5 Ways To Be Sexy That Have NOTHING To Do With The Way You LOOK!
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5 Ways to Be Sexy That Have NOTHING TO DO with How You Look That Have EVERYTHING TO DO WITH HOW YOU FEEL: 1. Be down for anything 2. Be a good cook 3. Be confident in who you are 4. Be willing to try new things 5. Be open to new experiences
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Hello, Classic Crew, and welcome to today's video where we're going to be talking about
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five ways you can be sexy that have absolutely nothing to do with the way you look.
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wanted to mention that before we get into the bulk of today's video. So in today's video, I want to talk
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about five ways that you can be sexy that have nothing to do with how you look. I think we get
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really bogged down in trying to look a certain way, focusing on our hair, on our makeup, on our clothes,
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and that stuff is, I think, important. But what's even more important is you and who you are. And being
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sexy isn't just about the way you look. It's also about how you present yourself and your personality.
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So I'm really excited to share these five ways you can be sexy today. I hope you guys enjoy it. So
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let's just get right into it. Okay, number one, be down for anything. So what I mean by this,
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something that my husband always said about me when we first got together was he loved that I was
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down to try new things, that I was always interested in what he had to talk about,
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and that I was game. That was always the phrase he used, that I was game. I was game to do anything.
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And there's something really sexy about that. There's something sexy about a woman who isn't
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so self-conscious that she won't try new things, or a woman who's just really kind of laid back enough
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to allow there to be a plan B. Sometimes when you are just a little too type A, and I'm like that,
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I can be type A. It means that you also are not flexible, and it means you also are not open to
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new experiences. And it's really fun and exciting and sexy when a woman is much more open to these
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things that she's never tried before, or to trying something her husband is excited about, like going
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to a baseball game if she's never gone, or listening to a new song that he really likes, and being open
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to hearing it. Just being the kind of woman who isn't always like, everything has to be on my terms,
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on my schedule, and instead is a little bit more laid back. It's like, yeah, let's try something new.
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I've never done that. That's really cool. I want to try it. And just getting excited about new experiences.
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I think that one of the sexiest things that a woman can do is to be excited, to be happy about
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being alive. That is just so attractive, and it really attracts a man's attention, is a woman who's
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excited to be here, and just wants to enjoy life. So that is number one. Number two is be a good cook.
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A woman who knows her way around the kitchen. Now that's pretty sexy. I think nowadays, a lot of
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women take this sort of sad pride in not being able to cook. They're like, oh my, I've never picked up
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a pot or a spoon and made, you know, a delicious meal. I don't know how to do that, and I prefer
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takeout. But there's something so sexy, but also just nurturing, lovely, about a woman who knows how to
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make a good meal. Everybody knows that men like to be fed. It is like very important to them. They
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always say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. So if that's the case, it's really
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lovely and sexy when a woman knows how to do that. And so buy some books or watch some YouTube videos,
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teach yourself how to cook if you don't know already. It's a skill that you will always need
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that is so valuable, and it's also very sexy. Number three is be confident in who you are.
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Honestly, this is probably the most important thing. It doesn't matter how you look. It doesn't
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matter how your hair looks that day or if your makeup is done or what clothes you're wearing.
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But if you are confident in your personality, and if you are confident in who you are and in what you
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look like, then that is the sexiest thing. Again, it comes down to that laid back thing. If you are
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laid back enough that even if you don't have everything completely done up, you still feel
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good about yourself, you still know that you are kind of a great person to be around and you are
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beautiful, then that is sexy. That laid back feeling of I am confident in who I am regardless of how I
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look today, regardless of, you know, whatever else, that is a very sexy thing. So being confident in
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who you are, in your personality, and in the way that you look no matter what you do look like that
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day, that is going to be the sexiest thing. Number four is be straightforward. I think that a woman who
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knows what she wants and who can speak to it and knows her views, but also can talk about her feelings
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openly and doesn't try to beat around the bush or be passive aggressive. That's a very sexy thing
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because not all women do that. A lot of women are passive aggressive. A lot of women don't speak
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their minds. The truth is a lot of men are passive aggressive too, but there's something very sexy
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about women and men when they can actually just speak honestly and be straightforward and say what's
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on their mind because you don't have to be constantly stressed about trying to figure out what
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that person is saying. You don't have to be like, what do they mean? What do they mean? No, you just
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get it because they're telling you. And that gives you a sense of security that's very sexy. And I know
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that sounds weird because security doesn't seem to go with being sexy, but the idea is, again, it comes
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to that feeling of being laid back. You can be more laid back when the person you're interested in,
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when the person you're married to is straightforward, is able to just tell you what they're thinking.
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Okay, so here's kind of the interesting thing about this laid back idea. The reason that being laid
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back is sexy is because sex is more fun when people are relaxed. Sex is more fun when people are able to
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just go with it and have like a good time. If you are stressed out, if you are type A, sex is not going
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to be as fun. So that's why this laid back quality that is kind of a through line through everything
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I'm talking about is what's going to be sexy. That's why. Last but not least is number five, which
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is retain some mystery. When I think it's an interesting thing because when I say all of the
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things I've talked about, it's very straightforward, right? It's very confident and sharing your thoughts
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and your feelings, being very open. And I think a lot of the time people think of sexy as mysterious
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as like you're not really open and you're not really sharing what you're feeling. And it's kind
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of like film noir in a sense. But the truth is that that mystery is not sexy beyond like day two.
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It's okay up until then, but then after that it's just stressful. There are some things though
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that you should retain some mystery about. For example, not going to the bathroom in front of
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each other. My husband and I have been married for five years and I still don't use the restroom
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in front of him. I just would never do that. That's not something he ever needs to see. And I think
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that that retains some sexiness between us because there are some things that are like, I don't really
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want to see my wife doing that. Fair enough. I don't really want him to see me doing that. And it just
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makes it a little bit too, too casual. And it does remove that element of sexiness that is important
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to like being attracted to one another. So retaining some mystery, stuff like that. I can probably give
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more examples, but we'll use that one for today is important to being a sexy woman. So those are my
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five ways that you can be sexy that have nothing to do with the way that you look. Let me know your
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thoughts in the comments. What other ways do you think you can be sexy without having to talk about
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the way you look, your hair, your makeup, your clothes, whatever else it is. I'd love to hear
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