DEBATE w⧸ ALPHA Female： Should Men Marry？! DUMPED Because BØØBS TOO BIG？! BOTCHED？ ｜ Dating Talk 303
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In this episode, we're joined by Jill, Kat, and Harmony to talk about their experiences in the dating world, how they met, and what they do to keep up with the fast-paced world of social media and dating.
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platform Rumble at rumble.com slash whatever. Without further ado, we're going to have the
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guests introduce themselves starting with you. Go ahead. My name is Jill. I'm from Toronto,
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canada i do tick tock live and i'm also in school for marketing okay age 19 and what do you uh
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you're studying marketing where um you toronto at toronto you toronto university of toronto
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all right and uh what do you want to do with that um help people grow on social media
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I'm Kat. I'm 36. I'm from Orange County, California, and I'm a model slash content creator.
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Yeah, I graduated a long time ago. I have a business degree, business management degree.
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Okay. Got it. Going back to you, you said you're from Canada. Do you speak French?
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My name's Harmony. I just turned 24, and I am an OF creator.
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Really quick, going back to you as part of your introduction.
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um you are uh you were on botched the show yeah I was on botched I went to support uh one of my
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best friends okay so yeah I went for her and have you done any other reality tv or just like some
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other like little things yeah like yeah on tubi and stuff yeah and uh you're 36 when did you start
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getting plastic surgery um I would say probably when I was 19 when I just turned 19 do you by
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chance have before photos no I mean like 18 19 I probably do but not on me like not on your phone
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not on this like on your myspace or probably or like yeah photo bucket yeah okay and you're um
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You can say it however you want, but I technically like to pronounce it as Nguyen.
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But people call it like Nguyen, like W-I-N.
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And it's N-G-U-Y-E-N, the typical Vietnamese.
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Can you put on, like, you know, the Vietnamese nail salon accent?
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well maybe in the future that is definitely on my list uh we have on really quick we have
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honest flippers here donate 100 just supporting the show thank you man appreciate it um okay so
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you um i guess how do i frame this you you're vietnamese were you but you're born in the
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united states right i was born here born here yeah uh your parents from vietnam were also born here
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I mean, I think I can kind of tell you're Asian.
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People always think I'm mixed, like I'm part European or something.
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My grandma had kind of a little bit of blue eyes in her iris or whatever.
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My mom does too, but I didn't get those features.
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Can you list out really quick just all the procedures, surgeries you've had done?
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I've had, let's see, I've had, I recently had like a little, a mini facelift.
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Yeah, they were separate because the BBL failed.
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Have you ever gone down in size or always bigger?
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I had, uh, I had like body sculpting done a few years ago.
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Um, I had a hair transplant because I didn't like how my hairline was and best investment
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So I, I do recommend, especially for ladies, like if you're losing hair or I'm not losing
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And I had like little things like fillers, like Botox and lip filler.
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What's like the, is there an odd plastic surgery you've had done?
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Like have you, I don't know what like an odd one would be.
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Like have you had like your traps done or something?
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no or like your feet or something no i've never had calves do you have calf implants no you're
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asian you don't know those yeah no i always thought i had big calves but actually uh in hindsight
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asians are kind of gifted i know but in hindsight i don't know what it is but now that i'm older i
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feel like my calves are a lot smaller than i thought so i don't know what it is maybe it's
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because the other acids are bigger so you know but all right um okay well we'll come back to
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some of that stuff but uh let's have you introduce yourself hi um i'm annabella i'm 21 stay-at-home
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mom and i didn't even finish high school to be completely all right and uh where are you from
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where you live i'm from denver colorado and then i moved to missouri i think three four years ago
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now okay that's home base um i'm katie i'm from troy ohio i'm 33 and i'm a bartender
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all right uh college um i went to massage school massage school so you're uh what like a certified
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massage therapist and college for you i don't know if you did you okay no i didn't finish high
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school just okay got it what about you my name is fatima i'm from miami florida i'm 19 and i'm
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studying political science all right you're not canadian no because you're friends with her you
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guys came together right so how do you two know each other we went on tiktok we went on tiktok
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wait how did your microphone what happened with the microphone huh how did that happen what
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what okay can i have you put the microphone back where it was
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yeah that's where it should be all right no put it to the very edge of the table
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all right and then let me here tilt this down tilt that down
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the other direction did yeah but that's like pushing it down okay
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no down push it down that's what i did no down tilt towards you
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okay i'm sorry okay you guys met each other from tiktok yeah all right uh please leave the
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microphones where they are as already stated um okay so you're studying what again political
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science political science okay so uh and you're gonna be a junior or sophomore sophomore okay
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I'm going to do my master's, so like eight years.
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Okay, so you're going into your second year, is that correct?
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i'm 28 um i was born in new york and then we moved to florida nevada arizona alabama then
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back to new york and then we moved to california and then we moved i moved to
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oklahoma and texas and now i'm back here um and i'm a caregiver i also work for a corporate
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marketing company and i also um do monetize my facebook as well as um do only fans um
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I didn't know how many of all my jobs I was supposed to.
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I started because my friend was like, you should totally do it when it kind of started.
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And then I was like, I'm not telling anybody I do this because I'm a single mom.
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So I didn't ask, can you repeat back the question that I asked you?
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So I'm saying I started it years ago, but I didn't actually, like, put in effort was my point of, like, saying I created the account, like, in 2002 or 2022.
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But I didn't, like, start focusing on it until, like, a few months ago when someone asked if I had it.
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Have you done any other kind of sex work, stripping, escorting?
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Yes, I was a stripper, and I actually currently am a stripper.
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For about a year when I was here before, before I moved to Texas.
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I was doing multiple shows, bachelor parties, frat parties.
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but I started doing it again when I came back about a year ago. So three to four years. Yes.
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Any escorting? No. So exchanging sex for money? That's what was a no. I didn't know what escorting
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is. Next. Hello I'm Nars Smart. That's my stage name. I'm a comedian. I'm a coach. I'm also a
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Baker, a mom, a homeschool mom, and none of those make me any money, but I'm being supported, so
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shout out, hubby. Age? Oh, yeah, I'm 42, and I live in Los Angeles. All right, and can we have you pop
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your, the sunglasses off and just put it behind you? College, did you say? UCLA. In what? History
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in Armenian Studies, minored. I was trying to go to law school, but then we'll talk about it later.
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And you're from where? Originally Armenia. Born there. Born in Armenia. We migrated,
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immigrated in 1990 to Los Angeles, and I haven't left since. Are you a naturalized citizen? I am.
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Okay, got it. What about you? I'm Riley. I'm 23. I'm a stay-at-home wife, soon to be a stay-at-home
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mom um and i also manage my husband's social social media account tony the greaser and so
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you're pregnant currently i'm currently oh congratulations thank you very much and uh where
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are you from uh i'm from orange county all right any college or anything like that i have a little
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bit of college but i haven't finished okay got it all right that's everyone's introduction
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uh let's see here yeah i'm going to college too i just wasn't
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okay uh what are you studying um i'm gonna get my automotive mechanic certification
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all right also debating changing it to like painting because they make more
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all right and uh okay starting going back with you really quick before you get into
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everyone's relationship status um before we get into everyone's relationship status
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so going back to you um can you tell me your political orientation and then yes or no if
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you consider yourself a feminist um i would say i'm more of an independent i have views from pretty
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much both sides i would say i would say an equal amount so independent i guess uh did you vote in
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the last election no okay if you could go back and have voted in the last election who would you
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have voted for um at the time when it was during that time probably trump but like looking back
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on it now probably kamala why is that i don't know it's just because of all the stuff that
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came out about trump and i was how he's handling everything with iran and all that sure and the
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abstein files it's disgusting okay uh feminist yes or no yeah yes feminist yes okay what about
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you i would say i'm also a feminist so let's do the political question first okay are you
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left right where politics and then feminist honestly i i hate talking about politics i just
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feel like it's who did you vote for in the last election i actually did not vote i did not have
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you voted in so you're 36 have you voted in any previous elections uh yeah a long time ago like
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for obama yeah i did what about trump term one no i didn't i didn't vote for trump at all did
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you vote for who was it hillary that was no i think it was what hillary that in 2016 right
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yeah i didn't vote for her either i literally barely voted so you are you apolitical
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um i mean a little bit yes okay feminist yes or no yes feminist okay
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um i didn't vote in the in any election i don't want to um have any responsibility for what
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they do anybody does um and i would not say that i'm a feminist i'd say i'm based
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what does that mean um i've tried being a feminist before where it's like i'm like
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go girls go girls but i don't think they girls put in enough work and it feels like
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like holding up a ladder that it just is wobbling all over the place um but as far
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as your political leanings even though you don't vote do you lean in a political way
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no i think both sides are both sides suck yeah okay well what how about where do you fall on
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Like, I think that after maybe, like, 10 weeks, I don't think.
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But if you catch it really early on, I think you should have a choice.
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Against illegal immigration, should we deport illegal immigrants?
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can i skip or no well i think we should deport illegal immigrants if they've committed a crime
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i think that if they commit a vicious crime okay so if the r word murder okay but if
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okay so you're pro-illegal immigration then um and then you said you're more i don't know
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i said i was more independent um okay pro-choice pro-life pro-choice uh illegal immigration
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are you fine with it no so should we deport all illegal immigrants or most of them yeah okay
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uh i'm pro-choice open the door please go ahead what about you
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But I would consider myself more independent now.
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I don't, I kind of, I know personally I am pro-choice, like, for my own body, but I don't like to tell.
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You wouldn't pass laws preventing other women from getting abortions?
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I just don't really care about it, to be honest.
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I'm a lawyer, but I don't, like, talk about politics online for a reason.
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The whole reason I actually started asking this question is because you mentioned you were in political science.
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That is fair, though, because many people who are planning to go to law school will study.
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Yeah, I just don't want to speak about my opinion.
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They will study political science or philosophy or something like that.
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Okay, so you're not political. Are you a feminist?
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I think women bring us down on the daily, depending.
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A lot of women bring, like, that say, oh, let's go women, we're so good,
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and then they are the same ones that bring us down.
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is what basically they put us back here that's what you said not me
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wait sydney why is sydney sweeney bringing us down have you not seen everything i'm not gonna
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get into that then well let's get into it no i'm good well what is it recent or because i know
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there's some old stuff with like what was it the american eagle or one of those ads is that what
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you're referencing no what's the recent stuff that she's getting into maybe i'm unfamiliar
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You're going to be a terrible fucking lawyer.
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You just told me you're familiar with something.
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You said that you were aware of things that she was doing.
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so i'm asking you what are those like releasing her own body wash soap from the water that she
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bathes in and putting a hole in the middle of it was not familiar with this she's selling bath
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she's selling that put a hole in the middle of it for like men to buy it sydney sweeney it's called
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it's her she's selling bath water by dr squash dr squash released a limited edition men's soap
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called sydney's bathwater bliss it's not i don't think it's actual bathwater i think it's the scent
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of the probably her it's just the fact that she put a hole in it purposely is there a hole in it
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oh is there a hole in the middle of the bar for men to is that what that's not hold on
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i'm looking at images of it there there's a hole i don't see any images no i think when you buy it
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then you'll see it but i don't think she'll like actually put it online but i've seen videos of
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it and i wasn't like that okay so hold on tiffany private private tab private chat
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you hold your soap so it doesn't like slip and you have bigger problems if it slips
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all right let's pull this up you have it tiffany all right make it bigger please
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so this is i saw videos of it i'm going based off the videos yeah but is it possible
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like real sense yeah i didn't do much research when i saw the video i was just like that's
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really weird so just like everything you see on tiktok no i saw a few of them it just kept
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going and everyone was talking about it but i didn't i don't care enough to search it up okay
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but so sit you're saying sydney sweeney is an example of of how some women are bringing women
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down but this from the preliminary cursory research i've done on this seems to be fake
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you see you just literally saw tiktoks and just believed i i don't know can we even find the hole
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in the thing i don't know i'll google it i guess it's on tiktok you've seen it too i saw it i just
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didn't know if it was real or not uh i can try to find it i guess but um okay is there anything else
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you're not very enthusiastic about women's rights
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it's bullshit though but um okay so um what what was the you're you're a feminist you guess
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okay uh i guess we'll move it on next yes i i'm sorry i forgot the question what are your politics
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um yes or no are you a feminist um wouldn't put myself in the independent party because that's
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still a party i feel like politics isn't even a fucking party um but yeah when i majored in
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political science and minored in law um i was like so this is going like just yeah dead in the water
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i've done like women's rallies and stuff which i mean i kind of are you conservative moderate
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or liberal i'm a mix of them depending on like i don't feel like um people should be deported just
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for coming to the country and then like having their visa expire or some sort i feel like it's
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all situationally dependent and a lot of people don't analyze the actual facts and data of the
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whole situation what are the situations under which you believe somebody can be rightfully
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deported um if they commit a felony i guess there are people in our country who we have
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committing multiple felonies and hurting people and we still let them be in our country that's
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crazy in my opinion people used to get sent to australia because they were like get them the
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hell out of here in the united states were never sent to australia for people in the united states
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i'm saying for example right but so that's like a historical form of primarily england uh sending
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their convicts to a penal colony essentially but um so if you're a united states citizen
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presumably you don't have citizenship to another country we would not be able to legally deport you
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if you have committed a crime to another country in this case though these people are here illegally
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they don't have citizenship so yeah i don't feel like that's the biggest crime in the world i feel
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like nobody's making the claim no i'm just saying that's my point is i feel like there's a lot worse
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situations we have going on to focus on people who are doing as much as people who are so this is
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the highway really right but that's a logical fallacy that's uh uh that's an i believe it's
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the fallacy the relative privation that's the fallacy of relative privation or appeal to bigger
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problems okay there's bigger problems in the world therefore we should not care about illegal
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immigration no i just i don't feel like it should be prioritized the way it recently has been under
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trump's reign i feel like we're spending way too much of it i feel like people are dying unnecessarily
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who are citizens it just it's not making sense okay so you're referring to um alex peretti and
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then i forgot the name of the the other woman and then there was an african-american gentleman who
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got um shot in la i feel like it's just it's definitely being so even if we were even if we
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were to go ahead and grant that there are instances where immigration officers are let's just go ahead
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and say that those were all mistakes right and also the children who are being what about the
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children there is a 12 year old who took her life because she was being harassed in school
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there's multiple situations where they're being taken away from their let me ask you a question
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if a if a 12 year old uh murderer is being harassed in school should we just let them off the hook
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no okay so what what's who are bullying her should i think we can all find okay so we can
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We can all find situations where, hey, maybe this is a bad situation for the person involved, so we should just have open borders then.
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I just don't feel like they're hurting people enough to think that we're going to now prioritize this over...
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We're not prioritizing it over other law enforcement operation.
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i feel like recently into the mic you can so you know you said that people coming here illegally
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isn't like a huge deal but i think you're kind of also forgetting that the people who are coming
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here illegally are bringing things like drugs and sex trafficking and committing these like
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really big crimes that come with that and you're kind of just like excluding that completely by
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saying they just entered illegally that's the problem but there's a lot of other things that
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are brought with that a good example of um human trafficking um from people who are from this
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illegally and where these people are coming from
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that's completely false your your claim is that 50 percent of current illegal immigrants are visa
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overstayers is that your claim what is the 50 you no no you said a 50 number what is the 50
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number you're referencing 50 of people did not commit a crime while they're here did not
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they were either overstaying their visa the paperwork got to let i'm saying those are the
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type of situations no 99.99 percent of illegal immigrants they're not visa overstays they cross
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the border illegally okay but you said they should be deported yeah including the visa overstays
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that's unacceptable too okay if i go to japan and i overstay my visa would you object to japan
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Let's say I didn't, which is the case for most of these visa overstays.
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In the studies I've seen, that's not the statistics.
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I've been trying to do something in court for, like, more than almost two years now.
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But it is getting clogged up because people are coming illegally, so the system is behind and they're not able to get to people in time.
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But if you're saying, should there be no regulations at all?
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There's been a lot of, I mean, America started on people coming here.
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I'm not saying, yeah, just open the borders.
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But I am saying that my stance on it is I don't believe that we should just push people out of the country for being here illegally.
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about probably like 20 percent or something i think i read on it was is that about that many
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people oh my god you don't even know wait but if they came in how they were supposed to and i know
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this because most of my family is immigrants my mother-in-law's from russia my grandpa was from
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mexico if you do it legally and you actually do the paperwork like you're supposed to it would
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stop clogging the system and then more people would be able to come but if you keep coming
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illegally it's going to mess it up and then that's when you have people who can't get their visas
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people who it takes a long time for them to actually get in because if you just do it the
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right way it would be a lot faster okay you were before you respond you were raising your hands
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go ahead what do you mean by there's people born here illegally you can't i've met one kid and she
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was born in america and she wasn't even born with a so the parents decided not to give birth to her
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in a hospital or anything so she has no social security card she has no birth certificate who
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knows if she's from america except for her parents who decided to give birth to her all off the grid
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there's my point is there's just so wait but you said like something about like 20 you you
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referenced like i think a 20 percent number of people who are born here illegally what does that
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mean children who were born in another country and brought by their parents really i'm sorry
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So how can you be born here illegally and born in another country?
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So there are legal immigrants if they were born in another country and their parents are not citizens.
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But their parents brought them here is my point.
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People who are like 20% of children who are brought here illegally.
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Let's say we were to like let them all become citizens.
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shall we deport all the people who were not brought here when they were children are you
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fine with that i'm not really trying to analyze the situation that deep i guess i don't i don't
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know i just don't feel like we should just go around pointing fingers attacking and causing
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accusations there's one guy who i watch on facebook i think it's pretty funny that he does a fake
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like stream thing of lines to deport people and people just call and they say the most
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wildest audacious shit so that's my point is people just are wanting to point fingers they're
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wanting to blame people i feel like immigrants are just being used as a scapegoat right now
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to take focus away from a lot of other things that are happening yes people shouldn't just
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be here illegally i'm not saying you should be here legally what i'm saying is so we should
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and the attack on them is being too extreme i don't feel like everybody who is here illegally
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What do you mean the attack on – so the attack on who?
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The fight against illegal immigrants, I'm saying, yes, how it's been in the last years.
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People who have died unnecessarily, all those kinds of situations.
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All I'm saying is the last few years I feel like are wrong.
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We've never just let immigrants in our country.
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There were some claims that they were even being flown in.
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My point is they didn't just open the gates and let anybody in.
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They basically did. Biden basically opened the floodgates.
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Basically isn't actually. That's what they actually did.
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Okay, so how did millions of illegal immigrants cross the border?
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So regardless of the method, really, they are not citizens.
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They're not just on vacation. They're not just visiting.
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If they're helping society in a way, shape, or form
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Or do you have a housemaid or anything like that?
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There are children that reside in the United States.
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with somebody who could potentially be on drugs like her dad.
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So would you house an illegal immigrant, yes or no?
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Okay, just for free, you know, just let them stay?
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Oh, the illegal immigrant would be paying you, okay.
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And see how that would go into the government,
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because they'd go into the rent and all the taxes and that kind of shit.
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So in any case, though, we have people who are here illegally.
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mm-hmm can you tell me why we should not deport them
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i feel like there's contribution from it that's all i'm saying i'm not saying everybody who's
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illegal here is i'm saying that's my point of how i would probably try to dictate the situation is
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if they're contributing in some sort of manner in a way that a lot of people aren't
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but so is your standard for giving someone an allowance to do something that might otherwise
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be against the laws of the united states is your only metric whether they are doing something that
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contributes because if i were to apply your logic for example to well there are certainly uh very
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wealthy criminals uh you know there are wealthy criminals who maybe they do charity uh for example
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Pablo Escobar offered to pay off the entirety of Colombia's debt, and they would allow him to go
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free, basically, when they were going through his criminal prosecution. Should we allow people to
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get out of jail if they can demonstrate that they're contributing in some way?
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so elon musk commits i understand the question i just don't feel like i'm the one to judge or
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dictate these things like that's partly why i don't want a job in government that's why i dropped
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didn't continue my political science degree because it just it's it's all bullshit i feel
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like i don't so we just shouldn't be the one every situation we shouldn't listen to you
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different so your opinion should not be valid on this issue then am i voting on these topics no
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so that's why i'm not putting in my opinion because i don't you ask me a question do i agree
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with it no i don't like that's about it and then let me ask you this elon musk let me ask you this
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elon musk trillionaire world's richest man in 4k he's caught on camera just stabbing a homeless
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person to death not in self-defense no reason he's just like look i'm rich and i just you know
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i i'm bored with life and i just need a murder i need a merc just some homeless dude and it's
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caught on camera and it's and he confesses but but he contributes so much should we just let
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him off the hook from punishment he did just get rid of a homeless man okay so the question to you
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is i understand the question should we let them off the hook
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no okay so in that same thing i'm saying there's a certain standard of like i said
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if you commit a felony yeah i think you should definitely go back home like what are you talking
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about but that's my point and part of my points too is there are people speeding there are people
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doing shit every day and we're like way more upset about just illegal aliens my point is
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is look at how long this is going on and just
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children should be just sent out of the country.
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you are fucking stupid and know absolutely
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Thank you, Desert Jorge. Appreciate that. Do you want to respond to Desert Jorge?
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You know, I could actually just use your argument. There's bigger things to care about.
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You mentioned speeding. I think the legal immigration issue is more important to be addressed than speeders.
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in cars exactly everyone has their opinion mine is that illegal aliens shouldn't just be whooshed
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out the country wait can i ask you a question in terms of the do you think that speeding in a motor
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vehicle is a bigger issue in the united states than illegal immigration i think that
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no obviously not but at the same time all my point is is people are sitting here committing
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crimes every day in our country they're not getting reprimandations they're hungry now
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now what about now whenever it hits you wherever you are grab an o henry bar to
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satisfy your hunger with its delicious combination of big crunchy salty peanuts covered in creamy
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caramel and chewy fudge with a chocolatey coating swing by a gas station and get an oh henry today
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oh hungry oh henry no one no one cares so why are we caring about someone overstaying a little bit
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of a visa a child who was born somewhere else then their parents took them here that's all my
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point is, is we are caring more about hurting other humans in our country and potentially
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ruining lives that we don't care about because they were here illegally. Everyone just, F
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everyone because they were here illegally. Like, what if it was your mom? What if your
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mom actually was here illegally and you just found out yesterday? Would you deport your
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mom. Well, the law enforcement body of the United States would deport her. That wasn't the question
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though. Would you, would you report her? Would I, would I report your mother? I don't know.
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Do you have a son? No, I have a daughter. Okay. Uh, let's say you had a son and he committed a
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rape. Would you, would you report him? For raping somebody? Yeah. Okay. Perfect. Okay. So now you
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I don't feel like an illegal citizen is as bad as rape.
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You think being here legally is as bad as rape.
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You think that being here legally, murdering somebody, hurting people, assault,
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Did the words exit my mouth that I'm comparing the crime of illegal immigration to rape?
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I'm testing your logic here because what you're trying to do is, Brian,
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well, Brian, you have an affinity towards your parents,
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So I wouldn't turn in my son for being or my mother or any of my previous older family members for being illegal.
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So but regardless of what I would do if my mother was an illegal immigrant, I don't have a duty.
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I wouldn't have a duty to, like, report that first off.
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And it's just a completely incoherent argument.
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I think that should there be laws against, you've mentioned speeding in a car.
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Because in Germany, they have the vagabond, and there isn't a speed limit.
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Generally speaking, should there be speed limits?
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you shouldn't even be paying attention to. Answer
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I don't really care if there's a speed limit or not.
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Okay, so in a school zone, you're fine with somebody blowing past a school zone at 80 miles per hour?
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I want to open it up to anyone else on the panel who wants to weigh in on this.
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You said that even if 50% of illegal immigrants aren't committing crime, 50% of people that never should have been here in the first place are committing crimes.
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if those if you if we're going off of your statistics which aren't true
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like 50 percent even if so there are all these people coming in that are committing crimes that
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should have never been here in the first place and and you even said i'm not gonna i'm not gonna
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have my someone come into my house because of my daughter what about everyone else's daughter what
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about everyone else's kids what about what about a homeless crackhead not a someone who was here
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illegally what's but you don't know that i've been yeah in the crimes that homeless crackheads
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haven't been committing you don't know murder and like really really inhumane things but what
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she's saying and this is what i hear her saying and her frustration oh her frustration isn't
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letting her tell us that sorry um what i think what she's saying is you guys there's lots of
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crimes that are happening and we're focusing on benign she's thinking benign illegal immigration
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Whereas somebody's speeding and hitting somebody on the road and killing them in a drunk driving incident.
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So she's looking at the totality of how much harm is happening to other people.
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But here's the thing with the illegal immigration, it's illegal.
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And that's where we have to really focus in on it.
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And by the way, just because it's illegal doesn't mean that the country of the United States doesn't allow you passages in how to become a legal citizen, a legal resident.
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My mom helped thousands of people who came here, even illegally, to go through the process of becoming legal residents.
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And by the way, when they did commit crimes, they got deported.
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And that was the process of becoming a legal resident.
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So people who are not in the process, for example, my dad, we took him to the ER.
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so our resources are actually being depleted
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uh no because it's illegal but if they're here they have to go through the process
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otherwise you got to go back home bro like i don't know what to tell you i guess here's my
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point is do i believe in deportation yes do i believe in the antagonization of illegal aliens
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as it's been like the last year alone for example no that's all i'm saying something else you're
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forgetting too is that when these people come and we have no regulations surrounding it we don't
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know who is coming that's my point though there should be regulations there should be more with
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the with the intake of our people there should be more not necessarily mandations at the border the
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way that they're doing oh build a wall silly things like that but at the same time all i'm
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saying is there could be more mandations in other parts of it rather than to just be like let's kick
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out the people let's kick out children all i'm that's all i'm saying is i don't believe in
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kicking out children i don't believe in kicking out people who are working towards getting the
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visa renewed who have then can i ask you one other question mom though like if if the kids get kicked
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out or just kept behind and the mom gets kicked out what happens to the kids if the kids life is
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all they know here in america and they came here as a baby another what like 10 years old they got
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to go with the parent but as a parent and as a mother it's your responsibility to make the right
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choice for your child i would never put my child in a situation i don't disagree where it would be
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illegal or whatever we have sanctuary cities and things like that where people can go to get help
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i would never risk my kid's life to do that and i would rather be on the safest side of everyone
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who is here illegally to leave because we don't know who the who they are we have no idea what
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they came here to do what they've done in their past you have no clue so like i said i would
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rather play it i would rather play it safe and say you're illegal you should go i'm not gonna
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i prioritize my children and everyone else's children and all women and all men so you should
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play it safer rather than sorry just so you can have a little bit of humility and a little bit
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of empathy for whatever situation you feel you're letting your empathy and your feeling override
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facts and logic and legit concerns if that makes sense okay i feel like there's a balance of
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putting an emotion to something like that but that's what's the balance like how do you having
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some emotion toward it it's all wouldn't it be emotion if i'm caring for my child or caring for
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my neighbor though too like i don't need i don't need to necessarily put emotion towards an illegal
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immigrant you should but also i'm also going to care for my neighbor i'm also going to care for
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my daughter i'm also going to care for my son i'm also going to care for my my mom okay right
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that's putting emotion towards it too well yeah of course but at the same time like you said i
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i'm you're not going to care about an illegal immigrant i didn't say i wasn't going to care
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about it but i'm saying i would put more emotion towards my neighbor than than that okay i think
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it's not even a part about emotion if we just are looking at things black and white because
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we can't convolute we can't convolute emotion and then pick and choose what's legal and what's not
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I feel bad that they get taken out of their life
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illegal immigration because then they could deplete it
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oh, look at all these things that we're putting
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into these resources the money we're putting into resources then they could take as much money as
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they want off the top which one of us is checking which one of us is doing any kind of auditing so
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this is all uh money laundering in my opinion that's exactly part of my point yes that there
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could be more steps going into it well you can't they want to be they want the money launder is
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what i'm saying forget it i guess one question you said that um you know they're going about it
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wrong. Can I ask you a question? So you feel like the way that they're apprehending the illegal
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immigrants and also the way that they're dealing with some of these citizens who are, from my
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perspective, well, it's not just my perspective. It's factually, objectively true that there are
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citizens who are interfering with ICE operations. For the illegal immigrants, maybe you've seen
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videos. Sometimes these officers, they're physically apprehending them. Sometimes they
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have to be quite rough. Sometimes they have to use force to apprehend both the illegal immigrants
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and also the people who are unlawfully interfering with ICE. Much of this violence that you see,
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I don't know if I even want to frame it as violence. Most of the force used by
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the law enforcement officers is mostly because people are interfering with lawful immigration
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enforcement. So you have people blocking roads. You had that woman who was, look, I don't ever
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want to see anybody injured or shot or anything like that. She was legitimately interfering with
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their operations. She was given a lawful order to exit the vehicle. She refused. She started
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driving off once a police officer has told you that you're being detained and they tell they
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give you a lawful order to step out of the vehicle usually that doesn't mean drive away my question
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to you is uh and not well hold on before i ask the question oftentimes when you are when law
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enforcement is engaging in any kind whether it's immigration enforcement whether you're going to
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arrest a drug dealer, whether you're going to arrest a murderer, um, you would agree with me
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that not all people are going to peacefully surrender to the police. Would you agree with
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me on that? Yeah. Okay. So let's say you're going to arrest someone and you start grabbing their
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arms to, you know, you say you're under arrest, you grab their arms and you're going to put it
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behind their back and they forcefully resist and they start running, do you think law enforcement
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officers should let them go if they start running? Into the mic, please. Of course not. Okay. And you
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would agree? Do I believe that law enforcement sometimes acts irresponsibly when they're
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locking someone up or doing something like that? I watched a video just the other day where police
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were trying to arrest a woman because she was deaf.
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unjustified police killings these things do happen i think they tend to be in the minority
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of instances but they do happen and i'm not going to defend genuine instances of police misconduct
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unnecessary use of force this sort of thing i'm not going to defend that and that's wrong and
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they should be prosecuted if they are genuinely uh you know there's genuine instances of police
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brutality and police killings. However, when you're undergoing mass law enforcement operations
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and you have tens of thousands of law enforcement officers conducting these and there's agitators
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and there's people getting in the way and then there's people who are resisting arrest
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forcefully, sometimes risking the lives of the law enforcement officers attempting to
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effectuate the arrest, there are going to be instances where the use of force begins to
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escalate that's just how it is and so you are going to find these unfortunate instances where
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yes in some there are going to be bad bad things that happen but these people are not going to
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voluntarily be arrested most of the time they're not going to voluntarily be deported you have to
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forcefully do it there's so part of seeing out uh i'd actually be surprised not going to lie
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part of seeing out an effective law enforcement operation is going to require hurting women's
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feelings we're going to have to hurt women's feelings if we want to function in country
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okay you want me to like disagree with that i agree
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I'm going to have some, pull some up for you to read.
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For the ladies, if you're flirting with, I'm sorry, if you're filtering your responses because you're worried about what others might think,
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you need to consider why you might, why you, I'm sorry, why you feel and think what you do.
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Was I going to answer the rest of the questions?
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she obviously she's obviously retarded wonder why she she's a single mom baby daddy in prison how
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does gingerless how how the gingerless she's even on here i don't know i'm sorry okay let's try to
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get through them quicker if we can there it is again started from uh okay we can barely take
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care of americans but want to let a carpet out for illegals this is a good point also like look
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rent is bullshit housing crisis is bullshit there's something like what 20 30 million
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illegal immigrants here they're not homeless they're not just living in the street they're
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occupying housing stock that could go to citizens like i said i'm not against deportation i'm not
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rolling out of you are against deportations i'm not against deportation just not in the totality
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black and white like she's saying if you're just asking am i against deportation no i'm not am i
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against just deporting everybody here sorry no no no just here give it to her give it to her
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give it to me uh all right sorry i just can't have you clicking that um all right here next
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read this please thank you honest and also he's not in prison two immigrants both unknown plan
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to sneak into your country and get a job one harmed a child we never jaywalked do you know
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who i'm sorry you do not know who is which one do you kick out of your house
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bruh why would you know because you don't when they don't have identification
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if you have a lot of our country has cameras and that's how they catch people
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and different things cctv so to say two faces are not going to look different is no like they're
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going to look different we're going to know height stature different things like that i mean i feel
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like that was just too vague of a question they're not legal then they wouldn't be in the system
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therefore how would we have their information they're both illegal they probably should be
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deported am i saying everybody should be deported no that's all my point and that you guys are all
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upset about is that i'm not saying everybody should be deported so then how do we how do we
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decide that's what he asked and that's what i said is that should there be someone sliding
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factor so should there be someone who basically says hmm i morally feel bad for you so i'm gonna
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let you stay and i don't feel bad for you so you should go regardless of the law we should have
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someone who emotionally decides that someone who has a moral high ground who would choose that
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it should be a sliding factor between are they committing felonies how old are they how long
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have they been in this country there's a lot of sliding factors that i feel like could be
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considered okay here let me build their whole life here and they've been here for 50 years
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illegally let me make it simple i'll make it simple i'll make it super simple i think that
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the majority of illegal immigrants here um here i'll just give you one example someone's been
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here for two years they crossed the border legally they're they're a mexican national
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border illegally, they've only been here for two years
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I kind of just tuned out on that because at this
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it's just right and that we should just do that to everybody no that's all my point was when i
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said that i don't agree with it god we don't need to pick apart every little detail of me just saying
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yeah i believe that it is not quite the right thing to do like i don't feel like we should
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have the homeless people on the streets either are we seeing people housing them no exactly we
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spend millions and millions of dollars a year laundering and yeah how many people are still
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on the streets yeah obviously then there's we deport people and they're still illegal immigrants
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like this is something that we attempt to chip away at and to be fair the uh at least california
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and probably most of the other states in this country completely i think you mentioned like
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embezzlement or like they're the the money is fraudulent most of the homeless initiatives are
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definitely terrible and uh quite wasteful when it comes to the money but it is something that
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we're attempting to chip away at there are programs that do attempt to assist these people but it's a
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very the homeless issue is very complex but it is also concurrently being addressed as in addition
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to the immigration issue exactly and all i'm trying to say is it's just as complex no i you know what
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i actually think that the immigration issue is far simpler than the homeless issue the legal
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immigrants it's it's simply this are they here illegally if yes if so deport the homeless issue
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is much more difficult to address i believe um that that is going to require because there's
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different reasons for homelessness it can be drugs it can be mental illness it can be you
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believe that the mentally ill should be home to people who are on drugs and with people i'm not
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really interested in having like a debate on the homelessness thing you brought up the homelessness
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thing yeah i did but generally speaking like it's probably one separate you'd probably want
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separate housing you'd probably want to bring back asylums or like mental health facilities
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that were all shut down i believe in like what the 80s here in california so yeah we probably
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need to bring those back there's it's there's many things to address the homelessness issue
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illegal immigration are you here illegally back you go deport them that's it super simple
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that's it here we got another one here uh can you read it let me have you read this one
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into the mic thank you chair chair chair seven oh yeah is that a typo okay chair seven isn't
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smart enough to answer my question it is illegal to enter any country without permission america
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has the most relaxed immigration policy of any any country braid still too tight
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do i want to respond no oh i was like no comment
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you're in the hot they don't want to put me on no comment so
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because the most lax immigration is saying that you let people in here easily
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so yeah do i feel like people get let into america easily yeah that's part of my point
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what the fuck like yeah i think they might also mean the punishment like in in other countries
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you can go to prison for several years you can some places you can be executed i mean like it's
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no joke going into other countries they should be but here we just deport you how about this too
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our jail system makes money from having people locked up so why aren't we putting them in the
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money system of locking them up and making money off them to hell like put them into labor farms
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of what you're already doing to americans it does not make us money if we were to just put
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illegal immigrants in prison no it costs money to have the facilities to pay the prison guards
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people make they don't get they make money off of having people in yeah well yes that is true there
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are there are private prisons and there are there's an infrastructure surrounding the prison
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system where corporations like if they're providing the food for the for the prison yeah i guess
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they're making money um however it's not a net positive for the taxpayer to put illegal immigrants
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in prison we should deport them and that costs money too but i think that that's a net positive
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for the taxpayer the cost of deportation what if someone gets deported you're paying money right
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to deport them yeah they come back two months later you deport them again yep they come back
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two months later you deport him again sure how much is that costing our taxpayers to keep deporting
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the same person who keeps coming back into our country i'm just curious for example what about
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those kinds of situations and i'm not saying keep them in our country those situations i'm just
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curious what you're saying yeah i'm not familiar i think if you continuously re-enter i think it
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does become like another level of crime so again you could then give them a prison sentence i
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believe i'm not familiar with this exact scenario or yeah you just deport them again if they're here
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illegal like i don't understand your logic let's say somebody commits a crime okay and then they
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keep doing it no the punishments get more severe how it costs our taxpayers dollars to deport them
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should we stop deporting them because they like i don't understand somebody like no i said i said
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they keep stealing cars okay we'll throw them in for two years three years four years
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longer do you do agree with maybe then at that point putting them in the prison system
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that's all i'm saying there could be some conceivable argument if we just like insta
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deport them and they insta come back all right do a three-year bid i'm fine i'd be fine with that
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do a five-year bid if you you've come back five times yeah okay i mean if 10 people get deported
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and one comes back that's still less expensive than having those 10 people stay here i'm not
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disagreeing to that like i said i feel like they should you know they should be in this country
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especially if they're all right i do want to move it on we've been on it for a while um we have one
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more here sorry i typed the example poorly the point was you cannot tell who the predator is
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and it is not worth taking them both into your home and risking your child uh that is in response
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to uh a previous one i think it's this one that i'll pull up for home at a random because i have
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child okay all right let's uh let's get into the relationship status for everybody going around the
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table uh what's your relationship status i'm single for how long like years i don't know well
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you're 19 so forever i guess yeah sure have you ever had a boyfriend yeah but it was a really long
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time ago i was like 15 okay um i was like 15 all right so how long are you seeing him for
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four years um it was on and off for a while after that but we weren't like actually boyfriend and
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girlfriend after that we were on and on on and off for i think like six years six years total
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yeah it's when's the last time you saw him wait but you were um
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there please guys please quiet i think in december maybe maybe earlier than that you
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okay so you saw him in december i think so okay um so you've been single
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you've been seeing this guy for six years it's insane how old is he i'm 19 he's your age yeah
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okay so you guys were like in high school together we didn't go to the same high school but yeah
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you were okay both at the same age um so the last time you saw him
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was in december how long had you been seeing him up until then on and off just how many okay how
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many times on and off we met when we were 12 and then we had like a fake like middle school whatever
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can you guys look please don't be talking even whispering under your breath when someone else
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is talking go ahead we met when we were 12 and then we had like a middle school like whatever
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it was stupid that that like does not count and then we just kept on talking on and off like since
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then literally seven is he the only guy you've been with no I've been with others like during
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our off periods what's the longest period of time with another guy you've been with a few months a
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few months how many times has it been on and off I don't I can't count well like more than five
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less than five more than five more than ten I think so more than 20 I don't know okay so it's
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like a toxic on and off again you guys break up you get back together three days later but i haven't
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spoken to him since december nothing since december no text no he calls me and i answer but like i
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haven't seen him so let's say it's been an on and off about 10 times or so who's the one who's
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ending it typically me like 90 of the time 100 maybe 75 okay and then who's the one trying to
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to get it back on always him always him uh okay what are the what is the typical reason it goes
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off because of his mental health or it's that's what it's been lately what's his mental health
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um he was smoking a lot of weed and he just got his mental health basically just went downhill
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hill a lot okay so he does drugs any other drugs not that i know of all i know of for a fact is
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weed i don't know about anything else okay but so does he cheat on you or no i mean it wasn't
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cheating because we technically like weren't boyfriend and girlfriend but i guess okay um
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in the past you said the last time you saw him was in december are there any guys in the picture
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currently not really no what do you mean not really no there's no guy no okay um any guys
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in the past seven months um like i've tried but nothing like really happened
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one month two months three months nothing really i mean there was one okay how long
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have you been how long have you been celibate eight months eight months okay so when you saw
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the guy nothing happened in december no nothing happened uh relationship status
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single and traumatized single and traumatized all right her too i guess uh uh longest relationship
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six years ever married not married and no kids no kids okay uh do you want to get married
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eventually yes do you want kids eventually yes okay longest relationship six years who broke up
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with who um apparently i broke his heart apparently apparently that's what he tells everyone
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but i don't think i did i i i don't i think it's you know some stuff happened in the beginning of
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like the year when we started dating that i couldn't get over um i hold grudges i don't
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want to but it just happens but uh he was unfaithful for like the first three years
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and then we were trying to stick it out for like the next three years and then I just couldn't get
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over it but I was you know you get comfortable with the person so you end up staying with them
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and you know whatever we're friends now you know it's been I didn't talk to him for a few years
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and then we just now we're like friends yeah everything's fine yeah in your notes you wrote
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that you had an ex that was addicted to sex workers and he cheated on you for three years
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this is the guy you're talking about he cheated on you for three years with sex workers i guess
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so when you say addicted to sex workers you're talking prostitutes like he'd fuck go out and
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fuck prostitutes yes i hope he's not listening to this right now and you said that since you were
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so obsessed with him you stuck around for another three years so six years total yes uh when he
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finally asked you to marry him after six years of being together you told him to fuck off and you
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broke up yeah so towards the end uh I would say like it was like year six that I was completely
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just over it but I stuck around because I was comfortable and I had already started talking
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to someone else like we were kind of doing our own thing um we weren't seeing each other that
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much like we used to and I was off you know doing my own thing he was off doing his own thing but
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them like every now we would like see each other and be like what are we doing here and then it
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just we just slowly drift apart and I guess he was pretty bummed out about it but were you cheating
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on him at all during this time period no okay so you're with him for three years how soon into the
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well six years total uh but it would cheat on you he was cheating on you for three years
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stuck around for another three years so six years total how soon into the relationship
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did you find out he was cheating on you um oh like i oh that's so long ago this is so long ago um
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i would say like three months into the relationship yeah we went to school together i met him in
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college this was when you were in college yeah this was when i was in college though so we were
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together like the last half of my college years and um we had some classes together how big were
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the boobs in college did you have fake titties at that point um I well I did like sophomore year
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but not like anything crazy like I had like normal size normal fake titties yeah okay all right um
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so three were you in love with him by that three month mark I wouldn't say in love with him but I
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did really like him because you said you were obsessed with him yeah yeah I was obsessed with
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him at some point but i don't know what it is it's like i feel like i'm the type of person where i
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want to stick around and like help someone because you know they're they're problems and what were
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his problems oh he was alcoholic big time at what 19 20 no he was three four years older than me
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yeah so yeah he's he's still an alcoholic um but um yeah he's an alcoholic and it was uh
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one of the first people that I've dated that was an alcoholic. So I just rolled with it. Like,
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I didn't think it was that bad. And then I realized like, holy shit, it was really bad
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when people started telling me like, what are you doing with this person? And I stuck around,
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like I said, cause you know, when you're in a relationship, you're blindsided, you know,
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like the only people that can see what's going on are, you know, your friends or family, people
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outside looking in. I have a question for you unrelated to the cheating guy. Are you able to
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sleep on your stomach i honestly i can it's just uncomfortable like i'm more of a side sleeper me
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too yeah i got neck problems so yeah i have neck problems too it's hard to be a stomach sleeper
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yeah i can do like stomach sleeping for like okay 30 minutes that's it yeah have you ever surfed
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that's funny that you asked me that no but uh i oh i've never served but i uh have almost been
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forced to surf a few times uh i dated a guy that was a surfer and he was pretty good and uh i i
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just went to the beach and watched can you show us the necklace it's just cat cat yeah okay somebody
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else here had the necklace that uh actually sorry i remember now somebody had the necklace i wanted
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comments on um okay but so you're dating the guy he was cheated on you a whole bunch obsessed with
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him you stuck around um now you also had and we'll get into some of more of your notes later on but
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uh the final final thing for now you had an ex-boyfriend break up with you because your
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boobs were too fake and big yes okay so how big are your boobs are they g's g cups yeah double g
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or just g okay yeah so um he every time every time we get into a fight like he'll talk shit
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about my boobs and then like i would return what would he say he'd be like oh look at you how could
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you be a mother because he wanted to get married and have kids he was also like four years older
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than me i think and he was like i know it's ridiculous so he said he wanted to have kids
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And I wasn't like, he didn't think that it was going to happen with me because my big boobs and I was just telling them earlier that like, he thought that like, I wasn't able to breastfeed.
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I'm like, first of all, you're going too far because first of all, I didn't know if I want to get married at the time and, or have kids, let alone breastfeed unless, you know, he was trying to, you know, suck on my titties.
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but but oh keep going you're good oh okay so um i just it was just weird like just he just didn't
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like it were you with him prior to the boob job no so you always had the boob job yeah while he
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met me with like decent sized boobs like he knew what he was gonna deal with when he started dating
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me and then he was just like trying to like tear me down or something and then um while I was with
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him like I hate bringing horoscopes into the picture but I'm a Scorpio so we're like revenge
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vengeful oh boy and uh Vietnamese yeah so we're cray cray uh for sure but um every time we get
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into a fight he'll like bring something up and I'd be like I'm gonna get my boobs bigger which
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I did twice while I was still with him before we only did it for like a little over a year or
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something like that and wait you're when you were in a fight you would threaten him with getting
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bigger titties yes because I knew that would yep I knew that was gonna just like yeah I'm impulsive
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wow just really sticking the knife in there yep I'm gonna get some bigger titties I'll show you
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yep I'll go for the low spot for sure yeah um so what he didn't like big titties no he no it wasn't
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I don't know if it was that it was just he said I looked messy and like and he never what Bessie
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no messy oh messy yeah so he had family that didn't live in California but he lives in
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California and he was always going back home to visit his family and he never wanted to invite
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me he said I don't want to take you because my family's conservative and they're going to take
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one look at you and be like okay and I was like well I can cover up it's not like I'm going to
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come visit your family you know with my boobs out or anything and he was like I even told him I was
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like I'll wear a potato sack whatever you want me to like I have no problem with that and he was
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just still like no so it just it didn't work out because like you know it's just yeah I like I'm
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not going to date someone that's you know going to talk shit about the way that I look when you
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literally met me like this yeah interesting interesting what was his sign you really want
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to know yeah girl i asked his sign is also scorpio i was gonna say but but he's not the
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same month as me so it's it's totally different he's a november scorpio i'm a november you're
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november he's october good times good times uh all right um my husband's a scorpio what about you
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oh no uh relationship status single all right for how long
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um only a few months as of right now like three months would you say um yeah
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longest relationship i think five years on and off or straight um a mix of both like on and off
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kind of but not really like there was some some splits but not anything super long uh so you said
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you've been single for three months is that from the five-year guy okay when's the last time you
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talked to him um like june 1st did you have sex with him we haven't been intimate for like
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at least a year prior okay but you were last with him three months ago like dating him yeah
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for for a long time it was like his choice he wasn't wanting to be intimate like at the start
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of the relationship and then we got into being intimate and then it started being my choice so
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it was like we were both on and off like I don't know okay um in the three months you've been
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single have you dated any other men um i've only been intimate with women i guess one other guy
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with one guy you had sex with in the past three months with another guy yeah okay uh are you
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still seeing him or the new guy yeah yes so it's recent this is a guy you're kind of
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seeing yeah how long you've been seeing him for
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next question uh so okay there was some overlap then between the guy you're currently seeing
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and five-year man are you okay are there other men in the picture
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I feel like I shouldn't have answered any of these questions.
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Well, you're on a dating discussion podcast, but...
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i don't know um you don't know okay but so i just feel like did the did the five-year guy
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know that while you were on with him three months ago you were having sex with another man
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um yes okay um all right but not having sex with five-year men
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and so how long have you known current man um since 2023 maybe how long have you been with him
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though like hanging out seeing him on and off since i've met him so you've been seeing two guys
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at least for a period of about three years on and off yeah but the the five-year guy just there
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wasn't the over there was overlap but like not sexually because like I said there wasn't like
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intimacy with the long-term guy like that had been being cut off like it was more like a like a
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friendship honestly but were you guys living together yeah would you guys sleep in the same
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bed yes uh hold on okay at some point yes right not at all points no because I was living okay
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on my own for a while but within those five years I did live with him for like a few months and so
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there was times I was sleeping so you're but you said you were single but here's my confusion you're
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you're in an active sexual relationship with a guy who you've been on and off with since 2023
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when's the last time you saw him um the current guy last night and you guys had sex last night
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no well okay you've had sex in the past week or so
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past month yeah okay so if a guy were to walk up to you in the street who you fancied
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and he asked if you were single you would tell him you're single yes even though you've been
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seeing a guy on and off who you're currently on with since 2023 and you've had sex with him
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recently i've never been taken on a day i would like flowers before i say that i'm seeing somebody
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flowers you should get him flowers i give him a flower i give a singular flower you think that's
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good enough yes for this man yes maybe you would be girlfriend had you gotten him a bouquet
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you can't just be given one flower you got to give a fucking bouquet to a man so he knows
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i would so wait you want a relationship you want title is that correct i would like to be taken out
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on a nice day wait hold on but so that's a separate thing though i understand you want to
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be taken out on a nice date do you want the title of girlfriend you want it to be closed you want
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fucked another guy tonight? No, he's probably
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fucking another girl. He's fucking another chick?
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Yes. He's fucking another girl? Do I care?
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the super jealous type where i get it because what if i know what lust is if i see a hot man
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in the street i'm gonna be like oh he's cute okay so you guys are not exclusive no do you want that
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you want that though no so why are you with him just for the for the fun of it for the benefits
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i guess which are which are what just the sex fun the fun you guys rock climb together or some shit
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what do you guys eventually okay what do you guys do though for fun drugs no i don't do drugs at
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all heroin what is it needles i don't even smoke weed okay so you guys have fun so you go over you
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eat domino's pizza and you fuck nope never been taken on a date um it's more like friendships i
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don't have like boyfriends it's like people say oh are you do you have a boyfriend i'm like
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that's what she said um she used to be a vietnamese yes used to be yes now we can't tell
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you can't tell it's fine it's fine the her color contacts are actually pretty convincing
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like sometimes they're like shitty and you can tell but i feel like those are pretty
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pretty convincing i mean obviously i know their color contacts but
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convincing nonetheless all right so okay you have your oh i was gonna say yeah i i think it's ironic
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that everyone's just basing my IQ off of an answer to one question,
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one political-based question that they didn't even get to finish the whole thing of
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It's like, oh, yeah, that makes up my whole IQ, right?
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Well, I think you can infer things from, like, even a sort of narrow topic.
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You could probably, like, infer certain things about somebody.
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This is the first time my IQ has ever been brought up as, like, low in any sense.
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I've actually been complimented because I'm smart, so that's why it's very interesting to see the contrast.
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Who complimented you? Like a boyfriend or something?
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No, my mom thinks I should be smarter, actually, because...
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Oh, W-Mom. Mom's got to keep it strict, you know? Mom's got to be talking shit to their kids.
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my mom took me to holocaust museums in my childhood so i mean okay all right there it goes
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um i'm 33 jewish so she's like this could be your reality you could be living underneath the
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pig farm so that was that was all right um cool uh my mom
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i believe everyone at the table here just to be polite everyone here has a genius level iq i think
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no thanks you don't have to lie i do actually i think they're all very intelligent
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okay good talk uh let's see here uh relationship status i'm married married all right for how long
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five years and how long together total um oh no wait i've been married for i think three years
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we've been together five gotcha yeah um longest relationship this one this one yeah uh same age
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or yep he's 21 i'm 21 we've been together since we were both 16 i'm a few months older though so
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high school sweethearts more or less we didn't meet in high school but yeah where did you meet
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though at 16 were you guys in college or no i actually did write this in my answer because
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It was kind of something that I did want to address.
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Well, you know, the drug community in Denver is really large.
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And then I saw I ended up growing love for him and all of these things.
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my ex and i did yes both of us together no my ex before my husband we so we met i okay hold on
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oh wait i got it sierra uh so okay you were in a relationship with an abusive man at 16
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and he was way older like 27 which is that was that was right before before which was a yikes
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yeah and you said you had crazy stories from that you were also a complete teenage dirt bag
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and you were a drug dealer terrible yeah you met your husband by selling him coke is what you wrote
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so there was the ex who was way older when i was 15 and then there was a guy who came after that
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when i was 16 him and i used to sell to my current husband now and then he went to jail
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and then him and i my current husband we ended up connecting and our lives have changed ever since
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I met my husband because I used to sell him coke
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The wonderful candidate but I'm this great wife
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off of it's actually crazy because my last therapist told me i should make a movie about
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my life and i think she meant it in an insulting way but she it was weird every time i saw her it
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was like she was eating popcorn just listening to the shit i was telling her and it was like
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oh you don't really want to help me you're like entertained by what i'm saying is it
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your last therapist you said so you've had multiple therapists or i have i'm not when's
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the last time you did therapy though was this recent oh no okay i had one last therapist in
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between that yeah but i stopped going glasses for vision yeah i have an astigmatism thank you
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okay all right uh okay uh cool relationship status i'm single for how long um since march
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all right four months i guess uh longest relationship uh like six years six years
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uh was that the one that ended in march no how was the how long was the one that ended in march
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um i think we started dating in november of last year
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okay so what five six months about um who broke up with who i broke up with him why
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um because he tried to um be with his best friend's fiance while i was out of town good times uh
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Your six-year relationship, who ended that one?
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We were like six months away from getting married.
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He was my high school sweetheart, and I just, like, didn't know who I was,
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and I just got really scared to marry someone when I just had no experience in life.
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Now, on your Instagram, you describe yourself as a part-time heathen with this emoji,
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and then a full-time fairy nymph what is a fairy nymph that's just like my nerdy side like i like
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mythological creatures and things such as what just like fair like i love fairies
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and you're a fairy it's just it's kind of just a joke oh okay it's not like it's not
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super anything important i guess not at all all right now you said you've had an unfortunate
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amount of toxic relationships one of which or perhaps more led to stalking and protection
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orders um you said you said you'd mentioned your last relationship ended because he tried to get
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with his best friend's fiance while you were away at a hockey tournament with uh your kids you have
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kids i have three kids three kids same father um my two younger have a different than my oldest
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Before I get into that, you almost got married when you were 19 to the guy you mentioned.
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say you called the wedding six months or called off the wedding six months before the wedding
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uh just cold feet just I got like really depressed like I was just like I don't know
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who I am like I was a big people pleaser so I would just do everything to please other people
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so I just wanted more out of life now the two kids that you have are they or the three kids
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are they from him so no one of them or no okay so not from him it was before i ever had kids
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this is when you're from what age to what age did you date him so i don't know like uh 15 to nine
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or 14 to 19 14 to 19 my freshman year of high school and he proposed when you guys were 18 or
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um did you i was like 18 or 19 did you give back the ring i honestly don't know what i did i think
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i gave it back you don't okay i also gave back a kayak who was planning the wedding was it planned
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at this point yeah like we had a venue i had a dress so you lost a bunch of money on the wedding
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i mean i don't i think it was far enough away that i didn't lose a couple thousand maybe or
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not on the venue i didn't lose any and i just sold my dress and um okay now looking back you're now
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33 this was when you were 18 19 do you regret calling it off with him um it's hard to say
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because I think that I wouldn't have like my current situation I wouldn't have my kids now
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but um well in terms of like I guess putting that aside because obviously you wouldn't want
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to get rid of your kids but um in terms of the relationship itself right um do you regret
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calling it off yeah i could say in some ways because he was like a really good person he was
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a good guy did he mistreat you i mean there was one like one instance that was not like a regular
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thing at all that happened towards the end he's watching gay porn no what happened um he was just
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very intoxicated and so it was physical or verbal it was more verbal but there like i was
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Which kind of contributed to the current depression that was happening.
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Yeah, they have like pretty good life, I think.
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All right, the question, the three kids, there's two fathers.
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um no and sometimes um he didn't meet he didn't meet my son until he was
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eight and then um he came back into the picture for a couple years and then now he's back out
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does he pay you child support yes uh voluntarily or is it through the court through the court so
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you had to force him yeah how much does he pay you um five something a month 500 about okay and
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then uh the father to the two youngest uh is he involved yes so shared split custody or yeah we
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have nothing through the courts it's just we don't do informally we just talk through each other
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handled and does he pay you child support no do you pay him child support okay all right and you
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Considering your intelligence, who wrote The Great Gatsby or Altos Shrugged?
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Never answered my first question about the Axis powers, you mental giant.
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I actually have never heard of the book Atlas Shrugged.
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I've read the Greek Gatsby, but it's been a while, so I honestly...
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Wait, Clayton, what was the question about Axis?
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Oh, yeah, name one of the Axis powers during World War II.
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We'll get to that, I guess, the pregnancy thing.
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throughout the country access power country i'm just trying to remember
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all right moving on sorry clan it's taking too long i guess um relationship status
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single for how long for a couple of months like the summer can you speak up just this summer
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all right longest relationship nine months who broke up with who i did is that the one
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one that ended a couple months ago no okay how long was the one that ended a couple months ago
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three three months okay when's the last time you saw him when we broke up okay uh any guys
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in the picture currently yes how many one how long have you been seeing him
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not long very short a couple weeks very recent you you're in miami you said right is he in miami
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Please don't make me have to run on you again.
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The one child you do have, is it with the four and a half year guy?
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He wanted me to marry him, and I did not want to marry an abuser.
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No, he doesn't even have his parental rights anymore.
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okay uh you are currently pregnant yeah who is the father this guy who
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i had met him on a dating site and then about three dates in i was we had like three really
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long dates that were like okay felt like we had spent like a lot of time together so like you know
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you can come over to my place and this was one of the nights when my daughter was with my mom
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and then he took advantage of me sexually and then I was honestly felt really embarrassed about it
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and was like okay yeah you want to be with me so I guess I'll be with you since you took
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advantage of me I don't like what do you mean just for clarity can you be more precise when
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you say he took I told him that I didn't want to have sex yet and I didn't even know he didn't
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have his pants on well not like his pants like his were you guys intoxicated no so he was just
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he was on top of me and we were making out and then he pulled it out and he put it in me
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put my stuff to the side okay so you had like um
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like i don't know you were you were undressed or what was your i had shorts on pajama shorts
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they have a little bit of space and he just i didn't underwear like okay so you guys were
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like making out you were fine with making out yeah and then making out and stuff you know
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touching okay uh so did you like tell him to stop or i didn't know that he had his thing out
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Well, from the moment he put it in, I'm not going to be like, whoa, wait.
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I mean, it's not that I, like, I wasn't ready for it.
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Once he was already inside me, it was, like, kind of like, okay, well, what am I going to do now?
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I've been treated like shit before in certain moments like that.
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My brain reactivity was to, my trauma response was to just kind of cope with it.
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I would have asked for protection on you, let alone you being inside me.
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But also, obviously, this is a consent issue, too.
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uh but i mean if you didn't want to do that it just felt like it was already happening you can't
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undo moments where you could be like whoa whoa wait whoa whoa whoa whoa what are you doing
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you know yeah if you didn't i don't know my trauma response like okay so it there's about
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four different ways that your brain can react traumatically one of them is like how you're
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saying where you just are like pushing them off you get aggressive back one of them honestly i
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can't even remember all the four right now one of them is to like people basically people please
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um one of them is to repress and then i can't remember like i said should we deport this guy
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is he an illegal immigrant born in the country i know right i'd be fine like look i i'm not
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i don't want to like dig too too deep into the whole situation there does seem to be some consent
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issues there uh i think we could probably like deport people who commit sex crimes but uh i
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don't know that i maybe we should but uh okay hold on um now did you continue seeing him like
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continue dating him or was it what what i felt like i was in it too much i mean i did it was
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Yeah, it's mixed emotions when you did, like, like a person, and then they just kind of, you know, take advantage.
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When did you tell him you weren't ready to have sex?
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Well, after we got to my place, because I was like, hey, like, I need to change my clothes.
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Like, are you going to be, like, I'm not trying to make you feel uncomfortable, or, like, you should, like, you know, should mistake this.
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Like, I'm not ready to do anything with you sex-wise yet.
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i'm not ready to have sex with you yet we just met pretty recently we've only been on a few dates
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like have you ever had uh slept with somebody like quick like had a one-night stand or yeah
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yeah that's different when i'm like i i'm we're going into it i'm saying yes we're gonna do it
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like i've had i've had moments by multiple people i've been raped by my daughter's dad i've been
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raped by my boyfriend before that i know what it is to give consent and i also made sure at that
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point because of those things so you've been you've been raped by men multiple men who you
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went on to date and have been in relationships with do i just so i have that do i have that
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correct the first two situations um we were already dating and it also took me um therapy
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to find out and realize that just because they're your boyfriend doesn't mean that they are allowed
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to force you to do it even though you're if you're not wanting to if you're saying hey i'm not
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right now that means no so i i would agree in the sense that just because you're in a relationship
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and just because you previously gave consent there can definitely be situations like if if you don't
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want to have sex and the board and you're like don't want to have sex and the boyfriend like
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physically forces himself upon you this would be rape but i guess my confusion is so you're saying
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you've had relationships where they were initially consensual and then your contention is there have
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been subsequent rapes within the relationship. Is that, do I have that correct? Yes. Okay. Now
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your therapist, you're saying that they would force themselves on you. Is that correct?
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um i mean yeah kind so in one of the scenarios with my first boyfriend not my first boyfriend
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but actually my second boyfriend i had agreed to do it from behind because he wanted to do it
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from behind and then when it started to hurt i did i tried to push him off of me and he was
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pushing me down and continuing even though i said it hurts please get off and was begging him
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and crying and um i eventually gave up after you know a few minutes of trying to push him and get
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him off me get off me because it was making it hurt worse and so i just stopped trying to push
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him off me and he finished and that was it okay uh i don't know do any of the women have any thoughts
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on this i want to say something i want to say that you know every person's reality is different
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from someone else's reality and you know clearly you get really choked up and it's an upsetting
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situation so i just want to say i'm sorry that that happened and that you know people are going
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to be jerks about it and say whatever they want or whatever but it's what happened to you and what
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how you perceived it and how you felt about it so i'm sorry okay i honestly i have just had
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multiple people who like friends um like i said i have a therapist just because like i feel like
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at this point it's therapy is like the best thing anyone could do for their mental health
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um and that started when i was younger just through stuff with my mom and everything like that
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but I told them basically how we did it the first time because they were like did you get intimate
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and I was like yeah well I mean I told them I wasn't ready and blah blah and this is what
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happened and they were like oh so he raped you and I was like I feel like that's you know like
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people are gonna make it seem like I'm putting it to an extreme but you know when you don't give
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consent and you say look I'm not ready and then they do do that to you they do put themselves
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inside of you no your reaction is in a basis of their action and I may have not reacted as much
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as I wish I would have in the past but can I ask you a question just because I'm curious kind of
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what your thoughts are do you think that there's a difference between manipulation coercion and rape
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like is there a spectrum of those things i don't feel like there is i feel like
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well i guess i'm i'd wonder to like what extent as well well i mean there's like you know someone
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who's like actually physically assaulted versus um i'm upset with you so i'm not going to sleep
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with you and like guilting them and all of those things do you think that those are both equal in
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the same class you know i don't have much experience with that kind of thing honestly like
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like for example with my daughter's dad i didn't withhold sex from him when he would try to push
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himself on me he just wanted to do it multiple times a day different scenarios things when it
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was just like are you kidding me this is not the time type of moments um he also was on drugs so
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that was did you ever uh call the police um or go to the police or file a police report for any of
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these rapes um no no a lot of them were past the situation usually they want you to do it within
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the first 24 to 72 hours and i did not ever feel comfortable you can because you i'm sorry no i
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was just gonna say you could still report it though like you can still make a statement try
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to get some kind of security out of yourself from it i think it's and i'm sorry to speak on your
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behalf but i think what she's saying to us is that she uh kind of consented by not saying um
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by not fighting back and so for her not not that you consented but because you didn't you didn't
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stop him in the way that i'm going to look poorly yeah yes exactly so her case is not strong
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everyone's going to question her they're going to put her through the wringer and she's just not
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you know she's going to live through the trauma all over again and have no actual um resolve
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resolve exactly so her case is a little different i mean we want to also say why didn't you fight
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him off i would have kicked his motherfucking ass i mean i would have died probably there but
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i would not have like went through with it uh but i would rather die but that's my reaction to things
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i'm an aries taurus so that's my reaction to things you know and it's just through the all
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through the board that's my reaction to things i do not fold under any kind of pressure so but
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that doesn't mean that everyone's going to be that same way and so we can't necessarily like
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she said we can't judge uh the scenario or say why didn't you do this or why didn't you do that
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because she's her you know i mean it's also kind of like the basis of like oh it was because what
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you were wearing kind of questions like i you know i tried to tell him i wasn't ready as best i could
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that alone should have been enough and like he said we were both sober like it's you should have
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been clear-headed and understanding enough as another human being to hear she's not ready to
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have me inside her and not put yourself inside her but then at that point am I like I said I am
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disappointed that my brain doesn't react differently sometimes I see something happen on the street I'm
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like I didn't say anything I feel stupid you know my trauma response is not the one I wish I could
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have I wish I would just you know I've sucked the shit out of him at the moment that it wasn't going
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the way that i had told him i was comfortable going with yeah and you said this has been the
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case for like three to four of your relationships this has happened in three out of seven
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relationships three out of seven relationships but like i said all right i don't want to really
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linger on this topic for fucking longer it seems like everything coming to you gets into some i
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know um just so i understand it clearly in these relationships aside from the most recent one or
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whatever you'll have consensual sex on a monday on wednesday you're raped on friday you have
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consensual sex on sunday you're raped on tuesday you have consensual sex on thursday you're raped
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on saturday you have consensual sex is that the gist of it no is that the obviously that might
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not map on to the frequency or whatever but is that essentially like you would have consensual
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sex then be raped and then have consensual sex then be raped and then etc etc do i do i understand
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that clearly i don't think so at all no you stayed with these men for my second boyfriend
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raped me in the ass my daughter's dad he would not if i told him no he would still do it
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um the boyfriends after that no and then i got with this guy recently and then
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that was unfortunately a rape i think what i want to ask is do you continue to have sex
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with these people after you feel like they raped you
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and i think that's what he's getting at my daughter's dad yes and the guy who
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consensually having sex with him afterwards, yeah.
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I'm saying the general public's not going to see that as rape.
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If you continue to have sex with the guy afterwards,
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logically it is logically possible that you could be in a relationship with someone and then on
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monday you have consensual enthusiastic sex and then wednesday the woman's not feeling it and the
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man physically forces himself on the woman and then friday she then i guess has consent like this
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is logically possible um i just that was maybe kind of how it was with my daughter's dad yeah
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that would be sure how you might want to explain it the guy who raped me and i'm pregnant with his
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baby i after that first time kind of just went with whatever he wanted i didn't i didn't say
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yes or no i wasn't but i so you met up with him again willfully and you went along with it so
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So the second or third time you had sex with him, were those rapes also?
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He just said he wanted to do it, and I was just like, okay, at this point.
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But if you found his initial conduct unacceptable,
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he didn't respect your boundaries the first time i mean your position is you were raped that first
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time like it seems like go to the police never see this guy again warn people about like i don't
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well there's also a difference in between saying sensitive topic but well there's a difference in
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if if you give your consent right and you actually commit to it versus not wanting to do something
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there are women out there who sleep with men who they don't really find attractive that doesn't
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make it necessarily rape are you talking about like regret yeah like you can feel like regret
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can be a thing or you could say oh i shouldn't have done that or i was drinking too much or i
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didn't really find him attractive i don't really want to sleep with this guy but in the end your
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level of desire that doesn't automatically remove consent if that makes makes sense what i'm saying
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So you can, like, have sex with somebody and think after, damn, I shouldn't have done that, or I got a better look at them, I don't find them attractive, whatever.
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You can feel remorse for that, but that doesn't necessarily mean that you were, you know, raped.
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how about who america won our independence from ignore the proposition square root of 36 49 81
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or the first three digits of buy name three kardashians bet you get that one all right here
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do the uh okay who did we win uh our independence from the usa what country
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i'm trying to well i'm trying to think how i'm like going to differentiate because some of the
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states were one from mexico but the rest of it had come over from england but i mean i guess
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it's depending on okay uh first three digits of pi 3.14 good name three kardashians
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Okay, Brian Braids, I do not believe is telling the truth.
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What she's describing is not believable, not impossible.
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Terribly sad if so, but she's also made subtle faces and wry smiles.
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i don't know i don't know man i don't know do you think it sent mixed signals if you like
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like i'm just trying to figure it out because i don't know i've never been through something
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like that it's horrible but do you think it sent mixed signals to have sex especially with this
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last guy he raped you and then you had sex with him afterwards do you think that sent mixed signals
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do you think that like like potentially there's something on on your end that like you could be
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working on as well does that make sense to prevent it from happening yes well also he didn't know
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that he was raping her because they continue to have sex well yeah well the first time when i say
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i don't want to have sex yet from what i'm told from let me ask a question on this hold on let
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me ask a quick question on this so women oftentimes on dating apps will say no hookups
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i don't want to have hookups let's say you go back to her place and then she fucks you
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she did disclose and like have an affirmative statement saying no hookups i don't want to
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have sex on her dating app was she raped i don't think so she changed her mind in the moment
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okay but in the that's my best part of my point is literally less than 30 minutes prior to this
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man putting himself inside me I said I did not want to have sex I'm not ready to have sex with
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you yet that's that's that's my point of what considers it as factual like logical rape that's
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that's the moment that right there he didn't ask me again I didn't say okay now we can do it
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none of that kind of stuff like how did he get his pants like did he just was he wearing jeans
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or what was he wearing did he just take like active force i don't know bro i want to move on
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from this fucking no we were making out he was on top of me and he went inside me what what do you
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have did you one time did you like tell him like hey what you did to me was wrong it was rape i did
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tell him that i feel like he took advantage of the moment that you know and that's technically
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rape and he's like you're being extreme and i'm like okay well now maybe i feel like i am maybe
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That's part of it, too, is a lot of America and a lot of society turns it on you as if I'm the mistake of the problem.
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When did you tell him that you think he did this?
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He was like kind of cuddling me and was just like, how do you think that was?
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And I didn't just was really overwhelmed by the moment.
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But okay, so in the moment, in the moment, was he, when you were like, hey, whoa, you violated my consent, was he taken aback, like, shocked?
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Because this could be, like, a genuine instance of, like, mad because you just accused him of, like, pretty much one of the worst crimes that you could accuse somebody of.
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I wound up finding out that it wasn't the first time
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wait you've talked to other women he's been with
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I didn't know he was with my friend in high school.
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Apparently he was married, and I didn't know that he was legally married.
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How many women have you been in contact with who he's done this to?
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what do you mean at least two i've heard about another i haven't been in contact with her
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and they all say the same thing basically yeah that he forces them himself on them or
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surprise caught dicks them or like i that's his move he just takes his pants off like fucking
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all sly and shit what the fuck i know they just said that all right look bro you got like
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had this was pretty recent i think you gotta go to the police if he did if he raped you i mean
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But then what about the child support from, like, the baby he put inside me?
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Holy, this whole situation is giga-fucked.
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I was going to go to the police, and then I found out that I was pregnant,
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I'm pro-choice, but I don't feel like I should do that.
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regardless of abortion, if you did press charges on him
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and you had the kid, there are legal resources that will help you. Child support shouldn't be
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the reason that you don't protect other women or yourself. If he is truly a danger, the last thing
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on your priority list should be child support. There are resources that will help you and will
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take care of you. You have to find them and seek them out. But if you are so genuinely convinced
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that he is a threat you should want to protect other women if that makes sense is like a threat
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to me in that moment i guess he was i didn't know it i feel like i feel like i don't know
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if you have other women you guys should go collectively to the police and say hey this
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guy's a serious threat to us he's a serious threat to women out there wife retracted her
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statement well you said that you knew that two other people still that was one of the people
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And even you, your testimony alone, you can go and protect other women from this.
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If you know yourself that other people are being harmed by this man, you should do something about it and be the change.
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Yeah, I'm just afraid of wasting my time and resources over something that a lot of men get off of these kinds of things.
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All I have is the fact that I said I didn't want to and he did.
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You know, it's not it's not like I tried to fight him off.
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It's not like I wasn't, you know, stupid afterwards and just was like, well, he was with me now.
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He wants to be with me and I should just be with this guy because he's we've already gone this far.
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And what else do I do? And those kinds of questions.
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So at this point, I feel like it's just it's it's a rough, rough situation to try to travel down.
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Like I said, I'm not I'm not decided neither here nor there.
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it is rough but clearly you've been through a lot you are strong enough to do this if it's like if
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this is the truth that that's kind of like dangerous territory to tell her to do that
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and say that she's strong enough to do that because you don't know that how strong she is
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i mean you don't know how she's i'm sorry i'm not saying that you're not strong i'm saying we don't
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know how strong you are to withstand this the pregnancy the rape the married man he doesn't
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want to be a part of the he's got his wife to contest for on his side his mom has also tried
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to lie for him and all kinds of things she's looking at all the things she's not gonna
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convince she's she's having a hard time convincing us panel of nobodies uh and like people online who
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are you know spending money to give her comments uh it's going to be difficult uphill challenge
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and i don't know if she thinks she has the resources or the strength enough oh my god i
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gotta read this fucking chat and i'm moving this on this is like the most dog shit convo ever um
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grape by 45 percent of her exes and black victim fatigue geez brian what did you get
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yourself into this maybe women really don't have any brains until 25
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that's part of it too now i'm playing into the stereotype of being an african-american woman
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who's being victimized like that's part of why i don't because all i am is just another number
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in the books to anybody out there or to anybody can i ask you a question you're a stripper right
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like if a guy puts his hands on you uh at the strip club are you like pretty uh assertive in
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that situation i do private shows and sometimes i'm not as assertive as i'd like to be but if a
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guy asks to do anything sexual i am allowed to just get up and leave with the money have i done
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that before yes it's just like i don't know like women who are sex workers are usually pretty
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I should not have bit on that fucking topic.
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Yeah, I didn't take my ex-husband to court for divorce,
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and I didn't take my new husband to court for marriage.
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I'm divorced, but I didn't go through the court system.
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We just filed for divorce and we did everything outside the court system
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We just are friends now, better friends than we would have been if we stayed married.
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but there's nuances okay um longest relationship current marriage okay since 2018 until now but
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i've been married two years but i was just with him since 2018 because you said you're legally
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divorced unlawfully married yeah okay uh you have how many kids three from how many fathers
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so governor newsom doesn't sign my contract okay got it what about you relationship status i'm
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married for how long uh since january six months how long together total uh three years three
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years all right together wonderful years three years all right all right that's the relationship
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status uh we'll get into some topics now uh let's see why don't we get into people who have
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disagreements with the show so we have uh let's see grace is that you who's grace that's me i
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agree with the show i changed my answer i love the show it's great i'm okay i'm not getting into
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your notes yet okay who's next yeah yeah okay we got gill jill jill gill gilly it's jill it's gill
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no it's not oh fuck my bad it's with a g though yeah but it's jill you should chop that up with
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your parents um uh you said you have a lot of hot takes i can't think of them on the spot but that's
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why we asked for them ahead of time yeah which you didn't provide um you dated a 19 year old
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drug dealer at 16 how old was he how old was he yeah 19 right because you wrote that sorry it was
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stupid joke um all right not even jokes retarded statement um he was a drug dealer though he sold
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you drugs like weed yeah okay not like crazy he only sold weed he sold more than weed but i only
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bought weed from him okay so would you like when you say you dated him he'd give you free weed and
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you'd fuck it was never free the weed so he'd still charge you for the weed you didn't get a
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girlfriend discount or whatever no why he was so cheap he was really w entrepreneur he's got the
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entrepreneur businessman spirit good job not really uh okay um
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that's it he's in prison now for what drug dealing drug dealing and he was on house arrest
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and he cut off his ankle monitor white guy hispanic what's your background you look kind
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of middle eastern or something i'm greek greek okay there you go hey we got a greek uh do you
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speak greek no unfortunately i wish you're greek hey george is she greek does she look greek
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yes she does she yeah she looks greek all right are greeks white i think they're white
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they're white they're white okay all right um all right uh you wanted to talk about gender roles
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go ahead um i do this is sparta sorry i had to play it good what about gender roles go ahead
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i believe that men should provide yeah okay what should women do i think women
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well for women i feel like it's different i don't know why i'm like i'm like trying to like
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think about this is hard i'm sorry um i do think men should provide and because i feel like okay
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first two humans on earth and i feel like the way like oh sorry good just continue on i don't know
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if what i'm saying is gonna make a lot of sense are you high no no did you smoke weed no okay go
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ahead okay first two humans on earth adam and eve sure but i don't want to bring like religion into
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that but first two humans on earth let's say okay first two yeah i feel like when a woman gets
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pregnant right yeah men provide to get the woman pregnant and i feel like i'm going somewhere hold
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on i feel like men should continue to provide because they were meant to be the providers
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because women get pregnant yeah by them they're giving us
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okay yeah wait can you take those ankle uh arm things off it's just making noise on the table
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um okay so but you said it's different for women why is that
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like i asked you what should women do i feel like the world was specifically designed for men to be
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easier what do you mean that's just how it was wait hold on what do you mean trying to take this
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what do you mean easier okay multitask what do you mean easier men can men get jobs easier than
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women do that's did jobs exist when the first two humans okay no they did it okay so
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the world was designed for men it was designed for men to profit it wasn't designed for women
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to profit okay yeah explain that it's hard to explain it's your claim though so i feel like
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you'd have to explain i know i'm just like i'm just nervous okay
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okay so the world's easier for men i feel like it is men okay but so if we're going to talk
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about gender roles you believe only men should have gender roles no but i would i also wouldn't
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say like oh women belong in the kitchen because women can do a lot of things it's just their
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choice so men don't have a choice i feel like it depends on the circumstances of the relationship
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sometimes a woman would want to stay at home dad or that situation sometimes a man wants to stay
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at home mom it depends on all what they want and like what both parties want okay so
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it would boil down to a negotiation i guess both people would agree to the terms of their
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a relationship yeah that's okay but you also write that you think men should pay for everything in a
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relationship yes you would never date a broke man but money also is not the only reason you would
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date a man yes okay so you think that you think that on an individual level men and women can
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negotiate whatever kind of arrangement they want but for you for me specifically you don't want
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that? You want the man to be traditional and you to do what? I would personally want to be
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traditional. I enjoy cooking, cleaning, all of that. Do you? Yeah. Okay. Are you religious?
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I choose not to talk about religion. Why not? I just don't want to talk about it.
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Well, I'm not going to ask you questions like specifically about the Bible, but are you
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religious sure what religion i don't want to talk about it are you a muslim no are you christian i
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i just said i don't want to talk about religion why not because i i don't i don't feel comfortable
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talking about religious topics and stuff but you felt comfortable answering that you're not muslim
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so you did talk about it i mean i guess okay but i don't understand like
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why are you uncomfortable talking about it like why do you feel ashamed of being a christian
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i'm not a christian i what i'm not christian did i you just said sure when i asked if you
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were christian no i said sure when you asked me if i was religious i'm pretty i asked if you're
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muslim you said no and then i was like okay are you a christian maybe i misheard i'm sorry okay
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so you're not a christian are you what would i'm jewish okay you're jewish yeah oh okay all right
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that's fine i just don't talk about it because i feel like in today's day and age like with
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everything going on in the world you feel that there's judgment or anti there's people who are
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against Jews I understand I understand that's fine um okay so Adam and Eve traditional gender
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roles now you do like only fans or no no you do fan fix yeah which is like soft only fans basically
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it's not it was you post nude photographs no no topless no okay okay so so you think it's easier
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for a man to get a job but what do you do for like do you make money yeah yeah um i do tiktok
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live i do that okay do you think so do you think that and i also manage social media okay so do
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you think that you doing tiktok is an easier way of means than what a man would have to do it in
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in order to get a job like a man usually has to go to school or trade school work outside all day
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Men provide, women shut the hell up and do
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he's right he's spent like six hundred dollars so far
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probably more than that probably more than that
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yeah um all right clan thank you for your tts appreciate it uh okay well so traditional gender
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rules so you the man should provide the man should protect you are in your specific relationship
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you'd be okay with um cooking cleaning staying at home being a housewife i would also want to
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work though because i like god forbid something happens then i have nothing to fall back on what
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if you date a really wealthy guy though who makes so much money you don't have to work
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i'd still work what if he didn't want you to work i'd find someone else you wouldn't date him i can't
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trust that what do you mean you can't trust that because what if god forbid we get a divorce then
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i have nothing you wouldn't have nothing well you wouldn't have nothing but uh does anyone want a
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No, I'm okay. Nope, you don't get it. You're banned
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from popsicle. Maybe later I'll give you a popsicle.
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dye in there can definitely cause a miscarriage.
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She knows what she's talking about. I was thinking a blue popsicle.
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um the uh the the colored one do you know what i'm talking about not like the sour one or whatever
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all right um and then okay before you dive into the popsicle uh you think men should pay for
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every what about other relationships should like not my own yeah do whatever you want i guess but
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for what i want i think the man should provide but i'm also going to work
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so his money his money is our money my money is your is your money yeah so uh yeah that's uh
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that's an interesting oh it looks like a good one too thank you yeah they're pretty good it's
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like a bomb pop okay um you also you said you don't like the rage bait making women look dumb
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dumb i'm assuming you're talking about the podcast i was talking about like the questions
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where you ask like what's the capital of this country or like and it's like super like stupidly
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easy questions i thought those were clipped and then i found out they're not but that was my
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mistake uh okay so what anything any other disagreements with the podcast or
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um i would say not so much anymore you love the podcast yeah you're a fan of the show all right
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all right good for you w you um and then the women should pay for everything who agrees with
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her from the panel she says that men should pay for everything in a relationship she would never
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date a broke man hey tiffany please you got to be quiet with the the stuff over there um
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uh you say money is not the only reason you didn't meant who agrees with her just show of hands
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Men should pay for everything in a relationship
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In a relationship I can see why they don't want to pay
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Okay so how soon do you want to get back to work
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after having kids i would say i'd want to spend i would say i'd want to spend like a year with the
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kid like by myself at home tiffany we have a microphone like a foot away from you but just
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if you're gonna play with the the bag and i know but just step away from the like do it back there
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inferior i would do formula because i don't want saggy tits oh well i breastfed all three of my
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kids and i do not have saggy tits sorry i i thought if you did get a breast thing um like
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get they because they cut off the ducts no no or do they oh that's so interesting you can still
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wait guys into the mics if you're gonna talk please um okay one year but you want multiple
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kids right how many kids do you want i would say a good like two or three
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so then but if you have them back to back then i guess that would be out of work for how long
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like three four years because i i would want them like close in age
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okay maybe but then the youngest one within a year or yeah within a year of your youngest one
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you want to be back to work doing what i would probably have like a work from home job
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okay doing like tiktoks or something maybe tiktok dances what if your husband was super wealthy
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say he made like a million plus a year and he was like look i'm making so much money you don't need
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to work just focus on the kids also you know i don't want you making tiktoks anymore i don't
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want you being on social media like that I want the my my family to be a bit more private I want
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my wife to be private would you go for that I mean I feel like I I wholeheartedly disagree with
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posting children online I do think that's very bad but I feel like well just you then I feel
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like if that's what I want for myself at that time and it really depends like so your husband
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would have it depends on how much i'm making from that like how much you're making currently huh
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i don't know do you have like a couple thousand a month how much are we talking
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like seven eight dollars a month thousand okay seven eight thousand that's pretty good
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but i mean your husband's making say a hundred hundred thousand dollars a month he's like look
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i don't want you doing this i don't want you out there publicly you know it it's a bad look on me
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i don't know what kind of stuff you're doing on tiktok like a guy who's really wealthy
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look i mean you know this is what's frustrating i'm sure you guys are familiar with cristiano
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ronaldo his wife this this guy is the arguably one of the most famous soccer players of all time
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is the most famous soccer player i think he's probably what the most followed person on
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instagram makes hundreds of millions of dollars and his wife is posting thirst traps on instagram
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if i was cristiano ronaldo my wife is private but a lot of these rich famous guys are kind of
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blue-pilled and they just you know kind of like okay do whatever you want and they date it they
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marry like vain women who want like the clout or whatever which is totally retarded he could
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i don't understand it i don't personally understand it but if i was as rich and famous
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as him my wife would not be out in public like how she is what if he wants to show her off like
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oh wow look how beautiful my wife is well i i mean i suppose there's a way to do that i don't
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understand he's she's got like fake titties and i don't know no offense if other men see what see
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what your husband sees then she's not your wife like that's just how it is like you should be
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covered up you should be you should like it just shouldn't be that way we're gonna have to disagree
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with you on that but men wouldn't though well something that i think that is getting kind of
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missed too that is with like the whole feminist movement is that it's always the what if like so
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if i don't have a job and i have kids what if we get a divorce what if this happens what if that
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happens but people aren't taking the time to really vet the people that they are going to marry
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Marriage is seen as just this easy thing and just this thing you get married you get married you get divorced you get divorced
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Marriage is a sacred thing and that if you are going to marry this person
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You should have trust and faith in them that when times get hard they're going to take care of you
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And if you can't say that in 100 certainty, you're not marrying the right guy
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So there needs to be more thought process about who we're marrying who and why we are marrying that person
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The what if game shouldn't apply when you get married because that's forever
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100 also if you're going like if I went on a date with a guy and I was talking to him and I was like
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well just in case we get a divorce just in case I'm gonna I'm gonna keep my job like he would be
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like what a divorce like we're not even we're not even married yet we're not even engaged yet
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what are you talking about it would be like you're already signing that your name on the divorce
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papers without even doing it like that's how I would feel as a guy and that's how I would feel
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as a woman too if some guy said that to me just in case I think you should keep your job just in
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case we get a divorce i'd be like well then we're not getting married i don't want us i don't want
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to do this yeah you're already agreeing to it before you even like divorce shouldn't even be
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a thought in your mind until you absolutely need to unless there's abuse unless there's something
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something dangerous coming to you there's true trauma coming like that's when you get a divorce
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but even still like i think and there's a lot of circumstances where people get divorced and
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divorced when you can really just work through it you can really find ways to to make the means
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justified there are people who who deal with cheating and they still stay together through it
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not again not everybody has that bandwidth so I got divorced for way less like when I look back
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at it I'm like bro like yeah we could have totally talked it out but I was an atheist
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I was a I didn't have God in my life I was an atheist and my mom had passed away there's a lot
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of things that were there that i just didn't want to put up with anybody else's bs and to me
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because i was raised in a feminist society i was a feminist atheist liberal like you name it that
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was the works uh i was like okay yeah divorce is the way to go because i can't figure out how to
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make this relationship work and um like i said no people didn't even people were shocked that we got
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divorced like people were so shocked yeah they didn't even know until maybe two years later
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some people uh that's how like low-key and private we kept it but the point is that
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divorce shouldn't be the answer even though as a divorced woman it should not be the answer
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you know there's other ways to come about working out a relationship especially if there's not a
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abuse or physical abuse or whatever the heck the situation is yeah divorce and abortion have become
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like just regular things to do and that's the unfortunate part that we're living in this
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feminist society if they've told us oh you're a feminist you have the right to go do this you
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have the right to divorce you have the right to leave you have the right yeah sure you do have
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the right but also where's your accountability and responsibility as a growing woman and as a
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person who is going to be part of the stewardship in a relationship men don't have the means i feel
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like to steward the women of today and women of today are looking at like the one percent of men
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who they want as their leaders and they're refusing to help men grow into their leadership
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positions as well and that's why a lot of these divorces are happening because women and men are
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just not communicating their wants and needs the right way and they're not working on it with each
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other to me it just says you said you said or to me you just said feminism is the problem feminism
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and godlessness is the problem in society for sure especially like i definitely have ended
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relationships because i thought i was some empowered woman it sounds like you did the same
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thing there's also a balance to like knowing your worth as a human being and like differentiating
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the extreme feminism that we definitely do have in our country for sure like i feel like
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you can know the rights you have as just kind of a human it's like like saying you know oh man like
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woman playing the part like you know in the kitchen everything like that like i think there's
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a certain balance to it we're like but why shouldn't why shouldn't women do that if they're
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better at it like and if a guy's going out and working all day and providing why shouldn't we
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play our part in the family and help in the house it's not just like I hate when people say that
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it's just cooking because it's not just cooking and cleaning like you're also helping with his
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family and the things that his parents may need help they may be old or his brothers or sisters
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may need help maybe you're all educating people together um maybe your parents your parents need
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help maybe you're helping them and you're doing that as a family unit maybe you're helping him
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with his business maybe you're um so you're basically just saying that a relationship should
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be a give and take 100 without a doubt with the feminism part is that feminists believe that
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well what's the opposite of feminism believing that there's roles in a relationship right that's
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all I'm saying is that roles in a relationship are where feminism kind of deconstructs that
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is feminism oh yeah a woman should be like doing all these things and whatever else instead of a
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man no I think that's bullshit like my mom's an electrician but at the same time I do not feel
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like we were built to be electricians you know what I mean but at the same time all right she
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gets reclaimed my time objection reclaiming my time uh you have very good cookies by the way
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You know, it's kind of upsetting to me that more women don't bring.
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They don't bring, you know, food, you know, a little food plate, you know.
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So thank you to the only woman who brought a little nice.
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culture. It's also just a polite thing to do.
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Let's not try to pawn it off like it's just that.
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It's an Armenian woman culture. It's a nice thing to do.
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Okay, I don't know where I was going with that.
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thank you thank you very much they're good all right uh okay let's move it on to the next thing
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i guess um disagrees um a mall wait who's a mall a mall who is a mall why do i have a mall a mall
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wait are you a mall that's my last name oh i don't know why okay i was just going off of
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your instagram i guess uh gender roles you had to disagree with or i'm not gonna lie i don't
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really watch the podcast i just okay what i should write all right i don't know okay body
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count shaming you disagree with body count shaming um yeah like when guys have really
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high body count and then they expect their woman to be like super super pure i feel like you're
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not want to talk okay but let's do you still have an issue with body count shaming if the man is a
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virgin is it okay to shame a woman for her body count if he's a virgin i'm not saying he has to
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be a virgin to shame it okay or he has a low body count then yeah because i'm trying to understand
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what your what your actual argument is is it the body shaming or is it the hypocrisy because you
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would you would say okay well the guy has a high body count that's wrong for him to shame a woman
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who has a high body count probably the hypocrisy are you high what did you smoke weed you asked
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every single person if they smoke weed before the show i've never smoked in my life
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I don't know if people started smoking weed in
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you're a catholic muslim so um well my mom's catholic my dad's muslim i don't like to say
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one because if i was just fully muslim i can't do like celebrate like other things with my mom and
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stuff but then i respect my father's side so i guess i just do you go to church do you i've been
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to church i've also been to the mosque okay got it um are there any things that you wanted
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to discuss on the show or i didn't really watch a lot of the videos okay are there well there are
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there things that hot takes on dating anything from you no okay you study political science
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is there anything related to that you said you want to be a lawyer yes okay you are aware it's
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a dating discussion show so are there any topics you'd like to hit on on dating um about dating
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about men how much you hate men that one time you gave a blowjob behind a 7-eleven
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you have a really conservative cast i don't think so i don't
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supposedly yeah i mean because like you guys are older so you have more like
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experience wait you're 19 right yeah bro girl you're in miami
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just because i'm in miami she's in my she's in miami you done live that that's like you might
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as well be 40 in north dakota wait no not uh in ohio keep it here tiffany don't change the angle
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so because where i'm from means like i've been out and about it's fine though
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you're in the only fans capital of like the world i'm aware but it doesn't mean i go out
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like that she also has a muslim dad so that's that's true you know you know all right okay
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next uh anyone else have any disagreements i'm sure some of you wrote some stuff down but
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don't make me have to prompt you i'm trying to think what i wrote what did i write i don't even
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any disagreements i guess um nothing uh i guess anybody i guess like i don't disagree with it but
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the length of time it takes to you know uncover someone's intelligence or not i i don't know i
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guess once we realize that this topic's not going anywhere we can collectively move on from it
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because yes please yeah that's the only thing i have a disagreement sure i heard you were against
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marriage yeah why marriage is very important like the fuck i mean if you think about it even in even
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in like real logical sense like uh social security is going to end in the next 10 years probably
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because there's not enough kids to keep it keep it profitable or even an option on the table
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at the end of the day the only thing that's going to keep us going is our families and I mean you
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probably actually don't have this problem because you're probably wealthy but the only thing that's
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going to keep us going is our families and having strong family units and having kids and and having
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relationships with our parents and making sure that we kind of keep that profitable because
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otherwise the government's not there to rely on anymore so I think that marriage is an important
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factor and i like i think it's something that we should keep keep keep sacred and also push
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in america for sure for sure that's the only thing that's going to keep us alive yeah i'll
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respond to that uh roxy thank you for the gifted five subs uh so you can have a family without
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getting married you can have kids without getting married you can stay with the same woman without
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getting married so i can have all these things without marriage you can but it's a lot harder
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and a lot more volatile 35 percent uh 35 percent more or you see 35 percent more uh abuse and
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cheating in relationships that aren't rooted in marriage than you do anything else yeah but that
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would okay so let me ask you a question uh say you have two people and these people are not
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interchangeable and they can go down two different paths one of those paths is marriage one of those
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paths is staying together forever and not getting married. Is it your contention that abuse would
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be more likely in the instance of these two people if they don't get married? Not necessarily,
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but there are... Right, it's not causative. It wouldn't be causative. Okay, well, if you don't
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get married, you're more likely to abuse your spouse. That doesn't make sense. Well, no,
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but there are... It's more volatile. You can cheat. Things aren't as sacred. You can cheat in
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marriage if if there's uh that's true but there's uh it's hard to leave them well in a marriage yeah
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but it should be harder it should be hard it's actually well it's so from the male perspective
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as the breadwinner it's actually easier for the woman to want to leave if she's married to me
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yes so if i'm married to her i now owe her a financial obligation so if we're going through
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a difficult patch in our relationship, as oftentimes in relationships, you may be going
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through a difficult time. Somebody could be struggling with something. There could be
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arguments, disputes. Obviously, you hope that that's not the case, but sometimes these things
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do happen. If you put a pot of gold in front of a woman and say, okay, well, look, things are kind
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of difficult right now and if you divorce him you get like five hundred thousand dollars
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then it kind of like there's this added financial incentive for the woman to just you know what
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okay uh things are kind of like not the best whatever I'm just gonna get out oh and I get
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a bunch of money too okay the financial incentive is created so I actually think relationships
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without marriage are stronger I guess you could say that but like would you get married with a
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prenup where no prenups are bullshit prenups that uh even with a prenup there are still
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financial obligations you can't just my understanding of prenups is you can't just
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write in the prenup okay you get nothing that doesn't fly that so i'm still on the hook financially
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and that's the same thing as she was saying about uh before like saying i want to get a divorce
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Or in case we get a divorce, you know, I want to keep my job.
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I was literally about to say, they're just there.
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uh chair three should read this okay you're gonna read this next one coming up uh i don't know what
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to name thank you for the tts appreciate it man thank you read it into the mic okay okay
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if she can have these hoes rate themselves one from ten not a single one of us are over
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seven we'll do the looks writing uh later on in the show thank you claim appreciate it
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In a situation where I would owe a woman $2 million
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in the event of like a non-prenup marriage
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Now, that's better than having to pay her $2 million.
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I don't think I should have to pay her anything.
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I don't think I should have to pay the woman anything.
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Now, there are some situations where, for example, say I've been with a woman for 10 years.
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I would voluntarily offer, depending on the circumstances of the ending of the relationship,
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assuming it was mostly amicable there wasn't cheating or infidelity maybe I wanted to get out
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and she did nothing wrong and not you know we whatever assuming we had kids obviously child
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support that's guaranteed and you don't even need to go to court for me I'll pay the child support
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voluntarily we'll do something reasonable I would even pay some additional amount you know in
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alimony in this voluntary situation uh perhaps for a period of maybe depending on how long we
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were together maybe up to three years if we were together for a long period of time
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beyond that though and this would be voluntary i really don't think that past three years
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i should have to be financially responsible for a woman like you can get back on your own feet
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well here's the part that you're missing is that tell me what i'm missing when your husband and
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wife and you guys are together right the woman is there to help you finish the things that you can
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right and like from a religious point of view you know women are the missing rib you know which
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doesn't have to all be religious okay make a secular argument though so what you're missing
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is that a wife pays into your well-being by cooking for you taking care of your house being
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intimate all of those things if she's not making the money she's still paying into your well-being
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which means you are obligated to a certain degree because she wasn't making the money so you do have
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that responsibility it's not like she did nothing because she supported the claim the claim is not
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that women do nothing in relationships and marriage i'm a bit tickled by the woman is
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giving sex and therefore i should financially compensate her i first of all hold on you did
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say intimacy or sex intimacy yes okay well that goes beyond just sex but i think you're referencing
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when you're referencing intimacy you are alluding mostly to sex well that's not true intimacy is a
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lot of different things she's offering you companionship she's offering but i'm offering
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that to her too so should she compensate me for all the dick i'm providing no what i'm saying is
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is that men and women have different roles and when you are financially providing as a man and
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as a woman you're providing the nurture the comfort all of those things and comfort if because that's
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a lot of what women are is just being we are sweet we are naturally emotional human beings
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so part of natural okay there's some really strong uh there's some really strong claims
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going on here so well let me correct myself what i mean is that women typically we are more
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empathetic than men just completely disagree you would disagree i completely disagree more
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emotional than men i absolutely think women are more i think that's part of what i think women
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are suicidally uh they have suicidal empathy so they're like cool with illegal immigrants like
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oh but the illegal immigrants will have their feelings hurt yeah you're empathetic to like
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you're uh in your own peril i guess to your wait what's the right phrasing uh
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what is it proceed at your own caution i don't know so there i don't believe i don't actually
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believe that like women are more empathetic than men well i think that a lot of the times
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women feel things on a more emotional basis than men do not and that's a bad thing i think it's a
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beautiful thing i think that's part of what balances us out men make decisions regardless
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of emotions which is why a lot of you know high business owners are men because they don't care
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what happens to their employees. They don't care what happens. They make the logical decision.
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Women, on the other hand, are typically more empathetic. They're sweeter, but that's been
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made to be a bad thing when it's not. That's part of what makes us beautiful.
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Let's look at the long-term. You provide an example of a business decision where perhaps
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there's a layoff, and you would point towards men's lacking of empathy being the reason for
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why they would do this layoff. However, I would present it like this. A man who is in charge of
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a company, and perhaps it's a collective of men, and they opt to do a layoff, they do so because
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if they don't do the layoff, and look, I understand this is a very nuanced topic, and perhaps it's
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just strictly for, you know, they're not at risk of going bankrupt, but they're making a
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financial determination that if we continue to employ all these people, we will eventually go
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bankrupt, and that means everyone's out of the job. So women in the short term will have empathy
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so as to protect the feelings of some employees.
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But perhaps the determination of doing the layoffs
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is actually to protect the entirety of the business.
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But this would be like a much more future-oriented empathy technically from the men
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because they're like, okay, we want to actually protect the long-term interests of our corporation.
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In this case, when it comes to the nation, for example,
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I would argue if men are more against illegal immigration than women, this is actually the more empathetic position because we have empathy for our fellow citizens, whereas women have, like, these short-term, like, oh, but it makes illegal immigrants feel bad.
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Yeah, I mean, I agree with what you're saying on that, and I'm not saying that men are just cold-hearted, unempathetic things.
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I'm saying that men and women, we are very different in different ways in that it's not a bad thing to be somebody who is empathetic or those things.
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But a lot of the times, like if we were all out, like I saw this thing, it was like seven women went into the jungle, seven men went into the jungle, right?
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And they had to like try to survive or whatever.
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They went and they killed pigs and ate them.
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But the women were about to die because they didn't want to kill the pigs.
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They weren't able to do anything because they were just lost.
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it's showing that one of us has to be able to be able to make a decision in a tough time
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and another one of us needs to have some sort of emotion sympathy all of those other things
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because that's what makes us a unit that's what makes us work as a society we need we seem like
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a liability though to men at this point a lot of women are crazy okay so i that's our that's
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our stronghood i'm so sorry but our strength is the fact that we can procreate and produce the
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next people absolutely but as far as what we can do for men it's like okay they can pay for a lot
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of these things to happen and they are in the form of a woman in the home as a wife and i'm not saying
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that we are like paid to be there but at the same time like he could be going and paying for sex he
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could go pay for food he could go pay for this and that so yeah all we really do is make children
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but yeah our strong suit is childbearing at the same time what is well our strong suit is child
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self-bearing and educating and nurturing the next generation yeah but that's really that's really
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at the end of the day we don't offer much to our husband but they don't our husband
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that's not true our husband provides for us we could provide for us so that we can we can educate
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our children but we shouldn't have to and and absolutely we shouldn't have to a man should be
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there to provide for us and me as a as a woman like i would have trouble i would have trouble
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Well, and Brian, because this is directed at you, why are you against marriage?
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Like, do you think that you'll find a high value woman that doesn't want to marry you that will be willing to have you provide and give you children?
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I do want to get back to what you said, but I'll address your thing first.
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So I would agree that my apprehension to marriage, not just apprehension, but complete refusal to get married would probably turn off some women in the sense that they're like, oh, marriage isn't on the table.
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So I understand that certainly it's the case that my anti-marriage position will close the door for some women who are like gung-ho, 100%, I need to be married.
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I also do believe that the value proposition is high enough.
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Like, it's not like, okay, all high-value women will refuse to get into a relationship, date a man, if he is an interest in marriage.
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So there's a subset of high-value women who marriage is 100% a necessity.
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And there's another subset of high-value women who are like, nah, I don't need to get married, you know, don't really care about that.
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you're bringing X, Y, Z to the table. That's enough for me. I don't need marriage. So, I mean,
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yes, I will acknowledge that it will close the door for some women. Um, but also like I would,
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I would ask you this in a situation where if the value proposition is high enough,
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so a woman has to make this determination. She can get married, but she can get married to a guy
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who has an average income. She's going to have to work the entirety of her life, or I guess she
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could, you might frame it as taking a gamble on me where she's with me and she never has to work
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a day in her life. So the woman has to make a determination there. If a woman chooses to date
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me, I'm a high earner. I'm not going to state exactly how much I make, but it's enough that
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whoever I'm with will never have to work a day in her life. Everything will be taken care of,
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the rent, the house, the food, the childcare, everything. Well, hold on. I was about to say
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childcare, not the childcare, um, either private school or, you know, everything will be taken
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care of financially. So she can balance these two things. Okay. Well, do I marry a guy who, uh,
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I can get married to a guy who makes a hundred thousand dollars a year, 50, 50,000, $70,000 a
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year, but I'm going to have to work. Or do I roll the dice on Brian, not get married, but live a
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life uh possibly well superior in terms of the financial component anyways the woman's gonna
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have to make that determination also six foot one blue eyes does she get a ceremony that's true
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but also vikings are in now you have to think about who's going to be raising your children
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so do you want someone who who's willing to like who who maybe doesn't strong such hold
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hold such strong values um on certain things or or you know maybe they they're they think
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feminism is somewhat real and you have kids with them and i'm not saying that that's what you would
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do but i'm just saying an example like do you if you're you're potentially getting someone with
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lesser values who are going to raise your children because you are not willing to compromise on
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marriage what do you mean lesser values like there's a potential that someone who holds who
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holds if they're if they don't value marriage then there's a potential that they don't value
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other things as well like like i don't understand i don't even know so the the assumption here being
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that women who value marriage are good people but that is not true like that is not not true
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this idea that like okay just by virtue of her being like wanting marriage or it being a deal
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breaker for her or her that that this then means that she is a virtuous high value person this is
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completely not the case so but i'm assuming you're already going for like a certain certain level
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and then you're looking at someone who who values marriage and wants marriage and they have they have
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um they have better values that you want to transfer to your children and she's going to
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be raising your children and then you have this other you have this other girl who doesn't really
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care but she she thinks that it's maybe it's okay to sleep around or maybe it's okay if her kids
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her kids don't or her kids sleep around or whatever um the woman who wants marriage can
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also be low virtue that's so it's not like it's not going to be some great filtering process for
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me to find a woman who like needs to be married and this is going to mean that she's like highly
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of a highly virtuous person just on her desire to get married no you're right and so at the end
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of the day i bet when you find the woman you're gonna want to marry her i bet well so also the
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the other distinction i would make is there's the religious ceremony and then there's the legal
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component of it look if it was important to who i'm with that there's a religious ceremony that
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isn't like legally binding yeah that's what for ceremonial purposes i would consider it
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i might be open to that if there's not like some legally binding component to it maybe
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I also feel like it can be financially wasteful.
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That money should go to our kids for our future.
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That's where the money should go, not some big celebration.
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The approach to marriage from a solipsistic perspective of some women is it's my special day.
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like that actually i think the woman who is desirous of i want the spectacle i want that
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like y'all want what what's that famous saying uh y'all want to be married but you don't want
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to be wives i think it's something along those lines like you want the celebration you want all
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the attention but like what does that actually mean to be married to be a wife that goes beyond
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just some one day bullshit fucking celebration um 100 so i don't know um i agree but
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yeah ultimately you know if if there was a ceremony and it was a couple hours and
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it wasn't too expensive yeah that'd probably be fine but if she wants some big big wedding with
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all the blah if her parents will pay for it i mean i mean i assume that you're already not
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parents are supposed to pay for it yeah but you're not gonna date or even consider starting a life
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with the woman who wants all of that crap anyway well i think it's okay it's not necessarily a
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deal breaker if she wants those things but i think there would be a component of um you have to
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unplug somebody from the from the matrix 100 and um i do think that there's a degree of
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unplugging a woman from like a certain degree of vanity that I think permeates much of culture
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so like for example you okay I'm not gonna um well you're very plastic surgery oriented your
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appearance is basically the central focus of your life and you've spent hundreds of thousands of
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dollars to that end yes but so if i was dating a woman i probably well i wouldn't opt to date a
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woman who has a slant towards that level of self-indulgent vanity no offense not that you
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would date me either of course um but i do think there there is a degree of programming when you
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meet somebody and you might say this is like toxic or controlling i think that we've been
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propagandized. There's like, there's the Disney component, women thinking that life's a fucking
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Disney movie and Prince Charming is going to come and everything's going to be rainbows and flowers
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and all that shit. Um, there are going to be difficult things that you're going to go through
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in life. You're going to, there's going to be illnesses and this is in your family. Uh, your
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boyfriend, girlfriend's going to deal with illnesses. You're going to see them at lows at
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highs. And I think there's a degree of, you have to like undo the programming from, from Disney,
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from feminist propaganda all this shit yeah uh and then just the vapid vanity of a lot of people
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it has to be undone so one of the things that i think i would do uh it's not necessarily wrong
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for a woman to want to be married but i'm like okay look the the rules as it relates the court
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are as follows you could cheat on me with you could get gang banged the next day go to the
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courthouse, divorce me, and I have to pay you alimony for 20 years. That's ridiculous. The laws
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are terrible. If you want people to start getting married, you guys should be advocating for a
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change of the laws. But that's never going to happen. There's a huge industry, the judges,
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the lawyers. It's a massive, like, they want, and these are the people that draft the laws.
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there's a huge industry surrounding divorce and marriage etc
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they don't want anything to change so i don't know um but i wanted to go back to you you said
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what is the woman or we were talking about what the woman is bringing and you said the intimacy
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not just that what i was i understand there's other things that women bring she's paying into
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your success paying into my success absolutely but so i absolutely pay into to everything
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all of those different things. Are you not there for him
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I'm confused what you're saying. Wait, let me ask
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can I ask you and maybe the other women can answer this question are you more often consoling him
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on something or is he consoling you on something consoling me oh my god so this is this oh we're
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the nurturers but it's actually the men that are constantly having to soothe it's men who
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But it's men who are soothing the woman most of the time.
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So this idea that women are the nurturers, it's ridiculous.
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You're only talking about one aspect of nurturing.
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You're not talking about being there as a support system or even having children.
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But your argument was that you were saying that you shouldn't have to give X amount of money
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if they weren't working or whatever what i'm saying is that she paid into your success by
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being if she was a good wife a good partner to you helping build you up build me up therefore
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that doesn't you don't get to just completely nix her once she's out of the let me ask you a
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question let's say i had a girlfriend i've been doing this podcast since 2022 let's say i've been
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dating a girl she was there from the beginning okay just dating though okay do i owe her money
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Because in the end dating it can be as simple as
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A piece of paper makes it all a changed situation
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If you're living together for an extended amount of time, you are interlocked with that person.
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A marriage is, I don't necessarily think that you have to have like a legal binding contract for things to be, for it to be a marriage.
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There is common law, but I think marriage is you looking at someone and saying, I want to be with you for the rest of my life and I'm going to do whatever I have to do through ups and downs and highs and lows.
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And when you have that level of commitment, that's different from just dating.
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so yes a girlfriend can do those things but you haven't made that commitment to her that's the
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difference well so but good i guess what do you what do you mean i mean my perspective is if i
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have children with a woman and the relationship's good absent things degrading significantly like
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that's i'm with you forever that's my if we have kids i'm with you forever okay yeah or i'll know
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if she's infertile but i love her i'm with you forever exactly maybe i'll make some marriage
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maybe we'll adopt or no not adopt i need biological children what did you when you said when you asked
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about cheating what do you mean so if if someone if let's say my husband cheated on me what would
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my stance be on that is that what you were going to ask um i'm trying to remember why i i blurted
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out uh cheating there in and what will the context was in response to what you were saying
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um yeah I forgot unfortunately marriage is about sex like and at the end of the day Brian probably
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wouldn't be yeah what Brian wouldn't be saying all this stuff is if women weren't so crazy
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and he probably would want to marry someone but women are very volatile right now um and they're
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very like me me me me me and that's just how it is um but also there's a promiscuity problem
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marriage used to be about sex and it used to be about the covenant of of being being with each
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other and also being married so that you can have sex and have children and that's what it's about
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at the end of the day like and um so if again if we weren't having this promiscuity problem
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either in the world where we can just have sex whenever we want and it's not that important and
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it's not an actual soul bond like I believe with what you're saying marriage is a bond but that
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comes through sex if you don't have sex with your partner or with your husband you're you're gonna
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to feel off you're gonna feel disconnected when I don't have sex with my husband I feel way
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disconnected from him and we talk about it like we both agree it's a bond that you get when you
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have sex and it should only happen after marriage and I'm not saying that I that's not where the
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culture is today but it should be um but that's what marriage is about it's about sex and he
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wouldn't be saying all this if there wasn't a promiscuity problem if there wasn't this modern
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feminist problem like so we shouldn't have sex until marriage i think ideally yes and i didn't
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do that but but ideally yes i know that but i feel like we've been talking about how like all
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the problems come from females but also nowadays men aren't as manly as they used to that's because
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of females that's because of feminism that is because of feminism what did we do to make them
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not be we decided to focus on ourselves instead of focusing on our relationship women have always
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they can't they have to call yeah now they don't have responsibility yeah because now they don't
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feel like they have responsibility in their house they don't feel like they should be taking care
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of you because you slept around because you you post your body on the internet they don't feel
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like they should be taking care of you 100 they don't have responsibility i can do that but they
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can't that's ridiculous usually people with inspirations cry about the fact that you didn't
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call them back women don't clean women aren't submissive women aren't chased virgins on their
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wedding night so look i understand look i have criticisms criticisms of men men are lacking in
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certain areas and facets there's no doubt there uh women are too and i think one of the ways one
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of the ways men well also this idea that like society has changed such that uh people used to
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be very um perhaps the the sort of jack of all trades used to be a bit more common where men
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were a bit more handy, you're saying. I don't know if I completely, but also like the ways in which
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men make money now has changed. So I don't know if I completely subscribe to this idea that
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if a man doesn't know how to do like a given handyman project, that this is necessarily
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an indictment of his lacking of masculinity. He could very well be lacking in masculinity
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and not know how to change, you know, X, Y, Z, or do this specific fix.
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But I don't know if it's necessarily an entire indictment over masculinity
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because he doesn't know how to do one thing or the other.
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Because I think masculinity, you might say, well, these are perhaps important basic life skills for men to have.
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But I think masculinity in its essence is something that just transcends.
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Like, for example, let's go back to, like, a thousand years where there weren't, like, home appliances and there weren't cars and there weren't car tires to be changed.
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Were men lacking in masculinity before these pretty modern inventions of modernity?
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Right, but so this idea that masculinity is somehow tied specifically to being able to, like, know how to hang up a TV or something.
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but like feminine femininity is also tied to knowing how to do certain roles that a woman
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is supposed to know how to do like well i know how to bake i'm sorry i know how to bake i know
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how to cook i know how to clean i know how to raise children i still breastfeed my children
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my daughter uh i handle stuff at home and i can like do drywall i can do like everything at home
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i can do all of those things at home too so does that make me masculine because i know how to do
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those things am i more feminine because i know how to bake sourdough bread like what is it that
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defines femininity and masculinity if not for just the two roles that we're supposed to be
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conducting and that's men are supposed to protect and provide and women are supposed to uh nourish
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and bear children and just keep the freaking thing going dudes like they they used to go out into the
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out of the cave so they can hunt for food if the woman had to go do that she would be coming back
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and there would be no mother, there would be no more
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like, there needs to be specific things that men
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change attire, that's wonderful, but is he providing
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to do it yourself? Is he, like, calling and be like,
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oh, tell your dad to do it? Like, what is the role
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of this man and what do you accept as a woman and what do you provide as a woman you can't just say
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i give him sex or you know bake him cookies or whatever it's literally are you raising his kids
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the way you're supposed to raise his kids and are you being a wife and a helper in the home anything
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you do outside of that is i said trimming me being here right now is thanks to my husband
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i cannot sit around here drive away from my children and like without his consent period
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end of story does that make me less of a i don't know independent person in the bible it never says
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anything that a woman can't do anything she just says she has to submit to her husband to his will
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what he wants out of this where he's leading the family um does it say that she can't guide him no
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as a matter of fact that's what we're there for we're supposed to guide we have intuition that
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men don't have um and we we do things that are different than men and we have to be proud of
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that as not even proud sorry remove that word we have to honor our role as women so they can honor
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so they can do their role as men if they're out there worrying about us as their women they're
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not going to provide it properly if he's cool if he's calm if he's chilling his home life is good
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his wife is not out there you know like a thought or whatever and the thought doesn't have to be
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a thought is a thought period you already know what a thought is she's someone that's out there
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she may not have been even having sex with people but the fact that she's throwing herself out there
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and getting like we have this woman that walks around in our neighborhood with these hot pink
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tights and like breasts sticking out and last time i saw her husband was walking behind her like 10
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feet she was walking her two big ass dalmatians and like just strutting her stuff and then he's
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walking like 15 feet behind her with this tiny little yorkie and i realized what the situation
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is this woman's constantly trying to seek attention from our neighborhood men and that's the kind of
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husband she has the one that walks behind her uh as she's like you know being pulled by these
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dalmatians it's a scene it's a scene you know i'm sorry and she has no regard for other women that
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live in the neighborhood either because it's like what are you trying to do you know your husband's
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at home what are you trying to do with your hot pink pants you can't tell me you're just working
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out i'm so sorry you can't tell me that i sit down and i look at it and so let's go back to
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the marriage thing though um so i guess what's your argument well my hot take initially was that
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men aren't men anymore and women aren't women anymore sure we all have our values way jumbled
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and mixed up and is marriage gonna fix that though no what i'm saying i'm not even necessarily just
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talking about specifically with marriage like i well that was the original thing that was the
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original thing we were talking about but you're saying i want to get keep it to marriage okay
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So you were saying the woman provides intimacy and cooks and cleans and takes care of the household supports and provides children, but it's like, is that worthy of hat? Like having to pay her? Okay. So if you're the soul, it's worth it. No, no, no. But hold on. So you get paid by not having to pay for things. That's your payment in the moment.
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If you break up with me, am I continuing to derive what you're bringing?
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So why should I continue post-breakup if you cease immediately?
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Why should I have to continue paying you money one year, two year, three year down the road after you've been dicked down by three other men in that time period?
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You're getting fucked by some other dude and I got to pay for your dates.
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That's a really, that's a really good valid point.
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I think that the place that I'm more coming from is that a lot of men nowadays think that they have no responsibility for their wives or their children or whatever.
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And they, as soon as they're out of the picture and they divorce, they just think they get to do pretty much whatever they want.
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And there's no wanting to make sure the mother of their children is okay, that their children are living well, all of those things.
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So with what you're saying that your end of the deal stopped, I shouldn't have to continue to pay you.
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I'm not saying you should be paid alimony for 10, 15 years.
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But if a husband is like a business owner, right, his wife absolutely deserves some of the credit of him being able to have such a successful business by being his partner.
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I don't think a lot of successful men will say that they could not have gotten to where they got without their wives.
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They're helpers. They're there to finish the gaps where he is missing.
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That's just like an empty, that's a completely empty platitude that men say, like to sort of bolster up their wives or whatever.
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Look, I'm not discounting the value that like women provide, especially if they're like taking care of things at the home and making a man's life easier.
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But the idea that we're going to attribute a man's success to his girlfriend or to his wife, that's basically bullshit.
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But the marriage laws don't discriminate between, oh, well, she was with him from day one, versus, oh, you're marrying fucking LeBron James, and he's been playing basketball for 10 years, and he's already worth it.
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I never once said that I agreed with all the marriage laws, or that that should be the case.
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If you got married right now and then got a divorce, that you should have to pay her.
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look all these nba players did the women shoot the shot no that's all the man like i understand
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look it's nice to have a girlfriend and it's nice to if she brings you peace and she's your
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companion that's nice but in terms of the men's like overarching success they don't like
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they don't contribute well i guess then if we could just talk about then if you're married and
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you have children. Being a wife, you are taking care of the children so that way the husband can
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go to work and do those things. Otherwise, he would be less successful if he was having to pay
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for daycare and having to do it completely solo. He'd be stretched very thin. He'd be very tired,
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all of those things. He wouldn't be able to be an adequate father, an adequate businessman,
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none of those things, because he would be stretched so thin. He needs that help.
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So if he receives that help, his business is better off. All those different, there is a
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contribution there and it's not measurable in the same way as money that's what i'm getting at is
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that there is a contribution well somebody has to take care of the kids if the kids in daycare
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what are you doing during the day you're missing one of the kids no you said right so i'm saying
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if he was a single i'm saying if he was a single dad and the mother was not in the picture at all
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and he would have to put the kids in in daycare if he wanted to you know or find a job to take
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them with them some that's possible optionable as well yeah that's what i'm getting my daughter
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with me too yeah that's what i'm getting at so i look again i said i would voluntarily if i was
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dating a woman and we weren't married and you know there wasn't like any major drama or anything
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related to the breakup or whatever i would just voluntarily assist her for a period of time
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not indefinitely perhaps you know i would determine it on a you know i think up to three
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years is probably pretty reasonable on top of child support um if needed but like i don't know
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this this uh this idea that like okay i'm gonna have to i have to give her half and i have to
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she's gonna get all this money that's completely ridiculous and i think it's a question i think
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it's a even a woman who takes off work like it's still a windfall to not have had like you guys
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view it as a detriment oh my god she didn't have to work i'm like you got rent food all your needs
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taken care of for years and you didn't have to work i mean look i understand uh taking care of
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the kids sometimes that's stressful you have to go through the pregnancy that you know has xyz
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impact i understand that however i view it as like what like a lot of women can't well most men don't
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make enough money for that to even be the reality for for the woman to not work but so i view it
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like as this was a beneficial time period for the woman she didn't have to fucking work works
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typically like sucks so then i i have a question for you then what your personal opinion would be
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if so you know my husband and i have been together since we were 16 right i have not
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worked since i was 18 we have two kids together let's say when we're 50 we've been together all
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this time. I have not had a job since I was 18. Let's say we're 50 years old. We end up getting
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a divorce. He built a business, all of those things. What do you think of fair, what would
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be the fair distribution after that? I'm looking for the right word. What, what would that look
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like? Do you think it should just be a three year? Should it, what, what would that be?
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Uh, do you have kids? I have two kids. You have two kids with him. Yes. Okay. And when,
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how old were you when you had your first kid 18 18 okay uh and you stay at home yes and he works
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yes so he's the sole breadwinner yes okay uh so you're saying in a situation where you guys were
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not married from my like how would i know i'm saying if since we are we are married so i'm
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saying if we stayed together right until we were 50 and then we split i think alimony i could be
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wrong i don't know all the laws with alimony but i think they base it off the years you've been
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together, they decide the percentage or whatever, but you're saying you have an issue with the
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alimony laws. So I'm asking what would be fair? How long should he be entitled to take care of
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you're 50, right? I'm 50. Uh, so, I mean, I'm assuming your kids are adults. 14 years at that
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point. Okay. I mean, from 18, it's like 14 years of freedom of like, what are you doing? Okay. So
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that was fine. Uh, you, the kids are out of the house. Um, well, before I answer, what should he,
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that's a very long time to be married that's what 30 plus years of marriage you've been out of the
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workforce for a long time is it your position that he should be uh basically paying you alimony until
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you die or until he dies i suppose i think that's i think that's really really hard because that
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would probably be the case well i think it would depend you know if i cheated on him or whatever
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the court wouldn't care if you cheated though which i don't agree with i think that they should
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If I cheated and broke our marriage vows, I think I should be pretty much nixed of anything that I would be.
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Perhaps you're a good woman and you think that, but there are plenty of women who cheat on their husbands and they still feel entitled to alimony and they'll still fucking destroy him financially.
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but definitely if you're married and the woman's cheating like yeah women are pretty ruthless in
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divorce and they're gonna take they're gonna get as much money as they can well i think that if i
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you know didn't work since i was 18 and i was 50 and no one would hire me i made the sacrifice
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of staying home it would be harder to get a job to be able to survive on myself absolutely
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but that's also to the point i made earlier you should be careful about who you marry but
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regardless i i guess i'm just having a hard time understanding where you would draw that line and
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what you think a fair compensation yeah sure i mean obviously it's not a one-size-fits-all
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scenario here i referenced three years but that was more so in the context perhaps of a 10 to 20
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year marriage in this case you got married incredibly young uh he's young too you're same
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age right yeah we're both 20 you're both young uh from like 16 and if you're out of the workforce
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from the get-go up until the age of 50, I would say from a, like, if I was voluntarily in this
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situation, I was voluntarily considering giving alimony, I would say perhaps longer than the
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three-year period in that specific situation that you presented could or would be warranted.
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But lifelong, I mean, if you guys end up living another 30 years, you live till 30 or live till
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80 or whatever he lives till 80 uh it seems like and it i guess the other thing that would weigh in
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is like who's initiating it do you like that would kind of weigh in if it's like you that wants out
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i feel like the duration should perhaps be shorter if you're just there's no abuse there's no
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cheating you're just vaguely unhappy as sometimes women are and you're just like look you know i
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don't know for the, you know, you're not abusing me. You're not cheating. Kids are, you treat the
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kids well. They're, they're out of the house. I kind of want to get some new dick. I'm like,
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all right, here's six months. Good, goodbye. You know, but if he wants to end it, but you've been
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good and you want to keep it together longer period, like a longer period, you know, could be
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five years maybe longer but i don't know you can get back on your feet for sure you can get back
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on your feet i mean it it would be difficult but yes it's possible of course but you just get a
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typical easy job or something yeah but you just you just even just said yourself that it's hard
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for just a man to solely provide and that yeah women are in the workforce now too and that it's
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it's hard to survive off one income in a family yeah i mean in the end nobody has it seems as of
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recently no one has money for anything unless you're very very wealthy the economy's hard i
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mean all of those different things but i think being out of the workforce for such a long time
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it would be really really hard to start from scratch that would be but you basically start
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imagine you were just 18 you're basically starting as if you're 18 years old
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yeah which there really isn't like an argument that's coming from me i'm more just asking what
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your thought would be on long-term marriages in that situation or if I guess if two people
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were married right and let's say you got married or whatever and you cheated on her right should
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that change the amount of alimony that you would have to pay or would it just be if you cheated
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and wanted to wanted a divorce would that change what you would have to pay her since you did
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something to break the marriage so if I was married yeah if you were married and you cheated
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on her do you think that your alimony payment should change based on whether you cheated or not
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uh i think if i was at fault for the first off i mean she could of course forgive me
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but um because you're just that guy right well i'm not necessarily saying that but um
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well really quick on the cheating thing so look cheating is bad
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but i believe and you guys are not going to like this i don't think anyone any of you will like
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this i believe that you can still love your woman and cheat on her yeah i'm not saying you should
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cheat cheating is wrong cheating is bad i'm just saying it's a bit different if a woman cheats
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she does not love you whoa a man cheating a man cheating which again i'm not saying cheating is
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good you should not cheat i don't agree i think for men it's just i needed the bus to not
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it's completely different i think you can love your girlfriend and fuck other women
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i'm hey just saying it what if what if the girl isn't like getting her sexual needs from her
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partner and girls like sex too that's wait i'm not wait i'm not arguing i'm not saying that i'm
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not saying that i don't understand so you're okay well you're changing it to women have needs too i
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don't understand he's saying men are more emotional no well she just said what if the woman's sexual
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needs aren't being met then it's not about love and she just slept with somebody else because she
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needed to have sex which is the argument you're making for men is that it's just it's different
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so she's asking what if a woman isn't getting her sexual needs met can she still love her
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significant other and sleep with somebody else i don't want to like speak for it but that's what
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we're trying to get at wait into the mics guys into the mics that's literally what i was trying
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to say because i've been in relationships where like the last few months of our relationship like
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we did not have sex at all whatsoever but then it's like the whole comfortable thing right and
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like not wanting to be alone so you're like well i'm not having sex with this person but
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they're also there and like yes i understand that women have sexual desire and that um
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if her like sexual needs are not being met in a relationship but she still like loves the guy but
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it's a dead bedroom yes plausibly she could still be in love with a man and go cheat like i i'm not
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saying this definitively in all instances but as a sort of general principle like if a man fucks
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another woman he can still be in love with his girl whereas like in most instances when a woman
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cheats on her man she does not love the dude she does not love him sounds like a lifetime movie
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huh i don't know i don't know it's different i agree with brian though that's besides the point
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yeah i agree you don't no i agree i think men are just like more lustful than like if a girl
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if a girl loves you she only wants to be with you and if she wants to fuck around something wrong
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with her yeah whereas like a guy you could love a woman and you know she's hot it would take a lot
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more for a woman to cheat and usually it would be because they felt unloved in their house or in
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their home rather than they felt felt like they weren't their needs weren't being met at the end
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of the day but that doesn't mean that you don't love your partner i i think that i think you would
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fall out of love before you went and cheated for sure and if you don't then i think that there's
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there's it would be more of like a sex addiction for the women than anything else we have shaz
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to further prove brian's point about women being incentivized monetarily to file divorce
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kentucky got rid of no fault divorce and made everything 50 50 and their divorce rates plummeted
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go figure go figure okay uh wait everything 50 50 interesting then at that rate it depends on
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the state you're in for if you have to pay out money. Could you read this one, Mr. Northumberland?
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Thank you, man. Appreciate it. Yeah, if you can. First, should gender roles exist outside of
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relationships? If men are expected to intervene on behalf of any random woman in trouble,
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aka a protector, is there anything that women should do for any random man? If nothing,
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should there be anything that women aren't allowed to do? That's a good question. So here,
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The first part of it is, show of hands, do you think men should intervene on behalf of a random woman in trouble?
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So say a woman's getting beat up by a man, do you think a random man should try to intervene?
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Is there anything that women should do for a random man?
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If your neighbor got a divorce, you should make him dinner.
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No, but you should make him dinner or cookies or something like that.
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like there's if a man no but if a man falls short it's like not fall short but you got to put your
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life at risk for random women women you gotta make some cookies i think women should be a lot
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more respected towards men men don't get enough respect randomly just on the streets yeah when
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do you hear a man getting cat called and complimented when do you hear us appreciating
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them in the same regard that you know and then we we say here and we don't appreciate it because
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we don't like the attention that we're getting from that certain male like oh he can't call me
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because he's ugly, ew, if he was hot, you'd be like, okay, man, type shit, like, the other thing
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I wanted to address, I guess, moving off of the marriage stuff, I have not, here, maybe final
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thing on the marriage, look, I could list all the negatives, right, I could list the financial
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ramifications, I can, you know, I mentioned that I believe that it actually creates an incentive
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for the woman to end the relationship, if she gets a fuck ton of money, creates like a massive
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financial incentive putting those aside tell me the benefits to the man like what how did what's
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the benefit to the man to get married like what's the benefit we put up with them no no benefit for
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the man what do i get like happiness when you're trying to when you're trying to sell somebody when
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you're trying to influence somebody when you're trying to get someone to do something you typically
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I don't know, if I'm trying to, if I'm trying to
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characteristics and you're going to look really cool in the car
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It is a loving commitment and a bond between you and someone else.
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I would love my girlfriend, and I'm committed to my girlfriend.
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If you just say, you have to have a consequence.
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Brian, I could look at you and say, I commit to you, but there's no legitimate backbone to it.
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When you're married, though, there is a backbone to it.
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And then the very next day, no, we signed the piece of paper.
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And then the very next day, I can get another piece of paper from the courthouse and be like, well, fuck this shit.
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If I have children with a woman, a woman would have to change quite a bit and fuck up for it to be over.
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What you're saying with you being so against marriage because, oh, they can just split up so easily after and they win from it,
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is just like what you were saying, that women are like, oh, I don't want to leave my job just in case.
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It's also like saying that a relationship shouldn't have commitment, loyalty, all those same aspects that a marriage would have too.
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But you guys think that the marriage, but divorces happen all the time.
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So it's like this idea that marriage prevents or marriage protects the commitment.
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Like what you were saying, sex is what marriage is.
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And that when you have sex, you have children.
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That commitment comes from you guys having sex together
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These women jumping from dick to dick to dick
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My husband and I couldn't have sex for a while
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My husband didn't go have sex with other people
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That's not at all the argument I'm making.
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No, I'm saying, like, when you're a virgin,
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and then you have sex, if two virgin people have sex...
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Are you actually a virgin or are you just kidding?
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I'm going to actually do a live stream series soon called 40-Year-Old Virgin so I can try
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I'll just walk around trying to lose my virginity.
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something you catch in the air and i'm a virgin too the commitment is look i don't know but okay
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you're just jumping through a hoop with the marriage thing the marriage does not maybe a
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long time ago where you lived in a small tribe or you know a city and everyone was religious and
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everyone was virgins and they got married and then there's like massive social stigma from your
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family, and if you, maybe if the guy was beating on you, but women will just, let me ask the women
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question here. Please be honest. Your husband does not cheat on you. He does not abuse you
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physically or verbally. He doesn't abuse you. He's great to the kids. You are completely out
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of love with him you are not happy but he he's not mistreating you but you're definitely not
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in love with him you don't want to fuck him anymore should you divorce like are you okay
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in that circumstance of no ending the relationship no show of hands raise of hands you're all liars
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you're all liars okay not all of you but i feel like some of you are like yeah if she's not happy
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that's fine no because if you have children and like i said if you've made this commitment there
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are highs and lows in every relationship what if there's no children though yeah leave i mean once
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again there are highs and lows in every relationship you're married well i mean i don't know if there's
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no children you are married like till death do us part yes the only reason but you guys were
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intimate together you guys had sex together and you have highs and lows in a relationship so one
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day you can hate their fucking guts and the next day you're happy again there's no you can't make
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permanent decisions off of temporary feelings which is what society has done with everything
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period of not being in love she fell out of love a year ago should she divorce i mean would you
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divorce no i wouldn't because i think that there's a lot more to unpack to that and we do have
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children i've made that commitment to my husband i have children there's more that goes into falling
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out of love that could be a me issue that could be a him issue but i think you should try to make
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that work before you sit and say oh well i'm getting the fuck out of here sorry of course
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people have that should be people's bonds now is there's no commitment to anything there's
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do whatever you feel in the moment do whatever you want to do right now oh you feel this way
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about yourself do this there's no long-term thinking on anything anybody does anymore
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okay but sell me marriage it's hard to do without religion we need to convince them on christianity
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Sell you marriage without it being religious.
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Well, first off, you get a source of peace if she's a good...
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So then I guess marriage isn't to be sold, it's to be told.
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You get a tax write-off when you're with a woman.
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after legal. Not worth it. Not worth it. I don't even know if that's true, but not worth
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it. It's at least a true aspect. Okay. So you're, is you say you get peace. So you're
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saying that prior to marriage and she's my girlfriend, she's being a bitch. But then
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once we get married, she's all lovey dovey. Well, I never made that argument when I'm
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saying you, I'm asking you, what do I get from marriage? And you said peace. So is she
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a bitch before we're married? No, but there's a peace and being in a unity with somebody
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That's all she needs to know, you're my girl, that's it, we're together
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Which is if you're having sex and you have kids
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When you know somebody and you get comfortable with somebody
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But there's a peace that comes with it when it's the person that you're having sex with.
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I would feel more insecure if I was married than if I just had a girlfriend.
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That's probably because you're an insecure person.
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It's that, hmm, if I'm just dating a girl and things don't work out, peace.
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If we're married and shit doesn't work out, oh, fuck.
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But everything you've mentioned so far has been money
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has been money that's it yeah that's the because the label changes the money that is the primary
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objection like i it's not just the money like well and also with what you said you'd be insecure if
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you were married but there's a security that comes through when you go through ups and downs with your
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husband for example which i can have i can have ups and downs with my girlfriend but there's what
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do i get what do i get from marriage for men what do i get what do i get from marriage that i can't
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have with a long-term girlfriend marriage is a social construct you and you only i can get that
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with a girlfriend your answer is nothing that's that's a relationship boundary you're discussing
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there is no actual glue to it people cheat in marriages yeah they're violating that that glue
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that unity hold on if i if if i have a girlfriend and i'm i we have an overt conversation about
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exclusivity and i'm like hey we're just sleeping with each other right from here on out and she
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says yes she is now violating that marriage like what so the verbal contract she's violating exactly
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and marriage is also a contract which can be broken but marriage is so much more than just
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a verbal contract it's a yeah it's a legal car it's a legal contract it's spiritual
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And you have children, they're also a part of that contract
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they do but he even said he would do a spiritual marriage just not a legal marriage
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which at the end of the day legal is just financially binding honestly yeah which at
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the end of the day would satisfy what you're saying without putting him in a contract that
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would actually make him liable to give up 50 of everything that he's done when when especially
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when he's already built something without a woman which for you it's different you you guys are
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building a life together and that's stronger but yeah you know like that's it wouldn't be the same
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I can say whatever I want, but you have made it very clear that there is nothing that would budge that.
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The fact that you would be making a sacred promise and that's not enough for you.
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Of course I think marriage is a sacred thing.
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I absolutely think it is because you go through the ups and the downs and the highs and lows with one person.
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that's not but i don't care about um idealism i i'm looking at the reality of the world
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and looking at descriptors so descriptively marriage is not treated as sacred by the vast
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not i'm not gonna say vast majority i think it is um when you start accounting for certain things
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And there's like, I don't know, was it 40%, 50% of marriages end in divorce?
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Now, people are going to say, well, you're going to have to include people who get married for a second, third time,
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and those marriages are at a much higher risk of divorce than like first-time marriages.
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First-time marriages, I do believe, are not a majority, they're a minority, but it's still exceptionally high.
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There's a 30% chance that the parachute doesn't deploy.
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I mean, what would I get from jumping out of the plane?
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Well, I mean, that's a really hard and very generalized question
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because with everything in life, there's risks.
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Okay, there's a 30% chance, you don't get anything from jumping out of the airplane.
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There's a 30% chance that the parachute does not deploy.
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Would you even bother to jump out of the airplane or go up in the sky?
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So I think I have my answer and how I can answer this.
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I think that we all, besides religion, there really isn't a reason for you to get married.
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However, there is, but there is a moral compass that we all have.
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If you could say besides religion, can you tell me what is immoral about me staying with
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a woman forever and having seven kids with her and not being married versus marrying
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because then you're not protecting your children and your wife and through a legal bound like
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and a spiritual bound okay well first off there's all kinds of legal documents you can you can sign
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you can have a last will and testament event that i i die i can okay well this is my um this child
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is legally mine so there's a state planning that you can do uh even if you're married you should
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So men get nothing from marriage. Or the breadwinner, anyways,
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You gotta ask somebody that's married, Brian,
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who wasn't married before you got to ask a man that question because when you say you get nothing
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out of it because you've already supplied everything you need for your life to run smoothly
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and the woman is just going to be in addition to the trimming to your life uh but men who got
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married maybe have a different answer for you maybe they're uh love being at home and raising
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their children with their wife and that's the team that they've built have children without marriage
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And you can have all that without marriage
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And the piece of paper is doing the raising of your child
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You set it up for your child to be taken care of
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no we're not talking about that yeah what if your wife doesn't stay with you this would it would
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have to equally apply to whether she's your girlfriend or your wife can women leave when
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they're married answer yes can women leave when she's just your girlfriend answer yes if she's
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cohabitating with you does she still have the same uh i guess rules a wife would have what do
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you mean rules well expectations a wife would have or is it a girlfriend expectation such as what
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well I personally think it's the same thing because I've been a girl I lived with my husband
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before he was my husband for six years and we got married two years ago and we were acting like
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married married couple as well he was helping me raise my two kids I got pregnant with his child
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and I'm raising all three kids at once in my home he's providing for me a space for me to do that
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he's allowing me the space to raise these kids and I'm you know just allowing him to be out and do
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his thing outside of the home and make his money however and whatever i can do to help okay what
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do what nothing changed is what i'm saying between marriage and non-marriage that's nothing changed
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i was don't get married gentlemen do not get married we get we didn't get legally married
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we had a ceremony and i wouldn't have your girlfriend you can knock her up have a bunch
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of kids with her seven kids i want seven kids you know i gotta stay with them i got time seven kids
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you know look if you're ultimately taking care of your responsibilities then it doesn't matter
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if you're married or not uh clay and marriage is a hook used by women to keep men in check
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if a man isn't happy it's his fault and if a woman isn't happy it's also his fault do any of
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you have any redeeming qualities oh wow okay he's going in on you guys well what do we do
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what do we need to redeem for like what is a redeeming quality positive qualities yeah
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When Clayton's like, you know, a whole bunch of shit.
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Yeah, I bake sourdough bread for my family.
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They're sourdough discard cookies, so they're much healthier.
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I'm going to have you drive them down every Sunday.
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For glasses gal, what you're doing is continuing to describe
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I change my answer because I can acknowledge
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I mean you're right if you're not using religion
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in the end you really can do whatever you want getting married adds nothing to your life she
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will take your joy okay clan you're a bit more black pill she'll take your joy your freedom
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your opinion and your choice everything becomes her decision even when it's wrong stay single
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king you can't use the word kings in this sentence because kings have queens sorry
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slash whatever why don't we pull up twitch twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime
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sub oh we have a video we need to react to that's pretty interesting um guys go to twitch.tv 30
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minutes since we last had a prime sub i need you guys to go to twitch.tv slash whatever right now
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drop us a follow and a prime sub if you have one boys so show us excuse me some love over there on
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twitch okay um we had a video we had a video uh yeah i don't know it's like um
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i don't want to be some like playboy fucking a bunch of different girls like that doesn't
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interest me i'm a relationship guy i'm interested in relationships uh and i'm looking for a woman
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to have children with preferably a fuck ton of children so it's like it's not like oh i just
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want to be some playboy and fuck a bunch of girls it's i do want the long-term thing just without
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the marriage ceremony component i don't think i want to get married either actually i have w
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vietnam i have to say like i feel like i have attachment issues and i've had horrible experiences
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in the past and i feel like just being with them like before marriage like just the relationship
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is already so draining you know what i mean and i can't i just like i feel like when you're actually
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like married to them you're like actually stuck with them because you know that's what makes it
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better like there was something there's something when i got married there's something that just
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kind of like clicked in my head and i was like oh shit that's what i thought too before it's
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but it's better because i'm more devoted i'm more i'm more i'm working towards a greater purpose i'm
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working towards a greater cause it really is like a shift you don't you don't think about it before
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you get married but after you get married I'm telling you there is something that changes in
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you and I don't know if it's the same for men but I know for me for sure that there's something that
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changes in you and it makes you just a better a better person and you want to be a better wife
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and you're working on yourself consistently and that's what it's that's what it's about at the
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end of the day is women don't work on themselves in marriage and and they they just kind of let
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themselves go because especially when they're they're given everything it's really easy for
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them to just say whatever i'm just going to sit on the couch all day but but when you're working
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on yourself and you're working towards a relationship and even like you're like you're
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family planning the whole time like it's not possible to live off of one salary today so you
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have to cook you have to clean you have to budget you have to do all of these things and you're
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consistently working for your household's purpose it makes it better for you and it's something that
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i think that only marriage gets you i do have to move on uh guys like the video please if you're
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enjoying the show debate university.com if you want to learn how to become a master debater
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debate university.com and a reminder like the video uh we have clane here with a message kings
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have whatever they want keep that mouth closed unless i got a question for you nope nope sorry
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So when a king marries a woman, she becomes the queen.
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But if a queen marries a man, he does not become the king.
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the king if you're the queen what the fuck
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unless you get married because you'd be a prince and a princess
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look the point is that the king is going to need an heir
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women don't raise men up women will not raise a man up queen charlotte like what i'm saying is
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it sort of would map onto this dating phenomenon coronation a man who's successful who's rich
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he will absolutely 100 date and marry a woman who has nothing a woman who's got something
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will not date a man who has nothing so a rich woman a woman who's an attorney a doctor
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she wants to date another attorney she wants to date another doctor whereas like a male doctor
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he'll date the fucking secretary he'll date the nurse he'll date if she's hot right but like women
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won't raise men up like a woman will say i want a guy who earns as much as me or more whereas a man
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it's like if you're making a fuck ton of money you don't get i don't care at all about money
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like money a man who's making a lot of money it doesn't matter she could be a barista she could
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she could work at chick-fil-a she could like men don't really care when we level up in that way
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whereas when y'all women y'all make money maybe you're successful whatever you won't look a broke
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dude's way like so what's that i brought my first boyfriend a car i've always been more
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yeah but look i understand okay you're in a relationship with a guy and you want to give
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him a gift or whatever but generally speaking women i mean hey i don't know how well you were
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doing i don't know how well he was doing look so there's there's generous women out there but
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generally speaking once women make money they won't look a broke dude's way but a rich guy
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can make a broke bitch rich but i don't fuck with broke bitches he fucks with broke bitches
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i'm pretty sure well yeah that's just a song it's just a song lyric okay we have augmented
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there is no selling marriage without religion faith a secular marriage cannot have a covenant
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with god which is the core of the value add the commitment and accountability to god is the sell
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but also keep in mind even for religious reasons and i acknowledge this for those who are religious
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Obviously, religion does call for you to get married.
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There's a way to pass without hitting the fucking thing.
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I don't know where I was saying something about religion, marriage.
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nothing in the bible says that religion is between a man a woman and the government
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yeah you can be married and there's not the government need not be involved
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exactly but even these religious women they want the government involved
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interesting in it think about that but they're not very religious they're not very uh
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obligated to god then even a lot of the i i need to do more research on this a lot of churches
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different denominations they will not marry you ceremonially ceremonially unless you have the
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legal thing worked out apparently i'll have to do more research on that that's true no there is a
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Like, for example, my husband and I, right, actually, technically, we are not technically married because I live in Missouri, right, and the Kansas and Missouri border is so close together.
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We got married in a church that was one block into the Kansas thing, and I had a Missouri license, and I went to go file our marriage license, and the lady at the courthouse looked at me, shredded it, and was like, it's a void.
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absolutely flabbergasted she did that but there is a legality in that which i don't understand why
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i don't think that that should necessarily be a part of it i mean i don't okay i don't know what
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my point is is that there are a lot of legality where you there are a lot of legal legalities is
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what i'm waiting i don't understand though so you got the marriage license from who i got the
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marriage license from the missouri side the missouri courthouse but because we got technically
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married on the kansas side wait wait what you don't in order to get a marriage license
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wait they gave me a paper that don't you just go to the courthouse and it's like okay you guys are
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fucking married i guess no they gave me a certificate to to give to the priest and he
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was supposed to sign it but it became void because you can't be ordained i'm pretty sure you can go
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to the courthouse and a judge can just marry you right then marry you right then and there okay
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So in the case of a marriage license, you would bring this – so the marriage is not finished until you actually have the license.
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Yeah, until you go and you get it signed at the courthouse, and then it gets submitted.
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There are a bunch of legalities in it is my point that I was getting at.
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And you were on the border between Kansas and Missouri.
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There shouldn't be that level of legality.
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And to your point too, Brian, like if they're going to have marriage be a legal state thing, why are they bringing church into it?
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Church and state are supposed to be separate, so why does it matter legally?
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uh okay harmony you do only fans yeah you do sext chatting yeah i do sex chat video chat
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okay uh you said you got you have a story about getting choked the fuck out by a youtuber slash
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comedian okay it's terrible well okay can you say who the youtuber is maybe but let me say this
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piece first is that a little closer to the mic he okay so i got choked out in a sexual manner but
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it was like pretty frightening because a few times i was like i'm gonna pass out and he's just gonna
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keep going did you ask him to choke you no and that's the thing is that afterwards i was watching
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one of his like podcasts and he was like all girls i know all girls like to get choked out
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all girls want this and that and i'm like that he didn't ask me if i wanted that he just assumes i
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If you're going to speak, it has to be in the microphone.
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That was something we never talked about before.
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Prior, I never said I have that kind of kink or nothing like that,
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No, no, but seven different times or at least that many.
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I was like, oh, my God, this is the time that I'm going to die.
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Did you say something in between the seven times?
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Okay, it wasn't something that you discussed with him.
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No, but in that same podcast, he's like, you know, girls love this.
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And I'm like, well, you got to talk about it first.
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You got to, first off, she's got to ask for that shit.
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I hear, like, you, like, do it only on, like, the sides to, like, constrict the blood flow.
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If you're a nobody, you can fucking choke a girl if she asks for it.
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but i'm i'm hesitant in my in my position to engage in fulfilling women's degenerate
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sorry i shouldn't kink shame i guess i don't know some of y'all are into some shit that just
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if you're somebody you should not the woman wants to be choked or hit you should not do that i don't
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you shouldn't do it even if she asks you for it and she's consents whatever you shouldn't do it
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it's going to get you into trouble but okay so in this case it wasn't consensual i guess
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But I did survive, and so I don't, I'd never talk to him about it.
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You just, he choked you, and you, was it a one-time thing, or?
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Did you get blurry vision when it was happening?
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You know, I will say I was just very light-headed.
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Yeah, and I still haven't been able to tell him, like,
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hey, you've got to ask me for consent for that because it has happened again.
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Okay, but if it's something that you don't like,
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Because he's clearly into it, and then I want him to be into me,
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so then I'm not going to be like, oh, don't do that to me.
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I got R-worded or anything like that, but I'm just saying.
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You're just saying it was an intense experience.
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Okay, but, like, for example, there are women, like, you'll be in the heat of the moment.
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And sometimes before you've had, like, a pre-sex discussion, not all things are, like, completely before the actual you're in the moment.
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like by the way here's like a list of all the things i don't like if a woman started biting
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me i'd be like hey i don't like biting and then she wouldn't bite me anymore so it's like
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you apparently don't like choking not in the way that it's like the full neck okay so you really
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you know women say men are bad communicators y'all got to communicate you can just be like
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hey i don't really like this well i couldn't even speak in the moment and then i feel awkward
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bringing it up afterwards well okay but you could be like too hard in the moment you did
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yeah and he kept doing it and then you can't continue to see him you guys are like actually
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rewarding like terrible men but okay whatever i do understand that but i mean
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okay i just okay i don't know so he's a comedian like a stand-up comedian yeah stand-up comedian
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But okay, you wrote that you're smarter than all men.
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i stand by it too because i'm much more capable than at least 98 percent of men that i've ever
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come in contact with like you said uh smarter than all men 98 is very close to all should i
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have said that specifically because i will all does have a meaning personally i would say all
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but i don't know that for a fact because i don't know everybody very well that i know but i do
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Wouldn't you know it for a fact, though, that you're not smarter than all men?
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Like, for example, I can confidently sit here and say there's definitely women who are more intelligent than me.
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Like, there's definitely women who are super high IQ.
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But there's that 2% that are more capable than me at some things.
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Yes, and it was around 110 plus, which is already over average for the United States of America.
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I don't think that would put you at 98% from an IQ perspective.
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Honestly, in America, the answer is yes, probably.
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If everyone on average is around 80, 90, I'm going to say that I'm smarter than most.
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but that's that's just book smart i'm also what what kind of iq test was it was it like a
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it's like pattern recognition and things no but did you just like take it on some like free
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online iq test or did you actually take like either through mensa or did you i'll have to
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look into it but it was like an hour was it free iq test.com no or some shit like that probably
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have done one of those okay because like some of these because i've what you can find out with
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these free iq tests online you can take like five of them from five different websites one iq test
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is going to tell you you have an iq of 140 and another one's going to tell you you have an iq of
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95 so i've literally had women be like oh i have 140 iq and i'm like here take this mensa iq test
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and then they score like 97 okay well i'll take the mensa and i'll get back to you as soon as
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possible. Okay. Just some of those IQ tests are just kind of, they just want your, did you pay
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for it? One of them I did, but I also have taken the free tests that only take like five minutes
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long and I don't trust those ones. Okay. I don't know. Some of the online IQ testing is not
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particularly reliable, but so, but how do you measure your intelligence? Cause you say you're
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smarter than all or most men um capability what i can do in this world and i've proven myself
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being more capable and like physical aspects mental aspects what do you mean by physical
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aspects i might look small but i'm very capable very strong go my car's right out there i did
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okay wait that's fine we no no we don't need to know about that okay awesome perfect
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but men in my life would be like oh this is broken i needed to call the plumber i'm like
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Well, you said physically, so I'm just trying to understand what you mean by physically.
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Guys will be like, oh, I need to call my friend to help.
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okay i'm telling you you know uh like 99 percent of men are stronger things come in small packages
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and i genuinely big how like you have a big clit or something or true okay cool um i guess this
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would be a good moment to mention my non-profit movement big labia matter blm for short uh because
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all labia can't matter until big labia matter as someone who only dates women with large labia
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uh this is an important cause for me you know it's unfortunate women get shamed if they have
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a large labia wizard sleeve roast beef arby's beef curtains beef curtains it's very sad you've
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she's familiar um it's very sad i only did i you know i i might be i'd settle for like a woman with
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an innie i'll settle she'll have to make up for it you know like how a guy who's like short he has
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to make up for it like he has to have a lethal face card or like be rich or some shit a woman
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who has an innie has to make up for it to me good talk guys thank you for that um that's your
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preference that's okay show show of hands who has an audi show of hands show of hands like jelly
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button here uh uh tiffany pull up the pull up the photo so the girls know what i'm talking about
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in the discord share the you know i'm talking about tiffany in the blm thing and discord well
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what do you consider big yeah i'll show you you'll see you'll see like women women labia fish me all
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the time it pisses me off man is it like flailing in the wind they labia so uh big labia
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Well, you're just going to go imagine about it later,
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All right, nobody's going to turkey and turkey.
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Like, do you support women with big labias?
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If you've ever been depressed about your flappy labias, go to Brian.
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uh but yeah no it's um i need a guinness world record labia at this point oh you know marriage
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i'm just i might marry if she's got like the biggest labia ever maybe i'll marry her
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finally got to the ground yes the ones that hang to the ground it's got a slap
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the one that could like fold and like completely envelop literally like you want to be wrapped
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She does the splits and slides at the same time
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I feel like I've had bad RNG on the labia front.
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I've had, like, some bad RNG, you know, for any gamers.
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which is a term used in video games, like, for World of Warcraft or RPG.
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And it's basically kind of essentially your luck, kind of.
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So on that front, you know, I've had some wonderful outies,
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but more higher percentage of innies if you had like an inch measurement what would you go by
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you know i don't know you you know it when you see it you know when you see it why do you mean
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your inch your your knuckle right there is about an inch so like you you got i don't know the bigger
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the better at minimum for it to be an audi i think it's got to be i don't know you ever pulled on
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you know i think it's got to be like at least an inch the wingspan has to be an inch
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they know what i'm talking about uh all right maybe i do all right but no it pisses me off
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i really i want to rant for a little bit because because women will labia fish me though oh i've
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got an outie you get down to business like i think about it from brian here let me explain
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virgin let me i am a virgin because but i turned them away yeah i turned away she's naked and i
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see the things i'm like look at it i'm out i balance i got a fucking balance but look think
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about it this way imagine a guy was talking himself up imagine a guy here quiet please
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okay quiet quiet no sidebar conversations imagine a guy was like told you
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i've got a big dick and you're like okay all right you know maybe you assuming you already
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like the guy that might be weird if anyways yeah and then it's like this you'd be like
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huh that's what happens all the time you'd be like what the fuck y'all be doing that all the
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time yeah well look i five inches ain't big nigga i'm sorry oh jesus christ bro holy shit
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take your meds okay so anyways um i'm just saying i'm just saying i feel like y'all would be upset
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if a guy you know i would be i'm critical of men in this way men who lie about things men shouldn't
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lie about some of these things you know men say they're more rich than they actually are scummy
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bigger dick than it actually is scummy and it's stupid too you know what i mean no
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You come in a little bit above, you know, maybe like average.
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But if you're like, oh, my God, I'm so amazing and a giant dick, and that's not...
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Then you're going to disappoint the woman.
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Undersell, and then you come in, and then it's...
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Well, it's the same thing when you're, like, introducing your friend to somebody or a different guy.
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You undersell, so that way they're pleasantly surprised when they meet that person.
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Would you mind changing it to big labia's matter?
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Yeah, but you're talking about, like, multiple women.
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So I feel like somebody who's like proficient in English.
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No, I do believe it's grammatically correct.
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Labia is already the plural form of the singular word labium.
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one inch but so you're that should matter too though i'm confused now fuck maybe my whole
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brand's all fucked up you know it's like that girl with the no rag rats tattoo rag rats all right
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here uh you get to read are you a good reader yeah all right read these for us please marriage
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may or may not work work out recognizing both possibilities and asking what should i do when
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is not planning for failure it's simply planning that's ordinary human reasoning
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uh blue g thank you for the super chat it says one of two oh wait you changed your name i see it
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okay that's coming in oh boy this name okay go ahead oh me again yep at the start of your
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marriage would you give your spouse power of attorney every asset you own in complete financial
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control if not where does prudence become distrust it's a pretty good question i'm not a farid uh
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or blue do you guys want to answer that well if you're going to follow through with the whole
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uh god man wife and children then yeah you're already giving up your assets to him for the
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control uh this is assuming he knows what he's doing of course because just because you're a
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man doesn't mean you get access because you're a man like you got to steward it properly
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Square root of 225 should take less than two seconds or negative 40 Celsius to Fahrenheit.
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Negative 40 Celsius to Fahrenheit, maybe 90 degrees?
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pretty sure you got both of those wrong I think
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If I think about it, I'll get the right answer.
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But I can say 2 plus 2 equals 4 in two seconds.
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He's trying to say it's supposed to be accurate.
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Guys, by the way, if you're taking a math test and the question is 2 plus 2 and you write 5, you got it half wrong because you were close.
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If you're taking a test, they don't tell you to answer the question in two seconds.
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typically so there is like some time component of but you get more than two seconds that last
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i'll be right back i'm gonna step away for a moment probably enjoy another delicious cookie
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while i cry about not having my big labia queen uh why don't you guys talk about something to
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keep things interesting i don't know if you guys want to share something about why don't you tell
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us about the big titty thing okay the big titty thing yeah what's that what do you guys want to
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know about it what's the big titty thing you said you got two surgeries in a year right or two boob
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jobs in a year despite your mix in a year or not one year like just overall yeah but i thought you
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said that you got two in one year i was wondering like i think i did actually i was wondering how
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that like i don't know how the recovery process works or anything like that like um i have to say
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all i have to say is getting body work done is totally different than like your face totally
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different like I don't know I think there's more nerves in your face so it's it was pretty scary
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but getting your boobs done it's just like it's just sore you know like I went on a mechanical
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bull like two days after I got my boobs done what I did oh you said did it hurt huh did it hurt
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after um a little bit it was a little sore but I have a thing where I can't sit still and like
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all my friends who know me know that like because I have ADD so I literally cannot sit still so
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after all of my procedures like regardless if I went under anesthesia or not like I'll literally
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get up like the next day and I'll go to the bar or like go somewhere because I can't like just
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sit inside to recover but I'm a little bit better with that now though but I have to say like that
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was like pretty recent but for the most part I've um I need to freaking chill you know that was the
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thing yeah so will you ever get them like reduced or taken out do you think um honestly I think
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about it often um I I mean maybe in the future but not now maybe like after if I have ever have
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kids but i wouldn't just take them off that was my next question is like do you think that it
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would be a good good imagery or do you ever worry about the imagery that you're giving if you do
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have kids to your kids yes 100 because i actually have friends that have like big boobs and their
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kids want nothing to do with them they're like embarrassed yeah and fake or original what like
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fake or original both oh okay oh interesting yeah so it's it's it's shitty for sure because i see it
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Like your son or daughter don't even want you to take them to school because like their
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friends might make fun of them because they're like, Oh, like your mom's hot or whatever.
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And like, that'll like, you know, make their kid feel really uncomfortable.
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You said that one of your BBLs didn't take or something.
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And then, um, I got it around the time I was like totally like into the gym and like
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so I don't know why I did that but I just decided I think it was I was going through a breakup
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and you know how it is with breakups like after you break up you want to change like your hair
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your makeup your look right well for me it was plastic surgery I'm like I wanted to change
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myself with plastic surgery like I don't want to cut my hair I don't want to like style it
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differently differently or like dye it like for me it was always like okay let's do some dramatic
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of crap right because like I'm a dramatic person so after my breakup um the last guy that I did
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that whatever we broke up he liked girls with big butts and I didn't have a big booty at the time
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and so that's kind of how it started and then it just like trickled into like the whole like oh
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I'm just gonna keep going you know yeah what made you start like just start doing this in general
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or like you know like what what made you make this your lifestyle it's just like insecurity
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and then it like bled onto the whole body dysmorphia thing like it's it was horrible yeah
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yeah but I've calmed down a little bit more now like I'm not like going too crazy I'm not doing
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like oh I got to get two surgeries in a year or whatever the heck it is uh I have had like I would
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say at least 15 procedures done and um now that I'm older like I think twice or more about the
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things that I do and I'm not like too impulsive because when I was younger I was definitely like
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let's go let's do it like I'll get my boobs done tomorrow if I thought about getting them done
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today you know but now I'm like hold on like skirt like we have to think about this because
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is this a good idea you know what I mean so I guess growing up is you know it's kind of like
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an expensive tattoo it really is yeah like for me it was just like oh like people are like you're
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you must be addicted to plastic surgery but that's not how I saw it I just I just had a little bit of
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body dysmorphia like what do they call it like we have like ugly duckling syndrome or something
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and then um my first like few relationships were horrible and all those guys that I've dated in
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the beginning made me feel so insecure so then it made me want to just you know change myself
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not for them though but like for me mainly because I wanted to feel good about myself after
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yeah so do you have do you have any like like is there anything that you regret like
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is there pain or or health problems or like stuff like that that you go through um yes uh
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like I have like butt implants and I don't know is it hard to sit it's not hard it's just kind
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of uncomfortable every now and then when you sit is it is it worth it I mean like in the long run
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probably not um it that was another impulsive thing that I did but I have to say I do not
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agree with BBLs. I would never recommend BBLs because they never last. You've had two? I have
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two BBLs and three implants. Three implants in the booty. Yeah. So it's different sizes.
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Were you unable to sit for a period of time? Yes. After the BBL and the implants? Yeah. So I'm kind
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of like a, I feel like I'm a veteran now when it comes to recovery from plastic surgery. I was
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just telling them when you were over there um i said that i have a problem with not being able
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to sit still so when it comes to recovering i don't follow the rules i'm like the worst patient
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ever because i'll just like they'll be like don't do this don't do that and i'm like over here like
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i got on a mechanical bull two days after i got my boobs done i went snowboarding a week after i
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got my butt done the doctor goes oh make sure you ice your butt and then i never told him i was going
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to snowboard and then i'm like but then i'm like i fell a few times like are you a snowboarder
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skier no uh i i like snowboarding because don't the skiers have like the sticks yeah no but i
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went snowboarding at the time so everyone was like because i didn't want to feel left out and
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everyone went and i was like i'm not staying in total yeah how many total procedures have you had
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done i would say like 15 so you've been put under anesthesia like 15 yep but you like it right you
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like the feeling or whatever i'm not gonna lie it's amazing it's the feeling i understand you're
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like hot it's like the high of it or no it's just like when you just get put to sleep like i totally
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understand why there's like certain nurses out there and anesthesia people like they i don't
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know if you heard about like how a lot of people get their their license revoked because they would
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like steel oh yeah yeah what is the drug that they used you know is it like um it's a little
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bit of fentanyl a little bit of uh something else i forgot but it does depend on what kind
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of uh thing they put you under with because like sometimes like you'll wake up really like
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messed up damn and then sometimes you'll wake up like so high and like happy you know so it just
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claim donated two hundred dollars share three isn't smarter than 98 percent of the population
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how about 15 times 15 you think you can get that one i'm not looking anything up
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just shit at the top of my head simple shit 15 times 15 125 into the mic into the mic
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scoot into the table 125 and that's without thinking 100 125 15 times 15
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boom i gotta be correct i gotta be i think i'm not too confident in it but i think it's 225
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what i think so 15 times 15 10 times 10 that's 100 wait hold on let's do let's do this super
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simple you said there's 125 let's just make it a little easier 15 times 10 is what 150
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So how could 15 times 15 be less than 15 times 10?
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You said 125 for 15 times 15, but 15 times 10, which is less, would be 150.
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Seriously, we can't just be coming at my intelligence.
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You have to wrap around the hand with the nails?
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I just wrap it like regularly around the hand, but with the bidet...
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Bro, I've told you repeatedly, you cannot be having sidebar conversations.
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it's not just about me it's about the other guests being respectful to them not distracting them
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good for our audio okay can you cease and desist
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yeah see this is this is the the the there's a term for this you see how she's upset do you
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see how she's upset this is the perfect example of the uh blank spirit like she's got a a spirit
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A part of what you were saying some of the time
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someone said sorry you called me out for saying trying to just whisper i'm sorry to somebody
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she was oh my god bro she cannot take accountability accountability no because now you're justifying
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oh but there was this one time where i just said sorry and in that instance like you should have
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just let it go brian it's like right now were you saying sorry or were you whispering to her
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she said to me then you're both fucked then both of you need to shut the fuck up then
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she was talking please show respect not just to me but to the other panelists who would like an
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opportunity to talk you got plenty of attention some of these other women have not had much
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opportunity to talk harmony has not had much opportunity to talk so can you guys stop with
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the fucking sidebar conversations i've said multiple times we gave pre-show instructions
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multiple times you can't take accountability look at her well let me just mope here it's
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super simple hey i'm sorry brian won't happen again that's it you don't need a mope i'm not
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even trying to mope okay all right go ahead continue harmony but before i got the bidet
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i used to have to wipe a few times to get all clean back to the bidet just one piece of toilet
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Do you see how important of a conversation
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I asked for one for my birthday, but my mom didn't get me one.
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Okay, but so you think you're smarter than most men.
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in this world it's sad uh but you're a sex worker why is your intelligence not being used like to
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some higher i was okay so for a little bit i was working on a nuclear base but i was constantly
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being sexualized and i'm like you know i should just leave this behind because this is a man's
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job i don't need to be doing this anyways um what were you compensated what were you so you wait
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I had a red badge, which is the highest security clearance you can get in.
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So you don't need to share details about the nuclear base, but can you tell me the thing you have learned in life or through education that made you necessary for said nuclear base?
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Okay, there's engineers, there's scientists. What is your educational or scientific background that made you intellectually necessary for the nuclear base?
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The question I just asked you would not infringe your NDA.
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What if I was a part of a psychological operation?
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So they gave you drugs like MKUltra, so you're like gigafucked in the brain?
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What if I was giving somebody else drugs and somebody else's giga?
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Why the fuck would that be happening at a nuclear base?
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You could have been the janitor at the nuclear base.
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So why bring up the nuclear thing if you're not going to talk about it?
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Because you say, like, why don't you use your intelligence for things?
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Such as, do you want me to go through all the jobs I've had?
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Because I've just, all I will say is that in the end, I don't feel safe because every job I have is either I'm like, this is a man's environment or I'm in a female environment and I'm getting sexualized.
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So I just take myself out of society as a whole and I just strictly work online.
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But you're also being choked out by, like, comedians on YouTube.
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I'm sexualized, but I'm in the safety of my own home.
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And I get to stay alive because I don't get kidnapped, touched by anybody.
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She's saying she controls her sexual environment.
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So it is true that, yes, sexual harassment does happen in workplaces.
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But you're saying it was in every fucking job, and it was so severe that you just could be,
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Despite your intellectual prowess, you just had to resort to OnlyFans and becoming a sex worker.
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First off, if there is sexual harassment occurring in the workplace, you could go to HR.
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There's all kinds of consequences for male employees who are engaging in sexual harassment.
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HR departments are like, jump on this shit instantly.
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Like, they will remove that person just based off of your own reporting, I guess.
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But what do you mean by, you said sexualized.
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So you're saying every single job you've had, even in the, like, you need a top-level clearance, guys were coming up to you and grabbing your ass.
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And they were telling me all these new phrases.
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Like, I learned, they're like, oh, you know what a golden shower is?
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And they're like, well, I want to give you one.
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And I got to go later and be like, what's a golden shower?
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with weed, and I was like, I don't even smoke this.
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This is not payment. Yeah, this is some high-level
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Can I ask for clarification? She was paying her in weed.
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No, that's not what I was talking about. I was in
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he's like at first he's paying me with cash and then he's like oh i don't have any cash
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we take this and it was like an ounce of weed i'm like what the fuck because he literally had
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no cash he said he had no other form of payment and i was like well i'll take it and maybe i'll
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sell it i never ended up selling it because i don't do that stuff i don't sell i was like
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seems like my only option and i still okay what the fuck can i just ask for clarification on
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something really quick so you just to get this straight you ran away from sexual harassment
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and and as a form of protection you ran into getting sexualized 100 because i make more money
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and it's wait do you strip too no okay i don't do anything in person it's just of
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i mean it it isn't completely there's a firewall you know what i mean that's my thing is that i'm
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not getting taken yeah my criticism isn't isn't even there I suppose that is technically wouldn't
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necessarily be inconsistent it's like if you're encountering people like in real life then you
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can just do like a virtual job and you would never have to encounter them in real life so I guess
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it's not completely inconsistent but um it is somewhat uh in terms of the it is a little bit
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inconsistent though yeah but what other job am I going to do online where I can make that much
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because you're still being like you're sexualizing yourself but your issue is primarily being
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sexualized in person so if you if the your issue was sexualized in person don't get sexualized in
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person doing OnlyFans sexualized virtually I could see how that's consistent I guess but
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okay you're the smartest person ever and you worked at you had top secret clearance but you
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obviously didn't that's totally bullshit but no serious I'm so serious I've literally there was
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this old lady and she's like working at the at the base with me and she's like how did you get
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that badge and um and she was there longer than I had been there for and you were doing what
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I signed to NDA such bullshit it's uh what was the nature of what was your educational background
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Bro, you literally don't know what 15 times 15 is.
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Okay, you said that there's one YouTube channel
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I think we ought to be skipping over this.
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I was thinking about it, but I feel like I got it.
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You said you've never been on a nice date by a boyfriend or real potential love interest.
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Have you been on a nice date from a guy you didn't like?
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No, but I've gone to nice dates with my girlfriends.
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And, like, my girlfriends with their boyfriends, like, I always third wheel and stuff.
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You said men aren't manly slash masculine enough.
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You can't change a light fixture, have to call other people for help.
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But you're literally a sex worker, so, like, you're completely abandoning the masculine-feminine trade-off.
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i'm i have to do everything myself i have to be the masculine i have to be the feminine because
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right but you are not really in a great position to do this critique of men when you yourself so
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if when i'm capable of doing every single thing for the man providing wealth he doesn't have to
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work and i've said that where i'm like you don't you can literally quit your job and i can take
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care of you do your freaking laundry for you because i know that you don't want to because
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you're a dirty man, and I'm going to do all the things
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that happen. Can you tilt your mic down and point
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pay for the date. You know what I mean? But I want
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i'm capable of uh to the women the other women here i want to open it up to you guys she is a
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sex worker she does only fans what kind of do you do bg content boy girl no just there's never you
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okay uh but it's full nudity so you'll like stick things in your pussy and masturbate and do all
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that shit uh to an extent i'm more of a t i do more like tease content where it's like bras and
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panties push up bras and stuff okay do you uh to the women at the table here do you think she
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deserves chivalry no no here starting with you we'll go around um maybe maybe i don't know okay
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profound yes or no into the mic no no okay uh what do you think no nope
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Men should be chivalrous as a personality trait for themselves,
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if he doesn't want to be chivalrous to her that's okay that's his decision but he himself must be
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chivalrous i can't decide whether she deserves it because i don't know her life outside of her
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taking videos of herself and if she someone opens a door for her that's chivalry in and of itself
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if somebody like is conscious conscious of her presence as a woman and she might need help
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that's chivalrous again it has nothing to do with her it has to do with him as well she's talking
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about um men aren't manly masculine enough can't change a life picture paying for dates
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she's highly critical because she's not getting it but uh maybe you stop doing those things and
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stop stop doing those things but why why are you not in a position to judge what she deserves or
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doesn't deserve because who's gonna judge what i deserve or don't deserve okay but do you think
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that okay do non-traditional women deserve traditional treatment if they give traditional
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treatment you give what you get and if i'm giving you uh traditional treatment and i'm behaving like
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a wife or like a girlfriend would then i should be treated as one but you're a sex worker but
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you're missing the point of that men want you know part of the incentive for being in a committed
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relationship with a woman as a man is that you are the only one who has access to her if everybody
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has access to what you look like naked that removes the incentive for the man to want to
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be that gentleman for you because you're not you're not just his there's no unique bond there
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if anybody can pay ten dollars to see your tits it's what's the man gonna do there's no there's
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not as large of an incentive let him figure it out not that you're not worthy of love or to be
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treated right but you might not be attracting the right man right because the right man won't want
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you to do that i think that i'll attract the man can i be scooting to the table a little bit okay
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um like would you want your guy to have his body all over like everyone knows exactly what he looks
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like under all the yes i think that's the relationships that i'm getting into is people
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that are more online and doing things like that so it's like and is that working out for you
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because you said you've never been taken on a good date choked out okay even the guy that's
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choked me out he's asked me on a date and i was like okay let's wait a little bit uh so i've been
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asked do your parents know that you do only fans they do both mom and dad and my dad says he's
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pardon me he says it's a good line of work what what your dad my father your father says only
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fans is a good what is he rabbi schmuley does he know what only fans is oh boy all right rest r.i.p
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r.i.p in the chat boys all right i need to see gravestones in the chat fucking r.i.p in the
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chat boys would you um would you want your daughter to be a sex worker i my first off the top of my
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head i would say yes but maybe if i think yikes what that's a yikes i take it back you don't
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deserve shiller right now so you would exploit your child yeah i wouldn't explain with your
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daughter my daughter was like i want to do this and make easy money that's not what you wanted
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to do ma'am but you didn't want to do this you did this basically being a prostitute oh boy am i
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basically a prostitute i'm not giving my body away i'm giving it all right it's pixels online
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can you read this chat for me you oh me yeah chair that you can't even spell nda with that
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clearance you shouldn't even talk about where you worked she is 10 pounds of bullshit in a five
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pound bag she is a useless human oh shit oh shit to be fair too if it helps my mom works at a
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nuclear power plant in in where i live all right it's all called a nuclear power plant and i'm
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not a nuclear i would didn't work at a nuclear nuclear base yeah you called something nuclear
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nuclear base yeah but my mom works at a nuclear power plant because she's an electrician and i
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can speak on it also because she doesn't have an NDA.
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You should at least be able to name the nuclear
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you think you also wrote you don't think you should be ashamed of being on only fans
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okay i mean whatever uh you said promiscuity is grosser in men probably in response to
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what i've said on the show no can i just say one thing i'll just make it real short i think
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it's grosser in men because when men come they're like oh and girls what the fuck that's what i'm
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saying is that not disgusting is that not disgusting every single man ever girls don't
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do that when they come are you into guys i look okay that is not a scream i feel like when they
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do it right it's pretty hot like that's i don't know you should maybe talk to a therapist
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but the faces you guys haven't looked at their face when they do it yeah i start to cross like
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i like the noise but the eyes crossing and the like the tongue sticking out
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Maybe y'all don't know how to do it right, but I'd be figuring them.
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I'm pretty sure the ejaculation means we're doing it right.
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Doing it right and getting it done are not the same thing.
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Okay, so what does that have to do with promiscuity as a gross term man?
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Having sex with the woman and you objecting to the facial expressions does not equal promiscuity.
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That's just you not liking the facial expressions.
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Or the noises that the men make who you have sex with.
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Now, probably it's granted that you're engaging in promiscuity, and so too are the men that you're sleeping with.
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But like a girlfriend and boyfriend who've only been with each other could conceivably also make funny faces while climaxing.
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Yes, when people are climaxing, their face is different.
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unfortunately yeah it is unfortunate because you're just traumatizing men i i almost wish
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you were gay so you wouldn't be hurting all these men out here me too thank you or maybe asexual so
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you don't hurt women yeah i'll go for asexual you know maybe just okay you also wrote you don't
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think people in the military should have kids yeah honestly why is why is that you know guys
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the military i kind of was talking to you about it earlier but um it's because i grew up in the
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military and i never i'm moving around so often i never had childhood friends and so i'd make
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friends and they'd have their childhood friends that they're even closer with so i never got to
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be as close to people so do you think you should have just been aborted then um
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because your dad's in the fucking military my cousin was in the military whatever never moved
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all right um look i understand like look this is a very extreme take i understand it can be
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difficult for um do you think i turned out okay because also the discipline it's probably not
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because of the military but look i understand it can be difficult if your your parents are in the
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military and your your child and having to constantly move i understand that that can be
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difficult but they shouldn't have kids because of that obviously we need the military obviously
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that's perhaps is going to mean that uh the family will have to perhaps relocate frequently
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i think a lot of military brats would agree with me because the discipline that you receive
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from parents in the military is so unreasonable your dad is your dad is happy you're a sex worker
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what discipline are you referencing as a child i am extremely independent i'm extremely wait so
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So your dad was super, like, a disciplinarian, but he's also, like, on board with you?
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As an adult, but as a child, I went through things that made me extremely independent.
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So I don't need no man because I got the discipline to figure out.
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Bro, don't, can you stop running defense for people?
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yeah like good good job bro congrats you're the fucking troll um cool cool there should be a game
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of troll like in mafia you know how to play mafia to find out who the troll is let's get let's do
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the video reaction let's do the video reaction um uh so this is a video that has gone pretty viral
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uh and video tab video tab for this i guess um and uh i want to get your guys's reaction go ahead
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and play it all right i figured i'd send you a voice note because it's like easier than like
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texting all this but um anyway um had a good time tonight definitely think you are lovely
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um however i would love to if we're gonna go to your place on thursday i mean i am looking
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to have that um physical intimacy um to see if like i am sexually compatible with you um so like
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if i'm going to come over like i would be hoping to like hook up have sex have a good time have
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like that romantic spark and that physical spark there um for my own sake um because it's hard for
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me to continue dating if dating someone and seeing them if i don't know if i'm sexually compatible so
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um i know you said i don't know about that so like i guess my thing is is like what would be
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the point of me coming over then if we're not gonna like hook up and like cuddle and like
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be intimate with each other um and if that's what you don't want that's fine but like i think we
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should just like end it here then respectfully just because i first date that's fine like you
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want to get to know each other i'm all about that but like i am looking to have that physical aspect
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there and i don't want to continue seeing someone if i don't know if that's good if that's not there
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or not so up to you let me know i'm happy to um if you do want me to come over i'm happy to do so
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would love to have a good time and you know we can have some wine hang out and chill but if you're
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not trying to hook up then like we should just uh go our separate ways let me know all right so she
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posted this on tiktok it went pretty viral now i think it might be rage bait like i think it might
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be fake but let's just assume it's real i i don't know if it one way or the other people are saying
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brian it's fake 100 fake the chat's saying 100 fake so no way someone sent that it is bro first
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off there's a way to send that voicemail or send that message and it's not a 90 second voicemail
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like you can communicate that in 20 seconds everyone's saying it's fake okay well how about
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this um do you think it's wrong for a guy goes on a first date and apparently the woman had
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communicated to him that maybe she wanted to hold off on intimacy right do you think it's wrong for
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a man to communicate something like that definitely not I feel like I give him a for effort like I'm
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a very straightforward person so I feel like you know in the beginning of a relationship
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like I let people know that like I'm gonna be crazy and if you see my crazy later don't tell
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me I didn't tell you so so so I feel like you know him being straight to the point in the beginning
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like saves a lot of time for him and his date you know versus having to like wait and like
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you know creeping she she says that the husband literally said that to her on the second date
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and now they're married so i don't know um i think it's the the way he's going about it it's
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kind of lame yeah it sounds like like a deal like i don't know but i think it's okay to be like
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if you know what you want in something and you want to have sex earlier rather than later
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Where, you know, he's taking these girls out on dates
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And they're just not giving him, you know, what he wants
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And so he had to make it clear, you know, for the next person
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and a guy who you like you went on the first date you like him you want to see him again
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he sends you something like that maybe it's not as cringe or whatever
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would that be a deal breaker for any of you well i think there's i think there's two points
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to be made there which is a he did communicate and saved a lot of time which i mean i find very
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respectful respectable but b i don't think you should have sex before marriage because sex
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creates children therefore as if that's a value to someone good for that guy for communicating
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that because now she knows what she's getting into everyone has their own prerogative what
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they want to do with their life but at least he was straightforward about it and said what he
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wanted and if that's your thing then that's your thing but you know this makes it less interesting
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i guess but yes it's very accurate i don't disagree with it in this day and age especially
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fairytale like the women think it would be?
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to know but that's more like the vibes already off i feel like you should already know from the kiss
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like you ever have a guy stick your tongue their tongue in your mouth and you're like
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whoa you're not even doing it right and stuff like then you kind of keep dating because maybe
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he's nice and whatever it is i feel like the sign number there the sign was kind of like right there
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the kiss was nasty like a agreement it's an itinerary to have like yeah i was like so just
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let me know if you want to come over and like you know just don't waste my time otherwise yeah
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it's straightforward i don't know it's not wrong to be straightforward but i feel like i'd be like
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that just ruins actually i said it to my first husband what he did on our phone i invited him
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to dinner that i paid for and i said listen i know you're dating other women i don't care for
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that part about i don't want you dating other women i want you to focus on me if you can't do
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that then this is our last dinner date but because i want to get married i want to have a family and
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I don't want to be the date number Thursday, you know?
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I didn't even, like, said, like, oh, we need to have sex now so I can see if I want.
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What is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband, starting with you?
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probably like 400k that's not what you wrote on here i don't remember what i wrote how do you
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not remember i don't remember do you smoke weed no all right this girl you're 19 19 and asking
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everyone you gotta get your memory checked you might have early onset alzheimer's
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bro oh man whoever's talking like y'all don't need to do the sidebar conversations oh my god
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that was so funny what just shut the fuck up kindly kindly please like we told you before
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the show multiple times i've had to tell you guys multiple times please do not talk out of turn
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damn bro um you wrote 1 million okay 400k to 1 million i guess that's a good range
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but so 400,000 is the minimum for you sure okay why don't you say 1 million because that's what
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you wrote here okay 1 million what about you at least 1 mil at least 1 million what about you
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I don't have a preference as long as I see that there's effort and he's not just slouching around.
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Okay. So I've been super patient here. This is your yellow card. If I give you a red card,
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I'm going to kick you out. So you have a yellow card. If I have to give you one more correction
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on something, I'm just going to kick you out. I've been super patient. You got to talk close
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to the microphone. You can't be like having sidebar conversations. Please simply make the
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correction from here on out. I've told you multiple times, speak into the microphone.
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go ahead with your answer i specifically wrote idc i don't care okay so you'll date a guy who
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works at mcdonald's then that's fine with me all right next 120 000 what about you i put 70 but i
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don't for a future husband i don't care all right um here we have a chat here from clane
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chair three is a mini desiree both have inflated sense of self sense of self and convoluted
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ideology not a single part of what she said is real all the military guys watching will still
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go balls deep okay what the fuck uh how much that's okay i don't know who desiree is
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and you can think what you want but my reality is is my reality
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all right um okay so you want one million you want one million probably the highest numbers
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yeah those are the highest numbers at the table um tell me why do you think you deserve a guy
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who makes one million dollars a year can i get a burke in a month
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but you still want to work huh you still want to work yes even though he's making a million
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dollars a year i still would i don't know like obviously yes you are right i should be able to
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trust my future husband enough to not think about divorce however you do have to take into
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accountability that things do happen regardless things those things do happen you never know
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period poo even though he's making a million dollars a year and you're protected okay what
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is here still would let me let me frame it like this as a condition of getting with the guy who
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makes a million dollars he says i'm not gonna date you if you're gonna continue you want to get
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one year after our youngest is born you want to get back to work that's unacceptable i'm gonna
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admit i did not fully think that answer through because i do not know how much time the mother
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is supposed to be with the child before sending them off to preschool or daycare or whatever
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i did not know how to answer that question so who said who said that you're sending them to daycare
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or preschool what if your husband wants you to homeschool the kids that's your job i wouldn't
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want a homes i would do you don't want huh i would do preschool maybe not daycare why not homeschool
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if as a condition let me ask you this you do tiktoks like you dance or something on tiktok
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i don't know um for the perfect man would you give up social media
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perfect in my eyes yeah yeah perfect in your eyes okay for the perfect man would you trust him and
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i'm gonna be with him for the rest of my life yes right for the perfect man uh how about not
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quite perfect but like 80 of what you want i mean
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it's really difficult because for perfect yes but obviously no one is perfect
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it would just depend on how much i cared and if obviously if i'm married well how about this for
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the perfect man uh one of the conditions of getting the perfect man you cannot work at all
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and your sole thing is taking care of the kids
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bro it's crazy the proper the feminist propaganda even when presented with the perfect man
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it's not an instantaneous of course how is it not instant i've got to think about oh i want to make
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stupid tiktok videos for validation what not for validation it's so it's for what it's so i have
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something to fall back on because this was the but it's the perfect man so in from the the perfect
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man is okay perfect man sure okay perfect man sure no tiktok you don't get to do tiktok that's fine
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no social media you have to delete your instagram and you have to homeschool the kids
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that's fine for daycare so you gotta be the perfect man to to get basically what like women
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would jump at the opportunity for 50 years ago 70 years ago uh okay um interesting um
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what about let's change it up not the perfect man but he makes two million dollars a year
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he's good looking he's your type pretty much exactly um good personality but you don't have
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like the guarantees of the perfect man so the perfect man would be like he's gonna stay with
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you forever like you know that definitively if he's the perfect guy like he's perfectly loyal
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this is just like more realistic idealistic man so like in a realistic scenario you can end up
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with like a really great guy but maybe he does leave you i don't know i just want to have
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something to fall back on like just in case that does happen but i have such a great argument for
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this but i forgot it go ahead you have something to fall back on you have like if you're married
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and you get married like he was saying you are gonna be entitled to some kind of alimony some
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especially if he's making this much money child support whatever it may be you have something to
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fall back on like we're kind of stuck in this trick where like it's like oh you can only be
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be provided for you could only protect yourself when you have a job and when you go to school
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and when you spend all this money on school but at the end of the day being married is a greater
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investment only for a woman really but it's really the greatest protection because you have this good
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man and at at any point of your choosing you can say I'm filing a divorce file a divorce and still
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take half of his income every single month and like that's more protection than anything else
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and now you can go and get a job and live your life or travel or do whatever you want to do it
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doesn't matter it's it's like something to fall back on you have your husband to fall back on no
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matter what okay yes taking that into consideration I would have to say I agree with you you've also
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been sold the lie that you are not doing anything with your life or you're not successful unless you
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have a career being a mom being a wife is a successful life that can be your life mission
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but most of these feminists have been sold this idea that you are less of a woman if you do not
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have a career and you don't have that independence they're trying to make women live in a man's world
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and that's not the way it is if you were just a wife and a mom that's all you need to accomplish
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in life you don't need to make your own money you don't need to make any of that being a wife and a
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mom is enough but if all you are is just a mom and you don't have a job all of a sudden you're
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a governmental burden no you have a how are you going to read no no i'm saying if you don't have
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the husband anymore but we're talking about scenario where you do have the husband i'm just
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saying we saw what she was saying okay i don't know what if you have both your you're like a
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double amputee okay so anyways back to this um would you give up your instagram for the
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not perfect guy but pretty ideal guy like the like the one we were just talking about like
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two million a year but like he'd he'd like maybe leave me and he'll marry you but like as part of
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being with him he doesn't want you doing instagram he doesn't want you doing tiktok
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any of that shit sure she'll do it okay there it is maybe we can hide it claim donated 200
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I make $250, not even close to what Brian makes.
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I would rather spend my disposable income on this podcast than you useless women.
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Six foot, 200, can rebuild the car, house, and four jets.
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We got single, single, single, married, single, single, single, married, married.
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it's 200 pounds of muscle steel and sex appeal this is who we're losing out on ladies like he's
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probably a very good man but we're too crazy he's and he's giving me the money he's giving me the
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money he doesn't want to marry any of you guys shit i don't know um all right um okay uh let's
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do that super chat uh to be deleted thank for the canadian hundred that's basically a quarter
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uh go through their height age fitness requirements and while they've shared their
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age well we will do the height segment actually i can do that now fitness requirements i can't
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uh i can't do the delusion calculator just off a super chat if if i'm tempted to do it
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for other reasons i'll do it but um uh so i can do tell you what though i will do the height
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thing now because you asked so kindly in your super chat from canada uh how tall are you and
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what's the minimum high actually really quick you also want a guy who makes a million yes so you're
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34 cat no 36 oh excuse me you should have taken the 34 while you had the chance all right you're
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36 is it 500k per boob because you want a million yeah it's like 500 okay now would you want a guy
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who makes who makes a mill he'd you'd want him to pay for the surgeries right you know to pay for
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the well that too yeah the seventh titty revision that would be amazing seventh boob job um okay
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uh a million yes there's a reason why i chose that number why mill tell us because uh in the past
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uh i i don't know why but like i've always attracted like just like losers and like people
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who are like broke like no broke guys please uh but but you make good money right yes because i
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used to work way more back in the day when i was younger and i had more energy porn did you do porn
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i knew you're gonna ask that i do like a little bit like dipping my toes in you know but not like
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i i wouldn't say i'm like fully in but no broke guys but a middle of year that's a lot yeah but
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we also live in california what about a doctor you wouldn't date a doctor who makes like 400k
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No, but you would be settling for a doctor who makes 400K.
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Like, now, with, like, some of the experiences I've had in the past, like, I feel like it's not just about, like, the money matter to me.
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Because, like, you were asking her, oh, would she, you know, like, you know, would she delete her social media for someone who makes two mil?
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that's like kind of two mil is mediocre well no i'm saying but then they're also not like
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they're like they have issues right it's like hell no like my mental stability is more important
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to me than like the money situation wait so when you say your mental stability do you mean in
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reference to deleting your instagram no i'm just talking about like you know having to like put up
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with their shit like what if he has to put up with your shit well i listen oh my god we both
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do with each other like pick her up from the seventh bbl surgery i gotta like put she can't
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sit so i gotta like put some i don't know some rose petals i don't know what i don't know what
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you fucking do honestly i just i i do it myself like i'd rather just be just gotta put up oh my
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god i gotta drive her to the that's a lot of work i mean i did have there's a few i actually thank
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you um to the few exes that literally had to drive me in the back of their truck face down
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uh with a bunch of freaking pillows and blankets amazing dude i had my ex drive me face down with
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a ton of pillows to big bear a week after i just had the snow the snowboarding yes he drove me
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literally in the back into snowboarding are you um i mean i'm i'm like i'm like mediocre i'm not
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gonna say like oh like i'm a fucking pro or anything i had a bbl you know i'd maybe wait
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a couple weeks yeah i was like hell no i was like i'm not waiting like so you were face down how
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how long is the drive to big bear for me like two two and a half hours you were in the back of a
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truck face down with a bunch of pillows and blankets what time of year was this oh this is
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like during covid no but what time of year like oh this was um i would say to january like when
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you drove to big bear i didn't drive he drove what was the truck covered yeah it was like one
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those like bigger suvs it was covered it wasn't so you weren't outside it wasn't open okay it's
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not like a truck bed she's driving a big bear in fucking december no it'd be cold maybe if it was
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like summer and hella hot then like yeah you know i'll be down to lay back in the back of the
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the truck bed but boy all right i know um okay um so a million dollars a year yes minimum and also
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i feel like you know we live in california yeah and california it's a very very uh expensive place
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to live and beautiful and i feel like like i'm sure you know like if you don't make a certain
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amount like i feel like even a million to live in california is probably not enough like you're
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almost considered like average a year average yeah 99 probably like 99 i don't know what the
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exact numbers are in california less than 99 of the people who live in california they make under
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a million dollars a year yeah and they're living here i mean i know but like like maybe like
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probably like paycheck by paycheck like your 20th titty job yeah it's like i want to live
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comfortably and you know what i'm comfortable yeah because i'm so used to taking care of like
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the guys that i dated sit for three weeks what are you talking about comfort exactly you i you're
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right i haven't been comfortable in so long but now i want to be comfortable can you find a photo
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of you before all we need a before we need a before i should have asked you this yeah i i'd
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have to look it's i don't know i gotta check my phone were you hot sorry that sounds i was honestly
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i was uh pretty asian and i was very skinny so i had no tits i had no tits i'm like that's okay
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that's okay okay that's okay that's all right you're right i just have like literally like i
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just look like like a little scrawny asian girl i don't know fresh off the boat i don't know
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like yeah so i i don't know how to explain it but i was skinnier yes i was very very thin
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but it's like to okay i understand like yeah maybe you want bigger boobs but you know what
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i have to say sorry we we got to build up we got to build up our small titty women but we got to
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build them up we can't be like throwing some fake titties we got to be like you're beautiful by the
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way let me say this and this is going to piss off all the women i think sort of okay greek statues
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roman statues sculptures oh whoops hold on they didn't have titties that big okay when it comes
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to beauty when it comes to what's beautiful what what comes to what's aesthetic you look at greek
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statues they had like b cups you know they had b cups maybe you're an a cup i understand you know
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but women with small breasts can still be beautiful they can do squats i totally understand because
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you know what here's the thing like once you go big you miss your small boobs sometimes like
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every now and then the small titties i do because you can't do like two like i love running like
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cardio and like now it's so hard for me to run after like three sports bras and i have to make
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sure are they hard they're or they're hard but they're they're still a little firm but they're
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a little softer now than when i yeah i got them yeah but it's been like what five years or
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something but all i'm gonna say is you want what you can't have and now that i have big boobs i
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like low-key sometimes now you want small titties well just it's a kim k is getting rid of her shit
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i know it's like you know like that's the style nowadays people are getting rid of everything i'm
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not saying i want to like hop on the bandwagon i'm just saying like i would never do that but
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sometimes i just want to take them out and then you know like and just be able to feel normal
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because it's a lot it's a lot all right here's the hot take here's the hot take big boobs are
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great you know big boobs natural big boobs this is the thing i was going to say it's a novelty
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this is the thing i was going to say about the greek statues this is going to piss all the women
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off whether you have small boobs big boobs but fuck it okay so i believe that a woman with small
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breasts where am i going how do i normally frame this a woman with small boobs can be beautiful
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wait i totally butchered this um if a woman has giant titties yeah big can crushers like yours
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whether they're real well i don't think real boobs can maybe if they're fat they can get that
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i don't know anyways you can be hot and have like giant can't like even if they're natural
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giant can crusher bazookas yeah but can you be beautiful
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that's gonna piss all the women off i think it's subjective right like because some people
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hate sydney sweeney but i think she's beautiful and she's got she's hot she's not beautiful
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i feel like most women fit into a category of you're either beautiful or you're what a man
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would consider sexy or hot there's a different aesthetic to every woman and that a lot of the
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times i've heard men talk about it dad is calling her sexy and hot and not calling her his daughter
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beautiful that's a little different because it's a father daughter i'm just saying that there's
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there's a an aesthetic specifically in the united states where women are deemed either hot or
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beautiful sophie rain does she i don't think she's that blessed i don't know she's pretty blessed
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Like, Sophie Reina's hot, but she's not beautiful.
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I don't even know where I'm going with all that.
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They never had giant fucking can crusher titties.
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There has been one on your podcast that may be worthy.
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Successful guys with skills aren't looking for strippers and of girls.
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You know, we got single, single, single, married, single, single, single, single.
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To be clear, Chair 2 wants only men who make $1 million a year to date.
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I'm sorry, but is she aware that she looks like a creature that just crawled out of a dark swamp somewhere?
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i would use like a different geographical location like there are some very nice you know like
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dark environments like the with the moon full moon i could see you crawling out of somewhere
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it's a full moon glistening yep on the mountaintops yep and there's a palm tree gently
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blowing in this the warm summer night breeze and you're attracted to those beautiful in your own
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realm people are just looking at their opinions i'm a poet i'm not phased there's someone who
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would just be like oh vietnamese that's for me look there i'm sure you're inundated i'm sure
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you're inundated with men who are like please crush me yes there's a time you know i know i'm
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not everyone's cup of tea but you know you got two cups of milk i would have okay never mind
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I think, have you ever dated a guy, like, on the longer term who's made a mill?
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Because you said you dated, like, a lot of brokies, I think.
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There was a few that did make a lot more, and I would say they were, like, 60.
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Yeah, those old, those geezers love the fake titties.
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One mil a year, but average in bed, or broke, but really good in bed?
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One mil a year, average in bed, or broke guy, grade in bed?
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average one million average one million average perfect there's no you know what
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i'm gonna do the average average one mil whichever one's cuter okay skip
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i kind of like i think i want the good in bed okay good in bed good in bed i feel like you
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can teach people you can teach people things you can teach them at least he's average right like
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at least it's not average and not like bad train them you train them is he trainable
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yeah if he's like average all right let's do this uh i mean it's not about wait would you
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rather cross paths with a random man or a random bear on the hike starting with you what did you
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write oh my god what did you write tell me what you wrote nope what did you write i said bear
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Gillian, tell me what you fucking wrote, Gillian.
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I was going to ask if they have bears in Vietnam.
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Alright, I don't want to do the bear conversation
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rate your own looks face body you can't pick seven so i'll go first i'll give you the template
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well actually you know what i'll go last but i want you to answer it like this
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uh face eight body six you could answer it like that so say that face eight body six
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um face five body six but i am a year postpartum so i get a little break
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um i'd say face six body five next um face eight body eight
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i feel i feel like face four but i'm not wearing makeup and body eight
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i'm a solid two what no uh face body oh okay two and two sure next face six body four
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all right i give myself 4.5 face 4.5 body all right let's go to this then um what's the point
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five eight six six six six eight okay so we have eight six six and then eight and eight so we have
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the two most beautiful women here at the table i would love to hear from the two most beautiful
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women do you disagree with any of the women's ratings here from the most for from you two
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do you guys think you're the most beautiful women here just curious i don't think so who's the most
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beautiful woman i just feel bad like rating people no you don't have to rate her rate her but who's
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the most beautiful woman i feel like you thank you so what is she if you're an eight what is she
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9.5 honestly i appreciate that okay uh so i give myself a 4.5 i want i'm gonna rate you guys but
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first you get to rate me just do fate we'll just do face ratings i'm not gonna do a body rating
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i'll i'll do face rating you do face rating for me um but before that we have cha can you read
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this for me okay in hindsight that was too far chair two i'm sorry your look is not for me but
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you may be a great person on the inside your expectations are absolutely absurd though get
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rid of the implants told you not everyone's cup of tea but you know what that's fine i'll live
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yeah cha you gotta be nice you know you gotta be a little nice you know maybe a champagne pot for
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the you know look maybe a little champagne pot to make up for it to not to me it's her for the
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alcohol okay anyways just kidding you don't have to do that but if you want to you can you don't
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have to but if you want to okay good talk at least you know she gets my sense of humor at least you
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know she's been a little breaking some of the rules but at least she gets me you know all right
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into the microphone five a five i think you're a good six you know like okay next dude you're
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a solid 10 oh thank you so much she said that because i complimented her cookies that i i
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charmed her with my cookie they're independent of each other i would say 4.5 she agrees she
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agrees and she's gotten up close she's got the up close you know shit this is my bad side though
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And then I'm going to tell you what I think the rating is
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you well you're wearing a lot of makeup it's hard to give a looks rating and all the plastic surgery
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you gave yourself a six if you showed me before photos i could tell you what you looked like
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okay at like 19 i guess i don't know i actually you're probably kind i bet you were i don't know
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it's hard to tell i actually didn't get a lot of work done on my face it's actually just mainly my
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body so like my eyes are real except the contacts and everything so okay yeah
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i don't know it's so hard it's like uh because of all the all the well except for the you said
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you had your hairline yeah but it was very minimal like you can't even really tell okay
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you gave yourself six i would it's it's a you have like a extreme look i guess you would say
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yeah um so i'll give you a five thank you all right you gave yourself a six skip you're like
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might is above a five so i'd probably put you ah but i gave her hmm i think you mog her
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facially yeah you mog guys i'm gonna cry like but you do have a good but she's so pretty like
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i keep looking at her in the camera like damn that's insane you think i mog her that's nuts
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Well, you are wearing a good amount of makeup, especially eye makeup.
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I'm going to say you're between 5.75 and maybe 6.15.
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She's like one step down from full glam, basically.
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I mean, if you had more eye shadow, you'd be basically full glam.
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so you're one step down um is that your natural eye color are you wearing contacts
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go like this make your eyes super wide wow okay i'm terrified now um uh you got potential you
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know you got she's got some potential uh i don't know though it's a full it's a lot of makeup and
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you overdid your eye you overdid your eyebrows a bit you're you're you're filling them in too much
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you know in the corners you're like you're like one mistake away from a unibrow
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you're you're lining them up you got to do two fingers you got to do two fingers of separation
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you currently got one thing huh this is like that's weird two fingers you got one thing i
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could fit one finger in between whatever thing you just drew is it tattoo or you drew that shit
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actually i just or is that like here man you're not gonna understand i don't really like
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necessarily feel them that much it's just the fact that i um line it with a concealer
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you guys know i'll give you i don't know five point two five point two five two
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five point six nine repeating that's crazy so generous all right you oh my god
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uh see she's kind of sweet sometimes you know she's she's like she's like a mix you know she's
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like a mix of i am a mix i mean well i wasn't talking about race but i guess that too you're
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You're like hot and cold, spicy and sweet and sour, you know?
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She's like kind of annoying, but then she makes up for it.
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You're like annoying in like an endearing kind of way.
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Like in the, okay, the makeup, like, okay, we're going to have a bunch of makeup sex
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No, I gave myself an eight, but I was totaling him with my body too.
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that's not fair you you underrated yourself that's what you told us to do many armenian
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yeah armenian yeah you're a lovely armenian woman your husband not husband husband but not husband
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is very lucky uh i think you underrated yourself you know you said you're two i'd say uh you know
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also you're uh you're 42 you know yeah like no botox you must have been a a man eater back you
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know back in the day maybe still maybe still you know you got you're an attractive woman i'd say
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like you know for your age you know you're you're doing pretty good for your age you know i'll tell
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you what um but you know look overall maybe i'd say like 4.95 but like for your age hey pretty
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good i give you 6.6 for your age for the age i guess i like that can you give us an example hey
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Most of the time, okay, most of the time, the camera, the lighting does a lot of favors.
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But I actually think, in this instance, I think you're better looking in person than on the camera.
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Like, she looks way better in person than, I don't know.
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He's like a good eight to nine, I think, for sure.
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My Jewish American princess, can you please read?
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Love is a simple creature that has no eyes or ears.
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We feel with our mind and love with our hearts.
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One look, one smile, one glance will fill our heart with joy.
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Now, I also think she put something in those cookies.
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It boosted the, gave you like an extra .5 or something.
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Not to everybody, but I've been talking a million.
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Because some of y'all don't know what you're doing.
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Do you guys think looks are super important, medium important,
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super important. Medium. Medium. Medium. Medium. Medium. Medium. Medium. Medium. Not important. Not
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important. I feel like you have to at least be a tiny bit attracted. But that's not what looks are.
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T-Dog. I want you to pull up the first photo, the most recent photo in the looks tab. It's going to
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be the tall guy, the most recent in the looks tab. And then we'll scroll up to see some more. But
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all right looks now let me ask you guys a question is that ash wait no i don't know
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doesn't that look like his face all right now you know look people say beauty attractiveness
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good looks is it's subjective yeah now i think it is the following is objectively true though
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the guy in the middle is going to have far more success with women than the guy on the right
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yeah what do you guys think though maybe i'm wrong maybe i'm wrong is the guy on the right
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making a million dollars even honestly even if he's making a million dollars what success he is
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not i don't think he's outperforming guy in the middle the body count what about it
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Like, is it the body count that we're attributing to looks?
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Just getting quality women, attracting quality women, having women have high levels of desire for you.
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It could be, like, having a lot of high-quality short-term or long-term partners.
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So, some people say looks don't matter or they don't matter.
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Do you want the guy on the right or the guy in the background in the mirror?
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She's giving me the stink eye, this one over here.
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The guy taking the picture doesn't seem like he wants to be with a woman,
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and the guy in the back wants to be with that guy who's taking the picture.
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Look at the way he's, like, smacking his lip.
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Look at that little femme boy right there.
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Let's assume he's straight, though, and you have to pick one.
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She's got a butt chin. Look, she's got a nice
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ugly. I think she's cute. I think she's got
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Um, so I'll show you women who I think are in the eight, nine range.
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Uh, not sure if she's exactly a nine, but I'd, I'd put her, she's, I'd say she's an eight.
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yeah um let's go next though long nose big mouth pointy chin uh so adriana lima i think many people
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would consider her i told her outside that i thought she looked like her i don't think i would
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no you do there she is uh next uh so this is jessica biel uh i'd say she's very attractive
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maybe not totally nine but in the eight or nine category i'd say next
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uh so there she is uh we have taylor hill who some i i don't think next
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oh you like their smile she's very attractive i'd say she's a very attractive woman um
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brian all their mouths look alike so that's what you're into the chin look at all their
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Just Calva, of course, you know, very attractive woman.
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And then this is the only 10, I think, the next one.
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We are but merely peons in comparison to Gorlock.
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i'll show you my um i don't she's not a nine but i'll show you like my celebrity crush i had when
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i was younger who i think is very beautiful very attractive not most people would put her closer
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to a seven maybe um but go ahead pull up kristin kruik you know someone got beards right all right
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You know, look, my viewers, you know, I'm not saying she's a nine.
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You know, Kristen Kruick, if you're single, if you're single, you know.
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Scroll down to the one above Sidney Sweeney and then click on the white woman.
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I mean, this is probably pretty close to a one.
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Yeah, but you have to understand, like, the extremes.
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So, I mean, some people might say, like, I mean, if we're talking...
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If we're going all the way to zero, then you're talking about people who have, like, severe facial deformities and, like, genetic defects and, like, this sort of thing that I feel like is a bit...
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So, according to your scale, is it something along the lines of 10 is pretty much unreachable, 4 is slightly below attractive, 5 is pretty average, and 6 is above average?
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and they can't have makeup on no makeup because all those girls don't know those girls have
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they probably they probably no they didn't have makeup on just mascara is what it looked like
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it was very natural looking is what i'm trying to say i suppose so wait what's your question
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i just was asking what like your scale i guess kind of meant it meant yeah well i mean rated
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her one and then you know your little crush 10 so i if you want to use a word to describe the
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numbers it would be something approximating this five is average six is cute seven is pretty eight
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is beautiful nine is like elite tier 0.001 percent like elite super now these models like
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calvin klein i guess they they're not doing this anymore but they were hiring like obese people and
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shit they're like supermodels what does that even mean but i'm talking like your stereotypical
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historic view of like a what a supermodel is um like elite to your face um so yeah i guess a nine
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would be like elite level 10 doesn't exist 10 does not exist do you think that if you ever found like
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your wife and you thought she was beautiful could she potentially be your 10 because beauty is in
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the eye of the beholder i think that there is probably a woman out there well the other thing
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i'm realistic like i'm i gave myself a 4.5 right like realistically speaking the woman who i would
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like a woman who i would categorize as a nine or even like a 10 she's so attractive like i'm chubby
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and i'm average looking at best she's not going for me like that's just men have to be realistic
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with these sorts of things like but that's not necessarily true are not sliding into my dms
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elite supermodels with like god tier face cards they've got like so many options yeah but it's
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don't involve chubby podcasters it's more likely for a woman to end up with an unattractive man
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even if she is attractive rather than a good-looking man end up with an unattractive
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woman woman i feel like also those models my husband's half of his face is reconstructed
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because he got shot 13 times well look i mean look there there's not like some exact rule
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where it's like okay you're gonna perfect you're gonna end up with your like exact looks equivalent
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or your looks match but like also i'm but he looks realistic here it's like yeah there it's not
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exactly um for me like the look if she wants to come by i'm not gonna reject a beautiful
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like lethal face card woman but realistically speaking i'm probably gonna end up with like
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you know cute average looking girl like seven i mean but when we're talking about the like so
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people don't always match up precisely like there's other value that you can bring beyond just
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look so where i might be lacking in this one aspect i might make up for it in in other ways
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but like a lethal face card woman i think is for me i wouldn't turn her down it's probably unlikely
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Well, I guess kind of more what I was getting at is that when you love somebody, right, and beauty is, you know, it's up to whoever they're looking at.
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Like, I'm sure, you know, I view my husband as a 10, obviously, because he's my husband, and I find him attractive.
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I feel like most people would probably rate him a 7 or an 8.
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He could do modeling if he wanted to, but to me, he's a 10, and I don't think I would ever see anybody as more attractive to him because I love him.
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So I was wondering if you thought you would be able to actually achieve that 10 if you
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ever did decide to get in a relationship, because I know, I think we've all learned
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Honestly, I don't think, I mean, no, I don't think I would be able, like, okay.
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So look, if a woman I deemed was a nine or a 10 and she wanted to get with me, I'd be
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But realistically speaking, I think that's unlikely to happen.
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if it does happen great wonderful i think it's gonna happen i think you're i think you're gonna
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get married one day the whole nine and then you're gonna look back on this and then you're
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like dang i was you don't need to stroke my ego it's not a stroke on the ego look you have to be
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real men have to be realistic when it comes to dating um it's like realistically no i don't
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think it's gonna happen well more what i was saying was that i think one day you probably
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will find the woman you're going to want to marry and no i'll probably end up with it'll change
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your mind in the way everything you said before and you're like wow i can't believe i really
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thought this way because i love this girl yeah but okay so there's love you can love somebody
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but based off of uh general principles of facial aesthetics you could you could find them
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attractive you can think they're sexy you can love this person but you can also still be objective
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who are more attractive than my wife or girlfriend.
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there are women who are more attractive than you.
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like that's just unrealistic like i would not okay i would not be offended if my girlfriend was like
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now i wouldn't want her to like say it to me uh and i would never tell my girlfriend like hey by
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the way uh you're like i wouldn't rate my girl even if she asked me i'd be like don't worry about
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it i'd probably just be like i might even say she's a 10 in my eye not because it's objectively
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my my objectively true thought process but just to i don't want to have that conversation with
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it's the right answer like it's not a productive conversation to be like no you're a fucking five
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like that's not a productive conversation but like i i wouldn't be offended for example if in
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my girlfriend's mind she's like well i'm not going to say this to brian but like brad pitt
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when he was 30 was was and is more attractive than brian that doesn't offend me like brad pitt
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you might say it's subjective but like i think there's objective components to assessments of
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beauty i think 99 of people would agree that brad pitt when he was 30 mogs brad pitt now
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at fucking 60 i would argue is more attractive than me in my 30s so this doesn't offend me
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Some people are more physically attractive than others.
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I just accept the reality that there are people who are more attractive than others.
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And if I wouldn't be like, oh, my God, I how could she think that I'm not more attractive than like Brad Pitt or Leonardo or like any super attractive guy?
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Well, it's like as a woman, you know, Megan Fox from Transformers.
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I mean every single guy would say in that movie
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So inflated you can't even have conversations with them
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row but but i would not find it offensive if my girlfriend privately thought that yes like from
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like a objective aesthetic assessment there are men who are more attractive than brian like
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that doesn't bother me but i feel like women would feel bothered if even if the man doesn't
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say anything if in his own private brain thought there are more women who are just objectively
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more attractive like i i don't know what do you yeah yeah i was saying or you were raising you
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yeah i did yeah no you're good i was behind you yeah um when i was younger i had a crush on this
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kid obviously you know here posture up speak straight into sorry i thought i was doing good
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um and he told me that he didn't like me because he's not into african-american girls
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they call me black girl but you know okay and like that's my point of example like some people
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don't even just like you know certain colors and whatever else yeah i think it's fine it's just
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someone's whole realm of like how they look at people and well i think it's fine for people
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have racial dating preferences that's fine okay going let's get into the questionnaire here
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jillian you said yeah do you have any disagreements with the show you said yeah what are the
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disagreements that was before i understood the show but i do disagree with your thing
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about marriage but i also can't really argue it because it's for you personally
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okay um any other disagreements i do think your takes are sometimes a bit extreme such as what
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um you called me a gremlin yeah you called her a gremlin but you said yeah in response to uh
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then that was before i made the gremlin comment so what are my and that i mean is that an extreme
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take or is that just me like kind of was really mean i mean she she she um would probably agree
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though i think she would agree yeah i think i would agree i'm not saying she looks like a gremlin
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I thought you were talking about her looks.
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Okay, while you think, I'm going to read this chat.
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TOS shit, I don't know if you're fucking throwing
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um but yeah make sure it's clean but otherwise yeah fuck it $4.99 not for $4.99 we'll do it for
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that yeah you get free promo why not uh okay what are the extreme takes it's about women in general
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yeah you gotta be specific the whole thing about gender roles be specific that's very vague
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you're basically your stance is you want women to be in the kitchen and stuff like that
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you want wait so and that's extreme didn't you say i said i would out of my own no no not about
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you you said that men should pay for everything in a relationship everything in a relationship
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you would never date a broke man so we are we're basically mere op not mere opposites
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you are the other component of my perspective if you can say men should be i mean if i can be
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uncharitable your position is men are atms right um you're being uncharitable a bit with my position
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women should be in the kitchen women should make sandwiches that's your uh assessment of my view
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on traditional gender roles right yes so okay if my position is objectionable certainly yours is too
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yeah so what's the problem then i guess there is none that's it that's all you got for me okay
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so my view on traditional gender roles is i think in society probably what works best for
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both men and women's wants is a more traditional dynamic.
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Man as leader, man as provider, man as protector, woman submissive, woman as follower, woman
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as nurturer, woman as taking care of the internal household, the raising of the kids, taking
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care of the house, cooking, cleaning, and the man handles the external aspects of the
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outside of the house, making money, protection, et cetera.
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now there is some protection duty that involves the internal aspect of the family but uh i don't
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understand though how you can actually have a problem with my view if you yourself basically
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are the mirror of my view i guess you do have a point there yeah like yeah i mean it's like well
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brian you're kind of a jerk well you're kind of a jerk too okay that's fine but so it's like
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where's the criticism then it's like where's the traditional gender rules are bad but men should
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pay for everything in a relationship like it's a tradition yeah i guess like i am more so what
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aspect but okay you say you think men should pay for everything in a relationship
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so what i what i guess what i'm getting from you is you want the man to be traditional but you
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don't want you to be traditional you want 2026 feminism modernity freedom choice for you you
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want all the choice you want to do whatever the fuck you want to do you don't want any uh you
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don't want the man to have any authority at all yeah i hate that i don't like the idea of being
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controlled well i wouldn't frame it as control i would frame it as authority and responsibility
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if if the man should pay for everything in the relationship if you come to me and you say i want
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a horse it's my job to tell you horses are expensive you don't get a horse that money can
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be better spent somewhere else so i would have if you want me to have responsibility paying for
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everything in the relationship. I need authority in the relationship. You want to buy a $10,000
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purse. I need to be like, you're retarded. That's vanity. That's consumerism. That's
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retarded. Like it literally, you can go to Costco and get a $50 bag, which does the exact same thing.
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so if you say brian you got to pay for everything i need to have control and be like temper your
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uh what's the right word not vain i need to yes whims i need to temper your consumerist
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vain vanity i need to temper all that right i need to tell you what's the point i need to
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have a conversation with you what does a ten thousand dollar purse do that a fifty dollar
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purse can't shows off it holds the things you need like what's the tell me what the purpose
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of a purse is to hold things to hold things and does it cost ten thousand dollars to do that
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like a gucci bag does it hold something better than a 50 bag from amazon or costco depends on
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the materials it might be a better quality sure then perhaps there's like a premium
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one that maybe costs 100 or 200 maybe you're right but you would agree that um you know
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the 10 000 price tag it's purely about the brand and not about the quality of the materials
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or cost of the materials there is a good value of the liquidation of having um physical assets
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versus having it monetarily like that's why a lot of people who are rich and they appreciate
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things like that not to use like a purse but like to hold on to in like a generational wealth type
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of sense not fashion literally costs like 200 dollars in material for a chanel bag you guys
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That's a one, like, that's a very specific thing.
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It's stupid, and it's only as much as the demand is.
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Yeah, but a Birkin's, like, $40,000 or something.
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You've got to have that money to have that money to appreciate.
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And are you going to use it, or is it just going to sit in a closet?
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My mom is a single mom, and my dad passed away when I was 14.
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Okay, so your mom remarried or has a boyfriend?
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But that was so long ago, so she hasn't really had a relationship since that.
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Okay, so growing up, and sorry to hear that your father passed when you're young.
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um did was your father wealthy or well off or um semi i would say like it would depend if he was
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having he owned a business um he owned a plumbing company so it would depend if he was having like
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a good month or a bad month and he was also do you have your own car um no i got my license really
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late okay i got my license like two months ago oh okay congrats um all right but so you're not
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you growing up you didn't have luxury goods no okay so why you don't need them but that's what
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i want so what if what if there was a um a paradigm shift in your your view here you want it right
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why because they just think they're so beautiful they're beautiful okay but what if there's
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something else beautiful that could be given to you like what about an experience like traveling
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for example right that could be beautiful in a way that a purse wouldn't be yeah now it might
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be fleeting you only have that experience once of course you have the memories and i guess the
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purse is unless you get stolen or lost right but so so happiness is just a moment before you need
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more happiness yeah so okay you have the purse and you're happy for like five minutes and then
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i'm gonna want to do it right but shouldn't you address that dysfunction in your brain
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i mean maybe it's what am i i'm materialist that's what the word i was looking for the
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materialism i was saying what was i saying it's not long-term happiness materialism
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you need to deprogram that in your brain you need to unplug yourself from the matrix you've been
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sold a lie you've seen rappers and their bling and all these chicks on tiktok oh look how happy
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i am i'm rich and blah blah blah um that's not happiness and also happiness is bullshit
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to begin with yeah and i also don't agree with the fact that money buys happiness
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but you you say you want these things to what end do you want the twenty thousand dollar purse
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it would make me happy to have it and it why because to me i don't know it's just
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i feel like it symbolizes like how far i've come and sure like obviously like i would want to buy
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that for myself before a man could so that i could say wow i really did this you can also
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make a down payment on a house so is it like what if you got the bag for free and he didn't have to
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buy it um is some his is really rich boss you know gave it to him as a present because he knew
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you'd want one and he that's the collective bonuses for years whatever blah blah he winds
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getting the bag for free you got the bag for free perfect so then it has nothing yeah not even
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it doesn't matter about the money to get it or i don't think i'm going to be able to change your
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mind but i think part of the deprogramming uh one has to do in dating and maybe you think that
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that this is uh beyond the scope of what one should engage in or accept in a relationship
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um the deprogramming of the materialism now look some people are like you know what i'm
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materialist and i accept it and i'm self-aware and hey that that is what it is um but uh i don't
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know because part of your materialism has an impact on the relationship because you want
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a guy to pay for everything for you yeah so it's not just like i'm gonna make my own money and
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buy this shit coming into the relationship you're gonna have expectations no i would buy that
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myself but you said his money is our money my money is my money yeah so if you were married
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to a guy you're gonna use his money to buy yourself luxury goods if he says no i'll have my
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money uh sure i guess so if a guy wasn't able to buy or like pay for this lifestyle right now
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would you date him like you're you're 19 right yeah so like you're gonna find someone who's
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also 19 or early 20s like what if they can't afford to buy you a Birkin right now like would
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you still date him I mean I'm not really looking for that right now but that was my question would
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you date someone who's not financially stable enough I mean obviously a 19 no not a lot of
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men are financially stable enough to provide that lifestyle and you're so i guess that would
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be fine unless she dates like older men or something no but if i could see that they're
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putting an effort to provide that lifestyle one day in the future then yeah okay i would say there
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is like something in society that just kind of like sucks that like puts it there because like
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my daughter will come out of school and she'll be like oh so-and-so's dad can't afford gucci
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and i'm like good for so-and-so's dad your mom got gucci like you know like what are we what are
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we talking about here materialism wise that's not what's important i've told her multiple times
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beauty's on the inside eye of the beholder like money's not important as long as you have what
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you need yeah you want to have money of course but like you need to find your men this is the
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advice to men. You need to find yourself a woman who, and look, it's not like a total binary yes
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or no. We're all going to have some materialist, some materialism slant, some leaning, but you
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need to find yourself a woman that she doesn't need the luxury bag. She doesn't need the luxury
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clothes. She doesn't need all this. You can do, especially if you're wealthy, you can do a lot
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for a woman. Um, but I think the, the actual true wealth, I guess that you could bestow on a woman
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is not buying her a $40,000 purse. It's all the bills are paid. You got a nice house. Everything's
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taken care of. She doesn't have to work. You can do nice vacations have pretty much of like the
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things that are needed uh pay for all those that's fine but um you want you want a fucking
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forty thousand dollar bag what the fuck I also think men need to tell girls that this is unrealistic
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like hey shut up like you're not getting a forty thousand dollar bag that's just not happening and
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if it does happen it will be in 60 years after we have kids after they've all graduated high school
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after they all get married then you can get this prizing look how good you did but like yeah it's
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it men need to stand up and be like look you're not getting the big house you're not getting the
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nice car like you get what you get and you don't throw a fit this is my house this is what this is
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what we do and we don't believe in these materialistic values well there also is a
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narrative that is pushed to where yeah i think the biggest gift i mean at least to me that a man
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could give me which is what I have is children and being able to raise those children 100%
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and as a woman me making that statement pisses a lot of women off because they are so
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they're so hypnotized by this idea of feminism that the thought of me wanting to just be a wife
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and a mom isn't good enough it's not good enough oh it's the conditional you've been tricked
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completely tricked but that is the best gift any man could give me would be that i got i got a
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question on this um do you think for the whole women at the panel do you think that so say a
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guy makes a million dollars a year he could afford a forty thousand dollar bag he could afford it
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the wife wants it they've been together for five years or however long she wants a forty thousand
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dollar bag and he's like no is that well excluding the laughing part he just says no
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well i think if he's willing is it able to is it financial abuse no no but she really wants it
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and she'll be sad that's not what financial abuse is some people think it is okay clan can you read
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this one from clane into the mic into the mic six three into the mic oh six three four five six six
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five four six four none of us are really above average same here willing to share a random
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selfie that's why money is important looks are secondary to connection thank you clane for the
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chat much appreciated i don't know the materialism the vanity the consumerism
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it starts when you're a kid honestly i mean people are out here debating over kids getting
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Gucci jeans and they're not even like 15 they're like five-year-olds i do i do have a diaper yeah
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what is that i do have to say you're right because when i was younger about her age i was all about
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the red bottoms and the nice purses and stuff but now that i'm older it's like i don't really care
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like i rather sell those bags you know and like because like for what reason like i don't even
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wear my nice white shoes out anymore because i'm afraid it's gonna get dirty you know so it's like
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when you get older your mindset changes for sure uh katie you said smaller labia are better
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in fact you're an actual terrorist you you're you're a brain terrorist you're like dating
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these dudes and it's like 40 000 bag it's fucked up man it's fucked up you're a terrorist
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hold on um but you had disagreements you said my views are extreme is there anything else that you
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can think of not at the moment it's just the gender roles that's it that's all you got the
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gender roles extreme okay not at the moment i don't have anything guys it's extreme that i want
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to have seven kids with a woman and pay for everything and just let her be a stay-at-home
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uh girlfriend stay-at-home um stay-at-home mom you know raising kids very extreme
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she has to be submissive very extreme very extreme yes i think seven is extreme
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nah that's a good number that's so many times to give birth though like to push
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yeah a million a year just found that gave birth 13 times a million a year for this girl and she
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wants to have one kid or some shit that one girl who just was found at like 20 something
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what does this have to do with anything i don't know um all right here uh cat cat
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uh you agree with the following statement women are just as physically strong as men
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i mean mike mike mike mike i mean we could be okay but so generally speaking
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so there are definitely women who are stronger than very few men but there are some women who
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are really strong um i have a lot of bodybuilder friends that are also female so that's why okay
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but as a general principle um are women just as physically strong as men
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i mean no unless you're a bodybuilder i guess well how about this female bodybuilder
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versus male bodybuilder okay well obviously no okay so you're comparing untrained man to
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female bodybuilder i guess okay i mean i think in some strength tests the man would still be
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stronger even if he's like never stepped foot in the gym well i i do have a few male friends
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male friends that have like they're like you know they look like they work out and stuff
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they're like they're not like scrawny or anything and then um they're not as strong as they look
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sure okay jillian uh you agree with the following gillian excuse me i said it's jillian oh sorry
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Women do not have equal rights to men in the USA
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okay i was thinking in terms of abortion but then i was like okay well men don't have abortions
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right because the question is about um equal rights to men so it could maybe it's the case
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that uh this is a right that women want but men don't get abortion so it would there's not an
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inequality that exists anything else rights wise no okay uh who else circled on 18
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Really? I feel like that's a nickname for Fatimas
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Women do not have equal rights to men in the USA
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So putting abortion aside, do men and women have equal rights?
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okay grace um you also uh women do not have equal rights to men in the usa why is that
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i feel like there's still a lot of wage gap and a lot of the same jobs i do feel like
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it's not understood by men our menstrual cycle but what would that have to do with rights
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i have the right to bleed like three months out the year but you guys have the i mean i
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it's not a right it's a biological reality that women have periods what would that have to do with
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okay so i understand that men don't have periods women do have periods
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men and women are different yeah right so okay what and i'm saying that the wage gap what are
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the okay so is it your position though in the usa women do not have equal rights to men
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yeah okay what are the rights uh what are the lacking of rights that women have
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aren't necessarily the issue i guess when you say equal rights i mean day-to-day basis of just like
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okay how we're treated that's more so women are treated better than men
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No, I think men are treated better than women.
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So are you prepared to agree with the affirmative claim that women do have equal rights to men in the USA?
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No, actually, women don't have equal rights.
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So what are the rights that women don't have?
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When in certain states, if you wind up having a miscarriage, you can get arrested.
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i don't feel like that's not true that's not true women are not getting arrested for having
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missed genuine miscarriages that's propaganda to convince like you to think about abortion
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that's just flat out not true okay but how would this even have to do with equal rights because
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men are not don't have miscarriages even if this was true it wouldn't really apply
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to equal rights so what are the rights that men have that women don't
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i think just never mind no go ahead go on i don't know it's not like a legal thing i think
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it's just more of like a here can you speak like i don't think it's more of just a legal thing i
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just think it's more of like a societal thing but that wouldn't have to do with rights like
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obviously there's that's why i said never mind okay so are you prepared to say that men and
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women have equal rights equal rights not treated equally yes that's that was not treated equally
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differently okay that's a different thing then uh so they do have equal rights i don't know if
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anyone else bit on the equal rights thing nope uh let's see here um
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adult age gap relationships are wrong gillian why is that i don't think an 18 year old should
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be dating like a 40 year old just because it's legal does not make that okay yeah speaking to
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mic please just get up on the mic like one inch away um wait here can you pull your skirt down
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please oh my god um okay so uh you're against age gaps what about in the example provided a 30 year
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old dating a 20 year old is that objectionable i don't i don't think that's okay what okay so
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The frontal, your frontal lobe does not develop till you're 25.
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And somebody could write that the prefrontal lobe myth.
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the brain matures at 25 myth or 25 year old brain myth is the belief that the human brain reaches an
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adult level of maturity approximately around age 25 this interpretation is widespread in the media
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and public discourse and appears in some scientific literature it has taken multiple variations the
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most common relates to the prefrontal cortex of the brain and its role in functions such as decision
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making, long-term planning, risk assessment, and impulse control. The prefrontal cortex has been
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shown to mature at a slower rate than other parts of the brain. This finding has been widely cited
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in popular media, public discourse, and some policy contexts to argue that individuals under 25
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years of age do not have mature decision-making capabilities. Its exact origin is unclear,
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but some have pointed to the research of neuroscientist Jay Geed. Most research indicates
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that the human brain development continues into the 20s but there's no oh sorry my bad but there
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is no strong evidence suggesting a sharp cutoff at 25 or that individuals below this age are less
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capable at making decisions all right so hold on there's a tts and then we'll continue on with
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the age gap stuff thank you cloud sup brian thank you women have more rights men can get
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There are women who did sneak into a lot of wars at this point because they wanted to do it.
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Any rights we have now, I'm just saying, if there are women in the past who feel like it wasn't a right.
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Bro, there's like, women snuck into the war.
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That's fucking like in, exactly, in Mulan.
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There's volunteer women who joined the volunteer, the military, but the military, even the volunteer force is still majority men.
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so women don't want to do that generally speaking if i could add any rights that we do have are
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because of men because there would never be a society where women would take over and dictate
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all of society i'm sorry that would just never happen men have the physical capabilities we are
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given intuition to combat those physical capabilities but there will never be a society
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where women will be in charge and dictate over everything.
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So any of the privileges that we have and any of the rights
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And the women who advocated for women having the right to vote.
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Actually, the voting is not necessarily a privilege, but a curse.
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But yeah, I mean, they don't have a right to...
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I mean, it's like the huge inequality that exists between men and women that in order for men to have the ability to vote, men have to be subject to military conscription.
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That actually places women in a privileged position.
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Men have an actual government mandated, potentially in times of war, forcible duty, not just like a voluntary duty.
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the government the state can force men into a duty to this country there is nothing that you
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can compare for women women don't have any duties there's a lot of countries where that's seen as
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honorable because you're fighting i understand people in your country so yeah that's why for
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some women i wouldn't do it because i have a child otherwise yeah i probably would sign up
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were voting for things that we weren't able to say
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for men to go through those kinds of procedures than women.
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can you tell me a duty can the government force women to do anything
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i've never gone bear children okay hold on so um jury duty uh not exactly comparable to like
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having to before like taking take your bodily autonomy away and men also have this duty
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is there a duty that the government and by the way like well force
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none they don't have not their children no women can the government force you to have a child
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no unfortunately into the mic you can be physically attacked and then not be but can
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the government pick a man and tell the man go rape that woman and then prevent the and force
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the woman to get pregnant is that how that works no it's not how it works right so i'm asking what
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can the government force women to do it can't even force women to voluntarily have sex or reproduce
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i'm responding to you you said the government i just think that's a that was a weird
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counteraction the the government if a man is uh if a man is drafted you see these they
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probably don't even know the government in ukraine literally abducts men in the street
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drags them into vans and then sends them to military boot camp and then sends them to the
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front line most likely to die yeah even in ukraine where there's some argument about okay well we need
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to reproduce our numbers there is not a program where the government with masked thugs is abducting
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women and like raping them and i'm not by the way that would be fucking atrocious and should never
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happen can you the induction of men is wrong as well right but like so men have a duty
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to this country women do not that doesn't happen here that happens in ukraine you just said
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oh my god he's saying yeah go ahead he's saying that even in places like ukraine where it's so
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diabolical what they're doing to men women are not being forced into any kind of government
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operation and so that's countries like ukraine i feel like women are valued more
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wait what oh wait wait really quick also you know what's interesting not the way they treat
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them necessarily this is a argument that came to me earlier that is really interesting so and
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i've brought this point up many times on the show when the war in ukraine broke out the government
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of ukraine passed a law that said all men between the ages of 18 and 60 they could not leave the
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country if you're a woman you could flee at any age any age of woman any woman you want to head to
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you want to leave you want to head west you want to go to Stockholm you want to go to Sweden you
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want to go to England you want to go to a safer country that's not at war with Russia yeah you
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can leave as a woman now here's the interesting thing though there are women in certain occupations
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not not in the military certain occupations that could be useful for the war effort for example
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nurses there are many women nurses that women predominate in the nursing field
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i don't know if you guys know about war nurses are kind of useful
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all but you know what they're like even if you're a nurse and you're a woman you can leave meanwhile
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you could be like an 18 year old college boy who has no experience with anything in life
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drafted there's an argument to be made that a 25 year old female nurse might be more useful than
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a given male body like an 18 year old male there could be some argument there but no you're a nurse
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you might be useful to the war effort nah just you can dip if you want to you can leave so i don't
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know that's an interesting thought i had but yeah women don't have any duties they don't have duties
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What I did say was that there are women who would find the same honor as there are men who would find in getting drafted.
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No governments are forcing women into war.
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There's like a couple of countries that draft women.
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Okay, but so in the United States anyways, women don't have any duty to the country in the same way that men do.
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they don't give us the same rights yeah it's not no no no no no uh men it's not a right that men
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have so men don't have the right to be drafted as if men want to be drafted so i know guys who've
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been like i want to sign up just so that way i have a chance to get okay men have the right to
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volunteer for the military women have the right to volunteer for the military but a draft is
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i don't want to join the military and the government says that's too fucking bad you're
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off to fucking boot camp and then you're off to the front you're off to do something for the
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military and we're going to force you you don't want to do it we're going to take away your bodily
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autonomy and we're going to force you to do it here's a gun jump over walk over the trench and
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into the bullet fire into the gunfire okay good talk uh taylor the hater can you read this one
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why is fast food prices so high like what the heck i love pop by spicy tenders but you're
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telling me i have to pay like 25 bucks for this what are your thoughts on this yes that is it's
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fucked up um feminism it's to the fast food prices you got to blame it on feminism you got to blame
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it on they're not legal i blame it on illegal immigrants they're they're running the prices up
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that's that's who's to blame okay uh okay so let's see if the uh cat people of color can't
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be racist towards white people we say that again you agree with the following statement people of
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color can't so for example black people can't be racist i did i circle that you did did i probably
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read it wrong if you didn't mean to then yeah oh we we got off the the age gap relationship
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that's where we're there um okay why is it wrong because what was the to the mic please what was
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the one you put in the example is 30 and 20 okay yeah a 20 year old and a 30 year old are probably
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most likely at two different places in lives your typical average 20 year old is in college
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a 30 year old already has a stable job and everything and when let me ask you uh what if
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you're the same age and you're in two different places in life like you would agree that not all
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30-year-olds for example like some 30-year-olds are really well established and 30 some 30-year-olds
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their life is like more fucked than an 18 year old's life right okay so should is it like
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predatory or immoral for a 30-year-old who's successful to date a 30-year-old whose life
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is all fucked up not saying that the 30-year-old whose life is together would want to date but
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is it like immoral i don't think they should well you don't think they should because it
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be a mistake i wouldn't say it's immoral but i i just don't think they should right because it
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might be a bad decision yeah right but this is the example i gave is like their life's all like
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fucked up and shit um okay uh what's that why would they want to be with someone like that
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like that's like almost like a what's wrong with you that's irrelevant to the conversation
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i'm just saying okay so uh a 30 year old who's more established who's ready to have a family
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i don't think i feel like there's a maturity there's definitely a 25 year old prefrontal
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cortex thing oh we need to discuss that too okay 25 year old prefrontal cortex
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okay so do you think like you're 19 so are you retarded i'm not saying i'm retarded oh you're
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not i'm not retarded but like are you just not fully there i wouldn't say my my frontal lobe
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is fully developed no like if i okay if i offered you like some heroin right now you'd be like
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well i'm fucking 19 and i'm retarded i don't know if this is a good idea i wouldn't do heroin
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okay then i don't understand like okay so what it let's say when do people reach maximal
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brain development 25 i would think so okay yeah but so say it starts at zero when i guess you're
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a newborn it's not but whatever let's say it's zero and you're a newborn and 100 at 25 when
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you're 19 or let's say 20 when you're 20 where is the development of your brain at at 20 i would
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say because most 20 year olds are still in college drinking doing whatever dumb decisions that they're
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doing that they're making yeah yes 30 year olds do make dumb decisions but i feel like okay the
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question is what level of brain development is someone at like okay 25 is 100 where is their
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brain development at 20 maybe 80 80 80 90 so they're just retarded they're just that doesn't
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make them retarded no it makes them retarded it does not here's what it here's what it's probably
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like so from the ages of zero to like when you hit 18 you're probably like 98 there and there's
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like one or two additional development uh points from 18 to 25 if even this is just like bro math
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i feel like you change a lot from going from 18 to 25 okay but so can can you change a lot from
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30 and 60 yes right so just because you change a lot doesn't necessarily have some reflection
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on your brain development yeah yes queen so okay the this prefrontal cortex thing one it's bogus
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you're basically pretty much fully developed okay but how do you know it's bogus from wikipedia
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anyone can write anything on wikipedia okay so there's scientific citations on that you can look
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it up it's been debunked the whole thing's it's debunked okay so but beyond that okay 30 and 20
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is it just a general age gap of like the 20 30 or like what about 40 and 16 like we're not talking
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about that um we're talking about 30 and 20 she finds that who does who also finds it objectionable
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the age gap thing anybody else i mean i think if you're 50 and you're dating an 18 year old i mean
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i think you're kind of weird because it's close to a kid but if you're well it is technically an
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adult it is technically an adult yes but like personal i mean at age 21 i would never date
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someone that was 18 you know you do a lot of growing in that time but well 30 and like 60
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is different yeah but you said you're when you're 21 you wouldn't date an 18 year old
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you shouldn't map on the female frame to the male frame that is true so like
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like even like a 19 year old girl wouldn't want to date an 18 year old man like no that absolutely
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makes sense but i feel like which isn't even like an eight like a huge age but i feel like a majority
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of and i could be wrong but i feel like a majority of men who would be in their like 20 to 25 range
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wouldn't want to date like an immediate just turned 18 year old there's a lot of immaturity
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that comes from that and not necessarily because i feel like especially in this generation most of
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the 18 19 year olds are really immature they have no moral standing they some of them sure
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stand their beliefs so i that would just be odd here's the question to ask though let's say that
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there is a 19 year old who who actually is that mature yeah does the objection still exist
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not as much no i think it genuinely is a in the same way that if there was a 20 year old who was
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behind like developmentally in a lot of ways i would think that was morally wrong for you to be
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with a 20 year old just because they're of legal age if they're not mentally fully there i would
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think that was wrong yeah like if they were yeah don't date a retard but no that's not necessarily
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what i'm getting by the way retards deserve love too absolutely but what i'm getting at is that if
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they are behind in life or if they're not i don't know do they how retarded are we talking like okay
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let's just say i don't know like uh love on the spectrum they you can i'm not talking about can i
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date somebody on love on the spectrum i mean what they're autistic what's wrong they're not retarded
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you can are you going she said no there's some hot autistic women i think that's debate i think
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that's debatable on their level of some autistic women tonight according to my dad no i think
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that's on their level of function okay because there are some autistic people who can't function
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and they can't okay yes if you're like but there are also high functioning autistic if you're like
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disabled then yeah that's wrong so my point is is that i yes age obviously i think it matters
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who has adhd like you can date a woman who has adhd well absolutely although maybe there's like
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really severe adhd i guess i don't know i just think that maturity does play a really big aspect
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what's the oldest guy you've dated into the mic probably well we didn't really date but it was
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it was 19 when i was 16 the drug dealer okay well that's
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um that's kind of weird on his part i guess a little bit but um
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okay uh so the age gap you don't like the age gaps um cool story bro uh let me ask you this though
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i'm 37 say a 20 year old girl dms me like i'm not going to the college parties
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uh i'm not like hitting on her she slides into my dms and she's 20 and she's like brian i agree
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with you on everything i want to have seven children we are values aligned should i reject her
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i mean she's 20 and you're 37 you're right basically twice her age almost almost yeah
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yeah you don't think that she still has like more growing to do
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what do you mean more what like mental growing she's not retarded bro like she can vote
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she can sign contracts i think she can have like a consensual romantic relationship with a man
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well people have kids at 18 and that changes their whole life they take out hundreds of
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thousands of dollars worth of loans at 18 and that changes their whole life you're telling me
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that they can't get into a relationship with someone where they can wake up one day and be
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like you know what this was too much for me i don't i'm not ready for this i can leave
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unfortunately but they can do that a relationship is way less way less of a contract than school is
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way less of a contract than kids are you do you think that like i do feel like there is a power
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dynamic in that though power dynamic um the power dynamic thing but he she reached out to him in this
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situation yeah then i guess in that case maybe i don't know i still find it a bit odd why would
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you even like because she's hot because she's hot and she wants to have seven kids you don't see her
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as a like a child though basically no bro she's a fucking adult she's 20 even drink i don't i don't
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drink yeah but why would that matter you can leave like you can leave i can legally drink
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wow so what if it's in canada isn't the drinking age 19 cool i'm gonna go to fucking canada and i
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guess it's okay then i guess is it all right if i go to canada i fuck a 19 year old she can legally
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drink like what the fuck your arguments the drinking argument's ridiculous but brian i do
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have a question for you regarding the whole age gap thing okay if i can ask sure do you think
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like your answer would change if you did let's just say you did have children right and you were
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let's say you were 40 you had a 20 year old daughter sure right yeah would you date another
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20 year old or would you find that inappropriate if you have children because i know that changes
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the perspective for a lot of people they wouldn't want to date someone who is younger or the same
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ages their children um i think it would add another
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component to it um i feel like i see situations like that pretty often where they're like i hate
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my stepmom she's like three years younger than me this is weird as fuck like what is going on
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that's what i'm saying with that change absent children there's a social stigma that exists
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not i think some people are fine with age gaps other people have issues with it whatever so the
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social stigma the social stigma exists this would be an uh supposed added layer to the the social
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stigma i disagree with the social stigma um so i mean you can throw in all these like i don't
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understand the logic here here if i have a white daughter is it somehow wrong of me to date a white
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woman because my daughter happens to be white that's completely different it's completely
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the age it's completely coherent because it's like your argument is daughter shares trait with
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a woman that you would date therefore this is somehow problematic okay like my dad is in his
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late 40s right i'm 21 if let's say he divorced my stepmom and then got married to a 21 year old
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i would think that was weird as fuck i would be like we're at the same developmental point i would
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think that was strange so i was wondering if you feel the same way i understand that that there is
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social pressure there's peer pressure there's social stigma related to age gap relationships
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and that might create something especially the case if say you had a daughter when you were 20
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now you're 40 and now you're back on the market and potentially one of the women you might date
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is close in age to your daughter. I understand that that can increase the level of social stigma
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but if this 20 year old was otherwise a good match for me and she was attractive
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and we aligned on values don't actually see what the objection is. I mean I just wanted to know
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your personal opinion on what in this case we can throw all kinds of crazy hypotheticals around
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i don't have a 20 year old daughter yeah so the question back to you is i'm 37 a 20 year old girl
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slides into my dm she contacts me i'm not out there scoping for 20 year olds but she hits me
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up she's beautiful she's attractive giant fucking labia matches all my values she's like brian
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college fucking sucks um i'm ready to have kids within a year or two should i reject her for moral
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reasons into the mic you're still you're still 37 you're twice her you're double i'm not double
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her age okay yeah because you have three years left okay and three okay what does that matter
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though what's your point do you not see where that's you need to make an argument you need to
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make an actual argument just do you not see what i'm but you need to actually say something for me
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to see what you're saying it's icky it's icky because it's icky you need to make an argument
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for why a 20 year old in the u.s can't even drink that's my argument that's a terrible argument
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great so i'll get some canadian bitch who's 19 i'll get a fucking canadian who can't drink i think
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and we won't drink because i don't drink and i don't want a girl who drinks perfect i think it's
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she can't drink i don't want her go ahead i'm sorry i think it's because guinea wants oh jillian
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jillian is not attracted to older men and that's why she can't imagine the opposite being true or
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that another hypothetical woman could be attracted to older men so maybe she's just talking from her
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projection about it and her inexperience with it but as a 42 year old woman I you know married to
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a four and a half years younger that male man than me I don't know how that opposite
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phenomenon is perceived by people older woman younger man but I just think she just doesn't
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have experience enough to give you any kind of answer to be honest with you yeah what if a man
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so what if a uh even a 30 year old man came up to you and he's like i have a birkin for you i have
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everything that you want i make a million dollars here you go like let's let's get together let's
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get married would you say no just because you're younger even if he meets all of your criteria even
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if he he's a good man you can rely on him you have like you have trust like i i've married a
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wonderful man he's older than me by a little bit but it it makes it better because i was a little
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bit more mature and we got together when I was kind of young not that young I was 21 but still
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he's he's magnificent and I have zero regrets and he's probably better than a lot of other people
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that would have been my age um like you're probably more mature too well yeah I am 21 year old but
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but do you see what I'm saying like if a man came to you what would you say if he was older than you
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and came to you what would you say really i'd say no just because he's older than you like by that
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much yeah by 10 years you would say yes does it feel like your dad huh like does it feel like a
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dad figure like an older man does it feel like a like it should be a dad figure instead of like
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a boyfriend in your perspective right now do you think like an older man approaching you is more
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like a dad than a potential lover can you like a father figure would you see them as like a father
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figure it'd make you uncomfortable yeah would that make you no would that make you uncomfortable if
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it was an older man because it would feel more like a father figure than a future lover i guess
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yeah because there are relationships where the girl is like 19 years old and the guy is like 60
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he's old enough to be her fucking dad yeah and so for you you just associate that to being old
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enough to be my fucking dad and that's just enough for you to be like getting the ick from
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an age gap relationship but he so he met all of your criteria yeah i'm sorry you can go if you
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it doesn't matter she's not attracted to it it doesn't matter i'm not i i disagree i think if
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a 30 year old attractive man came up to you and said i have everything that you want and we can
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start your life right now i think that you would say yes i think like i genuinely do we don't know
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that because she doesn't even i don't think i genuinely do not believe i would i i i'm saying
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if it came down to it really i understand but if it really came down to it it you would not say no
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i would almost put money on it i don't know i think she would say no because she's an experienced
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and she still thinks about life in a different way than you do and you already have the experience
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of having said yes to a man that's older than you and you you have that projection to give to her
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that's what i'm saying her answering this question is a complete flop yeah but we could all get over
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x like if she's just feeling icky about it ages yeah but if she's just feeling icky about it and
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a man really came up to her i think that she would say it's fine and i think that it would all be
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over i don't know certain things that we learn are um inappropriate and so we see them as
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inappropriate um brad pitt handsome dude yeah whatever age he is like 60 or whatever i would
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never be with somebody that's that much older than me more than you wouldn't date brad pitt
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no yes you would that's a lie yes you would he's too fucking old he's
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let's break down the value proposition why would he want me he should be with somebody his own age
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What's wrong with him that he sees more value in me
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passing on brad pitt i don't feel like it's fair for him or me how am i getting to that point
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lying him deceiving him it's hypothetical it's a hypothetical but that's that's your point when
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you say about the supermodel thinking that you're gonna you want to be with him yeah of course maybe
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if it lands no brad pitt no jeremy sumter yes yes but hypothetically okay hypothetically if like
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I thought it was creepy men want it all the time
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I have an age standard I have an age thing
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If she wants to date a guy one year older than her
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For my daughter's whole life, I will think that it's inappropriate for her to be with a man that is seven years older than her.
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Whether she is 18, whether she is 25, whether she's 45, I will think it's inappropriate.
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well holland is hot because of his entire package uh the athleticism the uh how about okay cristiano
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ronaldo yeah i think he's like isn't he in his like 40s yeah wait like 45 i think
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would you be in a relationship with him he's not at the moment no he's 41
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famous movie actor he plays um was it captain america or something i think he was so hot
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multi-millionaire tall fit athletic would you date him yes or no no when were those pictures
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like how old was he i think he just answer the question would you date him i think he's like
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in his early 40s probably not because he's in his early 40s that's not a lie i wouldn't bro he would
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literally bless your entire fuck okay i was gonna say gene pool but i feel like but she's not ready
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for him you guys that's women will pass on like men who like completely mug the shit out of them
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completely the optics it's like bro please i mean look okay let me ask you this i guess final thing
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on the age gap relationship stuff um would you rather see there's two options in this hypothetical
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so the 20 year old who slides into my dms would you rather see her do what a lot of girls do in
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college which is jump from dick to dick to dick to dick have like 20 sexual partners in the time
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she's in college or get into a long-term relationship monogamous relationship with me
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where she's treated well is she still pursuing a college education sure she gets her degree and
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then we're gonna start pumping out kids into the mic i mean i do feel like it would be harder for
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her to handle having so many children while in college however she'll get she'll she'll graduate
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and then she's 20 she's in her fucking oh my god bro i do have to break this down
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it's like obvious i do think that's better than obviously just being a fucking bop and
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hopping from dick to dick which is what a lot of girls do in college so
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better date a 37 year old then do what like if he's 37 no that's the hypothetical bro
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so okay he's 37 yes and it's between having a monogamous long-term loving relationship with
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a 37 year old and she's 20 or she's getting cracked every other week at the sorority party
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by different dudes which would you which situation is better or worse for her
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don't think too long it's the whole point is for you to not know i'm trying no it's obvious
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because no well go ahead go ahead say your answer i would say
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maybe having the kids i guess i don't know but but what the issue is he's 30 fucking seven
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he's 30 fucking seven you can't tell me that's not fucking weird to date a 30 to date a 20 year
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old at 37 why is it weird make the argument why it's weird because it's weird you need to have
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why is she getting groomed or what's going on there even no she's literally dming in this
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hypothetical scenario but why would you say yes you tell me why would what so what what do you
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think is preferable she's 28 is this a weird age gap me and her 37 28 no okay so 20 year old woman
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with no children who's beautiful who should i pick 20 year old woman or her who's currently
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fucking pregnant with a fucking rape baby who do i pick not her the 20 year old
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you are fucking retarded what your son you're telling me no she said no she said not the 20
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year old you said no i said not the 28 year old you she said not her the 20 year old i said not
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her the 20 year old she's 28 i said not wait let me reframe what i said oh my god i said date the
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20 year old that doesn't that's not in a bad situation right because it'll be better so from
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the male from the male perspective why would i not bro y'all women are experts at going for the
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best possible guy you can get you want to maximize like everybody this is a life we all want the
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best that we can get. We may not be able to get it, but we all want it. You want a fucking guy
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who can buy you a $40,000 bag. In reality, you're going to end up with some guy from fucking
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Mississauga, Canada, some guy from fucking Saskatchewan who makes $70,000 a year. That's
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who you're going to end up with. You want a millionaire? Trust me, you ain't ending up with
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a millionaire it's not why do you bro you're an average looking gal that's why i'm not you're
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you are she is not average that's crazy she's an average looking gal she's not gonna look hey
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maybe you'll prove me wrong you're not gonna get a millionaire i will prove you wrong go ahead
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prove me wrong you're not gonna get a fucking millionaire that's ridiculous that's a one percent
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man you're not a one percent woman i can get a millionaire where is he i'm not here yet because
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i don't want a relationship okay great so when you're 30 when you're 30 and you've been dicked
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through half of the university of toronto then you're gonna get when do you want to get married
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when do you want to have kids i would say married like 24 kids when probably right after that like
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25 and the guy if you're 24 the max age of him is 27 and he's going to be a millionaire at 27
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no i would date someone probably a little bit older maybe 30 30 something a little closer to
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the microphone please i don't think i 24 and 27 it's i feel like that's way different than the
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20 and 30 argument that i was making i do think a 24 year old can date a 30 35 year old how much
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was the guy from your six-year relationship making huh the guy that you were on and off
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with for like six years how much was he making he's a bum oh and a million we all want we all
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want we all want to get the best that we can get we all want to get the best that we can get
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so men want to maximize beauty fertility we want to maximize that we want to maximize we want a
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woman who meets our needs uh from a personality perspective too women can't understand this
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because you're viewing women do this thing where you think that things that you find attractive in
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men men find that attractive in you so this is why women pursue a career oh if i'm a if i'm rich
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and i make a fuck ton of money more men will like me it's actually the reverse it's the opposite
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it, but you think some, not all women do this, but a lot of women think I find X trait in men
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attractive. I should cultivate that trait in me and men will find that attractive. So, Oh,
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I've got a great career and I'm super well-educated and I've got this diploma and I,
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um, I like have nice lats like these gym girls or whatever. Like, Oh, I'm look, I'm not saying
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it's wrong to be into fitness as a woman. That's totally fine. But these gym girls who like get
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super fucking jacked it's like guys don't you guys like a fit woman but like the upper body
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stuff it's like you guys don't fucking care oh congrats on your double bicep like what the fuck
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actually retarded but um i don't know bro um i guess finishing off on the age gap thing
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look most 20 year old women want to date a guy who's 21 22 23 i'm not saying if you're a younger
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woman you have to or it's better to date an older man i'm just saying you have not made a convincing
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case for why it's wrong or why i should reject the 20 year old who's good looking who's attractive
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who matches up with me on values etc and she's come to me i'm not hanging out at college parties
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trying to get 19 year old pussy she came to me and you're saying yes brian you should reject
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this beautiful woman who could be the one because it gives you the ick because you could find someone
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who's like 25 with those exact same qualities but all things being equal why should i pick the 25
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year old because you're closer in age with her you'll have more in common no i won't what do
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i bet every single woman here has friend zoned men who have a fuck ton in common with you but
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you friend zone them regardless i don't give a fuck about commonality it's useless to me those
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are not the things i value in a woman oh she likes my music if she's dating me she'll start
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liking my music because i have superior taste but okay but yeah it's just like the commonality
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these cultural touchstones oh like i don't care i don't care and also what do men and women
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like what does a 37 what do i have in common with a 37 year old woman
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what do men and women have in common to begin with y'all like to get your nails 37 year old
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or you specifically brian what do you mean like because i feel like you're definitely not the
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average 37 year old yeah probably not no okay so i'm just gonna say the average 37 year old man
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and the average 37 year old woman yes they would have a lot in common uh what do you mean a lot
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in so men and women i don't think have a lot in common to begin it depends what we mean by
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what do we mean by in common oh you like the same bands and the same tv shows like i don't
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fucking care interest and like generally where you are where you are in life like how you were
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is that is that a game but i don't care about a woman's career it's irrelevant to me it can be a
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game changer so where i am and in life what does that mean if she's 20 and she's like brian i need
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you to impregnate me in three years we're in the same we're at the same place in life i think what
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Brian, may I add, is saying that when he said he wants to maximize his experience with that woman, being 20 and being 25, it actually minimizes his experience with her when she's older, because now he has less time to impregnate her and get all the fuck ton of kids he wants.
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If she's 20, there's some time you develop the relationship, then you have baby, you get pregnant, you have babies.
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and that's also not taking into consideration older women you know might have infertility issues
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not all not all older women i mean i'm 42 and i'm still fertile wait sorry are you almost done yeah
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i'm done i'm done okay what what do i have in common what do
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would you agree that women find professional athletes really attractive
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yeah would you agree that women like average women right who are not athletes would you agree
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like almost most women find um athletes very attractive and famous musicians yes would you
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date a famous musician if he was that much older he's your age but he's like super fucking famous
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then sure whoa that's like really predatory of you who are you to pursue a man whose life is so
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different that you have nothing in common with a super famous athlete musician actor whatever it is
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you have nothing in common with them who are you to date someone who you don't have anything in
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common with interests like you guys why would she not but but so it's interesting to me and you also
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want to date a millionaire minimum yearly income to be your future husband a millionaire what if
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you don't end up making like would you date a billionaire yeah i guess what do you have what
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the fuck do you have in common with a billionaire that's really predatory that you would date
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somebody who you're lacking in commonality with interests you're gonna have common interests with
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anybody oh so i could have common interests with a woman who's a different age than me
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yeah so but i'm saying them i'm saying the mental maturity is not there 20 and 37
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there's certain things from when you're younger and your childhood and stuff i feel like that are
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part of those common interests as far as like you're not turn the mic so it's like facing
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towards you oh sorry um like when i think back to my childhood it's nice to have somebody who
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has that same kind of like relevance it's like oh we grew up during the same kind of era we
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understand the same kind of ways you understand my jokes when i think cut dog you know like
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you know like you're older than me this is not convincing to me it's boring this is not convincing
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to me because i know oh i know a woman would pick like a really really hot successful attractive guy
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same age who like they have completely like they're the guy doesn't get your uh your references
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or whatever you still pick him over the like average guy who's like oh wow we uh like that
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one band or what like what the fuck who cares about that shit like it's nice it's like a little
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extra but like who really cares like really my husband and i are complete opposites and it's
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like one you can start like i don't know you can introduce a girl into to those things
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especially if she's so young oh my god we have what you what kind of music you listen to rap
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hip-hop i listen to taylor swift that explains so much of your mentality
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So what the fuck do men have in common with women
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Generally unless you want to date a gay guy
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I would never date a guy who was an active
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You meet some like questionably homosexual
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sexual dude at a taylor swift concert no i would not but you have so much in common
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what we like taylor swift yeah and he's like a swifty he like sings the songs with you
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are there no he's straight let's say he's straight no he's gay no let's say he's really
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straight but he wants to go to a concert because he like loves taylor swift i'm sorry you're
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fucking gay wait you're fucking gay what if he's buying but she's defeating her own argument too
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what do you have in common it's like even she wouldn't deal want to date a guy who who likes
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her the thing that they would have in common liking taylor swift even she's like that doesn't
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have to be the only thing in common though like what if he likes to cook she likes to cook what
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if great i like to cook my 20 year old girlfriend likes to cook these are so mundane you guys what
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do you mean like to cook the fact that you are saying like to cook is what he's talking about
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feminism and fast food restaurants ruining everything because like to cook is not an
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option if you're cooking and you have to cook like you have to cook for your family you have
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to cook for your uh children you have to cook for people you know and if you have the option of not
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cooking then that's why you are not with the man you've been summoned oh boy in my opinion i feel
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like every man wants to be cooked and handled but why is it like um let me ask you a question
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did you have a crush on justin bieber maybe when you were younger i don't know i don't know if he's
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too old no um i think so i'm trying to think of like a younger artist i could reference i don't
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know there's no more anybody here had a crush on justin beaver no no really nobody okay it's like
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why why isn't it like big time why don't we criticize women who and by the way i don't think
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it's wrong for like a nobody okay she does pilates it's not wrong for a woman who does
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pilates twice a week to want to date like a professional nfl player like that's just status
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that's value he's attractive he's physically fit why don't we criticize women for that though what
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do you have in common like you're a fucking nobody woman who lives in fucking nebraska
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you want to date an nfl player well i think by the way i think it's fine like you women can
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be attracted to you're attracted to it's fine but what do you have in common
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what do you what do you average earner women have in common with a millionaire fuck all
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so are these average earner women like by the way just to be clear i think it's normal and
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totally acceptable for a woman who makes 50k a year to find it attractive that a man's a
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millionaire that's just that's totally fine i don't have a criticism but from your like applying
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your logic and framing to this we should have an objection because she doesn't have anything in
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common with him okay but what if there was someone who she did have stuff in common with
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Okay but what if she does have stuff in common with him
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No it's okay to date people you have things in common with
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that's just secure the bond of them being together that's my point like yeah but it's not things in
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common is not a necessity it is not necessary it can be a nice little bonus all right i don't know
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we got rob here he just sent a hundred no no message thank you rob i needed the hundred
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thank you send another one rob fucking robert fucking robert send me another hundred uh i love
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you rabbit here pretend this you say okay oh my god what's your favorite taylor swift song
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no gay he's gay no okay pretend i'm 20 and hot i guess say it's straight oh my god
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so cute what if a guy's like i'm i i love i love to empower women and that's what taylor swift
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does i like taylor swift like maybe not her i don't listen to her music so much but like i do
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respect her and i would love to take you to one of her concerts or whatever he's not gay that's
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not gay no i'm just saying being an active like massive taylor swift fan as a man is a bit odd
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shake it off shake it off like that you know yeah okay all right i'm not gonna do the gay voice
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anymore chat i i'm i'm not gonna do the gay boy oh boy oh no this one's terrible
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this is gonna be terrible ladies would you date brian on one hand he is tall six foot one blue
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eyes millionaire funny only a bit gay but he has a dead bod probably autistic yep has a weird
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liking for big lady a poon and a small peepee it's average first get it fucking right uh oh god
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i think that okay i will go around the table this is gonna be embarrassing go ahead it's okay i won't
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be no no into the mic yeah it was pretty pretty rough tonight i think uh no not right now maybe
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i mean i'm married but she's married maybe no because you rated me a 4.75 she's upset by that
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how big is the labia it's an any ah down great what really quick on okay go ahead
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would you would you date me age no i'm sorry i'm a i'm a monk
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i feel like it's weird you're a 10 of course i would i feel like i shouldn't ask the the married
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no the married women can answer because our husbands are okay with this being here
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no but i mean i mean you have good values and your value system aligns with you know i mean i
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agree with the majority of the things you say obviously i'm married yeah i mean i'm not saying
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i find you attractive by any means but you do find you do find yourself in that category of men
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you're over six feet you have blue eyes you're wealthy you have a nice personality i think you
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can be a little bit of a dick sometimes i'm a jerk you know a little bit i think you're a little mean
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to tiff tiffany right because of the gremlin comment no no tiffany you're a little mean to
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her and just a little fucking aggressive but other than that you do fit into that category i'll say
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this tiffany doesn't have human resources two things literally hostile work environment
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he's low-key really fucking mean to you i'm not mean no you are fucking up earlier okay but you
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can say instead of like do it fucking now fix this shit tiffany get this shit like damn okay
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hold on i am so how you treat the people you who work for you is also important rather than what
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you show on a day-to-day basis so then how do you treat her when we're not i'm self-aware i'm
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self-aware that sometimes i'm a stress case and sometimes i can be a bit sharp in my you mean by
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telling women to shut the fuck up i didn't tell i've never said that to tiffany you said that
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to people here i mean you don't think that's slightly aggressive sometimes you got to tell
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somebody to shut the fuck up that is very really though however i think you're a little extreme
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and i'm an aggressive person but i think if you've told somebody the rules and you remind them and
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you remind them you got to up the ante a little bit tiffany open the door please um you got to
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please yeah there you go tiffany you got to please yeah all right no look i'm self-aware i know i can
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sometimes be difficult and a bit sharp and this is not i'm gonna say this is gonna sound like an
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excuse um i used to play world of warcraft and the way you communicate i had a look i had a guild
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leader it was very harsh but one of the best fucking guild leaders he was so good he was a
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great raid leader but he was fucking harsh you know strict but fair yeah strict wait what's that
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chris ponius police the oh fuck russian police strict strict but fair i don't know what the
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fuck i'm talking about but uh so i come from like a gaming background where it's like a little bit
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toxic it's a bit toxic but you just kind of fucking taught like that's how that like that's
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how i um i'm used to but i understand for like i understand for normies like normies who don't
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play video like toxic world of warcraft is like super toxic community i understand for normies
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who aren't in that dynamic that this is you just kind of seem like you're one error like one mistake
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away from telling her to get the fuck out and that she's fired like you kind of get all hot
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and heavy and red literally like you seem like she can breathe wrong and you're like that's it
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who's gonna i'm not gonna be like the narcissist who's like i'm not a i'm not a jerk i understand
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i'm a bit of a jerk i understand i'm can be a bit sharp it's my words i understand no that's
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i'm self-aware yes that's the first step of growing as a human is admitting your of course
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i continue i repeatedly i repeatedly continue my trespasses against my employee look it just
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It's hard to fully explain what doing this shit entails, but it's stressful.
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It's stressful doing this, and sometimes people make it, not even Tiffany, but the guests, and most of you have been pretty decent for the most part.
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The guests can add a layer of stress quite a bit.
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And sometimes my, in the heat of the moment, my stress gets the best of me.
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And I'm not, look, I'm not trying to justify it.
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I wish I was like this completely cool, level-headed type, but I'm like very, I don't know if A-type personality is right.
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I don't know if this is interesting to the audience.
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um i don't know i think in sometimes in in business um there's the people that are super
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cool with everything i'm kind of the person that like from a managerial perspective sometimes you
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got to be the dick sometimes you got to be the one like okay move here we got to get this shit
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done move that over here like that's just kind of my and look i understand maybe it might be like
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i can create a more flowery experience and be like if you don't mind tiffany
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at your earliest convenience tiffany my dear please if it's not too much trouble
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might you move that over there for me please no i'm not saying you have to be like that i understand
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you have to be a boss and be that way i'm just saying from an outside perspective and i've never
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watched you two like interact with each other it it does seem like her rope is very short like
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you get so hot and bothered you're like god fucking damn it tiffany like oh please you're
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just like but that's why tiffany works for him and not anybody else will take offense exactly
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it's just funny it's just funny to me that's the dynamic it seems that she's about to get fired
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that moment of parenting where all of a sudden you're just scolding your child in the supermarket
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and the person's like wow and it's like no they literally were doing all day and like you know
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kind of thing just kidding tiffany just kidding you should have more cookies continue to have to
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mandate oh i already had three when you already just mandate mandate mandate and you were nice
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all right let me try to blast through i it's getting late and i still need to we have a cameo
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by the way we're gonna try i feel bad for your boyfriend because it is getting late but we're
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gonna we're gonna fucking do the cameo but let me blast through as much of this as possible
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uh okay age gap we're gonna move off of that oh oh cat no one no one a woman should not be
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rejected because of her her weight why is that i just feel like fat shaming or skinny shaming
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is messed up well not shaming but like just okay for example uh i see a fat girl on a dating app
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and i swiped no on her just because she's fat listen i used to be shallow okay like i used to
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be i'm not anymore like i've literally like i i probably the last person i dated like people
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used to make fun of me and call me a chubby chaser and i'm not gonna lie i was a chubby chaser
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was not anymore that's why you rejected me no no actually um
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that's funny so sad i don't know i just feel i just want to get crushed by those giant titties
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i think he's actually making a move i'm so sad when she rejected me you know you want to get
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crushed by a 300 pound woman are you saying she's all right no not her are you gonna let her
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cat are you gonna let her fucking talk to you that way she just called you fucking i know she
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wasn't talking about me it's fine how much how much do they weigh yeah how much does each boob
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weigh oh my god i already know how they weigh i already know how much they weigh 500 000
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it's 12 pounds for both of them so six pounds it's like a fat baby it's like i'm carrying a
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fat baby you got six pounds on your titties no six on each oh my god it's your back like i'm
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getting chubby but i feel like i only got like a little okay anyways um my daughter was one tit
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yeah six pounds six pounds each you got back problems yes i do actually i probably
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i have neck problems more than i do have back problems the neck yeah shit is it is it worth it
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i mean i'm working on like beauty is pain though yeah beauty is pain though it really is but i
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feel like if you like take care of yourself and you work out like i'm doing a lot of back exercises
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I gotta blast through these so don't mind me if I'm a bit
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A woman should not be rejected because of her weight
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i don't know if it's no i guess no it's not a wrong preference i just okay yeah i don't uh
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let's see here somebody else agreed with this i believe it was you why why is why is that
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why should a woman not be rejected because of her weight
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well i don't think she i don't think she should be rejected i don't think she should be
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soon tony soon tony what god okay sorry go ahead i didn't mean i'm sorry i'm being i don't think
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she should be rejected because of her weight but because but if she is rejected because of her
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weight that's the preference of the man is it wrong to reject because of the weight possibly
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because you don't know what you're missing out on and also weight can be dropped as well so
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it could be a mistake yeah don't judge a book like so just as just that you can change someone's
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music preference you can also help them lose weight what if she's wearing a fat suit you
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know what i mean well uh yeah that's common that happens she's trying to look fat we're all trying
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to look skinny i keep pulling my you know what if she had a giant labia but she was fat she could
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lose the weight yeah exactly and keep the labia and keep the labia because winning actually i
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forgot to mention this earlier for my looks rating thing i have a labia um radar no i wish
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sometimes i can look at a girl and i'm like i think she has big pussy okay
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wait where was i going with this you got the adjuster the the labia looks rating adjuster
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so say she's a four total in total looks small outie small outie labia plus one medium outie
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labia plus two large outie labia plus three xl outie xl pussy lips plus four world record xxxxl
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jumbo size pussy lips plus five so she could be a four and turn into a nine in my could she
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be a five and turn into okay what about technically what about that one what about that one that you
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had on there that looked like the the late the old lady from drag me to hell and she had the
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largest longest labia would you hit that okay hear me out hear me out doggy style okay bag over her
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face or no no need sure yes just to prevent you know okay i don't think she can turn her neck that
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far well she could be some exorcist that's like that lady in shameless i like to cook raw oysters
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i have no idea what that means but thank you you want to say something send something else
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if you cook oysters they're not raw anymore robert hey rob robert do you like uni uni
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apparently santa barbara has the best uni second to japan apparently okay whatever uh okay um
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so i think it's fine for a man to reject a woman because of her weight i think that's fine i think
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it's fine for a woman to reject a man because of her weight i'm chubby right now i feel like
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my pussy getting abilities would be better if i was more fit and so women are rejecting me
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Well, when they're big, they stick around longer.
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and what's the minimum height oh we're gonna do the okay how tall are you and what's the minimum
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height of a man you would date i'm five feet tall i'm five feet tall and i know this is absurd
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but six feet that's just what i prefer personally that's just what i want taller i know it's absurd
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the height gap you know you're gonna have to bend down oh god he's gonna have to bend down
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to be able to kiss you yes and i love that i get that's awesome break your neck i get it yes
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there's something about like just being like the jacob completely i know you're not a natural
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beauty but i think with the right clothes the right look you can be very striking
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you're five feet you're probably 4 11 you fucking liar you're like the dudes who are 5 11 who
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claim six you're like the women who are 4 11 claim five i'm not 4 11 here we're gonna measure
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you bro are you serious where's the measuring tape no way dude if you're 4 11 you should just
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come clean now tiffany slave slave girl why don't you guys just get the tape measure tiffany get the
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tape measure all right this chick is 4 11 i'm not for actually we don't have time for it fuck it um
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Harmony would not take a man who owns a firearm
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uh-huh wrong for man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex
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um you got this thanks you got this girl oh sorry um i mean it depends on the context but i feel
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should be talked about instead of him just dumping her straight up well so it regularly
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turns him down for sex there has to be reasoning behind it well here's the scenario um they've had
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sex so it's not like okay she's waiting until marriage or something they've had sex the sex
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starts to slow down uh and maybe they're married even and so how about this oh there's this
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spreadsheet that fuck wait i've posted this before let me see if i can find it super quick
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uh would it be in the memes would it be in the memes the spreadsheet i have a spreadsheet
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a guy kept track in a spreadsheet of the dates reasons and whether he was rejected for sex or
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got sex do i have the spreadsheet tiffany get ready get the discord ready maybe i'm gonna find
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it i hope i posted it if not that sucks i don't know if i posted it r.i.p. r.i.p. me did i post
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the spreadsheet god dang it i did not post the spreadsheet okay well whatever he asked her like
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30 times and she only said yes three times that's a lot of times yeah is there a reason
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behind her saying or she just didn't want to and that's it um of course there's a reason
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there's always she's not attracted to him yeah there she's not attracted she's over like you
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we already know when maybe she got over and yeah she's still with him maybe she's comfortable
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maybe she can't leave maybe she doesn't want to leave maybe she has the millionaire maybe she's
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like you know whatever the reasons are there's she maybe she can't leave because she can't take
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care of herself alone or like you said be just want to be alone yep so many reasons so uh maybe
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you should ask her why the fuck she doesn't want to have sex with him instead of keeping track
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yeah it's kind of weird it's like he's setting her up and that's why she's not having sex because
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like maybe the vibes are off too what happens if like like i had a friend that actually went through
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this um one of my friends she didn't want to have sex with her boyfriend because she had bb
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and uh she thought that was really embarrassing and i totally understand that's fucking disgusting
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it really it is disgusting it is disgusting but i have to say uh i think that might be
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yeah so many reasons yeah because like that's weird and gross i found the fucking spreadsheet
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i found it tiffany it did it show up okay ready sorry uh click click on it i think it's too zoomed
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wait click on it Tiffany oh okay uh man sends wife a spreadsheet of all the times she denied
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him scroll down okay so uh I'm watching the show I feel sweaty and gross non-verbal I'm exhausted
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yes I'm still a bit tender from yesterday I'm trying to watch a movie I'm too drunk and I ate
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too much I won't have time to get showered and ready for dinner can one of y'all read this
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fuck yeah i just came back from the gym i feel gross didn't shower until the next morning
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non-verbal i have to be up early non-verbal yes you're too okay we get it anyways you get the
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idea so i don't know is it wrong though no it's not wrong okay you think it's wrong that spreadsheet's
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crazy i think at that point she just doesn't want him anymore okay but so it wouldn't be wrong
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no for him i think it's pretty clear no but what if she's super she kept trying but how about this
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what if she's like super into me and she want every time she wants to have sex we have sex
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but say like the guy's sex drive he wants to do it once per day and she wants to do three times per
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week and he's like look i'm i want to fuck once per day and she's like no and he respects that
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of course consent boundaries whatever but he's like i really want to fuck once per day and she's
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like nah would it be wrong for her to for him to dump her yes why why is that wrong why is that
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wrong okay because he he's respecting her boundary he wants to respecting it why is he dumping her
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yeah he wants to be different no that's being respectful that's that you don't have to that's
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respecting her boundary he's like does he want to be with you can't he does but he he also wants
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to have sex more and she doesn't want to have sex more correct she's like hard no so then what
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happens the to the respect that's it's not disrespectful to break up with somebody it's
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not that's what we said it's not disrespectful you you should break up with them if your
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preferences aren't that aligned it's not wait okay so what's the issue fatty ma
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you should pronounce it better sorry sorry gillian fucking what what's that show gillian
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gilligan fucking gilligan middle school gilligan someone called me that call her gilligan from
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here on out every time i call her gillian as a joke she gets so mad at me all right uh okay why
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is it why is it wrong well i mean you said that he respects her like for not wanting to just wants
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to do it three times a week he wants it once every day maybe they come to an agreement and
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it's like oh four times so something so she's like look i do not want more than three times
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per week every other day basically buy him a flashlight okay but he's not the only thing
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that matters though in the same way that money isn't the only thing that matters so for a guy
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to break up with a girl if you're having sex three times a week and he wants to do it once a day
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and that is his make or break is just the sexual aspect nothing wrong with it i mean i think it's
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a little bit shallow but i mean no i don't that would be the same thing as a woman like so you
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she's with her boyfriend and he makes plenty of money and she's like hey i want a thousand dollars
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per week you're more than capable of doing this and he's like no i'll give you 700 even though
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he could do the 1000 and she broke up with him because of that that would be a bit shallow if
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she loved him and there was this whole other relationship, one part of your relationship
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shouldn't make or break like that. But you would call a woman very shallow if that's what she said.
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Well, I mean, regardless of my interpretation of the situation, the number one reason for divorce
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is like financial issues. So this idea that like women definitely end relationship, 80% of divorces
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are initiated by women the primary reason for divorce is financial issues or some shit like
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that women and relationships over financial issues so it is what it is whether it's shallow or not
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i don't know but um i don't actually see the problem with the guy who's in a relationship
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and he wants to fuck every day and she's look consent should always be respected
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I'm like yo I wouldn't even put up with a whole week
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you don't want to touch me like that for a whole
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I don't think there's anything wrong with what she wants
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i mean after it's talked about if they can't come to an agreement then
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then they can go well so i think in this situation like the person who has final say
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is the person like if somebody doesn't want to do something i think that person has
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the final say i guess right i don't know no you're right because then it goes against consent right
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Like three times a day having sex with kids
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and she's like I only want to fuck once a week
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I think it's crazy if a guy doesn't want to
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oh yeah it does the married and having kids part i feel like i mean i wouldn't know but
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all right let's do this uh okay past should not matter gillian you say to an extent
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cat can you not call me on i'm sorry it's hard i feel like the past the past
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wait sit for this one gillian uh harmony passion not matter you agree and the bill
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uh uh does anyone else agree and body count fatima to an extent grace passion not matter
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all right um why is that why should past not matter
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people get off drugs and all of a sudden they're a different person all right fine i'll skip uh
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i plead i thought it doesn't matter here let's start with you kat body count probably in the
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hundreds i know just yeah but i feel like if it's in the past why does it matter i literally dated
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people before that like would use that against me and i'm like that's just fucking rude let me
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ask you a question cat okay would you date a guy who used to fuck men
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no i wouldn't but cat you said the past shouldn't matter but you know what honestly hold on he only
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has eyes for you okay but he used to get it if he doesn't anymore and for whatever reason he
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don't want his booty. I don't want his booty.
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Of course you do. Yeah. But you're going to have to clean up the
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I don't, I like don't feel comfortable saying this.
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You've given more blowjobs than you've had sex.
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yeah because some like some girls like could be
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vaginal intercourse uh same same all right same same
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same same body count less than five less than five
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okay i don't keep track i don't could it be over 20 no blowy count higher than 20
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body count less than five so four less blowy count once
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not a fan okay this is such a terrible question i'm at like 17 to 20 hold on guys quiet go ahead
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i'm at like 17 to 20 and the blowy count is lower because that is a definitely a gift okay next
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i would say about like 77 wait sorry 77 or seven okay seven 77 okay about 80 of them were dicks
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whoa wait 80 of them were dicks dude yeah none of this is real i'm trolling
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what what okay what what number would make it really really worthwhile
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what do you mean like to hear no say the real number what 77 77 no but what's the what's the
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real number it's probably every man i've been with 77 okay every man i've been with sorry say
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it again two okay yeah come on everyone else was a good sport come on i just don't want to share
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that i'm sorry i just don't feel comfortable more than 10 less than 10 9 perfect blowy count less
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than five for body count less than five okay whoever's clicking stop please multiply it by
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three and that's the real number for everybody for everybody multiply by three it's a science
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exact science that's true that's not science so i have like 200 something people and like
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dang that's pretty good you're in the like cat thousand no cats in the running
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i'm gonna take it so it's cool i was hoping you would just stop at cat i collect repeat
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all right final segment final segment body counts if they keep coming back exactly okay
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I'm glad this is seven hours long and everyone's bored and asleep by now.
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I say it right, but then I got to correct myself.
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gillian jillian bro chop it up with your parents they should have put a j in that
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mother g is prettier i think it i think it just looks pretty they should have used a j
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instead of a g g looks way prettier you chose maybe he's greek g for greek i didn't choose it
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g is j is way smoother aesthetically wait is j more aesthetically pleasing to the eye a capital
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j as compared to a j is way nicer w harmony w w meek the g in cursus w meeker nice okay all right
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let me blast through this uh we guys come on let me let me blast through it so i can get
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fucking tony in here okay give me a second okay do you think he's watching the stream for sure
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hey tony tony give me a second hey give me a second you guys are gonna love tony by the way
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Husband should be willing to die protecting you.
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He's got to be six feet tall and he's got to be a fucking millionaire.
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You also agree with the, you agree with all those statements.
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you're going to keep your last name or hyphenate marriage you agree with that
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yes i honestly do i do want a cooler last name i'm not going to say my last name on here you
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don't have to that's fine it's probably like googly boogly or i feel like i feel like i would
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either hyphenate it or change it i don't like the way my life or something what
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ghoulian gooner okay i don't know what i'm fucking talking about all right um so okay
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but you said you will keep your last name or hyphen name marriage now here i don't think i
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would here's the test no but here's the test let's say the guy's last name who meets all this shit
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has a fucking awful last name terrible last name it's like it's like gay lord oh
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hey gg gg gillian gay lord that's not even how you say my name oh sorry gillian gay lord okay
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what if you both have the same like first name so then like taylor launner taylor launner yeah
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so him and his wife are both named taylor launner yeah so that's dope yeah i think that's so that's
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okay so gaylord is his last name okay then i'm keeping mine
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six foot tall millionaire who's around her age
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you strumpet uh and then and then it's definitely your fault um and then uh oh jesus good job
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tiffany even worse um okay no here turn your legs that way motherfucker yeah turn them towards
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yeah there you go all right there we go fuck my life uh okay um it's your seating yeah just kidding
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okay he doesn't like he doesn't like being roasted you won't take your husband's last name
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okay what does the man if he was all the other things fine but his last name's gay lord that's
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fine whatever his last name is hitler oh my god no but it's not like he didn't mean it to be
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Yeah, Hitler's first name is Hitler, not his last name.
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But how about his last name is Rumpelstiltskin.
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I just think, I don't know, you want to hyphenate and shit?
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Look, it's complicated because you guys use centimeters in Canada.
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You probably don't know what I'm talking about.
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You want a guy who's six feet minimum, who makes $1 million a year.
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I said I won't unless it's not like Hitler.
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Speaking of people who won't take fucking last names, I got some beef with Kat here.
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You're going to keep your last name too, Kat.
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Wait, did we go around on the height thing?
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I am five feet four, and I feel like I would need at least six foot.
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Okay, 6'2. How tall is your husband? He's actually 6'2
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and a half. What happened to you? My grandpa was
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I'm 4'11", and I don't have a preference because everyone's taller than me.
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i'm not gonna lie i've dated people like my height which is really bad
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no okay but what what's uh the minimum height
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5 10 okay next i'm 5 7 i wrote 5 7 but like okay 5 7 and man is 5 5 so that's bullshit too
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my husband's 6 2 i'm 5 7 next i put 5 3 i would date anyone taller than me how tall is tony the
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greaser i think six foot one but he's just massive nice well done all right uh okay uh cat men should
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pay on first dates men should provide protect men should be chivalrous you didn't circle that he
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should be willing to die so i guess that's kind of cool i guess uh you will keep your last name
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or hyphenate in marriage well you know the the great thing about vietnamese a lot of y'all have
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win yes well honestly it just depends if they have a cool last name and like it's like if you're an
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indian there's a good chance you just marry a patel you know i know patel i know patel as well
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exactly but she used to be vietnamese so it doesn't matter that's true she's
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wajian now i guess um katie or no sorry i skipped uh uh annabelle no you're fine taking the last
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name i suppose anybody oh fatima you how dare you fatima men should pay on first dates men should
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provide protect men should be chivalrous husband should be willing to die protecting you take the
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bullet you agree with all these and you also agree with the statement that you will keep your last
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name or hyphenate marriage really i don't want to let go of my last name huh i don't want to let go
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How will I put myself in the situation anyways?
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men should pay on first dates, men should provide
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she's adding it all no i add it i don't know no fuck hyphenate what about the kids wait really
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quick uh the kids hyphenate your last name or his last name probably hyphenate maybe so that
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i'm sorry i normally don't say this gay okay what about you for the kids your last name his last
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name or hyphenate hyphenate bro this is okay hold on let me finish it up and then i'll give my
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okay uh my daughter's got three last names so my answer is grace yeah grace for them as well
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pay men should pay off for states men should provide protect men should be chivalrous husband
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should be willing to die protecting you you're gonna keep your last name willing to treat noreen
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what the fuck noreen what i do what i do you're gonna keep your last name i already have kept my
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last name my last name is pretty long you got to go to the social security office plus remember
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i'm not legally married oh and if you lose your last name that can make a lot of things more
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difficult all my kids have their dad's last name okay that's fair enough i don't want riley what
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about you are you you've taken your husband's last name w guys w's in the chat for riley based
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and you're uh he deserves it 23 she's married she's got one in the oven yeah i'm doing it all
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right this is a role model for women absolutely that's why i'm here role model that's why she
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said thank you no brian so my daughter watches this and she sees no sorry i'm sorry no but this
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no fuck no guys i'd like to say i didn't ask for my life i just kind of but you contributed
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to your current situation get married young marry the right person 100 percent have as many babies
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as you can we're all like and stop watching this didn't work for me it's these two women
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we have two pregnant women at the table um okay you need to take your husband's last name if he
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makes a mil if he's six feet you said you're 4 11 i'm five feet okay let's let's stop with the
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bullshit okay don't bullshit the bullshitter i'm five feet she's 4 11 i stood next to her
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we could just stand next to each other i stood next to her and i was like actually wait don't
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do it okay so anyways you need you fatima are you gonna marry a muslim man because you're muslim
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partially is he gonna be muslim um he could be i don't have to okay you'll date anybody
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okay not anybody well any religion yeah you need to take your fucking man's last name the kids
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better have his last name yeah because i do want a cooler last name no but what if it's worse and
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you're like oh i'm gonna keep mine as long as it's not like hitler then as long as it's not
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hitler it's fine you said no the gay lord yeah okay well honestly i'd take that uh tiffany
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delusion calculator i got we gotta bust out the delusion what's a delusion calculator tiffany
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yes uh yes okay race do you have a preference anything's fine anything okay minimum height
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six uh do you want to exclude obese men yes so rude minimum income max it it doesn't even go up
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that high find out yeah i've taken this before 0.00 oops let me put it back for a second
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Okay, then I guess I won't find anyone right now, but that's fine.
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minimum is probably like 40 and max is i would say death
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wait 40 40 is the minimum age yeah i don't oh yeah i wouldn't i would not date i'm too young
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for you i'm too young for you i just feel like previous experiences i'll accept that i'm too
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young sweet i mean you could be you know what honestly i shouldn't even say that because i do
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know a few young people that like are super mature and have their shit together so yeah yes queen i
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like it's it's but i'm just gonna keep it out okay that's fine exclude do you want to exclude
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already married men yes please exclude race any any uh minimum height six six feet you wrote
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yeah uh minimum income max sit tiffany oh exclude obese guys do you want to exclude obese you know
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what i don't know actually no because it just depends like okay i was a chubby chaser so
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okay go ahead find out all right here it is 0.019 probability uh to meet a six foot tall
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millionaire in that age range who is not married either you're lower than me really quick on the
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uh race thing i had a question for you cat because you're the only asian woman here
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you're everything okay i find out something new about i got a dna test when i'm all right for cat
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yeah have you dated asian men i know you're gonna ask me um yes i have okay are you attracted to
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asian men you know what i would say not typically like if you'd asked me like a few years ago i
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would have said hell no but now i'm just kind of like i know like the the dating pool is a little
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slim you know so it's like i don't know i don't it's not that i'm not attracted to asians six
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foot millionaire well yeah if he's you know has a shit together and like he's attractive and he
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has everything i'm looking for then yes okay a couple questions for you all things being equal
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all characteristics are equal. I have to pick one?
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Because a lot of the Korean dudes are, like, tall.
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And, like, they take care of, like, the way they look.
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um let's do this uh would you rather date a light-skinned black man or a korean man
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oh my gosh wait you know what let me hold on i i want to rephrase it would you rather date
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a light-skinned black man or an asian man probably a light-skinned black man
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would you would you rather date a i guess would it be dark skin i don't really hear that
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used but um dark chocolate somewhat racist but uh would you rather would you rather date a dark
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skinned black man or an asian man um probably a dark skinned black man dark skinned black man
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okay um would you rather date heart of africa black man or asian zimbabwe no like dark okay
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like like nigerian what's that black shade that's like really black vanta what is it
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vanta black or something there's a really famous girl who's like almost like what is it the color
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black she's okay i think it's vanta i'm pretty sure i could be wrong but i'm pretty sure uh
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just like the darkest black i should not be saying this shit just say dark chocolate
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Okay, oh my god, I'm gonna get fucking cancelled
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This is good, do you know what an aboriginal is?
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Now their skin color is not, I'm not saying it's like
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Okay, would you rather date an Indian man or an Asian man?
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Would you rather date an Arabic man or an Asian man?
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Would you rather date a Latino man or an Asian man?
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Would you rather date a white man or an Asian man?
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Would you rather date a Vietnamese man or a Korean man?
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I've not dated Korean, so I would probably would like to try to date a Korean man.
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done with that we have some pre-show notes
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uh let's set aside so there's arguments on the toilet seat debate about hygiene cleanliness so
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the maximally clean thing is to have the lid down when you flush right yes yeah setting aside
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hygiene like let's just assume it's both equally clean yeah should the man put the toilet seat
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down yes absolutely um i heard when you flush the water goes up like in the air i just oh
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when you flush you know like the water setting aside cleanliness and hygiene then no
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no okay yeah he should still put it down okay i live with all boys so i don't really care
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there's piss on the seat got it yes yes i don't care she doesn't she doesn't give a fuck what
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about you there's never piss on the seat oh there's never piss on the seat and it doesn't
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get closed that my boys are clean i was gonna say my boys okay so put the seat down clean it up yeah
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put it down if you're gonna be mad i'll do it for him you'll put the seat up for him up or down
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oh that's a good girl there she'll put the seat she uses she uses the bathroom she puts it up
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ready for the man that's that's a keeper right there he works hard you women need to learn from
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tony the greaser who we're gonna have come on in just a moment you want you want a fucking 411
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you want a six foot guy get yourself a fucking man like tony the fucking greaser okay i'm very
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lucky i'm five feet okay you 411 dwarf i'm gonna fucking cast you in some movie
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hey patience we're blasting through this oh boy it's not your fault it's it you're right it's not
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my fault all these women were just way too talkative tonight that's what they do all right
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let me blast through the the notes wait what i feel like there was uh we did this we did that
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oh dehydration you asked me about my water dude seriously i've been watching you i drink like
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six of these it's not urine it's it's honey water basically uh i drink like six of these during the
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show they think it's a lot i'm like that's the show's long you know y'all i have a theory i'm a
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camel i think women are have low grade dehydration you have women have chronic low level high
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dehydration absolutely and that's why y'all are kind of you know you're not yourself when you're
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hungry you guys are hungry and you guys don't drink enough fucking water when i'm hanging out
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with chicks i'm going through i'm drinking a gallon in the water in a six hour hangout session
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she maybe has like her little what what are the fucking water oh wait women every three years
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wait i saw this funny tweet every three years women get one-shotted by plastic water bottle
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brand okay never you guys know don't what stanley cups every three years you guys get one shotted
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by a different plastic water bottle yeah yeah it's not one shot it's a lead oh excuse me um
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y'all don't drink enough water i never drink water right most americans don't most americans
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are constipated and their brains are all shrunk and then you have brain fog and i've gotten tested
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Like Tiffany there, I've never seen her drink water
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I've been chugging water and it's hot as hell in here
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I don't know how the hell you're wearing a hoodie
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I think we could solve all the world's problems
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They're tricking us because I've been to the hospital
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How are they sitting here telling me I'm hydrated
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And it's like it would be so much better for you
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that's why that's what nagging is nagging is deep these women are fucking dehydrated i i sometimes
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i gotta waterboard my fucking girlfriend lay down enjoy i'm gonna fucking waterboard okay anyways
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tough crowd you drink water like a data center but that's why they come out with a new water
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bottle every three years to motivate women to drink water i don't know okay carry the water
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in style katie we got katie here part-time heathen full-time fairy nymph you've had a bunch of toxic
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relationships different opinions on marriage anything you want to weigh in on the marriage
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thing or um no not really okay uh we talked about the um wait the calling off the wedding thing we
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talked about that you said dating as a single parent is extremely difficult yeah yeah does
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make things more difficult i would assume um your frustrations with men are being lusted over not
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loved what does that mean what does that mean they just want to fuck yeah they want pussy
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like show us your knuckle tattoos what is it baby doll okay
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um yeah just like people are like really interested in you at first but like getting
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to know you and like because i think my personality is way better i've been told that many times so i
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just think that people like um more lustful than they are interested in being in love and like
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having a relationship and stuff i don't know yeah just my experience have you friend zoned anyone
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recently all the time interesting of course you got to be attracted look i it's hard because you
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want to date someone you're attracted to you want to feel that attraction but the guys who'd give
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you love yeah but even the guys that are like like attractive do you like bad boys i've dated
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some bad there's your problem there's your problem i haven't give the nice guy a chance i have i
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promise you i have doesn't work that does not work that does not work shit is fucked up even
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the ugly guys i don't have the solution like they lie like they lie in the beginning and then you
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find out like three months in that who they say they are they're not that's hard and you said
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earlier too that you want to try to make sure that you're doing these certain qualities that
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you're trying to look for in this person but when you when you're being committed when you're being
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loyal when you're being honest and obviously you know yourself you know how what integrity you're
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holding yourself to but you know say like for example that you are doing all those things and
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that's what you're looking for in a partner those simple three commitment loyalty honesty
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and then they turn out to be an uncommitted liar it's like bro i hate that that's um
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like what i was looking for uh yeah i don't know i don't know
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maybe give the nice guy a chance maybe friend zone a chance maybe um
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nice guys are actually kind of gross you're lusting after the hot dudes
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no i'm honestly like really sapiosexual i am way more attracted to mine girls here uh
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if my friends could enter this chat right now they would tell you just that that i'm more
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interested in people's minds than i am so i'm gonna make this full screen let me see okay i'm
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gonna go like this all right so women will say they're sapiosexuals and they'll date guys who
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read like this no hilarious i almost got murray i've definitely dated like dumb guys but i'm more
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attracted to sapiosexual like i think that people are hotter that are very questionable just because
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they're super intelligent i have the reverse of safe like i like dumb women that's fair it's so
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hot when a woman's not like i don't know how to explain it i'm kidding i think a trap i okay i'm
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gonna i'm somewhat joking i do think intelligence intelligence is attractive in a woman but there's
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something hot about like not a woman so dumb that she's gonna fuck your life like there's a dumb
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where they're a liability yeah there's like a clumsy dumb there's like they're gonna burn the
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house down dumb but there's a there's like a dumb where they're like simple like these smart chicks
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they're like well i read fred i read some nietzsche and now i'm fucking permanently depressed i'm like
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oh my god kill myself kill oh sorry i'm not that serious but it's like i don't know sometimes
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highly intelligent people uh because of their intelligence they can like have like these very
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i don't know if the right word is esoteric they can like think about like uh existential they
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have like existential dread what's the point of everything oh my god let me go read some
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philosophers oh my god i'm depressed i do read philosophy you know it's just like a woman dreadful
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i just want to break cookies and have kids like you know what i mean no yeah i don't know i bake
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cookies like it's good if you want to tell them what to do you want an intelligent woman because
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on one hand you want your kids to be smart and have high iqs and if she's like retarded basically
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then your kids are going to be retarded but also like there's a simplicity to like kind of a dull
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simple woman you know you should go get her from the village i should yeah where's the village
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i'll show you a few villages in armenia you'll be so happy look i just the simple woman is nice
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like a woman who's just like i don't know i feel like there's the tortured tortured genius thing
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like if you're too intelligent then you start thinking about things oh my god that's my husband's
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job starving children in africa oh my god be ran through and like even if you have let them starve
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brian i think you just want to lead somebody without opposition humor what i think you want
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to lead someone without opposition to your leadership i need a cooperative woman yeah
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and i feel like you know when a woman's too intelligent she's gonna be like listen up
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motherfucker what if she's so intelligent she listens to you this is banter by guys i'm bantering
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at this point i'm not being serious um what is that what if she is so intelligent that she
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listens to you well so here's that make her more intelligent so here's a benefit of an intelligent
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woman uh like when it comes to being logical which sometimes evades even highly intelligent women
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really tough this is a tough crowd no we're listening so the benefit of a really intelligent
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woman if she's intelligent and you can articulate to her why she's wrong she'll be like you know
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what i'm wrong a really stupid like you cannot reason with a stupid like if somebody's stupid
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you cannot reason with them 100 but then sometimes intelligent women will be like well what about
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this loophole well you got to consider ducking she's fucking more uh neo in the matrix dodging
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bullets and shit that means that you aren't leading properly then because if she's intelligent
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and you trust her intelligence and she's followed you before then that means what she's declining
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maybe you got to work it out i'm just saying i'm just saying sometimes you know
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if a woman is really stupid she won't know when she's wrong
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for sure but then like really intelligent women also won't let you win the arc
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i don't know it's let there's pros and cons there's pros and cons um okay let's see uh
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lusting okay we talked you've had multiple relationships that fail because they self
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sabotage because they think they can't give you what you need I've had many people say that like
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my last ex that tried to get with his fiance or his best friend's fiance he said he basically
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self-sabotaged because he didn't think that I like he made me happy and like he couldn't give
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me what I wanted so he just fucked it all up basically I don't know and I've had other men
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say the same thing that um it's intimidating and they self-sabotage because they don't feel like
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they can fulfill my needs which my needs are not like they're very normal like what what are your
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basic needs like honesty communication emotional intelligence um i mean basic things okay but the
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men say they can't meet your needs i guess i don't know um i feel like maybe i don't know
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you also wrote that you tend to date people that are way out of your league or so people say like
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you keep saying give the nice guy a chance the lesser but so when you say out of your league
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like they're above ever a lot of people have told me that i'm out of like i'm out of their league
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like why are you dating this so you're above the league most of my relationships yeah cool
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so you said you're settling for these i guess i don't know uh let's see um i've been told that
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it's hard for a lot of guys to want to fill a fatherly role for kids that also aren't even
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there that's for cat but she's gone we got gillian we did all your notes amal uh fatima we did your
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notes anabella i was in a you're an abusive wait you're in a relationship wait crazy stories about
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being a teenage dirtbag super quick bullet point me like three teenage dirtbag things that you did
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um besides the way you met your husband was by selling him a coke yeah um i went to rehab
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when I was 17 and then I just like left for what I guess for drug issues but I really wasn't
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that's the thing I really wasn't like what drug in any and all I mean I've done pretty much
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everything okay uh next um I'm sorry it's so late I'm trying to think of what a good
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bullet point would be um okay uh you don't believe in gay marriage and you think you think
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all drugs should be legal i think that there's a pathway to having drugs be legal meth fentanyl
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no i don't know that my thought on that there there would have to be a very complex
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plan for that to be in place however it's the same argument when it comes to guns it's if you
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just because it's illegal doesn't mean it's going to stop the war on the point I try to make is
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that the war on drugs is never going to stop essentially and I feel like there should be
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different approaches to the war on drugs not necessarily making them all legal I just think
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the way we approach but guns do have a like a sort of a purpose or utility absolutely whereas
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like I don't think there's really ever any good drug use I mean I I agree to us like
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recreational drug use maybe when acid was introduced during the that's what i was just
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about to say yeah psychedelics however that's more on the basis of what i'm talking about is
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psychedelics serve a major no they don't that's totally people talking about microdosing and
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things like that it also shuts off the addiction part of your brain shrooms are actually extremely
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medicinal and so is marijuana not now because it's in such high concentrations i completely disagree
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I think all these drugs can have massive negative consequences.
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Like you can even, fuck, like blank therapy.
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Ketamine therapy is also, but also has been proven to.
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i've done i don't know i don't know i've never done i was mind-altering psychoactive drugs
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literally break people's brains they develop schizophrenia no they don't not okay have you
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tried it though hold on hold on so i understand that sometimes like it not in all instances
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where you do some of these drugs will you develop will you break your brain but it happens often
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enough that i think it should just be outright banned you don't know who's going to have this
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sort of reaction to it connor murphy rest in peace who just died like a week ago this motherfucker
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took ayahuasca literally broke his brain and now he's fucking dead at 30 like that that was the
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cascading domino effect i believe of his uh ayahuasca trip when you take these like insane
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psychedelics it fucks it can fuck your mind i understand some people take them if you're taking
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too much and taking them too consistently absolutely but i think you're also missing
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the point that ketamine treatments have worked on on veterans who have ptsd they it helps with
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trauma work marijuana is also very medicinal but the marijuana that's we have now is way too high
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schizophrenia because it's too high in percentage i'm not who knows about that but they did this in
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germany where they legalized all all like all drug use is legal and it is horrible because there's
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no regulation so people are just dying on the streets basically because there are no regulations
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there has to be something that tells you like okay sure like a certain amount of ayahuasca is illegal
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but that's not the case you can just shoot up in a special room and that's supposed to be safe and
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it doesn't that's not at all what i'm saying i'm not saying all drugs should be legal the ketamine
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therapy process is with with the therapist the guy from friends didn't he od off of ketamine or
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something didn't like the what's his using ketamine as a street drug absolutely is dangerous but he
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was getting ketamine in a in a controlled facility that is by an expert or some shit i mean rare
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circumstances happen with that the same thing can happen with hospital drugs or medications or
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whatever what i'm saying is is that there are benefits to ketamine to mushrooms i don't think
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old school marijuana i don't think medications are worse and they're way worse i don't think
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you should mess with any psychedelics whatsoever you're you think mind altering medication that
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literally fucks with the chemical balance in your brain and has side effects you think someone who
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has like major depressive disorder let's say marijuana helps them get out of their major
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depressive disorder which happens for a lot of people you think that they should run the risk
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There's no doubt there. And sometimes they can, uh, have therapeutic benefit from some of these,
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uh, drugs. I understand that. I'm not, I'm not saying no, it never works. It doesn't help them.
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I'm sure it does. However, I do think that first off, I would say people who you like,
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you want to make all drugs legal, not from a therapeutic perspective, but for a recreational
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perspective, all drugs legal. So hold on. That's a separate conversation.
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If there's some, and look, I'm not an expert on the like therapeutic component of these.
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I have heard stories where some of these drugs can be therapeutic.
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However, there's zero reason for recreational purposes.
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I think you shouldn't mess around with psychoactive, psychoactive drugs.
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You're rolling the dice with fucking your brain.
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It's the same thing as like, I think you take a risk with certain things no matter what it is.
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But I would rather take my risk smoking weed than taking a prescription drug.
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And to simply say to just go on a run is, I think, an insane statement.
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but people can have depression and chemical okay bipolar you have a chemical imbalance it's a myth
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it's a myth you think bipolar is a myth bipolar disorder usually happens because you take too many
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drugs my dad was bipolar that's flat out untrue you are way wrong originally your claim originally
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your claim was legalize all drugs it can be biological yeah your original claim was legal
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make all drugs illegal that's your original claim don't do a mott and bailey where now you want to
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retreat to a more defensible position of, well, okay, only certain drugs or, okay, maybe only
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for therapeutic applications. So I really don't think... Well, like I said, I think that that would
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have to be a very complex thing. However, what I really truly mean, which I didn't even think that
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was going to get traction like that, but what I truly mean is ketamine and marijuana and mushroom
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resources should be more open and available rather than drugs from big pharma marijuana is
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currently legal in many states in the united in the u.s um you don't even need a prescription for
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it yeah um people do this recreationally and it has some therapeutic benefits but like for somebody
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who isn't like okay if i'm willing to grant that people who have taken the other steps to um
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um who have taken the other steps to try to resolve their whatever problems and they haven't
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made much um progress then okay fine they can do these drugs but are you okay with it remaining
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banned for recreational use i think that's really hard i don't i think it's too complex of an issue
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what about when it comes to abortion what okay what about like the the that's not true that's
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It's not a matter of straight up life and death.
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well, what about all the rapes and all the incest and the life of the mother?
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Even if we were to grant abortions in those instances,
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they still want these women who just got fucked by their boyfriend
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And they just, I don't know, they just got pregnant
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They still want abortion in those instances, right?
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Where there's a therapeutic benefit of the drugs?
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And then I ask you, okay, well, for recreational use?
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And you're still like, yeah, you're fine with recreational use
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But smoking a little weed or taking a little mushrooms
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carts that are 96 97 percent of course it's going to have adverse effects um grace you're
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a political activist yeah how so what topics um women's rights i've been in political put in
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political marches oh okay did you vote for kamala i didn't vote i feel like she is a little bit of
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a political puppet uh could you adjust your me no just maybe pull down the dress a little bit
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uh you posted a highlight on your instagram grace that said full custody here we go and it was
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outside of a courthouse yeah what's the story there you're trying to get full custody of your
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kid yeah okay great thank you for that uh uh we had we have to go to your notes here um
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uh we did most oh on multiple of your social media profiles and bio you write
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you love long walks to the bank i've had that for like it's on like multiple yeah yeah i've had that
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that saying on it's just funny it's just funny i've had it for like close one door tiffany
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i've had it on there for years i just thought it was funny do you not use mobile banking
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i do also when you go to a bank do you park far away or close i park close but you love
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long walks to the I know okay sorry it's uh you describe yourself as an alpha female yes so you're
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an alpha who here show of hands who's an alpha female I'm an alpha female wait raise them high
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raise them high all right alpha what's an alpha female alpha female I don't know what that means
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all right you tell us then what's an alpha female I just feel like like I've dated guys
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where we would clash because we both are alpha because like i want to be the dominant one he
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wants to be a dominant one and it ain't gonna be it's not gonna happen because you know it's like
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a stubborn thing but i don't know it's just i'm just used to doing my own thing and like all right
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yeah have you ever had sex with a famous person
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do i have to tell you yes yes and you have to share their social security number
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i mean yes but i'm not gonna say names because uh yeah but yes multiple how famous
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like how famous some people think twitch and tiktok no no no these people are like
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actually like in movies like they're actual actors and stuff yeah but not naming okay uh
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you got dumped by an ex-boyfriend to you wanted to travel Europe look for his future wife okay
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self-explanatory um uh your college years were a boss and whatever uh Gil we did all your shit
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did your shit Annabella did your shit Grace did your shit Harmony uh
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you don't think a final thing for you harmony don't think jesus christ should be worshipped
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only god yes because jesus christ was the son of god right and they says that we're all children
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of god that means jesus christ was our brother and you wouldn't worship your brother jesus is
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god you're talking about the trinity oh my god i don't think i don't think why is that crazy
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she's jewish so that's a very typical are you jewish or yeah um i'm not seen as what is it
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called my on my father's side so i'm not but what's your religion jewish you said it earlier
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um i try to follow the no-eye laws the what no-eye laws like what is the most jewish laws in the
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world the laws that they're trying to bring over here as a matter of fact the no-eye laws what is
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the i'm not familiar what is the no it's like it's like as bad as muslim sharia law like
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orthodox as bad as muslim sharia law this doesn't make any sense though she's wait i think she's
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trolling because yeah for sure she's a fucking sex worker orthodox jews i don't think are cool
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who do you think owns pornhub yeah who do you think not orthodox are either of you like
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rabbi shmueli owns owns a building with his daughter is it like that's your religion or
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You can convert, but I'm pretty sure it costs a lot of money for one.
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There's the religion, and I believe it also can be classified as ethnicity, I guess.
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i don't want to talk about i believe in god i believe too too late for that convo i feel like
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jesus always not a good time for that convo we got my girl nar nar nar nar uh former atheist
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liberal feminist turned to what me christ loving bible thumping homeschooling sourdough baking
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mom and wife that's what you wrote delicious let's go legally divorced unlawfully married
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yes sir so you were toxic oh hell yeah you were toxic are you latino no no but
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Armenian yeah i'm armenian yeah but listen you gotta do what you gotta do you gotta take what
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you gotta take uh do i want to say what anything to turkey do i want to say anything to armenian
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highlands you mean that they are renamed to turkey are you turkish no oh how you just know yeah oh
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you're moroccan moroccan argentinian i'm not turkey i just want to say i recognize the armenian
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genocide i just want to say that thank you you're welcome bring some more cookies all right
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you know i was a denier but then i had those i'm kidding all right that's a dark joke okay
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There were, oh, back to the hacking into your ex-boyfriend's husband's Facebook.
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So how were you a different ho as compared to the other hoes?
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and you wrote possibly preventing him from a lifelong
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you didn't feel like him divvying his attention anywhere
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and I swear to god that was the first time
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But yeah, I don't think it was going to be that funny,
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about my mustache, and apparently there's a market
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And now I get to tell the story about my mustache and my
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come back brian you put me on the spot that's it oh it was funny good job none of these women
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laughed i did i giggled okay yeah that's right my husband my husband did say the women at comedy
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clubs giggle they don't laugh that's so you know what they say like a big belly laugh you know
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yeah all right you wrote insecurities dictate all outcomes in every relationship if left unchecked
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That's why I do my best to advocate for women with large labia.
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I got to be like your big labia, your giant, whatever.
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Or, you know, the fuzz is covering the curtains
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Because that's the same assumption we have
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um yeah you said your guests are young idiots they are yeah are you gonna let her talk to
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you like that i love you gillian but you have no experience i think you're so wise
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do you want to i honestly have nothing bad to say about you i should adopt gillian yeah
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i would love to go out to dinner with you i love you i love you too it's 2 a.m love language that's
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great uh all right cute uh but you know we we also we you know 36 33 28 42 so there's some variety
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there is but you rarely have older women on have you did you watch last week i had like three women
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in their 40s i'm pretty sure oh okay i got is it often or like is it just a phenomenon i think it's
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pretty often maybe now anyways um but thank you for the invite you spent valentine's day in 2019
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the hospital because he decided to have a heart attack cardiac arrest and make you responsible
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okay well that's fine um you come from a traditional perspective on relationships
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but you live in unconventional relationship models is it it's closed though it's not open
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it's closed but the thing is like you know in my culture we first get married then we have the kids
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you know or then we live with each other and then we have the kids but in my situation for my second
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marriage uh i lived with him then had the kid and then got married and we don't we aren't legally
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married like i said we didn't do a huge wedding we just did like you know dinner and it's
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unconventional because i get to do whatever i want and as far as my culture goes but uh and he
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doesn't really claim me like that you know like oh you can't do this you can't do that like i'm
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here right now and you know he's he's letting me thrive and that's the unconventional part about it
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because there are many relationships that i've been in that have not let me thrive um in in a uh
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give me a 30 second monologue okay you said you excuse me you said you were former atheist liberal
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now you're not now you're not feminist you used to be feminist you're christian now uh i assume
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you're more conservative give us like the 30 second gangster monologue on that transition i
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guess when you realize that you don't know shit that's the number one if you don't if you when
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you realize you don't know shit you have to change your ways you have to otherwise you become a
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bullshit guy i know it's not the gangster thing you're talking about but as an atheist i went
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through 13 years of atheism uh only to come to a dead end and i was like what the hell am i doing
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there's no explanation for any of this i'm already making things up at this point and as a matter of
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fact we're being led to satan um and so when i realized all of that i immediately started making
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the shifts it wasn't overnight you know the shifts that i made and yeah we did have a little bit of a
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open relationship in the sense that we were experimenting with each other my husband and i
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And I'm not planning on changing my ways or going back away from Christ because now I know the ways.
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But ayahuasca and then Christ and then now this.
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And then final thing in your notes, you said that your frustrations with men is deeply rooted in your perception of them as stewards.
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Men who don't fulfill their roles as stewards end up staying as undeveloped men.
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A lot of my problems in life came from men who didn't understand how to lead and they didn't know how to steward their responsibilities.
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And when, as a woman, you see what needs to be done, you try to do it yourself, but you fail because you're a woman.
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You're not going to do it the way a man is.
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Men should lead, but men should practice how to lead.
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We're going to fucking come and take Canada.
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First, we're going to go to fucking Toronto.
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then we're going to get saskatchewan then we're going to get mississauga and then we're going to
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get alberta then we're going to get we're going to get fucking uh uh what's the one that's on the
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west coast vancouver we're coming for vancouver hey okay very familiar with canada i can't hear
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that many canadian say is he french i like no geography hey tiffany like we're gonna do riley's
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notes but like we need tony the greaser here like for the thing so like tiffany can you go
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get like tony the greaser do you think he's like is he is he um let me send is he like on your is
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he on your instagram uh you know can i ask a question but so like how do we get him and stuff
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i can text him or you can but maybe he's like oh yeah let me send him a dm tony who's tony who is
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our husband oh what are we doing with him whoa hey not us married no we're not doing anything
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with him but what are we doing here with him he's just coming to like say hi and do like a
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little cameo you know awesome tony the greaser is he famous i'm gonna message him are you up tony
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is he famous uh we have a hundred thousand over a hundred thousand followers he's got he's got
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like a good following on like the social media and stuff you know yeah we try to hey do you ever
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have like poutine or what i actually don't like it we gotta fucking invade canada boys
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i met i sent tony a message but he hasn't responded back so i'll know we'll just wait
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a little bit i guess but for now oh hey uh tiffany go just like down there and like get
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him tiffany okay and like you know do all the stuff and like get the release and stuff you
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know i forgot who tiffany was that's the that's like the girl who like works for me i thought
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her name was tiffany for a second isn't like somebody else from like canada or something
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i thought someone it was just you do i sound like that i'm from no you don't really like
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talk like very canadian and stuff but like i feel like you're canadian okay she talks like she's
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like from new york or something new york is to look like this what do you what do you that's
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ridiculous no there's like if you're from i don't know okay tony we're coming to get you boy
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we're coming he's coming and you ladies keep your hands off him okay because he's like married and
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stuff obviously like this girl will throw down she's having a good she'll throw down so like you
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guys keep on like be good behavior married with a soon-to-be child yes all right um let's see what
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what i have left um this guy and by the way just so just to add i wasn't toxic in the sense of
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toxic i just changed his password so i could get his attention that's it if they really wanted him
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they would have found him like i fucking found him damn straight they're just not ambitious
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all right uh well while we're waiting on that if you guys can just be quiet here in the back
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and at the table riley i saw on your instagram you have a necklace yeah and it was said feminist
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on it yeah to be fair it's an old photo yeah i'm not a feminist probably i've never really used to
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be though or no so my mom and i have a very strong relationship are you good i'm so tired is your kid
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kicking not to that not that far okay sorry go ahead riley my mom and i have a very strong
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relationship where we used to talk crap on feminists a lot um that's where i get a lot of
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my edge I would say but she would buy me feminist stuff as a joke and I would wear it like I had a
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hat a necklace a shirt gotcha gotcha uh you said you're a traditional stay-at-home wife you're
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expecting a baby in January you help your husband and support him on all of his business ventures
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you strongly believe all women are meant to do the same that's why your husband try it wait uh
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That's why your husband tries to invite others into this modern rebellion called traditional gender roles.
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I mean, the rebellion, like how you rebel today would be being traditional.
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Most people would ostracize you for being a traditional wife or being a traditional woman or even a traditional man, God forbid.
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I think what we'll do is we'll, like, maybe have someone just be up temporarily.
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We can have you just take another seat or something.
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Now, you said you've also dated mostly good men and married a great one, Tony.
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Through many debates and a lot of peer pressure
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You broke up with him because he didn't work
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all right he's the great tony the greaser is joining us at the table
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there he is folks and he has like a greaser aesthetic to him which is pretty cool i think
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And then, Tony, just one thing, just when you're speaking, if you can be close to the microphone.
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Hey, Nara, do you want to do the robot behind us or something?
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I make Instagram videos, and I live a 1950s life.
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That started before our values were this way, but I just think the 50s were a better time than now.
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But mostly I like to preach confidence to young men because I think we can all agree that's something that is a big issue, especially nowadays and in dating.
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So they need to be taught that there's a right way to do things and there's a wrong way to do things.
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And right now there's too many people doing the wrong thing.
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Also, there was a 2022 umbrella study showing that depression actually is not caused by chemical imbalances.
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Started as maintenance and I looked at the manager doing nothing all day and I said,
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All of our pillowcases get destroyed and she has to wash them for me.
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Can you face like straight into this, that camera there?
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All right, but she's not in like a, what's like a 19, like the, what are those dresses
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Sometimes you'll dress like kind of in the 1950s.
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I usually tend to wear dresses and dress a lot more feminine, but there's a dress code.
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Is it like a 1950s Ford Thunderbird or something?
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One bench seat, though, so I've got to get rid of it because we're going to have a kid coming on the way.
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Okay, women, what do y'all think? We got Tony
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You were just way too talkative. I blame it all
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um it is sorry in advance congratulations guys that's awesome thank you yeah that's really
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really awesome we got married on our birthday and the kid's gonna come on our birthday there
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you go that's really exciting we have the same birthday wait that's so cool it is very cool
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we're meant to be my ex and i also have the same now tony have you ever done a drag race for pink
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slips not yet well one day they'll they've seen me on the toll road but i can't confirm or deny
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that now are you um have you uh what's it called trying to think of like some 1950s lore i could
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ask you about uh what kind of music do you listen to 1950 like how far do you take the the the thing
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like the music is the music also oh yeah so it's my entire life so the music if you guys haven't
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heard it 1950s rockabilly doo-wop it it will change your life especially if you're a guy or
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even a girl and you're listening to some of this crappy mumble rap now i don't know if i'm allowed
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to catch or not that's fine oh yeah so yeah it's in my opinion it's pretty shitty um and it kind
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of like if you spend all of your time listening to this type of storytelling and this type of life
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eventually you start trying to mimic it and you can see it in younger boys especially 13 14 15
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they're following the music and they think oh because rap music is great because you can relate
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to almost anything that they're saying even if you didn't grow up like most of these guys did
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So you have these 13, 14-year-olds growing up in South O.C. acting like they're hard, and it creates a problem.
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This music is all about love. It's all about getting better.
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And sometimes if you want to get a little farther down, it's more about just, hey, we're racing, or I stole your chick.
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But other than that, it gives you a good message. It's uplifting, and it's great music.
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I got a leather jacket with your name on it, too.
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She has hers in the car, and I have my denim jacket today.
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I didn't know if it was going to be gold or not.
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a little uh he's a great actor that's a good compliment Joaquin Phoenix is badass he was in
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he was the guy in Joker he was the guy who did this yeah you know and what was that movie uh
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Gladiator Gladiator thank you thank you um and so you're probably listening to the podcast if
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there's like one thing you could you know this is obviously a very degenerate group uh partially
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Can you, I don't know, maybe, you know, look, they don't listen to me, Tony.
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You know, I'm too, I'm a little chubby and I'm too old, you know.
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Maybe they'll listen to a young gun like you, Tony.
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So, first off, for all of you ladies, especially, we got Special Agent Cornstar over here with their 130 IQ and super smarter than everybody.
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this little like trolly behavior where we're all we're making we're just joking and it's all bs
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every like 24 7 that's not cute guys don't like that or at least the guys that all of you claim
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that you want some of you have the craziest standards i think i've ever seen in my entire
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life and we just went through five hours six hours and he curled up in the car listening to
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it so i gotta tell you he was curled up oh yeah fetal position fetal position that's how bad
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How difficult it is for men to find a reasonable wife
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uh women's greatest temptation not submitting to men uh and built a society off of it how low the
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birth rate is and how detrimental that is to society how high body counts defile women and
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take away their best asset healthy relationships require partnership not two people with different
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goals friends ruin relationships uh plenty more these are some of your like hot takes
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um oh and on the the guy who you dumped who made you into a liberal and then he cried for three
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days uh then he's or you started dating your hot assertive strong working hard working oh okay we
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said that part um final thing for your notes um you have some hot takes do you recall them do you
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want to list them out i want to repeal the 19th amendment um oh i think that all women are
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delusional i think that they're borderline evil um i think i don't even know what else i said uh
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women have never been oppressed we should stop acting like it's not an excuse for anything
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um i think that's really it what about the corporate america oh yeah corporate women
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women have ruined corporate america and just jobs in general for everyone i mean
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the women in the workforce has been so dangerous what do you guys think about what she just she
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She wants to, this misogynist here wants to repeal the 19th Amendment.
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She wants to take away your right to vote.
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First off, I agree with everything you're saying.
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But secondly, there is something I do slightly disagree with.
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I think just having a total answer of women cannot vote is necessarily completely fair.
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However, I think that there are really, really solid arguments for why women shouldn't vote.
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I don't necessarily feel one way or the other a hundred percent, but also that wasn't always
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women that put in the standard of women need to go to work. The government put in this standard
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so that way it was a two party working system, pay more taxes. Then you're not raising your kids
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anymore. The kids are going in daycare. The government is telling you how to raise your
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own fucking kids. That's not just for women to blame, which I feel like that is a narrative
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that comes with that a lot and that's not true you're right for sure 100 it was definitely
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a full psyop to get women in the workplace and to get them to pay taxes and to take care of our
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kids anymore but went anyway yes they went anyway they should have fought back women want to respond
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so would do you want the right to vote and are you grateful that you know i don't want the right
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to vote i so what i what i there's a lot of reasons why but i what i ultimately think is
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that we should go back to voting as households where uh you have a one person for a household
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voting for the entire family i think that there's a lot of great things that come to come from that
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it gives men more responsibility it incentivizes the the family unit uh it encourages debate in
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america which is completely gone but mostly it just encourages encourages and incentivizes the
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family unit a strong family uh not necessarily no i think that you should realistically have
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stake in the game so you should own a house you should have business you should be in the military
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um and i think that then you should have kids whatever it may be um i think that you should
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have to have stake in the next generation i think too many people kind of vote for like we were
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saying earlier like you have empathy but you have empathy towards the things that don't matter to
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this nation um you have empathy to to not your own kids but to someone else's kids it's kind of
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crazy what if someone has no clue what's going on politically man or a woman and they just
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yeah well it's a man or the woman and they just pick what this will reduce 50 of those people
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from voting um wait really quick earlier you were like i just have a question you said like
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the brain development prefrontal cortex 25 you know 20 year old women you know prefrontal cortex
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should we take the like should young people not be able to vote i do think the voting rage the
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voting age should be raised to 21 i agree with that statement 25 it should be 25 it has 21 is
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a good middle ground i think it should be 21 for everything if you can go fight and die for your
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country, but you can't have a fucking beer? That's
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That's not fair to say that. Student debt is so much
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says she doesn't like age gaps, but I heard
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anybody for altering their body if that's something
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to judge would you break up with her if she wanted
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for you okay look lower those expectations okay tony tell me if you agree with this okay me and
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tony we are representatives for the male delegation and we're gonna you know what maybe i'll pass it
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to tony see if you can do this tony as representative for the male delegation we are going to make a
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maximal offer to her and her paint a picture of the guy like the the guy you think she we're
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going to offer to her and to her so maybe like height um income age um what are some of the
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height income maybe like job personality i can do it if you're not too no i'll give it a shot for
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sure all right so you're 19 right how old are you 36 are you guys both in california yes i'm from
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canada canada are you going home to canada or do you live here i'm going home to canada okay well
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that's already kind of a lost cause canada's full of betas but um shit you're screwed but for you
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i mean honestly i'm sure you can find a nice lumberjack right or somebody like that i think
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based off of your answers you need a guy in your life to tell you hey no we're not doing this or
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maybe i don't want to be told no well exactly you just haven't met the right guy yet that's
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the only thing she didn't want to be told no either when i met her and it's not about controlling
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it's just about guiding i don't want to be told no and i won't listen okay and that's fine but
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But again, you'll be back on this podcast in 30 years when Brian is a trillionaire and saying, oh, man, I regret doing this.
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Because, again, are you expecting to get married?
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So what guy do you think, genuinely, because something I haven't heard here this entire night is concrete details.
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I don't know if all of you geniuses have heard of that in English class, but it's actual supporting data for what you're saying.
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So using concrete details, what type of guy do you genuinely think is going to be like, oh, okay, like I'm going to put up with this attitude problem and then maybe have kids.
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You just said that you don't want to be told what to do and you're not going to take no for an answer.
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I'm really not obligated to submit to my husband.
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I mean, I guess you can say you're not, but again, where do you think that's going to lead you at the end of the day?
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I don't know if all of you realize this, but this is real life.
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Eventually you're going to expect certain things from your life.
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Just like a guy who spends his 20s and late teens doing nothing but playing Xbox doesn't set himself up for having a good job and be able to provide.
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What are you setting yourself up for in the future?
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I'd literally rather stay single for the rest of my life than listen to a man.
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for some reason this time around. The last time
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I think you would have got a lot more love from the people on the chat.
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if you work on that, the other things might start falling into place.
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do you want to get married or what or have a be a super girlfriend like like for someone who
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doesn't want to get married i feel like as of now i kind of i feel like i'm going to be like that
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single aunt that like gets wild and like drinks all the time you know and then spoils like
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their nieces and nephews is that something you want like if you were given an opportunity to
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say, yeah, you can stay on this path and be that drunk aunt who spends her money on her
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sibling's kids or something else. We'll say just being married. I'm not saying the way we are,
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but you can be married to somebody. You can still make your own money and do all the stuff you want
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to do. I don't remember if you were an OF model or not, but you can still retain some of those
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things. Would you choose that other option? I mean, I guess, yeah. You would? Yeah. Okay. So
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do you think it would be worth your time to take the steps to get to that?
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um yes it's just honestly it just depends like who we're talking about or like because i've
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dealt with i've had traumatic experiences with relationships like literally i've battered wife
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syndrome i feel like and i don't know it just really depends i mean what does it depend on
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like the type of person who they are and you know the personality and if we fit or not or
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if I could deal with their shit you know what I mean like yeah so so I hear girls say I deal
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with their shit a lot so does that mean just who they are like you just dealing with the person
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that they are dealing with the like perceived baggage you think they're gonna have it's like
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their baggage and like you know no one's perfect like I feel like all the perfect people are taken
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right I'm just kidding but um I just feel like if you know like like the last few people that I've
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dated were so horrible like i would have turned lesbian you know what i mean like it was that bad
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like i probably wouldn't have dated another guy like yeah so and then the same question i asked
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her on the assumption and again this is something that i should have said to you too as well but
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like on the assumption that this man is providing for you in whatever way you see fit whether that's
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paying 100 of the bills and saying hey babe you don't need to do this taking care of you when
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problems are occurring all the way down to the smallest thing like killing a spider or a dog
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recently had that but he was an asshole so then I just was like I'm not dealing with your shit
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that was just a setup to the question so hold on so let's say the assumption all that's already
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taken care of yeah would you submit to that man if he wasn't an asshole or whatever yes 100% oh
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my god if he was like nice and like kind and just sweet and like everything I've hoped for like I
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will do anything you want like does that make sense like i will absolutely it does and how old
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are you sorry 36 36 okay so i'm sorry what was your name again at the end jill or gillian
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i'm sorry i heard so many different okay so my last point to you is in genuinely because at the
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end of the day what i want is for everybody to not get better but to understand that there's
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other ways of living life and whatever mixed up demonic version of modern life that we have now
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You just heard somebody who went down a path that is similar to what you think that you want to go down
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and is saying that if all these other things were taken care of, I probably still would submit to this guy.
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You've had older women tell you that there are better ways of going about things, but the stubbornness remains.
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Does that change anything that you think or change any of your opinions potentially?
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All of these older women have said, all of these older women, one of which have gone down.
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Like I was like, no, they didn't say they're going to change.
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I'm asking you since they said they changed and that because of what they know now at
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their older age, that they would submit to a man, assuming all these other things on
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the other side, we're taking care of, we're assuming he's not an asshole.
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We're assuming he's not going to be mean to you or beat you.
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And we're assuming that he's going to take care of you in whatever way you see fit.
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Now you, I think earlier you said you want to make your own money or you want the guy
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to pay your own pay for everything and you keep your own money but that's just being that's that's
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just narcissistic why why does it why do you get to do that and he can't because i want to i don't
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know okay we do have to get into the final segment of the show which is the rapid fire segment i'm
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gonna go through it quick we're gonna skip a whole bunch of things and then we're gonna wrap the show
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i guess uh quick really quick from the women here um you've heard a bit from tony uh i feel like
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some of you guys are a bit more on the liberal side politically you're a bit more feminist
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do any of you have based off of just you know this kind of very brief encounter
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do any of you have issues with tony any of you got any issues you only the repealing the 19th
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well that was her thing oh i thought she's the misogynist meeking meeker mdog what you got what
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you got for tony do you think hold on let me maybe tony you won't be offended by anything they say oh
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absolutely not you so if you feel like you have a disagreement it's okay he's gonna he's gonna be
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cool with it he's a strong capable man you should do you and to be clear i don't view it this way
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do any of you feel like this is a this dynamic is wrong like their relationship like in the sense
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that um like it's a more traditional dynamic you said you have issues with traditional gender roles
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like do you think this dynamic is wrong where she's a relationship where she's submissive and
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he's the leader and more dominant nice i don't care nice what do you think fatima who will not
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take her husband's last name what do you think about this dynamic here i don't care now you also
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You could have brought a Sherpa shrug like
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well um i didn't want to sit but she was being chivalrous do you want to i feel like we could
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maybe do you want to sit with these beautiful girls back here she can sit on my lap i can sit
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on my couch oh the lap sit might is that easy okay um so wait uh maybe hold on how are we gonna
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do this yeah she should sit there and i sit where she's sitting wait let's tony you take this seat
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and then I'll have you come back to your original seat
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I think that this is something that I felt for a long time, too,
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and all those things, it makes you twinge inside.
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It makes you feel gross because of the way that it's portrayed.
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However, submission doesn't just mean I tell you what to do.
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It's going under the leadership and the guidance.
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Being the leader and the husband does not equate to control.
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It equates to going first and being the leader.
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There's someone who's behind the steering wheel and there's the passenger.
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both are of equal value but if the driver crashes the car he's the one who's responsible so at the
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end of the day you can't have two people driving someone has to be the one who starts making
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decisions it doesn't mean your value is of any less it doesn't mean any of that your roles are
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just different and it just means being the leader is going first making the change first not you
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need to listen to me right now boss type of thing because I think that's what you portray it as and
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that's not what it is and i would encourage you to really look into what a good leader of a man is
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i don't think she listened to anything you just i think it just well maybe someone else who's
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listening maybe they can hear it because i felt the same way when i heard submission it made me
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sick to my stomach it's like who the fuck are you to tell me i understand what you're saying and
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yeah that is like how i viewed that word it makes you twinge inside i understand that you're seeing
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men who think that they are being it's for people who are religious right and they say christ died
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for the church christ didn't go around telling everybody you need to do this you need to do that
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you he followed he did what he was supposed to do and led by example that's what you're supposed
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to do a good leader and a good man leads by example not a controlling boss he's selfish
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selfless would you want to look up himself for you are you i'd encourage you to look into that
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Final, I guess before we get into the rapid fire
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heard she wants a guy who's six feet, but she's
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wants a man to provide. She wants a man to
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protect. A man should pay for everything in the
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I think she wants to be adopted and have a dad.
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missing a dad, but I'm saying that's a parental figure
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that you're asking for. That's going to pay for everything
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I'm sorry about that. I didn't mean to say you're looking for a dad.
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figure when you're describing that so also not taking the last name I highly disagree with that
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and again I think it just goes down to respecting I can't give you a solid argument for why I think
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that it's better same reason why I can't necessarily turn to Brian and tell him that he's wrong about
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marriage but there is a case for these things that are that don't necessarily have a right or
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wrong answer in its tradition and it keeps families together in my opinion like we are the blank last
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names and not just me and her but our kids and when they grow up they know that this is who they
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are if they play sports that name's on the back of their jersey and there's no confusion as to who
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is whose kid and we're a unit and that's something that the country's missing in my opinion right left
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center whatever families are not the way that they used to be where they were a unit they would help
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each other regardless of who was doing what the wife was always there helping out and the husband
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was pulling his weight as well and that grew into a bigger community where other where everybody
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helped each other. And I think if we went back to that, a lot of these problems that you guys
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are describing for yourselves would probably go away. See how smart he is? How do you not just
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submit? Like, how do you not just give him everything that you need? It's five?
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No, I don't know. Five hands. It's a drug. Oh, I had something good just off the,
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for the last name thing i did want to go back to that i think if anything i probably would
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hyphenate it or i would take the guy's last name hyphenated stance on that it's hyphenate what's
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your thoughts on hyphenation tony i don't think i would completely keep mine i'm faking gay
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to some yeah i mean i'm i'm partially hispanic and i know that there's tradition there for
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hyphenating names i couldn't tell you where it comes from but a lot of times it's a mother's
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last name yeah mexico yeah yeah so and i wouldn't be the authority on that but i don't think you are
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so i i don't i don't think we need to hyphenate it so yeah i would say it's mexican canadian okay
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um but why though like what like why do the half measure like why does it matter because of my
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personal circumstances i have my dad's last name right so if i change my last name then i'm then
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his bloodline just does not continue yeah part do you have brothers i have an older brother but
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he's not gonna have a kid i'm an only child you're not going to that's his fault that's on him
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that's it's not your your job okay but that's what i want i mean hyphenating it really truly
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isn't that big of a deal if it me if it has sentimental value to her because her father
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passed and she's the last of her bloodline i really think if she's still taking the last name
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and hyphenating it really is not that big of a deal or respect issue she's still taking that on
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but she doesn't want her bloodline to die i mean that's understandable there's a woman who changed
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their name and then there's blood their name and their bloodline representation blood is there
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it's more of a sentimental thing than it is like actual like dna bloodline obviously his dna is
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but look think think about like the the the your mom grandmother great-great-grandmother
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all in your bloodline they gave up their last names my mom didn't okay well your so your last
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name is hyphenated then there no oh you're okay i see she kept her name but your name gave me my
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dogs okay i see this is typical practice with greek armenian middle eastern more so we keep
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our last names i don't like this i don't like this uh tony and riley are you guys uh christian
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are you guys religious we're christian yeah both christian yeah okay so so monogamy 100 no no you
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wouldn't bring in like a second wife thing no i couldn't do that did they have mistresses back in
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the 1950s don't get any ideas tony you got a good one here don't don't no no mistresses yeah no i
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mean i'm sure people did i mean it wasn't too different than it is now there were just higher
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social penalties for doing stuff like that for guys too though so if you were a guy and you broke
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up your marriage there was heavy social penalties i know the feminists like to say that oh like
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girls could were stuck in marriages or they couldn't do x y or z but legitimately like guys
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now because the expectation was for women to be
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a certain way. The men had to be the equal
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during this conversation, I think that's what it's missed.
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submission thing to her, and thank you for clarifying
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absolutely all right uh we're gonna do the rapid fire segment we're gonna do a shortened version
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for the sake of time let me have you let me have all of you scoot into the table scoot in you scoot
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into the table scoot your chair and scoot your chair and scoot your chair and all right we're
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gonna blast through this as quick as possible i need your help though because it is late i want
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to get it has gone long i appreciate you guys making it uh to to uh it's gonna be one of our
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longer shows i'm gonna try to get through it as quick as possible but i need your help for me
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to be able to do that if you guys can just please be paying attention to the questions don't make
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me have to repeat it and just give me a quick like try not to think too long just give me like a quick
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answer if you can just for the sake of time to move things along okay uh does anyone here think
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that i riley or tony are misogynists by definition here get this girl some crack or something
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that's bad for the baby what is up with that i don't know bro i don't know
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get this girl some crazy yeah i'm so white that that just woke me up
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shit all right all right um okay uh do you think i'm a misogynist gill
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homo sapiens jewish oh my god bro what the fuck dude fucking troll what's that tiffany
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what did you say that's not yeah it's like what species are we like i think tiffany's doing some
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pretty good she's saying she's she tiffany's trying to say that people of the tribe are
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difference that's what to fucking this fucking anti-semitic piece of shit back there calm the
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fuck down tiffany you piece of shit okay name three countries besides the united states canada
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mexico france mexico can't repeat oh asia yeah uh wait what did she say again i just i just don't
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i said canada mexico france oh yeah three other countries europe and what you said and africa
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well so asia europe and africa again say it again asia europe and africa beautiful what about you
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those are incontinence meeker go ahead meeker okay come on 300 iq let's go okay pull it together
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final last owning out what say it again yep austin texas next she's so obvious she's so
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fucking obvious with it three countries countries uh russia took your mic down a bit
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russia kenya and um like the kenya switch up japan three countries
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pain egypt venezuela three countries uh germany uh brazil and um austria how many continents
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are there seven no one even brought up seven seven seven seven i gotta skip you you gotta
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be present be present so present just just 30 20 minutes and we're wrapped um
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suck it up suck it up okay uh name what now we're just gonna go around the table not everyone's
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gonna be able to i guess because there's more than seven people name one continent you can't
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repeat. North America. South America. Africa. Asia. Australia. Antarctica. Okay, there it is.
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Thank you. How many states are in the United States? 55. Sorry, say that. 50. 55? I heard
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Actually, no, there's actually like seven different territories.
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We're going to annex it, and we're going to force you to say yes.
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fuck um let's see uh okay what is the capital of the usa washington dc washington dc with
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right yeah washington dc a canadian definitely wouldn't know that shit what is it washington
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dc okay i'm sorry name two district of this will get progressively harder name two countries in
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europe france and um what was that one country called kosovo wow good one next two countries
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in europe england and uh italy is that right so she started as a blonde or no she will because
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is it never mind okay sorry Bulgaria and Sweden okay I'm gonna skip that one uh how many planets
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starting with you Kat how many planets are in our solar system oh my gosh I don't know what
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here look at me look at me look towards me Kat Kat this direction don't look at
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that I'm not looking I'm not sorry I'm just like totally zoned out right now it's okay
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my balls are burning it's because of the color yes they're fucking burning and they've been
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burning for like the last two hours i can't even think i wear contacts too and i'm just fine so
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fuck you guys okay uh what what planet do we live on wait fuck i shouldn't what planet do we live on
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earth earth saturn saturn great troll job there okay uh actually i live on mars the government
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for cat the government building the pentagon is what shape a pentagon are you sure yes what do
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you think over there dreads they're not dreads okay whatever the fuck you call those things
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oh excuse me braids i'm sorry i'm not i'm not i'm 37 and white i don't know things
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i listen to pearl jam i listen to pearl jam literally i listen to pearl jam you think i
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know about i guess not because i don't know what the hell pearl jam is exactly you don't know
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about pearl jam i don't know about no great it's a fair prop fair trade okay i listen to christian
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Question this is so retarded but I have to ask you
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We're all collectively looking at cat's boobs
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i've been looking this whole time i've been distracted this whole time like really i'm
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sorry i can't help i i you're gonna find clips of me literally just like
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and i'm not even meaning to it's just happening what uh what river runs through egypt
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is it the nile river the is it the nile river the nile wow congrats you guys are so smart
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i should ask meeker with her 400 iq or whatever uh what country oh okay for cat what what country
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can i ask you a question yeah sure i guess uh this is probably going to go in the direction
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nobody could have guessed uh there was recently carmelo anthony was found guilty of murdering
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someone what do you think about that you familiar with the case carmelo anthony yes but i have a
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weird dissociation with names and faces so the track murder he all right the kid who stabbed
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that guy who like grabbed him wait tilt the microphone towards you weird tilt the microphone
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Kat, what country is directly north of the USA?
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what uh here i'll skip what country gifted the statue of liberty to the united states
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rents what gas do humans breathe in to survive carbon great what gas do plants absorb from the
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air um carbon dioxide how many months have 28 days fat tea ma oh my god how many months
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month or what month have 28 days what month or how many how many months have 28 days
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hey no help you help oh my god you better you gotta make me some good oh my goodness
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all right no helping no helping what continent what con cat come up to the mic come up scoot
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green. I'm not answering if it's another joke. We know, Kat.
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what is the capital of france paris what's the capital of japan
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tokyo or kyoto one of those what country is immediately south of the united states cat
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um north south of the united states wait what was the question again i'm so sorry i literally
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what country is immediately south of the united states
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south america wait no no girl i don't know okay i can't think
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if you have three quarters how much money do you have
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gosh this is so dumb 75 cents why can't i get the math questions
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it's wednesday monday tuesday wednesday uh who painted the mona lisa
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picasso yep what is the name of the famous car company founded by henry ford
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if it takes three minutes to boil one egg how many minutes does it take to boil three
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wait fuck that question okay for you fatima finish the term isosceles blank
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not really it's been so long since you got them
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or okay for like being black what else did you mean by that i don't know i mean i just want oh
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you're black people to like recognize like these are braids call them fucking braids
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how all of a sudden people not understand the words coming out of the mouth of not dreadlocks
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dreadlocks are dirty bundles of of of knots oh my god who the hell
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me obviously that's my point like hey peter griffin over here all right all
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right let me um peter how many oh that was pretty good i know see you should
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have done the vietnamese accent the entire show
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how many stars are on the u.s flag 50 cat 50 what century are we in cat
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2000 no no century 20th century no wait yep 20th what do you think right 21st 21st 21st
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20th say it louder 20th 20th okay what cat up up cat up cat sorry this one's a good one cat
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I'm gonna drop a fucking scud missile on you, Fatima
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Let's do it at 3 a.m. while everyone's yawning.
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You'll be laying here on the pillows and stuff
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Alright you could have just said that shit
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could have just said it we saved a minute okay sorry who was the first president of the united
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states what country is the great wall of china in i saw someone say like guys guys guys just
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allow whoever i point just let them speak go ahead mongolia all right great answer uh chair one
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huh china what china okay great you gotta say like this china
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i love those cliffs skip skip skip uh how many how many years
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how many she's so like sorry continue how many years are in a decade
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oh girl wait guys guys just let them answer the question please just be quiet
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do i know any vietnamese that's how you call a cat you go
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thank you for that cat lesson i appreciate it you get a straight all right for you
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if it doesn't eggs if it doesn't eggs cost three dollars how much is each egg
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oh my god i've seen you do this question i think 40 cents
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40 it's 40 cents obviously i'm brain dead at this point riley 40 cents i didn't think it'd get to
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me now see unfortunately i think for riley she heard everyone else say 40 and you're all wrong
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you're all wrong you're all wrong uh it's three three eggs or sorry a dozen eggs three dollars
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He looks at me like this, and he's like, literally.
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think about all these questions you had an extra 10-20 seconds
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I'm about to bust out some harsher insults.
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You've been quiet the entire fucking night.
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I've told you repeatedly, cut that shit out.
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Let me get through this without you fucking my entire shit up
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It's a fun little segment we do at the end
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If you're gonna fucking sabotage the entire thing
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It's a fun little segment we do at the end
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okay so get the fuck out i'm not gonna do it i've told bro i told you repeatedly knock it off
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jesus christ man like they're trying to fucking sabotage the entire thing shit man
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now can we get through this please without like constant derailment and me having to
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correct people and shit god damn was that too toxic for you i think it's a little fragile but
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yeah fragile i mean you're getting like really upset just just a little bit i think if somebody's
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like trying to fuck with your production i think that's i i i do agree you're a feminist you're a
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feminist there's some shit you said tonight i'm like yeah this girl's a fucking larper no i just
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don't think her fucking shit bro no i just think you're very like emotional like damn it's it's
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okay i think like sometimes when people are pushing your buttons and then like you've asked
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them repeatedly to not do the thing and they keep doing it and they're trying to like fuck with you
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you're setting a boundary we invited her on the podcast we gave her plan like she basically said
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fuck all all night she could have contributed if she's got an issue with the podcast then she can
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actually you know contribute but if she's just here to kind of sabotage what i'm you know this
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segment at the end that we do which is fun and we get some fun clips and it's just it's it's
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not malicious we're just trying to have like a little fun moment here yeah no i mean i understand
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that it's just i i think so i'm i'm in the i'm the bad guy for trying to correct what she's doing
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no i mean but i think if you're like voice is getting elevated and your face is getting red
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and like you are very upset i think i think it's just i think it's a little you think that was
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you think that was upset. I just think it's a little
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without setting some boundaries and going off on
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people. That's how you get things done. I agree.
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You need to set boundaries. That's why everybody needs men in their life.
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your own your you you have oh man what's the term for it like willful i don't know just no it's not
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willful it's not willful ignorance it's just like i'm not i don't know i'm gonna move it on i don't
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really care for the uh meta conversation about this but i appreciate you tony for having my back
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here but it's just like come on man i agree with you too like i've told you repeatedly like over
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in this corner guys don't no hints don't be helping out this is the question for the person
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if they know it great if they don't whatever it's just a fun little clip
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all right and then i gotta get attacked by the covert feminist here in the corner who wants
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people in the like 18 year olds to do fucking meth and peyote and shit you want to legalize
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all drugs it's completely cooked you're taking a something you said completely like moving it into
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whatever it's you know my opinion so i've already said that but the fact that you're getting so
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upset by me just saying like damn that was kind of intense and you asked my opinion so
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do you want me to share it or not you said was that too intense and looked straight at me so
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yeah i said like that's i understand setting boundaries and there needs to be rules but
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i mean that's all i was saying is that was a little intense i just don't think you had to
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call her a fucking retard i think it was warranted look you gotta understand right it's like
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you can be calm cool and collected maybe the first three times you have to tell somebody not to do
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the thing but then when they keep poking at you it's like i don't understand like y'all y'all this
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does relate to dating because i do think um you guys are habitual this is from what is this dave
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chappelle habitual line steppers habitual line crossers like you i don't have i can't tell you
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one time and then you guys fix the thing i gotta like if i if i first say hey god like in our show
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notes we say speak close to the mic and then tiffany says speak close to the mic and then
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afterwards when i at the very before the show starts speak close to the mic and then i tell
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you during the show speak close to the mic and then they continually keep making the same mistakes
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that gets frustrating i'm not disagreeing with that at all of course it gets so it's like just
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make the correction it's very simple i never said i disagreed with that i i never said that
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there but there is a reaction and there's a level to your reaction so you can make the same argument
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if you just stood up and flipped the fucking table while i told her there's a level degree
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but you sitting here consistently calling her a fucking retard over and over again
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yeah it's just a little extreme that's all i'm saying she's trying to fuck with the segment
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right i understand so it's malicious right i understand what you're being malicious like
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there's one thing like with the microphones you you'll get just like the verbal reminder
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initially but if you keep fucking it up then it's gonna be like i'm annoyed now she was being
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malicious so that's a different that goes beyond just i've had to repeatedly tell them hey knock
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it off with like helping and giving the hands i understand that you're relating that also back to
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when i said to how it looked like tiffany was on a really short rope which was more of a joke just
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because your dynamic is kind of funny and as an outsider it seems like she's one mistake away from
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being fired then again i don't know your personal dynamic but i think you're relating what i just
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said back to all of that it's very simple if you just go along with the program keep things chill
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i can be chill yeah but if you're going to be malicious and i've told you no i've told you to
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knock it off and you keep doing it like this is the way women will be abusive this is the way
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women will find themselves in toxic dynamics when the man says hey stop doing this and the woman
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digs in that's like that's you got something on this i'm agreeing that just in general though
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people can be in sure men can do that too that's men can do that too but it's like when you when
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somebody has said knock it off stop doing it and then they do it anyways if we want to talk about
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consent somebody says no knock the knock it the fuck off you know all right what the fuck that's
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I had a boyfriend that said he didn't like, you know, when I said, oh, I'm like, oh, like that's fucking crazy or whatever.
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And then I was like, okay, I can, you know, make sure I don't say that again.
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I might say, like slip up and say it another time or two, but also he wound up being like, yeah, I really appreciate that you didn't continue to do that.
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Because I respected the fact that he didn't appreciate that.
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If you're not going to follow someone's respectful lines, then it's just disrespect for anybody.
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I'm just going to move it on just for the sake of time.
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bogotan bogota it's a bit of a harder one i don't know you can just say i don't know that's
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fine what country is lima in peru well done what country is santiago in chile what country is
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tijuana in uh mexico you are correct what country is baja california in
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oh california is that right what country is it in mexico
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you are correct what country is shanghai in china country is roman uh italy what country
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is barcelona in spain paris europe you can just do i'll do split uh fix the split tiffany
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uh tokyo uh japan delhi india baghdad iran cairo egypt vienna uh sausages
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i'm kidding um vienna is like i can't fucking think beyond that huh
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uh brussels uh brussels isn't oh my god i can't think i was supposed to go there
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I know the name I just can't I can't think right now
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berlin uh berlin is in i don't know europe athens greece bali
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asia country what country is it asia that's continent oh what country is bali in um i don't
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know okay beijing china istanbul uh middle east somewhere middle east the country okay uh budapest
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i don't know baghdad did i already say that you already said that uh dublin
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uh europe are europe no harland yeah milan italy manila manila yeah oh uh philippines yep
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amsterdam um i just talked about it the um what the fuck is it called i don't i don't remember
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the netherlands oslo what oslo uh oh i know that oh fuck i can't think i'll give you a hint
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uh the the soccer player that one of the girls referenced earlier is on the team
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holland holland that's holland no no no that's the last thing no
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erling erling what is it erling holland what team is he on i don't know okay warsaw
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i fucking know this you got this i just i can't think right now i'm like totally spazzing out
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madrid spain london europe stockholm uh wait london europe no no i'm sorry what did you say
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england uh scoot into the table a little bit and pull your address down uh kiev
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i know this but i can't remember i know this but i can't remember what language do people speak in
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mexico spanish if you pass the person in second place what place are you in the first place
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where did the attack on pearl harbor take place
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uh japan japan yep yeah uh wait no sorry you it's the u.s we're in the u.s
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sometimes i just say yeah just to throw people off what country is the eiffel tower in uh paris
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What country did the Vietnam War happen in?
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77 plus 33 for cat into the microphone 110 how many world wars were there starting with you two
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all right so the next question i'm gonna ask um for a decade so when i'm asking for a decade
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i'm looking for 1930s 1850s 1770s tell me the decade what decade was world war one
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going around i think the 1910s 1910s next i don't even remember the question
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what was the question again what decade was world war one
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1930 1930 1800 18 uh that's a century but good job thank you early 1900s i think 1920s 30s
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okay 1960s 1970s 1960s 70s okay uh 1940s 40s 1930s next 1940s next next next 1940s
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1940s all right uh who here can name three kardashians anybody okay go for it
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Kylie, Kendall, and do you want me to name the dad, too?
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I think there's just like two, three more, and then we're out.
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okay uh has anyone here ever gone to abortion nope show of hands uh what percentage of men
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going around the table what percent of men do you do you think are over six feet i know it's
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really low probably under 10 sure 30 percent yeah just throw out a guess 40 40 15 next 20
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five five percent one hundred percent less than one percent i'd say less than one percent
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yeah do men suck sometimes are men trash sometimes do you hate men not really
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are you a misandrist not really do you hate men
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some of them no like general general yeah no are men trash they can be but like in general
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there's obviously like trashy men out there no one's gonna dispute that no do men suck
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No, okay, would you prefer to live in the world without men? No, would you prefer to live in the world without men? No
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Do we need men I think so for certain jobs. Oh, okay, it's below the threshold disregard it
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uh perhaps this might be the final one is it gay for a man to date a trans woman
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i think so okay w based and red-pilled canadian i feel like they could be by i feel like they could
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be by yeah no i don't think they're gay but they're not straight yeah they're not straight
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definitely meeker straight straight it wait if uh is it so it's a trans he's straight yeah
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even if they got this girl's if they have boobs if they have boobs if a man has boobs it's a girl
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so then if a guy's dating them then it's i'm a little chubby right now i got boobs am i a woman
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no you don't i would be able to see him you don't have a cups b cups c cups d cups nothing uh okay
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uh thanks for having us appreciate it guys appreciate it it was a fun show thank you guys
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for coming uh well hold on i gotta do the outro but yes we're pretty much uh done so okay
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wait hold on let me just make sure i'm not missing any chats okay i think we're good
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i actually do have one really super quick question if i can okay what is it why did
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you make us take all of our shoes off i never got an answer for that
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uh so i mean there's a couple reasons i mean um ocd asian household we yeah it's like a
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cleanliness thing a little bit we have um carpets so the carpets will get dirty and shit
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sunday 5 p.m pacific another dating talk oh episode 304 episode 304 304 so that's going to
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be an entire every single girl on that panel is going to be an of chick or like sex work or
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whatever episode 304 it's going to be a big one we've got some big returning guests a couple
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fresh faces so episode 304 you won't want to miss it sunday 5 p.m pacific any girls who want to be
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on the show dm at whatever on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara oh sevens in the chat
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oh sevens in the chat uh good night guys and we will see you next time good night did anybody
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lie okay we're wrapped did anybody lie about their body count do you want to share your body count is
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it done uh here real quick pull up rabe pull up rabe i have to say thank you rabe appreciate it
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I don't want to say that but I want to say something else