00:11:12.300And have you done any other kind of sex work?0.99
00:11:20.840Well, you're a stripper currently. Is that correct? How long you've been stripping off and on for years whenever I had a good boyfriend0.97
00:11:28.740I didn't have to work. Okay, and you're 39. Well, how young were you when you first stripped ever?
00:11:35.840Probably 18. What do you mean? Probably 18? 18. Okay, 18 range there. And have you ever escorted?
00:11:44.440No, but I'm starting to think I should
00:11:48.040you're starting to think yeah i think you know i think i should i've always had like
00:11:53.760you know more like sugar baby type situations but okay i've i've been meeting other escorts
00:12:01.920and they're very like it's different but a lot of them are happy like really happy they're happy
00:12:08.160they're really happy escorting yeah really but you know it's a phase because girls go back and
00:12:14.760they get in and get out like porn uh do you have a history of porn no ever done only fans
00:12:21.580i tried it once and i didn't like it it just wasn't for me when you say you tried it once
00:12:27.840so how long were you doing i had like the whole team all the guys were messaging
00:12:33.420you know your subscribers and stuff like that i think on a high end i was making like eight
00:12:39.340and obviously you split that with the company and just what you had to do on your high end
00:12:44.260you're making eight so it's like four thousand so eight thousand and four thousand oh okay but
00:12:49.240I wasn't doing it that long like five months six months and uh on your Instagram and I yeah I think
00:12:54.580on your Instagram you describe yourself as a visionary leader and an innovator how so um I
00:13:04.400love creating back in 2012 I created a new sex toy but I didn't have the funds to develop it
00:13:12.240but but so 2012 was yeah like a decade and a half ago but you know you just keep coming up
00:13:22.100with new things so were you a visionary and an innovator back then yes i've always been
00:13:27.860very entrepreneurial and that's like if you're on the if you're a junior varsity in high school
00:13:33.420back in 2012 and you put that in your instagram bio you wouldn't be like oh jv black football
00:13:41.120lacrosse team co-captain like in 2026 well when i asked you how you're a visionary and an innovator
00:13:50.180you said in 2012 you invented invented well that's just one that's just one option what was
00:13:54.720the sex toy invention inspiring people and coming up with new innovative ways to helping
00:14:00.300you know whether you're helping we'll come back to the innovation okay okay the sex toy you know0.81
00:14:07.040I went into a sex shop and I was just like, God, what does this sex shop need? And I created one0.97
00:14:14.580that had different levels of heat, vibration, waterproof. But what made it different is that
00:14:20.660it came with condom-like silicone covers with different in ridges and textures that would be
00:14:24.600sold individually. But I'm a bit confused. Was there a prototype? There was one getting started,
00:14:31.160but then someone within the company found out that they were illegally selling the ideas to China
00:14:36.640so my idea was china's hot 2012 selling sex toy so then i abandoned it and and all the sex toys
00:14:45.820started did you um have a patent for your patent pending yes still pending no it was pending it was0.94
00:14:54.640pending so there's this grand conspiracy that these chinese sex toy manufacturers stole your
00:15:03.700Oh, no, they did, and I had, like, me and eight other people had to sue the bond to the company, and then they went to prison.
00:34:36.860I have an associate's degree and I'm a live streamer. I like to play video games. Where are you from? New York. And you have an associate's degree in what? Liberal arts. All right. And you're a live streamer? Yes. And you do something else too? What's that? Just that. You don't do OF? I do, but not really so much anymore. I don't really want to do that anymore. Oh, you want to stop doing it? How long have you been doing it?
00:35:02.620maybe like two or three years a little closer to the mic like two years
00:35:10.500two years two years all right and she wants to stop it
00:35:17.760yeah all right um what what's oh i can't believe i'm blanking on the word uh
00:35:24.840what what's the word in poker where you check ante up what up the ante
00:39:34.520Yeah, inner alchemy, the process of transforming heavier energies, so heavier emotions, negative emotions, negative thoughts, limiting thought patterns.
00:39:46.140limiting relationship patterns into more empowering, enjoyable, fulfilling
00:39:54.760emotions, thoughts, and life experiences.
00:40:02.100And you're an authenticity and intimacy coach for men. Okay. Wait, you're, and you're working
00:40:07.680on a PhD. Is that correct? That's correct. So you, do you have your master's? So as part of
00:40:13.460the PhD track. I am working on a master's. I started a different master's degree a few years
00:40:19.920ago. The program ended up being, I'll say too woke for me, too progressive. And so currently
00:40:29.980don't have a master's. I have a BS in psychology. Okay. BS in psychology. And then what's your
00:40:35.880master's and phd going to be in natural medicine natural medicine natural medicine
00:40:43.000what is that like homeopathy or whatever including homeopathy tapping into the
00:40:50.440natural resources of the body the endogenous pharmacy to um change the epigenetic expression
00:40:57.660of our genome um to change our physiology at will through practices like breath work and
01:18:28.700Well, look, I mean, so it really boils down to someone's biology.1.00
01:18:32.580So if this person in this hypothetical is indeed female, now you're basically creating a scenario where it's like you have to pick among two bad options.0.82
01:18:43.200Like, for example, would you rather – now, you might be able to get around this one way or the other.0.68
01:19:30.980In actuality, there's billions of biological women who are not trans, and I would just pick a woman who is biologically female, who is cute and doesn't look like Hulk Hogan.
01:19:48.380So, I don't know if that answers your question.0.86
01:19:54.040But, I mean, that is a somewhat interesting angle.1.00
01:19:57.500So you're saying, okay, this, this trans woman looks exactly like Megan Fox and it's just for oral sex.1.00
01:20:05.920Like I can, I can somewhat see your argument there.1.00
01:20:08.940However, if it's biologically a male, that's a homosexual act and I'm not homosexual.1.00
01:20:15.900So, and you know what, it's got a pussy, right?1.00
01:20:19.600So it, I guess if it's Tolkogan, it's an it.1.00
01:20:22.680But if he never told you, or she never told you he was a he, and sucked your cock, and later you found out it was a he.0.99
01:20:32.240Sorry, so you're saying trans Megan Fox, or trans woman who looks like Megan Fox, doesn't disclose that she's trans, which I think probably should be a crime or something.1.00
01:20:48.500But whether or not it should be a crime is another conversation.0.98
01:20:52.380So you would become forced gay, right?0.97
01:20:54.760No. So if somebody has deceived you, if you've been deceived, you haven't willfully engaged in a homosexual act, I would say, because you were deceived.0.90
01:21:08.300But you did willingly engage. You only learned about the deceivement after.0.90
01:21:13.260but hold on you were under the impression either through deception or omission or through lies
01:21:20.000that this person is a biological is a female right so you're saying they deceived you they0.98
01:21:26.040lied to you so going in you assumed that this person and you're saying it was just oral sex1.00
01:21:31.220right yeah right so you didn't discover the penis i guess i don't fucking know0.99
01:21:36.420so is it plausible a man could be deceived in this way yes has it happened yes um this0.99
01:21:43.240wouldn't so you could this wouldn't mean that the man is a homosexual who engaged in that act
01:21:50.160you you could argue that the act that was committed it was homosexual because two men were having sex0.88
01:21:59.080with each other or one man was receiving oral sex from what was indeed a male however we wouldn't0.97
01:22:06.140categorize the deceived receptive man as a homosexual yeah so um from his perspective0.98
01:22:17.020at the time of occurrence his perception would be this is a hetero this is a heterosexual act
01:22:24.220but that's only through deception right so and i think there could i don't know if there's any
01:22:29.900laws pertaining to that but it's certainly immoral and unethical to uh withhold something like that
01:22:36.120go ahead let me point out something sure so um so basically with what you said earlier is that
01:22:43.800just because hal kogan had a v that's a woman right
01:22:47.260i'm gonna take it step by step you'll see where i'm going so is that correct yes or no it's a
01:22:54.360little hard for me just with your accent so yeah so just because the hypothetical hal kogan earlier0.93
01:22:59.620had a vagina that's a woman right i'm gonna step it i'm gonna take it well i'm we're also0.98
01:25:25.020You use the word heterosexual. So heterosexual, homosexual, this relates to opposite or same sex attraction, not opposite gender, same gender attraction. When we use homosexual, heterosexual, that's the sex you're attracted to.
01:25:42.380So even if I grant that you can change your gender, you cannot change your sex.0.91
01:25:47.360So at the end of the day, whether you transition, if you're a trans woman, you're still biologically male if you're a trans woman.0.83
01:26:00.240Whenever two males have sex, regardless of their gender identity, that is a homosexual act.0.71
01:26:05.980When a biological male and a biological female have sex, that's a heterosexual act.0.51
01:26:14.300Do you have a disagreement, or are you raising your hand?
01:28:30.760And we can see that based on, as I said, the examples I said earlier, it could be a combination of chromosome, it could be a combination of, like, genitals, it could be a lot of presentation, it could be a lot of things.
01:29:27.580Would you agree, then, that the word woman and, by extension, the word man are essentially obsolete because there is no objective definition for them, which is the point of words, is to have objective definitions that we can agree on through common language and understanding?
01:29:47.880I wouldn't say they're obsolete because when you say man or woman, you do have something in your mind, right?
01:29:52.800But it's not able to be communicated across the community if we don't all have an agreement on, at least fundamentally, what that means.
01:39:03.020How do you make sense of, in your worldview, that you have never and will never go through the sex-based development of a female that happens from utero?
01:39:15.060Happens from when we were in our mother's wounds.
01:39:17.660we were experiencing sex specific development and you will never go through that and you don't have
01:39:24.000any capacity to change that well in that case the only thing that changes that is puberty0.92
01:39:30.440so as you may notice that there are sex specific changes that start in yeah having a vagina having0.74
01:39:37.100the uterus does it hormonally physiologically that are specific to females and to males
01:39:43.040Physiologically, which are caused by hormones, right?
01:39:47.400Yes, and you can change what your past development was to some degree going forward,
01:39:55.140but you can never go back and have a different development.
01:39:59.240Yeah, the development happens during puberty.
01:47:30.340But it stemmed from, I'm not even sure really what kicked it off, but I was asking orientation.
01:47:36.700And you were saying that you date men, you date women, and I think you were asking me, or I don't know exactly who initiated the convo,
01:47:45.080but I think my initial position, well, sorry, it's not that I think, I was saying that my position would be a trans woman who's dating a man,
01:47:55.660i would categorize that as as gay not straight as homosexual and so when we agree to disagree
01:48:03.300let's go fair i mean if you want but but i mean i i don't know if we can actually disagree agree
01:48:11.440to disagree because here's why so when we use the word heterosexual and homosexual like i was saying
01:48:17.120that refers not to, it's not heterogender or whatever. It's not homogender. It's heterosexual.
01:48:25.800So when we're using the word sexual, that relates to one's sex-based attraction. So we're not
01:48:32.000talking, uh, gender identity. We're literally talking about, uh, opposite sex attraction for
01:48:39.140homosexuality and same sec or hold on. No, no, no. I got the, I got that backwards. Sorry.0.84
01:48:44.400opposite sex attraction would be heterosexuality0.97
01:48:47.700same sex attraction would be homosexuality0.52
01:52:59.520If this person is biologically male and has a penis, regardless of the level of deception that they can do through surgery and makeup or whatever, I don't care.0.98
01:53:10.240I'm not going to be involved with somebody who's a male.0.89
01:53:13.940And I think, like, it's almost, if I can actually reverse this on you a bit.
01:53:18.960It's a little, the vibe it's giving is a little bit like you're not willing to respect people's sexual boundaries because I don't want to be romantically or sexually involved with someone who's like super passing, but they have a cock.0.97
01:53:38.060It's like a bit of a, it's a bit grapey, it's a bit of pressure.0.94
01:53:43.060You're going away from the point and you're putting words in my mouth that I never said.
02:05:42.780If there are no studies that suggest that, you know what, they have, like, this biological advantage, even though they started puberty before the puberty, then sure.
02:05:53.140Paul Cutt-Dremin underscore three donated $100.0.72
02:05:57.320This person does not at all accurately represent trans people.0.90
02:25:10.280I feel like if you're having a little baby and you're breastfeeding it, I feel like it's more important as a mother to be there for your kid.
02:26:04.820no but i'm a girl's girl can you tilt your mic down a bit feminist no no okay by the way and so
02:26:11.520i gave you i think my one definition my second definition would be women's advocacy plus male
02:26:18.800hatred that's really what i think so so my chair my nice definition of feminism is just women's
02:26:25.520advocacy what i think feminism actually is it's women's advocacy plus let's demonize men
02:26:35.160that's the extreme i was talking about yeah i think that's a very small portion it's not a small0.95
02:26:42.000portion but go ahead make your argument make your argument i would say like the feminism that gets1.00
02:26:48.280clicks on something like online or whatever at the end of the day feminism is about empowering
02:26:53.520women and supporting women and i think everyone's kind of looking at it from specifically like from
02:26:59.180a u.s standpoint i think it's really important that as a u.s we have feminism and you might say
02:27:06.000like oh we have same rights or whatever but a lot of other countries don't and we might have the
02:27:11.900resources that we can provide and so like having like women in countries that have more resources1.00
02:27:20.920or whatever is so important and that's why i think feminism is so important here and we shouldn't0.99
02:27:25.840dismiss it because not everyone is equal there is like genital mutilation in other countries1.00
02:27:31.240but there's well hold a couple things we have we have genital mutilation here in the united states
02:27:37.480in the west not towards women towards men it's called circumcision right um but we we don't have
02:27:47.100to have a circumcision debate but i i mean i'm a bit confused so i understand that in
02:27:52.340schwifty donated one hundred dollars if these fights had kids they would kill them
02:27:59.840anyway lab you're safe thank you for the tts schwifty um so where was i uh1.00
02:28:07.820so you're saying in these other countries uh okay well the women have less rights there
02:28:13.920but that's sort of ignoring much of the feminist advocacy that still takes place in western
02:28:20.320countries and the united states so to say that feminism is just well okay well you might say1.00
02:28:26.820that we're equal here in the usa but what about like africa or whatever or the middle east0.98
02:28:31.720even if what you're saying is true that women are lacking in certain rights in these other1.00
02:28:36.480countries that that doesn't dismiss that there's plenty of feminist advocacy that still goes on0.91
02:28:43.200here in the united states and like feminist ideology doesn't necessarily even relate0.99
02:28:49.600well it can relate to these other countries but it still relates very much here to the united
02:28:56.740states too from my own experience i really don't think that feminism is this like extremist thing
02:29:03.380that i think a lot of people view it as i think it's boils down to like protecting women empowering0.85
02:29:12.240women and so let's explore that though protecting women from what just advocating for them but you
02:29:20.200said protecting so what do you mean protecting how well for example i think feminism can go1.00
02:29:27.040into like pro-choice you're protecting their right to do what they want with their bodies1.00
02:29:32.940okay um and then you said protecting and then empowering right yeah uh empower women how
02:29:40.760Well, saying that it is okay to have a good education and you should try to have a good career and your role isn't just to be a wife and mother and have kids.
02:29:55.700But, I mean, that is the current propaganda that women have been fed for two, three, four, five decades.
02:30:03.020i wouldn't use the term propaganda and i also don't think it is well i feel can i ask you a
02:30:10.820question is it propaganda from your perspective as a feminist to tell women that they should0.71
02:30:17.760that their duties as say a mother as a wife and in the household supersede that of her0.99
02:30:25.360modern career ambitions no i don't think so wouldn't you couldn't you say that being a wife
02:30:34.360and mother or whatever could be a sense of propaganda from the beginning because men
02:30:40.760started this country and that's kind of been their role like you couldn't if like
02:30:46.840your husband beat you you can't divorce him a long long long time ago like through history so
02:30:54.080what i'm trying to say is yeah but what does that have to do a husband could still beat you even if
02:31:00.300you're a boss babe so i'm i mean i'm not sure what that has to do with you're saying that women
02:31:07.020need to be empowered so that they go get educated and prioritize their career
02:31:11.700over starting a family and having kids i'm not saying that they should prioritize it i'm saying
02:31:16.400it should be a choice an option yeah it already is it is an option it is it is an option but i
02:31:21.980feel like there's still like, like women are looked down on if you don't have a kid.
02:31:27.540I actually think it's the reverse. So I think that in society, almost wholesale, you have a
02:31:35.880bunch of, and you might not like the categorization of it as propaganda, but there's a huge push
02:31:42.040starting at a very early age, get an education, get a career, focus on career, then family and
02:31:50.020kids and husbands that can come later. Um, and I actually think it's the women who perhaps when1.00
02:31:58.000they're younger, uh, you know, say 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, whatever, that if that woman who's 18,0.99
02:32:06.34019, 20, 21, 22, she's like, you know, maybe she graduates college, you know, don't really want to0.99
02:32:13.960do the career thing. Kind of just want to find a husband, start having kids. I actually, and0.98
02:32:19.920And she's just like, don't really want to work.
02:32:22.020I'm just going to find a guy who's a breadwinner and he's successful and I want to have kids and stay home.
02:32:28.360I actually think there's a greater social stigma directed towards that woman than the woman who's like, I'm going to be a boss babe and I'm going to do my career.
02:32:38.120like is that in your own experience do you think like among your peer group is it yeah college0.57
02:32:46.220career or is it yeah find a husband have kids like what is the bigger motivation for women your age
02:32:54.980I mean I feel like my peer group specifically people I've been surrounded by I grew up in
02:33:00.780the Bay Area and it's very academically focused everyone's very driven to have these
02:33:06.300crazy careers or whatever one sec darius underscore monk donated 100 why should women have the same0.51
02:33:15.120rights as men when it's clear from this panel of women that they don't want the same responsibilities0.87
02:33:20.540question to panel name one duty women have to society today uh we'll go around on that and
02:33:27.980then we'll come back to our thing uh name one duty women have to society today i mean like1.00
02:33:34.400there's obviously a lot of duties that a woman
02:33:36.640can have that's really good but I feel
02:33:38.600like the main duty that is like I know it's like
02:33:40.560a lot of you guys may be bad at me right now but like try to understand
02:44:47.900But so is it possible to advocate for women without creating this ideological framework that is like some gender grievance frame and lens by which to view pretty much everything?0.93
02:45:01.160Which basically says, hey, men are to blame for everything.
02:45:06.080Men oppressed women, everything wrong in the world can basically be put to blame towards men, at men.
02:45:15.100So patriarchy is essentially saying that.1.00
02:45:17.900that's what patriarchy is i don't think that like feminists are actively trying to like okay like0.98
02:45:25.000work but so so he's saying you know like in the patriarchy or the hierarchy you know between0.93
02:45:31.760religion and authority and how it's played into society today how it's affecting women
02:45:39.520yeah i like i just genuinely i don't think that like feminism it like stems with like
02:45:46.900hatred for men or the patriarchy but i can explain it so um you you do agree that there's a patriarchy
02:45:54.380right okay and so the patriarchy is men right okay and the patriarchy is an oppressive system
02:46:04.600to women to women so as a group are women oppressed under the patriarchy
02:46:11.620yes okay so what is the other what is the group that is oppressing women i understand that but
02:46:19.680but answer the question what is the group that is oppressing women men right so this is a super
02:46:26.560naive and simplistic perspective of you know historical uh you know history and also just
02:46:33.560the current relationship between uh men and women and power structures in society they just want to
02:46:39.180say well it's just men um and so if you just say men are the oppressor group it's basically
02:46:44.820communism it's basically um class it's marxism it's class i know this is going to go over some0.98
02:46:51.700of your heads it's marxism it's class struggle but what feminists have done is feminists have0.99
02:46:57.760stolen marxism and so instead of like the the struggle between the bourgeoisie and the1.00
02:47:04.380proletariat, you have the struggle between men and women. And so women need to overcome. Women0.73
02:47:11.160need to free themselves from the oppressive grasp of men. And so you typically don't have1.00
02:47:18.000positive sentiment towards the oppressor group, which from a feminist lens is men. That's
02:47:24.480patriarchy theory. So you're teaching women men bad. It's a demonization. It demonizes men
02:47:32.920in inherently in the ideology simple as so what letter response
02:47:40.340i understand like i understand where you're coming from i think the basis of like i don't
02:47:50.520think feminism is meant to be man-hating it's supposed to be focused on women at the end of
02:47:56.380the day it's not like oh we hate men like we're gonna do all these things despite them or whatever
02:48:02.700It's just about, like, having our own rights and having, like, our own freedoms and stuff.
02:48:09.540But so when you start telling people, oftentimes people who are not intelligent enough, and I'm not just like this is, again, this applies to both men and women.
02:48:20.200When you start telling people who are not intelligent enough to actually investigate these things and who may be very young and don't have a full grasp of history and the world and they're just low IQ, you've created a boogeyman for them.
02:48:37.920And it's very easy to fall into hatred when you say, you know what, men commit crimes at higher rates and then men do all these bad things.
02:48:49.640And many feminist statistics are completely, the methodology for a lot of statistics you hear from feminists as it relates to SA, as it relates to violence, are completely exaggerated, if not even fabricated.
02:49:03.860And so when you start telling women, not just like men are oppressors, but hold on, men are violent, men are your threats, men are rapists, et cetera, et cetera.
02:52:01.780So so you might say that abortion rights is a unique right that women could possess because women are the only ones that can get pregnant.
02:52:10.940However, when we're talking about equal rights, implied in a conversation about equal rights would be to say that men have, as it relates to gender anyways, men have a right that a woman doesn't.
02:52:26.100But in this case, men can't get pregnant, and so men can't have abortion rights.
02:52:31.340And so, arguably, to create a sort of technical form of equality, if men have no abortion rights, you would arguably have to say women get no abortion rights.
02:52:42.900And that creates a form of equality between men and women in terms of the phrasing equal rights.
02:52:49.920Or the other way around to where the man can have a choice for the lady to have the baby or not.
02:52:56.620Cause I mean, people on either side of the political aisle are going to have objections1.00
02:53:02.540to men having a say either to in, okay, she wants to keep the kid.1.00
02:53:08.980The man can be like, nah, you got to get an abortion.
02:53:11.920So people are on one side, the aisle are going to, well, actually I think both sides are
02:53:15.920going to be like, not like pro-choice and pro-life.
02:53:18.800They're both going to be like, no, that's wrong.
02:53:21.220Men should not have a say in either, even if you're pro-choice.1.00
02:53:24.280right um so we could do equity in this case not equality so if a woman wants to keep the kid0.92
02:53:31.720then and she's say in a country where you're allowed to have an abortion or a state you're
02:53:37.640allowed to have an abortion the man can be like i'm not going to pay child support
02:53:41.380so he could okay you can't have an abortion you can't force her to do anything but you can be
02:53:47.400like look i want a paper abortion i don't want to pay for child support you want to keep the kid1.00
02:53:52.900I thought it was just a hookup at the fucking FISIG frat house or whatever the fuck people are doing.1.00
02:54:01.780You know, you're just a one-night stand.1.00
02:56:08.000So the man should have a choice to be like0.99
02:56:09.520In the same way the woman wants an abortion1.00
02:56:12.700She doesn't want to spend money on the kid
02:56:15.080or whatever the man's like i don't spend money on the kid uh i'm not gonna pay you child support
02:56:19.060and the man should have that that uh right to do that go ahead i think they already have a choice
02:56:25.260they can either not use protection or have a vasectomy well this would if they don't want to
02:56:30.380have you would have to apply the same logic to abortion for women either be abstinent don't have
02:56:35.960sex beyond birth control but if you get r-worded i mean there is exceptions you know well you know
02:56:41.180It's actually funny when there are instances where a woman does, I don't know if you even think that men can be essayed in that way, where men are essayed by a woman and get pregnant.
02:56:56.500There's instances where a teacher, oftentimes this will be more statutory rape, where like an older woman is preying on like a, she's a teacher preying on the student.0.66
02:57:05.380There's also instances where women will go fish the condom out of the trash bin and inseminate themselves, too.
02:57:14.820So with a rape one, even a boy who's, say, the victim of an older teacher, and he's 15, 16,
02:57:27.860and they get the woman—I wouldn't frame it as they get the woman pregnant.
02:57:32.640She got pregnant through the victimization of this boy.
02:57:37.200They forced that boy to pay child support.0.98
03:13:57.180When countries at war, they usually try to attack, like, you know, central areas or, like, get, you know, the country where it hurts, which is, like, their society and their system.
03:14:09.940So, like, I can't remember where it was specifically, but I think there was a country in the Middle East, and they dropped, like, soccer balls, or it looked like soccer balls, and there were bombs.
03:14:24.860and so kids would pick them up and it would explode wait let me google this soccer balls
03:14:30.900bombs middle east i believe so or the geography doesn't matter soccer balls and hospitals yeah
03:14:37.480like children and just like families and why do you think they did that check brian because
03:14:44.760if you attack like their society and like if you attack like their military base it's like okay but0.99
03:14:51.440like if you're attacking their people it's like it's like a big like fuck you betty um hold on0.99
03:14:58.280and also like reproducing and things like that yeah i got you0.99
03:15:02.380in late 2025 reports and viral images emerged in southern lebanon suspected unexploded custer
03:15:14.120bomblets shaped precisely like footballs yeah um security forces in southern israel discovered a
03:15:23.880soccer ball rigged with explosives this is in 2020 though i don't know um but wait so okay
03:15:31.040women are just or women are the primary victims of war so how i would say there's also like a lot
03:15:38.420of rape in war i don't know so i'm sure that happens yeah i can't like tell you like the
03:15:44.120exact statistics or anything okay um and i'm not saying that men also like aren't um like don't
03:15:52.060suffer from war too i think they do as well i'm but women suffer more the keyword is primary so
03:15:57.940it means who's first who suffers the most and you said women yeah is that your is that your position
03:16:02.600i would say the countries that are affected i think the women suffer the most the women suffer
03:16:07.580the most in war okay um why because like they're targeted and women are targeted specifically
03:16:16.100they're non-combatants no i know but like there's if there's combat obviously the men are
03:16:22.640like fighting and hurting each other but i'm saying like if a country like makes an attack
03:16:28.300on their people that's where like i feel like like um so like i don't know they're taking out
03:16:38.080A majority of lives could be lost if they're like, you know, like destroying a city or something in comparison.
03:16:45.000Well, so typically if you're engaged in a military operation, your first goal, you're not first off like it's pretty much obviously civilians do get killed in military conflicts.
03:17:00.520But one, you're not you're not supposed to target civilians.
03:17:04.280And then secondly, in a military operation, you're trying to attack military targets.
03:17:11.580So you're going to be dealing with combatants.
03:17:58.280Do you think women are the primary victims of war?1.00
03:18:01.800So let's start here. In war, you're going to have pretty much, I don't want to say everyone, you could argue everyone, but women are going to be, they're going to suffer, they are going to be victims in certain ways.
03:18:18.760You're going to have children, boys and girls, who are going to be victims and suffer.
03:18:24.240But when we're talking about the primary victims of war, who's typically fighting the wars?0.68
03:18:33.060So, like, in a given war, let's assume that it depends on what the conflict is.
03:18:37.680If, say, 20 million men die and, like, 1 million female civilians die and, like, 50,000 of them get SA'd, who's, like, in terms of the sheer numbers, you have 20 million men dead, you have 1 million women dead.
03:19:00.580and then you have 50 000 essays um who would you say is the primary victim then i would agree with
03:19:08.340you and i'd say it's men yeah but that's that's all wars though essentially you're going to have
03:19:12.740like 99 of the military casualties are going to be men then you're going to have civilian casualties
03:19:19.860that will be women but it'll also be men too who are also civilians are going to be killed
03:19:25.060And then there's perhaps going to be some portion of women who may or indeed are S.A.D.
03:24:55.480Minimum, I just put $50,000, like minimum.
03:24:59.200Again, kind of like what she said, though, as long as they have, like, potential to grow and, you know, if they have goals to want to, you know, make more or whatever it is that they want to achieve, then, you know, I'm pretty open.
03:44:47.480Some guys are really hard-line about it.
03:44:50.080Like, they don't want to date a woman who has any sort of career.0.92
03:44:55.320It's not necessarily a deal-breaker, but a woman who's going to prioritize her career over the kids, over the family, over me, that's probably going to be an issue.1.00
03:45:05.780So you would rather her be a stay-at-home mom and take care of the kids while you...1.00
03:46:04.280are you dating anyone now don't worry about it yes i don't well so uh whether i was single or
03:46:10.160whether i was in a relationship i wouldn't disclose just because um because of the nature0.53
03:46:14.700of my my podcast and its uh controversial nature i deal with like stalkers and shit so
03:46:22.560if i was in a relationship i'd keep it very private but i just i i keep it vague because
03:46:27.780i got weirdos and stalkers and stuff so i don't want to give details one more question what's up
03:46:32.620Do you think that what you do and the controversy that you have when it comes to this podcast could possibly put the person that you're in a relationship with in danger?
03:46:42.780Like, is it dangerous to date you, Brian?
04:53:13.160If it's a joke of the death, like, straight up, then no.
04:53:16.040But if there was, like, a much more creative aspect to it or, like, some kind of element that makes it, like, wow, that's actually a very interesting costume or something, then, okay.
04:53:45.360You know, look, I guess, you know, she's Polish, you know, so, you know, they need the dark humor, you know, they've had a rough time throughout history, so I get it.1.00
04:53:56.280We can joke about Second World War, anything.1.00
05:13:00.360So I would date a 10, but I'm also pragmatic and realistic and think that I wouldn't realistically be able to land a girl who I think is a 10.
05:13:12.100Now, to be clear, if she was interested, I'm not going to pass her by.
05:13:17.380I would still show up in the same way as if I was dating, like, say, a girl who's more commensurate to my league, so to speak.
05:13:27.500So I wouldn't turn it down, but I'm also just realistic
05:18:17.900I have appreciated your questions tonight, though, so thank you.
05:18:20.360So, okay, my question is, if you dated and ate and she dated you solely based off of your bank account, would you marry her and have kids if she seemed like a good option for you, even though you knew she didn't, like, love you for you?
05:50:35.460making for real so that's what builds a connection so to get us in a movie i agree exactly you gotta
05:50:40.820have that yeah foreplay okay it's a give and take thank you can't rush into it and i will leave your0.91
05:50:47.060ass if i'm not satisfied yeah that's just as important as mental emotional you know out of0.99
05:50:54.600there i've had it the other way too where it's just like i was in a relationship and i didn't
05:51:00.520want to like really like I don't know we just weren't having as much sex as I wanted and like
05:51:04.600I didn't want to I was just like I think it's time we ended the relationship like the
05:51:08.640the attraction it just kind of faded maybe it was like that first hit dopamine or something
05:51:13.260but it just was like post nut clarity for girls I have no idea but it
05:51:16.620post nut clarity that's what else you got Brian oh I got I got a couple more things on the
05:51:27.180questionnaire then i got all your all of your pre-show notes for everybody i mean i uh you
05:51:32.520know i think that i agree you gotta the woman has to come first that's my philosophy here we0.65
05:51:39.560let's go preferably multiple times some women are able to we're learning about brian you can go brian
05:51:50.920look he's a pleaser so proud of him oh boy all right uh as soon as uh gabriella returns i got
05:52:01.740a question for all of you but uh for let's see hold on isabella you got some something interesting
05:52:08.300here uh actually we'll do that yeah okay wrong for a high body count man to prefer to date a
05:52:14.500low body count woman or a virgin even uh why why do you agree with that um i just think like
05:52:23.480there should be no difference between like a man and a woman's like how you view someone
05:52:31.600and their body count between like a man and a woman i just think it's we're just people people
05:52:37.700have sex you can date if you like prefer someone with a low body count i think that's fine but
05:52:43.120specifically it being like a man with a high body count and a woman with a low body count0.72
05:52:47.640i think it's just like kind of unfair to be like okay well i want you to you know be like
05:52:53.980like a prude or like virgin or whatever but like i can do whatever i want i agree
05:53:00.740if age isn't so age isn't to it then that's different yeah i guess i mean it could go0.96
05:53:08.280So it could be a man who's 25 who's – he was a fuckboy, is a fuckboy, 100-plus body count, dating a 25-year-old woman who's been with, like, one guy, and he – or she's a virgin even, and he's like, I prefer the low body count of a virgin woman, same age.
05:53:25.200Or there could also be an age gap, too.0.84
07:00:44.800If it was, it would be just you and me laying in your bed thinking about how she lays on your chest and hears your heartbeat just like I did first.
07:53:22.600So you can be forgiven from sin, but to be a Christian means like if you're just actively basking in sin, that's very much unchristian-like.0.92
07:53:37.660It's not that like, well, because to steel man your position, if I have it correctly, so you are stripper, you acknowledge that stripping is not, it's not in line with Christianity, right? It's you acknowledge some women would say there's nothing I'm a Christian and there's nothing wrong with it. You say there is something wrong with it, but I do it anyways, which may or may not be worse.
07:54:01.800but um you cannot knowingly sin as you should not knowingly sin as a christian so there's like a
07:54:11.220repeated pattern of behavior here like what does jesus say go and sin no more right okay repent
07:54:18.000right so you say we're all we're all sinners we're all sinners but you know it's wrong right
07:57:05.140And so, like I said, like, dancing is the next thing on the list to cross out, to stop doing.
07:57:12.020But again, like, and you're right, he doesn't look at the mortgage and things like that.
07:57:16.540But, you know, in the Bible, like, Jesus hung out with people who were totally away from him.0.56
07:57:23.960And, like, Paul, who killed Christians.
07:57:27.100So, like, and he was very close with him.
07:57:29.540And he, you know, conformed in whatever you want to call it.
07:57:32.940So it's just like, you know, I definitely feel conviction on it.
07:57:37.860And like I said, I don't make it who I am.
07:57:41.060Like, if you go on my Instagram and go on things, I'm not, like, parading it and teaching young women how to get into it and do it, you know, so.
07:57:49.020Well, so you said that Jesus spent time with sinners, but he called sinners to repentance.
08:12:59.400You said you like to speak on hookup culture.
08:13:02.180especially in college towns that's what you wrote yeah oh yeah um i don't know i feel like santa
08:13:07.800barbara it's a very interesting experience i don't know what it's like in other college towns
08:13:13.180but i feel like it's super super normalized here like very very normal like high body count is just
08:13:19.260like not seen as like a big deal so i think that's also why i'm like just trying to get used to like
08:13:25.360i guess adult like grown grown adults perspectives on body counts and what is seen as normal and
08:13:32.540what is seen as a lot or little because i feel like my view of it is skewed living here with
08:13:39.240my peers i don't know if that makes sense so is hookup culture bad or good or don't care i honestly
08:13:45.480like i don't i don't think body count is really that bad at all like i don't i don't think like
08:13:51.100your number should matter at all but that's just also me like i don't know i i don't really care
08:13:57.100if someone has like a hundred or if they had like two i think it doesn't change like who you are as
08:14:01.820a person it wouldn't bother you no you're bisexual yeah yeah okay so you'd be like it wouldn't change0.99
08:14:07.680anything if the girl had a body count of a hundred no like on some bonnie blue shit um okay um0.99
08:14:16.300what about like the increased likelihood of stds for example well that is definitely a factor i0.68
08:14:22.620would want to make sure they were like tested recently or there were like protection or
08:14:27.760something like that but i don't think body count really matters okay you say you have frustrations
08:14:32.840could be balancing individualism and you being your own person while also being in a committed
08:14:38.140relationship you feel like with some guys it's difficult to find a balance between being a unit
08:14:43.160and also being individual can you elaborate just a little bit i think in specifically my
08:14:50.160past relationships i've had difficulties with my partner um being like their own individual person
08:14:56.760i've had a lot of like love bombing in the past so i think like that's just specifically with
08:15:03.460dating that's something that i try to avoid as much as possible and it has turned me less secure
08:15:09.200and became like more avoidant in relationships unfortunately um but yeah i think like one of
08:15:17.380my biggest things in relationships is like hey you can be your own person you can have your own
08:15:22.420friends we can also be friends too and we can like date but like we need to have our own separate
08:15:28.040lives so we can make up each other rather than like complete each other just like an addition
08:15:34.680Okay. Going back to you here, first section now, you said ick is when the guy's controlling. What does that mean, though, controlling? Or what are the things that you would consider controlling?
08:15:51.020um basically trying to um like I dated a guy in the past that didn't like that I was like so close
08:16:00.260with my family so I spent a lot of time with my family and just like why are you going over there
08:16:07.140again like you know why why do you things like that um that's really the only experience that
08:16:13.860I've had with like a controlling guy basically just not wanting me to spend as much time with
08:16:18.740my family and friends so that would that's my only example that I have and I was like
08:16:25.040what about a guy would you consider controlling I guess we could have the other women answer this1.00
08:16:30.080here would it be controlling if a guy didn't want you to go out to bars or nightclubs is that0.71
08:16:37.460controlling no thoughts um a little controlling I don't know it depends on the type of relationship
08:16:46.260you have um depends on like who you're going out with and also like how much you trust each other
08:16:52.480and how long you've been together I don't know okay I don't think that's controlling I've dated
08:16:59.480someone that was controlling and pretty similar to what the girls were saying he would start
08:17:06.780manipulating me in a way that I would stop talking to my friends and my family he would just basically
08:17:14.420want to separate me from everyone so he would be my whole world and that did not turn out okay so
08:17:21.960i agree that we should always keep our lives and keep the people around us never led okay
08:17:30.800yeah never let them all right uh we got some notes from vlad
08:17:36.040are we gonna get the high pitch voice or the low voice after you0.71
08:17:41.500all right so you said that uh you feel like women nowadays feel like they deserve guys out of their1.00
08:17:49.600league like they don't make any money and look for a boss multi-millionaire they don't work on
08:17:54.260their body and they expect men to look like chris hemsworth you feel like social media created many1.00
08:17:59.920delusional women that expect the guy to do absolutely everything while being handsome
08:18:04.120strong funny charismatic and the list goes on obviously this doesn't apply to everyone
08:18:08.740but if we would go purely on statistics it applies to many um so i don't know if you want
08:18:16.640to elaborate but then you also heard from some women tonight who want in terms of the guy's
08:18:21.920income uh pretty exceptionally high-earning men so i don't know if you wanted to dive into that
08:30:38.280And the fucking next day, she's going to be like, Hey, um, it was, I had such a great night with you, but you know, I just didn't feel the spark and, uh, you know, you're such a great guy and, you know, some girl's going to be really lucky to have you.1.00
08:30:58.060but you know um i just didn't feel the connection meanwhile after the date she goes and fucks the0.98
08:31:06.940guy who never had to do any of that shit to begin with that's not true you're assuming the worst1.00
08:31:15.940it does happen it definitely happens so there's two types of girls one that would appreciate it0.98
08:31:25.440and we'll be like, oh my gosh, I'm calling my girlfriend1.00
09:08:53.260So it's justified because they're stupid.1.00
09:08:55.560So we should just be able to, like, elderly people, we should be able to take advantage of them because they're not, like, smart enough to see the scam.1.00
09:11:06.680But it's transactional, so they're paying for their nut or whatever fantasy that they want.1.00
09:11:10.760So when they sign up and they pay for that subscription and they talk to whatever robot, whatever picture is on that, they believe that that's who they're talking to and they get their little nut or satisfaction, that's what they're paying for.
09:11:25.120But also, this is kind of like victim blaming a little bit.
09:11:28.680Look, I don't think OnlyFans girls being like, you're talking to me and it's actually an AI robot or some dude in Thailand.
09:11:34.720Who has time to talk to 5,000 men?0.91
09:11:40.760I don't know, but if you're saying that it's you speaking, that's a lie, and that's fraudulent.
09:11:46.520So regardless of, like, what you think the men should reasonably be able to decipher, like, a lot of men are naive, especially if they're new to the platform.
09:11:54.920They don't know these girls have, like, managers typing for them or some AI robot typing for them.
09:21:36.480In this day and age, with social media,
09:21:38.280I think we make it seem like it's easy money.0.96
09:21:41.860And I don't want young women to get into that for the money.0.92
09:21:46.180I think I find it admirable to say no0.78
09:21:49.740and to save yourself for your future husband.
09:21:52.340Well, yes, because the temptation of making a lot of money, especially at a young age, making more money that you could otherwise make by having a typical job or, you know, whatever, whatever it is, it is admirable to turn it down.
09:25:12.940I just think that if you want a traditional man, as a woman, you accept the traditional expectations accompanied with being a traditional woman.
09:25:26.560And, look, I hope Gianna finds a great guy and treats her well.
09:25:30.760But, like, if you ask me, does she deserve chivalry, I'd say no.
09:25:34.080The point of the matter is there's multiple different types of traditions, just like religions and other type of, you know.
09:25:40.780so like maybe your tradition isn't her tradition so we're saying like she's a traditional woman
09:25:45.080you just said traditional is like subjective okay but you just said traditional is like
09:25:49.800two people waiting until marriage both virgins blah blah but like another tradition would be
09:25:54.680okay we date we have sex and i'm only talking to you like there's different types of traditions
09:25:59.960but hold on in no understanding of the of traditional0.99
09:26:06.120hole does that ever include selling pictures of your butthole on only fans for 4.99 i'm saying0.95
09:26:15.320i'm just saying like there's a threshold that gets crossed right so okay fine can somebody0.99
09:26:20.440still be traditional but you know they're monogamous and they have premarital sex i i
09:26:27.880think yes now some people might even disagree with me there like people who are certain more
09:26:33.300orthodox christians they're kind of gonna be like no you gotta wait until marriage
09:26:37.620catholics etc not so sure about those like protestants and non-denominational christians1.00
09:26:44.240but you know whatever come on you fuck before marriage right come on yeah i've had six before1.00
09:26:51.180marriage yeah yeah definitely um okay let's blast through these gianna you agree with a lot of the1.00
09:26:56.940stuff brian says but some girls that are guests on the podcast have outrageous takes
09:27:01.9001.5 million okay uh that you would love to talk about because i'm not afraid to speak your speak
09:27:08.100your mind gianna i mean speak your mind i i mean i did i feel like i deserve closer i'm sorry i
09:27:13.740feel like i deserve like to be treated like a lady just because of what i do you're not a lady0.98
09:27:20.880lady boy what is she then what is she she's a lady when i say lady she's a garbage because of0.98
09:27:59.180So the one that you may think is so wifey and da-da-da-da, that bitch really ain't shit.1.00
09:28:05.140But then you got a woman like Gianna, and we don't know why she got into it, her life story, her traumas, what the reason is behind it.1.00
09:28:13.780And sometimes God will allow you to walk those paths, like sex workers, drug dealers, murderers, trans, all that,
09:28:21.280because you can relate to people and you can actually help people with your story and with your testimony.
09:28:26.700So, everything, you know, happens for a reason, like, I think.
09:28:31.760I think your path is your path, and there's a reason why God is allowing you to take that path.