TV And Movies Ignore Conservatives. You're not WEIRD.
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Summary
What you're watching on TV makes you feel like you're the odd one out, and that's a good thing. Especially when it's coming from a leftist point of view in Hollywood, where the values you're being shown on TV and movies are coming from the "leftist" perspective.
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Hello classic crew and welcome to today's video where we're going to be talking about why what
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you're watching is making you feel more alone. Have you ever wondered why you feel weird for
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being conservative, having the values that you have, wanting to stay a virgin until you're
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married and wanting to have a family? A lot of that comes from what you're watching, the movies
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you watch, the TV shows you watch. All of that stuff kind of percolates into your brain and
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makes you feel like you are weird for having values. Everything that you're watching is coming
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from a leftist point of view in Hollywood. So today I really wanted to talk about why what you're
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watching is making you feel like you're different, like you're odd and like you're just alone because
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the fact of the matter is that you're not. So let's get into it. So growing up we all watched a bunch
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of different TV shows depending on what our parents allowed us to watch but also kind of what age you
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were growing up and which order you were in the birth order because I know that my parents were
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much more strict with the older siblings and I'm the youngest and by the time it got to me they were
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a little bit less strict about things. And so I grew up watching some TV shows that maybe were a little
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bit too old for me but definitely had a leftist skew and they definitely made me feel growing up like I
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was weird because I was conservative because I was an orthodox Jew. I had religious values and no one I was
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watching on TV had religious values and if they did they were considered crazy or weird. So it was
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definitely something that I noticed growing up was making me feel like maybe I'm the odd one out.
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Think about Friends or One Tree Hill or anything on The CW. Now on Friends all of the characters were
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sleeping around pretty regularly. They were pretty promiscuous. Everyone slept with their boyfriends
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or had one night stands. It was kind of part of the running joke of the show. Now think about a show
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like One Tree Hill. I don't know if you watched that growing up but that was all about high schoolers.
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They were all sleeping around and of course the only couple that did get married got married at
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16 and it was just kind of this odd thing where they were the young ones who got married and then
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of course immediately there was marital troubles. It did work out in the show which was a very nice
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thing but the rest of the show it was just kind of an odd thing that they did and all the rest of the
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characters were sleeping around and being very promiscuous. And if anyone was Jewish on a show for
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example they weren't really keeping any of the laws. They weren't Orthodox. They were just kind
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of nominally Jewish. They were culturally Jewish. And as an Orthodox Jew growing up you can imagine
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that was very weird for me to see that pretty much any character who was Jewish on TV would know
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cultural references but then wouldn't actually keep any of the laws or would do something like
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on Friends with Ross and the Hanukkah armadillo for his son while they also had him celebrating
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Christmas at the same time. So it was all very kind of mixed up not what I grew up with and didn't show
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any of the values that I thought were important. And then on the other side of the spectrum you have a
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woman like the Haredi character who was on an episode of House. It was called Don't Ever Change and in
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that episode she refuses to have surgery on Shabbos even though the rabbi tells her that she should
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because it can save her life. Her husband says that she should because it can save her life but she won't do it.
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And of course it's just a kind of crazy thing which everyone knows in Judaism you can do any
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medical procedure to save someone's life on the Sabbath. So for her not to have the surgery on
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Sabbath it just made her look crazy. And it was just frustrating to me growing up that you would
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have all these depictions of religious people being weird or not religious at all and then you
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would just have normal people, high school kids, whatever, just not living valued lives. And so I would
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start to wonder if I was weird because I didn't want to sleep around in high school or if it was
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weird that I was dating for marriage and not for fun. Because here's the thing, even if everyone
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you're hanging around with is acting just like you, when you're watching TV you think that that's a
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representation of the world. It's really easy to look at TV and we can't help but see it as a reflection
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of what the world really is which isn't true. And then it really seems like you're the odd one out
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and it's really hard to kind of recognize that maybe that isn't the case, especially when you're
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younger, especially when you're watching the stuff when you're young and impressionable.
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Now think about your favorite movies. When you think about your favorite chick flicks,
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most of them show people falling in love accidentally and not really having any purpose
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to when they're dating. There's no purposeful dating, there's no understanding that marriage is
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something that's really important, it's sort of something that kind of happens to you,
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and they almost always show people having sex before they're married, and a lot of the time
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it's before they're even in a serious relationship. It just kind of happens. Think about the movie
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The Holiday. In The Holiday, Cameron Diaz and Jude Law sleep together before they're even dating.
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They just kind of meet, sleep together, and then later it happens to work out. Think about the movie
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27 Dresses. The two main characters in that sleep together before they're ever in a relationship
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and then they happen to work out. Everything is backwards in these movies and it starts to make you
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think if you're weird. I mean, I totally understand if you feel that way because I know that I did.
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It's all to make more drama in these movies, of course, but it's also because there is a certain
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agenda in Hollywood. And if that stuff is all that you're watching, then you're going to feel like
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you're the odd one out and that stuff is the norm. You aren't weird for having values. You aren't weird
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for wanting to dress more modestly. You aren't weird for not wanting to have sex before you're married,
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and you're not weird if you want to get married and have a family. You are not alone.
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It's just that TV and movies are not showing you how normal people really live. And of course,
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there's also the part of this that when you're living a moral and upstanding life, life just
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isn't dramatic in the same way that it's going to be when you're kind of doing crazy things with your
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life decisions. And if it's not that dramatic, it's not going to make that good of television
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or that great of a movie. Because at the end of the day, would you really want to live in the TV
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show where you're constantly getting your heart broken or something horrible happens just so that
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it makes good TV? Not really. People don't want a dramatic life just for the cameras.
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So my point isn't that you shouldn't watch TV or that you should stop watching movies, but it's more
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to recognize that what you're watching isn't really a reflection of what normal people's lives are like,
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and that you're not weird for wanting to live a more valued life. And if you are looking for something
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that is a little bit more moral that's on TV, maybe check out The Dick Van Dyke Show. I grew up
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on that. My parents would bring that home on tape, and we would watch it on our old VHS machine.
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And it was awesome. And I loved it. And it also made me think, hey, this is more normal. The way
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that my parents are raising us is more normal. And it just kind of gave me a little bit more
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perspective. Of course, there are a lot of different options for things like that. The Dick Van Dyke
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Show is only one. Actually, leave me in the comments down below a good movie or TV series
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that doesn't make you feel so alone. That makes you feel a little bit more normal when you're
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living a conservative, valued life. I'd love to hear your guys' thoughts. Thank you guys so much
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