Ali Dawah - MY DAD CAUGHT ME PRAYING & MY MUM PANICS

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00:00:09.200 so for example this yogurt that we have here yeah

00:00:30.000 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh brothers and sisters and dear friends so as i

00:00:50.080 promised you guys inshallah i'm gonna have a little discussion with my

00:00:53.680 mom she's in the kitchen she's made food i'm hungry just got back from the park

00:00:57.760 um so i'm gonna eat i'm gonna eat inshallah and this is the door my dad came in from yeah

00:01:02.960 this is how he caught me here um i'm gonna talk a bit about it i'm gonna inshallah it's gonna be a

00:01:07.200 bit beneficial i think i think we're very beneficial i think a lot of people will start praying inshallah

00:01:10.640 after this our kitchen you can say so my mom's cooking food i'm not gonna show you her she's made

00:01:19.440 this is called sarma so basically it's like vine leaves um and you can have like cabbage and you

00:01:29.200 fill it with mincemeat and some herbs and stuff like that so we're gonna be eating and talking yeah

00:01:34.720 so basically i've got another i've got my ipad recording as well so i will be changing camera

00:01:39.600 angles inshallah so this is exactly yeah so basically um i was i was here yeah so i was

00:01:49.120 basically i was just standing right um right there so when i heard the door because usually what it is

00:01:56.720 for the past five or six years my dad um well i would say the last about two years he kind of

00:02:04.160 people if he had some customers um and they tell him uh they tell him about me so it's kind of

00:02:11.520 recently about a year and a half two years ago they found out about my youtube and stuff

00:02:15.440 which they're not really happy about but praying was the first time ever like i think he actually

00:02:21.200 caught me praying because usually when i hear him this was before like time ago it would be really like

00:02:26.720 bad like i would have to stop praying because if he saw me it just would have been really bad not

00:02:31.440 not that he's a bad person it's just the things that has been through a few extra few other stuff

00:02:36.240 as well so it's not that he's a bad person i don't want you guys to start thinking like my dad's bad

00:02:39.200 he's not a bad person he's a really very nice person uh but it's just you know it's just the

00:02:43.280 stuff that he's gone through that's kind of mean a bit bitter and you know he just thinks you know

00:02:47.600 i'm brainwashed etc it's a different story but i'll ask allah to guide him inshallah and there's a lot

00:02:51.680 of people out there with the same issues as well so yeah i was just i was standing there so when i heard the door

00:02:56.480 i can see like from the corridor from here like for example let me show you guys so basically from

00:03:02.400 there you can see that's the corridor yeah so i'm praying here so imagine i'm praying here so i know

00:03:09.600 from there he's going to see me yeah so what i do is i start i went a bit forward yeah so he wouldn't

00:03:14.800 see me i went really close and my mom's standing one second and my mom's my mom's standing basically

00:03:21.440 here yeah yeah mom's standing right here yeah and then and then next time i know she starts 1.00

00:03:39.760 okay she's gonna say in turkish i can do translation like uh on the screen if that's too long i'm just

00:03:45.040 going to translate for you yeah so she's basically saying that four years i was uh praying she didn't tell

00:03:55.200 my dad and she's hiding from me yeah so she's basically saying that she used to be careful she would

00:04:02.400 look at the door you know see you know you should cover for me basically yeah you know how mothers are 0.99

00:04:07.120 you know yeah so basically um uh she's uh saying that uh when my dad came and caught me because you

00:04:26.720 see there's two things happened here one month ago i was upstairs here and that's when the first ever time

00:04:35.040 he caught me praying yeah the second time is this instance i'm telling you that instance when it

00:04:40.640 first happened that was i can't explain to you yeah um i don't go into detail there's some certain

00:04:45.440 things that happened and i was praying and he came so i was upstairs yeah he came i thought my mom came

00:04:51.840 so he's coming he came into the room i'm praying and he's like what are you doing yeah and imagine i'm

00:04:58.240 in prayer usually i break my salah yeah but i was just some things that happened yeah i can't explain

00:05:04.080 to you but i just froze like i was like i cannot explain the feeling the most awkward feeling ever

00:05:10.320 like it's like do i stop what do i do and he's like what like what are you doing yeah like literally

00:05:16.560 imagine you're not even looking i can it was the most awkward thing ever obviously i i just carried on

00:05:22.640 i don't know why i just carried on yeah and then um afterwards i'm thinking in my head like this is

00:05:28.400 the most awkward thing ever because i'm eventually going to finish praying and i can i heard that he

00:05:34.560 just sat there watching me so imagine how awkward it is yeah those who are reverts or those who are

00:05:40.560 muslim families who um uh you know muslim families their families maybe don't like them praying whatever 0.99

00:05:47.600 yeah but sometimes reverts i think mainly reverts go through this they would know so when you finish

00:05:54.560 prayer imagine you're giving you're doing teslim yeah okay and then you turn it and you're going to

00:05:59.440 turn this side yeah and then he's and he's there as soon as i finish prayer and it was the most awkward

00:06:04.400 thing ever what i did is i just i just wanted to walk out yeah like i was just i just i didn't want to

00:06:10.080 look at him i put my head down i was just trying to go yeah and then um obviously he was angry he's like

00:06:15.200 don't ever pray um here again etc etc a few other things but like i said to you before he's coming

00:06:21.280 from the angle where you know he just look you need to understand things like this yeah like it's

00:06:26.960 like look at the companions a lot of them they accepted islam later on in life etc at the beginning

00:06:31.840 they were hostile umar and you know he was even though some say it's weak narration that he was on

00:06:35.840 the way to kill the prophet peace be upon him so they were hostile why because they didn't not know

00:06:39.520 better so we should not look at these people as evil you know we should make pray for them whoever

00:06:44.160 yeah so yeah that was the first ever time yeah so the second time my mom doesn't know my mom doesn't

00:06:50.240 know that first time he saw me so obviously i'm a little bit more comfortable comfortable so so

00:06:56.480 basically he's walking through that door i go right where this is this is yeah i come very close to it

00:07:02.400 yeah so he doesn't see me so he's opening the door and no the kapıyı açtı

00:07:06.000 yeah he was like open the door yeah so basically and then and then and i was like come on like you

00:07:24.320 know it's just like cover and then he opened the door and then he came in and then mom

00:07:28.640 she's saying she's saying to me get up get up because i haven't told her my mom's my dad saw me

00:07:42.080 playing once yeah so i'm a little bit more confident it's still very awkward like i try to avoid it here

00:07:45.840 because i don't want to rub it in his face yeah um so my mom's like get up get up so i'm not i'm just

00:07:50.720 carrying on because i'm just like oh man not again but i'm just carrying on so my mom's thinking it's the

00:07:55.440 first time for her and she's thinking what the hell is going on and why is he not getting up

00:08:04.160 yeah she's like she's like she's like she's like what the hell like what are you doing like 0.59

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00:09:15.600 the reason i told you this is obviously not uh

00:09:18.160 not with the intentions of

00:09:20.800 um boasting about it uh

00:09:23.040 not with the intentions of making it seem like i did something extraordinary something special

00:09:28.640 um but in a nutshell the reason i'm doing this um

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00:09:31.680 brother insisted as well actually i'm gonna put the camera here because i'm because ipad recording

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00:09:36.000 let's put this

00:09:37.920 yeah that should be fine

00:09:41.280 yeah so basically

00:09:43.040 the reason why i was i'm sharing this with you guys as well yeah and just giving

00:09:46.720 you know the tape from my mom as well um

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00:09:52.400 don't understand

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00:09:57.440 okay all right so my mom is basically saying she's made the vine leaves and the dolma

00:10:01.680 but she's saying that uh she wants to put um

00:10:04.880 some sauce on it because it tastes better with that so when it comes to this i'm i'm

00:10:08.720 she always forces me even when i'm leaving i can't leave that i can't leave the house without

00:10:11.760 having breakfast you know she'll force me yeah that's mothers for you um 1.00

00:10:15.440 that's what the prophet said you know when they asked who has my more rights said your mother

00:10:20.400 then who your mother then who your mother then who your father obviously we should be great

00:10:24.160 we're grateful and appreciative and respectful to our parents and they are your daughter jannah

00:10:28.320 you know allah says in the quran that after he orders us to worship him to obey the parents be

00:10:33.600 the muslim or non-muslim so yeah in a nutshell the reason why i'm sharing this with you brothers and

00:10:37.920 sisters is that it's it's i heard of i heard a lot of stories mine mine is nothing yeah i've heard of

00:10:43.040 mad stories where they're caught praying the parent comes and spits in their face

00:10:47.840 physically attacked yeah i haven't i haven't gone through that madness yeah but i know a lot of

00:10:51.600 people now there is times there is times i'll even mention here for you guys that there is times i can

00:10:58.160 remember when i would have to do and i'm sure a lot of revert brothers or those who are struggling in

00:11:02.240 certain families face that getting up for fajr is a struggle on its own yeah but for reverts it's not

00:11:09.120 the struggle of okay um you know some river struggle as well i'm not trying to make it seem

00:11:13.200 like reverts do something special but the struggle of waking up for fajr that's another problem with

00:11:18.560 itself but another thing is the fact that you have to get up knowing your parents if you're both your

00:11:25.280 parents are not okay with it your sister brother with me it was just my father yeah yeah i mean so

00:11:30.560 basically is that you have to get up in silence yeah so i'll just show you guys this

00:11:40.640 no evil eye please so i'm gonna have that so the issue is not just oh i'm gonna wake for fajr i can't

00:11:47.680 wake up in the morning no the issue is you have to get up in silence so imagine you're getting up

00:11:53.120 in silence yeah so you're walking down you're tiptoeing man like wallahi it's literally i can't remember

00:11:59.200 time where you i would have to tiptoe yeah and i know a lot of people go up for this as well you're

00:12:04.480 tiptoeing to pray then when you go and do wudu you have to open the tap slowly you need to do wudu

00:12:10.880 what's the fard the fard is you do it one time yeah the hands is sunnah yeah okay then you know you

00:12:16.560 have to do it once usually after three times yeah that's the sunnah the fard is that you do it once

00:12:22.080 yeah that you're going to have to um do it once in shower yeah and then when you do wudu you know

00:12:29.520 you have to do it slowly so they don't hear it when you're praying when you're going to

00:12:33.760 sajda when you're reciting you're doing it all slowly all of it yeah now why am i mentioning this

00:12:39.680 to you guys born sisters the reason i'm mentioning this reason is because so you guys can understand

00:12:45.600 wallahi there's so many of you guys that your families are encouraging you to pray yeah they are

00:12:50.800 encouraging you to pray and you're not well that amazes me look at that there's people who are

00:12:56.960 struggling you know striving blood sweat and tears to pray they're striving to pray and and and and

00:13:04.800 they are under like you know that cctv surveillance cameras everything kind of stuff yeah and they are

00:13:09.200 still managing to pray so far look at some of you guys who are in muslim families your mom and your dad

00:13:14.880 they want you to pray and you're not praying look at our situation look at what we have to go through i'm

00:13:20.160 not trying to be a victim of like people feel sorry for me well i don't feel sorry for me i don't

00:13:23.360 want no one to feel sorry for me what i'm saying is think about it think about it people are getting

00:13:30.640 beaten up because they're praying by their family members getting kicked out their house

00:13:34.480 they're slapped in their face spat in their face yeah so what i'm trying to say to you guys is i want

00:13:40.160 you guys to benefit from this your salah yeah your salah worshipping allah subhanahu wa ta'ala some

00:13:46.320 people are dying they're dying to worship allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and some people are dying not

00:13:50.480 to worship allah subhanahu wa ta'ala um just inshallah you guys benefit from this uh that you learn

00:13:56.720 inshallah and you take your religion seriously inshallah brothers sisters there's people at the

00:14:00.480 other side of the planet around the world even in london you know that are struggling um to pray

00:14:06.000 they're looking for a way out to pray inshallah um so yeah it was just a little reminder from me

00:14:10.240 to you guys with my mom uh of what happened uh and inshallah you guys benefited my mom is featured

00:14:17.200 in my marriage documentary uh where we have a discussion with her uh so basically we talk with

00:14:31.280 my mom about uh when my dad wasn't obviously allowing me to get married to a practicing sister 1.00

00:14:37.280 um the struggles that i went through you know she shares uh you know i i have a you know heart

00:14:42.800 to heart with my mom uh where she talks about in general um what happened the struggles i went

00:14:48.480 through um the reason why my dad was like that etc that's all in my marriage documentary inshallah

00:14:54.480 um specifically my alhamdulillah mom likes all my friends alhamdulillah um but specifically um

00:15:00.320 what was this reaction here she had to do on that uh shakir shakir shakir

00:15:14.960 my mom has like a special kind of love for shakir so shakir if you're watching this yeah my mom always

00:15:20.320 talks about you may Allah bless you inshallah and you should and you should come visit her look she's

00:15:23.680 even asking about she's like where is he you know uh brother shakir romero may Allah bless him inshallah

00:15:28.640 you know uh his mom passed away may Allah grant her the highest rank of janitor she accepted islam 0.92

00:15:34.000 um and yeah so make dua for his mom as well inshallah and doing these videos with allah it's hard for

00:15:42.240 me because the thing is i'm i try to be really conscious of um you know you know there's a

00:15:48.160 statement i can't remember who said they attributed that you know don't talk about your children next to

00:15:53.120 people that don't have kids don't talk about your wealth next to the poor and you know obviously i i

00:15:57.760 i was thinking should do this video because obviously i know shakir is going to watch it 0.73

00:16:01.040 and his mom's passed away and there's a lot of people's parents passed away as well you know it

00:16:04.240 was a very hard decision for me but for the benefit outweighs the good alhamdulillah and shakir

00:16:08.160 alhamdulillah is a very strong person a strong baba um may Allah bless him as well inshallah if

00:16:12.560 he's watching this i love him for the sake of allah subhanahu wa ta'ala uh hope you guys are

00:16:16.000 benefited inshallah shakir my mom saying you know come visit inshallah um and the same goes with musa

00:16:21.360 and dowood and dowood mashallah may Allah bless you guys yeah that's it guys hope you guys have

00:16:25.920 benefited i'm gonna have my um vine leaves and uh yeah vine leaves now oh lastly soon i might be doing

00:16:36.320 a little program with my mom i'm gonna i'm gonna be doing a little program with my mom of she's

00:16:42.480 gonna tell us how to make turkish dishes so what i'm eating now i'm gonna do a footage where sisters

00:16:48.240 your wives your sisters whatever um they can watch and learn how to make this kind of food so 0.99

00:16:53.120 for example this yogurt that we have here yeah okay sorry okay okay so basically this yogurt here

00:17:04.480 yeah yeah my mom made this homemade yogurt so i'm going to be doing a little show with her um for

00:17:10.320 the salam dining show showing you guys how to make this at home these kind of things that's why

00:17:14.720 brothers sisters may allah bless you guys are watching don't forget to subscribe share and like

00:17:18.400 uh i want to thank every single one of you guys for supporting our works uh and make dua for us

00:17:22.800 make dua that allah subhanahu wa ta'ala guys my father's islam and the rest until next time

00:17:27.120 from me and my mom assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh see you at the marriage documentary

Ali Dawah - December 24, 2018

MY DAD CAUGHT ME PRAYING & MY MUM PANICS

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