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00:03:47.660 brie i'm 22 i'm from miami and um my occupation is changing the world

00:03:59.460 welcome back um when you say changing the world what what are the mechanisms or ways that you're

00:04:10.740 changing the world well i went to alaska i had an epiphany i want to become a teacher and teach

00:04:19.300 so that's how is there is there a specific subject matter that you want to it's a lot do you want me

00:04:25.040 to get into it right now yeah you can do that okay so i decide i want to help people everyone

00:04:33.760 it seems to be struggling lately i want to help people so i'm becoming a teacher that's basically

00:04:39.040 well you've just repeated what you've already said but so what what do you want to teach specifically

00:04:43.180 i'm teaching how to okay i'm teaching like how to elevate and become who you meet who you want

00:04:53.120 okay but like so do you want to teach like in elementary school high school college everybody

00:05:01.200 i'm teaching everybody it sounds like a life coach you're gonna be a life coach no no no that is not

00:05:07.600 what i'm doing i'm not coaching i'm teaching have you do you have a syllabus we can look at yes

00:05:14.880 oh it's it's ready to go yeah can you can you have somebody email it to nick so we can look at

00:05:21.680 your syllabus okay i'll try tell your manager or something what's it what's your manager's name

00:05:27.520 john john send over that syllabus we'll get we'll get fucking people to sign up for your

00:05:34.000 your uh sorry sorry uh your uh your your course or whatever i'm not it's not a course oh do you have

00:05:40.720 a target audience in mind target audience men yeah do you have a teaching credential what would

00:05:47.680 you like to teach oh gosh okay i want to teach men how to become who they need to be because a lot of

00:05:54.080 men are struggling what do men need to be they need to be better how so well a lot of men are talking

00:06:02.560 about i feel like we don't hold men to the same standard as we used to and that's causing a lot of

00:06:08.320 problems so we need to go back to holding men to that standard what kind of standards do men need

00:06:13.200 to be held to you know like a man has always back in the past been the provider been there been like

00:06:20.960 the lead role and now we're kind of like letting that go and it's kind of making like feminine men

00:06:27.600 i would agree with you but what are the mechanisms that you're providing to make men providers again

00:06:32.480 i'm teaching them what are you guiding them i'm going to guide them on okay brian you remember my

00:06:39.280 three husbands sadly yeah so if you weren't here but i went on this whole rant about how i wanted

00:06:47.840 three husbands and one for financial one for sexual one for physical i mean one for financial

00:06:54.960 sexual and emotional emotional it's a lot to keep track of keep going yeah so i wanted three

00:07:02.080 husbands but then i was thinking people were like saying i was crazy why so exactly it's crazy to hold

00:07:09.520 one man to that standard because it's not what we do today okay i see so when you think about your

00:07:16.240 school you're thinking you're gonna have like one module for provider one module for sex partner and

00:07:21.360 then people can choose their niche and they can be one of those husbands to a woman no no they're

00:07:25.440 gonna learn all i'm making the three husbands into one nuclear family type setup because it's true

00:07:31.760 three husbands is a lot like how are you gonna like okay who are you gonna have sex with on tuesday

00:07:36.880 or shit like that probably the love maker yeah like it's probably the sex one yeah so it doesn't really

00:07:43.520 make sense so why not hold men to that standard again to become the one so you've

00:07:51.040 stated the outcome the objective of the course but what would be the it's not what would be the

00:07:55.760 mechanism to get them there the teaching the teaching if you will yes what's what are the

00:08:00.720 steps to get there what are some of the things you're thinking are they revolutionary ideas that

00:08:04.400 you have that will help men become everything okay so physical they need to become conventionally

00:08:11.680 attractive need to go to the gym need to eat healthy need to know how to communicate need to know how

00:08:16.800 to flirt um emotional they need to know how to manifest they need to know how to be there

00:08:22.960 spiritually how to guide women how does a man manifest when you say manifest what does that mean

00:08:28.320 sexual transmutation transmutation yeah what's he sexually transmitting

00:08:32.960 no what do you mean by that i've never heard that are you talking about pd so you know i'm naive

00:08:42.640 i'm naive what we said like not stds oh transmitting i thought you sexual transmission

00:08:48.240 transmission of sex stds no when you have sex you manifest you just snitched on yourself it is the

00:08:57.680 number one way to manifest and what does manifesting mean to you when you say creating creating reality

00:09:03.920 okay cool so you're creating life it is the number one way to bring something to life is to have sex

00:09:11.760 it's literally creating so you think that the purpose of sex is to bring about children yes so

00:09:19.280 having sex is the number one form of manifestation so you're going to teach men to have sex to manifest

00:09:24.960 no it's true that's literally creating physical reality it's beautiful it's beautiful when you

00:09:33.600 say you want to teach men to manifest are you teaching them to manifest children is that what

00:09:37.360 you're saying manifest anything they want but to be able to create children or create anything you're

00:09:43.520 going to need the woman so i'm basically helping them how to achieve anything they want through woman

00:09:51.520 i'm not really understanding it spencer choked me out before maybe it's a little complicated last

00:09:56.240 thing before we move on to the rest of the introductions uh okay so we're not going to

00:10:01.120 linger i won't belabor it previous show you claim to be a virgin oh yes i want to get into that

00:10:08.320 virgin this is part of my community and my new revelation i had in alaska virginity is a mindset

00:10:16.160 okay so i think let's entertain this virginity is a mindset okay virginity is a mindset you can just

00:10:25.040 how now they're saying oh you could choose what gender you want that's ridiculous but you can that

00:10:29.280 is she's trans virgin you can change it's trans virgin you can if you can become whatever gender you

00:10:39.840 want to be why can't i become if i'm so i so i was i get i get what you're saying that makes sense

00:10:47.520 we were dead dead naming her but like dead virgin in true last show it is i've got a few questions

00:10:53.520 for you mind if i ask you the questions yeah okay um what do you mean by virgin what does that mean

00:10:58.240 virgin is someone who is the purest form of themselves and in what sense would you be the

00:11:04.720 purest form of yourself what are the indicators of that you haven't created anything that is

00:11:13.600 when you have sex you create without sex you're not creating so if anything virginity is bad and i

00:11:21.040 can get into that i think virginity when i went to alaska i thought about this this might be a little

00:11:27.680 too much for people but i think it kind of goes you know how i was talking about bible study and all that

00:11:33.120 um i think virginity kind of goes against the bible what okay tell that to mary um

00:11:44.240 okay so uh you don't have really a definition of virgin your definition of virgin is having not

00:11:50.240 created anything exactly and by anything do you mean life do you mean children creating anything

00:11:55.840 anything you want so what do you create when you uh when if you are not a virgin what what have you

00:12:00.720 created nothing which the bible is all about creation so again so if you are so if you are a virgin

00:12:10.560 you haven't created anything if you're not a virgin you have created something correct correct

00:12:14.880 exactly okay so what have you created if you're not a virgin you have created physical reality

00:12:20.560 she's trying she's i'm not trolling and okay wait so just answer the question though so you're not a virgin

00:12:25.840 i have decided virginity is not the mindset i want to put myself in right now so but you've had sexual

00:12:35.360 intercourse cardinal knowledge i have decided in alaska that you've decided in alaska this these things

00:12:43.760 happen in alaska you've never been to alaska is this like fucking into the wild she goes into a bus

00:12:49.680 and eat some poisonous berries sorry brian's never been to alaska keep going i saw into the wild though

00:12:55.200 you can choose whether or not you want to be a virgin and i'm choosing now from now on i am not

00:13:02.240 just say hypothetically now you're not you're choosing so you're like um you're a detransitioner

00:13:09.200 like you you you transitioned from not being a virgin you weren't a virgin then you claimed virginhood

00:13:14.880 and now you're detransitioning because you were trans virgin but now you're not trans virgin it goes

00:13:20.960 against my religious beliefs so it yeah what are those are you christian okay it goes against that

00:13:30.400 so i think i'm going to go back to non-virginity it's a mindset okay i think maybe we should go ahead

00:13:39.680 the next game what about you i'm jess i'm 20 and i'm a server i'm sorry name age occupation and where

00:13:51.600 you're from okay i'm a server and i'm a psych major at miracosta and i'm from san diego and you said

00:13:59.600 you're 20 right yes what about you i'm ryan i'm 24 i'm from texas and i'm in sales

00:14:04.640 i'm jessica i'm 21 and i'm from south carolina and i'm a pro-life activist let's go i'm kj i'm from

00:14:15.760 texas i'm 24 and i am in wholesale fashion i'm cara i'm from san diego i'm 35 and i'm a nurse

00:14:25.840 i'm alexa i'm 28 i'm from san diego originally but i live in silicon valley now and i am project

00:14:31.040 manager can i ask a question pro-life activists like do you get paid for that yeah yeah i do

00:14:39.600 like but like what is the job can you scoot your mic that way about that yeah i mostly do man on the

00:14:44.720 street interviews so i go out and ask people what their opinions are on abortion and then show them

00:14:49.520 the abortion procedure video and take their response afterwards so a lot of people change their mind on

00:14:54.480 abortion just knowing what it is and being educated about it so i just want people to know the truth so

00:15:00.320 that they can make more life-affirming decisions if you have more questions for you can ask them

00:15:04.320 later go ahead with your intro jake yeah my name is jake i'm 28 i have a youtube channel called rattlesnake

00:15:09.440 tv got a podcast called the reality-based podcast i'm from australia but i travel around the world

00:15:14.400 making content currently in the united states for a little while what did i miss 28 i said 28 that's about

00:15:23.440 it it's me all right welcome everybody we're going to go around the table once more so what's everybody's

00:15:28.320 current relationship status so are you single talking stage situationship friends with benefits

00:15:34.480 relationship married polycule sex cult whatever it may be if you're single how long have you been

00:15:40.160 single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in starting with you go ahead currently

00:15:44.880 building my empire creating that doesn't answer the question answer the question like i said currently

00:15:54.560 building my empire i'm recruiting so that's how i was last time last time this time okay but this is

00:16:02.400 dating show why don't you tell us your answers to the question am i currently married no but am i single

00:16:10.880 i want to consider myself i am building something

00:16:18.160 so okay are you sleeping around not in the talking stage and i don't sleep around i don't agree with

00:16:23.680 that so elaborate a bit i am currently creating my empire i don't know how you want me to elaborate

00:16:34.000 ryan but like are you is there a man you text at night saying good morning is there a guy in the

00:16:40.880 picture is there when you say i hope you have a great day there's not a man is there multiple

00:16:46.640 there's an empire this is many of them empire empire okay next person you didn't really answer

00:16:55.600 what's your longest relationship oh my longest relationship

00:17:01.040 i don't think i'm going to identify with being and ever being in a really i know last time i said

00:17:07.280 it was like five six years now like i said i feel like you can identify with the mindset you want to

00:17:13.040 identify with and i'm going to identify with zero wait what about the three husbands you're mentioning

00:17:19.600 so the three hold on no no no here's what we're gonna do okay look

00:17:24.480 if you're gonna troll i'm not trolling i walk right i'm not trolling i'm not trolling if you're gonna

00:17:30.240 troll you have to do a better job of it i'm not that's the thing it's so obvious that you're like

00:17:35.520 it's too you you laid on too you laid on too you want to you laid on too you want to pull up the

00:17:40.080 applications but what the applications no not really okay um but you're laying on the troll too

00:17:46.320 thick and it's too obvious so look if you engage in good faith in excuse me in good faith i'll

00:17:52.560 include you in the conversation but like i'm not inclined to like i don't want to engage with you

00:17:57.760 on the troll level because then it's just like wasting time i'm not gonna troll i you could pull

00:18:02.880 up the applications but you can't answer a question straight like it's it's always meanders and just

00:18:09.200 answer the question straight okay it's because sometimes we have different ways of like our brain works

00:18:15.680 differently i believe that my brain works differently you know clearly you know my brain

00:18:21.120 works differently you watched the video i don't i don't dispute that but okay so just because i don't

00:18:27.040 answer in the way you trolling is a game of push and pull so you have to push a little bit pull a

00:18:31.040 little bit push a little bit no i don't want her trolling to begin with i'm not maybe a subtle

00:18:34.960 i'm not if you're gonna do a troll at least like you know i'm not trolling at all the worst part is that

00:18:40.080 i am look if you're not trolling then that's an that's not that's an indictment on you not us but

00:18:44.000 yeah yeah i'm not going to come on here your relationship status i'm in a talking stage talking

00:18:50.720 stage how long has that been going on um i want to say two weeks two weeks okay and longest relationship

00:18:58.960 um about two years two years and so this talking stage how did you guys meet uh bumble

00:19:06.080 on bumble on bumble okay so is it exclusive you know though no okay so are you talking with other

00:19:14.560 people um i'm not i don't know if he is um but i wouldn't be bothered by it if he was okay and your

00:19:21.280 two-year relationship how did that end um i had two that were two years um the first one there were

00:19:30.320 just wasn't love anymore so we decided to split up and the second one um

00:19:39.600 do i have to fully disclose it no you don't have to uh we just didn't get along sure all right what

00:19:45.760 about you i am single single how long have you been single for i've been single since last november

00:19:50.880 so six months yeah six months longest relationship about three years three and a half three years

00:20:00.320 why did that end well we were in high school and we went to different colleges so okay

00:20:07.040 and your relationship that ended six months ago how long was that one that one was about two years

00:20:11.440 why did that one end um well yeah he cheated he cheated yeah did you cheat no was it a dead bedroom

00:20:19.840 what does that mean uh dead bedroom like you stop having sex oh no okay okay what about you i am

00:20:30.960 currently single my longest relationship was two months um and we broke up two months ago

00:20:39.440 so your longest relationship was the one that just ended is that correct yeah two months and i think when

00:20:46.080 you first reached reached out if i recall you were initially you were in that relationship

00:20:51.600 the first time i reached out i was in that relationship something's changed since then um

00:20:59.600 we'll get in we'll come i'll come back to that in a bit what about you um i am in the talking stage

00:21:06.080 for how long one month little over

00:21:09.040 i'm sorry one little over one month a little over one one one month okay longest relationship

00:21:17.360 um three and a half four years four years like in the middle okay how did you meet the talking

00:21:24.000 stage guy mutual friends are there any other guys in the picture no okay why did your four-year

00:21:30.640 relationship end he was ready to get married and i was not you weren't

00:21:35.360 i'm 24 and i was 20 at that time when he was how old was he he was 23. why was he so keen to get

00:21:47.840 married we had been dating for a long time he was just ruddy interesting yep um so he was when you

00:21:58.000 guys broke up you were 20 and he was 23 yes okay so this was like kind of high school partial yeah it

00:22:04.640 was high school beginning of college yep okay and so

00:22:10.800 did you otherwise like the guy i mean you're with him for four years yeah i liked him we started going

00:22:17.120 downhill when i got to college so so the ring was a bit of a last-inch attempt to make it work was it

00:22:23.200 yeah kind of i mean at my college that i went to is very like ring by spring was the big motto thing

00:22:30.720 there so it was kind of a rush a lot of people get married like really quickly i'm this is total

00:22:36.800 non-sequitur is everybody here everyone here is white or are you latina i don't know i'm hispanic

00:22:43.440 okay i am black i'm happy oh half okay all right see we got a little bit of uh diversity i was about

00:22:50.960 to say it's like damn normally we have a little diversity going on but uh okay what about your

00:22:55.920 relationship status um i'm currently single all right and how long have you been single um

00:23:04.640 i've never really had a defined relationship i've dated but on dates maybe the longest time i

00:23:10.560 dated somebody was a month but okay never had a boyfriend if i have it correctly looking at my

00:23:17.200 show notes here um so are you are you a virgin i am yes oh make that face again make that face again

00:23:28.160 that's the face she made she's shocked the pre the trans met a real virgin

00:23:36.240 trans virgin and you're 35 correct i am 35 okay so you're five years away from

00:23:42.400 being 40 being cast in the female version of the 40 year old virgin yes um so is it for religious

00:23:50.480 reasons or um well i think it's more because i just haven't found the right person i'm comfortable

00:23:58.160 with um i do want to be with somebody that i'm about to be married with but it doesn't have to be in

00:24:04.480 a marriage just somebody i feel um that i can see myself marrying okay um so you're you're not opposed

00:24:14.320 to having premarital sex but you'd want it to be the person that you foresee like strong likelihood

00:24:21.840 of this being like the person that you will marry correct yes okay and like do you have a sense of would

00:24:27.600 you i mean is there like you want to wait a year or is it just kind of wait and see how you feel

00:24:36.880 with this new guy or more of like wait and see how i feel i want to feel safe um i want to feel

00:24:42.400 um comfortable um that i trust him and um that we're in a good space okay so you are virgin but you're

00:24:53.760 not waiting until marriage but if i do have this correct the reason you are waiting uh or you are

00:25:00.080 a virgin for like kind of religious reasons kind of or because you're christian right i am christian

00:25:08.240 yes i i know i don't i really don't know how to answer that question honestly but it was initially

00:25:15.760 because i wanted to wait until marriage but reality dating and whatnot has

00:25:22.880 um kind of did that yeah it does make sense though you're a virgin so initially those convictions were

00:25:28.560 because of the religious aspect but now you're feeling like it doesn't necessarily have to be

00:25:32.880 until you get married per se right if you found somebody who yeah it needs to be at least close

00:25:37.520 enough to marriage because i do want to save myself for that person i'm giving a gift to him

00:25:42.960 and i want him to respect that makes sense makes sense is it quite jarring when you get like for

00:25:47.760 the guy when you go on a date with someone and they and you tell them that if you do tell them

00:25:51.120 that on a day yeah yeah there's been some interesting experiences where i've told you

00:25:55.600 find that it's a positive reaction no oh really no it's been very negative yes i'm surprised by that

00:26:01.040 i know i've had multiple arguments with guys about this actually what they just like i wish you

00:26:06.560 had one told me i wish someone else would have someone was saying i put sex as um a standard

00:26:14.560 like i put it on a pedestal and i was like i don't see it that way at all i i honestly not that at all

00:26:20.480 um the complete opposite i put communication and values above that and then afterwards possibly

00:26:28.240 sex compatibility but i i i when i was arguing with this guy he says well you're putting it on a

00:26:35.360 pedestal and you're um admiring sex more than that so it should be so you said the longest period of

00:26:45.360 time though that you've dated a guy is one month how long ago was that that was two years ago and

00:26:53.040 when you say you dated him for one month like how many actual times we went on five dates over the

00:26:59.600 five five five days yeah was he also a christian uh no he was not would you um are you wanting to

00:27:09.360 date a man who's a virgin or that you don't really care no i don't that doesn't matter to me no okay

00:27:15.760 i just want him to respect my wishes an atheist i have dated an atheist or have been on dates with

00:27:21.280 the do you think could you see yourself with an atheist no not really i think that would lead to

00:27:27.440 too many arguments and i i value my relationship with god more than actually being in a relationship

00:27:34.240 but you said the longest consecutive period of time you've dated somebody was one month

00:27:39.120 and that person was an atheist correct no he was not oh he was not he was agnostic oh well i mean it's

00:27:47.120 not too far away from each other but um i mean why bother if i mean it seems like you have pretty

00:27:56.400 set values in terms of what you're looking for i mean why waste your time i mean the longest period

00:28:01.200 of time that you have dated somebody wasn't agnostic i mean um i'm just a little confused there

00:28:09.760 no repeat the question brian well

00:28:12.240 are you're on dating are you on any dating apps have you ever been yes i have um i just i do not

00:28:20.560 like the dating apps at all yeah well so you're 35 right and um i guess to be 35 and to have never

00:28:32.080 even had a long-term relationship i'm curious as to why um are men not approaching you are men not

00:28:39.280 interested is it a could it potentially be you perhaps your standards are unreasonable what's

00:28:44.640 your assessment of your situation i think there's a lot that goes into it for me um it's just not

00:28:51.920 one particular answer i know i need to work on things myself i know there's things that i have done

00:28:56.800 wrong um that probably have led me to be in this stage um what are those that um more so not putting

00:29:04.240 myself out there not going out and you know to bars or whatever to meet people i mean i've seen a

00:29:11.760 man and i have not approached them when i should have um i could have put myself in a good situation

00:29:17.040 where i could have met someone that way um i think standards too i don't know the difference

00:29:22.960 though between standards and being shallow um that's the thing i struggle with because um i don't know

00:29:30.080 if my standards are too high or am i'm shallow so i always come well what what are those while

00:29:35.600 we get into that what are those the standards yeah i mean is that your own self-assessment of

00:29:40.800 yourself that you yeah yeah i mean i that that you have high standards or that you're shallow or both

00:29:47.040 or you're unsure people tell me i'm shallow and i always question that i was like why am i shallow if

00:29:51.680 i have these certain standards but i feel like these two are interchanged between having high standards

00:29:57.040 and being shallow and like which one is it you know what are the standards yeah what are the

00:30:00.320 standards what are the key standards um my standards is at least they need to be open to the relationship

00:30:05.920 with god um i do not like the idea of them having multiple body counts with a woman um of strong

00:30:13.840 family values so you expect a man who is how old um the youngest i would date somebody is probably 30

00:30:22.640 um when you say body count do you mean like oh how high oh um because by the time a guy's if

00:30:30.720 a guy's single and 30 and like single single hasn't been divorced or whatever then he's probably going

00:30:34.880 to rack up a bit of a notch count and that's that's a deal breaker um if he has a high body count

00:30:40.000 absolutely because i just don't think he's valuing relationships what about if he has a high body

00:30:44.720 count but he's come to faith later in life that would be different then i would i would definitely um

00:30:49.200 what what's the cut off what's the cut off for body count for a guy oh man i haven't really thought

00:30:55.440 about that but but i'm a little i mean i would like to perhaps get a little further in here because

00:31:00.800 you said people have accused you or perhaps your own self-assessment is that your standards your

00:31:07.440 standards are too high or that you're shallow but you kind of have prefaced i and i don't know if you

00:31:14.080 got there yet you've said that you you want them to have a relationship with god and have good

00:31:18.800 family family values and not be promiscuous it's not clear to me if any of those so far are shallow

00:31:26.160 so can you state the standards you have which you consider to be shallow okay um i like them

00:31:33.120 to be a little taller than me i'm five four okay so anybody taller than five four for me is great um

00:31:39.040 okay so what minimum height for the guy five six i think that's pretty pretty fair that's pretty

00:31:46.560 reasonable what else um i don't want a gym bro i do want somebody that is kind of um fluffy active

00:31:54.320 yeah or dad bod dad bod i like the dad bod look um but not overweight um i do like them to have

00:32:02.400 um a clean look as much as like a not a big beard or long hair um okay we get into the weeds now

00:32:11.520 wait okay so clean we'll say clean cut uh you don't want what if he's just like physically fit

00:32:21.040 i'm sure you're fine with that right that's fine when you say gym bro you don't want someone who's

00:32:24.560 too self-obsessed is what you're saying right their life is not the gym yeah huh okay um anything else

00:32:31.920 well i wish i could show you like on the dating apps what i've shown my girlfriends when i'm swiping

00:32:36.320 are your girlfriends um religious sounds like they're atheists yeah wait continue with your

00:32:41.280 point show us on the dating apps when i've been on the dating apps and i've shown my friends the

00:32:45.280 guys i've been preferencing it's always constantly i'm just swiping the left and they're like well

00:32:49.280 what about this guy what about this guy and i'm like that's interesting that would actually be a

00:32:54.000 really interesting segment on the show where we like pull up just a blank dating app and like we

00:32:58.640 have the girls okay you're gonna swipe through 20 guys and we're gonna see how you like just based on

00:33:04.240 looks that's actually so fun that'd be and like okay which guy do you just based on like looks or

00:33:10.000 whatever their profile would help guys that's actually really yeah somebody's gonna jack that

00:33:16.000 one hold on wait uh i how do i write this down hold on yeah next wait uh like dating apps swiping

00:33:24.000 on dudes i honestly think it would be super it would be super beneficial i think for the men too to see

00:33:30.400 what women are looking for because i've always thought like oh if i hadn't like in my own

00:33:35.040 business i would definitely like help men on the their dating apps to show them like okay here's what

00:33:39.600 you need to do yeah i feel like dating apps can be pretty useless for a man though they're rough

00:33:44.400 the the standards on a dating app compared to real life are just so warped girls are so picky they did

00:33:50.240 some studies showing what girls are looking for and what guys are looking for and the women tent the

00:33:54.560 women got a list of about 300 things it was a big cross section and the guys had three things they want

00:34:00.160 to be sweet they wanted to be kind they wanted to be attractive and the guy i think the women had

00:34:04.080 a list of about 300 i don't have a list of 300 no because guys just want go on there for sex girls

00:34:11.280 go on there to find their husband which you don't think that's not true you don't think girls

00:34:17.520 there's some strumpets you could criticize guys for the way that they go on dating apps to just have

00:34:21.120 sex but most girls just go on there just for attention just for a bit of dopamine they'll just

00:34:25.120 that's true they'll just swipe and see oh he likes me he likes me he likes me he likes me yeah

00:34:29.280 also for a lot of men you can say that they just want a peaceful girl they have less criteria for

00:34:33.360 what they're looking for so they're more open to what the physical body image is or what her work

00:34:39.440 you know profession is they don't care as much as women have a stance on no i have a lot of guy

00:34:44.320 friends and they show me their dating apps like oh she's fat nope oh she nope that's what they think

00:34:50.160 oh you're on yachts in miami yeah that's you're like your social circle is so warped no offense and and

00:34:56.160 the data is very clear on this they've done lots of studies on dating apps and they show

00:34:59.440 how much men are swiping around compared to women and it's so warped it's it's ridiculously

00:35:04.240 men want to have sex with anything well i mean if you're criticizing men you then have to level

00:35:09.040 the same criticism for women think that they're gonna find their prince charming on there so you

00:35:14.080 think that women are there in like a little fluttery dress like oh i'm gonna find my prince

00:35:17.440 charming yeah that's what they're doing on dating apps yes they're basically going on they're like

00:35:21.680 i want to find my husband i'm gonna get married oh my gosh i want somebody to come save me from

00:35:26.000 tinder yes that's what my friends so you think they're sitting there in their bedroom little

00:35:29.760 damsel in distress just waiting yeah they're like oh my gosh someone come save me i don't want to work

00:35:33.920 anymore someone or or are they dating like five guys at the same time they should be if that's what

00:35:40.800 they want anyways um wait so okay going back to you really quick are there any other things that

00:35:46.400 you've been accused of for when it comes to being shallow what's a common ick that you have that

00:35:52.320 your friends are like come on this is this is like like the hat backwards or like he has a fish in the

00:35:57.440 photo what is it well you got something yeah because you sound okay well i think i'll sound very easy

00:36:02.400 going i would that's what i thought too but there's gotta be something there's gotta be something well i hate

00:36:07.440 when they're in the gym and they're posting like their photo yes um the one thing i also don't like

00:36:15.840 is when there's multiple guys in one picture and you can't figure out who's who and you're

00:36:19.360 just going through um i honestly just think guys just take terrible photos of themselves they do in

00:36:24.640 general can i ask how many dates you've gone on this year

00:36:28.720 none that's i mean i've tried i've that's your problem though you're too picky you need to go on

00:36:34.560 dates and get to know people because if you never put yourself out there and meet people like you you

00:36:38.880 might find a guy that's super cringe online but he just doesn't know how to present himself like

00:36:42.800 guys are retarded like that the hard part about that though is you're putting so much energy

00:36:47.120 into these apps and it's it takes a lot of time to you know start doing that talking stage and if

00:36:54.240 you're not attracted to that person you see on a photo i literally see the girls make no effort

00:36:58.320 on those apps they'll just say hi i have my my brother once showed me a girl who just said h

00:37:03.280 she didn't even say hi just the letter h she couldn't even be bothered putting the i in there

00:37:08.320 i had a guy who messaged me the first message was like yo come over so i don't know there are

00:37:14.080 guys that do that what's your how do you normally open up on a dating app because if you're on bumble

00:37:18.080 for example and it's and it's you who's got to go first what do you normally say um if they have a

00:37:21.760 good opener like a question i usually answer the opener or if it's more along the lines of hey how's

00:37:29.520 your day going or hi it's nice to meet you you know that's how i usually start it um but if they do

00:37:36.160 have an opener that's great that way i can segue into that if you if you like want to do that though

00:37:40.880 you should have your formula and just lay it down from the start and be like listen um i like to go

00:37:45.760 on a date first whatever and if they want to take you on a date go on the date see if you like them

00:37:49.120 if you don't like them free dinner yeah well i i wish like there seems to be months or weeks and

00:37:55.040 weeks of always texting and texting back and forth back and forth and i really would like the guy to

00:37:59.040 initiate hey you have to do it sometimes yeah you can't you can't have a cake then i'm like no i can't do it

00:38:05.760 then no yeah sounds like you overthink this shit a lot you need to get yourself onto the date and do

00:38:10.800 it regularly well it also sounds like you put a lot of pressure on a single date that you might if

00:38:15.280 you do put so much pressure on a single date you're going to be a lot more selective if you're only going

00:38:19.440 on one every four months yeah you know it's it's hard i mean i agree there's a lot of things i could

00:38:25.440 work on and i i appreciate your guys's um input on it i it's just hard with my job it's exhausting to

00:38:31.760 go on dates so i know i need to work on it better yeah i'm a nurse so it's just it's hard but travel

00:38:36.480 nurse no okay no no no no red flag i were still kind of still kind of a red flag no i work in oncology

00:38:44.240 okay so uh let me ask you a question though like so okay well you said you're not necessarily waiting

00:38:51.520 for marriage like you'll have sex before marriage but it's got to be like the right guy right what if

00:38:56.000 it just like what if you hit 45 and it's just like still not happening are you just gonna like

00:39:01.840 be like fuck it i'm just going for it i'm i want to lose my virginity or you like is there is there any

00:39:08.480 scenario where you're just like you die a virgin put it down all right boys you know i don't find a

00:39:15.840 guy it's not the thing that's gonna fulfill me in life um but like just like as a bucket list thing

00:39:20.560 like let's say you're like 62 and you're still a virgin are you just gonna like send it and just be

00:39:25.040 like all right i'm gonna like no fuck this guy in the retirement oh no no i i think if i can't find

00:39:31.120 somebody then i will probably die a virgin and i'm okay with what what do you think you said it won't

00:39:35.440 fulfill you in life what do you think will fulfill you in life i'm sorry repeat the question what do

00:39:39.760 you think will fulfill you in life um honestly my relationship with god i'm a christian and i think

00:39:49.120 when you think about the world and i understand that they're having a relationship with god is very

00:39:52.320 important yeah but also we're put in this world and we're told to go forth and multiply right do

00:39:56.560 you think that there is like something that you profoundly lose if you don't have a family and

00:40:01.200 children no i mean if that's what god had intended for me specifically then i have to accept that and

00:40:06.640 be okay with that i think a lot of women my age are coming to that point where they want to be they're

00:40:13.600 they're not um in relationships and they it's hard for them to get into relationships so they have to

00:40:18.480 figure out a way to uh be content in life so they you see a lot of girls trying to be happy being

00:40:25.360 single because what else are you going to do be miserable at home certainly better to have god

00:40:29.840 than to not have god because if you don't have god you've got box wine and cats and a vibrator

00:40:33.600 well and i i think i think the problem though is we use relationships to fulfill this emptiness inside

00:40:40.320 of us and that's where we get in problems when it comes to marriage and whatnot and why there's

00:40:44.240 a fail in marriage society but i do think that there is something to that though if you don't

00:40:48.640 have a relationship at some point in your life i do think that there is something that's missing

00:40:51.760 from within you i don't think we're meant to be alone no we're not going to be alone but we are meant

00:40:56.000 to be in one with god you know we were meant to be in this world with god and i think when people

00:41:01.840 do not have god in their lives they try to fill that empty hole and they use relationships

00:41:06.000 as their faith they use relationships and sure but you can you can have the both though you can

00:41:10.080 have the both as long as you don't make the relationship your whole world and um you have

00:41:16.400 yeah i understand what you're saying i understand what you're saying it's definitely better to have

00:41:19.520 god than to not have god yes for sure yeah all right what uh what's your relationship status i am

00:41:26.640 single my longest relationship was three and a half almost wait can i have you just tilt the mic down a

00:41:32.960 bit is that better perfect go ahead okay so yeah my longest relationship was like three and a half

00:41:38.320 four years um single for how long it's kind of messy so my last relationship we kind of like

00:41:51.040 we keep trying to go back to it and then not and then now i think i'm done which is a big thing to

00:41:56.640 say but wait so it's been on again off again yeah we we try we were friends first and then we

00:42:02.640 dated on and off for about three years and it was an amicable breakup which is difficult because you

00:42:11.920 still care for the person and you still have love for the person then it's just finding if i recall

00:42:16.080 correctly you've done these experiments where you try to go on 50 dates in 50 days well that's when i

00:42:21.680 first started dating but yes but have you done that recently no i haven't been on after i excoriated

00:42:29.520 is that the right word i mean did i say that right excoriated i've never heard that or is it

00:42:34.400 excorciated excoriated excoriated to denounce or berate severely flay verbally i don't know if i

00:42:41.920 berated you severely i don't know i denounced some of the comments said you berated me severely which i

00:42:47.680 it was it was a strong denouncement i thought strong denouncement not a severe beration i think

00:42:53.120 that's an excoriation it was an it was an excoriation yeah yeah no i haven't i haven't done that

00:42:59.600 since but flayed verbally um i would be i would be open to it again i'm just not in that place i think

00:43:06.480 so i started dating don't do it i started dating i went on my first date when i was about 18 or 19

00:43:14.320 and my upbringing was very different than the average person i was homeschooled for most of my

00:43:18.960 life i graduated high school at 16 i was in college by 16 so i was around people that were significantly

00:43:24.400 older and legally i was not going to date anyone for it for that matter um and one of my friends

00:43:31.280 called me a prude when i hit 18 and she goes you don't date anybody and i was just very driven very

00:43:36.800 focused i'm the first in my family to go to college and i said well screw that i said i'll show you how i

00:43:42.320 can be and i was like i'm gonna go on 50 dates in 50 days with 50 different guys and we're gonna see

00:43:46.720 how this this study goes um always been research based uh my first serious relationship was date 14

00:43:53.440 it was someone that i i met and i really connected with and i i applaud you for if you don't find

00:43:58.640 someone that's worth your time you don't waste your time i will also say that you need to put yourself

00:44:03.040 out there and that takes a physical effort and you need to do the work in that sense and that's it's

00:44:08.320 hard so that's why i did the 50 dates my ex was date 14 we were together for almost four years i caught

00:44:13.760 him cheating with his soon with his best friend or no sorry his marine buddies ex soon to be ex-wife

00:44:22.160 who was leaving his her her husband because she caught him cheating so she was becoming the other

00:44:27.200 woman in my situation left him for that they ended up having a baby together moved on to the next i

00:44:34.320 dated i was like well i never finished 50 dates so i'm gonna continue it i met my next partner on

00:44:40.080 date nine we were together for a year he got deported back to norway um that's how that went

00:44:45.680 and then i said i'm gonna go on 12 dates after that so i i'm a project manager i'm efficient with my

00:44:52.320 time i think if you if you meet someone and you're really trying to connect with someone you can make

00:44:56.400 the effort i do think girls sometimes are have unrealistic standards for someone i don't think you should

00:45:01.840 give up your minimum criteria but there are definitely a lot of amazing men out there that

00:45:06.000 a lot of women overlook and being someone that works in tech i work with a lot of the nice guys

00:45:10.880 that a lot of women overlook and i see their dating apps and i see what they go why do you overlook them

00:45:16.800 i don't i just have christian backgrounds and most of them don't so so it's a matter of culture

00:45:21.920 culture is part of it there's no christian nice guys no no no where i work like the people you're

00:45:27.040 up in like the bay or yeah i'm in the bay like so it's very hard to find it rose yeah it's tech

00:45:32.080 bros wait like the bay so wait are you in sf or san francisco i'm in silicon valley silicon valley

00:45:38.240 okay yeah so i'm open to it i mean i i have my preferences but i also admittedly can be swathed

00:45:45.760 kind of easily if someone can catch my attention i know you're talking about because i lived in

00:45:50.240 santa clara yeah so you know you're right down the street definitely you know what was going on up

00:45:54.640 there so i totally agree the dating scene up there is very very hard yeah all right jake what about

00:45:59.200 you i am single it's been single for a long time dms are open for the ladies travel a lot so i don't

00:46:07.200 have time to really like date too much so yeah just grinding at the moment and maybe one day we'll see

00:46:12.240 how it goes rock and roll uh longest relationship you've ever been in two years two years all right

00:46:17.440 rock and roll guys we're going to do a segment called dating app review so three of the girls here

00:46:22.400 at the table we're going to be reviewing their dating app profiles we're going to have you the

00:46:26.960 viewers weigh in let us know what you think would you swipe yes would you swipe no nick if you're able

00:46:32.320 to uh pull up the first one we're going to get that going we have jess here she's got her pronouns in

00:46:41.200 the bio just so you know she's a woman she her uh she says she yaps too much now gentlemen is would that

00:46:47.840 be would that be an issue for you that she yaps too much she also is into cats and tattoos next

00:46:56.080 you think that band and city morgue should make an album album together no idea wait hold on uh

00:47:03.600 who the fuck is that guy

00:47:07.440 okay no idea who those are cool next

00:47:09.200 you quote too much from big bang theory that's sweet next oh it's the next person okay we'll hold

00:47:18.000 on we'll do we'll do jess first all right boys you see her on bumble do you swipe yes or do you swipe

00:47:24.400 no swipe yes swipe no in the chat yo shout out to rachel wilson in the chat um oh we got straws are for

00:47:33.760 fax donated two hundred dollars brie deteriorates when the convo isn't on her for more than 30

00:47:40.160 seconds the girl in the corner is my sister she says it's toxic to ask someone on a date what they

00:47:46.960 bring to the table in a relationship did he actually pay for that wait who's i don't know who the person

00:47:52.480 in the corner is someone's brother just that is my brother okay can he change his username to something

00:47:59.840 not tos i should probably block that word out but no this is based yeah he seems based he would be

00:48:05.760 so happy that you said that um do you want to respond to that brie that was directed to you

00:48:12.400 i zoned out the whole thing i don't know um i just wanted to say one thing 50 dates and

00:48:18.080 none of them worked well no i mean so date 14 date 14 was someone that lasted for almost four years

00:48:24.160 but it didn't work because he cheated or he left yeah but it was a relationship that lasts for

00:48:28.240 several years so it wasn't like it was random it's just you kind of go through it so he was

00:48:33.120 date 14 and then i dated someone else they had to go back home split up nick 50 dates if she was

00:48:38.400 i didn't make it to 50 is the whole thing she was a part of your school what advice would you give to

00:48:42.000 her oh my gosh i have so much advice for both of them please give it to them though girl in pink

00:48:48.480 you need to go outside you don't need to go on dating apps that's not going to work

00:48:52.000 and keep your standards where they're at because your standards are like

00:48:55.520 the most basic like have a relationship with god be a family man that's like the most basic

00:48:59.600 ever you're not asking them to be seven foot tall and you like i feel like you need to up your

00:49:06.880 standards a little bit because you're talking about no but sometimes guys but no stop we need

00:49:13.280 to put men back up there so up your standards because after 50 guys you should have been married

00:49:18.800 with kids by now if that's what you wanted to so you think that the fact that she didn't like

00:49:22.640 the 50 guys means she has to up her standards if you had 50 guys and none of them worked it must

00:49:28.560 be because because your standards are too low you pick pretty shitty 50 guys gotcha yeah so do you

00:49:35.120 want to you guys can respond i was going to say the people that i've dated i've i'm 28 now i've been

00:49:41.360 in relationships since i was 19 so this is the longest i've ever been single and it's about six months

00:49:45.680 to be honest so i've been in great relationships and i think that it's one of those things that you

00:49:51.360 have to be realistic about what you want i think i've done the work of knowing what makes a healthy

00:49:56.960 relationship i've done the work of seeing what long longitudinally speaking from research what

00:50:02.640 makes a good relationship for people what makes them happy what makes them feel feel fulfilled in

00:50:06.720 a relationship and i don't compromise on those standards which is why most of my friends would

00:50:11.360 say i am picky for what i have and i have no problem with that i have no problem saying that like i said

00:50:16.640 height i have a preference it's not the end of the world to me at the end of the day but there are certain

00:50:21.200 things like morals character and value that i hold very strong to my beliefs that i'm not willing to

00:50:25.600 negotiate because i do want to be a mom and i do want to raise my kids in a certain way and i will

00:50:29.680 not apologize for that yeah but you're 28 you want to be a mom your time is running out you need to pick

00:50:36.800 50 better guys who says i haven't picked them who says i haven't had options but i just said no because

00:50:42.720 i know just because someone comes around i'm not desperate enough to settle for that your standards

00:50:47.920 i have my standards that's not a problem this is the most retarded conversation no no guys don't

00:50:53.360 use sorry sorry this is the most silly conversation if you know the world that's okay we're here now

00:51:00.320 and you choose the right men after so here's a question i would love to ask you this question

00:51:04.080 what do you think is upping my standards and where should i improve like i feel like you should choose

00:51:09.120 men like why haven't they worked out of 50 guys why didn't i don't even know 50 guys like why didn't it

00:51:15.120 work out so majority of people don't have religious values majority of people don't want to raise their

00:51:19.840 children that way four number one key indicators for a relationship are money finances if you agree

00:51:25.040 on finances your in-laws children whether or not how you want to raise them and you know upbringing

00:51:30.800 for that piece so it's one of those things like if i don't find someone that meets those things i don't

00:51:34.560 care what someone does for work i don't mind if someone's a workaholic i used to work an obscene

00:51:38.400 amount of hours a day a week that's that's fine for me those things i'm fine with but finding

00:51:43.680 someone that i think is going to make a great father and someone that i if i have a son i want

00:51:47.920 them to be like that that is a very hard thing to find i have a lot of male friends i have a lot of

00:51:52.400 people that i think are great guys i always look at it as if i had a son and they turned out just

00:51:58.000 like these people would i be proud of them and if the answer is no i'm not going to waste my time

00:52:03.040 and that's perfectly fine i would rather be selective in that piece what else do you have to say

00:52:07.680 but you picked 50 so or 14 14 9 and then 12. so 14 date 14 was great i had dates after that i

00:52:18.000 canceled them because i thought this person was someone that i could marry and i stayed with them

00:52:21.040 for several years turns out they weren't so sorry i'll hold it up it's good arm workout uh date 14

00:52:28.480 was great almost four years i thought this was the person i thought it was a great a person i would

00:52:33.120 be proud if my children became like this person turned out that wasn't the case that's perfectly

00:52:37.280 fine not everyone's ready for that yeah date nine was someone i really admired and respected he is

00:52:42.800 not from this country and he had to leave that's perfectly fine after that last date i've last person

00:52:48.000 i've been dating for the past three three and a half years i love him as a person i think he's a

00:52:52.000 wonderful man him and i want to raise children differently and we're able to actually have an adult

00:52:56.160 conversation and say hey we agree on a majority of things he is someone that didn't even know if he ever

00:53:01.680 wanted children and he goes i know how you want to raise children and i respect that

00:53:05.600 thomas the poet donated 200 yeah thank you man thank you thomas ryan and jessica are the

00:53:12.000 the f king bombs total babes and wife material clemson alum lived in both dallas and sf now live

00:53:18.720 in both la and lake como italy accepting bf applications thank you

00:53:24.800 no not right now are you guys that's for alexa ryan i love a poet jessica i don't know i might be

00:53:35.680 accepting boyfriend applications all right thomas the poet you i guess you can shoot your shot wait

00:53:41.120 so brie is your criticism here that like going on a date every single day is too much is that kind of

00:53:47.200 your criticism for alexa well if you were able to find so many guys why did you pick like you must

00:53:55.840 have been picking wrong if you found so many guys went on dates with them and it still didn't work

00:54:01.040 because technically i only picked three so if you're going based off of numbers no but you said you went

00:54:06.720 on date 14 date 9 and date she had long relationships with them that they worked yeah they just didn't

00:54:11.520 ultimately work out but for date 14 you went on 14 dates right yeah 13 dates 13 dates that's a lot

00:54:17.680 you show no it's it's one of those things you're going you're meeting people you're trying to get

00:54:22.000 to know them you're trying to be very honest and realistic about what your approach is and what

00:54:25.120 you're looking for in life and if we didn't i can go on a date with someone and if we i can think

00:54:30.720 they're an amazing person and they're a great catch but we want different values in life i don't

00:54:34.000 think either of us should have a compromise on that so i can say hey we're not meant to be i wish you

00:54:39.120 the best good luck finding the person that is going to be live the lifestyle that you want but

00:54:43.920 you want to be a mom and you're 28 so you're like running out of time am i how many years do i have

00:54:48.720 left you have like six years left great so i went on 50 dates in 50 days i got a lot of time if it's six

00:54:54.880 years so you're gonna do another 50 dates no now i'm more selective and i'm actually seeing if someone

00:55:00.640 who wants to oh sorry go ahead go ahead good oh no i was just gonna say so now you're more selective

00:55:04.880 so you agree with what i said that well no i went on 50 dates because i was told that i was too picky

00:55:10.240 so in that situation it was something that i said okay if i'm gonna go on 50 dates in 50 days with 50

00:55:14.960 different guys i'm not going to compromise the fact that people need to have a decent profile in the

00:55:20.320 sense of like if you're showing your ass or showing you're with a bunch of girls and getting drunk i don't

00:55:24.480 want to date someone like that i'm gonna pass on you anyway but if it's someone that i think is looking

00:55:28.400 for a serious relationship and say hey maybe physically they're not like my first longest relationship is not

00:55:33.840 someone i would naturally consider my type so you did all of this and still single yeah but i would

00:55:40.560 consider it successful i'm 28 and i'm just this is the longest i've ever been single for six six months

00:55:46.000 i've been in relationships this entire time but if getting married and having kids is your goal

00:55:50.400 like you're kind of running out of time it's better than showing your butt on the internet

00:55:53.840 well i was wearing out of time i'm in the grave right now because i mean but i'm you can have

00:56:01.680 children past 40 and be okay no high risk pregnancy after 35 and there's always and that is true and

00:56:07.920 i'm not gonna just i'm not gonna dispute that i think that is a very realistic thing i don't waste

00:56:12.560 my time i don't do one night stands i don't waste my time with men like that and i have no problem with

00:56:16.480 that but you don't do one night stands but you went on 50 dates yeah i'm not gonna sleep with these

00:56:20.320 people you didn't sleep with any of them the one i ended up dating for four years okay i can count

00:56:26.560 all my body i can i have my body count on one hand what about you well i just recently stopped being

00:56:39.760 i'm just saying you can actually go on these dates i'm not sleeping with these people it's just

00:56:44.720 i can have a conversation the way i'm having you tell the other guys did you tell 10 11 and

00:56:49.040 13 10 11 12 and 13 that you've been on 10 other nine other dates no the same way i wouldn't ask

00:56:53.120 them if they went on a date right before me okay wait so that would that would be giant alarm three

00:56:57.120 is is your criticism here like i think the clock is ticking kind of is that yeah i don't want you

00:57:02.400 to get defensive and like all mad and stuff and act like i'm telling you like but like real

00:57:08.160 shit you like need to get to it if you want to have kids and i am looking and i'm looking genuinely

00:57:12.640 for someone that i think i can have a long-term relationship with the same way i've done it with

00:57:16.080 the past three relationships i don't consider like the fact someone cheated on me and did that

00:57:20.880 that that was his business that's not mine and i can actually say for someone why'd he cheat

00:57:26.960 because he wasn't happy with himself when he lost his job and he started getting validation from other

00:57:31.360 women and what he didn't realize was he was with someone that actually really loved him and respected

00:57:38.320 him and was willing to see the potential in him even when he wasn't doing his best i liked him

00:57:42.080 for the man that he was and he has never been told that he was a good man prior to me and i recognize

00:57:46.800 that and and when you are dating someone and you date someone that has a heart he was former military

00:57:52.400 he did two tours to afghanistan i dealt with i will tell you that in a relationship and i loved him

00:57:57.360 through all of that and he was someone that wasn't willing to admit or go through it with someone else

00:58:02.320 and i even had family members of his say hey you know what he might not be a good guy and i said that

00:58:08.000 is something i take into consideration and i'm going to be honest and like i said the way i date

00:58:12.240 is i say if i this is someone that i can date seriously and if i had a son who was like him

00:58:16.560 and i can be proud of him i will stay in their relationship i got to the point where i said i'm

00:58:21.040 afraid if i had a son just like him i would be afraid of my son so i said i need to leave and the

00:58:26.880 fact that i happened to catch him cheating at the same time i i had a suspicion every woman every woman

00:58:33.280 feels it at some point and you think you go crazy when you feel it and i even told him the week prior

00:58:37.440 to catching up cheating i said if there's someone else if you want to be in a different relationship

00:58:41.920 that's totally fine tell me now because i was 24 at the time and i said you're not going to take

00:58:46.720 my best years i was like real talk i'm gonna give you three years and if there's not a certain rock

00:58:51.280 on a certain finger i'm gonna walk out not because i don't think you're a great guy but because i'm

00:58:55.600 not going to commit to someone who's not willing to commit to me especially i agree when you're

00:58:59.920 younger this is your prime make the most of it don't it up yeah i was gonna say he kind of took

00:59:05.440 your best years because you're like i was 24 i went to the next relationship 24 is still young

00:59:10.800 i went to the next relationship it was a great relationship he got deported i can't control

00:59:15.920 immigration that's that's not in my business do you do you want to get married as well from where

00:59:20.960 do you want to have kids oh you don't no it's not in the plans at all do you think that that's

00:59:25.840 because you're young and the things that you're doing at the moment aren't aren't um well besides

00:59:30.800 like the whole three husbands thing like i just don't want a relationship i don't believe in

00:59:34.560 monogamy either what do you want to do with your life what what looks good for you in 20 years time

00:59:38.640 when you're sitting there 43 years old or heavy however old you'll be where do you hope to be

00:59:44.400 i'm gonna be helping people just helping people as much as i can can i ask you one question i'm just

00:59:52.720 curious what think what makes you think you have the credentials or the knowledge and superiority to

00:59:57.680 give anyone else advice so i really don't but i know a lot of people and also living in miami like

01:00:03.600 you're very well connected so so you know other people that know i know experts and i have the

01:00:10.480 resources to so you don't know anything is what you're saying i know what i know i know my knowledge

01:00:16.560 but i can't have all the answers and that's just the truth nobody has all the answers i can't sit here

01:00:20.800 and say no i have all the answers the dating and i'm gonna save your life like

01:00:24.320 so what do you know what do you know you specifically not your friends not your

01:00:30.080 connections what do you know i know that you need to find that confidence within yourself first

01:00:38.560 and believe that you are truly worth it to before you ever even look at anyone else i agree so you

01:00:45.760 shouldn't be looking at someone else like maybe they'll save me maybe they'll make me better maybe

01:00:50.560 i'll be happier fun with them you can't get any of that unless you do that yourself i hundred percent

01:00:55.920 agree okay so if i went on so if i went on 50 dates and i knew my worth and i knew that just because

01:01:01.040 someone was interested in me that i didn't want to settle for that what what is different than what

01:01:05.120 you're advising um i don't think you should even wasted your time on those dates then how would you

01:01:12.320 know you never met these people well you're not with them now like what what value did they bring

01:01:16.800 it was a quick date it was efficient it was it was i respected their time i didn't spend several

01:01:22.000 weeks with them talking on an app i said hey would you like to meet for a coffee they said yeah let's

01:01:26.400 go spend an hour of my time if an hour of our time went really well and 50 hours yeah you work that

01:01:32.960 in a week if you actually worked a real job from a guy's perspective it can be slightly red flag if

01:01:39.200 they go on heaps of dates but the fact that you're like not leading them on is is a good thing if you

01:01:43.680 go on a date and you say hey i'm not so interested you can deal with that for sure if you lead them

01:01:47.600 on and you're dating the same 14 guys and none of them know that you're not interested then that's

01:01:52.400 bad yes but if you tell them at the end of the day hey enjoyed your time i'm not really interested

01:01:55.920 but thank you that's fine yeah not like you're sleeping with them all i don't know like it's a

01:02:00.800 practical thing to do first where'd you find these guys dating apps dating apps so you think you're

01:02:07.120 going to find a high value man on a dating app it's a possibility i was trying to she's on raya

01:02:13.200 so i guess it's better over there i guess um i'm a riot and i could tell you now that

01:02:18.640 you're not there's why is there like a little animosity here you know what i almost feel because

01:02:23.120 you you seem to be coming for alexa here a little bit i'm not i'm just saying you asked me for my

01:02:28.320 opinion this is like a cafe right now but then she got a little defensive i'm trying to say don't get

01:02:33.280 defensive i'm not attacking you i'm not i'm not defensive bring it on i'm you know what we should

01:02:37.600 do we should let the viewers decide we're going to let the viewers decide so because you're kind

01:02:42.560 of coming at her you know look she's you're making saying things about her age and stuff

01:02:47.680 i think we should let the viewers decide we're going to do a segment called who would you rather

01:02:53.520 date and we're going to have brie versus alexa the chat hates me go ahead pull up their instagrams

01:03:00.240 you're going to pull up their instagrams they kicked me off wait i'm actually going to do

01:03:03.040 we're going to pull up their instagrams and i don't for the record brie i have no animosity

01:03:08.560 towards you it's okay if you have them that them like state their case as in why they're not make

01:03:15.040 they're making this out of nowhere i'm not trying to attack you i'm just saying like

01:03:18.640 i have no problem with you coming for me and saying i'm 20 years old i actually i agree

01:03:23.520 if i was hooking up with a different person every random day and i was trying to find

01:03:26.960 find love through that yeah absolutely i hope one of my friends would be like girl come on let's be real

01:03:31.200 you're not in your early 20s i didn't even do that in my early 20s though yeah wait brie is your

01:03:35.920 name is it with an e at the end or just b-r-i b-r-i-i two eyes what are you crazy no i'm just

01:03:45.920 gonna do brie that's oh you're just writing my name brie b-r-i-b-r-i and then two x's right okay

01:03:52.800 we're gonna do a poll we're gonna do a poll they literally on youtube last time so i'm not going

01:03:59.680 to consider this i'm talking no they may like you a little bit so there's the poll it just came up

01:04:04.720 me off of your last time oh okay that's pretty rough so far hold on don't pull it up yet and then

01:04:10.800 is it on twitch i don't know let me see if it's on does anybody ever say your case okay so here's

01:04:15.600 guys here's what we're gonna do you each have a 30 second opening statement guys guys guys you each have

01:04:21.520 a 30 second opening statement to make your case why they should date you instead of the other

01:04:26.560 person so go ahead yeah go ahead brie you start first don't date me i'm not competing just just

01:04:33.360 come on losers on the internet did you just bro don't don't call them losers okay but i don't care

01:04:41.600 about them first off i'll have you know everybody all the 10 000 people who are watching currently are

01:04:46.800 all giga chat millionaires huge penises big all of them well i'm never going to say why i'm better

01:04:54.160 than another woman because i honestly don't consider myself better than any other woman how do i do a

01:04:59.520 pull on twitch do you think that some women are better than other women i feel like some women can

01:05:05.200 be more confident in themselves but that doesn't make them do you think that you'd rather have a

01:05:08.560 baby with a 24 year old woman than a 34 year old one well 34 year old like she practically can't

01:05:15.200 have a do you think that implies this do you think that implies standards that some things are better

01:05:19.520 than other things um i don't i personally myself i would not sit here and try to say why it's better

01:05:27.040 to date me than date her because so you just you just criticized her for being 28 okay that's your

01:05:32.080 opinion fair enough but then you're implying that there's something better if they're younger so that

01:05:35.520 that would no i'm not saying that being that if she was younger i'm saying if you want to have a

01:05:42.240 baby you need to hurry up because you have like six years left and i think that that's a that's a

01:05:45.920 good point but all i'm asking you is you're saying that you don't think some women are better than

01:05:49.600 other women like what are you talking about okay the twitch polls going up you have one minute to

01:05:53.120 answer okay no no no no you're keep going i was just no i was just saying um you you were saying

01:05:57.680 that you don't think that there's standards you're saying that some women are not better than other

01:06:00.480 women oh i'm saying me personally i am not i don't care what anyone

01:06:05.440 else thinks why do you even get out of bed in the morning me personally i am not going to sit

01:06:10.560 here and be like oh you should date me because i am this or i do this like no why not because

01:06:17.760 that is the dumbest thing i'm not going to compete with a woman like that especially not for men

01:06:22.720 so what else did you compete with women for i don't compete for men first of all because like

01:06:27.040 i said i'm not interested in getting married or having kids so it's okay state your case alexa

01:06:33.680 okay so sort of way along wait tilt your mic down

01:06:40.480 sort of along the lines of what oh that didn't work it needs to be

01:06:43.520 yeah tighten it this way yeah perfect oh the side's loose hold on

01:06:48.320 is that good yeah you're good so first of all i will say i don't compete with other women i think

01:06:53.440 it's it's a waste of time because here's the thing my mom has said since i was i was raised by a single

01:06:57.600 mom and i will say she's always said there's always going to be someone prettier than you smarter than

01:07:01.040 you taller than you thinner than you all you can work on is being the best that you can be

01:07:04.800 so if you focus on what other women are doing you're always going to be let down point blank period

01:07:09.760 that's beautiful for me i will say i don't come up from the most great background and i recognize

01:07:16.960 that so this is your pitch i'm i'm going into it okay all right so it's one of those things like

01:07:22.960 you're a salesman i sorry i'm not a salesman okay sorry sorry woman my bad but it's one of those

01:07:27.760 things like beak i something that differentiates me from other women is i can recognize my flaws and

01:07:33.280 the things that i need to work on and i don't think i'm high and mighty and above those things

01:07:36.560 so i have worked on those for the past several years of my life how do you know that separates

01:07:40.080 you from other women because a lot of women aren't willing to admit how did you observe that

01:07:44.320 by competing with other women anyways no by hearing from other people and it's also working in a

01:07:48.640 male dominant i have no private chat pull that up in the other tab then we'll have the youtube chat

01:07:52.640 visible before we see the results of the poll i'm going to read what the results are and i don't

01:07:58.480 have a pitch because i'm not going to sit here and tell some people on the internet hey please pick

01:08:03.440 me i want i'm the one you want to marry i promise like i'm not neither of us are pick me wait what

01:08:08.640 that's not in the way shut the fuck further up hold on stop stop stop stop stop the woman prattle hold

01:08:15.600 on that's on me not stop stop stop stop stop stop hold on let me read the chats never silence okay

01:08:22.480 nickelodeon how are you going to teach men when you can't form a coherent sentence

01:08:26.560 she just wants to find men with enough time and money to waste a lockdown

01:08:31.440 do you want to respond to nickelodeon i have formed plenty of coherent sentences just like the

01:08:36.400 one i just formed one second ago so all right cool and then we have

01:08:41.680 bro why do they always want to kick me off

01:08:48.160 thank you man hold on i'm gonna pull up crawl daddy here hey thank you

01:08:51.680 jessica has the vibe of a girl i fall in love with right before i get drafted into world war three

01:08:58.320 and then i carry around a little picture of her in my bible

01:09:00.880 that's such a like uh compliment i've ever received yeah it's like a very that's interesting

01:09:08.800 unique compliment all right nick can you pull up the twitch and then i want uh the youtube chat

01:09:13.600 visible over there too so pull up the twitch that i sent you in the private chat and you can just pause

01:09:20.240 it go uh hide hide the for you oh my god it's fucked wait there's got to be a better way to do this

01:09:27.680 hold on hold on get okay on the for you side hide that on the side

01:09:34.960 yeah just hide that you'll have to pull it back up now it's this is going to be and then pull over

01:09:39.760 the youtube pull over the youtube this is going to be like inception ridiculousness wait is the poll

01:09:48.160 gone holy fuck no on twitch did it disappear on twitch sorry guys we're fucking amateurs over there on

01:09:55.840 twitch all right never mind we're just gonna have to do it based off of the youtube one i missed the

01:10:01.120 results rip uh those of you watching on twitch i'm in the chat now can you just tell me who won the

01:10:08.080 poll like what were the numbers on the poll over there on what was the results for the poll on twitch

01:10:14.160 86 for alexa what was the does it say a percentage 86 86 so alexa won 86 to brie and then over there

01:10:24.720 on youtube it looks like it's 80 20 yeah 80 20 in favor of alexa so brie i mean even though

01:10:31.840 well i never said six years younger i mean alexa's edging you out here what's going on brie i never

01:10:37.120 said that i was the better option over here and when you asked me to put my pitch i didn't put a pitch

01:10:42.480 because i never said i was the better option and they kicked me off last time and they're saying

01:10:48.320 kick brie off please right now so i'm not gonna take that seriously so oh yeah should we do their

01:10:56.880 instagrams really because brian i feel like you trying to put us like against each other it's not

01:11:03.120 you were sniping at her for like 10 minutes i wasn't sniping at her i was saying that she needs

01:11:07.600 table table was she sniping at her she was some snipes there there were some snipes i was not trying

01:11:12.160 to snipe at her i was being realistic i just said what's on my mind honestly i have no filter

01:11:17.280 so that's just my problem thank you thank you um let's do the instagrams really quick alexa first

01:11:25.360 i'm never on it all right there's alexa she's on the whatever podcast boom jesus lover world

01:11:29.440 traveler ex-googler wait you used to work at google i did good times adrenaline junkie former miss teenage

01:11:35.440 california 2014 10 years ago okay recipient of three gold three gold presidential service awards

01:11:42.720 what wait what's that so i have uh was that george bush who gave that uh that was obama obama okay so

01:11:49.600 i have a lot of volunteer hours just kidding just kidding yeah good good times uh scroll down a bit

01:11:55.120 nick let's see some of the all right there she is okay i don't post often this is like the past four

01:12:01.040 years all in like all right game of thrones she's on the throne i like your instagram it's very

01:12:06.160 well thank you now is that area on the ground day with the phone looks like it i got pulled in anyways

01:12:13.200 uh now like competition now we're gonna see breeze we're uh we're pulling up breeze and sarim here

01:12:19.920 oh that's uh haram we can okay oh my god brie i need to actually ask you something that i brought

01:12:26.640 up last show but okay um scroll down nick scroll down bro this is haram haram

01:12:34.640 no i mean it's on instagram so i assume it's fine brie what is this brie okay that's me

01:12:42.800 brie i gotta listen be honest yeah i asked you previously yeah we were talking about plastic

01:12:51.360 surgery yeah you said you hadn't had plastic surgery well i had my boobs done and your lips

01:12:56.080 correct i never had my lips done i had my boobs done and my teeth done the contouring of your face

01:13:00.400 doesn't suggest that you've never had your lips done well i'm sorry to tell you that why okay we

01:13:05.360 did this last time i'm going to be honest about the things i got done because why would i lie about

01:13:10.880 getting my lips done but i'm honest about getting no you can just tell by the contouring of someone's

01:13:15.120 face if their lips are natural well i can tell you what i got done i'm less interested and my teeth

01:13:20.240 i'm less interested in the lips i'm more interested so i think i asked you i think if you had any lipo

01:13:26.720 and if you had a bbl nope give me a break you've got a no okay you've got two full basketballs in there

01:13:35.360 brie i never got a bbl okay but hold on just just so you don't try to like weasel your way around this

01:13:42.400 conversation did you have maybe there's a different procedure that was focused on on your buttocks that

01:13:49.440 is not called a bbl no have you had a procedure done have you had any any enhancements any enhancements

01:13:56.160 to the the the gluteus maximus region no like i said bro i went it's right there on your instagram

01:14:06.000 this thing isn't even what my instagram is my ass that's what i'm known for no actually okay

01:14:12.320 so i'm gonna tell you a quick little thing i blew up on twitter when i was 15 years old

01:14:17.360 for having a fat ass i'm sorry i know it's really bad bro yeah i was yeah i was 15 years old i posted

01:14:24.720 a picture of me in a bikini that's how i blew up on instagram that's how i blew up on twitter that's

01:14:28.800 how the following i have thank you for sharing is because i've just had a fat ass hold on pull that

01:14:34.320 pull our instagram back up this is so cap this is so click on the first photo yeah bruv i'm sorry like okay

01:14:42.080 you can see it actually protruding bro brie come on dude so go go um i have a question for you brian

01:14:48.000 why would i why would i be honest about having my boobs done and my teeth other arrow nope back nick

01:14:55.840 yeah why would i be honest about having my boobs and my teeth done and then i would lie about having

01:15:01.680 my butt done more people lie about you got a bbl brie why are you lying bro brie you have a bbl stop

01:15:08.000 line wait hold on does the girl next to you have a bbl yes amanda has probably like eight bbls

01:15:13.200 bro you guys got like the exact same thing hold on uh next well i'm waiting uh hold on no like is

01:15:21.520 there one more wait hold on goddamn move fucking frack get the fuck out of here goddamn bro how long

01:15:28.480 is this okay oh my god trans bubble bite i'm sorry bro but it just don't look that don't look normal

01:15:34.160 next i think that no there's a video go ahead this is where you can definitely tell hold up i'd look

01:15:41.440 way skinnier hold up like you could tell which one's fake and which one's real yeah hold on what the

01:15:50.880 we can see it moving dude that i'm sorry brie you got a bbl why are you lying son like i said i'm not

01:15:57.680 going to sit here and lie about having a bbl and then be like what i got my titties and my teeth done and i

01:16:02.880 have hair extensions excuse us you called yourself a uh virgin because you manifested so excuse us for

01:16:07.600 not trusting you i'm going to be honest we need to do another poll we're doing another poll in the

01:16:12.800 does she have a bbl as the poll well if they followed me since i was 15 they would know so

01:16:17.200 you're saying no one's going to admit to following you since you're a lot of my followers are watching

01:16:22.000 this and they know that it's so great just just so we have it definitively you have not had

01:16:28.240 any modification besides my gluteus my boobs what about the lipo though boobs teeth what about the

01:16:34.880 lipo there's look how skinny i am look at my arm i have fat for lipo you think i have fat for lipo

01:16:40.400 look at my arm what about your lawn but there's something that happens to the stomach when you get

01:16:44.880 lipo like it it comes a bit skinny but like it there's like tightens your belly button it's right

01:16:50.640 my belly button looks normal look at my belly dude i'm not you might have lipo belly brie i don't have

01:16:56.960 lipo belly because i never had lipo okay i am so skinny and i've been so skinny my whole life

01:17:02.800 there is no way i could possibly get lipo like no way there's no fat to get look at my stomach

01:17:09.200 there's no fat to get out of my stomach that is how skinny you're such it's just like even if i

01:17:15.680 wanted a bbl i'm not 100 i'm not 100 certain on the beep uh excuse me on the lipo i'm not 100 certain

01:17:22.560 on the lipo there are some signs of it but come on you gotta fess up you gotta confess i weigh 110

01:17:29.600 pounds okay for moving on from the lipo i'm not 100 on the lipo 110 pounds i can't you've had

01:17:36.880 something for the booty i don't know if it's implants i don't know if it's bbl why are you

01:17:42.400 why are you lying i got bbl because i'm too skinny for a bbl i've been 110 pounds since i was like 12

01:17:48.320 years old you're a fucking liar you're a fucking liar well i don't know does i got my boobs done

01:17:53.920 i'll tell you that does she have a bbl i'll tell you all what i did get done i have my does she have

01:17:59.120 by dr miami i got my veneers yes or yes no i'll do that i got my teeth done in miami and i got hair

01:18:07.600 extensions those are all the modifications i'm starting the poll does she have a bbl no

01:18:11.840 shots why would but it's it's like why do i have a perfect body i don't know brian oh my god kill

01:18:17.520 me i don't think a bbl butt is perfect i think it actually looks worse than a normal butt to be

01:18:21.920 honest well i don't have a bbl why does my body look like it's fake i have no idea that's just how

01:18:27.040 i was born did you forget i was did you forget the plastic surgery you got no i know what i got i got

01:18:33.200 my boobs done and i'm getting them done again in june and i told you this last time yeah i'm getting my

01:18:38.400 boobs done again because i'm gonna get them bigger oh my god brie what do you do so i'm gonna get my

01:18:42.320 boobs done bigger okay that's i'm not gonna lie about surgery and then be honest about half the

01:18:50.160 surgeries but like if i was saying if i was saying i have no surgery at all i'm totally natural then

01:18:57.120 it'd be like okay like stop lying but why would i sit here i think we should ban plastic surgery

01:19:02.000 what do you think jake i don't know sometimes it looks good if i were to say oh i got my boobs done

01:19:06.560 and my teeth done and my hair done but i didn't get bbl and be lying about that like why would i

01:19:11.360 lie about one because obviously the ass is somewhat of a feature that you're somewhat proud of but i'm

01:19:17.040 selling my boot honestly i'm selling my body my boobs and my butt yeah there's a it's a marketing

01:19:22.640 girls will come into these podcasts and they'll say all kinds of things that aren't true yeah to

01:19:26.400 attract a certain audience but guys think that your ass is real and there's a novelty because

01:19:30.240 otherwise you're just another girl with a bbl but you have a natural one exactly that's what i'm saying

01:19:34.560 mine is real i had i didn't like my boobs so i got fake boobs now i have fake boobs i'm selling

01:19:41.920 my cap i'm selling my whole body basically on the internet i'm selling my boobs my butt

01:19:49.280 i got fake boobs and i will be honest about that you don't have to be honest we can tell

01:19:54.320 yeah so i'm gonna be open about i'm not gonna be here like oh i didn't get my boobs and they're real

01:19:58.640 they're real like and here's the thing i have no problem with plastic surgery if that's what you

01:20:02.560 want to do to make yourself feel better and more confident i applaud that i just don't like when

01:20:06.800 people lie about it you don't end up looking like michael though i yeah well i don't like when people

01:20:12.400 lie about getting surgery oh brie you're lying about it right now i'm not sure i'm not she's

01:20:17.520 gonna come in here in a few years you're literally looking like michael and then like it's all it's all

01:20:21.280 real just you know what it's not it is not who hurt you it is not an offense to me to say

01:20:29.040 that i look like i got surgery because a lot of girls pay a lot of money for that so the fact that

01:20:34.560 i was naturally given some of the features that girls want even if you paid for it it's not a big

01:20:40.800 deal but it's like just own up for it yeah that's the whole thing but your lips aren't real your

01:20:45.440 nose aren't real your fillers my nose isn't real you have a great nose you don't you have it

01:20:50.160 i'm actually getting my nose done in june because i don't get don't get your nose done it's a beautiful

01:20:55.040 nose don't get don't do it it's a beautiful nose it's a great i'm getting my nose done in june

01:20:59.200 because you're a beautiful girl wait you're a beautiful girl know you're worried manifest it

01:21:03.520 and know that you don't need to get that stuff done no but i'm i'm literally getting my nose

01:21:07.520 and my boobs redone in june because i don't like my nose and i want bigger boobs i'm open about the

01:21:13.120 surgery i'm getting i tell everybody when i was getting my boobs done i posted all over tiktok so

01:21:17.280 you've had your boobs done twice i've got my boobs done once and i'm no i got my boobs done once

01:21:23.520 february 15th by dr miami i posted it i'm trying to i'm trying i don't know why he thinks that okay

01:21:29.920 i had boobs before i was a c-cup before yeah brian thinks that i got my boobs done before

01:21:35.520 i was just born that way i didn't like them i wanted them bigger plastic no i was born with

01:21:41.840 c-cups i don't know popped out the fucking womb okay well i'm not gonna argue it's kind of a compliment

01:21:48.800 they think that it's fake because it looks good so they think it so actually i i'm i think plastic

01:21:54.240 surgery makes women look worse well i don't have surgery 200 can we chuck norris style roundhouse

01:22:01.440 kick brie out of here no no violence we're not gonna roundhouse kick her no yeah and bbls don't

01:22:07.600 look good yeah bbls don't look good well good thing i don't have a bbl

01:22:10.640 all right moving on moving on but i don't lie about wait this just in your plastic surgeon is

01:22:19.760 about to like get fucked up with hipaa because he just dm'd me and he's like bro she's got a bb i'm

01:22:26.320 just kidding oh i was about to say hipaa out the window it's all fucked up obviously he's like yes bro

01:22:34.320 unless dr miami is dming you right now i don't know anyways okay we're coming back really quick to

01:22:40.480 we were doing your dating app profile review um pull it up one more time just quick through like

01:22:46.240 one set three seconds what's up so you really think my nose was fake wait what the the edge is

01:22:52.320 tipped like the jesses your nose is pinched and then your lips are full that's juvederm not uh

01:22:57.040 so you think my nose is fake so i shouldn't get it done in june i think you have a great nose i don't

01:23:01.440 think you should touch your nose honestly don't touch it all right you have a beautiful nose okay so this

01:23:06.720 was jess yaps too much just pass through real quick yep yep that's it oh okay you yap too much

01:23:17.360 jess what what do you mean by that i talk a lot i haven't noticed it so far

01:23:23.520 uh what do you mean you talk too much or you you have too much when i get into a deep conversation i

01:23:28.880 just tend to give us a demo let's hear it you said you studied psychology on the spot let's go i do what

01:23:36.560 are the what are the kinds of things that you like to yap about oh i like this guy hold on a

01:23:42.320 second the attention's briefly not on you i'm sorry are you talking about yeah i'm saying like

01:23:49.520 what interests you if you say you yap a lot and you get like to get into deep conversations what are

01:23:53.200 some of the things that interest you um i mean i don't know i i'm only a year into college so i'm

01:24:01.200 not like super deep into it yet i've only taken like six classes what kind of stuff are you studying

01:24:06.400 what do they teach these days in psychology sociology um i'm taking i took two child development

01:24:12.000 classes because i'm trying to focus on um becoming a children's behavioral therapist

01:24:17.760 so i'm trying to you know study children psychology more what are some of the modules like who do they

01:24:23.840 teach i know there's some good ones that jordan peterson talks about sometimes early early life

01:24:27.920 behavioral psychologists what kind of stuff they're teaching you what does it take to be a

01:24:32.000 good behavioral psychologist for a child i don't know yet i've only been in school for a year aren't

01:24:36.800 they teaching anything in that we are it's just the basics like we god i took a gap year so i'm

01:24:46.480 it was two years ago when i started college and then this year i took off because um money issues

01:24:53.840 and then i'm re-enrolling um next semester so it's been a minute but you know they introduced um

01:25:00.480 the most popular psychologists and um we got like freud jung you know joseph gamble all these

01:25:06.240 yeah we talk about their studies and then you know do projects on it um lots of drug talk and how

01:25:10.560 it affects children um jean piaget i think he's the child psychologist behavioral psychologist you

01:25:15.520 know him jean piaget i don't remember no i don't understand did you like did you get into it

01:25:22.080 because you're interested in psychology and sociology and all these things was there a prior interest i

01:25:26.320 didn't know what a major i wanted to do so it was kind of an impulsive decision i noticed that you

01:25:30.400 said you like suicide i can't say that sorry um self-delete self-deletion boys what do you mean by

01:25:36.000 that that sounds like you kind of it's like a band oh is it a band yeah oh okay

01:25:43.280 yeah when i said i yap too much when i said i yap too much i meant like when i you know make a

01:25:52.640 connection with people i tend to just talk a lot that's all so if you know if you're my friend if

01:25:57.280 you get to know me i'm gonna get comfortable with you and i'm gonna talk your ear off

01:26:00.880 very interesting so you don't like us because you're not talking i'm sorry what did you ask you

01:26:09.360 i was asking if she liked us do you like us i mean i don't know any of you you're all very

01:26:14.160 beautiful do you think she has a bbl it's okay if you say yes i was born this one i don't know i

01:26:22.320 don't really know the difference i don't i i don't stare at the difference of like a bbl is honestly

01:26:26.400 do you want me to stand up i mean we saw it on instagram oh yeah we saw the whole thing um

01:26:33.520 can we just go around the table really quickly does she have a bbl i want a straight answer and i

01:26:36.960 don't want like a yeah but she's really pretty all right straight answer go yeah i have no idea

01:26:45.120 i wouldn't know what one looks like you wouldn't know what a bbl looks like i would just imagine

01:26:49.520 like a really fat ass but you're yeah you're just you're just like a tiny person like i don't know

01:26:56.080 never seen a bbl before i have but on somebody probably a little bit bigger

01:26:59.920 no maybe yes it's a yes i would say yes

01:27:09.600 no you don't think she's gonna bbl this is the country you're a contrarian here

01:27:15.200 well i feel bad you guys are like picking do you do you think that she doesn't have a bbl because

01:27:19.280 because you feel bad i feel i felt kind of bad you guys were like hounding on her for this i mean

01:27:24.640 she could be working out a lot i don't work out yeah you can tell in the thighs and i don't mean

01:27:29.760 that just respectfully but that's how you can tell the difference i was trying i was trying there so

01:27:33.760 i think you're gorgeous no one's ganging up on you but you can tell them the thighs when someone

01:27:37.920 works out and they actually work for it well i see i don't know i was just i don't know if you guys

01:27:44.080 think my ass is so fat which i don't think it is that fat but if you guys think my ass is so fat

01:27:48.800 that it looks like i got a bbl i'm gonna take that as a compliment you should i'm gonna take

01:27:53.360 i'm gonna take that as a compliment i'm not gonna what kind of a latina are you i'm panamanian

01:27:58.640 panama do they even have big booties if you said you're colombian maybe you would have swayed me a

01:28:02.960 little bit colombia is next to panama panama used to be a part of colombia so yes we all come from

01:28:07.360 the same ancestry yeah okay i haven't seen that many panamanians around what's the population of

01:28:12.160 panama like four million okay you've been there i was born and raised there yeah a lot of bbls around

01:28:18.000 day actually surgery is not very common really i went to colombia and they all have bbls 18 years

01:28:24.400 old boom bbl panama is more strict like more like conservative so it's more looked down upon

01:28:32.240 to like get bbls and get surgery when i got my boobs done my family was like freaking out but

01:28:39.760 i got it done you said you're from a conservative family like panama is a conservative country yeah like

01:28:45.600 more like rules and like it's looked down upon to get surgery and like wear a lot of like skimpy

01:28:52.720 clothes and things like that let's look down upon so when i got my boobs done and i told my mom was

01:28:58.560 getting about she lost her shit what they say when you got your bbl well i didn't get bbl that's what

01:29:04.480 i'm saying i can't like i'm not going to lie about one thing and not lie about the other if i wanted to

01:29:10.960 lie about being natural i'd be like i'm 100 natural and i pushed that shit like i was pushing i was being

01:29:16.880 a virgin ask brian i didn't fold to the people saying oh no but you're not in your life you were

01:29:21.920 pretty truthful about that i don't like i'm saying when people push me when people push me

01:29:31.280 i'm not one of those people that's going to be like folding like oh no if you were to fall over

01:29:36.000 on onto your bum would you bounce would it bounce probably not because it's not that fat okay look

01:29:42.640 i'm gonna be honest my body's not that fat i mean it's nice like for my shape for how skinny i am it

01:29:49.360 does look round but it has a nice shape i'm moving i'm moving this on this is this is ridiculous

01:29:55.440 so i don't know how y'all think i have a bbl stop you're being disrespectful and mean to brie

01:30:00.880 brie is being honest and actually more logical than you guys you are trying to bring her down you

01:30:05.120 sound ideologically driven by the rules in the bible leave the judgment to god what we need is love

01:30:09.760 compassion and openness well actually i can make a very simple secular argument here um lying about

01:30:16.880 something you you can object to that why whether you're christian or not and it's very evident that

01:30:22.800 she's lying about a great multitude of things what am i lying about you've lied about the fact

01:30:27.600 that you're a virgin and when did i lie about last show and on another podcast and then you're also

01:30:32.240 lying about the bbl thing but we're not going to linger on it but i have a question why are you so

01:30:36.240 obsessed with my with my fake real butt i actually i'm not i'm so obsessed you love it do you want it

01:30:44.480 you want to eat it i'm gonna hit my vape no my issue is i'm not lying is that you're lying about it

01:30:51.200 that's the issue i don't i'm not like you focused in on the booty i'm like why are you lying about it

01:30:56.080 i feel like if you're gonna do something full sunday if you're going to get your boobs done

01:31:01.520 tell everybody that you got your boobs done make it all out that's why i'm getting them bigger because

01:31:05.840 i want a more obvious that it's fake i want like i want that so if you're gonna do something be proud of

01:31:13.280 that shit stand on business if i get a bbl which i can't because i'm too skinny and i probably would if i

01:31:19.520 could um if i got a bbl bro i'd be showing everybody my bbl i'd be that's what you're

01:31:26.160 doing oh my god i would be literally freaking telling everybody we're gonna do the next dating

01:31:31.440 app review next dating app review if you follow me since i was 15 you guys would know look up brianna

01:31:38.720 line 15 years old that's yeah well hold on hold on no really it's on google you can see my bikini

01:31:46.080 picture that's weird that's really weird for you to say i'm just gonna move entirely past that

01:31:50.880 that's kind of gross no it's on google you're encouraging men to look at your young photo

01:31:56.320 that's really weird brie that's super that's why that's you being that's you being weird i didn't

01:32:01.360 post those they're on google because that's how i blew up that's all over twitter on google because

01:32:05.680 you posted them i posted on twitter when i was 15 that's a crazy thing to say dude disavow bro the you

01:32:12.560 the whatever podcast ain't about that weird shit that she just said

01:32:16.400 fucking disavow that immediately uh she says she goes crazy so this is ryan here she goes crazy for

01:32:23.280 like 30 minutes a day not just 30 minutes a day like 30 minutes a day next

01:32:29.520 uh so i'll fall for you if you're chivalrous um so i'm crazy chivalrous okay next

01:32:37.120 and then dating me is like going through tsa is there another one or is that it for her what's tsa

01:32:45.440 when you're going to an airport okay wait so why why is dating you like going through tsa okay i want

01:32:50.960 to be completely honest i got this dating app about three months ago when i finally felt ready to go on

01:32:56.880 a date again um and i was at a bar with just all of my co-workers and they created it for me i could not

01:33:02.080 think of a single prompt i was drunk um so they made it for me and i turned it on for about a

01:33:06.800 week and i turned it off but when was this three months ago that's when i created it uh i want to

01:33:14.800 challenge you here a little bit a lot of women will claim oh like this sort of quirky my friends just

01:33:20.800 made my dating app for me and i don't really like as a way because you almost view the use of dating

01:33:26.560 apps is pathetic so it's like a way to reduce your uh culpability i yeah i see what you're saying i

01:33:36.000 absolutely like a lot of women will be like oh my friends made it for me when it's like this i you

01:33:42.240 might be being honest now but yeah the two prompts the tsa and then the going 30 minutes a day um those

01:33:48.080 are from my co-worker tyler hi tyler um okay the chivalrous one that's absolutely me the pictures are

01:33:53.600 obviously on me but yeah i was kind of just wanting to see who what kind of guys are in dallas didn't

01:33:59.120 love it so it's off now oh okay you're not you're not using the dating app early then no not really

01:34:08.720 when's the last time you sent a message on the app oh gosh three months ago two i guess two and a half

01:34:13.600 months ago probably oh okay so okay there's the crazy so that he was wrong about the going crazy for 30

01:34:20.880 minutes a day thing you could i mean a lot of people would probably say you said it was a male

01:34:25.360 friend who said that no her name is tyler oh her name's tyler and she was trying to get you dates

01:34:30.800 or trying to scare men away that's the prompt that she uses it was just a quick one i obviously like

01:34:35.920 i wasn't planning on going oh i didn't go that's what she uses for her profile yes and then same with

01:34:40.400 the tsa one can i ask i don't get the going crazy for 30 years is it like zoomies i literally just

01:34:46.000 or is it like you go crazy i can start swiping i don't know it's a really bad dating profile

01:34:51.520 thing to say i guess so i was very cringed out by it that's why it's all okay um so you

01:35:01.120 you are desirous of chivalry though yes that one is okay why is that those are just the types of guys

01:35:08.000 that i've dated okay what so what does it mean for a guy to be chivalrous um i guess more traditional

01:35:13.920 i guess it usually honestly starts with just the way that they would speak to me it's more of a

01:35:21.360 respectful way i would could name a couple of things but like there's they're so basic just

01:35:25.760 like opening a door like the car door i feel like that's it's not like a expectation but it's so sweet

01:35:30.880 when they do it i just love it um i don't know flowers on the first date are cute flowers on the

01:35:36.800 first date okay it's not again not an expectation it's just like cute i know but yeah it's it's tough

01:35:42.080 though these days you don't really want to do that yeah men get punished for doing that in the

01:35:45.520 worst they do yeah yeah so just more older things that you know how many first dates have you been on

01:35:53.520 oh and maybe like five only five i've dated two guys for a long time so

01:36:01.920 between that time yeah i'd say five oh nick you can um get rid of the uh the chat yeah otherwise

01:36:10.160 people are going to be just staring out at the whole show um all right oh let me end the poll

01:36:14.880 here so okay you want you want chivalry um don't necessarily think there's anything wrong with that

01:36:21.920 i just like to see people holding up their end of the bargain so if your expectations are men do all

01:36:28.080 those things what are you expected to bring early on in a relationship to be deserving of said chivalry

01:36:34.400 yeah again i want to say i don't expect it but when they do it i absolutely love it and that's

01:36:38.640 what i'm attracted to um i i mean overall like are you asking just like what i bring to the relationship

01:36:46.880 um i i guess but or even early on in the dating scenario yeah i i mean what did y'all say earlier

01:36:54.080 kind sweet and attractive i mean i would say i'm a very very kind person i listen to people

01:37:00.320 i support them if i support them um on the first date if how would you support someone on the first

01:37:07.680 date oh if we're talking about a first date that's a little bit different but you have it sounds like

01:37:12.000 you have traditional gender role expectations immediately right on the first date chivalry

01:37:18.720 flowers opening the car door paying for the first date treating you in a gentlemanly way um so what are

01:37:24.640 some of the things that you would do immediately that you're bringing to a guy because perhaps three

01:37:29.600 months into a relationship you might fall into your traditional gender roles but what are you doing

01:37:33.840 up front that's traditional i would say i'm going to do my best to look the part what do you mean look

01:37:39.280 the part i'm gonna do my makeup do my hair is that traditional i would say so and then i'm going to

01:37:46.160 be kind to them while they're on the date i'm going to thank them for the dinner and then we're going

01:37:49.760 to couldn't a non-traditional woman do all those same things yeah i'm sure it's not clear to me

01:37:54.960 though if like looking nice putting on makeup doing your hair is like a specifically traditional

01:38:04.160 thing because like a super liberal progressive feminist could do all that shit too totally um

01:38:10.160 i guess let's take the traditional part out of it and just say that's what i would do i think it

01:38:13.600 makes sense but like in the first date though this is where it's difficult because men are expected to

01:38:18.640 do things that embody traditional on a first date for a woman generally you want to be kind sweet

01:38:23.760 attractive look pretty show up be sweet all that but it's what you've done outside of that that

01:38:28.640 makes you traditional so if you've been like a massive hoe over the series of five ten years

01:38:34.000 and then you rock up and say oh i'm traditional you better be traditional that's not that's not okay

01:38:38.640 but if you've embodied certain values throughout your life yeah you come to the date and you act

01:38:44.000 according to a traditional standard then that's fine then you can expect some sort of chivalry yeah

01:38:49.680 yeah i agree with that i don't really think there's necessarily so many things that a woman has to do

01:38:54.560 on a first date besides be there and be sweet and kind like when you date are you dating uh like are you

01:39:01.600 talking to multiple guys at the same time no i'm not saying sleeping with them but i truthfully like

01:39:07.360 can't and i sometimes don't understand how a lot of girls can i can't i'll forget things and then i would

01:39:13.840 yeah that's too much i could say two at one time maybe but then i don't know once you fall for

01:39:19.360 somebody you kind of just don't really you can't get out of that i feel like you're just into them

01:39:24.400 and like why pay attention to somebody else who's just like doomed to sure and i i'm not trying to

01:39:28.880 come off like i'm coming at you but there is it does seem that even for liberal progressive

01:39:35.200 even feminist women there's this very gendered expectation on men that they still

01:39:40.160 uh uphold their traditional values when it comes to or they adhere to traditional gender roles

01:39:47.360 rather when it comes to the initial stages of dating even for liberal progressive feminist women

01:39:52.640 and it's kind of like this frustrating thing for a lot of men where you have these

01:39:56.320 women who are not traditional themselves but demand traditional treatment from men and frankly they

01:40:02.640 get it anyways because men are uh just will bend over backwards for anything pretty much but

01:40:08.880 um so yeah right brie

01:40:15.200 yeah she was no i only said that because she was totally zoned out let a girl

01:40:22.320 she wasn't listening to what i was saying so um we have one more dating app review

01:40:29.520 we have who do we have we have kj right kj all right this is uh kj here first round is on me you can

01:40:37.360 guess my real name okay next next uh key to my heart is a fat marg on the rocks next oh yeah brother

01:40:49.760 don't hate me if i call myself mama too much what wait what do you mean by that oh you call yourself

01:40:55.360 mama what are we talking about yeah i it's just a habit i've started picking up where i'm just i use

01:41:01.360 myself in third person i will refer to myself as mama starting off as mommy this is this is a very

01:41:08.160 it's a very common mistake that i find that girls make on dating apps the first bit was great you

01:41:13.760 look very sweet you had a photo with your mom that was amazing but then you said call myself mama

01:41:18.480 like girls aren't really funny and men we don't we don't care necessarily if you guys some women can be

01:41:25.120 funny yeah i i haven't met many sorry very like maybe a small handful but we don't really care if

01:41:30.000 you guys are not all if and i'm just this is not even advice but if i were a girl i would keep the

01:41:34.960 jokes off of my profile okay i don't think that i'm like damn yeah i don't think i'm funny um i will

01:41:41.680 never say that i'm definitely not i don't think was she were you trying to be funny with that no it's

01:41:46.800 just literally it's literally i don't even think i'm sorry no i don't think i'm funny i would actually

01:41:56.160 never try to put a joke on there that would be embarrassing because i would definitely fail in

01:42:00.640 that area calling yourself mama that was like no i literally i just do and like i don't know it's just

01:42:06.720 my personality i'm not gonna go on there and try like super hard honestly i'm just gonna put myself

01:42:11.600 out there and whatever what is the context what is the context in which you're calling yourself

01:42:16.240 mama i'll just be like mom is working hard today she's she's working

01:42:23.280 that's manifesting a future it's multiple times a day okay wait is this like

01:42:31.600 will you incorporate this into your if you're dating a guy will you be like mama brought home

01:42:36.960 mama got the goods no you ready for mommy not on the first day okay that comes out later look at

01:42:46.560 our goods friend here dario reads canadian 140 i hate to give more money to this podcast because

01:42:52.720 brixton has turned into a misogynist the fact that you harp on her lips and she clearly explained she

01:42:57.760 has no reason to hide it actually i didn't really linger too much on the lips but uh more harm is done

01:43:02.560 than good happy to come on and chat anytime to set things straight uh daria reads bro i agree i

01:43:09.840 have no reason to hide anything is it really a is it really misogynistic to to question somebody when

01:43:15.600 they're lying to you is is that like the new am i lying to you yeah you're lying why am i lying to you

01:43:21.520 no like were you there in the surgery with me or something like did you watch textbook simp

01:43:26.960 he's simping he's simping textbook simp she obviously loves the attention she's really

01:43:32.080 enjoying it she was enjoying us showing her instagram talking about her ass she's here to

01:43:35.840 promote her only fans dario stop i'm not here to promote my only fans actually i quit only fans but

01:43:40.960 yeah but you you enjoy the attention we all know that you enjoy the attention it's not you're not

01:43:45.840 traumatized by it so it's fine yeah wait dario i have a question for you dude without googling it

01:43:52.160 define misogyny i've got a question for you dude have you ever seen the cloud the clown that hides

01:43:58.080 from gays that hides from what the clown that hides from gays have you guys ever seen the clown

01:44:03.120 that hi wait let's please please let's let's avoid like uh yeah i think it's probably a little

01:44:10.800 like tos okay i think i don't think so but yeah okay i'll avoid it what's that

01:44:15.200 wait it's is it like yeah no no it's it's saying if you haven't seen the clown that hides from gays

01:44:23.360 the clown's hiding from you oh gotcha okay i don't get it have you and he was talking about humor have

01:44:33.120 you not have you not seen it no is it like a video or some shit if you haven't seen it i mean

01:44:38.400 no i haven't seen that i haven't seen that no uh fair enough fair enough i have guys we have a lot

01:44:44.240 of uh we we have like extra eyeballs on us from youtube and like twitch and shit so i'm just trying

01:44:50.320 to be more careful with no i won't say anything no it's okay it's okay i'm just trying to like

01:44:54.080 make sure we don't say like anything fucking tos because like extra eyeballs on us um

01:44:58.960 just me and you bro uh okay so wait viewers do you swipe yes or do you swipe no on her profile i

01:45:08.160 guess yeah swipe yes swipe no uh let's get into that we're gonna get into some of the pre-show notes

01:45:14.800 here for everybody um let's see hold on wait okay so we have talking stage single single uh really quick

01:45:23.520 on everybody who's single so um are you really single like there's not some guy in the picture so

01:45:30.560 while you're in the talking stage just is that correct yes there's some guy in the picture for

01:45:34.880 you brie no no guy in the picture for you there's no guy in the picture no guy not even talking to a

01:45:42.000 guy no not even like hooking up with a guy no nothing single for six months yeah okay no guy in

01:45:48.000 the picture no guy in the picture uh talking stage for you if i recall no guy in the picture

01:45:52.640 sure nobody not even texting and then alexa and you same single come on okay well all right okay

01:46:00.520 so uh let's get into some of the pre-show notes here so we're gonna start with

01:46:07.920 let's see she didn't show up uh we are going to start with jess so jess you're a feminist

01:46:16.580 is that correct i don't think i said that when i texted you in the response to your thing

01:46:25.980 said you're a feminist pretty sure if i did that was a mistake well hold on don't walk it back

01:46:33.680 because perhaps yeah you said okay 20 waitress single oceanside apolitical feminist okay um

01:46:41.140 that was a mistake then how how mistake how would you because i didn't want to scoot scoot to the

01:46:46.000 mic to the edge of the table please i didn't want to text anything that i didn't want to talk

01:46:50.980 about so i apologize wait what what do you mean like i don't want to debate this kind of things like

01:46:56.720 debate what about feminism wait so point of clarification are you a feminist

01:47:03.180 um it depends on your definition so okay here's the question that we sent you like three weeks ago

01:47:11.120 and we reached out the question is do you consider yourself feminist traditional or other

01:47:16.100 to which you responded feminist then i apologize apologize for what don't apologize you can just say

01:47:26.140 you're not a feminist if you i don't think i'm a feminist it really just depends on the definition

01:47:31.440 because i feel like different people view feminism in different ways very different ways

01:47:35.600 so i don't really want to label myself as one which wave of feminism are you i just believe

01:47:42.440 in equality that's it it's the first and second wave yes okay wait so you're not a feminist or you

01:47:49.760 are i'm just gonna go with no well hold on what do you mean you're just gonna go with no because

01:47:55.640 like i just said there's people have different definitions of it people believe that feminism we can

01:48:00.720 cross-examine see if you want well i i asked you the question i don't want to sound like one of

01:48:06.660 those girls like oh i hate all men i hate all men you know um sure that's fine you can be i suppose

01:48:11.560 you can be a feminist and not hate men i'm not i'm i'm not a feminist that was a mistake in our text

01:48:19.020 i'm sorry so you're traditional then no other n a what is other n a i'm just confused because the

01:48:27.860 question was do you consider yourself a feminist and you responded feminist and that was a mistake

01:48:31.600 and i'm sorry but i'm i gotta give you a little pushback here because you it seems like you're not

01:48:39.940 you're refusing to stick to the identification that you provided because you don't wish to talk

01:48:47.080 about the topic of feminism no it just sounds like i made a mistake i think maybe my mind was somewhere

01:48:51.960 else and then i read feminism and or feminist and then i wrote down feminist right but if i could

01:48:56.100 rewind like 60 seconds didn't you i've never called myself a feminist that's fine but 60 seconds ago

01:49:01.040 didn't you just say that you don't want to talk about that yeah i don't want to debate feminism with

01:49:08.400 you no so is that why you're now but is that what is that why you're now walking back your self

01:49:16.080 identification as a feminist no because i wouldn't have said that in the first place i didn't mean to

01:49:20.680 say that in the first place well i'm so then why would you not want to discuss feminism

01:49:25.520 it's just not something i want to debate about because i don't necessarily know your beliefs on

01:49:31.980 the whole men and women equality probably because she sees how you attack me and then she's like oh

01:49:37.440 shit i don't want to get attacked like that yeah i guarantee a lot of women don't want to bring up

01:49:41.400 certain things that they believe in because they don't want to get into it with you because literally

01:49:45.380 you come on here and then you come and ask you guys do realize that hold on stop you do realize

01:49:51.620 that this is an adversarial dating discussion show where we often get into debates i mean yes and

01:49:57.140 there's there's certain things that i'll gladly talk about and there's just other things that i don't

01:50:00.720 want to and there's some things that maybe i don't think i'm educated enough to talk about so i don't

01:50:04.840 want to and there's a difference between a debate and a nice argument about something and then

01:50:10.340 you came in bad you no no no free you came in bad faith straight away you can't talk

01:50:16.140 you don't you you have bad faith you can't talk you on the other hand if you wanted to like we

01:50:21.580 don't necessarily have to debate anything but if you wanted to obviously you don't have to but we

01:50:24.860 could take it issue by issue and see what you think about things and see if you can have your mind

01:50:28.200 changed or if you change our minds that's fine but i'm just trying to say me saying that i was a

01:50:31.900 feminist in our text was a mistake do you think so like you think there's something wrong with

01:50:38.800 identifying as a feminist no not at all

01:50:41.160 it seems a little bit like uh i am a feminist but i don't want to get bulldozed by brian in a

01:50:52.800 debate over feminism so i'm just not going to say i'm a feminist sure oh so hold on but when you say

01:50:59.640 sure do you mean yes because you're just kind of assuming at this point i i believe why would i be

01:51:05.840 wrong to assume you're a feminist when you said you're a feminist i'm not gonna i'm not gonna

01:51:09.120 label myself and i told you that was a mistake i think about 10 times now i would imagine that

01:51:13.220 you have some yeah but people lie probably do align with feminism but you don't necessarily want to

01:51:18.440 debate it the issues but you probably do have something i wanted to be either same with politics

01:51:23.060 and same with religion because i'm not educated enough on either that's that's a self-aware thing

01:51:27.820 to say i respect you can do you consider yourself you said you're apolitical yeah okay

01:51:33.020 interesting uh right well uh let's see you said you were because in number 14 you said that you

01:51:46.260 disagree with many topics the host speaks on but also can agree on many as well actually and i'll open

01:51:54.020 this up to the entire panel to let them in but one thing we typically do is we like to hear from

01:51:57.900 people who disagree so um i would like to start if uh what so what are your disagreements and we'll

01:52:04.360 start there i mean i didn't make a list i texted you back as i was studying your podcasts and i i

01:52:12.540 can't what do you mean you can't i can't just say if you did if you did have things that you disagree

01:52:18.100 with i know that you maybe don't necessarily want to go into anything adversarial but you're more than

01:52:22.660 welcome to bring that up and we won't like yeah i just i don't want to bring up like i don't want to

01:52:26.640 bring up a specific topic and start a whole debate like if you know if you say i'm fine with that you

01:52:31.200 can do that i disagree with i will cut in really will you if i think that i can give a good input

01:52:37.840 on it yes right but i mean this i am opening it up for opportunity for anybody who does disagree

01:52:44.820 with me on anything at this precise moment and i'm starting with you um well okay look in your

01:52:52.340 pre-show notes you said i disagree with many topics the host speaks on and i'm happy to engage

01:52:58.520 with you on these messages were two weeks ago and i thought that you were the one who brought up

01:53:02.800 most of the topics that we talk about or it's just a discussion and it gets pulled well you've

01:53:06.860 seen the show right so okay well and i just ask you what do you disagree with me on i don't have

01:53:11.400 anything named right now you i didn't know that you were going to ask me to guess hold on you want

01:53:16.340 me to guess what you disagree with me on i don't why don't you just state what you disagree with me

01:53:20.680 on i don't have you seen the show or just seen clips yes you've seen full shows yes are you aware

01:53:30.280 of the nature you and you dm'd us first correct yes requesting to be on the show yes and you're aware

01:53:35.620 of the fairly adversarial nature of the show where we do like have heated debates about dating related

01:53:43.560 topics okay and you stated in your pre-show notes that you disagree with many topics the host speaks

01:53:49.760 on do you care to articulate at least one um can you come back to me you okay so these messages i'm

01:53:59.920 happy to move well hold on we have multiple girls i think we have a couple girls here who've reached

01:54:07.240 out even prior to that right and if i were to start asking them questions they would happily engage with

01:54:12.040 me with their pre-show notes i'm not going to press you more but i have given you ample opportunity to

01:54:21.520 engage in the conversation i'm warning you now if you're refusing to engage i'm not going to really

01:54:27.720 be particularly inclined to come back to you again does that is that fair i'm not refusing to engage i

01:54:33.280 just have but is that fair i'm not going to make any further efforts in this conversation to reel you in

01:54:38.760 is that fair for you that's fair because i've attempted but if you're just going to stonewall

01:54:43.440 then i i for the sake of the other panelists i don't want to have meta conversations like this

01:54:48.400 okay okay all right moving on we're going to talk to kj you said you were almost engaged and married at

01:54:55.820 age 19 correct okay and you said uh that was psycho of you i guess i do think that okay um i mean i kind

01:55:10.180 of touched on it earlier i think that the school that i was at was just so into like ring by spring

01:55:15.140 looking back now that i've gone through college and i've gone through post-college life i think that

01:55:21.040 it is pretty psycho of me that i would do that um not against other people who have done that i think

01:55:28.500 that people found their person and that's who it was but i went in from a high school relationship that

01:55:34.060 was not super awesome and it got to a point where i was dating him for so long it was hard to get out of

01:55:41.880 it and i felt pretty trapped in it so um yeah i just like looking back now and living what i have

01:55:51.700 and like the experiences that i've had now i'm very happy that i didn't do that is what i mean by like

01:55:57.740 that was psycho of me okay and you said also every time i get into relationships the guys end up getting

01:56:06.520 crazy clingy and i think it's because i maybe act more like a guy in regards to be super distant

01:56:11.720 but i legit can't get away from it yeah i mean that in like a humble way that sounds like

01:56:17.420 super like snotty of me i promise that that's not the case but like no like most of the times that

01:56:24.040 i'm in a relationship i guys just get like really clingy really obsessive they move like really really

01:56:30.960 fast um and yeah i just really can't i have a hard time getting away from it do you mean like um

01:56:36.140 like physically like tactile or is it more of like texting you all the time and stuff both

01:56:40.160 yeah and they like yeah they'll like get me big gifts and like try to take me on trips and stuff like

01:56:46.040 really early on i said that i think that that might be the case because i think that it's nice though

01:56:52.320 you might be doing something right well but i don't want that it kind of turns me away honestly

01:56:58.160 girls like it's really bad to me i really don't like it at all it's just so early on yeah it's

01:57:02.560 so early she likes the chase um yeah i think that there would be an element of liking the chase as

01:57:08.020 well girls don't like to be i like to be like the chase um i like for me i like to be if a girl

01:57:14.940 was to do that and buy me gifts early it wouldn't be a red flag it would be massive green flag you love

01:57:19.580 it simp simp yeah that makes sense yeah that's why i was like i don't want to be looking down at him

01:57:27.320 it's because i'm more distant maybe in the beginning like i feel like i see all these

01:57:32.280 tiktoks that are girls telling other girls and they're like everybody just like take it slow

01:57:37.740 calm down like you don't need to be texting him all the time it'll work whatever no don't take that

01:57:43.660 advice but like that's what i feel like it is because i not that i i'm trying to do that but i

01:57:50.980 just feel like guys go yeah they are like do you have any brothers well yeah i have one one

01:57:56.240 older or younger he's older he's like he's 36 okay i'd probably take his advice if anything

01:58:02.420 don't take girls advice on tiktok i know i've seen a lot of these videos floating well girls are just

01:58:07.580 all over the place on tiktok it's hard to take advice yeah everything is reach out to your brother

01:58:11.840 he'll probably know a thing or two but um yeah these videos i see a shocking advice whenever i saw

01:58:16.780 i saw one the one girl who'd been on here and she was saying like all of these things that are a red

01:58:20.720 flag about guys and it was so like just so condescending and um yeah i'd stay away from

01:58:26.000 those videos even even the popular ones yeah unless they're married with like five kids and you know

01:58:32.620 they shouldn't be on the internet but you have heard of love bombing right where yeah we've heard of it

01:58:38.560 and that's considered a red flag correct what do you mean by that when they like in the beginning

01:58:44.340 just show so much emotion and they give so if it's if it's coming across in an insecure way

01:58:49.100 then yeah well most of the time i think a lot of time in my case no it's not no it's not if a girl

01:58:54.340 is reasonably like um like she hasn't slept around a lot and it means a lot to her you can really tell

01:59:01.280 but if you're with a girl and you and it doesn't really mean a lot after you guys sleep together for

01:59:05.060 example that's a massive red flag because it means kind of nothing to her if she's using it as like

01:59:08.980 some sort of like a way to get off huge red flag but if it means a lot and if she simps on you a lot

01:59:13.500 after it and you can tell that she's like trying to get really close to you that that's a red that's a

01:59:17.800 massive green flag because it means that she takes more pride in it so yeah love bombing in terms of

01:59:23.900 like dumping your insecurities on me or whatever like stay away but if she's texting all the time

01:59:28.540 it's also insecure when you like are dumping like all your like love like texting multiple times a day

01:59:33.900 no that's fine i think that shows insecurity you're not you're not in a man's position though so like

01:59:38.680 from from your position that would be an insecurity but from my position if i have a girl texting me

01:59:43.920 multiple times a day and i'm into her that's a good thing absolutely but from you though it

01:59:49.100 mean it would mean that he's desperate yeah he shouldn't be texting you multiple times a day

01:59:54.040 right but if i've got a girl who texts me every day i like that that's really nice

01:59:57.380 yeah if she's not texting me it's that's an ick but i was wondering if that's what you were

02:00:01.920 experiencing when you were a lot of it yeah it would be that yes yeah that's fair enough from a

02:00:07.580 y'all's perspective you wanted to talk about hookup culture um come on mama

02:00:14.260 um i mean that's just like such a broad thing okay like ask more i'll switch it to something else

02:00:23.760 you said girls having to make the first move okay yes i am not a girly who makes the first move

02:00:31.540 i i'm kind of on the same boat with ryan where it's like i take a really traditional approach

02:00:37.620 so things like that i like when guys are chivalrous i like when guys are going to be making the first

02:00:42.740 move like i don't go on bumble nothing against bubble obviously um but just because like i don't

02:00:49.920 like making the first move i think in the past that's kind of how it has been men take the lead on

02:00:55.100 that they um start the dates they take you out on the dates they kind of take that dominant role in

02:01:01.320 that's what i like and have you experienced like there's a lack of men taking initiative

02:01:06.600 and like have you tried have you made the first move and you don't like it or what

02:01:11.840 uh i don't often do the first move i mean maybe if i'm like absolutely hammered at a bar and then

02:01:20.240 i'm feeling super confident maybe i'll do something there um but for the most part no i i just i stay

02:01:27.540 away from that okay slapping on the ass and mama's into it yeah mama's into it okay you said that guys

02:01:33.780 are too scared to commit because they have thousands of options huh that's interesting that's interesting

02:01:40.760 uh i think it goes both ways i will say that but uh i would argue women have far more options than men

02:01:47.700 typically yeah i think that perhaps there is a differential here women tend to hyper focus

02:01:53.760 on the top echelon of men those men have an abundance of options but the average man does

02:02:00.440 not have an abundance of options whereas even average women have an abundance of options

02:02:04.600 okay but i would agree with that okay so but you're saying guys are too scared to commit

02:02:11.320 well i would like to talk about commitment really quick so you going around the table uh do you guys

02:02:17.080 think that men are scared of commitment no um some yes some no yeah same answer some definitely

02:02:25.260 depends on the man but i think a lot of men in this society are afraid of commitment you scoot your

02:02:29.080 mic that way this way here uh sorry wrong way other way yeah there you go thank you uh i don't think

02:02:37.440 all of them are so i would agree with all of those things but a lot of them would you say majority

02:02:45.020 of men are scared of commitment i would give like a 60 40 okay what about you um men no guys yes

02:02:52.760 oh okay alexa yeah i would say a majority of men that are ready for relationship no they're not afraid

02:02:58.040 of commitment okay so i have another question for the whole panel um of all the guys you've dated

02:03:03.040 and this could be short-term long-term uh so a guy you saw for one two three dates or even guys

02:03:10.340 you've dated for months or longer boyfriends whatever of all the times that you've had to

02:03:16.160 of all the times that you've had to sorry guys got distracted more often than not who is ending things

02:03:25.980 of your relationships that you've had however long or short they are

02:03:30.080 are you ending it or is the guy starting with you go ahead me always always ending yeah how many

02:03:37.700 relationships have you had like i said i don't like to consider them but whatever you consider

02:03:44.120 them serious probably like four or five and you ended all of them yeah um it was mostly the men

02:03:52.820 how many relationships have you been in um i've been in well you said counting dates and like talking

02:03:59.740 and stuff um i've been in two serious relationships i i think let me actually change it to just

02:04:07.520 relationships let's do that so of the two relationships you've been in you ended it then

02:04:13.280 it was half and half okay one and one what about you half uh give us a number um i've been two

02:04:20.080 serious relationships one we broke up and that was me and then the other one he cheated but then i

02:04:25.540 broke up so that's right what about you yeah in some of my past talking stages i think i had

02:04:30.580 commitment issues so i would be the one kind of ending that prematurely because i just wasn't

02:04:35.760 sure what i was looking for but with my past boyfriend i ended that because i knew exactly

02:04:39.860 what i was looking for because he was a pursuer and he was a really good man and he showed me

02:04:43.980 what my standards should be so more often than not of all your it's usually me for one reason or

02:04:50.200 another okay what about you i've ended both of your relationships um well i haven't been in a

02:04:58.060 relationship well the guy you were dating for one month who ended that uh it was mutual lexa what

02:05:04.600 about you it's split i left the guy who cheated on me okay well so seems like from your guys's

02:05:11.480 answers here uh it's either split or y'all are ending the relationships so is it really men that

02:05:22.120 are scared of commitment or is it women because because when you guys do and also if i can give a

02:05:29.100 divorce statistic women overwhelmingly initiate divorces 80 of divorces are initiated by women

02:05:34.740 so it's interesting to me you guys really want commitment but when you get it you overwhelmingly

02:05:41.620 end it so could there i don't necessarily think men are using the word scared of commitment but it

02:05:51.720 could certainly be they could be i would say that could men being scared actually be justified

02:05:58.060 given the greater incidence of women ending relationships and marriages i definitely get like

02:06:04.120 the insecurities and them being scared like not why is that why is that insecure i like i mean like if

02:06:10.720 they're insecure about a girl ending like they're scared of it um okay i get it um i would say that

02:06:19.940 she was right about guys versus men so i would say i'm 24 years old i think a lot of the guys that i

02:06:28.740 see and that i know and that i meet i think a lot of them are scared of commitment i don't think

02:06:33.960 all of them are and i think once you mature more you are going to be more open to that commitment but

02:06:41.500 i think maturity is taking a while for a lot of guys sure i i guess i'm always thinking like i hear

02:06:49.520 these criticisms of men of how they're as you said scared to commit but i mean could there be

02:06:57.040 justification for this perception because men's experiences their own self-experiences is that

02:07:04.380 women overwhelmingly seem to end relationships and initiate divorces so then perhaps that explains

02:07:13.020 men's hesitation to get married and to enter into committed relationships any thoughts there perhaps

02:07:20.000 i'd also say that modern modern dating can be a bit of like a it's tough for young guys because

02:07:26.260 like we said they're they're scared of commitment but also there's a lot of young guys that just don't

02:07:30.240 get noticed they're just totally invisible and all of the stats bear this out in terms of if you look

02:07:34.180 i think it's 33 percent of young men below the age of like 21 or something have had zero sex in the

02:07:39.880 last year and yeah a lot of guys are just totally invisible to girls and this is why you see guys who will

02:07:46.040 settle for a girl who's like promiscuous or treats him like shit or it's because a lot of them want

02:07:52.200 to commit to something they want love they want attention but a lot of the girls have got their

02:07:56.500 eyes aiming up like we said at the top sort of 10 percent of guys and this is why you'll find that a

02:08:00.820 lot of the guys that maybe you are looking looking at don't want to commit there's a lot of guys that

02:08:05.060 be looking at you that uh that would want it that you just wouldn't be looking at them i'm gonna

02:08:10.020 read you become the top percent of guys do you think every guy should become top percent of guys

02:08:15.660 she can teach you well that's what i'm teaching so so so agree what i'm teaching the answer is not

02:08:21.520 to ask girls to not look at the top percent of guys the answer is to become the top percent of guys

02:08:27.520 so you can get the girls that doesn't doesn't negate what i said though because what i said

02:08:34.000 do you think you have everything it takes to be a husband truly and honestly right now do you

02:08:38.100 think you have everything it takes to be a husband i know i do then why are you married

02:08:42.000 because it's not where i'm at in life i've got a very busy work and career life and guys can wait

02:08:47.080 a little bit longer to get to settle down i don't have to but you you said the goal is you are open

02:08:53.940 to if you found the right girl right now you would be open to be in a relationship sure definitely so

02:08:59.640 it's not about your time and you're traveling and all that it's really about you yes it is no it's

02:09:05.900 you just said you'd be open to talking to i'm open to it but it hasn't happened i'm not i'm not that

02:09:11.480 fussed about it why haven't i don't care that much i'm more in a building phase of my career

02:09:15.680 yeah but i'm not didn't you just say the guys should work to become the top percent of male

02:09:19.640 how do you think they do that by dating girls every two seconds no i'm saying they shut themselves

02:09:23.980 off from dating and then they aim at a goal that's why when i asked you do you have everything that it

02:09:28.680 takes to be a husband you said yes i do so why are you married because i don't want to be yet

02:09:33.040 but you would open he's got time well when you when you when you get yourself to a certain level

02:09:39.040 as a man and you and you cultivate yourself and you better yourself you can get to the stage where

02:09:44.320 you have options and yeah you can do you can do as you please if you if you get to that stage early

02:09:48.840 enough but as a guy you don't necessarily have to settle down until you're 35 or so but for a lot

02:09:52.940 of guys i wouldn't recommend that yeah but you just said you would be open right now if you met the

02:09:57.320 right girl to settle down with her yes i would be open to it so the answer is not

02:10:02.700 that you're not ready for it because you just said you'd be open to it now you're contradicting

02:10:06.760 yourself perhaps i'm slow and i'm not understanding this but i said that i'm building myself up at the

02:10:12.000 moment yeah in my career so you're not ready to be if you'd let if you'd be quiet and just not let

02:10:17.340 the words bounce off your forehead for a second if you build yourself up for a little while as a man

02:10:21.780 you can get to a stage where you can eventually have choices and options my choice and my option at the

02:10:26.540 moment is to continue to build my career build my company i'm 28 years old i don't need to do

02:10:31.400 anything anytime soon however if something very special did come along i would certainly be open

02:10:35.440 to it that's what i'm saying so you are not ready to be a husband because you just said i'm not going

02:10:42.760 to repeat myself the girl was right you would but why don't you have that right girl because you're

02:10:49.240 not there why don't i have a nice tub of ice cream in front of me right now just i'm i could help you

02:10:53.200 don't why isn't there i i could help you i have a community i can help you do you have like a like

02:10:59.340 a community i can join yeah how much would it cost me per month no it's free oh it's free yeah

02:11:03.480 fantastic would i be with all the other guys yeah okay i'm sure i'd get along great with them

02:11:07.180 just poach all her people for you yeah you will learn there how to become that guy tell me give me

02:11:13.780 the first module like if when i walk into the school first day me and all the boys we're just sitting

02:11:17.520 around you come up you're going to give a lecture you've got like a stick that you're going to point

02:11:20.600 at the whiteboard and the sexy glasses you tell me what you tell me what you're going to teach

02:11:23.880 um the first segment is just the introduction introducing yourself like the first day of

02:11:28.880 school is syllabus let's skip the introductions okay then the next one is the first pillar of being

02:11:36.660 a good man which is spirituality spirituality okay cool so you think that if a man's trying to

02:11:42.880 develop and when you say spirituality what do you mean by that by the way connection to god

02:11:46.760 manifestation um emotional what do you mean by what do you mean by manifestation what does what

02:11:51.680 does that mean essentially now we're going back to manifestation you said physical reality so you

02:11:56.760 think that when you manifest something which is a metaphysical activity it's like you think that

02:12:01.320 you're creating physical reality yeah you do don't you think you create physical reality with your

02:12:05.620 hands you create physical you have to do things yeah what moves your hands your brain how do you

02:12:13.540 move your brain by having the thought how do you move your brain exactly what by having the thought

02:12:19.280 by having the thought to move your hands you move your hands what did you just do you just manifested

02:12:24.940 so i think that what you're talking about is maybe prayer if you are truly spiritual if you're a christian

02:12:30.440 yeah when you talk about manifestation are you talking about prayer manifestation prayer you could

02:12:35.080 call it those are different things one of them is like a gnostic term and one of them is a

02:12:39.560 actual christian term something that we actually do right are you sleepy are you sleepy just answer

02:12:46.060 his question go no prayer is not necessarily asking for something manifestation is actually

02:12:54.020 taking the action to do something so it's kind of like there's a there's a really amazing book that

02:12:58.300 we should all read called the secret have you heard of the secret no oh really you've never heard of

02:13:02.060 the secret i thought you're an expert in this field of manifesting that's why i have the experts

02:13:06.420 i have the connections to the experts right if you join my community you will see okay all right

02:13:12.040 i'm gonna move on i'll join i'll join i'll see what's in there hey nick can you pull up twitch guys

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02:14:08.520 let me uh oh chats we have david treziak here coming up in just a sec have to go play pool but need to

02:14:16.700 say plastic women are not my thing personally each their own though women into hobbies and crafts are

02:14:22.200 attractive what's up with maddie twin peace to all maddie's uh out of the office today i believe she

02:14:27.680 will be back on tuesday though uh that is um ursula and um she is filling in she doesn't speak english

02:14:37.200 she only speaks um japanese yeah uh yeah and we have super guy can we get a nails check from all the

02:14:49.320 ladies please you guys want to do nails i don't know if you guys do your nails no here we'll start over

02:14:55.080 here okay boom no no nails everything else but the nails okay interesting all right yo super guy

02:15:02.320 appreciate it man and then we do have a super chat here from our friend uh senior muffin top thank you

02:15:10.420 brother appreciate the super chat thank you thank you i wouldn't say that men are scared of commitment

02:15:16.220 i take home 160k a year and women in america are a joke okay i got broke up with because i said i did

02:15:23.400 not want four dogs in my house the unrealistic standards of women in this country is unbearable

02:15:29.220 interesting he's got a point four dogs wait so hold on bro what senior senior muffin top what like

02:15:37.780 what's the story here with the four dogs because like was it your girlfriend and she had four dogs or

02:15:44.680 was it like a first date and this chick had four dogs and she's trying to like bring them to your pad

02:15:49.060 i actually do kind of think no offense i love dogs and kind of uh riffing off senior muffin top here

02:15:54.980 i i love dogs love dogs but it's kind of i don't know if it's a red flag but it's like a

02:16:02.320 it's a complication if a girl has pets and a dog again i fucking love dogs here's here's why

02:16:11.780 very oftentimes and this applies to both men women but perhaps it might be a little more with

02:16:18.420 women who have dogs the dogs tend to be poorly trained or not trained at all so if you're going

02:16:23.800 to invite if i'm inviting you over and you're like tied to your dog and your dog can't be left at your

02:16:28.700 house or you don't have anybody who can watch him for a bit uh you typically don't have the discipline

02:16:34.400 for your dog he's gonna for example when i had a dog couldn't be on furniture couldn't be on the bed

02:16:40.480 basic rules right discipline a lot of women want and look it's fine people can if you want your dog

02:16:47.900 in your bed i kind of not for that but hey some people whatever me personally i don't though

02:16:54.340 dogs are gonna be misbehaved sometimes they're not even potty trained they're gonna fucking take a

02:16:59.820 dookie in your living room and shit literally um and then it's just like okay it's the same thing

02:17:07.280 with like kids or excuse me with if they are single mom what's going on nick oh okay it's cool

02:17:14.100 it's cool okay i thought something was something popped up on my end too so i thought like something

02:17:18.100 was okay yeah i thought like we lost internet connection or something um it's kind of like

02:17:25.080 a single mom like having a child kind of complicates the dating process the pet for example woman who has

02:17:32.960 a pet that's going to be her number one priority and justifiably so same with single mom your kid's

02:17:37.440 going to be your number one priority and justifiably so but it is tends to be a little more easy to make

02:17:43.300 plans with a woman who doesn't have a single kid or sorry who's not a single mom uh because i i mean

02:17:50.300 i've attempted to do it i've not had a long-term relationship or even a short-term relationship

02:17:54.440 with a woman who had a kid but i've been on one or two dates frequent rescheduling of plans frequent

02:18:01.060 with women who have kids it's just not it's really just not worth it same with dogs oh my my dog

02:18:07.000 something happened it's just like all right i'll just date a girl who doesn't have a dog so

02:18:10.540 is it just dogs brain or well dogs are probably the most high maintenance um normal pet that you

02:18:19.120 can have cats are pretty you can leave them at the house cats cats dogs need walks and attention

02:18:25.520 cats also a lot of the time they're in a single mother household and we know what happens in single

02:18:29.560 mother households the kids are very undisciplined so i've dated a girl with cats before and the cats

02:18:33.760 had no discipline and they weren't able to go outside and i tried to put the cats outside

02:18:37.760 and she like wouldn't like let me and yeah it's hard i think it's hard to real cats pussy cats

02:18:44.240 like dogs you can like train i think yeah but can you train cats i don't know if you've noticed it

02:18:49.920 but whenever women tend to train dogs they always speak to them when they're angry in a loving voice

02:18:53.900 they'll say you can't do that oh that just doesn't work with a with a dog you have to beat it up

02:18:58.980 you know that yeah gonna no he doesn't mean physically he's just i mean verbally i mean

02:19:03.920 assertion attractive when guys have dogs actually because because you like dogs i do like dogs yes

02:19:11.500 i like all animals yeah i don't mind if a girl has like a little puppy you know but like

02:19:16.180 you have to train well what and they bark the barking oh my goodness you just gotta find someone who

02:19:22.160 trains their dog that's all yeah but a lot like it it like i i grew up with a chow chow you have

02:19:27.400 to train a chow chow it's on a restricted breed list again i love i love dogs dogs are great but

02:19:32.340 it does add a layer of complexity and complication to dating a woman because then oh well i got to

02:19:39.200 bring my dog with me or i got to get a dog sitter and then it's just uh yeah but i do see your point

02:19:45.720 like i the i well no i mean like when you go into about dating a woman with kids that's why it's hard

02:19:51.500 for me to find a guy without kids because by my age they have children but it is add a layer of

02:19:56.840 complexity to it so does it make some complicated anyone else no no i wouldn't oh we have senior

02:20:03.860 muffin top he's back i like dogs i have zero because of my work she had four we were dating for seven

02:20:09.160 months bro it's it's it's hard enough like somebody who has one dog but if they have four dogs i mean

02:20:15.940 it's a full-time job uh she you said you were okay with two dogs before is too much likes to travel

02:20:22.120 she couldn't because of dogs i mean there's a lot of complications okay let's say you want to move in

02:20:28.440 together at least here in santa barbara california it's very hard to find because i mean the the rental

02:20:35.040 market here it's um it's very uh seller what's called what's the term the there's much more demand

02:20:44.800 than there is supply and so landlords can be like a lot of landlords no pets no pets no pets because

02:20:50.220 it's trouble for landlords too if it wasn't a trouble for landlords they wouldn't be charging

02:20:54.840 pet deposits and all the stuff or just not even wanting to rent to uh people who have pets

02:20:59.420 you know dog thank you very much man thank you for the uh gifted 20 memberships appreciate it dude

02:21:06.560 uh yeah four's a lot though and if she's moving into your place it could have issues if you have

02:21:10.880 a lease maybe the lease doesn't allow dogs um and you know what i mean senior muffin top maybe

02:21:19.000 she would have expected you to start tate like okay you need to walk the dogs now now the responsibility

02:21:24.740 starts falling on you so i mean it can definitely be be a burden so yeah appreciate it man thank you

02:21:31.380 thank you uh bring bringing it back to kj though awesome yeah so kj you had two disagreed uh two

02:21:39.960 disagreements with me uh you will start with the brian not wanting a woman with a high body count and men

02:21:47.340 can what's so can you um better state your disagreement um okay i honestly i just don't

02:21:56.780 really see why it why it matters between different genders to be completely honest well like what's

02:22:04.780 your argument argument as to why men can have higher body i don't think i've actually well i don't think

02:22:12.360 i've actually argued that okay is the thing um i think there are differences i think that um

02:22:20.880 here's what i've said right and i don't know if this is where you have a disagreement with me on

02:22:26.320 i think it's fine for a guy who has a high body count to desire or partner with a woman who has a low

02:22:33.540 body count i don't object to that at all now women are perfectly if women have an objection to dating a

02:22:39.000 man with high body count that's totally fine i don't have a double standard there in the same way

02:22:43.360 that uh i think it's optimal for men to date women uh with low body counts okay i well i would agree

02:22:50.520 with those things okay sorry well so oftentimes but oftentimes um my argument and i'm not in favor of

02:22:58.620 male promiscuity um but my argument is um because i don't think what something i got pushed back on

02:23:08.760 is i'll argue even if a guy has a high body count which i'm not advocating for it's always going to be

02:23:16.180 the most optimal choice to date a woman who does not have a promiscuous past um everybody when it comes

02:23:24.480 to dating wants to get the most uh the best partner that they can get and it occurs to me for a lot of valid

02:23:31.680 reasons that a woman who doesn't have a promiscuous past isn't currently promiscuous has a low body count

02:23:38.520 is at least within that metric uh alone will make for a more optimum partner than the woman who is

02:23:46.440 promiscuous was promiscuous or has a high body count i would agree with you on most of those things

02:23:52.060 like i think all of those things um i think just a lot of guys have a problem with girls having a higher

02:23:59.240 body count oh so it's like a hypocrisy thing so yeah you have a high body count you can have a high

02:24:04.440 body count but why can't girls oh they can like where's the double standard they can but just because

02:24:09.960 you're i get that it's more ideal though for women so to have low i don't i don't necessarily think

02:24:15.220 it makes you a hypocrite as a man like nobody's obliged to date anybody so i don't think a man with a high

02:24:21.120 body count is obliged to they have to only date women with high body counts if he can find a girl

02:24:26.880 with a low body count and she wants to date him and he wants to date her well that's two consenting

02:24:32.440 individuals i don't think there's anything wrong with that no i think it might if he's like there

02:24:38.660 could be some degree of hypocrisy insofar as i think he's told a man with a high body count would

02:24:44.460 be perfectly entitled to prefer a woman and date a woman with a low body count now if he's like

02:24:51.220 women with high body counts and he's like this is an open judgment women with high body counts are

02:24:57.880 are fucking trash that would be hypocritical but i don't think it's hypocritical for you to have a high

02:25:06.940 high body count and realize that you don't want to date somebody with high body count yeah no i would

02:25:14.720 agree with that preferences are your preferences everybody's entitled to their own thing i just

02:25:19.300 feel like it's more acceptable for guys to have a higher one yeah i agree with that actually and then

02:25:23.460 expect for women to not at all however women can also i mean most women i feel like would agree with

02:25:30.000 that and know that um but i mean women can also lie about it all the time and how are you gonna know

02:25:36.980 you know i feel like women are always lying about their body count so like how what is the difference

02:25:43.260 really wait you could be like like a girl could be like i have a body count of three and really she's

02:25:50.200 had 20 but how are you gonna know so what is the matter like why with lying doesn't matter that much

02:25:56.180 i'm not saying you should lie but i'm just saying that's like a lot of what people do because people

02:26:00.420 know that it matters i think body count matters i think women clearly just should have lower body

02:26:10.760 counts that's just the biological natural yes and i remember i told you remember i told you this last

02:26:17.720 time i think men biologically are men okay hold on we've got the we've got the legend peyo who just

02:26:27.800 did a raid over on twitch we'll come back to the body count discussion in just a sec nick could you

02:26:33.020 lower the volume a little bit yo peyo i hope you had a very good stream man oh a little too low a

02:26:38.180 little too low i think uh maybe just a tad a little bit lower yo peyo i hope you had a good stream man

02:26:43.900 let me do a shout out for you over on our twitch uh thank you so much for the raid man peyo he's a

02:26:48.920 world of warcraft giga chad and uh i really appreciate the raid man thank you hope you had a

02:26:54.380 uh good stream i hope you got some good loot in sunken temple sun excuse me sunken temple i saw that

02:27:00.140 you were uh in a raid there i i left you chat earlier on so really appreciate it man thank you peyo

02:27:05.780 quick question would you guys date a french canadian giga chad world of warcraft streamer

02:27:13.200 twitch streamer plays world of warcraft like 50 60 70 hours a week i think um he back during like

02:27:21.540 classic he had thunder fury on two rogues so that's like quite the accomplishment are we going to pull

02:27:28.360 up his ig or can we actually pull up the keyboard shit let's pull up the keyboard shit on this guy so

02:27:32.900 ladies would you first off going around the table would you date a gamer yeah

02:27:36.960 uh yes no he sounds really cool though but not my type not your type it depends on the games that

02:27:44.060 he's playing but i would say generally no if i'm being stereotypical wouldn't date a gamer okay also

02:27:50.720 generally no wouldn't date a gamer okay i would you would i would potentially all right nick can you

02:27:58.040 pull up his instagram really quick just so like i think the girls are gonna have a change of heart

02:28:00.980 here after they see this absolute after they see this absolute giga chad shout out peyo did i do

02:28:07.420 it already it's like peyo with two o's whoa let's do a little shout out so wait ladies like

02:28:15.920 you got it all right so this is holy shit wait put us on the other side put us on the other side

02:28:25.540 would you date this guy he's a he's a he's a he's a sweetheart though uh click that first photo what's

02:28:30.700 going on there peyo what are you doing bro click that first photo oh my god hangover for my 12th

02:28:37.800 hour poggers in the podcast studio um okay nice scroll oh wait bring it back scroll down scroll down

02:28:45.400 look at this fucking legend so ladies like anybody like dtf or what

02:28:53.260 dtr down to raid anybody anybody anybody anybody any take what does that mean wait pull get the

02:29:03.800 keyboard photo uh the video do you know what i'm talking about nick he looks really fun what's that

02:29:10.280 oh wait pull up twitch really quick guys if you're coming here from peyo thank you again for the raid

02:29:14.920 peyo drop us a follow on twitch we uh regularly you know we talk about world of warcraft and its

02:29:20.580 implications on dating thank you again for the raid peyo if you're from peyo drop us a little

02:29:24.900 follow in the chat a little follow in the chat a little prime a little twitch prime in the chat

02:29:31.280 little twitch prime in the chat yo thank you peyo really appreciate the raid um guys we talk about

02:29:37.400 like world of warcraft and the implications of like you know world of warcraft when it comes to like

02:29:42.180 dating all that shit like you know big factor you know what's your guys's favorite loot council or

02:29:49.900 what's your favorite loot system in world of warcraft brie i play minecraft

02:29:55.600 mine would be the san francisco loot i just don't even know what to say that okay all right we do

02:30:03.420 have to move on though thank you man appreciate the payo uh we can't do that we'll we'll do the

02:30:07.600 keyboard we'll do the keyboard video next time he raids us how about that um okay so where were

02:30:12.800 we we were talking i was saying body count body count oh body count right biologically men are meant

02:30:18.940 to have to create as many of their offsprings as possible so it would make sense for them

02:30:26.800 to have a higher body count because a woman can only have one child at a time fishism or twins

02:30:33.500 tech okay however you want to say but she can't get pregnant with a bunch yeah 100 kids out of time

02:30:38.480 but he can get 100 girls pregnant and biologically manifest a higher body count or are we talking

02:30:45.300 about like times that you've had intercourse is that what we're talking about no like you having

02:30:50.840 sex so that that's what we're talking about with body count yes amount of times that you've had okay

02:30:56.080 yes so when you men are meant to do that men are meant to create as many offspring as possible and

02:31:03.100 just drop their seed as much as possible you can't do that with one woman so it makes sense why you

02:31:07.780 have a higher body count women are meant to take care of kids and nurture kids and take care of

02:31:14.060 the household you're supposed to do that biologically so it would make sense why women are meant to have

02:31:21.000 lower body counts and why men are meant to have higher body counts that's what i think okay um so

02:31:27.740 wait what was the disagreement though you said not you said brian not wanting a woman with a high body

02:31:33.900 count and men can't i just think i mean you kind of already hit it just like you can't be hypocritical

02:31:39.320 i mean in my opinion like i there's a joke in there somewhere and or end up being hypocritical about

02:31:46.020 it just don't be okay i do think there are differences though like i think promiscuity has

02:31:52.940 a different impact on men and women i think they're similar but it seems to be more pronounced in women than in

02:31:58.720 men like a guy i don't think that the brain damage not the brain damage the uh i'd agree with that the

02:32:06.100 emotional damage it does is different nickelodeon donated yo nickelodeon thank you man appreciate

02:32:11.060 it we talk men in general but women are generally interested in top status men they constantly have

02:32:18.020 women throwing themselves at them do you think the same logic applies to him or can he be more picky

02:32:23.360 do you think the same logic applies to him or can he be more picky no wait biologically he has

02:32:32.420 achieved what he's supposed to do which is create as much as possible so see top percent of men

02:32:40.540 create as much as possible have higher body counts it just makes sense i don't know

02:32:45.960 i will say like a guy who's i think it's impressive in the sense that any woman has the capacity to be a

02:32:56.700 slut but very few men have the capacity to be a slut any woman could be a slut she could be obese she

02:33:05.200 could be extremely unattractive any woman but typically in order for like a woman could be unattractive

02:33:12.400 and a slut it's pretty hard for an unattractive guy to be a slut that's what we're saying no that's

02:33:18.900 what i'm saying that's why there's a difference there top percent of men have higher body counts

02:33:24.320 and that's just natural it's normal it's just biologically how things are and how it's always

02:33:29.780 been we'll put it this way it's very easy to be a female slut it's very hard to be a male slut

02:33:35.400 yeah for shizzle yeah mine is all right we have golden gopher golden gopher 24 year old never been

02:33:46.160 on a date works six days a week making over six figures don't smoke or drink non-practicing

02:33:51.480 christian what should i do to be noticed slash find the one dating apps are no luck you're missing one

02:33:59.200 of the three pillars spiritual physical or financial financial you got to up your game get more money

02:34:07.980 save more money he's never been on a dating app or six days a week making over six figures doesn't

02:34:12.880 smoke doesn't drink you sound shy you got an instagram bro we'll do an instagram review on you

02:34:17.280 you know i just have to be more outgoing probably yeah the first move which i think like approaching

02:34:23.500 a girl actually make them different you know if you go out and actually go up to a girl and ask

02:34:28.000 her on a date i think that would make you extremely more attractive than anybody on a dating app to

02:34:33.360 my personal it's also a matter it's like if you're conventionally attractive you have to make yourself

02:34:37.720 more attractive go to gym be healthy i agree take care of yourself groom yourself take a shower like

02:34:43.960 if you go up stinky fat no one's gonna want you actually i think perhaps so golden gopher your first

02:34:50.640 mistake here i think is is your view your frame here what should i do to be noticed now men

02:34:57.980 can be noticed but unless you have some degree of status you're gonna have to be the pursuer

02:35:05.120 so there's very it's very rare for like a normal average guy without status to ever be the one who's

02:35:12.540 noticed in other words to be the pursued women typically don't do the pursuing they don't initiate

02:35:18.340 when it comes to dating typically um sometimes women will be like snipers like if there's one guy

02:35:24.740 they will zero in and off even then they'll still do like token initiative they'll make high contact

02:35:30.420 with him but um some girls will approach like but it's like a sniper the guy has to be super attractive

02:35:35.360 you know whatever whatever but uh you're gonna have to make the first move man you're gonna have

02:35:40.080 to take initiative you're gonna have to uh yeah i i think your frame of view here is what should i do to

02:35:46.880 be noticed don't think that way just you notice the woman and pursue the women that don't you notice

02:35:55.800 don't be noticed he's setting you up you notice how about that he's setting you up for failure with

02:36:01.340 that one no you want to become well obviously yes yeah so make yourself better so women will start

02:36:08.660 noticing just become that just become top one percent yes easy yeah easy bro just become top

02:36:14.000 what are you waiting for don't pursue women in reality and animal kingdoms the woman fight over

02:36:22.580 the men what that's how it should be exactly the woman should be fighting what it's so obvious so i

02:36:28.940 mean if you want to do that you have to become that alpha male so she's not totally wrong she's not

02:36:34.700 totally wrong but the reality is most men aren't going to become rock stars they're not going to

02:36:39.360 be movie stars they become alpha males you know i don't think you like change your mind i don't

02:36:43.160 think you realize how difficult it is for men in the modern day just be out even to even just be

02:36:47.540 confident this guy says he's 24 years old he's making over 100k he what did he say he's like good

02:36:53.680 look i didn't really read the six days a week makes over 60k doesn't drink doesn't smoke but he's

02:36:57.800 never been on a date yeah so this guy's obviously doing okay i'd imagine he probably works in a male

02:37:02.240 dominated industry doesn't really get to see girls much what i would say is try and get yourself into

02:37:06.660 some circles whether you said you're not practicing christian try and get yourself into a church where

02:37:10.280 there's other girls there try and get yourself into some social circles doesn't sound like you have too

02:37:14.060 much of a social life if you try and get yourself into some social circles meet people where you live

02:37:18.160 that will really help you because oftentimes on dating apps if you are just a regular average guy

02:37:22.980 which it's sort of sounds like you would appear on a dating app you're going to get no love

02:37:27.940 whatsoever so it's a jungle out there you got to get get out in person go meet people go to a

02:37:33.200 library and find like a semi-nerty asian girl libraries are great for it i've done that heaps

02:37:37.520 of times wait where libraries libraries libraries are amazing for it just be confident in yourself

02:37:41.940 you have the confidence just be confident no i'm saying if you walk in somewhere thinking i'm the

02:37:48.640 shit you're going to believe you're the shape this is the problem though the girls don't realize

02:37:52.300 thinking oh no girls looking at me oh no i look like a loser this is this is why this is why dating

02:37:57.560 these days is like a humiliation ritual for young men and you wouldn't even have the first clue about

02:38:01.940 it because like you're a girl and you don't do it but if a guy is not confident enough it's like be

02:38:06.480 that guy be that guy be that one percent guy but then if he comes in the room and he's really super

02:38:10.500 confident and cocky everyone's like oh ick this guy's super cocky they have to walk they have to walk

02:38:15.760 that fine line between yeah confident and not too cocky and they want they want all of this all but

02:38:21.580 that's a bit too much you can't you have there is a fine line between confidence and cocky and you

02:38:25.840 need to know what that yeah so you just need to figure that tightrope out and walk it and how do

02:38:30.260 you think you do that you do that for years and years and years of experience and then girls say oh

02:38:33.880 well why does he have a high body count well because in this modern world it's so difficult to

02:38:37.900 date and guys need to have years and years and years of experience with women to be able to

02:38:41.680 reverse all of the 300 things that you guys want and a smart woman will know that a man having a

02:38:46.540 high body count is normal and it's not unnatural and it's actually pretty natural so i would say i

02:38:55.720 would say it's a big problem because i don't i don't condone people having a high body count i wish

02:38:59.460 it weren't that way but i can understand from the secular dating perspective why guys tend to have

02:39:03.860 higher body counts now i don't think that's ideal but i can understand when that's the messaging

02:39:09.040 especially in the red pill space is that guys should have a higher body count what you're saying

02:39:13.180 is not what you're saying isn't relevant to most guys because most guys don't rack up big body

02:39:17.680 counts and just plant their seed everywhere what you're talking about is sultans and kings from the

02:39:21.340 past so genghis khan who's gone out and pillaged places and planted his seed everywhere that's not

02:39:26.740 most guys most guys throughout history haven't reproduced only 40 percent of men have reproduced okay i'm

02:39:31.500 gonna ask you why what is stopping you from becoming that king from becoming that one percent from

02:39:37.380 becoming that man okay what is stopping you okay so what would be stopping a man from becoming a king

02:39:43.320 okay first of all kings are normally autocracy so that's like a genetic bloodline i'm not talking

02:39:47.700 about a literal king okay so stop being ridiculous okay so a kang like yeah okay you're a kang from

02:39:53.400 alpha male okay what stops you from being that okay so once again genetically most guys are not six

02:39:58.440 foot five okay i'm not six foot five i'm bang on six foot some people call me five eleven and a half

02:40:02.700 they're lying okay i'm six foot um you can most guys aren't that tall most guys aren't that good

02:40:07.980 looking most guys don't have an aptitude towards some sort of intellectual pursuit okay there's a

02:40:13.000 lot of biological factors most guys aren't born into rich families okay a lot of guys have tough

02:40:18.500 upbringings and they don't find their feet till later in life it's more complicated than that

02:40:21.800 and besides besides that even if like your logic were to apply there can still only be a one percent

02:40:28.640 so regardless of what the one percent looks like or regardless of how much the block moves up as a

02:40:33.800 whole girls are still going to look at that top one percent i'm just saying it is possible to do that

02:40:39.520 i'm this is going to be very quick but i came from a really rough background i came from panama third

02:40:44.340 world country literal you're a pretty girl doesn't apply to you shipping i wasn't always pretty i was

02:40:49.540 bullied in middle school and high school for not being pretty a lot of things went where i wasn't

02:40:56.500 supposed to get to where i'm at i was able to come to america i was able to make my money i i have

02:41:01.940 enough money to take care of myself for a long time i'm good okay i came from the absolute what you

02:41:10.580 don't expect to get out of i came from the third world country i came from having nothing i came from

02:41:16.240 not being attractive and if i'm able to do that conventionally attractive because before i mean i don't

02:41:21.440 think she's that pretty conventionally attractive if i could come out and do that anybody could do

02:41:26.000 first of all i would say and i'm not trying to berate you but i would say that you're at life

02:41:29.920 where you're at right now congratulations on getting out of panama but you're still showing

02:41:33.600 your body on the internet i would say you're not aspirational for young women but we're talking

02:41:36.980 about men it's a very different thing so you you being a female have a you live a very different

02:41:42.040 life experience so when you try and tell men that you went to the wood to arizona or whatever

02:41:46.240 wherever you went to alaska and now you're going to come out and teach everyone how to be a kang

02:41:50.340 okay it doesn't it doesn't really doesn't really add up because no first of all you haven't lived

02:41:55.060 life as a man you haven't conquered like the things that men have to conquer i i have a hundred

02:42:02.320 thousand followers on instagram i talk to them i dm them i listen to their stories they come to me

02:42:06.760 with their problems they're like brie this girl doesn't like me brie i don't know what to do i'm

02:42:10.360 such a loser i don't know what i hear all their stories and i'm like there's ways to change this like

02:42:15.620 the problem actually starts within yourself there's ways to change this you call yourself a loser and

02:42:20.700 thinking that you don't deserve anything is the start of why you're a loser and why you think you

02:42:25.020 don't deserve anything if you think hey i am someone who deserves something you're going to start

02:42:30.340 believing that power manifestation that's all i'm saying you can become that one percent if anyone else

02:42:36.200 could do it then you could do it too that's why we have free will that's why we're on this world and

02:42:39.600 that's why we could do whatever we want look you're not wrong that having a positive mentality

02:42:44.260 about yourself and having aspirations is definitely something that you should do like i said i'm going

02:42:49.320 to talk for a second like you said you're not wrong about having that good mentality and whatever you

02:42:53.780 call manifesting i wouldn't really use that word but i'd say you want to set goals as a man but when

02:42:58.920 you set goals as a man it's very very difficult to actually achieve those goals and when we talk

02:43:03.700 about the one percent no matter what we're always going to be talking about the one percent do you

02:43:07.640 understand that one percent always exists yeah that's not everyone can cram into that little one

02:43:11.980 well you should at least aspire to be that you shouldn't be comfortable i think being comfortable

02:43:17.200 is a man's worst enemy being comfortable with where you're at or thinking oh it's okay that i'm not

02:43:23.640 that is your first problem you should at least aspire to be that no not everyone can be the top one

02:43:29.380 percent but you should at least want to do that and the closer you get to that one percent the

02:43:33.160 more stuff that you're going to get but do you understand that that's largely unattainable for the

02:43:37.120 the vast vast majority of men you do understand that if you're five foot four born in liberia

02:43:43.400 okay and you're working in a cobalt mind do you think that it's it's pretty possible for you to

02:43:47.740 get to that one percent would you say just manifest it there is a way to get out of anything i'll say

02:43:52.940 that if i could get out what i got out of anybody could get out of anything okay so once again let me

02:43:57.820 just reiterate to you that the female when i start talking i'm going to finish my point so once again

02:44:02.660 what i'd like to say is that for the female perspective it's very different the what what

02:44:07.040 a man and a woman if you're a pretty young lady in the 21st century living in a western country

02:44:12.400 you're not only the luckiest person to be alive right now you have the best life out of anyone

02:44:17.000 that has ever existed ever if you're a pretty young girl that lives in the in a western country

02:44:22.180 and you have to do jack shit you don't realize all of the infrastructure that goes into your into

02:44:26.680 the roads and underneath all of the roads you think that when you flush your toilet it just goes

02:44:30.440 and it's going no you turn the lights on now you're talking about something else i agree with

02:44:35.460 that being pretty and living in america and just it kind of all just put your bum on instagram and

02:44:41.000 it's just yeah it just kind of handed to you but i didn't get to that point just by being born at one

02:44:46.880 years old and i was already already had everything and already was given everything no so if i could do

02:44:53.120 it and i was bullied in high school for being ugly so if i could become conventionally attractive

02:44:58.260 non-attractive to everybody before the comments go crazy and lose their shit wait wait this is like

02:45:05.120 breaking news so you said you had it rough in panama yes dude i have somebody fucking dming me

02:45:10.740 so you know the panama canal right yeah like your family owns that shit don't fuck don't lie to me

02:45:17.440 bro this chick is a billionaire like you're an heiress dude you know how much money goes through the

02:45:23.260 panama canal just to be a fucking boat that goes through that shit you got to pay tens of thousands

02:45:27.960 of dollars or some shit bro be honest tell the fucking truth you your family owns the panama canal

02:45:33.920 doesn't it i wouldn't be sitting bro i got like a i got 20 panamanians in my dm saying yo that chick

02:45:41.320 she's from panamanian fucking royalty yeah you're gonna sit here bro be honest okay you you had that

02:45:48.220 pampered panama no panama i came from a freaking shipping container in the slums of panama i had

02:45:55.680 zero dollars at eight at 16 my mom kicked me out if you watched the video that you brought up last

02:46:01.020 time soft white underbelly video though yeah if you watched it you would know bro i got i talked about

02:46:06.780 the whole thing i got 20 panamanian nationals okay telling me bro your family is involved with the

02:46:12.200 panama canal you guys own that shit you're like you're plugged in bro okay forget that see she

02:46:18.020 doesn't even want to address it she doesn't even want to address it is i never had it i not always

02:46:22.960 had this guy with kids i was 16 all the odds were against me if i was able to pull out of that

02:46:27.260 then anyone can pull out of that look i'm not i'm not diminishing your life experience and i'm sure

02:46:32.260 you've had a tough time and everybody you know has their own things but also there are certain

02:46:35.660 advantages that you just can't look past in life and being a pretty young lady which you obviously

02:46:39.780 you have some sort of a disposition to be or conventionally to be reasonably pretty and you

02:46:43.780 got a few surgeries and now you are sort of what people would look at as somewhat of a fetish online

02:46:47.760 i guess yeah yeah so it's it doesn't seem like the most difficult thing i wasn't 10 years old

02:46:52.580 looking like that when i was starving in panama so i obviously had to make it out somehow how did

02:46:58.880 you get here what i'm saying i was a waitress how did you fly i was a waitress in did you fly from

02:47:05.020 panama yeah okay so you didn't have to go across the southern border or anything

02:47:08.840 no i came on a tourist visa and then i figured my way of getting into college so i could get a

02:47:14.480 student visa and then now i'm able to get a green card well congratulations i mean that's it it's a

02:47:22.500 not it is a nice story i think there are some objections i've had about i would have about if

02:47:27.760 i know if i could do it literally anyone it's good that you're not you're not in panama living in

02:47:32.160 poverty anymore if that is if that is your story so i'm just saying i can help men because i have the

02:47:36.800 resources i don't think you can help men i think that that's where that's where you cross a line

02:47:40.500 i can help men help themselves she can i can i can teach them that they are able to get something

02:47:47.880 out of themselves they can't be miserable laying in bed crying can't be miserable can i can i can

02:47:54.000 ask you if you if you weren't doing what what work are you doing at the moment um right now yes i

02:47:59.900 don't do only fans anymore okay then what do you do for money you don't want to disclose that right

02:48:04.100 now what do i do for money well right now i have enough money that i don't have to do anything

02:48:11.400 okay luckily i have gotten to that point okay but before i've had regular jobs i was a church

02:48:18.940 camp counselor i was a waitress i yeah and if you if you didn't do obviously of was something that

02:48:25.880 gave you a financial like it picked you up financially able to give you all these things

02:48:30.560 like the surgeries that you've gotten yeah able to have a bit of cash in your pocket if you weren't

02:48:34.320 doing that what would be the thing that would make you the aspirational person that you claim to be

02:48:38.480 what would i have done what would be the thing that you would do if it wasn't anything to do with your

02:48:42.860 looks with my what would you bring to the world that would make you an aspirational person that

02:48:47.320 people would look up to and think i should follow well that's what i realize now i realize

02:48:51.240 only fans was great to get me out of the situation i was in it's great but i can't do that forever and

02:48:57.840 it's not something i want to do forever which is why now i want to help people which is good to

02:49:03.320 it's good good to realize by the way people that that you shouldn't do that forever that's yeah but

02:49:08.160 what is the thing that you would do now that you could i'm going to help people what i just said i'm

02:49:13.240 going to help men but you haven't actually been able to outline how you're going to do that though

02:49:17.320 you've kind of just given a bit of like a tony robbins talk talk talk just honestly for the sake of

02:49:22.380 the conversation i'm going to i have to move things forward um we have let me do two chats we

02:49:27.640 have kill of cereal pick six foot one 180k a year so this is for the ladies you're going to pick

02:49:33.400 between two men 180k a year fit eight inch pp but has a horrible world outlook and the negative

02:49:40.400 attitude in general or four foot two 30k year chubby did i say five foot two oh my bad my bad

02:49:49.420 uh he has i'll pull it up four inch pp but he has a positive outlook and oozes confidence and swagger

02:49:56.140 which one do you pick you have to pick one yeah i'm choosing a five two i can't ever be with someone

02:50:01.720 with a negative attitude it's all about their mind it's beautiful i could never choose that

02:50:05.340 that's great i would choose the second one i would also choose the second one i think i would

02:50:11.360 choose the first one because let's go you know i i think men have the potential to have a positive

02:50:17.820 attitude and to grow but you can't fix the other shit can you yeah yeah you know the short small pp

02:50:25.520 you can that's you can't change it you can't change it all right what did you i'm sorry i didn't mean

02:50:30.620 to interrupt you though did you want to add more or that was pretty much yeah what about you i'd go with

02:50:35.080 the second okay yeah i would go with the second i admittedly go with the first i have a very

02:50:40.320 positive outlook on life i can make him positive so you'll like make up for it yeah in the relationship

02:50:45.060 like you'll balance it out of it okay i'm the positive one anyway so i need someone i mean is

02:50:49.200 that the only downside that he has a negative attitude that could be pretty pretty big though

02:50:53.780 that would be miserable horrible world outlook you know literally complaining a lot to have you

02:50:59.420 miserable we have a chat here from golden gopher all assumptions are spot on jake oh are we pulling

02:51:06.960 oh we did say we'd pull it up so insta uh nick if you're able to find that i can if you want i can

02:51:14.280 copy and paste it for you if that's easier uh 510 225 are you ripped um family business managing 40 men

02:51:23.620 ages 18 to 55 is a stanley steamer franchisee i have a twin sister and most girls i know

02:51:28.940 are her friends okay uh nick i'm gonna send that to you in just a sec while we're doing that yo john

02:51:35.180 boy thank you for the uh this prime of i think that was a prime over on twitch thank you man appreciate

02:51:40.920 it oh wait hold on bro did i add an extra period in there ah okay i see what i did wait bro

02:51:50.620 jake hold on before i put i don't want to pull up somebody else's instagram i like there's a period

02:51:56.080 there's too many underscores and periods in here is the period at the end is there supposed to be a

02:52:00.960 period at the end is it just a picture of you uh you like a dog is that your profile i'm not going

02:52:07.300 to pull up somebody you have to like confirm bro bro dm just dm me on instagram dm me on instagram

02:52:13.260 i'll look in my request folder uh and we'll get that pull up in just a sec okay uh kj your final

02:52:20.260 thing here for our pre-show notes you also disagree with me not believing in marriage

02:52:25.420 um okay yeah so i'm like blanking on what even i said on that i'm so sorry that's all you said

02:52:35.480 you just said i saw not believing in their clips and now i'm blanking on what even it was

02:52:42.040 okay to be completely honest well i can just restate well yeah what's your my position so

02:52:47.160 uh i don't object to marriage from a religious perspective but if you're secular for example

02:52:53.380 i actually don't see any point for getting marriage for for getting married and even for religious

02:52:58.480 people i actually don't see any benefit for religious people outside of the religious tradition

02:53:04.140 of it why which i respect but i just there's actually no non-religious benefits to getting

02:53:10.540 married that i i suppose some people say well there's certain tax benefits which is true but they

02:53:16.720 don't i don't think those outweigh the negatives so what do you think the negatives are well scam

02:53:23.680 it it's targeted to well there's a couple there's a couple components here so a lot of women want to

02:53:30.200 get married but they don't want to be wives so what that means is you'll have and i'm going to list a

02:53:36.020 whole bunch of things you'll have women who want you to spend three months salary on a ring that

02:53:41.440 really costs a hundred dollars but you're going to spend five figures on it the diamond industry is

02:53:45.940 an absolute scam so it's a waste of money secondly uh it's kind of like

02:53:51.600 lame as fuck to get down on one knee and like beg a woman to do anything so that's weird and then

02:53:59.400 secondly or thirdly i guess um the wedding itself is can be very expensive and that kind of ties into

02:54:08.080 number one like you want the ceremony you want the day you want your attention but are a lot of women

02:54:14.080 prepared to actually be wives it's not clear if they are um so to me that's just a waste of money

02:54:19.580 to do this big ceremony spend tens of thousands some people spend hundreds of six figures on the

02:54:26.800 wedding uh that's a massive waste of money if i'm looking to put my family in the best position

02:54:32.540 i can possibly put it in i'd much rather put that money into buying a better house having another

02:54:40.200 car putting my kids through the best potential why am i going to spend 50k

02:54:45.200 on this thing that's a one day event that's that's ridiculous i was about to say the r word and okay

02:54:52.140 can i say something sure yeah you're welcome i agree with that but it sounds like you're well

02:54:58.180 sorry um it sounds like you're against the wedding not the marriage well okay so that was you don't

02:55:04.760 have to do all of those things to get married you can go to the courthouse and just get married i

02:55:09.260 agree with you but i would argue most most women do want those things and if they don't then yes it it

02:55:15.520 gets rid of those uh criticisms that i have however my bigger criticism actually is not the ring it's not

02:55:24.240 the actual ceremony although i think those are valid criticisms especially if you're not religious

02:55:30.160 it's the ramifications of divorce so and we talked about this earlier men or women are overwhelmingly

02:55:39.480 initiating divorces something like 80 percent of divorces are initiated by women so there's that

02:55:45.900 and then just the financial impact of divorce and then um you know community property alimony

02:55:54.180 uh that's especially if you're a breadwinner and you're high earner it's very ill-advised as a man

02:56:01.040 to get married what i would say is if you're thinking about all of those things going into marriage

02:56:06.720 just gerald donated two hundred dollars if any of these women want one week of 12 hour shifts on a

02:56:13.700 construction site they might actually appreciate the thousands of invisible men who make their

02:56:18.940 cushy lives possible hundred percent agree oh wait really quick we will come back to the marriage

02:56:24.700 thing nick i have a video that i wanted to someone two people sent me via instagram this bro just pull

02:56:31.340 up the video it's a youtube video uh yeah it's like a yeah yeah so this is men

02:56:43.700 dangerous jobs they took there's this oh the wage gap blah blah blah bro women are not willing to do

02:56:48.960 this kind of work that's frankly going to pay fairly well although there's a whole bunch of the wage

02:56:56.860 gap is a myth but uh play it nick i'm gonna have you use the the arrows to skip forward five seconds

02:57:08.120 okay there's the helicopter skip but can you skip yep again what's yeah keep going i could be like

02:57:17.660 film keep going keep going it's a long video keep going just

02:57:20.880 can you mute the audio it's it's it's not necessary at this point move forward

02:57:31.580 is this fucking helicopter gonna take off what the fuck

02:57:34.600 god damn okay there it is it's taking off hold on one sec okay it's just there's probably a man in

02:57:43.120 the helicopter no offense ladies uh the helicopter is ford a bit the cop is taking off ford a bit

02:57:51.340 come on helicopter let's go there we go all right and it's uh they're stacking a tower ford ford ford

02:57:59.180 wait what the fuck set why is it showing that it's a 739 out of 12 minutes it didn't can you

02:58:09.740 reload the video yeah i didn't it didn't finish that's really weird just refresh the video

02:58:15.260 really pull it up one more time go to the like 15 or 30 seconds before the end

02:58:28.160 go go can you are you able to zoom past it won't let you go to like oh that's so weird

02:58:38.180 okay anyways that's unfortunate i don't know why that is they're stacking a tower and so

02:58:44.280 just for all points here is like i don't know man no it's absolutely right and these are the jobs that

02:58:52.000 have to get done that nobody really sees like these are the guys who i mean my whole family are builders

02:58:57.400 my older brother is a builder my uncle my grandpa they're all builders and they are they are so much

02:59:02.060 more alpha and chad than me and like they go to work every single day and break their backs and

02:59:07.480 they have this thing that they call site cancer and it means that if anybody ever complains and if

02:59:11.460 anybody ever wants to lift a lesser load on site where like they'll call it site cancer because if it

02:59:17.040 rubs off on one person then the next person the next person so they have this fortified mentality

02:59:21.740 amongst these building groups when nobody can slack off everybody has to lift their load so you can

02:59:26.980 imagine these guys break their backs day in and day out and nobody really sees that stuff but that is

02:59:31.080 the infrastructure that builds the world you guys live in well those are the real alpha males yeah but

02:59:36.400 but these are the guys who earn 60 70k who you would say just just be a king the dangerous jobs like

02:59:42.440 that blue collar jobs yeah they can earn more but there are also a lot of guys who aren't earning

02:59:47.840 great money make a lot of money uh probably way more than how much do you think that these guys

02:59:51.960 earn well my dad well okay he doesn't have a good idea but he is a truck driver that is a shitty job

03:00:00.480 that no one really wants to do but he makes over someone's gonna do it don't they yeah because

03:00:04.100 someone's gonna stay exactly stay outside i think that is an alpha male someone who is doing those

03:00:09.320 manly things but i thought you said they're gonna be one percent what's wrong you can be what's wrong

03:00:14.080 you can be a one percent and oh you can be one percent truck drivers yeah that's a good gig

03:00:19.280 my dad makes six figures a year you that's not one that's not one percent well i'm not saying

03:00:24.940 billionaire i'm not saying i'm only looking at the billionaires i'm not talking about how much money

03:00:29.780 you have or how fit you are i'm talking about how you look at yourself and how you are so being top

03:00:36.380 one percent now and the things that you've been saying all night about how you should just become a

03:00:39.520 king is actually your self-perception yeah it's not about like i'm not going to go out and date

03:00:44.760 the richest guy jeff bezos so you think that all of the girls do you think that the girls are all

03:00:49.180 chasing the guy who have the guys who have the best self-perception huh do you think the girls are all

03:00:54.460 chasing the guys with the top one percent self-perception they aspire to be more than they

03:01:00.540 currently are yes girls are going to see that and that's what girls are attracted to girls are going

03:01:04.940 be attracted to a manly man who could provide for the house and someone who is working blue collar

03:01:09.520 job can do that because they make good money because they're doing the dangerous jobs that no

03:01:13.480 one wants to do so yes a woman will be i agree with you that a woman is attracted to ambition

03:01:19.920 that's for sure but what you were talking about before is you're you were saying why can't a guy

03:01:23.920 just become a top one percent guy and why can't he just do all these things and i'm going to teach men

03:01:28.320 how to become a top one percent guy that's essentially what you were saying well what i'm saying

03:01:32.360 is that most guys don't have the type of hold on a second i'm saying most guys don't have the type

03:01:37.780 of aptitude to become a one percent man most guys are very inclined for example to work with their

03:01:42.760 hands yet andrew wilson on the podcast who's an industrial um industrial robotics engineer

03:01:47.580 robotics engineer i never said those guys are very very handy and that's a very very difficult job

03:01:52.460 just gerald donated two hundred dollars the average infrastructure and construction worker

03:01:58.560 makes 50 70k on average you know those bums who don't deserve you yo jessica rod thank you man

03:02:05.360 appreciate it uh nick go into the private chat i found the helicopter video we'll pull it up really

03:02:09.860 quick um if you can get that going um i don't think we need audio on it really yo jessica rod thank

03:02:16.500 you man appreciate it also the instagram guy we're who uh golden gopher i didn't get a dm from you

03:02:22.920 uh on the whatever sorry i should have clarified dm the at whatever page i don't see anything yet

03:02:29.560 nick if you pull it up

03:02:30.540 okay so this is what i was trying to scroll up a little bit please

03:02:37.080 no no no oh my god i meant scroll up like

03:02:44.780 wait now just did it restart the video yeah it restarted okay

03:02:50.080 uh helicopter cell tower stacking also known as hella stacking can you make it one bigger please

03:02:57.480 it was

03:02:58.200 all right helicopter cell tower stacking also known as hella stacking

03:03:04.420 or aerial cell tower installation imagine your hand getting crushed in between the um is a

03:03:10.680 specialized technique used in the telecommunications industry to install or maintain

03:03:14.300 cellular communication infrastructure and remote or hard to reach locations this method involves

03:03:19.940 deploying multiple helicopters in a coordinated operation to stack prefabricated sections of cell

03:03:25.700 towers on top of each other ultimately erecting erecting a fully functional cellular tower i mean

03:03:31.780 i'm pretty sure every single one of those people on there's a man i don't think a lot of women

03:03:36.720 want that job even if it was well-paying so interesting in it

03:03:42.920 i think i would rather date a guy that has that job than a multi-millionaire with daddy's money that

03:03:50.180 doesn't do anything with himself um anyways we're gonna bring it or let me read this chat here we have

03:03:54.720 david treziak watching at the pool hall on my phone be nice to brie no way she's a billionaire

03:03:58.820 as much as ursula speaks japanese arigato konnichiwa want to hear more from brunette in pink

03:04:05.240 what okay yeah we'll get there we'll get there thank you man appreciate it uh so k uh kj

03:04:12.920 you were saying something on the marriage thing oh um i was saying if you're going into marriage

03:04:19.940 thinking of divorce then you're you shouldn't be getting married is what i would say you should go

03:04:25.320 into marriage thinking that you've found your person that you love you're going to commit to

03:04:29.220 them for the rest of your life you respect them you're not going to put yourself into situations

03:04:33.580 where anything can happen with another person you know like i think that if you're going in

03:04:39.740 with those doubts of like oh it's probably going to end in divorce then you're probably with the wrong

03:04:44.440 person well if a high proportion of marriages end in divorce i mean wouldn't it be the prudent

03:04:52.080 thing to you know have a full understanding of the potential ramifications of hey what if this

03:04:59.440 doesn't work i think a lot of the people that so you should you should just go in blindly no but i

03:05:06.220 think that you should go in not really thinking that divorce is an option i think you should i mean

03:05:12.800 a lot of do you think that's prevented people from getting divorced yeah i do i think that a lot of

03:05:18.020 marriages um so you think all people who've been divorced knew going in they would no i'm not

03:05:25.000 saying that but i think that i obviously there's so many different reasons people get divorced

03:05:29.580 but sure i think a lot of people do go in with that thought that it's like oh well if it doesn't

03:05:35.400 work out or we like have all of these arguments we can always get divorced it's totally okay and i

03:05:40.820 think that's a bad option i feel like most people have that thought right before they get married

03:05:44.960 though because it is a very very big commitment and i can understand why brian doesn't believe in

03:05:50.300 it because if the if the love is strong enough you don't really need a piece of paper but unless

03:05:54.360 you're religious you know you do you but right actually that's a very good argument she makes

03:05:59.280 why can't if if we love each other so much why need to even get divorced if our love is so strong

03:06:08.420 we'll just or sorry uh sorry excuse me if our love is so strong why even get married we don't

03:06:14.980 need to get married i think it's good to have it on a piece of paper why completely honest it's like

03:06:20.140 any reason you would sign a contract it's so it binds you into it wait hold on hold on why not be

03:06:26.080 binded into it if you love them so much then why not but why isn't the love but it doesn't bind you

03:06:30.920 i i don't think i i'm a little confused here why it doesn't bind you because you at any let me ask you

03:06:36.920 a question in the united states or any western country let's say there's no abuse let's say

03:06:43.000 there's no infidelity let's say your husband treats you perfectly but you're just vaguely unhappy but

03:06:49.380 he's a wonderful husband would the woman in that scenario be able to divorce her husband if she was

03:06:55.040 so inclined yeah could she at any point in the marriage without any sort of abuse from the husband

03:07:00.700 without any infidelity he's a wonderful husband takes care of the kids provider everything but she's

03:07:06.420 just vaguely unhappy does she at any point reserve the right to end the relationship

03:07:12.640 and the marriage at any point so then it binds your assets unless you're signing a prenup it binds

03:07:19.220 let's say he's let's say he's the breadwinner too in this situation perfect husband no abuse no

03:07:24.900 infidelity and he's the breadwinner and she reserves the right at any point in that marriage to end it

03:07:32.460 it seems like a really bad negative outcome for the man doesn't it yeah i mean it does sound like

03:07:41.240 an awful outcome for the man okay so but how is it binding her to the marriage you said there's a

03:07:46.240 contract right but you said that you also said at any point she reserves the right to leave the

03:07:53.000 marriage for whatever reason yeah how is it binding contract as they said how is it but how is it it's

03:07:58.760 a really so he gets it binds him to get fucked yeah i think so it's not binding her to stay in the

03:08:05.320 marriage okay yeah sorry i've misworded it it binds your assets is what that sounds terrible doesn't it

03:08:13.420 i mean no it's a good deal for a woman but okay you're gonna go in with a person that you love

03:08:21.480 and honestly if it is a relationship that ends and there's not really a reason and they just fell

03:08:27.040 out of love you know it's you guys is that a good reason is that a good reason to get a divorce

03:08:31.200 that's a good i think that's a pretty awful reason that's probably a very go to counseling i think that

03:08:36.560 you should go and do you think counseling can make you fall back in love with your partner i do think

03:08:41.660 it can help you fall back in love what if it doesn't i also think you know hold on answer the

03:08:45.800 question okay if you go to counseling and you the woman doesn't fall back in love with her

03:08:50.820 husband but the marriage is otherwise a healthy one doesn't abuse her doesn't cheat on her takes

03:08:58.440 care of the kids yes great person get a divorce yes no no no that's not okay they can get a divorce

03:09:02.960 i'm asking you should the woman get the divorce no i don't think that you should get she felt she's

03:09:08.800 fallen out of love with him she wants to be in love with somebody else i think you can fall back

03:09:13.080 in love what if she doesn't you wanted to what if she doesn't well then they're probably gonna get

03:09:18.000 a divorce i'm just saying like well what if he doesn't want the divorce you're against marriage

03:09:22.080 as a whole i think that if you are picking the right person i think if you're both choosing each

03:09:26.980 other daily you're not putting yourself in those positions to be falling in love with somebody else

03:09:31.800 like i said at the very beginning no no i'm not saying that she falls in love with somebody else

03:09:35.720 she's no longer in love with her husband she's desirous of love perhaps with somebody else

03:09:43.280 okay i don't i mean as i said i don't think she should have put herself in a position to

03:09:49.280 be in love with somebody else no i'm not saying that i do think people fall out of love all the

03:09:55.400 time but you see i think marriage is a choice i think love is a choice i will stand by that i think

03:10:01.660 a lot of people fall out of love and they fall out of that feeling i think that love is a choice i think

03:10:07.440 you choose that person every day and if you're both committed to doing that every day

03:10:11.580 then you're gonna have a healthy marriage it takes a lot of commitment it takes a lot of action

03:10:16.600 it takes a lot of sacrifice all of these things go into a marriage you can definitely fall out of a

03:10:23.240 feeling easily i think that a lot of people do in marriages you're not it's not gonna be based on a

03:10:28.920 feeling one day you're gonna have a fight it's gonna end what it's gonna end bad you know that's not a

03:10:34.420 cause for a divorce in my opinion i think that it's a dumb reason for a divorce okay but so of all the

03:10:39.680 people that have ever been divorced uh do you think that they went into that marriage

03:10:46.720 thinking that this isn't the person i love and that this isn't the person i want to spend the

03:10:51.540 rest of my life with no i don't think i would argue the vast majority of people who get married

03:10:55.400 and eventually get divorced they think that at the moment

03:10:59.380 um can you repeat that i'm so sorry what well but okay so you're saying well you probably shouldn't

03:11:06.760 get married then if these are the these are the things that are going through your mind but i would

03:11:12.740 argue probably the majority of people who do get married and who regrettably well maybe not

03:11:17.360 regrettably but who do end up getting divorced i would argue that those thoughts aren't going through

03:11:22.580 their head and that they are thinking i love this person this is the best person i've ever been with

03:11:26.980 i want to be with this person for the rest of my life three years later maybe that's not their

03:11:32.840 outlook on that were they choosing to try every day is what i would ask them first it's hard to say

03:11:38.380 that well then i would stand by that i think that that is what marriage is it's a commitment to trying

03:11:43.300 to to be better for each other every day it's a 50 50 you have to keep trying it's not based on a

03:11:50.200 feeling can i ask you a question are you religious yes christian yes okay um so i certainly concede

03:11:57.940 that there are religious reasons for getting married because i mean the religion compels it

03:12:03.060 uh but for uh do you think secular people should get married yeah okay um so let's say you have a

03:12:12.360 secular secular secular couple non-religious couple um can you explain to me what you can get from a

03:12:22.500 marriage if you're secular that you can't just get from being in the monogamous long-term relationship

03:12:28.600 and having kids i think it's just a commitment aspect of it like i go ahead continue i just think

03:12:36.060 that like if you i don't see why not if you love each other first as much as you say you do

03:12:43.660 why not again like like somebody said you're gonna get tax you're gonna get tax purposes that's a

03:12:49.800 benefit so like what is the point in not doing it if you are committing to your life together why

03:12:55.000 not just do it then you're i i see benefits and you're gonna you're scared of divorce but whether

03:13:01.380 or not you get married and you end it's the same it's you're you just don't have the title but i could

03:13:07.240 just reverse this on you and say well if you love me enough we don't have to get married so i could use

03:13:13.660 the exact same logic in the reverse okay can i speak go ahead something on this so uh from a

03:13:21.240 family member's perspective so it's you you asked why would a secular person ever want the desire of

03:13:26.200 marriage i think gay marriage has been fought for for so long for this exact reason you can build a

03:13:31.420 life with someone sorry i keep shaking the table you can build a life with someone and god forbid

03:13:37.000 something happens to you after you've built your life together to one of the partners and family

03:13:41.260 comes in and they have the rights to everything legal assets wise that's happened to my great

03:13:44.840 uncle him and his partner were together for 20 plus years they he unfortunately passed away of cancer

03:13:50.100 prior to california becoming a legal state where marriage was uh where marriage was legal and his

03:13:55.840 partner's family came in and had legal assets and rights to everything and i know it's you can say

03:14:01.480 marriage is a business transaction i would say that it is saying you're committing your life to

03:14:06.060 someone it's saying hey we're gonna go through this together i'm christian i can say i have

03:14:10.300 religious reasons for it but i also say if i'm gonna pitch my tent to this person and i'm gonna

03:14:14.820 you support gay marriage i think if someone has the right to it i think that's something you said

03:14:18.760 you're christian you support marriage as a christian institution you support gay marriage let's not

03:14:22.480 linger too long i'm not saying on that i'm just saying the secular argument for that piece because

03:14:26.420 he was asking for a secular secular argument for it okay so what i was saying was for some

03:14:30.380 someone so hold on hold on so this would be a reason is legal legally speaking for the assets that you

03:14:35.820 have in the life that you've built with someone you could have a family member of the opposite of your

03:14:39.760 partner coming in and taking everything from you wait hold on okay so i'm not i'm not an attorney

03:14:46.800 i'm not an estate attorney yeah so you're saying that if you're not married that your partner's

03:14:54.660 family would have some claim to your estate if the person that passed away did not the person that

03:15:02.620 passed away their family has a right to come in and actually petition for all the legal rights

03:15:06.320 the person who died their family their family right but i i'm not it happens a lot and you

03:15:11.700 can lose everything so that's why i'm not in it fought for for so long so i'm just giving you the

03:15:15.960 secular argument for that piece hold on hold on hold on no no no let's let's stick hold on i'm not an

03:15:22.000 attorney i believe if you draft a will even if you're not married and you say i would like to leave

03:15:29.160 my estate or xyz belongings or this amount of money to my life partner i i don't think mayor again i

03:15:41.020 don't know but bloodlines can petition uh wills every day all the time i've had friends that they

03:15:45.380 do it whether you're the people are married or not though no but i'm saying people who have who are

03:15:50.300 by blood uh related to you they actually do have rights and they can petition the will

03:15:56.360 and if there is no legal it is something that a lot of people go through so for instance if you

03:16:01.620 have a parent that passed away and you have family that comes out of the woodworks even though there's

03:16:06.220 a will people can actually petition that will for it so it's one of those things i'm just giving the

03:16:10.560 argument for a legal sake of for a secular person okay if you're going to do it you want it to build

03:16:14.860 it you just lost the love of your life even if you just have everything the last thing you should

03:16:19.140 want to go through is a legal battle with other people that are coming for the life that you've built

03:16:22.980 with your partner right but i suppose it could be contested even if you were the the will could

03:16:28.760 or even if there's a lack of will the the estate can be contested whether you're married or not

03:16:34.260 yeah in terms and then you're dead well it's also power of attorney i'm looking at what benefits

03:16:39.260 there are who has the right to say whether or not you live an advanced health care directive

03:16:43.680 if there if you have a life partner you can say that this part i don't know if it's called power

03:16:48.920 of attorney you can you can assign just like in the marriage you can assign it to an individual

03:16:54.700 in the event for example advanced health care directive in the event of my incapacitation

03:17:01.120 i wish for alexa morgan to be my okay this is not i'm not actually doing this is a i wish for her to

03:17:09.960 be my um i'm not actually making an advanced health care directive right now disclaimer uh i wish for

03:17:17.280 her to oversee my uh all medical decisions and i i want a dnr do not resuscitate actually please

03:17:27.360 resuscitate me but you can just have that you don't need a marriage it's not you don't need a

03:17:33.080 marriage a lot of the time that's the thing what do you mean i go to a website draft me up an advanced

03:17:37.720 health care directive draft me up a will and testament boom done don't get married brian last time i was on

03:17:45.060 the show i went on this whole rant about why i was against marriage and why i think it's a financial

03:17:50.260 scam against men and i went on this whole rant of why i don't believe in marriage and you disagreed

03:17:55.440 with me so now i'm kind of in shock that you're sitting here and saying yeah you were there like

03:18:00.460 no no no you were disagreeing with me and now you're sitting here saying the same things i was

03:18:06.440 saying what did i disagree what did i disagree with you on i was saying that i feel like marriage

03:18:11.760 is a scam i think i didn't disagree if you did say you were if you did maybe it was was there

03:18:17.240 another guy here yeah there was another guy here and both of you well actually he was agreeing more

03:18:21.600 with me but you were disagreeing with me and you were saying that no that men are meant supposed to

03:18:26.440 be with one woman and get married and all this stuff and how men want it should be well you said you

03:18:30.720 want to have three husbands no but i said that's what i disagreed with no i was going on a rant about

03:18:37.080 how marriage i'm not a financial scam against target have i have i ever advocated nick have i

03:18:43.840 ever advocated for marriage well after this we're gonna pull up the the podcast from last time yeah i

03:18:49.540 think you're i think you're confused i'm gonna show you where you were disagreeing with me because

03:18:53.500 i'm kind of in shock to hear this he's changed completely no bro i you are just confused last time

03:18:59.660 i'm not saying that i'm saying the same things that he's saying that you're just confused maybe it's

03:19:03.940 the other guy no i think we need yo brian's caucasian thank you for the gift at 20 memberships

03:19:12.240 i think i know i think that's uh natalia but i was gonna ask a quick question how could they possibly

03:19:18.400 take your state let's say you guys both buy a house and your mortgage your names are on the

03:19:25.000 mortgage and everything how could they come take your half they can't take they take they they won't

03:19:29.780 take your half they'll take your partner's half the person that is deceased okay well that's

03:19:33.480 completely understandable is their family exactly they can't take your half they can't take your

03:19:38.960 money but so what they can do is they can petition that they want to sell the property and now you

03:19:42.800 have to move out of your home because they don't want to pay for that you don't have to move out of

03:19:47.380 your home just because they say so that is your house just as much as but it's 50 50 you don't have

03:19:52.420 100 right to it it's it's a terrible thing like i'm not an advocate for it i think one of the things

03:19:57.800 i would say is you know marriage should be something that people take extremely seriously

03:20:02.120 i think people get married on a whim and that's something like i'm a big advocate for premarital

03:20:06.240 counseling i think a lot of people should really push the limits of their relationship to say okay

03:20:10.180 if x y and z potentially happens in our relationship how would we handle it are we compatible and really

03:20:16.200 like go in with someone really trying to push you because like life life is hard and and there are more

03:20:23.160 like i think the biggest mistake people have is thinking that nothing is ever going to happen to

03:20:26.840 you and the reality is shit happens you have to be ready for it you have to be prepared and even

03:20:32.320 when you're as prepared as you possibly can be things will happen in your life that you can't be prepared

03:20:37.340 for so the goal is to find a partner that's going to stay in sickness and in health a if something

03:20:42.800 happens to you even if this is not the life that we pictured together i'm going to stand by you

03:20:47.560 because i'm choosing like you said it's a choice every day you could do that without a contract though

03:20:51.960 you could do that without signing the piece of paper you could but realistically how many people

03:20:55.900 would stay well if they weren't going to stay without the piece of paper then they aren't going

03:21:00.240 to stay with the piece of paper that's just their mentality think of it as a deposit on anything that

03:21:04.300 someone think of it as a deposit anyone someone puts if someone is actually invested if someone puts

03:21:09.380 the time if someone has to really think about this and make a public statement to their family and

03:21:13.200 friends saying i am going to put everything on the line because i really want to be with this person and

03:21:19.980 i'm willing to build a life marriage isn't for everyone i'm not advocating it for everyone it's

03:21:24.060 not going to be in everyone's situation but people that do take that seriously i think that's

03:21:27.920 something that's a covenant that people should i think if you're taking that seriously if you are

03:21:32.060 taking a relationship seriously you're going to take it just as serious whether you sign it or not

03:21:36.620 that's what i think like i don't think that signing a piece of paper all it really does is saying

03:21:41.620 because mostly men are the breadwinners like not all situations but mostly men it's just saying

03:21:48.080 if you guys get divorced you get half of this stuff that's basically all it's saying so would

03:21:53.320 you argue for that if someone is willing to do more of a traditional relationship where the woman

03:21:57.080 says hey i'm willing to give up my career to build our family and to be at home and i'm gonna i'm gonna

03:22:02.060 put myself at a disadvantage in that sense and i'm gonna trust that you're gonna be the breadwinner

03:22:05.540 do you think that's fair for her to have a marriage and a commitment in that sense

03:22:08.360 i think well i like i said i don't believe in marriage so i just but if a man and a woman are

03:22:16.580 together yeah and they have more traditional values and they and he says hey i want to be

03:22:20.840 the breadwinner i want to provide for you i want you to raise our children and stay at home

03:22:25.060 well with all the sacrifices and she sacrifices marital counseling and all this talking and all

03:22:30.020 the seriousness that they put into it she knows by now whether or not she should do it but she

03:22:35.640 wouldn't do premarital counseling if she wasn't going to get married you just said you're not

03:22:38.820 for marriage then you could do counseling without you could go do couples therapy without being

03:22:42.540 married i advocate for every couple to do couples counseling either way it doesn't matter the piece

03:22:47.580 of paper really doesn't matter it's about how much you value that person and want to dedicate

03:22:53.100 yourself to that person you could do that without does anybody else want to weigh in on the marriage

03:22:57.440 thing um i find it interesting that men who are legally married have a longer life expectancy

03:23:03.680 um according to harvard 10 plus years um so that i think proves that that further

03:23:10.580 they're expected to live 10 plus years more yeah yeah it's extraordinary yeah because i i think just

03:23:16.500 that commitment and that security in the relationship and even having security over

03:23:20.980 do you think that within that data though there would be a lot of guys who died young and didn't get

03:23:24.700 married that could be but i do think that a lot of women in that study of um happiness that does

03:23:31.420 come with your forever partner and deciding that you only want to be with each other and and not

03:23:37.460 open that up to others also one variable in that study though is women tend to make men go to the

03:23:42.360 doctor more so they were able to identify preventative care so that's one of the biggest

03:23:46.740 things is a woman saying you need to go for your annual checkup so things were identified what would be the

03:23:50.920 comparison though between married men and men who have long-term life partners like what would be the

03:24:00.020 difference like assume assume all things are pretty much the same the only difference one couple is

03:24:06.520 married one's not they're monogamous they stay together for life is the married couple still

03:24:12.420 gonna like is the man in those situations still gonna live 10 years longer i i'd say that's probably

03:24:19.400 something to do with meaning with a man having meaning in his life and having a family because

03:24:23.500 there is something to that like johan harry's done a lot of work on this with um with some of the

03:24:28.400 books that he's written about the fact that people who derive meaning from their life and have

03:24:32.400 community around them like this is why the people in the mediterranean live so long because they're

03:24:36.040 really close with their family and also they eat really good food but you can have a family without

03:24:40.580 signing the piece again it just comes down to the piece of paper that you are signing i didn't say

03:24:45.320 that i didn't i didn't you're arguing with something i didn't say no that's what you're saying

03:24:48.960 you're saying it comes down to because they're happier and they have more purpose that's what marriage

03:24:53.200 works more it doesn't generally people who are together are married though generally people who

03:24:57.900 are together for a long period of time are married but they can definitely stay together and like i

03:25:01.960 don't disagree with brian i don't really think people who are secular should necessarily get married

03:25:05.300 i believe in marriage as a religious institution so i don't believe in gay marriage i'm surprised that

03:25:09.000 you believe that well i was just making an argument for a secular person saying that yeah but but yeah so

03:25:13.700 that's what i'm saying like most people who are married for a very long time uh who are together for a

03:25:17.740 very long time are married so i'd be interested to see like the yeah the minutiae of that study but

03:25:22.320 it makes sense though like brings more security into a relationship especially for women um because

03:25:27.740 nine and ten women who have abortions are not married so they don't feel like they have that

03:25:32.720 security and that man who's going to stand up in their life and actually commit to their child but

03:25:37.240 if you have that marriage contract um then there is more security within family life yeah i'd say that

03:25:42.900 men who don't get married also would tend to be much bigger risk takers by this i would imagine so

03:25:49.160 those are the kinds of guys who probably would die younger whereas men who do get married tend to have

03:25:53.620 like a quite more like straight 180 white picket fence type trajectory so but most marriages end in

03:25:58.820 divorce so it doesn't really matter at the end of the day well the divorce guy is probably why they

03:26:02.780 end up dying earlier stressful process and in divorce probably because a woman divorced him and took

03:26:08.720 half his stuff and now he's depressed and now that's why he died i think that's what i said

03:26:12.080 could be let me read we got three chats here david treziak thank you man sorry about your neck brian

03:26:17.000 i've spent eight months of my life as a commercial diver in freezing waters and there was only one

03:26:23.840 woman who could keep up respect to her but men do this well for i'm curious which ocean atlantic

03:26:31.640 atlantic ocean by the way did you ever encounter uh david i saw this like terrifying video about

03:26:38.460 it's called delta p it's where typically for underwater divers you see this with like

03:26:45.300 underwater welders and stuff this is messed up i've seen this you've seen the delta p video where

03:26:49.100 the crab gets like sucked in well no no so like uh it's like something i don't know the exact science

03:26:55.260 or physics of it but there's a pressure differential and basically underwater divers who are typically like

03:27:00.620 work they're working on a a dam or they're working on something underwater um if there's some sort of

03:27:06.420 like um uh like a suction thing i don't know i can't explain i saw one on mr ball and where they

03:27:13.960 were working within some sort of a vessel deep underwater and then one of them accidentally opened

03:27:18.140 some sort of a suction thing and then they all got ripped into it and they all got sucked deep deep

03:27:22.660 into this pipe and then there happened to be a little tiny pocket and they were all in the pocket

03:27:27.240 one of them decided to go back up made it back to the vessel but all the rest of them just stayed

03:27:31.700 there until they died you you either get like the suction is so tight you either just get trapped

03:27:36.860 against it and you make a seal and you're you basically die underwater or or the pressure is so

03:27:43.300 extreme that you you get this is kind of you get sucked into a hole this big which is terrifying so

03:27:53.420 david have you had any delta p encounters it's called delta p the phenomenon uh we have anonymous

03:28:00.560 yeah what's the gender gap for delta p fatalities i wonder what that oh i get paid 77 cents on the

03:28:11.960 dollar for my comfortable air-conditioned office job what's the delta p gender gap anyways look it up

03:28:19.740 delta p all right um sorry i pulled this up and i didn't read it hold on she was the one gave her the

03:28:26.560 word is this a song lyric she left took my kids turned them against me took 50 percent of my

03:28:31.400 retirement takes 3 000 a month from me and last week took my death benefits damn contract equals

03:28:37.760 ruined anonymous uh well thank you for your message i'm very sorry to hear about your experience i'm

03:28:42.320 assuming you were married here gave her the world she left took your kids was there a custody dispute

03:28:47.300 turn them against he said i'll pull it pull up one more time turn them against me

03:28:52.420 this is something that's often used in this is this happens this happens all like parental

03:28:57.620 alienation i've seen this happen so many times and it does happen to be the case that more often than

03:29:02.820 not when it comes to parental alienation more often men do this too i guess but like the mother

03:29:09.360 will poison the child and when i say i don't literally mean poison poison them in terms of like how you

03:29:16.220 know we'll say things negatively about the husband and uh or the the father and it'll start alienating

03:29:24.620 the child from their husband and you know young kids at that point they it's hard for them to know

03:29:30.960 what's the truth what's not and they turn the child against the father and it's just absolutely it's

03:29:37.020 terrible for the child in australia it's even worse than america like we have this rule in australia

03:29:40.940 where you can get a domestic violence order just on command if you're a woman you can just go to the

03:29:45.540 police because we had there was a bunch of incidents that happened that led to this where

03:29:49.140 they can just go to the police and they can basically just say he's abusing me and then he

03:29:52.360 gets like a restraining order straight away restraining order from his kids and everything

03:29:55.140 and then that can be used in court and i heard some bad shit in the uk there's some similar shit in

03:30:00.920 like the uk too with that um is it it's bad in australia though that's terrible man i've seen so many

03:30:07.100 people get absolutely shafted with this and i'm a pretty open-minded person when it comes to these

03:30:11.320 sort of situations i don't really want to take a gendered stance but men get absolutely

03:30:15.360 shafted in these situations well there's something called and nick can you google it's called the

03:30:20.880 duluth model and i think this is something that was introduced in the 70s or 80s that's sort of

03:30:26.360 related to this a little different not really related well actually kind of related so the

03:30:31.900 duluth model if i have my if i recollect can you pull it up uh wikipedia just click on the wikipedia

03:30:39.240 uh can you scroll to the top community-based protocol it aims to um

03:30:46.680 it's basically biased against men and i think the the application of it when it comes to

03:30:55.160 let's say there's a domestic violence call right um it is i don't know if this is actually the duluth

03:31:01.820 model but something like if there's a domestic violence call somebody has to get arrested and

03:31:07.280 they're overwhelmingly even if it's a woman they're going to arrest the larger person or

03:31:11.360 some shit i don't know the exact things of it but that's why you got to turn your phone on these days

03:31:15.480 and record interactions if you are having an interaction yeah so it's going spazzing out on

03:31:20.500 you turn your phone on press record and avoid that false allegation yeah we have uh anonymous she was

03:31:29.860 the one oh wait did i read this one oh my bad uh three three uh one sec hold on three thousand

03:31:36.500 months from me last week to my damn dude how long oh i was curious to ask anonymous how long were you

03:31:41.160 married um and was it in the united states how long were you married was in the united states um

03:31:47.820 yeah twitch guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever drops a follow drops prime sub if you have one

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03:32:07.740 a chat here from steven to the fake christian women do you think gay marriage oh geez okay is encouraged

03:32:14.260 tolerable in christianity the material world is what these women are after virtues and morality

03:32:19.340 are secondary tertiary um i don't know who this is directed to maybe it's not doing it's not doing

03:32:29.780 us any favor to call them fake christians but um for those of you who do consider yourself christian

03:32:35.520 um is gay marriage uh are you in favor of gay marriage like i guess who's who's christian

03:32:44.960 show of hands uh is gay marriage compatible with the christian

03:32:51.560 with christianity

03:32:55.800 starting with you this is a rough question it's no it's not encouraged simple answer yeah i don't

03:33:04.020 think gay marriage is permissible by the bible because god designed marriage for a man and a woman

03:33:08.940 and we can even see that in our anatomy and the way that plays out in relationships and i think

03:33:13.080 a lot of people um can be hurt in premarital relations whether or not it's um lgbt or straight

03:33:21.120 um which is why we're told not to um you know have sex before marriage or have multiple partners i think

03:33:28.500 it can be just as harmful as as somebody who chooses to live that lgbt lifestyle um basically

03:33:33.880 just living against god's design for marriage is really harmful no matter what that looks like

03:33:38.300 i would agree with everything she's said killed it yeah i agree um it's just between a man and a

03:33:46.340 woman i would say as a christian that's what i believe as well but i'm also someone that recognizes

03:33:52.540 we're in a world where i i support everyone and we have a right in this country whether or not it's

03:33:58.320 something that i'm in favor for or not is irrelevant it's something that i i think everyone has a right

03:34:02.740 to them that's what we're that's that's the reality where we're at so i'm you don't personally believe

03:34:08.040 that gay marriage is permissible not in the christian faith no all right we have a chat from

03:34:13.560 bedra the offender hey dude good to see you man it's been a minute uh thank you man appreciate the

03:34:17.320 soup chat my aunt and uncle will be married for 50 years next month they're catholic had four kids

03:34:21.880 two sons two daughters my aunt grew up in a home with six brothers the size of a small corner store

03:34:27.600 congrats man glad your uh parents are still together actually or well sorry not your parents

03:34:34.300 your aunt and uncle uh good to see you in the chat under the fender pleasure as always actually

03:34:38.680 question kind of riffing off of this uh are your parents still together separated divorced whatever

03:34:43.580 never married divorce divorced they're still together together together together i'm a rebound baby

03:34:52.540 wait what's that my parents were never married i was the product of a rebound

03:34:58.620 huh awesome okay jake what about you parents together no my old man passed away when i was 19

03:35:04.720 sorry to hear that all right were they your parents together when oh he got really sick when i was younger

03:35:10.500 but that they were like yeah still technically married and stuff a few difficulties in the marriage

03:35:14.880 but they were still together she looked after him until he died so awesome okay uh let's see we have

03:35:20.160 a question here from stifler ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten

03:35:24.080 starting with you go ahead you remember this from last time i don't rate

03:35:28.740 come on shouldn't you manifest that 10

03:35:33.760 i don't rate because rule number 76 no excuses play with a champion

03:35:40.100 i just don't do it just do it okay i will say this i don't think i'm a dream i will say that

03:35:52.800 yesterday you said tomorrow so just do it make your dreams come true just do it

03:36:01.000 because that's what you really want to know no i don't think i'm a ten

03:36:04.640 success while you're gonna wake up and work hard at it nothing is impossible

03:36:09.220 you should get to the point where anyone else would quit and you're not gonna stop there

03:36:16.580 no what are you waiting for do it

03:36:21.240 just do it yes you can just do it

03:36:29.280 can you answer the question um like i said i don't think i'm a 10 that's what you want to know

03:36:36.740 that's the answer you want to know is if we think we're okay if you're not a 10 what do you rank

03:36:41.360 yourself do you rank yourself a one i don't rank myself do you rank yourself a two three four five six

03:36:49.900 that's it all right what about you i would say six point five say seven by what metric are we

03:36:57.020 rating ourselves looks universal universal perspective or yeah because i i think maybe

03:37:03.280 societally i might be a seven but we're all made in the image of god so i think we're all tens okay

03:37:09.580 um seven five eight jake give myself a seven you're not gonna answer not a 10 i give myself a five

03:37:22.660 rock and roll you went down what is that oh i got fat

03:37:26.040 i can't wait i got dab by right now i gotta lose that shit i got it yeah still all right uh she's

03:37:35.020 not gonna answer so i'm gonna give that a clown world like the video guys um let's see here hold

03:37:42.260 on let's get back into the pre-show pre-show notes we have we got through all of kj's stuff we have

03:37:48.620 um paulina no-showed uh let's see we have ryan ryan your last name on your instagram is

03:37:57.480 abercrombie is that your actual last name any relation to the clothing brand uh you consider

03:38:04.340 yourself traditional yeah traditional okay i lean that side you said uh for crazy unique dating stories

03:38:11.460 in your early 20s you noticed what did i write that i oh my goodness this is so embarrassing

03:38:19.540 oh i'm just prompting you oh this is so embarrassing okay um so i used to bartend all my way through

03:38:25.720 college um and it was a very family type bar so it was dads and kids moms um so a lot of dads would

03:38:34.240 hit on me whether they were single or married and i guess i started really liking dads um or i guess it

03:38:40.500 was more just mature people after dating guys in college um this is during my seagull era and

03:38:47.120 basically this dad would just continue to tip me a hundred dollars every single time he came and he

03:38:52.120 would ask me out whenever he did it i would always say no my mistake was like at eight hundred dollars

03:38:56.820 he like asked me and i finally said yes and i wish i didn't but decided to go on that date um was he

03:39:03.220 married with the kids no he was getting divorced yeah um don't know if it was settled yet but they were

03:39:09.140 not together um yeah so basically he lived at this house with his kids and his wife at one point he

03:39:16.840 got to keep the house um at one point me and my friend he liked her a lot too um we both went like

03:39:23.560 not romantically he just thought she was funny we both went over to his house um we were drinking

03:39:27.900 bottles of wine um i think we were like too deep and then eventually he was just like telling us about

03:39:32.440 his divorce and everything that's going wrong and like his life and this is so embarrassing my friend

03:39:38.420 just like ended up doing like a prayer circle so for about 10 minutes we just like prayed over him

03:39:41.720 and that's that's exactly what happened that's not where i saw that going no i'm glad i'm just like

03:39:47.220 it was literally i was locked into that story yeah i was thinking he was going to put on some rod

03:39:52.460 stewart yeah i know it's just like a 10 minute prayer circle just like drunk as hell it was awful

03:39:58.860 put on a wig no maybe you really needed prayer maybe you needed someone to pray i know and i'm happy we

03:40:04.740 did that but it's just like after we left you were like what did we just do private chat i'll get back

03:40:10.700 to we have some other notes for you ryan we'll get back to them in just a sec we finally were able

03:40:14.280 to find his instagram so we'll pull him up this is our homie golden gopher golden gopher we're gonna

03:40:21.680 pull you up normally we don't do this for this uh threshold but unfortunately you don't have

03:40:26.720 anything on your fucking instagram buddy so uh put this on that's fine actually uh scroll down

03:40:32.960 is that it bro we can't this is not uh the reason i was asking for your instagram was hopefully so

03:40:40.500 we could uh make an assessment look at the can you zoom in on that one tag i don't i don't want

03:40:49.020 to do tags i don't want to do tags i don't know what's on there uh scroll up nick bro he's a gopher

03:40:54.840 all right so i guess you see that thing at the very bottom there he's a gopher um unfortunately we

03:40:59.900 can't really do assessment there if we look at your profile photo uh you said you're click on it

03:41:06.060 it'll go big oh do you have to right click and open a new tab no just zoom it yeah uh not on

03:41:13.320 desktop not on desktop uh okay golden gopher he's he says he's 5'10 225 well bro you're just like me

03:41:23.100 man we both gotta lose a bit of weight brother you and me we gotta lose a bit of weight so um that's my

03:41:27.900 advice live weight four times a week and walk 10 000 steps a day let's go sounds basic bitch advice

03:41:33.880 but honestly if you get that down it really works a lot of guys will train train train for a few

03:41:38.440 months lose the weight put it on lose the weight put it on if you maintain that pretty easy lifestyle

03:41:43.540 four times a week in the gym get lots of steps in count your calories you're good we uh going back

03:41:51.020 to you ryan so you'd said in your early 20s you noticed you and i don't know if you mentioned this

03:41:55.160 you began gravitating towards older men yeah did you say that already i said i referred to it as dads

03:42:00.900 but yes but did you say that more mature guys yeah okay how old are we like what's oh i mean

03:42:06.520 28 to 32 like nothing crazy but when i was i mean i was 21 and you said probably because their frontal

03:42:12.820 lobe was a bit more developed or so you thought and then you're dating the dad that you told us about

03:42:18.860 them yeah praise or prayer circle whatever yeah okay um that's correct and then you said months

03:42:26.880 later he or did you say this he literally had your other ex-boyfriend you guys they became roommates

03:42:32.620 anyways i don't know if that's that's really that interesting no it's not i'm happy to tell i don't

03:42:37.880 know yeah yeah you said you date you've dated a few dads 30 year olds when you were in college

03:42:42.680 each each situation was unique slash crazy ha ha ha yeah i mean i guess i think it's just weird

03:42:54.340 for a 30 year old to be interested in a 21 year old why would that be why because i wasn't mature

03:43:01.240 good were you hot i guess maybe okay i thought i was do you think there's your answer do you think

03:43:07.880 that guys care if you're mature i don't know my older brothers just what do you mean but by mature

03:43:12.740 if they're like ditzy like 21 year old and don't know anything and just have like tiktok brain then

03:43:17.580 no way but if they're immature in the sense that they haven't gone out and really battled in the

03:43:21.780 workplace and gotten sharp elbows then that's a green flag no yeah i can see that these guys were

03:43:28.960 not green flags if they're like nice values and they're sweet girl and a little bit immature that's

03:43:33.060 fine yeah i guess i can see that i don't know i just with i don't know i think it's my older

03:43:40.360 brother's telling me that they would never date a 20 year old one year old when they're 30 so i

03:43:45.380 kind of just how old are your brothers 30 it's a nine year age gap it's just a significant one i mean

03:43:52.120 no i think it's fine yeah i think a nine year age gap is fine but i think it's just the point of like

03:43:57.120 me being in college and them well i think that's perfect for a girl in college to date an older guy like

03:44:02.460 that why otherwise you're dating a guy in college you're not gonna you're not gonna follow his

03:44:09.080 lead doesn't know what he's doing with his life he's in college oh that's very true yeah but if

03:44:13.480 you date a guy who's a little bit older like women inherently want guidance from a man yeah they want

03:44:18.560 a man that they can look up to and a man who's been through the things and can guide them through so

03:44:22.140 something weird about that at all i find it weird when girls in college are dating other guys in

03:44:25.840 college i don't think it's like when i was when i when i like when i was younger 19 20 sort of thing

03:44:32.740 as a guy all of the girls your age are all dating older guys but when i was 19 i was like fat as i

03:44:37.860 was like 110 kilos so but like yeah all the girls tend to be dating up so yeah yeah wait that was your

03:44:44.440 that was your experience in college i didn't go to college okay but um i did go to like obviously

03:44:50.720 high school and stuff and then after that you just get no play but like i said i was really fat

03:44:54.460 you can look at that on my instagram okay wait you're wait pull it up let's wait you used to

03:44:57.920 be fat i used to be fat as it's all on my really yeah let's let's find it with a beer and a sticky

03:45:02.500 how far down do you have to scroll not not far all right now you can pull it up chubby kid or was

03:45:06.520 it through no i was i was chubby since i was like because you're ripped right now dude yeah i'm doing

03:45:10.820 all right 10 000 a day yeah no but i started boxing and then like lost 30 kilos with my boxing coach

03:45:18.060 oh nice man that's awesome yeah um i mean i i think probably though that when it comes to college

03:45:24.940 there's definitely i think there's a greater proportion of women who are going to be dating

03:45:29.100 older men but i think it like the the reality is probably like most girls in college dating college

03:45:34.960 guys yeah no that's true because it's their immediate circle and i don't think they're really

03:45:39.580 looking for that more long-term probably looking to just have a bit more fun and date someone their

03:45:43.180 age and stuff i think there's far fewer for example college age men that are dating like women in their

03:45:47.420 30s yeah like that's super rare super rare let's see it holy fuck bro what a fucking legend you look

03:45:57.940 like a legend on the on the left though yeah i was i was fun i was fun that's for sure that was like

03:46:03.880 my 19th birthday how much how much did you weigh 110 kilos yeah i was a piece of shit i

03:46:08.540 yeah something like that but i used to i used to wake up every single day at like 3 or 4 p.m

03:46:15.260 play video games all night until about 6 a.m sort of thing and just eat ice cream and toasties

03:46:20.420 glow up and then your mindset changed and then you also had to do the work that's the thing

03:46:25.400 your mindset changed and you there's an error and then the photo on the right is is before my first

03:46:30.040 fight so this was that was you boxer yeah boxing yeah nice that was pre and after the camp though

03:46:37.120 these are eight week photos the first one was like a few years good shit man congrats man that's

03:46:41.720 awesome that's what i gotta get on that yeah you can do that see i know i did it you can go from

03:46:48.400 being oh my god there to being there yeah you can it's it's you definitely can like i said that's

03:46:55.500 what i wanted it's a matter it's a slow slow progress you just gotta make those small adjustments

03:46:59.460 yeah okay uh let's see here oh we were talking about the age gap stuff though uh i don't know

03:47:08.320 if it's worth lingering on that for too long um let's see we'll go back to my notes here you also

03:47:15.280 uh let's see you wanted to talk about chivalry red flags first dates men not being men anymore

03:47:23.800 coaching guys on how to flirt and why men cheat so there's a lot there while we do coaching guys

03:47:29.800 on how to flirt what did you want to talk about on that oh i have some male co-workers that will

03:47:34.740 just like talk to me about them going on first dates and i just they're such great guys and it's

03:47:40.560 just not hitting i think the way that they think that it is what do you mean intention versus execution

03:47:45.920 yeah yeah like they're just so sweet but i think they yeah yeah they're sweet they're great guys

03:47:52.840 they're employed yeah huh but it's the flirting uh yeah part that is just maybe a little cringy

03:48:01.840 flirting is very difficult it you know i know and that's playing with girls is incredibly difficult

03:48:06.560 sometimes it's better to do less than overcompensate maybe so so you coach them on a flirt or

03:48:14.420 i mean i'm not an expert in it for sure but i could give some tips just to make it a tiny bit

03:48:20.200 better but i kind of yeah i kind of agreed with you on like that piece of it of like just that's

03:48:26.500 what i'm saying your game a tiny bit and it's not like i obviously i'm not going to make them turn

03:48:30.900 into like the top one percent i don't have that in me whatsoever but just a little bit of and i

03:48:36.620 guess a little piece of it is like teach like my brother is like awful when it comes to chivalry and

03:48:41.060 so i always try to teach him how to like take a girl on a first date wait you're hold on hold on

03:48:44.940 your brother is awful at chivalry what do you mean oh he just like doesn't know how to take a girl on

03:48:49.400 a first date like he'll dm me or no sorry he'll message me like a dm that he has with a girl and

03:48:53.560 he's just like how do i ask her out and then he'll like tell me what his plan is and i'm just like

03:48:57.680 oh no no maybe just adjust it a little bit maybe i like that because i think it's great that your

03:49:02.840 brother's not chivalrous most girls good for him if you're watching that good most girls will see

03:49:10.880 you're a legend like that and want to bash them that's why i saw and i was like i want to help

03:49:15.860 them like they need that little push they need that little okay this is what you could change so

03:49:20.260 that's why i want this is such great marketing because most women want to bash the men and just

03:49:25.980 be like oh well they suck like look so you're telling me that you see all those men you see all

03:49:31.440 those bottom feeders i are in your purview yes they follow me they talk to me and i've talked to

03:49:37.080 them for years and they follow you and talk to you yeah and i've talked to them for years and

03:49:40.620 tell you what you should tell them to do yeah unfollow you straight away is what they should do tell

03:49:47.880 them to unfollow every single girl that they don't know and that goes for everyone listening to this

03:49:51.920 podcast as well um if you're a girl if you don't know a girl and she's just like an internet thought

03:49:56.280 unfollow her but i don't need to be following her don't don't slide into her dm she's not gonna reply to you

03:50:01.240 i do i've literally done that so that's the difference not all of them do but i do so that's

03:50:05.980 the difference yeah i'm sure you get a lot of dms though i don't know if you reply to all of them

03:50:10.220 i do yeah it's good to shoot your shot but i mean if they're wanting advice and stuff off you

03:50:15.680 especially if they're asking for advice if they're just saying oh my god you're so hot it's like yeah

03:50:19.660 i'm not gonna reply but if they're like hey brie like this happened blah blah like okay then i want

03:50:24.320 to talk you understand that they're doing that though because the only time they probably ever get to

03:50:27.360 talk to a pretty girl that's fine then i'll be there that's not really okay if you want if you

03:50:31.940 want to aid them on their self-help journey you should tell them stop messaging me and go and do

03:50:36.700 go and do your thing no because i'm helping them but yeah i get what you mean i get what you mean

03:50:41.080 other girls yeah like message there's nothing good about like being in a back and forth message with a

03:50:45.100 girl who's um you know yeah i don't have a chance with you all right uh you also said men not being

03:50:52.060 men anymore did you want to expand on any of that man i'm so curious what i was thinking when i typed

03:50:56.960 that um i feel like they're just not as i don't want to manly as manly anymore we don't hold and

03:51:09.640 it's hard standard yeah it's hard to find them as attractive when they're more feminine i guess

03:51:17.700 i mean you have feminism to blame for that you really do i and i i kind of agree with that

03:51:22.520 i'm curious what your thought is on that yeah well i mean feminism is like a inherently toxic

03:51:29.840 ideology and it's a social and political movement it's not just like wanting equality between the

03:51:35.000 sexes and um it's made a whole generation of young men to feel like they're toxic if they try and show

03:51:41.180 ambition show leadership and all of these things that are inherently masculine features and traits they

03:51:46.520 get beaten up you can see so many articles in the mainstream media where they say weight lifting

03:51:51.380 is toxic masculinity and all these things like it it's just yeah it's masculinity is demonized a lot

03:51:57.920 these days it sounds like you guys agree with my course no i don't agree with you nobody wants your

03:52:02.540 bullshit it sounds like i agree with the problem i agree with the problem 100 with what i'm saying

03:52:07.980 we're turning men feminine we have lost completely what a man is we are holding men we're not holding

03:52:14.980 men to standard they're not being providers we're not doing traditional roles this is what we need

03:52:19.440 to change this shit needs to change so i don't know what happens yeah you agree with what i'm saying

03:52:27.620 you just don't want to say that because no what you're doing is you're you're asserting your business

03:52:35.160 model in today and what i'm saying to you is your business model is like not going to work first of

03:52:39.600 all it's not going to be productive because you're a female you don't understand the plight of a man

03:52:43.020 you don't understand what it's like that's why i have experts coming in if anything who are the

03:52:47.140 experts what are their expertise someone like you who went from being bigger and not healthy and then

03:52:53.760 turned into that fit young guy i could ask someone like that and bring them on leverage so okay so

03:52:59.760 look if that's your business model and if you're saying i'm going to be i'm going to fund it and then

03:53:05.440 i'm going to get experts to come in who are males exactly what that's okay but don't you try and tell

03:53:09.740 them what you wouldn't you wouldn't know the first thing about the life of a man obviously

03:53:13.000 that's why i'm saying you said before you're going to teach them i have the resources to do so you're

03:53:17.920 not going to stand up there and be like this is how you do a push-up i don't know how to do a push-up

03:53:23.480 okay nobody gives a fuck about your course sorry yeah um i'm just saying it sounds like you guys all

03:53:28.160 agree with it brian you know you agree with it you're just you just your job is to come on here and

03:53:32.640 bash as much as possible especially we're talking about feminism you brought up your bloody

03:53:35.960 bro nobody yeah that's the issue she agrees with me yeah yeah but what's that have to do with your

03:53:41.500 course yeah and you guys are all agreeing with what i'm saying that we're turning men feminine

03:53:45.700 sounds like jonestown your course isn't it turning are we turning men feminine are we not

03:53:50.840 she's gonna solve it okay okay exactly just 69 dollars a month society as a whole we're turning men

03:53:59.680 like we're not holding men to that masculine role that they should be doing that precisely

03:54:04.780 mostly like they said feminists women yeah do you think women should take accountability then

03:54:11.420 for some of the men's actions yes they should take accountability but also if you're if you yourself

03:54:17.960 you said you don't even want to get married and have a family yeah don't you think that's the

03:54:21.560 ultimate aspiration for a man is to want to be able to be married and have that meaning and purpose

03:54:25.280 in his life where he can have kids and we should probably try and restructure the nuclear family

03:54:29.660 wouldn't that be a key pillar of it men are not meant for marriage i went off on this polygamy

03:54:34.520 you don't think that you look i can understand if you if you mean from the secular perspective

03:54:39.900 yeah like like brian said yeah it's a bad deal for men but if you're saying that you don't think that

03:54:45.100 the nuclear family is a is a positive thing you can have a family but you don't have to be married

03:54:51.740 and it doesn't have to be with one person sure but do you think that a mother and a father and

03:54:55.620 children in a household is the best way to order society i don't think men are meant to be

03:55:01.000 monogamous that's what i think okay so what you your so your advice to men would be to do what

03:55:05.800 become that well once you become that top where you want to be sleep around your whole life plant

03:55:13.660 your seed your whole life you can either choose to do that or you can choose but that's the good

03:55:18.740 thing they have the choice a lot of men this is the problem this is the problem with the internet

03:55:22.900 with tiktok and the likes we have no offense but people like yourself who will say these things

03:55:27.800 that have really no basis in reality when really we understand that the nuclear family is the backbone

03:55:33.040 of society if we want to get back to having a healthy society we'd want to be that's what we

03:55:37.400 want to structure it around like once the family fails and degenerates society tends to degenerate as

03:55:42.700 a whole and then we get like institutions like feminism and we get children being indoctrinated

03:55:47.520 into these movements that i probably can't say on youtube in school and all of these cultural

03:55:54.240 degenerations stem stem from the loss of the family men are biologically meant to be monogamous i think

03:56:00.020 they're meant to be they're meant to have multiple look i i would i would agree that men biologically

03:56:05.100 have an inclination to not be monogamous but what i would say is that just like every other

03:56:09.720 human temptation it's something that we have to temper so the temper if you if you are a man who

03:56:15.520 does seek to have a family it is something that you will have to temper now i'm not even saying

03:56:19.840 that i'm totally against the idea of a man having a handshake agreement with his wife you know they

03:56:23.320 get a bit older they don't really yeah the bus very often and he goes and i'm not even against

03:56:27.520 that i'm italian woman turns the blind eye in italian culture very often and these things happen

03:56:32.380 it's not ideal as long as they're open about it that's what i think yeah yeah so i mean

03:56:38.260 but yeah well my main thing is you guys can bash me all you want and laugh all you want but you

03:56:45.440 guys are all agreeing with what i'm saying that we have ruined men in society cool moving on

03:56:50.300 david treasury act you are correct brian it's scary but i've been in 12 foot bow thrusters you fear

03:56:56.900 getting sucked up to a through hole on a larger ship i worked on props that actively moved always

03:57:04.600 watched others yo david treasury act thank you man appreciate it i'm not familiar with all those

03:57:09.460 things but uh thank you for the chat man good always good to see you in the chat appreciate all your

03:57:13.620 support and then we are going to uh let's see maybe we'll hit on red flags a little bit later

03:57:20.880 uh here's what you disagree on ryan so we already talked about marriage i don't know if you wanted to

03:57:27.540 state any of your disagreements on that or if you feel we already covered it we already covered it

03:57:32.320 here's a good one you said brian not being okay with makeup yeah okay so what what do you uh object to

03:57:40.580 there before i talk on this i want to hear from you so i don't miss say anything what are your views

03:57:46.220 on makeup what are my views on makeup well my view uh it encapsulates a few other things so there's

03:57:53.060 there's plastic surgery which it encapsulates encapsulates into that and then there's like use

03:58:00.400 filters on dating apps for example so um uh when it comes to dating i think wearing makeup is you're

03:58:10.560 changing your physical appearance you're making typically yourself look more physically attractive

03:58:15.300 with makeup otherwise why would you wear it if it was making you look just the same or less attractive

03:58:22.040 so clearly women wear makeup to be to wear to look better now of course you might provide pushback

03:58:28.920 for well we don't do it for men we do do it for ourselves well whoever you do it for whether it's

03:58:33.460 for yourself or other women or for men or all of the above uh you do it to make yourself look better

03:58:39.660 okay uh so if that's not how you actually look that is a deception

03:58:48.640 okay yeah so i guess my criticism is um me and then i mean i have other reasons but i i do think that

03:59:02.000 you are misrepresenting your appearance i do think it is a lie okay i don't i feel for example a girl

03:59:08.200 i'm dating if i'd prefer her to not wear makeup i prefer women who wear minimal or no makeup a little

03:59:14.800 bit of eyeliner or something or mascara cool you start putting shit on your face and contouring

03:59:20.900 and doing all this bullshit lipstick don't like it okay totally low eyeliner fuck it don't care

03:59:26.060 really but i prefer no makeup okay yes i agree with you with the changing your entire appearance

03:59:32.820 i can agree with that sure for but i do think minimal amount of makeup to make yourself look more

03:59:38.620 presentable would be about the same as you guys getting a haircut or shaving your beard

03:59:41.880 no it would be equivalent to women getting a haircut that as well yeah a man getting a haircut

03:59:47.900 would be the equivalent of a woman getting a haircut not a woman wearing makeup okay then

03:59:52.060 let's talk about the beard i do agree with the haircut no beard a beard isn't even a fair

03:59:55.960 comparison either i think if you shave your beard yeah and it can make a guy i mean guys always

04:00:02.800 look more attractive when they come absolutely but i'm not putting something artificial on my face

04:00:06.540 it's the artificial piece or it's altering the way that you look naturally well again the the beard

04:00:13.460 comparison i don't think is uh equivalent comparison to makeup and also i would make the argument like

04:00:19.580 if we were to split someone's face uh into halves i would argue the determination as to what makes

04:00:26.360 somebody physically attractive tends to be up here more so up here in the top half of the face than the

04:00:32.680 bottom half of the face now look guys can wear beards and they can look different they can

04:00:36.740 look more attractive they can hide a weak jaw or a weak chin absolutely yeah i don't disagree but

04:00:43.040 i don't think the the change is comparable to the change that makeup has

04:00:49.620 and and you're you're kind of i mean but what about you this is sort of like a what about ism

04:00:57.460 an appeal to like hypocrisy while men do x but okay let's actually look at the use of makeup

04:01:03.360 do you do you agree that i agree with you on changing the face yes but then also it's like

04:01:07.960 if you get fooled by that i feel like that's a little bit on you but i feel like not always

04:01:12.400 some girls are really some girls are really great at it but i feel like i kind of feel like you can

04:01:16.580 tell you can notice i can't think of a time where i've ever been on a date with a girl and then

04:01:20.800 had another time where i've seen her with no makeup and not and not and been like totally jarred by the

04:01:25.440 experience have you had that um normally you can tell if they've caked it truthfully though i

04:01:31.840 typically tend to not date women who wear a lot of makeup i've never dated i just don't think like

04:01:37.240 i've never dated a girl who would like regularly who did full face makeup sometimes they'd wear like

04:01:44.680 eyeliner mascara that's it but there are a hold on and then there's a decent amount of women who

04:01:51.400 will regularly wear more than just eyeliner in that but then it extends to well let's say you're

04:01:57.660 meeting them on a dating app and they're not including any photo of them without makeup or

04:02:03.560 their first photo filter full face of makeup we could we could go on a dating app right now and like

04:02:09.880 go through 20 30 40 50 profiles that first profile photo always going to have a typically full face of

04:02:16.380 makeup or a filter yeah yeah i agree with you but also it's like it is but again if you get fooled

04:02:22.900 by it i feel like that's kind of you okay so if i if i lie and say i'm a lawyer but i'm not and i'm

04:02:28.920 broke and is that on you if i believe that yeah i didn't do any reason you don't think it's wrong

04:02:33.300 though oh of course it's wrong okay so then ought it be wrong for women to misrepresent their physical

04:02:38.340 appearance by use of makeup i think if that's your the way that you think about it then that's okay

04:02:45.140 but my perspective is completely different are you attracted to muscular guys it depends on muscular

04:02:50.860 athletic fit normal yes okay but not like crazy so what if a guy like took a bunch of photos in like

04:02:58.180 a very convincing muscle suit but he actually but he actually wasn't that physically fit yeah would that

04:03:05.540 be a deception yes okay and i hope i would not like get fooled by that okay but it's just deceptive

04:03:14.400 yeah no it is okay so wearing makeup is deceptive is more of the argument i agree though yeah if you're

04:03:21.560 taking it on how can it not be yeah that's not how you actually look yeah of course it's a deception

04:03:27.380 because i also like you can also make that same argument then about high heels because high heels are

04:03:31.780 meant to sort of make make your bum poke out and making legs look nicer and i don't honestly though

04:03:37.600 i don't have any issue with high heels really yeah but they can wear them i just don't but it does

04:03:45.240 make your legs look longer makes your legs look more muscular it's meant to pop your hips out i guess

04:03:49.840 make yourself look more attractive or more presentable i prefer a girl in sneakers so if there's

04:03:54.780 like some fucking shit hits the fan situation we can get the fuck out of it totally i think yeah i think

04:03:58.940 girls underestimate how much maybe maybe we're different but how much we actually like the look

04:04:03.340 of it natural girl without makeup if you run up to a date and you're not wearing makeup and you look

04:04:07.040 really pretty it's like nice yeah but could you also say that maybe social media has perpetuated that

04:04:12.180 in the sense of the girls who get wait can you scoot the mic to the like the mic's way too far into

04:04:16.940 the yeah there you go okay no i was just gonna say like the people that people give attention to on

04:04:23.400 social media and stuff are not the natural girls typically the girls that have the filters the

04:04:28.980 girls that have the implants the girls that have an obscene amount of makeup they i think it's easy

04:04:34.800 for society or for young women to say hey this is what gets attention so even though a guy says he

04:04:40.380 likes natural girls if i go on his account and i see he follows all these fake girls and he's giving

04:04:45.600 all these girls attention i don't know why do i follow actions i'd say if he's following them in the

04:04:49.920 first place that's not a good thing but yeah i completely agree with me with with you could

04:04:54.680 agree with me i completely agree with you like social media absolutely perpetuates this and what

04:04:59.160 makes girls want to get more and more and more surgery done and makeup done and it makes them more

04:05:03.660 and more fake but that's what i'm saying my point was that women actually underestimate how much we like

04:05:09.420 it do you know what i'm saying i see what you're saying yeah so you have a naturally pretty girl

04:05:14.260 yes yeah but yes is everyone naturally pretty i think that's also the question i think that's like oh yeah

04:05:19.560 if you see a model that looks beautiful without makeup of course you're going to be like oh my

04:05:22.860 gosh i prefer a girl without makeup but also there's there's a there's a certain like he said

04:05:28.000 deception about wearing a lot of makeup and if a girl is wearing a lot of makeup and i can look at

04:05:33.020 her and look like i'm want to take it off with a shovel then there's something that's like gives you

04:05:38.000 the ick a little bit yeah yeah oh i totally get that so yes a lot of makeup i'm agreeing with you guys

04:05:42.700 on but i do think have you seen those those videos of the asian girls where it's like they they take their

04:05:47.740 makeup off and they look like a totally like have you ever seen those videos of when there's crackhead

04:05:51.640 girls put on heaps of makeup like that yeah no it looks exactly like that they don't have teeth

04:05:55.360 do you have a photo you can pull up for us in the makeup folder that's crazy though you can type in

04:05:59.300 like asian girl transformation there's some that are while he's getting that they can make their

04:06:02.540 faces contour in all different you can put tape and you actually make your face thinner

04:06:06.060 uh huck said i started dating a girl in a few weeks and she invited me over for dinner she answered

04:06:10.900 the door and i basically froze up i didn't even recognize her her makeup game was damn near

04:06:15.220 flawless damn it yeah i mean you're pretty good at it to be fair it is a good point like they i've seen

04:06:22.180 some pretty good makeup jobs in my life well it's like filters and the plastic surgery and a lot of

04:06:29.540 these girls don't look like they do in real life you got you got a photo for us there's like a photo in

04:06:37.700 the makeup folder i don't have it offhand there should be is there not like a before after photo

04:06:47.220 uh in the makeup folder hold on uh it might not be in the tab hold on yeah i'm looking forward to uh

04:07:03.060 yeah nick go into the dropbox podcast makeup there's just pull up one and two

04:07:09.780 okay this one's pretty this one's not a great example but

04:07:19.620 yeah pull up both of them make it smaller

04:07:24.980 um i mean that's a pretty substantial transformation there pull up the other one

04:07:30.980 oh there's some that went from indonesian to japanese

04:07:33.380 um i mean there's also a common thing in um asian makeup where it's kind of where it's

04:07:42.820 almost like the blue and so it gives you the double eyelid yeah so you can you can actually that so

04:07:46.900 that's what happens there is she has monolids and then she actually makes herself her nose

04:07:50.820 there though it's contour contour and you should see what they do with the lady boys in thailand

04:07:54.900 oh yeah good job over there they do great job great job over in thailand uh the old tomahawk talk

04:08:05.380 but uh i mean obviously look those are those are fairly substantial makeup transformations but oh

04:08:12.580 wait what's the nick let's do some of the videos what's the video with the the blonde you know the

04:08:17.300 blonde haired one yeah let's do that one that's a pretty substantial transformation

04:08:21.780 um oh uh we'll play this one there's another one too but go ahead

04:08:28.660 i think it's in the makeup folder no audio no audio no audio go ahead

04:08:37.940 she's doing some wow i mean like yeah wow obviously she's wearing a lot of makeup but i

04:08:44.260 wouldn't anticipate like if she here's the trick right it's like she's wearing a lot of makeup you don't

04:08:50.260 know the extent of how she's gonna look like without the makeup yeah so and you wouldn't

04:08:56.500 necessarily look at her and be like she's wearing a whole lot of makeup like here's here's the

04:09:00.340 deception right like when she's wearing this much makeup it's clear hold on it's clear she's wearing

04:09:04.820 makeup there i know she doesn't look like that but i don't think she looks like that is the thing so

04:09:11.780 it's like yeah that's great there's another one nick blonde girl she has braces or something i think

04:09:20.820 do we have it in the makeup tab i i don't know the first date should be like hot yoga or swimming

04:09:26.340 or something that's a good point i think we might have it in the tab do you know which one i'm talking

04:09:31.940 about nick the girl with the with the braces what's that the boxing gym okay there you go

04:09:38.100 was it in the makeup tab okay imagine when she like gets it all in the key

04:09:44.100 we're pulling it up okay go for it take her swimming on the first day

04:09:51.300 all right putting on the makeup a lot of makeup putting on the makeup

04:09:55.460 huge huge difference what the hell is it even that it's huge um wait so i mean i guess like

04:10:05.620 what what are your disagreements though would you guys have picked the first girl or the second girl

04:10:13.060 when initially looking at if they compare the two photos would you have chosen the first girl

04:10:18.420 which which one the one without the makeup on would you have swiped right or right on her oh no way

04:10:23.540 no you see you later off weather but with the one that has the makeup wait so uh for which girl

04:10:32.740 what are you talking about so without the makeup she's saying without the makeup photo would you

04:10:36.420 have swiped probably not probably not but with the makeup would you uh probably yeah probably with

04:10:44.740 swiped yes yeah what is is there a follow-up question or i did but i forgot it now i'll come back

04:10:51.140 to me later for that one well we're not we're going to say do you think that's why they do it

04:10:55.940 i wonder if it's because you guys are looking at the image but maybe that why the girls are put on

04:11:02.260 makeup is so you can look at them but it's more underneath the skin or underneath the makeup that

04:11:07.700 you should be looking forward to you know where i think i think it's a very it's it's a very idealistic

04:11:13.220 thing to think and i get where you're coming from but men are visually stimulated and this is this

04:11:18.420 is the thing women can be very emotionally and stimulated and stimulated with the narrative

04:11:23.380 but men are very visually stimulated if i don't find you physically attractive that's a map that's

04:11:27.940 a massive problem i think women can generally get over it if the guy's high status enough and if he's

04:11:32.260 respected by other other men wanted by other women but does the makeup also um is visually stimulating

04:11:38.020 for you if if if they look hot with the makeup on then yeah that's going to be visually stimulating but

04:11:43.540 it's going to be very disappointing if they don't look at without the wait so is the argument here

04:11:48.900 heaven forbid my men find prefer women who are more physically attractive is that the argument well

04:11:56.420 you saying that you do not like girls who are wearing makeup correct correct okay so if you are finding

04:12:04.260 a girl on the dating apps and one is wearing no makeup you're saying that you would not swipe on her you

04:12:10.900 you wouldn't swipe what's the word left or right right you wouldn't swipe right on her or you would

04:12:16.020 swipe right on her if she was wearing makeup or not wearing makeup

04:12:21.060 i get what she's saying it is a good question because i would be shallow shallow in that sense

04:12:25.140 as a man that i would swipe right on the one with makeup and swipe left on the one without but

04:12:29.300 that's where the deception comes in though and i think you can you can natural girls this is where

04:12:34.180 i'm getting to i think you can actually sort of balance that though because you can have a photo

04:12:38.100 where you look nice but you're not you know you can look your best whatever your best is

04:12:42.420 without having to cake makeup on you know but some girls they look bad but sometimes look good when

04:12:48.100 they accentuate their features with makeup a lot of girls do yeah for sure but then that's when the

04:12:52.180 deception comes in though that's when if you have that and then you don't get those features unless

04:12:56.740 they're totally made up then you're not going to be as attracted to them and some men are more

04:13:02.180 attractive to women when they accentuate their fake work history true huh you know i'm not a paralegal

04:13:12.100 i'm an attorney i'm not a receptionist wait but when you guys said you prefer natural girls now

04:13:21.460 you're saying that you are shallow enough to swipe on the girl with makeup i thought you said you prefer

04:13:25.380 natural girls and they men don't like she asked us if comparing those two women why don't you choose

04:13:31.460 a natural one well i'm not inclined to be attracted to her in her like in that natural state but is a

04:13:37.860 degree it is deception no that's fine that's the whole point the whole point is the deception that's

04:13:43.540 why that's why i agree with you but i'm asking why did you say you prefer natural girls and now you're

04:13:50.500 saying you would pick the girl with me we're not obliged to find every woman who's not wearing makeup

04:13:54.660 attractive well not all women are going to be attractive who without makeup yeah that's what

04:14:01.140 i'm saying most girls are going to look more attractive with makeup on because it accentuates

04:14:05.540 their feet okay just jerry donated 200 i guess sorry for interrupting so absolutely sorry for this

04:14:13.940 terrible interruption lord have mercy forgive my transgressions what are you trying to hide with

04:14:20.580 all that face pains yeah i think that it's equivalent from a female perspective i think

04:14:27.380 that it's equivalent to if a guy was to go out and with his paycheck and to buy a rolex right and

04:14:31.780 he's flashing around the rolex in the club and you girls like oh he looks you know like he's a

04:14:35.460 successful guy he's really got it going on he's buying bottles and then you go back to his apartment

04:14:39.380 and you wake up in the morning and he's got like a one-bedroom apartment and he's sharing a

04:14:43.540 sharing a flat with somebody and he's like rooms dirty and he's got no money

04:14:46.740 he actually has no money in the bank he was just flashing all of that and making himself look

04:14:50.580 attractive but then when you peel back a layer he hasn't got it going on well i wouldn't go for a

04:14:55.620 man that's flashing a rolex and buying bottles because that sounds like he's not smart with his

04:15:00.020 money what if he's just a millionaire and multi-millionaire he can afford it sounds like

04:15:05.780 he's not i'm from miami so that's all i see and i don't go for any i'm sure you you stay well away

04:15:10.260 from those guys yeah i hate those guys actually because they are so self-centered and entitled and

04:15:16.660 all that so i mean your argument doesn't doesn't so you live in miami you got the fakies going on

04:15:24.660 yeah you've had it you had your of yeah and you're trying to tell me that you stay well away from and

04:15:30.420 you've got all these photos on your instagram of you and the other bbls you know and you're telling

04:15:34.100 me that you that you don't like guys with rolex and are you are you trying to you think we're still

04:15:38.100 i don't want a guy that's flashing that stuff because that probably means like you said one

04:15:44.180 he doesn't have it or two he's really done have you ever been flown out to a location somebody

04:15:48.900 somewhere far away flown out have you ever been flown on a plane you're getting blocked by the

04:15:53.540 mic try straighten up the mic if you can go ahead have you ever had a guy pay for a flight for you

04:15:57.460 to go somewhere no there you go good job never no why would i have you ever have a guy do something

04:16:04.340 that costs a lot of money take you on a really expensive date buy you something really nice

04:16:07.940 i don't really like guys paying for me it gives them power and i don't i like being in control i

04:16:13.620 guess i'll take your word for it it sounds like feminine i just don't like no we'll take your

04:16:20.500 word for it i don't like you're like a you're like a miami girl but you i'm not from miami though

04:16:26.340 i'm from panama i just moved there you're a tennessee tennessee girl in a miami girl's body

04:16:31.540 tennessee girl you're tennessee girl in a miami girl's body oh you're tennessee at heart but outwards you just

04:16:36.740 happen to have all the pieces yeah yeah that's a good way to explain it i'd rather say alaska

04:16:41.540 girl than tennessee girl because i went to alaska but yeah your heart is in the woods yeah you said

04:16:47.380 you used to do only fans yeah uh when you say you mean when you said used to do you mean still currently

04:16:55.620 i mean i am in the process of transitioning from only fans to my new career as a teacher hold on a

04:17:02.100 second you still you're still doing it well i don't post on it anymore but like but you're

04:17:06.980 still getting paid from it it's still open you're saying you want to help guys i haven't deleted it

04:17:12.420 sorry i just keep rocking this table it hasn't been deleted hold on a second but you're still

04:17:17.780 making money off dudes on only fans and you're trying to say that you want to start a school to

04:17:21.780 help guys get that's so like you have such a counterintuitive world view well yeah i guess so

04:17:28.340 much cognitive dissonance i haven't deleted it but i'm not making really any money so it says you're

04:17:33.060 available now on your only fans i don't know that says you still have your only fans it says you're

04:17:39.460 available now are you well we already talked about that last show yeah you're probably chatting

04:17:43.380 with people chatting with people during the show no no you see you're available you've got your

04:17:48.820 chatter is working right now i don't actually after that one side of your mouth you're saying

04:17:53.860 that you want to help men get better and then the other side you've got a little filipino typing wait

04:17:58.820 after the show you had to wait no after last show they were on my account and i had to fire them so

04:18:04.580 now i have your what what did you fire who did you fire the chatters okay okay good times last show

04:18:11.380 thanks to you guys so congrats i'll know people were messaging me you but no i'm not if you had given

04:18:18.260 it up and if you'd you know because like i've done plenty of degenerative things in the generation

04:18:22.500 degenerate things in my past right yeah but you like what you gotta if you want to say that you

04:18:27.460 want to be a teacher and a helper you have to have left that behind yeah it has to be well and truly i'm

04:18:31.780 deleting it i haven't deleted it right this second but i have working there's not a chatter working

04:18:37.380 right now it says you're available really show me where it says i'm available so you get the green

04:18:41.620 we're not gonna pull it off okay then show it to me show it to me i'm gonna turn it around but it

04:18:45.300 literally says your thing you'll have to take your word no you're just gonna have to take our word

04:18:49.540 for it oh so it doesn't even say i'm a bit okay brian so now because you could just show me right

04:18:55.300 now or pull it up it even regardless willing to pull up everything even if we granted that

04:18:59.540 yeah it's still up you're still making money i'm not making money off and then of course you make

04:19:04.340 money you don't really make money on subscriptions you make money off messaging are you making money off

04:19:08.580 it not really no yes you're making are you making a dollar she's a pathological liar i'm not yeah you

04:19:15.380 won't even show me where it says i'm available i wonder if this simp is still watching who was

04:19:19.060 super chatting before no don't be mean debris no because well i don't know why you guys got your

04:19:25.460 panties in a place and are all attacking me but look no i'm just calling you out i don't want to be on

04:19:31.460 only fans anymore that's what i've decided that's the thing i've come to cool so i'm leaving it and why

04:19:36.500 would i come on here and say oh i don't want to be on anymore wouldn't it be better for me so clearly

04:19:40.420 what you're doing is actually it's actually quite sinister though because what you've done is you've

04:19:44.100 come in here and you said i'm like a manifesting virgin or whatever yeah and then you're saying

04:19:47.940 i want to go to school and help guys yeah you're trying to appeal to guys who are watching this

04:19:51.860 show by saying that you'd like to help them oh she understands me and then you're saying oh they

04:19:56.180 all slide into my dms and i and i talk to them and i relate to them and then there might be guys

04:20:01.220 out there thinking oh my god i can go and i am not on my own and then you're saying that you want to

04:20:04.740 help them at the very same moment you have that only fan still going you're directing no i don't

04:20:09.460 have that is that that is i don't i'm not using the only fans i am not currently that is not only

04:20:15.860 that's not only dishonest that's that's actually malicious no so i have a question would it be

04:20:20.340 beneficial to me if i had only fans that i'm currently using to come on a show with a bunch

04:20:25.540 of viewers and say i don't have it no it wouldn't be beneficial to me at all wouldn't it be more

04:20:31.380 beneficial for me to come on here brand use use your logic wouldn't it be beneficial if i'm on it

04:20:38.820 because last time last time i was on it bro i said i was on only fans so wouldn't it be more beneficial

04:20:51.860 for me to say that i'm on it and be honest and be like oh i'm on it so i get more money

04:20:58.100 wouldn't it be

04:21:01.700 wouldn't it be more

04:21:18.020 okay i don't know why you put music on but but wouldn't it be better for me to say that i'm on it

04:21:25.140 if i'm on a place with a bunch of viewers where i will make money off of it obviously i'm not using

04:21:29.940 it if i'm coming on here in front of everybody oh my god who the hell cares anyways what's your

04:21:36.500 argument against that anyways what's your argument i've just i've just literally destroyed your whole

04:21:40.020 world you got destroyed how did i get destroyed destroyed how did i get destroyed how did i get

04:21:45.780 destroyed i said with facts and logic i am not i'm not using it anymore i said i'm not using

04:21:53.940 it anymore it makes no sense to me why i would come on here and lie about being on it you're my favorite

04:21:59.700 liar brie sjw and facts and logic brie it's okay we forgive you no i forgive you for accusing me of

04:22:07.220 lying because i'm not lying i am not using only fans anymore if you guys go on it did you lie about

04:22:12.660 the virgin thing last show no oh my god so you're trans virgin yes oh okay well at least she admits

04:22:20.580 to the trans virgin thing we're made brief virginity is a mindset you could choose what mindset you

04:22:25.460 want brie we're making progress okay can i be trans can i be trans you can get that leave it here

04:22:32.900 no but look thank you can i be trans nick can i be nix i'm not only fans anymore i've decided my

04:22:38.500 new career is to help guys i want to help guys she's also trans natural beauty do not do not

04:22:44.980 describe do not subscribe to my only fans do not give me money i want to help you okay i want to

04:22:52.100 help you shut your fucking mouth anyways we gotta move on i'm sorry brie i'm sorry no because you're

04:22:57.140 over here accusing me of stuff and making like putting music on while i just i i just don't want to

04:23:02.020 give you any more attention anyway you need to learn no anyway you gotta make it crossed anyway

04:23:06.100 you come on this podcast and you come on here one your number one goal is to attack two my goals you

04:23:14.340 don't listen and three when people have debates like i'm arguing back with you on something that you

04:23:20.980 said you completely ridicule them or make fun of them why don't you now you're a victim what they're

04:23:26.660 saying no i'm just saying it doesn't that sounds like you're painting yourself as quite the victim

04:23:30.900 what is the point of what is the point okay you want me to answer yeah okay you gotta be quiet

04:23:34.820 though if you want to hear my answer what is your answer okay so if we're having a debate and you want

04:23:39.700 me to engage you in the debate and i say you lie and you say i'm not lying and i say you lie and you

04:23:44.740 say you're not lying yeah where else is there to go where else is there to go there so i'm just that's

04:23:50.260 why i'm moving it on yeah instead of ridiculing putting silly shit on putting music on all that

04:23:56.420 loud music here i can put it back on no instead come on it's it's like you it's beautiful it's a

04:24:03.380 beautiful song brie don't look at me brie con no what i'm saying reminds me of austria on this

04:24:10.500 podcast for the war is over you come on this podcast to ridicule as soon as someone goes against

04:24:14.980 something you say now they're crazy now they look now you're ridiculing them now you're making fun of

04:24:20.340 them now you want everyone to bash them you what is the point of your podcast tell me is it really

04:24:26.500 to debate and argue on dating topics or is it to try to make everyone fit into what you want them to

04:24:31.860 fit into people can disagree with me i don't okay so when they disagree with you instead of making

04:24:37.540 little sound effects and sounding dumb why don't you actually listen to them and argue back with them

04:24:42.980 or just say hey look we're done here and that's it if they're arguing in good faith but you're bad faith

04:24:48.020 if you say so and that's fine if you think that way but instead of making those sound effects and

04:24:53.460 trying to ridicule and trying to bash just say hey i'm done with this are you wait if you're trolling

04:24:58.580 graal zulu donated then yeah i'm just gonna be bad faith back it is what i just wanted her to stop

04:25:03.460 talking men don't need your help they do we they don't need your help that you're literally the

04:25:08.660 last person who's helped any man we established here that we all agree do you speak spanish yes men

04:25:14.900 are turning into feminine men and all this stuff so we all agree with the same thing so someone needs

04:25:20.740 to help them who has the money to help them me who's gonna help them me are you doing it are you

04:25:26.500 doing it are you helping men so that's your goal in life yeah you're saying you want to use your money

04:25:30.180 to help men yes whilst at the very same time you're taking money off lonely men who are sitting with

04:25:34.900 their cock in their hand i just said do not give me money i'm not using anymore do not give me money

04:25:39.140 do not subscribe to it but the option is still there isn't it cool story bro well i'm telling them not to do

04:25:42.740 this is why you're bad faith you've been caught out in your eyes because i'm saying don't give me

04:25:46.740 money because i want to help you with my money instead of you giving me money that's bad faith

04:25:54.820 you have an open only fans account and you've it's been exposed so i'm saying right now don't

04:25:59.620 give me money if anyone who's watching this do not go on my only fans tell me tell me this how much

04:26:04.420 money do you currently have in the bank i'm not gonna give me a ballpark is it is it more than a

04:26:09.940 hundred thousand dollars yes would you be willing to give that all to a men's charity tomorrow

04:26:15.300 would i give a hundred thousand dollars all the money in your bank everything you earned off of

04:26:18.580 of because you realized how damaging it was would you give that all back well that's not everything

04:26:22.580 i don't know but give it to me i'll take it brian you are utterly definitely someone who needs my

04:26:30.340 course so i'm gonna give you i'm going to give you a free free copy the fact that you're the fact

04:26:38.740 that your strategy for this show has to become is to come on and try and promote a course but i'm not

04:26:45.380 selling it i just said it was free it's a free telegram so it's free you could go for free okay well

04:26:51.780 if you if you move into that's your new pasture then absolutely but i would recommend giving giving

04:26:56.020 away everything you've earned from of because you've wait let's just disengage we got we gotta

04:27:00.420 just disengage this is like waste of time uh all right we have to we have as soon as i have valid

04:27:05.860 arguments it's a waste of time let's disengage let's move on no you don't have valid arguments

04:27:10.580 i gotta move on in valid brie those women should just aspire to be the one percent and be attractive

04:27:16.740 without makeup what's good for the goose is good for the gander this is in response to you saying just

04:27:21.380 be confident i believe um i agree that a girl can be attractive without makeup if she just be a one

04:27:29.300 percenter yeah just get up there just be attractive just climb just be hot just climb up there just be

04:27:34.900 hot it's not that hard it's not that hard just be hot he he was sorry a little bit ugly and now you

04:27:41.940 look good so obviously if you can do it anybody can do it first off jake was a giga chat in both photos

04:27:48.260 okay i object to hit you saying that that was a good good cuddler well he's cuddly you need to

04:27:54.660 listen to his tips and tricks brian okay cool uh going back to the makeup thing i should make a

04:28:02.660 course you should make a free time absolutely you should you could be part of my course so makeup just

04:28:07.620 one percent guys no one's ever done that put the last thing on the makeup thing

04:28:11.140 makeup is the functional equivalent of a man working at mcdonald's saying that he is a lawyer

04:28:19.380 that's my view on makeup also for example i think one reason why uh this whole plastic surgery makeup

04:28:27.940 thing is deceptive is aside from just being with a partner who we find aesthetically pleasing and the

04:28:34.180 motivations for that actually relate to having children so can we all agree and perhaps i'll

04:28:43.300 direct these these questions to you does being attractive confer benefits yeah yeah and would

04:28:48.980 you say the benefits of being physically attractive are significant yes okay um and this is well studied

04:28:56.660 people who are attractive typically have much better life outcomes treated better they're deemed to be

04:29:01.780 more trustworthy even if you don't know them they receive shorter criminal sentences they make more

04:29:07.140 money they have more job opportunities etc um considered to be more competent would would you guys

04:29:14.740 agree that one motivation of being with someone physically attractive is that you would produce

04:29:19.140 attractive children offspring yeah absolutely yeah so do you agree that we as humans want to confer

04:29:25.140 as many advantages as possible to our children totally okay one of those advantages being physically

04:29:31.540 attractive okay yes can a girl be attractive while still wearing makeup though like she can be

04:29:38.260 naturally attractive still right but i mean i think that i think like if you find them initially

04:29:45.620 attractive without makeup and then like i if i have um my girl and we go out together and i'm i'm

04:29:50.180 dressed up i'm wearing a suit and she wears makeup that's fine but as long as it's not a matter of when

04:29:54.580 we get home i've got to sort of like hide her in the house because let me just finish my thread on this

04:30:00.020 so like humans are competitive we want to be rich for ourselves for the benefit of our children to

04:30:06.500 provide them with comforts and security the same can sort of apply to appearance we want to mate with

04:30:14.500 somebody who's attractive so that we have children that are good looking so that they have a better

04:30:20.820 life and that they can uh have a better easier time finding a partner have you ever heard of that

04:30:26.740 chinese guy who sued his wife because apparently i heard it was uh kids though oh really i heard

04:30:32.980 it was like a debunked it was like some myth or bullshit or something but ruining it um but so it's

04:30:38.260 like if i want to marry you have kids whatever and you have like plastic surgery and wear a ton of makeup

04:30:44.580 whatever other deceptive practices somebody might employ to make themselves more physically attractive

04:30:50.660 i mean you are pulling on some like very powerful uh biological and evolutionary levers

04:30:58.980 to get me to become attracted to you yeah um i think you're going for the super hardcore people who

04:31:06.180 go from like the pictures that we saw earlier well let's say it's a scale right let's say it's a scale

04:31:10.580 from like no makeup to like full-on glam right so i mean like maybe most women land somewhere in the middle

04:31:18.260 i mean you're still like you're not full glam you're not like as as deceptive as you can be

04:31:27.780 but you're somewhere in the middle you're not that attractive you're you're not the even if you're

04:31:34.100 wearing minimal makeup you're still doing it to improve your physical appearance that's not how you

04:31:40.580 actually look you're playing a little trick on men's brains but what if you're okay with it when she's

04:31:44.980 natural like if you're attracted to her naturally but then also when she wears a little bit of makeup

04:31:49.060 you also think that's really pretty like when you're going out and you're in a suit and she's

04:31:51.700 putting on a dress okay well let me ask you a question so let's say you date a guy you fall in

04:31:55.140 love with him one of the reasons you're attracted to him is because you think he's super ambitious and

04:31:59.300 he's you know wealthy provider blah blah he says he's a lawyer but he actually works at mcdonald's

04:32:05.300 well you've just been trapped into this relationship kind of again now you've developed feelings for

04:32:11.460 him so now well is it okay that i'm i like this person but you no longer get the benefits of him

04:32:17.860 being what he said he was so if in three months every time you've seen a girl for three months

04:32:23.700 while you're dating she always wore makeup then she takes her makeup off and she's less attractive

04:32:27.700 now well now you've just been baited into a relationship yes i agree with you on that one

04:32:31.460 i'm talking about the naturally pretty people is it okay for their them to wear makeup and what's your

04:32:36.580 argument there we're you're talking about mcdonald's to a lawyer that's a big that's the same as the

04:32:40.260 pictures you showed earlier so what about just the naturally pretty people that wear makeup um

04:32:46.580 just it may very well be the case that a man who if if you wore a bunch of makeup

04:32:52.980 he would have still been attracted to you and wanted to date you and whatever had you not worn makeup

04:32:58.740 so yeah sure okay when we land we agree that yeah i don't i don't think that's uh

04:33:04.580 yeah okay so you're just talking about ugly people wearing makeup yeah saying ugly people

04:33:10.420 that's kind of what you're saying like that's kind of what i want confirmation on is like

04:33:13.060 as long as they're naturally pretty wait can you straighten your mic a little bit what what was your

04:33:17.220 point so ugly people that's deceiving but pretty people it's not i mean the reality is yes but it's

04:33:24.660 okay if it's a pretty if you take yourself from a two to a nine that's that's pretty bad like we just saw

04:33:29.780 that there was like some threes there that took themselves to a nine glum but if you're if you're

04:33:34.820 already if you're already an eight and you take yourself to an eight and a half i mean yeah how

04:33:39.460 would a three get your attention then if you don't want her to have she doesn't get it makeup on how

04:33:44.820 does she get anybody's attention she's not going to that's just the nature of reality how can you expect

04:33:49.300 her to not try no no no but hold on but you're does she want she plays in her league then yeah she

04:33:54.980 dates threes don't try to be dating sevens yeah threes date threes it's a hard life you've seen

04:34:02.580 threes out there it's a hard life for a three but you're trying to like ask us are you are you saying

04:34:08.420 that like all of these guys you're like guys can't get girls they can't get y'all so how is it different

04:34:15.300 are we supposed to date down then this is a women this is a minority of of women like these threes will

04:34:21.140 still date up they'll still probably get themselves a six this does this does happen

04:34:27.140 yeah women women date up that's why what should the threes do date date threes yeah like if you're

04:34:32.580 a three and you just and you go and put all this makeup on yourself and you somehow managed to

04:34:36.340 professionally get yourself to a nine then you're in a position now where you're entering a lie your

04:34:40.900 whole relationship is predicated on a lie brian this isn't to attack you but you called yourself a

04:34:45.060 five so are you dating other fives like those girls some of them were fives so were you dating would

04:34:50.340 you date some of those girls because he was talking about physical appearance yeah i was

04:34:53.620 talking about physical appearance and i do think it's the case that men for example can uh can uh

04:35:01.060 date outside of their looks range based on other metrics yeah okay but what like

04:35:08.020 yes i'm have no problem dating a woman who's average looking that's totally fine okay but i do think

04:35:14.900 like a guy who's average looking but let's say he has a bunch of status like drake for example

04:35:22.180 don't think he's like that good looking of a guy but he's rich and famous he's

04:35:27.460 women who are much more attractive than he is physically speaking that's how it is that's the game

04:35:35.220 no

04:35:35.460 yeah no well you just i i'm not trying to like take shots of drake i think he's an average looking

04:35:44.180 dude he watches the show yeah does he yeah that'd be dope that'd be dope if he's in uh so i think men

04:35:50.900 can tend to make up and actually women can make up for it in other ways too how well for example i

04:35:56.580 would much rather date an average looking girl who's like super pleasant submissive

04:36:00.340 does a bunch of other shit versus like a really hot girl who's like just an absolute terror and

04:36:08.180 obnoxious motor mouth but that's everybody well yeah no but like as a woman you can make yourself

04:36:17.140 appealing by absolutely you know i'm gonna tell drake what you said okay i'm gonna tell him that's

04:36:24.020 fine i i don't have any issues with drake but he's an average looking guy i think objectively

04:36:29.060 speaking he has yeah i agree i don't yeah you could use my course oh my god

04:36:37.860 yeah so uh i don't know um what were we talking about i don't even know we have a couple more pre

04:36:45.700 show wait hold on what did we have to get through we were uh hold on guys one sec let me get to some

04:36:52.180 of the pre-show notes here uh let's see

04:36:59.940 sorry guys i'm pulling on my notes we have jessica oh wait did i finish with uh ryan

04:37:06.340 wait

04:37:09.460 ryan not wanting a woman with a high body oh that duplicates kgs i think right yeah okay we already

04:37:14.980 touched on that we're gonna go to jessica here jessica jessica says i've had a guy pretend to be

04:37:21.620 a christian to get with me yikes and then stabbed me in the back when i told him i didn't like him

04:37:27.060 back yeah so he's like atheist or something judas yeah yeah so essentially i at that point i was going

04:37:34.420 to a non-denominational church and i was raised catholic i'm catholic now and i think i was relying on

04:37:39.780 on a lot of the fluffy things like the coffee shop next to it and a lot of the music and stimulation

04:37:47.060 to um hopefully introduce him to the lord so i i didn't rely on the faith and the fact that

04:37:54.260 jesus is enough as he is so i think that was one of my first mistakes when i was trying to

04:37:58.660 introduce him to the faith but we were in a friend group and um everything was going well it was until

04:38:05.300 uh he asked me out to prom and we went as friends that he just completely switched up on me um when

04:38:12.260 i said a couple times that i still wasn't interested in him even though he had like officially said he

04:38:18.660 was converted to christianity um and he just completely spread horrible rumors about me and

04:38:24.820 the friend group was a disaster after that and he manipulated kind of what he thought that i was

04:38:31.540 looking for in a man um to try to have a relationship with me and i still wasn't interested in him

04:38:39.620 what did he say about you what can you give us the rumors well um his friends were saying that i sent

04:38:46.100 nudes to them which everybody who knows me knows that i wouldn't do that so everybody was laughing

04:38:51.140 when they heard about that so if we went snooping snooping around on the internet we wouldn't yeah

04:38:54.260 yeah secret only fans just just a lot of very awful things for a person that i thought i trusted and

04:39:02.020 that was my first emotional relationship he went all the way to like converting for you my man was into

04:39:08.020 you holy shit hold on nick hold on well i'm gonna come right back to you jess uh nick pull up the private

04:39:16.020 chat brie look at me look at me right now brie brie just look at me don't look at the private chat brie

04:39:22.100 brie look at me look at me don't do it nick pull up the her instagram pull up brie's first instagram

04:39:28.260 story go to the window once you get it go to her ig you can just click on it

04:39:37.140 yeah oh wait before you do hold on hold on i'm gonna read these uh brie is a pathological

04:39:42.020 pathological liar she linked her only fans on her instagram story less than 24 hours ago

04:39:46.500 and he sends that through twice he also sent it through as an nt what currency is nt he lies

04:39:52.900 nt currency where oh new taiwan dollar oh yeah it's not much bro wait yeah that's like bro you're

04:40:00.340 you're bro you're a little that's goblin shit hold on and wait so 200 nt hold on how much is that

04:40:09.380 six bucks bro that's a you little goblin bro okay uh taiwan last year uh okay nick pull it up

04:40:19.140 just just go to instagram click on our first instagram story go ahead

04:40:24.740 okay so click are you able to click on the more part no just click

04:40:31.860 no we can't go to it bro that's your only fans link dude on your instagram well i didn't say when

04:40:41.620 i quit i quit now so so you're a liar see did you see the pushback she gave when i called her a liar

04:40:49.460 about this you literally have it in your bro oh my god no i quit starting today honestly you didn't ask

04:40:57.540 Wayne i said i'm in the transition this is the game what are you what are you what are you trying

04:41:01.940 to achieve by doing this what's what's the goal well you're on you're on a show she did just get me

04:41:07.620 everything on you are you trying to is money the goal no is it is everything on no listen to me

04:41:13.380 listen to me listen to me yeah it's done the act is over let's try let's try and let's try and

04:41:20.180 she won't let's try and have a real conversation now no she won't let's try and have a real conversation

04:41:23.860 now you're on a you're on a show right now with over 10 000 people watching and you've just been

04:41:28.820 exposed for lying we all knew you were lying it was obvious your grip your grip has been exposed

04:41:33.380 and you were saying you were saying you were saying that you wanted to help men and yeah i

04:41:37.540 know you don't realize because you you probably haven't quite logicked this out enough that what

04:41:41.780 you've actually done tonight is pretty sinister and it's pretty malicious because you've come out

04:41:46.020 in one side of your mouth saying that you want to help guys and you want to teach people and

04:41:49.700 help men men to be better and you care so much about men whilst i'm in the other side of your

04:41:53.940 mouth oh my god let me ask you something is being on only fans that detrimental to men's society

04:41:59.860 shifting the goalposts who cares you lied that's that doesn't but no i didn't lie because i am

04:42:04.900 quitting and i said i was in the process of transitioning out of it you guys said what does

04:42:08.660 that mean what does that mean can somebody clip the part where she's like i don't know i'm not on

04:42:12.420 only fans exactly i'm not you're you're just you're a liar and i'm what i'm trying to ask is like what what's

04:42:17.540 the point of it is it money because you've just been exposed lying and being two faces on a podcast

04:42:23.060 and i know you don't care you're trying to troll and eventually you want people to sign up okay

04:42:29.460 but is it worth it though because you might make a few thousand bucks that's what i'm saying you

04:42:32.420 might make a few thousand bucks but your image is now tarnished forever you look terrible terrible

04:42:37.540 no i'm gonna i'm gonna ask you something tarnished how is it from no how is it for money like what did

04:42:42.740 i do did i ask you to pull up my only fans did i ask you to pull up my instagram did i even ask to come

04:42:47.060 here brian asked me to come here how you've shifted responsibility from yourself there is

04:42:51.300 some very high level mental gymnastics and i'm impressed no i'm saying i didn't ask you guys

04:42:56.900 so if my goal was to make money out of this one i would have asked to come here brian invited me back

04:43:03.300 so you've come in here too with your movies out yeah actually i invited you back to be on with andrew

04:43:08.260 wilson but for last sunday because andrew wilson was going to excoriate you but unfortunately you

04:43:13.060 canceled because apparently what was the excuse and i had a cyst on my ovary i had surgery on my

04:43:18.980 cyst so don't even get yeah but you're supposed to be on with andrew wilson well that would have been

04:43:24.500 beautiful that would have been beautiful it was really painful i wish i didn't have that cyst but

04:43:31.300 okay but anyways i like i said he invited me back on here i came back last show didn't go well he

04:43:38.580 invited me back i came back well he kicked me off at the end i don't know why actually i think it was

04:43:43.620 a big w because you admitted to having chatters whoa which which i think so anyone who goes on your

04:43:49.940 own events will never ever talk to you and you say that you you speak to guys and you reply you

04:43:54.740 reply to my dms yeah you don't talk to anybody you're lying about actually and every single

04:44:01.860 guys can show screenshots of them talking to me on instagram oh they can show screenshots of someone

04:44:06.420 talking they can also show screenshots of someone talking to them on only fans well no one has

04:44:11.140 shatters for instagram that's ridiculous no that's unheard of if someone were to go through instagram

04:44:15.780 dms and actually answer everything but anyways like i said i didn't ask you guys to pull up anything so

04:44:21.540 if my goal was to make money yeah i would have been you just pull up my instagram pull up my only

04:44:27.300 fans subscribe no i'm not saying any of that you're just a liar you're not making any sense

04:44:32.420 and like it's it's tragic and i'm sorry that you're doing that it's yeah i said it's tragic

04:44:42.100 that's not me that's nick bro no you take it up with the name you take it up with your little

04:44:50.260 i'm sorry i'm not controlling that it's nick over there i'm sorry nick's just

04:44:54.580 all right i'm sorry this is why you get nobody i'm sorry yeah this is like you have no i got no

04:45:01.140 bitches i got no no i'm down bad bro you are very down bad down bad anyways michael was not

04:45:08.660 on here to try and make no money the course is free okay yeah there's a telegram

04:45:12.020 right what do you gain from that let me ask you that what do you gain from that what do you gain

04:45:20.820 stop using my line of question what do you gain from that no what do you gain from that

04:45:25.220 what are you going to do okay okay anyway if if i were to come on here to try and i'm just going to

04:45:34.500 look at you because i'm talking to you i don't care about this i don't care about them i don't care

04:45:37.780 care about what brian's doing i'm talking to you so if my goal was to make money i would come on

04:45:45.900 here and i would promote something that i would make money from don't you agree with that i will

04:45:50.940 fuck you up brian if you want to have like a podcast where people can actually see what's

04:45:57.960 going on maybe you should like not do that so we can you can listen because he can't already tell

04:46:04.120 that i don't like you okay you asked me to come back on here you asked me to come back i didn't

04:46:10.440 ask to come on here so that's the number one thing no one asked you to come on i didn't ask you to

04:46:15.900 pull up anything okay so besides that i'm not promoting anything i said don't give me money

04:46:22.840 yeah go ahead what go ahead you just said you're not promoting anything yeah you literally posted

04:46:34.760 your link on your story but everyone saw it everyone knows you're a liar you can try and

04:46:37.840 defend yourself and look if you honestly i hope you make a few thousand bucks i said i don't need

04:46:43.040 a few thousand bucks i could tell you that then what are you doing here embarrassing yourself in

04:46:46.120 front of the whole world i'm not embarrassing myself i came on here because he invited me and

04:46:49.460 i was like you know what i'm gonna go back on there maybe it'll be better this time it's not

04:46:53.300 but we're on here might as well make the best of i'm not gonna stand up and walk out

04:46:59.600 he asked me to come back on here if it was me asking to come on here it's one thing he asked me

04:47:06.580 to come on hey good for you not making a point okay i already said i am making a point i'm not

04:47:12.740 promoting anything i said do not give me money on only fans he asked a bunch of other girls to come

04:47:16.780 on as well and they all operated no she asked to come on here i'm pretty sure most of them asked

04:47:21.660 to come on here so you weren't by but she said she asked to come on here and that's her experience

04:47:29.180 yeah for you god god help any man who goes near you in a relationship that's what i'm saying god

04:47:34.620 help him imagine trying to have a a an argument with her imagine trying to jam some logic in between

04:47:40.140 her honestly that's that's soothing compared to you so i could fall asleep to that after hearing you

04:47:48.540 no that is so childish

04:47:58.620 do you know the way this is why this is falling off this is content for you this is content honestly

04:48:05.260 this is the most fun i've had ever this is not content but then once again i come on here i got

04:48:12.060 one question for you i got one question you ready are you ready for the question you sure you're

04:48:16.620 ready for the question hold on it's not gonna be bad are you my caucasian

04:48:21.340 brie are you my caucasian i'm hispanic you can be like white hispanic i'm hispanic 100 panamanian but

04:48:31.660 you're like are you white panamanian no you're not white no like your skin color is white though

04:48:39.420 like you're what there's like ethnicity and then there's race

04:48:42.860 i don't know i i don't know i don't want to like it i'm tasty brie are you my caucasian

04:48:53.660 are you my caucasian like jake is my caucasian alexa's my caucasian jessica's my caucasian

04:49:03.180 i'm hispanic you're half my caucasian cage is my caucasian i can't believe i remember these people's

04:49:10.540 names wait jess is your name i'm hispanic i don't know who's caucasian jess is my caucasian

04:49:16.300 gustavo's my caucasian he's got a latin name she's definitely my caucasian right here god damn

04:49:25.020 look at this girl right here okay she's my caucasian are you my caucasian i'm hispanic brie

04:49:30.860 are you my caucasian i'm panamanian are you my caucasian i'm panamanian are you my caucasian

04:49:37.420 um i'm hispanic but are you my caucasian um i'm not white no are you my caucasian i'm not

04:49:44.700 white answer the question are you my caucasian i'm hispanic are you my caucasian what does that

04:49:49.900 mean yeah like my caucasian am i yours i'm not yours no bro what no not like that brie well you

04:49:59.020 just asked no just like am i yours and well i'm not yours and i'm not white like you oh wait hold

04:50:05.420 on never mind oh yeah i was gonna say

04:50:10.140 she doesn't get it she just doesn't get it i'm hispanic

04:50:16.540 well panamanian parents like i've said latina is anybody here latina

04:50:21.660 just can you ask her if she's your latina are you my latina oh it would be can you ask me in

04:50:28.220 spanish tu eres mi latina i don't know like are you my relationship it still doesn't make sense

04:50:35.980 so this shit has gone off the rails answer her question though are you her latina am i her

04:50:40.940 her latina um if you want me to be yours okay i need to listen i was i was having a conversation i

04:50:52.380 was trying to have a conversation with jessica over here we've been waiting all night to get to her

04:50:57.180 dope show info brie we've given you a lot of attention i'm gonna ask you to just you know you

04:51:04.060 know just i was quiet for most of this time i've been here here jessica let's hear jessica out for a

04:51:09.980 little bit and every time i talk didn't you want to debate her questions for me yeah didn't you want

04:51:16.060 to debate her on pro choice pro life oh yeah okay you guys can go for like three minutes i'm just

04:51:21.340 gonna get up all right you guys debate for a few minutes okay yeah human life biologically begins

04:51:29.900 at conception this is a scientific fact and i think that it's the bare minimum to say that human

04:51:34.540 beings should not be killed against their will so i think the right to life precedes any other right

04:51:39.180 you can't have the right to bodily autonomy if you're not alive and you don't have a life so

04:51:43.740 i think the right to life needs to precede any other human right are you just talking about babies or

04:51:50.620 everybody human beings that that whose life starts at conception when the sperm and egg meet and then

04:51:56.860 cease to exist and create a new okay what about the death sentence i'm like for really i'm i'm against

04:52:03.020 the death penalty death penalty what about like if they do something like really really really bad

04:52:10.060 i'm still against the death penalty because that's a human being

04:52:13.260 no i don't believe in killing human beings no matter organized crime and we should be

04:52:19.660 getting rid of the people i need to be getting rid of so i am pro-choice in that sense not because of

04:52:24.140 the babies but i just think we need to get rid of what about when it comes to abortion or are you pro-abortion

04:52:33.740 i think

04:52:37.260 actually i don't believe that an innocent person should be

04:52:43.020 murdered but if they deserve it a hundred percent get rid of them yeah so innocent babies in the womb

04:52:49.980 should not be killed against their will is that what you're arguing because they are innocent and

04:52:54.780 they haven't committed yeah they haven't done anything so you do think that's a baby in the womb

04:53:00.780 well duh what else is gonna be yeah you guys agree with that i'm gonna agree yeah it's a baby what do

04:53:07.740 you think jess when it comes out what is it it's a baby so in there is a baby yeah i'm i'm in between

04:53:15.020 because i feel like pro-life and pro-choice you can't it's it's such a loaded question to ask someone

04:53:20.860 if they are either um so i have very different opinions about both sides um yeah it goes into so

04:53:29.260 much do you believe in any limitations on abortion or do you think it should be banned at any point

04:53:35.020 i think past the first trimester yes and why is that

04:53:38.700 um just because it's more developed that's all i i don't think that um abortions should be used

04:53:49.020 as a birth control like lots of people do and i think that there's certain situations that women

04:53:54.220 should be allowed to have abortions but obviously you know we can't really legally say like oh what

04:53:58.780 is well maybe like ask like what is your reasoning um yeah i don't know i don't really like debating

04:54:06.620 pro-life pro-choice yeah yeah so in the first trimester do you think that that's not a child

04:54:11.740 but in the later trimesters it becomes a child is there like a definitive point of when human life

04:54:15.900 begins um i'm not like why would you choose that point to limit it instead of earlier on in the

04:54:25.820 pregnancy like maybe when a baby has a heartbeat three weeks after conception do you think that they

04:54:31.180 deserve any protection once they have a heartbeat it's hard because i feel for both the mother and

04:54:41.100 the child so honestly i am just

04:54:47.580 it's it's hard to say it's it's a really hard decision do you think you'd be willing to have your

04:54:52.460 your mind change have you heard a convincing enough argument

04:54:57.740 maybe i find that oftentimes with these debates despite the fact that in my opinion abortion um

04:55:04.460 the pro-choice side i mean sorry the yeah the pro-choice side the pro-abortion side is indefensible

04:55:10.620 in my opinion if you engage in an intellectual debate about it it's indefensible because the scientific

04:55:16.380 facts of the matter is that every single biologist in the world will tell you that human life starts

04:55:21.900 at conception when the sperm meets the egg so after that then you have to give me an excuse

04:55:27.900 as to why it's okay to take a life and for my for me there's no excuse as to why you can take a life

04:55:37.340 if you were to see the data that all biologists believe that life starts at conception would you

04:55:42.460 be willing to open to change your mind can you repeat that if you could see the data that says that

04:55:47.420 all biologists worth their salt say that life begins at conception would you be open to changing

04:55:52.220 your mind on your position um i don't have my mind made up on either position so you would be open to

04:55:57.980 it to being pro-life yeah to being 100 from conception i still don't think so because i think i'm too

04:56:07.980 empathetic about both do you think that it's a matter of empathy though because if you're if you're

04:56:12.780 establishing that it's a life in there i'm sorry not empathy okay but would you have sympathy for

04:56:17.180 the life i would have sympathy for both the baby and the mother but you'd have sympathy for the baby

04:56:23.660 and you'd kill it you'd want it to be killed i never said that oh but but if you take that position

04:56:28.780 then you're you're i never said i want babies to be killed and i never said that i want um women to

04:56:36.380 have to have to give birth to but if you take but this is a philosophical debate so we're operating

04:56:42.620 in hypotheticals and if you take the position that you are pro-choice with the foreknowledge

04:56:50.380 that life begins at conception you're then arguing to take a life so if you say you have sympathy i don't

04:56:56.140 think having sympathy is necessarily a good argument as to why that's okay okay i like i said i never

04:57:04.140 but this is this is where often with young females like yourself no offense or anything but you're

04:57:07.820 very boneheaded about this because it's such a heavy political issue and girls march in the street

04:57:12.780 and put their pink pussy hats on and that's just let's kill our kids kill our kids that's the thing

04:57:17.980 is i'm not like huge on this topic like i don't i don't debate for these kind of things lots of things

04:57:25.500 i don't really tend to debate on um i came on this podcast because of like dating yeah no i

04:57:31.020 i appreciate you engaging in it yeah but i i'm just not a protester i don't um i don't are you an

04:57:38.060 atheist um i'm open to i'm learning about religions right now okay which ones um it was i took a class

04:57:48.380 two years ago when i first started college um i can't remember like half of the religions i learned

04:57:54.140 about but i i'm open to christianity and buddhism right now okay what about buddhism um what about

04:58:02.460 it sort of interests you piques your interest just the spirituality of it i i'm still learning i didn't

04:58:08.940 learn much from the class that i took but i'm trying to learn more about it now they're very

04:58:13.900 two very different religions because christianity has a very supernatural element whereas buddhism is

04:58:19.740 kind of like a way of life i have no idea what i believe in right now because i'm more of a

04:58:28.140 i'm more of a scientific person and it's hard to just believe that there is um a gateway

04:58:34.700 waiting for me um you know when i'm done with my lifetime i think there's a lot of evidence that

04:58:41.420 jesus is god and that his claims are true and the things he says about himself are true

04:58:45.180 heaps just looking at the bible um there are 73 books that were written over the course of 1500

04:58:51.180 years um in three different continents by over 40 authors who um some of them lived in different

04:58:57.740 generations and didn't have any contact with each other whatsoever yet they came together to form this

04:59:02.940 one congruent story um and jesus has fulfilled over 300 old testament messianic prophecies and the

04:59:12.700 probability since you said you're a into science and more scientifically minded the probability of

04:59:18.140 somebody fulfilling even eight messianic prophecies um is one in ten to the 17th power which is one

04:59:24.940 with 17 zeros behind it if you were able to fill up coins on the ground you would fill up the state

04:59:29.740 of texas um two feet deep if you feel that um that that that's the probability of somebody fulfilling

04:59:37.100 eight messianic prophecies but jesus fulfilled over 300 um the provide the probability of somebody

04:59:43.980 fulfilling 48 prophecies is one in ten to the 157th power um so if you lined up electrons it would take

04:59:53.500 you 19 million years to count all of those electrons it basically to say it's humanly impossible

05:00:01.180 statistically impossible for anybody to fulfill those prophecies yet jesus did that was some

05:00:06.220 impressive memorization i do have to bring it back to dating here but jess to get back into some of

05:00:13.260 your notes you said that you got into a total lost car wreck on your first date with your now ex i think

05:00:20.380 who you mentioned earlier on you said who ended up being my first official boyfriend yeah uh even though

05:00:26.780 you uh you cried to him for hours told him to find someone better and after the car wreck i dated him

05:00:32.620 for a whopping eight hours before you broke up with him yeah so wait what it's kind of a crazy story but

05:00:39.100 um basically on our first date i wrecked my car and he was my passenger and we were just going across

05:00:46.700 the street to get something from his house so i i mean it's awful it was a car accident was horrible

05:00:52.700 um and it was a total loss but i wasn't really concerned with the car accident or the fact that i lost

05:00:57.580 my car i was more concerned with the fact that i just humiliated myself in front of him um and he

05:01:04.940 so i told him like this is kind of the way my life is looking right now i think maybe you should find

05:01:09.500 somebody else this guy um and i'm so sorry i almost killed you and he so that's why i was crying for so

05:01:16.220 long after the car accident um and he told me that he still wanted to pursue me and he initially chose me

05:01:22.780 because we have a lot of similar values and um so he still wanted to continue going out with me and

05:01:29.420 i'm like you're kind of insane for that but i i so yeah then i officially dated him for eight hours

05:01:37.580 after that as boyfriend girlfriend before i got way too much anxiety and told him like this is not

05:01:41.900 gonna work out and then a couple months later um when i started talking to somebody else i went on

05:01:49.420 like two dates with this guy went to lunch with him one morning went to mass with him

05:01:53.420 um went to a movie and then he tells me that he still has feelings for me um and and he said you

05:02:04.060 probably don't feel the same because you're the one who said it wasn't gonna work out but at the time

05:02:08.940 like i was having these weird dreams about him all of a sudden i'm like this is gonna be hanging over

05:02:13.420 my head for the rest of my life if i decide not to kind of pursue this and see if there's anything

05:02:18.700 worth it here um and it kind of just boiled down to the fact that we weren't compatible and that's

05:02:24.460 why we ended up breaking up um but we also decided not to kiss until marriage like the first first month

05:02:34.300 in which was an extreme decision and something that i never saw myself doing but it needed to happen

05:02:40.700 because we had a lot of problems underlying issues and we would kiss and make up and everything was fine

05:02:47.340 and so because of that um we didn't actually get to the bottom of why we weren't compatible so when

05:02:54.780 we decided to wait for marriage until we became intimate in any way whatsoever then a lot of

05:03:00.460 those problems were able to surface and um and then so you guys had kissed but then you decided

05:03:07.020 to stop just kissing and it was very helpful to actually stick to that you or him to do that

05:03:13.100 i think it was probably harder for him you weren't that attracted to him were you i was

05:03:18.780 yeah were you yeah well you're waiting was it hard was it hard for you it was hard for me it was

05:03:23.740 probably just i find that like with past relationships myself like you kind of need

05:03:29.260 that intimacy when you're trying to solve problems because as a guy if you can't hold her and if you

05:03:34.060 can't like you know do that then it's very hard to have a like just a logical conversation just logic

05:03:40.620 no touching nothing like that yeah i definitely see that but i think there's so much more in

05:03:45.660 relationships than just the physical aspect and for us that was really helpful um because there

05:03:52.060 were a lot of things we weren't talking about because we would um just kiss and make up and

05:03:57.420 everything was fine don't you think that's like kind of healthy sometimes though sometimes it is

05:04:02.380 it was more of a mask over the problems that needed to be resolved and looked at and so are you

05:04:08.140 you waiting until marriage when it comes to uh sex absolutely yeah okay um wait and has that always

05:04:14.940 been your standard yes okay so wait are you also virgin yes yeah and i'm just blessed that the lord

05:04:21.180 has put me in a position to be able to stick to that are you a manifesting virgin or a real one

05:04:26.380 i'm a real one real one yes yes i'll say these days you can sort of just you know transfer transfer

05:04:32.140 i think that's coined on whatever podcast you can transmit it you can transmit it um but i give

05:04:38.700 all of the credit to the lord for just helping me hold myself to that standard um because the spirit

05:04:45.420 is so willing but the flesh is weak and so i um know that the lord wants what is best for me and he

05:04:53.420 created me and he knows what is best for me and um so that is my ultimate goal is just to serve him

05:04:59.660 and love him in every way that i can and i've seen how waiting even waiting till marriage to kiss i've

05:05:07.260 seen how even that has benefited my relationships so good for you all around good uh just a couple uh

05:05:13.100 one question so the car wreck uh that was you said you were driving yes i was uh so like woman what

05:05:19.900 happened there did uh uh you i t-boned a truck that's what happened a truck yeah you know how truck drivers

05:05:28.300 are like a semi truck or like it was actually crazy because the the guy he was yelling at me at

05:05:35.180 first and i told him like i'll pay for it it's going to be okay um and he had every right to be

05:05:39.740 upset about it obviously sure but towards the end he prayed for me and he forgave me and it was just

05:05:47.340 like this god moment right there because i didn't see that coming whatsoever and we just like prayed

05:05:51.980 with each other awesome uh were you both okay like yeah we were both fine okay but the car got

05:06:00.940 told only my pride was hurt and i shouldn't have had pride anyway so it worked out do you think it

05:06:05.420 worked out with a guy had you not been in the car crash i don't think that really played much of a

05:06:10.940 role in it except it made me realize how much he did want to pursue me because in my eyes that was

05:06:17.100 a valid reason to just leave me off the bat um so i think it made our relationship stronger if

05:06:22.140 anything got it you also said that uh uh well actually a couple so you said couples should

05:06:28.460 wait till marriage to become sexually active um beside and i don't think that's the case for you

05:06:34.540 although you are a virgin um is anybody here else here waiting until marriage to have carnal knowledge

05:06:41.660 oh my oh my god this girl okay i should have seen that coming uh anybody else anybody else a virgin at

05:06:50.940 the table or is it well not oh my god so it's just it's just you two just you two okay uh you also said

05:06:58.700 that dump your lib dump i liked this one dump your liberal boyfriend the better males respectfully yes i

05:07:05.980 agree with you so tell us like why why should women not date liberal men well i think they're

05:07:15.420 generally feminists in a way that's what they want to call themselves so like he said they are beta males

05:07:21.340 they um are not fully living into what it means to be a man which is to be a provider and a protector

05:07:30.140 and a lot of them are very pro-abortion so they want sex without responsibility they want to enter a

05:07:35.260 relationship and leave it as they will and kind of use a woman's body to get off um and they don't

05:07:40.780 value women the way that women should be valued okay so i think you should make a t-shirt i have i

05:07:46.620 actually have a shirt that says that wait really yeah i should have worn it today is on your instagram

05:07:51.020 we can pull it up um it should be somewhere on my instagram maybe okay i don't know uh you also said

05:07:58.380 that uh and this is something i agreed with you on if a guy can't let you go gracefully i think this

05:08:03.980 applies to both men and women but if a guy can't let you go gracefully he's a walking red flag

05:08:08.940 and someone you want to avoid so does that mean if like you're in the process of breaking up with him

05:08:12.780 like loses his shit like just can't take no for an answer that kind of thing yeah yeah i've had so

05:08:19.820 many guys who have just freaked out at me because after one or two dates i said that i wasn't interested

05:08:25.500 in pursuing anything more and that made me realize that my decision was a very valid decision because i

05:08:31.340 would never want to be with a man who can't handle the truth and even if it's not what he wants for

05:08:38.060 himself uh who can't work through that with me and and realize that it's my decision to make as well

05:08:43.500 yeah i i agree with you i think uh this for both men women someone's like breaking up with you or

05:08:49.420 isn't interested just move on if it's like a genuine breakup though because sometimes and this is kind of

05:08:55.100 toxic uh then both men and women will do this but they might like be they want you to change a

05:09:03.260 behavior but they'll like i'm gonna break up with you but they really just want you to change something

05:09:08.700 you're doing um and sometimes version of you in their head of what they want you to be and you

05:09:14.860 usually don't fit that version but like if you've made your decision a hundred percent and you don't

05:09:19.980 want this person and then they're like it's getting to like almost like oh this is scary territory

05:09:25.180 yeah that's not a good look like it's better and who knows you know maybe things in the future it's

05:09:30.140 a very it sounds like a very liberal thing to do for a guy yes yeah getting control by his emotions like

05:09:34.780 that and that's honestly been one of the hardest parts with dating for me um and i feel like if a guy is

05:09:42.060 not he he just seems to put too many expectations on you from the get-go um so i sometimes

05:09:49.900 i'm afraid to go into a different relationship because i'm like what if he has all of these

05:09:53.100 expectations so i think what kind of expectations um just kind of entitlement to you and uh in a way

05:10:02.620 that he needs to earn and he expects it right off the bat and he expects that when you show interest

05:10:08.540 right in the beginning that um you will continue to show interest what do you mean by like entitlement

05:10:13.820 what kind of things are we talking about sometimes because i think i would definitely be very entitled

05:10:19.580 in at the start at the beginning phases of like i would be entitled to your exclusivity that's for

05:10:24.780 sure oh yeah and to your attention yeah and to you giving me like compliments telling me i'm strong

05:10:29.420 and stuff i think dating just needs to be more well defined because i do date for marriage but i think

05:10:36.460 the first couple of dates before you make it official it is to see whether or not you're compatible with

05:10:40.700 that person and it's completely valid before marriage at any time to say i don't think this relationship is

05:10:46.620 going to work and i don't want to enter into a lifelong covenant with you yeah absolutely absolutely

05:10:51.900 so i think you shouldn't have those expectations as if one date is you now have committing to marriage

05:10:57.820 yeah i agree with that yeah how long into the dating process would you say that the submission

05:11:03.580 to the will of the man begins if if you do believe in that i definitely believe that a woman and a man

05:11:11.900 should submit to each other in a marriage and specifically the woman should submit if the man

05:11:17.180 is worth submitting to so if he is living out the word of god and a biblical christian and um

05:11:24.940 submits to god if he submits to god then you can submit to him and i think maybe two months into

05:11:32.380 the official dating relationship is what are some things that you would say would be red flags where

05:11:37.340 you would withdraw your submission um i think your best indicator is just knowing the word of god

05:11:47.900 and if he is living um in a way that is not in accordance with the word of god then that's a big

05:11:55.820 red flag human being on earth not like if you're repentant of it that's one thing um but as long as

05:12:03.100 as long as you hold that to your standard yeah so if he if he if he holds it to a standard but he

05:12:07.740 falls short and he repents then that's still a man that's worth submitting to yeah i just think over

05:12:14.620 the over the course of a relationship if your submission is conditional then that can be an

05:12:20.380 issue and that can be something that will probably inevitably lead to divorce i think because people

05:12:24.700 go through rough conditional while you're getting to know him yeah but when you realize that you love

05:12:29.660 him and he is worthy of your submission then that should not be conditional yeah yeah but i do think

05:12:34.540 that there is something to that that what the the old saying that the uh what we're talking about

05:12:39.820 before actually that the the neck turns the head were we talking about that yeah the man is that you

05:12:44.940 have the head of the family then you have the neck someone brought it up yeah the neck turns there

05:12:49.020 i think there is something to that there is something to that yeah by the way quick announcement guys we're

05:12:53.340 gonna maybe go for another 10 20 minutes i just uh for fun we're gonna reduce the tts for the rest of

05:13:00.140 the stream to uh 69 so uh 69 for tts for the rest of the stream get it in boys uh if you have anything

05:13:10.220 uh let's see here so let me check are my notes i think i'm pretty much caught up for

05:13:15.900 hit most of everybody's uh why you never asked me you didn't provide any pre-show notes you didn't

05:13:23.980 ask me any pre-show notes you've talked i did and you've talked a lot of times but no yeah um let's

05:13:31.020 see here hold on we have let me just check everything brian what about you what is your

05:13:35.900 opinion on abortion are you pro-life because there's a lot of debate about that there's a lot of debate

05:13:42.060 about what whether or not you're pro-life who's who's debating whether or not me and my friends

05:13:48.060 it's happening yeah it's happening behind the scenes you might not see it but it's happening you know

05:13:53.420 truthfully and this is my truthful answer i'm undecided okay under what circumstance is it okay

05:13:58.300 to kill someone don't do it jake um i think there's there's very compelling arguments very

05:14:08.300 compelling arguments that are made um when it comes to the pro-life side absolutely compelling

05:14:15.500 um

05:14:19.580 yeah that's all i have to say it's very compelling it's very compelling uh

05:14:24.460 i suppose the uh yeah i don't know what is the most compelling pro-abortion argument that you've heard

05:14:31.740 pro-abortion oh i don't hear compelling proportion you haven't heard any i only hear compelling pro-life

05:14:36.220 i think that's enough reason to be pro-life yeah well that's just my opinion though he's dancing

05:14:43.900 around the circle of life right it's look it's uh it's very compelling it's very compelling come in

05:14:50.540 the i i suppose one argument right is not everything that is uh let's let let's just say that abortion is

05:14:58.380 wrong right not everything that's wrong ought to be illegal right i'm not saying that's even my position

05:15:05.020 but um yeah but if it's wrong it's wrong because it's murder and don't you think that murder should

05:15:12.380 be illegal in all cases no listen it's a compelling argument it's a compelling argument it's very hard

05:15:20.060 to debate from the other side unless you're like no you can't like unless you're somebody who's

05:15:23.660 linguistically very you can't debate it i i i genuinely don't think like they're the the uh pro-life

05:15:31.580 position is uh like trent horn came on here and absolutely spanked destiny on this show yeah but

05:15:37.900 trent horn you can't you he's he's a he's a beast so yeah i mean uh i i guess uh i kind of just don't

05:15:47.340 like to reveal my position on it but i mean like i'm pretty much is there a line that you would draw

05:15:52.140 that you would be pretty much pro-life but yeah i thought i just don't like to reveal my position

05:15:57.260 on it because then okay that's fair but uh you did well yeah brian's boost but no it's i just uh i

05:16:09.660 sometimes i'd rather not share my position on all as the host i try i i tend to like want to

05:16:15.660 be able to come across like a little more neutral so fair enough uh but she pressured me on it so i

05:16:22.140 got peer pressured uh but i will say that uh in states or in countries where abortion is legal

05:16:32.220 i'm in favor of legal something called legal paternal surrender where which would to some degree as best

05:16:38.540 as possible legalize uh men's reproductive rights to some degree so if women can murder their children

05:16:45.980 men should at least be able to uh relinquish relinquish parental responsibility yeah i i would

05:16:54.540 i would say that would be an absolute disaster if you were to do that then there'd be so many more

05:16:58.860 kids growing up in single mother homes and we know what happens we're talking about dogs before

05:17:02.780 dogs shouldn't be in single mother homes because mothers don't know how to discipline them when it comes

05:17:06.380 to children they end up in prison women end up feminists but you could actually make the argument

05:17:11.260 that the position that i hold on this where if abortion is legal then men shouldn't have

05:17:19.180 a financial duty a parental duty you could actually argue that that's a pro-life position

05:17:24.620 because it's a logical position well because uh they would probably uh

05:17:30.460 uh it would if that was the case you might see a greater push for making abortion illegal well i mean

05:17:43.180 i think a lot a lot does that make sense but two wrongs don't make a right and also but if

05:17:50.060 yeah yeah but if anyone still has access to abortion five hours in on the podcast i'm not making sense

05:17:54.220 anymore yeah yeah if there was a way that you want to ask me about israel iran too let's talk about it

05:18:04.700 um but uh no i mean it occurs to me like hey if women can get abortion then men should be able to uh

05:18:12.540 have a corresponding right to not be subject to child support yeah do you want children uh

05:18:20.700 i don't know we'll see how my life goes i guess i'd love to see a little brian three little brian's

05:18:25.660 running around yeah uh i feel like i have enough problems in my life so i don't know if i have

05:18:31.100 little brian ain't one i don't know if i can do that but uh yeah i don't know what would you call

05:18:36.140 him brian jr brian with a y you can do little variations of how people spell your name wait what

05:18:41.740 imagine if we had a little brian with the hat on in the car just sitting there you have new staff

05:18:45.500 little baby brian's free label for shizzle did i actually change did i actually save it hold on

05:18:52.460 let me make sure i save this uh whoops one sec guys i'm making sure that we did actually change it so

05:18:58.780 the tts has come through properly uh one sec guys uh any uh any other uh dating related topics anybody

05:19:05.820 on the panel wants to speak about holy shit i didn't save it i'm so sorry guys hold on

05:19:10.540 oh it looks just like you donated i'm sorry my sprinkler goes like this

05:19:26.780 comes back like this

05:19:32.540 the fuck thank you bro appreciate it we have uh tilly for really i'm a recipient of the transfiguration

05:19:40.700 oh hold on it's gonna come up here in just a sec one sec guys

05:19:45.980 tilly for really donated 69 dollars i'm a recipient of the transfiguration like the boy who cried wolf

05:19:53.740 all those before me ruin the statement i am everyone and everyone is not me christ is here in me hello world

05:20:02.460 wink wink

05:20:05.100 thank you tilly for really appreciate it man oh my god there's a lot coming in uh uh let's see

05:20:09.900 hold on we got a couple coming in they're coming one sec boys

05:20:15.900 mooch donated 69 dollars shouldn't it be more along the lines of if the mother has the right

05:20:21.740 to abort the child then the father should have to also sign off on that before it takes place

05:20:27.020 i agree uh well i don't think like any society that's pro-abortion would this would be like a pro-life

05:20:38.060 thing you have to get a paternity test and everything can you get there any tests in the room yeah so the i

05:20:42.460 i don't i don't know if this is the pro-

05:20:44.060 man

05:20:45.260 jurendi donated 69 dollars brian with a y is the name of the spawn of satan us brian's need to ensure

05:20:53.980 our superiority

05:20:55.100 that's true listen uh brian with an eye i'm a brian with an eye

05:21:01.500 what's the uh supremacist yep sorry brian with wise actually i had a good friend with a brian with a

05:21:08.220 y and then we have another one that's coming in yo durin dolls appreciate it man thank you guys

05:21:11.900 i should do this more often like just so people can like

05:21:14.220 some fun chats towards the end of the show ha ha ha ben is donated 69 dollars i profile people

05:21:21.020 for a living the woman in the pink blazer gives me reptile vibes jessica confirm jessica confirm or

05:21:29.740 deny are you rying the world uh yeah are you reptilian descent i'm part reptile are you a reptile

05:21:37.420 didn't you tell you illuminati bro what was that you illuminati or what no probably something like

05:21:42.780 that all right thank you guys really appreciate all those and uh let me see uh oh so any uh any

05:21:48.540 other dating topics anyone else on the panel wants to hit on speak now forever hold your peace

05:22:01.180 come on guys bueller okay we'll do body count after this stochastic decay donated 69

05:22:08.700 good to see you man hey brain sorry i'm late long day rough i've been creating a course for a subject

05:22:15.980 i know nothing about happy to see gustavo has a girlfriend panel rate your intelligence on a scale

05:22:23.900 zero to 200. okay we'll do that starting with you go ahead i don't rate

05:22:29.660 okay okay i guess you i'm sorry what was it rate your skill on a scale of what would you rate your

05:22:39.660 iq as is it well no it's not iq um i don't think he's asking for your iq he's just saying rate your

05:22:46.060 intelligence on a scale of zero to 200 200 being like einstein yes like the smartest person ever i guess

05:22:53.100 maybe like 80 90. okay i would not go that high 40 50 if we're talking einstein yeah that's a huge

05:23:02.140 scale i i would also say 40 50 i would probably similar 50 something 80 of that 100 at least i mean

05:23:13.820 if i was going reading maybe say like 120 i'd say about 130 yeah okay all right there you go

05:23:19.420 zero to 200 guys that's like that's like you've still made at 69 dollars what dating advice do the

05:23:26.540 girls have for men skip breathe we're tired of hearing from her please what dating advice do you have

05:23:33.260 for men um i would say just have confidence that's about it

05:23:49.500 i think that's i think that's most attractive

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05:23:57.820 ten ninety six quintillion nine hundred and sixty nine quadrillion six hundred and ninety-six trillion

05:24:02.540 nine hundred and sixty-nine billion six hundred and ninety-six million nine hundred and sixty nine

05:24:08.700 thousand six hundred and ninety-six donated sixtyθη? nine dollars thank you very much Alexa been all over

05:24:14.380 jake all night jake you gonna shoot your shot also bri trash la la la la la la la wait is this

05:24:27.340 brie are you rage quitting or are you just standing up oh she's seeing her vid okay

05:24:33.100 she heard it though she heard it 69 uh don't worry about it don't worry about it

05:24:40.460 It was a compliment, for sure.

05:24:42.500 Going back to the last one, what dating advice do you have for men?

05:24:47.040 I answered.

05:24:48.480 Oh, sorry.

05:24:49.480 Yeah, I would repeat that.

05:24:50.340 I would just say confidence, and I know that you mentioned it's a little bit hard for a lot of guys to have confidence.

05:24:54.320 Literally just fake it until you make it.

05:24:56.520 Yeah, just step out in boldness and talk to women and learn what it means to be a man and your role.

05:25:03.860 With my course.

05:25:06.760 Be quiet.

05:25:07.380 But similar to what they said, just shoot your shot.

05:25:11.040 There's only one way to find out if a girl's going to go for you.

05:25:15.200 Yeah, get off the dating apps.

05:25:17.300 Real girls are not on there anymore.

05:25:20.800 Okay.

05:25:22.600 Number one, I would say find someone that you view as a strong role model.

05:25:26.240 I think going back to what's going on in society, a lot of men don't have strong role models for themselves.

05:25:32.320 Have a good core strong men group that you can confide in.

05:25:35.780 Confidence is not enough.

05:25:36.940 Confidence is usually considered creepy if the guy doesn't know what your desire.

05:25:40.960 Greg Bird donated $70.

05:25:42.680 I think there's a line, definitely.

05:25:43.760 Jake, three questions.

05:25:46.040 Are you Christian?

05:25:47.440 Where are you from in AU?

05:25:48.980 What is your 1RM bench?

05:25:51.060 Yes, I'm a Christian.

05:25:53.440 I'm from Brisbane, Australia, Brisbane, Vegas, or the Sunshine Coast to be just north of Brisbane to be more precise.

05:25:59.960 And then 1RM, at the moment it's probably only about 95 kilograms or so, but in the past it's been about 110.

05:26:06.000 I'm not that strong, unfortunately.

05:26:07.720 Wish I was stronger.

05:26:08.300 Girl on the very right donated $69.

05:26:14.320 The girl on the very right in the black.

05:26:16.780 I only paid this amount so I could get your hash or snap.

05:26:20.620 Mine's chew dog 123.

05:26:23.820 Yes, I made it when I was 10.

05:26:25.860 Going to get some dick pics tonight.

05:26:29.040 Briella's with two I's and three S's.

05:26:31.040 That's it.

05:26:34.560 Is that your manager?

05:26:36.040 That's my snap.

05:26:37.600 No, I mean the guy who sent that in.

05:26:40.040 Oh, I don't know.

05:26:40.860 Any other disagreements from anybody?

05:26:42.860 Anyone want to disagree and argue for the last 10 minutes of the show?

05:26:46.140 Anybody?

05:26:47.480 Anybody?

05:26:48.140 I think a man needs more than confidence.

05:26:49.860 I'm sorry.

05:26:50.300 If you're going up and telling a man that's all he needs.

05:26:52.900 I was going to say.

05:26:53.520 That's what we were saying.

05:26:55.740 That's all they need.

05:26:56.360 He's just got to shoot the shot.

05:26:57.380 But how many men actually come and shoot their shot with you that you disregard?

05:27:02.580 Realistically.

05:27:03.320 Truthfully, I'll give a guy I do not find attractive a shot if he at least comes up to me and tries.

05:27:08.180 That is much more likely than.

05:27:09.480 In person.

05:27:10.040 Yeah.

05:27:10.360 Stop the cat.

05:27:11.360 That's really attractive.

05:27:12.740 Stop the cat.

05:27:13.420 I think it's also.

05:27:14.860 I think it's better that a guy goes up to a girl in person than on a dating app.

05:27:18.780 I 100% agree with that.

05:27:20.300 But I think it's also like both men and women need to be realistic of what the expectations are when you go into this.

05:27:26.800 For someone to walk across a room.

05:27:29.080 Like I make the joke all the time.

05:27:30.480 I know no man walks over across a room to talk to me for my brain.

05:27:33.960 He might stay because of my brain.

05:27:35.660 But he's not going to walk over for that.

05:27:37.440 And a lot of women.

05:27:38.440 I've seen it.

05:27:39.080 And I've seen women be so mean to really good, nice guys that come up and try to say hi.

05:27:45.140 And the girl goes, ew.

05:27:46.920 Not worth my time.

05:27:48.080 You really think you have a chance with me?

05:27:50.120 Women are vicious when it comes to it.

05:27:52.040 And I think that it's.

05:27:53.100 A lot of them enjoy it.

05:27:53.820 Yeah, and it actually breaks my heart because I work in a male-dominant field.

05:27:58.340 So I see it happen all the time.

05:28:00.360 And there's a lot of really good guys that.

05:28:02.220 The guy saved himself then from being with somebody who's an absolute.

05:28:05.940 Yeah, but it takes it out of you when you get rejected like that.

05:28:10.120 Imagine their level of rejection that comes to your face.

05:28:13.600 Like that's.

05:28:14.280 It's one thing if someone doesn't swipe right on you on an app.

05:28:17.020 But for someone to like laugh in your face.

05:28:19.280 Or to go, ew.

05:28:20.420 No, I've watched it at a bar.

05:28:22.720 I've had that happen to me so many times.

05:28:25.040 Because I approach girls in person quite a lot.

05:28:27.280 And sometimes you'll be at a bar and they'll be with their friends.

05:28:29.540 And they'll get so much pleasure out of rejecting you in front of their friends.

05:28:33.340 And it sucks.

05:28:34.060 Like you move on from it after you do it enough times.

05:28:36.220 Do you revert the ask?

05:28:37.680 No, not at all.

05:28:38.480 I don't care.

05:28:39.300 But like, you know, a lot of the guys don't want to do it.

05:28:41.480 Because why would they want to go through that all the time?

05:28:43.640 But on the topic of advice though, like I know you asked the girls.

05:28:46.920 But I heard, I think, I don't want to steal this.

05:28:49.100 I think it was Myron from Fresh and Fit says,

05:28:51.060 Accomplishments breeds competence, which breeds confidence.

05:28:54.700 Right?

05:28:55.300 Accomplishments, competence, confidence.

05:28:57.840 So confidence, you can't fake it.

05:28:59.520 Like you can't just pretend to have confidence.

05:29:01.800 And confidence generally comes from having a foundation as a man of having accomplishments.

05:29:06.440 And being competent.

05:29:07.240 So if you have those things as a guy, and if you're mission driven, if you know where you're going in life,

05:29:12.080 and if you are, you know, on a one-way train there, it's a magnet for women.

05:29:17.600 Women love a purpose-driven man.

05:29:19.300 So that would be the advice.

05:29:20.740 I'm inviting you to talk.

05:29:24.280 Oh my God.

05:29:26.840 Yo guys, go to twitch.tv.

05:29:28.980 Oh my God.

05:29:29.380 Oh my God.

05:29:30.080 There's almost 2,000 of you.

05:29:31.880 Almost 2,000 of you watching on Twitch.

05:29:36.220 Twitch, guys, drop us a follow and a prime sub if you're watching and you're not following.

05:29:41.240 Do me a little, do me a solid, guys.

05:29:44.080 I'd really appreciate it if you drop us a little follow.

05:29:46.740 Because, you know, we stream every Sundays and Tuesdays on YouTube and Twitch.

05:29:52.260 Drop us a follow.

05:29:52.920 Oh, also the other reason to follow us over on there on Twitch,

05:29:56.180 Madison is going to be streaming on off days over on Twitch.

05:30:01.780 And we got some special stream stuff going over there on Twitch.

05:30:05.380 IRL streams or what?

05:30:06.720 Well, I don't want to announce it quite.

05:30:08.840 No, no, we won't do that shit.

05:30:10.460 True kind.

05:30:10.960 But if you're over there on Twitch, we're going to be doing all kinds of good stuff on Twitch.

05:30:15.040 Maybe some gaming stuff too.

05:30:17.200 So follow us on Twitch.

05:30:18.540 Thank you, guys.

05:30:19.020 Appreciate it.

05:30:19.380 If you have a prime job.

05:30:20.140 Shoot up 123 donated $69.

05:30:23.620 Thank you, brother.

05:30:24.160 Girl in the black, I would like to get to know you more.

05:30:27.160 Oh my God.

05:30:27.420 Showing my genuine interest.

05:30:29.660 It's my first time watching whatever.

05:30:32.140 Brian, great job.

05:30:33.880 Convince her to message me right now.

05:30:35.840 Chewdog 123 dot will solve.

05:30:38.700 If you feel like talking to a little Filipino, then go for it.

05:30:42.000 Wait.

05:30:42.480 No, I'm not Filipino.

05:30:43.580 I'm a Panamanian.

05:30:44.900 Yo, okay.

05:30:45.540 I'll do Chewdog.

05:30:46.340 All right.

05:30:46.660 So, Bree.

05:30:47.920 Chewdog, he rescued me from a bear once.

05:30:51.640 From a bear?

05:30:52.400 So, you got to DM him back or whatever on Snapchat.

05:30:56.580 He rescued you.

05:30:57.500 Oh, you're weak.

05:30:58.280 You're going to rescue yourself from the bear?

05:31:00.720 Well, we were camping and I was like sleeping, you know.

05:31:02.820 So, I would have just been dead if it wasn't for Chewdog.

05:31:05.560 Alpha males wouldn't let that happen.

05:31:06.580 Yeah, they just fight in their sleeps, huh?

05:31:09.080 If you were part of my program.

05:31:09.660 They just don't get mauled in their sleep.

05:31:12.120 Your program also teaches men how to fend off bear attacks.

05:31:16.800 You've got experience in that one?

05:31:18.660 I can find.

05:31:20.380 I was in Alaska for two weeks.

05:31:22.540 What part of Alaska were you in?

05:31:24.040 I was in Anchorage and Fairbanks.

05:31:25.780 Okay.

05:31:26.380 And what did you do while you were there?

05:31:28.280 I went to the forest and saw the Northern Lights.

05:31:31.560 Did you see the bus?

05:31:33.820 The McCandless bus?

05:31:35.600 I was on a train.

05:31:36.500 I didn't see a bus.

05:31:38.100 No, do you know what that is?

05:31:39.280 Have you seen Into the Wild?

05:31:40.980 No.

05:31:42.660 Devin Supertramp?

05:31:44.600 I didn't see a bus.

05:31:45.360 Does anybody, maybe the viewers know what I'm talking about?

05:31:48.240 Into the Wild.

05:31:49.060 Great movie.

05:31:50.400 The soundtrack is fantastic.

05:31:52.600 Eddie Vedder.

05:31:53.600 Oh, yeah.

05:31:55.360 Eddie Vedder.

05:31:57.320 Hard Son.

05:31:58.300 Anybody?

05:31:59.020 Anybody?

05:31:59.440 Yo, one in the chat if anybody knows the song by Eddie Vedder.

05:32:02.780 Hard Son.

05:32:03.320 Anybody?

05:32:03.900 Anybody?

05:32:04.720 Anybody?

05:32:05.720 Anybody?

05:32:06.540 Anybody?

05:32:07.540 Anybody?

05:32:08.780 Anybody?

05:32:10.020 Anybody?

05:32:11.560 Anybody?

05:32:12.980 Why don't you play it for him?

05:32:15.260 There's one.

05:32:16.000 There's two.

05:32:16.960 Great song.

05:32:17.420 Great song.

05:32:18.180 Okay.

05:32:18.280 What do we disagree on?

05:32:20.960 What do we disagreeing on?

05:32:23.020 We're going to wrap in like five minutes.

05:32:24.620 Speak now forever.

05:32:25.320 Hold your peace.

05:32:29.340 Anything?

05:32:30.540 This is your chance, Jess.

05:32:31.100 You want to say something.

05:32:32.520 You want to say it.

05:32:33.120 This is your chance, Jess.

05:32:33.820 Come on, Bree.

05:32:34.380 Come on, Bree.

05:32:35.120 No.

05:32:35.480 This is your chance, Jess.

05:32:36.720 You got five minutes.

05:32:37.820 They can't put the voice on.

05:32:37.980 Yeah, you said that you disagree with many topics.

05:32:39.880 Come on.

05:32:40.380 This is your chance.

05:32:41.100 You got this, Jess.

05:32:41.800 I agree with you all thinking that men should be the ones to go up to women.

05:32:46.420 I think both genders can do it.

05:32:48.900 I do it.

05:32:52.380 That's all I can disagree with right now.

05:32:55.000 That makes him a beta.

05:32:57.640 I think that can be true in certain circumstances, but at least in my experience, when I'm the one

05:33:02.580 pursuing the man, it always fails, and I've found the best relationships come from, or

05:33:07.360 the best friendships even come from the man.

05:33:09.480 I'd be really flattered, though, if a girl came to me and said, yeah.

05:33:12.440 I prefer women.

05:33:13.040 There's a difference between pursuing, though, and planning a little scene and showing your

05:33:16.920 interest.

05:33:17.180 You can slide in slightly.

05:33:18.420 The thing is that I'm not going to pursue you.

05:33:20.620 I might call you, though, but if a guy's busy and he's not going to pursue you.

05:33:23.320 ChewDocq 123 donated $69.

05:33:27.860 Brian, you're such a G. You need a black eye bot.

05:33:31.000 It'll help me actually have somewhat of a voice.

05:33:34.240 I also know that song.

05:33:36.060 What's your favorite R&B song, Girl in Black, first, then so on?

05:33:40.840 Add me on SnapBTW.

05:33:43.020 When I See You by Fantasia.

05:33:45.060 When I See You.

05:33:47.080 When I See You.

05:33:48.040 Who sings that?

05:33:50.000 Fantasia.

05:33:50.580 Keep it that way.

05:33:51.780 Excuse me?

05:33:53.080 What was that?

05:33:54.140 Oh, my God.

05:33:57.500 I want to go home.

05:33:59.400 They asked everybody.

05:34:00.180 He asked, and so on.

05:34:02.400 What's your favorite R&B song?

05:34:04.840 No, I think it was just you.

05:34:05.900 Oh.

05:34:06.300 Yeah.

05:34:06.660 Girl in Black.

05:34:07.920 You're Girl in Black.

05:34:08.500 I'm going to roll my cards, but...

05:34:10.500 Bo, Shizzle.

05:34:12.100 Who am I going to rate on Twitch?

05:34:14.200 Let me...

05:34:14.560 Any final...

05:34:15.160 I wonder if I have any final...

05:34:16.500 Yeah, you got a...

05:34:17.180 Hold on.

05:34:18.600 Dumb Dog Saw donated $70.

05:34:21.640 To Jake, always good to see a fellow Aussie making it.

05:34:25.380 You said you're Christian.

05:34:26.920 Which denomination?

05:34:28.500 Also, to what extent should men show emotion in front of women?

05:34:32.420 Never.

05:34:33.260 Yeah.

05:34:34.460 None.

05:34:35.120 I'm not denominational at the moment.

05:34:36.440 I actually put this out on my Twitter last week, and I was having a bunch of Roman Catholics

05:34:39.920 and Orthodox reaching out to me, so I haven't picked a denomination.

05:34:43.020 I'm not sure if I will, but yeah, I'm not even going to say what I'm leaning towards.

05:34:48.100 Showing emotion in front of women?

05:34:49.700 I mean, here's my theory on it.

05:34:51.900 I think that you should never show raw emotions in front of your girl.

05:34:55.600 You should do that with your guy friends, with your male friends, if you ever really need

05:34:58.780 an out.

05:34:59.760 However, there are little moments when you should do it.

05:35:02.980 It's a Sunday morning, you're in bed together, you're just talking, and she wants to briefly

05:35:07.120 get inside your head, see what's going on with you, but you only let her in for a little

05:35:10.180 bit, then you get up and go to the gym.

05:35:11.960 Leave her wanting more.

05:35:13.000 I like that.

05:35:13.540 You know?

05:35:14.200 Just little bits.

05:35:15.000 Drip feed it.

05:35:17.360 Perfect for my course.

05:35:18.580 I think women should show emotion to men.

05:35:22.260 Absolutely, yeah.

05:35:23.420 But the thing is, a man should be able to sort of take that, but if you show, like I know

05:35:29.660 girls who have told me openly that it full-on turned them off guys and made them break up

05:35:34.080 with them.

05:35:34.700 I feel for those people.

05:35:36.360 Yeah.

05:35:36.640 That's rough.

05:35:37.660 But like, there's no joy in it for a guy.

05:35:39.900 If you're crying to your girl, there's no, you know.

05:35:44.340 Yeah.

05:35:45.120 Either your brothers or your friends, whatever, if you really need to, if you're really

05:35:48.360 going through it.

05:35:49.160 But with your girl, I mean, maybe.

05:35:51.440 See, I feel like it's different if it's like your girlfriend or like your wife.

05:35:54.180 I feel like if it's your life partner, it's one of those things like if you have a moment

05:35:58.440 of vulnerability with your life partner and you drop the wall of vulnerability.

05:36:01.400 No, I get it.

05:36:01.880 I get it for a moment.

05:36:03.160 That makes sense.

05:36:03.600 I think it happens, but I think it's also as the partner, that woman's responsibility

05:36:07.040 is never going through it in space.

05:36:07.340 God bless the bride, donated $69.

05:36:10.680 Christ is king.

05:36:11.920 Amen.

05:36:12.060 Thank you, man.

05:36:12.660 Appreciate it.

05:36:13.400 Yeah.

05:36:13.620 No, it's true.

05:36:15.000 Thank you, brother.

05:36:15.440 But I do think that a woman has a biological reaction to a man crying where she instantly

05:36:20.800 thinks he can't protect me.

05:36:22.860 Not me.

05:36:23.940 I was going to say.

05:36:24.640 I don't know.

05:36:25.220 It depends on what it is.

05:36:27.220 If you cry because you lost your fear.

05:36:28.380 Wait.

05:36:29.180 Wait, hold on.

05:36:30.560 Say that one more time.

05:36:32.360 I think it's sexy when a man cries, not when he's like super heartbroken.

05:36:36.320 What?

05:36:36.660 It doesn't like clutter my heart.

05:36:37.520 Do you think when he's praying or when he's at church or whatever?

05:36:40.520 I think that's beautiful.

05:36:41.480 But I can understand that from the religious perspective when they're praying, when they're

05:36:45.120 really in that sort of flow state.

05:36:45.680 Not if he's like crying all the time and emotionally unstable, but if he cries once in a while.

05:36:49.720 But if he cries because someone said something mean to him today and he comes home and he's

05:36:52.600 like, well, that's ridiculous for anybody to cry.

05:36:54.560 Yeah.

05:36:54.720 Well, that's what we mean though.

05:36:56.100 But I do from, if you don't really like pray, then you can't really understand this.

05:36:59.760 But I can understand from that perspective if a guy's really in that state, but you know,

05:37:06.220 just crying because he's had a bad day or whatever, it's unacceptable.

05:37:09.480 Most guys don't really do that anyway.

05:37:10.760 Yeah.

05:37:13.360 Good shit.

05:37:14.100 But if you need to let it out, go to the boys.

05:37:16.040 Good shit.

05:37:16.720 We're in the shower.

05:37:17.680 Yeah.

05:37:17.960 Cry in the shower.

05:37:18.700 As far as the initiative conversation though.

05:37:20.680 No, no, no.

05:37:21.240 Yeah, maybe.

05:37:21.980 As far as the initiative, I think definitely it's good if a girl just hits you up first.

05:37:27.260 I think that's the best way.

05:37:28.200 I think a lot of girls make a big mistake with this particular thing these days.

05:37:34.280 Because if a guy is the kind of guy that you're attracted to, he's going to be pretty

05:37:37.320 busy and he's going to be on his purpose.

05:37:39.260 Hey, he's not going to be sitting there messaging.

05:37:40.800 It's like the last thing I'm thinking about.

05:37:42.440 But if she checks in with me every day, every two days or whatever, that's great.

05:37:46.380 And I'm not ignoring you.

05:37:47.380 I'm just busy.

05:37:48.320 Yeah.

05:37:48.540 It's the last thing I'm thinking about is texting girls.

05:37:50.560 I hate texting girls.

05:37:51.600 So what is too forward for you?

05:37:53.780 Or is there such a thing for a woman to be too forward?

05:37:55.660 I normally, I'll actually tell a girl straight up because I, you know, like you get girls

05:38:02.000 that message you or whatever and I'll just be like, hey, look, I don't like small talk.

05:38:04.440 I'm not interested in talking to you.

05:38:05.720 I'll just say that straight away.

05:38:06.320 That's good though.

05:38:06.860 So they're not wasting their time.

05:38:08.340 Yeah.

05:38:08.580 I'll just tell them straight away.

05:38:09.440 Hey, listen, appreciate it, but I'm not into small talk.

05:38:11.780 If we're in the same city or whatever, we can hang out.

05:38:14.060 But yeah.

05:38:14.280 But if I don't say that, it probably means that I'm interested.

05:38:18.400 There you go.

05:38:19.720 Yeah.

05:38:20.300 You know, listen, like if they send a DM, you know.

05:38:23.280 Juice donated $69.

05:38:25.940 Brie just yawned and deep throated the mic.

05:38:28.940 Please have her leave or have her stand in the corner for three minutes in silence.

05:38:33.040 Wait, should we do a timeout for Brie for three minutes?

05:38:35.480 Okay.

05:38:36.440 Wait, hold on, Brie.

05:38:37.300 Before you do that, I got to give you a fucking fucked up.

05:38:40.800 Like a hat or something.

05:38:42.300 There we go.

05:38:42.680 Hold on.

05:38:42.940 All right, Brie, you got to wear it.

05:38:46.920 I'm not wearing that shirt.

05:38:47.800 Brie, put it on.

05:38:49.480 Brie.

05:38:49.760 It would look so cute on you though.

05:38:51.400 Oh, you got, okay, yeah.

05:38:52.160 Go into the corner and just face the corner.

05:38:55.700 Don't sit, just face.

05:38:56.740 Just get in the corner.

05:38:58.260 There you go.

05:38:58.900 Think about what you've done.

05:39:00.980 Think about what you've done, Brie.

05:39:02.500 Okay, good.

05:39:08.980 Did she actually do that?

05:39:10.760 Did she do that?

05:39:11.700 Did you do it, Brie?

05:39:13.060 Hey, hey, look into the corner.

05:39:15.700 Hey, look, she's listening.

05:39:17.520 It's good.

05:39:18.340 There you go.

05:39:18.760 Okay, I have a question for the gentleman.

05:39:20.500 What's up?

05:39:20.820 What advice, what dating advice would you like to give to the ladies after what you've heard tonight?

05:39:27.620 Oh, after what I heard tonight.

05:39:29.680 I would say, don't be afraid to be a little bit of a simp.

05:39:37.040 If you like the guy, send the text and everything.

05:39:40.160 Girls often tell them, oh, don't be too forward, whatever.

05:39:43.340 Don't do this.

05:39:43.860 Don't do that.

05:39:44.280 No, no, no.

05:39:45.200 If you like him, show him you like him.

05:39:47.220 We appreciate that a lot.

05:39:48.360 Whereas I find a lot of the times when I've been in the talking stages with a girl, even if I like her, I'll discard her because she's not forward enough.

05:39:57.340 Well, if she's putting in effort and you like her, will you put in the same effort?

05:40:00.880 No.

05:40:01.600 Why?

05:40:02.540 Because we're not the same.

05:40:05.820 How?

05:40:07.020 Well, because if you don't want to.

05:40:11.480 It's not really motivating.

05:40:12.400 As a man, you don't want to be necessarily pursuing a girl.

05:40:15.120 We just heard before that you got the ick because guys were too keen.

05:40:18.460 We don't get that same ick.

05:40:19.900 But if I'm pursuing you and putting in all of this effort, generally it's going to give the girls the ick.

05:40:23.540 And also, I'm busy.

05:40:25.640 I'm not putting in the effort.

05:40:26.640 It's just not happening.

05:40:28.340 Okay, so do you expect a woman to keep putting in the same effort while you're not doing the same?

05:40:33.740 You ever heard the song, The Tide Is High?

05:40:36.220 No.

05:40:36.960 Early 2000s, Tide Is High, but I'm holding on.

05:40:39.080 I'm going to be your number one.

05:40:40.220 I'm not the kind of girl who just gives up just like that.

05:40:43.160 One of the most beautiful feminists I've ever heard today.

05:40:45.340 Okay, so when I said that-

05:40:46.800 She's just going to keep holding on.

05:40:48.260 And one day she'll be my number one.

05:40:50.400 I like that attitude, you know?

05:40:51.780 I actually have a perfect answer to this, Alexa.

05:40:55.000 Yeah, let's hear it.

05:40:55.640 Nick, you know what to do.

05:40:57.720 Pull up the bow video.

05:40:58.460 I was about to say, is this a bowing video?

05:41:00.300 She has to bow.

05:41:01.560 I totally agree.

05:41:02.420 She has to bow.

05:41:03.260 Let's see it.

05:41:04.280 Oh, hold on.

05:41:04.920 We've got to watch the video first.

05:41:06.220 Okay, I've got questions.

05:41:08.180 Bow and cook.

05:41:09.280 I think it's-

05:41:10.100 Is Brie allowed to watch?

05:41:11.040 We can cook.

05:41:11.640 Brie's watching, right?

05:41:12.720 Yeah, she can.

05:41:13.580 It's okay.

05:41:14.260 I'll allow it.

05:41:14.780 I'll watch the video.

05:41:15.640 I'll allow it.

05:41:16.440 Okay.

05:41:17.040 Love it.

05:41:17.240 Okay, boom.

05:41:18.660 Huge.

05:41:19.500 See that bow?

05:41:20.220 Great.

05:41:21.600 All right, I just come home to my penthouse apartment that I'm paying entirely.

05:41:24.940 Oh, my God.

05:41:25.840 Boom, there's the shirt.

05:41:27.360 Yep.

05:41:27.640 That's getting folded immediately or put in the laundry, you know.

05:41:32.200 Okay, food's ready.

05:41:33.680 Dinner's ready.

05:41:34.420 Just got home from a long podcast.

05:41:37.340 Getting the drink.

05:41:39.120 Stirring the noodles.

05:41:40.540 Check this shit.

05:41:41.340 Boom.

05:41:42.400 Attentive.

05:41:43.600 Attentive.

05:41:44.940 Submissive.

05:41:46.340 Good technique.

05:41:47.260 Happy about it.

05:41:48.000 With a smile.

05:41:48.680 One more time, Nick.

05:41:49.360 Show the bow one more time.

05:41:50.420 Oh, my God.

05:41:51.000 Huge.

05:41:54.160 Yes.

05:41:55.680 That's awesome.

05:41:56.900 Boom.

05:41:57.720 Yeah, that's what a girl should do, honestly.

05:42:00.000 Actually, we had a...

05:42:00.620 So, if she went on the first date and she just...

05:42:02.240 She started a date with a bow.

05:42:03.720 Did she get...

05:42:04.180 Bro, I would fucking marry her right after the day.

05:42:06.540 Oh, my God.

05:42:07.360 She hits me...

05:42:08.460 First off, it would be funny as fuck.

05:42:10.120 Like, if you imagine...

05:42:11.000 Oh, my gosh.

05:42:11.240 You went on a date with a girl and she gave you a cute little bow.

05:42:14.320 Be the best.

05:42:14.800 Try that next time.

05:42:15.620 Instantly, like...

05:42:16.860 It'd be the best.

05:42:17.640 Yeah, I'd be sad about it.

05:42:19.200 No, I wouldn't...

05:42:19.900 We can...

05:42:20.700 No, that's fine.

05:42:21.480 It'd be kind of like...

05:42:22.160 That's what I mean by...

05:42:22.980 It's simpy.

05:42:23.840 It's simpy.

05:42:24.420 We like simpy shit like that.

05:42:25.180 It does not work.

05:42:26.020 It doesn't get it.

05:42:26.720 Oh, just try it.

05:42:28.200 I'm actually going to try it.

05:42:29.080 Just try it.

05:42:30.380 But, like, do it like a little, like, jog with small steps and then...

05:42:34.280 Okay.

05:42:34.900 I think they'll like it.

05:42:35.600 I think they'll like...

05:42:36.940 Wait, let's ask the chat.

05:42:37.960 Let's ask the chat.

05:42:38.980 Chat, would you...

05:42:39.960 Would you be...

05:42:41.080 Like, would that be cool for you?

05:42:42.960 If all else fails, bro.

05:42:44.740 Chat, would you be down for that?

05:42:46.820 What?

05:42:47.140 Nick, can you pull up the chat?

05:42:50.020 Get that.

05:42:50.700 Would you be down for the bow?

05:42:53.800 Chat, yes for the bow.

05:42:55.000 Would you be cool with the bow?

05:42:55.900 I'm pretty broad.

05:42:56.720 Are you serious?

05:42:57.400 Would you be cool with the bow or not cool with the bow?

05:43:00.520 Yes or no?

05:43:01.480 Yes or no in the chat.

05:43:02.840 Yes or no in the chat.

05:43:03.700 You're just kidding.

05:43:05.160 Namasko.

05:43:06.020 Seems like people really like the bow.

05:43:08.020 Why is it going so fast?

05:43:10.220 Wait, did Brie just hit a bow?

05:43:12.440 She did.

05:43:12.980 She did it.

05:43:13.920 She did well.

05:43:14.660 Yeah, I did it.

05:43:15.620 Yeah.

05:43:16.080 Oh, okay.

05:43:16.460 That's cool.

05:43:16.980 All right.

05:43:17.240 Good times.

05:43:18.420 Yeah, I think just honestly like just hit us with a bow every time we see you.

05:43:22.140 That's it.

05:43:22.640 That's all you got to do.

05:43:23.200 There you go.

05:43:24.160 You can do that.

05:43:24.660 I'm not even joking.

05:43:25.420 I think that shit works.

05:43:26.700 We had a girl like two shows ago who said like, well, I watch your podcast and I was

05:43:31.840 like, I wasn't sure about the bow thing, but I just tried it on my...

05:43:34.560 I think she was dating a guy and she was like, yo, that shit works.

05:43:38.080 Oh my gosh.

05:43:39.200 She tried it and it worked.

05:43:41.340 Also learn to cook as well.

05:43:43.040 Can everyone hear a cook?

05:43:44.180 Can no one not cook?

05:43:45.820 Can anyone not cook?

05:43:46.900 No?

05:43:47.660 Yeah?

05:43:48.280 I wouldn't say it's edible, but yeah.

05:43:50.480 I'd say make these things known as well on the first date.

05:43:54.620 If you can cook, brag about it a little bit, you know?

05:43:57.440 Slip it in there.

05:43:58.500 If you've got a good relationship with your father, slip that in there.

05:44:01.900 Guys like hearing that shit.

05:44:03.040 If you've got a good relationship with your brothers and stuff, get it in there.

05:44:06.800 Whenever I hear that stuff, I'm like, I'm looking for it.

05:44:08.720 I'm always asking questions in a roundabout way to see if they've got a good relationship

05:44:12.720 with their dad, to see if they can cook, to see if they're clean, not tidy, but clean.

05:44:19.120 One advice I will give to women is like, make it a monthly goal to master a certain dish

05:44:24.640 on YouTube.

05:44:25.140 Like just go and learn like your favorite dishes.

05:44:27.760 So every month you learn different.

05:44:29.440 That's cute.

05:44:30.200 It actually works really well.

05:44:32.080 I'm not going to lie.

05:44:33.040 Yeah.

05:44:35.400 Oh, question for the viewers on Twitch and on YouTube.

05:44:39.040 Nick, could you put it center cam?

05:44:40.480 So guys, I don't know if you noticed, we got a new table.

05:44:43.780 Unfortunately, it like.

05:44:45.240 This is rough.

05:44:45.980 I'm not going to lie.

05:44:46.540 It's very wobbly.

05:44:47.500 It wobbles.

05:44:48.800 And like, and that's me and Nick like affixed something to like a, like a, an anchor point

05:44:55.380 or I don't know what to call it.

05:44:56.260 Uh, so it, it's wobbling less.

05:44:58.120 It was wobbling like way more than this.

05:45:00.320 I mean, I'm just pressing with my fingers now.

05:45:02.380 Hold on.

05:45:02.660 Let me do it here.

05:45:04.420 I'll do just one finger.

05:45:07.200 Just my, just my one finger wobbles that much.

05:45:10.660 Guys, this, I, a question for the chat though.

05:45:13.500 Is this an acceptable amount of wobble for a table?

05:45:17.760 Cause I spent a lot of money on this table.

05:45:21.880 This is a big table.

05:45:22.980 What was wrong with the last table, dude?

05:45:24.600 So, okay.

05:45:25.340 So guys, here's the, here's the thing.

05:45:26.760 Um, this table has a center base.

05:45:30.960 The issue with the previous table, this one is six inches.

05:45:34.360 It's still square, but it's six inches bigger on each side.

05:45:39.460 And it doesn't, the previous table had legs on the corners, which is annoying for people

05:45:45.060 on the corner.

05:45:45.820 So I thought, okay, let me get a table with a center thing so that people can put their

05:45:50.400 legs in and they're not getting those on the corner on getting fucked.

05:45:53.520 This is much better.

05:45:54.240 I'm not going to lie.

05:45:54.860 But because it has a center fucking thing, it wobbles.

05:45:59.300 So chat, is a table supposed to wobble this much chat?

05:46:02.140 Nick, can you pull up the chat?

05:46:02.980 I can't see it.

05:46:04.720 You know what you need?

05:46:05.860 You need pipe stands.

05:46:07.200 Is a table supposed to wobble this much?

05:46:11.020 This is crazy, bro.

05:46:13.140 Holy fuck.

05:46:15.620 Yeah.

05:46:15.820 You get, you get four stands on there.

05:46:17.980 Yeah.

05:46:18.260 You just need it in further in.

05:46:19.980 But what, what stands?

05:46:21.700 I don't know.

05:46:22.120 Is there something I buy on Amazon?

05:46:23.820 Yeah.

05:46:24.020 It's like one of those shower things?

05:46:26.320 Sort of like that.

05:46:27.360 But what's it called?

05:46:28.000 What's the name of it?

05:46:29.140 I'll send you to one.

05:46:30.160 I've got a feeling that Spencer would be able to do this.

05:46:33.380 So what it does is if anyone, like, pushes on it, it'll be stable on each corner.

05:46:37.880 You just need four of them.

05:46:39.240 Get Spencer to do it.

05:46:40.000 He strikes me as a guy who's good with his hands.

05:46:42.000 Okay.

05:46:42.520 For shizzle?

05:46:42.940 Check you out as well.

05:46:44.360 That's Gustavo.

05:46:45.220 But, but guys, what do you think of the new table?

05:46:48.140 Like, aside from the wobble, I mean, you probably, it's the same color, so you guys probably can't

05:46:52.760 tell, but what do you, you guys like the new table?

05:46:56.120 Yes.

05:46:56.880 Do you like the new table?

05:46:57.360 I will say, as a, as like a guest, this is great that I don't have the leg right here,

05:47:02.400 because it's very awkward if you're in a dress.

05:47:04.120 Yeah, it's a bigger table.

05:47:05.600 It is beneficial, but it is kind of awkward too, because it's like, you can't touch it

05:47:08.480 now.

05:47:08.800 Like, we typically do three, three, three, and with the other table, it was always like

05:47:13.320 you couldn't fit three people, but here, I think it's pretty good.

05:47:17.000 We can fit three people on each side, and it'll be better if we ever have a bigger panels,

05:47:21.260 which we sometimes do.

05:47:22.420 We aim for nine, but I think this table better accommodate it, but this wobble is fucking

05:47:27.440 unacceptable.

05:47:28.120 So, wait, one, so is it, is this a normal amount of wobble boys?

05:47:37.160 Wobbly wobble.

05:47:37.820 Is this a normal amount of wobble?

05:47:40.480 The comments are so weird.

05:47:41.940 Is it a normal amount of wobble boys?

05:47:44.440 Okay.

05:47:45.040 The other thing, Nick, were you able to pull up those dudes' Instagrams, the whole scam

05:47:49.020 shit?

05:47:49.640 All right, guys, really quick, I'm just gonna, I already talked about the previous show.

05:47:54.280 Boys, I got scammed, if you know the story.

05:47:56.900 If you got, were you able to pull it incognito?

05:48:00.480 Okay.

05:48:01.180 Bro, this guy scammed me for $2,000.

05:48:03.260 I'm still looking for a lawyer.

05:48:04.840 Why are you laughing?

05:48:05.560 Why are you laughing, Brie?

05:48:06.500 What'd you get?

05:48:07.320 Hold on.

05:48:07.800 I'll tell you.

05:48:08.220 Okay.

05:48:08.520 I'm not gonna tell the whole story, but I'm still looking for a lawyer in Dubai who can

05:48:13.580 go after these scammers who scammed me out of $2,000.

05:48:16.360 It's David Spearman and C.R.

05:48:19.860 Stephens.

05:48:21.540 Yep.

05:48:22.920 And David blocked me after I'd made my previous comment because, yeah.

05:48:30.740 If anybody can help me in any way, I would appreciate it.

05:48:34.680 I've looked into your scam problem and found a solution.

05:48:37.900 Wow, thank you.

05:48:38.400 If you wire me $5,000, I can put a claim into small claims court and you'll get it back

05:48:44.120 if we win.

05:48:45.040 No cap.

05:48:46.100 Thank you, brother.

05:48:46.760 Appreciate it.

05:48:47.340 I'm gonna send that right away.

05:48:48.300 Anyway, yeah, man, if anybody knows any lawyers in Dubai, guys, I gotta get my money back.

05:48:55.600 I'm gonna do this every show until this fucking guy.

05:48:59.140 Basically, I sent him $2,000 back in February.

05:49:03.020 He was gonna help me get a social media thing and then he never delivered.

05:49:07.800 He said it would take a couple days.

05:49:09.120 Never delivered.

05:49:10.180 Excuse after excuse after excuse.

05:49:12.200 I asked him for a refund.

05:49:13.780 He refused.

05:49:14.620 He said he would give me a refund.

05:49:16.120 He didn't.

05:49:17.440 Got scammed.

05:49:18.000 $2,000.

05:49:19.740 I'll survive, obviously, but that's still, you know, it's fucked up.

05:49:24.300 It's the principle of it.

05:49:25.420 It's fucked up.

05:49:26.040 I get it.

05:49:26.740 Go after them.

05:49:27.740 Why are you laughing, Brie?

05:49:28.720 Wait, you know people in Dubai for sure, Brie.

05:49:32.000 Yo.

05:49:32.580 She's been flewed out there multiple times.

05:49:35.140 Oh, that was, okay.

05:49:36.880 Well, that was before you were on the show, but you know some peeps in Dubai?

05:49:41.520 Oh, yeah.

05:49:42.240 Brie, you got the connect?

05:49:45.320 Have you been to Dubai?

05:49:46.640 No, but $5,000 for the list of connections.

05:49:49.820 Oh, yeah.

05:49:50.460 Okay.

05:49:50.980 All right.

05:49:52.260 So if anybody can help me, anybody, if you can help me try to get my money back.

05:49:58.200 I don't know.

05:49:58.800 You're a fucking lawyer in Dubai.

05:49:59.820 I don't know.

05:50:00.200 I don't know.

05:50:00.640 Shit.

05:50:00.860 Anyways, GG.

05:50:04.860 Well played to everybody.

05:50:06.640 I thought it was a good show.

05:50:08.460 I thought it was a good show.

05:50:09.180 One more thing.

05:50:09.580 One more thing.

05:50:10.040 One more thing.

05:50:10.420 Oh, no.

05:50:12.220 No more virgins.

05:50:15.880 Band virgins.

05:50:16.940 No more virgins.

05:50:18.240 Boom.

05:50:18.880 What?

05:50:19.480 Stamping.

05:50:19.680 Wait, you got two virgins here.

05:50:20.620 You can't say that.

05:50:21.660 No more virgins.

05:50:23.680 Sorry.

05:50:24.840 Done with that.

05:50:25.120 I don't even get that.

05:50:26.460 Don't you know you're worse, B?

05:50:28.600 I do.

05:50:29.300 I was a virgin for 22 years, and then Brian, I came on here, and Brian was like, look,

05:50:34.080 I was about to say what he did.

05:50:37.040 Brian was like, look, B, this is not where you need to be in life.

05:50:40.120 All right, guys.

05:50:40.700 I got to.

05:50:41.200 Okay.

05:50:41.920 After last show, me and Bree had carnal knowledge.

05:50:44.700 What?

05:50:45.540 I'm kidding.

05:50:46.320 No.

05:50:47.200 I'm kidding.

05:50:47.760 I'm going to kill myself.

05:50:51.280 That's probably the mainest thing anyone's ever said.

05:50:53.240 Damn.

05:50:53.560 Oh, no.

05:50:55.040 What's that?

05:50:56.200 Holy macron.

05:50:58.160 No.

05:51:03.120 Just kidding.

05:51:04.480 No more virgins.

05:51:05.320 Your time will come.

05:51:06.640 Just kidding.

05:51:07.580 Wait.

05:51:07.920 Okay.

05:51:08.180 So, guys, those of you.

05:51:09.800 Oh, Nick, can you pull up Twitch really quick?

05:51:11.140 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

05:51:13.140 Drop us a follow.

05:51:13.800 Drop us a prime sub.

05:51:15.020 If you have one.

05:51:15.860 If you have an Amazon Prime, you can link it to your Twitch and support the show every single

05:51:21.400 month.

05:51:22.880 Drop us a follow.

05:51:23.620 Drop us a prime sub over there on Twitch.

05:51:25.300 Thank you guys for all the support over there on Twitch.

05:51:27.400 This might have been a viewer of a record.

05:51:28.920 I don't even know, guys.

05:51:30.180 So, thank you so much.

05:51:31.020 Really appreciate all the support.

05:51:32.440 Also, guys, you know, doing these shows is stressful.

05:51:35.060 You know, I'm probably, I'm starting to lose my hair, guys.

05:51:37.000 So, I'm going to need to go to Turkey pretty soon.

05:51:38.740 And so, I need all the support.

05:51:40.620 Plastic surgery.

05:51:41.000 I need all the support I can get, guys.

05:51:43.760 I need your patronage.

05:51:45.160 You know, the stress of doing the show.

05:51:48.320 My hair's just, it's going to be, it's receding.

05:51:52.000 So, guys, you know.

05:51:53.500 You can come with me.

05:51:54.260 Want to come get my nose done?

05:51:55.120 I'm a warrior.

05:51:56.140 I'm a, I'm a.

05:51:57.160 I get my nose done and then you can get my hair.

05:51:59.920 Bree, you have a beautiful nose.

05:52:01.220 Do not touch your nose.

05:52:02.300 Do not touch your nose.

05:52:03.060 I'm just going to give a shameless plug really quickly.

05:52:05.100 I've got my podcast, which we've been working on for a while.

05:52:08.360 It's called Reality Based.

05:52:09.460 You guys can find that on Spotify, Google Podcasts, Apple Podcasts.

05:52:12.560 We've got episodes with Vivek Ramaswamy on there.

05:52:14.940 We have got Rachel Wilson.

05:52:16.280 We did an hour and a half with her.

05:52:17.860 Destroying Feminist.

05:52:18.680 She is the Feminist Destroyer and we destroyed Feminist.

05:52:21.080 We've got Andrew Wilson, my whole interview with him, amongst many others.

05:52:25.020 So, reality based on Spotify, Google, Apple Podcasts, and obviously Rattlesnake TV.

05:52:30.120 I just, sorry.

05:52:33.600 Those of you, I want to do the outro here.

05:52:36.460 So, GG, well played to the panel.

05:52:38.480 We are going to do right on Twitch.

05:52:39.980 So, if you guys can hang out for just a sec.

05:52:42.720 Last call, hit the like button, please, on your way out.

05:52:45.760 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

05:52:46.500 You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.

05:52:49.100 I appreciate that.

05:52:50.180 Thank you to everyone who so generously supports, or excuse me, who super chats, supports, donates

05:52:56.020 to the show.

05:52:57.280 Your patronage is immensely appreciated.

05:53:01.440 Without you guys, we wouldn't be able to do the show because we almost never get any

05:53:05.260 sponsors.

05:53:05.760 So, really appreciate it, guys.

05:53:07.840 We will be live again Tuesday with our boy Jake here.

05:53:12.560 We've got some very good shows lined up, but we'll be back live Tuesday, 5 p.m. Pacific.

05:53:18.040 Any girls who want to be on the show, DM out whatever on Instagram.

05:53:20.540 If you can make it to Santa Barbara, and then if you guys hang on here for just a sec.

05:53:24.960 Nick, if you can pull up our favorite grandma over there on Twitch.

05:53:29.320 Guys, those of you who are on Twitch, I will be doing a raid.

05:53:32.240 I like to raid people who, you know, they have typically like smaller followers just to

05:53:37.740 show them some love.

05:53:38.500 So, she's got about 300 people watching right now.

05:53:42.780 She's 82, I think, if I recall.

05:53:45.840 She's playing World of Warcraft.

05:53:47.460 We're going to do...

05:53:48.040 Nick, can you pull it up?

05:53:48.540 Get it, Grandma.

05:53:49.780 So, we're going to raid WoeGrandma78.

05:53:52.960 Oh, my gosh.

05:53:54.060 Audio?

05:53:54.480 She's eating her...

05:53:55.580 Do we have audio, Nick?

05:53:56.640 She's ready.

05:53:57.280 Just when you think the perfect woman doesn't exist.

05:53:59.880 This is what comes up.

05:54:02.800 What?

05:54:03.500 Yeah, it does that to me, too.

05:54:04.620 Do you want to switch for this?

05:54:05.900 Oh, shit.

05:54:06.340 I sent the raid too soon.

05:54:07.300 I love her.

05:54:07.840 I'm sorry, Twitch.

05:54:08.280 I didn't say goodbye.

05:54:09.640 What is her name?

05:54:11.380 She's playing World of Warcraft Classic.

05:54:13.360 Bro, she's got a better streaming setup than we do.

05:54:18.540 Well, that's...

05:54:19.300 She's called Second.

05:54:20.140 That's the most amazing thing I've ever seen in my life.

05:54:21.680 Hey, I'm inspired right now.

05:54:23.760 That's someone's grandma.

05:54:27.360 I'm trying to see if the raid went through.

05:54:29.980 Can we get her in the pod?

05:54:31.020 I know, right?

05:54:31.300 I'm trying, bro.

05:54:31.900 I'm trying.

05:54:32.860 I'm trying to get it.

05:54:34.200 Shout out to my grandmother.

05:54:35.180 She just celebrated her 79th birthday yesterday.

05:54:37.800 Oh, yeah?

05:54:38.260 Happy birthday.

05:54:38.560 Did the raid go through?

05:54:39.520 Happy birthday, grandma.

05:54:40.400 Yeah.

05:54:41.300 I wonder.

05:54:41.800 Did the raid go through?

05:54:43.000 I'm just checking here.

05:54:44.100 I'm waiting for her to be like, who are all these people?

05:54:46.840 Welcome, whatever.

05:54:48.500 Oh, hi, kids.

05:54:49.460 Oh, hi.

05:54:50.360 Welcome, whatever.

05:54:51.840 Welcome, whatever.

05:54:52.720 I love it.

05:54:53.820 Wait, Nick.

05:54:54.180 Could you check on Twitch if the audio...

05:54:56.020 Katie, make sure I get that pod.

05:54:57.380 Let me see.

05:54:57.840 Oh, boost it.

05:54:58.360 Oh, my gosh.

05:55:00.100 She's my hero right now.

05:55:00.940 She's playing World of Warcraft.

05:55:03.740 Oh, she's playing retail.

05:55:05.480 Okay.

05:55:06.540 Guys, be nice to her, though.

05:55:08.180 Oh, I should have said that before I sent you guys over.

05:55:10.840 Be polite.

05:55:11.820 You know, don't...

05:55:12.740 Be nice to her.

05:55:14.100 She's a sweetheart.

05:55:15.060 So, yeah.

05:55:16.140 Anyways, cool, cool.

05:55:17.920 We did the raid on Twitch.

05:55:19.560 I think that's it.

05:55:20.700 07's in the chat.

05:55:22.000 Let me just double check, make sure...

05:55:23.900 Okay.

05:55:24.440 We're all good.

05:55:24.860 Yeah, guys, 07's in the chat.

05:55:29.500 07's in the chat.

05:55:31.120 Sorry, guys.

05:55:31.660 I'm just checking on one other thing.

05:55:32.900 What is going on?

05:55:34.340 Sorry, my YouTube's, like, bugging out over here.

05:55:37.160 What's going on with my YouTube?

05:55:38.360 What the hell?

05:55:41.220 Awkward.

05:55:42.600 Okay, we're good.

05:55:43.500 All right, 07's in the chat.

05:55:44.640 I hope you guys have a good night, and we'll see you guys on Tuesday.

05:55:47.720 Good night, guys.

05:55:54.860 Good night, guys.

Whatever Podcast - April 22, 2024

FAKE VlRGlN CONFRONTED？! Liar Claims She DOES NOT Have A BBL？! ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ｜ Dating Talk #154

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