HEATED DEBATE! She ONLY Dates FAT Men？! He CHEATED On Her With Her MOM？! E-GIRLS! ｜ Dating Talk 286
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Summary
In this episode of the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, we introduce ourselves and talk about our backgrounds and how we got into the dating game. We talk about how we fell in love with online dating, how we went to law school, and what we do to keep up with the Joneses.
Transcript
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welcome to the whatever dating talk podcast where we try to make make sense of the modern dating
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hellscape i'm your host brian atlas we're going to just jump right in here sorry that we're a
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All right. You're from, like, grew up in Chicago?
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Well, I mean, specifically, like, Bridgeview or, like, Oak Lawn. Yeah.
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Wait, this is, I'm, my OCD is already triggering.
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Lexi, one, can you, the, your, your seating pad, can you turn it 180 degrees?
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you see how the tag is wow you fucked that up damn bro holy shit
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the the tag was sticking out boys i had to fucking fix it i i think i fixed it maybe scoot your
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chair all right off to a good start boys all right uh what about you hi i'm brie nightwood
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I'm an entrepreneur, content creator, and musician from Las Vegas.
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I also have a degree in forensic neuropsychology.
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You said you have a degree in forensic neuropsychology?
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Why don't you explain to the viewers and the other panelists what that is?
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so basically it's like a mixture of law and neuropsychology so let's just say like
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a guy killed his wife or something um and they're like he's on trial they'd bring me in and like i
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would determine if he is criminally insane and with their neuroscience part i could scan like
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the gray matter in his brain to see if maybe it indicated schizophrenia and that could you know
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indicate that he is actually criminally insane and go to a psych ward rather than like prison
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for life yeah okay how recently did you graduate um oh gosh it was back like in the pandemic at
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the same time my like of was blowing up and i was actually going to start my phd um but i decided
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to follow the money because school is always there but like you know just gotta chase that
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money first build my life so 2022 23 20 20-ish yeah 20 20-ish is when you graduated correct
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okay um are you in terms of what you learned in terms of your degree are you using that at all
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for your work or yeah um definitely like the psychology tactics that really helps with sales
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in a way like with OF and just business in general kind of um that did give me an edge with it but
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have you had a job in concurrence with your OnlyFans um related to your education I mean not
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with my education like on paper like no but i've used the skills that's what i mean yeah all right
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uh i guess one question on this can you relate to us uh your one big takeaway from your program
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oh gosh um i guess everyone has a little bit of something wrong with them in a way um it's always
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a bad thing but um but we're all a little i don't know we all have our quirks okay i don't know um
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And you, question, did you take out student loans for?
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I was fortunate enough to have my tuition covered with scholarships, but living expenses were crazy.
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But that's why I kind of, like, started off and, like, streaming in the first place.
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And I didn't expect that to, like, blow up like it did.
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way i mean i guess we all have something a little crazy about us i mean i can tell you this i didn't
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go to university i dropped out of college and i don't have a degree in forensic psychology
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i could tell you that like well i could tell you i mean all right um okay uh did you go to college
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or any college at all lexi okay what about you hi i'm jenny i am 21 um just moved here from
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chicago to san diego but i was born and raised in florida um i am a adult entertainer in the
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stripping industry um stripping industry that's i haven't heard that one but that's the first
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well i mean i guess it is an industry but well how long you've been stripping um about
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three years now i would probably say two and a half more so but yeah since i was 18
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okay any college or anything like that no just high school um and uh how often do you work
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in terms of the stripping um well weekends for sure but i do have lucky days on wednesdays and
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thursdays so okay what about you hi i'm kaylee chico i'm 23 and i have my own art brand so i
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would say like i'm an entrepreneur um i've built my own brand and my business through my art and
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i do in vending like in-person vending markets and then i also sell on my shopify and then i
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graduated from high school okay and you do body modification yes um i also do human suspension
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And then I do human suspension, too, so I hang, like, they pierce my back, and I hang from my back, and I just...
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This video blew up that this guy took of me, the host.
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It blew up on Facebook, and everyone was like, she's a witch without her broomstick.
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do you do of or not no no no sex work no i've been offered but i haven't taken it okay
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nathan were you able to get the the kick thing working okay all right uh what about you hi i'm
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lilyana i'm 30 and i sell stuff on tiktok live stream and then i have a bachelor's in studio
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arts and i almost finished my teaching credential but low-key my current job pays a lot more
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the tiktok yeah okay i might finish it at some point but i like making money i live in la
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and uh where are you from again i'm from an hour like east of la the inland empire
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okay but i live in uh hollywood gotcha what about you i'm alexis xj um i'm from upper michigan i'm
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25 i'm a welder and i do only fans and i sell artwork and restore old vehicles
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uh and you have you you live on a farm and you have ducks or yeah ducks and chickens
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okay uh and you refer you refer to your ducks as baggage oh yeah yeah because yeah you don't
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have kids though no but those are your kids your ducks they are how many ducks do you have
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um i think my waterfowl probably like 60 of them and i have chickens and turkeys and
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do they all have names all 60 of your waterfowl yeah
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they're all named after star wars characters so padme anakin
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darth vader okay jar jar how long you've been doing of for um i began in 2022 oh and i do have
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a degree in welding in welding okay and you went to like a trade school for that or it's a
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traditional college with like a trade wing okay yeah um interesting i don't know if we've had a
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welder on the show before um and are you uh do you create welding content um i've filmed my welds
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back in the past no one really watched it no one cared no all right yeah don't you have to wear
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like a protective mask so you don't go blind when you're welding right yeah because it causes eye
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damage yeah but can it still cause even with the mask can it still cause some no you're like fully
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protected basically yeah if you like wear a shirt like this though you'll burn your breasts like
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it gives you a sunburn you'll get a sunburn that's wild okay have you ever had a welding accident
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um i mean i have burns on my chest but okay nothing crazy would you ever do underwater welding
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i would i never have i did there was one accident when i was in school my classmate cut the ends of
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his fingers off on the metal muncher in front of me what didn't happen to me i watched this
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nobody's gonna like three people watching are gonna know this uh i watched this video about
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delta p do you know do you know about that i mean a lot of it's not just welders underwater
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welders who would experience this but pretty terrifying shit anybody in the chat knows about
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delta p that is terrifying and a lot of like underwater welders will anyways whatever uh
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totally irrelevant. Um, what about you? I'm Michaela. I'm 28 and I'm currently a graduate
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student at CSUN and I also teach intro GE classes. I mentor teenagers as a caregiver
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and I'm a teaching assistant. All right. Uh, what about you? I'm Nicole. I am 34 years old
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and i'm from kansas city um i'm a stay-at-home mom and i have a degree in spanish but
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all right what about you i'm alissa i'm 33 years old i'm from ohio and i am a server
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any college or anything like that i went to college for a really short time
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okay did you say server or surfer i'm a server oh okay wait where do you live i live in ohio
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you think in ohio uh no i was like you know maybe she works here like part time she surfs up goes
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back home where are you from again chicago well born and raised indiana what is she i think isn't
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ohio landlocked completely like yeah in chicago you have like the the lady you don't know if she
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makes good money where she could just be like i'm gonna go on a surfing trip yeah i could
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ohio and then fly back every day yeah oh maybe with if there's weight in 20 years maybe there
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will be wave parks everywhere uh okay cool so we uh roxy thank you for the gifted subs appreciate
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it. Kaibaka, thank you for the resub. Okay. We are going to go around the table once more. What's
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your current relationship status? Me? I'm single. Yeah. And then also tell us how long you've been
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single and tell us the longest relationship you've ever been in. Okay. Well, the last relationship I
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was in was the longest relationship I've ever been in. It was like three years, but we were
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on and off. So it was like three years consecutively, you know? Okay. Yeah. I've been
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single for like a year. You broke up with who? I broke up with him and I broke up with him after
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I started doing OF. We started doing OF together I guess and well he like convinced me to do it
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and then a year later he was just like taking a lot of money from me and I was like paying for
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rent, groceries, everything and yeah so I don't know I just broke up with him. I was like no
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can't do this anymore. Okay. All right. What about you? I am in an open relationship. My longest
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relationship was about six or seven years. It was my high school sweetheart. Yeah. Okay.
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How long have you been in the current relationship? Two years. And it's an open
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relationship? Correct. Open on both ends? Yes. Okay. And which one of you gets more action?
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um i don't know we like to kind of um make it equal like even it out it's like you get one i
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get one just keep it kind of fair for everyone okay uh do you guys also do like engage in
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uh swinging or threesomes foursomes we've done threesomes foursomes uh mainly for content yeah
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of content um yeah we're still like we kind of want to um just take it slow with the open part
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though because i have um i have endometriosis i don't know if you know what that is but it's just
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like sometimes like sex can be hard in general so and like my health is i'm very health conscious so
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it's like i need to make sure like if we're gonna you know be opening things up and bringing someone
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in that everyone is tested and you know just don't there's a lot of cooties out there have you ever
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participated in any group sex orgy sex club that sort of thing oh my gosh i was in an orgy with
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one of like hugh hefner's ex-wives once that was crazy and um they're really it was for like a
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content party that was probably the craziest experience but um i didn't really like um do
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much i was more like a side character in it i was kind of just like yeah like kind of um observing
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it okay what about you um i'm single recently single um our relationship ended early february
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um we hit the three month mark and that's where it broke but um my longest relationship was about
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like a year but i don't even think it's really a year because it was kind of on and off so okay
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uh so you've been single for about a month yeah uh has it been on and off with a three-month guy
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oh no the old relationship before him yeah but the one that ended a month ago is three months
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right yeah yeah when's the last time you saw him um like january okay so it was a clean break
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yeah you're not like well we're broken up but still sleeping together type yeah no we're
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he's in san fran and i'm in san diego so eight hours away it's kind of like hard to see him
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every day if i'm is he a tech bro um he's mechanic mechanic okay so would you fly to see him
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yeah but he would pay for my flights so i never is a mechanic yeah he's like a high-end mechanic
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or he works at a like ford dealership like he just like in the not like a ford dealership but
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Shouldn't you be a fucking stripper to make a fuck ton of money, right?
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Because he offered and I'm going to take it.
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But like, okay, I mean, you don't have to reveal your earnings or whatever.
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Shit, maybe you should pay for the flights.
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It's like, damn, she's making more than me, and why am I paying?
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Well, when I was dating him, I stopped dancing for him, and I got a regular 9-to-5 for him.
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Well, here's a question really quick, and we'll get back to the relationship status.
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You have a 23-year-old woman dating a 23-year-old man.
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And let's say they even earn the same amount of money.
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should he do you think the guy in that situation should be let's say they've been together for a
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year right do you think he should be paying for shit in the relationship
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yeah yes yeah even though you got 70k in savings it doesn't matter what if i had a kid and they
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need to do like a c-section and i paid for that with all my savings so that i can have a kid with
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you. Well, what if he, what if he had cancer and he needed fucking healthcare? So in the hypothetical
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I presented, there was not a granting that you're like pregnant or you have a kid. You're both
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childless. Yeah. But I just think that a guy should pay for anything at the end of the day,
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because I'm going to be having a kid with you and I need to know that you're going to be there for
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me and provide for us. So the guy should pay even like you probably are high earner. You have a big
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following uh change split you're a high earner you have a big following um i don't know you do
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you make like a million dollars a year or more less you make less you make mid six figures though
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right um well every year is different i've been doing it for three years so sometimes like it's
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just like really really bad it's like oh man what am i doing okay um so your argument is men should
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pay because maybe one day I will be pregnant yeah how many men have you dated um I've dated
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like a handful of guys seriously when I say date I mean like you went out to dinner once with a guy
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okay so dating as in like not having sexual relationships I mean you could but
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basically when I say date I don't mean like this is your long-term boyfriend I mean
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a guy who you entertained, you know, you went out to dinner once. I would count that. I'm asking
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how many times, how many different men? Um, probably at least 15, 15. How many children
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do you have? None. Zero. No. So, okay. Men should pay for dates because what if I did get pregnant
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on the first date on the first, but it's like, I don't understand this argument that, uh, one day
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down the road you probably don't even well i mean like a man is like asking to be in a relationship
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and so he should provide for that woman what if the woman's asking to be in the relationship
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well i mean i feel like women are agreeing men are like really you know asking for it well that
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would be secondary but um are you on birth control no well when you're dating a guy are you on birth
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control um i just got off of birth control so you were on birth control yeah so then how about this
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here's a proposition if the woman's on birth control you should not pay for the date
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because she can't have a kid she can't have a kid but there's always a one percent chance
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it's never like a hundred percent so while we double down if the man has a vasectomy
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uh and or he uh he wears a condom the woman pays for the entire thing
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so not just go 50 50 on the date you know split the bill
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the woman pays the entire bill yeah well i guess it's just like my preference like i prefer a man
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to pay for everything that's like my preference you know yeah you prefer the man to pay for
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everything yes why because i feel like i deserve that why do you deserve that because i deserve to
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have a good life why do you i want to have kids so if a man can't provide me kids i wouldn't date
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him in the first place why do you feel like you can't provide for yourself like pay for your own
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things for myself so why don't you I do but most of the time you want the man to know if I date a
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man I want him to provide for me so even if they do provide for you if you are dating a man so you
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go on a first date so right off the bat you consider that he should pay off right off the
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bat yes even though he knows nothing about you you guys are just getting to know each other
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yeah because he has to get to know me and he has to um but you have to get to know him too if he
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wants to do 50 50 we can but that would be the last time i see him that's crazy yeah i feel like
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it's it's interesting because i only date girls like at this point and it's interesting because
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i think like some people do that but then it's usually like who makes more but i see your
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perspective yeah but it's like i do prefer to date somebody that like makes as much money as me
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because i've dated like a broke mask and like they're a very kind person but i don't want to
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be doing that so i i feel the vibe i've dated a lot of broke guys and i've also the guy that i'm
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with right now it's i do not expect him to pay for my dinner because he works his ass off for
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his money and i am not going to go out of my way to say you need to put your all but if he doesn't
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have enough money to go on a date then why did he ask he does have enough money to go on a date
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but why would you think that you are like why do you think that he owes you that because i feel
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he doesn't know you so so it's like why wouldn't you put yourself why wouldn't you put yourself
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out there and say oh well i make this money and i know you make this money but we could both split
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the bill because we don't we don't know each other yet just yeah we're still getting to know
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each other you don't owe me anything i feel like people with the same mindset just need to like
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find each other yeah yeah but so why why you said you deserve a good life right like i don't want
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to just waste my life with a guy that doesn't want to have kids. Cause I want to have kids here,
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but okay. Do men deserve a good life? Yeah. But so here's your argument. I deserve a good life.
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Ergo men should pay for dates. Yeah. Cause that's the life that I want. But if the logic is I deserve
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a good life, therefore other person who I'm dating should pay for dates that would have to equally
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apply to men if men deserve a good life. So you're going to have to make a specific argument as to
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why you or women specifically deserve to have their shit paid for. So do you see him paying
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for the day as an investment in your potential future relationship? Yeah. Well, I'd like my
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question answered first before other people, uh, divert away from my question. Go ahead.
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I'm not sure if I understand the question. I'm looking for, so you're just saying,
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I'm looking for more of an argument. I mean, I could just repeat what I said again.
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you said i deserve a good life therefore men should pay okay i deserve a good life should women pay
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for me if that's what you want if okay if that's what i want yeah if that's what would make you
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happy in your life then that's the decisions that you have to make in your life but i think you're
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gonna need further justification than simply i deserve a good life yeah why specifically do you
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or women uh why do they deserve to or are they entitled to a man paying for shit well i guess
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like it's just like your preference you know like uh some women like to go 50 50 some women
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like a man to provide everything and i just uh you know i think you have to make the decisions
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based on what you want in your life okay but um
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like if a guy can't pay for the first date then i wouldn't see him or i wouldn't go on that date
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but how do you know he can't pay for it if i ask him you know where are we going and he says
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mcdonald's or i can't i can't take you anywhere or you can come over i'm not going
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but that's different from already being at the restaurant and being hey you want to split the
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bell are you going to play yeah if he if he asked me to meet him at a restaurant we go there and he
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asked me to go 50 50 that's the last time i'm seeing him because why did you ask me to come
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somewhere nice and then now i have to pay for it well now you're hold on because you can afford
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hold on you're smuggling in something that wasn't even asserted now you're adding this this other
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layer to it of oh well if you're going to invite me to a luxury restaurant uh like that puts me in
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like a predicament where i assume you could afford it technically but if you were to say
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invite a college student to like a i don't know an example of a super expensive restaurant that
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would be to some degree inconsiderate but let's assume it's just like i don't know mid mid-tier
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place chili's so okay so you are desirous of traditional gender roles do you deserve
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traditional gender roles um i think like what do you mean me personally or like women in general
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uh well let's start with you and then we can get to women in general okay well me personally i think
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that i make enough to provide for myself and so i don't really need to like um surrender the luxury
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that i have like which is like my peace of mind my own you know comfort that i can pay for my bills
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and anything like that like if i date a man and i want like traditional gender roles like he's
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probably gonna want me to not do this kind of line of work right not um not work at all probably be
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home cook clean etc etc i would be okay with that didn't you just say that some months you don't
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even know why you're doing only fans so therefore you can't always provide for yourself i do always
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provide for myself so even if you don't have the money you're providing for yourself yeah i've been
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single for a year this entire year that i've been single never had any issues ever car note paid
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bills paid but you literally just said you struggle some months where yeah that's just like where i'm
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like budgeting and you know i think that's normal i think you just have to make um good financial
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decisions so during that time when you're budgeting do you think that the man should still pay for
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your dinner 100 you shouldn't split even if i'm struggling i'm probably not worried about a man
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i'm worried about getting my money up okay i still i still didn't really get an answer to my question
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is. Uh, so, uh, why do you deserve that? Um, well, I just feel like I like built this life
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that I have for myself already and I would want someone that can add to it and not take away from
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it or make me have to go less or, um, feel less in my day-to-day life just because he doesn't
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make as much money as me or he's not in the same place where I am. Okay. But so you currently are
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single. So in terms of, and you pay for your own food, you pay your own rent. So if a guy came in
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and you guys were equitably contributing to the finances of the household, which I'm assuming is
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even a year down the road, perhaps even longer before you'd even consider moving in. I mean,
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some people move in on shorter timelines, but it wouldn't be, it would actually be
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an improvement in your lifestyle arguably to go from he pays everything and you pay nothing
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versus your current position which is you're paying entirely for your own rent your own food
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your own bills everything so I don't understand like let's say you were like let's say you
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encountered a guy who wants to go 50 50 that's that's a no-go though for you correct so it's
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like hey babe let's move in together but we're both going to equally contribute to the rent
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no good that's not so if i'm like just dating a guy i would expect him to like want his financials
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to be together as well like he wants to be financially stable he wants to you know succeed
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in life he wants great things for himself that's what i would want in a man yeah let's assume he
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would pay for his own bills his own things and everything i would pay for my own things as well
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and so you know when we do like move in together then he would take over paying bills because he
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knows how to pay bills you don't know how to pay bills well if he wants like to have like a two
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three bedroom house with a wife and kids then he's gonna pay for it uh well okay that might make
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sense when you start having kids so you're gonna stop working when you have kids well I mean yeah
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I mean that's like kind of like what would happen right okay but so you're you're 22 when do you
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want to have your first kid um I would want to have my first kid when I'm financially stable and
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i have a husband when you're financially stable yeah when like so you know so conceivably let's
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say you meet the perfect guy you could be ready to have kids in six months yeah okay
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i'm okay um hmm well then i guess the other question is um do you think that a guy providing
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in that way as a traditional gender role dynamic like providing like for yeah it's traditional
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everything yes it's traditional right yes are you a traditional woman um well not exactly so to speak
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like because of my line of work yeah okay so you're not traditional but you deserve traditional
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well everyone has a preference you know some guys have a lot of
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high body count but they still want to date a virgin and there's actually not nothing wrong
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with that it's just a preference you know yeah i think that's that would be a little different
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a bit different of a scenario but um so in terms of you though so you are a sex worker um you do
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only fans do you do boy girl content um no have you ever done boy girl content yeah when me and
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my ex first started doing uh of then we started doing well basically everything is it still up
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on your of no okay but you did distribute boy girl content yeah have you done boy girl content
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with any other men no just him yeah okay uh have you done any mainstream content um what does that
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mean mainstream porn um no okay um all right so uh look being a sex worker
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it's not really a traditional profession um in the sense of being a traditional woman
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you're looking for a guy to be traditional do those sort of chivalrous things right you want
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a guy to be chivalrous but you are not through your own conduct your own profession you are not
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doing uh moving through life in such a way as to inspire that traditional or maybe not inspire is
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not the right word. Ultimately, you're just not deserving of it. Now you might still get it.
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There's a lot of men, uh, who are simps. There's a lot of men who look, you're an attractive girl.
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I'm sure a lot of guys, they'll take you to those restaurants and they'll pay and they'll do all
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this shit. So I don't, it's not a doubt in my mind that you'll be able to find guys who
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are willing to do that. I'm having like a, perhaps a, a bird's eye view conversation.
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I'm looking at the chessboard of dating dynamics and I'm like, okay, as a woman, if you want a guy
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to be chivalrous, to protect, to provide, to pay for dates, to do all, you know, uh, open the car
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door, observe the sidewalk rule. I believe then that women just, women have to hold up their end
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of the contract, the social contract. And I don't get the impression that women are. Um, but you
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So basically, you want to be modern women, but you want men to be trad.
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Women get to pretty much throw any sort of even hint of traditionality completely away.
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Meanwhile, in terms of what you want men to do, you might as well be 1950s bachelorettes.
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Well, I mean, I think men and women are both modern.
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like you know guys like they're always like they're gonna have like social media they're
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they're always gonna have like some kind of history nobody's a virgin nowadays everybody
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has a past so I think we should just grow up and if you want to have that kind of life together
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then it's like it's an achievable thing you said guys have social media what do you mean by that
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well I mean like guys like I've seen guys do thirst like traps you know like showing off their
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abs, like looking at themselves in the mirror, their, their abs. Oh, their abs. They must be
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gay then. You know, I've like, I've seen guys like with tripods at the gym, like just cause
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you don't have an OF doesn't mean like you're not, you know, that traditional. I'm not going
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to dispute that there's definitely men who do that. There's, I mean, uh, that's fucking stupid
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and they shouldn't be doing that but um i i would say the the proportion of men who are uh getting
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validation through social media pales massively in comparison to uh women who are on social media
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for the sake of yeah validation attention well even if uh men don't contribute to like you know
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social media they still consume it and they're like the consumer like they're the like people
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that yeah exactly uh well yeah i mean i don't i definitely this this criticism isn't exclusively
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directed at women i think men in a lot of ways have things that they need to improve on and
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correct on uh they shouldn't be like following a bunch although i i'm curious what an of girl
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thinks about this but uh i don't think men should be following a bunch of ig thoughts and ig models
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I would smack the fuck out of each time against animal abuse.
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virgin is still very much a thing for a lot of people.
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Actually, I think there's a bit more male virgins than female virgins.
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From someone that I've dated, I'm not going to say which boyfriend it was
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and they wanted to do the traditional way until I was in love with someone.
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Does seem like we're holding men to this traditional standard, but women are really not holding up their end of the deal.
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But it seems to me like, look, if you're a sex worker, just, hey, go 50-50.
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if I'm a sex worker I will do what I have to do to pay my rent and if someone wants to
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save a hoe I'm here for the saving that's all I have to say would you post um boy girl content
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if it saved your rent no no I just wouldn't do that again because I don't think that I have to
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in order to um make a living you know I haven't posted that kind of like uh content for two years
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So I just don't think it makes sense for me to go back into doing it if I haven't done it.
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Someone offered you like $100,000 for a brand deal?
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No, I wouldn't do it for the money because it's already gone.
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So why would I put myself back out there like that?
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You know, I don't think some people don't like that.
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oh shit i actually just lost it damn it was a good one it was a good one i'll conjure back
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oh yeah just just to be uh just to be clear uh so i'm not saying that women who are sex workers
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women who are strippers women who do only fans i'm not saying that you should be mistreated
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you should still be treated kindly with respect but what you're asking for is something on top
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which is chivalry so that's men paying for dates men providing men protecting i assume you i don't
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know what kind of type of guy you want to go for because i mean but like would you want a guy who
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has a bit more of a masculine expression to him um or do you not care like you'll date a liberal soy
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boy um i guess it just like depends on who the guy is i don't really have like a preference when
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it comes to like masculinity okay yeah but in any case you do want a guy to pay all the bills
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he's gonna have to fully provide um so yeah well if he if he did that then I would you know like
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take care of him as well I feel like if I like if I'm being taken care of I would take care of
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my partner as well how so um well if he doesn't want me to do OF I wouldn't do OF anymore as long
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he's paying for my bills and i don't have to worry about that you know okay it's just like how it
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would go it would be let's talk about the bills a little bit but like aside from you quitting of
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you said you'd take care of him how would you take care of him um well just like i guess the
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traditional way that a man should want to be like taken care of like which is what like cooking for
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him and um just being there for him like emotionally things like that what about cleaning
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Yeah, well, I mean, I think that every woman should know how to cook and clean by themselves.
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Like, you should know how to maintain your own house and clean and cook your own food, like make your own meals.
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Like, if you're in a traditional relationship, then it should be traditional by, like, all, like...
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I noticed here on the questionnaire, and normally I save the questionnaire for a little bit later on the show,
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But for questions one through five, so you agree with the following four statements.
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Husband should be willing to die protecting you.
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um but you for question five or statement five uh i will keep my last name or oh actually no hold
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on wait you'll take your husband's last name is that correct okay yeah all right well that's how
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it goes i miss all that okay i thought i thought you had circled it but my eyes deceived me okay
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um let's see hmm husband should die protecting you um okay hmm yeah still a sex worker sorry
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sorry doesn't change anything doesn't change anything look just date a nice uh guy who goes
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50 50 um I don't know I still have my preference and like my dad he's like a traditional man you
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know he's like always taking care of like everything he's like kind of like instilled
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that into me like you don't need to be the richest man in order to provide for a woman you just like
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you need to be uh content well i mean i could be wrong but my initial read on you is you have
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expensive taste um i don't really care about like living like luxuriously lavishly like i don't care
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what car you drive i don't care what brand like my kid's backpack is like we can go to walmart i
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don't care i will shop at walmart you just said excuse me you just said that if he took you to
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mcdonald's you'd be upset well i mean like on a first date that's kind of crazy a first date
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at mcdonald's i will go to mcdonald's on like uh another date you know a casual date after we've
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already been seeing each other do you have uh do you have an expensive bag no uh my bag is uh 30
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bucks from urban outfitters well maybe not the one you brought but do you own an expensive bag
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if i do a man bought it uh how show show us your nails how recent are are those they are about
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three weeks grown out and they were 60 bucks okay so let's say you're dating a guy and he's like
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look if i'm gonna provide for everything uh i'm gonna have some authority on certain expenses
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here in the household you're not gonna get fake nails anymore you okay with that yeah but all
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right she's fucking got me she's got me then i mean uh still though sex worker still sex worker
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okay uh so okay ultimately though look and again women who do only fans or strip or sex work
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not saying they should be mistreated not saying they don't deserve uh well respect question mark
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but, um, ultimately it's not traditional. Yeah. It's just completely not traditional.
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Uh, so you might still get it. Maybe there's even a good chance you'll still
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end up in that sort of dynamic, but do you deserve it? I say no.
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Well, you know, everyone is entitled to their opinion. So that's the beautiful thing about
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life. Yeah, but I'm not so interested in just like being entitled to my opinion. I'm actually
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interested in perhaps having people reassess their own standards. So they're commensurate
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to what they're offering and also prescriptively advising men, listen,
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um you're getting a raw deal here a little bit uh because that woman is not holding up her end of
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okay does anybody else want to weigh in on this topic i was just wondering you said so mcdonald
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to be a no-go like how nice of a first date are you expecting because my husband always thought
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don't go too high on that first date because that's going to set the expectation for the future
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and he actually took me somewhere really nice for our first date but his best friend was like dude
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if you do that like she's going to expect it and it it is not the way that it goes for us but
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that kind of what standard what level do you expect on that first day as compared to
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on the norm i guess like um mid mid range and above is good like chilies and above is good
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do you smoke i do so mcdonald's like getting 40 chicken nuggets fries and smoking in the car
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wouldn't be a good date to you um it depends like if you're a man no if you're a girl yeah
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that's a great first date with a girl but like wait you're you're bisexual uh yeah okay um
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so with the girlies it's okay but with a guy you're like take me to chilies
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Well, I feel like men should be providers, and I feel like women, like, I'm just, like, I guess, like, emotionally more sensitive to, like, you know, we are both, like, in it together.
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We both have the same problems, whereas, like, men already, like, biologically have an advantage.
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You guys are, like, at least twice as strong as us.
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So I just feel like men are, like, basically on this planet to traditionally put on this planet to provide for women.
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Well, you do realize most jobs, at least today, don't require physical strength.
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Many do, but most jobs are not, like, hard labor jobs.
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yeah well either way i feel like um you know like men they have testosterone all day long that like
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pumps them up full of energy like by the end of the night like most of the time men will still
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be able to like drive and like they're just like talking i don't really think that's a thing yeah
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my boyfriend when he gets off work from working at the airport he's done yeah like there is no extra
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and i think women can work just as many hours as men also yeah i don't know i just um i think that
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like biologically men just they naturally they're stronger yeah but i think like endurance wise that
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doesn't just come from yeah you can't yeah like i work retail i used to work retail and i would
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stand on that floor for 12 14 hours where my boyfriend he works at the airport and he can do
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the same exact thing but he's still going to be depleted and tired
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i don't understand the logic though so uh just because men have a capacity a better capacity
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for physical labor uh it doesn't necessarily follow that in every given situation a man
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who's in a physical labor job would out earn a potential girlfriend or a woman like you probably
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out earn uh 99 of men who do physical labor jobs you might even earn in a month how much they make
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in a year have you ever have you ever made six figures in a month um i don't know you gotta step
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your shit up then you're fucking up uh gotta be on that one percent come on uh anyways uh
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I mean, my understanding is some of these girls show nothing.
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Because I've been offered different agencies, and I've all turned them down.
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Because when my lawyer looked into it, they were all full of crap.
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um well that's yeah but it's just there's to the conversation yeah it's it's just um when it
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comes to those industries it's just very it ranges uh so okay men men have male advantage
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are there any other male advantages um no so do you think uh women like a woman because of what
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you just outlined should a woman not be uh able to become like president for example um no i think
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that we're still like a lot more capable of making like decisions like i think i think that men and
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women have their own strengths and i feel like physical physical strength that is like where a
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man um you know he's um usually just better at that do you believe in feminism um i don't know
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if i would call myself a feminist okay um okay but uh your argument was that men are able to
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work longer hours this would also conceivably have to apply to other like like being president
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um well i mean it's not really physical labor you know
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okay so as long as you're so okay if the guy's a physical laborer then he should pay for the date
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or be a provider but if he has an office job then you can go 50 50 with him no um your argument is
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because men can work longer hours uh that's why they should pay for dates do you only date men
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who are in blue collar work well i just think that because men can work longer hours they should
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provide for women but you just said that in an office setting where there's no physical labor
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involved men and women are basically equal so if you're dating a guy who works an office job
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maybe you go 50 50. seems a bit backwards though but
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cricket sorry nothing okay you had something good um i don't remember what i was gonna say
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nobody else wants to weigh in you guys are just gonna be fucking silent the whole show
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oh wait i feel like the thing the pop-up bro don't worry about it don't worry about it i didn't i was
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i was trying to read it no it's below the threshold we're doing 100 and up don't worry
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about it okay i want to say something oh yeah no you can say um so i think sex work kind of has
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like a toll on like like okay so before i became a stripper i was okay with like being 50 50 all
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the time with like my boyfriends at the time but after being a dancer I think what I get from it
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is if men that don't even know me and it's their first time seeing me like ever like they know
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nothing about me my personality if they can give me a fuck ton of their fucking money and I don't
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like why can't my boyfriend do that like if men that don't even know me can do that why
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would I set my standard below what men don't even know?
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Okay, so there's women out there who aren't prostitutes.
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Why, as a man, do I have to lower my standards
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they're simping and spending all this money therefore why can't a man who i'm dating do
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the same thing great why can't i just use that logic in for you guys well hold on there's all
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these beautiful well-adjusted women who aren't in doing degenerate work who aren't prostitutes
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who aren't strippers who aren't only fans girls who aren't showing their butthole and pussy and
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everything to the internet why can't you be like them sure i'm not speaking for everybody's like
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preference but i'm just saying what me being a dancer has done to my mentality and like how
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like what i want from a man so would you date one of those men who comes and sees you at the strip
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club well they're kind of really old but so no but i mean like no just someone who provides like
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I do agree that men should pay on the first date.
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How about really quick and I'll let you come in.
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No, but it's like, okay, you're going to hold men to a standard.
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And that standard corresponds to traditional gender roles
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And I would be a stay-at-home, lovely girlfriend
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a traditional look frankly a true traditional man would not date a woman who's a sex worker
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to begin with sure but i mean there's some dudes who've got like a fucking what's that term save
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they're on some of that shit but i feel like people are very fixated online about like stay
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at home girlfriend and it's interesting because I usually date girls and it's usually like whoever
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makes the most money and like I get the mentality but I think that people should be careful about
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like you know back in the 1950s there was like other parts to being a stay-at-home wife so like
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also look out for like the kind of guy who's like what kind of guy you're dating if that makes sense
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you know like you need to also protect um like your end of things if you're looking to go all
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the way back into that kind of dynamic yeah I think also though like I wouldn't want them paying
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for like everything obviously if I was making like enough I would want to put my money towards
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them as well in a way but didn't you say you would quit if instead be a stay-at-home girlfriend if
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and it's really um it's also pretty dangerous to not have a work history if you do want to
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have kids because then like what if like you know the person you're dating ends up like turning to
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be somebody you didn't think they were and you guys are married and then you haven't had a job
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in a really long time so I think it's like food for thought type vibe I don't agree with that
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I think if you if you know that you want to have that dynamic of staying home taking care of the
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kids yes you have to be very careful about who you choose because then you should be making a
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lifelong commitment and obviously yes people can change but my husband says all the time and I've
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seen this to be true with friends um men don't change even though women often want them to
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so what you see is usually what you get women change all the time even if their husbands or
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boyfriends don't want them to we're just I mean we're slaves to our emotions a lot of the time
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you can't deny it you get a period the week before your period you're a raging bitch that's how my
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husband's like is it coming um and so you've got to make that decision and and it's dangerous to
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be like well you still need to have a way to provide in case things don't work out because
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if you have one foot out the door going into things how much are you going to work to make
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it work when things get tough that's a good point i don't think it's having one foot in and one foot
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out it's just more or less having a standard for yourself and being like i know if this were to go
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south i can provide for myself not oh i have a door like i have a foot out i'm like if i really
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do need a way out i can it's more or less just for your own morals and your own values to be like
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i know i'm a strong individual woman and i know that i can pay for things myself but i have a man
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but wouldn't you be living like more of a comfortable lifestyle if you guys are both
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working and both making money and bringing it in i also agree with that you guys can both be working
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what about you what do you want to know well you do you do only fans but you're you're like
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a country gal kind of what are your thoughts um well i personally have no preference in like what
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a man makes if that is relevant to the conversation um i think work ethic is a lot
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more attractive than income because they don't directly correlate and if a man works hard and
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he's a janitor i think that's that's attractive to me okay you also this is totally unrelated
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you're a chubby chaser i am like you only date fat dudes so is it like the bigger the better
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uh like obese 600 pound 500 pounds yep so like question for you 500 pounds preferable to 200
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pounds yeah um i think closer to 500 would be my preference if i had to pick there's tons of guys
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were like 180 and super super hot but typically yeah 500 is good and are you a feeder too no
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what is a feeder you you feed them a bunch of food so they get fat oh okay yeah so okay do you
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do you film that content no i'm not into feeders okay you're not okay no she just likes fat too
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so like when you watch like 500 pound life or like 600 pound like are you like dang i need their
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number there were some really good looking guys yeah okay okay okay i get you and is it more of
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just like a relate like you prefer those men or is it like a fetish thing it's not a fetish um and
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for example like a lot of people have an issue with me being a chubby chaser and think well what
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if the guy wants to lose weight why do you want to encourage someone to be unhealthy like if i'm
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with a guy and he loses weight good for him yeah i don't don't police like his body it's just like
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you're not gonna like go out of your way and be like i'm not gonna date you because you're fat
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like no like my ex like like yeah my ex was five foot two like i'm five foot three and he was 300
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pounds at his heavies and i loved it very hot but would you lose attraction for a guy if he
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he when you first meet him he's chubby but he starts losing weight well if we were together no
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uh if he's just like a person in passing yes he'd become less attractive but dating
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once i'm in i'm in you know okay interesting interesting huh so would you wait hold on
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i have a i don't know that's that's an interesting one
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not a feeder though no okay it just doesn't do it for me do you like cooking oh yeah i make very
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good food so like yeah so like you like you enjoy giving them like proper meals though like
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yeah it just doesn't turn me on to watch them get big like the videos for feederism you'll watch
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like they'll take a bite and their stomach they force their stomach to like look big and people
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get off on that i got you that doesn't get me off at all i just think the bigger there's literally
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more to love like you ask a guy who's a chubby chaser who likes big women and they just say
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there's more woman to love and like yeah i see that with big guys like i love deep stretch marks
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like the really wide ones that are dark purple i think are super hot i think man boobs are really
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hot um big guts are hot can i ask you a question yeah so you call love keeping them unhealthy
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People think since I'm a chubby chaser, I would only want them to be obese.
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And like, I'm doing these men a disservice by keeping them obese.
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If they're big by choice and they want to remain big, that's cool.
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Let's say you've been married to this guy for 10 years.
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and he comes back from the doctor and the doctor said,
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hey, you're like pre-diabetic and you need to lose weight.
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Under those circumstances, would you advocate your boyfriend or husband to lose weight?
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If it's for the better and it's what he wants to do, absolutely.
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So it's the bigger the better is what you said, right?
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I also, to some degree, have not related to weight,
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but uh i relate to the bigger is better thing in the sense of uh labia i only date women i also
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have a kind of an interesting thing i only date or at least prefer to sometimes i'll give a girl
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a pass if she's really fantastic okay you've gotten any i'll tolerate you for a bit uh the
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for the labia the bigger the better and so like i have a rate you know there's the looks rating
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don't interrupt plus five audi labia plus five plus five for the no no hold on like the world
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record labia like the biggest i've ever seen the biggest there is she's in guinness world record
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book labia plus five so she if she's a five but she she could be a 10 she could be a 10
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so if it sticks out that's what you want correct but what if it's tucked in but fat
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like what if you got fat lips and then labe so it's all tucked in together
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so okay there's inner inner labia and outer labia are you referring to the outer labia
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like she's got like an insanely puffy outer yeah and it like covers it so it makes it like
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kind of like i'm talking when i'm talking about lips labia i'm talking about the inner labia yeah
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i'm saying but like your lips can cover your labia if they're big enough hold on the lips
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are the inner labia okay you're talking okay okay the the the lips yeah yeah there's the
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outer labia which is essentially just your normal skin surrounding yeah okay i got you i mean that
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it's okay if the outer labia is i'm talking about the inner labia yeah yeah like inside there all
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up in there yeah got it well it it's external yeah so okay no any further clarification oh no
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i just was saying that okay okay nothing no nothing from anybody okay what what do the
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bigger ones do for you what what do you like about them uh visually it's better and then
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actually like it feels better i've heard that okay lipstick rip i guess can you tell if they
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have one uh you know sometimes i get like uh i get an intuition but i've definitely been wrong
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like you can sense they're your type yeah yeah like i've yeah well like do you ever see a woman
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and you're like oh i bet she has a huge labia it's okay i've developed some theories okay um
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not all the time but sometimes if she's like hairy but that's i don't have a preference for
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hairy women so i'm like in this fucking predicament i'm gonna ask my boyfriend when i get
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home i'll be like can you just let me know the size like i don't that aside from that it's just
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some some women do have big labia energy like you can just tell wait so hairy arms is a thing of
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that though well it's not a hundred percent this is like my retarded bro science that should have
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been my comeback in high school because they would call me like chewbacca and i'd be like well i have
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a big labia so i don't know do you i don't know i mean i i don't like i'm not down there with a
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mirror like dang i got a big labia you've never looked at i mean i guess yeah like yeah it's fat
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yeah okay yeah good to nice congratulations thank you my boyfriend enjoys it i'm i'm proud of you
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oh here we we'll get back to the relationship status first oh this sorry below the pressure
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my bad what kind of failure of a traditional father could you have possibly had to let his
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daughter become you oh yes also do you think you deserve a man to ever save a hoe like you
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okay sorry guys um i mean it doesn't really matter but the tts is just for clarification
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is 199 and up but i mean that just came through as a read it's not a big deal do you want to
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answer that question um what kind of father did i have well you said your your dad's trap
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traditional yeah are your parents are your parents still married um yeah they've been together well
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i mean okay so here's some backstory my dad can you do me one favor can you like you're like
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body is no leave the mic where it is your body is like facing this way can you face yeah that's
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good okay okay and strain the mic now so it's like yeah okay now straighten it so it's like
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fit nope straighten it so it's like 90 degree angle yep okay so okay so yeah i mean my dad
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wasn't always traditional um he cheated on my mom and just kidding so um yeah i mean
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um but after he cheated on my mom he stayed with the other woman until this day so and they're
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married so you know i guess a man can change so a woman can change too that's so romantic
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like he's he's still with her yeah that's so beautiful you know i guess it's not once a hoe
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always a hoe wait so people change uh wait hold on so uh he's does he know that you
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post your butthole on the internet um does he i never asked him directly if he
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like knew, but a lot of people in my family did know. And I know that they knew because some
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people like followed my account and I was like, Oh no block immediately. So I had, uh, I had like
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an inkling that my dad probably knows just because I talked to him about it. No, I talked to you. I
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talked to my dad about other things, just not that. And then your mom, does she know my mom
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knows? And do you have a stepfather or no? No. Okay. Your mom's just remained single.
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i guess um she knows yeah are you are you filipina no i'm cambodian cambodian okay
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you got a cambodian mom i have a cambodian dad oh and your mom is
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um she's puto rican a lot of people don't expect uh you know an asian guy to pull a latina for
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some reason yeah they can do it yeah they definitely can okay okay so you're you're half
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you're latina half latina half cambodian yeah okay so your puerto rican mom yeah was cool with the
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sex work um she didn't get the belt or anything she used to be a stripper so she has like a an
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understanding i guess i'll make sense okay i'll make sense i guess um does she still strip no
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she stopped stripping a long time ago yeah did she like teach you moves or something no okay um
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would your dad disown you if he knew no I don't think he would I think he would um he would want
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me to do better and he would just tell me that but I don't think he would want to actually tell
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me that i think my dad loves me a lot so okay all right um okay uh relationship status for you
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um i am in a relationship we've been together for a little over a year
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all right long uh what's the longest relationship you've been in three and a half years
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is your boyfriend gonna be happy that you revealed you have a giant labia honestly because
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it's his yeah he's fine with it okay i mean i don't see like why okay like hairy arms so i
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didn't know what about you um i'm single as of 2 a.m last night i was like should i still come
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and then i was like you know i made a time commitment for you guys yeah so but yeah it
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was the three-month mark girl the three-month mark yeah my girlfriend broke up with me but
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it's okay. Uh, Oh, your girlfriend broke up. Yeah. Although, um, I'm like, I guess you could
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consider bi, but I prefer girls a lot more as I get older. Okay. Um, but I've dated men in the
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past and you were, uh, previously married. That was my longest relationship. He was, he was bi
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though. He was bi. Yeah. He's really nice. He's pretty nice. Okay. How long were you married for?
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like we're still getting we're getting divorced right now so you're not uh you're not okay yeah
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we're figuring out like the end stages of it but he's really nice it's very amicable formally
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started divorce yeah when did you guys file for divorce we started filing in the beginning of
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last year and we figured out that our taxes weren't filed like correctly this is boring but
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we have a domestic partnership so it's harder to file taxes so i'm going to a tax guy and getting
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my taxes settled and then we're gonna finish filing okay how long were you married for like
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it was 2020 and then to now so six years is he paying you alimony no no we go like 50 50 with
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stuff okay so it's just gonna be a clean clean break yeah how long you you're dating three
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months the girl yeah okay um were you guys during the marriage was an open marriage at some points
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like towards the end but then I just started to feel like it wasn't really like equal and I just
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felt like it would be better if we split up. Is the mic okay? Yeah yeah um hold on uh
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so uh why did you break up with your girlfriend no she broke up with me because she said that she
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didn't have feelings for me and she just thinks i'm attractive and basically she was just like
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not feeling it but like it's all right because like i live in la and it's a fun place to be
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single so it was for the best okay uh who here's uh i guess just coming back uh or your sexual
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orientation um i'm bisexual but i prefer dating men and sexual i bye wait hold on bi pansexual
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We were together, I think, eight or nine years.
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I would have thought you were like married for some reason.
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You're giving like stable long-term relationship energy.
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Wow. Okay. And is he the only guy you've been with biblically?
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No, I've had sex with other men, but he's the only one I've ever dated.
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Okay. All right. Was he the first guy you were ever with, though?
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uh what age did you lose your virginity okay we started when i was 14 i lost it at 14
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damn yeah uh i guess going around the table when did everyone else i'll even go uh when
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did everyone lose their virginity i was i was 17 um i was a freshman so i was 14
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hold on oh a freshman in high school okay 16 16 okay 15 15 15 about to be 16 18 for guys and then
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19 for girls 14 27 16 damn what the fuck fucking late bloomer over here
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we did say earlier that i think that's more common in men that they wait longer i think
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i mean uh i feel like it's hard because it's like the gut like you have to convince like a girl and
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then like there's always a guy that's down yeah you know what i mean well it's easier for women
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to get laid yeah that's why i dated men for so long did your first uh the person you asked your
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virginity to that they have a large labio was that like your first yeah like when did the whole
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like i love large like big labio stuff honestly yeah that that developed a little later i think
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maybe around the time i was like 21 2021 but no i don't i did not as far as i recall she did not
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have a large labio well because at first you didn't know your preferences probably you're still
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like learning things true it developed about your preferences over time 14 wait 14 yeah well
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you're probably just a late bloomer because um like women date older guys most of the time
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usually it's like that's how it goes i mean a lot of guys don't really date older girls
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most of the time my ex-husband most of the time wait who else can ever
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bam 14 shit shit man i was still playing with barbie dolls like that's scary i like was not
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interested in boys in high school i was like i would make up fake crushes i'd be like oh my god
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that guy justin bieber yeah and then i was like stressing about my ap test okay well every year
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And I guess, how long have you been single then?
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uh just under three years all right uh the two weeks guy have you guys had carnal knowledge
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no no what does that mean do you know what carnal knowledge is no here look at her
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two two weeks okay uh what about you i'm married um we've been married for almost eight years
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um it's my longest relationship he was the first man i ever kissed oh
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and uh like you were you a virgin when you guys got married yes when we yeah when we got married
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i was still a virgin you waited till marriage yes okay and he's the only guy you've been with
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My longest relationship was eight years, and I've been single for over a year.
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The relationship that ended one year ago, how long was that one?
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Um, like two years. Okay. Uh, so your eight year one, what's that your, were you married?
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Um, not to him. No, I was married to my oldest daughter's dad. Uh, she's 14. We, I got married
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when I was 18 and we split up when she was nine months old and we actually stayed married for
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six years until we got divorced. And then I had two more children with another guy. We were
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together for eight years. For eight years? Yeah. Okay. And you've been married just once? Yeah.
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Okay. I see. So married for six years, one child from that marriage, dated a different guy for
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eight years, two children from him. Do I have that correct? Yes. Okay. Your first marriage
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did he or does he pay you alimony no no point he paid you alimony never did you pay him alimony
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no uh what's the custody arrangement with the first we have 50 50 does he pay you child support
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no do you pay him child support no uh and then the eight-year relationship where you've had
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two children from that eight-year relationship does he pay you child support no uh do you pay
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him child support no 50 50 nope you full custody yeah he's not in um my two youngest kids lives
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unfortunately okay all right uh but no you haven't uh seeked sought child support i have not okay
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uh is any particular reason or just don't want to be a dickhead to him or what what's the i don't
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really want to get into it on here but he's just not in jail prison no he probably should be but
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he's not he um our lives are just better with you know where where he doesn't see them and okay
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yeah it's kind of complicated i know you're probably thinking like how is that better
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like for your kids not to have their dad in their life but it's it just is for for all of us for
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someone who grew up with a person where they shouldn't have their mom in their lives i
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understand yeah it's just he shouldn't be around yeah uh so i mean we don't need to get into
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details but essentially are you hinting at or pointing towards there was some abuse
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um he has he did abuse me late on in the relationship but um it he struggles with
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addiction and narcissism narcissism severe oh severe like what's an example of
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um whenever something or someone like an emergency happened he would either like
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put the attention on himself or like create another problem like
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you know just to like divert away from like you know what i'm saying
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no not really okay could you give an example um
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when when we were having a birthday party for my kids one time
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But he would just disappear like that from time to time
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who here has dated someone who you consider to be a narcissist show of hands is that
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raise them high raise them high boom boom boom boom okay boom uh and then those of you who raised
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your hand of those men were they diagnosed by a clinician therapist psychologist psychiatrist
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as a narcissist they were diagnosed with oh sorry um they were diagnosed with borderline
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personality disorder not narcissism but it was like it was pretty bad like i trauma bonded with
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the girl that they were like cheating on me with no um were they diagnosed
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um actually he was diagnosed with multiple personality disorder and one of his personalities
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was a narcissist girl one of them yeah okay that's interesting i do feel like it gets like
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um the term gets thrown around a lot though like it's like there's a difference between having
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narcissistic personality disorder and like other disorders that have that like as a main character
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trait yeah uh we have a chat here from anon lexi you get to read it um would anyone on the panel
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that does social media of not publicly disclose a current relationship to protect their income
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following um i mean yeah i mean well i don't i don't disclose anyone that i date like honestly
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I just like I just feel like um there's just no really a point to do that I mean in like certain
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um conversations with a fan like if it's a new fan coming in and he's like like tell me you're
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single please and like if that might be the thing to get him to spend money I might just say it but
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like I mean I'm saying like I already disclosed it here like I have you know like I have a boyfriend
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so I'm not like going to hide that information from the public but every now and then it might
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help with a sale you know what i mean yeah that makes sense me you do of right yeah i think it's
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fine to like keep parts of your interpersonal relationships private from the internet for
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your own safety yeah well i mean you don't need to share like specific details you don't need to
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post them but if you were simply asked hey you know when we're going through the relationship
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questions are you in a relationship you know you okay you are also doing stuff oh he said
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social media or you don't do it you just yeah just you don't do it okay all right well i mean
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i can speak from my own experience of course women do tell me things off the record and given my
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but they lied on the show and said that they're
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are streamers, do social media because it hurts
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men uh these simps want a chance uh and they're probably more inclined to spend more
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on a woman if she's single in the hopes of possibly having a shot with her but if she's
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already in a relationship that is typically a non-starter so yeah makes sense like this girl
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right here she's probably been dating a guy for two years for all we know oh no
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that's why you deleted the content because you didn't want to ever want to see his face
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oh well i just deleted his content because i didn't want him to say oh well you need to send
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me money because you still sell content with me in it yeah like yeah he was very um narcissistic
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like it was literally my face on like all these like social media like platforms and he's like
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yeah those are my accounts so is he like because i filmed everything on there for you huh was he
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like trying to be a manager type thing um i mean yeah that's kind of like what we like we had like
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a contract deal so it's just like a lot sorry i think i i wonder if i should clip farm should i
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clip farm for a little bit um we need to uh for our clips we always like to say uh maybe
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fuck do we do it now the lighting is good during the day um let's do you know what i've never done
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this on the show but just for our clips we always do like have people doing something kind of unique
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to get people's attention uh so for our clips here lexi make a make a little funny silly face
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into this camera that that wasn't silly do you like uh i don't know like do a wink or something
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or do that was terrible okay how about you give it a shot right here camera right here
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dad okay i don't even know what the fuck you're okay
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wow you guys are just this was a terrible idea i regret even i regret even guys come on here
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try it again do that again lexi okay what the fuck i'm just kidding uh should we do should we
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get popsicles i don't know yes i watched the the blonde girl eat the popsicle that was good let's
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uh we'll have to stagger the popsicles because if everybody's eating a popsicle are they the
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lexi goes first get lexi a popsicle get lexi are they the johnny pops yeah that would be fun
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uh open that up we get to eat buy popsicles that would be funny
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yeah i'm sorry i'm just like giving the camera a little side eye
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my gosh it made me nervous why why do i have to have the popsicle it's like i feel so sexual
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i'm sorry just like the word already what do you do for fun in chicago
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why are you let her enjoy the fucking i was trying to give her something to do while she
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ate the popsicle keep it here nathan is that is that how you eat a fucking popsicle this is how i
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eat a popsicle that is i ate all the frost off of it because i have ocd well i want a nice clean one
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and then i enjoy it for real you know yeah all right uh so you're pan yes so you date trans
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people um i haven't actually dated a trans person but i'm open to it uh my boyfriend's like he's
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dated a lot of trans people slay yeah so you haven't dated a trans person but no i consider
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myself pan though still because like i'm open to it i just haven't had the opportunity
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oh my god these girls are like don't get it oh my god okay um okay so uh
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you would date a trans person yeah okay cool would anybody else here
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date a trans person i did i dated a trans person oh i have or would is it how about this do you
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guys think it's um do you think it would be straight for me to date a trans woman i will say
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like i think that it's definitely different like i don't think it would be like because i feel like
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sometimes some trans people will be like oh like this like straight man should like date me but
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like i feel like that's definitely like you're allowed to have a preference because like you
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know some lesbians might not want to date like a trans girl you know because it's just about like
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the parts that we appreciate what if that trans girl doesn't like what if they want to date men
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because well i just mean from the other side okay you know what i mean like if he says he's straight
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and he might not like trans might not be his preference yes you would be considered straight
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because you are dating a woman who is now a woman and is is coming and saying i am a woman and on
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her id it says she her and also you can get an id picture now updated because i have friends that
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I'm sure the women over here on the side of the table want to jump into this.
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have you tried one though uh no so how would you know what it feels like well hold on i've never
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been shot before but i can imagine it'd be really painful to be shot well yeah so like i can you
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know humans have the gift of creativity yeah but i know trans females and i know i've seen their
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puss hold on you don't even know what your pussy looks like but you know what some trans pussy
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looks like i'm not going in there with some like things but yes i've seen like i've have been sent
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photos of like yes this was my before and my after yeah that's not pussy though that's something
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else but it's considered scientific like they made it that scientifically they made biologically
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they took their penis and like they took it and they made it into a vagina so what you're saying
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is my penis as it currently is it is it is it is of the nature to potentially become a vagina
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if you go through the surgeries and you go through the proper needs that you need to yes
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but you're not over here trying to be trans so if i cut my dick off and made it into you or a doctor
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it doesn't fucking matter just it does it's irrelevant here that here the whole uh question
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that i'm about to ask if i were to cut my dick off and like make it into like a fleshlight would
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that be that would be a pussy but are you going through the like everything that you need to go
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through like if you were to just cut off your dick and be like hey i have a fleshlight or
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whatever that's not being trans that's not becoming a woman yeah it's not but like the
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material what you're saying is so but what you're saying is though it's not the same realm because
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you're not here becoming a woman you're not here taking the proper what is it uh estrogen that they
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take uh the shots so it's like it's not the same to sit here and say oh well if i cut my dick off
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and make a puss and is it going to be a puss yeah i mean am i sure okay i'm willing to completely
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set aside the remove like the fleshlight argument then uh let's say it would be to it were to
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maintain on me like i i got the bottom surgery that's not pussy yeah but why did you get the
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bottoms like it's to become and give you what is like supposed to be what you can with what
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your skin is that is your pussy that is what they gave you so just because you don't have
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like it's what the doctor created your vagina to look like just because it's not a basic looking
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vagina doesn't mean it's not a vagina but it's made to look like and to resemble a vagina as
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closely as possible so therefore it's a vagina it may not be a perfect one but it is it's literally
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not a vagina and they have feeling down there as well too so how do you explain that has feeling
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is that a vagina but they're making it look and they're giving you the exact like you can pee out
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of it so if i were to graft my dick skin onto my elbow some people do that is it a vagina
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well if you take someone's nipple and you put the nipple right here and you sew it on is it
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still a nipple yes right so if i put my penis on my elbow it's still a penis no because you're
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taking the penis and you're conforming it into completely different anatomy no it's just an
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inverted penis no they do no there's feeling in there that you can make you a clit like they can
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do it all no that's just part of the penile tissue it's not a clitoris it's not a vagina
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that's that could be disputed but for one thing is certain it's certainly not a vagina
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what if you use a real vagina though like a vagina transplant has that been done is that
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actually been done science i feel like science can't get to that but no science but right now
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it's it's all cause it's cause what is it cause um when it's like looks cause yeah no just like
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um the specific word when you just like cosmetic yeah it's a cosmetic thing where it's like
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yes it cosmetically looks like a vagina does it function like a vagina yes because it is the
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closest thing that you can get to a vagina just because it's not you weren't born with it doesn't
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mean that it's not a vagina i will say i want like an og oh boy an og i would prefer an og
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like an old lady no no we love ladies with preferences no i mean like like an og like you
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know vagina yeah oh okay just as my personal dating preference yes basically what he's saying
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is that like uh dildos are not like real cocks right because it's like just because it looks
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like one performs like yeah doesn't mean that it is because then you could say like because then
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people could say that like someone like isn't gay if they like prefer penetration or if they
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like penetration you know what I mean so it's like if you use that argument like if you use
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the argument against him you're also saying it like the other way around too if that makes sense
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that like if that is a vagina in its original form then a dildo would be like the same thing
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you know what i mean yeah well what about on like a prosthetic like a prosthetic thing like if someone
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gets a prosthetic leg is it not a leg well it's not a leg it's a prosthetic it's a prosthetic
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the word before it's not a biological leg it's a different yeah but it's still a different form
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of leg but it's still a leg well hold on so if we're just changing the definitions of what things
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mean so okay uh somebody who is um somebody who is a uh child abuser is is somebody who has
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piercings in their face what wait what do you mean someone that's a child so if i just change
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the definition for what child abuser is to somebody who has more than uh five piercings
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in their face yeah does that parse in terms of actually trying to convey meaning to but what
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What does it have to do with a fake leg being called a fake?
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It's called a prosthetic leg because it's a prosthetic leg.
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Therefore, if you were going under surgery and on the document it says that you were undergoing a surgery to get a vagina, what is that on paper?
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No, so first off, so a prosthetic leg that's either going to be made out of some sort of metal material,
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some sort of metal alloy, it can be made out of wood, it can be made out of plastic.
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What you're talking about is when they do this procedure, they basically cut a hole into you.
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They incise a hole and they invert the penis into that hole.
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That's a hole which has penile tissue, but it's not a vagina.
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Now, if you want to call it like, no, it's just not a vagina.
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that's what they have like so when you go to pay your medical bills they're like you're paying for
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your penis wound well i don't understand this so um if so okay just because something is labeled
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as such does that mean that you are the thing well just because it doesn't have the same
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just because it's still a vagina okay so like for example you know on the uber app how they just
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rolled out nationwide how women can match with other women drivers and so i could go on the uber
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app and just change my gender uh oh gosh does that because on the uber app it says that i'm
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a woman does that make me a woman so if you were to go to the doctor and no question first so no
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you wouldn't because it's not the same logic okay so i could go my understanding at least in
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california i could go to the dmv i believe it's the dmv or maybe you have to go through the court
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You can do, it's a pretty simple process in California, you can request a change of your listed gender.
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But you actually doing that and you actually being that are two different things.
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Right, so just because a doctor who's an activist who is doing trans surgery refers to the thing as a vagina, doesn't make it a vagina.
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Just because the doctor has it on the paper, I'm not just saying because it's on paper.
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No, what I'm saying is, so if it was on paper and it was like, yes, you were paying for this, this, this, this, this, it's not just the doctor that is saying that, that is medical science that is saying what it is.
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You're literally, hold on, you're talking about science, biology is a hard science, biology is not a soft science, biology is a hard science, so it's actually, you're kind of a science denier, it's interesting, you know, the people that are big on the science thing,
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they're actual science deniers so it's just a biological reality males cannot become females
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females cannot become males uh a man a male so trans woman cannot have a vagina
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through the means of cutting a hole in their pubic area and inverting their penis that is a
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Okay, would it be gay then for me to date a trans woman?
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I mean, yeah, because technically if science is saying that it's not a vagina,
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then yeah, because you're not fucking a vagina.
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Well, what do you mean by science is saying it?
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So when I say that, I mean like when you're born,
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like what science is saying is a man and a woman.
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Well, what if sitting next to me was a surgeon who is a trans activist who performs these surgeries, and they also do scientific research, and they're a scientist, and they claim the science is that this is actually a vagina.
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yeah so they're the scientist and they're claiming that that is in fact a vagina are they correct
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no because it's not that's that's not accurately right based on facts okay so when you say the
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science says you're not just referencing no what i meant to say was like based on what a man and a
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woman is supposed to be when you were born that's what i meant by that's not your position is it
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what do you mean what you believe trans women are women yeah i do okay so trans women who have
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undergone bottom surgery and is that a vagina what is on paper no it's not what you've been
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telling me no from what it is you said it's a hole okay on that specific thing you've completely
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you're conceding on that i mean yeah i mean that's what the show is about is learning things and i
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I mean, honestly, I, like, yeah, it makes sense to me.
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I feel like it's, like, just a, it's a different thing.
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Like, the point is that it's, like, a different thing.
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Because I didn't have, like, the, now that I completely understand it, it's, like, no, that is not a vagina.
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But even if it is written on paper saying you have a vagina, it's for that doctor because they are an advocate for that, like you said.
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like it's like they created a different thing because the point is to make the person who's
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paying all this money for this surgery to like feel better yeah but i understand what you're
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saying on an actual point no it is not a vagina it's not an og yes do you guys
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do you guys want to weigh in on the topic well i mean from the medical perspective
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my understanding is if you have a fake vagina you're not going to an ob to take care of it
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you're just going to probably a surgeon for aftercare um good point and then you can't change
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your dna so still scientifically you're still male or female no matter what your pronouns are
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so then that would make brian having sex with a trans woman that would be gay because it's
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it would definitely be like on the spectrum like i feel like it'd be on the kidsy scale
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sex with a trans woman is gay what if you're attracted to them for their femininity or their
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what feminine feminine qualities do they have a penis i mean you would acknowledge that there
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are trans women who still have what if you're like imagining the butthole as a vagina though
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in your head still i feel like so a male's butthole and you're fucking a male in his butthole with
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your penis i mean that sounds really like i mean just i'm not using this in a pejorative sense
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that's homosexual i mean heterosexual there's like a spectrum to it like if you're if you're
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fucking a male in his butthole that is that is homosexual i mean a little bit no not just a
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little bit that is like the ultimate homosexual act essentially it's what he was telling me to
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enjoy that you would have to be like you know it's what he was telling me how the doctor like
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even though the doctor says what it is it's not that so even if you do imagine it's a vagina
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that's still a but i still think there is a difference though and people that um are attracted
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to trans females and they're attracted to them for like their feminine qualities and people that
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are gay and attracted to like you know like hairy big men like i feel like there is a difference
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yeah because like i wouldn't date like somebody who's like fully transitioned into being like a
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man like because i'm not like into that kind of thing you know there's a difference or like
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but i guess like um a man is like considered gay once he knows that like that woman is trans you
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know and he still wants to like pursue her i don't know i would call it like pansexual because
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there are men who like anal and she looks really feminine wait hold on what wait yeah i would call
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it like either like bisexuality or like like homosexuality you'd be on the kinsey scale for
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sure. Well, wait, wait, wait. To your point, you're saying there are men who like anal sex.
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Giving. It's like if she looks really... Anal sex with women,
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that would still be... Well, if she looks really feminine.
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No, no, no. So if you have... Look, if you have
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anal sex with a biological female, that is still a
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you have any kind of sexual activity with a biological male and you're a male that is a
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homosexual act okay how about like hermaphrodites people with two okay like 0.0001 of the population
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i feel like it's different too if it's like i know this one trans girl and she's like so pretty
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she's like literally beautiful and like she transitioned when she was like 13 years old so
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like you could like you really can't tell so i feel like the kind of person who's like no like
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she's so hot but like the kind of person who's attracted to like that is different than somebody
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who's attracted to somebody who still has like masculine characteristics like you'd be a little
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bit more I would say like gay if you're like into somebody who looks more like your gender
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yeah I agree with that I think like if you like if you look exactly like if if I'm like here right
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now and I have a dick in my pants and you guys didn't know that and like a guy wanted to fuck
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me because he thought that I was a girl that's not gay that's straight yeah that's pretty straight
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before he's like looking at a girl a hot girl and he thinks that like she's like so fucking hot
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she wants he wants to fuck her yeah that's straight but like once you like know that i
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have like a dick in my pants and you're still turned on that's where i would say like that's
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like uh you know yeah like everybody thought my ex-girlfriend was not really straight anymore
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men can be deceived yeah men can be deceived but yes if if he knows that the person is trans
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then yeah then you're gay like you're it's it would be gay
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yeah well how about this uh a lesbian woman being penetrated by a transgender woman with a penis
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is that a heterosexual or a homosexual act wait can you repeat that i wouldn't be down a lesbian
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woman cis i fucking hate that term but a lesbian cis woman who's being penetrated by a transgender
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woman pre-op so she she she has a penis yeah is that heterosexual or homosexual heterosexual i
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feel like you'd be at least more on the buy because i wouldn't be okay with that
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i would be like i would give him a good handshake right i would like buy him a coffee
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but so then but not down are trans women women i would say it's a different like that's the word
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for it so it's like you know it's not like you're like trad wife i feel like if you were
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a transgender woman that was transitioning to like you know fully become like a woman
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you wouldn't be using like your dick you know correct yeah like you'd be using unless i mean
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you use it to pee but not like it's like i don't think you would be using it for penetration if
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like your intention is to like fully go through with it that's correct if you because then you
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wouldn't be that would even if you didn't use your penis it would still be gay it would still
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be gay i mean like if like these two women were together and the woman is a lesbian and she's
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waiting for her to like go through with her surgery like she's still a lesbian you know at
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the end of the day but like if she's being penetrated by like the penis and she's um you
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know the woman that has a penis is not going to fully transition then you know there's a
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there's a little more questions there I guess you're both like lesbian but you're it's like
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difference like there's different like preferences yeah like if you only want to date someone who
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identifies as like female so I can't speak for all trans but if you were if you were going to
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become a woman they do not want to use that in like any sexual anything unless they're using
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the bathroom because it that's not what they want so if you were to do that that's kind of going
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against the whole transformation yeah a lot of trans people don't want you to like touch them at
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all in my experience in my i've dated trans mask people and they're like yeah no like i updated so
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many trans mask people they love single moms and like they never want you to touch them like it's
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like a thing it's very I feel like a lot of people don't want to just be touched like I feel like
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that's in everything well no it gives you like dysmorphia oh body dysmorphia yeah like they get
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body dysmorphia just from touching them yeah like touching their parts that they don't like oh I
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thought I meant just literally like no like like insects they don't want to they just want to be
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doing things yes I don't want you to touch them because it reminds them that they don't like their
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body yes yeah or it reminds them that it's there it do be that way sometimes
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okay um what is a woman um a woman is a girl with a you know certain chromosome I don't know
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what is it the why I don't know which one can you turn like okay just because we we don't like to
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get people's pro side profile um if you can try to stay like straight to the table or even turn
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a bit towards the tv go ahead a woman uh same thing what she said the chromosomes and i guess
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like feminine qualities i guess um long hair uh i don't know makeup so the chromosomes well yeah
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that's like the biological if we're talking like biology then yes yeah but just what is a woman
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well xx chromosomes right yeah um you came out of your mom when you were born and they wrote
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your gender down on your birth certificate and it was girl or boy and apparently now it's like
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you know if you identify as a woman then you're a woman so okay when you come out of your mother
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if you got a little ding-a-ling or if you got a little hoo-ha that's what but i thought trans
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women are women well no because remember we just went over this whole thing where you were saying
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that if it's not a vagina then so you've just completely changed your entire position on this
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I mean, if you're, well, logically, if I'm sitting here and I'm thinking about it, it's like, why would I continue to think that it's a vagina when it's not?
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You just did the whole explanation and it made sense to me.
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So, no, it's not considered a vagina because of what you said.
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Right, but somebody who's like a trans person or trans activist would say even prior to having the bottom surgery or any surgery, it would just come down to genuine.
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identification yeah so are you asking me like if i like if a trans woman is a woman so my
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understanding is the position that for trans people trans activists is as soon as you genuinely id
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yourself as a woman that makes you a woman you don't have to even now you can better align with
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your outward appearance in terms of looking like a woman but as soon your trans identity
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it just requires id self-id yeah i think it has to do like what we were saying before it has to do
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like with the surgery like it's what to make you feel better and to make you feel like a woman yes
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but if you're gonna sit here and be like what is the definition of a woman when you come out of
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your mother and you have a vagina or a dick that's what it comes down to what about you the people
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that stress me out in dating but i agree with you i agree with you okay xx chromosomes
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uh stream yards one yeah uh big labia matter or blm for short all labia can't matter until
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big labia matter as someone who only dates women with large labia this is a pressing issue for me
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very important 10 000 labiaplasty procedures a year in the usa alone 10 000 women are just
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chopping up going getting surgery getting rid of their amazing outies it's very sad very sad
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um if you can't catch the full shows we have a clip what's that i'm sorry i didn't know that
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women were doing that yeah 10 000 a year has anybody here ever felt like any shame
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i thought about it or they have a you have an outie well you know you you i have a kid
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sometimes people get ladyoplasty after they have a kid oh wow because like a baby like you know
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babies are big bro i mean it happened after you had your kid i don't know i just feel like it's
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not like i don't know about it's not the way it was looking i don't know yeah i was thinking about
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because megan fox got one oh okay well it's a thing do you like camel toe
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um do i like camel toe um that's a crazy question well i mean you like labia so i was just wondering
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is it like a thing for you too like you can see the are you talking like yeah like if you're all
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like at the gym and you can literally like see that thing i no not not particularly okay cool
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i don't think it camel toe really does much for me but okay i don't know i mean
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All right, let's see how bad the viewership drops off
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When it comes to like nightlife out there do you
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bro what are you doing oh okay it comes to the nightlife no yeah you want to ask her oh do you
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go that bar on fucking 6th street nobody gives a fuck what are you doing no i was so somebody else
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ask a question come on competence let's see it crazy you guys i believe it's gonna ask about
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your dating life in the nightlife but okay so yeah um who's had plastic surgery raise your hands
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me me i've had my boobs yeah me too the boobs yeah what about you girl mommy makeover well i lost a
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ton of weight and so i don't have to lose skin and then my abs sewn back together you feel like
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it's well you've been with the same person but do you feel like it's changed like your dating life
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after you got like plastic surgery not for him because i feel like people objectify me more now
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that i have i attract meaner people my husband likes me yeah i don't think the worst lesbian
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my husband likes me to show off my body and he would prefer my boobs were out all the time and
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stuff like that it was but like the dynamic makeover was for me yeah of course because I
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had lost a lot of skin then I had my son was 10 and a half pounds so I had a lot of loose skin
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and um between that and losing weight so that made a huge difference for me not having the
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extra skin down below so you feel better yeah I feel better that's amazing I had my abs sewn
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back together too which is amazing because i love going to the gym it was like this big of a gap
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yeah i used to be a fitness instructor yeah so they sew them back together yeah because there's
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no way like you can't do traditional crunches and stuff did you get diastasis recti no no crazy and
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you guys are the only ones with we're the only ones with kids right i think so yeah it's crazy
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you have three yeah um mine looks the same she said mine is all good it does she does good down
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there you feel like dating as a mom you're single right now yeah do you feel like dating as a mom
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is hard because people don't respect that you're a mom yeah um but honestly i don't i think i just
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want to stay single i don't want to bring anyone around my kids yeah i'm always scared to bring
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somebody around them and then like they'll break up with you in like the most savage way possible
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and then you need to like be a mom the next yeah and then you have to heal in front of your kids
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yeah my son was like i don't introduce people i'm dating to my son but he's like oh mommy why
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are you sad that way he's like are you happy he's like he's foreign he's like interrogating me yeah
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does dick size matter to you guys that question's irrelevant yes what about you guys i don't like
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i would say yeah but it's like i don't want it too big like i don't want something i just care
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it's like five and up five and up is good five and under that's why i agree i think five and up is
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five and under you better be carrying some good energy like seriously to replace see that's how
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i know that i don't like guys because like the fact that you would like go for like some people
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would overlook that and like love them despite having a small penis i feel like that's like real
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love i would i would love a man if he had a small penis but he like really like took care of me and
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he loved me back and i knew that i was loved you know also i feel like you can work with small
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it like it does more than you think it does definitely yeah but no what i was gonna ask
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you was when it comes to you like going to work well you too because you said you're a stripper
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right so in the city do you ever run into just like some straight up weirdos that are constantly
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trying to like i know there's the homeless people and there's some weirds like always walking the
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street but have you ever dealt with like stalkers or like people just following you i've never seen
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so many homeless people I got followed by a homeless person and I was surprised they're like
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they stay in their own little groups yeah they're like no here and yeah the way they talk the way
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they talk to each other is like I don't know it's like definitely like a separate like in LA there's
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like a homeless community and they don't really interact yeah like other like in Chicago like the
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homeless people are so like not even noticeable like you don't even notice them even when you're
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a place right by here i walked by and there was like three or four of them they were just kind
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of hanging out but they seemed like they probably hung out there that same spot like every day
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one time i dated a girl who turned out to be couch surfing and she was like she actually she
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was super masked like she literally looked like a boy but it turned out she was like a homie hopper
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like does anybody know what a barracks bunny is oh i know what a home yeah she was a barracks bunny
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and like my ex-husband was in the military a girl that like you know like if you want to get laid
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you're going to hook up with this girl yeah so like my super max to the point that people thought
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we were like heterosexual she was a barracks bunny for men yeah and she was like bi on the low
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it was pretty crazy do you also do you do any like um if you don't feel comfortable answering
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that's fine but besides only fans do you do like clubs like escort anything no nothing else just
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for three years straight i feel like a lot of girls in la are low-key escorts because like
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the math ain't math in chicago escorts are very like it's more it's more recognized and i would
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say only fans like they're very popular we have poker girls in la do you guys have poker girls
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anywhere else no like there's these like really high stakes poker nights and it's like sex worker
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adjacent yeah i wouldn't do it though yeah i know there's a poker scene like in the city but i've
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never like heard of any like other girls in that but like i just know that it can be very dangerous
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if you mess with the wrong people that's what happened my friend married my friend that now
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she does only fans married one of those guys and they were really weird yeah yeah no i've been
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offered some like contracts and like when i went and like sent it to my lawyer it ended up coming
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back in there like this is like i mean there's gonna always be those companies that have those
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things but like as soon as it pops up was crazy like yeah yeah i feel like it's just not worth
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like your mental health exactly and also too i've never done anything like that before so when i was
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like I was like did I like I was like if I want to transfer to this I was it would change like my
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morals and everything yeah and it was like I don't want to just do it for the money and I was like
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I'm not going to change who I am just to sell my body so I have a question you're you're bi right
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you like girls I'm not really I'm I'm more gay yeah I don't really like guys at all what is your
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opinion on like sex workers would you date somebody for if they did like sex work probably
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but then I don't really date feminine girls so I don't really think it would come up but it would
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depend yeah maybe not like I'm monogamous would I date someone that does sex work yeah that is a
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girl yes can you speak straight um I would not why because I also don't date feminine girls and
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also moving forward um like it's just like rare for me to even like date a girl yeah you're looking
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for like you know what you're looking for so it's not in your cards type vibe honestly I feel like
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I messed around with a lot of girls when I was younger because you know like I'm just like
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sexually free and like yeah like sexually like I will do a lot of things but like romantically
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like to like involve myself moving forward I feel like it just like has to actually mean something
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for me to want to pursue it yeah okay but if like even if they weren't like very like so anyways
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Does anybody have any disagreements with me on anything?
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Some of you have maybe seen clips, you've seen the show, maybe.
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well i think that i still deserve you guys on everything holy shit
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all right i remember seeing something at one time you were talking about um dating a 19 year old
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and how you said if that's wrong like there's you said there's nothing wrong with it i don't
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necessarily think it's wrong but i don't think a woman's brain is fully developed at 19 so i feel
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like she's going to change and like you know not be the same person she is now like you know a few
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years from now her beliefs could change her everything could change uh but i don't think
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this is a particularly compelling argument against age gap relationships. So this same
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phenomenon can be observed in women of any age. They could be 25, 30, 35, 40. People change all
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the time. People oftentimes hide their true nature. There's a term for this where people
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are on their best behavior the first couple months things change up but um women reserve the right
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at any time to fucking change up she could be a 30 year old christian woman and then the very next
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day she she could be a catholic she could be orthodox the very next day she can be like i
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believe in divorce goodbye so this idea that well your relationship is going to be more stable uh
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Brian, date a 35-year-old woman, and your relationship's going to be more stable.
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I actually think that the reality is my relationship probably would be more stable with a woman who's younger.
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But I don't know the specific clip you're referencing because I've stated I date women pretty much of all age ranges.
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So I'm not like exclusively like hanging out at college parties to like pick up fucking 18, 19, 20 year olds.
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But if an 18, 19, 20 year old, like she hits me up, I'm not going to tell her no because she's 18, 19 or 20.
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you say the the brain isn't fully developed yeah uh i mean it's not well how do you feel about that
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like you know she's still technically growing you know but she's not a like she's developed
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she's not a child i'm not saying that but i'm just saying like i feel like you know their brain's not
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developed when you were 18 did you date someone that was older than you ever yeah i dated older
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not like like 10 years old did you feel you were like you were taking advantage of no
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but like when it comes to decision making like your prefrontal cortex isn't fully developed until
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you're 25 yeah so i just i mean i don't look the prefrontal cortex thing i don't know like okay so
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what is the the actual difference in development is it like okay at 18 it's 95 developed and then
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at 25 it's a hundred percent developed are they fucking retarded at 18 and then at 25 they might
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as well go to harvard like they're fucking genius iq at 25 ultimately this idea that like oh okay
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well the prefrontal cortex isn't developed so this person is like a spontaneous uh chaotic
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fucking mess and they're retarded i don't know if that's actually true is there some further degree
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of development from the age of 18 or 20 up until 25, I suppose so. But then you also have to
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counter that with, I actually think that there's mental decline after a certain age. Uh, in some
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ways I actually feel like I'm not as, uh, my mental acuity, my mental, like I actually think
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in some ways I might've been fucking a little smarter when I not smarter. I don't know what
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the right word is mental capacity mental acuity might have actually been stronger when i was a
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bit younger maybe in my mid mid-20s i think there's there is a bit of a decline so i mean
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technically maybe these women maybe these fucking 25 year olds or even 20 year olds maybe i'm so
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retarded uh they're taking advantage of me have you taken an iq test before i think uh i have not
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like it was a pretty decent one but i mean iq there's other there's like eq and other kinds
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i don't know i was surprised with my score i think you gotta be careful with the free tests
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online no no i paid for mine even if you pay for it some of these tests will give you but yeah
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grossly incorrect i hope that they didn't because they were like oh there's like purdue and like
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everyone helps with these tests or whatever and so i hope i didn't get scammed or i'm gonna be
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really upset i'll tell you this i had a girl tell me she had 146 iq and then the one that i took
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i was like take this one and then it came back with 107 iq i got 118 so some of these online
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tests there's quite a bit of variance um i took the mensa one uh but i i don't know
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i feel but i what you were saying like how i feel like it depletes like i don't know why but
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like when everyone talks about like the frontal cortex developing i like think that like when i
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turn 25 i'm gonna have this like whole transformation like i'm like like i could
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see it happening like my whole life flashes before my eyes and i feel like that's not
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really how that's gonna be i feel like it's like about what life stages you're at because like if
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you dated like olivia rodrigo or someone who's like you know she has her own place and all that
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who's that guy olivia radriga i just like she's like a she's like that one wait that one song
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where she's like who's that she's like a teeny bopper disney star but now she's 19 and she
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always dates older guys i just and nobody has a problem with it because she's been like an adult
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basically since she was but okay he's like and i left my car there yeah like she's like she has a
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career and like nobody ever like comments on her age gap relationships because she's like
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they see her as more of an adult and she's in that adult life stage type
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I have, uh, chronic brain fog and, uh, like I have a neck injury. So I don't know, I'm kind
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of retarded. So I think technically these women are actually predators because I have some mental,
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you know, like I, I, uh, I have brain fog. I have, um, I had a neck injury, which has an impact on,
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you know, certain things. So, uh, these women are actual, they're preying on me because my
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mental acuity is not these 18 year old college girls are predators when they're dating me to
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be honest i have a question what's your opinion on like using the word retarded if like you're
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not retarded well i am retarded because i'm autistic so like i can say it but like i'm fine
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with are you on the spectrum or you just have neck problems
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like a brain injury a tbi because like i have brain fog but it's from my ptsd
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well okay on the question of the the r word the retard word yeah that's totally okay for anybody
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to use okay you don't have to be a hold on what's that i got something for this the black-eyed peas
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uh everybody knows you never go full retard you don't call retarded people retards yeah it's bad
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taste yeah my friends retards when they're acting retarded my friend always says she's like kayla
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you can use that word because you are retarded but others that are not cannot use that word
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and i'm like i don't think that's true uh yeah i mean i'm totally fine with it yeah my my question
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really was just are you actually retarded or like do you just have like neck i mean i'm saying it
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i'm saying it in a joking way okay okay i didn't know if you actually like were or not all right
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is there anything else you want to know what's your zodiac sign what's your attachment style
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back on topic the age gap conversation do you have more um not at this moment i dated older
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guys when i was in my 20s and i don't think they were weird it was like pretty fun not gonna lie
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well they were like 35 so it wasn't like that much they were 35 and i was like 25 and honestly
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like some of the best dates i've ever had like like they knew how to it was a fun date and look
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to be clear um i'm not like going out i'm not on dating apps and like setting my age filter for
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like 18 to 20 i'm not i'm not on you do i change my filter from um 30 and up love that um but i'm
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not like i'm not i'm not even on dating apps period i uh like but if a 19 20 year old girl
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hits me up in the dms or something i'm not gonna be like now look i have a pretty crazy uh vetting
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process so i mean she could it's not like just default i'm gonna date somebody just because
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they're 20 yeah she's gotta also not be fucking idiot too yeah also there's a lot of research
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that like um women supposedly develop quicker like than men right so or that like even like
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some men never develop as much as women do so well how about this what if um a woman who's 20
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who has a genius level iq and really really high eq dates a guy who's 30 with a average iq and
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average eq yeah then the maturity who's being more predatory is it the woman who has more assets
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probably the girl but it's like they're still developed it's not like one is like incompetent
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i mean i don't know that i think iq or eq really has anything to do with it i think
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maybe your life goals do um if you're a man and you're wanting like a traditional wife
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you may want to look for someone who's younger who isn't like establishing a career wasting her
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younger years going to college racking up debt um there's part of me that wishes i hadn't wasted
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my time going to college simply because I don't use my degree and I'm very happy being a stay-at-home
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wife but I'm also homeschooling my kids but I mean like I did very well in school and there's a lot
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of resources to help you really raise smart children without having a degree to support that
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my husband's 14 years older than me and he we've said in conversations that he would recommend when
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our son is older that he wait till he's like in his 30s a bit more established has his career going
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before he starts really looking for a wife and then that he looks for someone who's quite a bit
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younger um so that he can have if that's the dynamic he's wanting if he's wanting his wife
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to be a stay-at-home housewife then he's able to find it um and someone who's going to be less
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combative can i have a johnny pop no maybe later uh let's see i don't know uh okay does anybody
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here have any want to weigh in on the age gap debate um when i was it would be 16 turning 17
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in high school um i dated this guy well we weren't dating he strictly wanted to have sex with me
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um and at first i 100 thought it was normal i was like this is okay he was 24 25 and i was like this
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is normal this is okay and then i realized down the line i was like he was definitely taking
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advantage of me um there was no uh there there was just a line like i'm 17 and you are over here
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that almost twice my age well you were a you were minor yeah yeah well no the legal consent age in
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indiana is 17 oh really yeah oh i didn't actually i think it's 16 oh okay that makes sense i feel
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like um yeah one time i went on a date with this girl that was like 40 and like she was so weird
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about it like she was like i was like okay like i thought i was gonna go great like i thought i was
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like doing a good job on this date and then she was acting so weird she was acting like she thought
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that like she was a predator and i was like girl we're just like in west hollywood right now like
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don't get in your head it does suck like that because like at first you don't realize what's
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going on and then i was like i don't want to never feel like that yeah i was like i'm employed i have
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like five jobs in my own apartment brie don't you have some thoughts on the age gap stuff
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i mean um i think life experience like has a lot to do with it um but yeah i think it is a little
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i don't know like sauce if there was someone that's you know old enough to be
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my like grandpa or if i was like let's say i was 18 and like there was a guy that's like in his
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60s and he's like you know it's in my dms i'd be like okay that's a little like why aren't you
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looking for someone more on your level and you know just because life experience i you know i
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like um i mean i prefer dating guys in my age range because we can talk about the same tv shows
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that we grew up on and just little things like that and i feel like someone way older than me
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it's like what we would we even have to talk about you know unless you have like really strong
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shared interests yeah something like that's true can you scoot your mic to the edge of the table
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um yeah okay uh I mean yeah we can go to these kind of extreme examples where you have like a
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70 year old trying to date a 26 year old um I think probably most the person on the younger end
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probably isn't going to be into that but money or something I mean if you wanted to date him
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and he wanted to date you i don't actually see an actual problem with it i mean yeah if it's
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legal and consensual you're 26 so yes it would definitely be legal okay yeah just in general
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like if guys are that go for like more like 18 year olds like that would also be legal that's
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true but i'm just saying that it's still just i don't know it's still just it's like why not look
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for someone more in your age range there's so many people out there well let's do something
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more realistic so i'm 36 um i want to have kids i want to have uh family so from that perspective
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wouldn't that be a really fantastic justification for dating a woman who's like 20 well you have
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20 something but if it's just like you know if it's like exclusively or you're seeking out like
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the 18 19 like barely legal then there is something like it's like it's like how low would you go if
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the law said like you know let's just say the law said you can date a 13 year old it's like i feel
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Like, there's so many guys that would date a 13-year-old.
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Like, how Indiana, the legal age of 17, it's, like, would you sink down to 17?
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I just honestly think it's just a little bit weird.
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Like, as a 30-plus-year-old man, like, why are you going for somebody who just got, like, out of high school?
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I think you've lived enough, like, life to, like, know, like, how to live it in a way.
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And, you know, when you're freshly 18, you're probably still living with your parents.
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and you're just kind of like kind of like a like a lost puppy and it feels like kind of like
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i don't know like you're not even legal to like drink yet like what do i do with a 30 plus year
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old man if i'm 18 i feel like some guys um they don't really think of it that way they don't look
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as a as you just got out of high school they look at her as an 18 year old not oh you're barely
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legal it's just how their mind works and how they perceived the girl they don't look at her like
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that like they're not going to think about the high school aspect unless there's some weirdo
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who's trying to purposely harm them uh they don't they're not going to go out of their way and just
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be like i know she's freshly out of high school it's more or less it came up on bumble and it
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said she was 18 i mean an 18 19 year old can be living on their own finishing up their first year
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in college of college so um i mean it's your framing there is kind of a bit disingenuous
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fresh she's literally a child she's freshly out of high school it's like it's very uh sort of
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bad light framing um a yeah it's basically just frank doing a frame game um but ultimately um
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yeah i mean in terms of i think you referenced commonality like okay so um
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do you think men and women have a lot in common i mean they can if you have the similar like
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similar tastes and more interests i don't think it's really a gender thing um i don't know okay
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but since when has commonality ever been like the ultimate deciding factor in whether you date
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somebody you cited to what if you like the same movies and blah blah blah first off i can show
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her all the movies I can show her like get her on some good music so I can introduce her to all
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that but then also it's like I don't know this this idea of commonality wouldn't you agree that
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there are people who'd be your exact age or older who you have nothing in common with also well yeah
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but then you probably wouldn't want to date someone or at least I wouldn't I prefer dating
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people with my like it doesn't have to be exactly the same exact um interest but it would be nice
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if we could you know go out and do things that we both enjoy doing together um i mean but also
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i do understand opposites can attract but i don't know i'm just saying it doesn't even have to be
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opposites but like okay do you think a 30 year old and a 20 year old and they're both part of the
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same christian denomination do you think they have more in common than a 30 year old christian man
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dating a 30 year old atheist well yeah probably so there's probably more alignment on like core
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actually important values i mean yeah i guess yeah despite the age gap so a 20 year old christian
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woman dating a 20 like catholic whatever dating a 30 year old catholic man there's more alignment
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and more in common than he would have with a 30 year old like liberal atheist woman
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well i suppose yeah if i was talking more like just generational things i'm just thinking in
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my mindset of like what i'm looking for i just i don't know i couldn't imagine myself dating
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someone that's way too like cultural cultural touchstones i guess like oh my god she didn't
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have a game boy color like i don't give a fuck i don't know i'm really picky it's like we have
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to like the same video game i feel like it matters more to some people but like i prefer dating
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older people because i have a kid and i found that like people at least in la because you know
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la is so like people age slower it's like i feel like i have to date someone like 36 for them to
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be in the same space that i'm at you know what i mean because i'm like okay like i'm i'm a mother
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you guys i have to wake up and like show this kid paw patrol like girl i also feel like it does have
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to do with like what you like like if i'm gonna date a guy it's gonna be because we have similar
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interests when it comes to what we like I'm not going to date a guy if we have nothing in common
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and when it comes to things like that well okay um but I I don't know if I got an answer from my
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question earlier which was um I'm 36 do you think it is more beneficial for me to date a 35 year
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old versus a 20 year old well if you're saying because you want kids um I I mean 35 year olds
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can still have kids, especially with like, well, that that's true. That's true. But let's say we
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meet 35. Like you guys just met. Well, just to be clear. So, okay. Yes. Women can have kids into
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their forties. Um, but of course, once you hit 35, fertility does start decreasing, but it's not
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look, some people go about that conversation the wrong way. Oh my God. Once she's 35, she's,
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she can't have kids. That's not true. Um, it does as you age, actually, I mean, starting at 25,
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even your fertility gradually, slowly decreases. So, so, but yes, of course women can definitely
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still get pregnant, but, um, just on that, that primary component, uh, when a woman's younger,
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the, her fertility is better. Uh, her ability to bounce back is much greater if she's younger.
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and if you want a lot of kids which it seems like you said you do then you need a young woman because
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yeah she's not going to be able to bounce back if she's in her 30s and starting to have kids
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versus in her early 20s i will say like i can't imagine having a kid like right now even like
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but i had my first kid when i was 26 and i'd be like i would be scared of like the like
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exhaustion level at the exhaustion level of somebody at like 26 versus 30 is like so different
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you know like I'm tired I mean yeah there's that there's um you know okay say I'm 36 I made a girl
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who's 35 okay uh let's date for one to two years and then start you we're not gonna have a kid
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right away so she's gonna be 37 by the time we even start trying to have a kid and it's like
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that's definitely less than ideal so there's a biological basis for men having an attraction for
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younger women, younger women. Um, and then also just the reality is younger women are just more
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attractive physically and that's tied to fertility a little bit, but I mean, I don't necessarily
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agree that, um, women are always attractive younger. Like I, it's not the argument. I mean,
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okay. Well, back to, um, the point, I guess since you want seven kids, then yeah, it would make
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sense for you since that's what you want, like for a 20 year old. Well, here, let me double down
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Just more physically attractive. I mean, that's your
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he was 30. Yes, absolutely. Um, however, a 30 year old has had 10 additional years of potential
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life experience where they've, I mean, it could have been relationship baggage,
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even if it's not like abusive levels of trauma. Uh, typically people get a bit of relationship
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baggage, even if it's not like, like severe abuse, like, okay, you get more jaded as you get a bit
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older. You lose a bit of your spark as you get a bit older, generally speaking. Um, and then just
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on a purely physical level, this applies to both men and women. Uh, although there's some differences
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between men and women. Yeah. As you age, you're not as typically, uh, you're not as physically
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attractive. Yeah. I feel like I was talking to my friend about this earlier. Cause my friend and I
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both went through a breakup and we're like, I feel like it was so much easier to date people
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when you're younger because you don't have that like relationship baggage. And like somebody at
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20 is, like, a lot more open to, like, fixing relationship problems and not, like...
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Is there a particular reason, or can you say it on camera, please?
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okay are you okay uh can okay can you kind of give us an explanation there i guess or what's
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going on alexis all is well what would you like to know off my notes well uh just i guess why did
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Didn't you, like, fly out here just to be on the show?
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i did have two hours of sleep because i got broken up with it two in the morning and i was
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doing scrolling not not to put that on anyone else just take an energy i'm chilling though
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sorry because you're not getting enough attention or oh no
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i'm happy to answer anything if you'd like if not that's fine too
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bro um like a few times during this conversation i've tried to direct
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conversation towards you and you're like giving fucking nothing oh if it's about like it so i'm
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just confused like on one hand it seems like you want to leave because you're not feeling
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like you're engaged enough in the conversation but the moments that i've tried to direct the
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conversation towards you you've not been contributing oh no it's okay i don't i'm not
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the amount of times you've talked to me is fine
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okay so were you dissatisfied with the level of attention you were getting i'm just trying to
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understand no okay because like in our in our questions or whatever um we do ask if you're
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able to make it for the full production uh we disclosed like how long the show goes so
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yeah maybe i didn't read the part of how long it was
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are you hungry or something you want to order door dash or something
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no i'm just i'm literally tired that's it you're tired okay dude you got plans after this or what
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would i go to bed at like 8 p.m eastern every night so this is very late for me too
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if it was something else i'd tell you like if i felt left out i'd literally just say it or talk
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you're just wondering why with the preparation why you continue to sew
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okay um all right well i'm gonna read your notes now for whatever um i do want to come back to i
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guess the age gap stuff you should take an energy shot yeah let's try and stay for a little bit
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productions are always long yeah just take an energy shot see how you feel i'll take one with
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you yeah let's take shots guys yeah we can't all get off camera we can we can do one at a time
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yeah we can do one at a time if she wants one i'm not getting any communication from her if she
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wants to yeah that's true i would like one because i'm tired can i have some water please
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all right tiffany help them out please i i do have a bloom energy drink there girl
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me if you could pass it to me yeah i definitely see what you mean though with the whole age gap
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thing because i'm like on i feel like the older i'm gonna i'm gonna table the age gap i'm gonna
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do her notes uh okay we already went over the chubby chaser you have juicy stories from your
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experience only being with big guys the one man that you dated in your life he was five two and
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LET'S SEE, YOU WRITE, BEING A THINNER WOMAN WHO LIKES
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YOU SAID SOME OF THE VIEWER COMMENTS YOU DISAGREE WITH
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I disagree with some comments I get, but sorry.
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Okay, what are the things in which you disagree with?
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Well, I guess I get a lot saying that, you know,
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I'm being dishonest for liking overweight men,
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anything you disagree with the show slash host on,
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along with a few past guests so as it relates to the past guests what are the things in which
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you disagreed with them on i can't name anything specific i guess there's just been some like
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you know uh directed toward women who do my line of work and
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i don't know i don't have anything too juicy on that i can't think of anything
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specific, I'm sorry. Nothing. Are these childproof? I can help you, girl. I have a toddler. You guys got fake nails. Yes, the nails. I'll help. If anybody can help, it's me. Just put the trash on the ground if you can. Or also you guys can use this cup. Oh my god, that is so mean. Or put it in the pocket. Yeah. Or put it in the pocket. Put it on the ground. It's okay, the lesbian will help. Do I drink the whole thing? Okay.
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so yeah you check the whole thing this is one survey hey guys quiet please go ahead
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i can't think of anything specific any specific comment at this very moment
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you said that this you disagreed with comments directed at people in your line of work your
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profession so like only fans right okay what um
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hi dating podcast where conversation is expected sorry if i'm not moving quick enough for you
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i'm thinking you can move on to someone else if you'd like sorry i'm trying
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so what about the viewer comments you disagree with
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i don't know the mean ones what but is there like a specific
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you know they i can't read comments here and i can't recall you know a video i watched six
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months ago if i could see the comments here i'd be happy to share my thoughts um all right you
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said you went out with a 500 pound guy who got attention of tens everywhere you guys went
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mm-hmm okay um uh you say women care less about men's height weight than they think
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on i'm prompting you i'm yeah prompting you yeah i i just think a lot of men in modern
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dating think that you know women won't date a guy who's under six feet tall and make less
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than six figures and i just don't find that to be the truth i think women really don't care about
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a whole lot women what do you think I agree I agree too I'm like I mean I do I like to think
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that I have the high standards but like when it comes to like physically um my standards are not
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that high when it comes to height um this has been a hard one for me because I'm tall I'm 5'9
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so when I was in high school and I was very like egotistical and very in my head I 100% was like
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I will only date a guy that's taller than me and when I did date someone that was my height
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I was turned off by it but it wasn't more or less because of him it was like it wasn't because of
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him it was just like my mentality and like my high school childish self and I was like I was
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just like I had a standard and I didn't want to and I wanted to meet it and now is your dad taller
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than your mom um no oh my mom was pretty tall she passed away last year but yeah my mom was really
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tall yeah my mom's pretty tall too um but yeah no my boyfriend it's funny because like now my
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boyfriend he's like shorter than me so and I love him to death honestly the first time that I dated
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a guy that was like as tall as I am and I'm pretty sure please speak straight yes okay I am 411 and
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um I dated a guy that was like 5'2 and the sex was really good because like the meat is like in
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the perfect position yeah it's like it's not too tall you know like I don't have to like arch up
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the only thing with being tall and eating someone short is like having sex in the shower
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it doesn't work because i'm taller i like i like girls that are close to my height because like
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it's weird if they're too tall like if they're too tall i'm like hey how's the weather up there
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how are you doing like my boyfriend like can climb me like when i'm wearing platforms like
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i feel like he can okay girl yeah like i like yeah i do feel like it depends though because
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some girls seem to be like more superficial but i think it's like also a maturity thing
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yeah 100% like when I was in high school I was like I want a tall guy like I was ruthless yeah
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I was awful I was a I was I was a hoe in high school like I was a hoe and had very high standards
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and that shouldn't have been it yeah I was so mean to men in high school if they dated me in
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high school I'm sorry preferences has anything to do with maturity I think like me I'm gonna
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say straight up like I like taller men I will not date a shorter man you like that's just like
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that's just like I'm still like because I think in a way like when you're dating somebody like
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Like, in a way, like, you're going to have to be, like, somehow, like, sexually attracted to them.
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You need to be very sexually attracted to them in the beginning.
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So it's, like, when they're tall, like, that's, like.
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uh, past, past should not matter. I think some of you agreed on that. Uh, we're just going to do
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this. Okay. We usually do a bit later, but we'll just do it now. Uh, body count, body count. Yeah.
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I have it in my notes app, but I'm pretty sure it's either five or six. Well, I wrote it down
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because backstory, some girl told me she was like, what's your body count? And then she was like,
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check your notes. And I was like, what? She was like, yeah, check your notes. Everybody has a
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notes up i was like what i didn't know that everybody like writes down their body count
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on the note i think when you're younger you do i do in order the names yes because i wanted to
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know exactly what my real body count was five to six it's five to six what about you 28 28 okay
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it's probably 20 and up okay i have a list it's 16 16 you have a list okay probably 30 30 maybe
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like four okay like 25 one oh 15 cool healthy numbers what about you i'm a virgin he's lying
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don't you have children what about the labia i don't know i just it's like a thing yeah you can
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look at labia and still be a virgin like what like that's how we probably he said that it grips
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the lips that grip right that was visceral no he was watching a video he saw it on a video
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With AI technology now, you can actually feel it through the video.
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I'm actually waiting until I'm 40, so I can claim to be a 40-year-old virgin like the movie.
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Do you want to lose your virginity to, like, 20-year-old, like, maybe on a high school?
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I'm actually hoping to lose my virginity to, like, a geriatric woman.
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that's maybe like 60 or 70 oh that's sick that's gonna be like cobweb plus like i'm gonna go
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i'm gonna go to the the nursing home yeah like you you'll like go down there and you'll have to
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like blow on it like and cobwebs will fall off but like what kind of 60 or 70 like calabasas or
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like no he's a nursing home like the appalachian trail no he's a nursing home the appalachian
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trail you might like my grandma set me up hook it up yeah she's in a nursing home right now
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I have a sew-in right now, I naturally have really curly hair
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Well, actually, technically, so this is something that always annoys people.
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I'm Cherokee tribe, Indian, black, Russian, and Ukraine.
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Here, we're going to do, what is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband?
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um 60k that is not what you wrote on the paper tell me what you wrote on the paper
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okay okay okay six to seven figures six to seven yeah well i mean like ideally that would be like
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in an ideal world you know like but like what i would be like content with that's like a minimum
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yeah minimum yearly income yeah but six to seven that's a massive range that's anywhere from a
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hundred thousand dollars to ten million dollars more even uh or well nine point one nine nine
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whatever um that would be like in like a dream dreamland you know okay so but for on the six
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figure end what's the minimum give it give me a number um well like 60k would be like that that
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is not six figures that's five figures yeah that would be like an actual like minimum you know
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oh my god wait you haven't asked us any like when was world war one
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you're right i haven't i haven't done that yet that's a great observation no my favorite one
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was what country was the vietnam war in here let's say oh my god oh my god let's save it
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please guys so okay you wrote down six to seven figures so is the minimum a hundred thousand
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well yeah i mean if you're talking about six to seven figures then that would be a minimum
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yeah so not 60k no 100k yeah but that's only 40,000 more okay what about you um no preference
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as long as like the bills are paid um and so there is a preference well okay like not
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preference bills paid okay do you live with your open relationship yes boyfriend yes do you split
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the rent or does he pay it uh well i i have a mortgage and it's mine it's in my name so i don't
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expect him but does he contribute yeah he contributes but not to like the mortgage like
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but he gives you money i mean like rent well he doesn't give really give me like he'll pay for
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like um you know groceries and just things like that yeah all right i don't really i don't know
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i'm not really high what about you 100 000 100 000 what about you 100 000 that's not what you
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wrote. What did you write? No, I said $100,000 to $150,000. You wrote $150,000. Oh, did I say,
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oh, sorry, I thought I did a parenthesis. Yeah, $150,000. Okay, what about you? I just want a
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girl who matches my lifestyle. Like, I want to go to Erewhon together, so maybe like $70,000, $60,000.
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What about you? Maybe like $20,000, $20,000, $30,000. Okay, $20,000, $30,000. Sure, if he has a job, that's good.
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Okay, what about you? I said $30,000. What about you? I think I said $70,000 when I was dating.
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that's what i imagined but my husband okay what about you um like 50k all right how tall are you
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and what's the minimum height actually hold on really quick 150 000 and you live in chicago
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why do you say it like that and you live in chicago well i mean based on my spending habits
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and i thought you were in san diego yeah but chicago is a city and i'm from chicago i was
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born and raised over there okay i just got here not too long ago how long ago i'm new to this not
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true to this okay um um just based on my lifestyle and like how i am and just what i've been given
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uh yeah that would be i want them to make equal to it or more than my parents make parent made
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you want a guy to make equal to what your parents make parent or parent yeah your parents make
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150 more yeah but I don't understand that so just like what if your parents made a million dollars
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a year no I wouldn't expect that because I mean well I wouldn't know because that's not what they
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have but what I was given and what I'm used to and what I know I would there's certain things
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that I would get rid of and that I would sacrifice but when it comes down to what I like and
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what I want to live uh yeah that would be the salary because I'm not going to dim down what
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i'm not used to how much do you make though um it depends on the month but are you talking about
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what i make with kaylee's creations or what i made when i worked retail well you're currently
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because right now i i'm applying to work at a dispensary you've been dating a guy for one year
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over a little year how much does he make um well and how old is he he's 24 and it's hard to say
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what he makes because he lived in florida and then he moved to chicago to be with me so he just got
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the job at the airport so he hasn't had like a yearly pay stub okay so i think he's gonna make
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by the time he's 30 35 you think he'll make 150k i think that he can do that yes 100 he can but
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you think he will you know yeah does he have a college education no he has a job at the airport
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what does he do baggage handling no he right he has the certification to drive the tugs and to do
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like all of the actual transporting and he can drive all the like machines that are on the runway
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yeah he tugs he drives the tug and he also transports baggage or how much does it pay i don't
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know uh okay chicago o'hare o'hare uh what's the title um i guess he works for airplane tugger
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salary wait no because it's a certain company that he works for he works for AGI
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aircraft ground handling tug driver generally AGI generally range from approximately 18
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to over 20 an hour yeah and he's not going to keep that job annual pay typically falls between
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27,000 and 45,000 dollars nationally it's like poverty but also that's like we live with my dad
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That's not the job I expect to make $150,000 with.
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So what is the trajectory from 24 to, by the time he's 30, 35, making $150,000?
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What do you, like, getting a different job that can get more?
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I said $100,000 to $150,000, but then I just decided on $150,000.
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My thing should have said $100,000 to $150,000.
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And $100,000, if he doesn't make $100,000, that's great, even lower.
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Because at that – well, no, I don't know because it's like I haven't had to make that sacrifice where it's like, oh, put this because you can't get this.
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No, if I was 30 years old, I would not only date men that made
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But I'm not going out of my way to ask what they make.
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But you said the minimum income to be your future husband.
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You're dating a guy and you have a magic eight ball right here.
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And the magic eight ball tells you, you ask it, will he at any point in his life, say 40, will he make $100,000?
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And if the magic eight ball could give you a number, it says, no, he'll only make 50,000.
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Will she get a guy who makes $100,000 or $150,000 a year?
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Here, you read it for me because I don't want her to think I'm lying.
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My dear, I don't think you're going to get a guy who makes $150,000.
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It's okay, because, I mean, at the end of the day, that's what I'm striving to make for myself.
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So if he can't afford that and I've got to pay a couple dinners here and there, I'm fine doing the 50-50.
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When that comes down to it, it's like minimum, what would you want your ideal guy to have?
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it's a yeah a hundred thousand but if he doesn't make that am i gonna like it depends like ideally
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wouldn't you want to date a guy who makes a hundred million dollars a year i mean that's the
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ideal if he has a shitty personality and he's a shitty person no right but like but yeah i would
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yeah the minimum is like when we're talking about the minimum that's okay so minimum i would not
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really hard time finding a guy who's a millionaire that's true because they at the end of the day
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they still like i feel like because i also work one of my uh one of my tiktok streams is luxury
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sales and definitely some of my co-workers are like way above like 150 and i will say like first
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of all i don't think they want to date they don't want to date somebody that doesn't come from their
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same background at the end of the day but then she still has to be hot right you know this idea
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here is like as a woman let's say you're you're a business owner and you make a million dollars a
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year if your standard is then good but you're like 300 pounds like just because you make a lot
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of money that's gonna probably close doors for you because you're not willing to date a guy
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who makes uh maybe i don't know maybe data guy makes 500k but are you gonna want to date a guy
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who makes 40k 50 60k if you're making a million as a woman no probably but but men don't value
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a woman's money yeah exactly so women do women want to be taken care of what women want to be
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provided for at the end of the day every girl you're saying minimum like yeah 60 but what i
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know and like what i like to spend i like handbags i like expensive things i like designers so it's
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like so you like so hold on you like expensive handbags so perfect guy but like I buy my own
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handbags but I would like my guy to have that because it's like it's nice to have but at the
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end of the day I can buy my own things so okay let's say hypothetically I wasn't the starving
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college student that I am I wasn't a starving artist that I am and you know let's say
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hypothetically i made seven figures a year hypothetically uh you know i made a million
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two million dollars a year hypothetically i'm not asking you to spend that on me it's just i like to
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know that you have that i'm not buying you jack shit i don't know where you're going with that
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no i'm saying like i'm not saying you i mean like if the person you're using you yeah okay i
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understand i'm not buying you shit either great love it so the question is though if i can try to
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finish my thought is even if i make a million two million a year and i'm good and i can afford to
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buy a five thousand ten thousand dollar purse okay i did not say that expensive okay i don't
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know how much purse is fucking okay a nice handbag like coach like 500 i the most i spend on a handbag
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is a thousand dollars if i make a million dollars a year hell will freeze over sooner than i would
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ever buy my girlfriend a $5,000 purse. I don't expect my boyfriend to buy me a $5,000 purse.
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Like I said, I would buy it for myself, and I bought every single one of my purses by myself.
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I won't buy her a $500 purse. She can get a purse at Costco. She can get a purse at Amazon.
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You sound like my boyfriend. Your boyfriend's a fucking legend, though.
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Because he goes, Keely, you don't need your nails done for the show. You don't need them done.
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And then my dad gave me the money for my nails.
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okay um anyways um i don't know where we were see and this is why i have preferences because
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i don't want that for myself this is why i said that you have to make the choices
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that you want your life to well also to be married to a rich man and you want to be
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financially taken care of you need to make those choices he is correct though because i am not
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walking on a red carpet i'm on a podcast so is he correct yes choosing that man that that tells
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you don't get your nails done he didn't say i couldn't he was just saying i have your nails he
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He was just saying, for this trip, do you really need
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He was the one who paid for my hotel here and he was the one who paid for my
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like um we're really down yeah like i mean like if a man wants to have like a good relationship
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fertile relationship with seven kids then he should date a younger girl you know and if you
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want to end up with a rich baby daddy you should make those choices you know i will say like my
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kid's dad like it's interesting you can't just keep on putting your standards down to be with
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this guy that could it's not putting your standards down it's more or less getting um what is it
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held when you meet in the middle of compromise like i just paid for having faith i just have
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your whole i just paid for your whole entire trip why do i also need to get your nails done
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you're right baby you don't need to get my nails done you just paid all this money for this
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i will find my way to get my nails done pay for fake nails ever why because they're fake nails
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and they cost money and they ruin your nails not women don't need fake nails fake nails serve no
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utility they don't i 100% agree with you they are i know but they're and guess what it's hard
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wipe my butthole and type on my keyboard when i'm gaming but guess what i like looking like this
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there's probably crazy bacteria under no and no i just got these done but no like when i'm gaming
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and i have you pooped since you got the nails no no actually i haven't i've been peeing you're
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constipated well if you always tell your girl never get your nails done never get your nails
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done and then you see a girl she has these beautiful nails and you're looking at them
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i can then i see you it's so hard to game i'm i'm gonna be having a day for real i'm a gamer
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If you met me and I have my nails done, I have my lashes done, I have my hair done,
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you should be able to maintain that because that's how you met me.
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You shouldn't be, like, disappointed whenever, oh, I don't have my hair done.
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But that's not his responsibility to keep your glamour.
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You have to enlighten and guide a woman away from her consumerist vain behavior.
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Yeah, but you have to appreciate her as she is.
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Like if I was dating this girl, them fake titties are out.
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Would you not let me get a sew-in if we were dating and I went on the show?
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So I have a show-in right now where they take fake human hair, real human hair, and they
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I'm not even Muslim, but you're getting a burka.
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It's the one that covers, like, you only see your eyes.
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I will say, it's crazy how much guys have to, like, pay for girls, because, like, my
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kid's dad is like oh like this girl is asking me to pay for all these things and it's like that's
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not something that i have to deal with with dating like girls so it's like it it do be expensive i
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was supposed to be straight male order a burka for what hey why for the show yeah just like
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to see if any girls would be down to put one on on the show i will you should put it on the doll
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i have a furry one but it's like made like it's like it's covered in like i'm gonna put lexi in
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a burka? I would be in a burka. I would be in a burka with a Catholic chain on, or what
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is it called? Rosary? I'm so sorry. Is that a seal? I don't know. Okay. How tall are you
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and what's the minimum height of a man you would date? I'm 4'11 and the minimum height
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would be five seven five eight um i'd say like five seven how tall is your boyfriend uh five nine
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okay what about you i'm five one i i think i put five five and above um i'm five nine
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and minimum of a day is five seven i'm four eleven and she can be my height but preference
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preference preferentially like an inch or two like on me you know okay like a little
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I'm 5'3. I don't really care. I don't have a preference.
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I'm 5'4 when I'm feeling extra confident, and they just got to be my height or higher.
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I'm 5'5. I know I wrote 5'4 there, but I'm actually 5'5.
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the only reason um so i thought i was five four for the longest and then me and this girl at work
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she was like you got to be like five six i was like i'm not five six and so we measured each
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other and i'm five five and i would only date five seven or higher okay pretty reasonable there from
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everybody we have uh a question here from oh also guys uh debate university.com
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stream, like the video. Gorlock the Destroyer, on a scale of 0 to 10, rate your own looks.
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Do it face, body, total. You can't pick seven, so let me give you an example. I guess I can
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answer it first. Face, 4.5. Body, 4.5. Total, 4.5. So say it just like that if you can. Go ahead.
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okay um face six um body five uh total 5.5 okay um face five body six total 5.5
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the total number would still be on a scale of 0 to 10
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Face, I would do 8 if I didn't have a double chin, 8.5.
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And then body, ooh, I'm a little chubby right now.
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uh what about you la is like super cutthroat so it's humbled me so i feel like face like six
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and then body 6.5 so average like 6.25 okay what about you i'd say face five maybe body
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five five like face three body four so like 3.5
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uh face six body five 5.5 face five body five so five okay mostly pretty reasonable
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from everybody maybe some slight disagreements except for two of you
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nine point five eight point five i said eight oh excuse me you said eight because of the double
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chin yeah i like when i work out and i'm slim and this is gone and i have like my jawline
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like this right here you see this this i do see that i definitely see that yeah that needs to go
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it down a bit more yeah oh my god this is so bad like oh sorry i didn't mean to but like if i but
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like yeah this needs to go i get it from my dad you could get lipos that's i know that's no as
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soon that's the one thing that's gonna go i'm just waiting till i turn 25 so it actually like uh why
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why can't average women just think that they're average looking but okay hold on i'm gonna get
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into that but first we have a tts coming through claim donated two hundred dollars yo thank you
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toxic femininity is the theme tonight chair one has such a high opinion of herself where do chair
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one and two dance you both look like strippers is the point they all full of shit where's andrew
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didn't you say one didn't you say 5.5 wilson who andrew wilson he's is on the show a lot
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didn't you give yourself a 5.5 i'm exposing myself right now i've like only seen it on instagram i've
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only seen the show on instagram you can pull that up natalia thank you for the gifted 20
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memberships guys w's in the chat for natalia thank you natalia she's my favorite natalia
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oh favorite person i know names natalia uh all right thank you natalia thank you thank you for
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the 20 i don't know why wait why does you think that we look like strippers like have you have
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you ever taken a step outside of your house have you ever touched grass i was gonna say they said
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that you're full of yourself you gave yourself an 8.5 like they're humble like what do you think
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i'm wearing right now just like a bikini hello you are wearing a bikini top i am wearing a bikini
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top that's zipped up with the long anyways okay um back to this so uh thank you claim by the way
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for the message uh okay yeah why why don't average women just think that they're average looking
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no nothing i feel like it depends on your perspective because like i think like after
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i i've been working on tiktok for like two years and i think you start to see your appearance in
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more of an objective way plus i work for like chinese companies and they'll be like your makeup
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doesn't look good like that so it's like w china i love them though they're amazing they're so blunt
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but like i think when when you start to work in an industry that's on your appearance you start
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to separate like how you feel about yourself from like your appearance you know what i mean
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being in the modeling industry especially being a goth and being alternative you definitely see a
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lot of different people in a lot of different ways wait you're you're a model i do um i didn't
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you look at my instagram before i do amateur modeling i modeled for the alley in chicago
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twice the alley they're like the biggest alternative goth clothing store in chicago
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who the fuck is that guy yeah muhammad ali no like goth like alternative fashion
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okay um i also do modeling yeah my dashing striking good looks and then when i was yeah
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when i was little i did um think high of myself looks okay when i was little i my mom like grew
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up with putting me in like agencies and everything and then as i started gaining weight i stepped out
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of the actual Victoria's Secret one-way perfect model
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No, like what is a man, a celebrity that you would consider a 9.5?
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Like if you think you're a 9.5, who's your equal?
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adam sandler adam sandler's an 8.5 yeah to you okay we can see where your scale is
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what uh can you hit the image tabs please i am wait why are we comparing ourselves to men
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So obviously, he's a white and you're Asian, so...
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okay eight that's fine let me know when you have it uh young blood uh okay um yep that that dude
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okay um can you zoom or or ozzy or ozzy osborne all right down a little bit
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okay all right um that's actually like pretty spot on like his face is like an eight but his body
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her name's veronica thank you that's very helpful well no she's a she she does um like human
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suspension she was my trainer so i like need a look it's veron i believe her instagram is
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veronica queen of pain just give us a celebrity jenna ortega jenna ortega jenna ortega jenna
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ortega isn't she the one who fucked her eyebrows up yeah let's do pre-fucking up the eyebrows jenna
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i don't know these some of these photos are not particularly flattering of her like scroll down
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okay so that's what she looks like so like the third like the dead corpse is giving but like
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scroll up scroll up like for example the one where she's wearing that weird
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fucking tie or whatever. I think the third one is
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very hot. Like, aesthetics there are definitely
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article. She looks like she's, like, on something.
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fucking weird. No, the Tim Burton look, it just makes her dark,
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oh um the girl that plays uh the mother in adam's family
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i okay whatever it doesn't matter he can have to say to jones yeah yes here let's do this uh
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You, wait, Catherine Zeta, okay, you can Google that, I guess.
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Okay, guys, like the video if you're enjoying the stream.
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oh slay girl eat it up eat it up she's not katherine it was katherine zita okay whatever
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um uh all right rate you rate me on this uh just face i guess a five a five okay uh so
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and you're eight so i'm three points below you sure yeah okay so you would be doing me a lot
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of favors like you would be you would be settling for me if you were on the looks front anyways
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i'm trying to think where else to go with this i do want to propose uh here's my analysis of the
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the number scale and i'll start with five five is average six is cute for women anyways six is
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cute seven is pretty eight is beautiful nine elite ten perfect i don't actually believe that
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there's any tens uh so uh would you describe yourself as beautiful yes okay uh why well i
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mean that's what i put as eight is beautiful you don't consider yourself average looking
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no you're above average looking yeah well above average looking
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i mean based on my looks and what i've walked into model agencies and what i've been hired for
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yeah and what i look like yeah just because i have a butt chin right here doesn't fucking
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well i mean what do you you can rate me what do you think i am yeah i mean i'll rate everybody but
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um i do think you have uh pretty substantially overrated yourself yeah but also too i i i feel
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like i knew that this is it the tattoos and the piercings because i saw that you also give
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ratings on that as well um my own personal aesthetic choices notwithstanding uh i can rate
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somebody's facial characteristics even if they have tattoos and piercings yeah because i mean
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like what i've i can show you a picture what i looked like before piercings like
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i would say yeah it looks better to the normal like society but well what i would do if i was
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rating somebody i would basically look at your face and envision it as if you did not have the
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piercings yeah so i wouldn't like specifically you can envision i wouldn't specifically lower
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your rating just because of the piercings um question for you two do you think that the other
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women rated themselves too low yes okay do you think all women are tens no okay but they're like
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eights or nines all women most no how many what percentage of women are eights 60 65 65 percent of
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women are eights well i guess i can see how you arrived at your own answer well yeah so yeah sure
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yeah i mean how many people i mean that yeah it's a big percentage how many people are there in the
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world like because i feel like tens that's easier like i feel like that's like nobody's perfect so
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that's like a one percenter thing would you date an average looking guy yeah uh and then do you
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think you're below average average or above average and looks above average above average okay wait
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for face or body or just like i guess technically both um i mean body like i need to go to the gym
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like i'm like right but besides like my face yeah okay uh
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what percentage of women in the united states do you think are less attractive than you
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wait less attractive than me yeah like wait so if i said wait i'm trying to make sure that i say
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this right so wait am i answering the percentage of who's like who i think would be prettier than
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me or who the opposite would be less attractive than you so for example uh 80 percent of women
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in the united states are less attractive than you okay um
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45 45 okay it's almost half of the women like and then what about you what percentage of women
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in the united states do you think are less attractive than you less attractive i would
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give it like good like in the 30 like 30 so 70 of women are more attractive than you
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okay i will move it up to like 40 45 46 wait 45 percent of women are less attractive
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i think yeah okay i would probably say something all right well uh
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interesting all right well i'll give the ratings then i'll give my own ratings
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That's going to impact facial attractiveness because you get fat in your face.
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But since I'm currently overweight, that has a negative impact on facial attractiveness.
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maybe I'm too stressed or I don't sleep enough. Who even knows? But, uh, let's see. There's
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probably other things, but, uh, yeah. Anyways, um, I guess I'll do one positive. Do I, no,
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I'll just give the ratings. So I usually give one positive, one negative. I'll just give ratings.
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Is there no positives? Is that why? Why can't we have a positive? No, what I'm saying is like,
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just for the sake of time, I would like be like, Oh, well you have good facial symmetry, but
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But your interpupillary distance is slightly off.
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You're just going to dump us in the dumpster.
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all the way okay um should i give some positives and negatives i don't know
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are you wearing uh makeup on your face okay you're wearing mascara do you have fake lashes in
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i'm not wearing mascara i'm wearing eyelashes eyeliner yeah you do have some eyeliner okay
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um do you draw your eyebrows or no they're not they're just natty yeah they're natural okay
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okay uh homegrown self-made uh honestly i don't think you were too far off from your rating i
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might say you're between 5.5 to 6 so i don't think you're too far off uh you gave yourself
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a five uh can you turn your face that way other way have you had a nose job no
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no strong nose uh let's see you have lip filler though no i haven't had any surgery
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turn that way again turn i use a lip gloss pumper like a lip pumper gloss do you have a lip flip
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It might be anywhere from 4.5 to five, but you're pretty reasonable.
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You're wearing full face of makeup, it looks like.
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up. That makes my assessment a little bit hard here. Uh, you did give yourself a 9.5. I would
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say you're closer to a five or a 5.5. You gave yourself an 8.5. Okay. Eight. You said 8.5. If
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you didn't have the under chin or whatever, the double chin, you gave yourself an eight. Uh,
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i would give you a four yeah uh you gave yourself a six uh
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i think i'd put you at 5.5 to 7.5 that's quite sorry sorry excuse me
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i misspoke i put you at 5.5 to 5.75 valid my my mistake all right uh alexis you gave yourself a
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a five. Alexis, you gave yourself a five. You are wearing quite a bit of makeup, quite
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a bit of eye makeup. I would give you five, or excuse me, 4.7525. You, you gave yourself
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a three. Can you take your glasses off for a moment? Just temporarily. I actually, I
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think you underrated yourself a little bit um you're not wearing are you wearing makeup on the
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face or a little bit yeah a little bit okay i think i'd put you at uh 4.25 to 4.75 in that range
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recessed um just kidding i feel like you would be so good in med spa sales yeah like where do you
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like that would be your other career like what is the ranking plastic surgeon like are you looking
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like on a scientific scale how can i fix you yeah no like when you come up with your rankings like
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are you like are you like are you contacting like top agencies and they're like what they're
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looking for and you're like this is how i do my scaling they told me what a beautiful woman looks
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like why would i need to contact a modeling agency that's what i'm just asking like you
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could contact someone that is from a sewage and i mean did you see calvin klein's fucking
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woke yeah it's fucking campaign from like 2019 where it's like like fat days yeah that's like
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this idea that i'm going to that the modeling industry has a good pulse no that that's i was
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just like saying like like and like high fashion these a lot of these models have kind of peculiar
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aesthetics yeah yeah like the runway models some of them have kind of like some of them are
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fucking insane like they're really aesthetic yeah but some of them look like fucking aliens so i
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don't know but aliens are cool i love aliens and i'm the first who would fucking aliens like i love
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looking like a monster i know i look like a monster but i love looking like a fucking monster
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just look like a human with body modifications with well split tongue double chin i was gonna
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say daddy issues but daddy issues i have mommy issues my read was off my i'm mentally ill because
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of my mother thank you uh i don't think uh alissa i don't think i rated you but you didn't you said
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i underrated myself but you didn't you know what you got three kids right you know you have three
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kids you know you know you'd go through processes and stuff i have a question i'm curious you you
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probably mogged you know when you were like 20 mog the whisper uh no you have good like base
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foundational strong aesthetics thank you uh i want to say and of course sometimes i'm giving a rating
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based off of like a comparative age analysis here um i i want to say look look into the camera for me
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i wanted to say like 5.56 thank you yeah so you underrated a little bit uh maybe some of you guys
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were being humble or modest though so i have a question yeah so my mom was a model oh boy can
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you rate my mom took some milf there done braided you didn't even see what she looks like took some
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milf just did it we actually had some mom's tape never mind wait what what i don't know
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what who my mom died wow yeah um cool yeah i know not cool i guess no cool she abused me so it's
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kind of let you know but it's whatever water can i have that johnny pop i'm like shaking out of
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starvation i know he doesn't feed us i just want a popsicle out you want a popsicle okay two
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popsicles one for her one for her then we'll get you know we can't do all of you you know what let's
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do no it's just two for now and then in 30 minutes i will ration out the other popsicles we should
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all like and we should all suck one flavor and pass it that sounds like herpes
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i'm gonna pass on that but that sounds super fun like you can have the red you'll have the orange
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yellow green blue purple uh okay let's see disagreements um
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brie you wrote that you have some disagreements oh um i can't really think of um too many
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specific things i just know like when whatever clips came up on my phone i'm just like i don't
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necessarily agree with that um one that might come up on my head right now is um like body
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count discourse. I know you've mentioned before things I didn't agree with. I can't recall the
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exact thing. I just know it had to do with body count. So I don't know. I'm sorry. I just know I
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didn't agree with it that's all um okay uh hey somebody skipped the back oh wait hold on the
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body count discourse uh okay so actually let me just leave it here uh yeah what do you want to
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know about it um what's your like do you think that having a higher body count indicates that
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like you know like red flags or what what exactly um i don't know what i'm trying to say
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i just know that i didn't agree with what you said about it in an episode before that's all
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so i'd have to hear more of your opinion that's that's what i'm trying to say
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uh yeah i don't remember specifically what i said but um i would say generally speaking
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if most guys most guys are going to be honest they would prefer a woman with a lower body count
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versus a higher body count um the lower the better oh wait i just remembered one thing um i know like
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on the paper um i think it said something about it's okay for a guy with a high body count to be
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with someone with a low body count i don't i feel like that's kind of bias i mean everyone's entitled
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to their preference but shouldn't like yeah isn't it kind of um unfair if you had if a guy had a
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body count of a thousand you're looking for a virgin i feel like it that's just like i'm fine
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with it if it's the other way around it's a woman with a 1000 body totally fine uh yeah i'm totally
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fine with it um so i'm not like uh i don't have a double standard there so if a woman prefers to
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date a virgin guy now there's differences though because uh assessments of attractiveness as it
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relates to virginity differ between men and women uh virginity is something that is in terms of from
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men to women it's something that's more desirable so the woman being a virgin whereas women typically
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are less desirous of that of course there are some women who either prefer lack of promiscuity
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in a man or low body count in a man or even chastity virginity in a man. But women just
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generally seem to just care less about it. Also, I think there's a difference here. Any single woman
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can be a slut. Any woman. I don't care how fat she is. Don't care how ugly she is. Don't care
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how terrible her personality is. Every single woman, if she was so inclined, could be a slut.
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for a man to be a slut that requires a higher say barrier to entry for a man to be a slut
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i mean it can be a various different ways in which he can make himself appealing
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and attractive to women maybe he's just really good looking like if you're really good looking
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yeah you can smash a lot of chicks if you're funny if you have charisma if you have a good
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personality but you're average looking you can smash a lot of chicks if you have high status
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but you're average looking uh you can smash a lot of women what do you think elon gets i mean he has
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a wife but like before that he's the richest man on the planet he's got multiple baby mamas
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he could if he wanted the women he picks i question but if he was so inclined he could
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be smashing fucking 20 year old baddies it's just so good by the way i haven't eaten since like
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yesterday so thank you yeah you you seem a bit enthusiastic i'm sorry just the way you've been
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going at the popsicle it seems a little hungry enthusiastic just saying sorry no i'm not i'm not
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attacking you good for you i guess but um observing going at it as in like what the lemon flavor
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ugly fat and she could just so what does it take for a man to be a slut uh to
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have a fake job not i mean there's a fake job there's all kinds of things i mean but i mean
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one he has to try like yeah if you're a really good looking guy but you play video games all day
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like so i think a big part of it is like actually putting in some effort to to doing it but
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yeah i mean yeah for example like i think uh because because women are the gatekeepers
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so sucks yeah basically so so uh basically it's just like
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you're done you're done with it well i don't want it to drip she's saving it for later um
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let me live my life so yeah i think um maybe like not a 10 20 of men can be sluts
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100 of women can be sluts um i think like the qualifications are basically the same you know
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like if you're qualified to be a slut as a man then you're qualified to be a slut as a woman you
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know so uh what what do you mean qualify like for example if it like what are the qualifications to
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be a slut you know like what is it what does it take for cheating or um you know like being able
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to entertaining someone else's like attention i guess i mean basically easily being able to and
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getting and having uh sex i'm sorry i'm stimming don't mind me in the corner okay thank you for
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that irrelevant contribution yeah but i think the qualifications are the same i don't understand
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what you mean by qualifications like i think like if a man is qualified to be a slut like
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you know he's like uh he's entertaining a lot of girls and he gets a lot of attention
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like every day then you know i think like it's the same thing for a girl like okay she gets a
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lot of attention every day then that's like what would make her slut like it's the same thing okay
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yes so if the guy has the capacity to get that level of attention from women uh okay here look
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if a guy fucks five girls in a day and a woman fucks five guys in a day are they both equally
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slutty yes yes however there's way there's a way higher proportion of women who can fuck
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you got to be like some a-list celeb to pull that off like do you disagree you think like the
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average joe schmo can fuck five chicks in a day yeah i think it's just like i think yeah it doesn't
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take looks to be like fuckable you know uh yeah it kind of does no for a man it just takes money
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it doesn't take looks wait so okay now are you talking about an average are you talking about
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prostitution though because when i'm talking about i'm not yes if okay so technically uh i mean if
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you have ten thousand dollars you could fuck ten women in a day but you'd have to pay for it
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i'm not talking about prostitution i'm talking about genuine desire absent transaction yeah
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like adam sandler you know he's not really that like attractive but he's really rich so he can
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Yes, he's like, yeah, so I'm talking like the fucking like chubby Mexican guy who works at CVS as a cash register.
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You think he's fucking plowing five chicks a day?
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If he was like really funny in high school, then like possibly.
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Okay, does a woman, in order for her to fuck five dudes a day, does she have to be really funny or can she just have a pussy?
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As a woman, all it takes is, excuse me, sir, want some pussy?
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If I give dick, if I go up to fucking chicks, I'm not.
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As a woman, you don't even need to be pleasant.
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just be like don't be fucking insane and then offer pussy and make it easy excuse me sir want
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some pussy you don't even have to do the offering just pick amongst the men who are offering the
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dick now however as a guy if i'm pleasant and i offer dick that's not enough to get pussy
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I just wanted to know if you wanted to engage in
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i would 100 accept that side quest yeah i actually when i have a girlfriend i actually
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you know i kind of talk to her like this excuse me dear i'll fetch me my loafers yeah that's how
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me and my boyfriend talk to each other chop chop like like shrek like a shrek like we love to like
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mock shrek but no he'll be like come here wait so anyways i'm not gonna let you distract like
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you always do back to the point sorry so the point here is sounds like stewie griffin uh yeah
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basically uh women will not will not accept that as for for most women in order for you to be
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willing to have sex with a guy there's there's more of a value proposition beyond just hi i'm
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available i'm a normal pleasant enough guy maybe i'm a little boring but i'm i'm normal and i have
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penis do you want to fuck does not work doesn't work uh so yeah most men uh yeah most i don't
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know i would think all women can be sluts what's that i would think that like it would like work
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like that you know like a guy's just like oh yeah okay here's my dick because if you go on any
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dating app no man provides anything fake news but hold on before we get to that uh who agrees with
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her who agrees with her that it's that men it's men it's easy for them to get sex who agrees with
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her nobody nobody it's pretty hard okay here let's try it out let's try this out experiment time uh
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you're single you're single single single not single and then single okay let's try it out
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although i feel like this is going to backfire because i've been sassy tonight but
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Okay, so after the show, to all the single women, this is a shotgun proposition.
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Who here would like to have sex with me after the show?
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It'll be the best three minutes of your life.
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Would you like to have sex with me after the show?
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Would you like to have sex with me after the show?
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Well, after you said three minutes, probably not.
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If you close your eyes, it almost feels like you're being touched by a woman.
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After the show do you want to have sex with me
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I'm really tired and I would like to go to bed
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oh you're asking me to fornicate tomorrow i'm asking you to have sexual intercourse
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as like right now dude i'm so tired i know you don't you need to take another energy shot girl
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well okay that's like that one girl that fell asleep that you had to give her the yellow card
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answer the question answer the question okay whatever well uh well could i steal you away
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from your talking stage no okay and then what uh alissa um no thank you i thought i thought it was
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really easy for guys to get laid what's going on yeah if you downloaded tinder right now you would
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have like 13 girls at least in one night oh my god yeah it would take if i downloaded tinder yeah
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tinder with a hole if i was really if i downloaded tinder if i i definitely couldn't tonight yes you
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could no it's 9 p.m you can't get exactly it's 9 p.m this is when the holes are out no holes are
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up at 10 a.m it's a fucking sunday you cannot get exactly same night pussy yes i have a question
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it is no i could maybe if i fucking tried to if i spent all night messaging i could maybe arrange
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something like for wednesday but i ain't getting pussy you know i don't think y'all understand i
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need to do a vocal stim i'm sorry circle circle circle circle square okay what the fuck it's when
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i'm stimming i have vocal stim sometimes okay as a lesbian i would like to agree with you
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what the fuck oh as a lead because it's hard to know because literally that's why for so long i
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would like try to date guys after a girl would break up with me and i'd be really sad because
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like i could arrange something like this evening probably if i wanted to if i was in la you could
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look a woman 9 p.m. be quiet lady sorry you're hydrated fuck he's as a lesbian i agree so as a
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woman you could hop on a dating app on a tuesday at 10 p.m. and you what's going on
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uh okay i mean oh she's in the bathroom well let's let's see what the situation is but
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Is she doing downers in there? No, I'm just kidding.
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Wait, let me see if I have anything else that I needed to hit on for her.
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I mean, I had one thing left for her, but we'll see.
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all right we'll figure that shit out i guess but um where were we in the content you were saying
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like even with the most like even with the most ran through because i'm like all of my friends
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are gay like the most ran through lesbian i know like you could not arrange probably a same night
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like situation with like a girl and then with a guy it's like you could like probably like any of
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like you could it'd be pretty easy yeah i was i think i was saying that a woman could hop on a
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dating app 10 p.m on a tuesday and she could probably have like a gangbang yeah she could
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fuck like three dudes same night maybe even more like i'm not even exaggerating whereas like for a
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guy even if you've got some game you know how to maneuver like girls are not like down they're not
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they're not ready to go like that like it's gonna take a little bit like they're not ready for the
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fucking go huh they're not ready for the fucking go well i mean look some girls are down for hookups
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but that's like getting for a man it's getting lucky for a girl it's tuesday there's nothing
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about getting like women don't get lucky if you want to fuck you fuck right like is it ever like
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she knows if a girl wants to fuck you she's fucking yeah she knows she's like a girl can
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go into a date super confident like you can go into the date thinking this guy's gonna fuck me
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i can never if i'm going into a date look i could think she likes me no yeah i can walk into a bar
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And I can be like, oh, those guys all want to fuck me.
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If you're meeting a chick off a dating app, she might want a second, third date.
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If I go on a first date with a girl, like, in a more organic way.
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like if a girl contact dms me then i can vet for that but if i'm like i don't know meeting a girl
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in person hey let me get your number let's grab dinner sometime there's not a guarantee i'm getting
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pussy that night you're telling me there's not a guarantee wait what wait the whatever podcast
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don't get you pussy you're telling me that i'm like oh my god so i'm speaking so i mean look
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My situation is different because pretty much since I started the podcast, not to say that
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I haven't shot my shot, but I actually just source entirely from women who contact me.
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And if you're contacting me, I can set the pace a bit.
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you're you're coming into my frame whereas if the the general status quo when it comes to male
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female interaction is uh the man tends to fall a bit more into the woman's frame a little bit
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uh in the sense that the woman gets to dictate the pacing a little bit more like for example if a
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girl's like brian i think you're fucking super handsome and i like you and blah blah blah i can
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be like okay here's my like 100 point girlfriend application you're gonna answer everything you're
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gonna get on birth control before you meet me you're gonna do xyz before you meet me you're
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and by the way like i'm gonna vet uh if you come and visit me you're d you're i'm i wouldn't say
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it like this but you're dtf right would she stay up and then i can vet huh would she stay up there
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the fuck bro your non sequiturs are no i want to know if you have like if she would be here
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during the podcast like would you have her be here no my if i was dating a girl if i had a
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girlfriend she'd never be on camera okay i'm not anyways that's fucking why do you can you let me
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stay on track here you you'd like to go in all these directions and i'd like to stay on the
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central point here uh so where was i um yeah so like from from my experience uh and i i i prefer
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that dynamic but that most men don't have that unless they you know they have some presence
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online um so my experience post starting the podcast is a bit different um
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so i'm trying to remember how we even got there though uh
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oh yeah uh and then also too i was gonna say when you like refer to like you being
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chunky and like how you used to be skinny the fuck does that have to do with anything because
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it was earlier when earlier when you were saying that i was just gonna say like when at what time
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period how long ago was that why the fuck what does that have to do with anything because i was
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just because you were saying it earlier so i was just going back to it is it never mind what okay
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what what the fuck does that have to do with anything i was asking you because when we were
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talking about i'm not i don't have an issue answering the question i don't see how it's
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relevant objection relevance adhd sorry it's not i was just reverting back to the question
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shut the fuck up for 10 minutes god damn bro holy shit it's completely irrelevant okay i got it
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like you've been doing it all night yeah i have and it's distracting it gets a soft topic
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and when you started the podcast but I don't remember like how it's giving so actually my
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my explanation there of like okay well most of the women I've dated in the past three or four
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years since I started the podcast they all came to me so that doesn't map on great to like most
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men or the average men's experience luckily for me though given my age I have from the age of
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17 all the way to 32, 33, which is around the time I started the podcast, I have the typical
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average guy experience of you approach the girl, you slide into, I don't think I slid into DMs,
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but I'd match with, I was on dating apps, Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, all that. And that framework is
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not, uh, although you can sometimes navigate, Hey, just come over. Let's fuck. Uh, generally
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speaking uh that's not really you can do it but you're typically hey let's meet up for a drink
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maybe it goes down the first night maybe it doesn't second third date maybe it goes down if
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then uh so this idea that men can be sluts to the same degree as women it's it's complete fallacy
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it's total fallacy it doesn't exist yeah i mean i guess that's true because i mean um you know
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if you wanted to get fucked in one day yeah i guess like that that time frame women can be
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more slutty i guess i'd object that gay men have like an advantage compared to straight men i'm
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not i'm clearly i'm obviously not talking about homosexual men i'm talking about
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yes gay men have it easier than heterosexual women i would say because there's not that
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bullshit game going on. Yeah. Like, but that's not what we're talking about. Yes. As a caveat.
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Yeah. Gay men can get laid. Um, I mean, I haven't, this is not something I've investigated
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seriously, but, um, from my understanding, yes, there's less bullshit and less pretense
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when it comes to same-sex male relationships.
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yeah i saw that at a party one time when i was younger before i was a mom i would go to like
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you know the afters in la like i'd always end up in an afters and our friend he's like a lawyer
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and like objectively he's pretty hot i guess um and he's like really wealthy and all these girls
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were like all over him it was the i've never seen it anywhere else but in that situation it was
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crazy that was like the only time i've ever seen like all these girls at this party were like
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trying to get his attention and he was i was like i've never seen that before it was interesting
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but he was also like you said he's really wealthy he's really attractive and i think
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he was the only guy at the party actually oh okay um uh so it is a thing yeah yeah men can
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keep sex too but only like in that specific scenario where like he's meeting all of these
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criteria that is making him more desirable. Yeah. But ultimately, I mean, look, if it's very easy
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for women to get laid, it's relatively hard for men to get laid. Now, look, are there some studs
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who have a pretty easy go at it? Yes. But you, an average or below average woman has the same,
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like an equivalent sexual optionality as a professional male athlete, a famous singer,
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famous musician famous actor uh you can be a nobody woman below average looking hop on tinder
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hop on a dating app you could fuck six guys in a day like as a guy there's more effort that's put
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in like i said um for most men it could take a little bit of time even if you like you don't
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have to be extraordinary you you can kind of maneuver as a guy but you might have to go on
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one two three dates maybe she's not down maybe she's not feeling it uh so you can't get instant
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sex the same way women can get instant sex and i demonstrated it i literally asked fucking single
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women they want to fuck yeah but if i walk into like a party of guys blue eyes dark hair six foot
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one uh toxic as fuck to be fair but uh and uh let's see at least on the podcast in person I'm
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not toxic uh you don't tell women to shut the fuck up in person I get it uh no actually I don't yeah
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no that was pretty fucking rude I think it's pretty fucking rude that you've been interrupting
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all night with your I wasn't interrupting you I was asking a question that we were referring to
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you've been doing sidebar conversations name one sidebar i had because i haven't
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yeah let me me speaking to myself and stimming to myself is not talking to them
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if i'm over here like literally i if i recall correctly i don't remember the exact thing you
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said you definitely had a sidebar with either one of these girls at one point but the the you're
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you're trying to do a loophole technical no i didn't do a sidebar what sidebar okay so even
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if you're okay so even if you're not whispering if you're whispering because you have adhd
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in practice i wasn't that's still the fucking same thing no when i'm over here like
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i'm not talking about me mouthing like i'm mouthing i mean me literally saying nothing
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like me doing that's me talking to myself it's stimming so i don't vocally stim and ruin the
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podcast so instead of doing it all out criticism that's not even i know but you're saying i'm
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having sidebars but i'm not because if you were to see you did have sidebars when oh my god do
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do i need someone in the fucking you did i don't recall you want me to find the time stamp i don't
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know the time stamp the only time that i was here and i was talking to someone is when she passed
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by me and i was like are you good when she didn't want to come there was another instance
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well you can pull it up i didn't it didn't occur to me to commit it to memory like if somebody
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asking brian uh like you know those court reporters what do they call the fucking stenographers or
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whatever brian can you verbatim repeat back yeah but when your rule is don't have side conversation
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i haven't been sitting here talking to either of them i can't because it didn't happen yeah stop
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i can't verbatim read back every single word that has been uttered on this podcast
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Sorry I got sidetracked it's not a feeling
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Get out of your feelings I'm fucking over it
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I said what I said yeah I know and I said what I said
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Now shut the fuck up and let's continue the podcast
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Thank you, that's nice that you would offer that
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I feel like they'll find somebody great for them.
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oh one quite wait wait one question and then how about that you uh leave okay
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it's just one thing i saw in your questionnaire uh
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and then i guess yeah she can't stay awake you should just fucking pass out on the podcast that
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would be cool just start snoring and shit all right so alexis yes you agree with the following
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statements men should pay on first dates men should provide and protect husband should be
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willing to die protecting you you will keep your last name or hyphenate marriage
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yes yes scoot into the table speak into the mic please
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yes uh okay why don't what about your kids will they hyphenate or have your last name um i'd
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assume they'd probably take their dad's why don't you want to take the husband's last name you do
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want to get married right i have a cool last name i don't want to change it isn't it kind of well
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okay so you said men should pay on first dates men should provide protect but the big one husband
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should be willing to die protecting you so it's kind of cool to stay alive i wouldn't want my
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partner to die of course right but he you say your husband should be willing to die protecting you
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take the bullet i would hope he would want to over having his wife take it yeah
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right so in the hypothetical situation where one of you has to take a bullet
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he takes it right so that you can survive i guess yeah okay so the ultimate that would be
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the ultimate manifestation of a being a protector traditional gender roles he a man this this is
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guys this is what you're dealing with in 2026 uh you have a woman who uh i look i guess to your
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credit you're willing to date like a fat dude so he like can physically like take up more space
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and block the bullet or whatever uh like 500 pounds or whatever like yeah he's got a fucking
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meat shield kind of almost literally i guess not literally sort of liberal i don't know figuratively
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2026 blasted in tattoos only fans girl sex worker uh you got to pay for first dates you got to
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provide protect uh you gotta be willing to die for her but she won't take your last name
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well i mean i don't think the last name is very important but i'm a good partner
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but i paid for everything with my ex i paid for every single thing ever i paid our bills
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it's just i think it's just common courtesy and nice to offer to pay for a first but you do say
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men should pay on first dates and then men should provide protect so conceivably you wouldn't be
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opposed to dating a guy who like made a million dollars a year and was like, Hey, you can stop
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doing only fans. I'm going to take care of everything. Right. I mean, that would be fine.
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I just don't really care what a man makes. Right. I understand that you don't care because you make
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good money yourself, but ultimately my big gripe here is, um, you still do want those things. You
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want protection for a man. Yeah. Cause that's masculine. I like manly men. Right. But so if
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we're talking about traditional gender roles, provide, protect, pay for dates, should be willing
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to die protecting you it seems like you want him to make a potentially big not just a big the
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biggest sacrifice one could make but you won't make of what sacrifice won't i make what do you
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taking his last name it's literally three hours on a tuesday and everything has changed i mean sure
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it's just not a big deal i just have a cool last name no but that's it would you do it sure it's
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just not really a big deal well because i'd prefer not to but it's just not a huge deal okay you would
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do it then and i've never met a man that cares if you take his last name well that's because men
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have been completely hen packed and they're not allowed to want anything i think men can want
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whatever they want right but there's massive there's massive uh social movement yeah and
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there shouldn't be men can want you know whatever they want i'm against that i think men can have
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whatever preference they desire right but there's like massive influence and propaganda pushing men
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away from uh there's pathologizing of men's standards and preferences yep uh a man wants
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a submissive woman predatory that's okay i think that's fine woman wants dominant man
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oh uh preference woman wants tall guy preference man wants skinny woman uh insecure uh
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superficial shallow uh man wants a woman to cook and clean misogyny blah blah blah sexist blah
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blah yeah you're correct but i disagree with all of it i think it's okay for men to have those
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preferences totally fine okay all right well i mean but you're right that is what it's like
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that's the extent of my okay inquiry uh beautiful on that okay ta-ta
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that's my other go-to toodles all right i'm gonna do some musical chairs here
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all right let me move i'm gonna i feel like i'm on shade room uh i'm gonna move
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i think you two like the tea is getting down two chairs and i guess alissa you can stay there you
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Please address the door, please, if you can send Tiffany.
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I don't understand why I fucking fly here from, where did she say she was from?
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you're really tired like i'm tired too but i'm gonna stay suck it up i mean sleep before
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i literally slept like 13 hours before i got here okay because i knew i was gonna have to drive right
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four hours so i had to drive up to santa barbara because my flight got in and then my flight to
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santa barbara got canceled so i had to uber up here i didn't sleep at all well i slept for like
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two hours then i got a breakup text and i was like dang i've worked in four hours um okay uh
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i guess we'll i'm trying to remember what we had to uh what we had to like get through um
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where the wait okay we were talking about the slut thing and it's easier for women to get laid
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there shouldn't be any talking back there but you can't be fucking having friend convo okay oh my god
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bro um all right back to this producer a stroke he's like sidebar sidebar
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yeah there's an expectation that my own team is
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he's having nightmares and he's rolling around like sidebar
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okay um i don't know where we were then he's talking about being a slut or something
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but it's easier for girls to be a slut and you have it's not equal
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like the it's not equal because you have to be like yeah a way above average
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uh yeah i mean i actually did this as an experiment um so i had i sent out a girl
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hidden camera just approach men in the street point blank ask them for sex and then i did the
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same experiment and then i even repeated it with like a different guy um and women just it's a no
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fuck right I mean I'm not surprised I knew going
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no does anyone no i have no clue all i know is that we were talking about like a level of
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attractiveness and stuff like that yeah yeah i think you asked like if it was you asked like
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do you agree that it's easier for girls to be sluts and then you asked that like point blank
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and that's how it started i think it was brie you were asking about body count and then
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i'm trying to remember the exact conversational thread that left that led to that
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um that one girl had an issue like uh how men or something about like men having a high body
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count for virgin yeah yeah so it's like okay yeah yeah so we i think the the origination was
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uh you took an issue with one of the things here which was okay for a high body count
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man to prefer to date a low body count or virgin woman and we were getting into it and we're
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talking about the differences uh in terms of assessment there and i was i think i was saying
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how uh it's it's uh it's okay for women to want to date a guy with a low body count but you could
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have a high body count but i i said typically women don't care about tend to care about body
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count all that much yeah generally speaking just as long as there's not like a double standard
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then i don't really care like if you were to say that you know a woman with a body count or like a
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high body count can't prefer a man with a small body count yeah she can't yeah yeah i'm totally
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fine with that um so there's not a hypocrisy there but what i'm saying it's more so if let's
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say the guy slept with 100 women and he's made a determination well the women that i find most
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attractive have lower body counts i don't actually see anything wrong with him preferring to
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date a woman with a low body count um so i mean like i'm not gonna knock someone for their
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preference but i'm just saying it's a little hypocritical or not hypocritical or it's just
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i know i just think it makes more sense to want someone that has your like similar range of
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experience at least for me for me no not really oh well for you for a woman that's something
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different. Um, I think for a woman that could be the case because let's say you're a woman and when
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it comes to the bedroom, you want the flow of sex to be a more, I don't know if tradition, a more
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man leading dynamic, uh, women typically like if I'm say I was having sex with a woman who had
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really low sexual experience, maybe she's not a virgin, but she like has had sex three times.
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she might look to me to guide her i guess you could say women don't want to teach a guy how
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to fuck women don't want to teach now you can give a guy this is what i like but a woman doesn't want
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to be there in the moment like having to instruct you no that's my butthole my clit is like way up
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there same could be said for the other gender though like men like for example my boyfriend
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he said he actually said my body count is kind of low for his preference yeah i feel like usually
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the more wait one second your current boyfriend yes and your body count you said it was like
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10 20 28 your boyfriend said your body count is too low yeah his it's like 70
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how do you keep track of that wait wait wait hold on but so look you have to understand the
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entailment of that so what he let me translate when your boyfriend says that he wishes your
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body count was higher he's saying i wish you came more pre-fucked he wants you to have had
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more dicks in you and that's kind of gay well he's bisexual so oh that works out fucking explains it
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a bit but that it's weird like the entailment of okay so it's like if the criticism is oh you want
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a low body count woman well what's the opposite of that so if it's like the the anti-low body
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count argument is uh she should have a higher body count so and if a guy is making that argument
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it's like wait so you it seems like the position is less tenable in the sense that it's way less
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tenable to be like i wish my girlfriend fucked more men before me versus me thinking i wish she
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fucked less guys before me i don't think he thinks about it like that i think it has to do more with
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experience like you said um how you wouldn't want or a girl wouldn't want to teach a man how to have
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sex i think has to do with he wants me to have like to keep up at his pace that's all well okay
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how about this i think that a woman who's fucked 30 guys one time is going to be arguably worse in
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bed than a girl who's had a one boyfriend and they've fucked 300 times i agree so like if we're
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talking about sexual experience here you can become really good in bed with just one partner
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now there's a different i mean well sorry well more like one person well the thing is more people
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that's like they can teach you more things in a way because if let's just say there's two people
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and they both only have one body they only know the experience with each other you know yeah sure
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So yes, if, if you've had different input from different men and this guy taught you
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this and this guy, you know, taught you this and blah, blah, blah, blah.
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But, uh, also it's really easy for women to be good in bed.
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Like also if you're a guy and you're dealing with an inexperienced woman or even a virgin
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so if the dynamic is going to be you're going to lead her you as a guy if you're leading you can
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have amazing sex with a virgin if you're leading i don't know every guy's different like my boyfriend
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he said he could tell the difference between like a girl that has like a hundred bodies and a virgin
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like virgins are like a turnoff to him well there there would perhaps be some differences but i mean
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like sex to begin with, I don't think is a particularly complicated procedure. Uh, but
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then also if you're leading as the guy, like if you're taking charge, you can show and
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demonstrate what the woman should do. I mean, it's really, I don't know. Maybe like the
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only thing that could be is like head. Like, I feel like it's hard to impart. Like also
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i think there's just natural talent there some women they got it they don't you know like she
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could you could give her fucking instructional videos and tell her exact i like also how do
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you articulate as a man like what you know when there's certain things like okay don't use your
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fucking teeth uh you know don't do certain things but i feel like there's just talent when it comes
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to oral sex that's why men are gay because i don't know i don't know but that's what i've heard
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but my gay friends but like actual penetrative sex
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it's if you know what you're doing as a guy you can okay do this come here move
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come here writing though that is another thing to where i feel like some even girl on top i'm just
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I don't know they're gooning over here or something
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there's also like an energy like i don't know yeah your back could hurt like if you're doing
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it right like your tailbone like right where your tailbone is it starts to hurt
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uh i mean no like i like i just like i have maybe it's just because i have a bad tailbone
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somebody was saying something over here or energy oh the energy yeah i don't know i feel like
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a girl like oh a girl that has more experiences or there's like sluttier woman i don't know they
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have they'll put more enthusiasm into it while a virgin they're probably like shy nervous they
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don't really know what's going on yeah i mean that's fair um but uh there could be a a
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comfortability threshold where there's a bit of apprehension uh for someone who's
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a bit inexperienced although i i mean that could even be to some degree psychologically stimulating
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for some men it's like like it's the girl who's like oh i never do this and she gives you the
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gluck luck 9000 it's like okay that's a sus yeah i never do this and then she fucking
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they could practice on a dildo for all you know i okay loophole technicality i guess but
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i don't know it's very easy uh i don't know for a woman to be bad in bed you have to like go out
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of your way to be bad in bed yeah like biting it intentionally and look there's just
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yeah you'd have to do some crazy shit to be bad in bed like look if the guy knows how to lead
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and he can take initiative and he can take leadership in the bedroom uh it's you can
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have great sex and the woman is just being submissive and like i don't know um also i think
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there's just a physiological difference like for example right uh let's say i think this would be
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the case for the majority of men let's say the girl just puts her herself perfect like in doggy
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style and the man is doing the penetrating the hip thrusting 99% of men can probably bring
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themselves to climax and the girl's not moving at all she's just completely stationary not saying
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that that should be the case but let's just hypothetically the woman is just completely
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stationary and the guy's doing the work 99% of men can bring themselves to climax
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now you as the woman you put the man in whichever position you prefer whether that's
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him laying down you on top doggy style and you're throwing it back whatever
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can as high a percentage of women bring themselves to climax if the guy is just
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standing or laying there with a stiffy with the stiffy like it's hard but he's doing nothing
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no thrusting but he's hard and you can ride or you can if i'm riding yeah okay i'm not i'm yes
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someone can do that but i'd say the percentage of women is way lower yeah who can bring themselves
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to climax without even even with um like moving like it's kind of rare you know like even like
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the first time that you have sex with a man like the likelihood of a woman actually like coming to
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orgasm the first time you have sex with a man it's very low because you're just not comfortable
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yeah i was gonna say like a guy with like a guy can have a really like big dick but like if he's
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not using it right it's going to be really hard for us to come well i'm saying so in the scenario
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the scenario is he's he's hard he's erect it's whatever position you prefer and he's just
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stationary can most women through thrusting their hips or throwing it back whatever can they bring
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themselves to climax some can some can but i'd argue far fewer can so physiologically uh there's
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a higher burn of performance on men than there is on women so like we can as men you can
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basically be a pillow princess we can still come we can still climax like every time a man has sex
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almost 99 of the time that a man has sex they come every time almost
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most of the time yeah most of the time 90 yeah yeah 99 of the time so there's like it's for a
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men to be good in bed there's a higher threshold physiologically it's just there's a difference
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between men and women uh so you can take a virgin put her in doggy style no don't do this don't
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fucking have your back be all rounded even so a guy will still come a lot of guys they will come
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even if you have a paper bag on your head they will still come okay like true now even if they
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had a blindfold on they would still come like men are dirty okay i'm sorry so men be awful
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so yeah i mean they're so easy those little sluts
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and the mask lesbians are awful as far as like a high body count man preferring to date low body
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count woman um i just think again don't have a double standard the woman can want to date
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a virgin man i just find that most women who have sexual experience it's not their preference
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to date low experience or virgin men whereas like it could actually even be the case that
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as a guy gets more experience he wants a woman with less experience for and i'm talking maybe
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more so from a relationship perspective like i don't know i think women the more dick they have
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the more baggage oh more trauma i mean i guess so like the first time that i ever had sex like
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the guy told me that i was not good at giving head and i was like so embarrassed i was like
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looking up videos i was like head is different head is different but if we're talking about just
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intercourse yeah like but we were both virgins at the time so at the time like while we were both
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virgins he like wanted me to have more experience and i wanted him to have less experience i was
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like yeah i don't want you to even talk to a girl like the fact that you've even dated another girl
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pisses me off yeah yeah i don't know does anyone else want to weigh in on that i also want a low
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body count woman for my next w good for you no i was dating someone one time that said they had a
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body count of 300 i was like how is that possible women i don't know if they were exaggerating
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it was like a caucasian mask but is it okay if i take another energy shot
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those are like 200 i just want to make sure i'm not gonna like die or anything i've never had
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them before wouldn't that make you more likely to die okay so well i need to i need to get up
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for a moment if you guys want to discuss a topic of your choosing i'm sure i'm not choosing he
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yelled at me last time we have some conservative women here maybe you guys want to discuss some
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what should we debate about guys let's disagree well not conservative topics but
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what's the highest body count you guys would date um wow so i don't really care about a man's body
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count i don't know i don't go out of my way to ask them i don't even ask them i don't want to
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right i don't know if i know that hurts my feelings yeah exactly like that disgusts me i
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don't want to think about it like how you got mad when just the fact that your boyfriend dated
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another girl i used to be like that exactly and i feel like i grew out of it because you
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i don't know you come to like reality like you know that's not reality yeah like i don't believe
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in checking phones like if you still check that man's phone you're asking if you're looking for
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something you're gonna find exactly i feel like you already have the inkling maybe you guys shouldn't
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be together exactly like i feel like when you get to our age it's like if you feel that you know
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that they're like not a good partner exactly like so that's why i feel like having like a
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relationship where you know that you're loved is more important than like you know the size of
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their dick yeah definitely what about your question um as long as they're like you know
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clean getting tested yeah and like you know like they're assuming like if you were like monogamous
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as long as they're not you know having sex with people and well you're dating they're not cheating
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on you yeah yeah then i mean it doesn't matter too much have you guys heard of canada's dating coach
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no she goes live her name's chantel she goes live and it's just this big thing above her and it says
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body count doesn't matter and she goes on a factual no feeling scientific debates only and
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so you're not allowed to start any sentence of like i i feel i think or you know anything like
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that and her um i guess like the whole idea of it is that body count doesn't matter as long as you
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are like a high valued person and uh you know you you're honest and you respect yourself
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and do you have a good worth work ethic and all that because her um i guess her like idea of it
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It's like somebody who has only been with one person can be lazy, a liar, and all those things.
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But she also says, you know, you need to be getting tested and show the paper to them from the doctor that you've been tested.
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But I'm pretty sure there are studies out there that show for women, once your body count passes five, your ability to pair bond and the likelihood of you leaving your partner significantly increases.
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especially with marriage and so i know divorce statistics are super high and if both people in
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the marriage go into it as virgins they like have the highest chance of um staying together
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um but it depends mostly on the woman does the woman have a low body count is her ability to
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pair bond and with that then stick through things not impacted as bad i mean i think that you can
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decide because you have a high body power and you decide to get married you can decide that you're
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going to stick with that person um but i think biologically something has been messed up and
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you're going to be fighting really hard um yeah like you feel like you have too many options
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it's like the option you know too much yeah you know too much and you feel like you can just find
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another person because you've had so much experience rather than trying to like work it out
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i think there is something to ignorance is bliss and and like i don't want that to sound like
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innocent and I know that I'm like coming from the perspective of I was a virgin when I got married
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but I saw my friends going from guy to guy and um you know some of them getting pregnant outside
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of marriage and I you know I'm not judging anyone who does that that's just not the choices that
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I've made um and I I can see where people struggle more because they went into their
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serious relationship without setting themselves up for the best that they could. And I mean,
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my husband, I mean, it wouldn't have been expected for him to have been a virgin at 39 when I met
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him. And he was actually divorced, but his wife left him. And so he, I mean, also fit into that
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statistic of it's usually the woman who leaves. And so if she already has a super high body count
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going into it I think that can definitely have an impact what about you what's the question
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like do you think like um what's the highest body count you would date do you think it matters
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I don't really I guess like a hundred a hundred yeah if he's had sex with more than a hundred
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people then I'm like it's a little bit high in my opinion that's just my preference hundreds
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really does anybody else feel like 100s high that's right i feel like 100s high i would cry
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i think it's all relative then as soon as it hits like triple digits i'd be like
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the triple digits was crazy i was like you've had sex with 300 people it's a lot
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i don't know 300 people so along that line who who all here wants to eventually get married
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or are you just looking for a long-term relationship yeah like i want to get married
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it'd be nice yeah i don't care if i'm like legally married as long as i have like a little ceremony
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i'm fine i honestly don't know if i want to get married or not i don't know because you're
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divorced right yeah but i was still like a kid when i got like i was 18 when i got married so
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it was just i didn't have any like guidance when i freshly turned an adult so i just
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didn't make a lot of like great decisions but i realized early on that it wasn't what i wanted
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it wasn't gonna be what i wanted like you know for the long term i feel that uh i need to uh
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get back up but then we're gonna jump into uh some uh pretty juicy topics but while i'm gone
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i feel the need to even guide things uh as i'm away from the table nicole
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you think that uh you don't think women should be drafted you would rather repeal the 19th
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amendment now question though do you want to repeal the 19 19th amendment period
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I wouldn't have a problem with it I think that most women at the time didn't want the right to
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vote it was men who pushed that with just a few key women kind of lead like leading the female
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voices but they weren't actually the female voices of the time women were able to get laws passed
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without the right to vote before that like prohibition that was a movement that was pushed
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strictly by women and they didn't have the right to vote now what i'm gonna do is and i hope you
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guys without the the guiding hand of a man at the table i'm gonna be gone for about five to ten
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minutes i want you guys to engage in that conversation so when she's talking about
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repealing the 19th for those of you who don't know she wants to claw back women's right to vote
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that's the 19th amendment i'm assuming some of you here are in favor of women being able to vote
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so with that said let's hear the people who disagree with her go ahead
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i think like women were more so like empathetic more than men and i think we're more like
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intuitional and we kind of just go based off like our heart more and so I think we need a lot of
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like like empathy like in the world right now like I feel like there's a lot of like
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really horrible shit going on in the fucking world right now and it's like
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it's all being done by like men and like I just like think the world is very heartless right now
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women should you know have the right to vote. Go ahead. Are you done? I was just gonna say that
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I mean I think women should be able to have the right to vote. I mean we're here living it and
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we're here every day we wake up every single day so we should have the same right to be able to
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vote for the place that we're living in. So should women be drafted then to make it equal? No. Well
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also i agree with what you're saying i don't think that like if women didn't even want the choice to
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vote like we should respect women right okay then so we didn't even want that choice so we should
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respect that hello i'm just kidding wait are you saying actually like um like if we like if we
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didn't have the right to vote a lot of people in general like just like the general population a
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lot of people don't vote so if like if all of our votes were taken away like i don't think it would
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really impact much because a lot of people in general don't vote so you see what you mean so
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you so you're saying because so and then we would also be able to like hold men more accountable for
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you know i mean if you want to be able to put yeah the um the blame so to speak on men then yeah
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give them the only literal written voice but i mean women have a power with men yeah and that's
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why they were able to get laws passed before they had the right to vote because they weren't a
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voting box that could be bought by the government by men so they had to convince their husbands
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they had to convince congress that things should be done and no one could sway them and i i actually
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think the kind of the empathy thing i get what you're saying like looking at the world things
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do look really dark at times um but i don't i don't think that's a good argument for women
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having a right to vote because when you make your decisions purely on emotion you're not looking at
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the bigger picture and I think that's a benefit with men is they're able to kind of separate
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emotions from the issue and be a bit more black and white like how is this going to impact my taxes
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oh it feels good that we're giving extra welfare to women but where's the bottom line you know oh
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it feels good that my property taxes are going to x y and z so yeah i'll i guess agree to a slight
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raise because it's not that big of a deal no like they look at the numbers my husband is always like
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pinching all of the numbers when it comes to any law that's being presented um that we can vote on
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and i'm just like okay i'll just vote the way you want so i mean like in that instance there's a
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double but then there's a lot of households that get divided over it um and so they're just
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canceling each other out i think that women can have an influence over the men in their lives
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and still have a voice that way um but like you just said that would count double like because
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you have the right to vote so even if you're following your husband's guidance it's two points
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so i guess but there's just as many women like i thought it was terribly terribly trashy during
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um whatever election it was where women were cheering that they were like oh my husband wants
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me to vote for so and so but I'm voting for so and so and it was like a big trend you were seeing
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all over social media and I was like that's so disrespectful like men don't ask a lot of their
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wives my husband's always like food sex respect those are the three things if you can meet those
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three markers we're going to be happy and I would never be like my husband wants me to vote for
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this man but I'm going to vote for the other person despite him like I think that's crazy
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and it's like a pure reason why women shouldn't be able to vote because they're just purely being
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spiteful in something that affects our country or our state or our city whatever I don't think all
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women do it out of spite I mean that's possible I mean I'm sure there are some yeah like I mean
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there there are some very powerful women in this world that have we have the reason to vote for a
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reason and not all women most a lot research and do a lot of learning about the different parties
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It's not just a, oh, I'm going to do this because everybody else is.
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and that's why we thank God have the reason to vote
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because we can have a different opinion than men,
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not out of spite because that's who I want to vote for.
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And just because my husband wants to vote for somebody else,
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I'm going to put my foot down and vote for them
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because that's who I am and that's who I stand for.
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I'm not going to change my morals and my values
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And then also, too, I would have that conversation
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before it even got to that point with my partner of hey I'm voting for this person and if you do
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not agree we can't be together where I would never break up with someone because of their
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political views unless they didn't think mine like we're matching theirs so so would you make
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sure that you politically aligned before getting with your that's what I'm saying so like if my
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so like my partner like I would make sure that like before we even got into that that like our
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political views aligned but even if they didn't it's not something that's going to be a breaker
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for me as long as it's not a breaker for them where it's like if they can understand that I'm
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going to vote for who I want to vote for like me and my dad we have very different political views
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but at the end of the day that's my dad and I love him so it's just something that you have to be
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able to think about and not it's always just like spite or what the woman wants because they want
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the opposite so is there something that should be done to equalize the fact that like men can't vote
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unless they register for the draft and like right now we're closest that we've ever been to the
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chance that a draft could be called um and the women won't have to do anything if that happens
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but we still get to vote um so what should be done to make that equal like what should women
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have to do to make it equal i mean yeah is there is there an equal sacrifice that women should have
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to make i mean we are i mean it's not the same as going to war but we are staying home with the
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kids we're cooking we're cleaning we're taking care of the other uh household while they're gone
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we're taking care of the whole house so i mean it's kind of um like a push and a shove not as
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much but you're going to war and while you're there i'm going to take care of the kids cook
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clean if you don't have kids you're taking care of the house just to maintain it um so i think
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doing that uh kind of puts in that uh what i'm going to do while you're gone i will say i see
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your point it's pretty insane that we have the draft as an extra thing for men especially since
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do you have a boy i do yeah except like as a boy mom i'm like that's terrifying to think about
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that like you have to like sign off that right because it's like yeah you know we haven't had
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one in a while but potentially it could happen so i mean my husband was in the military i mean
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i have family members who are in the military did that you know free you know their own free will
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yeah um but that's completely different free will is like you're like offering it right and then
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there's all these incentives most of the time too like you get rewards from the government versus
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like you don't have a choice that's scary i would like also like um like during like war isn't like
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a lot of like the casualties like women no it's men well i mean like um like when we're it's like
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the united states went to war like historically a lot of the women here would also be like we
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would be endangered as well you know like we wouldn't be like safe just because we're at home
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well i mean if if there was fighting on the ground in the united states i'm sure there would be some
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civilian casualties but it's still going to be 99 men like all the wars that there have been sure
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there have probably been some casualties of women and children but it's the vast majority of the
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people who died in the war were the men. I will say I agree with your point on that too because
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I've seen like I've had friends in the military and even the friends that have served in the
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front lines and stuff like we're like closer to that it seems like they're just not put in as
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dangerous situations and then historically we haven't really had like a fight on U.S. soil and
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like a very we have a crazy military budget so the chances of that happening are like
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significantly low even with stuff happening in iran right now right yeah i mean because canada
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and mexico aren't going to attack us the most likely no one's going to bring the war to the
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continuous united states like we're more protected against like random civilian attacks and stuff
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like that yeah yeah that's true so i think we should either abolish the draft or add women to
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it and then also with women not being able to vote and wanting to repeal the 19th amendment what
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about single women or like lesbian couples well i mean the you you still have an opportunity to sway
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the men around you you don't know any men if you're a lesbian i mean i know men yeah so you
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can have conversations with them you can still go to your representatives you can write letters you
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can make phone calls i mean that's what the women did in the early 1900s before they had the chance
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to vote is they just gathered in groups and then they went and spoke to groups of men and said this
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is why we think that this should happen. So you think instead of having your own ballot, it's
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better to try to manipulate the men around you? I think that men are not easily emotionally
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manipulated, and women are. I think that it's really easy to pull on a woman's heartstrings,
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and unfortunately, God made us so that it's easy for our heartstrings to be pulled. I think that
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And that's why we're good moms, and that's why we're good caregivers, but it also makes
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it hard for us to sometimes be able to look through the tears to the facts of any given
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Yeah, I think like men and women, like we all have our strengths and weaknesses, yeah.
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So, you know, I don't think the coin to war is one of our strengths here.
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i mean i think if if it was i don't think we can abolish the draft unfortunately um because you
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need to have some sort of safeguard if world war three happens or whatever um but i think i would
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you know i wouldn't want to be drafted i'm probably too old i think that it's like um the first group
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is like 20s something like that 18 to 20 something and then if they get desperate they yeah they'll
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just keep calling the age groups um but uh i mean women can serve in other capacities um they could
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be medics they could be operations people like they probably wouldn't put women on the front line
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because we're not as strong as men we're not and i think brian sometimes likes to make the point
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that if women were on the front line the enemy would just be like well let's ravage the women
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and that'll yeah yeah i mean that's a strategy that's been used by armies in the past so um but
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i think that there's a lot of support roles women could play if necessary that would free up more
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women to be on the front or more men excuse me to be on the front lines if it came down to that
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so child free woman because then what would happen to the kids yeah i mean that and that's why women
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have to stay home right yes and that is that is i think um like if a woman decides to join the
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military and then gets cold feet or is going to be uh what is it is going to be what is the word
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where she's sent anyway when a soldier is like sent overseas or whatever yeah she ends up pregnant
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then they keep her home yeah so I mean I don't think that would be terrible because we also have
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a birth decline um like worldwide so uh I guess if the women just all want to get out of the draft
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by having babies that'll overall be for the good yeah um seriously so I feel like it's harder to
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be like a mom now these days too like compared to like well like depending on your situation
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because like child care gets so expensive and then it's like it's so hard to be like a stay-at-home
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mom sometimes for people you have to make sacrifices if that's the plan that you're
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you and your husband or partner have agreed upon for sure
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i feel like the draft is scary is for me like the president would be like there being no draft
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like fixing the draft like part of it because it is scary thinking of like in a situation if like
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your kid had to be drafted it doesn't feel like it's like a very fair trade-off yeah but what if
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we went to war and we don't have anyone to fight for our country because nobody wants to volunteer
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that's true yeah so sometimes you like you know they're this is why like things are like that
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because it's like don't we have a large enough military do you think we mean i think you know
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this i well i don't i don't know that much about that but um i mean i think we're we're all right
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right now but if a war were to break out then after you know so much time now who knows this
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is kind of we're in a world of everything's being fought mostly with like drones and AIs and like
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people flying planes and dropping bombs and so there's less hand-to-hand type of stuff going on
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yeah it's just button-to-button yeah but I mean I just I don't think you I think any giant um
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conflict would eventually lead to the place where you would have to pull in people who weren't as
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willing to go yeah do you feel like also like i'm interested in your thoughts on this since like you
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have the ideas of like the whole psyche thing do you think that like war would be less efficient
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if women were running it like remember the movie oppenheimer did you see that i did not see yeah
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you didn't see that but like making hard decisions like that would be hard for women um i i mean i
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think yes I think it would be harder to like I don't think that women should be in that position
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where they're you know saying drop this bomb or whatever like I had an uncle who was in
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I don't know one of the wars in the mid 1900s oh sorry um and he he would talk about like he was
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the guy in the air traffic tower who had to make the call on a plane dropping a payload payload
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and that haunted him as he got older my great uncle um and so I don't think women could do
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that I think it yeah we would hesitate way too long I think I think we have a tendency to nuke
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things um so yeah but then like even though that was like a hard decision for him too I'm sure at
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the time it's like okay then if he doesn't do that what is the other person right to do he's
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looking at the greater good and this is the role that he's placed in to serve yeah
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um is your um because you have the military background is your husband in the
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my husband was in the navy for six years oh okay okay yeah he served in japan so have you had to
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move anywhere no that was before we met i got you so i just have the pictures and he wears his
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coveralls from time to time oh was he serving in okinawa um no he so i don't i don't know where
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he was stationed in japan but he was there during 9-11 so then they got pulled out immediately oh
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no yeah so um yeah what else should we say guys um i don't know i got yelled at last time i made
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a topic do you guys feel like do you feel like um so you feel like men are better off like running
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military stuff anyways i i mean i think so i think what do you guys think oh i have another question
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so do you guys think that women can be president because you guys are saying that women can't make
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these big decisions and we talked about like having a woman as a president everybody was like
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oh yeah women can be presidents now you guys are kind of retract i think they can but i think like
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in the context of the united states like it's hard to say like when people say like sometimes people
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like i'm i feel like i'm more moderate but people will say things like we're going to take away
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everyone's firearms and i'm like that's never going to work in the united states this isn't
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japan you know what i mean so i feel like in the context of like realistically where our country is
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at i don't think it would like elect a woman president yeah in the near future and then like
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the kind of like disrupt the disrupt that that would like cause yeah would make the political
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parties like go even further i agree i don't think that a woman can be president um and i know that
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might sound misogynist or whatever but i think that we're way too emotional again um and
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i think that it would just turn everything into this like cat fight everywhere um i think that
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there's a place for women in politics i think like press secretary great place for politics
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because she can snap back when people are giving her attitude and shut things down but i think
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when you're leading a country and you're the face of the country there's just too many ways that
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the emotions can be played to you can't help the facts that you're like this all month long
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depending on where you are in your cycle it's an unfortunate reality um and then i mean god forbid
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the president gets pregnant um that would be something i i think that would be really bad
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period and broken up with girl i will say as somebody who dates girls there is a thing where
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like the mood swings are a thing they're like a thing it's like literally like baby daddy came
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back literally you're dating like a different person like if she's like depending on like if
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people have extreme periods i had a girlfriend with pmdd so it's like the person that i was
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dating when she's like on her period is like not the person i was dating like i don't want her in
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control of a nuke i think women like to get offended by it but it's an unfortunate reality
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of our life and you can't get rid of it there's been a huge shift away from hormonal birth
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controls because of what it does to women as a result like for me i just track everything on a
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calendar and that's how my husband have done everything we haven't gotten pregnant unless
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we wanted to get pregnant um but i definitely know like oh it's coming like and i feel so much
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better when it's done and yeah but to be fair when do we ever elect someone like under the age of 60
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so i feel like hormones you're like your homework hormones won't be as intense at that age i mean
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it's fair it could be a menopausal woman but her hormones are still crazy yeah but i mean
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is really bad. I feel like they're even worse. I was thinking pre-menopause, menopause, perimenopause.
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Unfortunately, we never get rid of the crazy hormones because then when you lose your estrogen,
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then you're crazy too. Like I just, and I've met a lot of men that are like older, much older. And
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you know how like people say like, oh, they're like beyond their years. Like that's how I feel
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about a lot of people that are, are older in general, like men and women. I will say like
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ladies or old guys you know like they just like they just seem so smart yeah no I was just saying
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I agree with you like I feel like men like in my experience like even though I prefer dating that's
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how I know I prefer dating girls because like girls be crazy like the men will like if you're
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having the same argument with a man sometimes unless it's really bad like I feel like it just
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doesn't scale to the it doesn't get out of hand as fast and they're over it they don't hold a
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girl actually I will like want to go to my husband and like apologize for something stupid I said
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earlier in the afternoon that he got mad and left and he's like what are you talking about yeah
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that's exactly yeah let's not bring it back because men are not emotional like that they
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won't hold on to something just because of like an emotional response to it they'll hold on to
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something because it's like actually a problem that's like reoccurring right yeah yeah did you
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have any input on this brie the voting thing um did she did you engage what did i say i swear i
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said something no i know you responded to her question i just don't know what you said you were
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it was a few minutes ago i forgot well i think she had brought up the draft and look i i don't
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think that we should point blank repeal the 19th caveat though if we make i mean this is the
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current status quo men are subject to military conscription the united states government can
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force men to go into the military, go the front line. Women have no such obligation or duty or
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responsibility. Women have a privilege, thus, by having access to the vote without any duty to the
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country, without any responsibility to the country, any obligation. That puts women in a privileged
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position over men women just got the thing for free men have to men have to be subject
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to potentially fucking dying in order to be able to vote if there was some sort of reverse
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reversal of that in order for women to be able to vote they had to potentially die and men didn't
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have that feminists would be losing their fucking mind oh my god it's so unfair we have to close this
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inequality. I think if we're not going to have a serious conversation about delivering equality to
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women, then we got to take away your right to vote. Or you get half the power of men's vote.
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That's only if. Now, my first step is not that. My first step is women can maintain their right
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to vote, but you also have to be subject to military conscription. That's equal. That's
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equality and even then you would still be privileged because you wouldn't be sent to the
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front lines women wouldn't be women are not sent to the front lines women are predominantly in
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support roles well no i was gonna say we do risk our lives in childbirth though okay can the
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government force you to have a child here you for this engagement please switch back to nathan
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go ahead oh wait go ahead you're good i that's what i what i just say that um we risk our lives
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my question was can the government force women to have children oh no but okay can the government
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force women to do anything uh i don't know right so can a woman who is like never plans on ever
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having a child can she vote i mean yes right so would you make it an obligation for a woman to be
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able to vote to have a child okay so what i just meant because you said how i don't know i thought
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you implied for a second like we don't risk our lives at all like in general but that is like
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something to where women do risk their lives i know we don't not every woman the mortality rate
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hold on uh we live in 2026 it's still pretty high no it's not high women get pregnant and give birth
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and the chance of you dying is like incredibly low while it happens uh no no
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there's still risks but yeah okay there's still risks but there's not even if even if even if
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that was true even if we grant it the government isn't forcing a woman ever to get pregnant
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i know right so that's irrelevant okay right so again uh and also even if you're saying well look
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okay brian obviously the government's not going to force women to have children but it's like a
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social obligation a social duty it clearly isn't women are not having children or they're waiting
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until their fucking late 20s and 30s to start having kids that were below replacement level
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we're having like 1.5 kids or some shit yeah and most of that it's not even
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it's fucking immigrants who are having the fucking kids it's not even americans really
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so this idea that uh well women are risking their lives it's like well are they i mean that's one
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Okay, well, men can risk their lives doing things that aren't related to the military.
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Like men's jobs are predominantly way more dangerous than women's jobs.
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Women, y'all mostly are in air-conditioned office jobs.
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So, okay, you're in favor of us giving women like three-fifths power to their vote.
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Well, okay, I actually just remembered what I said in response to her.
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I said her right to vote because she said how she would vote for her.
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So it's technically, it's counting, like, your vote is adding to his.
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Yeah, so if she didn't have the right, then, I don't know, it wouldn't count.
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Like, I mean, it would just be her husband's vote.
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But it doesn't, so if we're talking about equality, though, I mean, perhaps there's another form of equity that could exist.
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if you're saying women's obligation is to birth children uh then maybe we should have a birthing
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draft yeah i mean they can choose their partner but no seriously though because like the birth
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rate is declining so that would help actually a lot but i mean that's completely politically
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untenable feminists will lose their mind even conservative women will lose their mind
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um so and i'm not in favor of that just to be clear um but i think actually feminists would
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sooner prefer equality in the draft than having like this weird equity thing where
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yeah uh yeah women have to like birth children or something to get the right to vote that's
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probably way less preferable well in the out would be getting pregnant then if you're going
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to get drafted well that's the other thing is that yeah that would help for well the other thing is
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the the well that's an interesting outlook on that but uh if a woman volunteers to join the
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military which they can uh women can avoid deployment if they get pregnant so like yes
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even if you did have a draft women uh even if they're not pregnant women typically aren't going
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to be drafted to be like frontline soldiers like busting down down doors in Baghdad you know
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they're not going to be doing that at least when we were in the the conflict in Iraq many years ago
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but uh I mean women will always find a way to escape uh that even if they were drafted yeah
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okay just get knocked up women actually women volunteer soldiers who are women when they're
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like oh shit we're gonna get deployed to the middle east oopsie got pregnant discharge i have
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heard that happens actually oh they do all the time they're like fuck i don't want to go to
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afghanistan whoops got pregnant okay discharge me yeah i mean so women will always find a way
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to uh get themselves out of that situation not all women but um yep so i don't know i don't
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really know the solution but at least a good starting point is women should be subject to
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military conscription i'm fine with women keeping the right to vote but it should be in the same way
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that it's tied to men's sub being subject to military conscription women should also be subject
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to military conscription and fuck it just send all the women don't even send any men just send
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women see how that goes well my husband would rather go to war and have me keep the kids
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well maybe you get a pass if you have children but um well i guess men who
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men who have children don't get the pass even then so it's unfair so yeah okay um let's see
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here we have some things on the questionnaire why don't we go there uh do we have the things
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from the discord like the the research tab or whatever like all the ai swaps
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okay uh let's see here all right uh let's just go into some notes here uh kaylee you're a clairvoyant
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um yeah so i practice witchcraft and then um hoodoo what is hoodoo so hoodoo is it's not
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voodoo for anyone out there who's not familiar voodoo and hoodoo are two separate things voodoo
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is going to be more um like sacrifices and using different animals live animals and different
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things to do rituals where hoodoo is very much um ancestrally derived so for my black ancestors i
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use um my ancestral background uh to bring forth um i guess just like good luck um just
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my values and morals and then uh when it comes to being able to see things before they happen
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um it's normally in my dreams uh it's always I either have a really visual night terror where
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I end up like punching the headboard or like I'm uh I have night terrors so I always am like
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doing things in my sleep and I speak in my sleep I see things in my sleep and they happen in real
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life okay so clairvoyant isn't that like telepathy kind of or is that uh no it's not
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alter the mind you can get things through dreams see that see things before they happen uh things
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like that and you do witchcraft yes uh have you cast any hexes i've done one do you do dark magic
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um i don't do anything that unbalances the scale so like i would never put a spell on someone that
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would make them love me because i want them to love me for me um but as far as like black magic
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goes yeah there are things in the book that are written uh that are considered black magic yeah
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But I don't do anything where it's like I won't make anyone fall in love with me.
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What about a spell that somebody would have an accident?
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So it's giving that person whatever they deserve and what life thinks they deserve.
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Are you going to cast a spell on the Whatever podcast?
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No, you just pissed me off that one time, but we're fine.
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um so let's say she was just going through like a really hard time in her life or someone passed
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away I can pick up on that or it's um I can feel I could put myself into other people's shoes but
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on a different level where it's like even if I wasn't in that situation I'm able to take myself
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put them in their shoes and analyze everything from within not just from my own views and
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standpoint but from what anyone can see okay cool uh you said actually you know what let's just oh
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and i worship hakati let's do the uh questionnaire stuff here uh lexi women are the primary victims
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of war not men to which you agree why is that um because women get raped and killed uh yeah i'm not
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i mean i'm not going to dispute that women definitely do uh encounter that during wartime
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it's definitely happened um but so we're doing like a comparative analysis here between the
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uh collective suffering of men and the collective suffering of women so i'm not going to dispute
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absolutely during wartime women do get raped although i think they actually found in one a
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recent conflict in ukraine i think they actually found that ukrainian men were being raped at higher
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instances than ukrainian women uh even putting that aside though
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um i guess the question is uh how many men do you kill to prevent one rape
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uh one okay you'd kill one man to prevent one rape okay so if more i mean i mean i would kill
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half a man then if that makes sense so like if one man dies two women get raped that's like pretty
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yeah uh because like that's a whole life a whole life right you know but also a whole lifetime worth
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of trauma that's fucked up okay yeah i mean and plus losing your husband or child or whatever
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that could possibly happen you would acknowledge that while this is a very uh grave uh abuse of
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somebody that and not in all instances but some people can overcome their traumas yes and
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the military the male military deaths in i would argue every single military conflict that there
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has ever been is much higher than the rate of women who are essayed and so your position though
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is women are the primary victims of war not men oh no i just asked a question i was just uh
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confused about that no but on the questionnaire uh the statement women are the primary victims
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of war not men you agreed and then while i was gone i overheard yes as a release you i think
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you'd brought up something about women are the primary victims or something i'll remember exactly
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i'm literally gonna wake you up to that actually yes you're friends right call her jennington
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no we're um we're more than just friends actually i'm lovers i'm outing us right now
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we are besties for the resties oh thought you were gonna come out as gay
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no but that's actually my girl for life i mean i kiss my girl bestie so
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okay um jennifer uh you agree with the following statement women are just as physically strong as
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men is that correct yeah i believe so i believe that we well naturally probably not but i think
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you can definitely like women are capable of going to the gym and becoming stronger than they are
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right now yes or then like the same as men like let's say a man can lift a 200 pound weight i
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believe that's physically possible for a woman to do too you you did a bicep curl motion there
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and you said 200 pounds i don't i don't even think i mean like i don't know the records on
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Like, bicep curl is not, like, I don't know if they do competitions for bicep curls, but, like, world record bicep curl.
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Are you talking about the long bar with, like, weights on the end on each side?
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Okay, the world record for a strict bicep curl back against a wall is generally recognized as 251 pounds.
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So, yeah, no women, not even men, can single-arm bicep curl.
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Cheat Curls Lavon, the fucking arm wrestler, did like 400 pounds.
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But in any case, so there are some women who can be stronger than some men.
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But in general, on average, women are not stronger than men.
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Well, no, it says women are just as physically strong as men.
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The statement isn't, can a singular woman be stronger than a singular man?
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well my ex couldn't like press 200 and i can't so could he beat you up though
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possibly we never got at it to know well i don't know if he lifted but there's actually
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some recent funny videos on this they put like fitness women against dwarves oh i see that and
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the dwarves outperformed the women and then they put like skinny dudes against athlete women's and
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the skinny dudes still won so it's like um there are definitely some women who are stronger than
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some men but this statement would is more about like in general on average how about this is the
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strongest man alive stronger than the strongest woman alive i don't know you don't know i don't
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know uh what are the stats on that probably okay probably not probably not probably not
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okay um on average are men stronger than women on average yeah
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no so what are they weaker are they equal i like i think that like
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Like, let's say nobody, okay, so if, you know, a woman and a man are put into a room, they don't go to the gym.
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Naturally, genes, biologically, whatever, yeah.
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Right, and who participates in weightlifting more, men or women?
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But if you're saying that two untrained, like an untrained woman and an untrained man, they're in the room, just the baseline, the man's going to be stronger.
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This, I honestly think the gap would actually start to increase even if you compare a trained woman to a trained man.
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But when I saw that sentence, I was thinking, like, you know, like, oh, like, women cannot be stronger than men, which I completely disagree with.
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to say that they just, like, you know, you're saying generally can't, like,
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No, but I'm acknowledging that there are some women who are stronger than some men.
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But when I'm using women, I'm using a plural, plural women.
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So collectively, women are weaker than men.
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i would even argue the like an average guy can probably lift more weights than oh my god sorry
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guys um then uh a uh like not like a fucking olympic weightlifter woman but
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like a athlete female like i think your average dude is physically stronger than the
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dude who's never stepped foot in the gym stronger than a woman
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most women sure then yeah when you say it like that then yeah yes okay all right um
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can somebody take over the conversation for me please while i need it yeah i feel oh i was just
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gonna say i feel like it's a thing because like um i've had a few friends that took testosterone
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and they got strong it was crazy like females well yeah like people born female and then they
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took testosterone and then they started getting like super strong or like more muscle and stuff
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it's like there was this one person i was talking to ages ago and they were starting to take tea and
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it was like they started getting abs just like not working out or exactly yeah exactly because men by
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default are stronger and they they have a higher much higher endurance than women they don't get
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tired as quickly as we do if i worked eight hours and a man worked the same eight hours
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he will be fine after that is a thing well it's the same reason why there's been such a big push
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to make sure that it's only biological females competing against each other because even a trans
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woman who's been taking the hormones for years is still stronger than the other professional
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athletes in that sport yeah that are like it's just the natural testosterone that is in a man's
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body um my husband never goes to the gym he he is in decent shape like he's fit but he never goes
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to the gym I go to the gym multiple times a week and I think if he went he could easily outdo my
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leg press which is my my highest thing like I don't think it would be hard for him yeah and so
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and then I would be really annoyed because I've been working up for this like yeah year and a half
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but um i feel like you're so annoying but there it goes with the testosterone like
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we just can't yeah i think that's a huge factor when you don't have it i think it shows with like
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just trans people in general when it comes to a male transitioning to a woman and a woman
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transitioning to a male once that woman starts taking that testosterone they transition so much
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quicker that's a thing yeah because it takes so much for a trans a woman that's transitioning
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into a woman to look feminine if they don't already have the features because it's so hard
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for like their body to like cut it out and realize you're switching because testosterone is just like
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so strong it's like once somebody once somebody has gone through like male puberty like you need
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straight up like facial feminization surgery and even then like some people just like are
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have too masculine features uh yeah i know some girls in the trans community who go like through
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a black market route uh to get higher estrogen because um it's just not high enough and it's not
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doing anything so they go on the black market because that's where they can get where it's
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faster for them to look like a female and to get those um feminine features yeah i feel like there's
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definitely like strong women though don't get me wrong yeah but i think it definitely takes like
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a lot more training or like how you were saying with my ex-husband because he would like you know
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how men go through like periods of like wanting to get back in shape and then it's like the second
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he starts working out again he's like back to his old shape he literally like just like crash dieted
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for two weeks and he's doing a pull-up and I'm like over here like I hope I can lift I yeah my
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there's a pull-up bar in our basement and I was like so how many can you do my husband's like
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I haven't been working on them so I can do like five and I was like I hate you because I've been
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trying to use the machine at the gym to get myself to a normal pull-up and I'm still not there like
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and he's just like every once in a while he tries some pull-ups and he can do them and I'm like
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not fair not fair even my son is strong is your son how old is your son he's three yeah is he like
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strong like i'm like oh my gosh yes oh man he's so proud to carry in like my big thing of protein
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shakes from the van that's how my son is he's nine and he's so eager like he won't let me carry in
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the water or anything he's like i got it mom like i'm good and i'm like oh bob he's like he's really
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solid oh and strong he's a strong boy i know my son is like three foot six he's really tall it's
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crazy yeah i definitely feel like um yeah men are just naturally stronger also too then like i think
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the debating is so interesting because then it's like if you say that like men aren't naturally
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stronger than women then in some ways i feel like that kind of hurts the argument of like
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men can be dangerous you know what i mean that's like it's like from a debating perspective
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what do you guys think what do you think girl what was the question do you think men are
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naturally stronger than women yeah absolutely i think biologically men have more muscle mass
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than women so that would naturally lead to them being stronger well yeah and actually yeah you
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that's a really good point because women's bodies have naturally have to carry more fat because
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we're supposed to have babies and so we need fat to protect those organs one two three four five
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Does anybody not want to, not want to eat them?
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Well, men definitely need, like, more fat on their bodies.
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Or, like, how, like, like, if you have multiple kids, sometimes your body just won't let you, like, lose weight because your body is, like, oh, you need to be able to have, like, the next baby.
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my tailbone is starting to give out i like severely injured it when i learned how to
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snowboard so like it taps out like after three hours it starts like severely hurt
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i mean i have really bad posture so i'm like trying to sit up nice but even if like i rest
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like it's just it hurts when you're trying to set up yeah I do have a question for you um so
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with me being I'm 23 and I hear a lot like just with women that are my age that they're like oh
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you need to live your 20s and then have a baby later on in your later 30s where I want to have
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a kid in the next like two three years I would do it sooner rather than later I didn't have my
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first kid till I was 20 I think I just turned 29 when she was born and then and then I was 31 then
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with my second they were 20 months apart um and like it was just hard recovering now I had to have
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c-section so that also complicates things but you you see like women who are younger who start in
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their early 20s having kids and they like they lose the baby fat so much faster yeah their skin
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like goes back in so much quicker yeah um plus you have the energy yeah the energy to work out
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it's crazy thing everyone's just like live like live your life i'm like girl i partied when i
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was 21 like i'm 23 now like i'm over it like yes i want to have a kid next year i would say have
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like if you've got that partner that you're in it to win it like have kids because um like i like
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going to the gym but i have to get up at 4 30 in the morning to get it done before my kids start
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waking up why did you give it to me now why are you gonna give me a pizza to pass it
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yeah i feel like because it's you know nara smith yeah she got that's what i'm thinking back so fast
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because she had her first kid when she's 20 and she has like i think five kids now yeah and she's
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like she's so tiny she's tinier than like but i also do that has to do with like she's diagnosed
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with really bad severe eczema that's the whole reason she started her channel with making the
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food from scratch oh really yeah she has severe eczema oh so um it that was like where the whole
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like no nara smith oh the really pretty trad wife one something else too she has like lupus or
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something yeah so she's like a little yeah so she loses her hair and like yeah bad in her face and
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so that's the whole reason why she started doing the from scratch series it wasn't just oh i make
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this because i have the time and i'm a trad wife it's i need to for me and my kids because yeah i
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have a condition um so i yeah i think that also has to do with it too yeah i feel like as long as
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you know you have a partner that's gonna like you want you feel comfortable having a kid with them
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and that like you feel like you're ready to have a kid that you should have it whatever you yeah
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every time like i say that around people that are my age like you're crazy like what are you saying
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and i'm like why would i want to have a kid later on in life and then not be able to live what my
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40s and 50s while they're in college yeah like there's life to live afterwards yes exactly so
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like rachel wilson talks about how like her um her youngest is in high school so like she's written
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you know she wrote a book a couple years ago she is doing all the stuff she wanted to now she had
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her first kid at 20 so she's had five kids yeah um and now she's in her late 40s and like she's
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done having kids her kids are mostly grown like i can't imagine my you know i've got 15 more years
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yeah i was 19 when i had my oldest and like yeah i've struggled yes i've had to work my ass off
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but i i honestly i i would i wouldn't have it any other way because when i'm 40 my kids are
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going to be like grown yeah i feel like girls that are like oh i regret having kids it's because
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they didn't they didn't they didn't ever want kids in the first place right where it's like
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every time like my sister she had kids um a little bit earlier like in her later 20s and
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she doesn't regret a damn thing i think and i don't think that that is the case very often i
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don't think there's that many women out there going i wish i never had my kids a lot of a lot
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or like oh i wish i had a later are always like don't have kids yes don't have so many women are
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against like having kids or even they're like i wish i would have just lived my life yeah they're
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like i wish i lived my 20s like you you should start having kids when you're like 28 29 i'm like
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no i want that's why i want to be stable and i want to make sure that i want to have kids with
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this person like this guy's gonna like take care of me yeah i think you need to make sure that the
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person that you're having kids with is like a like safe enough person to do that because it's
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like i feel like i have a lot of child care help so it's like take my advice with a grain of salt
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but like i like being a young mom yeah i think i'll be 44 when my son is 18 yeah like my dad
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gives me a cross-eye when i tell him i want kids in two years like i mean he's my dad obviously
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but he's like i'm sorry when you said that uh how tired you are and stuff honestly i couldn't
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imagine having to change diapers right now i know i'm like at the end of potty training but
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i'm all done with that my kids are 14 10 and 9 so i'm like i'm all done with the diapers and
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potty training and all that stuff so thank you for the food yeah i feel like i feel like if i
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had to do all that now i would be exhausted i know i can't even imagine doing that like at 35
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like all i really want for my future is to find like a person who can play a good like support
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role to my kid as they get older but like diapers no don't worry just take maybe like i don't miss
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it yeah you want more kids no we're done yeah no my husband because he's 14 years older you know
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he when we started dating and started talking about kids his son was about to graduate high
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school and he said that like we didn't get married we got married like the month after
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his son graduated because he wasn't going to do that and then he was like I want to be done
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face straight stop I want to be done by the time I am 46 or something so it was like
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So if I eat, it's not going to, like, make wet noises in the microwave?
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I mean, if you're chewing, be a little further back, I guess.
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Kaylee, you wanted to talk about dating toxic bums who made false promises.
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So I was in a relationship where he told me right off the bat he had really bad social anxiety.
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But as we started dating and we started getting into serious conversations, like, hey, I'm moving to Chicago.
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he started developing this thing where he was like, I'm going to get a job eventually. So I
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started helping him apply for jobs. I basically did the whole thing for him. I ended up getting
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him a job. He ended up moving to Chicago with me. And he would just have an excuse every single time
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about why he couldn't go to work. Oh, well, I have social anxiety. Oh, well, I want a job where I
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don't have to start. I should just be making money right away. Like, I don't want to be working for
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somebody else. I want to work for myself. Like, I could do crypto. And it was just always these
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false promises of oh well I'm going to do this no I my social anxiety will get better I will get a
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better job like I I know I can do this I can make money it's just right now I don't want to um so I
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ended up having to leave him and kick him out of my house because he just kept promising false
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promises and I had to kick him out do you think it was just excuses like he didn't he was fine
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talking to people at parties and stuff so what do you mean you have social anxiety like you're and
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then like the whole thing with like he also was one of those people that would um go on those like
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betting sites and like put in 500 but then lose 500 and and he would continuously do that and be
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like well i broke even yeah on that day so it was just always just like false like oh i'm gonna do
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this i will get this and it's like at the end of the day i like i'm i don't mind making a sacrifice
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where you don't have a job right now i'll put in some money but that needs to come to a stopping
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point at some point you wrote that yes dating in the rave industry and how toxic it is how so
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um so in the chicago rave scene um i got like a sneak peek of why you ask for pizza you take one
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oh my god i could have had that fucking slice so um just being like i mean i guess it goes in
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any industry whether it's the rapping industry rave edm whatever when you get into that scene
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there's going to be those opportunities where you get to meet those people that can give you
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something and they're going to expect something in return and I met the wrong people and I met
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some really shady people that promised some like they were just in the industry so they're like I
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can get you this I can put you here I can help you get here um and then at the end of the day
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they wanted sex or money or something in return and I just wasn't for it and it got into the point
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where they would do anything to get that, whether it was drugging you,
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whether it was taking advantage of you, anything.
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So in that scene, it's different from the underground is different from actual clubs and venues
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because you're booking that venue and you know the people that are there.
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When you're in the underground, you're setting up this random abandoned place for people to come and party.
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Well, there's no real security there. There's no real ID checking.
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It's just a very toxic thing, and you can get very wrapped up in it very quickly.
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I'll have Nathan collect your finished plates, those of you who are done.
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I understand you guys have different pizza out there
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But if you get invited back to Green Room, do not go.
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All right, Mick, you always lose interest in the good ones.
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and you tend to pick not great people, you don't think you should be allowed anymore.
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So, like, I'll have an opportunity to be with, like, a green flag of a man.
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Like, really great people, but I just, like, lose interest in them,
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and then I choose the men with the red flags and I, I continually make those decisions. So I said,
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I shouldn't be allowed anymore. I shouldn't be allowed to pick because you're going to pick
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the wrong. Cause I keep picking the wrong ones. Same girl. Yeah. I'm trying to see. Yeah. You
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wrote in your notes, you don't know why, but you're attracted to the red flags. Uh, you can't
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help yourself. There are amazing men out there and you still fall for the ones that treat you
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like shit yes you haven't figured out why yeah i don't know why i picked them but that's just
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a pattern i have noticed and you think you could fix them it's not that i want to fix them it's
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just i get bored with the green so you just like you just like choose men that make you feel good
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yeah i'm like maybe the ones feel bad no that like make her feel good in the moment but it's
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not actually doing good like earning their love feels good yeah it's like like it feels fun it
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feels like exhilarating yeah like you know it's kind of wrong but like they're treating you so
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well but like you just feel kind of special yeah like they're mean to everybody else they treat
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everybody else like shit so i'm like maybe if i can get them to treat me like it feels extra good
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everybody else no maybe yeah that's completely dysfunctional you should see a fucking therapist
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I had the same issue, but it was more or less me thinking that I could fix them
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And then I realized once, like, you can't fix everyone.
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I don't understand this thing with women, this affinity for toxic, jerk, asshole, abusive men.
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But solipsism is when you think you're the center
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i'm not saying all women i'm i'm using speaking in generalities here i know i was speaking like
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about you well you were asking so i was just saying i'm so fucking putting in my input but
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it was her turn to talk she's barely said anything tonight it was clearly her conversational thread
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like i'm trying to have an engagement right here for a little bit all right
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i don't know those are the ones that i pick because it's kind of like exciting
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and it's it's boring when they're just a hundred percent green flag i think
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oh hold on didn't mean to do that yeah that's completely dysfunctional um
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and you're how old you're i'm 28 you're 28 yeah so you like the bad boys the jerks the assholes
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have you ever dated a guy with a face with face tattoos oh my gosh i drove two and a half hours
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to go on a date with this dude who didn't have a car didn't have he was a soundcloud rapper no
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And then I found out that he believed in conspiracy theories.
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Wait, the conspiracy theories was the fucking line.
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That's where you drew the line was conspiracy theories.
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so we went with his friends on a date and one of his friends didn't have a date and his friend that
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didn't have a date paid for everybody wait you went on a date with two dudes no i went so i went
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on a date with one dude and then his friend brought a date and then there was another friend there
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that paid for everybody so it was three dudes and two girls yes okay what does that have to do with
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anything i would have paid for the date i tried to pay for my portion of the date okay but so
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back to you preferring to date men with red flags yes um you drove two and a half hours
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to a guy who had face tattoos yes like how much of his face like just a couple neck tattoos yes
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hand tattoos yes um and then uh he was a soundcloud rapper the conspiracy theory i mean
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i'm that's whatever i'm not that's not a big deal um did you fuck him no really i'm a geologist i
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did not you're a g i'm a geologist right and he believed in flat earth and i was like i can't do
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If he wasn't a flat earther, would you have fucked him?
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I was hoping he had a cool personality and we would, like,
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There's not eligible men in your city, I guess?
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It just seems like a lot of work, not gonna lie.
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I mean, look, obviously, I'm not saying you had to fuck him.
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If the guy's worth driving two and a half hours for,
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But if you're driving two and a half hours
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You don't just, like, go meet somebody and fuck him.
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and you're 28 and how long ago was this like six months ago six i don't understand this so
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it's like on one hand you're like well i'm more mature now but uh i'm also going to date a guy
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with face tattoos that's why i said i shouldn't be allowed to make these decisions you probably
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shouldn't um i charge 300 an hour to give personalized dating advice so people like you
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don't fuck their life up um but uh yeah if you want my services uh yeah but noted yeah that i
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mean that's ridiculous um i'll understand this thing though on that topic of like so you wouldn't
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have sex with a guy quickly now now okay now but in when you were young you just right away
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well yeah i guess that's such a raw deal for men like imagine imagine like and i've i've
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actually encountered this myself like with dating i remember one particular girl um
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part of me thinks it's like are they that into you but the other thing like women do this for
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sure uh i remember one girl it was like the third or fourth day and she was like oh you know i prefer
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to wait and i was like and she's like oh yeah a year ago i fucked a guy right away i was like
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and she was like oh but i really like you brian i think you're long term and i'm like so just to
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be clear the guy who's a piece of shit he gets the pussy but i'm the good guy the guy you want
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to be in a relationship with and i don't get the reward so i'm i'm i'm your ideal boyfriend material
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i gotta wait but the piece of shit drug addict fucking whatever he gets to hit right away
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that's a fucking raw d imagine imagine if men imagine if a guy who was like listen i think
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i see long term you could be my future wife you're wifey but you know what because of that
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i think i want to take things slow i don't want to get you gifts i don't want to take you on
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vacation i don't want to do these romantic gestures i don't want to protect and provide for you i want
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to wait until we're more established before i do that stuff you know but the girl who i'm telling
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you she didn't really matter i didn't care about her she was just fun she was just for fun i just
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wanted to fuck her she got the gifts she got the dates she got the vacations but she was just for
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sex but my future wifey my girlfriend who i'm supposed to cherish you get to wait for it
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i'm not doing any of that shit with you y'all women would lose your fucking minds no i've
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actually had a guy do that backwards yeah he was like well i feel like i've done this so many times
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like i've wasted so many resources i've been on so many dates for no reason like i don't want to
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like ruin what we have and i was like block that's what we have nothing
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i don't know man i mean like it's a raw deal i feel like shit if you fucked a guy within an hour
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like i take it back you should no when i was younger i feel like you know i mean you can wait
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because you know you want to be in a good relationship but now that i'm older it's like
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okay like you've done stuff i've done stuff we're grown sorry yeah what were you gonna say
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i was gonna say i take it back i might have hooked up with somebody like 24 hours after meeting them
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but they they took me and my motorcycle to a bike meet on my birthday and drove like three hours
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and also i'll pay for a first date you know because i feel like dudes pay for a lot of
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first dates i prefer paying for the first date now on the waiting for sex thing though and look
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it's i want to be somewhat charitable it is a bit of a damned if you do damned if you don't
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situation so it's like okay for example if a woman used to do heroin it's probably better
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she stops doing heroin just because she used to do heroin doesn't mean she has to keep doing
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heroin in that same vein if a woman is fucking guys super quick and that's not how she wants to
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like move i understand it but and if a woman feels like it's a better way to move to kind
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of like hmm let's third date or longer even i understand that but from the male's perspective
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and if you want to fuck her and she she likes you and you know she fucked another dude really quick
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i'm like who the fuck am i then i'm like oh okay so that douchebag that that you fucked really quick
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um he uh like who am i i don't know and so
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i don't know i feel like there's a better way to articulate this point that's evading yeah like so
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basically you think he's uh more deserving or that's how it's it seems that he's like more
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deserving of it even though he's uh a piece of shit it just seems like a raw deal for the man
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like if that was on the table for that dude i wanted on the table for me yeah now i don't know
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if that makes me a jerk or whatever but i don't know yeah i feel like it's uh normal or it's ideal
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to have sex like within the first three dates i would i mean i'm a little bit like of a horndog
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like i like to have sex on the first date because like i feel like that's my intention i'm like yeah
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i want you to fuck the shit out of me but that's just me
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Hey, no, look, I'm, I mean, the little soundboard things or whatever.
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Um, yeah, I mean, I mean, cause you've, we've done so many things in high school.
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So once like I've already like passed that threshold, I'm like, okay, like I'm going
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you know like I don't know I feel like if I'm like even on a date with you like it means something
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like we talked already we have enough substance we can fuck is that why you have such high date
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standards um I don't know actually well I guess so because I feel like I haven't been fucked in
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a long time so it's like if I get fucked on this off occasion where I am getting fucked
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i want to get fucked by a guy i like that's valid yeah i'm like you know i like you we're talking
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we're dating okay and fuck me i'm sorry if you give away the milk for free everyone will want
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free milk like no one wants to pay for something uh that they can get from somewhere else for free
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i don't know i feel guilty when they try to buy me things
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okay yeah um it's kind of like uh i don't know i don't know it just seems like women are leveraging
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the sex i don't know it seems like i don't know
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okay uh but you do date these toxic guys or whatever uh you the the guys who have green
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flags you disregard them you don't find them attractive mostly valid girl
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i'm not physically attracted to them so like no matter how many green flags they have it's just
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like there's no there's nothing there you have to have physical attraction but are there men who
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are physically attractive who don't have the red flags and you're not attracted to them
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i mean like they're physically attractive but not like
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i don't know i don't know if i have so dysfunctional bro so dysfunctional
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Have you ever been with a guy that was at first toxic and then was like, you're the one, I'm going to treat you great, and you lost interest?
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Just a little toxic in the beginning, and then it gets more toxic, and then I'm like, oh, and then I leave.
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Dysfunctional, see a therapist, fix your problems.
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yeah i don't know it's i i don't know if men operate this way i mean obviously toxic people
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can be drawn to each other but it's like wow she's really kind and nice to me
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nah like what i don't i don't get that i don't know i think it's a woman thing oh yeah i feel
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yeah for sure um guys and girls like toxic people a lot of guys like toxic girls i think
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guys who don't have a lot of options uh or who have dysfunction in their own life might like
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toxic women but uh like some men will accept it or tolerate it out of necessity because they can't
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get higher quality women who uh treat them well i guess what you disagree
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they can't get a higher quality woman like we come out of a factory
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yeah i mean well um you know it's like kind of like a little bit of a meme i feel like
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like um guys make jokes about like women being toxic and like how they're like drawn to that
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all the time i want to grow a little yeah like when a girl's like a little crazy like you know
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like when they can't go out with their boys like it's like a joke you know it's a joke but it's not
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it's real i mean i think that's like super simp like i don't know that's that's weird for a guy
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to operate that way but yeah this is more of a stereotype though in terms of women like you don't
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hear men like i want the bad well women would say uh i like bad boys yeah and then guys will say i
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like toxic gas no they don't they're just fucking they can't get good women they date them out of
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necessity because they they can't get a woman who treats them right i tried to treat a guy right
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one time and he was like telling me he was like you're boring i was like what he's retarded he
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was like yeah i like you're boring i like i like girls that are a little spicy yeah and i was like
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yeah yeah i mean that's retarded i definitely have seen some really nice looking guys who are
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like i want a toxic girl that's gonna beat me yeah and it's like yeah dysfunctional
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completely dysfunctional. I think it's like just people who have problems are me saying these
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things. Well, yeah, I think that's a basis for a lot of it, for sure. Okay, but going back to
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your notes, Mick, you drove 2.5 hours to meet a man in a wheelchair. You wheeled him around a
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mall, bought him a skateboard deck for when he recovers as a first date. You caught feelings,
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you drove out to him multiple times, and even spent the night in the ICU with him when he got
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a skin graft yes his brother texted you one day and told you he gave away the deck lied about the
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accident that put him in the wheelchair and he had warrants yes did he have face tattoos no
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um neck tattoo no um so okay what was the accident he got so he was on a motorcycle
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and he ran a red light going over 100 miles per hour and got t-boned okay so he was at fault
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but he told you that somebody else was at fault yeah he told me that he was it didn't like click
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at first but he told me he was taking a left turn and he had a green arrow okay so he lied about the
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problem was that he was going over 100 miles per hour and it didn't click that like how are you
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going to take a turn at over 100 miles per hour what did he have warrants for it was like not
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having a license in a different county and then like just stop signs and stuff and then he didn't
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go to the court dates okay uh and then you wrote your dumb ass kept talking to him for like another
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month before you got sick of the lies yeah he also told me stuff like he would needed to go to
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the hospital and the ambulance wouldn't come get him because there was a dnr and i was like that
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doesn't make any sense and he was like i'll put you in my will and i'll give you all of my cars
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and bikes and that's when i was like all right you also wrote that uh you were talking to one
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dude who was a walking green flag total sweetheart treated you amazing but you cut things off with
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him because you still had feelings for wheelchair man yes uh and that wasn't fair to walking green
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flag guy walking green flag guy deserved better and eventually found better yes okay yeah and now
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he has an amazing girlfriend and i like ruined that friendship and i can't be friends with what
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what is like i could but that would be really awkward what is the most down bad you've ever
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been for a guy is it the wheelchair guy or even worse uh tiffany can you get me two water bottles
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please uh what do you mean like what like just the most desperate like cringe i don't know like
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just doing way too much extra shit for a guy who just treated you like shit well recently
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definitely wheelchair man oh besides wheelchair man my ex had sex with a prostitute in the bed
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that i bought for us and then i got back to get so we broke up for like a week and then i got back
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together with him and then he would regularly go get like happy endings oh oh my god so i would
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make him like get tested and then after a while it was just i was just done you never wanted to
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stab him wait you whoa wait hold on let me just recap uh you were dating a guy you were living
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together yeah and he would go out while you were together living together and sleep with prostitutes
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yeah and you stayed with him yeah i would go home on the weekends and he would go sleep with
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prostitutes on the weekends while i wasn't home and he told you yes he told me and his friends
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told me and you stayed with him for how long uh after the first time he did it it was a solid like
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Blamed it on drugs. Were you sleeping with other men?
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i mean only when i drink but i would say like i'm more just like pay attention to me like pay
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attention hug me if a guy doesn't text you back fast enough do you get mad i'll pout about it
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for like 10 minutes but then i'll get over it okay uh
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that's way worse than the wheelchair guy i think i mean i don't know um damn it's not
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not just even like he's fucking like some college girl it's a fucking prostitute i know i was like
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you had to pay to cheat on me that's crazy were you not fucking no we were
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okay that's fucked up once yeah you should see a therapist not gonna lie i don't even like
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therapy but you should fucking see a therapist did you still do anything with him after you
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found out oh can we clear the plates from the table before i would do anything with him so
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even though like the test came back or negative but you knew he was sleeping with another prostitute
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you would still have sex with him if he had sex with the prostitute i would make him get tested
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and wait for the test results to come back to have sex with him again okay on one hand this is such
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a fucked up situation on the other hand i would want a girl who stayed with me after i had a drug
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fueled prostitution bang marathon you know like you know what i mean so it's kind of ride or die
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i guess not that i don't want to ever fuck a prostitute but you seem loyal i guess thank you
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to a fault um okay nicole uh you're a stay-at-home mom who homeschools you remained a virgin until
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you were 27 you married your husband who's 14 years older than you you're a conservative
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of christian lutheran um you think age gap relationships are fine you understand why men
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would want to get more established yep we talked about that uh we talked about the 19th uh you
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believe body count should include any sort of sexual activity with another person uh
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like that of girl who claimed to be a virgin a few shows ago um yeah i feel like you gotta
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to factor in blow jobs you know like she's a virgin but she's like 20 days yeah that's weird
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that's like different with straight people sex is sex yeah you touched them
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it's like are you uh yeah you write nicole being a virgin should be associated with some level of
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purity of actions so it's like a girl who slept with one guy and that's and had that's it
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versus a girl who hasn't had intercourse sexual intercourse but
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sucked a hundred dicks where's that on the balance of purity
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um definitely the girl yeah so in with christianity you can have anal sex right but
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it still doesn't you shouldn't have any sex you can't have anal you as a christian you can't have
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sex oh i mean you can do anything after marriage because the bible says to give your body to your
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husband i think it might technically be sodomy i feel like yeah i don't think technically christians
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are supposed to engage in anal sex even heterosexual anal sex she's like oh fuck well i
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don't i don't i can't think i mean i can't think of any passages that specifically say that
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there are passages that specifically say yeah within the context of like two men
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i'll have to google it yeah christianity oh wait hold on uh christianity does not explicitly
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forbid or allow anal sex in the bible many interpret biblical principles on purity wisdom
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and avoiding unnatural relations romans 1 as advising against it there seems to be some back
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and forth here um while not explicitly mentioned some interpret verses in 1 corinthians 6 and
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hebrews 13 as warning against sexual acts viewed as immoral or unnatural so up for interpretation
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um yeah isn't isn't it catholics uh like you can
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like sex is for the purpose of reproduction so if you're fucking a woman in the ass she
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definitely can't get pregnant from that so it would be unnatural i don't know yeah and in islam
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you can't go to heaven they say yeah anal sex heaven's off the table for anal sex yeah
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probably based on a different interpretation well and if you read like the song of solomons in the
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bible it's pretty the metaphors for a woman's body are very graphic so sex is not taboo within
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christianity but you're supposed to keep it within your marriage right and there are verses that
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explicitly say like your body is to be your husband's and your husband's is to be yours
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and you're never to deny each other access to that um so i don't think it would a woman who's
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like in a christian marriage who's like i don't want to do anal sex i don't think that would be
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in contradiction to the owing each other your body thing sure yeah i mean yeah i because if
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you love your partner you're not going to force them to do something that they're uncomfortable
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with sure yeah okay uh let's see here you know what let's go back to the questionnaire for a
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little bit here uh lexi people of color can't be racist towards white people yes how so um because
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they white people have never been enslaved uh you sure about that yeah so do you know the
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etymology of the word slave no slavic slave so the first slaves were actually white people
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um and then there was the barbary slave trade in parts of europe where you had uh you had i
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it's an arabic or north african or muslim uh slave slave traders slavers uh they would abduct
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white people and that went on for i believe hundreds of years so yeah white people have
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definitely been slaves okay well then i retract my statement oh okay so you concede then yeah
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uh well so how about this though um can black people in the united states be racist
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towards white people because you'd agree that uh black people uh well maybe somebody in chat might
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well i mean wait let me just finish people in the chat might be like brian you're actually wrong on
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this but at least african americans at no point in the united states history african americans
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did not make slaves of white people um so can black people in the united states be racist towards
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white people um i think that everyone can be prejudiced towards each other and racism definitely
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exists like for both parties like black and white or you know if that's what we're gonna go based
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off of then yeah i think that racism exists again in both yes racism yes okay can asian people can
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cambodian latinas be racist towards african americans oh um white people me white people
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um well i guess i guess white people white people um you know i guess there's like definitely like
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some prejudice that we can have against each other but um no racism can you a cambodian
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puerto rican lady be racist towards pale as fuck white guy blue eyes okay can yeah um
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well i would i would say yeah you know that's like if i had like a nail salon and i was like
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no white people no white people can you actually do the rest of the podcast racist wait can you
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do the rest of the podcast with that accent the vietnamese no no do it no do it no it'd be fun
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no wow lame uh okay so uh let's see lexi yes women do not have equal rights to men in the usa
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to which you agree why is that um well women and men are not equal we um we have our own
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strengths and weaknesses you know so i think um we all have like um you know different biases i guess
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uh but what rights do men have that women don't um well they have the right to be shirtless in
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public easily uh is there anything else though so i actually agree with you that's the only thing i
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ever cite to but yeah i mean like you know it's like um showing genitalia is like a lot more uh
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easy for a man to get away with it absolutely not yeah like they can show their nipples and it's not
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genitalia i mean well if i was showing my nipples it would be considered like genitalia or something
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right it'd be a secondary uh sex attribute but genitalia i think would refer to i don't think
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bare breasts are genitalia that would be like your vagina would it include the butthole
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but it wouldn't be your breast i don't know i think yeah but in any case but on that individual
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note i think uh like if a man exposed his penis versus a woman exposing her vagina
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it would be appraised like way worse the man doing that like that's way gonna be viewed way worse
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well I mean it's kind of like you know like when teachers have like relationships with like their
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students like women and men both like it's just not okay in general right so I just don't think
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it's okay for example I would I would put it like this if there was like a woman who was just
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walking around the street naked and there were children around people would be like whoa that's
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really fucked up whereas i think but maybe people call the cops on you and blah blah blah i think
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if there's a guy who's uh walking around naked and like a father is there with his kids i could
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see a father like fucking maybe not murking the guy but uh whooping his fucking ass uh whereas i
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don't think like a woman would start beating on a naked woman i don't think a man would start
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beating on a naked woman uh so i think there are like the assessment would be a bit different now
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in terms of like uh would they both be arrested probably yeah um even then the severity typically
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women don't face as harsh punishments but that's besides the point um beyond that can you actually
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and by the way some jurisdictions uh it is allowed for women to go topless there are some areas where
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women can go topless ohio i think you can go topless yeah but it's like i'm all for it free
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the titty but even women don't want to be walking around with their bare breasts out most of them
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anyways uh and if they do i don't think men really would have a problem with it let them
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kamala yeah you don't even remember i'm sorry gosh i'm not so political women don't get taken
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seriously but you're a woman and you don't recall i don't take politics seriously i don't really
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invest myself in them personally but i just find it somewhat interesting that you don't even recall
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the name of the yeah all i remember about her is that she was a meme like people clowned her
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for ages like from the day that she even like started her like campaign right but so do you
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think people don't take her seriously because she's a woman or yes no or because she was a
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dog shit candidate i think both because you know bernie sanders like he was kind of stupid too and
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people weren't clowning him as much as like they were clowning her like they were like memes like
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there's valid criticism yeah or even like you know trump right now like there's a lot of like
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memes that can be made but it's not it's not really going as viral as like kamala like her
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memes were like really trump is the most they were attacked and maligned person in
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arguably the history of the world like i mean perhaps absent some dictators in the mid
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20th century but um this idea that like even diddy you know like diddy did some horrible things but
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they're just like making a joke out of it it's just like he's in jail wait i'm so confused what
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does did he have to do with it but okay so women don't you said women don't get taken as seriously
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even granting this well yeah i mean like nobody really sees like uh sorry what would that have
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to do with rights even granting it's true which i contest but what does it have to do with equal
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rights um well i just think um you know women are probably never going to be president or a lot of
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things not true i definitely see it happening i think it'll happen in our lifetime
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i don't know well you would agree that a woman can be president right there's nothing legally
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preventing her from being president right okay so what is it in any case uh even if the populace
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just there's just better male candidates or whatever or even if his sexism does exist in
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society you would have to agree are you okay or i was just simming sorry what is that sorry you
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should have disclosed i mean you should have disclosed it to me that you're stimming i mean
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yeah it's just a thing with autism it's just like when i get i just do like hand motions or okay i
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that's fine we'll do an uh we'll do an accommodation but to somebody who's not aware of your
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stimming i know it looks like i'm yeah i mean yeah it's a disability uh okay but yeah anyways so
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sorry i lost my train of thought well i think that men um like men's uh rights like they're
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favored, I guess. How so? Like, um, people just love men. Even if that was true, which I, again,
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I disagree with, you have things like the women are wonderful effect where, uh, people tend to
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give women a halo. Whereas people, both men and women are a bit apprehensive when it comes to men,
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people assess men as more potentially, uh, as threats. Whereas, um, there, there's like for
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both men and women there's a bias towards women women have a strong in-group bias for other women
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men have a slight out group bias for women uh so this idea that people love men i'm not actually
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sure if that's true um but in any case though even granting that what does that have to do with rights
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so can you name a right that a man has that a woman doesn't besides the topless thing no
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so men and what do how about this do men and women have equal rights um i guess
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damn i'm getting a lot of w's tonight everybody's changing their mind on everything um uh okay
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let's see hold on uh kaylee you think oh wait you write women are oppressed in the usa and
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men are more privileged in society than women those are two separate ones you agree with that
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why is that wait i said that i agree that men are more you agree that women are oppressed
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in the usa and you think men are more privileged in society yeah so when my um thing of oppressed
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is like um what i think what it meant was like being oppressed is being like um
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what did i literally ask you what it was and you told me um being taken advantage of
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i wouldn't categorize being taken advantage of as oppression but um i'll give you the definition
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thank you uh hold on prolonged cruel or unjust treatment or control uh oh did they change it
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yeah can you repeat it prolonged cruel or unjust treatment or control so what i circled was saying
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that women go through the the cruel is what i was saying and when i circled that uh so the
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statement is women are oppressed in the usa and you circled it so going through like the
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definition that you said the cruel and yeah so typically this would mean like
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from the state down like there's something in in the government or society that is
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cruel or unjust to women um so like for example yeah uh dating an abusive guy
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wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex why is that
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well because if if a girl is saying no you can't have sex with me i'm assuming that there's a
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reason why she said no you know so there's probably an issue that you have to fix in your
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relationship and then you can have sex that's how easy it is seriously i used to say no to my ex all
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the time i'd be like no we can't have sex you pissed me off today and we talked about this
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issue multiple times so i'm not going to give you what you want you can't give me what i want
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uh before i respond to that jennifer you also agree why is that
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that oh with the question you just asked yeah wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she
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regularly turns him down for sex you know i 100 agree like why why wouldn't i like no means no if
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i don't want to have sex with you today i don't have to have sex with you today like right but
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it's not a question about consent i we all agree that consent is uh is what's the right word um
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100 necessary but you're okay the statement once again wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if
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she regularly turns him down for sex so why because the relationship shouldn't just be based
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on sex it should be like based off of like how you guys connect like energy wise like what you
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guys bring to the table okay so if i was dating a girl and i was doing nothing wrong and she just
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like completely for for six months she didn't want to fuck i'm in the wrong for wanting to dump her
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because well i guess that's like your preference but it's just like that shouldn't be the reason
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why like somebody gets dumped for for not wanting to have sex like people have like
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like religion is a thing like some people can't like have sex like before marriage you know like
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but so yeah religion is a thing but i mean i'm not making a religious argument on this
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um if also it's sort of implied in the question if the man is being turned down for sex
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he's clearly not waiting until marriage for sex so he wants to have sex so it's baked into the
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question, this would probably not apply to a relationship where both people are waiting for
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marriage. So putting that thing aside, uh, if I'm in a sexual relationship with a woman
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and she's expressed a expectation that I'm monogamous to her and she all of a sudden stops
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having sex, what would be actually be wrong with me dumping her?
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It would be better for me to stay with her and cheat on her than to dump her.
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No, I just said that it's better if you just dump her than to cheat on her.
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would it be wrong for a woman to dump her boyfriend if he just decided to stop paying
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the bills for example lexi here she wants a guy to pay all the bills what if he just
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decided to stop doing that would it be okay for her to dump him
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because that's like your preference like if you if you like if he's coming to the table and saying
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that i'm gonna do this then he should keep his word so if a girl asks me to be her boyfriend
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are you laughing because you realize you're wrong or are you laughing for another reason
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well in a way i guess i am wrong because at the end of the day it's a preference if you
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want your relationship to be about sex and it's it's a problem when it stops happening then
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would you be happy in a sexless relationship like you want to fuck but your boyfriend's like
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nah I'm good would you tolerate that I would definitely question okay me personally I have
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a high sex drive so like I would not have you ever been has a guy ever rejected you for sex
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like a boyfriend rejected me for sex like said no to sex yes no that's funny uh would you be
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bent out of shape if a guy turned you down
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wait i'm so sorry repeat that like this is so funny she can't even comprehend the idea of being
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sexually rejected she doesn't even she can't even comprehend it it doesn't even compute for her
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your boyfriend doesn't fuck you for three months
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I don't know you just haven't been acting right recently
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to something else but he just doesn't want to do it
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uh even if your boyfriend like pissed you off that day like you could still fuck him well maybe
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that'll make things better i don't know if he pissed me off about that one certain thing for
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like repeatedly for like months i'm not gonna have sex with him after he's that one thing to me but i
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would have sex with him if he did something else completely like never happened before he pissed
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me off that day it's okay whatever i'll suck your dick but yeah if it's like a continuous problem
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them like you need to you need to learn your lesson and just to be clear look i've had girl
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like a girlfriend will piss me off and she's all like oh let me make it up to you i'm like nah go
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away like so i get it i'm not saying like if you're upset with your partner you don't have to
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fuck them yeah maybe you can make it better you know honestly but i've definitely like turned down
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my girlfriend before if she's just fucking annoyed me or something and she's like can i make it better
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it's like nah just go in the other room you know like yeah but um i guess what i'm getting at here
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is like yeah okay you're you're adding these qualifiers of oh my god the boyfriend's not
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acting right so yeah of course i don't want to fuck him what about in this situation though
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the boyfriend's not doing anything wrong as far as we know the girl maybe they've been together
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for three years and she's just i don't know maybe she lost a little bit of attraction
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let's assume the guy's not doing anything wrong
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i mean they should communicate about it and like i mean there's been like a communication
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and she's still like not you know having sex and yeah he should dump her because they're
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obviously not compatible exactly i'm not saying i would disagree with you that he should dump her
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uh he that's a determination that a man can can make but i don't think it's wrong if he does
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like he could opt to stay in the relationship okay maybe she's going through some shit we can
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work it out uh men also go through phases where they might not be maybe they're going through
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stress or they have a injury or something and their sex drive is is lower whatever if there's
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like a valid reason like to say she's um she's going through chemo or something that obviously
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yeah it's kind of messed up if you were to dump her but uh i think like if she's otherwise healthy
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and she's not having sex with him as frequently as possible and he talks about it and she's not
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willing to, you know, perhaps make a change. There can be a compromise, but she won't even
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compromise. I don't actually, I think people look can break up with somebody for any reason or no
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reason at all. People reserve the right to break up with anyone for any reason.
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I'm just, Oh, I just don't really, I don't know. I want to date other people. How about that?
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you didn't do anything wrong but i want to date other people i don't think that's wrong do you
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i mean if that's your desire yeah all right uh let's see what else is there
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um i'm not going to do everything on the questionnaire let's see
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a woman jennifer a woman should not be rejected because of her weight why is that
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i think i completely misunderstood that because maybe you accidentally yeah no i definitely think
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that's totally fine totally fine that's valid yeah all right nothing there then
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oh my gosh yeah she was like that is yeah you were talking about that girl that she had like
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uh you know likes chubby guys yeah i yeah you were like you're gonna keep him unhealthy here
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no i'm sorry all right uh let's see what else we can blast through here
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uh let's do let's do the bout video let's do the bout video i want to see all right so this is a
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video i took my ex-girlfriend and uh i dumped her but i this is really toxic but what i i do is
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i don't like i like to make things easy for myself so i i recorded a tutorial video
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i admire like the dedication i don't tell me like bro someone took the time to do this it's like
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when you get a list of like your pros and cons yeah but uh is there room for you guys to scoot
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this way a little bit that's all right just you three scoot that way scoot that way oh yeah
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right scoot scoot scoot scoot scoot scoot all right and like scoot into the table perfect
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scoot in scoot in all right that's mostly good okay i almost hold on let me adjust
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all right so yeah i took this video of my ex-girlfriend so that i could
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uh show it to new girlfriends so they knew how to act like a tutorial video all right go ahead
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play it yeah all right boom huge bow she's got a bow as soon as i get home this was after a long
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podcast recording and uh yeah you know laundry right away and then she has my dinner ready
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as soon as i get home the scampering skimpering scampering that's always good cracks open a beer
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for me stirs my noodles i dumped her you see those raw tomatoes in the bottom right that's
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actually why i dumped her like who the fuck eats raw tomatoes disgusting i do and then i i like to
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add chinese um skip to the end again play it i i add uh chinese characters to my videos too
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just to really play the bow part just at the beginning at the beginning boom huge bow do you
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see the submissive hand posture deep good depth it could be you know yeah it could definitely be
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lower and straighter you know it could be lower so kiss your feet you know and she should be
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praying to you to bless you yeah yeah she should instead what is she doing she's holding on to
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herself she's holding on to herself she doesn't care about you she cares about her
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she needs a fresh pair of socks for you to step into
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can you yeah i mean yeah but i'd be like or i wouldn't want you to like film it and play it
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should be like behind closed doors i wouldn't want it to it's like why are you filming this
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oh my god okay all right what about you would you do that for a guy i do that for my boyfriend now
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Like, I have dinner ready for him when he comes home.
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okay lexi okay man's worst nightmare i bet lexi pegs her boyfriend okay i'd be down for pegging
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lexi's like oh i'm such a submissive woman no she probably yells in cambodian and spanish at the
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same time to her boyfriend she probably whips him with she takes her belt off when she gets home
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she fucking whips him she bends him over and just spanks him she's well that's okay hold on this
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getting a little fucking ridiculous what else do i do have you pegged have you pegged a guy i've
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never you seem like i've never pegged a man i get pegging vibes from you to be honest i have never
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pegged a man and i've only had anal once wow thank you for sharing just putting it out there
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okay i have a button for this that's why i stick to anal sex can't get pregnant you know fair but
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it's because I don't really like butt stuff okay I'm not really the biggest fan I mean I would do
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it if I'm really attracted to the guy that I'm with because it's like he's doing it to me it's
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like oh my god what are you doing to me crazy man but yeah all right I love that for you Lexi
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i love that for you you know like my butt is my new virginity i'm only gonna let my husband have
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geez okay uh alissa here next to me you uh in your instagram profile it says hashtag super mom
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hashtag single mommy life what is a super mom what's a super mom melissa um super mom is just
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basically a mom that does it all on her own i guess like cooking the cleaning taking kids to
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school the laundry homework the driving the working okay and you also in your instagram
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bio it says cancer moon goddess what the fuck what is that um i'm a cancer moon sign um so i'm
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cancer moon cancer sun i'm capricorn rising i'm sorry and i'm capricorn rising um yeah i'm just
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i um i like astrology i'm really into like the moon energy and stuff and i have the moon and
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both my moon and sun signs or so so i'm like really feel like connected to the moon
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i love that for you slay queen uh you dated a guy over the summer and he ended up ditching you for
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an older lady because he turned out to have mommy issues oh my god so wait you're 33 yeah how old
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was the woman she was like 46 was she a wasion she wasn't that good looking at all honestly
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i don't understand what i don't know it was really weird
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damn and yeah i don't know wait i have a question wait he cheated on you or he just left no we
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actually never were in a relationship like we just basically dated hung out for three months
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carnal knowledge yeah like we were like trying to get to know each other and like um like thought
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it was gonna be a relationship but he got really weird oh two times and then he tried to come back
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both times wait so he he had like a milf thing like yeah he had the woman before me she was
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also she was like in her 50s and not good looking and i just was he like weird in bed
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no like he wanted to suckle at the teat no not like that he was pretty normal it's just
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he definitely had a thing for older women and he couldn't even really admit it so because i you
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know called him out on it and he was like well the other i didn't even know she was older because
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she's on hormone therapy she's a hormone therapy doctor so she looks really young and i'm like
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and when i went to her page i'm like she does not look young she looks 46 she looks her age
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that's okay and that's fine but he was trying to lie about it like being like you're into older
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women it's okay i guess question for the panel on this would you prefer like if a guy dumps you
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would you prefer if he the next girl he got with even if it's like he got with her pretty quick
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after yeah so right after we went to southern ohio together for a work trip it was a work trip
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plus vacation for him i went with him we went down on the motorcycle and um a week later like
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we got back he got weird again i already knew like he i don't know just didn't have interest
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anymore or whatever and then you know a week later he messages me and says i got some karma
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you might be interested in hearing it and i was like okay so i called him
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what is it and he was like just say bet yeah i did
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so funny it must be an ohio thing we're too old for that yeah i don't know that's just a
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thing. I don't know. Millennials aren't allowed to say bet. Really? I'm not allowed to say bet.
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I think a lot of millennials say bet. We have to give that one to the Gen Z. Okay. We can't say
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bet. All right. I won't say it anymore. But now you got me forgetting what I was saying. Okay.
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He called you up for karma. Oh, yeah. He called me up and told me, yeah. So she called me and said
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she wanted me to come over. And I was like, okay. So I drove right over there. And she wanted to
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break up with her boyfriend and she yeah him he called me he told he tells me the older woman
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calls him and says i want you to come over so he goes over and she's like hey i have a boyfriend
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but i want to break up with him and so apparently her boyfriend showed up there while he was there
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she broke up with him he left she's like well i had these plans to go to um i just forgot hocking
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Hills Ohio and so he's like well I'll go with you so they went together and he was thinking he told
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me he was like oh my god this is going to be for real this time we're going to be in a relationship
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he said they like did the thing they like had sex the whole time he's like telling me this
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yeah and then um he's like and then she broke up with me she broke up with me and I'm just like
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okay so he's like so I'm you know I'm got my caramel I got what I deserved and then I went
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on his facebook he's like making these big posts about like women turned men into assholes and
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everything oh my god i just blocked him and then he showed up okay i was like what
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never mind um the question i was going to ask though is if you were
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so it was like within a week or something he was with her
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yeah okay so for the the question that i was going to ask for the panel
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would you prefer your ex say he's going to get with another girl within a week or a couple days
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would you prefer him to get with a girl who's hotter or uglier
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hotter hotter doesn't really matter because we're not together anymore but
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i would be happier if she was uglier yeah but i would be proud of him if she was hotter yeah i
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agree i agree oh yes i think sorry for me yeah no i would be proud of him if he was can you scoot
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the mic so it's like center body go ahead you uh yeah i would be happy i mean not happy but i'd be
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Would you prefer they cheat on you with somebody uglier or more attractive?
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Because either way, I'm not proud of you now.
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Now you're just a disgusting piece of shit.
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Me, personally, I think I'd feel better about it.
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It's kind of better if they're uglier, though.
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I feel like emotionally it's better if they're hotter because it's, like, okay, well, so I'm, like, lacking in something else.
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Because if you go and you have sex with an ugly girl, it's, like, wow.
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and like now i'm disgusted and like just like a whole bunch of emotions so you're saying like
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yeah oh if she's like hotter it's like okay it makes sense you know um i'd say uglier because
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if she was hotter then i'd probably compare myself to her look wise yeah being uglier for sure um
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what she said i'd rather have them be prettier so then it's like a reason like oh it's because
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you thought that they were better looking uglier so i would know that it's something very wrong
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with them i would say uglier because for men it's usually just sex when they cheat
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okay uh alissa your final note here women who refuse to do 50 50 with men and why dating older
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men marrying older men women who say they bring nothing to the table poly have you been in a
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polyamorous relationship i have not but i know a couple people who are and i mean okay they i don't
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know i don't and it seems like it's becoming more of a thing now i don't know you also wrote that
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uh you don't usually disagree with me although this might be changing tonight uh you strongly
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disagreed with andrew wilson and his choice of words towards the women on the podcast i can't
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really say i totally disagree so what specifically i guess didn't i just i don't agree with him
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like just he full-on crashes out on some girls i do that sometimes you do like a little bit
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well i don't know you didn't say shut the fuck up he did say shut the fuck up but he didn't call
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her a stupid bitch i usually don't resort resort to personal insults yeah that's the only thing
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with andrew i don't agree with is him calling people stupid bitches on the podcast i think
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Yes, he said, shut the fuck up, you stupid bitch.
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I'm trying to recall, but in any case, all right, well, he's not here, so nothing there.
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Yeah, we already disclosed this in the beginning, guys.
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polyamorous oh yeah oh yeah and how they're becoming like more common 50 50
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um i think you asked her if she's ever been in a polyamorous alexis i don't know
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uh 50 50 on dates and polyamorous you said you had friends that are poly but like
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they see you don't know how you feel about it jenny jenny you're not in your instagram bio
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it says anomaly sorry guys i hope you don't mind me being fucking cutthroat but sometimes i have to
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just move things on no i don't think what does that mean anomaly just something that isn't like
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like something that isn't like supposed to be there like in a way so whether are you an anomaly
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i feel like well i'm thinking of that like more so like everywhere i am like i can like
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say like a lot i do say like a lot actually okay but um i feel like in like groups or like even
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like in like like spaces of like people i'm kind of just like in the background like you see me
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like I'm there but it's like you know I'm not really like you're not a main character
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is that what you're saying even though you look like one
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she's a main character but she doesn't say anything
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something that deviates from what is standard normal or expected so I would imagine like is
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the implication here that like you're an exceptional person or what do you mean by an
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anomaly like like I'm just different I'm different like how like um I think like energy wise like
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is different do you have aura i would say i have aura i believe everybody has aura
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if everyone has aura then what does that even mean like isn't aura something like
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all these other people are sheep and they're unremarkable but this one person something
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about them is different and draws you to them that would be aura if all people have aura then what
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what does it even mean like do you think you have aura yeah do you think you've demonstrated that
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probably not so much have you been anomalous tonight
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in a way like yeah like the standard would be to like you know be more like in there but and i'm
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i'm just kind of like i don't know i'm pretty tired too honestly but i've still been talking
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i would say like my energy is like different everywhere like i think like here i'm kind of
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more like i don't know but like with people i'm closer to they would definitely say i'm pretty
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like okay so i think that to be charitable that some people can blossom after they've become
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more comfortable with someone or it takes you a bit longer to uh unravel uh the person's
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personality a bit uh either they wait to get comfortable or whatever whatever but if we're
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talking about aura that shit permeates through fucking everything if you've got aura you've got
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it all the fucking time and just because just because you're on a podcast and uh your aura
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ought to permeate i don't know i don't know um that just sounded like a commercial
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i haven't felt the aura no i haven't really felt any aura no aura i mean to be fair i don't think
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most people don't have aura lexi has like a percent of an aura
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i have two percent aura who else here has like milk apparently there's colors to aura i think
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lexi has like a little bit of aura i think i have a little tism you definitely let's not
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discount that that's definitely abundant um i don't know yeah by the way people in the chat
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are like brian's intimidating chubby brian intimidating um sorry i don't know okay um
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but you said anomaly the reason we're even talking about this you write anomaly in instagram bio
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you know what this reminds me of it's like those guys who call themselves alpha males
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but they're like definitely not alpha male any guy who says they're an alpha male is the opposite
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anyone who must call himself the king is no true king not a king if you call yourself an alpha male
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it's like you're fucking lame as fuck i hate when guys call themselves top g's or alpha males like
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you just sound so like you just sound like you take it up the butt like you love it well what
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is this like 2022 2023 it just sounds horrible like oh my god yeah that's cringes fuck it's
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If you actually want to start aura farming, by the way, is that your stripper name?
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I'm not going to ask for your real name, but is it your stripper name?
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well jenna's jenna's short for jennifer but jenny's short for jennifer yeah jenny from the block
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oh but uh wait so it's not my stripper name what is your stripper name heaven heaven oh that's cute
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you should change that shit to anomaly you should you know what you should
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you should you know what you should do wait can i give you can i send you a list of like
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10 stripper to use but here's here's what i think you should do jennington jennington i think you
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should um i think instead of heaven maybe like purgatory that'd be cute you should introduce
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yourself as purgatory or maybe limbo or like hi i'm hell nice to meet you what's the name
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in our instagram the word anomaly i like that one yeah i think you should actually you know
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what Jennington you are going to just for one night you can even just do it for one or two guys
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three guys ten guys introduce yourself as Jennington and you're gonna get such crazy tips
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that night hi sir I'm Jennington would you like a dance do it here pretend you're a stripper right
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now approach me as a stripper go ahead not like don't get up just like what would you say verbally
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as a stripper well my name is Jennington or no like give me the stripper riz oh no I just okay
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well how do you because you go up to guys at the club right right yeah okay give me the demo what's
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your opening I'm just like how's your night going like okay wait restart restart do you
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Okay, well, I'll give you the rundown of the rules.
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oh yeah no no no be like we're gonna have to go to a room for that for titties yeah you have to
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i can't do it on the floor why pay money when titty internet free google search one billion
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because they're asking me they want my titties not just any titties they want to know
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that they're on my body that's why would the guy get kicked out for what i just said
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no probably i don't know probably just touching your i wouldn't say if i was a security guard i
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would be like all right that's enough okay but seriously do you promise me do you promise me
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you have to approach a guy and introduce yourself let's do let's even let's spice things up
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jennington the third that'd be good and you have to do like a british like a posh british accent
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Oh, and by the way, actually, I haven't forgotten about you.
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lexapro i used to take lexapro i can tell not anymore wow maybe you should get back
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no when i was on that i was like never functioning to my highest potential like
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now 24 you're orifying now what is that like i never get tired never lexapro yeah jennington
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you also wrote that you dated an arab why did i say she loves an arab she loves arab
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i'm still saying it weird uh you got cheated on by him with what
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a male no not just multiple so you're arab boy why am i saying it like that
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Arab. Arab. Arab. Arab. Arab. Arab. Arab. Boyfriend. Slept with multiple men.
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Okay, I'm going to just tell you this story. So, I would never go through his phone just because,
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you know, peace of mind. But something was telling me. Something was telling me that he
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was cheating on me. So, then I went through, like, when we were in the car and he went to,
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like, he was in a gas station. I went through his phone and then I seen, I logged out of his
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snapchat and then when i logged out of the snapchat i seen he had another snapchat so i went into
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that snapchat and then i seen the first the first name that popped up i don't remember the name went
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into the chat there was a video of him sucking his his peener excuse me that's fucking disgusting
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yeah and there was multiple chats like that snapchat was specifically that was that happened
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to me too they have a gay snapchat oh my god that is fucked up i wasn't even mad when that
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happened to me i was just like wow and there is like you're deep in the closet yeah i just want
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to tell you jennington i would only cheat on you with women that's beautiful
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thank you is not too much to ask big labia woman i'm a nice guy i would never do this day and age
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i'm a gentleman i would never okay that's crazy uh you you oh shit wait i feel like i got i forgot
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about this i shouldn't have been coming at you so hard jennington you almost got arrested by
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beating your ex at the time with a croc shoe what like a croc yeah girl you beat him hard
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it was on the 4th of july and he oh my gosh because he wanted okay from what i remember
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maybe i'm not too exact but he wanted to go out with his friends his friends didn't like me
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so he wanted me to stay home or go to work so I got pissed off and through our whole relationship
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I moved like okay so I moved in with him like I genuinely felt like he hated me like why did
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you even have me like move in with you if you like don't even like me you know because he knew
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I was a stripper but he wasn't okay with me being a stripper that's the gym guy huh that's the guy
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that took you to the gym all the time yes oh oh you got insight oh so he's he's healthy but he's
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lying yeah and so her latina just came up yeah but so you beat you you almost got arrested so
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the cops got called yeah like when i was having a conversation with the cops they were like
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technically we can but it's and they talked to him too and they were just like well he doesn't
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want it he doesn't want you to get arrested anymore he just wants you to stay home while he
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goes out and that's the best choice you know you guys should just separate so he is gonna go out
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and you're gonna just have to be okay with it or or you should just move out I was just like okay
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well i was home alone and yeah didn't get arrested though
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the case and i wasn't even like you know like was i even hitting him that hard like i don't know
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it's a crock there's not a foam are they wait was was there all the things on it was there the
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like did it have the gibbets on it no oh well girl he's fine yeah i mean technically that's
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still not that's not okay that's not okay but it's the fact that he got me on a character like
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that like this is the one with the gay snapchat no different one uh were they both arab no one's
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arab one's mexican the arab guys are gay yeah exactly no exactly one of my exes he like hooked
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up with a bunch of arab guys he was like they're all gay and he was oh my god no he was indian
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oh yeah but there's the thing with the arab the arab guys low-key be gay
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and they won't come out because they're arab yeah they need that they need that inheritance
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what causes that what causes sorry sorry for any prejudice like why does it just run through
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i feel like they're just closeted they can't admit it to themselves yeah sad if you think
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about it you know and like the snapchat thing is just so horrifying you know like i'm just trying
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to log into my snapchat now i have to find out you have a no a whole other life no like it just
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kind of makes sense though if you think about it like the way they treat women like they're that
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part they're closeted they want to suppress no because only like gay men will treat women that
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bad yeah i agree they're mad you're not a man i hate yeah what did i miss talking about gay we're
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still talk about the gay snapchat okay nice uh all right uh liliana that's you my body you broke
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up with somebody yesterday oh my god no she broke up with me but like i was about to break up with
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her like i was so done but yeah she basically told me that like i'm hot and she likes hooking
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up with me but then like she doesn't want to be my girlfriend anymore so i'm like what do you
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really say after that plus she had three duys that's a lot my mom had seven three is a lot
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i thought they cut you off after three right yeah but we were like planning to go to mexico like
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she invited me to mexico and gave me a clicker to her apartment and then i do think she cheated
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though because i found a hair tie like if you guys found a hair tie that wasn't your hair tie
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at your partner's apartment wouldn't you be concerned yeah and she doesn't have hair does
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she no exactly you know my time she doesn't have any hair and like i tried to give her an out i'm
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like oh you're a hairdresser like is this your hair tie and then she's like no that must be yours
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right right because she knows i use a scrunchie you know one time this guy my ex gave me this
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girl's lip gloss she he was like he was like isn't this yours i looked at it i i turned it
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around a couple times i was like hmm yeah but it's okay no and then there was a paddle
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there was a paddle out at her and like girl like i've never used that and she was like no we must
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have used it i was like no we didn't we must have i was like oh okay and like i mean like a like a
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you know like a fun time paddle so i think she was cheating but that's okay because i'm already i
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have a roster we're good oh back up all right lexi's notes uh your last ex you guys were together
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for three years on and off broke up a year ago yeah he ended up convincing you to do of yes i
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talked about this in the beginning full circle yeah he would get mad that so many guys were
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talking to you and he ended up cheating and you left yes well he cheated on me multiple times so
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the first year that we were together we broke up because he was cheating on me with like this
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really tall girl and mind you he was like 5'2 he was the first short guy I gave like a chance and
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we were together for three years yeah but he oh you're 4'11 he cheated on me with like a girl
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that was like 5'8 I was like you're not even 5'8 what are you doing I was so mad and then I broke
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up with him this is gonna sound bad and like I have solid I'm six foot one I have solidarity
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with short guys uh pro short king pro short king but if you're five two
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you got to be loyal like you know what i mean yeah exactly like you're lacking already like
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make up for it you know what i mean i don't know you have one job
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but then again he was i guess well if he's fucking other women then no yeah and at the time we were
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also doing 50 50 i was working at walgreens and everything and then he convinced me to do of because
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our mutual friend was doing really well on of and he was like yeah we can make so much money
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and so we ended up getting back together after i started doing of and he cheated on me again
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with another girl mexican girl and then i was like well he went out to the club a lot too and
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i used to get mad about that but i was like well he's not cheating on me he's just going out with
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the boys yeah but then once i found out that he was like cheating on me again i was like no and
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i kicked him out and we were moved in together and it wasn't the boys no i'm sorry girl it was
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not the boys did you uh does he have a lethal face card no his face card is giving toad
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but you know personality was there at the time in the beginning he got me in the first half okay
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he really did oh he really did he would open my doors he would treat me so sweet and nice
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show me off buy me flowers all the cute stuff you know he didn't have to be the richest man
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i just like the way that he treated me yeah and he was chef on you cheating yeah i like guys that
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are nice to me like extremely nice to me not even jokingly like mean to me that's a good okay uh
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he got the mercedes amg and a corvette from the money oh my god yeah he made from you oh yeah and
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then the corvette got stolen yeah i'm happy about that i don't give a fuck insurance money nope
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and not insured yet he just got that car two days later stolen god's timing you know god has a plan
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low-key i set him up no i'm just kidding am i allowed to maybe he sold it i don't know
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no yeah it definitely got stolen how much is a mercedes amg um well the one that he had is uh
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GLE 63 so I think it was like 60k wait when did you get the fake tatas me yeah yes you
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was it after OF yeah it was it was just recently actually and I did it while I was single after me
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and him broke up because every guy that I've like talked to or like deliberated it with was like
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oh no don't do it you look perfect guys love natural girls i love fake titties so you know
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at the end of the day i have to live with me and i'm gonna love myself more and i'm gonna be happier
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with myself more if i if i if i love my big fat titties you know i didn't have any titties before
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i was bored like this now i know you're not a natural beauty but i think with the right clothes
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the right look you can be very striking exactly that's how i felt i was like you know what i see
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the potential and guess what after i got them i love them i love my boobs i literally love them
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so much like i show them to girls all the time i go to the restroom in public and i will be like
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do you want to see my boobs like they look amazing like they look amazing what month did
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you must stay focused brothers we must stay i got them i got them in august oh okay get the rocks
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You know, like the first two days was just like, you know, you can't really lift your arms.
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But other than that, it was like, it was kind of like having like a fever, you know, like your body just aches a little.
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You can't really get out of bed because you feel like shit.
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i was a small breast in high school and then i don't know i was a small breast until august
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uh you dated a guy that cheated with your mom oh yeah oh yeah and he was 27 and i was 17
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no it was legal in illinois you know like the age of consent is 17.
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oh yeah still a little a little isn't there a federal i know age of consent right yeah well
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you know i it's the states are different or whatever but that's still i mean it's questionable
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you're a senior in high school or junior 27 year old dating a junior in high school yeah
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i mean even if it's technically legal that's a little exactly and then you know like he would
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like make jokes he would be like you know i'm like basically old enough to be with your mom
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he was with my mom that's crazy oh my god i don't believe it i don't believe it there's no way
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no he was he fucked your mom he okay so call your mom right now she would never admit that
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but I know that what what happened because I had his location and we were like arguing and stuff
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and my mom she was like at the house we were all three at the house like me you can talk oh yes
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my mom me him we're all the house and my mom has um two other daughters so my little sisters were
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all at the house we're all having like a cute family day or so I thought and then me and him
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we started arguing and whatnot and you know he like left or something and then she like went
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after him or something and his location showed that he was at a hotel and it was like a long
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time later and i started calling them and they weren't answering so i was like oh no they're
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definitely fucking so then yeah i mean i stayed the night for the rest of the night and i watched
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my sisters but after that we broke up and i i i just uh found a rebound and i was like okay yeah
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it's not that bad you know just bigger dicks out there did you have a good relationship with your
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mom um my mom was never there like growing up I always lived with my dad and my stepmom
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so I mean the year that I was your bio mom or your stepmom yeah my biological mom he cheated
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on me with my biological mom yeah yeah but I was like a year where I was trying to like get to
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know my mom or something you know I was like oh yeah I want to get to know how old was your mom
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at the time um 36 36 but he never admitted it either 36 37 because um i'm 22 now and i was 17
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at the time okay so she had you when you she was like 18 oh 15 yeah she conceived me when she was
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15 and she gave birth at 16 okay huh but he didn't admit it to sleeping with you no he did he did he
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did he did he he texted me about it because you know when i left him he was like yeah this is why
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i fucked your mom i was like oh my god your mom never why no she always denies it i i literally
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brought it up to her on multiple accounts i was like yeah and you fucked drake and she like like
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you're like i say it as a joke you know i say it very lightheartedly because i want to have a
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conversation about it but she's just like that never happened like i would not do that like
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you're crazy i'm like okay well wait so what you said he texted you the this is why i did this why
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what was his reason um i guess because i'm absent or i like crash out i call him names like i told
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him like yeah i like well you know like sometimes whenever we're fighting i don't like i won't keep
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on texting him all night long i'll block him and then the next day i'll text him wait and then
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what was you call him names yeah i would call him names i would be like you're literally a bitch like
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how could you do this to me like you're horrible do you do that in other relationships no moving
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forward i don't um i don't believe in like calling men names because i wouldn't like that if someone
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did that to me too so just basically treating people how you want to be treated you know what
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just noticed looking at the monitor what so the way your center bang falls right between your
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eyebrows it kind of looks like you have a unibrow it's kind of giving though no my eyebrows are
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faded no but like when it was covering the center because you do have prominent eyebrows
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and that strand has been there the entire show no it hasn't yes faded out because i've been
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messing with my bangs the entire show okay if you say so uh let's see uh i think the final
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thing here you cheat or wait no your ex i've never cheated on anyone your ex cheated and then you
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dated his best friend after that was my first relationship ever at 14 yeah so I dated this guy
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and he was older than me he was a senior and I was a freshman so he was like trying to convince me to
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have sex with him or whatever and um during that process like I tried to have sex with him I tried
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to slip it in but it didn't really work you know like um it was just too painful it didn't like
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work so anyways um his best friend showed me a video talk okay talk straight talk to me talk to
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me don't like do girl talk don't do girl talk looking at my girls do do i'm one of the girls
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talk to me talk to me yeah so um yeah i was a freshman he was a senior um he was trying to
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have sex with me and his best friend like me and him rode the same bus so we were sitting on the
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us together and he showed me like on his phone like a like on snap like he was texting like my
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boyfriend at the time and um there was a video of him fucking another girl so I was like oh my gosh
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so I broke up with him and then I ended up dating that guy that told me wow yeah and then uh
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relationship dynamics here he was so mad at me uh Bree going to your notes uh you did have a tweet
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I think we hit on this the age gap stuff you find it odd for someone in their 30s to go strictly
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for 18 or 19 year olds makes you wonder how young they would go if there were no age consent of no
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age of consent laws if she was 24 25 and her frontal lobe was fully developed then my take
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would be completely different but the key word here that you used is strictly for 18 or 19 year
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olds so what about the guy who says who's like well i'll just say my age who's 36 who would date
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a woman who's 20 but would also date a woman who's 35 i guess that's is there an objection
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there i guess it's fine as long as he's not just going after them because they are
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an age like because that'd be weird like where are you why is that what does that matter like
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because if it's someone that he's he likes and is compatible with then yeah it doesn't matter as
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long as they're above 18 it's consensual yeah what i mean like uh for example i think i'd rather date
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a 30 year old who's really hot and like has a fit body versus an 18 year old who's obese
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yeah so it's not just the age it's about the physical attractiveness and then some other
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factors too yeah that's fair as long as it's like you don't have a weird like age fetish
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or something no not really although generally i think generally speaking though uh and there's
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they've done some polling on this uh throughout men like as they get older even like from 20 all
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the way to like 40s and 50s and they say and this isn't necessarily who they would date but
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which women do you find the most physically attractive men always say between like it's
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around 20 21 is when men assess women as being most physically attractive well then explain why
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like the biggest sex symbols like sydney sweeney margot robbie they're all like in their mid 20s
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like early 30s on average like if you look at those like celebrities like megan fox robbie
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like a sex symbol i mean she's an i mean she's celebrities that are considered like you know
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like being on the most beautiful woman list yeah they're always like i notice that they're usually
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late 20s well i would say that uh we're talking about celebrity and famous people and that it
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generally takes some some amount of time to develop celebrity uh although like megan fox
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for example when she was 18 19 20 many people viewed her in that way she looks better now but
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to be fair she has plastic totally have you seen the new instagram pictures like she looks great
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where she's yeah where she's completely plastic and probably been airbrushed and photoshopped
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and full face professional best of the best makeup artist and uh stylist and even then
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no she was hotter when she was 19 now that's the female gaze what you're talking about
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the male gaze is different no yeah yeah yeah for shizzle monism uh okay all right well uh
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do you think that there's a i'm gonna skip that uh thruple story why don't you tell us
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thruple story oh gosh so i was um it was this like pretty well-known dj and this latina dancer um
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and pretty much at first like everything seemed fine but then um one thing that was kind of a red
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flag that i brushed off um all of his like artwork and just i don't know like all his designs like
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all his clothing designs they there was satanist imagery and i just thought at first like oh that's
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like a vibe like whatever like i didn't think he was like actually a satanist but then i found out
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like he was a satanist and like he had an altar i like he was literally like right like a list to
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write down like to take people's souls like weird like death note thing pretty much yeah
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and um it wasn't until we like broke up i found a usb and pretty much there were like subliminal
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mind control frequencies and it was like it literally had like a list like to play around
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like brie to play around on the other girl on it um he so it makes me think like when he was djing
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and like playing a set which he would do all day long it's like was was he playing those frequencies
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and i always felt like i was kind of under like a trance because he wasn't like the best looking
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i was but i felt so like attracted to him so i was like like was it the frequencies and then
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not too long after um the girl and this is after we've broken up um the girl and the thruple she
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really old women no no they're all young like they were all like 18 to 30 like 12 women he's
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dated have died yes and was his ex-popular dj yeah like he's not like too popular like he has
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like 30k on instance so he's not like okay okay so i'm not like gonna hear this through like apple
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music like but it's a possibility i listen to him okay this is great damn i mean like is he dating
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like severe drug addicts uh there were a few drug addicts in the mix like some of them i don't know
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or something probably a couple of them but that is sus that's more than a coincidence
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maybe it's the state i don't know i could be who knows the details but um i told myself i
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went to an open relationship after that one but then i ended up right in an open relationship
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uh wow okay um let's see here what else do we have uh oh um who show of hands who here's a sex
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worker uh and then that alexis she left so it's just you three all right uh i've been skipping
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doing this one recently but i'll just try it tonight so you know you women you get a lot of
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uh you know simps while you're a stripper some men just throw money at you i'm sure you guys
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get like men in your dms here's some money on your only fans here's here's a tip here's money
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blah blah blah and i want to do a novelty thing for all three of you my first question is have you
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ever just given a man money just for the sake of it given a man money like yeah i'm not dating him
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he's not giving me just a dude who you're like he's hot no or you don't even think he's hot but
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you want to give him money no no no homeless guy like on the street
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i want to do a role reversal here role reversal so you can say this is like a bucket list thing
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you know novelty do you guys have any just curious do you have any cash on you
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me yeah i do cash you guys got some cash on you i do oh yeah i don't you don't have any cash
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I went on this podcast and this really toxic guy
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your face right now. I would if I had money on me.
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all right I tried I tried uh uh okay what else do we have uh going finishing up your notes
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one hot take you have about modern dating is the body count convo you think people focus way too
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much on the number itself instead of the context to you it's more about quality responsibility and
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honesty rather than just quantity obviously extremely high numbers can be a red flag
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they aren't always people are different and relationships aren't one size fits all
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what matters more is being responsible about your health communicating openly and getting
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tested regularly regularly yeah so i actually half i halfway agree with this so i have this
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theory that i developed so some people do get a little bogged down on just the number the
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quantity component but there is a quality component but it's not that if a girl fucks
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has a body count of 100 but they're all really quality dudes still ew still ick my thing is
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let's say a girl has fucked one dude but it's like the island boy guy or like or like nle choppa
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or like who the i don't know i'm trying to think of something like just like a guy that would
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gross me out a little bit like that she i don't know just like a a dirty guy like she fucked like
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a sleaze bag or like a fucking meth like it could be a nobody but like she fucked a
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fucking heroin addict or some shit that's like a i call it the body count multiplier
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so if a girl has a body of one but she done fucked a needle user
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her body count might as well be 50 yeah i agree if she fucked
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You know, I just don't believe in double standards.
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um is she she probably has a lot of bodies and she's megan fox that's like me fucking
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nle choppa it's the same thing whoa no no no no no no that's not comparable that's not comparable
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you think that's one-to-one ratio megan fox nle choppa yeah
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i don't know that's crazy that's great who's another fucking like if a girl fuck a little
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wayne if a girl fucked i don't even know half these fucking rappers with the face tattoos i
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don't fucking know yes that that is like a grimy like girls who fuck grimy dudes it's a body count
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multiplier yeah shit oh trippy red sure trippy red um uh scrim and ruby from suicide boys who's
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like uh i mean scrim is ruby but love them both ruby rose who's like a grimy dude
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who's the one that has herpes oh my god timothy chalamet uh what seriously he gave nyu chlamydia
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what yeah my friend went to like nyu or like wait wait but hold on chlamydia is not herpes
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yeah i just thought they might get got it confused um who has herpes it's uh it's not
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and be a young boy uh is it who there's a rapper that has herpes and i wouldn't be surprised and
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like he had sex with a woman and like it was a whole lawsuit because he she didn't he didn't
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tell her that i wonder if kanye has herpes i'm sure i don't think kanye has a lot of women i
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don't think kanye has herpes just for the fact of like who he is and he knows that like if kim
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found out about that like i don't know i just i probably i mean kim probably like oh my god so
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i don't know i just feel like he's not like a i feel like he's smart you know he's like wrap that
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i don't know who knows um let's see here uh going back to you you offer the girlfriend experience
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what's that um pretty much it's one-on-one like priority like treatment um i send daily um like
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hello videos and like just videos throughout the day and good night videos and it comes with like
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free sexting and pretty much just like a lot of perks to where it kind of saves money too to where
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um instead of like buying every tip menu item individually it all comes in one package yeah
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how much does that cost it runs from like 200 at the cheapest one to like 5k
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okay you also rate cocks yes that's my i made a million dollars off of cock rates
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i did don't believe it don't i could show you the numbers
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yeah yeah i could deem it too after the podcast i don't have my device she's like i try photoshop
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bit no so wait how much is a dick rating it's um it ranges from like 20 is the lowest but then it
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can go up to like 500 if they want like a full video and i'm like writing a deldo and like moaning
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their name what the fuck yeah so how many how many dick ratings have you done oh my god over
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a thousand by now probably ten thousand since i started yeah yeah wait it's like it's a very
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common thing on only fans when you say rating do you mean like you literally just rate it out of
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10 and yeah what's wrong with it or like what's right but some guys i actually um there's a lot
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of guys to where they come in and they want a small penis humiliation so i have a question
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just because like one of the main things too that like i just personally wouldn't be able to keep up
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with all the like messages is there ever a time where you're just like dude i don't want to be
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performing today yeah then i'll take the day off that's like the cool thing about being self-employed
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I can just clock out whenever so but like even like if that lasts for like have you ever had
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like a time period where it's like a couple days a week where you're just like I feel like crap I
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don't want to yeah all the time and you just like can still make it by and everything yeah because
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I have um because I get a lot of unlocks with the day on um like videos that I send out and schedule
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like a week prior even so it fortunately I can take off some time when needed I know some girls
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like too they like if you find the right man you could get a pay pig I know that's really popular
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in chicago yeah i'm actually i'd like to offer my services i offer labia ratings
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first man ever to do it probably somebody's done it but i offer labia ratings i'm an expert in
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labia um i do have the bias towards the large labia though so i mean um if any i will uh
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i'll charge what how much do you think i should charge to rate labia does that make me a sex
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worker technically yeah yeah if i charge for labia ratings yeah what if i do it for free
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am i still a sex worker i guess not right like like you just be like you're sex laborer
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well think about it this way right like sex pro bono a woman who charges for sex sex worker
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A woman who just fucks a bunch of men for free
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a vaginal examination there's gotta be you know what there's a loophole you get to text me i'm an
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escort you get to text me and i'll talk to you for money and bundled in that you can send a labia
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pick and i'll rate it but i'm charging you for the convo okay that only involves me rating your labia
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i think that that's a loophole what's wrong with being a sex worker though why don't you
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want to be a sex worker you mean the guy who has the anti-sex worker podcast
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look hey i don't hate sex workers by the way i i don't want i i wish good things for sex workers
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i hope they get out of it um i don't have i don't have hatred towards them but i i i'm not a fan of
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I think it's bad for the women, it's bad for the men,
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What's discrimination against sex workers called?
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look at leslie look at upset over there oh my abs boost that's what it's called
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my my tummy hurt oh yeah okay oh there's abil and ibuprofen they said that i took that my head
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was there was so like they're so feminist here i want look if there's any women in the audience
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you know what i'm doing a specialty offer i'm not gonna be i'm not gonna be a sex worker i'm
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to do it uh limited time only i'll just do it for free i will give labia ratings sex work but i will
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give i would no i will give labia ratings for free my dms are open for the next 24 hours disclaimer
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18 and up you just get set up 18 and up disclaimer that would be terrible 18 and up disclaimer can
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only send your labia if you're 18 oh yeah you have to send me your fucking id you have to be
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do i laugh like adam sandler or um uh i've told that i laugh like a guy who you laugh you laugh
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like a gopher oh my god thank you i don't even know what that sounds no um it's the guy it's um
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he's like a stoner he like has like the curly hair oh my god who the hell yeah is that you
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know what's crazy my cat my fucking cat murked a gopher yesterday what i was like trying to prep
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for the podcast and i heard a yelp outside and my cat fucking murked a gopher now here's the
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disgusting thing the cat started fucking eating the gopher i would have started crying like but
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the thing is i went back outside like 10 minutes later this is i don't know if this is tmi do i
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carnivores say it or carnivores say it let's just say there was only a half of the gopher
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and i was traumatized did you that's so healthy for your cat though like that's like the most
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natural instinct yeah no my ferrets no no my ferrets do that no not healthy no it is it's
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really healthy for um ferrets to eat raw meat not from the outdoors but like i buy like raw rabbit
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off the internet fucking murking gophers and eating that's fucking funny but it's natural
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gopher like off the internet like ground gopher that's how god and like feed it like it's really
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that's how your cat gets fucking worms and shit no no no before all that legal like they know
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what they're doing there's no pesticides like rabbit too is really good like for ferrets yeah
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that is cool um anyways uh here let's we gotta do a couple things right we gotta let's do uh
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twitch really quick guys if you're enjoying the stream like the video like the video also i don't
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know big labia matter i guess i've been talking about that big labia matter i might order the lm
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the fist blm yep she just curious i don't know i'm just curious does anybody here have uh audi
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like i just feel like i'm revealing way too much on here okay it's just gonna be titled like
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flexi tmi so you have a audi is what you're saying i wouldn't call it an innie she has an
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innie girls i've been labia fish before by chicks like a girl tells me she has an audi but they
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don't know like and like yeah i don't know i don't know a picture after this and like see what
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that actually looks like i've been labia fish though i'm like what do you but i feel like
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That's why I'm like, I don't know where it falls on the spectrum.
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Don't you girls get upset if a guy says he has a big dick, but he doesn't have a big dick?
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I get upset when they're like, oh, nine inches.
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why would you lie about that why would you lie about that guys don't know actually how big that
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is they say it and then they do it with their hands and they're like wait that's how big that
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is oh no and i hate when they're like oh and i measured it with the ruler women are like i'm
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like this women are like i'm like that and then i see it's like a little slit innie i'm like
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i'm confused i'm like thinking you're talking about like some roast beef like yes i'm talking
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about roast beef that's what i'm talking about yeah fucking sandwich motherfuckers arby's
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he wants big ones okay all right pull up twitch really quick guys twitch.tv slash whatever drop
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us a follow drop us a prime sub oh my goodness 22 minutes since we had a prime sub yo jay thank
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for the uh prime appreciate it guys drop us a follow drop us a prime sub uh tail ends of the
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show here show some love over there on twitch twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a prime sub
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thank you guys okay final segment of the show the questions rapid fire questions here we go
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uh going around the table do you think you're beautiful yes sure looks wise yes yes sure into
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the mics no yeah sure sure uh do you think i'm a misogynist no no no no no no no really
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really you're cool no i don't think so i feel like you explain yourself well pretty much a feminist
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after you said that you had tylen all here i was like he's a feminist do you have tampons in the
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bathroom too there might be oh see you know what you do it see exactly free tampons in this economy
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he's like 25 cents and i have a small waist basket basket in my personal bathroom oh that's very
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feminist wow bonus points bonus points nice yep i know i'm uh okay uh do you believe in
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and we'll probably skip those uh do i have white privilege
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yes and you can use it very wisely how by using your white voice
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ally yes be an ally be an ally your voice helps and it contributes okay uh let's see here
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uh your voice is heard more than a black man's question for you you said that you're kind of
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like waiting when it comes to sex at the moment like you want to wait a little bit do you have
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a celebrity crush ryan reynolds uh let's say ryan reynolds was single and he was like uh hi
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yeah probably crazy on the first day crazy see you got break rules people breaking rules
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it's not a it's not about an actual standard like he's funny
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okay i'm funny do you want to never mind i mean i think when it comes to go ahead
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oh what oh you opened your mouth i thought you were gonna you were just breathing i got it
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i'm a very vocal breather uh go ahead i forgot what i was gonna say
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okay perfect uh let's see if men should pay for dates if men should provide
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if men should protect men should be chivalrous what should women do cook and clean and maintain
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the house and give birth that was actually a pretty good answer uh is it financial abuse
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africa wait you said countries what did you say keep going africa africa europe asia what are we
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talking about continents or countries those are countries my turn yeah um canada mexico russia
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um antarctica huh no three countries you can't repeat hers but you've only heard three so far
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If you watch the Olympics, what teams are you going to see?
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barcelona barcelona barcelona okay that's a country yeah next
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thailand did she say thailand indonesia okay you costa rica brazil and australia tilt your
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mic down what about you um chile australia and italy uh bhutan ukraine and denmark
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Wait, wait, wait. Hold on. Nobody help. Nobody help.
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canada and mexico i'm sorry oh what the fuck why did it take her fucking 10 minutes to do it
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yeah you're right yeah what other countries were you contemplating
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i was just thinking about countries okay all right uh how many states are in the usa
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i'm gonna pick on you jennington you didn't give me no money you're gonna get picked on man
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I say retarded shit at this hour of night.
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Jenny, after you know, you're going to be like, oh, my God.
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Here, does anybody not know the answer besides her?
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here I'll give you a hint you said it was 25 26
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okay all right all right um what is the capital of the usa
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name three u.s states california nevada arizona how many planets are in our solar system
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fucking london all right uh let's see what here how about this um what planet do we live on
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okay she got that one thank goodness uh lexie lexi what planet do we live on
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earth you sure final answer final answer we live in uranus
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what is the capital of california oh gosh um is it sacramento i think so you are correct
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the government building the pentagon is what shape pentagon
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sorry was that a question mark no pentagon it's a pentagon okay good job good job uh what is the
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wait i guess new york city could it be new york city
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it could be i mean that's the big city new york city the capital the capital of new york city
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No, of New York, the state. New York City is a city in New York, but it's very big, so it could be the capital.
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I just have a feeling that it just might be New York City. I just don't know.
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the u.s united states america yeah yeah you had to do a bit of hand gestures to figure it out
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but you know those people as they read they have to like trace or not trace but what's it called
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when you follow the words with your finger tip um how many months are in a year
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12 how many hours are in a day 24 how many minutes are in an hour 16 how many seconds are in a minute
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Three. What do you call a shape with five sides?
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What country gifted the Statue of Liberty to the USA?
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i'm gonna guess what my best friend is right am i wait no i know uh what gas do humans breathe in
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to survive oxygen what gas do plants absorb from the air um carbon dioxide is it
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i don't know wait or is it oxygen i don't know wait i'm asking you guys i don't know any of
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these it's either it's one it might be oxygen i don't know who knows uh let's see what organ
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pumps blood through your body a heart um yeah your heart what continent is brazil in
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and the many various states in spain the continent
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north america brazil is in north america is that lexi you believe it repeat that
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lexie lexington north america question mark brazil is in north america north america question wait
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question it brazil uh is it west east north south of the united states south america i'm so slow
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sorry okay what continent is egypt in ah i would not know that
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that's not a continent though i'm sorry it's a region yeah that's where it is but
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which continent though i wouldn't know did we name the continents i don't we might have skipped that
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one oh how many uh here let's do going around the table name one continent um antarctica can't repeat
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europe wait sorry brazil brazil okay africa africa australia south america north america
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my favorite continent is sweden i've been there my favorite is the united states i love that go usa
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what are you looking at me i just space out sometimes i'm like wow
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yeah are you looking deep into nicole's eyes i'm looking deep into my future
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it's not looking very bright at the moment it's looking very dark outside are you a theater kid
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no actually never took theater Jennington on the other hand yeah yeah she loves her musicals
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oh my god I actually hate musicals and I can't stand them oh my god do you hate Shrek the musical
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hate all musicals high school musical stupid oh my god I hate the musical I don't like them
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because i'm so emo i'm so emo and i just hate life so much oh my god let's be so emo yeah i'm
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so fucking emo she listens to my chemical romance like all the time strictly it's her favorite band
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why do you look in that direction do you have like something wrong
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yes like you can't turn to feast okay i can't face you
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what continent is japan in are you gonna she looks like i'm just have cramps oh nice me too
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it's my period right now asia there we go okay uh how many dimes make a dollar
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i'm gonna assume it's wrong by your deep breath
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tokyo or tokyo tokyo what country is immediately south of the united states
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not only is it is africa not there it's not even a country
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What country is immediately south of the United
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What country is immediately south of the United States?
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If today is Monday, what day is it in three days?
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i mean some people count like monday yeah because the whole day has to happen you know it's like
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monday tuesday wednesday you know i'm sorry this is my bestie i'm gonna back her up okay
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watch though monday so three monday 3 p.m tuesday 3 p.m what about monday 12 a.m
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look at it okay it's sunday night it's 11 59 boom monday morning just like that one minute
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Okay, if you have three quarters, how much money do you have?
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I think any of the money stuff, the sex workers will do pretty well with it.
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I'm going to bring a roll of quarters to the strip club.
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I feel like that's like paying a drug dealer in quarters.
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100 what is 10 percent of 100 10 5 times 5 25 12 divide by 3 4 100 divide by 4 25 15 plus 35
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50 90 minus 45 45 how many branches of u.s government are there
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sounded so loud yep that was a loud sip yeah legislative executive there we go
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what document begins with we the people um the constitution
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no sorry my bad how many stars are on the u.s flag
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what why are you looking at me that way he's counting the stars
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i mean she was looking at me i mean that's kind of racist
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just because she's asian doesn't mean no she was counting the stars earlier no but she was
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looking at me like i feel like that was really racially insensitive to suggest like just because
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she has like asian eyes that she's like looking at some other direction yeah just because you're
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asian doesn't mean you get to look at me sideways you're racist for thinking that i thought i think
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you're racist no i think you're racist i think you're no you're definitely no i think you're
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it's 50 something i don't know the exact number 53 i think
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i think not i think it's more than 53 what johnny it's 52 how many states are there
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i don't know she said 53 52 no there's 50 states oh boy 50 states like the song 50 nifty
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united states and the 15 american lexi that's all i know though what century are we in um the 20th
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century right what 21st oh well it's not 2100 right now so that's why i was like oh it's the
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20th century right because we're still into the 2000s you ever heard it's like the 21st century
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like 21st century girl yeah yeah you know that song by lilo smith no i don't know that song
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that's the milky way oh there we go okay uh how many in one dozen
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you are correct what year was the u.s founded 1776 what country did the u.s gain its independence
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yeah the british final answer yeah because we had the boston tea party and all that shit
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that could have been the japanese no they wanted the british are coming the british are coming
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i remember no it could have been the irish no the british are fucking coming okay
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the british are coming that's how i remember
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how many days in a year 365 how many letters in the alphabet 26 or 27
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maybe 28 i don't know you gotta account for should i you know should i count yeah if you can
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no how many days of the week ends with the letter y
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wait what huh me yeah what's your question how many days of the week ends with the letter y
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oh all of them you're correct what language do the people in idaho speak
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language in idaho what do they speak there english are you sure yeah lexi yes english okay
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what ocean is california next to um i don't know atlantic
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pacific oh yeah because i just remembered pb and it's like pacific beach if a dozen eggs
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cost three dollars how much is each egg wait what oh three dollars if a dozen eggs cost three
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dollars how much is each egg four dollars for each egg um it'd be like three over 12 so like
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a dozen eggs you said three dollars it'd be 25 cents each i agree and 25 cents each
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100 wait say the numbers again 34 plus 66 do you need to do your math again 104
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Where did the attack on Pearl Harbor take place?
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was it nagasaki that was attacked during pearl harbor or was it hiroshima
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i think it was pearl harbor but i don't know but the the japanese pearl harbor
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that's the english translation of the place in japan
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it's 66 wow good for you uh okay what country did the vietnam war happen in
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yeah but how much what's the number how much is that how many minutes
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Yeah, but what's the word for a fourth, the term?
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wow my lack of water is just like very clear you know it's like very prominent in my mind
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how i don't have the term for one fourth yeah what is the term do you want more
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it's okay one fourth okay so how much is one fourth of an hour
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so quarter of an hour is 25 minutes one-fourth of an hour is 30 minutes
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We'd have to change the definition of these words
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uh who was the president before trump this term
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wasn't it um wasn't it bernie no not bernie sorry barack
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from uh okay for the president from 2020 to 2024 who was it
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they're not going to help you they're not going to save you why not i'll help you
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just use your phone a friend oh boy wasn't it trump when when was he not president
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I don't know. All I know is that Barack Obama had two terms, right?
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Because he can't go again. That's why we didn't vote for him again.
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if you were born 10 years ago how old would you be today
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lexi 10 but you're 22 right yeah but i was born 10 years ago so i would be 10 years but like you
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were you're how old 28 28 yeah so if you were born 10 years ago how old would you be
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okay good job yeah how many world wars were there
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three two two three two into the mics guys mics two two okay uh what decade what decade
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was world war one so when i asked for decade i'm 1820s 1930s i'm looking for the decade
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i don't know just guess um okay was it the 1810s 1850s i will say the 1820s okay okay 1910s
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like 1780s you said world war one yeah 1914 1910s yeah 1910s 1910s 1910s what was the
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primary decade of world war ii the what world war ii primary decade um
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the world well hold on world war ii took place in the 2000s well definitely after the 1910s
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1920s so world war ii took place the decade you were born i don't know when anything took place
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Yeah, so it's World War II, so it happened after the 17th.
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yeah the 40s 1940s 1940s 1940s okay uh multiple choice question how many people died during world
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war ii 10 000 100 000 two million well i guess this would be military military casualties or 20
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million two million two million they were not kind of like the holocaust deaths or just the
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military casualties um like which one's closer i can't hear the question i mean the ten thousand
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a hundred thousand two million twenty million i think two million two million okay she's been
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pretty correct on a lot of these so like 10,000 10,000 died during world war ii okay numbers again
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okay so the question is how many people died during world war ii multiple choice question
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10,000 100,000 2 million 20 million which one's closer um 2 million 2 million okay i would say
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two two million two million two million two million you all got that wrong i was gonna say
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20 million all got it wrong closer to 20 million wow that's crazy yeah i just remember it was like
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a crazy number i was like what the fuck well i did say military deaths how many military deaths
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world war ii yeah uh total wait that's well no that's for just the soviet union total civilian
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wait what the fuck uh wait what the fuck where's the fucking total for military casual what the
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fuck oh what's the fuck okay it's not fucking giving it to me rude tell it to bow
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military deaths anyways whatever uh wait hold on where's my notes
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uh oh name one allied power one axis power from world war ii and i'll start i'll give you so okay
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one allied power usa one axis power germany so tell me one other of each
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um the soviet union was an ally allied power and then one access power um that was not germany
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didn't you just say russia wait didn't she russia was both an allied power and an axis power
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interesting apology not accepted you should go stand in the corner and think about what you've
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done I would but I don't call you daddy so I can't do it you know it's never too late to start
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wait what uh what about you um allied power um oh my god sorry in which war sorry world war two
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oh um oh gosh was France on our side that was one um and then access did anyone did you say
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germany okay then germany i already said germany oh um also like china china was an access power
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um what was japan oh wait it was a wait then japan were they allied no we were against them
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so they were wait i'm confused i'm confused too that's crazy this is not my strong question
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is axis i don't know japan into that mic mic mic i'm sorry japan and russia uh were axis powers
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and then obviously germany but then we already said that and then the u.s
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jimin jungkook top name three kardashians um wait let me let her do this one three kardashians
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kendall and well kylie even though does it count we will accept it uh let's see here final few
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ah yes okay what percentage of men do you think are over six feet
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wait in the whole world let's just say the usa 30 percent like one to 10 i don't know
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20 like five i feel like 10 percent it's like maybe five 15 i'll say like eight percent what
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percent of men make at least one million dollars a year one percent one percent one one percent i
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feel like more like ten percent like not one percent ten percent men make a million yeah
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maybe less than one percent less than a percent less than a one percent what percentage of men
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have yachts i would say like if there's 10 are like making a mill you know well not everybody
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wants a yacht because it's really expensive to maintain i would say like maybe of the 10 that
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make a million like 30 because the rest of them probably want to hang out with their friends that
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have yachts three to four yeah because i feel like if one person in the friend group has a yacht like
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they all have a yacht and yachts are expensive to maintain so three percent of men have yachts
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Have you ever slept with someone the same day you met them?
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yes yes yes yeah yes no yes what's the quickest i'll answer first i'll be nice
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it was under three hours well i talked to them for at least a week and then the first time that
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like three days like an hour with my ex-girlfriend like 18 hours 18 hours
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what about the one guy so specific wheelchair it's a little suspicious
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three hours three hours okay yeah anyone here had the threesome show of hands never
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kind of i've never had a threesome i got mad at the girl i've been offered there's one person
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but i felt like it would be awkward yeah you wouldn't it didn't even happen super awkward
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yeah i would like i don't want that man touching me that's your man get him away from me girl
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like have higher standards has anybody had more than the threesome foursome orgy
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orgy orgy anyone had a hoe phase i've had i don't know if i would consider it a hoe phase
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but i dated a lot of people but i would not fuck them i would just keep on dating like i was a
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homie hopper you were a homie hopper what's that so um i had a guy friend we ended up dating and
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then we broke up so i fucked everyone in his friend group that's yikes that's what added to
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the list i feel like it's easier for women to do that i feel like they get away with it more
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like i don't know just to be clear there were it's there was like five runs total wasn't like
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crazy well that's a good amount of that's a lot well i mean but like with and with how much of a
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time span because like it wasn't like i was like back to back with them has anyone here hooked up
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with two guys in a 24-hour period yes yeah yeah uh three guys 24-hour period no that's too much
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too much uh how many in a seven-day period oh in high school probably like four
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in a seven-day period you said four in a seven-day period i mean
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maybe like a two-week period yeah maybe like a yeah a three a three a solid three like in a
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college phase i was trying to go through the friends okay how many in a one-month period
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how many have you had carnal knowledge with honestly as of lately zero but that's just me
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though i've been celebrating well i mean it would at least be one per month no no in a one month
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period if you're not a virgin is that your list oh like how how many guys are like the most amount
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of men that i've like had sexual intercourse with in one month yeah okay two two yeah like three or
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four two like three three one oh my gosh are you waiting on me yeah yeah i'm sorry i'm looking up
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like the word bodies the body because it's in my nose you wait what's the body count again for you
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16 you want to read the list i can yeah yeah just first name first name close to the mic please
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close to the mic oh my god i'm sorry did i get my list too yes actually go get your phone actually
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yeah just do it we'll do first names only do you have a list there's too many like celebrities on
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my list to name one can you do just first name uh i think would that give it away sure you have a
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list no okay don't tell me i have an ipad should i show my list did you want you shouldn't show
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Wait, she's got, oh my God, everybody's got a fine list.
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One, Omar, John, Jovan, Drake, Kevin, and Darwin.
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okay let's see okay give her the phone please oh here here no no oh my god give her give her
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her her phone please which phone is yours this is my phone oh my god i'm gonna blow my
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fucking brains out give her her phone this is my phone not you oh my god tiffany give her the
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fucking phone the pink one holy fuck holy fuck you're trying to hand your phone you're like
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the thing with the numbers oh me i start digging in my butt i'm like where you have numbers in
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your butt where's the phone you lost a phone in your butt that's crazy you know it might be up my
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omar john jovan drake kevin and darwin oh gosh uh chris nate adam kai carlos carlos's friend
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Zeno, Sean, Riley, Ernesto, Alex, Sergi, JP, Noah, Jack, Toma, Roger, Daniel, John, Logan, and Tony.
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Rocco, Adrian, Caleb, Brendan, Harley, Nick, Mason, Jalen, Kyle, Marco, Aiden, Eli, Evan, Indy, EBK.
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I had a fucking aneurysm in your fucking list?
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yes. Do you, do, uh, women need men? Yeah. Yes. I need a man. I need a man. I love men,
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but I also hate men. So, you know, love and hate hand in hand. Yikes. If you could snap your finger
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and all men disappeared and women could reproduce without men. No, no, no, no. I love men,
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but you hate them. I love and hate them. I hate them when they're
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menning, but you know, I love them when like men are just like men and they're just like being a
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man you know like it's so sexy and shit yeah I love that for you guys yeah okay uh do you think
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white people are inherently racist um I think that they're inherently prejudiced but it's not
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entirely their fault you know they just don't really understand the discrimination that other
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races or minority feel because they've never experienced it and that's okay that's not okay
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that is not okay i think that they're just born with a little bit more prejudice than minorities
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that's all i think white people are actually the most tolerant group of
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people to pretty much have ever existed in all of human history caucasians
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lesions like let me ask you a question do you think uh chinese people are more
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or less tolerant than uh western white people tolerant as in like they're more well behaved
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the word you used was prejudice i think yes so do you think chinese people are more prejudiced
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or do you think white people like american white people are more prejudiced um i don't know i guess
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you want to hear something crazy chinese people are more prejudiced against other asian groups
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yeah uh then white people are against pretty much any racial group i can attest to this as somebody
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who works at chinese companies you work at chinese companies yeah don't get them started
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like non-asian oh my god don't even get me started on that that part don't even get her started
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oh my god i love my companies though if you guys are watching this i love you all yeah sponsor her
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more okay is everyone inherently racist um like our puerto rican camp i think everybody like i
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think everybody understands what discrimination and like racism is to an extent like an extent
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and everyone kind of finds it a little bit like humorous do you think trump is a fascist
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no anybody think trump is a fascist can i get the definition of a fascist
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that's that's gonna be open that's fucking complicated to be honest i feel like it's a
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little extreme a little extreme yeah we got a base lesbian girl here all right reasonable
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everybody assumes that i'm like gonna be like the crazy like super left one just because i'm gay
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i didn't assume i'm just you know well i'm from orange county oh there you go yeah that makes
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you moderate okay well uh that's pretty much it for my questions any final thoughts from anybody
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before we wrap up the show this was fun i had a good time yeah it was all right what do you think
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about the usa well i think that it's a great place to be free god bless america that's all i have to
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say about that safer than a lot of countries i was thinking about moving to costa rica on like
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a private island what do you think about the usa i can leave it i could stay here do you not like
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the usa every place has their pros and cons yeah i'm not like i'm i'm not opposed to leaving but
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also i i'll like i would leave the u.s i would live like outside of the u.s but i mean yeah the
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u.s is my home so fascism uh any final thoughts from any of you before i wrap this show up should
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Wait, are they actually good makeup wipes, or is it going to leave residue on my face?
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Well, while they're doing that, I guess a couple of final things here as I do my closing
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I can't believe that we're just like sitting here taking off our makeup.
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hit the like button please on your way out also please leave a nice comment once the live ends
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i read them positivity is nice helps the algo thank you for tuning in tonight you could have
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been anywhere in the world but you're here with me i have a four hour drive all the way back nice
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you'll get to see the sunset that's so cool sunrise sorry yeah sunrise yeah thanks for saving me like
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my face when i get home i got you i'm a nice guy like that i'm a gentleman uh so do i look like
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mentally different oh i thought you're about to say do you look mentally did anybody else hear
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i heard that mentally i thought i thought she said mentally different i there's a bit more you
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didn't get all of it to be honest no i think i got all of it i think that's all of it i can see
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i'm still going for it i'm just making sure it's all off uh wait hold up guys those of you who are
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done hold it up spread oh there's a little blood on whoa what you're saying what i'm just saying
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like there's nothing there's nothing there hold it up show them show them spread show
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there it is there's the damage there's some blood on here from my piercings oh shit nice
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all right there you go that's circumstantial that's like a little
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this is a heavy makeup day uh wait put your phones on put the screen down put your screen
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down for your phone lexi lexi lexi lexi screen down please hold it up hold it up jennington
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cute wow you know it's not very you should get one that you should get a hooked on phonics tattoo
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what what maybe that's a millennial thing i don't know okay i remember uh guys thank you for tuning
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in tonight that was an interesting stream i was on my period tonight you could have been anywhere
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in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donates
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and supports the show thank you guys we'll be live again sunday 5 p.m pacific we might have
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a debate on friday actually uh things are a little up in the air wait friday or saturday
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is that the 19th wait the 19th that's a friday okay i think we have a debate on the 19th
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uh so we'll see and then we have rachel wilson at the end of the month for one debate and one
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dating talk any girls who want to be on the show if you want to be on the show dm at whatever on
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instagram if you can make it to santa barbara oh sevens in the chat is there anything we're
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forgetting here she took her she's wearing it as a hat nice it looks good that's a good look on you
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thank you it looks you look stunning and brave uh let's see here uh like the video boys like the
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video if you enjoyed the stream i'm trying to think if there's anything else i don't think so
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you stressed me out so bad i broke his head off i noticed that
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i saw his head and i literally broke it you like decapitated it early i didn't mean no i know it
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was early on i didn't want to i was trying so hard not to stim but there was a couple times
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it was definitely early on all right well uh yeah thank you guys for tuning in thank you guys for
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tuning in uh oh sevens in the chat guys oh sevens in the chat uh good night guys good night and we
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will see you next time all right hey that was a great show guys we're wrapped really quick uh
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just really quick you know just now that the show's over uh did anybody like lie about their
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body count or relationship status or anything like do you have a boyfriend no he's still secretly
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i'm in a period at a time where i just don't like men i don't like men but i do love them
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only if they come into my life with oh my god who the hell is oh but like so i actually lied
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about my body count i said i was a virgin we knew oh yeah no it's not true it's not true
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but did anybody lie about their body count just curious no 30 is yeah i'm actually a virgin
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did anybody lie nobody lied i don't lie okay he's like oh fuck the oh my god tiffany's new
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and Tiffany this is you gave her such a hard time I'm sorry Tiffany Tiffany end the stream
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