Ali Dawah - April 08, 2014


THE REALITY 5 ｜｜ ＂I P.I.M.P.E.D MY SISTER＂


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Brother Dawah talks about the double standards in the Muslim community and what he thinks about them. He also talks about a new video that has been released by DJ Khaled featuring the rapper Game and the Game's crew.

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00:00:00.000 As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh brothers and sisters
00:00:16.000 Welcome back to the reality show part 5
00:00:18.000 As you know on part 4 it was called I want a pious wife
00:00:22.000 So basically on the reality part 4
00:00:24.000 What we did was we went out there in public
00:00:26.000 And went up to certain men and asked them
00:00:28.000 How would you feel if you found out for example your sister has a boyfriend
00:00:32.000 And obviously before that we asked them
00:00:34.000 Do you have a girlfriend yourself and they were like nah
00:00:36.000 Or I'm looking to have one
00:00:38.000 Or I have one
00:00:39.000 So when we asked them how would you react if your sister had a boyfriend
00:00:42.000 They would be like nah I wouldn't like it
00:00:43.000 It got so bad that actually the reality part 4 got deleted off YouTube
00:00:46.000 Because some guys got exposed
00:00:48.000 And obviously we should have covered their face but they didn't tell us
00:00:50.000 Just in case you missed it here's the clip check it out
00:00:52.000 If your wife you're getting married 0.97
00:00:54.000 And your wife she's had previous relationships
00:00:57.000 She's been with different guys
00:00:59.000 Would you tolerate that?
00:01:00.000 Would you carry on the marriage
00:01:01.000 Or would you say nah I ain't gonna have that?
00:01:02.000 No clean sheet bro
00:01:03.000 I prefer clean sheet
00:01:05.000 But I gotta be real with you again yeah?
00:01:06.000 Go on
00:01:07.000 Okay if you want a virgin
00:01:08.000 Don't you think you should be a virgin yourself?
00:01:10.000 For example if it was me like
00:01:12.000 Alright you got a girlfriend yeah?
00:01:13.000 Yeah
00:01:14.000 Then how does it work when you say
00:01:15.000 Okay like my sister can't have it 0.85
00:01:16.000 I know it's right
00:01:17.000 I'm a Muslim myself yeah?
00:01:18.000 I know how it is yeah?
00:01:19.000 Isn't that a bit of double standards?
00:01:21.000 Like is it like
00:01:22.000 Can you tell us
00:01:23.000 Can you tell us where the problem arises?
00:01:24.000 That's when it becomes hard
00:01:26.000 That's when it becomes hard
00:01:27.000 That's how
00:01:28.000 I mean
00:01:29.000 If she starts asking me questions about it
00:01:31.000 Okay what if you do it?
00:01:32.000 Yeah
00:01:33.000 Then it's hard for me to explain to her
00:01:34.000 Asalaamu Alaikum
00:01:35.000 So as you know brother Imran gave a nasiya on that video 1.00
00:01:38.000 Because I interviewed him as well
00:01:39.000 And he was talking about a hadith
00:01:41.000 You know
00:01:42.000 Where Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him 0.98
00:01:43.000 Somebody comes up to him
00:01:44.000 And says make her zina permissible for me 1.00
00:01:46.000 You know
00:01:47.000 But before I go any further
00:01:48.000 Check it out
00:01:49.000 Now do you know what the scholars say about this hadith?
00:01:51.000 Yeah
00:01:52.000 They say that if a man comes to hear about this
00:01:54.000 And understand this
00:01:55.000 Right?
00:01:56.000 That if they violate someone else
00:01:58.000 His sister
00:01:59.000 Their sister may get violated
00:02:00.000 Then one of the ways that Allah punishes them
00:02:02.000 Is by making sure that happens to their sister 0.73
00:02:05.000 By making sure that happens to their daughter
00:02:07.000 By making sure that happens to their mum
00:02:09.000 Or their auntie
00:02:10.000 And so on and so forth
00:02:11.000 Now
00:02:12.000 You saw the nasiya from brother Imran ibn Mansour 0.97
00:02:13.000 Now I'm going to sum them all up
00:02:14.000 You know
00:02:15.000 You saw the interviews from the last show
00:02:16.000 You saw Imran ibn Mansour's nasiya he gives 0.98
00:02:19.000 And basically what happened now
00:02:21.000 Is what I'm going to explain
00:02:22.000 Is basically
00:02:23.000 John Fontaine
00:02:24.000 Brother John Fontaine
00:02:25.000 Who did Dawah to the game 0.99
00:02:26.000 The rapper game
00:02:27.000 Rang us up and told us
00:02:28.000 That his video is out
00:02:29.000 And I'm quite excited
00:02:30.000 And brother Dawah was quite excited about it as well
00:02:33.000 So basically I will start watching that
00:02:34.000 You know
00:02:35.000 Everything was cool
00:02:36.000 Till it came to the last bit
00:02:37.000 And now look how this all sums up
00:02:38.000 Because
00:02:39.000 On the first interview
00:02:40.000 It talks about
00:02:41.000 Men are saying 0.99
00:02:42.000 Nah I wouldn't like that to happen to my sister 0.78
00:02:43.000 You know
00:02:44.000 But even though they themselves have girlfriends
00:02:46.000 Yeah
00:02:47.000 Then Imran ibn Mansour tells us
00:02:48.000 About a hadith of Prophet Muhammad
00:02:49.000 Peace be upon him
00:02:50.000 How a man comes up and says
00:02:51.000 Make Zina permissible for me 1.00
00:02:53.000 And he says
00:02:54.000 Would you like that for your sister
00:02:55.000 Now the funny thing with this video is
00:02:56.000 Which is not really funny
00:02:57.000 It's actually really sad
00:02:58.000 Is at the end of the video
00:03:00.000 The game
00:03:01.000 Basically comes into a restaurant
00:03:02.000 After his concert
00:03:03.000 Right
00:03:04.000 And he goes in there
00:03:05.000 And basically what happens
00:03:06.000 Is really really traumatic
00:03:07.000 So basically he's in there
00:03:09.000 With his crew
00:03:10.000 And then there's a Muslim guy 1.00
00:03:11.000 A Muslim brother of ours
00:03:13.000 And a couple of sisters
00:03:14.000 Which I think one of them
00:03:15.000 Is our sister or friend
00:03:16.000 Etc
00:03:17.000 Now he goes up to the game's crew
00:03:19.000 In Hijab and Abaya 0.95
00:03:20.000 In Hijab and Abaya 0.95
00:03:21.000 In Hijab and Abaya 0.95
00:03:22.000 Right
00:03:23.000 He goes up to the game's crew
00:03:24.000 And says
00:03:25.000 Yo fam
00:03:26.000 Can I take a picture with some of your girls 0.99
00:03:27.000 You know
00:03:28.000 And they're like
00:03:29.000 They don't care
00:03:30.000 Those kind of girls 1.00
00:03:31.000 They use on a daily basis
00:03:32.000 They don't really care about that
00:03:33.000 So they said
00:03:34.000 Yeah cool fam
00:03:35.000 Do as you like
00:03:36.000 So listen to what happens now
00:03:38.000 So as he goes
00:03:39.000 And does that
00:03:40.000 Now one of the game's crew goes
00:03:41.000 Yo fam
00:03:42.000 He looks over the thing
00:03:43.000 And he's like
00:03:44.000 Who are them girls 1.00
00:03:45.000 And he's like
00:03:46.000 Oh yeah
00:03:47.000 They're just my sisters
00:03:48.000 He goes like
00:03:49.000 Why don't we swap
00:03:50.000 Yeah like it's like a piece of meat
00:03:51.000 You know
00:03:52.000 It's like some kind of product
00:03:53.000 You're swapping
00:03:54.000 He goes can we swap
00:03:55.000 And he's like
00:03:56.000 Oh no no dog man
00:03:57.000 No that's my sisters 1.00
00:03:58.000 But obviously the man's be thinking to himself
00:03:59.000 Hold on a second
00:04:00.000 You want to take pictures with our chicks
00:04:01.000 You know
00:04:02.000 Why can't we do it with yours
00:04:03.000 So anyways
00:04:04.000 Look what happens now
00:04:05.000 So the crew
00:04:06.000 One of the game's crew
00:04:07.000 Goes up to the sister
00:04:08.000 Yeah
00:04:09.000 And starts flirting with her
00:04:10.000 Yeah
00:04:11.000 You see on the video
00:04:12.000 How he looks at her
00:04:13.000 Like a piece of meat
00:04:14.000 He looks her up and down
00:04:15.000 I want you to zoom into his face right now
00:04:16.000 I want you to look at his facial expression
00:04:18.000 Look at that
00:04:19.000 It's real dirty
00:04:20.000 Yeah
00:04:21.000 These guys
00:04:22.000 I know this face
00:04:23.000 These are the kind of guys
00:04:25.000 That do some
00:04:26.000 Dirty
00:04:27.000 Nasty
00:04:28.000 Kinky
00:04:29.000 Abusive
00:04:30.000 Manipulative
00:04:31.000 Just filthy stuff to give up
00:04:32.000 God this
00:04:33.000 Man touched
00:04:34.000 Man
00:04:35.000 Man took her 1.00
00:04:36.000 Dragged her from there
00:04:37.000 And bear in mind
00:04:38.000 We're talking about a queen
00:04:39.000 A Muslim woman is a queen 0.99
00:04:40.000 She's a princess
00:04:41.000 And man took her 1.00
00:04:42.000 Broked her
00:04:43.000 Turned around
00:04:44.000 And kissed her
00:04:45.000 Wallahi
00:04:46.000 The prophet said it is better 0.96
00:04:47.000 For a man
00:04:48.000 To have a nail
00:04:49.000 Rammed through his head
00:04:51.000 Than to touch the hand of a woman 0.99
00:04:53.000 That is not halal for her 1.00
00:04:54.000 But she let him
00:04:56.000 Kiss his hand
00:04:57.000 Sorry
00:04:58.000 Yeah
00:04:59.000 If you violate someone else's sister
00:05:01.000 Same is going to happen to you
00:05:04.000 You know this is the funny thing
00:05:05.000 Last week's show
00:05:06.000 We were talking about this matter
00:05:08.000 And some of you viewers might have think
00:05:10.000 Men especially out there would have think
00:05:11.000 Nah family it won't happen
00:05:12.000 There you go
00:05:13.000 It's a clear cut reality
00:05:14.000 And I just want to point that out right
00:05:16.000 You would think
00:05:17.000 That no my sister is good
00:05:18.000 My sister is a good girl
00:05:20.000 She's not like that 0.90
00:05:21.000 I'm telling you these are sisters with hijab and abaya 0.71
00:05:24.000 Right
00:05:25.000 And I'm sure they're good girls
00:05:26.000 No no they are good girls
00:05:27.000 Because brother John Fontaine told us
00:05:28.000 That he spoke to the brother
00:05:30.000 And the sisters were distraught
00:05:32.000 We believe that
00:05:33.000 Yeah they made hope and everything
00:05:34.000 No no no we believe that Alhamdulillah
00:05:35.000 But what you need to understand is this
00:05:36.000 When you go and do such an act
00:05:38.000 And sell
00:05:39.000 Excuse my language yeah
00:05:40.000 Sell your sisters 0.98
00:05:41.000 Because that's how it seems
00:05:42.000 Right
00:05:43.000 Allah will punish you with the creation 1.00
00:05:45.000 You know
00:05:46.000 And that's what he did
00:05:47.000 Even though the sisters didn't want you
00:05:48.000 It's the heated moment
00:05:49.000 This is what the sisters said to John Fontaine
00:05:50.000 Because it was in the heat of the moment
00:05:52.000 You know he just came
00:05:53.000 And you know
00:05:54.000 Basically just grabbed my hand and kissed it
00:05:55.000 And those are sisters that would never do that in a million years 0.97
00:05:57.000 Never
00:05:58.000 You know what's interesting is
00:05:59.000 Ibn Qayyim Al Jawziya
00:06:01.000 May Allah have mercy on him
00:06:02.000 He wrote a book called
00:06:03.000 The disease and the cure
00:06:05.000 Right
00:06:06.000 And in this book he explains in the beginning
00:06:08.000 That there are laws
00:06:09.000 That Allah has
00:06:10.000 That are visible to the eye
00:06:12.000 Physical
00:06:13.000 If I drop something on the floor
00:06:14.000 Gravity will make sure it falls
00:06:15.000 If I punch you in the face
00:06:17.000 Or if a deal
00:06:19.000 Get him on camera
00:06:20.000 Get him on camera
00:06:21.000 He's a boxer
00:06:22.000 Get him on camera
00:06:23.000 If a deal punches you in the face
00:06:25.000 Yeah
00:06:26.000 Your face is going to get bruised
00:06:27.000 There are physical laws
00:06:29.000 That work in a certain way
00:06:30.000 But there are also invisible laws
00:06:31.000 The same way we know in the Quran 0.74
00:06:33.000 Allah says that Nuh
00:06:34.000 When he went to his people 0.99
00:06:35.000 He said to them
00:06:36.000 Make istighfar
00:06:37.000 And Allah will give you rizq 0.99
00:06:38.000 So when you ask for forgiveness
00:06:39.000 Allah will increase you with your rizq 1.00
00:06:41.000 Now this is a law
00:06:42.000 That is hidden
00:06:43.000 Do you see what I'm saying?
00:06:44.000 But that doesn't mean it doesn't happen
00:06:45.000 Allah says in the Quran
00:06:46.000 That the evil
00:06:47.000 Fasad, corruption
00:06:48.000 Evil has spread forth in the land
00:06:49.000 As a result of what your hands bring forth
00:06:51.000 So we know whenever you do a sin
00:06:53.000 There is going to be an immediate consequence of the sin
00:06:55.000 Exactly
00:06:56.000 That is not physically, materially linked
00:06:58.000 But it's linked in a way that is invisible, invisible
00:07:01.000 And it may be delayed
00:07:02.000 And that is the same when you violate someone else's sister
00:07:06.000 The law in that regard
00:07:08.000 That is not visible to that eye
00:07:09.000 Is that your sister will be violated
00:07:11.000 Or your daughter
00:07:12.000 Or your mum
00:07:13.000 Or your...
00:07:14.000 It happened like on the reality show which you watched
00:07:16.000 Yeah?
00:07:17.000 Men out there if you watched that
00:07:18.000 And you thought to yourself
00:07:19.000 Yeah, yeah
00:07:20.000 It happened man
00:07:21.000 Look, there you go
00:07:22.000 That's your proof
00:07:23.000 If you want to carry on doing it
00:07:24.000 You do it, it's going to happen
00:07:25.000 You know?
00:07:26.000 How was I fam?
00:07:27.000 Look, ask Imran if I'm lying
00:07:28.000 Wallahi Allah SWT is my witness 0.78
00:07:29.000 When you called me fam
00:07:30.000 Just, forget me
00:07:31.000 Just tell them what happened
00:07:32.000 Okay
00:07:33.000 Look
00:07:34.000 Personally speaking
00:07:35.000 I remember
00:07:36.000 I have
00:07:37.000 I do not remember the last time
00:07:39.000 I saw a video like this
00:07:40.000 And I had a reaction like that
00:07:41.000 So when I'm watching this video
00:07:43.000 I remember not
00:07:45.000 I was not expecting to see that
00:07:47.000 My hand was like
00:07:48.000 Rawr
00:07:49.000 And brother Dawood
00:07:50.000 Who runs the Black History Month Project 0.66
00:07:52.000 He literally almost fell off his chair
00:07:54.000 And his chair went all the way back
00:07:55.000 Suddenly I get a phone call from Ali
00:07:57.000 Switching on the phone
00:07:59.000 Brother I'm angry, I'm angry
00:08:00.000 I'm like why are you angry fam?
00:08:02.000 He's like brother I just saw this video
00:08:03.000 I'm hurt
00:08:04.000 Man, obviously
00:08:05.000 You know, I'm not saying it just like
00:08:06.000 Wallahi he's here so
00:08:07.000 Well Allah SWT is my witness 0.90
00:08:08.000 I'm not exaggerating
00:08:09.000 If I'm lying
00:08:10.000 Man said
00:08:11.000 Man said
00:08:12.000 I'm about to cry
00:08:14.000 I have to leave my house
00:08:15.000 Because I can't
00:08:16.000 Like my mum's
00:08:18.000 You know
00:08:19.000 I'm getting emotions
00:08:20.000 No no no
00:08:21.000 You might look here and be like
00:08:22.000 Cry
00:08:23.000 Over a video
00:08:24.000 You don't understand
00:08:25.000 You don't understand the connection with Islam 1.00
00:08:26.000 Islam is like my family
00:08:28.000 You know when I see
00:08:29.000 A brother in a beard
00:08:30.000 Or a sister in a hijab 0.92
00:08:31.000 Being violated
00:08:32.000 I feel like
00:08:33.000 It's seriously
00:08:34.000 It's like my own blood
00:08:35.000 It's like my own sister
00:08:36.000 And that's why
00:08:37.000 You know you might think
00:08:38.000 And say cry
00:08:39.000 A grown man crying over some video
00:08:40.000 You don't understand
00:08:41.000 Then you don't understand the connection
00:08:42.000 Between us and Islam 1.00
00:08:43.000 It really gets to us man
00:08:44.000 You know
00:08:45.000 You know
00:08:46.000 The Prophet SAW said something very interesting
00:08:48.000 Right
00:08:49.000 He said that a person who does not have Ghira
00:08:51.000 A person who basically lets his sister do whatever she does
00:08:54.000 Or lets his wife or woman do whatever she does 0.98
00:08:56.000 On the day of judgement
00:08:58.000 Allah will not even look at this person's face 1.00
00:09:01.000 Will not even look at this person's face
00:09:03.000 What is Ghira?
00:09:04.000 Ghira is protective jealousy
00:09:05.000 It's the kind of like
00:09:06.000 If this is my wife
00:09:08.000 And you come and touch my wife
00:09:10.000 Inappropriately
00:09:11.000 I have to punch you
00:09:12.000 I have to punch you
00:09:14.000 I'm not a man if I don't punch you
00:09:16.000 Exactly
00:09:17.000 I'm being
00:09:18.000 Look
00:09:19.000 Of course
00:09:20.000 Alhamdulillah
00:09:21.000 Peace
00:09:22.000 Love
00:09:23.000 Everything
00:09:24.000 Patience
00:09:25.000 And all that
00:09:26.000 But if you try to like
00:09:27.000 You try to violate my woman 0.94
00:09:28.000 You try to violate my sister
00:09:29.000 And she's not done something wrong
00:09:30.000 Me and you are having an issue
00:09:32.000 And you have to have that fan
00:09:34.000 No you have to
00:09:35.000 Otherwise
00:09:36.000 This will happen
00:09:37.000 I know there's sisters watching this video 0.96
00:09:38.000 And I know you guys are going to be like
00:09:39.000 Oh those hijabi girls 1.00
00:09:40.000 You know the non hijabi sisters 1.00
00:09:41.000 Yeah I respect that
00:09:42.000 Like looking at hijabi sisters 1.00
00:09:43.000 Oh yeah
00:09:44.000 Look these hijabi girls are all like that 1.00
00:09:45.000 Please don't do that
00:09:46.000 You know because
00:09:47.000 What it is we do these videos
00:09:48.000 People make mistakes
00:09:49.000 But don't make an excuse
00:09:50.000 Like for example
00:09:51.000 Oh see those hijabi girls are all like that 1.00
00:09:53.000 And that's why you know
00:09:54.000 I'm not going to wear the hijab 1.00
00:09:55.000 On the day of judgement my sisters
00:09:56.000 You know
00:09:57.000 Allah SWT is not going to get that excuse
00:09:58.000 You can't go and say
00:09:59.000 This person did it
00:10:00.000 You be the better person
00:10:01.000 You know
00:10:02.000 You wear the hijab 1.00
00:10:03.000 And don't do these kind of acts
00:10:04.000 You know I just wanted to clear this up
00:10:05.000 Because obviously you know
00:10:06.000 There's some
00:10:07.000 Yeah man fitness out there for everyone
00:10:08.000 Look I just want to
00:10:09.000 On a real thing yeah
00:10:10.000 Now let's be real on it
00:10:11.000 If a woman wears a hijab 0.99
00:10:13.000 She has
00:10:14.000 Like of course no one's perfect
00:10:17.000 People are going to sin
00:10:18.000 Yeah
00:10:19.000 Just because she wears hijab 0.98
00:10:20.000 Doesn't mean she's not going to sin
00:10:21.000 Doesn't mean she's not going to have fitna
00:10:22.000 But in terms of her haya 1.00
00:10:24.000 It is one level up
00:10:26.000 Of course it is
00:10:27.000 It is you can't
00:10:28.000 It's not me
00:10:29.000 If I wear a police officer
00:10:30.000 So you have to respect that
00:10:31.000 If I'm in a police officer's uniform
00:10:32.000 You run up to me and go
00:10:33.000 Please help me
00:10:34.000 I'm not looking
00:10:35.000 I'm not a police officer
00:10:36.000 You're expecting
00:10:37.000 When you look at my uniform
00:10:38.000 You're expecting something
00:10:39.000 You're like this guy
00:10:40.000 If I'm being robbed he can help me
00:10:41.000 Exactly
00:10:42.000 But that's how it is sisters
00:10:43.000 When we see a sister in a buyer
00:10:44.000 Automatically we're like
00:10:45.000 We have respect for her
00:10:46.000 We look up to her
00:10:47.000 In a way
00:10:48.000 We don't say she's perfect
00:10:49.000 She's a pious
00:10:50.000 But what we're trying to say is
00:10:51.000 She's carrying something with her
00:10:53.000 And it's the command of Allah
00:10:54.000 On the flip side
00:10:55.000 If you go and you see a chick 0.99
00:10:56.000 Who's not dressed in a buyer
00:10:57.000 You see her dressed kind of skimpy 1.00
00:10:58.000 And she can say
00:10:59.000 That she has a hijab in her heart
00:11:00.000 And an iman in her heart 0.93
00:11:01.000 Respectfully we know
00:11:02.000 That everyone has their own struggle
00:11:03.000 So they take their own steps
00:11:04.000 Towards getting higher inshallah
00:11:05.000 But that girl 1.00
00:11:06.000 If you go up to her
00:11:07.000 And you try to chirp her
00:11:08.000 Or try to touch her up
00:11:09.000 And if she says to you
00:11:10.000 No don't touch me
00:11:11.000 But it's like
00:11:12.000 You're wearing the uniform
00:11:13.000 Of a chick that wants to be touched up though 0.98
00:11:14.000 You're wearing the uniform of a chick 1.00
00:11:16.000 That basically I want to draw right now
00:11:17.000 Yeah
00:11:18.000 But we're going to touch her on the reality side
00:11:19.000 Because I'm doing it specifically on this topic
00:11:21.000 Thank you very much
00:11:22.000 And Salaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh
00:11:24.000 Peace