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00:07:02.000Also, Twitch.tv slash Fresh and Fit Podcast.
00:07:05.000Guys, what we're going to do is, as you guys know, we've been talking about this for a week, but we're going to go ahead and be on YouTube for a period of time, and then we're going to move all of you over to Twitch.
00:07:14.000And if you guys don't mind doing me a huge favor, we're going to take over Twitch.
00:07:18.000We're actually going to be doing a sub-a-thon tomorrow.
00:07:21.000We're probably going to start 8, 9 p.m., And we're going to go into the evening.
00:07:24.000We're going to cover a bunch of different topics.
00:07:53.000So we're only posting clips on YouTube right now, guys, and shorts.
00:07:56.000So we're posting, I think, three clips per day, six shorts per day.
00:07:59.000So we still have a presence on YouTube, but...
00:08:02.000To be honest with y'all, this is a better way to go anyway, is to post clips and shorts on YouTube and then just stream on other platforms, whether it's a Rumble or a Twitch or whatever.
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00:08:13.000But we'll be on YouTube for a little bit, and we want you guys to all come on over to Twitch.
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00:08:48.000Politics, the debate, 9-11, we talked about comedy, we talked about politics, whether it's immigration, firearms, what being a libertarian is in 2024, women voting, all that stuff we talked about.
00:18:42.000But it's not just because I'm so tall, I'm an athlete, so that's just, I'm surrounded by other athletes, so it's not like I don't have, you know.
00:18:50.000No, I was just going to say, any division in school, the athletes are going to call themselves something the normal people.
00:18:56.000So for us, we called regular people muggles.
00:19:35.000No, it's interesting because I actually just got a relationship like maybe like two, three months ago and he thought that I cheated on him.
00:19:42.000Somebody told him that I cheated on him and I swore to him.
00:27:52.000We're dropping, next week, an actual course on Castle Club with tangible Zoom calls about dating, Instagram dating as well, and social media in general.
00:29:52.000Hanging with Ken, the Sneaky Link Man, Sneak is Christ, Link is Christ, Sneak Sweat, formerly known as, you know, taking the name of Keith Sweat as well.
00:31:11.000So could you tell the audience, and for the girls here, what is a sneaky link?
00:31:17.000Somebody that you sneak around with and, you know, you don't be seen with this person in particular, but, you know, that's basically like a side chick, you know, but you just don't put her out on the forefront.
00:31:32.000She's in the shadows, you know, doing her bidding.
00:31:35.000Mexicans call it a Sancha and Italians call it a Gumar.
00:33:14.000I think it just depends on how you feel in that moment.
00:33:17.000If you are like, I don't know, maybe you just get out to a relationship and you don't want to have a new relationship with all the things that you need to have.
00:40:23.000I don't know about those other girls out there.
00:40:25.000But from my own experience, when I was super young, I would sleep with them and think that they would owe me something from that emotionally.
00:40:34.000And I just was not smart enough to know that you have to be in a relationship.
00:40:38.000You have to be married for that to happen.
00:41:01.000And for girls, I don't know, maybe if you're busy, if you're working, if you have things to do, if you don't have time right now to be in a relationship and you just want to sneak a link.
00:42:11.000So I think, personally speaking, that, especially in Miami, to be specific, everyone has a sneaky link on some level.
00:42:18.000Either an ex, someone they're talking to at the moment, because, let's be real here, everyone here is somewhat good-looking or has something going on for themselves, or on some level is in these circles where, you know, they're going to talk to somebody in casual competition, and then, before you know it, what you're doing comes up, and then they get into these things.
00:42:34.000But they're not with the person long-term.
00:43:01.000And we're going to read all you guys that give out community shows for tonight, we're going to be reading them all, so we got y'all, regardless of whatever it is.
00:45:38.000So we don't really stream on here at all, but we're going to fucking take over because I've been looking at Twitch.
00:45:43.000There's a bunch of pussies on there that are whack and boring and not entertaining and low IQ. So we're going to go ahead and take over fucking Twitch.
00:46:50.000Okay, so I would like to start it off by saying I'm a very headstrong person.
00:46:54.000I'm a very introverted, headstrong person, but I will take accountability when need be.
00:47:00.000If I feel like I don't need to, and I guess that's kind of part of what you're saying because I feel like For women, if we feel like we don't need to, then we're not going to.
00:48:26.000But if you have, I don't know, if I make a mistake, probably not exactly in that moment, but when everything came down, like, okay, I can say, okay, I'm sorry, maybe.
00:48:41.000So let's say you and your ex were arguing, or your current man, and he says to you, listen, you fucked up here, take accountability.
00:48:49.000You're going to say, no, not right now, maybe later on.
00:49:32.000I feel like women take accountability to a certain extent to what they feel like they did wrong, but it may not be what your significant other feels like you did wrong.
00:49:50.000Accountability to girls is foreign, right?
00:49:52.000But when would you say they would take it seriously?
00:49:57.000I don't feel like ever really like I feel like it's in their own like whatever they feel like is wrong in their version is what they're gonna take accountability for because you know what I see when I see those shows girls start drama and they be like oh it wasn't me and then they get beat up and it's like yeah it was you or you go back and look at the footage and it was them yeah so they never take it seriously what about you?
00:50:26.000But the only reason why, I am a sensitive person and I have feelings, so if there's a certain situation and I'm like, okay, I don't think I'm in the wrong here, but I have someone telling me like, okay, you are in the wrong because you did this, this, and that,
00:50:41.000I will be the person and own up to it.
00:50:44.000It might take me a while, but I will take accountability sooner or later.
00:50:47.000It just takes me a while to process it and for me to actually own up to it.
00:51:04.000Yeah, most of them are inspired by true stories, but since the popularity has taken off, people will send me, you know, requests of their situations and occurrences that happened within their lives for me to, you know, bring to life in a video.
00:56:00.000You can't actually put yourself in the shoes of a man and experience and kind of understand where we're coming from.
00:56:06.000So us asking you this question, no offense for us, they're not going to be able to get it because women are never the providers in a relationship where your stake, where your resources are on the line.
00:56:15.000So I have to go ahead and give them a functional equivalent.
00:56:18.000Let's assume that you go ahead and you hook up with a guy and then you find out that he sucked 10 dicks and was gay before you and he did some gay porn.
00:56:24.000That's probably a more equivalent thing.
00:56:27.000What would you say after you found out that he did that stuff?
00:57:00.000Because the guy understood, We're good to go.
00:57:16.000Now, for me to give you a functional equivalent, I say, you have sex with a dude and you find out that he sucked 10 dicks and was a gay porn star, your reputation's online.
00:57:24.000A woman's reputation versus a man's resources are the same thing.
00:57:27.000If I don't have resources, it's going to be tough for me to attract a woman.
00:57:30.000If you don't have a good reputation, it's going to be tough for you to attract a good man.
00:57:35.000I just, for me personally, I feel like that's not equivalent.
00:57:38.000I'm not, listen, if my man is out and I find out that he had been with guys before, I feel like that's not equivalent to girls, like, being broke and then you nutting in her.
00:57:56.000Trust me, I promise you, I get what you're saying, but I feel like that's an extreme.
00:58:01.000That's a totally different extreme that I've never heard of.
00:58:04.000I'm giving a functional equivalent so women can understand the male perspective because you're giving up one of your more prized commodities, which is your resources.
00:58:13.000Yes, because men and women are not the same.
00:58:15.000So I must give you a functional equivalent for you to understand because over my many years of talking to females, you guys lack empathy.
00:58:22.000That's one of the biggest baseline things I've found out from talking to women is that you guys absolutely lack empathy of the male experience.
00:58:29.000So for me to get you guys to understand, I must give you female functional equivalent.
00:58:33.000So what I'm saying is, my resources on the line is the same as your reputation being on the line because my resources are what makes me attractive, your reputation is what makes you attractive.
01:00:14.000You're always going to want something that's not for you.
01:00:17.000Yes, but the difference is that women are far more delusional about their expectations and they're not afraid to show that delusion out to the world.
01:00:23.000For example, I've seen so many times where...
01:01:07.000And like I said, I wasn't raised to talk down on people, so I'm not gonna say, oh, all women are stupid, all men are stupid, because I just don't think that, and I feel like you can't...
01:10:15.000But after when we break up, when we met, In 2017 I remember at that point we dated like a week and after he called me one day and told me like I go back with my ex like we cannot be like together anymore and he when he's with someone like he's very loyal and kind of possessive a little bit but he's very loyal yeah and we if we have a fight or something and we are Like,
01:15:58.000Wait, come on real quick, because I was laughing at this clip as well, but like, what were your thoughts about this clip when you saw Jake Future?
01:20:45.000Have those conversations with my significant other, who that may be, to get over that jealousy.
01:20:52.000Communication is key, so if I can talk it through with them and they understand, hey, this happened and I didn't like that, can we not, going forward, can we do something differently or can we take a different approach?
01:21:10.000Yeah, I mean, jealousy is a natural emotion, and I think it's needed on some level for people to actually have, like, you know, a little tension in between.
01:21:59.000I can actually hold a conversation or I'm not a whore or whatever it may be.
01:22:04.000I don't get jealous of women because I truly do believe that as a man, life is going to be harder, but you're going to be able to garner respect.
01:22:13.000You're going to be able to do more things, but it's going to be a grind.
01:22:17.000Versus if you're an average girl, you're going to have a better experience than most men, but if you're a top-tier guy, then you're going to have a better experience than everyone else.
01:22:26.000Is that when you have to earn your meritocracy and earn your respect, there's something to be said about it when it builds your character.
01:22:33.000So what ends up happening is you just become a more attractive individual, people respect you, and people respect you for the right reasons because you bring something to the table.
01:22:39.000Versus for women, unfortunately for you guys, easy come, easy go.
01:22:44.000There's another girl just like you that brings the same thing to the table.
01:23:06.000For you to be jealous of your girlfriend infers that she's better than you, and your girl should never be better than you, I think the man needs to be the superior, be the protector, the provider, the more rational individual, the more competent individual.
01:23:17.000So if you're jealous of your girl because she's with another guy, well, you already lost.
01:23:32.000Some people might call that toxic masculinity or whatever, but I think that's just being pragmatic and very realistic to deal with modern-day women today.
01:24:51.000When women are the star, or women are the focus of the relationship, or they're the leader, or they're the one that's making the money or whatever, problems come up.
01:24:57.000Because when women feel like they're better than you, you guys want something else.
01:25:02.000But if we feel like we're better than you, we want to share...
01:25:07.000That's why I always say all the time, like, guys should just focus on their career and making money and becoming the best version of themselves because women benefit when a guy does better.
01:25:14.000But if you're focusing on your career and making more money, etc., the man doesn't benefit, we're going to probably lose you as a matter of fact if we let you be the leader and focus on everything.
01:25:31.000But with you, if you make the money and you're the leader, you're gonna leave me for someone better because it's in a woman's psyche and nature to want a better man.
01:31:41.000The purpose of the exercise that I just displayed here was to let women understand that you guys aren't really that special and a majority of you bring the same things to the table.
01:31:49.000So, how are you going to differentiate yourself from, you know, other women?
01:31:54.000Because she was making an argument, oh, well, I'm beautiful and I am here, blah, blah, blah.
01:31:57.000And it's like, there's a bunch of actors.
01:32:44.000And I guarantee a bunch of you guys here at the table have standards, etc.
01:32:48.000Only a minority of men qualify for this, but the things that we look for, don't be a whore, be attractive, be pleasant, that's pretty easy to find to some degree.
01:32:57.000So, that's what I'm trying to say, is that hot girls are common, successful men are not.
01:33:03.000Well, yeah, that makes sense, for sure.
01:33:06.000To a certain extent, I definitely agree with you.
01:33:08.000Obviously, we're not all going to agree with each other on everything, but I definitely agree with you to a certain extent on that, for sure.
01:33:16.000So, I think, because we kind of live in this world now where it's like women think that they're special or that they deserve this type of guy and that type of guy.
01:33:25.000Well, I mean, I'm just going to be blunt.
01:33:27.000Most of you guys don't deserve the guy that you think you do, if I'm going to be all the way honest.
01:33:31.000Like, oh yeah, I want a guy that's six foot tall, in great shape, amazing smile, charming, charismatic, funny, loves kids, but doesn't have any yet.
01:33:39.000He's good with animals, but he doesn't, maybe he has a cute dog.
01:33:42.000Like, you know, I want him to be like super nice and dominant, but super nice, but dominant at the same time.
01:33:47.000It's just like, the things that women are looking for, right, typically are only found within a small percentage of men.
01:33:53.000And to me, I look at it like, well, do you even qualify for the man that you want?
01:34:16.000Like, if I'm going to be honest, like, dude's got to work, make $100,000 a year, be attractive, go to the gym, whatever, for a chick that's, you know, used up, fucked a bunch of niggas.
01:37:21.000Have you guys seen, like, those TikToks when it's like, I'm trying to show my feminine side, but a guy is doing it first, and you see, like, all these text threads, like, saying, like, oh, like, let's say a man wants to get a haircut, and they're asking, they're like, oh, will you, like, pay for it?
01:38:51.000And I think, and here's the thing, like, I know this might be shocking for some of you guys to hear this, but, like, I think women need to find guys that think the way that I do.
01:38:58.000Because if you find guys that think the way I do, you probably won't run into financial problems.
01:39:05.000You won't feel like, oh my god, why do I gotta be so masculine all the time?
01:40:53.000And the thing is, for girls that make money, this could happen to you where I'm sure some of you guys might be doing well financially and a guy kind of comes in and tries to fucking, you know, oh, can I borrow some money or try to finesse.
01:41:06.000And it's like, there's men out there, man, that don't have a spine.
01:41:09.000I'd fucking jump off a balcony before taking a dollar from a female.
01:41:20.000If you cheated and your ex secretly cheated but you didn't find out till years later and you're married with kids, would you stay or would you leave?
01:41:35.000So it says if you cheated and then your ex secretly cheated and you didn't find out till years later and you're married with kids, would you stay or would you leave?
01:45:14.000Oh, no, if, oh, I would just, well, first of all, I'll get it back myself, because, like, I don't know, I feel like I'm capable of, like, getting it back myself.
01:48:18.000It depends on the kind of guy that you're dealing with, right?
01:48:20.000So, like, if you're dealing with a guy that's, like, good with women, right, and gets girls, he might just say, fuck this bitch and not talk to you anymore, you know?
01:49:02.000Girls are out here hooking up with guys, so if they're making you weight, something is off.
01:49:06.000So it's like, is it worth it pursuing this girl more or just going with another girl that's not going to give you as much of a headache?
01:49:12.000And what I've come to realize is It's better for you to just get with girls that are attracted to you from the first place versus like sitting here and trying to deal with a girl that has low interest and trying to bring it up.
01:49:23.000Because when a girl has low interest in you, she's going to like really make your life miserable.
01:49:27.000She's going to do this for me, blah, blah, blah.
01:49:30.000And it's like that's not the frame you want to come in as a guy.
01:49:33.000Like the girl should be happy to be around you, not you trying to do everything for her because like I said before, it goes back to the whole thing.
01:49:39.000When you pedestalize a girl and she looks down on you, she can't respect you.
01:50:00.000Especially since girls aren't virgins nowadays.
01:50:03.000So it's like, you know, that whole waiting thing, like, yeah, that was cool in the 1950s when the majority of women were virgins, but, like, what, like, less than 3% of women are virgins on their wedding night now?
01:50:12.000How do you think it's, like, the time that you should wait?
01:50:42.000I think three is like the absolute max, you know?
01:50:45.000I think if you don't get it by the second, there's a good chance it's just probably an L. I think anything over three is ridiculous, though.
01:51:03.000But in America, 97% of women are not going to be virgin.
01:51:08.000I would argue, I think, if you take an average 25-year-old girl versus an average 25-year-old guy, the girls probably had more sexual partners.
01:53:58.000All these things will fuck you up as a guy.
01:54:00.000And as a man, you really can't afford to have these distractions because our value is based on what we provide.
01:54:07.000So if you're whacking off to porn all day, or you're high off weed, or you're always drunk, or you're losing all your money gambling, it's going to be very hard for you to get ahead as a guy.
01:54:16.000If you're a girl and you smoke pot all day and you're a loser, Well, if you're hot, it don't matter.
01:55:57.000So, like, you have to really get shit out the mud.
01:56:00.000So, for me to sit there and, like, listen to a female's opinion on something when they don't have to work as hard, I'm kind of like, what the fuck?
01:57:52.000How is it that all these different cultures, different religions, and different people from all different parts of the world Have had these things in place for centuries before the internet, before telephones, before anything.
01:58:07.000How did they all naturally know that this is what women should be doing?
01:59:07.000I always say, please don't be a whore, don't be a whore, don't be a whore, but you just say that your maximum to wait is three days for sleep with some girl, so this is half sense in your mind.
02:00:08.000Putting yourself in, like, weird situations on yachts with strange individuals.
02:00:12.000Like, there's a bunch of different things that go into it, right?
02:00:15.000Like, you know, and my thing is, like, I look at it like...
02:00:19.000You want a girl that not only is she not like a whore like physically by you know not having a high body count but also like from her behaviors and how she does things how she carries herself because I genuinely believe like if you're a guy and you have like an image your girl can really hurt your reputation if she's a whore I use Will Smith all the time you guys saw the red table when he's sitting there with with his wife Jada and she's like oh yeah we got into a entanglement or whatever the fuck yeah like Will Smith.
02:04:30.000Because in many countries, like, they take it super seriously and they want to do something, I don't know, weird things, like, they don't want to, how do you call it?
02:05:24.000In a lot of things, you can have good and bad, but I feel like what I've seen on TikTok and social media and stuff has been mostly bad, so that's not something I'm going to openly say, like, oh, I support that, because I don't know much about it either yet, so it's like, I don't know.
02:05:53.000Am I supposed to just, like, sit at home and, like, just, like, rot and just, like, open my legs for my man and cook for my man and just get my...
02:06:46.000Do you think your man care, your future man, your future dream man, do you think he's gonna be interested in your ability to earn money and have a career?
02:10:15.000Like, we have this idea in America and in the West in general where women think that they need to be happy at all times in their relationship or their marriage.
02:10:24.000And that's really not what marriage was about.
02:10:28.000You piss me off, I piss you off, but we're going to make this work, right?
02:10:31.000But women have such a priority on being happy and, you know, having this dream that they're willing to say, you know what, I can do better, and they go find another guy, because it's the women.
02:12:38.000But the point I'm trying to make is that, because you gave the example, oh, well, she should get her career and everything else because her man might divorce her.
02:12:44.000I'm saying, statistically speaking, that's very rare.
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02:24:31.000When you're getting on the TV and just saying a lot of manic things, I feel like it's just very manic, and I don't like the way that he addresses people.
02:25:49.000So, I mean, you know, obviously we have 20-20 hindsight now, but at the time, everyone thought they were guilty and they confessed, allegedly.
02:25:57.000Obviously they went ahead and retracted it, but...
02:25:59.000Okay, so you said that she's relatable and you don't get a bad vibe from her.
02:28:04.000Because here's the thing, as someone that worked in law enforcement for a decade, criminals don't care about the law, hence why they are criminals.
02:28:12.000So the criminals will always find a way to procure a weapon regardless of the law.
02:28:16.000It's the law-abiding citizens that get hurt when you do these restrictions and mandates.
02:28:20.000And the Appalachian shooting that you're mentioning, the only reason it was stopped is because there were two police officers there that were armed.
02:28:26.000But, you know, oh, and funny enough, Kamala actually wants to pull resource officers from schools as well.
02:28:32.000She said that it's not good to have armed personnel in schools.
02:30:39.000And people call me an asshole, but look, most of you guys aren't voting, and then the one or two girls that is voting is gonna vote for Kamala.
02:31:21.000She's not going to, so I'll just name him.
02:31:22.000He's going to be a lot harder on immigration.
02:31:24.000He's going to be a lot harder on immigration.
02:31:26.000He's going to close the borders down more than they are now.
02:31:28.000I wish he would be a little bit more strict on immigration, but he's going to do a lot better than Kamala, because Kamala actually is the one that the borders are right now.
02:31:38.000Increase tariffs on foreign countries so that they're going to have to pay more on duty when they import their stuff in, which is a revenue generator for the U.S. government.
02:31:45.000He's going to get rid of critical race theory and gay studies in school, basically.
02:31:54.000He's going to get rid of all that shit.
02:32:30.000And especially the new law that they came out with that basically, I believe it's in California, that they were talking about based if they want to be...
02:32:41.000Oh, the school doesn't have to tell the parents about the kid transitioning?
02:33:38.000But yeah, those are just some of the policies.
02:33:39.000And thank you for telling me that, because I'm not about to sit here and act like I know everything because I don't.
02:33:44.000Yeah, I mean, look, it's not just you.
02:33:46.000There's a lot of women that are like you, and we didn't mean to make you an example or something like that, but this is kind of what I realized.
02:33:51.000A lot of girls that are voting, they're just voting for Kamala because she's a woman.
02:33:54.000You're not choosing your vote, though.
02:34:08.00049er first round pick just got shot down in downtown San Francisco by some Nortenyo who had just gotten released three days before because of a gun charge.
02:35:29.000If you just don't take care of yourself and, I don't know, go to eat as a crazy and you don't take care of yourself, it doesn't matter about the age.
02:35:38.000It's about, like, how you maybe look like or take care of yourself.
02:35:42.000If you had to put an age on it, what would it be?