make a month.

03:03:59.760 20K a month?

03:04:00.360 I don't disclose, but I do well.

03:04:01.500 You pay any dollars on the highest tax bracket of, what, 36%?

03:04:05.040 Do you ever get there?

03:04:06.500 I pay a lot of taxes.

03:04:08.120 Wait.

03:04:08.140 Yeah, what, 100 mil?

03:04:10.320 You realize, like, that is set up your grandchildren, grandchildren.

03:04:14.840 That's what I'm saying. 1.00

03:04:15.200 That is just, you don't have to work another day in your fucking life. 0.99

03:04:19.140 I've never considered that. 1.00

03:04:20.560 Wow, I could retire off 100 mil, Brian.

03:04:22.500 That's not what you consider.

03:04:24.300 Consider the social changes you could make with $100 million.

03:04:27.560 That's what I'm saying. 0.98

03:04:28.360 Let's say he's a premature ejaculator, too. 0.96

03:04:30.060 Okay, that's a utilitarian argument, but. 0.99

03:04:31.740 Like, he's a premature ejaculator. 0.84

03:04:32.940 Does that change anything? 0.93

03:04:34.160 Like, so it's quick, you know?

03:04:35.120 I would argue that that's not even maybe the question to ask.

03:04:38.860 The question to ask is, the amount of money that you two girls are making on OnlyFans, 1.00

03:04:41.840 is it worth giving up a family and a love?

03:04:44.560 That's right. 0.99

03:04:44.920 Because any man that is worth his fucking salt that you would even be attracted to wouldn't put up with it. 0.99

03:04:49.500 I can tell you right now. 0.99

03:04:50.140 And you, my dear, are a depreciating asset.

03:04:53.960 So every day that goes by, you're going to be less and less beautiful.

03:04:57.120 And at some point, there's going to be a history of you doing that.

03:04:59.200 As beautiful as you are, you're stunning.

03:05:00.480 You're a pretty girl.

03:05:01.640 But no man that is going to be in your league is going to put up with it.

03:05:05.000 And so the question is, if you were truly in love and you had true desire for a man that would put his foot down with you

03:05:09.260 and tell you how it was going to be, would you or would you not give up your OnlyFans?

03:05:12.500 No, I wouldn't.

03:05:14.860 Same way if I wanted to really expand my dating pool.

03:05:16.460 Then you do not genuinely desire that man.

03:05:18.700 You would not be in love with that man.

03:05:20.240 Because if you were in love with that man, you would shut it down.

03:05:22.980 And that day will come for you.

03:05:24.040 It would probably be way down the road.

03:05:24.740 Again, why don't I put on a hijab? 1.00

03:05:25.860 Because then I can find a man who actually reciprocates because Muslim men lower their gaze when other women walk by. 1.00

03:05:30.240 Any man that asks you to do it and you say no to, you're going to look at it as a pussy. 1.00

03:05:32.900 You will not respect him and you will not love him. 1.00

03:05:34.720 Any man that you look up to and respect, you would quit doing it for.

03:05:37.320 And that day might not be today, but it will come.

03:05:40.800 Good luck.

03:05:41.300 If he reciprocates, if he quits occasioning the strip club, if he quits watching porn, if he also takes that initiative and I meet the love of my life, sure.

03:05:49.780 All right, let me get it.

03:05:52.020 Meanwhile, there's 10, 20 years of digital flip friends.

03:05:54.540 He's got to be that dude.

03:05:55.380 He's got to be that dude fully. 1.00

03:05:56.800 He's got to be able to look you in line and tell you, shut that shit down. 1.00

03:05:58.900 I mean it. 1.00

03:05:59.120 Just like I said, man are old performances.

03:05:59.960 He has to show.

03:06:01.020 That's it.

03:06:02.020 Enough to let go.

03:06:03.060 And that's what I appreciate about what you said earlier.

03:06:04.800 The first time I agreed with you was a little bit earlier when you were like, yes, if I knew that I could be inside that frame.

03:06:09.960 I mean that's what I was saying about women hold on until they know they're safe. 1.00

03:06:13.080 I can respect a woman that will hold on until she knows. 0.96

03:06:15.500 I don't have a problem with the making money thing.

03:06:17.080 Even the OnlyFans thing.

03:06:17.940 It doesn't really bother me that bad.

03:06:19.220 I get it.

03:06:19.920 It's easy money and it's really good money.

03:06:21.780 But if he comes along, it would be hard for me to believe that any woman at this table would not let go of OnlyFans.

03:06:27.960 Because once he's there, it does take a certain amount of process.

03:06:31.820 It takes that man.

03:06:33.660 Of course.

03:06:34.120 And it does take that man.

03:06:34.880 And that's why I believe in building men.

03:06:36.200 You don't build strong men despite women. 1.00

03:06:38.040 You build strong men for women.

03:06:39.740 Let me say something.

03:06:40.940 The two of you are going to meet men.

03:06:42.960 And initially you're going to be very happy.

03:06:45.560 But the problem is there's something, there's a reason why they picked you and not someone else who isn't doing,

03:06:50.420 I hate to say this because I'm very mean.

03:06:52.040 But you're going to ask yourself, why did this guy pick me and not someone who isn't doing OnlyFans?

03:06:57.760 There is going to be a voice in the back of your head.

03:07:00.100 It's like, why did this person pick me when they could have had something with less drama and less exposure?

03:07:05.080 And that voice is going to be in your head.

03:07:06.660 And then you're going to see what that thing is.

03:07:08.940 You're going to see what that chink in the armor is. 1.00

03:07:11.900 Maybe he's a simp.

03:07:13.040 Or maybe he does not know how to define boundaries.

03:07:15.240 Or maybe he keeps getting out of relationships because he's outrageously insecure or whatever.

03:07:19.360 The problem is it's not that you won't find a man.

03:07:21.260 Both of you will definitely find men.

03:07:23.320 It's just the problem is when you do, you're not going to be wholeheartedly willing to change my religion

03:07:28.820 and crawl over broken glass like the way Rolo describes with his wife.

03:07:32.820 Genuine desire.

03:07:33.240 Genuine desire.

03:07:33.920 You aren't going to have that genuine desire.

03:07:36.140 And 78% of divorces in the United States are initiated by women. 0.57

03:07:42.680 Do you understand?

03:07:43.380 I got to jump in just because we do have to get some chats here.

03:07:46.360 Okay, so we have Derek Man X here.

03:07:50.240 Oh, I think this one already came in.

03:07:52.080 Glasses stop talking like you know men.

03:07:53.600 Real men don't care how you feel or how you think.

03:07:55.280 It's not real.

03:07:55.820 We want what we want.

03:07:57.800 Boom.

03:07:58.500 Okay, Derek Man X.

03:07:59.540 I think that's Travis.

03:08:00.620 Thank you, Travis.

03:08:01.780 We, hold on.

03:08:02.640 I have to wait until that one disappears.

03:08:04.860 We have Spencer Park who donated $100.

03:08:08.480 Thank you so much, man.

03:08:09.680 I'm going to start preemptively reading this after that one comes through.

03:08:12.980 Mia look alike, should go to law school, and would be a 1% lawyer, but the world isn't 1.00

03:08:19.140 logical.

03:08:19.660 Men and women are held to different standards.

03:08:21.480 What makes a woman valuable is different from men.

03:08:24.000 I can see how men would be intimidated by the way you talk.

03:08:28.900 You're a way you talk.

03:08:29.640 They're saying I'm a very masculine woman.

03:08:32.780 Do you have a response?

03:08:33.420 I don't think you're masculine.

03:08:34.640 I think maybe headstrong.

03:08:35.720 Do you have a response to Spencer Park?

03:08:37.920 No, I mean, we've already, we've been building off the premise that men and women are different.

03:08:41.820 I don't think we're arguing that they're the same.

03:08:43.720 I was saying where are those differences relevant in terms of body count when, again,

03:08:48.080 we've proven that double virginity bodes the best marriages.

03:08:51.580 That was my point.

03:08:52.660 That's such an outlier statistic, though, right?

03:08:55.640 It's an outlier statistic because there's so few double virgin marriages, and also the

03:08:59.780 double virgin marriages tend to be like Amish people. 1.00

03:09:01.760 It tends to be people in extremely austere relationships.

03:09:05.740 Does that make sense?

03:09:06.140 Because most men and women do not get together in the United States as virgins.

03:09:10.240 When it happens, there tends to be other cultural reasons.

03:09:13.100 So it's really hard to say, is this a, if this is an outlier.

03:09:16.520 It's not a trend.

03:09:17.380 It's not a trend.

03:09:17.920 The trend, what you can see is a trend is if you look over thousands and thousands of people,

03:09:21.940 is men tend to not be super affected by their body count as far as their ability to stay

03:09:27.660 in a marriage, and women tend to be more affected by it. 0.97

03:09:30.660 For men, it tends to be their options.

03:09:32.620 Like, for instance, if you happen to live next door to the Playboy Mansion, you're more likely to stray.

03:09:35.660 For women, it's previous partners that cause them to be more likely to cheat. 0.80

03:09:39.980 And that's what men are afraid of.

03:09:41.060 On top of the fact that they have this innate evolutionary necessity to be with a woman who has a low body count. 1.00

03:09:46.000 So there's a cognitive reason, and then also a subconscious reason, and both of them are backed by science.

03:09:51.340 That's the problem.

03:09:51.960 Is it a double standard? 1.00

03:09:52.960 Fuck yes, it's a double standard. 1.00

03:09:54.160 Nobody's arguing that it isn't. 0.99

03:09:55.760 But your question, though, is it moral?

03:09:57.340 I mean, that's not something, I mean, it's not moral that I can benchmark more than you.

03:09:59.780 Is it fair?

03:10:00.220 No, it's not fair.

03:10:00.720 Is it fair?

03:10:00.800 No, it's not.

03:10:01.560 It's just the way it is.

03:10:02.980 The other thing is, and I'm not, again, it's going to sound like I'm making an excuse.

03:10:06.100 The average man, like I said before, has 17 times as much testosterone going through than a woman does. 0.99

03:10:11.260 Imagine the horniest you've ever been in your entire life.

03:10:14.460 Multiply that by 17, and that's Tuesday for us.

03:10:17.360 And that's the reason, again, I'm not trying to make an excuse, but now you see this irrational level of horniness.

03:10:22.700 And then you realize that testosterone not only regulates your libido, but your assertiveness, your aggressiveness, your necessity to solve problems.

03:10:33.000 You're also your necessity to save your fellow man, right?

03:10:36.740 Your bravado. 0.99

03:10:37.540 Slit throats and then pick up the baby. 1.00

03:10:38.500 Slit throats and whole babies. 0.99

03:10:39.620 All those things come from the same hormone that causes us to be outrageously horny compared to women. 1.00

03:10:46.000 Compared to women. 1.00

03:10:46.560 I just got to keep going.

03:10:48.680 Eric T., thank you for the 100.

03:10:49.860 Would any of the girls date a 54-year-old who throws charity events join MOA?

03:10:56.060 I don't throw charity events.

03:10:57.460 I don't know what you're coming at.

03:10:58.780 Show of hands.

03:10:59.900 Who would date a 54-year-old man?

03:11:03.100 Anybody?

03:11:03.900 Okay.

03:11:04.420 All right.

03:11:05.000 Got one.

03:11:05.640 Yes.

03:11:05.940 Sweet.

03:11:06.540 Wait, I'm just more about personality.

03:11:08.280 Really?

03:11:09.380 Rolo, you're talking 54, right?

03:11:11.020 55.

03:11:11.520 This is a stunning man right here.

03:11:13.100 Don't you?

03:11:13.540 What are you talking about?

03:11:14.140 There's more personality.

03:11:14.740 Where do you get the more being in shape is a flex.

03:11:17.300 Yo, guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever mods.

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03:11:51.960 You get name of the show, bro.

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03:11:56.420 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

03:11:57.700 Go over there.

03:11:58.140 Drop us a follow in the Prime sub.

03:11:59.400 And then we have some super chats here we got to get caught up on.

03:12:02.000 We got that one here.

03:12:04.760 Avery, go for it. 0.84

03:12:05.600 Women also need to understand that the sexual organ of a woman does change with use. 1.00

03:12:10.500 It doesn't feel as good, and you never know who's...

03:12:12.920 Sorry, I didn't mean to press that.

03:12:15.040 Actually.

03:12:16.160 You never know whose child it is.

03:12:17.800 A man's unit doesn't change, and unless a woman sleeps with multiple dudes, men know it is our child. 1.00

03:12:22.420 American virus is freedom, thank you for the hundred.

03:12:25.340 I don't know if that's true the first part. 0.90

03:12:29.000 What he means is not by the sexual organ getting bigger.

03:12:31.580 He means by sexual organ literally changes when a zygote is formed inside of a cervix.

03:12:37.020 Inside of the uterus, sorry.

03:12:38.360 That's what he means by it changes.

03:12:40.040 Just say roasties, dude.

03:12:40.960 Just say roasties.

03:12:41.800 That's all you want to say.

03:12:42.320 Yeah, this argument that women become looser when they have more sex, there's actually 1.00

03:12:46.000 not a lot of science.

03:12:46.560 But he said it doesn't feel as good as in that... 1.00

03:12:48.040 I thought he was referring to that, that loose pussy. 1.00

03:12:49.580 Yeah, I thought he... 1.00

03:12:50.500 Sexual orange is... 0.64

03:12:51.360 Yeah, maybe.

03:12:51.880 Maybe that's also...

03:12:52.840 It's harder for a woman to have an orgasm if she's had multiple partners. 0.99

03:12:55.460 I've seen some studies on that.

03:12:56.520 I'm not exactly sure.

03:12:57.500 All right, we have BebbyDemon69.

03:12:59.920 Thank you for the hundred, man.

03:13:00.640 Appreciate it.

03:13:01.160 What male traits based on Darwin's natural selection could be most desirable to women

03:13:05.400 in choosing a mate?

03:13:07.240 Is this...

03:13:08.160 Who's this for?

03:13:09.520 Is this the panel?

03:13:10.380 I mean, Darwin's...

03:13:11.040 What male traits based on Darwin's natural selection?

03:13:12.760 Height.

03:13:14.560 Muscularity.

03:13:15.260 These are going to be things that show competency and things that show...

03:13:18.240 Basically, women during different periods of time would choose the man who looked like 0.79

03:13:22.740 he was most likely, most capable of committing massive amounts of violence on her behalf

03:13:27.060 to protect her and her children. 0.98

03:13:28.460 When you look at it from that standpoint, then it makes sense why she fucks Brock the bartender 1.00

03:13:31.880 who's six foot three or the fucking quarterback of the football team. 1.00

03:13:34.360 That's the reason why. 0.99

03:13:35.360 It's not like...

03:13:36.120 These things didn't just happen.

03:13:37.580 Like I said before, my number one frustration is that we have these generic conversations

03:13:42.360 when Dr. David Buss has written five books on this stuff, when Gad Sat has written

03:13:46.440 books on this stuff, when Stephen Stewart-Williams, Cindy Meston, Lita Cosmedes, who's...

03:13:50.980 By the way, PhD right here at UC Santa Barbara, one of the leading evolutionary psychologists

03:13:55.300 on the planet, and we still listen to fucking Dr. Phil, and we read books like The Five Love

03:14:00.520 Languages and The Secret. 0.98

03:14:01.920 The answers are there. 1.00

03:14:03.240 Read the fucking answers. 0.99

03:14:04.620 The real reason why me and Rollo work together is because he's the only man on the planet 0.99

03:14:08.620 that I know who reads as much on evolutionary psychology as I do.

03:14:11.460 The answers are there.

03:14:12.360 They've been there since the 1970s.

03:14:13.940 And for some reason, we choose to not read them.

03:14:15.880 And we still believe things like beauty is subjective.

03:14:17.920 It is not subjective.

03:14:19.220 These things have been answered.

03:14:20.140 They've been answered since 1975.

03:14:21.440 The Five.

03:14:24.060 Matthew Self, thank you for the hundred.

03:14:25.620 Avery, go ahead.

03:14:26.600 Woman in the glasses is a smart woman. 1.00

03:14:28.540 I appreciate her fighting back on topics.

03:14:30.580 I just feel like she's just arguing to argue to prove her intelligence.

03:14:34.200 She doesn't even take it in the opposite side of the argument.

03:14:37.560 She just wants to argue to argue.

03:14:39.460 Your quick response.

03:14:40.980 That's not true.

03:14:41.700 I stand for everything I argue.

03:14:44.240 Maybe I'm not doing a good enough job explaining it.

03:14:46.720 Are those prescription, by the way?

03:14:48.100 You're literally arguing with them right now.

03:14:48.900 Are those prescription glasses?

03:14:50.020 Yeah, these are prescription.

03:14:53.980 There's no lenses in them.

03:14:55.600 Do you want to pop them off?

03:14:56.540 I mean, you don't need them, right?

03:14:58.660 It's all right.

03:14:59.120 She can do it.

03:14:59.820 She's giving me like a death stare over that request.

03:15:01.860 Let her do it.

03:15:02.820 Speedy the unsilent.

03:15:03.780 Thanks for the hundred.

03:15:04.680 Avery, go ahead.

03:15:05.520 As a high-value man who is also tall with a low body count,

03:15:08.800 I would only marry a woman with a low body count. 1.00

03:15:13.220 Word?

03:15:13.880 Thank you, man.

03:15:14.400 Speedy.

03:15:14.940 Thank you for your preference.

03:15:16.200 Yes, thank you for the super chat, man.

03:15:17.760 I really appreciate it.

03:15:18.460 We have Ivan Jr.

03:15:20.460 Thank you for the hundred, man.

03:15:21.180 Sorry, Brian.

03:15:21.640 There's a question to the panel.

03:15:22.700 Have women lost trust to depend on men to the point they sell themselves on social media? 0.65

03:15:27.500 Most relationships both have to work.

03:15:30.540 There are men who can support a woman.

03:15:32.520 Judging us and expectations are killing dating, pool, and marriage.

03:15:35.840 Word?

03:15:36.180 Thank you, Ivan.

03:15:36.700 Appreciate it.

03:15:37.240 Is there a question here?

03:15:39.280 Have women lost trust to depend on men to the point they sell themselves on social media? 0.65

03:15:43.260 Is this a rhetorical question?

03:15:44.560 Hello?

03:15:44.980 It's not because of that.

03:15:46.000 It's just opportunism is what it is.

03:15:49.320 Pretty much every girl that I talk to on, not every panel, but pretty much every girl I have encountered,

03:15:55.700 when it comes to wanting to get with a guy, they don't want to give up their OnlyFans.

03:16:02.040 They don't want to stop advertising.

03:16:04.180 And the reason they do is because they've been taught over the course of two generations to be distrustful of men,

03:16:11.260 to say that they're never going to be able to be the ones who are going to be able to take care of me.

03:16:15.020 When he comes up here and he says, I'm going to be the one who's going to take care of you,

03:16:17.960 I'm going to take you to the restaurant, I'm going to pay for it,

03:16:19.680 I am going to basically take care of your long-term security,

03:16:24.320 to hear that is shocking today, right?

03:16:26.960 Because women have this preconception that men are either borderline abusers 0.97

03:16:32.740 or they are incompetent like buffoons like Homer Simpson or Dr. Huxtable or whatever sitcom dad that we want to throw out there, 0.99

03:16:41.600 or they're incompetent. 0.99

03:16:42.800 They don't know how to drive a stick shift. 0.75

03:16:44.040 They don't know how to change a tire.

03:16:45.280 They don't know how to tie a tie.

03:16:46.920 And so if those are your three options and that's what you think of as a masculine model or an ideal

03:16:55.740 or that's your archetype in your head, of course you're going to want to go to college,

03:17:00.320 go get your career, get your money on point, become the man that you wanted to marry

03:17:04.400 because you can't trust no man to do what he just said,

03:17:08.360 which is I'm going to take care of business for you.

03:17:10.340 And yes, I would absolutely agree with that assessment

03:17:13.400 because women are fearful that they'll never find a guy. 1.00

03:17:16.540 And when we talk about like submission, which I think is the wrong world,

03:17:20.380 I think we need to talk about deference to men's authority.

03:17:24.200 But I think that it's more about the fact that women need long-term security longer 0.89

03:17:29.560 than they have the ability to consolidate on that.

03:17:33.140 So if you've got 18 to 28 years old where you're in your peak sexual market value years,

03:17:38.100 that's 10 years in a lifespan that might be, what, 90 years old?

03:17:42.440 So you're going to need long-term security far longer in your life than you are going to need it.

03:17:47.760 And that's why we sell women on this, be independent. 1.00

03:17:50.520 I'm a strong independent woman.

03:17:52.120 From what?

03:17:53.120 Independent of men. 0.77

03:17:54.520 That's where that comes from.

03:17:55.640 From 1970s feminism is where that's from. 1.00

03:17:57.800 Yeah, if your argument is that men have fallen short because men are not asking in a masculine, chivalrous way,

03:18:06.400 we agree with you.

03:18:07.360 We do not disagree with that at all.

03:18:09.320 Men have certainly fallen short.

03:18:10.620 That's the reason why the three of us are coaches.

03:18:12.620 That's we agree with you completely.

03:18:14.920 And in that happening, it's even worse in that general society is telling them to clearly do the opposite of what Justin Waller is saying.

03:18:25.360 Like, literally, not only are we not being coached to be masculine, we're being coached to not be masculine.

03:18:31.880 And thirdly, we're being taught that it's borderline illegal for us to act in a masculine way.

03:18:36.660 There is, you know, Andrew Tate said it the best.

03:18:38.560 There's no, there's no, there's just masculinity.

03:18:40.520 There's no such thing as toxic masculinity. 0.99

03:18:42.160 Toxic people are toxic. 0.96

03:18:43.560 Toxic people can be feminine or masculine. 0.99

03:18:46.080 Toxicity is toxic. 0.99

03:18:47.800 Masculinity, again, when you want someone to save you from a burning building, you want a fucking ton of masculinity. 0.99

03:18:53.580 It's not toxic then. 0.98

03:18:54.740 So that's the issue.

03:18:55.860 It's like, if you think things are bad, you're correct.

03:18:58.820 They are bad.

03:18:59.360 If you think men have fallen short, correct. 1.00

03:19:01.000 They have fallen short.

03:19:01.940 If you think 99% of men are simps, which is kind of the ones on OnlyFans that are subscribed to you guys, you're correct.

03:19:07.800 We agree with you on that.

03:19:09.300 Men need to step up as well. 0.98

03:19:10.920 And that's created the society. 0.94

03:19:12.220 That's why these shows are becoming, these panel shows like this, are becoming so outrageously fucking popular.

03:19:16.780 Because we're all seeing this happen at the same time. 0.58

03:19:19.020 By the way, I want to say one other thing.

03:19:20.020 I don't think the hedonism is the decay of Western society.

03:19:23.240 I think it's a denial of science.

03:19:25.180 I think that's actually the decay of Western society.

03:19:27.000 Sorry to go off on that topic.

03:19:29.120 All right.

03:19:29.340 One thing.

03:19:30.080 So you brought up ho-faces. 1.00

03:19:34.000 Kind of.

03:19:34.880 I did.

03:19:35.700 Go ahead.

03:19:36.360 So I'll go around the table on this.

03:19:40.900 Who here has, at any point in time, had a ho-faces? 1.00

03:19:45.480 Yeah, I have.

03:19:46.960 Had a ho-faces? 0.91

03:19:47.820 I've had a ho-faces. 0.98

03:19:48.520 Are you still presently in it?

03:19:49.480 I am not presently in it.

03:19:51.720 I assume not, given your assertion that.

03:19:55.380 She's on OnlyFans, of course.

03:19:56.980 Yeah, if you consider.

03:19:57.500 She's monetizing her ho-faces. 0.99

03:19:58.320 She kissed, like, two dudes on a date.

03:19:59.840 She didn't have a ho-faces. 1.00

03:20:01.620 Ho-faces? 1.00

03:20:02.200 Have you current ho-faces? 0.93

03:20:03.420 Of course.

03:20:03.660 In that ho-faces right now? 0.99

03:20:04.400 And it was to, like, lead me into something like that.

03:20:07.200 It wasn't because I chose.

03:20:09.100 It was because.

03:20:09.640 What do you mean you didn't choose?

03:20:10.900 I mean, I did choose.

03:20:12.180 But it was also a factor in of what happened before it.

03:20:15.780 It was actually rage and anger and revenge that fueled me to push me to be this ho-faces. 0.99

03:20:21.700 Because I felt like I was getting back at the guy at that time of during my first ho-faces. 0.99

03:20:27.040 Wait, so?

03:20:27.460 But then that's typically why a lot of people.

03:20:29.880 You're 18.

03:20:30.340 How many ho-faces do you think you're going to have? 1.00

03:20:32.880 Very many of these.

03:20:34.140 Baker's dozen.

03:20:34.720 But it just happens to a lot of people where they invest so much into a relationship that either the guy leaves or the girl leaves.

03:20:43.040 And then the one side will just be left broken.

03:20:45.960 And obviously that side that is broken is filled with rage to do better.

03:20:50.020 Or there's also another scenario if it was a female. 0.97

03:20:55.080 You know, there's only two sides that you could choose. 0.92

03:20:57.140 Either sleep with this homie to get revenge or you can work on yourself. 1.00

03:21:02.120 Sit down and really think, like, is it really possible for me to just, you know, get back at him or just feel like I just don't.

03:21:10.220 That sounds like the Joker story arc.

03:21:12.860 Okay.

03:21:13.880 Hold on.

03:21:14.600 I want everyone to have a chance to answer this question.

03:21:17.000 Go ahead.

03:21:17.980 Have I been, like.

03:21:18.940 Have you had the ho-faces? 0.96

03:21:20.940 No ho-faces? 1.00

03:21:21.760 No.

03:21:22.100 Zero ho-faces? 0.99

03:21:22.880 Zero.

03:21:23.480 Partial ho-faces? 0.67

03:21:24.520 No.

03:21:25.680 Hold on.

03:21:27.400 So Cal Surfer 805 donated $200.

03:21:31.320 RIP's in the chat.

03:21:32.160 It is.

03:21:32.560 Mine is the new Jerry Springer.

03:21:34.100 Love it.

03:21:35.280 Also, question for the guys.

03:21:37.560 Would you sell your booty hole on camera to Gawlik the Destroyer for $100 million? 0.61

03:21:42.220 Also, need lie detectors for all guests. 1.00

03:21:46.520 So many people full of shit. 1.00

03:21:48.580 Also, bro, UCSB alum. 1.00

03:21:51.240 Let's go.

03:21:52.060 Let's go, SoCal Surfer 805.

03:21:53.960 Thank you for the big $200 soup donation.

03:21:56.720 No.

03:21:56.900 I appreciate it.

03:21:58.520 You win it.

03:21:58.960 Not 100 mil?

03:22:00.240 100 mil?

03:22:00.680 I'm good, bro.

03:22:01.460 Thanks.

03:22:02.120 That's a tough one.

03:22:03.080 Good for you.

03:22:03.600 I'm living the life.

03:22:04.560 What do you think, Brian?

03:22:05.100 I have more respect for myself than that.

03:22:08.900 No STDs, right?

03:22:10.060 Is the scenario like you?

03:22:11.080 Yeah, I guess it would be no STDs.

03:22:12.640 No STDs?

03:22:13.740 Brad.

03:22:15.620 100 mil? 1.00

03:22:17.360 Bro, I don't have to work another day in my fucking life. 1.00

03:22:19.240 It's not that, bro. 0.99

03:22:20.020 I'd be like, you could get legislation passed for $100 million.

03:22:23.580 Like, you would change the world with $100 million. 0.96

03:22:25.040 So you'd be gay for pay? 1.00

03:22:26.100 Hell no, man. 1.00

03:22:26.800 That's disgusting. 0.96

03:22:27.320 $20 is $20. 0.98

03:22:30.660 That's gross.

03:22:31.660 I would never do that.

03:22:32.960 That's gross.

03:22:33.880 You could change the world, though.

03:22:34.940 You could change the world, though.

03:22:36.060 You could change the world.

03:22:36.860 You could change the world.

03:22:39.120 So, okay, no hofes. 0.99

03:22:40.280 What about you?

03:22:40.760 Has there been a hofes?

03:22:41.660 Not really.

03:22:42.300 I guess a partial one.

03:22:43.580 Partial hofes?

03:22:44.380 What's a partial hofes?

03:22:45.580 I just consider that talking to, like, a bunch of guys.

03:22:48.000 When you say a bunch of guys, how many are we talking?

03:22:51.240 Not a lot.

03:22:51.940 Like, four.

03:22:53.600 Four?

03:22:54.160 Okay.

03:22:54.500 I don't know.

03:22:55.040 But, like, not, like, talking.

03:22:56.320 I don't know.

03:22:57.020 Like, sex?

03:22:58.180 No, no, no.

03:22:58.700 No, no, no.

03:22:59.440 Just, like, dating them.

03:23:00.880 Yeah, like, going out and just, I don't know.

03:23:02.660 It wasn't really a hofes.

03:23:03.500 I just got out of a breakup and I was just dating.

03:23:06.780 So, let me clarify it.

03:23:08.720 So, a hofes is what?

03:23:10.320 Are we sleeping with them?

03:23:11.960 I'll tell you.

03:23:12.700 I'll let her finish.

03:23:13.440 I'll clarify.

03:23:14.540 Go ahead.

03:23:15.460 First off, I just wanted to say.

03:23:16.400 Closer to the mic.

03:23:16.960 I think people should take more accountability.

03:23:20.140 But, me personally, I have not had a hofes, unless you count Discord, where I e-dated two 0.96

03:23:25.840 guys at once, which is honestly a fucking joke. 0.91

03:23:28.800 Double shifting. 0.99

03:23:29.960 But.

03:23:30.320 Haram!

03:23:32.020 Aspen.

03:23:33.440 No.

03:23:34.580 My long relationship that I was in, I was committed to him.

03:23:40.220 And so, I think that maybe if I wouldn't have had that, my story would be a little bit different.

03:23:47.080 But, no, I have not.

03:23:50.000 Kylie?

03:23:51.460 No, I've never had a hofes.

03:23:54.180 You're not in it right now.

03:23:56.640 Kind of related to the hofes.

03:23:57.860 No, let me, I, I, I, let me, let me stop, just to clarify your question.

03:24:01.880 I hate that we call it the hofes.

03:24:04.120 Again, I, it was my second book in the timeline I put in here, I called it the party years is

03:24:08.380 what I called it. 0.98

03:24:09.060 And it's, it's not because every girl turns into a raging slut, you know, during those 1.00

03:24:12.860 18 to 28 years old. 0.99

03:24:14.160 But that is when you are at the peak of your sexual marketability.

03:24:17.460 So, for you to consolidate on a guy who's going to be a good long-term prospect for you,

03:24:22.360 usually that happens right around 22, 23, 24 years old when you're at the peak of your

03:24:27.560 sexual market value and the peak agency for women. 0.99

03:24:30.800 So, that's why the epiphany phase, I, I peg that right around 29, 30, 31 years old.

03:24:35.680 It's not that women are going out and having, actually becoming actual hoes. 0.99

03:24:39.460 It's just that that is the span in a woman's life when she has the most potential to find

03:24:44.480 the guy.

03:24:45.300 So, it might be one or two guys, but you're doing more dating during that period of your

03:24:49.580 life than you will be for the rest of your life because of the marketability on the sexual

03:24:53.940 marketplace, not personal worth, but later on in life.

03:24:57.320 So, you've got a span of 10 years where you're advertising yourself, where you're out there,

03:25:01.980 where you're going to the clubs, you're having a good time, you're being just regular college

03:25:04.700 girls, right? 0.99

03:25:05.260 So, whether or not you're a raging slut or you're not is kind of immaterial. 0.99

03:25:09.600 That's why I hate calling it the ho phase. 0.99

03:25:11.000 I'd rather call it the party years because that's when women are, they're most active. 1.00

03:25:15.000 Then, then, let me clarify then.

03:25:16.660 No, I did not go through a ho phase. 0.97

03:25:19.440 I did go through a party phase.

03:25:20.660 It's because you're 18.

03:25:21.400 You're just coming into it.

03:25:22.060 Of course.

03:25:22.760 Men, but I do have like a certain of where I, like I, what I want.

03:25:27.780 I already have an idea of what I want.

03:25:29.400 And if that person fits that idea of what I want, then I can go forward and process that

03:25:34.340 relationship.

03:25:35.340 That's why I say there's a process before, you know, marriage.

03:25:38.140 You're in a better position at 18 to 28.

03:25:40.200 And that's why I do agree with you that everyone does go through a little party phase.

03:25:46.940 Is there musical chairs over here?

03:25:48.720 Oh, okay.

03:25:50.300 Cool, cool, cool.

03:25:51.560 Here, while she does that, we have a chat here.

03:25:54.920 We have Stagner with the 100.

03:25:56.700 Thank you, man.

03:25:57.040 I really appreciate why when a woman doesn't have a man, she often has to take on the masculine 0.96

03:26:01.300 role, but when a man doesn't have a woman, he doesn't necessarily have to take on a feminine

03:26:06.180 role.

03:26:06.800 Does this prove that masculinity is more essential to survival than femininity?

03:26:13.140 I don't know how to enter that one.

03:26:14.400 Maybe I'm looking to roll along this one.

03:26:16.360 Oh, do you want to come in?

03:26:17.480 Go ahead.

03:26:18.980 I was just going to say that that's exactly why the nuclear home, the importance of gender 1.00

03:26:23.560 roles is so important.

03:26:24.860 Because women have to take on this masculine role because there needs to be a masculine 1.00

03:26:29.660 role, but they shouldn't.

03:26:31.840 They need to take on a feminine role because that's why most of the time, like, single mother 1.00

03:26:35.240 homes don't work out.

03:26:36.680 You have sons that are criminals.

03:26:38.280 You have high divorce rates with women that tend to be more, like, the breadwinners, more 1.00

03:26:42.600 headstrong.

03:26:43.880 So I think a lot of, like, that question specifically is stressing the importance that they are separate

03:26:48.980 and that they are divided super, like, strictly, I guess you could say.

03:26:56.000 Mike, do you have a quick thing on this?

03:26:57.220 Yeah.

03:26:57.520 So we're talking about proximate and ultimate cause when you ever hear a woman say, I don't 1.00

03:27:01.060 need no man. 0.60

03:27:01.740 Yes.

03:27:02.760 Me and Rollo and Justin need men, too.

03:27:04.480 We need men to build roads.

03:27:05.640 We need men to, you know, put up electrical wires.

03:27:08.500 We need men to build an infrastructure.

03:27:10.240 We need men to run an economy so that we can buy and sell goods. 0.99

03:27:14.440 We need men for all kinds of these things.

03:27:16.780 Approximate cause?

03:27:17.420 No, you're a woman who makes $300,000 a year and you have a Mossberg by the door. 1.00

03:27:21.280 You don't necessarily, quote, unquote, need a man.

03:27:23.360 Ultimately, we all do because masculine traits aren't necessary for survival.

03:27:28.520 They literally are survival.

03:27:30.180 That's what masculine traits are.

03:27:31.860 They are there for the survival of the tribe.

03:27:33.560 Feminine traits are the survival of the child. 0.99

03:27:36.460 And when she has a child, the child is going to become, is going to come before the husband. 0.70

03:27:43.820 What's it called?

03:27:44.440 The unconditional love that women have is reserved for a child. 1.00

03:27:47.860 And by the way, thank you for that.

03:27:49.220 Women should be like that. 1.00

03:27:50.660 It's a feature, not a bug.

03:27:51.560 It's a feature, not a bug.

03:27:52.560 And we as men, those of us who understand this concept of evolutionary psychology, we're

03:27:56.640 grateful for the fact that our wife would throw us in front of the train in order to

03:28:00.380 save the child.

03:28:01.000 That's the point.

03:28:01.780 That's how our genetics get passed on.

03:28:03.780 But survival in general, when he, the question was, is masculinity more important for survival?

03:28:08.340 Absolutely.

03:28:08.860 That is the definition.

03:28:10.100 That is where masculinity comes from. 1.00

03:28:12.040 Those men who stormed Normandy back in World War II did so for the survival of their tribe,

03:28:18.160 putting their own survival to the side for the love of their country and specifically the

03:28:22.560 love of their family.

03:28:23.640 That is what masculine, that's what masculine traits are.

03:28:26.860 It is for the survival of the tribe.

03:28:28.440 Whereas feminine traits, they're also, they also aid in survival. 1.00

03:28:31.200 Everything we do aids in survival.

03:28:32.220 But it's more the survival of the offspring specifically.

03:28:35.540 We have a donation request here from someone who wants the girls on the panel to rate him

03:28:41.080 on a scale of one to 10.

03:28:42.860 Eric, I believe I pulled up a guy's Instagram profile.

03:28:49.180 Not Zach's.

03:28:50.500 It's just like, can you?

03:28:51.840 Yeah, Josh.

03:28:52.580 Josh, yeah.

03:28:53.940 All right.

03:28:54.380 So we're going to review Josh's Instagram profile and you girls are going to give him 0.98

03:28:57.860 a little rating.

03:28:58.560 Okay, let's see.

03:29:01.820 Scroll down.

03:29:04.160 Okay.

03:29:05.280 So keep scrolling.

03:29:06.940 Let's check out all his photos.

03:29:09.420 Scroll down.

03:29:11.100 Okay.

03:29:11.500 There's not, there's a lot of not photos of him.

03:29:15.940 Scroll up.

03:29:17.120 All right.

03:29:17.500 He's got a cat.

03:29:19.120 Oh, there, there.

03:29:19.940 That's him with a female friend maybe.

03:29:22.340 He likes art.

03:29:23.640 All right.

03:29:24.380 Scroll down.

03:29:25.380 We'll scroll down even more.

03:29:26.520 Let's see what else he's got.

03:29:27.320 Don't hate his composition, but he's doing this wrong.

03:29:29.740 Let's see.

03:29:30.580 Keep going.

03:29:30.700 His photo composition is actually good.

03:29:32.100 His color correction is good.

03:29:32.960 Should we upload his Instagram?

03:29:33.640 Yeah.

03:29:33.900 I mean, yeah, dude.

03:29:34.860 Listen, MOAMentoring.com, bro.

03:29:37.000 Like, this, all we do is fix Instagram.

03:29:38.640 That's him with a parrot or something or some sort of avian animal.

03:29:42.660 Wait, there's a shot of him in the kayak.

03:29:44.520 There you go.

03:29:45.380 There you go.

03:29:45.480 He's got a little chest tattoo.

03:29:48.080 Okay.

03:29:48.560 Scroll down a little more.

03:29:49.620 Maybe that's him and his mom.

03:29:52.660 Okay.

03:29:53.020 That's him with, I don't know who that is.

03:29:56.400 Okay.

03:29:56.800 All right.

03:29:57.040 You get an idea.

03:29:58.500 Ladies, just your rating of him on the scale of one to ten.

03:30:02.200 Scroll all the way back up to the top really quick.

03:30:04.620 Scroll down a little bit.

03:30:06.420 Which one?

03:30:06.920 What is the pink tree right there? 0.74

03:30:08.280 The pink tree?

03:30:09.140 What?

03:30:09.540 Right there.

03:30:10.060 There's pink trees.

03:30:10.380 Bro, just rate him.

03:30:11.000 Just rate him.

03:30:12.000 I don't know.

03:30:12.480 I can't.

03:30:12.820 I didn't see him.

03:30:13.560 Because it was a senior.

03:30:15.000 I don't know how you rate like a guy's Instagram because you're not, you don't really see

03:30:18.040 Maybe his physical appearance.

03:30:19.340 His appearance.

03:30:20.220 His appearance.

03:30:20.900 Avery.

03:30:21.180 What was he at?

03:30:21.900 Was he the cat or the tree?

03:30:23.920 Maybe he was the buffalo in one of the buffalo pictures.

03:30:27.240 He's in a couple of the pictures.

03:30:28.880 Okay.

03:30:29.340 Go ahead, Avery.

03:30:30.380 I think he's cute, honestly.

03:30:31.720 I would say 7.5.

03:30:33.680 I don't even remember what he looks like.

03:30:34.940 Can you pull it back up?

03:30:35.980 There you go.

03:30:36.980 There you go.

03:30:38.220 Which one is he?

03:30:39.040 Is he a waiter?

03:30:40.540 Do you see?

03:30:41.060 Okay.

03:30:41.360 Or is he LDS right there?

03:30:42.820 He's the guy with the blonde. 0.92

03:30:44.100 I don't know.

03:30:49.440 All right.

03:30:49.940 He's a drone enthusiast.

03:30:51.140 If you had a sign.

03:30:53.060 10.

03:30:54.160 Oh, my God.

03:30:54.960 Go ahead.

03:30:55.340 6.5.

03:30:57.240 Like a 3.

03:30:58.560 3.

03:30:59.120 Okay.

03:31:00.020 A 4.

03:31:01.800 The very fact that women can't even remember your face like that after that quick. 0.98

03:31:05.740 That's your answer.

03:31:06.660 That is your answer right there.

03:31:08.220 That's your rating. 0.96

03:31:09.800 Forgettable.

03:31:10.700 Go ahead. 1.00

03:31:11.300 Damn. 0.99

03:31:11.580 Um, well, he seems like a bit of an NPC. 0.99

03:31:14.840 Like, he got that kind of fluoride stare to him.

03:31:17.020 But I'd say...

03:31:17.400 Fluoride stare.

03:31:18.400 I'm stealing that.

03:31:19.460 I am stealing that.

03:31:19.800 NPC and fluoride in the same sentence, bro.

03:31:21.540 I'd say he's a 7.

03:31:22.620 Bro, they're black helicopters circling us right now.

03:31:24.780 Are you kidding me?

03:31:25.360 I'm not a glowy, I promise.

03:31:27.300 What's a glowy?

03:31:27.920 I would probably...

03:31:29.080 I'll tell you.

03:31:29.900 Okay.

03:31:30.100 Give him a 7.

03:31:32.840 7?

03:31:33.560 Really?

03:31:33.820 Maybe 6.

03:31:34.400 You're going by looks, right?

03:31:35.680 Yeah.

03:31:35.920 Just looks.

03:31:36.680 A 3.

03:31:37.780 He looks, like, really short.

03:31:39.340 And, like, he can probably barely pick up, like, a 20-pound dumbbell.

03:31:42.940 So, I don't know.

03:31:43.440 All right.

03:31:43.720 Now, tell us he's the highest-earning, like, banker in Kentucky.

03:31:48.880 That still doesn't make him more attractive.

03:31:50.760 Because, isn't that, like, the shtick?

03:31:52.820 It's like, here's the punchline.

03:31:54.220 R.I.P.'s in the chat for...

03:31:55.280 What's his name?

03:31:55.780 Joshua?

03:31:56.880 Joshua.

03:31:57.500 Joshua.

03:31:57.980 R.I.P.'s in the chat for Joshua.

03:31:59.860 I thought he was the Buffalo Yellowstone. 0.91

03:32:01.700 Did you have something quick?

03:32:02.800 You were raising your hand.

03:32:03.980 Is it related to this?

03:32:04.980 I was going to say it was part of the sceneries and everything that he was, like, all the

03:32:08.340 places that he went to, he probably has enough money to go to that.

03:32:11.640 He's invisible.

03:32:12.820 Huh?

03:32:13.200 He's invisible.

03:32:13.880 Joshua.

03:32:14.300 Joshua, hit me up.

03:32:15.400 Hit me up.

03:32:15.940 I'll send you to the free school server.

03:32:17.420 We'll fix your Instagram.

03:32:17.940 Let's fix that Instagram, buddy.

03:32:19.480 Let's fix that.

03:32:20.160 Joshua, literally, hit me up on IG, bro.

03:32:21.480 We'll fix your Instagram.

03:32:22.240 That's all we do.

03:32:23.140 I'll give you 30 examples of perfect Instagram.

03:32:25.280 I'll go to Justin's Instagram and see what it is.

03:32:26.780 Uh-oh.

03:32:27.400 Yeah, check out...

03:32:28.100 Actually, you know what?

03:32:29.400 Let's look at Justin's Instagram.

03:32:32.280 Does that count?

03:32:32.900 Let's look at Justin.

03:32:33.920 Can we...

03:32:34.360 Let's pull up Justin's Instagram.

03:32:35.340 We also have Instagrams count.

03:32:35.940 You know, like, a little comparison.

03:32:37.280 Eric?

03:32:37.920 What's your Instagram?

03:32:39.920 Justin Wynn Waller 7.

03:32:42.900 Justin Wynn Waller 7.

03:32:45.020 This is my name.

03:32:46.900 Also, Jay Waller on YouTube.

03:32:49.840 Do you have a Twitch?

03:32:51.380 I don't.

03:32:53.000 It's in the works.

03:32:54.760 It's coming.

03:32:55.700 I got everyone out.

03:32:56.600 Pull it up.

03:32:58.300 All right.

03:32:58.840 There you go.

03:32:59.260 209,000 followers.

03:33:02.160 Oh, who's...

03:33:03.120 Oh, look at...

03:33:03.840 He's with Andrew Tate.

03:33:05.020 Okay.

03:33:05.820 Is that some KFC on the private chat?

03:33:07.860 Yeah, it is.

03:33:09.520 Imagine...

03:33:10.080 Okay, nice.

03:33:12.380 All right.

03:33:12.780 Giga chat.

03:33:14.100 Oh, my...

03:33:14.940 Whoa, whoa.

03:33:15.540 All right.

03:33:16.460 Fit.

03:33:17.880 Great Britain.

03:33:19.280 Exotic locations.

03:33:20.280 Jet ski.

03:33:20.840 Jet ski.

03:33:21.320 Oh, look at that.

03:33:21.880 Who's that guy?

03:33:22.840 That's Robert Kiyosaki.

03:33:25.540 Who's the...

03:33:26.500 What?

03:33:27.560 Okay.

03:33:28.040 I feel like if you went to Japan or any Asian country, they'd be all over you. 1.00

03:33:31.880 I think they're all over him.

03:33:32.480 Try any country.

03:33:34.680 It's just like...

03:33:35.940 There's a lot of guys on that show.

03:33:38.320 All right.

03:33:39.700 Okay.

03:33:41.100 That's Justin.

03:33:41.940 Oh, there's Tristan Tate.

03:33:43.780 And then there's the sartorial shooter, Andrew.

03:33:47.500 Tristan.

03:33:47.720 Who's the one on the...

03:33:48.520 Is that Sterling that's kind of...

03:33:51.160 Yeah, okay.

03:33:52.240 He's kind of cut off in the preview or whatever.

03:33:54.960 Is that in Dubai?

03:33:56.500 Yeah, it is in Dubai.

03:33:57.820 Are you...

03:33:58.500 You're in Florida now, but do you have any plans to move to Dubai?

03:34:01.860 Or are you like...

03:34:02.440 We're having a house for right now.

03:34:04.840 You in Sterling or...

03:34:06.240 No, no.

03:34:06.740 It's just mine.

03:34:07.380 Sterling doesn't live with me.

03:34:08.180 He lives in Spain, so I bought a big house in Dubai.

03:34:11.060 They're developing it now.

03:34:12.080 Weren't you and Sterling like housemates at some point?

03:34:14.600 Yes.

03:34:14.760 Not anymore, though?

03:34:16.280 Technically.

03:34:16.600 Yeah, he's in Spain now.

03:34:17.480 Oh, he's in...

03:34:18.080 Why did he move to Spain?

03:34:19.320 It's a better place, man.

03:34:20.240 Morbeth is incredible.

03:34:21.080 I just love this incredible.

03:34:22.140 Spain's...

03:34:22.420 I heard Spain... 1.00

03:34:23.180 Like, when it comes to laws and shit and feminism, I heard Spain's like a big L. 1.00

03:34:26.520 I was just there for a week, man. 0.99

03:34:27.620 Madrid.

03:34:27.980 Go to Madrid.

03:34:28.660 You go to Madrid.

03:34:29.460 That's where...

03:34:30.340 Spain's with...

03:34:31.580 How to Beast is there.

03:34:32.520 Yeah, I just did How to Beast.

03:34:34.340 It's Morbeth.

03:34:34.840 Yeah, I just did How to Beast, but I am building an 11,000 square foot house in Dubai.

03:34:39.500 Oh, hell yeah.

03:34:40.020 Bad boy.

03:34:40.200 I'm excited.

03:34:40.880 Tate tricked me into doing it, and so now we're neighbors.

03:34:43.200 It's a joke.

03:34:43.700 Are you going to revoke your American citizenship?

03:34:46.160 No, man.

03:34:46.560 I'm very patriotic.

03:34:47.800 Okay. 1.00

03:34:48.280 America's a motherfucking goat. 1.00

03:34:49.520 Anybody that's got a problem with that can suck my dick. 1.00

03:34:51.940 Suck it. 1.00

03:34:52.640 Thanks. 1.00

03:34:53.360 Scoreboard.

03:34:54.360 You know, anybody that doesn't like America can look at the scoreboard.

03:34:56.760 Do I like things that America does?

03:34:58.120 No.

03:34:58.560 Do I feel like America's a bill of bully?

03:35:00.020 Yes.

03:35:00.520 Is it the best country to ever exist?

03:35:02.020 Yes, it is.

03:35:03.000 And it's up to Americans to come together and stop letting this country rot from within. 1.00

03:35:07.160 Anybody that doesn't want to be an American, get the fuck out. 1.00

03:35:10.120 Amen. 1.00

03:35:10.980 True.

03:35:11.340 All right.

03:35:14.040 Jesus Christ. 1.00

03:35:14.880 Everybody dropping their shit every fucking 30 minutes. 1.00

03:35:16.440 Just put that anywhere. 1.00

03:35:17.820 Goddamn. 0.99

03:35:19.020 Okay. 0.99

03:35:20.420 Butterfingers over here.

03:35:21.200 Okay.

03:35:21.460 So we have two girls on the panel who are virgins, allegedly.

03:35:25.340 Uh-oh.

03:35:25.620 That's me.

03:35:26.300 Yep.

03:35:27.700 So I just want a point of clarification.

03:35:30.320 You're not waiting for marriage.

03:35:31.740 Is that correct?

03:35:33.260 I don't have an end date in mind.

03:35:34.740 It could be.

03:35:35.200 You said you just want to be in love, if I recall.

03:35:36.980 Like you want to meet a worthy guy, but you don't need to be married.

03:35:40.300 Is that correct?

03:35:41.820 Um, yeah.

03:35:43.440 It could possibly be married, though.

03:35:46.360 You're on the fence about it?

03:35:48.680 It depends what the relationship would look like, I guess.

03:35:50.900 Yeah.

03:35:51.080 What do you mean?

03:35:51.720 Well, how would it need to look like for you to not want to wait until marriage?

03:35:56.680 I guess we could still be in love, but he could still be looking for something.

03:36:01.240 You know what I mean?

03:36:02.040 Not till, not super long term, right?

03:36:04.660 So even if I'm in love with them, I would still need to be like a sustainable thing.

03:36:08.160 Like you could be in love with someone without the stable relationship.

03:36:11.520 Like if he has attachment issues or something.

03:36:13.700 So marriage kind of, uh, resolves those concerns because they've committed to you.

03:36:18.040 So you do want to get married before having sex?

03:36:21.220 Um, I'd like commitment and that could take the form of marriage or just me trusting them

03:36:25.840 a lot.

03:36:26.140 Are you religious at all or no?

03:36:27.560 Mm-mm.

03:36:28.020 No.

03:36:28.420 Okay.

03:36:28.880 But you're worried about getting put in a hajib? 0.99

03:36:31.300 I was under the impression you were Muslim.

03:36:34.060 My parents are Muslim, yeah.

03:36:35.320 Oh.

03:36:35.940 Okay.

03:36:36.840 And you're a virgin.

03:36:39.320 Are you waiting until marriage?

03:36:40.280 Is there a religious component to this?

03:36:41.860 There's religious components.

03:36:42.660 I grew up in a very...

03:36:43.240 Into the mic, please.

03:36:43.720 Oh, okay.

03:36:44.280 There's religious components.

03:36:45.300 I grew up in a very uptight Christian household and I didn't really have a problem with it

03:36:49.980 because, you know, my parents were setting foundations for me, moral foundations for me to follow

03:36:54.500 after.

03:36:55.760 Um, honestly, if I'm being real, maybe it's just the fact that I'm in California because

03:37:00.760 most of the guys in California are just, I don't know.

03:37:04.980 Just what?

03:37:06.140 Just, I don't want to say, I don't want to, I don't really like liberal men.

03:37:10.680 I just don't.

03:37:11.840 Okay.

03:37:12.320 I just don't.

03:37:13.120 Maybe that plays a fact into it, but I just want to do it with someone that I love, you

03:37:17.580 know?

03:37:17.740 I don't want to have someone that I can feel love for, someone who loves me, someone

03:37:21.440 who I want to spend the rest of my life with maybe, but I don't want to just throw away

03:37:25.720 my virginity, you know? 0.99

03:37:27.040 Just some guy who doesn't give a fuck about me. 0.99

03:37:29.400 But so not waiting until marriage necessarily. 0.98

03:37:32.160 I wouldn't say that.

03:37:32.900 I'd say a part of me, the part of me that grew up in a really, really tightly Christian

03:37:36.860 household wants to wait till marriage, but I'm not sure if those are ideas that are

03:37:41.040 my own or that are just religious guilt.

03:37:47.740 I guess.

03:37:48.560 I think that you will drastically protect your future relationship if you wait for

03:37:53.680 marriage.

03:37:57.340 Can he, can he be a member of House Ravenclaw?

03:38:00.240 Is that okay?

03:38:01.300 I'm a Slytherin.

03:38:02.120 This is Patrick Bateman.

03:38:03.220 There it is.

03:38:04.380 I'm sorry.

03:38:05.080 Patrick Bateman.

03:38:05.380 I'm sorry.

03:38:05.900 I crossed universes.

03:38:06.880 Daily Wire will clip that out of this whole show right there.

03:38:10.060 It's a Patrick Bateman cosplay.

03:38:14.000 I mean, I brought the raincoat, but I couldn't wear it.

03:38:16.920 Yeah.

03:38:17.320 Good times.

03:38:18.200 Okay.

03:38:19.480 So sort of waiting till marriage, but not?

03:38:22.420 You know what?

03:38:23.100 I don't know.

03:38:24.080 I just wouldn't throw it away so easily.

03:38:26.200 You know, I'd have to really, really, really know a guy before I ever considered letting

03:38:30.020 him, you know.

03:38:31.620 Letting him what?

03:38:32.680 Well, I don't really want to say it.

03:38:33.960 Hit it.

03:38:34.940 Put the P in the back. 1.00

03:38:36.140 You're going to say some troll shit like you were saying before. 0.99

03:38:38.760 Okay. 1.00

03:38:39.120 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

03:38:39.600 I get kind of shy when it comes to this topic, you know. 1.00

03:38:42.420 Oh, now you're shy, but like all the other fucking shit you're saying. 1.00

03:38:44.860 You don't want to fuck fat bitches, but now. 1.00

03:38:48.220 I don't want to fuck fat bitches. 1.00

03:38:49.100 I don't think anyone wants to fuck fat bitches. 1.00

03:38:51.320 You don't want to fuck a fat bitch? 1.00

03:38:52.580 I wouldn't fuck a fat bitch, no. 1.00

03:38:54.560 What about, when you say bitch, is that like a woman or like it could also be a fat dude? 1.00

03:38:58.900 You know what? 1.00

03:38:59.460 I don't know. 1.00

03:39:00.100 I mean, I've seen some cute chubby boys, but just fat bitches, they're loud. 1.00

03:39:03.880 That's what I don't like about them. 1.00

03:39:05.100 They're loud. 1.00

03:39:05.380 What about a quiet fat bitch? 1.00

03:39:06.720 When you fuck a quiet fat bitch? 1.00

03:39:07.360 Like if there's a quiet, shy little fat bitch, you know. 1.00

03:39:10.560 All right. 1.00

03:39:10.960 Okay.

03:39:11.440 Yeah.

03:39:11.640 Okay. 1.00

03:39:11.940 I don't really want to get into the schematics of fat bitches. 1.00

03:39:14.980 Okay. 0.99

03:39:15.200 Have you ever dated a guy?

03:39:16.220 Have you?

03:39:16.580 I'm trying to recall.

03:39:17.240 Have you had a relationship?

03:39:18.280 I've only dated guys.

03:39:19.180 No, no, no.

03:39:19.640 But I'm just, I forgot what you said back when I originally asked.

03:39:24.260 Have you had a relationship?

03:39:25.820 Yeah, I've had a relationship.

03:39:26.900 What was your longest relationship again?

03:39:28.300 Two years.

03:39:29.000 Two years.

03:39:29.740 Okay.

03:39:30.740 And, but I mean, you said you're what?

03:39:34.380 19?

03:39:35.100 I'm 20.

03:39:35.820 Oh, you're 20.

03:39:36.680 Okay.

03:39:37.000 Was that like a high school relationship or something?

03:39:38.800 A high school relationship, yeah.

03:39:39.740 Okay.

03:39:40.140 Yeah.

03:39:40.340 I mean, that's kind of.

03:39:41.800 Yeah.

03:39:42.200 I mean, I've had relationships after that, sure.

03:39:44.360 But I don't know.

03:39:46.900 Okay.

03:39:47.440 All right.

03:39:48.100 We're going to get a couple soup chats here.

03:39:49.920 And then we, let's see.

03:39:52.160 Actually, let me just do the soup chats now.

03:39:55.540 Eric, can you, I forgot where we were.

03:39:59.180 Oh, wait.

03:39:59.460 Did we do, wait.

03:40:02.280 We did that one.

03:40:03.200 Did we do this one?

03:40:03.880 Yeah.

03:40:04.280 Sorry.

03:40:04.680 We're done.

03:40:06.920 Shout out to all my robots.

03:40:07.580 Did we do this one?

03:40:09.260 BB Demon 69.

03:40:10.680 Thank you for the 100.

03:40:11.420 Avery, can you read this?

03:40:12.800 With empathy and short supply, I'd care for my family and opt for a non-OnlyFans partner. 0.88

03:40:17.520 Honor individual principles.

03:40:19.280 Yo, Demon 69.

03:40:20.380 Thank you for the $100 soup chat.

03:40:21.460 Really appreciate it, man.

03:40:22.620 All right.

03:40:22.860 We have a, I care for an opt for a non-OnlyFans partner.

03:40:28.380 Venom Rx.

03:40:29.200 Thank you for the 100.

03:40:29.780 Avery, go for it. 0.84

03:40:30.620 Actually, no, you shouldn't read this one.

03:40:33.140 There's two girls with glasses here. 1.00

03:40:35.080 I know.

03:40:35.640 That's true.

03:40:36.240 Girl with glasses is trying too hard. 1.00

03:40:37.540 Girls like that don't need egos raised in more power. 1.00

03:40:39.680 Not that smart, by the way.

03:40:40.700 I blame men.

03:40:41.420 Following, liking, paying, OnlyFans of random women created this mess. 1.00

03:40:44.260 Imagine if guys didn't do that. 0.99

03:40:45.400 The dating market wouldn't be that fucked up. 0.99

03:40:49.880 Am I supposed to be triggered? 0.99

03:40:50.980 I don't know.

03:40:51.560 You're not supposed to be triggered.

03:40:52.800 Are you?

03:40:53.700 She's just thinking about the $400,000 she made this year and how triggered she is.

03:40:57.880 She's trying her tears with all her money. 0.98

03:41:00.540 What's that mean?

03:41:01.260 He's right, though.

03:41:02.040 He is right.

03:41:02.680 He's like wiping his tears with money.

03:41:04.800 All right.

03:41:05.260 We have Apostle Victor with the $105 donation.

03:41:09.880 Thank you, man.

03:41:10.820 Have my money, you guilty pleasure of mine, Brian.

03:41:13.700 I also have a Slytherin t-shirt right now on me, so that's a nice coincidence.

03:41:17.960 Much love.

03:41:18.960 Hey, Victor.

03:41:19.740 Virginity lost.

03:41:20.540 Let's do it.

03:41:21.220 Thank you, Victor.

03:41:21.760 Appreciate it, man.

03:41:22.740 Really appreciate all the support tonight, guys.

03:41:24.260 You guys are blowing me away.

03:41:25.360 Thank you guys so much.

03:41:27.000 So, okay.

03:41:28.100 Really quick to show of hands.

03:41:30.100 Should body count matter?

03:41:34.860 Definitely.

03:41:35.800 Yeah.

03:41:36.180 Oh.

03:41:37.320 Avery?

03:41:37.680 Wait, for a guy or for a girl?

03:41:39.160 For what?

03:41:39.460 Which gender? 0.61

03:41:40.620 For women.

03:41:41.340 Let's say, does it matter for women? 1.00

03:41:43.380 Yeah.

03:41:43.800 Yeah, I agree that it should matter.

03:41:46.140 100%.

03:41:46.580 For women or two women?

03:41:48.060 I'm saying, wait.

03:41:49.120 Can we be?

03:41:49.920 Like, should women care about a man's body count? 1.00

03:41:53.020 Is that what you're asking?

03:41:53.540 We asked that question on it.

03:41:54.640 No, other way around.

03:41:55.600 Or should a man care about a woman's body count? 0.57

03:41:58.240 Perhaps I can rephrase the question.

03:42:00.480 Do you object to men caring about women's body count?

03:42:04.920 Yes.

03:42:06.320 Wait, sorry.

03:42:06.760 Say it one more time.

03:42:07.200 Do you object to men, generally speaking, or do you object to men caring about women's

03:42:11.840 body count?

03:42:12.620 Oh, I feel like I've already pontificated about it.

03:42:15.500 Pontificate more, please.

03:42:16.740 Again, like I said, if it makes sense, if it's the zero to zero ratio for pair bonding.

03:42:21.940 Oh, so you do take an issue with a double standard.

03:42:24.640 Are we going to keep circling back?

03:42:26.420 Well, I think we should let other people talk.

03:42:29.060 Okay, go ahead.

03:42:30.480 Yeah, he should.

03:42:31.680 If he's going to provide for me, and if he's, you know, further down the line, he promises

03:42:35.480 me a certain amount of stuff, and this and that, yes.

03:42:38.420 He should.

03:42:39.060 It should matter how much my body count is.

03:42:41.880 It should matter to him.

03:42:43.060 Of course.

03:42:44.580 I feel like it should.

03:42:45.580 I feel like it should.

03:42:46.960 So, just to clarify, the question is, do you object to men caring about women's body

03:42:50.400 count?

03:42:51.280 No.

03:42:51.380 I don't.

03:42:51.700 I don't.

03:42:52.200 No.

03:42:52.560 No.

03:42:53.140 Nope. 1.00

03:42:53.440 I mean, if a guy thinks a woman is a whore, she's a whore. 1.00

03:42:58.060 That's his. 1.00

03:43:00.100 That's probably too far, but yeah, yeah.

03:43:02.240 You know what?

03:43:02.580 The three of us are going to stand up for women's rights here.

03:43:04.420 I think you're being a little bit too draconian and misogynistic towards women, and I'd really

03:43:08.800 like you to stop using that language.

03:43:11.000 Naughty. 1.00

03:43:11.600 If a guy thinks a woman is a whore, he thinks he's a whore. 1.00

03:43:14.340 And from that, right. 1.00

03:43:15.560 That's right.

03:43:16.220 That is whether or not she is.

03:43:17.740 And by the way, this is, I'm not agreeing with this, but this is the argument.

03:43:20.360 I know a lot of big models who finally broke down and got an OnlyFans, and the reason 1.00

03:43:24.200 why they said they got an OnlyFans is like, they said, they're going to call me a whore 0.93

03:43:27.480 anyway. 0.99

03:43:28.220 They already think I'm a whore. 0.99

03:43:29.280 They already think I sleep my way through whatever. 0.99

03:43:31.260 And so, in part, it's men's judgmental nature that causes women to behave like this. 0.62

03:43:35.980 I don't think it's an excuse.

03:43:37.100 I think you could still not have an OnlyFans.

03:43:38.100 I was wrong.

03:43:38.700 That's going to be the clip that Barry Wire picks up.

03:43:41.800 That's right.

03:43:42.940 Yeah, but just so we're clear, a lot of women will say that. 1.00

03:43:45.940 They'll be like, well, I'm going to be called this name anyway.

03:43:47.720 But the difference is, internally, are you that way?

03:43:50.760 And I think internally, you know whether or not, you guys said before, you've had a

03:43:55.940 hoe phase.

03:43:56.560 When you had your hoe phase, did you feel good after it? 1.00

03:43:58.940 No.

03:43:59.320 Okay, so that's, I guess maybe that's what my point is.

03:44:02.020 Internally, you know what you did, regardless of what other people think.

03:44:06.840 More?

03:44:08.000 Really quick, kind of related to this.

03:44:09.680 So, most of you said, actually, body count does matter.

03:44:13.760 We often hear on the show that body count shouldn't matter.

03:44:19.460 What's your body count?

03:44:21.320 Well, I'm going to be shamed for this.

03:44:23.840 So, I'm just going to pre-defend myself and say that I was, this was when I was between

03:44:30.740 the ages of 18 to 22.

03:44:32.100 I don't do this anymore, but I really thought that if I slept with men.

03:44:36.900 You were young and impressionable. 0.95

03:44:38.580 I thought that they would love me if I gave them the pee.

03:44:42.060 So, it didn't work out that way.

03:44:44.880 Anyways, so, it's 45.

03:44:49.340 Zero?

03:44:50.020 I lose.

03:44:50.700 I think look back on that and now make the change.

03:44:54.140 Like, don't let that be you anymore.

03:44:56.200 And that's what I have done, but then, I guess that's why I said, like, I don't think body

03:45:01.900 count should matter because it sucks that I would be judged for that when I'm, I am

03:45:05.880 a very loyal person, you know, and I don't want to sleep around because it felt awful.

03:45:10.800 Yeah, so make the changes.

03:45:12.480 So, that's, yeah.

03:45:13.040 Body count?

03:45:14.700 Say, do you?

03:45:15.260 Huh?

03:45:15.660 What's your notch count?

03:45:16.560 What's your, what's your body count?

03:45:18.060 I'm not going to say.

03:45:18.660 Huh?

03:45:19.360 I'm not going to say.

03:45:19.920 Oh.

03:45:20.660 I'm not going to say.

03:45:21.280 That's fine.

03:45:21.600 Because one of the things is that, sure, a number is based, but if a girl is so easy 0.66

03:45:27.280 to say her body count, then it's either doubled or probably a little bit less, but that's just

03:45:34.180 me.

03:45:34.720 That's those red pill guys again, just doubling up everything, right?

03:45:38.240 Right.

03:45:39.200 I'd rather not answer.

03:45:40.700 All right.

03:45:41.640 My mom's watching, but.

03:45:44.560 My mom.

03:45:45.740 Not now.

03:45:46.300 It's below five.

03:45:47.320 Below five.

03:45:47.840 Okay, below five.

03:45:49.600 Allegedly zero.

03:45:50.460 It's zero.

03:45:51.300 It's zero.

03:45:51.480 Allegedly.

03:45:52.400 Allegedly.

03:45:53.080 Oh, man.

03:45:54.520 Into the mic.

03:45:55.880 Your mom is watching?

03:45:56.940 My mom, my dad, and like half my church is watching.

03:46:00.120 Half the church?

03:46:01.100 Yeah.

03:46:01.400 Oh, wow.

03:46:01.980 They forgive you.

03:46:03.040 And also, you know, I've already shared a lot about my past, and I agree with what that

03:46:08.080 other girl said when she was on, like, out of respect for my future husband, I feel like

03:46:12.560 that's something that should be kept private.

03:46:14.340 Fair enough.

03:46:15.600 Okay.

03:46:16.420 Do you think that girls with tattoos are more promiscuous than girls with now tattoos? 0.92

03:46:20.100 I mean, I don't know.

03:46:24.220 I have a tattoo.

03:46:25.420 I'm not that promiscuous.

03:46:26.940 You have a tattoo?

03:46:28.160 Do you think so? 1.00

03:46:29.420 Well, according to the red pill, I'm a slut, so, yeah. 1.00

03:46:31.920 You're a slut. 1.00

03:46:32.640 Is that a fraternity tattoo? 1.00

03:46:34.600 Can I see it again?

03:46:35.220 No, that's my family.

03:46:36.540 Oh, okay.

03:46:36.980 Sorry.

03:46:37.220 I didn't get a good look at it.

03:46:39.380 Fraternity.

03:46:39.620 I don't know.

03:46:40.080 I just took a little quick glance.

03:46:41.500 Do I look like a guy that's in the rockstar 20s, you know?

03:46:46.600 Justin Waller, how fast?

03:46:47.780 What?

03:46:48.920 What's your notch count, dude?

03:46:50.480 I truly don't know.

03:46:51.320 He forgot.

03:46:52.020 He's a man of God.

03:46:52.520 He forgot after all.

03:46:54.540 Pray every night.

03:46:55.960 Well, that's actually a good question, Rollo, when it comes to tattoos.

03:47:00.780 Do you have a tattoo?

03:47:01.720 I don't have any tattoos. 0.98

03:47:03.500 You're not a slut. 1.00

03:47:04.220 Yeah. 0.99

03:47:05.180 Fortunate.

03:47:05.700 You don't have any?

03:47:06.600 Zero tattoos, besides the tramp stamp.

03:47:08.520 I have none.

03:47:09.120 You see that comment right there?

03:47:10.580 Tattoos on women are linked to abuse when young.

03:47:13.260 This is a red flag.

03:47:14.520 I disagree.

03:47:15.300 You disagree? 0.99

03:47:15.640 Yeah, I call bullshit on that, too. 0.99

03:47:16.880 Like, I don't super judge a girl with tattoos. 0.95

03:47:18.540 I think it depends on where they are and what they are.

03:47:21.480 I'm really curious on how you think on that, before I answer.

03:47:24.000 I love chicks with tattoos. 1.00

03:47:26.000 I don't really care that much.

03:47:29.580 I think that people have really bad tattoos, and those ones are bad.

03:47:34.400 Yes, don't get Bart Simpson on the side of your thigh.

03:47:37.120 That's a good rule of thumb.

03:47:38.700 Do you have Bart Simpson?

03:47:39.220 No.

03:47:40.920 Okay.

03:47:41.600 But, yeah, I don't care.

03:47:42.420 Go to Walmart and look at girls who have, like, big, fat girls with shorts on it, and 0.98

03:47:46.060 they'll have, like, random tattoos all over their legs.

03:47:48.560 Yeah, that's definitely right.

03:47:49.160 I saw this one with, like, a boat on her thigh, and, like, you know how, like, they 1.00

03:47:52.860 get older, and it's saggy, and it looks like a sinking boat.

03:47:55.600 She has a boat? 0.99

03:47:56.680 So you agree that women can hit the wall? 1.00

03:47:59.580 Oh, wow.

03:48:00.180 Okay.

03:48:00.500 I mean, everybody hits the wall.

03:48:01.320 I think she read your book.

03:48:02.380 No, man, we need to stand up for women right now. 0.98

03:48:03.920 This is getting ridiculous. 0.81

03:48:04.980 Whether you're a guy or whether you're a girl, we always hit a wall. 1.00

03:48:07.740 Should we be the feminists? 1.00

03:48:09.360 Should we be the devil's advocates?

03:48:10.620 Seriously.

03:48:11.440 No, let's not repeal the 19th.

03:48:13.260 Stop it, kids.

03:48:14.480 Stop it.

03:48:16.200 Going too far.

03:48:19.160 Okay, we, hold on, we have one more thing here.

03:48:22.120 We have two more things we have to react to.

03:48:24.340 We have to ask the girls if they have any other questions for us, because we only got

03:48:27.100 to her.

03:48:27.580 Oh, yeah, we didn't.

03:48:29.660 Well, so one of the, I guess, and I would like to try to wrap up here soon.

03:48:33.880 So one of the questions asked is, if there's anything dating-related you want to get off

03:48:38.400 your chest, or if you have a final thought, I'd like to open it up to anybody who wants

03:48:42.360 to kind of get in here at the end, opening it up to...

03:48:45.900 Actually, I do have a question for them. 0.89

03:48:48.280 When do you think is the right time to have sex?

03:48:52.360 Like, how many dates, in order for a man to still respect you?

03:48:55.540 All right, you guys go ahead and ask me the answers.

03:48:59.540 Okay.

03:48:59.960 Three?

03:49:00.400 At least three, three strikes.

03:49:01.460 It's the three-strike rule, more or less.

03:49:03.860 Put it this way.

03:49:04.680 Within three dates, you should know if that woman has genuine desire enough to want to 1.00

03:49:09.080 have sex with you. 0.99

03:49:10.080 Put it that way. 0.98

03:49:11.180 And it's not that that's like a deadline or a criteria.

03:49:14.840 I'm just saying that within...

03:49:17.080 Actually, I think I forgot it in my first book, as a matter of fact.

03:49:19.440 It's basically the same three-strike rule that everybody's been using for forever, but

03:49:23.540 it's meant to determine genuine desire, not necessarily like...

03:49:27.000 I would like to get with...

03:49:28.040 If there's religious convictions between the man and the woman, and that's already pre-established,

03:49:34.760 it should still be within three dates to know that, like, you know what?

03:49:37.680 I would probably want to have sex with you really, really bad if it were not for our convictions 0.56

03:49:42.260 between the two of us. 0.96

03:49:43.600 People don't want to read that paragraph in my book, because they think that when I talk

03:49:49.140 about, like, what is it?

03:49:51.080 Iron Rule Tomasi number three, which is, you know, any time a woman makes you wait for 1.00

03:49:55.200 sex, the sex is never worth the wait. 0.84

03:49:57.760 People think that that means I'm trying to encourage guys to go and have, like, you know, 0.99

03:50:01.020 wanton sex with, like, loose women. 0.96

03:50:02.760 That's not what it is. 0.88

03:50:03.460 It's to determine genuine desire.

03:50:05.660 So within three dates, you should be able to determine whether or not she's going to

03:50:09.460 flake on you, or she's really into you, or she has some other mitigating... 0.82

03:50:13.500 She's got another guy that she's hoping was going to pan out, and she's putting you on

03:50:17.360 a nice hook in it, because if it doesn't work out with him, then you're going to...

03:50:20.440 She'll go up with you, right?

03:50:22.120 You're, like, the...

03:50:22.860 You're the consolidation...

03:50:24.620 Consolation price.

03:50:25.420 But I think she's asking about, from her standpoint, how many dates should she...

03:50:28.460 Oh, should you personally?

03:50:29.940 I would say the same thing.

03:50:31.360 Three.

03:50:32.260 Yeah.

03:50:33.440 Yeah, I mean, the thing is just going to be more...

03:50:35.100 Like, just to be more discerning, right?

03:50:36.640 It's, like, I empathize with your situation, because I... 0.99

03:50:41.020 Like I said, I coach dudes, and I see how fucked up they are. 0.97

03:50:43.820 And I, like, this is what you guys got to choose from? 1.00

03:50:46.180 Goddamn, that sucks, man. 1.00

03:50:47.460 Yeah. 1.00

03:50:47.620 I get that.

03:50:48.280 Like, trust me, I do.

03:50:49.440 And then when I, you know, have these questions, like you said before, you know, you're kind

03:50:52.340 of talking in your book about you know what your body count was, and then so that's going

03:50:56.800 to be held against you.

03:50:57.940 And I feel bad for that, too.

03:50:59.160 I totally understand.

03:51:00.320 I think in the end, the real answer is just to be discerning, you know what I'm saying?

03:51:03.880 And to still, at the same time, work on yourself.

03:51:07.860 And understand, like, the statistics are statistics.

03:51:09.880 I'm usually the one arguing the opposite side of this point, but just because there's

03:51:14.040 one study that says that 17% of the time a woman is going to stay happy in a relationship

03:51:17.800 after she's had more than 20 sexual partners, that's still 17% of women that still are happy 0.70

03:51:22.460 after 20 sexual partners.

03:51:24.060 You know what I'm saying?

03:51:24.640 So, yeah, man, it's rough.

03:51:27.480 But that's the other thing, is, like, this is what my best advice would be.

03:51:32.100 Are you turned on, either, are you going to sleep with this guy because you need validation

03:51:37.080 or because he's just lighting you up like a blowtorch and he's love-bombing you or whatever?

03:51:41.820 Is that why you're doing it?

03:51:42.900 Or you're doing it because you legitimately can see, you're just, like, or you're ignoring

03:51:46.700 red flags?

03:51:47.540 Or you're doing it because you can legitimately see a future with this dude?

03:51:51.920 If you can, then, you know, three dates or however.

03:51:54.140 You know what I'm saying?

03:51:55.200 That would be the thing.

03:51:56.420 Now, if you make this dude wait six months, the problem is this, right?

03:52:00.420 If you make a guy wait, like, ten dates or six months or whatever, he has so few boundaries

03:52:05.440 that eventually you're not going to be attracted to him.

03:52:07.860 Does that make sense?

03:52:08.700 Because if then this same guy comes to me and Rollo and be like, hey, man, I like this girl.

03:52:12.780 She's been with 45 dudes and she's making me wait ten dates. 1.00

03:52:15.240 We'd be like, bro, what the fuck is wrong with you? 0.99

03:52:17.480 You see what I'm saying? 0.99

03:52:18.280 And they'll do it, too.

03:52:19.120 They'll stick around because you're their only option and they're like, you know, I

03:52:22.120 know if I just say the right thing or do the right thing, I'm going to get in there.

03:52:25.500 When you recognize you're his only option, you're not going to be that attracted to him.

03:52:28.400 I'm sorry, man.

03:52:28.980 It's just not the way supply and demand works, right?

03:52:31.320 So, I mean, but let me tell you something, ladies.

03:52:32.840 Because I do feel, bro, I see these dudes, like I feel like it's been so, when I got

03:52:37.640 older, when I turned the age of 40, I remember having an easier time meeting women because 0.96

03:52:41.480 my competition is Tekashi 6ix9ine and fucking Machine Gun Kelly. 0.91

03:52:45.160 Like that's who I have to compete with dude to wear pink dresses and like that's not really 0.96

03:52:48.720 much competition.

03:52:49.320 I'm not trying to brag.

03:52:50.040 There's nothing special about me.

03:52:51.380 It's just, man, I just saw this lack of masculinity just sucked out of this dating marketplace with 0.98

03:52:56.700 men who had never bench pressed 200 pounds, been a fucking fight, played football, any 0.98

03:53:01.280 of these like basic things that I went through, the teasing and the razzing that happened. 0.99

03:53:06.080 These dudes will report me on fucking Instagram if I say bad words to them now. 0.92

03:53:10.200 Like I cannot believe these men that I, that you guys have to pick from and I feel bad, 0.99

03:53:14.360 dude.

03:53:14.740 Legitimately, I do.

03:53:15.540 So, don't think that I don't empathize with the situation.

03:53:18.200 Women would rather share an alpha guy than to be saddled with the beta loser. 1.00

03:53:21.920 Yeah, I think liberals are the problem, bro. 0.96

03:53:25.420 That's a bit of a broad statement. 1.00

03:53:27.220 Yeah, when do we get, when do we get Alex Jones over here with our own fucking show? 0.98

03:53:30.560 That's what I want to say. 0.98

03:53:31.380 I just think that, I just think, yeah, I think you're absolutely right.

03:53:33.720 Honestly, I don't think it's, I don't think it's right or left or political or anything

03:53:37.140 to do with that.

03:53:37.720 I just think it's the way that we have sort of acculturated like multiple generations of

03:53:42.440 guys since the sexual revolution.

03:53:44.500 Whether that's Republican, you know what?

03:53:46.660 I can, I can make the same arguments against conservatives as I can with, with, you know,

03:53:52.800 liberal leftists as well.

03:53:54.780 It's just they, what is it, you know, trad cons are just progressives driving the speed

03:54:00.000 limit.

03:54:00.720 They're just doing, they're just doing what they think is right.

03:54:03.140 And the guys on the right are just as weesh as the guys on the left right now.

03:54:08.100 So, and that's the problem.

03:54:09.980 When, when, when Justin's here and we're talking about like how he's going to have the pick

03:54:14.200 of the litter and women are more than willing to share him, we're getting to a default situation 0.94

03:54:18.700 where women would, because they'll share, that becomes polygamy. 1.00

03:54:22.940 It's one guy gets, gets many, many women and it's not because he's trying to, or polygyny,

03:54:27.140 he's not the one initiating this.

03:54:29.740 It's because he's the best option and women are more than, whether they're consciously 0.95

03:54:33.560 doing it or not, he's the best option to, to wait out.

03:54:38.000 I hope if I can get with him, if I do this, then he'll want to stay with me.

03:54:40.780 He'll, it'll be closed on both our ends and we'll live happily ever after because he's

03:54:43.600 just, he's the apex.

03:54:44.920 Well, what Mike is just saying right here is the competition is so low right now that

03:54:49.480 yeah, he's the default choice.

03:54:51.580 The guy who's the apex alpha becomes the default choice.

03:54:54.920 So, you have the state of polygyny, I guess, where it's one man and many women, but it's

03:55:00.660 initiated by women because their only selection are the one that they want to get with.

03:55:04.140 They don't need a man for long-term security because they've already taken care of that.

03:55:08.180 So, they don't need a man, but they want a man. 0.99

03:55:10.660 What's the man that they want?

03:55:12.860 Well, this guy.

03:55:13.600 They want Jason Momoa. 0.95

03:55:14.540 They want the guy who's going to be the good sexual experience for them.

03:55:17.760 And then, other guys who are the lesser men, they complain about him because he ruined 0.82

03:55:21.920 my girlfriend.

03:55:22.880 He ruined the girl that, that now I'm married to and my life is a living hell because she 0.94

03:55:27.260 can't get over that guy.

03:55:30.660 Word.

03:55:31.620 Do you have anything to say?

03:55:32.240 I have to announce something really quick and I need to apologize to somebody here.

03:55:38.000 He raided us on Twitch.

03:55:40.300 He's a Chad gamer.

03:55:42.440 His name's Payo Frederique in Canada.

03:55:45.640 Eric, I don't know if you're...

03:55:46.900 Eric, I need you to pull it up.

03:55:49.240 I don't know if you...

03:55:49.720 I think it was the last podcast we reacted to Payo.

03:55:52.100 We reacted to that Twitch clip of him with the keyboard and then we reacted to his...

03:55:56.560 We pulled up his Instagram.

03:55:58.040 So, if you go to Instagram.com, I just...

03:56:00.940 He raided us on Twitch and I missed it, which is like really bad form on Twitch.

03:56:06.900 I apologize.

03:56:08.580 Our primary stream platform is YouTube, so we missed it on Twitch.

03:56:12.540 So, my bad.

03:56:13.400 Fred.

03:56:14.180 Arik? 0.96

03:56:14.640 You want to pull up his Instagram?

03:56:16.300 So, pull up his Instagram just so we can shout him out and then we're going to have the

03:56:21.640 girls react, see if he would date him.

03:56:24.020 And then if you recall that Twitch clip we reacted to, I don't know how you're going to

03:56:29.260 find it, to be honest.

03:56:31.320 Try to find it.

03:56:33.240 It's Payo.

03:56:34.360 Pay-A-Y-O-O. 0.96

03:56:36.900 W-O-W. 0.98

03:56:38.560 Yo, Victor.

03:56:39.280 Thank you, man.

03:56:39.940 I lost to London school.

03:56:40.020 Victor donated $210.

03:56:42.920 Forgot to read What's the Trigger for TTS.

03:56:46.340 But now I don't really have a message.

03:56:48.740 Just sorry to disappoint my co-house Slytherin colleague you.

03:56:52.380 I am wearing a Slytherin t-shirt as a father of two happily married.

03:56:57.000 Yo, Victor.

03:56:57.680 Thank you for the big $210 donation there through Streamlabs.

03:57:01.160 Really appreciate it, man.

03:57:01.880 Thank you for the TTS.

03:57:02.640 Yeah, forgot to read What's the Trigger for TTS.

03:57:07.560 Oh, I think maybe you sent one earlier at a lower threshold.

03:57:11.180 In any case, thank you so much, man.

03:57:12.380 Really appreciate it.

03:57:13.420 Eric, can you go ahead and pull up Payo?

03:57:15.240 Payo, if you're watching this, I don't know if you still are.

03:57:17.340 You raided us like two hours ago.

03:57:18.680 Thank you for the raid, man.

03:57:19.980 So, girls, would you date this man?

03:57:23.480 He's a Chad World of Warcraft gamer.

03:57:25.860 He's a gamer, a Twitch.

03:57:27.280 He put the old filter on.

03:57:28.920 That's something you can do on a face app.

03:57:30.900 Look at the skateboard one.

03:57:32.080 So, like, he's a gamer, like, top-tier World of Warcraft gamer.

03:57:35.100 Do his eyes close more, or are they just stuck like that?

03:57:37.300 I think they're just stuck like that.

03:57:38.620 He had Thunderfury on, like, two of his level 60 rogues in vanilla,

03:57:42.820 in, like, World of Warcraft classic.

03:57:44.460 So, he's like a Chad.

03:57:45.860 Eric, zoom in on that one with Thunderfury with a sword.

03:57:49.320 So, ladies, yes or no, would you date this guy?

03:57:51.380 Look, he's got the physiology of a high elf from Skyrim.

03:57:55.280 Like, if he, like, put the slider up all the way.

03:57:57.960 He's a little thick in the waist for a high elf. 0.99

03:58:01.040 But he looks funny as fuck, dude. 0.99

03:58:02.460 I would definitely date him. 1.00

03:58:03.680 Like, he looks silly. 0.99

03:58:04.880 Okay. 0.96

03:58:05.220 He's full of joyous whimsy.

03:58:07.080 He lives in Canada, though.

03:58:08.680 Like, is that an issue?

03:58:10.740 Like, he's Canadian? 0.76

03:58:12.040 Do you have a passport?

03:58:12.880 Are you down to go?

03:58:13.420 I have a passport.

03:58:14.280 If he offered to fly you out, would you go see him?

03:58:18.440 I don't know, because I'm seeing someone right now.

03:58:19.900 What?

03:58:20.340 Huh?

03:58:20.560 I thought you were single.

03:58:21.160 What, wait?

03:58:21.580 No, no, no.

03:58:22.040 I'm seeing someone.

03:58:22.700 I said I'm seeing someone.

03:58:23.500 Oh, you're right.

03:58:23.880 I missed it.

03:58:24.200 No, she said she was a virgin. 0.60

03:58:25.420 Yeah, I'm a virgin.

03:58:26.180 But she is.

03:58:27.020 But he does look like a high elf.

03:58:28.900 And I was a dark elf.

03:58:29.840 Avery?

03:58:30.520 Yeah, he seems funny.

03:58:32.240 He's a good guy.

03:58:33.140 I would go to Canada.

03:58:34.720 He's a good guy.

03:58:35.180 I'm kind of over L.A.

03:58:35.980 Anyways, yeah.

03:58:36.680 He keeps dying in hardcore mode.

03:58:38.400 Like, he's just, like, finally he decided to play a rogue.

03:58:40.660 But normally he plays a hunter.

03:58:42.340 Well, not normally.

03:58:43.280 Normally he plays a rogue.

03:58:44.360 But he, like, tried to level a hunter, like, seven times.

03:58:46.800 But he kept dying in hardcore.

03:58:51.160 Does that help?

03:58:51.800 He's in his 50s?

03:58:52.820 No, no, no.

03:58:53.560 Like, level.

03:58:54.520 It's level 50.

03:58:56.520 Keep up.

03:58:57.040 Keep up.

03:58:57.500 Level 50.

03:58:58.100 I'm sorry, Justin.

03:58:58.820 I'm sorry.

03:58:59.460 Okay.

03:59:01.300 I actually want to date this guy.

03:59:03.320 This guy seems awesome.

03:59:04.080 I'm just kidding.

03:59:04.740 You down for him?

03:59:06.220 I'd go on a first date.

03:59:07.320 You'd go on a first date with Payo?

03:59:08.640 Okay, what about you?

03:59:09.280 No, I just like people.

03:59:11.060 Yeah, he plays classic.

03:59:12.980 He only plays classic?

03:59:14.140 What if he played League of Legends, then?

03:59:15.580 Would you be into him?

03:59:16.840 Yeah, he's a classic Andy through and through.

03:59:18.460 Like, he only plays classic.

03:59:19.440 I just like myself an anime nerd.

03:59:21.780 Huh?

03:59:22.300 I love myself an anime nerd.

03:59:23.300 Payo, confirm or deny.

03:59:24.140 Do you like anime?

03:59:25.840 Like, you know, I just want to argue back and forth on which one's the best anime, you know, 0.99

03:59:29.940 just over just stupid discussions. 0.98

03:59:31.620 Okay, sure. 1.00

03:59:32.320 What about you?

03:59:32.740 Would you go for Payo?

03:59:33.920 No.

03:59:35.360 No?

03:59:36.300 Eric, can you find that clip really quick?

03:59:38.320 Yeah, I'm looking for it.

03:59:39.880 Where are you looking?

03:59:43.240 Are you on his Twitch clips?

03:59:45.820 No, I was in the folders.

03:59:47.960 Oh, it's...

03:59:48.440 Oh, wait.

03:59:49.120 Did we download...

03:59:49.920 Wait, hold on.

03:59:50.360 Let me look.

03:59:50.700 I thought we got it down.

03:59:51.920 Your chat is awesome.

03:59:53.500 I don't know if we...

03:59:54.280 Wait, hold on.

03:59:55.200 Let me look.

03:59:55.620 I don't think we ever downloaded this in the video tab.

03:59:58.160 Okay.

03:59:59.020 Let me look.

04:00:00.400 I don't think we have it.

04:00:01.900 Yeah, but Payo, I apologize for missing your raid. 0.98

04:00:06.700 I'm a scumbag. 0.98

04:00:07.520 My bad. 1.00

04:00:08.000 We don't have...

04:00:08.800 Again, YouTube's our primary platform, so we're not really, like, following what's going

04:00:12.860 on on Twitch all that closely.

04:00:14.920 While we're talking about Twitch, though, and while Eric finds that, Eric, can you pull

04:00:18.020 up Twitch?

04:00:18.660 Let me shout these people out for the last time.

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04:00:56.380 Okay, did we have any Super Chats come in there?

04:00:59.540 No.

04:01:00.980 No?

04:01:01.880 Okay.

04:01:02.200 Once you're caught up, you're caught up with the...

04:01:04.200 Yeah.

04:01:05.980 Eric, so if you go to...

04:01:07.020 I'll try to find it.

04:01:08.160 Does anyone...

04:01:08.720 While I'm trying to find it, does anyone have final thought or...

04:01:11.740 Earlier, we were asking about questions that we have amongst the group about dating and

04:01:15.500 stuff.

04:01:15.960 Okay, so I have a question for the chat, but also for you guys as well.

04:01:18.820 So for me, for example, my last situation, relationship, whatever you want to call it, it lasted for seven

04:01:25.360 months, but I wanted more and he didn't, right?

04:01:28.200 So with the guy that I'm talking to now, how long do you guys think I should wait for him

04:01:33.460 to ask me to be his girlfriend before?

04:01:36.680 I'm like, okay, this is going too far.

04:01:39.340 You should ask Kim.

04:01:41.220 Ask who?

04:01:41.940 You should ask Kim.

04:01:43.020 Kim?

04:01:44.180 Kim.

04:01:44.540 Oh, Kim? 0.97

04:01:45.700 That should be on you.

04:01:47.720 I think that should be on you to try to be maneuvering towards that.

04:01:50.520 I know, but I feel like for me, I tend to just be like, okay, I'll wait it out.

04:01:54.420 I'll put all my energy towards that person and I'll be like...

04:01:56.920 I'd say three months.

04:01:57.460 Three months?

04:01:58.100 Three to two months.

04:01:59.200 Yeah, that golden three months, you know, where people start showing it real clearly

04:02:03.540 after three months.

04:02:03.980 That's when things start getting sour or it's when people start showing their true colors,

04:02:07.500 right?

04:02:07.800 I feel like I should say your advice as well.

04:02:09.680 What do you think?

04:02:10.340 You've been talking to him for seven months?

04:02:12.300 No, no, no, no.

04:02:13.200 My relationship before that was seven months.

04:02:15.400 But we never got to like...

04:02:16.200 And how long have you been talking to this other guy?

04:02:17.800 This one right now, like a week and a half, two weeks.

04:02:20.920 Well, they say that you know whether you're attracted to somebody in 0.3 seconds.

04:02:26.660 No, I'm attracted to him, but like it's more of the fact of like...

04:02:29.560 I'm just saying it should be fast.

04:02:31.220 It should be fast.

04:02:31.900 And like if he starts crossing boundaries that you have, like you want him to want you

04:02:40.740 and see you and see you for like a, you know, the woman that you are, not obviously for

04:02:45.780 your body, but an actual time frame.

04:02:48.580 No, mostly the body.

04:02:50.520 I think that you should...

04:02:52.540 I don't know.

04:02:53.960 It could...

04:02:54.280 I don't know.

04:02:54.620 I don't know the guy.

04:02:55.700 Like some guys, I think I would know within like a week if he was actually somebody that

04:03:01.980 I was serious about.

04:03:02.780 I think what your experience is infatuation.

04:03:04.640 No, no, wait.

04:03:05.240 She's asking if he...

04:03:06.940 Okay, here's the thing.

04:03:08.080 What you need to look for are his actions, not the words.

04:03:12.480 So even though I want to be your...

04:03:14.240 So if you had a dude who was like down to kill for you and he was doing everything right

04:03:18.900 and he never asked you to be like labeled the relationship, but he wasn't talking to

04:03:22.300 any other girls, you should take that before you take a dude who's lying to you and says, 1.00

04:03:27.400 let's be a boyfriend and girlfriend.

04:03:29.000 I was talking to...

04:03:30.160 I just had Adam Sosnick on my show and he was talking about when Chris Humphreys

04:03:33.780 proposed to Kim Kardashian and he was like, one of the things that Chris Humphreys does

04:03:39.140 is he plays the I love you card like quick first, quick on.

04:03:42.840 This dude's got $50 million and he's 6'10 and he's good looking and he tells girls straight

04:03:46.880 up very quickly on, I'm in love with you. 0.99

04:03:49.040 So the thing is, fuck all those words, just pay attention to the actions that he does. 0.99

04:03:55.060 So are you seeing a bunch of red flag actions? 0.99

04:03:57.860 Then that's the thing I would look for.

04:03:59.200 If you don't see anything, he's with you all the time and he's meeting those demands.

04:04:03.460 Again, this is going to sound insulting, ladies. 1.00

04:04:05.940 Pay way more attention to what he's doing and pay way less attention to how you feel.

04:04:13.880 And I know ladies are like, no, no, it's all about my feelings. 1.00

04:04:16.200 I got to trust my feelings.

04:04:17.160 Pay way more attention to what he's doing and pay way less attention to how you feel.

04:04:20.940 By the way, if you paid way less attention to how you feel in everything, you'd probably

04:04:24.140 all be millionaires.

04:04:25.220 Just stop paying attention so much to how you feel.

04:04:27.920 Pay more attention to his actions and you will get so much further as far as reading people. 0.99

04:04:32.820 Rule number one in men of action, we don't listen to the motherfucking words. 0.97

04:04:36.040 We only pay attention to people's actions. 0.98

04:04:37.980 So that's what I would tell you.

04:04:38.940 Another red pill principle.

04:04:41.400 The medium is the message.

04:04:44.180 I completely agree with you.

04:04:44.980 The medium is the message.

04:04:46.500 What he is doing is communicating things to you.

04:04:50.180 When guys come in, they'll say to him or me, they'll be like, oh, she's sending me mixed 1.00

04:04:54.640 messages.

04:04:55.320 No, no, she's not.

04:04:56.320 And he's not sending you mixed messages either.

04:04:58.420 That's what he's behaving in a way that is telling you, this is where I'm at.

04:05:03.580 Okay.

04:05:03.800 So the issue with me is like this dude, he's very well on like in our, in our area, like

04:05:09.220 all over.

04:05:10.240 And I have gotten like a lot of things, a lot of people have been coming up to me, telling

04:05:14.400 me things about him.

04:05:15.480 But at the same time, I don't want to get to know him first before anything.

04:05:18.320 But at the same time, all these people that are telling me things have known him way longer

04:05:21.400 than I have.

04:05:22.020 So I'm like, okay, I'm like, that's not an action though.

04:05:24.780 Those are other people's words.

04:05:26.440 This is one thing, Gadsad talks about this.

04:05:28.660 The men, men who served together during World War II are friends throughout life, or even

04:05:34.060 if they're not friends, they trust one another because there was so much sacrifice that went

04:05:38.960 into that.

04:05:39.420 Those things that call, that create sacrifice, those are the things you should believe. 0.99

04:05:43.980 Rumors require zero sacrifice, which is why they're mostly bullshit. 0.98

04:05:50.000 No, I understand what you're saying. 0.98

04:05:50.840 But my point is, a lot of times, and this is the other thing, I was a hoe until I wasn't 0.98

04:05:56.500 a hoe when I met the girl I didn't want to not be a hoe for. 1.00

04:05:59.040 So these things that you hear about before, they don't matter as much previous to your

04:06:04.640 relationship with them.

04:06:05.760 But also those things are words and they're not actions.

04:06:08.840 Actions are actions.

04:06:09.880 Does that make sense?

04:06:10.600 People can talk about I love America.

04:06:12.460 The people who fought for the U.S. military, they showed action that they loved America.

04:06:17.180 You see the difference?

04:06:18.040 It's not a social media post, it's actually going out there and taking on live fire.

04:06:22.260 So I would only pay attention to what actions I see and pay very little attention, especially

04:06:27.280 because it is an evolutionary adaptation for women to denigrate other women by calling 1.00

04:06:31.520 other women hoes or to denigrate other men by saying, oh, he's untrustworthy, when secretly 1.00

04:06:37.000 she wants that man.

04:06:38.740 She wants that man.

04:06:39.600 Do you understand what I'm saying?

04:06:40.200 And the thing is, even with me, communication is a big thing.

04:06:42.880 So I had even talked to him about it and I was like, I had people coming up to me telling

04:06:46.740 me this stuff, this, this, this, and that.

04:06:47.940 He was like, they were guys, weren't they?

04:06:49.320 And I was like, yes.

04:06:50.040 He's like, exactly.

04:06:50.860 Because they want you.

04:06:52.160 And at first I was like, and then after I was like, okay, maybe I can kind of see it.

04:06:58.080 Wait, this is the guy you've been seeing for three months?

04:06:59.760 No, no, no, no, no.

04:07:00.780 Two weeks.

04:07:01.600 Two weeks?

04:07:02.260 I think that you presenting that, just my opinion, I think that you presenting something

04:07:05.140 like that into the relationship so early on might make him a little more hesitant to

04:07:10.700 get with you.

04:07:12.140 Just because you're bringing such an emotional topic in to something that's basically just

04:07:17.500 beginning.

04:07:18.320 No, no, no with this, because we do communicate and talk about a lot of our feelings, which

04:07:23.040 is why I had brought it in.

04:07:24.400 Stop doing that so much. 0.98

04:07:26.100 Just fucking go with it. 0.97

04:07:27.340 That's why I say to start a relationship with somebody, you have to be blunt and tell 0.99

04:07:32.320 them what you want.

04:07:33.660 And if they tell you something at that point, yes, they can tell you something, which is

04:07:36.900 words.

04:07:37.540 And as you say, actions throughout that timeline, from that point on, after you told them directly

04:07:41.880 what you want from that point on, he will show you what he wants because guys are actions.

04:07:47.680 And if he shows you, obviously he ignoring your phone call, he's, he's late texting you.

04:07:53.520 He's obviously outside more in the daytime.

04:07:56.140 That's actions to show.

04:07:57.180 Let me sell this in one sentence.

04:07:59.540 Women talk, men do. 1.00

04:08:01.700 Exactly.

04:08:02.400 So if you're having, oh, let's talk, where are we at?

04:08:04.860 Let's have the talk.

04:08:06.100 Let's look.

04:08:07.160 But when you throw a direct statement out there, how can you?

04:08:10.520 What was it?

04:08:11.940 Demonstrate.

04:08:12.380 Do not explicate.

04:08:13.480 Okay.

04:08:13.660 When you get to the point where it's like you're talking, like I think too many, especially

04:08:18.120 this generation, too many people think that the key to a healthy relationship is open communication.

04:08:25.320 No, it's not that you communicate.

04:08:27.000 It's what you're communicating.

04:08:29.800 Word.

04:08:30.620 We're going to do the Twitch thing really quick.

04:08:32.220 Eric, not the payo clip really quick.

04:08:33.920 Just pull up the Twitch because I want to show you the DM he sent me.

04:08:38.120 I think he's joking around.

04:08:39.280 Go in the corner next to the channel icon, far right, top corner, next to the whispers, whispers.

04:08:46.640 Click on payo.

04:08:48.700 And then I messaged him.

04:08:49.940 Scroll up.

04:08:50.980 He sent me a message, payo at 9 p.m. 1.00

04:08:54.120 You ignored my raid like a little chicken shit. 0.99

04:08:57.220 So payo, I apologize. 1.00

04:08:59.300 You don't have to show that.

04:09:00.900 I'm sorry, my little man.

04:09:02.560 Yeah, like I said, YouTube is our primary streaming platform.

04:09:06.080 We're not on Twitch.

04:09:06.720 I'm going to get that fixed, though, so we get a notification if we get a notable raid.

04:09:10.740 So thank you, man.

04:09:11.540 Speaking of payo, we're going to just – a couple of you said yes, you would date him.

04:09:15.360 However, I want to show you a video which may change your mind.

04:09:19.760 Eric, go ahead and pull that up.

04:09:21.380 And Justin, I want you to weigh in on this too because this is –

04:09:24.920 Ew.

04:09:25.200 Go ahead. 1.00

04:09:26.700 What the fuck is that? 0.99

04:09:27.780 This is weird. 1.00

04:09:28.580 You need some air, some canned air.

04:09:31.000 Audio?

04:09:31.600 Hello?

04:09:31.740 I need a new keyboard.

04:09:32.480 Oh, never mind.

04:09:33.040 It's good.

04:09:33.300 It's good.

04:09:33.560 It's good.

04:09:35.620 I like his goon cave. 0.96

04:09:38.280 Goon cave. 1.00

04:09:39.820 Well, how do you get maggots on your fucking keyboard? 1.00

04:09:43.260 It's a peanut, isn't it? 1.00

04:09:44.380 I don't know.

04:09:45.240 What is this?

04:09:46.540 What it looks like?

04:09:47.280 I don't know.

04:09:47.880 Dude. 1.00

04:09:49.840 Why do you got an old school fucking keyboard like that? 0.98

04:09:51.700 I kind of want to see his full setup, not just like the – 0.99

04:09:54.080 I think it's the rice.

04:09:54.860 I'm not sure, man.

04:09:55.720 I don't want to touch it.

04:09:58.000 Okay, that's his keyboard.

04:09:59.800 Does that change –

04:10:01.120 Dude, honestly, like, I'm pretty much –

04:10:03.040 Still down?

04:10:03.580 I mean, I'm in –

04:10:04.400 Okay, no.

04:10:05.320 Okay, okay, okay.

04:10:06.580 Okay.

04:10:07.160 You want to join him in his good cave, don't you?

04:10:09.500 No, I'm a bit of a neat myself, so I don't really like –

04:10:13.180 Like, I can't really judge him too hard.

04:10:15.200 Like, like I said, I'm a neat –

04:10:16.720 You can judge that.

04:10:18.040 I can judge that. 1.00

04:10:18.780 I mean, I think that's fucking filthy. 0.99

04:10:20.000 I think you should get a better keyboard. 0.99

04:10:21.440 Is that an Amazon Basics?

04:10:23.240 I think you should get a better one, first of all. 0.99

04:10:25.060 But that's fucking disgusting, bro. 1.00

04:10:27.960 Step it up, my little piece of shit. 1.00

04:10:30.220 Okay, go ahead. 1.00

04:10:30.600 I want Waller to weigh in on this.

04:10:32.260 We'll have –

04:10:32.920 We'll go Avery, and then we'll have Justin go.

04:10:34.860 Go ahead.

04:10:35.060 I can't judge too hard because my keyboard doesn't look great either,

04:10:39.000 although I don't know how him and I would do together.

04:10:41.100 Come on! 0.61

04:10:41.520 Because we're both messy, so it might be a disaster. 0.98

04:10:45.100 You have a dirty, disgusting keyboard like that, too? 0.96

04:10:47.520 Not that bad. 0.99

04:10:48.640 It's pretty bad.

04:10:49.300 But it's got some crumbs.

04:10:50.500 It's pretty bad.

04:10:51.040 Peo, can I ship you a new keyboard, buddy?

04:10:54.660 Justin, your thoughts on –

04:10:56.380 Yeah, a very important part of being a gentleman and having class

04:10:59.340 is keeping her in a clean house.

04:11:01.000 When you bring a woman into a house that's dirty, 1.00

04:11:02.860 it makes her feel like a whore 1.00

04:11:03.820 because she feels like she's at a fucking frat house. 1.00

04:11:05.840 If you want women to sleep with you and take you seriously, 1.00

04:11:08.080 have a clean house, clean room, 1.00

04:11:09.420 make your motherfucking bed every day, 0.99

04:11:10.840 and make sure the bathroom is set up in a way 0.99

04:11:13.180 where she can feel like she's clean in there. 1.00

04:11:14.720 Otherwise, she's just some frat whore in a whorehouse. 1.00

04:11:17.660 So keep your shit clean, bro. 1.00

04:11:19.780 You hear that, Peo? 1.00

04:11:21.000 From Justin Waller.

04:11:22.980 Stop being a slacker. 1.00

04:11:23.940 Keep your fucking shit clean. 1.00

04:11:26.040 It's a big deal, man. 1.00

04:11:27.200 Even if your shit is not nice, 0.99

04:11:28.560 if it's clean and respectable, 0.99

04:11:30.000 then she can feel like she's in a situation

04:11:31.920 where she's a classy woman. 1.00

04:11:33.820 You know, inside your house. 1.00

04:11:35.140 If you have underwear on the floor and shit 0.99

04:11:36.740 and you can't even, you know, 0.99

04:11:38.720 clean your sink and get the hair off the sink,

04:11:40.320 then she just feels like she's in a trashy place.

04:11:42.400 But Justin, he's worth millions.

04:11:43.660 It doesn't matter.

04:11:44.360 It doesn't matter because it's about

04:11:45.680 how you make people feel.

04:11:46.820 So make them feel like they're in a classy environment.

04:11:48.720 You might say that, Peo...

04:11:50.360 You are not prepared. 1.00

04:11:54.500 Your shit's not prepared, dude. 1.00

04:11:55.760 You gotta get a fucking clean keyboard 1.00

04:11:57.540 if you're gonna have the girls around. 0.99

04:11:58.500 Thank you.

04:12:07.660 Okay, sorry.

04:12:08.060 That's way too long.

04:12:08.860 I'm sorry, guys.

04:12:09.440 I'm sorry.

04:12:09.860 I'm being cringy.

04:12:10.180 I feel like Mike should know

04:12:11.320 what that theme is from.

04:12:13.160 No, I don't know.

04:12:13.680 Is that World of Warcraft?

04:12:14.900 Is that World of Warcraft?

04:12:15.940 I don't know what that is.

04:12:16.480 I play Skyrim,

04:12:17.500 so I don't play World of Warcraft.

04:12:18.880 Cool, cool, cool.

04:12:19.900 So, okay, we have to...

04:12:21.060 Let's do a Tate clip. 1.00

04:12:22.040 Let's do a Patrice clip, 0.96

04:12:22.980 and then let's wrap up the show.

04:12:24.080 So, Eric, can you pull up...

04:12:27.440 I guess we haven't done the...

04:12:28.800 Tate clip, go.

04:12:29.600 The loyalty, Tate loyalty clip in a while.

04:12:33.440 I think we only did it once.

04:12:34.520 I guess we can do that one really quick.

04:12:37.040 I don't even remember what it is.

04:12:38.400 It's been so long.

04:12:39.400 It's in the video folder.

04:12:40.680 Eric, if you can pull that up.

04:12:41.640 No, Dropbox.

04:12:43.920 Podcast videos, Tate.

04:12:47.880 Tate loyalty.

04:12:50.320 And get it set up before you bring us over there.

04:12:54.080 In the meantime...

04:13:00.800 Oh, what the frick? 0.75

04:13:02.180 It's not even playing. 0.92

04:13:03.780 What happened?

04:13:05.580 Why is it not going?

04:13:06.220 Did you mute?

04:13:06.720 I think, Eric, you muted it.

04:13:07.600 You muted it.

04:13:09.220 Oh, okay, I see.

04:13:11.240 Oh, shoot.

04:13:12.100 All right.

04:13:12.320 See?

04:13:12.980 Turn it off.

04:13:19.420 Yep.

04:13:20.340 Sorry, guys.

04:13:24.080 Eric, what is this clip?

04:13:25.980 Can I just say that I...

04:13:27.200 Scroll back a little bit.

04:13:28.360 I just wanted to say that Spring, Kiel, whatever, the guy in chat, Oblivion is the better game.

04:13:32.820 I just wanted to throw that out there.

04:13:34.360 Yeah, I agree.

04:13:35.220 Oblivion's great.

04:13:35.740 Scroll.

04:13:36.240 One more.

04:13:36.780 Scroll one more.

04:13:38.500 I just...

04:13:39.060 The play...

04:13:39.800 Elden Ring is a better game.

04:13:40.780 No, no, no.

04:13:40.960 You need to scroll the play.

04:13:42.680 The play back.

04:13:43.760 There you go.

04:13:45.060 Go ahead.

04:13:45.340 Oh, man.

04:13:46.480 It's so crazy.

04:13:46.540 So everyone says something that compromises.

04:13:48.220 If you're saying that I value sexual exclusivity above everything else, that's fine.

04:13:52.920 But you're going to have to compromise.

04:13:54.320 If I want the most reliable car I can buy, I can't go into the Ferrari garage and say

04:13:58.800 it has to be reliable.

04:13:59.920 Go buy a Toyota, then.

04:14:01.320 This is what comes with a Ferrari.

04:14:02.860 You get the performance.

04:14:03.820 You get the beauty.

04:14:04.440 Sometimes it breaks down.

04:14:05.500 That's how it goes.

04:14:06.280 That's what comes with a Ferrari.

04:14:07.120 If you want a top, top, top tier man, he's going to do certain things.

04:14:11.380 And most women intrinsically know this.

04:14:12.980 If you go to one of these parties in Miami, and one of these chicks is chilling with Chris 0.98

04:14:16.780 Brown, do you think she believes he's going to be loyal?

04:14:19.700 No.

04:14:20.340 It doesn't matter.

04:14:20.880 It's Chris Brown.

04:14:21.580 Women intrinsically understand that certain value of male. 1.00

04:14:24.700 They're not going to get sexual exclusivity, and they don't care. 0.60

04:14:28.380 All right.

04:14:29.400 Let's get the panel's reaction to it.

04:14:31.380 Avery, your reaction to that?

04:14:34.000 It's a short clip, but...

04:14:35.640 I don't really know what to say.

04:14:39.980 I do care.

04:14:42.980 I don't want a man to cheat on me.

04:14:44.340 Is that what he's saying?

04:14:45.380 Well, I think the point he's trying to make is that when you're dealing with a certain

04:14:48.360 tier of man, a certain status of man, perhaps not all of them, but some of them, they're

04:14:52.840 going to come with problems.

04:14:54.780 Yeah.

04:14:55.160 Like, perhaps, for example, you're not going to get exclusivity from that kind of guy.

04:14:59.880 Yeah.

04:15:00.240 I've definitely experienced that, so I kind of stopped going for people that had fame

04:15:04.780 like that.

04:15:06.420 I wouldn't say it's like money.

04:15:07.880 I would say more so if it's someone that has some fame. 0.96

04:15:10.240 I definitely have experienced, yeah, they fuck around, so I've just stayed away from 0.98

04:15:13.800 that. 0.99

04:15:14.380 Sorry.

04:15:14.560 The question is, if you want a high-value man, you have to be okay with exclusivity.

04:15:19.820 It's compromise.

04:15:20.760 It's compromise.

04:15:21.940 Exclusivity is compromise.

04:15:24.100 Nope.

04:15:24.400 Sexual.

04:15:25.160 Sexual.

04:15:25.580 I kind of missed it.

04:15:26.200 Sorry.

04:15:27.720 Open on his end, close on your end.

04:15:29.880 That is not an option for me.

04:15:32.320 Fair enough.

04:15:33.120 Your reaction to the video?

04:15:35.800 Yeah, I think if you're seeking, like, a top 1%.

04:15:38.220 Don't tilt the mic down towards you.

04:15:40.280 There you go.

04:15:41.100 I think if you're seeking a top 1% guy, then, yeah, it is his prerogative to have multiple 0.99

04:15:45.200 bitches. 1.00

04:15:45.680 For me, personally, like, I'm not seeking, again, those traits, so that wouldn't really 0.99

04:15:48.380 apply to me.

04:15:49.320 Like, my definition of a high-quality man isn't the same as, like, a high-value man.

04:15:53.460 Fair enough.

04:15:55.520 What's your definition, then?

04:15:56.640 Still trying to figure that out.

04:15:58.360 Like I said, it's just based off chemistry.

04:16:00.200 It's not a checklist.

04:16:04.940 Stars have to align.

04:16:05.840 Just curious, like, how do you wipe?

04:16:07.240 I'm just curious.

04:16:09.420 How do I what?

04:16:10.500 How do you wipe?

04:16:11.720 I don't know.

04:16:12.360 The nails are just kind of long.

04:16:13.260 I'm just curious.

04:16:14.120 Jesus Christ.

04:16:15.560 Wait, do you actually do the wrap?

04:16:17.160 Yeah.

04:16:17.640 It makes sense.

04:16:18.180 You got to get that extra precaution.

04:16:20.200 Mystery solved, bro.

04:16:21.300 Mystery solved.

04:16:22.060 I've wondered the same thing, too.

04:16:23.260 One piece of paper cannot help you.

04:16:23.680 I promise you.

04:16:23.960 You don't use the nails.

04:16:24.720 You, like, use...

04:16:25.380 Just use the side of your hand and just get up in that dookie.

04:16:28.040 That's what you do.

04:16:28.800 Wait, what?

04:16:31.140 Because of the nails. 0.97

04:16:32.060 I used to have longer notes in that.

04:16:33.840 I used to get asked that all the time.

04:16:35.240 I promise you, I'd take a shower right after.

04:16:37.100 I promise you.

04:16:38.040 That's, like, the best way.

04:16:39.700 Best way.

04:16:40.380 Can't.

04:16:41.220 Just derailing.

04:16:42.100 Okay.

04:16:43.220 So the question...

04:16:43.920 I don't know if you...

04:16:44.520 Did you want to react to the clip?

04:16:45.900 No.

04:16:46.540 Yeah.

04:16:47.100 So the question is if I'm going to date someone that's...

04:16:50.300 Your reaction to what he said?

04:16:52.340 He's saying...

04:16:52.960 No, I'm not sharing it.

04:16:53.760 He's saying, look...

04:16:54.540 It's out of the question.

04:16:55.460 I'm this high-status guy.

04:16:56.980 He's Andrew Tate.

04:16:59.340 Beautiful man.

04:17:01.460 Beautiful bald head.

04:17:02.320 Rich.

04:17:04.260 Two-time...

04:17:05.180 Is it four-time kickboxing?

04:17:07.140 Four-time kickboxing champion.

04:17:08.460 Four-time kickboxing champion. 1.00

04:17:10.860 A fucking legend. 0.99

04:17:13.820 But he's not going to be... 1.00

04:17:16.540 He's going to have some other ladies. 1.00

04:17:17.840 I'd rather have someone that wasn't in the top 1%

04:17:21.860 than have somebody that was...

04:17:24.640 I want somebody who's going to be for me.

04:17:27.200 Like, always.

04:17:28.240 Not for other people.

04:17:30.580 I'm going to be 100% you.

04:17:32.020 You're going to be 100% you.

04:17:32.180 What do you mean by that?

04:17:33.100 Like, only for you.

04:17:35.440 Only for me.

04:17:36.140 Meaning, when we're together, we're together.

04:17:37.740 Meaning, you're not seeking out other people's attention.

04:17:40.040 Closed on his end.

04:17:41.300 Closed on her end.

04:17:42.200 Closed on both ends.

04:17:44.840 Anybody else?

04:17:46.040 Want to share?

04:17:46.680 You want to share your alpha?

04:17:47.460 Yeah.

04:17:48.860 Well, if you were...

04:17:51.160 If I was in a relationship with someone

04:17:52.760 who's a high-quality man,

04:17:54.300 obviously, A, I would want to be a high-quality woman. 1.00

04:17:57.000 Otherwise, I completely would understand, like,

04:17:59.720 that there's not that compatibility.

04:18:01.640 But at the same time, if you say relationship,

04:18:03.420 if you say you're committed to me,

04:18:04.520 then you're committed to me.

04:18:05.800 And if you decide not to be committed to me,

04:18:07.580 then it's not worth the relationship.

04:18:09.440 So I guess that's my take on it.

04:18:11.940 Maybe I can clarify something really quickly

04:18:13.760 because I see this all the time.

04:18:15.080 And Myron and Fresh have talked about this.

04:18:17.460 And Kevin Samuels had talked about this.

04:18:20.680 Tate talks about this.

04:18:22.280 And I actually brought this up in my fourth book,

04:18:25.140 In Religion.

04:18:26.040 And it's actually drawn from another book called Alpha God

04:18:29.380 by another evolutionary psychologist, Dr. Hector Garcia.

04:18:32.940 And in there, he states that powerful men...

04:18:37.740 He doesn't use the word high-value.

04:18:39.600 He said powerful men throughout history

04:18:41.260 have had three things.

04:18:43.120 They've had resources, number one.

04:18:45.060 They've had access to territory.

04:18:47.480 And they've had exclusive, unique access

04:18:51.120 to a harem of preferably virginic, 0.99

04:18:54.940 but not all cultures,

04:18:56.260 preferably young, fertile women. 1.00

04:18:59.000 So whether that's the emperor of China

04:19:01.260 in the Forbidden City

04:19:02.260 or it's the tribal chieftain

04:19:04.260 in the Yanomamo tribe in New Guinea, I think,

04:19:06.820 the theme stays the same

04:19:11.200 for powerful men throughout history.

04:19:13.480 And so therefore, if you want to get with a guy

04:19:16.120 who is the functional equivalent

04:19:17.660 of a powerful man from our past,

04:19:21.680 that there are certain compromises

04:19:24.240 that you're going to have to make

04:19:25.540 if that is the guy that's going to be for you.

04:19:27.760 And the reason we have this conversation right now

04:19:29.680 is exactly what I was saying before,

04:19:31.200 is that women would rather share an alpha 1.00

04:19:33.200 than to be saddled with a faithful beta

04:19:35.220 because women have been brought 0.99

04:19:36.640 to a point right now of independence.

04:19:38.520 So they don't need long-term security anymore.

04:19:42.640 They don't need a man. 1.00

04:19:44.120 They want a man. 0.97

04:19:44.940 Who do they want?

04:19:45.860 They want a guy like Tate. 0.82

04:19:46.940 They want a powerful man.

04:19:48.020 Well, when they want that guy, 0.96

04:19:50.120 that guy comes with compromises now.

04:19:52.520 So if you want to get with the guy

04:19:54.400 who's the tribal chief,

04:19:55.260 and by the way,

04:19:55.900 that doesn't necessarily mean that the guy,

04:19:57.460 this is a part that gets confused.

04:19:59.200 I think a lot of red pill guys

04:20:00.460 think it means that you're the top G

04:20:01.980 and you've got Lamborghinis and everything else.

04:20:04.240 But you can also find this in Mahatma Gandhi.

04:20:07.080 You can look at it in Carl Jung.

04:20:09.400 You can find the same thing in Dr. Martin Luther King. 0.99

04:20:12.260 They all had side bitches. 1.00

04:20:13.820 They all had mistresses on the side. 1.00

04:20:15.740 They were powerful men.

04:20:16.320 They didn't have the kind of money.

04:20:17.540 Like Mahatma Gandhi was poverty-stricken

04:20:19.660 for most of the time he was active.

04:20:22.880 But he had side girls all the time.

04:20:25.580 He was a powerful man doing what he was doing.

04:20:28.160 He just wasn't financially powerful,

04:20:29.820 but he still made an impact on the world.

04:20:32.520 All those people that I mentioned right there

04:20:33.840 are not necessarily like multi-millionaires,

04:20:36.020 but they still have access to beautiful women 1.00

04:20:39.200 because that's how it works.

04:20:40.280 And not that women like that, 1.00

04:20:42.740 but if they want to get with a guy like that,

04:20:45.060 they have to accept the compromise.

04:20:47.020 Do all three of you guys agree with that?

04:20:49.900 To a certain extent.

04:20:51.080 He's making historical references, then yes.

04:20:53.260 Like, do you guys remember all the protests

04:20:54.760 that happened when Derek Jeter 0.96

04:20:56.860 was fucking Jessica Biel and Jessica Alba and Mariah Carey? 1.00

04:21:00.240 No, no. 0.99

04:21:01.020 No, you don't. 0.99

04:21:01.540 No one gave a fuck 0.99

04:21:02.900 because he was so high status 0.98

04:21:04.380 that no one cared about all the women 0.99

04:21:06.540 that George Clooney went through.

04:21:08.240 Recently, we've seen this pushback

04:21:09.860 with Leonardo DiCaprio.

04:21:11.460 It's just like these men were,

04:21:12.440 nobody cared with,

04:21:13.560 no one was like,

04:21:14.380 oh my God, Holly Madison. 0.96

04:21:16.060 Hugh Hefner was having sex with other women. 0.97

04:21:18.200 No one cared. 0.86

04:21:19.040 No one had a problem

04:21:19.500 because these men were so high status

04:21:20.840 that it just, for whatever reason,

04:21:22.760 and the reason is,

04:21:23.680 the reason he's explaining,

04:21:25.040 you know, why King,

04:21:25.860 King, is it Solomon or King David

04:21:27.520 had 800 wives?

04:21:28.360 I forget who it was.

04:21:29.660 Solomon.

04:21:30.320 Yeah, had 800 wives.

04:21:32.040 We didn't bat,

04:21:32.840 because society didn't bat an eye

04:21:34.260 because they were at such a high status

04:21:35.920 that nobody cared

04:21:37.160 that they were doing those things.

04:21:38.900 Gandhi kisses little boys.

04:21:40.920 What the?

04:21:41.460 Man, we are, we are.

04:21:43.020 Too close.

04:21:43.600 Bro, that was a.

04:21:44.520 That's a little TOS.

04:21:46.280 I'm reading the chat.

04:21:47.460 I'm reading the chat.

04:21:47.920 Bro, that's a technical too flagrant.

04:21:50.100 That's a, that's an injection right there.

04:21:52.080 That's not, okay,

04:21:52.940 don't, don't confuse Mahatma Gandhi

04:21:55.740 with the, what's the Dalai Lama, okay?

04:21:58.820 Like, stop it, all right?

04:22:00.560 Mahatma Gandhi,

04:22:01.420 different than the Dalai Lama.

04:22:02.600 Okay.

04:22:03.220 Are you, are you gonna answer this question?

04:22:05.340 I think the.

04:22:06.020 I taught Andrew Tate everything he knows.

04:22:07.980 That is true.

04:22:09.140 That is true.

04:22:09.700 So that means that you don't care

04:22:10.640 if he sleeps with other women?

04:22:12.000 She's hoping.

04:22:12.780 If I'm a part of it.

04:22:14.680 No.

04:22:15.960 I was just, thank you for answering.

04:22:17.780 Yeah.

04:22:18.040 So, who, who, I think you asked a question

04:22:22.080 or Rolo, you came in to clarify something.

04:22:24.480 Where were we at?

04:22:25.360 Your reaction to the clip?

04:22:26.560 Did you get to go?

04:22:28.660 Well, I just wanted to say, I think.

04:22:29.980 Gandhi kisses little boys.

04:22:30.940 That's what you wanted to say.

04:22:31.560 Go ahead.

04:22:32.600 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

04:22:33.700 I just wanted to say,

04:22:34.440 I think Andrew Tate is really funny. 0.99

04:22:35.800 Like, I kind of fuck with like his, his ethic. 1.00

04:22:37.880 I kind of fuck with it, you know? 1.00

04:22:39.340 I mean, I don't know. 1.00

04:22:41.000 Like, I, I, I just think he's funny as shit. 0.98

04:22:43.320 And I think. 0.99

04:22:43.860 He's funny.

04:22:44.260 He's up there for a reason.

04:22:45.520 You know, he didn't just like get up there, you know?

04:22:48.080 You're awesome.

04:22:48.500 I think he's based.

04:22:49.180 I think he's red pills. 1.00

04:22:50.100 Let's fucking go. 1.00

04:22:50.900 Okay. 0.99

04:22:51.480 Uh, your reaction to the clip?

04:22:53.140 She kind of already.

04:22:54.020 Oh, yeah.

04:22:54.520 Oh, you already gave?

04:22:55.220 Yeah.

04:22:55.480 I think that there's a right and a wrong.

04:22:57.800 And I think that having sex with more than just your husband or wife is wrong.

04:23:03.820 Okay. 0.54

04:23:04.640 Um, and, uh.

04:23:06.440 Even, okay, let me, let me clarify this.

04:23:08.400 Even if he, if he like doesn't have feelings for her.

04:23:11.740 So it's just one night stand, he sleeps with her and he comes back to you the same the next

04:23:16.280 day and loves you, kisses you, pays for everything the same.

04:23:19.140 That's still a problem.

04:23:20.060 I think that's wrong.

04:23:20.820 And if he hides that from you, that's even a bigger problem.

04:23:24.120 Definitely.

04:23:24.500 Okay.

04:23:24.860 So now if he comes to you straight forward after that one night stand says, yes, I did 1.00

04:23:29.220 fuck this person. 0.99

04:23:30.000 Would you leave him? 1.00

04:23:32.080 No.

04:23:33.300 Um.

04:23:34.300 And why do you think that?

04:23:35.320 I don't know.

04:23:35.940 It depends.

04:23:36.220 Avery is adorable.

04:23:37.560 Because I live this life, man.

04:23:38.880 I'm telling you right now, they won't leave you.

04:23:40.340 I can't, I can't say if I would or not.

04:23:43.680 Now, now, this is two different perspectives because she has a living life.

04:23:46.320 Yeah, but she doesn't know what she wants because when she runs into that dude, she's 0.89

04:23:48.900 not going to be able to leave him.

04:23:49.780 All she's going to do is cry. 0.87

04:23:51.420 And so all she can do is use guilt against him, but she's not going to leave him because

04:23:54.000 she's too in love with him.

04:23:54.920 I've seen it too many times.

04:23:55.840 You wouldn't leave him.

04:23:56.020 So she would stay with him because.

04:23:57.220 She would absolutely stay.

04:23:58.440 Okay.

04:23:58.900 She would stay.

04:23:59.460 I know for a fact she would stay.

04:24:01.460 No, you don't.

04:24:01.960 And, and, and after a certain age, after a certain age and you guys get married, he will eventually

04:24:08.960 cheat because there's tons of women in this world. 1.00

04:24:12.240 And as he says, you know, men have higher testosterone than girls and they need to release

04:24:18.960 that.

04:24:19.520 And this, the hoe, the side, whatever, like, you know, like all those powerful men had 0.99

04:24:24.680 were those people that they released the stress on.

04:24:27.280 Like, so, and obviously as his wife, he, she, she knows, she knows there are people in

04:24:32.740 my life.

04:24:33.520 Then would you stay in that?

04:24:34.600 Let me ask you, would you stay in that relationship still is what, why, like, why do these women 1.00

04:24:39.780 continue to stay in these relationships?

04:24:41.280 I think it would be very, very, very hard for me to leave.

04:24:42.840 I'm not doubting that.

04:24:43.960 But do I think that I would stay?

04:24:47.440 There's, it's too broad of a question, but I do think that it would be very, very, very,

04:24:52.020 very, very hard for me to leave.

04:24:53.720 Yeah.

04:24:53.860 Because your dilemma is you're going to leave him for a man that you love less that would

04:24:57.660 cheat on you anyway, if he could.

04:24:59.200 I think it would be.

04:24:59.840 So you're talking about leaving like a high level guy that is truly there for you emotionally

04:25:03.480 and in every way, knowing that even if you left him for a man that you love less, that 0.99

04:25:07.720 was trash. 0.93

04:25:08.380 You don't think that that would be unfair to me? 0.99

04:25:10.200 Hear me out.

04:25:11.060 You're going to leave him for a man you love less, right?

04:25:14.360 More than likely, if you were that in love with him, who would cheat on you anyway, if he

04:25:17.420 could, because a lot of men use the fact that they can't get other women for loyalty.

04:25:21.140 And I think women make the mistake of believing that. 1.00

04:25:24.040 I guess you wouldn't leave.

04:25:25.340 I would never marry somebody that had that idea.

04:25:29.320 You would marry somebody and you knew it was in your mind.

04:25:31.520 But I want to tell you right now, when you genuinely fall in love with a man, you're not

04:25:34.580 going to be able to help it.

04:25:35.580 And one thing that I think is really important about this is if he sat you down and told you 0.77

04:25:38.820 the truth, you would respect that much more than a coward that did it behind your back. 0.80

04:25:42.340 Of course. 0.89

04:25:42.780 I would not marry somebody and commit myself to somebody that was okay with sleeping with another

04:25:48.480 woman.

04:25:48.940 I would never be okay with that.

04:25:50.040 Now, if he directly told you right after.

04:25:51.860 I didn't say you'd be okay with it.

04:25:53.060 I said you would stay.

04:25:54.000 Yeah.

04:25:54.400 Those are two different things.

04:25:55.460 That's a good point.

04:25:55.900 The other thing is, and let's make this, because he alluded to this kind of, your boyfriend

04:26:00.560 has string arms.

04:26:02.300 That doesn't make him a peaceful man.

04:26:04.520 That means that he's a weak man and he chooses to not get in fights because he's going to get 1.00

04:26:08.280 his ass kicked. 1.00

04:26:08.880 That doesn't make a peaceful man is a man that can conduct massive amounts of violence 1.00

04:26:12.840 and chooses not to.

04:26:14.080 And because your man doesn't cheat because he's unattractive doesn't make him a faithful man.

04:26:18.760 He's not cheating on you because he can't find other women.

04:26:22.120 And you need to determine which is which because oftentimes, ladies, you don't until it's 1.00

04:26:26.580 too late and then you break up with him because you realize you didn't get a faithful man.

04:26:30.780 You got a man who had no options.

04:26:32.420 Yeah.

04:26:32.540 I've loved your guys' message until this point.

04:26:35.640 I do not agree with it.

04:26:37.340 No.

04:26:37.660 No.

04:26:37.840 No.

04:26:37.940 We're not telling you it's morally okay.

04:26:40.240 What we're telling you is more likely you would stay because most women would stay. 0.96

04:26:43.280 You would absolutely stay.

04:26:44.180 I can agree with that.

04:26:45.200 Well, I can't agree that I would absolutely.

04:26:46.500 You would, unfortunately, and you would hate it, but you would stay.

04:26:48.720 No, no.

04:26:49.160 Let me put it in perspective.

04:26:50.640 So what they're trying to say is that this man is providing for you.

04:26:54.520 Like, as in, he pays for everything, the lights to turn on, the food that you're eating

04:26:58.260 and everything.

04:26:58.880 I would also say not just financially, like emotionally and everywhere.

04:27:02.080 And emotionally, too.

04:27:02.400 He's truly, like, your person.

04:27:04.840 Of course.

04:27:05.360 And he rubs you and he loves you the same.

04:27:07.800 But it's just the one day that he, you know, messes with another girl and he told you

04:27:13.140 straightly that I did.

04:27:14.680 That sounds like it would be mental torture.

04:27:18.180 Exactly.

04:27:18.700 To deal with that.

04:27:19.100 Because he puts you in a position.

04:27:21.080 Because the commitment is not there.

04:27:23.500 Oh, the commitment's there.

04:27:24.940 No, it's not there.

04:27:25.620 Yeah, it is.

04:27:26.260 No, it's not.

04:27:26.760 You're tying sexual exclusivity to commitment, but men that have to do that, more than likely

04:27:30.660 you won't want that man.

04:27:32.180 You're his highest concubine.

04:27:34.480 Now, in the beginning of this podcast, I did say.

04:27:38.180 I need to stand up for women here. 0.98

04:27:38.920 That is terrible.

04:27:39.760 That is terrible.

04:27:39.780 Concubine.

04:27:39.800 In the beginning of this podcast, I did say he will cheat on you because of a certain

04:27:44.460 amount of things.

04:27:45.300 Now, it feels like in a relationship, as I said, you have to lean.

04:27:49.480 It's a scale.

04:27:50.320 Now, if a guy or person or girl invests too much, obviously they have that will of, oh,

04:27:57.460 I can do whatever I want because I'm paying for this person.

04:27:59.760 This person is obviously on lock with me.

04:28:02.720 And I can do whatever I want because I can.

04:28:05.860 And you are going to be sitting at home scared to death that one day he is going to cheat

04:28:10.040 on you.

04:28:10.400 And you're going to have that constant fear in your head.

04:28:12.300 Even after marriage.

04:28:13.420 It's not like a conversation you have before.

04:28:14.240 It's not like we're just like, oh, yeah, it's okay if you cheat on me.

04:28:17.000 Of course.

04:28:17.460 But that's why you have to have the marriage.

04:28:18.180 You know, my problem with it is, though, is calling it cheating at all.

04:28:22.260 Like, because a man should be honest about it. 1.00

04:28:23.800 It's the fucking cowards that I have a problem with. 1.00

04:28:25.700 It's the dude that's too scared to tell you to your face. 1.00

04:28:28.460 That is cheating.

04:28:29.440 And every girl I see watches every podcast I do.

04:28:32.480 So let me see if I can give you a little bit of hope in this hopeless situation here.

04:28:36.980 So in July, I will have been married for 27 years. 0.99

04:28:40.700 Damn. 0.99

04:28:41.100 I have never brought another woman in. 1.00

04:28:43.060 Don't clap.

04:28:43.520 I'm just doing what I'm supposed to do.

04:28:45.500 Not every man is like Rollo.

04:28:46.640 So here's the thing is when it comes to infidelity, and this is men and women, but in the case, since we're talking about men here, men cheat for two reasons.

04:28:55.940 Or there's two factors involved when men cheat, okay?

04:28:59.560 Opportunity, which we were just discussing, and a reason, okay?

04:29:03.000 Most men today are overweight.

04:29:05.840 75% of guys are overweight.

04:29:07.900 A good 30% of those guys.

04:29:09.400 35% of those guys are morbidly obese.

04:29:12.020 He's 100%. 0.99

04:29:12.600 Walk through any major airport right now, and you will see just how optionless, just by looking at these guys, that these guys are not going to cheat because they have no, no one wants to fuck these guys, okay? 0.99

04:29:23.660 As simple as that. 0.99

04:29:24.800 Uh-oh.

04:29:25.380 Uh-oh.

04:29:25.980 Exactly.

04:29:26.600 Uh-oh.

04:29:26.940 The second part of this.

04:29:28.420 Looks like he watched after all.

04:29:29.940 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

04:29:30.660 There's your $100.

04:29:31.660 Is that the payment?

04:29:33.780 So, and then the second part of this is that, is a reason, okay?

04:29:37.980 A lot of guys have a reason to cheat.

04:29:40.380 They just don't have any opportunity to cheat.

04:29:42.200 Nobody wants to bang them, okay? 0.97

04:29:43.800 Then there's guys like me who have plenty of opportunity, but my wife gives me no fucking reason to cheat, okay? 0.92

04:29:49.920 So, when I come on a show like this, you know who, you know what we do every other week, right?

04:29:54.860 I'm going to places.

04:29:56.020 My wife trusts me implicitly, and I have respect for my wife as well.

04:30:00.120 It is closed on her end and closed on my end, and that's the way it's been for coming up on 27 years right now.

04:30:06.020 So, people in the red pill will say, oh, Rolo's red, he's red pill, he can't be married, or he can't be married because he's red pill, right?

04:30:13.520 They don't know.

04:30:14.100 I'm confusing to them. 0.99

04:30:15.360 That's why I get in trouble with sons of bitches like Matt Walsh and Ben Shapiro and Lauren Chen, because they don't know my background. 1.00

04:30:21.560 They have no clue what they're talking about. 1.00

04:30:23.360 90% of the people who are critics of the red pill simply don't know what the fuck they're talking about. 0.99

04:30:28.940 Yeah. 0.98

04:30:29.100 So, when I am out there and I'm talking about this stuff, people go, people want to, like, for instance, I've been married longer than Ben Shapiro.

04:30:37.600 I've been married longer than Matt Walsh.

04:30:40.480 I've been married longer than 90% of people.

04:30:42.140 And you're in love with Ben Shapiro.

04:30:42.720 And I'm very much in love, and before we came out here, I knocked it out with my wife.

04:30:46.280 Longer than Steven Crowder?

04:30:47.520 Longer than Steven Crowder?

04:30:48.940 No.

04:30:49.880 Yes, actually, longer than Steven Crowder.

04:30:51.380 But, again, that's – but, see, when I say that, it sounds like a flex.

04:30:54.800 I'm not trying to flex, and that's why I said don't clap, okay, because that's just the way my relationship works.

04:31:01.200 It doesn't work the same way that there is, and it's a lifestyle choice that I happen to be in, and I want – I will, you know, be happy – I'm happy where I'm at where it's at.

04:31:09.760 So, it's not a lack of – it's not a lack of opportunity.

04:31:12.780 It's a lack of a reason, because my wife takes care of me sexually and in every other sense as well. 1.00

04:31:17.800 So, it's not – I'm not in a polythruple. 0.96

04:31:20.660 I'm not in a fucking, you know, open relationship. 0.84

04:31:23.100 I know it sounds odd. 0.96

04:31:24.760 I hope it makes a comeback someday, but it's closed on my end, and it's closed on her end.

04:31:28.460 You know what else? 0.93

04:31:29.020 She doesn't advertise on fucking OnlyFans or Instagram or whatever. 0.99

04:31:33.040 You can go – it frustrates the fuck out of my haters because they go and they try to find my wife on OnlyFans or they try to find her on fucking Instagram or Facebook. 0.99

04:31:40.920 She simply doesn't have social media. 0.99

04:31:43.960 That's it.

04:31:44.640 So, you can stop looking.

04:31:46.260 I can appreciate that they're disclosing that to their wives or significant others or whatever, but I think pushing that message will harm society and not help it.

04:31:57.920 The problem is – okay, so let me – now I'll take issue with that.

04:32:01.100 The reason why it won't harm society is because what they're doing is just in response to what the sexual marketplace has become right now. 1.00

04:32:07.480 As I said, everybody here says, men ain't shit. 0.99

04:32:10.480 I got to go get my bag. 0.99

04:32:11.640 I got to go and have my long-term security. 0.99

04:32:13.500 These guys are worthless. 1.00

04:32:15.140 They are either abusers, they are, you know, incompetent, or they're like doofy Homer Simpson guys. 1.00

04:32:20.620 Those are your choices.

04:32:21.940 So, for the last three or four generations, we have turned women into the men that they wanted to marry in the first place because they become strong, independent women because they had to be because they can't rely on men to do what Justin is saying, right?

04:32:35.400 So, what happens is that changes the sexual economy that is the sexual marketplace, and what happens is this is just a reaction to the market, to stresses that are in an economy. 0.97

04:32:46.620 So, we – right now, I'm a freaking dinosaur when it comes to fucking – to marriage because I'm the last of a dying breed right now because the economy, the sexual economy has changed. 0.96

04:32:57.980 You should read that. 0.99

04:32:59.040 Yeah, yeah, well, there you go.

04:33:01.560 My question is –

04:33:02.500 Well, we do – we do have to keep things moving.

04:33:05.360 Let's read Destiny's message on this.

04:33:07.140 We'll get to Destiny's.

04:33:08.060 We got to move things on because I'm going to try to wrap the show.

04:33:10.940 I just want to – since we're speaking of Andrew Tate really quickly, Justin, you are involved in the war room.

04:33:17.460 Is that correct?

04:33:18.720 What's your involvement there?

04:33:19.820 Are you like the number two guy or like how – what's your – if you could just into the mic.

04:33:23.260 I hope guys get into the war room every day and to the real world.

04:33:27.160 It's the best school on the planet.

04:33:28.540 It's just something that me and Andrew decided to do together.

04:33:31.580 It's completely Andrew's.

04:33:32.820 It's just something that I'm a part of on a high-level team.

04:33:36.080 So, you could say the same for Sartorial Shooter or many of the other guys like Lou Barnett.

04:33:42.540 You know, we just kind of came together and decided to put a group effort into something that's changing the world, man.

04:33:47.480 And it's the most fulfilling work I've ever done.

04:33:49.900 Rock and roll.

04:33:50.360 All right, let's get to Destiny's chats here.

04:33:53.700 So, first off, Destiny, thank you for the $100 soup chat.

04:33:56.560 Much appreciated, man.

04:33:57.320 Looking forward to having you on the show in about, what, two weeks, is it?

04:34:01.780 The 16th, right?

04:34:02.520 Yeah, 16th.

04:34:03.320 Destiny will be on the show.

04:34:05.940 And we have this soup chat from Destiny.

04:34:09.500 Avery, will you read this for us?

04:34:11.240 This is an absolutely delusional talking point that only exists in red pill circles. 0.96

04:34:15.440 Women do not tolerate men cheating, especially not women that run in circles with HBM men.

04:34:20.360 Only red pill guys say this.

04:34:22.020 No sane woman will agree to these arrangements. 1.00

04:34:24.440 So, the problem is, the problem is what he's saying is simply just factually incorrect.

04:34:28.960 The idea that no woman would agree to these arrangements.

04:34:31.820 There's just no way that you can go through, again, I know there's some women who don't agree to these arrangements. 0.87

04:34:36.180 My point is, no, that's not it, because I don't cheat on her.

04:34:38.320 That's not what he's saying.

04:34:39.900 What he's saying is that there are Russian oligarchs who are around high status, high value men that do this.

04:34:45.000 There are athletes.

04:34:46.000 There's Jason Derulo's wife.

04:34:47.300 Like, I can come up with hundreds of examples.

04:34:49.340 What he said is that no sane woman would agree to these, that's just simply not factually.

04:34:53.720 What he's saying is simply...

04:34:54.720 It's just no true Scotsman.

04:34:55.780 What he's saying is hyperbole.

04:34:57.080 Low-key destiny is giving me major cuck vibes.

04:34:59.620 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

04:35:00.880 Hold on.

04:35:01.300 Do you want to say something?

04:35:02.120 Go ahead.

04:35:02.500 Low-key destiny is giving me major cuck vibes.

04:35:05.420 I don't know who he is, but I'm reading...

04:35:07.200 Yes, you do.

04:35:07.840 Just come on.

04:35:08.260 I don't.

04:35:08.860 I don't.

04:35:09.240 Deadass, I don't know who he is.

04:35:10.340 You know who Sneeko is. 1.00

04:35:11.280 You know who the fuck Destiny is. 0.99

04:35:12.440 Come on now. 0.99

04:35:12.860 I don't know.

04:35:13.560 I don't know.

04:35:14.020 Who are we bullshitting?

04:35:15.240 I'm getting major cuck vibes. 0.89

04:35:19.340 I just wanted to throw that out there.

04:35:20.500 Sorry, sorry.

04:35:21.500 I'm sorry I said that in front of his girl, but I'm sorry.

04:35:23.140 Yeah, you threw it in.

04:35:23.880 Really quick question.

04:35:24.660 So you're friends with Destiny, correct?

04:35:27.240 You said, you know, in terms of the person you're eventually looking to get with, you

04:35:30.800 know, you want this really good connection, whatever it may be.

04:35:35.120 Ship, you and Destiny?

04:35:36.740 Is it...

04:35:37.100 A married poly man?

04:35:38.680 That definitely fits my hopeless romantic criteria.

04:35:41.180 Maybe the connection's there.

04:35:43.040 You and Destiny?

04:35:43.860 Like, is it...

04:35:45.560 Is this a whatever exclusive?

04:35:47.320 Are you guys...

04:35:48.280 Yeah, there's been...

04:35:49.200 Comments about it.

04:35:50.020 Are you guys, like...

04:35:50.580 Legitimately, a polyamorous relationship is the arrangement he's saying that no sane woman

04:35:56.380 would get into.

04:35:57.200 Yeah.

04:35:57.620 He's literally doing it.

04:35:59.120 He's literally doing it.

04:35:59.980 And I know he's going to come back and say...

04:36:01.060 Okay, I'm going to say my point.

04:36:01.740 How would you feel if he got another girl pregnant?

04:36:05.500 Hmm?

04:36:05.960 That would never...

04:36:06.960 Wait, are we...

04:36:07.600 How can you say that that wouldn't happen?

04:36:09.700 Because I'm not...

04:36:10.460 We don't...

04:36:10.840 It's not like he just goes and does...

04:36:12.880 He doesn't go and do things without me.

04:36:14.960 I'm a part of it, always.

04:36:17.100 If I'm not a part of it, then yes, that's cheating.

04:36:18.960 And I would be, like, gone.

04:36:20.560 Because I'm giving you all that, like, don't worry about it.

04:36:22.860 So, that's what my question...

04:36:23.460 They're like, no.

04:36:24.160 I'm a part of it, always.

04:36:25.340 So, like, I know what's going on.

04:36:26.600 What do you...

04:36:27.340 Like, I know nobody could get...

04:36:28.980 Using me as an example.

04:36:29.720 It wouldn't happen.

04:36:30.260 As an example.

04:36:31.400 Wait, what are you talking about?

04:36:32.560 If she's in a hypothetical relationship, would she be upset if that happened? 0.88

04:36:36.080 Is that what you're saying?

04:36:37.360 Hypothetically speaking, if, like, the guy I was dating got another girl pregnant, would

04:36:41.440 I be mad about it?

04:36:42.200 Yeah.

04:36:42.680 Because I'm asking in this scenario, what happens when the...

04:36:45.760 Not the, like, main woman, right? 0.94

04:36:47.920 The wife. 0.68

04:36:48.720 What happens when another woman gets pregnant? 1.00

04:36:51.280 Like, would you have a problem with that?

04:36:53.520 Are we...

04:36:54.080 I am...

04:36:54.680 Is this on...

04:36:55.180 Are we reacting to the tape clip, or are we...

04:36:57.540 I would have a problem with that.

04:36:58.520 Is this in response to Destiny?

04:36:58.860 She's still...

04:36:59.480 The Destiny thing.

04:37:00.080 Oh, that's right.

04:37:00.640 Is it related to that?

04:37:02.280 I don't know.

04:37:02.680 I don't know.

04:37:02.920 I don't know if the Destiny thing's going on now.

04:37:04.000 No, I mean, it's...

04:37:04.040 That's a good point.

04:37:05.520 I mean, does Destiny not live exactly that lifestyle?

04:37:09.340 Well, I'm sure he's talking specifically about an arrangement of allowing men to cheat.

04:37:13.160 Well, yeah.

04:37:13.480 That's not an arrangement.

04:37:13.900 Well, no.

04:37:14.300 I mean, the other part is, like, he also presets it here, which is no sane woman, right? 0.99

04:37:20.160 Okay, well, so now we can say, well, they must be damned. 0.97

04:37:22.580 If they're doing it, there must be something very, very wrong with them. 0.98

04:37:25.320 No, he's saying if it's one-sided, his marriage is that they can both be polyamorous.

04:37:29.240 That's the difference.

04:37:30.000 Yeah, but I mean, I just, like, I mean, we can argue her sanity, but...

04:37:32.900 So that makes her sane.

04:37:35.240 He's saying the insanity would be letting it happen just on one side, just because he's

04:37:38.820 high value.

04:37:40.260 But we see it all the time.

04:37:41.340 That's number one.

04:37:41.940 And then second of all, it's like, again, as I was saying, all this is, is just a beta

04:37:46.240 male adaptation strategy, okay? 1.00

04:37:48.260 I can't get fucking laid if I don't allow my wife to go out and fuck other guys. 1.00

04:37:53.820 So, therefore, I'm going to have to go and allow this to happen so that I can go out 1.00

04:37:57.140 and do it, and she can go out and do it, too.

04:37:59.080 Whenever you have an open relationship, the one who benefits the most is usually the one

04:38:04.200 that is into it the most.

04:38:06.160 Yeah, the liberal agenda.

04:38:07.740 Okay, wait.

04:38:08.460 All right.

04:38:08.720 Dude, there's a class over here.

04:38:09.880 Wow, wow.

04:38:10.220 Like, in a vague sense, I agree with you.

04:38:12.020 I don't think that's what we're talking about right here.

04:38:13.280 Justin, it looks like you wanted to say something.

04:38:17.800 I was just going to say that there's a class of women that don't work, that raise their 1.00

04:38:21.920 own children, that live in a country club and go on vacations five, six, seven, eight

04:38:26.800 times a year, and they're laughing at women that say they wouldn't let a man cheat because 0.99

04:38:30.720 their ass is getting cheated on anyway. 1.00

04:38:32.540 And the difference is that those women that live in that country club are actually madly, 1.00

04:38:35.880 madly in love with their husband.

04:38:36.940 You can shake your head if you want, and you wouldn't leave them.

04:38:38.900 And maybe in 10 years, you're going to find out yourself when you're pushing that golf

04:38:41.820 cart.

04:38:42.060 Again, the second hyperbole, this discussion only exists in red pill circles, is, again,

04:38:48.620 absurd.

04:38:49.140 Like, that is not factual.

04:38:50.940 I can name multiple other circles that existed far before any of this happened, where women 0.99

04:38:56.000 agreed to share a high-status man.

04:38:58.460 I'm not saying all men should cheat.

04:38:59.900 That's not what I'm saying.

04:39:00.760 I'm saying his statement is hyperbole.

04:39:02.800 But my question's not being answered, which is, so let's say that woman is okay with... 1.00

04:39:08.180 No, I don't think she's okay with it.

04:39:09.760 Okay, you're right.

04:39:10.280 She hates it.

04:39:11.020 Well, I guess it's...

04:39:12.960 Well, it's not ideal, but she doesn't leave.

04:39:14.560 Does she not care, then, if a kid, if somebody has a kid with another one?

04:39:17.120 No, I think she...

04:39:17.680 Yeah, absolutely.

04:39:18.880 You want to know the truth?

04:39:21.140 Yeah.

04:39:21.480 At some level of man, the woman stops fighting for sexual exclusivity and starts fighting 0.98

04:39:26.160 for a position.

04:39:28.260 That is so... 1.00

04:39:29.200 I know it's fucked, right? 1.00

04:39:30.060 That's so evil. 1.00

04:39:30.500 But it's true.

04:39:30.820 It's completely true.

04:39:31.700 It's not right.

04:39:33.220 It's not right.

04:39:35.400 Nobody said it was fair.

04:39:36.500 Life is not fair.

04:39:37.220 It's not fair that men get drafted into war.

04:39:38.940 I agree that life is not fair.

04:39:40.600 I agree.

04:39:40.760 Yeah, and I'm not saying it's fair, and I'm not saying...

04:39:42.720 Look, I say all the time, if I could stroke a check for a million dollars right now and

04:39:46.020 make that feeling come out of me, I'd write it today.

04:39:48.880 Yeah.

04:39:49.480 I'd write a check.

04:39:49.700 When people hit me up, I know people will criticize me of this, too.

04:39:53.200 They'll say, Rolly, you are anti-marriage.

04:39:54.760 I could be anti-marriage.

04:39:55.600 You've been married for as long as you have.

04:39:56.720 It's like, once again, I am not anti-marriage.

04:39:59.700 I'm not anti what you want.

04:40:01.440 I think that's actually a good, you know, ideal to strive for.

04:40:05.860 I'm just saying today, it is untenable, and the way we do marriage today, I can't advocate

04:40:11.240 for it.

04:40:11.860 I can't say, hey, everybody ought to get married, because it's all downside risk for guys

04:40:16.460 right now.

04:40:16.920 It is all responsibility and 0% authority.

04:40:19.820 What he's saying right here, men still have authority, because it's like, it's open on my

04:40:24.800 end, and it's closed on your end.

04:40:26.100 And unless you, it's comply or goodbye, right? 0.96

04:40:28.640 It's you, and it's not like he's forcing her to stay there as some sort of sex slave chained 0.99

04:40:34.200 to the kitchen floor. 0.98

04:40:35.420 Yeah, I don't think that.

04:40:36.160 It would be a situation where she, like, the man is honestly, she's choosing you, and what's

04:40:44.180 really messed up about it, honestly, I sometimes believe it's harder for women, because by the

04:40:49.700 time you find the man that clicks off all those boxes, he is in so much abundance of women 0.86

04:40:54.320 that you're in a, not a very good negotiating position.

04:40:57.300 I'm not advocating that you go, like, I'm not trying to tell you that you should accept

04:41:00.720 a man that cheats.

04:41:01.520 I think that every person in this world should have choice.

04:41:03.920 But I am saying there's a lot of relationship dynamics that are out there, that are acceptable,

04:41:08.260 that are far less, destinies being one of them, that I personally wouldn't want, that

04:41:13.660 are far less, let's say, a bad situation than the traditional man that takes care of you 0.99

04:41:19.380 fully and might slip out every now and then, but comes home, holds you at night, tucks 0.98

04:41:22.960 in the babies and a damn good father. 0.99

04:41:24.840 That's what I would say. 0.99

04:41:26.840 Can you two get off your cell phones, please?

04:41:28.580 We're about to wrap up here pretty soon.

04:41:31.480 Destiny, confirm or deny, is there a romantic thing going on?

04:41:37.100 Is there, Destiny, confirm or deny, is there, do you think, like, if he wasn't doing this,

04:41:41.000 like, polygamous open marriage thing, would you, like, he's a smart guy.

04:41:44.620 He's a good, smart, super intelligent dude.

04:41:47.180 If he wasn't banging Lauren Southern, would you be with me?

04:41:49.680 Do you feel any chemistry in any of the chemistry that you stated before?

04:41:53.220 Do you feel any of it towards Destiny?

04:41:54.260 I'm trying to be the wingman.

04:41:54.760 I'm trying to wingman for Destiny, like, you know, you down?

04:41:58.220 I think we click well, yeah.

04:41:59.780 Destiny?

04:42:00.460 Like, can I, like, arrange a date between you guys?

04:42:02.320 Sure, yeah.

04:42:03.000 I mean, you guys are already connected.

04:42:04.180 I mean, we live in the same city, yeah, but you can arrange it.

04:42:06.860 Okay, sweet.

04:42:07.460 Yeah.

04:42:07.840 Okay. 0.99

04:42:08.200 He might be the guy that takes your virginity. 0.76

04:42:10.320 I'm taking credit for this romance that's going to blossom.

04:42:13.840 Okay, last video, and then we're going to wrap.

04:42:19.000 Let's play the Patrice clip, and then wrap on that.

04:42:21.660 Oh, do we have any Super Chats, Eric, or are we good?

04:42:23.980 I think we're good.

04:42:24.940 Destiny was the last one.

04:42:28.100 All right, let's play the Patrice clip. 0.60

04:42:29.520 We'll react to it, and then we're going to wrap.

04:42:30.460 Destiny.

04:42:31.780 Stick the landing.

04:42:33.020 Let me ask you a question.

04:42:33.720 Here's a question.

04:42:34.700 See this question.

04:42:36.660 Okay, ladies. 1.00

04:42:37.380 Pay attention. 1.00

04:42:37.640 If you didn't have a vagina, like, say it was a terrible train accident, right? 1.00

04:42:43.700 And the doctor was like, we have to remove your pussy right away, or you're going to die. 1.00

04:42:52.680 How would you keep your man past you get a two-month guilty, I can't leave the bitch right away because you just lost the pussy in the train accident? 1.00

04:43:01.060 Can't just walk right out on us. 1.00

04:43:11.120 How would you keep your man past that if you didn't have a vagina? 1.00

04:43:16.460 Pause it, Eric. 1.00

04:43:17.580 Okay, we're going to have the girls respond. 1.00

04:43:19.240 Did you do this last time?

04:43:20.720 Were you?

04:43:21.020 No.

04:43:21.440 You didn't do it?

04:43:21.840 Okay, so how do you keep your man?

04:43:23.740 Terrible train accident. 1.00

04:43:25.160 Pussy's gone. 1.00

04:43:25.740 Lost the pussy. 1.00

04:43:26.580 There was a train accident. 1.00

04:43:28.460 What do you do to keep your man? 0.99

04:43:30.300 Well, there's still blowjobs. 0.99

04:43:32.460 Okay. 0.99

04:43:33.220 Yeah.

04:43:34.340 I have no argument against that.

04:43:36.560 I have none.

04:43:37.840 We'll go around the table like this.

04:43:39.180 Go ahead.

04:43:39.980 I mean, I'd keep doing the same thing.

04:43:41.440 My relationship history has already operated that way.

04:43:44.780 She's a virgin, that's right. 1.00

04:43:45.880 And perhaps her vagina did come off in a train accident. 1.00

04:43:47.980 We don't know about it yet. 0.99

04:43:49.120 There have been some train accidents in this country recently, 1.00

04:43:51.900 so it's plausible that a woman could have lost her pussy in a train accident. 1.00

04:43:55.520 Virginity just might be a cope for a loss of vagina. 1.00

04:43:58.400 Some girls are butthole virgins. 1.00

04:44:00.100 There you go. 1.00

04:44:03.060 Particularly church girls.

04:44:05.020 No soaking.

04:44:05.580 No soaking.

04:44:07.980 Go ahead.

04:44:09.340 What do you do to keep your man?

04:44:12.100 Just, I don't know.

04:44:13.900 I'd probably make him my work husband, honestly.

04:44:16.200 I mean, not work husband, my house husband.

04:44:18.480 The one that takes care of the house,

04:44:20.280 and then I'm the one that pays for everything.

04:44:23.120 But how would you satisfy him?

04:44:24.620 How would I satisfy him?

04:44:26.520 What would you do to keep your man?

04:44:28.620 Well, honestly, I don't have to try a lot,

04:44:30.860 because I already have personality.

04:44:32.160 I already have everything that's there. 1.00

04:44:33.660 Of course, but I didn't need my pussy to even talk to this dude. 0.99

04:44:37.800 That's what a lot of people fail to realize. 1.00

04:44:39.920 So he's just going to jerk off? 1.00

04:44:41.180 To talk to him? 1.00

04:44:41.860 I mean, he could go cheap.

04:44:43.320 Honestly, that's why a lot of people...

04:44:44.920 Are you guys talking as far as sexual pleasure?

04:44:48.900 Well, let's just let the girls answer, 1.00

04:44:50.240 and then we can come in afterwards.

04:44:51.500 Are you talking as far as sexual pleasure?

04:44:53.260 Is that what we're talking about?

04:44:54.520 Or just...

04:44:55.360 We don't have to...

04:44:56.660 Or are we talking about what else are they benefiting besides that?

04:45:00.520 Well, it's kind of scuffed now.

04:45:02.020 But just whatever, however you take it,

04:45:06.240 his question is,

04:45:07.100 what do you do to keep your man however you want to view it?

04:45:09.400 Just go ahead.

04:45:12.400 Quality time.

04:45:13.920 Okay.

04:45:14.480 Quality time.

04:45:15.200 Quality time.

04:45:16.020 Sure.

04:45:16.460 Okay.

04:45:16.800 Quality time.

04:45:17.080 What do you...

04:45:17.860 They can put badges on dudes now,

04:45:20.000 so they can just put one back.

04:45:22.260 What?

04:45:23.380 Wait.

04:45:24.160 It's late.

04:45:25.020 It's late.

04:45:25.500 You ever hear Chris Chan?

04:45:27.000 You know how he tried to...

04:45:29.380 Everybody in the chat who's seen this bit already

04:45:31.980 is just like chomping at the bit.

04:45:33.880 I thought there was a thing behind me for a second. 0.98

04:45:38.740 I was scared as shit. 0.90

04:45:39.800 I was like, what is that on the screen? 0.99

04:45:42.640 What do you do to keep your men?

04:45:44.160 Okay.

04:45:44.420 What was the question?

04:45:46.020 Bro, really?

04:45:46.820 Bro, I don't...

04:45:47.740 If you're a giant, 1.00

04:45:48.780 you didn't have a vagina anymore. 1.00

04:45:50.660 Terrible train accident. 1.00

04:45:51.500 Lost the pussy. 1.00

04:45:52.040 What do you do to keep your men? 1.00

04:45:52.900 I'm not used to having trains run on me,

04:45:53.660 so I wouldn't know.

04:45:54.500 Oh, God.

04:45:54.960 Jesus Christ.

04:45:55.720 Oh, God.

04:45:56.600 Okay.

04:45:56.880 I'm sorry.

04:45:57.360 I'm sorry.

04:45:57.880 I'm sorry.

04:45:58.220 I'm sorry.

04:45:58.500 I'm sorry.

04:45:58.780 I'm sorry.

04:45:58.940 That was a good one.

04:45:59.620 Okay.

04:45:59.800 I'm sorry.

04:46:01.240 It was alright.

04:46:02.380 How about another joke?

04:46:04.820 I'm sorry. 0.98

04:46:05.840 You don't call retarded people retards. 0.97

04:46:08.720 Oh, that's going to get in trouble. 0.99

04:46:09.920 Hold on.

04:46:10.240 Hold on.

04:46:10.600 Never mind.

04:46:10.840 I was going to say that word.

04:46:11.540 That's what we're going to call you.

04:46:12.760 I honestly don't...

04:46:13.840 It's alright.

04:46:14.200 They don't want you past the six-hour mark.

04:46:16.860 I don't know.

04:46:16.880 This question is a bit haram.

04:46:18.880 I don't know if I can answer that.

04:46:20.020 Alright.

04:46:20.480 Moving on.

04:46:20.920 Go ahead.

04:46:21.180 What do you do to keep your men into the mic, please?

04:46:23.280 Inside my marriage,

04:46:24.900 my body is my husband's,

04:46:26.780 and his body is mine.

04:46:29.100 So anything and everything...

04:46:31.060 What?

04:46:32.220 Okay.

04:46:33.880 Kylie, what about you?

04:46:34.620 I would chop it off.

04:46:35.620 Now we're even. 1.00

04:46:36.740 You'd chop his penis off? 1.00

04:46:38.480 Of course. 1.00

04:46:40.020 Okay. 0.97

04:46:40.620 Stay away from the trans, by the way. 1.00

04:46:41.980 Just saying. 0.95

04:46:43.200 Okay.

04:46:43.800 Eric, play the rest of it.

04:46:44.820 I didn't really take the bait, but...

04:46:47.820 A couple of them.

04:46:52.340 Wow.

04:46:53.940 Nothing?

04:46:54.520 You can talk.

04:46:55.120 You can talk. 1.00

04:46:59.420 Suck his dick. 1.00

04:47:00.260 Okay. 1.00

04:47:00.840 Mouth. 1.00

04:47:01.220 Asshole. 1.00

04:47:05.820 Asshole. 1.00

04:47:06.360 Okay. 1.00

04:47:06.720 Right.

04:47:08.220 You see what I'm saying?

04:47:09.500 Now, I've been getting pussybeating the whole show, right?

04:47:12.140 But I give women the opportunity to say, 0.87

04:47:13.960 I'm going to make myself worth more.

04:47:15.900 But you just classified yourself as a series of holes.

04:47:19.300 But, you know, I'm supposed to teach you the special, 0.85

04:47:26.400 but you're just a bunch of holes for yourself.

04:47:30.720 No one said learn how to play Xbox,

04:47:32.900 learn how to play play,

04:47:33.880 tell better stories, 1.00

04:47:36.100 get another bitch that got a pussy to come on in. 1.00

04:47:41.480 Well, look, whatever. 1.00

04:47:42.860 Avery, what was your answer again? 0.99

04:47:46.740 Blowjobs. 0.97

04:47:48.400 RIP's in the chat for Avery, guys.

04:47:50.100 Okay.

04:47:50.880 Atta girl. 0.73

04:47:51.420 All right.

04:47:51.640 I'm going to wrap up here.

04:47:52.740 Anybody, last opportunity.

04:47:55.700 Speak now or forever.

04:47:56.440 Hold your peace.

04:47:59.120 Anybody?

04:47:59.860 Do you have anything to say to Destiny?

04:48:01.240 You seem like you're chomping at the bit. 0.97

04:48:02.820 I don't fucking know. 0.98

04:48:03.920 I just... 0.98

04:48:04.320 Come on.

04:48:04.540 Get the cuck line in again.

04:48:05.680 One more time.

04:48:06.140 One more time.

04:48:07.640 Destiny, I read your little chat. 0.96

04:48:09.920 You seem like a cuck low-key. 0.93

04:48:11.780 Bro. 0.99

04:48:12.160 I'm sorry to say that in front of your girlfriend.

04:48:13.740 I'm sorry to say that in front of your girlfriend.

04:48:14.800 You know that, right?

04:48:15.500 Okay.

04:48:15.800 I'm sorry to say that in front of your girlfriend.

04:48:16.680 I don't know Destiny that well.

04:48:17.860 I need to stand up for him.

04:48:18.340 I don't know him that well either,

04:48:19.240 but I'm basing this on the chat.

04:48:19.980 I know.

04:48:20.280 We should defend him.

04:48:21.080 I'm going to defend Destiny. 0.96

04:48:22.400 You don't know him to call him a cuck. 0.98

04:48:24.100 That's how dare you. 0.95

04:48:24.600 Okay, but based on the chat.

04:48:25.980 Based on the chat.

04:48:26.900 Based on what he said.

04:48:28.100 You're taking their word?

04:48:29.640 Just based on what he said.

04:48:30.300 Do you know what he looks like?

04:48:31.560 Should we pull up...

04:48:31.860 I don't know what he looks like.

04:48:32.480 Should we pull up a quick Google?

04:48:33.240 I don't want to know what he looks like.

04:48:34.400 Okay.

04:48:34.960 I think that would be great.

04:48:36.520 Let's see Destiny.

04:48:37.380 Just so there's a little context.

04:48:38.460 Everybody knows what he looks like now.

04:48:40.000 By the way, Destiny,

04:48:40.880 is this...

04:48:42.640 Am I abusing?

04:48:43.800 Am I...

04:48:44.080 Is this like a little...

04:48:45.460 No.

04:48:45.840 Am I...

04:48:46.220 Oh, boy.

04:48:46.960 I just want people to know what he looks like.

04:48:49.040 I mean, I saw a cuck, 0.94

04:48:50.220 so I said cuck.

04:48:50.880 Oh, my God. 0.56

04:48:51.540 I just want people...

04:48:52.220 Eric, Google Destiny.

04:48:53.660 Hello?

04:48:54.080 Oh, that works too.

04:48:55.000 Uh-oh.

04:48:55.840 Okay.

04:48:56.320 All right.

04:48:56.620 Okay, the blue hair tells me everything I need to know.

04:48:58.820 Drag Queen Story Hour?

04:48:59.980 Hey, don't judge a book by its cover.

04:49:03.380 Listen.

04:49:04.540 There's him and his four wives.

04:49:06.340 His four wives? 0.93

04:49:07.400 I think...

04:49:07.820 No, he has one wife.

04:49:08.580 Four wives. 0.99

04:49:09.220 How did he accumulate this many concubines?

04:49:11.640 That's my question.

04:49:12.400 Look at that.

04:49:13.160 Is that a conductor's hat?

04:49:14.200 I remember when he fought The Undertaker

04:49:15.540 in that cage match. 0.95

04:49:16.820 Oh, I'm sorry.

04:49:17.540 I'm too old.

04:49:18.380 I apologize.

04:49:19.380 Should we all...

04:49:20.860 Would girls... 1.00

04:49:22.860 Destiny...

04:49:24.080 Smash or pass.

04:49:24.940 Go.

04:49:25.260 Smash or pass.

04:49:25.780 By the way, just some context.

04:49:27.160 Like Destiny, he's like...

04:49:28.820 That's funny.

04:49:29.580 He's a super high IQ dude.

04:49:31.340 Like, I think Destiny's a super intelligent guy.

04:49:34.440 Successful Twitch...

04:49:35.360 Or, well, not Twitch streamer anymore.

04:49:36.840 Sorry, Destiny.

04:49:38.140 Successful streamer.

04:49:39.860 Successful doing content creation.

04:49:42.440 Super intelligent dude.

04:49:44.240 Probably, like, one of the top debaters out there.

04:49:48.140 Zestiny.

04:49:49.840 Zestiny?

04:49:50.340 Is that what he's called?

04:49:52.360 He does have blue hair.

04:49:53.480 He's zesty.

04:49:53.940 Very zesty.

04:49:54.240 Some girls are down with the blue hair. 1.00

04:49:55.800 Very zesty.

04:49:56.520 Very zesty, zesty.

04:49:57.060 Zesty?

04:49:58.040 Zesty, yeah.

04:49:58.720 Zesty.

04:49:59.460 Okay.

04:50:00.480 Avery, would you...

04:50:01.980 Just based off his looks, yeah.

04:50:03.520 I think he looks good.

04:50:04.440 All right.

04:50:04.940 Cool.

04:50:05.780 Smash.

04:50:06.400 Smash.

04:50:06.860 Okay.

04:50:07.320 Oh, see.

04:50:08.160 Boom.

04:50:09.240 All right.

04:50:09.900 There it is. 1.00

04:50:10.100 Girl, you would break the internet if you did that shit. 1.00

04:50:12.840 Wait, pass. 1.00

04:50:14.600 Is it the blue hair?

04:50:17.000 Is it...

04:50:17.340 Smash or pass.

04:50:19.020 I just...

04:50:19.780 Not your type?

04:50:20.240 I don't like what he's into.

04:50:21.440 His morals, I just not...

04:50:23.160 Is your type more like teardrop tattoo?

04:50:26.520 No, it's somebody who can make me laugh and share the same things that I like.

04:50:30.800 Destiny's funny.

04:50:31.640 He's a funny guy.

04:50:32.500 He's smart, too.

04:50:33.260 I guess I have to meet him.

04:50:34.720 Okay.

04:50:35.020 Can I arrange a meeting between you and Destiny?

04:50:38.160 Like, maybe it could be a triple date or something, like you guys?

04:50:41.440 Yeah.

04:50:41.640 What?

04:50:42.000 Sorry.

04:50:42.560 I'm sorry.

04:50:42.980 Different dates.

04:50:43.820 I don't mean to...

04:50:44.740 I'm kind of like...

04:50:46.540 Okay.

04:50:46.860 All right.

04:50:47.120 Whatever.

04:50:47.440 What about you?

04:50:47.860 Take birth control.

04:50:48.520 Would you date him?

04:50:49.520 Would you go for Destiny and not your type?

04:50:52.700 Pass.

04:50:53.320 Okay.

04:50:54.740 Hardcore pass.

04:50:55.780 Bro, you guys are ruthless.

04:50:57.880 What about you?

04:50:58.360 I already said everything.

04:50:59.620 I think we know her.

04:51:00.800 I don't know.

04:51:01.380 Maybe she... 0.97

04:51:01.740 You know her answer.

04:51:02.400 You know what, though?

04:51:03.220 Maybe despite her scathing review, she might still be down.

04:51:07.720 What's his favorite video game?

04:51:08.820 That's my question.

04:51:09.680 We should set you up with Nick Fuentes.

04:51:10.960 Does anybody know...

04:51:12.280 What's that game he plays with the...

04:51:13.900 It's...

04:51:14.180 Factorio.

04:51:14.820 League of Legends.

04:51:15.900 No, no, no.

04:51:16.360 It's...

04:51:16.920 He plays it while he's streaming.

04:51:18.980 Factorio.

04:51:20.040 Factorio.

04:51:20.560 Thank you.

04:51:20.920 It's Factorio.

04:51:22.660 I've never heard of it.

04:51:23.540 I think I should set him up with it while he's on the stream, by the way.

04:51:26.660 He should like...

04:51:27.200 Maybe one of the Game Boys he can play while he's on the stream.

04:51:29.940 What about you?

04:51:30.420 Down for Destiny?

04:51:31.320 Hell no.

04:51:32.360 Yeah.

04:51:32.560 Into the mic, please.

04:51:33.920 Hell no.

04:51:35.760 Kylie.

04:51:36.260 Okay.

04:51:36.540 You like that blue hair? 1.00

04:51:37.240 Oh, fuck that. 1.00

04:51:38.420 Come on, man. 1.00

04:51:39.180 All right.

04:51:39.620 I don't think he's in the chat anymore.

04:51:41.020 Snappy dresser.

04:51:42.660 Funny?

04:51:43.740 Humor?

04:51:44.580 No?

04:51:45.500 Okay.

04:51:46.900 Well, then.

04:51:48.340 Last call, anybody?

04:51:49.340 Anybody?

04:51:49.880 Before I wrap up here?

04:51:54.280 Go buy Rolo's book, The Rational...

04:51:57.820 Which one?

04:51:58.300 I have five.

04:51:59.060 There's a whole bunch, guys.

04:52:00.120 I'm another author that has five books.

04:52:01.480 There's a whole bunch of those.

04:52:05.920 Oh, I have to do one question that's related to our sponsorship really quick.

04:52:08.720 I mean, whatever.

04:52:10.180 Just a show of hands, who here would date an MMA fighter?

04:52:15.120 Why would we not date an MMA fighter?

04:52:18.020 I don't know.

04:52:18.300 It's just related to that sponsorship.

04:52:19.540 We did earlier on.

04:52:20.400 I was just going to ask.

04:52:21.860 It's kind of late in the show, though.

04:52:24.360 Cool.

04:52:26.040 Just, yeah.

04:52:27.080 Date an MMA fighter.

04:52:29.040 Sorry, I'm tired.

04:52:29.880 I'm not directing this question very well.

04:52:32.320 Well, okay, in any case, go watch Access Vegas.

04:52:38.300 Yes.

04:52:38.440 Oh, Destiny is still in the chat.

04:52:40.240 Yeah.

04:52:40.460 Okay, welcome, Destiny.

04:52:41.680 Go watch Access Vegas.

04:52:42.980 Check out Justin's channel on YouTube, Jay Waller.

04:52:48.580 And join the war room and say, Jay Waller sent you.

04:52:56.580 Send me a message on Instagram or Twitter.

04:52:58.780 Can we do like a coupon code, like a whatever coupon code for like 50 bucks off?

04:53:02.300 There's no discounts in the war room.

04:53:04.040 20 bucks off?

04:53:04.900 It's all worth it.

04:53:06.600 Zero discounts in the war room.

04:53:07.940 I don't want to cut.

04:53:08.560 I'm just like trying to hook up my audience.

04:53:10.080 There's just zero discounts, bro.

04:53:11.020 Okay, fair enough.

04:53:12.540 Fair enough.

04:53:13.180 Okay, sweet guys.

04:53:14.700 Thank you guys for tuning in.

04:53:15.880 Last call.

04:53:16.480 Hit that like button, please, on your way out.

04:53:18.220 Actually, go to Twitch really quick.

04:53:19.460 Let's get, let's see, go to Twitch.

04:53:21.680 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

04:53:23.340 Drop us a Prime sub.

04:53:24.620 Drop us a follow if you have one.

04:53:26.000 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

04:53:28.260 If you have Amazon Prime, you can link it to your Twitch quick, free, easy way every single

04:53:31.800 month to support the show.

04:53:33.480 Sorry, guys, I'm dragging this on.

04:53:34.880 Master Crystal, think for the Prime.

04:53:36.200 Bob View.

04:53:36.540 I think I already think some of these people.

04:53:38.500 Bob View, think for the Prime.

04:53:39.480 Husky, think for the Prime. 0.76

04:53:40.680 Moonby, think for the Prime.

04:53:41.940 And Lionfool, think for the Prime.

04:53:43.380 We're at Dick Honch, think for the Prime.

04:53:45.780 Dick Honch.

04:53:46.880 Conquer.

04:53:47.480 Darius IRL, think for the Prime.

04:53:49.020 Sorry, excuse me.

04:53:49.920 Thank you for the follow, guys.

04:53:51.580 Thank you, guys.

04:53:52.500 Twitch.tv.

04:53:53.820 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

04:53:55.740 Go follow.

04:53:56.200 Drop us a Prime sub.

04:53:56.860 Thank you, guys.

04:53:57.740 Okay.

04:53:59.460 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

04:54:01.060 You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.

04:54:03.940 I appreciate that.

04:54:05.200 Thank you to everyone who, like, you guys blew me away tonight.

04:54:09.340 The chat was on fire.

04:54:10.360 We are just like 10,000 of you, I think was our peak.

04:54:14.200 Well, we were over 10,000 for a while.

04:54:16.040 So, thank you to everyone who super chats and supports the show, who donated through Streamlabs.

04:54:19.380 Thank you guys so much.

04:54:20.940 Big thank you to the panel.

04:54:23.840 I think we had a lively conversation there.

04:54:27.260 Thank you, everybody.

04:54:27.980 I know a lot of you came from out of town, out of state.

04:54:31.120 Out of country.

04:54:32.400 To the guys, please come back here.

04:54:34.400 It was great.

04:54:35.820 It was great.

04:54:36.400 We're driving back to Vegas tonight.

04:54:38.120 Not me.

04:54:39.100 Oh, hell yeah.

04:54:39.960 I'm going to bed.

04:54:41.040 Hey, one other thing.

04:54:41.620 Let me say this real quick.

04:54:42.620 If you check out some of Rolo and our stuff, don't do it at work.

04:54:45.640 It's not safe for work.

04:54:46.380 Yeah, we are not safe for work.

04:54:47.060 Some of the stuff we do is not safe for work.

04:54:48.420 If you go to my Instagram, for sure, do not open it at work.

04:54:51.500 Yes.

04:54:51.700 Oh, we'll be in Miami the 15th through the 21st.

04:54:54.360 We'll be doing some.

04:54:55.100 Yeah, we're raising money for animals.

04:54:56.580 Yeah, we're doing it.

04:54:57.240 We're at Project Fashion Tales.

04:54:57.940 We're doing that in Miami on the 20th.

04:55:00.400 Babes in Toyland Charity.

04:55:01.320 We have a bunch of influencers coming together to raise money for animal rescue in South Beach.

04:55:05.700 And we'll be on value attainment 17th and 18th and all kinds of places.

04:55:09.920 And then, yeah, as far as this book goes, guys.

04:55:12.960 Amazon, go get it. 0.98

04:55:14.180 I just want to say, Rolo, I read your book after a difficult breakup.

04:55:18.940 I'd sort of, kind of been aware of some of this stuff in the space a little bit.

04:55:23.240 But your book was a major kind of shift in how I started viewing things.

04:55:28.200 It helped me out majorly.

04:55:30.340 So thank you, Matt.

04:55:30.740 I'm glad you could benefit from it.

04:55:31.640 And, oh, yeah.

04:55:34.720 Here it is.

04:55:35.900 Here it is.

04:55:36.580 Oh, wholesome moment on the whatever podcast.

04:55:42.220 But, guys, definitely check out this book.

04:55:43.900 It's available in audio book format, PDF, digital.

04:55:48.600 Is there a hardback version?

04:55:50.080 Not yet, but there will be by October because the 10th anniversary edition will be out in October.

04:55:55.820 And there will be a hardback for it.

04:55:56.880 Guys, you will not know how to proceed in life.

04:55:59.400 Ten years.

04:55:59.780 If you do not read the rational mail.

04:56:04.600 So thank you to all our chat mods.

04:56:06.300 Thank you to Chaz.

04:56:07.340 Oh, yeah.

04:56:08.120 Sorry, Chaz. 0.99

04:56:08.680 I thought.

04:56:09.160 Whatever.

04:56:09.760 Okay.

04:56:10.720 Any women who want to be on the show, DM at. 1.00

04:56:13.660 Actually, excuse me.

04:56:14.780 Our DMs on whatever are broken.

04:56:16.660 DM BD underscore Atlas.

04:56:18.060 That's my Instagram.

04:56:18.840 Just while our Instagram DMs are broken.

04:56:21.100 We'll be live again Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific.

04:56:24.880 Justin will be joining us again for that show, right?

04:56:27.600 You'll be joining us.

04:56:28.500 And we're going to have a very solid panel for that show, too.

04:56:32.680 So be sure to tune to that.

04:56:34.160 That's Tuesday, 7 p.m. Pacific.

04:56:36.520 Justin will be joining us.

04:56:38.260 Anyways, thank you guys again for tuning in.

04:56:40.280 We will see you next time.

04:56:42.060 Have a good night, guys.

04:56:43.640 Good night.

04:56:44.240 Good night.

04:56:45.920 Boom.

04:56:46.440 Look at that.

Whatever Podcast - May 09, 2023

Dating Talk #72

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