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00:00:00.000 hello simone i am right off learning a historical fact that blew my mind which is that historically

00:00:09.040 what we today call dating was seen as lower than prostitution wait until incredibly recently

00:00:19.100 up until the 1920s even our word date historically meant visiting a prostitute

00:00:29.520 oh i thought it was an assignation or a something else that's an assignation

00:00:36.600 like a rendezvous no it did mean that but you would never use it for a romantic rendezvous

00:00:42.460 you used it for business rendezvous and then it began to be used to mean seeing a prostitute

00:00:47.960 and then it began to become applied way later during this period where dating had this bad

00:00:54.060 reputation to seeing what was called a charity woman. So what's a charity woman? It's what today 1.00

00:01:03.900 we would call a woman. So wait, what? Okay. Okay. Just spell this out for me. I'm so 0.75

00:01:10.380 differentiated a charity woman. Okay. Okay. So a charity woman would expect a man to pay for food

00:01:18.880 or an activity okay and she would often uh court multiple men before getting married

00:01:28.960 now today this sounds like a woman so we're gonna go into what alerted me to this we're gonna go

00:01:38.300 into the wikipedia article on this and even though the reason i cite this is even something

00:01:44.920 as lefty as wikipedia was like oh yeah this was considered a super bad thing to do we're going to 0.99

00:01:49.960 go into the campaigns to arrest these women we'll go into what prostitutes were saying about these 1.00

00:01:54.320 women because they absolutely hated these women they completely disrupted the way prostitution

00:01:58.780 worked and we'll go into why this transformation happened and i think it's important to keep this

00:02:04.080 in mind when we live in a world today and people say dating markets are no longer functioning

00:02:11.040 and they act like something that has existed since the beginning of time just collapsed all

00:02:17.740 of a sudden instead of something that's existed for less than a century collapsed and what we

00:02:23.940 should do is go back to older mechanisms of dating like arranged marriage and dating markets like

00:02:31.080 the season which we are attempting to rebuild so fun stuff here let's go right into it so what

00:02:36.960 alerted me to this is the rfab dev like the only other human who works on it other than simone and

00:02:42.420 i'm bruno reached out with this concept where he wanted us to go into the history of dating

00:02:48.740 specifically the claim that dating came from prostitution or was even frowned on by prostitutes

00:02:54.640 specifically because it took business from them and it goes on the term dating did emerge from

00:03:01.040 prostitution and so did the general practice in the early 20th century charity girls were deemed

00:03:05.740 competitors who undercut the wages of prostitutes basically easy girls who weren't formal prostitutes 1.00

00:03:11.240 figured out that they could blur the lines by getting dinners or so on paid for now what's

00:03:16.600 really fascinating is the invention of dating as we understand it and think of it as like this

00:03:23.240 wholesome 1950s practice today would have in its time been seen as extremely or eerily parallel

00:03:31.840 to only fanzing today e.g getting multiple men to pay for stuff for you while being an informal

00:03:42.680 sex worker in just a new way using new technologies i guess that makes sense

00:03:49.440 yeah yeah people sort of like being angry because someone's coming in and undercutting them

00:03:55.560 professionally and they're like what i work for this and then there's a bunch of tourists who

00:03:59.880 don't actually need the money but just want a free dinner yeah and you were like okay i didn't

00:04:04.040 know i could just put nudes of myself online and people would give me money let's let's do this

00:04:08.100 oh no i hear this one theory that only fans was like predominantly paid for by dads to see their

00:04:17.860 daughter's friends but i was like that is telling on yourself buddy that but maybe i mean i've seen

00:04:27.040 the movie you still haven't seen it what's it called beauty beauty something american beauty

00:04:32.280 american beauty yeah seems depressing i don't like depressing movies it's not that depressing 0.97

00:04:39.380 if i'm going to be honest mostly because all of the characters are so pathetic and unlikable 0.96

00:04:45.100 go that you don't really feel bad for them i don't want to watch something about pathetic 0.87

00:04:49.440 i'm like i'm really struggling about the burst of the urban monoculture if you want to call it

00:04:54.500 anything why would i want to watch that and how it destroys people's lives i want to watch

00:04:59.000 attractive competent people who are good at their jobs is this so hard to do is this so difficult

00:05:04.880 but to continue here modern people don't fully realize but paying for a date isn't providing

00:05:12.180 it's confirmation that you can provide it isn't trad it's low-grade prostitution and always has

00:05:19.160 been dating is paying for companionship with sex as an unspoken bonus the old criticism that men

00:05:25.700 would expect sex if they took out a woman was fair but it ignores the truth that the reason men 0.99

00:05:31.420 expected this wasn't because they were jerks or sexist but because that is what dating was about 0.98

00:05:38.120 what's really fun is so when i dove into this and and this is one of these topics where i'm just not 0.96

00:05:42.840 going to be able to read all the primary sources i wanted to read on this because there's just so

00:05:46.920 much evidence on this but there was one academic research that cited a guy from the 1920s i think

00:05:53.880 it was like 1925 talking about how he paid like a dollar 50 for a girl and she didn't even let him

00:06:00.600 do any heavy petting and that was the expectation and he was quite upset about this

00:06:08.520 huh dollar fifty that is how it went back then but basically all of this is confirmed and it's

00:06:15.000 dramatically worse than you think exactly like yesterday when somebody reached out to you

00:06:18.760 today we treat long-term dating as a precursor to marriage but it's not the differences in the

00:06:23.520 commitment if two people act as fully committed then they're married regardless of paperwork

00:06:27.960 modern dating though is long-term persistent companionship without commitment it's harsh

00:06:33.760 but long-term low commitment dating is just prostitution always has been i'd agree with this

00:06:39.660 if you treat dating in the conventional format it's very unlikely to lead to marriage if you

00:06:45.600 look at the way that simone and i dated i sat her down first date what i say not looking to date i'm

00:06:53.240 looking to find a wife that is what you said yeah you really i guess weren't dating you were wife

00:06:58.240 hunting yeah wow okay yeah and it meant that everything was structured very differently

00:07:08.120 it did and the way you thought about every step was very different because it was

00:07:12.820 we are waiting to see if you clear being good enough to be a wife for me

00:07:18.200 but let's dig in in the social context of dating this is by the way wikipedia i am reading 0.89

00:07:28.460 lefty coded wikipedia brainwashed wikipedia here dating treating is the practice of

00:07:36.060 providing companionship and intimate activity in exchange for entertainment, outing, gifts,

00:07:41.460 and other items of monetary value. The activity was prevalent in large areas of the United States

00:07:47.240 from the 1890s to the 1940s and was commonly engaged in by young working-class women.

00:07:53.440 As treating became more widespread, the activity acquired the label charity,

00:07:57.760 and young women who engaged in the more risque aspects of the practice often became called

00:08:02.340 charity girls although some reformers in the early 20th century equated treating with prostitution

00:08:09.380 the young women who engaged in the activity strongly rejected this view and drew straight

00:08:15.020 distinctions between the two as women still do doesn't mean they are different it just means 0.84

00:08:21.260 they draw distinctions between the two in the same way for mormons but smex isn't smex because it's 1.00

00:08:28.820 in the butt but and everyone else in the world is like that still smacks as social dating between 0.96

00:08:35.960 the sexes became more standard in the 1920s treating began to blend in with the system of 0.94

00:08:41.300 datings by the 1940s no we just stopped treating is a social taboo is what happened the specific

00:08:47.460 language of treating largely disappeared this was by the 1940s so when you see those sweet

00:08:53.520 dating scenes in those 1950 leave it to beaver or whatever that had only become normalized

00:09:01.280 10 years before those scenes took place and only had begun to become thought of as something other

00:09:08.400 than prostitution 10 years before those scenes took place that's really crazy i mean because i

00:09:16.800 I don't know. I thought it was more traditional than that. Well, both because I saw all those

00:09:23.020 instructional videos on dating from the 1950s and 60s, but then also because I guess I never

00:09:30.400 really thought through the realities of the London season because in the Regency era, there was what

00:09:39.200 you could think of as a dating culture because a certain elite class of society would converge

00:09:44.080 in london and then have this series of events where everyone would be getting together but

00:09:47.340 it's actually really not it's not two people getting together for a private meeting yeah

00:09:51.260 it was families hosting balls where a bunch of people would come and be in a room together

00:09:56.840 super super highly supervised and then women of marriageable age would wait for men to come visit

00:10:03.760 them at their houses exactly with their families around in their living room with their families

00:10:10.460 around and most of the communication happened via letter yeah if anything was private it was in a

00:10:16.400 letter that's wow i just it never occurred to me that this idea of one-on-one male female romantic

00:10:25.440 meetings really didn't exist until the 50s and i guess that's because in the 50s it would seem

00:10:35.280 too creepy to do like arranged marriage but at the same time i don't know the communities had

00:10:46.640 gotten too big for just people to marry whoever was at church what do you think no no no i i think

00:10:51.900 that this is all specifically come down of the evolving urban monoculture in its earliest stages

00:10:58.240 because that's really when the urban monoculture began to evolve with this idea of but i want to 0.72

00:11:04.300 hook up with women and if i don't do this i don't get to hook up with men and as soon as a woman

00:11:10.600 began to engage in charity girl culture men outside of charity girl culture are going to 0.79

00:11:16.620 have a harder time hooking up with her or going to see her it's worthless but more and more women

00:11:21.500 realize they can hook up with men who are out of their range for periods by engaging in charity 0.97

00:11:27.680 girl culture this was the beginning of the you know 20 of men get 80 of women category so you're

00:11:36.880 arguing similar to demographic collapse and everyone's like oh it was all caused by phones

00:11:41.580 and social media and you're like look this started with the industrial revolution you're kind of

00:11:46.480 saying something similar with the lazy eight problem of of dating the broken dating markets

00:11:53.640 you're like no it began as soon as dating existed and the 1950s when women started doing this but 0.80

00:12:01.720 everyone understood it was a bad idea then oh the flapper era yeah everyone knew that flappers were

00:12:06.240 loose girls anyway but yeah then i guess it became disgusting flappers we will rebuild society simone

00:12:13.040 you and me alone with the force of sheer willpower until we build something that works to replace 0.94

00:12:19.440 this nonsense all of it all of it we will replace you that's the family motto

00:12:25.680 framed in our sunroom great i tell the kids true you probably want to get the other one

00:12:34.660 repeated blunt force frame somewhere in a live left i would really like that yes oh you're right

00:12:39.480 i'll make a note yeah thank you just send me an email and i'll i'll get it done we'll just order

00:12:44.440 from the same guy we should make merch someday okay so i mean but we have our fab our fab's 0.86

00:12:52.280 kind of like our merch yeah you can't buy the stupid live laugh love picture frame that says 0.55

00:12:57.340 we will replace you but whatever all right so let's get into the etymology and usage as determined

00:13:04.820 by wikipedia yeah treating began as a political term with the practice of providing understood

00:13:10.180 as a means to influence people and gain benefits in modern usage it's generally defined as the act

00:13:14.980 of providing food drink or entertainment to an individual or group at free of charge the words

00:13:19.660 use as a verb in a social context is believed to have originated in the male sphere of saloons

00:13:25.140 when individuals would treat each other with another round of drinks yeah my treat yeah around

00:13:29.940 the turn of the 19th century young working class women who were seeking language for their

00:13:34.640 interactions and bartering with young men adopted the word similar to the activity in a saloon the

00:13:40.160 practice of to treat evolved to mean providing of something by a man to a woman, the woman being

00:13:46.880 the recipient of a quote unquote treat. And I think one thing that we can do immediately in

00:13:52.100 terms of a cultural difference is to begin to stigmatize women expecting men to pay for dates

00:14:00.780 for them. Absolutely. Dates should always be 50-50. You always went 50-50 with me, or you

00:14:06.500 always ask to at least i often insisted on paying because i saw it as traditional gentlemen yeah

00:14:10.880 you paid for a very first dinner even yeah you you almost always insisted i think treating it

00:14:16.280 as non-traditional is really important being like no traditionally this would be thought of as you

00:14:20.400 being a prostitute and so i want to protect your dignity was in the technical puritan community 0.78

00:14:26.340 right as such i will not pay for you because that would mean that everyone would see you as a 0.99

00:14:32.160 prostitute going forward. Absolutely. Yeah. Yeah. You don't want there to be any insinuation of 0.99

00:14:36.780 impropriety. And if there is, and also I think it's, it's important to teach kids that every

00:14:42.720 exchange, there is no such thing as a free lunch. If someone is giving you something,

00:14:47.300 they want something. And it could just be, you know, the delight of seeing you grateful

00:14:52.120 for a gift or something. But if it, if it is a romantic context meal and they are paying for it,

00:14:59.300 they are expecting something and it I wish that people were more explicit with me about that when

00:15:04.040 I was younger you are such a sweet person I'm glad I'm here to protect you because you you need 0.99

00:15:11.980 somebody to protect you from the world your autismal view of reality the tism really makes 0.99

00:15:19.180 you like a little lamb wandering out in a sea of wolves not understanding look the more of us there

00:15:26.060 are, the closer we'll just get to a sustainable, wonderful society that makes sense where everyone

00:15:30.740 just says what they think. Well, you got to breed the army. Look, do you understand how much better

00:15:37.200 everything would be if people didn't, it's, it's like the, what were the, what were those people

00:15:42.120 in galaxy quest who were shocked by this concept of lying? And they like, yeah, I remember those

00:15:48.320 aliens. That's you. That is a hundred percent of them. Yes. And then they like, don't understand

00:15:54.020 it but they understand that it happens but they never see it and my name is jason nesmith i am a

00:16:01.140 actor we're all actors he doesn't understand explain as you would a child

00:16:16.820 we lied i love that our kids have your radical honesty but are still like very rough people i

00:16:23.780 I was recently watching the Kidnap the Sandy Claws song

00:16:26.900 with the little trick-or-treat kids

00:16:28.780 from Nightmare Before Christmas.

00:16:32.460 And I realized the way those three interact

00:16:34.240 is the way our kids interact.

00:16:36.200 I want to do it.

00:16:37.340 Let's draw straws.

00:16:39.820 Jack said we should work together.

00:16:41.780 Three of a kind.

00:16:42.660 Like very much teamwork,

00:16:44.440 but also constantly like ragging on each other

00:16:47.660 and being quite rough with each other.

00:16:51.100 100%.

00:16:51.540 Yeah.

00:16:51.920 and just the way titan always attacks from above she's so little but when she hits you it'll be

00:16:57.640 from above somehow all right let's let's go over the origin of this let's treating came about with

00:17:03.720 the birth of a leisure time in the late 19th century it emerged about the same time as cheap

00:17:09.560 amusements in cities gave working class men and women opportunities to enjoy new aspects of city

00:17:15.220 life away from cramped tenements and noisy oppressive workplaces for young women the issue

00:17:20.600 was how to afford the new entertainment and one solution which materialized was treating

00:17:26.040 in the late 19th century inexpensive entertainment venues such as public dance halls amusement parks

00:17:31.700 and nickelodeon movie theaters emerged and flourished in large american cities at the same

00:17:37.440 time changing social mores allowed more young women who previously had to be escorted in public

00:17:43.300 more freedom to go about or on their own in same-sex groups although cheap amusements were a

00:17:49.340 major draw, going out for young working class women still proved difficult due to their low

00:17:54.200 wages, a portion of which was more often than not handed over to support the family. The lack of 1.00

00:18:00.680 money issue was dealt with in various ways. Some women refrained from going out altogether or 1.00

00:18:06.520 limited going out to special occasions, while others depended on friends or their male counterparts 0.97

00:18:11.740 to finance the entertainment pleasures. Inevitably, as more young women regularly went out and found

00:18:17.800 it necessary to depend on males for their entertainment and fun as such the practice 0.91

00:18:21.320 of treating by young working class women emerged so this involves a few things that are worse just 0.93

00:18:27.600 helping people understand first the idea of like entertainment that you could just spend a bit of

00:18:33.660 money on and enjoy with other people really did not emerge until this period there is a perception

00:18:41.260 that it was always around and it was not always around really the first major innovation that

00:18:48.060 allowed for this was britain's penny trains so for one day a week what would happen is the trains

00:18:56.980 would run for a penny and people would use this to go from their city to the very first as they

00:19:04.900 began to develop and evolve vacation towns often beaches and stuff like that and this is where you

00:19:11.080 began to have this idea of oh i can pay a little bit like even as a working class person and do a

00:19:14.800 recreational activity then as they talked about a a nickelodeon if you're not familiar with it is

00:19:20.100 you you pay a nickel and you'd see a movie and basically meant the movie theater of this period

00:19:24.740 often preceded by newsreels so it's how you also knew what was happening in the world

00:19:28.540 yes and you had public dance halls where some of them were truly public but most of them you

00:19:33.880 paid and this was very different than like the the dance halls of the the olden days where it

00:19:40.120 would be like arranged by a family and everyone would come and you'd receive your you know oh i

00:19:44.860 got my invitation to the ball you didn't need an invitation to these balls often you just go and

00:19:51.640 dance and so many of these activities and then amusement parks as well this is where you have

00:19:57.180 like the original coney island began to be developed that's where you had the spin-up of

00:20:02.160 things like freak shows this is where you had circuses really began to roll out in mass the

00:20:08.360 idea of of of an activity right and the idea of an activity really began to develop because of

00:20:16.080 do you know simone we talked about it before the industrial revolution what no we're the rise of

00:20:23.620 wage labor for the first time oh yeah so the industrial revolution yeah the fact that like

00:20:28.080 people had these jobs and you would go to it and then i guess starting in the early 1900s you

00:20:33.160 started to get a Saturday or no, sorry, a Sunday off. And then you would get a Saturday off.

00:20:39.060 Yeah. Yeah. And you'd have money. And before that just wasn't the way it worked. Everyone's

00:20:43.120 household would be their own business and you would naturally reinvest any additional capital

00:20:46.840 into the family business. Of course. But now you had men leaving their families to go work in the

00:20:54.040 city, right? And this didn't really exist before this, as we've often said, the idea of a nuclear

00:20:57.500 family really didn't exist until like the 1920s because wage labor didn't exist until the 1920s

00:21:03.140 in mass. And women, even when they did work, which often was incredibly a limited opportunity for 1.00

00:21:11.300 them, they earned dramatically less than men. Now, why this isn't the case today, it was the

00:21:16.300 case then. So if they wanted to participate in these activities, they genuinely needed men to

00:21:21.440 pay for them or their family to pay for them. And many women coming from working class families, 0.74

00:21:26.920 asking the family was not realistic but these working class young men now had free cash which

00:21:33.320 was something they didn't have historically now if you still do this today in a society where men 0.60

00:21:39.180 earn the same amount of women which they do everybody who is watching this if you haven't

00:21:43.160 seen people debunk the pay gap myth i don't know where you've been on the internet since

00:21:47.740 the last 20 years like that there's still people i've heard sometimes say this and i'm like what

00:21:54.100 are you talking about no anyone who is progressive is gonna say especially progressive and and

00:21:59.520 females young women earn more than young men now look it doesn't matter they're going they are

00:22:04.580 still going to say it they're just brainwashed they don't care what's true they just want it's 0.95

00:22:08.780 probably going to become increasingly less of a pay gap as fewer women have children because that 1.00

00:22:14.600 was the largest driver of the pay gap because women were just choosing lower paying but more 0.99

00:22:20.840 flexible jobs as they entered parenthood but if girls just relinquish parenthood at increasingly 0.98

00:22:26.160 higher rates we are going to see an even lower like actual pay gap when you don't adjust for that

00:22:32.120 choice yeah the the practice of treating ranged from the innocent bartered exchange to more

00:22:40.900 scandalous it was seen as a harmless activity when conducted between a steady couple and more

00:22:46.200 risque when performed on a casual basis often the treating exchange was a tacit understanding

00:22:51.960 with nuanced communication however even with little communication young women were understood

00:22:57.040 that they were indebted to a certain extent to the men who treated like any interaction between

00:23:02.300 a couple whether tacit or not sometimes it went smoothly with each party pleased with the outcomes

00:23:06.280 and other times it did not occasionally because men were sometimes tricked by women who skipped

00:23:11.380 out after being provided a meal or an evening out the exchange was more direct for example

00:23:17.180 a man asking directly what he would get in return unlike prostitution and the treating exchange

00:23:24.240 there was no guarantee that the man would get what he wanted young women who wanted more from

00:23:29.320 the exchange clothes shoes jewelry or payment of bills note this even began to develop all the way 0.93

00:23:34.560 back then payment of bills did you not know that a lot of in like the black women community this 0.97

00:23:41.360 then you're a kept woman that doesn't you're not what this is common in dating culture today if 0.98

00:23:47.740 you're not dating white people i have seen latino women expect this i've seen black women expect this

00:23:52.200 in tiktoks and stuff like this like the the expectation goes like this i'll explain how

00:23:58.020 they argue it okay they say do you know how much i spend doing my hair do you know how much i spend

00:24:03.120 on my males my nails do you know how much i spend on my makeup care about that no men don't but they

00:24:10.260 believe that they're owed for it why don't they just say maybe don't do that anymore i'm sure a

00:24:18.040 lot of men do but then the women stop dating them they should because there's other men in these 1.00

00:24:25.520 minority communities who will pay for this nonsense that's you know what men need to go

00:24:30.020 on a strike they need to go on a pay strike i i will say that what makes simone shocked about this 0.66

00:24:36.420 is if you are a middle upper class or upper class white person in america at least within our

00:24:43.160 generation nobody if you're like shocked by this that i would say that like this is a weird thing

00:24:48.200 to do nobody does that if a woman asked me to pay for her bills i would and i remember once a woman

00:24:56.460 did but she called herself a sort of prostitute when she said it right like she understood that

00:25:03.660 in our culture in american white culture that's seen it's prostitution to ask a man to pay for 1.00

00:25:07.920 your bills was this in college when what when did this happen this was after college it was a girl

00:25:14.420 i met on okcupid wow okay what did you say to her was that the end of your oh yeah that's the last

00:25:23.180 time i was like i don't i don't i'm not really interested in this but i appreciate that she was

00:25:27.180 really upfront about it no the upfront yeah no i mean that's that's really clear i mean as i'm

00:25:31.180 thinking about this more in the context of the like dating videos that were presumably played in

00:25:36.700 middle schools and high schools and American institutions in the 50s the the kind of dating

00:25:42.940 that was described there was more like play dating that you know it was you know you you would be

00:25:49.400 going just out for fun typically in group settings public places with a young man from your school

00:25:58.080 but it was only considered serious if you're going study and it was fully understood that

00:26:03.600 you would not be having sex that like it was super clear this is so i guess it was kind of

00:26:09.260 understood but even in the 1950s videos i remember them telling you to like pay for the girl's lunch

00:26:14.100 or dinner yeah no that that is true yeah men were were expected to pay which is interesting

00:26:20.680 and if you go to the 1920s to continue with this how was that seen treating was predominantly

00:26:25.880 practiced by young working class women it was seldom taken up by young women of middle class

00:26:30.860 or upper class means as members of those classes generally could afford their own entertainment 0.99

00:26:34.700 right you see this was seen as a low class thing to do the very exclusively oh yeah yeah yeah because 0.99

00:26:40.540 i guess yeah if you are a wealthy woman of means it would be kind of pathetic for you to let someone

00:26:47.680 else have your family not pay for you right well yeah the activity was largely confined to large 0.74

00:26:54.060 urban areas of the united states as cities contained with entertainment venues and offers

00:26:59.480 as well as a degree of anonymity against prying family members and watchful neighbors treating

00:27:05.560 differed from gold digging and that there was mainly a dating practice utilized to enjoy the

00:27:11.200 entertainments and pleasures of city life and to acquire perhaps some desired personal items

00:27:16.480 to be sure some women took charity a step further but finding a wealthy man to marry 0.98

00:27:23.160 or becoming a mistress was generally not the goal of the treating exchange. 0.87

00:27:28.640 Now, treating this as a societal problem. 0.68

00:27:31.480 As the practice of treating by young women became more and more widely known, 0.99

00:27:35.900 it attracted the attention of reformers and vice squads who were alarmed by the activity.

00:27:40.180 I was reading in me, like military bases, 0.97

00:27:42.800 they explicitly had patrols for women who were doing this.

00:27:46.220 Really? 0.97

00:27:47.760 Yes.

00:27:48.220 It sounds kind of like the patrols that you'll see in a super orthodox Jewish community as well, 0.87

00:27:52.100 that'll kind of pull these dress codes and stuff yeah nothing less than outright prostitution

00:27:59.120 entertainment venues such as dance halls where young men and women interacted came under close 1.00

00:28:03.980 scrutiny the taxi dance halls where the young women hostesses could be danced with for a modest

00:28:10.260 price per dance usually 10 cents oh drew the particular ire of reformers and were shut down

00:28:16.080 that sounds like a host club that is that is like a proto host club what is going on to know more

00:28:20.780 about this yes we're going to the wikipedia game for a taxi dancer yeah taxi dancer i've never heard

00:28:27.880 of this before but okay so it's like you rent a taxi you're renting a dancer and that's why they

00:28:33.420 called them taxi dancers okay a taxi dancer is a dance a paid dance partner in ballroom dance

00:28:40.420 the taxi dancers work sometimes for money but not always on a dance by dance basis when taxi dancing

00:28:46.420 first appeared in taxi dance halls in the earliest 20th century in the united states

00:28:50.040 male patrons typically bought dance tickets for a small sum each when a patron presented a ticket

00:28:55.920 to a chosen dancer she danced with him for the length of the song she earned a commission on

00:29:00.700 every dance ticket she received though taxi dancing was for for the most part disappeared

00:29:05.360 in the united states it's still practiced in some other countries it's called the strip club it has 0.99

00:29:12.440 its origins in the Barbary Coast district of San Francisco, which evolved from the California gold

00:29:17.620 rush of 1849. In its heyday on the Barbary Coast was an economically thriving district inhabited

00:29:23.240 by mostly men who frequented by gold prospectors and sailors from around the world. The district

00:29:29.620 created a unique form of dance hall called the Barbary Coast Dance Hall, known as the 49ers

00:29:35.860 Dance Hall, in which Barbary Coast Dance Hall female employees danced with male patrons and

00:29:41.580 earned their living from commissions paid for the the drinks they would encourage their male

00:29:45.980 partners to buy so exactly like a host club it was about it was a host club oh my god we did it

00:29:51.760 first yes okay that's crazy it makes sense of course in in communities like i'm sure mining

00:30:00.400 communities and others if you don't want to go all full brothel something like this it's also

00:30:05.940 more affordable to pay for a dance than to pay for more than that okay so here's what it felt 0.84

00:30:11.900 like to do okay you'd go and you'd buy a collection of tickets right and in the hall the taxi dancers

00:30:17.920 were usually gathered together behind a waist-high rope or rail barricade on one side in the corner

00:30:23.040 of the room and as such were not permitted to freely mingle with the patrons because the male

00:30:27.880 patron selected his dance partner the dancers had to appeal to him for their court from their

00:30:32.580 quarantine position like cattle like cattle like a competitive situation and on slow nights which

00:30:41.460 were not uncommon the taxi dancers often cooed or coaxed to draw attention in their direction

00:30:45.900 because they got commissions oh in time it was more experienced a dancer usually developed some

00:30:51.300 sort of distinctiveness or mannerisms in their dresser personality to attract a male patron 0.72

00:30:56.320 those who did not were often not successful once selected yeah they'd be like the ditzy one or the

00:31:01.700 aggressive one yeah or the yandere one or the yeah aloof one yeah okay okay okay once selected

00:31:09.800 the taxi dancer tried to build a report with her patron so he stayed with her dance after dance

00:31:15.120 host club taxi dancers usually had a few patrons who came to the hall solely to dance with them

00:31:22.100 for long periods host club in some of the less reputable establishments the dancing at times was

00:31:27.460 particularly close the dancer used her thighs to make the partner erect and encouraged to continue

00:31:33.560 even oh well okay so they're taking it a little far that's a fascinating practice

00:31:42.960 til right that's crazy tired of dancing but wish to continue with the dance partner usually could

00:31:51.760 do so a selection in the dance hall with tables chairs was reserved for this purpose it was called

00:31:58.680 talk time although other terms were used in 1939 at the honey lane dance land in times square

00:32:07.260 the free to sit and chat was a dancer was six dollars an hour a princely sum for the time

00:32:13.440 at honeymoon although the dancer and patron were able to sit side by side a low fence-like structure

00:32:19.540 separated them due to public regulations it was not uncommon for taxi dancers to date patrons

00:32:24.340 they had met in the dance halls and this was generally acquiesced by management

00:32:29.020 hmm

00:32:31.740 i don't know about this

00:32:39.140 but that is interesting i had no idea why has no one mentioned this before this is so interesting

00:32:47.100 the sociological study oh my god so the sociological study goes over the the language

00:32:54.120 that they use like the slang that they use so here's some fun ones they had slang okay

00:32:58.800 a black and tan a colored and white cabaret buying the groceries living in a clandestine

00:33:06.860 relationship class the term used by filipinos to denote taxi dance halls fish a man whom the

00:33:14.020 girls could easily exploit personal gain fruit an easy mark hot stuff stolen goods line up the

00:33:23.020 uh immorality engaged in by men and a girl um uh make to secure a date with mark a person who is 0.79

00:33:31.200 gullible money chaser a man interested in taxi dancers or quiet girls oh sorry monkey chaser 0.53

00:33:36.400 monkey shows burlesque shows by chorus girls a nickel hopper a taxi dancer a nickel hopper

00:33:43.340 dancing for a nickel that's great a nickel hopper on the ebony this is when you dated

00:33:50.140 outside your race with taxi dancers oh

00:33:52.420 oh my goodness picking up securing after a dance engagement with a taxi dancer

00:34:00.180 a punk a not a naviate or uninitiated youth or girl usually referring to an unsophisticated taxi

00:34:08.120 dancer one who doesn't have her whole spiel yet that is that is wild i'm glad we went over that

00:34:15.920 that is so crazy i am delighted yes wonderful okay okay okay so the next best place i found

00:34:24.480 an article on this because i found like 30 different articles on this and let's go to

00:34:31.260 the shop girl this is from a new york post article on this okay we this it goes to the

00:34:38.200 the shop girl here which is sort of going to the next phase of this when while dating finally

00:34:43.060 became acceptable it wasn't exactly liberating for women if the american dream for men was to 0.84

00:34:48.800 work and become a success the equivalent for women was to get a good job and marry your rich boss

00:34:53.460 francis donovan a university of chicago trained sociologist who taught at camelot high school 0.81

00:34:58.460 on the city's south side in the 1920s interviewed senior girls about their plans after graduation 0.91

00:35:03.940 before i go further that's what you did simone you got a good job and married your boss

00:35:07.720 that's what every woman needs to do there you go i mean we started the company together but 0.94

00:35:15.000 obviously because women are naturally subservient you started in a subservient role 0.99

00:35:18.500 i'm only saying what we all know it's just the truth it's just the truth

00:35:26.400 weigler writes i would like to be a stenographer one wrote i'm going to be an executive secretary 1.00

00:35:35.520 and marry the boss another wrote the other alternative was for women to take jobs in 1.00

00:35:40.520 high-class department stores where rich men were likely to shop these women were known as

00:35:45.080 shop girls oh fascinating and i love the idea of becoming a secretary specifically to hook up with

00:35:52.220 whoever hires you right like when you are going for your job interviews you're literally thinking 0.99

00:35:58.380 do i want to have sex with this man 0.93

00:36:00.060 that is wild and also the idea of well how do i find rich man i'll go to work in an upper class 0.98

00:36:08.860 store and i think this is why there was that really hard for women to get jobs at upper class

00:36:13.200 stores for a period because women went there to hook up yeah yeah it was this competitive place 0.99

00:36:19.120 and also probably like women would basically work for free just to get the opportunity the access

00:36:23.880 and became shop girls as they were called my goodness donovan spent two summers working at 0.98

00:36:29.820 a department store to research a book and later reported she knew of several marriages and heard

00:36:34.960 of a great many more where the husband was far above the wife as measured by economic scale

00:36:40.420 magazines began running articles such as how shop girls win rich husbands as an in-house

00:36:48.180 newsletter for macy's employees in new york included a gossip column that tracked these

00:36:53.160 courtships they oh they were just that explicit about it they're like okay girls this is what

00:36:59.080 we're here for wow i mean i guess it would be in their favor because it attracted very

00:37:06.180 appealing young women to work there and they probably worked at under market wages so that's

00:37:13.560 great here's a quote from one of the this this internal magazine i love their internal company

00:37:19.940 newsletter like pr is like this makes it hr is like this makes us look great this will help

00:37:25.820 with retention so an example of what was written in it is have you noticed a gentleman wearing

00:37:31.040 spats stopping at miss holland's counter every day leaving spray of lily of the valley best of

00:37:38.400 luck-eyed adorable oh in order to attract rich men shop girls were caught by the irony of needing

00:37:48.520 to buy expensive items they sold or needing to buy the expensive items they sold in an odd way 0.96

00:37:54.160 the consumerist market marketed a form of progress in an earlier era a girl of humble origins could

00:38:00.720 not hope to look the like the wife or daughter of a millionaire weigel wrote but a job in a

00:38:06.300 department store or a laundry gave anyone opportunities to become well-versed in the

00:38:11.320 signs of wells. To that end, shop girls studied the well-to-do female customers seeking to imitate 0.99

00:38:18.560 their look, which led to the business world to pronounce this new type of consumer who sought 0.99

00:38:24.000 little but to impress. The cosmetics industry exploded in the 1920s, writes, previously only

00:38:29.700 prostitutes and actresses painted. Victorians had viewed natural outer beauty as a sign of clean

00:38:35.900 living but around 1900 and more and more women were starting to apply cosmetics by 1912 the 1.00

00:38:42.700 Baltimore Sun reported that even respectable society women are seen on our streets as 0.99

00:38:48.160 fashionable promenade with painted faces the counter society negative expectations with 0.83

00:38:53.740 painted faces the cosmetics industry invented a new term makeup oh so it was called face painting

00:38:58.960 before and then it became makeup I really want to bring back painting faces that's because it is

00:39:05.800 I mean, it just is.

00:39:08.080 Yeah, basically they tried to make it sound virtuous.

00:39:10.180 By making yourself up,

00:39:11.860 you showed that you valued your femininity, right? 0.65

00:39:14.920 Yeah.

00:39:16.820 But no, you'd be painting, especially these days.

00:39:21.000 Oh, absolutely.

00:39:22.160 Yeah.

00:39:23.400 So again, other things we should shame people for.

00:39:28.680 Wearing makeup.

00:39:30.360 It has its place.

00:39:32.280 It has its place.

00:39:33.180 Even in, we'll say sort of the remaining noble classes of modern day, like the British royal family, you're not just, for example, supposed to paint your nails any color than like ballerina pink.

00:39:49.440 So they're basically supposed to look manicured, but you can't like do any flashy nail colors, but you should probably maintain manicured nails.

00:39:58.240 but queen elizabeth ii always chose to wear very bright lipstick because it made her more

00:40:04.740 photographable and she understood that like being distinct in photos was important so

00:40:08.840 i think there's a line to be drawn but yeah it's just look it would be really tough for

00:40:18.440 young women to not do makeup now that filters make them realize what they could look like

00:40:26.220 filters are providing the new again we're going through a similar transition right now

00:40:31.960 what do you mean well it's not just that you have only fans mirroring the the invention of

00:40:38.920 dating but you have filters mirroring the invention of makeup oh the idea of photoshopping yourself

00:40:48.060 used to be seen as an incredibly trashy thing to do that's true oh my goodness right i hadn't

00:40:55.060 bad about that this was in our lifetime simone yeah photoshop disasters were an institution

00:41:00.700 now all right now we're gonna study not discuss study the it girl oh in the context of dating

00:41:10.040 two other now familiar concepts also sprung up around the time previously people sought to be

00:41:15.520 known by traits that emphasize their morality such as character and virtue the concept of

00:41:21.120 personality which places emphasis on surface traits had been regarded as negative and reference

00:41:26.720 term of personality disorders starting on the 1920 however wagle writes experts began to grant

00:41:33.340 that healthy individuals had personalities too and not ever this is wild this idea of wanting

00:41:39.180 to be known for like a unique personality this mirrors the invention of the vtuber

00:41:43.580 or even the youtube star look at us personality i'm a what am i a taxi girl a taxi dancer i'm a

00:41:56.040 taxi dancer you guys pay me to to do the taxi dance the taxi dance with your brain the tax oh god

00:42:03.160 sign up for our sub stacker patreon to get your taxi dance this weekend oh my god episodes for

00:42:09.000 i hate you i love you so much but oh my god no but yes the the weekend episodes are really fun

00:42:19.340 carry on the concept began popping up in romance literature and articles about dating

00:42:24.020 in the sense that personality was like painting in a way a woman could make herself up in order

00:42:29.980 to appeal to men so women began to develop personalities outside of their virtuousness 0.73

00:42:35.340 or wholesomeness to appeal to men and this you know eventually ended in the manic pixie dream

00:42:41.840 girl right but this is where it started in the context of dating to have a good personality

00:42:48.480 or simply have a personality meant to have charisma wagel writes this was to assert whether

00:42:53.940 you were selling handkerchiefs or selling yourself island when writing for the cosmopolitan in 1926

00:42:59.860 referred to personality simply as quote unquote it which was according to weigel a mysterious

00:43:05.240 kind of animal magnetism with it glenn wrote you win all men if you are a woman and all men

00:43:12.100 okay gotten riz is what it is yes another single syllable word glenn's article was adapted for a

00:43:23.360 movie starring clara brown as a shop girl who has it and the concept of the clown i was like it

00:43:31.800 this is not okay the concept of the it girl was born bo's its girl of course sought to marry the 1.00

00:43:40.500 boss in this case the son of the store's owner oh my fucking god women of this period were shameless 0.99

00:43:46.080 the notion has changed what do you women of that period all women sorry a walt 1.00

00:43:52.220 a walt look if men look men are also hypergamous everyone wants as good as you can get possibly

00:44:02.860 well to marry women also want as good as they can get for men well men will take anyone and 0.89

00:44:08.560 somehow for men this is like a major issue that women are this way 0.99

00:44:12.520 and some men are like i would marry anyone and i'm like well then you kind of suck 0.98

00:44:17.940 i i never heard a man say that he would marry anyone i never heard a man say that either 0.95

00:44:22.820 yeah but you know you hang out with successful men so i no i i genuinely think men especially

00:44:29.720 these days are well inoculated to the the potential hazards of proximity to women

00:44:37.260 I'll put a little clip here that will, you know, help men understand what they should

00:44:42.260 be looking for in a relationship.

00:44:45.520 Hmm?

00:44:46.640 Yeah, I'll send it to you.

00:44:47.640 You'll find it funny.

00:44:48.480 I love this tree and I love this stick and I love this mother.

00:44:51.600 No, no, no, that's not how it's done.

00:44:52.860 He's made for her.

00:44:53.940 And she's made for him. 0.98

00:44:55.260 That's the way it's always been.

00:44:57.680 And it's perfect.

00:44:58.800 And it's pure.

00:44:59.840 The way that all love grows.

00:45:01.900 Like a flower, it grows and grows.

00:45:04.080 And it's forever.

00:45:05.280 And forever.

00:45:05.860 and now we all worship our king

00:45:08.260 his name is malcolm he is the king of love it even ends with talking about their king malcolm

00:45:19.180 the king of love oh my god okay great right fantastic fantastic i don't i feel like i'm

00:45:26.840 in a simulation this has to be a simulation because there's no way that this keeps aligning

00:45:30.780 like this uncanny can be developed led sorry the notion that it can be developed led to the

00:45:39.480 origin of another phenomenon the dating advice book wagle tells of a 1915 new york times article

00:45:46.620 on a lecture by author and susan cockhorft who seized on the trend by writing books like

00:45:52.680 what to eat and win and this now remarkable title beauty and duty i like that one beauty and duty

00:46:00.060 beauty is no longer a vanity it is a it is use crockett said a waitress or a shop girl

00:46:08.260 can be fired at any time simply because someone her boss found prettier than her showed up and

00:46:13.360 asked for a position i wish we lived in that world still as dating rituals changed moral

00:46:19.200 authorities panicked at every turn after petting came into vogue in the 1920s for example 1.00

00:46:24.300 weigel cites a timed article from 1922 with the title mothers complain that modern girls vamp

00:46:31.400 their sons at petting parties those evil evil modern girls the article ends

00:46:37.260 what on earth is a petting party that sounds horrible no one would go to a petting party 0.94

00:46:45.480 that's no nobody wants that i'm looking it up simone oh you really don't need to i

00:46:55.500 i think i'm good i mean like the the greatest fear i have of going to a party is that there

00:47:05.460 may be physical contact of some sort a party that revolves around physical contact petting

00:47:12.860 actually i'm gonna go i'm going to grok for this one because i want a long answer i want to really

00:47:19.520 oh great no what what people were doing in the 1920s probably not that bad compared to what we

00:47:26.760 grew up with in silicon valley but okay hopefully it's just because they had those really fun tassels

00:47:30.960 on their flapper dresses and it was just like let's fondle the tassels so petting itself with 0.82

00:47:37.500 a flexible term and it meant prolonged kissing. Oh, that's not petting, that's kissing. It's a 0.98

00:47:43.480 kissing part. Can people word correctly? For others, it involved more intimate touching.

00:47:50.500 It was a sort of peer supervised sexual experimentation that both encouraged

00:47:55.240 experimentation and created clear limits. Yet, young people explore without the risk of

00:48:01.120 pregnancy, venereal disease, or the social consequences of going all the way. The phrase

00:48:05.900 entered popular use around the 1920s f scott's fitzgerald famously described the great current

00:48:11.140 american phenomenon of the get it petting party in his side of paradise newspapers soon treated it

00:48:18.060 as a national scandal mothers complained that modern girls were vamping with their sons at

00:48:22.700 these events and authorities sometimes sent deputies out country lanes looking to break

00:48:28.240 up couples in parked cars the automobile was central parked jalapies on remote roads became

00:48:35.200 rolling bedrooms other regional names include necking parties mushing parties fussing parties

00:48:41.460 spooning and snuggle pupping it was extremely common contemporary studies found by 1924 roughly

00:48:49.800 92 of college women had tried petting and more than 90 of young people at dance young people

00:48:55.420 at dances or in cars admitted to hugging or kissing it's not even oh this was before bucket seats

00:49:04.440 so that explains a lot this was when you had bucket seats which made it easy to do this

00:49:11.180 no no no no bucket seats are where you can't oh yeah yeah individual seats yeah this was before

00:49:18.240 you had the one long seat yeah really designed for sex yeah thinking a good old and cars were

00:49:24.660 much wider remember yeah yeah yeah yeah wow oh okay and they were real bouncy do you remember

00:49:30.500 how bouncy they were i haven't been in one of these cars except for like museums oh they'd be

00:49:37.300 bouncy they're like there there were springs involved so well for a reason for a re yeah no

00:49:44.100 i guess teens just sat in those were like i can only think of one thing when sitting in this seat

00:49:49.980 and i'm going to be borrowing the card tonight that is disgusting i do not like this dating is 0.93

00:49:57.420 bad and i disapprove of petting fussing necking puppy mushing spooning puppy spooning double 0.83

00:50:09.660 what was it snuggle puffing snuggle puff snuggle puff no you definitely disapprove of snuggle 0.50

00:50:16.900 puffing i really disapprove of snuggle puffing oh my goodness gracious a puritan woman i found 0.55

00:50:24.920 the perfect wife to found this this new cultural movement with we will recreate the london season

00:50:31.660 this is going to be awesome it really is i'm looking forward to it yeah if you're interested

00:50:37.760 in our dating network please reach out to us i would love to bring them on board another thing

00:50:44.600 that i'd note is do not mourn the collapse of dating markets they were always degenerate

00:50:48.800 we have to create something new we have to yeah that's this is a very like white-pilled episode

00:50:54.240 in the end because they were never meant to be. Dating is disgusting. It's worse than prostitution. 0.94

00:51:01.540 It really is worse than prostitution because the great thing about prostitution is you have a clear 0.92

00:51:07.540 social contract with real value being exchanged. And the problem is that dating is, it doesn't

00:51:15.100 only undermine those clear social contracts, but it intentionally introduces huge, vast swaths of

00:51:22.760 ambiguity where there isn't strong communication around the exchange that's being agreed upon for

00:51:29.480 an assignation someone could assume that dinner is going to buy them snuggle popping when the

00:51:36.000 other one thinks that it's going to just you know be paid for with a hug or a peck on the cheek 1.00

00:51:40.880 and that is a lot of women have developed the idea that they are just owed by the fact of being 1.00

00:51:48.460 women by the fact of showing up at a dinner yeah that's their gift to the man yeah them staring 0.97

00:51:54.500 blankly at their phone for the majority of the dinner but allegedly looking good beneath their 0.81

00:52:00.760 caked on contour makeup their drag queen makeup they don't even look that good well you really

00:52:07.320 don't like a makeup look so yeah there's that i love you simone

00:52:14.680 this is why you don't wake up you have the most relaxing alarm sounds like this is what people

00:52:23.260 listen to in spas when they're trying to fall asleep while getting massage and you're like

00:52:27.580 i'm gonna set yeah i think you're doing that naturally because i have stopped eating and

00:52:33.400 it's really helped me wake up early this this is a very disturbing trend i'm gonna thaw out some

00:52:38.800 so that you're gonna have to eat because then you're like i can't waste good steak good you

00:52:44.020 get on that but tonight i'm skipping are you serious it's been how many days

00:52:51.100 it's been since the miscarriage i just haven't been hungry since then

00:52:54.620 so i'll be fine i i i just will get through it and i am emotionally adjusting

00:53:05.680 i'll get i'll be fine i'll be fine

00:53:15.120 ish maybe

00:53:20.940 anyway for our fans i would really like to have you guys join the index just email us if you want

00:53:29.740 be or if you want to explore what it would have been like to go on a date during this period or

00:53:38.560 to go to one of these parties or to exist within this changing part of world history this is one

00:53:45.520 of the things that reality fabricator our fab.ai would be really good for you can use our story

00:53:51.200 generation tools even just selecting the 1920s as a date give it a concept around a story in this

00:53:57.000 use the instant story generator if you want it faster it can create an intro for you it's going

00:54:02.320 to research the internet to be period appropriate for you you want a really well researched piece

00:54:07.840 you could do the concept expander that even do the research dossier before it starts

00:54:11.820 and then you can explore something that as a kid you know if you go back 20 years ago the

00:54:18.720 technology of this just simply didn't exist but today you can live in an immersive textual story

00:54:25.100 of what this would have felt like.

00:54:27.520 And I'm really excited to be able to deliver

00:54:29.180 that technology to you guys.

00:54:30.920 And I hope you have fun with it.

00:54:32.540 And another fun news is a new version of Rhodes

00:54:35.600 is probably coming out next week.

00:54:37.660 So I'm really excited about that.

00:54:38.900 We're sorry for the short outage we had

00:54:40.360 when it accidentally fell back to OpenAI that's been fixed.

00:54:43.460 That's our based AI that can answer any question.

00:54:45.640 You know, great for discussing these types of topics.

00:54:48.540 Just really, really excited to be building out

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00:54:59.580 janitor AI or FlowGPT or any of the major web soccer AI, FM. None of them come close to what

00:55:08.520 we're able to offer you. And I'm really proud about that. And I hope that we can continue to

00:55:12.560 improve the experience for you through bug reports or anything you guys want to report,

00:55:17.320 make this really the best thing in the industry. And whenever you guys share or talk about or bring

00:55:22.040 other people over you know it really helps us so this means you know if you do like using the

00:55:26.500 product when you're in those reddits when you're in those discords and people are discussing hey

00:55:32.300 i use this for like companion chat i use this for ai storytelling you know reference us be like this

00:55:38.780 is where you guys want to be because that's you know capturing the public mind share is is where

00:55:44.560 you win this and just our advertising campaigns have not been very successful even though the

00:55:47.860 product itself has been growing a lot and the user base has a really high retention rate so

00:55:51.700 we've got to we've got to figure out and and right now all i can figure out is you guys

00:55:56.840 thank you for everyone who tried it out i really like it i use it every day i don't like playing

00:56:02.400 any sort of games so i don't use any of those things i use it for bible stock i use it for

00:56:07.060 bible study yeah i made i made a companion that is a biblical scholar who is an expert in all the

00:56:13.440 different translations and you run her on one of the the hardware so you can have her buy your bed

00:56:17.920 as you go to sleep yeah so i don't have like a device that i have to like open up and turn on i

00:56:21.720 just talk to my friend and then i use super stock and super search a lot it has a really good fact

00:56:27.300 checker and we're even now recording a podcast on his podcast recording and editing software

00:56:33.860 that has fact check built in you can replace bad words with like you can upload a thing was one of

00:56:41.880 those stupid tiktok songs that would violate by content violations remove the song and replace

00:56:46.940 it was your own song for very cheap for paying still keeping the talking that's in it which is 0.99

00:56:51.640 great because a lot of youtubers i watch are like well i have to silence this whole thing because

00:56:55.380 copyright and they don't know that rfab exists and i should probably just start dming people

00:57:00.560 and yeah anyway thank you that's actually a good idea you could use an ai to find people who have

00:57:06.120 complained about this cite their complaints and saying why don't you use rfab i will i will give

00:57:11.440 me a few more days of editing because to just improve the features a bit super smooth okay

00:57:16.640 yeah but yeah all right love you i love you too

00:57:22.560 did you move it up i started in home look look i got the rook i'm gonna kill the rook i'm just gonna

00:57:29.280 get my king i'm just gonna 0.62

00:57:31.840 work down wow

00:57:38.000 he's happy

00:57:44.960 pause i can't pause oh wait i can never mind

00:57:50.540 where are you gonna fly a little bird

00:57:58.640 I'm so cute, I'm so cute, I'm so cute.

Based Camp - September 02, 2026

Dating Is New & Was Considered Worse than Wh＊＊＊＊g

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