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00:00:00.000 Thank you.

00:00:30.000 welcome to the whatever dating talk podcast where we try to make make sense of the modern dating

00:00:46.900 hellscape i'm your host brian atlas we're going to just jump right in here sorry that we're a

00:01:00.000 All right. You're from, like, grew up in Chicago?

00:01:04.080 Yeah, I'm born and raised in Chicago.

00:01:05.800 Okay, how long have you been doing?

00:01:06.700 Well, I mean, specifically, like, Bridgeview or, like, Oak Lawn. Yeah.

00:01:11.200 How long have you been doing OF for?

00:01:13.060 Like, three years.

00:01:13.980 Wait, this is, I'm, my OCD is already triggering.

00:01:17.400 Lexi, one, can you, the, your, your seating pad, can you turn it 180 degrees?

00:01:26.500 What do you mean?

00:01:26.920 you see how the tag is wow you fucked that up damn bro holy shit

00:01:32.880 oh

00:01:36.600 the the tag was sticking out boys i had to fucking fix it i i think i fixed it maybe scoot your

00:01:47.280 chair all right off to a good start boys all right uh what about you hi i'm brie nightwood

00:01:53.880 I'm an entrepreneur, content creator, and musician from Las Vegas.

00:01:59.920 I also have a degree in forensic neuropsychology.

00:02:03.480 Age?

00:02:04.580 26.

00:02:06.640 26?

00:02:07.560 Yeah.

00:02:07.840 Okay.

00:02:08.540 You said you have a degree in forensic neuropsychology?

00:02:11.900 Correct.

00:02:13.140 Bachelor's?

00:02:14.140 Bachelor's of science, yes.

00:02:15.360 Okay.

00:02:18.160 Why don't you explain to the viewers and the other panelists what that is?

00:02:21.600 so basically it's like a mixture of law and neuropsychology so let's just say like

00:02:27.560 a guy killed his wife or something um and they're like he's on trial they'd bring me in and like i

00:02:35.660 would determine if he is criminally insane and with their neuroscience part i could scan like

00:02:41.820 the gray matter in his brain to see if maybe it indicated schizophrenia and that could you know

00:02:46.500 indicate that he is actually criminally insane and go to a psych ward rather than like prison

00:02:51.120 for life yeah okay how recently did you graduate um oh gosh it was back like in the pandemic at

00:02:59.600 the same time my like of was blowing up and i was actually going to start my phd um but i decided

00:03:05.800 to follow the money because school is always there but like you know just gotta chase that

00:03:09.280 money first build my life so 2022 23 20 20-ish yeah 20 20-ish is when you graduated correct

00:03:17.700 okay um are you in terms of what you learned in terms of your degree are you using that at all

00:03:25.100 for your work or yeah um definitely like the psychology tactics that really helps with sales

00:03:30.500 in a way like with OF and just business in general kind of um that did give me an edge with it but

00:03:36.980 have you had a job in concurrence with your OnlyFans um related to your education I mean not

00:03:45.660 with my education like on paper like no but i've used the skills that's what i mean yeah all right

00:03:52.080 uh i guess one question on this can you relate to us uh your one big takeaway from your program

00:04:00.540 oh gosh um i guess everyone has a little bit of something wrong with them in a way um it's always

00:04:07.780 a bad thing but um but we're all a little i don't know we all have our quirks okay i don't know um

00:04:15.380 And you, question, did you take out student loans for?

00:04:20.100 I was fortunate enough to have my tuition covered with scholarships, but living expenses were crazy.

00:04:27.540 Oh, my gosh.

00:04:28.400 But that's why I kind of, like, started off and, like, streaming in the first place.

00:04:32.720 And I didn't expect that to, like, blow up like it did.

00:04:35.060 But, yeah, it all worked out, I guess.

00:04:41.220 So that's your one takeaway?

00:04:44.160 way i mean i guess we all have something a little crazy about us i mean i can tell you this i didn't

00:04:50.640 go to university i dropped out of college and i don't have a degree in forensic psychology

00:04:56.260 i could tell you that like well i could tell you i mean all right um okay uh did you go to college

00:05:05.300 or any college at all lexi okay what about you hi i'm jenny i am 21 um just moved here from

00:05:13.740 chicago to san diego but i was born and raised in florida um i am a adult entertainer in the

00:05:22.820 stripping industry um stripping industry that's i haven't heard that one but that's the first

00:05:29.340 well i mean i guess it is an industry but well how long you've been stripping um about

00:05:36.540 three years now i would probably say two and a half more so but yeah since i was 18

00:05:43.360 okay any college or anything like that no just high school um and uh how often do you work

00:05:53.740 in terms of the stripping um well weekends for sure but i do have lucky days on wednesdays and

00:06:04.220 thursdays so okay what about you hi i'm kaylee chico i'm 23 and i have my own art brand so i

00:06:13.500 would say like i'm an entrepreneur um i've built my own brand and my business through my art and

00:06:19.640 i do in vending like in-person vending markets and then i also sell on my shopify and then i

00:06:26.140 graduated from high school okay and you do body modification yes um i also do human suspension

00:06:34.600 Show it again, the split tone.

00:06:37.460 Oh, wow, okay.

00:06:38.700 And then I do human suspension, too, so I hang, like, they pierce my back, and I hang from my back, and I just...

00:06:47.880 Unmute the audio, Nathan?

00:06:49.560 I just glide, so, yeah.

00:06:51.880 You glide.

00:06:52.880 Yeah.

00:06:54.180 This video blew up that this guy took of me, the host.

00:06:58.420 It blew up on Facebook, and everyone was like, she's a witch without her broomstick.

00:07:03.960 do you do of or not no no no sex work no i've been offered but i haven't taken it okay

00:07:11.260 nathan were you able to get the the kick thing working okay all right uh what about you hi i'm

00:07:19.600 lilyana i'm 30 and i sell stuff on tiktok live stream and then i have a bachelor's in studio

00:07:25.320 arts and i almost finished my teaching credential but low-key my current job pays a lot more

00:07:29.900 the tiktok yeah okay i might finish it at some point but i like making money i live in la

00:07:36.560 and uh where are you from again i'm from an hour like east of la the inland empire

00:07:42.820 okay but i live in uh hollywood gotcha what about you i'm alexis xj um i'm from upper michigan i'm

00:07:50.340 25 i'm a welder and i do only fans and i sell artwork and restore old vehicles

00:07:58.680 uh and you have you you live on a farm and you have ducks or yeah ducks and chickens

00:08:06.340 okay uh and you refer you refer to your ducks as baggage oh yeah yeah because yeah you don't

00:08:16.340 have kids though no but those are your kids your ducks they are how many ducks do you have

00:08:21.240 um i think my waterfowl probably like 60 of them and i have chickens and turkeys and

00:08:27.160 do they all have names all 60 of your waterfowl yeah

00:08:31.440 they're all named after star wars characters so padme anakin

00:08:38.440 darth vader okay jar jar how long you've been doing of for um i began in 2022 oh and i do have

00:08:46.760 a degree in welding in welding okay and you went to like a trade school for that or it's a

00:08:52.560 traditional college with like a trade wing okay yeah um interesting i don't know if we've had a

00:08:59.140 welder on the show before um and are you uh do you create welding content um i've filmed my welds

00:09:08.900 back in the past no one really watched it no one cared no all right yeah don't you have to wear

00:09:15.160 like a protective mask so you don't go blind when you're welding right yeah because it causes eye

00:09:20.220 damage yeah but can it still cause even with the mask can it still cause some no you're like fully

00:09:27.360 protected basically yeah if you like wear a shirt like this though you'll burn your breasts like

00:09:32.200 it gives you a sunburn you'll get a sunburn that's wild okay have you ever had a welding accident

00:09:37.460 um i mean i have burns on my chest but okay nothing crazy would you ever do underwater welding

00:09:44.920 i would i never have i did there was one accident when i was in school my classmate cut the ends of

00:09:49.820 his fingers off on the metal muncher in front of me what didn't happen to me i watched this

00:09:53.780 nobody's gonna like three people watching are gonna know this uh i watched this video about

00:09:59.400 delta p do you know do you know about that i mean a lot of it's not just welders underwater

00:10:06.180 welders who would experience this but pretty terrifying shit anybody in the chat knows about

00:10:10.160 delta p that is terrifying and a lot of like underwater welders will anyways whatever uh

00:10:15.760 totally irrelevant. Um, what about you? I'm Michaela. I'm 28 and I'm currently a graduate

00:10:22.900 student at CSUN and I also teach intro GE classes. I mentor teenagers as a caregiver

00:10:31.000 and I'm a teaching assistant. All right. Uh, what about you? I'm Nicole. I am 34 years old

00:10:39.760 and i'm from kansas city um i'm a stay-at-home mom and i have a degree in spanish but

00:10:46.700 all right what about you i'm alissa i'm 33 years old i'm from ohio and i am a server

00:10:58.140 any college or anything like that i went to college for a really short time

00:11:03.120 okay did you say server or surfer i'm a server oh okay wait where do you live i live in ohio

00:11:11.920 you think in ohio uh no i was like you know maybe she works here like part time she surfs up goes

00:11:19.900 back home where are you from again chicago well born and raised indiana what is she i think isn't

00:11:26.080 ohio landlocked completely like yeah in chicago you have like the the lady you don't know if she

00:11:33.480 makes good money where she could just be like i'm gonna go on a surfing trip yeah i could

00:11:37.240 ohio and then fly back every day yeah oh maybe with if there's weight in 20 years maybe there

00:11:44.700 will be wave parks everywhere uh okay cool so we uh roxy thank you for the gifted subs appreciate

00:11:51.640 it. Kaibaka, thank you for the resub. Okay. We are going to go around the table once more. What's

00:11:57.960 your current relationship status? Me? I'm single. Yeah. And then also tell us how long you've been

00:12:05.340 single and tell us the longest relationship you've ever been in. Okay. Well, the last relationship I

00:12:10.600 was in was the longest relationship I've ever been in. It was like three years, but we were

00:12:14.600 on and off. So it was like three years consecutively, you know? Okay. Yeah. I've been

00:12:20.540 single for like a year. You broke up with who? I broke up with him and I broke up with him after

00:12:26.220 I started doing OF. We started doing OF together I guess and well he like convinced me to do it

00:12:33.220 and then a year later he was just like taking a lot of money from me and I was like paying for

00:12:38.840 rent, groceries, everything and yeah so I don't know I just broke up with him. I was like no

00:12:43.260 can't do this anymore. Okay. All right. What about you? I am in an open relationship. My longest

00:12:51.280 relationship was about six or seven years. It was my high school sweetheart. Yeah. Okay.

00:12:58.620 How long have you been in the current relationship? Two years. And it's an open

00:13:04.320 relationship? Correct. Open on both ends? Yes. Okay. And which one of you gets more action?

00:13:13.260 um i don't know we like to kind of um make it equal like even it out it's like you get one i

00:13:18.780 get one just keep it kind of fair for everyone okay uh do you guys also do like engage in

00:13:26.780 uh swinging or threesomes foursomes we've done threesomes foursomes uh mainly for content yeah

00:13:34.820 of content um yeah we're still like we kind of want to um just take it slow with the open part

00:13:42.220 though because i have um i have endometriosis i don't know if you know what that is but it's just

00:13:46.400 like sometimes like sex can be hard in general so and like my health is i'm very health conscious so

00:13:51.720 it's like i need to make sure like if we're gonna you know be opening things up and bringing someone

00:13:56.140 in that everyone is tested and you know just don't there's a lot of cooties out there have you ever

00:14:02.420 participated in any group sex orgy sex club that sort of thing oh my gosh i was in an orgy with

00:14:10.160 one of like hugh hefner's ex-wives once that was crazy and um they're really it was for like a

00:14:17.260 content party that was probably the craziest experience but um i didn't really like um do

00:14:22.360 much i was more like a side character in it i was kind of just like yeah like kind of um observing

00:14:27.340 it okay what about you um i'm single recently single um our relationship ended early february

00:14:35.600 um we hit the three month mark and that's where it broke but um my longest relationship was about

00:14:43.200 like a year but i don't even think it's really a year because it was kind of on and off so okay

00:14:50.880 uh so you've been single for about a month yeah uh has it been on and off with a three-month guy

00:14:58.940 oh no the old relationship before him yeah but the one that ended a month ago is three months

00:15:05.780 right yeah yeah when's the last time you saw him um like january okay so it was a clean break

00:15:17.860 yeah you're not like well we're broken up but still sleeping together type yeah no we're

00:15:24.520 he's in san fran and i'm in san diego so eight hours away it's kind of like hard to see him

00:15:30.420 every day if i'm is he a tech bro um he's mechanic mechanic okay so would you fly to see him

00:15:38.700 yeah but he would pay for my flights so i never is a mechanic yeah he's like a high-end mechanic

00:15:44.940 or he works at a like ford dealership like he just like in the not like a ford dealership but

00:15:54.180 Does he own his own business or he's employed?

00:15:57.780 He's employed.

00:15:58.780 How old is he?

00:16:00.300 23 now.

00:16:01.700 You make more money than him, don't you?

00:16:05.420 So why is he flying you out?

00:16:08.780 Because.

00:16:09.840 Shouldn't you be a fucking stripper to make a fuck ton of money, right?

00:16:13.020 Because he offered and I'm going to take it.

00:16:17.160 Because he offered?

00:16:18.860 Yeah.

00:16:20.020 But like, okay, I mean, you don't have to reveal your earnings or whatever.

00:16:22.540 But, like, what's, like, a good night?

00:16:25.920 You'll make a couple thousand?

00:16:27.960 A thousand?

00:16:29.340 Like, a thousand or more, yeah.

00:16:31.480 That's a good night to me.

00:16:33.240 And then you monetize in other ways.

00:16:34.820 So, like, what?

00:16:35.320 You're making six figures a year?

00:16:44.400 I don't know.

00:16:45.140 Shit, maybe you should pay for the flights.

00:16:47.320 Should have.

00:16:47.820 Maybe that's why it didn't work.

00:16:49.460 It's like, damn, she's making more than me, and why am I paying?

00:16:52.540 Well, when I was dating him, I stopped dancing for him, and I got a regular 9-to-5 for him.

00:17:02.260 But it was a long-distance relationship.

00:17:07.700 I really liked him.

00:17:10.720 Okay.

00:17:12.080 All right.

00:17:12.980 Well, here's a question really quick, and we'll get back to the relationship status.

00:17:17.720 Let me present a hypothetical scenario.

00:17:20.000 You have a 23-year-old woman dating a 23-year-old man.

00:17:26.540 She doesn't even have to be a sex worker.

00:17:29.620 But let's say he's paycheck to paycheck.

00:17:34.020 And let's say they even earn the same amount of money.

00:17:36.320 I don't know.

00:17:36.740 They make $25 an hour.

00:17:39.680 He's paycheck to paycheck.

00:17:41.860 She has $70,000 worth of savings.

00:17:44.340 should he do you think the guy in that situation should be let's say they've been together for a

00:17:51.960 year right do you think he should be paying for shit in the relationship

00:17:57.380 yeah yes yeah even though you got 70k in savings it doesn't matter what if i had a kid and they

00:18:08.140 need to do like a c-section and i paid for that with all my savings so that i can have a kid with

00:18:12.180 you. Well, what if he, what if he had cancer and he needed fucking healthcare? So in the hypothetical

00:18:19.040 I presented, there was not a granting that you're like pregnant or you have a kid. You're both

00:18:24.380 childless. Yeah. But I just think that a guy should pay for anything at the end of the day,

00:18:28.380 because I'm going to be having a kid with you and I need to know that you're going to be there for

00:18:31.640 me and provide for us. So the guy should pay even like you probably are high earner. You have a big

00:18:36.520 following uh change split you're a high earner you have a big following um i don't know you do

00:18:44.600 you make like a million dollars a year or more less you make less you make mid six figures though

00:18:51.480 right um well every year is different i've been doing it for three years so sometimes like it's

00:18:57.560 just like really really bad it's like oh man what am i doing okay um so your argument is men should

00:19:05.560 pay because maybe one day I will be pregnant yeah how many men have you dated um I've dated

00:19:13.500 like a handful of guys seriously when I say date I mean like you went out to dinner once with a guy

00:19:20.620 okay so dating as in like not having sexual relationships I mean you could but

00:19:26.160 basically when I say date I don't mean like this is your long-term boyfriend I mean

00:19:30.560 a guy who you entertained, you know, you went out to dinner once. I would count that. I'm asking

00:19:38.120 how many times, how many different men? Um, probably at least 15, 15. How many children

00:19:44.020 do you have? None. Zero. No. So, okay. Men should pay for dates because what if I did get pregnant

00:19:51.360 on the first date on the first, but it's like, I don't understand this argument that, uh, one day

00:19:57.200 down the road you probably don't even well i mean like a man is like asking to be in a relationship

00:20:01.280 and so he should provide for that woman what if the woman's asking to be in the relationship

00:20:04.820 well i mean i feel like women are agreeing men are like really you know asking for it well that

00:20:10.400 would be secondary but um are you on birth control no well when you're dating a guy are you on birth

00:20:18.080 control um i just got off of birth control so you were on birth control yeah so then how about this

00:20:25.040 here's a proposition if the woman's on birth control you should not pay for the date

00:20:29.360 because she can't have a kid she can't have a kid but there's always a one percent chance

00:20:36.300 it's never like a hundred percent so while we double down if the man has a vasectomy

00:20:42.000 uh and or he uh he wears a condom the woman pays for the entire thing

00:20:50.860 so not just go 50 50 on the date you know split the bill

00:20:54.460 the woman pays the entire bill yeah well i guess it's just like my preference like i prefer a man

00:21:02.040 to pay for everything that's like my preference you know yeah you prefer the man to pay for

00:21:07.380 everything yes why because i feel like i deserve that why do you deserve that because i deserve to

00:21:13.360 have a good life why do you i want to have kids so if a man can't provide me kids i wouldn't date

00:21:18.360 him in the first place why do you feel like you can't provide for yourself like pay for your own

00:21:23.220 things for myself so why don't you I do but most of the time you want the man to know if I date a

00:21:28.800 man I want him to provide for me so even if they do provide for you if you are dating a man so you

00:21:33.640 go on a first date so right off the bat you consider that he should pay off right off the

00:21:37.740 bat yes even though he knows nothing about you you guys are just getting to know each other

00:21:41.420 yeah because he has to get to know me and he has to um but you have to get to know him too if he

00:21:46.760 wants to do 50 50 we can but that would be the last time i see him that's crazy yeah i feel like

00:21:53.500 it's it's interesting because i only date girls like at this point and it's interesting because

00:21:57.860 i think like some people do that but then it's usually like who makes more but i see your

00:22:02.620 perspective yeah but it's like i do prefer to date somebody that like makes as much money as me

00:22:07.940 because i've dated like a broke mask and like they're a very kind person but i don't want to

00:22:12.460 be doing that so i i feel the vibe i've dated a lot of broke guys and i've also the guy that i'm

00:22:18.260 with right now it's i do not expect him to pay for my dinner because he works his ass off for

00:22:23.540 his money and i am not going to go out of my way to say you need to put your all but if he doesn't

00:22:29.220 have enough money to go on a date then why did he ask he does have enough money to go on a date

00:22:33.120 but why would you think that you are like why do you think that he owes you that because i feel

00:22:38.340 he doesn't know you so so it's like why wouldn't you put yourself why wouldn't you put yourself

00:22:43.620 out there and say oh well i make this money and i know you make this money but we could both split

00:22:49.380 the bill because we don't we don't know each other yet just yeah we're still getting to know

00:22:53.280 each other you don't owe me anything i feel like people with the same mindset just need to like

00:22:57.920 find each other yeah yeah but so why why you said you deserve a good life right like i don't want

00:23:07.380 to just waste my life with a guy that doesn't want to have kids. Cause I want to have kids here,

00:23:11.060 but okay. Do men deserve a good life? Yeah. But so here's your argument. I deserve a good life.

00:23:18.200 Ergo men should pay for dates. Yeah. Cause that's the life that I want. But if the logic is I deserve

00:23:25.540 a good life, therefore other person who I'm dating should pay for dates that would have to equally

00:23:30.680 apply to men if men deserve a good life. So you're going to have to make a specific argument as to

00:23:35.220 why you or women specifically deserve to have their shit paid for. So do you see him paying

00:23:44.080 for the day as an investment in your potential future relationship? Yeah. Well, I'd like my

00:23:48.680 question answered first before other people, uh, divert away from my question. Go ahead.

00:23:54.120 I'm not sure if I understand the question. I'm looking for, so you're just saying,

00:23:58.900 I'm looking for more of an argument. I mean, I could just repeat what I said again.

00:24:02.180 you said i deserve a good life therefore men should pay okay i deserve a good life should women pay

00:24:09.600 for me if that's what you want if okay if that's what i want yeah if that's what would make you

00:24:14.460 happy in your life then that's the decisions that you have to make in your life but i think you're

00:24:17.960 gonna need further justification than simply i deserve a good life yeah why specifically do you

00:24:22.820 or women uh why do they deserve to or are they entitled to a man paying for shit well i guess

00:24:30.920 like it's just like your preference you know like uh some women like to go 50 50 some women

00:24:35.300 like a man to provide everything and i just uh you know i think you have to make the decisions

00:24:39.820 based on what you want in your life okay but um

00:24:43.240 like if a guy can't pay for the first date then i wouldn't see him or i wouldn't go on that date

00:24:51.080 but how do you know he can't pay for it if i ask him you know where are we going and he says

00:24:55.500 mcdonald's or i can't i can't take you anywhere or you can come over i'm not going

00:24:59.940 but that's different from already being at the restaurant and being hey you want to split the

00:25:04.640 bell are you going to play yeah if he if he asked me to meet him at a restaurant we go there and he

00:25:08.980 asked me to go 50 50 that's the last time i'm seeing him because why did you ask me to come

00:25:14.060 somewhere nice and then now i have to pay for it well now you're hold on because you can afford

00:25:18.200 hold on you're smuggling in something that wasn't even asserted now you're adding this this other

00:25:22.860 layer to it of oh well if you're going to invite me to a luxury restaurant uh like that puts me in

00:25:29.760 like a predicament where i assume you could afford it technically but if you were to say

00:25:34.460 invite a college student to like a i don't know an example of a super expensive restaurant that

00:25:42.380 would be to some degree inconsiderate but let's assume it's just like i don't know mid mid-tier

00:25:47.820 place chili's so okay so you are desirous of traditional gender roles do you deserve

00:25:59.120 traditional gender roles um i think like what do you mean me personally or like women in general

00:26:05.820 uh well let's start with you and then we can get to women in general okay well me personally i think

00:26:12.860 that i make enough to provide for myself and so i don't really need to like um surrender the luxury

00:26:19.060 that i have like which is like my peace of mind my own you know comfort that i can pay for my bills

00:26:23.980 and anything like that like if i date a man and i want like traditional gender roles like he's

00:26:29.000 probably gonna want me to not do this kind of line of work right not um not work at all probably be

00:26:34.280 home cook clean etc etc i would be okay with that didn't you just say that some months you don't

00:26:40.360 even know why you're doing only fans so therefore you can't always provide for yourself i do always

00:26:46.920 provide for myself so even if you don't have the money you're providing for yourself yeah i've been

00:26:50.820 single for a year this entire year that i've been single never had any issues ever car note paid

00:26:57.300 bills paid but you literally just said you struggle some months where yeah that's just like where i'm

00:27:03.060 like budgeting and you know i think that's normal i think you just have to make um good financial

00:27:07.820 decisions so during that time when you're budgeting do you think that the man should still pay for

00:27:11.880 your dinner 100 you shouldn't split even if i'm struggling i'm probably not worried about a man

00:27:16.920 i'm worried about getting my money up okay i still i still didn't really get an answer to my question

00:27:23.120 is. Uh, so, uh, why do you deserve that? Um, well, I just feel like I like built this life

00:27:30.360 that I have for myself already and I would want someone that can add to it and not take away from

00:27:35.440 it or make me have to go less or, um, feel less in my day-to-day life just because he doesn't

00:27:41.420 make as much money as me or he's not in the same place where I am. Okay. But so you currently are

00:27:48.520 single. So in terms of, and you pay for your own food, you pay your own rent. So if a guy came in

00:27:57.340 and you guys were equitably contributing to the finances of the household, which I'm assuming is

00:28:03.500 even a year down the road, perhaps even longer before you'd even consider moving in. I mean,

00:28:09.620 some people move in on shorter timelines, but it wouldn't be, it would actually be

00:28:16.800 an improvement in your lifestyle arguably to go from he pays everything and you pay nothing

00:28:26.320 versus your current position which is you're paying entirely for your own rent your own food

00:28:31.200 your own bills everything so I don't understand like let's say you were like let's say you

00:28:37.080 encountered a guy who wants to go 50 50 that's that's a no-go though for you correct so it's

00:28:43.020 like hey babe let's move in together but we're both going to equally contribute to the rent

00:28:46.740 no good that's not so if i'm like just dating a guy i would expect him to like want his financials

00:28:54.520 to be together as well like he wants to be financially stable he wants to you know succeed

00:28:59.600 in life he wants great things for himself that's what i would want in a man yeah let's assume he

00:29:03.880 would pay for his own bills his own things and everything i would pay for my own things as well

00:29:07.960 and so you know when we do like move in together then he would take over paying bills because he

00:29:14.020 knows how to pay bills you don't know how to pay bills well if he wants like to have like a two

00:29:18.380 three bedroom house with a wife and kids then he's gonna pay for it uh well okay that might make

00:29:25.440 sense when you start having kids so you're gonna stop working when you have kids well I mean yeah

00:29:32.540 I mean that's like kind of like what would happen right okay but so you're you're 22 when do you

00:29:38.600 want to have your first kid um I would want to have my first kid when I'm financially stable and

00:29:43.560 i have a husband when you're financially stable yeah when like so you know so conceivably let's

00:29:52.440 say you meet the perfect guy you could be ready to have kids in six months yeah okay

00:30:00.440 i'm okay um hmm well then i guess the other question is um do you think that a guy providing

00:30:11.100 in that way as a traditional gender role dynamic like providing like for yeah it's traditional

00:30:17.340 everything yes it's traditional right yes are you a traditional woman um well not exactly so to speak

00:30:23.960 like because of my line of work yeah okay so you're not traditional but you deserve traditional

00:30:32.420 well everyone has a preference you know some guys have a lot of

00:30:37.200 high body count but they still want to date a virgin and there's actually not nothing wrong

00:30:42.640 with that it's just a preference you know yeah i think that's that would be a little different

00:30:48.180 a bit different of a scenario but um so in terms of you though so you are a sex worker um you do

00:30:56.100 only fans do you do boy girl content um no have you ever done boy girl content yeah when me and

00:31:01.520 my ex first started doing uh of then we started doing well basically everything is it still up

00:31:07.060 on your of no okay but you did distribute boy girl content yeah have you done boy girl content

00:31:15.220 with any other men no just him yeah okay uh have you done any mainstream content um what does that

00:31:24.540 mean mainstream porn um no okay um all right so uh look being a sex worker

00:31:33.600 it's not really a traditional profession um in the sense of being a traditional woman

00:31:42.540 you're looking for a guy to be traditional do those sort of chivalrous things right you want

00:31:46.840 a guy to be chivalrous but you are not through your own conduct your own profession you are not

00:31:54.260 doing uh moving through life in such a way as to inspire that traditional or maybe not inspire is

00:32:01.560 not the right word. Ultimately, you're just not deserving of it. Now you might still get it.

00:32:06.300 There's a lot of men, uh, who are simps. There's a lot of men who look, you're an attractive girl.

00:32:12.000 I'm sure a lot of guys, they'll take you to those restaurants and they'll pay and they'll do all

00:32:16.320 this shit. So I don't, it's not a doubt in my mind that you'll be able to find guys who

00:32:22.860 are willing to do that. I'm having like a, perhaps a, a bird's eye view conversation.

00:32:31.040 I'm looking at the chessboard of dating dynamics and I'm like, okay, as a woman, if you want a guy

00:32:37.680 to be chivalrous, to protect, to provide, to pay for dates, to do all, you know, uh, open the car

00:32:43.880 door, observe the sidewalk rule. I believe then that women just, women have to hold up their end

00:32:51.620 of the contract, the social contract. And I don't get the impression that women are. Um, but you

00:32:59.060 So basically, you want to be modern women, but you want men to be trad.

00:33:05.620 Women get to be modern.

00:33:07.120 Women get to pretty much throw any sort of even hint of traditionality completely away.

00:33:15.060 You get to forsake it completely.

00:33:16.620 Meanwhile, in terms of what you want men to do, you might as well be 1950s bachelorettes.

00:33:23.420 Well, I mean, I think men and women are both modern.

00:33:27.640 like you know guys like they're always like they're gonna have like social media they're

00:33:32.380 they're always gonna have like some kind of history nobody's a virgin nowadays everybody

00:33:36.260 has a past so I think we should just grow up and if you want to have that kind of life together

00:33:41.100 then it's like it's an achievable thing you said guys have social media what do you mean by that

00:33:47.240 well I mean like guys like I've seen guys do thirst like traps you know like showing off their

00:33:52.620 abs, like looking at themselves in the mirror, their, their abs. Oh, their abs. They must be

00:33:59.160 gay then. You know, I've like, I've seen guys like with tripods at the gym, like just cause

00:34:05.480 you don't have an OF doesn't mean like you're not, you know, that traditional. I'm not going

00:34:09.520 to dispute that there's definitely men who do that. There's, I mean, uh, that's fucking stupid

00:34:15.160 and they shouldn't be doing that but um i i would say the the proportion of men who are uh getting

00:34:25.100 validation through social media pales massively in comparison to uh women who are on social media

00:34:31.880 for the sake of yeah validation attention well even if uh men don't contribute to like you know

00:34:37.880 social media they still consume it and they're like the consumer like they're the like people

00:34:43.880 that yeah exactly uh well yeah i mean i don't i definitely this this criticism isn't exclusively

00:34:51.040 directed at women i think men in a lot of ways have things that they need to improve on and

00:34:56.740 correct on uh they shouldn't be like following a bunch although i i'm curious what an of girl

00:35:02.760 thinks about this but uh i don't think men should be following a bunch of ig thoughts and ig models

00:35:09.540 they shouldn't be following any women

00:35:11.280 they shouldn't

00:35:13.900 be like liking their photos and

00:35:15.680 gooning over their fucking

00:35:16.820 thirst trap bikini pics on Instagram

00:35:19.580 that's fucking lame as a guy

00:35:21.540 so

00:35:23.360 yeah I don't know hold on we have a TTS

00:35:25.800 coming in just came in

00:35:27.660 based Thor thank you based Thor donated

00:35:29.840 two hundred dollars

00:35:31.220 why is it always women in cheetah print

00:35:33.860 outfits that has the most to say

00:35:35.960 and entitled is fuck

00:35:37.280 I would smack the fuck out of each time against animal abuse.

00:35:41.340 At least way less than the animal SMA.

00:35:44.400 Do you want to respond to base, Thor?

00:35:47.480 Smack me, we're...

00:35:50.140 Okay.

00:35:55.940 Also, I do think men, and women too,

00:36:00.180 virgin is still very much a thing for a lot of people.

00:36:03.820 That's not something that's vanished.

00:36:06.180 Actually, I think there's a bit more male virgins than female virgins.

00:36:11.680 I can counter on that.

00:36:13.520 What's that?

00:36:14.040 From someone that I've dated, I'm not going to say which boyfriend it was

00:36:17.060 because I don't need that on the internet.

00:36:19.320 It's theirs.

00:36:20.240 But I have taken someone's virginity,

00:36:22.460 and they wanted to do the traditional way until I was in love with someone.

00:36:25.820 So, yeah, those guys are still out there.

00:36:27.900 They do exist.

00:36:28.540 Yeah, but, yeah, I don't know.

00:36:35.280 Does seem like we're holding men to this traditional standard, but women are really not holding up their end of the deal.

00:36:46.320 Some women are, just to be clear.

00:36:47.780 I'm not saying all women.

00:36:48.640 But it seems to me like, look, if you're a sex worker, just, hey, go 50-50.

00:36:59.440 No.

00:37:01.700 No.

00:37:02.180 if I'm a sex worker I will do what I have to do to pay my rent and if someone wants to

00:37:08.880 save a hoe I'm here for the saving that's all I have to say would you post um boy girl content

00:37:15.860 if it saved your rent no no I just wouldn't do that again because I don't think that I have to

00:37:21.700 in order to um make a living you know I haven't posted that kind of like uh content for two years

00:37:27.560 So I just don't think it makes sense for me to go back into doing it if I haven't done it.

00:37:32.720 Someone offered you like $100,000 for a brand deal?

00:37:36.580 I wouldn't do it for the money.

00:37:37.420 You wouldn't do it?

00:37:38.040 No, I wouldn't do it for the money because it's already gone.

00:37:40.480 So why would I put myself back out there like that?

00:37:43.700 It didn't really feel good in the first place.

00:37:45.800 You know, I don't think some people don't like that.

00:37:50.360 You know, some people like it.

00:37:51.400 You have your preferences.

00:37:52.600 Right.

00:37:55.680 Okay, question for you.

00:37:57.560 oh shit i actually just lost it damn it was a good one it was a good one i'll conjure back

00:38:03.920 oh yeah just just to be uh just to be clear uh so i'm not saying that women who are sex workers

00:38:12.980 women who are strippers women who do only fans i'm not saying that you should be mistreated

00:38:17.800 you should still be treated kindly with respect but what you're asking for is something on top

00:38:23.620 which is chivalry so that's men paying for dates men providing men protecting i assume you i don't

00:38:30.440 know what kind of type of guy you want to go for because i mean but like would you want a guy who

00:38:35.520 has a bit more of a masculine expression to him um or do you not care like you'll date a liberal soy

00:38:41.900 boy um i guess it just like depends on who the guy is i don't really have like a preference when

00:38:51.920 it comes to like masculinity okay yeah but in any case you do want a guy to pay all the bills

00:38:59.100 he's gonna have to fully provide um so yeah well if he if he did that then I would you know like

00:39:07.500 take care of him as well I feel like if I like if I'm being taken care of I would take care of

00:39:11.720 my partner as well how so um well if he doesn't want me to do OF I wouldn't do OF anymore as long

00:39:17.520 he's paying for my bills and i don't have to worry about that you know okay it's just like how it

00:39:22.160 would go it would be let's talk about the bills a little bit but like aside from you quitting of

00:39:28.560 you said you'd take care of him how would you take care of him um well just like i guess the

00:39:34.320 traditional way that a man should want to be like taken care of like which is what like cooking for

00:39:38.960 him and um just being there for him like emotionally things like that what about cleaning

00:39:44.900 Yeah, of course, cleaning the house.

00:39:46.440 Yeah, well, I mean, I think that every woman should know how to cook and clean by themselves.

00:39:51.420 Like, you should know how to maintain your own house and clean and cook your own food, like make your own meals.

00:39:58.260 Should she be submissive?

00:40:02.100 Yes, I do believe that.

00:40:03.680 Like, if you're in a traditional relationship, then it should be traditional by, like, all, like...

00:40:09.240 I noticed here on the questionnaire, and normally I save the questionnaire for a little bit later on the show,

00:40:13.140 But for questions one through five, so you agree with the following four statements.

00:40:20.020 Men should pay on first dates.

00:40:21.060 Men should provide slash protect.

00:40:22.980 Men should be chivalrous.

00:40:24.620 Husband should be willing to die protecting you.

00:40:28.000 Is everything okay over there?

00:40:30.880 I don't know.

00:40:32.620 um but you for question five or statement five uh i will keep my last name or oh actually no hold

00:40:44.220 on wait you'll take your husband's last name is that correct okay yeah all right well that's how

00:40:50.820 it goes i miss all that okay i thought i thought you had circled it but my eyes deceived me okay

00:40:56.560 um let's see hmm husband should die protecting you um okay hmm yeah still a sex worker sorry

00:41:13.120 sorry doesn't change anything doesn't change anything look just date a nice uh guy who goes

00:41:20.120 50 50 um I don't know I still have my preference and like my dad he's like a traditional man you

00:41:26.120 know he's like always taking care of like everything he's like kind of like instilled

00:41:29.620 that into me like you don't need to be the richest man in order to provide for a woman you just like

00:41:34.440 you need to be uh content well i mean i could be wrong but my initial read on you is you have

00:41:40.240 expensive taste um i don't really care about like living like luxuriously lavishly like i don't care

00:41:47.500 what car you drive i don't care what brand like my kid's backpack is like we can go to walmart i

00:41:53.600 don't care i will shop at walmart you just said excuse me you just said that if he took you to

00:41:58.460 mcdonald's you'd be upset well i mean like on a first date that's kind of crazy a first date

00:42:03.540 at mcdonald's i will go to mcdonald's on like uh another date you know a casual date after we've

00:42:10.000 already been seeing each other do you have uh do you have an expensive bag no uh my bag is uh 30

00:42:17.220 bucks from urban outfitters well maybe not the one you brought but do you own an expensive bag

00:42:21.700 if i do a man bought it uh how show show us your nails how recent are are those they are about

00:42:32.760 three weeks grown out and they were 60 bucks okay so let's say you're dating a guy and he's like

00:42:38.640 look if i'm gonna provide for everything uh i'm gonna have some authority on certain expenses

00:42:44.440 here in the household you're not gonna get fake nails anymore you okay with that yeah but all

00:42:50.480 right she's fucking got me she's got me then i mean uh still though sex worker still sex worker

00:42:56.260 okay uh so okay ultimately though look and again women who do only fans or strip or sex work

00:43:06.840 not saying they should be mistreated not saying they don't deserve uh well respect question mark

00:43:14.720 but, um, ultimately it's not traditional. Yeah. It's just completely not traditional.

00:43:24.940 Uh, so you might still get it. Maybe there's even a good chance you'll still

00:43:31.380 end up in that sort of dynamic, but do you deserve it? I say no.

00:43:36.840 Well, you know, everyone is entitled to their opinion. So that's the beautiful thing about

00:43:41.800 life. Yeah, but I'm not so interested in just like being entitled to my opinion. I'm actually

00:43:47.460 interested in perhaps having people reassess their own standards. So they're commensurate

00:43:56.820 to what they're offering and also prescriptively advising men, listen,

00:44:03.700 um you're getting a raw deal here a little bit uh because that woman is not holding up her end of

00:44:12.180 the deal so i don't know

00:44:16.820 okay does anybody else want to weigh in on this topic i was just wondering you said so mcdonald

00:44:27.640 to be a no-go like how nice of a first date are you expecting because my husband always thought

00:44:32.460 don't go too high on that first date because that's going to set the expectation for the future

00:44:37.340 and he actually took me somewhere really nice for our first date but his best friend was like dude

00:44:41.740 if you do that like she's going to expect it and it it is not the way that it goes for us but

00:44:46.460 that kind of what standard what level do you expect on that first day as compared to

00:44:51.940 on the norm i guess like um mid mid range and above is good like chilies and above is good

00:44:59.300 do you smoke i do so mcdonald's like getting 40 chicken nuggets fries and smoking in the car

00:45:08.860 wouldn't be a good date to you um it depends like if you're a man no if you're a girl yeah

00:45:15.620 that's a great first date with a girl but like wait you're you're bisexual uh yeah okay um

00:45:23.020 so with the girlies it's okay but with a guy you're like take me to chilies

00:45:27.320 Well, I feel like men should be providers, and I feel like women, like, I'm just, like, I guess, like, emotionally more sensitive to, like, you know, we are both, like, in it together.

00:45:36.100 We both have the same problems, whereas, like, men already, like, biologically have an advantage.

00:45:41.300 But there's a difference between...

00:45:42.420 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, hold on.

00:45:47.760 What advantage do men have?

00:45:50.500 You guys are, like, at least twice as strong as us.

00:45:53.360 You guys can work longer hours than we can.

00:45:56.540 So I just feel like men are, like, basically on this planet to traditionally put on this planet to provide for women.

00:46:05.220 Well, you do realize most jobs, at least today, don't require physical strength.

00:46:17.180 Many do, but most jobs are not, like, hard labor jobs.

00:46:24.480 yeah well either way i feel like um you know like men they have testosterone all day long that like

00:46:30.300 pumps them up full of energy like by the end of the night like most of the time men will still

00:46:34.600 be able to like drive and like they're just like talking i don't really think that's a thing yeah

00:46:39.240 my boyfriend when he gets off work from working at the airport he's done yeah like there is no extra

00:46:45.540 and i think women can work just as many hours as men also yeah i don't know i just um i think that

00:46:53.300 like biologically men just they naturally they're stronger yeah but i think like endurance wise that

00:47:00.660 doesn't just come from yeah you can't yeah like i work retail i used to work retail and i would

00:47:08.720 stand on that floor for 12 14 hours where my boyfriend he works at the airport and he can do

00:47:15.660 the same exact thing but he's still going to be depleted and tired

00:47:18.640 i don't understand the logic though so uh just because men have a capacity a better capacity

00:47:27.960 for physical labor uh it doesn't necessarily follow that in every given situation a man

00:47:36.540 who's in a physical labor job would out earn a potential girlfriend or a woman like you probably

00:47:42.960 out earn uh 99 of men who do physical labor jobs you might even earn in a month how much they make

00:47:50.820 in a year have you ever have you ever made six figures in a month um i don't know you gotta step

00:48:00.280 your shit up then you're fucking up uh gotta be on that one percent come on uh anyways uh

00:48:09.340 Or maybe she's just being modest.

00:48:12.400 Yeah, she may not.

00:48:13.420 Depending on what she sells.

00:48:15.000 She'll show me her OF and things.

00:48:16.580 Depending on what she sells can be.

00:48:18.300 Because some girls sell bikini pics.

00:48:19.880 Some girls sell the whole thing.

00:48:21.660 So I think it really is.

00:48:22.500 I mean, my understanding is some of these girls show nothing.

00:48:27.280 Exactly, yeah.

00:48:28.060 They make a fuck ton.

00:48:28.860 Yes, and then they have.

00:48:30.680 Because I've been offered different agencies, and I've all turned them down.

00:48:34.120 Because when my lawyer looked into it, they were all full of crap.

00:48:36.580 um well that's yeah but it's just there's to the conversation yeah it's it's just um when it

00:48:45.420 comes to those industries it's just very it ranges uh so okay men men have male advantage

00:48:53.380 are there any other male advantages um no so do you think uh women like a woman because of what

00:49:03.980 you just outlined should a woman not be uh able to become like president for example um no i think

00:49:12.680 that we're still like a lot more capable of making like decisions like i think i think that men and

00:49:18.620 women have their own strengths and i feel like physical physical strength that is like where a

00:49:24.280 man um you know he's um usually just better at that do you believe in feminism um i don't know

00:49:32.060 if i would call myself a feminist okay um okay but uh your argument was that men are able to

00:49:41.980 work longer hours this would also conceivably have to apply to other like like being president

00:49:50.540 um well i mean it's not really physical labor you know

00:49:57.100 okay so as long as you're so okay if the guy's a physical laborer then he should pay for the date

00:50:05.140 or be a provider but if he has an office job then you can go 50 50 with him no um your argument is

00:50:13.660 because men can work longer hours uh that's why they should pay for dates do you only date men

00:50:20.080 who are in blue collar work well i just think that because men can work longer hours they should

00:50:25.780 provide for women but you just said that in an office setting where there's no physical labor

00:50:32.500 involved men and women are basically equal so if you're dating a guy who works an office job

00:50:40.420 maybe you go 50 50. seems a bit backwards though but

00:50:45.400 cricket sorry nothing okay you had something good um i don't remember what i was gonna say

00:51:01.860 nobody else wants to weigh in you guys are just gonna be fucking silent the whole show

00:51:07.580 oh wait i feel like the thing the pop-up bro don't worry about it don't worry about it i didn't i was

00:51:12.520 i was trying to read it no it's below the threshold we're doing 100 and up don't worry

00:51:17.000 about it okay i want to say something oh yeah no you can say um so i think sex work kind of has

00:51:26.980 like a toll on like like okay so before i became a stripper i was okay with like being 50 50 all

00:51:37.500 the time with like my boyfriends at the time but after being a dancer I think what I get from it

00:51:45.780 is if men that don't even know me and it's their first time seeing me like ever like they know

00:51:52.040 nothing about me my personality if they can give me a fuck ton of their fucking money and I don't

00:51:59.920 like why can't my boyfriend do that like if men that don't even know me can do that why

00:52:07.040 would I set my standard below what men don't even know?

00:52:11.620 Wait, I love this logic.

00:52:12.960 Okay, so there's women out there who aren't prostitutes.

00:52:17.680 Why, as a man, do I have to lower my standards

00:52:21.340 to be with a woman who's a prostitute?

00:52:24.980 You don't?

00:52:25.620 Well...

00:52:26.400 Okay, her argument is, hold on.

00:52:30.000 There are men who are financially well-off

00:52:32.160 who can pay for everything.

00:52:33.260 I encounter them in the strip club.

00:52:35.020 they're simping and spending all this money therefore why can't a man who i'm dating do

00:52:40.000 the same thing great why can't i just use that logic in for you guys well hold on there's all

00:52:46.120 these beautiful well-adjusted women who aren't in doing degenerate work who aren't prostitutes

00:52:52.820 who aren't strippers who aren't only fans girls who aren't showing their butthole and pussy and

00:52:57.660 everything to the internet why can't you be like them sure i'm not speaking for everybody's like

00:53:05.180 preference but i'm just saying what me being a dancer has done to my mentality and like how

00:53:11.180 like what i want from a man so would you date one of those men who comes and sees you at the strip

00:53:16.540 club well they're kind of really old but so no but i mean like no just someone who provides like

00:53:26.260 I do agree that men should pay on the first date.

00:53:31.260 I feel like...

00:53:32.020 And women, how about this?

00:53:32.880 Wait, wait, wait.

00:53:33.380 How about really quick and I'll let you come in.

00:53:36.160 Okay, men should pay on first dates.

00:53:38.760 Should women not be sex workers?

00:53:44.140 We can do anything we want.

00:53:46.520 Men can do whatever we want.

00:53:49.020 Sure.

00:53:49.940 Men can do whatever we want.

00:53:51.360 You guys can.

00:53:52.480 No, but it's like, okay, you're going to hold men to a standard.

00:53:56.260 And that standard corresponds to traditional gender roles

00:54:00.540 Traditional gender roles would dictate

00:54:03.060 Hey, don't be promiscuous

00:54:05.440 Don't be a sex worker

00:54:06.900 Don't be a stripper

00:54:08.200 Don't be doing all that shit

00:54:09.980 So, okay

00:54:11.820 It's just kind of confusing

00:54:13.480 If he really loved me

00:54:15.680 And he was a traditional man

00:54:18.560 Then he would want me to not work anymore

00:54:22.140 And I would be a stay-at-home, lovely girlfriend

00:54:24.440 a traditional look frankly a true traditional man would not date a woman who's a sex worker

00:54:32.120 to begin with sure but i mean there's some dudes who've got like a fucking what's that term save

00:54:43.080 they're on some of that shit but i feel like people are very fixated online about like stay

00:54:51.840 at home girlfriend and it's interesting because I usually date girls and it's usually like whoever

00:54:55.860 makes the most money and like I get the mentality but I think that people should be careful about

00:55:01.820 like you know back in the 1950s there was like other parts to being a stay-at-home wife so like

00:55:07.000 also look out for like the kind of guy who's like what kind of guy you're dating if that makes sense

00:55:12.040 you know like you need to also protect um like your end of things if you're looking to go all

00:55:18.720 the way back into that kind of dynamic yeah I think also though like I wouldn't want them paying

00:55:25.580 for like everything obviously if I was making like enough I would want to put my money towards

00:55:31.680 them as well in a way but didn't you say you would quit if instead be a stay-at-home girlfriend if

00:55:38.000 you were dating someone

00:55:39.820 and it's really um it's also pretty dangerous to not have a work history if you do want to

00:55:48.960 have kids because then like what if like you know the person you're dating ends up like turning to

00:55:53.580 be somebody you didn't think they were and you guys are married and then you haven't had a job

00:55:56.820 in a really long time so I think it's like food for thought type vibe I don't agree with that

00:56:03.400 I think if you if you know that you want to have that dynamic of staying home taking care of the

00:56:09.280 kids yes you have to be very careful about who you choose because then you should be making a

00:56:14.040 lifelong commitment and obviously yes people can change but my husband says all the time and I've

00:56:19.320 seen this to be true with friends um men don't change even though women often want them to

00:56:24.860 so what you see is usually what you get women change all the time even if their husbands or

00:56:29.920 boyfriends don't want them to we're just I mean we're slaves to our emotions a lot of the time

00:56:34.300 you can't deny it you get a period the week before your period you're a raging bitch that's how my

00:56:40.420 husband's like is it coming um and so you've got to make that decision and and it's dangerous to

00:56:50.160 be like well you still need to have a way to provide in case things don't work out because

00:56:54.160 if you have one foot out the door going into things how much are you going to work to make

00:56:58.980 it work when things get tough that's a good point i don't think it's having one foot in and one foot

00:57:03.820 out it's just more or less having a standard for yourself and being like i know if this were to go

00:57:09.400 south i can provide for myself not oh i have a door like i have a foot out i'm like if i really

00:57:15.500 do need a way out i can it's more or less just for your own morals and your own values to be like

00:57:19.880 i know i'm a strong individual woman and i know that i can pay for things myself but i have a man

00:57:26.560 but wouldn't you be living like more of a comfortable lifestyle if you guys are both

00:57:33.200 working and both making money and bringing it in i also agree with that you guys can both be working

00:57:37.920 what about you what do you want to know well you do you do only fans but you're you're like

00:57:48.620 a country gal kind of what are your thoughts um well i personally have no preference in like what

00:57:58.720 a man makes if that is relevant to the conversation um i think work ethic is a lot

00:58:04.720 more attractive than income because they don't directly correlate and if a man works hard and

00:58:08.780 he's a janitor i think that's that's attractive to me okay you also this is totally unrelated

00:58:21.400 you're a chubby chaser i am like you only date fat dudes so is it like the bigger the better

00:58:28.920 uh like obese 600 pound 500 pounds yep so like question for you 500 pounds preferable to 200

00:58:42.800 pounds yeah um i think closer to 500 would be my preference if i had to pick there's tons of guys

00:58:50.080 were like 180 and super super hot but typically yeah 500 is good and are you a feeder too no

00:58:56.600 what is a feeder you you feed them a bunch of food so they get fat oh okay yeah so okay do you

00:59:05.200 do you film that content no i'm not into feeders okay you're not okay no she just likes fat too

00:59:10.520 so like when you watch like 500 pound life or like 600 pound like are you like dang i need their

00:59:14.940 number there were some really good looking guys yeah okay okay okay i get you and is it more of

00:59:20.080 just like a relate like you prefer those men or is it like a fetish thing it's not a fetish um and

00:59:25.400 for example like a lot of people have an issue with me being a chubby chaser and think well what

00:59:28.420 if the guy wants to lose weight why do you want to encourage someone to be unhealthy like if i'm

00:59:31.500 with a guy and he loses weight good for him yeah i don't don't police like his body it's just like

00:59:35.800 you're not gonna like go out of your way and be like i'm not gonna date you because you're fat

00:59:39.060 like no like my ex like like yeah my ex was five foot two like i'm five foot three and he was 300

00:59:43.880 pounds at his heavies and i loved it very hot but would you lose attraction for a guy if he

00:59:49.440 he when you first meet him he's chubby but he starts losing weight well if we were together no

00:59:55.640 uh if he's just like a person in passing yes he'd become less attractive but dating

01:00:00.340 once i'm in i'm in you know okay interesting interesting huh so would you wait hold on

01:00:09.060 i have a i don't know that's that's an interesting one

01:00:14.060 not a feeder though no okay it just doesn't do it for me do you like cooking oh yeah i make very

01:00:22.820 good food so like yeah so like you like you enjoy giving them like proper meals though like

01:00:28.620 yeah it just doesn't turn me on to watch them get big like the videos for feederism you'll watch

01:00:33.220 like they'll take a bite and their stomach they force their stomach to like look big and people

01:00:37.780 get off on that i got you that doesn't get me off at all i just think the bigger there's literally

01:00:42.440 more to love like you ask a guy who's a chubby chaser who likes big women and they just say

01:00:46.540 there's more woman to love and like yeah i see that with big guys like i love deep stretch marks

01:00:51.660 like the really wide ones that are dark purple i think are super hot i think man boobs are really

01:00:55.480 hot um big guts are hot can i ask you a question yeah so you call love keeping them unhealthy

01:01:04.740 No, people say that to me.

01:01:07.220 People think since I'm a chubby chaser, I would only want them to be obese.

01:01:10.940 And like, I'm doing these men a disservice by keeping them obese.

01:01:14.180 But she's not a feeder.

01:01:15.820 No.

01:01:16.200 I have no interest in keeping them big.

01:01:17.900 If they're big by choice and they want to remain big, that's cool.

01:01:20.340 But if they lose weight, good for them.

01:01:22.020 So you wouldn't encourage them to get better?

01:01:26.480 No.

01:01:27.120 Wait, question for you.

01:01:28.020 How about this?

01:01:29.120 Related to her question.

01:01:30.980 Let's say you've been married to this guy for 10 years.

01:01:33.320 and he comes back from the doctor and the doctor said,

01:01:36.860 hey, you're like pre-diabetic and you need to lose weight.

01:01:42.120 Under those circumstances, would you advocate your boyfriend or husband to lose weight?

01:01:48.460 Yeah, of course.

01:01:49.620 Okay.

01:01:50.020 If it's for the better and it's what he wants to do, absolutely.

01:01:52.400 He could always have a fat suit.

01:01:53.640 So it's the bigger the better is what you said, right?

01:01:55.700 Bigger the better?

01:01:56.380 Yes.

01:01:56.660 I also, to some degree, have not related to weight,

01:02:00.360 but uh i relate to the bigger is better thing in the sense of uh labia i only date women i also

01:02:09.580 have a kind of an interesting thing i only date or at least prefer to sometimes i'll give a girl

01:02:15.100 a pass if she's really fantastic okay you've gotten any i'll tolerate you for a bit uh the

01:02:23.160 for the labia the bigger the better and so like i have a rate you know there's the looks rating

01:02:27.400 you can actually move up

01:02:30.440 quite a bit in attractiveness

01:02:31.860 up to plus 5 points

01:02:33.520 if the labia is just

01:02:35.280 it works like this

01:02:36.560 let's say a girl is a 5

01:02:38.760 so she's average

01:02:39.920 here's the scale for the labia ranking

01:02:44.240 if it's like a small

01:02:45.900 Audi, slight Audi

01:02:48.200 plus 1, medium Audi

01:02:50.140 plus 2, large Audi plus 3

01:02:52.440 XL Audi plus 4

01:02:54.460 world stop

01:02:55.960 don't interrupt plus five audi labia plus five plus five for the no no hold on like the world

01:03:05.140 record labia like the biggest i've ever seen the biggest there is she's in guinness world record

01:03:11.100 book labia plus five so she if she's a five but she she could be a 10 she could be a 10

01:03:19.900 so if it sticks out that's what you want correct but what if it's tucked in but fat

01:03:26.360 like what if you got fat lips and then labe so it's all tucked in together

01:03:32.900 so okay there's inner inner labia and outer labia are you referring to the outer labia

01:03:39.480 like she's got like an insanely puffy outer yeah and it like covers it so it makes it like

01:03:45.160 kind of like i'm talking when i'm talking about lips labia i'm talking about the inner labia yeah

01:03:49.820 i'm saying but like your lips can cover your labia if they're big enough hold on the lips

01:03:55.400 are the inner labia okay you're talking okay okay the the the lips yeah yeah there's the

01:04:01.360 outer labia which is essentially just your normal skin surrounding yeah okay i got you i mean that

01:04:07.720 it's okay if the outer labia is i'm talking about the inner labia yeah yeah like inside there all

01:04:13.280 up in there yeah got it well it it's external yeah so okay no any further clarification oh no

01:04:23.060 i just was saying that okay okay nothing no nothing from anybody okay what what do the

01:04:30.300 bigger ones do for you what what do you like about them uh visually it's better and then

01:04:35.160 actually like it feels better i've heard that okay lipstick rip i guess can you tell if they

01:04:42.600 have one uh you know sometimes i get like uh i get an intuition but i've definitely been wrong

01:04:49.800 like you can sense they're your type yeah yeah like i've yeah well like do you ever see a woman

01:04:57.020 and you're like oh i bet she has a huge labia it's okay i've developed some theories okay um

01:05:06.620 So

01:05:08.260 This is going to sound a little

01:05:10.640 Not always

01:05:12.000 But women who have

01:05:14.020 This is going to sound fucking crazy

01:05:17.540 And it's not 100%

01:05:20.520 But if a woman has a little bit

01:05:23.620 Like

01:05:24.420 Like arm hair

01:05:26.340 Like a little bit

01:05:27.500 That can sometimes be an indicator

01:05:30.000 I shaved my arms before this

01:05:32.740 Cause of

01:05:33.240 I used to get called you botch

01:05:35.780 not all the time but sometimes if she's like hairy but that's i don't have a preference for

01:05:44.920 hairy women so i'm like in this fucking predicament i'm gonna ask my boyfriend when i get

01:05:49.040 home i'll be like can you just let me know the size like i don't that aside from that it's just

01:05:53.580 some some women do have big labia energy like you can just tell wait so hairy arms is a thing of

01:05:58.800 that though well it's not a hundred percent this is like my retarded bro science that should have

01:06:04.660 been my comeback in high school because they would call me like chewbacca and i'd be like well i have

01:06:08.160 a big labia so i don't know do you i don't know i mean i i don't like i'm not down there with a

01:06:13.000 mirror like dang i got a big labia you've never looked at i mean i guess yeah like yeah it's fat

01:06:18.460 yeah okay yeah good to nice congratulations thank you my boyfriend enjoys it i'm i'm proud of you

01:06:26.820 yeah uh okay

01:06:28.500 oh here we we'll get back to the relationship status first oh this sorry below the pressure

01:06:39.360 my bad what kind of failure of a traditional father could you have possibly had to let his

01:06:46.580 daughter become you oh yes also do you think you deserve a man to ever save a hoe like you

01:06:51.560 okay sorry guys um i mean it doesn't really matter but the tts is just for clarification

01:06:58.200 is 199 and up but i mean that just came through as a read it's not a big deal do you want to

01:07:04.160 answer that question um what kind of father did i have well you said your your dad's trap

01:07:11.360 traditional yeah are your parents are your parents still married um yeah they've been together well

01:07:16.040 i mean okay so here's some backstory my dad can you do me one favor can you like you're like

01:07:21.540 body is no leave the mic where it is your body is like facing this way can you face yeah that's

01:07:30.420 good okay okay and strain the mic now so it's like yeah okay now straighten it so it's like

01:07:38.240 fit nope straighten it so it's like 90 degree angle yep okay so okay so yeah i mean my dad

01:07:47.460 wasn't always traditional um he cheated on my mom and just kidding so um yeah i mean

01:07:55.320 um but after he cheated on my mom he stayed with the other woman until this day so and they're

01:08:02.700 married so you know i guess a man can change so a woman can change too that's so romantic

01:08:09.760 like he's he's still with her yeah that's so beautiful you know i guess it's not once a hoe

01:08:18.260 always a hoe wait so people change uh wait hold on so uh he's does he know that you

01:08:29.340 post your butthole on the internet um does he i never asked him directly if he

01:08:37.580 like knew, but a lot of people in my family did know. And I know that they knew because some

01:08:42.300 people like followed my account and I was like, Oh no block immediately. So I had, uh, I had like

01:08:48.780 an inkling that my dad probably knows just because I talked to him about it. No, I talked to you. I

01:08:54.720 talked to my dad about other things, just not that. And then your mom, does she know my mom

01:09:01.220 knows? And do you have a stepfather or no? No. Okay. Your mom's just remained single.

01:09:07.580 i guess um she knows yeah are you are you filipina no i'm cambodian cambodian okay

01:09:16.620 you got a cambodian mom i have a cambodian dad oh and your mom is

01:09:22.720 um she's puto rican a lot of people don't expect uh you know an asian guy to pull a latina for

01:09:29.740 some reason yeah they can do it yeah they definitely can okay okay so you're you're half

01:09:35.680 you're latina half latina half cambodian yeah okay so your puerto rican mom yeah was cool with the

01:09:45.900 sex work um she didn't get the belt or anything she used to be a stripper so she has like a an

01:09:53.240 understanding i guess i'll make sense okay i'll make sense i guess um does she still strip no

01:10:02.080 she stopped stripping a long time ago yeah did she like teach you moves or something no okay um

01:10:11.320 would your dad disown you if he knew no I don't think he would I think he would um he would want

01:10:20.800 me to do better and he would just tell me that but I don't think he would want to actually tell

01:10:24.920 me that i think my dad loves me a lot so okay all right um okay uh relationship status for you

01:10:33.540 um i am in a relationship we've been together for a little over a year

01:10:37.580 all right long uh what's the longest relationship you've been in three and a half years

01:10:42.800 is your boyfriend gonna be happy that you revealed you have a giant labia honestly because

01:10:51.180 it's his yeah he's fine with it okay i mean i don't see like why okay like hairy arms so i

01:10:58.780 didn't know what about you um i'm single as of 2 a.m last night i was like should i still come

01:11:07.200 and then i was like you know i made a time commitment for you guys yeah so but yeah it

01:11:11.840 was the three-month mark girl the three-month mark yeah my girlfriend broke up with me but

01:11:16.360 it's okay. Uh, Oh, your girlfriend broke up. Yeah. Although, um, I'm like, I guess you could

01:11:23.580 consider bi, but I prefer girls a lot more as I get older. Okay. Um, but I've dated men in the

01:11:30.260 past and you were, uh, previously married. That was my longest relationship. He was, he was bi

01:11:37.360 though. He was bi. Yeah. He's really nice. He's pretty nice. Okay. How long were you married for?

01:11:42.720 like we're still getting we're getting divorced right now so you're not uh you're not okay yeah

01:11:48.720 we're figuring out like the end stages of it but he's really nice it's very amicable formally

01:11:52.800 started divorce yeah when did you guys file for divorce we started filing in the beginning of

01:12:00.020 last year and we figured out that our taxes weren't filed like correctly this is boring but

01:12:06.160 we have a domestic partnership so it's harder to file taxes so i'm going to a tax guy and getting

01:12:10.740 my taxes settled and then we're gonna finish filing okay how long were you married for like

01:12:16.400 it was 2020 and then to now so six years is he paying you alimony no no we go like 50 50 with

01:12:26.260 stuff okay so it's just gonna be a clean clean break yeah how long you you're dating three

01:12:31.100 months the girl yeah okay um were you guys during the marriage was an open marriage at some points

01:12:39.740 like towards the end but then I just started to feel like it wasn't really like equal and I just

01:12:46.580 felt like it would be better if we split up. Is the mic okay? Yeah yeah um hold on uh

01:12:57.760 yeah yeah everything's okay okay um

01:13:02.700 okay um

01:13:10.100 so uh why did you break up with your girlfriend no she broke up with me because she said that she

01:13:21.540 didn't have feelings for me and she just thinks i'm attractive and basically she was just like

01:13:26.860 not feeling it but like it's all right because like i live in la and it's a fun place to be

01:13:31.340 single so it was for the best okay uh who here's uh i guess just coming back uh or your sexual

01:13:40.160 orientation um i'm bisexual but i prefer dating men and sexual i bye wait hold on bi pansexual

01:13:52.920 bye, bye, bye.

01:13:55.440 Bye, bye, bye, bye.

01:13:57.200 I will say with a very strong female

01:13:59.140 preference. Like, I don't think I would date

01:14:01.060 a guy again. Okay, so you're done with

01:14:03.040 men. Yeah.

01:14:05.520 Can you do...

01:14:07.040 Oh, no, she's doing the bird hands.

01:14:09.780 She's doing the bird hands, boys.

01:14:11.100 I just feel like I had such a good experience

01:14:13.040 with my kid's dad, and it was definitely

01:14:15.160 a thing. So, I don't

01:14:17.160 see the reason. I'm just not

01:14:19.000 into it anymore.

01:14:20.860 But I appreciate

01:14:21.700 the memories

01:14:23.640 and our child is beautiful

01:14:25.860 alright

01:14:29.120 I'm straight

01:14:32.100 say your truth girl

01:14:35.180 let's fucking go

01:14:39.820 relationship status

01:14:43.560 I'm single

01:14:44.460 louder louder

01:14:46.380 I'm single

01:14:47.040 longest relationship

01:14:51.220 I have one singular ex-boyfriend.

01:14:53.340 We were together, I think, eight or nine years.

01:14:57.320 One boyfriend?

01:14:58.480 Yep.

01:14:58.740 Eight or nine years?

01:14:59.640 And you're 25?

01:15:00.740 How long have you been single for?

01:15:01.380 We got together when I was like 13.

01:15:03.120 Oh, okay.

01:15:03.440 How long have you been single?

01:15:04.160 A couple years.

01:15:04.860 Three, four.

01:15:05.240 Close one of those doors, please.

01:15:06.620 Three or four years.

01:15:09.080 Okay.

01:15:09.900 I would have thought you were like married for some reason.

01:15:11.920 No.

01:15:12.400 You're giving like stable long-term relationship energy.

01:15:14.880 Like you're very secure.

01:15:15.660 I feel like I can weld you anything.

01:15:18.300 That part.

01:15:20.620 Wow. Okay. And is he the only guy you've been with biblically?

01:15:25.420 No, I've had sex with other men, but he's the only one I've ever dated.

01:15:29.740 Okay. All right. Was he the first guy you were ever with, though?

01:15:34.520 No.

01:15:36.280 You started dating at 13?

01:15:38.220 Yeah.

01:15:39.580 How old is he?

01:15:41.420 He's two years older than me.

01:15:43.540 Okay. Did you lose your virginity to him?

01:15:47.160 No.

01:15:47.440 uh what age did you lose your virginity okay we started when i was 14 i lost it at 14

01:15:55.540 damn yeah uh i guess going around the table when did everyone else i'll even go uh when

01:16:02.340 did everyone lose their virginity i was i was 17 um i was a freshman so i was 14

01:16:07.600 hold on oh a freshman in high school okay 16 16 okay 15 15 15 about to be 16 18 for guys and then

01:16:20.340 19 for girls 14 27 16 damn what the fuck fucking late bloomer over here

01:16:31.720 we did say earlier that i think that's more common in men that they wait longer i think

01:16:39.380 i mean uh i feel like it's hard because it's like the gut like you have to convince like a girl and

01:16:46.380 then like there's always a guy that's down yeah you know what i mean well it's easier for women

01:16:51.980 to get laid yeah that's why i dated men for so long did your first uh the person you asked your

01:16:59.840 virginity to that they have a large labio was that like your first yeah like when did the whole

01:17:05.840 like i love large like big labio stuff honestly yeah that that developed a little later i think

01:17:11.000 maybe around the time i was like 21 2021 but no i don't i did not as far as i recall she did not

01:17:20.400 have a large labio well because at first you didn't know your preferences probably you're still

01:17:24.860 like learning things true it developed about your preferences over time 14 wait 14 yeah well

01:17:32.200 you're probably just a late bloomer because um like women date older guys most of the time

01:17:36.980 usually it's like that's how it goes i mean a lot of guys don't really date older girls

01:17:41.160 most of the time my ex-husband most of the time wait who else can ever

01:17:48.100 bam 14 shit shit man i was still playing with barbie dolls like that's scary i like was not

01:17:59.560 interested in boys in high school i was like i would make up fake crushes i'd be like oh my god

01:18:03.980 that guy justin bieber yeah and then i was like stressing about my ap test okay well every year

01:18:12.220 AP? That's crazy. I was in the special

01:18:14.540 classes. It's okay, girl.

01:18:17.560 Relationship sadness?

01:18:19.020 Single, but talking to somebody.

01:18:21.000 For how long?

01:18:22.740 Like, two weeks.

01:18:24.700 Okay.

01:18:26.660 Wait, single or talking to somebody?

01:18:29.460 That's still single.

01:18:30.100 How long what? Have you been

01:18:32.080 talking to this person?

01:18:34.260 Oh, okay. Two weeks.

01:18:35.860 And I guess, how long have you been single then?

01:18:38.440 Like a year.

01:18:40.060 Okay. Longest relationship?

01:18:42.220 uh just under three years all right uh the two weeks guy have you guys had carnal knowledge

01:18:51.440 no no what does that mean do you know what carnal knowledge is no here look at her

01:19:01.580 two two weeks okay uh what about you i'm married um we've been married for almost eight years

01:19:13.380 um it's my longest relationship he was the first man i ever kissed oh

01:19:18.240 and uh like you were you a virgin when you guys got married yes when we yeah when we got married

01:19:25.840 i was still a virgin you waited till marriage yes okay and he's the only guy you've been with

01:19:29.840 Yes.

01:19:30.160 Okay.

01:19:31.320 And kids?

01:19:32.960 Yeah, we have two.

01:19:34.240 Anybody else here have kids?

01:19:35.480 I have a kid.

01:19:36.440 You have a kid.

01:19:37.060 How old?

01:19:37.820 His name?

01:19:38.240 Four.

01:19:39.020 Is that from your ex-husband?

01:19:40.620 Yeah.

01:19:40.920 Okay.

01:19:41.340 Got it.

01:19:41.940 What about you?

01:19:42.740 I have three kids.

01:19:44.040 What relationship status?

01:19:45.600 Oh, I'm single.

01:19:47.460 My longest relationship was eight years, and I've been single for over a year.

01:19:55.500 The relationship that ended one year ago, how long was that one?

01:19:59.720 Um, like two years. Okay. Uh, so your eight year one, what's that your, were you married?

01:20:07.800 Um, not to him. No, I was married to my oldest daughter's dad. Uh, she's 14. We, I got married

01:20:15.280 when I was 18 and we split up when she was nine months old and we actually stayed married for

01:20:22.020 six years until we got divorced. And then I had two more children with another guy. We were

01:20:30.280 together for eight years. For eight years? Yeah. Okay. And you've been married just once? Yeah.

01:20:36.000 Okay. I see. So married for six years, one child from that marriage, dated a different guy for

01:20:42.800 eight years, two children from him. Do I have that correct? Yes. Okay. Your first marriage

01:20:51.140 did he or does he pay you alimony no no point he paid you alimony never did you pay him alimony

01:21:00.020 no uh what's the custody arrangement with the first we have 50 50 does he pay you child support

01:21:06.840 no do you pay him child support no uh and then the eight-year relationship where you've had

01:21:12.280 two children from that eight-year relationship does he pay you child support no uh do you pay

01:21:17.780 him child support no 50 50 nope you full custody yeah he's not in um my two youngest kids lives

01:21:25.440 unfortunately okay all right uh but no you haven't uh seeked sought child support i have not okay

01:21:36.620 uh is any particular reason or just don't want to be a dickhead to him or what what's the i don't

01:21:44.620 really want to get into it on here but he's just not in jail prison no he probably should be but

01:21:53.080 he's not he um our lives are just better with you know where where he doesn't see them and okay

01:22:04.100 yeah it's kind of complicated i know you're probably thinking like how is that better

01:22:08.660 like for your kids not to have their dad in their life but it's it just is for for all of us for

01:22:16.060 someone who grew up with a person where they shouldn't have their mom in their lives i

01:22:19.640 understand yeah it's just he shouldn't be around yeah uh so i mean we don't need to get into

01:22:27.180 details but essentially are you hinting at or pointing towards there was some abuse

01:22:31.960 um he has he did abuse me late on in the relationship but um it he struggles with

01:22:42.720 addiction and narcissism narcissism severe oh severe like what's an example of

01:22:51.000 um whenever something or someone like an emergency happened he would either like

01:23:00.960 put the attention on himself or like create another problem like

01:23:08.400 you know just to like divert away from like you know what i'm saying

01:23:15.640 no not really okay could you give an example um

01:23:20.160 when when we were having a birthday party for my kids one time

01:23:27.000 He decided that he wasn't going to be there

01:23:32.740 And he just decided to up and leave

01:23:35.360 And nobody really knew why

01:23:40.060 But I think it was the addiction probably

01:23:44.200 But he would just disappear like that from time to time

01:23:49.160 Speaking of narcissism

01:23:55.040 who here has dated someone who you consider to be a narcissist show of hands is that

01:24:04.900 raise them high raise them high boom boom boom boom okay boom uh and then those of you who raised

01:24:14.240 your hand of those men were they diagnosed by a clinician therapist psychologist psychiatrist

01:24:23.340 as a narcissist they were diagnosed with oh sorry um they were diagnosed with borderline

01:24:29.280 personality disorder not narcissism but it was like it was pretty bad like i trauma bonded with

01:24:34.900 the girl that they were like cheating on me with no um were they diagnosed

01:24:41.840 um actually he was diagnosed with multiple personality disorder and one of his personalities

01:24:48.520 was a narcissist girl one of them yeah okay that's interesting i do feel like it gets like

01:24:57.620 um the term gets thrown around a lot though like it's like there's a difference between having

01:25:02.460 narcissistic personality disorder and like other disorders that have that like as a main character

01:25:07.720 trait yeah uh we have a chat here from anon lexi you get to read it um would anyone on the panel

01:25:15.520 that does social media of not publicly disclose a current relationship to protect their income

01:25:20.480 following um i mean yeah i mean well i don't i don't disclose anyone that i date like honestly

01:25:44.160 I just like I just feel like um there's just no really a point to do that I mean in like certain

01:25:50.240 um conversations with a fan like if it's a new fan coming in and he's like like tell me you're

01:25:54.640 single please and like if that might be the thing to get him to spend money I might just say it but

01:25:59.220 like I mean I'm saying like I already disclosed it here like I have you know like I have a boyfriend

01:26:03.800 so I'm not like going to hide that information from the public but every now and then it might

01:26:10.460 help with a sale you know what i mean yeah that makes sense me you do of right yeah i think it's

01:26:21.080 fine to like keep parts of your interpersonal relationships private from the internet for

01:26:26.660 your own safety yeah well i mean you don't need to share like specific details you don't need to

01:26:32.440 post them but if you were simply asked hey you know when we're going through the relationship

01:26:37.340 questions are you in a relationship you know you okay you are also doing stuff oh he said

01:26:49.640 social media or you don't do it you just yeah just you don't do it okay all right well i mean

01:26:56.240 i can speak from my own experience of course women do tell me things off the record and given my

01:27:02.380 strong journalistic

01:27:04.740 integrity. I would never

01:27:06.600 disclose a source

01:27:08.840 but I can tell you

01:27:10.800 that many women

01:27:11.980 have told me after the show

01:27:13.960 who do OnlyFans

01:27:15.620 that they're in relationships

01:27:18.360 but they lied on the show and said that they're

01:27:20.680 single

01:27:21.040 and that could be OnlyFans girls

01:27:24.600 it could even be women who just

01:27:26.020 are streamers, do social media because it hurts

01:27:28.580 their bottom line to be seen

01:27:30.640 as taken because these

01:27:31.920 men uh these simps want a chance uh and they're probably more inclined to spend more

01:27:39.940 on a woman if she's single in the hopes of possibly having a shot with her but if she's

01:27:47.380 already in a relationship that is typically a non-starter so yeah makes sense like this girl

01:27:55.080 right here she's probably been dating a guy for two years for all we know oh no

01:27:59.160 that's why you deleted the content because you didn't want to ever want to see his face

01:28:05.760 oh well i just deleted his content because i didn't want him to say oh well you need to send

01:28:11.280 me money because you still sell content with me in it yeah like yeah he was very um narcissistic

01:28:17.300 like it was literally my face on like all these like social media like platforms and he's like

01:28:23.460 yeah those are my accounts so is he like because i filmed everything on there for you huh was he

01:28:28.980 like trying to be a manager type thing um i mean yeah that's kind of like what we like we had like

01:28:34.680 a contract deal so it's just like a lot sorry i think i i wonder if i should clip farm should i

01:28:43.380 clip farm for a little bit um we need to uh for our clips we always like to say uh maybe

01:28:53.520 fuck do we do it now the lighting is good during the day um let's do you know what i've never done

01:29:00.180 this on the show but just for our clips we always do like have people doing something kind of unique

01:29:05.360 to get people's attention uh so for our clips here lexi make a make a little funny silly face

01:29:10.600 into this camera that that wasn't silly do you like uh i don't know like do a wink or something

01:29:18.960 or do that was terrible okay how about you give it a shot right here camera right here

01:29:25.460 dad okay i don't even know what the fuck you're okay

01:29:28.980 wow you guys are just this was a terrible idea i regret even i regret even guys come on here

01:29:39.380 try it again do that again lexi okay what the fuck i'm just kidding uh should we do should we

01:29:46.780 get popsicles i don't know yes i watched the the blonde girl eat the popsicle that was good let's

01:29:52.640 uh we'll have to stagger the popsicles because if everybody's eating a popsicle are they the

01:29:57.340 lexi goes first get lexi a popsicle get lexi are they the johnny pops yeah that would be fun

01:30:06.500 uh open that up we get to eat buy popsicles that would be funny

01:30:11.740 All right, so let's see here.

01:30:19.440 One sec, guys.

01:30:21.020 Behind you, Lexi, you can...

01:30:23.400 Thank you.

01:30:24.240 Wow, so pretty.

01:30:25.660 Pride.

01:30:26.440 I know.

01:30:27.460 Ally.

01:30:28.240 Each color is a different flavor.

01:30:29.360 I live in a voice town, so yeah.

01:30:32.940 Girl.

01:30:33.400 Right here.

01:30:35.200 We need a hangout.

01:30:36.480 Go ahead.

01:30:37.740 Have fun.

01:30:38.760 What are you doing?

01:30:39.320 you gotta face

01:30:41.700 yeah i'm sorry i'm just like giving the camera a little side eye

01:30:50.000 my gosh it made me nervous why why do i have to have the popsicle it's like i feel so sexual

01:30:55.260 i'm sorry just like the word already what do you do for fun in chicago

01:30:58.800 why are you let her enjoy the fucking i was trying to give her something to do while she

01:31:04.700 ate the popsicle keep it here nathan is that is that how you eat a fucking popsicle this is how i

01:31:10.200 eat a popsicle that is i ate all the frost off of it because i have ocd well i want a nice clean one

01:31:19.140 and then i enjoy it for real you know yeah all right uh so you're pan yes so you date trans

01:31:27.300 people um i haven't actually dated a trans person but i'm open to it uh my boyfriend's like he's

01:31:35.020 dated a lot of trans people slay yeah so you haven't dated a trans person but no i consider

01:31:41.800 myself pan though still because like i'm open to it i just haven't had the opportunity

01:31:45.920 oh my god these girls are like don't get it oh my god okay um okay so uh

01:31:57.660 you would date a trans person yeah okay cool would anybody else here

01:32:06.160 date a trans person i did i dated a trans person oh i have or would is it how about this do you

01:32:12.200 guys think it's um do you think it would be straight for me to date a trans woman i will say

01:32:21.200 like i think that it's definitely different like i don't think it would be like because i feel like

01:32:27.840 sometimes some trans people will be like oh like this like straight man should like date me but

01:32:32.080 like i feel like that's definitely like you're allowed to have a preference because like you

01:32:35.940 know some lesbians might not want to date like a trans girl you know because it's just about like

01:32:40.300 the parts that we appreciate what if that trans girl doesn't like what if they want to date men

01:32:46.540 because well i just mean from the other side okay you know what i mean like if he says he's straight

01:32:51.880 and he might not like trans might not be his preference yes you would be considered straight

01:32:57.060 because you are dating a woman who is now a woman and is is coming and saying i am a woman and on

01:33:03.860 her id it says she her and also you can get an id picture now updated because i have friends that

01:33:10.060 in the trans community, and they have their

01:33:12.120 current pronouns on their card

01:33:14.020 because that's what they are.

01:33:15.960 I disagree.

01:33:17.860 Along with their picture.

01:33:19.020 I'm sure the women over here on the side of the table want to jump into this.

01:33:22.000 My position is

01:33:23.280 if I dated a trans woman,

01:33:25.980 that would be gay.

01:33:28.720 But what if they have

01:33:29.920 the bottom surgery?

01:33:31.200 Yeah, that's not pussy.

01:33:33.080 That's like inverted penis.

01:33:35.560 Okay.

01:33:36.740 And like a fucking wound.

01:33:39.040 Have you tried one, though?

01:33:40.060 have you tried one though uh no so how would you know what it feels like well hold on i've never

01:33:47.740 been shot before but i can imagine it'd be really painful to be shot well yeah so like i can you

01:33:54.280 know humans have the gift of creativity yeah but i know trans females and i know i've seen their

01:34:01.000 puss hold on you don't even know what your pussy looks like but you know what some trans pussy

01:34:05.200 looks like i'm not going in there with some like things but yes i've seen like i've have been sent

01:34:10.440 photos of like yes this was my before and my after yeah that's not pussy though that's something

01:34:16.140 else but it's considered scientific like they made it that scientifically they made biologically

01:34:23.520 they took their penis and like they took it and they made it into a vagina so what you're saying

01:34:29.600 is my penis as it currently is it is it is it is of the nature to potentially become a vagina

01:34:42.540 if you go through the surgeries and you go through the proper needs that you need to yes

01:34:48.660 but you're not over here trying to be trans so if i cut my dick off and made it into you or a doctor

01:34:56.360 it doesn't fucking matter just it does it's irrelevant here that here the whole uh question

01:35:02.940 that i'm about to ask if i were to cut my dick off and like make it into like a fleshlight would

01:35:09.160 that be that would be a pussy but are you going through the like everything that you need to go

01:35:15.620 through like if you were to just cut off your dick and be like hey i have a fleshlight or

01:35:20.580 whatever that's not being trans that's not becoming a woman yeah it's not but like the

01:35:26.340 material what you're saying is so but what you're saying is though it's not the same realm because

01:35:31.500 you're not here becoming a woman you're not here taking the proper what is it uh estrogen that they

01:35:36.280 take uh the shots so it's like it's not the same to sit here and say oh well if i cut my dick off

01:35:42.880 and make a puss and is it going to be a puss yeah i mean am i sure okay i'm willing to completely

01:35:48.320 set aside the remove like the fleshlight argument then uh let's say it would be to it were to

01:35:55.460 maintain on me like i i got the bottom surgery that's not pussy yeah but why did you get the

01:36:03.180 bottoms like it's to become and give you what is like supposed to be what you can with what

01:36:09.480 your skin is that is your pussy that is what they gave you so just because you don't have

01:36:14.620 like it's what the doctor created your vagina to look like just because it's not a basic looking

01:36:19.220 vagina doesn't mean it's not a vagina but it's made to look like and to resemble a vagina as

01:36:24.980 closely as possible so therefore it's a vagina it may not be a perfect one but it is it's literally

01:36:31.580 not a vagina and they have feeling down there as well too so how do you explain that has feeling

01:36:37.220 is that a vagina but they're making it look and they're giving you the exact like you can pee out

01:36:42.700 of it so if i were to graft my dick skin onto my elbow some people do that is it a vagina

01:36:49.660 well if you take someone's nipple and you put the nipple right here and you sew it on is it

01:36:54.660 still a nipple yes right so if i put my penis on my elbow it's still a penis no because you're

01:37:00.980 taking the penis and you're conforming it into completely different anatomy no it's just an

01:37:04.860 inverted penis no they do no there's feeling in there that you can make you a clit like they can

01:37:10.120 do it all no that's just part of the penile tissue it's not a clitoris it's not a vagina

01:37:14.840 well it's not a penis anymore

01:37:16.500 that's that could be disputed but for one thing is certain it's certainly not a vagina

01:37:24.560 what if you use a real vagina though like a vagina transplant has that been done is that

01:37:29.560 actually been done science i feel like science can't get to that but no science but right now

01:37:34.820 it's it's all cause it's cause what is it cause um when it's like looks cause yeah no just like

01:37:42.240 um the specific word when you just like cosmetic yeah it's a cosmetic thing where it's like

01:37:47.320 yes it cosmetically looks like a vagina does it function like a vagina yes because it is the

01:37:52.560 closest thing that you can get to a vagina just because it's not you weren't born with it doesn't

01:37:56.440 mean that it's not a vagina i will say i want like an og oh boy an og i would prefer an og

01:38:06.140 like an old lady no no we love ladies with preferences no i mean like like an og like you

01:38:12.260 know vagina yeah oh okay just as my personal dating preference yes basically what he's saying

01:38:18.900 is that like uh dildos are not like real cocks right because it's like just because it looks

01:38:23.980 like one performs like yeah doesn't mean that it is because then you could say like because then

01:38:27.720 people could say that like someone like isn't gay if they like prefer penetration or if they

01:38:33.120 like penetration you know what I mean so it's like if you use that argument like if you use

01:38:38.580 the argument against him you're also saying it like the other way around too if that makes sense

01:38:43.380 that like if that is a vagina in its original form then a dildo would be like the same thing

01:38:50.880 you know what i mean yeah well what about on like a prosthetic like a prosthetic thing like if someone

01:38:55.940 gets a prosthetic leg is it not a leg well it's not a leg it's a prosthetic it's a prosthetic

01:39:01.080 the word before it's not a biological leg it's a different yeah but it's still a different form

01:39:06.980 of leg but it's still a leg well hold on so if we're just changing the definitions of what things

01:39:11.200 mean so okay uh somebody who is um somebody who is a uh child abuser is is somebody who has

01:39:23.300 piercings in their face what wait what do you mean someone that's a child so if i just change

01:39:28.940 the definition for what child abuser is to somebody who has more than uh five piercings

01:39:33.800 in their face yeah does that parse in terms of actually trying to convey meaning to but what

01:39:39.500 What does it have to do with a fake leg being called a fake?

01:39:43.960 It's still a leg.

01:39:45.660 What does it have to do with that?

01:39:46.360 If you're essentially changing the definition.

01:39:49.000 I'm not changing the definition.

01:39:50.620 It's called a prosthetic leg because it's a prosthetic leg.

01:39:52.720 It's still a leg.

01:39:54.420 Therefore, if you were going under surgery and on the document it says that you were undergoing a surgery to get a vagina, what is that on paper?

01:40:03.500 A vagina.

01:40:04.480 Why are you saying vagina?

01:40:06.220 Fugina.

01:40:06.740 Why are you saying pho-pho with an F?

01:40:09.700 Pho-pho-gina.

01:40:10.700 No, so first off, so a prosthetic leg that's either going to be made out of some sort of metal material,

01:40:16.780 some sort of metal alloy, it can be made out of wood, it can be made out of plastic.

01:40:21.660 There's all kinds of different materials.

01:40:23.780 What you're talking about is when they do this procedure, they basically cut a hole into you.

01:40:31.300 They incise a hole and they invert the penis into that hole.

01:40:36.660 So you have penile tissue there.

01:40:40.260 That's a hole which has penile tissue, but it's not a vagina.

01:40:47.440 Now, if you want to call it like, no, it's just not a vagina.

01:40:53.180 What would you call it?

01:40:54.920 A gaping wound.

01:40:57.540 Okay.

01:40:58.960 A penis wound.

01:40:59.980 that's what they have like so when you go to pay your medical bills they're like you're paying for

01:41:04.160 your penis wound well i don't understand this so um if so okay just because something is labeled

01:41:11.720 as such does that mean that you are the thing well just because it doesn't have the same

01:41:17.040 just because it's still a vagina okay so like for example you know on the uber app how they just

01:41:23.280 rolled out nationwide how women can match with other women drivers and so i could go on the uber

01:41:30.800 app and just change my gender uh oh gosh does that because on the uber app it says that i'm

01:41:37.300 a woman does that make me a woman so if you were to go to the doctor and no question first so no

01:41:43.640 you wouldn't because it's not the same logic okay so i could go my understanding at least in

01:41:48.180 california i could go to the dmv i believe it's the dmv or maybe you have to go through the court

01:41:53.060 I'm not entirely sure.

01:41:54.540 You can do, it's a pretty simple process in California, you can request a change of your listed gender.

01:42:01.580 But you actually doing that and you actually being that are two different things.

01:42:05.080 Right, so just because a doctor who's an activist who is doing trans surgery refers to the thing as a vagina, doesn't make it a vagina.

01:42:15.000 No, but that's not what I'm saying.

01:42:16.440 Just because the doctor has it on the paper, I'm not just saying because it's on paper.

01:42:20.120 That was your argument.

01:42:20.800 No, what I'm saying is, so if it was on paper and it was like, yes, you were paying for this, this, this, this, this, it's not just the doctor that is saying that, that is medical science that is saying what it is.

01:42:32.960 You're literally, hold on, you're talking about science, biology is a hard science, biology is not a soft science, biology is a hard science, so it's actually, you're kind of a science denier, it's interesting, you know, the people that are big on the science thing,

01:42:49.340 they're actual science deniers so it's just a biological reality males cannot become females

01:42:55.060 females cannot become males uh a man a male so trans woman cannot have a vagina

01:43:04.740 through the means of cutting a hole in their pubic area and inverting their penis that is a

01:43:14.940 a hole

01:43:16.580 which has been surgically

01:43:19.560 created which is

01:43:21.440 constituted out of penile

01:43:23.660 tissue that is not a vagina

01:43:25.880 okay

01:43:27.380 but you still think it is

01:43:29.800 is that correct no I understand

01:43:31.760 what you're saying and I agree so

01:43:33.400 wait are you

01:43:34.220 yeah no

01:43:36.580 yeah I agree what you said made sense

01:43:39.680 to me yes okay so you're conceding

01:43:41.740 the point yeah I understand what you're

01:43:43.740 Okay, would it be gay then for me to date a trans woman?

01:43:46.340 I mean, yeah, because technically if science is saying that it's not a vagina,

01:43:52.840 then yeah, because you're not fucking a vagina.

01:43:55.660 Therefore, you are gay.

01:43:56.680 Well, what do you mean by science is saying it?

01:44:00.280 Because science, what is science?

01:44:04.420 So when I say that, I mean like when you're born,

01:44:08.660 like what science is saying is a man and a woman.

01:44:10.520 Well, what if sitting next to me was a surgeon who is a trans activist who performs these surgeries, and they also do scientific research, and they're a scientist, and they claim the science is that this is actually a vagina.

01:44:29.560 Are they right?

01:44:31.720 You're saying based on their research?

01:44:34.600 yeah so they're the scientist and they're claiming that that is in fact a vagina are they correct

01:44:41.740 no because it's not that's that's not accurately right based on facts okay so when you say the

01:44:48.280 science says you're not just referencing no what i meant to say was like based on what a man and a

01:44:54.040 woman is supposed to be when you were born that's what i meant by that's not your position is it

01:44:58.620 what do you mean what you believe trans women are women yeah i do okay so trans women who have

01:45:05.160 undergone bottom surgery and is that a vagina what is on paper no it's not what you've been

01:45:15.420 telling me no from what it is you said it's a hole okay on that specific thing you've completely

01:45:21.180 you're conceding on that i mean yeah i mean that's what the show is about is learning things and i

01:45:26.820 I mean, honestly, I, like, yeah, it makes sense to me.

01:45:30.220 Like, yes, it is not considered a vagina.

01:45:32.140 It's a hole.

01:45:32.860 I feel like it's, like, just a, it's a different thing.

01:45:35.560 You know what I mean?

01:45:36.360 Yeah.

01:45:36.780 Like, the point is that it's, like, a different thing.

01:45:38.200 Like, I just needed the reason.

01:45:39.700 Because I didn't have, like, the, now that I completely understand it, it's, like, no, that is not a vagina.

01:45:44.480 Like, yes, it is.

01:45:45.200 You are correct.

01:45:45.760 It is a hole.

01:45:46.580 And it wouldn't be considered a vagina.

01:45:48.120 But even if it is written on paper saying you have a vagina, it's for that doctor because they are an advocate for that, like you said.

01:45:55.080 Okay.

01:45:55.360 like it's like they created a different thing because the point is to make the person who's

01:45:59.680 paying all this money for this surgery to like feel better yeah but i understand what you're

01:46:04.540 saying on an actual point no it is not a vagina it's not an og yes do you guys

01:46:09.580 do you guys want to weigh in on the topic well i mean from the medical perspective

01:46:15.260 my understanding is if you have a fake vagina you're not going to an ob to take care of it

01:46:20.760 you're just going to probably a surgeon for aftercare um good point and then you can't change

01:46:26.020 your dna so still scientifically you're still male or female no matter what your pronouns are

01:46:31.840 so then that would make brian having sex with a trans woman that would be gay because it's

01:46:38.240 it would definitely be like on the spectrum like i feel like it'd be on the kidsy scale

01:46:42.500 sex with a trans woman is gay what if you're attracted to them for their femininity or their

01:46:48.300 what feminine feminine qualities do they have a penis i mean you would acknowledge that there

01:46:54.120 are trans women who still have what if you're like imagining the butthole as a vagina though

01:46:59.380 in your head still i feel like so a male's butthole and you're fucking a male in his butthole with

01:47:06.180 your penis i mean that sounds really like i mean just i'm not using this in a pejorative sense

01:47:12.240 that's homosexual i mean heterosexual there's like a spectrum to it like if you're if you're

01:47:18.540 fucking a male in his butthole that is that is homosexual i mean a little bit no not just a

01:47:27.280 little bit that is like the ultimate homosexual act essentially it's what he was telling me to

01:47:32.780 enjoy that you would have to be like you know it's what he was telling me how the doctor like

01:47:37.480 even though the doctor says what it is it's not that so even if you do imagine it's a vagina

01:47:42.000 that's still a but i still think there is a difference though and people that um are attracted

01:47:47.180 to trans females and they're attracted to them for like their feminine qualities and people that

01:47:52.240 are gay and attracted to like you know like hairy big men like i feel like there is a difference

01:47:57.440 yeah because like i wouldn't date like somebody who's like fully transitioned into being like a

01:48:01.540 man like because i'm not like into that kind of thing you know there's a difference or like

01:48:07.360 but i guess like um a man is like considered gay once he knows that like that woman is trans you

01:48:13.420 know and he still wants to like pursue her i don't know i would call it like pansexual because

01:48:18.420 there are men who like anal and she looks really feminine wait hold on what wait yeah i would call

01:48:26.700 it like either like bisexuality or like like homosexuality you'd be on the kinsey scale for

01:48:33.560 sure. Well, wait, wait, wait. To your point, you're saying there are men who like anal sex.

01:48:37.540 Are you saying receptive or giving?

01:48:41.240 Giving. It's like if she looks really... Anal sex with women,

01:48:45.420 that would still be... Well, if she looks really feminine.

01:48:48.760 No, no, no. So if you have... Look, if you have

01:48:52.180 anal sex with a biological female, that is still a

01:48:57.400 heterosexual act. If you have anal...

01:49:01.320 you have any kind of sexual activity with a biological male and you're a male that is a

01:49:06.900 homosexual act okay how about like hermaphrodites people with two okay like 0.0001 of the population

01:49:16.340 i feel like it's different too if it's like i know this one trans girl and she's like so pretty

01:49:20.160 she's like literally beautiful and like she transitioned when she was like 13 years old so

01:49:24.600 like you could like you really can't tell so i feel like the kind of person who's like no like

01:49:29.440 she's so hot but like the kind of person who's attracted to like that is different than somebody

01:49:33.340 who's attracted to somebody who still has like masculine characteristics like you'd be a little

01:49:38.060 bit more I would say like gay if you're like into somebody who looks more like your gender

01:49:42.660 yeah I agree with that I think like if you like if you look exactly like if if I'm like here right

01:49:50.080 now and I have a dick in my pants and you guys didn't know that and like a guy wanted to fuck

01:49:54.520 me because he thought that I was a girl that's not gay that's straight yeah that's pretty straight

01:49:58.780 before he's like looking at a girl a hot girl and he thinks that like she's like so fucking hot

01:50:03.160 she wants he wants to fuck her yeah that's straight but like once you like know that i

01:50:06.780 have like a dick in my pants and you're still turned on that's where i would say like that's

01:50:10.760 like uh you know yeah like everybody thought my ex-girlfriend was not really straight anymore

01:50:15.640 men can be deceived yeah men can be deceived but yes if if he knows that the person is trans

01:50:23.380 then yeah then you're gay like you're it's it would be gay

01:50:29.820 yeah well how about this uh a lesbian woman being penetrated by a transgender woman with a penis

01:50:39.420 is that a heterosexual or a homosexual act wait can you repeat that i wouldn't be down a lesbian

01:50:48.920 woman cis i fucking hate that term but a lesbian cis woman who's being penetrated by a transgender

01:50:56.680 woman pre-op so she she she has a penis yeah is that heterosexual or homosexual heterosexual i

01:51:06.180 feel like you'd be at least more on the buy because i wouldn't be okay with that

01:51:09.080 i would be like i would give him a good handshake right i would like buy him a coffee

01:51:14.660 but so then but not down are trans women women i would say it's a different like that's the word

01:51:21.920 for it so it's like you know it's not like you're like trad wife i feel like if you were

01:51:29.720 a transgender woman that was transitioning to like you know fully become like a woman

01:51:34.240 you wouldn't be using like your dick you know correct yeah like you'd be using unless i mean

01:51:42.240 you use it to pee but not like it's like i don't think you would be using it for penetration if

01:51:48.460 like your intention is to like fully go through with it that's correct if you because then you

01:51:52.680 wouldn't be that would even if you didn't use your penis it would still be gay it would still

01:51:59.240 be gay i mean like if like these two women were together and the woman is a lesbian and she's

01:52:04.880 waiting for her to like go through with her surgery like she's still a lesbian you know at

01:52:08.440 the end of the day but like if she's being penetrated by like the penis and she's um you

01:52:14.000 know the woman that has a penis is not going to fully transition then you know there's a

01:52:19.100 there's a little more questions there I guess you're both like lesbian but you're it's like

01:52:23.360 difference like there's different like preferences yeah like if you only want to date someone who

01:52:28.680 identifies as like female so I can't speak for all trans but if you were if you were going to

01:52:38.120 become a woman they do not want to use that in like any sexual anything unless they're using

01:52:44.060 the bathroom because it that's not what they want so if you were to do that that's kind of going

01:52:49.440 against the whole transformation yeah a lot of trans people don't want you to like touch them at

01:52:53.720 all in my experience in my i've dated trans mask people and they're like yeah no like i updated so

01:52:59.360 many trans mask people they love single moms and like they never want you to touch them like it's

01:53:04.400 like a thing it's very I feel like a lot of people don't want to just be touched like I feel like

01:53:09.160 that's in everything well no it gives you like dysmorphia oh body dysmorphia yeah like they get

01:53:14.520 body dysmorphia just from touching them yeah like touching their parts that they don't like oh I

01:53:19.440 thought I meant just literally like no like like insects they don't want to they just want to be

01:53:23.600 doing things yes I don't want you to touch them because it reminds them that they don't like their

01:53:27.560 body yes yeah or it reminds them that it's there it do be that way sometimes

01:53:32.460 okay um what is a woman um a woman is a girl with a you know certain chromosome I don't know

01:53:47.800 what is it the why I don't know which one can you turn like okay just because we we don't like to

01:53:55.020 get people's pro side profile um if you can try to stay like straight to the table or even turn

01:54:00.940 a bit towards the tv go ahead a woman uh same thing what she said the chromosomes and i guess

01:54:06.880 like feminine qualities i guess um long hair uh i don't know makeup so the chromosomes well yeah

01:54:16.820 that's like the biological if we're talking like biology then yes yeah but just what is a woman

01:54:21.680 well xx chromosomes right yeah um you came out of your mom when you were born and they wrote

01:54:30.880 your gender down on your birth certificate and it was girl or boy and apparently now it's like

01:54:36.440 you know if you identify as a woman then you're a woman so okay when you come out of your mother

01:54:42.440 if you got a little ding-a-ling or if you got a little hoo-ha that's what but i thought trans

01:54:48.760 women are women well no because remember we just went over this whole thing where you were saying

01:54:52.880 that if it's not a vagina then so you've just completely changed your entire position on this

01:54:59.940 I mean, if you're, well, logically, if I'm sitting here and I'm thinking about it, it's like, why would I continue to think that it's a vagina when it's not?

01:55:09.060 You just did the whole explanation and it made sense to me.

01:55:11.820 So, no, it's not considered a vagina because of what you said.

01:55:15.600 Right, but somebody who's like a trans person or trans activist would say even prior to having the bottom surgery or any surgery, it would just come down to genuine.

01:55:29.700 identification yeah so are you asking me like if i like if a trans woman is a woman so my

01:55:37.160 understanding is the position that for trans people trans activists is as soon as you genuinely id

01:55:45.620 yourself as a woman that makes you a woman you don't have to even now you can better align with

01:55:54.100 your outward appearance in terms of looking like a woman but as soon your trans identity

01:56:00.900 it just requires id self-id yeah i think it has to do like what we were saying before it has to do

01:56:08.880 like with the surgery like it's what to make you feel better and to make you feel like a woman yes

01:56:13.840 but if you're gonna sit here and be like what is the definition of a woman when you come out of

01:56:17.960 your mother and you have a vagina or a dick that's what it comes down to what about you the people

01:56:23.200 that stress me out in dating but i agree with you i agree with you okay xx chromosomes

01:56:30.900 2x chromosomes xx chromosomes 2x chromosomes and a vagina

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02:00:58.800 uh stream yards one yeah uh big labia matter or blm for short all labia can't matter until

02:01:05.500 big labia matter as someone who only dates women with large labia this is a pressing issue for me

02:01:12.300 very important 10 000 labiaplasty procedures a year in the usa alone 10 000 women are just

02:01:18.560 chopping up going getting surgery getting rid of their amazing outies it's very sad very sad

02:01:24.840 um if you can't catch the full shows we have a clip what's that i'm sorry i didn't know that

02:01:29.320 women were doing that yeah 10 000 a year has anybody here ever felt like any shame

02:01:36.320 i thought about it or they have a you have an outie well you know you you i have a kid

02:01:41.060 sometimes people get ladyoplasty after they have a kid oh wow because like a baby like you know

02:01:46.360 babies are big bro i mean it happened after you had your kid i don't know i just feel like it's

02:01:52.220 not like i don't know about it's not the way it was looking i don't know yeah i was thinking about

02:01:56.540 because megan fox got one oh okay well it's a thing do you like camel toe

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02:02:12.960 is it like a thing for you too like you can see the are you talking like yeah like if you're all

02:02:18.420 like at the gym and you can literally like see that thing i no not not particularly okay cool

02:02:26.100 i don't think it camel toe really does much for me but okay i don't know i mean

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02:03:05.200 here uh let's see i actually need to get up momentarily so i don't know can i trust you guys

02:03:12.200 to actually have an engaging conversation

02:03:15.240 for like two minutes?

02:03:16.920 Or do you need the guiding hand of a male

02:03:20.300 to actually have like an entertaining conversation?

02:03:23.000 We got this.

02:03:24.120 No, I'm just kidding.

02:03:29.580 All right, let's see how bad the viewership drops off

02:03:32.180 after I leave.

02:03:32.840 All right, so are you?

02:03:34.540 I mean, they are here for you.

02:03:35.380 You're from Chicago, correct?

02:03:36.860 Are you?

02:03:37.320 Yeah, so.

02:03:37.840 Wow, I literally fucking get up.

02:03:40.060 I get up and she's asking a fucking

02:03:42.240 Geographic question nobody gives it

02:03:44.180 What I was following up

02:03:46.540 You didn't even let me fit

02:03:47.840 I was gonna go

02:03:48.920 Do you like deep dish pizza

02:03:50.320 I wasn't gonna ask about deep dish pizza

02:03:54.200 I was gonna ask her something else

02:03:56.160 What

02:03:58.140 So about the

02:04:00.260 You wanna ask her about where she's from

02:04:02.620 So I was gonna say so you're from Chicago

02:04:04.540 I am too so

02:04:05.940 When it comes to like nightlife out there do you

02:04:08.460 Nobody gives a fuck

02:04:10.040 bro what are you doing oh okay it comes to the nightlife no yeah you want to ask her oh do you

02:04:16.720 go that bar on fucking 6th street nobody gives a fuck what are you doing no i was so somebody else

02:04:23.160 ask a question come on competence let's see it crazy you guys i believe it's gonna ask about

02:04:28.380 your dating life in the nightlife but okay so yeah um who's had plastic surgery raise your hands

02:04:35.360 me me i've had my boobs yeah me too the boobs yeah what about you girl mommy makeover well i lost a

02:04:41.760 ton of weight and so i don't have to lose skin and then my abs sewn back together you feel like

02:04:45.560 it's well you've been with the same person but do you feel like it's changed like your dating life

02:04:49.060 after you got like plastic surgery not for him because i feel like people objectify me more now

02:04:54.300 that i have i attract meaner people my husband likes me yeah i don't think the worst lesbian

02:04:59.220 my husband likes me to show off my body and he would prefer my boobs were out all the time and

02:05:06.240 stuff like that it was but like the dynamic makeover was for me yeah of course because I

02:05:11.440 had lost a lot of skin then I had my son was 10 and a half pounds so I had a lot of loose skin

02:05:16.860 and um between that and losing weight so that made a huge difference for me not having the

02:05:22.680 extra skin down below so you feel better yeah I feel better that's amazing I had my abs sewn

02:05:27.780 back together too which is amazing because i love going to the gym it was like this big of a gap

02:05:34.820 yeah i used to be a fitness instructor yeah so they sew them back together yeah because there's

02:05:39.880 no way like you can't do traditional crunches and stuff did you get diastasis recti no no crazy and

02:05:46.340 you guys are the only ones with we're the only ones with kids right i think so yeah it's crazy

02:05:50.000 you have three yeah um mine looks the same she said mine is all good it does she does good down

02:05:59.960 there you feel like dating as a mom you're single right now yeah do you feel like dating as a mom

02:06:04.440 is hard because people don't respect that you're a mom yeah um but honestly i don't i think i just

02:06:11.680 want to stay single i don't want to bring anyone around my kids yeah i'm always scared to bring

02:06:17.140 somebody around them and then like they'll break up with you in like the most savage way possible

02:06:21.020 and then you need to like be a mom the next yeah and then you have to heal in front of your kids

02:06:24.360 yeah my son was like i don't introduce people i'm dating to my son but he's like oh mommy why

02:06:28.960 are you sad that way he's like are you happy he's like he's foreign he's like interrogating me yeah

02:06:33.720 does dick size matter to you guys that question's irrelevant yes what about you guys i don't like

02:06:39.460 i would say yeah but it's like i don't want it too big like i don't want something i just care

02:06:45.680 it's like five and up five and up is good five and under that's why i agree i think five and up is

02:06:51.280 five and under you better be carrying some good energy like seriously to replace see that's how

02:06:57.300 i know that i don't like guys because like the fact that you would like go for like some people

02:07:01.620 would overlook that and like love them despite having a small penis i feel like that's like real

02:07:08.000 love i would i would love a man if he had a small penis but he like really like took care of me and

02:07:12.280 he loved me back and i knew that i was loved you know also i feel like you can work with small

02:07:16.820 it like it does more than you think it does definitely yeah but no what i was gonna ask

02:07:21.920 you was when it comes to you like going to work well you too because you said you're a stripper

02:07:26.120 right so in the city do you ever run into just like some straight up weirdos that are constantly

02:07:30.600 trying to like i know there's the homeless people and there's some weirds like always walking the

02:07:34.580 street but have you ever dealt with like stalkers or like people just following you i've never seen

02:07:39.640 so many homeless people I got followed by a homeless person and I was surprised they're like

02:07:44.520 they stay in their own little groups yeah they're like no here and yeah the way they talk the way

02:07:53.240 they talk to each other is like I don't know it's like definitely like a separate like in LA there's

02:07:58.320 like a homeless community and they don't really interact yeah like other like in Chicago like the

02:08:02.760 homeless people are so like not even noticeable like you don't even notice them even when you're

02:08:07.340 a place right by here i walked by and there was like three or four of them they were just kind

02:08:12.060 of hanging out but they seemed like they probably hung out there that same spot like every day

02:08:17.340 one time i dated a girl who turned out to be couch surfing and she was like she actually she

02:08:22.680 was super masked like she literally looked like a boy but it turned out she was like a homie hopper

02:08:26.340 like does anybody know what a barracks bunny is oh i know what a home yeah she was a barracks bunny

02:08:30.440 and like my ex-husband was in the military a girl that like you know like if you want to get laid

02:08:35.060 you're going to hook up with this girl yeah so like my super max to the point that people thought

02:08:38.960 we were like heterosexual she was a barracks bunny for men yeah and she was like bi on the low

02:08:43.400 it was pretty crazy do you also do you do any like um if you don't feel comfortable answering

02:08:49.380 that's fine but besides only fans do you do like clubs like escort anything no nothing else just

02:08:55.080 for three years straight i feel like a lot of girls in la are low-key escorts because like

02:08:59.780 the math ain't math in chicago escorts are very like it's more it's more recognized and i would

02:09:05.540 say only fans like they're very popular we have poker girls in la do you guys have poker girls

02:09:09.920 anywhere else no like there's these like really high stakes poker nights and it's like sex worker

02:09:15.340 adjacent yeah i wouldn't do it though yeah i know there's a poker scene like in the city but i've

02:09:20.760 never like heard of any like other girls in that but like i just know that it can be very dangerous

02:09:25.800 if you mess with the wrong people that's what happened my friend married my friend that now

02:09:29.920 she does only fans married one of those guys and they were really weird yeah yeah no i've been

02:09:33.740 offered some like contracts and like when i went and like sent it to my lawyer it ended up coming

02:09:38.320 back in there like this is like i mean there's gonna always be those companies that have those

02:09:42.420 things but like as soon as it pops up was crazy like yeah yeah i feel like it's just not worth

02:09:48.340 like your mental health exactly and also too i've never done anything like that before so when i was

02:09:53.180 like I was like did I like I was like if I want to transfer to this I was it would change like my

02:09:59.620 morals and everything yeah and it was like I don't want to just do it for the money and I was like

02:10:03.460 I'm not going to change who I am just to sell my body so I have a question you're you're bi right

02:10:08.220 you like girls I'm not really I'm I'm more gay yeah I don't really like guys at all what is your

02:10:13.340 opinion on like sex workers would you date somebody for if they did like sex work probably

02:10:19.180 but then I don't really date feminine girls so I don't really think it would come up but it would

02:10:23.520 depend yeah maybe not like I'm monogamous would I date someone that does sex work yeah that is a

02:10:31.580 girl yes can you speak straight um I would not why because I also don't date feminine girls and

02:10:40.380 also moving forward um like it's just like rare for me to even like date a girl yeah you're looking

02:10:46.340 for like you know what you're looking for so it's not in your cards type vibe honestly I feel like

02:10:51.460 I messed around with a lot of girls when I was younger because you know like I'm just like

02:10:55.540 sexually free and like yeah like sexually like I will do a lot of things but like romantically

02:11:01.600 like to like involve myself moving forward I feel like it just like has to actually mean something

02:11:06.360 for me to want to pursue it yeah okay but if like even if they weren't like very like so anyways

02:11:12.980 Anyways, let's get into a different topic.

02:11:16.900 Some of you maybe have seen the show.

02:11:21.200 Sorry, I'm trying to save the chat here.

02:11:25.560 Does anybody have any disagreements with me on anything?

02:11:30.720 Some of you have maybe seen clips, you've seen the show, maybe.

02:11:35.000 Maybe you've heard things I've said.

02:11:36.660 Does anybody have any disagreements?

02:11:38.000 well i think that i still deserve you guys on everything holy shit

02:11:46.620 all right i remember seeing something at one time you were talking about um dating a 19 year old

02:11:55.380 and how you said if that's wrong like there's you said there's nothing wrong with it i don't

02:12:01.620 necessarily think it's wrong but i don't think a woman's brain is fully developed at 19 so i feel

02:12:10.260 like she's going to change and like you know not be the same person she is now like you know a few

02:12:21.580 years from now her beliefs could change her everything could change uh but i don't think

02:12:29.480 this is a particularly compelling argument against age gap relationships. So this same

02:12:36.860 phenomenon can be observed in women of any age. They could be 25, 30, 35, 40. People change all

02:12:44.980 the time. People oftentimes hide their true nature. There's a term for this where people

02:12:53.220 are on their best behavior the first couple months things change up but um women reserve the right

02:13:00.080 at any time to fucking change up she could be a 30 year old christian woman and then the very next

02:13:06.920 day she she could be a catholic she could be orthodox the very next day she can be like i

02:13:13.280 believe in divorce goodbye so this idea that well your relationship is going to be more stable uh

02:13:20.880 I'm 36.

02:13:22.360 Brian, date a 35-year-old woman, and your relationship's going to be more stable.

02:13:26.880 Couldn't be anything further from the truth.

02:13:29.820 I actually think that the reality is my relationship probably would be more stable with a woman who's younger.

02:13:36.460 She doesn't necessarily have to be 19.

02:13:38.560 She could be 22, 23, 24, 25.

02:13:42.900 But I don't know the specific clip you're referencing because I've stated I date women pretty much of all age ranges.

02:13:50.700 I've dated women older than me.

02:13:52.120 I've dated women my age.

02:13:53.640 So I'm not like exclusively like hanging out at college parties to like pick up fucking 18, 19, 20 year olds.

02:14:02.700 But if an 18, 19, 20 year old, like she hits me up, I'm not going to tell her no because she's 18, 19 or 20.

02:14:15.840 But you don't think it's necessarily wrong.

02:14:17.840 you say the the brain isn't fully developed yeah uh i mean it's not well how do you feel about that

02:14:25.540 like you know she's still technically growing you know but she's not a like she's developed

02:14:32.540 she's not a child i'm not saying that but i'm just saying like i feel like you know their brain's not

02:14:38.620 developed when you were 18 did you date someone that was older than you ever yeah i dated older

02:14:43.340 not like like 10 years old did you feel you were like you were taking advantage of no

02:14:47.760 but like when it comes to decision making like your prefrontal cortex isn't fully developed until

02:14:56.340 you're 25 yeah so i just i mean i don't look the prefrontal cortex thing i don't know like okay so

02:15:05.640 what is the the actual difference in development is it like okay at 18 it's 95 developed and then

02:15:15.420 at 25 it's a hundred percent developed are they fucking retarded at 18 and then at 25 they might

02:15:21.260 as well go to harvard like they're fucking genius iq at 25 ultimately this idea that like oh okay

02:15:27.900 well the prefrontal cortex isn't developed so this person is like a spontaneous uh chaotic

02:15:34.060 fucking mess and they're retarded i don't know if that's actually true is there some further degree

02:15:40.120 of development from the age of 18 or 20 up until 25, I suppose so. But then you also have to

02:15:46.360 counter that with, I actually think that there's mental decline after a certain age. Uh, in some

02:15:52.080 ways I actually feel like I'm not as, uh, my mental acuity, my mental, like I actually think

02:15:59.460 in some ways I might've been fucking a little smarter when I not smarter. I don't know what

02:16:05.920 the right word is mental capacity mental acuity might have actually been stronger when i was a

02:16:11.380 bit younger maybe in my mid mid-20s i think there's there is a bit of a decline so i mean

02:16:16.440 technically maybe these women maybe these fucking 25 year olds or even 20 year olds maybe i'm so

02:16:22.160 retarded uh they're taking advantage of me have you taken an iq test before i think uh i have not

02:16:29.180 like it was a pretty decent one but i mean iq there's other there's like eq and other kinds

02:16:36.340 i don't know i was surprised with my score i think you gotta be careful with the free tests

02:16:41.080 online no no i paid for mine even if you pay for it some of these tests will give you but yeah

02:16:46.840 grossly incorrect i hope that they didn't because they were like oh there's like purdue and like

02:16:52.020 everyone helps with these tests or whatever and so i hope i didn't get scammed or i'm gonna be

02:16:57.400 really upset i'll tell you this i had a girl tell me she had 146 iq and then the one that i took

02:17:05.380 i was like take this one and then it came back with 107 iq i got 118 so some of these online

02:17:14.780 tests there's quite a bit of variance um i took the mensa one uh but i i don't know

02:17:24.620 i feel but i what you were saying like how i feel like it depletes like i don't know why but

02:17:29.620 like when everyone talks about like the frontal cortex developing i like think that like when i

02:17:33.600 turn 25 i'm gonna have this like whole transformation like i'm like like i could

02:17:37.660 see it happening like my whole life flashes before my eyes and i feel like that's not

02:17:41.820 really how that's gonna be i feel like it's like about what life stages you're at because like if

02:17:45.340 you dated like olivia rodrigo or someone who's like you know she has her own place and all that

02:17:50.900 who's that guy olivia radriga i just like she's like a she's like that one wait that one song

02:17:58.060 where she's like who's that she's like a teeny bopper disney star but now she's 19 and she

02:18:02.380 always dates older guys i just and nobody has a problem with it because she's been like an adult

02:18:06.220 basically since she was but okay he's like and i left my car there yeah like she's like she has a

02:18:14.580 career and like nobody ever like comments on her age gap relationships because she's like

02:18:18.920 they see her as more of an adult and she's in that adult life stage type

02:18:22.620 vibe.

02:18:23.080 Right.

02:18:23.660 Like Millie Bobby Brown.

02:18:24.700 She's 21.

02:18:25.560 She had a second kid.

02:18:26.520 Okay.

02:18:27.400 But I mean,

02:18:28.120 I guess,

02:18:28.680 um,

02:18:29.180 I don't know this idea that,

02:18:30.540 uh,

02:18:31.140 the brain not fully developed.

02:18:32.900 It's like,

02:18:33.460 okay,

02:18:33.740 well at 20,

02:18:35.660 how much more development is there to be had?

02:18:40.280 Really?

02:18:41.440 Um,

02:18:41.920 is it 5%?

02:18:43.120 Is it 3%?

02:18:44.480 Also?

02:18:45.140 I mean,

02:18:45.580 look,

02:18:45.860 I have,

02:18:46.480 uh,

02:18:46.820 I have, uh, chronic brain fog and, uh, like I have a neck injury. So I don't know, I'm kind

02:18:54.780 of retarded. So I think technically these women are actually predators because I have some mental,

02:19:01.100 you know, like I, I, uh, I have brain fog. I have, um, I had a neck injury, which has an impact on,

02:19:08.220 you know, certain things. So, uh, these women are actual, they're preying on me because my

02:19:14.280 mental acuity is not these 18 year old college girls are predators when they're dating me to

02:19:21.440 be honest i have a question what's your opinion on like using the word retarded if like you're

02:19:26.920 not retarded well i am retarded because i'm autistic so like i can say it but like i'm fine

02:19:32.680 with are you on the spectrum or you just have neck problems

02:19:36.300 like a brain injury a tbi because like i have brain fog but it's from my ptsd

02:19:43.980 well okay on the question of the the r word the retard word yeah that's totally okay for anybody

02:19:50.120 to use okay you don't have to be a hold on what's that i got something for this the black-eyed peas

02:19:57.340 uh everybody knows you never go full retard you don't call retarded people retards yeah it's bad

02:20:05.300 taste yeah my friends retards when they're acting retarded my friend always says she's like kayla

02:20:11.600 you can use that word because you are retarded but others that are not cannot use that word

02:20:17.200 and i'm like i don't think that's true uh yeah i mean i'm totally fine with it yeah my my question

02:20:24.600 really was just are you actually retarded or like do you just have like neck i mean i'm saying it

02:20:29.140 i'm saying it in a joking way okay okay i didn't know if you actually like were or not all right

02:20:34.400 is there anything else you want to know what's your zodiac sign what's your attachment style

02:20:40.740 where did you grow up oh my god where were you

02:20:45.200 back on topic the age gap conversation do you have more um not at this moment i dated older

02:20:54.320 guys when i was in my 20s and i don't think they were weird it was like pretty fun not gonna lie

02:20:58.860 well they were like 35 so it wasn't like that much they were 35 and i was like 25 and honestly

02:21:03.900 like some of the best dates i've ever had like like they knew how to it was a fun date and look

02:21:08.760 to be clear um i'm not like going out i'm not on dating apps and like setting my age filter for

02:21:14.600 like 18 to 20 i'm not i'm not on you do i change my filter from um 30 and up love that um but i'm

02:21:23.400 not like i'm not i'm not even on dating apps period i uh like but if a 19 20 year old girl

02:21:32.200 hits me up in the dms or something i'm not gonna be like now look i have a pretty crazy uh vetting

02:21:39.900 process so i mean she could it's not like just default i'm gonna date somebody just because

02:21:47.740 they're 20 yeah she's gotta also not be fucking idiot too yeah also there's a lot of research

02:21:53.320 that like um women supposedly develop quicker like than men right so or that like even like

02:22:00.600 some men never develop as much as women do so well how about this what if um a woman who's 20

02:22:07.620 who has a genius level iq and really really high eq dates a guy who's 30 with a average iq and

02:22:16.400 average eq yeah then the maturity who's being more predatory is it the woman who has more assets

02:22:23.080 probably the girl but it's like they're still developed it's not like one is like incompetent

02:22:29.780 i mean i don't know that i think iq or eq really has anything to do with it i think

02:22:37.020 maybe your life goals do um if you're a man and you're wanting like a traditional wife

02:22:43.040 you may want to look for someone who's younger who isn't like establishing a career wasting her

02:22:48.140 younger years going to college racking up debt um there's part of me that wishes i hadn't wasted

02:22:55.440 my time going to college simply because I don't use my degree and I'm very happy being a stay-at-home

02:23:01.860 wife but I'm also homeschooling my kids but I mean like I did very well in school and there's a lot

02:23:08.980 of resources to help you really raise smart children without having a degree to support that

02:23:13.900 my husband's 14 years older than me and he we've said in conversations that he would recommend when

02:23:21.120 our son is older that he wait till he's like in his 30s a bit more established has his career going

02:23:26.980 before he starts really looking for a wife and then that he looks for someone who's quite a bit

02:23:31.320 younger um so that he can have if that's the dynamic he's wanting if he's wanting his wife

02:23:35.480 to be a stay-at-home housewife then he's able to find it um and someone who's going to be less

02:23:40.540 combative can i have a johnny pop no maybe later uh let's see i don't know uh okay does anybody

02:23:53.900 here have any want to weigh in on the age gap debate um when i was it would be 16 turning 17

02:24:03.660 in high school um i dated this guy well we weren't dating he strictly wanted to have sex with me

02:24:09.280 um and at first i 100 thought it was normal i was like this is okay he was 24 25 and i was like this

02:24:19.560 is normal this is okay and then i realized down the line i was like he was definitely taking

02:24:23.980 advantage of me um there was no uh there there was just a line like i'm 17 and you are over here

02:24:31.360 that almost twice my age well you were a you were minor yeah yeah well no the legal consent age in

02:24:37.060 indiana is 17 oh really yeah oh i didn't actually i think it's 16 oh okay that makes sense i feel

02:24:42.660 like um yeah one time i went on a date with this girl that was like 40 and like she was so weird

02:24:48.500 about it like she was like i was like okay like i thought i was gonna go great like i thought i was

02:24:52.860 like doing a good job on this date and then she was acting so weird she was acting like she thought

02:24:57.580 that like she was a predator and i was like girl we're just like in west hollywood right now like

02:25:02.120 don't get in your head it does suck like that because like at first you don't realize what's

02:25:06.840 going on and then i was like i don't want to never feel like that yeah i was like i'm employed i have

02:25:11.560 like five jobs in my own apartment brie don't you have some thoughts on the age gap stuff

02:25:16.860 i mean um i think life experience like has a lot to do with it um but yeah i think it is a little

02:25:25.680 i don't know like sauce if there was someone that's you know old enough to be

02:25:30.100 my like grandpa or if i was like let's say i was 18 and like there was a guy that's like in his

02:25:35.420 60s and he's like you know it's in my dms i'd be like okay that's a little like why aren't you

02:25:40.440 looking for someone more on your level and you know just because life experience i you know i

02:25:47.140 like um i mean i prefer dating guys in my age range because we can talk about the same tv shows

02:25:52.280 that we grew up on and just little things like that and i feel like someone way older than me

02:25:56.600 it's like what we would we even have to talk about you know unless you have like really strong

02:26:00.480 shared interests yeah something like that's true can you scoot your mic to the edge of the table

02:26:05.360 um yeah okay uh I mean yeah we can go to these kind of extreme examples where you have like a

02:26:12.080 70 year old trying to date a 26 year old um I think probably most the person on the younger end

02:26:22.980 probably isn't going to be into that but money or something I mean if you wanted to date him

02:26:29.520 and he wanted to date you i don't actually see an actual problem with it i mean yeah if it's

02:26:36.020 legal and consensual you're 26 so yes it would definitely be legal okay yeah just in general

02:26:41.940 like if guys are that go for like more like 18 year olds like that would also be legal that's

02:26:47.960 true but i'm just saying that it's still just i don't know it's still just it's like why not look

02:26:53.460 for someone more in your age range there's so many people out there well let's do something

02:26:57.640 more realistic so i'm 36 um i want to have kids i want to have uh family so from that perspective

02:27:05.800 wouldn't that be a really fantastic justification for dating a woman who's like 20 well you have

02:27:11.180 20 something but if it's just like you know if it's like exclusively or you're seeking out like

02:27:15.360 the 18 19 like barely legal then there is something like it's like it's like how low would you go if

02:27:20.460 the law said like you know let's just say the law said you can date a 13 year old it's like i feel

02:27:24.700 Like, there's so many guys that would date a 13-year-old.

02:27:27.320 Like, how Indiana, the legal age of 17, it's, like, would you sink down to 17?

02:27:31.540 Yeah, like, how low would they go?

02:27:34.260 It's legal.

02:27:35.040 I just honestly think it's just a little bit weird.

02:27:37.380 Like, as a 30-plus-year-old man, like, why are you going for somebody who just got, like, out of high school?

02:27:44.860 I think you've lived enough, like, life to, like, know, like, how to live it in a way.

02:27:51.100 And, you know, when you're freshly 18, you're probably still living with your parents.

02:27:54.000 and you're just kind of like kind of like a like a lost puppy and it feels like kind of like

02:28:00.720 i don't know like you're not even legal to like drink yet like what do i do with a 30 plus year

02:28:05.400 old man if i'm 18 i feel like some guys um they don't really think of it that way they don't look

02:28:12.000 as a as you just got out of high school they look at her as an 18 year old not oh you're barely

02:28:17.140 legal it's just how their mind works and how they perceived the girl they don't look at her like

02:28:22.120 that like they're not going to think about the high school aspect unless there's some weirdo

02:28:25.920 who's trying to purposely harm them uh they don't they're not going to go out of their way and just

02:28:30.700 be like i know she's freshly out of high school it's more or less it came up on bumble and it

02:28:34.680 said she was 18 i mean an 18 19 year old can be living on their own finishing up their first year

02:28:39.880 in college of college so um i mean it's your framing there is kind of a bit disingenuous

02:28:46.960 fresh she's literally a child she's freshly out of high school it's like it's very uh sort of

02:28:55.960 bad light framing um a yeah it's basically just frank doing a frame game um but ultimately um

02:29:07.020 yeah i mean in terms of i think you referenced commonality like okay so um

02:29:15.180 do you think men and women have a lot in common i mean they can if you have the similar like

02:29:22.200 similar tastes and more interests i don't think it's really a gender thing um i don't know okay

02:29:27.900 but since when has commonality ever been like the ultimate deciding factor in whether you date

02:29:35.360 somebody you cited to what if you like the same movies and blah blah blah first off i can show

02:29:41.800 her all the movies I can show her like get her on some good music so I can introduce her to all

02:29:50.180 that but then also it's like I don't know this this idea of commonality wouldn't you agree that

02:29:59.120 there are people who'd be your exact age or older who you have nothing in common with also well yeah

02:30:05.740 but then you probably wouldn't want to date someone or at least I wouldn't I prefer dating

02:30:09.820 people with my like it doesn't have to be exactly the same exact um interest but it would be nice

02:30:16.240 if we could you know go out and do things that we both enjoy doing together um i mean but also

02:30:23.780 i do understand opposites can attract but i don't know i'm just saying it doesn't even have to be

02:30:27.680 opposites but like okay do you think a 30 year old and a 20 year old and they're both part of the

02:30:33.600 same christian denomination do you think they have more in common than a 30 year old christian man

02:30:38.440 dating a 30 year old atheist well yeah probably so there's probably more alignment on like core

02:30:45.020 actually important values i mean yeah i guess yeah despite the age gap so a 20 year old christian

02:30:52.360 woman dating a 20 like catholic whatever dating a 30 year old catholic man there's more alignment

02:30:59.600 and more in common than he would have with a 30 year old like liberal atheist woman

02:31:05.740 well i suppose yeah if i was talking more like just generational things i'm just thinking in

02:31:11.280 my mindset of like what i'm looking for i just i don't know i couldn't imagine myself dating

02:31:16.360 someone that's way too like cultural cultural touchstones i guess like oh my god she didn't

02:31:23.220 have a game boy color like i don't give a fuck i don't know i'm really picky it's like we have

02:31:28.560 to like the same video game i feel like it matters more to some people but like i prefer dating

02:31:33.560 older people because i have a kid and i found that like people at least in la because you know

02:31:37.940 la is so like people age slower it's like i feel like i have to date someone like 36 for them to

02:31:43.820 be in the same space that i'm at you know what i mean because i'm like okay like i'm i'm a mother

02:31:48.040 you guys i have to wake up and like show this kid paw patrol like girl i also feel like it does have

02:31:53.280 to do with like what you like like if i'm gonna date a guy it's gonna be because we have similar

02:31:58.840 interests when it comes to what we like I'm not going to date a guy if we have nothing in common

02:32:04.020 and when it comes to things like that well okay um but I I don't know if I got an answer from my

02:32:11.280 question earlier which was um I'm 36 do you think it is more beneficial for me to date a 35 year

02:32:19.180 old versus a 20 year old well if you're saying because you want kids um I I mean 35 year olds

02:32:27.220 can still have kids, especially with like, well, that that's true. That's true. But let's say we

02:32:33.120 meet 35. Like you guys just met. Well, just to be clear. So, okay. Yes. Women can have kids into

02:32:37.840 their forties. Um, but of course, once you hit 35, fertility does start decreasing, but it's not

02:32:44.820 look, some people go about that conversation the wrong way. Oh my God. Once she's 35, she's,

02:32:50.340 she can't have kids. That's not true. Um, it does as you age, actually, I mean, starting at 25,

02:32:57.900 even your fertility gradually, slowly decreases. So, so, but yes, of course women can definitely

02:33:05.360 still get pregnant, but, um, just on that, that primary component, uh, when a woman's younger,

02:33:12.500 the, her fertility is better. Uh, her ability to bounce back is much greater if she's younger.

02:33:19.660 and if you want a lot of kids which it seems like you said you do then you need a young woman because

02:33:25.500 yeah she's not going to be able to bounce back if she's in her 30s and starting to have kids

02:33:29.040 versus in her early 20s i will say like i can't imagine having a kid like right now even like

02:33:34.120 but i had my first kid when i was 26 and i'd be like i would be scared of like the like

02:33:38.000 exhaustion level at the exhaustion level of somebody at like 26 versus 30 is like so different

02:33:43.500 you know like I'm tired I mean yeah there's that there's um you know okay say I'm 36 I made a girl

02:33:50.420 who's 35 okay uh let's date for one to two years and then start you we're not gonna have a kid

02:33:57.980 right away so she's gonna be 37 by the time we even start trying to have a kid and it's like

02:34:03.760 that's definitely less than ideal so there's a biological basis for men having an attraction for

02:34:09.480 younger women, younger women. Um, and then also just the reality is younger women are just more

02:34:16.180 attractive physically and that's tied to fertility a little bit, but I mean, I don't necessarily

02:34:21.840 agree that, um, women are always attractive younger. Like I, it's not the argument. I mean,

02:34:27.800 okay. Well, back to, um, the point, I guess since you want seven kids, then yeah, it would make

02:34:33.780 sense for you since that's what you want, like for a 20 year old. Well, here, let me double down

02:34:38.740 on this. So even if I didn't want

02:34:40.620 any kids, I'd still prefer to date

02:34:42.660 a 20-year-old. But why?

02:34:44.780 Because she's 20? She's more

02:34:46.580 attractive. Less baggage. Less

02:34:48.660 trauma.

02:34:50.340 Just more physically attractive. I mean, that's your

02:34:52.500 preference. I feel like trauma

02:34:54.020 is... Trauma's what?

02:34:56.120 I mean, is trauma based on age?

02:34:59.260 Because... Well, not

02:35:00.660 necessarily. But more happens to you.

02:35:02.500 Okay, so yes. Is it logically possible

02:35:04.820 that a 20-year-old can have

02:35:06.740 experienced more trauma than somebody

02:35:08.640 he was 30. Yes, absolutely. Um, however, a 30 year old has had 10 additional years of potential

02:35:16.960 life experience where they've, I mean, it could have been relationship baggage,

02:35:21.120 even if it's not like abusive levels of trauma. Uh, typically people get a bit of relationship

02:35:27.520 baggage, even if it's not like, like severe abuse, like, okay, you get more jaded as you get a bit

02:35:33.660 older. You lose a bit of your spark as you get a bit older, generally speaking. Um, and then just

02:35:40.020 on a purely physical level, this applies to both men and women. Uh, although there's some differences

02:35:44.600 between men and women. Yeah. As you age, you're not as typically, uh, you're not as physically

02:35:49.880 attractive. Yeah. I feel like I was talking to my friend about this earlier. Cause my friend and I

02:35:55.220 both went through a breakup and we're like, I feel like it was so much easier to date people

02:35:58.780 when you're younger because you don't have that like relationship baggage. And like somebody at

02:36:03.020 20 is, like, a lot more open to, like, fixing relationship problems and not, like...

02:36:08.160 What's up?

02:36:08.700 Huh?

02:36:09.280 What's up?

02:36:09.680 Is there a mic?

02:36:11.280 Everything okay?

02:36:14.140 What's going on back there?

02:36:18.580 Is there a particular reason, or can you say it on camera, please?

02:36:25.140 What's that?

02:36:27.120 Do you want to say it on camera?

02:36:31.180 We should at least do your notes.

02:36:33.020 okay are you okay uh can okay can you kind of give us an explanation there i guess or what's

02:36:47.700 going on alexis all is well what would you like to know off my notes well uh just i guess why did

02:36:56.720 You wanted to leave.

02:36:58.720 What's going on?

02:37:01.660 Didn't you, like, fly out here just to be on the show?

02:37:05.520 Okay.

02:37:09.860 So why did you want to leave?

02:37:12.300 Because I'm tired.

02:37:14.220 Is that okay?

02:37:15.340 What time is it right now?

02:37:16.960 It's 7.50.

02:37:17.940 Girl, take an energy shot.

02:37:18.900 We have energy drinks.

02:37:20.120 Yeah, it's 10 o'clock our time.

02:37:21.960 I'm tired, too, but I'm going to stay.

02:37:23.880 I'm going to do an energy shot.

02:37:25.520 i did have two hours of sleep because i got broken up with it two in the morning and i was

02:37:28.880 doing scrolling not not to put that on anyone else just take an energy i'm chilling though

02:37:33.840 sorry because you're not getting enough attention or oh no

02:37:41.520 uh okay

02:37:45.440 i'm happy to answer anything if you'd like if not that's fine too

02:37:50.480 uh okay um

02:37:55.520 bro um like a few times during this conversation i've tried to direct

02:38:06.000 conversation towards you and you're like giving fucking nothing oh if it's about like it so i'm

02:38:12.980 just confused like on one hand it seems like you want to leave because you're not feeling

02:38:16.960 like you're engaged enough in the conversation but the moments that i've tried to direct the

02:38:21.280 conversation towards you you've not been contributing oh no it's okay i don't i'm not

02:38:28.860 the amount of times you've talked to me is fine

02:38:31.240 okay so were you dissatisfied with the level of attention you were getting i'm just trying to

02:38:38.420 understand no okay because like in our in our questions or whatever um we do ask if you're

02:38:48.380 able to make it for the full production uh we disclosed like how long the show goes so

02:38:55.580 yeah maybe i didn't read the part of how long it was

02:38:58.740 are you hungry or something you want to order door dash or something

02:39:03.820 no i'm just i'm literally tired that's it you're tired okay dude you got plans after this or what

02:39:13.360 would i go to bed at like 8 p.m eastern every night so this is very late for me too

02:39:18.380 if it was something else i'd tell you like if i felt left out i'd literally just say it or talk

02:39:24.060 you're just wondering why with the preparation why you continue to sew

02:39:27.520 okay um all right well i'm gonna read your notes now for whatever um i do want to come back to i

02:39:35.900 guess the age gap stuff you should take an energy shot yeah let's try and stay for a little bit

02:39:41.480 productions are always long yeah just take an energy shot see how you feel i'll take one with

02:39:45.940 you yeah let's take shots guys yeah we can't all get off camera we can we can do one at a time

02:39:51.900 yeah we can do one at a time if she wants one i'm not getting any communication from her if she

02:39:58.860 wants to yeah that's true i would like one because i'm tired can i have some water please

02:40:05.500 all right tiffany help them out please i i do have a bloom energy drink there girl

02:40:10.920 me if you could pass it to me yeah i definitely see what you mean though with the whole age gap

02:40:16.000 thing because i'm like on i feel like the older i'm gonna i'm gonna table the age gap i'm gonna

02:40:21.520 do her notes uh okay we already went over the chubby chaser you have juicy stories from your

02:40:27.760 experience only being with big guys the one man that you dated in your life he was five two and

02:40:34.160 THREE HUNDRED POUNDS.

02:40:38.360 THANK YOU.

02:40:41.560 LET'S SEE, YOU WRITE, BEING A THINNER WOMAN WHO LIKES

02:40:45.300 OBESE MEN, DOING ONLY FANS AS A WELDER.

02:40:48.280 YOU WENT TO TRADE SCHOOL.

02:40:52.420 YOU SAID SOME OF THE VIEWER COMMENTS YOU DISAGREE WITH

02:40:58.780 ALONG WITH A FEW PAST GUESTS.

02:41:00.320 SO WHAT ARE YOUR DISAGREEMENTS?

02:41:03.960 With past guests?

02:41:06.100 Yeah, in your notes you wrote,

02:41:08.420 some of the viewer comments you disagree with,

02:41:11.340 along with a few past guests.

02:41:15.760 I disagree with some comments I get, but sorry.

02:41:19.700 Wait, what?

02:41:23.000 Okay, what are the things in which you disagree with?

02:41:30.140 Well, I guess I get a lot saying that, you know,

02:41:32.760 I'm being dishonest for liking overweight men,

02:41:35.380 which I'm not being dishonest about.

02:41:39.920 Yeah.

02:41:41.780 There's already garbage in there.

02:41:43.240 Okay.

02:41:47.980 So you wrote, though, when the question was,

02:41:52.320 anything you disagree with the show slash host on,

02:41:55.940 to which you wrote,

02:41:58.500 some of the viewer comments you disagree with,

02:42:00.980 along with a few past guests so as it relates to the past guests what are the things in which

02:42:07.660 you disagreed with them on i can't name anything specific i guess there's just been some like

02:42:17.520 you know uh directed toward women who do my line of work and

02:42:23.180 i don't know i don't have anything too juicy on that i can't think of anything

02:42:30.600 specific, I'm sorry. Nothing. Are these childproof? I can help you, girl. I have a toddler. You guys got fake nails. Yes, the nails. I'll help. If anybody can help, it's me. Just put the trash on the ground if you can. Or also you guys can use this cup. Oh my god, that is so mean. Or put it in the pocket. Yeah. Or put it in the pocket. Put it on the ground. It's okay, the lesbian will help. Do I drink the whole thing? Okay.

02:43:00.600 so yeah you check the whole thing this is one survey hey guys quiet please go ahead

02:43:05.100 i can't think of anything specific any specific comment at this very moment

02:43:10.900 you said that this you disagreed with comments directed at people in your line of work your

02:43:17.380 profession so like only fans right okay what um

02:43:23.460 hi dating podcast where conversation is expected sorry if i'm not moving quick enough for you

02:43:32.580 i'm thinking you can move on to someone else if you'd like sorry i'm trying

02:43:38.980 so what about the viewer comments you disagree with

02:43:43.140 i don't know the mean ones what but is there like a specific

02:43:51.200 you know they i can't read comments here and i can't recall you know a video i watched six

02:43:57.300 months ago if i could see the comments here i'd be happy to share my thoughts um all right you

02:44:04.220 said you went out with a 500 pound guy who got attention of tens everywhere you guys went

02:44:09.480 mm-hmm okay um uh you say women care less about men's height weight than they think

02:44:23.080 so that's a prompt would you like to elaborate

02:44:30.180 on i'm prompting you i'm yeah prompting you yeah i i just think a lot of men in modern

02:44:39.940 dating think that you know women won't date a guy who's under six feet tall and make less

02:44:45.140 than six figures and i just don't find that to be the truth i think women really don't care about

02:44:51.200 a whole lot women what do you think I agree I agree too I'm like I mean I do I like to think

02:45:00.260 that I have the high standards but like when it comes to like physically um my standards are not

02:45:04.900 that high when it comes to height um this has been a hard one for me because I'm tall I'm 5'9

02:45:10.680 so when I was in high school and I was very like egotistical and very in my head I 100% was like

02:45:18.320 I will only date a guy that's taller than me and when I did date someone that was my height

02:45:22.700 I was turned off by it but it wasn't more or less because of him it was like it wasn't because of

02:45:29.560 him it was just like my mentality and like my high school childish self and I was like I was

02:45:34.440 just like I had a standard and I didn't want to and I wanted to meet it and now is your dad taller

02:45:39.220 than your mom um no oh my mom was pretty tall she passed away last year but yeah my mom was really

02:45:47.220 tall yeah my mom's pretty tall too um but yeah no my boyfriend it's funny because like now my

02:45:51.660 boyfriend he's like shorter than me so and I love him to death honestly the first time that I dated

02:45:56.880 a guy that was like as tall as I am and I'm pretty sure please speak straight yes okay I am 411 and

02:46:04.020 um I dated a guy that was like 5'2 and the sex was really good because like the meat is like in

02:46:09.780 the perfect position yeah it's like it's not too tall you know like I don't have to like arch up

02:46:15.640 the only thing with being tall and eating someone short is like having sex in the shower

02:46:21.020 it doesn't work because i'm taller i like i like girls that are close to my height because like

02:46:27.020 it's weird if they're too tall like if they're too tall i'm like hey how's the weather up there

02:46:30.920 how are you doing like my boyfriend like can climb me like when i'm wearing platforms like

02:46:35.360 i feel like he can okay girl yeah like i like yeah i do feel like it depends though because

02:46:39.940 some girls seem to be like more superficial but i think it's like also a maturity thing

02:46:45.000 yeah 100% like when I was in high school I was like I want a tall guy like I was ruthless yeah

02:46:49.780 I was awful I was a I was I was a hoe in high school like I was a hoe and had very high standards

02:46:55.480 and that shouldn't have been it yeah I was so mean to men in high school if they dated me in

02:47:00.140 high school I'm sorry preferences has anything to do with maturity I think like me I'm gonna

02:47:05.040 say straight up like I like taller men I will not date a shorter man you like that's just like

02:47:10.220 that's just like I'm still like because I think in a way like when you're dating somebody like

02:47:14.220 Like, in a way, like, you're going to have to be, like, somehow, like, sexually attracted to them.

02:47:17.380 You need to be very sexually attracted to them in the beginning.

02:47:18.520 Exactly.

02:47:18.960 So it's, like, when they're tall, like, that's, like.

02:47:21.440 What about Kevin Hart?

02:47:23.080 Kevin Hart, no.

02:47:23.880 He's too little, girl.

02:47:24.800 Not too little.

02:47:25.480 But he's funny.

02:47:27.980 He's really funny.

02:47:29.200 But, no.

02:47:30.160 I like taller men.

02:47:31.440 I love your tattoos, by the way.

02:47:33.020 Thank you so much.

02:47:35.740 Okay.

02:47:37.520 Here, we're going to switch gears.

02:47:42.100 Let's do this.

02:47:42.880 uh, past, past should not matter. I think some of you agreed on that. Uh, we're just going to do

02:47:49.380 this. Okay. We usually do a bit later, but we'll just do it now. Uh, body count, body count. Yeah.

02:47:55.460 I have it in my notes app, but I'm pretty sure it's either five or six. Well, I wrote it down

02:48:00.060 because backstory, some girl told me she was like, what's your body count? And then she was like,

02:48:05.500 check your notes. And I was like, what? She was like, yeah, check your notes. Everybody has a

02:48:09.000 notes up i was like what i didn't know that everybody like writes down their body count

02:48:13.160 on the note i think when you're younger you do i do in order the names yes because i wanted to

02:48:18.380 know exactly what my real body count was five to six it's five to six what about you 28 28 okay

02:48:24.440 it's probably 20 and up okay i have a list it's 16 16 you have a list okay probably 30 30 maybe

02:48:33.780 like four okay like 25 one oh 15 cool healthy numbers what about you i'm a virgin he's lying

02:48:45.740 don't you have children what about the labia i don't know i just it's like a thing yeah you can

02:48:52.300 look at labia and still be a virgin like what like that's how we probably he said that it grips

02:48:57.460 the lips that grip right that was visceral no he was watching a video he saw it on a video

02:49:03.460 How would you know that they gripped, though?

02:49:06.280 He already shared when he lost his video.

02:49:07.820 Oh, no.

02:49:08.580 With AI technology now, you can actually feel it through the video.

02:49:12.380 Wait, I thought you were going to share yours.

02:49:14.420 He's a man with empathy.

02:49:15.520 I'm a virgin.

02:49:16.520 I'm a virgin.

02:49:17.300 But that's not true.

02:49:18.400 I'm actually waiting until I'm 40, so I can claim to be a 40-year-old virgin like the movie.

02:49:23.120 Do you want to lose your virginity to, like, 20-year-old, like, maybe on a high school?

02:49:29.300 I'm actually hoping to lose my virginity to, like, a geriatric woman.

02:49:32.740 Okay.

02:49:33.460 that's maybe like 60 or 70 oh that's sick that's gonna be like cobweb plus like i'm gonna go

02:49:39.220 i'm gonna go to the the nursing home yeah like you you'll like go down there and you'll have to

02:49:44.760 like blow on it like and cobwebs will fall off but like what kind of 60 or 70 like calabasas or

02:49:49.700 like no he's a nursing home like the appalachian trail no he's a nursing home the appalachian

02:49:57.040 trail you might like my grandma set me up hook it up yeah she's in a nursing home right now

02:50:02.920 And you'll have mixed children

02:50:05.920 Mixed? What do you mean?

02:50:08.340 I'm black, I'm half black

02:50:09.880 My grandma's black

02:50:10.640 You're black?

02:50:12.540 I'm half black, yeah, my mom's black

02:50:13.960 I can see the features

02:50:14.960 I have a sew-in right now, I naturally have really curly hair

02:50:17.800 I could see it

02:50:19.840 I used to be darker as a kid

02:50:22.580 But as I grew older

02:50:24.360 My melanin kind of just diminished

02:50:26.240 I'm actually half black too

02:50:28.640 So you'll have full black children

02:50:32.740 Well, actually, technically, so this is something that always annoys people.

02:50:36.140 My dad was born in North Africa.

02:50:37.880 My mom was born in America.

02:50:39.240 So technically, I'm African-American.

02:50:40.980 Oh, like Morocco?

02:50:42.320 I'm Russian and Ukraine, so.

02:50:45.180 Yeah.

02:50:45.600 I'm Mexican, but nobody believes me.

02:50:47.300 I'm Cherokee tribe, Indian, black, Russian, and Ukraine.

02:50:51.840 I could see the Russian girl.

02:50:54.320 Okay.

02:50:55.240 Here, we're going to do, what is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband?

02:51:00.000 um 60k that is not what you wrote on the paper tell me what you wrote on the paper

02:51:08.400 okay okay okay six to seven figures six to seven yeah well i mean like ideally that would be like

02:51:19.020 in an ideal world you know like but like what i would be like content with that's like a minimum

02:51:25.060 yeah minimum yearly income yeah but six to seven that's a massive range that's anywhere from a

02:51:29.560 hundred thousand dollars to ten million dollars more even uh or well nine point one nine nine

02:51:36.860 whatever um that would be like in like a dream dreamland you know okay so but for on the six

02:51:44.560 figure end what's the minimum give it give me a number um well like 60k would be like that that

02:51:53.960 is not six figures that's five figures yeah that would be like an actual like minimum you know

02:52:00.620 so 60k is five figures right so

02:52:10.580 oh my god wait you haven't asked us any like when was world war one

02:52:16.460 you're right i haven't i haven't done that yet that's a great observation no my favorite one

02:52:26.820 was what country was the vietnam war in here let's say oh my god oh my god let's save it

02:52:34.000 please guys so okay you wrote down six to seven figures so is the minimum a hundred thousand

02:52:41.640 well yeah i mean if you're talking about six to seven figures then that would be a minimum

02:52:49.460 yeah so not 60k no 100k yeah but that's only 40,000 more okay what about you um no preference

02:52:57.940 as long as like the bills are paid um and so there is a preference well okay like not

02:53:04.900 preference bills paid okay do you live with your open relationship yes boyfriend yes do you split

02:53:11.240 the rent or does he pay it uh well i i have a mortgage and it's mine it's in my name so i don't

02:53:17.000 expect him but does he contribute yeah he contributes but not to like the mortgage like

02:53:20.760 but he gives you money i mean like rent well he doesn't give really give me like he'll pay for

02:53:25.440 like um you know groceries and just things like that yeah all right i don't really i don't know

02:53:30.700 i'm not really high what about you 100 000 100 000 what about you 100 000 that's not what you

02:53:37.300 wrote. What did you write? No, I said $100,000 to $150,000. You wrote $150,000. Oh, did I say,

02:53:42.320 oh, sorry, I thought I did a parenthesis. Yeah, $150,000. Okay, what about you? I just want a

02:53:47.080 girl who matches my lifestyle. Like, I want to go to Erewhon together, so maybe like $70,000, $60,000.

02:53:52.160 What about you? Maybe like $20,000, $20,000, $30,000. Okay, $20,000, $30,000. Sure, if he has a job, that's good.

02:54:00.960 Okay, what about you? I said $30,000. What about you? I think I said $70,000 when I was dating.

02:54:06.540 that's what i imagined but my husband okay what about you um like 50k all right how tall are you

02:54:13.220 and what's the minimum height actually hold on really quick 150 000 and you live in chicago

02:54:19.380 why do you say it like that and you live in chicago well i mean based on my spending habits

02:54:27.540 and i thought you were in san diego yeah but chicago is a city and i'm from chicago i was

02:54:33.020 born and raised over there okay i just got here not too long ago how long ago i'm new to this not

02:54:37.980 true to this okay um um just based on my lifestyle and like how i am and just what i've been given

02:54:45.800 uh yeah that would be i want them to make equal to it or more than my parents make parent made

02:54:52.240 you want a guy to make equal to what your parents make parent or parent yeah your parents make

02:55:00.420 150 more yeah but I don't understand that so just like what if your parents made a million dollars

02:55:08.800 a year no I wouldn't expect that because I mean well I wouldn't know because that's not what they

02:55:13.860 have but what I was given and what I'm used to and what I know I would there's certain things

02:55:18.920 that I would get rid of and that I would sacrifice but when it comes down to what I like and

02:55:23.860 what I want to live uh yeah that would be the salary because I'm not going to dim down what

02:55:29.480 i'm not used to how much do you make though um it depends on the month but are you talking about

02:55:36.760 what i make with kaylee's creations or what i made when i worked retail well you're currently

02:55:41.480 because right now i i'm applying to work at a dispensary you've been dating a guy for one year

02:55:45.720 over a little year how much does he make um well and how old is he he's 24 and it's hard to say

02:55:53.280 what he makes because he lived in florida and then he moved to chicago to be with me so he just got

02:55:58.520 the job at the airport so he hasn't had like a yearly pay stub okay so i think he's gonna make

02:56:05.760 by the time he's 30 35 you think he'll make 150k i think that he can do that yes 100 he can but

02:56:12.500 you think he will you know yeah does he have a college education no he has a job at the airport

02:56:20.800 what does he do baggage handling no he right he has the certification to drive the tugs and to do

02:56:28.460 like all of the actual transporting and he can drive all the like machines that are on the runway

02:56:33.220 yeah he tugs he drives the tug and he also transports baggage or how much does it pay i don't

02:56:42.120 know uh okay chicago o'hare o'hare uh what's the title um i guess he works for airplane tugger

02:56:56.720 salary wait no because it's a certain company that he works for he works for AGI

02:57:00.200 aircraft ground handling tug driver generally AGI generally range from approximately 18

02:57:09.380 to over 20 an hour yeah and he's not going to keep that job annual pay typically falls between

02:57:16.000 27,000 and 45,000 dollars nationally it's like poverty but also that's like we live with my dad

02:57:22.820 So it's like he's not going to keep that job.

02:57:25.180 That's not the job I expect to make $150,000 with.

02:57:27.320 So what is the trajectory from 24 to, by the time he's 30, 35, making $150,000?

02:57:35.180 What do you, like, getting a different job that can get more?

02:57:39.140 Well, you said $150,000 is your minimum.

02:57:41.620 So are you dumping this guy if he continues?

02:57:44.740 I thought I put a little, one of those things.

02:57:46.940 I said $100,000 to $150,000, but then I just decided on $150,000.

02:57:50.360 My thing should have said $100,000 to $150,000.

02:57:52.000 And $100,000, if he doesn't make $100,000, that's great, even lower.

02:57:56.360 No, I wouldn't leave him.

02:57:57.300 Would you leave him?

02:57:58.100 Because at that – well, no, I don't know because it's like I haven't had to make that sacrifice where it's like, oh, put this because you can't get this.

02:58:07.080 I haven't had that with him.

02:58:09.140 So it's not – like I haven't had that happen.

02:58:13.240 But, okay, let's say this.

02:58:14.840 Let's say you're 23, correct?

02:58:19.140 Let's say you're still single at 30.

02:58:20.640 I'm not single

02:58:22.260 Huh?

02:58:25.340 I'm not single

02:58:26.180 If you didn't have breakfast today

02:58:29.400 How would you feel?

02:58:32.320 Dad?

02:58:34.960 Wait, what?

02:58:36.780 You just said

02:58:37.820 Having a

02:58:38.680 In 30

02:58:39.740 You said at 30

02:58:40.900 Yes, I'm saying

02:58:41.120 So I'm posing you a hypothetical

02:58:43.000 Okay

02:58:43.340 Let's say at 30

02:58:44.660 You are single

02:58:45.560 Right?

02:58:46.500 Okay

02:58:46.700 That's what I was trying to get at

02:58:47.680 Oh, okay

02:58:48.300 Would you only consider

02:58:50.300 dating men who make $150,000?

02:58:52.620 If I was 30 now?

02:58:55.660 Or

02:58:56.060 when you are 30?

02:58:58.740 You would only date?

02:59:00.080 No, I would not only date.

02:59:02.400 Wait, you just said yes.

02:59:03.840 I thought you were saying, would I date?

02:59:06.360 Like, is that what I'm like?

02:59:07.800 No, because you said your bare minimum

02:59:10.260 is only $100,000.

02:59:12.060 No, if I was 30 years old, I would not only date men that made

02:59:14.220 $100,000. If you were single now,

02:59:16.320 would you only date men who make $100,000?

02:59:17.860 But I'm not going out of my way to ask what they make.

02:59:21.240 But you said the minimum income to be your future husband.

02:59:25.080 Yeah.

02:59:25.520 So how about this?

02:59:26.420 You're dating a guy and you have a magic eight ball right here.

02:59:29.960 We'll fucking do it right now.

02:59:32.440 And the magic eight ball tells you, you ask it, will he at any point in his life, say 40, will he make $100,000?

02:59:40.120 And if the magic eight ball could give you a number, it says, no, he'll only make 50,000.

02:59:45.900 Yes, I would leave.

02:59:46.680 You would leave.

02:59:47.560 Okay, so let's see.

02:59:49.200 I'm going to ask the Magic 8-Ball a question.

02:59:51.300 Will she get a guy who makes $100,000 or $150,000 a year?

02:59:59.840 This 8-Ball fucking sucks.

03:00:01.660 You have to put it this way.

03:00:02.760 Yeah, you got to go.

03:00:03.720 Wait, wait, wait.

03:00:04.280 Here, you read it for me because I don't want her to think I'm lying.

03:00:07.620 Don't bet on it.

03:00:10.240 We must defer to the Magic 8-Ball.

03:00:13.580 My dear, I don't think you're going to get a guy who makes $150,000.

03:00:17.560 It's okay, because, I mean, at the end of the day, that's what I'm striving to make for myself.

03:00:21.660 So if he can't afford that and I've got to pay a couple dinners here and there, I'm fine doing the 50-50.

03:00:27.300 Oh, then why put it?

03:00:28.260 Okay, well, you wrote down minimum, so I'm in.

03:00:31.700 When that comes down to it, it's like minimum, what would you want your ideal guy to have?

03:00:36.600 No, no, no, no.

03:00:37.840 Ideal, you would want a trillionaire.

03:00:39.660 I don't understand.

03:00:40.360 Yeah.

03:00:40.580 So ideal and minimum are different.

03:00:43.320 Well, minimum, no.

03:00:44.380 It's like, but no.

03:00:46.040 Sorry.

03:00:46.660 Minimum, yeah.

03:00:47.240 it's a yeah a hundred thousand but if he doesn't make that am i gonna like it depends like ideally

03:00:55.000 wouldn't you want to date a guy who makes a hundred million dollars a year i mean that's the

03:00:58.680 ideal if he has a shitty personality and he's a shitty person no right but like but yeah i would

03:01:05.140 yeah the minimum is like when we're talking about the minimum that's okay so minimum i would not

03:01:10.220 date like the normal

03:01:12.300 guy who I would otherwise date.

03:01:13.820 Okay, 60K.

03:01:18.180 I feel like it has to match

03:01:19.880 your own lifestyle. That's what I'm saying.

03:01:22.020 That's why I say 100K because that's like

03:01:23.960 I've seen... Wait, but question.

03:01:25.900 You said you have to match the lifestyle,

03:01:28.300 right? But let's

03:01:30.220 say I'm not suggesting

03:01:32.160 this is the case for any of you. Let's say

03:01:34.140 the woman's really obese,

03:01:35.960 but she's really rich.

03:01:38.880 She's going to have a

03:01:39.840 really hard time finding a guy who's a millionaire that's true because they at the end of the day

03:01:44.800 they still like i feel like because i also work one of my uh one of my tiktok streams is luxury

03:01:50.220 sales and definitely some of my co-workers are like way above like 150 and i will say like first

03:01:57.120 of all i don't think they want to date they don't want to date somebody that doesn't come from their

03:02:00.540 same background at the end of the day but then she still has to be hot right you know this idea

03:02:06.920 here is like as a woman let's say you're you're a business owner and you make a million dollars a

03:02:13.000 year if your standard is then good but you're like 300 pounds like just because you make a lot

03:02:20.700 of money that's gonna probably close doors for you because you're not willing to date a guy

03:02:26.600 who makes uh maybe i don't know maybe data guy makes 500k but are you gonna want to date a guy

03:02:33.580 who makes 40k 50 60k if you're making a million as a woman no probably but but men don't value

03:02:43.700 a woman's money yeah exactly so women do women want to be taken care of what women want to be

03:02:49.560 provided for at the end of the day every girl you're saying minimum like yeah 60 but what i

03:02:55.560 know and like what i like to spend i like handbags i like expensive things i like designers so it's

03:02:59.940 like so you like so hold on you like expensive handbags so perfect guy but like I buy my own

03:03:08.100 handbags but I would like my guy to have that because it's like it's nice to have but at the

03:03:13.880 end of the day I can buy my own things so okay let's say hypothetically I wasn't the starving

03:03:19.880 college student that I am I wasn't a starving artist that I am and you know let's say

03:03:27.000 hypothetically i made seven figures a year hypothetically uh you know i made a million

03:03:33.860 two million dollars a year hypothetically i'm not asking you to spend that on me it's just i like to

03:03:38.900 know that you have that i'm not buying you jack shit i don't know where you're going with that

03:03:43.280 no i'm saying like i'm not saying you i mean like if the person you're using you yeah okay i

03:03:48.980 understand i'm not buying you shit either great love it so the question is though if i can try to

03:03:56.380 finish my thought is even if i make a million two million a year and i'm good and i can afford to

03:04:04.460 buy a five thousand ten thousand dollar purse okay i did not say that expensive okay i don't

03:04:09.820 know how much purse is fucking okay a nice handbag like coach like 500 i the most i spend on a handbag

03:04:15.640 is a thousand dollars if i make a million dollars a year hell will freeze over sooner than i would

03:04:23.160 ever buy my girlfriend a $5,000 purse. I don't expect my boyfriend to buy me a $5,000 purse.

03:04:30.800 Like I said, I would buy it for myself, and I bought every single one of my purses by myself.

03:04:34.240 I won't buy her a $500 purse. She can get a purse at Costco. She can get a purse at Amazon.

03:04:39.040 You sound like my boyfriend. Your boyfriend's a fucking legend, though.

03:04:42.120 Because he goes, Keely, you don't need your nails done for the show. You don't need them done.

03:04:47.260 And then my dad gave me the money for my nails.

03:04:49.860 okay um anyways um i don't know where we were see and this is why i have preferences because

03:04:58.280 i don't want that for myself this is why i said that you have to make the choices

03:05:01.660 that you want your life to well also to be married to a rich man and you want to be

03:05:06.340 financially taken care of you need to make those choices he is correct though because i am not

03:05:10.200 walking on a red carpet i'm on a podcast so is he correct yes choosing that man that that tells

03:05:15.260 you don't get your nails done he didn't say i couldn't he was just saying i have your nails he

03:05:18.780 He was just saying, for this trip, do you really need

03:05:20.800 your nails done? And guess what?

03:05:22.580 I still got them done when I wanted them.

03:05:25.420 He didn't say anything about me

03:05:26.660 getting a sew in.

03:05:27.700 He knows that I have to get my hair done.

03:05:30.180 So you have to choose that man.

03:05:31.380 He was the one who paid for my hotel here and he was the one who paid for my

03:05:34.600 trip here.

03:05:35.940 Again, if it's the nails that weren't it

03:05:38.760 but he paid for my whole trip,

03:05:40.360 that's something different.

03:05:43.040 Shaving a woman's head isn't off the

03:05:44.720 table as far as I'm concerned.

03:05:46.340 I think it's just interesting because

03:05:47.880 like um we're really down yeah like i mean like if a man wants to have like a good relationship

03:05:53.400 fertile relationship with seven kids then he should date a younger girl you know and if you

03:05:58.880 want to end up with a rich baby daddy you should make those choices you know i will say like my

03:06:04.840 kid's dad like it's interesting you can't just keep on putting your standards down to be with

03:06:08.980 this guy that could it's not putting your standards down it's more or less getting um what is it

03:06:14.220 held when you meet in the middle of compromise like i just paid for having faith i just have

03:06:18.360 your whole i just paid for your whole entire trip why do i also need to get your nails done

03:06:21.740 you're right baby you don't need to get my nails done you just paid all this money for this

03:06:25.200 i will find my way to get my nails done pay for fake nails ever why because they're fake nails

03:06:32.060 and they cost money and they ruin your nails not women don't need fake nails fake nails serve no

03:06:37.900 utility they don't i 100% agree with you they are i know but they're and guess what it's hard

03:06:44.040 wipe my butthole and type on my keyboard when i'm gaming but guess what i like looking like this

03:06:48.400 there's probably crazy bacteria under no and no i just got these done but no like when i'm gaming

03:06:54.040 and i have you pooped since you got the nails no no actually i haven't i've been peeing you're

03:06:58.880 constipated well if you always tell your girl never get your nails done never get your nails

03:07:03.600 done and then you see a girl she has these beautiful nails and you're looking at them

03:07:06.880 i can then i see you it's so hard to game i'm i'm gonna be having a day for real i'm a gamer

03:07:12.860 Worst day ever.

03:07:13.840 I can fix her.

03:07:14.840 She's part of the – it's the slave mind.

03:07:18.280 So fake nails, fake labia.

03:07:19.580 Get her into rock climbing.

03:07:21.540 Fake nails, big labia.

03:07:22.820 She's for you.

03:07:24.100 No, you know, look, you got to –

03:07:27.040 If you met me and I have my nails done, I have my lashes done, I have my hair done,

03:07:31.020 you should be able to maintain that because that's how you met me.

03:07:33.360 That's how you, like, saw me.

03:07:34.500 But that's not his –

03:07:35.060 You shouldn't be, like, disappointed whenever, oh, I don't have my hair done.

03:07:38.520 But that's not his responsibility to keep your glamour.

03:07:41.780 You should maintain that if you like that.

03:07:44.220 You have to enlighten and guide a woman away from her consumerist vain behavior.

03:07:52.360 You got to show her the way, the path.

03:07:55.900 Yeah, but you have to appreciate her as she is.

03:07:57.920 I do appreciate her naturally.

03:07:59.580 So would you not let me get a sew-in?

03:08:01.040 Like if I was dating this girl, them fake titties are out.

03:08:03.860 I'm sending you back under surgery.

03:08:05.380 Would you not let me get a sew-in if we were dating and I went on the show?

03:08:09.520 What?

03:08:10.080 A sew-in.

03:08:10.700 What the fuck is that?

03:08:12.040 So I have a show-in right now where they take fake human hair, real human hair, and they

03:08:17.480 sew it into your scalp.

03:08:18.480 I'm putting you in a fucking burka.

03:08:19.760 That's what I'm doing.

03:08:20.460 In a burkin?

03:08:21.120 That's fine.

03:08:22.300 Burka.

03:08:23.040 I really want to know what your hair...

03:08:25.000 I'm not even Muslim, but you're getting a burka.

03:08:26.100 Wait, is that an off-brand burkin?

03:08:28.300 Wait, what?

03:08:28.840 Oh, my God.

03:08:29.060 Do you know what a burka is?

03:08:30.060 No.

03:08:30.420 It's a fucking Muslim.

03:08:32.440 Oh, the...

03:08:33.180 It's the one that covers, like, you only see your eyes.

03:08:35.280 Yes, yes, yes.

03:08:36.660 I will say, it's crazy how much guys have to, like, pay for girls, because, like, my

03:08:40.640 kid's dad is like oh like this girl is asking me to pay for all these things and it's like that's

03:08:44.680 not something that i have to deal with with dating like girls so it's like it it do be expensive i

03:08:49.900 was supposed to be straight male order a burka for what hey why for the show yeah just like

03:08:56.280 to see if any girls would be down to put one on on the show i will you should put it on the doll

03:09:00.820 i have a furry one but it's like made like it's like it's covered in like i'm gonna put lexi in

03:09:06.500 a burka? I would be in a burka. I would be in a burka with a Catholic chain on, or what

03:09:14.360 is it called? Rosary? I'm so sorry. Is that a seal? I don't know. Okay. How tall are you

03:09:29.880 and what's the minimum height of a man you would date? I'm 4'11 and the minimum height

03:09:34.160 would be five seven five eight um i'd say like five seven how tall is your boyfriend uh five nine

03:09:41.500 okay what about you i'm five one i i think i put five five and above um i'm five nine

03:09:52.160 and minimum of a day is five seven i'm four eleven and she can be my height but preference

03:09:57.680 preference preferentially like an inch or two like on me you know okay like a little

03:10:04.160 I'm 5'3. I don't really care. I don't have a preference.

03:10:09.120 I'm 5'4 when I'm feeling extra confident, and they just got to be my height or higher.

03:10:16.920 I'm 5'8. My husband's 6'1.

03:10:22.760 I'm 5'5. I know I wrote 5'4 there, but I'm actually 5'5.

03:10:28.380 the only reason um so i thought i was five four for the longest and then me and this girl at work

03:10:36.880 she was like you got to be like five six i was like i'm not five six and so we measured each

03:10:41.560 other and i'm five five and i would only date five seven or higher okay pretty reasonable there from

03:10:50.440 everybody we have uh a question here from oh also guys uh debate university.com

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03:11:08.940 a course video tutorials video tutorials debate university.com also guys if you're enjoying the

03:11:15.040 stream, like the video. Gorlock the Destroyer, on a scale of 0 to 10, rate your own looks.

03:11:22.380 Do it face, body, total. You can't pick seven, so let me give you an example. I guess I can

03:11:28.540 answer it first. Face, 4.5. Body, 4.5. Total, 4.5. So say it just like that if you can. Go ahead.

03:11:36.400 okay um face six um body five uh total 5.5 okay um face five body six total 5.5

03:11:51.240 um face probably like nine 9.5 uh body

03:11:59.980 I would give it

03:12:03.580 a 9

03:12:04.980 total

03:12:06.920 wait like as in like 9 plus 9

03:12:10.100 or like

03:12:11.380 everything all together

03:12:13.480 9

03:12:14.660 like what would you

03:12:16.360 a 9?

03:12:18.040 the total number would still be on a scale of 0 to 10

03:12:20.700 yeah

03:12:22.100 9

03:12:24.980 9

03:12:25.780 9

03:12:27.220 No.

03:12:27.340 Okay.

03:12:28.660 All right.

03:12:29.040 So just to be face, 9.5, body, 9?

03:12:32.500 Okay.

03:12:33.160 Total 9.

03:12:33.640 Okay.

03:12:34.000 What about you?

03:12:35.220 Face, I would do 8 if I didn't have a double chin, 8.5.

03:12:38.140 And then body, ooh, I'm a little chubby right now.

03:12:41.880 I'd say 6.

03:12:42.940 Sorry, face, 8.5, you said?

03:12:45.960 L.A. is like.

03:12:46.620 Wait, wait, hold on.

03:12:48.460 And then body.

03:12:48.800 Sorry, I just didn't hear you.

03:12:49.920 Oh, yeah.

03:12:50.700 Face, 8.5.

03:12:52.420 No, 8.

03:12:53.160 It would be 8.5.

03:12:53.940 You didn't say 8.

03:12:54.620 Okay.

03:12:54.820 and then um six for my body so total eight

03:12:59.540 uh what about you la is like super cutthroat so it's humbled me so i feel like face like six

03:13:15.220 and then body 6.5 so average like 6.25 okay what about you i'd say face five maybe body

03:13:24.660 five five like face three body four so like 3.5

03:13:31.700 uh face six body five 5.5 face five body five so five okay mostly pretty reasonable

03:13:45.840 from everybody maybe some slight disagreements except for two of you

03:13:52.260 nine point five eight point five i said eight oh excuse me you said eight because of the double

03:14:03.060 chin yeah i like when i work out and i'm slim and this is gone and i have like my jawline

03:14:10.040 like this right here you see this this i do see that i definitely see that yeah that needs to go

03:14:17.640 it down a bit more yeah oh my god this is so bad like oh sorry i didn't mean to but like if i but

03:14:25.260 like yeah this needs to go i get it from my dad you could get lipos that's i know that's no as

03:14:31.820 soon that's the one thing that's gonna go i'm just waiting till i turn 25 so it actually like uh why

03:14:37.080 why can't average women just think that they're average looking but okay hold on i'm gonna get

03:14:44.480 into that but first we have a tts coming through claim donated two hundred dollars yo thank you

03:14:51.020 toxic femininity is the theme tonight chair one has such a high opinion of herself where do chair

03:14:57.360 one and two dance you both look like strippers is the point they all full of shit where's andrew

03:15:04.320 didn't you say one didn't you say 5.5 wilson who andrew wilson he's is on the show a lot

03:15:12.580 didn't you give yourself a 5.5 i'm exposing myself right now i've like only seen it on instagram i've

03:15:18.460 only seen the show on instagram you can pull that up natalia thank you for the gifted 20

03:15:22.100 memberships guys w's in the chat for natalia thank you natalia she's my favorite natalia

03:15:28.420 oh favorite person i know names natalia uh all right thank you natalia thank you thank you for

03:15:35.340 the 20 i don't know why wait why does you think that we look like strippers like have you have

03:15:40.720 you ever taken a step outside of your house have you ever touched grass i was gonna say they said

03:15:45.000 that you're full of yourself you gave yourself an 8.5 like they're humble like what do you think

03:15:49.400 i'm wearing right now just like a bikini hello you are wearing a bikini top i am wearing a bikini

03:15:55.300 top that's zipped up with the long anyways okay um back to this so uh thank you claim by the way

03:16:02.160 for the message uh okay yeah why why don't average women just think that they're average looking

03:16:09.780 no nothing i feel like it depends on your perspective because like i think like after

03:16:21.300 i i've been working on tiktok for like two years and i think you start to see your appearance in

03:16:25.400 more of an objective way plus i work for like chinese companies and they'll be like your makeup

03:16:29.500 doesn't look good like that so it's like w china i love them though they're amazing they're so blunt

03:16:35.000 but like i think when when you start to work in an industry that's on your appearance you start

03:16:39.760 to separate like how you feel about yourself from like your appearance you know what i mean

03:16:43.600 being in the modeling industry especially being a goth and being alternative you definitely see a

03:16:48.380 lot of different people in a lot of different ways wait you're you're a model i do um i didn't

03:16:55.860 you look at my instagram before i do amateur modeling i modeled for the alley in chicago

03:17:02.340 twice the alley they're like the biggest alternative goth clothing store in chicago

03:17:07.320 who the fuck is that guy yeah muhammad ali no like goth like alternative fashion

03:17:13.880 okay um i also do modeling yeah my dashing striking good looks and then when i was yeah

03:17:24.640 when i was little i did um think high of myself looks okay when i was little i my mom like grew

03:17:31.900 up with putting me in like agencies and everything and then as i started gaining weight i stepped out

03:17:36.660 of the actual Victoria's Secret one-way perfect model

03:17:40.220 and started modeling for alternative brands.

03:17:44.460 I have a couple questions.

03:17:47.180 Tell me a guy, so you're 9.5 face.

03:17:51.040 Tell me a man who you think is a 9.5 face.

03:18:02.080 Repeat that question.

03:18:04.080 A man that's a 9.5 in the face.

03:18:06.660 So describe their face.

03:18:08.520 No, like what is a man, a celebrity that you would consider a 9.5?

03:18:13.380 Like if you think you're a 9.5, who's your equal?

03:18:16.040 Like who's your celebrity match?

03:18:17.900 Or just who is a male who's a 9.5?

03:18:23.760 I think Jacob Elordi is pretty hot.

03:18:29.140 Google it, please.

03:18:30.080 What about you?

03:18:31.120 Male?

03:18:31.880 Yeah.

03:18:32.100 adam sandler adam sandler's an 8.5 yeah to you okay we can see where your scale is

03:18:43.960 coming from all right do you have jacob alordi

03:18:47.540 what uh can you hit the image tabs please i am wait why are we comparing ourselves to men

03:18:59.140 Shouldn't we be doing a woman?

03:19:00.100 Yeah, we'll do that in just a second.

03:19:01.720 Okay, so this...

03:19:03.080 Jacob Elordi, that is your looks match.

03:19:09.060 Like, who I look like?

03:19:12.640 No, your looks match.

03:19:15.000 So obviously, he's a white and you're Asian, so...

03:19:18.240 Youngblood is my real choice.

03:19:20.500 Youngblood?

03:19:21.440 Yes.

03:19:21.780 Okay, Google Youngblood, please.

03:19:25.120 8.5 Youngblood?

03:19:27.000 I said 8.

03:19:27.960 okay eight that's fine let me know when you have it uh young blood uh okay um yep that that dude

03:19:39.900 okay um can you zoom or or ozzy or ozzy osborne all right down a little bit

03:19:47.180 okay all right um that's actually like pretty spot on like his face is like an eight but his body

03:19:55.820 10

03:19:56.960 okay and then let's do

03:20:04.100 and so

03:20:04.940 Jacob Lordi that's

03:20:07.820 your match Youngblood

03:20:09.800 that's your match give us a woman

03:20:11.820 who's a 9.5 and then a woman who's

03:20:13.860 an 8 and then get ready to look them up

03:20:15.780 can I actually

03:20:21.900 look at her Instagram I think her name's

03:20:23.840 Veronica but I have to double

03:20:25.760 her name's veronica thank you that's very helpful well no she's a she she does um like human

03:20:30.620 suspension she was my trainer so i like need a look it's veron i believe her instagram is

03:20:34.840 veronica queen of pain just give us a celebrity jenna ortega jenna ortega jenna ortega jenna

03:20:43.160 ortega isn't she the one who fucked her eyebrows up yeah let's do pre-fucking up the eyebrows jenna

03:20:50.100 ortega

03:20:52.500 because the fourth picture

03:20:58.820 she looks so

03:21:03.780 i don't know these some of these photos are not particularly flattering of her like scroll down

03:21:09.180 okay so that's what she looks like so like the third like the dead corpse is giving but like

03:21:14.080 scroll up scroll up like for example the one where she's wearing that weird

03:21:18.680 fucking tie or whatever. I think the third one is

03:21:20.960 very hot. Like, aesthetics there are definitely

03:21:22.940 better than, like, the one

03:21:24.540 to the left of her Wikipedia

03:21:26.640 article. She looks like she's, like, on something.

03:21:29.120 Um, yeah, the eyebrow shit is

03:21:30.980 fucking weird. No, the Tim Burton look, it just makes her dark,

03:21:33.140 like, it gives the ghost look.

03:21:34.840 But, I mean, scuffed

03:21:36.700 Jenna Ortega, you mog

03:21:38.280 Jenna Ortega, to be honest.

03:21:41.620 Mog. She mogs

03:21:43.040 Jenna Ortega.

03:21:44.820 Uh, okay, girl, for you.

03:21:48.680 it's like celebrity like big like yeah um

03:21:55.420 oh um the girl that plays uh the mother in adam's family

03:22:03.960 i okay whatever it doesn't matter he can have to say to jones yeah yes here let's do this uh

03:22:12.820 You, wait, Catherine Zeta, okay, you can Google that, I guess.

03:22:18.020 Like young Catherine Zeta-Jones or?

03:22:20.720 Yeah, like young.

03:22:22.060 Okay, do young, type young on that.

03:22:28.840 All right, show us.

03:22:36.900 Okay, guys, like the video if you're enjoying the stream.

03:22:42.820 tts 200 read 100 do you have it

03:22:46.840 oh slay girl eat it up eat it up she's not katherine it was katherine zita okay whatever

03:22:58.080 um uh all right rate you rate me on this uh just face i guess a five a five okay uh so

03:23:09.720 and you're eight so i'm three points below you sure yeah okay so you would be doing me a lot

03:23:18.420 of favors like you would be you would be settling for me if you were on the looks front anyways

03:23:23.680 if we were to date is that correct

03:23:25.980 okay uh

03:23:31.840 i'm trying to think where else to go with this i do want to propose uh here's my analysis of the

03:23:42.200 the number scale and i'll start with five five is average six is cute for women anyways six is

03:23:49.080 cute seven is pretty eight is beautiful nine elite ten perfect i don't actually believe that

03:23:55.800 there's any tens uh so uh would you describe yourself as beautiful yes okay uh why well i

03:24:08.700 mean that's what i put as eight is beautiful you don't consider yourself average looking

03:24:12.420 no you're above average looking yeah well above average looking

03:24:16.600 i mean based on my looks and what i've walked into model agencies and what i've been hired for

03:24:22.800 yeah and what i look like yeah just because i have a butt chin right here doesn't fucking

03:24:30.100 well i mean what do you you can rate me what do you think i am yeah i mean i'll rate everybody but

03:24:37.160 um i do think you have uh pretty substantially overrated yourself yeah but also too i i i feel

03:24:47.420 like i knew that this is it the tattoos and the piercings because i saw that you also give

03:24:53.200 ratings on that as well um my own personal aesthetic choices notwithstanding uh i can rate

03:25:01.180 somebody's facial characteristics even if they have tattoos and piercings yeah because i mean

03:25:06.740 like what i've i can show you a picture what i looked like before piercings like

03:25:10.260 i would say yeah it looks better to the normal like society but well what i would do if i was

03:25:15.740 rating somebody i would basically look at your face and envision it as if you did not have the

03:25:21.140 piercings yeah so i wouldn't like specifically you can envision i wouldn't specifically lower

03:25:27.840 your rating just because of the piercings um question for you two do you think that the other

03:25:33.500 women rated themselves too low yes okay do you think all women are tens no okay but they're like

03:25:40.740 eights or nines all women most no how many what percentage of women are eights 60 65 65 percent of

03:25:54.700 women are eights well i guess i can see how you arrived at your own answer well yeah so yeah sure

03:26:05.080 yeah i mean how many people i mean that yeah it's a big percentage how many people are there in the

03:26:10.060 world like because i feel like tens that's easier like i feel like that's like nobody's perfect so

03:26:15.940 that's like a one percenter thing would you date an average looking guy yeah uh and then do you

03:26:23.040 think you're below average average or above average and looks above average above average okay wait

03:26:28.600 for face or body or just like i guess technically both um i mean body like i need to go to the gym

03:26:34.540 like i'm like right but besides like my face yeah okay uh

03:26:40.320 what percentage of women in the united states do you think are less attractive than you

03:26:48.000 wait less attractive than me yeah like wait so if i said wait i'm trying to make sure that i say

03:26:59.760 this right so wait am i answering the percentage of who's like who i think would be prettier than

03:27:05.860 me or who the opposite would be less attractive than you so for example uh 80 percent of women

03:27:12.460 in the united states are less attractive than you okay um

03:27:17.020 45 45 okay it's almost half of the women like and then what about you what percentage of women

03:27:33.060 in the united states do you think are less attractive than you less attractive i would

03:27:39.480 give it like good like in the 30 like 30 so 70 of women are more attractive than you

03:27:45.080 there's a lot of women in the world

03:27:50.180 well just in the US but

03:27:52.060 you gave yourself a 9.5

03:27:54.080 that's pretty much peak

03:27:55.860 beauty

03:27:56.780 so

03:27:59.660 have you seen the beauty by the way?

03:28:01.460 have you seen the beauty by the way?

03:28:03.720 the beauty? the show on Hulu

03:28:05.360 the beauty

03:28:06.620 nope

03:28:09.180 I recommend

03:28:09.920 I'll take that into consideration

03:28:13.160 your answer

03:28:16.640 okay i will move it up to like 40 45 46 wait 45 percent of women are less attractive

03:28:28.680 i think yeah okay i would probably say something all right well uh

03:28:33.680 interesting all right well i'll give the ratings then i'll give my own ratings

03:28:41.000 Of course, I have to start with myself.

03:28:42.880 I did give myself 4.5 across the board.

03:28:46.740 Definitely chubby at the moment.

03:28:49.240 Definitely need to lose weight.

03:28:51.400 That's going to impact facial attractiveness because you get fat in your face.

03:28:54.860 You get the jowls.

03:28:56.340 You get the jowls.

03:28:58.580 It widens your face a little bit.

03:29:00.380 So if I lost weight, could improve there.

03:29:02.880 But since I'm currently overweight, that has a negative impact on facial attractiveness.

03:29:08.580 Poor under eye area.

03:29:10.480 maybe I'm too stressed or I don't sleep enough. Who even knows? But, uh, let's see. There's

03:29:15.780 probably other things, but, uh, yeah. Anyways, um, I guess I'll do one positive. Do I, no,

03:29:25.360 I'll just give the ratings. So I usually give one positive, one negative. I'll just give ratings.

03:29:28.920 Is there no positives? Is that why? Why can't we have a positive? No, what I'm saying is like,

03:29:35.540 just for the sake of time, I would like be like, Oh, well you have good facial symmetry, but

03:29:40.460 But your interpupillary distance is slightly off.

03:29:44.020 I got you.

03:29:44.140 You're just going to dump us in the dumpster.

03:29:45.160 I'm just going to give the rating.

03:29:46.540 Yeah, I'll just give the rating.

03:29:48.280 So, okay, let's see here.

03:29:50.220 Starting with Lexi.

03:29:51.220 Lexi, you gave your – and I'm just doing face.

03:29:53.260 I'm not doing body or total.

03:29:59.640 All right, Lexi, you gave yourself six face.

03:30:07.360 Look straight.

03:30:08.700 Can you turn your face that way more?

03:30:10.460 all the way okay um should i give some positives and negatives i don't know

03:30:17.340 yeah nah i'll just give the rating um

03:30:23.700 are you wearing uh makeup on your face okay you're wearing mascara do you have fake lashes in

03:30:33.420 i'm not wearing mascara i'm wearing eyelashes eyeliner yeah you do have some eyeliner okay

03:30:38.720 um do you draw your eyebrows or no they're not they're just natty yeah they're natural okay

03:30:47.380 okay uh homegrown self-made uh honestly i don't think you were too far off from your rating i

03:30:57.700 might say you're between 5.5 to 6 so i don't think you're too far off uh you gave yourself

03:31:04.020 a five uh can you turn your face that way other way have you had a nose job no

03:31:11.480 no strong nose uh let's see you have lip filler though no i haven't had any surgery

03:31:21.380 turn that way again turn i use a lip gloss pumper like a lip pumper gloss do you have a lip flip

03:31:29.880 No, I don't have any surgery.

03:31:30.800 Have you had any procedure done on it?

03:31:32.300 No.

03:31:33.240 All right.

03:31:36.440 I think five is actually fair.

03:31:38.420 It might be anywhere from 4.5 to five, but you're pretty reasonable.

03:31:43.420 You gave yourself a 9.5.

03:31:46.760 You're wearing full face of makeup, it looks like.

03:31:49.880 Do you have lip filler or no?

03:31:51.620 Okay.

03:31:53.220 Any surgeries or cosmetic procedure?

03:31:56.440 You're wearing quite a bit of makeup.

03:31:57.640 up. That makes my assessment a little bit hard here. Uh, you did give yourself a 9.5. I would

03:32:02.940 say you're closer to a five or a 5.5. You gave yourself an 8.5. Okay. Eight. You said 8.5. If

03:32:14.040 you didn't have the under chin or whatever, the double chin, you gave yourself an eight. Uh,

03:32:19.380 i would give you a four yeah uh you gave yourself a six uh

03:32:32.020 i think i'd put you at 5.5 to 7.5 that's quite sorry sorry excuse me

03:32:39.460 i misspoke i put you at 5.5 to 5.75 valid my my mistake all right uh alexis you gave yourself a

03:32:48.340 a five. Alexis, you gave yourself a five. You are wearing quite a bit of makeup, quite

03:32:58.540 a bit of eye makeup. I would give you five, or excuse me, 4.7525. You, you gave yourself

03:33:08.520 a three. Can you take your glasses off for a moment? Just temporarily. I actually, I

03:33:18.320 think you underrated yourself a little bit um you're not wearing are you wearing makeup on the

03:33:25.080 face or a little bit yeah a little bit okay i think i'd put you at uh 4.25 to 4.75 in that range

03:33:36.200 Nicole, you gave yourself

03:33:40.580 six

03:33:41.420 and you're

03:33:48.380 34, right? Yeah

03:33:49.640 Okay

03:33:50.720 I think I'd put you closer

03:33:54.500 to a five

03:33:55.220 You gave yourself a five

03:33:58.440 you know what

03:34:06.480 I think you might have underrated yourself

03:34:08.500 a little bit

03:34:09.100 you know what

03:34:14.760 it would have actually been good to give

03:34:16.280 the reasons for my ratings

03:34:18.540 yeah I wanted to know my reasoning

03:34:20.180 like give some positives and negatives

03:34:22.080 I want to know if my bone structure is too far

03:34:24.080 to the left or something

03:34:25.340 your zygomatic process is

03:34:27.140 recessed um just kidding i feel like you would be so good in med spa sales yeah like where do you

03:34:33.540 like that would be your other career like what is the ranking plastic surgeon like are you looking

03:34:38.380 like on a scientific scale how can i fix you yeah no like when you come up with your rankings like

03:34:45.540 are you like are you like are you contacting like top agencies and they're like what they're

03:34:51.100 looking for and you're like this is how i do my scaling they told me what a beautiful woman looks

03:34:54.380 like why would i need to contact a modeling agency that's what i'm just asking like you

03:35:00.940 could contact someone that is from a sewage and i mean did you see calvin klein's fucking

03:35:06.000 woke yeah it's fucking campaign from like 2019 where it's like like fat days yeah that's like

03:35:14.760 this idea that i'm going to that the modeling industry has a good pulse no that that's i was

03:35:21.900 just like saying like like and like high fashion these a lot of these models have kind of peculiar

03:35:28.380 aesthetics yeah yeah like the runway models some of them have kind of like some of them are

03:35:33.900 fucking insane like they're really aesthetic yeah but some of them look like fucking aliens so i

03:35:40.740 don't know but aliens are cool i love aliens and i'm the first who would fucking aliens like i love

03:35:45.940 looking like a monster i know i look like a monster but i love looking like a fucking monster

03:35:50.020 just look like a human with body modifications with well split tongue double chin i was gonna

03:35:58.640 say daddy issues but daddy issues i have mommy issues my read was off my i'm mentally ill because

03:36:06.480 of my mother thank you uh i don't think uh alissa i don't think i rated you but you didn't you said

03:36:11.560 i underrated myself but you didn't you know what you got three kids right you know you have three

03:36:16.120 kids you know you know you'd go through processes and stuff i have a question i'm curious you you

03:36:22.940 probably mogged you know when you were like 20 mog the whisper uh no you have good like base

03:36:32.820 foundational strong aesthetics thank you uh i want to say and of course sometimes i'm giving a rating

03:36:38.920 based off of like a comparative age analysis here um i i want to say look look into the camera for me

03:36:47.360 i wanted to say like 5.56 thank you yeah so you underrated a little bit uh maybe some of you guys

03:36:58.040 were being humble or modest though so i have a question yeah so my mom was a model oh boy can

03:37:05.620 you rate my mom took some milf there done braided you didn't even see what she looks like took some

03:37:15.260 milf just did it we actually had some mom's tape never mind wait what what i don't know

03:37:23.380 what who my mom died wow yeah um cool yeah i know not cool i guess no cool she abused me so it's

03:37:33.300 kind of let you know but it's whatever water can i have that johnny pop i'm like shaking out of

03:37:45.080 starvation i know he doesn't feed us i just want a popsicle out you want a popsicle okay two

03:37:51.480 popsicles one for her one for her then we'll get you know we can't do all of you you know what let's

03:37:57.520 do no it's just two for now and then in 30 minutes i will ration out the other popsicles we should

03:38:06.340 all like and we should all suck one flavor and pass it that sounds like herpes

03:38:11.220 i'm gonna pass on that but that sounds super fun like you can have the red you'll have the orange

03:38:22.240 yellow green blue purple uh okay let's see disagreements um

03:38:27.120 brie you wrote that you have some disagreements oh um i can't really think of um too many

03:38:36.820 specific things i just know like when whatever clips came up on my phone i'm just like i don't

03:38:41.820 necessarily agree with that um one that might come up on my head right now is um like body

03:38:47.400 count discourse. I know you've mentioned before things I didn't agree with. I can't recall the

03:38:58.980 exact thing. I just know it had to do with body count. So I don't know. I'm sorry. I just know I

03:39:08.940 didn't agree with it that's all um okay uh hey somebody skipped the back oh wait hold on the

03:39:19.440 body count discourse uh okay so actually let me just leave it here uh yeah what do you want to

03:39:30.460 know about it um what's your like do you think that having a higher body count indicates that

03:39:38.240 like you know like red flags or what what exactly um i don't know what i'm trying to say

03:39:44.400 i just know that i didn't agree with what you said about it in an episode before that's all

03:39:51.700 so i'd have to hear more of your opinion that's that's what i'm trying to say

03:39:54.900 i just know i didn't agree with what i saw

03:39:57.600 uh yeah i don't remember specifically what i said but um i would say generally speaking

03:40:05.380 if most guys most guys are going to be honest they would prefer a woman with a lower body count

03:40:10.760 versus a higher body count um the lower the better oh wait i just remembered one thing um i know like

03:40:18.260 on the paper um i think it said something about it's okay for a guy with a high body count to be

03:40:25.540 with someone with a low body count i don't i feel like that's kind of bias i mean everyone's entitled

03:40:31.600 to their preference but shouldn't like yeah isn't it kind of um unfair if you had if a guy had a

03:40:38.700 body count of a thousand you're looking for a virgin i feel like it that's just like i'm fine

03:40:42.540 with it if it's the other way around it's a woman with a 1000 body totally fine uh yeah i'm totally

03:40:49.180 fine with it um so i'm not like uh i don't have a double standard there so if a woman prefers to

03:40:55.940 date a virgin guy now there's differences though because uh assessments of attractiveness as it

03:41:03.140 relates to virginity differ between men and women uh virginity is something that is in terms of from

03:41:10.520 men to women it's something that's more desirable so the woman being a virgin whereas women typically

03:41:17.320 are less desirous of that of course there are some women who either prefer lack of promiscuity

03:41:22.520 in a man or low body count in a man or even chastity virginity in a man. But women just

03:41:30.120 generally seem to just care less about it. Also, I think there's a difference here. Any single woman

03:41:37.860 can be a slut. Any woman. I don't care how fat she is. Don't care how ugly she is. Don't care

03:41:44.960 how terrible her personality is. Every single woman, if she was so inclined, could be a slut.

03:41:51.260 for a man to be a slut that requires a higher say barrier to entry for a man to be a slut

03:41:59.840 i mean it can be a various different ways in which he can make himself appealing

03:42:05.080 and attractive to women maybe he's just really good looking like if you're really good looking

03:42:11.460 yeah you can smash a lot of chicks if you're funny if you have charisma if you have a good

03:42:17.500 personality but you're average looking you can smash a lot of chicks if you have high status

03:42:24.560 but you're average looking uh you can smash a lot of women what do you think elon gets i mean he has

03:42:31.900 a wife but like before that he's the richest man on the planet he's got multiple baby mamas

03:42:36.160 he could if he wanted the women he picks i question but if he was so inclined he could

03:42:43.220 be smashing fucking 20 year old baddies it's just so good by the way i haven't eaten since like

03:42:49.500 yesterday so thank you yeah you you seem a bit enthusiastic i'm sorry just the way you've been

03:42:57.560 going at the popsicle it seems a little hungry enthusiastic just saying sorry no i'm not i'm not

03:43:04.220 attacking you good for you i guess but um observing going at it as in like what the lemon flavor

03:43:11.640 Once you get to the yellow

03:43:12.640 I don't know

03:43:15.200 Girl you suck that pop

03:43:16.760 Wait do you have a boyfriend?

03:43:21.760 Oh I was going to say

03:43:22.660 You miss your boyfriend don't you?

03:43:23.720 No I don't have a boyfriend

03:43:25.740 What?

03:43:27.660 My lesbian ears

03:43:29.020 Wait where were we?

03:43:30.960 Oh yeah yeah like the body count thing

03:43:32.700 So yeah basically a woman could be

03:43:35.440 Like any woman

03:43:38.000 Can be a slut

03:43:38.680 She could be awful personality

03:43:41.620 ugly fat and she could just so what does it take for a man to be a slut uh to

03:43:50.140 have a fake job not i mean there's a fake job there's all kinds of things i mean but i mean

03:43:58.460 one he has to try like yeah if you're a really good looking guy but you play video games all day

03:44:04.660 like so i think a big part of it is like actually putting in some effort to to doing it but

03:44:10.120 yeah i mean yeah for example like i think uh because because women are the gatekeepers

03:44:18.500 so sucks yeah basically so so uh basically it's just like

03:44:27.240 you're done you're done with it well i don't want it to drip she's saving it for later um

03:44:35.120 let me live my life so yeah i think um maybe like not a 10 20 of men can be sluts

03:44:50.120 100 of women can be sluts um i think like the qualifications are basically the same you know

03:44:56.800 like if you're qualified to be a slut as a man then you're qualified to be a slut as a woman you

03:45:00.940 know so uh what what do you mean qualify like for example if it like what are the qualifications to

03:45:07.480 be a slut you know like what is it what does it take for cheating or um you know like being able

03:45:15.300 to entertaining someone else's like attention i guess i mean basically easily being able to and

03:45:23.460 getting and having uh sex i'm sorry i'm stimming don't mind me in the corner okay thank you for

03:45:31.520 that irrelevant contribution yeah but i think the qualifications are the same i don't understand

03:45:36.880 what you mean by qualifications like i think like if a man is qualified to be a slut like

03:45:41.540 you know he's like uh he's entertaining a lot of girls and he gets a lot of attention

03:45:45.700 like every day then you know i think like it's the same thing for a girl like okay she gets a

03:45:50.860 lot of attention every day then that's like what would make her slut like it's the same thing okay

03:45:54.380 yes so if the guy has the capacity to get that level of attention from women uh okay here look

03:46:02.840 if a guy fucks five girls in a day and a woman fucks five guys in a day are they both equally

03:46:09.440 slutty yes yes however there's way there's a way higher proportion of women who can fuck

03:46:16.580 five guys in a day than can

03:46:18.640 men fuck five women in a day

03:46:20.560 in order to fuck five women

03:46:22.740 in a day you have to like

03:46:24.540 your level you basically have

03:46:26.720 to be famous or like the most

03:46:28.760 attractive fucking man on the planet

03:46:30.480 and like super

03:46:32.780 famous

03:46:33.340 you could be some fucking

03:46:36.680 random chubby chick who goes

03:46:38.760 to this community college

03:46:40.520 and fuck five dudes a day

03:46:42.860 if you wanted to

03:46:44.080 whereas again for the man to do that

03:46:46.540 you got to be like some a-list celeb to pull that off like do you disagree you think like the

03:46:55.240 average joe schmo can fuck five chicks in a day yeah i think it's just like i think yeah it doesn't

03:47:02.100 take looks to be like fuckable you know uh yeah it kind of does no for a man it just takes money

03:47:08.460 it doesn't take looks wait so okay now are you talking about an average are you talking about

03:47:13.080 prostitution though because when i'm talking about i'm not yes if okay so technically uh i mean if

03:47:21.200 you have ten thousand dollars you could fuck ten women in a day but you'd have to pay for it

03:47:26.840 i'm not talking about prostitution i'm talking about genuine desire absent transaction yeah

03:47:34.020 like adam sandler you know he's not really that like attractive but he's really rich so he can

03:47:37.820 He's rich and he has massive status.

03:47:39.920 And he's funny.

03:47:41.460 Yes, he's like, yeah, so I'm talking like the fucking like chubby Mexican guy who works at CVS as a cash register.

03:47:49.960 You think he's fucking plowing five chicks a day?

03:47:53.540 If he was like really funny in high school, then like possibly.

03:47:56.200 But you're adding these qualifiers.

03:47:58.440 Okay, does a woman, in order for her to fuck five dudes a day, does she have to be really funny or can she just have a pussy?

03:48:08.800 She just needs to exist.

03:48:13.640 As a woman, all it takes is, excuse me, sir, want some pussy?

03:48:18.460 Excuse me, sir.

03:48:20.660 You give the pussy on a silver platter.

03:48:24.180 Guys will take it.

03:48:25.440 If I give dick, if I go up to fucking chicks, I'm not.

03:48:30.380 Okay, let me frame it like this.

03:48:32.600 As a woman, you don't even need to be pleasant.

03:48:34.760 But all it takes is a woman

03:48:36.280 Just be

03:48:37.080 Like don't be fucking batshit

03:48:39.620 Don't be like terrifying

03:48:41.280 But as long as you're like

03:48:43.080 Just normal

03:48:44.900 So not fucking crazy

03:48:47.640 Because some guys

03:48:48.260 Still even like if you're fucking insane

03:48:51.400 Guys will still stick it in you

03:48:53.240 But I'm just saying

03:48:55.400 Like just to make it easier for you

03:48:57.580 Just be like a normal chick

03:48:59.200 You don't even have to

03:48:59.820 When I say normal

03:49:00.620 You don't need any charisma

03:49:02.520 You can be boring as fuck

03:49:04.000 just be like don't be fucking insane and then offer pussy and make it easy excuse me sir want

03:49:10.920 some pussy you don't even have to do the offering just pick amongst the men who are offering the

03:49:17.980 dick now however as a guy if i'm pleasant and i offer dick that's not enough to get pussy

03:49:28.340 if I just go up to a girl

03:49:29.820 hello dear

03:49:31.640 it's a fine

03:49:34.420 evening today

03:49:35.780 may I interest you in some penis

03:49:38.580 I think if you sound a dick

03:49:40.360 I am not

03:49:41.440 I could ask a hundred women

03:49:43.960 and I could be very nice about it

03:49:45.620 hi I just thought you're good looking

03:49:48.040 I just wanted to know if you wanted to engage in

03:49:50.400 sexual intercourse for the night

03:49:52.600 I am not

03:49:54.740 getting anything

03:49:56.080 if you do it in the wizard voice

03:49:57.880 i would 100 accept that side quest yeah i actually when i have a girlfriend i actually

03:50:04.020 you know i kind of talk to her like this excuse me dear i'll fetch me my loafers yeah that's how

03:50:11.380 me and my boyfriend talk to each other chop chop like like shrek like a shrek like we love to like

03:50:16.940 mock shrek but no he'll be like come here wait so anyways i'm not gonna let you distract like

03:50:21.600 you always do back to the point sorry so the point here is sounds like stewie griffin uh yeah

03:50:26.600 basically uh women will not will not accept that as for for most women in order for you to be

03:50:34.520 willing to have sex with a guy there's there's more of a value proposition beyond just hi i'm

03:50:41.180 available i'm a normal pleasant enough guy maybe i'm a little boring but i'm i'm normal and i have

03:50:49.600 penis do you want to fuck does not work doesn't work uh so yeah most men uh yeah most i don't

03:50:59.560 know i would think all women can be sluts what's that i would think that like it would like work

03:51:04.280 like that you know like a guy's just like oh yeah okay here's my dick because if you go on any

03:51:08.280 dating app no man provides anything fake news but hold on before we get to that uh who agrees with

03:51:14.500 her who agrees with her that it's that men it's men it's easy for them to get sex who agrees with

03:51:21.640 her nobody nobody it's pretty hard okay here let's try it out let's try this out experiment time uh

03:51:29.280 you're single you're single single single not single and then single okay let's try it out

03:51:36.960 although i feel like this is going to backfire because i've been sassy tonight but

03:51:42.420 Fuck it.

03:51:43.320 Okay, so after the show, to all the single women, this is a shotgun proposition.

03:51:51.980 Who here would like to have sex with me after the show?

03:51:56.540 Would you like to have...

03:51:58.560 It'll be the best three minutes of your life.

03:52:06.740 Would you like to have sex with me after the show?

03:52:10.140 No.

03:52:10.580 Would you like to have sex with me after the show?

03:52:14.980 Well, after you said three minutes, probably not.

03:52:19.540 Round two, you know, be longer, five minutes.

03:52:24.020 No.

03:52:24.820 Okay, remove the, that was a joke, obviously.

03:52:28.020 My endurance is.

03:52:31.640 Extraordinary.

03:52:33.020 But that sounds like a no.

03:52:35.020 Well, you're a lesbian, so I.

03:52:36.340 Yeah.

03:52:37.680 It's not going to happen.

03:52:39.040 I already have a question.

03:52:39.500 If I have a Subaru, does that change anything?

03:52:46.540 No.

03:52:47.880 But I could give a really good hug.

03:52:49.360 I have really soft hands.

03:52:50.820 Does that change anything?

03:52:52.160 No.

03:52:53.120 I'm impressed that you know the Subaru.

03:52:54.340 If you close your eyes, it almost feels like you're being touched by a woman.

03:52:57.920 It doesn't.

03:52:59.020 My hands are softer than...

03:53:00.560 I bet I have softer...

03:53:02.100 Well, that's not a flex, by the way.

03:53:04.180 Do you lotion your hands often?

03:53:06.040 No, I just naturally have soft hands.

03:53:07.780 I bet I have softer hands than all y'all

03:53:10.020 You're not mean enough

03:53:11.400 Like soft

03:53:12.760 Like S-O-F capital T

03:53:14.940 Alexis definitely

03:53:17.060 I think I might have a chance with Alexis

03:53:19.700 Because I'm a bit chubby

03:53:20.580 After the show do you want to have sex with me

03:53:22.540 I'm really tired and I would like to go to bed

03:53:25.300 But I think you're good looking

03:53:26.320 Well that doesn't answer the question

03:53:28.960 If she wasn't tired

03:53:31.120 Well let's say

03:53:33.460 Fine okay tomorrow

03:53:35.420 Do you want to have carnal knowledge

03:53:36.640 oh you're asking me to fornicate tomorrow i'm asking you to have sexual intercourse

03:53:42.380 can i go home and go to bed for the night

03:53:44.860 as like right now dude i'm so tired i know you don't you need to take another energy shot girl

03:53:52.920 well okay that's like that one girl that fell asleep that you had to give her the yellow card

03:53:58.220 answer the question answer the question okay whatever well uh well could i steal you away

03:54:05.740 from your talking stage no okay and then what uh alissa um no thank you i thought i thought it was

03:54:14.060 really easy for guys to get laid what's going on yeah if you downloaded tinder right now you would

03:54:19.340 have like 13 girls at least in one night oh my god yeah it would take if i downloaded tinder yeah

03:54:25.740 tinder with a hole if i was really if i downloaded tinder if i i definitely couldn't tonight yes you

03:54:34.160 could no it's 9 p.m you can't get exactly it's 9 p.m this is when the holes are out no holes are

03:54:39.460 up at 10 a.m it's a fucking sunday you cannot get exactly same night pussy yes i have a question

03:54:45.320 it is no i could maybe if i fucking tried to if i spent all night messaging i could maybe arrange

03:54:53.560 something like for wednesday but i ain't getting pussy you know i don't think y'all understand i

03:55:01.280 need to do a vocal stim i'm sorry circle circle circle circle square okay what the fuck it's when

03:55:07.900 i'm stimming i have vocal stim sometimes okay as a lesbian i would like to agree with you

03:55:13.460 what the fuck oh as a lead because it's hard to know because literally that's why for so long i

03:55:18.500 would like try to date guys after a girl would break up with me and i'd be really sad because

03:55:21.700 like i could arrange something like this evening probably if i wanted to if i was in la you could

03:55:26.340 look a woman 9 p.m. be quiet lady sorry you're hydrated fuck he's as a lesbian i agree so as a

03:55:36.000 woman you could hop on a dating app on a tuesday at 10 p.m. and you what's going on

03:55:43.700 uh okay i mean oh she's in the bathroom well let's let's see what the situation is but

03:55:53.960 Is she doing downers in there? No, I'm just kidding.

03:55:55.880 So anyways, I mean, where was I?

03:56:02.900 Wait, let me see if I have anything else that I needed to hit on for her.

03:56:07.220 Her name's Lex. One sec, guys.

03:56:10.940 I mean, I had one thing left for her, but we'll see.

03:56:20.180 What are you guys looking for?

03:56:22.700 You don't have them?

03:56:23.960 all right we'll figure that shit out i guess but um where were we in the content you were saying

03:56:33.460 like even with the most like even with the most ran through because i'm like all of my friends

03:56:37.860 are gay like the most ran through lesbian i know like you could not arrange probably a same night

03:56:42.640 like situation with like a girl and then with a guy it's like you could like probably like any of

03:56:48.500 like you could it'd be pretty easy yeah i was i think i was saying that a woman could hop on a

03:56:54.780 dating app 10 p.m on a tuesday and she could probably have like a gangbang yeah she could

03:57:01.900 fuck like three dudes same night maybe even more like i'm not even exaggerating whereas like for a

03:57:07.820 guy even if you've got some game you know how to maneuver like girls are not like down they're not

03:57:15.380 they're not ready to go like that like it's gonna take a little bit like they're not ready for the

03:57:20.640 fucking go huh they're not ready for the fucking go well i mean look some girls are down for hookups

03:57:26.300 but that's like getting for a man it's getting lucky for a girl it's tuesday there's nothing

03:57:33.520 about getting like women don't get lucky if you want to fuck you fuck right like is it ever like

03:57:41.660 she knows if a girl wants to fuck you she's fucking yeah she knows she's like a girl can

03:57:56.600 go into a date super confident like you can go into the date thinking this guy's gonna fuck me

03:58:03.540 i can never if i'm going into a date look i could think she likes me no yeah i can walk into a bar

03:58:08.560 And I can be like, oh, those guys all want to fuck me.

03:58:11.300 Like, I can kill them.

03:58:12.840 I know who it is.

03:58:13.620 I know who wants to do it.

03:58:14.980 I know who's checking it out.

03:58:17.280 If you're meeting a chick off a dating app, she might want a second, third date.

03:58:23.240 I might not get it the same day.

03:58:25.860 So for a guy, it's getting lucky.

03:58:31.180 I can never.

03:58:32.120 If I go on a first date with a girl, like, in a more organic way.

03:58:37.380 like if a girl contact dms me then i can vet for that but if i'm like i don't know meeting a girl

03:58:44.020 in person hey let me get your number let's grab dinner sometime there's not a guarantee i'm getting

03:58:48.960 pussy that night you're telling me there's not a guarantee wait what wait the whatever podcast

03:58:53.260 don't get you pussy you're telling me that i'm like oh my god so i'm speaking so i mean look

03:58:58.900 My situation is different because pretty much since I started the podcast, not to say that

03:59:12.120 I haven't shot my shot, but I actually just source entirely from women who contact me.

03:59:18.060 And if you're contacting me, I can set the pace a bit.

03:59:22.640 I'm going to vet you.

03:59:24.120 you're you're coming into my frame whereas if the the general status quo when it comes to male

03:59:30.280 female interaction is uh the man tends to fall a bit more into the woman's frame a little bit

03:59:37.860 uh in the sense that the woman gets to dictate the pacing a little bit more like for example if a

03:59:44.220 girl's like brian i think you're fucking super handsome and i like you and blah blah blah i can

03:59:48.780 be like okay here's my like 100 point girlfriend application you're gonna answer everything you're

03:59:54.520 gonna get on birth control before you meet me you're gonna do xyz before you meet me you're

03:59:59.240 and by the way like i'm gonna vet uh if you come and visit me you're d you're i'm i wouldn't say

04:00:05.860 it like this but you're dtf right would she stay up and then i can vet huh would she stay up there

04:00:10.440 the fuck bro your non sequiturs are no i want to know if you have like if she would be here

04:00:16.300 during the podcast like would you have her be here no my if i was dating a girl if i had a

04:00:21.540 girlfriend she'd never be on camera okay i'm not anyways that's fucking why do you can you let me

04:00:28.440 stay on track here you you'd like to go in all these directions and i'd like to stay on the

04:00:33.840 central point here uh so where was i um yeah so like from from my experience uh and i i i prefer

04:00:44.540 that dynamic but that most men don't have that unless they you know they have some presence

04:00:52.240 online um so my experience post starting the podcast is a bit different um

04:01:00.120 so i'm trying to remember how we even got there though uh

04:01:05.560 oh yeah uh and then also too i was gonna say when you like refer to like you being

04:01:13.280 chunky and like how you used to be skinny the fuck does that have to do with anything because

04:01:17.180 it was earlier when earlier when you were saying that i was just gonna say like when at what time

04:01:23.240 period how long ago was that why the fuck what does that have to do with anything because i was

04:01:28.040 just because you were saying it earlier so i was just going back to it is it never mind what okay

04:01:35.940 what what the fuck does that have to do with anything i was asking you because when we were

04:01:40.300 talking about i'm not i don't have an issue answering the question i don't see how it's

04:01:44.060 relevant objection relevance adhd sorry it's not i was just reverting back to the question

04:01:51.300 shut the fuck up for 10 minutes god damn bro holy shit it's completely irrelevant okay i got it

04:01:59.920 like you've been doing it all night yeah i have and it's distracting it gets a soft topic

04:02:06.840 Jesus fucking Christ

04:02:08.020 If you're gonna contribute

04:02:11.820 Like

04:02:13.280 Have it be something of substance

04:02:15.920 That relates to the actual

04:02:18.220 I get that and I said okay

04:02:19.260 I said I have ADHD and I won't do it again

04:02:21.240 Alright thank you very much

04:02:23.720 Appreciate it

04:02:24.700 Okay so I don't even know

04:02:28.020 Where I was

04:02:28.740 You were talking about dating women

04:02:35.680 and when you started the podcast but I don't remember like how it's giving so actually my

04:02:41.740 my explanation there of like okay well most of the women I've dated in the past three or four

04:02:46.740 years since I started the podcast they all came to me so that doesn't map on great to like most

04:02:54.440 men or the average men's experience luckily for me though given my age I have from the age of

04:02:59.980 17 all the way to 32, 33, which is around the time I started the podcast, I have the typical

04:03:07.700 average guy experience of you approach the girl, you slide into, I don't think I slid into DMs,

04:03:15.040 but I'd match with, I was on dating apps, Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, all that. And that framework is

04:03:21.420 not, uh, although you can sometimes navigate, Hey, just come over. Let's fuck. Uh, generally

04:03:28.940 speaking uh that's not really you can do it but you're typically hey let's meet up for a drink

04:03:36.520 maybe it goes down the first night maybe it doesn't second third date maybe it goes down if

04:03:40.900 then uh so this idea that men can be sluts to the same degree as women it's it's complete fallacy

04:03:48.620 it's total fallacy it doesn't exist yeah i mean i guess that's true because i mean um you know

04:03:55.500 if you wanted to get fucked in one day yeah i guess like that that time frame women can be

04:04:01.800 more slutty i guess i'd object that gay men have like an advantage compared to straight men i'm

04:04:08.140 not i'm clearly i'm obviously not talking about homosexual men i'm talking about

04:04:14.860 yes gay men have it easier than heterosexual women i would say because there's not that

04:04:23.820 bullshit game going on. Yeah. Like, but that's not what we're talking about. Yes. As a caveat.

04:04:30.580 Yeah. Gay men can get laid. Um, I mean, I haven't, this is not something I've investigated

04:04:38.700 seriously, but, um, from my understanding, yes, there's less bullshit and less pretense

04:04:47.340 when it comes to same-sex male relationships.

04:04:52.680 With women, there's a lot of fucking,

04:04:56.440 what's the right word, performance,

04:05:02.640 that there's a lot of song and dance

04:05:05.320 that must be done with women,

04:05:06.880 whereas for men, they just want to fuck.

04:05:11.240 So, yeah.

04:05:13.580 Okay.

04:05:13.940 yeah i saw that at a party one time when i was younger before i was a mom i would go to like

04:05:19.940 you know the afters in la like i'd always end up in an afters and our friend he's like a lawyer

04:05:24.700 and like objectively he's pretty hot i guess um and he's like really wealthy and all these girls

04:05:29.820 were like all over him it was the i've never seen it anywhere else but in that situation it was

04:05:34.660 crazy that was like the only time i've ever seen like all these girls at this party were like

04:05:38.620 trying to get his attention and he was i was like i've never seen that before it was interesting

04:05:44.420 but he was also like you said he's really wealthy he's really attractive and i think

04:05:51.240 he was the only guy at the party actually oh okay um uh so it is a thing yeah yeah men can

04:06:02.320 keep sex too but only like in that specific scenario where like he's meeting all of these

04:06:06.920 criteria that is making him more desirable. Yeah. But ultimately, I mean, look, if it's very easy

04:06:16.460 for women to get laid, it's relatively hard for men to get laid. Now, look, are there some studs

04:06:21.500 who have a pretty easy go at it? Yes. But you, an average or below average woman has the same,

04:06:27.340 like an equivalent sexual optionality as a professional male athlete, a famous singer,

04:06:36.140 famous musician famous actor uh you can be a nobody woman below average looking hop on tinder

04:06:45.560 hop on a dating app you could fuck six guys in a day like as a guy there's more effort that's put

04:06:52.900 in like i said um for most men it could take a little bit of time even if you like you don't

04:07:00.380 have to be extraordinary you you can kind of maneuver as a guy but you might have to go on

04:07:05.400 one two three dates maybe she's not down maybe she's not feeling it uh so you can't get instant

04:07:12.580 sex the same way women can get instant sex and i demonstrated it i literally asked fucking single

04:07:19.940 women they want to fuck yeah but if i walk into like a party of guys blue eyes dark hair six foot

04:07:29.300 one uh toxic as fuck to be fair but uh and uh let's see at least on the podcast in person I'm

04:07:38.820 not toxic uh you don't tell women to shut the fuck up in person I get it uh no actually I don't yeah

04:07:47.240 no that was pretty fucking rude I think it's pretty fucking rude that you've been interrupting

04:07:51.440 all night with your I wasn't interrupting you I was asking a question that we were referring to

04:07:56.440 you've been doing sidebar conversations name one sidebar i had because i haven't

04:08:00.920 yeah let me me speaking to myself and stimming to myself is not talking to them

04:08:05.500 if i'm over here like literally i if i recall correctly i don't remember the exact thing you

04:08:11.840 said you definitely had a sidebar with either one of these girls at one point but the the you're

04:08:17.780 you're trying to do a loophole technical no i didn't do a sidebar what sidebar okay so even

04:08:22.660 if you're okay so even if you're not whispering if you're whispering because you have adhd

04:08:29.200 in practice i wasn't that's still the fucking same thing no when i'm over here like

04:08:34.100 i'm not talking about me mouthing like i'm mouthing i mean me literally saying nothing

04:08:39.620 like me doing that's me talking to myself it's stimming so i don't vocally stim and ruin the

04:08:46.120 podcast so instead of doing it all out criticism that's not even i know but you're saying i'm

04:08:50.060 having sidebars but i'm not because if you were to see you did have sidebars when oh my god do

04:08:55.840 do i need someone in the fucking you did i don't recall you want me to find the time stamp i don't

04:09:00.640 know the time stamp the only time that i was here and i was talking to someone is when she passed

04:09:05.980 by me and i was like are you good when she didn't want to come there was another instance

04:09:09.800 well you can pull it up i didn't it didn't occur to me to commit it to memory like if somebody

04:09:14.660 asking brian uh like you know those court reporters what do they call the fucking stenographers or

04:09:20.860 whatever brian can you verbatim repeat back yeah but when your rule is don't have side conversation

04:09:28.520 i haven't been sitting here talking to either of them i can't because it didn't happen yeah stop

04:09:33.620 i can't verbatim read back every single word that has been uttered on this podcast

04:09:39.300 Exactly and that's why

04:09:41.900 I was going back to certain

04:09:43.980 Topics that you had yes you

04:09:45.860 Talked about that topic and I went back to it

04:09:47.860 Because it was a sidetrack

04:09:49.060 Sorry I got sidetracked it's not a feeling

04:09:51.780 Get out of your feelings I'm fucking over it

04:09:53.880 It's not a feeling it's just fucking rude

04:09:55.720 I said what I said yeah I know and I said what I said

04:09:58.120 Now shut the fuck up and let's continue the podcast

04:09:59.580 Yeah don't be look don't be all

04:10:01.740 Fucking uh I'm not but when you

04:10:03.900 Tell me to shut the fuck up

04:10:05.260 Because it's been constant with you

04:10:07.720 You said that I interrupted

04:10:10.300 And then I went to a side

04:10:11.680 You did it all night

04:10:12.120 I won't speak unless spoken to now

04:10:15.260 I'm actually okay with that

04:10:17.640 I'm okay with that

04:10:20.680 Thank you, that's nice that you would offer that

04:10:23.040 I appreciate that

04:10:23.980 Alright, we have a chat here

04:10:26.340 Not Myron Gaines donated $200

04:10:31.460 Hey cutie in the pinch

04:10:33.760 C5

04:10:34.940 I know you said girls only

04:10:36.680 but how about a femboy?

04:10:38.540 I have a 2004 Honda Civic

04:10:40.820 we can live out of and eat ramen

04:10:42.380 and ice cream every night BB.

04:10:45.220 What?

04:10:46.200 That's really beautiful.

04:10:47.480 I have a 2004 Honda Civic

04:10:48.280 we can live out of and eat ramen

04:10:50.360 and ice cream every night.

04:10:52.360 Yes?

04:10:52.880 Yes?

04:10:53.160 He said, would you date a femboy?

04:10:54.780 That lives in a car and eats ramen every day.

04:10:57.100 That's beautiful.

04:10:57.980 I feel like they'll find somebody great for them.

04:10:59.960 Are you coming back or what's going on?

04:11:06.680 oh one quite wait wait one question and then how about that you uh leave okay

04:11:12.300 it's just one thing i saw in your questionnaire uh

04:11:17.140 and then i guess yeah she can't stay awake you should just fucking pass out on the podcast that

04:11:26.160 would be cool just start snoring and shit all right so alexis yes you agree with the following

04:11:32.320 statements men should pay on first dates men should provide and protect husband should be

04:11:37.780 willing to die protecting you you will keep your last name or hyphenate marriage

04:11:41.700 yes yes scoot into the table speak into the mic please

04:11:46.240 yes uh okay why don't what about your kids will they hyphenate or have your last name um i'd

04:11:57.800 assume they'd probably take their dad's why don't you want to take the husband's last name you do

04:12:02.300 want to get married right i have a cool last name i don't want to change it isn't it kind of well

04:12:08.920 okay so you said men should pay on first dates men should provide protect but the big one husband

04:12:14.340 should be willing to die protecting you so it's kind of cool to stay alive i wouldn't want my

04:12:23.220 partner to die of course right but he you say your husband should be willing to die protecting you

04:12:30.120 take the bullet i would hope he would want to over having his wife take it yeah

04:12:34.960 right so in the hypothetical situation where one of you has to take a bullet

04:12:39.520 he takes it right so that you can survive i guess yeah okay so the ultimate that would be

04:12:44.660 the ultimate manifestation of a being a protector traditional gender roles he a man this this is

04:12:52.300 guys this is what you're dealing with in 2026 uh you have a woman who uh i look i guess to your

04:12:59.640 credit you're willing to date like a fat dude so he like can physically like take up more space

04:13:04.420 and block the bullet or whatever uh like 500 pounds or whatever like yeah he's got a fucking

04:13:10.540 meat shield kind of almost literally i guess not literally sort of liberal i don't know figuratively

04:13:17.180 2026 blasted in tattoos only fans girl sex worker uh you got to pay for first dates you got to

04:13:25.540 provide protect uh you gotta be willing to die for her but she won't take your last name

04:13:30.820 well i mean i don't think the last name is very important but i'm a good partner

04:13:36.400 but i paid for everything with my ex i paid for every single thing ever i paid our bills

04:13:42.980 it's just i think it's just common courtesy and nice to offer to pay for a first but you do say

04:13:48.980 men should pay on first dates and then men should provide protect so conceivably you wouldn't be

04:13:53.100 opposed to dating a guy who like made a million dollars a year and was like, Hey, you can stop

04:13:57.420 doing only fans. I'm going to take care of everything. Right. I mean, that would be fine.

04:14:01.040 I just don't really care what a man makes. Right. I understand that you don't care because you make

04:14:05.540 good money yourself, but ultimately my big gripe here is, um, you still do want those things. You

04:14:12.360 want protection for a man. Yeah. Cause that's masculine. I like manly men. Right. But so if

04:14:17.380 we're talking about traditional gender roles, provide, protect, pay for dates, should be willing

04:14:21.840 to die protecting you it seems like you want him to make a potentially big not just a big the

04:14:28.860 biggest sacrifice one could make but you won't make of what sacrifice won't i make what do you

04:14:36.420 taking his last name it's literally three hours on a tuesday and everything has changed i mean sure

04:14:42.340 it's just not a big deal i just have a cool last name no but that's it would you do it sure it's

04:14:48.020 just not really a big deal well because i'd prefer not to but it's just not a huge deal okay you would

04:14:52.700 do it then and i've never met a man that cares if you take his last name well that's because men

04:14:56.880 have been completely hen packed and they're not allowed to want anything i think men can want

04:15:02.720 whatever they want right but there's massive there's massive uh social movement yeah and

04:15:10.860 there shouldn't be men can want you know whatever they want i'm against that i think men can have

04:15:14.620 whatever preference they desire right but there's like massive influence and propaganda pushing men

04:15:19.460 away from uh there's pathologizing of men's standards and preferences yep uh a man wants

04:15:27.900 a submissive woman predatory that's okay i think that's fine woman wants dominant man

04:15:33.120 oh uh preference woman wants tall guy preference man wants skinny woman uh insecure uh

04:15:41.420 superficial shallow uh man wants a woman to cook and clean misogyny blah blah blah sexist blah

04:15:50.780 blah yeah you're correct but i disagree with all of it i think it's okay for men to have those

04:15:56.200 preferences totally fine okay all right well i mean but you're right that is what it's like

04:16:00.800 that's the extent of my okay inquiry uh beautiful on that okay ta-ta

04:16:08.140 that's my other go-to toodles all right i'm gonna do some musical chairs here

04:16:17.340 can i speak so i can say bye to her bye

04:16:21.140 all right let me move i'm gonna i feel like i'm on shade room uh i'm gonna move

04:16:27.680 i think you two like the tea is getting down two chairs and i guess alissa you can stay there you

04:16:35.060 I said I want to stay here.

04:16:36.260 What's that?

04:16:36.840 I said I want to stay here.

04:16:38.580 I mean, if you move me, you move me.

04:16:40.420 No, you're good.

04:16:42.400 Okay, back to the topics.

04:16:44.800 Please address the door, please, if you can send Tiffany.

04:16:51.600 Okay.

04:16:53.600 I don't understand why I fucking fly here from, where did she say she was from?

04:16:58.540 Michigan.

04:16:59.320 We're, like, from the same spot.

04:17:00.740 That was really rude.

04:17:02.840 I don't know.

04:17:03.420 It's like, why fucking?

04:17:04.220 I get it.

04:17:04.780 you're really tired like i'm tired too but i'm gonna stay suck it up i mean sleep before

04:17:10.300 i literally slept like 13 hours before i got here okay because i knew i was gonna have to drive right

04:17:17.440 four hours so i had to drive up to santa barbara because my flight got in and then my flight to

04:17:22.560 santa barbara got canceled so i had to uber up here i didn't sleep at all well i slept for like

04:17:28.460 two hours then i got a breakup text and i was like dang i've worked in four hours um okay uh

04:17:34.080 i guess we'll i'm trying to remember what we had to uh what we had to like get through um

04:17:43.080 where the wait okay we were talking about the slut thing and it's easier for women to get laid

04:17:54.240 yeah I mean also

04:17:56.180 I don't know if anyone in the chat

04:17:58.360 you guys probably haven't seen this but

04:17:59.780 what's going on back there

04:18:03.020 no just tell me what's going on

04:18:06.060 hello

04:18:08.400 are you fucking serious Tiffany

04:18:16.520 why

04:18:19.240 if you're talking it should

04:18:23.780 there shouldn't be any talking back there but you can't be fucking having friend convo okay oh my god

04:18:33.860 bro um all right back to this producer a stroke he's like sidebar sidebar

04:18:42.380 yeah there's an expectation that my own team is

04:18:49.160 he's having nightmares and he's rolling around like sidebar

04:18:53.800 okay um i don't know where we were then he's talking about being a slut or something

04:19:04.980 but it's easier for girls to be a slut and you have it's not equal

04:19:09.460 like the it's not equal because you have to be like yeah a way above average

04:19:14.220 uh yeah i mean i actually did this as an experiment um so i had i sent out a girl

04:19:21.720 hidden camera just approach men in the street point blank ask them for sex and then i did the

04:19:28.140 same experiment and then i even repeated it with like a different guy um and women just it's a no

04:19:37.060 they don't go for it

04:19:40.060 whereas you can send out a girl

04:19:42.000 she can

04:19:44.140 it's insane yeah guys will just

04:19:46.200 fuck right I mean I'm not surprised I knew going

04:19:48.240 in that's how it was going to be

04:19:50.000 but

04:19:51.320 yeah so

04:19:54.000 I'm curious

04:19:56.160 I'm trying to remember what led to the

04:19:58.160 to that convo though

04:19:59.880 like the getting laid thing

04:20:07.060 no does anyone no i have no clue all i know is that we were talking about like a level of

04:20:11.380 attractiveness and stuff like that yeah yeah i think you asked like if it was you asked like

04:20:16.340 do you agree that it's easier for girls to be sluts and then you asked that like point blank

04:20:21.780 and that's how it started i think it was brie you were asking about body count and then

04:20:30.020 i'm trying to remember the exact conversational thread that left that led to that

04:20:37.060 um that one girl had an issue like uh how men or something about like men having a high body

04:20:44.620 count for virgin yeah yeah so it's like okay yeah yeah so we i think the the origination was

04:20:50.500 uh you took an issue with one of the things here which was okay for a high body count

04:20:56.440 man to prefer to date a low body count or virgin woman and we were getting into it and we're

04:21:02.480 talking about the differences uh in terms of assessment there and i was i think i was saying

04:21:07.840 how uh it's it's uh it's okay for women to want to date a guy with a low body count but you could

04:21:19.480 have a high body count but i i said typically women don't care about tend to care about body

04:21:24.940 count all that much yeah generally speaking just as long as there's not like a double standard

04:21:29.740 then i don't really care like if you were to say that you know a woman with a body count or like a

04:21:35.540 high body count can't prefer a man with a small body count yeah she can't yeah yeah i'm totally

04:21:41.060 fine with that um so there's not a hypocrisy there but what i'm saying it's more so if let's

04:21:47.200 say the guy slept with 100 women and he's made a determination well the women that i find most

04:21:53.320 attractive have lower body counts i don't actually see anything wrong with him preferring to

04:21:58.640 date a woman with a low body count um so i mean like i'm not gonna knock someone for their

04:22:07.540 preference but i'm just saying it's a little hypocritical or not hypocritical or it's just

04:22:15.000 i know i just think it makes more sense to want someone that has your like similar range of

04:22:20.200 experience at least for me for me no not really oh well for you for a woman that's something

04:22:25.780 different. Um, I think for a woman that could be the case because let's say you're a woman and when

04:22:32.360 it comes to the bedroom, you want the flow of sex to be a more, I don't know if tradition, a more

04:22:40.400 man leading dynamic, uh, women typically like if I'm say I was having sex with a woman who had

04:22:48.800 really low sexual experience, maybe she's not a virgin, but she like has had sex three times.

04:22:54.560 she might look to me to guide her i guess you could say women don't want to teach a guy how

04:23:05.360 to fuck women don't want to teach now you can give a guy this is what i like but a woman doesn't want

04:23:12.700 to be there in the moment like having to instruct you no that's my butthole my clit is like way up

04:23:21.600 there same could be said for the other gender though like men like for example my boyfriend

04:23:25.840 he said he actually said my body count is kind of low for his preference yeah i feel like usually

04:23:33.280 the more wait one second your current boyfriend yes and your body count you said it was like

04:23:39.580 10 20 28 your boyfriend said your body count is too low yeah his it's like 70

04:23:46.340 how do you keep track of that wait wait wait hold on but so look you have to understand the

04:23:55.520 entailment of that so what he let me translate when your boyfriend says that he wishes your

04:24:02.100 body count was higher he's saying i wish you came more pre-fucked he wants you to have had

04:24:11.760 more dicks in you and that's kind of gay well he's bisexual so oh that works out fucking explains it

04:24:22.680 a bit but that it's weird like the entailment of okay so it's like if the criticism is oh you want

04:24:29.560 a low body count woman well what's the opposite of that so if it's like the the anti-low body

04:24:36.400 count argument is uh she should have a higher body count so and if a guy is making that argument

04:24:44.640 it's like wait so you it seems like the position is less tenable in the sense that it's way less

04:24:52.440 tenable to be like i wish my girlfriend fucked more men before me versus me thinking i wish she

04:24:59.340 fucked less guys before me i don't think he thinks about it like that i think it has to do more with

04:25:03.660 experience like you said um how you wouldn't want or a girl wouldn't want to teach a man how to have

04:25:09.900 sex i think has to do with he wants me to have like to keep up at his pace that's all well okay

04:25:15.100 how about this i think that a woman who's fucked 30 guys one time is going to be arguably worse in

04:25:22.580 bed than a girl who's had a one boyfriend and they've fucked 300 times i agree so like if we're

04:25:30.160 talking about sexual experience here you can become really good in bed with just one partner

04:25:35.940 now there's a different i mean well sorry well more like one person well the thing is more people

04:25:43.260 that's like they can teach you more things in a way because if let's just say there's two people

04:25:48.320 and they both only have one body they only know the experience with each other you know yeah sure

04:25:52.640 So yes, if, if you've had different input from different men and this guy taught you

04:26:00.580 this and this guy, you know, taught you this and blah, blah, blah, blah.

04:26:04.060 Uh, yes.

04:26:05.580 But, uh, also it's really easy for women to be good in bed.

04:26:12.780 Like also if you're a guy and you're dealing with an inexperienced woman or even a virgin

04:26:18.500 and you know what you're doing.

04:26:20.540 so if the dynamic is going to be you're going to lead her you as a guy if you're leading you can

04:26:27.120 have amazing sex with a virgin if you're leading i don't know every guy's different like my boyfriend

04:26:37.100 he said he could tell the difference between like a girl that has like a hundred bodies and a virgin

04:26:41.540 like virgins are like a turnoff to him well there there would perhaps be some differences but i mean

04:26:46.740 like sex to begin with, I don't think is a particularly complicated procedure. Uh, but

04:26:53.000 then also if you're leading as the guy, like if you're taking charge, you can show and

04:26:59.740 demonstrate what the woman should do. I mean, it's really, I don't know. Maybe like the

04:27:08.180 only thing that could be is like head. Like, I feel like it's hard to impart. Like also

04:27:15.000 i think there's just natural talent there some women they got it they don't you know like she

04:27:20.060 could you could give her fucking instructional videos and tell her exact i like also how do

04:27:25.480 you articulate as a man like what you know when there's certain things like okay don't use your

04:27:33.760 fucking teeth uh you know don't do certain things but i feel like there's just talent when it comes

04:27:39.900 to oral sex that's why men are gay because i don't know i don't know but that's what i've heard

04:27:45.240 but my gay friends but like actual penetrative sex

04:27:49.320 it's if you know what you're doing as a guy you can okay do this come here move

04:27:58.380 come here writing though that is another thing to where i feel like some even girl on top i'm just

04:28:05.720 I mean it's just okay

04:28:08.360 scoot your knees here

04:28:10.120 kiss my neck here

04:28:12.600 I mean also I don't like the girl

04:28:14.360 I like to do the work on bottom

04:28:16.980 to be honest

04:28:18.660 so what the fuck are you

04:28:20.800 what are you guys doing

04:28:21.720 I don't know they're gooning over here or something

04:28:24.720 but uh

04:28:26.320 like doggy style

04:28:28.380 you just as long as she

04:28:33.060 isn't doing this

04:28:34.560 as long as she's not

04:28:37.140 you know

04:28:38.360 what

04:28:39.640 like if her back is an arch

04:28:44.200 like yeah

04:28:45.800 hold on I might have a tweet about this

04:28:47.860 let me see if I can find it

04:28:49.200 I'm gonna send it to the private chat

04:28:51.380 most likely

04:28:52.160 yeah I'm not gonna be able to find it

04:28:55.320 you got a fucking chest

04:29:01.420 down on the bed arch

04:29:03.100 that's it

04:29:04.460 there's also like an energy like i don't know yeah your back could hurt like if you're doing

04:29:09.220 it right like your tailbone like right where your tailbone is it starts to hurt

04:29:12.760 uh i mean no like i like i just like i have maybe it's just because i have a bad tailbone

04:29:21.840 somebody was saying something over here or energy oh the energy yeah i don't know i feel like

04:29:28.600 a girl like oh a girl that has more experiences or there's like sluttier woman i don't know they

04:29:35.160 have they'll put more enthusiasm into it while a virgin they're probably like shy nervous they

04:29:39.960 don't really know what's going on yeah i mean that's fair um but uh there could be a a

04:29:49.100 comfortability threshold where there's a bit of apprehension uh for someone who's

04:29:56.980 a bit inexperienced although i i mean that could even be to some degree psychologically stimulating

04:30:03.900 for some men it's like like it's the girl who's like oh i never do this and she gives you the

04:30:10.580 gluck luck 9000 it's like okay that's a sus yeah i never do this and then she fucking

04:30:18.820 they could practice on a dildo for all you know i okay loophole technicality i guess but

04:30:24.820 i don't know it's very easy uh i don't know for a woman to be bad in bed you have to like go out

04:30:31.160 of your way to be bad in bed yeah like biting it intentionally and look there's just

04:30:38.100 yeah you'd have to do some crazy shit to be bad in bed like look if the guy knows how to lead

04:30:46.980 and he can take initiative and he can take leadership in the bedroom uh it's you can

04:30:53.920 have great sex and the woman is just being submissive and like i don't know um also i think

04:31:04.300 there's just a physiological difference like for example right uh let's say i think this would be

04:31:11.920 the case for the majority of men let's say the girl just puts her herself perfect like in doggy

04:31:17.480 style and the man is doing the penetrating the hip thrusting 99% of men can probably bring

04:31:25.720 themselves to climax and the girl's not moving at all she's just completely stationary not saying

04:31:31.420 that that should be the case but let's just hypothetically the woman is just completely

04:31:35.660 stationary and the guy's doing the work 99% of men can bring themselves to climax

04:31:40.920 now you as the woman you put the man in whichever position you prefer whether that's

04:31:47.400 him laying down you on top doggy style and you're throwing it back whatever

04:31:51.280 can as high a percentage of women bring themselves to climax if the guy is just

04:31:58.180 standing or laying there with a stiffy with the stiffy like it's hard but he's doing nothing

04:32:04.320 no thrusting but he's hard and you can ride or you can if i'm riding yeah okay i'm not i'm yes

04:32:12.060 someone can do that but i'd say the percentage of women is way lower yeah who can bring themselves

04:32:17.700 to climax without even even with um like moving like it's kind of rare you know like even like

04:32:23.980 the first time that you have sex with a man like the likelihood of a woman actually like coming to

04:32:28.120 orgasm the first time you have sex with a man it's very low because you're just not comfortable

04:32:33.260 yeah i was gonna say like a guy with like a guy can have a really like big dick but like if he's

04:32:39.700 not using it right it's going to be really hard for us to come well i'm saying so in the scenario

04:32:44.280 the scenario is he's he's hard he's erect it's whatever position you prefer and he's just

04:32:51.800 stationary can most women through thrusting their hips or throwing it back whatever can they bring

04:32:59.220 themselves to climax some can some can but i'd argue far fewer can so physiologically uh there's

04:33:07.680 a higher burn of performance on men than there is on women so like we can as men you can

04:33:14.940 basically be a pillow princess we can still come we can still climax like every time a man has sex

04:33:22.220 almost 99 of the time that a man has sex they come every time almost

04:33:26.980 most of the time yeah most of the time 90 yeah yeah 99 of the time so there's like it's for a

04:33:35.700 men to be good in bed there's a higher threshold physiologically it's just there's a difference

04:33:41.440 between men and women uh so you can take a virgin put her in doggy style no don't do this don't

04:33:49.820 fucking have your back be all rounded even so a guy will still come a lot of guys they will come

04:33:56.980 even if you have a paper bag on your head they will still come okay like true now even if they

04:34:02.100 had a blindfold on they would still come like men are dirty okay i'm sorry so men be awful

04:34:09.760 so yeah i mean they're so easy those little sluts

04:34:13.100 and the mask lesbians are awful as far as like a high body count man preferring to date low body

04:34:24.060 count woman um i just think again don't have a double standard the woman can want to date

04:34:31.480 a virgin man i just find that most women who have sexual experience it's not their preference

04:34:36.520 to date low experience or virgin men whereas like it could actually even be the case that

04:34:43.020 as a guy gets more experience he wants a woman with less experience for and i'm talking maybe

04:34:50.820 more so from a relationship perspective like i don't know i think women the more dick they have

04:34:58.680 the more baggage oh more trauma i mean i guess so like the first time that i ever had sex like

04:35:05.240 the guy told me that i was not good at giving head and i was like so embarrassed i was like

04:35:09.620 looking up videos i was like head is different head is different but if we're talking about just

04:35:17.220 intercourse yeah like but we were both virgins at the time so at the time like while we were both

04:35:23.260 virgins he like wanted me to have more experience and i wanted him to have less experience i was

04:35:27.680 like yeah i don't want you to even talk to a girl like the fact that you've even dated another girl

04:35:31.860 pisses me off yeah yeah i don't know does anyone else want to weigh in on that i also want a low

04:35:38.820 body count woman for my next w good for you no i was dating someone one time that said they had a

04:35:45.140 body count of 300 i was like how is that possible women i don't know if they were exaggerating

04:35:49.460 it was like a caucasian mask but is it okay if i take another energy shot

04:35:53.700 those are like 200 i just want to make sure i'm not gonna like die or anything i've never had

04:35:59.240 them before wouldn't that make you more likely to die okay so well i need to i need to get up

04:36:06.320 for a moment if you guys want to discuss a topic of your choosing i'm sure i'm not choosing he

04:36:10.500 yelled at me last time we have some conservative women here maybe you guys want to discuss some

04:36:14.680 what should we debate about guys let's disagree well not conservative topics but

04:36:21.820 what's the highest body count you guys would date um wow so i don't really care about a man's body

04:36:33.920 count i don't know i don't go out of my way to ask them i don't even ask them i don't want to

04:36:38.120 right i don't know if i know that hurts my feelings yeah exactly like that disgusts me i

04:36:43.240 don't want to think about it like how you got mad when just the fact that your boyfriend dated

04:36:47.280 another girl i used to be like that exactly and i feel like i grew out of it because you

04:36:52.100 i don't know you come to like reality like you know that's not reality yeah like i don't believe

04:36:57.560 in checking phones like if you still check that man's phone you're asking if you're looking for

04:37:02.700 something you're gonna find exactly i feel like you already have the inkling maybe you guys shouldn't

04:37:06.520 be together exactly like i feel like when you get to our age it's like if you feel that you know

04:37:11.100 that they're like not a good partner exactly like so that's why i feel like having like a

04:37:15.600 relationship where you know that you're loved is more important than like you know the size of

04:37:19.600 their dick yeah definitely what about your question um as long as they're like you know

04:37:26.100 clean getting tested yeah and like you know like they're assuming like if you were like monogamous

04:37:31.680 as long as they're not you know having sex with people and well you're dating they're not cheating

04:37:37.900 on you yeah yeah then i mean it doesn't matter too much have you guys heard of canada's dating coach

04:37:45.140 no she goes live her name's chantel she goes live and it's just this big thing above her and it says

04:37:52.960 body count doesn't matter and she goes on a factual no feeling scientific debates only and

04:38:00.420 so you're not allowed to start any sentence of like i i feel i think or you know anything like

04:38:07.820 that and her um i guess like the whole idea of it is that body count doesn't matter as long as you

04:38:16.500 are like a high valued person and uh you know you you're honest and you respect yourself

04:38:22.720 and do you have a good worth work ethic and all that because her um i guess her like idea of it

04:38:30.400 It's like somebody who has only been with one person can be lazy, a liar, and all those things.

04:38:37.080 So that's just her.

04:38:38.760 Yeah.

04:38:39.000 She says body count really doesn't matter.

04:38:41.740 But she also says, you know, you need to be getting tested and show the paper to them from the doctor that you've been tested.

04:38:48.980 But I'm pretty sure there are studies out there that show for women, once your body count passes five, your ability to pair bond and the likelihood of you leaving your partner significantly increases.

04:38:59.560 especially with marriage and so i know divorce statistics are super high and if both people in

04:39:06.340 the marriage go into it as virgins they like have the highest chance of um staying together

04:39:12.300 um but it depends mostly on the woman does the woman have a low body count is her ability to

04:39:19.300 pair bond and with that then stick through things not impacted as bad i mean i think that you can

04:39:27.420 decide because you have a high body power and you decide to get married you can decide that you're

04:39:31.660 going to stick with that person um but i think biologically something has been messed up and

04:39:37.360 you're going to be fighting really hard um yeah like you feel like you have too many options

04:39:41.980 it's like the option you know too much yeah you know too much and you feel like you can just find

04:39:46.380 another person because you've had so much experience rather than trying to like work it out

04:39:50.220 i think there is something to ignorance is bliss and and like i don't want that to sound like

04:39:55.600 innocent and I know that I'm like coming from the perspective of I was a virgin when I got married

04:40:00.620 but I saw my friends going from guy to guy and um you know some of them getting pregnant outside

04:40:09.140 of marriage and I you know I'm not judging anyone who does that that's just not the choices that

04:40:14.680 I've made um and I I can see where people struggle more because they went into their

04:40:22.360 serious relationship without setting themselves up for the best that they could. And I mean,

04:40:29.860 my husband, I mean, it wouldn't have been expected for him to have been a virgin at 39 when I met

04:40:34.760 him. And he was actually divorced, but his wife left him. And so he, I mean, also fit into that

04:40:42.000 statistic of it's usually the woman who leaves. And so if she already has a super high body count

04:40:47.460 going into it I think that can definitely have an impact what about you what's the question

04:40:53.500 like do you think like um what's the highest body count you would date do you think it matters

04:41:00.940 I don't really I guess like a hundred a hundred yeah if he's had sex with more than a hundred

04:41:08.520 people then I'm like it's a little bit high in my opinion that's just my preference hundreds

04:41:16.080 really does anybody else feel like 100s high that's right i feel like 100s high i would cry

04:41:23.840 i think it's all relative then as soon as it hits like triple digits i'd be like

04:41:29.040 the triple digits was crazy i was like you've had sex with 300 people it's a lot

04:41:34.160 i don't know 300 people so along that line who who all here wants to eventually get married

04:41:40.400 or are you just looking for a long-term relationship yeah like i want to get married

04:41:46.080 it'd be nice yeah i don't care if i'm like legally married as long as i have like a little ceremony

04:41:52.780 i'm fine i honestly don't know if i want to get married or not i don't know because you're

04:41:59.160 divorced right yeah but i was still like a kid when i got like i was 18 when i got married so

04:42:06.280 it was just i didn't have any like guidance when i freshly turned an adult so i just

04:42:12.400 didn't make a lot of like great decisions but i realized early on that it wasn't what i wanted

04:42:20.500 it wasn't gonna be what i wanted like you know for the long term i feel that uh i need to uh

04:42:27.340 get back up but then we're gonna jump into uh some uh pretty juicy topics but while i'm gone

04:42:36.040 i feel the need to even guide things uh as i'm away from the table nicole

04:42:43.500 you think that uh you don't think women should be drafted you would rather repeal the 19th

04:42:52.160 amendment now question though do you want to repeal the 19 19th amendment period

04:42:59.080 I wouldn't have a problem with it I think that most women at the time didn't want the right to

04:43:07.140 vote it was men who pushed that with just a few key women kind of lead like leading the female

04:43:15.420 voices but they weren't actually the female voices of the time women were able to get laws passed

04:43:20.600 without the right to vote before that like prohibition that was a movement that was pushed

04:43:25.900 strictly by women and they didn't have the right to vote now what i'm gonna do is and i hope you

04:43:31.200 guys without the the guiding hand of a man at the table i'm gonna be gone for about five to ten

04:43:38.100 minutes i want you guys to engage in that conversation so when she's talking about

04:43:45.440 repealing the 19th for those of you who don't know she wants to claw back women's right to vote

04:43:51.020 that's the 19th amendment i'm assuming some of you here are in favor of women being able to vote

04:43:58.620 so with that said let's hear the people who disagree with her go ahead

04:44:04.440 i think like women were more so like empathetic more than men and i think we're more like

04:44:16.640 intuitional and we kind of just go based off like our heart more and so I think we need a lot of

04:44:23.260 like like empathy like in the world right now like I feel like there's a lot of like

04:44:31.180 really horrible shit going on in the fucking world right now and it's like

04:44:36.460 it's all being done by like men and like I just like think the world is very heartless right now

04:44:44.140 women should you know have the right to vote. Go ahead. Are you done? I was just gonna say that

04:44:57.840 I mean I think women should be able to have the right to vote. I mean we're here living it and

04:45:02.360 we're here every day we wake up every single day so we should have the same right to be able to

04:45:06.360 vote for the place that we're living in. So should women be drafted then to make it equal? No. Well

04:45:11.980 also i agree with what you're saying i don't think that like if women didn't even want the choice to

04:45:17.640 vote like we should respect women right okay then so we didn't even want that choice so we should

04:45:23.740 respect that hello i'm just kidding wait are you saying actually like um like if we like if we

04:45:30.100 didn't have the right to vote a lot of people in general like just like the general population a

04:45:34.780 lot of people don't vote so if like if all of our votes were taken away like i don't think it would

04:45:40.460 really impact much because a lot of people in general don't vote so you see what you mean so

04:45:47.420 you so you're saying because so and then we would also be able to like hold men more accountable for

04:45:53.300 you know i mean if you want to be able to put yeah the um the blame so to speak on men then yeah

04:45:59.660 give them the only literal written voice but i mean women have a power with men yeah and that's

04:46:07.500 why they were able to get laws passed before they had the right to vote because they weren't a

04:46:12.060 voting box that could be bought by the government by men so they had to convince their husbands

04:46:18.520 they had to convince congress that things should be done and no one could sway them and i i actually

04:46:25.080 think the kind of the empathy thing i get what you're saying like looking at the world things

04:46:30.140 do look really dark at times um but i don't i don't think that's a good argument for women

04:46:36.300 having a right to vote because when you make your decisions purely on emotion you're not looking at

04:46:41.400 the bigger picture and I think that's a benefit with men is they're able to kind of separate

04:46:47.720 emotions from the issue and be a bit more black and white like how is this going to impact my taxes

04:46:52.580 oh it feels good that we're giving extra welfare to women but where's the bottom line you know oh

04:46:59.840 it feels good that my property taxes are going to x y and z so yeah i'll i guess agree to a slight

04:47:07.220 raise because it's not that big of a deal no like they look at the numbers my husband is always like

04:47:11.860 pinching all of the numbers when it comes to any law that's being presented um that we can vote on

04:47:18.180 and i'm just like okay i'll just vote the way you want so i mean like in that instance there's a

04:47:24.320 double but then there's a lot of households that get divided over it um and so they're just

04:47:28.780 canceling each other out i think that women can have an influence over the men in their lives

04:47:33.300 and still have a voice that way um but like you just said that would count double like because

04:47:38.980 you have the right to vote so even if you're following your husband's guidance it's two points

04:47:43.680 so i guess but there's just as many women like i thought it was terribly terribly trashy during

04:47:50.340 um whatever election it was where women were cheering that they were like oh my husband wants

04:47:56.000 me to vote for so and so but I'm voting for so and so and it was like a big trend you were seeing

04:48:00.040 all over social media and I was like that's so disrespectful like men don't ask a lot of their

04:48:05.140 wives my husband's always like food sex respect those are the three things if you can meet those

04:48:10.020 three markers we're going to be happy and I would never be like my husband wants me to vote for

04:48:15.340 this man but I'm going to vote for the other person despite him like I think that's crazy

04:48:19.900 and it's like a pure reason why women shouldn't be able to vote because they're just purely being

04:48:23.980 spiteful in something that affects our country or our state or our city whatever I don't think all

04:48:29.040 women do it out of spite I mean that's possible I mean I'm sure there are some yeah like I mean

04:48:34.400 there there are some very powerful women in this world that have we have the reason to vote for a

04:48:41.060 reason and not all women most a lot research and do a lot of learning about the different parties

04:48:50.760 and learning about who they want.

04:48:52.060 It's not just a, oh, I'm going to do this because everybody else is.

04:48:54.980 There's a lot of women out here,

04:48:56.820 and that's why we thank God have the reason to vote

04:48:59.940 and put our voice out there

04:49:01.120 because we can have a different opinion than men,

04:49:03.640 not out of spite because that's who I want to vote for.

04:49:06.820 And just because my husband wants to vote for somebody else,

04:49:09.460 I'm going to put my foot down and vote for them

04:49:11.280 because that's who I am and that's who I stand for.

04:49:13.900 I'm not going to change my morals and my values

04:49:15.500 for somebody just to meet theirs.

04:49:17.920 And then also, too, I would have that conversation

04:49:19.760 before it even got to that point with my partner of hey I'm voting for this person and if you do

04:49:24.220 not agree we can't be together where I would never break up with someone because of their

04:49:28.360 political views unless they didn't think mine like we're matching theirs so so would you make

04:49:34.400 sure that you politically aligned before getting with your that's what I'm saying so like if my

04:49:38.460 so like my partner like I would make sure that like before we even got into that that like our

04:49:42.920 political views aligned but even if they didn't it's not something that's going to be a breaker

04:49:46.800 for me as long as it's not a breaker for them where it's like if they can understand that I'm

04:49:51.220 going to vote for who I want to vote for like me and my dad we have very different political views

04:49:54.340 but at the end of the day that's my dad and I love him so it's just something that you have to be

04:49:59.220 able to think about and not it's always just like spite or what the woman wants because they want

04:50:03.220 the opposite so is there something that should be done to equalize the fact that like men can't vote

04:50:08.940 unless they register for the draft and like right now we're closest that we've ever been to the

04:50:15.080 chance that a draft could be called um and the women won't have to do anything if that happens

04:50:20.940 but we still get to vote um so what should be done to make that equal like what should women

04:50:28.000 have to do to make it equal i mean yeah is there is there an equal sacrifice that women should have

04:50:32.540 to make i mean we are i mean it's not the same as going to war but we are staying home with the

04:50:36.960 kids we're cooking we're cleaning we're taking care of the other uh household while they're gone

04:50:40.240 we're taking care of the whole house so i mean it's kind of um like a push and a shove not as

04:50:44.940 much but you're going to war and while you're there i'm going to take care of the kids cook

04:50:49.020 clean if you don't have kids you're taking care of the house just to maintain it um so i think

04:50:54.320 doing that uh kind of puts in that uh what i'm going to do while you're gone i will say i see

04:50:59.900 your point it's pretty insane that we have the draft as an extra thing for men especially since

04:51:04.620 do you have a boy i do yeah except like as a boy mom i'm like that's terrifying to think about

04:51:09.760 that like you have to like sign off that right because it's like yeah you know we haven't had

04:51:14.020 one in a while but potentially it could happen so i mean my husband was in the military i mean

04:51:19.080 i have family members who are in the military did that you know free you know their own free will

04:51:23.320 yeah um but that's completely different free will is like you're like offering it right and then

04:51:28.680 there's all these incentives most of the time too like you get rewards from the government versus

04:51:32.860 like you don't have a choice that's scary i would like also like um like during like war isn't like

04:51:38.480 a lot of like the casualties like women no it's men well i mean like um like when we're it's like

04:51:46.500 the united states went to war like historically a lot of the women here would also be like we

04:51:51.620 would be endangered as well you know like we wouldn't be like safe just because we're at home

04:51:55.400 well i mean if if there was fighting on the ground in the united states i'm sure there would be some

04:52:01.900 civilian casualties but it's still going to be 99 men like all the wars that there have been sure

04:52:07.900 there have probably been some casualties of women and children but it's the vast majority of the

04:52:13.660 people who died in the war were the men. I will say I agree with your point on that too because

04:52:17.720 I've seen like I've had friends in the military and even the friends that have served in the

04:52:22.120 front lines and stuff like we're like closer to that it seems like they're just not put in as

04:52:26.800 dangerous situations and then historically we haven't really had like a fight on U.S. soil and

04:52:32.040 like a very we have a crazy military budget so the chances of that happening are like

04:52:36.660 significantly low even with stuff happening in iran right now right yeah i mean because canada

04:52:42.540 and mexico aren't going to attack us the most likely no one's going to bring the war to the

04:52:46.480 continuous united states like we're more protected against like random civilian attacks and stuff

04:52:51.120 like that yeah yeah that's true so i think we should either abolish the draft or add women to

04:53:00.020 it and then also with women not being able to vote and wanting to repeal the 19th amendment what

04:53:06.300 about single women or like lesbian couples well i mean the you you still have an opportunity to sway

04:53:15.320 the men around you you don't know any men if you're a lesbian i mean i know men yeah so you

04:53:21.240 can have conversations with them you can still go to your representatives you can write letters you

04:53:25.020 can make phone calls i mean that's what the women did in the early 1900s before they had the chance

04:53:30.620 to vote is they just gathered in groups and then they went and spoke to groups of men and said this

04:53:35.300 is why we think that this should happen. So you think instead of having your own ballot, it's

04:53:41.140 better to try to manipulate the men around you? I think that men are not easily emotionally

04:53:48.860 manipulated, and women are. I think that it's really easy to pull on a woman's heartstrings,

04:53:54.220 and unfortunately, God made us so that it's easy for our heartstrings to be pulled. I think that

04:54:01.420 And that's why we're good moms, and that's why we're good caregivers, but it also makes

04:54:06.120 it hard for us to sometimes be able to look through the tears to the facts of any given

04:54:12.360 situation.

04:54:14.600 Yeah, I think like men and women, like we all have our strengths and weaknesses, yeah.

04:54:20.680 So, you know, I don't think the coin to war is one of our strengths here.

04:54:26.100 i mean i think if if it was i don't think we can abolish the draft unfortunately um because you

04:54:33.280 need to have some sort of safeguard if world war three happens or whatever um but i think i would

04:54:41.740 you know i wouldn't want to be drafted i'm probably too old i think that it's like um the first group

04:54:47.820 is like 20s something like that 18 to 20 something and then if they get desperate they yeah they'll

04:54:54.700 just keep calling the age groups um but uh i mean women can serve in other capacities um they could

04:55:01.120 be medics they could be operations people like they probably wouldn't put women on the front line

04:55:05.980 because we're not as strong as men we're not and i think brian sometimes likes to make the point

04:55:11.360 that if women were on the front line the enemy would just be like well let's ravage the women

04:55:15.140 and that'll yeah yeah i mean that's a strategy that's been used by armies in the past so um but

04:55:21.420 i think that there's a lot of support roles women could play if necessary that would free up more

04:55:25.780 women to be on the front or more men excuse me to be on the front lines if it came down to that

04:55:30.440 so child free woman because then what would happen to the kids yeah i mean that and that's why women

04:55:37.100 have to stay home right yes and that is that is i think um like if a woman decides to join the

04:55:43.600 military and then gets cold feet or is going to be uh what is it is going to be what is the word

04:55:50.140 where she's sent anyway when a soldier is like sent overseas or whatever yeah she ends up pregnant

04:55:54.940 then they keep her home yeah so I mean I don't think that would be terrible because we also have

04:56:00.300 a birth decline um like worldwide so uh I guess if the women just all want to get out of the draft

04:56:07.280 by having babies that'll overall be for the good yeah um seriously so I feel like it's harder to

04:56:14.280 be like a mom now these days too like compared to like well like depending on your situation

04:56:19.280 because like child care gets so expensive and then it's like it's so hard to be like a stay-at-home

04:56:24.980 mom sometimes for people you have to make sacrifices if that's the plan that you're

04:56:29.660 you and your husband or partner have agreed upon for sure

04:56:32.560 i feel like the draft is scary is for me like the president would be like there being no draft

04:56:40.780 like fixing the draft like part of it because it is scary thinking of like in a situation if like

04:56:47.240 your kid had to be drafted it doesn't feel like it's like a very fair trade-off yeah but what if

04:56:53.100 we went to war and we don't have anyone to fight for our country because nobody wants to volunteer

04:56:58.460 that's true yeah so sometimes you like you know they're this is why like things are like that

04:57:04.920 because it's like don't we have a large enough military do you think we mean i think you know

04:57:08.660 this i well i don't i don't know that much about that but um i mean i think we're we're all right

04:57:13.800 right now but if a war were to break out then after you know so much time now who knows this

04:57:21.300 is kind of we're in a world of everything's being fought mostly with like drones and AIs and like

04:57:26.940 people flying planes and dropping bombs and so there's less hand-to-hand type of stuff going on

04:57:32.260 yeah it's just button-to-button yeah but I mean I just I don't think you I think any giant um

04:57:39.000 conflict would eventually lead to the place where you would have to pull in people who weren't as

04:57:44.020 willing to go yeah do you feel like also like i'm interested in your thoughts on this since like you

04:57:49.500 have the ideas of like the whole psyche thing do you think that like war would be less efficient

04:57:53.900 if women were running it like remember the movie oppenheimer did you see that i did not see yeah

04:57:58.200 you didn't see that but like making hard decisions like that would be hard for women um i i mean i

04:58:04.600 think yes I think it would be harder to like I don't think that women should be in that position

04:58:10.080 where they're you know saying drop this bomb or whatever like I had an uncle who was in

04:58:15.240 I don't know one of the wars in the mid 1900s oh sorry um and he he would talk about like he was

04:58:23.760 the guy in the air traffic tower who had to make the call on a plane dropping a payload payload

04:58:29.800 and that haunted him as he got older my great uncle um and so I don't think women could do

04:58:34.560 that I think it yeah we would hesitate way too long I think I think we have a tendency to nuke

04:58:39.300 things um so yeah but then like even though that was like a hard decision for him too I'm sure at

04:58:45.640 the time it's like okay then if he doesn't do that what is the other person right to do he's

04:58:49.600 looking at the greater good and this is the role that he's placed in to serve yeah

04:58:53.460 um is your um because you have the military background is your husband in the

04:58:59.980 my husband was in the navy for six years oh okay okay yeah he served in japan so have you had to

04:59:06.800 move anywhere no that was before we met i got you so i just have the pictures and he wears his

04:59:12.120 coveralls from time to time oh was he serving in okinawa um no he so i don't i don't know where

04:59:19.060 he was stationed in japan but he was there during 9-11 so then they got pulled out immediately oh

04:59:24.100 no yeah so um yeah what else should we say guys um i don't know i got yelled at last time i made

04:59:38.100 a topic do you guys feel like do you feel like um so you feel like men are better off like running

04:59:46.400 military stuff anyways i i mean i think so i think what do you guys think oh i have another question

04:59:53.240 so do you guys think that women can be president because you guys are saying that women can't make

04:59:59.880 these big decisions and we talked about like having a woman as a president everybody was like

05:00:04.420 oh yeah women can be presidents now you guys are kind of retract i think they can but i think like

05:00:08.780 in the context of the united states like it's hard to say like when people say like sometimes people

05:00:14.040 like i'm i feel like i'm more moderate but people will say things like we're going to take away

05:00:17.500 everyone's firearms and i'm like that's never going to work in the united states this isn't

05:00:21.400 japan you know what i mean so i feel like in the context of like realistically where our country is

05:00:27.260 at i don't think it would like elect a woman president yeah in the near future and then like

05:00:32.500 the kind of like disrupt the disrupt that that would like cause yeah would make the political

05:00:38.160 parties like go even further i agree i don't think that a woman can be president um and i know that

05:00:45.840 might sound misogynist or whatever but i think that we're way too emotional again um and

05:00:54.160 i think that it would just turn everything into this like cat fight everywhere um i think that

05:01:03.320 there's a place for women in politics i think like press secretary great place for politics

05:01:08.620 because she can snap back when people are giving her attitude and shut things down but i think

05:01:13.680 when you're leading a country and you're the face of the country there's just too many ways that

05:01:21.020 the emotions can be played to you can't help the facts that you're like this all month long

05:01:27.080 depending on where you are in your cycle it's an unfortunate reality um and then i mean god forbid

05:01:34.320 the president gets pregnant um that would be something i i think that would be really bad

05:01:39.440 period and broken up with girl i will say as somebody who dates girls there is a thing where

05:01:45.780 like the mood swings are a thing they're like a thing it's like literally like baby daddy came

05:01:50.220 back literally you're dating like a different person like if she's like depending on like if

05:01:55.200 people have extreme periods i had a girlfriend with pmdd so it's like the person that i was

05:01:59.420 dating when she's like on her period is like not the person i was dating like i don't want her in

05:02:04.100 control of a nuke i think women like to get offended by it but it's an unfortunate reality

05:02:09.880 of our life and you can't get rid of it there's been a huge shift away from hormonal birth

05:02:14.520 controls because of what it does to women as a result like for me i just track everything on a

05:02:20.840 calendar and that's how my husband have done everything we haven't gotten pregnant unless

05:02:24.620 we wanted to get pregnant um but i definitely know like oh it's coming like and i feel so much

05:02:32.220 better when it's done and yeah but to be fair when do we ever elect someone like under the age of 60

05:02:38.140 so i feel like hormones you're like your homework hormones won't be as intense at that age i mean

05:02:44.320 it's fair it could be a menopausal woman but her hormones are still crazy yeah but i mean

05:02:49.320 is really bad. I feel like they're even worse. I was thinking pre-menopause, menopause, perimenopause.

05:02:54.420 Unfortunately, we never get rid of the crazy hormones because then when you lose your estrogen,

05:02:59.960 then you're crazy too. Like I just, and I've met a lot of men that are like older, much older. And

05:03:06.100 you know how like people say like, oh, they're like beyond their years. Like that's how I feel

05:03:09.580 about a lot of people that are, are older in general, like men and women. I will say like

05:03:14.420 ladies or old guys you know like they just like they just seem so smart yeah no I was just saying

05:03:20.320 I agree with you like I feel like men like in my experience like even though I prefer dating that's

05:03:25.540 how I know I prefer dating girls because like girls be crazy like the men will like if you're

05:03:30.000 having the same argument with a man sometimes unless it's really bad like I feel like it just

05:03:33.820 doesn't scale to the it doesn't get out of hand as fast and they're over it they don't hold a

05:03:39.340 girl actually I will like want to go to my husband and like apologize for something stupid I said

05:03:43.600 earlier in the afternoon that he got mad and left and he's like what are you talking about yeah

05:03:48.360 that's exactly yeah let's not bring it back because men are not emotional like that they

05:03:52.840 won't hold on to something just because of like an emotional response to it they'll hold on to

05:03:57.140 something because it's like actually a problem that's like reoccurring right yeah yeah did you

05:04:04.100 have any input on this brie the voting thing um did she did you engage what did i say i swear i

05:04:12.000 said something no i know you responded to her question i just don't know what you said you were

05:04:18.020 it was a few minutes ago i forgot well i think she had brought up the draft and look i i don't

05:04:27.460 think that we should point blank repeal the 19th caveat though if we make i mean this is the

05:04:35.620 current status quo men are subject to military conscription the united states government can

05:04:40.600 force men to go into the military, go the front line. Women have no such obligation or duty or

05:04:48.800 responsibility. Women have a privilege, thus, by having access to the vote without any duty to the

05:04:57.340 country, without any responsibility to the country, any obligation. That puts women in a privileged

05:05:03.040 position over men women just got the thing for free men have to men have to be subject

05:05:11.660 to potentially fucking dying in order to be able to vote if there was some sort of reverse

05:05:18.380 reversal of that in order for women to be able to vote they had to potentially die and men didn't

05:05:24.940 have that feminists would be losing their fucking mind oh my god it's so unfair we have to close this

05:05:30.180 inequality. I think if we're not going to have a serious conversation about delivering equality to

05:05:39.520 women, then we got to take away your right to vote. Or you get half the power of men's vote.

05:05:47.960 That's only if. Now, my first step is not that. My first step is women can maintain their right

05:05:54.520 to vote, but you also have to be subject to military conscription. That's equal. That's

05:05:59.320 equality and even then you would still be privileged because you wouldn't be sent to the

05:06:02.960 front lines women wouldn't be women are not sent to the front lines women are predominantly in

05:06:08.760 support roles well no i was gonna say we do risk our lives in childbirth though okay can the

05:06:13.920 government force you to have a child here you for this engagement please switch back to nathan

05:06:20.020 go ahead oh wait go ahead you're good i that's what i what i just say that um we risk our lives

05:06:31.020 my question was can the government force women to have children oh no but okay can the government

05:06:39.260 force women to do anything uh i don't know right so can a woman who is like never plans on ever

05:06:46.520 having a child can she vote i mean yes right so would you make it an obligation for a woman to be

05:06:53.320 able to vote to have a child okay so what i just meant because you said how i don't know i thought

05:07:02.560 you implied for a second like we don't risk our lives at all like in general but that is like

05:07:06.740 something to where women do risk their lives i know we don't not every woman the mortality rate

05:07:11.020 hold on uh we live in 2026 it's still pretty high no it's not high women get pregnant and give birth

05:07:19.840 and the chance of you dying is like incredibly low while it happens uh no no

05:07:28.700 there's still risks but yeah okay there's still risks but there's not even if even if even if

05:07:36.080 that was true even if we grant it the government isn't forcing a woman ever to get pregnant

05:07:42.420 i know right so that's irrelevant okay right so again uh and also even if you're saying well look

05:07:53.280 okay brian obviously the government's not going to force women to have children but it's like a

05:07:56.940 social obligation a social duty it clearly isn't women are not having children or they're waiting

05:08:03.200 until their fucking late 20s and 30s to start having kids that were below replacement level

05:08:09.220 we're having like 1.5 kids or some shit yeah and most of that it's not even

05:08:14.140 it's fucking immigrants who are having the fucking kids it's not even americans really

05:08:23.840 so this idea that uh well women are risking their lives it's like well are they i mean that's one

05:08:31.780 Only we can risk our life.

05:08:33.140 That's what I have to say.

05:08:34.040 Okay, well, men can risk their lives doing things that aren't related to the military.

05:08:38.900 Like men's jobs are predominantly way more dangerous than women's jobs.

05:08:43.840 93% of workplace fatalities are men.

05:08:47.860 Majority of workplace injuries, men.

05:08:51.000 So we risk our lives beyond just military.

05:08:53.980 We risk our lives in the workforce.

05:08:56.700 Women, y'all mostly are in air-conditioned office jobs.

05:09:01.780 That are comfortable.

05:09:05.520 So, yeah.

05:09:10.240 Do you want to respond?

05:09:11.880 I mean, yeah, I said I'd agree.

05:09:13.080 So, okay, you're in favor of us giving women like three-fifths power to their vote.

05:09:19.040 Well, okay, I actually just remembered what I said in response to her.

05:09:24.520 I said her right to vote because she said how she would vote for her.

05:09:30.960 Oh, I vote how my husband.

05:09:32.280 Yeah, yeah.

05:09:32.880 So it's technically, it's counting, like, your vote is adding to his.

05:09:40.700 Sure, I guess.

05:09:42.100 Yeah, so if she didn't have the right, then, I don't know, it wouldn't count.

05:09:47.780 Like, I mean, it would just be her husband's vote.

05:09:49.240 It wouldn't be double the power.

05:09:51.120 Okay.

05:09:51.860 But it doesn't, so if we're talking about equality, though, I mean, perhaps there's another form of equity that could exist.

05:10:00.380 if you're saying women's obligation is to birth children uh then maybe we should have a birthing

05:10:09.200 draft yeah i mean they can choose their partner but no seriously though because like the birth

05:10:19.080 rate is declining so that would help actually a lot but i mean that's completely politically

05:10:24.780 untenable feminists will lose their mind even conservative women will lose their mind

05:10:28.960 um so and i'm not in favor of that just to be clear um but i think actually feminists would

05:10:36.720 sooner prefer equality in the draft than having like this weird equity thing where

05:10:43.600 yeah uh yeah women have to like birth children or something to get the right to vote that's

05:10:50.220 probably way less preferable well in the out would be getting pregnant then if you're going

05:10:55.620 to get drafted well that's the other thing is that yeah that would help for well the other thing is

05:11:00.240 the the well that's an interesting outlook on that but uh if a woman volunteers to join the

05:11:06.660 military which they can uh women can avoid deployment if they get pregnant so like yes

05:11:13.100 even if you did have a draft women uh even if they're not pregnant women typically aren't going

05:11:19.180 to be drafted to be like frontline soldiers like busting down down doors in Baghdad you know

05:11:27.180 they're not going to be doing that at least when we were in the the conflict in Iraq many years ago

05:11:32.640 but uh I mean women will always find a way to escape uh that even if they were drafted yeah

05:11:43.040 okay just get knocked up women actually women volunteer soldiers who are women when they're

05:11:48.360 like oh shit we're gonna get deployed to the middle east oopsie got pregnant discharge i have

05:11:53.380 heard that happens actually oh they do all the time they're like fuck i don't want to go to

05:11:56.940 afghanistan whoops got pregnant okay discharge me yeah i mean so women will always find a way

05:12:03.420 to uh get themselves out of that situation not all women but um yep so i don't know i don't

05:12:13.480 really know the solution but at least a good starting point is women should be subject to

05:12:18.680 military conscription i'm fine with women keeping the right to vote but it should be in the same way

05:12:23.100 that it's tied to men's sub being subject to military conscription women should also be subject

05:12:27.980 to military conscription and fuck it just send all the women don't even send any men just send

05:12:35.720 women see how that goes well my husband would rather go to war and have me keep the kids

05:12:41.540 well maybe you get a pass if you have children but um well i guess men who

05:12:47.380 men who have children don't get the pass even then so it's unfair so yeah okay um let's see

05:12:58.520 here we have some things on the questionnaire why don't we go there uh do we have the things

05:13:02.980 from the discord like the the research tab or whatever like all the ai swaps

05:13:10.040 okay uh let's see here all right uh let's just go into some notes here uh kaylee you're a clairvoyant

05:13:22.820 um yeah so i practice witchcraft and then um hoodoo what is hoodoo so hoodoo is it's not

05:13:36.540 voodoo for anyone out there who's not familiar voodoo and hoodoo are two separate things voodoo

05:13:40.240 is going to be more um like sacrifices and using different animals live animals and different

05:13:48.260 things to do rituals where hoodoo is very much um ancestrally derived so for my black ancestors i

05:13:54.420 use um my ancestral background uh to bring forth um i guess just like good luck um just

05:14:05.140 my values and morals and then uh when it comes to being able to see things before they happen

05:14:12.820 um it's normally in my dreams uh it's always I either have a really visual night terror where

05:14:18.040 I end up like punching the headboard or like I'm uh I have night terrors so I always am like

05:14:23.820 doing things in my sleep and I speak in my sleep I see things in my sleep and they happen in real

05:14:28.520 life okay so clairvoyant isn't that like telepathy kind of or is that uh no it's not

05:14:34.540 alter the mind you can get things through dreams see that see things before they happen uh things

05:14:39.580 like that and you do witchcraft yes uh have you cast any hexes i've done one do you do dark magic

05:14:48.600 um i don't do anything that unbalances the scale so like i would never put a spell on someone that

05:14:55.220 would make them love me because i want them to love me for me um but as far as like black magic

05:14:59.880 goes yeah there are things in the book that are written uh that are considered black magic yeah

05:15:03.960 But I don't do anything where it's like I won't make anyone fall in love with me.

05:15:08.220 I don't do any glamour or anything.

05:15:11.100 What about a spell that somebody would have an accident?

05:15:17.220 No.

05:15:18.040 I don't do anything that causes a scale.

05:15:21.080 I'm not God.

05:15:22.000 I don't play God.

05:15:22.800 So that's not my choice to make.

05:15:24.980 But what I would do is called a justice spell.

05:15:28.140 So it's giving that person whatever they deserve and what life thinks they deserve.

05:15:33.460 Did you cast a spell on the Whatever podcast?

05:15:35.700 No, I did not.

05:15:36.500 Are you going to cast a spell on the Whatever podcast?

05:15:38.540 No, you just pissed me off that one time, but we're fine.

05:15:40.940 We're homies again?

05:15:41.800 We're homies again.

05:15:42.640 All right.

05:15:43.040 You're my Caucasian.

05:15:45.060 I'm mixed.

05:15:46.340 I know.

05:15:46.880 You're half my Caucasian then.

05:15:49.460 Wait, what?

05:15:50.940 I'm half your Caucasian?

05:15:52.200 Yeah, because you're half white.

05:15:53.360 Okay, I like that.

05:15:54.120 You're half my Caucasian.

05:15:54.900 Okay, I like that.

05:15:56.340 And you're an empath?

05:15:57.660 What does that mean?

05:15:58.360 um so let's say she was just going through like a really hard time in her life or someone passed

05:16:06.820 away I can pick up on that or it's um I can feel I could put myself into other people's shoes but

05:16:13.900 on a different level where it's like even if I wasn't in that situation I'm able to take myself

05:16:18.080 put them in their shoes and analyze everything from within not just from my own views and

05:16:22.540 standpoint but from what anyone can see okay cool uh you said actually you know what let's just oh

05:16:33.140 and i worship hakati let's do the uh questionnaire stuff here uh lexi women are the primary victims

05:16:38.420 of war not men to which you agree why is that um because women get raped and killed uh yeah i'm not

05:16:46.600 i mean i'm not going to dispute that women definitely do uh encounter that during wartime

05:16:51.280 it's definitely happened um but so we're doing like a comparative analysis here between the

05:16:57.740 uh collective suffering of men and the collective suffering of women so i'm not going to dispute

05:17:03.280 absolutely during wartime women do get raped although i think they actually found in one a

05:17:08.480 recent conflict in ukraine i think they actually found that ukrainian men were being raped at higher

05:17:14.400 instances than ukrainian women uh even putting that aside though

05:17:19.780 um i guess the question is uh how many men do you kill to prevent one rape

05:17:26.640 uh one okay you'd kill one man to prevent one rape okay so if more i mean i mean i would kill

05:17:39.840 half a man then if that makes sense so like if one man dies two women get raped that's like pretty

05:17:46.240 like equal I guess wait hold on

05:17:49.180 okay I think I understand yeah um

05:17:55.020 yeah uh because like that's a whole life a whole life right you know but also a whole lifetime worth

05:18:03.480 of trauma that's fucked up okay yeah i mean and plus losing your husband or child or whatever

05:18:10.200 that could possibly happen you would acknowledge that while this is a very uh grave uh abuse of

05:18:19.280 somebody that and not in all instances but some people can overcome their traumas yes and

05:18:27.280 heal and move on right um in any case though

05:18:32.880 the military the male military deaths in i would argue every single military conflict that there

05:18:43.580 has ever been is much higher than the rate of women who are essayed and so your position though

05:18:54.860 is women are the primary victims of war not men oh no i just asked a question i was just uh

05:19:01.140 confused about that no but on the questionnaire uh the statement women are the primary victims

05:19:05.740 of war not men you agreed and then while i was gone i overheard yes as a release you i think

05:19:11.660 you'd brought up something about women are the primary victims or something i'll remember exactly

05:19:16.840 but

05:19:17.480 well

05:19:22.280 so are

05:19:22.940 okay

05:19:23.300 are women

05:19:23.920 the primary

05:19:24.420 victims of

05:19:24.980 war

05:19:25.180 um

05:19:26.060 no

05:19:26.640 so men

05:19:27.700 are the

05:19:27.900 primary

05:19:28.180 victims

05:19:28.540 yes

05:19:28.900 because men

05:19:29.520 actually die

05:19:30.240 okay

05:19:31.280 there's nothing

05:19:32.260 else to discuss

05:19:33.040 on that

05:19:33.400 all right

05:19:34.240 uh

05:19:34.960 23

05:19:37.340 uh

05:19:39.020 jennifer

05:19:40.400 jennifer

05:19:42.640 jennington

05:19:43.440 jenning

05:19:44.080 jennifer

05:19:44.820 jennifer

05:19:45.540 jennington

05:19:46.240 i'm literally gonna wake you up to that actually yes you're friends right call her jennington

05:19:53.300 no we're um we're more than just friends actually i'm lovers i'm outing us right now

05:20:00.360 we are besties for the resties oh thought you were gonna come out as gay

05:20:06.740 no but that's actually my girl for life i mean i kiss my girl bestie so

05:20:13.100 okay um jennifer uh you agree with the following statement women are just as physically strong as

05:20:21.520 men is that correct yeah i believe so i believe that we well naturally probably not but i think

05:20:29.780 you can definitely like women are capable of going to the gym and becoming stronger than they are

05:20:36.480 right now yes or then like the same as men like let's say a man can lift a 200 pound weight i

05:20:44.800 believe that's physically possible for a woman to do too you you did a bicep curl motion there

05:20:51.080 and you said 200 pounds i don't i don't even think i mean like i don't know the records on

05:21:01.300 on single arm

05:21:04.560 bicep curls

05:21:05.500 but I don't even know if

05:21:08.420 the strongest woman

05:21:10.340 in the world could

05:21:12.200 single arm bicep curl

05:21:14.040 200 pounds. Yeah, that's crazy.

05:21:16.500 Like, I'm not even sure

05:21:18.440 I think a man could

05:21:22.200 like really strong men could

05:21:24.180 bicep curl 200 pounds.

05:21:26.000 Single arm bicep curl?

05:21:27.860 Has it been physically done?

05:21:29.680 Can we search it?

05:21:30.600 Like, bicep curl is not, like, I don't know if they do competitions for bicep curls, but, like, world record bicep curl.

05:21:37.800 Are you talking about the long bar with, like, weights on the end on each side?

05:21:40.860 Wait, get this.

05:21:41.440 Okay, the world record for a strict bicep curl back against a wall is generally recognized as 251 pounds.

05:21:49.960 That's two arms.

05:21:52.420 So, yeah, no women, not even men, can single-arm bicep curl.

05:21:57.840 Oh, wait, hold on.

05:21:59.260 Wait.

05:21:59.680 Oh, Cheat Curls.

05:22:01.600 Cheat Curls Lavon, the fucking arm wrestler, did like 400 pounds.

05:22:09.800 One hand?

05:22:10.500 It's possible.

05:22:11.260 Two hands.

05:22:12.100 Okay.

05:22:12.320 Two hands.

05:22:13.260 Yeah.

05:22:13.980 But in any case, so there are some women who can be stronger than some men.

05:22:19.800 There's no dispute there.

05:22:21.580 But in general, on average, women are not stronger than men.

05:22:29.140 Yeah.

05:22:29.680 Like, naturally, if we were both...

05:22:31.500 Well, let's hear from her.

05:22:34.160 That wasn't the question.

05:22:36.100 It didn't say average, did it?

05:22:37.840 Well, no, it says women are just as physically strong as men.

05:22:41.020 Just as, like, as in, like...

05:22:43.040 But the statement isn't...

05:22:46.040 The statement isn't, can a singular woman be stronger than a singular man?

05:22:52.360 It's women.

05:22:53.560 well my ex couldn't like press 200 and i can't so could he beat you up though

05:23:03.040 possibly we never got at it to know well i don't know if he lifted but there's actually

05:23:12.500 some recent funny videos on this they put like fitness women against dwarves oh i see that and

05:23:20.060 the dwarves outperformed the women and then they put like skinny dudes against athlete women's and

05:23:27.360 the skinny dudes still won so it's like um there are definitely some women who are stronger than

05:23:34.840 some men but this statement would is more about like in general on average how about this is the

05:23:43.440 strongest man alive stronger than the strongest woman alive i don't know you don't know i don't

05:23:50.900 know uh what are the stats on that probably okay probably not probably not probably not

05:23:58.940 okay um on average are men stronger than women on average yeah

05:24:03.700 no so what are they weaker are they equal i like i think that like

05:24:13.420 Like, let's say nobody, okay, so if, you know, a woman and a man are put into a room, they don't go to the gym.

05:24:22.100 I think a man would be stronger than that.

05:24:24.940 Woman, naturally.

05:24:27.160 Naturally, genes, biologically, whatever, yeah.

05:24:30.540 Right, and who participates in weightlifting more, men or women?

05:24:35.280 Weightlifting more?

05:24:38.740 Probably men, but women do it too.

05:24:42.060 Yes, that's true.

05:24:42.960 But if you're saying that two untrained, like an untrained woman and an untrained man, they're in the room, just the baseline, the man's going to be stronger.

05:24:54.280 This, I honestly think the gap would actually start to increase even if you compare a trained woman to a trained man.

05:25:06.000 Well, I agree.

05:25:09.240 But when I saw that sentence, I was thinking, like, you know, like, oh, like, women cannot be stronger than men, which I completely disagree with.

05:25:18.980 Well, in general, they can't.

05:25:20.820 Like, in totality.

05:25:23.240 In general, they can't?

05:25:28.480 Nathan, can you, I ordered some stuff.

05:25:34.420 Can you just go down?

05:25:36.560 Or maybe we, yeah.

05:25:39.240 Hold on. I ordered pizza for peeps.

05:25:43.800 Okay.

05:25:47.100 Yeah.

05:25:50.440 Go ahead.

05:25:54.380 Oh, I was just saying that, like,

05:25:58.160 to say that they just, like, you know, you're saying generally can't, like,

05:26:03.840 they can be.

05:26:05.160 No, but I'm acknowledging that there are some women who are stronger than some men.

05:26:13.100 But when I'm using women, I'm using a plural, plural women.

05:26:18.600 I'm saying women collectively.

05:26:21.420 So collectively, women are weaker than men.

05:26:23.800 i would even argue the like an average guy can probably lift more weights than oh my god sorry

05:26:43.960 guys um then uh a uh like not like a fucking olympic weightlifter woman but

05:26:57.740 like a athlete female like i think your average dude is physically stronger than the

05:27:04.600 your average female athlete

05:27:06.620 dude who's never stepped foot in the gym stronger than a woman

05:27:14.480 most women sure then yeah when you say it like that then yeah yes okay all right um

05:27:26.120 can somebody take over the conversation for me please while i need it yeah i feel oh i was just

05:27:34.520 gonna say i feel like it's a thing because like um i've had a few friends that took testosterone

05:27:39.360 and they got strong it was crazy like females well yeah like people born female and then they

05:27:46.200 took testosterone and then they started getting like super strong or like more muscle and stuff

05:27:50.700 it's like there was this one person i was talking to ages ago and they were starting to take tea and

05:27:55.360 it was like they started getting abs just like not working out or exactly yeah exactly because men by

05:28:01.600 default are stronger and they they have a higher much higher endurance than women they don't get

05:28:08.060 tired as quickly as we do if i worked eight hours and a man worked the same eight hours

05:28:12.480 he will be fine after that is a thing well it's the same reason why there's been such a big push

05:28:19.440 to make sure that it's only biological females competing against each other because even a trans

05:28:24.680 woman who's been taking the hormones for years is still stronger than the other professional

05:28:30.300 athletes in that sport yeah that are like it's just the natural testosterone that is in a man's

05:28:36.600 body um my husband never goes to the gym he he is in decent shape like he's fit but he never goes

05:28:43.640 to the gym I go to the gym multiple times a week and I think if he went he could easily outdo my

05:28:49.820 leg press which is my my highest thing like I don't think it would be hard for him yeah and so

05:28:54.460 and then I would be really annoyed because I've been working up for this like yeah year and a half

05:28:59.640 but um i feel like you're so annoying but there it goes with the testosterone like

05:29:05.820 we just can't yeah i think that's a huge factor when you don't have it i think it shows with like

05:29:11.200 just trans people in general when it comes to a male transitioning to a woman and a woman

05:29:16.920 transitioning to a male once that woman starts taking that testosterone they transition so much

05:29:22.640 quicker that's a thing yeah because it takes so much for a trans a woman that's transitioning

05:29:27.700 into a woman to look feminine if they don't already have the features because it's so hard

05:29:33.480 for like their body to like cut it out and realize you're switching because testosterone is just like

05:29:38.040 so strong it's like once somebody once somebody has gone through like male puberty like you need

05:29:43.220 straight up like facial feminization surgery and even then like some people just like are

05:29:47.920 have too masculine features uh yeah i know some girls in the trans community who go like through

05:29:53.180 a black market route uh to get higher estrogen because um it's just not high enough and it's not

05:29:59.460 doing anything so they go on the black market because that's where they can get where it's

05:30:03.480 faster for them to look like a female and to get those um feminine features yeah i feel like there's

05:30:09.300 definitely like strong women though don't get me wrong yeah but i think it definitely takes like

05:30:13.960 a lot more training or like how you were saying with my ex-husband because he would like you know

05:30:17.760 how men go through like periods of like wanting to get back in shape and then it's like the second

05:30:21.960 he starts working out again he's like back to his old shape he literally like just like crash dieted

05:30:26.460 for two weeks and he's doing a pull-up and I'm like over here like I hope I can lift I yeah my

05:30:32.020 there's a pull-up bar in our basement and I was like so how many can you do my husband's like

05:30:35.800 I haven't been working on them so I can do like five and I was like I hate you because I've been

05:30:41.000 trying to use the machine at the gym to get myself to a normal pull-up and I'm still not there like

05:30:46.480 and he's just like every once in a while he tries some pull-ups and he can do them and I'm like

05:30:51.360 not fair not fair even my son is strong is your son how old is your son he's three yeah is he like

05:31:00.060 strong like i'm like oh my gosh yes oh man he's so proud to carry in like my big thing of protein

05:31:05.580 shakes from the van that's how my son is he's nine and he's so eager like he won't let me carry in

05:31:11.980 the water or anything he's like i got it mom like i'm good and i'm like oh bob he's like he's really

05:31:17.100 solid oh and strong he's a strong boy i know my son is like three foot six he's really tall it's

05:31:23.840 crazy yeah i definitely feel like um yeah men are just naturally stronger also too then like i think

05:31:31.680 the debating is so interesting because then it's like if you say that like men aren't naturally

05:31:36.200 stronger than women then in some ways i feel like that kind of hurts the argument of like

05:31:40.400 men can be dangerous you know what i mean that's like it's like from a debating perspective

05:31:46.240 what do you guys think what do you think girl what was the question do you think men are

05:31:52.080 naturally stronger than women yeah absolutely i think biologically men have more muscle mass

05:31:57.440 than women so that would naturally lead to them being stronger well yeah and actually yeah you

05:32:04.220 that's a really good point because women's bodies have naturally have to carry more fat because

05:32:11.900 we're supposed to have babies and so we need fat to protect those organs one two three four five

05:32:23.820 yeah like with the runway models or like

05:32:25.820 Does anybody not want to, not want to eat them?

05:32:36.560 Well, men definitely need, like, more fat on their bodies.

05:32:40.100 Or, like, how, like, like, if you have multiple kids, sometimes your body just won't let you, like, lose weight because your body is, like, oh, you need to be able to have, like, the next baby.

05:32:50.000 my tailbone is starting to give out i like severely injured it when i learned how to

05:33:00.920 snowboard so like it taps out like after three hours it starts like severely hurt

05:33:06.860 i mean i have really bad posture so i'm like trying to sit up nice but even if like i rest

05:33:13.840 like it's just it hurts when you're trying to set up yeah I do have a question for you um so

05:33:21.600 with me being I'm 23 and I hear a lot like just with women that are my age that they're like oh

05:33:30.100 you need to live your 20s and then have a baby later on in your later 30s where I want to have

05:33:35.600 a kid in the next like two three years I would do it sooner rather than later I didn't have my

05:33:40.560 first kid till I was 20 I think I just turned 29 when she was born and then and then I was 31 then

05:33:49.180 with my second they were 20 months apart um and like it was just hard recovering now I had to have

05:33:56.700 c-section so that also complicates things but you you see like women who are younger who start in

05:34:03.140 their early 20s having kids and they like they lose the baby fat so much faster yeah their skin

05:34:09.100 like goes back in so much quicker yeah um plus you have the energy yeah the energy to work out

05:34:15.860 it's crazy thing everyone's just like live like live your life i'm like girl i partied when i

05:34:20.380 was 21 like i'm 23 now like i'm over it like yes i want to have a kid next year i would say have

05:34:25.040 like if you've got that partner that you're in it to win it like have kids because um like i like

05:34:32.020 going to the gym but i have to get up at 4 30 in the morning to get it done before my kids start

05:34:36.920 waking up why did you give it to me now why are you gonna give me a pizza to pass it

05:34:40.660 yeah i feel like because it's you know nara smith yeah she got that's what i'm thinking back so fast

05:34:48.460 because she had her first kid when she's 20 and she has like i think five kids now yeah and she's

05:34:53.480 like she's so tiny she's tinier than like but i also do that has to do with like she's diagnosed

05:34:58.580 with really bad severe eczema that's the whole reason she started her channel with making the

05:35:02.180 food from scratch oh really yeah she has severe eczema oh so um it that was like where the whole

05:35:07.560 like no nara smith oh the really pretty trad wife one something else too she has like lupus or

05:35:15.200 something yeah so she's like a little yeah so she loses her hair and like yeah bad in her face and

05:35:20.260 so that's the whole reason why she started doing the from scratch series it wasn't just oh i make

05:35:24.260 this because i have the time and i'm a trad wife it's i need to for me and my kids because yeah i

05:35:28.400 have a condition um so i yeah i think that also has to do with it too yeah i feel like as long as

05:35:34.680 you know you have a partner that's gonna like you want you feel comfortable having a kid with them

05:35:39.060 and that like you feel like you're ready to have a kid that you should have it whatever you yeah

05:35:43.580 every time like i say that around people that are my age like you're crazy like what are you saying

05:35:48.820 and i'm like why would i want to have a kid later on in life and then not be able to live what my

05:35:53.820 40s and 50s while they're in college yeah like there's life to live afterwards yes exactly so

05:35:59.380 like rachel wilson talks about how like her um her youngest is in high school so like she's written

05:36:06.580 you know she wrote a book a couple years ago she is doing all the stuff she wanted to now she had

05:36:11.480 her first kid at 20 so she's had five kids yeah um and now she's in her late 40s and like she's

05:36:17.380 done having kids her kids are mostly grown like i can't imagine my you know i've got 15 more years

05:36:23.620 yeah i was 19 when i had my oldest and like yeah i've struggled yes i've had to work my ass off

05:36:30.220 but i i honestly i i would i wouldn't have it any other way because when i'm 40 my kids are

05:36:36.760 going to be like grown yeah i feel like girls that are like oh i regret having kids it's because

05:36:42.920 they didn't they didn't they didn't ever want kids in the first place right where it's like

05:36:46.620 every time like my sister she had kids um a little bit earlier like in her later 20s and

05:36:51.920 she doesn't regret a damn thing i think and i don't think that that is the case very often i

05:36:57.200 don't think there's that many women out there going i wish i never had my kids a lot of a lot

05:37:01.780 or like oh i wish i had a later are always like don't have kids yes don't have so many women are

05:37:09.540 against like having kids or even they're like i wish i would have just lived my life yeah they're

05:37:14.680 like i wish i lived my 20s like you you should start having kids when you're like 28 29 i'm like

05:37:19.420 no i want that's why i want to be stable and i want to make sure that i want to have kids with

05:37:23.740 this person like this guy's gonna like take care of me yeah i think you need to make sure that the

05:37:29.120 person that you're having kids with is like a like safe enough person to do that because it's

05:37:34.740 like i feel like i have a lot of child care help so it's like take my advice with a grain of salt

05:37:38.460 but like i like being a young mom yeah i think i'll be 44 when my son is 18 yeah like my dad

05:37:44.200 gives me a cross-eye when i tell him i want kids in two years like i mean he's my dad obviously

05:37:48.260 but he's like i'm sorry when you said that uh how tired you are and stuff honestly i couldn't

05:37:54.680 imagine having to change diapers right now i know i'm like at the end of potty training but

05:37:59.720 i'm all done with that my kids are 14 10 and 9 so i'm like i'm all done with the diapers and

05:38:08.620 potty training and all that stuff so thank you for the food yeah i feel like i feel like if i

05:38:14.420 had to do all that now i would be exhausted i know i can't even imagine doing that like at 35

05:38:19.100 like all i really want for my future is to find like a person who can play a good like support

05:38:24.000 role to my kid as they get older but like diapers no don't worry just take maybe like i don't miss

05:38:30.780 it yeah you want more kids no we're done yeah no my husband because he's 14 years older you know

05:38:41.100 he when we started dating and started talking about kids his son was about to graduate high

05:38:47.120 school and he said that like we didn't get married we got married like the month after

05:38:53.080 his son graduated because he wasn't going to do that and then he was like I want to be done

05:38:57.940 face straight stop I want to be done by the time I am 46 or something so it was like

05:39:04.140 You don't want pizza?

05:39:05.120 No.

05:39:05.800 No, I was just waiting.

05:39:06.820 Oh, okay.

05:39:07.500 Thank you for the food, by the way.

05:39:08.840 Yeah, thank you.

05:39:10.800 So if I eat, it's not going to, like, make wet noises in the microwave?

05:39:14.580 I mean, if you're chewing, be a little further back, I guess.

05:39:20.700 But, yeah.

05:39:22.400 Okay.

05:39:26.160 All right.

05:39:28.160 Let's see where we were.

05:39:29.460 Oh, let me hide that.

05:39:30.460 Don't need that.

05:39:34.140 All right, back to the notes then.

05:39:37.660 Kaylee, you wanted to talk about dating toxic bums who made false promises.

05:39:41.960 What false promises?

05:39:43.540 So I was in a relationship where he told me right off the bat he had really bad social anxiety.

05:39:51.700 So I knew, like, going into it what he had.

05:39:54.680 But as we started dating and we started getting into serious conversations, like, hey, I'm moving to Chicago.

05:39:59.520 Do you want to come with me?

05:40:01.400 And our actual plans for the future.

05:40:03.180 he started developing this thing where he was like, I'm going to get a job eventually. So I

05:40:08.800 started helping him apply for jobs. I basically did the whole thing for him. I ended up getting

05:40:13.920 him a job. He ended up moving to Chicago with me. And he would just have an excuse every single time

05:40:19.840 about why he couldn't go to work. Oh, well, I have social anxiety. Oh, well, I want a job where I

05:40:23.540 don't have to start. I should just be making money right away. Like, I don't want to be working for

05:40:27.520 somebody else. I want to work for myself. Like, I could do crypto. And it was just always these

05:40:31.620 false promises of oh well I'm going to do this no I my social anxiety will get better I will get a

05:40:36.380 better job like I I know I can do this I can make money it's just right now I don't want to um so I

05:40:42.320 ended up having to leave him and kick him out of my house because he just kept promising false

05:40:46.440 promises and I had to kick him out do you think it was just excuses like he didn't he was fine

05:40:52.980 talking to people at parties and stuff so what do you mean you have social anxiety like you're and

05:40:57.480 then like the whole thing with like he also was one of those people that would um go on those like

05:41:03.160 betting sites and like put in 500 but then lose 500 and and he would continuously do that and be

05:41:09.340 like well i broke even yeah on that day so it was just always just like false like oh i'm gonna do

05:41:15.220 this i will get this and it's like at the end of the day i like i'm i don't mind making a sacrifice

05:41:19.840 where you don't have a job right now i'll put in some money but that needs to come to a stopping

05:41:23.860 point at some point you wrote that yes dating in the rave industry and how toxic it is how so

05:41:28.420 um so in the chicago rave scene um i got like a sneak peek of why you ask for pizza you take one

05:41:37.860 oh my god i could have had that fucking slice so um just being like i mean i guess it goes in

05:41:45.240 any industry whether it's the rapping industry rave edm whatever when you get into that scene

05:41:49.900 there's going to be those opportunities where you get to meet those people that can give you

05:41:55.300 something and they're going to expect something in return and I met the wrong people and I met

05:42:02.340 some really shady people that promised some like they were just in the industry so they're like I

05:42:08.060 can get you this I can put you here I can help you get here um and then at the end of the day

05:42:12.560 they wanted sex or money or something in return and I just wasn't for it and it got into the point

05:42:19.220 where they would do anything to get that, whether it was drugging you,

05:42:22.560 whether it was taking advantage of you, anything.

05:42:26.140 So in that scene, it's different from the underground is different from actual clubs and venues

05:42:32.420 because you're booking that venue and you know the people that are there.

05:42:36.720 When you're in the underground, you're setting up this random abandoned place for people to come and party.

05:42:42.440 Well, there's no real security there. There's no real ID checking.

05:42:45.600 It's just a very toxic thing, and you can get very wrapped up in it very quickly.

05:42:50.720 Okay, you're done with your pizza.

05:42:52.280 Pass the plate down that way.

05:42:53.880 I'll have Nathan collect your finished plates, those of you who are done.

05:42:59.080 So if you get offered to go to a rave.

05:43:01.360 Bro, motherfucker.

05:43:03.260 Do you want to eat it?

05:43:04.760 Damn, bro, why people asking for pizza?

05:43:06.320 I would.

05:43:07.180 I mean, it's Domino's.

05:43:08.640 Some people don't like Domino's.

05:43:10.240 Yep, just.

05:43:12.300 You get asked to go to a rave.

05:43:13.380 damn bro why people be asking for pizza

05:43:15.300 I didn't like it

05:43:17.000 Domino's

05:43:19.000 Domino's sauce is weird

05:43:22.020 you're from Michigan right

05:43:23.780 I'm from Ohio

05:43:24.920 I understand you guys have different pizza out there

05:43:29.260 it's different because I'm from Indiana

05:43:31.120 so I get it

05:43:31.880 our pizza has way more cheese

05:43:33.980 yes I understand what you're saying

05:43:35.780 too much cheese is fucking gross

05:43:38.520 no it's the sauce

05:43:39.640 the sauce is fine

05:43:41.880 No, Indiana sauce is just like in Ohio.

05:43:45.320 All right, you're done.

05:43:45.720 Pass those down, please.

05:43:46.820 Here, pass those down.

05:43:49.380 I'm going to nibble.

05:43:50.480 Here, we should have Tiffany do it.

05:43:51.640 Nathan, you take the helm.

05:43:58.580 If you get invited to a rave, go.

05:44:00.540 But if you get invited back to Green Room, do not go.

05:44:03.080 Are you going to eat?

05:44:04.380 I'm nibbling, yeah.

05:44:05.780 Is that okay?

05:44:06.800 Yeah, that's fine.

05:44:07.960 All right, Mick, you always lose interest in the good ones.

05:44:11.480 and you tend to pick not great people, you don't think you should be allowed anymore.

05:44:21.700 Okay, why don't you elaborate?

05:44:23.500 Hold on, let's do some seat adjustments.

05:44:25.200 You guys have scooted.

05:44:26.320 I need you to scoot, scoot, scoot into frame.

05:44:29.680 Okay, go ahead.

05:44:31.760 So, like, I'll have an opportunity to be with, like, a green flag of a man.

05:44:36.560 Like, really great people, but I just, like, lose interest in them,

05:44:40.740 and then I choose the men with the red flags and I, I continually make those decisions. So I said,

05:44:49.040 I shouldn't be allowed anymore. I shouldn't be allowed to pick because you're going to pick

05:44:52.720 the wrong. Cause I keep picking the wrong ones. Same girl. Yeah. I'm trying to see. Yeah. You

05:45:00.620 wrote in your notes, you don't know why, but you're attracted to the red flags. Uh, you can't

05:45:05.620 help yourself. There are amazing men out there and you still fall for the ones that treat you

05:45:10.000 like shit yes you haven't figured out why yeah i don't know why i picked them but that's just

05:45:16.860 a pattern i have noticed and you think you could fix them it's not that i want to fix them it's

05:45:22.940 just i get bored with the green so you just like you just like choose men that make you feel good

05:45:29.220 yeah i'm like maybe the ones feel bad no that like make her feel good in the moment but it's

05:45:34.540 not actually doing good like earning their love feels good yeah it's like like it feels fun it

05:45:40.320 feels like exhilarating yeah like you know it's kind of wrong but like they're treating you so

05:45:44.380 well but like you just feel kind of special yeah like they're mean to everybody else they treat

05:45:49.420 everybody else like shit so i'm like maybe if i can get them to treat me like it feels extra good

05:45:55.140 everybody else no maybe yeah that's completely dysfunctional you should see a fucking therapist

05:46:01.400 I was like that.

05:46:03.320 I had the same issue, but it was more or less me thinking that I could fix them

05:46:08.780 and being like, I could fix the hurt in them.

05:46:11.840 And then I realized once, like, you can't fix everyone.

05:46:16.020 I don't understand this thing with women, this affinity for toxic, jerk, asshole, abusive men.

05:46:25.440 I do not understand that whatsoever.

05:46:28.300 I mean I haven't dated anyone

05:46:30.600 Abused of but as far as just like

05:46:32.460 Being toxic

05:46:33.440 Do you know what solipsism

05:46:36.940 Solipsism is when

05:46:38.480 This idea that

05:46:40.060 Stop let me finish

05:46:42.320 When people think that they're

05:46:43.960 They used to think why this would be

05:46:46.700 Heliocentrism

05:46:48.420 Heliocentric when the sun

05:46:50.700 Was the center of the universe

05:46:51.780 But solipsism is when you think you're the center

05:46:54.640 Of the universe

05:46:55.240 So when I'm saying something like

05:46:58.180 i'm not saying all women i'm i'm using speaking in generalities here i know i was speaking like

05:47:08.760 about you well you were asking so i was just saying i'm so fucking putting in my input but

05:47:16.280 it was her turn to talk she's barely said anything tonight it was clearly her conversational thread

05:47:24.280 But it's like women do this thing

05:47:26.940 Where it's like

05:47:28.680 Okay, women are attracted to tall men

05:47:31.700 Well

05:47:33.200 I like short guys

05:47:35.540 It's like, oh my god

05:47:37.420 Yes, some women like short men

05:47:39.180 Most women like tall men

05:47:51.340 Like

05:47:51.900 Oh my god

05:47:54.060 like i'm trying to have an engagement right here for a little bit all right

05:47:59.560 um okay so why are you all fucked up

05:48:04.320 i don't know i just

05:48:10.520 i don't know those are the ones that i pick because it's kind of like exciting

05:48:16.480 and it's it's boring when they're just a hundred percent green flag i think

05:48:22.600 oh hold on didn't mean to do that yeah that's completely dysfunctional um

05:48:30.360 and you're how old you're i'm 28 you're 28 yeah so you like the bad boys the jerks the assholes

05:48:38.060 have you ever dated a guy with a face with face tattoos oh my gosh i drove two and a half hours

05:48:44.020 to go on a date with this dude who didn't have a car didn't have he was a soundcloud rapper no

05:48:51.840 And then I found out that he believed in conspiracy theories.

05:48:57.660 I was like, I'm just going to.

05:48:59.820 Wait, the conspiracy theories was the fucking line.

05:49:04.080 Wait, what about the face tag?

05:49:05.540 Is he even good at rapping?

05:49:07.060 No.

05:49:07.580 Girl, I know.

05:49:09.260 I didn't know this until I went out there.

05:49:12.100 That's where you drew the line was conspiracy theories.

05:49:14.620 Was he cute?

05:49:15.720 Wait, no, there's more.

05:49:17.040 Sorry.

05:49:17.400 So we went on a double date-ish.

05:49:20.620 so we went with his friends on a date and one of his friends didn't have a date and his friend that

05:49:25.540 didn't have a date paid for everybody wait you went on a date with two dudes no i went so i went

05:49:31.760 on a date with one dude and then his friend brought a date and then there was another friend there

05:49:37.800 that paid for everybody so it was three dudes and two girls yes okay what does that have to do with

05:49:48.700 anything i would have paid for the date i tried to pay for my portion of the date okay but so

05:49:56.080 back to you preferring to date men with red flags yes um you drove two and a half hours

05:50:04.380 to a guy who had face tattoos yes like how much of his face like just a couple neck tattoos yes

05:50:13.520 hand tattoos yes um and then uh he was a soundcloud rapper the conspiracy theory i mean

05:50:23.080 i'm that's whatever i'm not that's not a big deal um did you fuck him no really i'm a geologist i

05:50:33.380 did not you're a g i'm a geologist right and he believed in flat earth and i was like i can't do

05:50:39.520 Wait, you're a geologist?

05:50:43.080 Yes.

05:50:43.520 What did you say he believed in?

05:50:44.040 Did you say that at the intro?

05:50:46.560 Must have missed it.

05:50:48.800 What did you say he believed in?

05:50:50.600 Flat earth.

05:50:51.780 Oh, okay.

05:50:53.800 If he wasn't a flat earther, would you have fucked him?

05:50:56.740 No.

05:50:57.660 Really?

05:50:58.420 Really.

05:50:59.080 You drove...

05:51:00.380 I'm just...

05:51:01.000 What were you looking for?

05:51:03.120 Was he in a wheelchair too?

05:51:04.300 No, that was a different one.

05:51:07.420 Okay, we'll get to that in a second.

05:51:09.520 But I'm just confused.

05:51:10.880 So it's like...

05:51:12.280 He was cute.

05:51:13.620 What were you hoping for, though?

05:51:16.160 Driving two and a half hours.

05:51:17.640 Like, what?

05:51:18.720 I was hoping he had a cool personality and we would, like,

05:51:22.160 end it off.

05:51:23.720 There's not eligible men in your city, I guess?

05:51:26.960 It just seems like a lot of work, not gonna lie.

05:51:28.960 But to not fuck him, too.

05:51:31.360 I mean, look, obviously, I'm not saying you had to fuck him.

05:51:33.620 I'm just...

05:51:35.680 If the guy's worth driving two and a half hours for,

05:51:38.480 you should be worth fucking.

05:51:42.280 Like, I feel like...

05:51:43.700 I like driving.

05:51:44.640 Like, okay, fine.

05:51:45.520 The guy who lives 10 minutes away,

05:51:47.640 he waits for the third date.

05:51:50.400 But if you're driving two and a half hours

05:51:52.260 and he's not fuck-worthy...

05:51:55.000 Well, I had just met him.

05:51:56.140 You don't just, like, go meet somebody and fuck him.

05:51:58.700 Have you ever fucked somebody like that?

05:52:01.560 When I was younger, yeah.

05:52:03.040 Okay, so you do do it.

05:52:04.940 When I was, like, 21, maybe.

05:52:08.480 and you're 28 and how long ago was this like six months ago six i don't understand this so

05:52:17.100 it's like on one hand you're like well i'm more mature now but uh i'm also going to date a guy

05:52:21.180 with face tattoos that's why i said i shouldn't be allowed to make these decisions you probably

05:52:28.260 shouldn't um i charge 300 an hour to give personalized dating advice so people like you

05:52:34.940 don't fuck their life up um but uh yeah if you want my services uh yeah but noted yeah that i

05:52:44.860 mean that's ridiculous um i'll understand this thing though on that topic of like so you wouldn't

05:52:51.940 have sex with a guy quickly now now okay now but in when you were young you just right away

05:52:59.100 well yeah i guess that's such a raw deal for men like imagine imagine like and i've i've

05:53:07.940 actually encountered this myself like with dating i remember one particular girl um

05:53:13.160 part of me thinks it's like are they that into you but the other thing like women do this for

05:53:18.580 sure uh i remember one girl it was like the third or fourth day and she was like oh you know i prefer

05:53:25.000 to wait and i was like and she's like oh yeah a year ago i fucked a guy right away i was like

05:53:31.040 and she was like oh but i really like you brian i think you're long term and i'm like so just to

05:53:37.220 be clear the guy who's a piece of shit he gets the pussy but i'm the good guy the guy you want

05:53:44.280 to be in a relationship with and i don't get the reward so i'm i'm i'm your ideal boyfriend material

05:53:53.960 i gotta wait but the piece of shit drug addict fucking whatever he gets to hit right away

05:54:00.200 that's a fucking raw d imagine imagine if men imagine if a guy who was like listen i think

05:54:09.280 i see long term you could be my future wife you're wifey but you know what because of that

05:54:14.880 i think i want to take things slow i don't want to get you gifts i don't want to take you on

05:54:20.260 vacation i don't want to do these romantic gestures i don't want to protect and provide for you i want

05:54:26.320 to wait until we're more established before i do that stuff you know but the girl who i'm telling

05:54:32.080 you she didn't really matter i didn't care about her she was just fun she was just for fun i just

05:54:37.280 wanted to fuck her she got the gifts she got the dates she got the vacations but she was just for

05:54:43.780 sex but my future wifey my girlfriend who i'm supposed to cherish you get to wait for it

05:54:50.000 i'm not doing any of that shit with you y'all women would lose your fucking minds no i've

05:54:54.360 actually had a guy do that backwards yeah he was like well i feel like i've done this so many times

05:54:59.060 like i've wasted so many resources i've been on so many dates for no reason like i don't want to

05:55:03.400 like ruin what we have and i was like block that's what we have nothing

05:55:08.840 i don't know man i mean like it's a raw deal i feel like shit if you fucked a guy within an hour

05:55:17.140 like i take it back you should no when i was younger i feel like you know i mean you can wait

05:55:25.160 because you know you want to be in a good relationship but now that i'm older it's like

05:55:29.080 okay like you've done stuff i've done stuff we're grown sorry yeah what were you gonna say

05:55:35.960 i was gonna say i take it back i might have hooked up with somebody like 24 hours after meeting them

05:55:42.320 but they they took me and my motorcycle to a bike meet on my birthday and drove like three hours

05:55:49.120 to come to my house to pick me and the bike up

05:55:52.980 and also i'll pay for a first date you know because i feel like dudes pay for a lot of

05:56:00.880 first dates i prefer paying for the first date now on the waiting for sex thing though and look

05:56:06.900 it's i want to be somewhat charitable it is a bit of a damned if you do damned if you don't

05:56:12.140 situation so it's like okay for example if a woman used to do heroin it's probably better

05:56:18.440 she stops doing heroin just because she used to do heroin doesn't mean she has to keep doing

05:56:24.640 heroin in that same vein if a woman is fucking guys super quick and that's not how she wants to

05:56:31.740 like move i understand it but and if a woman feels like it's a better way to move to kind

05:56:40.700 of like hmm let's third date or longer even i understand that but from the male's perspective

05:56:48.720 and if you want to fuck her and she she likes you and you know she fucked another dude really quick

05:56:57.240 i'm like who the fuck am i then i'm like oh okay so that douchebag that that you fucked really quick

05:57:06.980 um he uh like who am i i don't know and so

05:57:16.320 i don't know i feel like there's a better way to articulate this point that's evading yeah like so

05:57:23.060 basically you think he's uh more deserving or that's how it's it seems that he's like more

05:57:28.460 deserving of it even though he's uh a piece of shit it just seems like a raw deal for the man

05:57:35.740 like if that was on the table for that dude i wanted on the table for me yeah now i don't know

05:57:44.880 if that makes me a jerk or whatever but i don't know yeah i feel like it's uh normal or it's ideal

05:57:53.700 to have sex like within the first three dates i would i mean i'm a little bit like of a horndog

05:58:00.140 like i like to have sex on the first date because like i feel like that's my intention i'm like yeah

05:58:03.860 i want you to fuck the shit out of me but that's just me

05:58:06.380 Hey, no, look, I'm, I mean, the little soundboard things or whatever.

05:58:18.880 I respect it.

05:58:20.000 I respect it.

05:58:20.960 Um, yeah, I mean, I mean, cause you've, we've done so many things in high school.

05:58:26.600 I've had sex in a car in high school.

05:58:28.440 Okay.

05:58:28.940 So once like I've already like passed that threshold, I'm like, okay, like I'm going

05:58:33.940 to give it up for my husband too.

05:58:35.220 you know like I don't know I feel like if I'm like even on a date with you like it means something

05:58:40.260 like we talked already we have enough substance we can fuck is that why you have such high date

05:58:47.000 standards um I don't know actually well I guess so because I feel like I haven't been fucked in

05:58:55.800 a long time so it's like if I get fucked on this off occasion where I am getting fucked

05:59:02.320 i want to get fucked by a guy i like that's valid yeah i'm like you know i like you we're talking

05:59:08.460 we're dating okay and fuck me i'm sorry if you give away the milk for free everyone will want

05:59:17.520 free milk like no one wants to pay for something uh that they can get from somewhere else for free

05:59:25.960 I don't know

05:59:27.360 Like imagine a man having a reputation

05:59:30.380 For spending obscene amounts of money

05:59:32.540 On women he had no

05:59:34.680 Interest in dating

05:59:35.600 Just wanted to sleep with them

05:59:37.240 But then when he dates you

05:59:40.320 He says he won't spend

05:59:42.700 A dime on you

05:59:43.760 Until you prove yourself to him

05:59:46.160 I think women would not accept this

05:59:48.520 So I don't know

05:59:50.520 i don't know i feel guilty when they try to buy me things

05:59:56.200 okay yeah um it's kind of like uh i don't know i don't know it just seems like women are leveraging

06:00:06.780 the sex i don't know it seems like i don't know

06:00:12.300 okay uh but you do date these toxic guys or whatever uh you the the guys who have green

06:00:22.740 flags you disregard them you don't find them attractive mostly valid girl

06:00:33.000 i'm not physically attracted to them so like no matter how many green flags they have it's just

06:00:39.100 like there's no there's nothing there you have to have physical attraction but are there men who

06:00:43.860 are physically attractive who don't have the red flags and you're not attracted to them

06:00:48.180 i mean like they're physically attractive but not like

06:00:52.480 they're not my type what's your type abusive

06:00:57.060 i don't know i don't know if i have so dysfunctional bro so dysfunctional

06:01:08.960 Have you ever been with a guy that was at first toxic and then was like, you're the one, I'm going to treat you great, and you lost interest?

06:01:19.440 No.

06:01:20.280 They've always just been like...

06:01:22.440 Just a little toxic in the beginning, and then it gets more toxic, and then I'm like, oh, and then I leave.

06:01:29.380 It normally doesn't get better.

06:01:31.020 No.

06:01:31.300 It gets worse.

06:01:32.220 Yeah.

06:01:34.640 Dysfunctional, see a therapist, fix your problems.

06:01:38.960 yeah i don't know it's i i don't know if men operate this way i mean obviously toxic people

06:01:45.960 can be drawn to each other but it's like wow she's really kind and nice to me

06:01:52.700 nah like what i don't i don't get that i don't know i think it's a woman thing oh yeah i feel

06:02:01.940 yeah for sure um guys and girls like toxic people a lot of guys like toxic girls i think

06:02:11.060 guys who don't have a lot of options uh or who have dysfunction in their own life might like

06:02:20.400 toxic women but uh like some men will accept it or tolerate it out of necessity because they can't

06:02:28.740 get higher quality women who uh treat them well i guess what you disagree

06:02:38.860 they can't get a higher quality woman like we come out of a factory

06:02:44.160 okay i mean it's true

06:02:49.780 yeah i mean well um you know it's like kind of like a little bit of a meme i feel like

06:02:56.680 like um guys make jokes about like women being toxic and like how they're like drawn to that

06:03:01.060 all the time i want to grow a little yeah like when a girl's like a little crazy like you know

06:03:05.220 like when they can't go out with their boys like it's like a joke you know it's a joke but it's not

06:03:09.440 it's real i mean i think that's like super simp like i don't know that's that's weird for a guy

06:03:17.580 to operate that way but yeah this is more of a stereotype though in terms of women like you don't

06:03:27.540 hear men like i want the bad well women would say uh i like bad boys yeah and then guys will say i

06:03:34.960 like toxic gas no they don't they're just fucking they can't get good women they date them out of

06:03:44.220 necessity because they they can't get a woman who treats them right i tried to treat a guy right

06:03:49.760 one time and he was like telling me he was like you're boring i was like what he's retarded he

06:03:55.060 was like yeah i like you're boring i like i like girls that are a little spicy yeah and i was like

06:03:59.640 yeah yeah i mean that's retarded i definitely have seen some really nice looking guys who are

06:04:06.180 like i want a toxic girl that's gonna beat me yeah and it's like yeah dysfunctional

06:04:10.680 completely dysfunctional. I think it's like just people who have problems are me saying these

06:04:15.500 things. Well, yeah, I think that's a basis for a lot of it, for sure. Okay, but going back to

06:04:24.680 your notes, Mick, you drove 2.5 hours to meet a man in a wheelchair. You wheeled him around a

06:04:29.260 mall, bought him a skateboard deck for when he recovers as a first date. You caught feelings,

06:04:35.100 you drove out to him multiple times, and even spent the night in the ICU with him when he got

06:04:39.540 a skin graft yes his brother texted you one day and told you he gave away the deck lied about the

06:04:46.120 accident that put him in the wheelchair and he had warrants yes did he have face tattoos no

06:04:51.480 um neck tattoo no um so okay what was the accident he got so he was on a motorcycle

06:05:00.260 and he ran a red light going over 100 miles per hour and got t-boned okay so he was at fault

06:05:06.960 but he told you that somebody else was at fault yeah he told me that he was it didn't like click

06:05:12.680 at first but he told me he was taking a left turn and he had a green arrow okay so he lied about the

06:05:17.620 problem was that he was going over 100 miles per hour and it didn't click that like how are you

06:05:24.040 going to take a turn at over 100 miles per hour what did he have warrants for it was like not

06:05:31.860 having a license in a different county and then like just stop signs and stuff and then he didn't

06:05:38.460 go to the court dates okay uh and then you wrote your dumb ass kept talking to him for like another

06:05:44.220 month before you got sick of the lies yeah he also told me stuff like he would needed to go to

06:05:52.760 the hospital and the ambulance wouldn't come get him because there was a dnr and i was like that

06:05:57.420 doesn't make any sense and he was like i'll put you in my will and i'll give you all of my cars

06:06:04.540 and bikes and that's when i was like all right you also wrote that uh you were talking to one

06:06:14.020 dude who was a walking green flag total sweetheart treated you amazing but you cut things off with

06:06:19.780 him because you still had feelings for wheelchair man yes uh and that wasn't fair to walking green

06:06:24.880 flag guy walking green flag guy deserved better and eventually found better yes okay yeah and now

06:06:33.620 he has an amazing girlfriend and i like ruined that friendship and i can't be friends with what

06:06:39.040 what is like i could but that would be really awkward what is the most down bad you've ever

06:06:43.500 been for a guy is it the wheelchair guy or even worse uh tiffany can you get me two water bottles

06:06:49.260 please uh what do you mean like what like just the most desperate like cringe i don't know like

06:07:00.020 just doing way too much extra shit for a guy who just treated you like shit well recently

06:07:07.460 definitely wheelchair man oh besides wheelchair man my ex had sex with a prostitute in the bed

06:07:15.480 that i bought for us and then i got back to get so we broke up for like a week and then i got back

06:07:21.480 together with him and then he would regularly go get like happy endings oh oh my god so i would

06:07:28.560 make him like get tested and then after a while it was just i was just done you never wanted to

06:07:34.120 stab him wait you whoa wait hold on let me just recap uh you were dating a guy you were living

06:07:40.800 together yeah and he would go out while you were together living together and sleep with prostitutes

06:07:47.700 yeah and you stayed with him yeah i would go home on the weekends and he would go sleep with

06:07:52.920 prostitutes on the weekends while i wasn't home and he told you yes he told me and his friends

06:07:58.800 told me and you stayed with him for how long uh after the first time he did it it was a solid like

06:08:07.160 year.

06:08:09.880 Wait, so I'm just confused.

06:08:11.420 He was open about his prostitution

06:08:13.420 usage. Yes.

06:08:15.480 Blamed it on drugs. Were you sleeping with other men?

06:08:17.740 No.

06:08:21.500 On one hand, she's very

06:08:23.300 ride or die. I mean...

06:08:25.160 So, are you

06:08:29.320 toxic at all?

06:08:31.000 I mean... Are you clingy, like, needy,

06:08:33.300 jealous?

06:08:37.160 i mean only when i drink but i would say like i'm more just like pay attention to me like pay

06:08:44.520 attention hug me if a guy doesn't text you back fast enough do you get mad i'll pout about it

06:08:51.400 for like 10 minutes but then i'll get over it okay uh

06:08:59.480 that's way worse than the wheelchair guy i think i mean i don't know um damn it's not

06:09:06.200 not just even like he's fucking like some college girl it's a fucking prostitute i know i was like

06:09:12.880 you had to pay to cheat on me that's crazy were you not fucking no we were

06:09:18.400 okay that's fucked up once yeah you should see a therapist not gonna lie i don't even like

06:09:26.120 therapy but you should fucking see a therapist did you still do anything with him after you

06:09:31.380 found out oh can we clear the plates from the table before i would do anything with him so

06:09:35.360 even though like the test came back or negative but you knew he was sleeping with another prostitute

06:09:39.720 you would still have sex with him if he had sex with the prostitute i would make him get tested

06:09:44.660 and wait for the test results to come back to have sex with him again okay on one hand this is such

06:09:52.980 a fucked up situation on the other hand i would want a girl who stayed with me after i had a drug

06:10:00.480 fueled prostitution bang marathon you know like you know what i mean so it's kind of ride or die

06:10:08.620 i guess not that i don't want to ever fuck a prostitute but you seem loyal i guess thank you

06:10:16.600 to a fault um okay nicole uh you're a stay-at-home mom who homeschools you remained a virgin until

06:10:24.820 you were 27 you married your husband who's 14 years older than you you're a conservative

06:10:29.260 of christian lutheran um you think age gap relationships are fine you understand why men

06:10:35.840 would want to get more established yep we talked about that uh we talked about the 19th uh you

06:10:43.020 believe body count should include any sort of sexual activity with another person uh

06:10:47.660 like that of girl who claimed to be a virgin a few shows ago um yeah i feel like you gotta

06:10:55.480 to factor in blow jobs you know like she's a virgin but she's like 20 days yeah that's weird

06:11:04.300 that's like different with straight people sex is sex yeah you touched them

06:11:09.420 it's like are you uh yeah you write nicole being a virgin should be associated with some level of

06:11:22.020 purity of actions so it's like a girl who slept with one guy and that's and had that's it

06:11:32.140 versus a girl who hasn't had intercourse sexual intercourse but

06:11:37.300 sucked a hundred dicks where's that on the balance of purity

06:11:44.460 um definitely the girl yeah so in with christianity you can have anal sex right but

06:11:54.120 it still doesn't you shouldn't have any sex you can't have anal you as a christian you can't have

06:12:00.360 sex oh i mean you can do anything after marriage because the bible says to give your body to your

06:12:05.100 husband i think it might technically be sodomy i feel like yeah i don't think technically christians

06:12:13.840 are supposed to engage in anal sex even heterosexual anal sex she's like oh fuck well i

06:12:20.860 don't i don't i can't think i mean i can't think of any passages that specifically say that

06:12:27.160 there are passages that specifically say yeah within the context of like two men

06:12:32.760 i'll have to google it yeah christianity oh wait hold on uh christianity does not explicitly

06:12:40.260 forbid or allow anal sex in the bible many interpret biblical principles on purity wisdom

06:12:47.060 and avoiding unnatural relations romans 1 as advising against it there seems to be some back

06:12:54.460 and forth here um while not explicitly mentioned some interpret verses in 1 corinthians 6 and

06:13:02.680 hebrews 13 as warning against sexual acts viewed as immoral or unnatural so up for interpretation

06:13:11.700 um yeah isn't isn't it catholics uh like you can

06:13:19.740 like sex is for the purpose of reproduction so if you're fucking a woman in the ass she

06:13:26.900 definitely can't get pregnant from that so it would be unnatural i don't know yeah and in islam

06:13:33.800 you can't go to heaven they say yeah anal sex heaven's off the table for anal sex yeah

06:13:40.840 probably based on a different interpretation well and if you read like the song of solomons in the

06:13:47.100 bible it's pretty the metaphors for a woman's body are very graphic so sex is not taboo within

06:13:55.180 christianity but you're supposed to keep it within your marriage right and there are verses that

06:14:00.580 explicitly say like your body is to be your husband's and your husband's is to be yours

06:14:04.400 and you're never to deny each other access to that um so i don't think it would a woman who's

06:14:12.360 like in a christian marriage who's like i don't want to do anal sex i don't think that would be

06:14:17.540 in contradiction to the owing each other your body thing sure yeah i mean yeah i because if

06:14:24.760 you love your partner you're not going to force them to do something that they're uncomfortable

06:14:27.500 with sure yeah okay uh let's see here you know what let's go back to the questionnaire for a

06:14:33.740 little bit here uh lexi people of color can't be racist towards white people yes how so um because

06:14:41.420 they white people have never been enslaved uh you sure about that yeah so do you know the

06:14:48.560 etymology of the word slave no slavic slave so the first slaves were actually white people

06:14:55.080 um and then there was the barbary slave trade in parts of europe where you had uh you had i

06:15:03.800 it's an arabic or north african or muslim uh slave slave traders slavers uh they would abduct

06:15:12.580 white people and that went on for i believe hundreds of years so yeah white people have

06:15:17.940 definitely been slaves okay well then i retract my statement oh okay so you concede then yeah

06:15:27.620 uh well so how about this though um can black people in the united states be racist

06:15:35.440 towards white people because you'd agree that uh black people uh well maybe somebody in chat might

06:15:43.160 well i mean wait let me just finish people in the chat might be like brian you're actually wrong on

06:15:47.720 this but at least african americans at no point in the united states history african americans

06:15:54.660 did not make slaves of white people um so can black people in the united states be racist towards

06:16:00.260 white people um i think that everyone can be prejudiced towards each other and racism definitely

06:16:06.800 exists like for both parties like black and white or you know if that's what we're gonna go based

06:16:11.780 off of then yeah i think that racism exists again in both yes racism yes okay can asian people can

06:16:20.300 cambodian latinas be racist towards african americans oh um white people me white people

06:16:31.240 um well i guess i guess white people white people um you know i guess there's like definitely like

06:16:41.540 some prejudice that we can have against each other but um no racism can you a cambodian

06:16:47.280 puerto rican lady be racist towards pale as fuck white guy blue eyes okay can yeah um

06:16:57.000 well i would i would say yeah you know that's like if i had like a nail salon and i was like

06:17:02.180 no white people no white people can you actually do the rest of the podcast racist wait can you

06:17:07.980 do the rest of the podcast with that accent the vietnamese no no do it no do it no it'd be fun

06:17:16.000 no wow lame uh okay so uh let's see lexi yes women do not have equal rights to men in the usa

06:17:29.580 to which you agree why is that um well women and men are not equal we um we have our own

06:17:37.520 strengths and weaknesses you know so i think um we all have like um you know different biases i guess

06:17:44.580 uh but what rights do men have that women don't um well they have the right to be shirtless in

06:17:54.840 public easily uh is there anything else though so i actually agree with you that's the only thing i

06:18:02.000 ever cite to but yeah i mean like you know it's like um showing genitalia is like a lot more uh

06:18:08.660 easy for a man to get away with it absolutely not yeah like they can show their nipples and it's not

06:18:14.500 genitalia i mean well if i was showing my nipples it would be considered like genitalia or something

06:18:19.640 right it'd be a secondary uh sex attribute but genitalia i think would refer to i don't think

06:18:29.240 bare breasts are genitalia that would be like your vagina would it include the butthole

06:18:36.860 but it wouldn't be your breast i don't know i think yeah but in any case but on that individual

06:18:43.340 note i think uh like if a man exposed his penis versus a woman exposing her vagina

06:18:50.380 it would be appraised like way worse the man doing that like that's way gonna be viewed way worse

06:19:00.700 well I mean it's kind of like you know like when teachers have like relationships with like their

06:19:05.580 students like women and men both like it's just not okay in general right so I just don't think

06:19:11.180 it's okay for example I would I would put it like this if there was like a woman who was just

06:19:16.940 walking around the street naked and there were children around people would be like whoa that's

06:19:22.400 really fucked up whereas i think but maybe people call the cops on you and blah blah blah i think

06:19:29.720 if there's a guy who's uh walking around naked and like a father is there with his kids i could

06:19:38.640 see a father like fucking maybe not murking the guy but uh whooping his fucking ass uh whereas i

06:19:46.220 don't think like a woman would start beating on a naked woman i don't think a man would start

06:19:50.180 beating on a naked woman uh so i think there are like the assessment would be a bit different now

06:19:57.020 in terms of like uh would they both be arrested probably yeah um even then the severity typically

06:20:03.880 women don't face as harsh punishments but that's besides the point um beyond that can you actually

06:20:12.440 and by the way some jurisdictions uh it is allowed for women to go topless there are some areas where

06:20:18.940 women can go topless ohio i think you can go topless yeah but it's like i'm all for it free

06:20:25.540 the titty but even women don't want to be walking around with their bare breasts out most of them

06:20:31.900 anyways uh and if they do i don't think men really would have a problem with it let them

06:20:39.440 let them breathe I guess

06:20:40.940 but besides that is there anything else

06:20:43.320 anything in terms of

06:20:44.580 even though it's technically true

06:20:47.580 this seems very minor

06:20:49.740 right

06:20:50.840 so women do not have equal rights to men

06:20:53.640 in the USA can you point to anything else

06:20:55.640 um

06:20:57.240 well I think like even like

06:20:59.640 politically like men are just taken

06:21:01.480 more seriously than women

06:21:02.920 like black women like yeah I mean

06:21:05.620 like what's her name

06:21:06.720 I forgot her name

06:21:08.980 kamala yeah you don't even remember i'm sorry gosh i'm not so political women don't get taken

06:21:15.020 seriously but you're a woman and you don't recall i don't take politics seriously i don't really

06:21:20.220 invest myself in them personally but i just find it somewhat interesting that you don't even recall

06:21:27.360 the name of the yeah all i remember about her is that she was a meme like people clowned her

06:21:32.820 for ages like from the day that she even like started her like campaign right but so do you

06:21:39.260 think people don't take her seriously because she's a woman or yes no or because she was a

06:21:45.000 dog shit candidate i think both because you know bernie sanders like he was kind of stupid too and

06:21:50.760 people weren't clowning him as much as like they were clowning her like they were like memes like

06:21:55.260 there's valid criticism yeah or even like you know trump right now like there's a lot of like

06:21:59.680 memes that can be made but it's not it's not really going as viral as like kamala like her

06:22:03.680 memes were like really trump is the most they were attacked and maligned person in

06:22:10.440 arguably the history of the world like i mean perhaps absent some dictators in the mid

06:22:20.340 20th century but um this idea that like even diddy you know like diddy did some horrible things but

06:22:28.740 they're just like making a joke out of it it's just like he's in jail wait i'm so confused what

06:22:35.180 does did he have to do with it but okay so women don't you said women don't get taken as seriously

06:22:42.900 even granting this well yeah i mean like nobody really sees like uh sorry what would that have

06:22:48.880 to do with rights even granting it's true which i contest but what does it have to do with equal

06:22:56.900 rights um well i just think um you know women are probably never going to be president or a lot of

06:23:04.980 things not true i definitely see it happening i think it'll happen in our lifetime

06:23:11.240 i don't know well you would agree that a woman can be president right there's nothing legally

06:23:20.640 preventing her from being president right okay so what is it in any case uh even if the populace

06:23:26.620 just there's just better male candidates or whatever or even if his sexism does exist in

06:23:31.720 society you would have to agree are you okay or i was just simming sorry what is that sorry you

06:23:40.340 should have disclosed i mean you should have disclosed it to me that you're stimming i mean

06:23:45.080 yeah it's just a thing with autism it's just like when i get i just do like hand motions or okay i

06:23:50.980 that's fine we'll do an uh we'll do an accommodation but to somebody who's not aware of your

06:23:58.980 stimming i know it looks like i'm yeah i mean yeah it's a disability uh okay but yeah anyways so

06:24:12.980 sorry i lost my train of thought well i think that men um like men's uh rights like they're

06:24:18.820 favored, I guess. How so? Like, um, people just love men. Even if that was true, which I, again,

06:24:29.220 I disagree with, you have things like the women are wonderful effect where, uh, people tend to

06:24:34.300 give women a halo. Whereas people, both men and women are a bit apprehensive when it comes to men,

06:24:40.100 people assess men as more potentially, uh, as threats. Whereas, um, there, there's like for

06:24:47.340 both men and women there's a bias towards women women have a strong in-group bias for other women

06:24:53.420 men have a slight out group bias for women uh so this idea that people love men i'm not actually

06:25:01.260 sure if that's true um but in any case though even granting that what does that have to do with rights

06:25:08.660 i don't know

06:25:12.480 so can you name a right that a man has that a woman doesn't besides the topless thing no

06:25:22.840 so men and what do how about this do men and women have equal rights um i guess

06:25:30.700 okay

06:25:32.820 damn i'm getting a lot of w's tonight everybody's changing their mind on everything um uh okay

06:25:41.020 let's see hold on uh kaylee you think oh wait you write women are oppressed in the usa and

06:25:49.960 men are more privileged in society than women those are two separate ones you agree with that

06:25:54.500 why is that wait i said that i agree that men are more you agree that women are oppressed

06:26:01.140 in the usa and you think men are more privileged in society yeah so when my um thing of oppressed

06:26:10.040 is like um what i think what it meant was like being oppressed is being like um

06:26:17.580 what did i literally ask you what it was and you told me um being taken advantage of

06:26:23.880 i wouldn't categorize being taken advantage of as oppression but um i'll give you the definition

06:26:31.960 thank you uh hold on prolonged cruel or unjust treatment or control uh oh did they change it

06:26:43.840 yeah can you repeat it prolonged cruel or unjust treatment or control so what i circled was saying

06:27:00.560 that women go through the the cruel is what i was saying and when i circled that uh so the

06:27:07.540 statement is women are oppressed in the usa and you circled it so going through like the

06:27:12.580 definition that you said the cruel and yeah so typically this would mean like

06:27:17.160 from the state down like there's something in in the government or society that is

06:27:27.720 cruel or unjust to women um so like for example yeah uh dating an abusive guy

06:27:39.880 Would not be

06:27:41.900 Oppression

06:27:43.100 You've been in an abusive relationship

06:27:46.900 You might have been abused

06:27:48.240 But I don't think you would

06:27:49.780 It would fall under the purview of oppression

06:27:52.080 Okay

06:27:52.760 So then no I wouldn't agree with that

06:27:56.340 Okay so you just thought it was

06:27:58.100 Women are poorly treated or something

06:28:00.160 Yeah I didn't understand the definition of it

06:28:01.920 Okay

06:28:02.840 And then well I'm going to skip that one then

06:28:06.040 Lexi

06:28:07.800 wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex why is that

06:28:12.600 well because if if a girl is saying no you can't have sex with me i'm assuming that there's a

06:28:19.020 reason why she said no you know so there's probably an issue that you have to fix in your

06:28:23.480 relationship and then you can have sex that's how easy it is seriously i used to say no to my ex all

06:28:28.220 the time i'd be like no we can't have sex you pissed me off today and we talked about this

06:28:32.480 issue multiple times so i'm not going to give you what you want you can't give me what i want

06:28:35.960 uh before i respond to that jennifer you also agree why is that

06:28:41.860 that oh with the question you just asked yeah wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she

06:28:48.360 regularly turns him down for sex you know i 100 agree like why why wouldn't i like no means no if

06:28:55.280 i don't want to have sex with you today i don't have to have sex with you today like right but

06:29:01.400 it's not a question about consent i we all agree that consent is uh is what's the right word um

06:29:09.740 100 necessary but you're okay the statement once again wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if

06:29:18.900 she regularly turns him down for sex so why because the relationship shouldn't just be based

06:29:26.060 on sex it should be like based off of like how you guys connect like energy wise like what you

06:29:33.040 guys bring to the table okay so if i was dating a girl and i was doing nothing wrong and she just

06:29:39.660 like completely for for six months she didn't want to fuck i'm in the wrong for wanting to dump her

06:29:47.560 yeah why would i be in the wrong

06:29:53.120 because well i guess that's like your preference but it's just like that shouldn't be the reason

06:30:01.960 why like somebody gets dumped for for not wanting to have sex like people have like

06:30:07.020 like religion is a thing like some people can't like have sex like before marriage you know like

06:30:12.520 but so yeah religion is a thing but i mean i'm not making a religious argument on this

06:30:19.240 um if also it's sort of implied in the question if the man is being turned down for sex

06:30:28.060 he's clearly not waiting until marriage for sex so he wants to have sex so it's baked into the

06:30:37.640 question, this would probably not apply to a relationship where both people are waiting for

06:30:42.840 marriage. So putting that thing aside, uh, if I'm in a sexual relationship with a woman

06:30:49.820 and she's expressed a expectation that I'm monogamous to her and she all of a sudden stops

06:30:58.260 having sex, what would be actually be wrong with me dumping her?

06:31:07.640 Is it okay for me to cheat on her then?

06:31:11.660 What's worse?

06:31:15.460 Leaving her?

06:31:17.140 It would be better for me to stay with her and cheat on her than to dump her.

06:31:25.900 No, I just said that it's better if you just dump her than to cheat on her.

06:31:32.540 Right, but so what would be wrong?

06:31:34.380 would it be wrong for a woman to dump her boyfriend if he just decided to stop paying

06:31:42.960 the bills for example lexi here she wants a guy to pay all the bills what if he just

06:31:48.180 decided to stop doing that would it be okay for her to dump him

06:31:51.720 yeah why would that be okay

06:32:00.960 because that's like your preference like if you if you like if he's coming to the table and saying

06:32:14.280 that i'm gonna do this then he should keep his word so if a girl asks me to be her boyfriend

06:32:23.740 and there's an implication of monogamy,

06:32:27.180 meaning I can only have sex with her

06:32:30.060 and she was previously providing sex,

06:32:35.320 she's not holding up her end of the deal.

06:32:49.380 Okay.

06:32:49.940 are you laughing because you realize you're wrong or are you laughing for another reason

06:32:57.520 well in a way i guess i am wrong because at the end of the day it's a preference if you

06:33:04.660 want your relationship to be about sex and it's it's a problem when it stops happening then

06:33:09.820 would you be happy in a sexless relationship like you want to fuck but your boyfriend's like

06:33:15.800 nah I'm good would you tolerate that I would definitely question okay me personally I have

06:33:24.300 a high sex drive so like I would not have you ever been has a guy ever rejected you for sex

06:33:33.680 like a boyfriend rejected me for sex like said no to sex yes no that's funny uh would you be

06:33:42.660 bent out of shape if a guy turned you down

06:33:44.460 and you want you really wanted

06:33:48.700 to fuck and the guy's

06:33:50.680 like nah out of shape like

06:33:52.380 yeah like I just feel like I would just

06:33:54.660 be like damn okay

06:33:56.380 like I'm not gonna like

06:33:58.740 like

06:34:00.740 are we talking about like a random guy or

06:34:02.620 like a boyfriend could be your boyfriend

06:34:04.700 yeah

06:34:04.980 now let's say he doesn't actually

06:34:10.740 go ahead and answer the question

06:34:11.760 like if it was my boyfriend and

06:34:15.940 wait i'm so sorry repeat that like this is so funny she can't even comprehend the idea of being

06:34:25.240 sexually rejected she doesn't even she can't even comprehend it it doesn't even compute for her

06:34:34.720 And yet she has an objection to

06:34:38.360 A man dumping his girlfriend

06:34:40.760 For regularly turning him down

06:34:42.720 For sex

06:34:43.260 Women don't like taking L's

06:34:48.540 Like women will be

06:34:50.520 Really bent out of shape if the guy turns

06:34:52.520 Them down for sex

06:34:54.280 But um

06:34:55.420 Okay how about this

06:35:03.060 your boyfriend doesn't fuck you for three months

06:35:05.200 are you staying with him

06:35:06.560 I can go that long

06:35:10.180 like yeah it depends on the reason

06:35:13.380 it depends on the reason

06:35:14.940 I guess

06:35:15.600 I don't know you just haven't been acting right recently

06:35:18.400 like and he's just jerking it to porn

06:35:23.420 so you know he can get up

06:35:24.700 he's just jerking it to porn

06:35:26.580 well then he's cheating

06:35:28.220 I mean that's not technically cheating

06:35:30.400 I mean porn is

06:35:33.020 men shouldn't watch porn in a relationship

06:35:34.920 if he has the sexual energy

06:35:36.860 to bust a nut

06:35:39.120 to something else but he just doesn't want to do it

06:35:41.160 to me on the low he's cheating

06:35:43.120 he has to be

06:35:43.980 so women can also have the sexual energy

06:35:46.980 to fuck but they could be turning down

06:35:49.180 their boyfriend because like Lexi said

06:35:51.020 oh he's just not acting right

06:35:53.360 yeah

06:35:54.680 also even look

06:35:57.160 just to be clear

06:35:58.760 this is within the context of consent

06:36:00.920 right

06:36:01.280 uh even if your boyfriend like pissed you off that day like you could still fuck him well maybe

06:36:09.260 that'll make things better i don't know if he pissed me off about that one certain thing for

06:36:14.040 like repeatedly for like months i'm not gonna have sex with him after he's that one thing to me but i

06:36:19.020 would have sex with him if he did something else completely like never happened before he pissed

06:36:23.380 me off that day it's okay whatever i'll suck your dick but yeah if it's like a continuous problem

06:36:29.440 them like you need to you need to learn your lesson and just to be clear look i've had girl

06:36:33.260 like a girlfriend will piss me off and she's all like oh let me make it up to you i'm like nah go

06:36:38.580 away like so i get it i'm not saying like if you're upset with your partner you don't have to

06:36:44.140 fuck them yeah maybe you can make it better you know honestly but i've definitely like turned down

06:36:49.180 my girlfriend before if she's just fucking annoyed me or something and she's like can i make it better

06:36:53.700 it's like nah just go in the other room you know like yeah but um i guess what i'm getting at here

06:37:00.360 is like yeah okay you're you're adding these qualifiers of oh my god the boyfriend's not

06:37:05.900 acting right so yeah of course i don't want to fuck him what about in this situation though

06:37:09.920 the boyfriend's not doing anything wrong as far as we know the girl maybe they've been together

06:37:16.660 for three years and she's just i don't know maybe she lost a little bit of attraction

06:37:20.180 but he's otherwise the same exact guy

06:37:22.820 her sex drive diminished

06:37:26.660 whatever

06:37:27.060 let's assume the guy's not doing anything wrong

06:37:29.980 he wants to have sex

06:37:31.720 and maybe she fucks

06:37:34.700 once a month

06:37:35.260 but he wants to fuck five times a week

06:37:38.680 it's been three months

06:37:42.420 and she's only fucked him three times

06:37:44.300 is it wrong for him to dump her?

06:37:47.080 i mean they should communicate about it and like i mean there's been like a communication

06:37:53.460 and she's still like not you know having sex and yeah he should dump her because they're

06:37:57.980 obviously not compatible exactly i'm not saying i would disagree with you that he should dump her

06:38:03.340 uh he that's a determination that a man can can make but i don't think it's wrong if he does

06:38:09.520 like he could opt to stay in the relationship okay maybe she's going through some shit we can

06:38:14.420 work it out uh men also go through phases where they might not be maybe they're going through

06:38:20.480 stress or they have a injury or something and their sex drive is is lower whatever if there's

06:38:26.280 like a valid reason like to say she's um she's going through chemo or something that obviously

06:38:31.220 yeah it's kind of messed up if you were to dump her but uh i think like if she's otherwise healthy

06:38:38.120 and she's not having sex with him as frequently as possible and he talks about it and she's not

06:38:43.800 willing to, you know, perhaps make a change. There can be a compromise, but she won't even

06:38:49.320 compromise. I don't actually, I think people look can break up with somebody for any reason or no

06:38:55.680 reason at all. People reserve the right to break up with anyone for any reason.

06:39:06.260 I'm just, Oh, I just don't really, I don't know. I want to date other people. How about that?

06:39:10.060 you didn't do anything wrong but i want to date other people i don't think that's wrong do you

06:39:17.180 i mean if that's your desire yeah all right uh let's see what else is there

06:39:26.840 um i'm not going to do everything on the questionnaire let's see

06:39:32.120 a woman jennifer a woman should not be rejected because of her weight why is that

06:39:38.520 a woman should not be rejected

06:39:41.800 i circled that yeah maybe

06:39:49.660 i think i completely misunderstood that because maybe you accidentally yeah no i definitely think

06:39:59.020 that's totally fine totally fine that's valid yeah all right nothing there then

06:40:02.580 oh my gosh yeah she was like that is yeah you were talking about that girl that she had like

06:40:09.140 uh you know likes chubby guys yeah i yeah you were like you're gonna keep him unhealthy here

06:40:14.880 no i'm sorry all right uh let's see what else we can blast through here

06:40:21.620 uh let's do let's do the bout video let's do the bout video i want to see all right so this is a

06:40:29.240 video i took my ex-girlfriend and uh i dumped her but i this is really toxic but what i i do is

06:40:37.220 i don't like i like to make things easy for myself so i i recorded a tutorial video

06:40:45.600 so to show to new women

06:40:48.060 and like you should do this

06:40:52.760 you will get blocked so quick

06:40:57.120 i admire like the dedication i don't tell me like bro someone took the time to do this it's like

06:41:06.060 when you get a list of like your pros and cons yeah but uh is there room for you guys to scoot

06:41:12.400 this way a little bit that's all right just you three scoot that way scoot that way oh yeah

06:41:17.080 right scoot scoot scoot scoot scoot scoot all right and like scoot into the table perfect

06:41:26.520 scoot in scoot in all right that's mostly good okay i almost hold on let me adjust

06:41:36.680 all right so yeah i took this video of my ex-girlfriend so that i could

06:41:42.040 uh show it to new girlfriends so they knew how to act like a tutorial video all right go ahead

06:41:48.900 play it yeah all right boom huge bow she's got a bow as soon as i get home this was after a long

06:41:56.640 podcast recording and uh yeah you know laundry right away and then she has my dinner ready

06:42:05.240 as soon as i get home the scampering skimpering scampering that's always good cracks open a beer

06:42:11.880 for me stirs my noodles i dumped her you see those raw tomatoes in the bottom right that's

06:42:18.620 actually why i dumped her like who the fuck eats raw tomatoes disgusting i do and then i i like to

06:42:25.200 add chinese um skip to the end again play it i i add uh chinese characters to my videos too

06:42:37.880 just to really play the bow part just at the beginning at the beginning boom huge bow do you

06:42:47.260 see the submissive hand posture deep good depth it could be you know yeah it could definitely be

06:42:52.160 lower and straighter you know it could be lower so kiss your feet you know and she should be

06:42:56.900 praying to you to bless you yeah yeah she should instead what is she doing she's holding on to

06:43:01.920 herself she's holding on to herself she doesn't care about you she cares about her

06:43:05.740 she needs to kiss your feet

06:43:08.460 and take your shoes off

06:43:09.580 she should have taken my shoes off for me

06:43:11.720 she should have been holding your hand

06:43:14.860 instead of holding herself

06:43:15.840 she needs a fresh pair of socks for you to step into

06:43:18.880 so what do you guys think

06:43:21.300 would you do that for a guy

06:43:22.420 heated towel on the floor

06:43:23.880 yeah she's lacking

06:43:25.560 would you do that for a guy

06:43:27.500 yeah I would

06:43:29.880 I've done a lot of things for a man

06:43:31.320 wait let's fix the mics

06:43:33.080 can you yeah i mean yeah but i'd be like or i wouldn't want you to like film it and play it

06:43:41.960 should be like behind closed doors i wouldn't want it to it's like why are you filming this

06:43:51.640 oh my god okay all right what about you would you do that for a guy i do that for my boyfriend now

06:44:01.280 Like, I have dinner ready for him when he comes home.

06:44:02.740 Do you do the bow, though?

06:44:03.500 I'm talking about the bow.

06:44:04.960 I mean, fuck yeah.

06:44:05.860 I'll be like, good morning, sir.

06:44:07.380 Okay, W.

06:44:08.740 No.

06:44:09.240 Would you do it for a woman?

06:44:10.380 Sorry.

06:44:10.740 Yeah, probably.

06:44:12.080 But, like, she better not film it.

06:44:13.540 Oh, yeah, yeah, of course.

06:44:14.460 Yeah.

06:44:14.840 Yeah, don't film it.

06:44:15.920 But that was just for instruction purposes.

06:44:18.220 Absolutely.

06:44:19.240 Yeah.

06:44:19.980 Yes.

06:44:20.960 Oh, okay, well.

06:44:21.980 Okay.

06:44:22.220 True love.

06:44:22.600 Nothing to argue with, then.

06:44:24.040 Nothing to argue with you guys.

06:44:24.820 We're too agreeable.

06:44:25.820 We need to, like.

06:44:26.700 I'd wear a wizard robe.

06:44:27.980 We're just a group of submissive women.

06:44:29.820 okay lexi okay man's worst nightmare i bet lexi pegs her boyfriend okay i'd be down for pegging

06:44:38.720 lexi's like oh i'm such a submissive woman no she probably yells in cambodian and spanish at the

06:44:44.520 same time to her boyfriend she probably whips him with she takes her belt off when she gets home

06:44:50.320 she fucking whips him she bends him over and just spanks him she's well that's okay hold on this

06:44:55.660 getting a little fucking ridiculous what else do i do have you pegged have you pegged a guy i've

06:45:02.260 never you seem like i've never pegged a man i get pegging vibes from you to be honest i have never

06:45:07.480 pegged a man and i've only had anal once wow thank you for sharing just putting it out there

06:45:15.420 okay i have a button for this that's why i stick to anal sex can't get pregnant you know fair but

06:45:23.140 it's because I don't really like butt stuff okay I'm not really the biggest fan I mean I would do

06:45:33.320 it if I'm really attracted to the guy that I'm with because it's like he's doing it to me it's

06:45:37.740 like oh my god what are you doing to me crazy man but yeah all right I love that for you Lexi

06:45:48.160 i love that for you you know like my butt is my new virginity i'm only gonna let my husband have

06:45:53.840 it i'm saving my ass as you should yes

06:46:04.000 geez okay uh alissa here next to me you uh in your instagram profile it says hashtag super mom

06:46:16.060 hashtag single mommy life what is a super mom what's a super mom melissa um super mom is just

06:46:24.960 basically a mom that does it all on her own i guess like cooking the cleaning taking kids to

06:46:33.320 school the laundry homework the driving the working okay and you also in your instagram

06:46:42.280 bio it says cancer moon goddess what the fuck what is that um i'm a cancer moon sign um so i'm

06:46:51.860 cancer moon cancer sun i'm capricorn rising i'm sorry and i'm capricorn rising um yeah i'm just

06:46:59.900 i um i like astrology i'm really into like the moon energy and stuff and i have the moon and

06:47:07.200 both my moon and sun signs or so so i'm like really feel like connected to the moon

06:47:13.760 i love that for you slay queen uh you dated a guy over the summer and he ended up ditching you for

06:47:20.240 an older lady because he turned out to have mommy issues oh my god so wait you're 33 yeah how old

06:47:27.040 was the woman she was like 46 was she a wasion she wasn't that good looking at all honestly

06:47:35.640 i don't understand what i don't know it was really weird

06:47:39.440 damn and yeah i don't know wait i have a question wait he cheated on you or he just left no we

06:47:46.980 actually never were in a relationship like we just basically dated hung out for three months

06:47:53.160 carnal knowledge yeah like we were like trying to get to know each other and like um like thought

06:48:00.200 it was gonna be a relationship but he got really weird oh two times and then he tried to come back

06:48:06.760 both times wait so he he had like a milf thing like yeah he had the woman before me she was

06:48:14.760 also she was like in her 50s and not good looking and i just was he like weird in bed

06:48:21.940 no like he wanted to suckle at the teat no not like that he was pretty normal it's just

06:48:30.840 he definitely had a thing for older women and he couldn't even really admit it so because i you

06:48:37.800 know called him out on it and he was like well the other i didn't even know she was older because

06:48:43.120 she's on hormone therapy she's a hormone therapy doctor so she looks really young and i'm like

06:48:49.500 and when i went to her page i'm like she does not look young she looks 46 she looks her age

06:48:56.800 that's okay and that's fine but he was trying to lie about it like being like you're into older

06:49:04.380 women it's okay i guess question for the panel on this would you prefer like if a guy dumps you

06:49:13.080 would you prefer if he the next girl he got with even if it's like he got with her pretty quick

06:49:20.180 after yeah so right after we went to southern ohio together for a work trip it was a work trip

06:49:26.560 plus vacation for him i went with him we went down on the motorcycle and um a week later like

06:49:34.860 we got back he got weird again i already knew like he i don't know just didn't have interest

06:49:40.380 anymore or whatever and then you know a week later he messages me and says i got some karma

06:49:48.120 you might be interested in hearing it and i was like okay so i called him

06:49:53.200 what is it and he was like just say bet yeah i did

06:50:00.320 so funny it must be an ohio thing we're too old for that yeah i don't know that's just a

06:50:07.980 thing. I don't know. Millennials aren't allowed to say bet. Really? I'm not allowed to say bet.

06:50:12.940 I think a lot of millennials say bet. We have to give that one to the Gen Z. Okay. We can't say

06:50:19.860 bet. All right. I won't say it anymore. But now you got me forgetting what I was saying. Okay.

06:50:25.000 He called you up for karma. Oh, yeah. He called me up and told me, yeah. So she called me and said

06:50:30.960 she wanted me to come over. And I was like, okay. So I drove right over there. And she wanted to

06:50:37.500 break up with her boyfriend and she yeah him he called me he told he tells me the older woman

06:50:44.420 calls him and says i want you to come over so he goes over and she's like hey i have a boyfriend

06:50:51.060 but i want to break up with him and so apparently her boyfriend showed up there while he was there

06:50:57.300 she broke up with him he left she's like well i had these plans to go to um i just forgot hocking

06:51:05.960 Hills Ohio and so he's like well I'll go with you so they went together and he was thinking he told

06:51:11.860 me he was like oh my god this is going to be for real this time we're going to be in a relationship

06:51:15.360 he said they like did the thing they like had sex the whole time he's like telling me this

06:51:19.980 yeah and then um he's like and then she broke up with me she broke up with me and I'm just like

06:51:28.300 okay so he's like so I'm you know I'm got my caramel I got what I deserved and then I went

06:51:35.280 on his facebook he's like making these big posts about like women turned men into assholes and

06:51:39.920 everything oh my god i just blocked him and then he showed up okay i was like what

06:51:47.360 never mind um the question i was going to ask though is if you were

06:51:55.400 so it was like within a week or something he was with her

06:52:00.360 yeah okay so for the the question that i was going to ask for the panel

06:52:06.600 would you prefer your ex say he's going to get with another girl within a week or a couple days

06:52:13.480 would you prefer him to get with a girl who's hotter or uglier

06:52:18.680 hotter hotter doesn't really matter because we're not together anymore but

06:52:25.020 i would be happier if she was uglier yeah but i would be proud of him if she was hotter yeah i

06:52:32.960 agree i agree oh yes i think sorry for me yeah no i would be proud of him if he was can you scoot

06:52:42.680 the mic so it's like center body go ahead you uh yeah i would be happy i mean not happy but i'd be

06:52:50.200 Like, dang, he back to baddie.

06:52:52.240 Uglier.

06:52:53.420 Prefer if she's uglier?

06:52:54.440 Yeah.

06:52:54.880 Right.

06:52:56.580 Uglier?

06:52:58.000 Probably uglier.

06:52:59.400 Uglier.

06:53:00.320 Now, what about for cheating?

06:53:01.440 Would you prefer they cheat on you with somebody uglier or more attractive?

06:53:06.860 For cheating, I don't care.

06:53:09.880 Because either way, I'm not proud of you now.

06:53:11.740 Now you're just a disgusting piece of shit.

06:53:13.300 I get that it's still bad.

06:53:14.660 Yeah.

06:53:14.980 Well, if...

06:53:16.180 Which is...

06:53:16.980 I think this is...

06:53:18.700 It's hard.

06:53:20.200 Me, personally, I think I'd feel better about it.

06:53:25.660 It's, like, pros and cons for both.

06:53:29.080 Yeah.

06:53:29.660 It's kind of better if they're uglier, though.

06:53:33.040 I feel like emotionally it's better if they're hotter because it's, like, okay, well, so I'm, like, lacking in something else.

06:53:39.080 Because if you go and you have sex with an ugly girl, it's, like, wow.

06:53:43.180 Like, you had this.

06:53:45.280 Wow.

06:53:46.920 Like, what can she give you?

06:53:48.520 and like now i'm disgusted and like just like a whole bunch of emotions so you're saying like

06:53:54.500 yeah oh if she's like hotter it's like okay it makes sense you know um i'd say uglier because

06:54:01.540 if she was hotter then i'd probably compare myself to her look wise yeah being uglier for sure um

06:54:09.780 what she said i'd rather have them be prettier so then it's like a reason like oh it's because

06:54:13.980 you thought that they were better looking uglier so i would know that it's something very wrong

06:54:18.460 with them i would say uglier because for men it's usually just sex when they cheat

06:54:25.380 okay uh alissa your final note here women who refuse to do 50 50 with men and why dating older

06:54:32.360 men marrying older men women who say they bring nothing to the table poly have you been in a

06:54:36.880 polyamorous relationship i have not but i know a couple people who are and i mean okay they i don't

06:54:45.360 know i don't and it seems like it's becoming more of a thing now i don't know you also wrote that

06:54:51.240 uh you don't usually disagree with me although this might be changing tonight uh you strongly

06:54:58.420 disagreed with andrew wilson and his choice of words towards the women on the podcast i can't

06:55:03.800 really say i totally disagree so what specifically i guess didn't i just i don't agree with him

06:55:09.900 like just he full-on crashes out on some girls i do that sometimes you do like a little bit

06:55:17.620 well i don't know you didn't say shut the fuck up he did say shut the fuck up but he didn't call

06:55:22.900 her a stupid bitch i usually don't resort resort to personal insults yeah that's the only thing

06:55:29.780 with andrew i don't agree with is him calling people stupid bitches on the podcast i think

06:55:36.680 That's kind of...

06:55:37.820 Has he done...

06:55:38.700 Yes, he said, shut the fuck up, you stupid bitch.

06:55:47.120 I'm trying to recall, but in any case, all right, well, he's not here, so nothing there.

06:55:51.080 Alexis, gone.

06:55:53.040 Rude.

06:55:54.720 See, it's because men have more endurance.

06:55:57.520 Women get tired.

06:56:00.040 You might be right.

06:56:01.140 She's got a welder body.

06:56:03.160 See, I said it.

06:56:04.420 I knew it.

06:56:05.160 I feel like I'm so tired.

06:56:06.680 No, it's actually science.

06:56:07.900 It's science.

06:56:08.520 Are the cars okay?

06:56:10.660 In the lot?

06:56:11.160 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

06:56:11.760 Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop.

06:56:13.920 Oh, yeah.

06:56:14.580 Wait, stop, stop, stop, stop.

06:56:16.600 Yes, everything's fine.

06:56:17.660 Okay.

06:56:19.000 Oh, my gosh.

06:56:19.900 Yeah, we already disclosed this in the beginning, guys.

06:56:23.500 Bro, holy fuck.

06:56:26.760 Okay.

06:56:29.000 So, where were we fucking talking about?

06:56:33.440 You were asking her something.

06:56:35.420 polyamorous oh yeah oh yeah and how they're becoming like more common 50 50

06:56:43.340 um i think you asked her if she's ever been in a polyamorous alexis i don't know

06:56:49.720 uh 50 50 on dates and polyamorous you said you had friends that are poly but like

06:56:57.360 they see you don't know how you feel about it jenny jenny you're not in your instagram bio

06:57:03.900 it says anomaly sorry guys i hope you don't mind me being fucking cutthroat but sometimes i have to

06:57:10.000 just move things on no i don't think what does that mean anomaly just something that isn't like

06:57:20.080 like something that isn't like supposed to be there like in a way so whether are you an anomaly

06:57:30.100 i feel like well i'm thinking of that like more so like everywhere i am like i can like

06:57:39.500 say like a lot i do say like a lot actually okay but um i feel like in like groups or like even

06:57:50.160 like in like like spaces of like people i'm kind of just like in the background like you see me

06:57:58.200 like I'm there but it's like you know I'm not really like you're not a main character

06:58:05.780 is that what you're saying even though you look like one

06:58:08.440 she's a main character but she doesn't say anything

06:58:14.420 something that deviates from what is standard normal or expected so I would imagine like is

06:58:22.780 the implication here that like you're an exceptional person or what do you mean by an

06:58:27.480 anomaly like like I'm just different I'm different like how like um I think like energy wise like

06:58:52.640 I don't know like

06:58:54.480 erroneous

06:58:57.600 erroneous

06:58:58.920 okay what else

06:59:01.800 um

06:59:03.960 sorry

06:59:07.540 your energy

06:59:10.880 like what do you mean

06:59:13.760 like your lower energy than

06:59:16.040 most people

06:59:17.020 like it's just like every

06:59:19.980 well in a way like everybody's like energy

06:59:21.980 is different do you have aura i would say i have aura i believe everybody has aura

06:59:27.420 if everyone has aura then what does that even mean like isn't aura something like

06:59:33.920 all these other people are sheep and they're unremarkable but this one person something

06:59:40.480 about them is different and draws you to them that would be aura if all people have aura then what

06:59:48.200 what does it even mean like do you think you have aura yeah do you think you've demonstrated that

06:59:58.880 tonight

06:59:59.240 probably not so much have you been anomalous tonight

07:00:05.740 in a way like yeah like the standard would be to like you know be more like in there but and i'm

07:00:12.620 i'm just kind of like i don't know i'm pretty tired too honestly but i've still been talking

07:00:18.720 do you think you have charisma

07:00:23.020 i would say like my energy is like different everywhere like i think like here i'm kind of

07:00:31.200 more like i don't know but like with people i'm closer to they would definitely say i'm pretty

07:00:36.780 like okay so i think that to be charitable that some people can blossom after they've become

07:00:46.880 more comfortable with someone or it takes you a bit longer to uh unravel uh the person's

07:00:56.220 personality a bit uh either they wait to get comfortable or whatever whatever but if we're

07:01:01.680 talking about aura that shit permeates through fucking everything if you've got aura you've got

07:01:08.900 it all the fucking time and just because just because you're on a podcast and uh your aura

07:01:18.560 ought to permeate i don't know i don't know um that just sounded like a commercial

07:01:25.400 You got it all the time

07:01:28.420 At 1-800

07:01:29.480 There it is

07:01:31.860 I do voiceovers

07:01:32.740 Do you think you're

07:01:37.220 I don't know

07:01:38.140 You're just kind of intimidating

07:01:39.360 In a way

07:01:40.980 And I'm just like

07:01:41.820 So am I the one with the aura?

07:01:44.620 It's your podcast

07:01:45.700 For sure

07:01:46.380 It's right here

07:01:49.360 Blonde hair

07:01:51.240 Yeah right there

07:01:51.780 There you go

07:01:52.360 Oh it's princess

07:01:53.120 It is princess

07:01:53.920 i haven't felt the aura no i haven't really felt any aura no aura i mean to be fair i don't think

07:02:09.980 most people don't have aura lexi has like a percent of an aura

07:02:15.660 i have two percent aura who else here has like milk apparently there's colors to aura i think

07:02:21.740 lexi has like a little bit of aura i think i have a little tism you definitely let's not

07:02:28.560 discount that that's definitely abundant um i don't know yeah by the way people in the chat

07:02:36.400 are like brian's intimidating chubby brian intimidating um sorry i don't know okay um

07:02:45.640 but you said anomaly the reason we're even talking about this you write anomaly in instagram bio

07:02:50.980 you know what this reminds me of it's like those guys who call themselves alpha males

07:02:55.840 but they're like definitely not alpha male any guy who says they're an alpha male is the opposite

07:03:02.540 anyone who must call himself the king is no true king not a king if you call yourself an alpha male

07:03:10.620 it's like you're fucking lame as fuck i hate when guys call themselves top g's or alpha males like

07:03:17.860 you just sound so like you just sound like you take it up the butt like you love it well what

07:03:23.000 is this like 2022 2023 it just sounds horrible like oh my god yeah that's cringes fuck it's

07:03:28.680 All right, Jennington.

07:03:34.260 If you actually want to start aura farming, by the way, is that your stripper name?

07:03:45.480 I'm not going to ask for your real name, but is it your stripper name?

07:03:48.580 What's her real name?

07:03:49.100 Jennington?

07:03:49.960 Jenna.

07:03:51.180 Jennifer.

07:03:51.920 Jennifer.

07:03:53.220 Oh, shit.

07:03:54.060 I got doxing her, but...

07:03:56.060 well jenna's jenna's short for jennifer but jenny's short for jennifer yeah jenny from the block

07:04:01.640 oh but uh wait so it's not my stripper name what is your stripper name heaven heaven oh that's cute

07:04:10.540 you should change that shit to anomaly you should you know what you should

07:04:13.920 you should you know what you should do wait can i give you can i send you a list of like

07:04:22.540 10 stripper to use but here's here's what i think you should do jennington jennington i think you

07:04:29.980 should um i think instead of heaven maybe like purgatory that'd be cute you should introduce

07:04:37.160 yourself as purgatory or maybe limbo or like hi i'm hell nice to meet you what's the name

07:04:45.360 in our instagram the word anomaly i like that one yeah i think you should actually you know

07:04:52.220 what Jennington you are going to just for one night you can even just do it for one or two guys

07:04:59.340 three guys ten guys introduce yourself as Jennington and you're gonna get such crazy tips

07:05:07.300 that night hi sir I'm Jennington would you like a dance do it here pretend you're a stripper right

07:05:15.260 now approach me as a stripper go ahead not like don't get up just like what would you say verbally

07:05:22.020 as a stripper well my name is Jennington or no like give me the stripper riz oh no I just okay

07:05:31.140 well how do you because you go up to guys at the club right right yeah okay give me the demo what's

07:05:36.300 your opening I'm just like how's your night going like okay wait restart restart do you

07:05:42.700 Do you give your name?

07:05:44.080 Okay, yeah, yeah.

07:05:44.920 Jennington.

07:05:45.920 Don't forget.

07:05:46.940 Okay, fine.

07:05:49.480 Hi, what's your name?

07:05:51.920 I'm Baxter.

07:05:54.480 I'm Jennington.

07:05:55.400 Nice to meet you.

07:05:56.180 Have you been here before?

07:05:59.280 No, it's my first time.

07:06:00.820 Okay, well, I'll give you the rundown of the rules.

07:06:03.960 The rooms are, you know, so-and-so.

07:06:06.220 They're different.

07:06:07.320 Can you just show me your titties?

07:06:10.140 No, not here.

07:06:11.540 I'm role-playing.

07:06:12.420 oh yeah no no no be like we're gonna have to go to a room for that for titties yeah you have to

07:06:19.300 i can't do it on the floor why pay money when titty internet free google search one billion

07:06:27.460 because they're asking me they want my titties not just any titties they want to know

07:06:32.580 that they're on my body that's why would the guy get kicked out for what i just said

07:06:38.980 no probably i don't know probably just touching your i wouldn't say if i was a security guard i

07:06:45.420 would be like all right that's enough okay but seriously do you promise me do you promise me

07:06:52.080 you have to approach a guy and introduce yourself let's do let's even let's spice things up

07:06:57.700 jennington the third that'd be good and you have to do like a british like a posh british accent

07:07:08.980 Would you like a dance with me?

07:07:10.880 You would sound rich, girl.

07:07:12.700 Excuse me.

07:07:14.160 Oh, my God.

07:07:16.180 I'm Jennington III.

07:07:19.340 Would you like a dance?

07:07:21.820 Yeah, you got to do that shit.

07:07:23.640 That's going to get you some tips, girl.

07:07:25.460 Oh, and by the way, actually, I haven't forgotten about you.

07:07:29.740 You think your name's Lexi?

07:07:31.640 No, it's fucking Lexington now.

07:07:34.160 Your name's fucking Lexington.

07:07:36.720 Lexapro.

07:07:37.420 lexapro i used to take lexapro i can tell not anymore wow maybe you should get back

07:07:45.260 no when i was on that i was like never functioning to my highest potential like

07:07:52.380 now 24 you're orifying now what is that like i never get tired never lexapro yeah jennington

07:07:59.760 you also wrote that you dated an arab why did i say she loves an arab she loves arab

07:08:07.740 i'm still saying it weird uh you got cheated on by him with what

07:08:13.960 a male no not just multiple so you're arab boy why am i saying it like that

07:08:23.840 Arab. Arab. Arab. Arab. Arab. Arab. Arab. Boyfriend. Slept with multiple men.

07:08:33.040 Okay, I'm going to just tell you this story. So, I would never go through his phone just because,

07:08:38.000 you know, peace of mind. But something was telling me. Something was telling me that he

07:08:41.880 was cheating on me. So, then I went through, like, when we were in the car and he went to,

07:08:47.160 like, he was in a gas station. I went through his phone and then I seen, I logged out of his

07:08:52.640 snapchat and then when i logged out of the snapchat i seen he had another snapchat so i went into

07:08:57.820 that snapchat and then i seen the first the first name that popped up i don't remember the name went

07:09:03.380 into the chat there was a video of him sucking his his peener excuse me that's fucking disgusting

07:09:14.360 yeah and there was multiple chats like that snapchat was specifically that was that happened

07:09:22.900 to me too they have a gay snapchat oh my god that is fucked up i wasn't even mad when that

07:09:30.620 happened to me i was just like wow and there is like you're deep in the closet yeah i just want

07:09:36.460 to tell you jennington i would only cheat on you with women that's beautiful

07:09:42.260 thank you is not too much to ask big labia woman i'm a nice guy i would never do this day and age

07:09:51.240 i'm a gentleman i would never okay that's crazy uh you you oh shit wait i feel like i got i forgot

07:10:01.000 about this i shouldn't have been coming at you so hard jennington you almost got arrested by

07:10:08.560 beating your ex at the time with a croc shoe what like a croc yeah girl you beat him hard

07:10:16.960 it was on the 4th of july and he oh my gosh because he wanted okay from what i remember

07:10:30.600 maybe i'm not too exact but he wanted to go out with his friends his friends didn't like me

07:10:35.920 so he wanted me to stay home or go to work so I got pissed off and through our whole relationship

07:10:44.460 I moved like okay so I moved in with him like I genuinely felt like he hated me like why did

07:10:51.100 you even have me like move in with you if you like don't even like me you know because he knew

07:10:55.360 I was a stripper but he wasn't okay with me being a stripper that's the gym guy huh that's the guy

07:10:59.460 that took you to the gym all the time yes oh oh you got insight oh so he's he's healthy but he's

07:11:06.660 lying yeah and so her latina just came up yeah but so you beat you you almost got arrested so

07:11:21.240 the cops got called yeah like when i was having a conversation with the cops they were like

07:11:25.720 technically we can but it's and they talked to him too and they were just like well he doesn't

07:11:34.000 want it he doesn't want you to get arrested anymore he just wants you to stay home while he

07:11:38.660 goes out and that's the best choice you know you guys should just separate so he is gonna go out

07:11:44.660 and you're gonna just have to be okay with it or or you should just move out I was just like okay

07:11:50.280 well i was home alone and yeah didn't get arrested though

07:11:57.500 the case and i wasn't even like you know like was i even hitting him that hard like i don't know

07:12:05.260 it's a crock there's not a foam are they wait was was there all the things on it was there the

07:12:10.520 like did it have the gibbets on it no oh well girl he's fine yeah i mean technically that's

07:12:17.560 still not that's not okay that's not okay but it's the fact that he got me on a character like

07:12:22.180 that like this is the one with the gay snapchat no different one uh were they both arab no one's

07:12:29.600 arab one's mexican the arab guys are gay yeah exactly no exactly one of my exes he like hooked

07:12:38.080 up with a bunch of arab guys he was like they're all gay and he was oh my god no he was indian

07:12:42.940 oh yeah but there's the thing with the arab the arab guys low-key be gay

07:12:46.800 and they won't come out because they're arab yeah they need that they need that inheritance

07:12:53.040 what causes that what causes sorry sorry for any prejudice like why does it just run through

07:13:01.600 i feel like they're just closeted they can't admit it to themselves yeah sad if you think

07:13:09.980 about it you know and like the snapchat thing is just so horrifying you know like i'm just trying

07:13:13.640 to log into my snapchat now i have to find out you have a no a whole other life no like it just

07:13:18.800 kind of makes sense though if you think about it like the way they treat women like they're that

07:13:23.680 part they're closeted they want to suppress no because only like gay men will treat women that

07:13:29.140 bad yeah i agree they're mad you're not a man i hate yeah what did i miss talking about gay we're

07:13:38.220 still talk about the gay snapchat okay nice uh all right uh liliana that's you my body you broke

07:13:47.000 up with somebody yesterday oh my god no she broke up with me but like i was about to break up with

07:13:51.960 her like i was so done but yeah she basically told me that like i'm hot and she likes hooking

07:13:57.120 up with me but then like she doesn't want to be my girlfriend anymore so i'm like what do you

07:14:00.740 really say after that plus she had three duys that's a lot my mom had seven three is a lot

07:14:07.760 i thought they cut you off after three right yeah but we were like planning to go to mexico like

07:14:13.620 she invited me to mexico and gave me a clicker to her apartment and then i do think she cheated

07:14:17.960 though because i found a hair tie like if you guys found a hair tie that wasn't your hair tie

07:14:22.020 at your partner's apartment wouldn't you be concerned yeah and she doesn't have hair does

07:14:25.140 she no exactly you know my time she doesn't have any hair and like i tried to give her an out i'm

07:14:29.860 like oh you're a hairdresser like is this your hair tie and then she's like no that must be yours

07:14:34.360 right right because she knows i use a scrunchie you know one time this guy my ex gave me this

07:14:40.920 girl's lip gloss she he was like he was like isn't this yours i looked at it i i turned it

07:14:46.360 around a couple times i was like hmm yeah but it's okay no and then there was a paddle

07:14:53.440 there was a paddle out at her and like girl like i've never used that and she was like no we must

07:14:57.980 have used it i was like no we didn't we must have i was like oh okay and like i mean like a like a

07:15:03.020 you know like a fun time paddle so i think she was cheating but that's okay because i'm already i

07:15:09.420 have a roster we're good oh back up all right lexi's notes uh your last ex you guys were together

07:15:16.140 for three years on and off broke up a year ago yeah he ended up convincing you to do of yes i

07:15:21.780 talked about this in the beginning full circle yeah he would get mad that so many guys were

07:15:26.320 talking to you and he ended up cheating and you left yes well he cheated on me multiple times so

07:15:32.580 the first year that we were together we broke up because he was cheating on me with like this

07:15:36.860 really tall girl and mind you he was like 5'2 he was the first short guy I gave like a chance and

07:15:42.280 we were together for three years yeah but he oh you're 4'11 he cheated on me with like a girl

07:15:48.180 that was like 5'8 I was like you're not even 5'8 what are you doing I was so mad and then I broke

07:15:54.040 up with him this is gonna sound bad and like I have solid I'm six foot one I have solidarity

07:16:00.020 with short guys uh pro short king pro short king but if you're five two

07:16:09.980 you got to be loyal like you know what i mean yeah exactly like you're lacking already like

07:16:19.780 make up for it you know what i mean i don't know you have one job

07:16:24.140 but then again he was i guess well if he's fucking other women then no yeah and at the time we were

07:16:31.240 also doing 50 50 i was working at walgreens and everything and then he convinced me to do of because

07:16:36.340 our mutual friend was doing really well on of and he was like yeah we can make so much money

07:16:41.260 and so we ended up getting back together after i started doing of and he cheated on me again

07:16:47.420 with another girl mexican girl and then i was like well he went out to the club a lot too and

07:16:53.220 i used to get mad about that but i was like well he's not cheating on me he's just going out with

07:16:56.320 the boys yeah but then once i found out that he was like cheating on me again i was like no and

07:17:01.520 i kicked him out and we were moved in together and it wasn't the boys no i'm sorry girl it was

07:17:07.420 not the boys did you uh does he have a lethal face card no his face card is giving toad

07:17:17.740 but you know personality was there at the time in the beginning he got me in the first half okay

07:17:25.060 he really did oh he really did he would open my doors he would treat me so sweet and nice

07:17:30.660 show me off buy me flowers all the cute stuff you know he didn't have to be the richest man

07:17:35.360 i just like the way that he treated me yeah and he was chef on you cheating yeah i like guys that

07:17:41.060 are nice to me like extremely nice to me not even jokingly like mean to me that's a good okay uh

07:17:48.560 he got the mercedes amg and a corvette from the money oh my god yeah he made from you oh yeah and

07:17:55.780 then the corvette got stolen yeah i'm happy about that i don't give a fuck insurance money nope

07:18:04.320 and not insured yet he just got that car two days later stolen god's timing you know god has a plan

07:18:13.880 karma she's like i set it up

07:18:18.240 low-key i set him up no i'm just kidding am i allowed to maybe he sold it i don't know

07:18:25.840 no yeah it definitely got stolen how much is a mercedes amg um well the one that he had is uh

07:18:32.680 GLE 63 so I think it was like 60k wait when did you get the fake tatas me yeah yes you

07:18:43.860 was it after OF yeah it was it was just recently actually and I did it while I was single after me

07:18:52.360 and him broke up because every guy that I've like talked to or like deliberated it with was like

07:18:58.000 oh no don't do it you look perfect guys love natural girls i love fake titties so you know

07:19:06.060 at the end of the day i have to live with me and i'm gonna love myself more and i'm gonna be happier

07:19:11.120 with myself more if i if i if i love my big fat titties you know i didn't have any titties before

07:19:16.980 i was bored like this now i know you're not a natural beauty but i think with the right clothes

07:19:22.140 the right look you can be very striking exactly that's how i felt i was like you know what i see

07:19:27.360 the potential and guess what after i got them i love them i love my boobs i literally love them

07:19:33.260 so much like i show them to girls all the time i go to the restroom in public and i will be like

07:19:37.860 do you want to see my boobs like they look amazing like they look amazing what month did

07:19:45.280 you must stay focused brothers we must stay i got them i got them in august oh okay get the rocks

07:19:53.240 Abdul, get the rocks.

07:19:55.040 How brutal was your healing?

07:19:57.200 It was pretty easy.

07:20:00.180 Yeah, mine wasn't bad.

07:20:01.280 Yeah, it was pretty easy.

07:20:02.940 You know, like the first two days was just like, you know, you can't really lift your arms.

07:20:07.240 But other than that, it was like, it was kind of like having like a fever, you know, like your body just aches a little.

07:20:12.920 Yeah.

07:20:13.160 You can't really get out of bed because you feel like shit.

07:20:15.380 Women with small breasts try harder.

07:20:17.840 i was a small breast in high school and then i don't know i was a small breast until august

07:20:24.840 uh you dated a guy that cheated with your mom oh yeah oh yeah and he was 27 and i was 17

07:20:34.080 no it was legal in illinois you know like the age of consent is 17.

07:20:41.620 oh yeah still a little a little isn't there a federal i know age of consent right yeah well

07:20:49.820 you know i it's the states are different or whatever but that's still i mean it's questionable

07:20:55.920 you're a senior in high school or junior 27 year old dating a junior in high school yeah

07:21:03.720 i mean even if it's technically legal that's a little exactly and then you know like he would

07:21:11.840 like make jokes he would be like you know i'm like basically old enough to be with your mom

07:21:15.560 he was with my mom that's crazy oh my god i don't believe it i don't believe it there's no way

07:21:23.180 no he was he fucked your mom he okay so call your mom right now she would never admit that

07:21:29.420 but I know that what what happened because I had his location and we were like arguing and stuff

07:21:35.000 and my mom she was like at the house we were all three at the house like me you can talk oh yes

07:21:39.780 my mom me him we're all the house and my mom has um two other daughters so my little sisters were

07:21:46.700 all at the house we're all having like a cute family day or so I thought and then me and him

07:21:52.840 we started arguing and whatnot and you know he like left or something and then she like went

07:21:57.880 after him or something and his location showed that he was at a hotel and it was like a long

07:22:03.220 time later and i started calling them and they weren't answering so i was like oh no they're

07:22:07.100 definitely fucking so then yeah i mean i stayed the night for the rest of the night and i watched

07:22:12.060 my sisters but after that we broke up and i i i just uh found a rebound and i was like okay yeah

07:22:18.600 it's not that bad you know just bigger dicks out there did you have a good relationship with your

07:22:22.860 mom um my mom was never there like growing up I always lived with my dad and my stepmom

07:22:28.420 so I mean the year that I was your bio mom or your stepmom yeah my biological mom he cheated

07:22:35.460 on me with my biological mom yeah yeah but I was like a year where I was trying to like get to

07:22:42.860 know my mom or something you know I was like oh yeah I want to get to know how old was your mom

07:22:46.620 at the time um 36 36 but he never admitted it either 36 37 because um i'm 22 now and i was 17

07:22:58.260 at the time okay so she had you when you she was like 18 oh 15 yeah she conceived me when she was

07:23:05.020 15 and she gave birth at 16 okay huh but he didn't admit it to sleeping with you no he did he did he

07:23:15.840 did he did he he texted me about it because you know when i left him he was like yeah this is why

07:23:22.000 i fucked your mom i was like oh my god your mom never why no she always denies it i i literally

07:23:31.000 brought it up to her on multiple accounts i was like yeah and you fucked drake and she like like

07:23:36.940 you're like i say it as a joke you know i say it very lightheartedly because i want to have a

07:23:40.420 conversation about it but she's just like that never happened like i would not do that like

07:23:45.020 you're crazy i'm like okay well wait so what you said he texted you the this is why i did this why

07:23:54.960 what was his reason um i guess because i'm absent or i like crash out i call him names like i told

07:24:02.800 him like yeah i like well you know like sometimes whenever we're fighting i don't like i won't keep

07:24:08.080 on texting him all night long i'll block him and then the next day i'll text him wait and then

07:24:13.980 what was you call him names yeah i would call him names i would be like you're literally a bitch like

07:24:18.620 how could you do this to me like you're horrible do you do that in other relationships no moving

07:24:23.640 forward i don't um i don't believe in like calling men names because i wouldn't like that if someone

07:24:28.380 did that to me too so just basically treating people how you want to be treated you know what

07:24:33.040 just noticed looking at the monitor what so the way your center bang falls right between your

07:24:44.420 eyebrows it kind of looks like you have a unibrow it's kind of giving though no my eyebrows are

07:24:52.980 faded no but like when it was covering the center because you do have prominent eyebrows

07:24:59.840 and that strand has been there the entire show no it hasn't yes faded out because i've been

07:25:10.240 messing with my bangs the entire show okay if you say so uh let's see uh i think the final

07:25:16.560 thing here you cheat or wait no your ex i've never cheated on anyone your ex cheated and then you

07:25:24.820 dated his best friend after that was my first relationship ever at 14 yeah so I dated this guy

07:25:34.220 and he was older than me he was a senior and I was a freshman so he was like trying to convince me to

07:25:39.620 have sex with him or whatever and um during that process like I tried to have sex with him I tried

07:25:44.740 to slip it in but it didn't really work you know like um it was just too painful it didn't like

07:25:49.020 work so anyways um his best friend showed me a video talk okay talk straight talk to me talk to

07:25:56.760 me don't like do girl talk don't do girl talk looking at my girls do do i'm one of the girls

07:26:02.780 talk to me talk to me yeah so um yeah i was a freshman he was a senior um he was trying to

07:26:12.440 have sex with me and his best friend like me and him rode the same bus so we were sitting on the

07:26:16.860 us together and he showed me like on his phone like a like on snap like he was texting like my

07:26:22.340 boyfriend at the time and um there was a video of him fucking another girl so I was like oh my gosh

07:26:28.460 so I broke up with him and then I ended up dating that guy that told me wow yeah and then uh

07:26:34.140 relationship dynamics here he was so mad at me uh Bree going to your notes uh you did have a tweet

07:26:40.500 I think we hit on this the age gap stuff you find it odd for someone in their 30s to go strictly

07:26:46.300 for 18 or 19 year olds makes you wonder how young they would go if there were no age consent of no

07:26:52.240 age of consent laws if she was 24 25 and her frontal lobe was fully developed then my take

07:26:58.020 would be completely different but the key word here that you used is strictly for 18 or 19 year

07:27:04.280 olds so what about the guy who says who's like well i'll just say my age who's 36 who would date

07:27:11.820 a woman who's 20 but would also date a woman who's 35 i guess that's is there an objection

07:27:18.000 there i guess it's fine as long as he's not just going after them because they are

07:27:23.720 an age like because that'd be weird like where are you why is that what does that matter like

07:27:28.900 because if it's someone that he's he likes and is compatible with then yeah it doesn't matter as

07:27:34.600 long as they're above 18 it's consensual yeah what i mean like uh for example i think i'd rather date

07:27:43.100 a 30 year old who's really hot and like has a fit body versus an 18 year old who's obese

07:27:52.180 yeah so it's not just the age it's about the physical attractiveness and then some other

07:27:59.200 factors too yeah that's fair as long as it's like you don't have a weird like age fetish

07:28:05.220 or something no not really although generally i think generally speaking though uh and there's

07:28:12.820 they've done some polling on this uh throughout men like as they get older even like from 20 all

07:28:21.460 the way to like 40s and 50s and they say and this isn't necessarily who they would date but

07:28:27.120 which women do you find the most physically attractive men always say between like it's

07:28:33.520 around 20 21 is when men assess women as being most physically attractive well then explain why

07:28:40.080 like the biggest sex symbols like sydney sweeney margot robbie they're all like in their mid 20s

07:28:45.700 like early 30s on average like if you look at those like celebrities like megan fox robbie

07:28:49.760 like a sex symbol i mean she's an i mean she's celebrities that are considered like you know

07:28:55.040 like being on the most beautiful woman list yeah they're always like i notice that they're usually

07:29:01.360 late 20s well i would say that uh we're talking about celebrity and famous people and that it

07:29:09.300 generally takes some some amount of time to develop celebrity uh although like megan fox

07:29:18.160 for example when she was 18 19 20 many people viewed her in that way she looks better now but

07:29:24.900 to be fair she has plastic totally have you seen the new instagram pictures like she looks great

07:29:29.960 where she's yeah where she's completely plastic and probably been airbrushed and photoshopped

07:29:34.580 and full face professional best of the best makeup artist and uh stylist and even then

07:29:41.800 no she was hotter when she was 19 now that's the female gaze what you're talking about

07:29:47.900 the male gaze is different no yeah yeah yeah for shizzle monism uh okay all right well uh

07:30:03.200 do you think that there's a i'm gonna skip that uh thruple story why don't you tell us

07:30:10.080 thruple story oh gosh so i was um it was this like pretty well-known dj and this latina dancer um

07:30:20.080 and pretty much at first like everything seemed fine but then um one thing that was kind of a red

07:30:26.980 flag that i brushed off um all of his like artwork and just i don't know like all his designs like

07:30:34.080 all his clothing designs they there was satanist imagery and i just thought at first like oh that's

07:30:39.500 like a vibe like whatever like i didn't think he was like actually a satanist but then i found out

07:30:43.920 like he was a satanist and like he had an altar i like he was literally like right like a list to

07:30:48.720 write down like to take people's souls like weird like death note thing pretty much yeah

07:30:53.740 and um it wasn't until we like broke up i found a usb and pretty much there were like subliminal

07:31:01.160 mind control frequencies and it was like it literally had like a list like to play around

07:31:05.680 like brie to play around on the other girl on it um he so it makes me think like when he was djing

07:31:10.980 and like playing a set which he would do all day long it's like was was he playing those frequencies

07:31:15.940 and i always felt like i was kind of under like a trance because he wasn't like the best looking

07:31:19.100 i was but i felt so like attracted to him so i was like like was it the frequencies and then

07:31:23.380 not too long after um the girl and this is after we've broken up um the girl and the thruple she

07:31:30.480 died kind of suspiciously.

07:31:32.660 And then I found out 12 of his

07:31:34.780 exes died. And I'm the only

07:31:36.740 living ex of his.

07:31:38.380 Girl. 12 women

07:31:40.740 dead. Wait, what?

07:31:42.200 12 women dead.

07:31:44.420 12? Maybe you should report that to

07:31:46.680 the police. No, for real, girl.

07:31:48.820 Like, dada. She's like, I signed

07:31:50.740 an NDA. I can't.

07:31:53.380 She's like, I'm actually his

07:31:54.820 only living ex. I am. I swear

07:31:56.840 to God. Does he just, like, fuck

07:31:58.840 really old women no no they're all young like they were all like 18 to 30 like 12 women he's

07:32:05.020 dated have died yes and was his ex-popular dj yeah like he's not like too popular like he has

07:32:10.860 like 30k on instance so he's not like okay okay so i'm not like gonna hear this through like apple

07:32:16.440 music like but it's a possibility i listen to him okay this is great damn i mean like is he dating

07:32:23.780 like severe drug addicts uh there were a few drug addicts in the mix like some of them i don't know

07:32:29.340 or something probably a couple of them but that is sus that's more than a coincidence

07:32:36.660 maybe it's the state i don't know i could be who knows the details but um i told myself i

07:32:43.980 went to an open relationship after that one but then i ended up right in an open relationship

07:32:48.000 uh wow okay um let's see here what else do we have uh oh um who show of hands who here's a sex

07:32:57.500 worker uh and then that alexis she left so it's just you three all right uh i've been skipping

07:33:05.140 doing this one recently but i'll just try it tonight so you know you women you get a lot of

07:33:11.360 uh you know simps while you're a stripper some men just throw money at you i'm sure you guys

07:33:19.360 get like men in your dms here's some money on your only fans here's here's a tip here's money

07:33:24.880 blah blah blah and i want to do a novelty thing for all three of you my first question is have you

07:33:31.260 ever just given a man money just for the sake of it given a man money like yeah i'm not dating him

07:33:41.940 he's not giving me just a dude who you're like he's hot no or you don't even think he's hot but

07:33:47.940 you want to give him money no no no homeless guy like on the street

07:33:54.300 that yeah so uh okay so

07:33:59.440 i want to do a role reversal here role reversal so you can say this is like a bucket list thing

07:34:09.540 you know novelty do you guys have any just curious do you have any cash on you

07:34:13.060 me yeah i do cash you guys got some cash on you i do oh yeah i don't you don't have any cash

07:34:20.300 I know I didn't really bring that much

07:34:21.920 oh well you know I thought

07:34:23.800 I feel like it'd be

07:34:24.900 you know just

07:34:26.560 you know you guys should just give me money

07:34:30.680 what?

07:34:31.720 just give me your cash

07:34:32.420 like and

07:34:35.780 as this

07:34:37.200 guys this one time

07:34:39.240 I went on this podcast and this really toxic guy

07:34:41.760 and I gave him money

07:34:42.900 oh

07:34:45.180 yeah so

07:34:47.000 I'm

07:34:49.780 ready whenever you are. Girl, you got

07:34:51.940 played.

07:34:55.300 Somebody playing

07:34:56.140 your face right now. I would if I had money on me.

07:35:00.820 Give you money right now?

07:35:02.120 No. Yeah, give me your cash. Like, go get

07:35:03.960 your wallet. No.

07:35:07.420 Lexington?

07:35:09.840 Barrington?

07:35:10.600 Go get your wallet

07:35:11.480 and give me

07:35:13.220 the money.

07:35:16.380 You will give me money

07:35:17.920 first. Oh, my.

07:35:19.780 all right I tried I tried uh uh okay what else do we have uh going finishing up your notes

07:35:29.280 almost you're the last one uh

07:35:32.740 one hot take you have about modern dating is the body count convo you think people focus way too

07:35:41.220 much on the number itself instead of the context to you it's more about quality responsibility and

07:35:46.480 honesty rather than just quantity obviously extremely high numbers can be a red flag

07:35:51.360 they aren't always people are different and relationships aren't one size fits all

07:35:55.740 what matters more is being responsible about your health communicating openly and getting

07:35:59.960 tested regularly regularly yeah so i actually half i halfway agree with this so i have this

07:36:10.920 theory that i developed so some people do get a little bogged down on just the number the

07:36:18.540 quantity component but there is a quality component but it's not that if a girl fucks

07:36:25.940 has a body count of 100 but they're all really quality dudes still ew still ick my thing is

07:36:32.920 let's say a girl has fucked one dude but it's like the island boy guy or like or like nle choppa

07:36:43.660 or like who the i don't know i'm trying to think of something like just like a guy that would

07:36:48.420 gross me out a little bit like that she i don't know just like a a dirty guy like she fucked like

07:36:56.300 a sleaze bag or like a fucking meth like it could be a nobody but like she fucked a

07:37:02.420 fucking heroin addict or some shit that's like a i call it the body count multiplier

07:37:10.040 so if a girl has a body of one but she done fucked a needle user

07:37:15.320 her body count might as well be 50 yeah i agree if she fucked

07:37:21.660 Little pump

07:37:24.360 And that's the only guy she's fucked

07:37:27.200 Her body count's 50

07:37:29.380 I agree with that

07:37:30.840 The body count multiplier

07:37:32.080 I don't believe in the multiplier

07:37:35.080 Because if women have a multiplier

07:37:37.180 Men need one too

07:37:38.120 Because men fucks needle users too

07:37:41.100 Absolutely

07:37:41.660 And men fucks prostitutes

07:37:43.780 All the time

07:37:45.220 Like how about this

07:37:47.540 A guy who fucked Bonnie Blue

07:37:48.900 Multiplier right

07:37:51.080 with the guy who fucked body.

07:37:54.140 Yeah, that works too.

07:37:55.360 Well, the odds are in.

07:37:56.660 Okay, all right.

07:37:57.760 Well, yeah.

07:37:58.780 I'm just saying.

07:37:59.940 You know, I just don't believe in double standards.

07:38:05.420 Yeah, I mean.

07:38:06.340 Yeah.

07:38:06.960 I think, yeah, if the guy's fucking dirt,

07:38:11.640 McDirt chicks, then yeah.

07:38:14.480 Or Megan Fox.

07:38:15.520 She can be.

07:38:16.920 Wait, that would be bad.

07:38:18.840 Yeah.

07:38:19.660 Why Megan Fox?

07:38:21.080 um is she she probably has a lot of bodies and she's megan fox that's like me fucking

07:38:27.380 nle choppa it's the same thing whoa no no no no no no that's not comparable that's not comparable

07:38:36.620 you think that's one-to-one ratio megan fox nle choppa yeah

07:38:46.700 i don't know that's crazy that's great who's another fucking like if a girl fuck a little

07:38:55.020 wayne if a girl fucked i don't even know half these fucking rappers with the face tattoos i

07:39:04.020 don't fucking know yes that that is like a grimy like girls who fuck grimy dudes it's a body count

07:39:12.160 multiplier yeah shit oh trippy red sure trippy red um uh scrim and ruby from suicide boys who's

07:39:22.420 like uh i mean scrim is ruby but love them both ruby rose who's like a grimy dude

07:39:31.160 who's the one that has herpes oh my god timothy chalamet uh what seriously he gave nyu chlamydia

07:39:43.100 what yeah my friend went to like nyu or like wait wait but hold on chlamydia is not herpes

07:39:49.580 yeah i just thought they might get got it confused um who has herpes it's uh it's not

07:39:55.580 and be a young boy uh is it who there's a rapper that has herpes and i wouldn't be surprised and

07:40:02.220 like he had sex with a woman and like it was a whole lawsuit because he she didn't he didn't

07:40:05.800 tell her that i wonder if kanye has herpes i'm sure i don't think kanye has a lot of women i

07:40:11.280 don't think kanye has herpes just for the fact of like who he is and he knows that like if kim

07:40:15.880 found out about that like i don't know i just i probably i mean kim probably like oh my god so

07:40:21.820 i don't know i just feel like he's not like a i feel like he's smart you know he's like wrap that

07:40:26.320 i don't know who knows um let's see here uh going back to you you offer the girlfriend experience

07:40:36.180 what's that um pretty much it's one-on-one like priority like treatment um i send daily um like

07:40:45.880 hello videos and like just videos throughout the day and good night videos and it comes with like

07:40:52.360 free sexting and pretty much just like a lot of perks to where it kind of saves money too to where

07:40:59.240 um instead of like buying every tip menu item individually it all comes in one package yeah

07:41:05.880 how much does that cost it runs from like 200 at the cheapest one to like 5k

07:41:13.220 okay you also rate cocks yes that's my i made a million dollars off of cock rates

07:41:20.640 wow yeah stop the cap no i'm serious

07:41:23.820 i did don't believe it don't i could show you the numbers

07:41:29.380 yeah yeah i could deem it too after the podcast i don't have my device she's like i try photoshop

07:41:36.300 bit no so wait how much is a dick rating it's um it ranges from like 20 is the lowest but then it

07:41:45.440 can go up to like 500 if they want like a full video and i'm like writing a deldo and like moaning

07:41:49.980 their name what the fuck yeah so how many how many dick ratings have you done oh my god over

07:41:56.000 a thousand by now probably ten thousand since i started yeah yeah wait it's like it's a very

07:42:02.220 common thing on only fans when you say rating do you mean like you literally just rate it out of

07:42:07.240 10 and yeah what's wrong with it or like what's right but some guys i actually um there's a lot

07:42:11.860 of guys to where they come in and they want a small penis humiliation so i have a question

07:42:16.460 just because like one of the main things too that like i just personally wouldn't be able to keep up

07:42:21.080 with all the like messages is there ever a time where you're just like dude i don't want to be

07:42:25.820 performing today yeah then i'll take the day off that's like the cool thing about being self-employed

07:42:31.420 I can just clock out whenever so but like even like if that lasts for like have you ever had

07:42:35.440 like a time period where it's like a couple days a week where you're just like I feel like crap I

07:42:39.020 don't want to yeah all the time and you just like can still make it by and everything yeah because

07:42:42.920 I have um because I get a lot of unlocks with the day on um like videos that I send out and schedule

07:42:48.180 like a week prior even so it fortunately I can take off some time when needed I know some girls

07:42:52.960 like too they like if you find the right man you could get a pay pig I know that's really popular

07:42:57.100 in chicago yeah i'm actually i'd like to offer my services i offer labia ratings

07:43:03.820 first man ever to do it probably somebody's done it but i offer labia ratings i'm an expert in

07:43:12.100 labia um i do have the bias towards the large labia though so i mean um if any i will uh

07:43:21.220 i'll charge what how much do you think i should charge to rate labia does that make me a sex

07:43:28.160 worker technically yeah yeah if i charge for labia ratings yeah what if i do it for free

07:43:33.460 am i still a sex worker i guess not right like like you just be like you're sex laborer

07:43:41.460 well think about it this way right like sex pro bono a woman who charges for sex sex worker

07:43:47.680 A woman who just fucks a bunch of men for free

07:43:50.360 Boney blue

07:43:51.800 Slut but not a sex worker

07:43:54.420 Okay

07:43:56.440 Well I guess I have to do it for free then

07:43:59.320 Because I'm not opposed to receiving

07:44:01.920 Nude photos from women

07:44:04.360 Like if they send it to me

07:44:06.300 But

07:44:06.920 I don't want to be a sex worker

07:44:10.840 But I also want money

07:44:12.560 So

07:44:14.160 You can mark it as kind of like

07:44:17.080 a vaginal examination there's gotta be you know what there's a loophole you get to text me i'm an

07:44:24.080 escort you get to text me and i'll talk to you for money and bundled in that you can send a labia

07:44:35.780 pick and i'll rate it but i'm charging you for the convo okay that only involves me rating your labia

07:44:43.860 i think that that's a loophole what's wrong with being a sex worker though why don't you

07:44:49.260 want to be a sex worker you mean the guy who has the anti-sex worker podcast

07:44:54.600 look hey i don't hate sex workers by the way i i don't want i i wish good things for sex workers

07:45:02.940 i hope they get out of it um i don't have i don't have hatred towards them but i i i'm not a fan of

07:45:10.260 sex work. I'm kind of against it.

07:45:12.140 I think it's bad for the women, it's bad for the men,

07:45:14.400 bad for society.

07:45:16.400 And, yeah.

07:45:18.300 But I don't hate them, you know?

07:45:20.920 I don't hate

07:45:22.180 Lexi. I hate Jenny

07:45:24.200 a little bit. Just kidding.

07:45:26.180 I hate her aura. This is me.

07:45:27.940 What's discrimination against sex workers called?

07:45:32.300 Based? It's called being fucking based

07:45:34.280 in a legend, bro.

07:45:38.060 Based in red pill.

07:45:39.220 look at leslie look at upset over there oh my abs boost that's what it's called

07:45:45.400 my my tummy hurt oh yeah okay oh there's abil and ibuprofen they said that i took that my head

07:45:52.960 was there was so like they're so feminist here i want look if there's any women in the audience

07:45:59.000 you know what i'm doing a specialty offer i'm not gonna be i'm not gonna be a sex worker i'm

07:46:05.060 to do it uh limited time only i'll just do it for free i will give labia ratings sex work but i will

07:46:11.060 give i would no i will give labia ratings for free my dms are open for the next 24 hours disclaimer

07:46:17.980 18 and up you just get set up 18 and up disclaimer that would be terrible 18 and up disclaimer can

07:46:25.740 only send your labia if you're 18 oh yeah you have to send me your fucking id you have to be

07:46:29.020 Yeah, you have to be an adult

07:46:31.960 Here's my ID, here's my labia

07:46:33.980 Signs up for sure I have the ID

07:46:37.600 Like on the badge

07:46:38.880 That works, I guess

07:46:41.240 Maybe she

07:46:43.700 Pops it out

07:46:44.440 Or you can hold the ID with your lips

07:46:46.900 Kind of like

07:46:49.280 Or you can stick it in between

07:46:51.840 The labia, you know, like between

07:46:53.380 The outer lip and the labia

07:46:55.860 So I can like hold it out

07:46:57.760 You know

07:46:58.620 do i laugh like adam sandler or um uh i've told that i laugh like a guy who you laugh you laugh

07:47:10.300 like a gopher oh my god thank you i don't even know what that sounds no um it's the guy it's um

07:47:16.720 he's like a stoner he like has like the curly hair oh my god who the hell yeah is that you

07:47:25.780 know what's crazy my cat my fucking cat murked a gopher yesterday what i was like trying to prep

07:47:32.080 for the podcast and i heard a yelp outside and my cat fucking murked a gopher now here's the

07:47:38.240 disgusting thing the cat started fucking eating the gopher i would have started crying like but

07:47:44.980 the thing is i went back outside like 10 minutes later this is i don't know if this is tmi do i

07:47:49.940 carnivores say it or carnivores say it let's just say there was only a half of the gopher

07:47:56.020 and i was traumatized did you that's so healthy for your cat though like that's like the most

07:48:01.640 natural instinct yeah no my ferrets no no my ferrets do that no not healthy no it is it's

07:48:09.160 really healthy for um ferrets to eat raw meat not from the outdoors but like i buy like raw rabbit

07:48:15.100 off the internet fucking murking gophers and eating that's fucking funny but it's natural

07:48:20.960 gopher like off the internet like ground gopher that's how god and like feed it like it's really

07:48:25.920 that's how your cat gets fucking worms and shit no no no before all that legal like they know

07:48:31.460 what they're doing there's no pesticides like rabbit too is really good like for ferrets yeah

07:48:35.340 that is cool um anyways uh here let's we gotta do a couple things right we gotta let's do uh

07:48:43.460 twitch really quick guys if you're enjoying the stream like the video like the video also i don't

07:48:47.980 know big labia matter i guess i've been talking about that big labia matter i might order the lm

07:48:52.500 the fist blm yep she just curious i don't know i'm just curious does anybody here have uh audi

07:48:59.420 like i just feel like i'm revealing way too much on here okay it's just gonna be titled like

07:49:08.900 flexi tmi so you have a audi is what you're saying i wouldn't call it an innie she has an

07:49:18.360 innie girls i've been labia fish before by chicks like a girl tells me she has an audi but they

07:49:23.900 don't know like and like yeah i don't know i don't know a picture after this and like see what

07:49:29.440 that actually looks like i've been labia fish though i'm like what do you but i feel like

07:49:32.820 Girls probably have the experience.

07:49:34.120 Oh my gosh, Jenny, you.

07:49:35.500 Girls, she doesn't have it?

07:49:37.260 No.

07:49:37.800 She has an innie?

07:49:40.320 Do I have an innie?

07:49:41.400 Would you consider it an innie?

07:49:42.840 Exactly.

07:49:43.200 That's why I'm like, I don't know where it falls on the spectrum.

07:49:46.480 You know if you have an outilabia?

07:49:49.700 I don't know.

07:49:51.020 In any case, I don't know.

07:49:52.540 Don't you girls get upset if a guy says he has a big dick, but he doesn't have a big dick?

07:49:56.040 Yeah, I do.

07:49:57.340 I get upset when they're like, oh, nine inches.

07:50:00.660 And then it's like four.

07:50:01.760 why would you lie about that why would you lie about that guys don't know actually how big that

07:50:07.420 is they say it and then they do it with their hands and they're like wait that's how big that

07:50:11.740 is oh no and i hate when they're like oh and i measured it with the ruler women are like i'm

07:50:16.200 like this women are like i'm like that and then i see it's like a little slit innie i'm like

07:50:20.760 i'm confused i'm like thinking you're talking about like some roast beef like yes i'm talking

07:50:26.860 about roast beef that's what i'm talking about yeah fucking sandwich motherfuckers arby's

07:50:31.140 he wants big ones okay all right pull up twitch really quick guys twitch.tv slash whatever drop

07:50:40.900 us a follow drop us a prime sub oh my goodness 22 minutes since we had a prime sub yo jay thank

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07:50:50.860 show here show some love over there on twitch twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a prime sub

07:50:55.040 thank you guys okay final segment of the show the questions rapid fire questions here we go

07:51:00.620 uh going around the table do you think you're beautiful yes sure looks wise yes yes sure into

07:51:09.220 the mics no yeah sure sure uh do you think i'm a misogynist no no no no no no no really

07:51:25.020 really you're cool no i don't think so i feel like you explain yourself well pretty much a feminist

07:51:29.180 after you said that you had tylen all here i was like he's a feminist do you have tampons in the

07:51:33.600 bathroom too there might be oh see you know what you do it see exactly free tampons in this economy

07:51:40.220 he's like 25 cents and i have a small waist basket basket in my personal bathroom oh that's very

07:51:48.620 feminist wow bonus points bonus points nice yep i know i'm uh okay uh do you believe in

07:52:02.580 and we'll probably skip those uh do i have white privilege

07:52:07.760 yes and you can use it very wisely how by using your white voice

07:52:16.500 ally yes be an ally be an ally your voice helps and it contributes okay uh let's see here

07:52:27.480 uh your voice is heard more than a black man's question for you you said that you're kind of

07:52:36.580 like waiting when it comes to sex at the moment like you want to wait a little bit do you have

07:52:41.940 a celebrity crush ryan reynolds uh let's say ryan reynolds was single and he was like uh hi

07:52:51.780 do you want to have sex would you fuck

07:52:56.100 yeah probably crazy on the first day crazy see you got break rules people breaking rules

07:53:07.000 it's not a it's not about an actual standard like he's funny

07:53:13.620 okay i'm funny do you want to never mind i mean i think when it comes to go ahead

07:53:23.060 oh what oh you opened your mouth i thought you were gonna you were just breathing i got it

07:53:27.000 i'm a very vocal breather uh go ahead i forgot what i was gonna say

07:53:34.240 okay perfect uh let's see if men should pay for dates if men should provide

07:53:39.980 if men should protect men should be chivalrous what should women do cook and clean and maintain

07:53:47.020 the house and give birth that was actually a pretty good answer uh is it financial abuse

07:53:55.920 if a rich man won't buy his

07:53:57.620 dependent wife luxury

07:53:59.820 goods. We talked about that a little bit, but

07:54:01.500 kind of. No.

07:54:03.200 Okay. Here we go.

07:54:06.060 Here we go. Ready? Ready? Ready?

07:54:07.740 Ready? Ready? Lexington? Ready?

07:54:10.000 Okay.

07:54:11.860 Name three countries besides the USA.

07:54:14.060 You can't repeat.

07:54:18.420 Hello, Puerto Rican

07:54:19.560 Comodian.

07:54:21.160 I'm not that silly.

07:54:22.680 africa wait you said countries what did you say keep going africa africa europe asia what are we

07:54:35.420 talking about continents or countries those are countries my turn yeah um canada mexico russia

07:54:43.560 i can't i'm sorry i can't i can't

07:55:02.440 um antarctica huh no three countries you can't repeat hers but you've only heard three so far

07:55:12.420 because those were continents that she said.

07:55:32.200 Russia?

07:55:34.500 So there's like about 200 countries.

07:55:39.560 If you watch the Olympics, what teams are you going to see?

07:55:42.420 brazil two more

07:55:48.560 barcelona barcelona barcelona okay that's a country yeah next

07:55:59.560 Japan there you go

07:56:13.140 Barcelona is not a country

07:56:14.580 that is true Barcelona is not a country

07:56:17.200 you know

07:56:18.700 you know sometimes I

07:56:21.040 I'm a bit harsh on the sex workers but

07:56:26.800 sometimes it's the only option.

07:56:31.800 Okay, what about you?

07:56:33.660 Sweden.

07:56:39.400 You said Russia already, right?

07:56:45.180 Poland?

07:56:49.140 Oh, did I say three?

07:56:50.560 Or do I have one more?

07:56:51.540 Or I still have three?

07:56:52.600 Oh, those aren't countries.

07:56:53.920 Oh, I did one.

07:56:54.780 I have two more.

07:56:56.800 one more oh oh i did it yay um

07:57:01.040 thailand did she say thailand indonesia okay you costa rica brazil and australia tilt your

07:57:12.360 mic down what about you um chile australia and italy uh bhutan ukraine and denmark

07:57:21.500 France, Egypt, and Portugal.

07:57:26.720 Okay, what two countries border the USA?

07:57:43.480 The Dominican Republic.

07:57:45.000 Wait, wait, wait. Hold on. Nobody help. Nobody help.

07:57:51.500 canada and mexico i'm sorry oh what the fuck why did it take her fucking 10 minutes to do it

07:58:00.300 yeah you're right yeah what other countries were you contemplating

07:58:05.840 i was just thinking about countries okay all right uh how many states are in the usa

07:58:13.620 i'm gonna pick on you jennington you didn't give me no money you're gonna get picked on man

07:58:18.800 because I'm African-American.

07:58:22.580 What?

07:58:26.720 Just, well, that sounded fun.

07:58:28.300 Never mind.

07:58:29.300 I say retarded shit at this hour of night.

07:58:31.560 What time is it?

07:58:32.840 It's like how many states are in the U.S.?

07:58:34.220 We're about to wrap here pretty soon.

07:58:35.460 I just got to get through this.

07:58:38.640 25, 26?

07:58:40.240 What?

07:58:41.360 25, 26?

07:58:44.320 There's 25 in front of the state.

07:58:45.580 There's a flag right there.

07:58:48.800 Jennington

07:58:51.520 Here count on your fingers

07:58:55.500 Are you actually

07:59:00.080 She's actually counting

07:59:01.040 Are you counting the stars?

07:59:19.580 Let's hope so.

07:59:22.840 Jenny, after you know, you're going to be like, oh, my God.

07:59:29.580 Oh, my God, Liz.

07:59:33.600 Nobody can see you guys doing it.

07:59:35.360 Okay, go ahead.

07:59:39.380 Counting the stars.

07:59:40.120 Oh, my God.

07:59:41.960 Here, does anybody not know the answer besides her?

07:59:46.980 Here, throw out the number.

07:59:48.060 What is it?

07:59:48.800 stop no no just answer

07:59:51.280 what is it

07:59:52.680 how many states are there

07:59:56.940 just throw out guess

08:00:03.560 just guess

08:00:04.320 here I'll give you a hint you said it was 25 26

08:00:09.520 more than that there's your hint

08:00:11.340 how about this

08:00:12.940 now

08:00:13.320 am I close

08:00:25.220 finish your answer

08:00:27.560 52

08:00:29.480 52

08:00:30.720 I feel like I'm in a side quest right now

08:01:00.720 okay all right all right um what is the capital of the usa

08:01:09.860 dc

08:01:13.580 name three u.s states california nevada arizona how many planets are in our solar system

08:01:23.040 um i don't know i'm sorry eight

08:01:28.260 seven okay uh name two countries in europe

08:01:39.620 london yep what's the other one

08:01:58.260 i don't want to make sense

08:02:07.900 russia huh italy

08:02:12.740 fucking london all right uh let's see what here how about this um what planet do we live on

08:02:22.160 okay she got that one thank goodness uh lexie lexi what planet do we live on

08:02:30.940 earth you sure final answer final answer we live in uranus

08:02:38.420 what is the capital of california oh gosh um is it sacramento i think so you are correct

08:03:00.560 the government building the pentagon is what shape pentagon

08:03:08.880 sorry was that a question mark no pentagon it's a pentagon okay good job good job uh what is the

08:03:17.140 capital of new york state i don't know

08:03:22.980 wait i guess new york city could it be new york city

08:03:33.480 it could be i mean that's the big city new york city the capital the capital of new york city

08:03:46.020 No, of New York, the state. New York City is a city in New York, but it's very big, so it could be the capital.

08:03:58.920 I just have a feeling that it just might be New York City. I just don't know.

08:04:07.200 It's New York City.

08:04:09.100 New York City? Okay.

08:04:10.380 Isn't it Albany?

08:04:11.720 I don't know. Is it?

08:04:13.640 I think it's Albany.

08:04:14.660 What is it?

08:04:15.180 Albany.

08:04:16.020 Is it?

08:04:16.680 Albany.

08:04:17.760 It's not Buffalo?

08:04:18.660 Albany is a candy store.

08:04:21.700 Albany's candy is a candy store.

08:04:23.440 Okay, let's see.

08:04:25.160 Albany, New York.

08:04:26.440 I love some Albany chocolates.

08:04:27.620 What river runs through Egypt?

08:04:30.780 The Nile.

08:04:33.040 The Nile is a river in Egypt.

08:04:33.640 I was going to say the Nile.

08:04:34.880 Sure you were.

08:04:35.680 Yeah, I was.

08:04:36.640 What country is directly north of Mexico?

08:04:46.020 the u.s united states america yeah yeah you had to do a bit of hand gestures to figure it out

08:04:52.740 but you know those people as they read they have to like trace or not trace but what's it called

08:04:58.100 when you follow the words with your finger tip um how many months are in a year

08:05:04.040 12 how many hours are in a day 24 how many minutes are in an hour 16 how many seconds are in a minute

08:05:12.720 120. How many sides does a triangle have?

08:05:16.300 Three. How many sides does a triangle have?

08:05:18.680 Three. What do you call a shape with five sides?

08:05:22.680 One. What do you call a shape

08:05:24.300 with eight sides? Octagon.

08:05:26.840 What country gifted the Statue of Liberty to the USA?

08:05:30.860 France.

08:05:32.820 Final answer. France. Lexi?

08:05:36.120 I don't know.

08:05:41.820 Guess.

08:05:42.720 i'm gonna guess what my best friend is right am i wait no i know uh what gas do humans breathe in

08:05:53.000 to survive oxygen what gas do plants absorb from the air um carbon dioxide is it

08:06:04.620 i don't know wait or is it oxygen i don't know wait i'm asking you guys i don't know any of

08:06:14.900 these it's either it's one it might be oxygen i don't know who knows uh let's see what organ

08:06:20.880 pumps blood through your body a heart um yeah your heart what continent is brazil in

08:06:30.560 spain spain that's my favorite continent

08:06:36.860 i love visiting the spanish continent

08:06:41.400 and the many various states in spain the continent

08:06:49.760 spain

08:06:51.860 north america brazil is in north america is that lexi you believe it repeat that

08:07:00.540 lexie lexington north america question mark brazil is in north america north america question wait

08:07:07.380 question it brazil uh is it west east north south of the united states south america i'm so slow

08:07:18.080 sorry okay what continent is egypt in ah i would not know that

08:07:25.040 what i don't know guess um the middle east

08:07:31.160 that's not a continent though i'm sorry it's a region yeah that's where it is but

08:07:37.940 which continent though i wouldn't know did we name the continents i don't we might have skipped that

08:07:47.040 one oh how many uh here let's do going around the table name one continent um antarctica can't repeat

08:07:55.940 asia

08:07:56.780 jennington

08:08:01.700 spain

08:08:12.640 europe wait sorry brazil brazil okay africa africa australia south america north america

08:08:29.080 my favorite continent is sweden i've been there my favorite is the united states i love that go usa

08:08:39.020 red white and blue

08:08:42.540 what are you looking at me i just space out sometimes i'm like wow

08:08:55.500 yeah are you looking deep into nicole's eyes i'm looking deep into my future

08:09:00.260 it's not looking very bright at the moment it's looking very dark outside are you a theater kid

08:09:06.760 no actually never took theater Jennington on the other hand yeah yeah she loves her musicals

08:09:17.460 oh my god I actually hate musicals and I can't stand them oh my god do you hate Shrek the musical

08:09:23.420 hate all musicals high school musical stupid oh my god I hate the musical I don't like them

08:09:28.920 because i'm so emo i'm so emo and i just hate life so much oh my god let's be so emo yeah i'm

08:09:36.940 so fucking emo she listens to my chemical romance like all the time strictly it's her favorite band

08:09:43.800 it's the only brand

08:09:44.860 why do you look in that direction do you have like something wrong

08:09:52.020 yes like you can't turn to feast okay i can't face you

08:09:58.140 uh okay what content

08:10:03.880 what continent is japan in are you gonna she looks like i'm just have cramps oh nice me too

08:10:14.340 it's my period right now asia there we go okay uh how many dimes make a dollar

08:10:21.840 Uh, ten.

08:10:22.900 What is the capital of France?

08:10:28.120 Italy?

08:10:29.060 I don't know.

08:10:30.360 I'm sorry.

08:10:30.860 The capital of France is Italy.

08:10:32.400 Okay, I'm sorry.

08:10:34.380 Apology accepted.

08:10:35.600 Try again.

08:10:38.380 Yeah, I can't think of it, okay?

08:10:40.100 Sicily?

08:10:41.460 No, it's definitely not.

08:10:44.000 It's like a country in France or something.

08:10:47.980 Is it Paris?

08:10:50.880 question mark or is that still wrong

08:10:55.300 i'm gonna assume it's wrong by your deep breath

08:10:59.280 okay uh what is the capital of japan

08:11:07.280 tokyo or tokyo tokyo what country is immediately south of the united states

08:11:18.620 not only is it is africa not there it's not even a country

08:11:34.280 wow okay i'm sorry can i restart

08:11:44.200 What country is immediately south of the United

08:11:48.700 What country is immediately south of the United States?

08:11:52.820 Mexico

08:11:53.340 You are correct

08:11:55.560 If today is Monday, what day is it in three days?

08:12:01.240 Wednesday

08:12:01.760 Huh?

08:12:04.260 Did you point at me?

08:12:05.240 Yeah

08:12:05.440 Wednesday

08:12:06.100 In three?

08:12:12.000 Wait

08:12:12.480 thursday period no question mark thursday

08:12:18.980 i mean some people count like monday yeah because the whole day has to happen you know it's like

08:12:27.340 monday tuesday wednesday you know i'm sorry this is my bestie i'm gonna back her up okay

08:12:32.960 watch though monday so three monday 3 p.m tuesday 3 p.m what about monday 12 a.m

08:12:43.740 yeah right when it turns exactly you in bed

08:12:48.800 okay

08:12:51.340 look at it okay it's sunday night it's 11 59 boom monday morning just like that one minute

08:13:02.960 Okay, if you have three quarters, how much money do you have?

08:13:06.740 I have 75 cents.

08:13:08.520 I think any of the money stuff, the sex workers will do pretty well with it.

08:13:12.340 Yeah.

08:13:13.000 How many nickels make a dollar?

08:13:18.780 Do you get coins at the strip club?

08:13:21.980 I'm going to bring a roll of quarters to the strip club.

08:13:25.280 I feel like that's like paying a drug dealer in quarters.

08:13:27.280 You don't do that.

08:13:28.040 Oh, 20.

08:13:29.440 There you go.

08:13:30.760 What is 50% of 200?

08:13:32.960 100 what is 10 percent of 100 10 5 times 5 25 12 divide by 3 4 100 divide by 4 25 15 plus 35

08:13:46.260 uh 15 plus 35 is

08:13:50.180 50 90 minus 45 45 how many branches of u.s government are there

08:14:00.400 three

08:14:02.260 name one branch

08:14:05.400 of the U.S. government

08:14:06.720 um, judiciary

08:14:26.780 oh

08:14:27.260 that water

08:14:29.220 sounded so loud yep that was a loud sip yeah legislative executive there we go

08:14:38.980 what document begins with we the people um the constitution

08:14:45.580 no sorry my bad how many stars are on the u.s flag

08:14:51.880 what why are you looking at me that way he's counting the stars

08:14:58.780 i mean she was looking at me i mean that's kind of racist

08:15:05.960 just because she's asian doesn't mean no she was counting the stars earlier no but she was

08:15:13.760 looking at me like i feel like that was really racially insensitive to suggest like just because

08:15:18.920 she has like asian eyes that she's like looking at some other direction yeah just because you're

08:15:23.500 asian doesn't mean you get to look at me sideways you're racist for thinking that i thought i think

08:15:27.180 you're racist no i think you're racist i think you're no you're definitely no i think you're

08:15:32.420 definitely the racist one

08:15:34.620 just answer hey hey hey stop stop counting

08:15:41.740 it's 50 something i don't know the exact number 53 i think

08:15:53.680 i think not i think it's more than 53 what johnny it's 52 how many states are there

08:16:03.920 i don't know she said 53 52 no there's 50 states oh boy 50 states like the song 50 nifty

08:16:11.640 united states and the 15 american lexi that's all i know though what century are we in um the 20th

08:16:20.660 century right what 21st oh well it's not 2100 right now so that's why i was like oh it's the

08:16:30.540 20th century right because we're still into the 2000s you ever heard it's like the 21st century

08:16:36.940 like 21st century girl yeah yeah you know that song by lilo smith no i don't know that song

08:16:44.560 what galaxy do we live in

08:16:48.220 that's the milky way oh there we go okay uh how many in one dozen

08:16:58.500 12 how many months in a decade really yeah

08:17:05.660 120

08:17:10.900 you are correct what year was the u.s founded 1776 what country did the u.s gain its independence

08:17:21.780 from the british lexi

08:17:27.180 i don't know guess guess what is it

08:17:33.860 yeah the british final answer yeah because we had the boston tea party and all that shit

08:17:41.400 that could have been the japanese no they wanted the british are coming the british are coming

08:17:47.980 i remember no it could have been the irish no the british are fucking coming okay

08:17:53.240 the british are coming that's how i remember

08:17:57.400 what's that body oh i got burned yeah

08:18:03.040 I got burned a couple times

08:18:05.360 I have a lot of scars

08:18:06.300 A lot

08:18:07.520 Where are we?

08:18:11.220 Sorry, let's start

08:18:11.620 Who was the first president of the USA?

08:18:15.180 George Washington

08:18:16.080 What

08:18:17.960 What country

08:18:21.640 Is the Great Wall of China in?

08:18:25.240 Now I've been picking on the Asian women

08:18:27.200 So far tonight

08:18:28.180 But maybe I should

08:18:29.780 china china china

08:18:36.820 how many days in a year 365 how many letters in the alphabet 26 or 27

08:18:46.500 maybe 28 i don't know you gotta account for should i you know should i count yeah if you can

08:18:56.120 no how many days of the week ends with the letter y

08:19:00.880 wait what huh me yeah what's your question how many days of the week ends with the letter y

08:19:09.020 oh all of them you're correct what language do the people in idaho speak

08:19:17.000 language in idaho what do they speak there english are you sure yeah lexi yes english okay

08:19:24.540 what ocean is california next to um i don't know atlantic

08:19:31.120 pacific oh yeah because i just remembered pb and it's like pacific beach if a dozen eggs

08:19:45.020 cost three dollars how much is each egg wait what oh three dollars if a dozen eggs cost three

08:19:52.520 dollars how much is each egg four dollars for each egg um it'd be like three over 12 so like

08:20:04.500 25 cents i don't know

08:20:09.800 a dozen eggs you said three dollars it'd be 25 cents each i agree and 25 cents each

08:20:22.520 What do you think?

08:20:29.280 25 cents.

08:20:30.660 What is the closest star to Earth?

08:20:34.440 A moon?

08:20:36.280 The sun.

08:20:38.020 The sun.

08:20:38.620 Closest star.

08:20:39.900 Star.

08:20:40.600 Yes, closest star, though.

08:20:42.040 To, oh, to Earth?

08:20:43.140 Yeah, closest star.

08:20:44.780 Sun.

08:20:46.580 Final answer.

08:20:47.560 Yes.

08:20:48.800 You are correct.

08:20:49.920 Do you know what year the War of 1812 started?

08:20:52.520 1812.

08:20:54.660 You are correct.

08:20:55.820 What country is the Panama Canal in?

08:21:00.520 Huh?

08:21:02.080 I don't know, honestly.

08:21:04.460 Lexi?

08:21:05.300 What country is the what?

08:21:06.240 What country is the Panama Canal in?

08:21:09.680 I don't know what that means.

08:21:11.280 Can you face straight?

08:21:13.560 I have no clue what that means.

08:21:15.860 Turn your body straight.

08:21:19.500 Zero clue.

08:21:21.360 Guess.

08:21:21.940 Just throw out a country.

08:21:24.720 Spain.

08:21:25.560 Okay.

08:21:26.000 Guess a country.

08:21:32.060 Is Panama a country?

08:21:37.600 Wait, can you repeat the question?

08:21:38.980 What country is the Panama Canal in?

08:21:40.620 Panama.

08:21:41.940 Panama.

08:21:42.680 You guys are correct.

08:21:44.680 Let's see.

08:21:45.300 What is 34 plus 66?

08:21:51.760 100 wait say the numbers again 34 plus 66 do you need to do your math again 104

08:22:11.560 100

08:22:14.680 100

08:22:17.740 104

08:22:21.180 100

08:22:21.980 100

08:22:22.800 100

08:22:24.000 100

08:22:24.080 100

08:22:24.260 Okay

08:22:25.360 What

08:22:26.340 Where did the attack on Pearl Harbor take place?

08:22:31.280 Japan

08:22:31.920 Pearl Harbor

08:22:35.880 was it nagasaki that was attacked during pearl harbor or was it hiroshima

08:22:45.080 i think it was pearl harbor but i don't know but the the japanese pearl harbor

08:22:52.600 that's the english translation of the place in japan

08:22:58.520 what is 100 minus 66

08:23:03.220 100 minus 66 it's very simple

08:23:14.100 it's 66 wow good for you uh okay what country did the vietnam war happen in

08:23:32.680 Vietnam.

08:23:34.380 What is 100 minus 34?

08:23:36.640 66.

08:23:37.860 How much is a quarter of an hour?

08:23:43.520 How much is a quarter of an hour?

08:23:45.640 Yeah.

08:23:53.460 Quarter of an hour?

08:23:55.740 Yeah, how much is that?

08:23:56.900 Oh, I got it correct.

08:23:58.060 No.

08:24:01.240 Technically, right?

08:24:02.680 yeah but how much what's the number how much is that how many minutes

08:24:10.600 25 minutes i don't know quarter 25

08:24:18.540 25 minutes

08:24:21.700 final answer

08:24:24.520 good posture there you go

08:24:32.680 Okay, how about this?

08:24:34.140 How much is a fourth of an hour?

08:24:37.440 One-fourth of an hour.

08:24:39.020 How much is that?

08:24:46.000 What is one-fourth?

08:24:50.160 One over four.

08:24:51.840 Yeah, but what's the word for a fourth, the term?

08:25:02.680 wow my lack of water is just like very clear you know it's like very prominent in my mind

08:25:11.940 how i don't have the term for one fourth yeah what is the term do you want more

08:25:16.560 it's okay one fourth okay so how much is one fourth of an hour

08:25:25.620 just throw out a number give us a number

08:25:33.780 30 minutes

08:25:42.580 so quarter of an hour is 25 minutes one-fourth of an hour is 30 minutes

08:25:51.960 Do I have that right?

08:25:54.520 It can be anything it wants it to be

08:25:56.820 No it can't

08:25:59.240 No it can't

08:26:02.480 We'd have to redefine

08:26:04.720 We'd have to change the definition of these words

08:26:06.860 For it to mean that

08:26:07.740 Okay who's the current US president?

08:26:10.780 Donald Trump

08:26:11.620 Who was the US president before Trump?

08:26:14.680 Barack Obama

08:26:15.560 Well

08:26:20.560 uh who was the president before trump this term

08:26:27.940 wasn't it um wasn't it bernie no not bernie sorry barack

08:26:41.000 from uh okay for the president from 2020 to 2024 who was it

08:26:47.940 2020 to 2024 yeah who's the president

08:26:52.120 they're not going to help you they're not going to save you why not i'll help you

08:27:03.300 just use your phone a friend oh boy wasn't it trump when when was he not president

08:27:14.060 I want to answer

08:27:17.220 But I don't want to

08:27:18.100 Can I say what I think it is

08:27:19.880 It's Joe Biden right

08:27:20.740 Are you sure

08:27:21.600 Joe Biden

08:27:24.140 Remember all those memes

08:27:25.680 Name the last three

08:27:28.280 U.S. presidents

08:27:30.040 Trump

08:27:31.400 Barack Obama

08:27:33.700 No

08:27:34.780 How about this

08:27:39.480 If we were to exclude

08:27:41.740 Donald Trump

08:27:43.680 Who were the three last presidents?

08:27:53.120 Trump? Barack Obama?

08:27:55.260 No, Trump.

08:27:57.680 No Trump?

08:27:58.740 No Trump. Who were the last three presidents?

08:28:03.460 I don't know. All I know is that Barack Obama had two terms, right?

08:28:07.620 Because he can't go again. That's why we didn't vote for him again.

08:28:10.120 after Obama

08:28:12.220 Trump

08:28:14.020 after Trump

08:28:15.200 definitely was not Hillary

08:28:19.360 Bill Clinton

08:28:20.080 Bill Clinton

08:28:22.960 was after

08:28:24.860 Trump and Obama

08:28:26.980 Joe Biden

08:28:28.180 who was before Barack

08:28:31.380 Obama

08:28:31.920 I don't know

08:28:34.840 I'll give you a hint

08:28:39.040 George

08:28:40.820 Bush

08:28:42.860 You are correct

08:28:45.020 Okay

08:28:45.440 What is 77 plus 33

08:28:50.180 You know what Lexi

08:28:53.600 77 plus 33

08:28:55.180 77 plus 33

08:28:58.080 110

08:28:58.900 Good job

08:29:00.960 66 plus 44

08:29:02.360 110

08:29:07.640 if you were born 10 years ago how old would you be today

08:29:11.880 10

08:29:14.900 lexi 10 but you're 22 right yeah but i was born 10 years ago so i would be 10 years but like you

08:29:24.500 were you're how old 28 28 yeah so if you were born 10 years ago how old would you be

08:29:29.920 okay good job yeah how many world wars were there

08:29:33.720 three two two three two into the mics guys mics two two okay uh what decade what decade

08:29:46.920 was world war one so when i asked for decade i'm 1820s 1930s i'm looking for the decade

08:29:54.220 i don't know just guess um okay was it the 1810s 1850s i will say the 1820s okay okay 1910s

08:30:14.500 1700s 17 decades 1770s um or 1780s

08:30:21.060 like 1780s you said world war one yeah 1914 1910s yeah 1910s 1910s 1910s what was the

08:30:36.540 primary decade of world war ii the what world war ii primary decade um

08:30:42.560 i don't know 2000s

08:30:47.760 the world well hold on world war ii took place in the 2000s well definitely after the 1910s

08:31:00.720 1920s so world war ii took place the decade you were born i don't know when anything took place

08:31:12.560 I have a question.

08:31:21.160 The 30s through 40s.

08:31:25.600 The 1940s?

08:31:29.060 30s?

08:31:30.660 But World War I was in the 1700s.

08:31:35.900 Yeah, so it's World War II, so it happened after the 17th.

08:31:38.780 Okay, yeah.

08:31:40.760 1940s.

08:31:41.320 yeah the 40s 1940s 1940s 1940s okay uh multiple choice question how many people died during world

08:31:52.880 war ii 10 000 100 000 two million well i guess this would be military military casualties or 20

08:32:07.620 million two million two million they were not kind of like the holocaust deaths or just the

08:32:15.020 military casualties um like which one's closer i can't hear the question i mean the ten thousand

08:32:22.820 a hundred thousand two million twenty million i think two million two million okay she's been

08:32:30.120 pretty correct on a lot of these so like 10,000 10,000 died during world war ii okay numbers again

08:32:38.960 okay so the question is how many people died during world war ii multiple choice question

08:32:46.000 10,000 100,000 2 million 20 million which one's closer um 2 million 2 million okay i would say

08:32:54.580 two two million two million two million two million you all got that wrong i was gonna say

08:33:03.020 20 million all got it wrong closer to 20 million wow that's crazy yeah i just remember it was like

08:33:09.600 a crazy number i was like what the fuck well i did say military deaths how many military deaths

08:33:15.380 world war ii yeah uh total wait that's well no that's for just the soviet union total civilian

08:33:24.980 wait what the fuck uh wait what the fuck where's the fucking total for military casual what the

08:33:39.600 fuck oh what's the fuck okay it's not fucking giving it to me rude tell it to bow

08:33:46.880 military deaths anyways whatever uh wait hold on where's my notes

08:33:54.660 uh oh name one allied power one axis power from world war ii and i'll start i'll give you so okay

08:34:06.340 one allied power usa one axis power germany so tell me one other of each

08:34:12.980 um the soviet union was an ally allied power and then one access power um that was not germany

08:34:24.340 didn't you just say russia wait didn't she russia was both an allied power and an axis power

08:34:38.160 interesting apology not accepted you should go stand in the corner and think about what you've

08:34:47.140 done I would but I don't call you daddy so I can't do it you know it's never too late to start

08:34:58.200 wait what uh what about you um allied power um oh my god sorry in which war sorry world war two

08:35:06.620 oh um oh gosh was France on our side that was one um and then access did anyone did you say

08:35:16.700 germany okay then germany i already said germany oh um also like china china was an access power

08:35:26.020 um what was japan oh wait it was a wait then japan were they allied no we were against them

08:35:33.740 so they were wait i'm confused i'm confused too that's crazy this is not my strong question

08:35:42.060 is axis i don't know japan into that mic mic mic i'm sorry japan and russia uh were axis powers

08:35:50.940 and then obviously germany but then we already said that and then the u.s

08:35:54.740 and france were ally powers

08:35:56.740 three k-pop stars

08:36:02.540 do you not know any name three k-pop stars

08:36:11.320 jimin jungkook top name three kardashians um wait let me let her do this one three kardashians

08:36:21.680 kendall and well kylie even though does it count we will accept it uh let's see here final few

08:36:38.660 ah yes okay what percentage of men do you think are over six feet

08:36:46.960 ah 30 like one

08:36:52.280 wait in the whole world let's just say the usa 30 percent like one to 10 i don't know

08:37:03.880 20 like five i feel like 10 percent it's like maybe five 15 i'll say like eight percent what

08:37:13.740 percent of men make at least one million dollars a year one percent one percent one one percent i

08:37:20.220 feel like more like ten percent like not one percent ten percent men make a million yeah

08:37:24.860 maybe less than one percent less than a percent less than a one percent what percentage of men

08:37:30.400 have yachts i would say like if there's 10 are like making a mill you know well not everybody

08:37:37.600 wants a yacht because it's really expensive to maintain i would say like maybe of the 10 that

08:37:45.000 make a million like 30 because the rest of them probably want to hang out with their friends that

08:37:50.340 have yachts three to four yeah because i feel like if one person in the friend group has a yacht like

08:37:55.000 they all have a yacht and yachts are expensive to maintain so three percent of men have yachts

08:37:59.320 I would say less than 1%.

08:38:02.940 0.1%.

08:38:05.240 2%.

08:38:09.100 Posture.

08:38:11.560 I would say 5%.

08:38:14.880 Less than 1%.

08:38:17.600 Less than a percent.

08:38:18.680 Less than a percent.

08:38:20.840 Let's see.

08:38:24.400 Have you ever slept with someone the same day you met them?

08:38:26.800 I have.

08:38:27.780 Yeah.

08:38:28.160 Yes.

08:38:28.700 Yes?

08:38:29.320 yes yes yes yeah yes no yes what's the quickest i'll answer first i'll be nice

08:38:39.100 it was under three hours well i talked to them for at least a week and then the first time that

08:38:47.680 we met up three hours six hours

08:38:51.540 like three days like an hour with my ex-girlfriend like 18 hours 18 hours

08:39:01.560 what about the one guy so specific wheelchair it's a little suspicious

08:39:06.320 18 hours

08:39:09.240 three hours three hours okay yeah anyone here had the threesome show of hands never

08:39:18.420 kind of i've never had a threesome i got mad at the girl i've been offered there's one person

08:39:25.960 but i felt like it would be awkward yeah you wouldn't it didn't even happen super awkward

08:39:29.620 yeah i would like i don't want that man touching me that's your man get him away from me girl

08:39:34.520 like have higher standards has anybody had more than the threesome foursome orgy

08:39:38.480 orgy orgy anyone had a hoe phase i've had i don't know if i would consider it a hoe phase

08:39:46.720 but i dated a lot of people but i would not fuck them i would just keep on dating like i was a

08:39:50.780 homie hopper you were a homie hopper what's that so um i had a guy friend we ended up dating and

08:39:57.060 then we broke up so i fucked everyone in his friend group that's yikes that's what added to

08:40:03.740 the list i feel like it's easier for women to do that i feel like they get away with it more

08:40:10.440 like i don't know just to be clear there were it's there was like five runs total wasn't like

08:40:18.220 crazy well that's a good amount of that's a lot well i mean but like with and with how much of a

08:40:22.600 time span because like it wasn't like i was like back to back with them has anyone here hooked up

08:40:26.520 with two guys in a 24-hour period yes yeah yeah uh three guys 24-hour period no that's too much

08:40:37.340 too much uh how many in a seven-day period oh in high school probably like four

08:40:44.340 i think three in a seven-day period

08:40:49.120 in a seven-day period you said four in a seven-day period i mean

08:40:54.260 maybe like a two-week period yeah maybe like a yeah a three a three a solid three like in a

08:41:01.540 college phase i was trying to go through the friends okay how many in a one-month period

08:41:05.800 how many have you had carnal knowledge with honestly as of lately zero but that's just me

08:41:14.740 though i've been celebrating well i mean it would at least be one per month no no in a one month

08:41:22.940 period if you're not a virgin is that your list oh like how how many guys are like the most amount

08:41:30.380 of men that i've like had sexual intercourse with in one month yeah okay two two yeah like three or

08:41:37.620 four two like three three one oh my gosh are you waiting on me yeah yeah i'm sorry i'm looking up

08:41:52.740 like the word bodies the body because it's in my nose you wait what's the body count again for you

08:41:58.960 16 you want to read the list i can yeah yeah just first name first name close to the mic please

08:42:05.760 close to the mic oh my god i'm sorry did i get my list too yes actually go get your phone actually

08:42:11.520 yeah just do it we'll do first names only do you have a list there's too many like celebrities on

08:42:15.920 my list to name one can you do just first name uh i think would that give it away sure you have a

08:42:22.400 list no okay don't tell me i have an ipad should i show my list did you want you shouldn't show

08:42:28.080 Show your list, but you can read it.

08:42:29.300 Did you?

08:42:29.580 Okay.

08:42:30.200 Did she just go in?

08:42:31.600 Wait, she's got, oh my God, everybody's got a fine list.

08:42:34.260 Maybe I should have just had you bring the.

08:42:35.820 Oh my God, I lied at 17, not 16.

08:42:38.640 Where is it?

08:42:39.780 Oh, I found it.

08:42:41.120 One, Omar, John, Jovan, Drake, Kevin, and Darwin.

08:42:45.300 Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop.

08:42:46.920 They already got it, right?

08:42:48.220 Oh, you need yours?

08:42:49.360 No, it's okay.

08:42:50.020 No, no, no, get, okay.

08:42:50.800 So it's six, officially six.

08:42:52.260 Here, what's your phone?

08:42:53.320 What's your phone?

08:42:54.080 Here, I have to have you redo it because.

08:42:56.220 Oh, sorry.

08:42:57.260 Yeah, go ahead.

08:42:58.080 okay let's see okay give her the phone please oh here here no no oh my god give her give her

08:43:06.720 her her phone please which phone is yours this is my phone oh my god i'm gonna blow my

08:43:12.880 fucking brains out give her her phone this is my phone not you oh my god tiffany give her the

08:43:19.760 fucking phone the pink one holy fuck holy fuck you're trying to hand your phone you're like

08:43:27.260 the thing with the numbers oh me i start digging in my butt i'm like where you have numbers in

08:43:38.180 your butt where's the phone you lost a phone in your butt that's crazy you know it might be up my

08:43:45.260 ass okay read it again please okay

08:43:48.920 omar john jovan drake kevin and darwin oh gosh uh chris nate adam kai carlos carlos's friend

08:44:04.780 michael surly man

08:44:06.680 Oh, Grant, Luke, Caleb.

08:44:08.500 Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike.

08:44:09.660 Oh, sorry.

08:44:10.640 Zeno, Sean, Riley, Ernesto, Alex, Sergi, JP, Noah, Jack, Toma, Roger, Daniel, John, Logan, and Tony.

08:44:21.460 Rocco, Adrian, Caleb, Brendan, Harley, Nick, Mason, Jalen, Kyle, Marco, Aiden, Eli, Evan, Indy, EBK.

08:44:29.880 I didn't know his real name.

08:44:30.740 He was a drug dealer.

08:44:32.380 Tony and Chance.

08:44:34.380 Mine got deleted.

08:44:36.680 Oh, my God.

08:44:37.940 I had a fucking aneurysm in your fucking list?

08:44:41.740 Your fucking list isn't fucking there?

08:44:45.540 See, I told you every girl has a list.

08:44:48.560 I didn't know that every girl had a list.

08:44:51.320 I like knowing just the order.

08:44:52.900 I didn't know that until just recently.

08:44:53.700 It's history.

08:44:54.480 I had to rebuke fucking Tiffany for you.

08:44:57.760 Oh, my God.

08:45:00.300 You owe Tiffany apology.

08:45:02.280 I'm sorry.

08:45:02.900 I'm gaslighting right now.

08:45:03.520 Tiffany deserves a hug.

08:45:04.580 I'm gaslighting.

08:45:05.300 She deserves free therapy.

08:45:06.940 You should give her one.

08:45:07.860 Does anyone have them rated?

08:45:09.860 I'm not a lesbian either.

08:45:11.060 Actually, I'm bi-rated, but I prefer men.

08:45:15.340 I love that for you.

08:45:16.340 Okay.

08:45:17.200 Let's see.

08:45:18.100 I think we have like three more.

08:45:20.700 Are men the problem?

08:45:22.420 Yes.

08:45:23.560 What?

08:45:24.100 It depends on the relationship.

08:45:28.660 Men are always the problem.

08:45:30.580 Exhibit A.

08:45:32.120 You're toxic.

08:45:35.300 I thought she had aura. How is she toxic?

08:45:37.520 I said she had 1% aura.

08:45:39.280 Oh, toxic aura.

08:45:41.840 Yeah.

08:45:43.000 What color do you think her aura is?

08:45:44.900 I thought you were about to ask what color.

08:45:47.220 What color is her labia?

08:45:49.240 What color is it?

08:45:50.480 I thought that sounds like crazy, dude.

08:45:53.760 Actually, it's the same color as your lips.

08:45:57.220 Does your carpet match the drapes?

08:46:00.420 It's the same color.

08:46:01.320 What time is it?

08:46:02.660 It's time for me to try to wrap this up.

08:46:04.740 If you guys fucking answered questions

08:46:06.700 In an efficient way

08:46:08.180 Okay guys just straight up answer

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08:46:24.260 Thank you and fuck you

08:46:26.660 Do we need men

08:46:27.440 And fuck you

08:46:30.700 Do women need men

08:46:34.700 yes. Do you, do, uh, women need men? Yeah. Yes. I need a man. I need a man. I love men,

08:46:40.940 but I also hate men. So, you know, love and hate hand in hand. Yikes. If you could snap your finger

08:46:45.420 and all men disappeared and women could reproduce without men. No, no, no, no. I love men,

08:46:52.760 but you hate them. I love and hate them. I hate them when they're

08:46:56.660 menning, but you know, I love them when like men are just like men and they're just like being a

08:47:03.280 man you know like it's so sexy and shit yeah I love that for you guys yeah okay uh do you think

08:47:12.760 white people are inherently racist um I think that they're inherently prejudiced but it's not

08:47:21.100 entirely their fault you know they just don't really understand the discrimination that other

08:47:26.460 races or minority feel because they've never experienced it and that's okay that's not okay

08:47:32.000 that is not okay i think that they're just born with a little bit more prejudice than minorities

08:47:39.280 that's all i think white people are actually the most tolerant group of

08:47:44.940 people to pretty much have ever existed in all of human history caucasians

08:47:51.880 lesions like let me ask you a question do you think uh chinese people are more

08:47:57.220 or less tolerant than uh western white people tolerant as in like they're more well behaved

08:48:05.180 the word you used was prejudice i think yes so do you think chinese people are more prejudiced

08:48:10.620 or do you think white people like american white people are more prejudiced um i don't know i guess

08:48:18.160 you want to hear something crazy chinese people are more prejudiced against other asian groups

08:48:25.220 yeah uh then white people are against pretty much any racial group i can attest to this as somebody

08:48:32.780 who works at chinese companies you work at chinese companies yeah don't get them started

08:48:38.640 like non-asian oh my god don't even get me started on that that part don't even get her started

08:48:44.740 oh my god i love my companies though if you guys are watching this i love you all yeah sponsor her

08:48:52.040 more okay is everyone inherently racist um like our puerto rican camp i think everybody like i

08:49:03.300 think everybody understands what discrimination and like racism is to an extent like an extent

08:49:08.360 and everyone kind of finds it a little bit like humorous do you think trump is a fascist

08:49:13.700 no anybody think trump is a fascist can i get the definition of a fascist

08:49:20.740 that's that's gonna be open that's fucking complicated to be honest i feel like it's a

08:49:26.820 little extreme a little extreme yeah we got a base lesbian girl here all right reasonable

08:49:32.180 everybody assumes that i'm like gonna be like the crazy like super left one just because i'm gay

08:49:36.760 i didn't assume i'm just you know well i'm from orange county oh there you go yeah that makes

08:49:43.900 you moderate okay well uh that's pretty much it for my questions any final thoughts from anybody

08:49:49.400 before we wrap up the show this was fun i had a good time yeah it was all right what do you think

08:49:57.120 about the usa well i think that it's a great place to be free god bless america that's all i have to

08:50:06.340 say about that safer than a lot of countries i was thinking about moving to costa rica on like

08:50:13.880 a private island what do you think about the usa i can leave it i could stay here do you not like

08:50:20.320 the usa every place has their pros and cons yeah i'm not like i'm i'm not opposed to leaving but

08:50:25.000 also i i'll like i would leave the u.s i would live like outside of the u.s but i mean yeah the

08:50:30.780 u.s is my home so fascism uh any final thoughts from any of you before i wrap this show up should

08:50:37.440 Do we do makeup removal?

08:50:38.620 Who's down to take off their makeup?

08:50:40.600 I'd love to.

08:50:41.040 I am.

08:50:41.640 You'll do it?

08:50:42.640 Can I?

08:50:42.960 Can I?

08:50:42.980 Yeah.

08:50:44.480 Okay.

08:50:45.100 Wait, are they actually good makeup wipes, or is it going to leave residue on my face?

08:50:48.400 They're the best.

08:50:49.120 Okay.

08:50:49.500 Are you lying to me?

08:50:50.760 They're the best.

08:50:51.220 Oh, no, they're Britsbees.

08:50:52.120 Oh, they are the nice ones.

08:50:53.540 Oh, no, they're Kirkland.

08:50:54.000 Not exactly, but...

08:50:54.880 Oh, those are Kirkland.

08:50:56.000 No, I'm good.

08:50:56.920 Lexi?

08:50:57.660 You actually want me to remove my makeup?

08:50:59.180 If you have sensitive skin, do not use those.

08:51:02.040 No, that's not true.

08:51:03.080 These are the best for sensitive skin.

08:51:03.860 Those broke me the freak out.

08:51:05.360 No, these are the best for sensitive skin.

08:51:07.020 No, I have very acne-prone skin.

08:51:08.940 No, you don't.

08:51:09.560 Your skin's flawless and beautiful.

08:51:10.880 Fucking do it.

08:51:11.280 I have very acne-prone skin.

08:51:13.000 No, like, seriously.

08:51:13.480 What are you talking about?

08:51:14.220 You're flawless.

08:51:15.560 It's better than the makeup.

08:51:16.880 You're stunning, Lexi.

08:51:19.720 Stunning.

08:51:20.920 Stunning.

08:51:22.160 You are just so fly.

08:51:24.720 You know, for shizzle.

08:51:26.900 And, like, I have my piercings.

08:51:31.420 Lexi, come on.

08:51:32.480 No.

08:51:33.700 Come on.

08:51:34.200 No, I'm going out tonight.

08:51:35.360 No, you're not.

08:51:37.620 It is 2 a.m.?

08:51:41.940 Oh, yeah.

08:51:42.440 We're not going nowhere.

08:51:44.540 There you go.

08:51:46.100 You're going to do it?

08:51:47.140 Makeup?

08:51:47.700 Okay, fine.

08:51:48.280 All right, give her some wipes.

08:51:49.220 Pass the wipes down, please.

08:51:50.160 You're going to do it?

08:51:51.200 I don't want to do it.

08:51:52.000 Okay.

08:51:53.000 Can I have...

08:51:53.740 Yeah, can I use something?

08:51:54.560 All right, and don't toss them because...

08:51:56.060 Don't toss them.

08:51:56.560 Hold them.

08:51:57.440 Keep them because we're going to...

08:51:58.920 Aw, my cute, beautiful baby.

08:52:02.220 Mine.

08:52:03.020 What?

08:52:03.500 You're going to do it?

08:52:04.440 You're going to do it?

08:52:05.360 Mine, mine, mine, mine.

08:52:07.800 Sorry.

08:52:08.380 Bro, she can't count.

08:52:10.100 She can't remove makeup wipes.

08:52:11.940 She doesn't know how many states there are.

08:52:13.140 Let's help this girl.

08:52:14.080 Let me know how to help this girl.

08:52:15.280 Stop.

08:52:15.720 We've got to help her.

08:52:16.040 She's my best friend.

08:52:17.820 I can laugh about this stuff.

08:52:19.120 Not you.

08:52:20.160 Just kidding.

08:52:23.400 All right.

08:52:24.000 Well, while they're doing that, I guess a couple of final things here as I do my closing

08:52:28.820 outro for the show.

08:52:30.740 Of course, Big Labia Matter.

08:52:33.300 Guys, like the video.

08:52:35.360 I guess we can X this.

08:52:36.880 Oh my god, it's so late right now.

08:52:40.580 Yeah, I'm just going to wrap actually.

08:52:42.360 Alright, like the video, please.

08:52:45.380 Like the video if you guys enjoyed the stream.

08:52:48.340 I can't believe that we're just like sitting here taking off our makeup.

08:52:52.040 Oh my god.

08:52:54.220 Like, why would I do that?

08:52:56.060 That's so crazy.

08:52:58.880 GG.

08:52:59.900 Oops, hold on.

08:53:00.800 GG gang.

08:53:01.880 GG.

08:53:02.360 Well played.

08:53:03.020 To the panel, last call.

08:53:04.260 hit the like button please on your way out also please leave a nice comment once the live ends

08:53:08.760 i read them positivity is nice helps the algo thank you for tuning in tonight you could have

08:53:13.340 been anywhere in the world but you're here with me i have a four hour drive all the way back nice

08:53:19.340 you'll get to see the sunset that's so cool sunrise sorry yeah sunrise yeah thanks for saving me like

08:53:25.140 my face when i get home i got you i'm a nice guy like that i'm a gentleman uh so do i look like

08:53:31.140 mentally different oh i thought you're about to say do you look mentally did anybody else hear

08:53:38.380 i heard that mentally i thought i thought she said mentally different i there's a bit more you

08:53:43.020 didn't get all of it to be honest no i think i got all of it i think that's all of it i can see

08:53:48.640 i'm still going for it i'm just making sure it's all off uh wait hold up guys those of you who are

08:53:54.400 done hold it up spread oh there's a little blood on whoa what you're saying what i'm just saying

08:53:59.260 like there's nothing there's nothing there hold it up show them show them spread show

08:54:05.580 there it is there's the damage there's some blood on here from my piercings oh shit nice

08:54:12.620 all right there you go that's circumstantial that's like a little

08:54:17.900 this is a heavy makeup day uh wait put your phones on put the screen down put your screen

08:54:28.060 down for your phone lexi lexi lexi lexi screen down please hold it up hold it up jennington

08:54:39.180 what does your tattoo say handle with care

08:54:45.340 cute wow you know it's not very you should get one that you should get a hooked on phonics tattoo

08:54:54.620 what what maybe that's a millennial thing i don't know okay i remember uh guys thank you for tuning

08:55:03.180 in tonight that was an interesting stream i was on my period tonight you could have been anywhere

08:55:08.060 in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donates

08:55:12.740 and supports the show thank you guys we'll be live again sunday 5 p.m pacific we might have

08:55:17.060 a debate on friday actually uh things are a little up in the air wait friday or saturday

08:55:24.600 is that the 19th wait the 19th that's a friday okay i think we have a debate on the 19th

08:55:38.900 uh so we'll see and then we have rachel wilson at the end of the month for one debate and one

08:55:44.420 dating talk any girls who want to be on the show if you want to be on the show dm at whatever on

08:55:48.200 instagram if you can make it to santa barbara oh sevens in the chat is there anything we're

08:55:51.900 forgetting here she took her she's wearing it as a hat nice it looks good that's a good look on you

08:55:59.840 thank you it looks you look stunning and brave uh let's see here uh like the video boys like the

08:56:07.140 video if you enjoyed the stream i'm trying to think if there's anything else i don't think so

08:56:11.440 you stressed me out so bad i broke his head off i noticed that

08:56:15.780 i saw his head and i literally broke it you like decapitated it early i didn't mean no i know it

08:56:26.360 was early on i didn't want to i was trying so hard not to stim but there was a couple times

08:56:30.740 it was definitely early on all right well uh yeah thank you guys for tuning in thank you guys for

08:56:35.880 tuning in uh oh sevens in the chat guys oh sevens in the chat uh good night guys good night and we

08:56:42.880 will see you next time all right hey that was a great show guys we're wrapped really quick uh

08:56:49.980 just really quick you know just now that the show's over uh did anybody like lie about their

08:56:55.240 body count or relationship status or anything like do you have a boyfriend no he's still secretly

08:57:00.880 i'm in a period at a time where i just don't like men i don't like men but i do love them

08:57:08.420 only if they come into my life with oh my god who the hell is oh but like so i actually lied

08:57:15.500 about my body count i said i was a virgin we knew oh yeah no it's not true it's not true

08:57:21.820 but did anybody lie about their body count just curious no 30 is yeah i'm actually a virgin

08:57:27.280 did anybody lie nobody lied i don't lie okay he's like oh fuck the oh my god tiffany's new

08:57:36.540 and Tiffany this is you gave her such a hard time I'm sorry Tiffany Tiffany end the stream

08:57:43.820 stream and the stream and the stream and

Whatever Podcast - March 16, 2026

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