Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #73

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00:04:46.240 whatever um before i have the guests introduce myself so i just want to address a couple other things

00:04:50.460 um so uh and it's been ongoing for a while now but um i've been having like chronic neck and back

00:04:57.920 pain issues for many years recently have one of the worst flare-ups ever for my neck even with that

00:05:02.980 three-week break i took it's been really bad uh so i'm not and have not been at 100 percent been

00:05:08.560 dealing like i said dealing with it for a really long time basically operating at 50 percent um if i was

00:05:14.100 at 100 just be much sharper quicker probably do like three or four shows a week but um you're still

00:05:19.340 killing it brian thank you yeah i try i try i persist even though i'm like in pain over here

00:05:24.740 but um and it and honestly anyone who's ever had any neck issues often comes with headaches and brain

00:05:29.700 fog so you know i see the comments some people are saying like i'm really not on point you guys

00:05:34.500 aren't wrong it's just like hard for me to be as well spoken and articulate as i'd like to be just

00:05:39.400 because i have like some brain fog and headache issues all the time so sometimes i get lost but i'm

00:05:44.640 working on it um so but appreciate you guys who still support me and watch the show despite that

00:05:48.780 which also leads me to this so the last show chase was on because of the stress and because of some

00:05:54.780 of the pain issues um i lost my cool and um i could have handled it way better basically something came

00:06:00.500 up that i didn't really want to talk about it came up and um i kind of uh you know i i lost my cool

00:06:06.980 i got upset at chase i got upset at um sam so uh i apologize i apologized to chase after the show

00:06:14.380 just under enormous amount of stress so uh it was a little misdirected wish i handled it better but

00:06:18.920 uh yeah so uh good to have chase back we're the homies it was just it was just like a 30 second

00:06:24.300 thing and the last podcast yeah i'm not i'm not tripping on it yeah so um brian's trying to manage a

00:06:29.500 lot here fam yeah there's a lot going on behind the scenes um and just you know trying to get 10

00:06:35.420 people to show up on time all that actually you know what one quick note there was a girl um who 0.99

00:06:41.480 was going to be on the show today and she said hey i'm going to be 50 minutes late and you know i

00:06:48.360 wish we could have accommodated her but you know i i have the girls meet at 6 p.m we aim to go live 0.99

00:06:53.600 at 7 p.m oftentimes we end up being like 15 minutes late beyond that but uh you know she flew from

00:07:01.520 chicago i don't know my understanding she i don't know i don't know what the details are i guess she

00:07:06.800 arrived in la last night and somehow still ended up 50 minutes late so i look we can't delay the show

00:07:14.100 for everybody because someone's late so sorry we couldn't accommodate you but i mean 50 minutes late

00:07:19.840 it's a little pushing it you know okay anyways without further ado after that long-winded introduction

00:07:23.740 we're gonna have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age and occupation go ahead

00:07:29.460 hello i am nicole mitchell i am 39 years old and i am known as the pastor turned stripper

00:07:35.720 the pastor turned stripper and only fans you do only fans yes i do only fans and i'm a life coach

00:07:42.180 and did you sorry did you say your age yes 39 39 and you were you have you have kids right yes

00:07:48.560 previously married yes have you remarried or no no okay got it um okay and uh what uh what religious

00:07:57.140 denomination i was a baptist baptist okay god you said you were a baptist yes no longer no are you

00:08:03.940 do you consider yourself agnostic or atheist more agnostic okay yeah sure what about you i'm kirsten

00:08:10.160 i'm 21 and i do only fans and social media

00:08:12.880 i'm giselle i'm 22 and i stream on twitch for fun i wouldn't say i have an exact occupation okay

00:08:24.420 i'm brianna i'm 23 and oh closer to the mic please brianna i'm 23 and same i don't really

00:08:32.760 what are you a student or um yeah i'm currently enrolling back into school right now okay what's

00:08:47.860 up i'm l um i am an only fans model primarily but i also did cosmetology school and um real

00:08:56.220 estate age oh i'm 21 okay freshly

00:09:00.140 hi i'm dominique i'm 23 and my occupation is like um like i host at like poker games

00:09:12.880 i like celebrities houses so they're legal but not really because they're okay so you hosted a legal

00:09:21.160 poker games is what you're saying well because they're at houses so technically like you should

00:09:25.720 be gambling at a casino but like you know so they're legal but yeah that's what i do okay

00:09:32.260 fair enough air quotes okay all right what about you i'm lila rose i'm 34 and my occupation is the

00:09:39.640 president of live action and i'm a writer and a speaker and a mom okay what is uh what is live

00:09:45.620 action by the way we're a human rights organization defending children in the womb mothers fathers and

00:09:50.480 families so based so based it's beautiful i'm chase 28 years old professional photographer and brand

00:09:58.960 consultant justin real estate construction age 37 all right cool um so before i go around again and

00:10:12.080 get everyone's uh relationship status and whatnot um need to address one other thing um so oh madison

00:10:20.780 do you want to introduce yourself wait can you see me yeah there we go archduke france ferdinand

00:10:30.000 the seventh oh sorry i didn't mean to get your name okay there we go perfect beautiful thank you

00:10:34.740 what's what's your age 139 oh jesus okay from beyond the grave okay cool a true veteran a true veteran

00:10:42.620 of the uh of uh was it world war one yeah okay um okay um so announcement i was banned off of hinge

00:10:55.660 shocker i know it's so over it's done it's done now let me tell you why i was banned eric can you

00:11:02.360 pull up the uh the ban notification your account has been removed you've been banned from using hinge

00:11:07.440 for violating our terms of service okay so let me explain it the ban hammer finally came down i was

00:11:13.380 perma banned from hinge and i was using hinge to get guests to be on the show for months so i'm actually

00:11:20.780 surprised it for nine months did they specify what they didn't specify but they didn't specify but

00:11:27.200 that was the only reason i was using hinge was to get guests for for the show uh granted that is a

00:11:32.400 banable offense so i'm not surprised um you know you're supposed to be on a dating app for dating

00:11:38.540 purposes but it's kind of interesting they don't mind uh if chicks are using it to promote their 1.00

00:11:43.920 instagram or only fans but uh i think i'm the sole guy doing the reverse finesse so i'm doing what

00:11:50.180 basically thousands of women are doing you know they put their instagram and the dating profiles and 1.00

00:11:53.960 i get banned um by the way oh really quick uh thing i got a full so i i paid for their premium

00:12:00.700 thing so i could just like because i think on hinge you can only send eight messages a day so i just paid

00:12:04.240 for their premium thing so i could just like blast blast out the invites i got a full refund on my

00:12:09.960 150 dollar prepaid hinge plus or premium whatever it's called just some quick game for any of you

00:12:14.300 gentlemen who get banned from the dating apps and you're paying for the premium uh in the terms of

00:12:20.900 service for hinge they say if they get if you get banned they won't refund you however um and by the

00:12:26.840 way i prepaid so six months 150 bucks uh so you could get banned for a week after paying 150 dollars

00:12:33.380 and they won't refund you but if you paid via the apple app store and eric if you could pull that up here

00:12:38.120 so it's against the terms of service on the app store for an app actually here i'll pull it back

00:12:44.180 for a sec it's against the terms of service on the app store for an app to deny you service you paid

00:12:48.760 for so if you do get banned on any of these dating apps and you paid for their premium thing just

00:12:54.920 saying you can get a little refund you know just saying report that to apple they'll give you a full

00:12:59.460 refund eric pull it up really quick um yeah you just go to this page just type that thing into uh

00:13:04.980 the top and uh yeah you can do it anyways i'm totally irrelevant but whatever okay going around

00:13:11.340 the table current relationship status are you single friends with benefits talking stage

00:13:15.100 situationship relationship married married engaged whatever and what's your longest relationship go 0.98

00:13:20.120 ahead oh i am currently dating slash in my slut face um and my longest relationship was probably my 0.98

00:13:27.500 marriage which was 12 years wait are you divorced currently yes can you hold on you're currently in your 1.00

00:13:34.600 what slut face if that's okay for you youtube um okay did you just did you just send the astro i 1.00

00:13:44.960 sent i sent a nuclear missile hold on we're back let me send it again we're so back oh my sorry 1.00

00:13:50.380 it went oh my holy okay um how long ago did you get divorced three years ago how long has your slut 1.00

00:14:00.000 phase been um three years did your slut phase start before or after the divorce after i got divorced 1.00

00:14:06.720 it's actually been really healing like after being super religious and super conservative and censored 0.96

00:14:12.480 and control controlled when you finally get out on your own and ask yourself like what do i want

00:14:18.120 what brings me alive what makes me feel connected and i found out it's not being monogamous it's not

00:14:23.400 being married it's actually being open and available for amazing connections with people

00:14:27.140 that's amazing by the way tate's now part of the the stream by the way i have so many questions 0.58

00:14:37.760 i do too i have so many answers wait so you said did you say proud slut phase i'm just oh yes i'm 0.97

00:14:44.720 very very it's been healing healing is the word i think i use for it what's been healing my slut 0.73

00:14:49.720 phase what have you healed so for me i've been raised in the indoctrination that my job as a woman

00:14:55.400 is to please my male partner my husband and as a woman i was not given pleasure because that wasn't

00:15:01.400 it didn't have to be reciprocal getting divorced and discovering my sexuality i learned my pleasure

00:15:07.020 is just as important of a right and so now i get to have that with different people find out what i

00:15:11.660 like what i don't like have different experiences to find out what turns me on what turns me off

00:15:16.040 and that's healing to know yourself and to learn yourself and to feel good with your pleasure

00:15:20.680 and not limit it because of what someone else thinks you should do with it nick was that presented

00:15:25.380 as christianity to you that the man just gets the pleasure and the woman doesn't get any pleasure 0.61

00:15:29.520 i mean i think it was more experience it was more caught than taught i think they would they would say

00:15:33.740 it's equal but in practice it was my job as a woman to support the man and whatever he wants

00:15:40.100 and so you just learn this messaging of well what i want isn't as important though if you if i confront

00:15:45.560 to them they say no no no no you're just as important but not in practice but you didn't experience

00:15:49.880 that in your marriage it sounds like not the way i think it should have been correct i'm sorry to

00:15:55.040 hear that yeah because i think of an authentically christian marriage the man gives his life for the

00:16:00.860 woman and absolutely equal sexual pleasure is very important that so i'm sorry that you didn't

00:16:07.020 experience that in your marriage yeah thank you uh and you said did you say what your longest

00:16:13.120 relationship was yeah it was my marriage which was 12 years okay gotcha 12 years but you're currently

00:16:18.080 single dating yeah dating what when you say you're dating what do you mean you have a couple

00:16:23.680 boyfriends yeah i'm dating so the first time i'm non-monogamous so i'm dating a person but i have

00:16:29.320 sexual experiences with other people as well okay so would you consider that person you're dating

00:16:34.440 boyfriend yeah my partner your partner is it a boyfriend girlfriend yeah it's a guy it's a guy okay

00:16:40.420 so how long have you been seeing him um a couple years oh you've been seeing him a couple years

00:16:44.860 like a month after the divorce uh several months several months after the divorce i've been divorced

00:16:51.240 for three years okay so yeah okay and then so

00:16:54.120 you say there's other guys in the picture what what are you talking about mostly women oh mostly

00:17:01.040 mostly women okay um how many women are in the picture right now um as many as i desire it really 1.00

00:17:08.540 depends like it depends on the um who i feel connected to um where i'm at um i go sometimes

00:17:14.940 to different locations specifically for an experience so it's just i get more flowy than

00:17:20.980 i'm dating a guy and a girl it's it's more like what do i what kind of experiences do i want to have

00:17:25.660 and are there any other guys right now no not right now okay when you uh got married to your ex-husband

00:17:32.820 how long into the marriage did you realize you weren't going to be pleased in the way that you

00:17:37.240 wanted to oh i think i knew even before we were married so we had sex before marriage and i had so

00:17:44.200 much guilt around it because you know that was taught that's a sin and it wasn't good but because

00:17:48.400 i was sinning i can't complain right and so then you get married and you think it's going to get better

00:17:53.160 but then really that taste of what i had before marriage was the substance but at that point you're

00:18:00.180 married and i would advocate for myself and say i'm not getting as much pleasure can we focus on me

00:18:05.220 and there was some effort but in the end it wasn't reciprocated we for me we were not sexually

00:18:11.480 compatible and i think that's part of why my slut phase has been so healing is i will never marry 0.89

00:18:16.460 someone without having sex with them first because if we are not sexually compatible i am not signing up

00:18:20.840 to being your partner for life i we need to i need to know for a good fit if we're a good match if

00:18:26.140 the pleasure is beneficial mutual then i'm open to considering long term with you are you looking

00:18:33.060 at getting married again not right now it's too but maybe maybe down the line maybe someday

00:18:37.420 so when you say a slut phase what are we when are we talking here so for me i guess what that it's me

00:18:46.960 reclaiming that word usually it's used as an insult for a woman who is sexually empowered it's used to 1.00

00:18:51.460 make a woman think like she's too loose and has no morals and values um so it just means i have sex 0.99

00:18:57.480 with who i want when i want and i don't have to limit it based on society's expectations religions

00:19:03.740 rules it's based on my desire and what's right for me okay so do you you object it sounds like you

00:19:12.840 object to this term slut no i love it i love it when like we can reclaim it when someone tries to use

00:19:18.760 it against me like that's when it's like when people try to insult you with words i think part

00:19:22.760 of the power is when you take it back and make it yours so i've reclaimed it so you can call me a

00:19:26.900 slut i'm like thank you i am um but that's just for me okay um we'll come back to some of that stuff

00:19:33.620 later we'll have we'll give everyone an opportunity here to uh share uh current relationship status in 0.80

00:19:38.400 your longest relationship um i have been in a relationship for almost two years now and this

00:19:43.440 is my longest relationship okay um go ahead um i'm single and my longest relationship has been

00:19:53.980 one year oh sorry one question for you your name's kirsten correct yeah um so you said your current

00:20:00.600 boyfriend is that your you said you've been dating your current boyfriend for two years

00:20:05.580 okay um because you wrote a note here i think at some point that um your first encounter with

00:20:13.660 a boyfriend you were dating you had a unique encounter where first time ever there was

00:20:21.700 a pegging incident yeah so when i was like 16 this is my very first boyfriend going to lose my virginity

00:20:29.760 he whips out this massive strap on and asked me to peg him no way yeah what was your response

00:20:37.920 i just looked at him in disbelief like i barely even knew what sex was at this point and he hands 0.99

00:20:43.660 me literally another dick and he's like can you shove it in me and i'm like what did you just say 0.99

00:20:48.320 to me how big was it it was probably a good eight or nine inches like it was pretty fucking massive 1.00

00:20:54.800 whoa so so so then what happened oh i didn't do it i left oh i walked right out of his basement

00:21:02.540 it was in a basement too it was mom's basement yes it was at his parents house and we broke up 0.67

00:21:08.480 after that one this guy's a fucking legend dude asking virgins to peg him in his mom's basement 0.99

00:21:14.400 like what a fucking chance to be the greatest troll of all time that is crazy don't get me wrong i 1.00

00:21:20.080 don't kink shame but like it was my first time you're just gonna whip that shit out on me just 1.00

00:21:23.860 caught me off guard a little bit wait so you broke up with him i did yeah wait but okay you 0.99

00:21:28.480 you said it was your boyfriend um boyfriend kind of talking it was like one of those awkward high

00:21:34.300 school relationships how long have you been talking a couple months maybe how old was he

00:21:39.120 he was 18 how many other how many other girls had he busted out that piece on i don't know 0.75

00:21:46.860 oh do you know because we went to the same high school together yeah she's heard that story a few

00:21:50.460 times yeah and to be honest that's not the first girl that i've heard he's tried that on so

00:21:55.380 the question is what kind of pornography is that guy watching you think that that's okay right

00:22:00.820 i'm sure i'm sure there's a category just for him somewhere

00:22:04.020 somewhere deep but the little warning would have been nice yeah it's been in my way

00:22:08.740 pretty messed up justin what do you think about that i think this show doesn't even need me

00:22:13.140 i think it's going just fine bro just like how he didn't need kirsten no comment no comment um

00:22:22.540 yeah that's uh he could have at least saved it for like the third time you know like to be a

00:22:28.380 gentleman like at least wait a little wait how long how long had you guys been talking

00:22:32.660 three months just a couple months yeah it wasn't long at all that's such a bold move that's super

00:22:37.440 crazy yeah wow okay all right uh giselle sorry what you said you're currently single and your 1.00

00:22:49.320 longest relationship was a year correct yeah okay what about you um in a relationship and my

00:22:55.180 longest relationship was into the mic into the mic i'm in a relationship and my longest

00:23:00.840 relationship was about two years or so okay i am single thank you for the reminder i've been single

00:23:11.120 for two and a half years um i honestly prefer it that way um but my longest relationship was five years

00:23:20.220 um the like the guy that i dated for five years i was with him from before i started uh high school

00:23:29.920 and then till after um it was very on and off a lot of people in our high school called me a ping pong

00:23:36.140 ball because i would go between him and his best friend was that like your nickname oh i had a lot

00:23:41.420 of nicknames well what were some of your other nicknames um i let kirsten do that one actually what

00:23:48.740 were her nicknames the biggest one that i remember was what was it like the hobble goblin or whatever

00:23:53.460 hobgoblin yes yes yes that was a real one that's a real one i'm surprised she remembers that why

00:23:58.840 what where did that come from so my my ex-boyfriend and his best friend and the other ones they used to

00:24:05.040 call themselves goons and so because i was a girl in their group i was a hobgoblin i don't know i 0.95

00:24:13.760 couldn't tell you i was in the middle of nowhere surrounded by you know cornfields and dumbasses so 0.65

00:24:19.980 i don't know the goon and the hobgoblin yeah no they actually called their mom this is why it was 0.89

00:24:25.960 they actually called their mom a hobgoblin uh one of their moms and so they always said that i mommed

00:24:32.840 them so they also called me the same thing that they called their mom what's your current nickname

00:24:36.620 l okay yeah wait so you said you were going back and forth between your sort of boyfriend and some

00:24:44.940 other dude so i dated um the got the the main guy that was for five years um on and off and he usually

00:24:55.980 would date one of my friends so to rebel and do the same thing

00:24:59.240 i never said it was mature i was literally like 15 to okay 17 but okay just being honest but um

00:25:08.160 yeah no i'm i'm openly pansexual now so what does that mean yeah what is it it means that i'm super

00:25:14.700 attracted to kitchenware i'm just kidding uh it just means that i am like it just means that i'm like

00:25:23.660 open to anything i'm not i i'm more attracted to intelligence um than and like who a person is the

00:25:32.580 conversation i can have with them their energies like oh wait so like that basically includes like

00:25:37.420 more than just men and women it also includes non-binary trans any any category of that sort i'm

00:25:45.740 pansexual as well so wait pansexual means that you date just anything based off just the vibe

00:25:53.260 so like it could be boy girl trans okay cool how is that different how is that different than

00:25:58.760 bisexual because uh bisexual i i don't want to get like dragged for this but like bisexual usually is

00:26:05.460 just like um men and women you like men you like women but being pansexual means that you don't care

00:26:12.320 about gender or any of that you're just into somebody for who they are despite that i've dated

00:26:18.400 non-binary people many times so and people that are in transitioning whatever the west has fallen

00:26:25.860 um okay so and you said you're you said you've been single for two how long 2.5 years like over two

00:26:35.720 years yeah okay all right last person i dated was a female was a female okay what about you

00:26:43.320 um like am i in a relationship right now current relationship status longest relationship okay so

00:26:50.320 i am single my longest relationship i've only ever had one boyfriend my whole life and we dated when

00:26:57.600 i was 18 and until we dated for six months and then like broke up for like two and then we dated for

00:27:04.580 three months so nine months total and you said there's a two-month break in between yeah so were

00:27:09.660 you seeing other people during that break no was he um no i was his second like girl ever had sex

00:27:17.980 with oh okay yeah okay so he didn't see anyone and then like we got back together because like he

00:27:24.380 begged me and i gave him one he begged you yeah can like you reenact the begging like was he on his

00:27:30.200 knees like was it was like boombox over the head outside your house text messages yeah like it was

00:27:35.320 like the whole boombox thing oh yeah yeah what song did i doubt that um yeah no i was being facetious

00:27:40.780 but um i was too he but i know i caught on great minds think alike um he yeah no he didn't do that he

00:27:49.620 just like begged me to get back together and then we did how long did it last for after well so he was

00:27:56.400 like okay he was kind of like uh-huh like i um closer to the mic okay i was like i was young you know

00:28:05.360 so i thought i was like in love and like he was like kind of a bum like because he was like he got 0.95

00:28:10.520 kicked out of his parents house and he was living in the back of his truck um and in his camper and

00:28:18.100 so i was trying to help him and like be like captain save a hoe but like for a guy so i let 0.98

00:28:24.720 him like live at my house with me and then like i was just like okay you gotta go because he would

00:28:30.320 like get fired from like every union job he had because he would show up to like set like late like

00:28:36.640 you have to be there at 6 30 in the union that's like the most important thing is like show up on time

00:28:41.440 and like he was always late so i was just like you're kind of a bum so like we're over sorry 0.84

00:28:47.100 smart move yeah yeah don't don't marry a bum yeah no it's good advice don't do it okay uh what about 0.99

00:28:57.820 you the questions uh relationship yeah current relationship status married and the longest

00:29:03.140 relationship is my marriage okay almost five years very cool okay yeah i'm currently single longest

00:29:09.060 relationship is like a year and a half i always keep that a mystery seven years all right mystery

00:29:17.360 seven the 60 girls that justin's talking to now don't have a clue you keep whether you're married 1.00

00:29:26.180 i'm kidding i'm kidding do you um do you have can you at least confirm if you have like one girl or

00:29:32.480 do you kind of date multiple people can i confirm cannot confirm i wish i could i wish i could that

00:29:37.700 means it might be multiple um is there how about this confirm or deny is there a harem 0.98

00:29:44.040 cannot confirm or deny can you confirm or deny if you're voluntarily celibate what the fuck i can't 0.90

00:29:53.720 yeah i'm definitely not voluntarily celibate justin hello yeah he literally has a welcome mat right 0.99

00:29:59.380 under his nose how do you what the fuck says the hobgoblin 1.00

00:30:04.720 sucking dicks in cornfields roasted boom hobgoblin that's okay i can take it i can take the smoke 1.00

00:30:12.840 okay all right cool um so uh let's see here i have a question justin do you ever see yourself getting 0.99

00:30:20.680 married no not on paper no absolutely not i believe in love and marriage and in regards to

00:30:26.440 taking care of a woman fully and your responsibilities as a father and a provider

00:30:29.680 and protector 100 in fact i think that's probably what's broken about the world but in regards to

00:30:34.720 letting the state get into all my businesses that took me over a decade to build absolutely not no

00:30:39.360 how do you think you're gonna get to the place of that marriage you want with that family and

00:30:45.780 that lifelong love that you just i didn't say i didn't have family or children i just said

00:30:49.840 your business oh i see okay so you want to keep it private is what you're saying that's what i

00:30:55.500 said do you justin has i might have multiple family oh you never know i might like family

00:31:01.700 more than you so much i have five do you think that's a good thing to have multiple families i

00:31:05.920 think it's good if there's one dad and there's not a bunch of step parents involved and the dad

00:31:09.580 can be the hero and those five families live a 10x better life than they would have otherwise

00:31:13.020 just man i do but you don't think that it will be ultimately a an opportunity for jealousy or

00:31:19.500 disharmony amongst women are always going to be jealous what's changed about that women have been 1.00

00:31:23.660 jealous all the way through time so i'm not jealous in my marriage i don't care about your marriage i'm

00:31:27.680 talking about mine well my life is going to be so i don't answer to you so that's my answer i'm

00:31:33.400 gonna run my my situation exactly how i want to and generally when i do that that's when i have the

00:31:38.920 most happiness let's say in my life so that's all and you would want that for your daughters

00:31:45.500 yeah yeah i i live my life unapologetically on my terms so if my daughters that are overly spoiled and 1.00

00:31:53.760 and educated in every way and have friends all over the world and world traveled in the best schools in

00:31:58.020 the world if they have a problem with me at the end of the day then they can kick rocks too i i'm not

00:32:02.000 going to cent for my daughters i'll love them fully but if they grow up and turn into a person that

00:32:06.640 doesn't want to get in line with me or at least look here's my goal as a parent teach my children

00:32:11.240 how the world works give them the skills so they can live on their own terms and give them choice

00:32:15.700 if they choose not to make me part of their life after i've given them those things i've still

00:32:18.980 succeeded as a father but i guess i'm asking if you're comfortable answering obviously but are you

00:32:23.620 wanting to be a role model for your kids is that part of a thousand percent a father should show up in

00:32:27.320 every way for his children i think i'll be better than most fathers regardless of how many children i

00:32:31.220 have i might have a hundred but you think part of being a role model it's okay for your kids not to

00:32:35.840 know even their your relationship status with their own mom they will know the relationship

00:32:40.100 status with me and their mother but you have other relationships with other women too what does that

00:32:43.840 have to do with anything i'm just wondering if you think i haven't even said that i'm just saying like

00:32:47.960 if i want to i will but you don't think that's a problem for your daughter to know that about their

00:32:51.940 dad that that he has multiple mistresses that's up to my daughter man you know but do you want your 1.00

00:32:58.360 daughter to have a guy like that long term if he takes care of her in every way and she has a much

00:33:02.320 better life because of it yeah i'm cool with that wait do you want to have a hundred kids

00:33:06.340 is that like low-key i'm gonna have a bunch of kids yeah i believe in having kids man so there's 0.97

00:33:11.500 there's too many dumbass people having kids might as well have a smart person have some dude is 1.00

00:33:15.160 justin low-key about to repopulate the world is justin single-handedly single-handedly reverse 1.00

00:33:22.500 the declining they got they got all these single women out here talking shit about shit man well cool 1.00

00:33:26.900 i'll have babies with you what's up now part of it is being a smart ass right now right to be honest 1.00

00:33:32.960 but look if if a guy decides to have a bunch of children i mean you see it happen all the time 0.99

00:33:38.600 guy gets married hat he's a shitty father shitty husband ends up getting a divorce and then goes 0.99

00:33:43.700 have and has babies with the next chick doing the same thing i'm doing except i'm not a lying coward 0.99

00:33:47.940 about it i hear you i i see that i see what it is but i think the big question is i mean it seems

00:33:52.660 like you're really focused on self-improvement which is awesome and so i guess my question would

00:33:56.800 be is it ideal like what are we striving towards individually right and what do we think is best

00:34:01.320 for society and i think kids want to know their parents love each other and are committed till

00:34:07.000 death do they part to each other yep didn't say any of that wasn't true but you're the one saying

00:34:11.320 that's not true okay but do you think it would be a little bit um confusing for one of your kids if

00:34:16.040 they found out let's say theoretically because if they trust me enough to come to me i'll just tell

00:34:19.560 them the truth what are we talking about i'm not hiding from anything i just told you

00:34:22.460 i i understand that it seems like you're challenging because you have a problem with

00:34:25.300 it i simply don't care so your your kids you're saying you don't care if they find out you have

00:34:30.280 multiple mistresses if i had multiple women and then my kids came to me then i would just talk to 0.96

00:34:36.680 them like a like an adult if they're adult enough to ask i'm adult enough to tell them well whatever

00:34:41.900 they ask i'm there for you know that's it find somebody else i don't feel bad i'm gonna live in 0.96

00:34:49.020 truth here's the difference between me and most men most men are doing this shit behind people's 0.99

00:34:53.180 back right like a fucking coward and they're not even giving the family the life that they deserve 0.99

00:34:57.840 so if i choose to do that in the future which i have not said i'm gonna do then so be it but if i 0.99

00:35:04.500 don't i don't i hear you i i guess that you're saying you don't want to share your relationship

00:35:09.920 status but then you just said you people are hiding it and being a coward so i guess i think there's a

00:35:14.820 difference between not wanting to share one's relationship status publicly on a platform like

00:35:19.180 this versus when i have a big internet following and like offices that you can google and all kinds

00:35:25.180 of things like that i don't want i don't want that smoke for people in my life i see yeah that makes

00:35:29.180 sense uh just just one thing related to the well not related to this uh is the audio okay guys

00:35:34.040 because sometimes we have issues with uh the number two and i just uh want to make sure can you guys

00:35:39.780 hear justin okay one in the chat if you can hear justin okay guys i want to make sure that you

00:35:44.260 guys hear him all right one in the chat if justin's coming through okay looks like a lot of ones audio

00:35:50.380 is good okay perfect thank you guys um i have a question on this justin so yeah um i know you can

00:35:56.540 neither confirm confirm nor deny the current situations but let's it sounds like perhaps there

00:36:03.000 have been times where you're seeing multiple women so what is the pitch to a girl that you won't be 0.85

00:36:12.360 loyal is it is it overtly communicated is it just an understanding like what what's the what's the

00:36:19.100 sell what's the pitch to a girl basically because you say you're open with it with the girls how do

00:36:23.960 you pitch it i mean first of all generally they kind of know up front you know if they slide in my

00:36:29.480 instagram dms and they see my life it's like they're like are you really that surprised and so

00:36:34.420 there's questions you could ask to to see if a girl's by or not i might joke around ask her blondes 1.00

00:36:38.820 brunettes early on sure you know i'm saying and see what she says just to check if she see if she's 1.00

00:36:43.160 by or not and and look i don't coach game i'm just like super honest and then another thing is by the

00:36:48.420 time a girl really sees me online she's already listened to my content and listen to things i've

00:36:53.680 said so they already i mean they would know the truth you know right um i'm probably gonna ratchet

00:36:57.960 back you know some of these dating type shows just because i feel like i've had the same conversation

00:37:02.820 a million times and just do more of the business stuff but um by and largely my content is a filter

00:37:08.500 you know and and i get i get dms from women all day you know just basically saying hey i at least 1.00

00:37:15.140 appreciate you telling the truth i got cheated on got lied to etc etc etc so um there's not much

00:37:20.980 screening i really have to do okay you know i mean but have there been any instances i assume perhaps

00:37:27.640 maybe some of the women you approached or they weren't familiar with you i mean what because you say

00:37:32.760 you're open with the girls and yeah and uh you know let's say to all the g's out there that are

00:37:37.780 trying to level up and they kind of want to you know they want to have well you know what i would

00:37:41.540 say first i would say first that having multiple women is not the goal i don't think that's a good 0.99

00:37:45.860 goal for a young man you know i think working on yourself completely and absorbing and having a lot

00:37:50.680 of women come to you as a goal um for example like let's say that you're married and you have a 0.98

00:37:55.580 loving relationship i don't think there's anything in the world wrong with that at all but i want that for

00:38:00.320 you and every well too bad that's not what i want so that's my business not yours but what i'm saying

00:38:04.500 is is that if i'm in a situation with a woman and she thinks she wants to leave because i have let's 1.00

00:38:09.720 say more okay cool you can leave me for a man that you love less that will cheat on you anyway if he 1.00

00:38:15.100 could i'm not doing anything any other man would not do if he could maybe her husband could and doesn't

00:38:19.740 but you know for the sake of the conversation i think most men if they could would have the option

00:38:24.880 of having multiple women now it has also been my experience that i can only love one person at a

00:38:28.960 time and so that said there there's you know i think there's only one spot in my heart as far as

00:38:36.460 you know long-term commitment and when i look at long-term commitment i look at protecting providing

00:38:40.620 being there fully emotionally a person's best friend i mean ride or die like really there with

00:38:46.080 them even if they're upset or jealous can i ask you one more question fire away okay um if you

00:38:52.240 have a place and only one place in your heart for one woman or you want to have one woman in 0.95

00:38:56.460 your heart i think you said why don't you just commit to one and choose to be faithful to her

00:39:00.780 i'm just not wired that way i spent my whole 20s trying to fix myself

00:39:05.220 you have self-control you you work out you do business you can possess your own

00:39:10.040 your own power and you direct it the way you want to direct it it's just not how i am

00:39:13.720 it's not how i am you think that might be a limited mindset i think it's none of your business but

00:39:19.040 i don't want you to think i'm triggered by you i'm not i saw somebody say that and i think that's

00:39:22.900 interesting i think you're annoying but i'm not triggered you know what i'm saying no you are

00:39:27.140 you're annoying in like this goody two shoes type way and that's fine uh i'm gonna live my life on my

00:39:32.920 terms unapologetically like truly so uh you can ask me this 85 different ways at the end of the

00:39:40.060 day i'm gonna walk out of here the same man and any woman in my life that you either accept that or

00:39:44.680 leave and that's not a threat that's hey this is what i offer if that works for you okay if it

00:39:50.680 doesn't you can go there's plenty of people that are in hot wife relationships they're swingers 1.00

00:39:56.040 they're gay none of those people get questioned the way i do yeah none of those people get questioned

00:40:00.100 the way i do i'm one of very few men that can actually come out and i know my on the top of my

00:40:04.680 head there's probably a handful the tate brothers being some of them and then a couple of my other

00:40:08.760 friends that can actually openly say this i'm gonna live i'm gonna live on my terms and guess what

00:40:12.860 women don't leave us for it i cannot think of a woman that has left me over telling them that

00:40:16.980 yeah some women like that yeah some of them are like oh my god that's so sexy so no woman wants 1.00

00:40:21.720 a man that other women don't want and by and largely i think that women are attracted to it that little

00:40:26.940 bit of dread in them that little bit of competition and i don't mind providing that atmosphere for them

00:40:30.720 at all and i'm not sorry i kind of have a question so um i hate that i talk about this so much

00:40:37.200 actually no no i i genuinely it's not that because i yeah it's just like i'm i'm not trying

00:40:43.240 to promote it no no you know what i'm saying like if a young man thinks he wants to get married i don't

00:40:47.000 want him to see me and think oh i need to start i need to sit my wife down and tell her if he doesn't 1.00

00:40:51.380 actually feel that way but i think you'd be shocked at how many men hate themselves over the

00:40:56.280 fact that they want multiple women and they're scared that everybody's going to reject them and

00:41:00.060 they're going to get kicked out of their family group their church group their friends and same with

00:41:03.180 women every same with women yeah exactly i was just about to say that you know it it's the same 0.99

00:41:07.340 sense of um of you know especially even from the opposite perspective from mine as as even somebody

00:41:13.340 that's only 21 years old i've experienced you know like some a man sometimes wants to be very um

00:41:19.300 protective is a good way of putting it that's over their part of our line is mine and and and and i

00:41:24.780 understand that um fully um and there are certain times where it's like it's hard not to be like the

00:41:31.300 jealous type and i've been in polyamorous relationships well let me be very clear i'm

00:41:35.260 not polyamorous now yeah that's why i was actually that was my question if there are some girls i'm 1.00

00:41:39.200 seeing and i don't care as much they like innate like i'm not watching them like that i'm like

00:41:44.400 whatever but any anyone that's close to that i'm trying to provide for or possibly have children

00:41:49.160 with no it's shut down now you can help me bring women home all day long i'm not trying to leave you

00:41:54.160 out but at the same time like i'm not you're not talking to any other men and and those women are

00:41:59.120 happy with that so it is like a it is like what i described kind of like where it's what's mine is

00:42:03.740 mine but yeah what's yours is also mine well i wouldn't i wouldn't say what yours is also mine

00:42:08.960 i never thought of it that way but yeah so you're going to be protective over your girl like if you

00:42:13.460 really care about her you really really care about her like especially like if you're with a guy and

00:42:17.780 let's say he takes you to a swingers club he probably didn't love you he's just trying to get a

00:42:21.060 trade-off right i don't know about that because you can't it can't go both ways it may be so maybe so 0.99

00:42:27.340 for you i'm just saying any woman i truly care about like i'm not i'm not playing that shit at 0.91

00:42:31.120 all yeah well in that sense though like do you think it's fair no i don't think life is fair at

00:42:36.000 all and this particular subject is super unfair i want to be very very clear about that number one i

00:42:40.540 am not promoting it i'm not promoting it in any way not promoting what i'm not promoting that men

00:42:44.780 have a bunch of women okay yeah like i'm saying that for me in my life the the biggest struggle

00:42:51.340 in my adult life was feeling out of place because of how i felt about it was almost like hey i'm

00:42:55.300 coming out the closet i'm super straight you know um and then number and then number two i'm not

00:43:00.660 promoting what what i'm saying right now is fair at all i don't think it's fair at all i don't think

00:43:04.300 the world's fair yeah but it am i i might be misunderstanding you but it sounds like you're

00:43:08.520 saying that some men maybe maybe yourself don't have the ability to be monogamous and so you're

00:43:15.200 choosing to frame it that way i'm telling you i'm going to live my life how i want to how would you

00:43:19.280 frame it i would frame it as it was more me holding my breath and trying to be something i wasn't

00:43:23.300 what i was holding my breath you understand that i look i'm from the deep south you baptist yeah

00:43:27.540 yeah okay cool i get you know that feeling of church yes you're trying to be who they told you

00:43:32.180 you're trying and you're praying god god please let me not leave this girl i love because i want

00:43:36.100 to sleep with the volleyball team type stuff like the biggest heartbreak in my life was in college i

00:43:40.740 broke up with miss louisiana while she's getting ready for miss america because not because we didn't

00:43:45.460 get along not because the sex wasn't good not because we weren't like best friends it's because i

00:43:49.560 wanted to sleep with other girls at school and i thought i was doing the right thing and i ended up

00:43:54.280 breaking my own heart you know i'm saying and so through my 20s i would i thought something was

00:43:59.320 wrong with me and i was trying to fix it trying to fix it trying to fix it and in time i realized that

00:44:04.180 there was never anything wrong with me at all i just had to live my truth and find people even if

00:44:08.400 it's just a small group of billions of people in the world maybe it's three to five people that love

00:44:12.820 me for who i am and then i'm at peace because then i don't have to be wrong they don't have to answer

00:44:17.300 to my conscious i can just be myself and for that reason i'm able to put walls down like oh she might

00:44:22.860 catch me and just tell the truth and so instead of loving her 80 90 i can love her 120 and take care

00:44:28.420 of her every way so you can give your whole heart to somebody when you're not living in lies 100 and

00:44:33.020 that was interesting for me because i was in a monogamous marriage because i was told that was

00:44:36.100 the only way the right way and then i learned over the years that i'm actually non-monogamous and that

00:44:40.640 was even interesting when i started dating after i got divorced being upfront about it because i know and i've

00:44:44.900 said the same thing where people are mad at me because i do in public what they do in secret

00:44:47.820 instead of like instead of hiding i tell people like hey i'm non-monogamous i can't be only with

00:44:53.040 one person for the rest of my life and if you're not cool with that then we're not meant to date but

00:44:57.420 if you are cool or you're meant to be in a different position like you for example over there with your 0.99

00:45:01.440 titties out and everything talking about you fucking like yeah my mind when i hear a girl say that i'm 0.99

00:45:04.880 like okay well fucking i i take a ride on that you know ferris wheel but the it you get put out of 0.99

00:45:11.360 a wife bucket for a guy like me but at the same time like i'm not mad at you for saying it because 0.97

00:45:17.900 a bunch of people were calling you haram and stuff like that and and technically maybe it's true but

00:45:22.220 it just for me when i see a girl like that it just it just puts her in a different bucket yeah and i'm 0.79

00:45:27.640 happy to be in whatever bucket because it's like i know what i want and if i'm not wife material for

00:45:32.020 you i don't want to be your wife so it's like to me it's alignment and that's not an issue and you

00:45:36.100 can call me whatever no i'm not here to judge you you're at peace i'm at peace and i think that's the

00:45:40.400 biggest thing i learned walking away from the church and religion is how unique every person

00:45:44.400 is and it's everyone has their own set of morals and values that works for them and i used to think

00:45:49.260 there was right or wrong but now it's like if you're at peace with you that's the most important

00:45:53.600 thing if i'm at peace with me that's the most important right and i've never been in more peace

00:45:57.420 in my life so and just treating others with kindness like despite your disagreements that's

00:46:02.940 why we're in america in the first place like you're allowed to disagree with other people

00:46:06.760 and their opinion america so i want to i want to pipe up here i find your uh your perspective

00:46:14.300 interesting justin i i used to want the same thing when i was about 18 years old i i realized i was like

00:46:20.520 man i want to have like 30 kids with like 10 different women like i just i wanted to ball out 1.00

00:46:25.240 have as many kids as humanly possible and this was when i uh i was not walking with the lord at this

00:46:30.780 point in time and i i maintained that dream till about my mid-20s and i realized after some

00:46:37.700 conversations with some friends that were from like mormon polygamy cults out in utah you know my

00:46:44.160 buddy he was in uh his grandfather had like i don't know like 20 wives or something like that and he had

00:46:49.680 like hundreds of grandchildren with all these different women and i asked him about it he was

00:46:54.080 always turned off to religion because of his experience growing up in this family and i asked him why and

00:46:59.060 he said the rates of alcoholism suicide all of these different things in his extended family were

00:47:05.700 extremely high a bunch of his cousins had committed suicide they suffered from severe depression all of

00:47:11.380 these different things and it was because of how big and difficult to manage that extended family was

00:47:17.820 that came from their grandfather and he looked at that and he just hated it right and that that really

00:47:22.940 like that really hit home for me and a few years later you know i was reading through the old

00:47:29.460 testaments of the bible and one of the things that you notice about all the patriarchs in the old

00:47:33.380 testament right king david king solomon uh many of the different patriarchs they would have multiple

00:47:40.800 children with multiple wives and what would happen is their kids would end up warring with one another 0.66

00:47:46.860 and they would end up at odds with one another and so you would have this pattern of broken

00:47:50.900 families from men who had practiced polygamy now if that's your choice for your life i want to be

00:47:56.400 really clear i'm not defining what i'm going to do like i'm not saying i'm going to have multiple

00:48:02.140 wives or multiple women's i'm just keeping it very vague yes yes understood understood and the point

00:48:08.240 that i'm making is i i just wanted to share i personally used to want what you've been describing

00:48:13.640 and i wanted to make a ton of money to be able to support it but i i came to the point in my life

00:48:17.720 where i realized you know as a christian i'm a christian the thing that i can do to honor god

00:48:23.080 personally is align myself with his prescription for marriage between one woman and one man i

00:48:28.340 understand that's not your choice but i think part of the wisdom in embracing that and in embracing

00:48:33.920 monogamy is you create a very healthy family long term right and like i get bro i get the desire to want

00:48:42.340 to be with multiple women it's it's in our freaking dna but for me personally that's something i'm

00:48:47.980 absolutely willing to sacrifice because it produces more fruit in a family long term i know families in

00:48:55.260 monogamous marriages that's toxic i know families that are in polyamorous and non-monogamous relationships

00:49:01.680 that are healthy and vice versa so i think it's less about the structure is what determines the health

00:49:05.860 it's the health of the individuals in that relationship you can have a monogamous marriage and if the

00:49:10.920 couples are miserable that's going to affect their children you can have couples or thruples or quads

00:49:16.080 or whatever who are in their polyamorous relationship and they're healthy and they're connected and they

00:49:19.780 communicate they communicate those boundaries and that's going to provide more health so i just push

00:49:23.800 back on this idea that there's a prescription that for all humans this is what you should do when every

00:49:28.820 human is so different and like it's a matter it's a matter of the health of the individual and then who

00:49:33.820 they're being with then the structure that makes it healthy but if you're sleeping with multiple people

00:49:38.460 what is the point of saying i'm in a relationship with this person like if you're going to say i'm

00:49:42.540 committing to you what is the point of being in a relationship with them yeah that's a great question

00:49:47.300 so i think it's different for every person so for me since i'm pansexual and i'm non-monogamous i can

00:49:52.760 have someone i deeply deeply love and i still want and desire other experiences and before i was before

00:49:58.880 when i thought i was monogamous i didn't understand that i thought this i thought the same thing like oh then

00:50:02.660 it's a free-for-all and there's no boundaries and there's no priority but for me it's like oh once i find

00:50:08.220 someone i feel so committed to i don't like that's set that's good and then i have these other

00:50:13.280 experiences that actually nurture that so i was told if i had outside sexual activities once i'm

00:50:17.940 in a marriage or in a partnership it would tear apart the relationship based on how i'm wired when

00:50:22.540 i have outside sexual activities with other people it actually makes me fall more in love with my person

00:50:27.840 no one told me that and i thought i was crazy but that's how i'm wired it like brings something alive

00:50:34.100 and it makes me want to gush love on my person and it's the exact opposite of what is your dude

00:50:39.380 cool with sharing you with other dudes uh we do women right now so not it wouldn't be with other 1.00

00:50:46.060 men just women not yet and why is that um so the way we do it is we like we want to be very

00:50:52.280 intentional about how we do because the most important relationship that matters is us so it's

00:50:56.980 not a free-for-all so for the first part it was just us we built our foundation we put our roots down

00:51:02.220 and then we reached a point where like let's start having other experiences and we would just do one

00:51:06.820 and then we'd reflect on it talk communicate was any boundary crossed how do we feel and we found

00:51:12.040 that it actually brought us closer together wait do you guys have threesomes oh so the threesomes with

00:51:17.980 the other woman so you and another girl and then him brought you guys closer together yes and even my 0.97

00:51:24.580 own so because i'm on only fans i make content with girls so i have sex with girls for my work oh you do 0.85

00:51:28.740 only fans and that also brings us closer together i had these amazing experiences and i come home and

00:51:33.660 i tell all about the things and like i feel alive and energized and and did you say you were a mother

00:51:38.900 yes and okay i have to ask yeah do you how old are your kids seven ten twelve and does it because i went

00:51:47.940 to school with or there was a guy like his mom drove a pink hummer and she was a porn star right and

00:51:54.960 everybody dogged on him because you know and like it sucked for him and i felt really bad do you think

00:52:02.100 that your kids would be affected at some point with like the fact that you did only fans no so i so my

00:52:09.260 kids are very educated at their age appropriate level but i've asked my teen boys how they feel

00:52:13.700 and i was like do you ever get picked on by your friends and they said no why would we even have

00:52:18.200 friends like that so their friends don't even know they know they know they do know and they don't

00:52:22.920 care what about other kids at school these are the kids at school that know well i mean like your

00:52:27.980 kids have friends and then there's other kids that they're not friends with um i think i mean my little

00:52:32.260 kids but they i don't think their friends know but as they get older their friends know because i'm

00:52:36.240 friends with their moms or their dads or their families and so it becomes knowledge and they're

00:52:40.740 just like cool and then some of my kids are like here's how you can make more money you should try

00:52:44.160 this on twitch you should do this like they actually like help me and they little gen z ears yeah like

00:52:49.880 they're just so open-minded they don't have the stigma and the judgment that i was raised with

00:52:54.400 yeah i have a question yeah earlier in the conversation you made the statement if i recall

00:52:59.020 correctly you put it as long as you're at peace with your morality that's what matters right

00:53:02.700 do you think that this kind of sexuality would be sustainable if it was like all across our society 0.77

00:53:08.480 like if everybody operated this way i think a lot of people do operate this way they just do it in

00:53:12.860 secret or behind backs yep on accident and or on accident versus what do you think the percentage is

00:53:17.760 like more than 10 percent less than 10 percent the people over 50 oh yeah the people you think 0.96

00:53:22.880 it's well over 50 percent well over 58 percent of people that do what that would rather cheat on

00:53:28.920 their spouse than be openly polyamorous with them and open the lines of communication i'm calling cap 0.62

00:53:34.760 on that i don't think there was actually a study done where 70 percent of men have cheat on their

00:53:38.460 wives at one point or another yeah but i think 70 percent would drag a number of i think i think a big 1.00

00:53:44.780 thing a big reason i think it's been at least i think it's i think it's way high at least in the

00:53:49.320 generation that i am in your generation maybe for sure we're all well this but also also like your

00:53:56.060 your social circle like of my friends like most of my friends they're not interested in doing that

00:54:01.040 so this was this was i can understand this was in part by design because the sexual revolution

00:54:05.060 happened right in the 60s and the 70s and there was a sexologist named alfred kinsey let's go i don't

00:54:09.620 know if anyone has heard of him but he was he's kind of known as the godfather or the grandfather

00:54:14.000 of sexology today and so his ideology has really influenced a lot of sex ed today and a lot of

00:54:19.800 behavior today and so what he did he wanted to prove that everybody was sexually deviant was the

00:54:25.360 term at the time sexually deviant they weren't in monogamous relationships or if they were they'd lie

00:54:29.540 and they were in swinger culture and other kinds of relationships and he wanted to mainstream this idea

00:54:34.520 because he wanted to break down the natural family single mother single father together married together

00:54:39.340 with children and so what he ended up doing is he created social data research data and he would

00:54:46.280 actually survey prison populations for their sexual experiences and he would use that and claim that

00:54:53.660 this was representative of the entire population so actually he would say he would ask you know

00:54:58.740 interview convicts or have people interview convicts and who were involved in all kinds of dark stuff

00:55:03.300 and they would share yeah we've been in obviously in bestiality rape or we've been involved in having

00:55:08.140 many different partners and then he said this is representative of so 70 or 80 of americans he

00:55:14.320 claimed are involved in swinger culture or polyamory behind closed doors but he was lying is the thing

00:55:20.860 but so you're telling me that stat she just referenced is total i don't know exactly where you got that

00:55:25.540 but i think it might be a kinsian stat because a lot of his statistics kind of created the groundswell

00:55:30.860 for that mentality and then the problem is it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy right so if

00:55:36.000 everybody thinks oh it's normal to have sex with a ton of different people it's normal to not be

00:55:40.500 monogamous it's actually good to not be monogamous right that's the message of society tells you it's

00:55:45.600 good to you know porn is good sleeping around is good sex is not a big deal then it kind of becomes a

00:55:51.460 self-fulfilling prophecy because more and more people get sexualized and get you know start down

00:55:55.360 that path and unfortunately in our society too a lot of young girls i mean i heard what you shared 0.73

00:56:00.000 kirsten right it's horrible like with that guy i mean it's ridiculous right but he was probably 0.91

00:56:04.860 watching porn right so he's being trained by his pornography to treat you like an object i mean he 0.97

00:56:09.920 didn't even talk to you about he just did this gross thing to you and you're like what the heck 0.95

00:56:14.120 you walk out right but he was trained by porn to do that that's not normal like a little boy doesn't 0.86

00:56:19.660 grow up and become that naturally as a man he's trained to think and become deviant and messed up i 1.00

00:56:25.300 disagree because if you're gay you're gonna want it in the ass and as a woman i love pegging and i 1.00

00:56:31.760 didn't learn that from porn it's a desire i had it's like i wish i had a dick sometimes and if i don't 1.00

00:56:37.320 i'm gonna buy one so to say that that's like like to say it only comes from porn is like such a when 0.99

00:56:43.660 did you first when did you first realize you wish you had a dick sometimes um probably since i was 0.99

00:56:49.920 little i've always been very sexual and have always wanted to fuck most people with two legs like i just 0.99

00:56:54.920 like i'm drawn to having sex and in my 20s maybe late 20s i think the curiosity was there and like 0.99

00:57:02.380 i didn't watch porn in my 20s i was christian and in monogamous marriage but i had this desire

00:57:06.480 and i was afraid of it and then i learned that like this is actually a common desire and like i've

00:57:11.040 fulfilled it and i'm like oh my gosh i love this it like resonates with me and it brings me pleasure

00:57:15.660 it brings my people pleasure that i do this too but outside of it's easy to judge and like ew weird

00:57:20.660 gross wrong but inside it's been amazing for me and the people that we participate in 0.94

00:57:25.440 but if you're okay if you are happy like having sex with the person you're having sex with right 0.99

00:57:30.680 what is the difference between you having sex with that person you having sex with a different person 0.67

00:57:34.620 like why do you feel the need to have sex with everybody it's not a need it's a desire and i think 0.57

00:57:38.920 it's learning that it's okay to have desires it's okay if they're not mainstream it's like if it's

00:57:44.140 between consenting adults like do what you want like that's another thing like no one's being harmed

00:57:49.380 here no one's being coerced no one's being manipulated it's like i desire this do you desire

00:57:53.560 this yes great we're all on the same page here's a question do you think all desires should be acted

00:57:59.280 on all sexual desires nope and that's that's a that's a common accusation that's like oh well 0.96

00:58:04.600 then you're gonna bestiality is always thrown in there which is so ridiculous can we not talk 0.95

00:58:08.580 about bestiality oh yeah sorry i can't say that sorry that conversation but like they say people 0.65

00:58:13.820 then assume it's all desire it's like no it's like checking in and asking and what i teach my life

00:58:18.080 coaching is the difference between surface desires and soulful desires what's a surface desire of

00:58:22.820 like god what feel like really good right now is eating an entire package of oreos dunking them in

00:58:27.260 milk and watching tv for five hours that might feel really good right now but my soulful desire is just

00:58:31.820 to feel good not feel gross in about five hours so it's like checking beneath that desire and so for

00:58:38.020 me i was always afraid of my sexual desires what does this mean about me am i a cheater am i gonna hurt 0.84

00:58:42.380 someone i'm like oh i'm just a very sexual person who gets a lot of pleasure and connection out of

00:58:47.260 sex that's actually a gift i bring when i have sex with you it's amazing i bring my whole self to 0.81

00:58:53.200 the table and i've had people tell me i've never had something like that i've never been given pleasure

00:58:58.020 like that and to know that i could fulfill that for you that's an honor so i want to go back to my

00:59:02.900 original question yeah if everybody had this same set of moralities across the table throughout our

00:59:10.280 whole society how quickly do you think it would take for things to completely fall apart i don't think

00:59:15.160 that would ever happen first of all you don't think that would ever happen no and i because i

00:59:18.400 think you don't you don't you don't think hold on hold on chase one second oh yeah uh if you guys

00:59:24.240 curse in these it doesn't trigger the robot voice uh wait let's pull it back up and read it yeah i'll

00:59:28.740 pull it back up um i don't know why this one came over it but what the frick hold on it's i'm

00:59:35.100 re-triggering it right now uh what is going on uh yo bad zxc thank you for the 200 just when i thought

00:59:43.620 the 200 just when i thought the depravity could not get any lower in modern women all i can say is 1.00

00:59:51.620 you can only impress me at this point hold 300 and for you think your kids aren't about to get the

00:59:57.840 soul bullied out of them because of your phase is completely insane uh your response yeah it's just

01:00:04.040 like i've already told you my kids and my teen boys have said my our friends don't care and they

01:00:08.600 know so it doesn't stand any truth to that like well do you think do you think if sorry do you

01:00:15.760 think if other families were practicing the same thing their kids wouldn't get bullied um i think

01:00:20.960 kids get bullied no matter what unfortunately it doesn't it's not just for sexually different

01:00:25.020 families that's the that's the thing here is like we try to stigmatize sexually different families as

01:00:30.140 though they're gonna be the only ones get bullied i have friends who are all kinds of monogamous

01:00:34.440 non-monogamous married single parenthood and their kids are getting bullied for totally different

01:00:38.840 reasons it's not relegated to just sexually different right but it's also putting a target

01:00:43.160 on their back exactly people will get bullied for all for all sorts of different things but that's not

01:00:48.180 an excuse to give kids more ammunition to bully do you think that do you think that teen their teen

01:00:54.200 sons are telling you the truth absolutely i know their friends their friends know me and we talk about

01:00:59.140 it all the time because like they're we just have such an open family what if they didn't want to

01:01:02.960 hurt your feelings would it weird you out if you're if your kids friends were like watching

01:01:07.340 your only fans like well they can't well they can't because you have to be up you have to be of

01:01:11.640 age you can't you lie about your age you have to have an id i don't know how only fans you have to get

01:01:16.240 id but people like they definitely they're definitely watching your content they're definitely watching

01:01:22.540 your content they're definitely doing things they shouldn't be doing to your content but who

01:01:26.320 hasn't done that to their friend's hot mom there's one more thing i think there's one more important

01:01:30.860 thing going on here though because i think this is something really interesting nick you were

01:01:34.740 talking about like sexual desires and the desire to act out on our different sexual desires and i

01:01:39.980 think there's this mentality in our culture today that if someone has a sexual desire then that is

01:01:45.540 their identity that can become their identity if they have enough of a sexual desire in one

01:01:48.840 direction that's their identity and so but i don't think that's true i don't think we're defined by our

01:01:53.540 desires i think we're defined by what we choose i love pegging and i do not identify as a pegger

01:01:58.260 it's like i love threesomes and i don't identify as a threesome it's like i'm nicole mitchell a woman

01:02:04.820 who's alive and in tune with what she wants and lets herself have it with consenting adults and

01:02:09.400 there's nothing wrong with that i disagree all kinds of experiences but doesn't mean i have to

01:02:13.560 identify as each of those things i love oreos i'm not an oreo you know it's like we have to realize

01:02:19.560 like this these are statements we say as it's there's no substance behind it no i disagree i

01:02:26.040 disagree nick i gotta make a point you go for it you say that there's nothing wrong with it you say

01:02:31.020 that as long as you're at peace with your morality it's fine i completely disagree again i think i

01:02:37.360 think if our entire society ran the way that you're kind of prescribing where people just fulfill

01:02:41.600 whatever quote-unquote soulful desires they have things would completely fall apart like

01:02:46.760 the values that she was preaching to justin earlier when he you know he was getting a little

01:02:50.640 bit annoyed by it understandably i i what she was preaching like like i i am here personally in the

01:02:58.840 world to serve god and i believe that one of the best ways that we can serve god is by sacrificing

01:03:03.980 our selfish desires that might have negative impacts on ourselves or other people and these

01:03:10.700 statements like you know as long as you're fine with it it's okay like there's ripple effects to our

01:03:15.640 actions in that statement though the assumption is that the desires are negative and that they will

01:03:19.840 create harm so i have a belief that my desires are given to me by god and by fulfilling my desires it

01:03:25.820 brings more good in the world you think that they're given to you by god yes i think the fact 0.74

01:03:30.320 that i have a clitoris which only exists for pleasure not for reproduction not for child wearing purely for

01:03:36.340 my pleasure i believe there's a divine design where pleasure is our birthright and so by me honoring my

01:03:41.760 desire for pleasure letting myself receive it letting myself give it to others produces so much good and

01:03:47.640 pleasure and connection i it baffles me truly how people are so afraid of pleasure they'd rather

01:03:53.400 sacrifice and deny and to say to push back on what you're saying earlier too like if we did all the way

01:03:57.940 you guys preach of like husband wife monogamous marriage and kids that's how society has been what 0.52

01:04:03.700 the past 100 plus years and women are trapped in marriages thousands of years women were trapped in 1.00

01:04:08.740 marriages they couldn't get out and if they got out they were ruined because they were their worth

01:04:12.100 and value was solely found in that marriage they could only provide it yes women didn't have the 1.00

01:04:16.560 right to own homes open credit cards have bank accounts buy property the reason the divorce rate

01:04:20.940 is so high now is more women are so are we are capable to be financially independent so this is 1.00

01:04:27.580 something i'm super passionate about because i think there's been a version of maybe fundamentalist

01:04:32.780 christianity that people have experienced that they felt really hurt by and so they've kind of

01:04:38.060 lashed out against it and rejected it and i see this a lot actually um but the reality is when

01:04:43.820 you know i actually so i was raised protestant went through this kind of semi-agnostic phase kind of

01:04:48.480 like you went through and then i ended up catholic after doing a ton of study and a ton of research and

01:04:52.720 just being convinced by the beauty of it and it was learning about how men and women are equal dignity

01:04:58.380 they're equal partners learning about sex what god's design is which is a beautiful one that it is about

01:05:06.120 pleasure it absolutely is about pleasure and pleasure it's not dirty or shameful but it's also

01:05:10.740 about procreation and the ability to bring life into the world and it's designed to be within marriage 0.90

01:05:15.220 where you're in a lifelong public commitment to someone that you're going to give yourself 110% to

01:05:22.300 and that's how you build a beautiful family of love and respect and your children are secure in

01:05:27.420 your love that you have with your spouse and so you know i don't know all of your experiences

01:05:30.880 obviously and everyone has had different experiences but the reality is the social data proves

01:05:36.500 that monogamous lifelong marriages make people happiest they have the most sex and the best sex

01:05:42.780 and kids are healthier that way and so that's why i know you're excited about that vision uh chase and

01:05:48.080 that's why we want to share that vision not just because of some fundamentalist thing but because it

01:05:52.440 actually makes people happier and healthier in the long run yep okay talk to my people then we'll continue

01:05:57.640 on that conversation a little bit later um i do have to read a couple soup chats and i need to touch

01:06:02.960 on a couple other points here so we have uh let's see here we have did i miss a few shit okay i don't 0.83

01:06:08.780 think so all right we have uh jorman gander 100 are you able to see this can you read this i would have

01:06:14.940 to lean forward top males are often referred to as alpha but the term alpha comes from studies of wolves

01:06:19.940 in captivity not down the wild where they are more family centered guys if you could replace alphas and betas

01:06:25.680 what would you call these top guys

01:06:27.540 justin wallers and

01:06:32.160 first of all i think alpha and beta is the most cringy thing it's pretty cringe to to associate

01:06:38.720 yourself with um so i don't i don't particularly identify as either hard for me to say

01:06:45.960 was that a question directed towards us it's asking the guys i guess i mean i yeah i think the

01:06:52.140 whole alpha beta things kind of cringe super gay especially if you call it like you self-refer 0.85

01:06:57.800 there's no planet where i would ever call myself that i just i hate it so much you got alpha you 0.74

01:07:04.020 got sigmas you got sigmas that march to the beat of their own drum i feel like sigmas think they 0.97

01:07:09.000 could be alpha but there's a real alpha around so they're like i'm sigma fuck that guy that's that's 0.90

01:07:13.920 just nerdy you got betas and then this is one i'm trying to bring into the lexicon bro the omega 0.97

01:07:18.900 males oh yeah yeah what's that what is that so the omega male right this is this is uh you've got

01:07:25.340 christ who said he was the alpha and the omega right and so you've got alpha males the omega male

01:07:30.080 this is the archetype of the man who commands respect he commands authority but he also has his

01:07:34.000 sights set on the end the kingdom that's coming right an alpha male who's focused on the kingdom

01:07:38.520 he's focused on the service right yes he's a leader to serve yes that's the omega male i identify as an

01:07:45.340 omega male chase is an omega male okay very cool very cool all right uh mr max thank you for the

01:07:53.020 hundred uh chase and leela can we bring back moral how can we bring back morals in society in our

01:07:58.420 society you just gotta live it joyfully yourself just be like proud and happy and joyful and live in

01:08:04.440 it here's yeah and don't judge people you know ultimately stay the course of what you think's

01:08:10.340 right that's a good answer i would also like i've got a better one no no no to add to add on to that

01:08:16.980 how to bring back morals in society i mean there's there's nothing new under the sun right the morality

01:08:20.400 that she's preaching has been around for thousands of years various societies have experimented with

01:08:24.720 polygamy pansexuality so on and so forth i think the best way to bring back morality in society

01:08:30.620 is to be fruitful right god provided us the blueprint for success and relationships and

01:08:37.920 marriage all these different kind of things and like i don't think a society that's based on that

01:08:41.380 kind of morality is going to stand the test of time right but i think if if people try to be the

01:08:46.400 best versions of themselves that they can possibly be raise the best families that they possibly can

01:08:50.560 raise up those families with good morality and and that dynasty that lineage goes on to set the

01:08:58.200 legacy in society i think long term that's how you bring morality back rock and roll hey uh mr max

01:09:03.140 thank you for the uh big hundred dollars shout out steve norman he coined the omega male term

01:09:07.320 by the way um we have 10 000 about 10 500 people watching right now so you know the chat is on fire

01:09:18.620 um thank you guys oh it's way too overexposed eric can you fix this um you hide that hide that just a

01:09:25.280 question for lila do you know who funded alfred kinsey's research i think the rockefeller institute

01:09:30.500 you know how to do it eric interesting how much of society the rockefellers have subverted a lot of 1.00

01:09:35.260 messed up stuff yep cool rockefellers also subverted is it all the way to zero you aware of that put it

01:09:41.920 to zero yeah the the rockefellers john d rockefeller in the beginning of the 20th century discovered that

01:09:47.740 you could make pharmaceuticals from petroleum products right so he created this entire what are we

01:09:52.400 talking about they asked me to expand on how rockefeller subverted america they did we can

01:09:57.420 move on if you yeah that's okay um we have uh mario garcia thing for the hundred chases a chad

01:10:03.880 can you get a deus volt in chat you guys are so focused on your passions but they will always flee

01:10:09.600 you the religious person however in denying his passion has the passion for eternal life he who drinks

01:10:15.640 from his well will never thirst marlo mario garcia thank you uh and he wanted a deus volt in the chat

01:10:24.240 let's get let's get uh if we have christ respecters in the chat let's get some deus volts in all caps

01:10:29.040 all right we have doc the nab let's hide that um clergy are at high risk for sex addiction pastor stripper

01:10:40.400 situations predictable and common unfortunately you won't get help until you hit rock bottom i pray

01:10:44.880 for your children whether you like it or not doc vanatilus thank you for the hundred you have a

01:10:49.520 response to doc thanks for the prayers okay the prayers have been heard okay and then we have eric

01:10:54.800 pull up the twitch please gotta shout out the twitch homies guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever oh 0.96

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01:11:24.240 us a follow in the prime sub um okay cool and then we have a couple super chats here i want to just read

01:11:29.120 really quick just a reminder guys um the i what are the triggers and whatever i'll get it later

01:11:35.360 um okay we have uh dustin bond with the big 200 super chat man this panel popcorn hey thank you so

01:11:40.960 much man really appreciate the uh super chat all right that was a uh attempt to the slow clap start

01:11:46.640 there okay we have uh have you seen what's that movie uh uh not another teen movie yeah not another

01:11:54.880 uh where the guy tries to get like one of those group slow chats going okay whatever um matthew self

01:12:00.880 thanks for the 100 super chat at the moment you have to say as a something inside the conversation

01:12:06.160 it means way less to the consumer of the idea uh chase you have a response to this was that directed

01:12:13.200 at me i assume because i i think you said as a christian uh whatever i don't care okay uh matthew

01:12:21.120 thank for the uh hundred dollar super chat much appreciated friend okay um so and then we have a

01:12:28.080 question here from stifler asked everyone to rate their looks on the scale of one to ten so we'll

01:12:34.080 go around the table on this one what do you rate your looks on the scale of one to ten go ahead oh my

01:12:39.760 gosh um maybe a seven i'd give myself an eight i got so yelled at last time but a four or five no

01:12:52.400 you're higher than that you're much higher than that no but that's why everyone yelled at me because

01:12:56.480 they were saying i was fishing but that's just my own view of myself oh what sometimes we're our own

01:13:03.760 worst critics totally so usually four or five um i would say uh seven um i think i'm like funny so i

01:13:17.360 think it like boosts me to like a fucking i think i'm like a nine because i'm funny but it's looks are we 0.97

01:13:22.240 we doing looks alone like with makeup or no makeup how about how about both if you want okay so like 0.87

01:13:29.360 when i wake up in the morning um no makeup i think i'm like an eight and then like when i do my makeup

01:13:35.760 i think like a nine but i thought you were funny so so with the funny you're a ten yeah okay all right

01:13:44.160 total package there you go uh i think you guys are all giving yourselves too low that's my opinion and to

01:13:50.800 my husband i'm a 10 and that's what matters to me okay but to you to me self-assessment i mean because

01:13:57.200 i think his love for me just gives me extra joy i would say yeah i see myself as a 10 when i'm with

01:14:02.480 him oh yeah we're both tons so yeah it's all seven and a half eight on a good day

01:14:10.320 justin oh guys are doing this yeah we're doing it too i guess yeah dude i don't know i've never

01:14:15.920 thought about this i'm i'm just gonna have to be a 10 then okay all right okay uh kaiser wilhelm the

01:14:23.040 third back there what 10 yeah all right good times good times what about you i give myself six really

01:14:33.440 have you relegated yourself from 6.9 well 6.9 on a good day okay 6.9 on a good day six you know i think

01:14:40.240 after seeing the beard on your instagram like you should definitely give yourself a little bit of a

01:14:43.520 higher number most guys yeah i like can't grow a beard like that i like the long beard actually

01:14:47.680 well yeah i just feel like there's always room for improvement we're giving you a seven you know

01:14:52.400 no we're giving you an eight so you're an eight say eight just hate it from seven to eight okay um

01:14:58.960 yeah i think i'm a six um okay so we have i have a couple questions just to bring it back really quick

01:15:03.600 to justin um in terms of kind of your relationships with with women uh is it closed is it it's closed on

01:15:11.760 their end right like you may have a couple girls here and there maybe more than a couple but they 1.00

01:15:19.520 are exclusive to you is that correct just into into the mic if you yes okay gotcha what would you tell

01:15:26.400 one of them if they wanted to be with other guys it was nice to know you it's not a problem yeah i look

01:15:34.160 man i'm not forceful at all like this is a choice thing if if a woman sees it as a valuable thing then so

01:15:40.080 be it and i honestly though i think the way the conversation is going is it's like i have like

01:15:44.960 80 wives or some shit um but uh no if they want to go they can go man no problem that was what i 1.00

01:15:52.240 expected yeah you should always be calm and respectful you never i don't believe in raising 0.97

01:15:55.680 your voice and getting angry anything like that you know i have a question do you think marriage

01:16:01.280 should be public what do you mean do you think that when you commit your life to someone and you're

01:16:06.960 going to build a family with them do you think that should be done in community so public i i think

01:16:13.520 that's up to the people that do it i don't think there's a right way to do it at all so that's up to

01:16:18.080 you so you think like for children they shouldn't they don't have the right to know whether or not

01:16:23.040 their parents are married and be able to feel that when they go out into society yeah i think that if

01:16:27.200 your if your kids ask you should tell them the truth 100 there's no lie or nothing i would ever keep

01:16:31.920 from a child of mine meaning the truth about no we're not married i have other other people i'm

01:16:36.480 sleeping with whatever they ask me i would answer yeah i think as somebody that was raised by a

01:16:42.320 single mom like those things they they they don't matter as much to your child as you think that they 0.97

01:16:48.640 may i mean it did have an effect on my relationships going growing up but it's also something like you can

01:16:55.120 learn from that experience through your parents you know like you can as long as you have open

01:16:59.040 communication with your child and i don't have any children but i have younger siblings and i'm

01:17:04.240 openly communicative with all my family members i think what's most important when it comes to kids

01:17:08.800 is their love in the house do they see love between their parents not not are they living the way of

01:17:14.400 of making people that go to church happy it's a very downward deflecting question you're asking me

01:17:19.200 and i understand why you're doing it however i'll put love first in front of marriage every day of

01:17:24.000 the week because people get married in america every weekend putting the marriage in the facebook

01:17:28.720 pictures before the actual love so i'll take the love over all the i think that's probably true

01:17:33.520 there's a lot it's definitely true there's a lot of hypocrisy out there for sure there's a lot of

01:17:37.040 hypocrisy in christianity as well like bible thumping people that want to beat you up with their views 0.97

01:17:42.160 and ask silly questions about things that don't matter like is your kid going to be upset that you 0.99

01:17:46.480 have other women all i'm worried about is being a good father and a provider and giving them a life 0.67

01:17:51.680 full of love and if i can do that i've been quite quite successful in fact i'd say more successful than

01:17:56.480 most christians so my understanding my understanding of love is that it is totally

01:18:03.120 wanting the best for the other person and that it's committed and that it's sacrificial and that

01:18:07.760 it's exclusive it's faithful and fidelity i think is a really important part of love and if you don't

01:18:12.240 have fidelity in love then you don't have the security and the opportunity for full vulnerability

01:18:16.800 can i throw a hypothetical at you yeah please do if and this is a hypothetical please so please don't

01:18:22.080 get offended but if your husband were to do something that was not okay with you whatsoever

01:18:28.480 to the point where you did not any longer want to be with him whether that's cheating or something

01:18:32.960 else that's just a no for you would you she would stay would you leave them to just please your your 1.00

01:18:39.920 your children and to keep your family together is that like some you're willing to risk your own

01:18:45.520 happiness and well-being or even safety if it was something that was that extreme are you talking about

01:18:50.640 abuse i'm using a hypothetical okay whatever it is that would be like a straight like i need to leave

01:18:56.880 this person would you stay with them just for the convenience and also the toxicity that it could

01:19:02.640 bring into your household infect and inflicting your your children you know so my position is if and it's

01:19:08.160 the position of the catholic church as well which is that if you're in a situation in a marriage that's

01:19:12.720 abusive right it's causing harm to you or your children then you definitely should create separation

01:19:17.680 you should leave you can actually get a legal divorce if you need to separate your assets

01:19:21.760 but the position of the church and my belief is that marriage is forever until death was part until

01:19:27.920 death was part so you can marry someone and they become a screwball you know they totally mess up

01:19:32.960 they they do bad things and you should separate yourself from them for your protection or your

01:19:37.920 kids protection but you then don't go on and just remarry and try to live another life now there's

01:19:43.920 something in the case if you were lied to so there's something called annulment which some people

01:19:48.560 say oh that's catholic divorce it's actually not annulment is when the mayor it's as if the marriage

01:19:53.280 never happened because people were lying typically when they go into the marriage so like typically

01:19:57.120 abusers don't just start abusing after marriage they're abusing before marriage sure they're lying

01:20:01.280 so they're lying to you in a serious way and you go into a marriage you weren't free able to freely

01:20:06.240 choose that marriage and so afterwards you can request an annulment from the church and be like hey i don't

01:20:11.120 think i was even married because i didn't freely choose this i didn't know this guy was a liar and

01:20:14.800 you know addicted to pornography and abuse and all these things and so in that case you could nullify

01:20:19.520 the marriage and then be free to me be free to actually get married i want to say something just

01:20:24.080 to be completely fair to you i think what you have in your marriage is absolutely beautiful no problem

01:20:28.800 with it at all i think that if you two are happy and like living together in the lord and like you see

01:20:34.560 a future that even that goes past this life to heaven i think that's a beautiful beautiful thing no issue at all

01:20:39.440 well and you should be commended for doing it you know properly well but not properly in regards to

01:20:44.640 your religion i don't mean to cut you off but properly in in regards to like what you are

01:20:48.160 setting out to do with him i think that's a beautiful thing well we're we're definitely imperfect people

01:20:52.160 figuring it out right and that's what part of marriages is becoming better together you know in

01:20:56.000 that total commitment to each other um but the thing is like i'm passionate about not just wanting

01:21:00.720 it for myself right like i'm very grateful to be married it has rooted my life it has anchored my life

01:21:05.200 it's changed my life but i don't want to just keep that to myself and be like oh this is just my personal

01:21:09.280 thing over here i want other people to wreck to have the opportunity for that what do you think

01:21:13.680 it takes for women to get in a position to find a husband that will commit to them fully and give 0.94

01:21:18.240 their life to them what do you think that takes well i think the first step is uh working on yourself

01:21:22.960 and your own development as a woman becoming the best that you can be and then having good standards

01:21:28.400 for the man that you're going to be with like to be perfectly honest with you i would not ever date a

01:21:33.360 guy who i thought would be unfaithful to me not even date him never if i found out my person i was

01:21:38.640 dating is sleeping with other women or sleeping with anyone honestly because i don't i didn't have

01:21:42.480 we didn't have sex before marriage i'd be like no i'm not i'm not interested in but i ask you what

01:21:46.160 what you think a woman needs to do i think the woman needs to become the best she can be she needs

01:21:51.120 to grow psychologically be healthy if she needs to heal from trauma from her childhood a lot of us have

01:21:55.520 baggage i had baggage go get the therapy that you need um really understand do you not do you not

01:22:00.400 believe that that therapy is in the church and christianity do i not believe what do you not

01:22:05.280 believe it's everything that you need is that church you can't just find that in the word well

01:22:09.280 the beauty of so the beauty of catholicism is it's very much focused on the whole person right so it's

01:22:14.240 not like we're just spiritual beings right we're also bodies with desires with traumas with with

01:22:19.360 experiences and so the psychological world and you know psychological health is an important part of

01:22:24.480 bodily health um and it connects to your spiritual health so therapy is great you know obviously we

01:22:30.400 totally promote therapy for those that need it mental health is really important so just because

01:22:34.400 you're doing the right thing spiritually doesn't mean you're necessarily mentally healthy you may need

01:22:37.840 to get mental health support too i think this is actually something a lot of people who are really

01:22:41.520 spiritual fall into they think oh if i'm just pray enough i can make my depression go away right and

01:22:46.560 yes sometimes god does just heal depression like that but a lot of the time god uses natural means

01:22:51.360 like a good therapist you know a good psychiatrist to help somebody through that or a good threesome 0.93

01:22:57.040 oh i would say that that's going to decline someone's mental health in the end would be my

01:23:01.840 my for some people but that's again like it's so unique to the person and i think so you're talking

01:23:06.400 about like spiritual you're talking about bodily mental we're also sexual and we absolutely are

01:23:10.800 that's the part and like we have to find a way to healthfully channel that desire and for you that's

01:23:14.960 through monogamous marriage for me that's through non-monogamy and trusting like what is right for me is

01:23:19.360 right for me what is right is right for you and back to your question too about you know what if

01:23:24.080 all society was like you but it's not it's a spectrum we have people all the way on the

01:23:27.760 one extreme of monogamy we have other people in the other extreme to polyamory and like we're all

01:23:31.840 somewhere across there and i think there's beauty in all of it depending who you are and what's good

01:23:36.160 for you and so i don't think it has to be one or the other but nick you're three years in right you're

01:23:40.880 three years in living this way so look at look at 90 years look at 80s i don't know i'm thinking the same

01:23:46.240 i don't know how old you want to hold on two hundred dollars and sixty nine cents

01:23:51.200 madison and giselle is there anything you want to talk about yeah let's uh let's move things

01:23:57.920 along a little bit here um so uh kaiser wilhelm the third you got anything it's okay yeah chase

01:24:06.080 do you want to pull up a little bit more to the table it's super hard not particularly it's not

01:24:09.680 comfortable yeah i'm sitting sideways you guys are good yeah you're good uh kaiser wilhelm

01:24:16.160 the third do you have anything to say okay i guess not giselle what's up oh i mean i've mainly

01:24:23.120 just been listening i'm not too into religion but i really am into love and monogamy and i think it's

01:24:30.000 very special because i think all of us could have sex all the time if we wanted to and i think that's

01:24:35.840 what makes having sex with a special person so special and that's just my viewpoint on it but i

01:24:42.000 understand that we all have have you find happiness through different ways or through different means

01:24:48.880 but i guess this is just how i choose to live my life oh i commend you for having that point of view

01:24:55.680 i really do i have a question do you think that like you're hyper sexual like has come from and

01:25:02.400 i don't want to like pry but like trauma from like maybe getting like molested or raped like 0.97

01:25:08.640 bro what the fuck not at all that's this common question that most only fans models get yeah it's 0.98

01:25:13.920 like you have childhood trauma and like that's how afraid of pleasure we are that's how afraid we are 0.99

01:25:18.160 of women who know what they want and let themselves have it we have to couch it in terms of she was 1.00

01:25:22.480 probably traumatized as a child what if she's just a powerful woman who knows what she wants like we 1.00

01:25:26.240 don't know what to do with a woman like that so we have to couch her in terms of something had to have 1.00

01:25:30.080 happened to her but no no it was just a question no i'm just saying this is common in the only fans

01:25:33.840 world but when you see a man with a strong sexual desire sleeping with a bunch of women it's like

01:25:37.920 they're looked up well a lot of times they call it the ego they say it's his ego that needs it

01:25:41.840 right truly he just wants to have sex yeah it's like it's not yeah well maybe some guys some guys 0.85

01:25:47.200 because they're the ones that brag about what dude i will never brag about women i sleep with ever 0.93

01:25:51.360 exactly that's about that's in the chat in the um alpha male category yeah that's super cringy

01:25:56.960 yeah so i agree um i think those things are misconstrued sometimes though because i think

01:26:02.240 some men just like literally have that kind of drive in them like physically like coming out of them it

01:26:06.480 tortures them i tell people all the time if i could stroke a check for a million dollars right now

01:26:10.480 and it clear and that feeling never come to me again i would i would write the check

01:26:15.360 i think that your drive whether it's your sexual drive or your drive for whatever you're aiming at right

01:26:20.720 wealth or friendship you're lonely whatever it is it's powerful right and it can be channeled

01:26:26.480 and so you know to what you were saying earlier um justin is like you can channel these things

01:26:31.040 towards the end that you choose and so i think the big question is what is the end that we're going to

01:26:35.200 choose that when we're 80 years old or 90 years old on our deathbed we're like you know are we going

01:26:40.160 to be surrounded by that lifelong partner that spouse that we are faithful to our whole life

01:26:44.080 and our kids who grew up in that intact home are we going to be alone are we going to be you know what

01:26:48.880 what kind of life are we aiming to surround a polyamorous woman would not be alone at her 1.00

01:26:53.840 funeral i'm gonna let you know that right now let's be real like how do you believe let's let's

01:27:01.200 you guys like let's be real how long is this merry-go-round gonna last right in my in my opinion

01:27:06.160 i think go ahead kirsten as women too we are also more wired to have an emotional connection to sex i can 1.00

01:27:12.800 still have a high sex drive but have sex with one person if you start having sex with so many people 0.99

01:27:17.920 and don't get me wrong i'm an only fans model too so i i don't give a fuck about that but like 0.99

01:27:22.240 when you're having sex with so many people that as a woman there is no more emotional connection 0.97

01:27:27.040 that clearly is some kind of issue well one thing i can say as a man is i know for a fact that a man

01:27:31.680 can love a woman and sleep with other women and not be in love with those other men and women also

01:27:35.200 are wired completely different and i agree with you and that's i cannot have sex that's why it's a 0.94

01:27:39.280 problem for me that's why it's a problem for me so if i love a girl there's no having sex with other 0.98

01:27:43.840 guys because if she loves me she she doesn't even see other men you know other men are invisible if

01:27:49.120 you're in love with a man other other men are invisible and that's no disrespect to you i'm

01:27:54.320 just i'm just saying and that's assuming that all women have to have an emotional connection to have

01:27:58.160 sex that's not true and and in that same sense you know i feel as if like you know her and i we we

01:28:04.240 see a little bit eye to eye on certain things but i see eye to eye with a lot of different people here

01:28:07.920 because i have i'm i'm able to see different perspectives but i do want to do want to point

01:28:12.400 out the fact that you know she was in a in a marriage for you said 12 years of course when

01:28:17.280 she becomes single she's going to want to experiment and see what's going on outside of that i'm 21

01:28:21.760 years old i wasn't in a marriage but i was in a very toxic bad relationship for five years when i

01:28:27.360 got out of that i wanted to just see what what could happen for me maybe it wasn't even that it

01:28:32.640 was toxic it was just a long time that doesn't mean that it's going to be this way forever that

01:28:36.720 doesn't mean that i can't meet the right person and put all my intentions into just one person

01:28:40.640 that doesn't mean i'm incapable of commitment it just means that i'm 21 years old i'd rather focus

01:28:44.720 on myself focus on what is best for me in this moment and not focus all my attention on to a

01:28:50.080 man or woman or anything yeah and rollo calls that the party years in his book so it's right in line

01:28:54.240 with where you are age-wise i would argue though that you're not head over heels in love with your

01:28:58.720 partner you know it's not not like obsessed you know that kind of love i'm talking about just one

01:29:03.520 sec while this comes in shooting shots love you man you are saving men get out there and make money

01:29:09.200 and be better man uh thomas thank you for the donation thomas did you want to continue your

01:29:15.200 point no okay i i do want to know the answers to the question how long do you think this merry-go-round

01:29:20.800 is going to last like as long as the merry-go-round of monogamy lasts it's it's how people are wired

01:29:26.320 when people who are wired for monogamy are going to be monogamous people are wired to be non-monogamous are

01:29:30.400 gonna be non-monogamous the root of my question is like right now it's fun because like there's

01:29:35.520 a lot of people that want to have sex with you and like you're enjoying that companionship and

01:29:38.640 all that kind of stuff but like what about when you're in your 50s and 60s and like 70s and all

01:29:43.680 the people all the people that want to bang you now who don't want to commit to you like they're

01:29:47.760 probably not going to be around please don't commit to me i'm not open for that but like don't you want

01:29:52.160 that companionship when you're older with who with my person i'm dating my partner you think they're

01:29:57.280 going to be around when you're in your 70s and stuff yeah and if not that's okay too i don't put

01:30:00.880 pressure because i this is the big thing coming out of monogamous marriage we vowed to face each

01:30:04.720 other until death do us part and then we parted long before death and it was really traumatizing

01:30:08.720 because i'm like wait we said this but we're doing this so i've told anyone i date now in my person

01:30:12.720 right now like i don't even want you to say that to me that is actually really alarming to me that

01:30:17.280 because i don't know where you're going to be 30 years from now i don't know who i'm going to be 30

01:30:20.160 years from now what if we could become totally different people i am not going to hold you to a promise you made

01:30:25.200 30 years back i'd much rather instead of saying to me i'm going to spend the rest of my life with you

01:30:29.520 i'd rather say i am so excited to wake up with you tomorrow morning i want to take it one day at a

01:30:33.520 time make sure we're on the same page we're in alignment we are vibing things are amazing

01:30:37.680 but if we start veering in different directions it is not my job to rein you back in and force you back

01:30:42.400 kind of justin is saying like you're free to leave like i don't control you your own person i'm free to

01:30:47.520 leave and if i desire a long-term companionship i believe i can have that if i desire to have many

01:30:52.400 partners over the rest of my life i believe i can have that i truly believe we get to have the

01:30:56.640 desires of our heart i think the human condition is that things aren't always amazing right we have

01:31:02.800 bad days we get sick terrible accidents can happen and so that's where the power of love comes in a

01:31:09.840 love that doesn't leave a love that doesn't isn't based on feelings or desire but a love that's based

01:31:14.400 on choice and i think deep down we're all wired for that even men even men that like like you were

01:31:19.920 saying justin i want to be with multiple women and everything i think deep down we want a love

01:31:24.240 that stays a love that lasts and it is possible for everyone every single person at this table i

01:31:29.520 guarantee you a thousand percent it is possible for you not for asexual yeah but i would argue that like

01:31:34.000 who are you to tell me that i'm not going to be happy because i don't choose your path yes i don't

01:31:37.600 think i said that that pretty much you reframed it in that way so who are you to say that i will say

01:31:42.720 do you think i'm going to be less happy than you i think that if you live your life and you said

01:31:47.680 you're not sharing whether or not you're doing this we're all talking in hypothetical so i don't

01:31:51.200 know exactly how you're living right you didn't share that but if hypothetically you live your life

01:31:55.520 where you are starting multiple families with multiple women what if i have one family of 50 1.00

01:32:01.120 girlfriends i think in the end it will bring great unhappiness to your family to your children to the

01:32:07.200 mother of your children and to you okay cool just wanna just wanna just wanna just wanna clarify what

01:32:13.520 what you're saying so kind of related to this um let's let's speak a little bit on marriage really

01:32:17.600 quick so uh uh i agree with you justin i think marriage is an l especially for men i mean you're

01:32:26.720 an incredibly successful guy and i think you previously stated hey look i didn't get to my

01:32:32.320 position in life to marry someone and it be a liability where she could potentially uh change

01:32:38.720 your mind no no so i agree with you there and especially i mean with the stats as they are i

01:32:44.400 think it's something like 80 of marriages end in divorce or sorry excuse me 50 of marriages end in

01:32:49.760 divorce 80 of those are initiated by women so men are disproportionately impacted by the negative

01:32:57.840 well there's almost it's almost entirely negative outcomes of divorce so um i i and i but chase

01:33:06.160 i know we've kind of had a back and forth on the whole marriage thing and i think kind of my point

01:33:11.280 is that you could have a long-term even life partner with someone and not get married to them

01:33:16.080 and i mean i think the two things i'd point to recently uh granted this one isn't as strong of a

01:33:21.520 case as i previously thought but you look at for example what happened with steven crowder now there's

01:33:26.720 been some videos that came out and that don't exactly paint him in the most flattering light but you know

01:33:32.240 steve makes it easy to understand why his wife would leave yeah now granted it's a it's a three

01:33:37.600 minute clip of an otherwise multi-year long marriage people have bad day bad days he doesn't look good

01:33:46.160 granted he does not look good in that in that moment but you look at the the context of his marriage

01:33:52.400 they were both virgins both religious um even they got divorced you have we have you you're a

01:34:00.160 yeah but brian i gotta i gotta say something hold on hold on hold on your ex-pastor i imagine you were

01:34:06.000 quite pious when you were a pastor you were uh you got married i assume to a pious man were you uh

01:34:12.560 when you got married were you were you both virgins if i don't know if that's too prying but no we were

01:34:17.440 not but you were both deeply religious and so i look at that and i look even at the deeply religious

01:34:23.760 person where you know there's uh people who are agnostic or who are secular who get married

01:34:29.520 and i you know it would occur to me that people that are religious have even like a at least

01:34:36.320 logically with you would think well there's the religious component to marriage so those are

01:34:40.320 potentially stronger but you look at i mean and i looked at the the data i think i think religious

01:34:46.160 people edge out secular people a little more in terms of staying together but

01:34:50.400 it it still ain't looking great even for people who are religious brian the data the data on people

01:34:56.800 who are actually attending church and they take the religion seriously they don't just call themselves

01:35:01.920 christian there's a big difference in those data sets versus uh the people that actually take it

01:35:06.880 seriously right and to call her marriage pious or to call crowder's marriage pious is not actually

01:35:12.480 fair to people that are truly honoring what the word of god tells us to do for example

01:35:16.720 no offense but female pastor not not living in alignment with the word of god right paul was 1.00

01:35:23.200 clear we're not supposed to have female pastors okay so that's that's not that's not an example of 1.00

01:35:27.440 piety stephen crowder right the way that he was speaking to his wife look it's it's one moment in time

01:35:34.080 it's three minutes it's you know there's no way to extrapolate that out to the rest of their lives

01:35:38.320 with certainty but if those three minutes were a representation of the rest of the way that he was

01:35:44.960 approaching his marriage it's like that's not how we're called to treat our wives when we're

01:35:50.160 we're serious about our walk with christ you know like he was speaking to her in a very aggressive

01:35:55.280 and like i don't know man like like she she was just asking to like use the car and go get groceries 1.00

01:36:02.480 and stuff and the way he was speaking to her was so like condescending and rude and he was treating her 0.88

01:36:06.160 like shit you know what i mean it's like i watched that clip and i'm like i'm not surprised she wanted to 0.98

01:36:10.880 leave him if if i was a woman and i had been with a guy like that for years and he had been treating me 0.98

01:36:15.600 like that for years i'd be like yeah i probably you know want to get out of this marriage right it's

01:36:19.520 like it's verbal abuse you know but there's a difference between that versus somebody who is

01:36:24.400 actually striving to live by the tenets of the word of god and who is who you know who is loving

01:36:29.680 their wife as he loves himself and who is sacrificing for her and who treats her like gently and with

01:36:35.520 compassion and if the wife is doing the same to her husband and she's you know submitting to her

01:36:40.320 husband and she's loving him effectively and she follows his leadership and he is a good leader

01:36:44.560 you're gonna have totally different marital outcomes with couples like that right well and 0.90

01:36:48.480 it's really interesting because the step when they do studies about sexual satisfaction for women

01:36:54.480 they find that women who are married in monogamous faithful marriages and they are going to church 0.71

01:37:01.680 regularly like weekly share that they have the highest sexual satisfaction and super low divorce 0.66

01:37:07.920 rates that is so low divorce there's so much data out there that women get more orgasms and more 0.97

01:37:12.960 pleasure from women than they do to men but that's because the men is that man is probably not a good

01:37:17.680 lover to them yeah that's the majority of the situation so because they're saying man needs to

01:37:21.440 learn to see that's the beauty of a lifelong marriage it's like you learn to love each other

01:37:24.880 not just like in doing chores for each other or doing fun things together but in how you have sex

01:37:28.960 you learn to really love each other like what do you do if one partner has a high libido and then

01:37:34.080 one partner has a low libido well you work through that so one has to starve sexually and one no you

01:37:39.440 feel guilty you actually sacrifice are you speaking like was that the case in your marriage no but i'm

01:37:44.720 just i just know examples where men like but either gender one gender is like i have no drive so i can't

01:37:50.480 well if a guy i'll answer that if a guy has no drive and the woman has a high drive he should go get 1.00

01:37:54.720 his testosterone levels checked right because a guy a guy who's gonna say a guy who's healthy

01:37:59.120 a guy who's healthy he's like he's gonna want sex you know but if he has no if he has no sexual

01:38:03.680 drive or he's not eating well he's not or even or even vice versa like if a woman isn't having the

01:38:10.240 same sex drive like that's i don't know i mean i think what it comes then is there something wrong

01:38:14.720 with the woman as emotionally into the relationship if she's not doesn't have that high sex drive 0.84

01:38:21.680 because when with my ex he had a really high sex drive and i don't i really don't care for sex but 0.54

01:38:28.240 with him i was down to do it because you loved every single day yeah yeah however many times and that's

01:38:34.000 the design of monogamous love and marriage is that you learn to love each other and this idea of like

01:38:39.120 sexual incompatibility i think is a total myth i think it's a lie and people believe it and so they 1.00

01:38:44.000 have sex before marriage but people have who have sex before marriage and sleep together or cohabitate

01:38:48.320 actually have worse outcomes once married they're more likely to divorce not a lot of people know

01:38:52.400 that that's what the social data says but that's because when you're in it for life and you're in

01:38:56.720 it to really love this person be committed and learn them and do whatever you can for them you learn

01:39:01.600 pleasure with them you learn how to love not just sex with them but your entire life with them and

01:39:06.720 you work at it together i think it's because when you're like monogamous like the when you're with

01:39:11.200 someone longer like just them you learn to communicate like what you like and dislike in

01:39:16.480 the bedroom like your pleasure i like non-monogamy no i'm saying like you know what i mean no but like

01:39:22.880 i'm saying like when you're with it's like i love you and i want group sex well i think if you want

01:39:27.440 that if you want to cheat on somebody and you're married to them i think you make the decision not to

01:39:32.480 yeah and that's that's where i have different beliefs from religion which is about sacrifice i believe

01:39:36.480 in honoring desires and like again not saying i i think go out on a whim and just do whatever but

01:39:41.360 i think like i think that actually is true love can you love me in my fullness and in my fullness i'm

01:39:45.440 not monogamous in my fullness i want to have sex with other people in my fullness i'm very sexual

01:39:50.080 if that's too much for you i can't be with you and i bless and release you see i think you're making

01:39:54.640 an identity out of your desires but your identity is not just what you desire you're making your identity

01:40:00.240 out of your desires just because mine are sexual you're making that about me but you make an identity

01:40:04.640 out of your desires for monogamy for marriage for procreation that's your identity i i see we all

01:40:10.400 make our identities around our desires it's not just for sexually i think i think there's a lot of truth

01:40:14.320 to what you're saying the question is what desire will you be defined by your sexual impulse and urge

01:40:18.800 or will you be defined by something much bigger or are you controlled like love or is your identity

01:40:23.120 based on controlling your desire it's like i think that's actually harmful it's about channeling it

01:40:27.920 it's about channeling that's what i do i channel like to all the people i love

01:40:30.960 rodrigo laura is the second thanks for your hundred bucks bro he said advice 22 year old 22 years old

01:40:38.560 unemployed with applications since october sister just called my mom my dad is cheating with another

01:40:44.560 girl he is my dad and was never my father he is my dad and was never my father i lent him sorry to

01:40:50.480 hear that bro i lent him all savings 24 000 so he can buy his new car how do i deal with my circumstances

01:40:56.480 bro i'm sorry to hear that justin what do you think bro yeah man i mean maybe he's still your

01:41:03.280 father maybe he made a mistake is he a good man does he love your mom does he take care of you

01:41:06.960 was he a good dad to you even when he didn't have to be you know i don't think you need to just

01:41:11.840 completely turn your back on him is he a good dad is a good husband to your mom that's the question you 0.99

01:41:15.840 need to ask leaving him because he he slipped up or some shit like that that's stupid especially after 0.99

01:41:20.400 some long event and in time that guy's been around for a long time man you should really think about 0.98

01:41:26.320 how you're going to handle it because just jump it up and get mad who's to say you're not going to do

01:41:29.920 that one day and then boundaries around like my question be like why would you give 24 000 all your

01:41:35.760 money to him like is he good with money it's like being really honest and having those hard

01:41:39.520 conversations like if your dad has a history of spinning up everything he has and then doesn't have

01:41:43.280 leave anything for you in the family maybe it's not wise to give all your money to him so it's like

01:41:47.600 what is actually like responsible here like dad i know you're asking me for this but you have this

01:41:52.160 record of spending everything you get and we are not provided for so the best i can do is i loan you

01:41:56.800 this small amount or you can't borrow from me because i know what's going to happen so i think learning

01:42:01.520 how to communicate and letting yourself have boundaries with your own father rodrigo i would

01:42:06.080 also add to that um forgive forgive him as soon as you can man you're going to have a lot of anger

01:42:11.920 about this situation uh that anger if it builds up inside of you it's going to be corrosive to your

01:42:17.440 soul and also at the same time man like your dad has made it clear that as you said he's not going

01:42:22.720 to be a father you got to put yourself first in this situation do what you can to take care of yourself

01:42:27.120 and uh make sure that you don't let him take advantage of your compassion towards him i'd add

01:42:33.120 one quick thing is find a good mentor like a man that you can respect and that is living a faithful

01:42:39.040 fruitful life and try to learn from that man and there are good men out there um even when we're hurt by

01:42:44.400 bad ones yeah i didn't my dad i didn't meet him until i was like 12 and he was never a father to

01:42:49.520 me either and so i'm so sorry you lent like all your savings to your dad for that um and i hope you

01:42:56.480 find a guy that can be a father figure in your life that's super sad have you guys been reading the super

01:43:02.320 chats or was just that one popped up and there's the first one that we read okay cool i'll do a couple

01:43:06.080 we'll do a couple super chats right now we have uh sausage 101 go ahead giselle if you want to read this

01:43:11.600 let giselle know the silly crew is watching on discord we love her and can we get a meow from 0.91

01:43:16.960 everyone on the panel i'm not doing that shit but if giselle if you want to if you want to meow 0.96

01:43:25.680 that sounded exactly like a cat i love cats anybody else want oh meow okay okay let's hear it okay 0.95

01:43:32.880 meow meow i give that a d-minus it was like a very lackluster meow yeah um on purpose you gotta fully

01:43:44.240 commit pastor are we gonna get meow wait give it a c c-minus no no go no way can we get a rough can we get a

01:43:55.520 bark um yeah for alpha dog i know that's why i said it was a joke okay i'm sorry i just asked

01:44:09.760 justin wallard meow okay i apologize all right we have um we have uh herne with the 100 go ahead

01:44:16.320 giselle chase is right all pharmaceuticals derive from things that ultimately occur in nature but you

01:44:23.760 can't be patent patent aka make money if people know they can get it from there nature hence why farm

01:44:32.800 companies chemically remake or structure drugs so they can patent them to profit you read so much

01:44:39.680 quicker on your live stream by the way because it's closer to her probably yeah oh that's it that's

01:44:44.960 fair that's fair enough fair enough okay big pharma's profiting off the sickness of mankind can i say

01:44:50.160 something i like because my brother is a raw vegan i was a raw vegan for about a year and it can cure 0.98

01:44:56.960 cancer dead like dead ass like going raw vegan and literally cure cancer like big pharma profits 0.78

01:45:02.640 off of chemotherapy um they want us they want people to stay sick because chemo is not curing 1.00

01:45:09.680 cancer it's just killing all your cells in the hopes that the cancer doesn't come back but the remission

01:45:14.720 rate is like very low so like i'm very passionate about like how big pharma is just trying to give

01:45:21.360 kids meds like kids don't need to be taking adderall that's like prescription

01:45:25.040 meth while we're on that topic do you want to talk about any turkish border disputes

01:45:28.880 what what do you mean izerbaijan okay all right okay uh rodrigo lares thank you for the uh hundred

01:45:41.200 dollar soup chat go ahead giselle oh wait we already did this one my bad my bad all right we have some

01:45:45.760 over here we have uh oops hold on oh hold on it's about to trigger one sec guys push up 50 thank you for

01:45:56.080 the 120 man thank you so much six eight deer slayer here again justin and chase are both good role

01:46:01.360 models similar messages but different paths both focused on self-improvement men need to stick

01:46:07.040 together and support each other work hard and lift us lift us all up thank you whoa thank you bad zxc

01:46:16.560 thank you man donated two hundred dollars the more i listen to this old 304 i am genuinely convinced

01:46:23.760 that you are mentally not well there is no shock you have morality and decency i feel super bad for 0.56

01:46:30.080 your kids and why don't broach the subject of a three-way with dude and your bf and see the tone

01:46:35.760 shift do you have a response to badz underscore i'm not sure what your last sentence means but that's

01:46:42.480 okay you can feel bad for my kids that doesn't bother me in the least okay and then we have uh

01:46:48.000 let's see we have slow joe oh that one did that one already trigger as a tts yeah we did that one

01:46:54.320 uh okay we have frankie k here thank you for the hundred dollar soup chat man uh i think it's about

01:47:00.640 to cut oh wait this one's leave big pharma alone biotech stocks are my bread and butter right now yo big 0.89

01:47:06.560 pharma suke my dick thank you suke madik for the hundred suke madik very very much appreciated 0.99

01:47:13.440 suke madik um all right we have frankie k to the pegging enthusiast you left your husband 0.99

01:47:19.360 kids and religion because your ex couldn't lay down pipe to your liking if getting laid is the most

01:47:23.360 important thing in the world to you what are you going to do with yourself when no one wants you

01:47:26.720 anymore i will always want me and that's what matters at the end of the day wait i thought she was 1.00

01:47:31.360 the oh no you're the pegging enthusiast yeah i love it i mean maybe there's another pegging

01:47:35.520 enthusiast i just had a bad experience yeah yeah that's right what is call myself an enthusiast she

01:47:40.320 got that pegging trauma pegging trauma all right let me see and then we have uh pptsd yeah post

01:47:48.640 pegging traumatic stress disorder there we go and then we have liam la go ahead jazelle chase and the

01:47:54.640 girl in the white shirt where in the bible does it say that having multiple wives are bad can you give 1.00

01:48:00.080 a specific example also david and solomon differ you want to take this one well jesus himself says

01:48:07.840 that we allowed you to divorce and that was wrong and marriage is between one man and one woman 0.77

01:48:13.920 says the man that never got married wait what that's true oh jesus yeah he's also the son of

01:48:20.240 god and the ultimate authority on mankind so um also in genesis it says the same right after god creates

01:48:26.480 adam and eve he says this is why how does it go this is why a a man leaves his parents or a man

01:48:31.840 to his wife yeah and the two become one one flesh uh so the polygamy thing was actually not god's

01:48:40.240 original design but it was people did it because they have free will right people can choose to do

01:48:44.800 things like that and in the end it's not it wasn't god's who did i will also add to have sex with i will 0.58

01:48:50.560 also hold on i will also add to one of the commit god told the israelites not to accumulate three

01:48:55.760 things wealth chariots and wives because he said that the three things would to to collect those

01:49:01.120 three things would turn their hearts from god chariots yeah so like cars and shit uh basically 0.66

01:49:06.480 growing their armies right oh chair so chariots are like cars but like olden cars like yeah 0.70

01:49:12.320 wooden ancient ancient whips bro so if the israelites how many cars does andrew take i'm gonna i'm gonna

01:49:19.120 keep buying lambos yeah the point the point was don't he was telling the kings don't put your faith in

01:49:25.200 your armies rather than me right and he was also telling them don't collect multiple wives because

01:49:29.840 they'll turn your hearts for me and you look at the kings that did that solomon being the best

01:49:34.240 example it turned his heart from the lord on the topic of chariots justin how many chariots do you

01:49:41.680 have um quite a few chariots you said you had a lambo no i actually just gave my position my myself

01:49:47.920 permission after i bought my last big property to buy a lambo so i'm gonna pull the g-wagon back to

01:49:52.960 louisiana with the king ranch and put a lambo in miami let's go justin not sorry yes well not

01:50:01.040 sorry about anything what's up what's your favorite whip my favorite vehicle that i have is my is my um

01:50:08.240 g-wagon because it's one of 200 the special edition it's just it's nasty bro what color is it it's great

01:50:13.920 i'll show it to you did you what's special about it did you get it like bulletproof or like what's up

01:50:18.720 no man it's just it was just a special model one of 200 in the world and i saw it and i fell in love 0.93

01:50:24.160 with it it's just it's just bro if you've ever won to fuck a vehicle that's this g-wagon how's that 0.91

01:50:30.560 how's that stereo system in it it's good all is good bro i don't know why yeah it's good for sure 0.98

01:50:37.360 that's the one place he'll give his whole heart to is that car hell no i'm just playing no i'll just buy

01:50:42.800 another one oh okay okay so uh just curious so you're are you part-time in dubai part-time in

01:50:52.080 the south and then part-time in florida so i have my place in florida i have a big house in louisiana

01:50:57.360 and my house in dubai is being built right now it's a it's an 11 000 square foot i'm super pumped

01:51:02.160 about it it's gonna have a gym cinema private beach infinity pool and across from the tates so i can wave

01:51:07.920 with my multiple wives or one wife depending on what day is it on that island or whatever

01:51:18.000 no no it's not on the burge but they're building it that way so it's a whole community that is going

01:51:21.920 to mimic the mediterranean so we're going to live in the neighborhood venice but they're going to have 0.99

01:51:26.240 morocco and all like all the different you know mediterranean cities uh in the development outdoor

01:51:32.240 movie theaters coral reefs it's going to be incredible i'm really excited about it it's called

01:51:35.920 the lagoons if you look it up all the lagoons okay lagoons in dubai are you are you uh are you

01:51:41.040 going to become a citizen of uh is it the a no i'll get the golden visa because of the investment

01:51:46.800 in the country but i have no interest right now in renouncing my citizenship i'm very patriotic i

01:51:52.880 believe in america i think america's a goat i believe anybody that doesn't love america can get 0.98

01:51:56.880 the fuck out let's go i'm very very much for america starting to come together and stop hating 0.98

01:52:02.560 each other and riding from within let's let go of the gender the race wars the whole thing like we 1.00

01:52:07.600 are the fucking goat and anybody nobody wants to smoke so if we can fix that internally we'll stay 0.96

01:52:12.720 the greatest and um i'm not coming off of that until they take my gun rights away let's go based i 0.99

01:52:18.720 have a i have a question go ahead chase um i don't know if you intend to have more kids if you do how

01:52:22.800 would you like would you intend to shuttle them between your property yeah like like one of my

01:52:28.240 daughters has been to dubai multiple times i fly my kids all over the world uh facetime and watch

01:52:33.520 them go to sleep at night i'm a good father when i'm home we're playing basketball every night at

01:52:37.760 sunset um i'm making birthday parties i'm doing all that i'll be the best dad on the planet i have

01:52:44.080 uh a lot of free time if i need it because the way i work in the in the in the career that i've built

01:52:50.800 and i'm getting paid in my sleep so i'll be there as much if not more than the next guy and most

01:52:55.600 importantly in a world where men have gone to war for years and years and years or i have 200

01:52:59.760 employees in my construction company that live on the road i'm going to be a very impactful father

01:53:03.760 they're not going to forget their moments with me because they're going to be moments that they'll

01:53:06.720 never forget you know and i'm trying to create that kind of magic in my children's lives and then

01:53:11.600 when they get of age i'm going to start you know teaching them how the world works like i said

01:53:15.840 make them competent enough to create choice in their life and whatever choice they choose after that

01:53:20.320 is fine with me they can go whatever route they want i'll still love them i'm not here to dictate

01:53:23.760 their life i'm here to be impactful in it whether you know whether you can get behind it or not or

01:53:29.760 whether that's what jesus wants me to do i don't know but there's gonna be love for sure i gotta

01:53:33.600 ask another question hypothetically you have 100 kids right i'm not i'm not gonna do that by the way

01:53:38.720 what what would where would you set the max at 40 40. i'm talking i don't know i have no

01:53:45.360 idea i don't have plans to like i don't have this big plan for kids i'm just keeping keeping the

01:53:49.840 amount of kids i have vague maybe i have maybe i have four maybe i have ten i'm just trying to keep 0.97

01:53:54.720 it vague question would you adopt if you want to hell no i wouldn't know no no no no no okay damn it 0.91

01:54:00.960 i wanted my my genetics are way too fucking good to adopt no no way yeah that's beautiful they're 0.98

01:54:10.240 good for you not me is it is dubai like really pretty i've never been beautiful it's a society 0.93

01:54:17.440 that sustains itself unlike southern california there's no homeless on the street there's real 0.95

01:54:21.360 order you fuck around i could leave my watch on the sidewalk nobody would pick it up you know whether 0.99

01:54:26.000 whether you get behind dubai or not you have to respect dubai and that's something i've lost a lot 1.00

01:54:30.720 a lot of respect for is is some of these beautiful places like south south california i walked through

01:54:36.080 santa monica the other day you couldn't go one block without somebody screaming f-bombs homeless

01:54:40.000 trash yeah clean your and that's what i talk about when i talk about america we need to clean 0.99

01:54:44.160 our shit up we're we're placating to less than one percent of the population so we don't hurt 0.99

01:54:49.440 people's feelings but what about the children walking down the street that want to see the pier 0.99

01:54:53.120 you know what about those moments with family you know we you know we actually cut checks for homeless

01:54:58.000 people here in california it's one of the things that needs to end california pays you to be homeless

01:55:02.720 but wait why is biden giving money to like the ukraine why can't you just like get like all

01:55:09.760 the homeless people off the street because war is profitable and democrats like to do that kind 0.96

01:55:14.560 of shit and inflate the money that's why we left weapons and and you know iraq iran you know this 0.98

01:55:20.160 the whole thing is bullshit i don't want to say too too much because i'm not trying to get my channel 0.99

01:55:23.760 taken down yeah but don't believe what you see i don't california has a lot of issues though it's 0.97

01:55:28.880 really sad because i i grew up here and watching it go downhill has been pretty sad coming to you live

01:55:34.400 from santa barbara california by the way california stan california stan uh as it's called okay so uh

01:55:42.320 i think we have uh this one here from vd cars thank you for the hundred giselle go ahead at liam la the

01:55:48.400 bible describes polygamy it does not prescribe it okay vd cars thank you venerio actually does an

01:55:56.080 excellent job showing the downsides of polygamy too the downsides okay we had something here we

01:56:05.200 got to pull up hold on one sec um so nicole you were on dr phil and in that interview you said you

01:56:12.720 never felt more holy sacred or true after your nude photo shoot that is correct holy yes it's like i can

01:56:21.280 literally i like as i peeled off my layers and it was like literally beat me before god no hiding no

01:56:27.600 shame nothing and i never felt more alive and connected to who i really am in that moment and

01:56:32.640 i got my car afterwards and i bawled because i'm like i found that this is how i was meant to live i i

01:56:38.080 joke but it's kind of serious i was meant to take my clothes off and my whole life i spent covering up

01:56:43.760 being modest by someone else's prescription for me when i found that i the truest version of me is when i

01:56:49.920 there's nothing between me and god so you don't you don't believe that god is the god of the bible

01:56:54.320 then no i don't believe in the bible anymore correct so who do you think god is like just

01:56:59.120 some impersonal there is a god maybe there is maybe there's not i'm open so you're an atheist i'd say

01:57:06.960 more agnostic um okay and and you also said in that video i saw you said sex workers are typically

01:57:14.240 the healthiest humans um does that include the herpes and hpv you know it's interesting that

01:57:21.200 that's a stigma because most people the common person who's not a sex worker never gets tested

01:57:27.520 versus sex workers get tested every single month or how depending how active they are and are the 0.89

01:57:32.160 most on top of their stis but there's nothing wrong with stis stis are common if your person is

01:57:36.880 having sex with another person you're at risk of getting an sti and so we have to drop the stigma

01:57:40.640 that somehow it means you're gross or icky it's just like we're all at risk for it and just knowing

01:57:46.320 that all stis are manageable or curable and just get tested it's not a problem no offense or anything 0.92

01:57:51.920 but i mean i think herpes is disgusting you might have it most people carry herpes and don't even

01:57:58.560 know you're talking about the hs1 virus mouth herpes yeah i'm talking like i'm talking like genital

01:58:03.600 herpes yeah i don't most people don't have general they actually do the data most people do and they

01:58:08.560 because it's asymptomatic majority of the time and it often gets mistaken for a pimple

01:58:14.880 that people don't realize that they have it herpes breakouts are much more severe yeah some

01:58:18.720 can be but some can be sure some people are asymptomatic however if you are symptomatic

01:58:24.240 my understanding and from the literature i've seen and what i've seen online

01:58:29.280 it's mostly a scare tactic some photographs it's part of it i'm in the sex work community we talk about

01:58:34.400 stis all the time we're very educated versus this the research that's passed around to scare people

01:58:40.000 like this could happen to you when it's often just a pimple but people don't talk about that because

01:58:44.800 that doesn't scare people away from sex and into apps well i think you're you're now on the opposite

01:58:48.720 side of the propaganda because to conflate her herpes outbreak with just a pimple i think 1.00

01:58:54.320 there are people who have like pretty debilitating breakouts where they're in like severe pain

01:58:59.440 it can cause scarring i mean there's that might be an extreme case but again majority are asymptomatic

01:59:04.640 never have a flare-up and then for most people outside of that when you have a single flare-up

01:59:09.040 it is the only time you'll ever have it are we defending her like i'm just yeah i'm trying to

01:59:14.480 destigmatize people having stis because we're making it sound like it's horrific and it's it's

01:59:20.000 because you're sleeping with all these people you can get it sleeping with one person and not even

01:59:23.920 know yeah but if you if you sleep sure i the very and i actually knew a girl who the first time she 1.00

01:59:29.200 ever had sex was a virgin hooked up with this guy she got herpes right um tragic that's pretty rare

01:59:36.160 though and uh i would say the more sexual partners you have uh the greater likelihood you are to

01:59:43.200 eventually get an std and that's why you do protection that's why you get tested that's why

01:59:47.520 you communicate up front do you want to use barriers if so what kind there's all kinds of

01:59:51.280 conversations but i find people who are not in the sex work industry just sleep around and hope for

01:59:55.120 the best and never get tested you said that but that's not true i don't sleep around a lot like

02:00:00.320 my body count's not high but i get tested every time i have sex with anyone like everyone do that

02:00:07.280 and also just because you're in the sex industry it doesn't mean you're automatically going to catch

02:00:11.280 something i probably like i again i do only fans and i'm still only sleeping with my boyfriend so it

02:00:17.840 doesn't mean i'm sleeping around with other people just because i have an only fans room in the sex

02:00:21.680 industry it's a common just misconception that if you do adult work if you do only fans you sleep

02:00:26.320 with everybody you're you're accumulating stis but that's not true sure not necessarily i mean and i i

02:00:31.760 think sex work is kind of a uh it's yeah it's like that's that's anywhere from like tasteful lingerie

02:00:39.120 to being a street prostitute i think it's not a particularly helpful term and i don't know if

02:00:44.160 lumping these two groups of people really is doing them any any favors but when it comes to like for

02:00:49.840 example stds uh i i would say that they have done studies and my understanding is like for example if

02:00:57.840 you're doing traditional porn where you're doing a new scene with someone every every week whatever

02:01:04.160 maybe i don't know the frequency that's average in in the industry but you are at a much greater risk

02:01:10.960 even with all the testing that they do of getting hpv and getting herpes so and and additionally you

02:01:16.640 said protection uh you can get herpes even if you're wearing a condom then use dental dams yeah

02:01:22.960 of course it's that it can be like on your hip or like herpes breakout can be not on the shaft or so

02:01:30.000 you can still get herpes and i look i'm i'm not trying to get herpes you know what i'm saying yeah i'm

02:01:36.720 not trying to get that don't have sex or use protection and don't do when someone's active

02:01:40.240 using protection does not preclude you from getting herpes or um or or take you away from getting

02:01:46.160 uh ones like syphilis or things like that those can be transmitted as simply as me sharing the cup

02:01:51.360 with you like it's saliva like you can kiss somebody and get an std it's not it's not um it doesn't

02:01:57.120 define you as a bad or doing something wrong or being icky or being gross and another thing is is in 0.91

02:02:03.760 schools all they tell you is sex big red button wear a glove if you're going to press the big red

02:02:08.880 button like how is that going to teach anybody how to actually use protection it's just telling kids

02:02:14.560 don't have sex if you do have sex wear a condom and then just sending them out into the into the world 0.95

02:02:20.560 not giving them enough information at all whatsoever i don't know like i think sexually

02:02:26.960 transmitted diseases should kind of be stigmatized hot take i agree i agree i got your back it's not

02:02:35.440 ideal but it should be i don't know like look i don't think it's ideal if you have if i mean okay

02:02:41.440 hold on hold on if you get an std that's incurable you shouldn't be like excommunicated you shouldn't be

02:02:50.000 excised from society but like you have to real like this this idea of not stigmatizing it um i 0.99

02:02:57.040 wouldn't like talk shit or be like oh look that fucking herp derp or you know i wouldn't say any 1.00

02:03:02.640 shit like that however i don't even know what the terms are however like i think if if a girl disclosed 0.99

02:03:09.440 to me that she had herpes and i think most men would agree most men are going to be like 0.99

02:03:14.720 fuck no i don't want to deal with it and me personally like i think dating is hard enough as 0.99

02:03:20.960 it is as a guy bro i'm not trying to fucking all like if i were if i were to get herpes bro i'm gonna 0.99

02:03:28.000 fucking be that's that's an additional handicap i don't know if any of you play golf bro you're 0.99

02:03:32.080 handicapping your shit if you get herpes i'm just saying it's hard enough as it is getting chicks 1.00

02:03:37.680 like yeah i mean the sti unless you're justin waller just sti rates have just spiked more and more 1.00

02:03:42.720 that people think hookup culture is okay and you know having sex before marriage or having sex with

02:03:46.880 multiple people is okay so i don't know it's really sad actually because we could solve that with

02:03:52.480 deciding not to just have sex with multiple people but he just said a woman had sex one time and she

02:03:57.200 got sti so there's no 100 full proof that you can not get an sti and again you can get at having sex

02:04:05.680 one time but again this goes back to my the point that i was making earlier in the conversation what

02:04:09.440 would happen to society if everybody had the same values who cares who cares i i care as a member

02:04:14.720 of society don't have sex i'm i'm already being abstinent but my point is you're you're you're 0.99

02:04:20.160 advocating for like hey everybody just fuck whoever you want don't care about the stis everybody 0.98

02:04:24.320 would just say that everybody would get diseases like that's what you're proposing here that you 0.99

02:04:28.080 project that i'm just saying you're saying we should destigmatize it and society would run

02:04:32.240 fine if everybody had these beliefs but it wouldn't let me finish i can tell you what i would say

02:04:36.560 is that people get to choose the risk they're willing to take so if you want no risk choose

02:04:41.360 abstinence if you want some risk you're going to choose some sexual activity if you're fine with

02:04:45.200 more risk you're going to expose yourself like there's no one or uh right or wrong when it comes

02:04:49.520 to risk it's knowing your risk tolerance and making informed decisions and then if you are sexually active

02:04:55.040 get tested regularly there's nothing wrong with that i mean yeah hold on hold on go ahead so happy

02:05:01.200 but you're happy with everything you're doing yes i've never been happier so you don't feel like

02:05:06.560 there's nothing wrong no i used to feel like something was wrong before kind of what justice

02:05:10.480 was justin was saying before i finally honored the fullness of who i am when i kept trying to be

02:05:15.200 monogamous when i kept trying to lower my sexual libido when i kept trying to be who everyone else

02:05:20.080 told me should be as a woman as a wife as a mother i was miserable when i finally got clear on who do

02:05:25.280 i want to be as a person as a woman as a partner as a mother my happiness went through the roof i think

02:05:31.360 if everybody lived in a way where they were honoring the fullness of who they are we would

02:05:36.000 have a disease-ridden society well but i think that but i think the fullness of who we are changes

02:05:41.200 depending on our feelings our experiences and even our traumas and so i think that that can be very

02:05:47.600 misleading like what does it mean you mentioned soulful desire versus like a surface desire and i think

02:05:53.120 that what does how do you discern between the two and the reality is our hearts can mislead us my

02:05:59.520 heart yes they can and it's the way you discern and that's why moral realities matter no i think

02:06:05.600 each person has to discern for themselves if we just make up all of our morality all the time

02:06:10.000 we're inevitably going to hurt other people what if i make my non-monogamy the societal rule you have

02:06:15.360 to have a chaotic and broken society civilization would collapse i love it that's how we feel about

02:06:20.400 monogamy when you try to force your values on someone else people will cheat people will lie

02:06:24.560 people feel trapped i don't think and i don't think chase would force want to force anybody to get

02:06:28.880 married absolutely not 100 marriage should be freely chosen so no one should be forced to be monogamous

02:06:34.480 in that sense but i do think we have a responsibility and that involves the choices we make with whether

02:06:40.160 or not we have sex and that's a choice that we make we're not doomed to have sex or not we can choose

02:06:44.480 no i'm not going to have sex because i know that there's consequences that can result from that like

02:06:48.720 really good consequences like or really bad or like there's so much good we only focus on the

02:06:55.520 bad because we're pregnancies that you're not expecting fatherless homes broken families there 0.89

02:07:00.640 are 2500 babies killed every day in this country because they were unwanted because people had sex

02:07:06.720 that weren't ready to be parents with people they didn't want to actually be with people have used

02:07:10.080 contraception and it's failed it's not because they weren't so they have to have options and if they

02:07:13.920 don't want the baby they do everything in their power to not have to have it that's their choice

02:07:17.040 why should children have to die because adults just want to live they're just cells before they're

02:07:20.640 born as a baby you're just cells right now okay cool wait but you have a right to live and the

02:07:27.680 child has a right to live in the womb sure do you guys want to continue that discussion no it's old

02:07:32.000 it's done well i'm happy to not interested question for the girls would any of you date someone who is pro

02:07:41.040 life yes since we're on the topic um i i guess my question is what do you mean by pro life you mean

02:07:49.120 pro forced birth not interested if you mean life from womb to the tomb tomb you care about all degrees

02:07:55.600 you care about children who are born and have no resources you care about homeless children you care

02:07:59.200 about immigrant children you care about children who don't have protection or provision then i'm all

02:08:04.560 about that but you're only you are you are very good at manipulating language nick sure you're very

02:08:10.480 very good at manipulating language you call it well that's i mean you you just you just did it she

02:08:16.160 someone asked if you're pro-life or if you would date somebody who's pro-life because pro-life only

02:08:19.760 means pro-forced birth okay so that's that's my point pro-forced birth because once a kid is born in

02:08:24.720 america do we provide resources do we have universal health care do we provide schooling or daycare for

02:08:29.040 children we don't please hold on once they're born couples waiting to adopt right now with the 0.98

02:08:35.280 exception that could be with the exception of kids with the exception of rape nobody's forcing somebody

02:08:41.440 to give birth okay when people stop stop please let me make my point please let me make my point

02:08:47.280 i can interject yeah you can but it's incredibly rude and disrespectful no it's not it's not okay with

02:08:52.640 me as long as you continue doing it i'm going to tell you to stop people when when people get raped 0.77

02:08:58.160 then you could you could call it forced birth okay if people choose to have consensual sex nobody's 0.91

02:09:04.640 forcing the birth of that child they made the choice to have consensual sex and and then and then the 0.78

02:09:10.240 birth happens what'd you say sex and procreation are two different things right but when somebody has 0.83

02:09:14.880 sex when when somebody life into the world exactly when somebody has sex they are risking procreation 0.97

02:09:20.640 so the two are obviously intertwined by the way i think the whole framing is so sad like like

02:09:26.320 i know you're saying that chase because it's like that's the way people think today is oh i'm gonna

02:09:29.520 have sex and risk procreation when creating a new human life is so amazing not if you don't have 0.98

02:09:35.360 resources not if you don't have money not the thing is thing is people people don't think about the

02:09:40.320 fact that they're risking procreation which is why we're in the situation that that's true but also 0.80

02:09:45.360 what if people chose not to have sex until they were in a relationship publicly with someone they were

02:09:52.400 committed to for life and prepared to have children that might come from that we'd have a lot less

02:09:56.480 murdered babies i wouldn't have a job i would not have a job i would not have a job you're a talented

02:10:02.160 woman you would find another job oh i have i have many different forms of revenue but i would not have

02:10:06.640 my favorite one yes you i i think you you're better than the job that your favorite job i mean i don't

02:10:13.680 think that there's a a sense of oh i'm better or worse if i do or don't do what i'm comfortable doing

02:10:20.240 with my own body yes i just think you deserve more than men i think that i deserve the world

02:10:25.120 and i'm willing to do whatever it takes to get it and if that means that as a woman that is

02:10:30.320 independent on her own since 17 years old and that's what i want to do then that's what i'm

02:10:34.960 going to do i have a question for both of you guys for uh ell ellen kirsten kirsten kirsten how long

02:10:41.840 do you guys plan on doing only fans for i personally want to do it until i do decide to kind of settle

02:10:47.920 down have a family and stuff like that just because i do see the targets gonna put on people's

02:10:51.840 on children's backs i had an old management who she was huge in the porn industry and her kids and 1.00

02:10:58.720 everybody knew that she was in the porn industry and her kids were severely bullied for that and 0.99

02:11:04.480 i think at that point it's like i yes i i love the fast money that it is now but i don't want to do

02:11:12.000 this my entire life do you want to marry your boyfriend that you do only fans with so to my knowledge 0.79

02:11:17.120 you just do it with your boyfriend right correct and you make sex videos correct if you mind me 0.67

02:11:22.400 asking i'm just i don't know how it works okay so you guys but you guys don't like show your face

02:11:27.600 or anything you just do it depends on the video i figured i i i decided to go all in okay i wasn't

02:11:34.000 fully explicit until about a year into it when i was with my boyfriend and i just decided you know

02:11:39.120 what i'm already doing this i'm already being stereotyped to do this i might as well make as much money

02:11:43.600 as possible now so you may i can just use that for the rest of my life but you want to marry 0.59

02:11:48.880 you want to marry him hold on a second are you concerned at all about like the fact that you

02:11:53.120 already have so much stuff out there and your kids could be bullied for that one um i mean that's

02:11:56.800 definitely obviously a concern but i think it's one thing you take it one step at a time i already

02:12:01.760 made the decision to do only fans i'm already going all in on it i might as well like again it's always

02:12:08.560 a possibility but what are your long-term goals um i want to own as many businesses as possible

02:12:15.200 i'm investing a lot of my only fans money currently so i don't have to work a day in my life i don't

02:12:20.000 like being told what to do i want to be my own boss and i just want to run a shit ton of businesses and 0.67

02:12:24.640 have people work for me but like in terms of family and stuff i do want a family with with the boyfriend

02:12:30.480 you do it with no i mean ideally yes yeah okay el how long do you plan on continuing um so i don't

02:12:38.320 have like a i don't have like a cut off date but i also don't um i don't i'm not like delusional in

02:12:46.560 the sense that i believe that that's what i can do forever i'm aware that my appearance is only going

02:12:51.840 to last so long in the sense that you know i'm not going to be 55 years old doing doing of personally

02:12:58.880 not that there's anything wrong with that but um i do want to have like a family one day and

02:13:04.560 maybe an alternative way or uh or a way like you you know i i'm not sure it depends on the future and

02:13:11.280 what it holds for me but i definitely have my own moral compass and i have other sources of income

02:13:16.960 and other things that i can turn to for income so it's not that i've that i feel trapped that i feel

02:13:22.960 trapped that i have to do it it's something that i enjoy for the time being i have a question for mr waller

02:13:27.520 here do you think uh only fans is a net negative net positive or neutral for society and the health

02:13:34.160 of society and women and men i think it's a net negative but i can see where a lot of young women 0.99

02:13:44.000 feel like they have nowhere to go because men are so fucking weak these days and they have this

02:13:48.000 opportunity to make this easy money and regardless of my opinion of it which i do think is a net negative 0.97

02:13:54.080 i think it's going to continue to grow as men continue to bend to it it's everything that's

02:13:59.200 wrong with society right now is men's faults it's weak men's fault so we put up with certain things 0.99

02:14:04.640 we don't show up in certain ways so women don't feel safe enough to let go so they want to be bad 1.00

02:14:09.360 bitches and all these other things instead of taking the traditional feminine frame inside of a 1.00

02:14:13.840 relationship with a man that's a man that she can trust to lead and the reason that women are doing 1.00

02:14:19.120 these types of most women that had an only fans account in my opinion if they found a man that was 1.00

02:14:23.440 strong that they knew would support him and they trusted him to be inside the frame and let him lead

02:14:28.240 the mission they would put the only fans down yeah do you guys agree oh absolutely i would love to be

02:14:32.560 a stay-at-home i wouldn't do it long term i would be a housewife i'd be a stay-at-home mom if your boyfriend

02:14:37.440 was making enough money would you just stop i yeah i i would gladly do that if they decided i want you to

02:14:43.600 stay home you do all the cooking you do all the cleaning you take care of the kids i would gladly do that

02:14:48.080 and get behind the mission completely so you're making all the money for your

02:14:52.560 no not at all so so let's let's zoom out for a second he just touched on an interesting subject

02:14:57.600 which is the masculinity crisis do you guys see a crisis in masculinity in the world um hell yeah

02:15:01.760 yeah yeah hold on just a sec that makes such a good point we'll come back

02:15:05.760 two hundred dollars can you quote some passages and names from the lesser key of solemn to see if we get

02:15:12.720 a reaction from this upstanding mother that's a good one that was a good one um anything passages

02:15:22.160 he's basically in the testament of solomon he's talking about the fact that there are demons

02:15:27.680 and uh he's implying that she's possessed by demons confirm or deny take it confirm or deny whatever you

02:15:33.200 want so i i hold on hold on confirm confirm or deny possessed by demons depends what you call a

02:15:39.040 demon demons a liberated empowered woman i guess so like it's what is it's funny because uh the

02:15:45.680 liberation and empowerment of women actually has a cult underpinnings and many many of the uh many

02:15:51.360 of the early feminist authors actually explicitly worshiped lucifer and satan as the liberate

02:15:56.000 liberator of women i love these conspiracy theories it's not a conspiracy theory they openly wrote about

02:16:00.480 it there's a book called satanic feminism look it up people the early feminist writers openly worship 0.99

02:16:04.720 lucifer and say uh chase the crisis of masculinity yeah so to get back to that so do you guys agree

02:16:09.840 that there's a crisis of masculinity yes yeah yeah el you seem not to think so do you don't think that

02:16:16.240 there's too many weak men in the world or there's a decline of healthy masculinity i think there's too

02:16:20.960 many i mean it depends on what you think weak is i mean i've been in i've i've been in the strip club

02:16:25.840 industry before i mean come on we know what weak is i know what weak is i don't think you're weak for

02:16:31.280 for for having a fantasy and and being and somebody being able to provide that for you i don't think

02:16:37.760 you're a weak person for having a fantasy what do you what do you i don't know what you're talking

02:16:41.680 about like i don't think do you think men today are weaker or stronger than a hundred years ago 0.95

02:16:47.760 on average oh i think everybody is weaker on average you think everybody's weaker yeah everyone's

02:16:53.120 way too sensitive now everything is so sensitive everything way too far to heart and they can't just 0.97

02:16:58.480 to my opinion if it does not affect you why the fuck do you care exactly so so let's let's let's 0.92

02:17:05.360 zoom out a second i think i would say one of the things that's making men weaker is the addiction to 0.99

02:17:11.840 sex well not sex the addiction to pornography that many have nowadays would you guys say that that's

02:17:16.960 accurate yes yes yes yes el seems not to think so do you think so do you think addiction to

02:17:22.880 pornography makes a man weaker me i don't i don't think you're weak daddy if you like porn i'm just

02:17:31.520 gonna say that like that of course she's got a conflict of interest here financially hey el since 1.00

02:17:36.880 we're talking since we have your attention um can you i don't know if you see your angle here can you

02:17:41.360 scoot kiki like into frame because she's like kind of like been you're gonna have to use your muscles 1.00

02:17:48.880 though she's so if you push her yeah oh perfect wait too much wait back back back just yep push myself

02:17:59.440 but you got now you gotta scoot back into your spot okay no no you right there scoot scoot that way can

02:18:05.520 you scoot that way you can yeah that way oh okay and then scoot your mic along with you if you can

02:18:11.680 all right cool can i finish the point that i was getting to go ahead and then i have a follow-up point okay

02:18:17.760 it's your water cup i keep grabbing it yeah do you guys think it would be better for the world if

02:18:22.960 there were more strong men yes yes yeah because okay i personally like i just want to like serve like

02:18:32.400 i'm very submissive to men so if i had a strong man like who like like not like how they are now but

02:18:40.320 like a masculine man who would provide and like make the money i would stay home cook clean do everything 0.72

02:18:46.240 like raise the kids like everything for him like he would come he would leave with like breakfast he

02:18:52.560 would go to work with lunch and come home to dinner and like whatever else he needed but like men aren't 1.00

02:18:58.720 like that today will you marry me yeah yeah let's do it but like can i just like chuck this at you or

02:19:08.560 something yeah totally like i hope it lands on my catch okay bro what are you doing bro you're 0.97

02:19:15.600 dropping my ring that i paid for damn it it was so beautiful i mean i think there are men like that 0.51

02:19:22.160 out there today there certainly are and but there's also a huge decline of them there is a huge but there

02:19:28.400 is and i think it's because of something in addition to what you guys are saying which is what am i saying

02:19:32.960 of masculinity there's a crisis of femininity and it takes both of us before we get to that

02:19:38.080 the point that i'm trying to make so you think what did you say a moment ago you think that there

02:19:43.040 needs to be more of them what did you say just two seconds ago that there's a decline in it there's a

02:19:47.600 decline in it do we think that by increasing the amount of pornography that is available on the

02:19:55.680 internet we are potentially contributing to the decline of masculinity yes yes that's one yes that's

02:20:02.160 two yeses what do you think yes yes and here's why because men being able to purchase a girl on 0.99

02:20:09.680 only fans is really not like empowering the women because it's saying hey you can just buy a picture 0.94

02:20:17.120 of my titties online for 10.99 a month and that to me is like yeah it's it's the opposite of like 0.92

02:20:26.480 feminist and empowerment it's like hey a guy can purchase my boobs for 10 bucks like these are priceless 0.98

02:20:32.080 like he you know what i'm saying so like i think it's really hurting like i think i think telling

02:20:39.120 women that it was empowering to sell their bodies online for 10 bucks a month is one of the most 1.00

02:20:44.080 hilarious scams yeah that's ridiculous there's no good for women it's back to the alfred kinsey guy and 0.99

02:20:50.560 hug hefner said that he wanted to be the pamphleteer of the sexual revolution like he wanted to be the one 0.98

02:20:57.840 to trick women into being played by bunnies and think they're empowered by being played by bunnies 0.80

02:21:02.240 when really he had the last laugh yeah and i think that you know we as women deserve better and i think

02:21:08.080 deep down men want to be better so it's like who's gonna be better first it's difficult for a lot of

02:21:14.000 men to become better when they are enticed in all directions by pornographic content right it's very

02:21:20.480 difficult for a man we are sexual beings and like the male sex drive it's freaking high and when

02:21:26.640 you're saturated from all directions with sexual content it's hard to pull your mind out of it as a

02:21:31.440 man and back to the whole empowering thing only things is pretty much my entire income and i do

02:21:36.080 not feel empowered by it at all no i don't think i feel completely degraded most of the time i don't

02:21:40.800 think you do to these people but the thing is i already knew that going into it i decided to make

02:21:45.680 a fucking bag and get the plan for the rest of my life laid out and i respect you dominique let her 1.00

02:21:50.160 finish i respect you just that i knew it was degrading from the beginning but it's like i you 0.99

02:21:54.320 know what i'm going into this i have a plan and you just own if you could do it over again and make

02:21:59.440 money a different way would you if you had an opportunity to make money a different way would

02:22:03.200 you do it over again i think yes and no um i first started right out of high school i was 18 i was

02:22:09.280 in college for two weeks and i said absolutely not i'm going out to la and so i think yes and no

02:22:14.320 because at the same time like i am making a lot more money now than i would at many other jobs how

02:22:21.200 much do you make monthly uh you could ballpark it i mean about 70 000 a month yeah and that's not

02:22:29.600 even like a lot compared to some of these girls on only fans but i feel like i'm also doing it much

02:22:34.720 smarter than a lot of these girls on only fans are because i invest so much of it do you know what 1.00

02:22:38.960 percentile you're in on of i am in at the top point zero nine percent uh wait just really quick

02:22:44.800 you do you do only fans you do only fans anybody else here do only fans just just you three correct

02:22:50.320 no hidden of justin drop the link what do you invest in by the j waller 69 only fans you're very

02:22:58.480 smart no i i'm not judging you onlyfans.com whatever kiki's on there um can i ask just really

02:23:06.240 quick on money so you said you make 70 000 a month how much do you make between 30 000 and 100 000 a

02:23:11.360 month wow okay and how much do you make per month um i started like started okay i just started but i

02:23:18.560 average about 6 000 that's about it impressive impressive that's with like no following and

02:23:25.360 so to to drive the point home uh we're talking about the crisis of masculinity we're talking about

02:23:30.880 the fact that there's not enough real men in the world there's so i've heard from literally

02:23:34.160 thousands of women in the past several months that have been like man i wish that there were more 1.00

02:23:37.840 real men out there i think a lot of dudes are having their their brill their life force sapped

02:23:42.960 from their bodies from all of this pornography out there and we've talked throughout this conversation

02:23:47.280 about this idea that hey i have i have my morality as long as it's not hurting anybody what's the big

02:23:52.320 deal right what i want to know is do we think it is responsible if we're trying to create a healthy

02:23:59.600 society to increase the amount of pornography that's available to men if we want to see the

02:24:04.240 masculinity crisis fixed is it a good idea to continue contributing to it with more pornography 0.97

02:24:10.560 i have a i have a follow-up question for you not to like drive away from what you asked but do you

02:24:16.320 think if all the top let's say 25 even 50 or 100 top creators took took their platform off of only fans do

02:24:24.240 you not think that men would still find another girl to go subscribe to and get the same content

02:24:29.600 or go on pornhub and do the same thing also to counteract that do you think that the men that are

02:24:35.360 on of it's it's primarily men the people that go in strip clubs primarily men you can't be mad at a

02:24:42.080 woman for making her bag when you're the reason that there is a bag there to begin with here's the 0.99

02:24:47.200 question here's the question i have how many married men do you guys have subscribing to you about 40

02:24:53.920 yeah 40 probably probably some of them have their wife in their profile picture with them

02:24:58.880 yeah that's bizarre some of them have fantasies about you being in the you like fantasies about

02:25:04.400 like their wife finding out or something like couples i've supposed to subscribe they watch my

02:25:08.400 content together and it brings them closer together i love it but here's the thing though i bet that's

02:25:12.560 such a small percentage i bet a lot of husbands their wives don't know and if their wives did find 0.72

02:25:16.480 out they'd be so i had one guy admit to me that he had to get off only fans because his fiancee found out

02:25:22.880 and was like either we're done or you get off only fans i had i had a guy sorry i'm sorry i had a

02:25:28.480 guy or a woman message me last week she said my i just found out that my husband has spent thirty

02:25:34.400 thousand dollars on an only fans hoe what should i do about this should i divorce him in my opinion 0.98

02:25:41.360 yeah in my opinion if a woman was in that kind of situation she should leave him so so here i'm 1.00

02:25:46.160 curious for you two if you guys got married and you found out that your husbands were spending tens of

02:25:50.560 thousands of dollars on other women's pornographic content how would that make you feel 0.93

02:25:56.480 that's hard to say i feel like just because like obviously being in this industry it's like

02:26:02.240 me and him both do only fans we both make content and so it's like and obviously i mean they're gonna

02:26:08.080 watch you guys are gonna watch porn either way i personally don't put that on me i'm not going to

02:26:12.960 okay majority 95 of men are going to be watching porn i don't know you're gonna at least crave 0.96

02:26:19.600 sexual your boyfriend is doing content unless you're asexual or celibate his his the people that 0.85

02:26:26.080 subscribe to him are probably men as well is that correct it is about i i use yeah it's about high

02:26:30.880 percentage 90 gay men and about 10 women right yeah so the problem so the problem with this is is

02:26:37.760 this is why men should take responsibility men have always led the world listen let's not act like that's

02:26:41.920 not the case we invent build and maintain society the fact that despite how beautiful you are you're 0.99

02:26:46.560 stunning the fact that you can make more money than the motherfucker that paved the road for me to get 1.00

02:26:51.520 here is a joke yep it's a joke and it's broken now that's not disrespect to you but one thing i will 0.98

02:26:56.960 say about dubai if you want to bring dubai back up is that you can't do that in dubai yeah okay no you

02:27:02.400 no you can't you can't even get on a porn site in dubai if you wanted to and i one thing i think

02:27:06.560 they do to you in dubai you just can't do it chops no no no they they they take it away and for that

02:27:14.000 i will say when i'm in dubai not only is it safer but you see more families in dubai you see more you

02:27:19.440 see kids you see things like this is a beautiful thing and you know i'm all about people having

02:27:24.880 their free rights and everything but i do think dubai gets that right because if america doesn't do

02:27:28.560 something to save the men so men can be good enough to get good beautiful women like you ladies 1.00

02:27:33.200 then we are always going to have this problem regardless of religion this is why we should 1.00

02:27:37.040 ban porn in america i'm about it i'm for it look look if we agree on anything let's go

02:27:44.160 i'm all about banning porn it's so funny it's so funny how the women are more upset about it than 0.99

02:27:48.880 the guys right now well no well look look because we're trying to freaking save our hundreds but the

02:27:52.960 point is happening one quick thing is um perhaps the women at this table haven't been hurt by

02:28:02.080 a man cheating on them or a boyfriend or something cheating on them and looking at porn or

02:28:06.560 cheating with another person but i know people that have been hurt and probably we know people

02:28:10.800 who have been hurt i have been yeah exactly so so and that's the point like what's the golden rule

02:28:16.320 right do unto others how you'd want them to do to you right and so i think that's really you mentioned

02:28:21.600 a crisis of masculinity i think there's a crisis of femininity too because you know we set the standard

02:28:27.360 as women right like that's part of our role in society of saying like we're gonna have boundaries 1.00

02:28:31.680 we're gonna have standards for the men and that they need to rise to the occasion for us but i 1.00

02:28:36.880 would argue there's just as many male feminists as there are women yes and those pussy motherfuckers 1.00

02:28:41.440 are the ones that's messing everything they're all young beautiful girl would be much happier if 1.00

02:28:45.440 there's a man that you could be inside of his frame and not be talking to weirdos on the internet

02:28:49.120 i know you make a lot of money and and i don't blame you for doing it 70 grand a month that's good money

02:28:52.880 money but ideally for you if there was a man that you could look up to admire want to be inside that

02:28:59.440 frame and you knew he had everything taken care of completely you would put it down and and it's not

02:29:04.480 anybody's fault but weak men that a young lady like this is having to do something like that because 1.00

02:29:08.800 there's no man around that she can identify men are providers and we are the caretakers and i because

02:29:14.720 of how again you guys were saying weak men for that reason i was raised where you don't rely on

02:29:20.880 anybody you get your bag by yourself and that's for that reason my household was very traditional

02:29:26.080 yet we were still raised because of how the world was turning that you provide for yourself and you

02:29:30.560 rely on absolutely nobody i just want to say i think you're really smart for like investing and

02:29:35.680 not like blowing your only fans money on like flexing like you know like amaze bags and like

02:29:40.800 stupid stuff so like thank you i want to say that one question for you one question for you um okay so 0.73

02:29:46.240 can i say something brian really quick sure quick for kirsten okay super quick um i believe that 0.99

02:29:53.120 you're very smart that you're very beautiful you're very talented and i think you could make a boatload

02:29:56.800 of money not doing only fans and i think eventually maybe not 70k not that common but also like i'm

02:30:04.320 extremely business-minded where it's like i'm making all this money now that i can invest into all these

02:30:09.520 businesses and i don't have to worry about taking loans i don't have to take money from other people

02:30:13.280 i'm able to make all this money myself and make all these businesses that i don't have to i don't

02:30:18.560 have to work when i'm older are you doing that right now that's what i'm working towards yeah

02:30:22.000 investments businesses all kinds of what kind of businesses you want to build uh the current one

02:30:25.920 i'm working on is a women's only gym that is that's so based that's super based yeah is it though

02:30:33.280 yeah dude i think i think we should i think we should have men's only gyms and women with all the laws in 1.00

02:30:37.520 california currently yeah i was about to say like gender issues yeah and so you can't you can't do that

02:30:42.000 that huge reality thing but we're able to work around with the lawyer that i'm speaking to which

02:30:46.560 i can't really talk too much more on well i should i mean there's something in california called the

02:30:50.800 unruh it's u-n-r-u-h i believe the unruh i don't know exactly what it's called but uh california has

02:30:58.480 really strong anti-discrimination laws yes so like for example in california you can't do a ladies night

02:31:05.840 at a bar so ridiculous no well i'm i'm in favor of it the feminists look the status quo 1.00

02:31:11.760 feminists ask for it you're going to get equality you ask for equality that wasn't 1.00

02:31:16.160 original feminism though no well feminism has always been a man-hating ideology but that's 1.00

02:31:20.480 another conversation no feminism's always just been like a women's supremacy man-hating ideology 1.00

02:31:27.200 not all of them but many today for sure though well i mean if you go back to like seneca falls it was

02:31:33.120 basically it was i the og feminists were also deeply racist too but that's that's a whole nother uh 1.00

02:31:39.200 conversation so um i i commend you on that i personally want to see female only gyms and men

02:31:45.120 men's only gyms and i want to see dude only gyms where they're playing like death metal inside and

02:31:49.120 we can like scream but that's how it was and then the chalk and peanut butter and jelly sandwiches

02:31:54.960 are those death metal bands no it's just throwing chalk everywhere yes yes so you get gain weight yes dude

02:32:02.240 that's how it used to be there used to be like gentlemen's clubs and there used to be uh

02:32:06.000 bars and establishments that were for men only back when this was a real country however the

02:32:11.600 feminists came in and said this is discrimination and so this is what you asked for you want women 1.00

02:32:18.240 only gyms too bad bro i don't want chicks i don't want chicks with spandex all the way inside their 1.00

02:32:24.000 intestines doing squats around me while i'm working out fair enough it's like get that out of my face

02:32:27.840 dude fair enough so i had a question for you kind of like i was just curious can you show us your tattoo

02:32:32.000 the one right here it says eternal eternal but why is it backwards yeah why is it backwards so i

02:32:38.640 look at it in the mirror when i look at it in the mirror it says eternal what inspired you to get that

02:32:43.520 um because obviously we do not live forever but i want the legacy i live while i'm living to be

02:32:49.200 eternal you know you can live forever yeah yeah yeah there's a man named jesus christ

02:32:55.520 oh my god and it's real i had no idea chase was so religious chase is a deeply religious had no idea

02:33:04.160 you said you had no idea what i had no clue you were so religious yeah bro yeah jesus is the real deal

02:33:09.360 man are you uh you know what you're you're close with the tates chase is like on a crusade real to to

02:33:17.040 bring andrew back to christianity christianity yes oh instead of islam yeah that's what well that's what 0.91

02:33:24.720 chase told me right yes yes he tweets about it a bunch i want to i want to bring tate to the truth

02:33:28.880 man oh man that's a conversation for you and tate i think the eternal thing's really beautiful because

02:33:34.800 we were all made i think for eternity we're like have this insuppressable desire to

02:33:38.960 live forever and to have that legacy and that is one of the reasons i became catholic was because

02:33:45.040 i discovered that you can like chase was saying no absolutely i understand all that i was raised in

02:33:49.760 a very strict christian household and so i understand all of that i was just more curious because

02:33:54.240 i know it's like backwards i was like it's backwards so i was like so i can see it in the

02:33:58.800 mirror so do you think can you show it to the camera one more time just do you think this

02:34:07.360 do you think the strictness of the christian home that you grew up in made you like have an

02:34:11.200 aversion to it um honestly no i like i said i from the time i was born i was raised very christian i

02:34:19.760 started having an issue with it i um my senior year of high school i had lyme disease and i was

02:34:24.800 really i have i currently have lyme disease yeah it took them nine months to diagnose me um i didn't

02:34:30.480 leave my house for nine months all kinds of things and you said you got bit by a tick yeah yeah and i

02:34:36.240 didn't even know um that i'd been bitten by a tick but when i had that it was like i was still very

02:34:40.720 connected to god at that point and it was like after praying for nine months every single night it's like

02:34:45.680 you almost give up and it's very hard to find your way back from when it took three years to get over

02:34:53.680 you guys should talk after it deeply resonates i've i've had it for 28 years i got it from my

02:34:57.840 mother she took her own life from it when i was in high school and that actually made me an atheist

02:35:02.000 for years yeah yeah yeah do you still have it no actually i found a holistic doctor out of indiana

02:35:08.640 a couple hours out of where i live and she was able to get rid of it for me

02:35:11.760 it took like six eight months but i officially like you can test my blood and it'll come back

02:35:18.320 lyme disease free wow congratulations congrats we'll have to talk more about it after the show

02:35:22.960 that's something chase that you've struggled with for your whole life yeah yeah to be honest my

02:35:28.320 relationship with jesus is the only reason i'm still here because i've i've dealt with that

02:35:32.160 hopelessness a lot yeah that's it started all of my mental issues whether it's depression anxiety

02:35:37.600 everything it was just from there it just all went downhill so yeah um i'm glad that you're healed

02:35:43.440 from it thank you by the way there's uh there's currently uh we got still ten thousand five oh what

02:35:50.560 the why did i did i i don't know has that been going on the entire time sorry i didn't mean to send

02:35:56.400 the missile there i don't know why but okay there's ten thousand five hundred people watching the chat is on

02:36:02.400 fire thank you thank you everybody guys drop a like on the video um drop a like there's ten thousand

02:36:07.600 of you in here but let's get to a four thousand five thousand if we can do you mind if i bring

02:36:11.280 something up in regards to you switching tate over i think your best bet is to start with getting

02:36:17.440 christianity to actually stand behind the religion yes these gay flags in front of churches not that i'm 0.68

02:36:22.240 against gays but that's not with the religion yep the things that the christianity is allowing 0.99

02:36:28.480 is making christianity lose in a lot of ways to islam yep and i think that's the basis right now 0.99

02:36:33.920 for christianity to return is to get back to the backbone and actual religion and not being socially

02:36:39.520 correct with people you and i are a hundred percent on the same page bro absolutely one of the

02:36:44.880 phenomenons i'm sorry i gotta say this one of the phenomenons that is driving so many people towards

02:36:50.080 islam right now is christianity kind of being weak yeah dude bro you you look you you go on twitter 1.00

02:36:55.920 they've got trans people literally dancing inside of churches across the west what is that it's a

02:37:02.400 huge departure from the word of god and it's it's really fascinating to watch too because so many young

02:37:08.240 dudes watch tate and they look up to tate and they see tate saying hey islam is more based than

02:37:12.960 christianity is and so they're following tate into islam my problem with it is because when you when you 0.86

02:37:18.880 object i believe when you objectively pursue truth you end up at jesus and a lot of these people they're

02:37:24.160 looking at islam not as what is the most true religion but what is the most based religion

02:37:29.280 i believe christianity well it's like what religion do they respect the most yes and that's the problem

02:37:33.520 it's hard to respect christianity when they're obviously selling out to agendas yes which is why

02:37:39.520 we need a 21st century crusade let's go deus volt but hold on are you are you catholic chase no okay so

02:37:44.880 why not um i mean you really want to get into it kind of i mean it's important it's an andrew tate

02:37:50.960 question too because i think if you're what you're describing is true it's like he has a

02:37:55.200 aversion to the immoral issues that the church seems to be accepting immorality into the church 0.94

02:38:00.640 i have other challenges well not even that it's immorality not immorality i don't think i'm here

02:38:04.880 to judge somebody else's life what it is is judging the fact that we know that christianity is getting

02:38:09.600 away from the baseline rules that they have so you can't respect them because they don't keep their word

02:38:13.760 right and i think one of the reasons so in 1500 right the church split and you had the reformation

02:38:20.160 and then you had now we have 50 000 denominations alongside the catholic church of different churches

02:38:25.360 that have different moral beliefs and then you have the rainbow flags outside of some of them

02:38:29.200 you have the different um they're changing the rules about contraception about sex about marriage 0.99

02:38:33.760 and that's one of the things that made me want to become catholic was learning that they didn't

02:38:37.440 change their moral teaching for 2 000 years that it's been consistent and cohesive i disagree with

02:38:43.120 the consistency and that's why i'm not part of the catholic church you've got you've got pope francis

02:38:46.800 bringing uh deities into the vatican worshiping pachamama in front of uh inside saint peter's

02:38:53.920 basilica and i believe it's the second commandment that says you shall have no other gods before me

02:38:57.840 like bro i see catholicism sorry to call you bro i see catholicism compromise on so many things like

02:39:03.120 this and it's just well let's talk about pachamama for a minute because i don't think to be honest out

02:39:06.960 of respect for brian i don't think we should do that on this podcast thank you um okay let's uh i need to uh

02:39:13.120 do a couple of the chats here eric can you just pull up twitch really quick let's shout out people

02:39:16.480 on twitch guys twitch.tv slash whatever twitch.tv slash whatever go over there right now open up

02:39:22.080 another tab drop us a follow up justin uh drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you have one oh my

02:39:28.000 god ark thank you for the five gifted subs man appreciate it um where did the did the girl in the

02:39:32.800 red where is she is she coming back oh somebody in the bathroom yeah okay um yo uh let me thank

02:39:41.600 everybody here your boy chris think for the prime cheeks mcgee think for the prime arc uh i thanked

02:39:46.000 arc jk think for the prime uh kha think for the prime fgm think of the prime and then uh juan think

02:39:52.800 for the follow deer damn thing to follow jordan think for the follow angelic bonding for the follow

02:39:57.040 enigma vortex thank you for the follow twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow in the prime sub if you

02:40:01.280 have one thank you guys um and then let's do a couple chats here we have uh let's see doc venables

02:40:06.800 hide that uh thank you for the hundred man really appreciate the support the former mother wife

02:40:12.400 patrick turned three or four in the paint because uh she's not here so maybe i'll pull this back up

02:40:18.160 when she's here so she can address it if she wants uh okay we have um oh wait let me wait until that

02:40:23.840 disappears one sec guys um how you doing back there uh archduke you doing good sweet okay

02:40:30.880 dirk diggler thank you for the australian hundred thank you mate uh one for the delusional marshmallow

02:40:36.000 advocating wait is she also not here should i wait maybe i should wait is she the marshmallow

02:40:42.880 confirm or deny is she the marshmallow yes okay i'll i'll pull that one she's the only person here

02:40:47.360 advocating stis so let's see just a bunch of super chats for her we're just gonna roast her when she 1.00

02:40:53.760 gets back bob money 210 thank you for the hundred brian with four million in subs can you not afford a

02:40:58.400 bigger table and more mics please bring the cute asian gal with the cute facial expressions to the 1.00

02:41:02.880 front i'm gonna say anything in response to that do you want to say anything thank you but i'm just

02:41:07.440 kiki 2.0 for today's panel yeah we'll get it figured out i am i am in the i am trying to get a

02:41:13.280 bigger table um it's it's not it's not a question of a ford it's just uh i think what you should do is

02:41:21.120 scoot that back a bit scoot this back slightly get a little bit bigger of a table and then we've got

02:41:26.000 yeah the the other thing i want to do with the table is you see how we have the legs here and all

02:41:29.760 the corners i want like a central leg yeah that way people aren't like in the corners aren't like

02:41:34.800 fucked i think and and if i can add i think this is like 54 by 54 inch if i think if i expand it to 60 0.91

02:41:41.280 by 60 it'll accommodate like 4 4 4 instead of like 3 3 3 so and then you can fit more than one big 0.98

02:41:47.600 man on this side of the table comfortably yes and then more more than one gore lock okay um all

02:41:56.400 right we have sloan fidel thanks for the hundred i'm 60 61 fit and wealthy porn has ruined two

02:42:02.240 generations guys lose oh my goodness okay what's going on i'm 61 fit and wealthy porn has ruined

02:42:09.360 two generations of men losing motivation to earn sex guys care more about multiple tattoos

02:42:14.720 than building their lives which is juvenile i'm italian and men of my generation don't even talk

02:42:20.400 to a 30 year old usa guy as a real man they are kids did you try on fidele very slow dude sloan 0.99

02:42:28.640 he's right you you're absolutely right porn ruins men's motivations to pursue and earn sex it's one

02:42:34.480 of the reasons why the west is falling we need to ban porn in america

02:42:38.400 oh thoughts on the porn banning i love that he says that in front of a table where half of us

02:42:45.440 make porn so it's just like that's why i'm saying it i know but we'll keep making it

02:42:50.160 all right and uh i'll raise my kids to be motivated to ban it eventually

02:42:54.160 okay oh wow on the warpath yes there are there's a lot of women who want to ban porn too so yo doc the 1.00

02:43:01.120 former mother wife pastor turned three i found the pink is a predator she's no better than a blank 1.00

02:43:06.000 priest the p word uh yeah we're not yes don't say it uh you want to respond to that i'm not sure what

02:43:12.480 this is it's such an empty threat but that's cool if you think that okay we have uh dirk diggler here

02:43:18.720 um giselle can you read this in an australian accent please i can't do australian get it together

02:43:25.120 no excuses play like a champion one for the delusional marshmallow advocating stis and other manipulative

02:43:33.920 ideologies just because you interject someone point does not make you right it is very obvious

02:43:40.720 that you live in a bubble advice put on a jumper delete your social media and read a book that was

02:43:46.640 more british i know but good job it was good it was good uh your response to dirk diggler um take your

02:43:53.680 own advice okay dirk diggler thank you for the australian hundred appreciate it all right we have a

02:44:01.280 dode thanks for the uh hundred man really appreciate it uh to the women advocating for

02:44:06.240 everyone to do what you desire and think is right for you what do you say to the adult who desires

02:44:12.560 sex with those under age don't use the arguments of illegality because that is made possible by a 0.99

02:44:18.800 deeply religious and christian culture uh let me just i'll come in here really quick uh dode uh i'm

02:44:24.560 deeply appreciative of the uh hundred dollar uh super chat however this is not a topic i feel

02:44:29.760 particularly inclined to engage in uh on the show just we're not you were on youtube like i'm not

02:44:36.160 we're not going to talk about brian if i may make a point staying safe with youtube's tos

02:44:42.640 he raises a good point because all of this like post-modernist i can make my own morality whatever i

02:44:50.480 want you know as long as it doesn't hurt anybody and everything's consensual then it's fine

02:44:54.880 that is exactly where all of this is going it already has i mean i would hurt we're not going

02:45:00.400 to talk about it to respect what brian wants to do but the pornography crisis is definitely hurting

02:45:05.920 children in a big big way pornography usage is increasing and it's hurting kids also chase are

02:45:11.040 you kind of also referring to like this this shift to like maps and andrew tates talked about this maps

02:45:17.360 yep maps yep they call them minor attracted persons that's this is they're moving towards the

02:45:21.760 legalization of that kind of stuff okay we have hide that eric um we have uh oops hold on

02:45:29.040 dapper dave thank you for the 100 man for chase going to your points about christianity losing

02:45:34.000 out to other religions because of giving to the woke agenda not properly defending themselves what is

02:45:39.600 your definition of turn the other cheek also christians giving into toxic femininity so what's 0.99

02:45:45.680 your definition of turn the other cheek yeah so like if somebody's an asshole to me i'm not 0.99

02:45:50.720 going to be an asshole to them back right so like i've had plenty of people attack me and i don't 0.99

02:45:55.520 just like go and go for their jugular and try and attack them back to hurt them that's my definition 0.99

02:46:00.320 of turning the other cheek yeah because you should never lower your you should never lower your standards

02:46:04.640 to fit somebody else's reality just because you should never lower your standards to fit somebody

02:46:09.360 else's reality just because they have to act that way does not mean that you have to retaliate in that

02:46:13.040 way right right yeah but to be clear that's the point of not turning the other cheek to be clear

02:46:17.440 and correct me if i'm wrong jesus was a savage when he had to be oh yeah he wasn't a punk he

02:46:23.040 wasn't a pushover he wasn't just like he was slid a throw to you and so i think i think that the church

02:46:28.080 particularly the christian church gets that part wrong they need to bring that savage side out and

02:46:31.920 republicans for that matter you know sitting there a part of i i think the key is like what are you

02:46:36.560 defending right i mean turn the other cheek is you're turning the other cheek and you're willing to take an

02:46:40.640 insult but right but when it when it comes to defending your children and your family in the

02:46:45.120 future of society yeah there's no there's no turning the other cheek then so i i think that

02:46:50.720 like we were talking about earlier i think that they're missing that savage side of jesus or

02:46:54.880 christianity as a whole i what i and what i would say to that justin is there has been an intentional

02:47:00.080 agenda to neuter and castrate christianity because they know if they can present jesus as this hippie

02:47:06.400 who just says oh yeah just be nice to everybody i'm a socialist that's how jesus is

02:47:10.320 presented to a lot of young people nowadays they know that you know the the the christian ethos

02:47:15.520 that has kept the west together for the past 2 000 years it's going to fall apart which is what

02:47:20.000 we're seeing we wouldn't want a toxic jesus would we no you know the the true jesus is the man who's

02:47:25.280 flipping tables and chasing the money changers out of the temple with whips right he's coming back and

02:47:29.440 he's he's slaughtering the antichrist and all of his armies right his father is yahweh who is it says

02:47:36.320 in exodus he is a god of war and you look all throughout the old testament god would frequently

02:47:40.880 have his people just wreck other tribes right that is who god is and it's not it's not for the purpose 0.75

02:47:46.560 of just violence for violence's sake but oftentimes it was for the purpose of fighting evil right and

02:47:51.600 the catholic church in the in the medieval ages they had knights whose purpose was to defend the

02:47:56.480 church right the the true church has backbone but it's been subverted and that's why we're in the

02:48:00.800 position we're in today but i think the most beautiful example of sacrificial masculinity

02:48:05.120 is jesus christ on the cross actually which is kind of this contradiction right jesus is literally

02:48:09.280 giving his life for other people and taking every out of love out of love for the saving not not 0.99

02:48:14.720 because he was a pussy it was out of love absolutely absolutely but i think that when you're so strong 0.99

02:48:20.800 that you're willing to die for somebody else right that is the ultimate love right there yes and 0.99

02:48:27.120 there are amazing like saints in the christian tradition that literally die for transcendentals

02:48:32.880 for moral truths for love almost all of christ's disciples were brutally murdered because of their

02:48:37.600 faith but to justin back to your point when you really look at jesus christ's character he was

02:48:43.920 in my opinion the most masculine man who ever lived he he bore the weight of the cross out of love

02:48:49.520 for other people right he sacrificed his own life out of love and on top of that this was a man who

02:48:55.040 had so much courage so much vitality and masculinity he would stand in front of people who hated him

02:49:01.520 and were plotting to kill him and he would still speak the truth directly to their faces and and

02:49:07.440 then they eventually killed him for it what is more masculine than than a man who's willing to die for 1.00

02:49:12.080 his ideals and isn't isn't so much of a pussy that he'll cower away from death but he leans into it 0.99

02:49:18.160 right that's so masculine he didn't wage war though he didn't go on a slaughtering rampage he laid down his 0.99

02:49:22.640 life out of love he did but he will be waging war when he comes back so it's just different when

02:49:27.120 you're saying like yeah we're gonna rate like that's what we need to do and it's like but

02:49:29.840 his very definition and demonstration was sacrificing himself out of love he sacrificed

02:49:34.480 himself out of love but he also stood up for truth all right let's keep things going but uh justin one

02:49:39.760 thing you said last show that that was really interesting and i think you just mentioned something

02:49:43.680 about cutting throats yeah um you said what was it like a definition of a man is someone that can

02:49:48.960 slit a throat and hold a baby in the same day i love that yeah that's what i don't know i don't

02:49:54.160 know you have to slit a throat to be a man but i think i think if it's necessary if that polarity 0.76

02:49:59.200 is necessary then yes yeah i think that you're saying that's what christianity is missing right

02:50:03.520 being capable of being dangerous yeah but also ultimately loving throats i guess i guess i would

02:50:09.360 just push back a little bit because because i think where your guys are going i like where you're

02:50:13.120 going in terms of i think the motivation which is you want strong men to defend civilization right

02:50:17.440 but i think maybe what you're popping up here with i don't know your whole

02:50:21.280 mentality on this but you don't have to be violent commit violence to be a masculine right

02:50:27.680 no you don't but i think you certainly need to be capable capable when the time comes and

02:50:31.520 and that's of course that's the point i'm making is that whether whether christianity's

02:50:36.320 needs to be violent or not i think it does it's not a consideration it doesn't but i do think

02:50:40.400 i'm not i want to make it clear i'm not yeah i don't either but it also needs to stand up for

02:50:44.160 what its actual values have been and what's in the book because right now i think they're

02:50:48.000 drastically failing at that and you can see the numbers in churches going down like comparatively

02:50:53.200 to the last couple of decades it's not doing well in comparison yeah um okay let's oh sorry go

02:50:58.880 ahead no i was gonna say as islam kind of is and i'm not even look i'm american the christianity's

02:51:04.160 american i grew up around christianity i want to see christianity win right there was a there was a

02:51:08.720 a super chat i think about the virgin mary did you see that if it wasn't over the threshold we're

02:51:14.080 gonna have to skip over they didn't pay enough money all right we have uh slow joe 69 thank you

02:51:19.200 man for the uh 101.69 in the next three to five years every single image in social media will be

02:51:24.720 generated by ai it will be impossible to tell fake from reality i hope the three of those learn to code

02:51:31.200 brian you're a king chase you're awesome madison and giselle hope you're invited back hey thank you

02:51:36.400 so much for the kind word slow joe 69 thank you for the additional 69 cents they're much appreciated

02:51:42.960 all right we have a couple more super chats here did we do this one yeah we did we have a bob money

02:51:48.160 210 thank you man i really appreciate it brown with four million and subs oh we did this one right we

02:51:52.480 read it yeah uh free fall a hundred uh thank you for the hundred man chase uh giselle can you read this

02:51:59.360 chase and brian i am a fan and ladies i just want to say as a female who is in her 20s it's so hard

02:52:05.600 especially in cali to find a good guy because i get made fun of uh for having barely any experience

02:52:12.400 and them just wanting to get off on only fans i'm always compared to ladies like you hold on if 1.00

02:52:17.520 they're making fun of you for that they're not a good guy and you shouldn't want to date them anyways

02:52:21.760 yeah so you don't want a guy on only fans you don't want to date a guy you get so you get made fun of

02:52:28.240 for barely having any experience i think that's does most men find that a desirable trait she's i 1.00

02:52:34.880 mean she's probably getting shamed for not putting out i would imagine and free fall what i would say

02:52:40.080 to that is don't compromise your standards there's plenty of guys out there who would really value you

02:52:44.720 being a chaste woman that's the problem with today's generation girls don't have role models anymore 1.00

02:52:51.200 to look up into the mic oh i'm so sorry um i'm 23 you know you guys are young too i had an only

02:52:59.040 fans account a couple years ago so try to just straight into the mic sorry just um lock in

02:53:07.920 i just feel like modern women today are just not as good as they were back then 1.00

02:53:13.680 it's got to make women great again yeah i mean look at no offense to the only fan girls like i said

02:53:20.720 we're no i was one of them we're no good role models you know this girl over here she's i feel

02:53:28.080 bad for her you know because she's probably you know just wanting to find a real guy who's not willing 1.00

02:53:35.200 to spend money on other girls and if all these men are just you know buying only fans and he's not a

02:53:41.600 real guy like but i i feel bad because our society it's so pornified even before only fans it was

02:53:47.520 pornified you know like with the kardashians are presenting out into society and with just this 1.00

02:53:52.560 idea that as women we do have to put out or we have to dress really sexually to get attention and to get 0.83

02:53:56.640 affirmation so i think and a lot of girls are i think our victims become victims of sexual assault 1.00

02:54:03.120 at young ages today so there's a lot of crap that young girls have to deal with and so it's hard for 0.91

02:54:08.880 you out there you know i i i my heart goes out to every young girl and that's where but i i my my

02:54:14.400 message is listen you have it within yourself to rise above and you deserve better you are better

02:54:21.760 and there's a beautiful future for every single woman no matter what her past was that can lead

02:54:26.480 that in the past get some help uh free fall by the way i mean i i would assume it's mostly women 1.00

02:54:32.960 that are shaming you for barely having any experience because no dudes are going to be like

02:54:38.560 i personally like with my values and my morals i tell guys when they're interested in me i'm like 0.98

02:54:44.080 i'm sorry i cannot have sex with you until we're in a committed relationship and i get bashed by so 0.86

02:54:50.880 many men and so many men mistreat me after i tell them that i won't do that they'll yell at me they'll

02:54:56.400 tell me i'm manipulative they'll tell me that i led them on or anything like that just because i won't

02:55:01.360 put out for them earlier than them committing to me well that's them just trying to pressure you

02:55:05.520 into having sex and that's wrong and don't give into it no i never do and i i commend you for not

02:55:10.800 giving in good job yeah but there's there's tons of men out there that don't want hoes of course 1.00

02:55:20.320 are you saving yourself for a committed boyfriend or for marriage or a committed relationship yes i want

02:55:24.560 i want that relationship to lead to marriage yes but i i'm not too i've never delved into religion

02:55:31.280 too much so that's okay i haven't um done the whole wait till marriage thing but yeah i want a committed

02:55:37.520 relationship that leads to marriage yes you want to become a mom i that's something that i think depends

02:55:44.160 on the partner i'm with and who am i if he wants children i believe i will give him children when he

02:55:48.960 asked you that question you got a little sparkle in your eye i think you want to be a mom i'm very

02:55:54.560 caring i'm very loving i definitely want to help a lot of foster children around the world that's

02:56:00.160 like one of my big dreams yeah i i agree with that all right we have uh sloan fidel oh we did i believe

02:56:08.640 we read that one yep sloan thank you appreciate it we have rodrigo rodrigo de la rosa says for chase

02:56:15.760 the idea that the true church the catholic church must always be composed by pure angels is a human

02:56:20.640 very human idea and at the same time an anti-biblical very anti-biblical one your response

02:56:25.680 yeah i mean i i recognize that i recognize that all churches have people that are imperfect

02:56:30.000 she just asked why i'm not part of the catholic church and there's i have a lot of different

02:56:33.440 reasons well you talked about the pope and there have been some really bad popes but what the

02:56:37.040 popes have never done is change the church's teaching to be bad so even pope francis if he

02:56:42.000 messes up or does something bad he's not changing the church's teaching and there have been popes

02:56:46.080 that have been actually taken out like they've died mysteriously and some people theorize well did god

02:56:51.200 you know let them be taken out because they were leading the church in a bad direction

02:56:55.120 so god the gates of hell will not prevail that's what god promises on saint peter he builds a church

02:57:00.160 and that's the the the papacy problem is that we we do have catholic churches that are

02:57:05.040 good condoning lgbtq stuff all right crazy crazy yazar c thank you for the hundred jesus said pick

02:57:11.680 up your cross and follow him jesus christ uh never started a religion such cap um bro he literally

02:57:19.600 promised eternal life if you believe in him and like his disciples spread the religion across the

02:57:23.520 world of course he started a religion crazy thank you for the hundred dollars uh donation super chat

02:57:28.800 thank you uh milky way moses thank you for the hundred giselle go for it speaking from personal

02:57:35.200 stuff i first saw porn at a very very hi there hi there hi there

02:57:43.520 white shirt had a lot of concerns about justin's hypothetical daughters what does she think about a 0.74

02:57:48.960 gay couple raising daughters versus a straight couple does she ask gay couples this many questions when

02:57:55.120 she meets them long she thinks she's smart but not i i think that children deserve a mother and a 0.97

02:58:01.360 father amen i agree same i think children deserve loving caring parents or guardians yeah despite

02:58:09.120 their gender despite their gender because i was raised by a single mother and i am honestly i couldn't

02:58:15.920 see myself as any better off and you guys can think what you want because of my career but just as much

02:58:20.960 as kirsten i also like invest my money i when i started stripping every dollar i made went into

02:58:27.040 buying a house and then flipping it so did you do it yeah i did that at 19. you said you said you

02:58:33.360 couldn't see yourself having been any better off had you not had a father i mean i'm saying if i had two

02:58:40.640 loving parents it doesn't matter like i you you you can have a an amazing home life and choose the same 0.99

02:58:47.360 path and yeah i'll fuck with that winners win despite childhood trauma yeah i had a shitty 0.96

02:58:51.680 childhood of bringing i'm still gonna win it doesn't matter winners yeah amen you you you can 0.99

02:58:56.080 have the same exact trauma as somebody else and choose not to let it be a crutch to why you don't

02:59:01.280 do good things i super support that message because there's a lot of kids growing up in single-family

02:59:05.760 households and i'd never want them children to believe that they couldn't go be somebody if they

02:59:09.120 put their mind to like maybe i might not have jumped on a stripper pole as quickly but like

02:59:14.080 yeah you know i came from a very well-off home i came from two loving parents and i picked the same

02:59:18.240 career path you did and i grew up in it i was i was lucky to have a very happy home exactly and now we

02:59:24.160 have a happy home together oh okay love all right we have uh this one we were in the midst of reading

02:59:31.840 it i'll just continue it and it still affects my mind to this day uh prawn separates you from physical

02:59:38.480 s from what it truly is soul connection i've experienced more of the physical but the few

02:59:44.160 passionate times stay in my heart word milky way moses so sad thank you that's kind of what's

02:59:52.480 happening right now i mean what did you say it's kind of simpy a few passionate times stay in my heart

02:59:57.680 that's a grown man that just said that but he's i mean he's in time there's a lot of there's a lot of

03:00:03.280 grown-ass man i just said that that first part's pretty horrible though it's a lot of kids are

03:00:08.960 are running into that because of the proliferation of porn so yeah but i can't believe he saw it when 0.98

03:00:13.760 he was three there was like there was new magazines and dvds and shit in our parents you know closet

03:00:19.600 it's everywhere i get it i get it but like even we had internet at like 16 17 and like

03:00:26.960 the real problem with porn is that there's no motivation to go like you said there's no motivation

03:00:31.280 to go out and get in the real world and i think when that drug is easier than working hard enough

03:00:34.960 and being scared of the rejection that's having to do all the work that's what the problem with porn

03:00:39.200 is is it is stopping guys it's stopping guys from being hungry enough to go seek the actual

03:00:44.080 facts dude which is sleeping with the beautiful girl not not jacking off to the image and only

03:00:49.120 fans even made it to where you can text the mic right but in all fairness but in all fairness

03:00:55.680 a smart girl is going to have somebody else text for i mean i'm sure that it's hard for you to text

03:01:00.560 everybody do that no she texts all her people okay yeah i do i do yeah they have yeah they have

03:01:06.800 like people yeah yeah but but otherwise you know somebody else would be doing it for her so is that

03:01:14.000 how many subscribers you have 50 000 for 70k a month are you charging them like a dollar 50 no no it's a

03:01:21.360 free page i make all my money through my messages and posts gotcha mine's a free page as well learn from

03:01:26.000 her to do that all right okay bro so a lot of these bros that are talking to models on only fans are

03:01:32.880 probably talking to dudes man yeah it is over yep well i mean wasn't that i'm pretty sure like

03:01:39.600 tate when he had his campsites he i mean yeah him and his brothers were they were the ones messaging

03:01:44.720 the guys telling them yo give me your life savings yeah uh well haram

03:01:51.760 uh let's see here we have uh lucia 0.89

03:01:56.640 sukma christi thank for the oh what is going on i know i didn't see the i i wasn't looking at the

03:02:04.960 country chick said the catholic religion is satanic it goes all the way back to babylon religion that 0.96

03:02:09.520 nimrod started in the old testament the catholics were torturing bible believers in the new testament 1.00

03:02:14.640 fox's book of martyrs p.s highly recommend something dr ruckman commentary okay uh country

03:02:23.280 chick thank you uh inaccurate i mean i don't understand how the catholic church could be

03:02:28.640 torturing people in the new testament that doesn't make sense all right we have uh lucia here thank you

03:02:33.680 for the uh six yo where did the girl is the growing red still here did she leave what the oh she's in the 1.00

03:02:42.480 the bathroom all right i'll carry it brian q i am not a fan of makeup since i find it creepy

03:02:47.760 especially fake eyelashes and so on but my friends have been convincing me to wear makeup because it's

03:02:52.800 appealing to men is it true because now i don't feel confident about myself chase thanks for spreading

03:02:58.560 god's word you're welcome lucia be you like do you be you you're gonna attract a person's attracted to

03:03:05.360 you not trying to be what anyone else thinks you should be be you hey lucia i gotta i gotta be

03:03:11.520 yeah i gotta dress up a little more wear more makeup for you know special occasions but typically

03:03:16.640 men like more natural looks yeah lucia i'll speak i'll speak from personal experience i don't know

03:03:20.880 what justin's opinion is i find natural beauty extremely attractive uh i think fake eyelashes look

03:03:27.440 ridiculous i don't think it's attractive at all what do you think justin i think natural beauty is

03:03:31.840 incredible um if you have to do something to you know maximize it you look so much better without 0.83

03:03:36.560 your makeup yeah and and this is coming from this is coming from somebody that pursued the makeup

03:03:43.360 industry and i can tell you right now i know for a fact whenever i would work at a strip club or take

03:03:47.760 pictures on my of i would always go a more natural route because it there it looks like overcompensation

03:03:55.040 and for me even even going from um the midwest and like ohio and then going to los angeles california

03:04:03.200 there's a there's a higher there's a higher par like i could be a i could be a 10 in ohio and be a

03:04:08.720 three here and and that that's not me degrading myself as a woman that's just me recognizing that the

03:04:15.120 value of women here is at a different standard than where i'm from because there's more resources for 1.00

03:04:19.760 that sort of thing and i personally and i i want every woman to to do whatever makes them feel 1.00

03:04:28.480 the best version of themselves so if you if you want to you know get enhancements or get

03:04:35.200 this is not my real hair i'm willing to admit that but like

03:04:38.400 yes to all of that do you be you yeah do you guys sit down whatever you're comfortable with you know

03:04:48.160 he's giving me anxiety when people stand up around me

03:04:53.200 you going to the bathroom chase or no it's just okay i'm trying to get down to the bottom of what's

03:04:57.760 going on okay um where were we i don't i don't know i lost did we read this one from our good friend

03:05:04.640 in indonesia yeah yeah yeah uh i think for the uh 1600 uh indonesian what is it i don't know thank

03:05:11.440 you um she's not a fan of makeup since we already did that one yeah i was just just because i wasn't

03:05:17.280 here um by the way yeah makeup i'm not a fan of makeup you're beautiful all right minnesota liz

03:05:23.600 did we do this one or no no you want a warrior in a garden not a gardener in a war men should have

03:05:29.280 a sharp sword and be capable of violence i agree thank you uh minnesota liz appreciate it i think

03:05:36.240 the ideal man is somebody who is prepared for the crisis yes and who has a mission and that mission

03:05:42.800 is service of others and to make the world better and to serve god and so they need to be prepared for

03:05:49.120 services that come they need to be prepared for violence because violence is in this world

03:05:53.600 unfortunately but at the end of the day they're trying to be bring peace into the world in the way

03:05:58.960 that they love and serve and build strong communities and build strong families so yes you

03:06:03.200 need to be prepared for violence but not be inciting it yes i would say every man should be capable of

03:06:10.480 protecting his family and his loved ones at a moment's notice this is very important

03:06:15.360 i think any human should be capable of that does anyone have wait so how long have you been gone

03:06:21.600 me yeah in the bathroom yeah in the bathroom so into the mic please okay tell us about your bowel movements

03:06:33.120 okay sir i will tell you so i went tinkle which is peeing

03:06:41.200 okay you were she was gone for what like 40 minutes no it was an hour i've had to pee for an hour

03:06:52.720 really you've been has she been you've been out of your seat for an hour no i have not

03:06:57.120 no because you came tinkle when i was in there with you you went you went wait she was she was in 0.83

03:07:03.280 there what was she doing in there while you were um i think i make up i had just finished doing my tinkle

03:07:11.200 so then i um put on a little bit of lipstick and then um i brushed my eyebrows and this girl is 0.98

03:07:22.240 fucked up bro i'm not what did what did you do in there definitely you are like bro what your sobriety 0.99

03:07:28.640 level is so low right what drugs are you on right now i am high on life no you're high on something 0.99

03:07:35.680 else you're high on no come on i don't do drugs come on i don't do drugs as someone who doesn't

03:07:44.080 do drugs does anyone want to take a a wager at what drugs she's currently on i've got a few ideas

03:07:49.360 how would i have done my makeup if i was on drugs first of all it's possible i were in the bathroom

03:07:56.400 for i don't even what's what's okay you want to know the truth tell us i have drugs and makeup at

03:08:01.280 the same time i had a party phase in high school it's possible i have ocds it doesn't always look

03:08:06.640 the best but it is i have ocd so i had to reorganize the dior back and like put into the mic into the

03:08:13.760 mic scoot the mic closer towards you okay sir dominique i gotta be honest when we started this

03:08:18.480 show your sobriety was like here then you went to the bathroom and then your sobriety was like here

03:08:22.320 you came back you went to the bathroom again now your sobriety is like here like both times

03:08:27.440 you've come back from the bathroom you've been less sober so you know what's the story here okay

03:08:32.560 you want to know the story yeah yeah tell us the story i want to know the story so i went to the

03:08:39.760 restroom i tinkled some sometimes it's like a little hard for me to like pee like so i drank a little bit

03:08:49.760 more water um and like who do you think you're fooling this is embarrassing but i drank a little

03:08:56.560 sink water because i didn't want to come back out and get a cup you drank what water she said she 0.85

03:09:01.440 drank sink water you drank sink water because i didn't want to go your sink water got her up dude 1.00

03:09:07.280 i didn't want to go back out and get my cup and like interrupt

03:09:11.200 i hope you don't have fentanyl on your toilet seat uh confirm or deny is there fentanyl on the toilet

03:09:17.920 seat i just peed there was not if i did say if i did the drug i wish you guys could see jester right

03:09:29.040 if i did the drug fentanyl i would be dead because like i would od and die in that bathroom so what what

03:09:36.720 what did you what did you take what drug did you take what did you take oh my god okay i feel

03:09:41.680 so attacked right now do you think do you think you're okay you're safe no i don't i think you're a

03:09:46.400 very smart man that's on this corex donated two hundred dollars here that be on another planet

03:09:53.600 she heard chase talk about jesus and god wanted to go find him

03:09:57.680 i also i also was looking at my ring from my um proposal and i was admiring it also in the

03:10:10.880 bathroom it's not on the right finger for proposal yeah it's in the i know i had to change it because

03:10:15.360 this one's too tiny and it was gonna fall and i didn't want it to maybe are you your hands are 0.99

03:10:20.560 shaking a little bit maybe your blood sugar is like fucked up you need like you want to 0.98

03:10:23.680 snack i've got some sour i would love one victoria can you please grab the sour patch 1.00

03:10:29.200 kids for her she's either her blood sugar is low or she's on meth and i don't know what 1.00

03:10:33.840 chat chat let me give us your best guesses what drugs what drug if i was on meth my pupils would

03:10:40.560 be dilated first of all my stepmom is an anesthesiologist so i know everything about every drug

03:10:47.040 i'm low-key like fly through her like i am a low-key like off the market like anesthesiologist i think

03:10:56.560 i'm getting a contact high i'm like feeling it too a little okay look at my i would i would guess

03:11:02.960 either heroin or oxycontin or xanax that's what i was thinking

03:11:07.280 what talking that's fine what do you mean me naming them um first of all what's what's tos eric 0.76

03:11:17.600 her being incredibly fucked up on this live stream um i am not eric what is tos you're okay don't let 0.98

03:11:25.360 him get to you oh okay i want that's fine tos can get you banned 0.99

03:11:32.640 you're fucked up you can get banned i like how everybody but her is eating the sour patch kids 1.00

03:11:37.680 right now okay so look hey hey hey dominique you should eat some of these you should eat some of 1.00

03:11:42.720 these i think her blood sugar is low dominique i don't think she's on methamphetamine i think her

03:11:47.440 blood sugar you should eat some of these if i was on a drug like meth my pupils would be extremely

03:11:54.400 dilated if i was on a drug like fentanyl or heroin they would be so pinpoint my pupils are none of the

03:12:02.320 the above i don't know you haven't blinked for the past like 30 minutes no i've been watching

03:12:06.000 her blink okay my bad my bad to be fair her eyes don't look the same as if you're watching her blink

03:12:13.520 if you guys felt my heart rate it's not like i will gladly feel your heart rate

03:12:19.680 can i see your wrist please you may are you chase is it's normal i do have a pulse if i didn't i

03:12:26.480 wouldn't be talking yeah we're all in a circle i mean it is it is normal like bedtime and he's just

03:12:35.040 tired no and then i was also responding to my driver your driver yes you have a you have a chauffeur

03:12:42.640 yeah because she's taking the ring off good idea no no can you put it back in the box i'm putting it

03:12:48.720 back in the finger that it goes on well because i was okay so like because remember how i got like

03:12:55.760 a speeding ticket so then he switched and started driving for me that's really nice of him yeah it

03:13:04.080 was victoria do we have any other snacks back there like some fruit send the yeah i don't

03:13:09.840 cracker okay you want to know the truth dominique can i ask you a question you want to know the truth

03:13:15.200 i don't eat refined i don't eat refined sugar good for you good job so if you have an orange bad for

03:13:21.760 you anyways if you have an orange i i have i have oranges there's an orange on the counter victoria

03:13:27.120 victoria there's oranges in the bag over there yes this is vegan i'm just glad victoria stay

03:13:32.800 justin what did you find did you find any uh paraphernalia okay i want everybody in the chat

03:13:39.520 this to to look at the time right now because i'm about to actually go tinkle

03:13:44.480 you gave her both my apple and wait no no orange let's not do an orange sure can i have some apple

03:13:52.640 yes of course i share sharing is caring here no oranges don't do the orange i'm not gonna open

03:13:58.320 the orange at the table just bite straight into it no it would get everywhere and like make everything

03:14:04.560 dramatic is there like a knife whatever podcast has officially gone off the rails

03:14:09.520 off the rails okay is this a dating yeah well i mean we've taught we've been straying from the

03:14:15.760 dating whoa they look here trying to give me an intervention i think honestly brian you should

03:14:20.960 just send her home i mean what are we going to do just sit here focusing on how inebriated

03:14:26.160 no i am not inebriated guys i'm not even slurring my speech you're good you're good thank you can 0.84

03:14:35.280 you at least confirm or deny was it was it bath salts yeah i'm gonna eat a guy's face off on bath 0.55

03:14:44.400 salts justin's right here you're not nearly big enough to eat my face off thank you you don't got 0.58

03:14:50.640 hands i'm small i'm not i'm not where i think she's safe where i don't i'm not worried about

03:14:55.120 her okay all right here fine let's bring it back to this she's safe i don't know about lila though

03:15:00.320 keep your face safe don't let her don't let her eat it he's fine all right let me get the soup chat

03:15:05.040 here free fall here hey it's all don't don't trip don't even worry babe babe honey honey honey don't

03:15:13.680 worry i got you it's all good okay thanks i got you it's all good okay um free fall thanks for the

03:15:19.360 hundreds brian it's mostly men that laugh at me several laughed in my face during a date because

03:15:23.840 i don't know much sexual things i feel that men nowadays want an of style girl to get off and have 1.00

03:15:29.280 no attachments i want to get married have my dad approve of him have babies be happy i mean yeah

03:15:34.000 there's definitely dudes that are just like looking to that might laugh at you in that situation but

03:15:38.720 lila what hold on hold on hold on let me just finish so uh by the way just point of clarification 0.97

03:15:46.320 are you waiting until marriage or you're just not trying to fuck like first date can you clarify 0.99

03:15:51.200 if you're waiting like are you waiting until you're in love are you waiting into three months do you 0.98

03:15:56.320 have are you virgin are you waiting to marriage can you clarify i just want to say too like even

03:16:01.600 though i do adult work i'm still very naive and my fans still crack up when i don't know something

03:16:06.960 and it's not i'm not made fun of i'm not made to be less than it's like they find it endearing so

03:16:12.480 i'm sorry these men are making fun of you and you don't have to like go have all these experiences to

03:16:17.680 validate your woman-ness it's just like be you and you'll find men who will honor that you don't 0.91

03:16:23.440 know that much that's okay i i want to know what what lila has to say for free fall so i dated all through 0.90

03:16:29.280 my 20s and i have a lot of friends who you know different experiences but the bottom line i think would be

03:16:35.760 this is that have boundaries about the kind and standards about the kind of guy that you'll even

03:16:40.800 date and obviously when you're first getting to know them you don't know but once they start coming

03:16:44.480 on to you sexually pushing your boundaries just say okay i'm done and move on to the next um maybe

03:16:51.360 open yourself up to another opportunity for somebody that is more noble that respects you more

03:16:56.240 respects themselves more because that's what you're worth that's what your dignity is you have dignity

03:17:01.280 and you deserve a guy who's going to fight for you and is going to have high virtue and you're going to

03:17:05.440 continue to grow your own virtue so that's what i would say don't don't waste too much time with

03:17:09.280 those losers amen can i touch on that uh sure sure sure go ahead let me just read this really quick 0.96

03:17:15.520 rippy uh homegirl got stones in the bathroom yeah i smoked weed in the bathroom but it doesn't smell 0.98

03:17:22.960 like wait wait did you smoke weed in the bathroom no i'm being facetious because it would smell like

03:17:29.120 weed and maybe it's like one of those vapes that's like i don't know i don't have a vape weed pen

03:17:34.960 i do have a nicotine vape like um are you like disassociating right now like what's going on

03:17:42.960 this is nicotine hello go ahead l i am not are you disassociating i'm not all right fair enough okay um

03:17:51.440 you need a little couch for people to take a break on go ahead with your point um i was just gonna

03:17:57.520 say that like in the same on the opposite side of the spectrum as a single girl that does of guys 1.00

03:18:03.040 completely discredit me the second they find out what i do and i i based based i know i'm not i'm not

03:18:08.960 saying i'm not in the point in my life where i'm like oh yeah i need i need a boyfriend i'm just saying

03:18:13.680 like it can be just as difficult on the other opposite side of the spectrum so don't don't put yourself

03:18:19.200 down or compare yourself because if you compare yourself to other people then it takes the

03:18:23.440 gratification out of your own your own success your own happiness it's not worth it you're very

03:18:28.640 smart i can tell and do you do you want to be a role model for other people ultimately is that

03:18:33.920 something that you'd like to be of course and i believe that i can do both and it not be a degrading

03:18:39.440 like me not i'm not i'm not degrading myself by by i'm gonna get women are gonna be

03:18:44.960 your body naked give me that rapper give me the rapper do you think that you should have young 0.99

03:18:50.320 girls looking up to like do you think the dream of a young do you think that the dream of a young

03:18:55.040 girl should be hey brian let me ask the question okay do you think that bro she's like making 1.00

03:19:00.480 noise all right we're done we're done um l do you think that the dream of a young girl should be

03:19:05.440 to be an only fan i think that a young woman should have a choice to do what she wants with her body 1.00

03:19:12.960 and that it shouldn't be frowned upon to do whatever means necessary to be independent and

03:19:19.040 that's my opinion and you don't have to agree with it and you don't have to agree with the way that i

03:19:22.320 make my money and you reserve that right for yourself and i respect that opinion i do i think

03:19:27.760 it's powerful that you're allowed to have that opinion but i don't think that i need to agree to

03:19:31.200 it or cosign it but i think we all just had this conversation chase was talking about asking questions i

03:19:35.760 think we were kind of all mostly agreeing maybe not every single person but most of us were agreeing that

03:19:40.640 you know porn has really hurt society at large and we wouldn't want to be in a relationship

03:19:45.920 with a man who looked at porn a lot of men on only fans are fans are married men who are looking at

03:19:50.400 the porn and their wife is you know they're being cheated on basically so i mean that role model that

03:19:55.840 you want to be then it's men's job to step up and take the market away it's back to what i said earlier

03:20:00.880 men have always led the world why are we going to act like it's women's false now if there was no 0.98

03:20:05.360 platform for her to make this kind of money on she wouldn't be doing it if men were better she would be with a 1.00

03:20:10.240 different man it is men's job to take this responsibility and stop subscribing to it

03:20:14.640 not the girl's fault because the girl has no man to get under and get behind and believe in no man to 0.97

03:20:20.160 marry no man to be submissive to and so the only thing that's out there is for her to make money 1.00

03:20:24.240 with his easy way because he's weak ass dude one thing i really appreciate about what you're saying 0.98

03:20:30.080 justin is that you're saying men need to take responsibility men should take responsibility which 0.99

03:20:34.320 is not a new thing it's always been this way so for us to flip it on the chicks now i think is dumb 0.98

03:20:38.640 agree but i would just argue that women are strong we have agency we can make decisions i agree with

03:20:44.960 some of the language coming out of the side of the table that we make decisions we make choices

03:20:49.200 we should use that power for what end right it's not like men have all the power women have no power

03:20:54.000 of choice women have the power to decide the standards that we hold ourselves to and that we 1.00

03:20:59.520 hold men to and the kind of women we want to be and the kind of role models we want to be for the

03:21:03.200 next generation right how so i agree so here's my question justin do you think a woman yeah we can 0.98

03:21:10.960 get to that let chase speak justin do you think a woman is being a good role model by doing only 1.00

03:21:16.320 fans for the younger generations no i think she's doing what she has to do like i'm not i'm not out

03:21:21.840 to do only no no she doesn't no she doesn't but when she has the option of being a uh look and i'm not

03:21:27.760 taking up for only fans girl is not on my agenda but when you look at it she's either going to go 1.00

03:21:34.480 do a job where she makes no money or she makes seventy thousand dollars a month or i make less 0.99

03:21:38.400 money than a man does doing the same job i mean she's well i disagree with that i don't i don't

03:21:43.600 think there's wage gap is bs but she makes six grand a month she could find a job where she makes six 1.00

03:21:49.120 grand a month it's not like i have other jobs that i've done before where i make way more than six

03:21:54.800 grand a month but that doesn't mean that i can't so why would you stop doing this and do this i guess

03:21:58.640 basically what my point is is that not so much to defend the only fans girl but to empower young

03:22:07.040 men to be stronger more capable so a lot of these girls can find a man that they want to get behind 1.00

03:22:12.480 instead of getting behind a screen and selling porn that's basically and justin hold on lila i agree

03:22:17.600 with that point yeah that like men need to become stronger so that you know women can get behind them 0.91

03:22:23.040 and so they don't have to feel like they have to resort to doing only fans but like it's going to

03:22:27.040 take a while for us to change a generation of men into becoming some of us do it because we want to

03:22:31.680 do it hold on into becoming into becoming strong to the point where women don't have to resort to 1.00

03:22:36.560 doing only fans right it's going to take a while to get to that point yeah and the truth is is that

03:22:40.720 if we took porn away from young men that they would be incentivized to go become that strong man i'm

03:22:45.600 all for getting rid of porn let's i'm all for that i'm scared i am about that let's do i love that

03:22:51.600 and everybody in our everybody in this space or a lot of people in this space would would naturally

03:22:57.360 easy decision almost 100 out of 100 say get rid of porn i i'm all so how can we do that

03:23:03.920 like how that's a great question well that that gets to like a governmental level yeah i mean we'd

03:23:08.960 have to legislate legislative well i think it's it i think there's legislation that can be done to

03:23:13.360 ban porn because i think it is but that that would go back to making you not the united states of america

03:23:20.160 have its christian backgrounds come and stand up to the point where people would go vote for it in

03:23:24.400 that way but i think the other thing is the other thing too is it kind of takes a leap of faith as

03:23:29.520 women because of culture is demanding from us right i mean what that's what you guys are we're dealing 1.00

03:23:34.080 with culture is we're swimming in is sexually objectifying women rewarding women for sexual 0.76

03:23:39.040 objectification right and so but i i do think there's a role of personal responsibility that women 1.00

03:23:45.200 we're not doomed to anything we can make any choice we want and we can start over we can do

03:23:50.960 walk a different path and we can be the women that we dream to be that isn't just making you

03:23:56.880 know money on the internet one way we can i am the woman i dream to be i've arrived and i'm so happy with

03:24:02.640 her younger me would look at me in a grocery store now and be like oh my god she's so hot like i want to 1.00

03:24:09.040 be her when i grow up i wouldn't even question it but i also just want to say like who out of the

03:24:13.360 women here who's been cat called before in public everyone has right i've been cat called in public

03:24:19.440 i bet justin has but anyway man um i'm just saying like if if if a woman is going to get sexualized

03:24:26.320 she might as well do it in a controlled environment where she can make profit and i'm sorry that's the 0.87

03:24:31.680 way i feel i love it uh i mean you're putting if there's a difference between being cat called though 1.00

03:24:38.000 and like actually like putting your fucking tits on the internet yeah you are completely putting 0.99

03:24:43.840 yourself you're asking you're asking well i'll tell you another thing you're doing you're hype you're 1.00

03:24:48.240 you're inflating your vagina and your titties because if it's out there for the world to see 1.00

03:24:52.400 it's like it's kind of like you're taking yourself off the gold standard of like the secrecy of like 1.00

03:24:58.080 sex and relationships like a man that's gonna marry you probably wouldn't want your titties on the 0.99

03:25:02.320 internet for every other man in the world to see so i like when you said you when you got married you're 0.83

03:25:05.920 gonna take it down like yeah i think that's probably ideal for for the marriage i mean they 0.99

03:25:10.720 should probably do the same but it's on the same count oh her her shit's probably leaked all over 1.00

03:25:14.960 the internet yeah no it'll always be there it'll always be there but like one i think one of the 0.99

03:25:19.360 biggest problems in society is that we've cheapened sex that sex is just something that's thrown around

03:25:24.880 it's just like this commodity it's literally sold and i think sex is supposed to be something it is

03:25:30.720 something sacred and beautiful and amazing and it's designed for two people who are just passionately

03:25:36.720 in love and committed to each other publicly for life and also sex can bring human beings into the

03:25:41.280 world and it does and so that's the other thing that was not even really talked about a lot at this

03:25:46.480 table but sex can bring human beings into the world so we should be having sex in relationships 0.93

03:25:51.040 that are prepared to be can i can i say amen and that'll make a society healthier and happier okay

03:25:57.120 sex okay sex is like an exchange of energy excuse me it's an exchange of energy between two people 0.88

03:26:06.720 so like when you have sex with someone like you're really like into the mic when you have sex with them 0.93

03:26:14.640 with someone you're like exchanging energy with that person oh no you exchange some energy with

03:26:20.960 whatever drugs you're on right now that's why what about it though what about the exchange of

03:26:25.280 energy i feel like it's really important i'm gonna cut you off really quick because i have to go 0.75

03:26:31.760 but i do have to say something for the men and women you you got you gotta go i have to go because

03:26:36.880 it's a long drive home for sure for sure um what what you got for us oh girls we need to be better

03:26:43.280 role models for the younger generation and guys if you have a girlfriend at home and you're looking at

03:26:47.360 only fans you're a sad boy yes you're a sad boy give me some oh wow i love that okay you love ecstasy

03:26:59.360 did anybody else hear ecstasy i said exit statement because she's leaving listen if you're into the mdma

03:27:05.040 it's all good okay um question before you leave because i wanted to get everyone's on this trying to

03:27:10.480 maybe we'll come back to what we're talking about let's talk a little bit about body count here because

03:27:14.560 it's dave dating show dating podcast hello um body count uh should body count matter just should

03:27:22.000 should body count matter yes yes matter in what way i guess it's my question it's very for what

03:27:26.880 well for example uh typically you hear men preferring women who have a low body count

03:27:32.560 i would much do you object to men caring about body count you can care about whatever you want

03:27:39.440 like but doesn't mean i care about it fair enough yes and no i mean i i don't know i feel like i've

03:27:48.000 always been just like if you sleep around people like you're you're going to be looked down upon and

03:27:53.120 i feel like just for that reason it's like that's just been like instilled into me it's like i i don't

03:27:57.440 sleep around because it's like that's always been instilled that's frowned upon you think it's frowned

03:28:02.160 upon for good reason or no i agree yeah j dog what you got for us scientifically i understand why

03:28:09.360 it does matter scientifically but you think it shouldn't matter i mean no purely just based on

03:28:17.200 science alone it does and it should okay that's just very based very based um it matters i wouldn't

03:28:24.960 want to date a pig into the mic into the mic it matters you wouldn't want to date a pig yeah if you're 0.97

03:28:29.200 sleeping around what do you have against pigs everything man just you know guys she's so cute 1.00

03:28:35.840 man i just want to hug her every time she talks some guys are just very pigs you know so oh okay i 0.99

03:28:43.040 would not want to sleep with someone or be with someone who has a very high body count okay and you 0.99

03:28:48.800 and you say that like like you wouldn't want to sleep with a man that has a high body count

03:28:52.720 because most men commend each other whenever they they get laid you know yeah my i've asked my

03:28:57.920 boyfriend about his body count it's very low so your thoughts should body count matter do you object

03:29:02.880 to men caring about body count all right all right what about you about body count when i date women 0.99

03:29:10.560 i don't care if they have a high body count bro i'm gonna null this fucking marriage okay what do you um 0.99

03:29:15.520 okay i think body count matters a lot why profound because like i said sex is very important like who you 0.99

03:29:29.520 have sex with is really important and your body count should not be high because if you're exchanging energy

03:29:38.160 with like a lot of different people you're you don't know who you're like you're spreading it you

03:29:44.240 don't yeah you don't know who it is and so it's like question for as a woman got it wait just real

03:29:50.560 quick question you said your body count shouldn't be high no it should be high what

03:29:57.120 oh he's saying body count shouldn't be high shouldn't be on perk it shouldn't be high your

03:30:04.000 body count should be low all right as low as possible all right okay uh what about you what

03:30:11.360 your thoughts should body what do you guys think i'm gonna say i think body count should be one person

03:30:16.000 if you get married and that's the person that you marry preferably and i don't really like the term

03:30:20.000 body count because it sounds like dead bodies after sex when sex is supposed to be beautiful and

03:30:24.080 life-giving and amazing between one two people in a marriage so anyways yeah i suppose we could 0.90

03:30:29.440 change it to like how many people you've had sexual intercourse but i'll say one more thing i think i 0.59

03:30:34.880 think no matter how high anybody's body count is there can be a start over point where you decide

03:30:43.040 i'm not going to keep living that way i'm going to live a different way and that that change is

03:30:47.360 possible no i'm sorry but once you've slept with like a hundred dudes it's i don't care if you're born 1.00

03:30:52.400 again virgin i mean mary magdalene is one of the greatest saints of all time and she actually was

03:30:57.760 the first first person she was a ho she was home she was i'm not familiar with the scripture jesus 0.98

03:31:04.160 i looked into this like resurrected like a week and a half ago has it actually been proven that

03:31:08.320 she was like a prostitute tradition says that uh there is a tradition that says yes she was involved 1.00

03:31:13.920 in prostitution that's fine but i prefer a virgin over a born-again virgin especially if she was a 1.00

03:31:19.280 prostitute especially if she was a prostitute i thought i thought jezebel was the prostitute can 1.00

03:31:23.680 we take the fruits i just want to know i i freaking brought this apple and orange and you guys have 1.00

03:31:28.960 just been groping it all night and can we just take it off we're gonna eat it off the table yeah

03:31:33.360 okay no no i wanted it no no they said i couldn't bite they said i couldn't bite it i don't want

03:31:40.000 any juice yeah they didn't want me to get all over you guys are the ones trying to force you

03:31:46.080 beat me food saying that i was on drugs and i wasn't yeah just admit it it was you still want that apple

03:31:51.840 just put the apple on the ground yes can we just no actually wasted my fruit

03:31:56.080 hold on hold on hold on i was going to hear you eat that after the show

03:31:58.640 i just can't find it dominique wife so listen listen to me wife hold on guys one sec one sec one 0.82

03:32:04.400 second before you leave one sec really important dominique right that's your name right i'm not

03:32:08.240 letting you marry her brian hold on it's dominique it's french oh my name is dominique noah

03:32:15.760 robet yeah so i'm french and cuban that's beautiful i do not speak french can you sit can

03:32:23.200 you you don't need to stand up to put that they can't even sit down on my head watch look no but

03:32:27.680 just sit and balance it on oh my god what am i doing here sit in the chair okay watch and you

03:32:36.240 think i could do the orange on top oh gosh what is this just never mind okay um i did it we were

03:32:44.720 talking about body count what's your body count um i don't know i'd have to sit and count through

03:32:50.640 because it's not important for me to keep track of range over 20 less than 20 oh more than my fingers

03:32:57.920 for sure your 20s or a little above that probably above 100 100 i know you want to get to 100 oh i'd

03:33:08.800 love to get as many people in my lifetime as possible that's my favorite compliment thank you

03:33:14.720 what's your body count six oh i'm the same uh six

03:33:22.640 out of respect for my boyfriend i will not be saying that um

03:33:27.440 do it just do it so what's your body count i've only been in like three serious relationships

03:33:35.440 for four so just do it uh wait four yeah oh okay what about you out of respect for my boyfriends

03:33:42.960 i i won't say so what what's your body count girl just own it just don't own it own it just own

03:33:57.360 it we both know what it is i was i was really bored in ohio you guys and i'm also i also don't

03:34:04.800 have gender like ruling me out okay it's just a lot is it triple digit i don't know quadruple digit i

03:34:13.440 don't know what no i'm only 21 holy how am i supposed to get more years yeah give me like one more

03:34:20.640 but i mean no i'm joking i'm joking but like i do sleep with men and women so like and in between 0.98

03:34:28.080 so like what just what's what's the number i don't know the number like dead ass like i would 0.99

03:34:33.040 tell you the number if i knew i'm not one of the weirdos that fucking writes it 150 range 0.99

03:34:39.040 maybe sit you lost okay around 120 triple is it triple digits 0.97

03:34:42.720 your friend is saying yes so i mean triple digits triple digits i love you

03:34:54.800 what is going on tonight

03:34:58.000 nick did you share your body count i said i don't have a number because i don't keep track

03:35:01.600 because it's not important to me would you say it's under no i said that sounds amazing but no

03:35:05.920 it's under 100 or above what if it's 66 what if it's 69 69 would you say would you say it's above

03:35:15.680 50 666 probably not probably not i don't know it's like i just i just was married for 12 years

03:35:22.800 yeah yeah i was surprised many many years yeah like if she had she had she had as many years 0.92

03:35:30.000 being a hoe as i did she'd probably be way over me that's what over you way okay okay rule 76 no 1.00

03:35:38.880 excuses play like a champion what's your body count it's literally like over 100 but it's not like

03:35:45.600 literally literally i've been in la for too long and i'm starting to talk like a valley

03:35:50.240 bitch uh do you think it's over 200 no so between 100 and 200 i mean i don't i i genuinely like don't 0.97

03:35:59.440 know like i don't just keep tabs on all of that like i don't okay but you know for sure i'm not 0.96

03:36:04.400 trying to like be like mysterious like i'm pretty open i dead ass do not know like i do not count i 0.78

03:36:10.320 don't have a notes list like some guys do like weirdos but you know for sure that it's triple digit

03:36:17.760 it's at least triple digit i mean yeah so like 193 i mean yeah probably 193 yeah probably

03:36:23.280 okay because because most of it's a lot of it's girls though what percentage would you say is girls 0.89

03:36:30.000 half is it more girls or more guys if you had to i'd say it's probably more dudes more guys

03:36:37.280 more dudes more guys because they're easier to sleep with do you do you like girls or boys more

03:36:43.600 me yeah jesus christ um i really have to go my right is probably outside already

03:36:48.800 justin i was curious if you're looking at a girl what's what's your limit like i don't know if you

03:36:53.120 care about body count but if you're looking at having a relationship with a girl what's your limit

03:36:56.080 i mean ideally it's a single digit number man and anything past that it's probably just a different

03:37:00.080 bucket for the girl that's all yeah you know i'm not super insecure with my ability not to alpha

03:37:04.560 widow or myself so bro i want to know i want to know justin's body count bro i don't even know

03:37:11.280 i don't even know judge me so you don't judge women on their body count 1.00

03:37:15.280 he just he just said that they would go into a different they just go into a different bucket

03:37:19.760 in my mind i think that one already came through all right let me do some super chats here let's do

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03:38:00.880 the follow uh rob thing for the prime appreciate it guys okay um let me do some super chats here brian

03:38:06.160 can i ask while we have justin here i have a question for him because his his time and his

03:38:11.120 insight is valuable justin you've talked tonight about the fact that we need to

03:38:17.360 create more strong men who can effectively lead and provide for women this is something that i

03:38:23.040 personally agree with a thousand percent i think that we need to make men great again it's something

03:38:29.040 i often think about too in terms of like how can we change this generation of men and the future

03:38:33.280 generations of men like what do you think is the best way societally to make men great again like

03:38:37.920 how do we how do we get ourselves out of this mess that we're in obviously banning porn you and i are

03:38:42.800 on the same page about that yeah i think you could ban porn i think you stop placating people's feelings

03:38:47.040 so much and let them get out there and actually compete you know we're coming off a generation that

03:38:52.000 everybody gets a trophy and i know that's a real popular answer but letting letting them live with the

03:38:56.400 harsh realities that if they don't perform they won't actually have a wife or a family it'll end up

03:39:00.960 going to guys at the top and that's actually in a lot of ways kind of playing out some historical

03:39:07.600 issues that we might have had i believe that the reason christianity was good and the reason

03:39:11.520 religion is good is that you you follow it around it's like every man's got a shot at a wife and a 0.98

03:39:15.600 family if we keep going down the path of weak men guys like me or guys like tater guys like whomever

03:39:21.280 will have all the pick of all the women and social media is doing nothing but amplifying that so 1.00

03:39:26.080 i think it's going to take men going through a lot of pain to realize that they're going to have to

03:39:29.280 compete if they want to have a real woman in the real world otherwise only fans will continue to 0.58

03:39:33.760 excel porn will continue to excel sex dolls will continue to excel and um i think that would be a

03:39:39.840 shame for society because it's going to leave a lot of angry young men a lot of people shooting up

03:39:44.160 schools a lot of a lot of pain in the world that's not necessary i agree have you have you guys seen i

03:39:50.560 know you're part of the war room correct have you guys seen a lot of young men turn their lives

03:39:54.320 around as a part of that every day every day that somebody joins the real world where we're teaching guys

03:39:58.880 directly how to make real money in real time by people that are doing the actual business the

03:40:02.640 business that they're teaching or guys that join the war room and start to learn how to get their

03:40:08.080 frame correct how to get in shape how to defend themselves how to dress how to make money it's

03:40:12.640 changing lives every day there's there's nothing more that i could be more excited about being a part

03:40:16.640 of nothing that's more fulfilling to me than helping those young men because you don't build strong

03:40:21.200 men in spite of women you build them for women and the two go together men and women are equal just in

03:40:26.880 different ways and so if we can build men to be strong then maybe women will allow allow a man 0.99

03:40:33.920 to be the masculine and and find their lame and the feminine and actually be happy with it but then

03:40:38.160 it's got to start with the guys they desperately want it i believe it a thousand percent women don't 1.00

03:40:43.040 want to be men as much as they might say they do surveys and they find that women who consider

03:40:47.600 abortion so i see abortion as the greatest human rights abuse of our day and that women who consider 0.86

03:40:52.160 abortion it's typically the number the number one person they turn to is the man like will he fight

03:40:58.160 for her will he fight for that baby yeah and 86 percent of women who have abortions today are 0.99

03:41:03.360 unmarried one thing then there was men are mia in the vast majority of those cases right well i would

03:41:09.360 say another thing too is like let's stop patronizing women that want to be in the masculine frame 0.86

03:41:14.000 you know that yeah that want to be a homekeeper that want to be a mother being a mother is the hardest 0.98

03:41:17.920 job on the fucking planet dude it is a hard physically emotionally mentally demanding job 0.94

03:41:23.920 that is very very necessary for children to grow up in the right frame of mind to feel loved to feel 0.99

03:41:29.520 safe to be able to develop and grow being a mother is one of the most important jobs on the planet right 1.00

03:41:33.680 up there with veterans and school teachers and the cops people overlook these jobs but without these

03:41:39.600 types of jobs and mother being one of them society does not work as a whole and and if we don't get 0.94

03:41:44.160 that right we'll fail i agree how many yeah yeah it is how many of the guys in the war room by the

03:41:49.360 way how many would you say are looking for like a wife and to start a family with how many of them 1.00

03:41:54.000 want to live that playboy lifestyle what's what's this i think there's a strong population of guys in

03:41:58.640 the war room that would just like to find a good woman and that would that would be the war room is way 1.00

03:42:04.240 more about family than you would think just outwardly looking at it do you guys have dudes in

03:42:09.840 there building successful families and and you guys yes we do you guys think that if a woman has

03:42:16.480 um like experienced sexually that that just makes her not a good enough woman to marry no nobody said 0.82

03:42:22.880 that i think i think ideally the guy men in general would want that to be low but we get to ask our

03:42:28.400 body count but you guys don't have to reveal yours so i just i just wonder why four four hundred i don't

03:42:33.200 know i have no idea right okay but i'm i'm gonna get in the chat like oh she's yeah but remember the very

03:42:38.480 beginning you're gonna be like okay cool cool you know what i mean no i don't i don't i think i

03:42:42.560 think that's i think that men that that clap for men that are having sex with a bunch of women that's 0.99

03:42:47.520 a lame ass thing to count yeah i think it's a lame thing to criticize well hold on hold on i'm not 0.96

03:42:52.720 criticizing you understand why the criticism let me be very fair i don't care why wait let me be really 0.81

03:42:57.360 clear with you i told you at the beginning of the conversation life is not fair no so and i was not

03:43:01.840 patronizing your body count so i'm not over here rolling my eyes if you want to 0.99

03:43:04.800 fuck a million dudes do it i didn't put you in a box i said ideally the box the yeah a bucket box 0.99

03:43:10.880 whatever you particularly your number i might put you in the cornfield again but the point the point 1.00

03:43:16.240 that the point that i'm trying to make the point i'm trying to make to you is this is that yes there

03:43:22.000 are guys in the war room that do want to build families and do want to have children and we even

03:43:25.840 have rooms specifically talking about parenting the war room is the best group in the world bar none 0.96

03:43:30.640 hands down it's not even close you would be lucky to find a man in the war room i don't i genuinely

03:43:35.840 am not trying to be insensitive i just don't know what that i i'm not no no yeah i know but at the

03:43:40.480 same time like i wasn't over here talking about your number no i know i'm just hearing you say that

03:43:45.120 men and women should be like equal and or whatever the way that you phrased it of equal value of equal

03:43:51.920 men and women are of equal value in different ways i mean men do rule the world they build and

03:43:56.400 maintain society i'm not confused about that but i i'll never i would never hold on i would never

03:44:02.960 ever ever discredit how important a woman is in in the relationship between the two

03:44:08.640 yeah they're not the world well that's not true i mean i want to echo what you said about motherhood

03:44:13.840 because that's underappreciated in society and we look down on mothers women yeah other women 1.00

03:44:19.680 it's like go out in the career like accomplish all these things as a woman and yes women can accomplish 1.00

03:44:24.480 tons of things but i think we should be celebrating motherhood a lot more as a society and helping

03:44:29.760 mothers be mothers also think waiting the challenges a lot of women aren't even able to be with their 1.00

03:44:34.320 kids they have to be out working or they're not able to make anything can i say something important

03:44:39.600 i am very pro-life and i just think that it's really important to be a mother it's it's so important

03:44:47.360 and i think that if you are having sex unprotected it's on you hold on i have another i have another 0.69

03:44:57.360 question i have another i have another question for justin while we have you here sure because we've 0.99

03:45:03.120 been caught up in a lot of bullshit for the past hour and a half what um

03:45:09.520 what do you think the men of this generation need to do so you're a father correct yeah yeah what do you 0.98

03:45:15.600 think the men of this generation need to do like i i speak with a lot of aspiring fathers what do you

03:45:21.200 think the the men of this generation need to do to prepare to become the best fathers that they

03:45:24.960 possibly can take full responsibility of the situation that you're in completely and don't

03:45:30.160 forget that you get to take care of a family you get to take care you get to be the hero in the life

03:45:35.840 of your wife or your kids or anybody that's around you that leans on you you get to get out of bed

03:45:41.920 every morning and do those things that is the beautiful thing about love i don't i don't want

03:45:46.560 to be around or take care of anybody that doesn't need me in that way because that's the most beautiful

03:45:51.680 part mental health therapist and a christian this whole podcast is painful to listen to knowing

03:45:57.360 what i know brian let me know when you need another conservative girl on chase let me know when you're 0.93

03:46:02.000 ready for a wife layla here hire me i'm so inspired to fight for life ps help red i love you lissa

03:46:08.800 lissa check us out liveaction.org and i'd love to work with you yo lissa thank you uh for the uh

03:46:15.920 super chat really appreciate it uh you can dm well or whatever is not working you dmb under bd

03:46:23.040 underscore atlas if you're interested in being on the show uh if i can speak on chase's behalf on this

03:46:28.720 uh he doesn't he's not looking for a dog you got chase blonde is she blonde she gotta be blonde and 1.00

03:46:34.960 a virgin right oh my god we'd be perfect together he doesn't need to be a virgin to desire a virgin 0.72

03:46:41.760 i'm just asking because you asked our body counts what's your body count chase seven what about you

03:46:48.560 as a man of god i do not reveal my body count is it seven like the pin on your shirt i can neither

03:46:55.040 confirm nor deny my body count but chase may i ask how long you've been celibate three years and

03:47:02.960 what prompted you to do that i wanted god's favor over my life i also realized that continuing to

03:47:08.320 fornicate was a sin against god against my own body and also against the woman that i was having sex with 0.64

03:47:14.880 i also look at the times that we're living in i uh see fulfillment of biblical prophecy happening

03:47:19.440 around us and like i said i wanted god's favor over my life so i repented of that and do you yeah

03:47:26.240 i love that and do you feel better me too do you feel better since you've been celibate like

03:47:34.240 like physically or like spiritually or emotionally or what are you asking all the above the whole plethora

03:47:39.440 of it all uh it brings me greater peace knowing that uh i am honoring god with my body

03:47:46.000 mm-hmm and so since you don't watch like porn either um you're just like completely like you

03:47:54.320 don't you know i'm not saying that i don't experience temptation but okay just do my best to keep it under

03:47:59.360 control okay all right we have free fall here uh free fall thank you for the uh subsequent uh

03:48:05.200 hundred dollars super chat really appreciate all your support tonight girl in pink and jean jacket girl

03:48:09.680 or actually madison can you read this please if you can see girl in pink and jean jacket girl thank you

03:48:14.640 for being so empathetic chase would you be with the girl whose family's backgrounds is muslim but she 0.98

03:48:19.360 isn't also brian i learned what audis are because of you lol educational podcasts lol if i ever meet you

03:48:27.360 all in person i want to hug uh to answer your question one of the marital values that's important for me

03:48:35.120 is making sure that i'm aligned in terms of values with my future wife's family that that's very important

03:48:41.360 i want to have my wife's parents support in the things that i'm doing in my life i want to make

03:48:46.880 sure that we're all on the same page in terms of our values the way that we approach religion

03:48:51.920 there's a low likelihood that i would be with a girl whose family is muslim even if she isn't

03:48:58.320 i'm so wait i i'm assuming here then is she saying that she's a muslim i i mean that would

03:49:03.440 see that would seem to be the implication yeah like she's muslim she wants to know the most important

03:49:08.560 value is that she is a christian uh but if her family is muslim that's that'd be a tough sell 0.98

03:49:15.280 for me personally that does that does whittle down the dating pool because there's a lot of losers out 1.00

03:49:20.000 there i know we were talking about that earlier and like weird guys and they want to you know you

03:49:23.920 were talking about they're coming on to you and it's so horrible and i found when i dated guys that

03:49:28.960 matched my values and they were proud about it and they were like saying yes i'm catholic yes i believe in

03:49:34.560 what the church teaches it automatically now that doesn't mean there aren't catholic guys who are

03:49:38.800 messed up but what it does mean is it kind of creates a dating pool that's stronger so you're

03:49:43.440 less likely to meet weirdos basically thank you victor appreciate it man thank you in wondering about

03:49:51.040 you guys's take on the age when you should have kids as a man i've achieved what i would call

03:49:56.160 professional success at a young age and my first kid at 30 my second at 33 a lot of my friends are

03:50:02.960 waiting to be more successful we're already 35 is there a question here um on the age when you

03:50:10.640 should have kids as a man uh what did you just jack the apple bro um i didn't think you'd notice

03:50:22.480 uh i think you should have kids when you're ready you are in a position to be able to

03:50:30.800 financially support them retire the mother if you can retire the mother do it what was the question 0.91

03:50:35.760 uh what age men should have kids yeah i i think he nailed it though i mean in your 30s is a great

03:50:42.160 time i and then if you want to do it before that i'd be sure that i i could at least retire the mom

03:50:46.800 so she could raise them you know what i'll tell you guys what uh the word of god says about this because

03:50:52.160 i love it psalm chapter 127 verse 4 says the children you do uh you need to leave okay you

03:51:01.920 gotta go see ya okay i not just oh i should have done that way fucking sooner that was my 0.98

03:51:11.520 that's what i wanted to do when i was standing up earlier man i watched her walk out of that bathroom 1.00

03:51:15.360 and i could tell she was extremely intoxicated and i wanted to say i wanted to send her packing 0.99

03:51:20.880 oh my god bro all right um

03:51:28.960 anyways moving on about the the um the whole tate ideology so it sounds like it's basically islam

03:51:35.520 it's an ideology not an ideology if you want to know what no yeah i think you'd have to ask the

03:51:41.200 boys directly or you could watch any of the content that they've put out about them well

03:51:45.120 it just sounds like justin's got a front row seat so yeah i mean to be honest like it's not hard to

03:51:50.880 understand like they the tates have put out a ton of content on about their perspective on women

03:51:55.520 right and like people they only hear like the quote-unquote misogynistic clips that come out where

03:51:59.680 they say like super over the top stuff about women but like correct me if i'm wrong justin their

03:52:05.680 general message is like love your woman take care of your woman they believe in you know being a

03:52:10.160 quote-unquote like unchained man like seeing as many women as you want that's obviously part of the

03:52:14.640 ideology in islam but like they're not advocating that men like abuse women or take advantage of

03:52:19.680 women or anything like that they say over the top stuff so that it goes viral but like he like

03:52:24.480 generally speaking he's from what i've seen andrew tate has been he's told men like become the

03:52:29.520 strongest man that you can to take care of your woman and protect your woman like that's what your

03:52:33.280 woman wants from you become a good leader for your woman and like she will love you for it 1.00

03:52:38.240 right so do you basically agree with andrew tate up until polygamy i mean that's like

03:52:44.320 andrew tate's made a million different statements largely speaking i agree with some of the stuff

03:52:48.800 that he says and i disagree with other things that he says obviously i disagree with the polygamy part

03:52:53.760 that's good yeah yeah i can tell you as a person that spent serious time with andrew and tristan

03:52:59.200 that i've never ever ever not only see them not be rude to a woman but not be rude

03:53:04.720 or unkind to any person that's come in their path ever not one time ever not even a slip

03:53:10.800 that's great so uh any woman that is in either one of those men's lives is very well taken care of

03:53:17.520 and uh very much respected in the presence of andrew and tristan and treated quite well

03:53:23.600 i'll tell you something i disagree with that they've done historically uh you know obviously

03:53:29.440 andrew and tristan have talked about how they would you know basically make women fall in love with

03:53:33.440 them and then they would entice them into doing only fans and they would you know basically have

03:53:38.240 the women make money for them like that's something i disagree with obviously um what do 1.00

03:53:43.280 you think about that justin i think that andrew and tristan's decisions with their girls

03:53:52.320 are up to them number one and i don't think that any girl was ever kept ever ever ever against her

03:53:58.080 will and i think that any women woman that they've worked with including staff and otherwise

03:54:04.400 would tell you nothing but good things about andrew and tristan so much so that many of these girls have

03:54:09.200 come online and said that they love tristan andrew and were never working against their will and it's

03:54:16.240 unfortunate that all of a sudden once these girls have a thought for themselves that the romanian 0.57

03:54:21.040 government wants to say that they've been brainwashed when they're actively doing it on their own

03:54:25.280 it's a joke andrew and tristan have never abused a woman it's certainly not around me and and

03:54:30.640 certainly not anything that i've heard of so take it as you want um that's been my experience and

03:54:37.600 that's clearly been the experience of many women that they've been with yeah and there's also been

03:54:42.400 no evidence no credible evidence from what i understand that's been put forth of any abuse and

03:54:46.560 they're still under house arrest with no charges so you know um

03:54:52.880 they also have footage in that house that if they wanted to they could just go watch all the

03:54:56.880 footage when you walk into andrew's house one of the first things you see is is a 70-inch tv

03:55:02.320 with all the camera angles so if they wanted the truth they would get it all right somebody said

03:55:09.040 i got that in the stream chat i got that in the stream here pretty soon uh let's just get the

03:55:12.880 soup chats and we gotta we gotta end the stream um okay so uh let's see philip call hundred dollars

03:55:19.040 soup chat where do you women get off and down play the equality of a man and a woman 0.99

03:55:22.640 uh unity i served in the military for 17 years and agree that i am a man that can cut the throat and

03:55:27.040 hold my child in my arms uh with love care and grace philip thank you for the 100 super chat much

03:55:34.320 appreciated um okay uh we have enigmatic nomad thank you for the 100 to all the military homies 0.78

03:55:40.240 out there marine 10 years oorah bro quite a super chat i don't know what the like

03:55:46.560 happened tonight it's very unfortunate too because we have our esteemed guest here justin

03:55:52.160 um at some we've justin in our defense we've never had this amount of chaos ever on a

03:56:00.960 show we've done 70 plus of these so i apologize frankly to the whole panel um i have a question

03:56:07.920 to uh to end on a positive note how many live viewers do we have right now uh nine nine thousand

03:56:15.280 five hundred that's a lot justin if there is any piece of advice that you could give all the people

03:56:19.680 out there so that we can fix this screwed up dating world and uh have healthier relationships

03:56:24.320 out there in the world what would you say i would just say as a young man take full accountability

03:56:28.320 and for the young ladies don't don't ever let anybody shame you if you find a man worth getting

03:56:33.600 behind and decide to do that it'd be an absolute shame to see that happen that's it all right quite

03:56:39.680 on bro all right um yeah so guys uh hit that like button please on your way out thank you for tuning

03:56:44.240 in tonight you could've been anywhere in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to

03:56:47.280 everyone who super chats and supports the show thank you to the panel for coming appreciate it guys um

03:56:52.000 thank you to our chat mods uh any women who want to be on the show dm

03:56:55.120 at bd underscore atlas we will be live again sunday at 7 p.m pacific be sure to tune in for 0.90

03:57:01.600 that got some good guests on the way uh anyways guys that's it for tonight's um absolute fucking 0.99

03:57:06.720 show of a stream i'm if you're gonna come be on the show like don't come fucking 0.99

03:57:13.520 intoxicated or on drugs or i don't know what the fuck was her deal but 0.99

03:57:18.160 okay guys we'll be live again sunday 7 p.m pacific we'll see you next time good night 0.99

Whatever Podcast - May 18, 2023

Dating Talk #73

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