Whatever Podcast - RAGEQUIT KEEKO Returns! She Has 3 Baby Daddies？! ｜ Dating Talk #88

00:00:00.000 podcast thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here

00:00:03.640 with me i appreciate that we're coming to you live from santa barbara california every sunday

00:00:07.720 and tuesday at 7 p.m pacific i am your host brian atlas i'm joined by my co-host kiki

00:00:13.960 she's a bit shy guys a few quick announcements before the show begins 0.80

00:00:18.400 this podcast is viewer supported heavy youtube demonetization so please consider donating

00:00:25.140 through stream labs instead of super chatting as youtube takes a brutal 30 cut streamlabs.com

00:00:31.820 slash whatever the stream labs link is in the description essentially if you super chat 100

00:00:36.620 youtube takes 30 if you donate 100 stream labs only takes three basically a payment processing fee

00:00:42.660 donations and super chats 10 and up will be displayed in stream overlay donations and super chats 50

00:00:48.880 and up will be read slash answered at intervals throughout the show if you want to interact

00:00:53.720 nearly instantly with us and weigh in on the conversation consider sending a tts text to

00:00:59.540 speech message that is 99 and up triggers tts tts is via stream labs only please see the description

00:01:06.900 for all other triggers and full details guys please keep the super chats donations tts respectful

00:01:12.000 playful roasting is okay but if you go too far with it we reserve the right to not show or read it

00:01:16.420 we have channel memberships to become a channel member hit that join button we have six different

00:01:20.540 tiers of support check out all the perks tier one is just five dollars a month you can also gift

00:01:25.720 memberships 50 gifted for a fit check guys we're also live on twitch right now do me a favor pull up

00:01:32.440 another tab go to twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow and a prime sub if you have one look at

00:01:40.500 that we got shaggy mcnasty just gave us a prime thank you man jacks 88 thank you for the prime yesterday

00:01:46.960 uh so twitch.tv slash whatever if you have amazon prime it's a quick free easy way to support the

00:01:52.480 show every single month we'll check back in here a little bit later uh re-up your prime yo cody thank

00:01:58.100 for the prime admittance thank for the prime appreciate it guys we got merch shop.whatever.com

00:02:04.560 stuff that oh yeah yeah yeah that that's the one uh stuff you can wear to not be naked that's

00:02:10.780 important in society i think it's actually crime if you're not clothes so go buy yourself a shirt

00:02:16.240 follow us on instagram at whatever any girls who want to be on the show dm whatever on instagram

00:02:22.960 if you're interested in being on follow me on instagram bd underscore atlas be sure to check out

00:02:27.240 my non-profit big labia matter blm um grassroots movement okay if you can't catch the full shows we

00:02:34.020 have three clips channels link for that is in the description if we get our uh main clips channel

00:02:40.960 the one million subs we're about like what 350k away um i will reveal what the seven on my lapel

00:02:46.780 means go subscribe without further ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please

00:02:50.940 tell us your name age and occupation go ahead hi my name is kiko um i'm 23 and i'm a bartender

00:02:57.300 hi my name is jenna i'm 36 and i'm a gas station clerk slash only fans content creator

00:03:05.880 did you sorry did you say age 36 oh 36 okay hi my name is mia lynn i'm 26 years old and in the interim

00:03:15.080 of getting my phd in psychology i've started a male dating advice platform called men ask mia

00:03:21.580 hi my name is madison i'm 18 i'm a student at santa barbara city college studying econ and accounting

00:03:29.740 i work on the whatever podcast and i'm a host at a bar chat were you able to hear um madison

00:03:39.720 well enough okay what about you i'm nicole from california i'm 39 and i'm an investor

00:03:46.180 you invest in what stock market and as of two days ago real estate stocks do you have a did you ever

00:03:57.300 have a normal person job i worked in fashion for a lot of years yeah i don't know if it was a

00:04:04.080 normal person job but i traveled a lot and worked in fashion and then i left that were you a fashion

00:04:09.560 designer were you i was a trend forecaster so yeah so i would decide what everyone likes before they

00:04:15.720 know they like it and we would push it out and then you chums would buy it not me i don't buy that 0.90

00:04:21.440 you're stuck in your flannel we know you don't shop right let's fucking go stuck in the 90s okay 0.94

00:04:28.520 hi my name is michaela i am 22 and i'm from mobile alabama i currently go to the university of south 0.98

00:04:37.120 alabama studying in recreational therapy the university of south alabama you said

00:04:42.320 usa okay is it what's the uh the uh how many how many students are there it's a big campus um i

00:04:50.460 couldn't tell you 30 000 40 000 20 000 if i had to guess probably around 30 okay got it hello my name

00:04:58.820 is priya i'm 22 years old i'm from sacramento california and i co-run a family business i'm

00:05:04.600 a full-time student at asu and um i'm a athlete

00:05:09.340 you play batman or what do you she's a horse girl horse is equestrian okay yes sir uh billy what about

00:05:19.860 you my name is billy ray i'm 25 and what do i do yeah what do you what do i do i make uh men's

00:05:29.280 self-improvement slash dating content and i'm dan i go by dm dating on the interwebs uh i am in sales

00:05:42.300 and also am a dating expert and attraction coach rock and roll oh yeah age i am 32 32 all right

00:05:50.840 welcome welcome and uh we might react to uh some of your guys's videos a little bit later on in the

00:05:57.040 show so uh let's go around the table once more so what is your current relationship status

00:06:02.680 are you single talking stage situationship friends with benefits relationship married

00:06:07.060 polycule um how long have you been single if you're single and what's your longest relationship

00:06:12.080 go ahead um i'm happily in a relationship same relationship for this whole past um seven months

00:06:19.140 and my longest relationship is like two years two and a half years

00:06:24.340 how long is your current relationship in uh about seven months seven months it's going strong

00:06:32.480 it's going strong okay what about you i've been dating the same guy for about 12 months

00:06:39.480 and i would say my longest relationship would be six years on and off so you've been dating your

00:06:47.380 current boyfriend for seven months no almost a year oh excuse me year sorry got you mixed up with

00:06:52.300 and you said your longest was seven years is that six years six years but on and off so i don't

00:06:58.420 know okay um and uh i think in your pre-show notes you told us you you're your mother correct

00:07:05.840 i am okay how many kids do you have four four kids okay um same father or i have three baby daddies

00:07:15.540 three i do good times um so two from one and then one from see this is where it gets really confusing

00:07:27.040 um because i kind of just dipped out from the second guy but he knows now so it's not

00:07:34.980 oh so you originally didn't tell him right yeah so so for the longest time and there was only two

00:07:40.660 um and then i eventually told the other guy so so now there's three well there were always

00:07:46.480 three well there's always three but right like they only knew the one kid's life guys so yeah

00:07:52.180 okay so um can i ask a question on that i have a question so he so you you say you like later on

00:08:00.960 decided to tell your child's father right did the man who like the other father did he think that was

00:08:08.480 his actual child or did he know the whole time that that was somebody else's child he knew it

00:08:12.480 was somebody else's and he wanted to act as if it was his own okay as long as it made a knowledge

00:08:18.580 rule yeah um and the and the other guy knew that i was pregnant the guy who got me pregnant knew i 0.67

00:08:23.620 was pregnant and just kind of dipped out so i didn't really feel bad just let me build a timeline

00:08:27.900 here so the first guy oh god so let's talk about child number one um right child number one right

00:08:35.320 17 17 yeah was with guy number one right child number two was with guy number one again it wasn't

00:08:45.140 really ever a thing what like we were just casually dating no but i'm just okay so no he's trying to

00:08:51.040 figure out if the first baby daddy was the father of the first oh no okay so okay so the first one was

00:08:56.060 only right so one got it okay so and then number two was with number two right number three was with

00:09:03.160 number two i had two boys with my the third one so wait number three is with number three

00:09:11.060 oh no so so so first dad had first kid second second dad had the second two kids no no one one two

00:09:20.420 got it that's what we were trying to figure out so last last baby daddy had the last two kids okay so 0.96

00:09:26.600 i got it i got it hold on i'm figuring this shit out here ryan we realized you weren't a math major 0.99

00:09:35.340 first dad first kid second dad second kid third dad third and fourth kids holy fuck that's complicated 0.98

00:09:43.160 i i've been called the ultimate baby mama um this is normal where i come from so then the second and 0.97

00:09:49.600 you're from number two raised no no no ew wait where are you from oh so i was in michigan i think

00:09:53.860 number three raised number two three and four right what's that yeah which one did you raise

00:09:59.700 two three and four or number two no no no no okay that sounds horrible all right number one

00:10:05.460 yeah well no you guys i'm shortening the word right it sounded good right um well you gotta think the

00:10:10.940 when i had my first child i was 19 um so me and the father did not work out and then

00:10:16.840 um so we split up let's do the age let's do the age breakdown for the each of the kids so

00:10:21.140 second child how old were you i i had her two years after so 21 and then yeah and then with the

00:10:30.440 third guy what with the number three and four kids three and four well like i got pregnant like right

00:10:36.320 after i had my daughter i was like 22 so like four months after i got pregnant so there's only a year

00:10:41.940 between those two oh on gp upon the score panda donated 99 dollars yo thank you 17 and having

00:10:50.280 the first kid no shiz for the streets yo 17 i was 19 oh were you saying i got pregnant when i was 18

00:10:58.040 were you saying your kid was 17 i think they met they thought that you had your first kid at 17

00:11:04.120 no my my oldest is 17 i'm at 19 you had you had your first kid right so you were and so your last

00:11:11.060 kid you had when you were 23 24 24 okay so yeah okay got it um sorry are you aiming you have a new

00:11:20.440 you've been dating a guy for a year now are you aiming to have more kids or what no i'm all done

00:11:25.380 having all done i'm totally satisfied with what i'm done with the kids absolutely okay yeah so do the

00:11:31.420 three kids know their dads yes okay are they in their lives or yeah yeah so everything did one of

00:11:39.800 the i and i think i might have heard this correctly one of the dads thought one of the kids was his but

00:11:47.460 wasn't or did i mishear that no no we were trying to establish because she said that the second you

00:11:54.800 want me to explain it yeah go for it okay yeah so basically what happened was i had my first kid

00:12:00.280 okay you gotta think i was 18 i got pregnant i had when i was 19 we split up uh after that the that

00:12:06.780 father went to alaska at the time um and then i was having a cage like casual dating thing um and you

00:12:15.700 gotta think my baby at the time was a year old um and then i got pregnant again and didn't know i was

00:12:21.120 pregnant and was dating somebody new and i had to explain to them that i was pregnant and he's like

00:12:28.980 we've never had sex so how are you pregnant and i'm like obviously yeah but he he wanted to be there

00:12:38.480 so he stepped up and then you went on to have two children with him right okay oh got it so it was

00:12:44.520 the guy that you were seeing at the time that's not the father of your third and fourth child the one

00:12:50.340 that you were seeing when you found out you were pregnant with your second child

00:12:52.960 i'm sorry this is

00:12:56.100 so so you said so for your second child you didn't realize that you were pregnant for a minute and you

00:13:05.140 were dating somebody new right is that the is the person that you were dating at that time the father

00:13:09.880 of your third or fourth okay okay that was what i was trying to figure out was and he was the one

00:13:14.040 that was wanting to step up and like right but the guy who got me pregnant okay this is where

00:13:18.960 it's gonna get really complicated because it's gonna get icky um he also has i think five kids

00:13:25.040 now okay and all different moms got it okay so i'm just like yeah so i'm just like in the middle

00:13:31.060 of his situation do you get what i'm saying yeah totally you know yeah so where i come from that's

00:13:35.600 kind of normal got it i want to say it's normal that doesn't sound right but it happens yeah yeah i get

00:13:41.800 a small town you said not much to do people get bored next you said this is fairly common

00:13:53.240 where i come from where you come from in michigan correct up yeah so like how many people would you

00:14:00.360 say partake are in my situation are in this situation baby daddies oh god i a lot i couldn't

00:14:08.640 even tell you i don't think he means just multiple kids with multiple dads i think he means like that

00:14:14.280 many different kids with that many different dads who also have that many kids with different moms

00:14:18.580 oh a lot a lot so is it all just all the same people it's a group of like 20 is it a town of 10

00:14:27.880 it's a really small population like it's a really small town people have to be maybe this is where

00:14:33.900 we get the dating the like i mean it's a small town and she has hit her one of her kids his son

00:14:42.140 or father has five with five different women like the odds of dating someone you're at least related to

00:14:48.020 by like step is like it's getting higher and higher you know what i mean oh no i only have

00:14:53.600 one other move out of that town move out of that town no way to college my kids know who's on the

00:14:59.520 team so we're good you want to ask how were you how were you raised like did you were you raised

00:15:05.760 from a very similar situation no i was raised very traditionally okay so like white picket fence

00:15:11.940 one boy one girl parents together and that like still happily married like they they only ever

00:15:18.000 had children together right like no children with other right got it yeah

00:15:22.740 um

00:15:25.080 did the dads did you say that the dads have multiple

00:15:31.420 baby mamas too type situation or yeah oh hold on on gp up underscore i'm donated 99 dollars

00:15:40.520 let me interrupt for a second after hearing this novel let's hear the first thoughts from each

00:15:46.920 person in the room lol it happens it happens uh sure i guess we can go around i find it interesting

00:16:00.900 that you that this happened coming from i guess what you would describe as like a traditional nuclear

00:16:06.180 family like did you have like a really good did you have a good relationship with your parents

00:16:09.340 growing up i still do yes okay yeah i think that's i'd love to kind of like do you want to know like a

00:16:16.000 big factor of why yeah i'd love maybe i am the way i am um i'm mentally um in michigan i have a

00:16:21.680 mental illness um i'm bipolar one okay what's is anybody else here bipolar what a question

00:16:31.480 what a question what a loaded question wait but i thought you didn't you say in the previous show

00:16:37.980 kiko that you have bipolar no maybe you were just thinking that you didn't you

00:16:44.180 the internet is out to get kiko they think she's bipolar and on onlyfans 1.00

00:16:48.860 is it a different thing uh anxiety and depression is a little bit different than bipolar disorder yes

00:16:57.180 yeah oh for some reason i okay i don't know where i got that from i don't know but it's a square

00:17:03.180 rectangle wait so there's there's i don't want to blame it on that you know what i mean that seems

00:17:07.960 like a pop out but i feel like that's that is a lot of issues well yeah so there's two kinds of

00:17:13.840 bipolar right there's type one type two what what is the difference so i got like super excited when

00:17:19.320 i found out i was one right because i was like 17 when i got diagnosed and i was like oh bipolar one 0.93

00:17:23.700 that's gotta be good right number one no that's the worst you can have um oh shit yeah um so like 0.71

00:17:29.920 i can have manic episodes um it's it's awful it's like so type two is kind of more tame two is more 0.97

00:17:38.220 up down up down up down um one you're more like all the way down you know um and then don't want

00:17:45.440 to get all bad moving and then like and then i have other moments of where i'm like on cloud nine

00:17:50.660 they're like a lot a lot of artists are bipolar can i ask you a question um is it like hypomania or

00:17:57.160 mania both both so you experience like tame forms of mania and then like extreme forms right exactly

00:18:05.160 like i'm medicated now um and so i've been actually pretty healthy for the last um probably about a year

00:18:12.140 and a half i would say and really not that long to be honest with you um good for you so and just in

00:18:19.460 terms of your children like first of all how are you taking care of all of them or are you taking

00:18:25.620 care of some and fathers are taking care of others it's a group effort um i actually went to jail and

00:18:33.740 i lost um like i don't want to say i lost custody because i still have custody but like i had them

00:18:40.360 full and then it turned to like every other weekend and i don't know if you've ever tried to bond with

00:18:45.660 your child over every other weekend it doesn't really work my oldest son has always been with me

00:18:50.460 okay um just because me and his dad are like on good terms um but with the other um three i would

00:18:58.780 say we're getting there you know what i mean every year it gets a little bit better we're getting

00:19:02.860 better at co-parenting and stuff like that um how does uh you talked a little bit about the bipolar

00:19:09.820 stuff how does that manifest itself in your life is it um that's like are there certain things that

00:19:16.940 set it or you used to set it off at least oh like a trigger yeah um that's you know it's interesting

00:19:22.020 that you said that um because i really don't know what my trigger is yet which is crazy right because

00:19:25.840 i'm 36 and you'd think i would know by now but i do not know what my triggers are but so what are

00:19:30.800 the like symptoms for you is it impulse control type stuff is right i'm really impulsive

00:19:35.820 um like the biggest thing is you don't want somebody to go manic like if i go manic i mean

00:19:43.420 i think there's like you know i can fly i'm gonna jump off the roof yeah based

00:19:49.260 you know what i mean it's bad it sounds really tough you know it's just it's the reality of what

00:19:56.920 it can be i think people just think it's up down up down up down but it's it's what's the tallest

00:20:02.600 building you've ever jumped thankfully nobody's ever let me jump so i don't know maybe off of like

00:20:08.360 a small roof i think you know like if second story you survive that right oh yeah for sure

00:20:13.480 i'm sure i've fallen on trees that you know yeah

00:20:16.760 have you ever skydived no but i would love to my grandma has but so you when you're when you're in

00:20:25.900 a manic state you you want to literally jump off of buildings not not like you're just wild you're

00:20:31.660 just out there um okay you just and it's like you're the definition of mania is essentially like

00:20:40.320 eccentric behaviors that aren't defined by your norms so like gambling uh being sexually promiscuous

00:20:46.300 spending lots of money um things like that things that can like self-sabotage or damage your life in

00:20:52.100 some way can dogs be bipolar you know what dogs yeah because my dog used to like try to hump

00:20:58.840 everything and then have periods of depression wait wait would your dog have like periods of 0.81

00:21:05.420 depression or something oh he's just horny he's just horny then he's just like trying to hump 1.00

00:21:09.840 inanimate objects too like fucking fire hydrants and shit so yes your dog yo chat was my dog 0.99

00:21:16.180 bipolar um okay so um the original soup chat was hey uh what's what's everyone's first reaction 0.99

00:21:25.900 i i don't want to linger on it too long just so we can move on but uh billy ray any i was just

00:21:32.360 thinking about the child support must it's significant yeah well but what if they're like

00:21:38.700 i mean are they doing okay financially the well the great news is my son actually works at mcdonald's

00:21:46.160 makes as much money as i do he's 17 right he's a hard worker um and my daughter she actually

00:21:52.720 probably makes more money than her dad does um babysitting okay um and then my two youngest boys 0.98

00:21:59.580 they're still pretty young yet you know what i mean um so they're they're just starting out but

00:22:03.980 one's trying to work at domino's and i mean they're all good kids like i got really lucky i'm the only

00:22:09.080 mess okay good times good times wow uh did anyone else have a thought otherwise we'll move um that's a

00:22:18.580 that's a very complex situation to be in and what i think of when i first hear that is just like

00:22:24.440 all of the emotions and how the kids are impacted by that and how they feel about it and what you've

00:22:30.480 gone through etc etc it's a very complicated situation oh um hold on we got kiko roast enjoy a

00:22:38.060 donated 100 to kiko discount ariana grande what's it like being the least popular girl at the order

00:22:45.980 oh my god just joshing you i love you you should team up with brian to start an off you could make

00:22:52.720 two hundred dollars per month easily i kid i kid your boyfriend is a saint proverbs 21 19

00:23:01.020 kiko any any thoughts um your response

00:23:05.400 thank you for your comment um that was a lot to unpack

00:23:14.620 um only thing i can take away from that is i will never be starting an only fans um

00:23:21.700 no hate towards it but that's just not um never never no and i've never part took in an orgy so

00:23:30.680 i don't know how that feels how did it feel for you okay there you have it um do you mind me asking

00:23:39.240 you a question and you can of course not you don't have to answer it at all are there any specific

00:23:44.260 things that stick out in your head that maybe your bipolar has affected the way that you parent your

00:23:49.340 children um i mean obviously the biggest thing is um just not being able to be there for them right

00:23:56.640 um being in and out of jail is you know that's devastating for a child um i think that's the

00:24:05.160 biggest thing you know what i mean i'm really lucky that my kids love me you know what i mean like

00:24:09.420 genuinely because like i meet a lot of people that do not have the bond that i have with my children

00:24:15.400 yeah you know what i mean um are all your children are they located close to you i know you said that

00:24:20.660 you have them or most of them part-time so yeah my my daughter's the farthest one away and she's

00:24:25.500 only 40 minutes okay not bad at all so yeah all right let's keep it moving um relationship status

00:24:32.040 situations i really don't know how to follow that one up but i did get roasted last time for say that

00:24:37.240 for saying that i was dating talking to courting whatever two two different men

00:24:43.480 non-sexually okay um

00:24:48.900 so you're not single but dating two men yes okay yes but not intimate yeah sure we talked about that

00:24:59.780 last stream but you're not sleeping with either of them allegedly allegedly not until there's a

00:25:06.320 commitment but they can sleep with other women if they'd like are there any other men in the 0.61

00:25:11.220 picture no none none you're not are you on any dating apps or no i don't do that stuff you don't

00:25:16.740 do dating apps okay um longest relationship three and a half years and almost four and we lived

00:25:22.880 together it was a monogamous relationship closed on both ends okay ended about it almost two years ago

00:25:28.080 are you dating um someone here while you were in california like someone in phoenix

00:25:35.480 that came to california yeah okay no because you you you've been in california for like a week right

00:25:41.420 no fleeing type situation or anything i don't do that no okay madison what about you i am taken i'm in a

00:25:49.080 very committed relationship um then my current relationship is my longest it's almost 11 months

00:25:56.700 in like five days or something like that all right did you guys have a question for mia it looked like you

00:26:01.960 maybe had something on the two well just in so you say you're courting two men it's it's difficult

00:26:11.040 to do the labels because like if you say you're talking that can mean that you're sleeping with

00:26:15.600 them i say courting because that that implies that like you're just talking do those men know that

00:26:21.780 you're seeing yes multiple yes they've actually both preferred that like they date other people and

00:26:27.780 that i have the option to date other people as well until there's a finalized commitment okay

00:26:32.760 and how do you think how do you think that they actually view this like if they're they're allowed

00:26:38.820 to they're allowed to sleep with other people they're not getting anything from you sexually

00:26:44.220 but you guys are dating yeah well one of them one of them is completely abstinent we met at mass

00:26:53.300 so the other one is a little bit older about 10 to 15 years older than me and um he just

00:26:59.540 got divorced like a year ago so he's just taking it very very slow essentially okay now the guy who's

00:27:07.060 abstinent that is that that's a religious choice he doesn't want to have sex until he's married yes

00:27:11.100 yes okay um do you mind if i ask are you a virgin no i'm not you're not okay i'm not i grew up 0.59

00:27:16.600 christian though like protestant suburbs like white picket fence like she said the whole shebang

00:27:21.680 now the guy who's abstinent i i mean

00:27:26.300 it's very odd like to like to know that you're just head to head with another guy the divorcee

00:27:33.960 i can see him being like like kind of no offense i can see him kind of shrugging it off being like

00:27:40.340 all right i'm out of a marriage and now i'm dating all right you want to see another guy that's how i

00:27:43.260 see it but a guy who's looking at you is potentially the girl who's going to take his virginity

00:27:47.140 who's going to who he's going to dedicate his life to has he been like very open and honest

00:27:52.340 with you about like how he feels and what has he actually told you yeah um oh god i don't know if

00:27:57.200 i'm allowed to say that because our conversations are so private um but we've had in-depth conversations

00:28:02.400 about sexuality the church what that means what i want what he wants where we'd be going how we

00:28:09.380 should take it slow etc etc i get what you're saying about the divorcee and i think you're spot on

00:28:14.480 about that one um in terms of finding someone that's going to want like a long-term commitment

00:28:18.720 for me like a guy that's abstinent from church uh dating a girl who had a little bit of a wild

00:28:26.660 phase in the beginning of college and then simmered down a bit um i totally understand that but you

00:28:31.960 know you know a lot of catholics practice forgiveness and understanding are you gonna have

00:28:35.780 a problem if you have to wait till marriage if you decide to settle down with this man no no no

00:28:39.480 i've made that promise yeah and what is it about him so you said you already have your doubts a

00:28:45.920 little bit about the divorcee and what his intentions are so what's keeping you from just

00:28:50.280 deciding on i feel like i'm putting you on the spot but what's keeping you from just saying oh like

00:28:56.900 this is the guy who's going to commit to me long term i love him it's awesome and like like what's

00:29:01.080 keeping you from just saying um sorry are you talking about can you phrase the question are you

00:29:04.440 talking about the abstinent guy what's keeping you from just saying can i say the truth sure i would

00:29:09.300 100 if he asked me to be his girlfriend right now i would 100 say yes it's because he wants to

00:29:14.440 date other people so i just like so he also wants to date other people yes okay wait and this is the

00:29:20.160 guy that's waiting for marriage yes yeah and he's catholic yeah yeah so i mean he's a catholic in new

00:29:25.500 york city they like to get girls numbers they like to flirt but then they don't take it further than

00:29:29.000 that how long have you been dating him i guess that's fair about a few weeks oh so it's a super early

00:29:33.700 on yeah it's new got it i do have a question for you sure uh you had said that you made a promise

00:29:39.280 does that mean like you're waiting till marriage as well or so yeah um i mean if we're gonna get

00:29:44.540 into it uh i i grew up protestant and uh when i went off to college from like about 18 to 20 years

00:29:50.840 old is when i believe that postmodern feminism like on twitter like really indoctrinated me i wasn't

00:29:57.020 taught anything about sex it was like spread your legs act like a man and just give it out to anybody and

00:30:02.720 that's it and um i learned the hard way that that is no way to live at all so yes i did make a promise

00:30:11.020 to myself to the church to god that i would not have sex on the first date second date third date

00:30:17.380 fourth date fifth date whatever stop the cap brian are you kidding me i literally lay everything out 0.99

00:30:23.120 here come on come on that's come on no come on this notorious like you can't be like a like a 304 and

00:30:30.740 then like come back to your traditional beginnings is just bs come on i think it's you can thank you

00:30:36.760 so much thank you so much you can you can i just don't buy it i just don't buy it okay well why

00:30:42.100 isn't that why don't you buy it yeah i mean well yeah you're having a double standard i love chase

00:30:47.540 i'm just saying the women at the way he stopped after eight no no i'm saying it absolutely happens

00:30:51.900 like and you hear about all the time that that is quite i suppose literally what someone who's a

00:30:56.380 born-again virgin is they've had sex in the past and now they're changing their standard and they're

00:31:02.880 going to be waiting until marriage but you can understand that you know because you are dating a

00:31:07.840 guy it sounds like this the other guy who you're dating the divorcee there's no is he also religious

00:31:16.000 guy who's waiting until marriage no but he understands my like my like why would a guy who's

00:31:22.060 would you tell me can i give my opinion go ahead unsolicitedly sure i tell us about the trend i think

00:31:30.520 drop the older divorcee be committed to the good man who's catholic who's abstinent because he will 0.90

00:31:40.840 be a good man to you and for you and will help you in this the other one i mean if you're serious

00:31:48.080 about going back to the church and waiting for marriage and you truly have this good catholic

00:31:54.180 abstinent let's not why why not go into why not drop the other guy because because i'm not going

00:32:00.320 to sit here and pretend that i'm like some good catholic girl no no catholic no like you know what

00:32:04.960 i mean like my devotion is not but you can get a good man and the good man can help you become a

00:32:09.440 better one thousand percent but if that man that i'm attracted to at mass is saying hey i would like to

00:32:14.420 court and date other people before we make a commitment i'm gonna respect that and if it's

00:32:18.980 somebody that i like i'm gonna respect that and i'm also okay with um polygynous relationships and

00:32:25.460 which is closed on my end and open on the other so i'm not one for conventional okay so you're

00:32:30.300 relationships i'm not trying to promote traditionalism i'm just trying to say what

00:32:33.640 works best for me my neurochemistry my body and my brain okay so you're open to polygamy 0.52

00:32:38.620 no polygyny oh polygyny which means closed on my end open on the man's end okay but if you marry

00:32:45.640 him you won't will you get married in the catholic church because they won't allow that

00:32:49.240 it depends i mean that's a whole journey ahead of me there's still time to work i just i'm just

00:32:55.840 rooting for the abstinent catholic man trust me can i ask you a question actually sure because like

00:33:03.300 i'm curious because i have a lot to learn i think i mentioned that i have like i'm starting like a

00:33:08.020 male dating advice sort of forum called men ask me right now it's free because i don't feel like

00:33:12.260 i'm educated enough on the subject to give out paid advice but i i like i said i did grow up in the

00:33:18.800 church i resented it my parents were monogamous and i did not like them that we did not have a

00:33:23.580 good relationship we do not speak so when i went off to college with no education no sexual education

00:33:28.500 well i was left to my own devices and i was in the new york new york city so i just got sucked up by

00:33:34.480 the secular world and i don't think it's that crazy that someone that grew up in the church is

00:33:39.540 coming back to the church in a different way i'm just learning how to fit it into my life into like

00:33:43.960 um a way that's not like i'm perfectly catholic and traditional now but also honest about my past

00:33:51.640 you think a guy in the catholic church like would accept that uh yes yes i think there are plenty there

00:33:58.620 are plenty of guys in the church who are not like like view me as tarnished like they're they're not

00:34:05.360 like looking that like if you were virgin great but not every guy is looking for a virgin and i've

00:34:10.540 actually i've made this point on my channel before i think in the modern dating world when people say

00:34:17.200 that body count is different for men versus women they are absolutely correct it is definitely 1.00

00:34:21.260 different for men versus women but a lot of the numbers that i hear men throw out like i think a lot

00:34:26.660 of the numbers are harsh for the exact reason that you brought up which is women your how are you 26 0.79

00:34:32.580 years old women your age and pretty much up to your age were completely indoctrinated into thinking 0.82

00:34:39.580 into having a completely diluted view of what sex actually is the men included so i it's not that i

00:34:47.000 give women a pass i think that they still need to be accountable and i still think that what you're

00:34:51.460 doing right now this whole like kind of born again i'm going to save my body for the man who i want

00:34:55.340 to dedicate my life to i think that's great i think there are plenty of men who will see that and be

00:34:59.160 like good enough like more than good enough that's great i know i just don't like the concept of being

00:35:03.420 tarnished i don't like that but but but look just because you see that word used in comments does not

00:35:11.260 mean that men will look at you as it does not mean that a lot of men are going to look at you as just a

00:35:17.700 completely used up asset like there are there are certain types of women who completely take pride 1.00

00:35:26.820 in how sexualized they are who take pride in how many bodies they rack up there are women who think 1.00

00:35:32.980 oh my god like i'm really behind when they hear their friend's body counts that's that's what i used

00:35:38.140 to think that's horrible that's what i used to think and i think that a lot of the stuff that i talk

00:35:42.420 about and a lot of the stuff that we talk about it's really because we don't want to be raising kids

00:35:47.320 in a generation where a lot of the stuff that has become normalized is normalized i know i don't want

00:35:51.800 my daughter growing up thinking like only fans is a good is a good option neither do i career i don't

00:35:56.180 want my daughter growing up in a world where she thinks that she needs to use sex to make a man love 1.00

00:36:01.980 her i don't want my son growing up in a world where he's exclusively objectifying women and we can i know 0.55

00:36:08.780 you're a psych a psych girl we can get into the psychology and hormones and all that stuff at a 1.00

00:36:12.740 certain point later but no i i do think that she's spot on and the other thing that i would ask you is

00:36:19.440 why won't you ask for the relationship this is something that women women always want men to make 1.00

00:36:24.880 the first move but what about this move to be honest um i'm a little scared okay i'm a little scared

00:36:31.300 so intimidated question for well i know brian's opinion on this but question about your opinion on this

00:36:37.720 i think that a lot of the times men want the women to ask do you really i think the women should ask

00:36:46.260 well i'm not saying necessarily that they should ask but i think a lot of the times men want the

00:36:52.240 woman to ask how can once you get to a certain point everything is nuanced um myron fresh and fit

00:36:58.520 spells this out pretty well men are working from a deficit essentially so in order for because you guys

00:37:06.840 have so many options relative to the options that most men have it's a very small subset of men that

00:37:13.720 have the abundance that allows them to be truly truly like picky right women for the most part a lot 0.99

00:37:21.860 of men are objectifying them check your dms check your comments check your check your email her email

00:37:26.860 she gets marriage proposals every day okay like but like because you're working from a deficit in

00:37:33.520 terms of what you have to do in order to get that abundance you want the girl to almost be bought in

00:37:39.560 a little bit more because it's going to be to balance out that power because you're going to want to stay

00:37:44.060 more than her because you don't want to have to go back and have to put in all that work again to

00:37:49.300 attract someone you don't have to put in the same amount of work just to get through the attraction

00:37:53.140 that's why i call myself an attraction coach men need help attracting women women need help retaining

00:37:57.580 men absolutely women need relationship advice men need attraction um i do think there are there

00:38:04.060 are different options though like for instance me and her we we had like like the most basic on off

00:38:10.160 relationship in the sense that like we dated for a brief period of time we ended up breaking up for

00:38:14.880 logistical reasons and then like less than a year later through a weird sequence of events we ended up

00:38:19.680 getting back together um i was the one who had broken up with her and what just lay it out there

00:38:26.960 well well just throw her under the belt well well the the reason well well the reason why i say that

00:38:34.540 is because at that point it's going to be really difficult for me to expect her to ask me for a

00:38:42.240 relationship when i've left it before sure so like i basically i didn't ask her for the relationship

00:38:48.380 i basically told her i was like hey i know you're falling in love with me i'm falling in love with

00:38:51.200 you too this is like like we're doing this so i didn't ask i basically told her like like we're

00:38:56.420 in a relationship now um but i but you also just you know like when you know you know like like it's

00:39:02.080 that kind of thing like at a certain point you're just like i know that i know this is exclusive i know

00:39:06.060 we're not dating different people like i want you you want me like we're doing this so yes i think

00:39:11.560 that a lot of times men wanting women to ask first makes a ton of sense because of that deficit that i

00:39:16.880 talked about and the work that men need to put in to attract the women intimidating but but but

00:39:21.760 again that's because i think women also have this weird delusion where they like being chased but they 1.00

00:39:28.280 hate the guys who are chasing them they want the thing they're chasing which is the guys who aren't 0.60

00:39:32.020 chasing them so you like this idea of a guy coming to you and asking but you don't actually want that

00:39:38.340 guy also just to add to that thing um when it comes to maybe women should be the ones asking for 1.00

00:39:47.800 the relationship do you think it's also related to women gatekeep sex but men tend to gatekeep 0.99

00:39:53.760 commitment or relationships that's what i was going to say because you said like women have an issue 1.00

00:39:58.820 retaining men like keeping them so i feel like that's the reason why a lot of women don't want to 1.00

00:40:03.940 ask a man for a relationship because if i feel like i have to ask him that puts i feel like that

00:40:10.600 puts a doubt in my mind that like does he even want to be here and especially when men are more

00:40:17.100 known to have wandering eyes and not wanting to so it's like if he wants to go see and date other

00:40:23.480 women and she's like no i want this and even if he agrees like i feel like in the back of my mind i'd

00:40:28.140 always have doubts like he's abstinence we know he's not sexually engaging them but like is he still you

00:40:32.900 know talking around dating around because if he has exactly what i meant when i said i was scared

00:40:37.820 to ask so how long ago did you guys have this conversation about having like like an open we

00:40:43.280 went to like a young adults mass sure and um we met there and we basically just laid everything out on

00:40:49.200 the table okay there was an immediate attraction but this was when you first started to talk to each

00:40:53.640 other have you had a previous conversation after that okay yeah what about you what's your relationship

00:40:59.020 status oh i'm single how long have you been single i've been single for about a year and a half

00:41:10.280 1.5 year longest relationship two years two-ish years two years okay uh so you were on our show

00:41:21.300 two weeks ago three weeks ago two or three sundays ago okay and you posted publicly on your

00:41:28.680 instagram you had actually met a guy while you were here in san barbara is that correct i did yes

00:41:33.960 the next morning after i was on your show getting roasted that i hit my wall so the day after you

00:41:40.680 were on the show you met a dude who i did and do we i don't know if we do we we got some screenshots

00:41:47.200 actually of your story that you posted uh life is wild one day you're on a podcast being told your

00:41:53.380 standards are too high because of your age and the next day a man who has every quality you mentioned

00:41:58.340 approaches you eating your burger and reading a book and asks you to come hang out with him all day

00:42:03.140 for inquiry inquiring minds 36 years old 6 3 never married no kids business owner financial planner

00:42:10.400 who has all his money ducks in a row funny kind-hearted paid for everything including the

00:42:15.360 burger i was having solo when he approached me women know your worth extending my santa barbara 0.99

00:42:22.760 vacay through wednesday i love it yeah and i think there's is there one more tab over

00:42:29.400 dressed well not in flannel

00:42:32.420 and wearing a real watch if you watch so yeah on the episode you said something about if a guy doesn't

00:42:42.780 have a watch that i don't remember exactly what you said you want me to recap the watch

00:42:47.740 yeah well okay so a couple questions here you this guy approached you um

00:42:53.380 seem what happened you're still single i am still single didn't do you gonna meet up with him while

00:43:02.240 you're here or what i'm not what happened he doesn't have the values that i want uh he's a great guy i have

00:43:10.580 nothing negative to say about him but i am catholic and uh when we got a little deeper into that i was

00:43:17.440 like no i think i think i need to actually just fully focus on a man who's religious and has faith

00:43:24.420 and he didn't but he had all of those fantastic qualities and it was nice did y'all no come on

00:43:31.900 no you didn't you know you know didn't no i'm so sorry i'm so sorry

00:43:40.980 so okay how many we just met how many days did did you well you just met i mean you're asking if i

00:43:51.060 slept with him after going out with him once that's pretty people do that fairly right that's pretty

00:43:56.160 common okay fairly common okay but no we went up with him twice in our younger generation how many

00:44:01.940 times did you meet up with um only two nights okay yeah two nights so the first well one was like

00:44:06.360 afternoon right when he approached me when i was eating my lunch and i was reading a book and he

00:44:10.360 asked what i was reading and he was very nice gentleman had a great afternoon and then we went out

00:44:15.340 to dinner the second night again great conversation um but i just through conversation learned a couple

00:44:22.600 of things that for me would be um difficult in a long-term partnership so

00:44:27.220 besides what are the couple things the religious stuff right just the religious yeah so he doesn't

00:44:36.740 you know he's i think agnostic or not really religious at all um and then just um just a couple

00:44:44.280 things about him that would just be difficult for me male stripper what no no what's the issue here

00:44:52.160 well i don't i mean you kind of you showed sort of a photo of him and so i don't want to say

00:44:56.580 anything because that's his private life and i don't feel it's mine to share publicly on your

00:45:00.520 instagram so yeah but i didn't post publicly what you're asking me so i'd like to pass on that

00:45:06.140 question can i ask a question yes of course um do you think that you can be any age and get any man

00:45:10.820 that you want no you don't think that no i don't so what do you think i think that at different

00:45:17.840 ages uh men and women can obtain different partners so for example i'm 39 so is a 25 year

00:45:28.900 old man going to marry me most likely not do i want to marry a 25 year old man also no

00:45:34.640 hold on just a sec thank you 100 hey brian i experienced a not so great situation with

00:45:43.520 someone i worked with who lied about her intentions and caused emotional trauma a couple of years back 0.98

00:45:49.360 flash forward to today i'm hesitate to show interests to a person that is interested in me

00:45:55.340 i worked with who lied about her intentions and caused emotional trauma so are you like did you get

00:46:02.660 me too'd prometheus uh if you did sorry to hear that um it sounded like you had something you

00:46:09.520 wanted to it honestly i mean yeah it's a little vague but i take away from that that uh that abuse

00:46:17.260 goes both ways that it can traumatize both men and women sounds like he's super scared to even

00:46:23.360 approach girls if i'm reading that correctly definitely afraid even if he gets on a date to

00:46:28.180 share his true intentions or get into something because he's afraid he's going to get his heart broken

00:46:31.000 that's what i took away yeah he says he's hesitant to show interest in a person that is interested

00:46:37.400 in me because he thinks he's going to get tricked tricked into what trick what i i didn't it's not

00:46:45.420 clear yeah what what happened but uh you know you could just swear off women that's an option 0.98

00:46:53.440 i'm just you know just swear i'm off you know that that's an salute that's an easy solution

00:47:01.040 it could be that's terrible live a life listen ai ai girlfriends are coming i guess that's what

00:47:08.820 you're gonna do let's not promote that let's not promote that brian i've got many arguments

00:47:14.260 i feel like brian would absolutely have an ai girlfriend and like be happy about it

00:47:19.840 perfect girl no why would i have what why would like hold on when you say an ai girlfriend

00:47:24.540 like a digital to keep me company huh no no no so brian they're creating these um essentially vr

00:47:33.340 um these ways to have like virtual reality girlfriends like that movie what was that movie 0.83

00:47:38.940 yeah um like her exactly no with joaquin phoenix yeah spike is spike jones the director it's called 0.83

00:47:46.200 her yeah yeah yeah nah that that shit would be kind of lame no but no i'm saying like what if 0.81

00:47:50.700 they do like a physical body and make it warm as like a human body's temperature there there's i'm 0.99

00:47:55.840 down see what did i say what did i say i said why not let's go for it sister wives and you could 1.00

00:48:05.120 like perform other tasks too like fucking do my laundry fuck yeah let's go okay honestly so there 1.00

00:48:12.200 are articles um that have come out recently about these ai like girlfriends or sex robots that basically 1.00

00:48:17.880 um talk about how they can give the exact same sexual pleasure um an emotional pleasure that

00:48:24.740 real people can and so there's no need for real life relationships if what you're after in a

00:48:31.580 relationship they probably can't give birth or no they absolutely can't and that's the problem 0.79

00:48:35.840 well they might be able to give pleasure but that's it a lot more to life than pleasure

00:48:41.420 well absolutely but i mean i'm i'm arguing against

00:48:45.080 being used sorry for the lack transparency she showed romantic antics only to lie about her 1.00

00:48:58.280 intentions with me this same person is causing inappropriate actions within the workplace

00:49:04.140 each woman i work with that i'm hesitant trusting oh you worked with her you work with yeah i wouldn't

00:49:10.080 absolutely not oh well you know what though i kind of disagree with that a little bit because

00:49:14.040 because that's once you're out of college like it depends on where you work right if you work at

00:49:21.200 mcdonald's and you know you could date the person but if you're like a high up it's dangerous it's

00:49:25.260 tricky for a man no but like let's say you're on there's not like uh impropriety because you're her

00:49:30.040 uh superior you're superior you're both uh on the same level let's say maybe you're in different

00:49:35.780 departments i don't think like i is it that like workplace i think it can get messy no it can get

00:49:43.020 messy because the work is the exact reason why because like obviously he works at a job that he's

00:49:47.620 not willing to leave for this reason so if you're gonna date someone at a career that you're it's a

00:49:51.960 career and not just like a part-time job for you and you're not willing to step away from that it's

00:49:57.120 you know no relationship is 100 positive to go well so okay when you start that you're willing to not

00:50:02.860 just like you're inhibiting your whole workforce by doing that so idealistically i think it's okay

00:50:09.120 to date co-workers however in this current dating landscape in the current workplace landscape i

00:50:14.860 strongly recommend against it uh especially if you're a man uh there's always exceptions to the rule

00:50:21.260 and i totally get that but i don't think it's something that should be but i in like on the most

00:50:25.500 basic level i don't object to co-workers dating each other but because of the current landscape

00:50:31.840 when it comes to the male female dynamics in the workplace strongly recommend against it but i

00:50:38.640 don't have any quarrels with it generally i live in a really small town so working with somebody and

00:50:43.780 dating you know what i mean that's really you said you're currently working at a gas station like i did

00:50:48.780 bartend oh okay with my boyfriend for several years and yeah i liked it sure so i think that there's

00:50:55.720 a different dynamic around a place like a restaurant or a bar as a workplace compared to

00:51:01.620 like a corporate job or did he say where he worked no no he said he showed it is very vague but i totally

00:51:10.960 understand what you're saying there's did he get used he said he was used i think what i think what it

00:51:15.240 was is this woman and like made her intentions seem like she was really interested in having a

00:51:21.460 relationship with this man when they really weren't and she maybe skewed the situation a bit

00:51:27.520 i i would venture a guess that maybe he was someone above her in in some sort of corporate setting and

00:51:34.260 she basically like honey potted him into like maybe getting fired or like maybe being demoted

00:51:39.680 why don't you send another tts give us some more details slowly but surely 0.99

00:51:46.740 oh fat bastard donated 100 dollars nice get in my belly i want my baby back baby back baby back baby 1.00

00:51:56.620 back baby back ribs i want my baby back baby back baby back baby back ribs chuli's baby back ribs 1.00

00:52:04.860 all right for 100 thank you fat bastard yeah right yeah you could get those ribs for like 15 0.99

00:52:10.640 at chile's probably i think i'm gonna do a dr evil impersonation the rest of the show um 0.99

00:52:17.120 um all right thank you fat bastard appreciate it okay uh so just going back to you um 0.91

00:52:25.420 you still are on the relationship status yeah i know we're still we're still on that so 0.97

00:52:30.200 uh okay you met the guy it didn't work out

00:52:35.420 you didn't smash no smash zero smash what was the thing with the watches and the flannel i think

00:52:47.940 we were going to get into that you're not a fan so i was okay are we gonna start with flannel or

00:52:52.960 watches yeah just recap okay so i said last time i was on here about watches that um when a man

00:53:00.180 shows up to a date wearing a real watch a non-i watch um i appreciate that and i think an i watch

00:53:08.740 what yeah i think an i watch can come off as a little bit rude like a phone on the table like

00:53:13.260 it's like because it's there to connect you and you keep all this stuff i also think from a style

00:53:19.080 perspective like a time piece is very personal for a man it's something that's passed down it's

00:53:24.920 something that completes an outfit and i'm not saying people like oh are you saying it's a red flag

00:53:29.860 if he's wearing an i watch no i'm not of course i'm not saying that it's perfectly fine to wear an

00:53:33.540 i watch what i'm saying is if he shows up wearing a proper time piece it's very attractive like a

00:53:38.580 woman showing up in heels sure she can show up in flats and that's cute and maybe you don't like heels 1.00

00:53:43.400 and that's fine you don't need to wear them but they boom they give you that extra little something

00:53:47.560 and people had a problem with me having this opinion about a man's watch that's it what about if

00:53:52.600 there's no watch is that a kind of a no i mean it's negative no i wouldn't say it's a negative i

00:54:00.520 would just say my first preference is that he's wearing a classic watch classic watch classic watch

00:54:06.600 it doesn't need to be expensive it doesn't need to be it's a good watch it's it's great it doesn't

00:54:12.380 need to be expensive but is that i'm not saying that it needs to be an expensive watch is that like

00:54:16.780 a 10 out of 10 watch you would appreciate that yeah i would appreciate that it doesn't need to

00:54:21.060 cost a lot of money it just needs to suit you and it's just like a little reflection it's like a

00:54:25.320 it's you know men don't have a lot of accessories like women okay he's got like shoes belt watch to

00:54:31.560 me it's like cologne yeah yeah that's what i was about to say i i don't know what got people so

00:54:36.460 upset about me talking about the watch targeted yeah it's a little specific but it's but see i but

00:54:42.940 it's an it's a little outward token that's like a reflection of something else about a man right

00:54:49.440 it's it's about the watch yes but it's just a reflection of part of his personality it tells a watch

00:54:55.640 tells a little something about a man you can deny that but it does a little bit what what does a no

00:55:02.740 no watch tell about a man he's probably unorganized and runs late and zero one i'd have to

00:55:09.840 disagree no i i very much disagree with that that's a ridiculous generalization about men

00:55:15.560 wearing watches that's ridiculous but no no watch is just neutral i watch is whatever i just

00:55:21.900 appreciate a real watch what's the flannel issue i'm actually pro i watch i love a man that cares 0.56

00:55:27.940 about his steps oh yeah okay thank you kiko i more have a problem with your current pants situation 0.89

00:55:35.240 than the plan well it's warm today it's what it's freaking 80 degrees or some shit 0.89

00:55:38.880 so why are you wearing flannel can you show your diabetic socks listen i am wearing i am role 0.86

00:55:46.160 playing today as a i'm not gonna even say it no don't say that i'm not gonna say it but i got

00:55:51.920 some tall socks on i'm not trying to like that are they compression socks brian yeah they're

00:55:56.880 compression socks it's like world's strongest do you have poor circulation it's just like you know

00:56:02.240 he's wearing some we sit for a long time so you know i need tall compression socks and these like

00:56:07.560 oversized boxers get them priya they look they look like boxers yes they look like humongous

00:56:14.840 boxers i'm wearing boxers under i believe you just gotta own it yeah oh yeah well priya let me

00:56:20.020 speak on your attire right now you were you look like you're about to go on safari first off

00:56:25.540 stand up please stand up show them this and also look at look do you see how bunched up that is 0.96

00:56:31.520 when you're sitting it looks like you have a boner this is linen you have a fabric boner 0.95

00:56:37.260 hold on hold on all right oh i work at the hospital yeah i guess it's best to keep my pen 0.99

00:56:42.760 from mixing with the company ink brian i'm pro flannel allison chains let's fucking go uh it's a 0.96

00:56:49.180 kick-ass band what allison chains what was their good well it's like rooster and then allison

00:56:56.760 chains it's like grunge early 90s mid 90s grunge um yeah thank you prometheus much appreciated yeah

00:57:02.700 pearl jam is one of my favorite bands but okay priya you literally okay

00:57:07.640 like you have too much can you can you can you stand up and show them what you're wearing 0.84

00:57:13.720 i'm not gonna stand up yeah it's about to be august in california it's fucking hot yeah you can't see 0.97

00:57:22.480 below the taste i'm wearing some shorts i'm wearing shorts so is she these are shorts 0.77

00:57:29.560 haters haters are gonna hate haters are gonna hate but um that's the wrong camera

00:57:36.080 brian i have stated my stance on your flannel so many times just don't wear it on a date

00:57:44.380 you can wear it at home i'm doubling down on you can't i'm doubling down i'm gonna wear

00:57:49.560 this on a date son i'm gonna wear my shorts i'm gonna wear my shorts this is what he wears this

00:57:55.200 and not those pants but he wears sweatpants i'd wear my sweatpants i'd wear my sweatpants

00:57:59.080 this is actually an acceptable outfit where i come from i was about to say it'd be all flannel

00:58:03.940 that's flannel yeah it really is yeah the flannel is fine i think that would be considered casually

00:58:10.160 dressy you gotta understand right california is a little it's a little more relaxed than all you

00:58:17.360 uppity uppity people you got new yorker i'm sorry how long have you lived in california

00:58:23.820 long time since i was five i was born and raised oh so and i'm telling you flannel on the date 1.00

00:58:33.520 flannel on a dinner date with sweatpants brian it's just the pants bro i don't give a fuck 0.98

00:58:38.900 are they gray sweatpants i don't give a fuck that's totally that's about it are they gray sweatpants 0.98

00:58:42.880 no they're black sweatpants are in first off i mean if they're gray hold on just a sec 0.99

00:58:47.740 thank you man your watch comment goes over the head of most young daters you are absolutely right

00:58:56.700 a nice watch reflects understanding of precision craftsmanship and reflects sophistication

00:59:02.560 stick to your guns tell you what i'll show up to a date well dressed when the majority of women 1.00

00:59:08.360 don't show up to the date with a double digit body count how about that you guys want to talk about

00:59:13.440 being a gentleman y'all stop being so promiscuous i'll show up to the date dressed to the nines 1.00

00:59:19.100 but here's the thing y'all you've got like a fucking long line of previous dicks it's miles and miles of 1.00

00:59:26.480 dicks i'm not gonna show up wearing the fucking suit on the first date i'm wearing my fucking sweatpants 1.00

00:59:33.300 i'm wearing my flannel i'm wearing my diabetic socks i don't give a fuck brian why are you going on 1.00

00:59:40.180 dates with those women then behave like the person that you want to attract what are you doing that's 0.99

00:59:44.880 what he's trying to attract somebody that's going to take care of his babies he's saying it's like

00:59:47.700 every girl that he's meeting is what he's saying hello you want a nurse brian only dresses up for

00:59:54.180 funerals we made that clear right looking for a nurse we made that clear brian dresses up for funerals

00:59:58.840 you only have a funeral suit oh no nurses what's up um do you are you on dating apps no not at all

01:00:05.200 no so how do you meet your women so i well okay let's go hold on okay first off i was banned

01:00:13.380 from tinder and hinge because i was using it to try to get guests on the show

01:00:18.640 then i got banned on hinge months ago because i was using it to get guests on the show

01:00:26.120 how did they find that out like because i the first message i would send i'd match with everybody

01:00:31.280 i'd be like hey do you want to be on my podcast and i wasn't even genuinely trying to date anybody

01:00:35.480 but listen some people think hey that's wrong a lot of women on on are on dating apps 1.00

01:00:41.420 here's my instagram here's my cash app here's my snapchat do you have a yacht

01:00:47.260 i'm the one dude who's doing the reverse finesse on the dating app so

01:00:52.480 the one the one and only

01:00:56.380 what i heard that no

01:01:00.240 well okay there's obviously other dudes finessing on there but

01:01:06.560 from the tinder swindler

01:01:07.840 yeah but see when oh yeah here's the difference though tinder swindler

01:01:13.700 he was stealing they make documentaries they make documentaries about it one dude doing this 0.99

01:01:18.480 women are doing that shit on the daily it's not one though we we brought it up on this 1.00

01:01:23.920 there's this facebook group that is common in a lot of big areas 1.00

01:01:27.220 there is multiple the same guy yeah there's a magnitude of men who and i mean hey

01:01:32.600 we should bring awareness to this actually

01:01:34.480 no we should bring more awareness to this

01:01:36.720 this like they do this on another level which is like most of the time though i'm like how can you be so

01:01:41.380 gullible like these women but like yeah there's women who will go on dates they have no intention 1.00

01:01:46.460 they get a free meal okay there are men who are scamming thousands thousands of dollars from women on

01:01:53.740 these apps not it's not as common as the reverse i mean

01:01:56.740 sure maybe not but like there's men who will be like oh like i want our date to be this concert

01:02:03.980 i get a hookup on tickets through my company yeah just send me three hundred dollars for this or 0.94

01:02:09.480 like a hotel room you have to be stupid right you have i yeah i'm not sure that that's as 0.98

01:02:13.820 but it does happen to men too who get scammed from women that way and then we say oh you have 0.99

01:02:18.840 to be smarter than that it's like they're like oh don't blame the victim but like it happens to

01:02:24.520 women all the time too so it's like it goes about frequency right it's like about which one is more 1.00

01:02:29.120 common would you expect a man to try to finesse a woman out of money which is more is a bigger deal 0.78

01:02:35.160 in a sense is it a bigger how could you assess that between genders when they're totally different

01:02:39.400 well i'm saying my reason why i'm saying it is because the one that gets brought up with most

01:02:43.180 women is the free meals a free meal okay maybe was the most expensive was you took her to a hundred 1.00

01:02:48.020 dollar steak dinner and she scammed you out of it where the other side is men scamming hundreds of 1.00

01:02:53.940 thousands of dollars i don't think that's i don't think that's it but the whole the what you just

01:02:59.200 described would require the most insane con to get her emotionally connected to you to get her to do 0.51

01:03:05.420 whereas what you said before which is the 100 steak dinner there are women who will make guys do 1.00

01:03:11.340 that 10 to 20 times never sleep with them while simultaneously sleeping with other men very true 0.99

01:03:18.020 a lot of them a lot of them so so what i'm saying is like first of all like what did we say earlier

01:03:25.220 the amount of effort that men have to put in to get women to fall in love with them to the degree that

01:03:29.020 they will just send them money for a concert like i know you guys said that they have to be super 0.99

01:03:33.180 gullible and maybe a little bit stupid but that man is like a master manipulator and there aren't 0.95

01:03:39.660 a ton of those i will agree yeah it's not a ton but i mean it's more common than you think because i 0.99

01:03:44.940 will i will be bored and scroll through i'm on multiple different ones in multiple cities and stuff

01:03:48.940 and it's it's happening a lot more than we realize because there are people we know that there's men out

01:03:57.320 there who have trouble getting dates finding um women but there's also a lot of women who struggle 0.97

01:04:02.380 immensely because of you know we say a lot of women all they are their looks or whatever so 1.00

01:04:08.460 a lot of these women are it's a lot of women who are in their 30s who are getting a little bit older 1.00

01:04:13.820 and feel like they're running out of time so they're willing to take bigger gambles when it comes to some

01:04:19.320 of these things so i mean okay i can say the same thing sob story to the men who get you know well

01:04:25.920 tricked out of a hundred dollar dinner hold on just a second sticky side down donated ninety nine

01:04:30.560 dollars my analog watch is a very important accessory it's color matched to one of my four cars

01:04:37.360 priya just said behave like the person you want to attract i'm off to go buy some safari clothes

01:04:43.360 when we grab a drink no flannel promise uh i just uh

01:04:51.760 yeah you just wrist priya priya do you accept the safari offer

01:04:58.720 um wow saved donated one hundred dollars kiko i'm gonna have to head down there and i will rain down an 0.99

01:05:08.240 ungodly fucking firestorm upon you you're gonna have to call the fucking united nations and get 0.99

01:05:13.840 a fucking binding resolution to keep me from fucking destroying you i am talking scorched 1.00

01:05:19.760 turf that that's from what's that movie um tropic thunder i'm not familiar so it's a copy paste 0.99

01:05:29.520 that he's not actually gonna don't worry i know i know he's not actually hold on we have a chat here

01:05:33.920 john smith hey thank you man can you ask the girls if a guy owning a gun is a positive

01:05:38.160 deal breaker or neutral ps shout out to kiko for being a good sport and coming back on the show

01:05:44.160 definitely makes the show better to have people with different opinions word yeah um okay well let

01:05:49.680 me come back to that so uh owning a gun is it positive deal breaker or neutral let me let me come back

01:05:58.400 because let's just go around and get everybody to uh reveal the relationship status we haven't even

01:06:04.400 finished it yet uh at least we know there's okay go ahead okay i am single and um my longest

01:06:14.640 relationship was two years how long have you been single since like april 1st so very beginning of

01:06:22.400 april what a joke okay um what about you priya um i'm happily married no i'm totally kidding um i'm

01:06:30.080 single oh sorry well i didn't mean to press that okay we're a little late on that one well i didn't

01:06:36.560 even mean to press that but i was gonna press that okay just all right single uh yeah single have

01:06:44.400 been so for almost a year longest relationship was five months five months and a lot of people have

01:06:50.560 been in the tts i'm assuming in the dms too i've been they seem to like you quite a bit so you've gotten

01:06:58.320 some proposals maybe not like marriage proposals but like due to wow the sky is beautiful by the way

01:07:06.960 look at the sky this guy is pretty what dms any he's asking for the tea all right the tizzle

01:07:18.240 um i'm sure there have been i haven't checked nor have i accepted anything that is a fundamental

01:07:28.240 difference between men and women the idea that you can just like sit around and wait to check your dms

01:07:34.080 because there are so many coming through so so well personally i'm i'm not truly all that interested

01:07:41.280 in meeting somebody through the internet i gotcha um i have no trouble meeting people in person if i

01:07:47.520 really want to so that's not something that i am too concerned about but i don't i don't particularly

01:07:53.200 love the idea of meeting somebody through the internet and meeting up with them for the first

01:07:56.320 time in person the dms thing is funny because even when a guy we want a girl slides into a guy's dms

01:08:02.640 she actually isn't she's really just like commenting hoping he notices her and he slides into her dms

01:08:07.120 because she was noticed what a weird freaking life i think about the dm thing though

01:08:11.520 guy still has to make the move i think about the dm thing though the average woman i mean like me i 1.00

01:08:19.360 only have like so many followers on instagram and i don't have much i don't get dms like i don't you

01:08:25.200 know define you don't get dms like how frequently do you get a dm from a guy i've gotten this year

01:08:32.080 probably one one okay and do you have a private instagram no you have a public instagram yeah i guess

01:08:39.120 they're all already hitched in alabama did you did you check your spam yeah yeah you're talking about

01:08:46.320 like the little requests i request things because you think you're not and then you hit that and

01:08:51.120 you're like oh no the only ones that like like the one that i got was like these old creepy men asking

01:08:57.040 to be sugar daddies yeah gotcha yeah that still counts nothing legit counts what what what is your

01:09:02.240 issue but those men are also scammers they're not always sugar daddies like all the time a lot of the

01:09:06.800 time they're trying to scam you it's about a hundred percent yeah yeah exactly going to

01:09:13.680 actually give you anything that happens do you mind if i ask what your instagram is like

01:09:18.880 um it's just the typical like i don't post like super glamorous photos it's just me living life

01:09:26.880 kind of posting that kind of stuff so it's like anything anything that you would consider to be

01:09:31.200 thirst trappy no anything that anybody would consider to be thirst trappy no okay i don't think

01:09:36.160 so so so so like so like no no bikinis no i have like a one piece on there wow it's the first time

01:09:43.120 i've heard that answer in a long time i actually just bought my first bikini in like three years

01:09:48.080 like well so you're interesting you're religious right yes i am yes you're catholic is it or christian

01:09:55.280 well i think catholic and christians are the same thing but like they're they're part of the same 0.98

01:09:59.040 umbrella but i'm protestant okay got it so you are hold on wait what the fuck i screwed up my notes 0.97

01:10:07.840 here uh are you waiting until marriage i am yes okay but i'm not a virgin now okay so you're like what 0.99

01:10:15.920 born again virgin yes and yeah did you have like a crazy uh no phase when you were younger or just you

01:10:23.520 got a boyfriend or i just my my boyfriend yeah your current wait well my boy or your previous past

01:10:30.320 yeah that was the limit of that so okay you you hooked up with him you guys broke up now now you're

01:10:37.840 waiting for marriage correct beaten cheeks donated 99 yo thank you cheeks appreciate it if any of you

01:10:42.720 simpi incels in here call any females on dating advice go touch grass and lose weight no real man wants 0.99

01:10:50.560 to take advice by a woman being eiffel towered and claims to be born again kind of nonsense is that

01:10:57.120 beaters fall for this notion do you guys like looking at half of kiko's face by the way it's

01:11:05.280 awesome yeah it's fine yeah there you go but then i have to like every time it goes it changes the angle

01:11:12.240 half of my head there we go that's fine it's fine you just okay all right um maybe i should try a

01:11:18.480 different seat i just learned what the eiffel tower meant i don't know what that means like i didn't

01:11:24.640 yeah see i didn't either it was super embarrassing because i was like no i gotta work at baymark tomorrow

01:11:29.680 i can't go to the eiffel tower it's not that embarrassing no uh prio it is when you're talking

01:11:34.400 about going to a gas station because you can't go to paris prio what about you and they're talking about

01:11:39.040 i answered the question oh okay uh sorry uh belly one man i am in a relationship

01:11:48.880 and my longest relationship was about four years all right and uh i am also in a relationship uh my

01:11:58.320 longest relationship was about four and a half years and if you guys do you guys are they're dating in case

01:12:05.920 anybody didn't catch that okay how long have you guys been dating what do you want to tell the full

01:12:11.600 story we've known each other for we've known each other for a little over two years we've been dating

01:12:18.480 for probably about 16 17 months at this point yeah may i ask you a couple questions sure are you are

01:12:26.080 either of you religious uh i would say that i have re-found my relationship okay yes and are you guys 0.97

01:12:34.080 chased within your relationship or do you have sex oh we have sex okay yes okay so you're you're 0.99

01:12:42.000 christian protestant uh we both have been rediscovering okay so it was like you grew up 0.97

01:12:47.840 christian went away okay and now you're rediscovering your faith went away okay i have never been consistent

01:12:55.200 with church and you guys are trying to be more consistent with church i have a follow-up question

01:12:59.600 do you think can you scoot your microphone back please and just do you guys keep okay keep going

01:13:04.560 back okay you're boxing out madison oh um do you guys think that at some point in your relationship

01:13:12.160 you may choose to stop having sex for religious reasons no no okay yeah and actually so this is

01:13:19.440 interesting so i i said i'm kind of like refinding my relationship with god i'm not a consistent church goer

01:13:26.240 i certainly have grown to believe in him again i started to read the bible a lot more um and i

01:13:32.480 certainly like to live as though god exists i am certainly not a like by the book you know doctrine

01:13:38.480 oriented christian um but the reason i bring that up is to kind of go back to what you were saying

01:13:45.040 earlier because you you said that you had this relatively strict guideline for the man that you're

01:13:52.720 going to settle down with and that he has to be a religious man right he doesn't need to be um

01:14:00.800 well we can define that more but i'm not strict about it i wouldn't mind if he's not religious but

01:14:05.680 holds a lot of the like general tenets and values that you would traditionally find in a religious

01:14:10.560 man exactly what i was about to say yeah so i wouldn't mind if he isn't sure even what he thinks

01:14:15.360 about god but a man who's not religious can also be a godly man um in on a natural level and that to me is

01:14:22.480 very attractive in terms of the morals the principles yeah morals values you know

01:14:28.480 and there are christian men who are not nearly as great as some of those non-christian men right um

01:14:35.280 so it's it's not yeah i'll pause there but i want you guys to talk but i hope you guys get married i

01:14:40.240 like you guys i think there's definitely a big difference between a man of god and people who do

01:14:46.560 claim that they're christians um because you can be a christian and not follow the book right like

01:14:54.160 me personally i feel like a man of god is somebody who does follow the book and i feel like there's

01:14:59.600 two in the dating sphere there's i've been with somebody who claims that they're a christian right

01:15:05.120 and claims that they have those values but in reality it was just to i wouldn't say bait but

01:15:12.320 like oh those guys exist yes they're called they're called nice guys yes we have a big issue with those

01:15:18.480 i do not like nice guys they're dangerous chat before you explode there's a difference between a

01:15:24.800 nice guy and a good guy at least by the way that i define it i'm not saying that if you're a good hearted

01:15:32.160 treat women kindly guy chivalrous guy that you're not doing the right it's the facade you're talking

01:15:38.000 about but there is a and we can get into this more if if we really want to but i think that

01:15:45.600 there is a certain there's a certain type of um there's a certain type of you know man who has

01:15:52.160 the ability to be hyper hyper chivalrous hyper kind very sweet very loving very caring very compassionate 0.55

01:15:58.960 very empathetic who simultaneously is not a bitch okay like he has the ability to put his foot down 1.00

01:16:05.040 he has the ability to set boundaries he has the ability to stand by those boundaries and be willing

01:16:10.000 to walk away if those boundaries are not respected that is what a good man does okay it doesn't just

01:16:15.520 because you're not a nice guy does not mean that you're a toxic individual okay there's a huge difference

01:16:19.840 between toxicity and in fact a lot of the nice guys are pretty freaking toxic because they will

01:16:25.360 literally lie to you and they're manipulative they are they are they are agreeable dishonestly

01:16:31.760 okay that's what like that's what jordan peterson would say he'd say that those guys are hyper

01:16:35.680 agreeable they don't know how to disagree or confront moralistically right loose

01:16:42.720 energy donated 99 dollars thank you annoying dollar store ariana grande would you smash the hottest 1.00

01:16:49.840 trans man in the world or the oldest man in the world hashtag ragey quit

01:16:59.440 the oldest man in the world is probably upwards of 120 at this point we've been surviving pretty

01:17:06.400 long these days especially in like eight like in asian countries so i'm i mean i'm happily in a

01:17:12.880 relationship plan to marry this man but um if i had to choose i guess i would go with the hottest

01:17:19.040 trans man in the world yeah i don't even know if the old guy could get it up anymore that's i just 0.97

01:17:23.040 feel like that's i feel like it's like it's it's not illegal but there's it should be illegal you

01:17:29.040 know what i mean like at the far end of the spectrum like that just does it like i think that might take

01:17:35.360 old man out i'd be asking questions it might be the last thing that guy's got some wealth that you're

01:17:39.600 trying to go after it might be the last thing he does so you might want to go that way i'm not

01:17:44.160 trying to kill something you know which one are you going for i said the hottest the hottest trans 0.92

01:17:52.400 man why would i i mean like yeah that's her answer versus the oldest man in the world like those people 0.84

01:18:00.000 like the oldest people living literally look like half alive mummies yeah like they basically look mummified 0.65

01:18:06.000 like that's well you're you're bi right i've been i don't know i've been but you've been you've been

01:18:12.560 with women before isn't i don't know queer no it's not because i was 0.88

01:18:19.040 but you've hooked up with women i have yeah but i haven't dated a woman since i was in high school

01:18:24.400 okay and i don't think i would i even if i was single happily single i don't think i would ever pursue

01:18:32.480 that so i don't know okay uh lp thank you very much for your tts man much appreciated um

01:18:43.120 i don't know if we have much else to say on that specific topic would you smash the hagas 1.00

01:18:48.480 yeah that was directed that was just for kiko so uh thank you man appreciate it we did have one that

01:18:54.080 came in it was about the gun stuff and then there's we were talking a little bit about the

01:18:57.840 uh did you have more on the nice guy versus good guy no i think i wrapped that up we can get back

01:19:02.400 to it later cool cool cool oh i was gonna ask for you two and then we will get to the gun thing real

01:19:06.640 quick uh how did you guys meet hinge yep i don't know that okay and we would have never met if it

01:19:13.840 wasn't for him so i'm very pro dating apps i know a lot of people aren't um but we didn't live in the

01:19:20.560 same area i do not go out at clubs i don't party sinho underscore donated 100 billy ray love you

01:19:29.440 thank you not too long ago i was dating a lefty feminist made me feel weak watching your clips 1.00

01:19:36.000 made me realize it was normal to set boundaries and expectations of her now i'm happily single

01:19:42.080 and focused on my mission air force ranger to be love to hear that and thank you for your service

01:19:49.120 yo cena thank you very much for your tts i much appreciated yeah billy has some awesome content

01:19:53.840 so uh be sure to check it out um you were going to talk about the apps oh the apps yeah we would

01:19:59.280 have never met if it wasn't for hinge um i don't go out i don't party i don't go out to clubs

01:20:05.040 so we would have never connected so i think they can be they could be used in the right way they need

01:20:11.920 to be used properly with intention um i um i can see why people don't want to be on them

01:20:17.840 i have i actually i was on sorry i'm gonna forget my thought if i don't say it i was on dating apps

01:20:23.120 for years and went on i think three total dates and all of those dates resulted in

01:20:32.720 my one relationship that i was in for four years another relationship that didn't last too long

01:20:37.840 only a few months and now damn yeah and for me the way that i used apps and i think that this is how

01:20:44.800 i would incur it i told you i'm in sales as sort of my full-time career alongside as i'm growing the

01:20:50.240 dating business um the uh i really would use dating apps sort of as like call it like sales pipeline like

01:20:58.240 basically you you get in you get a couple of matches party foul over here yeah you you

01:21:05.440 we're good huh yeah okay you whichever girls you know actually like take an interest and respond to

01:21:12.240 you the best conversations result in numbers so like i would over the course of maybe like a week

01:21:17.840 or two maybe get like two or three numbers then like one of those conversations is just going to kind

01:21:22.240 of die it's not going to work i might go on two dates like and i i rarely took girl i i did take

01:21:28.240 her out to dinner but i rarely would take girls out to dinner i'd usually just do coffee like hey 0.98

01:21:31.280 let's go over walks get a coffee low barrier to entry i'll pay that kind of thing um and i would like

01:21:36.640 one of those people more than the other i would say sorry to the other and try to date the other one

01:21:41.040 so like it's not one of these things where i kept going back to the well because i was like what's

01:21:44.560 next what's next like you can you can shut that off if you want to um and the other thing that i

01:21:51.440 think is kind of cool about the apps like she said we wouldn't have really met if we were on

01:21:56.000 the apps the other thing that's interesting about us when i say we have zero shared interests i mean

01:22:00.960 like zero shared interests um but our values completely align and that is i mean it took me

01:22:08.160 dating her to realize how much more important that is than like you both wanting to go like do the same

01:22:13.120 thing during the day to add to that to add to that like i said i grew up protestant and then i had

01:22:18.320 my little college phase um and then i like i returned back to the catholic church actually i

01:22:23.760 also went to catholic private school growing up um so yeah i i can really relate to like wanting to

01:22:30.640 like find i don't know i struggle with dating apps a lot in general because i find like especially where

01:22:37.360 i live in new york especially brooklyn a lot of the guys have that facade you're talking about this like

01:22:43.040 super feminist cool chill facade gonna be super sweet too whatever and then like when it comes 1.00

01:22:48.880 down to like building a foundation and like actually establishing values that was never something that

01:22:54.240 i entertained until i started going back to the church and realizing how important it was it turns

01:22:58.240 out they just want sex and once they don't get it for a certain period of time they start showing

01:23:01.600 their true colors yep absolutely yep but i mean don't you think there's some component of this whole nice

01:23:06.000 guy thing i mean certainly there are guys that uh sort of play nice but then they got they get

01:23:13.760 fucking salty when the girl curves them whatever i get that but there is certainly something to be said 0.94

01:23:19.120 about you know there are women out there who overlook some men who actually are good guys to chase after 1.00

01:23:29.120 the bad boys the jerks the assholes you know the you often hear women complain about oh i didn't feel 0.99

01:23:34.400 the vibe with him i didn't feel even though every other single metric is this guy he's he's perfectly 1.00

01:23:41.440 pleasant he's got his life together etc etc and then they go chase after some fucking scumbag or 0.99

01:23:48.160 they're chasing after you know whoever it may be or a guy who is able to elicit the vibe and whether that 1.00

01:23:55.040 sometimes comes down to he's kind of being kind of a dick you have to be willing to sorry you have to 0.99

01:24:03.200 be willing to sort not to quote jp again you have to risk being offensive in order to stimulate 0.99

01:24:08.560 somebody like that like you have to figure out like when girls talk about the vibe it really just 0.86

01:24:15.360 means that you're communicating in a very indirect way with them and then you're figuring out when to

01:24:21.360 speak to them directly like a man that's all butterflies no the vibe is like when you have a flow

01:24:26.640 like girls are very flowy with the way that they talk it's like it's it's about a bunch of different

01:24:30.960 things yeah like guys are more just like hey you want to get a coffee yeah sure what time okay where

01:24:36.240 okay cool see you there like that's how guys communicate and there's a right and wrong time

01:24:40.880 for you to speak to a woman that way like girls love it when they're just like hey like i got us

01:24:45.040 a reservation here meet me here at seven o'clock sound good cool but if he talked to you like that

01:24:50.240 all the time you'd be like who the hell is this robot right so this whole vibey thing guys who are too

01:24:57.920 nice they don't want to say something that they think could potentially be taken the wrong way or

01:25:04.080 could put the girl off and guys who are experienced with with game and with having these conversations

01:25:10.240 even if they do sense that maybe they put her off they still have the ability to kind of like tap on

01:25:13.760 the shoulder be like hey like i was just kidding like and then you can kind of like revitalize it or

01:25:18.400 you go to the bathroom you come back and you're just like hey i could tell that you like you needed

01:25:21.520 a second after that comment i just wanted to give you that second like and a lot of times they'll laugh

01:25:25.280 i'll be like i was just joking with you like guy like that recovery skill is a difficult one to

01:25:29.600 master that's why dating coaches exist you have to like teach guys like it's okay to take a risk 0.90

01:25:34.320 self-awareness you can make up for it you can't be like super gun-shy otherwise you're never going 0.97

01:25:39.120 to stimulate anybody yeah you're kind of describing my boyfriend a lot he's a dickhead but in the most 0.96

01:25:45.760 lovable way there you go exhibit a exhibit a uh let's get through a couple chats here uh nick if you're 0.91

01:25:51.120 able to pull up our twitch really quick guys go to twitch dot tv slash whatever drop us a follow

01:25:56.640 and a prime sub if you have one twitch.tv slash whatever uh oh shit uh pedasso wow that's a long

01:26:05.760 message just uh for the we for bits we don't really do it through twitch uh you have to do it either

01:26:11.680 through youtube or stream labs thank you though really appreciate the support either way um thank

01:26:16.320 you guys for the prime dark mind think for the prime my curse think for the prime quants thanks for

01:26:20.240 the prime edwin and chill thank you for the prime uh also we are stream we are simulcasting this on

01:26:25.200 twitch right or excuse me on kick.com right now too so uh this is our first stream ever on kick we

01:26:32.960 just figured hey why not um so kick.com slash whatever if you guys are on kick i guess um drop us

01:26:38.320 a follow there i guess um but thank you guys for the primes twitch.tv slash whatever drop us some

01:26:43.680 follows and some primes and then we have and i will get to the the tts that we had before uh let me

01:26:53.440 here let me do this one yo taylor wilson thank you man kika what do you think about destiny um i think

01:26:59.360 destiny is very educated and a great debater um he's one of the few i've seen in this space that

01:27:08.000 doesn't just take what people say like he will literally stop everything and look it up like he

01:27:11.840 has the facts to back up his point he's also really good at hearing out the other side and not just

01:27:17.200 talking over them i just discovered who destiny was like a couple weeks ago um yeah after he was on

01:27:24.560 here i saw some things and i've been watching a few of his videos um but yeah i think he's a great

01:27:30.640 debater um yeah i don't know him like that martin yo martin good to see you man brian what are you

01:27:39.360 doing throwing that passive aggressive flannel wrist at my girl keep it up and see if i save you from 1.00

01:27:45.440 the next shark attack priya my peer let me know you emailed been too busy to respond but i will soon

01:27:52.400 don't embarrass us tonight i definitely didn't but sure marquavius martin um he actually uh he might

01:28:06.240 be down to go on a safari with you and he's quite skilled he's quite adept at protecting people from

01:28:12.160 wild animals since he's protected me from a wild out wait what her baby's name marquavius 0.72

01:28:22.480 off top madison had a indiscretion so that is marquavius jr yes there was an indiscretion many

01:28:31.360 months ago it's a sour spot it's a dark cloud over the podcast i don't really like talking about it

01:28:38.400 anymore um so marquavius uh he's been retired are you down to go on safari with marquavius martin

01:28:48.000 come on throw him see how girls have a hard time saying no it's like nice guys

01:28:53.760 oh hey bender i have a joke to tell it may be a bit offensive how did god create women he tore the 1.00

01:29:00.320 blank uh off a sinner's body oh a p okay the man screamed so loud his voice became feminine the hole 0.98

01:29:11.280 that was left behind became the v v and the balls were glued to the chest yo bender thank you for that 1.00

01:29:18.640 appreciate it um the yeah the tts i guess doesn't trigger if you use certain i mean i'm still like don't

01:29:25.920 curse words but thank you thank you bender that was joke should have a punch line like what's the 0.96

01:29:29.760 punch line maybe there's a part two to it i guess we'll send another tts and we'll find out oh wow okay

01:29:36.400 kiko put it into work here okay i mean like what was like the he goes the marketing campaign i love

01:29:41.440 a good i love a good offensive joke i really do but like that just wasn't funny just didn't okay all right

01:29:48.000 i didn't do it for you so wait priya do you accept marquavius martin's safari invitation

01:29:52.480 what they can horse ride together i'm busy

01:30:02.000 i'll put in a good word i'll put in a good word marquavius sorry we have jason talent brian this is

01:30:07.760 why there are past this is why there is wait there are is that grammar there are no uh 45 to 50 of

01:30:17.840 women ages 30 and older will be single by 2030 brian what do you in the panel by the way it's

01:30:22.560 with an eye how dare you jason uh what do you in the panel think about the passport bro and do you

01:30:28.160 and the panel agree with the passport for a movement uh me personally i'm i think it's cool

01:30:33.920 um i think if you are go to where you're appreciated and if you're a guy and you're in the west and you

01:30:40.720 cannot find eligible uh partner that's going to appreciate you here in the west then and you can

01:30:48.720 find that in latin america southeast asia wherever maybe eastern europe go for it can you kind of

01:30:57.600 elaborate on passport bros well passport bros basically uh it's men who are dissatisfied with the

01:31:03.200 women in the local environment so typically you find them in western countries so the united states 1.00

01:31:10.560 other western countries probably uk uh australia just western countries that are probably like a

01:31:18.160 little more values different values starting to go a bit woke and like yeah so so they'll often go to

01:31:25.120 latin america they'll often go to thailand or vietnam or just various columbia different countries

01:31:33.200 is that what we're talking about no well not necessarily but but where where the perception

01:31:38.000 is is that in these countries women are more traditional they're more feminine etc etc and so 0.94

01:31:44.160 they're they're moving there and i think one interesting thing is um men from other countries

01:31:50.480 so we have men from western countries in the u.s that are going to these other countries to

01:31:55.040 find women but there's no men from other countries coming to the u.s clamoring to get with american

01:32:01.920 women so um i just like to add in terms of the passport bro movement i would encourage men to be

01:32:07.440 careful um because like as a western man i mean i've i've seen it before i've had friends that are like

01:32:13.200 passport bros or whatever i've dated passport bros before and um i kind of noticed that they have a

01:32:18.880 tendency to be more uh effed over if you will or used for their money uh usually if they're coming

01:32:25.920 from western societies have a passport citizenship stuff like that i would urge men to be careful and 0.62

01:32:31.200 not to just think that the world is kind of their playground although i would not judge them for

01:32:34.720 wanting to go to a different country to find a woman of different value you should be careful here 1.00

01:32:38.480 as well yeah absolutely no absolutely of course i mean that goes without saying right 50 divorce

01:32:43.280 right so i know the videos like of passport bros coming out and being like oh i got duped like i got

01:32:48.640 played by i know three passport bros i don't know if anyone here personally knows them i know three and

01:32:55.840 none of them have a great ending i'm not saying i'm against it but i do think there is um

01:33:02.800 um there's a little more to it i think um than it seems on the surface and i'm only speaking

01:33:09.680 anecdotally i'm sure a lot of men have gone and found wonderful women i think that's great if the

01:33:15.200 women here aren't satisfactory to them go um but it is not all sunshine and rainbows going to another 0.99

01:33:22.080 country and um finding a woman yeah i mean i don't think uh i don't think the whole passport bros thing

01:33:29.040 it's like wow this is just gonna you know there's certainly room for

01:33:32.800 for things to not work out i mean well but but i mean the passport like one that i know

01:33:39.760 went to south america found a woman brought dated her for a while brought her back here and then as

01:33:45.680 soon as she could divorce him she did got her citizenship that's something so then so he went

01:33:50.720 back to south america he's got another one he's currently there and he will not leave the country

01:33:56.240 because he's like i know that the woman will leave me if i take her to america so the thing that men

01:34:01.440 need to understand is by all means go like go and do that but if they're under the impression that

01:34:08.800 those women don't see them as a resource and even more of a resource than the average american woman 1.00

01:34:15.680 they just need to know that and if they're okay with the sex money exchange and being seen as a

01:34:20.240 resource and that's not all women and it's not all men but i also know one who's here he's in his

01:34:25.600 70s now like he was one of the first passport bros and he has a wife who's like 30 years younger than

01:34:32.320 him she waits on him hand and foot does all the things i mean she's a servant to him ultimately

01:34:38.160 she's waiting for him to die so she can have his house have his money does she love him yes are they

01:34:44.000 in love no but that's an option if that's something you're into i want to touch on that

01:34:49.600 100 thank you prometheus brown if you can call him biget was passport bro from 90 day fiance

01:34:57.600 that's why i was super confused when like i first heard about passport bros because like growing up

01:35:02.480 all i ever really knew about like those type of relationships was like from what i've seen in 90

01:35:06.560 day fiance where it's like not even just with the man coming from america even like when it's women 0.75

01:35:12.080 sometimes and men from other countries it's usually so obvious that they're just trying to either

01:35:17.760 get a visa or get some money that's why i was like surprised when i heard that it was like

01:35:24.320 not for those reasons um like i don't well i think it could be toxic when it's mixed with red pill

01:35:30.720 rhetoric so like you have the the passport bros kind of fall under like this red pill movement and i

01:35:36.160 think that like the red pill movement a lot of the times say that like you know get as much money as you can

01:35:40.400 be successful be a high value man and that also includes providing for women and so when you

01:35:45.440 combine the that philosophy or that value system of provisioning for women and then you combine that

01:35:50.640 with being a passport bro you're more likely and more inclined to get screwed over and that's my concern

01:35:57.760 go ahead brian oh well as far i mean certainly uh these men who are passport bros can certainly be

01:36:04.800 preyed upon and some of these women certainly may be predatory however i'm sure there's in the same way 1.00

01:36:09.760 that there's men who are getting uh you know screwed over or the it's a very transactional

01:36:15.600 relationship i'm sure there's also women in these countries that are happy to actually have a genuine 0.92

01:36:21.920 relationship with these men so i mean and also a lot of these men um some of them might bring the

01:36:30.800 women back here but a lot of them are expats and they're just going to live in that's true thailand or 1.00

01:36:35.920 uh the philippines or wherever it is and it's probably they've just moved there and it's much

01:36:40.880 more of the cost of living now are women doing this too or is it just men women women really don't 0.97

01:36:46.480 i don't think women travel passport gals like i don't think that's a thing i mean maybe well i mean 1.00

01:36:51.920 like because i've heard of obviously like bringing younger men here like older women you know what i 0.99

01:36:57.040 mean getting younger pretty rare yeah i suspect but oh sorry hold on just a second donated 100

01:37:05.120 madison is an amazing mother the reason we broke up is that i'm a white man so you can imagine the

01:37:11.440 issue pre hands to god i own a npo that helps dogs and horses if i'm not the one there is no one we'll

01:37:20.560 see what you think after i'm on the oh is marquavius finally going to come on the podcast martin come on

01:37:25.920 the podcast come on the podcast we can revisit this live date pre and martin there you go he is a

01:37:32.080 destiny commentates he is a mensa member and priya if he if he fully funded your

01:37:41.200 horse dreams that's not something that's necessarily important to me you can you have seven horses

01:37:48.400 okay seven seven horses he will pay for them

01:37:52.160 um there will be what is this number it's a beautiful number the the there's a stables

01:37:59.600 you'll have stables at your house it'll be a ranch is that i'll probably be able to pay for that myself

01:38:05.920 someday i'm not i'm not too concerned over that but okay i mean would it would it be nice sure but i'm

01:38:13.440 that's not a deciding factor and who i seek out for a partner okay all right well there you go all right

01:38:20.560 uh did you have something on the passport bro thing yeah i think and it's going to result in

01:38:24.960 me kind of posing a question to the the panel here i i think what i can appreciate about passport bros is

01:38:32.880 i think it's an effective like flag being raised for western women as well like i'm not i'm not 0.94

01:38:39.680 necessarily saying that they're going to find someone i'm not saying that they're not going to

01:38:43.760 get screwed over i'm not even necessarily saying that i would encourage men to go do it like you said

01:38:48.320 if you want to cool go do it um i do think though that the motivation for it is the fact that 0.96

01:38:56.880 men are still expected to act very traditionally they're expected to be very chivalrous they're

01:39:00.400 expected you know to be protectors maybe they're not expected to provide to the same extent now that

01:39:06.400 women can essentially match them on income up to basically a certain point where maybe men start to 1.00

01:39:12.960 be willing to negotiate harder as they get older maybe women decide to settle down and be mothers to put a 1.00

01:39:17.520 sort of halt in their career talk about that right but men don't need to be as strict of provisioners 1.00

01:39:23.680 the way that they used to be but they still need to be protectors they still need to take care of

01:39:26.400 you they still are expected to do things like open your door give the jacket uh like when you're cold

01:39:33.040 things like that but if that's what the male if that's what a man's duty to you is to be chivalrous

01:39:40.640 it's very very loosely defined what a woman's duty to a man is it's very ambiguous and that is why i think

01:39:45.760 they go to places where they are actually taught from a young age how to treat a man what is your

01:39:50.640 duty to a man and whether you want to talk about in in the context of the word submission which i

01:39:55.200 know that a lot of girls don't like me and her use the word deference instead of submission sounds a 1.00

01:39:59.760 little bit better it's like she wants to defer to her man a little bit more than he defers to her 1.00

01:40:04.800 which is essentially submitting um but i would love to know what you guys think what if men have those

01:40:11.280 duties to you and that's an expected duty what do you think your duty to men is i think that's

01:40:16.880 the importance of having for me personally having um my identity with god and because in the bible it

01:40:23.440 lays out what a woman should be in proverbs 31 31 i actually read that today yes and it's beautiful you

01:40:29.440 know it's it's nothing that holds women back and instead it like you embrace your natural state you

01:40:36.960 know it's like you thrive the most in this setting and so i feel like if i mean all i feel like all

01:40:44.160 women can thrive most when they have a relationship with god so that's my stance anybody else yeah i i

01:40:49.680 don't agree with that that they have to have a relationship with god um could you could you

01:40:53.680 repeat the question well i said what do i think about deference or submission well not necessarily what

01:40:58.160 is the female equivalent of chivalry yeah yeah if men have a duty to you and we sort of define that 0.87

01:41:02.800 duty as chivalry this concept right what would be the female version of chivalry what would a 1.00

01:41:07.360 what would female duty to a man i would say due to fourth wave feminism like it's become so amorphous 1.00

01:41:12.960 like but i would say that we're probably going to see a division of like women that are hyper feminine 1.00

01:41:19.920 bender the offender donated 99 i will admit that my joke was not funny brian you should have had chase

01:41:27.120 on today so we could have diddy kong versus chase round three see like that was funny that was

01:41:33.440 better we're making progress diddy kong i'm really proud of you is that offensive in some like but

01:41:40.240 could it conceivably no like because the original thing that got the original thing that got me and

01:41:47.680 chase cracking up on the show with gorlock was the diddy kong comment so in every but then any

01:41:53.120 yeah anything you're going to follow up with that is now immediately negated because you just

01:41:58.400 because you said gorlock okay what anyways i think that's nobody knows nobody knows that's the name

01:42:06.000 no one remembers ali i mean i remembered ali pretty well yeah he has he has fans he's just trying to

01:42:10.640 make sure they all know who he's talking about i'm just that's thank thank you for the thing you're

01:42:14.640 thinking that's good anyways i can answer the question got you um yo but okay

01:42:21.280 is it conceivably offensive for someone to say that you look like diddy kong from mario kart race

01:42:29.680 well i mean it's not a compliment no no but like is it like race i you know i never was thinking that

01:42:35.520 deep on it because i don't want to really play that card if it's okay not um okay i really like

01:42:43.120 because you know i see it but i don't see it at the same time actually i think half of his face is

01:42:48.080 lighter than the other that's actually pretty accurate that's why i'm like you know i'm like

01:42:53.120 it's like a mix maybe maybe i maybe i give diddy tom that's fine uh anyways i think i think round

01:42:58.480 three would be good i think talk about it i think around three would be good we could talk about it

01:43:02.640 um i think that the it's in the works compare or what is the female duty to a man yeah i'm kind of

01:43:10.480 i wouldn't say old school because they'll tear me apart that's why i feel like you have to please say

01:43:14.560 old school go deep on that it's because i know you look at me i have tattoos whatever so i won't

01:43:19.840 i've not not a virgin wait until marriage so you wouldn't call me a traditional woman but that's

01:43:25.280 why i found a man and of the same level of traditional if you will but like for me i think the

01:43:34.880 the woman's side of men's chivalry is being a homemaker i do agree with that i enjoy cleaning up the 0.99

01:43:42.480 house i enjoy doing my laundry for us i enjoy making our meals but at that same token since i

01:43:49.280 am still working we're both working if there is a day that i don't feel like cooking or doing one of

01:43:53.600 those things he has no problem picking up that slack but i feel like overall on the day-to-day it is my

01:44:00.160 job whereas his job is to provide me with um protection and other things that you listed she is

01:44:07.920 absolutely the nurturer in our relationship but when she was sick with the flu i wasn't going to

01:44:13.440 leave her to nurture herself okay all right no no i know so i can appreciate that i like if it's

01:44:18.160 90 of the time sure but i would hope he's there for me doesn't mind doing those duties if it's you know

01:44:24.240 for a reason not just because i feel like fucking off and doing sorry i feel like doing nothing but 0.94

01:44:28.080 yeah would you consider your man to be the leader in the relationship yes yeah that's an interesting 0.94

01:44:33.200 one too i wouldn't want to be with a man who's not the leader actually before i pose that question

01:44:38.400 i like being myself i want to let other people i was actually talking before when you were talking

01:44:42.880 about like uh like the like women nowadays and like what their role is i think you're going to find 1.00

01:44:48.000 like uh three different subsections of women like women that are maintain that hyper femininity that 1.00

01:44:53.520 like find that masculine man and they both like complement each other in terms of their gender roles

01:44:57.680 then you're going to have women kind of like kiko kind of like me that um like aspects of

01:45:01.840 traditionalism and want to adopt those and can respect that and understand the balance between

01:45:06.480 men and women and then you're going to have women that are like nope i'm going to pay i'm an independent

01:45:11.760 woman i don't need no man i think that's like where we're going you're going to have like three

01:45:15.760 divisions of women and i think that's actually in the beginning works of men too like that that's

01:45:20.960 happening there's men's movement right now i mean red pill movement like my written fresh from fresh and

01:45:25.760 vet all of those um big names um it's that they were there i feel like we're on the precipice of

01:45:31.680 like men also dividing and figuring out hang on do i have to fulfill this role as a chivalrous man or

01:45:38.000 yes can i and that i think that's a very very scary proposition because i think that could make it

01:45:42.640 harder yes than it already is i kind of like the fact that men have this expectation and women are

01:45:48.880 having to sort of figure out what the expectation is of them i do not want to see there be a divide

01:45:55.040 in men as well i think that's going to spell out a lot of trouble because fundament and you know this

01:45:59.600 as a psychologist right we are very different and a lot of times what women say that they are looking

01:46:05.120 for they are not actually looking for and if men start to become more feminine and adopt those feminine

01:46:10.240 roles we're screwed like women are not going the women who think that they want to be the leaders 1.00

01:46:15.360 and the masculine ones aren't going to be attracted to those men no and i'm just going to say this right 0.99

01:46:19.840 now every single person that or sorry couple that i know that have a relationship where the woman is 0.99

01:46:25.520 the more dominant person in the relationship it never works out every single couple that i've known

01:46:31.200 to have that sort of dynamic has either broken up in a very messy divorce or something of that sort

01:46:36.800 i'm not saying that it can't work but i don't think that it's the majority of those types of

01:46:40.160 relationships let's let's go around the table on that sure has anybody here any of the women here 1.00

01:46:45.680 been more so the as you would put it what the leader in the relationship or the more dominant

01:46:51.200 one is that the phrasing you used yeah so any women here who have been kind of the more the 0.98

01:46:56.080 leader or the dominant one in the relationship drove me to hell drove me crazy i wanted to leave it 0.70

01:47:02.400 was horrible you you raised your hand too anybody someone else raised their hand too i think

01:47:06.080 i actually was yeah just with yours really quick sure it drove you to hell yeah now was it was it 0.80

01:47:12.800 because he was lacking in some way or maybe it was a combination but could it have also been

01:47:19.680 like oh you perhaps in your past were more you wanted to or at least you thought you wanted to be that

01:47:26.880 way i thought i wanted to be that way okay um i don't necessarily i've had three monogamous

01:47:33.360 relationships in my life um they were all so sweet so kind treated me like a princess but essentially

01:47:40.000 the masculinity was lacking like big there was no leadership there was no direction i had to fulfill

01:47:46.320 the nurturing role and then the planning role and there was no there was no establishment of like what 0.95

01:47:52.080 our roles were but at the time i was like fuck gender roles like whatever like that's just lame anyways like 0.92

01:47:57.760 we just need to you know just work it out and i really did not want to come to the conclusion that 0.96

01:48:06.000 what i was actually looking for was not at all what i was taught that i actually wanted

01:48:13.760 what's the question the question i can answer the question i don't think people would expect me to have

01:48:19.120 been in a relationship where i was the dominant one um but i was in a relationship where

01:48:26.720 there there was a man that was more dominant than me who was the leader and then i i ended up um

01:48:33.360 getting a random career on social media that just kind of took off and it shifted to this dynamic

01:48:39.040 where i was making all the decisions and i was handling the money and it just um it's it's not a

01:48:44.000 positive situation to be in and i just um grew very resentful when i was the one left having to

01:48:51.520 make all of those decisions so that's why it didn't work out it wasn't because you know he

01:48:55.200 wasn't a good person it was just when those roles are reversed it just doesn't seem to work

01:49:00.720 two things um actually first someone actually responded to one of your q a's earlier and you

01:49:06.560 talked about you give a really really interesting response about the struggle between being

01:49:11.840 a modern day woman versus being the type of woman who can like truly attract and retain 1.00

01:49:17.360 a man like how can you have a career how can you pursue something be independent until you have a

01:49:21.600 man protect yourself in case that man does something that makes you want to leave yes and do you want

01:49:25.920 to share kind of like what your thoughts on that were sort of like the flipping the switch oh yeah um

01:49:32.000 we obviously are in a society where

01:49:36.240 two people in the relationship do have to work in some situations i mean it's not possible

01:49:41.200 for every single couple to have a stay-at-home mom and a housemaker like a homemaker it's just not 0.81

01:49:46.320 possible nowadays um so i was saying in those situations the woman has to be able to 1.00

01:49:54.560 come home and not be the boss babe anymore she has to know how to turn that switch off for it to be 1.00

01:49:58.960 able to work because yes there are women that have thriving careers but if she knows how to flip that 1.00

01:50:04.400 switch then that's the way that it and something that you said you said the first thing she has to do

01:50:08.960 is recognize the things that help her be successful yes are not the are often not the same things that

01:50:14.880 will help you retain attraction from a man yeah i think that's super important and the other thing

01:50:20.960 that i like to talk about with regards to me and her um because me and her like i i think we would say

01:50:27.280 that she would identify me as the leader of the relationship but i'd be interesting to hear your guys

01:50:34.320 take on what you think leadership is because i think when people think about leadership they think

01:50:39.920 like a dictatorship where it's like do as i say leadership if any of you have ever worked for or

01:50:45.120 been around a good leader a good leader is the person who is really just willing to put their head

01:50:50.320 on the line because no one else is willing to they're willing they're the ambitious one they're the one

01:50:54.720 with the you said planning more so than planning it's like i have an idea of a risk that we can take

01:51:00.240 i have a path that i think we can get there what do you think about this plan and now it's on i do

01:51:05.760 this with her all the time um we've talked about ways to potentially you know grow her brand uh that

01:51:10.960 i'm now a part of right and i got my own thing as well but like we've had to make some decisions

01:51:15.600 about you know what can we do can we do we have to cut back on certain things do we need to focus on

01:51:20.480 certain content do we need to say no to brand deals in order to not like flood you know feeds with

01:51:27.040 just like products and make sure that like fans aren't going to be the brains of the operation

01:51:30.960 right like like there are like little decisions that you make but you know if i offer up an idea

01:51:35.360 like that like i'm not expecting her to be like yes sir i'm expecting her to look at me and think to

01:51:42.000 herself like what is you know here are my concerns what are your thoughts on those concerns right right

01:51:48.960 um like there i think that leadership is a much much more nuanced thing than people give it credit

01:51:54.080 for so i'm wondering what you guys think about that and what you think about a man's leadership

01:51:59.200 let's let's just come back to that a little bit let's come back to that a little bit later i do need

01:52:05.600 to get through a couple things here first um okay so i do need to touch on the gun thing so

01:52:13.040 it was is it a deal breaker hold on let me see positive negative or neutral

01:52:19.440 if the man owns again yeah yeah so uh when it comes to gun ownership positive deal breaker or neutral

01:52:27.360 if uh partner owns nine times out of ten positive for me positive just a reminder speaking to your

01:52:36.960 mic please guys neutral positive positive i would say positive i'd like to feel protected but as long

01:52:42.160 as you're using that gun in the right ways then absolutely neutral to positive is this the gun yeah

01:52:52.320 positive i think it's a big positive as long as you educate yourself and know how to use the firearm

01:53:00.960 correctly and safely i would say positive as long as you're trained and it's not just an accessory

01:53:07.200 that was only to the oh yeah that's true that's true because i would say positive all right uh so

01:53:17.200 some of you so graciously provided some uh pre-show notes here so we're gonna react i'm sorry not react

01:53:25.440 we're going to uh address some of the pre-show notes that you guys provided to us uh nicole since

01:53:31.040 you're returning um you said in a message to us you said you wanted to discuss brian's status as a six

01:53:42.080 what did you mean by that well so this is only my second time on the show but then i saw i think it

01:53:48.560 was the next show maybe that tuesday i had never heard the men rate themselves i always see the women

01:53:53.920 rating themselves and i think you said you rated yourself on the look scale a six but on a good day

01:53:59.760 is 6.9 yeah i mean that's kind of just like a humorous thing i say but yeah but like i feel

01:54:04.720 like i'm a six but i might be a little cuter than you so are you a five or am i a seven i think are you

01:54:12.960 a five or am i a seven or are we the same cuteness you think you're okay no i think i'm a six you think

01:54:21.280 i'm a six and your assessment of my physical attractiveness is less than yours i think i'm

01:54:27.760 there's an age discrepancy there isn't ages but if i and men and women they're peak yeah i understand

01:54:35.040 that relationship i thought we're just talking physical looks oh so disregarding age disregarding

01:54:42.880 age just looks i didn't well what was your scale on what do you mean you're six i thought it was

01:54:48.480 purely i thought you had said something i give myself like a six okay i'm that's fair given the metrics

01:54:53.520 metrics and look some women might think i'm lower some might think i'm seven whatever it may be in

01:54:58.560 any case um so i think my my self-assessment is i'm like i'm above average height i'm six one full head

01:55:09.520 of hair blue eyes solid beard i could you know uh i'm not overweight so i would say that that puts me at

01:55:18.960 slightly above average and a six okay that's fair oh yeah i had never heard the men rate themselves

01:55:24.960 i also think that the like the scale looks a lot different from men to women there's well we're

01:55:30.720 being graded on different things no no absolutely but if here i'll just i'm gonna do hold on oh so

01:55:36.320 sorry continue i'm just gonna let the chat know if we're looking i'm doing a poll if we're looking at a

01:55:40.400 scale from one to ten obviously one and ten are going to be the least are going to be a small small

01:55:50.000 fraction of the population i think in terms of good looks there are a lot more good-looking women 1.00

01:55:57.520 compared to how many good-looking men there are nicole okay so brixton versus nicole right 0.88

01:56:02.480 help though so what's that yeah absolutely yeah we have makeup yeah we have makeup we have hair

01:56:08.880 makes a huge difference and also in this day and age of like especially in california it's getting

01:56:13.440 harder to tell who has fillers or botox whereas men aren't as likely to do those things so i feel like

01:56:18.800 that also helps why we have a lot more attractive women more than men martin donated yeah thank you

01:56:24.720 mark wavis brian ask all the ladies what they want in a relationship i'm kidding i couldn't care

01:56:31.840 less pria answer the question being a horse girl i know you come from money but not this kind of 0.99

01:56:39.360 money brian i will come on when in ca have pria on when i am hey actually pria is moving to the

01:56:46.880 southern california i don't know if i yeah she's moving to socal so we'll have her on more thank 0.73

01:56:52.480 you mark wavis much appreciated um i come from a middle class background with some help from my mother

01:57:01.840 when i was younger okay so okay the poll's been going for a minute now we have 524 votes there's

01:57:09.520 about 5 000 people watching who is cuter brian or nicole i feel like i should have worded this

01:57:15.120 question a little better that was the question what's the question that was just the question

01:57:19.360 because i thought you were just talking about yeah but i should have worded it like who is more

01:57:23.280 look if they vote that you're cuter objectively more physically attractive okay well if i lose

01:57:28.960 which i think i'm gonna lose maybe do i have to wear flannel next time no but you've just been

01:57:35.360 i mean keep in mind there's men watching this and they there's men who probably don't want to

01:57:41.600 consider themselves as like gay and they're saying i'm cuter than you so it's 75 to 25 so shoot do i have

01:57:50.400 to wear flannel now next time i don't see how that's all at all related but plus you know how

01:57:55.840 they feel about maybe it's gonna make me cuter maybe it's the flannel uh but speaking of rating

01:58:01.280 uh and i will i will further rebuke your your six comment or your sorry excuse me your your uh

01:58:09.680 rejection that i'm a six i will rebuke it after i do this uh let's see here we have stifler ask

01:58:16.640 everyone to rate their looks on the scale of one to ten kiko you first um so you know i've had a lot

01:58:26.560 of feedback in the recent months about my appearance and i've been kind of taking a mental note of what

01:58:32.880 i see like in my comments and everything so i think when you like average it out when you take all of

01:58:38.640 the like zeros and then all the tens and then the few like sevens and threes i'll give myself a nice

01:58:45.440 like six maybe seven or maybe it's being too generous there's a lot of zeros there maybe five

01:58:52.800 five i guess kiko every other almost every other episode you've been on you've given yourself a 10.

01:58:57.600 and you guys have told me i was wrong every single time am i not have you been convinced like i mean

01:59:02.560 you've been convinced well i mean you guys are telling me that it's not what i see myself as

01:59:08.400 it's what everyone else views me and they've given me their feedback so i've seen the feedback and i

01:59:13.440 recognize that i am now all right some growth five getting some growth here okay did your boyfriend

01:59:18.880 tell you to say that no okay he told me that um you're a 10. no he told me oh your own boyfriend

01:59:28.000 well no he'll tell me i'm a 10 like he thinks okay not but he always says like he says the same

01:59:32.320 thing that most people say like um i'm a nine because there's always room for improvement is

01:59:36.560 what he would tell me to say i think that's too like wow that's just too like predictable look at

01:59:42.720 that okay so you used to say you're 10 now you're a what six six maybe six and a half it's a lot of

01:59:52.320 numbers i get thrown in my comments so it's hard to keep track all right all right what about you

01:59:56.400 well i thought it was a six but if she's going with six i'm gonna lower mine don't worry about her 0.96

02:00:03.120 scale i'd say six um i'm a 10 on the res on the what res the reservation yeah wait are you native

02:00:13.520 american yeah oh i did not notice i was like you're a 10 on the res yeah

02:00:20.080 what what tribe do you i'm sue tribe sue oh yeah okay cool but like i work for bay mills tribe but

02:00:29.840 there's you work for the what bay mills tribe bam there's different tribes bay mill bay mills

02:00:35.520 bay mills bay mills yeah okay yeah cool so but i'm sue tribe so but i work for them so

02:00:41.680 but we all have like a little community do you live on the reservation i have

02:00:46.240 not right now have you ever gone off the reservation yes this is the this is the

02:00:52.880 farthest i've ever been west um i go to florida a lot okay i go to florida a lot but you know this

02:00:59.440 is the first time i've been west okay um what do you rate yourself on the scale of one to ten brian

02:01:08.000 i'm a little confused on this because last time you said it's a fixed scale right like beauty is a fixed

02:01:14.000 scale that's what you said prior did i say that i don't think there's an objective i think it's

02:01:19.600 said there's an objective which is fixed right sure all right yeah right okay so what are you

02:01:25.200 predicating on what are you predicating that on like western beauty because there's eurocentric

02:01:30.080 beauty you said you're right how about white skin blue eyes well i mean see what i mean i well i disagree

02:01:36.880 that for example say a woman who's an asian woman who has dark hair and dark eyes i don't she could be 1.00

02:01:44.880 a 10 in the west so i reject this idea that you need to have blue eyes and blonde hair whatever the

02:01:50.400 fuck that would mean that the scale isn't objective then right well but there's more you you can't a 10 0.70

02:01:57.040 can manifest itself in like there's not a singular person that's a 10 okay so you there's there's room for 0.99

02:02:06.160 differentiation like for example a woman with blue eyes could be a 10 a woman with brown eyes 0.96

02:02:12.480 so what's the objective standard if well there's something there's something to be said about

02:02:16.800 facial symmetry for example there's something to be said about having a healthy body fat percentage

02:02:21.600 range that's and you don't think race plays into that hierarchy of beauty at all in the western

02:02:25.920 society there are many studies across different cultures and races and and locations around the world

02:02:31.120 the the scale holds up to of course it's going to look different in different cultures in society

02:02:37.920 but the scale of like face symmetry and hip to waist race ratio and certain things like that

02:02:44.480 live up to that also the face symmetry science is pretty outdated though in the psych universe just

02:02:50.720 to say i would just point out that as my understanding is is that for example asian women are rated the

02:02:57.440 most attractive cohort of women so i i'm not i don't know why you in where where in the u.s in 0.94

02:03:05.760 the u.s yes asian women are the most attractive as women are frequently ranked as the most desirable 0.98

02:03:11.600 uh when it comes source question mark but that's pretty shocking to me to hear yeah me too

02:03:17.360 i think asian women are beautiful in any case what are you getting at yeah i'm not oh i was just i 0.94

02:03:22.960 was genuinely just wondering like what the metric was so that i can give myself an accurate like

02:03:27.200 number that's all i was just wondering like what your what the scale is predicated on right no it's

02:03:31.840 how other people perceive us that's why i was trying to say like what is the scale predicated on because

02:03:35.840 are you latina yeah puerto rican i'm so are you asking me if you're less attractive because of

02:03:43.680 your race like i don't get what you're going for okay so like uh i was just teasing about the

02:03:47.760 rest you're overthinking this it was a joke you're really i don't think i'm overthinking it you're

02:03:51.920 like you're over i said six last time i was gonna say what did you read yourself i i said six last

02:03:56.160 time i'll stay with six this time but i do think the scale is important to be talked about if we're

02:04:00.240 going to be giving out numbers what scale that's what i'm saying the objective scale that you you said

02:04:05.520 many times that there's a fixed objective standard of beauty and that the scale is one to ten and that

02:04:10.560 it's fixed so if it's one to ten and then it's fixed hold on can you hide one hundred dollars

02:04:16.960 this question is for pocahontas for her tribal name she who runs with many baby dads 0.94

02:04:23.360 if you work at a gas station and do only fans where do you hear this more often fill it up

02:04:30.480 i've never heard that before so where do you hear this more often fill it up i don't know what to tell

02:04:35.680 you i've never had anybody say that to me no i think they're saying fill it up right

02:04:41.200 no never so okay isn't it only in new jersey where where there's this person that has to

02:04:47.920 organ i don't know how to pump gas i just moved to florida you're from jersey i'm from jersey she's

02:04:52.080 from jersey brian what's up can you give us a woman i hope like a public figure of sorts that is a 10

02:04:59.600 to you a woman who's a 10 yeah the scale the scale does it the scale is useless or pointless 1.00

02:05:08.240 if nobody like you guys come here on sale time well nobody's truly a 10 nobody's perfect well then

02:05:13.040 there's no point in the scale there has to be somebody who's a 10. not saying that that 10 has

02:05:17.520 to be a 10 to him or somebody else but what's your version of a 10 right that's what we're asking

02:05:22.320 maddie it would sort of almost be an amalgamation because you have the body you have the body then you

02:05:28.960 have the face so like then you're 10 this girl well that isn't that doesn't make sense i think 10

02:05:34.720 is exceedingly rare okay it might be possible there's nines you don't you can't think of one

02:05:43.360 is that the term i don't know if that's the term but uh i would say like approaching 10

02:05:49.680 my personal take kristen kruik when she was kristen kruik smallville

02:05:55.680 oh my gosh i don't know who that is i don't know who that is can we pull it up

02:05:59.920 kristin kruik can we get a picture can we pull her up google google kristin kruik smallville

02:06:07.440 i think she's very attractive like for example like my very attractive i don't know if she's 0.99

02:06:11.440 a 10. i don't know if she's a 10. you said she's an adjustable 9. not for a 9. if he was a juice 0.87

02:06:18.240 head yeah that one he like said like his girlfriend is like flat out ted no questions i know he's

02:06:23.360 it's his girlfriend but like he was really standing 10 toes down on it and she's a beautiful woman

02:06:28.000 but i know a lot of people who wouldn't consider her a 10. so like that's a 10 to him sure which

02:06:33.280 would make sense why he might not like me because she's white with blue eyes or whatever so obviously 0.99

02:06:37.040 i won't be his 10. hold on um so oh she's beautiful kristen kruik scroll down yeah she looks like my

02:06:43.680 friend some of these photos are not flattering like if you see video if you know she is but if you see

02:06:49.840 video of her like no this is something i would agree with yeah some of the uh

02:06:56.000 some of these are not the best photos try wait actually hold on go down the one with the flowers

02:07:01.840 click on the flowery so you like the youngest looking photo of her

02:07:09.440 scroll down scroll down so you like priya scroll down

02:07:14.400 oh that's a good one wait the getty images getty images also the youngest one

02:07:21.840 2003 oh my goodness 20 years hold on she's what about margot robbie

02:07:27.520 margot robbie is a win she's like the most beautiful world also wait kristin kruik from

02:07:34.480 oh wait kristin kruik when she was in all the comments she's a 7.5 she's a six 1.00

02:07:39.040 lol definitely a 10 nobody's a 10 like it's so it's so subjective you guys cannot say that it is

02:07:45.680 100 set in stone what was that uh road trip wait search kristen kruik road trip

02:07:54.000 search kristen kruik road uh wait is it road trip is that the movie margot robbie

02:07:59.920 was hot 10 years ago how old is margot robbie you're a trip she's probably a little bit late 1.00

02:08:05.360 what she's 10 years ago oh my god search that if they're saying she's not he said margot robbie

02:08:10.640 is mid margot robbie let's check it out i mean like i'll just go check it out it's it's objective

02:08:16.720 it's so different based on kristin kruik different people yes obviously there's attractive people yes

02:08:21.440 obviously there's ugly people we know that but the photos don't do her justice okay oh is she scotty's

02:08:27.520 girlfriend uh scotty doesn't know yeah yeah scotty doesn't look up hey brian look up objective

02:08:32.640 standard of beauty i think we're sure we can look it up is that where you fell for when she was scotty's

02:08:42.880 girlfriend is that where yeah she's she's definitely a babe is that what turned you down though that 0.99

02:08:48.720 when she was like you know crazy in that one was she crazy she was she had like a very small role 0.99

02:08:54.640 yeah brian you said you don't like crackhead energy i do not you know yeah she was like screaming 1.00

02:09:01.680 um bro this is gonna give us can you look up no look up this like the study that they did look

02:09:07.840 there's something to say about uh symmetry and facial features and that changes country to country

02:09:16.240 bro you're over and it's like i'm not overthinking it you're overthinking i'm this is literally my field

02:09:21.440 like it the objective standard of beauty changes from country to country that's just how it works

02:09:28.320 there is take your standard what's your standard i already said six i'm like there we go i already

02:09:33.120 said that yeah that's good why are you looking at me like that yeah oh sorry i thought you were

02:09:44.240 gonna like say something conversation derailed like weird eyebrow at her um like at eight like 0.58

02:09:50.320 seven without makeup maybe six and a half without makeup but at eight on a good day 0.99

02:09:58.000 damn the chat's fucking roasting kristen crook okay all right fine whatever 1.00

02:10:06.720 uh ah fuck she got up okay she said six though remember she said six okay six for nicole 1.00

02:10:11.680 i would say like a 5.5 i'm gonna go 6.57 1.00

02:10:20.720 you gotta i'm gonna keep my answer consistent for the past three episodes and say a 6.7

02:10:29.200 all right i'd say i'm like solid eight

02:10:32.640 i think here's the other thing this is the first time a man has rated himself the highest at the table

02:10:37.360 like this is crazy i'm just nothing i know i know what your point is it's it's when girls start 0.99

02:10:44.720 rating them the when the first girl starts at not a 10 then it's it's not gonna oh there is a tribal

02:10:50.240 nature to the way you guys do this because when i say 10 usually i say when i say 10 first everyone

02:10:55.200 says 10 after me no i thought about this all the way here and the body count this and the body

02:11:01.360 count oh my god i mean i'll i'll say it though like uh pretty much all of you i don't think any

02:11:12.640 pretty much all of you are going to have are going to have a floor that's average like none of you are

02:11:18.800 objectively unattractive women you're gonna have a floor that's average and some men are going to 1.00

02:11:23.520 consider you guys brian watch it i miss you're gonna be fired sorry and so and some men are going 0.52

02:11:33.120 to consider you guys to be attractive i think objectively my beautiful girlfriend i think priya

02:11:38.800 um the latin touch is going to be really nice for a lot of guys i think madison and kiko in particular

02:11:45.040 you guys there are plenty of guys who are going to consider you to be like maybe upwards of like

02:11:50.640 eight and nines depending on their taste but i think floor is going to be average for pretty

02:11:55.600 much everybody here i agree

02:12:03.840 good times i'm trying to okay let me do some chats here we have puffy vegas our good friend

02:12:09.520 puff v puffy v starting with the girl black girl what on the right and he went the white girl what huh 0.99

02:12:19.200 seven point five six point five seven seven or seven point five six fuck us six seven six point 1.00

02:12:24.880 valdev donated ninety nine dollars puffy it is wild how such a simple question time and time again gets 0.85

02:12:31.360 so much overthought kiko needs a new nickname for her good faith also funny how the simps rate kiko ten

02:12:38.400 tenths they all would date if they could and it's not just simps rating me 10 out of 10 actually i have

02:12:45.760 a magnitude of the comments that i do get are men saying that they hate almost everything that

02:12:52.240 comes out of my mouth they don't stand for anything that they i say they don't agree with me at all we're

02:12:56.880 completely different but they can't deny that i'm attractive to them so i wouldn't say sure there are simps

02:13:02.720 but if anything i do get a lot of those comments so

02:13:06.960 wait what i agree not the only people call me 10 out of 10 are not just simps there is other men as

02:13:18.240 well you know valdiv thank you man appreciate it we have bender the offender here actually whoops we

02:13:23.440 have this one here dryzala 100 thank you man appreciate it first time super chat here question

02:13:28.880 for the panel if western standards weren't so high from women do you think the shorter men can stand a 1.00

02:13:34.320 chance of being with a woman he's attracted to i'm five foot two and all too often my height prevents

02:13:40.960 being with a woman dryzala thank you for the super chat man appreciate it uh yeah that height is 0.94

02:13:48.000 definitely it's a tough one for men can i comment on this so i find it absolutely ridiculous when short

02:13:55.120 women and i'm talking like five foot five two are like i will only date men over six foot tall 0.97

02:14:02.400 i think it's absolute bullshit get over yourself first of all i'm decently tall i'm five eight and 0.85

02:14:09.760 i've dated plenty of people that have been the same height as me um would i absolutely prefer somebody 0.99

02:14:15.120 that's taller than me yes but i find it so crazy that women that are very small are have such a 1.00

02:14:22.320 high preference but would you ever date someone shorter than you um i'm not saying that i wouldn't i

02:14:28.400 wouldn't you haven't uh the men that i've dated that are quote unquote the same size as me and

02:14:33.920 people have said that they're actually shorter than me but they're the same size on or same height on

02:14:38.000 paper but um no i mean i'm a pretty i have a pretty dominant personality i feel like and in a relationship

02:14:45.680 i do want to feel feminine and i don't want to feel like i'm the more dominant masculine one in the

02:14:53.680 relationship so if somebody has a personality and lifestyle that does portray that then that's

02:14:59.200 totally fine if they're same height maybe even shorter but yeah agreed yeah i feel bad for those

02:15:07.200 men too sometimes it is a double standard but also like yeah i've dated men the same height as me and

02:15:12.960 then i've run into the issue where i love my heels i love my taller shoes and like they would get actually

02:15:17.840 upset like would be visibly upset that i was taller than them with these shoes on and asked me to take them

02:15:22.880 off and say i'm not doing that i'm their shoes you know so that's where it's like i like a few

02:15:28.480 inches but a lot of those girls were like five foot tall literally like 4 or 11 saying oh i only date 1.00

02:15:32.640 men over six feet maybe they dated a couple men over six feet but all the time they're not even dating

02:15:37.680 men that are all over six feet they're just saying it but they've given a few maybe not the five two

02:15:42.480 guys are dating yes but they've given some five tens some five nines they can't even tell the difference

02:15:47.120 what is whoa they've given a five nine five ten guy a chance by the way five nines the average

02:15:55.120 male height i'm not i'm not saying that i've dated men that are five no i'm not saying that's you but

02:15:59.360 you're talking about these other i say give them a chance because they're these are the girls 1.00

02:16:03.040 heaven forbid you give an average a man who's of average height actually above average i was saying

02:16:08.560 that because these are the same woman quote unquote saying that they won't date anyone under six feet so 1.00

02:16:12.960 i'm saying that they give those men a chance is well yeah that's just ridiculous uh i i already

02:16:18.880 said i agree with that well the the problem for uh oh hold on jayman 973 donated 99 dollars

02:16:26.800 appreciate it love to see character development from oh look at that look at that you're winning

02:16:31.840 them over but honestly she's a 7.5 as for who comes close to attend exam to our mass much love

02:16:39.360 brilliant wait can we get a can we get a photo can you can you google a photo of anna de armas she 0.97

02:16:44.560 was in the james bond movie um she was she was like the agent that that that met that met him

02:16:49.840 i would agree i think she's probably one of the most attractive women in like entertainment right now 0.99

02:16:57.440 we got really huh her this photo on the bottom right maybe it's not flattering but

02:17:06.080 what don't you like uh x out and scroll down she's gorgeous oh no she's absolutely beautiful

02:17:12.240 i wouldn't say she's the standard of beauty she looks like angelina uh kylie jenner mixed together 0.99

02:17:16.720 really to me but i mean i mean she's definitely hot but i wouldn't say that's like the standard 0.99

02:17:23.280 right it's also so hard to tell in google images google images be doing a lot of women dirty 1.00

02:17:27.040 and then like those pictures look gorgeous isn't she older you know stuff around with that she's 1.00

02:17:35.760 probably in her 30s i don't know for sure though she kind of looks like she's probably being older 0.95

02:17:40.160 or whatever okay i was gonna say that you don't want to be me yeah bringing she's gorgeous bringing

02:17:47.440 this back up uh i think it's actually interesting and pria raises a good point pria you said you're

02:17:53.120 5 8 right yes yeah so i think it's actually like women who are average height or above actually have 1.00

02:18:00.240 less preference seem to care less about height than like a girl who's 4 11 or 5 feet 0.75

02:18:07.920 and you'd think oh okay well if you're a guy who's five foot two just get a girl who's 4 11 or 5 feet 1.00

02:18:14.880 actually those girls care even more about dating a guy who's tall for some reason like they want to 0.99

02:18:22.880 they want to reach stuff high brian they can't reach stuff they're trying to like even out their

02:18:26.960 gene pool yeah it's something like they're like if we get a six foot man maybe we can get some five

02:18:31.760 five kids i gotta be honest with you i needed somebody who was the same height as me and i

02:18:35.600 couldn't stand it you couldn't stand it did not like it did not like it did not like it how tall are you

02:18:40.880 i'm five four and he was five four five five okay i'm a little over five seven and i don't

02:18:47.360 understand the obsession with the over six feet thing i've dated men my same height i've dated

02:18:52.800 men who when i wear heels i'm taller than them um i i i don't know what the obsession my guy

02:18:59.520 is and that turns me on the same way they say like men have the it's a turn on yeah yeah i don't know

02:19:05.760 it's like i'm fine with the five nine like yeah you yes i'm sure there's very strong short men out

02:19:13.360 there i mean hey they're center of gravity they probably have some i feel like i have to yeah i feel

02:19:18.080 like i have to defend the five foot girls out here because i'm five feet me too and height has 1.00

02:19:24.240 never played a role in the man i've chosen i it plays no role in this he's way taller than me but

02:19:31.760 that's not why i'm attracted to him i'm six two no of course so i don't even think let's see a lot of

02:19:49.840 girls get into this whole thing where they think that it's like oh i it's because like i need to be 1.00

02:19:54.640 able to feel like i'm like hugging upward and things like that the reason why it bothers the

02:19:59.040 reason why five four bothered you is not because of his relative height to you it's because of his

02:20:02.640 relative height to other men that's why it bothers you that's why like i don't like being that that

02:20:07.280 that's why when you're five eight five not but you really don't like him not being out of eye to other

02:20:11.200 men i think that's the biggest thing and like she said he didn't want me wearing heels like a point

02:20:16.240 you know like this is why like if you meet a guy who's average height like it actually let's say you're

02:20:21.280 five feet tall you meet a guy who's five six and he do you want to say something real quick no go for

02:20:25.440 it i was gonna say if he you guys are emotionally stimulated that's how you get aroused like you

02:20:32.320 guys that's why you never hear a guy being like i just want a girl to have a really good sense of

02:20:36.080 humor no that's what girls say okay just you guys if you meet if you're five foot one five foot two 0.60

02:20:42.720 you meet a guy who's five foot six your initial thought seeing him maybe out of bar or something like

02:20:47.200 that is going to be like he's a little short but the moment that he opens his mouth and he's got

02:20:52.400 he's got riz he's making you laugh he knows how to freaking like schedule a date take you out show you

02:20:57.840 a good time you've got that vibe right and then all of a sudden you realize like oh he's like super

02:21:02.720 disciplined like i enjoy spending time with him your height the height preference goes out the window

02:21:08.800 guys who are five two five one five foot those guys are in big trouble because of their relative height to

02:21:15.920 other men not their relative height to you even growing up the most like suave like

02:21:21.360 like the two boys i remember growing up my class at my catholic school was small

02:21:25.200 they were i was five five in fifth grade these boys were like four nine until the day we graduated

02:21:30.320 eighth grade but they were the lady men like lady man whatever you call them of our class even though

02:21:35.520 they were the shortest like they were just so funny like they class clowns athletic whatever but kind of

02:21:41.280 back to my comment earlier when i said a lot of women those short women will say i only date men

02:21:45.840 above six feet but actually not because of how it sounds they don't want to be the one to say like

02:21:50.800 oh like they think it sounds lesser if they say they're not dating men over six feet so that's why

02:21:56.400 that's the whole like trend to say like i only date men over six feet i also think dating apps in

02:22:01.760 particular highlight this i think that if you're if you're a guy who's under six feet tall on a dating

02:22:06.320 app you're going to struggle because women are going to be in their heads about this preference without 1.00

02:22:10.560 realizing that they're just setting themselves up to fail i think that you back to what you were

02:22:15.920 saying we have a friend i don't want to say his name yeah we have a friend that's uh i think he's

02:22:19.440 five two yep and he does struggle on dating apps but in person he is always the most alpha person in

02:22:26.240 the room um and in person he gets every girl he approaches and it's because of his personality is so true

02:22:33.600 very masculine personality on like on my platform like men ask me i like i get so many like dms from

02:22:41.440 men being like help like my looks are about like a five i'm a little bit short like do i have a

02:22:47.040 chance with a girl who's a nine or ten and like the answer is absolutely yes because like the the

02:22:51.840 guy that i was talking about earlier it's gonna be harder it's gonna be harder yes absolutely you have

02:22:55.520 to be more confident you have to work on you have to like flex that muscle but um the guy that i'm

02:23:00.400 dating and that's abstinent and he's my height a little bit shorter than me and um when i first

02:23:06.000 went to the adult mass to meet other and mingle with other men my initial attraction was to the

02:23:10.720 tallest guy in the room the attractive one and all the girls were kind of coming to him and i was just

02:23:14.960 kind of waiting for him to approach me or going to do something and then this guy just came out of

02:23:18.480 nowhere and made me laugh that was it just like that so i agree good times all right we have bender

02:23:24.240 the offender here priya what are the breeds of your horses my sister has two rocky mountain tennessee 0.97

02:23:29.280 walker mix and one paint i have a thoroughbred a holsteiner and a dutch warm blood all right

02:23:36.800 thank you bender the offender those are her horses all right we have tree foster 1.00

02:23:42.400 michaela you are so beautiful you're definitely higher than the five solid nine

02:23:47.120 thank you i thought so thank you that's from the trey foster thank you trey foster appreciate it

02:23:53.440 first time seeing you in the chat we have dark shinobi there's a different all caps by the way there's

02:23:58.480 a difference between personal 10 and objective 10. most people see tens in the face which is

02:24:03.920 personal but objective is a 10 you think most would agree because they have the body to match

02:24:09.280 example ash cash cash cash cash i have no idea she was a girl when viral for having like the two 0.78

02:24:18.240 different colored eyes and i think her tapes got leaked multiple times but then she turned it into a 1.00

02:24:23.600 career good social media influencer times thank you dark shinobi good to see in the chat man um yeah i

02:24:32.720 we have something related to that from doc vanables he says golden ratio one to 1.16 is the objective

02:24:41.200 standard of beauty not only across cultures but nature da vinci understood it and used it in his

02:24:47.280 paintings and exemplified by the marquardt mask attraction is a different concept and that is

02:24:54.880 what varies exactly should we all put our faces in the thing and see can you scoot your mic back

02:25:00.720 see what number everyone actually is right uh yes we should referring to we should there's probably

02:25:07.520 some app that i think there's an app that will compare you to something and there's an app that

02:25:12.480 tells you how some there probably is i'm sure yeah i hope it lies right uh mia a bunch of people have

02:25:20.000 been dming me a couple people have been dming me uh saying that you got into trouble trouble this

02:25:27.200 weekend did something happen did something happen how the hell did you know that just like a bunch of 0.53

02:25:34.880 people were dming me like during the show dark story i'm not sure if i want to get into it honestly

02:25:40.240 okay but you can ask me like surface level questions if you want do you get into what do you want to know

02:25:47.040 you got did you get into trouble or did no i didn't like i didn't get into trouble no okay but yeah

02:25:54.720 something did happen yeah you can ask me questions if you want i'll you're still in school right

02:26:01.600 i'm in the interim like so i have to apply for my phd okay did you get into legal trouble

02:26:08.880 should i just say it yeah you know the pressure's on just kidding just

02:26:14.560 i want to ask a question about it but i have no idea what this mess with getting into your program no

02:26:18.960 of course not um i didn't i wasn't aware of californian law and um there's a bit of a

02:26:25.920 domestic dispute where i had to protect myself and because of california law um just me grabbing my phone

02:26:32.880 out of someone's hand was enough to get me into trouble but the cops were very nice everyone was

02:26:40.640 very sweet and they got me out of there as quickly as possible so it was a dangerous situation for me

02:26:45.120 that's why i don't really want to talk about it sure was it in los angeles um this was in oh hi

02:26:49.440 actually oh got you out of where sorry you said got you out of where i was in jail you got you got

02:26:56.880 arrested yeah i did for for grabbing my phone out of a guy's hand who was assaulting me yes

02:27:02.720 yeah well that's the that's the rule in california i actually did not know that because in new york if

02:27:06.480 someone assaults you you can absolutely fight back but if that person is someone that you're dating and

02:27:12.720 they're hurting you in some way and you grab even if even if you braze them um the sheriff

02:27:20.560 the sheriff of the department was actually talking to me about how he hates enforcing this law

02:27:24.880 and the cops literally had to apologize to me for arresting me because they didn't want to enforce

02:27:29.200 this law because they've had to arrest men that during an argument would lay their hand on a woman's

02:27:34.240 lap and boom they would have to get arrested right there it's literally as much of a

02:27:38.000 a just a little graze wait you're dating this guy yeah it's the guy from phoenix we're not dating

02:27:45.680 anymore but wait so it's not the wait but you said you were dating two guys yes the divorcee that's

02:27:52.000 i didn't want to talk about it but hey so you're dating three guys no no no no no it was yes yes

02:27:57.840 yes not not the not the catholic guy but the other guy did he call the cops on you no no no no um 0.99

02:28:05.200 someone heard me guys this is really fucked someone heard me getting attacked and they called they 0.98

02:28:10.160 called i'm sorry thank you well we don't have to talk about it we just talked about it brian i just 0.95

02:28:17.200 literally admitted that i was in prison but okay i mean in jail yeah don't say don't say

02:28:21.680 they're very different i know i didn't i've never gotten in trouble with the law my family is from

02:28:28.240 law enforcement nypd but california law is what it is you can't fight back yeah it'll most likely

02:28:35.520 hopefully it'll get dropped right it will the cops you're not gonna the cops told me that like the

02:28:39.520 evidence i have is beyond i recorded everything so it's oh yeah that's why he was trying to grab my

02:28:45.040 phone for me it was an altercation were the police like did they witness the like altercation or

02:28:51.520 like how did that play out um can i just get into it did i just tell you lay it all out on the

02:28:57.200 table only if you feel comfortable i mean hey it's already it's already out i literally said i went to

02:29:01.680 jail so i mean like what you know what else i don't really have much to hide so um in short i told him

02:29:08.400 no and to stop touching me multiple times over the course of three days i lost sleep i wasn't doing

02:29:15.200 well i'm i was alone california no one else but just being with him and um he wouldn't respect my

02:29:22.560 nose and um uh he took it too far and i screamed for help and the cops came yeah the cops came and

02:29:30.800 since i had everything on video they saw me grab my phone from his hand because i was afraid he was i

02:29:36.720 mean we were in ojai we're in the middle of california mountains like it was very scary for me as a new

02:29:41.840 yorker through and through so um he tried to grab my phone for me and um i grabbed it back and the

02:29:49.040 cops were literally so nice here so different from the nypd the cops looked at me directly in the eyes

02:29:54.240 and said you're so sorry that we have to do this but we have to bring you in just because we saw you

02:29:59.520 grab your phone back and i was like that's my property though like i needed to record the situation

02:30:03.280 to show you guys and they're like we know like we're really sorry we're gonna process you as quickly

02:30:07.280 as possible and we're gonna get you out of here and then afterwards they came they escorted me

02:30:11.920 they made sure i was safe okay protected and have um safety afterwards and they profusely apologized to

02:30:18.000 me um so yeah that's crazy yeah little little spies brian he said that was crazy yeah sorry something

02:30:25.360 happened to him that was a few days ago are you still talking to him no absolutely not okay

02:30:30.720 okay well uh sorry to hear that you got involved with that uh situation it was actually one of what

02:30:38.080 you to what you were talking about earlier the facade of the nice guy until suddenly you don't give him

02:30:42.800 what he wants and that facade drops and it becomes dangerous and um it's unfortunate that i found myself

02:30:50.160 in that situation but i'm strong and i'll pick myself up so nicole oh devon malik donated 100

02:30:59.520 dollars doesn't that make you a prime example of why men shouldn't allow the woman they might want 1.00

02:31:04.960 to marry to date other men i'm sitting here on a tuesday and i get a phone call that the girl i might

02:31:10.640 love is in jail because she hit her other boyfriend phone oh god that's implying that i would call

02:31:18.560 another guy that i'm dating to try to bail me out of a situation that that was completely out of my

02:31:26.080 control and it's just no signs of red flags in my opinion so i don't think it's right to

02:31:33.920 to say that or make that assumption um i wouldn't you don't know who i called or what i did or how

02:31:39.280 i processed it or handled it so why don't you just keep your opinion to yourself on her behalf too i mean

02:31:44.720 don't forget the fact that this other man and question is the man that requested for them to be

02:31:49.680 seeing other people yes thank you kiko thank you and i'm also polygynous i'm also polygynous so i am

02:31:56.640 very much okay with guys dating other women and if they're okay with me dating other men i will do that

02:32:03.360 okay well thank you for sharing um so nicole let's go back you you uh the six thing come on

02:32:11.520 i was just teasing you in your dms i actually think you're higher than a six you literally just

02:32:18.000 said that's not the case doubling back don't don't uh walk back what you were saying unless you

02:32:26.240 genuinely believe it no i think you're i think no i think you're higher than a six when we're taking

02:32:31.920 into account like the full male scale right but i was just saying if we're just looking at like

02:32:38.400 cuteness factor i was like i don't know brian are you cuter than me um but on like the objective

02:32:45.360 man scale like how a woman would judge a man on the equivalent scale you're higher than a six i think

02:32:51.200 well that's the thing i feel like so that's all that was about i feel like you're trying to make

02:32:55.200 it really serious and i just feel like you would make a good look silly dm no i hit the wall so i no

02:33:02.480 men want me anymore yeah oh otherwise i'm there i'd let you maybe wear flannel and sweatpants and 0.92

02:33:09.120 i would buy my own coffee with you on our date i wouldn't even make you pay so sweet

02:33:19.680 oh i hope i left you speechless

02:33:21.680 i'm gonna pass on that but uh i'm a pass but um audi oh my god what huh what sorry i'm sorry i'm

02:33:36.400 sorry i'm sorry i'm sorry too early i don't get it i'm sorry what don't worry about it don't worry

02:33:41.440 it's too early it's too early to talk about that it's audi oh we all know what the audi is

02:33:45.920 what i don't know what is it okay i know okay no wait what something something came in i forgot

02:34:01.040 why you eat save it for after the show kiko i'm starving oh the other thing

02:34:09.040 you actually nick if you can pull up the uh one of the screenshots we have

02:34:16.320 oh that's not the one okay next one

02:34:20.640 that's not the one

02:34:24.720 yeah so on the show that you were on yeah you want we were talking about the jonah hill situation yes

02:34:31.120 and after the show you had all this smoke you wrote this whole thing about the jonah hill situation

02:34:36.720 how i guess it's controlling insecure abusive blah blah blah unfortunately when you were on the show

02:34:41.600 we didn't really hear her yeah this is my first time on the show no not an excuse but i'll read it

02:34:49.200 okay and because i couldn't get a word in while we chatted on this topic this is exactly what i wanted

02:34:55.280 to say one last thing before i go shoot i don't think it's appropriate to publicly post what she did i

02:35:01.920 i couldn't imagine doing this to someone my whole opinion is that jonah is insecure and trying to

02:35:06.960 control this control doesn't allow for freedom when one tries to control another's behavior it doesn't

02:35:12.880 work his ex was also incredibly immature in her handling of all of this i didn't see anything

02:35:18.720 that flagged would you mind speaking without a condescending tone towards me i mean this is

02:35:24.080 this is how you would speak you know that's not how this is my i don't mind you bringing this up this

02:35:29.120 is my impression of like a uh a stereotypical female okay like a valley girl i just asked something if

02:35:38.560 oh so it's okay for you to joke but when i joke it's not okay no i didn't because what you literally

02:35:44.080 just admitted to having joked about the the sixth thing okay continue on then i was just a request

02:35:50.000 but it's it's perfectly okay for you to joke around when we're speaking about my physical

02:35:55.360 appearance but if i'm facetiously making a voice oh my god then you're up in arms no you literally

02:36:03.600 you can joke around interrupted you you just interrupted me while i was reading it objecting

02:36:07.840 to the way i was kind of humorously doing a female voice i did okay okay so you can

02:36:13.840 continue on it was just a request okay okay but like so but i just joked around you know that i

02:36:22.720 don't mind being joked around with and being teased and being roasted which is precisely what i was

02:36:28.000 very milk in a very milqueto sort of way what i was doing okay i just made a request that i don't do

02:36:34.960 that you don't use that tone of voice let's continue reading it go ahead uh uh 0.98

02:36:40.320 fuck hold on let's wait till that fucking clears kahil brian is a 10 simply because he runs a podcast 0.99

02:36:45.920 like this the women of the panel please name one jesus christ thank you davon malik imagine getting 0.99

02:36:52.880 mad at me because i stated my opinion on information i didn't ask for um you're indulging in this podcast

02:37:00.720 so i mean information you didn't ask for you could turn it off wait what's this in

02:37:06.480 relationship response to what i said to when is he the one who made the comment saying that like

02:37:12.160 now she's gonna go call another man about getting out of jail and he's saying now that

02:37:18.080 oh yeah he did leave that yeah it's no we're not no one's getting mad at you i was just clearly stating

02:37:23.280 that your point is mute yeah it does it has you have no point because the man that you're concerned

02:37:30.640 about her calling is the man who wants for them not to be in a committed relationship and information

02:37:36.960 you don't want you're the one in choosing to watch this podcast about our dating lives so it is

02:37:42.400 information you wanted thank you okay let me get this one from kahil while i've got it brian is a 10

02:37:50.800 simply because he runs a podcast like this the women on the panel please name one thing you've done that 0.68

02:37:56.080 may remotely compare to everything a 10 like brian has built i mean but the the 10 thing i mean the

02:38:03.840 the rating thing is about look so i mean i don't really fact you can't really factor perhaps uh what's

02:38:11.200 the term uh like the overall picture you can say well my personality i've got a great personality so that

02:38:19.360 bumps me up a point or whatever i'm successful so but uh thank you thank you for kahil appreciate it

02:38:26.080 yeah someone else coming in on this i don't know one thing you've done that may remotely compare

02:38:32.560 to everything at 10 like i think i do that's cool i know i'm like the most hated i'm the ultimate baby

02:38:42.000 mama i'm just hated i'm in the air force pilot or just like a mechanic yep a medic in the air force

02:38:51.200 yeah okay good time med tech a nurturing military military all right that's good nailed it yeah it's

02:38:59.040 not a competition guys i mean it's not a competition i'm sure everyone here at this

02:39:03.920 panel has achieved all sorts of wonderful things kiko for example she um anyways 0.92

02:39:11.680 i'm sorry well speaking of his magnificent podcast that he has yeah what has kiko done

02:39:22.080 listen kiko has accumulated brian about six million views on his live podcast maybe another 20 plus views

02:39:30.800 on short eclipse just on his own um channels by the way not including the random promotion

02:39:39.040 that he's gone no not all the credit definitely was with the help of chase i couldn't do it without

02:39:43.360 good old chasey boy but and you're also on the michael knowles panel too i mean i was on michael

02:39:48.240 knowles i was with ali i've been on a few good ones oh we can't forget taytay i feel like that one

02:39:55.120 didn't get a lot of views it did it and i know it pissed her off so bad i know she's are you down

02:39:59.840 to box taytay if that's going to be about 10 grand she i marquavius are you still in the chat we need 0.97

02:40:06.000 i have no problem that woman will for sure beat my ass i mean first of all boxing let me not i mean 1.00

02:40:13.040 she comment you're scrappy i think you i've never been in a fight in my life i've never physically 0.99

02:40:18.400 i don't think that happens did i use that yeah that was correct scrappy i'm not a fighter i'm a

02:40:24.320 lover determined wait scrappy like boxing has weight classes determined or pugnacious one is 0.61

02:40:31.600 eager or quick to argue okay i didn't really use that in the right way i think but

02:40:36.560 okay whatever um maybe there's other definitions i don't know but are you down to boxer if marquavius

02:40:43.120 um if he funds it for 10k for sure i know she wants to fight me she's made a couple videos about 1.00

02:40:50.560 it are you down wait are you down to set up a let's i want to do a boxing event we're gonna have

02:40:57.920 madison fight who do you want to fight madison while you're back

02:41:05.360 i mean we can oh madison's gonna fight sophia kiko's gonna fight taytay what's the main event

02:41:13.120 um uh who are you beefing philly you gotta i feel like you've avoided beef right or i don't know

02:41:24.720 yes i do avoid beef okay i i try not i i oh sorry oh there he is donated 100 i'm here i boxed for 12

02:41:34.880 years i got confused you want me to box huh i don't hit women unless they beg me 0.99

02:41:41.360 um kika do you want to box a man what if he identifies as a woman 0.97

02:41:50.080 um well if we're gonna bring up that topic no i am not for trans in women's sports so

02:41:55.360 oh okay all right okay slow clap i mean i it's i feel like it's a very new topic that we've had to

02:42:03.200 explore in recent times but um i have a pretty yeah we don't at all but i have a very uh

02:42:11.920 okay that's even why before like when i think her name is deborah was going on her little spiel at

02:42:17.120 the end of one of my episodes where i last rage quit that's why i tried saying it wasn't what she

02:42:22.160 was saying that i was trying to shut down because i don't agree with her or anything there was many

02:42:25.760 points she was saying that i do agree with it was just the fact that it was 12 30 in the morning and

02:42:30.400 she was bringing up topics that we hadn't even touched on yet that cannot be discussed

02:42:34.720 which shouldn't be discussed at 12 30 because it's going to be hours long and you guys were here

02:42:39.520 for another hour after one of the morning somebody said brian versus bangs i'm totally down for that one

02:42:45.600 why i don't maybe because that would be wonderful but uh but uh it's not a backpedal

02:42:56.000 it would be kiko versus taytay one of their previous episodes they had quite a back and forth so and

02:43:04.640 she's continued to make multiple videos about it so i don't know who this person is yeah i don't

02:43:10.000 either because her she's a content creator she's a content creator hey be nice no i'm not i'm not

02:43:16.320 come on be nice to no i'm just saying like because there's been a lot of viral clips that go around

02:43:19.840 from your podcast and there hasn't been that many viral clips from that segment so not a lot of people

02:43:24.720 are like what does she create she's um pro man's emotions and feelings based yeah like and i totally

02:43:33.680 totally get it that's not my beat with her at all um i think all right so marquavius we will email you

02:43:39.440 about scheduling this boxing event um so we'll we'll we'll get a card sorted and we'll have a

02:43:48.320 a uh you know main card and whatnot you should get it promoted by zeus who the who

02:43:53.760 zeus is like a network program that has all that guy batty south and uh krishan and blue face where

02:44:03.040 their shows are sure let's pull back up that club let's get back into that all right where did i leave

02:44:10.080 off here uh third paragraph both of both of them or i don't i don't know if i want to be petty and just

02:44:17.440 continue both both of them were engaging in manipulation north of them should have

02:44:23.760 north of them should have do you know how to spell i think i was uh saying both

02:44:30.240 oh yeah neither all right that's probably what it autocorrected okay yeah yeah blame it on

02:44:37.520 north of them neither of them should have exited the relationship far before it ended it seems like

02:44:42.160 there could have been behaviors she exhibited that would make a man not want to be in a relationship 0.97

02:44:47.200 but okay the jonah the jonah leave her i don't know the purpose of her publicly posting all the text 0.70

02:44:52.080 to me it's poor taste neither of them impressed me both are in the wrong they both need to learn

02:44:56.000 what actual boundaries are uh so yeah agree with you on the first part definitely wrong of her to 1.00

02:45:01.920 fucking expose jonah with leaking the shit but you said that he was either insecure or 0.96

02:45:08.640 it wasn't actually boundaries or what's your actual position on that the conversation that day 0.99

02:45:13.920 what i what i the point that i wanted to make is there's a difference between trying to control

02:45:22.000 someone and get into this game of behavior control and setting up personal boundaries and standards

02:45:30.720 so if jonah hill was dating this woman i don't know what she was doing but if she was doing things that 0.91

02:45:40.640 before he knew her i mean so she posted bathing suit photos and stuff she was doing this before they 0.84

02:45:47.120 dated to me jonah would look at that and say well before i enter into a relationship with this woman

02:45:54.320 if she's posting these surfing photos and surfing with men that boundary could be established up front 0.70

02:46:00.720 he'd say look i really like you but these things bother me make me uncomfortable etc etc and a boundary of

02:46:08.240 mine is like i want to pursue this relationship but i can't be with a woman who does xyz and then 0.96

02:46:13.920 the woman could respond and and say hey no that's what i do and then jonah can say okay cool walk away 1.00

02:46:21.120 but what it seemed to me and i don't know the details of it but when we are reading through their

02:46:25.360 text messages it looked like this power struggle and this like manipulation from both sides and him

02:46:31.120 saying well i told you take that down and why did you do that and then she's blasting publicly to me it just 1.00

02:46:37.120 shows immaturity on both sides so i think it's important to have personal boundaries of what you

02:46:45.280 will and will not accept in a partner and what your preferences are your non-negotiables

02:46:49.840 and jonah should form a boundary and then pull himself away from the scenario

02:46:55.360 and vet a different woman so and on her end what she did 0.99

02:47:00.560 i mean no words for that but i just saw them as both in the wrong and both not functioning in a

02:47:08.080 healthy way within the relationship and so yeah so do you do you object to him for example not

02:47:15.040 wanting to her to post revealing photos i don't know she previously was posting revealing photos no i

02:47:21.520 don't object to that oh wait i don't object to him saying i am not i don't want to date a woman who

02:47:30.800 posts bikini photos okay you object to him saying it who knows how long into the relationship i think

02:47:39.600 that since it's something that she did prior to entering the relationship it's a discussion that

02:47:44.240 should be had in the beginning or as they get into it but when you read those text messages it clearly went

02:47:51.120 very far it went beyond jonah asking expressing her saying yes or no and then jonah saying you know

02:47:56.960 what she's not the woman for me her values don't align my boundaries are higher walk away like when 1.00

02:48:02.320 you look at those text messages this has been festering in their relationship becoming very very toxic

02:48:08.160 and i saw what looked to be both of them in a power struggle him trying to gain some kind of control

02:48:17.360 and her using manipulation with him and i just thought the whole thing was kind of a mess this 0.98

02:48:23.280 is a stupid conversation i mean she leaked these messages it's a personal relationship um we shouldn't 0.95

02:48:30.720 be giving any attention to her because i don't agree with anybody leaking a personal text message i think 1.00

02:48:36.000 this is just a stupid conversation to be having like who the hell cares about their text messages i agree 0.97

02:48:40.480 i just think it's a waste of time i mean we clearly we i think we can all agree it was dumb of her to 0.99

02:48:47.920 leak these messages that's a breach of his privacy so why are we giving her attention

02:48:53.840 we're doing exactly what she wants right now i think that was the entire purpose of her leaking

02:48:58.560 those text messages yeah and now we here we are on the whatever podcast talking about this girl's

02:49:03.520 messages we're giving her everything she wants it's like i don't know who she is i don't know who she is

02:49:07.840 either i never looked it up it's like kind of the same thing if you guys she leaked them for a reason

02:49:11.280 and we're doing exactly the adam levine situation like how adam levine's mistress it was really clear

02:49:18.640 that she wasn't posting about it because she felt bad that she was cheating it was because she wanted

02:49:23.440 to further her career as a social media influencer so she decided to do that sure i mean look we can um

02:49:30.080 um ignoring the specifics of their relationship and how it was uh inappropriate for her we're reading

02:49:38.400 into messages that were it's a relationship we're not even correct we don't know it's overarching okay

02:49:43.200 but but the pivot is okay well what the discussion is what are what about boundaries and relationships

02:49:50.400 is it okay for your partner to post revealing photos online what what is a boundary what is controlling

02:49:55.520 for example a lot of men don't want to date women who go out to bars and nightclubs for some men it's

02:50:00.480 a boundary of hey i don't want to date a woman who then don't so but also i think that's exactly what

02:50:08.000 jonah hill said to her but if you want to be with a man who has these types of boundaries i'm under the

02:50:13.040 impression that he'll decided to see her instagram and everything she posts and decide to start a

02:50:17.520 relationship with her sure why start a relationship with a woman who even does that to begin with there's 1.00

02:50:22.000 plenty of women who don't do that how michaela said she doesn't have she's maybe a one piece photo 1.00

02:50:26.160 he should have went and found a woman like michaela who's not posting those things why try to find a 0.98

02:50:30.080 partner to change them it might be different if i mean not even this day and age it won't even happen

02:50:35.120 but why because if she's posted because if she's posting those photos as a single woman trying to get 1.00

02:50:39.440 attention and then she's willing to stop doing that there are plenty of settles down with a man there 0.98

02:50:44.160 but i mean i haven't i is there an example we can think of of a woman who posts like that and then 1.00

02:50:50.480 gets in a relationship and decides not to it's i think it's there's a fine line between it because

02:50:55.280 it's like if she's only posting maybe something that's a little bit tempting and she realizes

02:50:59.680 out of respect for her man now that she doesn't want to do those things sure but a woman who's 1.00

02:51:04.080 consecutively almost every single post that she has is thirst trappy the odds of her getting a 1.00

02:51:09.040 relationship and stopping that cold turkey i feel like are very rare if anything we see time and time

02:51:13.840 again men being upset when their woman decides not to stop doing those things just like if you

02:51:20.080 go out if you start dating a man who's known to be very flirtatious and talk to many women

02:51:26.080 and once you guys start dating he continues to do those things are you how can you be so surprised

02:51:32.240 like he showed you who he is but okay so i mean your recommendation is is that you you're saying oh

02:51:37.520 the boundary should be expressed immediately so like let's say you're going on a first date with a

02:51:42.880 girl who has bikini photos on her instagram do you think you're really going to make a strong case on a

02:51:48.320 first date to instantly be like hey i want you to take your photos down like be honest like that's

02:51:54.320 not going to work you can only you can only make that sort of play when you have a you've built a

02:52:00.880 bit more of something a bit more of a relationship there's no way i'm going on a first date with a

02:52:06.080 girl and immediately like she's immediately going to fall into my frame of hey i don't appreciate you

02:52:11.360 having these photos out there i totally a lot of people have been brainwashed into like oh let's just

02:52:16.000 post super promiscuous photos that's totally cool blah blah blah so i mean i i agree that you

02:52:21.840 can't bring that up on a first date or in the beginning that's why you shouldn't date that woman 1.00

02:52:25.600 at all like my posts maybe some of my posts you might think is promiscuous but they're not i post

02:52:29.760 myself i'm a young woman but i have i think maybe a bikini picture from 2018 up i'm i don't post like

02:52:36.320 that so my boyfriend wouldn't have to worry about it i i agree with you on that because i feel like if you

02:52:43.840 wait until after you start a relationship with this person you're asking them to change

02:52:47.680 like how do you know they're going to do it yeah like well originally like i feel like you should

02:52:51.360 be searching for the person for me personally i'm searching for the person i want to marry

02:52:55.520 and so i don't i wouldn't ask them to immediately right off the bat change like if they're posting

02:53:00.720 revealing stuff so be it you're not the person for me kind of thing and move on like that's not

02:53:05.760 the person i would be looking for i disagree i think that people are absolutely willing to change for

02:53:10.720 people i think that what brian said about boundaries anyone who thinks that setting a boundary

02:53:16.080 the moment you meet somebody and they're just going to be like oh okay like like no way it's

02:53:21.280 never going to happen a lot of times it takes like okay put your foot down and like put it in their head

02:53:25.760 and by the way as a man who has dated women a lot of times when you do that the first reaction is

02:53:31.440 highly emotional highly defensive right because essentially when you set a boundary what are you

02:53:34.720 telling someone you did something wrong that's essentially what you're saying and maybe it's not

02:53:39.600 wrong at least it bothered me and a lot of times when you tell a woman that they bothered you they

02:53:44.880 immediately say that they are bothered by the fact that you were bothered and their feelings that

02:53:49.280 are hurt are now more important than your feelings that are hurt and another one of the big

02:53:53.680 reasons why i want to talk because i think one of the other things that you had a problem with

02:53:56.400 was just the median the medium by with he by which he set the boundary right you're like it should have

02:54:01.280 been a more just responsible in person like easy conversation where you just like sat down and

02:54:07.040 and hashed it out well i mean that's things are messy though i mean there's always the ideal of

02:54:13.120 what a conversation should look like i just saw from the limited text messages that from both directions

02:54:19.520 it was that's quite off the rails but it's also like with me and her and and i'm this isn't about

02:54:27.040 this isn't even about like setting boundaries it's like every once in a while like me and her might get

02:54:30.080 into like just like a heated back and forth and then like i'll like go to the gym or something

02:54:33.680 like that i take a second and like rather than like sitting down and being like okay like rather

02:54:38.160 than like say something that like might get her a little upset and then we have to deal with like

02:54:42.800 being upset why don't i just like think about what i want to say send a text that's like exactly

02:54:47.280 what i want what like what i wanted to say back to her and then she reads it goes oh hearts the message

02:54:53.200 i come back hey we're good now yeah cool guys will use that like written medium to just get every single

02:54:59.520 thought out before you can even have the emotional reaction to interrupt him in his chain of logical

02:55:04.880 thinking that's not to say women aren't logical you guys are still logical thinkers but you do

02:55:08.960 have a tendency to let your emotions guide the direction of the conversation so that's one of

02:55:14.480 the big reasons why guys will use this written medium to get these points across so it comes across

02:55:19.600 as like highly controlling very odd very robotic but that's just him being like you know what i've

02:55:24.560 tried to have this comment it might have been i've tried to have this conversation before

02:55:27.360 she doesn't freaking listen to me so i'm just going to spell it out and if she wants to go

02:55:31.040 she'll go she wants to say she'll stay that's as a guy i can 100 that's fair that i don't know you

02:55:37.760 but this short time that i've been sitting with you i have a feeling that however you text your

02:55:43.280 girlfriend does not look like jonah and we're also a lot further along in our relationship than they

02:55:50.000 probably so i i i understand what you're saying and i agree with what you're saying um there's just

02:55:57.200 a difference between boundaries donated 100 when you start going from initial dating to a steady

02:56:03.520 relationship it's also typically expected unless otherwise specified that the relationship be

02:56:09.840 monogamous as they become more serious about one another they should start changing their behaviors

02:56:16.480 yo raven dt thank you very much for the tts and uh just one note really quick on this and i'll let

02:56:21.120 you continue um yeah i mean prior to dating so jonah had no problem with her engaging in what he

02:56:26.240 considered single behavior i think even the text revealed that he had initially even liked one of her

02:56:33.440 surfing bikini photos whatever it may be but once they started dating he wanted her to act in a way

02:56:39.040 that he thought was consistent with her being in a relationship so what was once acceptable when

02:56:46.320 she was single or at the very beginning of the relationship soon became not acceptable when he

02:56:51.520 actually wanted to become serious and just see her have the relationship develop so and continue on

02:56:58.400 with your point i don't think i have anything else to say i'm in agreement with that um what i was in

02:57:05.120 what i was seeing in the text messages was jonah hill instead of standing like firm in a boundary and

02:57:12.080 like communicating it just from what i saw looked like it was coming from a place of him being a

02:57:19.440 little controlling um which control is just different from a boundary and i also saw on her 1.00

02:57:25.600 end she was definitely being manipulative i mean you can see that immediately but i don't i don't have 1.00

02:57:32.800 like big passionate feelings towards them i don't know them but all right yeah but i did but i wanted to

02:57:37.920 say that because i didn't get to say all right fair enough um all right we have ninja smoke house

02:57:42.720 hey thank you man i'm married now however when my wife met me i was sleeping with other women should 1.00

02:57:47.280 i still be able to she met me that way good point no people should change from doing single things

02:57:54.560 to relationship behaviors when off the market have you not changed for a boyfriend of course that's not

02:58:00.880 what i'm stating at all i just don't i think what i'm trying to say is the issue might be having is

02:58:08.400 some men find the way women act on instagram should be different in a relationship versus not where i

02:58:14.560 believe where i'm saying is most women are acting the same on instagram whether they're in a relationship 0.99

02:58:20.160 or not so like a woman who is posting can sick consecutively in a thirst trappy manner or such

02:58:27.840 is probably going to want to continue to do so and you know a woman who doesn't like it i would get if 1.00

02:58:34.560 it was she was posting a certain way and then you guys are dating and then she starts posting these more

02:58:40.560 provocative images and you're going to be like okay like you know but i just don't see how instagram

02:58:47.360 could be a detail like yeah maybe not going out and clubbing all the time yes obviously not sliding

02:58:52.640 into people's dms if she's doing that thing or responding to abundance of messages of course but

02:58:58.080 i just don't personally know any woman who change the way that they post on social media depending if 0.96

02:59:04.800 they're in a relationship or not because remember social media is forever like social media is forever

02:59:08.560 so just in case she deletes it i mean the picture is still around what makes a difference if that

02:59:12.240 bikini picture was posted last year versus now i have plenty of plenty of friends that

02:59:16.960 change the way that they behave on social media when they're in a relationship versus when they're 0.92

02:59:20.960 single and like what are they like are they what are they sure bikini ass photos like okay because 0.69

02:59:26.480 me personally i wouldn't do that in a relationship or not and i feel like even if they're not doing

02:59:31.120 like i feel like that still says something about her if she's doing that while single sure i i completely 0.83

02:59:36.480 agree that like i i wouldn't do that as well so like value wise i'm definitely different than those

02:59:41.520 women but there are definitely things how no matter how small or large that they are there are 1.00

02:59:45.600 behaviors that all of us engage in that we would do while we're single that we would not do in a

02:59:50.560 relationship and should not do in a relationship yes but i just think it's risky behavior to get

02:59:54.720 into a relationship with somebody have the time go on and then be like okay this is not what i'm

03:00:00.560 okay with like i think you have to realize there's always a chance for them to not want to do it and

03:00:05.920 that's kind of what we saw in the jonah hill situation where she didn't want to do sure but it's

03:00:09.440 completely reasonable for him to ask her not to and expect her not to because that is not

03:00:13.920 that's not behavior that aligns with being in a relationship i get your point but it's like if

03:00:19.040 that's his his views and alignment he doesn't want his woman posting that on instagram whatever 0.99

03:00:24.080 but i mean everyone still knows that that's your girlfriend that was just posting her ass two months 1.00

03:00:28.240 ago so like i if you're worried about an image and how she's portraying yourself and that's so 0.97

03:00:33.120 important to you well but you're still advertising yourself as single if you're posting bikini photos on the 0.95

03:00:37.840 internet while you're single you are instagram is the largest dating app in in the entire world

03:00:44.080 it's the largest dating online dating platform i think at the end it just boils down to the fact

03:00:47.680 that he probably didn't feel respected yeah like in our relationship granted we are in a weird situation

03:00:54.320 where i have male followers on my platform but every single thing i post whether it's a photo which i

03:01:00.640 rarely post or a video which i post every day he watches every single thing before it goes up even

03:01:06.800 stories like i run every single thing i post by him not because i'm like hey do you approve

03:01:13.440 of this post no i just everything it's just a respect thing if he doesn't like something i'm

03:01:17.760 about to post i don't post it i i get that because i've done the same thing that's not my point at all

03:01:22.480 i just my more so question is because we only we mostly see this on the male side right we don't really

03:01:29.760 see a woman dating a man that has like maybe pictures on the beach being like i want you to take

03:01:33.600 those down and stop posting i can give you the male equivalent in a second okay but it's just i

03:01:37.280 just what i my whole point is it just it is kind of weird to me maybe it's not a point but overall

03:01:44.560 question i have but how a man is comfortable with his girl posting all that before we're together

03:01:51.920 but now that they're together out of respect you don't post it anymore but like i mean if because why

03:01:56.640 she looks like a hoe i mean your girl's still known as a hoe it's because she looks single 1.00

03:02:01.360 exactly you if you're posting that while you're single i'm not saying that i encourage it but it

03:02:06.720 is quote-unquote acceptable because you are advertising yourself as single if you continue

03:02:11.920 to post those photos while you're in a in a relationship you are still advertising yourself

03:02:16.720 as though you are single okay i think that's also differences i've never like you guys say instagram

03:02:21.120 the biggest dating app in the world which i i definitely see how it is for sure but it's i've

03:02:26.480 never used my instagram single or not i've never been like i'm advertising myself sure either of my

03:02:32.720 instagram is more i mean people i don't believe it here but mine's more of like this is what i'm

03:02:37.120 doing this is what i'm up to this is my life i've never been like oh i'm gonna post this because

03:02:41.440 this is like sexy single like they're gonna see me so i guess that's why my mind is a little bit

03:02:46.240 more different because i don't think of social media in that way no absolutely i don't either

03:02:51.600 because like if i want to post a bikini picture it's not because i'm like oh i'm looking sexy and

03:02:54.640 i want to post this it's because i was at the beach i live at california i go to the beach every single

03:02:59.040 day almost i spend a lot of my time here so sure and like there's a difference between posting like

03:03:04.000 a group photo of you and your friends at the beach versus you posing in like a promiscuous pose and

03:03:10.080 posting that on social media when you're like me going like like you know i'm smiling whatever from the

03:03:14.240 front but yeah from when he turned around martin donated 100 thank you ladies follow this advice

03:03:21.440 and win date someone a bit older than you yeah ensure that your core beliefs are aligned religion 0.98

03:03:28.320 family etc if he's the right man you'll gladly acquiesce to his frame but most men are weak losers

03:03:36.720 more for brian than me uh thank you marquavius um date wait someone will ensure that your core

03:03:46.960 release oh that's good if he's the right man do you mind if i say something i personally i i don't

03:03:53.680 disagree with dating older personally i would not because i feel like you're missing out on a lot of

03:03:58.640 life experiences with that person and personally like i want to be broke in our 20s together eating ramen

03:04:06.160 like i think i don't think it's quote unquote fun but it's an experience of growing together

03:04:11.440 and that may be a personal value i have of mine but i definitely don't see where that be beneficial

03:04:16.560 for all women i think if you go in with that mentality it forces you to grow up faster i think 0.99

03:04:20.960 that's the other thing a lot of people think like you find the person and now you are who you are

03:04:26.000 if you go into it thinking like we could actually create something very very unique and powerful

03:04:30.800 together i felt like i wish that i like i wish that i dated differently when i was younger i was

03:04:36.560 kind of brainwashed the same way that i said a lot of women the way you said a lot of women were earlier

03:04:41.040 like i didn't have like like i always i think i kind of always knew that i wanted to find a wife

03:04:46.560 and get married but i was like i can wait like i should become a certain type of man i should do this

03:04:51.200 like i do believe that the advice to men to focus on yourselves and turn yourself into a more

03:04:58.160 desirable option more of a high value man can certainly benefit you in the modern dating world

03:05:04.000 but i think that if men could separate from the end goal and more key in on the characteristics that

03:05:14.000 get you to be a high value man they could get develop those characteristics between the ages of

03:05:18.800 like 16 to 22 and then they will be able to latch on sorry they'll be able to find a girl at that age

03:05:28.160 and they will be able to stimulate her they'll be able to attract her because she will see the

03:05:31.760 ambition and she will see the potential that is definitely something that can happen but men need

03:05:36.720 to start focusing in on those characteristics rather than just abandoning dating altogether and

03:05:42.400 thinking i'm just going to use the characteristics to get to age 30 and then and then find my my special

03:05:46.640 someone you said that you had something in response to kiko the the uh male version was it yeah and

03:05:52.880 the conversation steered a little bit differently so now it's not quite the direct comparison but i do think this

03:05:58.000 is an important thing to bring up i think there there's a very very like direct core a direct

03:06:07.360 parallel that you can draw between women's upset women's obsession with social media and men's

03:06:12.320 obsession with porn i think that when you really break it down the currencies you hear this all the

03:06:17.280 time the currency for women is attention the currency for men is sex right and if you wanted to just put

03:06:22.880 it into a very very simple parallel if a man was was like watching a lot of porn when he was single

03:06:30.000 because he just wasn't getting laid all that often he needed to like get off satisfy himself

03:06:34.640 um and then he got together with you and he was just like yeah i'm just going to keep watching a lot

03:06:38.560 of porn i'm going to keep just like doing that you would probably find that to be weird okay so i mean

03:06:45.360 i i'm not trying to be argumentative sake but my response to that would be i would never date a man

03:06:52.320 who walked consumes a lot of porn to begin with so i wouldn't have that problem okay but why are men

03:06:58.560 consuming porn it's because they're not getting laid so when he starts getting laid first of all he's 0.78

03:07:05.760 probably going to think to himself i don't need porn as much because now i can get off having sex or 0.90

03:07:11.440 through some other form of intercourse and he's going to think to himself i should probably just 0.89

03:07:16.400 stop doing this for my partner i should start acting like a man who's in a relationship and not

03:07:22.160 you know going to wherever i go to like open up my laptop and just pleasure myself i mean i've

03:07:27.520 literally out of my long-term relationships i i know when they say that they're not lying they don't

03:07:33.200 watch porn they were never porn consumers to begin with i don't find i'm not really usually attracted to

03:07:39.520 men who do not saying that's i mean i am saying it could be a bad thing to over consume but not

03:07:45.680 is a problem with men the over consumption of porn but there's not all men obviously that over consume

03:07:50.880 porn but if i did have that issue i do see your overarching point um that's kind of like what my

03:07:57.120 response is like i feel like you could just not have to worry about this if you just don't

03:08:01.520 date someone who's doing that okay so do you think that like um porn in general for men like

03:08:12.320 like oh sorry um like who determines uh the value of porn like who the consumer right right right so

03:08:23.840 are you i'm just confused on what you're saying so you're saying that like

03:08:26.240 like can you elaborate on what you're saying no what i'm saying is men go to porn to satisfy

03:08:33.520 their like innate mating need their lack of their lack of sex their sexual desire women go to social 0.99

03:08:41.200 media to get the attention from men it's like the very very cycle that feeds itself yes women are 1.00

03:08:47.760 seeking attention so that they then have an opportunity with the man who they're trying to

03:08:51.920 get the attention from men are looking for sex but what would you say about the women that have 1.00

03:08:56.960 like only fans or porn hub or something like that that like all of in the comments basically just a

03:09:01.760 bunch of quote unquote simps like those aren't men that high value men that like women actually want

03:09:08.000 those are men those are men that like they would want to take advantage of and take money from

03:09:12.000 um wait what i'm gonna stomp that out right there okay because i do only fans and i'm gonna tell you

03:09:18.160 right now that i have simps that you guys would quote unquote call them simps but i like them i have

03:09:25.920 genuine stop the cap they're paying you no i have relationships with most of these guys before they

03:09:32.080 even pay me define relationships yeah you know what i mean like friendships you know what i mean like

03:09:37.440 i know these people they're not friends if they want to see you naked they desire they desire you

03:09:42.720 from afar you find that hard to believe truly that they're not friends with me just because

03:09:47.120 i mean that's extremely true because as a woman you probably had multiple friends that are

03:09:52.720 friends that are men men and definitely want to see you they definitely want to see you naked but

03:09:56.640 i would still consider them a friend even if that was their i mean that's crazy to say just

03:10:01.040 because somebody wants to know but by definition you're not friends

03:10:03.760 girl if you're not a girl if i had a male friend that subscribed if i made it only

03:10:09.840 i'm not saying never what i would never not your statement was he's not your friend if he wants to

03:10:16.400 see you naked but i'm saying if you're an attractive woman that has male friends there's a good chance 1.00

03:10:22.640 that even if you're still your true friend they want to see you naked i agree with that statement but

03:10:27.120 we're talking about somebody in the event that they have a paid platform where they can literally

03:10:31.600 subscribe and pay to see you naked i would never ever ever if in some random world i had that

03:10:38.480 sort of platform i would never be friends with somebody that would subscribe to something like

03:10:42.560 that i'm just saying your friend no i'm just saying i think you're completely wrong i wasn't talking

03:10:47.200 about the overall thing yeah i think you're just like a fantasy from afar if they're asking they're

03:10:52.560 paying you ten dollars you got you have to realize that a lot of these people like i come from a small

03:10:58.160 area okay they could subscribe to anybody else on only fans i guess they could right but i guess

03:11:04.400 they're putting money in my pocket instead right well a lot of the appeal of only fans too is like

03:11:08.960 why these women do so well their first month and then like don't do well anymore is because a lot of 1.00

03:11:14.320 men who've known them their whole life wanted to subscribe in the beginning just to see like

03:11:18.880 this girl they've known their whole life they have a chance to see them naked it is a big it does

03:11:22.960 happen a lot yes doesn't that just prove her point yeah that it's not friendship that it's not

03:11:30.240 friendship definitionally that's not this is the depth that you want to talk about nice guy no that

03:11:33.760 is the longest nice guy yes yes yes i'm literally just pointing out her like individual statements

03:11:41.040 that she's saying not the actual thing of what she's talking about is just how statements can get

03:11:45.520 construed it is what i'm saying no it's not about whether or not he's allowed to be your friend

03:11:50.720 like you can i'll say it like you can think that he's your friend and he will treat you with respect

03:11:57.680 he'll be nice to you he'll be kind to you he'll do things for you he might even like confide in you

03:12:02.320 allow you to confide in him but the moment the moment that you were like i want something more 0.97

03:12:08.800 let's let's have sex do you have sex with your friends i have then they're not friends 0.98

03:12:15.520 friendship is platonic i consider friends with benefits okay though so you guys probably don't 0.99

03:12:20.560 see things on that same level you're probably not in the same views as i have so okay so like let's

03:12:27.760 just say that you were let's just say that you were like dating like you are dating a guy right now

03:12:33.120 right like you're dating a guy right now if you had these like male friendships like friendships

03:12:41.920 with guys who like subscribe to you like actually intimately desire you they're like they're they're

03:12:48.480 admitting that like and they're able to see you naked right like like how like how does he feel

03:12:54.880 knowing that there are like other men that you would consider to be like close intimate relationships he's

03:13:00.000 on it also he's not my only fans with me well oh okay what my partner's on my only fans with me

03:13:08.480 he makes content with her he is also a sex worker wow this is like the most full circle

03:13:18.000 i'm just saying like you know like good times and that's like the whole point when it brings up like

03:13:23.920 so you're find someone who's for you like meet someone with the same values as you things same

03:13:30.000 things you're comfortable with that's the whole thing that was not the point of the conversation

03:13:33.200 though the point of the conversation was whether the men on your only fans can be your friends or

03:13:37.120 not and friendship is platonic by definition therefore they cannot be your friends because

03:13:41.280 you're an object of desire and sexual affection that's just how it works i find that hard to believe

03:13:46.080 but well it's the truth agree disagree i think you're wrong you think i'm wrong so agree disagree

03:13:52.240 i think they can value you but only to a certain extent are they in person like do you know these

03:13:57.040 guys in person or some of us do the guys in person that are your friends pay you for nudes sometimes yes

03:14:05.040 no comment i withdraw zero zero comment i quit you rest your case i rest my case all right fair

03:14:12.320 enough not much to say sort of taking it back to uh this thing about the the differences between men and

03:14:19.600 women you cold now can you close actually i don't have a lot of caffeine i've been drinking like three

03:14:26.960 celsius since i've been here i have something from a twitter account unfortunately i can't say the name

03:14:33.840 because it's a little bit uh you know a little bit haram so um but it relates to our discussions of

03:14:41.280 kind of the posting revealing photos on instagram but more precisely uh men not wanting their partners

03:14:48.640 going out to bars and clubs and parties and whatnot so and you more often hear you more often hear men

03:14:56.160 objecting to their partners going out to nightclubs bars etc etc at least for me personally i would not

03:15:02.880 want to uh i would not take a woman seriously who goes out to bars and clubs and parties the difference is 1.00

03:15:09.120 is that women run passive game and this is i'm crediting this to uh let's just say ldg on twitter 1.00

03:15:17.280 they don't approach men but they put themselves in positions where they could be approached by men

03:15:22.720 clubs for example they won't dm a man but they'll post a picture to lure him into dming them so this

03:15:28.000 comes back to our topic of you know the revealing photos right mainstream media doesn't want you to know

03:15:33.280 this men are salesmen women are marketers but most guys are too naive and lack the capacity for

03:15:38.480 nuanced thinking to be able to identify this distinction in a committed relationship a man

03:15:44.000 should stop pitching and a woman should stop advertising so fair proposition so advertising 1.00

03:15:51.120 posting revealing photos on instagram going to the nightclub bar etc but most men are fooled into

03:15:56.080 believing that just because their woman isn't also initiating conversations with other men that

03:16:01.520 everything is good she was never initiating conversations to begin with that's not how she operates

03:16:06.400 we utilize different strategies to get similar outcomes as a guy you stop talking to women you

03:16:12.560 gave up your edge but she never stopped putting herself out there that's why she already had a 0.97

03:16:17.360 replacement for you after the breakup because she never stopped marketing she was generating leads 0.93

03:16:21.920 the whole time uh and then there's a bit more about he's making an analogy when it comes to rhinos and

03:16:27.280 stuff um i that makes sense yeah uh so yeah

03:16:36.960 does it make sense kind of i i see the comparison i get what they're getting at and that definitely

03:16:43.360 is something i see how it happens and that's for some people but yeah i guess

03:16:49.280 because like it doesn't matter to me it doesn't the amount i post does not change if i'm single or not like

03:16:55.360 what i post doesn't change if i'm single or not because i guess i'm not posting things to begin with

03:17:02.560 that are single activity and like yes you're saying like we're advertising ourselves but i know

03:17:07.600 like pull up your instagram kiko go for it all right but the like worst part of my night and my

03:17:12.800 friends nights if we do go out like when we would go out is men approaching us that's probably the

03:17:17.760 worst part of your nights i i don't go out i don't have any friends either i actually know i won't

03:17:22.640 say any why do you have so many cups on the table by the way i'm just jesus christ why are there so 0.96

03:17:27.360 many cups on the table fuck okay um sorry continue um i do have some friends that you know are more 0.98

03:17:36.480 fast as we would call them that will talk to men like 304 you guys would call it um but no like i 0.99

03:17:45.840 i i'm not going out for men to talk to me i'm going out because maybe i want to have a drink and

03:17:52.080 dance and listen to some good music and talk to my friends well you have a you have a boyfriend right

03:17:56.320 now but what about when you're single yes i don't enjoy men coming up to me and talking to me when

03:18:04.080 i'm out your boyfriend i met him when i was working at the bar at my the bar i work at i was working

03:18:09.120 though he approached you you just said you don't like it when men do that i don't

03:18:13.440 but that's how you met your current boyfriend or you're now going to marry or you want to marry

03:18:17.680 yeah how do you want men to approach you then they i'm not saying i don't i really don't know

03:18:22.640 i don't think there's any one concise way i guess my boyfriend how he did it i was working he came up

03:18:27.360 to my bar came to me he said hey how you doing um he got a drink and he was like told me if i'm

03:18:32.240 really attractive and he asked for my phone number i told him i don't give out my phone number uh um my

03:18:37.680 job you have my instagram he is he sent me a message on instagram hey how about that number

03:18:44.080 gave him my number we started talking from there wait hold on will that work for everybody no that

03:18:48.880 won't work for everybody he's a very attractive man so it worked for him should we have him on

03:18:52.320 the podcast you think he'd be down um he would be he would i i don't know how that will go though

03:18:59.040 what would he beat me up or something no don't um no you don't disrespect me um

03:19:05.120 um he we are very different yeah we should we should have him on you down ask him if he's down

03:19:13.280 ask him if he's down i don't know no please let's do it let's do it honestly because we watch whatever

03:19:20.000 no like i don't like i'm not a confrontational person that's kind of like how we work we we disagree

03:19:25.600 on a lot of things because i am okay with not being right i know the comments don't agree with

03:19:33.200 that but on my normal life i'm fine with not being okay with everything i'm fine with like

03:19:38.000 agreeing to disagree or walking away with him thinking you know that he's right and above all

03:19:42.160 but on here we're supposed to discuss things further and we do good on our own but i don't want

03:19:51.760 outside things to affect our relationship wait so one question bringing it back to the whole like

03:19:56.720 approaching thing right so you said that you don't like it when men approach you when you're out

03:20:03.200 partying or whatever just other girls here very nagging other girls here at the table like if you're 1.00

03:20:08.320 at the bar let's assume you're single you're at the bar like do you generally you dislike it when

03:20:13.120 men approach you in these environments just here we'll go around the table really quick quick answer

03:20:20.240 i don't drink i smoke weed okay can you repeat the question do you like when men approach you

03:20:26.640 yeah of course okay no yes you sorry so you like it or you you like it when men approach you or you

03:20:34.800 dislike it when men approach you i like it you like it okay you like it if it's in a tasteful manner

03:20:42.560 yeah sure billy i mean i never put myself in a situation when i was sorry i never put myself in a

03:20:48.800 situation when i was single to have a guy approach me in a bar or a club because i just didn't go to

03:20:54.880 them um so i would get approached at a grocery store and if it was done in the right way then

03:20:59.840 that's fine with me okay so some different answers there i i feel like a lot of women though 1.00

03:21:05.520 who might complain about all these men it's so annoying they approach me surroundings you're

03:21:11.760 gonna find well this is in response to everybody but not just you but go ahead i think you're going

03:21:16.400 to find if you're in a club you're you're most likely going to get a drunk man approaching you

03:21:21.680 and it's probably not going to be done in the most tasteful manner so that's probably why a lot

03:21:25.120 of girls are turned off by it because that's where they're being approached most you are most likely 0.99

03:21:29.280 to have success picking up a girl if you pick her up in a way where her anxiety is low that is like

03:21:35.120 can we all agree with that yes okay that's why i always encourage guys to utilize day game as it's

03:21:41.280 known like i tell guys hey you have a dog pick girls over the dog park it's a great place coffee shops

03:21:46.480 like hey do you know the wi-fi password easy conversation starter little things like that

03:21:50.400 but i want to just bring this back a little bit to what you were saying because you're like when you

03:21:56.080 go out you don't like when guys approach you and then you i asked you how do you want guys to

03:22:01.360 approach you so you whenever you're out and you i mean basically the only time that a guy can approach

03:22:09.600 you is when you're out of the house right like unless he breaks in and is like dating right so

03:22:14.800 another problem so so like what's your ideal scenario because i mean it's probably not approaching you at

03:22:22.320 work either you're busy so like what's your ideal scenario that's why i i will agree that it is in

03:22:28.320 that sense it's not really making i'm not making it easy for men in that way um maybe that's why i

03:22:37.280 i don't know it's just it is hard to be tastefully done it is a tricky thing to do it does help when

03:22:43.920 you're more attractive but there's even been attractive men who approach me and i'm still like

03:22:46.800 like i'm just not in the mood to discuss or talk so i can't really give a clear answer for that

03:22:52.640 i guess it's because kind of like how i grew up and i feel like a lot of people grew up before this

03:22:56.880 social media and like we have so many options nowadays is you dated people who you already

03:23:03.200 knew so it wasn't about approaching it was about we have similar friends we come from the same area so

03:23:10.960 we've met before so it's not really like like it's not like i'm meeting you for the first time

03:23:17.840 you see me i'm attracted to you you come up across to me and you pitch to me i nine times out of ten

03:23:22.480 i'm not gonna like that so that's why usually it was dating people from knowing their family growing

03:23:28.320 up around them yeah i don't want this to come across like i'm attacking i promise you i'm not

03:23:32.640 like so so what you're talking about right now is one of the biggest frustrations for men and dating

03:23:39.760 like um you you posed again another q a you asked guys what are your biggest fears approaching women

03:23:47.520 what were the predominant things that came back i mean it was just rejection um judgment on his

03:23:54.320 appearance um creepy yeah well that's one thing i could say though and and i will if a man comes up

03:24:02.880 to me i'm never like ew get away from me i'm not gonna talk to you some girls are yeah i never said

03:24:08.400 they weren't i'm saying we're talking about me though personally even though i don't like for

03:24:11.520 men to approach me i've never once been like ew get away from me or been rude of the sorts if

03:24:16.400 i'm in a relationship i'll just quickly be like oh i'm so sorry kind of see where you're going with

03:24:20.160 this i am in a relationship or when i was single i would be like oh i'm so sorry i'm not interested

03:24:24.640 in dating right now or i would just lie and say i am in a relationship make it really sweet short

03:24:29.280 nothing i would never attack them that's two different things so you're saying that it's like nagging

03:24:36.080 it's annoying would you also agree though that it's necessary i i i do see how they have to yeah

03:24:42.160 they have to shoot their shot they have to get out there in some form so i'm not saying i'm that's

03:24:45.440 why i'm not i have not said don't do it i haven't advocated for men to not approach women i'm just

03:24:51.680 saying personally i don't like it because right now they're hearing you and like like look but they're

03:24:56.320 hearing me but all every single i think only maddie was the only one who said that i will say i feel

03:25:00.240 like they all said they like it like the setting matters say like you're in a club like billy said like

03:25:05.280 mostly it's going to be drunk men that are approaching you i i don't necessarily like

03:25:10.560 being in like okay well i'm like 18 but like if i were in a bar or club mr underscore casey

03:25:16.400 undiscoordinated one hundred dollars and sixty nine cents kiko it concerns me that you wouldn't want 0.89

03:25:23.120 to invite your bf on the pod sounds like that you are scared that what you're saying is not well

03:25:28.480 thought out and your bf wouldn't want to ruin his reputation for agreeing with delusion i mean regardless

03:25:34.560 if he's on here or not we're still dating so like that has negates the whole thing he watches the

03:25:39.440 episodes we still discuss it that's not what i'm concerned about i know we can have logical

03:25:45.600 debates and discussions where we disagree just us two i don't want to bring us on this podcast where

03:25:51.120 there's 10 other people sitting here and a whole panel and tts where they could start saying things and

03:25:57.280 emotions can start rising where you were we could start feeling a type of way that we wouldn't that we

03:26:03.760 aren't necessarily causing each other but outside factors like i feel like that's a very you just

03:26:09.600 don't think this environment is healthy for the relationship yeah maybe when we're longer in but

03:26:13.120 we're only seven months in we already have a lot of healthy debates as it is i don't think you want

03:26:18.800 to throw in too much controversy into relationship this early on brian can i ask you a question sure um

03:26:26.720 you know how you said that like you wouldn't date a girl that goes out to clubs or bars or anything like

03:26:31.120 that yeah what about if she lives in like a metropolitan like city area where like everything 1.00

03:26:35.360 is a bar and she just like eats out by herself and like that's a bar setting do you know what 0.55

03:26:41.200 i mean like i feel like context matters if you're going out to a nightclub in like the middle of

03:26:45.920 middle america that is like making an like an effort to like go out be seen be noticed but if you're in

03:26:52.960 like new york the like the bar is right next to your apartment you're going to go there for food you're

03:26:57.200 going to go there for like a drink maybe by yourself you're not necessarily putting yourself

03:27:01.360 out there it just has to do with the fact that you live in a metropolitan area so i've never been to

03:27:04.880 like a stereotypical like nightclub with like sparklers and uh all of that i don't know but like

03:27:11.840 some people would consider a club like a bar that plays music and has like a small room for dancing

03:27:16.720 that fits like 25 people so like where do you draw the line on that

03:27:20.720 there's no such thing as restaurants no but like like most of the restaurants yeah but you're saying

03:27:28.480 oh if you're in a if you're in new york you're in a metropolitan city you must if you you have to go

03:27:35.200 to a bar well yeah well because yeah because most bars in new york there are right there's restaurants

03:27:41.280 you know of course you mentioned going to eat have you heard of a restaurant of course but like there's

03:27:47.840 restaurants i know but in new york like it's always like a bar restaurant it's always like the same

03:27:51.920 is it just sit at a table is chipotle is there a bar at chipotle in new york well i to be fair i don't

03:27:56.880 eat fast food but hold on hold on how dare you defame chipotle i demand an apology i apologize to

03:28:04.880 chipotle i'm sorry um i mean you're talking about somebody engages in partying behavior it's like

03:28:11.840 party behavior like if she's getting if it's 3 p.m or i don't know lunch that's what i'm saying

03:28:18.880 she goes and the bar happens to double as a restaurant and she's getting food i don't have

03:28:26.160 that's not an issue that that creates conflict right because there is a setting where people

03:28:29.760 are getting drunk and there's like at for lunch it's new york i think this is fairly self-evident

03:28:35.600 like priya hit on it it's it's when a woman demonstrates party like yes like consistent 1.00

03:28:42.720 attention-seeking honestly like sexualized mainly behavior and we all know what that looks like yeah

03:28:51.920 it's very black and white it's not there's not a large gray area that steps in i disagree because

03:28:57.120 like i i can sit at a restaurant like that's a bar restaurant outside that's not engaging and partying

03:29:01.840 like behavior okay i was in new york recently by myself when we were dating and i i could not find

03:29:08.400 a place to eat so i walked into a place i i was texting you i had nowhere to eat and it was in

03:29:14.240 times square and i walked in the only spot was at the bar so i sat at the bar i ate my chicken and then

03:29:20.160 i left that's what i'm talking about i that's why i was yeah but that's that was the question guys

03:29:24.960 that was the question about where the boundary is drawn like that was the whole point this is exactly

03:29:29.040 what he's saying but this is what he's saying it's okay it's okay if you're just going there

03:29:33.360 to get food and not getting up i just went to get food and and that was it yeah and you would agree

03:29:37.600 but how do you distinguish intention like what if you're eating at night was what i did okay what's

03:29:41.920 the intent i don't know what time i'm pretty sure dinner is also very acceptable people have to eat but

03:29:48.880 if you're going out and whether it's by yourself or with a group of people if you're out there partying

03:29:55.120 with a bunch of your girlfriends regardless that is partying behavior it's not black and white if

03:30:00.240 you're going to go get food no matter what time of day it is and you just go eat you might have a

03:30:06.160 conversation with somebody and then you leave that's not but the point is is that that's still

03:30:09.920 considered a bar and men can still approach you so like that's why i was saying partaking in the

03:30:14.480 bar culture yes to be fair when you asked that question i was thinking more on the lines of that

03:30:20.560 because i don't party but i do go to bar to eat bar food right and like maybe drink that's fine

03:30:25.200 that's what i'm saying that's totally fine it's more so like the intention right that was my question

03:30:29.840 are you going out with your girlfriends getting lit that's what i was saying drinking also how

03:30:33.680 frequently are you going to the bar and are you just posting up there by yourself how frequently

03:30:39.920 are men approaching you there how are you dressed when you go there like yeah like these are things

03:30:44.800 again it's sexualizing yourself and to quote what is it uh ldg like to quote him i don't want to say i

03:30:53.120 saw it um marketing yourself how are you marketing yourself that's really it by the way quick note um

03:31:02.320 next person there's a banana here uh the next tts say a name they have to eat the banana okay um i'm

03:31:10.720 severely allergic to bananas come on i swear to god really oh i literally have my epi pen in my

03:31:17.600 purse right now i'm allergic to a lot of things so you're prepared to eat the no i'm kidding

03:31:22.160 if you don't want to take me to cottage then no i will actually that'd be pretty good content so if

03:31:26.720 they say your name oh my god that's the main event keekoverse banana there you go

03:31:33.600 wait do you have an epi pen where where do you put it in my thigh okay here let's do this okay

03:31:39.440 oh my god can you go get it from your purse and just put it on the table just for liability 0.57

03:31:46.640 purposes what epi pen yourself can i just say the whole chat has thought you were uncomfortably

03:31:56.160 rubbing my shoulder the whole time his arm his arm is not touching it's on the chair it's on the chair

03:32:02.000 i just want to clear that up it's been being said for the past three hours they're also boyfriend and

03:32:07.440 girlfriend yeah so is that your epi pen yes it does look weird wow she literally asks me to rub her 0.99

03:32:13.360 back 24 7 so it wouldn't even be weird yellow and honestly if i okay here's the thing though

03:32:20.480 you can only you can only use the epi pen after a subsequent tts so we have to see you basically

03:32:28.640 die basically dot yes until the next one comes anything for the content that is the new game

03:32:36.400 boy by the way uh let's pull up the twitch twitch and then we'll pull up kiko's oh raven dt donated

03:32:43.600 100 we are discussing boundaries in relationships not drafting federal legislation if you are dressed for

03:32:51.840 a nightclub and going out with to dance and show off your body in a party type environment where

03:32:57.440 alcohol is consumed in mass quantities that's bad yeah and we we have those kind we have those here in

03:33:04.720 santa barbara like a lot of places that are restaurants during the day uh they're bars at night

03:33:10.480 so like i don't know if that's where you work is kind of like that we closed our kitchen but yeah but you

03:33:16.240 know where i used to work yeah sandbar like it's very common here on say a lot of places do a lot

03:33:21.360 of places do that scheme so we have that here too so it's like i have a question for you guys like

03:33:26.080 okay so my god this becky um so like saturday for example or friday i think it's friday or saturday

03:33:36.080 whatever uh martin donated one hundred dollars brian have a great idea for live streaming i'll

03:33:45.280 fly in on the jet pick you priya and your girl up fly anywhere you'll want in the u.s to eat record

03:33:53.600 everything you'll have to wear real pants they won't let you in the restaurant otherwise keep

03:34:00.240 cook up but he just said brian first didn't they yeah wait but he no i mean obviously it's a dress

03:34:07.760 that can go like wait like how bad would it be my throat will close in about like you have

03:34:16.080 maybe like a minute and 30 seconds that's six million boy in my thigh that's six million would 1.00

03:34:20.880 be 12 is that good content we're gonna be what if you get all of the ad revenue oh if i wait question

03:34:30.240 kiko question if i peeled the banana and i just like chucked it at you and it hit you in like the

03:34:39.040 face huh would you would you have an allergic reaction from that or do you have to like consume

03:34:44.560 i would never do that that is a very good question because skin contact like i'm allergic to a lot of

03:34:50.160 things but the reason why i'm allergic to bananas is like an uh oral aller pollen allergy so i'm allergic

03:34:57.280 to different fruits and foods depending on the season due to the pollen that they're surrounded

03:35:02.480 by so i don't know it might give me like hives or something actually if it was since i'm allergic to the

03:35:09.920 pollen content itself i don't know i i've only had these allergies for like four years it's been terrible

03:35:15.840 okay all right oh anyways back to my question all right yeah what was your question it's about the

03:35:22.240 topic we had beforehand um so on friday night i had a day off night off from work so me my boyfriend

03:35:29.520 wanted to go out and get some drinks dancing whatever it's what we enjoy to do technically

03:35:34.160 kind of how we met so martin donated 100 yeah thank you mark 30 seconds is a lifetime eat up i'm sure

03:35:43.760 you'll be fine you have a med tech on the panel air force by the way maybe if you like would have

03:35:49.440 followed the directions in the first place and not said brian's name first and said mine

03:35:54.400 we could have technicality anyways so we were gonna get dressed up we're gonna go out on friday

03:36:00.000 night i don't have ever said it before but my boyfriend has an identical twin brother that's

03:36:04.560 dating my best friend he's out of town he was out of town for the moment she came up we also are

03:36:10.000 across the street neighbors so my best friend i came over when we were getting ready after work

03:36:13.680 and she was like oh i kind of want to go out too like i'm bored i have nothing to do because her

03:36:17.360 boyfriend's um and at their parents house she got dressed up with us my boyfriend wasn't feeling

03:36:23.120 that good anymore his stomach was starting to hurt so he was saying he was like honestly i don't really

03:36:28.240 want to go since devonna wants to go now do you guys just want to go he was going to allow me to go

03:36:35.840 to technically bars clubs with my friend um far as what i was wearing i was technically i think wearing

03:36:42.000 like a different version of this body suit basically like same jeans like this and some like kitten heels

03:36:48.400 would that do you guys see that as a huge problem if i were to do something like that he did end up

03:36:54.560 going we all end up going together by the way for a good point but martin donated 100 kiko no one

03:37:02.640 cares about your story tell us about yourself priya by the way marquavius um yeah i don't think

03:37:10.240 we're going to press kiko too much on the banana thing so if you want to uh i did not sign a waiver

03:37:15.040 for that if so yeah there's some liability there probably um if uh you want to uh have someone

03:37:22.400 else do it i suppose he wants you to speak about yourself priya do you want to any safaris planned oh

03:37:31.680 valdev donated 100 thank you man real contest cute cuban eat banana to alabama what them marksman

03:37:39.440 scores wait what are the what are your marksman scores i guess shooting guns oh oh i almost made

03:37:48.480 marksman i was off by like what closer to i was off by like uh like one or so maybe two nice uh cuban

03:37:57.440 is that is that you you're puerto rican i'm puerto rican yeah uh i believe he's talking about you

03:38:03.440 though so wait what happened here you're supposed to eat it looks it looks a little at the bottom it

03:38:08.560 doesn't look great so i guess just the top that's what she said great just just yeah all right there

03:38:15.040 you go mark way what was that who said that who why a banana i don't like billy think about it i know

03:38:24.320 i know that but really i know what do you mean same reason why they don't want to cover our face

03:38:30.880 you're not in favor of the banana billy look billy doesn't like she's not amused

03:38:35.600 okay so and again this might be an unpopular opinion amongst what else and i don't say radical

03:38:51.920 to be offensive i mean radical in the literal sense of being like very radical in your beliefs right

03:38:56.080 very strict very principled um i the the situation that you just laid out like first of all

03:39:05.600 that's his preference yeah that's his boundary he has a level of trust with you and he also

03:39:12.320 probably recognizes that you wanted him to come out but now it was more about okay well now i'm now

03:39:17.520 she wants to go out i don't want her to have to go out i don't want to say no because then she's

03:39:21.280 going to say no right yeah so if he wants to do that and he wants to allow you to do that that's

03:39:27.120 fine that's his prerogative some guys might feel very uncomfortable with that would you be

03:39:31.040 uncomfortable with that so like the exact same scenario like say she she was getting ready

03:39:35.840 she already has her makeup hair everything done and then last minute you're like i don't think i

03:39:40.160 really want to go anymore but she still has her friends with her in particular absolutely not

03:39:43.600 because if she because every time that she has either been invited to go out and do something with

03:39:48.960 our friends in florida um she basically looks at me and says like are you okay if i go with me going

03:39:55.280 out but where have i gone out like no just just occasionally you'll go to like beach drive or

03:39:59.200 something like that like very rarely like it's extremely rare but like but this is i went to a

03:40:07.040 self-defense class that was the last that was the last time she went out and did something without me 1.00

03:40:11.040 with like her girlfriend she went did a self-defense class but anyways i don't know i think that that's an

03:40:16.960 it's like an incredibly nuanced like thing where like would it be an uncomfortable situation as a guy

03:40:24.400 it's not the most comfortable situation because you're not there to keep your keep an eye on your

03:40:29.200 girl who you know men are going to be objectifying probably pursuing probably chasing that makes it 1.00

03:40:34.560 uncomfortable but at a certain point like you gotta trust your girl to say no that's so yeah and you

03:40:41.200 can't control that in like everyday situations right that's where i was getting at because i feel like

03:40:46.720 that's healthy you know to have that like you know it's not so black and white all the time because

03:40:51.760 honestly if i would have come to him like i want to go out with devonna friday by myself without you

03:40:55.600 he would have been like you're losing it's also it's also pattern recognition like have you done it

03:41:01.200 one time and what was the timing of it like like did we just have a fight yeah you know what i mean

03:41:06.000 like girls will weaponize this stuff that's that that's one of the big things it's pattern recognition 1.00

03:41:10.880 so like if she gets invited out by somebody and it's just completely random i'm gonna be like yeah

03:41:18.560 of course you can go out like i know i know where you're going it's very very close i know the

03:41:22.480 people that's fine um but if it's like okay you've asked this week okay now the next week comes you're

03:41:29.040 asking again okay now it's been three weeks in a row after months and months and months of you never

03:41:33.760 wanting to go that's something now it's pattern recognition it's like hey can we talk about this

03:41:38.720 like why do you want to go out again like that's what guys need to get better at like it's not

03:41:43.600 necessarily like the boundary is good the concept the concept and the principle of women not going 0.90

03:41:49.200 out and marketing themselves at a club is a good one for women to follow and it's a good one for men 0.98

03:41:53.440 to have in the back of their mind but what i just talked about the pattern recognition that is an

03:41:57.440 incredibly important nuanced thing to make sure that the relationship is healthy and the girl again

03:42:02.480 doesn't feel like she's being anxiously controlled yeah that's true i think yeah it's kind of like a

03:42:07.520 philosophy we have that we've said before we haven't really it hasn't come up yet because honestly i don't

03:42:12.160 we don't really do things too much apart from each other but it's kind of like we always want

03:42:16.400 the invitation to be there so like if yeah he wants to go out that weekend with his boyfriend like his

03:42:21.920 guy friends or whatever if he's like hey i'm thinking about going out you want to come with us

03:42:25.680 if i don't want to go go for it but for you to come to me and be like oh we're all doing this just

03:42:31.280 guys no one else that's another big thing you wanted him to go with you originally and then the plan

03:42:36.480 changed so that's why he was like he knows he knew my my goal was i wanted to be out there with

03:42:41.600 him tonight right that was the main goal so it's like the same thing if i wanted to have a girls

03:42:44.880 weekend per se it's more so is like if he wanted to come could he come yeah if he can then he yes but

03:42:50.960 if i'm trying to do something if either of us are trying to do something where the other is

03:42:54.000 not allowed per gender or reason yeah that's not cool like why

03:43:01.120 what's up brian yep i think this is where madison has to take over as host what oh i didn't even 0.87

03:43:07.520 finish my thought earlier about like what were you talking about men approaching yeah going you

03:43:12.960 i'm not while you're at bars you spoke you were like oh my god you spoke i didn't even

03:43:22.560 i'm just like so out of it right now but um i'm not saying like i don't like when men approach me in

03:43:28.960 general yeah in a club bar setting i wouldn't want a drunk man to approach me that's like a little

03:43:35.040 different but the way my current boyfriend and i met he approached me like on the beach i thought

03:43:40.640 that was nice like i'm not just saying that i don't necessarily like when men approach me because

03:43:45.760 i know that's what they have to do in order to you know find a solid girl but how uh how do you guys 0.61

03:43:52.640 feel about approaching men i don't mind it i've done it i don't have too much of a problem with it

03:43:59.360 it's not something that i often actively do but if if a opportunity presented itself and i felt the

03:44:07.120 urge to i am not opposed but it's not my first choice i always want to but way too scared like

03:44:14.480 way too intimidated to ever go up to a man and be like hey i'm interested in you like i'll afraid of

03:44:20.240 rejection because yes that's just exactly yeah no i know and the men in my dms are consistently

03:44:27.200 afraid of rejection they're like how do we avoid rejection i'm like you don't you face it you deal

03:44:31.040 with it you move forward but then i have sort of a double standard for myself um as i would be afraid

03:44:36.400 to approach a man because of rejection so there is a double standard alabama you were going to say

03:44:40.400 something yes so i feel like in like certain situations yeah like you know there are some outliers

03:44:47.120 but personally i feel like if a man thought i was attractive i liked me he would come to me you

03:44:52.400 know yes it wouldn't have to be like this tension like i would have to go to him you know if he

03:44:57.280 he likes what he sees he's gonna it's this whole thing about wanting to be secure that he really

03:45:01.520 wants me and he's not just we're not just together because i initiate yeah you were the only option i

03:45:07.680 just have to defend myself really quick billy objected to my use of the banana prop i would just like to

03:45:13.680 point out i have other fruit too i have these are nectarines billy and i have some blueberries in

03:45:19.600 there too and in the fridge i have loquats hmm what's up what thanks brian do you want billy you

03:45:26.560 want a nectarine these are donut nectarines they're very special wait okay i'm not going to feed everyone

03:45:35.040 i just had to defend myself because there was there's accusations that i specifically picked a

03:45:41.360 banana you totally did because of the phallic nature oh absolutely 40 in his house oh my god

03:45:48.240 you didn't answer my offer for the flight oh will you not give up those sweatpants for one day

03:45:53.760 and it's a double date because after you meet me i'll need brian to protect me from your advances

03:45:59.760 it's not likely i'll consent on the first date uh so your original message was great idea for a

03:46:07.200 live stream i'll fly in on the jet pick you priya and your girl up fly anywhere you'll y'all want in

03:46:13.280 the u.s to eat anywhere anywhere uh record everything you'll have to wear real pants they won't let you

03:46:20.480 in the restaurant otherwise what if it's like a white castle what if i want to go to the white

03:46:25.200 you're taking a girl to white castle brian i'm not i'm not going to white castle brian listen 0.66

03:46:30.000 hey brian where was the last date you took a girl last date i took a girl yeah and when 0.99

03:46:38.320 just where where yeah bro billy you're coming for me tonight do it fuck um answer the last date i took a 0.98

03:46:48.480 girl on in and out and we all tagged along wait what that doesn't really count 0.98

03:46:57.600 it doesn't really count uh it's like a walk in the park

03:47:02.560 um

03:47:05.680 i'm trying to think the last date like going out to like a restaurant or like the last date the

03:47:12.960 last where where did it take place i don't know it's been that long let's just say uh

03:47:19.040 you can't recall the last date you've been on let's just say uh i'm i'm a discreet individual

03:47:23.920 when it comes to my does that mean you're dating so that either means two things either

03:47:29.280 you are it goes against everything that you usually say so you're scared to say it because

03:47:33.760 you're like oh i won't pay on a first date i don't go these fancy dinners i mean like for

03:47:37.440 example like i've i've brought people like uh group to the in and out after the show that is

03:47:43.520 not so i'll treat like i like to treat no but that's not a date that's not a date but what i'm

03:47:48.720 trying to say is i treat right madison i yeah yeah brian buys me in and out yeah he he well the

03:47:54.640 group i'll buy i'll take oh yeah he bought all of us in now yeah of course that's a business

03:47:59.120 expense it's a write-off but uh what's the question where's the last question when was the

03:48:06.560 last time you had a date yeah when's the last time you had a date how about that let's start there

03:48:11.760 so i'm trying to think though like the actual date oh it's been years no i'm just like because the way

03:48:18.560 i the way how do you date brian has been over five years which one question way i move i'm trying

03:48:24.560 to think like that last proper date where i met someone like out in public and i wasn't and i

03:48:32.000 wasn't just like come over i'm trying to think the last time so you're a pumper and dumper no no no

03:48:38.080 i don't pump and dump no pump and dump there's pumping there's pumping no dumping no dumping

03:48:45.760 i don't pump and dump there's multiple pumps i do multiple pumps before you're done okay there's

03:48:53.520 multiple pumps oh i remember i watched no singular pumping you like to pump for at least three or

03:48:57.440 four times and then you don't did you see this on his only fans i like no i saw this in the last

03:49:01.840 episode i like continuity i like continuity i like continuity i don't like to hook up one time

03:49:08.960 have sex one time no at least three there's got at least three okay you've gotten your fill

03:49:14.560 but i'm kidding i kid i kid i kid i want i want to listen and i you know i want to continue seeing 0.77

03:49:19.840 this girl right but i'm trying to think like oh right now huh you have a girl right now well

03:49:25.360 i didn't hold on who knows what the situation is i like to keep things a little vague to protect

03:49:30.400 the innocent that's right that's right that's right but uh i'm trying to think the actual last date 0.95

03:49:38.320 i uh uh shit man it's been greater or less than five years 0.93

03:49:47.440 have you been on a date in your 30s no i've been i've been on dates in your 30s 0.99

03:49:52.320 yes okay of course my god of course i'm trying to get ready here okay the i think the most recent

03:49:58.240 one you guys really i spent probably over 20 to 30 combined hours with this man i know nothing

03:50:03.440 about him this specific date was not my typical mo though so i can tell you what i did basically

03:50:10.240 met for a girl and we had tea that's that's cute we just got uh starbucks you know so yeah

03:50:17.280 why was that so hard to spit out anyone but that's not that was that used to not be my typical mo like 0.96

03:50:23.040 i used to be more like oh let's meet at like uh like a uh a lounge let's maybe grab a like a glass

03:50:30.240 of wine or whatever i'm not a big drinker but maybe i'd have like a glass of wine i'm so for a first

03:50:35.440 drink date yes what's that i'm you're so for you're not so for it yes a lot of women are against it 1.00

03:50:43.280 you're so for what are you doing i'm so for like just getting a drink oh absolutely a lot of women are 1.00

03:50:47.520 against it and they think it needs to be this big like elaborate thing you're you're you're atypical

03:50:52.480 what's that you are like like like you like i don't want like i don't like being approached 0.81

03:50:59.200 like most women definitely like being approached they might say like it's a little bit annoying 1.00

03:51:02.800 sometimes but like they definitely like being approached most women are like i hate when he 0.57

03:51:08.720 just takes me out for drinks he's trying to get drunk we don't know each other he's just trying to

03:51:12.000 get me drunk he's just trying to he's just trying to get some like like that that is the person see

03:51:16.880 most women don't want the vibe to be loose most women want to have their head screwed right on straight 1.00

03:51:20.960 i'm like and they want to be able to evaluate before first of all we haven't met ever so we

03:51:26.000 do this big old long date what if we're not like you know feeling it if it's like a coffee or a drink

03:51:30.720 we can make it short or longer you're not stuck in this big old thing i think it's a great idea

03:51:36.240 oh i'm not saying it's a bad idea what i'm saying is most women i would no no like most women would 0.99

03:51:41.520 rather not be intoxicated on a first date i love the drink donated 99 we have entered into a world

03:51:49.280 of loose morals and easy sex especially with instagram and only vans no true value relationships

03:51:56.000 anymore between that and skewed family law in one sex's favor why would men bother seeking to find a 0.97

03:52:02.240 wife these days based uh thank yo esto surfer thank you very much man for the tts i mean but when it

03:52:13.520 comes to like the drinking date um one drink max like yeah it's more definitely you don't want to

03:52:19.200 go and get tanked but like one for i wouldn't say two is a good number no just one one's a waste of time

03:52:26.640 one drink one's a waste one's a waste of a drink i feel like you might as well get two well i'm

03:52:31.600 a lightweight so you know what it matters it's a waste it's a waste of your time but it is not a

03:52:36.560 waste of his money no that's not my point i'm saying neither i'm not talking about either i was

03:52:41.520 drinking a joke rather of like if i'm gonna drink one drink i might as well drink two so i can get

03:52:45.840 the buzz going is what i was just getting towards as long as you're buying the second one i mean you're

03:52:50.480 still gonna be sober i mean i to me personally i've paid for numerous dates that's not a problem to me i

03:52:55.920 just do think it does say something on the first occasion um i feel like the first drink right is

03:53:01.600 kind of like a given that he's gonna buy it the second drink alerts to me if you're feeling me or

03:53:06.480 not or like if he doesn't buy the second drink that shows me that he's not interested anymore if he

03:53:12.480 buys a second drink that shows me that he's interested in prolonging our conversation and

03:53:17.120 time together no man and theoretically what if he sounds like work just question um if he couldn't

03:53:22.240 afford it i would hope that he didn't pick a place that if he knew i wanted to order more than

03:53:26.480 one thing he was going to be in trouble but billy i will tell you my previous mo okay here's what you

03:53:32.000 do first off you go to like a nice kind of a lounge place that could double as a restaurant whatever

03:53:39.040 no no loud bars no loud clubs but like a lounge maybe kind of a cocktail lounge like the ritz you go

03:53:44.880 the ritz that's nice that's nice yeah and take get this i show up to the ritz in a flannel that's

03:53:53.040 right that's right that's right wearing sweatpants that's right show up to the the ritz no you did not 0.97

03:53:59.920 i swear to fucking god i believe it no i swear to god i chase would slap me if i said that right 0.98

03:54:07.520 good um no no no it's because of the swearing to god thing it was also good okay no i have gone 0.99

03:54:14.160 on multiple dates at the ritz the ritz wearing sweatpants and a flannel what's up

03:54:24.960 it just looks tacky it's right on the beach it's right on the beach it's casual people are walking

03:54:30.160 around the lobby in flip-flops and shorts and a t-shirt it's not it's good it's not even about the

03:54:35.200 ritz it's just about it's the first don't even trip so i'm supposed to sit here what's up how you 0.98

03:54:40.800 doing what if the girl showed up i would bro propose check this shit out boom this is coming 1.00

03:54:48.800 out oh boom married and that's good honestly that's a good thing though that means you'll find another 0.99

03:54:54.960 person that will go i was listening to the drake song because i i say this all the time i was

03:55:01.040 listening mortified i would just be so embarrassed like why are you just like

03:55:08.400 what are you 10 what's happening middle school yo the nectarine has imbued me with

03:55:13.680 energy and power i have three pieces of nectarine

03:55:21.200 okay listen look look look did you just drake oh god best i ever had oh my god sweat sweatpants hair

03:55:29.040 time that's when you're the prettiest i hope you don't take it wrong that's fine but you shouldn't

03:55:34.800 be showing up for that in a formal event like that's you look the best but would she look her 0.89

03:55:40.800 best if we were at a wedding and she shows up like that no like there's time and place brian

03:55:46.000 would you be attracted to her if she was walking on the street with sweatpants her hair tied up no 1.00

03:55:50.480 makeup on would i be attracted like would you be like i'm gonna i'm gonna go how pretty right yeah i don't

03:55:57.120 think i don't think it matters to guys as much i really don't i be put together they say it doesn't

03:56:02.240 matter to them but it does because that's a big thing i've even seen on like am i the

03:56:05.920 asshole reddit where it's like the woman stops putting effort into her appearance and as they have 1.00

03:56:12.000 kids not even just like about gaining weight but it's like oh she doesn't do her hair she's 1.00

03:56:15.360 not getting dressed she's a stay-at-home mom and just stays in her sweatpants and t-shirt all day

03:56:19.760 and men start to really hate that a lot of the time obviously not probably not a man like brian

03:56:23.760 he shows up to the ritz and sweatpants but a lot of men are fine they love a natural bare face but

03:56:29.440 they also wouldn't love a woman who doesn't take care of herself like those look obviously i don't 0.93

03:56:34.080 want a woman who's like disheveled is that how you say disheveled disheveled i don't want a woman 1.00

03:56:38.400 who's disheveled her hygiene's got to be good well i would consider a woman disheveled if she shows 1.00

03:56:43.120 up to a date at the ritz carlton in sweatpants that's a disheveled woman in my opinion 1.00

03:56:46.480 i would agree with that honestly fair enough fair enough but like

03:56:54.160 hold on there's one you're cornered brian am i cornered

03:57:00.480 sorry he goes a redditor i love a good page i do spend a lot of time on reddit sometimes

03:57:05.840 not discord though

03:57:06.640 okay um what were we talking about ritz sweatpants i think there's different

03:57:14.400 you're mo dating mo oh the dating mo okay look yeah you show up like obviously dressed to the nines

03:57:23.280 in a flannel and sweatpants and uh you have the most impeccable timing i always have to get

03:57:29.920 wait what water breaker is are you are you challenged is this a challenging conversation

03:57:38.320 billy do you you can't handle the flannel ritz combination okay um oh pria's going too all right

03:57:48.400 peace out um so okay you show up on time meet me there at seven boom you know she's going to be late

03:57:57.520 so here's what you do here's the game plan right you talk you tell the waiter this is the this is

03:58:03.920 the gangster move you tell the waiter or whatever by the way because you've already arrived early you

03:58:11.120 already get you already asked for a drink give me some give me a merlot whatever the

03:58:14.880 you want to drink whatever give me a merlot sir politely please listen steve the waiter

03:58:24.240 can you i want you to bring separate checks at the end boom that's it and then you pay she orders

03:58:34.400 whatever she wants i heard you say that i feel like that's so terrible that's not terrible no she

03:58:39.200 orders what she wants you order what you want i mean it's okay go half because if you know right

03:58:45.120 like if you're just like hey like i'm paying for mine you're you're paying for yours right no

03:58:48.720 that's just that's my mo that's my mo on the date yeah but then when you find out a woman's 1.00

03:58:52.560 what if she didn't have any money like then what well if she showed up and just assumed you were 0.94

03:58:57.280 gonna pay ten dollar drink i mean she's chilling oh she's just broke and she just showed up she's 1.00

03:59:03.120 one of those people i don't date then like chris brown i don't date broke

03:59:09.920 i'm not saying i'm not saying your philosophy is wrong it's nothing there's nothing like

03:59:17.040 philosophically wrong with doing that but based off the things that you say you want in a woman i

03:59:22.960 don't think you're gonna find the woman you want by doing things like that you'd be surprised

03:59:28.160 really that's why are you in a nice happy relationship right now listen i can't i can't

03:59:33.120 you put all of our lives on blast but you want to tell us if you're in a relationship on a dating

03:59:37.280 podcast no but what's your point if you wanted a woman who was more dominant headstrong like making 1.00

03:59:45.920 decisions maybe more masculine you will say that might work with her she might love that and love to 0.88

03:59:51.840 split the bill but the woman that you talk about you want a lot of the times i think most women will 1.00

03:59:56.320 see that and not like it not because you're a gold digger but you talk about traditional woman i mean on a 0.62

04:00:02.480 first date if i'm getting courted on this date i would very least expect you to pay for that one 0.91

04:00:07.440 i'm not saying for the pain for everything in the rest of eternity but i don't think you're going to

04:00:11.680 find your trad wife bye well here's the thing right here's the thing can can you girls stop gossiping 1.00

04:00:20.560 back there and uh okay it's a fair point fair point right oh brian you go on about wanting this and that

04:00:29.280 and but but but you don't even want to pay for the first date so it's a fair argument however here's

04:00:34.240 the thing right is given the current landscape i believe that you don't get the you don't get that

04:00:42.800 sort of treatment until you are committed to me now i would say 99 of women are not prepared to 0.95

04:00:51.360 let's not say commit but are like fully single going in to a first date they're either on a dating app

04:00:57.360 they've got 10s 10 10 20 30 40 options that they're entertaining maybe they're sleeping with

04:01:03.280 one two three other guys so my whole thing is you don't get girlfriend treatment until you are said 0.99

04:01:10.880 you are my girlfriend but then when i on a previous podcast said that men shouldn't get

04:01:15.280 husband treatment until they make me a wife you said well then how will you ever get to that stage

04:01:21.120 mm-hmm so how will she ever get to that stage if you're showing her things that she doesn't like

04:01:27.440 yeah when the jump when the question well most but you're saying that she doesn't get girlfriend 0.94

04:01:32.160 treatment until she becomes a girlfriend correct i said that men shouldn't get husband or wifey 0.99

04:01:38.240 whatever husband treatment until there's a ring on my finger and you said well you'll never get to that

04:01:42.560 point unless you start what is wifey what is wifey treatment to you what what does that i mean i didn't

04:01:48.560 really yeah yeah to me personally i mean i guess you will say like the cooking cleaning laundry or

04:01:55.680 whatever that sense i don't really need a ring okay so but but the i guess the differentiation i'd make

04:02:00.800 here is if you want a trad wife woman who's you know a homemaker the traditional viewpoint you're 1.00

04:02:11.360 probably not going to get that by making her pay for her first date is what i'm saying so that's why i 0.81

04:02:15.440 understand not oh i'm cool with 50 50. fuck it that's not bad i can do that but but here okay 0.82

04:02:22.560 let me let me add a bit of nuance let me let me add a bit of of nuance i guess i guess to this um 0.93

04:02:34.240 i don't think i'm prepared i'm not like going to provide off rip for a girl i'm not saying you should

04:02:40.880 it's we're talking about paying for like a ten dollar drink or whatever i'm not saying that you

04:02:47.280 take her on a date and then the next week you're paying her rent i mean that's not what so like what

04:02:50.480 happens if say she wanted to buy you a drink right the first time and then like she wants to go out

04:02:56.880 a second time so she's like you know what i'll get you this time how about you pay next time would that 1.00

04:03:00.800 be okay what's that like if she paid the first time and wanted to go on a second date would you 0.79

04:03:06.800 be a second date that's not bad i also think the provide it's not great but it's not bad it's okay

04:03:14.800 financial provision in an era where women can financially provide for themselves is a massive 0.95

04:03:21.440 massive step like you can still give a girl the wife you can give the girl the husband treatment 0.99

04:03:28.320 everything outside of the money right you can still give him the wifey treatment everything

04:03:35.440 outside of taking the provision like there are i think we can both agree like there's massive things

04:03:41.360 to a relationship to masculinity and femininity outside of the provision of resources it's a huge

04:03:47.200 element and i do think that there is something to a man being able to and this is one of the things i

04:03:52.240 talk about a lot i say men need to figure out how to showcase the characteristics that get them to buy

04:03:59.440 into the fact that you can be a provider so to brian's point if you're able to provide for yourself

04:04:05.360 but you're not ready to commit to him if we can just throw provision to the side and then focus on

04:04:10.560 the other aspects of the audition let's say we should be able to do that in this particular era

04:04:15.600 especially where women are talking about how they're equal right especially on that particular front 1.00

04:04:19.840 i think she was saying more so if i don't know i don't know who you would uh prefer like a

04:04:25.920 traditional wife versus you know a more um worldly but i don't know but from a liberal liberal yeah there 1.00

04:04:34.560 we go um but from the traditional standpoints we we're tending to look for guys who would be willing

04:04:44.400 to pay for that so what she i feel like what you were saying is that if you're not willing to pay for

04:04:49.280 the first dates then you're probably not going to attract the women that you desire for i i actually

04:04:55.040 disagree i think my unwillingness now granted i and i've said this many a times because this topic

04:05:00.640 comes up frequently uh this loses me women or well you know perhaps it does but it'll certainly lose

04:05:10.720 other men women if they don't pay the for the first date so i don't recommend this isn't like some dating

04:05:15.520 coach advice and i don't bill myself as a dating coach i don't recommend men because it's not going

04:05:22.000 to do you any positives to not pay it's either if you pay for the date it's either neutral or positive

04:05:28.800 uh whereas if you don't pay for the date it's either it's it's never positive it's either neutral

04:05:34.800 or negative uh so gentlemen if you're watching don't do this um i'm also i wear sweatpants and

04:05:41.920 flannels to first date so you know uh take that into consideration uh but i would actually argue

04:05:50.960 that of the women that still want to uh date me after i am not prepared to pay for them they're 0.95

04:06:01.120 actually really really into me so or they might be into well not necessarily but it's a screening

04:06:08.240 mechanism whereby the girls that aren't cool with me not paying because a lot of women will break all 1.00

04:06:15.760 these rules like if a you do you think a girl like if she meets her celebrity crush or whatever

04:06:22.640 granted he may very well have the resources to provide for her exceptionally do you think like 0.96

04:06:30.640 she needs her celebrity crush to like be paying for all this shit no i think andrew tate often and i 0.97

04:06:37.520 i don't like that he uses chris brown as the example but he's like do you think a girl cares 0.97

04:06:42.800 if do you think she's going to expect chris brown to pay for her now i don't think chris brown is a

04:06:48.080 great example because of his uh previous dv situation with fucking rihanna so i i think he could he you can 0.95

04:06:57.760 replace chris brown with someone i don't know who who's like a dude that chicks fucking fawn over 0.95

04:07:04.160 a hensworth brother ryan reynolds yeah like i think a lot of women if their ideal man was like 1.00

04:07:12.480 yeah i don't really want to pay for you i'll pay for myself like they're going to be like they're

04:07:16.880 going to tolerate that sort of change their rules yeah they're going to break their rules of the guy

04:07:21.200 needs to pay the for the excuse me pay for the first date uh i just think it's a screening mechanism

04:07:26.160 because they're not they're not disregarding though because they really like this guy it's because he's

04:07:31.600 rich and famous which is two different things it's not looking for love it's looking for a leg up in

04:07:36.080 the world somehow if i was on a date with a man who was obvious it wasn't like a hidden thing he was

04:07:41.280 known that he was either rich and successful and he didn't pay for me i would think that they're a

04:07:48.480 loser i would i would think that they're a bum it's like that's i would think either it's a facade that 0.90

04:07:53.680 they're putting on and they truly can't afford even though it is a great money saving tactic to 0.97

04:07:58.320 keep your expenses low but i no it would change it for me i would honestly they would not no longer

04:08:05.040 be my celebrity crush i would have been like wow this guy is a real 0.52

04:08:10.800 loser sorry i mean you're a rich and you can't even pay for my it's not about the money it's about 0.80

04:08:16.480 the principle and honestly like a woman who requires romance just really doesn't like you that much and 0.96

04:08:21.360 when i say romance i mean like romance is a very i mean flower getting flowers paying for the first 0.79

04:08:26.000 day doing these intricate fucking that's how you keep the love alive that's how you keep it sparky 0.82

04:08:31.200 is that what it requires for you i mean i love receiving flowers and the fact that i know that 0.97

04:08:35.760 you were out and about and thought of me to get me some flowers and bring them home to me i have a

04:08:39.600 question for you kiko why do you support a patriarchal tradition i'm a very traditional woman in a lot of

04:08:45.920 sense i but isn't that supporting the patriarchy are we saying that the patriarchy is kind of based

04:08:51.760 i i do support doesn't exist by the way in some ways i don't never denied it huh i don't agree that's

04:08:58.160 fine um i think that people especially now with how high divorce rates and etc are i think people

04:09:06.160 forget that relationships that are a lifelong commitment take a lot of effort and you need to

04:09:12.720 do things throughout your life to continue to keep that spark alive and to wake up every day and

04:09:18.720 continue to choose to love that person i mean all she's asking for you is to buy her some flowers

04:09:23.040 every once in a while she's not asking for a trip to cabo or the bahama or something i mean it's not

04:09:27.040 that crazy to expect some flowers every couple i don't know i can't prefer when when the girl's more 1.00

04:09:31.600 simping on me than i'm simping on her but that sounds like an insecurity issue it's not an insecurity

04:09:36.320 but but what because you need this is something it's an insecurity for me as a male to have it but

04:09:41.600 this is almost this is the standard that the vast majority of women because a lot of women are 1.00

04:09:45.040 insecure that's oh yes a lot of women are severely insecure i've never said anything different because

04:09:50.880 women want men to pay on first dates it makes them insecure i don't believe that you were talking 1.00

04:09:57.200 about how you want her to you you want the woman to simp off of you yes the woman who want to have 0.97

04:10:02.240 a bunch of men chasing her and simping her all attention are insecure they feel they need the attention

04:10:08.400 to remind them of who they are because they don't feel secure with themselves so i would do

04:10:12.080 you cook for your boyfriend huh do you cook for your boyfriend i would cook i say i could do you

04:10:16.720 get you guys live together right i cook maybe nine he cooks like he cooked breakfast yesterday i think

04:10:22.720 actually you guys split the rent um yeah you do we're both working we're both new into our careers

04:10:29.360 we're young i don't expect him at 24 years old to be paying for my livelihood okay so it's just what the

04:10:36.720 first date it's just like this arbitrary thing from a holdover from days past where men were would pay 0.77

04:10:43.280 for first dates but then it's you don't want them to pay for your rent and shit i i don't expect no 0.88

04:10:49.120 it's because okay it's two different things that's why i'm saying like to me it's a part of the the 0.64

04:10:54.800 courting showing your love like showing how you are interested in me and i don't i think it's a bigger

04:11:03.840 impression if a woman pays for the first date like that to me that but like we also see in america like 1.00

04:11:09.920 a lot of our divorce rates come from the woman being the breadwinner and it not working out 1.00

04:11:14.960 so she has to be the breadwinner if i have to pay for the first date i would hope i'm making more money 0.99

04:11:21.280 it doesn't but i'm not arguing that the woman i mean it it's fucking gangster if she if she does but 0.98

04:11:27.840 i'm just saying i pay for my bill she pays for hers that seems to be the most equitable thing you can 1.00

04:11:33.680 do what do you think about this would you feel emasculated by if a woman paid for the bill i've 1.00

04:11:38.080 had girls pay for bills before um and usually it's like to let me know how thoroughly how how thoroughly 1.00

04:11:46.560 they liked the date this happened very rarely but they've done it like just to be like i'm gonna buy

04:11:53.040 this like because i just wanted to let you know that like i had like a really really really great

04:11:58.000 time i don't want you to feel like you have to buy this for me like it's great it's extremely rare

04:12:03.920 the comment that i would say and kind of combining what you're saying with what you stated earlier

04:12:10.320 in the modern dating world where dates happen way more frequently you have to put yourself in the

04:12:15.600 position of a man who is now going on way more dates okay it's not like you stumble upon a girl

04:12:23.040 who now you finally have an opportunity to maybe go on a date with now it's in your pocket you could

04:12:29.120 get a date this week and the week after and the week after and the week after and to brian's point

04:12:35.360 you can you can be as selective as you want talking to these girls it could be your dream girl on paper

04:12:42.400 you go on the date you may think it went well i'm gonna pay because obviously there's gonna be a

04:12:48.320 second date and then she ghosts it doesn't work out or you say something so as a man in the modern

04:12:54.240 dating world where not only women can afford to now cover their own bills it's one thing when in you 1.00

04:13:00.320 know times past they couldn't afford to do so so men would do it as a courtesy part of the chivalry

04:13:07.040 a concept earlier right but now you can afford to do it and dates are happening more frequently

04:13:12.560 so men are less inclined to be willing to put money on the line knowing that they're gonna have

04:13:18.560 to continue to put money on the line moving forward with more and more dates i see that and

04:13:23.120 but even like she said or you said if people have paid for the woman has paid for the date to show 0.99

04:13:27.360 like how much that they you know liked it where i've seen the also flip side where woman will say 0.98

04:13:31.360 i will decide to pay for my share of the date to show that i don't die to show that like i'm not

04:13:36.800 interested anymore and to not make them pay so that's why i could see you know it could be a fine

04:13:40.480 line and then what was the other thing you said with my other point um totally lost my train i thought

04:13:47.600 what was the other thing you said

04:13:50.720 yeah it's like gone it's so gone um i'll just i'll just jump in here

04:13:57.280 don't buy a girl dinner when she's gonna have some other dude 1.00

04:13:59.920 the dessert oh my holy what brandon melz donated one thousand dollars oh oh my lord how about we

04:14:07.600 all just how about we all just how about we all just my other point was oh my god this guy brandon

04:14:14.560 melz is on fire it becomes a problem if a woman expects it to be this nice fine diving event every 1.00

04:14:21.280 time is that the champagne i think it's champagne let's get some free entry it could be a walk and

04:14:25.520 part that i i was the master of the free first date like i feel that's totally acceptable and

04:14:31.200 more women should be when i was the last time i was like like truly truly single i was you good 0.76

04:14:37.680 yeah yeah sorry sorry sorry go ahead go ahead yeah no big deal uh is that the highest you've ever

04:14:44.320 gotten uh he's done that he's dropped 1k before that was wild giga chad jeez i have paid for

04:14:51.440 far more second dates than i have first dates yeah because i was in a relationship entering

04:14:57.680 the pandemic and then broke up kind of early in the pandemic so i was single during the time where

04:15:03.120 like america discovered walking as its favorite hobby again so like i so i would literally just

04:15:09.120 tell like hey i'm gonna go walk my dog you want to join me yeah sounds great that sounds like a great

04:15:13.520 first date like that's an admit like i had i had a walking trail when i moved uh back to uh pennsylvania

04:15:18.320 for a year and that was a great place to be like hey just like meet me here like let's go for a walk

04:15:21.680 it's a beautiful trail and if that went well i'd be like hey you want to get coffee this weekend

04:15:26.800 and then if that went well hey let's go out to dinner next week that's totally like that that is

04:15:30.560 an escalation that i think a lot of men should be willing to do and they they're so slept on there

04:15:35.120 that's a really they're too want to get dive into it too quickly but but but that but that kind of

04:15:40.080 supports brian's point right like it's not necessarily it's not necessarily about the money it's about

04:15:46.880 like why are you actually going out with him why are you actually meeting up with him are you

04:15:51.680 meeting up with him because you're interested in going on a date with him yeah or for a free

04:15:55.440 dinner or are you doing it for a free drink at a free dinner yeah during my experience

04:16:00.400 anytime i offered to pay for the meal they felt really offended and how you said you said you were

04:16:08.320 22. what oh my god okay no is this nick in the back of my account what is going on there's no

04:16:19.760 fucking way one thousand dollars means we popped so my cash-up is yeah for cash-up venmo zell 0.80

04:16:26.800 right my venmo's in the description all i was gonna do brian should we just pause the conversation 0.98

04:16:34.000 uh you guys keep talking i was gonna say you're 22 right so like you and you typically date guys

04:16:39.120 around your age yeah i could see them i could see guys that age not necessarily having the

04:16:46.240 well no she said they get offended when she pays i could see them having a hard time navigating that

04:16:53.600 situation because it can be you feel like you're going through a very step-by-step process at that

04:17:00.160 age it's like i'm supposed to do this and i'm supposed to do this and i'm supposed to do this as

04:17:03.120 you become an adult you realize it's a much much more liquid process um so i could see them not

04:17:08.640 necessarily being offended but just being a little bit like wait do i not know how to open

04:17:16.000 kiko where are you going she's the bartender have her do it yeah kiko can you do it you're the bartender 1.00

04:17:27.280 wait it says read the instructions point bottle away from self and others remove foil firmly grasp

04:17:32.960 down on top yeah why would you point it twist top until stopper pops push down on top firmly until

04:17:39.360 it clicks twice twist there's a warning label yeah they pop like hard it's like a screw kind of

04:17:46.000 so just screw it off don't actually like slowly release if i put my hand if my hands on top of 0.57

04:17:52.720 it is my hands gonna get you're gonna be fine you'll stop it from shooting out just slowly release the

04:17:58.720 pressure don't just i'm i'm kind of scared actually shake it and then yeah so if my hands on you're

04:18:07.280 fine brian just do it i'm too my hands are i think mld's in the chat what the i just hope you don't like

04:18:16.960 hit anything this is the problem with having small dainty hands you can't bro i don't know how 0.64

04:18:25.920 fucking open to champagne uh kiki is yeah is it do i lose my man card if i have kiko do 0.96

04:18:34.640 yeah just don't point just go 0.99

04:18:41.040 put put your hand on top though to stop it from you just hold it and twist it

04:18:45.280 put you guys right just put your hands on top

04:18:52.640 oh gosh man it's gonna be fine you guys it'll be great

04:18:56.400 you're purchasing guys i'm not liable for anything i was gonna say don't worry you gotta put your hand

04:19:02.960 oh my god you put your hands on top so much amp for nothing yeah this is very dramatic yeah i feel

04:19:08.400 like i've opened a lot of champagne bottles yeah

04:19:12.160 i'm gonna go back here this way yeah go put your hands on top door 1.00

04:19:18.320 i mean how much more time do you want to get that's good that's good keep going

04:19:21.680 you just guys it's gonna pop and you're gonna be like oh that was i know i know i said there's so

04:19:26.720 much hype for nothing you got it oh did you shake it brian no i didn't i definitely didn't

04:19:35.600 oh my god

04:19:40.720 okay it wasn't even a cork brian

04:20:01.040 approximately 24 people are killed each year by champagne bottle corks depending on

04:20:03.600 did i move the cups did i bring the cups back over there where's the cup i mean we all have a

04:20:12.880 million cups yeah i think we all okay brandon mails donated 100 dollars yo brandon thank you so much

04:20:18.720 and i saw your second one by the way thank you sir uh is anyone here just madison you can't you're not

04:20:28.080 21 i think you're the only one yo brandon thank you so so much man that's incredibly generous of 0.97

04:20:33.840 you um thank you so much man um where where you got whoa what the fuck yo we just got a camera full 0.98

04:20:42.320 of titty what the fuck just like boom right up up wait where did the can can i get a cup though i i need 0.99

04:20:50.640 a i think she's grabbing cups right now she's gotta grab cups there's no cups 1.00

04:20:54.880 dude brandon thank you man really appreciate your patronage you're a fucking legend 0.90

04:21:02.960 does that mean we have to pop two bottles though i think so does that mean we pop two 0.92

04:21:07.040 but okay let's do that that was for all the men who comment on my photos flat chest energy

04:21:14.320 i just wanted to show you what i was working with mosquito bites

04:21:18.400 whoever else is drinking let me see what you're working with arturo you must have some baked

04:21:24.880 i do not know how to pour champagne i should not do that did you get the cups yeah you're late

04:21:33.200 oh you're really doing another one that one looks more like a cork are you gonna

04:21:36.400 excess swelling and even glaucoma are all possibilities caused by corks oh my god

04:21:41.840 why are you pointing this brian he's gonna hit the wall brian it's different direction he's gonna

04:21:46.640 prove that he can do it on camera yeah yeah you can't do it on camera yeah you have to do it on

04:21:53.840 brian he paid for this you have to do it on camera yeah let's move it over here kiko how old is puerto

04:22:00.240 rican girl 26 26. am i wikipedia now on there she got it down i like to listen

04:22:12.480 all right we got some meat we have a schloss b-brich did i say that right b-brick i don't know

04:22:20.000 good times what were we talking about related to dating before i feel like we've talked about

04:22:24.880 like three things wait so do i do i do i have to like oh my god that might be a cork no way

04:22:34.000 where the sky is he's trying to get us drunk

04:22:37.920 is there is there something else that we can do for a thousand dollars oh my god

04:22:44.560 oh my god

04:22:45.280 look if my okay serious question if my hand is on top is my hands gonna have a hole in your small

04:23:03.840 this isn't a cartoon brian this is not a cartoon brian that what okay oh my god

04:23:11.440 oh my god wait how do i do it it's it's unscrewed okay so now now we work there's no way dude just

04:23:23.440 pop it off slowly release the pressure what do you mean release the pressure like slowly twist

04:23:29.200 it off twist it upwards but slowly yes but slowly yes this is way too dramatic

04:23:35.280 oh my gosh oh wait oh somebody said grow something don't point it at the camera

04:23:43.840 bro i can't i can't brian you can do this 0.93

04:23:48.320 yeah i think the kid brian this is pathetic did you untwist the metal yeah it's untwisted 0.93

04:23:54.320 keep going bro i'm not turning it it's not turning no now you just kind of like kind of 0.93

04:24:00.080 knock it off toggle it like i was with my thumb toggle it just kind of like

04:24:06.880 bro i don't know kiko come over here this is ridiculous get on camera dude kiko get sit down 0.56

04:24:12.240 this is ridiculous what is happening on whatever podcast 0.86

04:24:20.560 bro don't worry i'm pointing it towards the wall

04:24:22.320 just feel it out just feel it

04:24:39.520 that's right oh my god you feel like the man now brian i'm so proud of you

04:24:44.240 okay he just throws it oh here pass pass the cups pass the cups all right i'd like to make

04:24:51.440 a toast my heart dude

04:24:57.680 oh

04:24:58.000 i'm sorry i'm sorry i'm sorry i'm sorry i'm wild you can tell that you uh don't drink at all

04:25:06.480 do you want to pour some on my pants

04:25:09.440 okay that's that's a little sus

04:25:13.200 does anybody else is anybody is anybody else gonna okay cheers did you guys did you guys pour

04:25:19.120 yeah yeah let's get some for billy let's get some okay we don't really have we lost half our audience 0.98

04:25:25.840 at this point just like this is boring bro you can't even open a fucking thing okay yeah 0.96

04:25:32.160 brandon this is a cheers to brandon mills to brandon to brandon mills let's go brandon 0.98

04:25:40.000 madison can't drink unfortunately but she's uh yeah okay uh i mean

04:25:46.720 it was three bottles it was delicious it was great thank you do we have to do i have to do another

04:25:53.200 one figure out something different to do for his his patronage uh brandon i will set you up on a date

04:26:00.400 i'm gonna set you up on a date with mia 0.99

04:26:04.880 what the man that just donated three thousand dollars you want me to set you up with with

04:26:08.560 brandon where does this come from i don't know i think he likes

04:26:12.400 oh was he the one that paid for the oh i understand i just got that impression

04:26:18.960 brandon do you want me to set you up with me i just

04:26:22.320 wow this is my first time on the podcast not drinking wow look how that went

04:26:27.600 oh you've been tanked all your previous appearances what we were talking about we were talking oh my god

04:26:33.920 we were talking about who should pay on the first date oh wow like i would take down before every

04:26:39.840 podcast about like really tito shots and then in this cup i usually had i would get like two cans of

04:26:45.280 uh the tall nicholos yeah because i like i would be so nervous beforehand i was like i can't i can't do

04:26:52.720 this yeah i was like i can't do this sober i need something in my system but oh no this is my water

04:26:58.000 clearly that wasn't working out for me like two cups of coffee but like everything i didn't want

04:27:05.200 i don't know i don't know how to pour alcohol right inept um so last point here on the who should

04:27:11.440 pay thing no can we just what you would you we're already past that i feel like

04:27:18.160 okay all right let's do some super chats

04:27:20.800 i mean like we are like if we're gonna start to brandon melts

04:27:23.280 may long may he rain oh we have kahil we have kahil here can you hide that did i don't know if

04:27:31.600 we i read this opinions on this dating app significantly lower your self-esteem especially

04:27:35.520 if you're an average man the idea there's so much access to women but somehow you're not good enough 0.85

04:27:41.440 gets to the hearts of many modern day men i do see a little contusion on my hand i'm just gonna say

04:27:48.480 shut up don't i'm a little contused i don't know if that's a word you're a little fragile is that a 0.93

04:27:53.440 word oh i'm not i mean med tech but i don't think that's a word a contusion is not that brandon 0.94

04:28:00.080 mills donated 100 dollars okay mia i'm taking you out next week he'll be down in santa barbara on the

04:28:07.680 fifth to the seventh also itemed you brian yeah are you super cute by the way she's five feet 1.00

04:28:18.080 i am five feet i do i am mid-tier because i play the piano according to brian mid-tier yeah you said

04:28:23.200 that last time oh right you said you preferred string and yeah that's right you don't play cello or

04:28:28.400 right i'm just a pianist so okay dude brandon thanks so much for the uh patronage wait okay so

04:28:35.680 there's going back to kahil did we did that one come up earlier no that's the idea there's so much

04:28:42.480 access to women but somehow you're not good enough gets to the hearts of many modern day men

04:28:48.560 that's from kahil he was asking for opinions on this i was hoping i could see that i agree

04:28:54.880 i dating apps in particular are incredibly like self-esteem bashing for men um you look look no

04:29:04.400 further than the statistics that came out from bumble and from tinder just look at the graph to

04:29:09.120 see the swipes for women versus the swipes for men and also just take into account your experiences on

04:29:13.840 dating apps i know all of you have been on them at in some capacity at some point you open up your app

04:29:19.680 to men in your inbox who have reached out to you men open their app hopefully to a woman who has

04:29:26.080 decided to match them raven dt donated one hundred dollars technically piano is that is kind of true

04:29:33.120 yeah whoa it is a string instrument my still percussion your brain my city college uh music instructor

04:29:41.760 would freak very upset that i yeah okay sorry uh you were you were saying uh about the dating apps

04:29:50.480 like yes a man walk a man opens up his app hopes that a woman who he has liked previously has now

04:29:57.200 matched with him women are opening their app to a sea of men who have already liked them and they're

04:30:02.400 now just selecting which one they are going to match with that is the way it works again well what's the

04:30:07.680 dance that he talked about earlier a woman markets herself a man makes the first move a woman then

04:30:12.560 has to accept that move and see if she wants to proceed any further that's the mating dance for 1.00

04:30:16.480 humans so as a man when a woman is able to literally just take the preferences like she doesn't have to go 0.96

04:30:23.440 out and find a six foot tall man she can literally just swipe on all the six foot tall men who have

04:30:27.920 already liked her within a certain radius and mileage right men who are not hitting the standards on paper

04:30:35.760 are going to complete it's going to be the exact opposite effect of the girls who are average to 1.00

04:30:40.720 below average who still have a ton of guys in their inbox their egos are going to be inflated their egos

04:30:45.680 men's egos are going to be completely deflated and back to what you're talking about about like when

04:30:51.120 you asked earlier about um does when you asked like do you approach men like would you advocate for

04:30:57.120 women approaching men on like a regular day out to fix that chasm uh 100 percent and do you think 1.00

04:31:04.560 that that chasm between men and women uh feeds into inceldom um you mean like being an incel being 0.99

04:31:13.520 involuntarily celibate do you think that chasm feeds into like incel rhetoric i think so because

04:31:20.720 i think a lot of men lose hope to a point where they just decide it's not even worth it anymore they're

04:31:25.520 too ugly whereas if there were a couple of whereas if there were girl well we can get into that in a 1.00

04:31:29.920 second but if there were girls who were willing to approach men who they found to be cute just to 1.00

04:31:34.960 be like let's see how this conversation goes or maybe i can tell him i'd like to get coffee with him

04:31:40.080 like a lot of men would probably be willing to say yes really a lot of men like it's it's the it's the

04:31:45.840 men who have like immense abundance who might see a girl who approaches him and be like and be like

04:31:52.720 i'm gonna pass on this one because a lot of the girls who are like hyper attractive who he's probably 0.99

04:31:57.600 dating already don't feel the need to approach men but women who aren't getting that same degree 0.99

04:32:02.800 of attention who see a man who they wish would approach them go up and approach he's probably

04:32:07.200 going to at least be flattered and he's probably going to say yes if he's not a hyper hyper attractive

04:32:13.280 traditionally hyper attractive man so the extrapolation is like take the chance

04:32:19.600 the same way the same way i would talk to a guy right so like so because of how modern dating has

04:32:24.800 shifted and changed you would now advocate for women to be the ones to approach absolutely i think

04:32:29.840 that the the issue here is that that can be especially helpful for shy guys um i think one

04:32:36.720 of the big issues here is that because women again are emotionally stimulated and emotionally aroused 0.98

04:32:42.080 men are attractive on the approach just the fact that he's approaching has the balls to approach like 0.69

04:32:48.080 he just him making that move automatically elevates him in your eyes so that's an injury so that's

04:32:54.560 kind of an interesting one and one and a reason why i wish i could get more men to be comfortable

04:32:59.440 just like approaching getting rejected but if you want to solve the problem of these men feeling the

04:33:04.240 shame feeling the fear women absolutely need to be willing to approach more often and face that same

04:33:10.480 rejection and face that same rejection yeah now now go ahead go ahead you're good go for it i was going

04:33:16.080 to say just the one comment on inceldom again i try not to talk i try not to like talk down on incels

04:33:23.520 i think that abandoning hope on anything is a bad move but what i will say to most men who

04:33:29.040 consider themselves to be unattractive i've said this before you are 12 weeks in the gym and one

04:33:35.040 shopping spree away from taking yourself from being like a three to a six so true and if you do that

04:33:39.680 for a year you're an eight all and and by the way the characteristics you'll develop as a result of

04:33:45.840 that the discipline the hard work like just the dedication and the overall just willingness to

04:33:52.960 take care of yourself those are going to be traits that you carry over into other aspects of your life

04:33:57.440 and the moment that you start attract and the moment you start attracting women that is the

04:34:01.360 most tangible measurement of confidence that we have for men in the modern world yep it reminds me of

04:34:05.840 like the best thing i've heard andrew tate say when he says like when he has men reach out to them

04:34:10.000 saying like oh i'm so depressed or i'm so like you know no one likes me whatever and he'll tell them

04:34:14.320 get in the gym go to the gym get a six pack or you know do whatever and i get what he's saying

04:34:20.160 because either one or two things will happen you'll go to the gym you'll become more attractive you'll

04:34:24.640 get more girls your problem solved or the latter which isn't bad either is you'll get more confidence

04:34:30.480 in yourself and you find something more living for on your own to where it's still a positive win-win

04:34:36.240 situation so yeah the gym a nice outfit a nice watch it could do wonders for a man we still have to

04:34:43.760 pull up your instagram but before you do that up there that really hates you no no i've been seeing

04:34:51.120 a lot of pot they like him uh pull up twitch really quick first guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever

04:34:57.840 drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you have one twitch.tv slash whatever just there there it is

04:35:07.200 gentlemen ground score pro with the seven viewer raid thank you sir we have joseanne who's been on

04:35:14.320 the show dropping bits bff dropping bits thank you aid schaefer thank you for the oh my god i'm such a

04:35:24.000 lightweight i'm already drunk okay i was gonna say i can say i feel like you got drunk as soon as it got in

04:35:29.600 the air like pretty much guys follow us on twitch twitch.tv slash whatever uh pred deterred thank

04:35:36.240 for the prime wolf move gonna um omni thank you for the prime appreciate it brothers we'll check

04:35:41.760 back in there before we wrap up the show uh let's pull up kiko's instagram really quick while we're

04:35:45.920 waiting why are we doing this because we were gonna do it like an hour ago and then just obviously it's

04:35:51.440 super relevant to the conversation we're having right now do it nick we're talking about um

04:35:55.280 oh is that painting with a twist uh no it's painted cabaret oh it's the same thing i love it let's

04:36:00.880 scroll down just a little oh we should go again look it i guess those are my most provocative photos

04:36:09.200 right there haram that that's haram they're also like five years old that's like if you click on it's

04:36:16.480 like 2018 so these are kind of revealing you think my instagram is provocative it's i've seen worse

04:36:25.280 like like i mean let's be real if you think my instagram is provocative

04:36:30.240 it's it's not terrible i don't think you would want your girlfriend to have instagram at all then

04:36:33.760 it's not that bad i'm just saying though i don't i think i'm very mild compared to the content that

04:36:40.480 is put out there these days i feel like it's pretty tame and i have not deleted anything for the sake of

04:36:45.920 me being in a relationship i have not edited my instagram at all except for taking my old partners off

04:36:52.240 but i i that's why i'm saying when it comes to social media i don't see myself as having to

04:36:58.880 change how i portray myself because word okay we don't all right i just know we were going to pull

04:37:07.600 it up so thanks for the shout out i don't know it's kind of yep go follow her and also your tick

04:37:12.080 talk is rage quick kiko but you deleted it i think i changed my username i changed it to kiko lane

04:37:19.040 trying to sway away from the rage quit era question for you here you said in your pre-show messages to

04:37:26.240 us that you accidentally dated your third cousin and that you're currently dating this you you provide

04:37:32.720 this not a man who is a felon you asked me what was the worst thing that's happened or something

04:37:39.760 didn't you like what was the question there was a question like what was it but tell us about your

04:37:43.840 the worst case stereo like i it's just i went to a wedding and like my grandma was like that's your

04:37:49.840 third cousin and that was it did did you guys no calm down brian no just curious just saying small town

04:37:59.120 happens you said you're currently dating a man who is a felon fresh out of prison but you've been

04:38:05.600 dating him for what you said a year yeah i did good seven months super proud of him was it seven months

04:38:12.480 well you said you the current guy you're dating you've been with him for was it seven months you

04:38:16.000 said or one year it's been a year now yeah but you said so when you say fresh out of prison were you

04:38:20.800 dating him when he was in prison like he just got out of prison when i met him oh so a year ago yeah

04:38:26.400 okay i thought maybe you were pen pals with him that's how you met him when he was in prison

04:38:30.800 no and then no he got out we just met and we just clicked and we've been together ourselves okay

04:38:41.120 how long was he in good times um not very long i think it was like a year year and a half

04:38:47.920 some people like oh not very long seven years yeah yeah okay good times that's like you know what i

04:38:53.920 mean slap on the rest good times let me do the super chats it doesn't sound like a violent yeah

04:38:59.120 no no absolutely not no yo we have wait did we read this one from mr puffy vegas did we read this

04:39:07.440 all right this is a total lies bs my friends wives slash girlfriends have hit me about sx my entire

04:39:15.360 years life offered me sx why do all women pretend that you're not 100 of every woman i met cheat on 0.97

04:39:26.240 their husbands i've never met a wn that was faithful puffy vegas is the guy that we looked at he's a 0.96

04:39:34.640 fucking by the way we looked at his instagram right on tuesday yeah so he's saying he's essentially 0.98

04:39:41.440 saying that every woman that he's met is a cheater but we looked at his instagram and he hangs out 0.99

04:39:46.000 with like mysterious strange women all the time i think you need to surround yourself with better 1.00

04:39:50.160 people that's all i'm saying so yeah i i will say i have been i've spent time like on bachelor parties

04:39:57.680 or just like random boys trips where there have been women who literally like i've been essayed like

04:40:02.800 i have women come to me and they literally tell me you're the reason i'm gonna cheat on my husband 1.00

04:40:06.240 okay like like overtly they did corner you okay like it it happens a lot i was even talking to a

04:40:12.720 friend of mine earlier he sent me screenshots he met a girl yesterday got her number said hey do you

04:40:17.760 want to get coffee i can't i'm actually about to get on a plane to go to to go to italy full disclosure

04:40:23.200 i'm going with a guy that i may or may not be in love with but i'm intrigued but but i'm intrigued by

04:40:29.280 you and i'd like to keep talking the goal okay so like imagine being that guy who's going to italy with

04:40:35.120 her doesn't even know that she's just like talking to another guy who intrigues her all right he

04:40:39.920 probably thinks oh she's great oh she's coming with me oh she's being super sweet or she's being 0.88

04:40:43.120 super cuddly oh we're like having sex on the trip we're spending time touring together meanwhile there's 0.69

04:40:48.560 a guy waiting back in new york city for her well that's why the saying is men don't cheat more than 0.92

04:40:52.720 women they just get caught more it tends to be women are a lot better at i just you ever heard that 1.00

04:40:58.800 saying before like it's we always say men are the cheaters men are the biggest cheaters blah blah blah

04:41:04.160 but um a lot of research shows that women cheat almost just as much they just don't get caught

04:41:09.600 as easy whereas men cheat and then the woman finds out because they you know it's super obvious it's

04:41:14.640 much easier for women to cheat to add to that they they do it's more they're more sneaky what are your 0.99

04:41:20.000 thoughts on like uh being open with cellular devices like would you ever pick up her phone or look through

04:41:26.080 it or or something like that um i mean i have no reason to do it with her because she gives me

04:41:31.920 zero reason to um but again i think pattern recognition is something that is that is something

04:41:38.160 you got to take into account like like like maybe something like who you've been texting all day

04:41:43.200 just a question right and then at a certain point if you want to make that confrontation make it but

04:41:49.440 again different people are different people are very different i think people who have had their

04:41:52.800 trust violated in the past who say listen it's not that i don't trust you but i have just had

04:41:57.680 situations in the past it would make me feel better if you just gave me access to your phone

04:42:01.760 i completely support that um i've never been screwed in that capacity um but i completely understand why

04:42:08.160 people would have it and i actually support it um if the women don't want to cooperate with that 1.00

04:42:13.040 so be it but that's for them to figure out so by the way mr puffy vegas a woman is dming me on 1.00

04:42:21.520 whatever her name is puffalina i was wondering if i could get you set up with her you're puffy vegas 1.00

04:42:27.040 she's puffalina that's actually her username let me know if i can get you set up you know okay we

04:42:32.560 have uh can i make a point to uh sure sure go ahead i think that women that behave like that are 1.00

04:42:39.200 absolutely pathetic people people people need to take accountability yes like and if you want to 0.96

04:42:46.240 have successful relationships in this life you have to stop being a complete 0.99

04:42:53.440 what uh degenerate when it comes to how you're confiscating it like a teacher

04:43:00.160 i was really confused because that one half class of champagne yeah right that one sip but they're 0.99

04:43:08.000 pathetic because yeah because people because women behave like sex is this like 1.00

04:43:16.080 disposable thing that if they engage in it more and more often that they're somehow being um 0.99

04:43:24.000 what's the word i'm looking for like the divine feminine energy yeah yeah sure empowered empowered

04:43:34.320 yeah exactly empowered and at the same time they're wanting this man to commit to them and they're

04:43:40.240 trying to find somebody that is going to play the traditional role in the relationship when they're

04:43:44.720 just out here being promiscuous and not acting traditional in any sense how does that relate

04:43:51.520 back to what you just said i'm confused i would actually say like what she just said like like

04:43:56.160 had me thinking more about my response to you i would i would venture to say that openness with

04:44:01.600 devices should actually be like a non-negotiable that it's totally okay same that's how i like i have

04:44:08.400 nothing to hide from her on my phone she has nothing to hide from me in her phone yeah do i feel the

04:44:12.320 need to consistently check it no but i honestly think that if you're in a full long-term committed

04:44:17.120 relationship with future prospects it shouldn't even be a remote question if someone were to ask

04:44:22.880 you can i see your phone you should be able to be like here like it should be a no-brainer

04:44:28.000 non-negotiable if you're looking if you're hiding something or if you're being fishy about that

04:44:31.680 something is 100 yes a lot of men like will dm me and be like um i'm nervous that like this girl i'm

04:44:37.440 dating might be cheating on me um do you recommend that i look at her phone i'm like you're already 0.67

04:44:41.680 too far like if you can't lay out your phone and then like for example when i was in a monogamous

04:44:46.720 relationship when we were living together for almost four years phones were like it just i just

04:44:51.760 picked his up if i needed to use it or he picked mine up if you need to use it you know when you know

04:44:56.480 and even the slight like instinct that you got to check your phone is you're already past that point

04:45:02.080 in my opinion pattern recognition is not key in security yeah i think that's a very important

04:45:06.960 thing yes i was honestly so fortunate in the relationship i'm in right now that my boyfriend

04:45:11.440 actually lost his phone like two months in three months into our relationship and while he was like

04:45:17.760 there's a problem with his phone insurance or whatever so he didn't have a phone for like

04:45:22.000 honestly almost like two months he didn't have a phone and he was using my ipad a lot because it had

04:45:27.680 has like cellular you can use it but what happened was since he logged into his icloud on my ipad

04:45:33.280 all of our stuff has kind of gotten synced together so he has access to like he gets my text messages

04:45:40.480 and my like all my social media notifications and i sometimes get his too which i kind of liked because

04:45:46.640 right in the beginning it allowed for no like secrets or transparency yeah it's full transparency not

04:45:53.120 even because we wanted to but it just ended up being that way so like now i know he has full access to

04:45:57.520 all my messages and he has i have full access to his and it's just no no even question about

04:46:02.640 wait question kiko what if you were on your boyfriend's phone right and i'm so drunk

04:46:10.480 what if you're on your boyfriend's phone right and like you're just you're checking his 0.99

04:46:14.720 shit and then boom grinder pops up what do you do oh grinder 0.97

04:46:20.160 i would go to him and be like i'm very disappointed that you felt the need to hide this and start 1.00

04:46:31.440 something like this um you put my sexual health in at risk and that's just not cool and you're a 1.00

04:46:40.720 pussy because if that's what you want to be then be that loud and proud don't do that on my time 1.00

04:46:49.040 what y'all wait what's going on behind the scenes there what y'all doing madison what you're doing 1.00

04:46:53.120 back there hey madison get back in your seat madison are you mikaela now yeah get back in your seat 0.68

04:47:02.160 right now you can't eat over there i demand you starve on camera i demand eat your popcorn haven't

04:47:10.320 you been anti-lgbtq it's not anti-lgbtq i just feel like i have the right to not be in a relationship 0.99

04:47:15.840 with the gays you're making i feel like that's like a madison anti-gay that's ridiculous like 0.98

04:47:22.720 that's just sorry sorry i don't want to be with a man hey you too nicole secretly but you're going to 0.99

04:47:31.360 put your butt in that seat right now guys here's what all right we got to do some super chats so 0.86

04:47:40.240 here's what we're going to do god you're on a good one did you even have like half a glass well no this 0.98

04:47:44.880 is just his third character he had the condescending girl he had the uppity guy and now he has this

04:47:50.000 he has dr evil too bye felicia donated fifty dollars concerned about being screamed at or

04:47:58.160 labeled as a creep for simply greeting a girl what in the hell potentially causing her discomfort

04:48:06.080 however i'm all right with the receiving respect for rejection what is it called what are you calling

04:48:12.560 it something this whole podcast is scuffed now we're just scuffed listen listen up i'll tell you

04:48:20.080 this are you trolling i'll tell you this she's from alabama so she knows what did i have todd chrisley

04:48:29.360 listen they called you todd chrisley who's that who's todd crystal okay let's not talk about it

04:48:39.520 but uh let me just say bye felicia thank you very much for the appreciate it what we have excuse me

04:48:50.160 raise your hand if you want to ask a question there you go i call on kiko

04:48:53.680 when they when they send comments and it just ends up as a link what are they trying to say

04:49:04.320 are you are you speaking are you making fun of me right now i'm just trying to make the same energy

04:49:09.440 as you wait so what was the question what are they saying about you roll tide roll tide

04:49:17.680 wait what what are they saying no but like i'm actually serious wait so just so you're gonna

04:49:23.760 because your accent's a bit tame but if you get a bit more drunk is it gonna come probably when i

04:49:28.320 get excited or when i get uh passionate i get really country your voice just sounds like like

04:49:33.760 sunflowers and cowbells she's like she's just like sweet as pie picture like a clothesline 1.00

04:49:43.440 yeah yes here's here's what i see when when i hear her when i just see her whatever you're like a

04:49:52.160 a cool breeze on a hot summer day that's what's up it's precious i'll take it brian's riz level is

04:49:59.680 at a zero what the excuse me your real brian just came out all right we have puffy vegas here our

04:50:10.240 good friend puffy vegas he lives in vegas he pops the same he just trying to fix his his spelling

04:50:15.840 errors we already went over this oh he's a never all right let me let me read this here never met a

04:50:24.960 woman excuse me you already read this i did did i think this is a different he just changed the

04:50:31.600 never met a woman in my life that was faithful i don't think a woman can be faithful every woman i 1.00

04:50:36.880 have ever met women that will not sleep with the man on the first night if he gives her who she 0.99

04:50:43.200 pees all right we have testing tolerance black shirt is wrong there is no point in checking

04:50:53.200 each other's phones and can only cause harm i've dated at least three women who later i found out 1.00

04:50:58.640 had husbands or boyfriends they all used separate a partner's clean phone means nothing i don't

04:51:06.160 how testing how disconnected are you to not realize your partner has a whole other phone like yeah i

04:51:12.080 mean are you even in their life like that that they're working overtime to hide that kind of thing

04:51:18.320 like again are are we talking about the fringe case here something like that like like how often do

04:51:24.240 we really think that that's going on like i understand that women can can hide things i 0.99

04:51:29.120 understand that they can delete bms i understand that they can do those things i don't want to make

04:51:32.880 it seem like it's something that is like completely and utterly abnormal especially in the modern dating 0.96

04:51:38.480 world but again like i think you can tell when you're dating like a total freaking narcissist 0.97

04:51:46.240 a total sociopath okay like again pattern recognition all right we have marquavius martin 0.98

04:51:56.240 it will be michelin star and will change your life oh i i can't do it okay priya don't wear your safari 0.91

04:52:04.400 outfit wear your hair up brian wear your hair up as well brian you have to bring a girl i can't do right 0.99

04:52:12.720 now to defend priya i don't want you staring i don't want you staring at us while we eat bring

04:52:18.080 madison if you must if we bring madison we got to bring frankie so can i say something about my

04:52:23.360 outfit yeah no no i don't i don't care if they're dissing it but people in the chat think my shirt is

04:52:28.000 denim and it's not it's satin she wants to clarify that piece of information can somebody who's in the

04:52:35.200 chat maybe brandon can do this brandon i don't know if you're still watching okay i don't know if you're

04:52:40.240 still watching but okay trump can you can you make a photo with priya with one of those like old

04:52:47.520 school safari hats and send it to our instagram and we'll show it on the stream or somebody like

04:52:54.720 just a little photoshop a cheapo photoshop thank you man to be fair yeah if priya had like a show on

04:53:02.080 animal planet like i'd probably watch honestly if priya had a show on animal you look like if she was a 0.79

04:53:09.440 true safari girl with the hat i would watch she's a horse girl i would watch but hey martin thank you

04:53:14.720 very much we're gonna we're gonna talk about this i'm gonna email you sir it is a very i will email

04:53:19.280 you to get this not in a bad way at all all right we have puffy vegas positive bryant question oh he

04:53:26.160 just disrespected the fuck out of you he put a y and a t major disrespect the biggest disrespect though 0.94

04:53:32.160 is when they do brain that is rude is it disrespectful or does it just show their lack 0.97

04:53:37.760 of uh ability yeah to check their grammar it's all of the above right question to the girls no bs can 0.99

04:53:44.960 a win why man he's not cheap i don't believe it is possible can a woman not this guy's drunk too 0.76

04:53:50.960 yeah he has been cheated on he's trying to say the same statement three different times

04:53:59.760 doing the cheating guys maybe there's a language barrier guys he lives in vegas

04:54:06.640 i'm trying to throw out anything in and of itself it's a different country yeah yeah we need mr puffy to

04:54:12.160 call into a show and we need to get the scoop on what's going on with miss give him a hotline to 1.00

04:54:18.000 call right he is he is an amplified version of what a lot of men think actually i'm just gonna

04:54:22.800 like call him like like that that whole concept this is like we go back to that thing i said earlier

04:54:28.000 about like the female version of chivalry one of the one of the things that women can do as a duty to 1.00

04:54:32.160 their man you need to more so than him you need to go out of your way to showcase loyalty to him

04:54:40.080 that is something like because of what you said you said women cheat just as much as men they're just 0.66

04:54:43.920 better at hiding it it's because of their access to it women their barrier to cheating is so much 0.99

04:54:50.240 lower because men are pursuing them they don't need to go out of their way to pursue somebody else 1.00

04:54:53.760 okay that's a good point okay so women going out of their way to demonstrate loyalty to their man in 1.00

04:54:58.880 very very overt ways that is also something but that doesn't always work with high value men right

04:55:05.280 that have like a bunch of options because i've recently dated like a man that i considered a how

04:55:11.360 a high value man and like you know how you were discussing earlier about like approaching a high

04:55:15.360 value man at the bar and how he might reject you because he has options of like other beautiful

04:55:19.520 women like how does that fit into what you're saying like right now what do you mean approaching versus 1.00

04:55:25.520 versus loyalty that those are two very very different things um i lost my train of thought but

04:55:31.360 the question was there i'm sorry i just i just want to say puffy i tried on instagram i tried calling you

04:55:36.640 from the whatever instagram so what are you still in the chat i'll call you from we'll put you on the

04:55:44.160 stream right now puffy if you want um all right bye felicia pepe la pew replaced chris brown

04:55:51.760 dope uh i think that was that was that was when we were talking about like chris brown yeah thank you

04:55:58.720 bye felicia appreciate it puffy vegas i've never bought women anything you don't have to buy women wait why is

04:56:05.600 there why why is there a why okay if a woman likes you 90 my days are just come over i'm sorry excuse

04:56:15.520 me but that that's actually kind of true though what does that mean i don't know that that means

04:56:19.760 that if she actually likes you 90 of the time it's not even about taking her out on dates it's like hey

04:56:23.440 let's come over and chill and again at a certain point in time if she likes you that is exactly what

04:56:27.600 it is and it's not hey let's netflix and chill no it's like come over let's spend some time together

04:56:31.760 but no we don't need to go out i love that i prefer that most of the time yeah but once i know

04:56:37.440 somebody sure yeah definitely not for a first yeah if a woman actually likes you it's easy to tell 1.00

04:56:43.680 and therefore it is just 90 of the days is like let's just hang out yeah absolutely no i i completely

04:56:49.200 agree with that but i think his argument is like it seemed i i don't know it it doesn't seem like he's

04:56:58.000 finding women that he's going to get into some sort of relationship yeah remember when he we

04:57:03.120 looked at his instagram last week and like he had like so many different like random women on there

04:57:08.480 like you're not like demonstrating like really what you want allowing women to i don't i don't think

04:57:13.360 that you're surrounding yourself with people with decent moral values i would ask what would it take

04:57:20.720 for you to trust a woman that would be that would be very simple because again like maybe you can't trust 1.00

04:57:25.520 anybody like not to get too deep but like like what would it take like what's the barrier for you

04:57:31.440 to be like it's good enough like it's good enough i can trust or are you just out completely self-reflection

04:57:38.000 is key whoa that was deep so deep so deep okay we have by felicia approximately 24 people are killed

04:57:50.080 each year by champagne bottle corks depending on the conditions a cork would need to be under three bars

04:57:54.800 of pressure to travel at 60 miles per hour i was yeah it's dangerous it's dangerous my hand is still

04:58:01.120 contused okay puffy vegas thank you man this woman is just joking no man would be offended about what 0.97

04:58:07.200 you wanted to pay every man i've known has had women paid for dinner why do you not believe the truth 1.00

04:58:13.120 you are the reason why i would never pay for any women one one in one in one in oh my god how did you 1.00

04:58:22.080 spell the same word differently three times michael sartain said it best grammarly get it grammarly

04:58:28.400 there's a free version folks we have by felicia some men concerned about being screamed at or labeled

04:58:35.920 as creepy for simply greeting a girl toby addison a blind man was bizarrely asked to leave a gym

04:58:41.600 after being accused of checking a woman out joey swole good points good points this is related to uh

04:58:53.440 men's hesitation to approach i suppose and we don't get to just blame our hormones and say oh my

04:58:59.280 testosterone was acting up can't do that well men do make some blanket statements like oh that's just my

04:59:05.840 nature this and that is another way to say my testosterone's always on that high level but i don't

04:59:10.560 necessarily think that that's a bad thing but it's not only women who are blaming their biology for 1.00

04:59:16.560 their ways that they are sure i think it happens on both ends but but but it's considered but

04:59:23.040 basically we're considered to be like predatory yes like like like this whole situation like it's not

04:59:28.000 just like oh my god you're being a nag right like like it's like you are you're being predatory in a 1.00

04:59:34.560 setting where women are now like made to feel uncomfortable and it's just like all i do is check you out 0.77

04:59:39.520 yeah okay because that's literally what men do is objectify you in order to see if they want to 1.00

04:59:45.040 approach you and maybe date you and it's literally just the way that we're wired biologically we have

04:59:50.800 trenton kingsley here hey thank you man uh thanks for the long podcast bryant makes work easier add

04:59:58.320 some colors to the whatever merch billy ray thank you too for your videos madison 07 always lovely to see

05:00:09.440 you from trenton kingsley thank you senior trenton kingsley he's like a stand-up guy trenton

05:00:18.320 what a chad what a legend okay um what chad chad comes from incel dumb yeah on reddit is actually

05:00:29.120 that's right you're correct it dates back actually it dates back to actually you know since we're on

05:00:34.480 the top of incel don't you think together don't you think it is kind of not ironic but like a crazy

05:00:43.600 coincidence that this podcast takes place in isla vista which is where not i won't say incel

05:00:51.520 culture brewed oh but it is where no most oh most incels wait incel dumb uh was created in new

05:00:58.800 hampshire by a governor on reddit but hold on the most where incel culture is now actually started

05:01:04.240 where they say like the incel um like their king their warrior is elliot rogers jesus christ that's

05:01:10.640 where let's not let's not let's not talk about that's not one of our prohibited words or topics

05:01:14.960 yeah but it's just that's one that's a big part of this whole little complicated prohibited topic

05:01:20.480 let's just uh his actions let's not talk about it's not any of the words that were

05:01:26.000 yeah but i don't really feel like talking about like i'm sure you don't shooting well i wasn't

05:01:30.800 eating at that i wasn't going to go into details about what happened i just i was just bringing up how

05:01:34.800 i thought it was thank you i've donated 100 puffy my god stop messing with drunk women on the strip 1.00

05:01:41.760 and go to church being cutting into my ammo budget now kept up the good work alabama if i had sock

05:01:48.160 media i shoot my shot but i don't sad face lock darogar wait what does lock darogar mean for the horde

05:01:56.320 for the horde i'm thinking about deleting my social media she's thinking about deleting her social media 0.61

05:02:03.920 and as far as the origins of chad uh according to google it's a rooted in the old english name

05:02:13.760 chiada that's not what we're talking about or defender just saying i'm just saying don't

05:02:21.040 worry about don't worry chads and stacy's and all those blonde blue hot attractive ladies so we've 1.00

05:02:28.960 gone through all the super chats here we've gotten liquored up you're the only one intoxicated here

05:02:36.560 that's not okay fine i i will you're a lightweight brian i will revise my statement it's kind of it's

05:02:42.960 good i'm liquored up um thank you uh to cheers brandon nails uh before we wrap up would anyone like

05:02:55.360 a final word this has been my favorite podcast episode i've been on yet has it it has this has

05:03:01.760 been lovely i just we didn't really argue much maybe we should know there was a cat fight last time

05:03:07.120 on the other side it's why i'm not wait did you not like michael sartain huh do you not like michael

05:03:15.520 sartain um i think wait were you on i've never been on with michael sartain michael the michael

05:03:21.040 knowles podcast i liked a lot as well but i feel like sometimes he he's a very well educated well

05:03:27.920 spoken man but at points he'll try to say things to trigger the other side that goes unseen where he

05:03:35.120 will say things blatantly to get a reaction out of people that won't be seen as such michael sartain

05:03:40.880 i think he is another one of the very well spoken on the other side but he has a lot of things he says

05:03:45.920 that are easily country like even when he was on here with his uh girl the first time he came on

05:03:52.320 here there was a few things that they said together where i was like um like he's talking about oh

05:03:58.000 instagrams have to be a certain way and i don't want my girl posting this out in the third but then

05:04:01.360 if you go on his girl's instagram page it's yes exactly except but he but he did say that he like

05:04:08.560 he was a bikini model like um person so he was like totally okay with that let's not talk about

05:04:13.760 the man well he's we're not trash here let's not talk about the man while he's not here at the

05:04:18.320 table we're not trashing it shout out michael sartain we're going to talk the one of the guys

05:04:21.760 mo mr puffy vegas yeah that guy sustain abuse i don't know who zirka is he just like started

05:04:30.160 popping up recently this is a new one i'm going to put you and like the most disagreeable people

05:04:35.200 we've had on the panel with the zirka i think i think we'll do that um okay there is a fight that

05:04:40.480 broke puffy vegas there's a physical fight no not a physical fight i mean a discussion about

05:04:44.880 a physical fight a cat fight okay oh puffy vegas can talk to the panel dude check your instagram

05:04:51.680 check your dms i've been trying to call you so panel wrong but you're not panel it's through

05:04:57.600 instagram though puffy vegas i feel like instagram calling dog okay hold on i was gonna ignore this

05:05:03.600 i'm not pregnant let's not start i'm not pregnant wait he sent it twice i've just gained weight it's

05:05:08.720 just the angle i mean come on kiko let's not know i'm i'm i'm purposely trying very very hard to gain

05:05:14.640 weight like this is huh you're trying to get thick i'm trying to get thick i'm trying to get

05:05:19.760 huh you're trying to with the help of my boyfriend he's encouraging it but okay i have gained weight

05:05:24.640 i've gained 20 pounds since the last time i was on really yes i have gained 20 pounds but it's not

05:05:30.480 due to pregnancy i have an iud oh speaking of iud's who here's on birth control

05:05:39.680 you are i just got off this month you just got off this month which one did you get off

05:05:45.120 with do you feel amazing okay um no it's been a rough month i'm sure it'll take some time yeah all

05:05:52.640 over but we've been doing a lot of research and i felt like a hypocrite being on birth control

05:05:57.920 you look great content i post you feel like being a hypocrite on birth control with the 0.69

05:06:01.120 content you post because of why because i feel like birth control perpetuates hookup culture so

05:06:06.240 and it also is horrible for your health once you look into it yeah if you read the book um beyond

05:06:11.520 the pill it'll change your view on everything it's insane did you feel like emotionally unstable

05:06:18.160 or no i actually felt great on birth control yeah um but i have it's a rough come down um you said

05:06:26.640 it's been a difficult well it definitely yeah it just was like your hormones yeah when you come

05:06:30.400 off with like you're like oh my gosh i feel emotions again that was the weird thing so you were kind of

05:06:34.560 numb before because i've never been on birth control ever i've never i wouldn't say i was numb it's just

05:06:38.400 like i i'm more in touch with my body now and i can feel the different times of the month and also

05:06:44.480 like i started breaking out because my hormones just kind of freaked out um that's interesting because

05:06:50.880 the last well i think maybe the very last episode they had with michael sartain or maybe the one

05:06:55.040 you're on with whatever one it was he said that his girlfriend had just gotten off and it's been

05:06:59.280 amazing and she feels great and it's been a world of a difference a lot of people do yeah i can see

05:07:04.320 both sides but let's be careful when you say it perpetuates hookup culture because it can i

05:07:10.720 definitely see that sentence but not every woman is on birth control because of hookup culture because 1.00

05:07:14.800 she wants to just sleep with every man she can i think the stabilizing hormones things is not true 1.00

05:07:20.720 that's not even the point i was gonna say but let me continue my point it could be for multiple

05:07:25.200 reasons cat fight one well you're not even close one we know that not every time a woman can make 1.00

05:07:31.840 her own informed decision so it is a sometimes backup plan so she doesn't have to do other things that

05:07:37.680 she doesn't want to do two i don't want to start convincing a bunch of women to not take birth control 1.00

05:07:42.400 because that can also have a very negative effect going into things so just let everyone make their own

05:07:47.920 conscious decision and not i think a lot of people aren't informed of what birth control is

05:07:51.840 actually doing to their body yeah i mean and i feel like if you're not hand you this pill i was not

05:07:56.800 informed no but i think that's kind of common sense like i mean it's no they're incentivized the doctors

05:08:01.200 are incentivized a lot of people aren't even realizing that they're synthetic hormones and that the

05:08:05.520 synthetic hormones actually do much different things than your real hormones would do so read beyond

05:08:10.560 the pill sorry i thought i thought that was maybe read the book that's maybe naive of me to feel like

05:08:14.640 that's common sense to understand putting something in your body that's literally trying to change how

05:08:19.440 your body works is going to have effects all of your nutrient supplies once you come off birth control 0.85

05:08:24.160 um to get those nutrients back i can't i'm not a doctor i can't really explain it well but there is

05:08:30.240 such a deficit that the only way to get those nutrients back in my body are going to be um through

05:08:36.720 supplements you can do it through diet but it would take months and months and months because the

05:08:40.960 supply is just like so low in your can i ask you a personal question so have you taken like blood

05:08:45.920 tests to figure out like deficiencies i'm actually doing that this week i i'm in touch with a neuro

05:08:51.040 neuropath neuropathy yeah they they recommend different blood tests and also in the book that

05:08:57.920 i'm reading they tell you the whole panel it's like a neuroscience slash like homeopathic person it's

05:09:02.720 like a yeah it's like the like the natural doctors homeopathic medicine got it okay my whole

05:09:09.200 point is this podcast the viewers are mostly men right we all know that they don't make a lot of

05:09:15.920 do their own research so it's not their gender let's not i just i'm saying like you said you're

05:09:21.440 not a doctor so when it comes to those things let's not start saying things and pushing things

05:09:25.440 because what i don't want these men to now go on and be like oh get off birth control don't do this i

05:09:30.960 heard this on the spot you should touch the reason we're not doctors another big reason i got off is

05:09:35.440 because like our next step in our relationship would be marriage and when you're on the reason

05:09:40.960 a reason that divorce rates are elevating or increasing um is because when women come off 1.00

05:09:48.320 birth controls typically when they get married and their hormones change so much that when they're

05:09:53.360 married they're not attracted to their spouse anymore pheromones and it's also a selection thing 0.69

05:09:58.160 there are studies and one of the studies is mapped out in the book but there is a study that was that

05:10:02.720 that was performed that showcased that women who were not on birth control so have natural occurring

05:10:08.240 hormones they will mate select with men who have the most different immune systems to them imaginable

05:10:16.480 because it makes their kid more immune to more things women who are on birth control would select 1.00

05:10:22.720 for the exact opposite so there are like very very natural selection oriented things and sexual selection

05:10:29.200 things that the pill will fundamentally change about you and a lot of women like she said will 1.00

05:10:34.000 literally just pheromones change and they are no longer attracted to their husband that's a really

05:10:38.640 interesting topic i've never heard of before i would love to do more research beyond the pill

05:10:43.040 who's on birth control right now i just want to say show hands i just want to say

05:10:48.240 for the brian for the um hookup culture point if you look at a graph um when birth control came out

05:10:58.400 the instances of premarital sex skyrocketed within those few years which would be a very very positive 1.00

05:11:05.360 correlation to hookup culture being perpetuated by it i understand what you're saying you're saying

05:11:09.360 that like listen you're not a doctor so let's not promote not taking your medication because women 1.00

05:11:14.160 take medication and birth control for period cramps uh but there's way more effective ways to actually

05:11:20.480 get rid of absolutely i'm i'm actually i actually shouldn't have period cramps i'm i'm not on birth

05:11:25.600 control i'm i'm on the same page as you i'm just trying to play devil's advocate here where it's like

05:11:30.080 you don't want to push someone to not take medication that they need you just want to encourage

05:11:33.840 them to kind of do the research on their own yeah right right yeah that's why i'm saying let's

05:11:38.560 stray away from just saying absolutely because you guys will be the same people to be like sorry

05:11:44.400 not to try to go there but it would be the same people to be like pro-life what can you do if

05:11:48.000 they're not informed you gotta be informed okay so you're saying don't you tell your woman don't 0.79

05:11:51.360 be on birth control don't do this in the third but then also they don't have a choice to do they

05:11:55.840 they do have the choice just trying to move it away no they do have the choice have safe sex

05:12:01.280 a condom is not 100 percent um when a condom combined with taking your temperature every day

05:12:06.720 is very tracking your ovulation it's actually you're getting a very close percentage to birth control 0.84

05:12:11.920 i didn't listen please guys safe sex it's really important make sure your chick wears a condom 1.00

05:12:24.800 make sure guys female condoms are that's not to prevent pregnancy that's to prevent stds of the 1.00

05:12:30.160 throat no this is no this isn't a dental dam my dear this is a female condom aren't those statistics 0.72

05:12:37.920 that it's like really not that high of um i don't know i've never seen one i'm like i'm so curious 0.92

05:12:43.840 the the circumference is large and that's your preference right huh no bro don't throw women 1.00

05:12:51.520 with audis under the bus like that i'm not i'm not i'm on your side listen audis doesn't have to do

05:12:58.000 with the like you know i know you could be tight and have an outie i'm aware i'm aware please do not

05:13:04.480 disrespect please stop being such a misogynist okay listen i'm blm okay you are a

05:13:12.160 misogynist my dear i'm big lady as a feminist i will not stand for your misogyny the rules are 0.97

05:13:18.800 versus what's happening what's an average labia yeah i don't know he asked me last time if i had 0.83

05:13:23.920 an in-ear in abby what's a big labia versus the bigger the better this came up last time where she 1.00

05:13:29.680 was the girl that followed me was like how low do you go who did you fight with uh the girl that was 0.89

05:13:33.840 sitting on the end what was her name oh the light-skinned girl i have a question do you put do you

05:13:37.920 purposely put huh do you purposely put light-skinned girls in the first seat now always so it kind 1.00

05:13:42.880 of looks like it's me no there's been a few panels where like oh i'm like i wasn't on that panel i'm

05:13:47.920 like oh that's just another light-skinned girl do i purposely what put the light-skinned girls in 1.00

05:13:52.320 this first seat now so it looks like i'm sitting here on like a quick glance

05:13:55.840 all right wow okay what is that i don't know how do you choose the seating on a real note i've been

05:14:07.200 sat here every single time i try to make yeah well he puts the most he puts who he thinks is going to

05:14:13.360 be the most like combative and vocal in this seat you were right and then he tried to separate us onto

05:14:18.400 like arguing on both sides and he thinks more it's like more trad wife conservative on that side and the

05:14:23.920 more three or four liberal not normal i remember the second time i came on here she's got no like 0.99

05:14:30.400 this is no nothing wow but i remember it was me and then it was like only fans only fans only fans

05:14:37.840 and i'm like this is why everyone keeps commenting that i'm on only fans i thought i was going to learn

05:14:44.240 so much about only fans tonight this is this means usually usually you are not the

05:14:49.200 you're usually the majority this would mean that i have been demoted as i was sitting there last

05:14:54.720 time and now i'm sitting here that's what i was thanks brian when he said you're on this site i was

05:14:58.240 like but you're kind of you're kind of um like i found the seating interesting i was like huh i was 0.97

05:15:03.440 over there last time you're hard to read which is good she almost got her ass whooped last show 1.00

05:15:09.680 i did by by two very strong independent feminists oh they're friends they're friends speaking oh no 1.00

05:15:16.160 one i went to their instagrams they had pictures together they were tag team really one last thing

05:15:20.160 here about birth control of course i'm being safe i pull out of course 72 effective wait of course is

05:15:29.760 that nick is that nick or brian nick wait what i see you she thinks she's got it figured out who commented

05:15:38.080 that what what's your name put some respect what's his name put some respect on nick's name what's

05:15:44.720 his name put some respect on nick's name yeah it's neck okay okay don't make me feel like where's eric

05:15:50.960 uh he is no longer eric is no longer with us like in life no no he's alive he's alive he's still alive guys

05:16:05.920 no it was fine he just there was some work he has another job there were conflicts he put in his

05:16:14.320 two weeks notice it was amicable we wish him the best we miss you eric we miss you eric we miss you and your

05:16:24.720 presence presence thank you

05:16:26.560 um okay uh let's wrap up here last call does anyone have anything final final what's up what

05:16:33.920 you got okay so i came on to just tell my fellow christian singles that use your singleness season

05:16:41.520 to thrive and um because you can use it if people usually mope about it and waste it but you can use

05:16:49.120 a single season just to really devote to god and it's going to change your life like for real and your

05:16:54.560 foundation will be set and god will send you that person when he's ready so don't worry about dating

05:16:58.960 apps or when this person's going to come but like even paul refers to it as a gift so yeah that's

05:17:05.760 beautiful as a girl that is great advice a guy will certainly show up at some point yes oh as my advice

05:17:13.760 to men i advice to men i feel like a lot of people have lost this during covid but i'm kidding

05:17:22.480 i'm kidding i'm kidding angry go ahead um my advice would be to get out there more um join groups not

05:17:32.320 just for the sake of finding a relationship but just to get out there more i know too many men who

05:17:36.720 and not just men women in general but i guess men or women can get away with it more so that's why i'm

05:17:40.240 speaking to men um get out there don't just go to work and go home and watch a five-hour podcast go out

05:17:47.600 play play find a hobby maybe go to church i don't know like fine do something that

05:17:54.880 do something that you enjoy so maybe you could find someone there is what i would say i don't know

05:17:59.680 pick up pickleball maybe i don't work pickleball so much if you see yourself and to men if you

05:18:05.680 if you see yourself as a five and you're afraid of rejection that's something you have to overcome and

05:18:10.480 just kind of put on a little bravado and get yourself out there and don't just uh settle for

05:18:17.600 nothing or accept the fact that there's like this chasm between men and women like put in the effort

05:18:22.880 and try a new haircut maybe like i totally agree you said like a few months in the gym a shopping spree

05:18:30.080 does wonders working on your personal character spending time with yourself like you just said uh

05:18:34.960 like focusing on god and uh whether or not your version of god is jesus or whatever it is i think

05:18:40.560 that's really important to work on yourself first before you know that can someone take this device

05:18:45.760 away from him yeah we need to contest this soundboard you prove this podcast that you do not have

05:18:51.840 enough you know jacked up my mountain dew making bad decisions sorry oh my god okay yo thank you

05:19:02.480 raven 100 you guys do after shows says the girl who is too afraid to approach men i see you i thought

05:19:08.560 it okay okay i'm a little afraid to approach men sue me all right all right i'm working on it all right

05:19:15.280 i'm a work in progress i think i think rejection is a good thing for people to go through it builds

05:19:20.480 character it humbles you for both men and women and you just need to put yourself out there it's

05:19:26.320 just like how i teach my like kids how they have to like learn how to lose and not always win or get

05:19:32.240 everything they want yeah it's good this has been a good slice of humble pie very this is not what i

05:19:39.040 was prepared for at all but you know it's all good what were you prepared for all the way she wanted

05:19:44.400 the cat fight she won from michigan i don't know i expected something i don't know what

05:19:50.240 you gotta start it i feel like this has been a very productive panel in my business well

05:19:55.760 you just i don't know it's good it's all good there's i just thought there'd be more of girls 0.99

05:20:01.760 that were bigger than me oh my she was i love the honesty i love the honest no seriously because i

05:20:08.160 wanted to know more about business she's like i'm on here for clout so well i mean if you watch 0.56

05:20:13.440 now i'm here i'm actually here because i like brian to be honest with you i watched many of his shows

05:20:18.000 and thought he was great so i applied no not like did you did you make him not like that not sexual 0.65

05:20:23.920 way like i like him as a person i like his values so i traveled here because i like i like to listen to

05:20:30.080 the fact i just give it to you brian out of all the like red pill podcast you are one of the more

05:20:38.880 enjoyable that's very true yes that is very true definitely and i thought about i can tell you don't

05:20:44.480 hate women i thought about bringing you a ring i was gonna get you a fake ring and bring it i was 1.00

05:20:50.240 gonna you know i had ideas he loves when women dump over him so he does oh yeah and he loves when they 0.80

05:20:56.080 do them you know the masculine do so if you propose i might just bring him in that might be

05:21:01.920 his dream um you pay on the first day mama i don't fit into his quote he'll fall on his knees for

05:21:06.720 you yeah yeah wear sweatpants on your first day man do you want kids brian yeah you do not my kids

05:21:14.160 but i'd like how many kids kids and big labia that's what i know about you let's not put those 1.00

05:21:18.880 two together oh yeah wait on the bright side you might get both that's not what i was saying

05:21:25.040 that's not what i was saying no i know that 100 it's okay if she doesn't approach men that's where 1.00

05:21:32.720 i come in so me a coffee next week are you white and nerdy in which case sure 0.69

05:21:42.000 what's that like how gotta get him white and nerdy or something i like him white 0.76

05:21:46.720 do you guys all think that you guys are more attracted to a certain race or is it not a thing

05:21:51.200 too yeah i used to be afraid vietnamese women sorry i would say yes but i've dated and been

05:21:58.240 attracted to people already if i were to like describe to you my dream guy then yeah i would

05:22:04.320 i would have a specific race because i would i used to say to you like oh i had a type of

05:22:08.400 race but when i look at my track record it's all over the place yeah exactly the only thing i could

05:22:11.760 say in common is usually they do have tan or skin if it could be a white tan man or a light skinned

05:22:18.640 tan man or a hispanic tan man i do usually get drawn to that and like the brown darker features

05:22:24.720 yeah but i don't think i've ever been like oh he's blonde and blue eyes like that's not my

05:22:28.960 when i when i was like hyper feminist like in my like 18 to 20 like age range

05:22:36.640 that's that's when i would be too afraid to admit that i like dated based on race or like that i had a

05:22:42.240 certain type but i'm not afraid to say it anymore it's like it is what it is we all have our preferences

05:22:46.800 did you say yes to brandon i said if he's white and nerdy oh if he's white and nerdy and then we

05:22:54.880 start talking about racial preferences about okay the disdain in your voice um okay so

05:23:07.520 did everyone else answer there was another question there you were just doing closing

05:23:10.800 comments you were asking me a question right i i talked about big labia and then that was pretty

05:23:16.000 much i asked if you wanted kids big labia check i said i had an innie why would you ask me

05:23:22.480 wait oh no the kids the kids the kids was that you or is that kiko who asked yeah i'll have seven 0.84

05:23:28.880 kids would be good seven god wow okay elon better get started yeah he has a guy

05:23:38.960 is that what the lapel means oh yes how much how much was it to reveal what the lapel means

05:23:45.280 i don't well the the price was get my clips channel to a million subscribers then i'll reveal and i think

05:23:53.200 that was the price so you say seven a lot huh you like pick the number like seven's your default number

05:23:59.760 whenever a number is brought up um wait but what was i saying um there's a there's a bible verse

05:24:10.960 there's a bible verse and it goes maybe you know it it goes something along the lines of 0.99

05:24:16.400 children are like air fuck children wow children are like arrows in the hand of a warrior that's 0.99

05:24:29.440 beautiful brian in his quiver what's that in his quiver wait hold on arrows children quiver 1.00

05:24:36.640 i don't know let me you just told me not to mention but i know that's what i was gonna say

05:24:42.720 you guys talk to me about children this is psalm 127 3 to 5 children are a heritage from the lord

05:24:50.080 offspring a reward from him like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one's youth

05:24:58.640 preach i did it when i was young i did it right oh blessed i do hold on blessed is the man whose

05:25:06.000 quiver is full of them do this just turn into church right now what's going on you should be

05:25:10.400 on an episode with there's also like the christian you're at church like the quiver full movement

05:25:14.720 i can't do it maybe that's for you here me too me too i just feel like i might light on fire

05:25:22.640 i would like seven children because i feel like my family's not huge and i want to start that i want

05:25:30.720 to have a big family i do too that's wholesome i want to have a big family but i also understand

05:25:35.920 economics and how the system works so yes seven children is like elon style i could still have

05:25:41.600 a very fruitful life yeah for sure so seven's a little pushy three four reach out real good

05:25:47.520 i asked god if i could have four kids three boys one girl when i was at a very very young age right

05:25:52.160 i forgot to ask for my partner though so god gave me what i asked for he just didn't do it right

05:25:58.320 you know that's a cool that's actually crazy but i have three boys one girl where are the odds

05:26:04.000 hey you got what you asked i got what i asked for but a little too well

05:26:09.680 a little too accurate you know wait here's the thing let's say how many how many children do you

05:26:14.080 most of you want like two or three or something three let me ask you a question though let's say

05:26:17.600 your husband really wants a son and you end up having two or three daughters right and he's like

05:26:23.120 really really wants a son do you keep going are we financially if i could if we could

05:26:27.520 financially afford it i would try again but we're stopping at five because because me five is crazy

05:26:32.720 i have to have at least one son i get that i don't care to carry on the name to carry on no i just want

05:26:38.800 a son uh wait what's the reason like i just want a daughter i just want a son i want a son

05:26:45.280 because i feel like i i couldn't relate as much to a dog my boyfriend always says i just know i'm not

05:26:51.520 gonna have any daughters i know i'm only gonna produce sons and i'm like you keep saying that

05:26:55.600 and you're gonna get all daughters i'm like yeah and i don't want all daughters so women are more 1.00

05:27:00.080 women are just more complex in in so many ways it would be in my opinion it would be probably 1.00

05:27:05.360 fairly easy to raise them when they're younger because they're just like less aggressive and

05:27:08.400 rowdy but the moment that they like get to the point where they're like hitting puberty i would

05:27:13.120 imagine it would be unbelievably challenging to parent a daughter relative to a son like a daughter

05:27:20.080 the worst thing you could have with the daughter she's a hoe the worst thing you could have with 1.00

05:27:23.200 the son he's a mass murderer i mean it's like it's too very like what a hoe and a mass murderer i 0.99

05:27:29.360 don't have a whole daughter than a freaking mass it's almost as a minute but how but the statistics 0.97

05:27:34.800 this but all i'm but my point is though like i feel like a lot of people do say that all the time

05:27:38.720 like how scared they are to raise a daughter and da da da but i feel like people are you definitely

05:27:43.280 they're negating how hard it is to raise a son not because i feel like they're going to become

05:27:46.400 with this aggressive violent man but i feel like so many people place so much more effort

05:27:50.720 on their daughters instead of their sons and that's why we have so many emotionally unavailable

05:27:55.440 men who don't know how to regulate or are forgotten because it's just as important to raise your son as

05:28:00.560 it is to raise your daughter this is your son you're raising someone who's hopefully going to one day court

05:28:06.000 a daughter and raise a family with him and we all are saying how important it is for that man to be

05:28:11.200 sound so i feel like it's really big deal with raising young men especially in this generation

05:28:17.200 we're in now when there's a lot of things targeting them against their backs and stuff like that so i

05:28:23.840 feel like it's i'm very scared to raise a son especially because i don't think my wafer would

05:28:28.480 ever do this to me if we had families but i could not imagine having kids with someone having sons and

05:28:33.680 then them leaving me and having to raise these sons as a single mother on my own that's terrifying

05:28:38.720 well this begs the question um gay son or thought daughter that's what people always say

05:28:47.280 okay um uh let's uh wait wait hold on let me see did we get any more chats let me just double

05:28:54.880 check okay nope nope nope um by the way uh can i put in a good word for brandon the guy who's going

05:29:02.800 to take you out on a coffee date i mean he already paid because that's four thousand dollars tonight

05:29:06.480 it's a pretty good word on its own that is a foregone conclusion the coffee date um

05:29:13.200 there was one time we were in a locker room 1.00

05:29:15.040 and let me just say this dude's like a fucking tripod like what the fuck bruv 0.99

05:29:24.080 huge it's huge talk him up giant so you actually know that would be painful i don't like that no 1.00

05:29:31.360 woman likes that brian no woman likes it you know larger than average what's you know what some

05:29:37.600 people do but they're lying somebody's mic they're lying i agree 500 i think i don't know 500

05:29:44.400 i feel like there's all right let's wrap up let's wrap up all right so should we do an after show you

05:29:51.200 want to sperm decides the gender not the egg i mean you want to do like if it's really short

05:29:58.720 i think we just wrapped what's the after show what are you guys doing now like what's the after

05:30:03.440 show we dim the lights and then it's like kind of more chill you just shoot the shift if anybody

05:30:08.000 has to leave the past two hours no no like if you you don't have to stay for it um how about

05:30:13.360 madison do you want to do like 15 minute after show if it's 15 minutes she's so down for this 0.99

05:30:22.480 after show right now someone said we should smoke a blunt okay cool i'm down for that i'm down well

05:30:27.200 i if everyone's gonna stay for the after show we might as well just i feel like we've already been

05:30:33.040 doing this on for 15 more minutes right as soon as the champagne bottle came out it was basically

05:30:38.560 the after show yeah we haven't really been on topic we got a little bit for the birth control for a

05:30:43.920 second but this guy is on fire oh brandon on fire um hold on hit me up so we got to get brian's

05:30:52.880 tolerance up i don't think it's possible i don't drink a lot like i rarely drink so you took like

05:30:57.920 two sips it's rare okay guys last call hit the like button please on your way out we are going to

05:31:02.320 do a very brief after show 10 15 minutes we're gonna by the way if anybody i know it's late so you

05:31:08.000 don't have to stay for the after show you can excuse yourself thank you for tuning in tonight you

05:31:12.320 could have been anywhere in the world but you were here with me i appreciate that thank you to

05:31:15.360 everyone so who so generously and kindly super chatted donated and supported the show tonight

05:31:20.400 you guys were uh i very much appreciate your patronage tonight thank you guys thank you to the

05:31:25.200 wonderful panel for joining us many of which who came from locations exotic far and wide thank you from

05:31:32.960 distances far and wide thank you to our chat mods big thank you to brit who's helping with timestamps

05:31:37.440 any women who want to be on the show dm at whatever on instagram uh we'll be live again

05:31:43.440 tuesday 7 p.m pacific with our next dating talk oh sevens in the chat if you're leaving and if you're

05:31:49.840 sticking around for the brief after show uh i suppose you can also do some oh sevens in the chat go follow

05:31:57.760 billy ray check out her uh clips follow dm dating for all the oh

05:32:02.640 oh man we got it right okay they got we we were gonna pull up some of their videos but uh they

05:32:11.040 have some like really fucking base stuff so go check them out and uh go check out mia's 0.86

05:32:18.560 men ask me shop check out madison's uh she collects war antiques check out priya's safari 0.87

05:32:27.680 equipment check out um michaela michaela's roll tab medical advice alabama stuff yeah bourbon i guess

05:32:37.280 check out nicole's do you drink bourbon i don't know okay all right guys after show starts 0.92

05:32:44.000 right now oh wow that's cool oh my god this is way better is way cuter oh my god this is 10 times

05:32:59.200 that's how we started the after show the reason why this was your favorite podcast is because and i'm

05:33:05.280 not saying this to to pat my back or pat anyone else's back first of all i don't think we've ever

05:33:09.920 had as many people who lean more toward this side on a panel so that's for one secondly a lot of the

05:33:18.320 conversations were not like aggressively culturally divided i think there were actually quite a few

05:33:26.080 way more than i could have imagined actual somewhat productive dating conversations that occurred

05:33:31.360 where i think i specifically saw a lot of you have your eyes open up and go oh wait a second that

05:33:36.560 actually kind of makes sense which is usually not this is again not not against him that's not

05:33:42.160 usually how the show goes there's usually a lot of like a lot of like really really like hotly

05:33:47.040 divided topics in dating and then like aggressive cultural right your trans debate a crazy stuff about

05:33:52.560 like patriarchy i was hoping we were going to talk about barbie that would have been fun but like

05:33:57.520 but like that kind of but yeah it was actually a conversation about the interdynamics of dating

05:34:03.680 dating that's not necessarily going to make for the most like crazy viral content right like i've

05:34:08.560 been on this podcast this might be like my around my eighth time now and there's about three podcasts

05:34:15.760 i was on that go around and it's because we hit on those hot topics so i've been on here before where

05:34:20.880 it was very cordial kind of how it was tonight but it was boring and i feel like i didn't really learn

05:34:24.560 much and we really just blabbed about nothing whereas tonight it was kind of a bit more productive

05:34:29.760 tour was my favorite but yeah it's like those hot topics get hit we bring up the bible we bring up

05:34:37.360 trans all these different topics especially when half the side of the panel is there this is their

05:34:44.400 livelihood right this is what they do every day day in day out go on podcasts tweet and tick tock

05:34:50.560 about parabonding and the bible and these things whereas me he just dm'd me to come on this show and

05:34:57.600 i said sure never even watching or viewing at one time this isn't my livelihood this isn't what i do

05:35:02.320 for work or a career so like for them it makes sense for them to be sitting up all day researching

05:35:08.960 these topics and these facts whereas me no i'm not going to go home after and google psalms this or

05:35:16.640 pair bonding this because it doesn't affect me on my day-to-day life i'm a bartender like i don't

05:35:22.000 make this content so that's where we would bump heads a lot is because they would pull out all

05:35:27.120 these facts or whatever and i'm just pulling out what i experience as a normal person and

05:35:34.080 yeah that's kind of where we would bump heads tts by the way has been reduced to 20. that's part of the

05:35:40.880 and uh so if you guys wanted tts we bumped it all the way down to uh 20. to ask more questions

05:35:49.760 by the way i think that your story i know it was five and a half hours ago your story is probably

05:35:54.720 going to get you onto the podcast to talk about the things that you want to talk about you're going

05:35:58.160 to go viral since we are don't you oh it's terrible like everything i didn't want to talk about we

05:36:02.720 talked about within the first two minutes can i can i can i can i say like i didn't want to talk about

05:36:07.120 having my kids or anything people respect that but i i will say like the way you talked about your

05:36:13.280 family was like incredibly respectful wholesome i could tell there's a lot of love shared between

05:36:18.800 you your kids it sounds like you've gone out of your way to put an effort into making sure that like

05:36:23.840 they have both parents in their life to the best of your ability you're very open about the reasons

05:36:28.000 why you think you may have failed them and failed yourself you didn't say anything horrifically

05:36:33.280 bad about the men that you dated right i thought that that was like a very very like objectively

05:36:39.120 good story for people to hear yeah honest because i don't think you're by any way propping it up as

05:36:44.640 like the example of what of how people should start families and raise them and there's a lot more

05:36:48.880 people in her situation that like to lead on especially in america yes yeah but but like but again

05:36:55.360 that's a conversation that can get so freaking loaded so freaking fast like he wanted to move it on to

05:37:00.560 like okay let's get like relationships at his age and all and then we're into the dating conversations

05:37:03.920 right but like that is a five and a half hour podcast in and of itself

05:37:08.960 there's like 10 people that just said you're a simp so that i'm a simp yeah all right cool for

05:37:13.600 having a beautiful girlfriend and being respectful already we're gonna answer this question he talks

05:37:19.600 like this all day every day i would have lost attraction a year and a half ago

05:37:24.480 um what previous or current guests on the show would you want to be on the panel with in the future

05:37:39.920 uh i would like to be on with yes i was just about to say destiny yeah

05:37:44.400 no i'm sure you wouldn't i was on with him i can't i can't yeah he's true he's a very

05:37:48.960 like to be on with pearl oh i have yes recent disagreements pearl so many people have because

05:37:55.840 so many people have disagreements such a joke to me i mean she's a grifter can i ask why that's one 0.92

05:38:01.920 thing i don't agree with destiny destiny tries to say that she's not a grifter he entertains it

05:38:06.480 that a grifter is someone who it's they're just doing it for views she admitted what they believe

05:38:11.680 they just see it as a way to make money online she admitted in a video in a car that uh in her car

05:38:17.040 that she was just like looking for ways to make money and she's been exposed multiple times yeah

05:38:20.320 she's she's literally admitted it that like she's just looking for ways to make money and then she 1.00

05:38:24.000 found that like getting into the red pill space and saying wild things like divorce appeal the 19th

05:38:29.280 amendment where you have to take away all of women's rights that divorce should be banned like all of 1.00

05:38:33.920 this stuff she doesn't believe anything that she says she doesn't lead with good faith she tries to be

05:38:37.360 this sad wife i think there was a lot of like it's almost like tate like they they point out things that 0.86

05:38:43.040 are wrong and there's value in that but just recently um i don't know she kind of lost me

05:38:49.360 yeah i agree what you do recently she's going on the extreme there was there was there was just

05:38:55.600 comments about underage stuff oh yeah i just she's just well that's why i think that she's bad faith

05:39:02.480 she takes it too far she doesn't understand the ramifications of what she's saying she doesn't

05:39:05.520 actually personally like at least andrew tate's a good grifter where you could believe it like it's

05:39:09.120 unbelievable yeah i don't know him it's hard it's like you almost don't believe he's grifting

05:39:13.280 because he's so good at it whereas like with pearl it's she tries to be this chad wife and it's like 0.88

05:39:18.240 so obvious that it was like this tomboyish girl that just threw on a dress like everything she 0.99

05:39:23.600 didn't know how to be feminine example of something that she said that is she said that we should ban 1.00

05:39:28.000 divorce she said that 16 year olds are more attractive than 26 year olds that's literally 20 0.60

05:39:34.480 on wed brandon mel said dm do mia also pearl gives men a bad pearl does give men a bad name i totally

05:39:42.160 agree with that and women as well you have yeah i know we actually have a little bit of a disagreement

05:39:46.880 on this one well no it's because again i just i'm taking the words very literally that she's saying

05:39:54.160 he doesn't have a twitter so he hasn't seen the twitter i've seen it like she's showing me the

05:39:58.560 stuff where it's like hey like don't get your like don't get your kids in sports because that's

05:40:03.360 feminism because you're giving your kid over to someone else who's going to be potentially raising 1.00

05:40:07.120 them things like that yeah i would never say that because i would love for my kids to play sports the

05:40:11.760 best thing you could put your kids in because some of the best lessons i've learned in life has been

05:40:16.240 through athletics sports right team just basic competition teamwork your the role that you play in

05:40:22.080 whatever like endeavor you're going towards right the respect for authority climbing the ladder being

05:40:26.640 a leader like all these different having to what is it hard hard hard work for the sake of like one

05:40:32.400 specific one specific goal right and then there's like micro goals like there's all these different

05:40:36.880 things you learn um so that's the kind of thing where i'm just like i hope that that's just a message

05:40:42.640 to kind of get the point across that women are a little bit more absent from their kids lives than 1.00

05:40:47.440 they used to be yeah but when you say it literally if you act if you actually believe

05:40:51.920 that i thought i fundamentally disagree with that i think it's too radical you'd hope that she'd be

05:40:56.240 like that but she's literally saying that women don't have the right to vote like women shouldn't 1.00

05:41:00.480 have she was saying that like feminism is so bad that we should go back and like to first wave 1.00

05:41:05.280 feminism and like repeal all of that i think that's ridiculous i think fourth wave feminism is the 1.00

05:41:09.040 problem and fifth wave feminism is where we come back to our femininity amen it's a very thing 1.00

05:41:13.840 things have to get as bad as they can possibly get before they can get better the pendulum

05:41:19.120 she has sort of a black pill take on a lot of this stuff yes but on the other hand she's also like

05:41:23.200 i know for i know that she either already released or is working on a documentary about divorce and you

05:41:28.800 should see some of the interviews that she has done with people who have gone through divorces

05:41:32.080 like you would be unlike the the the the red flags that she raises for men in terms of know this 0.99

05:41:39.120 before you get married know this before you start dating a woman know that when she does this she might 0.98

05:41:43.600 be trying to trap you to get like she showed text messages or talked about text messages of women 0.99

05:41:48.400 talking to their friends being like i'm trying to get him to hit me but he just won't like like 0.96

05:41:52.720 shit like that where it's like these are real things but do you think she's good faith do i think 0.94

05:41:58.240 she's good faith because like i agree with you that those are important topics to raise right but 0.98

05:42:01.520 do you think she's doing it in good faith is really the question again i don't want to pass any

05:42:05.920 judgment like that i think that she was i think that she started doing something because it was

05:42:10.160 something that she probably cared about and then she got bigger and now she has a platform and she 0.99

05:42:16.400 sort of found meaning in it and now she's like what's the most impact that i can have without being

05:42:24.640 untruthful right without being false so so she's pushed so so again is she pushing an agenda

05:42:31.520 maybe of course she is i don't think she but i don't think she's grifting right like be like a

05:42:36.960 grifter is literally taking something that you don't believe and just pushing it for the sake

05:42:42.400 of pushing it because it's going to benefit you well she's i don't think she believes so she's

05:42:45.760 pushing that's what we're saying you can think that but she admitted well she admitted to it she

05:42:49.680 admitted it and when in her car video when she's talking about like moving to london how she wants

05:42:53.840 people to in london to contact her for like a employee employership or whatever she mentions that

05:43:00.080 testing tolerance donated twenty dollars black shirt i worked in the cell industry for years

05:43:07.440 we have the data and i have the anecdotes to convince me it's better to check their purse

05:43:12.400 and their cars women have learned to hide things in ways that men don't think of you can grant good 1.00

05:43:18.480 faith there's a lot of stuff in my car you might want to check and what what what's this what's this

05:43:25.440 in context yeah i don't understand the cheating earlier we said women are better at i mean checking 1.00

05:43:32.880 again like like what i encourage people to be observant again i don't know how many times i

05:43:36.880 had to say pattern recognition like you can't just live like an unconscious like but so many people

05:43:41.600 are not self-aware enough to do that i i i don't know like i'm i'm like hyper aware of my surroundings

05:43:48.160 same all the time have you noticed like i it just so if something was off if something was different

05:43:55.280 like i would just it would resonate and then if it's remained different or got even more different

05:43:59.840 straight further from equilibrium like you just call it out i don't i don't know what to tell you

05:44:04.720 i think the overall like meaning is if you feel a doubt in your mind about something just ask them

05:44:10.080 instead of trying to sneak around and check their phone or sneak around check that have a conversation

05:44:14.880 as soon as that feeling comes up though instead of being like having these doubts in your mind

05:44:19.440 not saying anything about it or doing anything about it let it festering inside of you until you

05:44:24.560 basically convince yourself that they're in a full-blown relationship with somebody else

05:44:29.200 and then do something about it it's like no as soon as you notice something it's making you feel a 0.78

05:44:32.960 certain way nip it in the butt ask them about it get your answer i i don't know like again like

05:44:38.640 everyone who keeps spring who keeps talking about this i don't know what to tell you if you simply 0.97

05:44:44.640 don't have a barrier at which you are willing to trust a woman like i don't know what to say 1.00

05:44:50.560 like like i said earlier it gets deep how much can you really trust anybody at a certain point if you

05:44:57.360 want to be in a relationship if you want to do something long term if you want to build a nuclear

05:45:00.560 family if you want to have kids stay with that woman like you either decide that you're going to take 1.00

05:45:06.640 that risk or you don't i'm willing to take that risk like and again i'm going to be observant of

05:45:12.640 my surroundings and look for things and i'm obviously going to vent or not vent vet somebody

05:45:18.400 very very diligently before i decide to commit to them long term especially as a man whose assets

05:45:22.480 would 100 be on the line if divorce were to ever come but but again it's just a matter of being

05:45:28.560 conscientious and just being very very purposeful with your actions and how you go about this and how

05:45:32.960 you pursue it can i ask you a question sure how would you advise a woman to go about approaching 1.00

05:45:38.480 a man in public in any capacity i mean it's not it shouldn't be nearly as difficult as it is for a

05:45:48.800 man to a woman um like a man like i don't think a man is going to be creeped out by a woman it's not

05:45:54.400 being audacious so like i don't know just just go up and sorry i know it's do it i know it sounds pretty

05:45:59.440 basic but like if you just go up and start a conversation with a man as long as it's not

05:46:02.720 in the middle of the day and you're like hey would you like kiss me for a dollar where they clearly

05:46:06.560 know it's like some tick tock thing that you're doing so what's a good like opening line like

05:46:10.480 what's a good like compliment i genuinely want to know about this like i go to like to clarify ronnie

05:46:16.640 footballer donated twenty dollars ronnie c from last stream great pod pria skydiving slash universal

05:46:24.240 after a first date drink on pria nice shirt matches the blue eyes i can't have eyes but i'm sure our

05:46:31.440 kids can brian sent the safari hat photo on dm ps in portuguese and indian um i don't know did you send

05:46:41.520 it to the whatever page i don't know if i see it oh i forgot to do this during the outro i don't know

05:46:46.160 if he's still in here uh what frankie donated twenty dollars if you truly want to successfully

05:46:53.440 formulate and maintain a nuclear family you need bacon bake bake bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon

05:47:00.880 bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon grosека bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon. bacon bacon bacon baconleton Scout Giul helm bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon bacon

05:47:30.880 Like, these are the men messaging Bill and they can't find a woman.

05:47:35.240 Like, this is what I mean.

05:47:36.540 Like, some things you do to yourself.

05:47:39.520 Okay?

05:47:40.960 This is my point.

05:47:44.480 Can we get back to the point, please?

05:47:46.760 No woman is ever going to see that and be like, I want to hit up Brian.

05:47:51.620 I genuinely want to know what a good pickup line for a man is.

05:47:55.280 Like, genuinely.

05:47:55.700 The $20 is a terrible idea.

05:47:57.520 Nice Jen and Ortega cosplay Mia. 1.00

05:47:59.680 I'm so introverted probably the way I get in a relationship would be an ambience.

05:48:05.420 How do you say it?

05:48:06.820 Salute.

05:48:07.540 Salute.

05:48:08.020 Salute.

05:48:08.860 My thoughts are that I have been called not Wednesday, but Thursday.

05:48:13.260 My boyfriend said you look like Wednesday.

05:48:14.680 Why does everyone say I look like Jenna Ortega?

05:48:17.240 Listen, I'll take it.

05:48:18.240 I'll take it.

05:48:18.640 She's beautiful and great.

05:48:19.580 But I actually want to know, what is a good pickup line?

05:48:21.940 Because when I'm in mass and we're at a young adult mass and we go to a bar afterwards,

05:48:25.380 we're supposed to mingle.

05:48:26.280 The men are over here and the women are over here. 1.00

05:48:28.400 And the women are super quiet and whatever. 1.00

05:48:31.100 And the men are just in a separate whatever because they don't want to be predacious, right?

05:48:35.140 But I am a very outspoken, outgoing woman.

05:48:38.480 I would like to know how to build the confidence to talk to a man.

05:48:41.200 Can I tell you what my go-to advice pickup line for a guy would be?

05:48:45.880 Well, this is for a guy.

05:48:46.980 But it should work for a girl too. 0.95

05:48:48.740 Like, hey, I'm not interrupting anything, am I?

05:48:50.920 You do that.

05:48:51.620 That they're either going to say, like, no, you're not.

05:48:53.660 And you follow it up with, like, I'm sure you were talking about something.

05:48:56.300 And they start the conversation for you.

05:48:58.040 Or they go, like, oh, we were just talking about, and now you're into the conversation.

05:49:01.860 I'm sure you're talking about something.

05:49:02.600 Like, that is one that is, like, fairly easy.

05:49:05.640 But again, pickup lines.

05:49:06.600 It's not – an opener is just about getting their attention, getting the conversation going.

05:49:11.140 I know, but I'm nervous, okay?

05:49:12.720 I'm nervous.

05:49:13.780 What is the line that you said to you?

05:49:15.900 Hey, I'm not interrupting anything, am I?

05:49:17.720 That's it.

05:49:18.340 So Dan and I were out in – was it Philadelphia?

05:49:24.020 Boston.

05:49:24.680 Boston.

05:49:25.980 Boston.

05:49:26.620 With his friends.

05:49:28.180 And they were talking about how they can get girls' numbers.

05:49:32.380 And I was like, I want to see how quickly you could get a girl's number.

05:49:35.800 I was encouraging my buddy to go get a girl's number.

05:49:37.880 He said, no, why don't you do it?

05:49:39.160 So I was like – so his friends – so you were like, are you okay with that?

05:49:42.980 And I was like, yeah, I want to see if you could get their number.

05:49:45.200 So I stayed back with his friends, and he walked up to a group of girls, and within, like, 45 seconds, used that line and got the number.

05:49:54.620 Have you ever, like, done the same thing?

05:49:56.780 No.

05:49:57.440 Raven DT donated $20.

05:49:59.000 I'll get through the Super Chats after this, and then we'll wrap.

05:50:00.980 Sorry, I missed Latina's name because I tuned in a little late.

05:50:04.500 To pick up a guy – hi, I'm Jenny Ortega.

05:50:07.280 I thought you were really cute, and I wanted to know if you would like to grab a coffee sometime, either now or later if you're busy at the moment.

05:50:16.280 Oh, that's sweet.

05:50:16.980 All right.

05:50:17.440 Again, guys are much easier.

05:50:18.700 I want to answer her too.

05:50:19.660 Guys are so much easier.

05:50:20.700 I know.

05:50:21.360 Hold on.

05:50:22.420 We've got to wrap up.

05:50:23.620 Can I just please just real quick?

05:50:24.740 Okay, make it quick, please.

05:50:25.680 What I've noticed when I was bartending and had to, like, man will be sitting at the bar and, you know, try to get tips, a joke about anything.

05:50:33.600 I know you guys don't want funny people, but, like, you know, say you're at a bar, right, and someone falls or anything.

05:50:38.500 Like, just making a not super mean joke, but, like, just making fun in something, like, just, like, real quickly.

05:50:45.520 Not even having to say hi first.

05:50:46.540 Like, if you see someone, maybe sit close to them if you can, something happens, and just be, like, I don't know, like, get a look at this guy.

05:50:53.620 I can't think of him in my head.

05:50:54.840 But, like, that usually, they really dig that, and you can start a great conversation off of that, and it can either go platonic or relationship-wise.

05:51:02.260 Yeah, I agree with that.

05:51:04.060 Kiko, top performer, of course, black shirt.

05:51:06.220 At a certain point, you have to trust a woman, but men vastly underestimate their ability to see red flags.

05:51:11.140 Check for that second cell phone, guys.

05:51:12.620 Don't be tracking your woman or looking, uh, attract, attract her socials like a P word, probably. 0.82

05:51:20.980 Okay.

05:51:21.840 Thank you, man.

05:51:22.220 Appreciate it.

05:51:22.780 All right.

05:51:23.060 Let me get through these.

05:51:24.220 We did this one, correct?

05:51:25.700 Correct.

05:51:26.180 All right.

05:51:26.960 This one, or no?

05:51:28.580 Yo, Mr. Capitoshio, good to see you, man.

05:51:30.540 In the chat, this was arguably one of the most beautiful panel in a long time, and only one, OF girl, have any of you played Dungeons and Dragons?

05:51:38.880 Just show of hands.

05:51:39.900 Have you played?

05:51:40.960 I'm really embarrassed.

05:51:42.000 You know, the new movie's really good, though.

05:51:43.600 She has over there. 0.95

05:51:44.520 Okay, there you have it.

05:51:45.780 All right, we have Ransom G here.

05:51:47.220 Y'all be blessed beyond belief to meet Rolo Tomasi.

05:51:49.460 Changing my life for the better, but I have my issues, too.

05:51:52.080 Would love to see Billy, Priya, and Kiko meet him.

05:51:54.700 Also, Nicole, did you like the Rich Cooper interview?

05:51:59.520 Well, as far as Rolo, actually, we were going to have him on-

05:52:03.480 Is that the old guy?

05:52:04.100 The show with Mike Sartain, yeah.

05:52:06.040 But, yeah, maybe in the future.

05:52:08.180 You were going to have him on Tuesday?

05:52:09.960 Yes.

05:52:10.560 Yeah, but he couldn't make it.

05:52:12.060 Wow.

05:52:12.260 Yeah, Rich had me on his podcast, and I liked it a lot.

05:52:16.820 Rich is great.

05:52:17.960 After your appearance here or before?

05:52:19.960 After.

05:52:20.540 They saw me here and said, do you want to come?

05:52:22.660 And I said, sure.

05:52:23.420 Oh.

05:52:24.540 I liked being on his show.

05:52:25.700 Rich is awesome.

05:52:26.640 Yeah.

05:52:27.160 What did he talk to you about?

05:52:29.440 Gosh, what did we talk about?

05:52:30.580 We talked about monogamy versus polygamy.

05:52:34.920 We talked about marriage.

05:52:37.180 We talked about relationships.

05:52:40.600 Yeah, it was much more about relationships.

05:52:42.460 What are your views on marriage?

05:52:44.380 What's a marriage dynamic?

05:52:46.080 How do you see that?

05:52:47.540 We talked about girls' trips, whether we're pro or con.

05:52:53.580 Girls' trips are girls' trips different from guys' trips. 0.98

05:52:55.620 We kind of went into all of it, but I really enjoyed being on his show.

05:52:58.300 He is a good listener, and I liked it.

05:53:02.680 I would go back.

05:53:03.280 I think I might be going back, but it was cool.

05:53:06.020 We have Glizzy McGuire with E25.

05:53:07.860 Hey, thank you, Glizzy McGuire.

05:53:09.340 We have Mike Y.

05:53:10.580 Who's that beautiful girl with the hat? 1.00

05:53:12.040 Is that – that's Madison over there. 1.00

05:53:16.620 Just on every episode.

05:53:18.900 And we have Marquavis Martin.

05:53:20.820 There's a vicious rumor going around that Priya's shirt is not actually silk.

05:53:25.180 I didn't say it was silk.

05:53:26.460 I said it was satin.

05:53:27.820 Ooh.

05:53:29.020 She had to clear that up for you real quick.

05:53:31.440 All right, cool.

05:53:32.280 All right, that's it for the Super Chats.

05:53:33.320 Thank you, guys.

05:53:33.920 Appreciate it.

05:53:34.220 Appreciate it.

05:53:35.880 All right, we're going to wrap up.

05:53:37.640 Last call.

05:53:38.260 Please hit the like button on your way out.

05:53:40.520 As I previously mentioned, we will be live again Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific with our

05:53:46.300 next dating talk.

05:53:49.320 Shout out to Brandon once again.

05:53:51.120 Salute.

05:53:51.740 Salute?

05:53:52.480 Salute.

05:53:52.880 Salute, Brandon.

05:53:53.080 Salute for the very generous patronage tonight, man.

05:53:57.080 Much appreciated.

05:53:59.580 Do you say that unironically a lot?

05:54:02.000 All the time.

05:54:02.700 What was the other thing?

05:54:03.600 I lost his name, Brandon.

05:54:04.900 Oh, can we pull up the Twitch really quick?

05:54:06.500 Unironically.

05:54:07.100 Unironically.

05:54:07.580 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

05:54:10.520 Drop us a follow.

05:54:11.560 Drop us a prime sub.

05:54:13.580 If you have one, twitch.tv slash whatever.

05:54:17.300 Um...

05:54:17.900 Technics donated $20.

05:54:20.180 Be honest, be direct, and stop worrying about feelings.

05:54:24.180 They may not like it, but it gets the point across.

05:54:27.440 Communication will lead to successful relationships more than anything else.

05:54:32.080 When in doubt, speak all.

05:54:33.380 Peace out.

05:54:34.180 Great panel, Brian.

05:54:35.400 Keep it up, ALM.

05:54:36.760 I think that that's great advice when things need to be addressed.

05:54:39.620 Me too.

05:54:39.700 Thank you, Technics.

05:54:40.300 Appreciate it.

05:54:40.960 ALM.

05:54:41.780 That's our previous all labia matter, but we switched it to big labia matter.

05:54:45.200 Um, okay, we have, uh, Soft, Bod, Jod, Thank You for the Prime, XG Unreal, Thank You for

05:54:51.920 the Five Gifted Community Subset.

05:54:53.580 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

05:54:55.720 Drop us a follow.

05:54:56.900 Drop us a, uh, Twitch Prime.

05:54:58.840 Appreciate it, guys.

05:54:59.660 Fast food restaurant.

05:55:00.500 Frank Castle, no?

05:55:01.240 Okay.

05:55:02.660 Brian, what's Frank Castle?

05:55:04.340 Uh, it's like, don't worry about it.

05:55:06.140 Okay.

05:55:06.480 Guys, we'll see you again Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific.

05:55:09.520 07's in the chat.

05:55:10.940 Good night, guys, and we'll see you later.

05:55:13.000 Bye.

05:55:14.860 Ooh, I look big.

Whatever Podcast - July 31, 2023

RAGEQUIT KEEKO Returns! She Has 3 Baby Daddies？! ｜ Dating Talk #88

Episode Stats

Summary

Transcript