Based Camp - Weird Data： Same Sex Attracted Men Not Gay？

00:00:00.000 yes you can be same-sex attracted and not gay no and it's not even like a weird cope thing

00:00:07.600 it's just by the statistics it doesn't make sense to categorize everyone who's same-sex attracted

00:00:14.180 as gay because it sort of becomes arbitrary and you'll see this in the statistics for example 0.99

00:00:19.360 while the 30 percent of males and females we surveys who found the feminine form arousing 0.83

00:00:24.120 also found the site of a vagina a turnoff not a single survey participant who found the male 0.94

00:00:29.980 form arousing were simultaneously turned off by penises however 26 percent of men who found the 0.99

00:00:36.180 site of a penis arousing simultaneously found the male form aversive but if you prefer the female 0.99

00:00:43.140 form there's more than a 25 chance like more than a quarter chance you're going to find penises 0.98

00:00:49.520 arousing even if you're a male yeah which is just fascinating like what the is going on here 0.80

00:00:56.260 right like there's there's clearly like a system at play and this is why i love researching this

00:01:02.300 stuff because like sexologists because they're so stuck in this gay straight dichotomy they have

00:01:07.540 missed that there is something more interesting going on your entire life should not be oriented

00:01:13.460 around getting off as easily as possible like it is so weird that for progressives you try to like

00:01:19.560 it's not a good look it doesn't look the way you think it looks

00:01:23.300 there is more to life than what turns you on sure the path is harder but we both mean it through this

00:01:33.540 border you don't have to do a thing

00:01:37.820 this is important what could be more important than sexual arousal patterns richard

00:02:05.560 science would you like to know more hello simone this is gonna be an interesting episode

00:02:15.300 really it was inspired by conversation around a new show called my husband's not gay

00:02:23.720 around this sounds fun yes mormon same-sex attracted men or ssa men who while biologically

00:02:35.220 they're same-sex attracted prefer to live a lifestyle in which they marry a woman and have

00:02:41.780 children in a heterosexual relationship and as you can imagine progressives are losing their mind over

00:02:50.700 this where i saw this was in a a popular youtuber was talking about this called curtis connor who's got

00:02:59.040 around 5.2 million subscribers so the video he did on this has 3.5 million views so you know talk about

00:03:05.300 aspirational for us right my husband's not gay the episode starts with an introduction to jeff and tanya

00:03:11.800 who have been together for nine years and they also have a son together and this is when they hear the

00:03:16.040 term that they use to describe their lifestyle i experience ssa or same-sex attraction not gay ssa

00:03:23.840 all i notice first a beautiful man walking down the street or a beautiful woman walking down the street

00:03:28.260 i'll notice the beautiful man nine times out of ten okay someone who is attracted to men

00:03:34.580 thinks about men wants to be with men but also wants to be in a hetero relationship somebody that is

00:03:41.040 attracted to the same sex but wants to be in a heterosexual relationship not gay ssa not gay ssa 0.80

00:03:48.120 that's the new no homo but obviously you know he's progressive he made a point of whining about 1.00

00:03:52.880 trump in it and he was like these people shouldn't basically culturally be allowed to do this oh how

00:04:00.260 dare you express your sexuality however you please yeah no it's really interesting to me that progressives

00:04:07.900 are so anti-choice when it comes with individual sexuality where they're like if you have this arousal

00:04:15.980 pattern you have to it's funny that the way that he speaks about mormons is exactly the way i feel

00:04:23.800 about ultra progressives and their extreme limitations in terms of the types of sexual

00:04:28.600 choices they let people live out because being aroused by men this was not this guy's choice what

00:04:35.080 is his choice is who he chooses to marry and how he chooses to live his life yeah super sad the fact 0.99

00:04:40.780 there's only one acceptable expression of of love in a religion is pretty fucked up to be honest you're 0.97

00:04:47.600 like that's not really a religion you want to be a part of but you know what do i know only selectively 0.98

00:04:53.880 because there are some sexual arousal patterns that they still do not allow both with cause and

00:05:00.100 without oh they're they're they're coming around i'll tell you they're coming around on this map stuff

00:05:04.340 this minor attracted person stuff they're coming around yes however in the uk it's not okay to be

00:05:15.160 into like bdsm right you know you have to remove any oh yeah you're not allowed to be into some people

00:05:19.920 being hurt and yeah so even if it's clearly consensual and you created it yourself or if it's

00:05:26.660 clearly consensual and animated like cartoon like no real people illegal in the uk it has been for like

00:05:32.660 over a decade at this point this this was really scary living in the uk because i was like if i go

00:05:39.220 to court like even if it's fairly tame stuff if i go to court over pornography that's gonna really

00:05:43.860 mess up my life it it doesn't look good on one's record at all yeah right yeah but anyway the the

00:05:50.820 point here being is that it is interesting to me that the progressive option here is to say oh you're a

00:05:57.920 same-sex attractive catholic and you decide to join the priesthood which by the way right so depending on

00:06:02.500 the statistics you're looking around on 50 of catholic priests are same-sex attracted which is 0.95

00:06:06.800 just a a fucking awesome cultural solution by the way yeah you're a culture that says you are not 0.98

00:06:13.760 allowed to have same-sex relationships but if you happen to be same-sex attracted we have an 0.98

00:06:19.720 institution for you where you can basically be an ethically source eunuch so we don't need to worry 0.99

00:06:26.220 about you being part of the religious hierarchy accidentally having kids and then you showing

00:06:32.520 napotism towards those kids and we talk about this a lot more in some of our other content around this

00:06:37.800 but it seems like a good solution until you realize yeah but might that create like a weird thing

00:06:44.920 around how they relate to young people under their care and then you're like oh yes i can see why the

00:06:51.040 bible warns against allowing people to have leadership positions in the church if they are

00:06:56.140 unmarried i love it when people are like but malcolm you're removing these people's choices and i'm like

00:07:01.800 no you're removing their choices they can choose to not be a catholic priest they can choose to not be a

00:07:08.400 catholic they can choose to leave the mormon faith these things are all optional no one is holding a gun to

00:07:14.060 their head you're the one thing i disapprove of their choice to continue to stay in the mormon church

00:07:19.800 and live a mormon lifestyle if they are aroused by men i always love when i point out i'm like why 0.97

00:07:24.740 is it that some arousal patterns mandate that you live a certain lifestyle like live as a gay person

00:07:31.140 and there's other arousal patterns which seem just as biologically ingrained in people just as inborn

00:07:37.100 when you look at the data where you would say you should never engage with that no matter whatever

00:07:41.400 and they'll say okay okay okay it becomes mandated that you live that your life that way if it doesn't

00:07:47.780 cause any negative social externalities and it doesn't hurt anyone and i'm like uh-huh really 0.88

00:07:53.060 interesting so then you must have been super homophobic and anti-gay during the aids epidemic 0.92

00:07:58.420 right because there was a reason why a lot of religions banned this you know like it it led to an

00:08:03.480 extreme spread of disease that has killed an estimated 42.3 million people since its beginning

00:08:09.800 and in its early days spread faster and further because gay sex was beginning to become socially 0.98

00:08:17.480 normalized now it doesn't only spread through gay sex but you're basically lying if you're saying 0.94

00:08:22.920 that gay sex didn't contribute to the spread and the scope of the aids epidemic as we can see by its 0.85

00:08:29.080 decimation of the gay community now obviously the technology is different and you can have a different 0.99

00:08:34.200 stance on it but i'm asking during the aids epidemic if that's the stance you're holding

00:08:37.620 and you're like no no no no see there's a special carve out for it during the aids epidemic and it's

00:08:42.240 like why because you have elevated this one form of arousal as holding some form of like additional

00:08:49.400 religious significance that you're not allowed to question but before we go further here what we're

00:08:54.980 going to go into is i would actually argue from the sexuality statistics is yes you can be same

00:09:02.100 sex attracted and not gay no and it's not even like a weird cope thing it's just by the statistics it

00:09:10.040 doesn't make sense to categorize everyone who's same-sex attracted as gay because it sort of becomes

00:09:17.120 arbitrary and you'll see this at the statistics i mean it sound insane when i'm saying it and i should

00:09:21.340 note i'm saying this is a person who isn't even a little bit same-sex attracted i remember i had a lot

00:09:26.580 of gay friends growing up and i had a long conversation with a roommate who later came out

00:09:32.860 as gay and he didn't understand why i would only watch well funnily gay porn i.e lesbian porn and i was 0.68

00:09:41.160 like i just like cannot get aroused if there is a male anywhere near a pornographic scene that i'm 0.86

00:09:49.000 looking at and that makes sense from an evolutionary perspective it does it does i i would imagine

00:09:55.020 intuitively to me it seems like if you're what what was the word that was seen as various

00:09:59.060 uh offensive super straight if you're like if you were yeah if you were turned off by the sight of a 0.99

00:10:05.940 penis you're not going to want to see dicks in your porn actually interesting simone some of the guys 0.99

00:10:13.400 who fall into this category and you'll see this in the statistics we're about to go over are not 1.00

00:10:18.040 disgusted by the sight of a penis they're disgusted by the sight of a male form this is why 0.99

00:10:23.120 fuda porn is so common in the hentai category okay wait wait so the the i'm definitely straight men 0.99

00:10:29.860 are attracted to penises but not attracted to the male form well they're not necessarily disgusted by 0.99

00:10:35.820 penises so they are okay with two women having sex if one of those women this is what fuda porn is for 1.00

00:10:43.600 people who aren't aware has a penis because it allows them to even by removing males from their 1.00

00:10:50.080 porn in this entirely fantasy context see piv penis and vagina sex with porn but have no man 1.00

00:10:58.180 in that scene and actually when we did the survey on this and we asked men who were predominantly into 0.99

00:11:06.980 food of porn if they saw these as trans women they do not most men at least in terms of their arousal 0.53

00:11:15.180 patterns i'll see a trans woman as a man even if they otherwise present very femininely which is i 0.84

00:11:23.280 think really interesting but that is fascinating and i should clarify here that this is not what i am

00:11:28.200 into i will let it slip near the end of this discussion if you end up watching the whole video

00:11:33.000 what i am into though but it is really important to be asking these questions why are certain things

00:11:40.240 being seen in pornography for example why is food a pornography common and you can say well why is it

00:11:45.860 useful to understand something like this about human arousal patterns here's why because as soon as you

00:11:52.300 understand this you can understand that many of the men who become convinced they're trans may actually

00:11:58.580 just have a disgust reaction to other men and so when they're looking at pornography or something like 0.88

00:12:06.040 that they have this disgust reaction whenever they see men or when they look at a penis they might have a 0.98

00:12:11.440 disgust reaction to a penis and they look at their male form in a mirror and they go oh this is disgusting 0.95

00:12:17.540 because evolution didn't have us evolve around mirrors it never needed to not code to our own bodies to find 0.98

00:12:26.360 our own bodies as gross looking and they say oh i must not like being a man when in reality it's no for

00:12:34.500 evolutionary reasons you didn't want to be sexually engaging in an environment where other men were 0.50

00:12:42.120 present and if you are for example a young autistic person whose brain isn't fully developed you realize

00:12:49.300 oh i am super disgusted by the sight of men even even when that man is myself therefore in this ultra

00:12:56.620 categorizer mindset i must actually be a woman when that's not what's happening at all it's just a normal

00:13:01.400 part of male sexuality and so because i took the time to dive into the world of pornography and look

00:13:06.720 at what types of pornography are common and think about why these types of pornography might be common

00:13:10.540 i now have additional information on sexuality so that when i am teaching my kids about their sexuality

00:13:17.460 and what they might expect from it i can inform them about this potential pitfall and perhaps prevent

00:13:25.260 one of them who might otherwise have been convinced to transition that no this is just a normal part of male sexuality

00:13:31.780 this is also why it's really important that we as i've said in other videos don't go around telling young girls

00:13:36.980 that it's super weird for a girl to be in to scenarios where they are hurt or subjugated by a male

00:13:46.040 because it turns out that most girls are into that and so if you teach your daughters that because you didn't take time 1.00

00:13:53.080 to actually look into human sexuality then they're going to grow up thinking they're a sexual deviant

00:13:57.960 which makes it much easier for them to engage in other or additional forms of sexual deviancy

00:14:04.060 because they're like well the cat's already out of the bag on that one so it matters to engage with

00:14:08.520 this information let's do it all right so and i'm just going to be quoting from the pragmatist

00:14:13.100 guide to sexuality one of the books we wrote and which we did big series of surveys for i need to break this

00:14:18.860 down here so what we are arguing in this particular subsection is that the arousal pattern does not

00:14:25.940 seem cued to males and females it seems more cued to primary and secondary sex characteristics

00:14:32.700 so if you're not sure what primary and secondary sex characteristics are primary sex characteristics 0.98

00:14:38.460 are the sex characteristics which are used directly in reproduction so this would be a penis 0.87

00:14:44.860 or a vagina secondary sex characteristics are things cued to things other than direct reproduction

00:14:52.100 so this would be um what are the words i'm looking for here like a masculine or feminine form

00:14:59.120 a masculine or feminine voice masculine or like feet hands vocal tone all sorts of of general clues or themes 0.60

00:15:11.000 it's almost like if if if a penis or a vagina they're the language the secondary sexual characteristics are the accent

00:15:22.060 the lilt the tonality the music of the of the language yes the point here being is that it turns out that it's 0.80

00:15:30.040 actually fairly frequent that an individual will find one particular gender's secondary sex characteristics

00:15:39.420 arousing or repulsive and be a have an inverse arousal or repulsion to the primary sex characteristics

00:15:48.400 in other words it's like each person gets several rolls of the dice and most people's understanding of

00:15:54.460 sexuality is you get one roll of the dice you're into men or you're into women or you're into both like

00:16:00.540 the dice like it's like hang it's like you know it fell on a corner and it won't fall one way or the other

00:16:05.800 what what really is happening is you're getting several rolls of the dice you get to roll on 0.98

00:16:10.540 vaginas you get to roll on penises you get to roll on butts you get to roll on feet you get to roll 1.00

00:16:14.800 on shapes you get to roll on hits and like you're getting all these things well no no what i'm 0.92

00:16:18.720 arguing is you're not getting several rolls of the dice is you're getting two rolls of the dice

00:16:22.840 it's what gender primary sex characteristics do you want like what gender secondary sex characteristics

00:16:29.340 do you like so it's just so we're every all day so basically all primary and all secondary were

00:16:34.880 correlated in the research generally correlated and bundled together i thought they were unbundled

00:16:39.440 but no they're not since we've done this okay okay primary and secondary sex characteristics

00:16:44.100 are heavily bundled in our data which is oh i'm thinking about just random arousal things you

00:16:50.000 know yeah that's not what this is this is yeah you know i'm thinking about like pain shaming

00:16:56.720 dominance those are not unbundled by the way those appear in bundled packages as well but we'll get

00:17:04.200 into that in a separate video okay before we go further we have to note here about our sexual

00:17:10.020 theory that we lay out in the practice guide to sexuality i won't go that far into it but we

00:17:14.440 argue that sexuality is not a spectrum from disinterest to arousal it is a spectrum from

00:17:22.140 arousal to disgust with disinterest in the middle and that the arous the disgust feeling is literally

00:17:29.960 operating off of the arousal system with a negative modifier attached to it or vice versa the two

00:17:35.780 emotions are exact inverts of each other when you are aroused you look at something longer you typically

00:17:41.660 breathe inwards your pupils typically dilate when you are disgusted by something you typically look

00:17:46.840 away from it you typically hold your nose or attempt to not breathe and your pupils contract

00:17:52.320 you try to get away from it if you're disgusted you try to interact with it more of your arouse

00:17:56.540 it is the same system and the data supports this in that when the system breaks you are much more

00:18:04.500 likely to be aroused by something that most people find disgusting or disgusted by something that most

00:18:09.360 people find arousing than random like you for example people don't find fire disgusting or arousing but

00:18:14.560 many people have a strong emotional reaction to fire or heights uh fetishes around fire or heights are

00:18:20.380 incredibly rare it's not any strong naturally pre-evolved emotion but arousal to creepy crawlers

00:18:26.540 like having insects poured on your face that's actually a pretty common fetish arousal to the feces

00:18:31.900 urine stuff like that actually pretty common so things that cause natural disgust are actually pretty

00:18:37.820 common to create fetishes because you're basically getting the multiply by negative mixed up or multiply

00:18:44.460 by positive mixed up at some point in the developmental process or genetic process all right so to what

00:18:50.480 we're saying here our study yielded some supporting evidence for this it seems to be very common for

00:18:56.480 an individual to find female primary sex characteristics aversive but female secondary

00:19:01.000 sex characteristics arousing i.e. to find the feminine form arousing but a vagina gross our survey study 0.99

00:19:07.040 showed that 30 percent of males and 32 percent of females who find the female form arousing find 0.99

00:19:12.460 vaginas aversive that is astronomically high that's much bigger than the reported gay population which 1.00

00:19:19.740 i think shows that this is just a better description of what's going on than gay or straight our research

00:19:25.040 also suggests that in the average person the secondary sex characteristic detecting system

00:19:30.400 has a much higher average quote-unquote volume than the system detecting primary sex characteristics

00:19:35.900 for example the average guy will derive more arousal from the feminine form

00:19:40.480 than they will from the vagina from our survey 89 percent of men rate the female form at the highest level of

00:19:48.760 arousal generation while only 71 percent rate the vagina the same way we find it amusingly ironic that the 0.98

00:19:55.720 organs used explicitly for reproduction are less cause less arousal than secondary sex characteristics

00:20:03.480 we developed these two theories before running our survey while there are ways we can twist our data to

00:20:11.160 fit them as we did above we must be honest and admit that our data really suggests that something a little

00:20:16.520 more complicated is going on so i was wrong when i told simone earlier that they are totally bundled they

00:20:22.920 are loosely bundled in very weird ways which we'll get into in a second for example while the 30 percent of

00:20:29.000 males and females we surveyed who found the feminine form arousing also found the site of a vagina a 0.97

00:20:34.360 turnoff not a single survey participant who found the male form arousing were simultaneously turned 0.99

00:20:40.360 off by penises not a single participant who found the male form arousing were turned off by penises 0.99

00:20:48.360 however 26 percent of men who found the site of a penis arousing simultaneously found the male form aversive 0.99

00:20:56.120 so there's something weird going on with penises and vaginas specifically if you find the male form 0.98

00:21:06.680 arousing you are always going to find penises arousing but if you prefer the female form there's more 0.99

00:21:14.360 than a 25 percent chance like more than a quarter chance you're going to find penises arousing even if you're 0.99

00:21:20.680 a male yeah which is just fascinating like what the is going on here right like there's there's clearly 0.84

00:21:28.200 like a system at play and this is why i love researching this stuff because like sexologists

00:21:33.880 because they're so stuck in this gay straight dichotomy they have missed that there is something

00:21:38.600 more interesting going on yeah i it is so curious and i i'm so glad that ayla for example is looking more

00:21:46.600 into this you know there are actually people out there really diving deep with great great sample

00:21:53.720 sizes too and before i go further this also i think shows how narrow and religious the dichotomy of gay

00:22:02.280 straight is as an identification and it's really an identity identification no different from a religious 0.73

00:22:07.960 identity identification and i have no trouble with these mormon men who are like yeah i'm same

00:22:13.160 sex attractive but i choose not to live that lifestyle why is that such a problem that these

00:22:17.560 people are doing that like it's genuinely harder in a number of ways if you want to have a lot of kids

00:22:24.600 they're like oh you can have a lot of kids you're in a same-sex relationship not and really it's

00:22:29.960 extremely expensive well if you're a woman in a same-sex relationship you get double power 0.52

00:22:36.280 you've got extra if you're a man it's extremely extremely it is it is yeah yeah yeah yeah we we

00:22:46.120 one of our kids godparents are two gay men and they've been trying to find a surrogate to work with

00:22:51.880 them for half a decade at this point or something yeah getting the right circuit match getting egg donors

00:22:59.880 creating embryos this is a an often heartbreaking incredibly frustrating and very expensive process

00:23:07.000 and it's tough and i can totally see why someone who is

00:23:11.480 prenatalist and broadly same-sex attracted but i think there's also this issue of

00:23:19.080 it's it's weird that we would question people's chosen relationship formation when there are such

00:23:26.680 things as political lesbians for example like they're not questioned the same way 0.68

00:23:31.960 yeah you're right so for people who don't know what a political lesbian is this was a phenomenon 1.00

00:23:35.880 that was common especially on tumblr and within progressive circles where women would say i just

00:23:39.560 hate men so much i will force myself to be lesbian which is actually pretty easy for women if you look

00:23:43.880 at the data because women's predominant arousal patterns are not tied to the gender of the partner 0.93

00:23:49.320 they are tied to dominance and submission but continue yeah so the that they're not controversial

00:23:56.600 but it is seen as incredibly taboo or hypocritical for a same-sex attracted man to marry a woman like

00:24:05.240 that seems weird you know there there are many many many even more logical reasons for a same-sex

00:24:11.080 attracted man to do that not just religion but also yeah i want to have kids or it's just you know

00:24:15.880 it well progressives treat this as like a sacred thing it's a sacred caste system for them that's what i

00:24:21.960 think is going on here right like the urban monoculture sees gays that identify and take on a gay lifestyle 0.92

00:24:28.680 as a deserving upper class and they just cannot understand why anyone wouldn't want this designation

00:24:35.160 because it made their actual goals in life not arousal easier right and they can be like why

00:24:41.160 don't they just adopt well as one person said on our survey our studies when they learned that of

00:24:47.320 adoptees because we mentioned this and you have a face that's become like a meme in the community

00:24:52.920 one percent of adoptees whose biological parents had three or more offenses were responsible for

00:24:59.480 30 percent of convictions among adoptees the one percent of adoptees whose parents had three or

00:25:06.680 more convictions were responsible for 30 of the offenses among adoptees you were like oh when you heard

00:25:13.960 this which is the the the genetics that are correlated with the type of person who you might

00:25:22.040 adopt are going to play out in in their childhood and in their adulthood and it could make it it could

00:25:29.000 provide a good reason why somebody might be like i really want to have genetically my own kids i really

00:25:33.480 want to choose who their parents are yeah and i get that and i think that you denying someone the right

00:25:39.480 to do that when you as a heterosexual male for example that's just natural for you to be able

00:25:45.080 to do that for free and you're like oh well they should just stomach that it's like why should they

00:25:52.920 have to stomach that roll of the dice right like they should be able to have kids the way that they 1.00

00:25:57.560 want to have kids yeah well that we seem to in our society force some forms of sexual attraction like

00:26:06.520 some forms of sexual attraction mean ah okay this means that you now have this identity and you're

00:26:12.360 part of this community and you need to you need to adopt these accents and have these idols and that

00:26:18.680 is going to be your life now um whereas there are other ones where it's like oh that's your arousal

00:26:23.400 pattern okay well never tell anyone suppress it this is evil you are evil for holding this whatever you do

00:26:30.840 do do not tell anyone about this don't do it don't think about it like suppress it you know turn it

00:26:37.960 this is why in our culture we've actually taken a pretty and i think we'll get to more stats in a

00:26:42.920 second but i think the solution for prenatalism the correct solution to get through this particular

00:26:49.400 crucible is to completely disintermediate arousal and childbearing and relationship structure that's the

00:26:57.400 thing that's the other thing i wanted to bring up is that the idea that we are building marriages

00:27:03.240 lifelong partnerships that are really much more about aligned values and and complementary skill sets

00:27:12.120 on sexual attraction and not the 99.9 of the other things that you need to make your lifelong

00:27:20.600 partnership work is so insane to me and it's not it's not just insane it's gross well it is both yeah

00:27:28.600 it's gross and and and and very illogical and but it also removes the urban monoculture's biggest hook

00:27:37.160 if if you can tell your kids i don't care what porn you're into what fan fictions you're into what shipping 0.88

00:27:45.480 you're into

00:28:01.720 i know that they are siblings but i think there's something more

00:28:05.480 if she were dating that guy they'd be banging i'm sure a princess can't really be that bad 1.00

00:28:11.080 you're on the cannon ground i'm up in crack ship space let's start a shipping war don't care if i 1.00

00:28:19.160 get hate don't like my bearings well then you can hit the bricks this is my otp i'll go down with this

00:28:27.640 all i care about is the way that you choose to live your life when you destigmatize arousal patterns

00:28:35.800 and you say your arousal patterns are accepted whatever they are so long as you do not act on

00:28:44.280 them and you can live a virtuous life despite whatever arousal patterns you have i think that

00:28:50.440 that removes one of the major hooks the left can use to get into your kids yeah and pull them out of 0.83

00:28:55.800 society yeah and if you want to and you watch our video on masturbation where we talk more about 0.88

00:29:00.280 this if you want to remove anything that's anti-biblical in this you can just say okay well then 0.92

00:29:05.000 only porn that is drawn like hentai or something like that or ai generated because then you're not

00:29:10.200 looking at a woman other than your wife was lost and by the way there is nothing in the bible about 0.96

00:29:14.760 women not masturbating um there is nothing in the bible about hentai i checked you have nothing 0.76

00:29:22.120 in the bible hentai not there so you know 0.89

00:29:27.880 by the way the the people use the story of onan to try to argue that god is against masturbation is like

00:29:34.840 psychotic and disgusting if you are not familiar with this story there is a law in jewish tradition 0.95

00:29:41.240 that you are supposed to if somebody dies their closest genetic relative their sibling is supposed 0.81

00:29:47.960 to sleep with their wife to get them pregnant so that that family's line can continue which is actually 0.83

00:29:54.360 really important to that woman because a single woman without any kids in this society was quite 1.00

00:29:58.520 difficult and so this guy was commanded to sleep with his dead brother's wife to give that guy a

00:30:04.120 continuing legacy but rather than raising a kid he would sleep with the wife it appears he would 0.99

00:30:10.120 actually have sex with her use her as a oni hole but then come outside of her to ensure she didn't get 1.00

00:30:16.680 pregnant this had nothing to do with masturbation it had to do with somebody psychotically using his 1.00

00:30:24.120 brother's wife as an oni hole and not getting her pregnant and not allowing his brother to have the 1.00

00:30:30.520 legacy that he was legally and religiously bound to do well i would note and as you pointed out the

00:30:37.000 period where the type of porn that the bible warns against is actually fairly a short period where you

00:30:42.520 could have been looking at a picture of a real woman and not a drawn or ai generated woman you're

00:30:47.560 looking at a period of maybe like 80 years where that maybe not even widely available maybe 30 years

00:30:53.960 in all of human history which is pretty wild there and again if you want to see our video

00:30:58.600 on the bible and masturbation you can watch it if you've been told that the bible says masturbation

00:31:02.520 is bad that's like a lie like it's a big lie if you actually the bible even talks about like

00:31:08.360 emissions and categorizes them and the emissions associated with masturbation are considered the

00:31:13.480 same type of negative as having a period wait how many categories of emissions are there there

00:31:18.120 must be the overnight ones that i know there's there's diseased emissions which create a longer

00:31:24.840 actually the bible interestingly categorizes pent-up emissions so like people who haven't

00:31:30.680 masturbated in a long time it's having a uniquely like bad type of emission that requires additional

00:31:37.240 ablutions yeah volutions and cleansing and stuff like that this is the old testament stuff that may not

00:31:42.680 be more mighty okay wow but basically people made up a bunch of rules about sexuality and then claim

00:31:49.000 they were in the bible when they're not in the bible okay okay anyway continuum what's more are 0.92

00:31:54.040 assumptions and and again people can say well doesn't the bible say all this stuff around gay sex no 0.98

00:32:01.080 it says stuff around you participating in gay sex you shall not sleep with a man as you would a woman 1.00

00:32:07.800 it doesn't say you can't check off to gay porn specifically here i'm referring to gay porn that is 0.99

00:32:13.560 drawn or ai generated and doesn't use real people it says that you shouldn't sleep with a man as you would 1.00

00:32:19.320 a woman that's two totally different things if one of my kids was like oh i want to jack off to gay 1.00

00:32:26.600 porn i'm like well great the bible says nothing about that just don't marry a guy 0.99

00:32:31.080 now this is what i would recommend would i be okay if they really wanted to marry a guy i mean 0.97

00:32:35.560 it depends on the technology we have in that period et cetera et cetera et cetera but i think that the

00:32:39.720 number one thing is is is having kids passing their culture on to the next generation i don't think it's

00:32:44.120 it's not going to be a problem to marry dude i'm i'm super okay with guys marrying guys especially like

00:32:49.560 if they find some some way to have a lot of kids it's more and honestly we're artificial moon

00:32:57.880 technology is coming along i think it's going to be okay for our any of our sons who

00:33:03.320 are thusly inclined but i'm just saying hold on we got to go on with the statistics we're getting

00:33:09.560 to what were you going to say well there there are worlds and scenarios in which it would make more

00:33:16.120 sense even for two straight men to couple up and raise a family together than it is to for straight men

00:33:21.880 to pair off with women like there i could even see society getting so toxic and so fractured whereby 1.00

00:33:29.800 straight men just have to swear off women entirely because they've gone completely off the deep end 0.79

00:33:34.200 on average you know like there's just there is a world in which it makes sense to have a dual income

00:33:40.440 male family it's just i don't know there i feel like there also have been a lot of gay power couples

00:33:45.480 you know who just they're both economically and and um career-wise very successful i just i'm just

00:33:52.040 arguing that there is probably a world not a world far from our timeline in which it would be

00:34:00.360 from a fertility standpoint advantageous for two straight men to enter a lifelong partnership to raise

00:34:07.720 children successfully okay well and and you know you mentioned that but like even think about the

00:34:12.360 mig top community this is what i mean about disintermediating sexuality from child rearing

00:34:16.600 you could have two like ultra chad alphas deciding to live together and raise kids together but 0.98

00:34:22.280 fucking you're describing you're describing and you're taking his brother right i i basically am there but 0.99

00:34:27.640 the point that i'm making is this doesn't have to be like gay it could actually be the opposite of 0.99

00:34:33.080 gay if you're doing this and you're taking this brother i mean you should sleep around a ton while you are 0.99

00:34:38.680 raising kids with someone who you respect who you know isn't gonna the point being is there are 0.86

00:34:42.920 alternate ways of structuring things that are they can work they're not what we've chosen but that

00:34:49.480 isn't to say that they can't work so anyway to keep going here what's more our assumption that secondary

00:34:55.160 sex characteristics are all operating on the same sex system may be wrong as 15 of women who reported

00:35:02.280 to find the female form arousing in our surveys also reported to see breasts as an active turnoff

00:35:08.360 and yet we don't see this happening in males it would seem that humans may have dozens of independent

00:35:13.800 arousal systems which may or may not cloister to what you were saying here weirder still some of the

00:35:18.520 arousal systems seem to cloister in only one gender for example in men arousal from the female

00:35:23.960 form and breasts are tied together but in women it is common to assume arousal from one and not the other 0.92

00:35:29.960 and keep in mind how high these numbers are that 15 of women huge like way more than the gay 1.00

00:35:36.520 population find the female form arousing but breasts actively disarousing that's interesting yeah 0.99

00:35:44.920 okay now we're gonna go into like the later section where we go like deep into the data on this okay 0.90

00:35:52.280 but first let's get the conventional interpretation of this out of the way typically quote-unquote gay is a

00:35:57.960 method of self-identification for individuals who are more aroused by stimuli they associate with

00:36:02.200 individuals who identify as the same gender as themselves in 2017 4.5 of americans identified as

00:36:09.560 gay this 4.5 number was reported by a gallup poll and we understand it is much lower than most people

00:36:17.160 think as the same poll show americans think the gay identifying population is 10 to 23 percent for

00:36:24.840 information on this phenomenon see the paper not threat but threatening potential causes and

00:36:29.800 consequences of gay innumeracy which found overestimation of the size of the gay population

00:36:35.400 to be common among groups that see them as a threat a more updated breakdown indicate oh sure it's also

00:36:41.480 i'm sure a comment among multiple progressives and gay people a more updated breakdown uh of this

00:36:47.160 phenomenon shows it isn't subsiding the gallup article titled america is still greatly overestimate the

00:36:53.800 us gay population shows this in our survey only three percent of the participants identified as gay

00:37:00.440 and 8.75 identified as bisexual our number is a bit low because we removed trans and gender fluid

00:37:07.400 participants from the data set which identified predominantly as gay or bisexual which our surveys

00:37:12.520 trans and gender fluid participants added back in we get around the right number identifying as gay so

00:37:18.840 now for the crazy stuff before we go into the individual like scatter plots which i find really 0.91

00:37:23.480 interesting on this 10 of males find the naked male form aversive but penises to be arousing of the 0.86

00:37:29.640 men so way more than the gay population but literally like 3x the gay population of men who find the naked 0.97

00:37:36.520 female form arousing a whopping 30 find the site of a vagina to be actively aversive than which just nobody 1.00

00:37:43.800 likes vaginas that's basically what you see we are all including women which i really relate to 0.96

00:37:49.320 i i was i was encouraged as a teenage girl you know you're gonna learn about puberty to like 0.98

00:37:56.600 hold a mirror down there i've never seen down there not once in my life because i don't want to

00:38:02.440 i feel like it's it's like staring into the maw of that that monster in star wars

00:38:06.520 well i do not like i don't like it yes i that's like that's what i'm afraid i'm gonna see if i look

00:38:15.000 down there i do not like it just so disgusting to me so disgusting so i really get that and i think 0.98

00:38:21.480 that's the that i think it's another one of those things of like just generally people like penises 0.98

00:38:27.080 generally vaginas are like you know okay so to continue going yeah only one percent of males who 1.00

00:38:34.520 find the female form arousing simultaneously find breasts to be a turnoff but 15 of females who find 0.92

00:38:41.400 the female form arousing find breasts to be a turnoff in general we find female attraction to 1.00

00:38:47.160 the male form correlate strongly to attraction to penises while 16.5 percent of women who took 0.99

00:38:52.680 our survey identified as gay or bisexual a larger 30 of women who took our survey found both vaginas 0.99

00:38:58.920 and the naked female form arousing though so or women are gay or bisexual but 30 find women hot in 0.97

00:39:07.240 every way though oddly only 18 of women found both breasts and vaginas to be arousing isn't that 0.99

00:39:15.560 interesting yeah it's like wild oh sorry it was either breasts or vaginas okay so this this seems to be the 1.00

00:39:23.880 the way that interesting so it appears that many women who find the female form and breasts arousing 0.98

00:39:31.960 don't identify themselves as bisexual because they find vaginas repulsive and they assume that these

00:39:38.200 things are correlated when they're not yeah because we've been completely led in this entire field of

00:39:44.680 research for our entire lives it's like wild that like sexuality researchers haven't picked up on this i feel

00:39:51.720 like the the entire field of sexuality research is such like retarded children at this point part of 0.98

00:39:56.520 it though i feel like there's so much inertia not just because of how academia works but because in

00:40:02.760 our society so much of someone's identity now is tied to one's chosen or yeah sexuality yeah because

00:40:11.720 if we were to begin pulling that down and and as this show is that you describe right this show comes

00:40:17.080 out and people are like what do you mean and that's because it's it's pulling at this very scary

00:40:24.600 fundamental reality shifting concept yeah all right though only six percent of men who took our survey 0.86

00:40:31.720 identified as gay or bisexual 11.4 of the men who took our survey find both the male form and penises arousing

00:40:39.640 so so the are totally straight thing this is another thing to note when we're talking about

00:40:48.440 this population as a genuinely discriminated population in our country i.e men who find the male form and

00:40:55.240 females arousing they are likely as big a population as the percent of men and identify as straight they are

00:41:03.160 likely as likely as big a population as the people in our country who identify as lgbt that is absolutely 0.80

00:41:12.280 wild so what is this the the the dark matter of of gay men the the hidden are totally straight watchers 0.90

00:41:21.400 for people who don't know are totally straight it was a subreddit for men who identified as straight but 0.93

00:41:25.720 like to masturbate to males and i'm like i'm okay with that you want to identify as straight straight 0.78

00:41:32.760 as about how you choose to live you know do what you want well you know what's really what's really 0.99

00:41:37.640 interesting too is that no one bats an eye when a lot of women online start adopting like so drag culture 1.00

00:41:47.400 is is a big trickle down culture generator right no one bats an eye when people want to be culturally

00:41:55.080 gay even when they're not gay because gay culture is super fun you know i don't know what to say but

00:42:00.680 but yet you know somehow you you can't choose to not adopt it if you have one arousal pathway that

00:42:07.480 you have no control over i think that's really interesting that like yeah no everyone's welcome

00:42:12.120 to adopt gay culture you may not be able to pull it off but you can you can try you're you're i this is

00:42:17.560 something we keep going back to your entire life should not be oriented around getting off as easily as

00:42:23.160 possible like it is so weird that for progressives you try to like it's not a good look it doesn't look the

00:42:29.800 way you think it looks yeah you don't you don't need to build your marriage your relationship

00:42:36.680 everything you do around that and i'd ask you mr progressive who's here being like no you absolutely

00:42:46.120 need to build your mr straw man malcolm let's be mr straw no no but i know there's somebody watching

00:42:51.400 this who feels this way okay we're literally nothing that you're turned on by that would be

00:42:56.440 deleterious to society if you engaged in it literally nothing oh and you're like oh well

00:43:03.000 that's a different category of saying why is that a different category of thing why for an individual

00:43:10.200 who wants to have lots of kids it may be deleterious to marry a man why is that a different thing 0.73

00:43:18.120 it's a different thing because you want to and there's this sick pleasure that i see progressives get

00:43:22.680 off on is labeling men who are in happy marriages and have lots of kids as gay they're like he's 0.97

00:43:29.160 gay i bet he's so gay it's like so so so pathetic right like they engage in this sort of homophobic 0.99

00:43:41.320 behavior that they claim to be against because they want to control the way that people live 1.00

00:43:48.680 and force them into specific lifestyles and relationships that they have chosen not to engage

00:43:55.000 with and you can't deal with the fact that they have chosen to say yes this arouses me but i will not

00:44:02.280 base my life around it anyway thoughts before i go further no proceed male arousal in response to

00:44:14.040 breasts seem to correlate with arousal in response to the female form 87 of our male respondents reported

00:44:20.360 both to be arousing there is a similar correlation in females in response if a female survey respondent 0.98

00:44:26.200 reported finding the male form arousing it was very likely she would also find penises to be arousing 71

00:44:33.240 finding both to be arousing but keep in mind that's not like 100 that means around 30 of females

00:44:37.960 who found the male form arousing and identify as dry do not find penises arousing not a single female 0.89

00:44:44.280 in our survey group reported vaginas to be arousing and the naked female form aversive very interesting 1.00

00:44:49.880 seven percent of the female study population found the naked male form arousing but the site of a vagina 0.97

00:44:55.480 aversive six percent of our female respondents found both breasts arousing and the vagina aversive 0.68

00:45:01.480 two percent of the female study takers found the site of a vagina arousing but breasts to be 1.00

00:45:06.600 aversive 36 of the female we polled found both the naked female form and the vagina aversive 0.99

00:45:16.040 and you know what i'll just be posting these while we're talking because it's much easier than going

00:45:20.520 over them in detail but they are the charts that show the female breasts arousing naked female form

00:45:26.680 arousing female vagina arousing etc because i find that to be really interesting and oh now we can get to 0.99

00:45:32.840 size you want to get into size here penis size penis and breast size what do people prefer oh gosh yeah 0.99

00:45:43.000 this classic old favorite of ours yeah and i point out here just remember again that only three percent 0.99

00:45:52.360 of our participants identified as gay and only eight point seven five percent identified as bisexual so

00:45:57.880 these numbers are mostly females and males who do not identify as gay or bisexual okay

00:46:05.960 female who what breast size do you find most arousing in women i'm just putting this on screen here

00:46:13.000 the statistic i find most interesting is i do not find breasts arousing at all despite the three percent

00:46:20.120 only one percent of men this includes gay and bi men find breasts not arousing at all pretty much all 0.70

00:46:25.880 males whether they're gay straight by whatever find breasts arousing but here's what's interesting 0.97

00:46:31.240 in women the percent that do not find breasts not arousing at all is only 23 percent 0.96

00:46:44.520 if if finding breasts arousing makes you gay or bi almost every woman is gay or bi 0.80

00:46:50.680 well i mean that's also kind of what the findings indicate though that most women are at least 0.98

00:46:59.640 they don't that they're more attracted to dominance versus submission than they are attracted to any

00:47:05.080 particular primary or secondary sexual characteristics so for women it's kind of a misnomer to be like 0.86

00:47:11.000 are you gay or straight it's more like what power dynamic are you into that's more their orientation 0.97

00:47:17.240 absolutely all right so okay here's here's a fun one penis size in men what do you prefer 0.99

00:47:24.120 okay so i'm putting this on screen here but again i think the i do not find penises arousing at all 0.99

00:47:28.920 statistics to be the most interesting what percent of men don't find penises arousing at all 69 0.93

00:47:37.320 appropriate so in a world where where where three percent and this is a below average three 0.68

00:47:42.520 percent of our participants identified as gay 8.75 percent identified as bisexual a good 30 percent 0.96

00:47:48.680 of men found penises arousing i mean you know they're just there's so much i just there's so much 0.99

00:47:56.520 more i i want to say user friendly than vaginas i just uh i mean look at uh look at like 1.00

00:48:05.480 uh penises correlate with the attraction sphere and vaginas correlate with the disgust sphere in my 1.00

00:48:16.920 world i i'm sorry to come across as such a vagina here in this video but like when you think about 1.00

00:48:22.200 it watch watch the movie alien right what what what is the alien but an inverted like a prolapsed vagina 1.00

00:48:29.800 it's just like all mucus all just you know like vaginas are associated with the thing it shoots 1.00

00:48:36.440 out of its mouth is clearly supposed to be reminiscent of a penis i know but it's goopy you know 0.99

00:48:46.440 sorry and i don't know anyway we don't need we don't need my sex negativity in this room this is 0.99

00:48:53.480 a no i think people need to be affirmed in having these sex negative opinions in their sex negativity

00:49:01.160 no no sex sex negative people need to like rise up and by rise up what i mean is they need to

00:49:08.120 understand that their perspectives are and i hate to use this term valid but that doesn't mean that they

00:49:14.920 need to impose them on other people no that's so true yes yes yeah well and and the so important

00:49:20.200 thing and why i love the pragmatist guide to sexuality is a book so much is it like the

00:49:24.360 message it hammers home again and again is your arousal and disgust pathways are not an indication

00:49:30.440 of moral good or bad your logic is that indication you decide for yourself what is good or bad in this

00:49:37.480 world what is moral if something disgusts you that doesn't mean it's evil and i think that's the big

00:49:42.360 problem is a lot of a lot of women are turned on by violent erotic material and then a portion of 1.00

00:49:48.440 women are like super turned off by it and then they can't understand that while not morally condoning 1.00

00:49:57.240 this material some women just kind of want to watch it and they're like no one can ever watch this and 1.00

00:50:01.400 it's evil and blah blah blah and just just so many things get screwed up you know like a lot of people

00:50:06.120 are turned on by the concept of rape like for real it's a big turn on that doesn't mean that they

00:50:12.520 condone it we asked how much just so there was no confusion about whether this was a fantasy or not

00:50:20.440 a fantasy we go how much do you like the fantasy or role play of grape and then immediately after that

00:50:27.960 we make how much do you get turned on by the guy of actually being graved there's a huge number of

00:50:34.040 women i can't remember how to impose so for role play of grape it was for females 38 percent males 16 0.93

00:50:43.640 and that is being on the receiving end of it in terms of actually it happening to you males 23

00:50:51.080 females five percent and if you're looking at just general statistics on this you will find that around 0.99

00:50:58.520 four percent to five percent of reported grape cases report women feeling physiological arousal

00:51:06.040 during the process so this is wild i was looking for the text on the grape statistics in the book

00:51:11.880 and i found a section i had forgotten about that breaks them down by attractiveness rating and so

00:51:17.160 this is subjective attractiveness rating how attractive an individual sees themselves as being

00:51:21.560 but unattractive men taking our survey were much more likely to report finding grape role play arousing

00:51:27.400 with 66 of the lowest level attractiveness finding it a turn on contrasted with 10 of average men

00:51:33.080 and 14 of hot men the same is true for females but to a lesser extent was 44 of the least attractive

00:51:39.000 category of women reporting arousal at the idea of role playing being graped contrasted with 22 of

00:51:44.680 women for average attractiveness we see similar results for the thought of actual grape with 20 of 1.00

00:51:51.080 women in the least attractive category finding it arousing and only 3 of women in the average

00:51:55.720 category finding it arousing the same is seen among respondents for our male study participants with

00:52:01.000 50 in the least attractive category finding grape arousing and only 2 of men in the attractive

00:52:06.120 category finding grape arousing yeah disturbing uh deeply disturbing but but not like because there

00:52:12.600 are evolutionary reasons why surviving women who were kind of okay with this happening to them you know

00:52:19.880 why there were more surviving women than the ones who were like i will die before i let this happen to me 0.99

00:52:24.440 because they died and they didn't reproduce as it just so happens so yeah i mean there are reasons why

00:52:30.600 this happens and it's not great but it's what it is you know and just accepting that accepting reality

00:52:36.920 being pragmatic about it is the key yeah i i really one of the things that the guy kept mentioning in

00:52:43.720 the video this progressive guy watching this video these mormons who are like totally okay with this

00:52:48.760 and he's like just so disgusted and judgmental of them that they are he's like they're so supportive

00:52:55.720 for non-supportive of being gay right and it's like no what they are is supportive of these people's

00:53:02.600 choices and i look forward of the day life choices that you don't support the day where we enter a society

00:53:11.400 in which people can talk about the things that arouse them and that can be completely divorced from the

00:53:17.480 way they're expected to live their life yeah one of the weirdest things i've heard about the urban

00:53:22.440 monoculture and it's so true is it's almost like you're expected to like go out and search for all

00:53:28.360 the things that can turn you on even if you would never want to know if something could turn you on

00:53:33.880 even if you're like for example like a map stuff like minor attractive person why would you ever want

00:53:40.920 to know if that would turn you on there's there's some kind of insinuation that people should be

00:53:45.640 exploring that well no there there basically is it's like you should go through every category

00:53:51.160 of porn this is basically something that a lot of like no sexuality explore your sexuality that's

00:53:57.240 what they say they gotta turn it off like a light switch just switch

00:54:05.240 it's a neat little moment start to get confused because of thoughts in your head

00:54:11.560 don't feel those feelings hold them in instead

00:54:19.400 turn it off like a line switch just go click it's a cool little warm and trick

00:54:26.360 we do it all the time when you're feeling certain feelings that just don't seem right

00:54:31.560 treat those pesky feelings like a reading light so turn it off like a light switch just go back

00:54:39.400 really what's so hard about that turn it off i'll put that in yeah that's a good clip there

00:54:45.960 right like you but the thing is like you don't even need to know if you haven't been exposed to

00:54:50.520 something you might not know that it would ever arouse you right like you don't actually have a

00:54:56.360 mandate to explore this stuff it doesn't matter it's genetic scars

00:55:03.480 if it's something you didn't have a choice over it's not part of who you

00:55:07.080 are genetic scars it's a great way of putting it yeah yeah are the things you choose to be

00:55:13.640 yeah yeah no 100 separate your sexuality with it's not like yeah we so we don't marry people

00:55:23.720 based on our tastes in food for example you know if we should see them as just as as connected i'm

00:55:30.120 gonna get that traditionally reproducing with someone who disgusted you would be really

00:55:40.440 difficult but we have the technology to not need to reproduce that way none of our children were

00:55:46.040 produced through sex we have sex but none of our children were produced through that process they 0.87

00:55:50.840 were produced through ivf because i am super infernal there are ways around you not necessarily wanting to

00:55:59.080 bang your partner each night and also there are amazing alternatives to using another person to 0.98

00:56:08.680 sexually gratify yourself and you know especially now with ai combine ai with like really good sex 0.99

00:56:18.120 toys and i don't know i just don't know why a quote-unquote loveless marriage is a bad thing anymore 0.92

00:56:24.920 considering where we are in society with technology with ai and with the clear need for much more

00:56:31.240 pragmatic and practical mutually beneficial relationships life partnerships absolutely yeah

00:56:40.040 and i also note here and i somewhat tipped my hand on this but it's one of the reasons i feel so strongly

00:56:45.560 about this uh which is to say that if i am somebody who is a straight male who is aroused by extreme

00:56:55.080 like i'm an extremely dominant straight male like i'm overly straight and overly dominant in my arousal

00:57:00.600 patterns to the extent where if i am presented with super normal stimuli of

00:57:06.360 dominance or straightness i.e here's an example of super normal stimuli two women having sex is a 0.99

00:57:15.320 super normal stimuli for a guy to be engaging it right like this is all women just like extra way 1.00

00:57:21.240 it's funny somebody mentioned it's a fairly normal thing for guys to be into because uh i remember one

00:57:26.360 comedian he's like you know you ask women what they're into and they're like oh i'm into like x weird

00:57:31.480 thing or i'm into why weird thing and for a minute it's like more women i want one woman two women 1.00

00:57:37.320 good three women better four more women is better and then also more dominance right like more 1.00

00:57:47.480 dominance better to the extent where if i treated a real person that way it would be deleterious to

00:57:53.160 them outside of very controlled like role play scenarios and i am able to say i don't need to

00:58:00.440 structure my life around this because i realize it's deleterious and not good for daily living

00:58:06.360 yeah well just how much time it takes and it's one thing to be a dink couple that just chooses to 1.00

00:58:14.200 make this your hobby but yeah they're just they're way more efficient ways to do it even if you want

00:58:19.800 to maximize your amount of pleasure including sexual gratification it's easier to do it without

00:58:24.840 a human because just when you involve a human in it then there's just this additional layer of

00:58:30.040 all the coordination and the prep and the cleanup and the aftercare and it's just like can we not

00:58:34.680 find a better way to do that exactly well here here's a great way to put this right is would i be

00:58:40.040 more aroused like if i was arousal maxing my life to have a 24 7 like live-in slave this is something

00:58:47.720 that some couples do they structure their relationship with a wife yeah look up gorian

00:58:52.280 forums g-o-r-e-a yeah and i'm like yeah i would be more aroused by that lifestyle would i be more happy

00:59:02.520 in that lifestyle no i want somebody who i respect and can have conversations with and enjoy talking to

00:59:11.000 and who can push me and who can work and who can earn money and they don't need to like

00:59:15.720 dote on all day or like have some sort of weird master slave sexual interaction no i yeah honestly

00:59:21.800 i and this is this is another thing that came up in the sexuality book though is that

00:59:26.200 when it comes down to it not a lot of people want to be super dominant because it's a lot of work

00:59:32.360 it is a lot of work you don't want to manage that yeah it's a lot of energy i can be like

00:59:38.280 i prefer this in a narrative context right yeah but in my actual life that would be a nightmare to

00:59:46.280 have to maintain frame all the time exhausting exhausting oh yeah that's the thing you can have

00:59:54.040 a frame that would be most arousing for you that isn't your personality and you're like yeah but but

01:00:01.560 with the urban monoculture it's like oh no you'd be most aroused by having a live-in slave you gotta do

01:00:06.920 that that's the only option for you it's like no it's not the only option for you you can say oh

01:00:13.640 i don't need to i can either make that some sort of like role play scenario but even that would take

01:00:19.400 a long time to set up like why not just porn right like why do i need to why not porn yeah no it's but

01:00:29.640 you know what here's the thing though and here's here's our glimmer of hope malcolm

01:00:33.080 is that it's i i don't know maybe it's not a glimmer of hope

01:00:37.640 society seems to have discovered this have you seen rates of sex recently people have just heard

01:00:42.760 all right like we're in a post-sex society i think now we've gone half the way there right okay so we

01:00:48.760 we've gone to the point where we've acknowledged we don't need other people to sexually gratify

01:00:52.760 ourselves now we have to go the rest of the way of oh but we should still probably form life

01:00:57.000 partnerships with people and raise families because it's it's really fun cool thing to do and

01:01:01.560 you know everyone's better off for it so absolutely yeah just let's just put just

01:01:07.000 separate them all diverse it completely okay done well i'm glad we talked this through society fixed i 1.00

01:01:14.280 love you society fixed i love you you're a great wife what am i having for dinner tonight

01:01:18.680 if i can find bread it seems to have disappeared a grilled cheese sandwich with tomato soup or maybe

01:01:25.240 if you're up for a quesadilla with tomato soup or i can do pot stickers which i think i still have

01:01:31.960 quesadilla with tomato soup i haven't had quesadilla in ages a quesadilla or as our children say

01:01:37.080 quesadilla i love you to death sabone we still need to oh my god i was thinking about like what

01:01:46.520 you need to take this out but i was thinking like well if we had a merch shop because i was looking

01:01:52.440 at other channels similar to us and a lot of them had merch and i was like well we would only ever do

01:01:56.200 like an etsy shop with like really custom stuff and like someone reached out to us about t-shirts

01:01:59.640 and i'm like well obviously we'd make a of your and spell that image why amazing it's a great it is

01:02:12.200 it is perfect i mean i've i've you know like in all the porn i've seen i've never seen a that i

01:02:18.360 thought looks better than yours you're not the only woman who has noted that i know that and i'm so i'm

01:02:22.680 like well we could sell a malcolm in our merch shop you're so creepy simone it's sad that only i

01:02:31.960 am enjoying it you know like it's uh it's a loss to humanity so i was like you know i mean if anything

01:02:40.680 people would go to the merch shop just to see the and then maybe they might buy one of our our

01:02:48.680 artists and shirts or you know handmade paper planes by octavian which you would certainly want

01:02:54.520 to list on the shop so i it's a but i i i i what i love about this in this conversation is it and i

01:03:03.880 think it's where we need to go with the society we need to both de-stigmatize sexuality and decouple

01:03:10.280 it from moral mandates and identity i think once that is done the left has nothing it can use to get

01:03:17.960 your kid no no no no yeah the love can't get you um you're you know if you take the identity out of

01:03:22.840 politics and you don't have identity politics anymore oh my gosh suddenly we return to

01:03:28.360 the the age of debate and you know rational conversation and wouldn't that be amazing so yeah

01:03:34.600 again society fixed i will go make your your dinner love you love you

01:03:43.960 make sure you mess with just the right sides

01:03:48.360 for our autistic audience you know what uh last night i was watching titan

01:03:55.160 line up gummies in a little neat line and then eat them and i realized she's coming over to the

01:04:03.320 fold malcolm oh no we got another one another systematizer

01:04:07.720 flush of autistic children i hope so honestly so far all of our kids old enough to be diagnosed with 0.98

01:04:15.000 autism have been so and it has simone so this is this is what i get for choosing a hottest

01:04:20.520 hottest autists autisinal children 1.00

01:04:23.800 autisinal i get i go for autism 0.70

01:04:26.600 actually i like hot

01:04:27.560 i i the hottest

01:04:29.400 h-a-u-t-i-s-t-s right no well that's the way they call it like like a haughty

01:04:36.040 culture or whatever but like it's meant to me

01:04:39.160 who coined it i don't know if they've said it online but they are a famous friend of ours that

01:04:43.960 i really like and she coined it to mean hot women who are artistic 1.00

01:04:48.440 and all hang out in the community together i still like autisinal but

01:04:55.320 whatever anyway

01:04:58.360 oh so she actually meant hot as in h-o-t

01:05:01.160 yeah she means the hot smart autistic women yeah yeah that's what she was talking about 0.59

01:05:06.760 yeah well we i i thought you were referring to h-a-u-t-e

01:05:11.560 yeah uh anyway but you would never use french of course what was i thinking yes go on

01:05:15.880 you don't have to do a thing a thought can be a thought without anyone seeing

01:05:34.680 a kink can be a kink without anyone knowing you don't have to do a thing 1.00

01:05:42.760 i support that you want to dress up like a girl but when you do that in front of kids man it makes 0.98

01:05:52.840 me want to hurl you don't have to do a thing you don't have to do a thing there is more to life than

01:06:06.120 feeling good there is more to life than having would

01:06:16.120 this is something we once understood you don't have to do a thing you don't have to do a thing

01:06:20.120 so go ahead and fall in love build on earth what's above

01:06:34.120 go out there and find a wife sex is not the point of life you don't have to do a thing 0.98

01:07:02.120 so go ahead and fall in love build on earth what's above go out there and find a wife 0.80

01:07:22.280 sex is not sex is not the point of life you don't have to do a thing

01:07:36.280 there is more to life than what turns you sure the path is harder but we've got meaning through this border

01:07:46.280 you don't have to do a thing

01:07:50.280 there is more to life than feeling good there is more to life than having would

01:08:04.280 so go ahead and fall in love build on earth what's above go out there and find a wife sex is not the point of life

01:08:22.280 you don't have to do a thing

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Based Camp - December 20, 2024

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