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00:02:48.000You guys know, I break down criminal cases on there.
00:02:51.000Right now, I'm covering the YNWMLE case.
00:02:52.000You guys know he's facing a death penalty for the double homicide of his two close friends.
00:02:58.000Recently, I think the other day that I covered, the undercover detective testified and the medical examiner that was involved that examined the bodies.
00:03:05.000But yeah, I'll probably live stream it again tomorrow morning.
00:03:07.000Because I don't think I'll sleep, so it is what it is.
00:03:32.000DM me the RNC Poxon on IG. Ladies, if your page has no photos, I will not respond to you if you respond to me because it's a waste of time.
00:15:35.000Yeah, I help them to be happy, to be happy in relationship, in life, to reach their fullest potential, and get rid of everything that blocks them from that.
00:18:27.000If he flew you out and he spent his money and his time and he entertained you, paid for your dates while you were there, the least you could do is give him some pussy.
00:18:59.000So my value of my time is more like expensive.
00:19:04.000Like I should be picky and careful on whom I spend to.
00:19:08.000And if I give you my time, it's already like a treasure, a gift, because I can choose one of the other.
00:19:13.000So does that mean that you don't respect the fact that the man spent his hard earned time and money to bring you out there in the first place?
00:19:42.000If you really genuinely think that there's some retarded shit to say.
00:19:47.000Do you think that your feminine energy is the equivalent of a man who spent his time and money to fly you out and spend his time to entertain you and pay for your time while you're there?
00:19:58.000Have you watched the movie where she was like a muse?
00:20:00.000Niggas, I'll give a fuck about that movie, nigga.
00:20:01.000No, like the girl, she has this nice tattoo muse.
00:20:04.000Like when she was just staying home and everybody was bringing her gifts and diamonds, like man gifts dying for her attention because she was inspiration, like.
00:20:14.000Real quick, because you're asking her this.
00:21:49.000I don't think it's obligated just because sometimes people genuinely pay for a good-looking company.
00:21:54.000Like, on everything, sometimes you see athletes and celebrities flying people out just to be photographed or have videos to post on socials.
00:22:05.000To be photographed like on some Jeffrey Dahmer shoot?
00:22:47.000Okay, listen, that's circumstantial because if you go and the guy's, like, a total, like, lame, like, whack, terrible time, not obligated whatsoever, even if he is a good time and, like, you guys end up hitting it off, still not obligated, but I mean, like, it would be expected.
00:23:41.000I'm not saying I would genuinely call you that, but I'm saying if I thought that, if my position on you was like, I really don't give a fuck about this bitch at this point.
00:23:49.000Because if I showed you a good time, I'd spend my whole...
00:23:52.000Because what Myron Fresh talk about all the time, you guys don't understand how much...
00:23:57.000You know, time and effort and, you know what I'm saying, work it takes for a man to even get to the position to be able to, one, to even get a girl's attention to want to fly her out, and then two, to have the money to actually buy it to fly her out.
00:24:08.000And then on top of it, have the time, you know, to even show her a good time while she's there while still being able to continue to make money at the same time and entertain her, and then you don't give me some pussy.
00:24:21.000Like, I just feel like girls don't even really understand what it takes for men to even get in the position to do that.
00:24:27.000So, like, for you to say that, you know, you're not obligated, you're right, you're not obligated.
00:24:32.000But I'm also not obligated to fly you back.
00:25:22.000Okay, so there is a situation where you can picture yourself going there, having a great time, you know, eating this nigga's food, you know, using up all his money, all this shit, and not giving him some pussy.
00:25:36.000You can see yourself doing that to somebody and not feeling no type of way about it.
00:26:45.000However, I do not think it's obligated.
00:26:49.000Um I think that like obviously if someone were to fly you out for me personally like I think it's a case-by-case basis but for me if I were to get on a plane to go see somebody and like alter my schedule to go spend time with somebody I would have to really like them so if I really like them maybe we would have sex like if that's what happened then yeah I mean like if that's what happened then we would have sex yeah But,
00:27:17.000like, I personally would never get on a plane for somebody that I'm, like, unsure about, which maybe when I get there, then we might not vibe, and then we might not have sex.
00:27:26.000I wouldn't put myself in that position to potentially not vibe.
00:30:54.000You're saying now if it's a different situation, I wouldn't be in that situation in the first place.
00:30:57.000If I didn't like you and I didn't want to be with you, I wouldn't have taken your offer in the first place.
00:31:02.000But you're asking if I was in that situation, I wouldn't be, but I'm saying if I was, yeah, I came back.
00:31:06.000But you just mentioned right now, regardless of the situation, you said that if you are getting flown out, you should know that you should be expected to get fucked.
00:31:24.000You're putting in another scenario now.
00:31:26.000I'm saying in my situation, I wouldn't go in the first place.
00:31:29.000You're saying now if I go and decide that that wouldn't happen because I wouldn't be there.
00:31:33.000You're saying if I was there now and I decided to change intentions, I'm saying like as me, that wouldn't happen because I wouldn't be there in the first place.
00:31:40.000You guys are asking me if I was, if I would pay him back.
00:33:04.000Like, look, I spent, you know how much I spent for these nails and manicure, pedicure, hair salon, cosmetologist, tooth cleaning, makeup, clothes, like, let alone, like, body products.
00:33:20.000Men really don't care about a lot of these things.
00:33:21.000Let's say that we are equal and we earn the same money.
00:33:25.000For me to go on vacation, you pack a couple of boxers, two pair of jeans, and, like, two t-shirts, shirts.
00:34:21.000And he's got to, like, give her material needs and she gives him everything.
00:34:25.000So men have to work a lot harder to attract women.
00:34:29.000If he wants to afford, not afford, like be around.
00:34:33.000Yeah, so men have to work a lot harder to be around women.
00:34:37.000Like, sexual energy moves the world around.
00:34:41.000If you didn't want, like, a pussy to save sex, like, the business wouldn't work, marketing wouldn't work.
00:34:48.000Let's make sense here, so that we don't go on a random tangent.
00:34:50.000All I'm simply asking is, you're saying, if he says, hey, I would like for you to, hey, it's okay, you don't have to hook up with me, but I'd like the money back, you would give it to him, but you would throw it in his face.
00:35:00.000And the reason for so, just so I understand this, is you're saying that your time is more valuable than his.
00:35:05.000Yeah, I will make him feel miserable for disrespecting my value.
00:35:39.000I understand your point, but what I'm saying is that you're throwing the money back at his face and you're saying the reason for throwing the money at his face is because you're saying your time is more valuable.
00:35:53.000I think I've explained that I spent more money on coming to you, beautiful.
00:35:58.000If you want to invite a cousin or a man like you or work with you, look like your brother, you come, you invite me because you like me.
00:36:09.000But you spent that money out of your choice, though.
00:36:54.000If you want to have a girl that listens to you and nice to you, like you are dominant, you can be a man next to her and open your shoulders and be her hero, be like a knight for her, like you want to give her and she gives you back like gratitude and appreciation and acknowledgement and what else man needs in life.
00:37:16.000It seems the only thing you left out on that list was pussy.
00:37:19.000And that's what we're really trying to get back to.
00:38:01.000If you're stupid enough to go ahead and pretend, Man, if we don't talk about it, I could probably work my way, wiggle my way, and then blame it on him, like you said.
00:38:11.000First of all, at the end of the day, yes, it costs money to maintain this, but it also costs money to fly a chick out.
00:38:17.000So if you want a guy to maintain you and take care of you, then you've got to put these things, the expectations on the table.
00:38:22.000If you want to play dumb and play the damsel in distress, then you're going to have to deal with that stuff.
00:38:28.000At the end of the day, if you return the money, don't throw it in his face, because he could easily just throw you out of the hotel room and say, find your way home.
00:38:36.000I mean, at the end of the day, be realistic.
00:38:39.000We're not in the 50s, we're not in the 60s, we're not in the 70s.
00:38:42.000If a guy invites and it's a joke, it's a running joke even in Miami.
00:40:19.000I'm not going to get involved in that situation if I don't like that man.
00:40:26.000Just imagine, if you think that man is a lame man and you're going to go to another stranger city with him, how can you expect him to be like your gay friend taking pictures of you?
00:40:39.000Do you think the picture is cute in the hotel?
00:40:43.000And when he's like, baby, can I have a kiss?
00:46:18.000I understand what you're saying, but you're saying that you believe in traditional gender roles, you believe in men being men, women being women, but what I'm saying is that you're not necessarily a traditional woman.
00:47:27.000But what I'm saying is that if you want a traditional man, he's probably going to want a traditional woman back and you're not traditional.
00:47:32.000When I'm with a man, I'm so traditional.
00:49:51.000It's like she's saying I can switch back when I feel like and it's like not really you're you're really you're gay like yeah you're that's what it is so okay that's fine uh make the rules as she goes uh did anyone else have anything I want to give the ladies another chance if they had anything to say Well,
00:50:13.000It was like, do you consider yourself a traditional woman, is what it was.
00:50:16.000Because I would argue that if you're an independent woman with a career, etc., you are no longer traditional.
00:50:23.000Because being traditional is staying at the house, taking care of your man, cooking and cleaning, prioritizing him, not chasing a career, not chasing an education.
00:50:31.000So you can't be independent while being traditional.
00:52:15.000Wyatt goes, ladies, if you were a man in today's society and you, allegedly, got a girl pregnant, would you get a DNA test and how would you deal with her objection?
00:54:21.000If it's a long-term relationship, yeah, I don't have a reason to.
00:54:24.000If a baby comes out completely like Chinese and he's African-American and I'm freaking whiter than white from Ireland, yeah, I'm going to have an issue.
00:54:33.000So you would only do it if the kid didn't look like you?
00:54:37.000If you started off rocky and you started off just being non-exclusive, then you became exclusive and the timing was a situation or you had a situation.
00:57:56.000You're going to see if it's different.
00:57:59.000Let me give you guys a law that we just learned today and then maybe let's see if that changes your answer.
00:58:04.000If you find out that the kid isn't yours and you've been the father of the child for, let's say, two, three, four, five years, you are still going to be expected to pay child support.
00:58:11.000Knowing that, would you get a DNA test at the beginning?
00:58:15.000Knowing that, would you get a DNA test in the beginning now?
00:59:51.000I'm going to say this, and I want to see what you ladies think about this.
00:59:54.000I've always said on this show, and people with feminists get mad at me for saying this shit, but I always say that women lack empathy.
00:59:59.000They have sympathy, but they lack empathy.
01:00:00.000And the difference is sympathy is just feeling sorry for someone.
01:00:03.000Empathy is the ability to empathize and understand where that person's coming from, being in their footsteps.
01:00:07.000I say all the time that men have to be empathetic to women that are good with women because for you to attract the girl, you have to know what she's feeling, where she is at a point in her life for you to be able to get laid, right?
01:00:17.000You have to be able to understand women to get laid as a man.
01:00:19.000However, women don't have to understand men to get attraction, attention, and resources for men to a degree.
01:00:24.000They just need to know what they want, make sure the guy coincides with that, and then they can pick and choose.
01:00:29.000But the guy has to definitely understand what the woman wants because he's got to plan a date, he's got to attract her, he's got to seduce her, everything else like that.
01:00:34.000Women get mad at me for saying this, but what do you guys take?
01:00:36.000I genuinely don't believe that women have empathy towards the male experience.
01:00:40.000However, men that are good with women, not all men, but men that are good with women, have to have empathy towards the female experience.
01:00:51.000I personally disagree from my side because I live with my dad and my dad always taught me to take yourself and put it in somebody else's shoes and see it from his point of view and how he's feeling and try to understand not from your emotional stand and just like see the bigger picture of what's going on.
01:01:17.000I'm saying a majority don't understand.
01:01:19.000Yeah, I feel like a lot of women just expect things and they don't take into consideration how a man's feeling and how he's dealing with everything and stuff like that.
01:01:33.000So you should put yourself in somebody else's shoes and take a minute, take a step back.
01:01:39.000But how can they, realistically speaking?
01:01:42.000I would say a woman and a man's life are very different.
01:03:46.000The difference between the two genders, how one gender has to understand the other to be successful, but the other gender really doesn't have to understand the other to be successful.
01:03:54.000No, I definitely feel like there is, like...
01:04:28.000To her point, I mean, it's fair to say the girls that are raised more around men, the same way the reverse when guys always talk about, you know, I'm stronger, actually, and I'm more masculine and more.
01:11:18.000Yoh Yeah, some guys talking shit all the time.
01:11:27.000I can't pick the weirdest, but there's one time I used the Chinese TikTok, and I have some friends in it, and one of my friends, he, like, texted me, DMed me for, like, a year, and I didn't reply, and he's doing the same thing.
01:11:44.000He found my mom, but he doesn't find my mom to talk about me.
01:11:49.000He talked about me at first and then he started to say, can he date my mom?
01:11:54.000Because he thinks my mom is rich and he wants to get money from my mom and he just tried to date my mom and talk Like, talk to my mom for like a whole month.
01:13:23.000No, but then he like he says he like writes music and the whole way there he just blasted like all of his like unreleased songs and like didn't are you sure he wasn't an artist they got rejected by certain art school in Austria I don't know.
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01:16:57.000My girlfriends are all gonna like die because they shit for sure.
01:17:01.000They for sure know so many of the stories, but I can't remember.
01:17:04.000The only one I can remember is because it still keeps going on.
01:17:07.000This guy still continues to this day, and it's probably going on seven years.
01:17:11.000Still reaches out to my friends because he keeps going and creating random accounts on Instagram, anywhere, and starts reaching out to all my friends, pretending like he's going to buy a property for me.
01:17:24.000I mean, this has been going on for like five, six years now.
01:22:10.000I literally swear like death threats, five minute voice notes, 45 missed calls, threatening my life telling me that karma is going to kick my ass and I'm going to like literally the weirdest shit ever.
01:24:57.000And then finally, I guess because they didn't know enough people, they paid somebody and what they ended up doing was they knew where they were going and they just cornered them off.
01:25:05.000So wait, y'all were there with two guys?
01:25:07.000With one of my closest friends and then his business partner.
01:25:11.000We met up out there because we were going to just hang out and stuff.
01:25:14.000I had girlfriends that were out there.
01:25:19.000They knew locals to know where they're going.
01:25:21.000There was three guys and I see them all running and the locals that are friends with our friends because they go there so many times because they're just high rollers and they're like down and they just literally got in the car and they just zoomed and I was like this is nuts.
01:27:36.000He was just writing me letters, and then he made, like, so he sent me multiple letters, and, like, the second one, he made a reference of, like, a golden, a golden blue goddess, and that's what I was for Halloween that year.
01:27:45.000So, I don't know how, like, I'm sure in jail they have connects, because, like, he saw stuff on my Instagram, I was referring stuff to my Instagram, but, like, he was like, I can't wait to come out and, like, and give you the life that you want.
01:28:00.000Like, my mom had, like, legal friends, and they're like, yeah, he's not gonna get out for a long time, so you don't have to worry about him.
01:28:05.000But we, like, searched him up and everything.
01:28:51.000And there was this one kid that I guess took an interest in me and one day like it was like well understood that I was going to be going up to my friend's dorm rooms because we were supposed to pre-game together and um this other kid the guy that Did the weird thing was sitting in there with my friends before and he had been like harassing them to like hang out with them for a while and turns out that the reason he wanted to hang out with them was to tell them and very vividly describe how he wanted to eat my ass.
01:29:25.000Without ever speaking to me, without ever having an encounter, like literally in passing maybe I had seen him, but I didn't even know who this guy was until I walked into the room because the guy thought it would be funny to keep him there until I got there and then be like, Hey,
01:29:40.000I want to introduce you to this X, Y, Z. I was like, hi, nice to meet you.
01:29:45.000He leaves, and then they tell me everything.
01:29:47.000I'm like, why the hell would you keep him here?
01:29:49.000If he thought that he could say that to you guys and think that he had a chance, now he's really going to think he has a chance if he actually met me.
01:29:56.000So out of all the girls there, he wouldn't eat your ass.
01:33:18.000Did you say, you know what, put him in jail?
01:33:20.000So, like, the policeman talked to him in his language because I wanted, like, to give him moral lesson and, like, you should not do this, like, you should apologize.
01:33:30.000But policeman has told me, Katerina, you cannot talk to the animals like a human.
01:33:34.000With animals, you have to use their language.
01:34:00.000So after that funny story that because like it's a small city all taxi driver they they were like usually taxi taxi taxi so annoying to the tourists nobody like start they stop bothering tourists so it was like very good for the city I felt like I make a big...
01:34:22.000Taxi drivers, they speak between themselves and they knew the situation so they stopped stalking girls and harassing girls.
01:34:30.000When I die, I'm proud of myself that I didn't do anything.
01:34:35.000There's one time I go back to home and I take a Uber and a Uber driver and he looked at me and he said, I wear the same shirt like this and he said, you got fake tits.
01:34:52.000I said, no, I didn't get a fake titty.
01:34:54.000He said, let me touch it so that I can tell if it's fake or not.
01:35:54.000I had a roommate in the US. He was like a male and like I met him as a friend but he obviously fell in love with me when I left because like I felt like his intention became...
01:39:26.000What's more important, a father's presence or his influence, i.e.
01:39:28.000a father that comes home twice a month because he's always working but makes all major decisions, or one that is always there but his wife makes decisions?
01:39:37.000If you follow the Andrew method, then you know for sure the one with the influence because twice a month, but he's respected.
01:40:32.000And he expected me off the bat to just, like, trust him and he would, like, complain that I don't trust him, but I'm like, trust is not given.
01:46:18.000I took the cup of water from him, but still, regardless, he knew the molly was in the water and he watched me take it and didn't say anything.
01:46:27.000Are you genuinely sure that cup was for him?
01:46:31.000Either way, it's a fucked up situation.
01:46:34.000That was her boyfriend, though, is what she's saying.
01:46:37.000I get that, but I'm saying you can't claim that he tried to drug you if you're also saying the same time that you...
01:46:43.000But he could have said, hey, don't drink that.
01:46:46.000But how did you find out that he drugged you, though?
01:46:49.000Because, like, I was doing my makeup and then I started to feel it.
01:46:52.000And I was like, I feel like I took drugs and I was like, I didn't take any drugs.
01:46:56.000And then he was like, oh, yeah, the cup of water.
01:46:58.000So do you feel like he intentionally drugged you?
01:47:00.000Wait, wait, did you hear how he said that?
01:47:01.000He goes, oh, yeah, that cup that you drank.
01:47:03.000Yeah, he's like, oh, I had Molly in it.
01:47:05.000So he intentionally drugged you, then?
01:48:50.000If you are, like, ever second-guessing anything, or if you're second-guessing yourself, or if you're just, like, always questioning the relationship, then the relationship is not for you.
01:49:00.000And I guess the second thing I would learn is don't be a girlfriend if you're not a girlfriend.
01:50:06.000I mean, at my core, like, of course you want to be the best girl you can be for this guy that you like, but, like, don't go above and beyond out of your way to be the best girl ever if this guy's...
01:50:19.000Having three of you, like, if there's three others of you in his life, you know?
01:50:24.000Like, I just don't think, I don't know, I personally learned, like, never forfeit other connections that you can, like, maybe form, never, like, adjust your schedule to fit his if, like, he's not committed to you.
01:50:39.000So you're saying, in a nutshell, if the guy is not fully committed to you, don't give him all your effort.
01:50:45.000Yes, and I think you'll know if he's not fully committed to you.
01:50:48.000Like if you're out here like, oh, is he committed to me?
01:50:51.000Like that question alone answers your question.
01:50:54.000If you're questioning the commitment level, then you are not his girlfriend and he is not your boyfriend and you're free to do whatever you want and he's free to do whatever he wants.
01:51:04.000If you want to go to Yale or Harvard, are they looking for a certain type of candidate?
01:51:11.000Yes, and that mindset is what I originally had.
01:51:27.000So, if you want to work at a prestigious law firm or go to a high-end school that everyone's applying to, wouldn't it be fair to say that you have to have exceptional performance?
01:52:55.000You can't teach an old dog new tricks.
01:52:58.000If you trained him that way, and you did this with the anticipation that you were going to be something, and you projected it, and you lied to yourself.
01:53:27.000Maybe today he's not giving me what I need, but tomorrow he will.
01:53:31.000This is what I mean when I say women give each other terrible fucking advice.
01:53:38.000What if I told you that if you had stuck it out, been a good girlfriend, stuck with him through all the bullshit, etc., and you just won the war of attrition, you more than likely would have gotten his commitment.
01:54:15.000And most of the people that I know and that know me can say that three of my exes have come back to me and said, I'm sorry because you did do the extended time, which is a waste of my time.
01:55:33.000Women typically want instant gratification.
01:55:35.000They want to be able to have a boyfriend that takes them seriously while simultaneously still being able to have certain options, have certain opportunities, etc.
01:55:42.000My thing is, if you show that you are different from other girls, show that you're committed, show that you're going to stand by him even if you find out that he's fucking other bitches or whatever, That would set you apart from a lot of girls.
01:55:52.000The thing is, a lot of girls have ego.
01:55:53.000They think that their value is higher than their man's.
01:55:56.000And the reality is, a lot of times, you can't do as better as you think you can.
01:55:59.000So what I'm saying is that if you want a guy that's top tier, that's extremely attractive, that has options, you're going to have to rise and be the cream of the crop from all the other girls and show that you're different.
01:56:07.000But the reality is, most girls have an over-inflated sense of self-worth, and they think that they can do better.
01:56:12.000Go back into the marketplace and think you can do better.
01:56:14.000But understand that you probably can't.
01:56:17.000No, I agree with your point, what you're saying, for sure.
01:56:20.000I think, honestly, was this guy, like, attractive, exceptional, had his shit together?
01:56:25.000Yeah, I mean, he was definitely had a shit together, attractive, tall, whatever, but...
01:56:29.000So, realistically speaking, like, if he's that guy, right, do you think you're going to find another hand fast and he could find another you?
01:56:38.000I mean, he hit me up, like, he recently hit me up.
01:56:41.000This was, like, two years ago, but he hit me up, like, you know, like...
01:56:48.000Yeah, I mean, that was my most, like, I don't do relationships.
01:56:52.000That was the last person that I committed myself to.
01:56:55.000But after that, like, recently, two years later, he, like, reached out to me and basically telling me, like, he has, like, he realized that I was very different from other people.
01:57:05.000And after he experienced other girls, he really, like, went through, like, this spiritual, like, basically awakening on, like, the type of man that he is.
01:57:14.000Like, that's basically what was described to me.
01:57:20.000I mean, yeah, but during that time period, it doesn't matter how good I would have been, he was in a completely different headspace than me.
01:57:30.000I suck it out for a very long, like, I would have just been cheated on and cheated on, like, I would have, and that would have been so hard for me.
01:57:36.000That's what comes with the game when you're with a winner.
01:57:37.000Like, that's one thing women need to understand.
01:57:39.000If you're with a dude that's tall, attractive, has the shit together, you think he's not gonna fuck other bitches?
01:57:44.000But then when you come out on the other side as the winner, the one that stuck it out, you're a shell of yourself, you're miserable, you're depressed.
01:57:52.000Not if you look at it from the correct way.
01:57:55.000The correct way is understanding that if you are with a man who is a winner, who is attractive, who makes a lot of money, and understanding that that comes with him fucking other girls, You and him can laugh at the girls that he's fucking with together.
01:58:11.000As opposed to looking at it like, oh my god, this nigga's disrespecting me.
01:58:16.000You guys could literally be looking at the girls that are trying to fuck him and be laughing at this bitch together for thinking that she has a chance to be in the position that you're in.
01:58:25.000Because you're the one who's going to be getting all the praise.
01:58:27.000You're the one who's going to be getting flown on trips.
01:58:29.000You're the one who's getting your nails paid, your rent paid, your bills paid, all those things.
01:58:33.000But she's not going to be getting any of that.
01:58:35.000All she's going to get is some dick and bubble gum.
01:58:37.000It's a valid point if you're both on the same page, but that's usually and typically not the case, because emotional connections do end up happening, and I think, in my personal opinion, if you are fucking other bitches...
01:59:03.000Without the lion telling you, by the way, I'm gonna eat you if you come in here, right?
01:59:07.000So it wouldn't be fair to say that you've got to exercise a little bit of common sense and discretion.
01:59:10.000Understand, if you're with a guy that's exceptional, that has more options and more levers than you, he's probably going to exercise those options?
01:59:18.000I understand that that's a valid point, and I get it, like, 100%.
01:59:21.000Yeah, so even if he's not honest with you and doesn't tell you up front, I want to fuck other bitches, it's probably going to happen, right?
02:01:44.000Now, what you're not understanding is because you haven't been there, you haven't experienced it, so you can't talk to it, but you have an opinion, which is fair.
02:01:52.000They come from a culture because this is something that they are trying to explain.
02:01:56.000But again, this is where empathy doesn't resonate with women or girls or younger girls.
02:02:10.000I think, what I'm basically saying is that if a girl gets with a guy who's very attractive, and you know he's attractive, and you know other women want him, he's probably gonna fuck other bitches, so it's better to just accept the reality.
02:02:21.000Hey, if you can find a guy that's tall, attractive, charming, has money, everything is gonna be monogamous to you, great, but the reality is you ain't gonna probably get him.
02:02:32.000Yeah, because the problem is that women think that they're equal to a higher status man, and the reality is you're not.
02:02:37.000How do you feel about the reverse when you see these old dudes with these hot ass chicks and then they get pissed off when they go and fuck a guy?
02:02:44.000Like an old guy that's with a younger girl?
02:02:47.000Maybe he's not in the billion status, but he's got millions and he's decent looking, he's better looking, and he's also younger.
02:02:58.000It's not the same as when a chick runs out and fucks a dude.
02:03:01.000It's like when a dude fucks another girl.
02:03:03.000A dude can love multiple women, but a woman can really only love one man.
02:03:23.000The reason why it's such an issue when a girl cheats is because it's the biggest form of treachery.
02:03:29.000So like, I get what you're saying, like you were offended, like he's cheating on me, whatever, but maybe you were his favorite girl, and then you walked out.
02:03:36.000I think it takes a certain type of woman.
02:03:39.000I mean, not respect is the wrong word, but you have to be a different type of girl to sleep at night with your man knowing that he's fucking other girls.
02:03:53.000You have to be a completely different type of girl.
02:04:07.000I mean, either way, I want to be, like, emotionally stimulated, but I'd rather be with, like, an average-looking man that emotionally stimulates me rather than somebody that's, like, super sexy and whatever, whatever.
02:05:08.000Bro, they just don't make money, go to school, become successful, be the fucking pinnacle to fuck one bitch.
02:05:13.000This is crazy to me how girls think, oh, be loyal to me, fuck out of here.
02:05:18.000I was loyal to my tribe, I was loyal to me, I was loyal to making money, becoming successful, being this guy that you would want in the first place.
02:05:23.000Then you want to sit here and tell me, oh, but no, don't have sex with other girls, that's fucked up.
02:05:39.000So you guys are not picking on you, but this is how women think in general, how you think like I deserve a top tier guy without dealing with top tier problems.
02:05:49.000The one thing, though, is, like, from this guy, I never expected him to do anything for me in terms of finance.
02:11:40.000I generally think some do because they talk about like, oh, I'm not just going to date a girl who's a bum and doesn't do anything for herself and doesn't care about herself.
02:12:19.000The exact answer, it was a long-winded and very emotional conversation, but basically like commitment, commitment and honesty, that was the main point of the conversation.
02:12:32.000Anywhere there's a career, money, maybe fitness, none of that, right?
02:12:38.000So how do you get the idea of you need all these things that McQueen just said?
02:12:42.000Well, again, there's a reason why I'm not with that person.
02:12:45.000Are you on some dumb machine right now?
02:17:06.000Yeah, it's also about, like, intentions.
02:17:08.000When she goes on a date to use the guy to cover up her needs, like, if she doesn't have a career, doesn't have money, like, to be her provider, like a sugar daddy, or just from abundance, because, like, she doesn't need to close her needs emotional or,
02:17:25.000like, any, but, like, because she likes him and she feels him.
02:20:09.000But a man is not going to care about that because it's already set in stone in the culture and biologically that he's going to be the one, by default, in the relationship, paying the bills.
02:20:20.000So why would you have to worry if he's going to be doing it?
02:20:23.000If we have kids in the future, if I make more money, which means that your pressure will be less.
02:22:15.000If you want a career, totally your prerogative.
02:22:18.000If you have a passion, totally your prerogative.
02:22:21.000To base a decision as to why he's going to date a chick is not going to be on that at all.
02:22:29.000Because you keep thinking like a woman, and you're not being empathetic to how things are spun, and how things are viewed, and the challenges that they see.
02:22:37.000So when you say you're the prize, in comparison to what they have to do to win over a girl, it's not like we're in the stone ages, where you just create a fucking stone, or you stir a fire and go...
02:22:59.000That is what's going to teach your child to be successful, to be strong, to be a man, or be a woman or a girl that goes for another one like him.
02:23:09.000It's called, I want to teach the same shit.
02:23:12.000That's what you're going to worry about.
02:23:14.000When you have a kid, you're going to understand that.
02:23:17.000You're going to say, I want a good father, like the question that was on there.
02:23:20.000Two times a week, but very successful, very supportive.
02:23:23.000It's going to show his influence for the rest of the life, for the next generation and the next generation.
02:23:28.000You guys have to stop thinking like this current culture.
02:24:08.000When I was looking at it, it was like 40k back in 2009.
02:24:10.000But yeah, I mean, if you spend that kind of money and time, of course you're going to expect the opposite gender to buy into your ego investment.
02:24:17.000But the reality is that if you went to fucking DeVry, a guy wouldn't care, bro.
02:27:00.000All I was doing was respect the fact that you're in the United States because it didn't work out over there, and I'm okay with that, and I said, enjoy your independence.
02:27:07.000At the end of the day, don't talk so much bullshit.
02:27:10.000You're here because you're independent.
02:27:12.000Yeah, well, she counseled herself, basically.
02:29:27.000Myron, could you do a reaction to Pearl's interview with the guy whose wife falsely accused him and kept him away from his kids for two years?
02:29:34.000It was really sad to watch these kind of stories need to be made public, addressed worldwide.
02:29:38.000We actually did talk about that on last show, man.
02:29:40.000You guys gotta watch the daytime show more, man.
02:30:02.000Young Johnson says, there's an old saying from New York Times bestselling book called City Boys to Be Up 1000 that goes, women will never know how a man really feels about them until after he busts a nut and not a moment before.
02:33:46.000Okay, so I just told someone a story yesterday where the last few people that I had dated was not all at the same time, but basically stats type of scenario, but a different business, different sector.
02:34:02.000I pretty much put them all in the same restaurant because they all wanted me to connect them with somebody else for financial gain on their part and I made them all see each other and then I made one person go to my present boyfriend's house and go, now you can sell them and make some money because basically I'm going to make sure you see me fucking that guy.
02:37:17.000Now, let's say that now, literally me, my best friend, and every other nigga that we are in contact with, now know that you are a fucking great a-whore.
02:38:08.000No, because even if in that one situation, if you fuck my best friend, even if that's just that one body, just the fact that it was my best friend makes you go from here even if you were...
02:38:32.000Do you remember in school when this girl was like, for example, the high school hole and nobody wanted to talk to her at all because she was considered the hole?
02:38:41.000You don't have to leave schools or leave the country.
02:39:57.000The question is, why did you say no to getting even by smashing another dude?
02:40:02.000Oh, because it's temporary gratification, and it's not long-term gratification.
02:40:07.000You might feel like an emotional release after, like, yeah, I just did this, that's his best friend, like, he would be so pissed off, but then that feeling later turns into, like, what did I just do?
02:40:28.000Do you think having sex with another guy is a good way to get even with an ex?
02:41:18.000So you're willing to decrease your value to get back?
02:41:20.000If I was with him for 10 years, like, what are we talking, like, straight out of med school, you have to go, like...
02:41:25.000I understand that, but would you not understand that, like, you even agree that increasing your body count lowers your value, so would you lower your value to try to get even?
02:46:40.000I met my husband when I was 24 and we got married when I was 29.
02:46:44.000At the time, I thought that this was like the ideal situation.
02:46:48.000I'm at the perfect age to get married.
02:46:50.000But what I realized was in the four years that we were married, I grew so much as a person.
02:46:56.000I graduated from business school, started my own business, I just became such a different person that I didn't feel like he was the best fit for me anymore.
02:47:05.000And I don't think I could have realized that at 29 when I said yes.
02:47:09.000If I could do it again, I would have allowed myself to have so much more growth in my life before I made a decision on a life partner.
02:47:16.000And it's really nothing against that partner specifically, but it was more about the direction that I wanted my life to take.
02:47:23.000My interests by 35 were unrecognizable to my younger self.
02:47:27.000And I don't think it would have been fair for me to take him on this journey if I didn't think that he was the right partner for the version of me that was to come.
02:50:30.000I think odds are she probably excelled in her career while he probably stayed stagnant and that turned her off and therefore she felt as if she outgrew him.
02:50:45.000I think it's just the basic story that happens like they didn't work out she got heartbroken so she just was like I'm gonna go be like the woman that like I should be and like be independent and chase the girl which is all great and stuff but I think that was just like because she got heartbroken that's like the backlash of just getting heartbroken everyone just wants to be better after Did that happen to you?
02:51:05.000No, I haven't had my heart broken yet.
02:51:13.000I don't think it was necessarily a case of heartbreak or anything.
02:51:19.000Maybe she just got bored and was ready for the next thing.
02:51:22.000I mean, you guys mentioned before that women like to dabble.
02:51:25.000I think this would be probably a prime example of that.
02:51:28.000Alright, so I don't think the ladies understood the womanese.
02:51:30.000Anytime I've seen a girl say, I outgrew him, nine out of ten times that means she, like, did better than him, made more money than him, rose up in her career faster, he maybe wasn't as ambitious as her.
02:51:42.000Because the thing is, is that, right, she's older, Yeah.
03:01:48.000I think it is a child that's like, oh damn, he's not going out, he's not seeking these things, not blowing money on girls, but it's just also a thing like, okay, do you have any friends?
03:04:10.000Because, uh, obviously, like, uh, like, my, um, like, if we, if we speak into, like, the tradition, like, the, the society aspect, okay, I have a really low body count and no cap, and, uh...
03:12:22.000The reason why I say that, ladies, is because if a guy's married to you and shit, he's not going to want you to have your body all over the internet.
03:18:23.000Black Panther goes, the women's response of thinking that women need to have money or status is what I was trying to allude to with my previous question.
03:18:30.000They all had their fathers in their lives, but a present father is useless without the authority.
03:18:57.000How are you from China, a primarily traditional country, and don't know the first thing about being attractive from a long-term perspective?
03:19:03.000Your family is weeping and you don't even know it.
03:19:17.000Because you're talking about career, making money, and all these things, which, I mean, you think men are sad for you.
03:19:24.000My parents, yeah, they, like, right now, I think sometimes they're really sad for me.
03:19:29.000Like, I don't know what's that question, like, want to ask me about.
03:19:33.000He's basically saying, how is it, the fact is that you are from China, and you don't know the first thing about being attractive from a long-term perspective.
03:19:51.000I have to ask, have you ever fucked a black guy?
03:24:45.000I cannot believe you didn't know that.
03:24:47.000No, seriously, like, I think I've also formed that opinion from friends in college, like, being with their girls, they're like, yo, this girl has nothing, like, for me, like, no career, no this, like, it's just...
03:24:59.000But do you see how girls give terrible advice to girls?
03:27:09.000No the career thing was also like and then the body count and I think the best friend what you guys actually provide versus what we provide is very very different.
03:27:18.000You should also learn not to get around in people's cars What about you?
03:27:27.000So I was so shocked So I was so shocked at how many amazing tools this place got.
03:27:37.000And I so wonder how long you want to bring this head out.
03:27:43.000Have you ever used that before in this show?