Whatever Podcast - She STORMS OUT And DELETES Her ØF？! 3 BABY DADDIES？! Men CAN NOT Have Standards？!

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00:03:09.300 whatever channel with that said and without further ado we're going to have the guests

00:03:14.260 introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation go ahead hello my name is

00:03:20.560 selena bowser i'm 31 years old i live in pennsylvania and i'm a certified nursing assistant all right welcome

00:03:27.240 hello i'm kara and i'm tampa florida and i'm 26 years old and i'm self-employed

00:03:36.300 uh self-employed yo uh when can i oh nice the little matrix thing uh thank you so much for the

00:03:46.040 gifted memberships man really appreciate your uh patronage when you say you're self-employed what

00:03:50.060 would you do well i had a cleaning company and um i started doing only fans so i'm an ex

00:03:56.620 like only fans slash i do um i'm like sugar baby so you don't do of anymore no you don't do any adult

00:04:08.120 content at all um not currently no okay what about you hello my name is kareena nicole dean i am from

00:04:16.920 dallas texas and i'm a marketing director photographer and i do bodybuilding sometimes

00:04:24.320 mostly 2022 but i took a break sorry did you say age 27 27 all right what about you hi my name is

00:04:34.500 victoria i'm 34 years old and i'm from pennsylvania and i'm a stay-at-home mom all right welcome hi i'm

00:04:42.520 jesse i'm from wisconsin i'm 20 years old and i am a cmr for a men's health clinic all right i'm lauren

00:04:51.820 i am 32 years old um i am a christian mom of two proud wife of a police officer and veteran and

00:04:59.340 um i now am a pediatric nurse practitioner and i'm sorry did you say your age 32 32 okay

00:05:06.120 hi my name is priya i'm 23 years old i am from the sunny state of california i co-run a family business

00:05:15.340 with that is law enforcement training and i sell insurance all right welcome back hi i'm uh liam

00:05:21.900 christopher 35 years old uh digital practitioner growth hacker robin hood of the internet i build

00:05:28.340 cool brands and teach people how to make money um i've also actually got a brand i'm just gonna read

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00:06:31.600 they're gummies right yeah they're gummies so in fact actually would you mind trying one and

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00:06:40.940 tell me if they're nice yeah so those will help you guys focus and um yeah that's the story behind

00:06:48.540 me and the brand and that's it thank you guys appreciate that fantastic my name is jake i have

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00:07:04.960 all major streaming platforms did i mention that i'm 28 from australia and that's about it for me

00:07:11.200 cool all right welcome everybody so what we're gonna do now is uh veggie mike bogansic coont donated

00:07:19.160 two hundred dollars boy crikey how you're going your little beauties good on your mates much whinging

00:07:26.740 any shrimps on the barbie brian been having too much brekkie i reckon lay off the macca's fatty

00:07:33.200 shit count foster's australian for beer oh my god lads do you go down under on any sheilas

00:07:39.480 oh my god didn't expect racism on this podcast wow jesus christ this is why i normally stay away

00:07:46.460 from australians i've been stitched up you get two of us in one place two australians it was a setup

00:07:52.840 wow okay i've ever seen uh i thought we were just gonna eat some gummy bears but we'll come back to

00:07:58.620 his uh we'll come back to his question we'll do the relationship status but we'll come back to it so

00:08:04.180 uh going around the table once more what's everybody's current relationship status so

00:08:08.040 are you single talking stage situationship friends with benefits relationship married

00:08:12.680 polycule sex cult whatever it may be if you're single how long have you been single and what's

00:08:18.220 the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead um i'm in the talking stage right now and my

00:08:23.460 longest relationship was 10 years were you married no how long have you been in this talking stage

00:08:29.440 like a month one month yeah is it exclusive for me i don't know about him but for me yeah

00:08:36.840 there's no other guys in the picture not for me no okay what about you um so i would say complicated

00:08:43.900 and complicated because i um went exclusive with somebody i met through a sugar dating

00:08:53.300 through a sugar dating experience and then instead of us staying exclusive i went and sugared and

00:09:02.040 then told him that i did that so i don't know what i am right now i guess like talking was talking

00:09:10.100 and then now i'm not so you're a sugar in multiple coffees at the moment yeah like i'm like a sugar

00:09:15.420 like i yeah it's hard to explain i'm a sugar baby so like i go on seeking.com which is like a sugar

00:09:22.500 baby website and i'm very particular about who i hang out with when you have a relationship with them

00:09:28.780 is that your your boyfriend or would you call him well i used to think that i was polyamorous but

00:09:34.320 like i think that was just an excuse for me to like say i was dating multiple men but really i

00:09:39.600 wasn't dating them what was the biggest stack of cash you've ever got probably three thousand dollars

00:09:47.320 brother in one transaction yeah you mean okay so is that the term sugaring i guess i made it up

00:09:54.820 i don't know if i made it up but like like i don't like to be called a sugar baby because everyone

00:10:01.060 stereotypes it to be dating older men but really a lot of younger men are on the site yeah they just

00:10:07.220 like don't want that attachment to the girl so they're and they have a lot of money would you say

00:10:12.960 that they're paying you for your time and your sexual attention yeah so would you call that dating or

00:10:17.540 would you call that no i would i would call it um i would call it like yeah i mean you can title

00:10:25.960 it you can title it prostitution you can title it prostitution but like i call it sugary that's uh

00:10:33.100 but the cops do think it's prostitution yeah okay this is not on the street they do they don't take

00:10:38.420 us seriously okay so it's like internet prostitutions that are straight but i meet them in person

00:10:43.120 gotcha yeah okay cool so develop a genuine wait so you you're currently seeing a guy

00:10:48.860 i was seeing a guy you were yeah okay but i have multiple i was seeing how many were you seeing

00:10:54.900 probably like if i'm being honest like 10 oh and you were getting paid to see all of these men

00:11:02.820 yes got it were you having carnal knowledge with all of them what does that mean sexual intercourse

00:11:08.700 oh yeah protected yeah at the same time no it wasn't an origin no no just in the same like time

00:11:18.180 period yeah but like okay for instance like one of them lives in a different state so like he only

00:11:23.340 comes sometimes to uh visit his um child in a school that's close to me and um like i see him like two or

00:11:34.060 three times a year but like i would consider him somebody that i'm like spiritually sexually

00:11:39.560 connected with so but that was a one of ten what about the other nine i'm not gonna go through them

00:11:43.880 all were they in like a consistent rotation or okay okay yeah i guess my phone kind of reveals a lot

00:11:54.620 that's another reason we've been out girl wait you that's another reason why i'm being honest that's

00:12:01.260 another reason why my um ex like exclusive arrangement and i separated recently is because

00:12:08.180 he found out more about me by being on my phone wait do you have a list like in notes of like all

00:12:14.640 the no i just remember okay wait so you said you were seeing 10 like how long ago a couple weeks ago

00:12:23.740 well um i would say this is very recent yeah so like recently um within the last two weeks i started

00:12:30.020 like i would say breaking up with them or letting them know like hey i'm getting into something

00:12:34.640 exclusive i can't see you anymore unless you give me x amount of dollars no i'm not so um on my profile

00:12:42.440 my seeking profile it says like i'm not there to take their money i'm very like non-transactional

00:12:47.220 like i'm not like hey you have to take me shopping okay wait i'm transactional but like i'm not like

00:12:52.760 like a seeking transactional hoe that's our like they don't you're seeking arrangements yeah so then

00:12:59.760 why not date like a normal human being i want to do that i think i'm to a point where i want to like

00:13:05.280 settle down with one person i've done that before i've only been on seeking arrangements for like a

00:13:09.540 year and a half and um that's actually why i came on the show is because i want to talk about like

00:13:14.620 all the things that can go wrong in that kind of like situation yeah like lifestyle yeah that's what

00:13:21.640 it seems like you're trying to do like you're trying to get something normal but with one of

00:13:24.580 the sugar daddy yeah i was until i ruined it because i lied to him so oh make that mistake

00:13:29.720 so you weren't exclusive to him yeah i was and then he went to chicago and then i came i was like

00:13:35.800 separating with one of my sugar arrangements and i still slept with him so you weren't exclusive with

00:13:40.600 this yeah i wanted to be but like i fucked up happens to the best of us yeah happens to us all

00:13:46.280 oh that was such a nice response i like your accountability yeah i haven't dated 10 guys at

00:13:51.060 once and accidentally fucked one of them it was like a goodbye fuck it was like i'm going to get

00:13:58.280 like not married but married and it was like goodbye and he's just got a really good dick

00:14:04.300 wait so you're currently seeing nobody or are you well i wanted to go exclusive with him so i

00:14:13.060 separated with all my sugar arrangements and then now i've been like just chilling in california

00:14:18.520 so you're single yes but having sexual intercourse with some men yes how many men currently are you

00:14:27.200 having carnal knowledge with well since two weeks ago probably like three and then before that like 10

00:14:34.960 but in total you but that's for a different question right wait so like currently currently you're

00:14:41.540 having sex with three men well like i don't know like today or like this time period how about the

00:14:48.500 past 48 hours past 48 hours or at least one okay how about this week um one how about two weeks

00:14:59.460 um like three oh okay all right that's yeah i've dwindled it down and i i really have because it's

00:15:06.940 very addicting what's not just like the i say sugaring you guys laugh but like um meeting very

00:15:14.360 like successful accomplished people that are like because i'm a saposexual so i'm like what's that

00:15:20.560 you are it's a sapiosexual so i'm like attracted to intelligence and like i think smart men not all

00:15:28.300 women are attracted to intelligence but i'm also like a demisexual so i have to like um if you had

00:15:34.960 to pick one if i had to pick just one i would say definitely intelligence because i can learn off of

00:15:40.760 them and then if they like we have a connection and they're intelligent like they will teach me

00:15:44.920 things would you date somebody if they were smart and broke probably not so then that wouldn't make

00:15:50.580 you a sapiosexual whatever the hell that means first of all not entirely if you if you are looking for

00:15:57.220 that then you wouldn't date him if he was broke then it clearly means that you date people for money

00:16:02.120 well no not necessarily because like my last all my boyfriends have been broke um i've actually

00:16:08.200 they were all paying you no like my actual real a year and a half ago i've dated um serious

00:16:14.980 relationships committed yeah committed like long term like four or five years so so what's the most

00:16:22.700 important piece of knowledge that you've gained from these men um how to invest money um their money

00:16:31.300 all right we're gonna move on uh we can come back to the little later though but uh your relationships

00:16:43.380 status so i'm in my longest relationship i've ever been he's um so three and a half years um he's

00:16:50.700 only been my second boyfriend so yeah okay what about you um things are really complicated right now

00:16:58.440 but i'm technically married i've been married for going on eight years i've been on and off with him

00:17:03.680 for 14 years and that's like the longest time and i haven't really seen are you guys in the process

00:17:09.380 of getting divorced no we were separated and now we're talking again and seeing how many times has

00:17:16.600 it been off on a lot more than 10 i mean starting out yeah but then for we were together for nine years

00:17:28.860 straight and there was nothing and then we were separated and then we got back together and then

00:17:34.380 we were separated again and then we got back like we're talking again so and that's what's

00:17:40.600 yeah but you're a stay-at-home mom right i am so who how are you able to do that are you is he living

00:17:47.500 with you or um yeah right now we're living together so more than talking yeah i guess

00:17:52.260 talking regularly we're living together yes okay we will probably reconcile that's that's what's on the

00:18:01.600 agenda okay um so how many times would you say it's been on and off oh gosh from the beginning

00:18:10.040 probably 20 times so like total about 20 times okay all right what about you i'm in a two-year

00:18:20.600 serious relationship all right and um how did you guys meet uh we met at the hospital so he was a

00:18:29.380 medical student i at the time was a certified nursing assistant and phlebotomist we had a code

00:18:35.360 i was the first to respond it was his patient and i saved his patient we went out to dinner the next

00:18:43.040 day that's cute wholesome is he uh is in is this an age gap relationship yes what's the gap eight years

00:18:50.780 is it weird do you sorry is it weird do you no not at all that's good eight's not that bad so he's

00:18:58.260 28 parents are 14 you're 20 he's 28 yes so and he is a surgeon is that correct yeah he's a resident

00:19:04.960 surgeon okay got it what about you um i have been married for the last a little over nine years and

00:19:12.720 that is my we've been together 10 years um but that's my longest relationship uh do you guys have

00:19:17.280 kids we do we have two kids an eight-year-old boy and a three-year-old boy all right and um

00:19:22.900 you mentioned this during the intro right you're uh you're a doctor yourself is that correct

00:19:27.340 a nurse practitioner but yes nurse practitioner it's like the uh it's a you have a little you can do a

00:19:33.240 little more than a physician's assistant lauren right yes oh it says here i don't know if can

00:19:38.260 the nurse practitioner be a pediatrician yeah so you do the same job in pennsylvania you have to

00:19:42.840 have a collaborative practice agreement with a with a physician and overseeing physician but in a lot

00:19:47.920 of just like 23 states you can open your own practice as a nurse practitioner okay so you can

00:19:52.160 classify yourself as a pediatrician okay gotcha that's just what we had in our notes here okay

00:19:57.040 cool and you said you're he's uh you're married to a uh police officer proudly yes okay he was a

00:20:03.460 veteran he was in the air force okay all right uh what about you priya i am single i've been single

00:20:09.620 for about four or five months now my longest relationship was about six months long all right

00:20:15.360 liam what about you um at the moment i'd say i'm married to my work so i don't really date however

00:20:22.320 i've had two really good five year long-term relationships they're really positive have

00:20:27.760 very positive things to say about them and yeah that went great awesome yeah i'm single and longest

00:20:33.900 relationship was about two years but yes very much marriage my work as well at the moment

00:20:38.420 another struggle there you go good way to beta sweet uh a couple questions here just going off

00:20:44.660 some of the notes we have uh i want to actually go around the table really quick uh so starting with

00:20:50.080 you well not starting with lauren but lauren you're married to police officer and so i do want to ask

00:20:54.740 uh the table uh would you date a police officer probably not okay and well how about before you say

00:21:03.100 why i'll get everybody's answer absolutely no absolutely absolutely no no okay i would yes

00:21:09.240 i would i would well of course exhibit exhibit a that's men i would be proud to do so yeah all right

00:21:17.020 so uh i think it was just you two who said no uh just curious why because i'd be too paranoid

00:21:22.940 i'd end up dying okay that's actually a good reason yeah i thought you were gonna say something

00:21:27.820 else and then i would be able to come back and see that um i just think that with me like get arrested

00:21:35.420 yeah i just don't think that my my path of like what i'm doing right now would align with like a

00:21:43.700 police officer's lifestyle and like what they're like like following the law yeah maybe yeah but

00:21:48.700 only fans isn't against the law well but but do you consume substances do i substances substances

00:21:56.080 illicit substances well i smoke weed but i don't think that's illegal unless you got a medical card

00:22:03.200 that's why i never probably go to pennsylvania that's that's it though that's the only that's

00:22:07.780 the only thing you do is yeah okay just curious just curious um occasionally drink a sangria

00:22:15.860 like while smoking yeah like for dinner tonight no no not for dinner tonight

00:22:23.420 all right guys we've got the motorcycle in the back um okay so pretty much just you wouldn't align

00:22:32.100 with yeah like for instance i don't think that law enforcement people can date like only fan chicks

00:22:37.700 is that i i don't think it is or like sugaring like i don't think police officers are like um

00:22:44.020 like on seeking arrangements for instance i don't ever find like police officers because they can

00:22:50.460 probably find uh very high class women without going on a website to pay for one that's your

00:22:55.760 opinion no i think it's pretty much fact i mean there's doctors and lawyers and all them on there

00:22:59.920 though probably because they're kind of crooked but wait there's crooked doctors and lawyers on

00:23:05.360 well i mean there probably are but i mean i think there's crooked people everywhere yeah yeah but

00:23:10.400 but but but there's actually like no police officers like i've never met a maybe oh there's actually

00:23:15.960 ex-police officers on there maybe they got fired i was gonna say no they're retired actually

00:23:22.460 i feel like doctors and lawyers should be cleaning up like they don't need seeking no they're all like

00:23:28.220 there's doctors lawyers there's fucking pay for there's actually famous people on there

00:23:32.400 like literally famous these apps because they can subtly go and get a transactional relationship

00:23:38.820 and they don't have to be attached to the girl just stop while i'm speaking sorry and so while

00:23:43.320 they're married or whatever if they want to go and step out then they can have a faceless profile

00:23:47.520 but they're not married they're not married but also for doctors the schedule is pretty rough a lot of

00:23:54.660 them are not married yeah a lot of them are they just also they can't find a woman who can understand

00:23:59.880 that lifestyle like let me it's a lot yeah so that actually you're right and so let me take that back

00:24:04.300 they're not crooked um they're just more like busy and they don't have like time to like dedicate to a

00:24:09.860 female and females are very needy and so they like the idea of being able to like have that kind of

00:24:15.420 arrangement so that way they can just go back to their lives and not have that attachment of a girl

00:24:20.040 like i don't know falling in love with them not even when i stand they're like long-term

00:24:25.260 arrangements so you see them more than once yeah okay interesting yeah all right so i want to come

00:24:35.360 back to let me pull this one back up so veggie might bug and sick who donated two hundred dollars

00:24:44.180 boy crikey how you're going your little beauties good on your mates much whinging any shrimps on the

00:24:52.020 barbie brian been having too much brekkie i reckon lay off the macca's fatty shit cunt

00:24:57.640 lads do you go down under on any sheilas uh so this is a question for us uh i guess it go down under

00:25:07.140 on sheilas liam that was for you right i've never really had that yeah we'll start with liam experience

00:25:11.460 to be honest but i will say if you replace fat cunt with sick cunt that's actually a compliment in

00:25:16.700 our culture yeah it is okay it's the highest honor you can get actually okay you're you're one word

00:25:23.760 change away from like so close i'm so close bestowed royalty we could all be so blessed yeah we could

00:25:29.280 all be sick cunts at this time wait so uh i guess i'll start uh so me personally he's asking if we go

00:25:37.160 down under i do not do that why just not my thing you never each their own uh i i mean i haven't

00:25:50.060 the last time i did it was the bush administration so is that is that a pun is that ironic

00:25:55.720 no like did you mean to say no literally literally 2008 was the last time i

00:26:03.260 yeah no but i it literally like it's been since it's been 17 years wait hold on let me do the math

00:26:20.280 2007 2008 or some shit so fascinating yeah not a fan of it uh of of going down i'm a fan of

00:26:29.160 labia not a fan of going down then what do you do to labia like why do you like it so much

00:26:37.140 if you don't like actually like use your tongue or anything on it well done nick yeah hashtag big

00:26:42.720 labia matter yeah what do you mean like i mean like what what do you like so much about it then

00:26:48.180 if you don't touch it like do you touch it with your hands you're talking about like big labia yeah

00:26:52.420 like don't you like like to like feel like see what it feels like with your tongue at all like

00:26:57.560 no not really maybe it's the taste that's lame sometimes it could be the taste it could be hey

00:27:04.800 you know if there's infidelity certainly like i i mean look to each their own but my recommendation

00:27:11.300 to men you shouldn't even be doing that unless like you know for sure she's exclusive with you

00:27:16.220 you can't be like going down on some tinder check is that because the stds or even if even if there's

00:27:22.800 not if she's like sleeping with other dudes that's grimy oh so like you think that you might get like

00:27:28.280 like another guy's come out of yeah thank you for making a detail but yeah

00:27:32.360 yeah dumb question what's it what's it like again uh the lips i have a fat labia

00:27:40.360 please don't get brian started on it on this topic wait i was i was hashtagging 411 fat labia

00:27:49.460 because let's see cool what is 411 oh my gosh height her height can we terminate this conversation

00:27:56.960 yeah but uh yeah big labia matter there it is i'm one of your followers nice but uh yeah i mean um

00:28:04.480 yeah i definitely might look as a guy if you want to do it with your girlfriend fine i don't

00:28:09.400 recommend it with uh like some tinder hookup you don't know if she's smashing like three other

00:28:16.380 dudes so yeah but i don't do it period we're seeking hose bro even if she's a virgin i'm not

00:28:21.420 doing it can i give you some advice on how i do it no no no no trust me you like this one i'm not

00:28:28.060 gonna do it no no no no no no no no so when you're like when you're getting to know a girl that's like

00:28:33.040 the the dating process as to whether or not she's going to be accepted into the next cycle of

00:28:38.040 as if she has a low php if she gets to graduate to the going down under sort of thing do you know

00:28:42.760 what i mean yeah yeah it's like you get to learn wait yeah so wait what yeah so what i'm saying is

00:28:48.520 like when you're when you're dating and hooking up like i'll do it with a girlfriend to your point

00:28:52.680 yeah but not with a girl that i'm dating if that makes sense yeah no that makes sense yeah that makes

00:28:58.300 sense yeah but when she graduates then i'll go down then yeah yeah yeah she's gotta be

00:29:03.400 can't be seeing other dudes uh jake what is that no i agree with your take ron i think that was a good

00:29:08.020 take okay but so you don't do it then no i'm repulsing by this conversation let's go let's

00:29:16.700 fucking go yes this is a repulsive conversation well i mean here we'll open up to the ladies ladies

00:29:22.940 would you date a guy who uh let's say he's wonderful and great and amazing and sexy and cute

00:29:29.840 but he doesn't do that would you that's a tough one no i would hold on one at a time go ahead

00:29:39.720 i don't know honestly i guess it just depends on how good his personality is and everything because

00:29:44.980 i like i like getting it i like giving it i like getting it

00:29:50.340 word what about you no because i literally love writing men's face like literally sitting on top

00:29:59.060 of it right holding under the headboard like all that shit so this is exactly what we're talking

00:30:05.460 about when we say you have to be so careful because you were having sex with 10 different

00:30:09.060 men at the same time and there you are writing so we actually um we actually get std tested he

00:30:14.920 just he just sucked the dick of the last nine men you fucked wait you say that one more time

00:30:18.780 whoever you did that to suck the dick of the last nine nine dicks don't point it don't point

00:30:22.360 it's hypothetical guys hypothetical okay yeah i mean whoever's under you there's nine other guys

00:30:32.300 that you're having sex with yeah he's eating nine dicks in his mouth right yeah that's what i mean

00:30:36.640 so i'm not gonna lie like some of the arrangements were married but not all of them are so then he

00:30:45.740 has to go back to his wife yes i think that you know they're married yes and i think that um when

00:30:51.960 they're married it's like less people that you have to send to the std clinic to get tested i mean

00:30:57.460 because we regularly because we have access to that where we can get like quick tested yeah how in the

00:31:05.340 world because we're in the dog knowing i'm sorry to the world please don't listen yeah do you feel

00:31:09.760 bad i don't feel bad because they're in sexless marriages do you want to get that's not your job

00:31:14.820 to work on yeah it is because their dick needs to be sucked too do you want to get married so

00:31:19.380 technically it's our job just know you know that's exactly what's wrong with today's society but yeah

00:31:25.040 yeah but why the wives literally do not give them sex like you don't know that you have no you don't

00:31:31.160 you know what they're telling you just and they're well then why would they want why would they want

00:31:36.580 the sex elsewhere because their wives are too vanilla because they're physical beings men in

00:31:42.460 general but they're they're degenerative they're degenerates if they're doing that but it's not but

00:31:46.620 you're contributing to the problem so who's the victim then no so you don't want to marry the wife

00:31:52.580 the wife well maybe she should suck her dick her husband's dick more do you feel guilty doing that

00:31:57.100 no no you don't want to get married one day no you don't want to have kids no no it's like not on

00:32:02.400 your conscience i never want to get married it's marriage is like a very like religious thing and

00:32:08.680 i think you don't respect other people's well i mean maybe the husband should have respect and not

00:32:13.940 seek me then i think it sure it is not her job too it doesn't have any respect for anybody yeah i mean

00:32:21.360 they shouldn't seek me i don't know and then tell me that they're married because i have to sneak over

00:32:25.580 to their house so oh but you act like that's okay by the way i invited you i know we say like speak

00:32:32.500 close to the mic but i think you're like stroking yeah that mic's basically number 11

00:32:38.380 did you meet that mic on seeking as well

00:32:42.040 how much did the mic pay to be here today out of curiosity

00:32:48.000 $2,500 it's getting its money worth i can tell you that one

00:32:51.960 i'll buy a new microphone cover for you

00:32:56.200 i could do some amsr whatever it's called

00:32:59.280 wait don't don't do that weird shit with the fucking mic yeah you can't you can't yeah that's

00:33:06.320 bad you're gonna have to disinfect digital assault actually yeah believe it or not she actually

00:33:10.900 that was an essay on the fucking microphone fucking non-consent yeah i'm sorry yeah all mics matter

00:33:20.420 okay so we're gonna respect hey are you trying to pull some me too movement shit on me right now

00:33:25.600 i mean if the mic gets assaulted again we might have to just quit being a pervert to the mic

00:33:28.880 all right um the police question

00:33:32.420 oh yeah deal breaker deal breaker if the guy won't go down under yeah me oh um absolutely because i marry

00:33:52.880 whoever i marry marry them and if they choose um not to be comfortable with that then i'm okay with

00:33:59.840 that because i care more about so you're so absolutely you're you're fine with him not wanting to do it

00:34:06.560 okay i see i see okay so you won't feel any type of way no you'll be craving it because life is too short

00:34:12.800 well no yeah so life is too short and then with with sex there's endless ways to pleasure him or

00:34:21.360 yourself so there's options there you go that's very true yeah i wouldn't care either way it wouldn't

00:34:29.040 be a deal breaker it would be a preference if he didn't wait hold on so you'd prefer if he did not he

00:34:36.560 he didn't want to and didn't okay yes all right there you go yeah definitely a preference there you

00:34:44.160 go why is it a preference i don't get anything from it not at all does it feel like awkward for

00:34:49.840 you when it's happening it just i don't know what if they just didn't know what they were doing

00:34:53.920 i don't think that's the case if you had some real good head you might change your mind

00:34:59.680 i mean i think for some girls it can be like too stimulating like over stimulating that's very true

00:35:05.040 well it's not fun to look at the ceiling so oh you're looking at the ceiling i mean yeah like

00:35:10.720 why wouldn't why wouldn't you want to be face to face like looking at your partner i think that's

00:35:14.720 probably a deeper so you're you only do missionary no no but i'm so you're a missionary guys you're not

00:35:21.440 that's the vanilla that's why your wife comes in goes in seeking arrangements oh okay first of all

00:35:26.240 my husband would never ever seek you out okay oh because he's a police officer that's because he's a

00:35:31.280 police officer let's just get that straight all right um i would not be opposed uh if he didn't

00:35:39.360 want to do that that's totally fine like she said there are a hundred thousand ways to please your

00:35:44.800 partner it doesn't matter at all and it's also a very like much more juvenile thing i think back when

00:35:50.000 you're 16 17 and you're like you know thinking that it's really risque but it's not really uh when

00:35:54.800 you become an adult and you mature it's not really so you don't eat so when you become mature you don't

00:35:59.680 eat um like pussy you don't even you don't even use that kind of language or you're mature wait you

00:36:06.160 don't oh my god we i let's let's use s-ing the d yeah i think the d you don't use i personally would

00:36:13.760 never even talk about it as a conservative female like talk about it with other people my uh sexual

00:36:20.080 life with my husband oh well i go to like sex parties and things like that so my kink is that like

00:36:25.840 i like people watching me be fucked so you are funny yeah she i like her i like her she's good

00:36:34.320 this is good back and forth yeah i like it let's go back and forth yeah we'll let the girls talk

00:36:39.840 i'm in the swinger community i like to like be a third to couples and because like

00:36:45.120 fucking disgusting yeah exactly i don't care cosign because like being like just it's signed to one

00:36:53.920 person like and tied down you choose you're not assigned just like you're not assigned you're not

00:36:59.200 assigned but like tied down like sign a contract or whatever no you find someone you love that much

00:37:05.520 that you want to spend your but you can live but you can join other people let me just finish i'll be

00:37:10.000 done one second um that you want to spend the entire your entirety your whole life and dedicate

00:37:15.200 everything to them because they are that good that you don't need to uh fill the void with other

00:37:20.880 people with nine other men ten yeah they're not nine ten but like before this like before i went on um

00:37:26.800 seeking arrangements i did the like the swinger lifestyle and like it's i guess in a way it yeah

00:37:33.520 you're involving other people into your sexual intercourse but it most people that like allow you just

00:37:39.040 couples that allow you to sleep with other people like they their marriage lasts longer

00:37:43.520 no there's something wrong with that marriage there's not much infidelity yeah it's not like

00:37:49.280 in swinging community there's not much infidelity because their partners that is infidelity they

00:37:53.360 talk about but they talk about it with their partners maybe they're not married they're not

00:37:57.840 legally married maybe which lifestyle but they've been together for like well does it infidelity

00:38:03.280 though what makes it a marriage a marriage though just going to the courthouse and then having

00:38:07.280 a celebration with your family no it's that union between two people yeah well you could still have

00:38:12.800 you could still have that and include other people and still spice up your life no no that's a commitment

00:38:17.600 between a man and a woman which lifestyle did you what which lifestyle makes you happier this um

00:38:24.000 honestly like i would say like i like to be tied with one person

00:38:27.840 yeah like before contradicting well i mean math isn't math yeah well i'm saying like if i could go

00:38:34.560 back and be with one person and find like who i want to settle down with like i want that too

00:38:40.800 it's like how would you find that person you're just i found them on seeking arrangements

00:38:48.320 i'm gonna go exclusive with them yeah i don't think they're looking for that

00:38:51.840 i don't yeah you don't know what my relationship though so okay you don't you can't say you don't

00:38:57.600 think they're they're looking for that you can find the person you're going to be with on that

00:39:02.000 yeah by definition that would mean that they are seeking and a certain type of arrangements yeah

00:39:08.320 arrangements is a place where young girls go for sugar daddies yeah pay for their lifestyles and to pay

00:39:13.680 for sex so by definition you could still fall in love with somebody they're not that's not their their

00:39:18.960 goal it's not seeking a high value woman it's seeking arrangements yeah but okay it's not seeking

00:39:23.680 a wife yeah yeah i don't want to be a wife they're seeking for prostitution but if you don't want to be

00:39:29.280 a wife then why would you still want to be in the community because i don't ever want to get married

00:39:33.920 so you just i could have one yeah stay with one person and not be married and like have

00:39:38.960 yeah all that tied into it like what makes you married like having what a celebration i think if you

00:39:45.920 want that committed relationship then you're gonna have to stop that lifestyle yeah that's just the

00:39:49.840 only education of children it's the only way you'll get it one day yeah you to go exclusive with

00:39:58.080 somebody that means you have to stop seeing the other people correct it's called self-control it's

00:40:03.760 really what i'm going that's what i'm doing now this is all new so you've slept with three different

00:40:08.960 people in the last two weeks yeah it's better than ten but she dwindled right now she's trying you

00:40:13.360 know she's trying hey i'm dwindling i'm doing the breakup sex look into this camera for nick put it

00:40:19.280 on sure look look into this camera right here yes i did look look at look at this a lot of edibles

00:40:28.400 okay yeah we can tell oh yeah we can tell yeah no you look like a famous celebrity well quote unquote

00:40:38.560 famous andy dick who's andy dick can you look a little bit

00:40:44.480 now you said i can't get it on my head i know exactly what i mean i know exactly you know what i

00:40:48.240 mean yeah i can't get it on my head so it's so weird that's actually very accurate am i right

00:40:55.040 nick can you google andy dead no i just like was looking at her just with the wig i was looking at

00:41:00.800 her and i was like you kind of look like andy dick yeah damn it now it's stuck in my head too

00:41:08.000 wait young can we do that's not a face

00:41:16.240 lucky you're so pretty that's dick you're pretty the third one the mug shot a little bit wait chat

00:41:23.600 chat chat does she nick pull up the chat i didn't see the mug shot now i'm gonna call you andy tindy

00:41:38.160 does she look like a little bit i love it wait can you leave the chat up yeah it's right here

00:41:43.920 they're saying yes she does ginger dick

00:41:49.040 ginger what uh okay damn yeah there's another one too that i was thinking of but it's uh

00:41:59.200 wow oh kathy griffith that's true that's true yeah someone said joe dirt oh that's

00:42:04.160 it's joe dirt i'm not stealing them away technically yeah we're reading the chat here

00:42:12.960 trans andy i do not fuck trans so okay uh oh my god that's a no-no i don't know i just

00:42:24.000 macaulay culkin god damn all right uh

00:42:31.440 lois from family i'm sorry i you know i just i noticed it and i

00:42:36.400 all right matt damon point it out

00:42:41.600 you look more like matt damon than her that's true actually i do what the

00:42:46.320 oh my god okay i'm gonna get into uh some of my pre-show notes here so selena bowser right over

00:42:53.520 here uh you describe yourself as a liberal correct liberal i'd say if i were to put a label on it yeah

00:43:02.160 you also consider yourself a feminist yeah okay but not like completely you know but like i can do

00:43:09.200 shit men can do too you know so what does being a feminist mean to you then if not like i think we

00:43:14.720 should have equal opportunities you know we shouldn't have like a wage gap or anything like

00:43:19.120 that you think we have a wage gap we used to so but today whenever we used to no but it all plays

00:43:24.800 into a role it's all kind of systematic if you really think about it and really dive down deep

00:43:29.280 into the history of it it really is yeah but so why are you still a feminist and fighting for that

00:43:34.240 today if i don't fight for it but i there are certain aspects of life where i'll be like no no no

00:43:40.640 just because i'm a girl doesn't mean i can't do this i can do this for example you know like for

00:43:45.120 example like i'm a certified nursing assistant i work in bariatric units there will be men aids

00:43:50.160 that'll try to do the heavy lifting for the for like the heavy residents and stuff like that but

00:43:55.120 they think because i'm a female or because i'm small that i can't do it and then or do you think

00:43:59.520 that's just potentially them being gentlemen sometimes yeah a lot of the time actually so

00:44:06.880 there's a lot of the time where they're just like oh you can't do this you know you get that you do

00:44:12.640 get that for men a lot yeah but that's not that's not systematic that's a person that's not a

00:44:16.800 personal level that's not systematic one specific instance systematic meaning like all across the

00:44:22.080 world and all kinds of employment not just employment either just in general you know

00:44:27.200 walking down the street or whatever you never know what walking down the street is also not

00:44:31.200 systematic yeah i actually get it like i said it's decreased a lot i get it for being like small

00:44:37.040 like what do you get like guys asking me like if i'm trying to get my water off the shelf they'll

00:44:42.240 be like do you want me to get that for you but that's being that's kind of being polite

00:44:49.920 it's like every single time it's like every time because they they doubt that i can lift it

00:44:55.440 but you're you're literally 11 so can you reach more than the third self yeah it's on the bottom

00:45:01.280 shell she might want to climb it's on the bottom it's on the bottom but if they're trying to be

00:45:04.880 funny i mean it's just no it's not funny it's like they're just like but also even so that's

00:45:09.920 not systematic whatsoever there's going to be a horrible people everywhere you go honestly people

00:45:13.840 will treat you will treat you incorrectly can i just say that with the feminism thing the fact

00:45:19.680 that we've come to a stage right now where you're saying that people want to help you with

00:45:23.520 things and you're saying that people want to help you with things and that's the opposite of

00:45:26.800 being mean or oppressive that's actually men going out of their way to come and be kind to you and

00:45:31.840 that's what feminism is see that's why i got misunderstood because i didn't say it was from

00:45:36.160 someone trying to help me but whenever they do it in a demeaning way like a degrading way okay so then

00:45:41.200 i'm trying to act like you're not you're not good enough to do sure i get what you're saying but then

00:45:45.680 you would have a personal problem with that yeah specific individual that doesn't make you a feminist

00:45:49.360 it just means that that person on that specific occasion wasn't nice to you yeah maybe i misunderstood

00:45:53.760 that because there's plenty of times where that scenario or similar things where i have to hold

00:45:58.480 on i'm still talking but there's been you know many scenarios where that has happened and they were

00:46:03.360 just degrading with it you know so there's obviously i see that there's a difference between being

00:46:08.000 degraded and being feminism but also being like you know someone being polite to you but either way

00:46:14.000 like whenever you're being degraded you're gonna not want that you're gonna want to try to stick

00:46:19.200 up for yourself and do what you can do for yourself so i wouldn't label yourself as feminist i think

00:46:24.000 you're just standing up for yourself i don't think you would need to label them yeah like i said that

00:46:28.480 could have been a mistake because there's plenty of times where i said that you know i'm not doing

00:46:33.200 anything wrong i'm just just sticking up for myself and they've been like oh you're being a feminist you're

00:46:37.680 being a feminist you know do you think that maybe sometimes it's just more practical for men to do the

00:46:41.760 heavier lifting because men are stronger than women absolutely i think that'd be the best thing to do

00:46:45.920 do you think for the most part in a nice way sure do you think for the most part that the men are

00:46:50.160 doing all of the heavy lifting in society all of the jobs that you would never see all the people

00:46:53.760 paving the roads doing the concreting doing all of the heavy lifting of the jobs that you would never

00:46:58.720 ever last five minutes in and you never get to see that so men doing the heavy lifting in society

00:47:04.000 is 99.9 purely benevolent but that also plays into the systematic stuff that i was talking about because

00:47:10.240 a lot of women can't get jobs in construction have you ever tried to be a concreter

00:47:14.240 no but i totally want to be a concreter i totally would i'd love to do that okay why aren't you

00:47:19.920 because i'm not educated on it my schooling was first why don't you go and get educated on

00:47:23.600 concreting well right now my life is a little bit rough so but i totally would like as soon as i get

00:47:28.560 things straightened out sure i want a different field i'm tired of the medical let me let me tell

00:47:32.880 you this and you can disagree with me if you'd like you wouldn't last two minutes as a concreter

00:47:37.600 because unfortunately i'd like to try to prove people wrong in the modern world you can think that all

00:47:41.440 you want that's because your life is so comfortable that you can you can have that strain of thought but

00:47:45.280 the fact of the matter is that i did concreting for a few months and i didn't last and i'm not a weak

00:47:50.080 guy but these guys are some of the hardest people you'll ever meet in your life they are up at the

00:47:54.080 crack of dawn every day breaking their backs oh yeah it would not last a single day you can sit here

00:47:58.240 and say girl power all you'd like you wouldn't last a day i guarantee and i never said girl power i

00:48:02.240 just said i'd like to try that's essentially the messaging though you're saying can you you can do anything

00:48:06.000 i'm at you you can't can you carry anything are you able to carry a 300 pound man out of a burning

00:48:11.040 building wait say that again are you able to carry a 300 pound man out of a burning building i don't

00:48:14.640 know i can lift 300 pound men but i don't think i could carry them out of the building and so that

00:48:18.560 might be a little bit rough but if i had a freaking wheelchair most firefighters aren't going to have

00:48:25.840 how would you lift that 300 pound man yeah um what i normally do is like you have to grab under their

00:48:32.320 arm you have to get basically give them a wedgie and pull them up you have to use your knees your

00:48:37.520 legs your back make sure you don't pull your back out there's a very specific way to do it yeah

00:48:42.800 do you think that you could pick up our security guard here 210 he's only 210. well that's 90 pounds

00:48:50.160 less than what i just said so if you can't pick him up then you want me to pick him up

00:48:56.880 also she did say from a burning buildings i did say from a burning building and likely he'd be tossed

00:49:01.840 over her shoulder but one two three so i don't know okay watch everything else but

00:49:10.080 i told you 210 you got it very impressive i would love to see you run up and down some stairs out of

00:49:16.320 a burning building okay but the point is even as a cna just because i started way long ago even as a

00:49:24.240 nurse extern which was lower than a cna um you aren't even supposed to use those techniques you're

00:49:29.280 supposed to use uh the machines that they give you now because it's like causing a lot of harm

00:49:33.600 that's for that's for people who are scheduled for those lips like there's people that are

00:49:38.160 maybe at different one person assist and a two person assist and then there's people that are

00:49:42.800 like doctor's notes they have to use like a sit to stand a maxi lift yeah but we're saying the dead

00:49:48.000 weight see if you're a one person assist or a two person assist you're not using dead weight you have

00:49:52.000 to do two people or a maxi that's what i'm saying like you like you wouldn't necessarily need to as

00:49:58.400 a with a one person assist you're not taking dead body weight you're you're they can put they can use

00:50:02.880 partially yeah limited assistance so i think their point is like can you would you carry a 300 pound

00:50:07.920 person over your shoulders out of a burning building is much different than lifting you know

00:50:12.720 yeah so i said if i had a wheelchair i can i could get them in i could get their ass in a wheelchair

00:50:17.520 firefighters tend not to have those yeah i think the the deeper point though is that

00:50:23.120 we can debate this all day it's just common sense and common knowledge of practicality to know that

00:50:27.840 men are obviously stronger yeah but women can't do the jobs that men do and you have to understand

00:50:32.160 that these are thankless jobs for men because we don't really have much of an app like a propensity

00:50:36.320 to sit here and say oh my life's so hard because if we do that and we sit around saying that our life's

00:50:40.640 hard then people talk crap on you no no it's not even that you'll just never get anywhere in life we

00:50:44.720 don't have we don't have to prove we don't have the luxury of sort of sitting around and complaining

00:50:48.000 on tick tock and then getting attention because we've got a little bit of cleavage out or that

00:50:51.200 sort of thing yeah we don't have that we don't have that privilege so men have to get up and go

00:50:54.400 to work and do these jobs and then it's actually and i know that you know you've got your own

00:50:58.560 opinion about this and that's fine but it's laughable to hear you say those sorts of things that

00:51:02.160 oh that um i'm a feminist because men want to lift things from me when if you went and just

00:51:06.160 even if you went and just observe what men do from day in and day out and the sort of trauma that they

00:51:12.480 put their bodies through and i guarantee you there's probably a thousand men in the chat right

00:51:15.760 now i see it i i can see both sides to the story of like everything but of course i'm going to see

00:51:20.560 my side more i'm a female i got a twat and titties yeah well i would say that it sounds like you'd have

00:51:25.520 you have a personal um problem with the individual that that did that and do you have another example

00:51:30.480 of something that would make you lean towards being a feminist like nominally i'd have to sit there

00:51:34.880 and think about it because being put on the spot you know you got to like really like be like

00:51:39.600 what's another scenario in my life where this has happened you know well i think the point too

00:51:44.000 is that women can do they are they have the choice to do those jobs it's not like you're being prevented

00:51:49.520 from doing those if you really true like he was saying why don't you do that you do have the option

00:51:54.240 to make it out it's because the women most women don't want to one and two most women wouldn't make

00:52:00.720 it doing it i wouldn't make it doing it like that it is what that's what the people hiring the people

00:52:04.720 say and that's why they say no i'm not hiring you you're a girl unless you're like that would

00:52:09.200 be illegal i don't know i don't know how you know or if you had oh you know they got away with it

00:52:14.720 so if you had a business discrimination maybe that's for the best i don't know listen i know

00:52:20.880 that even in the military and and law enforcement women have lower standards to pass tests like physical

00:52:28.080 fitness tests than men then why when my concern is when i send my husband off to work and he look i

00:52:36.880 love all the women police officers he's work he works with but if they have a lower standard and he

00:52:41.280 has back that's his backup yeah that's concerning to me they don't have to run as fast or lift as

00:52:47.360 heavy or be as quick yeah and that's not fair no they should have the same standards well yeah that's

00:52:53.360 more if they had the same yeah if they had the same standards it just wouldn't work then you

00:52:58.400 wouldn't see women in a lot of fields that women are trying to pursue and so then why is it okay for

00:53:03.280 like that if you had a business wouldn't you hire the best people for your business yeah absolutely

00:53:09.600 but i also am the type of person to even if you don't seem like you would be good enough i'd be like

00:53:14.000 i'll give you a chance it's your business that you put a lot of money i would probably go under

00:53:18.720 because i just am too nice yeah i don't i don't like feelings in that regard i don't like i just

00:53:23.440 want the best of the best to be doing the work see that's why also yeah you're the best of the best

00:53:28.080 then you do it but if you don't qualify no i'm sorry i don't you might be a great person but i feel

00:53:32.480 bad i know but we can't hire you look at we hire people based off of our feelings and that ends in

00:53:40.000 that's why men make the better leaders because they they take emotion out of uh decision making

00:53:44.400 they're more logical so that's why like i definitely yeah i see yeah i see why you would

00:53:50.720 say that do you think your business would go under you call yourself a feminist because it's cool

00:53:55.360 no i don't really give into like fads or anything like that yeah i don't like that kind of stuff

00:54:00.400 when you say you're a feminist i mean feminism is i wouldn't say feminist but i have like feminist

00:54:05.760 attributes where i'm like i can do this like i'm a girl when um you say feminism feminism is a very

00:54:13.040 radical social and political movement that's basically changed the entire way that we

00:54:17.440 operate as as a western society so it's it's something to maybe not be taken so lightly just

00:54:22.960 in in future if you do want to call yourself feminine a feminist and you said that you've

00:54:26.400 looked back into the history of it it's actually very dark and malicious history it really is of

00:54:31.120 feminism and there's lots of occultism that's going on rachel wilson's got a great book on this

00:54:36.720 really what's the book it's called occult feminism and it takes you all the way back to as far as

00:54:41.680 the uh sumerian cultures and how they used to worship all of these female gods and i can't

00:54:47.360 remember what the gods called maybe nick can look it up for me the the sumerian god the feminine god

00:54:52.640 that they used to look ishtar i think it's something like that nick i think you're right yeah and i have

00:54:56.880 heard yeah and then there's even a story when this is the most female thing i've ever heard but ishtar

00:55:01.760 is scorned by gilgamesh because gilgamesh rejects her and these are mythical figures back in sumeria

00:55:07.920 and then ishtar sends the heavenly bull to come and kill gilgamesh and kills one of his friends

00:55:13.200 and this is where you get the theory of the saying hell hath no fury like a woman scorned

00:55:17.520 and this is when obviously males and females don't both have it have their own inclination towards

00:55:22.480 evil and towards darkness but the feminine evil is something that's very much harnessed with harnessed

00:55:27.200 within this political and social movement that's very interesting i'm definitely going to read that

00:55:30.800 book yeah that's a fantastic book that and also because your examples were very personally anecdotal

00:55:38.240 have women ever been rude to you before because you seem to be tired yeah so of course but not in

00:55:43.520 that kind of a way like i can do this better than you because i have a pecker really yeah

00:55:49.280 not in that kind of way i find it really really difficult to believe that there's been multiple

00:55:52.960 men that have just simply degraded you on that personal level in the way that you're explaining it

00:55:59.360 like i'm gonna lift this because you're that's fine okay i don't know what to say to that yeah

00:56:08.080 now i'd recommend you look into a little bit more do you have any do you have a religious faith

00:56:10.960 at all or do you are you more of like a spiritually leaning type person i believe in god and jesus i

00:56:15.520 actually just like got real super serious about it like i quit doing only fans and stuff like that

00:56:22.960 and that's good to you yeah um so when you say you believe in god and jesus do you accept jesus as

00:56:27.840 your lord and savior and you believe that jesus was who he says he was absolutely i just don't

00:56:31.760 label it under any kind of religion are you going to church are you involved in i listen to jesse

00:56:35.840 duplantis every day i don't know if you guys heard of him a few um yeah that's great but uh one thing

00:56:41.680 i would say is that if you are leaning towards christianity if that's something that you do want

00:56:45.280 to direct your life towards feminism is deeply anti-christian yeah the whole idea of feminism is

00:56:50.960 basically to destroy and dismantle all of the institutions that have built our world through thousands of

00:56:55.840 years of trial and error and there's lots of good quotes and maybe nick could even pull this up as

00:57:00.000 well but from 20th century uh feminists and they explicitly say that the whole idea of feminism

00:57:06.960 is to destroy the nuclear family that is the revolution because they believe that women are

00:57:11.040 oppressed by the nuclear family and they believe that children are actually standing in the way

00:57:15.760 of women from achieving this sort of utopian liberation so if you do if you do lean towards

00:57:22.320 christianity then i then i would really strongly reject feminism yeah yeah i wouldn't definitely

00:57:27.760 look into it and educate myself on it i wouldn't reject having self-respect or i wouldn't respect

00:57:31.920 wanting to be the best version of yourself that you could possibly be but feminism as an ideology

00:57:36.320 very dark definitely gonna look into that seems very interesting to look into i never heard of it in

00:57:42.160 a dark sense like that i'll send you some links yeah yeah what a healthy debate

00:57:45.840 getting back to uh some of the pre-show notes here um let's see i'm gonna go jump right to

00:57:56.400 uh let's see let's go to victoria victoria you uh you were a former cam girl is that correct yeah

00:58:05.520 before it was of of didn't exist yet okay front and you're 34 is that correct yeah from what age to

00:58:12.960 what age were you involved oh i barely did it for a month i hated it like i absolutely hated it um

00:58:19.200 yeah and i think it's extremely detrimental extremely detrimental yeah how did it impact

00:58:23.600 your marriage if you don't mind me asking um my obviously i did it with the support of my husband

00:58:29.840 because i wasn't going to do it behind his back and um it didn't seem he didn't seem to care much as

00:58:36.080 long as it was because it had like settings so that it wasn't anyone like in pennsylvania

00:58:41.200 where we live so that he knew that like nothing was going to happen but he was he just didn't seem

00:58:46.160 to have an opinion like didn't care that it didn't bother him at all okay uh in our in the pre-show

00:58:52.560 notes that you provided here you said that you have uh three baby daddies i do oh okay i know uh how

00:59:01.040 many kids do you have three three oh from three and i'm assuming one of them is with the guy you're

00:59:06.800 currently married to yes are the other um are the others in the picture yes they are um i had one

00:59:15.440 really young parent yeah i co-parent with each of them and i had one really young and then i was

00:59:20.480 married and we uh planned one and then we were separated and i ended up pregnant okay yeah so so both

00:59:29.440 the two kids that were parented by the other men that aren't your husband were prior to your current

00:59:35.600 marriage correct no unfortunately one was before and then one was after i got it oh wait so just to

00:59:40.800 be clear okay so you had one child then you met your now husband you had a kid with him and then you

00:59:49.360 had a kid with another man right we were i was separated from your current current husband okay

00:59:55.440 and then i got pregnant okay so kid with okay so that you had a kid with one guy met your husband

01:00:03.360 husband husband kid with husband separated from husband had a kid with another man

01:00:12.080 back with husband yes okay i see all right and was he uh was this an issue for him or um he has been

01:00:22.160 raising my youngest pretty much as his dad too and so he's a really really good dad an amazing dad

01:00:29.440 actually and um yeah okay who's initiating most of the breakups um in the beginning it was him

01:00:39.120 and then recently it was me sure what makes you want to initiate what is it in particular is it just

01:00:45.120 a moment of of blind rage or no it's not like that um we are recovering addicts and so we struggle

01:00:53.200 sometimes and there are times that we need to separate for our own health and safety can i have

01:00:58.400 you scoot your mic to the edge of the table keep going a little bit perfect okay continue go ahead

01:01:05.120 um and so yeah just for our health and safety we have needed to separate and so we were separated and

01:01:11.280 i started seeing somebody i'd like to hear the nurses takes on this about my pay grade yeah

01:01:16.480 about for for what part the addicts part and the i i i empathize i i don't um i can't imagine how

01:01:25.440 that how hard that is um do you have you relapsed or has he relapsed like is that a count of that's

01:01:32.960 a common issue or it's it's not super common but it happens and one of the times was because of that

01:01:42.000 yeah do you guys do like meetings or how do you stay um clean i'm actually currently going to a

01:01:50.000 methadone clinic and so that's how i stay clean and he is on suboxone and he's just been trying to stay

01:01:57.120 clean but he was recently he had a recent relapse and so do you do you ever think about what it would

01:02:03.840 be like maybe i mean i know this might be hard because considering you have children together but

01:02:07.920 um maybe it's just not a great situation in general to stay together like maybe you need a

01:02:14.560 partner that can empathize with you but is healthy and doesn't struggle with the same exact issue yeah

01:02:20.720 vices that's certainly something that i've thought of and one of the reasons that we separated if it

01:02:26.560 makes you feel better um i was actually raised by a single mom with three brothers who was a drug addict

01:02:31.200 as well so yeah so my dad left when i was eight and my mom was addicted to drugs and alcohol and we

01:02:36.960 were homeless at one point we're in a women's refuge at one point we had no money like nothing

01:02:42.160 so yeah i know what your kids would feel like it's not it's not fun but you know like we got through

01:02:49.280 it um but yeah you're not the only person who's had this sort of struggle i had absolutely yeah when

01:02:54.080 i i think part of it too is i wonder i mean of course for your health and your husbands uh or ex-husbands

01:03:00.160 but also the children like the constant rotation of you know breaking up getting back together

01:03:05.440 um relapsing and going you know getting clean that ultimately i think a lot of the attention

01:03:12.480 is put on your sobriety and your your partner's sobriety and then the the kids have to adapt

01:03:18.080 through that that becomes very difficult so just wondering if like a better situation would be with

01:03:22.160 a healthy that's definitely something i've been thinking about myself now you you said that you would

01:03:28.160 like to discuss how being a cam girl destroyed your self-esteem how promiscuity has become so mainstream

01:03:33.760 that it's destroying the dating world you'd like to talk about how your own personal promiscuity

01:03:39.040 has brought nothing but negativity into your life and that you don't want this for other young women

01:03:45.120 yes i mean that's basically my story that it's like a cautionary tale to you know avoid the things

01:03:51.360 that i have done when and so like i guess as providing an example when you say your own personal

01:03:58.240 promiscuity what was the scope of the promiscuity um well just the fact that i got separated had

01:04:05.760 another baby like that i was obviously sleeping with somebody else i wasn't sleeping with a lot

01:04:09.920 of people but promiscuity itself just destroyed my self-esteem whenever i was younger because i went

01:04:14.640 through so many different men because i was a single mom and looking for a partner you know and it was hard

01:04:21.760 and then i slept through so many different men and it was just detrimental sure okay actually i have

01:04:27.200 more more notes here from you but actually one thing i'd like to do is uh we try to well we're

01:04:34.240 already an hour into the show try to start with where people potentially disagree so for those of you

01:04:40.160 who have seen the show if anybody has any disagreements that you've heard from me heard from jake

01:04:45.120 um that any of you want to uh bring up i'd be happy to uh start there first i disagree with your

01:04:53.760 wardrobe brian i actually enjoy the black i do i do like the whatever black sweatshirt

01:05:00.880 but i just i do disagree anything constructive yes your your opinion about circumcisions i highly

01:05:05.840 disagree with yeah i honestly wish what's your opinion on circumcision circumcisions yeah okay he's

01:05:11.440 against circumcision sure we can i i prefer to call it male genital mutilation honestly i get where

01:05:18.000 you're coming literally because when they do that to women it's called female genital mutilation so women

01:05:23.200 don't get the same decisions but um i think you know in other countries ultimately yeah so what are

01:05:28.240 what are your so what are your or why are you in favor of circumcision circumcisions uh help with uh

01:05:36.320 lowering risk of penile cancer help lowering risk of stds no it doesn't yes no no it doesn't um

01:05:42.880 um maybe in america no it does it does maybe in america well yeah in america yes it does

01:05:53.200 if you don't mind yeah can we get a your opinion then your opinions so so it there it is uh yeah it's

01:06:00.160 slightly decrease it slightly decreases the um risk of penile cancer certain stis and utis in in men

01:06:08.720 also it's a little bit like i mean i don't i'm just speaking from men i know like as they got older

01:06:14.640 and thought and they thought like oh if i wouldn't have been circumcised i feel like a lot of women

01:06:19.360 would have looked and been like what the heck is that like a giant type of scallop and trunk you know

01:06:24.800 oh my god that's just the way it looks though but like girls can you can you either fix your

01:06:29.200 posture sorry yeah health wise that is accurate information because it is hold on well so let me

01:06:34.480 just so there were two claims there there's the cancer claim the std claim the std claim no would

01:06:40.800 it uti no not really but i mean well maybe but yes the std one potentially even makes sense uh

01:06:49.680 intuitively however the cancer one seems dubious it's a very it's a very decreased risk but it is

01:06:56.000 you can look it up also um the the uti we will look it up the force people don't do proper hygiene

01:07:01.520 and they don't retract so let's actually talk about that for a minute so it is extremely uncommon for a

01:07:08.640 man to get a uti let's also talk about yeah it is extremely uncommon for a man to get a uti yeah it's

01:07:15.520 uncommon and if a man has a uti there's something else wrong it is not just an infection like it is

01:07:24.080 more than that okay when a man has a uti there's something else wrong because the urethra is longer

01:07:30.160 and therefore when they pee and even so let's talk about men and women when women get utis we get them

01:07:35.920 more frequently because our urethra is shorter we also have a vagina so there's you know yeast there's a

01:07:45.280 big difference between men and women getting utis no so the issue is you're probably referring to

01:07:52.000 circumcised men when i'm saying i know the urethra length of the urethra um well my point is when a

01:07:57.920 male is uncircumcised bacteria gets under the foreskin bacteria gets under the foreskin so it gets caught

01:08:05.440 in there and it travels upward because people don't know the proper way and they don't retract the

01:08:09.440 foreskin well then you teach the kid how to properly clean the penis well this is i'm i'm just

01:08:13.760 telling him why it is beneficial to get it takes off so many nerve endings and it's just not proper

01:08:19.200 like in other countries they don't do the circumcision i don't really much care about

01:08:23.440 other countries they're fine they're not dying of cancer and ate well aids i have a question though so

01:08:30.000 for example if we were hold on stop if we were to compare let's say there was a procedure that

01:08:37.360 removed removed women's breasts well i guess you can't remove their breasts at birth but if there

01:08:43.280 was a procedure that hold on no no let's say there was a procedure when after one stop let's say there's

01:08:50.400 a procedure after women went through puberty that removed their breasts would there be evidence of

01:08:56.240 decreased risk of breast cancer in those women if we remove their breasts yes well is that would

01:09:02.400 that justify the removal of women's breasts to prevent cancer for a just in case i i guess it

01:09:09.840 depends on how important you find breasts i had two breast reductions so they really aren't important to me

01:09:15.040 there are there are plenty of women that do but you realize circumcision is done on a mass scale

01:09:21.520 here in the united states other countries uh well a few other countries so it's not clear

01:09:26.160 to me because there is and perhaps this is just a correlation uh it's not clear to me if the

01:09:33.280 decreased risk of cancer is enough pretext to warrant mutilating a child's genitals sure i i i

01:09:42.880 understand what you're saying i don't think the cancer part is that massive because like i said okay

01:09:47.440 it's a very small reduction but the infection is a major um benefit of not of getting a circumcision

01:09:53.840 because like i said bacteria does get stuck under the foreskin that's so is there just like i believe

01:09:57.840 in europe there's not a bunch of circumcision is there just like rampant st uh like utis for men

01:10:04.080 in europe i imagine the education is probably way better than it is here in the u.s because again

01:10:09.760 circumcision is so baseline here um but also late i i've heard people say in the show that later on you

01:10:17.040 should give leave it up to the um men male when he's you know a teenager whatever if he wants to

01:10:23.280 get that done he can make the decision well that recovery is going to be a heck of a lot different

01:10:28.000 than when you're an infant and you don't reproduce those memories you don't remember those things um

01:10:32.720 so it's just and it's a larger surface area as well or your wife or whoever's dating you should like

01:10:39.040 just accept your penis the way it is and like like you're circumcised or uncircumcised dick but like most

01:10:45.040 uncircumcised dicks are like that's a they're not mutilated they're not mutilated if we stick to the

01:10:51.440 medical discussion of it so let me just actually let's just i'll just you know there could be some

01:10:56.720 debate over whether you know what you're saying is actually true if there is a decreased risk of

01:11:01.280 cancer if you know with the utis thing i'll just seed it and say sure fine however there's also cases

01:11:08.000 where men do get circumcised and it gets botched sure so there is a while it might have some

01:11:16.640 corresponding positive medical benefits of circumcision there's also corresponding negative

01:11:21.920 outcomes to circumcision there can be nerve damage that can be damage to the glands there can be there's

01:11:28.240 cases where the entire penis has to be removed there's been cases of that and then that's absolutely

01:11:33.760 catastrophic so um yeah and then i mean there's also the consideration of well does inflicting

01:11:40.480 uh you know could this be actually mentally damaging you know psychologically uh young babies

01:11:49.360 do you think they they so normally you don't reproduce memories or you can't uh so do you think if

01:11:54.160 you like for like a period of the first year of a child's life if like the parents were just like

01:11:58.480 beating the child it wouldn't have any impact on the child at all they just forget it well i think that

01:12:03.200 would have i don't i don't know that they would remember it but if it depends if they would cause

01:12:06.800 legitimate medical issues um if they slam their head or shook their baby then of course that causes

01:12:12.400 specific medical and neurological conditions but um yeah i'm not sure wouldn't there be a just like a

01:12:17.280 stress response though that the child would have that would give it some sort of trauma sure i don't

01:12:21.120 think a one-time circumcision would do that but if it but if it is a very painful procedure though

01:12:26.800 if it is a very painful procedure they give things like you know little anesthetics and babies

01:12:32.560 we can use glucose water just like little sugar can be used as an anesthetic in a baby and so they

01:12:37.200 give them that and did you ever notice that after a circuit now i have two boys both have had

01:12:41.040 circumcisions sorry boys um but you know i either way did you ever notice that after the procedure

01:12:47.600 within an hour or two they don't cry anymore there's no pain they don't there's it's just it

01:12:53.360 they don't that you don't even when you're cleansing the area um there's no response just i'm

01:12:58.240 actually totally indifferent on this i don't really have an opinion on this but i was actually really

01:13:01.440 enjoying watching you two go back and forth seems like you're jumping at the bit to say something

01:13:04.320 over here yeah um i want to kind of piggyback off of what brian was saying just because they don't

01:13:12.560 feel it and we don't know that they feel it is it well they do feel it okay like he's saying i mean

01:13:18.400 you could punch your kid in the head and then they do feel it i think you're talking about yeah you're

01:13:23.920 talking about two different types of traumas um you can go ahead yeah i just want to point out like

01:13:28.160 that the argument that you're using is the same argument that pro-abortionists use where they

01:13:31.920 say well you can kill the kid because the kid can't remember so it's the same argument where

01:13:35.040 you say no oh my god that's very true would you agree what no no same argument the kid can't

01:13:40.880 remember they don't can chop its dick off but the kid can't remember so we can no they wouldn't have

01:13:44.080 a life they wouldn't have a life if you aborted a child they wouldn't even have doing something to

01:13:48.080 them without their consent that's what i'm saying yes okay go ahead go ahead also another thing to

01:13:52.320 consider is that man's gonna grow up that boy is gonna grow up it is statistics that wet men with

01:13:58.720 foreskin do have it's more sensitive it's more enjoyable good point so yeah you know you're making

01:14:04.640 a decision for your sons and they about their future sexual lives yeah they have no say in i had a

01:14:10.560 friend as a kid who got circumcised when he was a little baby and they screwed it up and his penis never

01:14:15.920 agree oh my god i've never heard that that's crazy so he's sitting around here so i i just googled

01:14:25.600 this from hold on guys stop i just googled this from boston children's hospital the reported surgical

01:14:34.240 complication rate while low is between two to three percent um so you know the

01:14:40.880 uh you can debate whether that's significant but i mean if there's hundreds of thousands of i don't

01:14:48.000 know how many sure how many per year whatever but uh i mean that ends up being a lot of men who there's

01:14:54.400 botched circumcision sure i also think um i i think a lot of men are circumcised and to your point i

01:15:02.320 really don't think that they're uh complaining of their issues being pleasured um so it might be more but

01:15:08.240 if you never have it's like a virgin marrying another virgin on their wedding like and only

01:15:13.760 having sex on their wedding night they don't know what else is out there so that is the best they're

01:15:17.920 going to have so if somebody is circumcised and has uh sexual relations that is just what they

01:15:24.720 think is normal you know and so i don't think that's really a great argument that kind of sucks

01:15:30.160 though i'd rather be able to have body autonomy and if i could have more pleasure i'd take it right but

01:15:35.040 the thing is you're taking away an opportunity that they don't even know about well if they want

01:15:40.000 to take on that opportunity later in life it's going to be a real hell of a problem because it's

01:15:44.480 going to be a really bad um uh recovery it's going to be much more painful they're definitely going to

01:15:50.640 have memories about it i actually had another friend you have a lot of friends once again just asking for

01:15:58.320 a friend i had another friend who got the procedure done at 14 years old but that was only because

01:16:04.800 this guy's in a different different boat but um his penis grew to the point where it couldn't where

01:16:09.280 it stretched it so he had to get it cut off yeah and then my friend liam was born with

01:16:16.080 a condition called penis minutus which is inverted let's be real with an inning no um no yeah there's

01:16:25.040 always going to be risks of course i don't know and i haven't looked into this but the risks of

01:16:29.600 getting a circumcision later on in life i don't know what that is um if that's a higher risk for

01:16:33.920 something like that he was a 14 year old that couldn't do anything with it for three months

01:16:38.400 but i mean is what like look there's there's a bunch of countries where they don't do this procedure

01:16:43.200 yeah and is there just like catastrophic like this no catastrophe for men upon like no no they're fine

01:16:52.720 they didn't get circumcised they're fine like i said i think you have to it's a lot of different

01:16:57.520 components it's not like in medical medical uh care you can just say oh well in other countries they

01:17:03.200 they don't have circumcisions and it's all fine so if we did the same thing it would be all be fine

01:17:07.360 there's a lot that would we would have to change in terms of our education the amount of education nurses

01:17:11.280 have to do uh with patients and families is incredible there's barely enough time to get

01:17:15.840 it done and then the patients don't even follow that anyway half the time so it just depends but

01:17:20.880 yeah if the education was better hold on but so you're saying that because wouldn't it be like a

01:17:26.720 five minute five minutes of instruction so it's worth chopping off boys peanut uh boys foreskin without

01:17:34.720 their informed consent because it would be a it'd be labor for the nurses to instruct them or for the

01:17:43.920 parents to google there's no labor issue there's a compliance issue you can tell a patient to take a

01:17:49.920 pill twice a day and they still don't do it it just happens that way well don't we instruct like

01:17:55.360 um i want one okay can i have one all right yeah can i have one more

01:18:07.040 stay awake but anyways yeah but i see your point wait either way can i have something so i have three

01:18:14.720 boys and they actually two of them were born with something called a hypospadias yes and they actually

01:18:20.480 needed to use the foreskin to properly fix their penises so that it would look could you describe

01:18:26.480 what that is though it's when the urethral meatus that's the opening uh for where the urine comes out

01:18:32.160 is too low so it points downward yeah and so they actually like form the hole at the tip whenever they

01:18:39.920 do the surgery and you had to wait i had to wait till they were six months old like one of six months

01:18:44.160 when i was like a year and there definitely was a lot more recovery than my middle son who was

01:18:49.840 newborn and got it done but the reason why i chose it personally was more of a societal thing and

01:18:55.440 because i personally had an experience with a man who his foreskin was adhered yes penis i think people

01:19:04.720 are forgetting that that does happen yeah and it was so painful that he couldn't perform because what

01:19:11.120 what's up for skin can be adhered to the um tip of the penis meaning they can't retract it back

01:19:17.040 it's extremely painful why why does that happen like what what causes it just congenital yeah

01:19:24.400 not proper care that too that too i mean yeah like i said you have to it's a specific way of having to

01:19:30.720 like hygienic practices but yeah if you're consistently pulling it back and cleaning it

01:19:34.640 it's not so he must have been jacking off a lot okay i don't think so but no probably not

01:19:40.000 i ultimately to do with anything but ultimately i just don't think that

01:19:44.400 you jacked the stick wrong

01:19:52.080 that's enough okay

01:19:54.960 ultimately ultimately i just don't think that it it's worth the trade-off okay and also i mean look

01:20:01.600 you i i don't dispute i don't dispute that for example like if you do want to or opt to get the

01:20:07.840 procedure when you're an adult you're it's probably going to be a bit more painful like you're going

01:20:12.800 to obviously remember it um but um i'm i would be curious to know what is the percentages of adults

01:20:21.280 who didn't get a circumcision as a child who then opt to get a circumcision because there's not for

01:20:27.920 aesthetic reasons though i don't think that's valid but if there's like i think the thing you

01:20:32.320 like there's something there's painful erection or whatever it may be compared to the uh the

01:20:39.600 amount of like you know just the baseline of babies who are getting circumcised what the

01:20:44.960 complication uh like the comparative complications are there so i don't know four skin

01:20:52.320 hat donated two hundred dollars the benefits are irrelevant yeah it should be up to the man as he

01:20:58.160 becomes an adult shout out to liam best peptide his name though got me jacked and grew my sweet

01:21:05.520 meat by two inches uncircumcised myron nice fourskin hat duh oh my god that's the best uh we do have a

01:21:20.160 chat here from desert joe coming in in just a second recurring question in the chat for jake

01:21:25.760 and priya anything to share since sunday's show not asking like kiss and tell gossip just nothing

01:21:30.000 there's clearly a wholesome priya wasn't here on sunday yeah i wasn't here on that was that other

01:21:34.720 girl but she was trying to touch jake's arm like every moment of the show was so distracting

01:21:40.320 she would purposely put her arm out here closer and closer

01:21:43.040 canada one st donated two hundred dollars sorry to interrupt love you brian but question for the

01:21:51.040 high ginger chick next to pink hair is there any tread left on the tires at all or is like throwing

01:21:56.400 a hot dog down the hallway nice beard brian thank you man no i've been told that my pussy's pretty tight

01:22:04.560 oh gosh excuse me yeah it's pretty tight you don't have to repeat it but uh

01:22:14.080 thank you for sharing appreciate it i'm just answering the question did you want to address

01:22:17.680 the previous chat or um with priya no he wasn't here on sunday he's talking about the alexa alexa yeah

01:22:25.120 oh no no nothing to report no okay there's your answer um all the girls like jake though they all

01:22:34.080 you know every time you're on the show the girl who's sitting over here they're always like oh

01:22:39.120 jake and i've been doing it at the table the whole time

01:22:44.400 i think brian has the biggest crush on jake of them all honestly it's something about this

01:22:48.400 state there's a magnetism we're getting really close

01:22:54.400 it's definitely true uh all right thank you guys appreciate it nick pull up twitch really

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01:23:27.120 appreciate it thank you for the follows and the prime subs we're gonna go around the table stifler

01:23:30.480 has a question here ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten starting with you

01:23:36.800 go ahead i think i'm pretty good i'd say i'm a ten okay what about you like maybe like a five

01:23:44.160 a seven like a three like a six six and a half yeah i would say six six and a half six and a half

01:23:51.200 or seven six but eight with a few beers maybe i'll go a seven okay give myself a five so we have only

01:23:59.920 one ten at the table uh one ten at the table do you want to change you want to change your answer now

01:24:08.240 that uh no you've heard some of the other i march to the beat of my own drum but what is what but

01:24:13.920 what does everybody else march to nickelodeon i think you guys are scared to actually say how

01:24:18.960 you call the stronghold hold on hold on if she actually attracted to intelligence she'd rate

01:24:24.640 herself a zero that's me but you could keep talking i like the money though they would know they were

01:24:31.280 wrong well what he's talking about me though oh yeah well i don't know you because i'm stoned

01:24:39.280 by the way hold on actually i do actually want to address this so like

01:24:43.680 are you sure not anything else yeah i'm just stoned and i honestly got you i got something in my

01:24:49.200 i don't want to look at your fucking eye you put that shit away dude i i swear that's

01:24:54.880 fucking disgusting that's fine i'm really not anything else this is do you think you could

01:25:01.120 have done this sober like we do typically prefer people who are sober we don't serve alcohol to

01:25:05.760 anybody you guys have white claws in the fridge does anybody here have a no she offered it yeah she

01:25:13.600 offered it who did yeah but you you asked though didn't you no that was me i did yep but oh did you

01:25:23.200 offer it or no yes oh okay well you haven't had any correct no i'm really just like we don't offer

01:25:30.560 people i know i'm not on drugs this is just my personality but honestly like at the end of the

01:25:35.200 day like you are you said you're on edibles well i mean like other substances well i mean couldn't

01:25:40.640 you like just not do that knowing you're coming on the podcast yeah like but i would still act this

01:25:47.600 way i'd probably act worse though you'd you'd act worse yeah a bold statement because i'm more hyper

01:25:58.960 you're 20 much much you said you're 26 yeah are you just are you just unable to maneuver through

01:26:05.360 life yeah how do you how do you i like marijuana i'm okay okay i do oh yeah sure i get i smoke like a

01:26:14.560 lot of marijuana i get that you like it but don't don't you think that that's a character defect no

01:26:19.440 no don't you think that could be an addiction no of course not do you think that everyone in

01:26:25.920 california that smokes weed is an addict yes wow i don't know if they're an addict as somebody who used

01:26:32.480 to be addicted to it myself it is very very addictive yeah i just smoke every day don't tell

01:26:37.680 the customs i'm actually joking i'm speaking about a friend again but yeah a friend of mine who used to

01:26:43.040 do it every day it is very very addictive thing and actually it kills your i call it the great

01:26:48.480 killer of human ambition there are some people who can be somewhat functional but i find that

01:26:54.720 those people are very productive in other areas of life yeah most of the time when people are smoking

01:26:58.960 every day it's because they're trying to hide from something they're trying to hide from

01:27:02.480 necessarily trying to escape their own consciousness not really not necessarily

01:27:07.840 just try to dull the natural emotions but that's okay is that how you feel about alcohol too

01:27:12.320 absolutely yeah yeah well yeah i can't argue that when people go to a bar and i'm guilty of this as

01:27:16.800 well sometimes you feel a bit do you drink maybe a bit socially anxious you have a few drinks do you

01:27:20.960 drink okay how often do you drink alcohol once a month maybe if that once a month well i think

01:27:27.360 that's my husband and i were just talking about it's equivalent to drinking alcohol i think that's kind

01:27:31.280 of it's not it's not but it is not exactly so i think that in general you know you can go to a bar you

01:27:36.800 can have one drink at night you know but i think a lot of wine after your kids go to okay irrelevant

01:27:43.360 but um i think overall a lot of people are smoking throughout the day um marijuana you know you came

01:27:50.240 here it's not even dinner time and you obviously are already stoned as you said um so it's not like

01:27:55.680 you know people people that were drinking alcohol day long too yes that's called an addiction or a

01:28:01.040 problem so i would compare it comparatively i think it's yeah not can i actually ask a question

01:28:07.120 yep are you worried about looking back at this and seeing like the way you're conducting yourself

01:28:12.880 like does that not really mind no because this is just who i am is this how much marijuana you consume

01:28:19.840 on a regular basis um i consume like 10 grams a day i have no idea i don't know i don't know

01:28:26.160 yeah that's a lot that's a lot okay so 10 joints a day so you that's a lot spencer quite literally

01:28:31.280 are oh gustavo yeah that's a lot yeah that's half a bag i'm a weed addict so i think too i notice a

01:28:36.720 lot now i'm again i'm from pennsylvania so this this state is like so new to me but um

01:28:43.360 um but i think over time even i see that i see it myself like over time when people are doing this

01:28:49.600 day after day after day they eventually start to get slow and you're talking to them and you're like

01:28:54.720 like delayed responses slurred speech slower just can't react the same so i think over time it

01:29:01.440 really kills off a lot of brain cells i think that plays for certain people but not for everybody i've

01:29:05.920 been smoking all day every day consistently since i was 14 years old oh i'm 31 now yeah what's

01:29:11.760 feminism and smoking pot got to do with each other i'd say it's a mental illness in a way

01:29:17.760 but like i'm not i'm not slow i'm pretty quick-witted you know i'm not like

01:29:21.200 eatables and my eyes are a little bit puppy from having something get in it i think that

01:29:26.320 i wonder what that yeah i it wasn't calm either all right you don't have to say yeah no we didn't

01:29:32.320 need that i'm sorry yeah i think i was going to say something i lost my train of thought oh i think

01:29:38.240 people have to be aware too of like cannabis induced psychosis if you've never heard of that

01:29:42.000 that can be from medical marijuana as well as regular street marijuana and it's been happening

01:29:46.400 happening increasing uh increasingly actually nationwide so it's just something to be aware

01:29:50.960 of you have a disposition towards it definitely definitely don't do it yes if you even even if

01:29:55.360 you have depression um you can go into a cannabis induced psychosis and let me just tell you i worked

01:30:00.080 in the psych hospital in a schizophrenia and bipolar unit for the last three years and it isn't pretty

01:30:04.800 these people sometimes don't ever come out of it and it's becoming more prevalent from marijuana

01:30:08.800 from marijuana yeah right okay i've had three people that have been

01:30:12.240 instituted sectioned through marijuana is it from street marijuana no it's just very rare

01:30:16.800 though because no it's not very rare no you have a 50 chance every time you consume cannabis yeah

01:30:21.360 right yeah why don't you pull that shit up yep can you look it up yeah okay yeah i've heard about

01:30:28.960 this well you know you know there was just a famous case where the girl from 2018 was uh was uh

01:30:35.120 given her sentence of only two years probation which is absolutely absurd um for whatever i don't even

01:30:41.120 know for have you ever smoked pot for brutalizing her boyfriend you're a smoke pot i i have no

01:30:47.840 desire to i don't think anything should be in my lungs wait what'd she do though somehow i think

01:30:52.080 i'll manage but um she brutalized meaning stabbed her uh uh boyfriend in the face 108 times because of

01:30:58.480 pot okay honey yeah are you sure it wasn't laced with pcp or something no no they they test we

01:31:05.440 do drug tests and there was nothing else in her system that's very common thc they'll pop positive

01:31:10.960 for and nothing else so anyways anyways moving back to so okay we're talking about the rating thing so

01:31:19.120 you said you rated yourself a 10 out of 10 in terms of physical appearance do you think like so that's

01:31:25.840 your own self-assessment what do you think like is that that's how i feel about myself i don't know

01:31:30.800 about anybody else what what do you think other people would rate you on average i guess it depends

01:31:34.880 on the eyes that are seeing me let's just say like some people will be like oh she's ugly and

01:31:38.720 other people will be like oh my god she's really pretty so it just depends on the right i'm saying

01:31:42.640 an average though like if you had to average it i'd say if we were to average it the best way to do that

01:31:47.120 is a five not that not that you're average but like a hundred thousand men because if i were to add

01:31:54.400 up you know their ratings and then divide by how many people that's an average wait no no i'm saying

01:32:00.400 what would be the average of the people like if a hundred thousand people were to rate you

01:32:04.640 yeah the average would be it would be five yeah probably okay all right well that's a bit more

01:32:08.880 fair so then why why if if that's the assessment of what you think other people would rate you

01:32:15.200 why is there such a large discrepancy because i recently went through a lot and i used to feel

01:32:20.880 really ugly and disgusting and now that i don't feel that way i'm like i'm cute like i'm a 10 i

01:32:27.280 don't care so i don't think this has anything well the ratings per se don't necessarily have any sort

01:32:32.560 of a testament to your your self-esteem and your confidence you can be perfectly confident and also

01:32:38.800 be realistic on your your physical appearance yeah i feel like i'm doing both you know confident and

01:32:45.200 being realistic on my own view of myself other people's views that's different but me personally

01:32:50.000 that's how i see myself i think you're a 10. thanks i think you two are too and you're just scared to

01:32:55.120 say it because you don't want to sound cocky no it has nothing to do with i genuinely know i'm not a

01:32:59.760 10 and i'm okay with that i'm 32 years old what makes the person a 10. why don't the most beautiful

01:33:04.240 woman in the world is it they're not in america okay they're in different countries i'm just not

01:33:09.040 unrealistic i'm i've always been a realist it's i just know it isn't it i'm not i don't think there's any

01:33:13.520 10s yeah and beauty beauty tends to operate on a bell curve yeah and reading women by the looks

01:33:19.040 it's just it's best if you don't talk when i'm talking so if it operates on a bell curve generally

01:33:24.560 the majority of the population 80 to 90 percent of the population will generally sit between the

01:33:29.520 four and seven type mark but then on the very outskirts you've got your nines and tens which is

01:33:34.800 when hallie berry was most beautiful woman in the world for example she might have been something

01:33:38.640 like a 10 i think that rihanna in ponder replay back in the day was a 10 that was my childhood

01:33:42.720 crush but yeah these these are what tens are a little big on that one i don't know don't don't

01:33:48.880 don't ruin it for me we'll say nine but yeah generally it's measured on a scale as well you

01:33:54.240 know symmetry of the face and the shape of the eyes and the shape of the jaw and then obviously

01:33:59.040 bottle like like most women do not even have the ability to be a 10 even if they got surgery

01:34:04.160 so because they have to have a big butt or just a perfect butt well they'd probably have a pretty

01:34:09.680 nice butt if they can like a juicy butt well if yeah i mean i think i think on the universal

01:34:15.280 standards it would probably be more of like a cute butt a cute butt yeah yeah

01:34:21.120 think victoria's secret supermodels i gotcha i think how cute their bums are so do they have to be

01:34:24.800 really skinny and like barf all the time i would say that they would have to have a low body fat

01:34:28.640 percentage okay like they have to be lean yeah lean definitely definitely but if they're anorexic

01:34:33.600 then that's not attractive obviously but if they keep themselves in good shape and if they look

01:34:37.760 healthy yeah if they look you know virile and feminine and absolutely have you ever watched

01:34:43.120 the victoria's secret documentary no but i definitely should you definitely should it's

01:34:47.440 some cute bums in there no you should see what the girls have to go through no i haven't i can't yeah

01:34:52.480 right okay um you risk it for greatness i mean as far as the whole 10 thing uh not gonna rate you

01:34:57.520 but you're not a 10. well that's how you feel like i said it's about how i feel i don't know how

01:35:04.560 you guys see me but i see me better than that yeah but so where does and the reason i push back on

01:35:09.200 this on the world view where does your delusion start interfering with your ability to find a

01:35:16.160 partner um well i wasn't ever really looking for a partner whenever i went single last year i was with

01:35:22.080 two people consistently for 15 years so i just wanted to be single you were with two people not

01:35:28.160 together at the same time so from 16 to 20 i was with someone for four years and from 20 to 30 i was

01:35:34.000 with someone for 10. okay yeah all right but i won't really call it a delusion it's just how i see

01:35:40.000 myself i see myself in a confident positive light now okay i like it i have a question for you if i if

01:35:44.960 i sat here can i ask you i mean i'm actually fine for you to rate me do you think i'm a 10

01:35:51.840 in my personal opinion no that's totally fine i don't think i'm a 10 either but so

01:35:58.480 you you i'm trying to remember where i was going so but you say you're a 10 essentially is saying

01:36:06.080 that you have nothing about yourself that you can improve on uh physical i mean i would probably get

01:36:12.160 bigger boobs maybe a smaller nose but i am like indian so so we're down to a nine

01:36:18.240 we're down to a nine maybe now well i mean if you want to if you want to chop it down like that yeah

01:36:28.720 well it's interesting though it's like do you think all women are tens um it depends on how they

01:36:34.160 see themselves i don't personally but that's my opinion like of course we also why people are

01:36:39.760 attractive wait but so actually i don't know if that was the right call but um yeah now you need

01:36:48.960 to move it now you got to move it back okay well so why why are you able to hold the position that

01:36:55.040 your own self-assessment of yourself is you're a 10 but you just don't blanket give every single woman

01:37:00.880 like why are you why are you able to analyze a woman's face and determine well she's not a 10

01:37:05.360 she's a nine or eight but when it comes to your own self-perception it's it's a 10 because it's

01:37:10.080 how you see people opinions are like assholes everyone has one yeah no but it seems to me

01:37:15.360 that you can do an analysis of someone's attractiveness attractiveness and beauty you're

01:37:20.480 able to do it with me for example you said you said i was i think you said five or whatever i didn't

01:37:24.720 get a number oh you didn't give a number but you said i'm not a 10 right so you're able to assess that

01:37:28.080 i'm not a 10 you're uh it sounds like you're able to assess other women aren't a 10 so if you're

01:37:34.320 able to make determinations based on how their face looks their body looks why are you incapable

01:37:39.360 of doing that for yourself i think i do am i a 10 do you think i am you're like a 15 you are fine girl

01:37:48.880 you're fine okay also just from the male perspective as well i know that girls often do this to say i'm

01:37:57.360 confident i'm confident in myself i'm a 10 it's very unattractive from a guy's perspective and just

01:38:02.800 from from my perspective for example generally i think that one of the most attractive things

01:38:08.240 about a woman is when she knows how to project love outwards and when you have this constant

01:38:12.160 self-aggrandizement of i'm a 10 i'm this i'm that and it's this self-centeredness that's actually quite

01:38:16.880 unattractive because we really like a woman who knows how to nurture and love and give and give

01:38:22.560 rather than just focusing on the self too much well that makes sense whenever someone's being cocky about

01:38:27.280 it versus being like humble or you know just being genuinely honest how they feel yeah humility is

01:38:33.280 an important quality well she was asked too yeah well modesty is what would she rate herself is uh

01:38:38.560 related to femininity i was asked and i was genuine about my honest opinion okay so do you think you're

01:38:47.280 on par with the most beautiful women in the world then no because the most beautiful women in the world

01:38:52.000 on a scale of one to ten are like 30s 50s they passed the scale i mean that's not really how math

01:38:56.560 works so on a scale of one to ten ten would be absolute max max so you're a 30 is literally the

01:39:03.680 time i'm not a 30. like if on a scale one to ten i'm down on a scale one to ten she's like if anybody

01:39:09.520 wanted a textbook definition of what it means to move the goal posts yeah so it has to be one to ten

01:39:14.720 only one to ten only move the whole field ten is maximum most beautiful woman you've ever seen in your

01:39:19.600 life one hundred percentile okay well that's not the way i was looking at it so even 30 out of 30 is

01:39:25.680 also 30 out of 30 is a little high okay i can understand how it seems the same because it's on

01:39:34.080 one to ten but i see it as there's certain people that pass that ten but it's just literally impossible

01:39:40.240 because i never looked at it that way impossible to pass yeah 15 10 10 10 like when people are like

01:39:45.760 oh yeah 110 that genuinely doesn't exist you can know 100 is like the full percentage of something

01:39:53.200 that you can achieve yeah does that make sense yeah so 30 out of 30 would essentially be the exact same

01:39:59.200 as 10 out of 10. yeah but not the way i look at it because like i said i think certain people can

01:40:06.640 fucking pass that like you're just so gorgeous okay if i know what you're saying it's just i just

01:40:14.560 don't i'm not i don't get with it it's just not like logic you don't get it's not like my thing

01:40:20.720 like i think people can absolutely be way more than the max that that's not literally doesn't make

01:40:26.800 any sense yeah that's erroneous logically no yeah and i know that so what okay so

01:40:35.040 i really just so logically logically no blank what if it's not logical what do you what is the

01:40:42.640 the term you're going to replace for logical opinion illogical opinionated

01:40:48.560 it's just it's an opinion that might that ain't logical to you but it makes sense in my

01:40:52.720 not an opinion can be based in logic and it can also be based off of non-logic look at me what is

01:40:58.560 non-logic what i'm saying so is what i'm saying obvious and you guys are trying to say it's not

01:41:04.960 logical that's not it's not logical we're not trying to say we are saying that but that's what i said

01:41:09.920 so then you're wrong and because if something's illogical that's the way i see it okay so then

01:41:14.240 you're just wrong and that's okay if you're saying i could be wrong but to me in my head i'm not wrong

01:41:18.640 it works for me what's what's two plus two four okay so can two plus two be eight no so why is

01:41:27.680 asking wait i have a question hold on i have a question okay so how would you feel if you didn't

01:41:32.960 have breakfast this morning i don't eat breakfast okay all right what do you mean engage with the

01:41:40.240 hypothetical uh last question on the rating thing do you all else being equal do you think you will be

01:41:46.400 more physically attractive in 10 years in what well so you're 31 right yeah so all else being equal do

01:41:52.640 you think you'll be more physically attractive in 10 years than you are now it's i think it's possible

01:41:57.920 because 10 years ago i was ugly as fuck so okay so you're i have 10 years maybe cute so 10 more years

01:42:04.640 might make me cuter or ugly okay so you're 31 so are you more physically attractive now than you were at

01:42:10.240 21 yes i think so yeah all else being equal what do you mean wait so well i mean i'm just curious

01:42:17.440 like so 10 years has passed you were 21 you're saying you're more attractive now at 31 than you

01:42:22.000 were at 21 what's changed to make you more attractive now i gained weight i was accidentally

01:42:28.000 anorexic from depression so that played a big factor let's assume let's assume you hadn't been

01:42:32.240 anorexic when you were 21 would you have been more attractive back then no because i didn't know how

01:42:36.400 how to take care of myself my skin my hair okay so but i i said all else being equal so let's assume

01:42:42.640 you were able to do all those things would you have been more physically attractive at 21 than you are

01:42:46.320 now no no my face what so what's different something about like your face got younger my face changed i

01:42:54.080 don't know what it was but even people that's known me my whole life are like how are you looking

01:42:58.720 younger now how many do you have like old photos of you when you were uh you don't pull them up

01:43:03.360 they're so bad hold on let me i'm gonna see like you can see i look you got tired and old and just

01:43:11.760 run down from when you're younger when i was in my 20s yeah did you party a lot no i was in a 10 year

01:43:19.680 relationship i was miserable well maybe the depression that got you looking older you know i really think

01:43:25.680 so what would you have rated yourself at 21 oh god negative five negative ten you really don't

01:43:31.280 like to stay in the field not in the region see see this is how i think though that's just the way

01:43:37.040 i'm illogical to you guys but it makes sense to me it makes sense to me too at least someone gets it

01:43:43.920 holy shit donated 200 oh it's fucking modest to karma stop speaking lies modesty is related to

01:43:51.280 heat him as not femininity oh my god question for the panel what is a women dude i have not seen

01:43:57.440 this guy in months he's back hold on modest to karma i'm a legend you're a legend bro good to see

01:44:05.200 you back in the chat hold on he's a brave and a decent man he's a pioneer dude welcome back bro send

01:44:11.840 me a dm on instagram man i missed you dude um this guy dropped so many truth bombs he's a legend

01:44:18.240 what we'll do is question really quick yeah what is uh you know it's important you know we're talking

01:44:23.440 about dating there's men there's women i think it's important you know in 2024 to gotta know you

01:44:28.960 know yeah what we're talking about here what's a woman what is a woman definitely starting with you

01:44:33.520 what i think women what got the xy chromosome isn't that one well that would that would be a male

01:44:39.840 well the other one then the other i was gonna say that's why i was questioning i was like which one is

01:44:43.760 it i was gonna say a vagina a woman is a vagina good answer well put straight to the point i guess

01:44:53.440 good answer that's actually the most sexist thing somebody's ever said on the podcast a woman is

01:44:59.280 simply a vagina yeah she's not anything are you a feminist she's not now you're getting canceled

01:45:05.920 i don't know what i am this is the most misogynistic statement i've ever heard

01:45:10.800 women are so much more than that how dare you you misogynist

01:45:18.160 women are so much okay um what is a woman i can't believe we're talking about this but a woman is

01:45:23.760 born a woman like plain and simple you can't use the word woman that's circular definition so what would

01:45:29.200 you a human female yeah you mean female yeah yeah born a female yeah a human female

01:45:36.400 a lady who can reproduce yeah have a baby grow a baby but i'm sure you would agree that even women

01:45:44.080 who are infertile are still yeah of the nature of that okay an adult human female with xx chromosomes

01:45:51.920 and reproductive organs of a yeah yep i echo the exact same sentiment uh liam yeah i don't know what

01:45:57.760 those letters mean but i agree with that sorry we didn't all go to harvard oh please i didn't

01:46:03.680 no no that was a perfect definition yeah i'll stick with that okay yo modest hakama dude good to see

01:46:10.000 you in the chat man it's been a minute uh thank you for the message appreciate it we have a couple chats

01:46:13.760 here we have cherry popped a little backtracking brian would you be with a woman who doesn't like

01:46:22.400 to give bj question does she still do it um because i suppose you could dislike you could

01:46:29.920 dislike it and still begrudgingly do it i'd prefer that it's not begrudging i don't like begrudging bjs

01:46:38.720 you can dislike it and do it is this from personal experience brian oh i've probably received one or

01:46:43.920 two begrudging bjs she comes in angry eyebrows look every i probably every guy's gotten the begrudging bj

01:46:49.760 one anyways but um uh just okay so to answer the question she doesn't like to give them so yeah i

01:46:57.520 mean let's just say she doesn't give them uh yeah i i would i mean it would be better if she did though

01:47:05.600 it would be better if she did but uh it wouldn't be a hundred percent a deal breaker but obviously

01:47:10.000 preference for a woman that s is the d so hope that answers your question thank you appreciate it we have

01:47:16.800 desert joe yep my bad with confusing alex and priya mia colpa also non-consensual genital mutilation as

01:47:25.040 a cultural influence should end get off your righteous indignation it's wrong regardless of

01:47:30.880 gender from desert joe thank you man appreciate it and then of course we have the legend himself

01:47:38.080 david treziak the only tens i've ever met in sb area are ryan gosling's au pairs on carp carpenteria

01:47:46.160 state beach oh are you local man uh how many of the guests have been to burning man ursula got a tan

01:47:52.960 this cast is hilarious who's ursula maddie's ursula

01:47:58.080 that's right i remember yeah i have not been to burning man but i've always wanted to

01:48:09.120 same there you go there you go all right cool uh wait where were we we were talking about rating

01:48:17.200 uh okay oh yeah maybe wait i'm looking at your instagram here i'm seeing how far back this

01:48:22.160 shit goes hold on one sec because because you say you were less so you're 31 you say you're less

01:48:28.320 attractive when you were this only goes back to 2019 so that's only five years and how about

01:48:35.120 facebook how about tag do you have any photos of yourself when you're like 21 yeah but they're

01:48:40.800 in my phone you want can you send them to the whatever instagram page yeah one at a time

01:48:46.400 what's your phone uh joe can grab it for you it's got the case on it that says queen

01:48:50.560 because she's a queen why is that not surprising

01:48:56.800 he's got it for you back there uh send them one at a time because we're on desktop so we can't get

01:49:02.000 receive multiple messages at a time um going back to the disagreement thing anybody else here have

01:49:07.600 any disagreements on anything they want to i know you guys see all the clips with jake here him just

01:49:14.160 being taught toxic masculinity if you guys want to there's no such thing as talks i'm being facetious

01:49:20.560 you are let me have it guys if you have any any disagreements i'm a right-wing extremist on the

01:49:25.760 internet so if you have any problems with right-wing extremists yeah definitely is that what you guys

01:49:29.200 would call the red pill any no the red pill is something else any disagreements from anybody

01:49:35.280 otherwise i can just get into my pre-show notes anybody i have an actual question um and i don't agree

01:49:48.320 with this but i'm hey guys don't worry about the sidebar conversation hey stop stop just send them

01:49:53.280 and then i'm curious to men what you feel about women who consume marijuana what does that is that

01:50:00.640 is that instant instant disqualification instant disqualification yeah i mean for for me uh it's not

01:50:08.720 like it depends on the frequency how much it's not a hundred percent the deal breaker but if she's like

01:50:15.040 can't function without it but if it's like an occasional thing it wouldn't be a deal breaker

01:50:19.280 but i would have a preference for a girl like i don't drink really either occasionally i'll have

01:50:23.360 like a glass of wine but i don't go out to bars i don't i don't drink more than one or two drinks max

01:50:29.600 and it's super rare um i'll maybe drink two three times a year and when i do like one drink two drinks

01:50:36.320 max i don't like to drink so i want that reciprocity in the partner so when it comes to marijuana if

01:50:41.920 occasionally she smokes and if it doesn't interfere with her but some people like it just totally

01:50:47.520 blast their personality they're like uh you can perceive that they're not fucked up and also

01:50:54.800 actually i've i don't think i've actually admitted this um when it comes to the like having a bad

01:50:59.600 experience i actually had uh bad experiences i when i was in high school i smoked a couple times

01:51:05.920 the first few times were fine but i don't know if it was the strain or if i smoked too much

01:51:09.760 but i actually had full-blown uh like a bad trip on it like had uh i had hallucinations on on just

01:51:17.520 weed and it was probably spice i don't know who knows but literally like the most terrifying thing

01:51:25.440 i've ever had started actually getting panic attacks after that for a period of time it had

01:51:30.800 i had a panic attack it was like one of the most terrifying things in my life i actually do think

01:51:34.960 it led me down on a like from from that point on it was like a total like uh post and pre like

01:51:43.200 in terms of anxiety like it's pretty much i i do think i mean i have my anxiety pretty decently under

01:51:48.560 i don't have panic attacks anymore but i used to um and i so i don't have that anymore but i actually do

01:51:55.840 think it's given me pretty much lifelong anxiety i think that's a very popular misconception when it

01:52:00.960 comes to marijuana is that people think that it actually caught like decompresses stress when

01:52:06.800 it actually increases stress i mean maybe the medical professional it depends on the time and

01:52:10.160 all that person it really is both different people can i anecdotally back you up on that yeah yeah

01:52:15.200 because literally the exact same as me i smoked it when i was 17 had a panic attack

01:52:19.840 hated it and then i came to california one of my contractors gave me this chocolate bar and he goes

01:52:25.680 oh it's it's like what is it delta eight or something like that and i don't know anything

01:52:30.400 about words so i ate this chocolate bar on the way to the airport you're supposed to have one square

01:52:34.400 and i thought you're supposed to eat the whole bar so i ate this massive chocolate bar and then you

01:52:39.600 know how tsa yells at you it's like take your shoes off and i've had three thousand milligrams of

01:52:44.720 this poison and i'm cautiously passing the shoe like a bomb and i'm like sorry sir and he's like what's

01:52:50.160 wrong with you like everything's waving i called my assistant i said what the did i eat yeah she

01:52:56.080 goes how much is in i said three thousand she goes and i said is that bad she goes no she goes no she

01:53:01.280 goes get on the plane i said no no need to go to hospital so i had to grab you know those little

01:53:06.320 railings and i was grabbing myself in business class and they looked at me like i'm a complete spaz and

01:53:12.960 i'm so yeah they're the only two times i've had it yeah i'm never having it again for that reason

01:53:17.520 interesting because i know someone over here said someone over here said was that mushrooms

01:53:22.080 no no that that can happen from marijuana that's what i think more people need to talk

01:53:26.800 maybe you should read the instructions before you're consuming the whole of us went to harvard

01:53:30.160 like you read the instructions baby you're supposed to take the whole thing well like brian

01:53:35.120 said even i mean it doesn't you don't have to be consuming massive massive amounts of delta eight

01:53:40.400 no i don't suggest that i suggest getting your medical license and going to see a medical

01:53:44.480 doctor to see what you should be dosed and then going to the doctor and the pharmacy and then

01:53:50.240 getting the marijuana it's irrelevant it's everybody's body composition can react in a

01:53:54.640 different way and then you can put you in it then you just don't do it again yeah i mean that's um

01:53:59.520 i mean i'm i'm pretty glad that didn't happen no but i do hear like you can it can and this is

01:54:08.080 absolutely studied that it can people who wouldn't otherwise end up schizophrenic yeah it'll trigger

01:54:15.200 yes and you're pretty much yes you're going to be on an anti-psychotic with a mood stabilizer for

01:54:20.480 the rest of your life just to be back to your baseline so like this idea i actually think i mean

01:54:26.240 uh at least from my own experience in that you know it's funny i've told a lot of people the same

01:54:30.000 thing i tried it when i was young had this terrible terrible experience with it and i stopped using it

01:54:36.400 it and they a lot of people tell me they're like i had the a lot of people tell me i had the same

01:54:41.520 thing i had a panic attack it's caused me anxiety long-lasting anxiety for a lot of people and so i

01:54:47.200 mean my own personal recommendation to anybody watching um some people it's it can be fairly benign

01:54:52.720 but for other people uh for me it caused this kind of moderate to severe thing and for some people

01:54:59.280 it can absolutely destroy your life with the it can trigger schizophrenia so i i think it's true

01:55:06.160 i've known three people that have been sectioned and i've gone into the mental hospital and they're

01:55:11.280 looking at like the trees and their eyes going back and forth it became personal to me my um brother

01:55:16.320 my brother-in-law just suffered the same thing and he will forever be on an anti-psychotic and a

01:55:20.480 mood stabilizer because of it yes damn yeah i know personally for me smoking weed is helped me get out of

01:55:26.240 being like accidentally anorexic due to the anxiety and depression like it was chronic and if it weren't

01:55:32.000 for that i would have just literally blown away in the wind like that's the only reason i was able

01:55:36.240 to eat as little as i could back then it sucked i would just caution it bringing it back to dating

01:55:41.600 that you know that is a not that is a chance you know you could if you have a partner that smokes

01:55:45.920 heavily or consumes marijuana heavily that can that's just something to think about long term yeah i

01:55:51.120 mean i definitely prefer a partner who's sober you know so yeah whether that's drinking or

01:55:57.360 weed or other kinds of drugs wait we're uh where were we were we on something i forgot we're gonna

01:56:02.800 look at her photos oh i couldn't i don't think there were any other disagreements and oh you sent them

01:56:09.760 how do you know how old they are like you're 21 you think or i would have to look through so

01:56:15.280 the last one i sent you was about 12 years ago the one before last was probably 10 years ago the one

01:56:22.240 before that was probably seven and then the first one i sent you i would say is about five years ago

01:56:28.000 let me just before you pull those up so early to mid 20s all of them basically yeah 20 to 25.

01:56:34.960 oh wait did you take screenshots of them yeah why couldn't you have just sent wait you took screenshots of

01:56:40.400 the photos and then sent the screenshots yeah because i went through my facebook instead of

01:56:43.920 like going through my thousands of photos in my oh i see okay it was quicker i'm looking at these i

01:56:50.320 don't know how useful they're going to be to be honest but i don't know it's probably not even worth

01:56:55.680 it but uh they're awful they look like myspace photo no it's not that you it's just like those are

01:57:01.920 quality of the photos my testing too yeah yeah yeah we're we're gonna we'll skip on that

01:57:07.680 ah i see i see we're gonna skip on that um okay so we're gonna go to let's see we're still like

01:57:12.720 from her flip phone uh okay we're gonna go back to victoria here oh you something victoria you

01:57:22.080 disagree on you said you have a lot of the same opinions as the host but i do disagree with he how

01:57:27.920 he called that one girl a degenerate for being an only fans model i guess it's just like that is

01:57:35.520 degenerate i know well stand strong she doesn't like the way i said it yeah i didn't like the way

01:57:42.160 you said it i didn't like okay i know i know what you're referencing so you're you're referencing the

01:57:47.200 tick tock brain uh swaying back and forth uh you were so tamagotchi girl yeah oh yeah i watched that

01:57:56.720 i think this is kind of like gaslight this is a gaslighting thing that people do though so like

01:58:02.160 women will like push and push and push and push and push a man and when he has even the slightest

01:58:07.200 reaction if he raises his tone if you frustrate him to no end and he starts getting frustrated

01:58:13.840 they're gonna turn that around on you and say that you're the abuser even though you've been

01:58:18.320 poking and prodding him for hours that's actually a term it's called reactive abuse it's like that

01:58:24.320 people narcissists especially are good for that but it's like there's this there's this expectation

01:58:29.200 that me as the host i'm just supposed to just tolerate like like just terrible behavior from

01:58:35.600 some of the panelists and just totally let it slide and not try to check them and just not get

01:58:40.320 frustrated by like the continuous uh some people just come on here and are belligerent and just like

01:58:48.080 don't listen and blah blah so yeah listen i get frustrated i could be more stoic in that girl's

01:58:54.240 case though i will say one thing she didn't know she was coming on the podcast though what are you

01:58:59.200 talking about the girl that got kicked out from the tamagotchi thing no well she was just she was

01:59:05.760 being rude the entire show she's being rude the entire show but she came on to troll initially

01:59:10.960 so there's two issues there that a lot of people don't like with the tamagotchi kickoff

01:59:14.800 yeah i'm sorry that's the one i thought you were talking about yeah yeah um

01:59:20.720 i just know water no cool nobody cares um it's like a little device thank you for sharing that's

01:59:26.960 cool yeah okay i know what you're talking about yeah so like she came on and even though she was

01:59:32.960 providing instructions to not be on any on a cell phone and the the spirit of that instruction is

01:59:39.680 don't be on a device so that you're not distracting and being just and distracted so

01:59:45.520 immediately once i start the intro she takes it out so this was something that was pre-planned

01:59:50.160 so it was like an intentional sort of sabotage she was doing so not only is she breaking the rule but

01:59:55.280 she's intentionally trolling so then i have to like check her and i give her like the most milk toast like

02:00:01.840 dad talk like hey don't do that blah blah blah and people just can't handle somebody like having to

02:00:08.640 discipline somebody else but her i guess her you know she's she's trolling but people wanted to

02:00:14.400 take it like it was this serious thing um but then later on the conversation she said that the

02:00:20.160 she was bored on the show and then and then i was like okay you're bored so make anyways so she's being

02:00:25.760 rude disrespectful the entire show um and then i was like look you've been rude you've done all these

02:00:31.920 things i kicked her off and then as she was getting kicked off she was like good luck with your dead

02:00:38.160 ass podcast bro and then like so so my response to that is like how are you going to and you know

02:00:47.520 not to toot my own horn here i think i have a decent platform i think i have a successful show

02:00:52.160 so it's like how are you going to like you're a nobody who has an only fans how are you going to be

02:00:57.920 like you're you've got like your dead ass podcast i'm like you do only fans you fucking degenerate

02:01:06.480 that's what i said yeah so i actually don't like i i if only fans girls come on in good faith i'm not

02:01:14.320 going to be like you're fucking degenerate you're a piece of shit because you do only fans no but if

02:01:18.480 you insult my podcast then it's tit for tat i'm gonna be like well shut the fuck up you're a fucking

02:01:23.600 degenerate who does only fans nobody gives a fuck about you i think that's very eloquently put all

02:01:29.200 right you know even with all the cursing and everything thank you no look i mean i'm i'm

02:01:35.440 actually i typically if someone comes on and they conduct themselves respectfully and

02:01:41.600 i typically almost always will return that respect but if you come on and you're trolling off the bat

02:01:47.440 and you're gonna uh you know sit there and call the podcast boring and be i don't know if she was

02:01:52.320 even on drugs she was swaying back and forth like this she was being rude disrespectful the whole show

02:01:57.920 i a lot of people think i'm a pushover so if i give you so i'm if you're i'll go tit for tat

02:02:03.440 i'll you know she's gonna be rude i'll be rude back so people it's weird there's this expectation

02:02:09.280 that if somebody's rude to you you just have to take take it it's like normally i just try to ignore it but

02:02:15.520 somebody crosses a threshold when it comes to rudeness i'll just be rude back to the person

02:02:20.320 and i think that's valid so but shizzle yeah yeah and she was definitely and she was a degenerate

02:02:27.760 in other ways than just the fact that she had an only fans i guess she was an absolute degenerate

02:02:33.280 i guess i felt like you were just the way you said it made it sound like you were calling all

02:02:37.840 all of your guests essentially who do only fans degenerates that is degenerate behavior i mean it

02:02:43.520 i'd say the behavior is degenerate but not the person themselves i think you have to kind of

02:02:47.760 we have to define what we mean by degenerate as well though if you really want to have a problem

02:02:50.880 with it so degenerate would but would sort of be the opposite of generating so not only when we're

02:02:56.960 talking about generating we're talking about building things creating things being productive

02:03:01.360 and generally that falls within the bounds of a healthy society so when we look at a healthy society

02:03:06.800 only fans is something that is degenerating our healthy society so if you want to call something

02:03:11.440 degenerate it's really toxic actually yeah so i'd say that's definition definitionally degenerate

02:03:17.600 behavior actually all porn is it's really bad for your brain but but actually i mean the girls who

02:03:23.840 we have on the show who do do of or who are involved in s work i actually don't really make it a habit to

02:03:30.480 ever really give them much pushback or even criticism for what they do from i might for example when it comes

02:03:36.880 to date like from a dating angle i might say well if we're talking about it i might say well how's it

02:03:42.800 going to impact your dating prospects but i'm actually typically fairly respectful even to the

02:03:47.520 women who are engaged in sex work i'm not going to just be like you're a fucking

02:03:52.720 yo nemi thank you man thank you for the 20 gifted i'm not going to be like you're a piece of

02:03:57.120 of shit you're degenerate like i i really i don't think i've really ever done that so in that instance

02:04:04.800 though she insulted me and insulted her back so modest hikima donated two hundred dollars thank you

02:04:10.720 man bricks and thnx for the reaction after my sabbatical long one where you been congrats on

02:04:16.400 madison too happy to see growth for you too are girls bringing on bodyguards now or is that a boyfriend

02:04:23.520 trying to look tough l mfao first off he's a brave and a decent man he's a pioneer

02:04:30.720 whoa i think we need to have a do we what's your character

02:04:42.240 guys guys i i've brought on i have security now for the podcast because um listen you know we got

02:04:49.840 we got some ops there's ops so we got got security for shizzle

02:05:00.160 we need a backstory for uh for john open the origin story a little bit yeah are we gonna improv it yeah

02:05:05.200 go ahead i'm excited to hear this you got it

02:05:11.840 come on brian oh me yeah you were walking home one night and oh no so um

02:05:18.400 um so check check this out this is my good friend joe me and him like back a couple years ago we

02:05:23.280 were like camping right and he saved me from a brian you come up with something original i know i

02:05:29.760 fucking but i don't know that many okay he saved me from a honey badger okay you've used that before

02:05:35.040 he saved from a honey badger pack of coyotes it was a honey badger those things are fucking ruthless

02:05:41.040 all right so joe me and him are fucking kicking it in the tent right and he hears some squealing

02:05:45.120 like and then like he fucking he's like i got this brian fucking opens up opens up the tent and goes

02:05:52.240 out there and just like he you guys were sleeping in the same time he um he he's a kicker he kicks in

02:05:58.480 in football so he punted that shit 50 yards right joe punted it punted it dude it's probably that's

02:06:07.440 probably like a federal crime but it's all good punted that honey badger are there honey badgers

02:06:12.720 in california no and then also he saved me from it we were out surfing one day like at ring con it

02:06:18.000 was like triple overhead right and like joe's he was like getting tubes and shit and then like

02:06:23.440 a shirt but he like as he was paddling out he saw me he's like brian crikey he's australian now

02:06:31.440 he's he's actually australian we have three yeah he's like dude he's like brian a great white so

02:06:37.120 he's like he pals he pals up to me and he fucking just just just starts fucking up this shark just

02:06:43.920 fucking him up uppercut hook just fucks up the shark yeah just to stand and actually like he he

02:06:51.280 he was able to get a tooth from the shark and he wears it as a necklace yeah but it's not it's not

02:06:56.720 here right now so he goes he's good fighting against animals but what brings him here

02:07:02.320 some animals we did we didn't have a girl like had a raccoon that almost attacked us one time

02:07:06.960 didn't you save a raccoon in the pool the other day oh yeah there was a gopher yeah he saved a gopher

02:07:12.400 on the phone in real time actually yeah we were having a business call

02:07:17.280 because he takes my calls in the pool i take business

02:07:19.520 and then he saves beavers in real time so he's cutting deals over here and saving beavers over

02:07:24.960 there it wasn't a beaver it was a beaver no and literally i was in the pool i was talking to him

02:07:29.680 and then the gopher jumped in and i was like oh so i got the net and i

02:07:33.680 yeeted that out the pool i was there i could touch this whole story that was the best

02:07:39.040 no i swear this is that this is actually true yeah i swear in my life it's true he literally

02:07:43.600 goes i said so what do you think he goes at one second i was going to save this little beaver

02:07:50.560 a beaver would be crazy to save how do you take business calls in a pool and save beavers at the

02:07:56.000 same time it's actually quite remarkable i wasn't going to bring it up but he started telling his

02:08:00.240 shark origin story so yeah there's quite a size difference between badgers and beavers yeah that was

02:08:05.680 a good one no this is not made up the gopher he you heard me squeal on the phone i was like oh

02:08:10.320 god damn where the i saw this like thing like the gophers paddle like this they they do a little

02:08:17.360 doggy paddle and i was like oh they're actually really good swimmers but i was like

02:08:20.960 this guy's gonna drown so i get the net i get the net and i this thing probably has like um

02:08:28.160 like i could hear it drowning in the background too like it wasn't like enjoying the pool is what i'm

02:08:33.200 saying well it was it was doggy paddle i thought i thought they could like you were saying

02:08:37.280 help me i thought they could survive in water i got the net and i just

02:08:41.920 fucking what did he do ran away yeah i yeeted it no but what did he but did he did you see him run

02:08:46.720 off or well it was like i it was dark no no thank you or anything oh my god that computer came out of

02:08:54.160 nowhere dude holy fuck did you guys see that yeah it came out of the same way you saved that beaver

02:09:00.080 i know i saved a fucking beaver anyways um right back to dating talk um how did we get here uh oh

02:09:06.800 okay so let's see back to victoria's notes here uh you wait you're so are you currently going through

02:09:14.400 separation but you're trying to reconcile is that correct yeah okay and so uh let's see here uh you

02:09:23.440 have oh oh okay we got another thing here oh yeah another you said that you have a bone to pick with

02:09:27.920 the host now and since you said uh okay so i disagree completely on this take about promiscuous

02:09:33.440 women turning their life to god and how it's ridiculous that they decide to start waiting

02:09:38.000 until marriage and ask a man to wait even though they gave that gift to other men no problem i find

02:09:43.520 it almost odd to think that someone's self betterment is any is in any way ridiculous unfair

02:09:48.880 seeming maybe but ridiculous also what does he suggest for them to continue sleeping around with lots

02:09:54.880 of men now that that's ridiculous to me also i feel like deciding to wait until marriage despite

02:10:00.240 your body count will help weed out men who don't want to be married at all i believe does that accurately

02:10:07.200 state your position do you want to add anything else or no that accurately states it okay i feel that

02:10:13.440 you know if they're trying to better themselves and live live right by god sure there should be

02:10:19.120 nothing yeah well i mean so my my first thing just to preface this is that i do think obviously women

02:10:24.960 can change and be redeemed but men do not need to then disregard their baggage and marry them and i

02:10:33.840 think these two are compatible even from a christian worldview like you can be a christian and you can

02:10:40.800 believe that she can redeem herself that doesn't oblige you to have to date her and you can use her past

02:10:47.200 even if you're christian man as criteria for disqualifying her from a relationship i literally

02:10:53.840 was talking about that with my friend who was supposed to come and because i brought that up

02:10:58.560 that's why she did not come because her and um so i came here with two girls they're best friends

02:11:05.520 we're all from dallas yeah and um and then the other friend was just kept saying oh he just needs to

02:11:12.640 forgive forgive forgive forgive even if um he's christian he needs to forgive i'm like but that's

02:11:19.120 not what we're talking about we're talking about the body count and him not choosing to be with her

02:11:24.400 because of that number and she just kept saying well they both kept saying like oh it just should be

02:11:29.040 forgiven i'm like that's not the point that's somebody that's probably has a high body count you can

02:11:34.160 still forgive that but you're not then obligated to decept to to like disqualify that criteria from

02:11:40.960 it mattering and whether you decide to date that person or not and then she just kept saying like

02:11:44.720 that's so bad like why is he a christian if he's not choosing her um even with that high point yeah

02:11:52.000 well and that's why can you get them on can you tell them to just come on

02:11:56.000 are they sitting in the car down there or some no they're just wandering around but i tell them that

02:12:00.000 we got time tell them to come over it was such a heated conversation wait that's why they because

02:12:05.520 we you're one of your friends yeah she got cold feet last night yeah because because of that i brought

02:12:11.040 up the body count because i told um okay well so i mean it'd be good to actually present this argument

02:12:19.440 to her yeah but i mean if men are compelled to forgive women with high body count and we're obliged to

02:12:28.000 date them well then my counter argument would be women are compelled and obliged to date men who are

02:12:34.640 broke who are short who are not ambitious who aren't successful who are unattractive who are myriad of

02:12:41.200 things um so yeah i mean do you think would she would uh one of the girls is like a fitness girl right

02:12:51.520 um yeah i think she started building her account um primarily in the fitness industry so so is she

02:12:58.560 obliged to date anyone like she she has to date somebody is basically the argument you have to date

02:13:05.120 somebody um can you like what do you mean like are you saying like does she have to date well it sounds

02:13:12.160 like because again i'm i'm saying that you can be forgiven or redeemed uh you can turn your life

02:13:20.000 around but from a personal preference perspective both men and women have autonomy and they can

02:13:29.600 disqualify people for any myriad of reasons for being a partner you might not like their the way they

02:13:37.680 dress something as arbitrary as that you might not like that they could have a birthmark here and that

02:13:44.560 could be justification enough i think for anyone it might be a bit silly but uh i gave i tried to

02:13:50.720 reason from with them and they just they wouldn't understand they should come on the show are they

02:13:55.760 like i don't know is so i don't have instagram on my phone well i don't have my personal account my

02:14:02.480 phone's on my ipad so is the link on your story on the whatever account story yeah maybe it should be

02:14:10.800 um i wish i i can try calling them tell them to get on the show we'll talk about it yeah the fact

02:14:15.680 that they don't want to call the fact that they don't want to talk about it's a real red flag because

02:14:19.280 if you're confident about something and if you think that you've got the correct world view then

02:14:22.240 you should be able to come on and correct that yeah but this is the thing though the only time that

02:14:26.000 anyone ever gets berated for having standards it's what is when it's men trying to hold women

02:14:29.920 accountable for their previous indiscretions and bad behavior women will hold men accountable

02:14:34.960 to no end for all of the things that they lack and men should really be able to do the same thing

02:14:39.680 yeah exactly we just we just aren't really able to do that and then we get berated for

02:14:43.920 holding and i don't think that's in an inherently positive thing to have standards for the opposite sex

02:14:48.160 it's always the females with the high body counts that usually say things like that because

02:14:52.080 yeah that's facts your friends under the bus yeah i mean yeah i don't think uh i mean i it'd be i would

02:15:04.000 it'd be interesting to just ask her like what standards preferences and boundaries do you have a

02:15:09.680 partner for a partner that's a good question if she has any if she has any it's like well why are you

02:15:16.800 judging why are you disqualifying men and i would actually argue that her metrics are far more i i'm

02:15:26.160 just making assumptions here since she's not here i would actually argue that her standards boundaries

02:15:32.240 whatever are probably far more shallow yeah superficial and arbitrary than a woman's promise

02:15:40.320 past promiscuity yeah but didn't you say that um you like didn't you say that you prefer like

02:15:47.120 a certain girl though like wait what do you mean you said that you prefer like short girls and like

02:15:53.360 is he not allowed to have preferences yeah but i'm not making the argument but would you disqualify

02:15:58.480 girls if they weren't wait can you posture check would you date a tall girl too yeah i'll

02:16:03.760 date a girl who's even taller than me when it comes to height i have a preference for shorter

02:16:08.480 women okay but like for me height is i would happily date a woman who's she could be six seven

02:16:15.440 wouldn't be a deal breaker yeah whereas women have like a very stringent thing when it comes to height

02:16:20.320 whereas i'd argue most men don't care either way if they're short or if they're tall and actually it's

02:16:25.360 a more it's i think it's a reasonable standard if a woman doesn't want to marry a short guy then

02:16:28.880 that's completely fine but that's that's actually an immutable characteristic as well we can't help

02:16:32.960 that yeah you can help that you have sex with yeah i bet there's a bunch of i mean you said

02:16:36.720 they're christian right they're christian and i actually i have a podcast too but i'm not so

02:16:40.640 consistent on it what's it go give it a shout out your purpose within and the first like um episode i

02:16:46.960 did with my the two friends that i had at the time which they're no longer my friends because of this

02:16:51.920 episode um they literally they got so mad of how i titled everything that we talked about so we talked

02:17:00.800 about um body count um why do you want a man who makes over 100k and then something else so i titled

02:17:08.560 it um why should a man accept your high body count if you can't accept him making less than 100k

02:17:14.880 and because of that they just cut all ties with me but of course it's because they want a man who makes

02:17:21.040 way over 100k and again they also said he should just forgive my past of having a high body count well then

02:17:29.440 they should forgive perhaps his his past of not making the right uh educational and career moves

02:17:37.200 because perhaps he could have made different decisions in his youth that would have resulted

02:17:41.680 in him being a higher earner but he didn't make those choices and perhaps he's on a he's on a trajectory

02:17:47.680 that will never see him making a hundred thousand dollars well they ought to just forgive that yeah but

02:17:52.640 look i actually look as a woman if if it's your preference that you want to date a high earner i i

02:17:59.200 think that's fine i think some people can be delusional with it though in so far as you also have to think

02:18:04.800 well what does that man want because you know some a man who's a higher earner maybe he doesn't want

02:18:11.440 you um not you specifically but and so um i mean yeah yeah i think that um i think a lot of what ties into

02:18:22.560 how your friends are perceiving this is a very common stigma within like christian culture is

02:18:27.280 that you shouldn't judge people and but that's not that's not necessarily a christian standard

02:18:33.440 thou shall not judge lest be judged which means that you can't you shouldn't judge somebody if you

02:18:38.160 were engaging in that same behavior that you were judging but judgment is actually a very positive thing

02:18:43.520 in society in general and also in just um christian like christianity in general because

02:18:50.560 it helps hold people accountable to their actions but yeah i love that were there other things was

02:18:58.720 it the same girls that were coming on today or a different group of girls two different girls okay

02:19:02.880 so the conversation that you were having on on your podcast was uh well why should men men should

02:19:10.080 forgive women's past promiscuity but then you were also like well okay what are your standards so you

02:19:15.360 want a guy who makes over 100k a year right yeah so yeah were there other things like height um other

02:19:21.440 other things that they wanted in the man yeah they wanted men that were obviously taller um do you

02:19:27.200 agree with that so i literally looked at one of them and i was like so if a man was working at mcdonald's

02:19:32.640 and he treated you perfectly the way you wanted i would not date him and that's what she said too

02:19:37.440 fuck that and i literally said you cannot you can't even get you where are you to everything

02:19:43.120 can i ask where the hell what is he supposed to give me what is he supposed to give me if

02:19:47.360 he works at mcdonald's go and go get a better education and hold on a second hold on a second

02:19:53.680 so you're quite brazen yeah well looks like it um you're quite brazenly looks doesn't define

02:19:59.920 education it's best that your face stops moving so when you're when you're judging a man

02:20:04.960 what did he say what did you just say i said when i'm speaking stop talking okay good okay so when

02:20:11.600 you're judging a man quite brazenly and quite actually disrespectfully because of the income

02:20:16.160 that he earns perhaps he doesn't have an intellectual aptitude but he's a good person and he'd treat you

02:20:20.640 really well as somebody who is a prostitute what is your standard that makes you so much better than

02:20:25.360 him um i have like much more than just a prostitution as a job though like i said as somebody who is a

02:20:31.840 a prostitute what is your standard that makes you so much better than him so mcdonald's is worse than

02:20:36.400 being a prostitute yeah but i'm not a prostitute you have sex with people for money you're having

02:20:40.800 sex with 10 people at the same time for money as a prostitute what makes you better than that man

02:20:44.640 i'm not saying i'm better than them but i say i wouldn't date somebody like just like men

02:20:49.200 you scoffed at the idea of a man working at mcdonald's though yeah because i would not date

02:20:54.480 i would wonder why he's working at mcdonald's actually has a really high minimum wage no they

02:20:58.880 don't do you think that most they do now they don't they pay like what like almost 15 well i

02:21:04.320 think that's not a lot of money aren't they changing like the minimum wage for fast food

02:21:07.440 workers in california to like yeah it's like 20 that's like california though you live in california

02:21:12.960 no i don't i live in florida okay but yeah so the way you feel about the guy who works at mcdonald's

02:21:19.760 yeah that's the way men feel that's fine everybody can have their own you do that that

02:21:25.600 and that's totally fine their opinion would be more logical than mcdonald's definitely different

02:21:30.960 too yeah but did you want to continue on so you were saying like yeah so the first podcast um i

02:21:37.120 think another reason why they were mad is because when we were talking about it we first talked about

02:21:42.400 the body count and then we talked about uh men making less than 100k then we talked about something

02:21:47.120 else but when i edit it i edit it in the in the same title like why should a man accept your you

02:21:51.360 know et cetera that's fair yeah just being honest yeah they didn't like the title they didn't like

02:21:55.920 the title they asked you to change it they begged me to change it but we literally had meetings prior

02:22:01.200 like on how what we were going to talk about and um gosh what was i going to say um so one of them

02:22:06.640 she started saying that she wants a man that makes 100k but then she changed it and she's like actually

02:22:11.280 no he needs to make more than a 400k i'm like 400k what and i love that i was just it's sad to me

02:22:20.320 because there are so many good men out there who are just

02:22:25.920 400k is the one percent yeah right that's the one percent i believe that's above the one

02:22:30.080 percent what what do these girls do for example let's say you date an entrepreneur right who makes

02:22:34.560 a million dollars a year and he's making that money for two three years everything's great but

02:22:37.600 then he loses it all what do you think those girls would do that and it's a for real question

02:22:41.840 as an entrepreneur like yeah i'm not gonna you know but what would they do i'm something that we

02:22:45.520 think about as risk takers yeah yeah it's a legitimate question like do they bail when the

02:22:49.680 money dries or what happens that's a good question i would love to ask them that but i think i think

02:22:53.760 one of them would actually probably leave because the way she was she was so like she was so on getting

02:23:00.400 a man that makes over 100k i think she would actually leave because at that time she was an engineer

02:23:05.520 herself so she really just had her bar set way too high i feel like what if she leaves and then

02:23:11.920 and then he 10x's and he makes 50 million the next year right and i that's what i was telling them

02:23:16.080 that's what i was telling them like you can grow with your man for real there's uh and if it makes

02:23:20.720 you feel better the only two girlfriends that i had two five-year relationships both supported me

02:23:25.280 when i started each business each business went on to make seven figures i lost it all and but we

02:23:30.080 separated before that and then the second one was with me when i built it all back up again yeah

02:23:34.320 so it's like loyalty i think loyalty is what this whole market is missing to be honest and then

02:23:38.320 yeah just giving them a space to like to grow and giving them that peace and that security as well

02:23:44.000 because men need that that feeling as well and a lot of females are missing out on that kind of

02:23:48.640 relationship because they're so fixated on being in the winner circle yeah to me it's absolutely

02:23:55.840 psychotic for females who think like that i just it doesn't make sense because it's not logical at all

02:24:00.560 yeah what's your opinion on this if so if your friends were sitting here what what do you think

02:24:05.200 they would say if they were asked the question what they brought to the table to to be able to earn

02:24:11.200 a man like that i think i did i did ask him that um i think the one the main one that was talking i think

02:24:20.000 she she just kept saying um well i i'm an engineer i make over 100k that so i need a man who makes um about

02:24:27.360 the same about the same amount of income a year yeah i can't remember but then at the same time

02:24:34.480 that's really bizarre because first of all income for a woman is not generally something that men

02:24:41.600 particularly value right like i mean some men aspire to have a woman that is um driven by something of

02:24:49.520 course but their their income is not necessarily a a factor and that's why men date for them men

02:24:56.960 date down and women some females yeah some females just don't believe in that they just want they

02:25:02.720 feel like they're the prize um yeah and at the same time it is really funny because she says in the same

02:25:09.280 breath that she wants somebody that makes 400k or more but she makes 100k and wants somebody that

02:25:15.200 makes equivalent to that that's 4x you know what's hilarious like towards the end she's like

02:25:19.760 dating is just so hard i'm like well i i really wonder why yeah i really wonder why i'm curious

02:25:25.760 what her reason was for changing her answer from 100k to 400k was it simply did she say for like

02:25:32.720 luxurious reasons or did she want to have a lot of kids start a family with this person or what was the

02:25:38.720 reason i think you know i think toward when the conversation just got more heated um or she felt like more

02:25:44.400 more and you know like in the hot spot you know she just she just changed it she was like actually

02:25:48.080 you know what 400k interesting yeah you guys are from texas correct yes not born and raised i'm from

02:25:53.600 orlando okay but you guys live in texas currently these girls do as well so yeah but yeah interesting

02:25:57.920 they're they just moved here a year ago well not here but dallas yeah well theoretically you could make

02:26:04.400 you could have a pretty decent living on 200 grand a year in a lot of places in texas so that's very

02:26:10.320 interesting i don't know where you'd need oh yeah half a million dollars yeah but you're a

02:26:14.880 millionaire yeah i think that was the last time i would ever bring people on because i really like

02:26:20.240 them you know the first two girls that i had in my podcast and um it was i was just kind of sad and

02:26:25.440 shocked like wow you're really not going to talk to me because of things that we talked about for an

02:26:29.520 hour right but you've got to have people and you disagree with that's why this this works and that's

02:26:33.520 what i told them to push yourself to get more people that you don't agree with to be honest that's what we

02:26:37.840 were so when i when they were mad about the title i'm like this is a great opportunity to show people

02:26:44.480 or tell people what you think about certain topics and stuff like that but a lot of people just can't

02:26:49.280 take being the one uh being like yelled at criticized yeah yeah it's very interesting if this is what

02:26:55.920 you're doing for content though i would say don't back off yeah and don't get self-conscious because

02:27:00.080 like i'm sure brian will be able to tell you you'd be able to say as well you cannot please everyone

02:27:04.480 and half of my videos are literally titled like feminist destroyed with facts and logic so so i

02:27:09.680 mean it it's it's you know it you're meant to draw in an audience and there is an element of click

02:27:15.840 bait and there is an element of drama that you have to have in your podcast or else you're just vanilla

02:27:19.200 and boring so yeah i i think like females they don't want to be submissive anymore because i'm very

02:27:24.000 submissive so i don't think they want to be submissive anymore because they see it as a sign of weakness

02:27:28.800 or they see it as um oh i can't be independent anymore which is not true at all like um i'm an

02:27:34.560 i'm an entrepreneur but i still want like the people in the back end are all men like i'm not

02:27:40.240 going to make a big decision without going to my mentors but some of these females don't they're

02:27:44.800 like i don't need that i can just make those decisions and that and i find that women in general

02:27:49.760 tend to be very um sensitive to criticism whereas men tend to be far more accepting yes when it comes to

02:27:56.240 being criticized and um i mean you take it with a pinch of salt but you also take it in the sense

02:28:01.840 to like work on yourself and better yourself and women have a really really difficult time doing

02:28:05.280 that i find a lot of the times yeah yeah can i ask a question around the table would you guys date

02:28:10.720 somebody who makes less than 100k would you marry somebody who makes less than 100k i would if they

02:28:15.360 love me yeah yes yeah i would live under a bridge with someone who respects me and loves me yeah thanks

02:28:21.280 mm-hmm my husband makes under 100k yeah yeah i would of course in pennsylvania that's i mean

02:28:28.000 lancaster pennsylvania a hundred thousand dollars are you kidding me like that is a lot of money

02:28:32.400 yeah yeah yeah i would i would add a ham sandwich support me on my dreams i would add a legitimate

02:28:38.240 ham sandwich yeah so when you said before that you uh didn't like you wouldn't you were laughing at

02:28:42.640 the guy who works at mcdonald's like what why why that reaction i don't think that they make

02:28:47.200 a hundred thousand dollars no no i'm saying because obviously he he makes less and you were

02:28:50.720 laughing oh i would never get him walking what could he possibly give me is for like college

02:28:54.080 students like people that they're just starting out what if he has a side hustle a side hustle

02:28:58.560 what if he has a side hustle that's like putting like things in into the thing if his main thing

02:29:03.360 was like working at mcdonald's putting things into the thing but i date older men though that's

02:29:08.400 the thing like yeah just older men mcdonald's i don't think that like 45 year old but if he was

02:29:14.400 working to support his startup and then he made him a billionaire like he kind of you know what

02:29:18.320 i mean like realistically thinking like girlfriend yeah but it's like i mean unrealistically thinking

02:29:23.920 like if he loves you he cares for you he respects you probably not if he told me he worked at mcdonald's

02:29:29.360 i'd probably not be interested i'd want him to be like somewhere in his life that's way more

02:29:34.480 progress than mcdonald's so why don't you have that for yourself because usually we're talking about

02:29:39.200 like what i want not what other people want so we're talking about what you want so then we also have to

02:29:43.040 talk about what you bring to the table as well i'm not gonna lie what would be that what would

02:29:46.400 be those things main things um getting out of um sugaring yeah cool and yeah and i'm working on

02:29:53.360 that i think he's what you bring to the table yeah getting out of prostitution isn't exactly what

02:29:58.720 you bring to the table yeah that's what you need to work on okay so what do i need to work on

02:30:06.000 so like if someone asked me that i would say i bring peace i bring

02:30:09.200 i want to make him feel comfortable i want to give him that yeah i'm very empathetic um i care

02:30:16.880 about other people i think that um in like a social setting i'm fun to be around you just laughed at

02:30:24.080 men who work at mcdonald's are you but like i don't think i don't you also you also sleep with

02:30:28.640 other people's husbands i don't yeah i don't think that really aligns with anything don't get me started

02:30:34.160 that's that's because they're in sexless marriages so they don't get their dick sucks so you have zero

02:30:39.360 regard for that that woman i don't care no but you then in the same breath said that you were

02:30:44.000 empathetic that's not i'm empathetic to certain things sexless marriage isn't needed yeah so this

02:30:49.600 is this is what annoys me maybe they shouldn't cheat on their like maybe you shouldn't help them cheat

02:30:54.000 on their wives i don't care back to the back to the point though i mean this is what kind of annoys

02:30:58.560 annoys me though we've got like a actually a good panel tonight of ladies who actually have a much

02:31:01.920 better understanding but generally this is the attitude when it comes to guys who earn less than

02:31:06.800 100k and it's to do with social media and it's to do with the male influencers as well who promote

02:31:11.760 having to have you know 100 million dollars just to get by and it's just not the reality of things

02:31:16.160 most men are out there working extremely hard contributing to society and building things

02:31:20.800 i'm very lucky in the sense that i actually get to have a youtube channel where i can earn a lot

02:31:24.480 of money okay my youtube channel i'm talking if my youtube channel goes away tomorrow like that

02:31:29.360 people will watch some other shit doesn't even matter but these guys if they stop building the

02:31:33.760 structure tomorrow all of a sudden we've got half-built structures everywhere all of a sudden

02:31:36.960 you can't flush your toilet all of a sudden you can't have electricity and all of a sudden we can't

02:31:41.600 have protection from the police these are the people who literally build the world around you and

02:31:46.080 it's just like i absolutely detest that notion of people laughing at people who work with their hands

02:31:52.400 yeah i was just saying that i would never date somebody that works at mcdonald's just because that

02:31:56.960 somebody that i would date is going to be older and i would not want them to be working at mcdonald's

02:32:01.520 so you said that but i still but i still have like um time to like develop a career or whatever i'm

02:32:09.840 going to be when you find out that one of your clients is married you have no empathy to stop it

02:32:14.400 like hey no i can't no because usually they're in sexless marriages and it is not your job to fix

02:32:21.280 that that's the point yeah you're acting like all of the blame is on the husband and that you're this

02:32:27.200 victim i'm no i'm so uh i don't think there's a problem with it so let me give you examples so like

02:32:31.840 let's say let's say a man is hitting on me but it's uh coming off very disrespectful i'm not going to

02:32:39.440 like allow him to continuously disrespect me i'm going to remind him like hey listen i could be your

02:32:43.760 sister your daughter your your female cousin like this is not something you want to be doing well

02:32:48.640 sometimes the wives actually let them and then they say oh i just don't want to hear about it

02:32:54.240 or at least that's what they tell me so that's what i'm going off of yeah they're probably lying

02:32:58.640 i don't care that's what they're telling me so let me put you in a certain position here sure

02:33:05.120 if you were the wife of one of these i would never get married so i can't put myself in that

02:33:09.280 position hypothetical it's a hypothetical if i would ever get married okay just try yeah yeah

02:33:14.240 okay how how exactly i would feel like it's cheating like well mind mind-boggling concept

02:33:22.480 i do but like but that's the thing it's not i don't know it's not my point in my life where i

02:33:28.080 want to be married or that's not that has nothing to do with it or ever i think this is the problem

02:33:32.960 of today's society is like you can't take yourself and put yourself in somebody else's shoes i can't

02:33:37.840 no no wait you would but you wouldn't know let me just finish let me finish but i would still do it

02:33:41.360 i'm still talking um where i like say you have a wife and a husband who have children yeah maybe

02:33:47.280 they do have stuff to work on and maybe they don't and sometimes they're just too scared to

02:33:51.040 break up with their um their wife they're too scared because they have baggage like kids

02:33:55.520 or not baggage it's not to have children not like baggage but they have exactly not baggage but they

02:34:00.640 have like too much like it tied together i mean that's still no justification will not leave their

02:34:06.480 wife that's not justification for what happened in one of my arrangements where i knew he would

02:34:13.440 never leave his wife or kids and so like that's what made me start an only fans actually so he

02:34:18.960 should man up and be faithful to his wife and his family and act like the head of the household but

02:34:23.840 you shouldn't help them behave engage in this sort of behavior talk about this is there's a certain

02:34:30.160 moral code that people should live by talk about it's a generating society the breaking up of the

02:34:35.200 nuclear family that's your queen bee over here yeah do you respect men yeah i do respect them but

02:34:41.680 you don't respect women i mean the ones that are married i guess not hey any friends of hers who

02:34:47.200 are married you all better watch out right watch your girl i don't scoop it on my girlfriend's

02:34:52.560 friends but they're if your husband's random women that i don't care about probably not yeah

02:34:59.520 but she's how you tell your tell your man not to join seeking arrangements yeah i think that just

02:35:04.800 it comes back to the point before though that you know you've got you're laughing at guys who work

02:35:10.000 at mcdonald's and guys who don't earn much money what can they give me what well these guys are

02:35:13.360 actually the ones who are building the society that we all want to live in whilst you actually the

02:35:16.880 work that you do is actually you need to stop you need to stop interrupting people when they're

02:35:21.280 talking the work that you do and the industry that you're in is actually has a parasitical nature

02:35:25.920 to society that's why i'm putting it actually yeah so i mean that's just the that's just the point

02:35:31.120 that i want to get across that's how i want to be i want to be with only one person would you date

02:35:34.720 a man who's a i mean a man can be a prostitute right i mean there's men on seeking arrangements

02:35:39.680 i actually have all multiple multiple um arrangements and then yeah like i would date i want

02:35:47.040 to date one right now and but i want to go exclusive with him she's so funny

02:35:56.080 best time like i do like i want to transfer it into just being in a monogamous relationship

02:36:01.200 because before i was telling myself i was polyamorous because i was like having so many arrangements and

02:36:06.640 being like a sex worker and i think that it's not like the best decision to go into that so really not

02:36:12.960 if you if you got into that committed relationship that you want and you accidentally have a child or

02:36:17.520 let's say it's a daughter how would what would you teach her like what i would teach her not to do sex

02:36:22.160 work yeah i would teach her like not to do this and not to do an only fans either because why are you

02:36:28.320 justifying your own behavior well i'm not like this is all new to me um like within like quitting only

02:36:34.720 fans like if you look at the timeline of things like i just decided like less than two weeks ago that i

02:36:39.680 wanted to ultimately not be a sex worker and go into a monogamous relationship where i was like

02:36:45.520 going to break up with one of the dudes i was sleeping with and i still had sex with him so i

02:36:51.360 ruined like and then i told yeah the person that would your mom be proud of you if she saw this you

02:36:57.200 don't have to bring my mom into this so i i i can come if that is truly what your goal is and what you

02:37:02.800 are going to do i commend you for that but you in the same breath are trying to justify your own

02:37:07.440 behavior malicious behavior mind you saying that i don't really give a damn about uh these women

02:37:15.360 whose husbands i'm sleeping well that's that was to be like honestly i'm quitting i get that you're

02:37:20.560 quitting i get in the mindset like i yes that's what i thought yes but part of your mindset if you

02:37:26.240 were actually going to implement that change in your life it's going to have to be yes i don't was

02:37:30.320 wrong i do not advocate for this i don't feel it was wrong in the moment but do you now reflecting

02:37:35.920 back on it think it was wrong not that i was sleeping with the married guys no maybe she

02:37:40.880 will eventually interesting probably i don't know i don't know because i live like the swinger

02:37:46.800 lifestyle i think that we should be open with our sexuality and like be able to sleep with other

02:37:51.520 people and it not be so like tied to like you're contradicting everything that you're saying

02:37:56.160 you can't like you could be a couple and then sleep with other people not when the other couple not

02:38:01.680 when the other married person is not in favor of that yeah like the spouse is not like if i were

02:38:07.920 going to my inogamous relationship i would probably like want because i'm bisexual so i like women too

02:38:14.080 but um hey i would probably like try to like be she was a who yeah just like i think you're confused

02:38:20.480 no i think that like during i think you're on drugs i think that during the time that i slept with the

02:38:25.520 married guys like i didn't think it i don't think there's anything but now at this point in time do

02:38:30.960 you think it was wrong of you to do so if i went back to sex work i would still sleep with guys that

02:38:36.800 okay so no no i don't yeah she belongs to the street they just won't leave their wife so

02:38:44.000 you so you want them to leave their wives for what because they're not happy no you don't know any of

02:38:48.480 that yeah that's it you know what they tell me they're paying you for a service why are they paying

02:38:52.720 me and why aren't they with their wife so do you feel because people are with you over their wives

02:38:57.440 that sucks well they're awful and you're one of them yeah till your mic down a little bit it's a

02:39:02.080 little too high they're awful i'm awful that sucks yeah so would you do you want to be an awful person

02:39:08.080 no i want to be in a relationship with my arrangement and not blow things and not be a sex worker

02:39:13.040 but at the end of the day like i don't think it's awful to sleep with girls that are married

02:39:16.400 because marriage isn't like it's whatever no it's not to everybody yeah but also you say that

02:39:22.320 you don't want to be you don't want to be a bad person and you want to implement all these changes

02:39:27.200 in your life you clearly are not making the decisions to do so yeah because if you do that's

02:39:33.040 phenomenal but when you are in um when you join seeking arrangements it becomes very addicting

02:39:39.920 addiction seems to be a kind of a theme well it seems like a theme of like your personality that

02:39:46.880 seeking arrangements is okay it is you consume marijuana a lot that's addicting okay well

02:39:51.680 do you have friends that are doing the same thing um as sugaring no well let me we have four chats i

02:40:00.560 need to get through the chats and then we can come back to dog piling dog piling all right we have

02:40:06.400 ginger i used to smoke mj regularly and one time i had smoked i went into an 18 hour long panic attack

02:40:13.120 i have suffered from anxiety ever since definitely don't recommend smoking been sober

02:40:17.760 four years liam i'll know with your experience but like ever since my experience but never haven't

02:40:22.640 touched it 100 exactly the same never touched it i was back i was like 17 oh dude it's weird to hear

02:40:27.840 someone else that got cooked just as badly by it yeah it's bad and i like reading some of the stuff

02:40:33.600 about like how it can cause schizophrenia like i i can tell you firsthand i'm very happy that didn't

02:40:39.760 that didn't happen thank you for sharing we've got killer of cereal woman slash female equals xx

02:40:47.200 chromosomes able to house to conception using the built-in womb connected by an umbilical cord and

02:40:54.240 vein that feeds the fetus its nutrients through the liver definitely not a man it's a good use of 100

02:41:02.800 good to see a killer of cereal good to see in the chat we have him uh hold on actually let me do this

02:41:07.440 one first we have david treziak hey thank you man appreciate it based in san diego but have family

02:41:14.080 who live next to ryan g in the oh ryan gosling is he oh monocito probably okay what's that oh carb okay

02:41:25.120 uh maddie are you doxing right people people know these um oh wait fuck i'm sorry let me pull it up again

02:41:31.760 margot robbie was only reason watched barbie but is that movie about feminism respect to maddie

02:41:38.560 ursula and gustav gustavo uh actually i i think we mentioned this before i saw barbie like a month

02:41:44.800 or two ago it was like it was just fucking dog shit terrible movie yeah i agree terrible movie

02:41:50.320 who made you watch that i was like it was on hbo oh it was on hbo i was just like all right just

02:41:58.240 happen to walk by all right i'll see what the i'll see what it's about i was in mexico a few months ago

02:42:05.440 and i walked into a library uh in mexico to go and do my work modest he came a donated two hundred

02:42:12.640 dollars go to is classic of girl seen many on whatever never will get a man that she wants to

02:42:20.320 settle only digins interested digins not interested in long term obf not top one percent off just look

02:42:29.120 at her that's rude oh that's cute i do pray that you make the changes in your life that you say that

02:42:39.440 you want to do i don't believe in god well she does she does so i do she's trying to it would

02:42:46.080 probably help you immensely in your life if you did as well i don't believe in god but she's saying

02:42:51.120 if you did it would really yeah right oh my god makes you want to throw up so i don't believe in oh

02:42:57.920 my god yeah oh my god so what is what does omg stand don't take oh my god so okay we have it's like

02:43:07.680 an usher song isn't it killer of cereal hey thank you man all right pick one of these two options

02:43:13.840 this is for the ladies he's going to describe two men guy number one six one hundred eighty

02:43:20.080 k year fit eight inch pp but has a horrible world outlook and a negative attitude in general or five

02:43:26.480 two thirty k year chubby four inch pp with a positive outlook and oozes confidence and swagger

02:43:32.240 pick one or two two one wait you gotta tilt your mic down yeah you either okay you either got to

02:43:40.320 do posture or tilt the mic down it's gotta be one two two two two probably probably one i'm five

02:43:53.600 nine i'm sorry it's gotta be okay all right the latter two okay cool thank you uh kill of cereal you

02:44:02.960 have the answers we have dylan lolly selena something about that accent and hair is ding

02:44:10.160 is ding it for me doing it for me excuse me i'm six two 240 pounds make six to care a year shoot guns

02:44:17.280 and you can grow kill and can grow slash kill my own food should i slide in the dms or question for

02:44:24.080 all the ladies why you should you be allowed to vote oh my god um so we'll start with the first part

02:44:30.480 so selena this is dylan what does his shirt say can what does his shirt say can you read it federal

02:44:36.800 everything and then what's this is that is that a maga hat what's the hat can you see what the hat

02:44:43.680 is what's it say on the hat okay uh are you down for dylan no i like colin oh the guy you're dating

02:44:52.800 currently talking to yeah okay all right so you're not available and he's not cute no thanks

02:44:59.840 sorry sorry dylan oh my god she's in a talking stage i guess um unfortunately my friend dylan we

02:45:09.680 can only do one question per super chat and your second question will also get me canceled so uh

02:45:16.160 i uh i do appreciate it i do appreciate it but thank you man appreciate thank you uh maybe try your

02:45:22.880 shot at one of the other girls on the panel i don't know uh all right so let's bring it i i got you know

02:45:28.880 what hold on i'm gonna move forward a little bit i got questions for jasper what's up oh whoops

02:45:36.640 do you have two names yeah okay so you said that you're my real name you're currently open slash

02:45:45.200 polyamorous well at the time i filled out this um yeah at the time i messaged um i would say that i

02:45:53.600 was thinking i was polyamorous because i was open to dating multiple people which i referenced that back

02:46:00.320 to my aka like sugar daddies um but really um ultimately what i want is to be a partner with

02:46:09.680 somebody else um just one person specifically and you said but not married like just like

02:46:18.320 sure you don't want to get married yeah like monogamous you said that in the normal dating

02:46:22.480 were you did you originally consider yourself traditional no oh okay because never something

02:46:29.120 written here from your notes going from traditional to poly to sugaring to only fans to dating multiple

02:46:35.440 guys at once yeah yeah so like um back like when i was in high school i back when i was in high school

02:46:40.960 i dated one person then after that i dated another person and then like it was just like very like like

02:46:47.920 i used to make fun of girls that were on only fans yeah you used to okay yeah how old are you now

02:46:54.240 27 well i'm gonna be 27 well i'm gonna be 27 next month but i'm 26 but when only fans came out i was

02:47:01.680 like in high school like we were just graduating so only fans hasn't been out for 10 years it's been

02:47:07.760 out since 2016 i think i would nick can you check when only fans came out when only fans was 16.

02:47:15.040 it only got popular i think in like what 20 but i swear like girls in my school were doing only fans

02:47:20.080 right when it came out well they were doing other there's like camming and like that kind of

02:47:23.760 yeah like 16. it wasn't i don't think it was popular so like anyway it's just a part of the culture now

02:47:30.000 wait so yeah you said you were you were and have been dating multiple guys at once

02:47:35.360 what like i wouldn't say dating i would say that they're like having sex yeah let's say yeah let's say

02:47:39.280 whatever just anywhere from casual to dating correct what's the most amount of guys that you've been

02:47:44.320 seeing and that could be like super casual to maybe more a little more like at one time what's

02:47:49.920 the most because i know you said 10 is that the most or have you seen more i've gone on dates with a

02:47:56.000 lot of them um i haven't necessarily slept with every single person that i've gone on like a date

02:48:00.960 with because like i do find that sometimes having like a date with somebody we don't really connect

02:48:07.040 very well okay but so what's the most probably like 15 at most 15 roster yeah okay like 15 sleeping

02:48:17.760 with like a one time no like i would say like maybe like 15 i don't know like on i don't really know

02:48:26.320 actually do you know your body count i don't know my body count it's a good question actually yeah do you

02:48:32.960 have a sense of a range don't you say you have a list under no i don't have a list okay under what

02:48:40.160 probably like under 50. under 50. yeah so like 49. yeah because up till i was like up till a year

02:48:46.960 and a half ago i had only slept with like five people wait hold wait so hold on up until a year

02:48:54.560 and a half ago your body count was five yeah and then in the past year and a half it's shot up to

02:49:02.160 between 40 and 50 is that fair to say probably okay now and do you count because you've done like

02:49:09.120 traditional adult content right like you shoot with guys yes right is that correct yeah but it was

02:49:14.960 kind of like not like that many guys that you've shot content with right how many guys do you do you

02:49:19.840 do you know like do you know how many guys you've shot content with i can count in my head if you

02:49:23.840 give me a minute sure yeah take your time i'll read this chat while you start counting well actually

02:49:30.000 um if i'm guessing really fast probably like i would say like wait into the mic um less than 10. okay

02:49:39.200 you've shot with less than 10 guys yeah uh a year and a half ago you know and i was doing only fans

02:49:44.480 for only 12 weeks okay and you sorry i wasn't including the only fans guys for some reason in

02:49:52.000 the body count i would yeah sorry i would say that including including the only guys what

02:49:56.240 60 uh 60 is my guess 60 okay but so but so it's been you've had about 55 sexual partners in the past

02:50:07.840 year and a half that guy slingshot donated 200 i'm sorry but carrot tops stepsister is really coming

02:50:15.520 off as ignorant and heartless the fact that you can knowingly sleep with someone's husband and not

02:50:21.200 care is gross and shows a lack of morals absolutely all right well i mean i don't know what to say

02:50:28.000 okay so uh that guy slingshot appreciate it man carrot tops sister do you want to dispel the rumors

02:50:33.840 that you're related to care top yeah i'm not i'm just a ginger yeah i got the money piece though

02:50:40.480 oh okay not sure what that is but uh so it's like where your hair the the tts came in kind of just as

02:50:47.840 i was asking the question so i'll just repeat it for the for the sake of that so so a year and a half

02:50:53.200 ago your body count was five in that year and a half period your body count is now 60 around 60 is that

02:51:01.120 correct um with the only fans guys yeah including the which is about 10. i'm guessing okay and you

02:51:09.040 said the most amount of men that you've been engaged with sexually at the same concurrent period of time

02:51:15.280 i would say actually like i'm sorry like no like 10 i think pretty much like 10 10 10 to 15 maybe yeah

02:51:22.560 it just depends all right so yeah um but like i um i don't know i think that sugaring is actually like

02:51:33.120 not like i would not suggest it to other females um i it's also like dangerous actually um yeah

02:51:41.280 posture or if women scoot the mic hold on wait hold on sorry my tattoo is really itchy hold on but um

02:51:48.240 scoot the mic to the edge of the table all right and just leave it there okay okay go ahead so yeah

02:51:52.880 i know i think that and then hold on has this been this way the whole show can you scoot that to the

02:51:57.920 edge of the table and the the wire should not be hanging off the edge that way okay has it been

02:52:04.160 that way the whole show i just moved it when i got up early okay i think that women are like tilt your

02:52:10.160 mic down a little bit that girls that don't take the approach of like even looking into the guy that

02:52:14.320 they're meeting up with um because i actually use this software that uses artificial intelligence

02:52:20.800 and facial recognition and it scans the jawline of their face and finds out like publicly like

02:52:26.240 what websites or what they own or what business they're associated with so just see if they're

02:52:31.840 like actually who they are and who they say they are and i've had situations where i'm like on facetime

02:52:37.120 with the guy and he's been to jail for like murdering animal cruelty with death but like i'm talking

02:52:44.800 but like yeah some extreme stuff and i think that like only fans and the porn industry it's just like

02:52:51.440 not very like the path to go right well just going back to like the dating multiple guys yeah so uh

02:52:59.680 in in a i don't wait did i i don't know if i asked this to somebody else on the panel but

02:53:05.040 in like a 72 hour window what's the most amount of guys that you've been with probably like two two

02:53:13.920 what about like what's the shortest period of time where there's been like two guys i never sleep with

02:53:19.600 a guy in the same like in the same day is that like a 24 hours or like same no i don't know like

02:53:25.280 it could be like 11 59 sometimes it's more than but if it's like 12 up five it's okay no i don't time

02:53:30.240 it out i really don't just curious okay uh okay timer goes off she's like okay the next one ready

02:53:37.840 no it's not like that i'm not like a brawl board i guess what about like what was your busiest month

02:53:45.120 like how many guys were there in like your busiest month would you say

02:53:50.880 i don't know like i said it's like 10 20 like i said it's like average well like that's depending

02:53:55.840 on how many arrangements i had like in place like i was very specific about who i hung out with

02:54:00.960 and things like that but i've asked what what changed a year and a half ago because you said

02:54:04.720 your body count was five and then something i started um going and seeking arrangements but was

02:54:10.080 was there something else that happened in in your personal life or was there some sort of an issue that

02:54:15.040 happened there because i am actually like slightly worried for you that you're clearly you're impaired

02:54:20.160 by something at the moment in some sort of substance and you're divulging all this information

02:54:23.840 on the internet no i'm not this is what i came on here for you know what i see okay well if you're

02:54:28.080 happy to then yeah i'm happy to share the information yeah yeah i see that you have a lot of empathy but

02:54:33.280 you're acting like you don't care to hide or mask pain or somehow like i see i think you do because

02:54:39.680 you care about other females not doing sinking arrangements yeah but i feel like you kind of just

02:54:45.440 you're i don't know i feel like it's a little of an act i don't know no no no it's actually it's

02:54:50.880 actually um this is like how i actually feel so you can look back i do believe that i believe that

02:54:57.920 it's something somewhat of like a self-loathing because if you believe you believe that if you

02:55:01.920 believe that for other women if you if you wish the best for other women if just please okay if

02:55:07.920 you do wish the best for other women if you say that you think that it's a dangerous thing i would

02:55:11.120 totally agree with you and i would fully encourage you to actually voice those concerns on this podcast

02:55:15.520 and voice i would like to get into that the dangers that you have yeah um you actually shoot yourself

02:55:20.320 in the foot when you start to say well you know i don't care and i don't care about the marriages

02:55:23.760 that i'm breaking up i think that you should be consistent like where i was like i'm talking

02:55:27.840 about quitting and like not having the opportunity to put my place in a situation where i'm sleeping

02:55:32.720 with a guy because most of the guys on there are married yeah and those are the guys that like i

02:55:37.360 felt like at that time i liked because they kind of like left you alone like they didn't like text you

02:55:42.480 all the time they went back to their like normal lives but as a whole where i am at now today april

02:55:48.560 23rd 2022 or 2024 sorry um what what okay i mean but i think that like i am genuinely you're off by

02:55:59.200 two years i know but i don't think that girls should do only fans either that's yeah i think yeah

02:56:05.040 that's great but you're like you need to hold to those convictions you can't you can't sit there

02:56:09.680 but that doesn't have to do with the marriage thing like and how i felt in the time like but

02:56:14.080 we're not talking about how you felt at the time we're talking about how you feel currently and you

02:56:18.080 you've told me multiple you've told everybody multiple times that you still would do the you

02:56:22.080 would act the exact same way in that situation yes you're just not making any sense it's it's

02:56:27.680 it's a bit contradictory marriage into the i think that the point that everyone's trying to get

02:56:32.080 across to you and i think you should try and actually really listen closely to what people are

02:56:35.280 saying to you yeah because so you've got two conflicting beliefs and that's that's what we

02:56:40.320 call cognitive dissonance you're saying one thing but your actions actually are doing another thing

02:56:44.480 okay right or you so or you're saying one thing and you have two contrary beliefs at the same time

02:56:48.400 that are existing in your head yeah it's cognitive dissonance so if you do wish the best for other

02:56:52.640 women you should wish the best for yourself as well and the reason why i ask if there's something

02:56:56.480 going on in your personal life and you obviously don't have to divulge that is because when priya said

02:56:59.760 to you before that she'll pray for you you had a very visceral reaction yeah i'm not religious

02:57:03.680 but you said but the way that you said it and the way that you ignored her made it seem like

02:57:07.440 that you were insulted by somebody wanting the best for you and wanting to pray for you

02:57:10.240 yeah well do you feel like this is coming from a place of self-loathing maybe something you need to

02:57:15.040 have a look at internally and hold yourself to the same sort of respect as you hold other women

02:57:18.560 with i mean no people have to like bring up like like religion into certain situations i'm not

02:57:24.720 imposing my religion on you i'm saying that i am wishing the best for you and the way that i

02:57:29.120 do that is sorry my prayer because i believe in god okay and sorry for being rude and being um like

02:57:35.680 so demonic with your um praying thing uh well no but but what jake is saying is that it seems like

02:57:42.960 it's something that you're trying to project outwards right in the sense of not accepting somebody else's

02:57:48.960 care help whatever it may be how they do it their version of caring for somebody else well okay like

02:57:55.520 it's not like i was imposing my religion on you and yeah trying to shove it down your throat i

02:58:00.160 simply stated something very positive towards you i apologize for that no that's that's totally fine

02:58:05.360 but yeah but that's not that's that's besides the point what we're saying is that it seems like there's

02:58:10.800 something that you are hurting no i think that like no i think that a big thing is is like i want to get

02:58:16.560 out of the sex work yeah and i think that it's very important to not continue to do the sex work

02:58:22.960 yeah and most people can tell you and i can tell you i've done many degenerate things in the past

02:58:26.480 yeah i've come from a background where i didn't find faith until i was 25 26 and i've done all the

02:58:31.840 sex drugs rock and roll violence you name it i've done it right so if you looked at a cv i would not

02:58:37.360 have a position to judge but you know as you go along and you come out of this you then at some point

02:58:42.720 you have to realize that the way that you previously acted was wrong and that you have to actually have

02:58:46.800 a contrary view to that and you have to try and actually project that into the world you can't you

02:58:51.360 you can't hold on to it and say well that was that was fine active for other females like for

02:58:55.680 instance when i was in the industry like traumatic things happened and so

02:59:03.840 yeah sorry no you're okay so like my biggest thing was like

02:59:08.560 sorry yeah i think that this is what we were getting at my biggest thing was like making sure

02:59:12.320 like other girls knew about like the guys that like did the wrong stuff but they're like there's

02:59:18.640 like this cancel culture where people cancel you out yeah where cute people cancel you out for like

02:59:24.560 calling the bad people out in the porn industry because like those are the guys that get away

02:59:29.040 with it because they're just quiet about it and i would encourage you to keep doing that but also

02:59:33.680 hold hold that standard for yourself though if you have a standard for other women and you wish

02:59:37.600 the best for them you should hold that standard for yourself you need to have that same protection

02:59:41.200 that you have over other women in that industry for yourself yeah because we all we all want the best for

02:59:47.040 you and we want you to want the best for you that's what i want but yeah thank you i think that

02:59:52.960 maybe they're because they're it's like kind of combative and sometimes it's funny this podcast and

02:59:57.040 we all get into each other and we all make fun of each other sometimes maybe your natural reaction

03:00:01.040 would be to be like oh no what i did was fine it's no worries i don't care about them but i know we

03:00:05.040 can see that you're not a terrible person and deep down you and deep deep down you would you

03:00:09.200 would feel bad about those things but i think like i would encourage you to just come out and say that

03:00:13.600 okay yes i know what i did was wrong because every one of us at this table i'm sorry if it

03:00:17.520 insults anyone that like but i have a strong opinion on like the marriage thing like i think

03:00:23.680 um but like that's like getting into politics i guess like i don't really want to do that because

03:00:29.200 my opinion on it like is very like opinionated and stuff but i think that you guys are right like

03:00:34.880 it's insulting to people that do want to be wives and walk down the aisle exactly exactly and you and

03:00:40.640 you and you're you intuit that and it's good to just come out and say if it does make you a little

03:00:44.240 bit emotional and we've all had these moments before we've had to come grip come to grips with

03:00:48.240 ourselves and our pasts and these things as well so yeah i mean you actually said at the start of

03:00:52.880 the podcast that you were going you wanted to talk about some of the dangers of the industry yeah i

03:00:56.480 really encourage you to do that because that's actually a very positive thing so if you do have

03:01:00.080 if you do have advice for some young ladies who might be struggling with something similar

03:01:03.360 yeah absolutely so i think a lot of things that happens with only fans to start is um

03:01:08.640 um the fact that the industry like even though it's only fans and you're self-employed like a

03:01:14.720 lot of the girls get connected with the actual porn industry especially here in california they get

03:01:19.040 caught up with the agencies that then um ultimately like control who they shoot with

03:01:26.880 and of course like i'm sure a lot of people know the porn industry is really toxic and the girls are

03:01:32.160 like i don't want to say being exploited but like they're being they don't have a voice for

03:01:37.040 themselves so they like let these agencies and like do these shoots and they don't really want

03:01:42.320 to actually be doing that and then it gets more extreme or there's problems with drugs like girls

03:01:47.360 that do drugs which actually i don't do drugs aside from weed i'm a harm reductionist for a company

03:01:53.360 called dance safe um i i go to music festivals and we set up and we're like not promoting drugs but

03:02:01.520 we're doing harm reduction like for people that want to go to festivals and take ecstasy and stuff like

03:02:05.520 that because ultimately people are going to always forever like do drugs like they're going to

03:02:10.000 take the ecstasy and with fentanyl being a real thing now my dad died of it last year sorry to hear

03:02:15.120 that and so um there's probably some many people that probably there's probably something there in

03:02:20.880 terms of that experience yeah but i've always been doing the harm reduction thing because like

03:02:24.880 i did partake in that lifestyle for a little bit when i was like on the younger age like 16 and i

03:02:30.480 bought like synthetic molly so like i've been testing the drugs since a long time but

03:02:34.800 back to my main thing is um about the porn industry is like you get caught up in that and then if you're

03:02:39.680 doing only fans you're also like you need to be good at social media you need to be good at networking

03:02:44.640 and you need to be good at all those things otherwise the girls are giving like 60 of their

03:02:48.880 like company away to these like yeah their income so they're selling their like vagina online pretty

03:02:54.800 much for absolutely nothing yeah and also yeah i mean and then i guess the last thing i have to

03:03:00.160 say is like i've heard on the show a million times that like no like top value guy and this is like

03:03:07.360 even the guys on seeking are going to want to date somebody and go exclusive with somebody that's like

03:03:12.560 talking to other men yeah yeah wait wait wait hold on and what's your point with that my point with that is

03:03:21.200 like um like yeah like you have to settle down and just see one guy if that like and not be on only

03:03:31.360 pants and not do sex work that's what you think it's that's bad no i think that's good to like be

03:03:38.640 give it all up and not do sex work and not do only well hold on you just stated two different things

03:03:43.280 sorry what did i say you said that guys don't want to go exclusive with women no i'm sorry guys don't

03:03:50.000 want to be exclusive with girls that are doing like or the fans and sex work and things like

03:03:55.360 that because they don't value those women like for what it is whether they're on seeking or not

03:04:00.960 that's where you meet them it doesn't matter if they're on the site and you meet them they don't

03:04:05.600 want that do you object to men having the preference of not dating those types of women i think that

03:04:12.960 no i'm just saying like it's really like because i'm i guess where i'm saying that now is because

03:04:17.680 like i would like to be an exclusive relationship with one of the guys i met on seeking but i

03:04:23.920 couldn't give up sugaring because it's addicting so i went back to it and then i lost it but i'm

03:04:30.480 just saying like this isn't about me and my like arrangement right now i guess like the reason why

03:04:35.440 i wanted to come out here is to talk about how dangerous the porn and only fans industry is because

03:04:42.240 like i had come encounter with like a guy that gave me um that slept with me knowing that he

03:04:47.600 had gonorrhea didn't disclose it like yeah like all these really um and then like people faking their

03:04:55.600 std test like that's a huge thing it's like they'll edit their wait hold on hold on hold on didn't you

03:05:01.440 say that you were sleeping with like 10 men at the same time yeah and i make them get std tested

03:05:06.240 but do you think they're sleeping with 10 women at the same time no they're not like they're not

03:05:12.240 the men so wouldn't you be the risk factor in all those relationships with the porn industry yes

03:05:17.200 absolutely like it gets really scary with the std stuff but i didn't really know that going into it

03:05:22.160 so the reason why i started only fans was actually oh hold on hold on let's stay focused you're going

03:05:27.120 all over the place sure okay so you accused the guy of did he knowingly give you gonorrhea or was he

03:05:33.360 he was how do you know he sure maybe he didn't know the girl that um called me after the shoot

03:05:39.680 actually oh he was a s worker himself no he was the only fans dude he was actually signed on with a

03:05:46.000 agency called hussy models so he's it's in the porn industry yeah yeah so a sex worker yeah so like a

03:05:54.160 sex worker yeah was it in the context of work that he gave you the std in the context like was it

03:05:59.520 shooting a scene yeah yes but it wasn't a scene that i signed on he reached out to me it was like

03:06:04.720 hey i'm signed with hussy models do you want to do this shoot and i was new in the industry so i said

03:06:09.760 yes and then the girl called me after was like you didn't just shoot with mike because um he's been

03:06:16.560 sleeping with me and like got the exposure of gonorrhea but like yeah and so that was traumatic for me

03:06:23.200 because actually like shortly after um this agency through that we test through for std testing for

03:06:30.400 the porn industry it's in tampa it's called talent testing they told me that i have like mgen which is

03:06:36.320 like a another sti so at that point i was like really freaked out about it isn't that like a breach

03:06:43.520 of duty of care i'm talking like business but isn't that company kind of like liable for

03:06:47.680 not making sure that they're talent yeah so he was but that's the thing they didn't assign

03:06:53.600 us to work together because i wasn't signed with an agency this is actually my third weekend of the

03:06:58.160 ever even doing only fans like i kind of blew up on my twitter and stuff like a lot of people wanted

03:07:03.360 to work a lot of big important people wanted to work with me but i didn't know anything about porn

03:07:09.840 or like what i was getting into but really like i stopped i tried to stop change the sport yeah i tried

03:07:15.520 to like stop sugaring so that's why i did only fans because i knew like on me yeah i don't know

03:07:22.560 well there are there are women who have come out of the industry yeah and they have turned their lives

03:07:26.960 around and they've got a great message to spread and i would encourage you to use your experiences

03:07:31.840 as a positive because lots of people have lots of different experiences and yeah many people will go

03:07:36.320 through that thing where they think okay i've got a really nasty past i've done some really terrible

03:07:40.560 things now it's my time to accept that what i did was wrong yeah and that it's wrong for other

03:07:44.640 people to do it no absolutely it really is that's a good message and the drug harm reduction thing

03:07:48.880 honestly that's gonna save lives so you know if you want a silver lining and all of this like

03:07:53.920 someone might watch this and they might go get their drugs tested and not dive a fentanyl over

03:07:58.080 yeah i just did a festival some good that you've created yeah and they come up and they test their

03:08:01.680 drugs and like i i'm an arcane distributor that's great that's really good your intentions are really

03:08:07.920 really great we just want you to have those same convictions for yourself yeah and for people that are

03:08:12.400 married exactly yeah yeah that's awesome that's wholesome it's beautiful seriously you should be

03:08:22.960 proud of that part like that's really if it saves one life like that's that's makes it worth it you

03:08:27.840 know what i mean seriously there's so yeah i mean there's a silver lining and there's positives to

03:08:32.480 draw from it yeah but i think that as long as it doesn't come from a from a place of blaming other

03:08:37.520 people and saying oh no it was the horrible men who got me into the porn industry no you made that

03:08:41.440 you made that decision i take full responsibility for the decisions i made if i can give any advice

03:08:46.000 to women like and this can go on like for all the downsides of it it's just like don't like what

03:08:52.800 another thing too is i noticed like when i was doing seeking is there was a lot to be more discreet and

03:08:57.440 it wasn't so like publicly online and then once i went online like people devalued me as a person like

03:09:03.280 so much more yeah like hold on hold on nobody even took me seriously i'm sorry i'm gonna get

03:09:08.960 pushed back here you sure okay so we can have this like moment here where you're having this revelation

03:09:17.600 here it doesn't mean jack shit unless you actually take some action yeah do you currently have an active

03:09:22.640 only fans will you delete it right now yes you can you pull up my twitter and i'm not gonna

03:09:29.760 no your twitter has porn on it what are you crazy can i read you something for that no i don't want

03:09:34.720 to pull we can't pull up your twitter it's totally tos i will delete it right now secondly you said

03:09:38.640 you're a dick you're addicted to seeking sugaring where i deleted my speaking range you've already

03:09:44.960 deleted it because i was about to ask you will you delete your seeking yes absolutely yes let's do it

03:09:52.400 yeah yes let's get rid of it we'll do it we'll do one of those interventions where we get a three

03:09:56.240 month update and she's like don't wait wait don't hold on we're just gonna have to i gotta no don't

03:10:01.920 fucking bro stop stop stop stop stop stop stop sit the fuck down bro we don't want to you got a

03:10:08.240 fucking tattoo what the fuck it's a snake because i got a that's wait let me tell you why because what i

03:10:14.560 learned in the industry is that like snakes they shed their skin so you can like shed a new um

03:10:22.480 like in your skin yeah yeah but brian raises a good point here in the sense that you do have all

03:10:27.440 these things active and that there isn't a sense of accountability i do really want on a second so

03:10:32.320 that you do have these things active and there is an accountability and you can we can have this

03:10:35.920 moment all we want but at the end of the day it comes down to taking action and responsibility so

03:10:40.000 um words that talk is really cheap with these things so yeah that's true um that guy slingshot

03:10:47.920 donated one hundred and ninety nine dollars and ninety nine cents where is andrew wilson when we need

03:10:54.480 him abdul get the rocks ready what does that mean yeah thank you man appreciate it um don't disrespect

03:11:02.240 the lovely male guests that we have currently come on uh thank you slingshot like i'm serious

03:11:08.960 i think he can't bring it up because of the youtube terms of service not because he doesn't

03:11:12.240 want to look at your twitter that's oh yeah bro you have like nude photos and like i'm sorry okay

03:11:17.120 you have nude stuff still on your twitter your twitter still links you say you say you post very

03:11:24.400 often on only fans on your twitter that's my agency that wrote that so i at one point i did have

03:11:28.720 it's your twitter the box talks with you is it not your i still this is all new like i really like i'm

03:11:33.680 not lying i'm turning my computer are you are you willing to to delete your

03:11:37.520 well hold on i absolutely want to i think you have to like log in to i don't have uh

03:11:45.360 yeah because like i really i mean it says you're currently available now active now on only fans

03:11:50.560 currently even have her phone yeah it's my it's like somebody that's still like a chatter

03:11:55.040 yeah a typer the second time in a week that this has happened to us sorry yeah i'm not really actually

03:12:00.240 on it i'm still editing i'm actually deleting my twitter too yeah are you i am are we able to do

03:12:06.240 all of that right now sure like a full digital detox it sounds like yeah let's maybe you feel

03:12:11.760 good this is your intervention yeah yeah if we could get we could claim we could get a scalp on the

03:12:16.480 shirt yeah a scalp yeah yeah an only fans scalp get rid of it 100 what does your phone look like

03:12:24.000 what does my phone look like

03:12:28.160 i'm not gonna go through no no no he was gonna grab it for you so you could delete these

03:12:31.680 i just you know i'm just wanting them you know i i think it's fair for people to be skeptical in

03:12:38.560 situations like this so i agree i really want to delete it though i really want to delete it because

03:12:46.880 i really want to be in an exclusive relationship with like my arrangement i think that the trouble

03:12:51.520 is that we don't know what your intentions are whether you're serious or not or whatever and also

03:12:54.960 you're you are in impaired as well and you're emotional you're you're also oh my god oh my god

03:13:01.040 we can we can wait and see we can yeah honestly yeah she is okay um yeah you're getting you're

03:13:08.320 getting emotional and nobody wants to like you know hound on somebody who's impaired and emotional

03:13:13.520 and it's it's a it's a tough situation so i think uh it's a lose lose to be honest

03:13:18.640 it's fine i mean you'll you'll see that i'm off of the like industry i mean if people go to my

03:13:24.800 time right now honestly i'm like if you are i know you guys want to be like supportive because

03:13:29.360 she was crying yeah thank you people on the internet stop people on the internet would be like oh brian's

03:13:38.320 that's not what i want people on the internet would be like oh brian's too harsh she has no heart

03:13:42.080 you've been very nice i'm very skeptical i'm very very skeptical about what i've seen i've been

03:13:47.120 sitting here for a year and a half having these girls come in come out talk a big game

03:13:52.160 fucking crocodile tears all this shit i don't know if i'm fucking jaded but i'm very skeptical

03:13:56.720 in these kind of situations that's why i'm not sitting here and being like oh like no i'm just

03:14:01.840 this is actually real life like i'm not lying who are the biggest jaded ones like what's what have

03:14:06.560 you seen people do when they just come and talk a big game and then go no well it's not even like oh

03:14:10.960 i'm gonna change it's just like honestly i i don't believe i don't believe anybody

03:14:16.800 after doing the show for like a year and a half well you have trust issues then well i don't trust

03:14:21.520 a lot of people either but i think a lot of your uh genuine uh uh thoughts came out um you know

03:14:27.840 after repeatedly being asked about the husband thing that was pretty big a big deal to me

03:14:32.080 um the thing about uh mcdonald's a mcdonald's worker that guy slingshot donated 199

03:14:39.360 look if you're being serious and genuine then i'm super proud of you and happy but i can't help

03:14:46.320 but be skeptical based on your careless attitude starting earlier just saying that's i i understand

03:14:52.400 where you're coming from that like with the marriage thing and like being careless with that

03:14:56.320 but in a serious note like i do like take a lot of time i'm researching these studies that are like

03:15:01.520 doing non-profit organizations for std testing and what they do is they allow um for us talent people

03:15:09.280 and the people in the industry to go to it's like um gone gold basically 200 for the love that is

03:15:16.800 all holy move the f on yeah she is clearly on something yeah this podcast has turned into a

03:15:22.960 therapy session you know what i want to talk about is um wait really quick are you would you be able to

03:15:28.240 grab your phone and see if you're like girlfriends are down and just like fucking hop on on the phone

03:15:32.880 very good idea no no well just tell them to fucking drive over or come up if you can charge my

03:15:38.960 phone tell them then to get one yeah can somebody charge your phone shoot your shot let's say why

03:15:43.760 not we'll we'll throw them on the podcast for a little bit or on the phone if they want can i take

03:15:47.520 a break uh yeah if you want that's fine if you want to step away for a little bit yeah it's one of

03:15:54.800 the circle in the back uh let me read this chat here we have oh uh dylan lolly sorry bricks and i just

03:16:01.040 missed and i just missed andrew shirt freedom over everything shout out black guns matter okay hat make

03:16:07.520 politicians afraid again yike oh no bro okay disavow disavow disavow disavow

03:16:16.080 modest hikima donated 200 the legend himself bricks and huge w girl 2 wants the sympathy

03:16:22.320 vote since bottom one percent of question for panel what are your thoughts on nala previous of girl on

03:16:28.640 whatever who recently converted back to christianity i i mean i'm less skeptical skeptical of her than but i

03:16:36.800 mean i think there's actually perfectly valid reason to be skeptical of that um yeah i mean

03:16:41.680 same here i mean good for her though if it's legit i mean you don't really know the ins and

03:16:45.360 outs of somebody's personal life and like as a christian your job is to will the good of the other

03:16:50.400 and to and to hope and pray for the good of the other and i hope that she's genuine and i hope she's

03:16:55.200 sincere but if i were her and if i were making this turning this big corner in my life i'd get off the

03:16:59.840 internet 100 and i'd focus on my private life i wouldn't be going on michael knowles's show and

03:17:04.640 um and all of that but you know if it could be genuine it could it's hard to say and like and

03:17:10.480 like right now as well it's also hard to say and i hope i wish the best for it yeah you know what i

03:17:15.520 want to talk about while my phone is charging is females who see men as objects and just a bank account

03:17:21.920 but they still want a healthy marriage or a successful marriage with a high value man like that's like my main

03:17:28.160 it what we'll come to that in just a sec let me just get through a couple things nick can you pull

03:17:32.320 up uh twitch guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you have one

03:17:38.800 uh twitch.tv slash whatever brian looks as nervous as a blank in church waiting for that chick to violate

03:17:48.560 youtube's tos good point i'd be nervous i mean it's been uh honestly even before the show i was having

03:17:55.200 some hesitations so uh real trump thank you man uh nervous as a oh i think the blanket there is a

03:18:01.760 30 foe uh so uh real trump thank you man appreciate it uh back to twitch guys twitch.tv slash whatever

03:18:08.320 drops a follow drops a prime sub if you have one uh thank you guys for all the follows over there and

03:18:14.240 all the primes wait she left yeah joe tried to go but apparently she left oh she's like

03:18:21.520 it seems like she did okay um like wait but joe just a point of point of clarification joe

03:18:30.880 like because she said she did want to take a break like did she just want to go for a walk or

03:18:34.480 she like she said she's leaving yeah so that's i have good i had good reason to be skeptical i mean

03:18:42.320 the fact that she just lied right there oh can i take a little break um i mean i'm

03:18:49.600 maybe it was getting to the point of hey okay let's delete your twitter let's delete your only fans

03:18:56.000 we were gonna get a scalp and then so okay well i'm gonna take her out of the i mean if she just walks

03:19:03.440 off on false pretenses i'll just take her out of the description then

03:19:07.120 i mean hey look there's a seat for her friend now ask her if she's coming back yeah can you ask

03:19:16.720 if she's coming back just see if she's coming back but i'm pretty sure that's a that's a rage quit

03:19:22.480 okay sweet she's in a car okay that makes i don't think she should be driving but um

03:19:29.280 look at that she got a bunch of attention and then as soon as we want to move it on she

03:19:33.680 do you know what's funny bro yeah you were just talking about being jaded and i'm like

03:19:37.520 please describe to me a scenario where you've been jaded and then instantly

03:19:41.600 can i go take a break and then lies and lies i mean i look honestly in a lot of

03:19:50.720 it isn't cool a lot of the jade like jadedness actually is like that the audience doesn't even see

03:19:56.800 it's all the that you have to deal with behind the scenes the no shows the flakes the rude behavior

03:20:04.000 the entitled behavior like the amount of people that will have no shows we like and the and and

03:20:10.160 they'll lie too like we'll have last minute cancellations it's not just they cancel last

03:20:14.560 minute that's rude on it in itself but they'll just lie my car broke down oh i'm sick and then you

03:20:20.480 look at their instagram story later that night they're at the bar that the club that the party these

03:20:24.800 people lie they're they're super liars doing this show like some of the shit i hear on the show is

03:20:30.480 like yeah it's it's bad but the behavior like just trying to basically talent coordinate is the most

03:20:37.520 like soul-sucking shit ever dude if it makes you feel better so we've got four five hundred

03:20:43.600 influences on our books we get it all the time all the time it's a nightmare so you should see the

03:20:49.040 mental nightmare the mental breakdowns i have to deal with with like someone who's

03:20:52.640 fucking pop off they're like i'm gonna want you sorry not to stare where's maddie

03:20:58.880 oh okay holy shit she just came out of nowhere she's barely moved

03:21:04.560 mental breakdown on instagram live i mean no no that's cool she had a full breakdown she's like

03:21:08.480 fuck these guys they're effing that i'm like i'm like get off instagram get off i'm she's having a

03:21:13.520 full mental breakdown she's trashing the branch like you guys are this that she wakes up the next day

03:21:17.360 she's like oh yeah sorry i had a breakdown so yeah it's it's maddie you can take that seat

03:21:21.920 she just drove off heavily impaired that's why she can't date a police officer yeah wow actually

03:21:26.720 really good observation there i you're not like supposed to drive no no a lot of people say i have

03:21:32.240 my medical card but you still can't drive impaired yeah yeah that's it's yeah that's anyways let's not

03:21:38.480 give her any more attention than is i don't feel like talking to this mic oh uh can i like disinfect

03:21:45.360 you yeah she already ate that yeah she's not sitting on this that's what she's not

03:21:51.680 wait did you see that madison took the seat booster off she's like i'm not gonna sit on that

03:21:56.960 what do you think when girls are like look impaired like that is it even good to talk to them

03:22:01.440 it's not good to drive i like i don't know i i feel like it it isn't necessary because it's so rare

03:22:06.800 but like do i need to start including like hey please don't come on the show like drunk or high

03:22:12.640 yes i do think you do yeah but most people come like everybody here's sober yes yeah i mean why do

03:22:19.520 i have to add this thing in the pre-show where it's like please don't come on because you have you have

03:22:25.120 weird and strange people come on here i guess that's true the raccoon was my favorite

03:22:28.560 a raccoon it's probably yeah it's probably a good idea i've never really watched a podcast

03:22:34.560 he had a record on the podcast or just don't just don't touch it didn't she like go like this

03:22:38.640 why yeah no she barked she used a raccoon to bark at brian that's right it was a taxidermy raccoon

03:22:45.120 how do you even how do you even know if people are being serious how do you how can you even take

03:22:49.280 someone at face value yeah yeah so um all of the time that was just dedicated what do we call that

03:22:55.360 that it was that it was the rage quit is that categorized as a rage quit i think she got

03:23:01.280 meltdown meltdown yeah she finished melting down i think it was the pressure of deleting that stuff

03:23:06.880 meltdown walk all right let's change the title to uh one meltdown strumpet meltdown strumpet meltdown

03:23:15.760 maddie's a pro at this at this point i hope nobody

03:23:18.480 trust issues but nobody gets run over on the way home good point nick i don't know if you guys heard

03:23:24.240 him she said that i had trust issues then lied about wanting to take a break and just

03:23:29.280 left so yep proves your point yeah i mean i was giving her pushback there in her moment but i mean

03:23:35.600 i don't know i was kind of skeptical so she's probably like listening to some

03:23:39.120 gangster rap and driving back to yeah anyways run over a family of ducks

03:23:47.840 wait what poor ducks i know okay brian saved now dead under her car oh the other thing i do have to

03:23:54.960 did i read this one cy far to the future maca's worker men are paying you for

03:24:00.320 sex because they don't want their wife to kiss their kids with the mouth oh okay

03:24:04.800 okay that thing uh thank you man appreciate it i guess um oh really quick nick could you pull up

03:24:12.640 our instagram at whatever i wanted to so guys i know i mentioned at the beginning of the stream

03:24:18.640 that our message button is broken i'll come back to the oh one motorsports donated two hundred dollars

03:24:26.080 where's he been trauma llama says meth is a hell of a drug meth top pistaz are a special treat

03:24:32.080 who is like it is what they do not shocking at all the only downside is we are still talking about

03:24:38.240 her dumb ass yeah we're gonna move on we will move on i do want to say this about the great legendary

03:24:44.640 grid one motorsports he's a brave and a decent man he's a pioneer he's back he's back yeah dude good

03:24:50.800 to see in the chat one food for photo donated two hundred dollars according to my calculations the

03:24:58.080 average male ding dong is 5.25 inches 50 bodies x 5.25 is 262.5 inches that is almost 22 feet of

03:25:10.080 diff ding dong if her body count is taller than me it's too high that's a good way i like that i like

03:25:18.320 that measurement that's good thank you man appreciate it thank you for the math man always always uh very

03:25:23.440 helpful and uh thank you so do you think your phone's charged you want to see if you're two

03:25:29.840 one or two of your girlfriend let's get them on the show let's get them on the show let's go tell them

03:25:35.600 that we got um we got arizona iced tea that they can have i guess that's that's the sale i guess that's

03:25:48.160 uh don't call them but can you take or maybe yeah maybe call them yeah yeah just step out and call

03:25:53.520 them maybe call them like okay we can't do it on camera we can't do it on camera just because

03:25:58.720 wiretapping shit but oh wow that's a felony yeah uh okay so guys we are going to wait oh man we didn't

03:26:10.080 even get into all her notes it's so sad oh yeah pull up the instagram guys please so i mentioned this

03:26:17.840 at the beginning of the show our message button is broken here's the thing though some people get it

03:26:23.040 and these are typically you you might see the message button if you've messaged us before or

03:26:28.320 you've interacted with the page before you're following us you might see it then but what i

03:26:33.360 want you guys to do on the that on that very first photo the casting photo nick could you click it

03:26:39.440 i've opened up the comments yeah i've i've just opened up the comments on it if there's a message

03:26:46.720 button just type one if there's no message button leave a comment saying two one wait hold on just

03:26:54.560 say i don't know that's gonna be too complicated just say you'll have to refresh it okay so if there's

03:27:02.560 a message button say there's a message button if there's no message button say you don't see a message

03:27:07.840 button and this is going to be so if you guys can go to instagram.com slash whatever because we're

03:27:13.440 trying to figure out what's going on with with our page it's messing it's making it harder for our

03:27:17.840 casting uh because our message button is broken so just leave a message on that photo i'll look at it

03:27:24.080 later um so appreciate it guys also be sure to go subscribe to jake's only fans page it's currently

03:27:34.160 discounted 4.99 just kidding no he doesn't have wait only fans no no no should i definitely definitely

03:27:41.600 should all right we have let's see here uh let's talk to lauren what's the story of how you met your

03:27:49.520 husband uh okay i was working as a nurse at the time brand new nurse 21 years old um we went to a

03:27:57.040 happy hour with my with my co-workers at a restaurant like slash bar kind of thing um and so my co-worker

03:28:04.720 who was dating his brother invites him he comes in and okay so we meet and i thought he was just

03:28:09.360 absolutely gorgeous um well fast forward we were dating a couple months and he i assumed and he told

03:28:16.480 me because i asked for him to verify that he was my age 22 21 whatever i was at the time um made sense

03:28:22.720 because we were at the bar uh and then around i don't know a couple months later he took me behind my

03:28:29.120 place of work and said he had to tell me a secret like something um that was very important and i just

03:28:35.600 kind of looked at him like okay you know what you have a family kids wife like what is what is this

03:28:41.520 and um he said i'm actually uh turning 19 um and i had to tell you because my family's having a get

03:28:49.600 together i never met his family and they want me to invite you um and i i did not there was no way

03:28:55.680 i was believing this like because that not that it matters now i'm not really huge into the age

03:29:00.720 difference but at that age if you're able to like he graduated high school when i graduated college

03:29:06.480 it was just very bizarre and i asked him for his uh driver's license because i'm like you've got to

03:29:13.840 be kidding like i please be 40 or something um and then he handed it to me and it was yeah he was turn

03:29:21.120 he was 18 turning 19 and he just well anyway i ended up marrying him so it doesn't quite matter

03:29:27.520 but at the time it was a huge deal to me a white line how long did it take for you to get over it

03:29:32.800 um i it was very hard for me even on our wedding day i remember thinking like dang like i still

03:29:37.200 haven't told people like his real age because it was just weird i'm sorry it was weird he was 19

03:29:42.480 we only dated for a year and then he proposed and we got married but um yeah it was very very bizarre

03:29:47.680 i looked at his uh id thinking it was the opposite of a fake id like okay maybe he's just 40 and he wants to

03:29:53.040 look 19 i don't know but um no he had like a justin bieber haircut in the photo and i was like who

03:29:58.560 is this kid yeah huh okay a little white lie fun story and uh all all's good though all's good yeah

03:30:10.080 now it doesn't matter much you know four-year difference no big deal good good good you also

03:30:14.240 said that uh or i'll just let you state it but i'll prompt you high body count and s work should is

03:30:21.520 what should be what should be a red flag should be immediate disqualifier i just think it's

03:30:26.480 absolute degenerate behavior um i think it's indicative of the type of woman you're going

03:30:30.880 to get your that's that kind of stuff is forever it's going to be online forever um you're not going

03:30:36.480 to like that can be tracked it affects your marriage it affects your children yeah it's just it's not a wise

03:30:43.200 choice and it just shows a lot about a person if they're if they're doing that now i do 100 believe

03:30:48.880 that a person can move forward from that but you know you still have to be aware that the the man

03:30:53.840 has to know that could be something that could come up in their lifetime okay i agree i agree

03:31:02.080 immediate disqualification what what do you consider a high body count for a woman oh anything over 10.

03:31:08.240 anything over 10 and over 10 and over any ladies here any ladies i think over five yeah five is a lot

03:31:15.200 it depends now i got married when i was 22 so that is absolutely way too high at that age i think you

03:31:22.960 know now that people are getting married later which i disagree with but they're getting married later

03:31:26.640 and later um yeah body counts are going to be a little bit higher unless you're christian you have

03:31:31.520 those morals and standards of waiting till after you're married okay let's see here you uh oh i have a

03:31:40.480 question for you so like both of you are involved in health care you're a pediatrician you are i was

03:31:45.440 a medication aid medication aid all right so like it's been this ongoing theme here that um like the

03:31:52.160 lads here we think that nurses are kind of red flags what do you guys think about that i i well i disagree

03:31:58.400 but i mean uh i don't know i think i think um i understand your point about travel nursing of course

03:32:04.720 um but i i i guess i don't understand why it would be considered a red flag do you think the hours or

03:32:11.760 they i don't know it could be a couple things i mean maybe a little bit of the trauma as well of

03:32:16.160 being a nurse the drama trauma oh the trauma quite a traumatizing industry yeah i think that's why

03:32:21.360 police officers and nurses oftentimes uh end up together i think there's trauma on both sides that

03:32:26.080 you have to kind of work through but again it's the job you took on if you have a severe like a serious

03:32:31.520 passion for it it's not something that you typically allow it to interfere with your

03:32:35.120 relationship with everything my husband and i have seen all the death and everything like we could not

03:32:39.920 allow that to come in between our you know it's like you have to take care of yourself first and

03:32:43.680 your marriage and yeah i'd say it's a it's a not a red flag for me it's one of the more green flag

03:32:48.640 industries it means they're pretty caring yeah pretty good people yeah i didn't know if you were

03:32:52.800 referring to like is there a gray's anatomy type situation i mean they look after you when you're sick

03:32:57.920 like if you get sick yeah but here's i mean maybe you guys can talk a bit about this once you lose

03:33:04.320 your empathy they start seeing people just as number not as human so it could be the case that

03:33:12.320 it actually starts working in the reverse that they get jaded a little bit sure yeah i've been a nurse

03:33:19.280 well i was a nurse for 11 years and i i can say that i personally never held the uh boundary that

03:33:26.080 you're required to have in terms of not um getting too attached to your patients i always have been

03:33:32.480 very attached to my patients i had worked with cancer children for a very long time um that was

03:33:37.680 uh it's hard not to get emotional and empathetic when a mom hugs you and you know her child is going

03:33:43.120 to be diagnosed with cancer tomorrow and they're telling you just please please tell me everything's

03:33:47.680 going to be okay and you can't tell them that um i don't think i've ever lost that but i also think

03:33:52.320 that does weigh heavily and it does carry through in my um everyday life i have to work very hard to

03:33:57.680 separate that um but i don't necessarily think everybody loses empathy what i will say is that

03:34:02.960 i have met older nurses where i say they're desensitized they need to book it out of the out

03:34:07.360 of the uh um the job field because they're clearly not even yeah and i've experienced it with even the

03:34:14.240 care of my own father like meeting nurses like that where they just really don't care they're just

03:34:18.800 looking at a patient like a subject honestly would you say that yours or your husband's job

03:34:22.960 is more traumatizing um i would think my husband's he works in harrisburg city um so in pennsylvania

03:34:30.800 it's a really very very bad area um and i just i watched high speed chases that he was just in

03:34:37.840 on um friday so police activity you're watching it live on youtube no no i watched it after the fact

03:34:43.280 he won't send me any of that uh uh live because i would be um i i have all the faith in the world

03:34:49.280 my husband he's he's been police officer of the year for three years in a row officer of the county

03:34:54.080 i have all the faith in the world but at the end of the day there's just criminals and what do you

03:34:57.920 think about the uh defund the police movement hey defund the police you should go on a list of

03:35:03.440 people and when you call because you need the police they should say sorry you voted to defund the

03:35:08.400 police good lifestyle yep yeah uh really quick just bringing it back to to nurses um this is kind

03:35:16.560 of so okay this this is like a theory i have it could be totally baseless but like if you're dating

03:35:23.440 a nurse let's say she works in the hospital aren't hospitals like really disgusting yes but so i was

03:35:31.120 like it occurs to me like if you're dating a nurse rule like she brings back absolutely like your immune

03:35:38.720 system would be so legit after that wait the guy or the girls both of you she brings it home that's

03:35:44.240 what i'm thinking bro like immune system gets real my kids and my husband and i we have great immune

03:35:49.600 systems you know but also you should she should remove her scrubs get a shower take off the shoes

03:35:54.640 stuff like that shower ever afterwards you and your germophobia no i swear like i think about this

03:35:59.840 shit i'm like yeah if i'm dating a nurse bro like yeah it's what about the the mercer the c diff yeah

03:36:05.440 yeah yeah yeah is c diff transmissible between yeah yeah yeah she's gonna bring back c diff well

03:36:15.200 you're gonna have to english that for me found in your stool basically in your what stool your poop oh

03:36:20.000 wow okay yeah it's it's it's the other than a gi believe other than a gastrointestinal bleed it's

03:36:25.280 probably the most potent smelling um poo you'll ever has a particular yes smell yeah and that can

03:36:32.000 only it can only be clean cleansed through uh hand washing with soap and water not with uh uh sanitizer

03:36:38.880 so and uh and then i think the other thing where it can potentially be a an issue with dating is that

03:36:47.200 nurses are typically like surrounded by i love this very like by doctors which in terms of

03:36:55.280 like are are up there in terms of you know high value men and so they're they're constantly around

03:37:02.480 these men and well that's if you work in a hospital in a nursing home there's no no there's

03:37:10.640 like one doctor there's no chad grandpa's walking around okay what do you you think i'm thinking this

03:37:17.680 is what i think um my husband thought the same you think an attending physician looks like

03:37:22.640 mixed steamy on gray's anatomy kind of thing okay but aren't a lot of nurses like pining after the

03:37:30.560 doctors i was thinking i would love to speak on that um so i have worked in i worked in hospital for two

03:37:35.440 years that's where i met my boyfriend who hopefully will be my husband someday and you had said i want

03:37:41.200 to bring it back to a second you had said that the older nurses are like quote unquote like not as good

03:37:47.760 no desensitized desensitized okay i actually would say rules reversed on that because i worked in

03:37:54.480 icu neuro icu i worked on like inpatient gen surge i think our newer nurses are having a harder time

03:38:03.200 having that empathy but separating it because if you have so much empathy for your patient

03:38:08.880 it does get in the way of patient care you have you make different decisions and the outcomes are

03:38:14.400 different are you taking in the patient's considerations as much or are you pushing on

03:38:18.720 what you think that they should have you you keep them number one the patient if you're super empathetic

03:38:23.920 you keep them number one in their wishes and you'll carry it through to the very end um yeah i just meant

03:38:28.640 older women desensitized but in terms of the uh attending physicians we're talking like they're like

03:38:34.800 old like older they're like older they're not mixed steamy mixed steamy is the residents who are in

03:38:40.640 massive amounts of crippling debt um and no no i can honestly say no never once have i looked at a

03:38:46.800 doctor and thought yes i want that to be my lot of nurses do wait a lot of nurses do you want the

03:38:51.840 doctors oh yeah yeah oh yeah um one of wisconsin okay cool well yeah so you're because i mean you're

03:38:59.760 you said uh you're 20 you're dating what's eight years yep 28 resident yep physician yeah surgeon

03:39:07.520 surgeon yeah um what kind of surgery orthopedic no you don't have to say you don't have to say

03:39:14.240 if it's like yeah yeah that's fine that's fine that's because they'll find out has stated you

03:39:19.040 know what you say as a doctor health care cannon will be used against you in a court of law can't

03:39:23.840 say anything but um like when he goes to work he comes home nurses of course they're hitting on him i

03:39:30.960 kind of like it i'm like okay you're like yeah that's my man yeah i like it and i never worry when he

03:39:36.800 comes home you know i see i have met some of them so wait question does it go down in the janitorial

03:39:43.600 closet no not with you guys i'm not saying you guys but like in a psych hospital yes like do you

03:39:48.640 see like nurses getting it on with you know does it go down it's happened at my nursing home does

03:39:54.080 it go down are they fucking in the old people no it was like with other people yeah

03:40:01.920 it's hard it's hard it depends like the in the psych hospital i know it was happening on night

03:40:08.800 shift that was very evident everybody knew it but um i work day shift and there's not a chance for an

03:40:13.520 rn to walk away from her from her desk there's just not somebody will get attacked we don't have

03:40:17.680 a security so we have to take people to the ground okay yeah it happens okay we have a chat here from

03:40:23.440 grams hey thank you man appreciate it yes nurses are a curse i remember having four nurses in the room

03:40:29.840 while i sponge bathed what when it came to washing my surgery junk i had four nurses just waiting to

03:40:36.320 see me just just to wash my well that is very unfortunate for you i could honestly say that

03:40:43.840 would never be something we would want to watch it's like it was on display yeah that's we don't

03:40:49.600 we don't look at body parts and think that um in a sexual way at all i broke two wrists at the same

03:40:54.960 time once that was hard yeah yeah face again imagine uh dude like you're like looking up

03:41:01.600 what you're you're making like a weird face what was that

03:41:05.600 oh because your eyes get crossed when you try to look yeah your eyes you're crossing your eyes

03:41:09.440 do it again that was funny it's just funny um wait did you did you uh you should just do that

03:41:15.520 throughout the show um yeah she doesn't want to be ready for it she doesn't want to come out

03:41:19.840 she doesn't want to do it what about a call she'll do a call i asked i'm gonna do a call

03:41:26.480 what is she cowardice what is the thing she doesn't want to come on like what's her main

03:41:30.080 she's scheduled to come on too but what's her main gripe that like you know she doesn't

03:41:34.160 but what but what does she most not want to be challenged on the body count

03:41:38.080 it maybe yeah guess what started it yeah yesterday is she good at defending the position

03:41:45.680 um her best friend was talking mostly she was just sitting there but i think that's what

03:41:52.720 yeah the arizona iced tea wasn't enough of uh like those are like a buck each like that's a

03:41:59.040 pretty good deal right i didn't mention the arizona i don't think it's got like 40 grams of

03:42:04.640 high fructose corn syrup they're not down okay um wait so they like are you do you guys have other

03:42:12.480 stuff to do in like la or you pretty much just like came here for this no we've been here since

03:42:18.320 the 20th oh okay yeah yeah i'll leave tomorrow okay so yeah but we did come here for this what if

03:42:25.680 we uh we'll pop a champagne ball for her what about that she down you think or not

03:42:30.800 i can try again i mean if she if she because she's from wisconsin too oh yeah they can like

03:42:39.600 they can talk their language together they can talk their language two wisconsin's and two aussie's

03:42:45.920 that's dangerous and then the fosters i know it would have been fun maybe just a little extra

03:42:52.320 things okay um well basically okay what's what i think we already went over the whole article

03:42:58.080 too does she yeah what does she do cna bottom you'll meet her they'll pick me up you can meet

03:43:03.360 her okay i will bring her up tell her she has to come on because i have to go right to bed

03:43:11.200 basically i think for my understanding was the argument was just like men need to accept women's

03:43:17.120 past and they must be compelled to date women who've had sex with a hundred men previously that's

03:43:24.000 basically your argument um so the first group of girls when i had my first episode that we talked

03:43:29.200 about the 100k but for them they just were more the 100 body count oh the 100 body count yeah like

03:43:34.320 if girls got 100 body count like men are compelled to yeah so they just i think their main point was

03:43:40.240 that it should just be forgiven especially if he is a christian man or she's a christian woman that um

03:43:46.960 it should just be all forgiven and that's the end of the story like just forgive

03:43:50.560 that's it okay yeah so is their position kind of it would be wrong to not date them because of

03:44:01.760 their because of their past it would be so they should be forced they should be compelled to date

03:44:06.560 these women right wait is that actually their position they should be compelled to be a factor

03:44:12.560 in yeah deciding if you should date a woman just because of her body count and i well i also mentioned

03:44:18.240 high value man i didn't like the term high value man i don't like it either but yeah yeah i didn't

03:44:23.440 like well they compared it to huh why well what i was saying is um a man of high standards just

03:44:30.080 wouldn't date someone with a high body count but i consider someone that works at mcdonald's is just

03:44:34.560 like a moral hard-working person right no that's not perfect that's fine do you know what i mean yeah

03:44:38.880 i think that's why the mcdonald's thing was a bit controversial because it's like yeah those are the two

03:44:43.280 four scrolls yeah but like not all values ascribe to money you know what i mean like right and like

03:44:48.560 i've had fuck all money and i've had like unlimited money but like i still feel like i've always had

03:44:51.920 the same morals and the same loyalty and the same ethics and i think that is what high value really

03:44:57.200 is yeah do you know what i mean how many dickheads do we know that have heaps of money yeah but are they

03:45:01.360 high value you know what i mean right so i think that's something to think about yeah true we do

03:45:07.360 have amanda the med tech i work in a lab in wisconsin hospital practice let me pull that up

03:45:12.160 practice what you preach and nothing comes home with you i think all of us healthcare workers in

03:45:15.920 general can be hard to date we see all the weird shit based yeah i mean if they're a travel nurse then

03:45:24.800 it's just like they make lots of money yeah but don't really care um good for them i guess uh

03:45:32.480 david treziak be nice keep nalax smershin one on set what have to go to pool game really if had

03:45:43.120 time want to hear more from the lovely black woman and the lovely black hair girl more by the guy

03:45:49.120 they speak well okay thank you david treziak i'm not sure what is nalax smershin

03:45:55.200 i want to have a clue i have no idea clarifying david treziak uh you want to hear more from the

03:46:04.480 lovely black woman which guy you speak better than me he must be talking about you

03:46:11.760 the guy yeah i think he's he's talking about priya the girl with the guy

03:46:15.520 oh the girl next yeah okay well now now it all makes

03:46:18.000 ask me anything i don't know what the fuck me too ask you anything yes because you know i i

03:46:24.880 like talking about this as well let me see i could go to my notes really quick here for you hold on

03:46:32.000 where is it one sec we're getting there boys we are getting there where are the notes i don't even

03:46:37.920 see anything really wow the uh oh karina okay you said that uh so your current boyfriend is your

03:46:46.240 second boyfriend and you go you so you would during college you'd go on dates each and uh oh

03:46:54.640 and each and every one of those men they would always protect you uh yeah and your choice to not

03:47:01.360 get into a relationship not do uh not be sexual however when it came to females yeah the women your

03:47:10.800 maybe female friends or call not colleagues uh acquaintances around me yeah they were the ones

03:47:16.480 who would always try to pressure you to make you lose your virginity get a boyfriend smoke weed

03:47:22.320 all the things you didn't want to do do you want to talk a bit about that yeah so that has been going

03:47:27.440 on since i was in high school and um it was to the point where like there was this one girl she would

03:47:32.640 trick me and she would be like hey let's go out let's go to the mall and there would be a guy there

03:47:36.880 and she's like oh you know i just want you to have a boyfriend you know it's time you know and um that

03:47:41.360 went on um even in college and i thought it would be different because i'm meeting different girls from

03:47:45.600 different states and all this all this stuff but it didn't and um i told myself i didn't want to have

03:47:51.520 my first boyfriend till i was like 21 so when i did go on dates i would let them know like hey i'm

03:47:56.560 not ready for that i'm too young i'm still a virgin you know and they would respect that and they

03:48:01.520 wouldn't talk about it but if i were to tell females hey you know i don't want to have a boyfriend i want to

03:48:05.840 um i don't know i don't want to have a boyfriend right now i want to remain like i want to stay

03:48:10.320 a virgin they'll be like what no you need to you need to like lose it you need to do this you need

03:48:14.000 to do that and with the weed part i did not want to smoke weed like i i told all of the girls around

03:48:20.080 me um in my dorm don't want to smoke weed so they locked me in their car so i was sitting in the back

03:48:25.440 seat and they were sitting beside me and there was two in the front and they locked the car so and

03:48:30.240 they started smoking me so it was basically a hot box oh my gosh and they and they told me they're

03:48:34.560 like since you don't want to smoke weed we'll just make it like we'll just you just have to

03:48:38.880 i'd smash a window yeah definitely not that's why i always struggled with women because it's hard for

03:48:45.920 me to voice my opinion on what i think about marriage or life or god and they just disagree

03:48:52.000 and they that sort of behavior they put me down i've seen guys do dodgy stuff like that as well and

03:48:57.440 that's the thing like i i was so lucky that the the men that i would speak to you know or so

03:49:03.840 associate myself with they never degraded me on my choices so i was always lucky but females i'm not

03:49:09.280 lucky in well i've i've seen i've seen very similar behavior not necessarily in in my personal life but

03:49:16.480 even just speaking to women a lot of the times it is very much like a peer pressure type of culture with

03:49:21.120 that type of stuff it's very interesting and like i've i've had um like either past like romantic

03:49:28.560 endeavors and um and even just male friends that will be very accepting of those types of values and

03:49:36.320 women tend to be a little bit more pushy on them it's very interesting i've yeah i've seen very

03:49:40.560 similar and it comes from jealousy too because i remember this one female from my high school and i

03:49:45.440 told her i was still a virgin she was like oh that's nice i wish i was still a virgin and yeah

03:49:51.120 she just but she was a little nicer about it but some of them are not yeah it's sad because yeah yeah

03:49:57.200 i think it does come a lot of the times from a place of either ignorance or jealousy yeah um just i

03:50:03.760 think people are at some point able to reflect on their own behavior and realize that it doesn't make

03:50:08.240 them feel good you know and and and when you have engaged in that same behavior and um and uphold

03:50:14.960 yourself to those morals that they maybe they they're not conscious of it but wish that they

03:50:19.600 did they they're very like they feel guilty and they project it in a negative way for sure misery

03:50:24.720 loves company they were really trying to make me like yeah 100 yeah i think that women generally

03:50:30.560 have to be very careful with their friends as well and you see this even with married women as well

03:50:35.200 oftentimes the reason why they will divorce is because they'll have a friendship group who'll be

03:50:40.080 telling her yeah girl you're not happy you're not happy you just need to dump him and you'll be so much

03:50:44.800 happier single and it's just not the case unfortunately and sometimes those are the

03:50:48.880 ones that go to their husbands after which is crazy yeah yeah it's very interesting this um

03:50:55.760 like hate men culture yeah when it comes to women it's even even people that don't proclaim

03:51:01.200 themselves as feminists and maybe they'll they'll say this some sort of statement like um like i just

03:51:07.440 hate men and then they'll be like i don't really hate men it's like well you okay are you a walking

03:51:12.560 contradiction first of all but second of all obviously you're saying that for some sort of

03:51:16.240 reason and i just find it very interesting that a lot of people aren't able to separate like the that

03:51:22.960 person's sex from from their from character their character yeah and like it has they're horrible

03:51:28.320 women out there there's horrible men of course exactly and seek out seek out good relationships

03:51:33.680 whether that be romantic or a friendship i just yeah it's very interesting yeah your own women that

03:51:38.240 say they hate men that also need them for validation absolutely and they seek the most validation from

03:51:43.520 men absolutely yeah how do you guys select for friends i'm interested what are the what are the key

03:51:49.120 criterias god yeah you're only as good as the company you keep um you know girl like you said i i'd

03:51:57.680 prefer people that don't go out a lot um that's just not it doesn't fit with my lifestyle anymore

03:52:03.920 um i enjoy being friends with a lot of people that are in relationships as well or married

03:52:09.840 and of course christians believe in god go to church those kind of things and also females who

03:52:16.000 kind of have the same like goal in their future marriage as me like because i want to be submissive

03:52:22.080 and i want to be like i want to let my husband lead if she starts saying that's ridiculous or that's

03:52:27.280 stupid or that's sounds like you've got a few of these friends to fend off at the moment

03:52:32.160 yeah yeah i i'm a big believer and you you really are a collective of the five people that you hang

03:52:40.160 out with most and i think there's a time and a place for if you if you have a good standard with

03:52:47.600 your morals and whatnot and i think that some people are very called to help people and kind of help

03:52:52.320 shape other people's um beliefs and behaviors but at the same time there has to be some sort of

03:52:58.160 boundary or standard that you set for yourself and how you interact with these people and i have a lot

03:53:04.560 of people like that in my life but um i've i've come to terms and the type of people that they are

03:53:10.880 and the type of friendships or relationships i can have with them and i i i keep a distance when it's

03:53:15.520 appropriate and um yeah yeah it's the smartest thing to do too for our own mental health absolutely

03:53:22.160 female friends can be recruiters unfortunately yes they can i think you will find a more peace in

03:53:28.320 your life too if you're not surrounded by those friends that are um promoting things that you're

03:53:33.920 uh you're you wouldn't necessarily agree with or um you know absolutely it just doesn't bring peace

03:53:39.360 at all because if i want to talk about it there's just going to be like an argument or tension and

03:53:44.960 you know females they hold grudges so it's gonna well it's very hard to cut people off but sometimes

03:53:50.320 that's what's necessary absolutely yeah yeah by the way quick announcements guys for the rest of

03:53:57.120 the show tts is going to be 69 for the remainder of the show tts has been lowered to 69 so if you want

03:54:06.400 get them in

03:54:09.760 get them in boys get them in um let's see here uh i'm just let me just actually double check and make

03:54:17.280 sure i save those settings i think it should be set now so if any of you want to get those in

03:54:21.920 we've lowered that i guess also the base will just be 69 also to read but it's just gonna be tts so

03:54:31.600 i guess read and tts will be 69 dollars i'll get that updated a little here uh did you have more

03:54:38.080 uh grid one motorsports donated 69 dollars women are evil scorpions in a jar they will all fight the

03:54:47.440 one trying to get out of the jar women do not have true friends and why a woman's only real relationship

03:54:54.320 should be with her husband yeah i agree i always say my best friend's my boyfriend yeah

03:55:00.720 i don't think women are evil but i don't think we're inheriting yeah but uh it does seem to be the

03:55:07.760 case like women will like if they are promiscuous they'll like push their female friends to be

03:55:14.160 promiscuous yeah because they like want that uh that they want to feel less guilty of what they're

03:55:21.440 doing yeah they don't want to be the only one they want to be the only one they want their poor

03:55:24.720 decisions to be reaffirmed by knowing that these other women are also engaging in the same behavior

03:55:31.440 as a means to justify their behavior it's literally mental to me like i feel like that's a

03:55:38.000 like oh my god brainwash yeah brainwashing yeah for shizzle i think that's why it's so much easier as

03:55:44.080 like a married woman to have other friends that are married yeah it's kind of your your goals are

03:55:48.720 aligning absolutely yeah i can't wait to be alive that's like my that's always been you and me both

03:55:53.840 girl you're my goal i can't be wait to be a wife also yeah you can wait in wait what you can ask me

03:56:03.360 anything if you have more questions i don't mind oh yeah uh hold on one sec i'm just getting this

03:56:09.760 does anybody here uh give me like a couple minutes to figure out my stuff on the computer uh i'm gonna

03:56:14.880 open it up if anybody has a question or do you girls have any questions for the fellows on the bell

03:56:19.840 good morning at all how do you select someone that you would choose to be your wife yes how long

03:56:27.760 will you wait to propose oh that's a great question that's a great question because i

03:56:33.120 i want to i'm gonna say tune in my boyfriend yeah um select first of all the selection criteria for me

03:56:41.840 i've got my personal things and the first ones obviously have to be a christian it's non-negotiable

03:56:45.600 and then i think that the values tend to stem from that if you guys are plugged into a good

03:56:50.320 church and if you have a good community then that's going to be something that's extremely

03:56:53.600 important obviously she's not going to embarrass me in public i don't want someone to play out

03:56:58.640 obnoxious during the donated sixty nine dollars my inner george costanzo is happy to see that bodyguard

03:57:05.920 got a chair good stream tonight but we need your friends to come in so terry some conflict again

03:57:11.840 you need your friends to come in so there's some conflict again wait who's friends friends oh yeah

03:57:20.640 can they be bought cool can we find them

03:57:28.080 not like for my sexual i know like not not carnal knowledge but just like for the podcast

03:57:34.240 how much longer i can maybe i can we got maybe like another hour hour and a half of the pod cast

03:57:43.680 i'll accident okay can somebody get her phone get a good you can you can wait chat what do you think

03:57:50.240 a hundred bucks is that fair for like an hour to come on for one for one of them we could do both

03:57:55.440 fuck it yeah 100 each fuck it new blood for shizzle uh did you guys yeah so um yeah good values don't

03:58:05.600 embarrass me in public don't be too much don't be obnoxious that's obviously very important um

03:58:11.840 kind sweet nurturing feminine if you've got a past with a lot of guys then that is an absolute no no

03:58:16.800 obviously um and yeah there's also a lot of little things that you look for as well like one of the

03:58:22.800 things that i find very important is if they're in good shape and they're in their 20s do they

03:58:28.000 do they actively exercise and do they enjoy exercise do they cook and do they like cooking nice healthy

03:58:33.280 food

03:58:35.680 stolf 84 donated 69 dollars bless you karina thank you for being authentic and representing yourself well

03:58:44.800 black women are in these spaces too please come back on soon jim stone woman tipping hand female

03:58:52.800 sign love you gesture dancer fire okay she's a great girl you're doing great uh she heard it she said

03:59:02.320 oh yeah oh thank you there it is um yeah so those things if she enjoys cooking and she cooks healthy

03:59:13.520 meals and that's her thing that's really important because it shows that she's actively doing that and

03:59:17.840 that one day she's not just going to you know like blow out though that's pretty important if she's

03:59:22.720 putting those steps in place very early um gosh if if she's always going for this grimnack donated 69

03:59:32.320 bad company corrupts good character look anyone can turn their life to christ from being a 304 but that

03:59:39.280 doesn't mean men have to accept your past yeah absolutely anybody can anybody can turn it around but it

03:59:44.960 takes accountability first of course i won't necessarily even say that i gotta turn the chat

03:59:49.040 off for like 30 seconds your character because look who jesus hung out with just 30 seconds boys yes

03:59:55.360 but that also kind of ties into what i said earlier

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04:00:06.000 sixty nine quadrillion six hundred and ninety six trillion nine hundred and sixty nine billion

04:00:11.920 six hundred and ninety six million nine hundred and sixty nine thousand six hundred and ninety six

04:00:17.920 donated sixty nine dollars it's refreshing to see a bw that is based and not ratchet

04:00:24.160 jake how'd it go with alexa also the cop wife is annoying as she and needs to shut the

04:00:29.760 fuck up okay you guys want to respond or i feel like i need to address it there's um what is he

04:00:39.360 what do you say there was a girl that was sitting next to me on sunday on the podcast and i don't

04:00:43.360 everyone thinks that she was into me but uh nothing happened we finished the podcast up and

04:00:48.640 haven't uh haven't got any news for you unfortunately i wish i had some goss that's it boys that is it that's

04:00:56.560 all there is guys i'm gonna open up the chat in just a sec i was my something's buggy over here um

04:01:02.240 did you have more you know i think that ties into what i said earlier i think especially i mean as

04:01:06.880 as a christian and somebody that strives to be christ-like i feel like it is a bit of a calling for

04:01:12.960 people like myself to help in the end goal is to try and help turn people towards the way of jesus you

04:01:22.080 know and it is important obviously to be around people that you're able to influence in a positive

04:01:27.520 manner but there has to be a line that you draw for yourself so you don't become influenced by those

04:01:32.400 people you know and also and also you can't really compare jesus to normal people because jesus is god

04:01:38.000 and jesus came to the earth for a specific mission and yeah of course but we have to walk the way he

04:01:43.440 walks try our best because we're always going to fail of course yeah but it's not a it's not a fair

04:01:48.000 comparison to say well he walked us he went and dined with the sin so you guys should be and i

04:01:51.760 mean there is a fair case to say that we should be trying to help people as much as we can but uh

04:01:56.800 yeah it's not not a great comparison to jesus i don't know i gotta disagree i think it's pretty good

04:02:03.360 pretty good comparison if we go for it i mean if you sit there and you hang out with people that

04:02:07.600 seem bad or worse off than you or have poor morals or whatever you can be a positive influence

04:02:12.240 you can bring them like you can but you wouldn't want to closer to christ you wouldn't necessarily

04:02:16.160 want to have them in your direct circle though and have them constantly rubbing off on you

04:02:20.240 and i think it's well that's if you really don't have the willpower to control yourself and you

04:02:24.640 allow them to run no i don't know grid one motorsports donated 69 dollars as an unofficial

04:02:31.840 member of the panel what i love about my wife is that she is the only person in my life i have ever

04:02:37.440 missed beauty fates attitudes change we grow old be purposeful in your choice well said yeah

04:02:46.960 no he's a brave and a decent man he's a pioneer thank you good one well i think i think you're

04:02:53.840 confusing the like what we're trying to say a little bit it's not necessarily oh i'm going to hang

04:02:58.720 out with these people it's more like a you you try and be um for lack of better terms a voice of

04:03:08.560 reason a bit in people's life and i mean if if i meet somebody and i may not be friends with them

04:03:13.520 necessarily but if i have a conversation with them and i can i have an opportunity to maybe bring them

04:03:18.800 to church with me one week that's that's like some sort of example you know and and just even having

04:03:24.240 like very casual conversations with people in passing that that's that's sort of what i was

04:03:29.920 getting at at least not necessarily keeping these people in a close-knit friend circle you know i

04:03:34.800 don't think you going out and partying with these people is a good idea you know that's why i said

04:03:40.080 like the self-control and the willpower you don't gotta be like them vash underscore the underscore

04:03:45.040 stampede donated 69 dollars interventional radiologist doc here much love to our health care workers

04:03:52.960 and it makes me happy to see women of value on the pod jesus saves yeah good panel tonight love you

04:03:58.960 adam in a platonic fashion yo vash the stampede thank you for the uh tts man really appreciate it

04:04:05.360 it was a good panel some some solid solid sheilas as the oh man how did you never tell you that one

04:04:14.640 oh just in time we have the legendary stay safe he's a brave and a decent man he's a pioneer

04:04:20.960 stay safe he's a brave and a decent man he's a pioneer i hope you had a great stream over there

04:04:27.920 i were you sunken temple were you rating if you guys don't know stay safe is a world of warcraft

04:04:33.200 streamer and since he does he did rate us i'm gonna ask a world of warcraft

04:04:38.960 dating related questions so going around the table for all the ladies

04:04:42.880 brian's lost sun donated 69 dollars i'll get saw this making some rounds on social media question

04:04:52.160 to the ladies would you rather be stuck in the forest alone with a man or a bear

04:04:57.600 logic is bear can just kill you but man can kill you and our word

04:05:02.400 by the way i did a shout out on twitch for uh stay safe thank you matt for the raid i'll get to the world

04:05:07.040 of warcraft question in just a sec wait so would you rather be stuck in the forest alone with a man

04:05:13.040 or bear wait modest he came a donated 69 dollars all i'm saying that it is predictable that og girl

04:05:21.040 number two started crying and left the show after i pointed she wasn't top one percent off

04:05:26.880 was that really her bf in the background and not the whatever bodyguard

04:05:30.880 doesn't bring him into it number two started crying and left the show after a point she wasn't

04:05:35.600 top one percent of of actually you know what it's totally modest akama's fault you are he's a brave and

04:05:42.400 a decent man he's a pioneer but yeah man i think you're maybe not to blame like maybe you take the

04:05:49.600 credit you're taking the credit for the walk off do you think that was it he he said she wasn't in

04:05:56.880 top one percent on of and i think that just like she couldn't handle the blow to the ego so she just

04:06:01.920 like had to get out totes i think she didn't want to delete her social wait just to be fair to brian's

04:06:08.080 lost son here so i think we can answer the quite you guys can answer the question though so would you

04:06:12.960 rather be stuck in the forest alone with a man or a bear bear man bear man man man yeah man wait so you

04:06:22.720 said did you guys say yeah no i couldn't say yeah well it doesn't it doesn't say they do it says they

04:06:30.400 can oh i think the but the bear is probably more likely to actually do it yeah whereas what if the

04:06:37.360 man's friendly what if he's friendly ben george donated 69 dollars i already spent over 69 dollars

04:06:44.800 tonight i think i'm an idiot any thoughts on female teachers being arrested in record numbers for essay on

04:06:52.160 boys students we'll get to the world of warcraft thing in just a sec here but uh any thoughts on

04:06:59.280 i mean yeah i guess there is a disproportionate amount of women who are teachers who are uh engaging

04:07:07.760 in carnal knowledge with their students what's the question like yeah they should be so just the

04:07:14.560 thoughts i'm sure yeah like yeah do you think they should be um what the

04:07:18.880 rape is you guys see the shit wait chat do you see this fucking shit look at this shit

04:07:24.800 is that the thing we cut do you see this fucking shit boys the fuck is this

04:07:30.000 it grew back oh my god damn i need a haircut it's starting to get it's too long we cut it off

04:07:35.760 wait oh this is okay barber question for the chat and stay safe viewers and the the panel boys um

04:07:42.720 is isn't the barber supposed to like clean his tools after each and every haircut you'd hope so

04:07:49.920 like they're supposed to spray their like trimmers even if they drop it on the floor

04:07:53.440 i kind of like i maybe i'm not paying attention but i think like

04:08:03.120 like do you guys like pay attention to that i'm pretty sure like if you go to your barber like and

04:08:08.960 he's finishing up a haircut i don't think i've ever seen him like any barber i've been to not just

04:08:16.240 one particular i've never seen them sanitize tools between cuts they're like maybe they'll broom a bit

04:08:22.400 and then they're just like put the next person in the seat do you guys know what like is that

04:08:28.240 like have you ever seen i've never seen a barber spray down their clippers after a cut

04:08:36.320 have i've never seen it they could also have multiple sets of like clippers

04:08:41.760 that some are clean some are used so now i'm like been hesitating no what the fuck what the

04:08:49.360 the fuck maddie no i've been like has i've been delaying on getting a haircut because i'm like

04:08:54.400 i'm a germaphobe and i'm like how about you just call the barber ahead of time and be like hey

04:08:59.120 that wouldn't that be rude like no to what you don't you don't clean your

04:09:04.160 shit no just say just call them out of them not to clean it just call them you have a sickness in

04:09:09.120 that you like really can't deal with any germs so they have their cd i don't know what to do

04:09:14.960 just call them up and say you want high value clippers and the clippers that are

04:09:18.880 clipping other men what if i can i bring in my own clippers yeah oh do you think you're fine with

04:09:22.880 it film it yo are there any barbers in the chat wait pull up pull that up pull that

04:09:27.280 shit up yeah go to a good barber no i think even like legit like normal barbers they don't be

04:09:32.960 cleaning their shit i think they they're slacking i think they start slacking how about you just call

04:09:38.320 a barber and ask if they do okay is it would it be uh chat chat um what uh are there any barbers in

04:09:47.440 the chat be honest do you clean your shit after every single cut be honest i've never seen them do

04:09:54.320 that shit maybe they'll put the comb in barbicide yeah they'll put the comb and scissors in barbicide

04:10:00.400 but they're not cleaning the clippers they're not spraying down the clippers i think i have seen them

04:10:04.640 like put the clippers in barbicide as well no and i'll get like uh i'm not like going to the cheapo

04:10:10.320 barber i'm getting like a decent i'm going with a good barber i'm not going to like the backwoods

04:10:15.600 behind the dumpster barber how about you just call anonymously and just say hey this is you guys

04:10:26.640 here's my question though would it be disrespectful to be like because like oh can i bring in my own

04:10:31.520 clippers i'll buy my own pair of clippers they're gonna be like i wouldn't they feel like that's

04:10:35.920 disrespectful no no and brian also why do you care bro it's not actually disrespectful and if they

04:10:42.080 think that's kind of a them problem i get that's true that's a fair point to you if they're using

04:10:46.960 dirty i don't know they got scissors around me bro i don't want to get stabbed oh my gosh brian

04:10:52.640 i'm just saying you know that's why that's why i haven't gotten a haircut it's a bit dramatic okay

04:10:56.960 wait wait guys world of warcraft really quick we lost all the stay safe fucking peeps wait lower

04:11:01.600 that a little bit all right so yo stay safe thank you for the ray brother those of you who are even

04:11:06.720 still here you're probably not but question for the ladies would you date a guy who plays world of

04:11:16.560 warcraft for 10 hours a day but he's not like he's not a casual like he's he's a top one percenter

04:11:28.960 in world of warcraft like he pumps in all the raids molten core blackwing lair aq 40 uh nax ramus

04:11:37.280 he's in a hardcore raiding guild he's got alts

04:11:41.680 i think that would drive me crazy i'd get bored

04:11:46.240 is this like so so would you date would you date him though but like he's really good at the game

04:11:51.360 like he's he's super sweaty with the game like and he ranked i don't i don't like he's super sweaty

04:11:56.960 no not like literally no it's like for the passion

04:12:03.440 i don't know boost the audio 69 dollars brian your security guard looks like he could stare

04:12:10.240 the racism out of a kkk member i hope he's a trump supporter we need more men like him

04:12:16.480 and everyone was speechless

04:12:23.840 what it is sad that no one can really just come out he actually is a kkk member nothing right

04:12:31.040 wait was that that's funny right no is that not funny is it nothing donated

04:12:34.880 i'm sorry i'm autistic my bad imma chick who played classic wow beta 06 top alliance skilled

04:12:41.200 pulling 10 to 18 hour days and in grand marshal pvp teams i had a huge thing for raid leaders

04:12:47.920 ladies get yourself rl slash mount ps gustavo is a 10. oh oh

04:12:54.240 that b yeah i mean the great thing if like you're dating a guy who's a main tank like he's just gonna

04:13:00.960 like funnel all the loot to him you know what i mean like he's just funnel the funnel the

04:13:09.280 funnel the loot funnel the loot like he's okay think about it you're going into molten core he's

04:13:14.400 gonna take weapons maybe if he's like really serious about tanking he's gonna go daggers right

04:13:19.440 he's gonna take perdition's blade he's gonna take core hound tooth you know he's gonna take uh let's

04:13:24.880 see i don't think he takes qsr like quick strike ring but i do think he's gonna take what's the ring

04:13:30.480 that drops from ragnaros fuck what's it called oh shit he's gonna take onslaught girdle yeah for

04:13:37.120 sure he's definitely taking onslaught girdle

04:13:39.120 heart break h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h h

04:13:52.400 habil match my sprinkler goes like this

04:13:57.680 and comes back like this and the librarian goes sh s s s

04:14:03.920 SHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHSHS

04:14:08.680 Scuff.

04:14:09.180 Scuff.

04:14:11.500 Gustavo's Sexy Toast donated $69.

04:14:16.340 Question for the ladies.

04:14:18.040 With women being more vocal than ever

04:14:19.940 and protesting for certain rights,

04:14:22.240 why are there little to no females in the streets

04:14:24.880 marching for two-way rights?

04:14:27.880 Second Amendment rights.

04:14:29.160 I would be happy to hit the streets

04:14:30.840 and march for Second Amendment rights.

04:14:32.440 more vocal than ever in process why are there little male females in the streets

04:14:36.980 i mean but what is like the i'm in favor of second amendment

04:14:42.680 david toz etchiak donated 69 dollars shout out to all the woman and men on the panel to engage

04:14:51.180 in debate what are your signs and do you believe in astrology i may a fish but don't believe

04:14:57.640 respect also to bodyguard respect to all did they say they're a fish yeah respect to the bodyguard

04:15:07.480 this sign yo chat i want to ask the chat nick could you pull up the chat actually before you

04:15:11.380 pull up the chat guys uh if you're new on twitch from stay safe drop us a follow drop us a little

04:15:19.120 follow on twitch stay safe against again thank you for the raid over there on twitch drops a follow

04:15:24.240 and a prime sub if you have one guys we almost have 2 000 followers guys madison over there

04:15:29.860 madison the girl in the helmet she's gonna start very soon she's gonna start streaming twitch.tv

04:15:36.400 slash whatever on off days so make sure you hit that follow button guys so you can catch her

04:15:41.400 fucking pwning noobs in world of warcraft stay safe is gonna power level her through like uh

04:15:47.420 are you madison you playing hoarder lines horde yeah of course so you know uh wailing caverns

04:15:55.760 the one in orgrimmar i forgot the name he's gonna power level her get her like up to 50 real quick

04:16:01.740 she's gonna be in sunken temple within like a week or two boys she's gonna be like pumping like parsing

04:16:06.540 right like you're a fucking parser like madison like when she puts her mind to it she like goes

04:16:12.480 fucking hardcore so she's gonna be like parsing the shit out of sucking sunk sunk in it's called

04:16:20.980 sunken temple it's the current raid in world of warcraft that sounded so bad it's called sunken

04:16:28.260 temple sorry i have a lisp or some shit i don't know i can't speak um oh a picture of zaryu

04:16:34.080 he's got a wife is that disrespectful i don't know uh nah nah we shouldn't do we could we could

04:16:42.840 do stay safe though nah let's do as wait asmond gold we're gonna do that asmond gold really quick

04:16:48.800 nick can you pull up asmond gold we're gonna see if the girls would date asmond gold but did anyone

04:16:53.780 have any further thoughts on like the second amendment thing like wait really quick for gustavo

04:16:58.060 sex sexy toes uh are gun rights in fear like would you date a guy who legally owned a firearm

04:17:04.420 yeah i have a firearm oh okay yeah yeah yeah yes yeah absolutely hopefully um wait does he get to

04:17:16.260 take his is it called a service weapon uh gun service gun he's like takes that with him everywhere

04:17:22.020 right yes okay uh yes ladies would you date this man he's a good friend of mine scroll down a little

04:17:29.240 bit so they don't see the clout uh okay this is my good friend zach he's a fucking legend like super

04:17:38.460 giga chad um he mostly plays warrior he's like kind of hesitant with classic right now but like i think

04:17:47.920 he's doing a little bit you know so understandable he's got he also has an axe like i don't know if

04:17:51.920 you saw that shit but uh so going around the table like would you date him yes or no

04:17:55.680 uh no no like if you're single you know no maybe maybe no i think um video games are a red flag

04:18:07.160 okay priya no sorry you wouldn't date him no i can get you i'm sure he's a lovely person

04:18:12.140 you sure let me let me at least do an intro okay i'm sure okay i'm sure he's a lovely person but no

04:18:17.680 not for me whoa gustavo this lady's sugar mama what the heck uh good times good times uh was there

04:18:28.760 another one that came through i forgot uh hold on and then pull pull back up the thing have has it

04:18:34.040 been hidden we don't even answer the world of warcraft yeah you didn't really ask that oh i didn't ask

04:18:41.360 it what was it i don't know keep it keep this up as much as you can oh would you date a guy that

04:18:46.020 played for like 10 hours a day blah blah so shizzle what

04:18:52.400 so would you date a guy who played world of warcraft for 10 hours a day but he was like

04:18:59.820 main tank and he was just funneling all the loot to himself did you answer already yeah i answered

04:19:04.300 by the way like be bored and go crazy and he's like a good main tank so like i don't think you

04:19:08.700 realize how valuable a main tank is if it's his occupation yes if it's a side hobby no passion

04:19:14.560 project band of a curia that's the ring from ragnaros like obviously he's hard reserving that

04:19:21.860 yeah the ends know what he's talking about band of a curia streamers would be loving it

04:19:27.360 the twitch crowd i'd love it yeah didn't you tell him a question was ziz because you've got ziz there

04:19:33.840 right yeah so into the mic because you've got a photo of a good yes family friend oh yeah we

04:19:40.720 should put that up yeah yeah so his brother is also a very close friend of mine oh uh chess bra

04:19:45.260 chess bra yeah he was on he was on our podcast the other week oh nice yeah yeah but it's funny

04:19:49.520 because you know those boys were gamers as well yeah yeah so we all used to train at the same gym and

04:19:54.360 i go i'm sure yeah it's legit and i go and play well you know you knew did you meet ziz not like

04:19:58.840 as a friend but more as like um you know gym bro culture where it's just you wink and you nod and

04:20:02.700 you're like can i get a spot sort of thing but it was like wild days man i was there on the misc

04:20:07.240 on the what on the misc what's the miss you don't know the miss no what's the miss you don't know the

04:20:10.980 miss are you aware i'm here i'm here to be educated aware me you're not aware i'm not aware oh the

04:20:16.740 misc is like where ziz kind of started off getting some some of his like fame message boards or

04:20:21.640 something it was like a it was the bodybuilding.com message board it's called the misc it's basically

04:20:26.100 like where people who were like into bodybuilding or whatever would just like fucking just post about

04:20:32.200 i don't know just like really like shit posting shit posting good shit poster bro yeah yeah that's

04:20:36.600 where he got that's where actually this is and i was i was on there a little bit what oh so you're

04:20:41.420 back on the message i was there when ziz was posting did you see some of the dms and be like um

04:20:45.840 like sorry i could not lower myself to someone who would damn me in such a fashion

04:20:49.380 for i am so aesthetic that it would lower my status if i were to respond to such a message

04:20:54.440 yeah you've seen those ones yeah i'll link you up you'd love having his brother on you bro

04:20:59.840 his name is sage shiversian shout out to sage shiversian actually i think i reached out to

04:21:06.200 him like a year ago bro you'd love to he'd be such a good you guys would get along so well

04:21:09.740 to be fair you probably talk about fucking video games the whole time world of warcraft yeah i'll just

04:21:14.200 ignore the girls the entire show uh yeah so i'd be super down to have him on so if he's ever in

04:21:20.180 cali let's let's run it i'll hook it up let's do it he's with bradley martin the other day oh hell

04:21:24.760 yeah nice nice nice no i'm gonna i'm gonna make rest in peace rest in peace yeah man rips can we

04:21:29.520 get rips in the chat for ziz ziz rip to the legacy rips in the chat by the generation you guys myron

04:21:35.960 generation of chads you guys myron oh yeah no they're myron everyone here's what bro thank you for

04:21:40.280 saying myron can we get like a double like a double bicep fuck myron jake what about you i don't even

04:21:46.440 care about other people i'm mine for myself fuck bro you just got to disregard everyone and just

04:21:51.180 acquire muscles really that's the key to life based the girl the girls have no idea what we're talking

04:21:58.340 because they're myron that's why are you guys myron myron are you myron has aesthetics oh admiring

04:22:04.260 yeah yeah i thought you were saying myron no yeah like what the fuck is myron you just got to

04:22:07.860 acquire people can be myring are you myron has aesthetics it's it's fine if you're not like i

04:22:13.060 can like are you myron ourselves not myron okay god this is the best chat ever i love this i could do

04:22:18.820 this all day uh sweet that's the best let me get through some of my other notes here got a little

04:22:26.420 bit we have uh uh okay uh karina uh let's see you said you'd like to talk about why the majority of

04:22:36.880 females these your words not mine why the majority females are so fake liars and just out to ruin the

04:22:42.140 man's life basically your words not mine honestly and you said you have lots of life examples yes so

04:22:48.820 like for example i had um this one girl in college well okay so honestly starting in middle school

04:22:55.260 um i've had i've heard females say oh i'm just gonna have i'm just gonna make this guy like me

04:23:00.840 and then when he likes me i'm just gonna dump him and then i've had females say like oh i'm just gonna

04:23:05.180 marry rich man so i don't have to work and i just do whatever i want and then i've had um another

04:23:10.960 female say oh i'm just gonna save all my money and then i'm just gonna spend all of his like

04:23:15.500 could i could i be so bold as to tell you an even more terrible story that will give you shivers to

04:23:20.100 your bones so one of my closest closest mates we call friends made sinistra he got with this girl

04:23:26.060 um a couple years ago she baby trapped him do you guys know what that is yeah yeah yeah yeah so he's

04:23:33.060 basically in this uh and i didn't even know this was a real thing and i happen to bring this up as a

04:23:37.220 topic but i didn't know domestic violence towards men was a real thing but she would escalate so she'd

04:23:42.080 test i get away with spitting so it's like yelling and i get away with yelling so

04:23:45.460 i start hitting i get away with hitting so i'll start smashing his property and it got so bad

04:23:49.880 that what i just mentioned that's not even the worst thing one day she's because he's like i can't

04:23:54.080 take the abuse anymore he's like i'm gonna leave and she goes if you fucking leave i'm gonna call

04:23:58.040 the police and say that you beat me up and then he goes he stayed for a bit he stayed and he left

04:24:02.620 and then she called the police the police came to this guy's house and she's like i just wanted

04:24:07.800 to scare him and they're like well someone's got to go to jail and she had

04:24:10.860 taken to jail bender the offender donated 69 went to jail i've recently been thinking about

04:24:17.740 religion and if it is right for my mother was a mispartarian my uncle is catholic i'm not sure

04:24:24.660 what the distinctions are but my uncle has been married for 50 years

04:24:29.280 you should you should go orthodox bro bender the offender go check out andrew wilson he'll convert

04:24:42.040 you good to see you in the chat bender the offender bro it's you know go to mass with your uncle

04:24:48.060 explore it it's a good idea um but yeah that's actually i mean um sorry it's sort of darken your

04:24:53.040 souls with that story it's disgusting but i think it highlights the thing that a lot of people aren't

04:24:56.560 aware that exists because a lot of people don't think that domestic abuse can happen to men it's

04:25:01.180 never happened to me so i've been naive to it but like the level to which this guy went through

04:25:05.840 and he and he stayed strong the whole time but i'm like what were you thinking about when you're

04:25:09.640 sitting in prison and this monster's just sitting home laughing at you and then he goes home he goes

04:25:15.700 home to his own house and he's got a bed on the floor she goes sleep on the floor now i think females

04:25:20.360 these days have too much power and they weaponize their hoo-ha and they weaponize their kids and they

04:25:26.020 use it against men all the time i think because evil can come in any sex race religion right but

04:25:31.820 i think this highlights a specifically not talked about type of evil that just so happens to be a

04:25:38.100 woman you know what i mean but it's shocking it's shocking like so many females they literally will

04:25:42.900 say oh if you leave me then you won't ever see your kid she said that to him as well and she's doing

04:25:47.860 it right now and not only that she was financially abusing him because he went between jobs she goes i'm not

04:25:52.480 going to pay the rent so you default on your mortgage and he's like oh can you please not do

04:25:56.360 that and she goes if you leave me not only am i going to put you in jail but then i'm going to

04:25:59.880 take your kid and she was so evil she goes you can't even afford a lawyer no he needs to start

04:26:04.820 recording her it's funny you mentioned that yeah i got a little bit of it that's smart i told him to

04:26:10.260 do that and now he started recording okay good but i didn't realize how dangerous like you know

04:26:15.020 gone girl that movie if anyone's seen that oh man this girl makes that girl look sane yeah so like

04:26:20.540 that's why like my whole like from middle school i've heard thank you for sharing that oh thank

04:26:25.660 you for listening i just feel bad for like darkening your souls all these beautiful people in here and

04:26:30.600 i pour like acid on your brains with this disgusting story so i get very passionate about this topic as

04:26:35.720 you can see you know what i mean to add to that when it comes to relationships i mean there's this idea

04:26:41.120 in like society that men are like these all-powerful creatures but like women have i would argue when it

04:26:47.880 comes to like the relationship dynamic can have a insane amount of leverage over a man and wield and

04:26:56.460 wield a lot of power over men especially if you introduce marriage and children i honestly think

04:27:04.400 like you know you could say if they're uh they're not married and there's no children it's maybe equal

04:27:10.780 but but i mean once children get involved once you're married then like the the power dynamic

04:27:16.340 absolutely switches and i think like for guys like you and me for example and i just want to put this

04:27:21.520 in perspective i think we're fortunate because we're surrounded by hundreds of people right hundreds

04:27:27.120 of talents so we get to see the best and the worst of humanity at scale through hundreds of people

04:27:31.680 right so when you're looking for a partner and when i'm looking for a partner we know based off data

04:27:36.180 statistics we've seen the worst and how bad it can get and we can look for those flags but

04:27:40.920 unfortunately and i think this is credit to your podcast like this gives the audience insight into

04:27:47.040 a lot of the bullshit that we see in real life like how many times have you had a talent manager

04:27:51.360 try fuck you over or a talent who tries flake on a podcast or someone who doesn't want to pay money

04:27:56.120 that they're supposed to pay or someone who says oh i had so much fun and then shit talks you on the

04:28:00.580 internet like this is real and we see it hundreds of times and i think the problem is and this is how

04:28:05.160 this gentleman got trapped in this abusive relationship he said to me he goes liam i didn't even know that

04:28:10.600 female domestic abuse was a thing he goes my whole life i've had good parents i've kept to

04:28:14.900 myself i work my job he hasn't seen the evils that we've seen through just human exposure you know

04:28:21.340 what i mean and so because of his like naivety this poor guy sitting in a jail cell and he's getting

04:28:27.000 his kid taken away and he's getting abused every day and by the way this is five years he's gone with

04:28:33.120 this i'd rather be in jail yeah hang out with your buddies you know what i mean play basketball

04:28:38.480 yes he's stabbing here and there you get and also you get a bed in jail he doesn't even have a bed

04:28:45.620 yeah you know what i mean i think it got worse i think it got worse after like the me too movement

04:28:50.320 and everything i mean women can yeah harm themselves and she knows that again and then five years ago

04:28:54.780 and and it also uh not not only is it uh women hold children against men but it's hard enough for men

04:29:02.360 just to fight for their own rights for their own kids um we preemptively um like uh one of there was

04:29:08.620 a family member who notified the police because she already did one false accusation they said listen

04:29:12.500 we just want to put on record we think she's going to do it again we don't know what it's going to be

04:29:16.220 and then this is how scary it got they even said like if anything happens and he's murdered they're

04:29:21.400 like we want you to know that it was her because the domestic violence was that bad that they had to put

04:29:26.920 it on record so there's a police officer in australia in this suburb with a note of record

04:29:31.820 that says if this man either gets arrested or if he's murdered it was this woman yeah her name's

04:29:37.600 vanessa by the way yeah that's her last name i mean you know what's interesting though like fuck it

04:29:42.840 that's the benefit of not giving a fuck you know what i mean she can't sue me

04:29:46.660 scott donated 70 dollars so brian appreciate everything you do and from carly out of all states thank you

04:29:53.840 scott to the guys do you always share your pro-masculine views even at family functions

04:29:59.100 or workplace most men are scared too i take my shirt off and flex in front of my family

04:30:04.200 yeah on purpose yeah uh so they're married well this is uh i mean this is my workplace so

04:30:12.280 yeah i'm sharing it here but i i avoid any sort of political conversations generally when it comes

04:30:17.800 to family and friends but uh if somebody wants to go at it and if somebody wants to prod me because

04:30:22.660 when they find out what i do that i'm a content creator and then i talk about culture and politics

04:30:26.420 people go at you and go at you and my strategy is you hit as hard as you get hit so if somebody

04:30:31.600 wants to come at me then by all means we can do it yeah did you guys see that oh no you can go ahead

04:30:36.900 oh i was just gonna say but i think all of us like i mean entrepreneur world entrepreneurs we all have

04:30:43.120 our own business going so we have a bit more leeway to be able to talk about these things we have a bit

04:30:49.260 more uh insulation but i mean for your normal guy who's like working in an office job absolutely

04:30:56.000 never talk about this shit yeah for your own sake also in school don't talk about it don't if you've

04:31:02.160 got a liberal professor just grit your teeth and just get through the class it's not going to be worth

04:31:07.340 it to get into some back and forth with them don't argue with your professors over feminism or you know

04:31:13.240 um you know any of the bullshit that they're potentially uh you know uh propaganda that

04:31:19.420 they're peddling it's not worth it get your degree get out of college if you want to get into the world

04:31:24.500 and talk about it oh even then if you end up in a corporate job never bring the shit up in a corporate

04:31:29.100 world it's just it's just going to bite you in the ass so if you're in like a maybe in a construction

04:31:35.560 job or something maybe there you can talk about it with your colleagues but i don't think you should

04:31:40.300 be talking like any sort of uh men's rights or uh pro pro masculine stuff or uh anti-feminist shit

04:31:48.900 uh just for the sake of your livelihood to protect yourself from getting fired or from people in the

04:31:56.400 corporate world trying to angle you out and get you fired or make up some bullshit thing like toxic

04:32:00.860 you know i don't even know but uh you wanted to come in on something yeah i know i was just saying

04:32:06.300 like from the other conversation we had like that's why i have so much empathy for men like did you

04:32:10.800 guys see that um one uh wedding video where like the bride refused to say like say a part of her

04:32:17.520 vows where she was like he was like oh you need to obey and she's like obey you didn't see that no no

04:32:23.660 it was crazy like she refused to finish her not say yeah she wouldn't say obey your husband and

04:32:28.820 who is this is six hundred and ninety six sextillion nine hundred and sixty nine quintillion six hundred

04:32:36.340 and ninety six quadrillion nine hundred and sixty nine trillion what's your rating again and ninety

04:32:41.640 six billion nine hundred and sixty nine million six hundred ninety six thousand nine hundred and sixty

04:32:48.040 nine donated 69 dollars pink hair two maddie the baddie seven ebony queen 7.5 three baby daddy trainwreck one

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04:33:02.500 and also just to further interrupt more,

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04:33:26.620 You wanted to comment on something?

04:33:27.800 no no i forgot what i was gonna oh okay sorry the tts no it's okay

04:33:33.560 we were talking about the woman that refused to obey oh yeah she uh she refused to say that i

04:33:41.300 think that's just crazy like they some females they really don't understand the meaning of

04:33:47.220 obey yeah in a marriage it's not um you're not it makes sense to me the terms have been so skewed

04:33:54.600 yeah so skewed in terms of like obey like obeying your husband and submission to your husband

04:33:59.300 everyone thinks that it's either dark or sexual florida dave donated 69 dollars bro have the

04:34:06.740 girls rate if they prefer certain trades men example plumber equals works with poo vomiting face

04:34:13.800 electrician equals sparky doesn't sweep floors a c-tech equals always working to keep you cool

04:34:20.700 cool face cool face that's what i was thinking so would uh would you guys so is that you want me to

04:34:29.980 ask if they would date a blue collar worker yeah is that the question i don't know i didn't understand

04:34:36.820 that he said something about rating too i don't know uh okay we'll just go around the table i'm

04:34:41.700 gonna have to take a bit of leeway with your question here uh would you date a blue collar

04:34:46.320 worker yeah yes yeah of course yeah yeah yes absolutely okay rock and roll did you pull that

04:34:54.400 one up from uh just just get yeah uh where were we oh i actually i had a question going around the

04:35:04.420 table this is totally non sequitur who is the primary victim of war men or women i've got a good answer

04:35:15.480 to this one wait you can scoot your mic a little this way uh i'd say nobody wins or everybody's a

04:35:25.460 victim well okay but hold on let me i'll restate it so

04:35:28.560 who is the primary victim of war men or women

04:35:35.320 you literally said it just the same because you didn't answer the question i thought who's the

04:35:43.400 victim of war right the primary victim primary victim which group suffers more everybody i don't

04:35:49.000 think any more less than another okay let me let me give you a specific war then what about the

04:35:54.080 ukraine war that's currently the current conflict who's the primary victim of the ukraine war men or

04:35:59.220 women seems like it's everybody like the it's the soldiers dying there's men dying there's women

04:36:03.980 dying there's children dying who who can can i give you a nuanced view of this which sex is

04:36:09.240 consistent i know what you're getting at men are more statistically likely to get slaughtered on the

04:36:13.960 front line but a lot of those men leave behind women so it's kind of like do you know what i mean

04:36:19.260 i think it's probably worse too is it what it's probably oh wasn't it though that's what i feel like

04:36:24.880 it is statistically though isn't it aren't they on the front line yeah yeah it made sense when you said

04:36:28.940 rito please donated 69 dollars karina is a based queen with great hair also rare to see the entire

04:36:37.180 panel be on the same page with most of the topics i've never seen a more men supportive panel yes brian

04:36:43.720 ask the bowing question i don't think we have the video pulled up but uh we can definitely do that

04:36:51.160 nick you might have to go into the i don't know where it is we lost the bow video oh wait it's just

04:36:57.680 a dropbox folder top of the folder it's called god i have time can i say something about the ukraine

04:37:06.000 it's called asian housewife please yeah so um it's called asian housewife go ahead in terms of that

04:37:12.940 topic um oh boy stochastic decay donated 69 dollars hey brain sorry i'm late long day man it was hard

04:37:23.620 to feel sympathy for the pothead after she was so flippant about home wrecking anyway panel please rate

04:37:30.820 your intelligence on a scale of zero to 200 okay so we'll do this then we'll go to the bow video then

04:37:36.420 jake has a question or a statement um rate your intelligence on scale of zero to 200 starting with

04:37:42.800 uh book smart maybe 100 oh my god real trump donated 69 dollars for the crocodile dundees i could only

04:37:52.960 imagine dating in australia not only do you have to deal with modern females but every living creature

04:37:59.740 tries to kill you including kangaroos yeah so dating in australia is the worst dating market i've ever seen

04:38:06.940 really there's a few reasons for this and you might be you might have a similar opinion but

04:38:10.960 a lot of australian guys are chads we have a massive blue collar industry in australia so guys

04:38:16.940 who work as plumbers electricians carpenters in the mine they all earn really good money normally they

04:38:21.820 stay in good shape and then so i think the level of man is very high in australia and you very often

04:38:27.160 see guys who are of a very high value dating girls who are just not up to the standard yet the girls

04:38:31.840 still have this massive expectation if i was a single female and i was attractive and had nice values

04:38:37.880 i would go to australia because you will find a really really top quality guy and there's the

04:38:43.740 competition is not very good over there passport ladies past passport ladies yeah 100 yeah the

04:38:49.900 sisters but you're wrong that like australian guys do look after themselves and there is a higher

04:38:54.060 um level of statistically discretionary income in australia so yeah that's true you think part of

04:38:59.840 it's maybe the accent too like the girls like the accent the australian girls don't really uh well

04:39:04.560 they know any different but oh as in dating foreign girls yeah i guess that's true yeah i actually try

04:39:10.640 and like date crocodiles and kangaroos well i think i think like kind of the uh people think it's weird

04:39:16.880 but i don't and also just in terms of the dangerous anonymous donated 69 dollars my wife had a

04:39:25.540 removed from our wedding vows she filed for divorce a couple of months ago after 15 years of marriage

04:39:32.480 i'm a living the simp dream and won the feminist lottery keep it trill

04:39:37.440 15 years oh ouch wow just about australia though yes um you guys are often very you guys are often

04:39:47.820 very quick to say that australia is so dangerous you guys have crocodiles and you have snakes and

04:39:52.300 spiders stay away from the places where the crocodiles are and you won't get eaten snakes

04:39:56.720 you'd have to step on one very unlikely not many people die from it anyway same with spiders

04:39:59.880 the only one we really have to worry about is drop bears yeah drop bears are the worst do you want

04:40:04.160 to tell them about them you could be walking down the street boom yeah they'll get you straight away

04:40:09.480 that's the only one you really have to worry about but um how many deaths do we have from drop

04:40:13.240 bears last year oh man thousands yeah yeah yeah but you guys have there yeah tell them about the

04:40:18.400 drop bears they come you guys have mountain lions and you guys have like bears oh drop bears are

04:40:23.240 just bears that hang out in the tree and then when people walk underneath they'll drop they drop down

04:40:27.020 and they just rip you like rip your neck yeah wait what yeah yeah yeah wait what it sounds like

04:40:31.140 what's the three thousand like a year dead no no it's it's a direct it's like a cousin of a brown

04:40:36.580 bear but they hang out in the trees and then when people and they'll drop no they'll drop

04:40:40.140 no fucking way this is my dad was killed by one right it's not oh dude i looked it up this is

04:40:49.960 real bro yeah man why have we never ever heard they're the worst wait are you guys telling me

04:40:54.560 you've never heard of a drop bear you gotta google it off this podcast it'll go viral i promise you

04:40:58.920 oh my god bro put clip it and put um americans finally learn the truth about drop bears yeah

04:41:04.580 promise you holy shit so this is i'm it's like our vietnam i'm i'm shocked you there's videos on

04:41:10.780 twitter wait wait what's the thing with the the the like you guys had a war with the fucking birds

04:41:16.840 yeah they're worse than the drop bears honestly people people have to ride their bikes right and

04:41:22.980 they have helmets on with big spiky things around because magpies you and they'll come and attack

04:41:27.080 no it wasn't magpies you guys literally had a war wait hold on let me that guy slingshot donated

04:41:32.100 69 dollars the emu looks starting from the right 10.1 9.7 8.3 5.6 of 6.2 6.7 9.4 sorry guys i

04:41:47.120 don't rate dudes lol wait nick could you google the emo emu emu war emu war

04:41:53.020 this was an emu war how many animal wars have you guys had listen those emus are scary

04:42:00.300 i know that they are but i'm just telling them how safe it is but we forgot about the drop bears

04:42:04.500 wait i do i do want to we did uh get a bunch and uh okay this was 1932 uh it was a buddy it was a

04:42:18.180 military operation undertaken in australia over the later part of 1930 to address public concern

04:42:24.920 over the number damn bro you fucked that emu up scroll down scroll down that emu would have been

04:42:30.380 talking shit at the top of these battlefield photos holy shit scroll down bro wait scroll back up

04:42:35.640 scroll back up scroll back up who are the primary victims of the emu

04:42:38.880 900 wait 986 emos confirmed killed

04:42:45.880 bro it executed

04:42:48.600 it was it was it was it was it was 20 000

04:42:53.380 no scope it was uh that's crazy they were out there catching bodies scroll down

04:42:58.820 look at that guy he's an emu killer what the fuck that's a fucking war criminal dude

04:43:09.060 we have a fucking war criminal we have a statue of him in town square in australia

04:43:13.060 fucking take that shit down yeah yeah yeah scroll down they disregarded the geneva convention

04:43:17.300 keep scrolling keep scrolling he freed us from the emus

04:43:22.020 another war criminal yeah there had to be this is good education scroll down yeah okay that's cool

04:43:26.820 like i'm glad see i'm glad is that emo person that's real yeah yeah uh i do we a bunch came in

04:43:34.060 and there were a couple questions in there so lambda sky donated 70 lambda sky aussies are cool

04:43:41.020 jake seems like a good principal guy brian is spot on with his views on modern dating and marriage

04:43:47.300 unfortunately i am almost makes me want to get back out there oh priya

04:43:53.920 lambda sky thanks lambda sky do you priya do you want to you know you want to you know

04:44:01.360 can you get some dms what do you want you want like uh some details on this guy you want

04:44:09.140 height he's saying that he likes you actually what do you want what do you need to know from this

04:44:13.660 okay you're good yeah i'm good thanks should he slide into the dms no that's okay i'll i'll he

04:44:21.240 saved me from a raccoon once no sorry he saved me from a badger a drop bear a drop bear he saved

04:44:29.440 me from a drop you can't you can't you can't be sick can't be saved yeah that's why dating's hard

04:44:34.080 because we're just trying to stay alive to be real seriously i took a girl for a walk in a park once

04:44:38.220 and i saw one ready and i was like yeah yeah so they drop on you yeah it's crazy no the thing is

04:44:43.960 they drop you they drop on you they have perfect timing their mid-section oh they're like probably

04:44:49.340 half the size of a normal bear but yeah so they'll drop on you and their mid-section will hit you

04:44:53.360 they'll wrap their claws around you and just start tearing and there's literally everything yeah i'm

04:44:57.680 gonna read this really quick we have uh x sense fail everyone is worried about crocodiles just stay

04:45:01.660 away from the drop bears yeah they're from they're in the trees yeah love bond for two months

04:45:08.220 discovered who's pregnant fought over homeschooling and being a sh uh stay it stay at home mom she

04:45:15.480 broke up with me completely ignores me for three months now claiming it's her ex not willing to get

04:45:19.300 a paternity test first ever ship shit show yeah wait first ever ship 100 shit 100 yo uh thank you

04:45:27.460 for the super chat man i think that's your first one uh really appreciate your super chat and your

04:45:32.020 patronage thank you man uh damn prep uh he was love bomb for two months pregnant that's crazy dude

04:45:40.920 is it your kid though or like did you get a paternity test i hope you did he said she ain't willing to

04:45:48.360 get one oh but i'm really sorry though that that's really unfortunate i'm really sorry that's happening

04:45:54.700 to you yeah yeah uh let me just make sure a couple other chats came in i want to make sure i can read

04:45:59.580 them uh did we go around on the from stochastic decay uh rate your intelligence on a scale of zero to

04:46:06.820 200 if you can quickly uh i'd say 100 100 100 100 no idea like 110 it's like julian underskopu chio

04:46:20.040 donated 69 dollars off topic but your man misses his caribbean queen heart you're doing such a great

04:46:27.640 job little one also for the boys the next time i'm in la we hitting a gym sesh let's go

04:46:33.960 wait i'll hit a gym sesh let's go slide into the dms let's do it equinox west hollywood that's your

04:46:38.520 boyfriend yeah with my boy yeah yeah jake rattlesnk on instagram hit me up boom let's go

04:46:44.120 i would like to take a screenshot actually it'll be available after the show yeah that's where i was

04:46:49.060 yesterday oh that's so cute oh you're in la so there you go training time there you go

04:46:54.120 iq or intelligence in general let's go oh the bowing question nick were you able to get the bowing video

04:46:59.220 125 to your man nick you can go ahead and play the clip boom look at the bow huge huge sign me up

04:47:11.880 sign me up okay so look very attentive she's gonna fold she's gonna toss that in the pan uh the laundry

04:47:20.660 excuse me she's look dinner's ready to go he gets home from a grueling podcast session

04:47:26.500 she's got she's got a beer ready foods ready brian's dream girl dream girl oh stirs it for him

04:47:33.660 dream girl is she gonna chew it for him too sign me up stir the noodles uh play it one more time just

04:47:40.540 so we can see the bow look at that boom boom boom uh so going around the table would you bow

04:47:49.960 for a man if he would do the same for me no can't no don't don't don't even go there

04:47:56.180 he he just was like listen

04:47:58.620 can i see a bow would you do it i mean if he wasn't a jerk about it yeah like you're in a

04:48:05.840 talking you're in a one month talking stage right now actually well if he was like yo

04:48:10.980 selena right yeah let's see a bow yeah if he said that's like that i would you would do it yeah if

04:48:18.880 he was like bow down bitch i want you know okay i would ask maddie have you hit a bow for frankie

04:48:27.320 not yet how hold on how are you gonna be part of the whatever podcast and not just be busting out

04:48:33.500 bows for your boyfriend all day every day the door for you when you come home i do all of his laundry

04:48:38.760 i cook him food i do other things but maybe i should try out about you are withholding from frankie

04:48:45.800 on as his representative yeah it's sad i am i am disappointed i you know he's told me he's

04:48:53.820 confided in me and me justice he's confided that he's upset that he hasn't really been receiving

04:48:58.960 many bows lately or at all free frankie free frankie in the chat justice for frankie free justice for

04:49:05.200 frankie promise i promise you promise to hit a bow i'll record it i'll record it

04:49:10.960 we're gonna post it i'll have a hidden camera in the house wait that'd be good wait can you

04:49:16.140 actually do it sounds like an invasion of privacy yeah i'll do it and then we'll post it on the

04:49:22.080 whatever discord if you guys want to see it um i'll remake that entire video but of me actually

04:49:27.840 that's a great idea because i do everything in that video but bow wait yes oh wait dude that'd be

04:49:33.520 great to have you remake the video can we just do the video of maddie from now on the book

04:49:37.300 yeah we'll just use background um does that girl kind of have the crazy eyes a little bit though

04:49:42.920 did you guys see a little bit of the crazy eyes for real so you gotta do the crazy eyes too

04:49:46.680 i would yes you'd bow i love that video yeah what was his name julian

04:49:51.960 if julian was like karina let's see let's see the bow would you do it yeah

04:49:58.020 oh i don't i don't say no i never seen julian you gotta listen where you're from uh texas right

04:50:06.640 yeah i'm not born and raised you're living there though right okay julian when you're back to texas

04:50:12.460 julian you gotta you gotta get a bow actually don't even ask for about you just gotta give

04:50:16.060 him a bow and then you gotta message me on instagram whenever you do it and be like tell

04:50:20.960 me tell me the results okay tell me well he's listening so it's kind of okay what do you would

04:50:26.500 you hit about me sure okay if he wanted yeah of course sure why not i feel like priya i don't

04:50:35.260 know i feel like priya you would you would fight the bow a little bit would i fight the bow i feel

04:50:38.960 like if the guy asked you'd be like i feel like she was loud yeah i was gonna say it would be a bit

04:50:44.240 comical for me but sure oh okay all right there you go i mean i feel like any woman who loves her

04:50:50.420 husband would just do anything yeah if she doesn't cut you cucumbers and doesn't bow it's over boys

04:50:57.680 just dump her it's done it's a standard the cucumber it's done that's the cucumber it's worse

04:51:04.780 than the amy war in my opinion i'm just making sure not a vibe uh it's bizarre thank you oh that was

04:51:15.380 thank you nick thank you uh so and just let's try to keep that up uh who is the primary victim

04:51:24.400 of war men or women well apparently i don't know because when you asked me earlier it wasn't a good

04:51:30.620 answer can i give a bit of a yeah this is what i want to hear experience from the russia ukraine

04:51:35.680 well i wasn't involved myself but i've traveled the world a lot over the last year and i've probably

04:51:40.120 been to about 15 countries or so and in all of the real tourist like digital nomad hot spots there

04:51:46.880 is a massive population of russian and ukrainian girls if you go to bali there's and there's russian

04:51:53.040 ukrainian girls around every single corner same way mal here one donated 69 dollars i don't know if

04:52:01.100 brian is real i found yarl from stay safe big supporter of him i was first death knight in the

04:52:07.880 world to do what lk raids brian what were the first three raids in wrath also remember me

04:52:15.180 well here's the thing i uh i only played really i played a bit in the burning crusade played a bit in

04:52:21.760 vanilla so i i never played wrath so i actually i don't know the raids in wrath so but uh thank you

04:52:32.520 man glad that you came over from stay safe i really appreciate your support um thank you man

04:52:37.740 appreciate it i can name all the raids in uh you know molten gore blackwing lair aq40 nax go ahead

04:52:46.080 yeah so it's just to say that um there's a lot of russian ukrainian girls who have fled the country

04:52:51.900 and they're going to bali and thailand and places like this and that's you know that's just the nature

04:52:57.160 of war and it's the nature of life but men are either dying on the front lines and there's about

04:53:01.680 400 000 plus men that have died on the front lines or they're fleeing the country in shame

04:53:05.820 so it's a profoundly different um circumstance for men and women when it comes to war

04:53:11.360 why are you looking at me i think all wars are a scam as well to be honest i mean no matter which

04:53:20.840 country it is usually go and die to make some politician richer that's just my opinion my humble

04:53:26.120 opinion by the way that's true especially the ukraine war or every single oh yeah

04:53:30.260 don't say that about the emu war was just oh no the emu war sorry no no he's right that's the

04:53:40.920 only war i support is the emu war wait so just they had it coming genocide those things we will go

04:53:47.240 around the table on the question though who's the primary victim of war men or women obviously men

04:53:51.480 men men oh yeah men men obviously men i still think it's all different aspects i'm not changing

04:54:02.100 my answer but okay so in order to be a primary victim of something like for example let's say

04:54:09.040 there's a murder would you agree that the person who's murdered is the primary victim well yes the

04:54:14.160 only victim well you could say the secondary victims could be the family for example oh okay i see what

04:54:19.700 you're saying yeah then i guess men yeah makes sense okay checkmate gotta explain it

04:54:26.820 what about world war ii though what about it who's the primary victim there the germans

04:54:37.900 what the fuck i mean the germans technically you're not wrong the the the um the ethnic cleansing of

04:54:49.520 the germans after world war ii was the one of the biggest ethnic cleansing in history i saw that

04:54:53.460 stuff yeah yeah nice oh it's not i was why isn't i'll just read it loose p energy these busted well

04:55:07.620 you got to be nice my friend have such a problem with bowing but we'll let bro you took my line

04:55:12.860 we'll let dudes freaking blank all over their faces make it make sense bow down abdul get the rocks

04:55:22.300 hashtag free nick eight at 18 all of us said we would bow yeah they all said they would bow

04:55:29.060 he just wanted something they did all say they would bow i do make it a point that well i think the other

04:55:33.980 one is uh like so you'll have girls who would refuse to make their boyfriend a sandwich or like cook for

04:55:41.240 them wow that's great but they'll let a dude splunk all over their face that is crazy who do you think

04:55:52.120 was the primary victim of world war ii you're a history buff do you mean between men and women

04:55:58.460 no i mean just in terms of the uh european countries who got who got who got demolished the hardest

04:56:04.480 uh wasn't the total death count for russians like the highest i think yeah i think a lot of it was

04:56:10.620 internal but i mean so like in terms of i think total military losses is between i think it was

04:56:17.480 russia and russia and germany but actually i'm curious in the pacific theater if uh there were

04:56:27.300 like the death count in like asia was potentially because japan was just like destroying like running

04:56:33.640 through eight sure yeah they did a number on nanking that's for sure welcome to the history

04:56:40.020 channel i'm your host brian atlas with a little late night history i think they they dropped like

04:56:45.800 orders of magnitude sounded like some asmr on dresden alone they dropped orders of magnitude more

04:56:51.340 nukes than even hiroshima so it's true so they got really didn't what are your thoughts on the

04:56:58.640 magino line jake what's that what do you think about the magino line what's the magino line what

04:57:05.160 are your thoughts on it you'd have to tell me the magino line it was a line around the french

04:57:13.660 border i'm getting zesty okay i should stop then okay all right moving on that was fruity

04:57:18.600 moving on wait we got some notes from some people you just make him act up jake you really

04:57:25.200 make and try and act up yes he's got that in yeah okay he's got that impact on people

04:57:32.240 wait hold on uh let's see here we have notes we need to get through

04:57:37.320 where are we jesse

04:57:40.580 that's you okay yeah uh you said that you uh wait love to be on the podcast with all the

04:57:49.280 liberal anti-christian women who deny that the christian conservative lifestyles are truly more

04:57:54.080 pure and successful as someone so young i'm only 20 who already has so much financial success i own

04:57:59.040 real estate i'm in a very committed long-term relationship with a surgeon believe that i can

04:58:03.580 be a great talking piece on your podcast great strength in what i believe in i think i could be an

04:58:07.900 entertaining lady for your viewers uh so wait you own real estate or so we own a house and i have

04:58:14.520 purchased lots of land like lots that are developing in wisconsin no different state okay state that i live

04:58:23.120 in with my boyfriend where he practices um so i've done that and i have made a lot of success at 20 years

04:58:31.320 old i think i came from a different situation so i am orthodox my parents raised me russian orthodox

04:58:37.880 which meant like you were treated as an adult from a baby and rush north actually at least that's

04:58:45.920 what they did and with that you know i grew up in a different household i grew up that you have to

04:58:53.400 work wasn't given anything so yeah and you said that you were you are very conservative but you

04:59:02.260 weren't always you said that you were an independent woman from 16 to 18 yeah and thought you thought

04:59:10.160 that you don't need no man but life did a full 360 yeah wait hold on so a 360 means so do you mean a 180

04:59:21.720 yeah so if you if you do a 360 oh i used to be i used to be a prostitute but i did the 360

04:59:27.800 you're still a prostitute right back where i started you're still a prostitute um but okay uh not

04:59:33.760 saying that i'm not saying you did that just as an example um uh so okay you were an independent

04:59:39.000 boss babe used to be a feminist but you turned very traditional conservative wait but you grew up

04:59:43.980 super traditional conservative yeah and then you became like feminist oh yeah boss babe and then

04:59:49.640 you switched you uh came back to your roots came back yeah what's that called when you the flop

04:59:56.220 the pendulum there's another one yeah windscreen wipers what's that what's that australian what's that

05:00:04.760 australian boomerang i don't know boomerang would imply 360 video yeah i'm not sure what i'm talking

05:00:10.880 about ben george donated 69 dollars humans are the largest victims of war why do the majority of

05:00:21.700 humans allow the minority wage war on their behalf uh word

05:00:29.700 um allow the minority wage war on their behalf well there's not much you can do when you live in a

05:00:40.220 world full of propaganda and you have people at the very top of society pulling the strings and

05:00:44.980 they have their own financial interests and their own machiavellian power interests and they impose

05:00:50.460 these things upon us and we have to try and resist it as much as possible i personally i'm i think we

05:00:58.140 should annex canada hmm layman's realm a bit of living space what do you guys think should we annex

05:01:07.220 canada yeah i think it's a big threat like it's getting super woke so i think we should like i think

05:01:12.420 it's going to become a muslim country in a few years could be i do think like what something i thought

05:01:19.080 like just for our national security i think we kind of just like i think if you pull up a map

05:01:24.760 i think we just take everything down to panama because like that's there's like a very narrow

05:01:32.260 like piece of land there we take everything down so okay we're gonna annex mexico a lot of this a lot

05:01:41.020 like pretty deeply i have i have goals i've got an idea for you brian if you really want to do that

05:01:47.420 i'm kidding i'm kidding don't cancel if you really want to do that you should get some powerful

05:01:51.560 friends buy an island find somebody to work on your behalf make them a fake billionaire get them

05:01:57.220 to take lots of politicians to the island so you can compromise them and then you can have them in

05:02:00.860 your pocket and get them to annex canada nobody would do that that sounds a bit familiar i'm kidding

05:02:06.820 by the way i'm joking about i don't want i don't want to annex the the the central america okay

05:02:14.900 mal here one donated 69 dollars i am back bring the guy in the back on the mic i think he needs to

05:02:22.660 be allowed to speak the guy in the uniform give us your credentials aka your gaming experience please

05:02:30.640 also brian come to texas hey uh can we say on that spencer i've never been to texas i'd like to

05:02:38.320 though spencer actually gustavo spencer actually is a philosopher gustavo gustavo is a philosopher he

05:02:45.360 does philosophy he's a very intelligent man he's a man a few words at the back there but if you get

05:02:49.120 talking to him spanish stoicism and i'm not even joking about that it's very true very true bringing

05:02:55.720 it back to jessica here i will come to texas eventually eventually well we're going to bring

05:03:02.520 whatever on the road eventually maybe maybe maybe we'll see uh you uh wait so you're saying how you

05:03:09.460 were you know raised conservative became an independent woman feminist from age 16 to 18

05:03:15.820 did that manifest itself though like with dating like was there a period of promiscuity or well so

05:03:23.020 when i was like i would say maybe the gap was like 14 to 18 but i grew up probably not with the best

05:03:30.820 father role model as far as how their marriage with my mom my father was so i always thought i

05:03:39.140 don't want to be in a situation that my mom was in i don't think i could find someone who would treat

05:03:45.260 me that way or treat me better i didn't want to be in a situation where that was ever possible i never

05:03:52.440 wanted to be with what it was so i was like nope i'm not going to get into a relationship i'm not going

05:03:59.040 to date but i was a young rebellious girl and i liked attention because i wasn't getting it at home

05:04:08.180 and didn't have a lot of friends kind of and i liked the attention that i was getting from men

05:04:14.100 and i was always into older guys obviously i didn't i wasn't with anyone when i was underage

05:04:20.280 but there were definitely situations i did go through like a little bit of a phase

05:04:25.200 i mean i moved out at 16 i worked at a hospital immediately worked at nursing home i was working

05:04:32.800 like 60 to 80 hours a week just grinding trying to get money living on my own at the time i had

05:04:39.240 my own apartment yeah well you said in your notes you said you were a hardcore feminist yeah i mean what

05:04:47.060 were some of the hardcore like i had that like i hate men i was saying that damn um definitely did a

05:04:53.840 180 there um i thought that men really were objective creatures and that's all they wanted

05:05:01.340 i didn't think that i could find a true marriage or find someone that was capable of loving me the way

05:05:08.240 that i want to love somebody so i just thought you know what if it's just physical it's just physical

05:05:13.440 and that's fine what was it that changed it finding alex or my boyfriend yeah yeah and did he bring

05:05:21.100 you around to these ideas as a conservative sort of guy he yeah he is very traditional

05:05:26.480 but i think it just kind of happened naturally i just when we met i can't even explain it's when

05:05:36.460 you meet someone that chemistry the instant yeah this is the person we can talk for forever we can

05:05:43.240 see each other there's a future and he wants to love somebody i think it was really hard for me

05:05:50.860 to see a man loving their wife the way that i wanted to be loved yeah and he is just the best

05:05:59.360 boyfriend ever he tells me every day it's not just his words his actions that guy slingshot donated

05:06:06.960 69 question for the panel would you agree that dating has become over complicated compared to how it

05:06:14.640 was with our grandparents our 40 and 50 year marriage is a thing of the past how do we get

05:06:20.960 back to that i think exactly what she was saying yes 100 way more complicated way more complicated

05:06:30.100 it's unbelievably very complicated i hope 40 and 50 year marriages aren't a thing of the past i think

05:06:35.440 social media has a lot to do on like uh quick access to um men and women on dating apps um increases

05:06:42.560 temptation and i think that has a lot to do with it but you know i'm hopeful that we'll be able to get

05:06:46.800 it back to how it was it's complicated there's the sugar dating

05:06:55.920 there's these i blame both sides men are simping in really weird ways they're like pay pigs and shit

05:07:13.240 it's super weird it's super weird that complicates things and then like you have the women on the

05:07:18.040 other side of it who are taking advantage of these broken men and then um there's dating apps

05:07:25.320 feet pics it's getting very complicated i don't know what's going on instagram's probably big

05:07:31.400 kids instagram absolutely i think it depends on too much geographic area too people think they have

05:07:38.360 more options i'm hopeful like what how you described it like i think that's beautiful i think that's um

05:07:43.960 you know able to be found yeah i think that's phenomenal that you found that in in your current

05:07:48.660 relationship it is really really hard with um a lack of strong and good father figures in the

05:07:55.980 household and we're seeing obviously an increased amount of either fatherless homes or you know

05:08:00.560 poor fathers basically um and it's really hard it's extremely difficult for for young boys to

05:08:08.280 to have a father like that or not have a father at all but it's also really detrimental to women i

05:08:13.400 think because really i've talked about this a lot lately but um the father really really sets an

05:08:20.660 example to daughters and how they should be treated by men right and if you don't have that it's so

05:08:25.680 difficult i've i've experienced that in my personal life as well and it's it's it's a hard road to

05:08:30.220 to figure out that and navigate that but but i'm so glad to hear that that you've you found that

05:08:35.360 what did you experience in that regard sorry um i i had a pretty poor relationship with my father

05:08:40.380 when i was when i was younger yeah yeah was he with your mom as well um he was with my mom for a period

05:08:45.120 of time and then um a lot of it went went quite sour so it was just not a not a great example but

05:08:50.720 um but yeah it is really really difficult and it's something that i've had to

05:08:54.820 make an effort to reflect on so yeah and i think it's honestly way worse i definitely had it

05:09:01.920 way better off than my brother did i would always look at him and i love him so much we're not super

05:09:07.500 close but the way he turned out scared me because i love him you know he i remember the kid he was

05:09:14.980 and then he just didn't he didn't get to that point where he could be a confident man yeah and that was

05:09:23.080 the hardest thing and i didn't want to be with a man that couldn't be that father yeah now you said

05:09:28.000 that you used to live a casual dating life yeah two men you were casual with they fell in love with

05:09:33.560 you but you were you were an asshole to them yeah so um before i had met my boyfriend again i like

05:09:44.720 the attention i wasn't into things sexually that wasn't really my situation just got a little bit

05:09:49.500 scared but also traditional in the sense that i didn't want to just give myself away

05:09:53.760 um so i had met one person we had been talking for a long time he was a player all over but i just

05:10:04.860 really liked him i loved his sister and he out of nowhere is just like hey i really want to date i

05:10:11.620 want to have kids with you i think you'd be a great mom and i was like i didn't think you'd be a great

05:10:16.000 dad and i wasn't really nice to him i definitely wasn't a good person to him and we've fixed things

05:10:25.040 since then but and that happened twice and we're friends now all right got it going back to karina

05:10:35.840 here to finish your notes here and lambda sky donated 70 dollars to priya's comment i'm canadian

05:10:45.000 and go to the u.s sometimes secularism is stronger in canada we are nowhere close to being a muslim

05:10:52.040 country nor are they trying they're here to find work mostly tbh

05:10:57.300 i have seen plenty that says otherwise but we don't need to get into it it's not a political

05:11:05.380 podcast

05:11:05.900 for shizzle for shizzle um there's definitely demographic changes though going on in europe

05:11:14.980 that's for sure uh absolutely uh i'm here to karina you said i'm telling you females from middle school

05:11:20.920 to college have always tried to get me to do bad things to lose my virginity weed going on dates

05:11:27.060 sneak out etc i never understood why whereas men have always protected me and wanted to preserve

05:11:32.560 protect my innocence they were always respectful they never threw themselves on me they always would

05:11:38.320 ask if i was ready but i just didn't want a boyfriend at the time yeah we kind of talked about

05:11:42.460 that yeah yeah it's it's uh yeah i've never been lucky with females and i never understood why

05:11:49.160 um because i would love to have you mean with friendships right huh like friendships like for

05:11:54.780 yeah female friendships um yeah that's just my luck i guess you know that's why um towards like

05:12:02.060 the end of college i just stopped talking about what i want in life what i desire and all that stuff

05:12:07.300 because i knew they weren't going to like me for long um but yeah it's okay girl don't let up on

05:12:13.900 those beliefs yeah keep talking about them especially you want to you want to you want to have

05:12:17.720 friendships and relationships with people that have similar values to you yeah find them in the

05:12:22.860 church yeah i can say yeah bringing it to victoria stang yes you said i'd like to discuss the recent

05:12:30.600 increase of anti-feminists who mostly just hate on women in a cruel way and are basically uncle taunts

05:12:35.560 for gender instead of race what do you mean by that i just feel like some of them just kind of

05:12:42.660 agree in a way that's just insincere like women can you elaborate a little bit um

05:12:53.860 so because i i call myself an anti-feminist just because i don't adhere to

05:13:00.220 the the beliefs and the oh i agree too i'm an anti-feminist okay yeah i just mean that there are

05:13:07.060 some women who just they take it too far if that makes any sense do you have any yeah do you have

05:13:13.900 any like more specific examples or can you describe a little bit more no do you mean just basically like

05:13:20.120 they'll just agree with whatever like the man says just for pick me pick me yeah essentially

05:13:25.000 it's almost like a picture yeah yeah i think females nowadays have a lot a lot of empathy with men

05:13:34.060 towards men yeah a lot of them they just don't care they just want they want him to do every they want

05:13:40.100 the man to do everything for them and they just want to just sit back and relax and not send that

05:13:45.400 over to nick anything yeah yeah i agree i think there's a there's a large anti-man culture and

05:13:56.740 make sure there's nothing very interesting yeah yeah i don't understand why anyone hate men like

05:14:03.740 yeah we need them especially because they still want to get married and it doesn't add up and i'm

05:14:08.240 like yeah people have lost the idea that we show me on just drag it over on the screen i just want

05:14:14.320 to double check complimentary roles and there's a beauty in that and yeah um and yeah we're different

05:14:19.480 for beautiful and amazing reasons and just minimize it's important to recognize that and to adhere to

05:14:24.520 those roles and values yeah it is you can show that okay pull it up on the other tab boys we have an

05:14:31.800 update this is a victory for the whatever podcast we have we have changed a life

05:14:39.620 apparently uh scroll up nick are you able to scroll up on this page no oh this is all it shows yeah

05:14:48.460 okay well that was this this is the girls scroll make it bigger though it's a bit small

05:14:55.080 oh so she deleted her only fast uh she apparently deleted her

05:15:03.380 of f so good for her yeah that's phenomenal round of applause for her so uh yeah does that

05:15:13.740 do some of your skepticism a little we'll wait and see we'll wait and see hey

05:15:21.520 changing what's that saying changing hearts and and minds and minds winning winning hearts and minds

05:15:29.820 yeah

05:15:30.120 i don't know i don't know all right spencer came in with the intel so uh let's see where uh we were

05:15:40.360 where were we talking here uh tori said what i

05:15:45.540 uh oh with uh victoria you said i don't know if i already read this currently going through a

05:15:51.860 separation that i'm not trying to reconcile i'll sing one of one of my son's fathers while

05:15:56.040 separated i ended that yesterday i don't remember when you sent that but also you tend to think that

05:16:01.760 a girl like me can't be traditional i have three baby daddies so maybe that's not the best word to

05:16:06.900 describe me exactly but it's the best way to describe what i believe is best for young women

05:16:12.160 and now and how not sticking to my original traditional values have been unbelievably

05:16:16.760 detrimental to me and my family i would never want a young girl to walk in my footsteps but i

05:16:22.320 also think that young women really need to hear the consequences of having low no morals single

05:16:27.540 motherhood excuse me single motherhood isn't easy i also wanted to make this clear just in case

05:16:34.380 my ex tries to message you about me yeah i didn't get any messages well that's good you might end up

05:16:41.060 getting so i wouldn't be surprised i think it's a beautiful thing what you're doing though

05:16:44.980 i think it's i think it's an amazing thing we all we all fall short to the glory of god and

05:16:50.020 i think it's really important that we're able to recognize and reflect on our mistakes and admit to

05:16:54.840 them and um because we all we all we're all sinners and we all make mistakes we have that in common

05:17:01.660 plenty um and it's it's great that you're you're willing to speak out about it and and be

05:17:08.980 and caution young young women into um being weary of making certain decisions

05:17:15.740 yeah it'll be male and caucasian

05:17:17.940 yeah it's fine and i'm sure i mean i'm sure you have i mean you have three beautiful children

05:17:24.520 they're of course a blessing even though it came out of um unconventional circumstances but

05:17:29.780 that's something to be amazingly grateful for and i think you're doing the lord's work

05:17:33.400 thank you very much for shizzle for shizzle i'm there's a tts that's going through again

05:17:39.840 various crazy people donated 69 dollars never been a worse time in recent history to be male and

05:17:47.200 caucasian it's true or going to the gym as a man can't even go to the gym and well

05:17:53.160 what happens in the gym because females yeah glancing over and uh yeah oh yeah i get idolized

05:18:02.620 posting that saying that it's the worst it's my worst thing ever yeah they won't stop looking at

05:18:10.140 i mean i'm still violated it's not nice amanda underscore the underscore med underscore tech

05:18:16.300 donated 69 dollars i agree with the panel i think one of the biggest detriments to society now is the

05:18:23.580 anti-men population they want the perks of traditional treatment but don't want to give it back then blame

05:18:29.640 the men yes absolutely yep oh there is an epidemic a pandemic of non-traditional women demanding

05:18:37.540 traditional treatment from men it's insane yeah it's crazy bro it's crazy thank you amanda

05:18:45.220 i appreciate it glasses how does your guy feel about this friend would you put him to the test

05:18:51.840 and text him you need him tonight and see how he responds w for strung out strumpet

05:18:57.540 from years ago we don't talk now i think she just meant that she reconciled yeah we're friendly but

05:19:07.980 we don't talk okay i don't speak with anyone you're on good terms yeah don't speak with anyone from

05:19:13.380 okay previously word word uh you going back to victoria you said actually wait sorry this chat's

05:19:22.000 been sitting here for a sec so i'm just going to pull it up real quick we have kyle kelsey the legend

05:19:26.760 a nurse student that i met at a festival told me i was a piece of shit and be terrible to have a

05:19:33.560 family with because of my career choice to the aussies they still they still have cool cab overs

05:19:41.420 what can you google what that means the fuck is that wait so what is his career choice cab

05:19:49.520 not sure what that is yo kyle kelsey thank you man good to see in the chat good to see you

05:19:57.240 as always man appreciate your super chat thank you i'm not sure where the cab over is though

05:20:01.740 how do you guys not know you guys are australian what's going on boys

05:20:04.900 are you guys fake australians

05:20:06.780 they're kiwis

05:20:10.900 quadman 808 donated 69

05:20:13.820 yo thank you quad man family unit being eroded main problem one in four youth strugs

05:20:18.460 after 24 years married had to kick mom now single dad raising two on my owners quadriplegic large

05:20:25.160 swath of women just don't have good priorities

05:20:27.960 i don't understand yeah i agree i think porn is also a huge huge factor

05:20:35.320 yeah drugs bad uh wait had to kick mom what yeah that's the that's where i'm single dad raising two

05:20:44.440 on my own wait hold on your single dad raising two kids and you're quadriplegic oh wow

05:20:50.540 okay um how do you raise your quad man 808 uh

05:20:57.220 damn that's i wish you i wish you godspeed in your recovery i don't know if it's possible to come

05:21:07.600 back there's been some miracles right doesn't it depend on like how severe it is there's been uh

05:21:16.900 i think there's you know never say never never say never your kids are very lucky to have you

05:21:24.080 absolutely yeah so uh listen quadman 808 by the grace of god i compel you to be healed

05:21:32.640 faith healing fucking do it okay um i was reading something from victoria here

05:21:40.200 oh victoria okay i have a bone to pick with the host now since you said to message here with any

05:21:47.940 that's what i'm gonna keep uh okay so i disagree completely oh i read this about the promiscuous

05:21:53.880 women turn i don't know if we even did we even we kind of talked about i think a tts came in

05:22:00.720 kind of talked about it i don't know did you want to was there more there or not to that one i

05:22:07.580 feel like i we just i read it and then we pretty much just moved on i think we spoke about it we

05:22:12.940 spoke about it yeah okay yeah all right all right uh did we though did we okay then repeat the

05:22:20.760 question i think we did okay well here's my position here's my position right i don't think men

05:22:26.820 should date women with a high body count even if it's in their past that's it yeah i agree there's

05:22:34.620 anything wrong with that yeah that's it i agree that's my advice i wouldn't want it for my son

05:22:42.360 yeah yeah this is probably exactly what happened before is that we all just agreed on that oh good

05:22:50.200 times the only girl who no not you madison oh the other one left

05:22:57.260 um jasper i don't know she gave two different names i don't know um uh wait i did actually have

05:23:09.500 one response to the thing about like uh you know it being ridiculous me thinking it's kind of ridiculous

05:23:16.200 uh so i think it's more from the angle of like okay i would even if you're a christian man i don't

05:23:26.160 think it's ideal to date a woman who had who has a passive promiscuity

05:23:31.720 it seems who who like but like who wants to let's say the christian man wants to wait until marriage

05:23:40.360 and then you're like encountering a woman so there's two there's two things here that this is the thing we

05:23:44.280 didn't talk about so there's a woman with a promiscuous past who now wants to wait until

05:23:48.520 marriage now if you're a secular man and you're you have no interest in waiting to marriage absolutely

05:23:55.160 not you should not be like if you're not inclined to wait till marriage obviously it's like duh you

05:24:01.020 shouldn't if you don't want to wait until marriage go date somebody who doesn't want to wait until

05:24:05.540 marriage don't date somebody who wants to wait till marriage um but if you're a christian guy i

05:24:10.180 wouldn't recommend it either yeah because i guess reasons my question is to you more just like

05:24:19.300 what would you expect them to do like what do you expect like what do you want them to do instead

05:24:24.420 well i mean

05:24:26.240 it's more my advice is more so advice i'm giving to the men

05:24:31.760 so i'm not saying like you should continue being

05:24:37.080 promiscuous i think it's good if you're like reeling that back in but i i don't know i'm not

05:24:47.220 sure what the solution is to be honest um i would say though you know if your standard of okay you have

05:24:56.940 a past of promiscuity and now you want to wait until marriage and if you're holding out for a guy

05:25:03.780 who's willing to wait until marriage and who's going to accept your past you are potentially

05:25:08.620 closing the pool of potential partners that would actually date you but they're not inclined to wait

05:25:14.260 till marriage so for example like you could a man who would otherwise date you and maybe even marry

05:25:21.880 you but they don't have an interest in waiting till marriage you are closing the door on those men

05:25:26.320 so i mean i might like if you're a man and you're inclined to wait until marriage

05:25:33.460 why not just pick a woman who doesn't have a past of promiscuity well why not of course that's the

05:25:40.820 ideal but that's not obviously this ends up panning out sorry it's my first time if andy uh oh andy dick

05:25:50.620 i'm assuming i wonder uh sorry if there's any cursing i guess dick it won't read it uh can delete

05:25:56.480 his of then there might be hope haha i've been doing a lot of soul of searching the past year

05:26:01.900 do you guys honestly believe people can change if so what does it take to change i think he meant to

05:26:08.920 say i absolutely believe people can change yeah yeah even if the girls who have come on this show

05:26:17.560 and even her like i hope that she does change and want the best for her but yeah it is obviously

05:26:22.620 possible to change and people can turn their lives around people do stupid things when they're younger

05:26:26.560 but even on this topic of dating girls with a high body count if you're a christian guy and you've been

05:26:30.880 waiting until marriage there is a an aspect of naivety when it comes to the modern dating world

05:26:37.040 and if you do date a girl who has a very high body count with that has also come she's learned the game

05:26:42.060 she's really eaten from the tree she knows how to manipulate to get what she wants and she knows how

05:26:46.620 to use and abuse guys and she has that knowledge and to think that she won't bring that into the

05:26:50.880 relationship and then manipulate you as well that's a big ask you'd have to be a very very strong

05:26:56.020 principled man who's yeah got his shit together i think we're also seeing a huge huge reversion

05:27:03.620 towards traditional values and people coming either back to the faith or turning to the faith for the

05:27:09.640 first time um so i think there's probably quite a few men and women that are in a very similar boat

05:27:16.060 and i yeah i think i think we're underestimating how many people might be in a similar situation in that

05:27:21.280 sense and that's why i like to have these conversations even with that girl before because

05:27:24.800 whether or not she deletes her only fans and changes her life i hope she does whether or not

05:27:28.620 she does is inconsequential to me but the fact of the matter is that contrary to popular belief that

05:27:35.140 this podcast is solely watched by incels with their dick in their hand it's actually got a lot of young

05:27:39.580 women who watch this podcast a lot of young women who are looking for a little bit of guidance in

05:27:43.660 their life and who want to see what the kinds of men that they would go for might like so i like to

05:27:48.740 have these conversations to help guide some of the younger women who are watching who are looking for a way

05:27:54.180 forward and who want to move towards more traditional values because i've said this before on this

05:27:57.960 podcast if you understand the things that you ladies understand on this podcast it is an absolute

05:28:02.800 superpower when it comes to dating you'll set you'll stand out so building a better generation for sure

05:28:09.160 i have a few more notes here we have going back to lauren lauren says we talked about the circumcision

05:28:18.540 but you disagree with brian's take on makeup well actually i have to retract it because on sunday's

05:28:26.580 uh podcast you kind of clarified like you know if they're wearing like a little makeup it's not like

05:28:31.380 but you spent a lot of time talking about it so i don't want to harp on it we can talk about it oh

05:28:35.940 behave donated 69 dollars men who don't want to get married but complain about the lack of trad women

05:28:42.240 is silly we agree on a lot but i think it's better when you have more pushback on the show

05:28:47.440 table of pick me's today equals thumbs down uh i do agree with that honestly

05:28:53.820 did everybody here is a pick me no no no no no no are you a pick me i'm talking about the first

05:29:03.040 statement oh the first statement yeah don't get married boys don't fucking do it don't get married

05:29:10.780 how are you going to ask for a traditional woman brian because the traditional woman that you

05:29:15.340 want is going to want to get married independent boss man and i can uh-uh-uh women do that shit

05:29:23.860 all the time i get that but i'm just serving up a dish of equality yeah but we've said that that's

05:29:28.940 we've said that that's equality i'm not going to marry you but you better do my laundry

05:29:34.980 you're such a troll sometimes it's true though what nothing i'm just saying you know i agree

05:29:47.460 i just like channeled bill birther that was a new one actually i understand your argument obviously

05:29:53.520 it's incredibly difficult with the lack of traditional women out there but you can't

05:29:56.900 expect a traditional woman and then not adhere to the values that she's going to want as well

05:30:01.580 anonymous donated 69 dollars hello brian and panel to the quadriplegic tts proud of you sir

05:30:09.900 i personally give you a standing ovation keep that head up and keep on rolling

05:30:15.060 brutal no that was funny that was funny i liked it that was good even quad man would be laughing at

05:30:23.080 that yeah i don't think they want to be like coddled you know they want to be treated equally

05:30:29.520 yeah you can joke about me right i would assume so if they have a good sense of humor yeah it's

05:30:36.420 important maybe i don't know it's important to be able to laugh at yourself a bit yeah it's very

05:30:40.180 important in the australian culture it takes i think it's important in any culture at least it should

05:30:44.780 be uh but about the marriage thing on in favor of i'm not gonna i'm not it's it's i mean it's very

05:30:53.540 similar to how these feminist leftist women want traditional conservative men it's a very similar

05:31:01.820 trade i actually think it is a stronger position though for for example like a woman who's a feminist

05:31:06.740 who wants a guy to pay for a first date um i i do think that the a man being hesitant

05:31:15.080 to marriage even if he's traditional or inclined to be traditional or he desires a traditional partner

05:31:23.380 i think it's really valid because the state has sort of destroyed marriage and there's there's laws

05:31:30.780 on the books when it comes to marriage yeah that like there's actually tangible reasons for why a man

05:31:39.220 could object valid like valid reasons for a man not wanting to get married under the current social

05:31:46.280 climate and under the current legal climate i don't object to that whatsoever so i think it

05:31:51.460 like men have a valid reason no i understand the hesitancy and it's it's completely valid but at

05:31:59.180 the same in the same breath you can't expect this very moral traditional woman to not have her own

05:32:04.760 desires traditional desires of marriage and family for shizzle can i just say with this argument i always

05:32:11.880 find it a little bit useless i and i enjoy watching you guys talk about it but the argument of whether men

05:32:16.960 should get married or not obviously if we want a healthy society men should get married but it's this

05:32:21.920 is a spiritual problem this is not a political problem this is a problem that people don't

05:32:25.560 believe in god anymore as atheism has gotten more prominent in our societies everything just tends to

05:32:31.100 crumble so when people don't believe in god and they don't add that they're not a part of a church and

05:32:35.320 they don't adhere to that sort of worldview and lifestyle yeah this seeps in so unfortunately as much

05:32:40.060 as it would be we can argue back and forth about to secular people as to whether they should get

05:32:44.880 married or not and what are the perks and what are the risks because there are a lot of risks involved

05:32:48.780 they're also good perks as well this is a spiritual problem absolutely i completely concur yeah i mean

05:32:54.560 it's very dangerous these days for men to get married in a secular sense and as much as i'm a proponent

05:33:00.180 of the nuclear family and i've said my own goal one day i completely understand why a man wouldn't want to get

05:33:06.440 married yeah i mean i i completely agree in a secular sense i mean you heard what um liam just

05:33:12.200 said then men are getting absolutely shafted yeah on the daily i agree i would i i would like to know

05:33:18.720 what advice you would give to men to um kind of seek out the right type of woman so that they don't get

05:33:25.320 caught in that situation later on if they do well this is a really tough one yeah yeah no that's a good

05:33:30.900 one but this is a really tough one because if you don't have a religious like worldview and belief

05:33:37.000 then like if you're in a secular relationship how do you define your values you know so once again i

05:33:45.100 would say probably seek out some sort of a okay here's what i'd say to guys go and do some research

05:33:52.980 into the apologist william lane craig and look at his work into the case for jesus christ there's also

05:33:59.060 a movie called the case for christ and there's a book called the case for christ as well and it lays

05:34:03.760 out all of the details about why jesus was a historical figure and how he died on the cross

05:34:08.840 and all of the evidence that he was resurrected and see if that changes your mind as to whether

05:34:13.540 christianity is just a myth and a fairy tale because you can't just click your fingers and start

05:34:19.840 believing you can't just click your fingers and just become a christian you have to actually do the

05:34:24.020 intellectual heavy lifting and a lot of people want a lightning bolt and they were oh that's my

05:34:28.660 spiritual moment but unfortunately for most people it's about getting up every single day

05:34:32.740 and fending off all of the ills of the world and all of the all of the degeneracy of the world all

05:34:37.980 of the cultural and political ills and all of the squalid behavior that we engage in and to try and

05:34:42.900 actually create your own foundation and to try and yeah but it's not easy it's something that we have

05:34:47.520 to do every single day yeah i completely agree and i think that marriage falls apart a lot of the times

05:34:52.080 i mean like you were saying due to the lack of religious beliefs and i mean we are in such a

05:34:58.260 secular world right now um but there's nothing if you if you don't have god as the foundation of

05:35:05.260 your relationship what what are you being held accountable to yeah like there's there's nothing

05:35:09.940 yeah like you said there's no there's no moral backbone like we can all say i mean there are sets

05:35:15.260 of morals that we on a broad scale even the secular world can agree that are wrong but obviously our

05:35:20.760 morals have to come from somewhere and when you don't and when you are when you have secular beliefs

05:35:26.560 there's no backbone to that there's no origin to that and yeah it's very hard to continue to define

05:35:31.940 the the smaller the the ills go yeah for shizzle a couple more notes here we have do you didn't want

05:35:40.460 you didn't want to engage on the makeup thing we can no no i i i think you're absolutely right that

05:35:45.600 some people can look like a completely different person and it is very just deceiving um but i i thought

05:35:51.300 your perspective prior to sunday was that you didn't want any makeup like you would oh yeah

05:35:56.880 let's do it you would have your that is what he'd prefer that is but like on a panel if i had no no

05:36:03.060 like like in a female girlfriend or partner real trump donated 69 to the erwin kids does australia

05:36:13.960 have the same laws as the usa regarding child support and alimony aka the guy gets screwed

05:36:20.160 i know singapore has neither and men are more willing to have families

05:36:24.200 i mean i'm probably i have 12 lawyers that work for me so i'm the bad one to answer this because

05:36:29.860 i don't really do well with the law so maybe you could take this one yeah australia has pretty pretty

05:36:35.800 strict laws as well and this is the western world amanda underscore i'm gonna just skip it and then if you

05:36:41.680 want to finish and then i'll amanda i'll re-trigger this in a sec yeah i mean australia has equally bad

05:36:47.000 laws i'm not 100 sure about what the laws are in the united states but australia in australia women

05:36:52.360 win all the court cases as well pretty much and guys get constantly screwed over and they get their

05:36:56.620 kids taken away from them and this is one of the main reasons for male deletion and there's a lady

05:37:01.820 called bettina aunt who's a an australian author i had her on my podcast the reality-based podcast if

05:37:06.820 anyone wants to go check it out and um she wrote a book called men too and she just goes through all of

05:37:11.400 the statistics about how men are getting screwed in the legal system and unfortunately one of the

05:37:16.500 things that nobody wants to talk about is that men are deleting themselves at unprecedented rates in

05:37:21.840 society at the moment and one of those reasons is because they get into their and a lot of people

05:37:26.880 will say oh yeah men should just talk about their feelings more but unfortunately what happens when

05:37:30.520 you've got nowhere to go a lot of the people who are deleting themselves are north of 40 that's the

05:37:34.380 biggest age bracket and a lot of the people in that bracket who are deleting themselves it's because

05:37:39.340 they've lost their family they've had breakdown of relationships they've been financially drained

05:37:42.860 and then they get to a point where they just what's the point in even living and then they end up

05:37:47.160 on a noose and this is a massive problem that nobody wants to talk about so great well put let me pull

05:37:53.660 up the message from amanda here amanda underscore the underscore med underscore tech donated $69

05:38:02.540 this is one of the best panels that i have watched and i have admittedly binged watched a lot of them

05:38:08.860 very great discussions off topic but to the nurse the lab does not emailize samples on purpose

05:38:16.860 i'm not a nurse i'm not a nurse anymore i don't know what that means why did somebody one of you talk

05:38:22.060 about emailizing yeah i know what she's saying no well that's good okay thank you amanda for the

05:38:32.940 nursing knowledge knowledge draw my knowledge bomb info bomb truth bomb appreciate it so wait okay on

05:38:40.780 the makeup thing really quick okay so if i let's say in this hypothetical world i just had authoritarian

05:38:47.260 total like total power would i ban makeup i would ban makeup makes sense you couldn't produce it

05:38:55.740 you couldn't buy it you couldn't wear it in fact the penalties producing it misdemeanor wearing it

05:39:03.500 felony you know what happened straight to jail about a black market for makeup you put on some mascara

05:39:08.540 straight to jail you have makeup cartels makeup cartels because you'd open up a black market for

05:39:13.100 makeup right they're wearing the crime on their face yeah it's pretty it's pretty identifiable

05:39:21.020 you don't think this is gonna be like the most authoritarian the police i'll take it over north

05:39:27.100 korea that's the makeup police like what do you guys think you guys down for that like if i just

05:39:32.380 i hate wearing makeup i can't let's go let's go i'm the lowest rated person no other women get to wear

05:39:40.620 makeup either yeah i'd be the first one selling black market makeup and i make it kind of

05:39:45.900 you're right there it would make it a lot maddie said this yeah maddie said this but it would make

05:39:51.740 it a lot less competitive for females it would level the playing field it would save on time it

05:39:58.220 would save on a lot of time it takes so much time i can't do it it's expensive it's not cheap because

05:40:04.700 you just make alcohol in your bathtub and you become rich so i'll be making makeup in my bathtub

05:40:09.580 and selling it on the street it doesn't sound sanitary oh i just think yes

05:40:15.100 i think we'd see improvement on mental health

05:40:17.020 like young girls yeah clean up yeah i'd ban for

05:40:21.660 band plastic surgery

05:40:24.780 like for cosmetic purposes because i think if you've been makeup you you'd have to ban

05:40:28.540 of course fake titties first to go if you did you have to get them out if you already have them there's

05:40:33.980 not like a grandfather they have to be removed what's that what about those who like wait we're

05:40:38.060 sorry because i think if you did ban makeup more women would get more plastic surgery

05:40:45.100 plastic surgery ban too yeah no that's what i was saying yeah you'd have to ban both

05:40:48.780 you'd have to ban both yeah both of them get rich yeah i would also ban

05:40:54.300 all right what else would i ban

05:41:01.420 high-waisted jeans really yeah i don't really like them i don't know you'd like low-waisted

05:41:06.780 better or like just like a mid-waist i don't even know i people would have a

05:41:12.140 there would be a dress code you have a preference on jeans no there'd be a

05:41:15.340 i don't know i'm just joking i don't care about the jeans um

05:41:17.660 um you guys down for the banning of the makeup though yeah i'm down for it you guys gonna vote

05:41:23.100 for me i like my i'm like a villain man for you because my life if it's banned for everyone i will

05:41:28.220 get power through democracy but then i'll take the democracy away i'm just

05:41:33.580 just okay um if you actually had the power though would you like criminalize that

05:41:39.500 would i criminalize makeup like actually i'd probably get assassinated by the

05:41:45.500 69 dollars atheists are good-hearted people and to disregard their beliefs because you feel so

05:41:52.140 strong in your convictions makes me sad do you believe that christianity is the only answer

05:41:58.380 oh that's an easy one i mean you just have to look throughout history and you look at

05:42:01.980 i have to look at the most successful cultures and the most successful societies throughout history

05:42:05.740 and then you look at what happens when societies degenerate into atheism there's

05:42:09.500 many examples of it throughout the entire 20th century you can just look at the soviet union

05:42:14.140 you can look at mao's china these are cultures that worship their leader their authoritarian leader is god

05:42:20.140 and human beings have an innate desire to worship and if it's not going to be god that they're going

05:42:23.740 to worship they're going to worship something and then i would ask you if you said that atheists

05:42:28.060 have good beliefs what are their beliefs and how are they founded that's not to say that they

05:42:33.740 are not good-hearted people of course there can be very secular people that are good-hearted

05:42:37.660 they're just lost yeah no i'd say yeah they're good people but like jordan peterson's got this

05:42:42.780 great quote where he says that our culture and our society is living off the corpses of our ancestors

05:42:47.260 and what he means by that is that good people in the modern world tend to act like christians

05:42:51.180 they'll act according to the christian worldview however they won't have a religious conviction but

05:42:56.140 that's because we're spoiled but unfortunately if you don't replenish the food it wears out after a

05:43:01.420 while and i think we've seen the late stages of that cyford donated 69 dollars thanks for having

05:43:07.340 the two bro bogans on it helps us aussies enjoy the podcast more thank you for speaking about

05:43:13.580 male mental health as i almost deleted myself over a female happier with a staffy d stay around

05:43:20.460 brother we need you yeah man that's good that's good feedback what a legend thank you man appreciate

05:43:25.340 it uh guys we are going to try to wrap up in about 10 20 minutes uh so if you want to get your

05:43:29.820 last tts is in there's one that's about to come through nickelodeon donated 69

05:43:36.860 ban face tattoos women if you couldn't use markup anymore and it was illegal would you tattoo your

05:43:43.020 face to look like it has makeup on it fuck face freckles do you want to stand people do do that yeah

05:43:48.860 my eyebrows are tattooed on for the rest of the show people do tattoo makeup on permanent

05:43:53.980 isn't it permanent makeup uh i suppose that would be a loophole i don't know well actually you know

05:44:00.300 what fuck it i'm banning tattoos too can you ban mumble rap as well if possible yeah i'm gonna i'm

05:44:05.980 banning down can you ban fake fake jewelry on rappers as well please like sure okay that's active

05:44:12.780 well i hear that they were fake jewelry as like replicas of their real jewelry so they don't get

05:44:17.340 it like actually you know what that's actually not untrue yeah yeah no no no no a friend of mine

05:44:24.860 does that as well i'm just gonna try to get through uh so bringing it back to lauren your notes here

05:44:33.420 you i'll just prompt you you did say you can't oh well actually i'll just ask the question going

05:44:37.420 around the table uh can you be yes and yes can you be sexist towards men oh yeah yeah

05:44:49.820 just going around the table i'm just gonna skip over that just for the sake of time uh you said

05:44:54.780 that you believe the feminist movement is responsible for the high rates of diagnosed

05:44:58.060 depression in women today as well as the high rates of divorce in society yeah i uh i was fed this

05:45:05.180 whole lie growing up that um and it's just propaganda and media attention honestly about

05:45:11.500 girl boss you want to you know you you want to go to school go to college get a good career make all

05:45:16.860 this money um and you don't need a man and all of this all of these things and i believed it and i i

05:45:23.420 pushed myself very hard um and ultimately where i am now um i enjoy my job i do but it's the last thing

05:45:30.460 on my priority list um i find so much more satisfaction uh being a wife and a mother and

05:45:36.380 um i think that this feminist movement i honestly i could have worked as a nurse prior to the feminist

05:45:41.820 movement i don't mind if i don't have the right to vote um i trust my husband to do that for me

05:45:46.540 um so yeah i think it god bless the grind donated 69 dollars yeah we do not wrestle against flesh and

05:45:55.580 blood but against the rulers against the authorities against the cosmic powers over this present darkness

05:46:02.700 against the spiritual forces of evil ephesians 6 12 let's go yeah for shizzle yeah thank you man

05:46:11.420 appreciate it thank you for the message i'll just move on to our the next thing here you also said that

05:46:16.780 men who play video games should be considered a red flag well okay listen i know i'm gonna get a lot of

05:46:22.460 pushback for this but my my whole thing is that i just see men going getting almost it's like an

05:46:27.260 addiction for them so they spend hours upon hours upon hours and like i said i just really want it

05:46:32.700 want want my husband to be involved with our kids and active and um you know actually doing things

05:46:37.980 outside and playing outside and so we kind of have that rule in my house for for my boys too so um

05:46:44.140 yeah it's a kind of a red flag just to be aware of of course people have self-control and that's

05:46:48.380 totally fine but can i add something my husband um played video games most often when he was very

05:46:55.420 depressed and so that's why it was like a negative thing in our household yeah yeah i've seen just one

05:47:01.820 of my brothers used to play video games as well a lot when we were growing up and he would get so

05:47:05.900 angry if he lost a game that he would throw the controller and stuff like that where i just feel

05:47:10.300 like we could be having uh good interactions with people in person and um again just paying attention to

05:47:15.740 our loved ones and friends and yeah would you change your mind if that was his main source of income

05:47:21.420 because some of these people are like making millions yeah i i don't i think i just grew up

05:47:26.220 kind of in like a different time i i didn't there wasn't like any of this i mean we had like dial up and

05:47:30.860 stuff so um it wasn't really a form of um like payment really but uh no i don't think i would change my

05:47:38.780 mind i think i'm pretty set in that i don't think i would be attracted to someone that was

05:47:42.780 okay so you had last few uh dating stories what's the one with the bane thing oh my goodness oh lord

05:47:53.820 i went on a date uh one time and uh he took me to a restaurant and he said to me do you oh do you

05:48:01.500 know bane from batman and i was like no i actually don't and he was like well i can do a really good

05:48:07.100 bane impression and i was like that's cool but i don't know who that is so i don't know if it's gonna

05:48:10.460 be good or not and um he didn't care like he just did a bane impression the entire time like

05:48:15.820 throughout the dinner talked to the waiter that way it was so embarrassing like now i know what

05:48:20.460 bane sounds like but like probably like the worst impression can you do it no no no i can't do it

05:48:26.060 secondhand cringe from that story yeah yeah can one of you guys do brian's clone donated 69 dollars

05:48:32.460 hey brian my friend's dad's name is brian and looks like you know joke just 50. to make you a

05:48:39.500 meetup for your doppelganger slash father brian how do you mentally recover from doing these shows

05:48:46.300 it takes a toll oh you think i mentally recover from doing this you think bro i've i'm i'm losing my

05:48:55.820 marbles here doing this you see this guys i don't know i'm losing a little bit of hair right here boys

05:49:02.540 like right in this area it's starting i've had a decent head of hair 30 30 you know mid mid 30s

05:49:11.660 i'm starting to lose it boys that's why i need your support i need your patronage i'm gonna have

05:49:15.980 to go to turkey soon boys it's over bro hey bro me and ches bro got you covered we got supplements for

05:49:21.100 that man you got subs okay boys aesthetic cosmetics you know i had a good run but like you know the

05:49:28.940 stress hair's falling out so we'll keep you right yeah don't meant i i honestly um i started accruing

05:49:34.700 mental damage from from doing the show um so do you actually like find that sometimes like you have

05:49:41.820 days where it just drains the fuck out of you oh yeah every day no because i just i don't think people

05:49:49.500 realize even like a six hour podcast like you don't realize how draining it actually is you know what i

05:49:54.620 mean i'm doing it twice it was one of the first things we spoke about when people from the outside

05:49:59.020 looking in they're like oh you just flip on a camera talk to people and become popular yeah well

05:50:03.660 i mean it's a full-time job i mean truth be told though it's the the draining part isn't sometimes

05:50:08.940 like the it can be annoying sometimes like during the actual show a lot of it is like what goes on

05:50:14.620 before the show behind the scenes like i think that's the draining part and then like just being

05:50:20.060 involved in content creation there's a lot of drama like this is like a lot a lot of these people is

05:50:26.780 like some high school shit yeah yeah um a lot of drama with like these some of these creators in the

05:50:32.380 space oh and i try to avoid it like i don't talk shit about people i try not to get involved in beef

05:50:39.660 but people will talk shit on twitter and some i've mostly avoided getting dragged into it but sometimes

05:50:45.260 i've been baited and responded joe rogan says you post and you ghost that's it yeah no but i mean

05:50:51.740 and then there'll be people who fucking lie and slander and you know welcome to the world

05:50:58.460 oh i mean almost every single week i'm dealing like with some

05:51:02.140 some girl on a previous show oh it was i i was a fit i it was i was a victim the way the way i was

05:51:10.300 treated um it was traumatic literally we just had i'm not gonna like give them any clout but we had

05:51:16.700 like two women come on the show who said it was like a traumatic experience and they cried and that

05:51:23.100 they feel abused and that they're victims and it's just like oh my god bro like your fee fees got hurt

05:51:29.420 move the fuck on like whatever bro girls have come on the show been fucking rude to me i don't like go and

05:51:36.300 try to like i just move the fuck on like it is what it is but um hardens you and so there's a lot

05:51:42.380 of like bullshit though like a lot of fucking like so much bullshit behind the scenes people

05:51:47.180 the viewers don't even know about like fucking girls like claiming shit like it's just crazy

05:51:51.980 you got to insulate yourself as much as you can as well for your mental health do you know what i

05:51:55.180 mean i i think i do yeah a decent job of it no man a hundred percent but like you can you can never

05:52:01.100 let these people live in your head rent free you know what i mean just get it dealt with and just

05:52:04.940 fucking move on otherwise it'll keep you up at night i think that my trouble is like when it's

05:52:09.420 one thing if somebody speaks the truth and they're just like yeah the pot i had a bad time on the

05:52:14.540 podcast or whatever but like when they start lying that's when it's like okay you want to correct the

05:52:19.580 record but then it's like okay i'm just giving them like that's what they want yeah sometimes the

05:52:26.140 best response is nothing bro yeah that's what that that's i've almost exclusively like there's been

05:52:31.420 i could have addressed there's probably been like a dozen different things that have gone down on the

05:52:35.900 podcast i could have addressed it but my philosophy has been like just keep moving don't even address

05:52:43.020 it not worth it and a lot of these things just end up disappearing but i'll help get your instagram

05:52:47.820 button fixed to really let's go that's what i'm gonna do that would be a huge as a huge help for me

05:52:53.900 thank you man you're welcome my friend thank you um let's see here we have uh okay the bane thing and

05:52:59.820 then the last thing i was in a relationship with someone who is this is for you uh lauren you were in

05:53:06.540 a relationship with hold on someone who's not on par with what i want in my future but every time i

05:53:12.620 went to break up with him he threatened to delete himself and i felt too bad damn that's fucked up uh so

05:53:19.180 you stayed with him for a total of a year and a half out of guilt um damn that's crazy eventually

05:53:23.740 you ended things for good um so you realized you weren't responsible for his future actions

05:53:31.980 um and then sounds like he ended up with a uh addiction to substances yeah he did after that i felt

05:53:41.260 really guilty um but it kind of goes to what you were saying when uh the female can can really do that

05:53:47.820 to a man a man can do that to a woman i definitely wasn't happy with him but i uh i felt so bad for

05:53:54.300 him like i didn't want him to hurt himself so i stayed in it for a year and a half total and um

05:54:00.700 even at the very last point when i did um break up with him it was like the hardest thing i mean i

05:54:06.300 think i was so depressed for so long because i just felt um to make you feel better about that like

05:54:10.700 it doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman threatening to delete yourself to anyone is abuse

05:54:14.860 yeah and this gentleman i told you about the girl vanessa would not subtle don't give a

05:54:21.100 fuck lawyer it up good to go um she would threaten to delete herself on a daily basis and if that

05:54:25.580 didn't work she threatened to have him arrested so it's like that level of manipulation and it

05:54:29.500 is manipulation is um it's abuse so you've gone through abuse as well just so you know yeah i i

05:54:34.940 offered to you know obviously get him help um but yeah it was it's highly concerning that you can

05:54:40.780 kind of guilt uh somebody into staying into a relationship yes yeah honestly i want to do i

05:54:47.660 do want to give a warning to any men out there um i men or women honestly on this one if uh anybody uses

05:54:57.740 like a threat of self-harm as leverage to get you into a relationship to get sort of some sort of

05:55:05.500 sympathy to keep you in the relationship you gotta run like you that is 100 it's not going to get

05:55:13.100 better it's going to get worse there's going to be an escalation it's not going to be just that you

05:55:19.020 like if you i mean sometimes it'll be early on you gotta get out you gotta get out it's it's and

05:55:27.420 two surviving donated there it's not does not not accounting for god for the panel do you believe

05:55:34.380 if the entirety of the world would follow the golden rule would the world be better truly it's

05:55:40.380 fucking wobbling this table yeah i i do believe so i think that the golden rule is a good one however

05:55:47.660 i do think that life and the world and history is somewhat of a dialectical process where we are always

05:55:54.060 having different ideas fight against each other and they do tend to produce better ideas and through

05:55:58.300 trial and error we can get better as a culture so i i think the golden rule can be a good thing but

05:56:05.100 it's good to have nuance and understanding of both sides but also not to be a fence-sitter to have

05:56:09.020 opinions and to because oftentimes people who want to just follow the golden rule will get manipulated

05:56:15.420 because especially on the far left they're a very subversive political organization right-wingers

05:56:21.740 and conservatives we tend to want dialogue and we tend to welcome dialogue however the far left are

05:56:26.140 much more subversive in their political tactics so if you want to sit in the middle you might just get

05:56:30.540 manipulated and the golf the goal posts of what the middle is tends to get shifted all right sweet um

05:56:37.180 any let me see here uh any what are the final things we need to do any disagreements final disagreements

05:56:45.020 from anybody we want to can i give you a plug for these guys oh yes yes absolutely go for it

05:56:51.900 use the code whatever the code whatever the code whatever the code whatever you get 40 off everything

05:56:57.260 raid the store buy it all cost price 10 bucks to try everything just smash that code because i'm telling you

05:57:03.020 buy it and then resell it i don't even care but what's the link it's um iwantagummies.com

05:57:07.420 but that whatever code we have like we have it in the description just so like the reason that the

05:57:13.260 company does it so high is as like a gift to the audience because this show wouldn't exist without the

05:57:19.580 audience right and there's no point trying to sell anything to anyone you want to gift them so we made

05:57:24.060 it as massive as possible so raid the store buy everything the code is whatever 40 off that's me

05:57:29.900 yeah the link is in the description if you guys uh need it so guys

05:57:34.540 hold on gg well played to the panel thank you guys for coming a couple quick things here before

05:57:42.700 we wrap up we're gonna do a raid over there on twitch oh quick quick few things uh guys if anybody

05:57:48.780 knows how to get the in the message button back on instagram no idea what's going on i know some of you

05:57:54.140 can see it i saw some of your messages i know some of you can see it but uh what's up oh thank you nick

05:58:02.780 are they able to if they start a new message are they able to type in whatever on the so yeah so

05:58:08.060 you can still message the account if you go to the uh like your message tab and you can draft you can

05:58:16.140 always draft a message and type in anyone's username on instagram but i feel like people aren't uh

05:58:23.740 tech savvy they're they're not like they maybe they don't know that that's a thing or they're so

05:58:29.660 lazy if there's not a message if there's not a message button they're not sending a message it's

05:58:34.860 probably the case that we're missing out on potential guests because for a lot of these

05:58:40.540 people there's no message button i'm getting messages on my personal ig hey there's no message button

05:58:45.980 um but i think some people oh well some people just don't know so uh last couple things here uh

05:58:54.140 if anybody in dubai i guys i'm just going to repeat it i'm going to repeat it every

05:58:58.060 show until i get my money back uh i got scammed out of two thousand dollars david spearman ciara stevens

05:59:05.340 they're in dubai i don't know if anybody knows can help in any way how did they hustle you so uh

05:59:14.460 it's a long story i won't get into it but basically this guy reached out to me he's like hey i can help

05:59:19.500 you get a username on ig and um but like it was a fairly sophisticated scam because apparently like

05:59:26.140 he does some legit stuff and like he had a like apparently he did something for justin waller and

05:59:30.940 justin waller i know personally so it seemed like shows his face so it's not like some totally a non

05:59:36.380 random ass account um paid him two thousand dollars uh back in it's been over two months cash or crypto

05:59:43.340 crypto yeah yeah so um my fault look my mistake taken down if you want

05:59:54.300 because yeah i mean you can call me tomorrow but that can happen pretty quickly just just quietly

05:59:59.020 but yeah i mean he scanned me through instagram um two thousand bucks um i just want it back like

06:00:04.940 if he sends it back i'll just drop the whole thing but um so yeah if anybody i don't know if there's a

06:00:12.300 lawyer in dubai you got a contact in dubai he lives in dubai anybody can help out i just said

06:00:17.420 two weeks ago i can fix this problem in 10 seconds he's got this bro he's got it i'll fix it with a

06:00:21.580 big smile i'll do it for free too okay oh i just hate scammers man that's my big thing like i hate

06:00:26.700 them it's one of my wait pull up the can you find their instagrams really quick do you know what it is

06:00:30.860 you can just type in david it should auto complete and then see uh did he block you

06:00:35.660 oh it's well he did block me he did how did i know it was crypto it has to be i don't know the

06:00:41.580 whole racket on both accounts you have to do the incognito window nick um but the other thing guys is

06:00:49.420 uh we're gonna do a twitch raid also those of you who are watching on twitch so while nick is pulling

06:00:54.460 that up uh i think we're gonna raid what wow grandma is rating but i think i'm actually gonna raid

06:01:00.140 uh a different uh a different guy today just for to switch things up so before we do the raid i

06:01:07.820 oh in my power donated 69 dollars drop bears and i are in communications watch your six next time you

06:01:15.980 are back in the homeland mates you may have won the battle but emu war two is a brewing you're not wrong

06:01:22.380 brother yeah come at me bro come at me should i drop the tts to 20 and just allow the madness to come in

06:01:28.940 for the last few huh do i just maybe no questions though just comments that could be funny

06:01:39.260 do we do it chad just as an experiment okay we'll do a little how long are you gonna give him five

06:01:43.900 we'll do five minutes we'll do five there's gonna be so five minutes of chaos five minutes of chaos

06:01:48.460 no quite guys we're gonna drop tts to no question to 20. um so uh hold on give me a sec guys just for

06:01:57.820 the just for the hell of it uh any dating things you guys want to talk about oh body count

06:02:02.700 why don't we do body count starting over here to myself rip rip rip good response maddie or are you

06:02:12.700 passing three oh wait we didn't have somebody gone we'll come back i guess less than one hand

06:02:21.260 yeah out of respect for my husband i can't i respect for my future husband

06:02:26.860 that's good times okay sure that's fair hey it's fair it's fair it's fair

06:02:33.260 hold on just one sec i'm gonna get this tts thing going all right take it away jake for like 30 seconds

06:02:39.180 while i'm getting this shit figured out okay so let's riff on some things guys what do we all want to

06:02:45.580 talk about tts is what is it text to speech yes oh really yeah here we go boys this could be chaos

06:02:52.700 this could be madness so the like the chats are just gonna i just want i feel like there's just

06:02:57.100 gonna be so many people sending them in that we're never gonna end the show yeah i think like we're

06:03:01.260 gonna have to be going through every single one no questions guys no questions only comments no

06:03:06.700 questions only comments you think people on the internet i think it's ready i think if you it's now

06:03:12.380 i think you're gonna open up a fortune bro tts equals 20 i'm kind of scared tos that's what i'm

06:03:19.100 going to say it should be fun don't okay okay go go go raid raid okay all right okay oh boy he's brave

06:03:29.420 watch none come in

06:03:34.220 that would be very anticlimactic yeah that'd be extremely anticlimactic but i do want to say um gg

06:03:41.340 well played to the panel real trump donated 20 dollars madison just wanted to let you know i

06:03:49.420 showed the video of you telling your parents your body count to scare my step kids out of being

06:03:54.380 promiscuous 304s good i hope they listen thank you real oh wait i need to change this up a bit uh thank

06:04:04.860 you real trump appreciate it man appreciate it brother you're a legend and a scholar

06:04:14.460 cypher donated 20 to the bro bergens you need to teach the yanks on the proper use of the c word we

06:04:21.660 did yeah we did no it has to just roll the yanks unfortunately you guys pronounce the t too heavily

06:04:28.220 yeah so c word's a good sign of admiration in our culture yeah so if you're if you're sick hunts

06:04:33.900 like you're the best thing you can be yeah exactly if you can say it in the middle of a sentence and

06:04:37.420 nobody really notices then you've got it shit cunt bad sick cunt good basically yeah drop bears for

06:04:42.460 example shit cunt shit cunt brian for example sick cunt yeah she's a sick cunt you're picking up what

06:04:49.500 yeah cath jess natalie at any donated twenty dollars yo much love from the discord we love you

06:04:57.740 let's go thank you very much appreciate it oh boy we got we got a couple coming through

06:05:05.980 amanda underscore the underscore medtech donated twenty dollars i have never wanted to move to

06:05:11.820 australia more than ever now not a bad piece of advice do it i just have a good man watch out for

06:05:17.820 the drop bears though mv4 vendetta donated twenty dollars brian terrain theory is that pathogens

06:05:27.100 exploit a weak host germ theory is bogus keep a healthy body and you have nothing to fear

06:05:34.860 about the nurse thing you mean miles stay me donated twenty dollars what's that just send

06:05:39.660 joe to dubai i know he used to be secret service before he came to whatever

06:05:48.620 definitely

06:05:51.020 erie donated twenty dollars yo thank you erie greetings from poland thank you thank you for

06:05:56.140 the host to be so polite and all guests you are amazing girls you all look like queens

06:06:03.580 i mean let's not get ahead of ourselves wait what

06:06:09.260 oh that was just chaldean girl oh okay devon jackson donated sixty nine dollars this is the

06:06:20.140 only podcast where i can fall asleep for three hours wake up here brian say we're wrapping up and

06:06:26.220 it goes for another hour he's a brave and a decent man

06:06:29.500 i'm trying to find you yo shout out davon jackson donated twenty dollars prior e is an eleven simply

06:06:36.460 stunning that's from quad man eight away this is kind of fun

06:06:41.740 thank you quad thank you nickelodeon donated twenty dollars stand up gustavo versus joe get her done

06:06:51.820 get up stand up all right chat oh that was a good split okay who wins in the fight who wins in the

06:07:00.540 fight chat kamikaze cam donated twenty dollars brian delete and reinstall instagram or check for an update

06:07:09.260 i i will give that a try i i think i've already tried it but i'll try it i'll do it again

06:07:14.300 do i have to i think i got to remove it on all the underscore the underscore medtech donated twenty

06:07:19.580 dollars i have a few friends in aussie one in gold coast and one near cindy i have been warned

06:07:26.700 we mean she spoke born oh boy six hundred and ninety six six billion nine hundred and sixty nine

06:07:41.740 $496,969,6969 donated $20.

06:07:58.400 You can hold those up, but I'm not reading.

06:08:04.720 Until surviving donated $20.

06:08:06.960 Guys, the super chat, it has to be through Streamless.

06:08:09.620 We're just doing TTS.

06:08:10.640 Attractive work and not great jobs.

06:08:13.220 P.S.

06:08:13.840 I missed that first one.

06:08:15.820 Your journey is your own for you to work out through life.

06:08:19.240 Find your inner peace.

06:08:23.080 Shane donated $20.

06:08:25.200 Happy birthday to me.

06:08:26.880 Love being a mod here, Brickson.

06:08:29.300 Hope everyone's night is going well.

06:08:31.340 Happy birthday.

06:08:32.440 Yo, dude, Shane, really appreciate your patronage, man.

06:08:34.720 You're a fucking legend.

06:08:35.560 Fuck underscore Christianity donated $20 to the Christian 32-year-old with gray streaks in back.

06:08:45.620 You are extremely uptight and wanted to let you know that it isn't anybody else's problem

06:08:50.140 that you're probably in a sexless marriage.

06:08:53.800 Oh, my God.

06:08:54.680 A overly insecure rock bear donated $20.

06:08:57.660 As a male nurse, I promise you there is no time for sex,

06:09:01.600 and that is just gross because we are dirty and patients are dirty, bro.

06:09:05.620 Do you fend off a drop bear like a sea bear?

06:09:10.600 Jasmine donated $20.

06:09:13.160 Make Maddie merch.

06:09:14.280 Well, I mean, what would that even be, though?

06:09:16.180 Just Maddie's face.

06:09:17.120 What would be...

06:09:17.940 Her in the hat.

06:09:18.740 Maddie blush.

06:09:19.980 I don't even know what that would...

06:09:20.960 Maddie masks is concerning.

06:09:23.060 A Maddie...

06:09:23.660 Yeah, that might be...

06:09:25.660 Cancelable?

06:09:27.120 I'm not even...

06:09:27.960 Right?

06:09:28.260 It would be...

06:09:29.200 Just the whatever logo and then Maddie's face.

06:09:32.100 Probably cancelable, I guess.

06:09:33.420 I don't know.

06:09:34.880 Let's see here.

06:09:35.860 Okay.

06:09:36.940 Well, if...

06:09:38.040 Oh, you can show that.

06:09:38.760 Guys, the TTS, it has to be through Streamlabs, just FYI.

06:09:45.380 Oh, yeah.

06:09:46.020 I saw it.

06:09:46.860 That was funny.

06:09:48.660 Sorry.

06:09:49.180 I should clarify.

06:09:50.620 I'm going to wrap up now, though.

06:09:53.480 So we'll see if that is an issue with wrapping up.

06:09:58.180 But, okay, guys.

06:09:59.780 Oh, we have to do the Twitch raid.

06:10:01.760 So, GG.

06:10:03.340 Well played to the panel.

06:10:04.340 Hit the like button, please, on YouTube.

06:10:06.660 Pull up Twitch really quick.

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06:10:14.120 If you're watching over there on Twitch, we stream Sunday and Tuesday.

06:10:17.940 Blah donated $20.

06:10:19.780 Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

06:10:28.160 Don't, don't, don't, don't, don't, don't, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

06:10:30.800 uh thank you i guess twitch well said guys twitch.tv slash whatever drops a follow drops

06:10:36.260 prime sub uh if you have if you're on youtube anonymous donated twenty dollars another tab

06:10:42.220 brian you seem to fear loss of control which is why you love asians and their bowing culture

06:10:47.820 submissiveness wow wow wow wow wow wow asians wow kumas in the co-op pod screaming

06:10:57.620 um i like white women too i'll date i listen i'll date black women i'll date latinas i prefer

06:11:11.620 asian and white women if i'm using a world of warcraft reference i think asian women are are

06:11:19.320 bis best in slot you know like when it comes to your gear and shit like you're you know

06:11:27.600 like okay you could you know you could like have a optimal like gear max k donated 35 dollars

06:11:35.840 keep spreading the good word oh thank you max k appreciate it man uh yeah but it's like this you

06:11:41.840 know like for example if you're playing like if you're on alliance and you're playing rogue or

06:11:46.640 warrior like you want to be a human for that sword spec of course anonymous donated 20 dollars

06:11:53.540 hey brian how did you first meet andrea when you first started doing videos guys i'll answer it but

06:12:00.420 no questions with the uh tts here i'm just gonna i'm gonna try to get this wrapped uh introduction

06:12:05.220 from a male friend of mine uh just i had a male friend i told him about this video idea i had which

06:12:13.580 was the viral one that we did you might be familiar with and then i was like do you know any girls who

06:12:18.180 who like kind of outgoing uh charismatic that'd be down to do this prank video and he's like i got

06:12:24.040 the perfect girl and he's like andrea so he introduced me to andrea and then the rest is

06:12:30.180 history okay guys so good show good stream guys uh thank you for tuning in everybody please hit the

06:12:40.000 like button you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that thank

06:12:43.580 everyone who super chats donates and supports the show we will be live again sunday 5 p.m pacific guys

06:12:49.760 we have a mat uh insanely good show planned for sunday we're gonna keep it big guest that's all i'm

06:12:56.280 gonna say big big guest big bigly guest okay uh sunday 5 p.m pacific any girls who want to be on

06:13:05.860 the show dm at whatever on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara tts voice guy donated 20

06:13:12.720 dollars why do i do this for a living let me out of here please i beg of you brian wait kiara

06:13:19.960 kitty who's this someone donated a ton of uh

06:13:24.320 oh kiara thank you very much appreciate it on twitch this looks from oh my god wait is she live

06:13:33.580 right now is she watching us curtis underscore leonunders coordinated 20 wait is it the same

06:13:39.440 i was on a deployment to australia for training and worse than the drop bears was the fat women

06:13:44.500 i won't lie i still did it is it like that all over the country

06:13:49.380 underscore donated twenty dollars well guys polly she termated lauren is a beach wow why such beach

06:13:57.720 much beach oh kiara i think we're gonna have her on the show kiara thank you so much for the uh

06:14:03.840 twenty uh gifted subs over there on twitch oh my read your bible donated twenty dollars this is to

06:14:09.700 the guy that got hated remember blessed are you when people insult you persecute you and falsely

06:14:15.920 say all kinds of evil against you because of me twist donated twenty dollars she sells seashells by the

06:14:25.780 seashore the shells she sells are surely seashells this is wild so if she sells shells on the seashore

06:14:31.960 i'm sure she sells seashore shells sprinkler one can we get the sprinkler one eve donated twenty

06:14:38.000 dollars appreciate it thank you thank you for another good episode much love from germany hashtag

06:14:43.500 buy merch deutschland uh dunkelstein dunkelstein dunkelstein merci

06:14:50.180 whack arnold's donated twenty dollars i'm sorry guys we're gonna be here all night

06:14:55.420 nick you can pull up the person that we're gonna raid on twitch his name is aladar yo

06:15:05.280 black arnold's thank you man is that dave chapelle

06:15:07.560 donated twenty dollars yeah thank you watching for a while now binge watch here and there

06:15:12.680 you should bring on some below average looking dudes lol hope everyone has a great night

06:15:19.460 is that good for us i don't i'll take it i'll take the compliment shit uh i've brought on uh

06:15:27.540 i've brought on actually maybe the person who's coming on sunday it might be get jesse lee

06:15:34.400 peterson on oh my god i want to i'm i'm considering i can make them twitch.tv slash aladar yeah of course

06:15:40.440 yeah twitch.tv slash aladar that's who we are going to raid guys the over there those of you who are

06:15:48.720 watching on twitch thank you guys so much for tuning in drop us a follow over there if you're

06:15:51.960 not following already we are going to raid aladar he's playing world of warcraft classic it looks

06:15:56.440 like he is playing david tozak donated twenty three dollars i love got back home what did i miss

06:16:04.120 i heard no questions best to all for lasting so long

06:16:09.120 it's just a l o d a r max k donated twenty dollars i'm just not ready for it to end yet

06:16:18.740 this is a tts it's called a tts train i guess i don't know stream labs only guys stream

06:16:27.360 whatever killer of cereal donated twenty dollars i'm not we don't end until the train is a tts train

06:16:34.760 heck of a show appreciate the consistency of entertainment in this show hey kill of cereal i

06:16:40.180 really uh really appreciate your uh tts here thank you for patronage man you've been uh your

06:16:45.820 support's been overwhelming the past a couple months so thank you man really appreciate it thank

06:16:49.480 you everybody who you know even just watching like you even if you don't send in the message

06:16:53.780 i appreciate just everybody who watches uh like a year and a half ago would have never thought we

06:17:00.660 would have been where we are today getting like 300 views a stream and now the podcast has been

06:17:06.360 doing our doing really well and uh i want to thank nick and maddie and jessica reloaded donated

06:17:13.700 twenty dollars your wish is my command my sprinkler goes like this and free up thank you jessica you

06:17:21.620 fucking legend

06:17:22.760 thank you comes back like this thank you jessica thank you thank you thank you jessica thank you

06:17:34.420 appreciate it okay on twitch nick if you can pull that up do you have it ready he is playing world he's

06:17:40.620 got 26 viewers right now he's uh playing i think i don't know if it's season of discovery or no classic

06:17:48.660 fresh he is uh playing warsong gulch he's doing a little pvp i'm gonna start the raid he's about to

06:17:57.720 capture the flag look at this guy playing world song goats okay those of you who are watching on

06:18:01.480 twitch thank you so much for watching god thank you so much for watching you underscore powder

06:18:06.580 don't leave his audio on for me techno techno techno techno techno techno techno okay i'm those of you on

06:18:13.240 twitch thank you for tuning in on twitch i'm gonna raid alidar uh say what's up to him in the chat

06:18:18.340 thank you guys for watching on twitch appreciate it all right that's sent there we'll see that go

06:18:23.580 through yeah he's got 26 viewers watching uh playing uh warsong whoa who is this hey whatever

06:18:33.180 what's up nick hide this hide this what is up hide that hide that oh missed it okay one of my favorite

06:18:39.460 youtubers man oh thank thank you bro thank you bro you come to watch me uh get killed let's see him

06:18:46.520 capture this flag everyone from whatever uh whatever's podcast glad to have you here it's

06:18:51.380 gonna be a stalemate though get that's what the hell it's gonna be a stalemate whatever's favorite

06:18:57.940 senior citizen uh streamer so i want to see let's see him capture this flag i'm playing uh world of

06:19:04.280 warcraft obviously um but it's really late at night and he's got this we're doing some battlegrounds

06:19:11.440 here so the lions has the flag too how's it going guys the lions has the flag too so it's a stalemate

06:19:17.380 all night tonight so it's a stalemate he's not gonna be able to cap okay anyways i didn't even get a chance

06:19:21.180 to sit down and watch any of the podcasts i have been watching them more lately though

06:19:24.420 anyways we can exhale that uh i'm going up and up that's what i have to do you have to do what

06:19:31.600 once everybody's back at the table i'll wrap it up so once everybody's excited

06:19:36.560 ghost of fema past donated twenty dollars never do wadgie board they are demons not your grandma

06:19:45.180 it is a demon demons are master deceivers and know how to lead you away wadgie board is just opening

06:19:52.500 the door to you completely um once leem is back i'll wrap up the show so um for shizzle jake what's

06:20:03.260 it like dating in australia like dating the sheilas yeah solely fresh donated twenty dollars

06:20:11.080 hey brian you should have more regular guys on the pot too i would love to drop knowledge on

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06:20:41.280 let me just make sure we're not missing anything i want to be considerate okay we're all good there

06:20:46.820 guys like the video please on your way out thank you guys so much once again for tuning in thank you

06:20:53.760 to the wonderful panel for uh coming guys it was a very good stream we made progress she deleted her

06:21:00.180 of we'll see if it you know sticks um i think that's it i don't think there's anything else so guys

06:21:07.480 once again oh sevens in the chat i hope you guys have a wonderful night and we will see you

06:21:14.920 today's tuesday right yeah okay we'll see you uh back next week sunday tuesday 5 p.m pacific with

06:21:22.000 another dating talk oh sevens in the chat good night guys

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Whatever Podcast - April 24, 2024

She STORMS OUT And DELETES Her ØF？! 3 BABY DADDIES？! Men CAN NOT Have Standards？! ｜ Dating Talk #155

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