Ali Dawah - MAN CAUGHT SEXUALLY HARASSING 3 HIJABIS - INTERVIEW REACTION

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00:00:09.200 and break their fast who recorded this then was it you or the other system maybe 30 seconds into

00:00:14.320 them talking so they approached us and they kept saying halal um we want to try halal so we

00:00:20.640 obviously assumed they meant we want to go to a halal food place you're harassing me you're harassing

00:00:26.720 me to a point where he was like i want to sleep with you why won't you like let me sleep with you 0.75

00:00:32.400 and i was like go put a headscarf on your mom and then sleep with how i feel that you said that you 0.98

00:00:36.640 feel when muslim men come and say to you oh mashallah this that you feel rubbish about yourself and you're 0.80

00:00:41.200 like oh am i doing something wrong oh is it the way i was dressed oh is it this why do you have to feel

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00:01:08.240 before assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi barakatuh brothers and sisters and dear friends welcome back

00:01:13.040 to my channel uh today we've got um an interesting video we're going to react to and we're going to be

00:01:17.600 actually reacting it with the three sisters who actually were sexually harassed this is an ongoing

00:01:24.240 problem i've actually tackled this issue i would say a couple of weeks ago where i was driving past

00:01:29.120 um barking but i'll get into that inshallah in a minute uh first i want to invite the sisters 0.85

00:01:33.680 inshallah assalamu alaykum sisters how are you guys doing you okay it's real okay

00:01:40.720 alhamdulillah how's ramadan going it's okay alhamdulillah that's good that's good okay sister so what i want

00:01:49.200 you guys to do inshallah is obviously you're gonna there's three of you guys there no um there's

00:01:54.000 two of us my little sister wasn't feeling too well she came back from okay she couldn't come 0.95

00:01:58.880 that's fine no problem so there's two of you guys there uh but your sister was there but she's not

00:02:02.160 feeling well okay so what video okay no problem that's fine so what you guys to do as well uh do

00:02:08.400 is inshallah if you can run me through the day like for example um what was your plan on doing um

00:02:16.720 what was your plan on doing and building up to the point of what actually happened

00:02:23.840 um so initially we had a plan to meet up just to go out and get drinks uh so with ramadan coming up we

00:02:31.920 thought it's better let's meet now because it's going to be harder later so it was just literally an

00:02:36.720 innocent plan just to go and get drinks um and maybe just go for a walk which is what we did

00:02:42.400 and uh we parked up near marble lodge and from there we um went for a little walk and then we

00:02:49.680 decided that let's take some food home um just just a takeaway just something we can all go home and eat

00:02:56.000 because we didn't um really have that plan so it was kind of spontaneous so the plan was just

00:03:01.200 drinks but then we decided to get food later before we went home um so we went for a walk through

00:03:06.640 um uh through bond street and towards oxford street and we saw some other sisters um

00:03:15.440 along the way as well they looked like uni students but they were hijabis yeah okay 1.00

00:03:21.120 so we saw them and uh we asked them if they knew if there was any nice um or anything place like food

00:03:27.920 place especially halal for us to eat um or like to take away home and they advised us to go around the

00:03:34.160 side towards regent street uh where um carnaby is it i think it's carnaby street towards that way um

00:03:41.920 so they told us if you go that way there's a lot of halal places over there uh which you can eat so we

00:03:47.360 because at this point we were thinking let's just leave it and go home but then because they said it's

00:03:50.480 just around the corner we thought let's give it a go and they mentioned burglary and a few other places

00:03:54.960 so we started walking that way um and whilst we're walking just on the corner between oxford street and

00:04:01.680 regent street as we got there um there were two men that started approaching us one of them was

00:04:07.520 really really tall we didn't manage to get catch him on the camera um he could have been anywhere

00:04:12.000 between six and a half to even pushing seven i would say and he had long black hair and it was just open

00:04:18.000 his eyes were rolling back but we realized there was something wrong with them just maybe 30 seconds

00:04:23.840 into them talking so they approached us and they kept saying halal um we want to try halal so we

00:04:30.480 obviously assumed they meant we want to go to a halal food place so we responded saying well we're not

00:04:36.560 we're not 100 sure um maybe if you go that way towards where they sorry i was on mute i was sorry i was

00:04:42.560 thinking why yeah um were they muslims no no no one of them was uh he looked black and the other one

00:04:49.520 looked asian like chinese and mixed so um both of them approached us and they were talking about halal

00:04:56.960 and obviously like we wanted to go and get halal food so we thought they wanted to get halal food as

00:05:01.200 well so we're like we're not from here but you can try um tinsel town and then um so we left at that

00:05:07.280 but then they carried on like following us and then we thought what the hell like they we could smell

00:05:12.480 that they weren't um it's like as if they want drugs yeah they really like stunk and so we like

00:05:21.280 tried to keep our distance and we were like just try like try going there and don't follow us like

00:05:26.960 but they kept following us so we tried to like leave that place and we were walking really fast like

00:05:33.440 they could tell that we were we were scared comments as well so you guys so she they came and said we want

00:05:40.880 to try halal and obviously you guys four obviously they're talking about food yeah but but then they

00:05:46.320 proceeded to say oh no like they were making um hand gestures of headscarf and they're like no no like

00:05:52.640 i want to try halal and then they were pointing at me and at that point obviously like where i come from

00:05:58.480 like being an afran women are very um strong-headed and like vocal about um how they're treated so i i 0.99

00:06:06.960 couldn't take that i was like how the hell is he thinking like that about me and as i tried to

00:06:11.440 like turn back around and i was trying to like say how dare you say that my little sister obviously she 1.00

00:06:17.440 was scared and you can tell from my voice i was so scared i was so so scared because of the things

00:06:23.760 that are happening um around us and obviously like you think that nothing like that can happen to you but

00:06:30.320 when you're in that moment all those thoughts come back flooding and my little sister trying to um

00:06:36.000 pull me away and she was like let's let's go let's go and um we were trying to like go and then we

00:06:42.800 changed our route yeah we changed our route we went really fast so like we can kind of lose them

00:06:48.960 and my friend said that oh let's go with that couple they looked um i think they looked arab so we were

00:06:55.760 like okay if we go with them they won't if because we wanted to go back and forget about work forget

00:07:00.960 about the food we just wanted to get to our car and um so basically they ruined your whole day yeah

00:07:06.880 they ruined your whole experience basically yeah you guys just wanted to go just chill with the sisters

00:07:11.440 go eat um and this this and this is you know we live in the west where you know some people would

00:07:19.440 be looking at this and be like oh it wasn't that deep in that context you know they didn't touch you

00:07:23.840 that but if you think about it's actually it's very disturbing you know because at the end of the

00:07:28.000 day why would you have to feel as if though you know threaten or even if not threatened why should

00:07:34.880 anyone have a damn right to approach you guys in any way shape or form you know exactly and there

00:07:42.240 were people that said why were you out at that time well it's it's it's a society for both men and

00:07:48.880 women like we can we shouldn't be able to we should be able to go out and not be questioned why were 1.00

00:07:55.760 you like you know how yeah you know how people question all the way she was dressed we were just

00:08:02.560 completely like we were covered from hip to toe but for them to like have the audacity to say that

00:08:08.080 it's just disgusting to think that someone would justify things like that and it made us it made us

00:08:13.920 rethink they they call this a civilized society those people the way they were acting and the way

00:08:19.680 later the police how they were um so calm about not calm but so casual about it and the police lady

00:08:27.040 goes to me oh i have been um harassed as well and i was like well this is my um authority and if they're

00:08:33.520 like okay with it who do i turn to who do i go to okay should we do this yeah let's let's watch the 90

00:08:39.440 second video and then we're going to elaborate a bit more yeah so this is where so what happened

00:08:43.520 is so he you guys didn't record it and then who recorded this then was it you or the other sister

00:08:48.400 it was me um so what happens is because this is probably the fourth or fifth time that he was

00:08:53.280 now approaching us and following us i decided because the thing is it was my phone battery was

00:08:58.720 around two percent so i would have called the police there and then but now i was worried if i call

00:09:02.560 them and my phone dies then i've got nothing so i thought let me just make a video like a clip of

00:09:07.440 what he's doing so i managed this is the clip that i managed to get okay so let's play this and let's

00:09:12.400 see what was happened do you really want me to tell the police no why do you want to talk to me

00:09:20.080 okay i said no i said no you're harassing me you're harassing me why are you laughing how am i laughing

00:09:28.080 you're harassing me what do you think when we get out i can i can sense like the kind of trauma in your

00:09:38.000 uh voice like um i think would i be right we'd be right if i said that you didn't like looking back

00:09:46.640 you're like wow did i actually say that do you feel like that i didn't show like i was so deep deep

00:09:52.640 inside i was so scared i was shaking but i didn't want to show him that like i didn't want to be weak

00:09:57.600 in that moment but as soon as he as soon as we got into the train i broke down both my sister and my

00:10:04.240 friend they were they were obviously scared as well but because i confronted him so close to me he was

00:10:10.080 very close to me as you can see in the video and i was so scared because you know how um acid attacks

00:10:16.640 have been happening and he had a backpack on him i was so terrified and in that moment all those

00:10:23.760 thoughts come to you even more so obviously i wasn't trying to show it but i was so scared and

00:10:29.760 when the police came like my eyes were so red even though they came like after an hour i was still in

00:10:35.600 that state of utter it was disgust and it was everything that was not like i couldn't express it to

00:10:43.920 them and the police lady kept asking me tell me in detail all the things he said and i couldn't

00:10:50.480 begin to like tell him i i was i was just and i was so shocked that i couldn't um repeat what he had

00:10:57.600 said and obviously my friend and my sister were there and they had heard all those things that he

00:11:02.320 had said and to a point where he was like i want to sleep with you why won't you like let me sleep

00:11:07.520 with you and i was like go put a headscarf on your mom and then sleep with her if you're that 0.99

00:11:11.440 desperate and obviously they they thought that was funny and i wasn't trying to be funny i was

00:11:15.920 just so scared i was genuinely so scared yeah because they kept saying that oh we want to know

00:11:21.520 what's under all that clothing we want to know what's under the headscarf and that's what we want 0.99

00:11:25.840 to try because we've never had it before that's and that's i mean and some of the stuff i can't even

00:11:30.960 begin to repeat yeah the way they were speaking they had smacks on their faces and it felt like they

00:11:37.200 were scanning me through my clothes you know like it felt like they could almost imagine me naked and

00:11:44.000 i hated that i hated i wanted to be like i wanted to be our home at that point and you know the thing 0.70

00:11:49.680 you touched upon something you said that some people would be like oh why are you guys out at night or

00:11:53.520 some people say you didn't have the correct hijab to be honest islamically you can't really like say

00:12:00.400 that okay you know why are you out it's it's you can't say oh it's it's your fault or etc you know because

00:12:06.160 at the end of the day you know it's a public place and it's not like you're going to a specific

00:12:11.280 area where there's drunk men etc you know we know how it can be but the thing is we're not

00:12:16.640 talking about a very specific area where there's just drunk men and all they do is just harass women

00:12:21.280 and you walk on that like you came trying to say so i don't exactly exactly yeah don't feel like oh it's

00:12:28.240 my fault and secondly for example uh you mentioned that you were dressed correctly yeah the thing is

00:12:34.000 islamically you know this is really important because sometimes people have this concept or

00:12:37.840 think that you know because islam tells a woman to dress in a modest way and a man as well uh but

00:12:44.560 women is very distinct so for example you have to wear the hijab and a buy etc yeah and you know still 1.00

00:12:49.680 in today's time some sisters you know with the hijab etc they might wear tight clothes or there might 1.00

00:12:53.920 be sisters who don't wear the hijab or there might even be women who wear there might be muslim 0.92

00:12:57.760 women that dress up outright inappropriately the thing is with a with a quran allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 0.97

00:13:03.360 tells the believing men to lower their gaze first now what that means is is that as a muslim man myself

00:13:10.800 how you're dressed like you're dressed because allah tells you to yeah um and you're trying to

00:13:15.600 please him you know um because there's a whole misconception about you know i choose to wear like

00:13:19.600 this not really like as muslim women and muslim men we don't choose like i don't choose to dress up

00:13:25.120 modestly i'm told to dress up modestly because allah wants me to do you know what i'm trying to

00:13:28.320 say and i believe it liberates me you know and there are people that come and say oh i choose to

00:13:33.920 dress up in a menisker and i'm like not really you've got societal pressures that's why there's

00:13:37.520 this whole book i don't know if you've read this book sisters i highly recommend it it's called beauty

00:13:40.480 sick um so in this one specifically it talks about how women are sexualized to such a level that 0.99

00:13:47.600 they are actually starving themselves so you know it's ramadan and we're fasting yeah there are 0.92

00:13:51.280 those that are fasting and when i mean fasting they're starving themselves to have the perfect

00:13:55.280 body so if you think about it they're actually starving themselves to have a perfect body most

00:13:59.600 of them are not happy with their body um and there's if you read this book it goes to in great

00:14:04.000 detail with studies um that show that and the thing is it's and the point i'm coming to is that regardless

00:14:10.000 as a muslim man myself or muslim men in general this concept of oh but she was asking for it or oh she was

00:14:17.280 like this or she was look look as a muslim man i don't care if there's a woman walking naked i have 1.00

00:14:24.000 no right number one to look at her look at her let alone speak to her let alone to touch her or let 1.00

00:14:30.640 alone anything so because allah tells us tell the believing men and the big woman of course but it

00:14:35.920 makes the believing man to lower their gaze so of course allah for me the criteria is i have to lower

00:14:42.480 my gaze and have utmost respect for any woman and see them as my sister that has to be the default 1.00

00:14:48.080 position do you get what i'm trying to say and so you should not ever feel that yes allah has ordered

00:14:53.200 the woman to wear the hijab etc because the biggest greatest weakness for a man is a woman however that 1.00

00:15:00.000 doesn't mean that just because i have a weakness for example like the opposite gender well you go back 1.00

00:15:04.800 the right way you get married you know nobody's saying you know stay single forever you can get married

00:15:09.600 so i don't want you guys i wanted to debunk those two misconceptions of you know it was out it wasn't

00:15:13.840 as if you guys were out at 1 a.m or 2 a.m and you know in a nightclub place you know you was there

00:15:18.800 to break your iftar it got dark etc okay you're going to eat number two you shouldn't feel guilty for

00:15:23.280 that number two uh the way you address even sisters well like even if you came to me and said brother

00:15:27.680 ali we don't wear the hijab or yes maybe i was wearing a bit of a tight clothing i would say sister

00:15:32.880 this incident is irrelevant i would just say sister try to get close to allah by wearing the hijab

00:15:36.720 i would not say oh sister i see if you wore the hijab this what i'm just trying to say is these men

00:15:41.840 are doing this because at the end of the day you know what it is and what it shows me is that for

00:15:45.520 them to say this and you know it's it's it's popularized in the context where because a lot of

00:15:50.640 girls in today's age sadly because they're systematically sexually objectified i've done a 1.00

00:15:56.160 video like a couple of weeks ago where i was driving past barking and there's banners then you

00:16:01.440 just you know sometimes you just tend to look at banners banners just come and go there was different

00:16:04.480 different banners and one of them popped up of a blonde girl and she's they're marketing a metal 0.97

00:16:10.640 metal company it's a metal company it's got nothing to do with it she's a blonde girl and she's got 1.00

00:16:15.120 chili in her mouth and she's like red hot deals or something like that and i found that and i was

00:16:21.360 like wow this is the reason why women are so this you know degraded because the more you're making a 1.00

00:16:28.480 woman like because the the perception is as men look we we we have a weakness towards opposite

00:16:33.760 gender yes but when they're sexually degraded objectified systematically on tv in the books in

00:16:40.320 the magazines on social media on banners and wherever it may be what men are registering in

00:16:47.280 their head and there was a study done a couple of years ago where they showed men um women in bikini

00:16:52.800 and they were they had obviously things in their head um to um see what part of the brain lights up

00:16:59.200 and i don't know if you guys heard this but the part that lit up in the brain was the same part is that

00:17:03.840 is useful tool you know like screwdriver or i don't know it might be scissors or so he actually didn't see

00:17:10.000 her as a human being so the thing is that's crazy that means that these men or these men like this

00:17:17.200 are walking around and they don't even see you as human you're in their brain because they watch

00:17:24.720 pornography and and and it's clear what the industry is about they don't even see you as a 1.00

00:17:32.320 co-human being all they see you is a sexual object so much so that this vile disgusting man is saying 0.99

00:17:39.520 oh i want to see what's under hijab because they're bored of the oh all the girls show their body what's 1.00

00:17:44.560 different muslim girls they cover up that's interesting that's challenging because the 1.00

00:17:49.600 challenge has not been left in the context where you know um this girls are just dressing up how 1.00

00:17:54.640 they want like you know it's half naked whatever it may be and it still doesn't justify for people

00:17:58.880 to harass them but what i'm trying to say is they see that as a sign of maybe she's interested

00:18:03.920 do you get what i'm trying to say and cat calling they were done you know after this girl who got um

00:18:08.800 killed and murdered you know by a police officer do you know that

00:18:12.000 did you hear about it yeah yeah so you know um yeah like it's it just shows you and there was a study

00:18:18.160 that there was a uh uh research done where they found that nearly where they corrected it was 91 or 93

00:18:25.920 percent of women admitted that they were sexually harassed obviously they said the correct numbers 1.00

00:18:30.240 were 80 87 or 80 percent yeah i'd like to add to that everyone's so busy that they just don't um

00:18:38.720 don't report it and we didn't want to let it go because there were so many young girls from university

00:18:44.000 as you said uh going back and forth on those streets and they said that there's no cameras so for them

00:18:49.520 we wanted to report as well what do you what do you know what do you think is the reason why like

00:18:56.880 you want to add on like why do you think men are behaving like this what do you think the causes

00:19:03.120 um what the the one that's approaching me or the men in general like the stuff that i mentioned like

00:19:10.320 you can agree with that or if there's anything you want to add on obviously because they don't uh you

00:19:14.480 know how jihad with nafs is held so so upheld in islam and even our muslim brothers they in today's 0.83

00:19:22.240 society they've forgotten that the striving and struggling from within it starts from within

00:19:29.600 but obviously everything that's um being fed to them and how they're exposed to everything

00:19:36.560 and women being objectified and they only look at their moms and their sisters with a respectful

00:19:41.200 um view so so the fact that they um they didn't step up i think it's because maybe they thought that

00:19:50.320 it wasn't our business and she's not my mom she's not my sister so it's none of my business so they 0.93

00:19:55.440 just carried on was there muslim men all of them yeah most of them are arab yeah um young girls guys um

00:20:06.880 it was a mixture um of people families were walking past but no one literally said a word

00:20:13.040 um and in relation to what you were saying um like what for example what you saw embarking and the

00:20:18.560 picture that you saw um is i think yeah you're right because the thing is even little things like this

00:20:23.920 these they're degrading women and then you'll have men like like these ones that approached us who think

00:20:30.160 it's okay or this is how you're supposed to treat women or this is how you should be talking to women

00:20:34.880 um i don't think they think it's okay but i think they think they can get away with it because most

00:20:40.400 time they can yeah yeah exactly you know um yeah well it's it's what message would you give to muslim 0.99

00:20:49.360 men that are listening to this you know like because sadly a lot of muslims as well you know men as well

00:20:54.640 sadly you know they they should know much better you know when it comes to these things and you know

00:20:59.600 there is like if like you know i discussed this in my marriage documentary you know i know it's a bit

00:21:05.040 late five years late six years late but uh the thing is it's sisters is that you know i i had like

00:21:12.720 moments when i was like looking to get married as well for example i do ask like i have a specific

00:21:16.240 moment with mufti men and i say okay if i was to see a sister in public let's say i've just or just came

00:21:21.520 to see about you know there is an islamic etiquette of approaching someone you know what we're seeing is

00:21:27.280 like if somebody was interested in a sister there is obviously it's better you know if you have your

00:21:31.840 sister to get your sister approached but you know in these instances these things do happen you know

00:21:35.600 let's be real it does happen there is an etiquette you know there is a way you can approach somebody

00:21:40.000 in a respectful way and look sister you know i'm not coming with the intention that if i'm in like

00:21:45.200 can i speak to your father there is an added to things how it can be done and i know there's a pros and

00:21:50.400 cons to that you know because i didn't they is a total stranger you know and the times that we live

00:21:56.160 in uh of course there's a lot of cons as well and there's pros as well and as long as it's done in

00:22:00.960 islamic according in a nice way where the person's intention is not that and he wants to speak to your

00:22:05.680 father that's the whole discussion in itself but what message would you give to muslim men who are

00:22:11.440 just outright disrespectful of you know even saying assalamu alaikum in a flirtatious way or like oh

00:22:16.480 mashallah what message would you give them because i've got a message to give them but coming from you

00:22:20.960 guys what would you say to them because they're going to be listening to this yeah i i think they think it's

00:22:25.440 it's a joke or it's not that deep but for us girls it makes us think how we how how we are like it

00:22:32.400 makes us doubt and question the way we um present ourselves and the way we carry ourselves when most

00:22:39.040 times it's not even our fault but um what you said about getting married and being young i think because

00:22:45.840 society puts so much pressure on young men that they have to attain a certain lifestyle have a job have a

00:22:53.040 house it's not easy most of the times but obviously allah says that um it all comes with um it's all

00:23:01.760 gonna come to you so if you wait on it how long are you gonna wait how how many years how many years

00:23:08.800 till you know that you're financially stable obviously it's a good attitude to have to have goals to have

00:23:13.840 um something to want but um it's not realistic and obviously um how um i was gonna say um that it's

00:23:25.360 easier for them to have girlfriends it's so much easier let's be realistic even in today's day

00:23:31.760 and it's so much harder to approach the parents and like speak to them and then get the whole

00:23:36.560 um marriage started but that's the thing you know they want an easy way out yeah but the thing is

00:23:43.920 this is you see that's the reason why this is one of the biggest problems that we have in relation to

00:23:47.680 the question that you asked um just one more thing that i'd like to add to that is would like to say to

00:23:52.640 these especially muslim men is that you'll always see that they will be the same men that will be really

00:23:58.240 protective of their own sisters yeah but they think it's okay to um you know make derogatory comments

00:24:06.160 towards other um other muslim women well as long as okay that's not my sister it's okay for me to 0.98

00:24:12.080 talk to her like that but oh but if it is my sister then that's a problem yeah um it so my message to

00:24:17.040 them would be to have the same approach to other muslim women that you would have with your own sister as 1.00

00:24:21.280 well exactly you know one thing they don't realize is that and this is it's it's it's corruption in the 1.00

00:24:27.280 land because if you think about it well the i the thinking process is very stupid as well because 0.98

00:24:32.160 it's like you will go and do that to somebody else's sister or daughter or mom or whoever may be 0.96

00:24:39.840 but what you don't realize only one second what you don't realize is that what if there is

00:24:48.080 if there are 100 men like you that is being done to another another person's sister and mother

00:24:54.560 and if there's a thousand men like you or a hundred thousand men like you your own mom and your own 1.00

00:25:00.240 wife and your own sister is going to be prone to someone like you so what they don't know is it's a

00:25:05.920 that what they're doing you know you know it's going to come back to them because if men all behave

00:25:11.680 like them then it's going to be it's going to happen to your mom your sister and i think one of the

00:25:16.560 reasons and i was talking about the big con of um you know dating you know if you think about it

00:25:21.840 it's popularized like you don't get to know each other day it's the biggest one for females because 1.00

00:25:27.200 you're you're going to be in a relationship there's no commitment when i'm in commitment

00:25:30.880 like you perceive as commitment yeah okay there's no marriage it doesn't speak to your family yeah

00:25:36.560 um can manipulate you yeah and i know there are women that manipulate men as well um useful sexual 1.00

00:25:41.440 desires yeah if you think about it the guy's got no down responsibility like if you think about it i'm

00:25:47.360 thinking no down like there's no i understand not understand but if you think about why would

00:25:54.800 he get married you don't need to pay for a wedding don't need to pay for maher don't need to see your

00:25:59.600 brother or your dad because they might you know see right through me i get what i want it's a win-win

00:26:05.760 situation so that's the reason why that's the reason why men muslim men as well they're going down

00:26:12.640 that route if every muslim let's say sister or whoever may be if we if our sisters know their

00:26:19.760 self-worth and i always say that you know i always say you know you guys are worth more than being a

00:26:23.520 girlfriend if every because if you think about if every woman said no you have to marry me men have no

00:26:29.600 choice but to marry but because that's not happening and those options are there they're thinking forget

00:26:35.680 that marriage meet family that's long so i think that's one of the reasons and that's why you can see

00:26:41.360 the corruption in society how it has a domino effect across board to everyone i'm sorry that

00:26:46.480 you guys have to go through that and may allah subhanahu wa ta'ala protect you guys inshallah

00:26:50.080 um and yeah i really you know appreciate you guys taking uh coming here inshallah because it's

00:26:55.680 important you know with these kind of stuff um i like to have sisters have their say on the matter 0.99

00:27:00.560 because you know how you felt i don't know i can do a reaction video and just talk and just oh this

00:27:05.120 is wrong etc but to hear firsthand from you guys and how you felt and even hearing your voice there

00:27:10.240 where you know it seemed like you was really scared you know i just want people that's watching

00:27:14.240 this at home especially our muslim brothers as well you know to really understand and know

00:27:18.960 that you know respecting a woman is not based on how she dresses um or she's on it or she's on it

00:27:26.160 who cares oh she's she's moving like a you know i'm not going to mention the word whatever it may be 0.99

00:27:30.960 or she's this they even made a term like something jobby yeah i'm not even going to mention it yeah so

00:27:35.920 it's these these are not valid reasons for you to be like oh she wants to uh she doesn't mind 0.81

00:27:41.680 having intimacy um so i'll treat her like that that is that's absolutely disgusting as a believer 0.63

00:27:46.800 as a man yourself i don't care if that woman's whatever she says oh she's on it she wants to 1.00

00:27:52.320 whatever yeah you need to feel a lot you know because it only defines you your actions define

00:27:58.400 you it doesn't matter what she's doing yeah and so much so that you got you what you said one of the

00:28:02.720 the things and i'll end on this is that you said that you feel when muslim men come and say to you

00:28:06.560 oh mashallah this that you feel rubbish about yourself and you're like oh am i doing something

00:28:11.520 wrong oh is it the way i was dressed oh is it this why do you have to feel like that why do you have

00:28:16.640 to feel as if it's you why is it you why is it not them so the fact that you feel like that is

00:28:21.600 problematic he should feel ashamed he should be thinking i made a feel like that not oh like we

00:28:27.040 shouldn't have this perception of you know and once again there has to be a balance as well you get

00:28:31.360 what i'm trying to say because at the end of the day you know there was a comedian that i was watching

00:28:34.640 and this comes from you know dave chapelle yeah okay so basically i i used to watch some of his

00:28:40.480 stuff before yeah but he says something um interesting and i want to give it context where

00:28:45.920 he would say for example some girls say for example just because i'm dressed up in a miniskirt or 0.86

00:28:52.160 really revealing everything um it doesn't mean that i'm a prostitute now he gives an analogy he says it's

00:28:59.920 like it's like my house is on fire and i see someone walking down the road and they are dressed

00:29:07.840 up in a fire man's outfit or oh no he says police officer he says imagine somebody's robbing me on

00:29:13.040 gunpoint and i see somebody walking past and he's got a police uniform on so i go officer officer can

00:29:17.440 you help me i'm being robbed and the man turns around it's a bit funny he goes excuse me just because

00:29:21.920 i'm dressed up as a police officer doesn't mean i'm a police officer the point he's trying to make here

00:29:27.200 is that if women are dressed up in a certain way yeah in in a certain way sadly you're going to 1.00

00:29:34.640 attract bad attention sadly you know and i'm not saying that's across board because we saw that 0.99

00:29:40.480 even though you guys were dressed up correctly you still had idiots what we're trying to see is that 0.99

00:29:45.200 what islam does is it says prevention is better than cure so islam just goes to the root of the 1.00

00:29:51.200 problem and deals with both the man's side of it by educating them and tend to feel low in the gate

00:29:57.680 and also for the woman to dress up in an appropriate manner and i think i'll just end on that um and 1.00

00:30:02.960 may allah bless you guys and thank you for being on here um till next time brothers and sisters hope

00:30:07.600 you guys enjoyed that video inshallah if there's any comments you would like to make inshallah in the

00:30:11.520 comment section and share this with your friends and family especially men in your family inshallah

00:30:15.760 and i'm not well be careful when sharing i don't want them to feel like you're indirect with them

00:30:19.440 just share it with the family yeah just share it share it across board and let people benefit inshallah

00:30:23.840 and that's it may allah bless you guys and enjoy ramadan and don't forget guys i'm trying to feed

00:30:27.680 300 000 uh well i'm trying to raise 300 000 meals there's a link at the bottom inshallah please give to

00:30:33.040 that next time assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

Ali Dawah - April 28, 2021

MAN CAUGHT SEXUALLY HARASSING 3 HIJABIS - INTERVIEW REACTION

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