ALL RAGE QUIT & KICKED OUT？! HATER Came To DESTROY Brian？! HØE PHASE = GOOD？! ｜ Dating Talk 287
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Summary
In this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, host Briana Atlas and her guest Tiffany talk about Tiffany's experience with sex work and how she got into it when she was a minor. Tiffany is a college student in Miami, Florida and has been involved in sex work since she was 16 years old.
Transcript
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welcome to the whatever dating talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating
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hellscape i'm your host brian atlas sorry that we're a little late guys a lot of people running
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late no shows so forth uh we're just gonna since we are late we're gonna just dive right in i guess
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the fade wasn't on um okay go ahead okay um my name's lexi um i'm 18 years old i'm originally
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from la and i moved to miami and i am a server and i am in college and what's the other thing
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you do um it's called fin dom what's that mean financial domination so what what do you do with
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that? Um, you kind of just bully men and they give you money essentially. Okay. So you are, uh,
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how are you finding your clientele? Tiffany, you got to switch. They find, you got to switch when,
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when, uh, okay, good. They pretty much find me like through X. Okay.
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how long you've been doing that since october of last year since october okay um when did you turn
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18 october so prior to turning 18 did you have a plan to start doing this no i did not so okay
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you turn 18 in october what day 27th when did you start doing fin dom um i don't know the exact date
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but it was it was sometime in October it was was it before you turned 18 possibly so you were doing
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sex work before 18 uh I don't it was like maybe a few days and I don't consider it I don't really
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consider it sex work um are the men being sexually gratified I mean that could be considered like at
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any I don't know like if you're on the subway and like some guy's jacking off to you like that
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is that sex work? No, that would be a crime, but, um, you're engaging in a consensual
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engagement with the person transactionally for money. So work, what do you typically get when
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you work? Money. Right. And so the way you make money is by indulging men in, uh, their sexual
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gratification. But it's not like, it's just like weird. Like, it's not like, it is weird. You're
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right about that it's not like i'm you know nude or like in lingerie and stuff like that
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it's it's none of that it's like i don't know they just like being bullied
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well do any of them disclose that they are uh like masturbating while you do it or i mean i
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don't really run it so what do you mean you don't run it like i have someone that's how i found out
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about it just like through a random on snapchat so you don't who bullies the men then
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he does so I don't really do anything so you have a male manager yes who who bullies the men yes
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so you are what then the face yeah so you're useless pretty much so like literally an AI
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could do it yeah that's what you know there's a lot of AI OnlyFans models town too you know
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uh okay so you don't ever participate in the uh the bullying not you're not sending the messages
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you're not degrading them no he i just communicate through him how's your manager
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what oh he's like i think he's like 20 i don't even know so he started
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uh pimping you out before the age of 18 it's not pimping it's not pimping out well
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you're not prostituting yourself yeah it's not like that in a more literal sense but
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it just runs it is a little questionable though that you
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started engaging this when you're a minor i don't know the exact date
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well you this is not like i'm asking i'm not asking you to be uh recalling something from
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10 years ago this is six months ago i know like the month but i don't know the exact day of the
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month. Well, I mean, you said your birthday is October 27th, 27th. If you started posting on
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Twitter prior to October 27th, offering the service, then you would have been engaging in
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sex work when you were a minor. Let's just say it was after October 27th. Okay. So you've been
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doing it for, and so you met this guy prior to, was this your boyfriend? I've actually never met
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him. It's just like online. I don't even know. He just texted me. And I, at first I thought it was
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like weird, but, um, wait, wait. So a 20 year old man is texting a minor trying to induce her to
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start sex. Let's not say minor. You literally were a minor. Not after October 27th. But did he text
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you prior to your birthday? I said, let's just say October 27th. Well, let's, I mean, I mean,
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there's only three, four days left in the month of October. Yeah. So there's a chance it could
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have been those three or four days that's a bit of a yikes uh if you ask me but um okay so
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uh and I assume you plan to maybe start an OnlyFans too no I mean that's that's the pipeline
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no but I'm I live in Miami I'm around it all the time if I wanted to do it I would have done that
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already I still have self-respect it's not well wait so hold on you you make a judgment of OnlyFans
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girls and you're here with your virtue in your ivory tower uh degrading men well not even you
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I mean you're the you have an agent degrading men on your behalf via proxy I guess um
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what was the word you used do you have what did she say you still have standards or what
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I said self-respect you still have self-respect yeah so what what is it about OnlyFans that is
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lacking in self-respect that you possess honestly I think it's not like I think it depends if what
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kind of OnlyFans because I know that some OnlyFans girls don't post anything crazy like they'll
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literally post like their feet and make money still degenerate but I think there gets to a certain
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level I mean you could still have self-respect it's just online self-respect versus like in-person
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in self-respect. Okay. Has your manager or whatever, has he attempted to convince you
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or persuade you to start an OnlyFans? No, he hasn't. So he's fine doing this degradation
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thing, but not exploring other avenues of monetization? I mean, he has a lot of different
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girls does he manage only fans girls no he just does this because it's a smaller niche like it's
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not as widespread i would say he just does the twitter fin dom degrading men thing yeah it's
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honestly like it's a good um it's a good way to make money as a man well maybe he makes good
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money i don't know if i would categorize it as a good way yeah maybe not a good way but you know
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an easy way well that might certainly be true um okay what's the typical i guess can you share
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how much money you make um about a month but i also serve um do you want me to put both of them
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together uh just the just maybe around like ten thousand dollars a month from fin dom and you're
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18 yes okay um it varies though you know month by month what are some of the things when he
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i'm surprised you actually admitted that it's not you who's sending the messages
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because i don't don't you think your clientele would be disappointed to learn that it's it's
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like they're like basically being fraudulent fraudulently induced to homosexual sexting
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i mean honestly if they if like a small percentage sees this that's fine
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oh yeah i mean i'm sure you're not uh pushing it out there too much like crazy but uh okay
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So what are some of the things he would send a guy?
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He'd be like, they like to like, I don't know, like they like tasks.
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So he'll tell them to like go lick their toilet seat or like throw themselves in a trash can.
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He'll, like, share some of it with me just so, like, so I can see.
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I wouldn't be surprised if within a year or two you do OnlyFans.
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do you want to at least do the intro as we're because we're about to do the intro
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can you introduce yourself and then take the break
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all right um you're from miami you said no i'm from lost or like
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ventura county oh you live in ventura no i moved to miami okay so but you're from ventura and then
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you moved to miami okay and then college yeah i'm just community college in miami yes uh are you
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uh what are you studying marketing is it your freshman year yes okay introduce yourself please
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Hi, I'm Chris Love, 28 years old. I am a licensed hairdresser, model, and...
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Okay, my name is Chris Love. I'm 28 years old. I'm from Haiti.
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I'm a licensed hairdresser, playboy model, and a stripper.
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Okay, and sorry, you're from Haiti, but where do you live currently?
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I did, but I got a scholarship, and I injured my foot,
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so I kind of, like, dropped out and ended here at dressing school.
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Okay, can you tell us your name, your age, your location, your occupation, education?
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Hello, my name is Brooklyn. I'm 19 years old. My occupation right now is just like part-time at a
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retail store, and right now I'm in community college, just doing the two years, and the next
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year i hope to transfer to a four-year college what are you studying film and media arts and
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where do you live where are you from um i live in ventura and that's where i'm from born and raised
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and you're friends with uh lexi here yes has she have you done any sort of uh
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similar work to her with the fin dom thing i don't have my own account but i've done like a
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few posts with her and then gotten like a portion of that money have you done anything else like
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selling feet pics having a sugar daddy anything like that it was like a few feet pics on her page
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but no I don't have a sugar daddy okay yeah all right and how long have you been sort of working
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with her on the fin dom stuff whenever she started so about six months yeah okay uh interesting
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how much money have you made um like one thousand dollars
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you know i think the thing the thing with sex work uh i mean on one hand
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what's the point of half-assing it i guess because i mean you've already
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what's the term you've already bit the bullet you've already pulled the trigger so it's like
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if you're if you're gonna do it i feel like you either need to make a fuck ton of money or not do
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it because like then you just have the you have like the digital footprint but are you comparing
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sorry are you comparing like feet pics to like porn like well so i continue like what do you
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mean by like go all the way like what no so when I when I say go all the way even if you're just
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taking like non-nude lingerie photos if you're just going to be like you don't want to be half
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a gangster you're either a full gangster or you don't become a gangster now just to be clear I'm
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not advocating that people should be doing sex work or whatever but I feel like if you're going
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to dabble you've already bit the bullet like I feel like I'm not articulating I'm not advocating
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that people do sex work period but it seems like if you're going to put out the digital footprint
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of by the way i'm a sex worker like that's that's that you've you've passed the event horizon
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you've passed the point of uh shit what's the term the uh the point of no return like i don't know
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i don't know there's worse things you can do in sex work like you could be a bonnie blue you could
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that that could be maybe the worst thing you could be in the traditional porn industry
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but it's like is it worth it just to like I mean perma for me it's worth it because it's like I
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got out of my household and I'm still I'm living what you got out of your household yeah my household
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oh household yeah sorry I lost my voice so I don't know but I'm just saying like for me it was worth
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it because I could work as many hours as I could you know working my serving job here but that's
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not gonna make me enough money for rent nowadays well so you're making 10k but i my criticism is
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perhaps directed more towards your friend where she's been doing this sort of casually for six
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months and she's made a thousand dollars and but she doesn't like do it you know well she now has
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like a perma footprint of like she's always going to have the sex worker label for for a thousand
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dollars it's look again you shouldn't do it period but it's like for a thousand dollars it's not worth
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it like for example if you're gonna rob banks and all you're gonna get is like a roll of quarters
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yeah look just to be clear you should never rob a bank but if all you're gonna get is like 25 bucks
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you're a fucking retard if you're gonna rob a bank make sure it's like six figures now again
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i would highly encourage both of you to reconsider because you're not too far gone i mean you don't
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have fucking pictures of you getting bukkake'd and gang banged yet as far as i know you've done
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some fucking weird fin dumb degrading men shit you've sold feet pics or whatever you've posted
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to 13 year olds that would get you a lot of money
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You make $10,000 a month doing the FinDOM thing
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how much do you make a month being a server it's more for like the people aspect but um
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you do it you do the fin dom for the vibes no not for no i'm saying service like to make
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connections like meet new people you're a waitress for the networking yes and it's like good to have
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a routine you know like you i'm not gonna i'm not gonna like fully depend on the the fin dom stuff
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um so you're a do you are you like at a really fancy restaurant or something i mean i'm in
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brickle it's not like super fancy but it's like there you know all the famous people go there
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but like is it a i don't know what's a popular expensive restaurant like nobu or something i
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don't know um yeah i don't really like fine dining though you don't like working fine dining
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i like more like i don't know family style places to work at okay um good times i guess
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i guess i never like considered what i was doing as sex work just because it was like
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feet and then that was it um yeah that's basically it but i'm not gonna do this
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lifelong either i mean i'm still in college i want to get my degree
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the thing is though is it's it's like uh you start off selling feet pics yeah i get that next thing
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you know but you don't i'm about to do a slippery slope fallacy but fuck it who cares uh one day
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you're selling feet pics the next you're sucking dicks behind a 7-eleven for 50 dollars a pop
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trying to you know feed your heroin addiction yeah or meth addiction or makeup i think we would
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have already been there by now no i live in miami like the only fans capital of the world you don't
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know how many times i've been offered like how much money i could have made you know so sophie
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rain hits you up and is like or whoever's still working at the bob house or whatever if it's even
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a thing anymore she's like hey look come work with us we'll make you six figures a month yeah
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you're gonna do it i know i'm you're not i'm consent with how i live right now
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we'll see uh you're in school yes what are you studying film and media arts okay all right what
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about you hey i'm maria i'm from north carolina i'm 34 um i work in a warehouse and oh i dropped
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out of college my junior year what were you studying social work social work okay uh did
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you get your associates or no no okay uh and you're from where again sorry north carolina
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And I am mostly a writer and a supermodel as well.
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Before I have people finish their intro, I do apologize.
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Desert Jorge, normally we don't get them so soon, so I apologize for the delay.
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chair one does not know the meaning of self-respect she's also admitting to fraud
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it's behavior like hers that creates misogynists from nice guys
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do you want to respond to desert jorge um yeah like what do you mean like fraud because it's
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a different guy i mean there's scams all the time but it's not like an actual scam like i don't know
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it's actually a good point uh jorge it actually is fraud it is a scam yeah but is that like
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like legal like legally or legally i don't know uh well how about this and adzils i see your tts
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i'll get to it in just a moment uh how about we frame it like this uh well why do you think he's
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calling it fraud or scam because the guys obviously think that they're talking to me
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but isn't that what only fans is too which is also fraud and scamming but it's elite it's like a job
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it's like a legal job right well they pay taxes and stuff well yeah but mafia bosses
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pay drug dealers pay taxes criminals pay taxes well sometimes they hide it sometimes they
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launder the money um but just because you pay taxes doesn't mean that you aren't like for
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example even corporations you'd acknowledge that corporations engage in criminal acts and fraud
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and this sort of thing money embezzlement uh and they pay taxes so just because you pay taxes
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doesn't mean that what you're actually doing is uh legitimate in this other sense yeah i mean i
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thought we both agreed that it was like i mean not ideal well there's two components there's the
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the actual thing you're doing which is this the degradation which people could criticize that
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You're engaging in sex work. You're kind of bullying men for money, which is, uh, you know,
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a little, a little shady, but then there's the misrepresentation. So it's like, you're talking
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to me or I'm talking to you. It's Lexi. That's her name, right? Lexi. Lexi is the one that's
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bullying these men as simpish and degenerate as they might be. You're the one you're advertising.
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it's you but the fraud is it's some dude it's not you like for example do you think um who's
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someone really famous right now do you think if timothy chalamet opened up not an only fans but
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let's say he opened up a membership website it wasn't nudity or anything but he was like hey
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you guys join this uh membership website we'll charge twenty dollars an hour and or excuse me
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not $20 an hour, uh, $20 a month. And per message, you have to pay a dollar or some shit like that.
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And it was, and you get to talk to me, that's the representation. You get to talk to me,
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famous movie, a list movie actor, Timothee Chalamet, but it actually wasn't him. It was
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some minimum wage assistant that would be fraud. People would bring lawsuits against him.
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I mean, I don't know. I don't really feel bad for them.
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what do you mean you don't feel bad for them like they're getting what they want i guess
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uh okay not really well in any case that that doesn't that doesn't refute that you are engaging
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in a fraudulent act okay yeah it is fraud i guess okay i guess you can admit it um but it is uh
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yeah it is a bit you know okay uh thank you desert jorge for that we have adzils here thank
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you man appreciate it donated two hundred dollars yo brian thank you your favorite brit is back
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love for accepting my fr on discord as a good observer the innocence of chair three is there
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to see just silly chair one muppet and a bad friend hashtag michael is king uh thank you man
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thank you at zills yeah we can fix her i don't know about her she's too far gone but i think
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we can fix we can fix her we can get her on the right path uh all right uh you were about to
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introduce yourself yes or you did sort of you're 26 yes my name is lindsey and i'm a writer as
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well as a supermodel oh and uh wait did you hide all those memberships tiffany what happened there
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okay that's you can leave them but you can unstar the these blues here sorry guys new new producer
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my my guys on my new guy other new guys away uh and you're amish or ex-amish yes i grew up
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Quaker and Amish. Right now, mostly just Quaker. So explain what Quaker is. Explain what Amish is.
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Well, the Amish are usually just people who really believe in simplicity. It's the same with
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Quakerism, but the main difference is that we still have connection to technology and the outside
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world, unlike people in the Amish community. So that's basically the main difference. I would also
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say that quakerism is extremely diverse so you could pretty much be like of any background have
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any kind of spiritual or cultural belief and still be considered a quaker because it's not actually
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a religion it's a way of being so more of like a spirituality and there are like certain pillars
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that if you live by then you could technically consider yourself a quaker as well wait so um
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quakers don't consider themselves christian is that correct no so are there churches not really
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like we have um they're called meeting houses and basically what it's for is for us to like
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meet together and just sit in silence if somebody has like a hard time that they're going through
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they can stand up and say something to the rest of the community um but basically the whole purpose
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is that like we're bringing our lights together to make the world shine brighter so by appreciating
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each other in silence we can understand simplicity better okay good times yeah and then the when
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you say you were a um Amish what so did you not have like a phone did you not what I guess I
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probably got scope and scale of it well it was mostly just that I lived inside of an Amish
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neighborhood so like all Amish food all Amish like communities pretty much and then I went to
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all Quaker schools okay um but so your parents are they Amish no not at all okay so are they
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they Quaker yes but you so you're not Amish then no but you said you were Amish no no I grew up
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partially Amish yes like within the Amish community Amish yes and the Amish community
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that would imply uh i i think there's a difference between you grew up amish and you grew up
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living in an amish area anyways well it's just confusing because like the way of living is
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drastically different so like there are horses and carriages for example so like that's why i'm like
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well i feel like if you grow up in a community like that it's kind of the only reason we really
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had a car was because quaker schools are really far away from like those farming areas so you know
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all my neighbors though. And like the community I was in was mostly Amish.
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All right. Um, interesting. Okay. So not really Amish, but sort of Amish-ish, I guess.
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All right. More so Quaker. I definitely would stand by. Yes. Still? Yes. Yes. Okay. But then,
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and where, where, where was that? Pennsylvania? No, in Maryland, in a really small town in
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maryland okay and uh but how recently did you move you moved to la hollywood yeah well beverly hills
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and i moved here like almost three years ago oh shit wait hold on let me shout somebody out
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i missed it sorry zico sorry zico we have we have like perma moderation on our alerts
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so i don't know if you're still watching zico thank you for the raid hey guys um zico who's
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who's single here really quick just show of hands who of you want to date a world of warcraft
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giga chad top tier mage player streamer you would do it what about you he's is he i just don't know
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i would have to like know him i have to like meet him i don't know you didn't give any characteristics
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He fucking will own people in the arena as a mage.
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This is obviously not a gaming stream that we do.
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But I do frequently talk about World of Warcraft on the show.
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you know um like oh whoops you know like right now i'm actually um i'm kind of like aoe farming
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like there's there's nine eight wait eight girls here like this is a mage aoe pull and it's like
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you know i'm like aoe farming basically um and yeah and it's like high i'm basically like high
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warlord and they're basically like 51 greens in felwood and like i've fucking got full world buffs
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and shit and they're just like in like dungeon greens wow i'm kidding i'm kidding it's terrible
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i'm trying to be i'm trying to relate to the ziko raiders hey ziko thank you for the raid man
00:32:36.280
appreciate it hope you had a good stream man i will set you guys up though with with him if you
00:32:41.500
want to he's he's not as toxic as i am he's um he's rich he's a world of warcraft's millionaire
00:32:51.100
okay good talk all right well you didn't give any characteristics you just said all these random
00:32:59.940
things he's six foot three okay does he go to the gym he does go to the gym he's got really good
00:33:07.900
micro like his micro is really good saying he's good with his hands is what you're saying yeah
00:33:12.840
like the micro like micromanage you know like you guys know command and conquer generals yes you
00:33:19.220
how the fuck do you know coming to conquer he's got the micro you know like he's just pawning
00:33:24.700
noobs and shit like three people know the reference i'm doing um i just like he's really
00:33:29.840
into gaming like he's gonna fucking scud storm you guys like within three minutes oh totally
00:33:34.900
He's going to load a bunch of technicals up into the fucking, what is it fucking called?
00:33:40.800
I mean, yeah, Command and Conquer General is like zero hour.
00:33:46.900
So do you actually play the game or are you just no terms?
00:34:04.900
So you would see, like, buggies and horse-drawn carriage.
00:34:11.160
Sometimes we'd have to reenact the pilgrimage era, which sucked.
00:34:18.380
I didn't really, like, date for real until probably 17.
00:34:33.700
I guess, like, I feel like our way of dating is, like, completely alien in comparison to what I see outside of our community.
00:34:43.160
And usually, like, you go to school or you're in the community with all the same people.
00:34:55.380
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on twitch twitch do you have it tiffany yeah zico thank you for the raid and then guys zico followers
00:35:09.880
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00:35:15.460
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00:35:27.180
one more world of warcraft question after after i see like you guys spamming the follows there
00:35:32.480
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00:35:37.560
we're over uh question yeah you said you stopped playing video games yeah never isn't world of
00:35:43.880
warcraft like a pc game yeah that's a video game pc games are video games would you consider that
00:35:48.940
video games okay yeah absolutely you're i mean pc games uh i i don't know if you'd consider
00:35:57.060
self i guess yeah yeah cell phone games would be video games um console pc it's all under the
00:36:03.020
umbrella of video games uh one question who here would date a guy uh who was like a hardcore
00:36:12.300
raider raider yeah in like classic world of warcraft so he's got like 360s uh and he's in
00:36:20.400
a hardcore raiding guild so like they're they're taking all the world bosses they're fighting for
00:36:25.980
them anyways and he's he he's uh the main tank for his guild that's a lot of dedication he's got
00:36:33.440
prio on you know all the good loot he's he gets the first dft drake fang talisman he gets the
00:36:40.780
first dft he's going to get thunder fury he has dibs on the on thunder fury um he has dibs on
00:36:47.560
a curia from ragnaros he uh he might also go daggers because daggers is really good for tanking
00:36:53.920
so he's going to get perdition's blade he's going to get um what's what's the other one they like
00:36:59.080
to take uh the the one from um i can't believe i'm blanking on it from the uh the boss right
00:37:05.400
before ragnaros i'm blanking on it uh the the core hound tooth he's gonna take core hound tooth
00:37:11.260
and then uh in nax ramus he's gonna definitely take uh gressel he's gonna take gressel he's
00:37:17.800
gonna take uh yeah he's gonna take gressel so but he's gonna he plays like he's gonna i understand
00:37:26.660
a lot would you date a guy who plays 10 hours of video games a day is what i'm trying to say
00:37:38.040
Yeah, pretty much he wakes up, he streams for 10, 12 hours.
00:37:51.760
Not everybody can ascend to the World of Warcraft streamer god tier list like Zico.
00:38:00.120
but you know he gets like 300 400 viewers a stream like concurrent per stream you know
00:38:06.740
like would you date that guy i just don't know i need to know who he is it's so big yo zico are
00:38:13.040
you in the chat okay zico somebody i just need to know about who he is zico somebody who's a
00:38:18.800
world of warcraft streamer who gets 400 uh concurrent viewers who streams 10 hours a day
00:38:23.900
how much money is he making a month tell me zico tell me zico in the chat uh how many how much
00:38:32.200
money is a guy who's making few who has 400 viewers streaming uh 50 hours a week how much
00:38:39.180
is he making what he might make like what 10k maybe uh zico says he i don't want any of them
00:38:47.700
i'm loyal to chloe he's making 8 000 a month and look you know maybe he breaks through you know
00:38:53.320
maybe he gets a collab with zico maybe he does something with payo maybe he does something with
00:38:59.300
soda poppin maybe he does something with ampi i'm an ampi i like ampi i don't know i'm an ampi fan
00:39:05.460
that guy's a great raid leader i just don't watch anything i only watched clavicular i don't watch
00:39:12.780
anything yeah that guy does not play world of warcraft that's for certain all right zico thank
00:39:17.420
you again okay uh back to this uh introduce yourself please hi i'm veronica i'm 23 i'm
00:39:24.520
originally from michigan i live in la now and i'm an actor and a model okay uh school or anything
00:39:31.620
like that i went to a film acting school yes you got a bachelor's degree no it was just like
00:39:37.140
a six months program specifically for acting and did you say college oh no i didn't go to
00:39:43.440
university no college okay what about you intro for you so my name is Leticia I am French originally
00:39:50.240
and I live now in the mountains in Mammoth Lakes California and what do I do I am a professional
00:39:58.340
organizer and a feng shui consultant and I haven't been to school age 42 42 okay
00:40:33.820
Holy shit, I need to work on my French a little.
00:41:03.820
My name is Julia, 34 years old, from Denver, Colorado.
00:41:08.860
I work for a SAS tech company, and I went to school.
00:41:13.940
I did my associates at the New Mexico Military Institute,
00:41:16.500
and then I did the rest of my undergrad at the Colorado School of Mines studying petroleum engineering.
00:41:30.220
But then I got accepted into the School of Mines and decided to stay a civilian
00:41:37.140
All right, well that's everybody's introduction
00:41:55.080
And for all of them, is height or money more important?
00:42:04.660
We have Rachel Wilson coming, Andrew's wife, next week.
00:42:18.320
And then we're going to have a dating talk with Rachel on Sunday, the 29th.
00:42:24.880
So we will have one of the Wilsons, one of the Wilsons here.
00:42:33.300
Well, basically, it's like your ability to cultivate joy within yourself, basically getting to a place in your life where you can feel fully happy with who you are, what you believe in the trajectory you have moving forward.
00:42:45.060
And then with that groundedness, you're able to pretty much project a positive light.
00:42:49.320
So the light is just a radiance of positivity that comes from your own internal growth.
00:42:54.880
essentially. All right. I have no idea what you just said, but I love that.
00:43:00.880
All right, guys, we're going to do before we get into everyone's relationship status,
00:43:03.960
we're going to do the intro that I postponed and to get everybody introduced more quickly.
00:43:09.460
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00:43:14.020
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big labia matter as someone who only dates women with a large labia it's very important cause for
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00:47:18.040
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00:47:25.560
this is the fuck that's all noise that's all noise this labia thing is 10 000 surgeries a
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00:47:38.620
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Okay, going around the table, tell me your relationship status, please.
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um like almost forever almost forever well I had like a I had like a short like one month
00:48:55.840
relationship when I was 16 and that's it so is that the longest period of time you've ever seen
00:49:01.800
a guy was one month no I've like talked to actually probably well let's let's incorporate
00:49:07.800
all talking stages all um situationships what's the longest anything you've had um
00:49:16.600
probably a month on actually maybe like two months okay like January to like March so you
00:49:24.260
you've been single how long I guess um like two years but it was only a month you were yeah have
00:49:32.460
you have you ever said i love you to a guy yeah just him the high school relationship yeah okay
00:49:41.860
um has a guy ever said i love you to you yeah that's why i said it so you didn't mean it not
00:49:48.180
really i mean yeah you guys were dating for a month exactly it was kind of it just caught me
00:50:10.040
January, February, middle of, almost three months.
00:50:23.120
hold your fingers up like me february march we're not finished with march we're like in the middle
00:50:27.680
but we're not it's like march isn't it march right now yeah so is that is that not three months and
00:50:37.080
like no because we still have like another week it would be three months like three and a half
00:50:41.500
months right no two and a half months am i being gas lit right now no no i wouldn't object if you
00:50:50.240
said three months because it's almost three months but it's definitely not not three and a half okay
00:50:54.020
but it's like okay january around 30 i don't even know how many days are in each month but around
00:50:59.080
like 30 for each one right 30 60 90 and then like 100 something right now so it's like three you
00:51:08.240
know what i changed my mind maybe sex work is the only option for something is this last
00:51:41.060
dating is cooked there you've been celibate um yeah how long you've been celibate for
00:51:54.360
okay you don't believe me not really why uh sort of kind of almost sex worker
00:52:33.040
Yes, I just like to go to have fun with my girlfriends.
00:53:07.020
yes absolutely what does it take for a woman to be gross in the way that
00:53:11.920
whatever you're attributing to the man being gross maybe it doesn't have to be symmetrical
00:53:16.900
maybe how can women be gross i mean i was like talking about how guys mostly just want to fuck
00:53:26.740
what do you mean a lot of them are ugly what percent of them are ugly probably like to me
00:53:33.880
personally, probably like 90% of guys are ugly to me. Now, are you talking when you're like
00:53:41.140
daytime or are you talking in the club where it's probably people your age? Um, what do you mean
00:53:46.400
during the daytime? Like, well, if you're going to Trader Joe's, you're going to see a 60 year
00:53:50.660
old dude. And it's like, of course I'm not, you're not attracted to a 60 year old. Yeah.
00:53:55.820
I mean, I'm assuming the guys at the club are pro you're going to like, uh, under 21 clubs,
00:54:01.140
right or do you have a fake id of course she has a fake id well don't they have of course
00:54:07.520
don't they um don't they have like uh not like underage but the 18 and over clubs yeah they do
00:54:20.240
okay but you go to the i go to all of them okay so you have a fake okay um
00:54:26.760
are the 18 clubs just like not i don't know i mean there's there's like one called space and
00:54:33.740
it's just like more like edm music and it's not really my vibe well i guess they can't serve
00:54:40.760
alcohol right so i i think they do but they might have like a bar where you can like you have to go
00:54:46.700
buy it and show your id there right yeah you need like a wristband yeah you have to probably there's
00:54:54.080
people over 21 who go to the 18 plus clubs yeah they want a younger person probably okay so
00:55:01.620
all right um what about you relationship status um i'm single but technically not really wait hold
00:55:09.440
on let me go back to my question what makes a woman gross um wait because you're like ah the
00:55:17.000
guys they're so grown i mean girls usually don't use guys for sex i mean there definitely is but
00:55:23.640
it's like guys have a higher sex drive you know they're trying to fuck girls more than girls are
00:55:28.140
trying to i mean girls yeah i'd be willing to i'd say generally speaking i'd be willing to
00:55:33.460
grant that men are more sex motivated yeah of course there are women who will like fuck a guy
00:55:40.080
once and they just wanted the one night stand and um but uh what do women use men for um
00:55:48.540
i think women most of the time don't use a man for anything oh they do definitely do
00:55:55.660
they definitely do before i give my thoughts but like i don't think there's that high of a
00:56:01.760
percentage of women using men for money honestly what percentage i don't know the numbers but i
00:56:07.340
just like the people i know like they would not use a man for money like it's more for a genuine
00:56:13.160
connection the people you know i was like no i know a lot of people like that i can't even lie
00:56:17.680
They could easily go on, you know, like seeking arrangements or something like that and look for a sugar daddy, and that's using a man.
00:56:23.080
But they would rather not do that and find someone they actually like.
00:56:28.340
Anyone could have a sugar daddy if you really wanted it.
00:56:45.260
have you ever been on a yacht that was chartered by a woman yeah 100 yes okay
00:56:52.980
oh how many times you've been on the yacht in miami um maybe like three three times
00:57:01.860
okay and was it a guy who either owned the yacht or they were throwing a party um yeah definitely
00:57:10.880
like two of them but one of them was like a streamer yacht so I don't think it was
00:57:14.800
like I don't know okay it could have been owned by a man or a woman I'm just curious but you do
00:57:20.920
Fyndom none of your friends do Fyndom they do okay so wouldn't that be using men for money
00:57:27.180
yeah I guess but like I'm saying it's like in real life that is real life no that's online
00:58:02.540
distinction we were saying why are women gross or like what makes a woman gross sure yeah so i just
00:58:09.440
using men and you said using men for money but you're you're doing a carve out you're saying
00:58:15.040
well when women use men for money but it's online that doesn't count towards their grossness
00:58:21.260
that doesn't count but they're still using the men for money i guess i guess
00:58:29.240
i mean i would all do any of the women other women on the panel want to weigh in what are
00:58:35.180
some of the other ways women use them for money for validation probably is number one validation
00:58:40.220
avoiding loneliness which maybe is the same thing but i don't know i just know a lot of women who
00:58:46.660
use men in many different ways sex attention to yeah women use men for i mean yes i'm not saying
00:58:53.020
i think i know they do i have friends who do it green card yeah all types of stuff yeah this is
00:58:59.380
real life like that does happen i mean you didn't mention validation women definitely use men for
00:59:05.840
to feel their own ego for for attention uh hey tiffany i need you to close both those doors
00:59:12.560
do you know how to close that back one hold on close the back one yeah no the back one
00:59:19.400
there's a no no no tiffany there's a thing on the side
00:59:23.900
there's a thing on the side that that to lock it
00:59:35.820
okay guys um how's everyone feeling i'm chilling
00:59:49.100
are you feeling better better did you take medication i'm like i don't know i think the
00:59:55.820
shot made my like heart breaks oh yeah i don't trust that stuff man that's why i never took
01:00:00.920
i never trust that stuff oh nobody could carry the conversation for 10 minutes while i stepped
01:00:06.020
away okay so anyways back to this um well i was just more so curious what you had to say
01:00:41.180
also there's a sort of like sadism that's associated with it where you're like
01:00:46.620
rejecting these men and that makes you feel like you're you're so above all these men
01:00:52.480
oh my god get away fuck off so there is a component there um and i think the other thing
01:01:00.420
on dating apps women will use dating apps for entertainment they have no genuine not all women
01:01:06.440
to be clear some women have to some degree a genuine intention of meeting somebody you'll
01:01:11.460
use dating apps for attention you won't have a genuine intention of like matching with these guys
01:01:16.940
and meeting up with them it's like look at all these guys who are matching with me i'm going to
01:01:22.360
use it as entertainment it's like a video game to me look at all this all these matches all these
01:01:27.040
guys are trying to fuck me i don't think that's most women yeah i don't think it's most i think
01:01:32.360
i think it's most women on dating apps you think they use it for attention on tinder the majority
01:01:38.120
of women yes i think it's everybody go on go on i don't even think that's like a gender side
01:01:43.700
i think it's just people yeah yeah tinder is like the worst girl though and she was like oh my god
01:01:50.900
like i got like 10 000 matches like 10 000 guys want me and i was like okay look i'm not saying
01:01:55.940
all women use dating apps for that yeah but i'm saying that's one of the mechanisms in which
01:02:01.440
they uh they use men for attention they use men for validation so it's like whereas men men
01:02:10.140
now why do men go to the club do you think uh i mean they're either gay or they're trying to
01:02:16.640
get girls yeah that's what i feel like a lot of people go to the club be inherently gross for a
01:02:23.440
man to pursue you no because it's not pursuing it's just trying to fuck yeah that's still
01:02:28.300
pursuing yeah you're just a piece of meat in the club it's a club though i don't know what people
01:02:33.840
are expecting it's a nightlife nightlife is like the worst place to be if you want anything of
01:02:39.140
quality yeah it's not like i'm going to the club to look for my husband exactly probably not but
01:02:45.120
i mean women definitely go out to parties and these sorts of environments uh i'll admit
01:02:51.060
partially to have fun maybe it's even the majority but maybe it maybe it's 20 30 40 50
01:02:57.540
there's this other component of maybe i'll meet somebody and i believe this because if it was
01:03:05.220
actually the case that women just wanted to go out oh my god these men are so annoying and and
01:03:10.740
they're they're they're gross and they're hitting on me why not just stay in with your girlfriends
01:03:16.680
uh don't have don't have to wait in some fucking bullshit line play you don't need a line yeah you
01:03:23.680
don't have to play i mean you don't need to wait sometimes when i just don't have connections okay
01:03:27.660
that's fine sometimes that's not the night life just sucks hold on that's not the core issue here
01:03:32.580
whether or not women wait in line uh you could as women with your girlfriends you can play whatever
01:03:39.020
music you want you can dance at home you could buy a fucking ten dollar handle of alcohol instead
01:03:44.380
of paying twenty dollars per drink at the club what if i want to meet girlfriends well meet
01:03:50.940
girlfriends okay that's how the club when I first moved to Miami I had no friends and I met a lot
01:03:56.780
of friends at the club uh okay so once you've made the friends why do you continue to go where
01:04:03.640
where would I go I think the club vibe is just so fun there's like DJ I mean there's cool DJs
01:04:09.000
there's um good music like you can't have the same kind of environment and your house you can
01:04:14.860
have music you can have alcohol you can dance your girlfriends are there there is a component
01:04:19.200
of the men being there also if even if it was the same environment it was a club but it was all
01:04:25.780
girls but it would go under though because girls don't pay for alcohol and i mean some girls do
01:04:31.420
some girls do but guys are the ones buying the tables putting the finances sure putting the
01:04:35.280
finances aside uh put i still don't think women would want to go to those venues where everything
01:04:43.300
being equal it's just women i don't think they would do it would you guys 100 i just don't like
01:04:49.560
going out wait i would not when you say 100 do you mean 100 yes i would go to the club or 100
01:04:55.720
no i would not go i would not go immediately i would not go person at a time please i say no
01:05:03.280
yeah i say no too no wait a couple of just girls yeah oh yeah it depends if it's an event or
01:05:09.860
something i would try it out i love like that sounds like it would be such a vibe right like
01:05:15.380
yeah yeah i just hate going out i don't i don't go to parties i don't do any of that stuff
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i find it a waste of time so i'm like i don't want to go to any party has ever met a guy at a club
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i have no woman's met a guy at the club i have yeah i met a guy at the club and i've also like
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went out with just my friends back in the day to like have fun with my girlfriends too plenty of
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when you say met do you mean like dated because we met at the club or just like no like yeah you
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meet and you exchange numbers and oh no no no no i never give him my phone number i'm like
01:05:48.340
instagram well yeah no i'm talking about me like some guy you end up dating or hooking up with
01:05:52.160
down either that night or down the road no really no i have no i have not really 20 years ago
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i met a bunch of girlfriends at the club not when it comes to like a relationship and all that no
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so yeah all right uh okay where were we relationship status i think going to you
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i am single wait i'm sorry one more thing i wrote down the note here you said 90 percent of men are
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ugly to me to you but like men your age just in general okay but men your age are 90 percent of
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ugly no not 90% of men aren't ugly I think that everyone has their different types you didn't you
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say 90% of men okay how about you're not attracted to 90% yeah maybe sorry I worded that wrong not
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like ugly just not my type okay not but you're not attracted to 90% of men yeah you find 90%
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of men unattractive yes okay like it's really rare percent yeah like walking down the street
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What percentage of men, and let's say, you know, of the age range that you, of the age range that you prefer, what percentage of men do you find unattractive?
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i'd say only 40 are unattractive but i would only date probably 10 of those that i would think are
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just conventionally objectively yeah that's why i said 90 uh no uh yeah 90 of the attract like i
01:08:19.440
I find 60% of guys, I would say, are, I would just like good looking, like easy on the eyes.
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I could see why another girl might like him, but would I date all of those 60% of the guys?
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No, because it's not just, I mean, who said 90%, 90, 90, 90.
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Yes. Top 20. Top 10. Top 10. Yes. I'm not in top 10.
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Interesting. Okay. Because I think there's something very different. I think
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I think that most men find most women attractive. Most women definitely do not find most men
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attractive so there's like this big discrepancy that uh exists between men and women that
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is interesting curious do you think it's actually because most women are more attractive like
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most women are more attractive than the like majority of men or is it perception it's like
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girls have a i guess bigger filter or a higher bar but yeah right either no that's a good question
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and I think it's very varied and nuanced. I think there's a lot of different factors.
01:09:46.000
So one factor is I do think women tend to be pretty harsh judges of male attractiveness. That's
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one thing, but there's other components too. To be charitable, I think women do put in generally
01:09:58.900
a bit more effort in their appearance than men, but this wouldn't fully explain the discrepancy
01:10:05.040
that exists here also but again to be sort of counter charitable uh the tools available to
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women are not socially acceptable for men to employ so for example the primary tool that i
01:10:16.840
would argue that makes women way more attractive than they otherwise are is makeup that is not
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i'm not suggesting men should wear makeup that's fucking lame as fuck but it's not uh
01:10:30.280
women will negatively, even if it makes the guy more attractive conceivably, like most heterosexual
01:10:38.220
straight women are going to look at a guy wearing makeup and it's like not masculine. You're going
01:10:43.480
to be like, is he gay? He's too vain. He's too into himself. It's going to be like unattractive
01:10:48.840
for most women. It's nuanced. I suppose I just genuinely, I guess even putting aside women's
01:10:57.800
perspective on it like socially it's going to be severely frowned upon by your male peers so even
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if women are on board like yes man put on fucking makeup now streaming on paramount plus my center
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the mirror like a fucking woman for 20 minutes okay that's not what i'm saying well that's how
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that's how long you guys take to put on your face a little bit longer no it takes me less
01:11:50.720
maybe longer maybe less in any case it's not socially acceptable so men cannot employ that
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same tactic and strategy, they shouldn't to begin with. But so that's the primary way in which
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women will artificially, falsely elevate their attractiveness. That isn't actually true.
01:12:11.740
So women have that advantage. It's more socially acceptable for women to get plastic
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surgery, for example. That's more socially acceptable. The things that men find attractive,
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it's more socially acceptable for women to bolster those things artificially so plastic surgery um
01:12:30.400
like i think the bbl no offense if anyone here has a bbl bbl looks absolutely fucking retarded
01:12:36.980
it looks terrible give me a girl with a flat ass over a bbl any fucking day she can have fucking
01:12:42.140
pancakes get the bbl fucking away from me disgusting three bbls four bbls the fuck are
01:12:48.240
they doing but anyways it's more socially acceptable uh fake breasts men are okay the
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two big things men are attracted to uh well i guess the three face breasts uh and butt
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and for me labia i'm a labia guy don't ask me are you a boob or a breast guy i'm a labia guy
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labia butt breast in that order uh the face oh if we include the face uh if we include the face
01:13:11.880
well i feel like these are secondary sex well i guess labia would be primary sex characteristic
01:13:17.580
uh yeah if you throw the face in there i mean you lethal face card is like pretty much the
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most important thing so yeah face labia but boobs i guess in that order um but if we're
01:13:34.720
just talking about the then labia but boobs where was i going with my rant oh the fake
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the fake shit so yeah men are attracted to boobs but it's like mostly socially acceptable
01:13:47.560
for women to get plastic surgery there to increase your size let's say like what are the things what
01:13:55.340
are the traits that women are attracted to yeah and wouldn't that be because men are very attracted
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to more physical and women we need the emotional in it i don't want to feel like to look cheesy
01:14:05.860
for that but it's like to me in a man attraction is not on his body it's not only his posture it's
01:14:12.280
gonna be the way he talks he's gonna be the way he ported like he stand up for himself he stand up
01:14:17.340
for me, stand-up, like, there is way more to attractiveness than just the body, so wouldn't
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that be that women are getting all those stuff on their body done because they know that
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No, I mean, I'm not just a good reason, and, you know, I'm not pushing my body for that,
01:14:39.900
but I'm just, like, reacting to what he's saying, we are doing all that stuff, isn't
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well i don't know i know a lot of people don't do it because of that i do want to finish my point
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but i'll quickly address that so uh first off this idea i think a lot of women get the plastic
01:14:57.140
surgery for the female gaze not the male gaze a lot of the women who botch their fucking face
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like the lip filler shit no offense to any women who have that shit that's female gaze stuff uh
01:15:07.420
the fake nails the the some of the stuff y'all do with your face the the buccal fat removal that's
01:15:14.600
female gaze shit i don't know why fucking women do that shit you ruin your faces the lip what is
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that what is buccal buccal i don't know if i miss buccal fat it's like the the cheek fat women will
01:15:25.720
get it taken out and it like ages them and men like if a woman has like a little or a little
01:15:33.120
chubby face or whatever like that actually makes her look a bit on the younger side i'm not saying
01:15:38.740
men like fat women but if they have a little chubby cheeks it's like whatever that's cute
01:15:46.980
But anyways, so your point was that women get the plastic surgery for the male gaze because men are more heavily invested in appearance than women are.
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I actually think I think women care more about looks than men do.
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Not to say men definitely care a lot about looks.
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of the things that men care about women have generally care about women have to some degree
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more control over these things the primary thing honestly look to be attractive to a guy physically
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just don't be fat that's it that's really it don't be fat don't be fat now for women it's that
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plus uh things that are outside the man's control man can't control his height man can't control if
01:16:45.020
he's balding i mean there's naturally a man if a man's balding naturally he can't control it there
01:16:52.020
are medical interventions um but what i'm talking about here is naturally uh so hair man has no
01:17:00.380
control if he's balding at 20 he can't control it um naturally anyways penis size man can't control
01:17:06.820
his penis size. So all these physical traits that women care about are really outside the man's
01:17:11.800
control. Now, look, you would say, okay, well, boobs, a woman can't control her, her boob size.
01:17:17.940
That's true. That's true. Um, but like, but you can hit the gym, you can train and then weight.
01:17:25.520
Women have a hundred percent control over their weight. And so I think in some ways,
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women care more about things that are difficult for men to attain i agree
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i think you want to jump in well i'm just saying it could be like my perfect guy or whatever i mean
01:17:44.220
i'm in a relationship but uh yeah if he was like not in shape and fat like
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you know so women care about that too i'm not saying women don't care about another list of
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all the yeah women definitely like if like i'm chubby women are less into me because i'm fucking
01:18:00.200
chubby right now i totally get it like trust me i know um but then like i think that's just the
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baseline having like healthy you know within the normal range of body fat or whatever body uh and
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also even on that specific topic the body fat thing uh i actually think there's more leeway for
01:18:19.460
women like men will accept a wider range in terms of body type and body fat like because you have
01:18:28.260
the thick thing i like women will like a skinny dude like machine gun kelly that's a skinny i
01:18:35.680
mean he's got a little athletic he's tall but like uh women don't like a uh like if a guy's
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just skinny no muscle like women aren't really into that i've been all i've been all over the
01:18:53.240
place okay what do we when we say skinny though what do we mean because you'll be like okay the
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guy who did four years of swimming he's not a bodybuilder that's like lean yeah that's lean
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he has an athletic physique no but what i'm talking about skinny twigs yeah like actual
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most women aren't going to be like whoa he has a sexy hot body they might still date the guy he's
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not fat but i don't think a lot of women see an untrained male body who's just got low body fat
01:19:22.260
and they're like whoa he's his body is attractive pretty unmasculine really right i think especially
01:19:30.400
as women get older that's gonna like younger women are gonna be a little more forgiving but
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as women age like the untrained male body that's typically you might still date the guy
01:19:43.180
but you're not gonna find his body attractive well i feel like nuance though like of course
01:19:50.020
there's always nuance but in order for a man to be attractive i think he has to have some degree
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of like he doesn't have to be like fucking massive in fact i think when the guys get too big a lot of
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women don't like that when the guy's a fucking bodybuilder oh yeah somewhere maybe before
01:20:06.760
bodybuilder and like athletic build you know even like a little uh i don't know like he fucking did
01:20:14.680
four years of swim in high school or something like that's okay but but so whereas men we the
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the terms of body fat there's a way wider range i'm like i've dated a wide range as well so that's
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why i'm like okay but i'm speaking sort of in generalities here i do think it is the case
01:20:34.020
generally speaking that there men have a in terms of body fat percentage there's a wider range that
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women can fall on when it comes to body fat that men will not only deem acceptable but deem
01:20:45.700
attractive whereas for women's assessment not just of acceptable but of attractive body it's a really
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narrow range in terms of body fat on the man and there plus there has to be muscular development
01:20:59.680
men don't require like you could take an untrained like women just have kind of not all the time
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You could just not be fat as a woman and never stepped foot in the gym, never did a sport in your life, and men will assess your body as attractive.
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The natural, even untrained female body, more men will assess the natural untrained female body as attractive versus women will assess the untrained natural male body as attractive.
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well even if you're like still a little bit of a thicker girl like you still have boobs in a butt
01:21:37.540
you still have curves to you look feminine if a dude is like right fat or too skinny he just looks
01:21:42.960
like not masculine you know yeah the the is the right term like the secondary sex characteristics
01:21:49.300
so like like a woman could just naturally have big boobs and her hips and if she's got a good
01:21:55.440
shape like she doesn't have to go to the gym for that necessarily now can you improve yourself as
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a woman can you hit the gym can you do the pilates can you you know get the butt yeah you can but
01:22:04.980
uh i do think that women are definitely pretty harsh judges of uh attractiveness there i don't
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know i kind of lost track where i was going with this i don't think we're harsher i think we're
01:22:18.700
more particular as you said like the buckets for men are quite it's only three buckets i just think
01:22:27.000
Girls are like, we need the arms and the abs and his hair can't be weird.
01:22:36.380
And I think that's why that results in women finding less percentage of men attractive than guys would.
01:22:44.160
Well, I mean, there are men who are nearly universally attractive to women.
01:22:49.560
There's certain male models that if you ask like 100 women, 100 of them, 99 of them will be like, yeah, that's a really handsome, attractive man.
01:22:58.740
So I think there are universal traits that are consistent.
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And these traits can be consistent across cultures, across race.
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the conversations we have about guys are not at all structured in that way so i'm not making an
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argument that women are having my my argument does not hinge on women having like analytical
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conversations about this but in practice what do women actually find physically attractive
01:23:32.860
and compared to men again i mean i just frame it like this again most men will find most women
01:23:40.200
attractive most women do not find most men attractive and as we went around the table
01:23:47.400
we had at least three women who said 90 they found 90 percent of men unattractive so that's
01:23:54.240
pretty uh pretty pretty stark i would say more than that well yeah you said 95 99 percent of
01:24:00.720
men you find yeah and i'm just talking about looks then the guy actually has to meet all
01:24:04.780
your other standards oh just looks alone oh that was the question i have no idea i i have no idea
01:24:10.880
i don't i don't really judge a guy's looks first so i'm not sure you don't judge men's looks not
01:24:16.540
first no like when you see like you don't you can't know someone's personality exactly you gotta
01:24:21.180
do switches please sorry go ahead switches no i was talking to my producer oh sorry i mean like
01:24:26.760
how do you assess whether or not you're even going to talk to someone without the looks
01:24:31.260
I just talk to everyone honestly I mean whenever somebody comes up to me even if it's a guy like
01:24:35.820
even if I'm not attracted to them like I'm just always the same to everyone so I can pick up on
01:24:41.140
their energy um so I've dated guys who are like conventionally unattractive but like they were
01:24:46.220
so attractive to me because of who they were so you know that's kind of what I focus on more I
01:24:50.860
can't really look at someone and be attracted I have to talk to them you haven't been on dating
01:24:55.380
apps right I've tried but I don't like them yeah so on like a dating app though for example
01:25:00.860
how would you know someone's personality i don't that's why i don't like them okay
01:25:05.320
yeah i don't really use them um i'm trying to recall the conversational thread that led us
01:25:12.840
there um well i guess you know what let's just get back to the relationship status
01:25:19.060
i am single but i'm also in a fake relationship what do you mean like this guy
01:25:30.640
takes me to event and i pretend to be his fake girlfriend does he pay you yeah okay uh yo troy
01:25:38.400
thank you for the ten dollars on venmo um so you're like a sugar mommy sugar whatever
01:25:45.520
yeah fake girlfriend okay so do you sleep with him no do you i'm just performing yeah
01:26:37.540
What's the next longest relationship that you've had?
01:26:50.180
i mean i'm talking to some but they're not like on my bucket list you know i would like
01:26:57.960
see a feature with are you hooking up with him no do you have a roster currently
01:27:05.280
how big is the roster probably like 12 13 like you go on dates with these guys or
01:27:13.840
yeah uh so it's las vegas do you do you hook up have you hooked up with any of them
01:27:26.720
only one because i was feeling a vibe but it wasn't really like that do you still see him
01:27:31.520
kind of when's the last time you saw him four months ago
01:27:38.660
so you haven't seen him for four months but you kind of still see him yeah like we talk and like
01:27:46.720
does he live in vegas no he lives in la okay are you planning to see him while you're here
01:27:52.680
no that's like four hours away isn't this in a barbara i don't think he's he's on your roster
01:27:58.540
but um so you have 13 men on your roster and so you you what see them each once a month or something
01:28:07.460
or basically or like whenever when i want to okay huh i have a really busy schedule so so like on
01:28:17.240
in a given week on average how many dates are you going on they probably like five
01:28:24.760
five dates a week and you do you've been doing that for you've been single for four years
01:28:32.020
so you've been doing five dates a week for four years not like like well sure maybe maybe one
01:28:41.520
week you don't see any guys right yeah hold on i have a tts coming through
01:28:45.880
why is it not playing the i don't know why it's not reading it uh
01:28:56.640
okay somebody read it for me please men are more accepting women less attractive than they should
01:29:04.060
be with women have way higher expectations of men yeah energy enough money makes you attractive
01:29:09.900
trust me thank you clan for the tts appreciate it man thank you thank you uh okay so you go on
01:29:18.280
about five dates a week and when you say five dates a week is each date with different men
01:29:23.160
yes sometimes the same men and you don't sleep with any of them i give in the cookie just for
01:29:30.920
anyone make them wait how long do you make them wait whenever i want are you dating for like fun
01:29:40.360
which is nothing wrong with that or are you really like seeking a partner sort of dating
01:29:44.680
right now kind of like fun because the guys where i live is kind of like trashy so
01:29:51.140
okay uh i'm young i should do they pay for the day do they pay for the dates always i don't pick
01:30:02.700
up the check i make them call me an uber and do they know that you're like serial dating multiple
01:30:09.540
men at the same time not really that's really not their business i'm sure they don't tell me
01:30:15.080
sorry do they take you to nice restaurants what's the typical first date for you
01:30:18.980
probably like a good restaurant like i'm wearing like a red dress you know heels
01:30:23.620
how much is the bill typically if you have i don't look at it the bill if you had to guess
01:30:28.080
given the restaurants you're going to probably like 100 200 sometimes up and how often do you
01:30:34.640
go on second third dates say like one to two and then it depends on like like the guy like you know
01:30:43.880
and you've not entered you've not entered but you've been single for four years and you seem
01:30:50.740
like you're very successful with getting dates with guys why haven't any of these in this four
01:30:57.200
year time it seems like you just you you know one two three dates and it's because they're not the
01:31:03.800
one i'm really i'm really picky oh go ahead have any of them asked you to like be exclusive or
01:31:10.660
some like you guys are both looking for the same thing right yeah because i'm not really talking
01:31:16.680
deep like that because if i wanted one i would like find the guy i really like but i'm just
01:31:22.500
having fun you guys are both getting what you want yeah i don't think there's anything wrong
01:31:24.880
with that yeah there's nothing wrong with that uh well like i don't want to be i think there's
01:31:29.920
something wrong with that but what's that i don't like i don't want to be married right now like
01:31:33.360
you're 20 do you want kids yeah in the future when and whenever i want woman can do at 50 you
01:31:40.100
want to have kids at 50 no when do you want kids probably like 30 40 30 i was adopted my mom um
01:31:47.240
adopted me when she was 40 there's nothing well adopted you at 40 but you want biological kids
01:31:51.820
right surrogate oh you don't want to push them out nope okay so you're gonna have you frozen
01:31:57.800
your eggs nope okay well if you did want to have biological children look women can have children
01:32:05.840
in their late thirties, even into their forties. But I mean, think of it this way. You're 28 now,
01:32:12.760
you'll turn 29 soon. Um, you'll probably want to date a guy for what, one, two years before you
01:32:21.460
want to get married before you have kids. Then you're going to be engaged for a year. You're
01:32:26.720
looking at, if you met a guy today, not having biological kids, although it sounds like you want
01:32:32.300
to do circus here or whatever which is really expensive you're looking at 31 32 33 maybe if
01:32:39.800
you meet a guy today regardless i do want to have kid without a man or with a man okay so you might
01:32:45.520
adopt okay you don't want to push out a no i don't okay well that changes the fertility window i guess
01:32:53.140
but but in any case um i mean women do have a slightly a bit of a timeline a shorter timeline
01:33:02.280
than men do but i'm not going to be like oh my god she once you're 30 you're doomed no women have
01:33:07.980
pregnancies in their late 30s into their 40s but it does become harder gradually over time
01:33:13.960
not only to get pregnant to keep the pregnancy but also to find a man that you think is
01:33:19.100
suitable for you but in any case but i'm not going to get pregnant i'm not going to carry
01:33:25.200
the baby so i can have it well sure but extracting the egg i'm there's other complications there too
01:33:31.940
and then the other component is like okay who's the guy that i well i guess you're down to just
01:33:38.080
be a single mom from the jump then right yeah i don't care you just adopt i have i have my money
01:33:43.380
i make my work uh so question for you though back to the date thing you go on multiple dates
01:33:51.200
a week me personally i wouldn't even i wouldn't even go on a date with a girl if i knew she was
01:33:58.680
dating like four or five other guys it's just for fun if i don't care to be one guy to be serious i
01:34:03.840
would stop the other guys yeah i understand you'd stop but i would assume that okay she's
01:34:11.000
entertaining all these options she's just having fun like she's been on 100 dates at least uh since
01:34:21.520
she was last in a relationship what are the odds that i'm gonna be the guy i'm gonna take her on a
01:34:26.780
$200 date spend $200 on uh no so I mean in your case look also you're a sex worker right um I'm
01:34:36.500
a dancer you're a stripper yeah but it's not like that we dance for money well you're time half the
01:34:41.820
time I don't even take off my top men talk to me money half the time you don't but you do take off
01:34:46.620
your top only in VIP sometimes okay but you you are stripper uh you do only fans no I do playboy
01:34:54.120
which is basically i don't take off my clothes on playboy i just do bikini pics muscle fetish
01:34:59.860
okay um so yeah you do fall under the umbrella of sex worker strip stripping a sex work right
01:35:08.060
um men blast in their pants when you're giving them a fucking dance or whatever right right
01:35:14.020
no really you would feel that you would see it you're telling me in your years of stripping
01:35:30.760
If I just started blasting you guys wouldn't know
01:35:54.400
but it's probably happened i don't be looking when gorlock was here when i was sitting across
01:36:06.420
okay never mind an omission is just like information you're leaving but it's like
01:36:13.300
why who here does either only fans or some kind of sex work actually well you don't even do only
01:36:20.000
fans you're just a stripper you kind of do sex work with the findom thing you've sold feet pics
01:36:25.400
has anybody here done stripping or only fans okay so just yeah all right so here's my perspective
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on this right you're saying you you made a point about how the guys pay for the date right you
01:36:40.180
would be upset if the guy didn't pay for the date right i mean i still wouldn't pay he would have to
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pick up the bill he yeah yeah uh so for women who and this actually extends beyond women who are sex
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workers if you're a sex worker i'm not saying you should be mistreated you should still be treated
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kindly and with respect you don't deserve a man to pay for the date if you're a sex worker
01:37:07.320
i mean i only dance two days a week and i do have three careers but you're still a stripper
01:37:15.720
yeah because i'm young and i want to do it and well as you age young i'm stacking up i mean
01:37:23.060
she's young three to eight grand a night sounds good well i'm proud of you for the money that
01:37:31.200
you make, but by virtue of you being a stripper, you're a sex worker. What is it that inspires men
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to be traditional? What is it that inspires men to be chivalrous? Now, I don't doubt, just to be
01:37:46.560
clear, what I'm saying is you don't deserve it. I have no doubt for a moment that you still get men
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to pay for dates. I don't, like men will simp, men will do all kinds of things, even for sex
01:38:00.700
workers i don't think you deserve it though i don't think sex workers deserve traditional
01:38:06.120
treatment because by virtue of what you do you rub your booty in men's crotches you shake your
01:38:13.300
titty they they motorboat your boobs and your butt and who knows what goes down in the fucking
01:38:18.960
champagne room who knows right uh that's not traditional you're not a traditional woman
01:38:24.960
and hey not all women are going to be traditional but i don't think it's fair to have the expectation
01:38:29.960
to hold men to their traditional gender role of paying for dates. Maybe you should go 50-50.
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I would never go 50-50. That would never happen in my life.
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Sure. And I get that that can be your standard and you're never going to have a problem
01:38:44.300
finding men who are willing to pay for dates because men engage in the meta. So what meta
01:38:51.120
stands for, it's a video game term. Most effective tactics available, meta, M-E-T-A.
01:38:57.360
so when it comes to dating even if the woman is completely untraditional as a man the most
01:39:05.260
effective thing for us to it's either neutral or positive right some women don't give up like it's
01:39:12.420
not going to be like well i wasn't attracted to him but he paid for the date so i guess i'll fuck
01:39:17.660
him no but it it's not going to be a negative now if a girl shows up on a date and you're like
01:39:22.760
let's go 50 50 two checks please waiter a lot of girls are going to feel a type of way about that
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they're going to have an issue with it regardless of how traditional or not they are
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so i again there's no doubt in my mind that you could go on 100 more dates and despite being a
01:39:40.760
stripper do you tell the guys that you're a stripper not really you should probably disclose
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that in any case though despite being a stripper yes they might know not tell me they google me
01:39:50.660
despite that uh yeah guys will still pay but what i'm saying here is
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looking at the chessboard of dating look at the dating landscape
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do women who are sex workers do they deserve chivalry do sex workers strippers thin doms
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only fans girls or even just they're not sex workers let's just say they're liberal progressive
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feminist maybe they're promiscuous even do do these women deserve chivalry starting with you
01:40:31.540
i mean i don't consider what i do sex work but i mean i think anyone deserves chivalry
01:40:38.940
anyone so men deserve chivalry yeah so hold on women should be chivalrous towards men
01:40:47.180
what's the definition of chivalry okay chivalry are specific i would categorize it the simplest
01:40:53.660
way i'd put it i'll give you examples of chivalry this is sort of a pedestalizing of women in the
01:41:00.440
sense of doing and taking specific actions that will that are commensurate with a more traditional
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dynamic so traditional gender rules for men whereby men will open your car door men will be
01:41:15.120
pay for dates when men will observe the sidewalk rule where they're walking closer to the road
01:41:23.240
where the cars are as a gesture of protection it could be getting you gifts it could be getting
01:41:32.300
you gifts getting you flowers and but i the big thing here that we're talking about though would
01:41:37.960
be paying for dates and i think this falls under at least traditional gender roles it falls under
01:41:43.160
chivalry so that's what i'm talking about i think it depends on like what date it is i mean first
01:41:49.340
date obviously like if i was going on a first date and he wanted to split the bill i mean i've done
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that in the past i think it's just like you don't know because you're not dating them yet i don't
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think it needs to be like like I don't know I think it comes with time like the guy should pay
01:42:08.000
for dates it's like if you're already dating them if that makes sense well what about the first date
01:42:14.540
first date I think everyone has their different preferences I know I mean I don't mind what's
01:42:20.020
your preference I don't mind paying for what I ordered because I can afford it I mean if they
01:42:25.760
offer that's fine like no but but okay how many um how many times have you uh gone with a new guy
01:42:35.760
that you met gone to get dinner with him i haven't been on that many dates but um so what three four
01:42:42.040
five six seven i don't really go on dates honestly i don't i've never i don't think it could be mini
01:42:49.080
golf it could be a concert it could be I don't think I've actually ever gone on like an official
01:42:56.940
dinner so you just go to their house and fuck no no I just like I think it's just like like
01:43:01.400
you're younger but you're telling me you've never gotten food with a guy like I've gotten like fast
01:43:07.560
food right yeah does he pay or do you I've done both I honestly I've paid for a guy's food before
01:43:14.180
but that was my simp era who you were dating no it was just some guy i was interested in in high
01:43:19.280
school i was just like simping wait your simp era you said yeah okay yeah uh so okay the question
01:43:26.420
here though is do women who are non-traditional do they deserve traditional treatment what's your
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answer no yes wait what was the question i literally just sorry i like mixed it up in my
01:43:44.800
head i said it once and i just repeated it for your sake do non-traditional women deserve
01:43:53.140
traditional treatment do they deserve chivalry do they deserve men to pay for dates
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no okay no honestly i think there's too many nuances i have no idea what do you mean what
01:44:08.800
is that you can't defer i just don't think i would want to like you've said nuance yes because
01:44:14.420
there's a lot of nuance everything sounds black and white but what okay explain the nuance then
01:44:20.300
well i just think every individual person can find what they're looking for i'm not going to
01:44:24.100
tell somebody what they should and shouldn't do or have like that's up to them so like if a girl
01:44:30.620
wants that hold on let me ask you a question uh is there any nuance in the following statement
01:44:35.640
women should tolerate abusive physical violence from men but that's like way where's the new is
01:44:41.000
there a nuance there but there's like positive treatment okay so i you can't make any prescriptive
01:44:48.640
no i think it's just individualized i don't think anybody deserves to not get what they
01:44:54.320
want so wait wait wait repeat that repeat that like i don't want to tell somebody not to get
01:44:59.800
what they feel they want that's not wait wait that's not just repeat verbatim what you said
01:45:04.440
before that's what i said no you change the wording repeat it i have no idea obviously you said
01:45:10.660
i think this is the essence of it you said women uh women should you don't want to tell women to
01:45:19.460
not ask for what they want well everyone just any person you know okay so i can't be i'm 36
01:45:26.880
i have poor skin complexion i'm chubby uh i'll probably be losing my hair within by the time i'm
01:45:35.620
40 um i'm like average looking dude i want to bang a string of 18 year old supermodels
01:45:45.300
am i gonna get it i mean you could yeah holy fucking delusional no no i tell you
01:45:51.720
you asked me a direct question i know people who would so that's why i'm saying no realistic
01:46:27.900
i'm just saying i know girls who would i myself am a model okay we'll send it my way but until
01:46:33.780
then i'm telling you i i genuinely do know people like that like so well i'm you know what i'm not
01:46:39.840
gonna date like this this girl who's perhaps a bit more on my league i'm holding out for the 18
01:46:46.440
year old don't hold out like no i'm an average looking dude i'm fucking chubby uh like it ain't
01:46:52.780
happening now look hey if you're an 18 year old supermodel who likes fucking chubby dudes with
01:46:57.380
poor skin complexion i just i know you can hit me up that's what i'm saying
01:47:00.640
i just i know people that would i'm a model myself so i just i'm trying to say
01:47:06.140
i do okay let's do it you know tell you what you're gonna be a matchmaker then
01:47:10.200
set it up i wouldn't do that let's see how it goes i wouldn't do that oh she knows she knows
01:47:15.860
some fucking supermodels yeah well you're i wouldn't do that i yeah you're a supermodel
01:47:19.560
yes okay well i want to do quality control oh absolutely i've been published in every top
01:47:24.880
magazine you could possibly imagine that includes vanity fair vogue harper's bazaar in several
01:47:29.540
different countries and i just flew back from paris fashion week a week and a half ago i love
01:47:33.180
that for you so in any case the nuance thing the nuance so look um you can't make any prescriptive
01:47:42.000
uh claim here on this so i just know based off what they talk about is all i'm saying so but
01:47:46.360
look people can want things but do they deserve it i think you do i don't understand why you feel
01:47:52.280
like you don't i mean if you found somebody who does are you gonna say no no so no so but but
01:47:58.720
that's already been granted i grant that she's a stripper she dates a ton of men at the same time
01:48:04.320
and i said i just well why wouldn't you deserve it well yeah okay you do other stuff too but that's
01:48:11.420
besides the point. But, and I acknowledge, of course, there are still going to be men who do
01:48:17.560
the action. Like, for example, right? You guys would acknowledge, how about this? This is, I
01:48:24.100
think, perhaps the best framing that I can improvise in the moment. You would acknowledge
01:48:30.900
that there are men who are really attractive, who are physically violent and abusive towards women.
01:48:36.780
do those men deserve to be in relationships with women no but they are yes but so that's
01:48:45.480
they are i mean we'd look at look i believe people can make mistakes in their past and
01:48:51.260
they can move past it i would point to chris brown oh yeah brown violently beat rihanna
01:48:58.140
he's so now i'm pretty sure she's hold on hold on just to be clear 100 wrong to to do what he did
01:49:05.040
i heard though she's being a massive bitch to him just to be clear not justifying terrible never
01:49:10.040
fucking lay your hands on a woman but she was saying some crazy shit to him but in any case
01:49:15.280
any case uh just as mad at god never uh disavow disavow chris brown beating women just to be
01:49:21.840
clear uh do you think chris brown even like the fucking week after these allegations well i mean
01:49:30.180
he pled guilty so okay i mean and she was beat the fuck up have you seen the photos do you think
01:49:36.260
he had any shortage of women who'd still fuck him but these women aren't abusing anybody
01:49:41.140
are unless do you think so no but what i'm saying is what i'm trying to get out here is
01:49:45.980
abuse is completely different than putting your body out there you know i don't do that but i'm
01:49:51.120
not trying to draw an equivalence in terms of the wrong i'm not trying to draw an equivalence of
01:49:56.740
Of course, yeah, like physically beating women is worse than being a stripper, of course, or dating multiple men at the same time.
01:50:06.660
What I'm trying to try to draw from you is can there be behaviors that preclude someone from receiving some sort of benefit or treatment or even a relationship?
01:50:21.160
I guess I just don't think like when it comes to what they're doing, no.
01:50:39.660
There is a 300-pound obese man who lives in his mother's home,
01:50:50.060
and he plays video games all day, and he smokes weed all day,
01:50:53.020
and uh he wants to date like a like a a good virtuous woman do you think he deserves her
01:51:04.640
i think everybody deserves that i mean he's not hurting anyone so everybody deserves as long as
01:51:09.380
you're not hurting anyone i just don't see why not like you know it's just like if he did find
01:51:14.520
that person is he supposed to say no because you find him undeserving of it like i don't understand
01:51:18.520
i'm not gonna say that just because you're overweight and you do all these things that
01:51:22.040
you're not capable of getting a high value person i mean that's not harming anyone except for himself
01:51:27.460
of course but well look if you roll the dice and and this can be in both directions you could be
01:51:33.800
a complete loser as a woman you could be a complete loser as a man and you could it's possible you
01:51:40.700
could end up with somebody who is uh from the outside perspective this person is like way
01:51:47.200
leagues above you. They could be better looking. They could be, um, have better personality
01:51:53.860
characteristics, all kinds of traits that are, would make you seem like this person is settling
01:52:00.240
in some way. But anyways, whatever, I'm not going to beat the dead horse. Uh, your thoughts on,
01:52:05.600
on the topic? Um, yes and no. I think that she definitely deserves to get her dinner paid for
01:52:10.980
if she wants that if she wants that yes she definitely does okay so hmm okay okay okay hold
01:52:18.060
on she definitely deserves it if she wants it okay i wait wait let me ask you a question i want
01:52:24.980
to fuck women within an hour of meeting them without doing anything just come over suck my
01:52:31.220
dick do i deserve it that's not the same question i know it's not the same question answer it well
01:52:36.160
Well, there's people out there who would say yes, so.
01:52:43.140
Can you say, yes, Brian, you need not take women on multiple dates.
01:52:47.660
You want it, therefore, because your argument is, if a woman wants it, she deserves it.
01:52:54.060
I, as a man, want a woman to, I don't want to have to make the first, she has to slide into my DMs.
01:52:59.800
She has to be like, Brian, when can I suck your dick?
01:53:06.160
come over uh then she sucks my day then uh we fun and then uh she makes she cleans my entire house
01:53:13.900
and she does my laundry and um she she really thought about this oh yeah
01:53:19.120
yeah okay all that i deserve it the house cleaning no i deserve it um probably not why not i i want
01:53:29.840
it do i deserve it i mean you seem like a good person oh thank you yeah but serious answer though
01:53:35.580
um sure why not yeah exactly that's what i'm saying why not i don't i still so i deserve i
01:53:42.220
deserve so i should be hold on so now that we've established that i deserve that treatment you have
01:53:48.700
to work for it more well hold on should i be upset at the woman if she doesn't do that no just move
01:53:55.960
on but hold on don't change the woman why is the woman in front of you why is she not doing the
01:54:01.800
things that i because i deserve it why isn't she doing the things i deserve because that particular
01:54:05.980
woman doesn't want to but there could be someone who will oh okay all right i mean i wouldn't date
01:54:12.560
that guy but you know maybe there's someone who would okay can i manifest it you can dream no
01:54:22.220
okay uh what do you think just go into like a porn hall or something towards the fact that
01:54:27.540
you want to bang an 18 woman model with that mindset it's not going to happen but if you put
01:54:35.680
that out there and maybe manifest it it might as far as if she deserves 19 is acceptable too just
01:54:41.840
to be clear okay 19 whatever you want at 20 she's basically a grandma i mean whatever you want it's
01:54:47.000
just like if you want it just yeah go for it like nobody's stopping you from it as far as if she
01:54:51.980
deserves what she's having hell yeah she deserves it closer to the mic closer to the mic and you
01:54:57.480
woman like and who are we to decide what any woman deserve or not deserve I don't know you so maybe
01:55:04.080
you deserve it maybe you don't but as long as I don't know you I can't tell you and I am not in a
01:55:09.440
position to like define what she deserves or she doesn't but as a woman and as compassionate as I
01:55:15.900
can be for a woman hell yeah she deserves it and she can get it go for it girl like
01:55:21.040
um well i don't i'm not the one going on a date with her so i think deserve is about worth right
01:55:30.800
is this a value to you right and apparently google deserve but go ahead so it's kind of
01:55:38.980
the guy's call he's like does he's obviously saying does she deserve let me give the definition
01:55:44.780
deserve to do something or have or hold on do something or have or show qualities worthy of
01:55:54.380
worthy of reward or punishment but that's not what we're talking about um so having qualities
01:56:02.200
worthy of the reward so in order like for example do you deserve uh i'm trying to think of a example
01:56:10.480
look if i was in the guy's shoes i would look at that situation and say no yeah same because that
01:56:17.120
doesn't mean like if i were a guy yeah it just depends on the type of guy yes if i were a guy
01:56:23.320
yeah i would say absolutely not wait if you were a guy you would say absolutely yes for my personal
01:56:29.900
preference i would not want to be with someone with that kind of background no penis yes why
01:56:36.880
would she not deserve i just wouldn't want someone with that many people around no no but
01:56:42.980
the question is sleeping with them it doesn't matter just even but the question is so not just
01:56:49.080
you wouldn't want to date her because of that but why does she if you were the man why does she
01:56:55.540
not deserve i just i feel like i understand the male perspective that's it i just wouldn't want
01:57:00.560
to invest my money especially if they didn't tell me before the date i personally would not want to
01:57:05.440
pay for that person it's not even about really like just gender i mean it's the same if it was
01:57:09.460
a guy i would never want to date an only fans model i can't lie to you so i also think for you
01:57:14.600
if you were paying for a girl's meal like it's an act of chivalry and it's like i care about this
01:57:19.540
person i want to provide for you for this man it might not really be a chivalrous act it might just
01:57:25.620
be hey this is maybe more transactional like you gave me your company we had a great time you look
01:57:31.260
amazing you kind of deserve this for in his eyes you deserve this maybe he doesn't see it as a
01:57:37.160
chivalrous act i don't know well regardless of his perception of what he's doing from the outside
01:57:45.560
perspective it does fall under the purview of what we understand as chivalry so he might be like oh
01:57:53.520
whatever this isn't chivalrous but it does fall under the uh the objective understanding of what
01:58:01.240
chivalry is at least one of the things in which an example you can do a chivalry so
01:58:07.040
ultimately though uh i just don't think y'all deserve this this shit because i see it like
01:58:18.320
women hold men to the standard of being traditional we have to open car doors now look
01:58:25.060
not all women want some of that shit the guy has to open the car door pull your seat out
01:58:29.760
uh observe the sidewalk rule pay for dates and i don't see women holding up their end of the deal
01:58:36.220
so you basically you women in terms of what you want from men it might as well be the 1950s
01:58:42.800
for what how men should behave how men should act but you women are living in 2026
01:58:58.200
i would say no now again i think if you don't tell them first then no but if you tell them
01:59:07.080
before you go on the date that's a bit different well no even if she discloses hey just letting
01:59:10.980
you know i'm a sex worker we're you're talking about something different now she should disclose
01:59:16.580
that she's a sex worker just out of respect to them because some men that's a massive
01:59:21.580
i mean well we deal breaker they're gonna know already well for some people most people they
01:59:26.940
don't tell them dating app huh you meet on the dating app yeah yeah so most people don't say
01:59:31.840
that though in person because i just wait so how would they know if you don't do you put stripper
01:59:37.020
in your they they google me i haven't i have like a normal name they google me not all people
01:59:41.960
i don't think you should assume that people will always google uh and we exchange information
01:59:47.360
how do you propose she brings this up as well on the dinner date i mean their instagram and no
01:59:52.220
yeah tell before the no on the dating app before the date yeah under your job be like that's not
01:59:59.160
stripper i'm sure that they don't mind okay they're like hairdressing is what i do every day
02:00:04.960
what what makes you more money what makes you more money both it just depends i can have a
02:00:09.600
color client and extensions girls okay twelve hundred dollars for extensions regardless of
02:00:14.300
what your secondary job is uh you first off on the dating apps you can list multiple jobs i believe
02:00:20.060
so and you could also just tell them like if it's not listed on your bio you could be like
02:00:26.280
hey just letting you know i'm a stripper i don't know um i mean we talk to the dm if i'm feeling
02:00:34.040
they get my number they're gonna see it on my page anyways you do acknowledge that for some men
02:00:39.560
being a stripper is a deal breaker yeah like some guys are not for me i want them to accept
02:00:45.300
me for who I am right but so why waste like I'm almost I'm not even totally thinking of it from
02:00:51.080
the male perspective wouldn't it save you time like imagine you go on a date with a guy
02:00:56.060
and then you like tell him on the date or after the date hey by the way I'm a fucking stripper
02:01:02.480
and then he's like oh I'm not interested anymore it seems like it's a waste of time for you
02:01:06.380
like I'm a busy person I don't want to like go on a date with a girl and she find out something
02:01:11.980
about me or i find out something about her that is a deal breaker like she did say she's not
02:01:18.420
looking to partner up with anyone yeah right she's just having fun so what's the point like
02:01:22.720
if the man is just having fun too have sex with everyone so okay what's the point of going on a
02:01:28.120
date to what end like a guy like i could for example i'm not particularly inclined to have
02:01:34.980
one night stands i find them fucking pointless um i don't do those but yeah well okay i so why
02:01:42.680
are you going on the dates like what is the it seems like a massive time waste for you
02:01:47.020
because you're not looking for a boyfriend she probably likes getting dressed up having some
02:01:51.420
yummy food like so you're leading the men on then that's even worse now they know doing the same
02:01:56.540
they will know if i want to see what dating app are you on bumble i got banned on tinder okay so
02:02:02.300
on bumble doesn't it say how'd you get banned on tinder stop stop stop stop pictures stop
02:02:07.040
on bumble doesn't it say you can put what you're looking for it can be like something casual
02:02:13.380
um not sure looking for relationship what do you put there casual friends you don't put
02:02:20.780
you put casual yeah i don't want to be dating someone right now i just i'm in my fun era
02:02:27.660
is it really fun to like be on a to be on your dating app and like coordinating with like 10
02:02:35.820
different dudes just to go on one dinner date with them like to i don't know like it seems like
02:02:43.480
a waste of time it's not really like vegas they have a lot of events and stuff like that
02:02:47.760
there's like so many things like it me personally it would never occur to me to go just get dinner
02:02:56.280
with a woman and never talk to her again like i'm either moving towards a relate like the intention
02:03:03.300
is uh relationship now for me yes but i mean she is not even having sex allegedly like so
02:03:12.800
but is it actually fun to you have a good time fun to what makes it fun for you i'll be right
02:03:19.660
back you guys continue if you're having so what parts are you having fun i used like i used to
02:03:24.420
drink when i was like 14 15 i stopped at 21 and i used to be a party girl and now just like
02:03:29.880
chilling going out it's fun and it's not a waste of time for you it's not yeah you discover many
02:03:35.380
i mean i don't know i don't do it but it's like you seem like you go to events you go to nice
02:03:39.660
restaurants like you just socialize with some people like why not there's concerts there's like
02:03:45.440
celebrity can i ask you why i only hang out with them like one or two times
02:03:49.840
like like if it's for friends like wouldn't you want to hang out with them more than one to two
02:03:55.640
times i need my space you just like you get disinterested yeah oh why i'm having hd i just
02:04:02.620
do okay okay she also has a roster of 13 so she's got to go through the cycle or is it like a new
02:04:11.340
one no i go through the cycle oh okay it's not like a new guy okay
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yeah why not we are all different we all need different things there is men out there that
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are all different as well they all need different things like like the guy online he plays video
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games for 10 hours yeah that's fun to him and yeah exactly that's like not attractive to me
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but maybe some woman loves it so it's just we decide what we want and play accordingly casual
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yeah either way we both would have said oh let's yeah honestly as long as there's communication
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I don't meet them all and say if they're looking for a relationship I tell them the morality part
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yeah as long as you don't lie to them and you're not like avoiding to say something just because
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you want like you have interest in it it's like what well I asked you have any of these guys been
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like I want to I want to like be exclusive if they were doing that then I think it would be
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the right thing to be like no i don't want to yeah exactly so yeah that would be fucked up as
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long as there's honesty and open transparency then i mean you're not hurting anyone yeah and
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i think we make a lot of like especially in those statements and all of that it's just like we feel
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i feel like we are putting all the men's and all the women's inside the same boxes and it's like
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well we're all so unique and different like how can we say that men would rather do that or women
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would rather do that or we deserve that or we should do that yeah it's too black and white
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yeah like i tend to agree with your nuances and i know so many i'm just like there's nuances
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it's not just a job description just because you're stripper you don't deserve anything
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there's other women who does stuff too and you you might sacrifice for a man too it's like well if
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you meet the right guy and he's like well listen like i don't mind about your past but i do mind
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you keeping going with it like if you want to come like a relationship with me would you be
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able to stop what you're doing to stay with me like yeah like some men might not like it as you
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as a girlfriend your his girlfriend doing so meanwhile you are with him obviously if i'm
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in a relationship with someone i'm not going to go out with guys i'm going to stop that that's like
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cheating yeah i only one person if you're really committed and dating but if you're
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you're just having fun, then who gives a fuck? Yeah, what's wrong with it?
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Hmm. Uh, okay. I don't know, man. It just seems like a really raw deal for men that, okay.
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I don't know, maybe if I frame it like this. If a man is going to act in a traditional way,
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should the woman also act traditional yes does that seem fair i mean it seems basic but
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but so what i'm seeing and what i'm hearing is a woman can be bonnie blue
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having a hundred thousand dicks ran through her and i gotta be traditional i gotta be a gentleman
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And if we take those men that are doing, I don't remember their name,
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So should they deserve to have a traditional lady
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If it goes for women, then it goes for men too.
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like what would they what would they deserve well i'm this gets into another really interesting
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topic is what do women do actually like what what if anything do women do what is the expectation
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that is uniquely placed on women to do because you say well what about the male strippers brian
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So, okay, tell me the thing that women do that we can have the women stop doing for the male sex workers.
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Newsflash, I'm going to get fucking crickets because women do jack shit.
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I'm hyper-traditional, so I do the house stuff.
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Articulate to me what a woman can or should do.
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So, okay, I get when all of you are six months deep into a relationship.
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Then you'll do things for him once you're in the relationship.
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But there's that, you women have expectations on us right away.
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My question to you is, what can men expect from women right away?
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I will, like, give you what you want, ask you what would, like, I'm not saying I'm ready to do anything.
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I'm not, like, I'm just going to make you feel that you are the center of my world.
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She's dating 10 dudes at the fucking same time.
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So then should it be the case that she doesn't get her dates paid for until she's exclusive with one guy?
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And then after that he decides what he wants to do
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Okay, so can a guy do that same leverage trick on her?
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You, okay. Hey, I want to take you on, on a date, but here are my conditions. If we're going to date
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each other, there can't be other dudes in the picture. If you're seeing other dudes, it has
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to be a wrap. You can't be like from our first date onwards, you can't be going on other dates.
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That's not what I mean. I'm saying if I'm in a relationship with someone, I'm not going to keep
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seeing other people right now. It's just casual fun, you know? Great. So men should not pay for
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dates until they're in a relationship. Then men should pay for the date. If they asked a girl
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out. Have you ever asked a guy out on a date? No. And you're 28 years old. So it's like, great.
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That's a great little trickery that you've done there. That would be man dominance. I don't want
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to be a man. Right. But this, the argument that you forwarded is whoever asks should pay for the
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date. This conveniently ignores the fact that 99% of all dates that ever have been and ever will be
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99% of them are initiated by men. So when women, right. But when I would be willing to accept the
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whoever asks should pay thing, if women asked men out at comparative rates, maybe it doesn't have
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to be 50-50. It could be 40-60. Men ask out 60% of the time, but women will do their share too.
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Then I could get behind whoever asks pays. But when women have the privilege of just sitting
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back and letting men come to them and waiting to pick from the men that pursue them, then
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nah, whoever asks should pay, it ignores this component of women don't initiate, women
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don't approach generally, women don't initiate, women don't ask men out for dates, at least
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And so when women start asking men out at 50-50 rates, then we can talk about whoever
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i should pay because as a woman you could never ask you've never out you're 28 you've probably
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been on 100 plus dates you've never asked a guy out in your life right you've never paid a date
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on your life if i mean if we put you right if we put you in a male body you would be a 28 year old
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virgin if we put you in a male body you've never fucked a woman ever what okay so
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What I'm trying to say here is as women, you can be passive and men still come.
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Now, I'm not saying sometimes a woman, you might see a guy you fancy, you'll shoot your
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But the experience for most men, I'd argue most men, especially average men, like an
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average woman, bro, average women, if they want to, they can fuck a lot.
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but you take an average guy the guy who works at walmart like the the chick that works at walmart
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the chick that works at chick-fil-a she could be a massive slut the dude at walmart
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that guy's not fucking maybe a little bit but he's not like fucking the same way a woman who
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works at walmart can be fucking what i'm trying to make here is uh if men if things stayed the
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same in terms of uh if men acted like women where it's like i'm gonna sit back and let men come to
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me whether that's on internet dating apps or in person i don't force them no i know i know the
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men do it willingly i'm not saying you force anybody but if i was a man and i did what you do
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which is not initiate and you wait for men to come to you and you put a man in your body
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oh my god this fucking dog shit music is so good
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no women are going to be like what's up bro wants some pussy no women don't do that
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women don't do so like as a guy you go out to these environments or it could even be a dating
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app i go on a dating app and i don't send the first message i don't women sometimes send the
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first message i believe women on dating apps have your own bumble right yeah question do they
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it used to be on bumble i haven't been on dating apps in like years on bumble the woman had the
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message first is that still the case or is it no so the man okay that's fine the one app where
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women had a message first they still have to answer a specific prompt like they can't just
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message you and say what's up you have like a few prompts that if they want to reach out first they
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can answer those specific questions men can reach out first and women can reach out first on bumble
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now women can reach out first with whatever they want hey but if a guy wants to reach out first he
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has to choose from a list of oh wait that's kind of retarded but wait so hold on wait what so
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they there's like a prompt like what's your favorite color or like caption this picture
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of my dog or something and so women can just send a hey and not answer a prompt men have to answer
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her prompt that's so fucking funny i think it should be the i wonder why well in any case i
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remember when i was on bumble before they made the switch where only women could message first
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and women the the one app where women have to take the initiative this is what women did on bumble
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hey how's it going and then so i call it token initiative and then they immediately
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push back the entire initiative burden and conversational burden right back onto the man
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as if you had met on any other dating app. So it was super fucking stupid. Um, it's still stupid
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though, because now the men can't just, I mean, saying, Hey, is a bad way to open on the dating
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app, but that's besides the point. Where the fuck were we? We were asking about dating lines,
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dating uh like our oh yeah yeah who should who should pay or whatever um
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yeah i don't know this idea yeah i guess i was saying oh no wait we were talking about oh yeah
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if i'm in the club no girls are coming and talk to me you you as a girl go to a club guys will
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come and talk to you uh you could have like a girl with 300 followers a thousand followers
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on instagram and she's gonna get bombarded with dms uh you could be super clouded up as a guy
02:18:23.820
and in order for a guy to receive as many dms as a girl with like 700 followers on instagram
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you need to have like a million followers on ig to get the same level of attention
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that a woman with a thousand followers has so yeah women don't really shoot their shot like that
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agreed okay yeah just in general or like because yeah in general like yeah i guess in general like
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it's less but like for me when i see someone i'm interested in i'll ask for the information or
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something well how much how many times have you done that probably like five five six times
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or more honestly and how successful are you 100 yeah so that's the other interesting thing
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so men like i think for a man who's a fucking killer and i don't mean literally but he's got
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fucking game and he's running through girls 10 success rate that guy's a fucking stud
02:19:29.560
10 success rate a woman bro y'all women have dating on fucking easy mode y'all don't get
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rejected you don't really deal with reject well deal with rejection a different way but
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uh even when you do take initiative which is incredibly rare your success rate as women
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is so astoundingly high and then also guys will be mostly polite yeah guys will be like
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if you approach a guy he'll like remember that shit for that's the thing i'm like am i raising
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their ego but honestly that's good that's good i mean that's what women provide for men yeah
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confidence but a man can go through like the amount of attention you've received probably in
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miami you've like you you compare that to an average guy like your first day in miami you
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probably received more attention in one day than an average guy will in his entire life
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that's the difference it's kind of sad that's the difference but so what i was saying with her is
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if a man acted like her he would be a fucking virgin because men have to like we can't sit
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around men have to be proactive when it comes to dating we can't just wait for women to come to us
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because women don't come to us generally now if you're a fucking top tier guy women will slide
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into your dms or they might approach you but most men are not top tier guys so what about the other
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90 i don't know i think men should put more like effort into what effort do women put in for their
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looks and stuff oh oh no i'm you're talking about looks i thought you're talking about like effort
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i'm talking about looks because because it's probably easier to become like top 10 percentile
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man than it is for women because there's so many beautiful women in the world and there's not as
02:21:17.020
many like you know like you see like a really attractive guy he probably you know has i don't
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know so many girls so many girls like I'm just gonna use clav as an example because I'm I know
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he has his platform and everything but you see him and like girls will flock to him and like
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it I don't know like it's different it's different uh yeah I mean do you want to like
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fuck him or something no no I was no would you date him no I've met him a few times actually
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no did he try to fuck or no he was just like he was a little bit rude honestly but it's clav
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a lot of guys who get girls like that a lot yeah he's just like
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be gone with you exactly okay uh yeah i don't know i look here's my position
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we were talking about her being a sex worker being a stripper
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she wants she deserves men paying for first dates
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i think if you're not a traditional woman you don't deserve traditional treatment i'm not saying
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you should you still men should be nice to you men should be nice to you they should treat you
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well but some of these gestures that are traditional paying for dates chivalry i don't
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think you deserve it so let's say there was a disabled person a fat person and they're all
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woman whatever so you're saying they don't deserve the same thing wait what
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just because they're different is that is the disabled person tradition is the
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woman who's disabled it doesn't matter did they they all deserve the same thing
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respect well so okay hold on so there's a distinction between respect and being
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treated well and specific acts of chivalry everyone should be treated well
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yes i agree murder or like a rapist so a woman who's a sex worker i'm not saying she should be
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abused i'm not saying she should be treated poorly she should be treated if a guy's down
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to date her he should treat her well he should treat her kindly he should
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but what i'm talking about again is specific acts of chivalry and so should she have her
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paid for nah in fact you probably earn more money than most these dudes like that's crazy like some
02:23:44.440
imagine a 19 year old sex worker who's making a hundred thousand dollars a month you're dating
02:23:50.600
some guy and fucking his in college he's gonna be able to fucking pay for you no that's ridiculous
02:23:57.380
the male sex workers in the same level as me or up i wouldn't okay well and the men sex workers
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don't deserve the sandwich don't deserve the center like the center of interest don't deserve
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the chivalry from the woman then no like they don't deserve all of that as a male sex worker
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just because their work just yeah because it's like well there is one thing to put your job
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in the past and there is one thing to keep it going but it's like i don't know i'm not advocating
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for those people but it's just like it seems silly to me to not like they're still human
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beings are still male like if you're attracted to him you want him you want him in your life
02:24:34.400
and he's like compromising with you and not having that job anymore like his past doesn't
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really matter at that point and it's like well does that person then doesn't deserve either like
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any like good stuff from the woman i mean i think i'm fine with that respecting kindness and not
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being violent and abusive that's like a universal everybody one standard i think
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chivalry and paying for dates and flowers like that's between one person and the other who are
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exchanging those things i think it's between human and human and not towards what you do
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or what you don't do there is women that are not honestly like the first 20 years of my life i was
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not deserving of a chivalrous man like now I have changed a lot I have worked on myself I understand
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what a traditional woman is and it's like yeah now I think I I'm still in progress I'm still I
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still have some work to do but damn it I didn't worth it before and yeah now I do and I am working
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very hard on myself to be worth it even though I have never done sex work and I I don't think it
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depends on your job but who you are and let me frame it like this maybe this is going to be the
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best one i've failed i think i've failed in properly convincing or being persuasive on the
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subject does someone who is disloyal deserve loyalty no no no
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like how about this maybe this is good you guys know like andrew tate and justin waller maybe you
02:26:14.520
saw that fucking dog shit netflix documentary uh some of these guys you know they're uh
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that these men who they won't give their loyalty to the woman, but expect loyalty in return,
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you would say they don't deserve her loyalty. They still get it in some instances. That's what
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I'm trying to get at here. So yes, they can still get it, but we're talking about, do they deserve
02:27:10.380
it? In this case, um, mapping that onto the previous, uh, conversation does a non-traditional
02:27:20.420
woman deserve traditional treatment from a man, I think you can use this loyalty example
02:27:26.900
to understand the perspective of, well, hold on. If, if loyalty is a performance,
02:27:34.700
if loyalty is behavior, I am performing loyalty. I am, I am loyal. I am being loyal. I am doing
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loyal. Could this then not apply to the behavior and performance of traditional roles? So if I'm
02:27:50.400
going to be traditional towards a woman ought not she be traditional back yes yeah i mean i agree
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if i was a man that's what i was saying if i were a man that would be my that would be like my yeah
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that's pretty much what i said yeah as a man makes sense but i'm traditional so i can't relate so
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are you very okay uh let's see here um as soon as she returns we're going to
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get into uh some of the topics but first we have uh let's see here
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uh i want to do a segment called um did you show these tiffany did you show the orange one
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you got to be on top of the wait this tiffany that came in oh that's fucked tiffany that came
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in 20 minutes ago did you show it no okay you it's right there okay whoever whoever that
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orange super chat is let me see if i can see it here all right political overtones the entire
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point of her dates are to use her pretty privilege to scam men into paying for her meals just pull
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the the reds keep them like uh keep them here all right can somebody read this please
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the entire points of her dates are to use her pretty privilege to manipulate men into paying
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for her meals one thousand dollars spent on her meals a week that she doesn't have to foot the
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bill on um good point i don't use men to buy food i could buy my own self food thank you uh political
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overtones for the hundred dollar super chat appreciate it i mean he does raise an interesting
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thing women will sometimes do something called a foodie call where you have no genuine interest
02:30:00.040
in the guy or very very low interest and you'll either use him for the free dinner or maybe he's
02:30:08.080
inviting you to an experience it doesn't necessarily have to be dinner he could be like
02:30:13.220
let's go to a concert but you oh the concert sounds fun but not so sure about the guy so
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not all women do that by the way um just to be clear and i don't think it's even the majority
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of time you go on a date a woman is doing this but it is a phenomenon that men have to be wary of
02:30:58.140
are women owed their dates being paid for well do they deserve it no because it's the same thing
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i don't think that's on a woman that's like it depends on the woman yeah exactly like it's too
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many nuances not all women deserve or don't deserve it's like we're all even at that table
02:31:19.000
like we didn't tell you you deserve it you deserve it it's just like we're completely different okay
02:31:23.580
so tell me then what should men do if you're not going to bite on uh deserve or not deserve
02:31:31.220
what should men do i want them to just be stable and reliable you know someone who's honest and
02:31:37.340
consistent you guys going around the table uh should men pay on first dates no i mean did i say
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yes yes what okay whatever you circled here just say yes or no okay yep i think so yes yes
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yeah not necessarily no but it's nice yeah exactly yeah okay so that's two no's and six yeses
02:32:14.900
so from there we can get into uh the expectations placed on men what are the expectations we can
02:32:22.360
place on women to be loyal to be affectionate hold on really quick here so what i'm asking for
02:32:30.540
is unique unique so we would both agree that both men and women should be loyal both men and women
02:32:37.760
should be financial literacy no that's what i would say hold on what what uniquely and specifically
02:32:45.460
should women do financial literacy most women don't have that a majority of people intimacy
02:32:52.520
okay a unique thing men should do is men should pay on first dates only one person can pay for
02:32:57.820
the date therefore it's unique to the men both and of course men should be financially literate
02:33:08.840
too you would think but a majority of them are not yeah but this is this wouldn't be something
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that is unique to women i just don't know most women who know anything about finances that well
02:33:21.000
i don't that you're not understanding the question what should you uniquely women do
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I don't think people are required to do anything on the first date.
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Men are expected to do things on the first date.
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And I answered no, because I don't think we should.
02:34:11.480
It's like, you are going to have a good time with someone.
02:34:14.140
And it's like, well, at the end of the day, who cares about who pays?
02:34:19.480
That's not the standard for the majority of the women on the panel.
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So if your position is women should not have to do anything
02:34:34.400
This applies to the women who do say men should
02:34:43.720
If you're going on the date and you enjoy the date
02:34:54.980
if they enjoyed the company of the woman like if the man should pay did you hear the
02:35:00.100
repeat my question back you no i i literally asked what should women do and your response is
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men should pay for the day i'm saying nothing with the price i'm saying that the girls what
02:35:12.980
the girl should be engaging the man should also be engaging yeah so i'm asking what women should
02:35:20.180
uniquely do i think maybe like an emotional opening a lot of guys don't have the space to
02:35:26.800
talk to you want to fucking talk about her trauma on the first yeah i mean i do yeah but usually
02:35:31.600
for a while before the first date so okay the the woman uniquely uh trauma dumps on the date
02:35:39.440
no not trauma dump no that seems like a negative there's a difference between trauma dumping and
02:35:44.600
talking about emotions you think a heterosexual man yeah wants to talk about emotions i mean my
02:35:52.560
experience yes oh my god usually i talk to them for a while you're dating like liberal soy boy
02:35:57.960
no i've even dated like super conservative no i don't date models i hate models oh yeah
02:36:02.400
conservative men really want to talk about emotions i'm telling you first day yeah because
02:36:07.000
they don't have the outlet to do that anywhere else okay give me give me a an example of how a
02:36:12.280
man a conservative man that you've been on a date with opened up to you emotionally well usually
02:36:18.300
it's like their history their family is more so conservative not them so they just open up spanked
02:36:23.020
or something no like they have like a very highly republican family that's what i mean by conservative
02:36:27.920
so they by default kind of have an influence in that way but usually that's what they talk about
02:36:33.240
is how they had to grow up with the conversation with me i can't role play a nuanced conversation
02:36:38.520
on the spot i it's individualized to each guy i don't know what their thing is how do you um
02:36:46.220
what's the word i ask okay ask me i just ask them i'm like well how does what you do make you feel
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like are you happy in life does this truly make you feel satisfied but the guys i date like that
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so you know i can't complain about my dating life or the guys i've dated work
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i mean i've had positive experiences yeah honestly there's there's been some guys that
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trauma dumped to me too like right when i first meet them what should the question will be repeated
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again what should women uniquely do well that's my answer i don't know the answer nothing nothing
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oh my god oh fuck i could say i think a lot of men think that if he pays for dinner the woman
02:37:33.540
should put out yeah no disagree you don't think oh hold on let me let so okay i think i think
02:37:42.720
that's wrong now do i don't know if it's the majority of men but i would grant that yes there
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are men who definitely view uh view things in that sort of transactional way that's like
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kind of creepy and weird and i don't like that um that's weird
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yeah so i'm like are we generalizing or individualizing our answers that's why i
02:38:09.940
keep getting generalizing because i don't know how to generalize i don't think most men when
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they go on a date like are like well i paid for the date you're gonna have to give me some puss
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like that they're not thinking that it's not because i don't know i can always be from
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okay so just to be clear you guys look i'm so there's a difference between men thinking it
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and then there's a difference between men who are like overt oh uh well uh i paid for the day
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you gotta suck my dick like that's more than once it's happened i'm sure it's happened
02:38:44.800
And then when you're like, well, I think I'm going to go home.
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I'm the first to stand by you and say, that's fucking cringe.
02:38:58.040
So when I was dating and on the dating apps, when, you know, the few times I did agree to go on a date, I said, there's one caveat.
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I don't want some awkward like, oh, no, like I'm going to get it.
02:39:10.380
I just want that to be known because, because I was in these situations where guys just felt like
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they were entitled to some sexual thing because they paid for my dinner. I don't want, I don't
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want to be in that situation. So 50, 50 on the first day, if it goes well enough that I want
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to go on a second day and you'd like to pay for that second one, I I'm open to that.
02:39:29.140
So, but it's interesting. So, um, now we're sort of back at deserving. Some men feel as if they
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deserve that and again i agree with you guys that's fucking weird i don't think it's wrong
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for a man to want like of course you guys are women are attractive men want to sleep with you
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but when it turns into uh they're going to get all bent out of shape because you don't want to
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go home with them or if they're even overt about it like oh but they start fucking crying and like
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but i paid for the dinner that's fucking cringe that's lame that's weird like don't do that
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no usually they don't know how to start it most men are not emotionally intelligent enough to know
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how to communicate healthily so i usually do typically lead the way of emotional intelligence
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but again like they are that's what they like that's what that's i said i have really positive
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experiences in dating i don't have any toxic past this would still be both ways they don't start it
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no like i'm the one who brings it out so without like any other spaces to express themselves if
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i'm the only outlet how do you bring it out questions asking them direct questions about
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how their life is what they do where they want to go in their lives like you know deeper questions
02:41:12.900
no no can they ask it too yes okay so do you think they can but most men just don't okay so
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do you think if you didn't do that that like before you induced the man to open up emotionally
02:41:31.200
he was like really turned off by you he wasn't attracted to you he didn't want a second date
02:41:35.620
he didn't want to fuck you but the moment you induced him to open up emotionally uh
02:41:41.060
i can only go based on experience okay i don't know about generalizations what does that do for
02:41:50.340
i would be like if i was on a date with a girl and she was like wanting to have like a really
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deep convo right away and she's like so brian tell me about your most traumatic experiences i'd be
02:42:00.780
that's not what i asked shut the fuck up that's my point i don't ask that that's like super
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different i asked them about what they do i'm being dramatic yes very dramatic effect if i
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was interested in the woman no i don't think i'd tell her to shut the fuck up yes uh but i mean
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that more rhetorically i would be like uh look we're just having you could not say that you don't
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i don't ask about trauma that's really intense no i wouldn't be like i'd be like hey look um
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i like you you're cool but i don't really want to get into that we just met like let's talk about
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something else okay yeah but that's an extreme question i don't ask about trauma ask about their
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life like their day-to-day what that's literally what men do on dates they ask women about their
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life no not in the same way not from an emotional standpoint they just ask you what you do women
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are more emotional feel that you're a plumber yeah pretty much they and they open up i swear
02:42:58.700
I have nothing bad to say about the guys I've ever dated, the ones I've been on dates on.
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I've never done a situationship, so I can't complain.
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Men got to roll out a $200 dinner, and in exchange, the woman's going to ask him an emotionally loaded question about his future.
02:43:15.340
Where do you see yourself in five years, and how does it make you feel to know that inflation is fucked, and you're not going to be able to buy a house.
02:43:23.440
and you're probably not going to be able to afford like raising kids and stuff. How's that
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make you feel? I don't ask about any of those things either. But as I said, I have really
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great experiences. So I'm not, I guess you're not my target demographic, but in my personal life,
02:43:35.600
I do very well with dating. So, uh, clearly they like what they are getting. I mean, you know, I,
02:43:41.600
I usually talk to the guys for a while before I even go out on a date with them anyways. So,
02:43:46.460
you know, I mean, well, yeah, you should talk to somebody first. Well, yeah, I'm like, well,
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a lot of people will just meet and go okay so besides the she induces an emotional conversation
02:43:57.420
uh besides that what what should women do what should women do
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do you guys not even know i mean well that's a traditional mindset that i give so you don't know
02:44:10.200
wait wait how about this let's do this let's do this list out list out all the things men should
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do on the first date uh let's say you know what let's not say just the first date why don't we
02:44:20.640
say um let's do early on so first three dates and then maybe we can distinguish and say in a
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relationship too okay so distinguish those early on before girlfriend and then during relationship
02:44:53.880
And early on, just stop talking to other girls.
02:45:10.720
for people and how they treat i'm asking like things men would uniquely do that is a lot of
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guys are douchebags these days well women also can do that if you find someone with the same
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okay here i'll just never mind let me i reclaim my time
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lexi on the questionnaire you circled the following to which you agree men should pay
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on first dates men should provide protect men should be chivalrous husband should be willing
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to die protecting you take the bullet but that's like later on yeah well it says husband well
02:45:47.980
clearly yeah husband but i do think you would have an expectation that your boyfriend of three
02:45:51.980
months would protect you yeah and if he was a pussy and a coward you would lose attraction for
02:45:57.620
him yeah yeah if i'm getting like beat up like i would want him to like yeah well so i think that
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even though the charitable thing that I would say here is realistically throughout the course of
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one's life, will most boyfriends or most husbands actually be put in some sort of life or death
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situation, protecting their girlfriend or wife? No, I'd say most don't. However, there's another
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component that's a little deeper. You might not even be willing to date a guy who wouldn't be
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willing should the should the time should it come to that so if a guy's a coward or a pussy
02:46:40.960
regardless of any situation actually manifesting you wouldn't be attracted to him how would i know
02:46:52.220
you might not but maybe for example like he sees a rat this is cringe and he like
02:46:57.940
jumps up on a chair and screams like a chick or uh you see him get his ass whooped in a fight
02:47:04.760
or um he tells you he's like yeah you know i don't know maybe you've seen a video i don't
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know if you saw this video i think it took place in costa rica it was a couple months ago
02:47:16.480
this woman was getting her purse snatched and getting stabbed at the same time and she i don't
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know if she was with her boyfriend but she was with a male and the male did nothing while she's
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getting her purse snatched, getting stabbed by this guy with a knife. And the male was just
02:47:31.800
standing. I think it was the boyfriend. She survived. You can't tell me if you were about
02:47:39.820
to go on a date with that guy and you saw that video, you're not going on that date. You're not
02:47:45.140
dating that guy. You're like, this guy is bitch made. Right. So even if never in the course of
02:47:52.420
your entire life, your boyfriend or your husband might never be faced with a situation where they
02:47:57.420
have to physically protect you might never happen but if they don't have the willingness or the
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capacity to do it it would be unattractive yeah i agree right so that does come later on uh you
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said men should pay on first dates men should provide protect your husband should be willing
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to die protecting you brooklyn men should pay on first dates men should provide protect husband
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should be willing to die protecting you maria men should pay on first date provide protect
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be chivalrous and should be willing to die protecting you lindsey men should pay on first
02:48:35.060
dates men should provide protect men should be chivalrous veronica men should pay on first
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dates men should provide protect men should be chivalrous leticia men should provide protect
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julia men should provide protect men should be men should be chivalrous so
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i just don't like the shield honestly like if the shield okay that's besides the point
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like sat yeah i'm like i just don't i can't generalize so i don't know i can only speak
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from personal experiences they should make a home if there are children well that's like all like
02:49:17.540
after the relationship i'm assuming first date like i don't know what would you say oh no in
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my head like the talking stage is like uh the trial period to a relationship so i typically
02:49:27.220
try to show up like how i would in a relationship starting in the beginning i want them to see what
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it would be like if they were to date me long term so that they can fall in love with who i am
02:49:36.320
so i'm like and i expect you know them to be themselves so that's the only expectation is
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to mirror that energy so that's a good question you asked brooklyn what should the man has to
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answer for what women should do women can't even tell me really quick before i give my answer
02:49:54.800
just throw it out there is there anything that women should do in a relationship yeah yes what
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be demure respectful like don't be an embarrassment well ideally bring something
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to the household to finances the demure thing is somewhat unique but the other two things you
02:50:13.540
listed julia kind of go both ways um so in a relationship right yeah what should women
02:50:20.580
uniquely do um uniquely bake men don't bake use usually uh okay so cook bake okay sure
02:50:29.580
clean should women clean sure but they both should be clean no just the woman should clean
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no i think it depends if it's a traditional relationship then yes it depends if he if i'm
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paying for everything and she's not working yeah yeah she's absolutely absolutely mom yeah i'm
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doing laundry i'm yes taking care of the kids i'm cooking i'm doing the traditional stuff
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but if we're both going to work i feel like that's now you're not in a strictly traditional
02:50:57.920
not traditional, but yeah, that's like the stuff that's uniquely for, I guess, a traditional
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relationship. Yeah. So I would say it's being submissive, deferring to his leadership. So that
02:51:10.340
means being a follower. If you want a man to lead, you have to be a follower. There's, there's,
02:51:16.680
you can't get around that. What does like being submissive like really mean? Yeah. So acquiescing
02:51:22.980
to his wants and desires. If he tells you to do something, you do it. Just to be clear,
02:51:30.680
that doesn't mean if I tell my girlfriend, hey, you see that bridge over there? Fucking jump off
02:51:37.720
it. No. In that instance, you could defy me. That means deferring to me. It means letting me lead.
02:51:48.800
it means don't question every single thing don't question me uh don't nag me don't henpeck me
02:51:55.940
don't be quarrelsome defer to me don't question me if i'm leading you right now authority is that's
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not yes it is what's the question what were you telling what's the statement yes i believe men
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in relationships should if you want to now look people can have any kind of relationship they
02:52:18.020
want you want to peg a dude you want to make a guy a little fucking bitch then fine be in that
02:52:23.280
relationship and it can be all consensual and it can be negotiated if you're a woman and you want
02:52:28.500
to deal with a traditional man then defer to his leadership what's like a statement as long as he's
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not a piece of shit if you want yes of course can you give an example don't defer don't be some yes
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you should be the guy should be worthy yeah the guy should be deserving the guy should be virtuous
02:52:48.080
can you give an example yes i should have authority in my relationship like what would
02:52:52.940
you say like i'm curious what do you mean like authority over which aspects yeah sure so example
02:52:58.320
yeah yeah an example would be let me think of a good example uh here i'm dating a girl for two
02:53:07.540
years. And it's difficult because the type of woman that I would date, that I would want to
02:53:14.920
be in a relationship probably wouldn't do this to begin with. But yeah, the thing is like,
02:53:21.480
typically like the type of people you find yourself in a relationship with,
02:53:24.860
they're going to match up with you mostly. Well, that's not always true because people get into
02:53:29.580
relationships where things are an issue for the respective partners. For example,
02:53:33.820
women end up dating guys with porn who watch porn. Most women are not cool. I don't think men should
02:53:39.280
watch porn. They shouldn't be gooning it to fucking a hundred chicks on Instagram. They
02:53:43.920
shouldn't be following chicks. They shouldn't be liking their shit. Even if they're single,
02:53:48.400
they shouldn't be doing that shit. That's fucking lame. But in a relationship, you're being
02:53:52.260
disrespectful to your girl. You shouldn't be liking, uh, you shouldn't be liking Instagram,
02:53:57.140
fucking bikini pics. You shouldn't be watching porn. You got to save that shit for your girl.
02:54:02.160
but i think for example and it's difficult because i feel like the type of girl i would
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date she doesn't party she doesn't drink but my girl comes to me
02:54:12.380
she would just she would already get it though is the thing but i guess in the scenario i just
02:54:18.840
need an example hey brian um i want to dress like a fucking slut and go to the club with all my
02:54:24.120
single girlfriends and i say no that's the end of the conversation and she's not going that's the
02:54:31.500
authority okay well i guess your death now if you want to date a guy and you want to be a strumpet
02:54:37.060
you want to go to the club and be a hood rat and do that shit some guys are going to be okay with
02:54:42.600
that a lot of guys don't have the constitution and grounding to ever tell women no yeah but i
02:54:49.760
get what apparently it's abusive yeah it's apparently it's abusive to it's considered
02:54:55.620
controlling to something okay it are most women happy when their man is liking instagram models
02:55:02.540
photos and going to the strip club i mean i'm traditional i don't i don't go out i'm doing
02:55:06.460
that stuff so i agree so so look you can look i mean i'm not going to physically prevent you
02:55:11.460
but if you're going to go against me on this you want to go to the club
02:55:15.620
we're not gonna fuck we've been dating for two years back to the streets you fucking go
02:55:20.820
stop the cat i did not mean to press that i meant to press this whoops my finger slipped
02:55:25.960
she belongs to the streets back to the streets she goes look she wants to be she wants to do
02:55:30.480
hood rat shit back to the hood she goes like you're not really you're not moving in such a way
02:55:35.860
that is relationship minded when we're talking about protection we're talking about the man
02:55:41.220
should be provide and protect i believe a man's duty to protect a woman in a relationship isn't
02:55:47.900
just from physical threats it's not just the uh a burglar breaks into your house and you're
02:55:56.780
gonna shoot him or fight him or whatever that's part of it there's other components when a man
02:56:02.760
should protect the man has to protect the woman from her own dumb ass mistakes the man has to
02:56:10.260
protect the woman from making mistakes that will be the ruination of the relationship we need and
02:56:17.660
what about men need to lead men need to lead men need to lead in the relationship uh and look
02:56:27.020
because the a lot of y'all men and women have been brainwashed men and women have been brainwashed
02:56:32.920
it's okay to dress like a fucking hoe it's okay to go to the club and get drunk and go over to
02:56:39.620
some dude's house as for an after party uh if you're in a relationship if you're a relationship
02:56:46.180
minded person, whether you're a man or a woman, you don't do that. And so as a man, I have a duty
02:56:51.800
to protect the woman from perhaps her own mistakes. I need, I have a duty to protect
02:56:57.320
my relationship, our relationship. But isn't that also her job? It's her job too. It's I'm not saying
02:57:04.020
like, I'm not here to micromanage you. You should just get it to begin with. The other thing I need
02:57:10.360
to protect a woman from and this is also protect the family say when we have kids uh threats not
02:57:17.920
just of body but of mind i need to protect her spirit i need to protect her mind how is society
02:57:24.640
how is media trying to propagandize her oh the school system wants to trans our kid no homeschool
02:57:56.400
I don't care if I burn through all my fucking money
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i don't care if i burn all my fucking money you're not turning my son into a fucking woman
02:58:09.260
yes yes and so i have a duty to protect my children and look i don't know a lot of the
02:58:15.680
fucking trans shit that's y'all that's on women not gonna lie and wouldn't that be like more of
02:58:22.040
a conversation and be like because like i understand that there is a leader there is
02:58:27.660
followers i totally get that and i thought like i understand but there is no conversation yeah
02:58:32.280
No, no, no. I'm not saying conversation to agree. I'm just saying, like, just because as a partner, like, for example, marriage is going to be the first step. Well, when you date at first, you don't know what you think about marriage. So later on in the relationship, you're going to start talking about marriage. And then at that moment, it's like, yes, I want to follow, but I also want the discussion to be able to be open to that. And then, okay, we're going to have kids. Okay, sweet. So how do you see the future with kids? How do you see school or not?
02:59:01.160
clearly yeah homeschool is the solution like for sure but it's just all of that shouldn't be a black
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and white again from the husband it's like well i don't mind you putting it on the table but i do
02:59:12.980
mind you not even listening to my answer and it's like if we disagree yes we need to split and if
02:59:18.820
we don't if we agree then cool let's go for it like so i'm fine with there being an initial
02:59:24.440
conversation i think in a tiebreaker situation where she disagrees i disagree i think the man
02:59:31.300
has final say okay well do you mean like surgery or like you're saying you wouldn't even want them
02:59:36.680
dressing they can't socially transition okay they can't dress up like a kid they can't go on puberty
02:59:42.380
blockers they can't get surgeries gender affirming care none of them what about like tomboys like
02:59:48.700
sometimes that's different i mean yeah okay you've got a daughter and she masculine kind of
02:59:53.660
dressing i mean i mean i was a tomboy growing up yeah me too and now i'm like such a girly girl
03:00:00.560
i think that's different i don't know like i don't think i you know i what about like a son
03:00:07.200
like if he wants to dress up differently and maybe not like completely change the gender
03:00:11.540
no hold on i'm sorry oh no no no so children are under the authority of their parents if my son
03:00:20.300
comes to me by the way i don't foresee this ever fucking happening he's like hey hey dad i want to
03:00:26.040
wear a dress to school no you're not doing that you're a little confused son you're a little
03:00:32.900
confused you're gonna get fucking bullied uh i'd be curious how he how did you get there how did
03:00:40.800
you arrive at this desire son yeah and also like if i had a little girl like she can dress in like
03:00:47.840
normal clothes but if you wanted to put on little boy clothes it'd be like no right you're a little
03:00:53.660
girl true i don't know and look just to be clear i don't want to i i come off a bit strong
03:01:02.400
rhetorically here i don't want to suggest that i think women are stupid or anything i don't i think
03:01:07.740
women are smart i think they're but i do think that there is um certain narratives in society
03:01:14.740
where it's like it's like okay uh it's controlling for the guy to not want you to
03:01:22.280
go to a bar where you could like i'm not you're saying there's double standards well i guess what
03:01:27.920
i'm saying is like i'm i'm trying to look out for my girlfriend like i and i've never been the guy
03:01:34.920
like I need to, you need to text me. Where are you at? Oh, let me look through your phone. I've
03:01:39.200
never done that in a relationship. I have trust in my relationships, but there are just certain
03:01:43.380
things I don't want my girlfriend to do. I don't want her posting thirst traps on Instagram,
03:01:47.580
preferably her fucking shit's private. I don't want a girl who's on really on social media like
03:01:52.900
that too much. I want a girl who's not going to bars and clubs. I don't really drink unless
03:01:57.220
somebody does a champagne pop. I don't, I don't drink at all. I don't do drugs. I don't smoke.
03:02:03.120
um and so i don't know it's uh so if she yeah just like if she casually she has a girlfriend
03:02:11.100
she needs she wants to go out with her girlfriend and they're just gonna have a dinner and maybe
03:02:15.660
it's gonna end up in a bar like if you trust her is that really an issue like well it it depends
03:02:21.820
right so like of she gots to go out to trader joe's she wants to go get brunch she wants to
03:02:27.680
get lunch dinner that's fine but when it becomes i want to party yeah that's the threshold yes
03:02:35.080
that's the threshold um and so look a lot of people don't want to accept that though
03:02:40.900
what do you mean like a lot of our generation tries to normalize that i think that you should
03:02:46.080
want to go out with your i mean it depends on what you like like some girls don't like going
03:02:50.760
out some guys don't like going out so match up with someone well what's the point for the guy
03:02:55.740
to go out like you go out together i've gone out with guys and it's fun it's i mean i'll tell you
03:03:01.860
this it's have you ever seen fights break out when you go out like at the club yeah like to
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probably guys mostly fighting maybe some girls not really you never see street fights like
03:03:14.160
outside the club at 2 a.m 3 a.m no not really i mean i can tell you this when i was when i was
03:03:20.900
younger uh when i went out to bars a little bit and i also went to college parties and it was like
03:03:26.820
this big strip uh of just like house parties and there'd be frat parties and just people would be
03:03:34.400
pouring in the streets right i would see fights every single night i think that's more like frat
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like culture i think no it's not even the frats it's just like some drunk dude here drunk dude
03:03:45.100
here yeah they're not getting laid they're frustrated i just don't like the environment
03:03:50.300
and so i see when i would go out to bars and clubs and i'm not like this isn't the hood santa
03:03:55.880
barbara is one of the highest cost of living cities in the entire united states it's like
03:04:01.540
yeah it's not like the fucking ghetto it's not the hood yeah fights breaking out every i saw it all
03:04:08.420
the time i've been like in a few close calls and stuff like with you almost fighting like guys
03:04:14.740
kind of pumping up their chest and trying to start shit but i'm not a testosterone yeah so i've i've
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extracted myself from certain situations and but like i've seen it i've seen it and um so you're
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just not gonna go out just for the no well what i'm saying is i think it's actually one you already
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got the girl why the fuck you go in the club just stay home fuck watch netflix well that's what you
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like to do you know you like to stay and people like to go out yeah we can go like a group of
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People, like guys, friends, girlfriends, all together.
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Let's do a wholesome walk at the beach, me and my girl.
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And then let's watch Netflix and fuck, and that's it.
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And for his bachelor party, he wants to go to Vegas and go to a strip club.
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Never would on your own, but this is your best man.
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Would you expect your woman to not be excited about it, but to be like, yeah.
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you know go yeah have fun i would expect that i'm not gonna blow up your phone i'm not gonna
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make you feel like you're being a shitty boyfriend yeah uh so this is what i would do in this
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situation i would go to dinner with them i would smoke a cigar with them i would bow out of going
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to the strip club with them dang you're a good dude i'm not going to i wouldn't care personally
03:05:35.580
but most guys would though even if i was single i probably i just trust them yeah i would go have
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fun man yeah i'm like it's a bachelor party like go so much yeah i'm gonna be honest i do not trust
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i would not trust a bachelorette party with a male stripper i'll say oh yeah that's a lot
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oh we usually go to female strip clubs at least i've i've talked to some of these male strippers
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and and bro these chicks bro the male strippers will have the cock in the face yep some of the
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chicks will fucking give them head like no my girl wants to do a bachelorette party go to dinner
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whatever you're not gonna if there's a fucking stripper involved hey babe go to the hotel
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and she should she should respect that and she should be like i understand i'm doing that what
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about like a trip to another place with their girls like another country uh spring break
03:06:32.080
massive yikes girls not spring break i mean like for a bachelorette we decide to go to italy
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She's going out with three girls who are single.
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Well, no, because one of them is a bachelorette, so we're celebrating a marriage.
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We wouldn't be going to strip clubs or nightlife or anything.
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It's literally just, like, we decided instead of, like, going to nightlife, we have the money to go to another country.
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So let's take a trip, you know, instead of doing the nightlife stuff.
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if they're your if she's your girl of a long time and she's spending time with them you would
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absolutely not at least and like if it were me you would know all my friends again there's certain
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it would depend on the circumstances if i know the you know what the itinerary is
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i'm amenable to it but my leaning is is a bit no that makes sense because that's where trust
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comes into it's like well you trust your woman that she's going to be loyal that she's going
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to be reasonable like even in a street club i organized the bachelor bachelorette party for a
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girlfriend and like yeah we had a stripper and everyone is you know in like you are you own your
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own like relationship with yourself in that moment i'm sorry i don't give a fuck how fucking loyal
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she is i'm not allowing my girlfriend to be in a situation where another man is waving his cock
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no but he's not what if we go to a female strip club the strippers that i hired was like completely
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for the woman that was bachelorette and he was not putting his penis like we all have a say to
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what about a female i don't care if my girlfriend my what if she respects me don't trust her it's
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not about trust if she respects me okay you know what i want to hang out with my ex-girlfriend
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who's way hotter than you at 10 p.m at night but don't you trust me don't worry not we're just
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female strip club what about a female it's not different what about a female strip club like if
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we're all women it's not different it's not different though trust is trust you trust
03:09:05.060
to have the right reaction or you don't well i'm just curious if gender plays a role i'm just
03:09:10.580
asking that question where do we draw the threshold of trust where is the threshold exist
03:09:15.720
so would you become me personally if my girlfriend is going to hang out with an ex-boyfriend
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um pretty much at any time of the day i'm gonna have a serious issue with that
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i'm sure i'm gonna have a serious issue with that but is but no but hold on the argument is
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trust so you would agree with me is it logically possible that
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uh your boyfriend or a girlfriend whatever the situation could go hang out with an ex
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with good intentions is it logically possible i don't think so hold on that's not true
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it's i'm asking is it logically possible yes so it's logically possible all of you could have a
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orgy with me after the show what wait what oh my god when no it's no it's it's logically possible
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do you understand what i'm asking is it in the realm of possibility it's logically possible
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i don't think you understand what i have a good time with i mean maybe technically no but what
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What I'm saying is, could I go over to my ex, okay, I'm dating a girl for one year.
03:10:30.780
Is it logically possible that I could go over to her house at 11 p.m. just as friends, just to hang out?
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But why would you do that if you care about your girl?
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No, I'm not making an argument that the man should do it.
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it's just a question i'm just saying that so if we're talking about trust uh the the
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oh my god i don't know whatever that's why i was asking about the gender thing like what if they
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all go to a female strip club that's why i'm asking it's just like not traditional behavior
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to even do something like that you know and like well i know a lot of women who do that's why i'm
03:11:06.440
asking the question like yeah maybe i trust my boyfriend to go do that but the fact that
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he wants to do that like knowing how it would probably make me feel like that is the problem
03:11:17.860
I guess knowing how it would make you feel is really the park thing because I genuinely would
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not care I mean if he doesn't want to that's great but like you know emotionally and mentally
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like I feel like in my relationships I trust them enough to be like do what you want they
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typically don't honestly but I don't know a single one who has but still I'm secure enough
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in the relationship that it's up to them they just choose not to so exactly yeah it's just a
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boundary yeah everyone has different boundaries because the person i want and who's right for me
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is going to as you said earlier understand what it is that the boundaries are especially if we're
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years and they know we have already discussed that wait did we get around the table on relationship
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status no no we don't think it's her now okay oh shit all right uh relationship status i'm just
03:12:08.540
single for how long um like a year and a half two years ever had a boyfriend yeah how long
03:12:14.440
like almost a year that's your longest relationship yes my only relationship
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all right and that was the one that ended like a one to two years ago yeah okay uh are there any
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guys in the picture currently no no nothing nothing nothing literally nothing drought same
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no i just right now i'm just focusing on myself i'm trying to get my school work done so i can
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transfer next year i don't want to get my hopes up about anyone especially if i move away are you
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on any dating apps no i was for like a month i just realized it wasn't for me like sure okay
03:12:46.760
yeah okay uh i like when's the last time you hung out with a guy that you had a an interest in
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um december okay so three months ago all right relationship status i've been in a relationship
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for 12 years 12 years okay good for you i know i'm assuming it's your longest relationship
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yeah uh have you dated had any other relationships yeah um well before this one i was in a relationship
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for like three years and then before that one i was in a relationship for like almost two years
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and uh and wait you're 34 right yeah so you guys have been dating since you were 22 yeah about
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okay um dating awesome and uh let's see you are uh but it's been a bit rocky is that correct
03:13:47.820
uh a little bit this like past year but um okay so yeah like pretty much like I told you he's like
03:13:58.460
we've both been bad to each other I've been bad and like he's been bad and um I was like kind of
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over it and then he was like this is where people work on the relationship and don't give up on it
03:14:10.000
and i was like oh i hear that because you know um has it gotten hard before and bad uh because that
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is true i mean are you guys married no okay but you're 12 years in i would expect like if shit
03:14:24.260
got hard i don't want to be married a long time ago shit got hard y'all should have married a
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long time ago girl who just folds when it gets hard yeah i mean i don't know yeah but not married
03:14:34.580
after how many 12 years i was crazy for a long time too i can't deny that um wait really quick
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it is a little stuffy in here does anybody want a popsicle oh i please i'm like i just love sweets
03:14:48.280
it's like yeah you do uh pop popsicle yes you two three four okay four four okay uh tiffany
03:14:58.700
can you get four popsicles i fucking love popsicles all right popsicle party sorry guys
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it's hot it's been hot yeah it's hell in california well you're like covered up like
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insanely covered up right now so yeah it's been toasty like yeah you're like steaming yourself up
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you said you made mistakes or something can you tell us uh i mean
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pretty much my biggest mistake was like doing like drugs and stuff and that put like which
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ones did you do um the bad ones um which ones heroin heroin oh shit but but did you do anything
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else like uh i mean i smoke weed like meth no you didn't try like at least once meth is the
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only drug i've never tried believe it or not so have you done uh her her her her sorry i'm sorry
03:15:59.160
you got so excited oh gosh i love popsicles cute um okay so how long were you doing heroin
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Debbie's in the chat for our good friend, Tiffany.
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She's helping out while Nathan is away on vacation.
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and were were you did your boyfriend current did he also no he didn't he doesn't use drugs
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so you were just a fiend while in a relationship wait what like you were the wait okay fiend and
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you and he was sober well i mean he would like drink and stuff like we like smoke weed okay
03:17:56.400
but didn't you um your relationship's been a bit rocky yeah but it's getting better i think what
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what was the thing about the driving somewhere um yikes okay so like shit was so bad right
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and um i like drove to go meet this dude and then i saw this billboard that said don't commit
03:18:19.400
adultery and i like drove really far away wait so when you say you were driving you were in the
03:18:26.840
relationship with your current boyfriend yeah and he knows about this i told him to but so
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what were you driving to do be bad and meet someone specific meet someone and um but then
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i was driving there and i was like super close right and then um i saw a billboard that said
03:18:45.380
don't commit adultery so i turned around wow and how far were you driving i'm not saying
03:18:51.120
come on no come on no it was in your notes was it
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come on spill it hold on you can't say the distance you drove but you can tell us you
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were addicted to heroin for 10 years for the better part of the decade i mean like almost
03:19:13.060
like a few states away you know driving yeah i needed a little road trip too i was like going
03:19:18.960
through it you know i was like oh good drive to clear the head you know and like how did you meet
03:19:27.580
this guy um on the internet this is how you keep a man for 12 years you you know by the way who
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chews who chews an ice cream me you're supposed to it's you're not supposed to choose yes there's
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rules you're supposed to i have strong teeth yeah it doesn't hurt me no it hurts me so bad
03:19:48.980
like i can't do that can i have you both scoot into the table a little bit um okay so you drove
03:19:55.900
how long had you been driving before you decided to turn around um
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i don't know not that long like i can't remember a few hours
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damn and how did you meet him sorry i forgot if i'm on the internet on the dating app yeah
03:20:12.880
you were on the dating app okay well like i came like there's so much to it you know like
03:20:18.240
shit was really messed up and then i was like oh i think like i want to leave and i was like do i
03:20:22.320
let me see what else is out there then i was like sure you know and but you told him was he upset
03:20:27.780
i'm assuming he was mad but um i mean he also knew he hadn't been treating me really the best
03:20:35.160
either and he was like i kind of get it he was like no let's both be nice and move past this and
03:20:40.220
stop being shitty did he ever cheat on you no did you ever cheat on him emotionally maybe
03:20:48.800
well you didn't actually go and have sex with someone else no but you were you were cheating
03:20:54.720
but you didn't finalize the act i guess you know yeah you could say that like you didn't fuck but
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you were flirting with other men and planning just planning to she wasn't being faithful that's for
03:21:06.960
yeah um i actually i i think i saw your boyfriend on your instagram and he's kind of a stud not
03:21:13.820
gonna lie i think so he's not bad people say we look good together you know he's like a handsome
03:21:18.780
guy i'd say yeah he's handsome guy you're really pretty he might mog a little bit but like i i'm
03:21:24.880
curious um that's fucking loyalty by the way i wish i could find myself a woman who would not
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Not that I'm a drug addict, but who would stand by me through 10 years of heroin addiction
03:22:02.080
did he call you a stupid doo-doo face maybe yeah worse than that but you know we won't go there
03:22:08.480
but was it in response to you fucking cheating on him no okay was it in response to you like
03:22:20.240
birthday party but you were like od'ing on heroin
03:22:25.880
did that happen oh yeah i've definitely been cussed out for my druggies which is you know i
03:22:33.500
get it have you ever od'd no what's a question for you not the heroin he's so interesting do you
03:22:41.640
miss it do i miss it um no because it destroyed my life do i has there been a bad day where i'm
03:22:49.880
like man i wish i could get fucked up right now and not be craving it next the next day or have
03:22:54.180
it destroy my life hell yeah have you ever um how long you've been uh sober like i don't know
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i don't really keep up with that because i think it's like the past and you should like let it go
03:23:04.780
but like four or five years okay that's good good job yeah it's been a while you know
03:23:09.120
can i ask you a question i've heard with some of these drugs uh like the the physical experience
03:23:17.800
of it it's like uh can you describe how you feel uh like you don't give a fuck but like does it
03:23:27.340
is it like a good physical feeling is it in your brain is it both what is the the feeling
03:23:34.260
i guess once you're addicted to it it's a good feeling but yeah like when you do it it's like
03:23:38.600
you know it's like do you feel like a euphoria i mean yeah like do you feel like yeah that's
03:23:44.780
what you're chasing the whole time is that you for feeling you get off the first 10 seconds so
03:23:48.360
what is the feeling like are you just is it like the happiest you've ever been no well like but
03:23:54.680
what i'm because i've never done heroin or any like drugs like that so it's good but i guess
03:24:00.200
my question is though has it turned down the brightness in your life does that make sense
03:24:10.900
when i was on it well i feel like let's say there you did this drug that gives you this this
03:24:17.540
like brain chemistry reaction and like you feel this way when you're on the drug that cannot be
03:24:25.000
replicated in real life and it feels like you know those dimmer switches yeah does it ever feel like
03:24:32.080
before you did drugs that after drugs your life doesn't feel as bright as it did before
03:24:40.540
Um, no, maybe like in the beginning when you're first sober, it might feel that way a little bit, but no, now I feel like my life is like way better and I'm way more full of life and way more myself and no, not at all. I don't feel dimmed.
03:24:56.100
Well, I guess I could see how when you are that addicted, you're in a pretty dark place.
03:25:02.980
Like it's going to have an impact on your health, your relationships, financially, I guess.
03:25:09.740
And then becoming clean, your material life circumstances have improved since where you were.
03:25:18.480
But I think there's maybe like a brain chemistry component.
03:25:23.840
in the beginning yeah you did feel like life was dimmed and like you almost like missed that
03:25:27.320
chaotic lifestyle like oh life is boring now like oh but no that's like went away for the most part
03:25:33.800
and i get where you're coming from though i don't know like if you've ridden a roller coaster going
03:25:38.900
on a slide yeah you're gonna feel it's great yeah so in the beginning of being sober yeah it did feel
03:25:44.260
like that like think about it like if you were just like smashing out like a 10 out of 10 baddie
03:25:48.600
but then you're like have to like chubby chase or whatever like that's downgrade
03:25:53.940
okay good talk uh all right um let's see what was the segment hey tiffany can you check the
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discord to see if they did the make sure you grab all the batches oh you already did it oh perfect
03:26:12.760
cool cool all right as soon as she's back we're gonna do the next segment a segment uh where do
03:26:19.780
we oh oh my god i gotta finish the okay relationship status i'm very single very single
03:26:26.640
yes uh ready to mingle absolutely yes i'm looking for my forever yeah you wrote in your thing you
03:26:35.600
wrote very very very unmistakably single what does that mean i'm just like i'm not even really
03:26:41.720
putting myself out there as much as i know i probably should because i'm a hermit so you know
03:26:46.600
i just i don't have any rosters i don't have any guys i'm talking to i don't i'm just kind of in
03:26:52.020
my little hermit world so i've been trying to encourage myself to go out more how long you've
03:26:57.420
been single for uh since like 2018 so it's been a long time wait 2018 so that's like eight years
03:27:05.020
then yeah yeah i guess so nine maybe uh um so wait in the yeah past eight years since 2018
03:27:16.720
have there been any guys in the picture though yeah i've like definitely talked to people but
03:27:21.200
definitely not a full-blown relationship how long was your relationship two years was that your
03:27:25.660
longest yes and my only one who broke up with who i broke up with him okay he was abusive he was
03:27:30.640
was he amish no because you're a quaker he was eastern european okay i moved out of my home
03:27:39.780
like very young in the past eight years what is the longest period of time you've seen a guy
03:27:44.840
nine months you didn't call him your boyfriend no what did you call it situationship talking
03:27:51.880
oh no no just like we were dating you know like we both had the intention of something serious but
03:27:56.140
i just i needed to find out more about what his life trajectory was it felt a little concerning
03:28:01.900
that he felt very disorganized on what he wanted long term but i didn't want to just end things so
03:28:07.460
i thought like if we hang out we can maybe talk try to figure out together um but eventually it
03:28:12.720
just ended up that we were misaligned in futures okay and so why are you uh how long ago was this
03:28:21.040
nine month guy a year about a year ago a year ago actually a year goes when it like ended so
03:28:27.540
i guess technically two okay so in the past year have there been any guys in the picture
03:28:33.600
no how long you've been celibate man i guess well i guess almost a year so the lab the nine month
03:28:41.920
guy okay all right uh and then why do you think you're very very very unmistakably single again
03:28:48.040
because i don't i don't have any like uh i'm not i don't have any dudes in my world essentially so
03:28:53.740
that's why i say i just feel like i know a lot of people who at least are talking to someone or have
03:28:57.500
a situationship i don't have any of that so uh what about you um i'm single right now for how
03:29:04.840
long about a year longest relationship seven is that the one that ended a year ago no the one
03:29:13.820
that ended a year ago was like maybe three months long that's my only two relationships that i've
03:29:18.520
had but i honestly don't know if i really count that one sure uh are there any guys in the picture
03:29:25.380
currently i just went on a first date like two days ago can you uh be a little closer to the
03:29:30.320
mic please i just went on a first date like two days ago first date is there gonna be a second
03:29:35.300
date yes i think so do you want there to be a second date yeah i really like him all right did
03:29:41.480
you tell him no i mean oh my god i told him that i had a good time and stuff like we've known each
03:29:48.120
other for a couple months now like we have mutual friends but like we both kind of like know that
03:29:54.360
we think each other are cute and like he asked me out on the day and i said what about you
03:30:00.640
i'm single it's been three years and my longest relationship was five years
03:30:07.800
uh no guys in the picture in the past three years just right after i separated from my ex-partner
03:30:17.500
i met someone for 10 days it was the best relationship ever and then i why didn't it work
03:30:24.520
because he was just visiting for 10 days and then he went back to his country
03:30:28.500
and long distance maybe no i mean i did that with my ex-husband before like he was american and i
03:30:36.380
was still in France and so I know it's possible but this one was just I was working on myself
03:30:41.080
and I I was in the mindset yeah it was just not the right timing to have a relationship and I
03:30:48.780
don't think it would have been the right guy it was just absolutely perfect for what it was and
03:30:54.200
it just raised the bar of what men can be and what a beautiful relationship can be and I just
03:31:00.940
swore that this is what I'm gonna find and and then I had one guy last year um
03:31:08.160
we met we had a date well we met and then we had a date I knew he wasn't the one but I was like I
03:31:16.620
still so want it so I went for it and then yeah no more because I felt today that I'm committed
03:31:23.540
to the next person that I'm gonna be with and I am not gonna do what I did last year ever again
03:31:28.400
so yeah um and you were married just once you said yes you have kids i do not the marriage how
03:31:35.100
long did that last um we were together for three years and then we decided to get married for me
03:31:40.060
to move in the u.s and then we were together for two years and then oh so you got your
03:31:46.300
your citizen of the u.s or my permanent residency yes through the marriage through the marriage
03:31:53.960
indeed i would have not come to the u.s although i mean i had no idea what the u.s so are you
03:32:00.100
naturalized what is it i don't have my citizenship okay i have a permanent you have okay i see i
03:32:07.320
haven't applied for my who niched who niched the divorce me did he pay you alimony oh hell no i
03:32:15.520
was paying for all of it so no like i have been sugar money so far so like yeah sure so
03:32:23.820
uh so did you pay him alimony no we didn't have that it was just like well life doesn't work out
03:32:29.960
we just yeah we just split up like i don't think we would have been married if it wasn't for like
03:32:35.840
one of us needed to be in the same country we met traveling we traveled a lot together
03:32:41.840
and then we had to find a compromise so uh you can hide it but don't unstar it i was like i
03:32:50.280
wanted to respond to what they said we'll pull it up in a moment uh what about you julia happily
03:32:55.220
taken okay for how long uh seven ish months now oh seven months okay and it's a age gap relationship
03:33:04.300
right yes uh what's the gap uh 15 years okay so you're 34 he's 49 50 49 40 48 okay all right
03:33:14.800
good times um longest relationship three and a half years ever married no any kids no anybody
03:33:22.380
here have kids no okay anyone else ever married no are you gonna marry the guy what's going on
03:33:28.380
i don't know that's not what the girls y'all been dating for 12 years well for 10 of those years
03:33:34.000
she was also do you want kids you know um yes does he want kids i don't think so whoa hold on
03:33:43.220
that's a big thing oh is he did he travel with you no here
03:33:47.220
i'm just i was like should we do an intervention or some shit should we bring your
03:33:54.440
boyfriend on the show no he's watching he was like till brian let me come
03:33:58.160
i don't know because it's like oh god well look and we won't we're not gonna dive too deep but
03:34:07.080
it's like a very interesting it seems like you guys have different life goals and ambitions
03:34:13.340
well we're like same same but different same same but what's that from um i don't know we always say
03:34:19.220
that same same but i think it's the office office yeah same same but wait fuck uh kevin
03:34:34.420
and you really want kids i mean no i don't like really want kids and honestly if i'm gonna have
03:34:45.300
a kid it'd have to be like i'm able to like homeschool them i'm able soon i mean i'm a
03:34:51.020
capable girl you know no i'm just you know soon yeah i mean definitely like not 40 like 38
03:34:57.780
yeah that's pretty 34 you're 34 currently yeah um okay but you do want kids i mean
03:35:05.460
it's not gonna like destroy me if i don't have a kid right would i like to have a kid one day like
03:35:11.240
i guess so and like i guess more recently i have thought about that more and been like yeah i guess
03:35:17.660
that is something but like i don't know then again i kind of like not having a kid too and
03:35:21.840
be able to do whatever but if i was and i think the main reason i don't want to have a kid
03:35:27.440
right now is because like i don't have a homestead i don't have a million dollars in the bank be able
03:35:31.600
to like raise the kid how i want to you know okay um because like i couldn't send my kid to public
03:35:37.360
school i don't think uh yeah um yeah and it what is his position on kids i think he's uh i don't
03:35:50.660
know i mean you've been dating for 12 years and you guys don't know like this is super fundamental
03:36:09.520
for a long time he didn't want to have kids and then
03:36:13.600
well then I think like no I think like things got bad
03:36:24.920
um so he does want kids but not with you wait what no no i'm not i'm asking that as a question
03:36:33.820
no maybe not with her like five years ago but maybe that's why his life has changed yeah maybe
03:36:39.760
there you go girl so he does want kids or he doesn't i think he's unsure right now like no
03:36:45.220
in the past like we've never been like yeah we're gonna have kids you know and then like
03:36:49.300
i don't know as you get a little bit older closer to like being out of childbearing age i guess you
03:36:54.720
think about it a little bit more you know still got a couple years having a kid is a scary thing
03:36:59.000
it's like a huge decision yeah and like i said like it's understandable like i want to like have
03:37:03.480
my land with a garden and like be set up to where like i could like really raise this kid how i want
03:37:09.500
to you know and i'm not that right now and i'm just like why bring a kid into the world if you're
03:37:14.920
just gonna like throw him into some bullshit if he said he never wanted children like would you be
03:37:19.940
okay with that i mean yeah i guess so if he definitively said i don't want to have kids
03:37:27.520
that's not a deal breaker i mean i guess i'd have to think about it you know because like
03:37:31.640
think about it right here on the podcast uh time is ticking no that wouldn't be a deal breaker
03:37:41.600
is that like a right now or like forever not a deal breaker
03:37:47.360
like let's say you do have all the money because i consider life of never having kids too you know
03:37:52.720
but let's assume the material conditions for raising you know let's say your finances were
03:37:58.780
good his finances were good you had the farm or whatever um yeah i think we would both be like
03:38:04.400
yeah let's have a kid he would be on board yeah i think he would so you guys are just not in the
03:38:08.380
point in life where you feel financially uh confident i guess you could say i guess i could
03:38:13.740
do it right now but i just don't want to oh you don't want to have wait golly you get what i'm
03:38:19.100
saying it's like yeah i mean i could do it right now and be financially okay but that's i don't
03:38:25.100
want to be having i want to be better off before i have a kid if i did i know it's confusing i don't
03:38:30.420
know like you make it but you don't want to make it you want to like you know you want to feel
03:38:35.580
comfortable. Um, okay. Um, yeah, you, um, and like for so long I was so messed up and shit.
03:38:50.320
And I guess it was like, I don't know why he even stayed with me for so long, but I guess like kids
03:38:54.640
was like never options. Like how's the relationship right now? Is it good? Yeah, it's, uh, better than
03:39:00.880
has been in the past few months and I guess that's mainly because of me finally being like okay I'm
03:39:06.660
gonna quit being a bitch and because like no for so long I was like I'm over I was like you know
03:39:11.300
there's too much trauma between us like let's be done and he was like no this isn't when you give
03:39:15.000
up da da da da da and I was like but it is and he was like no it's not so I've been like trying and
03:39:41.240
I should do a different show where I just give dating.
03:39:49.760
should we call this guy no honestly i think we got to call this dude and be like look we got to
03:39:55.300
call him with permission from both of you and be like yo what's the deal are you guys gonna you
03:40:02.640
guys gonna stay together what's going on do you want to be with this person for the rest of the
03:40:06.460
he totally wants to be with me forever he does not do you do you want to be with him forever
03:40:11.320
because in your notes it's you're kind of indicating a little bit that the relationship's
03:40:17.140
and rocky at points you said you said the struggle you said the struggle has been real
03:40:24.840
because it has the street the struggle has been real lately yeah he would say that too
03:40:28.920
i mean look people have ebb and flow in their relationship yeah i don't know is do you guys
03:40:35.360
is it a dead bedroom uh maybe a little here lately like do you guys not are you not intimate
03:40:44.840
it no we are like have sex i'm talking about yeah i know what you're talking about well because i
03:40:51.620
asked if it was a dead bedroom and you said a little bit yeah i said a little bit here lately
03:40:56.020
maybe but like yeah we still have sex you know but like i mean what do we used is it like like
03:41:04.220
what do you mean not as much as you would like yeah i guess like we used to have more it's not
03:41:08.920
been as much lately like so like once dead once a week once a month like a few times a month
03:41:15.800
oh man now does he well does he initiate and you turn him down
03:41:21.240
maybe it's happened once or twice well okay once or twice whatever you know usually like it's like
03:41:30.080
no i don't like turn him down okay so his are you saying his desire is also lacking too i guess
03:41:38.260
because there's been so many real problems in our relationship lately that we just like haven't been
03:41:43.320
you know yeah what are the problems just list them out super quick um well the main one was me
03:41:50.120
wanting to be out of the relationship and then well that's a pretty fucking thing i told you that
03:41:54.540
and then he was like no this is when people keep working on their relationship instead of giving
03:41:58.100
up on it and i'm like trying to uh trust my man i've been with for 12 years and i'm like okay i
03:42:02.960
hear you you know like we have been together for a long time like do you just give up on this question
03:42:07.800
throughout maybe more recently but throughout the course of your relationship do you feel like he's
03:42:14.140
a bit more invested than you are because what you just said is you have had moments that you
03:42:22.980
want out of the relationship you've had uncertainty and he's the certain one
03:42:27.380
but my uncertainty only started like how recently like eight months ago
03:43:05.320
with you he really likes you i'm pretty cool but i feel like i almost using the word deserve
03:43:12.520
me i know right i feel like you'll know everything this guy i i feel like why be in a relationship
03:43:19.880
with somebody who's on the fence i know that's what i've told him too so you have to you're like
03:43:26.320
trying wait are you trying to like convince him to not be with you you're like look i'm a fucking
03:43:32.400
i used to do heroin i used to be a bitch sometimes i still get me off of it he knows no i know but
03:43:39.540
i guess what i'm saying is is like it seems like but look you've been together for so long you
03:43:46.460
don't know anything else he doesn't except that guy you drove almost fucked a couple states over
03:43:52.360
but that's another conversation it's like you've been together for so long like that must be
03:43:57.220
that's going to be hard for both of you to navigate that kind of breakup um and especially
03:44:03.260
him because it feels like he's more invested than you are and he's trying to he's trying to hold on
03:44:09.140
for dear life this relationship but i saw the photos of this guy should be where do you guys
03:44:16.080
live north carolina he should be crushing he should be running through these north carolina
03:44:22.020
hood rats i'm telling you i'm the hood right fine not even the hood rats the fucking whatever the
03:44:56.000
this is starting to sound really gay from my part like i'm trying to end your relationship so i can
03:45:01.920
get with him no that's why you want to call him is that what this is for that's why we're here
03:45:08.320
no but if he was my bro i would tell him i'd be like look man you can't be in a relationship with
03:45:13.960
a girl that's lukewarm about you like you got to be with a girl that's like a hundred percent
03:45:20.600
hell yeah like and but look you've been together for so long there's so much investment into the
03:45:28.600
relationship he was with you through all these bad times you're probably with him through his
03:45:32.680
bad times you you guys have probably trauma bonded like insanely and yeah and like he doesn't know
03:45:40.720
anything else like fucking 12 years damn what that was like was barack obama still president
03:45:47.280
like he doesn't know anything else and so i don't know if i if what's his name first name
03:45:53.480
you don't have to say it luke luke luke oh my god look luke you can keep trying to make it work
03:46:04.080
be with a girl i don't know if i was talking to my bro i'd be like look
03:46:11.480
be with a girl that's like all in on you and i feel like i was forever i was forever i was
03:46:20.160
forever and then things were so shitty it just like one day i was like okay fuck this and then
03:46:24.380
as soon as i wanted to say fuck this he was like oh i'll never do those things again and i was like
03:46:29.260
okay we'll see yeah he wants to hold on you seem a little checked out should we
03:46:39.360
this might be a first should we call luke and have him dump her uh first first first no
03:46:48.200
on stream whatever first first ever on stream no i'll walk you through it luke i'll walk you
03:46:55.160
through it actually you know what luke do this we you know what just send her a text message be like
03:47:00.520
hey it's been nice it's been fun it's not you it's me it really isn't i just need to
03:47:09.320
focus on myself that's luke send that texture that right now i'm just saying i'm just saying
03:47:15.660
luke luke probably over after this anyways no i'm kidding
03:47:22.020
i don't know that's not me i'm a business i'm looking out for my pro just let him live his
03:47:31.840
life i don't know the guy but yeah there's a lot of nuances coming from a guy single
03:47:54.860
Luke needs a woman who's not going to be like...
03:48:06.660
i'm just saying luke deserves a woman who you don't know him who is all in
03:48:12.640
everybody deserves someone who's all in that's the bare minimum of a relationship like you you
03:48:19.660
gotta i don't know if you love him like figure it out hey like i was and if you love him you
03:48:24.280
may have to end things for him you love that motherfucker yeah i love that motherfucker
03:48:28.000
yeah you show that show him how much what the fuck what the fuck what the fuck sorry sometimes
03:48:35.720
i'm i shouldn't say it right now oh i know what you're saying what was i about to say tell me
03:48:40.560
you're doing the what was i gonna culture no so technically technically i'm like over my head
03:48:50.020
it's weird because i i have so much identity confusion because i'm technically african-american
03:48:56.340
what you're ginger ginger you count those as african-american no i'm technically african-american
03:49:02.740
because so my my mom was born in america my dad was born in north africa so technically if my dad
03:49:11.120
was born in africa and my mom was born in america technically i'm african america i'm not black dude
03:49:16.980
you are i'm not black yes you are but i am african american all right uh let's how does it feel to
03:49:23.960
you i love it i love it um sometimes black people even call me the n word
03:49:34.420
like for example like are there you're white i guess like you're my caucasian like you're
03:49:43.380
my caucasian brooklyn you i'm italian somewhat that's white yeah brooklyn you're my caucasian
03:49:49.360
your friend lexi lexi also my caucasian yes but like black people sometimes are like brian you're
03:49:56.220
my i can't say it you're my here you fill in the blanks no i don't say that okay i don't say that
03:50:02.480
either that's not in my vocabulary no it's but yeah it's like kind of low barrel honestly
03:50:07.700
no either one i was raised not to say that be like brian you're my no never
03:50:29.480
Because if I said it to you, I would be purely performative because I don't speak like that.
03:50:42.000
i play fucking world of warcraft i used to play world of warcraft like so for a black guy to
03:50:46.420
bestow upon me the respect anyways fuck it whatever but i have a question we have two
03:50:52.360
black women here i think um what do you guys think about reparations or what do the white
03:51:01.780
people think about reparations oh reparations that's like paying like so because of slavery
03:51:08.000
and shit like we should give money to black people because of the historical yeah honestly i just
03:51:15.560
yeah i'm just i just don't care who's in favor of reparations you oh my god there was an episode
03:51:22.920
in atlanta about this it was a crazy episode yeah but what do you think i think that i don't know
03:51:29.460
have closer to mike scoot into i don't know if i can speak about that you can are you latina
03:51:35.260
um no i are you white i'm yeah i'm british that's my background yeah you can speak about it
03:51:43.240
um yeah i think it's fucked up but i i don't know who's and julia you've reparations the solution
03:51:52.780
yeah i think it's unrealistic now and the thing that they deserve like don't you think it's
03:51:57.400
unrealistic like as a white person don't you feel kind of guilty i mean my for what your ancestors
03:52:02.120
did weren't slave owners how do you know because they're german they could have oh so they did
03:52:09.700
the other things terrible things well i don't know maybe then just as a white person don't you feel
03:52:17.520
no guilt i mean i feel i don't but i feel like it should have never happened but that's not
03:52:22.820
that's not like me so check this out though um we have some white people here i've already paid
03:52:29.800
my reparations but oh having sex with a black woman but what what and that was that's my
03:52:35.800
repayment you're being facetious you just checked out i'm not being serious are you serious no
03:52:42.540
i'm a sex worker yeah that's it there's no way you did that no well he probably did do that but
03:52:50.100
he probably doesn't mean it how he means it yeah so anyways remember the setting we are
03:52:54.180
remember the setting i just want to say we do have some white women here we do have some white
03:52:59.060
women here at the table i would like you guys to go get your purses and pay these two lovely black
03:53:04.280
women give them some cash for reparations but are you guys down to pay reparations i just don't get
03:53:16.880
that's a pretty cringy segment anyways uh moving on we have uh julia can you read this one for us
03:53:22.160
please uh chair five is a liar i've never had any toxic past relationships oh yeah he was abusive
03:53:27.860
so I left yes I can explain that though thank you political thank you so basically I didn't stay
03:53:34.400
like once I saw the first sign of anything I left so that's why I say a majority like 95 percent of
03:53:40.100
the relationship was good he has some mental health issues like that stem from like genuine
03:53:46.220
mental health issues and that turned towards anger issues but again once those signs happen I did not
03:53:52.880
stay. So it doesn't really feel fair to say the whole relationship sucked when 95% of it was good.
03:53:59.600
And I chose not to stay. Okay. Um, all right. Uh, I'm trying to think where we were going.
03:54:11.460
Oh, really quick on the topic of reparations. Um, I like to do a segment called the reverse
03:54:17.380
simp. So you know how men simp on you guys, like though, at least for like the stripper. And I
03:54:22.420
guess you they'll just send you money just because you're a woman basically are any of you down who
03:54:26.860
has cash show of hands i do but i'm not like cash who's down to give me just cash right now no i have
03:54:34.800
25 cent i don't have to be your man i just don't give my money to strangers brooklyn no that's why
03:54:41.700
i have it i mean if you think about it right think about like it's a bucket list thing you can be
03:54:45.920
like oh my god i'm a stripper and i make so much money from women this one time i went on the
03:55:19.660
that is and a small piece hold on how do they know about that person it's average okay it's not small
03:55:27.480
it's average okay i almost burped that was weird uh okay fuck oh my god i should i wish this came
03:55:37.220
in earlier because i've been kind of a dickhead tonight so i feel like the girls are gonna use
03:55:41.300
that against me but okay going around the table would you date me how old are you i'm 21
03:56:11.860
I dated when I was a bit younger a couple years ago.
03:56:41.660
But I'll date women my age, I'll date women younger, yeah, younger adult women, just to be fucking clear.
03:56:50.040
So when you said, like, dating only 18-year-olds?
03:56:55.300
Yeah, mom, were you like, oh, but you were impersonating the kind of guy that you think we deserve?
03:57:00.960
No, no, wait, that was when we were having the conversation of, like, who deserves what, and I was sort of hypothetical, not hypothetical.
03:57:10.460
Yeah, it was like, well, okay, I only want to date 18-year-old supermodels.
03:57:16.620
I was trying to articulate the point of no, I'm not going to get that.
03:57:37.580
yes yes okay cool w i would have said yes but because of the you said you don't like emotional
03:57:46.020
conversations so i'd probably be the worst person i love being deep okay fair enough fair enough
03:57:52.240
what's your zodiac sign oh uh i'm just gonna say no for you then uh what about
03:57:59.160
no no okay no no okay all right hey one out of yeah i did okay and then you know you don't like
03:58:09.900
the woman of your bro i was like if you like deep conversations i want to be clear not because of
03:58:16.840
anything that was on the screen those are all accurate and i think are are valuable make you
03:58:21.280
a good catch but i don't think we'd be compatible we would we would it wouldn't work that's the
03:58:28.840
Yeah, I'm like, my only reason is that you don't like deep combos.
03:58:33.400
I think we actually have a lot of similarities.
03:58:42.740
Julia over here likes them in the retirement home.
03:58:55.340
The guy I dated before him was three years younger than me.
03:59:06.300
Julia, when are you going to pump out some kids?
03:59:16.540
I think it's just like when I'm looking at my future from where I am right now, it doesn't really fit in.
03:59:21.280
when i look at the future from where i am right now it doesn't really fit where where is that
03:59:25.960
um a future with it wait that doesn't fit his penis is too big
03:59:30.580
what no another kid doesn't fit into the picture another kid yeah oh he has two children oh so
03:59:37.080
your step mom kind of i'm the girlfriend of their dad you don't want to what about your bloodline
03:59:43.960
do you have bros i mean i'm asian so i have an older brother he's got that taken care of
03:59:48.360
but you don't want kids i always want i've always wanted to be a mother which i think that's what
03:59:53.640
it was i wanted to nurture and raise which i'm kind of starting to get to do and hopefully do
03:59:59.380
more with these kids and like i uh yes italian so yeah white you don't want kids of your own though
04:00:06.380
i would be it would be really nice but i want i want what is your life plan my life because you
04:00:11.720
You said it would get in the way of what, your career?
04:00:20.900
You know what would be really stressful, though?
04:00:22.860
When you're on your deathbed and you're like, oh, my God, I didn't reproduce.
04:00:31.580
If I have a family around me, like people that I consider my family, even if they're not my blood, that is enough for me.
04:00:45.660
There's no one there besides the fucking bitchy nurse who's been, you know, just, I don't know, she's not taking good care of you.
04:00:57.660
And you look up and you just see the damp hospital wall.
04:01:08.880
That would suck, but I don't think that's going to.
04:01:15.120
Luke, your girlfriend of 12 years just said she would date me.
04:01:41.140
I think we need to kickstart you into gear here.
04:01:49.120
He's like, I should just make you jealous and you want me again.
04:02:21.780
Yeah, she's like your older sister who did heroin.
04:03:11.040
I think just show of hands, yes, for reparations.
04:03:19.320
It wouldn't make a realistic difference to my life.
04:03:36.380
a underscore mona underscore lob donated two hundred dollars i would swim up the amazon river
04:03:42.300
with 45 pound weights tied to my labor year with nothing else but go lock the destroyer's
04:03:47.880
queefs as my air supply if it meant i could have one dinner with brian atlas what thank you thank
04:03:54.300
you for that i am on a lot because the name i guess uh okay thank you appreciate it that's good
04:04:01.940
okay we're gonna do uh thank you for that appreciate it thank you thank you um would
04:04:07.140
any women do that for me here you don't deserve it i don't deserve it the only time i'll ever go
04:04:13.660
on a day agree to go on a date with a girl if she's willing to do that because i deserve it
04:04:18.580
because if she won't find someone who will because i'm a king i'm a king yo
04:04:53.920
who will she doesn't have to never mind good talk all right uh gorlack that's a story or tv on a
04:05:02.460
scale of 0 to 10 rate your own looks face body total can't pick seven so for example i want you
04:05:09.460
to uh word it like this i give my face 4.5 body 4.5 total 4.5 um i give my face
04:05:23.100
an eight i give my body uh an eight and total eight right yeah yeah and you can just say
04:05:32.700
face eight body eight total eight what about you um face 10 body eight
04:05:38.780
i guess 10 10 what well technically nine technically 10 well are you 10 total
04:05:49.060
when i say total looks total well 10 wait 10 face eight bodies so total nine
04:05:56.900
i don't know whatever because that's the mid the math it's the average she's trying to say
04:06:02.320
would you consider yourself a nine or a number for total
04:06:07.600
10 okay what about you b-dog uh i'd say my face in eight my body is six i don't know okay
04:06:22.180
total oh uh i said six on the paper but maybe like an eight no okay
04:06:31.380
okay i'll just put eight what about you uh like face six body eight uh total seven
04:06:43.040
wait i'm sorry could you repeat i was distracted uh maybe like my face is a six body eight
04:06:50.520
total seven okay what about you just 10 across the board say 10 face 10 body
04:06:58.020
10 10 10 you say it though oh 10 face 10 body and 10 total
04:07:03.880
like 8 face 7 body is that what you put on the questionnaire no i put 10 out of 10 but it really
04:07:12.260
depends on the day i guess yeah well don't change okay what did tell us what you answer as if it
04:07:18.420
was from the questionnaire then okay 10 out of 10 we'll say 10 face 10 body 10 total 10 10 face 10
04:07:24.140
body 10 total okay what about you six all over okay what about you face eight body six which
04:07:33.960
averages to seven but we can round up to eight y'all need to speak more highly about i know i'm
04:07:39.480
like what is going on girls damn you know what i'm gonna change my answer and confidence does
04:07:45.840
make people way more attractive to face in a body yeah i'm like i wouldn't rate myself a six i'm
04:07:52.000
just saying you know what after hearing all these women at the table i have to adjust my answer
04:07:58.100
based off of this i said 4.5 across the board i think i'm a 10 across the board to be honest
04:08:03.560
period period slay queen and yeah we love that for you it's good for you what made you change
04:08:09.020
your mind well comparative analysis but yeah i'm just like i don't want to be thinking that
04:08:14.820
low of myself i'm a certified baddie yo that's how you should feel certified baddie guys who
04:08:20.980
are confident are like 10 times more attractive than guys who are like perfectly attractive but
04:08:26.240
like super insecure um okay so eight ten eight ten ten all right can you guys tell me um for the
04:08:44.160
eight, the 10, the 10 and the 10. So it's going to be you two and you two. Tell me a guy who you
04:08:52.760
think is your, uh, who's an, I guess an eight for you. And then a 10, a 10, a 10 for you. Tell me a
04:08:59.120
guy who you think is a 10. Like a celebrity. Yeah, sure. Um, that Klaven guy. I'm like, I don't know.
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with like 10 people was it naked and afraid no no it was a everybody was do you are you a nudist
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or was it just like a challenge everybody was like they're naked and um the point was
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you don't judge them by what they wear and stuff like that yeah how they look and how big their
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parts are wait did any of the guys have like a small peen yeah but it's not like it's not hard
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though they don't they don't show the nudity though it's like yeah they do no only on instagram
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because they got oh so the show the show itself you do see the nudity on mtv and paramount well
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no wouldn't they blur the nudity no what i didn't know they could do that naked uk okay well i wasn't
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looking i wasn't looking it was just i feel like okay well whatever um wait so uh the the liam
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hemsworth or chris chris hemsworth okay uh tiffany google a photo of chris hemsworth
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uh you're i would not be able to answer i don't know you're a model don't you know
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no i don't i've my way of attraction is very nuanced and i also don't even own a tv so i
04:10:51.440
don't really know what the i say stuff are paul walker i love paul walker oh you gave yourself
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eight okay paul walker paul walker's an eight no i was saying you said 10 well 10 for the women
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who've rated themselves a 10 i'm looking for a guy um i would not you would nobody would know
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who he is so i don't know well she can look it up here let's really quick why don't you know
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like they wouldn't be famous on yeah yeah that's what i was thinking okay so this is chris hemsworth
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uh so this is a male 10 for you do you like white guys yeah but i don't discriminate okay so you
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So, Chris Hemsworth, that's your looks equivalent.
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Okay, Google Zac Efron just to show the people.
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when i go out do you have it tiffany okay that's zach no i am recently yeah we get it we get it
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younger zach efron we get it we get it yeah i'm like i'm more into like nerdy types so okay um
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you can you name a guy who's a 10 yeah like robert pattinson timothy chalamet killian murphy
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those are my top three you know what i think people know who these actors are we're not going
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to google the photos i only know just can you repeat the names it was timothy repeat the names
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timothy chalamet robert pattinson's up there for sure i love twilight and killian murphy
04:12:30.540
super cute okay so that's your looks league yeah okay did you think of a guy for you yeah i think
04:12:37.540
devin booker nope um why who the fuck is that guy no i just don't know who that is what about you
04:12:43.540
you know which basketball b-dog saying timothy chalamet timothy chalamet eight okay and that's
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your looks equivalent all right tell me a girl um tell me a girl who's an eight a girl who's a 10
04:12:54.880
a girl who's an eight a girl who's a 10 a girl who's a 10 starting with you there's too many
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on my brain just give me one rihanna rihanna okay we know what she looks like give us i have the
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same answer i don't know you don't know okay a girl who's a eight is megan fox an eight or is
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she a 10 okay uh give us a girl who's a 10 i would say um a little closer to mine i would say
04:13:20.260
naomi campbell and megan fox okay uh google naomi campbell and megan fox i guess you look like her
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yeah and then who's for you i love now he's pretty woman i just she's so kind i just had it
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oh my god she's really awesome in real life you got this girl my brain i'll just
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do we need another popsicle break for these poor women they need another popsicle yeah
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actually i'll probably order some food too a little matcha oh dakota johnson oh she's gorgeous
04:13:54.060
yeah uh okay so three people for you to google do you have the first two
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t-dog okay so you said uh naomi campbell and megan fox let's pull up naomi campbell
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uh can you at the very top tiffany just type in young because she's fucking old now
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no offense looks like all these are but by the way you fucking misspelled
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campbell but i forgive you tiffany c map there it is slay okay scroll down scroll down let's
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see a few more scroll down well okay well maybe adult you know but uh okay we get it and then
04:14:45.560
We could have done Young, but we will accept it.
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So just to be clear, you, Naomi Campbell and Megan Fox,
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You're different, but you're just as good-looking.
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you look like a mix of both of them yeah especially Naomi they're both really confident
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uh okay and then you said Dakota Johnson I'll give you that you kind of look like her to be
04:15:26.960
so i'll grant it um okay wow maybe like timu dakota johnson or we don't look like the same
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or is she timo timu you maybe she's timu you maybe you mog i don't know maybe all right uh oh okay
04:15:48.220
well uh let's see if there's anything else on the the looks thing uh i do have a question
04:16:02.840
That's below the threshold, but thank you for the chat.
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Because I've had some Asian women on the show, especially recently,
04:16:19.340
who said, uh, they prefer like white guys or they, they don't prefer Asian men. Do you feel that way
04:16:26.620
too? Yeah, that, that applies to me, but I have dated an Asian guy, but he was pretty whitewashed.
04:16:32.160
Um, I think, I don't know. I think I find, you know, a variety of men attractive. I think in
04:16:39.000
a relationship though, there's something about a white man that feels very compatible with me.
04:16:44.340
Okay. Um, do you feel in terms of like looks, do you feel like you're not attracted
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to Asian men? Is that part of it? Or? Yeah, I'm not, I'm not usually physically attracted to
04:16:54.640
Asian men. Okay. So even if they're otherwise great guys, you're just, you don't feel that
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attraction. Is that kind of what you're, I have a question for you. Um, would you rather,
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would you rather date a black man or an Asian man? Black guy. Would you rather date an Indian man
04:17:14.020
or an asian man there are they're both asian so yes but but okay china versus well hold on but
04:17:23.220
you would agree that indian men uh different appearance than like chinese or japanese or
04:17:28.160
korean men true um i think they're equally not my type but i would probably date the korean just
04:17:34.140
because they'd be culturally you know okay um would you rather date an arab arabic man or an
04:17:39.680
asian man asian would you rather date a latino man or an asian man latino would you rather date
04:17:47.660
a white man or an asian man white okay interesting i'm gonna start asking this question more often
04:17:56.280
so you would rather date a black man over an asian man though that's correct okay um all right
04:18:01.520
hey look you know people have their racial preferences i got fucking do i have blue on
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my face anywhere my my cup the ink on the cup rubs off after a while so I need to replace it
04:18:18.900
everyone has a preference uh I just find it interesting a little bit uh look I think people
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can have racial dating preferences there's nothing wrong with that doesn't mean you're
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racist I don't think there's anything wrong there but I do find it interesting when Asian
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women aren't attracted to other to uh asian men because well from like a historical lens it's like
04:18:47.320
historically you go back 200 years and beyond if you were a you're korean right yes you never saw
04:18:55.600
a white person ever in your entire life and it almost be somewhat like dysfunctional to
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not be attracted to your own race historically because if you didn't find your own race
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attractive that was the entire pool of men that was available to you um so it's like no i i think
04:19:17.380
i could use your same the same information to argue the opposite because it's like if all you
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eat is white bread and that's all you know and then you're introduced to waffles you're like i'm
04:19:28.980
i like waffles you're like but but if all you had was white bread and you refused
04:19:36.100
you were kind of not refused but like you didn't find you didn't have an affinity for the white
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bread it's like well are you just gonna fucking starve to death in that case i don't know maybe
04:19:48.360
there's a novelty to it like in ingrained i don't know look and again i'm totally fine with people
04:19:54.100
having i have my own racial dating preferences i don't think i i don't think it's racist i think
04:19:59.540
it's totally fine but it is always interesting like it's like a pattern with some asian women
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where they have like a like really i don't know if it's a strong aversion but they're like no oh
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my god it reminds me of my brother i don't want to date an asian guy i always found that kind of
04:20:17.720
interesting do you think you're talking about like american raised asian women though because
04:20:22.860
So if you went to Korea, I think that wouldn't be the case.
04:20:26.580
Well, I would wonder if a white man living in Korea would fare better than Korean men in Korea.
04:20:37.240
I know, like, I think there's dating app data that was collected, like a study done, I think it's years old now,
04:20:43.100
but the most common, like, interracial match that was made was not just white and Asian,
04:20:48.420
but it was specifically an Asian woman and a white man.
04:20:50.840
there's a lot of discourse about like is it because white men look submissive women or
04:20:56.080
whatever but i don't know it's data well there you have it folks she does not want to date an
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asian man uh okay uh yeah that's uh good times i guess all right back to the looks rating thing
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i should have i forgot to say this why don't average looking women
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i i agree i don't know like i think that i don't know everyone should be realistic
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i wish my voice wasn't gone are you saying that average looking women don't think they're average
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looking well are you looking at me i looked i glanced at all of you as i did my little thing
04:21:48.560
i don't know i mean we got some i think we had a couple women here who
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rated themselves a bit highly if you don't mind me saying
04:22:00.680
you're going off your profession yeah the nice success in my profession but did you ever see
04:22:07.120
that calvin klein underwear ad where it was like fat people no and i'm definitely not that so no
04:22:13.660
i'm not saying you're fat but just because you are employed in a profession yes well because
04:22:19.620
i've been like told by lots of people who are highly influential in my profession so
04:22:25.240
your answer yeah because these girls are being told yeah i'm just i'm basing off of again
04:22:31.560
experience like of what other people well we have women here who also rating themselves high but
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they're not runway models like you i still think they're tens am i hold on uh let's do it like
04:22:44.380
this do you think all women are tens no what's different about them they're just uglier is that
04:22:51.160
it no i will be honest i think weight does play a role for me okay so they're fat so as long as
04:22:57.240
a skinny as long as a woman is skinny is she a 10 no well as long as she has a healthy body is she
04:23:04.480
a 10 yeah healthy is kind of where my i go for yeah just when i'm saying skinny i'm not i think
04:23:09.620
some people sometimes think that that means like stick thin or anorexic or some shit but if a woman
04:23:15.020
has a healthy body yeah wherever that regardless of her face is she a 10 i could say so i guess i
04:23:22.120
just have to see i don't know i don't know how to generalize things i don't really spend time
04:23:32.840
I wonder if Luke slid into my DMs and he's like, yeah, bro, call me right now.
04:23:54.860
crazy talk from you oh my my wrong okay good talk yeah good talk uh where were we i totally
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forgot the looks thing why don't what average looking women true i did say that thank you
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i want you know what i want the women who are tens to rate me just my looks
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yeah go ahead give me a rating every single person here is a 10 out of 10
04:24:27.120
even me and i think yes and i think that everyone should also rate themselves a 10 out of 10 i don't
04:24:32.760
think that i think that it's just good if donald trump was here would you also say that
04:24:37.480
except for donald did you vote for him and um no i did not but he's a i think he's a 10
04:24:44.880
he's a he's a beaut personally i that was the one that i probably wouldn't rate
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i'm just like do you want us to generalize or individualize that's the thing i mean give me
04:24:58.140
a rating i mean i don't know okay give me a rating i think she'll be honest huh i think
04:25:04.640
you're a seven but your attitude makes you a five oh hey shit i mean i give myself a 4.5
04:25:12.180
i'm like your attitude is what brings you up in attraction for your mental to rate yourself
04:25:18.480
uh 4.5 like that is really like a 4.5 like you want to feel more confident yeah but well that's
04:25:26.100
also your your self perception 4.5 isn't that's what i'm saying yeah it's really but that's just
04:25:32.400
lying that's just okay maybe you have to lie be a little egotistical to it's okay should i lie to
04:25:38.720
get pussy no should i be like things on my dating app i'm six foot three no look i'm already six
04:25:46.180
for one i'm doing fine i'm not on dating apps by the way yeah should i lie no get some pussy no
04:25:53.480
i'm just saying manifestation like you want to rate yourself a ton out of time you want in the
04:26:01.320
mirror and say you know what good at rating people i don't know how to rate someone yeah i like how
04:26:07.200
If a man had a micropenis and he rated his dick a 10,
04:26:23.520
Okay, I think it's good if you want to become a 10 or a 9,
04:26:29.620
you have to know where you are to know where you're going.
04:26:34.300
If you're like, I'm a 10, and you're actually a 4 or 5,
04:26:36.220
you won't change anything well somebody could see you but if you're attending your head i guess
04:26:39.520
that's enough but like some people could see that person genuinely as a 10 i guess yeah
04:26:43.780
objectively because each person perceives things i'm perfect i'm a 10 i am so perfect
04:26:50.420
you see this keep saying that well you don't have to be perfect to be a 10 yeah
04:26:55.840
i am on the weight loss journey though and i'm fucking raw dogging that shit too i'm not taking
04:27:01.280
no fuck ozempic i'm just yeah don't do that what about retta what's the difference between retta
04:27:06.280
and ozempic i feel like a lot of people in my just take work out don't do any of that and change
04:27:11.240
your eating habits yeah oh yeah when you cut sugar out you'll lose so much weight boys i've
04:27:16.360
said that like five ten times probably at this point but you should get a standing desk i do
04:27:21.740
with a treadmill do the walking the treadmill while he's interviewing us yeah i'm just like
04:27:27.140
But if you change your eating habits and you cut out sugar and you have mostly, like, less carbs and more protein, you'll drop weight pretty quick.
04:27:55.380
I feel like we have to get through your show notes.
04:28:09.020
Tiffany, and then just change the split as I'm doing these,
04:28:14.480
Okay, so you gave yourself, and also just to be, I want to say,
04:28:21.600
it is hard to, I prefer to give a rating without makeup.
04:28:25.380
That's the true underlying appearance of a woman.
04:28:29.720
These women, some of them might have cosmetic procedures,
04:28:35.840
because I think makeup can bolster anywhere from one, two, three points,
04:28:55.380
uh you gave yourself an eight I think I'd give you 5.56 you gave yourself a 10 you're wearing
04:29:07.860
color contacts you have a full face of makeup um it's hard with the color contacts it changes
04:29:14.860
things you've got full face of makeup you gave yourself a 10 I think I'd give you
04:29:19.220
between a four and a five I still look the same with that makeup by the way
04:29:39.040
You enjoy putting chemicals on your face that can give you breakouts,
04:29:49.200
I just have a lot of fun getting all dolled up.
04:29:51.360
And I'm just used to it from all the stuff I do.
04:29:53.640
In any case, if makeup didn't change your appearance for the better, women would not wear makeup.
04:30:16.660
The same with my million-step skincare routine.
04:30:19.320
It's really just like I have fun being in front of the mirror.
04:30:21.700
i listen to my music sometimes watch something i'm just like i feel good i'm having fun yeah
04:30:26.880
i don't wear makeup every day i usually don't but i'm like it's just fun i don't think guys
04:30:32.160
can understand that honestly uh fun in any case though makeup absolutely uh can make a woman
04:30:40.220
her perceived attractiveness be higher uh so okay like i said you gave yourself a 10 give you four
04:30:46.800
to five um brooklyn you gave yourself an eight i uh to be fair i actually think uh so sometimes
04:31:01.480
a woman looks better on screen in person than she does in person you look better in person
04:31:08.260
than you do on screen uh i don't know i think that myself so
04:31:13.400
you you definitely look better uh in person i think that's a well you're gonna have to decide
04:31:24.720
if that's a compliment or an insult i think it's better to be better in person uh but okay you give
04:31:30.000
yourself an eight uh i think the the viewers because they're seeing you i'm seeing you in
04:31:36.560
person they're seeing you a bit differently i again i think i'd give you uh 5.56 uh you gave
04:31:45.680
yourself a six uh you're not wearing any makeup are you like very little very little i actually
04:31:55.640
think you have good baseline foundational uh aesthetics to be honest um so i think i'd
04:32:10.420
I think I'd put you somewhere between five and six.
04:32:35.180
uh yeah so okay you do do modeling and by the way i'm just rating on face by the way i'm not
04:32:41.180
doing body you don't have to listen all that other stuff yeah uh i think i'd give you 5.5
04:32:49.880
to 6.5 in that in that range you uh you gave yourself a 10 uh you are wearing full face of
04:33:00.940
makeup you have fake lashes on you've got the lipstick on you're contouring your nose
04:33:04.980
contouring your makeup um i think i give you five five uh you okay i rated him a 10 out of 10
04:33:17.420
damn that's not nice well okay if you want to change it you can but uh but you think everyone's
04:33:23.740
10 so it's meaningless uh for you you gave yourself a six uh you do have to be considerate
04:33:30.700
to some degree of age when doing an assessment um
04:33:35.500
i think i give you uh like between a four and a five let's say that uh julia you gave yourself a
04:33:47.340
seven uh look at the camera for me uh i think julia i give you between a 5.5 and a 6.5
04:34:02.240
in that range so those are the looks ratings and as i give myself 4.5 so can i ask like sure who
04:34:11.340
your celebrity crushes and like yeah i'm just i'm just curious um i mean celebrity crush
04:34:18.080
i mean when i was young when i was like i don't know
04:34:21.800
young much younger no now yeah i'm like now i don't think you don't have a celebrity yeah
04:34:27.460
neither do i if it's a 10 a female so and the celebrity crush i do have i wouldn't categorize
04:34:33.420
her as a 10 but who is a 10 nobody's a 10 you're a nine but nobody's a 10 10 is 10 is perfect
04:34:40.960
uh okay Megan Fox maybe we'll go I mean why's that everyone's go-to is Megan Fox I think
04:34:51.180
so 9.5 you could maybe point to Adriana Lima Jessica Beal Brooke Shields uh wait did I say
04:35:02.680
jessica alba or i said jessica beal jessica alba um my personal crush that i had though when i was
04:35:11.460
younger was uh kristin kruik uh she's she was in i and she's older now but she was in the show
04:35:21.380
called smallville so i mean she's like in her 40s now but i'd still oh i know you're talking about
04:35:28.020
the wajian girl yeah oh yeah yeah i don't think she's i i don't give her a 10 but she's i she was
04:35:36.980
my crush oh she's really pretty very pretty very pretty so uh i don't know maybe i yeah yeah well
04:35:42.820
we don't have to pull anything up but so we are on the same league he said i'm concerned right now
04:35:49.140
because you know and we have the same number well i'm talking about face it was a face i was
04:35:55.620
just face not the body uh yeah i mean i'd say body i'd say body because you're a bit more trim
04:36:01.560
i mean i don't care i don't take your judgment like it's my judgment but no i was like oh my
04:36:07.560
god i need to date people like you whoa no it's not in a suit at all it's just like because yeah
04:36:14.300
like we don't look the same we just have blue eyes you don't have to date somebody who you
04:36:20.880
because that's what you say the like well the rating like you were asking them has for as far
04:36:27.420
as like looks the same and looks equivalent is different when you say same numbers that's what
04:36:34.820
i mean like yeah same numbers that's why you were asking all of them like rate a male actor or
04:36:41.100
personal that has the same number so you would do you think you'd be settling for me if we were to
04:36:45.520
date on the looks front no i already said no to that wait what no i would not wait hold on i'm
04:36:53.060
confused because what were you what you were saying so you're saying i would be settling for
04:36:57.700
you or you would be settling no you just put me on the same number or like yeah same number
04:37:03.900
basically and you don't feel like that's fair or accurate do you think you're below or higher
04:37:07.600
mainly joking about it yeah because okay but do you think you're below or higher i'm just trying
04:37:11.740
not understand or not i'm just but i wasn't like i thought that was a total and not just a face
04:37:17.640
which is okay that's fair well i mean i yeah i guess i mean you're okay
04:37:27.120
is there more or no that's all i just had my rent to say okay also wait really quick guys
04:37:36.680
so i'm gonna do this segment oh somebody skipped rude chris love you oh wait are these out oh no
04:37:45.220
they're not out of order you didn't do the back chris love is that your name yeah like legal
04:37:54.220
government name okay chris love so guys uh here wait tiffany show the window that already has
04:38:02.160
this to show them on the full screen uh do you know i'm talking about this thing tiffany show
04:38:07.760
the window tab that has that it's like one of the last tabs or whatever do you have it
04:38:15.940
either one would just whichever one show it the first one
04:39:14.380
All right, let me get that to the, so that's a pass from Julia.
04:39:21.180
uh pass from uh the 10 i think that this is a fail this might be a fail
04:39:31.920
well i was just thinking because of this you see right i think i think this is also a fail
04:39:41.700
from my favorite because i was like this is i'll give this a pass that's a pass
04:40:18.680
and then i don't know what the fuck that is that is completely scuffed that's really funny so
04:40:30.440
all right good talk guys good talk that was good uh we put all of you through ai
04:40:39.540
i know we saw nothing now no not that really i don't know anything what's the problem luke
04:40:47.200
i am your father okay star wars hello okay um do you have the all the ai do you have two batches
04:40:57.540
t-dog yeah like there should have been two groups i believe of ai stuff let me see oh my god i hate
04:41:08.160
ai everything yeah so there was the there was the gender swap i'm not scared i just think it's dumb
04:41:38.720
No, so there's gender swaps, and then there's the beautification.
04:41:53.440
We have a TTS coming in while she's doing that.
04:42:14.500
uh thank you gloctavius for that thank you very much guys if you're enjoying the stream like the
04:42:29.800
video like the video uh we're getting into some interesting topics now we got a lot of these
04:42:34.400
girls have some pretty interesting stories we're gonna get into those we got some shit from the
04:42:39.140
questionnaire that we're gonna hit on and then uh yeah do you have it yeah is that all of them
04:42:47.840
okay so the question is for the women would you date the male version of you we've put all of
04:42:54.500
you through ai we've made you men we've given you penises don't worry the penises are not visible
04:43:01.280
okay yeah what about the bulge so the question is would you date the male version of you
04:43:11.740
would you date the male version of you why did it make me yeah i'm like you don't look chopped
04:43:21.320
yeah it did make you look chubbier i would be shredded as a man yeah my eyes are gray in that
04:43:27.300
i have a brother i have a brother no sometimes the ai is not perfect it's like almost never
04:43:32.520
perfect kind of like you a little bit it does honestly a little bit a little smaller though
04:43:37.920
you could be my dad i'm not into that i don't know you girls like want to do the like
04:43:46.540
the daddy thing i'm more into like sir i like sir no i know but like she said like you mean
04:43:54.080
like daddy right you mean like saying daddy yeah i'm like a girl to say daddy she can call me sir
04:43:58.600
yeah i like sir she can call me she can call me sir or master that's it i like those two
04:44:04.140
that's it those are my master yes you would call your man master oh yeah yes master with
04:44:10.520
his first name i'm like really into dumb submissive stuff so okay wow no i would not date
04:44:17.880
all right it's low-key though now i guess not but okay all right uh would you date the male
04:44:30.420
well that's not your bro though they're making all of us like 50 pounds heavier
04:44:45.540
honestly though some of these AI systems do do that
04:45:37.440
in the house i think whoever's next time it's just making us gain weight
04:45:42.020
wait this guy kind of mollocks why they picked that one of me this guy kind of mollocks though
04:46:40.820
oh my god that was scary oh yes come on you're telling me no not even my brother looks like this
04:46:52.440
i'm like not even my brother looks like no okay yes or no when you date them no okay look
04:46:59.860
I whoever's fucking doing these it's awful we don't even have the same dude nothing was like
04:47:06.740
the same at all not even the same skin color you've overcorrected because what they used to
04:47:12.880
do it made the guys look better but now they've overcorrected and now the guys are not I don't
04:47:18.960
think the guys that doesn't look like except for you have been equivalent I know I'm like I want to
04:47:23.300
put it back on the screen longer I mean it's like only there for five seconds yeah I'm like come on
04:47:27.220
that does not look like me at all i wouldn't look like that even as a man that's and i have
04:47:33.360
a brother so i know what i would look like as a boy him and i look very similar so all right next
04:47:42.560
come on come on guys they're all chubby they're all chubby and sad
04:47:51.460
bro do you see this girl look at this girl this girl this girl weighs 95 pounds and
04:47:58.540
right he doesn't know we actually have a scale in front oh my goodness does anybody want to
04:48:05.660
weigh themselves for what purpose yeah i know like if there was like a purpose like or we had
04:48:10.300
like a thing well you know how like sometimes girls put like a height marker on their door
04:48:15.820
like if he's not this tall i won't date him or hook up with him you know are you the same i think
04:48:20.140
Like, have you seen those street interviews with this guy named Lenny?
04:48:33.200
And then he was, like, trying to say that I'm fat.
04:48:35.180
But, like, was it a collab, or did he just run into you?
04:48:48.720
why are they all dead in the eyes why did the picture i guess i feel like men are dead inside
04:48:53.900
97 pounds like come on she she that come on anyways whatever next the beard looks better
04:49:00.140
than the non-bearded oh my god girl wait wait actually wait that one's like the most hold on
04:49:10.000
that's super fair that one's like the eyes bro actually he was he fucking eyes the eyes are what
04:49:18.020
I think with the beard he does look pretty good
04:49:46.860
The middle one looks a little bit, middle one, the middle one definitely does, but the
04:50:00.280
We look like we were just in the freaking Walking Dead.
04:50:06.840
Well, the other thing that I've noticed is, so the lighting for you is flattering, whereas
04:50:14.620
they darken like that there's more shadows um there's there's like it's like uh like an overcast
04:50:22.660
day lighting whereas you have um so there's that okay next what about you oh boy here it goes
04:50:29.200
uh okay okay the one on the right way to go she's bad as fuck you look awkward she looks like a dude
04:50:43.660
Like a feminine woman who likes to dress masculine.
04:50:50.340
The one on the right, far right is probably best.
04:50:51.640
We're going to pump out some, like, Chad sons, I guess.
04:51:35.060
we're testing out a new segment we've beautified all of you through ai we've got some tens here
04:51:40.820
can you go beyond a 10 can you go beyond a 10 we're gonna beautify you and uh fuck it this is
04:51:46.940
our first time doing this segment but let's see how it goes oh boy oh pretty much like the same
04:51:53.660
um stop guys stop okay you don't have to be mean i'm not being mean i'm just telling her to
04:52:26.660
I think the only difference is that her eyes are open
04:52:29.700
true okay you look like a surfer girl a surfer girl yeah absolutely i feel like you look like
04:52:39.680
that she looks like maybe here you just look like that in general though yeah she looks like
04:52:47.140
never mind what just say it wait i want to know i know you were like all about how we need to say
04:52:54.940
what we need to say and like all these things like come on gotta follow the rules you look like
04:53:01.920
you would join a cult oh i could see that yeah figure that one that's gonna i can see you for
04:53:09.500
the next two weeks what the fuck did he mean why we're gonna talk about this i don't know i can
04:53:13.680
see that though cult member vibes from you i don't that's not good no it's not bad it depends like
04:53:20.600
i i'm personally starting a cult so like i don't do that i am trying to i am trying to recruit
04:53:27.060
b-dog over there i'm trying to recruit what kind of a cult is this become b-dog b-dog b-dog yeah
04:53:33.300
i like that b-dog what's the cult yeah what cult would i do you have like a name what do i believe
04:53:39.460
we do uh sacrifices actually okay it's crazy it's heavy dude what are you sacrificing
04:53:48.600
lives goats i love what wait are you interested it seems like you're kind of
04:53:55.760
wanting to learn more about the cult i'm just throwing it out there okay next
04:54:00.420
i think she looks better yeah i like the way that you look why did they give you a lazy eye
04:54:08.160
i like it better wait look at me look at me look straight at me do i have a lazy eye they made my
04:55:12.300
oh my god i can't is that guy a fuck boy on the way 100 is he a fuck boy i don't know maybe we
04:55:20.180
gotta ask you are you a fuck boy barbecues are you a fuck boy that's right like he grills on
04:55:25.320
the weekends anyways oh that's a yes no i'm uh i i don't do that oh that seems very sketchy i don't
04:55:33.680
know i'm so sure i'm a virgin actually i'm a 36 year old virgin have you just been going have you
04:55:41.240
just not been asking anybody out waiting for them to come to you um no i've just it's just hard out
04:55:47.060
there you know no you know i tried yourself i tried once you know and it just didn't work out
04:55:53.120
i tried dudes are so lame you guys do it like one time fall apart forever fall what do you mean
04:55:59.520
like so many guys like they carry their trauma from their previous relationships into like so
04:56:04.560
many aspects of their life so true not just dating but like other aspects too yeah it's so true that's
04:56:09.940
That's why I've decided to remain a virgin until the age of 36, you know, I, yeah, the
04:56:21.920
So many women just missing out, but yeah, I don't know.
04:56:25.740
I'm going to wait until I'm 40 so I can claim that I'm a 40 year old virgin and then, then
04:57:09.500
whatever dog whatever bro okay let's get to it i need to step up for a moment i need to step
04:57:18.380
away for a moment i need i need to take a little breather but um you know what while we're waiting
04:57:23.720
because somebody's in the bathroom so i'll wait here's what we're going to do though uh we have
04:57:28.800
we'd have to wait until she's back actually fuck brick okay
04:58:01.460
we'll read some of your guys' notes that you sent
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i don't really have an answer me neither yeah i don't do anything toxic yes absolutely
04:58:39.900
yeah i believe in car i mean i've done a lot of toxic things let's start with which one
04:58:44.740
let's start with you no i don't know um older sister talking to the mic wait i feel like him
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now i don't know i'm just like a little toxic in general you know wait so what's something you've
04:58:58.480
done? I mean the drugs you know of course. To a guy though? To a guy. I don't know. Pass you guys. Pass? Anyone else? I know I'm like let me think of something. Like what? I know you do. Wait give me an idea. You know me. I'm too nice. Just kidding.
04:59:37.840
guys we're doing really bad we need to keep this going well i just i don't have anything
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to answer for this prompt i genuinely have not done anything toxic to a guy what about you
04:59:50.320
i feel like you've done something really toxic just being super historical historical hysterical
04:59:57.160
oh yeah and yeah like i had anger issues so being pretty angry do you like fight them or do you like
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do something not physically like i would not be like you do stuff to their stuff like you key
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their car or something oh no no no like that would be straight to your face like if you know
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maybe not calling them nice but just getting hysterical on stuff that doesn't it's not a big
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deal and i just make a huge deal out of it oh like that is a little toxic so it's not really
05:00:30.880
completely towards the men specifically it's just like getting completely out of control
05:00:35.560
and like throw things what's up do you throw things i did with my first partner when i was
05:00:41.800
like 19 to 23 we were together what'd you throw uh i don't know whatever like whatever's in your
05:00:48.720
range yeah and like but we microwave and throw it oh no i wouldn't go to that like that not the
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microwave just like a chair or something no that would be more like a yeah a cub that's on like
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what you're just like grabbing the chair and like throwing it wait that's kind of not a chair but
05:01:03.880
just a cup or something like that like a small thing that's not gonna yeah it's yeah and i would
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not hurt them like i've never hurt a man like you know physically or like yeah you probably could
05:01:14.860
so are you sure that the things you're getting hysterical about were like maybe justified oh
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absolutely not like I that's why I had to work on me because I didn't want to get angry as much as
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I was I didn't want to like that historical and anger like throwing stuff was my first
05:01:33.180
relationship with my ex-husband I was more verbally like and yeah probably verbally abusive
05:01:39.500
like I don't reckon like any situation that could have been but yeah like considering my behavior
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and who i was and like how i was i would say that i have been very much like um verbally abusive to
05:01:54.300
them yeah do you think that you're french right i am do you think french people are more aggressive
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we might be more direct yeah and passionate and very much passion
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and i am trying to keep my passion yeah but get my anger under control
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and how's that now it's awesome good and my my last partner i was the toxic one with my husband
05:02:23.520
i was definitely the narcissistic and the toxic one um and then with my last partner
05:02:29.500
i got karma back and yeah that was gonna do it so it's cool like i appreciate it so how did you
05:02:38.860
like so how did you heal out of that today very much at that point how did you heal out of that
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how did i what like go from that those anger issues to being able to like you know not be
05:02:49.640
like that anymore as much because when it hurts you realize that you don't want it for you and
05:02:55.300
for that person um so it's just whatever it takes like yeah self-awareness was one thing and i was
05:03:02.660
like okay i need to know why am i angry like why what triggers me and like work on those shit and
05:03:09.580
then now I and now I know better and I'm like even if I get triggered I just gonna sit down take
05:03:17.440
a couple of deep breaths and like I and I have way more self-esteem so it's like I would just
05:03:24.660
be like hey you know what that doesn't belong here and I'm like I'm not wasting my time with
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that shit you want to be pissed off that's fine but I'm just gonna step away because I don't want
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that shit so it's just yeah i don't care anymore too much about what people could say or think
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and it's just so yeah like how do you guys handle conflict in your relationships or like dating
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uh well i don't date anymore that's why it's like you don't want to date at all ever again
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uh i just like i get back to my dream of meeting the guys that like i want that the type of
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relationship that i want and i am waiting for that like not waiting but i am working to be the person
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that deserves that guy as much as he deserves me and like i was saying earlier it's like well yeah
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like if you want to be treated like a queen you need to think of like about yourself how yeah and
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like how you will treat your king your king as well and i never really realized that so now i
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yeah I just I I still have some work to do and I know it so that's the fun part oh yeah no
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absolutely and I don't mind like I I don't mind waiting I don't mind if it takes time I just love
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the work I fell in love with myself and I got married with myself three years ago yeah so it's
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just like for me it's yeah on the self by looking for him I looked for myself and now I have found
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myself and i just want to keep doing that that's beautiful yeah like i'd rather be alone than be
05:05:00.320
with a man who makes me feel less loved than i like love myself i'm like you don't you'll never
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settle if you treat yourself like really well and you love yourself yeah absolutely why would
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that's what makes dating fun with self-confidence i mean unless someone brings that to you brings
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what like as much love and self-love and self-respect like if he looks at you the way you
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look at you in the mirror that's the one you stay with in one in my last in my toxic relationship
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like i got so upset and would get hysterical like you like this girl i just do not know and do not
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like like desperate and sensitive and fragile and um it's because like i just was so angry i was
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like, how dare you do this to me? And like, I just felt like he had to make it right. And he
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had to change. I'll never do that again. I just walk away at this point. I'm like, I'm not going
05:05:54.860
to like sacrifice my peace for a guy like that. And I also didn't love myself, which is why I
05:06:01.760
stayed. Cause I'm like, Oh, I'd rather stay in this because this feels better than what I think
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being alone would be. Yeah. Oh my God, please. Please. I'll have, yeah. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.
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well I was just curious like how you guys handle conflict like with the guys that you're dating
05:06:23.780
as well as the guys here in a relationship with we're all agreeing from different angles
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okay i mean i would say i definitely would be considered more traditional and conservative
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in relationships so raise your hand if you're like more conservative rather than liberal
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like in dating right oh i don't know are we talking about politics no we're talking about
05:07:03.520
dating wait so what's the difference between dating as a liberal not like liberal as in yeah
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whichever one you are yeah would you're the guy being the other one would that be a deal breaker
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wait wait like if you're a liberal would the guy being a conservative would that be a deal oh i
05:07:20.820
didn't look even look at his politics um what i wasn't processing it as politics i thought you
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meant like in values in a relationship yeah like actual relationship not politics like political
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viewpoints but like are you conservative partner in the way that you act yeah yes pretty much
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liberal more free is everyone here like more traditional no i am but everyone is
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i'm like you are or not both i don't know what do you mean by that same like i'm i'm very much
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like the female in the relationship i love to cook i love to clean i love taking care of my man
05:07:53.320
but i'm also like i am a little wild and i like to go out and be independent and uh the caveat
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i think that i feel like everyone who here wouldn't be like a stay-at-home mom
05:08:03.000
you wouldn't do it i wouldn't know you wouldn't you don't want kids right or you said you didn't
05:08:07.520
want but if i did have kids i wouldn't want to be okay would you like wait what do you do for work
05:08:11.080
again i work for a tech company okay so so who of you guys would be a stay-at-home mom would you
05:08:15.860
would you guys i mean it sounds so fun i would sometimes i know i can't wait
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i love kids so much yeah so if a man was like i'd fully like provide everything for you you'd be
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like no I still want to work yeah I mean I'd still want to work so but yeah I think I would
05:08:36.680
maybe even like no I'd still work it's two things like I do want something that's mine and that I
05:08:42.320
work on and stuff but also if I had a kid and I didn't work for whatever like 15 years and our
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kids are teenagers about to go to high school and my my husband tragically passes away for some
05:08:54.440
reason and let's say he's not very wealthy and doesn't have a great life insurance plan
05:08:58.120
what the heck am I supposed to do yeah I go out and find a job is what I have to do but how do I
05:09:02.580
have people hire me when I've had 15 years of unemployment yeah that's kind of that's why I'm
05:09:08.120
like a bigger reason I guess and it's very realistic to build businesses that don't require
05:09:12.180
you to work like at places or 24 like you know at least with what I do I'd totally be able to
05:09:17.940
be a high earner while still being a stay-at-home mom so there are ways I guess it just depends on
05:09:22.900
like what job you have your kind of lifestyle you have you know but I'd still want to work though
05:09:29.640
um wait I forgot would you want to be a stay-at-home mom yes would you still work now that you said
05:09:35.540
that like if they died or something like I would probably still I would still work but I don't
05:09:40.080
think or like I would like to be like a Pilates instructor or something do that like maybe a
05:09:44.020
couple days a week but like you know if they die then it's like you can go full time I need to own
05:09:48.700
businesses but also i don't want to think about my husband dying also but i guess you have to
05:09:52.020
think about the future yeah yeah but you should always be thinking about that yeah especially
05:09:56.200
yeah you should absolutely be thinking about that you guys will do long term yeah
05:10:02.920
well yeah because finances yeah oh yeah there's a lot of legal aspects to that especially if you
05:10:12.900
don't get a prenup i mean even with a prenup there's still a lot of like paperwork and things
05:10:16.820
but yeah that's a good question do you guys believe in prenups yeah yeah what if you make
05:10:23.580
more money than your husband you know it's like a yes and a no other way around if the guy is
05:10:29.160
super wealthy money i don't know i just think it's good to have a prenup like i wouldn't i would feel
05:10:32.880
so guilty to just taking everything from someone and they worked so hard for that but also i would
05:10:37.980
just like hope that we weren't gonna get married and hope in like seeing a divorce you know sure
05:10:44.320
in the future sure i don't think anyone gets married hoping for a divorce like i feel like
05:10:48.860
it's just like a forever thing like i wouldn't get honestly i don't even know i believe in
05:10:53.460
marriage but like some people just like live life as boyfriend girlfriend you know oh yeah
05:10:59.200
like you've been with your boyfriend so long like what's the point of even i mean a wedding
05:11:03.860
and everything but you don't need to do all that paperwork well i mean if you have kids and you
05:11:09.760
have a home together and all types of stuff leases mortgage but it is i would just want to
05:11:16.260
leave with what i came with the government becomes once you get married yeah yeah i'm like i would
05:11:21.420
say yes and no the only reason why i say that is because based off the guys that i've dated they
05:11:25.900
would not want a prenup so i and i would have to respect that because you know that's their
05:11:30.820
they wouldn't want a prenup no why i don't know they just never did they want you know they felt
05:11:35.740
like they wanted to make sure that i was taken care of in the event that something happened
05:11:38.880
wait what like they were wanted me to be taken care of in the event that something would happen
05:11:44.560
if that was the case they would want a prenup no because with the prenup you can they you're not
05:11:48.700
designated right huh like with a prenup okay prenup is an agreement that if we get divorced
05:11:53.840
under certain circumstances this is what will happen like assets divided if you don't have a
05:11:59.960
prenup you're just leaving it up to the government and that can change anytime so if he really wanted
05:12:04.280
cared about you and is like i love her so much that even if we divorced like i want to make sure
05:12:09.700
she's taken care of more than what the government will probably give you it's just the traditional
05:12:15.960
values like some people just view that as a part of tradition what not having a prenup yeah it's
05:12:20.680
not normalizing traditional like relationships i feel like even my family would be like why are
05:12:25.600
you getting a prenup there's it's just more traditional not to that's true the fuck sorry
05:12:36.320
Yeah, I'm like, traditional through and through.
05:12:58.080
it's been running for five hours i think what is it five hours i think so it's probably like
05:13:07.180
nine thirty ten thirty oh okay oh my god gotta go back to la i know i'm like i want to go home
05:13:14.840
i'm drinking the rest of my monster i'm so tired all right let's uh get into the rest of the topics
05:13:21.620
what is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband um i just said 120 000
05:13:27.320
Okay. Into the mic please. I said $400K to $20 million. I don't know.
05:13:48.200
That's a pretty big range. I really don't know.
05:14:24.600
uh what about you uh in the south if we're both working you can make like 50k i'll be okay
05:14:32.500
i have no idea i cannot answer that question why can't you know i've noticed a pattern
05:14:38.140
throughout this whole show yes it's nuanced it's nuanced it's absolutely it depends on the guy
05:14:43.960
so so you're saying if the more attractive the guy is in other trades the less no no no the less
05:14:51.760
he can make but it's not about that if he doesn't possess certain traits he has to make up for it by
05:14:56.900
earning more money no at least not for me i'm sure for a lot of people but no that's not how
05:15:01.600
the guy would you because like some guys are low earning right now but like maybe they're in medical
05:15:06.340
school so you open the door a few years or down the line you know there are some people who have
05:15:11.540
a business and i believe wholeheartedly in that business so i would maybe support them that doesn't
05:15:16.800
I mean, I make a lot on my own, so I don't really have to search for that.
05:15:20.760
Typically, I have an issue when I do date guys who don't earn as much as me,
05:15:24.600
but that's typically because it makes them feel insecure over time.
05:15:27.840
I don't really mind, so that's why I'm like, I don't know.
05:15:31.860
I pay attention to the man I'm dating, not all these other attributes.
05:15:36.440
So would you date a guy who makes zero dollars a year?
05:15:40.880
Because that means he's not working for anything for himself.
05:15:46.520
would that minimum be when you date a guy who works at mcdonald's i guess it just depends
05:15:51.340
no but it has to do with character not how much he makes okay i'm just attracted to a certain type
05:15:56.620
of guy let's say his character is amazing but he works at mcdonald's are you dating him i don't
05:16:01.100
think that's a good character why would that because if he has no plan past that then i don't
05:16:06.500
i know you can't have good character and work a fast food job future projection yes so character
05:16:12.320
is tied to financial achievement no just like goals financial aren't there like billionaires
05:16:18.000
who are fucking terrible people oh yeah but i wouldn't date them there's guys who make 20 000
05:16:21.600
a year who are high virtue yeah but for me high virtue includes their future projection so if it's
05:16:26.860
a guy who works at mcdonald's they typically don't have a plan for the i think a guy who works at
05:16:30.980
mcdonald's has the same capacity for virtue as does that but i'm not looking at that though so
05:16:36.240
that's what i'm saying i'm looking at their future trajectory um i don't know i said a mil
05:16:44.920
but i was kind of just joking because i don't happen i don't have a specific number you did
05:16:49.280
write a mil so it's a joke but well i mean i have to take that seriously i mean period well okay but
05:16:56.020
the minimum yearly income that is the question what is the minimum by the way guys uh don't be
05:17:01.200
upset at me that we're gonna go late tonight when people can't just give me straight answers go ahead
05:17:04.920
answer the question a million dollars okay so that is that the answer minimum yearly income
05:17:10.720
yeah so a guy who makes five hundred thousand dollars you won't date him no i would do you
05:17:15.460
know what fucking a minimum oh my god i'm actually tilted hold on i gotta get up again um do you
05:17:20.980
know what minimum fucking means it's just such a superficial question i don't know how to respond
05:17:26.000
to that it is extremely minimal guys i'm like i just don't have one but maybe we can move on right
05:17:41.780
I was just kind of joking I just thought it was funny
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It matters okay well he's got to have a billionaire
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okay what do you mean i disagree with you okay do you have a minimum that you wrote down me no
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the mindset matters yeah okay let's say he's got a great mindset and he works at mcdonald's are
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you dating him yeah okay cool what about you julia i said about the same as what i mean which
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is what right now yeah more than 75k less than 125k okay pretty reasonable so 120k for you
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$400,000 to $20 million for you, which is ridiculous.
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So just to be clear, Veronica, just for clarification,
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okay so the minimum is what i just the minimum is what
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i don't know i don't have a specific one i guess but it's not a million if well that was a joke
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it's not a million if he would date a guy who makes 500 000 would you date a guy who makes
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100 000 yes would you date a guy who makes 50k sure is he nice for sure uh 20k
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the words that came out of my mouth is what i mean uh are you a top one percent woman
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okay um do you think a guy who makes four hundred thousand dollars a year
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uh do you think you know how old what's the age range of men you're willing to date
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60 okay if you do go older maybe you'll find a guy who's willing maybe willing uh the thing is
05:20:31.960
is that most men who make this much money again you did go older there so that's your leeway
05:20:36.240
men closer to your age between the ages of uh you're 28 right between the age of 25 and 40 who
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make four hundred thousand dollars a year they have uh pretty good options and they're not going
05:20:50.260
date a stripper um you're incorrect because mostly that's what the guys i date but you're
05:20:58.640
not a relationship uh you're 28 you've not had and i'm not just a stripper i'm a licensed hair
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okay i understand that you're other things too okay well you know drug dealer but he also gives
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to charity okay wonderful um the stripper thing is the sticking point is going to be a sticking
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point for a lot of men. Men who make that much money, that's a very small proportion of men.
05:21:24.100
I'm not saying that money is everything. Women go after other traits besides money,
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but men who are high earners tend to be generally more appealing to women. Again,
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not saying it's the only thing women care about. Women care about other traits too.
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Men who make $400,000 a year, they have probably decent optionality. They have decent choice.
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this is not a career goal for the rest of my life it's just to stack up which i've been really smart
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about most people who are dancers spend their money on drugs and stuff so okay i mean look again
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not saying you should be mistreated not saying i'm not saying that what i'm saying though
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is that these men who make four hundred thousand dollars uh they have typically good options
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that's fine and i disagree and i agree with that so okay well i mean uh all right i don't know what
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do the women here think do you think a guy who makes four hundred thousand dollars uh well
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let's do a callback is she deserving of being in a relationship with a guy who makes four hundred
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thousand dollars or more a year if that's what he wants what asks a guy well i mean from a guy
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guys are so bad i would say like for guy logic then probably no most guys who earn that much
05:23:39.140
like prefer traditional can i frame it like this lifestyle do you think do you think us uh a world
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class beautiful 10 out of 10 supermodel who's smart and intelligent do you think that she
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is going to go for a overweight guy who plays video games all day well i would so yes i've
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guys like that so yes yeah it depends on the person no yeah and i would say yes and i think
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that's very interesting overweight guy that plays video games i have dated someone like that let me
05:24:15.420
add some other qualifiers well he did a lot of other things too it wasn't like his whole entire
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life was just in front of the camera what i'm trying to get out here is oh my god so bad faith
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So that's why I'm saying, and I don't have anything bad to say.
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Do you think most models, model women, do you, okay, let me ask it like this.
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Cause they prefer guys who are not as attractive.
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Do you think beautiful women have an abundance of options of men?
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If you have an abundance of options of men, do some of your options include really attractive
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men with good jobs and good personalities then why the fuck would that beautiful woman choose to date
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the unattractive guy who's broke and smokes weed all day what the fuck well you didn't add all that
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other stuff this is like common sense why do i have to add all the other stuff with the other
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way around yeah you didn't bring any of that part into it you just said if he plays video games and
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is overweight you're telling you're telling me most women who are in shape who are beautiful
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fine we'll just use the criteria i used most women who are beautiful given that they have
05:25:27.260
an abundance of options and they probably can date men who have are fit and have nice bodies
05:25:32.200
and who aren't playing video games all day the two things i gave you was overweight and plays
05:25:36.920
video games all day you think if given the option beautiful women would rather would sooner date
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the fat video game player over the the fit um guy who has other things going on in his life
05:25:52.720
I'm just telling you what we talk about backstage
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they feel as though guys who aren't as attractive
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fucking bullshit because you ask a girl girls will tell you even the ugly dudes treat them no
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but i'm telling you what they say at my stuff if the guy's gonna treat you like shit anyways
05:26:26.900
date the fucking good fucking you're asking me what people are saying i'm telling you what people
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are saying i can only go i'm like i can only go based off experience i don't hang out with general
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people all the pretty women that i know they say they prefer guys who are not as attractive okay
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what they say fuck what they say look at what they do yes i do beautiful women their boyfriends
05:26:48.900
hold on their boyfriends are fucking chubby video game players versus and they rejected
05:26:55.120
men who are like fit yes and because we're models we don't like those guys i'm telling you we spent
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all of our models like ugly guys no we don't want to date other models i'm telling you like if you
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were to be backstage yeah but if they look like one we typically don't go for them that's what i'm
05:27:11.280
trying to say like that's insecure stuff oh yeah i agree but i'm just telling you what they say do
05:27:16.360
you believe her i don't there's a difference between they're different i'm like it's not
05:27:21.720
like you're understanding not the difference i'm giving you objective data from my personal
05:27:26.000
experience i am not saying i agree with these things or not but i am someone who does these
05:27:31.480
things and i know what they say so you asked a question i'm answering it that yes they do
05:27:36.860
like i personally have noticed that and they talk about when you say they do so i'm not denying that
05:27:42.540
there might be i'm not saying no women ever do this well you said models specifically no but
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i'm not saying that that is an impossibility but i would if i was a betting man i would say more
05:27:56.300
often than not a genuinely beautiful woman does not aspire to date an obese video like video game
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player they don't i just don't aspire i think most beautiful women most i'm not some women
05:28:10.700
might want to date a chubby guy they might like his personality they might like whatever
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i want to argue that most beautiful women want to date handsome men who have a good physique
05:28:22.500
you know well you just does that sound wrong like do you think my truth maps onto reality more or
05:28:29.640
does your truth map onto reality well in my personal reality that is not true but i don't
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know what the general people do i literally spend my time and like kind of i do not believe it i
05:28:40.180
don't believe it i know you don't but that's fine you don't need to say so you're telling me like
05:28:45.240
you know all these girls who model and you've seen their boyfriends yes and they're like sometimes
05:28:50.320
ugly sometimes all types of stuff most of them are single so i'm like you know the only ones who
05:28:57.240
are i know who are in relationships yes their boyfriends are not attractive and most of them
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do have jobs that require them to be at home most of the time they typically prefer guys like that
05:29:06.320
so that's why i'm saying like it's a whole thing that we talk about so just on the one bullet point
05:29:10.960
you think it's a whole conversation women who are models would rather date a guy who's 300 pounds
05:29:16.780
versus a guy who's 180 i mean i'm not saying your position no i'm just telling you what it said
05:29:22.520
backstage they would choose somebody who's less attractive absolutely i'd like to ask the other
05:29:27.520
women here of your beautiful friends do they gravitate towards overweight men or do they
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gravitate towards men who are normal physically yeah normal physical normal yeah i don't think
05:29:40.340
any girl has ever well not ever any girl but like none of my friends or any girl i've met has been
05:29:46.100
like i want a fat guy that plays video this does sound familiar but it sounds like insecure women
05:29:51.360
oh yeah and i don't that's what i'm saying i'm not saying it's right or wrong i'm just telling
05:29:55.700
what they say i don't agree with it i'm just getting objective majority at all well i only
05:30:00.940
know well i only spend time in model circles so i can that's why i said i don't know what the
05:30:05.160
general and you would say in your model circles that's what i talked about yes are insecure yes
05:30:10.160
and date are you surprised as a modeling industry yes they are some of the most insecure people in
05:30:15.780
the world like what would you rate these guys like but she's a 10 what are they probably like
05:30:19.860
a five or less didn't you say when we were doing this everyone's a 10 yes but in realistic what
05:30:24.840
you guys are talking about then yes yeah if we were going based off of what society's standards
05:30:30.220
are then yeah that's what it would be yeah that's so we're talking about is exactly other women want
05:30:35.540
to weigh in on this i do modeling work i usually do like to go after like fit attractive guys for
05:30:41.660
the most part i'm not seeking out a fat man i think does people actually seek out men like i
05:30:47.760
just don't like yeah i'm like i do not seek out men i think you're misunderstanding what we mean
05:30:52.720
I seek out I the the men probably are approaching the women and the women select the men who
05:31:00.540
yeah exactly sounds about right okay but all right apparently um the group of women you are
05:31:11.380
aware of that in highly insecure yes well a woman could be insecure and still want to date a hot guy
05:31:17.240
i don't understand women no i'm telling you i mean you can i wish you could come backstage with
05:31:22.500
me but i can only go based off of what my friends and the people i'm around say shit so you know i
05:31:28.420
can't really go based off of opinions i've never heard until now um yo uh tiff can you head down
05:31:37.280
hold on one sec i think like most people talk amongst yourselves a lot of there are a lot of
05:31:44.020
attractive women who do modeling work i always see them and i'm like girl you can do a lot oh
05:31:49.580
yeah all my friends that's what i'm saying i'm like no this is a big thing i don't know it's
05:31:53.680
always like not like too heinous i guess oh my experience it's never like a zero and a 10 i don't
05:32:00.440
know it's always just yeah either a little bit i'm like whoa there but like what supermodel is
05:32:07.420
dating like like an actual supermodel like that you you know them right like i don't mean no i
05:32:14.260
don't know most of them are single that's what i'm trying to say they don't have good dating
05:32:18.640
experiences dating as a model is like almost impossible it sucks it's extremely difficult
05:32:24.240
to date as a model most guys are as he literally said runway runway and editorial okay so you know
05:32:32.880
i've had like billboards been on all every top magazine you could possibly think of i've been
05:32:37.260
on it but it's just like people uh whether it's girls who i try to befriend or guys that i date
05:32:42.900
they stigmatize me pretty quickly and then because of that it becomes very difficult to see me as a
05:32:47.900
person outside of whatever the viewpoints they already have are a lot of guys they like the
05:32:52.460
idea of dating a model who's been published and all these things but then once it comes to like
05:32:56.620
actually getting to know me it's like they can't see past that they just want to talk about the
05:33:01.780
modeling and how I've done this and that or like it's never like more than that I mean it can be
05:33:07.620
but I just don't feel like they really see me as much as they yeah what are they missing
05:33:11.340
like what what are they not seeing that you would want a guy to see I guess just that it's okay that
05:33:16.800
you could also be intelligent and pretty most of the time they just expect me to be a ditz all the
05:33:21.760
time and then when I actually say things or talk about my interest I'm really into robotic engineer
05:33:26.020
for example so I start talking about stuff like that it's like a oh actually like you know like
05:33:31.240
they might just minimize it they won't say no but they'll minimize my interests that are not
05:33:35.960
tied to like appearance or modeling because of that so just kind of a lot of minimization not
05:33:42.760
being taken seriously in certain ways but that's why I'm so upfront on day one because I can pretty
05:33:47.860
much weed out a guy like that pretty quickly so I don't waste my time the guys I actually stay with
05:33:53.040
are obviously the polar opposite but I do get that experience a lot unfortunately most of the time
05:33:59.040
would you say modeling is like a majority of your life and your identity no what other things I'm
05:34:07.000
like my probably my social media but I'm mostly a writer so oh okay oh I haven't heard you talk
05:34:12.800
about that once I mentioned it he just didn't ask any questions poetry no no I'm a philosophical
05:34:17.720
writer so I release content like pretty much about like the human emotions the human experience and
05:34:22.780
also just encouraging others to also be okay with authenticity and within their own personal lives
05:34:27.760
as well as how to cultivate joy from within where did you learn all this you just sound like it's
05:34:32.280
i don't know i mean i don't know i'm just what is there one or two schools of philosophy that
05:34:40.640
really resonate with you like that no just quakerism that's it what is it quakerism
05:34:44.780
my belief system oh okay we live by philosophy like a school of thought the way you think
05:34:50.140
no i wouldn't follow anybody else's way of thinking or being so it's your own school
05:34:54.760
of philosophy that you write? Yeah, pretty much. I wouldn't want to write about other people's
05:34:59.360
ideas. I'd rather talk about mine and see who gravitates towards it. Well, yeah, it's your
05:35:03.460
mind and your ideas. But if you're talking about philosophy, like, yeah, but philosophy doesn't
05:35:08.000
have to be academic, though, is what I'm saying. It doesn't have to be academic philosophy. I mean,
05:35:14.960
philosophy existed before academia even existed. So it has nothing to do with that. So yeah, I just
05:35:20.880
don't see the reason to study somebody else's i'd rather just do my own thing you know i don't want
05:35:28.380
to like study another philosopher i'd rather become my own one essentially wait what's your
05:35:32.380
zodiac sign scorpio oh i love scorpio what is yours i'm a cancer we're both water signs water
05:35:38.360
signs i don't know all i know is i'm a scorpio scorpios are cool like emotions really yes i like
05:35:59.740
Like, does anybody remember the notes that they sent?
05:36:10.740
talking about this story. I think it's something that has to do
05:36:12.920
with my spouse. Yeah, I don't remember what I said.
05:36:14.720
oh it wasn't horoscope i didn't even tell any stories i don't think i mentioned astrology but
05:36:19.240
i do love it so much i honestly i didn't really put that much answers on mine
05:36:24.780
i don't think so because you put a lot on there girl what it was like talking about your past
05:36:31.620
dating oh my god i was like what do i put here yeah some guy like i went on this date and this
05:36:36.240
guy only ate raw meat and i was like what raw meat ew yes i hope he's not watching this so what
05:36:42.800
that's weird no but i was saying he was telling me that eating vegetables was unhealthy for me
05:36:47.540
and we were like and he was literally just eating raw meat on the date and i was like what the hell
05:36:51.500
is going on red flag and he was like it's better for you like if you cook it it's bad and i was
05:36:57.460
like what i was like eating let him do what he needs to do i guess yeah he only eats raw meat
05:37:03.080
and milk that's his diet and then well at least you'll avoid the parasites don't wrap one slice
05:37:09.400
two um one i'll take two can i get one please one two okay one one two one one two just one one one
05:37:24.440
i don't know what do y'all usually like who do you usually date like like looks no i mean like
05:37:30.920
career-wise bro like who does it always i know i'm like i don't know but in miami
05:37:35.800
it's so crazy no one has jobs really like they have jobs but they're like all like side gate
05:37:42.360
you know it's like the day trading um tiktok so true tiktok ads running like all that kind of
05:37:50.580
stuff is all in miami like i swear no one has normal jobs that's no for real same way like
05:37:55.800
no one works but i do prefer a guy with a stable job though la area i feel like more people
05:38:01.680
work than miami but it's like yeah it's like half and half yeah because people in like the midwest
05:38:06.900
like i'm i don't what do you consider the midwest no girl in the south south sorry i'm really bad
05:38:12.060
i'm really scared for like the geography but like you guys actually like work right like i feel like
05:38:16.680
everyone works we work online i'm working in a way over there yeah i'm from detroit and like i
05:38:22.480
grew up working since i was 15 what did you do i was just in the restaurant same like serving and
05:38:28.620
stuff so would y'all date dude at 15 well my dad like he's always been in the restaurant oh so he
05:38:33.620
got you in yeah i don't think that was legal but that's good that's good for you yeah i mean i
05:38:37.380
worked at like a tropical smoothie that was my first job when i was 15 like behind the counter
05:38:40.840
yeah i was so you've always worked in a restaurant yeah i don't anymore thank you since i moved out
05:38:45.720
here thank you so much yeah i do miss it sometimes like yeah i know just to talk to people because i
05:38:52.240
started working at like 16 17 as well yeah but do you guys date a guy that worked a blue collar job
05:38:58.280
i've never dated one what is a blue collar job like manual labor no why no because i just feel
05:39:05.100
like they're probably gone a lot right is there one without any pepperoni on it by any chance i
05:39:09.580
mean if not it's so i like people who like a bro i know he's like bro you don't eat meat of course
05:39:16.320
why he's probably tired when he comes home right i mean i'm sure he is that's why like
05:39:24.720
I mean, I don't want blue collar to be anything from, like, construction to, like...
05:39:28.320
But that's fine, right? You don't need someone's attention all the time.
05:39:30.300
Why is it bad for him to come home tired if you're there to take care of him?
05:39:33.500
Well, the blue collar men I've met are not happy with their lives.
05:39:36.140
Maybe because they don't have a good girl in their life.
05:39:38.520
And I just prefer guys who are happy in their own life.
05:39:41.780
Oh, so the guy staying at home while their girl goes to work is happy?
05:39:47.320
Oh, no, no, no. I was saying he has to be happy in his own individual life.
05:39:52.580
Maybe because they're busting their ass all day and not making enough money.
05:40:02.780
Like, I don't want that because it does impact somebody's, like, feelings in life, and they bring that to their home.
05:40:10.480
If I met somebody who was blue-collar and I felt like they were really happy doing that, it would be different.
05:40:16.680
So, you know, until I do, then the answer is going to be no.
05:40:33.860
Yeah, I feel like I should probably date a blue-collar man and switch it up a bit.
05:40:38.380
I usually, unfortunately, date a drug dealer or a rapper.
05:40:46.500
it just comes to me unfortunately oh damn yeah i should probably find a man that's like good
05:40:54.820
i mean they're they're not bad people well their choice of decisions are yeah sometimes their
05:41:01.760
decision making is pretty bad i mean the musicians aren't bad but like you know um maybe i should
05:41:08.720
switch it up a bit branch out a bit you know so what would you like him to be doing i don't know
05:41:16.320
like maybe a blue collar man would be cool girl date date like the trades a plumber an electrician
05:41:22.200
yes they make good money it's a really secure career to go into now because not met not a lot
05:41:28.800
of men are learning how to work with their hands um if anything ever breaks at the house they'll
05:41:33.280
fix it for you yes and uh wait no you're so right it's hot yeah i think i couldn't do it
05:41:43.080
I mean, I'm a mountain girl, and I work a blue-collar job.
05:41:52.160
Yeah, I mean, my first boyfriend was, like, working a little bit on the, like, we work
05:41:57.420
on ski resort, or leave on ski resorts, so, like, any job in the ski resort.
05:42:05.740
Yeah, and then I worked on the ski resort as a lifty, and then my end.
05:42:09.920
ex-husband was a groomer so he was driving get um like my first job was an elementary school
05:42:15.400
teacher really i graduated early at 16. oh i loved it yeah that's why i love kids so much
05:42:23.280
it's okay she'll probably bring another one yeah i'm sorry no it's okay i don't eat meat so like
05:42:28.980
it's fine i might pick up the pepperonis yeah pick them up like it's huge i'll go through like
05:42:35.940
Your first job was an elementary school teacher?
05:42:50.440
But then I was like, you said you didn't go to college.
05:43:05.940
wait what that doesn't make sense maybe because of my extracurriculars and my grades but that
05:43:10.020
you know they accepted make sense i'm just telling you what it is like that's what i did
05:43:14.540
it was a lot of fun and um most of my like clients were actually asian which i guess doesn't really
05:43:21.140
surprise me because like out there they have a lot of schools and facilities to teach the children
05:43:25.360
english yeah so yeah so that's pretty much what i would do and um i don't know i just remember it
05:43:32.940
being so fun. Sometimes it got tiring though because I have to say like Apple over and
05:43:53.240
Wait, can I have water please? No, I need a glass. Thank you so much.
05:44:15.920
I did teach some adults, though, too, every now and then.
05:44:19.080
But they just put me a lot with the children because I love kids.
05:44:22.640
I still do a lot of work with children, even without, like, a normal person job.
05:44:43.060
Bro you realize you guys are on a fucking podcast
05:45:02.800
Like, I step away for fucking five, ten minutes, and it's, yeah, I know it's not your podcast.
05:45:08.240
If you're not here asking the questions, don't expect a lot of non-podcast having people to know what to do on a podcast.
05:45:20.740
If you're out with a group of ten of your friends, and one of those girls, she's your best friend,
05:45:27.800
and you're just talking to her and you're talking about oh do you know billy bob and you're talking
05:45:33.260
about and none of these other girls there know who billy bob is they don't know who edward is
05:45:38.520
they don't know isn't that kind of rude to the other women i mean usually they fill in the
05:45:43.180
context so no we always so i personally think if i'm in a group of people and and i'm not like
05:45:52.280
this is obviously i'm not talking about the podcast now but if i'm hanging out with a group
05:45:55.860
of people i'm not gonna just talk say there's three of us we all know each other and there's
05:46:00.780
one outlier i'm not gonna be like talking about shit he doesn't know okay i don't know if that
05:46:08.300
makes sense but i mean it does i just don't think it pertains to this situation i don't know who
05:46:12.580
they are i can't see anything i don't know what they're talking about i was told that she was a
05:46:17.020
teacher and never had a degree and i don't believe that which is fine you don't have to i don't
05:46:20.960
really care that's i know and that's okay i don't really mind i mean i don't need somebody else to
05:46:27.240
validate my life's experience if i did i'd probably be way more insecure all right hold on i'm sorry
05:46:32.320
for some of these missed tts hold on totally not fat gamer donated 200 share five where did these
05:46:41.720
models meet their unattractive partners for science in school typically in school a lot of
05:46:47.660
them are still sorry for the delay on that Mr. Foucault I see your super chats I was away from
05:46:52.100
the computer um it's coming up it's below the threshold though so I see your message though
05:46:58.340
I'll I'll tell Andrew I'll tell Andrew thank you totally not fat gamer um I will I appreciate the
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TTS all right yeah dude you should you can send me a DM I guess I will bring it to Andrew's
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attention um all right let's see let's get trying to blast through the notes uh how tall are you
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and what's the minimum height of a man you would date i'm five nine and i said five ten okay what
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about you i'm five two i would say um five ten that's not what you put here i can't you wrote
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okay but the question is what's the minimum height of the man you would date
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so if it depends on the guy I mean if they're really really really hot I don't care
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okay what about you Brooke Lynn is it Brooke or Brooklyn Brooklyn do you go by Brooke okay
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Brooklyn five seven and five nine uh five seven I think I said five eight
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yeah what are you oh i'm five nine but i think the shortest i've ever dated was like five six
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or five seven but i don't really know you wrote i don't know what's my minimum yeah bro literally
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i guess five six or five seven we have a series of five questions at the bottom here
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um she her answers are as follows i don't know i don't know depends on mood not sure yes absolutely
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yeah that's just the truth you know i think in order to have a good emotional conversation
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you need to actually be able to well we don't talk about stuff like this articulate yourself
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i don't know bro it's the vibe you don't know you're literally a fucking model you're the
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your profession is the epitome of superficiality yes but my conversations are not that
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but you just proved literally what i was saying how did i prove literally what you were saying
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i was saying i get stigmatized based off of that what but now i mean like in my actual dates
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Like, I don't even talk about any of these type of things, not even with my friends.
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Okay, what is superficial about the conversation?
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I mean, you're asking about dating preferences that, to me, are very superficial.
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Nothing has to do with, like, an actual person's character or feelings or nuances.
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A woman who wants to be a stay-at-home wife, and she's traditional, and she wants to have three kids,
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can financially speaking uh wouldn't it be uh a good idea to date a guy who has the finances to
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well i'm not saying she's a gold digger but i don't know you're still what i feel like i'm just
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young enough to build with someone how old are you 26 but i'd rather build with someone but
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if they have a future this is something that women should be it's not superficial women should be to
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some degree concerned about a man's ability to provide in a relationship i don't think that's
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superficial but you're talking about ability abilities are different from actual numbers and
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heights and criterias and weight and all these things like that's all surface level of a person
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i don't like dictate things off of just that if i met someone who doesn't earn my ideal price but
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i really like him and i think he's an incredible person with a really great future that i can see
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myself in i'm not going to discredit him simply because of his finances that's great so it's not
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like a deal breaker factor if we're talking about general principles here uh as a man as you become
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more successful as you as you make more money as you uh improve in your career that tends to make
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you more attractive to women yeah so i mean you can cope all you want about you know oh it's all
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about the vibes bro and look again i'm not saying women only look for money i'm not saying that
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but yeah if you improve your money more women will find you attractive
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so and okay all right what are the other superficial things you dislike i already
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talked about it like weight eye color hair height those things to me are surface level
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i wouldn't none of those are deal breakers for me it's essentially what i'm saying right
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so you think it's superficial for somebody to care about somebody's weight yeah what if that's
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nuanced and deep then no but you're just saying like generally speaking i don't think so let's
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say it's not i'm willing to be lenient in certain ways so i think a lot of people i mean let's say
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it's not even about necessarily the aesthetics of it it's like what does this potentially say
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about the person well that's my point that's what i'm saying you know you have to have concern for
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your partner hey they might have health problems because they're morbidly obese they're 400 pounds
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uh are they going to die at 40 at 50 are they going to have health problems are they going to
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have you know kind of issues so i i don't think it's superficial but well that's not how i look
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at it so lovely uh what about you i'm five four and i said five five okay what about you five eight
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and i said six okay what about you i'm five seven and i said five six all right so you won't date a
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who's 5'10"? Not anymore. No. No. Just answer quickly. No. No, I understand.
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Makes you know. Yeah. Okay, so even if you, you know, even if you meet a great guy...
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I don't care. As I see his feet, I said no. What do you want me to answer?
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All right. That's fine. People can have their preferences. Exactly.
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Would you rather cross paths with a random man or, okay.
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I do feel afraid, low-key, when it's just me and a man walking down the street.
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To the point that you pick a bear over a man encountering a bear?
05:53:06.220
I just wanted I don't know I thought it was funny I guess so what is your actual position because if
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it's bear I'll engage you in the conversation I think I'm gonna change my answer to no I would
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not pick the bear okay all right let's get into disagreements I don't know if anybody wrote any
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disagreements but I know some of you had some disagreements in your notes I can look them up
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Yeah, a lot of the girls that come on here have, like, totally absurd point of views, and I don't agree with them at all.
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uh were you dating your boyfriend for those three years yeah okay so you guys were doing van life
05:54:37.260
together or separate no together and we were together for like i don't know a while before
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that too and then like had this goal and like built out the van actually he built out the van
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for me or for us but yeah then we like traveled for like three years and okay uh you in your notes
05:54:55.520
you further right that you're you also you mentioned your relationship got rough and this
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is where you've gotten to the specifics of the attempted cheating i guess you said you drove
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halfway across the country to meet some dude then turned around when you're three hours away
05:55:11.180
because you saw the billboard that says don't commit adultery damn i know that's crazy i'm
05:55:16.380
halfway good girl had you not seen the billboard do you think you would have
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gone through with it oh maybe i was like god's talking to me i was just gonna ask her she's
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religious yeah i'm from the south have you ever cheated on him properly though no okay never uh
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you said marriage is a bad deal for everyone why is that um well just because like doing it by the
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law it's like i don't know god doesn't say you have to like be married by the government it's
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like actually in the bible it says for man to like take him a wife not like go get married and sign
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some papers and um i don't know i guess that's it okay yeah i mean i don't want to get married
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so i mean it's not like a big deal to me like okay like me and luke like if we never got married i'm
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not like heartbroken i don't like need to be married because it's like we kind of like already
05:56:09.600
are you know sure uh you wrote that dating is not always easier for men if you're a cute cute girl
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you will literally have so many guys try to get with you tell you anything and lies
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how how is a baddie supposed to know who's a real one these days yeah like dudes will literally say
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anything to girls and okay so like i only knew that because i was like messing around you know
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um but yeah i feel like guys are full of shit a lot and will say anything to try to get in your
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pants or take you on a date. I'm curious for the women at the table here. So she says that,
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uh, would you, would you guys trade roles with men? So it's still be women. They still be men,
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but some of the role though, the roles are changed. So like you have to pay for the date
05:57:00.420
and you have to be the pursuer. And, uh, you know, you have to do all the things that men do.
05:57:06.060
you're still a woman he's still the man would you guys you and when i say trade roles i mean
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everyone's kind of swaps so like everyone swaps not just like who you're doing how long forever
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no that's how do you trade roles do trade roles nope trade roles no trade roles i trade i i take
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i trade i bet you would this guy's got the harder job i take the trick oh guys would definitely i
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think chat what do you think do uh uh do you take the trade so again you're still a man she's still
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a woman but the roles are reversed so the women are going to be hitting on you and sometimes
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they're going to be creepy as fuck and they're going to be sketchy or whatever and um but they
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they all all the women just want to give you pussy they just want to give you pussy and some
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of them are not going to date you though they're just going to use you for your dick i take the
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trade i take that trade do you take that trade i take the trade good talk yeah uh guys take the
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trade uh okay let's see here uh you said past does matter oh yeah uh you know what we'll come
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back to some of your other notes remind me to finish them uh where do we you know what let me
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do some questionnaire stuff then we'll do the notes uh let's see where we start uh you write
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chris love you write you agree with the following statement women are just as physically strong as
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men i agree why is that because i seen women that are stronger than men there's firefighter
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women there's into the mic there's firefighter women there's people in the army
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that um okay and then veronica you also agree women are just as physically strong as men why
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that it really just depends if like a woman is like training or not like there could be like a
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thick scrawny man and a huge buff woman so it's like you know one of them is stronger than the
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other so it's not just like all man and woman you know what i mean one woman could be stronger than
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okay but um do humans have 10 fingers yes are some humans born with 11 fingers yes is it
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incorrect to say that humans are born with 10 fingers no okay so i acknowledge that there are
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some women who are stronger than some men the question is a general one though oh in general
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yeah no yes in general oh oh sorry yeah go ahead in general i feel like yeah physically yeah
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average no comment median no you don't have a comment
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but you you did indicate that women are just as physically strong as men
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How about this? I'll specify the question. On average, are women just as physically strong
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as men? The median, are women just as physically strong as men? Well, you're the only one who
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circled this. In general, are men physically stronger than women? It just depends. How could
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it depend have you seen like the news in weightlifting there's literally women who are so
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strong yes there there are there's women who are probably stronger than me there's there are strong
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women uh but so let me ask it like this the strongest person who exists is it a man or a
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let me just say the standard bullshit men what do you mean the standard bullshit
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what are you backing down from your position are you conceding on your position or i'm just saying
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men so you can move on well i'm here to engage you in a conversation if you genuinely believe
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that women are just as physically strong as men i'm happy to have the convo like i said before i
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said yes and no so that's just like my comment you want me to what that's just my comment is yes and
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no okay but i'm asking you a question definitely no but can you answer this um the strongest person
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on earth is a man or a woman i don't know you don't know yes or no do when it comes to we
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when it comes to like sporting events olympics uh
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do men lift more weights can they lift more weight
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then what are those girls doing that the weight lift champion there are strong women in the olympics
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but there are not stronger women in the olympics okay let's let's do racing how about running
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are men faster than women yeah i mean do you i don't understand if you're just being
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passive-aggressive you seem to want to answer one way so i'm a bit confused
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i don't know why you're in your feelings about this i'm not i my answer was yes or no
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i think she just doesn't want to debate it well what i mean truthfully there's nothing to debate
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exactly that's what she said but men are physically stronger than women but you're
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disputing this i'm saying some women are stronger than men not all women are stronger than men
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okay so how about this collective strength are all men together collectively stronger
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than all women collectively yes i don't understand i don't get the attitude like
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are you saying yes just to move the conversation along and you believe the other thing
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you said all men together yes i believe they're stronger than women okay because before you were
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like i gave you a yes just to move the conversation on so what do you truly believe
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i actually i don't know that's what i believe okay well i can tell you this and you can tell
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me if you agree or don't uh so men are stronger than women men are faster than women men run
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faster than women men can lift more weights than women men can uh if you look at the top
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the elite athletes right so yes there are some women who can lift more than some men
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this is true however in general men on average have more physical have more strength and they're
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faster do you agree or disagree i don't know why you're like am i just crazy here did she
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you said all men put together yeah men would be stronger
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what does muscle translate to generally do you have more do you have more strength
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strength or steroids okay but you you'd agree that you know typically if as you have a bit
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more muscle you have more strength if men have more muscle then wouldn't they be stronger than
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women okay so there are some women who are taller than some men but on average men are taller than
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women on average okay uh i don't know why i don't know i feel like girls have a problem with the
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concept of men being stronger than okay i mean it's true it's no i don't care i'm just over the
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question i i don't agree but i'm just like over the you i feel like she already made you don't
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agree with what no i'm saying i agree like i well actually no i disagree that men have or women have
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a hard time accepting it i just think it's a small group of women who have a hard time accepting it
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okay so you disagree with what she's saying yeah okay i don't think it's a majority i don't think
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it's a lot of women but some women do i don't know it's physical straight it's just biology
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I think they hear it as, like, just a stronger, better person.
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Because they probably just don't want to admit that somebody else is stronger.
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But men and women have different unequal attributes.
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we have different strength our bones are different and so um it's not like when we say men are
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stronger than women we're talking about physical the question the statement encompasses physical
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strength and yes men are physically stronger than women this is just like julia said it's
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just biological reality so all right uh you uh chris you said women do not have equal rights
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to men in the USA why is that see the like the type of jobs what would that
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have to do with rights though well so like a right would be something like the
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right to own a firearm do men have a right to own a firearm and do women not
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have a right to own a firearm okay so but is there a job that a woman is legally not allowed
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to have they want i'm just saying sometimes they get discriminated men also get discriminated
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against but that wouldn't be evidence of an inequality of rights
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okay uh further lindsey you also agree women do not have equal rights to men in the usa why is
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that well i mean i didn't really look i'm just so not political so i don't ever think it's not
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even political well rights you're talking about politics you just gave a political example well
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it's not like i wasn't thinking about it as politics so yes if it's politics then yes i don't
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okay so okay women do not have equal rights why why is that as i said if it's politics then i
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have a very different opinion i wasn't looking at it as politics so how were you do you want to just
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answer the question though or well i've told you that's if it's political then like no i honestly
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i don't even remember the question is at this point women do not have equal rights to men in
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the usa well if you're talking about political rights then i'm pretty sure that they do i don't
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know enough i don't so what are the rights that women do not have i don't know that's what i'm
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saying i don't look at as political okay you don't know the rights that women do not have
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do you still do you still assert that women do not have equal rights even if you don't know i
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think that they do have equal rights until i don't until i know which ones we don't have
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i'd rather say we do have equal rights but you did circle okay yes because i wasn't looking at
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as political all right veronica you also circled it i was more focused on discriminatory equal
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rights to mend the usa why is that i changed my mind are you just you literally what do you mean
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you changed her mind well after she spoke i agree i changed my mind because i didn't look at as
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political i thought you meant like discriminatory or like work i just don't think equal rights
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Are you changing your mind because you don't want to answer?
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They're like, oh, I understand the question now
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Okay, so women have equal rights to men in the USA
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or her i told you no already until i have enough information to know the actual accuracy i don't
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know the right answer to that i don't know politics until i knew the actual facts i don't
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have any answer no okay absent you being able to point to a way in which women do not have equal
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rights are you willing to assume that they do yes until i know that otherwise i'd rather just say
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yes okay holy fuck bro am i supposed to say no i don't understand like do you want me to say no
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i don't think women don't have equal rights i do think they do if it's political i wasn't looking
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at this as political wait you think they do have equal political rights i don't know enough so i'm
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just saying yes i don't know non-political right do you think men have that women don't i was just
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saying i and when it comes to not politics i know they make a large percentage less for the same
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exact positions so that's not a right though that's my point i didn't look at it as right i
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don't look at things politically so political language is like so outside of my radar it's
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just not the first thing i think of i like genuinely that was not what i was thinking i
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didn't think oh political i just don't have a mind like that so i thought it was more like
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discriminatory workplace life kind of things not politics i just don't talk about politics or
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have like a politics in my you know it's just not in my world often so like I just don't think that
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way naturally uh okay um that's interesting I suppose I told you I don't even own a tv I don't
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have any streaming accounts like I'm very like out of touch I would say Veronica you agree women
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are oppressed in the usa why is that um i don't really remember circling that you've well i just
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told you you did okay um tiffany could you get me my phone please go ahead i explain what oppression
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means i was kind of i'll google it i'll just give you a google definition i was kind of just
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OPPRESSION, PROLONGED, CRUEL OR UNJUST TREATMENT, THE STATE OF
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BEING SUBJECT TO UNJUST TREATMENT OR CONTROL. I DON'T REALLY KNOW WHAT
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THAT MEANS, I GUESS. I WAS JUST CONFUSED BY THE QUESTION, THAT'S WHY.
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okay so what does that mean to be a feminist um i support women no matter like what they do
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so if a woman falsely accuses a man of a sex crime you would support her no matter what well
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obviously not you just said you would support a good person in general i'm talking about uh amber
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heard versus johnny depp do you support amber heard no i don't know what that situation is
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you're not familiar with like pretty much the most famous court case we've had in the past decade i
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I don't know anything about political and all this other stuff.
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Feminism is massively a component of dating because if you're a more feminist woman, that's going to have an influence on how you date, how you view men, how you assess men.
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but in any case um uh you said you're feminist and that's standing by women no matter what
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yes like 95 percent of the time obviously if they're an abuser no but like in my opinion
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a hundred percent most of the time i'm always gonna like stand by the woman just because i
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am a woman and that's my opinion and my decision okay so you stand by women so what
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what does that mean in practice like for example if she wants to be a stripper i 100 support that
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i'm like a girl's girl i guess okay um can i ask do you have a brother if he was accused of a sex
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crime would you believe the woman uh i would not believe her honestly like my little brother i
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just know him very well but oh i thought you stand by women i do i would definitely listen to her
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side too okay I would have to hear like what actually but you immediately I didn't say whether
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it was false or true but you immediately when it comes to familial bonds your feminism kind of went
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out the window there yeah it's just like family I guess okay uh do you think women are oppressed
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in the United States no you're okay so why are you a feminist because that's just what I choose
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to be and that doesn't answer the question why am i a feminist because i love women you can love
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women and not be a feminist okay well i'm i've always considered myself a feminist and will
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so what what is feminism fighting for just like women's rights abortion you know things like that
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okay now we're getting somewhere so if it's fighting for women's rights what right does
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a woman uh excuse me what right do men have that women don't men have women don't yeah because you
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said it's fighting for women's rights what is the right that feminists are fighting for
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what is the right to murder their children is that it is that all you have no it's not about
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murdering children at all that's not the way that i view it okay okay and that's your guys's opinion
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it's her bodily autonomy why can't she abort the baby
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or are you fine with it maybe you know i just don't feel like talking about it honestly
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there has to be a reason for it like a qualified reason and i guess in the states where abortion
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has been made illegal again i would say we're entering an era of oppression of women
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i don't i don't support terminating a baby at the end of you know pregnancy i think
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they're again under certain like certain restrictions with the law all with tons of
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resources available to the women right like you're like come in get tested like make if you if this
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is something that is threatening your life or you know product product of rape or whatever like this
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is time period whatever I just I think and it's not about I don't know like terminating life it
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It really is about being able to make decisions about your own body and health care, I guess.
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Well, what you did there is you smuggled in sometimes some genuine exceptions that would allow a woman to get an abortion.
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If I were to grant that in the instances of the life of the mother, rape and incest, and I say abortion's fine in those circumstances, are you prepared to say abortion is wrong in all other circumstances?
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i mean i personally in my opinion i think that you should be able to decide no matter what like
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for example if i were to get pregnant right now i would probably pass away because my i'm just like
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too small my ovaries are complicated and i'm not i don't think you would die because
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you're small that's what i was told like who told you that the doctor i'll tell you i'm five four
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you're the average woman's height 5'4 is the average woman's height are you saying you're
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underweight yes I'm super underweight so if I were to have a kid I would probably die as well
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as the kid so I would probably put myself first in that situation I'm not familiar about underweight
06:18:18.380
pregnancies uh probably I was told personally well I mean there would be solutions to that
06:18:25.780
you could eat more food i suppose some people can't gain weight calories in calories out that's
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ridiculous no it's always been like this for me yeah it's calories in calories out some people
06:18:38.780
can't yeah even if you have a fast metabolism like if you're like if you set out to gain weight
06:18:48.660
you can do it and i have you can't like bro if you're if you're fucking pounding certain like
06:18:55.920
they can make certain shakes that are super high i do i drink those every day you guys i've been
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trying for a while right but that's an appetite issue no no it's genetics yeah it is genetics
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like it's like there's a couple people in my family like that so i mean we can use these
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outlier situations or whatever. My question to you, Julia, was granting that abortion is fine
06:19:19.160
in those circumstances. Are you against abortion for she got knocked up during a one night stand
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and she doesn't want the kid or she's dating her boyfriend. They had consensual sex. She got
06:19:29.080
pregnant and she's just not in a good financial place. Man, that's a hard one. I'm like, I'm,
06:19:37.740
i'm weighing morality against free will but then that brings me to like murdering someone that's
06:19:45.520
not legal but i don't know think if you're like i mean i mean shooting someone like murder
06:19:53.200
murdering like an adult like okay i i just want to say i think it comes down to like your body
06:19:59.340
being able to make the choice oh your body being able to make your own choices it's like
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like there's something that feels inherently wrong about telling someone what they can do
06:20:07.960
about their body, but I get what you're like. Well, there's another body in there. I know. I
06:20:12.940
know. I know. But then if you want to get even more meta, it's like, do you think it is the
06:20:18.140
right thing to do to let a child be born into that sort of situation? Do you think that's morally
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right? So children who are currently born, who currently live in poverty, should we murder them?
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no no but it's but their their current their life is bad because they're in poverty
06:20:33.180
we should just kill them right no why not but their life is bad because they're living in
06:20:40.920
sentient right now oh okay so then it's not just uh their life might be bad therefore we should
06:20:50.300
abort them it's something else it's like i mean i think to a certain point within when it's a fetus
06:21:01.880
a baby yeah it's again fetus means baby the very no the very classic argument like is this a living
06:21:09.760
being while it's still in your like what is it murder right
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oh yeah i mean life life life begins at conception so a heartbeat again
06:21:21.480
uh i'm not sure that it's a what is it eight weeks i think i think that there should be like
06:21:28.540
a cutoff time like after eight weeks i think if you're a grown adult and making the decision to
06:21:35.540
have sex and you get pregnant then you should not go kill that kid now like if the baby's going to
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kill you by being pregnant or it's even hard for me to say like abortion's okay if you were raped
06:21:46.920
i'd almost say like have the kid and give it to adoption um do you really want to go through nine
06:21:52.180
months and then i would rather do that and kill a human yeah and like i don't know well i we're
06:21:58.400
not going to linger on the abortion convo but um you were saying your feminist uh abortion rights
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or whatever of course men don't have any reproductive rights if the woman wants to keep
06:22:08.520
the kid, the man has no say. The one who wants to get rid of the kid, the man has no say. So men
06:22:13.220
have no reproductive rights. Uh, I believe actually to achieve equality, you either have to give men
06:22:18.600
a way out or you would have to completely roll back any abortion rights whatsoever for there to
06:22:24.320
be equality between men and women. Uh, so give men a way out in what way? So the, the way out is
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obviously a man i don't think a man should be able to force a woman to get an abortion but the
06:22:38.440
way out would be the man can completely revoke his uh any parental duty or responsibility so
06:22:44.660
even if the woman wanted child support from him he could be like no i'm getting a paper abortion
06:22:50.000
i don't have to pay you shit that's the way men get their out that would be fair that would be a
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form that would be a form of equity uh so but most women aren't too stoked on that either
06:23:03.760
the question for you though Veronica is feminism do you believe there's a patriarchy
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no I don't think so there's not you're a feminist but there's not a patriarchy okay I don't know I
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guess I just need to do more research I wasn't expecting to talk about this yeah I mean it's
06:23:27.740
we talk about all these topics but I've never watched the show so you what I've I literally
06:23:33.540
have never seen anything you reached out to us to be on yes because i saw like on a ad thing but i
06:23:38.860
didn't watch anything all right that's fine that's fine that's fine um all right so uh okay let me see
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if there's anything else from the questionnaire here a woman's career money status makes her
06:23:52.640
more attractive to men lexi you agree with that why is that um i think that that's just an addition
06:23:59.320
but um i don't know like a specific career i'm looking for but i think it's good if a man's
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passionate about something no it's a woman's career money status makes her more attractive
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to men i misunderstood brooklyn you also circled that why is that i know that men like mainly want
06:24:20.500
looks mainly most guys some guys care about status yeah uh okay like clout and stuff
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especially in our generation they care about the woman's clout yeah clout they're no clout
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shakes the men i know a lot of guys are age at least yeah i so okay like let me frame it like
06:24:45.700
let's say there's a girl who's five out of ten but she's got
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eight out of ten in looks and she's got 300 followers on instagram
06:25:00.060
and it's private who do the guys pick but what kind of guy
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because like the guys all guys from back home probably clout
06:25:07.800
chase where's back home like ventura you think guys who live in ventura would rather date a 510
06:25:14.280
girl with clout than an 810 girl with 300 followers it depends on what they're looking
06:25:19.660
for so three points i mean some guys will like use women too yeah but that's that's uh that's
06:25:26.900
not genuine attraction yeah that's like just they're hobos yeah they're just clout they just
06:25:32.940
want to yeah that's not attraction though did it say attraction on there yeah a woman's career
06:25:39.280
money status makes her more attractive to men to which you agree you agree attractive so yeah
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there's guys who are like bums and they're want to mooch off their clout girlfriend yeah but he'd
06:25:53.840
probably cheat on her the clouded up five out of ten with the eight ten but would you like like
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you would you think that a woman with like a career could make her more attractive no not
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really yeah it's like i don't think so going for her like i don't know i mean it's hot it's not
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it's a neutral it's rarely ever a positive it's either neutral or negative i'm just saying like
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it could i'm not saying that it's like negative or like neutral i mean the thing is is that men
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just there's a couple reasons i mean also latisha you before i get my answer do you want to weigh
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in you you agree a woman's career money status makes her more attractive to men same with you
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julia julia leticia okay maybe not a more attractive like draw i think that it does make a better
06:26:41.540
partner leticia yeah i thought like i was saying that more in the way of she's driven she's got
06:26:48.420
something going on she's got goals she's got ambition so maybe not a career but just at least
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like something going on for herself she's just not like waiting for someone to show up in her life
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she should have ambition to give me seven sons that should be the woman's ambition
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well you can have like i'm not saying yeah don't be homeless don't be homeless but in terms of
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like don't be some boss babe that's i mean you can be i guess but uh it doesn't make you more
06:27:18.120
attractive like i understand that women uh you have to pay rent you have to eat food you have
06:27:22.360
expenses so yes uh you need to work i i understand that but beyond that it doesn't make you more
06:27:28.840
attractive if you're if you're a woman who's a doctor versus a woman aside from like if she's a
06:27:34.340
doctor she probably has higher iq or whatever versus a woman who works at chick-fil-a beyond
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that uh the career component does not make her more attractive wouldn't you like as a successful
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man career alone the title the title no but like the things that if it's a doctor or and they're
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uh wealthy like that you can tell she is disciplined you know she medical school
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she's intelligent yes yeah i mean well first off doctor is a bit of a big outlier here i should
06:28:06.500
have just said some like chick who has a corporate job but yes being a doctor would present some
06:28:12.580
positive characteristics but it also comes with some negatives uh fucking insanely busy
06:28:18.280
is she a doctor yet like is she in residency oh you want to wait five years to have kids
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uh i don't know oh you want to wait till you're 35 to have kids i don't know so yeah there there
06:28:32.700
are some positive things that you can draw from a woman who's a doctor i'm also going to think
06:28:37.240
she's going to be super stressed out she's going to prioritize her career over our children and
06:28:44.100
she's going to be busy. She's going to be stressed out. Alcoholism rates among doctors is higher than
06:28:50.900
the general population. So it has some positives and some negatives. And of course, she's probably
06:28:57.500
more intelligent than average. Not always the case, but yeah, I'd be willing to grant that.
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But it's like the additional factor here though of the career, women don't share their resources
06:29:09.620
with men the same way men will share their resources with women most of you here said men
06:29:15.220
should pay on first dates men should provide like y'all even if we men we were inclined to
06:29:21.860
care about a woman's status or career or money you wouldn't we wouldn't reap any benefits like
06:29:27.620
here you have a woman who makes five figures a month i assume i think she said it earlier
06:29:34.120
she wants a guy to pay for the first date so it's like i don't if i date a woman even if she
06:29:42.060
makes good money i don't receive a benefit from that now if you're a woman and you date a wealthy
06:29:47.520
guy that's gonna that's gonna have real materialized way uh in terms of your lifestyle
06:29:57.240
there's sugar mamas too though are there more sugar daddies or are there more sugar i know
06:30:02.600
Oh, there's more sugar daddies, but I'm just saying there's sugar mamas too.
06:30:05.160
Any single woman here, if you wanted to, you could get a sugar daddy within a week.
06:30:08.840
90% of men cannot get a sugar mama, and they're, like, super rare.
06:30:17.000
You know, my two, three last relationship were this way.
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So, yeah, I am not going to go into another one, but, like, my three ex-relationship were like that.
06:30:29.660
I even, like, loaned some money to my ex-partner.
06:30:32.140
i was paying for his daughter because he had a daughter like yeah and i paid for all my immigration
06:30:38.260
paperwork i paid for all of it i paid for our travels with my ex-husband so yeah it exists like
06:30:44.040
okay so find one so i'm yes there are women out there there are women who pay for things i
06:30:51.240
understand that it's really rare it's super rare um and uh i mean i mean i know a lot of women who
06:31:00.460
are in that setup right now so i don't know okay do you know is it true though that there are more
06:31:05.860
men who are sugar daddies than there are women that are sugar mamas is that true like it's the
06:31:12.800
ratio is probably a hundred to one for every male sugar for every hundred uh male sugar daddy there's
06:31:20.220
one sugar mama and women generally are not particularly satisfied having to hold down a
06:31:26.920
guy financially in a relationship they're generally not cool with that and then it's like also uh men
06:31:33.720
should pay on first dates the majority of women here say men should pay on first dates i would
06:31:37.600
say the majority of women men should pay on first dates so it's like yeah we can talk about like
06:31:43.460
there are some women who don't expect that but the majority of women do i have a question for you
06:31:49.900
yeah okay same girl she's so what are you eight nine which is like amazing attractive one has
06:31:57.160
never been employed has never had a job sure the other one is a doctor they both want to give you
06:32:02.540
seven sons the doctor woman she's like if if you if we will get married i will quit my job
06:32:07.260
be a stay-at-home mom give you seven sons which is more attractive are they the same age yes
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everything everything equal just the money career and status um then it would just be
06:32:22.000
i'd be willing to grant that yeah the doctor would be the preferred choice
06:32:26.220
but i don't think that disproves my point because my point here is about attraction so it's like
06:32:33.360
uh is this a physical how many how many doctors who okay she she spent she spent hundreds of
06:32:41.900
thousand dollars on med school she spent 10 years and i don't know how long doctor it's long 10
06:32:47.720
years in college and then she's gonna do one year she's gonna work one year as a doctor and then
06:32:53.440
quit no so some women some doctors as women might do that but would you agree that most women who
06:33:02.900
are doctors are not gonna do that i do agree yes they're not gonna do that less like they're not
06:33:09.020
gonna do that and honestly there is more and more men that are like well if my wife may wait wait
06:33:14.080
can i oh sorry go ahead go ahead make more money than i they they are even ready to quit the job
06:33:20.240
and take care of the kids and honestly like as a in-home daycare worker like i had a couple of
06:33:27.400
family where men were like oh yeah like she makes the money we need the income and i you know she's
06:33:33.040
they take they take care of the kids and i mean maybe it depends also if you live in a city in
06:33:38.280
a mountain like i live i live and only have lived in mountain times so maybe we are different and we
06:33:44.500
don't work the same way but yeah it okay wait really quick question back to you julia uh she
06:33:50.580
only worked as a doctor for one year i don't know maybe seven years who knows it's it's okay so so
06:33:59.640
i mean now i'm factoring something else in i'm assuming she has student loans probably that a lot
06:34:06.820
that outweigh the i don't know how much med school maybe somebody in the chat can write uh
06:34:12.820
how much a typical doctor in the u.s has in medical debt by the time they finish up uh they
06:34:19.380
graduate from med school or their residency or whatever i would assume her i mean you could even
06:34:24.340
say well actually the debt's equal i mean okay then yes i picked the doctor it doesn't have to
06:34:30.900
be a doctor or something but like and money like so she's high on all the things career okay so no
06:34:36.580
no debt for either great money yeah sure i'll pick i'll pick the doctor but realistically
06:34:40.760
speaking realistically i don't think she's i don't think she's quitting her job i don't think
06:34:45.320
she's quitting her job no she's not she a majority of my family are surgeons they would never they
06:34:51.900
put their job first uh in this very narrow hypothetical you've given me it's i wouldn't
06:34:58.640
say she's more attractive but it's a more optimal choice like it's it's more optimal i guess you
06:35:05.560
select her over i would select her over over the other woman but in terms of attraction i wouldn't
06:35:11.880
be like like i think when women look at a male who's a doctor they will feel feel like a a degree
06:35:19.880
of uh attraction there to that desire yeah like that's an appealing like that's a that that is
06:35:27.320
you don't think so i do think i do think there are certain jobs that based on the job the the women
06:35:33.800
will have like more of a, I'm not saying it's necessarily make or break. There could be like
06:35:39.600
really ugly, terrible personality doctors. Uh, but what I'm saying here generally, I do think
06:35:45.880
a man, if he has a certain career that can be like a bit of a draw for a woman, but I don't
06:35:52.300
think it draws men in that same way or to the same degree. So again, I don't think it's about
06:35:58.360
the title. I think it's what it implies that this woman is hardworking. She's dedicated. She doesn't
06:36:02.360
quit when it gets hard and then if you can convert that into a wife right oh yeah that's exactly what
06:36:07.020
a trad man would be looking for yeah i suppose uh in your hypothetical i would i would pick the
06:36:12.580
doctor under those circumstances but um yeah okay let's see moving on here blasting through this
06:36:18.320
there's a few more here we have uh let's see uh lindsey a woman should not be rejected because of
06:36:27.220
overweight. Why is that? I mean, after all the conversations we have, I have no idea.
06:36:33.040
Into the mic? I don't know. I guess your perception of weight is much different than mine. So,
06:36:39.520
I mean, I don't think of fat as obese, for example. You don't think of fat? As obese, no.
06:36:45.800
Well, somebody can be fat and not quite obese or morbidly obese. Exactly. There's chubby,
06:36:50.180
overweight, heavy. Right. So let's say a woman who's 200 pounds. Is it wrong? I'll just change
06:36:55.800
a question uh and let's say she's five foot four for that to be a deal breaker yes i think it's
06:37:00.200
wrong right so uh wrong for a man to not want to date a woman who's five foot four and weighs 200
06:37:06.700
pounds i mean yeah if it's simply off of that then yeah well because if he likes her and all
06:37:12.380
the other ways and his only deal breaker is weight i don't think that's right but i hold
06:37:16.000
that standard you're smuggling in you're smuggling in a bit of extra uh criteria but so the statement
06:37:22.240
is a woman should not uh would it be unfair for a woman to say a a man comes up to her and he's
06:37:31.800
she's how tall are you five nine okay um you're how tall five seven five eight five eight and you
06:37:38.900
said six feet okay would it be wrong for her to reject a guy who's five foot tall i mean no
06:37:45.280
because that's her preference but i mean if that's the deal breaker i think so i'm just saying that
06:37:50.140
though because usually i get to know the person before i actually date them so like if the only
06:37:55.080
deal breaker is their height or their weight or their hair like to me that's not smart for anybody
06:38:00.500
okay but the question is a woman should not be rejected because of her weight to me rejection
06:38:07.700
is a deal breaker i don't i mean maybe from a distance but like i don't know i mean guess it
06:38:13.060
just depends on what you mean well rejection to me is like like i don't know you ask somebody to
06:38:17.600
be with you and they say no that's my idea of it not like a on the surface i don't know like maybe
06:38:23.840
i just don't assume that a woman would come up to a guy ever so i don't really see the world in
06:38:29.260
which somebody you don't think men can reject women no they can but i mean for that to be a
06:38:34.540
deal breaker i do think it's wrong if you've been talking to someone and you like them if that's the
06:38:39.260
one thing you're adding a qualifier that was not granted in the question well yes a woman should
06:38:45.140
not be rejected because of her weight can i can a can a woman reject a man on a dating app
06:38:49.820
can a man reject a woman on a dating app sure but i don't know where you're talking about let's say
06:38:55.620
on a dating app in his profile uh on the man's profile it says that he's five feet
06:39:01.580
can a woman reject him for that she wants to sure but i don't think it's right you think but it's
06:39:08.160
on a dating app so i mean it's just that's how it's so she's wrong is she wrong no that's what
06:39:13.440
she wants no but you're asking about my opinion right it's not right it's wrong only if it's like
06:39:19.760
the deal breaker yeah yes it can be but the thing is i don't meet people online that's why i'm trying
06:39:24.380
to say i don't know like when i've dated guys significantly shorter than me so i just i don't
06:39:29.620
know or much heavier than me i've dated some very heavy set guys i understand that you've dated
06:39:34.360
these men but if it's a deal breaker i think it's not about this it's not a guy a guy walks up to
06:39:41.800
her and he's a fucking dwarf he's a fucking midget he walks up to her is she wrong is she
06:39:48.120
wrong for rejecting him well if he just walked up to her then no i mean that's different that's not
06:39:53.640
what i'm talking about that's what i'm talking about yeah and i said no already so that's what
06:39:57.280
i'm saying i don't know why we're going back but so if she's like considering him i would assume
06:40:02.420
i would assume that she's okay with the height thing well like that's what i'm saying i don't
06:40:13.120
But you understand that men and women are different than you.
06:40:16.600
So they might have different preferences than you.
06:40:18.820
Is there anything that's a deal breaker for you?
06:40:21.260
Probably if they smoke cigarettes, for example, or they're like, if they're a parent who doesn't
06:40:25.380
want to be active in their children's lives or their unfaithful history of cheating.
06:40:29.240
And it's not wrong for you to reject somebody who's a smoker.
06:40:37.980
what if a guy doesn't want to be in the presence of a 500 pound woman that's fine romantically
06:40:45.660
and don't do an attempt to have sex with her attempt keyword attempt then don't do it i mean
06:40:52.340
you have to be able to climb that's what i said then like no i mean i guess around to get as a
06:40:59.620
person i don't even think as some i mentioned before i have an average penis i don't even
06:41:03.780
think i can make it i don't even think i could get there there's too much fat i don't know
06:41:10.060
i guess bro so okay is it wrong for a man to reject a woman because of her weight
06:41:17.520
now there's other people i wish i asked everybody first uh lindsey you think it's the case veronica
06:41:24.800
a woman should not be rejected because of her weight why is that if it's solely because of
06:41:29.700
her weight i just think that would be mean in my opinion it would be mean yeah if like it was me
06:41:36.040
like if a really fat guy came up to me i wouldn't want to reject him because he's fat so you would
06:41:43.400
reject him wait i don't understand not necessarily you'd go on a date with him yes if he was nice
06:41:47.920
but i wouldn't reject him solely because he's fat so he's 500 pounds and you don't reject him
06:41:55.200
I'm not going to reject him solely because he's 500 pounds.
06:42:02.600
If he's asking individualized questions, that's the truth for some people.
06:42:19.000
You said you're 5'4", and the minimum height you would date is 5'5".
06:42:28.320
I would rather date someone who is 5'3 and above.
06:42:35.380
No, the question is, it's baked into the question.
06:42:39.040
What's the minimum height you would date of a guy?
06:42:51.560
That question, though, it's not like I'm taking it so seriously.
06:43:08.560
She would date a guy who's 5'5", which is well below the average male height.
06:43:56.160
the only man you've ever been in a relationship with
06:44:07.640
Okay, but is it wrong then for men to not want to reject?
06:44:11.620
By the way, I'm not saying men should be dicks about it,
06:44:16.080
hey the fact a 500 pound woman walks up to me even me the fucking asshole i'm not gonna be like
06:44:23.800
bitch you're too fat i'm gonna be like i would actually be like uh i'd be like props to her
06:44:30.020
she like shot her shot uh hey thank you so much that's very nice i'm not i'm not looking for
06:44:35.860
anything i wouldn't even say anything about her weight i'd be polite yeah but i'm not you wrote
06:44:42.820
the question though what do you mean i wrote what's wrong with the question you wrote it
06:44:47.100
because that is a topic on your mind like you're you're just thinking about weight yeah it's a
06:44:53.680
people okay it's a what it's a fair question yeah it's a fair question but okay veronica but it
06:45:00.620
will be different for each person is all i'm saying we can't get a woman's ideas that you
06:45:04.760
have to write it down wait what do you mean why would what matter like it matters so much to you
06:45:08.860
that you have to ask everyone this every time they go on the show uh well hold on women also
06:45:14.860
have a preference when it comes to body weight too but uh yeah men don't want to date morbidly
06:45:21.280
obese women generally speaking do you is that like shocking for you to hear it's 500 pounds
06:45:28.300
obese yeah do you know okay yeah that's morbidly obese that's bad is this like shocking like i
06:45:53.500
It's just because you said like cigarettes is unhealthy.
06:45:56.800
Well, I mean, I've dated some really tall ass dudes.
06:46:00.200
It's kind of different on height and body mass.
06:46:21.300
When he says 500, I don't think, oh, I know what that looks like.
06:46:33.420
And, and you know what, get, um, I almost feel like I got to punish you two with food
06:46:41.400
We have some expired pickles in the refrigerator.
06:46:59.160
Leticia, you also fucking circled, uh, that it's wrong.
06:47:03.980
uh or that a woman should not be rejected because of her weight why is that
06:47:08.220
did you not mean to no you're fine with it oh you're fine with it okay all right well that's
06:47:15.340
there it is then uh have i changed your mind v dog no no is it still wrong
06:47:26.300
i think let's get into the table let's get into it is this i'm just i'm not trying to be
06:47:38.620
prodding is is this like um are you are you leaving is this a rage quit or
06:48:20.680
If somebody gets up silently and walks away, that's your cue to leave them alone.
06:48:25.200
So I think if you're going to attack anybody right now, it should be the people who are sitting here willingly.
06:48:46.740
Veronica, if you come back, I promise to never reject a fat woman ever.
06:49:16.600
We're going to simply ask her if she'd like to come back.
06:49:23.980
Please pass the plates down to Lexington and give her the plates.
06:49:36.980
Please take, my goodness, I've given you guys pizza and none of you ate it.
06:49:45.160
How many girls have you made cry on this podcast?
06:50:18.120
I just think that pushing people to that extent isn't very common.
06:50:22.100
Well, yeah, he kept going back to her when she literally wasn't even saying anything.
06:50:25.440
She made it very clear that she did not want to talk, just like you did with her, too.
06:50:30.040
Yeah, but when she did, you did not ignore the fact that she wanted to move on.
06:50:38.200
Yeah, but you shouldn't force people to give responses.
06:50:40.020
is forcing with someone would be to walk over there grab her lips and no i think if somebody
06:50:45.820
says no her head i think if somebody says they're done then they're done i think people just aren't
06:50:50.420
giving responses i think it's within their response no they're not giving a real response
06:50:55.340
it's a discussion it's a verbal discussion podcast there's an expectation that you're
06:51:00.080
going to contribute and have a conversation uh if you think i pushed hard on her you should
06:51:06.060
see fucking andrew wilson look it's fair game like i'm like i don't even know who that is
06:51:11.100
oh my god i mean you and andrew tate are like on the same level i'm talking about andrew wilson
06:51:18.800
not andrew tate and no me and andrew tate are not on the same level w brooklyn for having my
06:51:24.700
fucking back let's go w's in the chapter brooklyn get her some fucking pom-poms get her
06:51:58.220
Do you know I mean I don't know maybe if you didn't like it's it's vague, bro
06:52:03.940
Maybe if you just gave me a straight answer we would have been out of here an hour ago
06:52:08.920
You can like them or dislike them. I don't really care
06:52:18.900
Hey, no, sit down. I cannot stay here this late
06:52:59.580
I mean, we didn't even do her notes, but whatever.
06:53:49.340
This makes literally no sense what you just did
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Don't fucking come and disrupt my fucking producer
06:54:17.720
I don't know why you guys are doing this with the chairs
06:54:46.480
yeah yeah everybody scoot down scoot down god damn that was way too much so wait a second
06:55:06.720
okay we're good all right here let me try to get through this then that's fucking
06:55:16.480
lame as fuck though oh my god she loses her fucking mind over the uh it's it's it's fine
06:55:23.540
for that girl veronica to want to date a guy who's over five foot five and to reject him if
06:55:29.980
he's below five foot five but it's wrong for men to have a weight preference in women totally
06:55:36.340
incoherent totally fucking incoherent both of them were divas and like wants to fucking
06:55:42.140
what what brooklyn pointed this out quite accurately where the the girl with the frizzy
06:55:49.300
curly hair whatever said that i made her what did she say i made her feel that way or what what was
06:55:55.980
it she said that you were like pushing her oh yeah no no it wasn't that she said forcing her
06:56:00.380
no no no it wasn't that chat she that i made her feel bad i say no you were like brian didn't make
06:56:10.740
her feel anything she was just sensitive on her own i think that's what you're trying to get at
06:56:22.980
okay how do i make somebody cry yeah it's not like you were she wants to reject men you have
06:56:33.320
to work yourself up to cry she wants to reject men that are below five foot five i'm telling her
06:56:40.100
that it's not wrong for men to reject a woman because of her weight these are completely
06:56:45.900
whatever bro that's the sisterhood though like she cries as soon as women cries logic uh goes
06:56:54.380
out the oh my god we have to coddle her that was caught that's what we call coddling the girl that
06:57:01.800
was sitting there chair five was coddling her as soon as a woman cries even if she's crying over
06:57:07.180
some nonsense i think chair oh my god to walk out on her own she might have she might have but uh
06:57:14.080
that woman was completely devoid of any sort of logic so it's nuanced though it's i don't know
06:57:21.620
and it's yes and no i don't think i'll ever use that word i'm like traumatized
06:57:27.080
well in any case uh that does mean we will be able to get through the show a little bit faster
06:57:33.600
I suppose. So I'll try to, I'm going to try to go quick, I guess. There was one more here. Wait,
06:57:42.160
so okay, we, I got to remove, one sec. I got to remove Lindsay, and I got to remove Veronica.
06:57:56.180
One sec, guys, one sec. I think we're actually done with the questionnaire, truth be told.
06:58:01.000
uh so then we just have the notes we have the questions all right you guys are congrats for
06:58:08.160
i was a little spy i've been spicy tonight not gonna lie so uh good job you guys have made it
06:58:12.800
she worked up you guys are troopers you guys are troopers hold on let me change the title of the
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video to um i have to change the title of the video one sec two i'm gonna say two rage quits
06:58:28.500
hold on what was the title yeah hater came to destroy brian 18 year old
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no we pulled it up and i see an ai generated version of me and then she's like is that you
06:58:45.480
and i was like and it's his 18 year old ruined and i was like i think i'm the only 18 year old
06:58:50.560
here oh shit why was it that ruined i mean she does fin dom it's over does that mean i'm it's
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over you're ruined i'm not lexington you're fucking ruined lexington lexington you're using
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all you know you don't lexington it's over over lexi lou uh here let me hold on let me change
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the titles uh and any thoughts from anybody um delete my ruined please okay here i'll say
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walking out I'm gonna say you know what that I'll change it to 18 year old
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hey I mean you know ruined AI you know okay two rage quits there we go changing the
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excuse me excuse me sir sir hey yo wait master t-dog
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what i need you to do do i need you to i'm fucking never mind i needed to twitch
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twitch please por favor guys if you're watching over there on twitch we're about to get to some
06:59:58.540
juicy shit uh i need to see prime subs i need to see seven prime subs boys seven prime subs
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drop them uh brooklyn ting brooklyn brook whoops uh shout out the people that are dropping primes
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the names yeah read the names um read the names i need to see seven radio 40
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say thank you say thank you the radio keep okay the next keep going um socks rl thank you arnold
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one five eleven wait why am i doing it the prime on the right on the right oh yeah yeah on the
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right the blue you got this girl the blue boys read the blue boys um subconscious content are
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those ones i'm reading yep okay i love that for you okay she's struggling she will she will we'll
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get her we'll get her i don't know someone else do it who lost their v card to druski druski
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Somebody said somebody lost their V-card to Drewski.
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uh latisha passion on matter uh i guess here i'm just gonna skip ahead uh what's your body count
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yeah okay 10 okay one one okay uh like 20. seven no i said like 20. oh it sounded like there's
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gonna be a 29 okay around 30 around 30 around 30 wait can i have you guys scoot like one inch
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Your perfume was fucking killing me during the whole show,
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and then you said what sorry 30 ish i don't remember all of them so could it be 40 or it's
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between 30 and 40 yeah it could be 40 i won't lie i'll give my answer uh i'm a virgin i still don't
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believe that whatever lies cap are you side-eyeing that makes us who knows i am a virgin i'm waiting
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until i turned 40 to lose it why when are you 40 uh like three four years when did you like decide
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that just now yeah on the podcast and why do you think that a woman would be willing to take your
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virginity a 40 year old virgin it's a lot of responsibility right it's a lot of responsibility
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what's your problem you know it's just what can i say honestly the big thing is i tried a few times
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it's average it's average okay anyways stop saying it's average what is i'm a born again virgin
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oh my god maybe this new year uh every week my virginity returns uh okay uh do you guys think
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dating is actually wait hold on is there anything about getting laid here oh yeah fuck it whatever
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we're done with the questionnaire let me blast through okay man i wish we did lindsey's notes
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in veronica's notes but i mean oh wait there was a girl who let me see if she's still here
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there was a girl who drove here who was an hour late and i was like if somebody leaves
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i guess you can come on the show hold on let me
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aren't we like almost done yeah yeah we're almost done but i just want to see if she's
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still here just for shits and giggles you should be hanging around does she live here
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come on can she facetime us oh uh hold on we'll put her right here yeah
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is she still here one sec guys one sec let's see uh are you still here lol
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are you still here lol hey fuck it that'd be kind of funny okay yeah yeah
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all right let me let me uh i'm gonna blast through everybody's uh show notes here by the way um
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lindsey she said she was a polymath what is a does anybody know what that means does that mean
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like poly relationship polymath so i think she don't know mathematics polymath i think so
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wait a polymath is an individual with a deep expert level knowledge across multiple diverse
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fields often synthesizing these areas to solve complex problems he really displayed her answer
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to everything would just be it depends like that's not fucking like i think being able to be really
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precise that's intellect not i don't know it depends on that's like just cope she also she
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also said oh my god i wish she was still here fuck oh she had such good notes fuck my life
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okay whatever all right well that's probably she said twice she's a 2e twice exceptional
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gifted students who also have learning disability well that checks out i guess
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um she's also a she claims her oh my god this would have been chat she wrote in her notes that
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she was a philosopher yeah i had a full discussion with her about this you were up doing stuff i was
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like what school philosophy and she goes oh i don't follow other people's philosophy it's like
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my philosophy oh my god that would have been so wait oh my god it was so bad yeah wait you said
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on stream yes i did oh my god i would have been like name one philosopher that's literally kind
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pretty much what i did i was like what the hell am i listening to right now she's like not like
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academic i'm like then what is it philosophy is the school of thought hold on like so maybe
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somebody can somebody in the chat wait but i guess like technically chat could someone be a
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philosopher and not have read any philosophy like could you couldn't I'm being super charitable here
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but couldn't you come to your technically right but I'm pretty sure if you're a philosopher you
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know fucking you know John Locke you know Kant you know all these uh Schopenhauer you know these
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people you know these philosophers right like if you've like you're not going to come to the
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same philosophical you can but most people are not going to come to the same philosophical revelations
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uh without having like read logically you can't you can but anyways fuck it what logically yes
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but unlikely highly unlikely anyways whatever okay but fuck it she's not here so
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oh man i wish i wish we got into the whatever um uh julia let's do julington
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uh you had a unique memorable dating story why don't you tell us oh man i can't remember what
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which story i wrote down the whole relationship was a dumpster fire and he was just clinically
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clinically like ill um which one did i write down like give me the first sentence okay
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okay here let me try to prompt it so he got another girl's name tattooed on the rib
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he i believe it's that girl he fucked that girl the day that you moved in to his house
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and she was there uh he flew her out the morning of and i had no idea okay okay so
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also she was Korean, looked just like me, but kind of bottle servicey, um, convinced me that
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I was in an open relationship with him and this girl while she lived in a different state. And
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you know, she, so he was like, so if we're going to start, you know, spending time and seeing each
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other, it's going to be in an open relationship. Cause I'm in an open relationship with another
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girl in, you know, X state. And I have never, I was naive. I was open-minded though. And I was
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like, you know, I've never been in an open relationship. I was so into this guy. I was
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like, you know, I'll, I'll give it a shot. Who knows? Maybe I can do it. And, um, so I was
07:09:40.380
willingly participating in this. So when he's like, well, I'm going to fly out to see my other
07:09:45.760
girlfriend for this holiday. I had, I felt like I had to be okay with it. Right. Cause I'm willing
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to participate in this. So I would literally drive into the airport to go visit his other
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girlfriend and then on one of these trips he comes back and he goes I have to tell you something as
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we're sitting down to the dinner that I cooked him you know I was like a welcome home um and he's
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like I'll tell you after dinner and he pulled his hoodie up and it pulled his shirt up with it and
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he has her name in Korean tattooed on his ribs on the side I slept on by the way and he had that
07:10:18.960
tattoo the whole three and a half years we were together can I have you guys scoot down a little
07:10:22.340
further just so you're more in frame. And then he told your parents or something that you were
07:10:27.780
bipolar and a drug addict. Is that true? He told his parents. Wait, can you scoot your mic that
07:10:31.520
way too? Scoot, scoot, scoot, scoot, scoot. Perfect. Okay. He told his parents that I was
07:10:37.640
a bipolar drug addict. Were you? No. Were you? No. I was. Okay. I will say I was diagnosed with
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bipolar two at the time. Um, another psychiat, uh, psychiatrist I saw later told me I was
07:10:51.740
misdiagnosed. Um, but you know, I was, I was accepting of that diagnosis. I don't think
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there's anything wrong with having a mental illness as long as like knowing what you have
07:11:01.900
actually gives you the ability to do something about it. So him being my partner, I just thought
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this is something he should know so that he has context. It's not his responsibility, but he has
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context and um he would just use it against me like if i if i ever started crying he'd be like
07:11:17.580
oh you're just having an episode or he would say i was emotionally abused and whenever i was
07:11:22.980
whenever i would cry which was all the time with this guy he would go oh my god you're emotionally
07:11:27.300
abusing me and i was like what do you think emotionally abusive means he's like you're
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abusing me with your emotions by crying oh he was so dumb but i liked that i did back then i thought
07:11:39.100
there was something endearing about dumb men okay um i actually heard from luke
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he does he does say you can read it um is it bad i mean i haven't read the whole thing uh
07:11:58.800
uh hold on guys so luke is her boyfriend of 12 years they've been on the rocks a little bit
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um you've been shitty to him he's been shitty to you uh he says thanks for sticking up for the
07:12:15.160
bros let's go uh you guys have had mountain peak highs and rock bottom lows went to high school
07:12:22.980
together um uh men want to fix the problem women want to tell you how the problem makes them feel
07:12:31.280
not a shot at women maria was about to run off a cliff with her feelings uh
07:12:38.140
i'd rather fix the holes than abandon ship uh the problems are truly totally fixable i love i love
07:12:48.880
the gal we've always been crazy but it keeps us from going insane holding the course for now and
07:12:54.120
I believe forevers she really is quite a catch interesting to say the least to wait interesting
07:13:01.680
to say the least funny sweet silly and I love her girly little noises haha girly little noises
07:13:39.700
for women and you think there's a right way to do it. So give me your argument for that.
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Okay. I mean, it's what you would call a hoe phase, but I think being intimate with more than
07:13:51.140
one guy at a time, not in a relationship. I think it can, I don't know, let a girl discover more
07:14:02.920
about her sexuality, get more comfortable with it. But there is like an ethical piece, right?
07:14:09.700
Um, I think if you do have a roster, it's only fair for all these guys to know that
07:14:14.800
they are on a roster, like again, consent, right?
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And I, that's, I'm not saying it's, it's, I don't know, good behavior or godly.
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I'm just saying if you're going to do it, it can be done a certain way.
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Um, and I think for some women, yeah, I think, I don't think there's anything wrong with
07:14:38.820
woman like really embracing her sexuality uh i mean who here really quick before i get my take
07:14:47.320
does anybody agree with her like hope phases can be empowering and enlightening does anybody agree
07:14:53.220
with her i don't i wouldn't say like empowering but i'd be like i mean it's fine i guess it could
07:15:00.600
be fine what do you think uh i really had a hope phase but i guess it could be like a learning
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lesson yeah let me ask the magic eight ball what the fuck okay never mind what did it say
07:15:15.820
it said yes it's fucking bullshit don't why did it say prospect good
07:15:21.700
eight ball never lies it was incorrect but in any case um yeah so when you say so you would
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be sleeping with multiple men at the same time is that correct yeah not like same day but but like
07:15:35.740
going on dates next day did you ever sleep with two guys in the same day it's 24 hours
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ever i think maybe in my early 20s i did i don't think that was a empowering and enlightening
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phase for me i will say that okay but like well of course it's empowering no matter what you have
07:15:53.420
a lesson to take out of it and it's like i don't know oh my god yeah trauma to take out of it yeah
07:15:58.300
i mean i think that um like exploring your sexuality you can explore your sexuality with
07:16:05.020
your one boyfriend like i i don't understand this didn't you say explore sexuality yeah you
07:16:13.080
could explore your sexuality with one guy you can also explore nature on one mountain
07:16:19.800
would you say that is a well experienced mountaineer
07:16:25.540
Uh, well, how about this? You, okay. Say there's multiple mountains, but you always take the same
07:16:36.100
trail up all of those mountains and you do it quickly. And those mountains typically don't
07:16:41.300
result in as pleasurable an experience as that one mountain that just really gets you and knows
07:16:48.380
what you like. And you know what the mountain. No, that's exactly what I'm saying. You have to
07:16:53.460
like go i have to climb these mountains to be like no you climb one mountain and you explore
07:16:59.460
all that mountain's nooks and crannies and just be so certain that there's one mountain one
07:17:04.300
mountain is the best mountain it's the best and you know that for sure uh you can make that mountain
07:17:10.740
the best okay i see where you're going with this you make that mountain the best i i see where
07:17:17.760
are going with this but i don't sometimes i think you have to climb those other mountains to be like
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this is the mountain and i'm going to make this mountain the best i don't know i don't i know this
07:17:30.800
is the weirdest analogy let me ask you a question let me ask you a question um the best sex you've
07:17:37.060
ever had was it a one-night stand or was it with a loving uh partner loving partner right so my
07:17:44.340
perspective is, is that one, I think, uh, the best sex you're going to have is going to be with a
07:17:50.400
girl who loves you and who you love back. Um, also there's a level of, even if you say you're
07:17:56.820
non-love yet there, as you continue to have more sex with the person, you become more, uh, you know
07:18:03.780
each other better, you develop comfort. And then that, that level of comfort is going to, uh, I
07:18:11.200
think make the sex better and then just from a practical perspective uh she knows exactly what
07:18:16.560
you like as assuming you guys are communicating well in that regard she knows exactly what you
07:18:21.740
like uh i know exactly what she likes but do you know what you like uh because it's all you're
07:18:29.980
getting is what she's giving well i think men are simpler creatures in this regard than women
07:18:34.700
yeah women i'm not talking about men going through a hoe phase talking about women well i think that
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I can sort of see the motivation from like a exploratory sex perspective,
07:18:50.400
I think there's a pretty wide range of sexual experiences you can have with a
07:18:55.800
man. Uh, cause like you can have a guy who cannot make you come,
07:19:00.000
and then you can be with a guy who makes you, it's like it,
07:19:04.560
a woman has to go out of her way to make sex bad. Like as a guy, I can take a woman who's a virgin.
07:19:15.140
I can take a woman who has minimal experience and I can have great sex with her. Uh, because men
07:19:21.140
we lead or we can lead. I don't know if women have that same desire to like teach a guy how
07:19:28.240
to fuck her. Like that's a turnoff. I think for a lot of women, uh, if you're, you know what you're
07:19:33.540
doing in the bedroom. And it's also just inherently, huh? I don't know. I just feel
07:19:39.000
like I just, this is my personal experience. I was very like sexual. I felt very sexually
07:19:43.580
constipated. I was very ashamed of the act. I did what never enjoyed it, but I felt like I was
07:19:48.400
obligated to get it. That's fucked up. And, um, and going through a whole phase kind of helped
07:19:55.580
me break through that and made me, you know, I don't, I think I'm a better lover because of it.
07:20:00.160
tiffany can you get me two uh water bottles i mean yeah so you can uh from the racks over there
07:20:08.540
i mean yeah i guess technically if you just fuck a bunch of um
07:20:12.940
uh a bunch of dudes you'll be better you might be better at sex huh
07:20:20.840
water bottles in the closet or whatever um but like i would never do that trade like okay
07:20:29.420
the trade i would never be like hmm okay yeah maybe a girl who's fucked 100 men is going to
07:20:35.720
be better in bed than a woman who's uh is going to be better in bed than a woman who's a virgin
07:20:41.220
i don't take the trade i don't i never take that trade okay um i don't think i said better in bed
07:20:50.920
i don't i don't say it made me i thought that was my understanding and it was enlightening
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okay but you would agree that you could become empowered in bed i don't know i mean i think
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it's different though because i think um like it's really easy for women to be good in bed
07:21:08.080
but like yeah you're maybe as a woman you're just yeah it's really easy for a woman to pleasure man
07:21:13.780
that's easy but it's i think it can be difficult for a woman to really feel in her body and really
07:21:20.700
sexual in bed for herself right for her pleasure you know uh i i suppose and i said it can if done
07:21:28.920
a certain and it should be done a certain way i think my opinion yeah but men don't prefer that
07:21:35.340
i think don't prefer what for women to be promiscuous i agree i wouldn't consider my
07:21:41.860
a whole phase is promiscuity uh it is a promiscuous time of my life yeah i wouldn't consider myself
07:21:49.360
what's your body count again about 20 to 30 okay that's on the higher end yeah it's not we've we've
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heard higher it's not insane but it is on the higher end yeah for her age though yeah and yeah
07:22:02.640
and i was gonna it depends also like timing in life like i mean from my own experience like i
07:22:07.900
have had a lot in within yeah not a lot of years because i didn't know me i didn't know like i
07:22:14.720
did not really know what i wanted like i was lost in my life when i was younger and then now i am
07:22:21.180
like a saint and i don't want anybody in my life at all so it's like well does that really like
07:22:28.460
the experience is important i think and i am glad that i hit it i am glad that i had it um
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but it can change throughout like i'm sorry i'm flicking off the what are you doing
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scuffed Tiffany scuffed sorry sorry I'm listening I'm listening I was flicking them off in my
07:22:49.340
reflection here see that just kidding not you guys the viewers I love the viewers disregard
07:22:55.500
never mind okay continue continue no just to say that I think um no matter what the experience is
07:23:03.780
important what you do with it is important and how you consider your man later is important too
07:23:09.860
and that body count is like well if you keep going or like there is a huge difference i think
07:23:14.380
between keeping on going with your body count or just like having had a good time when you were in
07:23:21.260
your 20s i also think there's a point of diminished returns like it's not like the more sex you have
07:23:27.000
with the more men just the more enlightened and whatever it's like yeah no yeah i mean i think
07:23:32.760
i actually think that so you say that going through hofez can be really empowering and
07:23:38.940
enlightening i actually think the more empowering and enlightening thing is being as a woman is
07:23:45.400
being very selective and not being a hoe that's empowering that's enlightening but so you need
07:23:52.520
to understand that when i was 20 i had no fucking clue now i understand that yeah like getting
07:23:58.060
committed to someone that i don't even know is empowering me to i think it's magical i'm like
07:24:04.040
nobody's touching me right now and I'm like oh my god I'm just like I can think only like that guy
07:24:09.640
is gonna have the privilege of that and I think it's wonderful okay but right 20 years ago I had
07:24:16.140
no fucking clue and I was for me having sex was like well maybe he's gonna be my friend after
07:24:20.540
that maybe you know like I had to me that was an empowerment and I didn't realize that it was a
07:24:26.440
how do you say that like it was pushing me down it was not like at it was doing the effect the
07:24:32.520
opposite effect of what i thought i was doing and but it took me 20 years to understand that so
07:24:38.120
maybe i'm slower than anyone else maybe my experiences in life just led me there but yeah
07:24:44.040
i think now i am empowered so those play like it was empowering no matter what because i learned a
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lot yeah i mean look ultimately um yeah i do think that it would be more empowering and
07:24:55.840
enlightening for, instead of women airing into promiscuity to air more into, uh, I'm not saying
07:25:03.640
you have to wait until marriage. I'm not saying you have to remain a virgin or whatever. Uh, but
07:25:07.740
try to like, think about it like this. If, if you're going to like this guy who you're going
07:25:16.480
to sleep with, you should have on the woman's end, you should have genuine intention for that
07:25:21.860
guy to be your boyfriend or long-term intention and you should hope that he feels the same way
07:25:27.360
about you if you're just going on tinder fucking dudes if you're just going out to the bar having
07:25:32.580
a drunken one-night stand i don't know i i think uh well for that you need a mom that teaches you
07:25:38.240
that no you need a fucking dad oh dad i however parents that can teach you what respect is what
07:25:45.380
self-respect is what all of that you gotta watch the whatever podcast oh well i'm glad i wasn't
07:25:50.840
born with internet like very very happy so well maria going to your notes uh you said that that
07:25:59.900
i'm cringe i guess um sometimes you did van life for like three years you bust your ass full time
07:26:05.060
in a warehouse uh we uh we talked about the boyfriend thing um uh past does matter we kind
07:26:17.260
i've already talked about that um tell us about the why do girls think they can be a stay-at-home
07:26:22.820
girly and not what uh well if you're not having their kid then like you need to cook clean be in
07:26:32.100
shape have some hobby be able to grow a garden like have skills pretty much uh and i know girls
07:26:39.140
that don't have children stay at home and can't even cook a meal nothing yeah because because you
07:26:46.660
wrote um you wrote why do girls think they can be a stay-at-home girly and not have a breakfast
07:26:54.020
made before he goes to work oh yeah his lunch packed and a healthy dinner for when he comes
07:26:58.160
home because i do that house should be cleaned kid taken care of if no kid bitch you need to
07:27:04.320
have a garden or some herbs growing a hobby be in killer shape something shit you would even
07:27:10.880
have your man's clothes laid out for the next day fresh towel boxers in the bathroom ready for after
07:27:16.220
his shower he provides for you totally take care of him your man also needs to respect you
07:27:20.620
oh yeah because i do that self-work in a full-time job bust my ass so i agree like literally i come
07:27:26.800
home from there that's the bare minimum i think a girl should be doing bare i mean yeah that and
07:27:31.380
more and if you really loved your man you want to that's why like i do it when i get off of work
07:27:36.720
so because like i do love him you know like i still want to put your towel out and boxers
07:27:41.640
whatever you know yeah i don't know i feel whoever i'm with long term everything's going to be taken
07:27:49.400
care of she's not gonna have to work uh gonna have like a very comfortable life absent fucking
07:27:55.140
catastrophe i guess um and yeah i think she should do all that shit and she should bow tiffany
07:28:01.960
chop chop yeah i don't know about the bow video my dear thank you i don't know if he was like
07:28:08.740
really treat me right like in the bed and financially and and always yeah i'd bow love
07:28:14.880
it you know congrats good job all right uh this is a video i took of my ex-girlfriend i show it
07:28:22.400
to new future girlfriends so they know how to act oh what the fuck boom huge bow she has to bow as
07:28:31.300
soon as i get home i you know i get home um this was after a long podcast day uh so yep
07:28:37.540
because I wear blue button downs and um yeah dinner's ready look I like when a woman scampers
07:28:44.120
like this I find it cute um cracks open a beer for me I don't even drink beer but she still does
07:28:50.020
it anyways um and then she stirs my noodles because I consume lots of Asian food I guess
07:28:57.180
and uh get ready to play it once more Tiffany play it just the beginning play it hit the play
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boom huge bow she almost got it good job tiffany yep deep bow submissive hand posture so
07:29:09.400
submissive hand posture this is my so would you bow for a man um like that do i like him
07:29:20.100
absolutely not even if he makes 20 million a year she won't do it
07:29:25.900
slave stuff yeah what if he's into that i wouldn't what if it's a white guy
07:29:32.940
it doesn't matter anyways what if his never mind okay you wouldn't bow for the perfect guy okay
07:29:41.700
but you'll give strangers lap dances for 20 bucks okay no i don't okay sorry 100 my bad
07:29:47.720
$400 $400 $400 okay would you bow for a man b-dog i feel like that'd be kind of funny
07:29:58.480
so i would all right love that for you go ahead yeah in certain circumstances yeah the guy you
07:30:06.780
like yeah like does she do that every day when you come back home yeah yes every oh every day
07:30:12.600
you're acting like perfectly perfect with her uh sometimes i pee on her in the bathroom
07:30:18.520
that sounds like some of the fin dom stuff i'm kidding i'm saying i would say i would
07:30:52.460
okay so we i'll just fuck it i'll just say no i'm not gonna i'm not gonna it's tmi it's tmi
07:30:59.740
it wasn't okay now i feel like yeah now i'm alluding to it okay it was it was fucking
07:31:04.420
it was a joke in the we were showering together and she was like can you pee on my leg what so
07:31:10.860
it wasn't like okay you guys could say that you peed on her in the shower i don't even think it
07:31:16.020
was sexual she was just like can you do it and like it's did it's gonna it's gonna get clean
07:31:21.720
it's good the water is gonna i know right was it a hot shower huh was it a hot shower it was a hot
07:31:27.480
shower so she wouldn't even know well she asked me to do it so anyways anyways not if you drink a
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lot of water moving on moving on uh okay uh where were we we were oh the bow would you bow uh i
07:31:45.760
wouldn't want to be with a guy who wants me to bow but i would i do other things like if my man
07:31:49.460
ask for something that's a little submissive and very feminine and it makes him feel good and it
07:31:54.240
doesn't make me feel gross and weird i'd do it like scratching his back your current well that's
07:31:58.540
bare minimum your current boyfriend you wouldn't do it for him i wouldn't be with he would never
07:32:03.340
ask but if he did would you do it hey that's racist why is that racist i thought you're black
07:32:07.640
the video it's just oh wait you're asian no fucking way i thought you're like mexican or
07:32:15.220
what are you serious yeah doesn't she look mexican i think he's being sarcastic no i
07:32:20.640
i mean sometimes isn't it true that sometimes you confuse a mexican with the
07:32:25.340
okay i have a really funny story it's because i'm tan i was in uh you are so mexican oh my god
07:32:31.580
no one time i was at a pool like in high school and i was wearing sunglasses and i was so tan
07:32:37.040
and all the like some kids i went to school with thought i was like a mexican girl and
07:32:42.840
i think it's because i'm tan i maybe can get confused with like i've gotten it
07:32:47.420
anywho one uh so but you your current boyfriend you wouldn't do it
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i mean at this point if he wanted it she'd do it she'd do it i probably would but i don't i don't
07:33:02.240
understand this objection to doing it in the sense that like i'm not saying all women do this but
07:33:08.420
the same woman who would like suck a dude's dick after an hour you're not gonna hit a bow like
07:33:14.760
you're gonna i'm not saying you guys do that i mean maybe you do but like you're gonna let a guy
07:33:21.180
just like not that hey there's nothing wrong with that with that as an individual act but it's like
07:33:28.880
you're gonna let a guy inside you but not but you won't do a wholesome little bow is it oh super
07:33:37.720
wholesome super wholesome how about this the you know the fine the bow thing's a bit culturally
07:33:42.560
weird uh the first time a girl comes over to my house i want her to do the laundry
07:33:46.000
the first time first time first time how about that thoughts your dirty laundry well here's the
07:33:53.860
thing i i'm very hygienic says who says me i'm super you can't call yourself hygienic well i use
07:34:02.320
I don't have skid marks ever because I use baby wipes.
07:34:16.880
Those are makeup removal that you're about to use.
07:34:31.100
not the first time yeah but i gotta pay i gotta build up to that why the fuck do i gotta pay for
07:34:36.280
a date this girl you gotta pay for a date for this girl but she won't do your laundry the first
07:34:39.780
time you're going over to the dude's house i don't go i don't go over to a dude's house the
07:34:43.780
first time i meet them i can no not the first time you meet them the first time you go
07:34:47.940
but we don't leave together he can he can tell his mom to do that yeah together oh yeah she's
07:34:54.180
supposed to do my laundry if you don't leave together am i supposed to pay for a first date
07:34:59.460
if she's not my girlfriend i said you don't have to pay for the first date
07:35:03.540
she does i'm out of that she does i also know i said i've gone half and half and i've paid for
07:35:10.960
you've done that sometimes but other times the other men have done paid for it sometimes
07:35:15.240
sometimes well bye guys congratulations i'm so proud of you if i went on a date and he paid and
07:35:22.380
i would be and he was like hey can you fold my laundry i'd be like no i'm not saying on the first
07:35:26.480
date but i mean look ultimately it should be the first date i think a girl should do that i think
07:35:32.180
a girl see i'm a wholesome man just take her to the laundromat i'm a wholesome man on your first
07:35:37.140
date if i take a girl if i don't look if she wants to fuck we can fuck but on the first date if she
07:35:44.620
wants to fold my laundry i think that that's wholesome i doubt she would want to do that
07:35:54.900
Are you just sitting there watching her, though?
07:35:57.800
Like, what are you doing while she's doing the laundry?
07:36:00.000
Oh, I'm just, like, on the computer or something.
07:36:04.060
I'm just, like, I don't know, doing some work, and she's just in there folding.
07:36:07.940
She should, as soon as we get to my house, a girl should be like, where is it, Brian?
07:36:17.480
You know, she should go and do the damn thing, man.
07:36:49.140
give me a foot massage all of all of the shit bro i think there's something very loving about
07:36:55.440
that especially if your man like works on his feet but if you don't know them he just no no
07:36:59.280
i work on my ass so maybe she should give me an ass massage instead i'm saying like i think
07:37:04.980
your husband okay yeah that's good long day of work there's a let me tell you what that's the
07:37:09.900
person you just met i was like what the fuck i'll tell you what look i just want a nice girl
07:37:13.700
i get home and i want her to do my fucking laundry what's the big deal what's the problem
07:38:14.900
uh what is it hold on okay oh so for these girls that want to be the one who works and their man
07:38:22.420
stay home you're fucked in the head you wrote if if the man stays home and the woman works
07:38:29.300
are they both fucked in the head or is it the woman man stays home and the woman works are they
07:38:34.760
are they both fucked in the head yeah or is it the woman no okay you said it goes against natural
07:38:40.820
instincts and they've been brainwashed by media and you're degrading the man by making him be a
07:38:46.020
at home yeah that's what you wrote uh you feel it goes against man's natural instinct to provide
07:38:52.020
and lead uh it's not good for anyone in the long run uh let's see um okay you you said that if you
07:39:01.220
want a girl to bow if she greets you coming home and stir your food the bow video we just watched
07:39:06.500
You should have enough respect for her to put the toilet seat down and take the trash out if you're home.
07:39:11.120
Oh, yeah, because I heard you talking about that.
07:39:12.080
If you're at work and it's full, of course, the girlie can take it out.
07:39:15.120
But if you want me to be your bitch, you better act like a man.
07:39:27.660
Oh, well, weren't you raised to be like, oh, you put the toilet seat down for girls.
07:39:32.820
No, whoever needs to use the bathroom puts the toilet seat in whatever state of affair.
07:39:38.660
I have a mother and a sister, let me tell you what.
07:39:46.700
No, the thing is that whatever state of affair you want the toilet seat to be in, you put that wherever you need it to be.
07:39:56.480
Now, the only argument I agree with is the best state is you put the toilet seat down.
07:40:06.340
You put the cover because if you take a shit and the cover's not down, it goes up in the air.
07:40:12.080
There's particles that land on your eyeball and your mouth.
07:40:15.500
That's why you can't have your toothbrush in the little thing.
07:40:19.460
But let's assume in a hypothetical world, if you take a dookie and you don't cover the seat, it doesn't change anything.
07:40:26.480
And there's no hygienic reason for lowering the toilet seat.
07:40:30.680
Would y'all agree, can I ask y'all, would y'all agree that in that situation, what makes sense is whoever needs to use the bathroom puts it to where they need to be, the toilet seat.
07:40:50.700
No, if you lift the toilet seat up, if you're taking a piss.
07:41:03.160
well she should god damn check before she takes a seat then
07:41:24.260
the thing up because i was trying to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night and you sat
07:41:28.100
down and it was dark you sat down i almost fell in the toilet that's okay look all i'm saying
07:41:34.400
it's common etiquette i actually sometimes i just go pee outside that's good that's acceptable too
07:41:40.520
i like to get some some air in the same when we're at the club we like to go pee on trees
07:41:46.320
i'll go piss on the backyard yeah but look ultimately though uh i actually just forgot
07:41:52.480
what i was about to say the accent uh something about toilets toilet seats pee and i came out
07:41:59.440
no you didn't want to share the bathroom oh you're sleeping yeah yeah so i believe um i i want to
07:42:06.440
maybe on like valentine's day anniversary the woman can sleep in my bed otherwise i like to
07:42:12.680
put her in the guest room and then she has her own bathroom you know are you gay so like is
07:42:17.380
you're looking for a roommate. I'm gay for you, but
07:42:25.280
Huh? Never mind. I don't know what that means. Are you saying
07:42:31.380
for you. No, you just... Hey, Brooklyn, you gonna
07:42:32.840
let her talk to you like that, Brooklyn? No, she's right.
07:42:37.340
that's confusing that you're saying you're gay for me.
07:42:45.120
But look, I don't know. What do y'all think about that?
07:42:47.140
do you think that's wrong no i mean what's the reason is there a reason well my sleep sleep with
07:42:52.380
that i can but the sleep quality is better if i'm sleeping alone i hear that you know and it's like
07:42:58.240
i need i i got a job to do and i can't do that job as effectively if i don't get good sleep so
07:43:06.920
she i like she can go in the guest room and it's very nice in there and she's got her own what's
07:43:13.540
that oh you just know this no i did no but why isn't it stopping
07:43:28.640
we're doing indian accent yeah it's kind of hard to be honest yeah it's so easy
07:43:36.920
yeah i can't do indian i could do i could do what are our options yeah what are our options
07:44:00.100
I don't know, I'll try it throughout the course of the rest of the night
07:44:11.720
um so okay finishing up me finishing you off oh gosh finishing you off sounds very
07:44:21.140
no you're good uh let's see oh uh you said uh brian you always ask these girls how they can
07:44:29.920
have such high standards than men but they are for and do f bro like if your perfect girl is
07:44:34.620
the richest hottest woman in the world you need to be ripped af lol you don't deserve that what
07:44:39.840
do you bring to the table other than the talk show uh well no so the the perfect woman thing
07:44:45.520
comes into uh so uh i'm trying to think the context usually when we're talking about when
07:44:52.020
i'm talking about the perfect woman um i think that it comes it's about the bow and i ask women
07:44:59.240
for the perfect man would you do this so i don't think i'm gonna get like of the things that i
07:45:05.840
think would make a perfect woman i don't think i'm gonna get a perfect woman to be clear
07:45:08.900
but if somebody asks me what is the perfect woman i can describe it but just because i can describe
07:45:15.300
what the perfect woman is doesn't mean that i think i i deserve her or i can get her does that
07:45:21.100
make sense yes yeah so like yeah i i would just i would describe the perfect woman as like in terms
07:45:27.800
of what i like and looks she's exactly that personality exactly that and she's a billionaire
07:45:32.400
that woman probably doesn't even exist does not exist i hear you but i don't think i deserve that
07:45:40.780
no i mean if mackenzie bezos she's kind of old but like i'll still crack i don't even know who
07:45:46.640
that is jeff bezos ex-wife ex-wife what do you think of his current wife i do not i don't like
07:45:54.380
the plastic i don't like plastic surgery on a woman i don't like that look tell yeah with her
07:46:01.600
no i'm just saying in general the lips well lips is filler i'm talking about like sometimes you can
07:46:06.800
tell facial botox no but those are fillers i'm talking about like bone reconstruction you can't
07:46:13.040
tell oh well um it's done well i don't think you should yeah exactly it would be so like slight
07:46:19.660
you wouldn't even know even if i couldn't tell i'm not sure if i would like it but like if they
07:46:25.220
don't tell you you'll never know okay so they lie to me great no it's not my kids are gonna
07:46:28.880
it's not lying because i just never told you yeah they're gonna be fucking chinese or some shit
07:46:33.900
some white girl you know what do you think that is in my uh notes is there's a difference between
07:46:40.660
transparency and honesty yeah and i think that's what she just said what's the difference what do
07:46:45.580
you mean transparency and honesty right she's like you're like oh well then so she's going to
07:46:50.140
be a liar it's like well no she just didn't tell you yeah she should probably tell me i think she
07:46:55.220
why do you have something you want to tell us what even would i have you want to tell us something
07:47:00.640
lexington be honest lexington yeah kind of seems like i do i do bone smashing you seem like you
07:47:07.280
might i don't know um what are your thoughts on that um i don't know if it actually even works
07:47:15.660
yeah it's bs but uh what is this i wouldn't recommend it's make it's making like little
07:47:22.700
micro like i don't know smash smash their bones to make it grow back stronger maybe it works maybe
07:47:29.280
it doesn't but i i don't know how much of a variance it would actually create to be honest
07:47:35.660
so uh let's see finishing up homegirl over here uh i really you you agree with me on most things
07:47:46.360
you wonder if some girl hasn't hurt you me really bad and it made you like like lose you you wrote
07:47:54.880
loose respect for them not lose respect um you get not having respect for the hose but for a good
07:48:02.560
girl you should look i respect everybody sort of no look i uh i don't understand the who hurt you
07:48:12.120
though well maybe i was probably like watching a podcast and was like writing oh sorry i was
07:48:17.580
probably watching a podcast when i wrote that and i honestly can't remember like what you were saying
07:48:22.660
at the moment but it seemed like you were angry at girls so i mean there's moments where i get
07:48:26.940
upset on the show i'm sure yeah but i don't have i don't have inherent animosity towards women
07:48:33.180
i think women so okay some people want to assume that like i'm sexist or i'm a misogynist
07:48:40.340
i think women are great i love women respect them do i respect women well what do we mean by respect
07:48:48.420
because i think to a degree respect has to be earned but like would i go out of my way to
07:48:56.560
mistreat a woman just because she's a woman no i i have no inherent animosity towards women
07:49:02.100
i think women are great i would never say that i hate women i would never say i dislike broadly
07:49:08.300
dislike women there are specific women who come on the show who annoy me there are women who i
07:49:13.380
disagree with i don't like feminists but i think women are dope and i'm not gay so only gay for
07:49:23.620
brooklyn yeah i am gay for brooklyn i am you caught me there super gay for brooklyn um but okay
07:49:29.540
talk to your therapist about it i guess uh oh my god this guy said he was gay for me uh okay i
07:49:36.800
really do agree with you on oh final note for you you think some you think some women look better
07:49:43.580
in their 30s for instance you were on hardcore drugs in your 20s and you're over here looking
07:49:49.300
like a side piece at 34 that's what you wrote oh i was 33 at that time oh you didn't say 33
07:49:55.560
wait i'm so tired what was it oh yeah no i do think i look better now than when i was in my
07:50:05.160
20s i was looking a little rough you look really young really thanks and you got you got guns a
07:50:12.340
little bit you do have some wait wait do it again double double double double bicep bro damn she's
07:50:19.340
kind of ripped do you lift or what i work in a warehouse oh it's just from the warehouse yes
07:50:26.280
nah that's bro i walk 70 miles she's got some natty muscles i know do you do you like beat up
07:50:35.220
your boyfriend sometimes no because i thought it was hesitant yeah okay wait i need to we're
07:50:42.740
almost done with the notes i need to use the bathroom though so you guys entertain here
07:50:48.280
accents go i will be back um what brooklyn you do it you do your new york accent no let me hear
07:50:57.080
let me hear you a southern accent oh i don't know i already have my voice is gone it's gonna be hard
07:51:02.320
for me i'm not doing an accent okay we'll talk about something else yeah that would be great
07:51:08.900
what is the hottest accent for a man to have and least attractive like just i love australian
07:51:15.560
yeah probably australian british but i just honestly prefer normal or like not normal but
07:51:24.480
american is it american it's american yeah like a german accent or something bro scary
07:51:30.420
yeah i need to keep learning german are you learning german i was and then i gave up
07:51:46.460
on duolingo yeah what was your streak probably like 15 days oh girl
07:51:52.460
i learned a little bit yeah i can say like basic words your best bet meet a german what meet a
07:52:01.820
german and go to germany yeah i want to go to germany so bad guys we need to think of an
07:52:07.760
interesting topic so he doesn't get mad he's gonna yell at us yeah french accent is pretty
07:52:11.800
hard but for me an american just trying to learn to speak french is like yeah it's pretty cute
07:52:17.120
yeah french is french is really romantic romantic yeah yeah thank you guys yeah i would like let
07:52:23.180
you like do asmr and like put me to sleep in french my teacher is also french and you have
07:52:29.000
like the same accent as her it's like comforting i love going to her class yeah how sweet it's a
07:52:34.960
very like classy accent yeah it doesn't fade well it just doesn't go away i know but you started
07:52:44.480
learning english at what age uh i learned at school but then i really learned when i met my
07:52:50.280
ex-husband okay so when you're as we had to communicate yeah it's like i feel like if you
07:52:55.340
have a native language and you learn a different one you'll always kind of have that accent if you
07:52:59.640
start learning as an adult yeah yeah because korean was my native tongue but i went to esl
07:53:04.620
in elementary school learned english and i don't have an accent but my parents still have their
07:53:09.020
accent and we've been speaking english for the same amount of time so yeah my sister lives in
07:53:12.800
australia and she doesn't have an accent anymore she has an australian accent but she doesn't have
07:53:16.880
a french accent interesting so yeah you're right lexi
07:53:29.520
one guy only ate raw meat and milk oh yeah i told them about this earlier in the back and you talked
07:53:36.860
with a lot of look smashers oh yeah i was just basically talking about like clav and like baby
07:53:42.780
alien oh okay uh you said it's hard to find a boyfriend girlfriend that aligns with what you
07:53:50.380
want yeah what do you want um just like a guy that's not that doesn't just want to hook up
07:53:59.100
okay yeah it's hard so especially where i live now no i mean i have a type so i like
07:54:10.220
want black guys no but my first boyfriend was black oh light skin looks like dark features yeah
07:54:16.540
okay so you're just a guy who's willing to be your boyfriend that no that's all no i told you
07:54:25.280
i only think that 10 of men are attractive okay so you have the type all right uh going around
07:54:32.060
the table what do you want um humor safety he has to be hot because i yeah brookington
07:54:45.020
brooklyn i definitely have to be attractive like uh a little closer a little closer to the mic sorry
07:54:49.660
i have to be attractive like looks wise for sure but i also just like funny nice
07:54:54.700
athletic can you tilt your mic up just a bit so it's like towards your face yeah yeah
07:55:02.060
um that's it so wait attractive and i said nice funny nice funny attractive i like can have fun
07:55:11.040
with too and then athletic athletic okay like fit all right i'm not good for you anymore i guess
07:55:16.840
um uh what do you want uh well i kind of have it a little bit muscles uh someone who's like
07:55:25.940
perceptive of things like intelligent posture check there you go sorry you're good uh for you
07:55:31.600
perceptive of things intelligent whatever yeah what about you um i would say hot as well
07:55:40.820
confident sense of humor um ambitious and adventurous and what do you want uh someone
07:55:50.420
who is kind someone who is affectionate someone who is uh loyal and trustworthy and um someone
07:55:59.420
who is passionate about most things in life okay uh i the only other note i have for you lexi
07:56:09.600
you do the findom stuff you're kind of a sex worker you're you've been 18 for six months
07:56:15.380
uh i'll just reiterate i guess i think you should seriously consider stopping the road you're going
07:56:23.720
down uh i think you'll regret it when you're older your husband will not appreciate his wife
07:56:30.400
and your kids will not appreciate their mother doing that kind of thing
07:56:35.720
i disagree i think that the right guy won't care you don't agree i don't agree like i don't think
07:56:43.420
she's gonna regret it because i like know her situation and what's her situation well i'm not
07:56:47.400
gonna get into like my home but i'm just saying it was like good for her to get out and like make
07:56:52.360
money on her own and there wasn't many ways ethically at her age i mean there's jobs i had
07:56:59.900
a job i've had a job since i've been 14 if i want to go to school before you've been 18 yeah look i
07:57:05.740
understand that you make good money and i understand that you know financially uh in order to move
07:57:12.440
through the world in a comfortable way money is important i understand that but at what cost
07:57:17.940
i don't think this cost is like that bad if it was like you don't think it's that i don't think
07:57:24.540
it's that bad it's more like it could be worse like it's like a funny little yeah it could be
07:57:29.380
worse and it's like i got out and you know i'm doing my other stuff who said ethically somebody
07:57:36.220
said that was that you i said that it's ethical she's bullying men for money i said there's not
07:57:41.980
who's really at fault though the men yeah they're okay i have criticisms of the men too
07:57:47.020
i wasn't saying that though i was saying there's not too many jobs like that young
07:57:51.580
that are too many ways to make that much money ethically at this young yeah so be a drug dealer
07:57:58.840
no i'm saying go beyond fin dom instead of being a drug dealer no but i'm not i'm not suggesting
07:58:04.980
to be a drug dealer but you're suggesting to be a drug dealer no that's not what we said
07:58:11.000
if if the if the money is worth it it's worth doing no i think drug dealing's worse it is
07:58:16.900
different it is different uh but i don't think you can say it's completely clean either i never
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said that right so i think that's the but you're saying that i don't think like you don't think
07:58:29.500
it's gonna take me or like yeah why would i regret it my life is so much better now what
07:58:34.460
what if i were to tell you like do you want to date a guy who's virtuous what's like the
07:58:39.780
definition of that i'll google it i'll always if somebody wants the definition i'll always google
07:58:44.160
it okay virtue uh is a habitual and firm disposition to do good acting as a moral
07:58:51.960
excellence or strength of character that aligns with ethical behavior um i mean i don't really
07:59:05.080
Look, if you want to date a guy who's a scammer and you guys are fine with that, I guess.
07:59:08.440
But I do think, like, do you think your kids would appreciate it?
07:59:15.400
If I told them my situation, I don't think they would care.
07:59:24.060
Would you be fine if your mom started being a sex worker?
07:59:28.180
No, no, no, I'm just, I just know, I just know someone, like, whose mom did it to.
07:59:36.780
You don't think kids get bullied if the 12-year-olds find out that mommy over there is an online prostitute?
07:59:51.620
Yeah, but I'm not, that's OnlyFans, I'm talking about Fendong.
07:59:55.320
Your Instagram could still sexually please Matt.
07:59:58.180
Yeah, like guys could, you know, I see girls' Instagram.
08:00:01.300
Yeah, girls are, like, okay, so if you post bikini pictures on Instagram, does that make
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So if I'm posting the feet, there's feet pictures on X, does that make me a sex worker?
08:00:16.860
If the men are being, if you are providing the feet pictures in exchange for money and
08:00:24.000
you know the men are like jacking off to your feet pictures that is a form of sex work but then okay
08:00:29.180
if you're let's say you're streaming you're doing a stream and your feet aren't it and people are
08:00:34.040
like paying you money does that make you a sex are you intentionally um so there's an intent behind
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it is there well if if you're like provocatively putting your feet like in the uh the the like
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it's in front of the camera in a certain way and it's like kind of obvious what you're doing okay
08:00:53.600
but if like you happen to catch a female streamer's foot that's not sex work i don't think i don't
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know but if you're a cam girl who's like showing off her feet and like the guys are in the chat
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like jerking it like that's different yeah then that's like kind of sex offered like i don't know
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how much you're making right now but if you were offered like 50 grand a month for your feet you
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wouldn't you wouldn't do that i mean i don't want to i'm doing i'll just say i'm doing better than
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that but okay if you were like really broke though would i do it that's a good question
08:01:28.400
be hard to turn it down first off i don't think i don't think there's a 50 000 a month demand for
08:01:35.740
men's feet pictures yeah i'm just hypothetically and you're saying in this hypothetical i'm broke
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or something yeah that's interesting it's not like your penis it's very different
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probably not because it's kind of embarrassing i mean yeah but people do embarrassing stuff
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all the time this could be considered being embarrassing yeah look i mean some men might
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do it um some men might do it but uh my instinct here is to say no i wouldn't do it
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like easy money sure yeah but i think that what i think that there's a higher calling beyond just
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this gets me a lot of money yeah but if i was like dating someone they were like hey can you
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please stop doing this i'd be like yeah sure i'm not trying to normalize or anything i'll be like
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i don't think she's gonna regret it like knowing her yeah i mean if i had rich a rich family i
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would not be doing this okay okay yeah if a guy today asked you like you fell in love with this
08:02:45.540
guy and he's like you need to stop doing this in order for us to be together are you in a position
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that well if you could and would do that if he can also like provide make sure i'm not gonna be
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like because i'll still work and everything but i still have rent to pay like yeah okay so like
08:02:59.060
he will fund he'll financially cover like i'm doing this for fun yeah it's like yay i love
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bullying men so fun or like the guy you know someone else bullying them uh okay uh veronica
08:03:21.500
what's the most you're okay so you are an exotic dancer that's one of the things you do
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i'm curious about the money that sometimes these people make um what's the most you've ever made
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in one night okay what's the least in one night a little closer to the mic closer to the mic mic
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oh the microphone yeah probably like 900 those are like they're still good i guess right well
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that's not good to me because well compared to like other jobs i guess but yeah um most from
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one tip i'm not talking about penis by the way i don't what what i don't i don't do that
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no the biggest tip not penis oh the biggest tip yeah it'd probably be three grand he was an old
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white man just a tip just for a second just to see how things uh okay money wise not stuff like
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that okay uh you said los angeles has been wild you've had a guy try to move into your apartment
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after meeting you once men trying to be pretend to be wealthy and even fake sugar daddies offering
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money you'd love to talk about how people present a completely different lifestyle online
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versus who they really are in real life instagram versus reality yeah people like to flex and they
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can't back it up does makeup does that count for makeup too no because women don't actually look
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like that yeah some do because they're enhanced and their natural beauty is not like drag like
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drag queens does a totally different transformation can we pull up your instagram yeah but i did do
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some photoshop but you did what you did what photoshop yeah make skin and whatever the people
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can assume the people can assume uh okay you wrote that uh you think it would be interesting
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to discuss financial honesty in dating what about that um for me i think it should be like
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like if a girl is expecting a guy you know if he wants her to quit everything he she should expect
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him to pay for everything like a lot that's why i date women who work at chick-fil-a
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it's like you know like if you want me to give up everything you're gonna have to like
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go way above and beyond how much whatever my lifestyle funding at that time is it 400k
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i mean he can make that is that enough though to get you to quit
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to give it to give to me no uh he makes 400k a year is that enough for you to quit your job
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and say you guys are together yeah that's fine no okay uh modern gender expectations what do
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mean you wanted to talk about that as a topic what do you mean i don't remember i'll just skip it
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then um uh you said disagreement some dating conversations blame women for having high
08:06:31.660
standards when in reality a lot of people just want basic stability honesty and consistency
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you're open to debating that because you think standards and boundaries are often
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misunderstood in modern day in modern dating so high standards yeah and you wrote but they
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really just want basic stability honesty and consistency don't you think you have high standards
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yeah i do and that's fine but basic stability four hundred thousand dollars like couldn't you
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have basic stability financially speaking dating a guy in you're in vegas right i don't think it's
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too crazy out there in terms of like prices um like 100k isn't that wouldn't that be good
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in vegas not when i say good i mean like you can have house food basic stability
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for vegas not really what's the typical uh well maybe it's a tourist right but like the rent out
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there i don't think it's too too bad yeah but if you want like a good property in a good area
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not like on the strip which is like shooting and like ghetto you're gonna have to pay a lot for a
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house okay but it's definitely less than california okay uh but what if a woman genuinely has
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unrealistic high standards i don't know okay um were there any specific disagreements though
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about blaming women for having high standards yeah i think a lot of men don't get it don't get it do
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i not get it yeah i know what do i not get i feel like you think some woman should live tiffany can
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you probably live a bad life and they should keep that but some women want to do better in life and
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better yourself tiffany can you push the door open high standards i think is pretty good
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it's it could be a good goal so what if a woman's standard is uh
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she'll only date a guy who makes 10 million dollars a year is that realistic or unrealistic
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i mean it depends where she is there's like some cities
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tell me which city like miami la new york you need to make 10 million dollars a year
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not 10 million a year i'm saying it's not like hard to find those type
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no so okay i i sort of see what you're saying you're saying in certain cities there's going
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there's a higher chance that you're going to encounter very wealthy men like miami like la
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like vegas perhaps um but even then new york city even then don't you wouldn't you still say that a
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woman who want who will like let's say she will not date a guy who makes less than 10 mil wouldn't
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you say that that's still unrealistic high standards i mean if she if that's if that's
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how she thinks then that's how she thinks what if she's fat
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and ugly i don't know you gotta ask a fat girl she's a bitch and she's fat and she's ugly
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do you think she's gonna get the 10 mil a year man if there are some guys who um fetishize fat
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girls so maybe the venn diagram the v the venn diagram of man who makes 10 million dollars a
08:10:02.560
year and man who like who likes fat women is uh very very small i know it is slim but there's a
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lot of issues no pun intended very it is it is slim brooklyn do you have like ibs or something
08:10:19.680
what is that are you sick are you i'm sick oh wait like stomach flu no i don't know like i woke
08:10:25.400
up today with like a really sore throat and a cough what about you lexington i've just had i've
08:10:30.220
just had my voice gone from her no but i haven't had any i haven't had like symptoms i just know
08:10:36.260
i just i literally my voice has just been gone i don't feel sick party too hardy okay
08:10:42.600
let's see uh what else is there from uh hold on uh you said wait
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crazy dating story you have is when a guy approached you saying he wanted to be your
08:10:59.620
sugar daddy and he actually sent you money before you even met how much he sent two thousand uh so
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you thought okay maybe he's serious wait whoa whoa wait wait 2000 did you fuck
08:11:13.380
you really really like black girls for some reason like i yeah old white guy yeah 60
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he was like 54 55 how'd you know that my my wisdom has been colored my my my wisdom and
08:11:31.360
knowledge has been colored by my many varied conversations with women i have an intuition
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for these things you know so was it bill maher it was bill you don't know bill maher he likes black
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bill maher no bill maher he has a show on hbo called real time with bill maher okay um 2000
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just to go on a date i'll what i don't understand about that hold on i'll let you finish the story
08:12:01.120
Well, actually, let me say, you could just get a prostitute for that much money.
08:12:08.060
So I don't understand the sugar daddy guys who are like, I'm going to give her money
08:12:13.300
in the hopes that she's not going to play me, which is like 99% of the time with these
08:12:25.120
like but i i genuinely don't understand a guy who would just send a money to a woman two thousand
08:12:33.120
dollars that's like chump change to them sometimes like they don't care it's like spending money on
08:12:38.480
like a soda or like i don't know i uh i think that um
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how how rich do you have to be for two thousand to just give somebody like for that to be nothing
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like i make good money maybe i'm fucking maybe i'm fucking cheap i don't know i make good money
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i don't even want to give somebody 20 bucks you know i wouldn't give a girl 20 bucks for
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i mean i don't like that that uh vibe to begin with but i wouldn't give a girl 20 bucks to go
08:13:15.040
on a date the fuck would i pay a girl for she should be paying me if any if anything she should
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pay me brooklyn get your fucking wallet just about being with a black girl what's that like i told
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you okay he had a fetish for black women and all right so um i just don't understand it's like
08:13:32.180
if you're gonna trick if you're gonna trick if you're gonna spend money on a woman
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at that level you would agree like you could get a prostitute in vegas for 2k right
08:13:42.660
no those prostitutes are like 60 dollars oh it's cheaper right yeah you could get a cheap
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if you're not doing anything if a man wants to send you money
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no I'm not saying you're escorting but you would say like yeah there's cheap
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maybe where they don't fuck as much i just know a lot of the girls down here in vegas are very
08:14:22.520
very cheap anyways uh okay but when you finally went on a date and afterward you uh jokingly
08:14:30.860
oh that doesn't work uh you jokingly told him you expected a ten thousand dollar gift
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if he wanted to keep seeing you he ghosted you yeah you overplayed your hand you overplayed you
08:14:43.720
you played too much overplayed but i don't want to so if he was like i'll pay you another 2k you
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wouldn't have taken it i mean i think you should give me 2k right now i think reverse simp the
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reversed reverse you know uh you don't understand these guys yeah i don't understand these guys
08:15:06.660
fetish and want to keep talking to me that's going to be at least 5k i'm not going to waste
08:15:10.460
my time talking to old men every day without it i just don't understand these dudes who trick like
08:15:16.320
that like why give women so much money in the hopes of betting them when you can just get a
08:15:22.240
prostitute for just as much or less like aren't they like a couple hundred bucks these prostitutes
08:15:32.180
i don't know uh let's see uh yes you said your hot take on dating your hot take on modern dating
08:15:43.940
is that a lot of relationships are transactional some people exchange time attention or emotional
08:15:49.000
support for lifestyle or stability sugar dating just makes those expectations more up front
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i don't think i couldn't do that i couldn't do that the woman has to just have genuine
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if you're in a relationship I don't expect a guy
08:16:31.160
to like be paying me every time and stuff uh okay we have letitia letitia letitia letitia
08:16:52.520
you say that you're more mature more mature than you can imagine what do you mean
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mean i'm more mature than you wrote that you're more mature more mature than you can imagine
08:17:03.120
out of context but yeah i can it might it's probably out of context but yeah it's completely
08:17:08.420
i'm probably out of context okay um but i'm definitely more mature than i was and okay i
08:17:16.600
keep growing you you wrote that you have a very interesting view on dating and always argue even
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the nature of it especially as a french by the way i was born in france yeah you know do you know
08:17:29.320
that i know that you french people are giving us a bad rap i know because you american don't know
08:17:36.100
what the fuck you're talking about no the french oh my god i feel like the french look there's good
08:17:41.520
french women there's good french men i mean my my dad's french but um like
08:18:18.920
i feel like these french women kind of be a little more infidelitous is that a fucking word
08:18:26.740
i just made that shit up infidel infidel infidel fucking infidels i don't think i'm just gonna
08:18:38.620
speak english here because i think better english but i just think that our first of all dating
08:18:48.500
doesn't have a translation so it's like every time I have been asking people since I am in America
08:18:53.140
what is dating I never had the same answer so I'm like okay this is very confusing you can date for
08:18:58.840
before you even kiss and then you can date for 40 years and get married and be married so it's like
08:19:04.880
well that doesn't make any sense and then as far as cheating go I think we have a very more open
08:19:12.480
mind as far as that goes but to say that french women are teaching more than american women i
08:19:19.960
would be way far from that that's fair look i don't know the statistics but it seems like the
08:19:25.400
the approach to romance in front in france seems a little bit different it seems like women are
08:19:32.380
french women can be a bit more assertive they're a little more bossy passionate french women it's
08:19:38.400
passion and desire dude french women are a little more um i get the impression french women are much
08:19:45.060
more feminist than their other european counterparts or their american counterparts i guess
08:19:50.600
they're more bossy french women are bossier they're a bit more dominant i think is a good word
08:19:55.780
but um we are intense and fiery and yeah explosive yes we can be i'm not
08:20:03.200
the language of love yeah yeah we are like yeah that's true uh you wrote that you used to love
08:20:10.760
flirting abusing your woman power yeah what is abusing your woman power the pussy power
08:20:17.300
you abuse the pussy power yeah you abuse the pussy power yeah did you who's who here has
08:20:24.320
abused the pussy power you abuse the pussy power on your boyfriend you're like maybe before yeah
08:20:43.780
In my opinion, it's like I got out of situations that if I would have been a man, I would have
08:21:00.360
it's not a privilege like i feel like i have been in situation where i could have been forgiven
08:21:06.160
better because i was a woman i got sometimes pulled over and if i would have been a man
08:21:11.280
i would have had my fine like i also was more way more seductive and be dangerous and cold dangerous
08:21:18.120
because i but like in the situation let's say you get pulled over are you like starting to cry even
08:21:24.140
though you're actually not scared no and i am the opposite of that i am like super authentic and
08:21:28.320
vulnerable and it's just because i am like so you're just saying you're aware that there is
08:21:32.340
like a there literally but it's like wait yeah when you go out of your car i used to live in a
08:21:37.740
van and when i come out of my van and the cop is like checking me out from top to bottom three
08:21:42.000
times i'm like oh my god who the hell can't tiffany really why would you press that tiffany
08:21:49.700
she's in the middle of her fucking story tiffany that's so rude tiffany that's even
08:21:55.220
rootier to blame someone else for your own shit i didn't do anything that was tiffany i don't
08:22:00.660
trust she's she's the misogynist at least own it brian i did not do anything whatever um yeah
08:22:08.580
exactly yeah uh you wrote you wrote i don't know what abusing the woman power is but i kind of get
08:22:14.660
it um you said after your last long relationship you did a huge work on yourself and now you have
08:22:19.780
switched 360 yeah 360 so you 360 means that you're back to the same it's the same no because i think
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it's like a complete like overview like it's not yeah it's full circle like in many ways it's full
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circle it's like i'm on the open and like i'm opening a new circle even like it's not even
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360 it's like i am i think it's completely different i do think it's 180 to be fair
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because it's not an opposite it's a complete different point of view it's a complete like
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i wouldn't even have thought about what i am right now before you said your views and attitudes
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towards men yeah uh did a 360 180 360 whatever you realized how addicted to men and sex you were
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and now you're building yourself to look like the one you are waiting for and believe in your
08:23:13.020
little girl's dream again and do everything to make it happen yeah okay what do you want to know
08:23:19.160
about when you say you're addicted to men and sex when you're a sex addict yeah i mean when you
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can't stop having it and when you can't stop like spend time without one guy or with multiple men
08:23:30.540
uh men in general like i just after my first my husband my ex-husband i just didn't want because
08:23:39.300
I was in a new town and I didn't want a reputation I was like let's be cautious about it and then I
08:23:44.040
quickly realized that I was very I needed it I wanted it and so I just tried to limit myself but
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I and work on like why is that what what attachment do I have what like all of that and then lately
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like after my last relation long relationship I tried to go completely absent and after two years
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i saw that yeah and i told myself i will only be with the men that i will keep for the rest of my
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life and then no i met a guy and then he was cute and we had a good time and i had sex with him and
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i was like god damn it and i knew he was not the one so i was like this is truly an addiction that
08:24:21.480
shit like it's hard and now i'm not going there anymore like i really want to be out of it
08:24:28.320
if that makes sense you're a feng shui consultant how's the feng shui of
08:24:36.600
it's really bad but the feng shui is bad in here yeah but you can pay me for that
08:24:42.520
and i can give you a consultation but i'm not doing it for free yeah would you put like plants
08:24:49.960
in here or something you'd probably do some plants or maybe you don't have to okay but don't
08:24:56.380
yeah well i don't know have you ever heard feng shui the podcast studio i feel like look
08:25:00.280
maybe stay in your wheelhouse like maybe just stick to the residential leave the podcast feng
08:25:06.760
shui to me i don't think she offered yeah i'm like what are you talking about i'm like i don't
08:25:14.060
want to work for you dude at all like no like i'm sticking to what i want and like if i want to do
08:25:20.360
business on podcast like wait what give me one principle of feng shui what do you mean like what
08:25:27.980
is how would you what is feng shui feng shui means art of placement yeah what does that
08:25:34.160
maximize energy flowing through this so yeah the whole point hey these two dolls here is the feng
08:25:39.440
shui good with the two i am not answering those questions you need to pay me 150 bucks for a
08:25:43.860
consultation hey if somebody wants to talk to me i charge them 950 dollars an hour i already came
08:25:49.200
here for free so i'm not only also giving up like advice for free i should be charging y'all i i
08:25:55.120
should be charging y'all yeah well you don't know i've been giving you so much dating advice this
08:25:59.880
entire night this girl oh wait what my dating advice is the best dating advice look if you
08:26:06.220
guys want to just i'm glad i love sarcasm if you guys want to just keep just going down your path
08:26:11.280
of doom and destruction and ruination ruination you want to go to damnation i'm telling you you
08:26:18.360
could you could do what you're doing and follow that path or you can listen to brian you really
08:26:22.740
should be a cult leader yeah i think you should yeah you have one you have one follower here
08:26:29.120
already who brooklyn what about you julia i think hell no i have considered starting a sex cult
08:26:38.640
what i'm not surprising oh my god but a 40 year old virgin leading a sex cult yeah yeah i wonder
08:26:52.040
Well, you have to know what to do with your fan base.
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If there's any women who are down to join my sex cult, you can message me.
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and we're gonna have warrior sons and awesome daughters and dope fucking daughters and we're
08:27:25.440
gonna have a fucking farm and shit and we're gonna be self-sustaining self-sustaining we're
08:27:32.220
gonna be fucking off the grid and it's gonna be dope and there's gonna be uh it's gonna be dope
08:27:38.080
well that sounds like a nice life but and and you i will grant i get i enlighten people
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you will be enlightened you will find nirvana you will find buddha you will find zen
08:27:50.240
all that shit cool yeah good talk okay uh back to your notes though letitia
08:27:58.240
in letitia you said you have some sad death you so you dated okay some happy some funny
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some hidden in secret what is some hidden in secret some hidden and secret you wrote hidden
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and secret dating stories some true love some random oh yeah casual or public sex you fucked
08:28:22.500
on a bus no and like that's part of where like i'm really happy that we didn't have phone but
08:28:29.560
he to start with the first one that you said the hidden and secret is just more like
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some relationships that shouldn't get exposed okay um and yeah i exactly they were my favorite
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okay i mean not my favorite i just had no respect i don't think at that point or like i was liking
08:28:50.100
self-respect at that point and my mom was doing the same so in some ways i might have had a
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representation of it okay um what was the other one what you wrote hold on i'll skip those from
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devouring you said from devouring men in your 20s and 30s to now every day aligning with the one
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what is the one what do you mean by devouring men in your 20s and 30s be quick please
08:29:10.800
um just having a lot of men and like not having like boundaries towards it yeah so even with like
08:29:18.500
two men in the same night that i didn't know that you said that you were a sex and a men addict and
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now you're being already devoted and committed to a man you don't even know yet yeah what does
08:29:29.060
that mean so you're you're committed and devoted to a man you do you know who the man is no oh so
08:29:36.160
it's a random man out there and you're it's the man that i like yeah that i i want to align with
08:29:42.620
like the man that i am working hard for and like on myself because i'm yeah finding myself love
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my self-respect my self-esteem all of that so i can match that because clearly so far i wasn't
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matching that and i had only right so you're devoted great relationship but so you're already
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devoted and committed to your future man but you don't know who the specific man is but he's out
08:30:05.880
there yeah because i just don't want anybody to like i had to stop having sex to understand first
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of all that i was an addict to it now i am like okay i think i've dealt with my addiction i feel
08:30:18.940
better and i don't need it anymore whatsoever and now it's even more magical to think that
08:30:25.680
i am not like i don't date i feel i know it's going to be organic when we're going to meet
08:30:31.420
and i believe in that dream that my five years old of my prince charming taking me away except
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that now he's not going to take me away i'm just going to okay okay alongside with him in your 20s
08:30:42.300
you're partying a lot involving alcohol drugs and sex yeah what drugs um i would say cocaine like
08:30:49.440
cocaine and ecstasy and mgma you would call that here maybe uh you were in a long-term relationship
08:30:57.840
from 20 to 23 you cheated on him and hated that feeling so bad you decide to work on yourself and
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not do it again yeah uh after a horrible breakup you started a cycle of having sex all the time
08:31:09.660
yeah uh thinking if you give men sex they will be your friends uh kind of how you were raised
08:31:15.700
after a while many girlfriends telling you it was bullshit you realized it was your mom behavior not
08:31:22.520
yours yeah so was your mom like when you're growing up were there men coming in in and out
08:31:28.380
of the house uh yeah kind of like they were not that was more my mom going somewhere she would
08:31:34.960
go out with yeah strange and my mom when i was like about 20 years old we had an experience
08:31:40.460
together and it was pretty traumatic to me i was like what the fuck what a threesome
08:31:48.360
what you had the threesome with your mom no actually we had like she was having her own
08:31:55.100
experience and the next day i was like what happened and she said oh i can have sex with
08:32:01.240
the men the same way i would shake their hand and so that was kind of traumatic to me like not
08:32:07.480
traumatic but just that was her behavior not mine and that's who she was with men and that's what
08:32:14.520
that's how i got raised in some way and like no respect no boundaries no respect no
08:32:19.820
like being like no definition of what a woman is what a woman should be for a man etc etc
08:32:27.660
okay so you ended up dating another guy down the road you said it was toxic uh you got pregnant
08:32:34.780
with him my last long-term relationship and you you said it was toxic though so you need to get
08:32:41.860
out you got out and you lost the baby so yeah so basically yeah we were not in a good position
08:32:47.140
i and then i got pregnant and i was like oh my god i can't have like i can't have that relationship
08:32:52.880
anymore so I broke up with me with him it was just a huge wake-up call and then I went to the doctor
08:32:58.280
and the baby was gone already so I didn't have to take a decision and you said it was a blessing
08:33:03.580
that you had the miscarriage I guess yes okay um uh you yeah because it just woke me up and I
08:33:12.280
could have the chance to get out of that toxic relationship and then afterwards you said you
08:33:16.800
like a friend of a friend you had the best love story ever in 10 days then he left and you told
08:33:22.040
yourself that you wanted to see the same beauty you saw in his eyes in yours it's been three years
08:33:27.740
so is is your love that guy or is it somebody else no that guy just like chemistry some things
08:33:34.660
that we haven't talked at all tonight which was when she was saying it's superficial i kind of
08:33:39.220
agree with lindsey but it's just yeah we had such a chemistry that for the first time i realized what
08:33:46.000
was like a relationship that was easy loving caring like the whole thing was just absolutely
08:33:53.220
wonderful like I lived a dream for 10 days so it was good oh that was yeah okay like uh you have
08:33:59.980
plenty of dating stories like the smallest penis on earth but it was good yeah that was my first
08:34:05.980
American in New Zealand oh my god yeah I'm sorry it was good sex or whatever what's up it was good
08:34:12.060
sex yeah it was impressively very very good i don't see here with your hand show us oh my god
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like i don't know what is that skinny too what that's skinny too like how was the girl that good
08:34:31.180
because he was extremely like it's just a matter of like yeah you're missing something um but he
08:34:39.460
was he was good at everything uh you said not to say like the biggest penis that you had sex with
08:34:46.460
on drugs in front of your friends without knowing it oh my god then you're gonna have sex again with
08:34:52.900
him a couple years later but you couldn't because you didn't want to take drugs anymore because it
08:34:57.320
was too big yeah and you had to be on drugs i mean the first night i was like the first night
08:35:04.960
And yes, it was in front of my friend and I heard about it.
08:35:08.380
Or like at least I had echo about it 20 years later.
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Yeah, because it was like a bathroom where you don't have the top of the walls are not finished.
08:35:27.760
And then two years later when we meet again and he invited me over and I was like,
08:35:34.560
And then you asked me for drugs and I said, uh, you said that you, uh, understand sex workers.
08:35:38.780
And if you had only fans available in your twenties and you're a 42, uh, you would be
08:35:49.000
So you still have your dignity, but you would have done it if it existed 20 years ago or
08:36:04.560
you said you have now you have high standards and boundaries i went your you went from being
08:36:09.200
a sex addict to being committed to someone you don't know yet it feels so powerful and magical
08:36:13.360
to wait to be touched by the one you if it is the one are you gonna wait to have sex with him or
08:36:18.320
will you just right away oh no i'm gonna wait how long i don't know it's gonna depend on the
08:36:24.800
situation six months yeah but i wouldn't say six months i mean unless we see each other three times
08:36:31.680
in six months but um yeah i'm gonna definitely wait and not have sex on the first i feel like
08:36:37.360
that's a raw deal for a guy that's what it's a it's a raw deal for a guy what does it mean like
08:36:43.360
i don't know look people can change and people can change their standards and obviously just to
08:36:49.140
be clear like i don't know sometimes people will try to make an assumption on this obviously like
08:36:54.080
this is within the confines of like consent or whatever i think it's a super raw deal like a
08:37:00.960
girl who who like let's say the like a month ago she fucked a guy within two hours of meeting
08:37:06.840
and then she meets you and she's like oh my god i really like you i think you're the one you could
08:37:12.160
be my future boyfriend and she makes you wait three months that's so fucked that's such bullshit
08:37:18.500
you might think that and that's all on your you know your entitled of your opinion but first of
08:37:24.000
all my period where i had a lot of sex was 20 years ago like 20 years ago well what
08:37:30.900
about the guy who the best 10 days ever did you fuck him oh yeah yeah but no but like that period
08:37:36.280
where i had no respect no boundaries no self-awareness nothing of that but but you're
08:37:41.600
saying here's this guy who you say he's going to be your future uh you're you're waiting for him
08:37:48.480
yeah and then the guy who is going to be your maybe your husband or your life partner that
08:37:55.260
motherfucker he gotta wait three months to hit but all those guys in your 20s who didn't matter
08:38:01.440
who were just fun who were fuck boys who were dicks who were jerks who were assholes who treated
08:38:06.280
you poorly they got to fuck right away doesn't that seem backwards shouldn't it be like nah the
08:38:12.540
jerks the bad boys the assholes don't get pussy and the good guy gets the pussy shouldn't shouldn't
08:38:19.200
that be they were you know what i mean chat no they were assholes but i was an asshole too
08:38:25.500
and i had absolutely no self-respect whatsoever today i do and it's like well if you don't feel
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that it's worth the wait get the hell out of my life you don't deserve to be with me
08:38:37.240
like if you don't want to wait a minute like for someone would like i haven't been touched for
08:38:44.480
you know years years for you it's gonna be years because it's not gonna happen tomorrow
08:38:49.520
so it's like if you don't want to wait don't wait go ahead like well we have um look we have
08:38:56.040
brooklyn's notes and then we're done with the notes and then we have the rapid fire
08:38:59.760
wait are you flying from santa barbara yeah you're not gonna miss your flight when's your
08:39:05.740
flight it's in two hours it's at four o'clock no it's not yes it is your flight said yeah your
08:39:11.600
flight is at uh didn't you send it it's at like five or six p a.m excuse me at like 4 30.
08:39:20.860
you also have to be no i have to go back to my hotel and you say okay well we're gonna wrap soon
08:39:25.820
okay we have like maybe 20 minutes or some shit we're almost done we're almost there we're at the
08:39:30.600
tail end here stick with me guys okay so finishing this off super quick um look really quick on this
08:39:37.720
topic. Imagine if a guy said this, all those girls that I just wanted to use for sex, and I didn't
08:39:49.360
have any intention of being in a long-term relationship with any of those girls. I want
08:39:53.620
to be in a long-term relationship with you. Those girls I just wanted to fuck and I didn't care
08:40:00.060
about. I bought them gifts. I paid for dates. I took them on vacations. I was chivalrous. I did
08:40:08.040
all these things, but for you, because I want to hold off on those things. I want to, I want to
08:40:14.820
things to be serious first, before I do those things, you would look at the guy and be like,
08:40:20.840
are you fucking kidding me? You're telling me that I'm the girlfriend material, but I got to
08:40:26.960
go 50 50 i you're not going to take me on trips but you can afford it with those other girls
08:40:32.160
you're not going to get me gifts but you got all those girls who you claim didn't matter and
08:40:36.820
you're going to do all that for them you women would be like that sounds backwards doesn't it
08:40:42.540
yeah so it's like it sounds backwards to me when women say well you know i got banged out at a
08:40:50.340
frat party i fucked a dude in the bathroom at the nightclub i'm not saying specifically that's what
08:40:55.540
you did uh i fucked multiple men like the first date the second date the third date but the guy
08:41:01.780
who's going i'm gonna be with forever and who's gonna be my boyfriend he can wait for pussy
08:41:09.000
i'm gonna make him wait for pussy i need to know him like i don't know the guy like yeah of course
08:41:15.220
i'm gonna like look you can do it before i didn't care i could suck your dick before i would learn
08:41:20.040
your name that's today it's like no it doesn't seem right to me and i'm like how did i do that
08:41:25.500
like i don't want to do that anymore i totally get it just because you continue to bad say say
08:41:30.860
you're gonna categorize that as a bad thing um but i don't know i don't know it's like it is a
08:41:39.420
complicated because on one hand it's like okay well let's say somebody did heroin right you did
08:41:43.920
heroin you've also done party drugs uh because you used to do party drugs or used to do heroin
08:41:50.420
are you then obliged and obligated to keep doing heroin because you used to do it
08:41:55.880
no of course not so like i understand that but from the male perspective it's like
08:42:02.820
imagine i haven't had a man touch my skin it's not fair he's gonna be the first like i don't know
08:42:08.860
that's fine but i don't know it's like and look if a girl if a girl has waited let's say she's
08:42:17.260
she's been celibate for four years and she used to have a past that's a little different it's a
08:42:22.000
little different it's still kind of fucked up it's still a bit unfair but it's a bit different now
08:42:26.240
if a girl i find out there's this great reddit thread where a girl oh here's oh this is so good
08:42:34.580
I'll try to, I'll try to recapsulate it as best as I can.
08:42:38.620
A girl posted on Reddit that she got dumped by her boyfriend.
08:42:44.740
She told her boyfriend that she wanted to wait with him because she wanted it to be special.
08:42:55.000
And he finds out, I'm trying to remember if she revealed it to him or whatever, but she
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said she felt guilty because while they were dating and she was waiting and they were waiting
08:43:07.600
to have sex she had a friends with benefits who she was fucking now they weren't exclusive though
08:43:14.260
because she was saying well we weren't exclusive yet um but i was making him wait all the while
08:43:22.240
she was fucking her friends with benefits now that's kind of where the angle i'm coming from
08:43:27.840
where it's like you claim to have a standard but you don't actually because you're if the standard
08:43:33.600
is in order for you to have sex with me i needed to be a solid relationship meanwhile you're fucking
08:43:38.480
a guy you're having a friends with benefits and you're just fucking him and he's not your boyfriend
08:43:42.580
it's like that or it could be a month ago i say i match with a girl on a dating app say i match
08:43:49.800
with a girl on hinge and a month ago she tells me oh yeah i fucked a guy on hinge like first date
08:43:55.040
and then she goes on a date with me and she's like oh well um i want to wait three months
08:44:00.240
really like okay i'm probably i feel like that's a raw deal and i'm probably going to feel a type
08:44:09.760
of way i'd probably go find a different girl uh anyways that's my position brooklyn uh you went
08:44:17.700
on a date date with a guy that had a tattoo initial and you asked him whose initial it was
08:44:22.400
and he said it was his sister's yikes ended up finding out it was his girlfriend's shocking
08:44:27.880
how did you meet him dating at no my my community college oh he like he approached you after class
08:44:34.720
crazy dates because i'm still like so young but like uh yeah he approached me after class and then
08:44:40.060
we would just like we hung out probably a few times and then he would like say he wanted me
08:44:45.100
to be his girlfriend and then that one time i realized he had like the tattoo or whatever
08:44:49.200
his ex-girlfriend or his current girlfriend girlfriend so like that's just the craziest
08:44:54.600
thing that's happened to me and then uh because there's like an app did you smash did you smash
08:44:59.320
him no only my ex-boyfriend okay you were on the t-app no he was on the t-app well uh but i was i
08:45:06.820
was going on it and then i saw him and everyone in the comments were saying he's a girlfriend and
08:45:10.900
a lot of people were saying they were going on dates with him and then it was just a thing
08:45:14.300
but it was kind of that t-app's fucked up yeah we all tried to tell her too she just didn't care
08:45:20.160
now your friend does some sketchy stuff like the findom stuff do you do anything like that no okay
08:45:24.980
all right that's it for the for that we have the rapid fire questions then i'm getting you guys
08:45:30.060
out of here pronto tonto and then we're gonna blast through these quick quick quick quick
08:45:34.580
okay um let's see do you guys think i'm a misogynist uh no no but you say misogynistic
08:45:45.440
things to make a point that is so not true what did i say okay fine what did i say that was
08:45:51.440
misogynistic um gosh i i mean i can't pull it off the top of my head just one thing one thing oh
08:45:58.960
i don't know um oh uh women should bow women should bow men should pay for first dates does
08:46:09.360
that mean a woman's sexist no does it mean she's a misandrist no so wait if you can say men should
08:46:20.060
pay for first dates and that's not misandrist then how could me saying a woman should bow
08:46:25.240
how would that be misogynistic i don't i mean i i don't believe men should always pay on the first
08:46:31.700
date just so you know okay but you do acknowledge would you acknowledge that the women who do say
08:46:35.840
it are they misandrist i don't think saying that is i'm they're likely misandrist but that's not a
08:46:42.300
misandrist thing to say wait they're likely misandrist i mean no a woman could want a guy
08:46:48.300
to pay for the first date and not hate men that's true right i want women to bow i don't hate women
08:46:55.220
okay but you say things that would imply you are a misogynist what like what like what like people
08:47:02.380
would assume you're a misogynist based off of some of the things you say okay they might assume it
08:47:05.440
are they correct no i said you're not a misogynist oh okay but i just say you say things that
08:47:10.300
yes okay well i mean that might be true to make points and i get that fair enough okay uh do you
08:47:18.480
believe in male privilege no white privilege yes is there white privilege yes can black people be
08:47:26.340
racist towards white people closer to the mic mic mic mic any race could be racist towards each
08:47:32.080
other okay uh do you think in terms of looks do you think you're below average average or above
08:47:36.040
average above above above average average above do you think you're beautiful that's what my
08:47:45.040
parents tell me yes i think so yeah yes okay uh let's see here um uh we hit a lot of these
08:48:00.100
okay rapid fire uh going around the table you can't repeat name three countries besides the
08:48:06.060
USA. Zimbabwe, China, France. Perfect. Tiffany, two more water, one more water, please. Go ahead.
08:48:22.340
China. China. Wait, no, you can't repeat. She did say it. She did say China. Oh, I did. I'm so
08:48:31.040
I'm tired. Thank you. I can name like 50. Peru, Dominican Republic, Haiti. Okay, go ahead.
08:48:37.480
Italy, Greece, Spain. I was going to say two of those. Brazil, Argentina, Peru, Portugal, Morocco, Egypt, Korea, India, Chile.
08:48:50.700
Going this way, how many continents are there? I don't know. Seven.
08:49:01.040
face the wall you're on the timeout face the wall think about what you did brooklyn stand up brooklyn
08:49:08.400
stand up face the wall okay there's another punishment hold on oh my goodness put this on
08:49:16.800
for five minutes put the hat on put that put that on for five minutes brook brooklyn actually i'll
08:49:22.800
just i'll let you do it for 30 seconds put it on okay uh homegirl spin spin the helicopter on top
08:49:31.040
okay uh here just put it on the ground next to you it's fucked up yeah okay uh how many
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contents are there you said you don't know okay brooklyn saved you though
08:49:43.920
goddamn brooklyn uh name one continent can't repeat asia africa australia you're up
08:49:59.640
zimbabwe that is a country that's a country uh india no it's a country
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it was an english class i didn't really know this is geography no i know but in school i was in
08:50:17.460
english class you didn't have to take geography can you guys just repeat your continents again
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I'm going to stop talking because everyone's going to think I'm dumb.
08:51:23.460
i don't know okay uh did somebody say the icy one iceland i said that oh you said that one
08:51:32.860
i was trying to give her a hint yeah i said wait i said thanks no asia asia africa australia
08:51:40.960
europe what's the icy continent where the south or the north pole is what's the ice continent
08:52:20.160
Antarctica. Okay, somebody say the Brooklyn. What's the other one?
08:52:29.240
I wanted you to leave one. I wanted you to leave one for our girl here.
08:52:37.560
Here, for you. I'm going to pick on you, okay? Chris Slough.
08:52:50.160
into the mic closer closer and then mexico that's one maybe what it is and then the other state we
08:52:59.360
hate i don't know what's the other country russia yes guess guess one more time it's not russia
08:53:08.780
what continent is ukraine in i don't know but those are like the
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the countries we have beef with we don't have beef with ukraine oh boy
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um okay just get me how about this let me give you a hint let me give you a hint it's north
08:53:29.400
it's the country north of us like i said i didn't learn that in school i was an english
08:53:35.040
development wait yeah yeah okay they love oh canada of course drake yeah of course
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i knew that would help uh okay how many how many states in the usa 50
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50 uh what is the capital of the usa washington or dc name three u.s states you can't repeat
08:54:00.380
arizona um arkansas alabama it's a mike mike mike mike mike texas north carolina
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um minnesota florida georgia hawaii nebraska oklahoma minnesota
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oregon montana wyoming colorado illinois michigan
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love it okay uh name two countries in europe germany france two countries well hey i started
08:54:35.400
over here to make it easy for you two countries in europe europe you're it's gonna be young come on
08:54:47.240
come on boo she she already said france oh um how about one just what's similar to france
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i can't i can't though it's not fair i didn't grow up speaking english
08:55:41.740
your english is pretty good what do they speak french creole or something yeah say the europe
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therapy rosetta stone says english say the the the country in europe in french creole
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that's oh boy oh boy oh boy okay uh can i give you a hint uh fish fish and chips
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pasta pasta italy mike mike mike okay well yeah there you go italy okay
08:56:21.420
okay uh how many planets are in our solar system eight 13 13 okay might be 13 nine nine it was nine
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when i went to school but i know it's eight now what how much guess guess quick okay uh what
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planet do we live on you sure final i had to give you an easy one okay uh what is the capital of
08:56:48.060
california sacramento the government building the pentagon is what shape
08:56:55.100
oh god what is the shape i know what it looks i know what it looks like nobody help a pentagon
08:57:07.000
are you sure no wait it's called a pentagon it's pentagon
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she's too smart uh what country is directly north of mexico
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you got chris love you got this chris love come on what country is directly north of
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mexico on jeopardy yes we are where do we live hey brooklyn calm down brooklyn fucking stand
08:58:09.740
in the corner now you got it stand up face the wall wow uh what country is north of mexico
08:58:17.420
usa you are correct uh how many months are in a year
08:58:21.900
how many hours in a day how many sides does a triangle have
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okay uh what do you call a shape with five sides
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that shapes pentagon you sure brooklyn what is it hexagon that's six that is never mind
08:58:47.800
hexagon brooklyn wow what do you call a shape with eight sides octagon wow what country gifted
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Yeah, what country gifted the Statue of Liberty to the U.S.?
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Statue of Liberty, you know, the lady who holds up.
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what do you call it uh it was like you're paying back for horrendous things you've done to a
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reparations yeah it was for that yeah was that right okay what it was the answer it is friends
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um i knew it lexington what gas do humans breathe in to survive oxygen what gas do plants absorb
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from the air brooklyn carbon dioxide what organ pumps blood through your body
09:00:25.580
your heart yeah there you go see don't be so shy about it yeah have a little confidence chris love
09:00:33.760
uh we love our black queens here on the whatever podcast
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i'm saying stupid shit uh slay queen um do you think i would oh never mind no say it
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do you think i would make it in the streets no have you ever seen why boys can't jump
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i'm not sure i i think i would do okay no you'd never be seen again
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i would just befriend some homies i would befriend wait there's more notes from you
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about something about on the other side yeah yeah but we don't have time we don't have time
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She dropped a few dimes downstairs, and I picked them up for her.
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you're just so funny when you answer yeah but i really don't know i'm being serious
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paris paris what's the capital of japan tokyo what i told you okay what country
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countries right below it i don't look at those type of stuff i don't really need it have you
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ever seen a map like if you've never looked at the border not since high school because
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can i ask you a question um this one i'm just making up off the top of my head
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does north america and europe share a land border
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but like the united uh not the united states does north america and europe
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do they share like are they connected by land at some point
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could you drive from north america no the continent that we're on to europe you say why there
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you sure i don't know uh what from here what is a thousand divided by ten
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chris love okay what is it 100 uh if today is monday what day is it in three days
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quick there's thursday oh okay there you go there she wants to jump in now
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i thought it was asking you too many questions okay if you have three quarters how much money
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do you have um there we go we gotta give her a layup every once in a while how many i gotta
09:04:15.580
say this i gotta make sure i pronounce this how many nickels gotta be careful with that one make a
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i got you boo don't worry i don't even trip i got you boo you're don't even trip bro
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okay no i don't okay what is a dime wait tell me what a dime is five
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i know there's like five cent and 25 cent and okay so 25 cents is what
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no but 25 cents is what what coin is that it's a quarter okay a dime is
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oh i think he's asking you 50 of 200 how are you going to figure out if your guy's making
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400 000 or 20 million dollars you got to know the numbers a little bit but i know i know that's why
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you keep that's why you keep getting bamboozled these guys say they make this much money but
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they're not because you got it she only knows how to count in bands okay okay uh okay five times
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five 25 12 divided by three 36 huh what wait wait say it again by three 12 divided by three
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how much did i say 36 you did say 36 you're fucked bro clip that clip it and chip it boys
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send it to her math teacher i was thinking of 12 times three okay well 12 divided by three then
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How many branches of the U.S. government are there?
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Well, I'll skip you because you're non-American
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i don't know i don't remember you have a judge is it harry potter no no no it's not harry potter
09:07:31.100
it's um we the people it's by lincoln right yeah something like that uh gettysburg address
09:07:38.300
yes yeah that one uh okay how many stars on the u.s flag
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huh into the mic we live on earth well but earth is in a galaxy so what galaxy
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are we in i don't know you should ask aliens i think you might be an alien to be honest
09:08:15.100
has anyone ever told you that yeah are you a bit of an alien i'm a bit uh let's see okay
09:08:21.180
what galaxy do we live in shit i did not know this one the milky way
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all right brooklyn got her education she paid attention to class no she said 36
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No, because I was thinking I'm, like, tired, too.
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I've had, like, three hours of sleep the last three days.
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That's going to be an awkward car drive back home.
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do the math it's pretty simple once in a decade hey brooklyn fucking stand up
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go to your room go to your room go to your room go to your cult room
09:10:02.980
Bro, it's like 15 minutes, 10 minutes, probably, like, maybe 20 minutes.
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question yeah this is fun this is the fun moment hey you're getting us when we're sleep you know
09:10:23.320
what stop complaining stop complaining we're wrapping this up okay uh what what year what
09:10:29.800
year was uh what year was the u.s founded 1776 what country did the u.s gain its independence
09:10:37.240
from tiffany can you get the door was i right yeah what what country did the game the u.s
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gained its independence from i don't know throughout the country um germany
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no what country what country yeah mike mike mike independence um
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i know haiti did they did getting their independence the united states gains its
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independence from haiti oh no no no yeah what country did the u.s did
09:11:07.060
okay who was the first president of brooklyn what country britain who was the first president of the
09:11:15.440
usa i don't know washington what country is the great wall of china in china there we go
09:11:26.580
are you sure uh how many uh we'll skip that one how many days in a year 365 how many letters in
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the alphabet? 27? I don't know. What? I have no idea. How many letters are in the alphabet? 26. Oh, I was
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close. How many days of the week end with the letter Y? All of them? All of them. What language do the
09:12:00.760
people in idaho speak english yep what what ocean is california next to
09:12:05.860
how many years are in a decade didn't we do this 120 did we yes 120 no 100 oh years and how many
09:12:15.260
years in a decade 100 100 oh yeah you're right yeah how many how many are in a century 120
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And I didn't have to remind you fucking a hundred times
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We would have been out of here fucking ten years ago
09:13:12.780
If you think about it you'll never do something worse
09:13:15.540
Brooklyn, if a dozen eggs cost $3, how much is each egg?
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Look, you guys have no fucking room to complain
09:14:56.380
Okay, what country is the Panama Canal in Brooklyn?
09:15:13.540
well italy uh oh rome yeah sorry what country that's fine what country is the taj mahalin
09:15:19.940
to any of you uh india what language do people in mexico speak
09:15:26.500
if you pass the person in second place what place are you in
09:15:34.980
yeah i guess that's not wrong hold on hold on if you pat okay if you pass the person
09:15:40.180
Second place. What place are you in first? You're in first Brooklyn first
09:15:48.400
If you pass the person in second place, what place are you in what place first first first?
09:15:53.320
You're all fucking wrong. What is it? You're in second place. You pass the person in second place. You didn't pass the person in first place
09:16:00.640
You said if you pass the person in second place
09:16:18.220
Okay, where did the attack on Pearl Harbor take place?
09:17:02.620
Before Mount Everest was discovered, what was the tallest mountain in the world?
09:17:54.740
somewhere around 100. somewhere around uh okay who's the current u.s president
09:18:02.980
um the orange guy what's his name okay uh what is 100 minus 66.
09:18:36.340
What is seventy seven plus thirty three, Brooklyn?
09:18:57.280
If you were born ten years ago, how old would you be today?
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there was a three there might have been 10 there might have been seven to be honest uh 60 66 plus
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44 one wait 66 plus what 30 uh excuse me 66 plus 44 110
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okay uh let's see what decade was world war one
09:19:38.600
tell you what i'll give you guys sort of 1980 i'll give you guys an out if you guys take your
09:19:47.960
makeup off fuck yeah give it to brooklyn will you do it will you take your makeup off give it to me
09:19:55.040
No, I have waterproof mascara on, and then it's going to get my eyes open.
09:20:03.460
I'm still going to fucking ask the questions, though, while they're doing that shit.
09:20:08.140
If it's just fucking Julie over here, then we'll stop doing it.
09:20:18.740
If these girls don't do it, then it's like, whatever.
09:20:26.620
It was for everybody has to take their makeup off.
09:20:31.820
I mean, if you want, then don't even take your shit off and get the fuck out then.
09:20:36.660
If you guys want to be fucking giving me attitude...
09:20:38.660
Oh my God, Brian, you get attitude for real at 2.30 in the morning?
09:20:50.000
They're fucking 40 minutes late and they're going to fucking complain about...
09:20:55.260
we told you how long the show's gonna fucking go
09:21:22.840
and didn't even apologize they didn't even fucking apologize and uh yeah man this might
09:21:31.200
be a first by the way hold on uh is she in the fucking bathroom like
09:21:36.760
bro they've been fucking moping and whining and shit um like uh bro you you gotta understand
09:21:48.560
i'm speaking to the viewers now if you do a hollywood production in los angeles you're going
09:21:55.420
to be on set for no you can just leave it center you're going to be on set for a typical production
09:22:02.580
day is 12 hours this is an opportunity for these people and they fucking whine and moan
09:22:08.740
they can't pull they'll stay up until 3 a.m at a rave they'll stay up until 4 a.m going out and
09:22:13.880
partying and it's like you're here on a show see it through to the end don't fucking whinge about
09:22:19.540
it yeah it does go late but so what it's a fucking production fucking production anyways um
09:22:26.660
yeah man um can you can you close that for me i'm telling you though like people look uh i'm not
09:22:39.000
exaggerating when i say a hollywood production you go do a production you're it's a 12-hour day
09:22:44.800
that's a 12-hour day if you go do a hollywood production and it's like it's and people will
09:22:52.060
be doing you'll be on set five days you'll be on set every single day uh oh fuck i spilled my water
09:23:01.580
but uh yeah man uh so this might be a first i think uh i don't know if i've ever had that
09:23:12.300
yeah i don't know if i've ever had that before but it's like bro they'll stay out to the club
09:23:16.540
till fucking uh 4 a.m 5 a.m and shit uh and uh yeah i don't know dude i don't know
09:23:27.000
uh what's the chat saying all i gotta say brian love your show definitely a first you don't get
09:23:35.580
paid on the day it's usually at the end of mass migration the french started revolutions before
09:23:40.380
uh bro yeah she's kind of annoying to be honest brian before the world record wait hold on
09:23:46.620
are they yeah yeah um bro we tell them how long it's gonna be how long we've been streaming let
09:23:54.920
me see okay it has been long to be fair but look i mean it's a fucking production you know fucking
09:24:02.220
production uh you had so much fun that felt like it was going well when i got oh no they're fucking
09:24:11.540
moping and sag limit is eight hours a day with a 12 hour i don't what bro i'm telling you google
09:24:18.700
if you can you can chat gpt right now uh tiffany can you type in the chat gpt tab
09:24:24.920
uh what is a typical production day uh in hollywood
09:24:33.680
all right i need to see some prime subs in the chat
09:24:41.340
what the fuck no can you can uh get just ask for hours how long is a production day
09:24:57.240
yeah you you gotta hit you got it what no you gotta hit enter you didn't hit enter
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okay so key realities long hours 12 to 14 hour days are common
09:25:10.860
it's like okay man uh it is what it is all right pull up twitch really quick
09:25:16.760
bro we had so much bullshit today behind the scenes i'm not even f11 please uh guys let me
09:25:26.740
see a prime sub show some love that was a fucking stressful show boys show some love uh
09:25:31.940
yeah uh drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you're enjoying the stream
09:25:37.360
uh i'm trying to think if there's anything else uh guys rachel debate saturday we have a debate
09:25:44.220
with rachel saturday we have a rachel coming sunday um and uh let's see i'm trying to think
09:25:53.800
if there's anything else i need to go over uh oh i i guess really quick i'll give you some
09:26:01.260
context for everything so the two girls here brooklyn and uh lexi and we're very clear that
09:26:08.440
we need people here at 4 p.m sharp we we need people here at 4 p.m sharp they were 40 minutes
09:26:16.100
late we had another girl who was an hour late who we just said nah like we're not going to put you
09:26:20.920
on we had uh like one or two girls flake we had one girl no show and um yeah it's just frustrating
09:26:30.460
man it's frustrating and we had uh that girl lindsey she quit i got blamed for making her cry
09:26:40.060
for i i veronica or whatever i i made her cry she just wasn't being sensitive that's the sisterhood
09:26:48.600
that's when that's very dangerous thing where the moment a woman what's that saying by it's like
09:26:55.500
plato of socrates or something uh a woman will cry because ah fuck i'm gonna butcher this let
09:27:02.160
me just fucking google it uh does somebody in the chat know what it is a woman will cry trust
09:27:08.400
not when a woman weeps for trust not i don't know this is gonna be some crazy shit some people say
09:27:16.120
it's attributed to socrates but trust not a woman when she weeps for it excuse me oh my god sorry
09:27:22.560
guys i'm tired i'm running over my words here trust not a woman when she weeps for it is
09:27:27.800
for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will
09:27:33.940
in any case uh i hope you guys enjoyed the stream that was kind of scuffed it's not gonna lie
09:27:40.200
but uh ad hoc ad hoc justification to justify bad behavior um
09:27:48.200
i don't even know how that would make you cry though so i was just saying yeah men don't want
09:27:54.300
to date like women don't want to date overweight guys either like i'm not doing like a double
09:28:01.560
standard sexist thing like i acknowledge women don't want to date overweight guys men don't
09:28:07.100
want to date overweight women in general it's not wrong to reject somebody who you're not attracted
09:28:13.180
to and she started crying about it. And it was my fault. I like, isn't it common sense that men
09:28:20.080
care about a woman's weight? So it's like, is this not something she's heard before? Like,
09:28:26.100
is it our first time ever hearing that men have standards? Is it our first time ever hearing that
09:28:32.520
men have, uh, preferences and that men, uh, newsflash are allowed to, uh, have physical
09:28:40.780
standards for women i don't know i don't know man anyways you should boot them all at the end
09:28:49.860
to see the reaction then chat with us about their actions i mean i don't think i've ever
09:28:59.180
uh so yeah i don't know they're huffing and puffing and they're telling me to hurry up
09:29:06.420
part i'm trying to get through it these girls are late we started chat when how late did we start
09:29:11.100
the show i don't know if anybody who started watching uh i don't know if anybody started
09:29:15.480
watching at like the very beginning but didn't we start like 20 minutes late chat
09:29:21.780
like didn't we start 20 minutes late yeah it's like they were fucking late they didn't even
09:29:29.760
apologize those two girls didn't even say hey sorry i'm late that's just common courtesy
09:30:03.860
20 minutes late um hey it is what it is all right well uh i'm trying to think if there's
09:30:10.060
anything else to go over i will say uh yeah there was some other bullshit bro some girl just no
09:30:17.780
showed she i'll tell you guys the quick story on this i'll give you some behind the scenes lore
09:30:23.340
and then we'll wrap this up here in two minutes we were gonna have this one girl come on and she
09:30:29.360
just passive aggressively just decides to no show. So this girl in the DMS asks me, Hey, so she tells
09:30:37.100
me that she's married, but she's an OF girl. And you guys know that a lot of these OnlyFans girls,
09:30:41.660
they lie about their relationship status because as an OF girl, you'll make more money if you
09:30:47.040
pretend to be single. And so she asked me, uh, Hey, by the way, I know I said I'm married,
09:30:53.080
but can you pretend like I'm single? And I was hesitant because I'm like, I don't want there to
09:31:01.940
ever be a communication or anything that even hints at a level of staging. We don't stage the
09:31:10.980
show. Everything is authentic. I don't tell the girls to say stupid things. Everything is real.
09:31:18.620
if try and by the way if I if I staged the show I could like I could make the show way more viral
09:31:26.400
and way more interesting than it is if I wanted to stage it trust me I would have there would be
09:31:32.700
there would be girls rage quitting every show I'd be kicking off a girl every show I would have like
09:31:38.920
girls intentionally saying really crazy things everything on the show is a hundred percent
09:31:44.520
authentic, but this girl wanted me to participate in her charade. And I didn't know how to respond
09:31:52.800
to that. So I was just like, okay. I just said, okay. When she asked, I just said, okay.
09:31:58.500
Cause I didn't want to, I don't even want the appearance of, uh, encouraging women to come on
09:32:06.540
the show and lie because I've had, um, I've had women message me and they're like, they'll ask me,
09:32:12.940
hey, Brian, should I just come on and say something crazy that's not true? Or should I
09:32:18.180
just come on the show and rage bait? Or should I come on the show and, oh, we could get some really
09:32:25.920
viral moments if I lie and say this. I shut them down immediately. I say, absolutely not. I'm not
09:32:32.540
even sure if I want you on the show anymore. We have impromptu, unscripted conversations on the
09:32:40.140
show. And, uh, if, if you're going to come on and just bullshit everything now, look, to be fair,
09:32:47.000
I think there's probably, there's definitely women who've come on on their own volition
09:32:51.260
and, uh, they've probably made shit up. Like, of course that's happened. But if a woman tries to
09:32:58.380
be like, yo, Brian, do you want to like set something up where I do something crazy? And I'm
09:33:02.640
like, no, this show is authentic. The show, nothing is staged. Uh, nothing is, uh, nothing
09:33:12.240
is scripted. It's all unscripted and the women will try. They'll, I've had a few women ask
09:33:17.260
truthfully. It's been like a handful of women have been like, so should I come on? And I'm
09:33:22.520
like, no, no, no. Don't even fucking say that. I don't even want that in my DM. Do not say
09:33:27.500
that. I will not participate. If I get a hint that you're bullshitting, I'm going to kick you
09:33:33.700
off. So anyways, I don't know. Sorry that I'm fucking, uh, if I'm ranting here, but I did want
09:33:40.560
to tell you guys that we did have a no show because I didn't want to participate in this
09:33:45.700
woman's only fans charade of being single. Now, look, if she came on anyways, I wouldn't have
09:33:51.940
exposed her or something but it's like i don't want to have this appearance of uh ever being
09:33:59.120
like yeah i'm gonna play along with your charade like i don't know that's fucking stupid okay
09:34:05.300
whoo uh let's see if there's anything missing here
09:34:14.440
i hope you yeah and there's people who are like is this staged is this truck guys
09:34:24.660
you guys know the show would be way more i could put if i wanted to stage this shit
09:34:31.140
i would i would i'm a creative guy i could do i could have all kinds of crazy shit happening
09:34:38.740
It would be fucking full on Jerry Springer, but I don't do that.
09:34:45.580
Even if that means that there's boring moments on the show and trust me, there are, uh, anyways,
09:35:16.060
I think last show was kind of boring, wasn't it?
09:35:38.740
tiffany reveal tiffany reveal tiffany reveal you're fat shouldn't your korean mom be like
09:35:48.120
bullying you over that or something uh i feel bad for uh a lot of times there's this phenomenon
09:35:58.620
where uh this was the case for nick it was the case for nathan i think and it was the case for
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uh i don't know if it was the case for tiffany for some of my new producers like their first
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episode is brutal like nathan his first episode was the andrew wilson uh episode like a month or
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something ago yeah tiffany is a groiper by the way don't say i'm kidding i'm just joking i'm just
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joking she's not she's so i'm just i'm kidding guys i'm okay i'm just trying to i'm kidding i'm
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just trying to embarrass her i'm just trying to embarrass her she trust me she's she's a i'm she's
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a i'm a woman she has a woman of color you're she's a woman of color she's a she's a poc she's
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die she does not um she uh she's has no political opinions whatsoever that's not true i do what
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does your shirt say is that russian or what is it says black dog is that what is it what is the
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kanye's merch oh it's kanye's merch okay russian designer though good times good times um okay
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well uh that was interesting i'm gonna wrap the show here um uh is there anything we're forgetting
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guys like the video i guess oh i gotta do my outro okay let me do the outro do you want a
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popsicle or something no i just thought of something what uh you could have been anywhere
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in the world but you're here with us tonight or something oh yeah true
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okay you do have kanye west tattoos though yeah do you regret those or you know one on my waist kind
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of yeah good times everything's meant to happen
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okay uh well i want to say gg normally i say here gg well played to the panel
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but they're all gone so oh boy that was a rough one okay um guys hit the like button please if
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