WORST PANEL EVER？! FERAL! Near KICKED OUT! ØF Girl ＂VlRGlN＂ Waiting For Marriage？! ｜ Dating Talk 282
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Summary
In this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, we introduce ourselves and talk about what we do for a living. We talk about our jobs, what we like to do, and what we don't like. We hope you enjoy this episode and stay tuned for the next one!
Transcript
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Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, where we try to make sense of the modern dating
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hellscape. I'm your host, Brian Atlas. We're going to just jump right into the show. Sorry
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for the delay there, guys. Sorry, we're a little late. So go ahead and introduce yourself.
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Hey, I'm Stella. I recently quit Bikini Coffee, and so I'm a full-time OF girl. I'm still in
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college for nursing, which is really fun, and I'm 19. 19. And where are you from? Portland, Oregon.
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Grew up there? Pretty much. Born in Texas. I'd love to go back and get a little warm weather,
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but I'm in Portland right now. Okay. All right. And you said you're a bikini, what is it, barista?
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For the last year, I was working as a bikini barista. I have about two shifts left before
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I am done forever. And so what's that? You serve coffee in a bikini, or how does that work?
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Yeah, it's such a Portland thing. So I just serve coffee in lingerie or a bikini. Yeah. And there's
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no nudity? No. It's like a normal coffee. People come by, chit-chat a little more than usual.
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What about you? Hi, I'm Jocelyn. I'm 27. I was born and raised in Houston, Texas,
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but now I live in Los Angeles. Okay. I'm an actress. I just left my hostess job in Calabasas
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yesterday, but... You quit, or... Bad terms, good terms?
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Um... I walked away from it gracefully without burning bridges, but I did leave because of
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management. But I do have a psychology degree. Okay. From where? U of H, University of Houston.
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A bachelor's, master's? Bachelor's. Okay. Psychology degree. I want to come back to that a little bit
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later, but what about you? No, I'm Esther. I'm from Indiana, but I reside in Los Angeles.
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Where, we're from Indiana? Gary? It's a small town. It's called Batesville.
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Gary, Indiana? No. No? Okay, Batesville. Uh, you're how old?
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28. 28? Yep. Okay. Uh, what do you do for work?
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Um, I'm a stripper. I'm a musician and a YouTuber. Okay. And, uh, you, uh, education?
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High school and some college. Some college. What were you studying?
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No, I just went to college and high school. Just took some credits. Yeah. What about you?
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Hi, my name is Lonnie, but y'all can call me Sinclair. Um, I'm 22. I am a high school graduate,
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and I've been a dancer for, like, on and off, like, four years, I would say. I also did some,
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like, online content within that time. Only friends?
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Um, yeah, and then just, like, on my own type shit, and then, um...
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Type shit? Yeah, sorry. I didn't know if I, I didn't want to, I didn't want to, like,
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I wanted to, like, soft launch the shit, but, yeah, I say shit a lot. Um, other than that,
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I was a server for a long time, but, yeah, now I'm just dancing, and, um...
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When you say dancing, you mean, uh, strip club?
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Yeah. Okay. Like, pull, pull shit. Um, but I'm going, uh, I'm actually gonna,
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a future soldier for the army, so I'm gonna be leaving soon.
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Oh, you, you already, would it be enlisted? You already enlisted?
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No, I'm not, I have to, I'm, like, swearing in this month, though.
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Okay, that's the term, swearing in. Yeah. Okay. Yeah.
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That was a long sigh before he said, what about you?
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Um, I'm Valerie. I'm a music artist, and I also have a clothing brand.
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So, you guys will probably see me on TikTok scrolling through.
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No college, but I graduated. I graduated for sure.
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Um, I am 27, and occupation is, I do, um, branding and content operations for a cannabis brand,
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and then I also have a little regular job with the county.
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Okay, uh, so 27, and, uh, any college or university or anything?
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Yeah, um, I went to community college for a little bit, but I did not finish.
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Uh, I'm a server, I'm a comedian, and I am also a co-host on a podcast called How's It Over Bass?
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Uh, we do DNRs, so, yeah, that's, that's, that's my life right now.
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A lot of colleges, a lot of nothing happens, so.
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I'm Shara, I'm from Fallbrook, I'm a singer and a songwriter, I also own a holistic spa,
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and I'm 38 years old, and I'm sorry for being late.
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She was, you know, just a little late, an hour late.
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Going around the table once more, what's everybody's relationship status?
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So you did have a boyfriend in high school then?
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And that's the one that ended two to three years ago?
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Yeah, when I was like 16, so it wasn't serious.
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I think we just wanted different things in life, and he wasn't going to break up with
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So, yesterday was Valentine's Day, which is a topic we're going to focus on a little
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bit once we get through everyone's relationship status.
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Um, so, but when you say happily single, uh, what does that mean?
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Because you didn't just say single, you said happily single.
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Not actively dating, and I just like being in my own company, taking myself out.
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Now, sometimes, though, when we use the term date, people will only categorize a romantic
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hangout with a man, but not consider it a date.
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So, when I use the word date, I mean it perhaps less formally, a bit more casually.
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I mean it more in the sense of you have hung out and spent time with a guy one-on-one who
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you have an interest in, and there's a mutual interest.
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Does that shift to the time period of when you last had a date?
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Well, where it's like, I'm thinking, like, we're just hanging out.
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Did you, did you like fall into a date accidentally?
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Because sometimes girls will like meet up with a guy thinking, like not knowing it's a date,
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and then the guy's like, surprise, it's a date.
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He gave me three options, an adventure, chill, or an activity.
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So I chose an adventure, and he took me to San Diego for our first date.
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It was, you know, platonic, but I knew he was really into me.
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And by the time it was the end of the day where we had to go back on the train, I had
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And he like, yeah, a whole day trip, essentially.
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No, he probably thought that was going to happen, but I was like, take us back to the
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So was the plan for you guys to spend the night there?
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He was saying that, oh, like I always spend time in San Diego.
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So I have this like room always available to me.
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But we ended up just leaving my bag there and then like continued our day.
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It was basically a day trip together for a first date.
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And so why didn't it, because you said when you got back on the train, you, that was the
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When you met him at the bar the two days prior, how long had you guys conversed?
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So you didn't, you were, were you attracted to him at the bar?
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Like, so would you say the date, the, there wasn't, he wasn't being weird or anything?
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This is going to tie in perfectly with our Valentine's conversation, but, um, but so on
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the train ride back and just one point of clarification, you had originally intended,
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or at least he had originally intended for you guys to stay there.
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Now question, you said on the train ride, you're like, Hey, there's not going to be another
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Did you say that at the end of the train ride or at the beginning of the train ride?
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So there was another additional hour of awkwardness.
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You should have just, I mean, you could have saved that shit for later.
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But then I had to, but then we went to Union Station and then I would drive and then
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But it's like, but why say it in the middle of the day?
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Like why, why not just be like, uh, I'm not saying you had to like continue anything with
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the guy, but you could have just been like all the, the way it played out, you having
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told him in the middle of the train ride, you could have, everything would have been
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the same, but you could have told him like after, you know, I was just like, let's just
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Like if you went, like, if, uh, let's say that she's like, let's say you and me were married
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and then we went to Hawaii for some shit, like for, I don't know.
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And then like, as soon as we land in Hawaii, I'm like, Hey, by the way, we're getting a
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I feel like even if the plan, even if the plan, like I'm going to divorce you, I think it's
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like, well, I guess we can fuck a few more times in Hawaii.
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You know, like, I feel like you gotta wait until the vacation's over.
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No, I feel like you wait, you wait, timing, you know, timing.
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It's never a good time to let some reject somebody, I guess.
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But, uh, or to break up with somebody, the timing is never perfect, but.
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I feel like you should have waited a little bit.
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That's like, imagine you're about to get murdered by like a serial killer.
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He's got me tied up to a table about to harvest my organs.
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Cause like sometimes like nice guys, like they'll rather be your friend and wait until you're
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And he probably knew you had to take him home, too.
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If he's a mature guy, even though the timing perhaps wasn't perfect, you're not gonna,
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you're just gonna, I mean, it's unideal timing, but you're not gonna blow up the entire
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Have there been any guys in the picture at all in any capacity?
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But I guess since the date, since that date, because you said the last time you went on
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So in the past year, I guess you could say, have there been any other guys in the picture?
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And so, you know, when you're in LA, you'd be bumping into all the rappers, all these.
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Are they white rappers, black rappers, Latino rappers?
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And so, you've bumped into and had situations, situations with some rappers.
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And when you meet them, it's what, like at a bar, club, party?
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But rappers be going to jazz clubs trying to find beats or what?
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Who liked, just curious, just curious about it.
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I thought Bad Bunny was a girl until the Super Bowl.
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It was honestly probably could have been one of the worst.
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I mean, I like, I seen the clip where he pulled out all the, like, Latino flags.
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But I'm talking, when I say it was bad, I'm talking about the quality of the music.
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Okay, because, like, a lot of people don't understand the Super Bowl because of where
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Like, you, you gotta be raised into that culture.
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There's, there's Spanish music that I like and enjoy, and I think it has good rhythm,
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Look, Bad Bunny is so lacking, frankly, and lacking in talent.
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Maybe that's a indictment of the sort of cultural and social zeitgeist that currently exist.
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I love how short you're able to keep your face while you're doing this bit.
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So, I mean, ultimately, what I'm talking about here.
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So, I'm saying his music, I think, is not particularly good.
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I don't speak Spanish, but I mean, I actually did look.
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I translated the lyrics from the halftime show.
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And I think the first one is, I have a lot of girlfriends.
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I'm going to take them to the VIP, the VIP, A-A-A-A, oy, oy, oy.
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That's what all those songs are about, literally.
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There's some rappers who I think are talented, and who have good melody.
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But, yeah, I mean, and it has nothing to do, again, you're trying to make it about, like, the culture or whatever.
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No, there's rap artists or whatever that I enjoy.
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I could name you more rappers and hip-hop artists than I could name country artists, but I don't dislike country.
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There's some country I like, but, I mean, my music tastes are more like 80s, or, sorry, not 80s, 90s.
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I mean, look, there's some 80s stuff that's really good.
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It just makes sense, because, like, Spanish music is more like country.
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Like, they talk about drinking and ladies and heartbreak, like country music.
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So, when people say that they don't like Spanish music, but they like country music, I get confused,
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because it's kind of the same thing, just in a different font, you know?
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Well, you do realize, regardless of the subject or topic of the song, there's other components of the song besides the actual topic of the song or the things brought up in the song.
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Like, for example, you would agree that there's some love songs that are really good, and then some love songs that are fucking dog shit.
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So, it's not about, well, he's talking about these things.
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My criticism is about the quality of the music itself.
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Well, I would say, for example, what do I feel makes a song?
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Yeah, do you feel like it's the melodies, or do you feel like it's the lyrics that are written in the song?
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Because I'm trying to figure out, like, what you're against as far as, like, Bad Bunny's music.
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Because, obviously, you don't understand his lyrics.
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Or maybe you'll look up the lyrics, and you'll think they're BS.
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And you're like, oh, but his melodies are cool.
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My criticism, and again, I can tell you, there's music in other languages that I enjoy.
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Like, I can enjoy, there's songs in Spanish that I find really nice.
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So, it's not about the misunderstanding, not understanding the lyrics.
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It's just, I mean, look, the actual lyrical quality is quite poor.
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But I think for Hispanic people, they read it, or they listen to it differently than we do.
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Because I don't know Spanish, I don't know Spanish either.
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So, I feel like a person that knows and understands Spanish, they listen to the music differently than we do.
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I'm gonna listen to this song from Bad Bunny, and I don't know, like, anything he's saying.
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So, um, and you might say this is a bit of an extreme example.
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If we go, if we fast forward 50 years, do you think that they're still gonna be listening to Michael Jackson?
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Do you think they'll be listening to the Beatles?
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Uh, do you think in 50 years, people are gonna be listening to Bad Bunny?
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You can take an 18-year-old and play them Michael Jackson, and they're gonna be like,
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Okay, but did you look at the numbers for the Super Bowl as well, for the people that
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And the people that were watching the Bad Bunny Super Bowl?
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Um, do you think just because a lot of people like something, that that is actually representative
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Like, a lot of people like fast food and junk food.
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You could say, you like, you like a hot dog, and all you guys like a hot dog, but I don't
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like this hot dog from this place, because I think it's crap, and maybe because I have
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better quality taste of food, because I'm from somewhere else separately.
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From where you guys are, because maybe you guys grew up in an area where they serve crappy
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hot dogs, and that's the best hot dog that you can take.
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Um, so, hmm, I'm wondering if I would reframe this a little bit.
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I mean, McDonald's is still open, so, if you're talking about businesses and everything, like,
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McDonald's is shit, but it's still open, people still go.
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People still love it, love to eat, like, that doesn't mean that they're actually giving you
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typically quality food, um, and the, well, there's a whole other conversation to be had.
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I mean, they might be lying, but people still eat it.
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Let me ask you, if, like, 97% of people were cool with pedophilia, would that make it okay?
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Okay, this is, that's a completely separate subject.
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So, if, uh, 97% of people were like, you know what, this crime is totally okay.
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But this is a harmful thing compared to something that is not harmful.
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You gotta compare something that's harmful compared to something that may also be harmful.
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Bad Bunny performing in the Super Bowl and having more people watch him than Michael Jackson,
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which I'm not, I love Michael Jackson, by the way.
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No, he's not better, any better than Michael Jackson.
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Bad Bunny's like, it's like, Bad Bunny is a quarter he can do.
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But it's about separating, it's about separating the two, though.
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I think where you, where you lack is you don't know how to separate the two.
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You're asking me if Bad Bunny is better than Michael Jackson.
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Because they're not, they're not even the same genre.
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If I was to say, I don't know, who else is another artist that's similar to Bad Bunny?
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That's why they win separate Grammys for different categories.
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Well, the Grammys are a fucking scam, but tell me, tell me.
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No, but to say he was just a rapper, he was singing or attempting to sing.
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Moral of the story, Bad Bunny's mid, and a lot of us don't even listen to him.
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I'm allowed to say I would never listen to Bad Bunny, so.
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Can you guys, if I'm talking, like detect that I'm talking and just let me get through
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Of course, he is widely popular in the sense that a lot of people listen to him.
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It's really good for his career that he scored the Super Bowl.
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In fact, my understanding is he did, like, he was in a previous Super Bowl, too.
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He wasn't, like, the headliner, but he, like, did an appearance, I think it was a couple
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Well, if I was Bad Bunny, I wouldn't really give a crap what you say because I would have
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But if you are, at least he's going to admit that.
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How can you hate from outside the club or something like that?
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Anyways, okay, I don't know how we got to the Bad Bunny thing.
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You're musician guys that you hook up with or whatever.
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Well, we'll continue with the relationship status then.
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So, that was like a high school relationship then?
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I've only had two boyfriends and they were both like in high school and then like a little
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My last relationship lasted about two and a half years.
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So, that was kind of a high school relationship too?
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My last relationship had to be about like four years ago, actually.
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You sure you didn't smoke weed before the show?
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Uh, let's give it, like, um, because I'm going to tell him myself.
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So, okay, you've been with him for four years, then?
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But the current guy who you've been with for four years, not one of the fathers of the kids.
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You don't know who the biological father of your kids are?
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Well, it took you, like, ten seconds to arrive at a no.
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It's because he's, like, all, like, asking how many of these kids are.
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It's because, like, I know people are going to watch this, and I'm just like...
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It felt like an interrogation that I just watched right now.
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Um, I have a seven-year-old, and I have an almost two-year-old.
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So, the guy who it's complicated with, you've been with for four years, but you have a two-year-old...
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I understand sometimes people have periods where they're not seeing somebody.
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The guy who it's currently been complicated with for four years.
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Because it's been complicated with this guy for four years.
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You have a child that's, you said, about two years old.
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That means about three years ago, you got pregnant by a different man.
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So, were you, like, seeing him for a year, and then y'all broke up?
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Prior to you getting pregnant from the other guy, had you had sex...
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...with the guy who it's currently complicated with?
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So, you guys were just friends for four years...
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Who's the father of your most recent kid, the two-year-old.
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Was it with the father of one of your children?
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Does he pay you child support, the first father?
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Okay, so then, how long were you dating the father of your second child?
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Before I got pregnant, it was like about a year.
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Okay, so you were with him for a year, then you got pregnant, then you...
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You were friends with the currently complicated guy.
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When did you start seeing, dating, hanging out with, hooking up with current, it's complicated guy?
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The guy it's currently complicated with, you've been seeing him for a year.
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We'd be feeling like it's not good for us to be in a relationship.
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But, like, we can't stay away from each other, you know?
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But you've only been intimate, seeing each other for about one year?
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What's the longest relationship you've ever had?
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Really quick, I just wanted to go around the table.
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I don't know if I want to answer that, to be honest.
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But I would say I'm queer, but I don't know if I'm okay with that.
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Wait, when you say you're not okay with that, what do you mean?
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Like, my whole life, I've been queer, and I've, like, known it, and I was, like, I called
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myself bisexual for a long time, and I have been with women and stuff, but, like, I feel
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like, recently, I've just had a lot of conviction about it, and I haven't even, like, I don't
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have attraction to women anymore at all, ever since I, like, started praying about it.
00:39:54.100
I've been Christian, um, I mean, I was raised Christian, so my whole life, but I was, uh,
00:40:01.040
like, I was not a believer since I was, like, the age of 12, and then I, like, discovered,
00:40:07.620
like, different religions and kind of did my own research, and then I came back to Christianity,
00:40:18.580
Uh, so, queer, pansexual, or no, you're, sorry, you're pansexual, queer, kind of debating
00:40:50.300
Like, I started being religious, so I stopped, I stopped talking to girls.
00:40:55.160
But you, you previously had dated or been with women.
00:41:04.780
Oh, I am single, but if you think I'm talking to you, I probably am.
00:41:11.840
I'm single, but if you think we're dating, we probably are.
00:41:16.060
It's like, I don't have a, I don't, I'm single, I don't have a girlfriend, but I know a girl
00:41:21.520
who would be very mad if she heard me say that.
00:41:33.940
Uh, when did that, how long have you been single for?
00:41:35.880
Um, so my last relationship I got out of in June, cause it was like hella toxic, crazy,
00:41:45.420
Seven, so what, I think that's seven, eight months or so.
00:41:52.840
That was like, um, from the November before that to June.
00:42:43.220
They're going to ask me if it's like a C-section or like through my vaginal area.
00:42:57.100
But it's, it's from, both of them are, share the same father.
00:43:06.740
No, they do, but they just, I had two of them in different fonts.
00:43:32.560
I'm trying to think if there's something else I wanted to ask on this.
00:44:16.340
How long was the relationship with the children?
00:44:24.740
Uh, financial money paid for the benefit of the children?
00:44:36.780
So you don't have a formal court-ordered child support?
00:44:43.760
Well, I don't think it's classic, but what's he do for work?
00:44:48.500
He alleges that he is not a business owner, though.
00:45:03.840
I mean, unless he's really sophisticated in hiding his money.
00:45:07.580
Or maybe he's a business owner, or maybe he's a business owner, but you could be a business owner and make, like, $10,000 a year or so.
00:45:18.920
You could report really low and then accept a lot of cash and just not tell.
00:45:24.420
Like, if you have, like, a business and it has a lot of cash flow, you can, like, report, like, limited amounts.
00:45:32.560
But, I mean, some businesses are not dealing in cash, so that would be a little bit harder to hide.
00:45:42.520
Custody, is it split, or you have sole custody?
00:45:47.920
So, the kids, the two kids, right, spends, or is it one kid or two kids?
00:45:51.880
So, they spend some time at the father's house?
00:45:56.100
And then, going back to you, so you have the two kids, but you're not with the father anymore?
00:46:12.320
No, I just, we had, I always had this agreement with him that I wouldn't do, like, a whole child support thing,
00:46:19.240
because as long as he was a good father and a good man to my kids, I wouldn't make him pay child support, but that might change very soon.
00:46:28.640
Just because I'm literally doing everything on my own.
00:46:32.680
Like, he doesn't help me out with extracurriculars or anything.
00:46:36.720
It was supposed to be, since we have joint custody, he was supposed to be able to be, like, take care of his end.
00:46:42.060
But now I'm paying for his end and my end, so he's not doing that.
00:46:49.800
And in terms of the custody arrangement, it's not, like, through the court.
00:46:58.320
No, well, because we were married, so we had to handle it in court.
00:47:01.840
So it was determined, the custody arrangement was determined in court.
00:47:10.840
Here, really quick before we get into the, I wanted to, I made some notes.
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Let me, I, there's a couple of notes I wanted to get through.
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There's some crazy shit going on with the Valentine's day.
00:55:23.780
You are attracted to men, women, and non-binary and trans.
00:55:34.240
Pansexual is like, you'll fuck men, women, non-binary, trans.
00:55:39.320
It doesn't matter what they have, but I like them based off of personality.
00:55:44.100
Have you been with a non-binary or trans person?
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Um, well, I don't really have much else to say on that.
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So about four years ago, four or five years ago.
00:56:07.120
Um, and you had a bachelor's degree in psychology from university of Austin, Houston, Texas.
00:56:14.780
I was at UT first, but I, but then you went to, okay, got it.
00:56:18.940
Uh, can you relate to me your biggest takeaway from college, like from what your academic
00:56:28.040
thing, what you learned, not, you know, just from schooling, education.
00:56:34.700
Cause you could say, well, during college, I met all these cool people and I learned
00:56:38.680
how to socialize, but actually what you learned in the classroom.
00:56:43.840
Um, well, psychology was always something I was interested in, something I wanted to
00:56:50.540
But in college, I mostly kind of got into entrepreneurship and that program specifically
00:56:55.840
helped me with pitching, which is something that I carry on today, every day.
00:57:01.260
But, but like in terms of, cause you got your degree in psychology, right?
00:57:06.380
Like relate to us, if you had to impart to us, your lessons learned about psychology,
00:57:21.760
It does take men longer to grow their frontal lobe.
00:57:29.160
But I mean, you learned that in psychology or you learned that from like an Instagram
00:57:34.720
It's from psychology, but I think it became something that was like, now everyone just
00:57:40.680
But, but I mean, this, this almost seems like something you would learn in like freshman
00:57:47.060
intro to psychology, but you have a bachelor's degree in psychology.
00:57:51.320
So what I'm looking for is what, like, I'm assuming there's some more like higher level,
00:57:56.980
advanced conceptual thing that you learned in psychology that you could relate to us.
00:58:02.320
Given you have a degree from a decent university.
00:58:06.460
I think it's just, you know, being empathetic to other people, listening to them and identifying
00:58:13.940
certain mental, like illnesses or conditions are a little bit sooner.
00:58:22.000
It just helped me kind of navigate myself through the world and not take certain things too personal.
00:58:29.820
I'm like, okay, maybe this person's like this way because of the, um, yeah.
00:58:34.980
So, so empathy, detecting mental illnesses and communication.
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I can spot to some degree, mental illness and people.
00:58:54.700
So I'm looking for something specifically that you could relate to us in terms of your
00:59:06.680
And that's like, well, the big takeaway, could it, she mentioned empathy and detecting mental
00:59:18.660
I had scholarship and then whatever we had the stimulus.
00:59:33.660
There took a gap year and dropped out and then went back and finished the two years like
00:59:40.560
I mean, when you get your bachelor's degree in psychology, that means you've taken some
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You've taken, I mean, that's your major, right?
00:59:51.000
So I'm assuming there's some psych, psych principles, psychology principles, given you
00:59:57.300
have a degree from a, like how to read people's body language or something.
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I don't even know if that would be taught in psychology necessarily.
01:00:05.940
But what is, I mean, I'm assuming you had to take tests and write essays.
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So like when you, what can you relate to us in terms of what you learned?
01:00:28.060
Like you're like your biggest takeaway from college.
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So the subject would be psychology, which was your major.
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I would assume if you've majored in psychology, you would be able to relate to us.
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I'm not asking for you to like, give me, give me everything that you learned in the two,
01:00:48.480
Give me like one takeaway from your specific discipline.
01:01:03.780
But you are, you can like analyze it and understand and like kind of more label it a specific way,
01:01:12.240
And honestly, I got the degree, but it's not something I even use anymore.
01:01:17.300
If, unless you apply it to acting now, which is kind of helps, but it's not,
01:01:22.260
I'm not going to become like a therapist or a psychiatrist.
01:01:27.240
I kind of think now, I do think that there are definitely certain disciplines in the universities that are legitimate.
01:01:35.420
And, you know, you look at the, uh, some of the harder sciences, the heart, not harder, hard science, psychology is a soft science.
01:01:43.140
The hard sciences, you look at math, science, technology, biology, physics, et cetera.
01:01:50.100
And, uh, you're, you're taking a program like that.
01:02:00.180
Typically, if you're doing biology, you're going to become a doctor, a doctor.
01:02:04.560
Um, and that has a certain, I guess, well, it's not just a certain, it has a clear cut value, but with these soft sciences, you got dance, people majoring in dance, people majoring, which is a step below psychology.
01:02:19.220
I would say, um, you know, people, uh, fucking, what is it?
01:02:25.880
There's books, I guess, but part of me thinks college and university is a bit of an adult daycare for a lot of people.
01:02:33.760
Um, and it seems like a lot of people don't actually learn anything.
01:02:37.680
And like, like you said, you have this degree, uh, it sounds like it's good though.
01:02:51.940
A lot of people graduate with like crippling student loan debt and they're like, okay, I'm
01:02:56.000
not even, then they go into career field if, if even, and then they just aren't even applying
01:03:02.040
the things that they learned, uh, really in the, in terms of their career.
01:03:08.520
So I think there's a component of university and college that there, there is an important
01:03:13.900
component where like for some career fields, you absolutely have to go.
01:03:17.840
And it's unquestionable, but a lot of, I don't know, a lot of it just seems like kind of
01:03:27.140
I think it's, I think people going to school for the wrong reason.
01:03:30.540
If you know what you want to be, like you want to be a doctor, you've got to go to school
01:03:35.380
I went into it with, okay, I'm first generation.
01:03:43.020
But later in life, it did not mean like I was going to go into a career with it, but
01:03:47.800
that doesn't mean I, it didn't help me build my foundation of what I do now.
01:03:53.540
It just seems like a little, just don't go into student debt if you don't really know
01:04:04.220
People are not going to have full recall of things from even shorter periods of time,
01:04:11.700
But like, for example, is anybody currently in college here?
01:04:20.440
What do you, what's the, are you currently in the class right now?
01:04:23.560
Um, yeah, I'm taking online courses, but I'm not.
01:04:31.360
And then that's it for this term, but I'm going to jump into harder classes.
01:04:34.740
Have you taken a test yet in psych, psychology?
01:04:43.600
I will say some of the classes were so pointless that I couldn't believe it.
01:04:48.820
Unfortunately, uh, there are some requirements for nursing that just, you have to get through.
01:04:56.280
And then some are very helpful, like anatomy and physiology, um, biology.
01:05:01.520
But like psychology, you're currently taking it.
01:05:03.720
I guess I would ask you, tell me something you've learned in psychology.
01:05:19.260
You really like learn how to read people being nervous and how they carry themselves and when
01:05:27.620
But there, so you're taking, uh, is it, what's the title of the class?
01:05:39.280
So they're giving you body language breakdowns.
01:05:44.780
So tell me something about reading body language from not just your own observation, but that
01:05:58.220
I'd say so, but it can be like such small movements.
01:06:01.100
And then, um, what are they fucking teaching in college?
01:06:11.360
I feel like you learned that on a Netflix show.
01:06:15.340
You're not going to let anyone into the hospital to, you know, help with that.
01:06:19.920
And you're not going to let anyone be a doctor, but oh my gosh.
01:06:26.500
My sister did that first thing, uh, went to college sorority girl.
01:06:31.120
And I, I think it was the most pointless thing ever.
01:06:36.260
Um, I, if, if I was the, if I was dictator, here's what I'd do.
01:06:43.740
I'd probably, uh, I'd keep all the hard sciences.
01:06:53.700
I'm either completely getting rid of all the, uh, the soft science disciplines completely
01:06:58.700
gone or I keep them, but there's absolutely zero government subsidy.
01:07:03.880
So they need to be able to self fund either through students who are paying for it and
01:07:09.320
you can't, um, we're going to rework how you can get student loans because not everybody
01:07:13.580
should go to college, but completely either completely get rid of soft sciences, completely
01:07:20.720
Uh, look, maybe private institutions can teach that shit.
01:07:26.480
But public systems, absolutely no soft sciences, none of this bullshit.
01:07:30.840
You want to, you want the public, uh, tax, taxpayers to subsidize your education or even
01:07:36.400
fully pay for it under my perfect utopian, uh, rule.
01:07:42.120
You're going to be studying math, physics, engineering, something like that.
01:07:45.440
Something that will actually contribute to the, to the benefit of society.
01:07:55.020
Because then we won't have any empathetic people.
01:07:58.200
We're just going to have all these robots that know math and physics and make everything
01:08:05.460
We need to fund people in hard classes contributing to hard roles in society because there's not
01:08:11.400
There's not enough people brave enough to go into debt.
01:08:19.120
But we shouldn't have the government funding artists.
01:08:22.180
You need those people who are emotionally intelligent, not necessarily like logic people.
01:08:27.300
You need logic people and you also need like people.
01:08:34.920
I do think that there is a benefit to, you know, the arts and entertainment, but not at
01:08:41.920
So people can pursue these in their private capacity and in a private capacity, but the
01:08:48.800
taxpayer should not be subsidizing dance classes.
01:08:54.620
They shouldn't be subsidizing any of that shit.
01:09:00.640
Well, like, also, really quick, I reject this idea that somehow college, if you're in
01:09:07.620
the soft sciences, that this teaches you to be empathetic.
01:09:11.760
For example, people who are doctors, they typically study biology.
01:09:15.400
Are you saying that because they're studying a hard science, they're lacking in empathy?
01:09:19.320
I actually think doctors tend to be quite empathetic.
01:09:27.360
Oh, well, if you study, if you're in the hard sciences, you're completely devoid of empathy.
01:09:34.700
Now, maybe there are some liberal arts, like philosophy, that could be interesting in the
01:09:40.140
sense that we still need people who know, like, how to think and logic and this sort
01:09:54.660
I think if you're going into, like, the arts and theater and whatever, I think you already
01:10:04.040
I think it's just, and I do agree those classes should exist, but I don't think they should
01:10:07.380
be as funded as things like science and nursing and, you know, law.
01:10:14.120
And, like, the harder to go into, harder to stay in, especially financially, there's so
01:10:19.800
many smart people out there who just can't afford to go to college.
01:10:26.140
I think this shit just goes back to the dawn of time, low key.
01:10:30.440
Like, what you're talking about is you're basically saying that, like, okay, in your
01:10:34.040
perfect society, there would only be funding for, like, STEM, pretty much.
01:10:39.700
And then fuck all the artists and the people who want to pursue music.
01:10:43.740
They got to pay for that shit on their own, right?
01:10:46.180
But what I think is, I think that the reason why the artists exist and that there is a job
01:10:52.360
for them is because we made a capitalist society where the people who work in STEM and they,
01:11:02.560
I see guys all the time, like, businessmen or whatever, who they're constantly thinking
01:11:06.880
with, I don't know if it's the left or right side of the brain, whatever.
01:11:14.000
Yeah, they don't have anybody in their life who is just, like, artistic and expressive
01:11:17.760
and they want to see, like, something expressive and more, like, meaning, like, emotional because
01:11:25.760
So when you're giving a lap dance, are you talking about, like, philosophy?
01:11:33.980
I mean, honestly, guys, I've been there for all types of stuff.
01:11:36.780
Like, yeah, sometimes a dude will literally pay me out and then he will just want me to talk
01:11:42.080
So in order to get a job at a strip club, do you need a college degree?
01:11:52.940
You're saying society needs these people that fit this need.
01:11:57.780
We live in a capitalist society where you have to make money to get by.
01:12:01.620
But your argument is, well, I provide the service, but you provide the service absent having
01:12:06.220
the college education and you say you provide it well.
01:12:09.800
My argument has to do with these disciplines in universities are kind of, to some degree,
01:12:19.600
Well, I think that if I had a degree or if I had an education where I could actually,
01:12:25.280
like, afford to go do dance or theater or whatever, I would have a better job where
01:12:28.940
I wouldn't have to put myself out like that and put myself in danger, like, precarious
01:12:32.520
situations with men, like, because I would have paid for college and then I would be
01:12:37.240
able to work somewhere more, like, than a strip club.
01:12:40.300
I mean, if you took dance, if you were a dance major...
01:12:44.740
Because, okay, so, you know, medicine heals you, yes.
01:12:49.780
Like, have you ever been in a horrible time and you turn on Eminem and you're like, yeah,
01:12:55.020
And now, like, now you're feeling a little bit better now that you listen to that just
01:12:59.020
because it's not a physical, like, medicine that you're taking.
01:13:07.000
Well, I mean, she was asking me a question, so I'm going to respond.
01:13:12.420
But, so, look, I'm not entirely downplaying the pros or benefits of some of the arts, right?
01:13:20.340
So, of course, I think music, for a lot of people, it's something that is very important
01:13:35.180
The way I would structure society is not zero entertainment.
01:13:39.180
You're just going to be a good machine worker cog in the system.
01:13:43.300
But what I'm talking about specifically is what the taxpayer should be subsidizing.
01:13:47.740
And so, I'm not dismissing the value that entertainment provides.
01:13:52.100
I, as an entertainer, I'm sort of, to some degree, invested in that.
01:13:58.100
But entertainment, absolutely, whether it's music, whether it's film, whether it's TV,
01:14:12.700
Like, okay, you wake up, you work, and then you work until you go to sleep, and then you
01:14:18.560
People need, to some degree, things that soothe them.
01:14:41.860
Um, but what I'm saying is, the taxpayer should not be subsidizing.
01:14:58.060
Uh, should the taxpayer subsidize me getting pussy?
01:15:07.060
There's bigger fish to fry than, like, the fucking...
01:15:13.580
Your logic is, if it's important, taxpayers should subsidize it.
01:15:18.420
Not all things that are important should be subsidized by the taxpayer.
01:15:23.620
But, I'm saying a lot of money goes into training for that.
01:15:27.400
Or, it's going to be bad and trash if, you know, like...
01:15:37.000
They didn't come out of the university systems.
01:15:42.720
Some were classically trained, or they're trained in music, or whatever.
01:15:52.240
I mean, even in high school, there could be some adjustments to the curriculum they teach.
01:15:59.100
I don't know if it's expensive to have, like, a band class in high school.
01:16:13.680
The future actors that make all your favorite movies?
01:16:18.580
Honestly, within three years, it's fucking over.
01:16:21.660
AI, everybody's going to be gigafucked with AI, I think.
01:16:32.480
It was Brad Pitt fighting Tom Cruise, and it was AI-generated.
01:16:42.020
I actually think a lot of people are going to be out of the job, to be honest.
01:16:59.400
I get nervous because I've had customers use my face in AI.
01:17:02.380
They've come up to me and been like, look at this.
01:17:10.120
I don't know if it's even an existential threat, but I do think that there's going to be massive
01:17:15.840
societal upheaval due to AI because what kind of economic system are you going to be able
01:17:20.240
to have where basically people don't have a job because, well, AI just does it better.
01:17:25.680
So, I mean, who knows what society is going to look like 5, 10, 15, 20, 30, 40 years from
01:17:38.600
I mean, the entertainment industry maybe has another decade.
01:17:46.880
Because didn't ChatGPT like reboot itself or something?
01:17:53.480
I don't know about like AI being like an actual threat in the sense of the AI would be hostile
01:17:59.700
But I do think we're going to see massive job replacement.
01:18:05.320
I would hope that we don't go the route of letting AI be an actor.
01:18:13.340
They're taking out people in a call center and replacing them with AI.
01:18:17.680
I think we'll adapt to AI, but it's not going to completely erase.
01:18:21.580
I mean, right now they're actually taking away artists, too.
01:18:26.740
The AI, R&B artists out here signed to an actual record label.
01:18:32.100
It's like, how are you going to go to her concerts when she's AI?
01:18:35.320
But sometimes that helps, like, Avicii, like, going to, like, an EDM concert.
01:18:40.380
And, like, Avicii's dead, but we can literally go to an EDM concert and watch him, like...
01:18:56.560
So, I guess AI can be beneficial to the entertainment industry, because, like, I'm...
01:19:01.280
But still, like, a lot of new artists, you know?
01:19:04.520
But, like, someone, like, an R&B artist, though, it takes more, like, soul and, like, more heart.
01:19:13.680
But I'm saying, like, as far as the concert performance was.
01:19:17.000
Within a year, actually, probably already exists, there's going to be AI music that's definitely
01:19:29.340
You're going to get a lot of Bad Bunny coming after you.
01:19:47.240
They probably were, like, the silent generation, or I don't know what fucking gen it was.
01:20:04.700
But imagine how spoiled people were in, like, the 80s, 70s, 80s, 90s, 2000s, when they're
01:20:24.620
I don't think you're gonna see an AI Super Bowl.
01:20:31.480
I said before there was Michael Jackson, there was Jackson 5.
01:20:40.060
You're not doing it right if you don't have haters.
01:20:43.000
I mean, of course they hated him because he was black, but not because his music was trash.
01:20:46.540
But they made it about the music because he was black.
01:20:52.380
I don't know if their criticisms were about the quality of his music.
01:21:08.840
Well, like, what's one modern artist that you like now?
01:21:26.420
I feel like there's a lot of current music that I listen to that's pretty good,
01:21:29.040
but it's obviously very different in comparison to, like, oldies and classics.
01:21:32.840
But I do listen to a lot of, like, young artists and people who make stuff on their own,
01:21:56.880
Me being late had such an effect because I didn't think that you were...
01:22:04.420
Once I let you guys know that I was going to be late, that you would let me be on the show.
01:22:08.740
So that's why I decided to notify you, and when you decided to take me on, I was grateful,
01:22:14.060
and I tried to get out as soon as possible from work.
01:22:25.140
I would like to be, but right now I'm working at a resort as an esthetician, so...
01:22:41.100
You were late to the whatever podcast because you got a facial?
01:22:47.400
I had a last-minute, and it was a mom and a daughter, and they were celebrating, and I
01:22:51.880
was like, okay, I'm going to do this really fast, and I actually...
01:23:03.800
You're right, but as a provider, it is hard to turn people down.
01:23:07.380
I'm sure it's hard for you guys to turn lap dances.
01:23:13.280
No, I've been saying no to a lot of motherfuckers lately, and I'm going to turn it down.
01:23:33.840
This is kind of a learning experience, you know?
01:23:41.360
Look, hey, you're here now, but I feel like if you've made a commitment to be somewhere
01:24:08.180
It wasn't cool, and I'm surprised that you took me, to be honest with you, but what I
01:24:17.220
So it was like, you were at work, and you were otherwise planning to leave work earlier,
01:24:22.480
and you were scheduled to leave work earlier, and you were aware of the time you were supposed
01:24:45.060
So you were contemplating just not even coming.
01:24:52.620
No, I was under the impression that you were going to tell me not to come, and then I was
01:24:58.300
I mean, it's a podcast that millions of people watch, so I wasn't expecting that my presence
01:25:15.820
I just wanted to give a facial to a sweet girl.
01:25:27.580
I know who's trying to give a facial to a sweet girl.
01:26:05.800
It's like, you meet some people and it's just like...
01:26:07.980
Yeah, but no, I think there is a degree of, as you're older, especially if you're from
01:26:12.460
our generation, we're both millennials, there's a...
01:26:18.240
People today are very flaky and even people our age are very flaky.
01:26:29.940
No, if I tell somebody I'm a beast somewhere...
01:26:32.840
If I tell somebody I'm a beast somewhere, and I don't know if this has just gone out the
01:27:01.480
I thought I was going to say, I'm sorry, that's too late.
01:27:13.380
So, like, do you ever have people who, like, no show on you?
01:27:29.300
I almost feel like you should have some empathy here in the sense that...
01:27:32.380
As somebody who works in an industry where you schedule people in to arrive at a time, and
01:27:50.220
I don't know if you got some cash in your purse.
01:28:04.620
I will forgive your vile and obscene and egregious trespass against me and the whatever podcast.
01:28:15.620
The payments that you received for the facial ought to be transferred to me.
01:28:35.220
Whatever they pay you, you should just give that to me.
01:29:13.660
I'm just saying that there's a lot more we could do.
01:29:15.160
I've opted to not insult any of you on your looks, but since you guys...
01:29:20.640
Since you guys have decided to go there, do you have lip filler?
01:29:41.940
I'm getting ready to kick some of you off the show right now.
01:29:51.300
Like, I'm not going to just insult you guys just out of the blue, but I didn't miss your
01:30:04.460
I quite clearly stated I'm not interested in receiving your facial services.
01:30:23.160
I feel like everybody needs that in their life.
01:30:35.860
I guess we could do a segment here related to the money situation.
01:31:20.660
Oftentimes, women, whether you're a sex worker or not, we do have some sex workers here at
01:31:30.740
I like to do this thing where it's a bit of a role reversal.
01:31:38.380
Guys will just send you money just for existing.
01:31:59.160
Well, for that to work, you have to be enamored by the person that you're giving the money to.
01:32:08.260
It's like people pay me for how I look and how I act or whatever.
01:32:13.700
It's effortless, and it seems like we're not doing anything to earn it.
01:32:20.760
If I had some dollars, I would throw them at you.
01:32:23.440
Well, no, I don't want the money to be thrown at me, but you can hand it to me politely.
01:32:28.620
But, okay, so I guess that's a no for that, no for that, no for that, no for that.
01:32:36.020
All right, we're going to jump into our first topic here.
01:32:39.460
There's Valentine's, but we need to get into, hold on, let me see.
01:32:46.140
Okay, so most of you here are single, except for two of you, complicated, engaged, single,
01:32:52.660
single, single, single, single, and then single here, are you in the corner?
01:33:02.400
No, I've been on dates recently, but there's no guy.
01:33:07.420
And you claim to be, I wish I almost brought this up earlier, you claim to be a virgin.
01:33:27.200
Well, you shake your ass at what appears to be a strip club.
01:33:30.820
I actually just make, no, it's like a little coffee cart.
01:33:33.240
No, it's like a little tiny, it's so cute, guys.
01:33:58.420
It's been a blur the last year because I actually used to be very against OnlyFans one year ago.
01:34:02.580
So, and I've always had these morals and I've always had these, not morals, sorry, I don't
01:34:07.880
want to, not, it's like a, it's a personal preference.
01:34:13.380
But a year ago I started to wait till marriage.
01:34:17.920
And a year ago I started Bikini Coffee because it's cute, fun, innocent.
01:34:21.460
I didn't have to do anything I wasn't uncomfortable with.
01:34:24.240
And I'm just talking to people, like normal conversations.
01:34:26.880
And I found out how much these women could make on OF and I saw opportunity to set myself
01:34:37.340
I want to set myself up to open a business in the future.
01:34:41.260
I am helping myself grow and that doesn't change that I want to wait till marriage.
01:34:56.880
Um, you did date a guy though and you wrote you were sugar mommy.
01:35:03.180
It's hard when you start making good money because it sets the dynamic off.
01:35:08.260
Um, and that's why I mentioned I won't date a man now who makes less than me.
01:35:17.620
Um, because it was like my ex from high school and we started talking again and I have my own
01:35:24.460
apartment and it's like, he starts, you know, using that and he wants to stay over all the
01:35:30.780
And I like, I can afford so much and he was in debt and it's just such a weird dynamic.
01:35:40.960
So you were being a sugar mommy for a guy who you were not sleeping with.
01:35:47.140
Um, the worst brother now, but so you're waiting until marriage, your claim to be a virgin.
01:35:52.500
Um, what is the grounding for you wanting to wait until marriage?
01:35:59.320
It didn't come from religion, but I am religious.
01:36:03.620
Uh, I actually found Christianity on my own and it was just before I started being a bikini
01:36:10.740
And I actually get a lot of hate for this, but I prayed for a job and I prayed for financial
01:36:18.560
That's the most retarded shit I've fucking heard, but okay.
01:36:24.440
So, um, you, you prayed to God and God directed you into OnlyFans, sex work.
01:36:35.120
OnlyFans, I will admit, I think that is relatively on maybe a sinning side, but everyone sins and
01:36:43.940
we all get forgiven for our sins, but I do it in the best way I can.
01:36:48.000
If you look at my Instagram, I post in the best way I can.
01:36:51.480
If you even go to my content, I'm not doing anything crazy.
01:36:59.780
I post authentic content of me as a person, and if people want to support me, that's up to
01:37:05.140
So are you, just to be clear, are you a virgin?
01:37:19.060
Can you let her, you don't need a quip every time she talks.
01:37:23.420
And I may not know as much as some because I grew up in almost, partially anti-religious
01:37:42.900
But yeah, so I, honestly, I'm so proud of myself because I've come so far, and I found
01:37:48.880
And I started going to church by myself, and I started talking to people there, and my
01:37:52.980
favorite thing is meeting grandmas there, and they're so sweet.
01:37:56.060
And just learning from people who want to live their best life.
01:37:59.740
What's the denomination of the church you go to?
01:38:05.840
No, I just go to one, but I'm moving, so I need to find a new one.
01:38:08.840
The one you've been going to, what denomination is it?
01:38:26.160
What's the denomination of the church you go to?
01:38:34.820
I will admit there was a period where I couldn't go because of my work schedule, but I'm doing
01:38:49.180
I grew up Catholic, but now I'm non-denominational.
01:38:54.720
So even before you found Christianity, you always wanted to wait until marriage?
01:39:04.860
Just curious, for the women at the table, do you believe her, that she's a virgin?
01:39:19.160
Honestly, I get that a lot, especially with the job.
01:39:21.620
Maybe she's done a little sam-sam, but not like all the way.
01:39:33.200
I have given head once in my life, but it was so short.
01:39:49.580
Yeah, but it was only once, and I felt very weird about it, because I've made it such a
01:39:57.100
It's hard to go and do those things, because I've just made it such a big part of myself.
01:40:01.060
Well, a lot of OnlyFans girls lie about their relationship status, their history, sexual
01:40:05.840
history, because it's conducive to making money on OnlyFans by lying about your status.
01:40:12.480
Now, logically, it is possible that a woman could be on OnlyFans, could be a bikini barista,
01:40:25.120
Could have breast implants, could have lip filler, could have scars all over her body.
01:40:40.620
And so I think it's probably bullshit, but of course, there's no way for...
01:40:45.720
And honestly, I got worried joining the industry before I knew anything about it that I wouldn't
01:40:51.140
make money because people would think I'm too innocent, and they wouldn't think my content's
01:40:57.500
And I actually have been able to use it, so that's been great.
01:41:03.240
Because even at the bikini stand, customers would want crazy stories.
01:41:10.360
And then they were like, no, I think it's cool.
01:41:14.060
I noticed in your videos on Instagram, there's a man who frequently films them who has hand
01:41:24.960
So you're friends with a guy who has hand tattoos, and he shoots some of your content.
01:41:34.500
Yeah, so the reality is, to the viewers, I guess breaking the fourth wall here, OnlyFans
01:41:40.300
girls frequently lie about their status in various ways.
01:41:43.980
Because it's conducive to their bottom line to be single, it's helpful for them to put
01:41:50.340
forth this appearance of non-involvement with other men, sometimes to the degree of claiming
01:42:19.680
Honestly, just not good mental health in high school.
01:42:23.320
And I look back at it, and it seems very silly, because I was so dramatic.
01:42:28.820
And I forget I have them now until people mention them.
01:42:31.460
Until you mention them right now, completely forgot that that was what was on my arm.
01:42:36.440
I don't really know what to say about it, because I'm not emotional about it anymore.
01:42:42.980
I did go to the ER once, so it was pretty crazy.
01:42:48.640
Just all these factors, collectively, all these factors make it very difficult for me to believe
01:43:02.500
And I don't take offense if people want to think I've had sex.
01:43:07.380
Do you want to just admit that you're not a virgin?
01:43:13.200
So would you be fine, for example, if I were to...
01:43:17.200
Maybe there's people who know you who are watching.
01:43:19.620
If I were to do a call to action to the viewers who might know you and say,
01:43:31.320
Maybe somebody who's watching knows a guy who's cracked you.
01:43:34.380
And if I invited them to send me a DM, for example, you'd be fine with us exploring that.
01:43:47.580
If anybody knows this chick and knows she's lying, there it is.
01:43:52.400
So if anybody has the intel, feel free to share it.
01:44:37.700
And I really want to devote myself to learning more.
01:44:41.720
So, I mean, your current career is completely incompatible with Christianity.
01:44:46.940
I actually want to bring up one thing that I remind myself.
01:44:56.120
A prostitute comes forward and everyone is judging her.
01:45:09.400
It's not a Christian granting or allowance for women to be sex workers.
01:45:22.040
And so, he forgives her sins and says that if your love and your faith is stronger.
01:45:34.500
And that is the best I can do because I'm setting myself up for future.
01:45:42.200
I don't do toy play because that doesn't align for me.
01:45:46.560
Tell us, as described on your OnlyFans, what you do do.
01:45:54.560
Well, I have in front of me what you list your...
01:45:58.980
I don't know how to best describe this, your services.
01:46:38.020
I'm doing an internal critique of your position.
01:46:42.480
I have pro-Christian sentiment in the sense that I think Christianity is good.
01:46:48.900
I don't have to actually abide by your worldview or like Christian ethics.
01:47:01.760
And by the way, I don't have an issue with other people eating meat.
01:47:04.960
But if somebody tells me they're vegan and I see them eating a hot dog or a hamburger,
01:47:09.520
I'm going to be like, why the fuck are you doing that?
01:47:12.320
But I don't otherwise have an issue with people eating meat.
01:47:14.860
But when you self-ID under a category of, this category means I behave or act in a certain
01:47:21.500
way or I believe these things, you're not a vegan if you eat meat.
01:47:27.800
If you're doing sex work and you're a Christian, you're not really a Christian.
01:47:34.920
I think there's so many things that don't align with Christianity that people do.
01:47:38.600
You can't believe in God even though you've got to do other things to pave your way.
01:47:46.360
So, you can believe in God, but you're in active defiance of God's word.
01:47:51.840
So, why is it so bad that I'm setting myself up with a good future and I live by good morals
01:47:57.120
and I treat people with love and I do the best I can?
01:48:01.420
It is relevant because I live and I try to be a good person.
01:48:11.180
That's not giving you the allowance to then be a participant.
01:48:14.340
Do you know what the definition of a Christian is?
01:48:16.640
A Christian is a person who admits their sins and accepts that Jesus Christ died on the cross
01:48:23.540
and paid the ultimate price for our sins so that we could have eternal life.
01:48:30.100
No, I think there's a difference between having a relationship with God and also being religious
01:48:36.040
just because those are two separate things, but they can go underneath the same label.
01:48:45.780
She believes in probably way more things than you do within Christianity or whatever.
01:48:56.080
What makes somebody a Christian is believing that Jesus Christ is the son of God and that
01:49:05.160
Now, everybody sins every day, whether it's her and sex work or whether if I go and go
01:49:11.400
So, you know, when the story that she brought up, Jesus also mentioned, you know, like he
01:49:17.920
brought, he told everybody in the crowd, whoever has not committed a sin, pick up a rock and
01:49:27.780
I'm glad you found Christ and he's going to get you out of your situation at the right
01:49:33.160
I'm building myself up so that I can do something else comfortably and I can live my best life
01:49:38.700
I wouldn't have been able to fly down on a last notice.
01:49:40.440
You know, I paid over a thousand dollars to be here.
01:49:43.520
But I wouldn't have been able to do that without my job.
01:49:46.360
I wouldn't have a social media following without my job.
01:49:53.480
Who here does either OnlyFans or dancing or sex work of some kind?
01:50:17.700
The question for both of you is, do you think God wants you to be doing sex work?
01:50:29.260
So, God does not want you to be doing sex work.
01:50:44.220
But, God didn't tell me to work at Jiffy Lube either.
01:50:48.100
So, I got such a strong sign from the world that said, you are hurting other people.
01:50:56.540
This job is hurting other people and it's making the world a terrible place.
01:51:05.380
Before I have you come in, so just to be clear, the answer to the question is, do you think
01:51:10.000
God wants you to be doing OnlyFans or sex work or stripping?
01:51:26.860
And what I think is a parallel in my life that I've read in the Bible is the book of Job.
01:51:33.280
Actually, that man was a very blessed man who followed the Lord closely.
01:51:40.080
And Satan went to God and he asked him, hey, this guy, he's only following you because, look,
01:51:49.900
And he allowed Satan to take everything away from him.
01:51:56.860
And so, what I think is, I think a lot of strippers or sex workers or whatever that
01:52:02.060
are in this position and can call themselves a Christian, it's not necessarily a defiance
01:52:07.980
of the Lord because I'm not privileged to where I can have any job and go to college and do
01:52:13.660
what I want to do, but I'm choosing to be a stripper and a sex worker.
01:52:16.720
It's like, this is the job that I can do with my circumstances.
01:52:20.340
If I have nothing, if I'm homeless, if I have fucking nothing, and this is the job that
01:52:24.400
I can do, that's God allowing Satan to test me to see, well, are you going to let her
01:52:29.460
go in the strip club and think she's all that and spend all her money or she's still going
01:52:32.920
to follow Jesus Christ while she's in there and make it the fuck out and then be blessed
01:52:40.700
Would it be a sin if these girls, per se, were working a minimum wage job and getting
01:52:47.120
Because when I worked minimum wage, I actually got sexualized more than when I was a stripper
01:52:54.200
That makes basically no sense to me how that could even be possible, but no, that would
01:52:58.880
So it would be okay if the guys were sexualizing them at like a Burger King, but since they're
01:53:03.080
sexualizing them at something that they would profit from, that makes sense?
01:53:09.600
Brian, well, I've experienced being sexually harassed while getting paid minimum wage.
01:53:14.380
Okay, but so, yes, women will be sexualized in all sorts of contexts, but that is a third...
01:53:21.580
You could argue that the person doing it is being sinful, but that wouldn't be a reflection
01:53:34.340
Why does it bother you so much that we do something with our religion when you aren't even religious?
01:53:43.640
Well, so it's funny to me how I'm not even a Christian, and I'm going harder for Christianity
01:53:53.060
I'm here actually defending Christianity, because remember, I have pro-Christian sentiment.
01:54:04.060
Christianity is the foundation and groundwork for modern civilization.
01:54:10.140
However, and I have close friends of mine who are Christian, who are serious Christians,
01:54:17.860
And I think that I don't like to see people disrespecting it or tearing it down or speaking
01:54:24.620
incorrectly about Christianity or misrepresenting what the Bible says or what God says.
01:54:31.340
But so, yeah, and also it's just a, even if you're not a Christian, you can have an understanding
01:54:41.780
And essentially, if we're having a conversation and like, again, it goes back to the, are you
01:54:52.260
So, well, let's consider myself a pescatarian here.
01:54:57.900
This last year, I got really swept into the industry in a couple months because you learn
01:55:09.640
And then I had a voice in my head and I said, this is wrong.
01:55:13.680
And I took a step back and I bring clothes to work and I post in shorts when I'm at work
01:55:18.340
or I work on what I post to make it more human and less sex work based.
01:55:29.880
The photos on your Instagram, you have two different Instagrams.
01:55:33.360
I mean, you're, it's not becoming of a woman who's Christian.
01:55:43.660
I've never showed more than a bathing suit, Brian.
01:55:48.320
I think you have a misconception about like what being a Christian means.
01:55:51.660
No, I think you have a misconception and you're not following scripture and God's word.
01:55:57.860
Like sometimes in life, like you're born into circumstances and you, you can't do anything.
01:56:03.080
So who's forcing you to post provocative, immodest, revealing photos on your Instagram?
01:56:10.960
All I'm saying is sometimes if you're born a woman who has nothing and you have no support
01:56:16.460
and no help, that's the first job that's ever existed for a woman.
01:56:19.760
The first job ever to exist for a woman is to be a prostitute.
01:56:27.920
So like rape has been happening for a really long time.
01:56:34.020
I'm saying like, this is why these things happen and this is how-
01:56:38.320
Women have, so okay, just to be clear, women who are not sex workers are all broke and destitute.
01:56:44.760
Women who, women who are not sex workers, they're just all broke and they're not, they're all homeless.
01:56:52.720
You're like, you're like, you're misunderstanding what I'm saying.
01:56:54.720
Your argument is, oh, what if you don't have another option, there's other jobs you can do.
01:57:15.040
No woman is, like, for, like, through pure financial necessity, forced into this.
01:57:32.800
You're saying you had no other option besides being a stripper.
01:57:39.020
To live comfortably, the money gap is very different.
01:57:41.800
I don't think you should go into this industry desperate because it sets you up to put yourself
01:57:48.120
I'm thankfully at a point where I'm just making cute little Instagram reels, and that's my job, and I love it.
01:57:53.640
And, I mean, there is content, but my day-to-day is just Instagram, and it's really cool.
01:57:59.400
I don't think you should go into, like, what you guys are doing, like, desperate, like you said,
01:58:04.000
because I had a friend that was living with me, and I was working three jobs, minimum wage, to make ends meet.
01:58:09.820
She was living with me, and I just told her she needed to get an education or she needed to get a job,
01:58:13.840
and she didn't want to do either of those because she wanted to do OnlyFans, and she didn't want to, you know,
01:58:18.340
and she wanted to do makeup on OnlyFans and do, like, sex work on OnlyFans,
01:58:23.020
but there was literally a McDonald's hiring down the street, and she didn't want to do that.
01:58:28.580
It's like, if that's not something that you feel is something that you want to do,
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just be real about it and just say, like, look, I want to make my money the way I want to make my money,
01:58:38.420
Don't sit here and be like, oh, well, this and this and this, and it's okay because I'm a Christian.
01:58:45.640
That's what she is saying, that to afford her lifestyle, she wants what she wants.
01:58:58.220
Okay, well, maybe I, from what I understand, 6.16 to 19 is throwing a flamed,
01:59:07.360
or a bullet that's on fire to someone to provoke a reaction.
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Bro, you don't know what the fuck you're talking about.
01:59:41.140
And a person who stirs up conflict into the community.
01:59:43.180
A person who stirs up conflict into the community.
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How many times do I have to repeat it so I don't ideas Christian?
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But you just seem so passionate about other people following it.
02:00:09.540
Imagine if we just pulled up the Koran, and the Koran was like, okay, you can't eat
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And then you see me eating pork, and you're like, what the fuck, Brian?
02:00:41.720
So, when you say you're a Christian, that's a sort of a way in which you live your life,
02:00:47.280
and you're going to adhere to God's words, to the Christian ethic.
02:00:52.280
Now, when you're claiming to be a Christian, and you're, like, clearly not adhering to
02:00:58.180
the Christian ethic, that opens up room, not only for Christians to criticize you, but
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non-Christians also, because it's, like, your worldview.
02:01:07.020
So, but then you can't do this reversal, like, oh, well, Brian, you're not also doing-
02:01:14.560
Would you feel more comfortable if I went to church every single week, if I read the Bible,
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if I lived by most of the stuff, but I say, hey, guys, I'm not actually a Christian, because
02:01:29.560
I feel like, just to play Brian's advocate, not Dylan's advocate.
02:01:33.760
I feel like what he's saying is, like, if you go to-
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If you're a bartender, right, or you go to, like, a job, right, and you're like, I'm a
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bartender, you put in your application, and then you lie on the application, I'm not a
02:01:49.660
They teach you how to be a bartender, but you're not a bartender, and so they make you
02:01:56.100
So, until Christianity says that you are a Christian by faith, you are not a Christian.
02:02:03.120
But people lie, so to be a Christian is to only believe that Jesus is real, that he died
02:02:08.860
No, but that's what he's saying is that that's what you guys-
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You're probably going to tell us how we're Christian.
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He doesn't even like bad bunnies, so who cares?
02:02:22.740
Yeah, he's literally not a Christian telling us Christians how to be Christian.
02:02:35.540
Also, for her story, this is just where she is in her journey right now.
02:02:43.800
And I'm not saying, hey, sex work is the best shit ever.
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I guess, okay, it goes back to he's not a Christian, guys.
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Oh, once I can successfully start my business, I'll get my degree, but probably only work a little bit as a nurse because I really want to start a business.
02:03:35.440
I'd like to have a few incomes, but one would be maybe a wedding venue.
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I've worked on clothing brands, but nothing more substantial because I need to learn more.
02:03:51.060
If you're going to school for nursing, do Botox.
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She can look at a face and know exactly what it needs.
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I have my QR code with my OnlyFans, and I have plumped by Emma right there.
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I've never, I'm so, I don't think I need to get lip Botox or anything because I have
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But like, I've always wanted to get, what is that stuff right here?
02:04:41.980
And it's better for you than all the other crap.
02:04:47.540
Sometimes they'll draw your own blood to put it back in here.
02:04:53.280
I feel like it's more sus if you put shit you don't know about in.
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How do you feel about using men's semen for a face mask?
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I stepped away for a moment, but I'll let them come in now.
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Can you put that like on the ground or whatever?
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and the leaders in charge should be held accountable
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So if I could point you towards specific Bible verses
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So, okay, is the Bible accessible to non-Christians?
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you're agnostic and why would you throw the Quran at you
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well, Brian, you're technically sinning in XYZ ways
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because your show's controversial and blah, blah, blah.
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So I'm doing an internal critique of her position.
02:07:46.140
I'm not going to ask her for relationship advice
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So you can't ask a girl if she's single anymore in the sense that that doesn't mean her answer
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She could be fucking three dudes and say she's single.
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Cause a guy could say he's single and he could be fucking,
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or have you at any time during the applicable or relevant period of time,
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or otherwise been involved in any communication contact association,
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or relationship of any nature whatsoever with any other male individual or
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whether such involvement is characterized as romantic,
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Put that on the back of the shirt and the front would say,
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like I want a woman to give me her undivided attention from the jump.
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Like put in the self work and all that and just been chill,
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that description right there that you just gave is exactly why I say what I said.
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Somebody could be thinking that I'm emotionally,
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So who here by that new definition I gave or the question rather,
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are you not single under the long list that I gave?
02:48:36.260
when's the last time you had carnal knowledge for the,
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I haven't been with a girl like that for like a long time.
02:53:04.200
and I've seen a post of him and his son on his son's page,
02:53:15.980
and then I started flirting on his dad's Instagram,
02:54:17.500
But she's got another man's seed in her currently.
02:54:22.940
It was definitely a non-seed thing going in there.
02:55:33.780
But I think I should do a series where I go to women's houses.
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What are you going to do at these women's houses?
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maybe had the Valentine experience with your boyfriend.
02:57:34.020
if the guy doesn't do anything for Valentine's Day,
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we're doing what we've done like hundreds of times,
02:58:39.160
I want you to write a essay with your tongue into my vagina,
02:58:51.740
What is the expectation though on Valentine's Day?
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It seems like there's only an expectation on men.
02:59:18.560
It could be like a day for you guys to do what you do on other days.
02:59:21.900
I think the women could do better on Valentine's Day.
02:59:38.920
But I think there is an expectation almost exclusively on men.
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I believe it's maybe that will give us some more answers.
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the current iteration of Valentine's Day is much of the push has been captured by
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Now Valentine's Day did like exist prior to its current sort of consumerist,
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and I think it goes back like hundreds of like hundreds,
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where did Valentine's Day really originate from?
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why is it that men are the ones doing the most for the women on Valentine's Day and not vice
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They like to feel like they can provide for their women and they like to feel like they're
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I don't really care about Valentine's Day period.
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there is this expectation on men to do something,
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whether performative or actually really thoughtful on Valentine's day that goes in one direction.
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most dynamics for the woman to really do anything.
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as a society are going to demand that we need equality and equality is going to be this
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virtue and this value that we want to uphold over other things,
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You should dress up as Cupid with a bow and have a parade and protest.
03:02:10.160
And if you want a woman who pays for the first date,
03:02:15.720
I have a woman who's asking you out and I will find a partner who wants to do those
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There are girls out there that will give you princess treatment for sure.
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I set my stuff that I want from a partner and if they don't match it,
03:02:31.160
They don't need to argue to change it because that's just my preference.
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So I understand like all people can have their preferences.
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but I'm more interested in having like a sort of bird's eye view.
03:02:42.500
Let's say we're looking down at the chess board of society,
03:02:49.980
And we're having a conversation about not just like acknowledging that people
03:02:57.480
but like actually examining the reasons for why certain dynamics exist and why
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there's a tendency towards certain kinds of dynamics.
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why should men typically be the ones doing these things on Valentine's day?
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he makes sure that she gets all the princess treatment.
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he did it for all me and my sisters growing up.
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I acknowledge that there are guys who are doing the chivalry thing,
03:04:11.840
And she's the spiritual and emotional like connection for you to be able to provide.
03:04:19.720
So if you are taking care of me and showing me love and showing me affection,
03:04:30.400
So if I can follow you through Valentine's day or Christmas or whatever it is,
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I'm going to follow you because I am a follower to my man.
03:05:09.580
OnlyFans girl who does like lesbian photo shoots and you show your pussy in your
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And we need that as women to feel safe and secure in a relationship.
03:05:53.420
And so I think that's why we set it up where we have a man present that and it will make
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the woman feel safe and it'll be a big gesture.
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we do it all the time because we're very emotional.
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I think we already do that at least like for me,
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like Valentine's Day is very case by case because you can't just like,
03:06:35.180
well a guy is responsible for this part and the girl is responsible for this.
03:06:41.340
if they want to celebrate however they want to do,
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like I wouldn't really give a fuck if he was like giving me flowers and
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I feel like that's a really commercialized shit.
03:07:01.280
Like every holiday is all about consumerism now.
03:07:06.620
like show me that they love me in their love language.
03:07:09.520
Consistently than like show out like on one day a year.
03:07:16.800
You see another girl and she's obviously getting blessed with all these
03:07:22.700
And then there's your guy standing right next to you,
03:07:37.920
If I feel like a lot of couples like break up and have issues on
03:07:40.800
Valentine's because they're bottling all this shit and they're not like,
03:07:44.280
and then they wait till Valentine's I'll even get me nothing.
03:08:14.240
50 and she wants to negotiate everything in the relationship and she's
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a man with another woman and that woman is submissive and she follows his
03:08:34.480
it sounds like the first relationship might not be good or that might just be
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but the second relationship sounds a lot better.
03:08:51.680
there's like a tweet and then a video that we'll watch really quick.
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The video can just be on window tab cause there's no audio for it.
03:09:05.060
let's do Denny's first and then we'll do the video.
03:09:08.720
and just expand the video after the Denny's tweet.
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There's an implication there that the man is bringing the woman to Denny's.
03:09:39.640
why the man has to do something on Valentine's day?
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Our establishment is not good enough for a Valentine's day.
03:09:57.900
maybe McDonald's and gotta also do something like that,
03:10:32.420
And this is going to tie into your train story.
03:10:51.440
doctor from hinge nine 45 AM crypto trader met in the wild.
03:11:04.320
so all these men sent her that she's dating multiple men.
03:11:24.280
Some men like to compete and they see a prize woman and they're like,
03:11:37.560
So it's a good marketing strategy to get women on the app is what it is.
03:11:47.120
Whoever was behind the scheme did their thing because girls are gonna be like,
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I want this and that by this time and that time.
03:12:31.640
She didn't do that video for the purpose of advertising for Raya.
03:12:35.580
I think she did it because she was advertising.
03:12:39.520
She did it because she was advertising the fact that she was getting all these things from different men.
03:12:50.860
But if you're trying to date to be with a single person,
03:13:23.340
why should men do all this shit on Valentine's day?
03:13:25.380
Like that's completely ridiculous as a man that you would do,
03:13:39.040
Maybe those guys don't know that they're getting played,
03:13:50.000
some guys give flowers to people that are not even dating.
03:13:54.000
I rented a car and the car guy brought me flowers this morning.
03:14:04.960
I think a traditional woman is going to follow her man,
03:14:13.500
and I think the standard for men should be a woman gets nothing,
03:14:33.540
how well did it go for that really nice guy who took you,
03:14:46.820
He got to go and on a cool date with me and have that story.
03:15:04.880
But what I am trying to convey is that even when men do do these things,
03:15:08.800
it seems to me like women don't really appreciate them.
03:15:11.720
You said the guy did nothing wrong on the date.
03:15:37.060
you talked to him for two hours when you met him in the bar.
03:15:44.720
I really appreciated his actions and his effort.
03:16:00.840
women will just fuck women will give you the pussy.
03:16:13.960
maybe it makes sense to do the courtship thing in the 1950s,
03:16:35.360
Then you can show her that treatment until then you're in the streets.
03:16:39.860
You're not getting any of that shit until you're my girl.
03:16:48.200
And I don't really share it just for privacy reasons,
03:17:00.480
I think it's okay to think the way that you're thinking and expect that.
03:17:05.400
like you have two kids from different baby daddies.
03:17:10.600
How's how you've been doing things worked out so far.
03:17:14.200
you've been dealing with a guy for at least a year.
03:17:27.780
It doesn't seem like whatever you're doing is working either.
03:17:37.540
I think you're misunderstanding what I'm saying.
03:17:39.040
I was asking from your example that you gave where you were like,
03:18:32.720
can do everything that society and women tell you.
03:18:48.780
A girl goes on a date with a guy and he does everything right.
03:18:56.860
But maybe she's just not quite that into him or she didn't feel the click.
03:19:11.360
And what she'll do after a guy takes her on the most gentlemanly,
03:19:27.000
And then when she gives the guy the ass out hug at the end of the night,
03:20:06.720
you're dating a woman that's not on the same level of what you want,
03:21:05.620
And I think that's something men struggle with,
03:21:29.280
You're saying that they're love bombing you first,
03:21:34.160
But to gradually love bomb you isn't good either.
03:22:57.320
Was there anything else on the Valentine's Day thing?
03:23:02.280
I just think, look, if she's your girl, then yeah, you can take care of her.
03:23:07.420
But shit, if she's dealing with other men, nah.
03:23:14.080
You've got to find a girl that's only focusing on one person at a time.
03:23:20.280
A lot of men won't put a title on things, which has women going out and dating and doing
03:23:28.580
But I feel like a lot of men aren't putting titles on things.
03:23:31.180
So a lot of women are like, okay, well, I'm going to date someone.
03:23:37.200
If a woman wants to put a title on something and you don't want to do that, why am I going
03:23:41.260
I'm going to go get my flowers from over here and over there.
03:23:45.360
If he's not talking to just one person either, I don't talk to the other way.
03:23:50.920
If you value long-term relationships, you value monogamy, and you're dealing with a
03:23:58.240
I mean, look, you're going to have to, when you first meet somebody, depending on your...
03:24:02.620
I mean, look, you go on the first date with somebody and you ask them, are you seeing
03:24:09.940
I mean, look, ideally, you should be screening these people well before you even meet up
03:24:15.520
What if you don't ask those questions on the first date?
03:24:19.300
What if you, on the first date, those questions aren't asked?
03:24:22.460
And then the second or third date, then you solidify something.
03:24:30.880
Women have, you guys have a lot of leverage when it comes to dating.
03:24:36.740
Women are generally, women are the ones being pursued.
03:24:39.680
So when somebody is coming to you, and this applies not just in relationships, but also
03:24:43.680
even in business, like if somebody is coming to me and they want to sponsor me, I have more
03:24:50.040
Whereas if I'm doing outbound, you know, sales and I'm like, Hey, you want to sponsor the podcast?
03:24:54.680
It's like you have less leverage where if somebody wants something from you, you can set
03:25:00.360
Whereas if like, uh, you're the one reaching out, it makes things difficult.
03:25:04.820
So as women, you have the benefit, the privilege of men typically being the pursuers.
03:25:09.460
Now I'm not saying all men are going to go for this, but honestly, all women could really
03:25:14.400
Like you could, as a girl, you could have a guy and some guys might think it's a bit,
03:25:19.760
uh, uncommon, but, and maybe some of you do this, have them fill out a fucking boyfriend
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I'm telling you that the dudes would probably fucking do it.
03:25:30.320
And then you could just fucking screen, you could screen.
03:25:33.720
Uh, and so it's like, I don't know, me personally, time is valuable.
03:25:37.720
I don't have time to just be like going on a date just to see how things go.
03:25:42.020
It's like, nah, let me know everything about you before I even fucking consider hopping on
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So every time they did something good or something that's towards me, like I would punch their card.
03:26:05.800
And so, you know, that's like basically my application.
03:26:09.120
What do they get at the end when they punch all the holes?
03:26:11.440
They get to potentially be my boyfriend or punch my hole, baby.
03:26:17.060
So that's why I haven't been fucking because nobody's got to the 10th punch.
03:26:26.540
So what do you got to do to like get your hole punched on the card?
03:26:35.540
You know, maybe like, I don't know, like think of, think of something.
03:26:39.900
Men know how to, how to get cookie, you know, like, well, actually, I mean, my position
03:26:44.680
on that, I think, I think it's totally fine for, uh, to have sex super early on.
03:26:50.240
I do too, but I'm saying that's not, I mean, with a high body count, so it doesn't make sense
03:27:03.200
Well, it depends what we mean by judge, but so is it my preference to date somebody who
03:27:07.820
doesn't have a promiscuous past and, uh, yeah, sure.
03:27:11.640
That's my preference, but I don't know if judging necessarily comes into play.
03:27:18.140
I guess like you would agree logically it's possible in the same way that it's logically
03:27:22.160
possible that a girl could be shown her pussy and butthole and doing dick ratings and, uh,
03:27:27.520
and be a virgin and be a sex worker and be on only fans.
03:27:31.040
Maybe it's possible that I could encounter a woman who's a virgin, for example, who lets
03:27:36.360
Like it's logically possible that could happen.
03:27:39.840
I'm trying to keep the, no, but it's, it's logically possible because I think what you're
03:27:43.920
trying to say is, is that, well, you prefer women with a low body count, but like women
03:27:48.880
who would sleep with you quickly, they probably have a high body count.
03:27:53.720
I guess I, I mean, if you were to sleep with someone right away, then you're giving them
03:28:05.720
Look, I don't know if you guys have had bad experiences where the guy just hits and disappears
03:28:12.840
Me personally, uh, I'm not into a one-time thing is fucking pointless to me.
03:28:17.880
I don't, I'm not interested in a one-time thing.
03:28:19.640
Also, even if I was sex motivated, sex is better like 20, 30, 40, like after you, one,
03:28:27.060
Well, excuse me, one, you are comfortable with each other, two, you love each other.
03:28:30.880
Three, you just practice, like, you know what each other likes in terms of, you know, dislikes
03:28:37.160
So for these reasons, sex is better in a relationship.
03:28:39.740
So even if you're sex motivated, sex is better with a girl you care about, a girl who cares
03:28:46.540
And, uh, when you've built that comfort and connection, but, uh, so just sex one time,
03:28:55.140
Oh, look, I mean, I have had, uh, I have had like shorter term situations more so when
03:29:01.540
I'm younger, but going in for even, even when I was younger though, like a one night stand,
03:29:06.140
like I, if I, I see a girl and I'm like, well, she's not that attractive, but I try to get
03:29:16.420
I've always, now I have had shorter term relationships or more, more like friends with benefits or
03:29:21.940
whatever, where it wasn't like super serious, but I've always had the intention of, if I'm
03:29:27.440
going to sleep with a girl, I'm, this has to go in an intentional direction.
03:29:33.300
Like, I'm not just going to like, for example, if a girl presented to me, Brian, here's some
03:29:43.180
I'd be like, no, no, I'd actually, I feel like a lot of people are not going to believe
03:29:54.320
But if I can only have you once, I don't want you.
03:30:10.740
Cause you know, if there was a girl, if there was a girl that walked in the room and head
03:30:16.000
to toe was just everything you desired, you're not going to say no to her for that one
03:30:22.320
Well, I mean, if, if we do, she's like, Hey, I, I'm going to die tomorrow because I have
03:30:35.560
You want her to leave a glass slipper so you guys can fuck again.
03:30:41.500
Look, you could give me a hypothetical scenario where it's like, look, she's fucking drop dead
03:30:45.140
gorgeous and you don't have to put in any effort and she's just offering the pussy.
03:30:49.720
But like for most guys getting laid, it's, um, there's, there's degrees of effort to
03:30:55.780
So I guess my argument here is it's not worth my time to put in the effort just to fuck
03:31:02.400
Like, even if look, some girls be giving the pussy away a couple hours, I'm not doing, I'm
03:31:07.820
not going to do a couple hours just for some pussy.
03:31:10.260
Like we're going to, if I'm, if I'm going to pursue a girl, there's go, at least from
03:31:15.260
my end, some girls therapy, I've been hurt, bro.
03:31:19.360
I'm like, I wanted more and you just wanted to fuck.
03:31:25.160
I thought, you know, maybe, Hey shit, sometimes performances, Hey, you don't always do your
03:31:29.480
You know, you try your best, but ultimately, yeah, I'm always, I'm always pushing in the
03:31:37.060
Now look, just to be clear, if I hook up with a girl and she like does some crazy shit,
03:31:43.740
like afterwards, like she fucking stabs me or like punches my cat.
03:31:48.640
Oh, I thought you were saying like the God's God 2000, RIP the cat.
03:31:52.060
No, I'm saying like, uh, like some psychotic shit.
03:31:56.400
Well, this is probably going to be a one-time thing, but like my intention always going in,
03:32:00.280
it's like, it's not worth my time to just, okay, well, we're just going to fuck once.
03:32:09.700
So you, but just a reminder, like I have no qualms, like of all the, I've had multiple
03:32:15.920
long-term relationships, five years, two years, one, like a couple others, uh, like first,
03:32:24.020
So I don't have any, like sex can happen quickly.
03:32:32.700
I did, but I was reading that comment actually.
03:32:37.060
Then I guess, I feel like a lot of people, a lot of people, they said that women want
03:32:48.820
Like there's a quote that says, we accept the love we think we deserve.
03:32:54.420
So if you accept love like that, then that's what you're going to get.
03:32:58.600
And I feel like that's very good on you, Brian.
03:33:01.040
That's very, very good on you that you don't accept that kind of love because then you would
03:33:07.340
A lot of us sit here and just like give the coochie away.
03:33:11.560
You were talking about that story earlier about the whole, what was it?
03:33:24.280
No, I've literally went on a date that my boyfriend told me to go on.
03:33:30.880
He's like, I don't know where we're at at this point.
03:33:37.340
On Valentine's Day, went on a really, really, really cool and good date and then went back
03:33:52.420
Has anybody here, it doesn't have to be exactly like this, but has anybody here ever done the
03:33:57.620
basically the essence of the doggie bag scenario where you went, how about this?
03:34:10.180
You, uh, you're sleeping with a guy, but maybe it's not quite official yet.
03:34:16.020
And then while you're like sleeping with that guy, you go on a date with a different guy.
03:34:24.760
Cause it's like, I mean, people date all the time.
03:34:36.620
I do not count it as a real date, especially if I know like, I'm just going to make you
03:34:45.760
Cause if I'm going to, if I'm going to go to dinner and my, my intention is just to get
03:34:51.200
things from you to make sure I obtain my lifestyle, whether it's money or food or whatever, and
03:34:56.180
I'm going to take the food back to my man, then I'm only talking to you.
03:35:02.400
So I don't really count it as like dating, but.
03:35:22.580
To put it in a nutshell, when I was younger, I was basically sex trafficked.
03:35:50.900
Like, the reason why people get into those situations is because, like, you just want
03:36:01.340
Wait, how do you know about the black and the white pimps?
03:36:04.680
Because I used to help the bitches get their shit booked.
03:36:28.740
But I have been associated with people in that era, area of expertise, and I've realized
03:36:39.680
It's the Mexican ones or the white ones that'll put money on the table for you.
03:37:09.340
The Asian women in the industry, in the sex industry, they will hit the fuck out of you.
03:37:14.280
I seen an Asian girl, and she was, like, with her boyfriend outside the club after she got
03:37:19.920
done working, and she was out here smacking her boyfriend's fucking head and throwing all
03:37:25.960
Well, we got to differentiate between the different Asians.
03:37:29.340
So you got Korean, you got Japanese, you got Chinese, you got Philippines, you got Cambodian,
03:38:06.480
I date Latinas, I date white women, so it's not a fetish thing.
03:38:16.500
Well, one, I'd say the Vietnamese women are very beautiful.
03:38:28.480
I think people assume that we're gonna be all submissive and shit, but no.
03:38:32.060
Well, Vietnam smoked us, so of course they wouldn't be.
03:38:53.380
You want the crypto jail, $2 more, crypto jail.
03:39:05.500
Yay, auntie, see, we can be this way together, you know?
03:39:26.040
You like the black boy like you because you do the suck, suck, sucky, sucky, sucky.
03:39:41.720
What's the one where she's at the, what movie is she's like, oh, your boyfriend?
03:39:46.800
You don't have no brother on your arm because you don't know how to cook fried chicken.
03:39:53.840
Yeah, that was the, that's the one, that's the one.
03:40:07.700
Chop, chop, chop, chop, chop, chop, chop, chop, chop, chop, chop, chop, chop, chop, chop,
03:40:11.440
Yeah, I think that's the end of my, I'm going to get canceled.
03:40:15.460
Okay, I want to know what kind of men you guys like.
03:40:41.240
The problem is, every time I talk to, like, I don't approach men anymore because I don't
03:40:47.480
If a man approaches me, I will immediately tell him what I do for work.
03:40:53.980
They have an issue with me waiting till marriage.
03:40:56.280
The moment, like, we, like, watch a movie together and I don't put out and they're like,
03:41:04.820
So, that's definitely been the reason I don't get it.
03:41:20.500
It's pretty much all over the world with the looks.
03:41:27.380
Like, every single guy that I like, I'm like, they're so handsome.
03:41:39.640
Um, I would say definitely light-skinned, tall.
03:41:51.180
I'd be imagining y'all with the mid-skinned and tall.
03:41:55.860
We can only do, guys, we can only do one conversation at a time here.
03:42:09.500
Let's, uh, oh, Mary, let's do some of the reacts here.
03:42:17.120
Guys, if you're enjoying the stream, hit the like video.
03:42:19.980
I think, you know what, I'm going to hold the stream hostage for a little bit.
03:42:28.180
What are the, let's see, what's the fucking likes at?
03:42:31.280
What do you guys, we need more likes on this video, I think.
03:42:34.760
I'm going to hold, I'm holding this shit hostage.
03:42:42.380
There's 4,300 viewers, uh, just on YouTube's, YouTube side.
03:43:03.260
And while I'm holding it hostage, go to Twitch, Mary.
03:43:13.860
It's been, oh my god, it's been 26 minutes since our last Prime.
03:43:37.880
We're going to talk about that waiting until marriage thing.
03:43:50.380
Some girl apparently fucked a bad bunny or something.
03:44:02.860
You know, my wrestling coach in high school used to always say,
03:44:05.240
And, you know, when you're just, you're doing those sprawls.
03:44:49.320
He was in the most recent, one of the Marlon Bros had that movie, football movie.
03:44:55.780
He played as an athlete, but I don't think he's actually an athlete.
03:45:06.860
Not to be confused with the twink, Dean Withers.
03:45:49.180
And then, question, who here waits to have sex?
03:46:06.060
Are you waiting for marriage or just, like, waiting?
03:46:09.420
But, so, for those of you who wait to have sex, going around the table, how long do you
03:46:29.800
Like, question, if a guy, have you ever been flown out by a guy?
03:46:33.960
Um, if a guy did fly you out, and let's say you were talking on the phone for a month,
03:46:38.500
do you think, and say you really like the guy, do you think you would smash, like, that
03:46:48.940
So, we're, like, both exclusively talking to each other, for sure.
03:46:54.480
But, so, try to, I know it can vary, but try to give me a time range.
03:46:59.480
I mean, as long as I know we're, like, both exclusively just talking to each other.
03:47:05.560
Couldn't that happen, like, the first time you hang out?
03:47:28.100
You've never cracked on, like, the second date?
03:47:29.980
I'm not saying I never have, but that's my preference.
03:47:34.100
Honestly, when I think about it, all the guys that I've had, like, a sexual relationship
03:47:39.900
with, where it, like, it was like I met something, I knew them for forever.
03:47:52.640
Okay, because he's, like, my boyfriend, you know?
03:47:54.940
Like, he, bro, I knew him since I was 12, and we didn't have sex until we were 19.
03:48:27.120
I love the show Gilmore Girls, and I think Logan is very cute, so I'll say that.
03:48:42.560
I have a weird, like, my type is based off personality.
03:48:44.560
So if Chris Brown walked in the room right now.
03:49:40.480
Is there any man you would break your rule for?
03:49:43.420
Okay, your celebrity crush was the dude Tyreek and Michael B. Jordan.
03:50:13.900
They're just like, hey, there's a little private section over here that's totally closed off.
03:50:44.760
Okay, I'll say one handsome celebrity, KJ Abba.
03:51:03.000
Because, like, I got to play it cool, like, act like I don't care so that he, like, chases
03:51:09.480
Yeah, I play hard to get, and then we're locked in.
03:51:18.280
I think when women play hard to get, they quickly become hard to want.
03:51:25.500
Like, say they're putting in a ton of effort, but they won't put out.
03:51:32.100
Hard to get isn't, I wouldn't even consider it sex.
03:51:37.220
Like, if she's just, like, slow to respond to you, and she's not making time for you,
03:51:41.720
and she's kind of stringing you along, that's kind of hard to get a little bit.
03:51:49.400
No, but you got to do that, but then when you're with them, you got to be, like, the vibes
03:52:21.440
Well, I remember a couple years ago, I was on dating.
03:52:26.500
I remember one time I went out with this girl, like, average girl, and she tells me
03:52:33.260
I'm just like, so, you know, tell me about yourself, blah, blah, blah.
03:52:35.740
She tells me, yeah, I had two dates this weekend, and she's like, I got a date.
03:52:57.780
Well, I feel the same way if a man was, like, maybe.
03:53:04.860
Listen, I think it's like, until we make it exclusive, it's none of my business.
03:53:12.200
Don't ask stupid questions that you don't want to know.
03:53:17.180
Yeah, so if you don't ask, then I got to be ready for the answer.
03:53:26.340
Brixen, don't overthink or overcomplicate a good thing.
03:53:30.100
It's not premarital sex if you never plan on marrying them.
03:53:43.220
Like, if I'm going to marry my man, then I'm not going to give the cookie out.
03:54:28.260
Realizing men think my job is an excuse to put in no effort and pay for nothing.
03:54:38.900
If you expect me to pay on the first date, don't talk to me.
03:54:44.960
When he's perfect in every way, but doesn't want to wait till marriage.
03:54:51.820
Forever dressing modest because one day I'll be a wife and a mother.
03:55:07.280
All of the videos I make come from my personal life.
03:55:13.220
But when I go in public as myself, I dress very modest.
03:55:19.820
So you would acknowledge that the guy who's dating you, who's Christian, who wants to wait
03:55:24.440
till marriage, who's trad himself, one, I think is going to have major issue with you doing
03:55:32.000
But so if we were sort of doing a tit for tat thing, if the guy has to give you an allowance
03:55:39.840
Because you say you're a trad in all the other ways, except the sex work, right?
03:55:57.560
Uh, what allowance would you let a guy not be trad?
03:56:05.120
In what ways can a man not be trad that you would accept?
03:56:15.280
And so I'm okay with a man, like not 50-50 on everything, but 50-50 across the board.
03:56:23.180
Um, which honestly I think is a bit trad, um, in some sense, uh, because you could be putting
03:56:28.880
in more emotionally, but I'm not seeking a relationship right now because I know that
03:56:43.960
I don't seek men because I understand the position I put myself in.
03:56:52.580
But I mean, you do have that video where you're, uh, Mary pull up the paying for date
03:57:06.540
But it doesn't mean I'm out here being like, take me on a date.
03:57:10.820
I think the fair trade-off here, you say, if you expect me to pay on
03:57:15.660
Uh, maybe the equivalent that a guy could say in that circumstance is if you post
03:57:21.660
pictures of your butthole on the internet, I shouldn't have to, you don't talk to me
03:57:26.840
Um, I do think the fair trade-off, since you are an active sex worker, if you were to
03:57:31.280
encounter a guy, I think you got to maybe at least lose the paying for the first date
03:57:35.520
Like you got, maybe you got, in fact, you got to make up.
03:57:41.460
Uh, so I, I think that, yeah, you should pay, you should pay the, not just for your part
03:57:46.840
of the, not 50, 50, you pay for the entire bill for, for the first date because to make
03:57:55.560
If a man seeks me and I tell him, these are my standards with man.
03:57:58.340
And the first thing I would do is say, this is my job.
03:58:01.200
And if they choose, again, you don't have to date me.
03:58:09.520
Then you should, you should, you probably should.
03:58:12.140
If they're asking me on a date, they can pay for the date.
03:58:20.540
But I'm not forcing any man to do less or more.
03:58:26.840
You can't make a man do what he don't want to do.
03:58:31.720
But if a man seeked me and I was honest about everything and I, I told him that I want a
03:58:37.120
traditional, you know, relationship, then I think that's fine.
03:58:41.100
You find a partner who wants you for who you are and will match with you.
03:58:48.020
But so would you agree with me that let's say, let's say a woman has all these standards
03:58:53.120
and the standards is, I'm not saying these are your standards, but I'll just throw some
03:58:57.520
For example, let's say the woman's standards are as follows.
03:59:00.780
She wants a guy who makes minimum $1 million a year.
03:59:08.840
She wants a guy who's, what are some other, who's funny, who's charismatic, who's confident.
03:59:15.400
Uh, she wants, and by that description, good looking, let's add that she, that man that
03:59:22.240
I just described is highly desirable for, for vast amounts of women.
03:59:27.280
Uh, and let's say though, that she, she has, uh, five baby fathers.
03:59:36.200
She has seven children, uh, you know, across these five different fathers.
03:59:43.460
She's obese and she's a former drug addict and she's like, not good looking.
03:59:54.520
And now, now, so, but she wants all those things, right?
03:59:59.320
But do you think, uh, and you might say for, for people that, you know, it's fair to have
04:00:06.740
I guess one, do you think she's going to get that guy?
04:00:08.960
And then two, secondary to that, do you think that she should perhaps reevaluate her standards
04:00:15.560
to perhaps get a guy that would be more commensurate to her standing in life?
04:00:22.580
Um, no, she probably won't find that guy, but that's okay.
04:00:30.620
She can't like, for example, if my standard was, for example, my standard was, um, I mean,
04:00:37.220
I wouldn't select all of you, but fuck it just to be autistic and retarded.
04:00:40.760
Um, if my standard was, I will only date women who come on the show, who have an orgy with
04:00:46.820
And I will only date the women who engage in this post debate orgy with me.
04:00:53.680
You'd be like, well, you can have that standard, Brian, like you can have it, but it's never
04:01:02.480
Then don't complain about it when you don't find someone.
04:01:16.120
And so I should readjust my expectation to, you know, be more realistic.
04:01:27.820
Who wants to, who wants to have the fucking post whatever podcast orgy?
04:01:33.640
This is a really elaborate way of like trying to get a girl to sleep with you, Brian.
04:01:37.220
Anyways, um, but to like, to like your example and like, to her point, like you're, she's
04:01:46.880
You named someone who was like obese has totally like nothing.
04:01:50.660
I was thinking I should be on when he said that.
04:02:01.160
Her argument was, well, you, you should have your standard, but I guess what I'm saying
04:02:06.960
is the standard, uh, perhaps standards can be re-evaluated and, uh, reassessed based
04:02:17.580
Cause I think a lot of average women, I'm not saying you're average by the way, but I'm
04:02:21.520
saying a lot of average women won't date an average guy.
04:02:25.060
A lot of average women want above average men and just from purely numerical reality,
04:02:34.920
There's not enough above average men to go around to be dating average women.
04:02:39.880
So ultimately look, average women, y'all don't want average men.
04:02:43.840
You want above average men as an average woman, you're going to have to be like, uh, okay, well,
04:02:50.660
I want a guy who makes a million dollars a year, but I'm average woman.
04:02:58.120
Why would I want to lower my standards for somebody that is potentially going to be my
04:03:04.780
I want my leader to have higher, be higher than me so I can grow to him or with him.
04:03:10.620
Well, I mean, it's, uh, even, even granting that perhaps in some situations people are able
04:03:15.960
to secure, uh, a boyfriend or a girlfriend or a partner or a husband or a wife outside of
04:03:21.020
their league, uh, just purely numerically, statistically, there's not enough men or women
04:03:26.600
to go around for people to be, uh, frequently matching with people outside their league.
04:03:37.980
If you are the type of, if you are the woman that is worthy of a millionaire, then you are
04:03:45.120
Can I ask you, but also, yeah, continue, continue, um, not everyone, you know, can meet all these
04:03:51.920
You got to negotiate, you got to like prioritize which one matter more to you.
04:03:55.700
And then if that person like still fits within that frame, then okay, you can't have it all
04:04:01.740
But do you think like the average woman has the leverage to get with the guy who makes a million
04:04:14.400
Like, you know, I mean, sometimes they go for these women that are like that.
04:04:22.860
So I, I would agree that in, when it comes to dating, there's going to be things that
04:04:26.480
bolster you up and you're going to have deficits and you're going to have positives.
04:04:30.240
And so, yes, you know, the total assessment of somebody's appeal or attractiveness, uh, is
04:04:38.000
There's, there's a bunch of different factors that will come to like a sort of final determination
04:04:45.960
When I say total package, I mean like who they are in total package would mean like they're
04:04:51.000
When I say total package, I mean like who they are in totality.
04:04:54.700
And so, ultimately though, if we're talking about an average woman, wouldn't you agree
04:04:59.520
that it might be delusional for her to have an expectation that she ends up with a guy who
04:05:07.640
Average looks, average personality, average body, average face.
04:05:10.980
But do you think it's toxic to think like that though?
04:05:15.280
I mean, I don't, I guess I just don't really think about stuff like that because I don't
04:05:18.720
see myself in a league or like getting somebody in another league.
04:05:22.140
Like I just, like when I think of like the person I would end up with eventually, I just,
04:05:27.420
I don't really think about like their money or their looks or anything.
04:05:29.900
I just think of how they would make me feel, I guess.
04:05:35.540
But, um, you know, ultimately I do think that you, you ask if it's toxic.
04:05:40.740
I actually think it's toxic for women to be delusional.
04:05:43.940
I feel like the average man also, why is it pretty delusional too?
04:05:48.260
Well, cause it like porn and everything, like guys are really desensitized.
04:05:59.780
I'm willing to grant that there are delusional men.
04:06:02.140
There are men who don't really know where they stand when it comes to the dating marketplace.
04:06:10.760
There's more women who are delusional when it comes to their expectations on men.
04:06:16.640
Now, again, there are delusional dudes out there.
04:06:19.380
Trust me, there's delusional dudes, but again, way more pronounced in women.
04:06:23.180
I would say there's a, there's a whole bunch of reasons for this.
04:06:26.320
I think one of the big reasons though is women can get a taste of a man outside of her league.
04:06:33.400
So when I say a taste, if I step to a woman outside of my league and I, here, I'll, I'll use two metrics.
04:07:05.720
So as men, let's say we step to a girl outside of our league, we get instant rejection.
04:07:14.860
When men step out, step to women outside their league, instant rejection.
04:07:20.080
The girl isn't going to, the girl isn't going to consider, well, he's offering up some pussy.
04:07:26.780
Well, to be honest, I'm from the girl who says she waits and she doesn't do that.
04:07:32.140
She's just letting some guy who's below her league hit.
04:07:39.880
And you know, their egos are so big that they actually, they use that, that they dated me
04:07:45.780
to get more bad bitches, even though they are really not deserving of that quality.
04:07:50.460
So we can, I guess I just want to finish up like the, the, the points, the argument on
04:07:56.140
So a guy steps to a girl outside of his league, that girl in 99% of instances, 99.99% of instances,
04:08:18.920
However, however, if you're a girl and you step to a guy out of your league, that guy,
04:08:27.620
he's like, well, just based on her looks alone or whatever other characteristics never would
04:08:38.980
So the reversal, uh, she's pleasant and she's offering pussy, pussy on the platter, pussy on
04:08:46.580
the silver platter guys, the guys gonna, not all guys, but, uh, guys will take that offer.
04:08:53.020
That's why Chris Brown, uh, is fucking nobody girls.
04:09:03.040
NFL players, professional athletes, they're fucking no, the women they're having sex with
04:09:10.740
And it could even, sometimes they're not even that good looking, um, sex addiction, easily
04:09:18.460
But so what ends up happening is when you have average or a bit above average looking women
04:09:23.600
or sometimes below average women dealing with these hyper attractive men, well, and that
04:09:28.720
could be, it could be looks, it could be personality, it could be wealth, it could be status.
04:09:32.620
It could be their famous athlete, musician, rapper, whatever it is.
04:09:36.660
These men just on your looks alone would never consider being in a relationship with you.
04:09:42.800
Well, but you're in, you're really into them and they can have sex with you.
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And do you think it's because of their standards?
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Well, you're asking me if I should change my standards when I've never been in this predicament
04:10:01.800
because I know exactly what I want in a partner.
04:10:05.040
But we're talking about this phenomenon in terms of who's more delusional.
04:10:08.500
So women have the, the pathway to believing they're more attractive than they actually
04:10:15.480
This is one of the reasons is because like, for example, let's say, let's say the roles
04:10:20.600
were reversed and I, as like, uh, honestly, I give myself while on the rating scale of 4.5,
04:10:27.080
I'm below, like slightly below average looking.
04:10:29.640
Uh, if I could just fuck, like say a bunch of girls were down to fuck me.
04:10:38.220
If like, let's say hot shit, like a hot chicks, like just wanted to use me for sex.
04:10:46.200
They just wanted to use me for sex, but they never wanted a relationship with me.
04:10:49.580
They're just like, uh, they, they say, what you doing Friday at fucking midnight?
04:10:57.760
There's a lot of like, there's ugly guys out there that just got good dick.
04:11:03.960
But look, I understand, but I'm talking about a, a general idea here, a general principle.
04:11:09.520
I just don't think it goes both ways though, like equally.
04:11:13.320
No, I think it just equally goes both ways where men, you know, they score women.
04:11:20.200
Above their standards and women do the same thing.
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If, if I can get, uh, if I can sleep with a woman, I'm have high confidence, not a hundred
04:11:38.820
If I can sleep with her, I can't high confidence.
04:11:42.000
I can get her into a relationship of the men that you have slept with or can't sleep with.
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How high has your confidence been that you can get him into a relationship?
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If I, if I know that I put that on him and I put that on him real good.
04:12:14.900
I mean, if you're dealing with a guy who has options, okay, the sex is good.
04:12:21.540
Like if a guy's a fucking, like if a guy is, what's the right word?
04:12:27.000
If the guy doesn't have options and he's thirsty, then yeah, if the pussy's really good, then
04:12:33.560
And look, to be fair, a lot of guys are not getting action in that way.
04:12:36.720
But if you're dealing with a, a real G, a real motherfucking G, uh, just the pussy being
04:12:43.840
good, by the way, it's not like there's pussy everywhere.
04:12:49.380
We're just saying just so hard to be good in bed as a woman.
04:12:56.840
You guys don't even look, if the pussy's tight, the pussy, like, it's hard for women to be
04:13:05.920
It's like recruit difficulty for women to be good in bed.
04:13:11.440
Well, the, the performance, the burn of performance is higher on the man when it comes to sex.
04:13:17.840
I actually just asked one of my homies that exact question.
04:13:20.280
Like, how is the, how is like the performance with different women is like some of, some
04:13:28.500
Well, what I'm saying is I think men, like in order for the sex to be good, more falls
04:13:36.120
Cause I've stroked women before, like a man, like with my strap on and it is so hard.
04:13:49.760
I think, uh, when it comes to sex, I think that as a man, you, uh, say you put a woman
04:13:57.440
in whatever position you prefer and she doesn't do anything like she does.
04:14:06.960
If the woman is not do like just she's dead fishing, you can through, through your own
04:14:15.240
action as a man, you can bring yourself to climax.
04:14:18.140
However, the amount of, if the man's just like got hard on and he's just standing there
04:14:23.220
or he's laying there, I think far fewer women are able to bring them set, like could through
04:14:30.040
just the woman's action could bring themselves to climax.
04:14:33.120
Now, look, there's some women who are like insanely orgasmic.
04:14:37.100
They can have multiple orgasms and it's not a problem, even just from intercourse.
04:14:41.140
But I do think there's a, there's a higher burden of performance to please a woman than
04:14:59.120
I mean, it's like if I just sat there and like, I don't know.
04:15:04.000
It's like, if I sat, you sat there with your mouth open and I just had to move your like
04:15:07.780
tongue every which way, like I would be fucking disappointed as shit.
04:15:45.820
Isn't it easy for women to get into the tech industry?
04:16:20.960
You should have had your hair like this, by the way.
04:16:25.180
I went through all the colors, and I'm just back to my virgin hair.
04:16:32.560
Oh yeah, we have some tweets and shit from other people.
04:16:42.640
I have to wait until she's back from the table.
04:17:36.480
I do have to have you repeat it just because I missed this part.
04:19:05.640
This might be, in terms of the ratings at the table, this, again, I've managed to recruit
04:19:14.420
These women obviously have denied the contracts from the modeling agencies.
04:19:22.600
I'm graced with their presence on the whatever podcast.
04:19:31.260
Saying somebody isn't a supermodel isn't calling them ugly.
04:19:56.520
Why don't average women just think that they're average looking?
04:20:12.760
Like, I don't think I'm ugly, but I don't think I'm, like, conventionally very attractive,
04:20:16.760
but I think I'm just, like, a little nutty with a little.
04:20:27.640
Well, I have, like, anxiety and, like, depression, but other than that, I don't have, like, official
04:20:35.860
Well, that, like, OCD runs in my family, and, like, my little brother, he's, like, autistic.
04:20:42.280
Bro, like, low-key, we got the tism in our family and the OCD, so.
04:20:48.060
I'm, uh, half Asian, and then I'm, like, Middle Eastern and Hispanic, yeah.
04:20:53.340
Does anybody here, we'll come back to the rating thing in a second.
04:21:24.720
She looked like she whipped people with her hair.
04:21:28.120
Um, you, have you, are you, were you, uh, in a gang?
04:22:46.380
When they're bigger than you, you gotta do your shit.
04:22:48.340
No, you, you gotta put it down when they're bigger than you.
04:22:48.860
Like, you gotta be careful with, how did you lose?
04:22:53.240
So, you gotta be careful with the, the short chicks.
04:22:58.520
Well, short people are also healthy people in general.
04:23:11.340
I'm getting the lore from you, you guys tonight.
04:23:19.260
Um, just from, like, stuff from when I was, like, younger.
04:23:33.260
My ex slashed my tires, and then I returned the favor by busting my tires.
04:24:05.280
Tell us the other ways in which you guys have gotten revenge.
04:24:41.740
I found out he was cheating on me, like my pregnancy.
04:24:47.880
I was leaving his house after I got my evidence.
04:25:04.220
And then he got, like, one leg in, one leg out.
04:25:09.940
I think he tried to snatch the phone back from my hand.
04:25:32.060
But they let me go because I was nine months pregnant.
04:25:35.720
So, they were like, we're not going to lock you up.
04:25:48.240
When you say, did you hit him or did you run him over?
04:25:53.420
So, the first hit, he just slipped under the car.
04:26:18.320
Before you do a crime, make sure you're pregnant.
04:26:27.920
You know, any type of betrayal, I took that so to heart.
04:26:32.460
But this one time, I think it was just this guy that played me.
04:26:38.840
Because back then, Instagram had, like, when you posted a picture, it would show, like, where you would post.
04:26:49.120
And also matching the photos he would take in front of his house to, like, that neighborhood.
04:26:57.220
If you bleach grass, like, you got to get that shit uprooted.
04:27:00.360
So, I wrote a very strong message on the grass with bleach.
04:27:22.000
Going back to the looks rating thing here, though.
04:27:32.000
Wait, so if I think, if it's what I think, like, of myself?
04:27:48.280
Do you think all women should view themselves as 10?
04:27:56.320
But then, like, you got to have room for growth, too.
04:27:58.980
So, if you're always a 10, like, you got to be able to clock yourself.
04:28:01.220
And you're like, damn, I'm kind of, like, a 9 right now.
04:28:03.840
But also, beauty is on the eye of the beholder.
04:28:05.500
Like, I've seen men who have, like, all sorts of different types.
04:28:09.340
But to be honest, like, that's some guy's exact type.
04:28:13.780
I mean, if a girl has a big labia that, like, bumps her up, like, one or two points.
04:28:18.700
She goes up one or two points if she has a big labia.
04:28:30.260
Let's use a different framework for the question a little bit.
04:28:32.860
Do you think, in terms of describing your looks, your looks, not your nothing else,
04:28:37.560
just your looks, do you think you are below average, average, or above average?
04:28:55.520
Wait, but I'm confused, because you said you're an eight.
04:29:12.840
I feel like if I was a little thicker, I'd be, like, a little above average, you know?
04:29:21.620
I just, like, as long as you're healthy and you know you got some muscles, whatever.
04:29:24.780
Honestly, I can't tell if I'm chopped or not, though, because people, when I go in public,
04:29:30.060
So, I can't tell if they're shocked or if they're, like, damn, she's hot.
04:29:35.920
Um, you gotta get rid of the bangs, to be honest.
04:29:51.860
Tell me, um, can you guys tell me a woman who you think is a, uh, a ten?
04:29:59.160
Well, let's go around the table, starting with you.
04:30:10.160
Well, Megan Fox, I'm saying Angelina Jolie, both when they were younger.
04:30:37.700
She was very attractive when she was younger, but she's, okay, but I think you'd argue she's
04:30:43.860
Everyone ages gracefully, and she definitely did.
04:30:56.000
Oh, um, I think I like, uh, Zendaya or Zoe Saldana.
04:31:09.840
Uh, well, for the women who gave themselves a bit higher ratings, let's, I mean, ten,
04:31:28.580
I mean, she's good looking, but I mean, she's not.
04:31:42.400
So, you said you were a, uh, eight face, ten body.
04:31:49.700
You gave eight for face, so I guess I can't really go there.
04:31:53.000
Uh, what about girl who's an eight, can you face?
04:31:59.920
It's hard for me to, like, perceive, like, I don't know.
04:32:02.860
Like, I honestly see beauty in a lot of people that a lot of people would think were unattractive.
04:32:08.720
And I think they're, like, a baddie, so don't trust me.
04:32:11.440
Um, I guess for you, who's about to rejoin us at the table, uh, who's a, who's a woman
04:32:36.640
I think we said we should all think we're all tens.
04:32:47.400
It'll have to be, like, I know I'm a ten, but you should, like, love yourself.
04:32:51.540
You should love yourself and think you're that motherfucker.
04:32:58.340
While you have Venmo or something, thank you for the ten on Venmo.
04:33:05.360
We'll start with the looks tab under resources in Discord.
04:33:16.900
So, Mary, we'll start with, like, the Asian girl.
04:33:18.980
It's, like, you have to scroll up a little bit.
04:33:22.420
And I'm not saying these women are tens, but I'm just saying that I think these women are pretty attractive.
04:33:28.220
The first one, just click on the very first one, the Asian girl.
04:33:47.180
No, can you tell me what you currently see on the screen?
04:33:54.800
Okay, scroll to the very bottom, and then it's literally just, like, three posts up.
04:34:18.920
I'm not saying she's a 10, but very attractive gal.
04:34:52.200
So, now that we've looked at some women, look, some people might dispute if, you know, some
04:34:57.420
of them might not have been 10s, but those are some very attractive women.
04:35:02.180
Just to be clear, I just want to get a temperature check on the women who did say they're 10s.
04:35:06.780
Is it your position, if you give them a 10, you give yourself a 10, or a high grade, comparatively,
04:35:16.560
Like, are you guys, essentially, are you just as attractive as those women?
04:35:22.200
I don't compare myself to other women, but there's nothing I change about myself.
04:35:26.100
Well, aside from your lips and your breasts, which you did change.
04:35:32.460
Because you're looking at me right now in the moment, and I have them.
04:35:35.400
No, no, but so were you a 10 before the lip filler and the breast implants?
04:35:44.560
So just as good looking as Megan Fox, and Jessica Eagle, and Adriana Lima, and Jessica Alba, and Taylor Hill.
04:35:57.000
And Evangeline, I'm trying to remember that girl, the first girl's name, whatever.
04:36:13.360
Oh, are you just as good looking as all those women?
04:36:42.840
Those are just conventionally attractive people, though.
04:36:48.460
Is like someone who's conventionally attractive?
04:36:51.900
It seems like we're muddying the waters with this idea of conventional attractiveness.
04:37:03.200
If he walked through that door right now, I would leave.
04:37:08.100
But so, I feel like if I were to say, well, I'm just as attractive as all these men that
04:37:17.500
you just listed, you guys would be like, absolutely not, Brian.
04:37:42.220
This thing or whatever that all of you are doing is fucking useless and pointless.
04:37:55.740
And then, you know, you don't want to see what happens when the fucking red card comes
04:38:03.940
We don't do corporal punishment here at the whatever podcast.
04:38:14.960
I already did some black magic in the bathroom.
04:38:18.180
If I said, you know what, I'm just as good looking as all the guys who you think is a
04:38:33.400
Would you agree with me with my assessment that I'm just as attractive as Tyreek or Logan
04:38:46.560
It's the same way where you may not perceive me as a 10 and that's okay, but I perceive
04:38:51.240
So you can perceive yourself as a 10 and I might not see you as a 10.
04:38:53.720
This relates to standards and we were having this conversation and she was saying, well,
04:38:59.880
No, women are really delusional about their own self-assessment of how attractive they
04:39:04.060
are, especially when it comes to looks, especially when it comes to looks.
04:39:09.460
I'll give you guys, I'll rate you guys and I'm not going to, even though you guys have
04:39:12.860
been pretty feral tonight, not all of you, but most of you have been a little
04:39:16.320
feral, I'm not going to intentionally be malicious and give you, you know, rate you
04:39:22.680
I'll see how your face looks and I'll give you as, uh, as fair a rating as possible, not
04:39:36.180
You guys would clown on dudes who are like, I'm more, I'm, I'm a fucking 10.
04:39:40.820
And it's like, maybe that's why they get cock rating.
04:39:46.580
Cause like if we were to rate their face or whatever, they'd rather have their dicks
04:39:57.380
So look, ultimately though, ultimately the reason I asked this question, the reason why
04:40:02.960
I think it's important, you guys might think, Brian, this is kind of rude or, you know,
04:40:06.960
it's, it's silly and it's like, if we're having conversations about standards, if you think
04:40:14.060
you're more attractive than you actually are, you're going to be holding out for a certain
04:40:19.140
caliber of guy that frankly, uh, again, even tying back into this, maybe he'll fuck you.
04:40:27.600
Maybe you might get, uh, situationship, but you're not going to get commitment.
04:40:34.860
You're not going to get, you're not going to get that.
04:40:39.220
Sometimes people get lucky and they, they get somebody out of their league, but again,
04:40:43.120
you guys are just, again, this is a panel overall in totality.
04:41:09.080
And I think I'm in some ways can be a bit generous here.
04:41:13.420
And I just think that there's, there's so look, dating is difficult enough as it is.
04:41:17.960
And there's record high levels of delusion among women.
04:41:22.420
Y'all really think you're more attractive than you actually are.
04:41:26.780
Um, but I think what that's going to translate to is you're going to be chasing after a caliber
04:41:34.160
Uh, when you finally settle down for the guy who's actually willing to be in a relationship
04:41:40.700
with you, you're going to have so much fucking resentment for this guy because you're thinking
04:41:44.980
about all that guy had more money, that guy had, uh, was better in bed, that guy was better
04:41:51.660
Cause you y'all waiting until 30, late twenties, 30 to get married, to start a family, to have
04:41:57.800
You've been ran through, you've been to have, you've had a bunch of dick and then you,
04:42:02.120
you've dealt with these guys who are high status, high value, whatever, hyper attractive.
04:42:10.580
And then the guy who's actually on your league, who you think you're settling for, but it's
04:42:20.580
Uh, there's going to be a resent in the relationship.
04:42:24.680
You're going to, it's going to be a fucking dead bedroom within a couple of years.
04:42:28.400
And, uh, he's going to have to do chores to get some pussy.
04:42:30.860
And then it's like, okay, on our anniversary, you give him a fucking begrudging blow job
04:42:45.720
I don't understand just because you have a criticism of the modern dating hellscape
04:42:54.120
Um, I hope it's not, I'm not saying that, but you shouldn't change your standards or the
04:42:58.220
way you love or anything just because of the general public, what they think or what the
04:43:11.580
Like, that's why I never mentioned, like, I need a ton of money for my future husband.
04:43:14.760
Um, no, I just, I want to cook and clean and treat them well and I want them to treat
04:43:19.080
me well and I want them to, you know, respect me.
04:43:24.520
You're saying it's okay to just have all these expectations.
04:43:27.640
Look, you got to be realistic about where you stand and who you can get.
04:43:32.700
You said if I'm chasing something, I'm not chasing anybody.
04:43:38.180
If they want me, like she said earlier, they can come get me.
04:43:45.960
And if you don't want to follow my commandments, then get the fuck off me.
04:43:51.880
But what I'm saying is, what I'm saying is, is that you got to understand where you stand
04:43:57.060
in the dating marketplace and the value proposition that you offer.
04:44:02.060
Like if you're an average chick, you're not going to get the six foot three giga Chad,
04:44:09.980
I stand 10 toes down on the fact that I'm a baddie and I'm a 10.
04:44:16.380
And if he sees me as a 10 and he can hit all my points, wait, you said you were four.
04:44:22.200
Well, I thought you were talking about to the general public, but to me, I'm a 10 to
04:44:30.320
I think the, the, your own rating of yourself is inextricably linked to, uh, cause when we're
04:44:38.740
talking about attractiveness, like, I guess you could be, what, what's the term for like
04:44:45.160
Like you're just attract, you're sexually attracted to yourself.
04:44:54.380
Attraction is something that happens external to you.
04:45:01.860
And that has to be grounded in reality, not delusional.
04:45:24.440
Very rarely is it reserved to just one aspect of reality.
04:45:28.420
This feminist ideology of everyone should love themselves 10 tenths is absurd and toxic.
04:45:39.960
I actually personally would rate myself lower, but in the eye of everybody else, I feel like
04:45:51.520
Is thinking you're a 10 the same thing as being a 10?
04:45:58.180
Maybe I would rate myself from my own personal view like a 7.
04:46:02.300
But the way I get treated, it's like 1 million.
04:46:08.640
But no, but I get treated by high value and very well.
04:46:12.440
Men will simp over like subpar, like, oh my god.
04:46:17.340
Well, if they're simp, then it's something about it that's worth it.
04:46:21.740
I thought you said what everybody else thought.
04:46:31.740
Just because guys will be simps and they'll shower you with compliments and they'll be lusting after you, that doesn't constitute.
04:46:40.380
Like, you would agree that there's fat chicks, like obese women, that are bombarded by men?
04:46:49.880
So just because women have the experience of being pursued because that's just the social status quo, I guess.
04:47:03.140
Because that doesn't mean just because men are demonstrating, maybe they could be super simp and maybe they could want something long-term with you.
04:47:12.320
That doesn't mean you're a 10 because an average guy sees an average woman, oh, wow, I'm going to try to date her.
04:47:23.540
Well, if I'm average, getting treated how I get treated, I am grateful to be here.
04:47:34.600
Would you agree it's logically possible that a woman who's just clearly really ugly could be treated really well?
04:47:44.560
Would this be evidence of her being a 10 or is this just evidence of her being treated well by somebody?
04:47:52.980
There's something about her that's attracting them.
04:47:57.140
No, because everybody doesn't get treated like that.
04:47:59.240
So, just to be clear, a supermodel, let's say she gets treated like shit.
04:48:09.760
So, a supermodel who gets treated like fucking dog shit, it gets abused.
04:48:22.320
So, the ugliest woman in the world who gets treated amazingly, she's a 10.
04:48:27.740
And the most beautiful woman in the world who gets treated poorly, she's a zero.
04:48:34.420
Well, I don't know, because you're the one that said how the public perceives is what
04:48:38.680
the rating should be, so that's why I was using that logic.
04:48:42.120
I'm going to rate you guys, but you guys rate me.
04:48:45.840
But don't be all fucking retarded about, like, Brian, you've been a massive dick tonight.
04:49:08.880
You're not my typical type, so, like, if I were...
04:49:13.840
I'm just not my typical type, but I would say, like, you know what?
04:49:56.120
The thing is, you're really autistic, and you're kind of fat, so I'll give you a 4.
04:51:52.580
I basically, for some of y'all, I'd be fucking...
04:51:55.220
Y'all would be massively settling for me, uh, which is interesting.
04:51:59.480
That's sad that you think about yourself like that.
04:52:14.220
I'm saying it's sad that you think about yourself like that, you guys.
04:52:16.500
Like, you'd be massively, uh, massively settling for me.
04:52:25.140
Well, maybe we can both hit Weight Watchers and we can...
04:52:30.820
Yeah, so, I mean, but ultimately, I guess, um, I guess that's the...
04:52:36.680
What I'm trying to get at here is I do think that women overestimate their standing
04:52:41.860
and they underestimate men's, uh, standing, typically.
04:52:48.380
Uh, women are very generous with their own, uh, assessments of their own attractiveness
04:52:53.020
or even other women's attractiveness, but very harsh with assessments of men.
04:52:59.060
And basically, when you have women who only find 5%, 10% of men attractive, but you're
04:53:04.800
a 50% woman, wow, that's a recipe for disaster.
04:53:10.700
You're going to go jump from dick to dick to dick, not be able to get commitment from
04:53:14.680
And then, uh, eventually, uh, maybe you do settle.
04:53:18.280
You're going to resent the guy you settle with because you think you're settling.
04:53:21.420
And I don't think it's settling if, you know, bird's eye view looking at the chess board
04:53:28.160
But if you think you're here and you think the guy's down here, fucking terrible recipe,
04:53:43.420
You said this rating was just off looks though.
04:53:46.360
Because if you're counting everything else, then that's different.
04:53:54.540
There's other things that men can do to make them attractive.
04:53:59.160
That's why I said you're smart, but the autism just takes it down.
04:54:02.280
There's other things that can make a man attractive.
04:54:06.160
Personality, humor, confidence, charisma, charisma, cock size.
04:54:35.960
I'm not going to intentionally rate you low because I dislike you.
04:54:43.940
Which, to be honest, is probably most of you at this point.
04:55:19.120
You should have been paying attention, I guess.
04:55:35.120
I don't think there actually are any tens that are women.
04:55:56.280
It depends how you want to do the scale, like nine, or you could say 9.9 even, but nobody's
04:56:14.780
That you're not attracted to that because you more like want to emulate it.
04:56:21.220
Well, if a perfect looking woman or a perfect looking man, I think they'll probably have
04:56:25.480
better prospects in not just dating, but in life.
04:56:29.740
Because looks, pretty privilege, extends beyond just dating.
04:56:38.680
If you're better looking, the jury's going to look at you differently.
04:56:41.500
People are more like forgiving of people who are attractive.
04:56:46.420
That's going to translate to like the corporate world.
04:56:52.740
And if you're really attractive, that gives you into certain career fields.
04:57:01.160
It helps with anything that's like, I mean, even like not, uh, entertainment field, like
04:57:06.280
That's if you're good looking, that's huge, huge, huge, huge.
04:57:10.320
Uh, people just, uh, people find good looking people more trustworthy, all kinds of other
04:57:22.960
Well, uh, you are wearing quite a bit of makeup.
04:57:28.940
Um, so, uh, you do have the lip filler, which is going to have a bit of an impact.
04:57:36.640
Can you turn, uh, can you turn your face that way?
04:57:42.320
Have you had any, have you had a lip flip, leg augment, lip augmentation?
04:57:48.280
So just the lip filler you've had any Botox in the face at all.
04:57:54.180
Um, so I, I would say you're in terms of attractiveness, you're above average, uh, not a 10 though,
04:58:04.880
I want to say, uh, I'm curious what the chat thinks.
04:58:12.420
I'm just curious what the chat thinks because, uh, I want to say, Hmm.
04:58:21.340
The makeup makes it a little difficult to, to give a rating, but I want to say 6.7, uh,
04:58:30.500
So between six, she's going to like this six, I'd say between six to seven, I'll just land
04:58:41.900
So originally you gave yourself, you gave yourself a 10.
04:58:45.060
Uh, I'd give you 6.5, uh, for you, you gave yourself a 10.
04:59:21.580
Uh, you, uh, you are wearing quite a bit of makeup, especially around the eyes.
04:59:46.560
I mean, honestly, I think your side profile is stronger than your front.
04:59:54.560
I think your side profile is actually stronger than your front, but.
05:00:07.700
Uh, you, your hair is not doing you any favors.
05:00:20.940
Uh, so you do have an interesting, yeah, that's, you're doing the, I think.
05:00:26.020
That's definitely going to make you a ton right there.
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I also normally, I give like one positive, one negative.
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I didn't do that for you guys, but I feel like you call me fat.
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I got to give you a, a, look, but I acknowledge I'm chubby.
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You know, like, I think you, you couldn't say that to a woman.
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Like a girl would be like broken, bereft besides herself.
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There's nothing wrong with being chubby or fat.
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So here, I'll give you one positive, one negative.
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You do have a, you have a wide moon, like a bit of a moon face.
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At least for your phenotype, you have nice eyes.
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Well, your hair and then the wide face is a bit.
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The facial proportions are a bit less than ideal.
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I think I'd, honestly, I'd give you maybe 4.75, maybe a 4.5.
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You, can you take your glasses off temporarily, please?
05:02:59.460
Okay, so you and me, we struggle with the same dilemma is that when you are overweight,
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I've got the fatty face because I'm currently overweight.
05:03:18.960
I'd say, I do think, though, overall, you do have an aesthetic face, but you are wearing,
05:03:23.560
you do have the fake lashes, you're wearing a decent, I think if you, you could, honestly,
05:03:28.900
if you thinned out a little bit, I think, if you thinned out a little bit, like, lost weight.
05:03:56.860
Sometimes you throw, you improvise and some stupid shit comes out.
05:04:40.540
I forgot to do some of these repeats of the rate.
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Well, you have to kind of sometimes do a rating
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I actually overrated you, then, from your perspective.
05:07:43.300
I'm trying to see how the heck you guys did this.
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First of all, the first picture is not accurately even me.
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They're doing a lot of favors on the AI version.
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Just for time, can we just get quick answers on this, please?
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Retake the AI photo because I look like I have downstitchers, too.
05:10:50.040
Yeah, I'd date him, but that does not look like him.
05:11:16.720
You got rid of your jawline a little bit there.
05:12:05.080
I did a redo for the ones that were done wrong.
05:12:32.220
What I'd like to see is some people, some follows trickling in.
05:12:48.080
Guys, I don't, for every hour we stream on Twitch, we only run three minutes of ads.
05:12:53.040
I'm not being a goblin like all these other Twitch streamers where you get fucking crazy ads.
05:12:59.900
I don't do a pre-roll, so you get to join the stream.
05:13:04.780
So show some support on Twitch because I'm not trying to fuck up the viewer experience over there on Twitch.
05:13:12.660
We keep it to the minimum to enable not having a pre-roll ad.
05:14:41.520
No, I don't hate, actually, I don't hate men at all.
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I think there's good men out there, and I think men are necessary, but, like, dude,
05:14:59.780
It was with my second child's father, and I caught him doing some stuff.
05:15:13.020
No, AI cannot recreate this beauty, because that was crazy.
05:15:19.720
That gave me body dysmorphia, because there ain't no way.
05:15:28.880
I was like, they made me look so skinny, like, I haven't eaten.
05:15:32.880
And they didn't even get my nose piercing right.
05:15:53.300
I broke my ex's apartment window, and I made him fix it himself.
05:16:00.740
And then I was gonna throw glitter in his house, so he had to, like...
05:16:20.880
So, what I do, I grab his selfie, because he's a very pretty boy.
05:16:47.720
You should have just dressed up as him and got that money.
05:17:05.300
We were super young, and I was trying to hold the steering wheel, and then he went in to
05:17:10.180
hold the steering wheel, and then, like, he just let the car go, and it hit me, and then
05:17:21.560
Like, I stabbed him with a fork, because I found out he was cheating on me.
05:17:33.000
Can I ask you guys, like, you guys don't just ever want to leave instead of just, like,
05:17:37.040
Yeah, that was, like, my first and only toxic relationship after, like, I was 18.
05:17:45.500
So, like, that was, like, the first time I ever, like, gotten crazy like that.
05:17:49.820
After that, I promised myself I was never going to do it again, and I haven't put my
05:17:59.560
I don't know if I can say this, like, kill himself over you guys?
05:18:08.260
If you say you're going to die for me, you die.
05:18:14.860
Right now, I'm like, do you want me to call the police?
05:18:18.980
I've told a guy that, like, I want to end my life, but, like, that's just because I
05:18:25.340
But then I ended up having his babies, and I didn't want to be with him no more.
05:18:33.880
I came in you, and they didn't really come in me, but they'd say they came in me, just
05:18:41.420
Yeah, I had an ex-boyfriend of mine, like, pulled up on me, because I was like, I'm done.
05:18:46.560
And he pulled up on me with a gun, and, like, in front of me, just, like, put it to his
05:18:56.220
I got to stay in the car and make sure he don't kill himself.
05:18:59.660
And then, on top of that, he starts driving the car, and then he gets out of the car with
05:19:04.020
the car still driving, and goes down a hill and shoots the gun.
05:19:13.560
He just wanted me to think that he killed himself.
05:19:15.720
My ex shot up a party once, so I can come outside.
05:19:20.500
Yeah, like, he was hitting me up, and he was like, oh, I'm going to come pick you
05:19:24.820
And then, next thing you know, like, 20 minutes later, all year, he's like, everybody's running.
05:19:34.640
I've been in some pretty toxic relationships, but I'm better now.
05:19:46.760
He also used to tell me all the time, like, I'm going to kill myself.
05:19:54.660
They be lying, but they be lying, because they're really not going to do it.
05:20:03.260
It's like, oh, I'm not going to eat your butt, but you're down there.
05:20:14.180
I ran myself over with the car, and then it kind of ended there.
05:20:20.620
I used to be really into cars, so I had a C4 Corvette, and the alternator died, like,
05:20:25.660
And, like, they put in two bad alternators after.
05:20:28.500
But I was at a stoplight, and everyone's honking at me, because my car won't move.
05:20:35.680
And so I push it, you know, and I'm like, okay, I'll jump in.
05:20:38.900
But instead of jumping in, I just fell under the car, and I had a big tire mark, and I broke
05:20:44.240
And then the car went into a bush, and there was, like, a car imprint for months.
05:20:56.680
Then I got a 1991 Cadillac Seville, and then I got a C4 Corvette, which was cheap.
05:21:02.180
They went up in value, fortunately, and didn't keep mine.
05:21:11.160
Like, since you seem like you have pretty much, like, a lot of things that a lot of people
05:21:19.680
Like, you have a lot of things that a lot of people wish that they had, like, all these
05:21:24.880
Maybe you have a nice home that you live in that usually, like, maybe, I don't know if
05:21:29.700
you guys, you know, you're strippers or whatever.
05:21:33.400
And we might not have a really nice house or a really nice car, and we want to work for
05:21:38.980
So that's why we do OnlyFans or, you know, strip or whatever.
05:21:42.540
But you, in my perspective, it's like, you already have all that stuff.
05:21:49.880
Because you can't make that amount of money in any other industry.
05:21:54.800
I enjoy the marketing aspect, and I enjoy, like, the freedom of it and being online so
05:22:00.440
I can also go to school and, like, you know, categorize my own time.
05:22:05.840
You don't have to, like, show your butthole or anything?
05:22:12.500
I've done a baking live, and I stayed in a bikini the whole time.
05:22:21.500
I've had a lot of jobs, but the one right before bikini was a preschool teacher.
05:22:30.720
Brian, you either need to bring some sensible counterpoint people on or shrink the size of
05:22:39.120
Confirmation bias without challenge is getting old.
05:22:49.580
Let me get your others that I just see now that are coming through.
05:23:03.780
The last three male AI should be deported to Scott.
05:23:07.300
Perhaps another question in addition to body count.
05:23:10.000
Have you committed felonies of a domestic nature, assault, stalking, fraud, trafficking,
05:23:33.720
Nemesis is a cut lord and should be removed as mod.
05:23:37.220
Also, this panel is chopped and deserves the asteroid.
05:23:42.300
It's butterfly women that have the collective IQ of a snail.
05:23:55.800
Um, I'll know what you did and he, look, he lets a lot slide, so I'll know what you
05:24:02.400
did, but usually if you get banned or something, you get timed out, you, you did something.
05:24:08.840
So, um, just don't be doing, saying stupid shit in the chat if you don't want to get banned,
05:24:17.100
Um, but anyways, uh, and look, I'm not reviewing like the chat that we get like tens of thousands
05:24:25.280
I, there's no way for us to really keep tabs really on what's going on in the chat, but
05:24:32.980
This guy's been a mod helping out, um, volunteer just for a long time, three years, three years,
05:24:47.220
Just don't say stupid shit or TOS shit in the chat.
05:24:52.100
Those of you who watch the chat, we let so much slide in the chat.
05:25:05.180
Otherwise you can just close all that shit out, I guess.
05:25:07.680
I would just like to say I'm Puerto Rican, black and Filipino.
05:25:19.860
Disagreements, uh, I guess going to you, OnlyFans doesn't lower your value.
05:25:31.920
Like, I don't think it makes me a less desirable person.
05:25:37.480
And I don't think it makes me less of a good person.
05:25:42.120
And I don't think it makes me less of a hard worker.
05:25:46.380
Um, but so we're not talking when we use the term value.
05:25:52.540
We are talking in a dating context here, right?
05:26:01.640
And so if someone didn't want to date me, that'd be okay.
05:26:03.680
And I don't take that personally at all because of it.
05:26:06.100
So, but I want to differentiate between intrinsic value.
05:26:10.100
Your value is a human, your value, your moral value.
05:26:13.660
Uh, and then you're typically, because I would, I want to assume that when you say value, you're
05:26:23.300
Because I don't ever make the claim, and I don't think most people make the claim that,
05:26:27.980
uh, women, whether it's OnlyFans or other things, their intrinsic value is lower because
05:26:35.640
Uh, humans have basically equal value in terms of their intrinsic moral value.
05:26:41.680
But when we're referring to value, we're talking, typically talking about dating.
05:26:46.700
So I guess, I mean, maybe this can be ended very quickly.
05:26:50.980
Uh, it's my position that generally speaking, uh, women who do OnlyFans, that's a negative
05:26:57.640
when it comes to men's assessment in terms of, uh, date, uh, being, uh, like it's negative
05:27:07.480
characteristic or negative, uh, thing about a person if they're a sex worker or do OnlyFans.
05:27:14.760
Um, so for my personal, but at the same time, I don't put myself out there because I understand
05:27:54.800
Let, let's see if we can better define our positions here.
05:27:57.720
So I agree with you that some men are going to date you and they're going to either tolerate
05:28:03.340
or accept or be okay with the fact that you do OnlyFans.
05:28:06.420
But would you agree that for maybe, let's say 51% of men or more, uh, it is suboptimal
05:28:18.080
I actually get a lot more issues with men not, um, getting to hit.
05:28:22.300
Like the moment I say I'm waiting till marriage is when most men have an issue.
05:28:31.140
So, but that would be sort of your own anecdotal experience.
05:28:34.460
However, if we're looking at men just who are out there, do you think that it's their
05:28:46.900
So I would say it hasn't really affected their opinion on me.
05:28:51.460
You said you've been single for two years and you've failed at establishing any relationships
05:28:57.000
throughout the course of your involvement in OnlyFans and you're actively not dating
05:29:01.480
because you seem to, why are you not dating if you think it's not an issue?
05:29:08.580
I don't approach a man, for one, I don't need a man, but for two, because I understand
05:29:16.340
And so if a man approaches me, then I'll be honest about it.
05:29:19.000
And every time a man's approached me and hit on me and want to date me, the issue has
05:29:24.980
Do they approach you at your bikini barista job?
05:29:35.220
I mean, maybe they're trying to hit, who knows?
05:29:38.820
And clearly they're leaving, like they're not continuing to deal with you once it's been
05:29:47.460
Although that's, I mean, probably bullshit for engagement, but ultimately as it, as on
05:29:54.320
the topic of OnlyFans, this does lower your value in the dating marketplace.
05:30:01.320
If you feel that way, I'll let you feel that way.
05:30:06.540
It just doesn't bother me because I do so much for myself.
05:30:10.560
How is that relevant to the conversation at hand?
05:30:18.360
We're talking about, does OnlyFans lower your value in the dating marketplace?
05:30:28.120
And since you're desirous of a trad dynamic, allegedly, and you're a Christian, I assume
05:30:32.920
you want to date a Christian man who's willing to wait until marriage, I would argue of the
05:30:36.840
type of men that the guy who's willing to wait until marriage, probably more trad, probably
05:30:56.300
I'm more middle ground because I think we have so many issues on both sides that I don't-
05:31:01.140
I personally don't think non-binary is a thing, but I think it's fine to be trans-
05:31:15.320
A woman is someone that identifies as a female, and if it's a cis woman, it's someone with-
05:31:43.560
Do you think illegal immigrants should be deported from this country?
05:31:50.180
You can have criticisms about the way ICE is doing things, but would you generally agree
05:31:55.820
that, assuming you could do this in the most perfect way possible, should we deport
05:32:03.080
I don't personally care if they're here, but I understand people's aspect and other countries
05:32:08.840
do it, and I can see doing it in a very safe way.
05:32:15.420
So if somebody is being apprehended by ICE and they're resisting arrest, do you think
05:32:24.240
ICE should not, through escalation of force, they shouldn't use force?
05:32:30.120
Like, should ICE show up at your door, knock, knock, hi, are you willing to be deported?
05:32:39.100
So what government body should be deporting people?
05:32:44.260
They're hiring random people who are using their bias in a very angry way right now.
05:32:48.720
But again, I need to remind you that I'm 19 years old.
05:32:51.980
I'm still educating myself, but my morals around human rights and treating people right,
05:33:02.720
Making me to solve government issues is a bit far-bound.
05:33:05.720
Well, I mean, I'm trying to get an assessment here of, you know, your kind of political leanings
05:33:10.720
because that's going to have an impact on your dating prospects.
05:33:14.500
You're going to find that soy boy liberal who's willing to wait until marriage and is also Christian.
05:33:21.200
You do realize most Christians lean conservative, so that's going to definitely have an impact
05:33:33.800
I have a preference on their morals and how they treat people and the women's rights.
05:33:45.940
It's completely incompatible, once again, with Christianity.
05:33:54.060
I think that a lot of the Bible is original transcript.
05:34:10.000
There's a difference from cells developing and a human baby.
05:34:14.020
And if you actually learn anatomy and physiology and biology and you go through, like, the facts,
05:34:20.060
I think that there is a certain point where, no, you shouldn't...
05:34:24.560
Not a fully formed fetus, but I think there is a point where...
05:34:35.300
Because men take over our healthcare nowadays, and a lot of it's inaccurate.
05:34:39.200
The way women give birth was for a man's pleasure.
05:34:42.000
Yes, the way they gave birth is so a man could watch.
05:34:46.060
Scientifically, it would be more comfortable for a woman to be in a different position.
05:34:58.420
Because there's a more comfortable position that women could arguably give birth in,
05:35:04.060
ergo, it was some perverted thing so men could watch women...
05:35:14.000
So, just to be clear, the current position that some women give birth in, which is on
05:35:38.120
You're pulling this completely out of your ass.
05:35:44.920
Like, I've heard a lot of positions and arguments on this show.
05:35:48.900
I've actually never heard that women give birth on their backs for the pleasure, the visual
05:35:57.580
That's what a teacher at a college told me, but hey...
05:36:03.620
But that's what I heard and I'm just relaying information.
05:36:14.260
So, what's the optimum, like, standing up, like, on all fours?
05:36:21.080
Actually, the most comfortable birth position is supposed to be...
05:36:27.320
They gotta be on their knees and on their hands.
05:36:30.700
So, it's, like, gravity is supposed to be, yeah.
05:36:42.400
There is a myth, though, about a teen Louis of France established laying on the back
05:36:47.840
for two votes at Louis of the first, but that's that she might be wrong.
05:37:01.760
I don't think any guy wants to see a baby coming out the vagina hole.
05:37:08.340
We have a girl who claims she's a virgin, who's waiting until marriage, claims she's
05:37:13.840
She claims to be traditional, but she has absolutely zero conservative values whatsoever.
05:37:25.780
I don't think I came across very liberal, but I think I'm really in the middle.
05:37:30.720
We have two, like, major pillars of political...
05:37:46.660
I don't know what another political thing would...
05:37:48.760
I think politics is, like, a big thing in a relationship.
05:37:51.780
Because if you're building with somebody and you're going to build a family, like, how
05:37:58.220
I mean, look, some people do it, but I think you need to be aligned on values.
05:38:03.620
Yeah, because then you won't see eye to eye with that person on a lot of things.
05:38:10.540
Especially if your phenotypes are different, you definitely...
05:38:15.620
You can't be, like, Democrat and then your man be Republican.
05:38:19.940
Maybe, like, 40 years ago, like, when politics weren't as important.
05:38:25.980
Or just find someone who doesn't really give a shit about politics, same as you.
05:38:30.000
There's things I care about, and there's things that just...
05:38:34.200
Like, guns I don't care about, but that goes...
05:38:45.900
Do you think we should prevent people from crossing the border illegally?
05:39:02.380
I think it's good to make it, like, possible for them to get a, you know, a green card and
05:39:16.160
I feel for families who come here for a better life, and they...
05:39:24.700
Remember at the beginning of the conversation when she was talking about empathy?
05:39:28.440
I call it toxic empathy, suicidal empathy, where it will be the destruction because,
05:39:33.860
oh, but they really want to come here, and they'll have a better life here.
05:39:39.860
And so, this suicidal empathy will be the absolute catastrophe and downfall of the West,
05:39:48.380
It's been going on for, honestly, decades at this point.
05:39:57.220
It's totally cucked because women don't want to hurt anybody's feelings.
05:40:03.880
We need to start telling women, there are some things that we're going to have to do
05:40:07.120
politically that are going to hurt your feelings.
05:40:09.620
We're going to have to hurt women's feelings to ensure a robust, thriving society.
05:40:18.020
Otherwise, if it was up to women, you would just open the floodgates, and we would not...
05:40:23.060
The quality of life in the United States and Europe would be complete fucking disaster.
05:40:34.040
Yeah, I don't completely disagree with you either, to be honest.
05:40:38.560
I think just the way that they're going about it with ICE has been terrible recently.
05:40:44.420
But if you think about it, they have been doing that for a long time.
05:40:51.040
You live in Seattle, or you're in Washington or something?
05:40:57.620
Do you have a one-bedroom, two-bedroom, two-bedroom?
05:40:59.620
Because it sounds like you do well with your OF and whatever.
05:41:12.900
I think we can put two people in that room, maybe a bunk bed.
05:41:24.240
See, that's a very different situation at hand.
05:41:27.820
I'm not saying that everyone should just be allowed over.
05:41:36.480
Even Democrats can be like, nah, we probably need border security.
05:41:40.240
There's some super far-left liberal people who are like, yeah, just open the floodgates.
05:41:44.480
Even Democrats are kind of like, eh, we're not going to totally go that far.
05:41:48.940
You stumbled when I was like, should we just not have border control whatsoever?
05:41:52.340
But you're fine with illegal immigrants being here.
05:42:04.460
I feel like you're taking me and you're trying to make me look really far on one side,
05:42:08.560
when honestly, I just don't feel educated enough to talk on it.
05:42:18.060
I want to hear from these beautiful women, because they're older than wives.
05:42:29.980
I mean, look, some people do this, but the majority of people who are voting for opening
05:42:34.680
up the border or against deportations or who are fine with just rampant millions upon millions
05:42:43.280
of illegal immigrants coming here every year would never even think to actually house an illegal immigrant.
05:42:51.520
You see Billie Eilish, these millionaires who live in gated communities with private security
05:42:56.780
and mansions who would, under no circumstance, ever house an illegal immigrant.
05:43:05.240
I don't know if it was the Grammys or some other award show.
05:43:17.400
And then the tribe on which her multi-million mansion was built, they're like, well, actually,
05:43:25.080
We'd like to have a conversation with you about you returning our land to us.
05:43:31.300
And it's like, these celebrities, these liberal fucking rich people and celebrities are so far
05:43:37.540
divorced from any of the ramifications of immigration, specifically illegal immigration.
05:43:45.400
But like for an American who lives in a border town or America where they're sending all
05:43:49.880
these illegal immigrants to, it has a massive impact, has a massive negative impact.
05:43:59.300
When we had the fires and then there was a lot of celebrities asking regular people like
05:44:09.820
And all of us are struggling like a motherfucker and you asking me to donate money when you can
05:44:14.300
literally buy another house right now if you wanted to, go donate your money.
05:44:18.780
Me and my ex-boyfriend literally picked up his friend because...
05:44:28.800
This young woman is an apostate, gingerly and go with religion.
05:44:51.780
Or me and my ex-boyfriend, we housed our friend.
05:44:54.980
And he was, like, super entitled, had money, would complain about buying groceries and everything.
05:45:09.320
But to add to your point, like, yeah, I understand that.
05:45:19.960
All the upset about the deportations going on currently, the...
05:45:31.820
The facilities that they were housing, these potential deportees or whatever,
05:45:45.080
The reality is, when you basically have the entire liberal Democrat apparatus harassing,
05:45:55.180
then you're creating this powder keg for potential...
05:45:59.820
Look, the killings that happened, it's very unfortunate that it happened.
05:46:03.220
Nobody wants to see anybody get killed or injured or any of these things.
05:46:10.260
They're clearly agitators, I think, in both of the two instances that occurred in...
05:46:19.740
I was getting confused with Wisconsin for some reason.
05:46:22.400
Well, a lot of people on your phenotype would say that.
05:46:26.720
In any case, look, if you're going to be, like, interrupting federal investigations...
05:46:33.260
Like, recently, there was just this famous clip.
05:46:35.740
It just came out, I think, yesterday or two days ago.
05:46:38.340
There were ICE agents who were apprehending an illegal immigrant who had, like, essayed...
05:46:47.440
And this, like, Karen woman who was following them around, they're like,
05:46:51.400
Yo, we're trying to apprehend a guy who has committed sex crimes against children.
05:47:02.660
The entire liberal apparatus is coming out because it's politically expedient to create
05:47:07.900
this powder keg situation where somebody gets killed, something happens.
05:47:13.100
Like, it's beneficial to you guys for this shit to happen because you can use it as political
05:47:17.980
capital and say, Oh, my God, look at how terrible Donald Trump is.
05:47:25.660
Even before any of these killings happened, y'all were protesting against ICE before any
05:47:30.160
bad shit happened because the base level of your objection to ICE, it's not...
05:47:37.460
Even if I go ahead and grant and say, Yeah, ICE makes mistakes.
05:47:44.220
Maybe they deport the wrong person or they detain the wrong person.
05:47:54.740
It's, I don't like that they're deporting illegal immigrants because suicidal empathy.
05:48:08.180
Me personally, I agree with deporting criminals, but I just don't think I know enough to have
05:48:16.780
Anybody here who is here illegally is a criminal.
05:48:19.360
Yeah, me personally, I think the deportation is not...
05:48:25.840
But Biden letting all those people come, knowing we have such a big homelessness problem was not
05:48:32.480
We need to fix the homelessness before we bring in more people, and once that gets fixed,
05:48:45.740
All these resources that are going to, you know, they'll fly people in.
05:49:05.420
We have veterans on the street, and you want to...
05:49:08.020
And they can't even get housing from Section 8 because everyone is waiting like years to
05:49:13.320
Like my mom has been on that Section 8, like waiting for a house since I was little, and
05:49:18.780
she has dealt with homelessness and everything like that.
05:49:21.660
So I've also met a lot of people growing up that were close to her that were dealing with
05:49:28.280
homelessness, and their stories were insane and crazy because like none of them really
05:49:32.180
deserved it in a sense, but the rent is so high.
05:49:44.200
The feminist leftist light tards are going to crumble.
05:49:47.620
You have the right to ignore reality, but reality will smack you in the face.
05:49:54.340
Yeah, I mean, look, I'm willing to be charitable and grant that like ICE has definitely made
05:50:03.940
They haven't been perfect, but you know, humans aren't perfect.
05:50:10.460
And if they did do something criminal, then they ought to be prosecuted.
05:50:15.740
There's, there's, uh, instances where, you know, if, and I'm sure even law enforcement
05:50:21.460
officers are like, if another law enforcement officer does something like wrong or bad, they
05:50:27.180
should be punished or, you know, whatever the, the, uh, you know, they just cover it up.
05:50:39.220
I'm not, or they just say, Hey, don't come to work for a few weeks and then come back.
05:50:43.000
You get, you get, uh, put on leave or something like that.
05:50:50.120
And if, look, if they've fucked up, if they've committed a crime, they've done something wrong,
05:50:54.000
then at least from my perspective, that should be prosecuted.
05:50:57.360
But in terms of the base foundational mission of ICE, which is to deport illegal immigrants,
05:51:03.380
I mean, you're going to have to make an argument for why that's actually wrong.
05:51:20.520
If you came here illegally or your family did, then why should anybody else be able to?
05:51:27.380
No, but your ancestors, did they ever come from somewhere else?
05:51:33.240
Well, look, I don't know the, the entire history of my ancestry.
05:51:36.740
I think a lot of people, a lot of people don't.
05:51:39.800
But I think if you're looking, if you're talking about the first, let's say white or European settlers who came to the United States, they're not immigrants.
05:51:51.160
See, an immigrant is somebody who's coming to a civilization that's already established.
05:51:56.000
So, in the United States, there wasn't civilization.
05:52:00.240
When your ancestors came, there wasn't civilization here already?
05:52:04.620
So, there's a difference between settler and immigrant.
05:52:12.380
No, I'm saying I don't know, but I think you're trying to get at this idea of, well, if you're not Native American, then you were, at one point, an immigrant.
05:52:19.420
Settlers were people who, Europeans, who came here.
05:52:32.900
But I think it's a little different between, like, okay.
05:52:39.420
I think, like, when Europeans initially came to the United States, they probably would have had, like, there was more infrastructure,
05:52:48.020
and there was a better setup, and there was a better quality of life in Europe.
05:52:51.740
They intentionally came to a place where there was basically, I mean, it was nothing.
05:53:04.640
Some people came in the 1900s, and New York was already there.
05:53:11.740
But I'm talking about the initial people from Europe who came to the United States.
05:53:15.860
Yeah, but weren't all those Indians killed off?
05:53:21.200
I am Native American, too, and actually, I, okay, listen, I have a lot of opinions about
05:53:26.700
this, and I'm about to spill the can of beans right now, because my grandfather is actually
05:53:32.940
Mascalero Apache from New Mexico, which is a tribe that was killed off besides, it was down
05:53:41.080
to 500 people, and so settler colonialist America is a totally different thing than illegal
05:53:48.140
immigration, so I don't even like to compare the two, because at the same time, I do have
05:53:52.480
that perspective, but my grandparents are also immigrants from Iran and from Taiwan,
05:54:01.620
and they came here legally, and they did it the right way, and so I'm all for immigrants
05:54:06.140
and people that want to come to this country, because this is a democracy, after all, or
05:54:09.480
it should be, and there should be opportunities here for people to make a better life for
05:54:13.860
themselves, but I think it should be done the right way, because a lot of times, these illegal
05:54:18.760
There obviously is the cases where, you know, they're honest people, and they're working
05:54:22.060
honest jobs, and they, you know, deserve to live a good life, but a lot of them are here
05:54:27.860
to sex traffic and put drugs on our streets, and I think that as a person who is a citizen
05:54:34.920
of this country, like, I don't want that shit happening here, and I don't know, there is
05:54:42.300
Yeah, I don't know if that is true, and for me, I know a lot of people.
05:54:50.880
My family, I know the immigrants that have been in my family, that has been because they
05:54:56.820
wanted a better life, not because they're bringing cocaine, or bringing drugs, or wanting
05:55:01.700
to sex traffic, my cousins, or my uncles, or aunts.
05:55:04.420
All right, I'm moving this up, and I'm moving the combo on.
05:55:15.320
Feminist ideology has us crying over Stone Age cultures that didn't even have the wheel.
05:55:20.660
We should all be grateful that North America was colonized.
05:55:25.560
Yeah, it's different, like, okay, you're coming from a third world country into the
05:55:30.320
United States, which is a first world country, versus you left Europe at the time, which would
05:55:36.460
have been, like, peak civilization, and then you moved to, like, literally, there's no
05:55:43.820
Like, the very origination of the people who came here.
05:55:51.040
Yeah, didn't Native Americans teach you guys how to grow crops, and teach you guys how
05:55:59.980
We taught you guys everything, and then you tried to kill us off.
05:56:06.300
You're talking about, oh, we're settlers, we settled.
05:56:12.180
You took away our knowledge, and what we had, and all the Native Americans had, and you
05:56:18.720
Not only did you use it against us, but then, you took it, and you decided to become settlers,
05:56:31.900
You took our knowledge, and you said you were bringing us things.
05:56:34.780
What did you bring us that we didn't already know?
05:56:46.360
Well, actually, wasn't it the Native Americans that gave syphilis to...
05:57:02.400
So yeah, I think that the Native Americans did impart some knowledge, or maybe there was
05:57:12.100
I'm not saying, like, no, they didn't contribute anything.
05:57:22.200
Here, I'll step away if you guys want to continue.
05:57:23.800
The way that ICE is doing things, you're dehumanizing people, and we shouldn't be dehumanizing anybody,
05:57:30.740
If you're a Christian, right, and you have Christian beliefs, then you wouldn't dehumanize somebody
05:57:40.540
Yeah, you shouldn't get shot in the face for being in a country.
05:57:43.580
Nobody should dehumanize anybody for anything that they're doing.
05:57:49.200
That's like, basically, you're saying, oh, well, there has to be one punishment for everybody
05:57:55.080
So for everybody that's doing something wrong, there's people that have their green cards
05:58:00.160
and are trying to become citizens, but they're taking that away, too.
05:58:04.040
I'm Puerto Rican, and they sent my cousin to Mexico because he didn't have his birth certificate
05:58:21.040
All of us were to cut ourselves right now, we'd bleed the same fucking blood.
05:58:24.280
Where we are right now as a society, like, there's so many brilliant minds.
05:58:30.440
Why are we doing it in this way when there's literally, like, brilliant, brilliant people?
05:58:35.100
We have all this technology, but you're telling me we can't find a better solution than what
05:58:40.300
The thing is, the government don't want to spend money on doing that.
05:58:44.700
They want to try to find the easiest way for them to get people out.
05:58:56.800
Nobody knew that he put all those laws and kids in cages until Trump had said something.
05:59:03.700
That it's just the way that you go about it, the way that ICE is going about it, the way
05:59:16.880
Look, I do think that Native Americans definitely have some grievances.
05:59:23.600
But ultimately, I guess I would ask you, like, do you think the Native American was...
05:59:30.080
They were a peaceable people before the appearance of Europeans?
05:59:35.480
Would you be a peaceable person if somebody was getting onto your land and just trying
05:59:41.040
Yeah, and they're, like, white as fuck, and you're like, oh, shit.
05:59:43.660
I'm speaking before the white man ever set foot on North America.
05:59:48.600
Do you think that the Native Americans were a peaceable people before the appearance of
05:59:59.060
Like, a lot of the Native American tribes were, like, very, like, vicious.
06:00:03.200
Are you looking at, like, the Aztecs and the Incas and the Mayans?
06:00:07.660
Like, if you're looking, they definitely did, like, human sacrifice type shit.
06:00:11.320
No, I'm more thinking about the East Coast when the 13 colonies first started.
06:00:17.140
So it's like, okay, this is stolen land, but before the white man ever appeared in North
06:00:21.840
America, the various differing Native American tribes were fighting each other.
06:00:27.880
And they would get game and land through conquest.
06:00:32.700
So for hundreds of moons before the white man ever appeared, Native Americans were fighting
06:00:42.300
So do we return the land to the tribe that was the final Native American conqueror of that
06:00:48.160
Or do we return the land to the tribe in which the Chippewa conquered the Apache?
06:00:57.260
So you would love us to just thank the white man for helping us out on...
06:01:04.700
Helping the Native Americans or the Inca to fight the Aztecs and fight...
06:01:14.220
But what I'm saying is, if we're talking about stolen land, to whom do we bequeath the land
06:01:30.520
Because the various Native American tribes were conquering each other for decades, if not
06:01:40.780
And they were doing it for no less noble a cause than the same reason the white man did
06:01:56.780
If you were to sit here and tell me that all white people, right?
06:02:02.860
All white people aren't trying to make sure that ICE isn't, you know, doing it in a specific
06:02:08.760
way or all black people are doing it in a specific way on the specific phenotype.
06:02:27.000
Horses, Christianity, gunpowder, clothes, rule of law, etc.
06:02:32.340
If your cousin can't prove he's a citizen, that sounds like a him problem.
06:02:50.100
No, what I was talking about basically is what I'm saying is white people came to the native,
06:02:58.300
and there's different kinds of white people, right?
06:03:04.400
There's all those kinds of white people, right?
06:03:06.300
So, what is the difference between Native Americans in different areas and doing conquest between each other
06:03:15.440
and the Europeans doing that between each other?
06:03:19.440
But the difference is that it's a fight between each other versus a fight between a different phenotype.
06:03:29.760
Like, you're fighting between each other for land or whatever, but you see a white man, and he's coming over,
06:03:35.460
and he's like, oh, we're going to do this, too.
06:03:37.540
That's a whole different scenario than if you're fighting amongst each other.
06:03:43.780
Somebody just bring it back to the dating, please.
06:03:49.900
So, have you ever went on a date, and the guy's breath just straight up was kicking?
06:03:57.700
Because it's just disgusting, because I had it happen to me.
06:04:01.900
I went on a date, like, a good minute ago, and that wasn't even the worst part.
06:04:05.660
Like, he pulled up smelling like straight piss.
06:04:14.640
But the audacity to buy me $300 perfume and you didn't get nothing for yourself is crazy.
06:04:25.220
And then, you know how the lady, she comes out with the chips and the salsa and shit?
06:04:30.120
And I go and grab a fucking chip, and he's like, oh, you're not going to wash your hands?
06:04:45.440
But, yeah, that was the last time me ever, ever speaking to him.
06:04:49.160
So, that was one of my worst dating experiences, to be honest with you.
06:05:02.720
He'd be, like, lotioning up with some oils, you know?
06:05:06.360
He don't like to be ashy, so he'd be all up in there.
06:05:09.600
But I'm saying, like, what are your guys' worst dating experience that's happened to
06:05:14.140
Has anybody, sorry to, like, but I just thought of this.
06:05:17.080
Has anybody, like, crazily discovered a side chick or side dude?
06:05:24.940
You find out through Spotify or some shit or, like, some stupid shit.
06:05:28.500
I found out all the girls put me in a group chat.
06:05:32.560
All the girls put me in a group chat and sent me every picture that they would take with
06:05:48.360
And we see that, you know, you guys are, like, super serious.
06:05:51.560
And you're the only one that he has on his Instagram.
06:06:03.280
That sounds like that one movie when all the girls got together and then, like, took revenge.
06:06:15.640
Till this day, he still says he's never cheating on me.
06:06:29.040
One time, I went all the way to Florida to meet this guy that I had a crush on for, like, forever.
06:06:57.200
And then I got back on my flight and went home.
06:06:58.820
And I blocked him and never talked to him again.
06:07:01.000
That's probably, like, the most fucked up thing I've ever done.
06:07:14.260
And then, why did you decide to pull up on me with nothing on?
06:07:29.360
All right, let's blast through some of the final things here.
06:07:45.820
I had to step away from the table there momentarily.
06:08:02.840
No, so my dad was, he was actually born in North Africa.
06:08:09.300
And so technically, if my dad was born in Africa, and my mom was born in America, combine the two, technically African-American.
06:08:32.940
As soon as everybody's back at the table, I'll get into the next segment here in just a moment.
06:08:39.200
I guess I could do, here, let's, I gotta wait until everyone's back at the table.
06:08:58.160
Okay, you already talked about, like, the bad breath thing.
06:09:12.700
Actually, you know what, let's save that for later.
06:09:14.520
Uh, what is the minimum yearly income to be your future husband?
06:09:24.100
Well, uh, I guess you could just say for the other person?
06:09:30.920
In the future, that would pretty much be singers.
06:09:52.680
Uh, can you tilt your microphone down more, please?
06:10:09.040
Um, I didn't put anything, because, honestly, I'm unsure.
06:10:15.420
Because if I'm in love with that person, I mean, I don't really care.
06:10:34.260
Um, nothing too unreasonable, I guess, except for you.
06:10:44.220
Have you ever, like, had a long-term relationship with a guy who makes that much money?
06:10:49.420
Who actually makes, doesn't just claim it, but actually makes that much money?
06:11:18.200
Well, now, but you did right now, because you know you're going to get my wrath.
06:11:25.940
And so, just to be clear, that, even on the low end, the 500,000, that is less than one
06:11:41.680
Like, if they show, like, they really have, like, a good work ethic.
06:11:45.700
And, like, they put a lot of effort into everything they do.
06:11:49.380
And, like, they're trying to build up and, like, be better and find different avenues
06:11:58.960
But, I mean, somebody could have a good work ethic, all those things, and not make more
06:12:04.020
than $150,000, like, at any point in their life.
06:12:09.140
Because it's, like, for, like, someone that's starting up a business, too, they start with
06:12:13.440
But are you going to be there for them when they have nothing and starting up the business?
06:12:17.240
Or are you going to wait until they already done, finished it up?
06:12:26.340
Women already want a guy who has reached the finish line.
06:12:31.080
It's because I am already, like, very well on my own.
06:12:34.960
Women wait at the finish line, and they fuck the winners.
06:12:41.380
And I work really hard to be my best self, so I'm not going to settle for a loser.
06:12:47.300
But, I mean, so a guy who makes $200,000, that's not enough for you?
06:12:54.980
So $350,000 is the minimum, although here you wrote $500,000 minimum to $1 million.
06:13:01.320
But $300,000, you said $300,000 wouldn't be enough?
06:13:10.040
Or you can live anywhere in this country off $300,000 and have a comfortable life.
06:13:19.180
$300,000 is, look, I mean, you're not going to be.
06:13:23.540
If you're in SF or NYC or nice parts of L.A., that's not going to be, like, luxury, but you're going to have, like, a, that's still pretty good.
06:13:34.260
I mean, it's not going to be, you're not going to be, like, I'm trying to think, like, exactly how the lifestyle would be like it that much in L.A., but whatever.
06:13:45.320
You do realize, though, in any case, you're basically zeroing out 99% of men, basically.
06:14:06.840
And he's got to be set for himself with a little extra for me.
06:14:23.600
Like, maybe you could find a guy who's, like, 50 or 60 who might accept.
06:14:27.600
I already have a lot of offers of people in this range or way higher.
06:14:31.440
If you did, you would, well, that you actually like, that you would want to date them back.
06:14:35.780
They're rich, but they don't have the emotional side that I want.
06:14:38.480
See, it's not just, even if you do meet this metric, it's not just, okay, well, you're getting rid of 99% of men.
06:14:45.080
It then becomes, okay, he's got to meet all my other long list of criteria that's really important.
06:14:57.840
You want me to, oh, for your sake, I'll date a dusty little brokey.
06:15:02.240
Just to make you comfortable so you don't have to be emotional.
06:15:05.640
I don't want to make you emotional with my standards.
06:15:07.260
I mean, it is what it is, but I do think you should probably reassess your standards.
06:15:12.000
I have plenty of options already in that range, and I'm not going through.
06:15:19.640
You don't know me, and I don't care about your opinion.
06:15:22.000
Well, the fact that your sex worker does bring down your dating value, but, look, what you guys got to understand.
06:15:27.060
That's why he has to make more so he can take me out the game.
06:15:39.880
I'll still do it, but I do make less money when I date people because I'm like a stage performer.
06:15:44.440
I'm literally just on stage the whole night in a bikini.
06:15:50.280
No, I will maybe quit if he wants to take care of you.
06:16:48.120
You want me to just, no, listen, because before I was a sex worker, I worked minimum wage, three
06:17:07.160
So why would I bring my value down and get paid minimum wage for the worst treatment when
06:17:11.800
I could make a bunch of money from just dancing in a bikini?
06:17:15.920
Okay, that's your justification for why you do sex work.
06:17:18.620
But it doesn't address my argument, which is you want a guy who makes $500,000 to 1 million.
06:17:29.460
You're excluding 99% of men from your dating pool, not to mention all the other standards
06:17:35.760
You know, you guys were giving me flack earlier about this whole, you know, people can have
06:17:48.320
Then we add in, we add in your other metrics and it's like, there's like five dudes in
06:17:55.180
It's like, and then you look, also you have to think, okay, this is what I want in a man.
06:18:07.540
So you're the, so the guy who makes a million dollars a year, he's looking at the 28 year
06:18:11.340
old sex worker and is like, that's, I'm not going to lie.
06:18:24.100
No, they don't even, they're going to make you think that though.
06:18:26.360
They're going to make you think that, but they don't want you as a wife.
06:18:33.580
And it makes me sad for everybody that lowers their standards that low and like thinks
06:18:39.380
That's why you will never attract that in your life.
06:18:48.560
I don't even need to manifest it to attract it, but I do have a book about manifestation
06:18:57.860
This idea that, oh, if you just put it out in the universe and I think I'm hot shit, therefore
06:19:02.740
I'm going to end up with like a really high value guy.
06:19:13.380
Unless you date a guy, late forties, fifties, sixties, you're not going to end up with a
06:19:19.640
A lot of rich people like to, like to marry or be with other rich people that are already
06:19:25.600
Would you agree with me that men who make a million dollars or more a year are going to be
06:19:36.900
Some of them are, do sketchy shit for a million dollars a year.
06:19:42.700
So men generally now, of course, uh, men who are high earners typically tend to be assessed
06:19:55.080
And so if you are a man who makes a million dollars a year and you have a bunch of options,
06:20:03.740
Now, just to be clear, I don't, I don't hate sex workers.
06:20:08.840
I'm not saying that as a sex worker that, uh, you should, no one should ever love you
06:20:15.080
No, I wish for all of you to have relationships.
06:20:17.340
Although truth be told, I'd probably, if a guy came to me for advice and he's like, Hey,
06:20:22.720
I'd say no, but I'm not saying you shouldn't look.
06:20:25.560
I'd love for all of you to be in loving, great relationships.
06:20:30.420
But I don't think you get away from the, this idea that sex work is suboptimal.
06:20:39.020
It's even, even those that do, I literally just have so, I got a lot of, I'm not worried
06:20:44.060
about what you think you would be disgusted with if you knew like, yeah, I know there's
06:20:49.680
a lot of degenerate simps out there who are fucking gooners and they're porn addicted
06:20:58.100
But if we're talking about high virtue men, then, uh, you know, the, the men who are high
06:21:03.040
in virtue typically are going to avoid sex workers.
06:21:05.740
So my question is though, look again, sex workers can get married.
06:21:14.860
It's like, no, a sex worker will never, no, that's stupid.
06:21:21.160
Like, would you tend to agree with me keeping everything about you the same?
06:21:24.700
Do you think you'd be more appealing to men if you were not a sex worker in general?
06:21:32.980
So just to be clear for most men, you think you would be, you would be.
06:21:37.200
Because I learned a lot of knowledge being a sex worker that actually helped me with sales.
06:21:41.460
I have people, you think that that's, oh no, a lot of sales knowledge, a lot of interacting
06:21:55.220
You think like a man's like, damn, she's like got knowledge.
06:22:00.300
I didn't want to fuck her, but she's got knowledge.
06:22:09.480
She has sales knowledge on how to give me everything I do.
06:22:15.740
No, you're talking about the little dusties that don't care.
06:22:20.600
As you go up in like the men's attractiveness, the less they're willing to tolerate your situation.
06:22:27.720
Like a guy who doesn't have options, he's like, fuck.
06:22:31.320
Because I know you're speaking on your own experiences of all the sex workers that denied you, coochie, that scarred you for whatever reaction this is.
06:22:44.120
Well, whatever girl like hurt you like that, like I want to.
06:22:50.700
Actually, most of my relationships have been great.
06:22:52.720
I don't have, with the exception of one girl I dated who was not a sex worker, I have nothing but positive things to say about my exes, which I think perhaps for most of you probably couldn't do that.
06:23:07.120
But, I mean, when it comes to dating, who hasn't been hurt by something?
06:23:14.260
We've all been, you know, screwed over or hurt in some way.
06:23:17.980
But, you know, of the women I have had long-term relationships.
06:23:20.160
It seems that you truly don't believe that a sex worker can get a high-value man, and I'm telling you.
06:23:27.580
In fact, there's a bunch of sex workers and prostitutes that are, like, literally married to, like, rappers.
06:23:35.620
And they met by literally selling them coochie.
06:23:38.220
But where are those women at in their lives when they're with them is the question.
06:23:44.760
I'm saying, what are those women doing with their lives actively?
06:24:00.960
Pending SIMP tax paid in full as a Valentine Day gift.
06:24:20.720
If you can't understand men, men just want loyal men.
06:24:30.500
Future Western civilization has no interest in your unfortunately deluded toxic minds.
06:24:39.020
And ultimately, this confusion will be resolved.
06:24:43.140
I have something to add, and I can see why you have the opinion that you have.
06:24:49.020
A lot of dancers and a lot of girls that you probably have met.
06:24:58.360
If you had a daughter, would you want her to come and work with you?
06:25:01.660
If you had a son, would you want him to marry your work associates?
06:25:08.020
The son, I would not mind if he married the work associates if it was a good woman.
06:25:11.840
That's why I was going to add to you, because there are some sex workers and some dancers
06:25:18.380
Would you want her to be a stripper or OF girl or whatever?
06:25:21.500
I would talk her out of it and hopefully set her up so she wouldn't have to do that.
06:25:24.860
But if she did, I would try to educate her and let her set her boundaries and put her
06:25:31.600
And in that case, I wouldn't mind it as much, because there are good places out.
06:25:34.380
But what I was going to say is, I respect your opinion, though, because there are a lot
06:25:38.260
of dancers and there are a lot of sex workers that really don't have their shit together.
06:25:50.560
So I see it like, you know, not every sex worker is going to be attracting something
06:25:56.520
That's why me, that's kind of separate from who I am, but I know it's part of me.
06:26:01.100
But I'm saying, like, me as a person, I am very high value, like, and I do attract this
06:26:12.000
Well, you don't know me, so I don't really care if you say that.
06:26:14.940
It doesn't make it true just because you're a man.
06:26:16.800
I'm just judging off of the surface things here.
06:26:21.060
Look, by virtue of you being a sex worker, is sex work high value, medium value, or low
06:26:30.780
It doesn't, it wouldn't matter how much you get paid.
06:26:33.100
I'm asking about the profession in and of itself inherently.
06:26:37.140
I honestly don't think that it's neither high or low value.
06:26:45.200
And so just to be clear, janitor, doctor, where, is, is janitor up here high value and
06:26:50.960
I feel like male stripper would be more equal than janitor.
06:27:01.500
Why can't you categorize whether stripper is, like, sex worker is high value or low value?
06:27:15.800
So I'm just wear a bikini all night, and I perform dancing on a stage.
06:27:32.580
I'm like a backup dancer for a rapper dancing in a bikini on stage.
06:27:43.180
I think the fact that she's giving up potential money and turning down and going to a place
06:27:53.040
Do you believe a woman can move on from being such a low-value woman?
06:27:58.640
Well, I mean, it depends if we're looking at it from, like, a Christian lens.
06:28:01.660
Yes, I guess from a Christian perspective, everyone can be redeemed.
06:28:04.760
But, like, you have to understand, just because you stop doing the thing doesn't mean that
06:28:14.140
So, like, this idea that, yeah, you can redeem yourself and you can change who you are.
06:28:30.560
The only time I drink is sometimes we do a champagne pop.
06:28:44.920
I don't drink, but the only time I do drink is if we do a champagne pop.
06:28:54.200
Look, I think your future husband, your future children are not going to appreciate that there's
06:29:10.100
Your future, the family of your husband will not appreciate...
06:29:13.820
And your children will not appreciate naked photos of you being on the internet.
06:29:20.640
What about all the celebrities that have OnlyFans that make millions of dollars?
06:29:25.400
They're degenerate too, and yeah, it makes them low value.
06:29:34.220
Are you guys such materialists that you think, well, if you're rich, then that's all that
06:29:42.480
How about if you're a piece of shit person and you're rich, are you still like...
06:29:46.440
Well, I'm assuming like a good person with the money.
06:29:52.800
I wasn't referring her necessarily to a piece of shit person, but Kim Kardashian has a
06:29:58.680
She has the sex tape out there, and I don't know the history of that.
06:30:03.140
I'm pretty sure they leaked it, or I don't know.
06:30:08.860
That's a little bit different, but there's the sex tape.
06:30:11.040
That's different though than somebody who's actively doing it, but they probably leaked
06:30:15.640
And she's dated like so many men, and it's like, yeah, she's very wealthy.
06:30:20.400
There's no dispute there, and that does provide some value to be exceptionally wealthy.
06:30:25.280
Men generally don't care about wealth that much.
06:30:32.700
I mean, obviously, she's getting a bit older, but I mean, ultimately, personally, the fake
06:30:45.980
Obviously, there's various metrics, but I mean, one component...
06:30:51.420
You're going to have to let me finish all the components.
06:30:54.500
One component is, you know, look, realistically, being physically attractive.
06:30:58.580
That's one way in which a woman can increase her value.
06:31:10.100
In terms of the traditional things that men look for, we're looking for submissiveness.
06:31:15.140
We're looking for a woman who embodies those sort of ladylike qualities, virtue, peace, submission.
06:31:40.640
There's all kinds of traits that make a woman...
06:31:43.160
But at the same time, like, why do you devalue, say, Kim Kardashian because of that sex tape?
06:31:49.260
When maybe she does have all those things that you just said.
06:31:59.740
Why did you just devalue her as a high-value woman?
06:32:06.500
What type of environment do you think it takes to make a woman that has those qualities that you just listed?
06:32:11.800
Just to be clear, I think that society and culture is completely fucked.
06:32:15.660
So it's not totally, like, women's entire fault...
06:32:19.640
That we live in an ecosystem, an environment that is conducive to generacy, that isn't conducive to selfishness, that is conducive to materialism.
06:32:36.320
So, I mean, what kind of environment would be good for that?
06:32:39.240
Honestly, I'm kind of a doomer on this specific thing.
06:32:44.320
You know, with black holes, the point of no return, the event horizon, once you pass that threshold, you can't escape.
06:32:55.060
I think partially I'm, like, enjoy the decline.
06:33:03.200
I'm kind of black-pilled on this, to be honest.
06:33:04.820
Are you saying that it's, like, almost unattainable to find a woman like that?
06:33:11.300
But what I am saying is that the ecosystem and environment is not conducive to...
06:33:19.000
It's not conducive to creating high-virtue men either.
06:33:26.520
For example, in terms of my criticisms of sex workers, the male component of that, you shouldn't be watching porn.
06:33:37.240
But if you're in a relationship with a girl, you shouldn't be watching porn.
06:33:39.600
If you're dating a girl, you shouldn't be following chicks on IG Thoughts on Instagram.
06:33:45.760
Even if you're fucking single, you shouldn't be doing that shit anyways.
06:33:57.240
But I would say, like, for example, I don't shy away from the fact that because of my podcast, like, that's disqualifying to me for plenty of women.
06:34:07.960
Like, some women, well, their politics are just going to disagree with me because we talk about politics on the show.
06:34:17.960
And then some, even women who might share some of my values, although I'm, like, super autistic and have, like, really niche, retarded...
06:34:28.360
But some people, they're like, bro, Brian, this is crazy.
06:34:30.840
Yeah, there's plenty of women who see this show.
06:34:32.600
Like, so I relate in the sense that because of what I do, it closes the door for a lot of women.
06:34:39.940
Like, a lot of women are like, whoa, Brian, some of your takes are a little out there.
06:34:49.020
I'm like, oh, yeah, I've closed the door on, like, probably 60% of women.
06:34:56.740
And then, of course, like, there's the other factors that women would care about, like, like, attraction and all that stuff.
06:35:03.580
But just based on the show, yeah, I probably closed the door for a lot.
06:35:21.460
Would you change yourself to fit somebody else's qualifications or needs?
06:35:25.580
Because you're telling everybody else, oh, you wouldn't change yourself?
06:35:32.020
Not what I'm saying, but what I'm saying is that...
06:35:35.360
The conversation is about, are women who do sex work, are they...
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I'm sure there's plenty of men who would date you.
06:35:54.800
I'm not going to do this thing where it's cope.
06:36:02.760
But realistically speaking, by virtue of you being a sex worker, you guys being sex workers,
06:36:07.800
that's going to close the door for a lot of men.
06:36:10.720
And a lot of those men are typically high virtue men, don't want to be dealing with a sex worker.
06:36:16.400
Sorry, I have some chats I need to let through here.
06:36:31.460
It might be better than champagne pop since you are not drinking.
06:36:52.700
So, on Instagram, you know that Asian girl that we pulled up?
06:37:06.700
He sent me an image on Instagram of a photo that is signed to Brian.
06:37:18.740
Hey, you know, look, Kristen Kruik's in her 40s, but honestly, she's a fucking babe.
06:37:44.660
I feel like all the Hollywood people are super lib, super liberal, so I don't know.
06:37:50.740
I'm not going to throw shade on my girl, Kristen.
06:38:05.600
You are so low value, I actually feel like $100 is maybe five times too much just to ask
06:38:13.520
If Brian wasn't there sexying the panel up, I simply couldn't justify it.
06:38:36.040
These ladies have a lot of self-reflection to do.
06:38:39.360
The high value men they think they are interacting with are almost certainly not.
06:39:05.580
It's been a while since we had a champagne here.
06:39:08.780
You can eat my ass, Justin, for another thousand.
06:39:19.100
So, you outlined what you think, what qualities you think a high-value woman would have.
06:39:26.160
And then you basically said, I asked you, okay, well, what conditions or what environment would make a woman like that?
06:39:36.760
And you basically said that our society's cooked and that it's rare to come by a woman like that.
06:39:41.740
So, my next question is, okay, if all of us are low-value women, in your opinion, if your panel was all high-value women, do you think your podcast would be as compelling as it is or less or more?
06:39:54.400
Well, I mean, look, you've got to understand, feminism knows...
06:40:21.340
Okay, if your panel was all high-value women instead of low-value women, do you think your podcast would be as compelling or less or more?
06:40:43.060
Well, I mean, just to be clear, the majority of our guests, although it's a bit higher on this panel, the majority of our guests don't do sex work.
06:41:30.580
How tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date?
06:41:33.440
Wait, now you're going to get fucking tipsy, Brian, because I'm a lightweight, so...
06:41:41.660
Well, what's your height and what's the minimum height of a man you would date?
06:41:53.660
All right, well, that helps with your millionaire thing.
06:41:59.840
I'm 5'7", and I'll have to say, you've got to be at least my height, 5'7".
06:42:10.740
My first one was, I met him in high school, so we're like, he's like a little bit taller
06:42:30.020
Yeah, dwarfs are pretty, honestly, they're pretty stacked.
06:42:49.820
She can't be a prostitute, because you're a pimp.
06:43:35.340
My parents are orphan immigrants, both from Vietnam.
06:43:39.240
My mom is from the north, and she was sponsored over, so she came by plane, and my dad came by boat.
06:43:49.360
My dad was born in Taipei, Taiwan, and he came here when he was like a child, I think.
06:44:18.460
And going around the table, what's everyone's ethnicity?
06:44:20.260
You can just say white or Latino, Asian, whatever.
06:44:33.800
No, I guess white, Mexican, mixed, I don't know.
06:44:42.420
Okay, how about, I'll ask this question like this, related to this.
06:44:45.980
In a morally neutral, blame-free hypothetical conflict between the USA and the country of origin of one or both of your parents,
06:44:56.480
it could, if your parents are from two different countries, it could just be the U.S. goes to war with either one, I guess.
06:45:03.800
Or both in two different hypotheticals, where neither side is right or wrong.
06:45:12.720
So, I guess I have to ask this to the people who have, like, parents of a, I don't know, whatever.
06:45:21.520
I guess, how do I, how do I ask the, okay, the United States goes to war with Mexico.
06:45:39.360
Okay, the United States goes to war with Vietnam.
06:45:49.320
Okay, I, I think I gotta skip the, the people that, like, whatever.
06:45:58.520
Do you side with Palestine or the United States?
06:46:05.980
The United States goes to war, it was Iran and Cambodia?
06:46:18.840
Well, American, because I'm probably gonna be fighting in that war.
06:46:24.560
Well, I'm, I'm gonna be in the army, so, I'm gonna be fighting for America.
06:46:35.320
Neutral, like, morally neutral scenario, blame-free, hypothetical.
06:46:39.820
To which country is your allegiance, the United States or Mexico?
06:47:03.220
All right, we have, let's see what we have here.
06:47:06.700
Let's do some things from the questionnaire here.
06:47:16.100
So, the statement is, women are just as physically strong as men, to which you circled that you agree.
06:47:38.120
And also, the way that the female body develops muscle, it's like, the muscle that we develop is less, but it's actually stronger.
06:47:50.760
We might be able to withstand pain more, but I don't know about the other story.
06:48:06.440
Yeah, well, in my experience, whenever I've been in, like, let's say I'm at the gym.
06:48:10.580
I mean, besides, like, the few chads that are, like, super built, I feel like I am more capable.
06:48:16.860
Like, I look at my body and my performance, and I'm just more capable than most people in there.
06:48:21.220
And then, when it comes to, like, my future soldier training, I outperform every man there.
06:48:27.700
Men these days, like, I feel like the majority of them are very, like, they're not fit.
06:48:33.620
And a lot of the women I know are actually more, like, physically capable.
06:48:40.040
But it's probably, like, my, that's my lived truth.
06:48:42.540
Because, I mean, I'm a pole dancer, so I know a lot of other pole dancers, and we're very physically strong.
06:48:46.880
Do you guys think if you got in a fight with a man, you would win?
06:48:58.920
Like, I can't fight, but, like, if he's huge, I'm good.
06:49:05.180
Like, I could definitely fight a dude if he was, like, skinny.
06:49:09.120
Maybe not the same weight as me, but I could definitely beat a dude up.
06:49:13.540
How about a guy who weighs just as much as you?
06:49:20.920
Okay, well, I mean, at least you grant that, but, so, women physically stronger than, like, how about in general?
06:49:28.920
When you walk around outside, literally everybody's overweight and, like, unfit, like, genuinely.
06:49:36.860
I think men are stronger, and I think that's, like, how it.
06:49:44.600
It's like, gosh, I'm surprised you, oh, boy, to that.
06:49:46.840
But, anyway, no, I think men are stronger, and I think that's how, like, they're genetically set up, and that's why they take on, like, the strong role.
06:49:54.520
Like, I'm going to say, like, I've always hired a man to move my furniture.
06:50:01.400
I'm going to say, mom, they should be stronger.
06:50:03.200
They should be, but most of them aren't in shape these days.
06:50:05.400
Wait, so, do you think, how about this question for you two?
06:50:10.280
Do you think you're stronger than the majority of men, so stronger than 51% of men?
06:50:22.900
You have to keep in mind, we all have different lives.
06:50:25.540
And we are, like, our, who we see in our everyday life might look different, because we live in different cities, and we see different people.
06:50:33.200
So, you know how they were having a hundred guys fight a gorilla?
06:50:36.320
Are you going to be the 100 bitch to fight a gorilla?
06:50:43.680
I mean, but there's probably a high chance that some guys will survive from that gorilla.
06:50:47.140
Even if you did a hundred women, I don't think the gorilla would win.
06:50:57.040
A hundred people is a lot, and, like, you could basically dogpile.
06:50:59.580
Like, the gorilla will fuck both men and women up, but, like, if you collectively are, like, okay, some people are going to have to sacrifice themselves.
06:51:09.800
Whether you're men or women, like, if you go one by one at the gorilla.
06:51:16.900
But if you fucking all attack at the same time, men, and I even think women would be able to take the gorilla.
06:51:30.100
You guys are going to get a straight swing down.
06:51:34.980
It's got to be like straight bodybuilder bitches.
06:51:37.800
Like, if you put a gorilla and a lion in a fight.
06:51:44.160
Because the lion is pretty fucking strong, too.
06:52:34.740
Do you think you'd win in a fight against over 51% of men?
06:52:38.860
Well, if it was somebody of my exact same size and stature.
06:52:54.900
They already tried putting women up against men.
06:53:15.560
I'm pretty sure it's like a genetic defect or whatever.
06:54:30.540
Like I think when you get to ultra marathon level.
06:55:15.320
A woman has never run less than a four minute mile.
06:55:23.280
Which isn't necessarily like the same strength.
06:55:31.900
Do you think I'm stronger than most men that I encounter?
06:57:20.740
And ask him to just squeeze your wrist as hard as he can.
06:57:27.880
I don't think sometimes you comprehend like raw strength.
06:57:41.700
How many five years olds can these young ladies take on?
06:57:56.640
I can grab it in my arm and pop it in my shoulder.
06:58:10.500
Babies come out the coochie light with their strong wings.
06:58:16.780
We'll look at it for 30 seconds and then I gotta move on.
06:58:24.100
But there's still men that would just mollywalt me.
06:58:34.640
So this is comparing male high school athletes versus female Olympians.
06:58:39.060
So you see on the left there all those medals under boys versus under women.
06:58:45.660
So if high school male boy athletes were to compete in the Olympics, that's all the medals
06:58:53.480
that they would steal, I guess you could say, that they would take from women.
06:59:04.180
You I mean, you do realize that you can like look at the records of boys in high school
06:59:10.680
and contrast them with the records of female Olympians.
06:59:20.160
So this is for they do swimming track and field.
06:59:36.740
So basically what it's happening is high school boys.
06:59:39.580
That would be the placement as compared to female elite Olympic Olympic athletes.
06:59:58.220
That that's not how that works, though, because they had.
07:00:02.920
But the women had more skill because they've had more experience.
07:00:06.160
The boys would lose against the elite adult male athletes.
07:00:10.580
So it's not like, well, because they're young, they can run fat.
07:00:14.020
No, that's the Usain Bolt would scorch all these dudes.
07:00:18.740
But what's happening here is basically if you allowed high school boys to compete like this.
07:00:25.160
Of course, this is the top high school boys to compete against women.
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Four hundred meter, eight hundred meter, five thousand meter, four hundred meter hurdles.
07:00:42.380
So, again, in some distance events, the women do start edging out a little bit.
07:00:53.960
There's a reason women and men don't compete together.
07:00:58.000
Because it just wouldn't be fair because men have testosterone.
07:01:17.060
But what does that have to do with anything, though?
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Of all the different weight lifts you can do, there's squat, there's leg press, there's
07:01:38.520
bench press, there's, I don't know what the Olympic lifts are.
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Are the men, do the men lift more at record levels than the women at record level?
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Everybody knows that men have like a bigger muscle.
07:02:00.480
But when you ask the question of like, oh, do you think you're stronger than men?
07:02:04.800
That, in my head, I think the men that I know that I see every day, I'm not thinking of Olympic fucking athletes and shit.
07:02:13.960
It's women are just as physically strong as men.
07:02:21.200
I mean, okay, so I acknowledge there, there are definitely women who are stronger than some men.
07:02:37.500
Somebody also circled women are the primary victims of war.
07:02:42.800
I think I circled that just because I thought it was kind of a question that could be open ended.
07:02:47.800
Like, I don't agree or disagree with it, but when you think back to like World War II, like in the 40s, like what happened to women when all the men died in war?
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And then after that, now we have fucking women's sovereignty or whatever.
07:03:02.160
So in a way, I would say that they suffered a lot because of that.
07:03:12.120
Cause I just thought it would be fun to talk about.
07:03:15.060
So, um, let's say, you know, my, my future girlfriend, she is, she's nine months pregnant and she's giving birth and I'm sitting by her bedside and she squeezes my hand really hard.
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Who is the primary, I won't say victim, but who's the primary sufferer of pain in that situation?
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Me with my hand being squeezed really hard or the woman giving birth?
07:03:58.820
People of color can't be racist towards white people.
07:04:09.060
People of color can't be racist towards white people.
07:04:13.740
Uh, people of color can't be racist towards white people.
07:04:16.120
Why is that for, I guess, starting with you, Esther?
07:04:18.460
Well, because it's not possible to be racist towards, um, a group of people that isn't a
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Um, I think that you could be colorist to anybody.
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Um, but racism is like systemic in America and you can't be racist to a white person if
07:04:38.680
you're a person of color because you can't like, you're not changing the society they
07:04:46.280
Well, uh, I think you also, I don't know the, the, the white people created racism in the
07:04:51.900
Well, white people created racism or is it something that can inherently manifest itself
07:05:06.320
So if all white people disappeared, would black people not be able to, uh, would Asian
07:05:10.420
people not be able to be racist towards black people?
07:05:14.760
I think any race can be racist towards another race.
07:05:18.020
Let's say white people never existed because your position is white people created racism.
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Uh, assuming in this hypothetical, there were never any white people ever.
07:05:26.880
Do you think like Asian people could be racist towards black people?
07:05:31.060
But I think it's, I feel like, um, actually, why are y'all speaking for Asian people?
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Actually, Asian people probably do be racist too.
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Asian people definitely do be racist to black people.
07:05:42.300
Can black people be racist towards Asian people?
07:05:45.240
Can black people be racist towards Asian people?
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I think y'all, you guys are missing out colorism.
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Black people make fucking jokes about Asian people all the time.
07:06:09.900
What about all those engineers in San Francisco that were, uh, primarily targeting Asian people
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I just think you can't be racist towards white people.
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Honestly, I don't really know how to answer this question.
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I can't be racist against white people sometimes.
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I think you can be racist to everybody, including white people.
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I mean, there's all these different types of white people, right?
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You know, there's certain Europeans that were genocide.
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There were people that, you know, were wrongfully, you know, killed.
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It hurts less than it would for anybody else because they struggled less.
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I mean, it depends who you, it depends who you know.
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It's definition, definition of racism or racist is that the majority to the minority.
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So white people in the United States of America cannot be racist.
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I mean, white people are racist, are the racist.
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I don't think racism is like from minority to minority.
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If you go to Africa and there's a white person and the majority is black people, you are racist
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If you go to Asia and there's a black person and you are racist towards that black person,
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What majority is, is who can be racist in that area.
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It's like, isn't racist that you just are targeting them and then being mean to them
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But we use the word racism because it's like adjacent.
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But I'm pretty sure racism when you, like she said, it's like majority versus minority.
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But we use that word in place of colorism because people are racist to each other all the time
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based on the color of their skin, but that would be colorism.
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Because you're not like making, you're not like making things like harder for them to get like in society.
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For instance, when you were doing that little, the accent of the Asian lady.
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Because the majority versus the minority in this table right now.
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So that's the whole thing where it's like, okay, y'all say that, oh, an Asian is like
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That people be putting me in that, model minority, where they're like Asian people.
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Well, a lot of Asian people, I'm just saying, a lot of Asian people that you see identify
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First of all, no, there's Latin people that be identifying as white, too.
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A lot of Asian people that I, that I have encountered identify as white.
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I feel like some Asians identify themselves as Mexicans because they'd be in the hood,
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If you were raised in the hood of Compton or Inglewood.
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Here, a couple questions, then we'll linger on it for a teeny bit, but we'll move on pretty
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Can, if I go to Kenya, can black people be racist towards me?
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If the majority is not white people, then that could be racist.
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I don't think we've got to be waiting for that.
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But, I mean, I would agree, a black person, even the U.S. could be racist towards a white
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person, but I'm at least testing out, okay, if you're in a different country, would you
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But do you all, was it you, you, you, and you who was like, can't be racist towards
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It hurts less for white people because they barely went through stuff.
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But, you know, like when they're racist to Mexican people, they call them wetbacks.
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You know, because they crossing the border, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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But, I mean, so you were talking about systemic.
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Like, so even if, even if it is true that white people have not been systemically oppressed
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in the United States, although some people might point to the Italians or the Irish, for
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example, who did face some systemic oppression, you might even say, well, it's not as bad as,
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you know, the oppression that black people experienced.
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And I probably wouldn't even disagree with you.
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But I kind of reject this idea that it's just about systemic.
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I think, sure, there is systemic racism, like institutions or whatever, governments or laws
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However, I think when I'm thinking about racism, it would be acknowledging the different types
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And I would say, like, individual racism, for example.
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If a black man walks up to me and punches me in the face because I'm white, was that racist?
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I think I have to know the dictionary definition of, like, racist and colorist to be able to
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In my head, when I think racism, I think, like, ingrained in society.
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Civilization building is as civilization building does.
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I mean, I did say, like, we all low-key racist, though.
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So, I guess, so, I mean, there's systemic racism and then there's racism that can be
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Um, so, I mean, and I, I mean, I would almost think that if there can be racism, if you're
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saying that white people are the dominant social group or whatever in the United States, then,
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like, if we're talking about the term racism, how would we apply racism to inter, uh, inter-racism
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between the non-dominant racial groups in the United States?
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So, like, black, black and Asian, Latino and black.
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I don't think you would be racist to each other because you can't, like, actually, like,
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But I think you could be colorist or, like, you said individually racist, if that's a
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Well, maybe you couldn't be systemically racist.
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Well, because when I, when I hear racist, I think, like, extreme, like that, like, systemic,
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Like, if someone was racist towards you, like, to yourself, like, to your face.
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If BET, uh, refused to hire a white janitor, would that be racist?
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Uh, it's, like, the black entertainment television.
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So, let's say, like, a major, like, black-owned business and all the board members were black.
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And the CEO's black and they're really rich, but they won't hire a white person to be
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a janitor who comes from a low socioeconomic background.
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Colorism is whenever you're literally just judging off of, like, the tone, the skin tone.
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There are white Asians, like, Koreans and Chinese, you know?
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Like, people favor, like, lighter skin Asian girls versus, like, a jungle.
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No, but I'm saying, at that point, if you're saying, if I'm saying something about you or
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I'm making your accent or whatever, that's prejudice.
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There is systemic, systematic, institutional racism.
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But there's also individual, like, micro-level racism.
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Prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism by an individual, community, or institution against
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a person or people on the basis of their membership in a particular racial or ethnic group.
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Typically, one that is a minority or marginalized.
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That's, no, it's the majority over the minority, but okay.
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The belief that different races, the belief that different races possess distinct characteristics,
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abilities, or qualities, especially so as to distinguish them as inferior or superior
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But, I mean, you would agree that a black person in America could think white people
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I think we just all need to fix that within ourselves.
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I feel like you've talked shit about a white person at some point in your life.
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I mean, the fact that sex workers feel the need to do sex work, and the fact that that
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sex work is fulfilled by a mass audience of men is example enough.
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I just think for sure that as a man, especially a white man,
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you will probably have more opportunities than a woman.
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Do you think I have it easier because I'm a white man?
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I think women actually have more opportunities.
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American white women are probably the most privileged class of people to have ever existed
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I mean, definitely, but the white man is still above white woman, for sure, for a fact.
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I mean, unless you want to do sex work, then that's the bonus.
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It was a rough start, but you're growing on me.
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But you know how, like, for example, where's the...
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Like, you know how a black person can call a white person, like, my...
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I feel like, as a white person, like, you're Asian, but you're my Caucasian.
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So, anyways, look at our word statistics, look at domestic violence statistics, look
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And I'm not saying it doesn't happen to men, either, so please do not say that I'm saying
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We have two men in here who have never laid their hands on a woman, and we have some women
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Well, we got some strong ladies in here, and we got some non-strong women in here.
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But I'm talking about global statistics, not numbers in a room.
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Girl, why didn't you look at me when you did your Asian accent, girl?
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It was actually very, very disappointing in the sense of, like...
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I mean, it could have been anybody, but it was just...
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But that was three years ago, and I closed that case, went to court and all that last March.
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But the domestic violence situation I was in was two years ago.
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But wait, the machete car situation, was that in San Francisco?
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Would you have catch the machete, or what are you going to do?
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I would have took out my katana and fucking sliced her.
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There were black men that were around, and they came and, like, helped me.
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Well, I grew up as a martial artist, so I was actually able to get the weapon out of
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Because I never really understood, like, what makes a feminist?
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I think the easiest would probably be you want a movement towards equality with a dismantling
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Husband should be willing to die protecting you?
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You will keep your last name or hyphenate in marriage?
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They could have his last name, too, but I'm going to keep my last name.
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Guys got to pay for dates, provide, protect, be chivalrous.
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I feel like if I got to take a bullet for a woman, she's got to take my last name.
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I said I was going to add it, but I want to keep my last name.
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When I make a name for myself, I want to keep it.
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Look, if it's Jocelyn Gertrude Wynne, it's going to become Jocelyn Gertrude Smith.
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I'm just saying you can't do Jocelyn Gertrude Wynne Smith.
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You got to get rid of the Wynne and start winning with your husband.
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So, you say men should pay on first dates, men should provide protect, or at least you
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Husband should be willing to die protecting you.
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You're going to keep your last name or hyphenate marriage.
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Will they have hyphenated last name, your last name, or husband's last name?
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Honestly, I don't really care either way for theirs.
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You got to do all this shit, and the girl won't even take your last name.
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Husband should be willing to die protecting you.
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You're, and you're about to get married, I guess.
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Guys, you're going to keep your last name more hyphenated in marriage?
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I mean, if it's important to my fiance for me to drop it, I'll drop it.
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We haven't, but I'm assuming that he would want me to take it, so.
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I guess I'm kind of, like, 50-50 on it, you know?
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Like, would you give him pushback if he's, like, look.
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And he was polite, but he's, like, hey, look, babe, you know, just wanted to clarify this
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because I was watching you on the podcast, and I'm reconsidering the marriage, but would
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you, you know, look, when we get married, are you going to take my last name, right?
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If that's a convo, but if you're, like, going to nag him about it, oh, but it's, I got
07:26:52.400
Okay, we're not going to do everything on this questionnaire, but maybe one or two more,
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Do you think men who care about body count, do you think they're insecure little bitches?
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Yes, please don't bring the gay people into this.
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But do you think men who care about a woman's body count, like, that's insecure on the man's
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As long as it's a mutual, then I'm like, that's fine.
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Are they insecure if they care about a woman's past, her body count?
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I feel like they can be, but I also feel like it could just be preference.
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Now, it's like a religious man who comes from, like, a good home, and, like, he's acted
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The guy has a high body count, and he cares about it.
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I think it's totally fine for a man to, even if he has a high body count, to prefer a low
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I mean, prefer and judge is a little different, I guess.
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Uh, it's definitely a double standard, but, yeah, I think men should watch out for girls
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that have high body counts, especially because we can carry more than a man can.
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But you said passion, not matter, in your response on the questionnaire.
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Men that don't want to date girls with high body counts, like, that's cool.
07:29:07.780
Um, I think that, uh, if a man has a high body count, um, I'm not sure if he's able
07:29:16.900
I think that, um, both, probably people that have high body counts, um, are not going to
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be interested in being in a relationship or they're going to have trouble in navigating
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But I think overall, if a man has a high body count, he probably cannot be asking for a
07:29:34.040
What about just like in general, if a man cares in general about body count, do you
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think that that's insecure or do you think it's valid?
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It depends if somebody is religious, like you were saying, or if it's kind of more of an
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You don't believe in shit except for big body counts.
07:29:55.020
Um, I think then, I mean, it's a preference, you know, but they're going to have to be able
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to, um, uh, provide a valid reason why not with me necessarily.
07:30:07.240
I mean, I don't know, but, um, I just don't really think that it can be something to be
07:30:12.340
Well, going around the table, um, I'm going to sort of start it a little differently here.
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A lot of women don't really care to disclose that shit.
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Like, I know sometimes it's like you might forget the exact number, but you want to do
07:31:17.240
Uh, I mean, you know, look, I feel like you got to do me a solid because you were, you
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That's what you said when you slipped in every woman, huh?
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Can you tell us how many women you done slayed?
07:32:27.260
No, you'd be surprised the women that I have slept with.
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I don't, if I was to ever be with a woman, it's not no sleazy bitch.
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So what, you're on, like, meth for all the other ones?
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I mean, I'm just saying, like, there's one good one.
07:33:34.140
I've only slept with one girl before, and it was like a, actually, actually, that was
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We got to get you, we got to get you some good dicks soon, girl.
07:33:59.560
Hey, you could get some dick and still have your peace.
07:34:08.720
I know she'd be looking at me in this corner, but she said she likes you.
07:34:40.760
I feel like you're a little older than all of us, so I mean.
07:34:55.200
I mean, if you ain't get no coochie, then you must have some ass.
07:35:04.120
My body count doesn't go up if I fucked a woman.
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You see, if you're not disclosing, I'm not about to disclose.
07:35:35.140
That's like losing half your virginity, though, basically.
07:35:41.440
How old were you when you lost your virginity, though?
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Some of the OF girls, they lie about their age.
07:36:38.060
Nah, when I lost my virginity, I made sure that motherfucker was a small dick.
07:36:52.060
Because, like, you know, one of my first girlfriends, actually, she's Vietnamese.
07:37:00.560
But, like, her dad was, like, she would tell me her parents would disown her if she dated
07:37:12.100
So, but how did your parents feel about the whole?
07:37:16.060
But my dad, he was like, yeah, good for you, girl.
07:37:20.480
I was curious, because, you know, I heard some Asian parents, sometimes they can be a
07:37:51.140
I promised my mom that I would keep my virginity either until I graduated or I turned 18, whichever
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I turned 18, so I was with my boyfriend, first baby daddy, and we were, like, smashing for,
07:38:09.880
I thought it was, like, the first time you had sex.
07:38:12.080
No, it was just the boy that took my virginity.
07:38:24.900
I was like, look, you got to, if the girl's not on birth control, you can't just, you got
07:38:33.820
I mean, they were younger, too, if you think about it.
07:38:39.340
I got, like, jaw surgery, so then I didn't take some for, like, that time.
07:39:11.000
I mean, I've heard some crazy shit on this podcast.
07:39:19.440
They was out there fucking when they was, like, 13, 14.
07:39:21.700
Like, our parents probably was out there fucking around that age.
07:39:25.100
It is true that my understanding is that, like, younger people, like Gen Z, I guess at
07:39:32.980
this point, maybe going in, what is the, what is Gen A?
07:39:39.920
It's like, it's actually the Gen Z is the generation having the least amount of sex.
07:39:50.560
Then, like, millennials are having less sex as compared to, like, Gen X and boomers.
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At least, if you compare for the age, like, you know, Gen X people when they were 20.
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Actually, we've had some women who were like, I don't really like sex.
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It's because I just, it's so, like, transactional.
07:40:46.180
And, like, I haven't been, like, there's only been one guy that I guess I was in love with
07:40:51.880
And even then it was, like, mid and I was young.
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And so, like, I think I'm just waiting to, like, meet the person.
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You waiting for an alien to come on our planet.
07:41:00.100
Maybe I'm just not, like, a sex-motivated person.
07:41:02.180
I guess I just don't really care for it in general.
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I don't think I've met a person that's like that.
07:41:38.880
I've always wanted to, like, have sex with a transgender.
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Because it's like, I'm getting everything at one time, you know?
07:42:01.820
If you are a transgender and you're watching this, slide into her DMs.
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We're going to try to go as quickly as possible through everybody's notes here.
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On the train thing, I mean, we already covered that.
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I think that you can do all that effort and it doesn't mean anything.
07:42:32.800
I think as a guy, you just got to invite the girl over to your place.
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I'm going to take her to the aquarium in San Diego and pay for a hotel.
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And then right after that date, you go to my rent.
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You're not the only guy who has said this, actually.
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Bro, she was talking, then she was talking, and then y'all were.
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Okay, this is your fucking punishment, both of you.
07:43:27.840
Okay, so do you see that window in front of you, that window in front of you?
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I want you both to stand up and face the wall and think about what you've done.
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Actually, normally I put them in the corner, but I feel like this also works.
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And then I just like wafted it towards your arm.
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I don't remember the last time I saw a woman wear them.
07:45:11.980
The first date, you want a girl to come over and clean your apartment.
07:45:18.020
First time over at my place, she should do my laundry.
07:45:31.440
Yeah, she's about to be my girlfriend if she does that shit.
07:45:36.280
Are you worried she'd find too much out about you?
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I clean my ex-husband the first day I went over his house.
07:45:57.300
So it's like, no, I'm not going to do that shit immediately.
07:45:59.400
But like, whatever girl is with me long term, she's not going to have to work.
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But ultimately, yeah, I think, you know, I think the woman should be doing the simp shit.
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Only if the man is that type of man that provides that safety, that protection, that, you know, that whole environment for her to be able to do that.
07:46:32.980
And he always tells me, like, how it's supposed to be.
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He says that, like, if the guy likes the girl more, like, it usually never works.
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You can't, if you're a fan to a woman, that's just.
07:47:00.980
Well, that sometimes works, but that's pretty rare.
07:47:03.740
Usually there's, like, the, there's the desired.
07:47:38.840
Uh, I don't know where we're going with that, but.
07:47:54.260
No, I just couldn't find the words for what I was trying to describe.
07:47:56.880
All right, this is a video I took of my ex-girlfriend.
07:47:59.540
I show it to future girlfriends as like, you ever seen like a instructional video or tutorial?
07:48:07.460
I sit my, my future potential girlfriend down and, or even I'll send it to her before like
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Um, I'll be like, look, this is my expectation.
07:48:26.220
Yeah, like what, what if she sent you a video of her getting fucked by her ex?
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And so look, uh, I got home from a long day podcasting.
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I step home, you know, and, uh, I actually do that.
07:49:07.240
You see those tomatoes, those raw tomatoes there actually dumped her because of that.
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As soon, as soon as I get home, I want a woman to hit a bow.
07:49:29.080
She had a bum ass man and she did all the fucking work for this man.
07:49:38.800
No, I'm saying W that he was doing nothing and getting everything good for him.
07:49:43.760
I think for what you're looking for, you need to go travel somewhere.
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You gotta be passport, passport boys or something.
07:49:52.840
You won't see no white girl, no Asian girl, no black girl.
07:50:09.460
Nah, a Spanish girl would probably do that for you.
07:50:15.440
Would you agree that a girl, like, the first, like, for some girls will fuck right away?
07:50:20.020
So, my perspective is, I'm Mr. Wholesome over here.
07:50:24.960
But, like, y'all girls take issue with what I just showed you.
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You'll have a man's cock deep down the back of your throat.
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Y'all will let a man come inside you, come on top of you.
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Ain't nobody coming inside of me or on me, okay?
07:51:00.840
I'm the bad guy because I just want a little wholesome laundry.
07:51:21.980
He just wants an Asian woman that has committed him like that.
07:51:27.020
It could be an Asian woman, but it could be a Latina woman.
07:51:40.680
The only women that ever bowed for anybody were the Asian community.
07:52:00.420
But I will say, I do know a lot of like people, especially like in my family, like the men
07:52:06.640
and the women, they do like Caucasians and they do treat them very nicely.
07:52:14.220
So if you get somebody from Peru, they probably come and bow.
07:52:18.820
I'm not going to share details, but let's just say, you know, I had a, I did have a Peruvian
07:52:26.240
I had a Mexican gal and, uh, bro, they did way more than that.
07:52:42.380
I feel like because those girls didn't have much.
07:52:51.920
Day one, he want that, but he don't even want to pay for the date.
07:53:01.340
I'm not saying men shouldn't do that, but, uh, yeah, like, okay.
07:53:06.480
If the, if the girl's coming over, I'm taking care of everything.
07:53:19.940
I'm in a bit of a interesting dating situation.
07:53:23.940
So for the past, I've been doing the podcast for since 2022.
07:53:31.940
So that's, I think it's about three and a half years for almost four years.
07:53:37.700
Uh, and to be clear in that time period, I've shot my shot here and there.
07:53:41.600
I've, I've been the one to, you know, shoot my shot.
07:53:44.700
When you shoot your shot, you have less leverage.
07:53:46.520
It's, it is harder to, to, uh, get some of those things.
07:53:49.960
However, when you have a popular podcast, uh, when you have some, some degree of clout,
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when you're out there publicly, uh, women will come to you.
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So if a woman approaches me, then I can dictate the terms.
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I can, I can, you're, the woman comes into my frame if she wants to be with me.
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And so I'm assuming if she watches the show, she has some sense of my expectations.
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She has some sense of, she, she's probably seen that bow video.
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And so because of my situation, most men are not going to be able to pull this off.
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What I'm suggesting, uh, unless the girl's coming, unless the girls kind of come into them.
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Uh, if a girl comes to me, I'm, I've got all the leverage.
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You guys are doubting that I can get this, but.
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If you got money, if you got clout, you know, doesn't attract certain women.
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Those are the kind of high value women you want.
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And I assume even the boyfriend should be willing to die for you.
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So if women can have the standard that in order for us men to be with you, I'm not saying
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in all instances throughout the course of a romantic relationship or marriage, even if
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it lasts for life, that the man is going to find himself in some, like, I need to take
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If women can say men should protect, men should provide, men should be willing to die, how
07:55:48.460
could you actually, like, if women say men should be willing to die, how can you object
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I'm just saying if you're willing to die for me, sure, fuck it.
07:56:00.920
So, Jocelyn, you said husband should be willing to die protecting me.
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So I actually think that's a higher calling of sacrifice.
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Like, I'm contributing to your mental, emotional well-being, raising your kids.
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But my objection here is the outrage over, oh, my God, Brian, you want a woman to do
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an effortless bow and do your laundry and cook and clean for you?
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I'm going to fucking bowing to you because I don't respect you.
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Anyways, look, I'm just saying, are you going to do a bow, though, just for the funsies?
07:57:44.460
Your other note here, you said, why are we rushing and putting so much pressure on trying
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to find the right person or getting involved with someone?
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You say, live your life, work on yourself, be happy, love will come to you.
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When would you ideally like to start having kids?
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I think women do need to be considerate of their biological clock and fertility window.
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And look, to be fair, women can get pregnant into their late 30s, even in their 40s, right?
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So some people, well, once she's over 25, that's bullshit.
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But as women do age, in terms of the dating market, women have less leverage.
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Their options, the quality of their options decrease.
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So women do need to be considerate of biological reality there.
07:58:41.860
So this idea that, you know, putting pressure, love your life, work on yourself, be happy,
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But the second component that I disagree with is, do you recommend this advice to men?
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I mean, they don't have to worry about biological clock.
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True, but well, I mean, they don't have to like, they can be old as fucking get a young
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They can, but I mean, obviously, if you want to like, be there for your kids, you probably,
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you know, you want to have kids on the younger side, even as a man.
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Sure, but that don't stop him from planting his seed all around.
07:59:17.460
Yeah, well, men can get women pregnant into their 60s, 70s, 80s, but that's probably like,
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not ideal in terms of if you want to like, raise the kids, have a family.
07:59:27.180
Um, but I guess my question is more so in terms of, do you recommend this advice to men?
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Is that because you're saying, uh, why are we rushing, putting so much pressure, live your life,
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My criticism here with my second question in terms of love will come to you.
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It can be applied to men, but it can't be applied to men because, well, there's the pursuer pursued
07:59:55.100
So women, you enjoy the privilege and benefit of men pursuing you.
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You can just sit back really, and men will come to you.
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Men for most men, especially the average man, most men, women don't come to them.
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Women, uh, men have to be proactive when it comes to dating.
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Women are very passive when it comes to dating.
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They rarely shoot their shot or, you know, they shoot it far less when they do shoot their
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Usually they're like we talked about earlier, they're shooting out of their league.
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They don't know how to move things forward to the same degree that men can move things
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Even when do women do take initiative, it's token initiative.
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So what that would mean is we saw this on a dating app called Bumble, uh, where it forced
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But what women would do on this app, it wasn't, I'm going to be proactive in the entire dating
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I'm going to send a, Hey, and then immediately aside from that token initiative, immediately
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So even when women do take initiative, totally token, they still expect the man, like a woman
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will go up to a guy, be like, you want my number.
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And then the burden goes right back on the guy.
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The guy's got to, uh, try to plan, plan things, move things forward.
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Even when girls have slid into my DMS, I'm the one who has to basically take the reins,
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I, I think it's great that they're even taking that initiative.
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I'm totally fine with a girl shooting her shots, sliding into the DMS.
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I'm happy to take the reins, but women typically once they've done their token initiative, it's
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And so I think this advice only applies to women because if you tell a man, just sit
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back and don't really change anything and love will come to you.
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We can tell women, but I don't think we can tell men just sit back and a girl will come
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Uh, I mean, yeah, we, we dropped the handkerchief.
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Y'all pick that shit up and come to us, but we, we do choose.
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Y'all, we just, you know, shoot our shot in a different way.
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And if you, and if you got it, you better not fumble.
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If you're already in the know that that's how women shoot their shot and they did that
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Right, but I'm saying like this idea of just, oh, love will find you.
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Also do men like it when women take that like strong initiative to approach?
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You didn't like it when I just said I'd smack a ass.
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A woman, a woman can approach a man in a, still a feminine way.
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I don't think this idea that there are some like, I would honestly call them weirdo guys.
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Like a guy who's like, oh, it's like demasculating for a woman.
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A woman can still like approach and it can still be done in like a very feminine sort of a way.
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It doesn't have to be a woman can go up to a guy and it doesn't have to be one fuck.
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I would have been like, what the fuck is wrong with this bitch?
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Like if a guy never shoots his shot ever, he's probably going to die a virgin.
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But a woman can never shoot her shot ever and she could like fuck a thousand dudes.
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Yeah, do you want to actually make an argument?
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I mean, you should just maybe get rid of the bangs and I think things will improve.
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You ran your baby father over with your car when you found out he was cheating on you.
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You wanted to talk about the difference between vibes and actual compatibility.
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Oh, I was like mentioning like in the questions like a lot.
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Well, at least I like a lot of the people I know like around my day and age.
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I feel like I've never met my age naturally ever.
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And like I really I don't have I've never gone to college, high school.
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Like I lived in like a small town in the middle of nowhere.
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So I just knew my like boyfriend from my old high school.
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And then after that, I really don't meet men like naturally at all.
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You said hot take is that men are never satisfied.
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I some some women, I guess, like generally speaking, like in this society nowadays.
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But sometimes I have a question so much water and you don't have to pee.
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I have a question for the panel under the table connected to my pouch.
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If you had a hundred dollars in your pocket right now, if you had a hundred dollars in
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your pocket right now and you saw a dollar on the floor, would you pick it up?
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Like, cause women know that I like large labia.
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So they'll like lie that they have a large labia.
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Speaking of, Millie, we are getting to your notes.
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Millie, you said, oh my God, Millie, this is ridiculous.
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You said you made your, here, in your own words, you made your ex do what?
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I get to the house and he said he wanted to fuck.
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eat my pussy and fuck me after I fuck somebody else.
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He said he liked the way your other dude dictates.
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I told him when we broke up and I found out he cheated on me again because I got back with
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I got back with him after that because I wasn't even going to tell him, like, none of that.
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And so I was like, all right, you want to talk about doing shit?
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And I don't even know if he cheated on me and came back on it.
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He probably licked some bitch's pussy and came back and started kissing you.
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Okay, so, like, well, yeah, basically, we were, we were fucking, and I'm freaky.
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And then, he pulled it, he pulled it, like, I pulled it out of my mouth.
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But I didn't think it was going to be that heavy, because it wasn't that heavy in my hand.
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It's like grabbing his microphone and bopping you in the head.
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You never, you never smacked your shit on a female's head?
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Because I was like, it was hitting me a lot of times.
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Nah, there's some big mass full dicks out there.
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No, because if you think about it, that shit would be like an extra arm.
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So if you're getting slapped by an arm, you can't.
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Literally, he'd be like, like, no, I'm a little.
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And he was a little Mexican boy, so I didn't think it was going to hit me like that.
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And he was like, I want to say he's like 6'1", 6'2", big old dick.
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You had a threesome with another girl that turned into a cuck situation?
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And then he ended up just, I talked about this on the Howl's and Bad's podcast, but basically, my homegirl, I wanted to see her.
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She flew me, her man flew me out to Miami, and we ate, hung out, whatever, whatever.
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Well, I thought of it as like, oh, like I was going to see my best friend because I haven't seen her in a minute.
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And then we went back to the hotel, and I was like, oh, I'm going to go back to my hotel because he paid for the hotels, too.
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And I was like, oh, I might get to fuck my best friend finally, you know?
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But we went, I was eating her pussy, and I was fucking on her, and then he was watching, and then he asked me to do something pretty crazy, and I did it, and I felt like shit.
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I talked about this on our podcast, The House of Bad's, but I don't know.
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Oh, you're trying to wreck people to see what it was.
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I haven't talked about it since because they was making me feel weird about it.
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Okay, he asked her to ask me, and she asked me, and I did it.
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I'm not shitting on nobody's chest unless I'm getting fucking paid.
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I got off right away after it happened, and it was only a little dingleberry, and I got
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You know damn well you're not shitting on nobody's chest.
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No, yeah, it was just a little bit, because I was shart.
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Like, you know, you know, went back in, and then I went back to my hotel.
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I didn't see them for two days, because I just didn't feel right, and then I went back
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No, when I went back home, when I went back home, she had to ask me if I was okay from
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Like, it's not something I would want to do again, but like, you know, we're good, and
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You tried something, you got a little cash, now you know.
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Because, you know, they'll take you out of the state, and they'll pay you, like, thousands
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There's people out there that will pay hella money.
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Girl, you better take your shitty booty ass to Dubai.
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All right, I'm trying to just, like, rush through this, just because, you know, we're in the
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I'm just trying to blast through everything as quick as possible.
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I want to try to get through everybody's notes.
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Guys, let me try to move through these quick, if possible.
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It's weird for the guy or whatever, but I think it's, don't women not like it if the guy
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Yes, but there's a difference between, like, a sexy moan and, like.
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Esther, you said you don't date a lot, but you've definitely had a few wild experiences.
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One guy that I used to date, he was, like, also kind of my sugar daddy, but he was my boyfriend.
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But he took me on a date, like, at this crazy place, at this, like, billionaire's house that
08:17:31.620
The billionaire was trying to get at me, and then he would have, like, these parties, blah,
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Thank God I was dating this guy, so I couldn't go for the billionaire dude.
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And that dude ended up getting arrested, but, yeah, it was crazy.
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You said you think you could be considered slightly cutthroat to men because you cut off
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I wrote, well, it's not, like, super long, but.
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If my arm gets chopped off, can I manifest it growing back?
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I don't know if it could regenerate your arm, though.
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But do you believe, like, so through manifestation, you can heal?
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Should children who have cancer, should they manifest, or should they take chemo?
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There's, like, energy is the real existent thing.
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I don't know, you know, if it could heal some crazy things.
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But I know when you put it towards a good source.
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I'm not going to linger on it long, but I think manifestation is bullshit and fake news.
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Because in the back of your head, you're doubting it.
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No, I just believe that, I think, look, for some people, luck is involved in certain things.
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But my philosophy is you don't sit around and think positive thoughts and hope that the universe delivers.
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Well, obviously, you have to take action, yeah.
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You don't sit around hoping the universe delivers good things to you.
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That's part of manifestation, though, is taking the step forward to still do the things you have to do, but still.
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There's steps behind it that I talk about in my book that is why manifestation is possibly not working for you.
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The other thing I don't like about manifestation is it makes it, people who work hard, it downplays hard work.
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A lot of successful people say they used it, actually.
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Because even if it doesn't physically bring things into your reality, let's say you don't believe in the magic aspect of it, it's bringing things.
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Like, not magic, but you know what I mean, like the supernatural of it.
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It's bringing your mind into a space that is going to be more accepting of things that you deserve.
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Can you manifest anyone to fall in love with you?
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You might try to pick a specific person, but it's not actually who is the best for you.
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So you might actually manifest in somebody even better than you imagined.
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But could it, could you manifest a specific person falling in love with you?
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You could probably do it, but when you mess with people's free will, that's when things get weird.
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You'll attract very dark things into your reality.
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We talked about you being a sugar mommy, you being a virgin, you being on OF, you waiting for marriage.
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We have, there's nothing left for me here, which is you.
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Okay, you're 22, you're a stripper, you're a Christian, you've been single for four years, independent since you were 18.
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I'm curious what happened leading up to this video.
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Where you are, well, I'll just let the video speak for itself.
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It looked like you were like crying or something.
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You said we won't be able to hit everything, but dating after toxic relationship plus wild
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Yes, I have a wild ex that I have children with.
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Dating after toxic relationship plus wild first dates.
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Definitely either find somebody who's understanding, like that has, you know, a kid.
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Uh, or, um, you know, it just, it, it all depends on how you vibe with that person, I guess.
08:24:09.640
Like, uh, thankfully it was not difficult, super difficult for me, but, um, you said you
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believe red pill or black pill ideology when it comes to dating ideals is more damaging
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And if anything discourages men to date women as the average man can't obtain a 19 or 18
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I think that overall, you know, there are some aspects of this message that can be positive
08:24:38.600
for a man, like I guess a positive male space, quote unquote, working, uh, you know, having
08:24:44.360
respect for yourself as a man and everything, but overall, sometimes the message is sort
08:24:50.520
Uh, I think that it's about growing together with somebody, finding somebody that is your
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equal and being able to work with them and not always saying that we're cooked, you
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know, we have to all ascend together and work together.
08:25:04.160
Um, and, uh, yeah, I mean, I actually like a lot of the commentators in this space actually.
08:25:10.780
So, um, but, uh, sometimes the, the message can kind of get lost, but I think that women
08:25:16.940
need to hear certain things and men need to hear certain things.
08:25:20.120
And after listening to everything that you were saying tonight, um, I found that I agreed
08:25:28.380
You said the whole ideology is very misleading and seems more like a cash grab.
08:25:32.420
Are you talking about, like, are you talking about me talking about other people?
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Um, I think sometimes it can be, I just, uh, I think for like, you know, like the sake of
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the sake of clip farming and, um, you know, trying to get that, um, you know, rage bait going.
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Um, no, um, I mean, this is your, this is your space, you know, I don't know how badly
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I'm just a regular person, you know, but if you disagree, if there's things you disagree
08:26:24.820
No, I, I, uh, like I said, I think that overall, you know, the space can be damaging.
08:26:32.100
Yes, it can be with some of the messages that you have.
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Um, such as, you know, stating, stating that, um, you know, that men are putting in more
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of an effort, um, all the time, um, kind of speaking more from like a personal experience.
08:26:51.860
Sometimes I don't know if it is personal experience or if you're just saying it, just like I said,
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Um, I think that when it depends, it depends on the person.
08:27:14.600
Well, so when I, when I'm talking about damaging, the message can be damaging of, Hey, men, you need
08:27:22.260
to make X amount of money and then become stable and then be able to select somebody because
08:27:28.340
I think that it's about growing together, having commonalities.
08:27:31.980
I think that people will probably be more successful long-term if they're dating at like
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a smaller age gap, as opposed to, you know, um, having that ideology of you're going to
08:27:46.080
build this wealth, you're going to have all this money, you're going to accumulate all
08:27:48.680
this power, and then you're going to be able to have, you know, this woman with this giant
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age gap, um, and everything's going to be great.
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And she's just going to love you just for who you are.
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And I think that, you know, the idea of people, of, of women, you know, obviously women being
08:28:10.260
more, um, kind of coming back to like, not being subservient necessarily, but I think
08:28:15.960
that men need to be, um, not as, um, I don't know.
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Not that men need to, are you saying women, uh, the expectation that women be more subservient,
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I think that that's helpful, but I also think that, um, there's kind of like, there's like
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And I think that it's more damaging than it is good.
08:28:43.600
Uh, well, yeah, but that, that war was started by feminists.
08:28:51.940
Well, I mean, if you look back historically, if you look at like when feminisms kind of
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like came into, um, a lot of men were in power, you know, do you want men in power?
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I think in certain areas, men are useful to be in power.
08:29:10.180
And I think in other areas, women in power, um, are useful.
08:29:17.120
I think, I think, like I said, it's synergistic, it's energetic.
08:29:20.720
So, I mean, you do realize though, we're sort of getting into an apex fallacy.
08:29:33.660
I would say it has more to do with, uh, class, wealth, uh, power, uh, like existing
08:29:40.720
power than it has to do necessarily with gender.
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I wouldn't want to say that, but I'm saying that I think that men, no, I just think she's
08:30:01.380
Uh, I think that, um, men were historically in power and that there was small proportions
08:30:11.940
So historically men have been in power and there have been small percentage of men, but
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So what you'd agree that a hundred percent of like the majority of men did not have
08:30:26.180
I think it's like your like sports comparison where you took like a very few amount of men
08:30:30.700
in the whole world who play sports and you took that and you used it to be like all men,
08:30:40.640
Um, if anything, the example I provided where it wasn't even comparing like for like is comparing
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The real comparison, which would be even more damning would be male Olympians versus female
08:30:59.220
No, I'm actually, we're, we're basically giving women a, um, what's the word for it?
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We are giving women a, uh, what's the term where you give that like in golf where you
08:31:10.120
get a handicap, uh, you literally giving women a handicap.
08:31:14.340
If you, we did the comparison of high school boys to Olympic, I guess we're just taking like
08:31:21.240
small scales and you're taking like our top leadership, but I guess in general, um, I think
08:31:28.820
she's talking more in a broad sense and even maybe in CEO positions and like going down
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Uh, yeah, but that's like a really small proportion of men that do have the CEO jobs out of all
08:31:45.220
Um, while it is true that there are more like male CEOs, more males who have like high prestige
08:31:49.860
jobs, this is kind of ignoring the fact that men also occupy like the 99%, like the worst
08:32:07.760
They're more likely to do dirty, dangerous work, uh, that women are just either physically
08:32:12.500
incapable of doing or that they are, uh, they don't have a, uh, interest in doing, uh, men
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occupy typically, uh, you know what, Mary, can you pull up, uh, my personal ex?
08:32:36.320
I wanted to know it as like a statistical thing just to clear things up, but I personally don't
08:32:41.020
mind men taking on the hands-on jobs and I don't mind women taking on the like more
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But I, I mean, I don't think that that's, I don't understand.
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So men, your position is that, uh, men started the gender war because men are, I, I, I did
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And then you brought up, I'm just here to talk about, I just wanted to mention like just
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statistic wise, I thought maybe there could be some clarification on your case study because
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I think there is a bigger, you were like really categorizing and I just wanted to broaden
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Um, I, I think it's kind of like a mutual, but I do think men should, men should be more
08:33:38.000
Uh, I think that we've gone into, what should women be?
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Statistically, how many girls are waiting till marriage and go home early and cook and clean?
08:34:15.200
Here, how can I, I'm wondering what would be sort of the mirror opposite here.
08:34:21.860
He's a, he's a protector, but he, uh, sells his dick.
08:34:32.060
I don't want anybody complaining about how late we're going.
08:34:34.220
Like you guys have interrupted me a hundred times tonight.
08:34:45.740
This is why we tell you guys not to like interrupt.
08:34:48.540
Um, maybe the mirror image for a guy would be he, he, he provides, he protects, but he's
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You might even suspect he's gay, but let's just assume he's gay.
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I think it just contradicts itself because I wouldn't see that as a man.
08:35:22.560
Like if you can be a sex worker and a lady, so you can.
08:35:26.760
I acknowledge that you can have the other traits of being a lady.
08:35:31.100
So you can be, but there seems to be this glaring like red flag where it's basically
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Like this in and of itself is a disqualifying thing from being categorized or labeled as a
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It's like, yeah, maybe you're making it up, making up for it in these other ways.
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But, uh, let's see, you post your butthole, you post your pussy, uh, you do dick ratings.
08:35:57.440
Like this is not becoming, that's not becoming behavior of a woman.
08:36:04.860
It's not any of that stuff that you claim you are.
08:36:10.160
I still consider myself a traditional girl because I follow all those values in my daily
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I mean, we already went over this a million times.
08:36:32.560
I know myself better than you know me and that's okay.
08:36:36.260
Uh, I suppose, but in any case, it's just completely incompatible with trad or Christianity.
08:36:43.500
I mean, uh, it would be like, I mean, I don't know, actually at this point, I don't even
08:36:52.080
Okay, well, I mean, I would have liked to have heard a little more in terms of the,
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uh, you think that essentially, look, you're basically being a coward here at this point.
08:37:11.000
You said, I never said I wanted to confront you.
08:37:25.120
Uh, you said you believe red pill or black pill ideology when it comes to dating ideals.
08:37:29.300
You said, I, you've said, I've said certain things throughout the show that you maybe disagree
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Some of you agree with, um, you said it's misleading.
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So what, what exactly about what I'm espousing is misleading?
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I think that you're conflating personal experiences to what really the kind of interchanging of a relationship
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is with, with a man and a woman, like speaking from like a heterosexual lens.
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Are you talking about my own experiences with dating?
08:38:02.680
It seems that sometimes when you kind of get into your, you know, like rants, it, it sounds
08:38:10.180
Tell me, well, I don't see how that'd be relevant, but tell me what is incorrect about
08:38:14.220
Um, that, um, what are you saying that may be incorrect?
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It could be framed in a much more like positive way where women and men would want to get
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together and actually listen as opposed to fighting with each other.
08:38:44.480
And, and, you know, these men coming on here saying, you know, we're whores and, you know,
08:38:55.800
So the super chatters, I'm not here to defend what people are saying in the super chats.
08:39:01.440
So tell me what I say that you think is objectionable.
08:39:04.020
Um, in this particular podcast, like what we've gone through, um, what have you said?
08:39:14.980
Or it could be something you, you saw in a different episode or a clip.
08:39:18.720
I'm happy to explore any of the, anything I said tonight or elsewhere.
08:39:24.840
What are you against that he's mentioned so far?
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It's more of like the way that the messaging is being wrapped.
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Do you feel like he's devaluing women in a certain way?
08:39:50.160
I think he's possibly because I'm sure that you're, you know, your fan base is younger.
08:39:59.460
The majority of my audience is like 25 to like 44.
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Mainly men, but actually like women in the chat.
08:40:09.260
Like there's a lot of women who watch the show.
08:40:18.500
Do you want to continue with like, what else I guess?
08:40:22.920
Like I said, the messaging of it all could be a little more positive.
08:40:51.100
Um, but also I would just say, uh, this idea that we're going to, we're going to win the
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At least if I'm going to convince people of my worldview, uh, and this, this applies to
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Oh, we're just gonna, we're going to be really nice to everybody.
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And that's going to win people over to our side.
08:41:11.880
You need to completely demolish the opposing worldview and then maybe you can build up a
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But this, this empathy, this, let's just be, let's just all be nice.
08:41:22.960
It's like, no, you have to absolutely crush the opposing worldview.
08:41:27.960
You're not going to win hearts and minds by just, let's just do a, let's just be really
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Being it, being built like around like anger and like, you know, fear mongering.
08:41:47.040
What specifically, what specifically, what is the fear mongering that I am doing?
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So I don't know if I can really think of some examples.
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Well, you're an hour late, so I don't know what to tell you.
08:41:57.220
We started late because everyone was late and I mean, do you want an energy drink?
08:42:04.400
So give me, I'm not looking for like a bullet, a ton of things.
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I mean, the fear mongering of, you know, not being able to find a partner in time to have
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I don't think that that's necessarily accurate.
08:42:25.980
Wait, you mean when I talked, when I talked about how women do have to a degree of biological
08:42:33.720
Men and women both have that responsibility because like you said, if you want to be a
08:42:40.000
present father, you can't just be this aging man, you know, you're going to have to be
08:42:48.820
Well, fear, fear mongering women, you know, saying like, Hey, like, you know, you need to
08:42:53.580
You need to have, you know, X amount of kids and everything.
08:42:56.320
I mean, I think, and also when, well, that's the general red pill mindset, right?
08:43:01.340
Well, the, I mean, it's not just, it's not just like conjecture.
08:43:07.980
Women do have a limited fertility window after 25 fertility starts decreasing.
08:43:14.720
I already granted though, women can get pregnant in their late thirties and their forties, but
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like ideally for women, I, the best time to get pregnant and start a family and have kids
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is going to be, I mean, you can do it on the younger side, but like realistically in the
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current cultural, social zeitgeist, like mid twenties to mid thirties, like mid thirties,
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that's probably the ideal age range, 25 to 35 for women to get married, have a family,
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But in terms of like what's optimal, I think that that's what's optimal and it's fertility
08:43:55.320
You can look at like, you can look at studies done on female women's fertility.
08:44:06.580
So why would it be fear mongering then if I'm just essentially just presenting, it could
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possibly, you know, give the wrong, like I said, the wrong message to some kind of, to
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women that may be susceptible to being influenced that way.
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I think it's actually worse to put out messaging to society.
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I think even if you have objections to my message, I think my message is superior.
08:44:35.680
You should try to lock down a guy in your early to mid twenties, try to have kids starting
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around 25, sometime between 25 to 30, start having kids.
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Then I think that's a better message than no career first women focus on your career
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And that's way worse messaging than whatever I'm proposing.
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To assuming women, look, some women are not called to being mothers.
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It's not everybody wants to be a mom or is called for that.
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But, uh, yeah, I think delaying family, delaying pregnancy, delaying children until you're like
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But some women want to focus on their career path first and then invite the idea of having
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And if they can't conceive and then they can't, it all fucking will.
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But I'm saying like, we basically have a population collapse and what is, what is wrong with women
08:45:43.000
making that decision for themselves though, that they want to focus on their career first in their
08:45:47.420
twenties and then maybe get pregnant later in their thirties.
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And some people want to like focus on their marriage too.
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A lot of people like jump into it, get pregnant, have kids.
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So a lot of people think that they're taking the right steps and even when you take the
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right steps, you, it doesn't end up working anyway.
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So I definitely think that if I, if I could tell my daughter something, it would definitely
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be to wait until you are ready, whether it be at 25, 35, 45, wait until you're ready and
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If you can't get pregnant, adopt simple as that.
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If the woman wants kids and then she's basically been fed propaganda her entire life.
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No, be a boss, babe, go to college, focus on your career, chase money, chase money, chase
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Unless look, women can still find, you know, can still work at that age.
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But actually I saw a study recently, uh, if a woman has not had a child by 30, ha ha ha.
08:46:57.360
If a woman has not had a, I think it's, is it married or have children?
08:47:01.700
If a woman has not had a child by 30, uh, the likelihood of ever having a child is like
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I mean, I mean, double income, no kids who ready.
08:47:25.620
I mean, uh, ultimately though, if you are a woman and you do want a family and you do
08:47:30.640
want to have kids, uh, I think, look, I'm not saying you have to complete, you, you can
08:47:36.540
You can still be like, nah, well, I don't know if I want to go that far.
08:47:40.600
I mean, also just because I think for a lot of people, college is a bit of a scam, but
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I do think that you can, you can be intentional about both in the sense that, okay, well, I'm
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going to go to college, but maybe I'll try to find a guy in college.
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And you know, you can, I don't think it's a good idea to tell women, put off family and
08:48:10.040
You're, you're making a statement, but you're not giving a reason.
08:48:15.000
Well, one, once you've delayed, uh, family and pregnancy at that point, uh, typically I
08:48:20.140
think, well, in terms of maximizing your partner as a woman, women have the most leverage when
08:48:25.460
So when I say younger, I mean, uh, between the age of say 20, 25, that's when a woman has
08:48:32.920
As you start getting into your thirties and older, uh, it becomes, okay.
08:48:37.280
That's one reason you've stated multiple times.
08:48:39.500
That's like one reason that everyone knows for, yeah, sure.
08:48:45.220
So some women can find that it becomes very chance of miscarriages higher.
08:48:57.600
That's one that everyone, everyone is already aware of that reason.
08:49:05.300
So give us another reason that you think women are probably not aware of.
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There's plenty of women who are not aware of like the fact that most women are aware
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as when they get older, there's a less likely chance of them getting pregnant.
08:49:20.740
I mean, I don't see why I need to list like a dozen reasons.
08:49:23.540
I think I'm not asking you to list a dozen reasons.
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I'm asking you to list more reasons than that one because a lot of women already know that.
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I mean, perhaps the final one would be typically, I'm not saying, hey, at 18, go get pregnant.
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Although I, assuming you're with the right guy, I don't actually have a problem with it.
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But I do think that if you have children on the earlier side, you will have the most,
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that's probably like the healthiest for the kid.
08:49:57.320
It's not quite as pronounced, but the sperm quality is better when men are a bit younger.
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It declines pretty slowly, so it's not that pronounced.
08:50:05.080
I mean, as far as like lifestyle wise, I mean, as far as lifestyle wise,
08:50:09.460
I understand you saying like as you get older, you know, your bones are probably going to hurt.
08:50:14.720
You probably won't be able to play with your child as much.
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I've given you like seven reasons at this point.
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Why would it need to be, why would I need to give you 10 reasons for it to be valid?
08:50:28.820
Because you're telling us that women shouldn't be getting pregnant in their 30s.
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They should be focusing on getting, possibly focusing on getting pregnant during their 20s
08:50:38.400
because they're more likely to get pregnant in their 20s.
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But why are you so against women getting pregnant, possibly in their 30s or over?
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I'm having a conversation with what's most optimal for the sake of the children.
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Because I was just feeling like you were super against women, like getting pregnant in their 30s or 40s.
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If it didn't work out like that, then you're going to get pregnant later.
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Like prime time is, yeah, your oven's hot during this time.
08:51:16.980
Like most young people, like girls in their 20s and even guys, like we don't got the money to be like having a kid.
08:51:24.220
Like I've literally told like my family that I probably won't have kids because I would prefer to be a young mother.
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So I think I'm okay with just when I find my partner, we, you know, double income, travel the world together.
08:51:38.660
I'm okay with that because I don't want to be like a parent that has my kid when I'm like 30, 40, and then I'm trying to raise them when I'm like 50.
08:51:51.180
You can be 50, 60, healthy as fuck and raise somebody.
08:51:54.320
From topics, you also, for you, ageism, you mentioned something about ageism.
08:52:02.620
I think what I had mentioned is that kind of some of the messaging here is that as women get older, they essentially are less attractive or expire or don't have as many opportunities.
08:52:25.860
It's just biological reality that as women age, fertility goes down.
08:52:32.980
And yes, they've done studies on this in terms of assessment of what men find most attractive.
08:52:38.400
Yes, as women age, men view them as less physically attractive.
08:52:44.780
That's not to say that women in their 30s and 40s can't be attractive.
08:52:47.640
That's not, but generally, yes, women who are younger in their early to mid-20s, that's when women are deemed most physically attractive.
08:52:59.440
Do you think women are most attractive at 45 or 25?
08:53:08.560
I'm sorry, but unless a woman was like a meth addict and like obese at 25, there's assuming the physical health is the same at 25 and 45.
08:53:24.300
Do you genuinely believe that women are more attractive at 45 versus 25?
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I mean, I think everybody, you know, like that youthful attraction is obviously something that's appreciated by both genders.
08:53:54.320
So I think that as you get older, you know, you have different obligations, you know, different criteria, different priorities when it comes to dating.
08:54:04.220
So, okay, but I mean, when it comes to ageism, I don't think it's like ageism to say that, like, and I, by the way, I make this claim for men, too.
08:54:16.100
There's a bit of a difference, a little difference between men and women.
08:54:19.200
But yeah, I think typically when it comes to physical attractiveness, people generally across the board are more attractive when they're younger.
08:54:26.940
Like, for example, I'll just go to an extreme example.
08:54:30.800
Would you agree that between the ages of 20 and 30 for both men and women, they're going to be more physically attractive than when they're 70?
08:54:37.560
Well, I'm not talking about age gap relationship.
08:54:45.300
And, like, if aging is, like, a gradual decline.
08:54:48.880
And, like, aging, I don't think it is, okay, like, 20, then you, like, down at 30, up at 40, down at 50.
08:54:58.240
I think it's, like, most people, you know, for men it can vary a little bit.
08:55:03.940
But I think you're, like, okay, you're going to peak at 20, and then there's going to be a gradual decline.
08:55:09.700
Yeah, it doesn't take a rocket science to know that.
08:55:15.780
I mean, you could, I believe in aging gracefully, and then, obviously, attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder.
08:55:21.280
And you could think, oh, yeah, this, the old lady's attractive because she has wisdom and a good heart.
08:55:28.580
Yeah, but if we're talking about physical looks, it's just a no-brainer.
08:55:31.300
Like, obviously, younger people are more attractive.
08:55:33.420
Isn't Cher dating, like, a 24-year-old and she's, like, 70?
08:55:38.060
So, look, these age gaps go in different directions.
08:55:41.640
But ultimately, look, yeah, as you get older, you become less attractive.
08:55:51.300
Look, you women, when you put on makeup, especially, oh, my God, bro, let me fucking get through without the interruptions.
08:55:57.800
You women, you put on makeup, you get plastic surgery.
08:56:01.780
Do you, when you put on makeup, do you put wrinkles on your face or do you hide wrinkles?
08:56:06.420
When you put on makeup, do you hide blemishes or do you create fake blemishes?
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Like, because you would agree that there's makeup, that you could do, like, movie makeup to make yourself look older.
08:56:17.260
Women are not doing movie makeup to make themselves look older.
08:56:20.340
In fact, any women here who are like, well, it's ageism, Brian.
08:56:24.280
Women are better looking when they're 40 versus when they're 20.
08:56:32.720
I'll pay for your plastic surgery to make you look older.
08:56:35.800
I'll pay for a professional makeup artist to follow you around for a year and make you look old.
08:56:44.880
If I could wave a magic wand, if I could make a wave of magic wand and let's say you don't die any sooner.
08:57:01.260
Your health is totally the same, but with this magic wand, I can physically, your outward appearance, I could age you 10, 20 years.
08:57:20.880
So it's like, it's like the reality is if it was women were more attractive as they age, they wouldn't cover up wrinkles.
08:57:31.800
They wouldn't wear makeup to make them more youthful.
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There's plenty of women in their 30s and 40s who are attractive women.
08:57:43.040
It's about accepting biological reality that, yes, as you age.
08:58:00.800
I was, I was a fucking, hey, I was a bit of a stud, a bit of a stud.
08:58:14.960
I think I'm getting hotter because I used to be ugly in high school.
08:58:33.280
Okay, so you disagree, you disagree that women lose value with age?
08:58:46.800
I don't, I don't think anybody is going to be losing value like that.
08:58:51.040
But if you're looking at it from the standpoint that you are, then you could make that argument.
08:58:59.140
When you refer to value, and we sort of talked about this value thing earlier, or we, you, I refer to value, I assume you mean in the intended context, which is dating value.
08:59:12.280
Not your value as a human being, intrinsic value.
08:59:21.240
If you're going to be dating somebody in your pool, no.
08:59:24.360
But if you're, if like, if you're trying to chase somebody that's going to be going for younger, like a younger woman, then, I mean, yeah, they're not going to be interested in you.
08:59:33.900
It's about finding somebody who's interested in you as well.
08:59:37.040
Okay, so just to be clear, though, we're not talking about intrinsic value, moral value, human value.
08:59:41.560
We're talking about your value on the dating marketplace.
08:59:47.240
So a 22-year-old woman has equal moral value as a 42-year-old woman.
08:59:55.240
So again, not talking about intrinsic, we're talking about dating value.
09:00:00.140
It is the case that younger women have more dating value than older women.
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Your position is that you disagree that women lose value with age.
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For most men, do you think most men would rather date a 50-year-old woman or a 20-year-old woman?
09:00:31.220
And are you just saying that to agree with me or do you actually disagree with me?
09:00:42.160
Your position is women don't lose value, dating value as they age.
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It depends if you're dating somebody seriously.
09:00:54.100
I mean, like, a serious guy is not, you know, it's like, you're going to be looking for everything.
09:01:02.320
Like, you know, you're going to be looking for a multitude of things.
09:01:05.540
Like, if it's just for a, you know, just a date, you know, most likely somebody's going to be, you know, attracted to that.
09:01:13.700
But if it's coming from something that's more serious, then I think that there's more involved than just age and that.
09:01:23.000
I don't think there's any dispute that who you choose to be with is not just looks.
09:01:30.720
There's obviously other factors that people care about.
09:01:33.200
But I would say that people care, both men and women care a great deal about physical appearance.
09:01:38.920
And then men have certain, when it comes to selecting women, men have certain considerations as to a woman's age in terms of fertility.
09:01:44.960
You'd agree with me that the man who's desirous of having children, and let's say he's even 50, but he wants children.
09:01:52.040
You would agree with me that he would not date a 50-year-old.
09:01:59.880
It's basically if you're 50, I mean, these women, they'd be taking care of themselves.
09:02:06.280
But if you're 50, and look, this is like a less than ideal situation, but if you're a 50-year-old man and you're like, I want to have kids, you're not picking the 50-year-old woman.
09:02:16.380
Because you were saying, well, it depends on your age group.
09:02:19.260
Well, I'm like, well, if you're a 40-year-old man, you're going to pick the 30-year-old over the 40-year-old.
09:02:31.340
So, I mean, I'm getting the impression that you're just kind of, you don't agree with me.
09:02:39.960
I'm still kind of like surprised that I'm here, to be honest with you.
09:02:52.660
But so, have I changed your mind, or are you just going along to get along?
09:02:58.900
I mean, like I said, this is a, you know, there are some aspects that I agree with.
09:03:06.020
Because, I think because I am, you know, older, that I do see some of the points that you make.
09:03:12.180
And some of the messages that you do have make sense.
09:03:16.280
However, I think they could be a little more unifying.
09:03:22.700
But like you said, it's just the tone police and everything.
09:03:25.560
But like I said, I mean, you've made a lot of money making it the way that you're making it.
09:03:29.640
Do you agree, then, that women lose dating value as they age?
09:03:35.440
Uh, when it, like, it, it depends on how you're looking at it, you know?
09:03:50.060
For your audience, and for you, and for your argument.
09:03:54.060
And so, for example, I would be, I'm willing to say that there are some 35-year-olds that are going to possess, that are going to have more dating value than a 25-year-old.
09:04:02.720
But I'm speaking in sort of generalities in terms of principles.
09:04:09.160
So it's like, generally speaking, younger women are, if you're comparing a woman, like the same woman at 25 versus 35, generally speaking, uh, you know, assuming there's no major life changes or anything and not doing something where like, okay,
09:04:23.900
well, at 25 a woman could be obese, and at 35 she could be like a fitness superstar.
09:04:29.860
If we're saying a woman who has like a good body at 25, she has a good body at 35, uh, but she aged 10 years, she's going to be more, her body, uh, her, her face, that's going to be better at 25 than at 35.
09:04:43.880
And men are going to value, uh, the looks more, they're going to value the fertility more, they're probably going to value, uh, 10 less years of baggage also.
09:04:51.540
Because as people age, both men and women, you accrue trauma, you accrue baggage, you get jaded.
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Trust me, people in their 30s are fucking jaded.
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We just, I, I just, no, I, I don't, I'm pretty sure all the old people in the old folks' home is having real fun right now.
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No, I, I don't agree with that, with the metric, the argument that you're making with the metric that you have, then it makes sense.
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You don't agree with the metric and biological reality and facts.
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When it comes to your, the metric and the argument and, you know, the whole kind of the way you're presenting it, then, you know, yeah.
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Nah, low-key here, speaking facts, though, like, honestly.
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Honestly, though, young people are sought after more than older people are.
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Like, honestly, you go to a strip club, you see all these old-ass dudes sitting in the sections and shit, trying to get a little peek at the younger crowd.
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Like, they don't really give a fuck about the old lady they got at home laying in bed with them.
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So is it, is it your position that, let's say you take, you take a woman, assuming, like, controlling for various factors, is it your position that if you were to pull a hundred men that, and you were, I mean, you could even do it with the same woman.
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So a woman at 25 versus 35, if we pulled a million men, do you think that those million men, and they could all be different ages, or they could even be 35, do you think those million men are more likely to find the, in terms of, I guess, attractiveness would be the metric here.
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They're, they're more likely to find the 35-year-old more desirable over the 25-year-old, generally.
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Okay, so do women, do women lose dating value as they age?
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Doesn't make any sense, but, okay, completely contradictory.
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I can't, also, you're just kind of refusing to engage.
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Because some 30, some 30-year-old women is bad as fuck, like, they take good care of themselves, and then they could be a 20-year-old ugly as fuck, don't know how to take care of herself.
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If she's bad at 30, she's probably badder at 20.
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There's some 30-year-olds that really just know how to take care of themselves.
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I mean, if you do a gender swap, it's the same thing.
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The women would rather prefer their men to be younger as they age, to be honest.
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One of my homies, he's slaying dick, and he got a sugar mama, and she's older.
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He's older, and he's younger, so, you know, it's the same thing, vice versa.
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When we say that women lose dating value as they age, so this would be about, like, sexual
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So it's like, people have preferences, and both men and women experience shifts in desirability
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And it's not to say that older women are worth less as people.
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It's not to say that no man wants older women, or that all women decline equally, or that
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But we're saying it's a gradual decline over time.
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It's just, it's fertility, it's beauty, it's physical attractiveness, it's all these things.
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I feel like I need to either hear a counter argument, or I think you just have to concede
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What about people that are, that get more attractive?
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Can you put it on Twitch, and then window, and pull, do you not, can you pull up the chat
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Have the, you know, you know the chat that you've pulled up before?
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I'm, the YouTube chat, the pop-up chat, pop-up chat.
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Chat, think real long and hard what you're going to say.
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As Kevin Samuels says, 27 time to sell, 30-50% off, over 35 on clearance, 40 outlet, 50
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Sorry, but your dating value just goes down as you get older.
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So, this idea that all men age like, no, like, honestly, look, some men do age like wine.
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And look, some women, there's a lot of hot women at 30-40.
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But what we're trying to say is, yeah, like, as you get older, what does this mean?
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You typically, a lot of people tend to gain weight as they get older.
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There's, you know, the face ages, facial attractiveness changes.
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How about one in the chat if you think that women lose dating value as they age.
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One in the chat if women lose dating value as they age.
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We'll see some, but we're mostly going to see ones.
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All right, and I have another question I'll ask the chat.
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I want you to write your age and then I want you to write if you would rather date a woman who's 25 or 35.
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Write your age and then write, would you rather just write your age and then like a dash and then either 25 or 35.
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Don't just say, include your age and tell us if you'd prefer to date 25 or 35.
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19, 35, 28, or 29, 35, 32, 25, 44, 25, 61, 35.
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So look, overwhelmingly though, just based off this, we're seeing men saying mostly, there are 35s.
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The point, I've not heard a convincing counterargument, so I'm just going to go ahead and say, checkmate,
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All right, we have a final segment here, the rapid fire questions.
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Hopefully trying to get through these as quick as possible.
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If you can, that's it for all the notes from all the panelists.
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I did not pay attention to gender and geography, but let me think.
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Guys, if you just, like, just, I'm trying here.
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If you guys want to just keep stalling, I'm trying to get you guys out of here.
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Here, how about just, let me give you a continent, and you tell me countries from Africa.
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I find it helpful if you think about the region or the continent.
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By the way, you guys don't need to wait for me to be, like, you, you, you.
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Just as soon as the person answers, just so you can go right into it.
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I mean, they said seven, so I'm going to say seven.
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For you, since you didn't name three countries.
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And now I'm going to point to you guys for some of these.
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Didn't they come from, like, Europe or Britain or something?
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What country did the U.S. gain its independence from?
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If we gained our independence, we gained it from someone, who did we gain our independence
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How many letters in the alphabet are you next to me?
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How many days of the week end with the letter Y?
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You're just going to blink into the mic, into the mic, into the mic, into the mic.
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Some people maybe just shouldn't vote, I think.
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I feel like if you don't know some of these questions, maybe we just like, we got to repeal
09:26:09.820
If a dozen eggs cost $3, that's some cheap eggs.
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There's a dozen eggs, and then, like, think about...
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You gotta break the eggs up into, like, threes, right?
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Uh, do you know what year the War of 1812 started?
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Where did the attack on Pearl Harbor take place?
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I shouldn't ask the strippers because they know how to count.
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Uh, what country did the Vietnam War happen in for you?
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Oh, I thought you were showing me, like, another one.
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Yeah, she's got a fucking Game of Thrones tattoo.
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I do like Game of Thrones, so I guess I gotta give you credit there.
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After this, I'm watching the new episode of Night of the Seven Kingdom.
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Look, I failed in kindergarten too, because I didn't have glasses growing up, so I struggled
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Okay, when you were madame-ing all those women.
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I listened to Pearl Jam, so I'm kind of worried.
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He would just figure out the method of, like, act like a tweaker and then...
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What's that one show with all the zombies and stuff?
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You would probably be the sheriff guy with the hat on.
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I like that show, but I feel like he made a lot of mistakes.
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Literally nobody said that or thought that ever in the history of ever.
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I feel like Brian, you're kind of soft, but I feel like I'd be in a zombie.
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In a zombie situation, assuming I could fucking survive the shit, I feel like I'd be fucking
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I would do what's necessary to survive, you know?
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I wouldn't be malicious, how some of the people in that show were, but if it was like...
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You sacrifice others, and you keep your daughter because she turned into a zombie,
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Even though she's a zombie, you'll lock her up.
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I would never marry a woman, though, who like...
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This is one of my girlfriend application questions, is in the event of a zombie apocalypse, do
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And if the woman's like, oh, it'd be really bad.
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I need to put you in the timeout again, but three times three times three, you?
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Seven minus seven minus seven is negative seven.
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If yes is spelled Y-E-S, what does E-Y-E-S spell?
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If you were born ten years ago, how old would you be today for you?
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Going around the table, this is a question for everybody.
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Who's going to be the lone wolf here and say some crazy shit?
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Starting, again, on this side, I want you to name just one Allied power and one Axis power
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Give me one Allied power and one Axis power of World War II, starting with you.
09:36:47.720
So, okay, World War II, like, obviously countries, various, many, many countries were involved
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You had two sides, essentially Allied and Axis.
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Name one Allied power, one Axis power from World War II.
09:37:22.080
I guess you did include a country that remained neutral during the war, so I don't know if they
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would fall into either one, but they definitely weren't Axis powers.
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So, you, one Allied power, one Axis power from World War II.
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I don't know what the fuck you're talking about.
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One Allied power, one Axis power, World War II.
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Like, I'm copying if I say British, but Allied is British.
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There's, like, obviously it's too limited, but, like, you guys have not named, like, a few major powers in this conflict.
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I'm not going to say which side, but was one of the powers.
09:39:28.600
Okay, well, the ones I can remember, the Allied power...
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Of the Allied powers are the U.S., Britain, and France.
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And then, for the Axis, I just remember Germany, Russia, and Japan.
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There was a non-aggression pact between Russia and Germany, but I think it might be disputed.
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I'm pretty sure it's disputed that there are Axis...
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But it was not Axis Power, so I was spot on, but I didn't want to be certain.
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I'm gonna skip a lot of these just for time, but there are a few.
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What percent of men do you think are over six feet tall?
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What percent of men make at least one million dollars a year?
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Do any of you keep a list of all the men you've been with on your phone?
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By the way, uh, for the viewers, uh, we're here in the last, like, five, ten, ten minutes
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Uh, $69 TTS, if you guys want to do a roast, uh, we'll do $69 TTS.
09:43:31.920
Uh, it's below the threshold, but I, I'm going to lower it just to do yours.
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Uh, $69 TTS, dreamlabs.com slash whatever, uh, if you want to get a roast in here at the
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No, but still, like, keeping up, like, texting and stuff, and, like, making sure you say the
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Who here, has anybody here, show of hands, and I'll answer this one.
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Have you ever slept with someone the same day you met them?
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Doing all your weird lip shit, the fucking tongue shit, the entire fucking show?
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Oh, the girls get to hit right away, but the guys have to wait.
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It's because penetration is penetration, you know?
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No, I haven't fucked a girl the same at night, I bet I know.
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Mary, can you start pulling these up while I'm just doing a few things?
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Uh, Jocelyn, can I have you read the super chats that come in?
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Some of the photos of yourself is not a virtue.
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This panel definitely, maybe I should have done, oh, you know what?
09:47:46.400
Anyone here ever had a threesome show of hands?
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Anyone, show of hands, anyone ever had a ho phase?
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Has anyone here ever hooked up with two guys in a 24-hour period?
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So probably like in a month, maybe like max 20?
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I feel like it's probably less than that, though.
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If you could snap your finger and all men disappeared...
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And women could reproduce it without men, so it's not like the end of the species, would
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You said in a world where there's no men and we can reproduce with just women?
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If you could snap your finger and all men disappeared and assuming women could reproduce without
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men so they can continue just, I guess, reproducing more women, would you do it?
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You snap your fingers and all men disappeared so they die.
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So I think I'm going to have to retract my statement.
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But if that was the circumstance and we had to regenerate and it's just all women, then
09:52:01.440
I mean, I just look, if I feel like you guys would say if somebody asked this question
09:52:06.100
and like framed it from like you were asking, you know, whoever, like, could you snap
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your finger finger and get rid of like all Palestinians, you guys would be like, yeah,
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So it's like, I just, I find that kind of funny that you guys are like, no, well, uh,
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I don't know what it is, but like billion, like 4 billion plus men, not a genocide.
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Would you snap your fingers if you could reproduce with just men?
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You guys can just fuck each other's in the butts.
09:52:48.160
Um, speaking of which, is it gay for a man to date a trans woman?
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It's not gay because it's not a man, but it is a little queer.
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Yeah, because you gotta be, you're not, at that point you're not straight, you're a little
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leaning on like the pansexual or whatever vibe, you know?
09:54:02.400
They cut the skin of the dick all the way down, and then they use the tube of that dick,
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sandwich, but you all are already failing half of that, and you want a high-value man.
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Like, nobody's listening to me this whole fucking time?
09:55:03.860
I think, I think a person being transgender, I mean, I can't really speak on it to a full
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truth because I'm not transgender, but I think it's like, if they, like, in today's
09:55:12.620
society, it's like, oh, if you identify as that, then you are that.
09:55:15.380
So, I think you have, that's kind of like the rules.
09:55:17.320
Yeah, so I think a woman is an adult human female.
09:55:46.580
What, what do you think about, like, trans women in sports?
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What if the medical institutions say that, well, you know, for the sake of this trans person and they are IDing at, like, 10 or 11, the medical, the doctors say, well, if you want them to actually have, like, the best, and it is true.
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So, if you do want, if you, this person is trans, like, they will be as closer to a woman if they transition and they take puberty blockers at 11 versus if they wait until 18.
09:56:29.000
Okay, but if the doctors are saying, I don't care, too young.
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So, even if the doctor was like, look, this is, this is gender affirming care and we're going to give an 11-year-old.
09:56:38.400
They're just trying to get some cha-ching from Big Pharma.
09:56:40.880
If you can't drink until you're 21, why the fuck should you have the decision to change your gender?
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We can't even tire our tubes until we're, like, 20.
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Ultimately, though, it's definitely gay for a man to date a trans woman.
09:57:08.160
I'll give you the super, the easiest argument ever.
09:57:11.400
If we acknowledge that even if this person is a, we grant the gender shit, they're a woman, a trans woman, you would all agree with me that you can't change your sex.
09:57:30.040
So, when two males have sex, regardless of their gender identity, if we're talking about sexuality, someone's sexuality, we don't say,
09:57:40.500
we say opposite sex attraction, that would be heterosexuality, same sex attraction, homosexuality.
09:57:49.500
Homosexuality, baked into the definition itself, it's where sexuality is referencing someone's sex, your sex attraction.
09:57:57.260
So, regardless of if you put on a wig, and you take fucking hormones, and you get some fake titties, and you invert your fucking penis into a permanent wound, that, I'm sorry, but you are, that's not a pussy.
09:58:24.120
But, if you have, regardless of the gender identity, when two males are having sex, that is homosexual.
09:58:56.200
Yeah, y'all got, you know, khaki shores, tiki drinks.
09:58:59.280
I got big, y'all got like sinking cars, mayonnaise, hot dog water, green day.
09:59:09.400
All right, this is the final thing, and we're done.
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We do a segment called removing your makeup to see what you guys actually look like.
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Whoever takes their makeup off gets either a slice of pizza or a dessert.
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You want me to show you I'm not wearing makeup?
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I'm wearing a lot of makeup today, but I usually don't wear it.
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No, because I was like, I'm like ratchet, but I don't.
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I really love that you are doing this, because it's showing the women's really true beauty.
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You know, it's like women, they wipe away their confidence or something.
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Men's makeup is their beard and their mustache.
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So please pull up a photo of you without your beard and your mustache.
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I don't want to see a young photo of you either.
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You know, I need to see the year this was taken.
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Dude, the guy literally falls in love with her because she's a guy, and then when he finds
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out she's a girl, he kicks her out, and he's like, you're not a tween.
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Also, please leave a nice comment once the live ends.
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You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.
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Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, supports the show.
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Oh, actually, we have some debates scheduled for this week.
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So, the schedule, I think it's like Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday.
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Any girls who want to be on the show, you can DM out whatever on Instagram.