Classically Abby - March 08, 2022


We Have A HUGE Life Update!! Things Are About To Get CRAZY...


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Jacob and I are moving twice in six months to Florida! In this episode, we tell the story of how we ended up in Florida and why we decided to move there. We are so excited to finally be leaving our current home in Virginia and starting our new life in Florida.

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00:00:00.000 Hello, Classic Crew, and welcome to today's video where I'm going to be sharing a major life update.
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00:00:36.540 I am so excited to share with you guys, we've been keeping it under wraps for quite some time,
00:00:44.240 that Jacob and I are moving. Now, what do I mean when I say moving?
00:00:51.080 Because we just recently moved houses. So it was very funny because I saw a comment
00:00:58.900 in one of my Instagram posts when I talked about us moving to this house that we're in now,
00:01:04.540 and it said, why do you guys move like every six months? It was very ironic that you shared that
00:01:13.600 when we were actually planning on moving from this house in six months. And there is a story behind
00:01:20.600 that. There is a story about where we're going, but I will spoil it a little bit and tell you we
00:01:27.300 are moving to Florida. So we are in Virginia now, and we are going to be moving to Florida. And
00:01:34.600 hopefully, Florida is kind of our stopping point. It's where we end up. Will we be in the same house
00:01:40.340 the entire time? Probably not. But the idea being, we are going to be in Florida, and we're going to
00:01:45.580 be settling in Florida. So that's really exciting. But I just, I thought that was hilarious because I
00:01:50.920 was thinking to myself when that person commented, you don't even know. So let's go back a little bit.
00:01:58.760 Jacob and I have moved every year since we've gotten married. When we got married, Jacob had
00:02:04.020 one year left in law school. So we were in Charlottesville, Virginia for a year while he finished
00:02:08.640 up at UVA Law. And then we moved to Omaha, Nebraska for a year while Jacob tried out a job there. And
00:02:14.860 then we moved back to Virginia, but this time we moved to Northern Virginia. And this was again
00:02:19.120 for Jacob's work. So after moving here, when I got pregnant, we started talking about, okay,
00:02:25.980 what do we want our next steps to be? And we came to the conclusion that Florida would be a really
00:02:31.840 good place for us for a whole host of reasons, which I will get into sort of at the end of the video.
00:02:37.940 So Jacob was looking for work in Florida. I can do my work from anywhere, so I'm very flexible.
00:02:43.500 And at the same time that this was happening, our lease came up at the house that we were in.
00:02:50.380 We had extended for six months, so we were there for a year and six months. And we weren't sure whether
00:02:56.760 we were going to stay in that house, because if you remember, there was a big mice problem. And that mice
00:03:03.980 problem was not being dealt with. And it was horrifying and very nerve wracking, given that
00:03:09.560 we're having a newborn, a baby. And so we were debating whether or not to move, because we
00:03:16.660 didn't know how long it would take for Jacob to find a job in Florida. We didn't know how long it
00:03:20.960 would take for us to actually move to Florida. We just didn't know. So we decided to sign the lease
00:03:28.380 lease for the house that we are currently in. And the next day, Jacob got an interview for a job in
00:03:35.320 Florida. And both of us were like, okay, I mean, sure, this makes sense, right? Of course it has to
00:03:44.000 happen that way. And we were trying to be realistic in saying, okay, we should act as if there is no job
00:03:51.260 lined up for Florida and live our lives. So we signed the lease here. And the next day, Jacob
00:03:56.860 got the interview. And then two weeks later, he got the job. We have a six month lease where we are
00:04:02.700 now, which worked out perfectly. But that means we are going to be moving twice in six months. So we
00:04:09.600 moved everything to this house, and then we're going to be moving everything to Florida. So that is
00:04:15.560 the story of why we're moving twice in six months. Yes, we're going to be moving with a little baby,
00:04:23.320 but hopefully everything will be sorted. We'll have a plan. I'm not moving before I give birth
00:04:29.100 to this little one. That would just be way too stressful and also just unsafe. I want to be near
00:04:35.200 my doctor during these last few weeks of pregnancy. And I want to make sure that we are able to actually
00:04:41.160 make that transition well. So we will be here for a bit of the summertime, and then we will be moving
00:04:48.520 to Florida, which I am so excited about. So as all this stuff has been happening, as we've been making
00:04:55.600 these big life changes, one of the things that's had to happen is that Jacob had to retake the bar.
00:05:01.760 So he has taken the bar. He is barred in DC, but Florida has its own bar exam, and Jacob had to
00:05:11.260 retake the bar. Now, if you know what the bar exam is like, you know it is a nightmare to study for.
00:05:18.140 I'm so proud of Jacob. He worked so hard. He was studying all day, every day. It was just so amazing,
00:05:25.980 and he had a shortened schedule too because it all happened so quickly. But it's a lot. I mean,
00:05:31.500 studying for the bar is no joke, and Jacob was doing a great job the last week before the test.
00:05:37.500 I was really helping him out. We were just sitting down and focusing and working on all the stuff
00:05:42.180 that he wanted to review, and that was a big undertaking on his part. So I'm so proud of him,
00:05:47.660 and it was just, you know, it's really meaningful that he and I are on the same page about what we
00:05:52.580 want so that when he is doing a project like that, which is just the worst, and no one wants to take
00:05:58.320 the bar exam more than once. He feels like he's doing it for our family, and that's a really
00:06:04.020 meaningful, beautiful thing. But this also explains why for our nursery, we didn't build the crib.
00:06:11.840 We didn't buy a changing table or a dresser because it just didn't make sense for us to build all that
00:06:17.400 stuff for only three months and then take it all down and then build it again when we get to Florida.
00:06:22.860 So we are using a pack and play in the nursery as the changing table and as the bassinet. We also have
00:06:28.440 a bassinet for our bedroom, so that's probably what we're going to use most of the time anyway,
00:06:33.020 but that was kind of the way we had to work things out while we recognize that this is a little bit
00:06:39.140 transitory here. Now, I'm not somebody who likes to make a home feel transitory ever, so I don't really
00:06:44.940 do that, but for example, we really aren't putting much stuff on the walls here just because it doesn't
00:06:50.680 make sense for us to hang up all these photos and then leave in six months. The next place we move,
00:06:55.360 we will definitely put up photos, but we have all our furniture out, and because it was only next
00:07:01.220 door, we didn't have to pack anything and then unpack anything, so it still feels really homey,
00:07:05.960 which is actually a huge blessing, and I want to say I do not regret at all that we moved. This was
00:07:12.680 a great move. We do not have to worry about mice. We do not have to worry about a lot of things. This house
00:07:19.040 is so much better for us, and even though it's only for six months, six months is a really long time,
00:07:24.220 so we are very grateful that we actually did sign that lease and that we ended up here. Okay, so why
00:07:32.500 did we choose Florida? There are a lot of amazing reasons for us to move to Florida, so I'm really
00:07:39.440 excited to share why. Let's start off with an obvious one. We're having a baby, and we have family down
00:07:47.580 there. Jacob's parents are down there. My parents are down there. My brother is down there. It's just
00:07:53.640 much better for us to have family around as we're starting our family, and we're really excited to be
00:08:00.780 close to family as this is all happening. I think it's really hard to raise a family when you're not
00:08:06.200 close to family, and I respect people who can do it, but that's not what we want. We want our kids to
00:08:12.280 grow up knowing their grandparents and seeing their grandparents and seeing their cousins. That's
00:08:17.600 really important to both of us, so that's one huge major reason. Another big reason is that there is a
00:08:25.860 really, really wonderful Jewish community in Florida. There are a ton of Jewish communities in
00:08:31.360 Florida, and that has been something we've been really lacking here in Northern Virginia, and we are
00:08:37.660 not interested in moving to Maryland, which comes into play for the next reason, but Florida has the
00:08:45.840 infrastructure for us to raise a Jewish family, and so I am so excited about being in a beautifully active
00:08:54.100 Jewish community, being part of a synagogue, having Jewish day schools to send our children to. It's such
00:09:01.080 a blessing that this is something we are able to do, and we're so excited about. So this community that
00:09:08.280 I've been, you know, lacking here in Northern Virginia, and something I'm such a huge proponent of
00:09:13.300 on my channel, we are actually following through on that and saying, you know, this really is that
00:09:18.660 important. We are moving to a whole other state because it is so important for us to have a big Jewish
00:09:25.080 community and that support system. Now, the last reason has to do with the fact that Florida is a
00:09:32.020 free state. With COVID, I think we've all seen really the difference between states that are blue
00:09:40.500 and states that are red and how they treat this, and I personally am not going to put my children
00:09:45.360 into a situation where they're going to have to be masked constantly. I don't know how long that's
00:09:51.420 going to take to go away. I want to be in a place where that's not a concern, and Florida, it's not
00:09:58.000 a concern. You know, we can live as conservatives in Florida and absolutely fit in. So that is hugely
00:10:06.940 important to both of us, and it's a wonderful reason to move to Florida, and I'm really, really
00:10:12.620 excited about that part of it too. So that is why we are moving to Florida. That is our huge life update.
00:10:18.360 That means you guys are going to be seeing me being a new mom, dealing with a move, and then
00:10:27.660 adjusting to a whole new state, and I'm really excited about it. I think it's going to be really, really
00:10:33.780 special, and I can't wait to share the whole journey with you guys, and I'm so excited I finally get to
00:10:39.820 tell you. So that is it for today's video. Let me know in the comments what you guys think. Let me know if
00:10:46.720 you're from Florida. Give me some suggestions. What are your guys' thoughts? I'd love to hear.
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