Former Marine Tells One Of The CRAZIEST Bedroom Story...
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3 hours and 5 minutes
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160.19951
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Summary
Austin Dunham joins us to talk about the latest in the Epstein and Trump scandal. We also have a special guest, Leanne Gates, join us for a quick Q&A segment. We talk about what it's like being a server, college, dating, and more.
Transcript
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Welcome to the Fresh Podcast After Hour Zion, man.
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Welcome to the Fresh Podcast After Hours edition.
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We're joining with Austin Dunham and some of the ladies.
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Just got done doing the debrief, as you guys know.
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Some photos came out with, you know, Trump and Epstein.
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I don't think I've done like a big deep dive for you guys into the botting issue in streaming.
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I know me and Fresh have talked about it a little bit, but it's a serious problem.
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And I don't think anyone's really done like a full-on analysis of this.
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So I'll do that tomorrow for you guys on this show.
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So guys, next week we're going to be in Phoenix, Arizona.
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Wednesday or Thursday, we're going to be out there.
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We're going to be there for America Fest turning point.
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As you guys know, it's going to be probably the biggest event.
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We're going to be there meeting people, doing debates, interviews, all that type of thing.
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So if you guys are going to go to Amfest, I'll see you guys there.
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Chris, man, the pedal smith is shot or whatever.
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And it's still going to fuck him, anyways, man.
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So, anyways, W panel, W Austin, W whatever, W's.
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I have content, you know, calling out for $4.99.
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If you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status.
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I was going to say, Goth is an interesting first name.
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I put all my DMs that I was accepting applications.
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Must hate Israel, mustache, mullet, and he swiped up.
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How about is there like a foundational term for white?
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I was in a long-term relationship with my baby daddy.
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And I think marriage is a very important thing.
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And he didn't want to get married to me even when I was pregnant with his child.
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You want to get buried that bad, get married that bad?
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But it took me long enough that I was like, hey, are you going to marry me?
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But what is that going to change, though, if you get married or not?
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I just, I just, it's just like almost like a respect thing for me.
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Like, it's just a really big, important thing for me to get married and take that vow.
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Were you doing the OF stuff like back then or now?
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So I have all my certifications to fix your car.
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I have a couple of projects, Jeeps, and then I have a 6640 Connel line that I work on.
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I'm originally from Chicago, Illinois, but I live in Houston.
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I am an artist, day trader, serial entrepreneur.
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What would you, what's your like predominant form of income?
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Basically teach people how to day trade, get them around the fire, basically.
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So you teach people how to day trade, and that's your main thing.
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What's your like, I guess, strongest out of the two?
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Couple hundred, hundred, not hundred thousand, but couple thousand.
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Especially when you've been doing it for some years.
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Radio, television, and broadcasting, video production.
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Just because I'm black, doesn't mean my mom and dad aren't together.
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REAL Royal Legacy Entertainment, and it was a gift from my label.
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Sometimes, like, he'll zoom in on a chick, and you can tell that it's being shown on the main screen.
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Well, born and raised in Osaka, Japan, but from Kansas.
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So you're from Kansas City originally, but then you lived in Japan for a while.
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My first name is Japanese, so that's why it's spelled like that.
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So you were born there, probably military-based, then you came back to Kansas City, then you went back again when you became in the military.
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Just what I've seen from Marine drill instructors, especially women.
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She was like, I'm about to drop and get you real quick.
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After I do this questionnaire, you go take over, bro.
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Culinary arts, bacon, and pastry arts, and I have a business management.
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If y'all want to count heads, you know what I'm saying?
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Okay, and then what's your racial background, black?
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I mean, I so your dad is black and Japanese, and what about your mom?
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Okay, so you got like a military family, like your dad, okay.
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You, your man, the Give You Kids, is in jail, and you don't want to say how he's in jail, but like, did you send him to jail yourself?
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I guess the drill structure we're getting drilled too.
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Did you come together with Miss Houston from Chicago?
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My people is Jamaican, so I get my color from my body.
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So you live in Houston, but you're originally from Alabama.
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Yeah, we went to high school, high school together.
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So, are you guys in a group together, or do you guys independently do your own music?
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We are solo artists as well, but we are saditty together.
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Can you give us like an example of one of your songs, real quick?
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You got some people watching, you know what I'm saying?
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I'm probably like we did one or two other times.
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I think if we've only done it once, guys, give it a game.
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Yeah, I'll say it because they're not a part of the 80.
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Whenever girls like perform or like our musicians, since Mo and Bills are both like very well versed in the music industry, that's the industry they came from.
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If it's 20%, it's the women that actually have some type of talent that are probably more than likely really musicians.
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And then if they say if he says 80, it means they're just fucking some nigga.
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So guys, ladies, you guys are really musicians according to Mo.
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I would say that was definitely not bad at all.
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That was like when we asked other people to sing and shit like that, they're like, I don't know.
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Myron and Twitter are going to think this clip is.
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Well, my dad's dead, but if he wasn't dead, they would be together.
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Well, you're black, but like, is it African-American or my peoples are Jamaican, yeah?
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No, my mom is Indian and Indian, black, and white.
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I remember coming on here late 2020, 2022, 2023.
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So it's good to see the progression and it's good to be back.
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As of right now, dating coach, I help guys attract better relationships online and keep them.
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And I only talk about what I've done in my own life.
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So at first, I started as a fitness coach, and then I got into self-improvement.
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And then now I do dating coaching full-time with a little side business on the side.
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Me, Myron, Fresh, we all agree on certain dating topics, especially in the Red Pill's face.
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And just so you guys know, we're actually going to bring Austin on next Wednesday, From Nizer Wednesday, and we're going to do a deep dive on the state of the Red Pill, what's going on, because there's been a lot of developments, you know, I would say over the past year or two since Trump's come in and everything else with kind of where we are.
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And we'll have a full-on discussion with dating dynamics now in 2025 versus going into 2026.
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And it's crazy how like every six months, the paradigm shifts a little bit, right?
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So I think it'll be a good discussion for sure.
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Also, it's been a while since we've chopped it up on that topic.
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And how's Miami been four years since coming here?
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Because, you know, visiting is one thing, but living here is totally different.
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A lot of access, cool people, restaurants, normal Miami shit, to be honest.
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But what I really like about it is the professional aspect of it in terms of people you can meet, you know?
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Versus Orlando, like I was around families and like just very famous people here all the time pretty easily.
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So that that's been they don't live here, but you'll run into them on vacation or some shit.
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You know, you said something really profound here.
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And I guess we can turn it to ladies after this because I know some girls are from here or like spend time here.
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You said that in Miami, since everyone kind of takes care of themselves and people here are generally pretty attractive, that doesn't carry as much weight as in other geographic locations.
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And I thought that was a very interesting way to look at it because I was like, oh, okay.
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So it's like more about, way more about status.
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I guess maybe for the audience out there that's watching because people always think like, you know, looks everything, looks everything.
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But I think at certain levels or certain places, it might not go as far as you think.
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And by the way, he made a video about this on TikTok and Instagram.
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So since living here for six months, I pay attention to the dating dynamics, what works, what doesn't, different things.
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And obviously we're in looks maxing culture right now.
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And so people would say, obviously, looks is the most, well, they would say looks is the most important.
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But living in this city, what I've noticed is that everybody's attractive, especially in my area, you know, Midtown, Edgewater, Brickle, so many attractive people.
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And what I found is whatever is common isn't rare, isn't unique.
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And so because everybody is attractive, it seems like there's another layer or element that goes a long way.
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And in Miami specifically, what I've noticed is that it's about who you know and like status signaling, to be honest.
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Not to say that looks doesn't help because it obviously does, depending on your dating strategy.
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But for the most part, you know, there's so many attractive guys and attractive girls, they're like desensitized to it.
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Like in Orlando, if I'm at the gym, I'm looking nice or even at a bar, girls will choose that, you know, they'll choose up, they'll look.
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But versus here, it's like, I feel like they see so many attractive guys that it's just, I mean, just another one.
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Like being a chat in LA won't go as far as you know what's crazy to say though, just at this point, if you have looks, some status, and personality, you can win over people that just have money and status.
00:55:31.000
Personality goes a long way now because everyone's the same pretty much.
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Do you have anything you want to question for the girls, Austin, to kick it off?
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So this, so I try to think of deeper questions, not surface-level stuff.
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So the first one is: what type of man do you want to be attracted to, but you're not?
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What type of man do you want to be attracted to, but not right now?
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What type of man do you want to be attracted to, but aren't?
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Well, you know, those guys that, like, you know, they got it going on for themselves.
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They seem like they might treat you really good, but they're just like corny.
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Like, because they're just so they just, I don't know.
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Is it like a nerd guy that just like yeah, like one of those, you know, he could probably treat me good.
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He got a good job, you know, but it's like something.
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Just so I make sure I have this right because that's a very good question you asked, Austin.
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So what type of man do you want to be attracted to but aren't, right?
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So you want to be attracted to guys that have their shit together but might be a little bit corny.
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But for you, the corniness overrides all their other redeeming factors.
00:57:07.000
Yeah, especially if you know it's levels to the corniness.
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I won't say it now because I'm going to ruin it if I say it right now.
00:57:15.000
So like a guy can have everything else right, but if he's corny or tacky, you'll lose attraction instantly.
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Not personally me, not instantly, but you're just going to go there.
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Just give me one example of what corny means to you Because that's actually a good point But what does corny mean to you?
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Let's say he's maybe five years behind fashionably.
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Is that something that would be like, come on, dude?
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That too, or even just like vocal, like conversational-wise, too.
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Like, or you're trying to be funny and you're not funny.
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Or you're trying to be somebody who you aren't.
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You're already turning me away because I could tell you not yourself.
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Because I've seen a lot of women complain that men don't dress well.
00:58:47.000
So, just to make sure I have this right, you want to be attracted to men with dreads, but just aren't.
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Somehow, when a man cut their dreads off, when a man cuts their dreads off, that's like the sexiest shit ever.
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As soon as I see a dread head, all I think is a wee man.
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So just to make sure I have this right, you want to be attracted to men with dreads, but you just can't do it.
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Were you originally attracted to men with dreads before, and then somebody just fucked it up for everybody else?
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And then you also have one bad experience with one guy.
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Something you're attracted to, or you want to be attracted to, but you aren't.
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Only because I feel like I haven't been focused on like men for real.
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So I don't even, my brain's not even there with the men.
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Okay, what's your type that you aren't, for example, that you want that is happening right now?
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I feel like somebody definitely with his shit together, definitely that can just, you know, come kind of on my same type of level and it just don't be happening because they don't be on my level.
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You think most guys that are put together are more boring, kind of like routine and not really like spontaneous for your industry?
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I mean, they might be, but at the same time, like in my industry, like I'm a regular person still too.
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Like routines, like, you know, you're talking about, you know?
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Just put together, but it's just, I just don't like the options that are, I guess, around.
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Not interesting, can't hold a conversation, emotionless, can't really read how you're moving.
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It's just like inexperience with women, basically.
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Like the guy might be smart, but just not socially calibrated.
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Like, that's the type of guy who you find trying to.
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I mean, sometimes I feel like, I feel like sometimes I even attract like.
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It seems to me like she's kind of in a similar boat as her friend.
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Like, she wants to be attracted to a guy that got their shit together and put up together.
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But the problem is that that kind of comes with, you know, stoicism, not being interesting.
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They don't have, they're not maybe as charismatic, right?
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Maybe a brilliant engineer, good with math, but they're boring.
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But they sit there on a date and they don't know what to talk about and they're weird.
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And I feel like also in a new city, too, it's kind of hard to really meet and connect with people.
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They're very kind of lit, but they're sometimes too focused sometimes, depending on who we're talking about.
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A man that you want to be attracted to, but you simply aren't.
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Like, if you want to go on vacation, I want to see the hard work that's put behind it and not just everything just given to me all at once.
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It's just something like they could give me everything I want right then and there, but I'd rather see a man work hard for everything he has.
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I mean, not saying that rich people don't work hard, obviously.
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But I'm saying, like, they could give me everything I want, like a car, you know, everything.
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But I want to see someone who's, you know, middle class work for it.
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You know, raise chickens, you know, the whole mine.
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I don't want to be on a jet plane going to Miami every day.
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And I want to make sure I clarify this because you probably have a follow-up to this, right?
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You want to be attracted to them, but you don't like how a lot of rich men move because they tend to not be blue-collar workers.
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You like seeing him get up, go outside, do some manual labor.
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So for you, you would want a millionaire farmer, maybe that owns a dairy farm with a bunch of cows and shit because they'd be making money versus a guy that is day trading.
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It just so happens that a lot of these blue-collar guys don't make that love love money.
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So she's more concerned with what it makes sense.
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Now, the people in the chat are saying you're capping.
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I date a blue-collar man who's a diesel mechanic in Texas.
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So you don't mind making more money than your man?
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I mean, if I could be a stay-at-home mother for the rest of my life, it'd be sick.
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Every single one of my exes are like 5'5, 5'6, and I'm six foot tall.
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I think we've seen, what's her name do that before?
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Or my head is held over the bed and I'm just getting it.
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So you want to be attracted to guys that are six feet, it just doesn't happen.
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I mean, I am, but like, dating-wise, they're all like, most of the ones I've met are like douchebags.
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So you wish you could be attracted to them, but it just always doesn't work out, I guess.
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Yeah, I'm attracted to the abusive little short kings, but yeah.
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What do you want to be attracted to, but you're simply not?
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I feel like someone that's like too successful.
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You want to be attracted to someone that's too successful.
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Yeah, but I'm really not because I know the way they move.
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You know, I feel like ones that are actually like successful and like rich and everything, they're not really going to be loyal to one person unless like he's the person they move under the oh, like Marin.
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Okay, so you want a guy that's super too successful or very successful, but you kind of know what comes with that.
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But what if the guy's money and he won't cheat?
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The original was: what type of man do you want to be attracted to, but you're not.
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And to recap, her, she said corny, like, but you know, they're attractive and they got their shit together, but they're corny.
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You said, similar to your friend, not socially calibrated, but have their shit together.
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You said him being rich, but you prefer a blue-collar worker.
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You said six foot tall, but just doesn't work out.
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And then for you, a successful guy, too successful, you should be attracted to it, but the problems of infidelity that come with it.
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So, what type of guy are you attracted to, but don't want to be?
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So, what type of guy are you attracted to, but you don't want to be?
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To keep it simple, like, you're attracted to it, but you know it's fucking toxic.
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So I don't want someone who's like really outside.
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Like, because he's saying, like, if he wants a toxic trait, like something bad, like you're attracted to it, but you know it's bad for you.
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That's what that's what you're trying to get at.
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Like, to me, that sounds like that's a good thing that they don't go out, but I mean, maybe I could be.
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Like, I have a bad problem with getting with guys that scam or sell drugs or, you know, or do drugs or they drink alcohol a lot.
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Think of something that you're attracted to, but you know it's toxic.
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Anyways, his mom still pays for His like insurance and stuff, kind of embarrassing because I pay for all my bills.
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Like, my parents have not paid for anything since I was 17.
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My parents have not paid for anything since I was 17.
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Like when a guy cannot pay for his own stuff, like his mommy has to do it.
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So you're attracted to mama's boys, but but it's but you know it's toxic for you and backfires.
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Yeah, but it's good with women because they're mommy's boys.
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Is the reason you're attracted to mommy boys up front is because they have some semblance of treating you like a lady?
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They so no, I guess maybe like at first, because it's like most narcissists that do it.
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So they they give you, they show you what they want you to see.
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And then, you know, three, four, five, six months in, all of a sudden it's completely opposite and it just never works out for me.
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So attractive upfront, how they have a deep respect for their mom, but then it becomes annoying at the end because that mom is also their supervisor.
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And it's one of those things where like I feel like a lot of quote-unquote mommy's boys, they learn to depend on a woman.
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So they think that when they start dating a woman, that woman should basically take care of them as their mom would.
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Because we've asked girls, like, hey, what's something a lot of times bad boys, drug dealers, scammers, whatever.
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That's a first where I'm attracted to mama's boys, but it comes back biting me in the ass.
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What is something that you're attracted to, but you know, it's toxic and fucks you up long term?
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And usually the people I meet are usually at bars.
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You know, I can't really be around alcoholics, but you know, I have kids free.
01:13:43.000
Whenever you're with white people, you got to go specific when you talk to white people.
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So it's like a hobby for a lot of people to be beer connoisseurs or wine connoisseurs, etc.
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Well, under what pretense do you meet these alcoholics?
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A lot of times you meet them at a wine tasting.
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You meet them at one of these craft beer launches.
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But if you're drinking, if you're drinking Coarse Light, never mind.
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They come off cool and social, and then you hang out with them more and you find out.
01:15:01.000
What is something that you're attracted to that you know is bad for you and always bites you later on?
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It's definitely the hood niggas, definitely the drug dealers.
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Like, no, I'm not trying to just see sending over here.
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And honestly, I feel like I don't meet my man at the places that I be.
01:15:57.000
Okay, so they do meet you outside of the club then.
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Because you said you don't meet them where you be at.
01:16:01.000
So I was trying to figure out how you meet them.
01:16:03.000
I feel like I meet a lot of niggas outside, like in the streets.
01:16:13.000
Maybe I should try the white tea boys, no more slams.
01:16:19.000
Where are you meeting them, though, realistically?
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Like, honestly, are you meeting them at the club?
01:16:32.000
Yeah, like just different clubs that be like in Houston or.
01:16:57.000
No, I wouldn't say I really like I'm what racist.
01:17:02.000
Like if you get some white chocolate, would you like that?
01:17:25.000
So your thing is you want a street dude criminal, but no, I don't want a criminal.
01:17:31.000
Well, street niggas are criminals by definition.
01:17:49.000
When I say street dude, we're talking about urban street dude, might be a scammer, might be a drug dealer.
01:17:54.000
We're not talking about Bob who embezzles from his company.
01:17:57.000
No, we are not talking about Bob who embezzles himself.
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Okay, so it's not the criminality you're attracted to.
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It's the urban culture that you're attracted to.
01:18:06.000
No, it'll be them as a person I'm attracted to.
01:18:09.000
And then I learn long, like later down the line who you really are.
01:18:32.000
Hey, if you does she want like a Bernie Madoff?
01:18:34.000
Is she okay with a Bernie Madoff type dude that's like, you know, embezzling money and scamming in that way or with a suit on or, you know, the dude selling the fucking packs?
01:19:33.000
Do you lick the ass after eating or before eating?
01:20:46.000
So, something that you're attracted to, but it's toxic.
01:20:49.000
So, do they tell you up front they're bisexual or I get it out of them?
01:21:10.000
What she's saying is, oh, no, I don't do that shit.
01:21:49.000
I'll be taking my turn, and if you want to think about it from the point of view of your point of view, is that like you want to see if it's going to go for it or not?
01:21:58.000
But other niggas, other niggas gonna think it's bi, but they be sitting there getting their ass credit park just like us.
01:22:09.000
I'm turning you over and you're going to ride in my face, too.
01:23:07.000
Y'all see my pictures, I'm bringing the internet.
01:23:33.000
So I guess this is a topic of like, I guess it depends on how you interpret it.
01:23:38.000
So just to be clear, your weakness, or sorry, the thing that you're attracted to, but you know is bad for you is you get with men.
01:23:50.000
You either talk him into I don't talk nobody into that's weird.
01:24:03.000
I'm really trying to clarify this because it's very important.
01:24:06.000
So just to make sure I have this right, you get with them.
01:24:11.000
You either talk them into it or they bring it up.
01:24:14.000
And in your eyes, if you actually engage in this ass eating or whatever it is, in your eyes, you look at them as they're bisexual automatically.
01:24:41.000
But they're not hooking up with or attracted to men, though.
01:24:44.000
They ain't none of my business because I don't pay my bills.
01:24:49.000
Have you ever been with a guy where you did the tongue shit, then you found out he also is attracted to men?
01:24:54.000
I don't make it my job to find out what they do.
01:25:22.000
The reason why I'm clarifying this is because I've always said, you know, I don't, I think women, right, if they're bisexual, it adds to their repertoire.
01:25:33.000
I don't think most women will be okay knowing that their partner sleeps with other men or engages in sexual activity with men.
01:25:40.000
So I'm under the belief, and you guys can, if you disagree with me, I don't think there's a such thing as a guy being bisexual.
01:25:48.000
And the reason why is because if you derive sexual satisfaction from having sex with men, why would you bother with women?
01:25:59.000
So if you can get the same sexual satisfaction from men, I don't think most guys that actually derive that pleasure from men would bother with even dealing with women.
01:26:07.000
But you're saying these guys on paper are heterosexual, but you come to the conclusion that you think they're bisexual because they allow you to do the tongue thing.
01:26:21.000
I just wanted to clarify that because that's a big difference.
01:26:24.000
I mean, the butthole thing is still weird, but it's not like brazen bisexuality versus like dudes that, oh, I do both.
01:26:31.000
I go to gay clubs and I go to straight clubs because that's hard to find.
01:26:33.000
I don't think there's many bisexual men that are able to double dip like that because I would argue most women, if they found out you're bisexual, you're close.
01:26:58.000
I just want to say, women that eat ass are like monster eaters.
01:27:26.000
So, something that you're attracted to, but it's toxic.
01:27:47.000
I don't want to just say like, like, good niggas, but like, okay.
01:27:52.000
You and your friend aren't basically identical.
01:28:03.000
You don't really have anything going on for yourself, real, but they be kind of fine.
01:28:14.000
So sometimes broke pretty boys is what you like it, but you know it's bad for you.
01:28:19.000
Unfortunately, I don't usually know they're broke, though, but yes.
01:28:33.000
But you're saying, okay, so broke pretty boys, but up front, you don't know they're broke yet, right?
01:28:43.000
You don't do too much research on how financially secure they are.
01:28:47.000
Well, I mean, people look good on the internet.
01:28:59.000
You know how you get to dating somebody and you get to know them for real?
01:29:02.000
And you know them better than the internet now.
01:29:05.000
So you're like, oh, you ain't even really got nothing going on for real.
01:29:07.000
Okay, so your weakness is flashy guys that put out a mirage and then you find out later on that they're not really like that.
01:29:20.000
So she falls with the scammer niggas at Rental Lambos on the shit.
01:29:28.000
But I'm a day trader now, so I try to go away from that.
01:29:43.000
And this was like the last time remember I said I didn't want to interrupt anything or ruin it.
01:29:48.000
Like your thing that you wish I was that you wish you were attracted to, but you're not because they're corny.
01:29:53.000
And then you said something very similar where it's like they don't have social calibration.
01:30:02.000
Women care a lot about your style, your persona.
01:30:07.000
And if you come off like corny or tacky to them, I notice like they're the most punishing group of women for that.
01:30:14.000
Like, and I know you know exactly what I'm talking about.
01:30:17.000
Like, if you're with a white girl, right, and you're a little corny or a little bit nerdy or you have peculiar habits, you could get a little bit further away with it.
01:30:25.000
But like with black women, I've noticed like if you do some corny shit, you drop off an attraction.
01:30:38.000
Like, you got to come with a little bit of sauce.
01:30:49.000
Unless she's a whitewashed black woman, though.
01:30:55.000
This is something that I really want, and I wanted to make sure we got through all the questions, but this is something I've noticed almost exclusively with either black women or even white girls or Hispanic girls that are like kind of more urban.
01:31:05.000
Yeah, like they will override, sorry, they will write off a guy who is attractive and has money if he's not cool.
01:31:13.000
And if you're well-spoken, if you dress well, European style, they're like, oh, this thing is too much.
01:31:28.000
Like, yeah, I can't even think of a good example.
01:31:32.000
Like, she gave a really corny joke in the beginning.
01:31:34.000
Like, you would hate that if a dude tried that with you, probably.
01:31:41.000
But if he has everything with him, though, too, you know, it's still like, it's doable.
01:31:47.000
He's saying other races for the most part that are not urban, Wasino, are slight because he's still cool.
01:31:53.000
Black women are kind of harder on men because black men, especially because like they're not cool or swaggy.
01:31:58.000
I'll put it this way: what I've noticed with black women is they care, at least compared to other groups of women, they care the most about looks.
01:32:06.000
That tends to be a very important factor for a lot of black women.
01:32:10.000
I think it's because they grow up fairly masculine in a masculine.
01:32:15.000
You know, there's no father in the household, etc.
01:32:23.000
Well, it's pervasive in the culture, is my point.
01:32:25.000
You have your father, but it's still very within the culture.
01:32:29.000
Like, black women put a higher regard on physical attractiveness of men, how they dress alongside swagger, how they upkeep themselves, you know, looking good.
01:32:40.000
It goes further with looks I've noticed with black women than like other groups of women.
01:32:45.000
And you guys have less tolerance for corniness than other groups of women.
01:33:00.000
You can be goofy, but don't say dumbass, corny, like that's being goofy, though.
01:33:09.000
Yeah, everyone finds an example of what's corny for the audience.
01:33:24.000
Like always trying to just, oh, like a dude who be counting money in front of bitches and shit.
01:33:35.000
We can tell you're trying to be somebody who's not a bad person.
01:33:54.000
You guys aren't attracted to that as our library.
01:34:13.000
I mean, you have everything you want to follow up on or not.
01:34:31.000
Okay, Demon Time, can you give us a demonstration of how you would yell at the new military?
01:34:45.000
Did you mostly like yell at the women like this?
01:34:49.000
Okay, so you were a joe instructor specifically mostly for women.
01:34:58.000
They be fucking up too, so we could be yelling them too.
01:35:22.000
That's how you know they're gay when they take up the ass.
01:35:25.000
Because I'm assuming, like, during boot camp, they separate the genders, right?
01:35:30.000
So you probably were mostly with the female infrastructure.
01:35:34.000
What are your thoughts on men that don't want to court or take women out on dates?
01:35:38.000
But just get right to the nitty-gritty and bring them home to Netflix and show on the first night.
01:35:43.000
Not a one-light stand, but depending on how it goes, he'll keep her around to fuck her, or he'll commit to her.
01:35:50.000
So what are your thoughts on men that don't want to go on dates?
01:35:56.000
If you letting me know this is what you want to do, I can respect it.
01:36:02.000
If I want to get with that, I'm going to get with that.
01:36:05.000
But I can respect it just for you being up front.
01:36:07.000
Because a lot of men are not going to let you know that you're trying to do X, Y, and Z.
01:36:11.000
They try to act like they're doing some extra shit.
01:36:27.000
I think if a girl sees potential in you, she will break some of her rules.
01:36:33.000
But, you know, the lower your sexual market value, the more you can't afford to make mistakes versus the more attractive you are, the more you can't afford to make mistakes or take shortcuts.
01:36:49.000
This question is for the tongue split tattoo OF3Hill 4.
01:36:52.000
Since you work on Jeep specifically, you have a 2016 Jeep Wrangler Edition that needs ABS, an ABS module replaced, but just the circuit portion.
01:37:01.000
Do you know a good website that sells Jeep Wrangler parts at a good price since you're a quote mechanic?
01:37:07.000
I mean, you could literally go anywhere if you're looking for a module part.
01:37:20.000
I mean, if, I mean, take out the whole circuit if you really want it replaced.
01:37:33.000
Cash says, tattoo trailer park reject does not belong on a PJ.
01:37:56.000
Can I get a hell yeah for my wiggers in the chat?
01:38:18.000
Wait, I got 20 on the Marie chipping out and getting canceled.
01:38:27.000
Yo, you would really tell like fat girls like, hey, you fat bitch, you get dropped down?
01:38:37.000
I mean, if she told me to do something, I'd probably do it.
01:38:41.000
Like, how hard can you be on them since they're women?
01:38:52.000
What was one of the instructions you gave that would always piss them off or fucked them up the most?
01:38:57.000
Killing them on the quarter deck, like making them do wall sits.
01:39:02.000
And Sampit, you do knee highs in Sampit with 200 pounds of gear on your back.
01:39:09.000
Oh, sand getting your shoes and your eyes and stuff.
01:39:14.000
I dropkicked someone with two feet in the air before.
01:39:30.000
So you're telling me you got the fucking fatigue pants on with the big ass boots and the green shirt and the hat like this.
01:39:37.000
Can you fucking jump up and drop kick somebody?
01:39:41.000
I had to walk and run back and then do a run and start and kick their ass.
01:39:53.000
just like that just like that just like that just anybody who's a marine knows exactly what i'm talking about So you can spit and dropkick people.
01:40:14.000
Yeah, and they were shooting and they wouldn't stop?
01:40:17.000
It don't matter if it was one round afterwards or not.
01:40:26.000
The flagging is when they saw the swing and they, yeah.
01:40:29.000
And then did you dropkick them right then and there?
01:40:33.000
No, it took like 30 seconds because I said, hold them.
01:40:59.000
I worked at law enforcement, so I get it like, you know, was it rifle shooting?
01:41:08.000
So y'all are on her big-ass range, outdoors, obviously.
01:41:29.000
They didn't know I was going to do that, though.
01:41:37.000
The two Marines that are shooting at the next rows grab them by the arms.
01:41:42.000
You walk up, you yell at them, and then you literally jump.
01:42:45.000
So, so chest on your, like you're lying your ass off.
01:42:58.000
The email division is crazy, which I'll pop your body.
01:43:28.000
The Jeep question is to guess your insider information since you work on Jeep, since the ABS modules are out of stock nationwide.
01:43:35.000
Like, I'm supposed to know they're out of stock.
01:43:43.000
Do you have like a specific car brand that you work with specifically?
01:43:59.000
Anybody in the Army, Army stands for not ready to be Marines yet.
01:44:04.000
Whoever the fuck is in the Army, we don't play with y'all.
01:44:15.000
Well, look, I'm like in the middle because I'm like, okay, like shooting when you're not supposed to shoot, that is a big deal.
01:44:21.000
Like you will get, whether it's law enforcement training, military training, you're on the firing line.
01:44:24.000
They say cease fire, you still shoot, nigga, you're going to get fucked up.
01:44:27.000
So I could see why there would be a retaliation.
01:44:32.000
But like for them to get up and hold them and then you just come in and you fucking bang and dropkick them?
01:44:57.000
Hey, man, any of you niggas here that are Marines, let us know.
01:45:25.000
Cat says, the three ship she boons is a constant reminder that Lincoln really fucked up.
01:45:34.000
I'm going to open my ass and I'm going to kiss it right now.
01:45:47.000
And then we'll pose it to her and you can see how valid she is.
01:45:53.000
I see a couple guys here saying where I'm a Marine.
01:45:55.000
So Marine niggas or former Marine, ask Marine questions so you guys could verify because that is a crazy story.
01:46:14.000
I'm trying to cool that within their group then.
01:46:26.000
I was in Air Force RTC, so it's totally, totally different.
01:46:34.000
Based on what she's told me, I low-key believe her, bro.
01:46:50.000
She was drop kicking niggas for decades, I guess.
01:47:10.000
And you know, you're supposed to see a sniper, whoever said that.
01:47:14.000
T-Ray says, not liking dreads, but have a hair hat is crazy.
01:47:34.000
How are you scared of dogs, though, but you a Marine?
01:47:42.000
No, I didn't see dogs eating dead bodies and stuff, though.
01:48:17.000
Some niggas are saying, no, she's telling the truth, facts.
01:48:28.000
Rumble Rant in or sending questions if you guys are Rogue Viper.
01:48:31.000
He says, if I eat the box of a woman who slept with over 2,000 men, does that make me gay?
01:48:40.000
You want to care about this for these seconds, bro?
01:48:45.000
I mean, this shit probably tastes good as fuck.
01:48:53.000
And she told a story about how, you know, she's fucking this guy, whatever.
01:49:03.000
First of all, I didn't even hear that shit, bro.
01:49:09.000
Then, I see comments saying, oh, Fresh ate the box.
01:49:20.000
So I asked her, yo, do you tell them I ate your box?
01:49:29.000
So, chat, just so you guys know, bro, I need a box.
01:49:34.000
I don't know what to talk about over there, nigga, but I didn't eat a box.
01:49:50.000
I think that should be reserved for a woman who you have fairly vetted out for at least six months to a year.
01:49:56.000
And you clearly know what she's doing when she's not around you.
01:50:15.000
I'll create pie, but I won't eat a box, though.
01:50:28.000
Look, this is going to be fucked up, but I'm just going to say it anyway.
01:50:31.000
What I've realized that with a lot of guys that eat the box is to make up for a lack of sexual market value.
01:50:35.000
So it's like the guy isn't necessarily maybe on the girl's level, or he lucked out and got this girl.
01:50:42.000
And one of the ways that he has to compensate for a lower sexual market value is by prioritizing her pleasure during sex.
01:50:48.000
When I think it should actually be the other way around, I think women should be doing that.
01:50:52.000
They should be prioritizing your pleasure from the sex because you're the prize in my eyes.
01:50:58.000
But let's be honest, a lot of guys, their girl carries way more sexual value than way more sexual market value than they do.
01:51:04.000
Most guys typically end up with a girl that they're just happy to be with and will do anything to keep.
01:51:15.000
I don't like my ass getting eaten, but I will eat the dude's ass.
01:51:20.000
Well, I was talking about eating with everybody.
01:51:37.000
She doesn't like for the man to be in a subordinate position.
01:51:42.000
I don't like a man to show their feminism as much as some of my past guys that I've been with have.
01:51:53.000
Yeah, I think as a guy, especially if you guys are shit together, you shouldn't be eating boxes.
01:51:57.000
I think it's a declaration of weakness, in my opinion.
01:51:59.000
I know a lot of people would get mad at me when I say that, but so you think they should be giving dick versus the box.
01:52:06.000
They need to be giving dick instead of the box.
01:52:17.000
So assuming, right, the man is doing what I suggest, which is you're coming in as competent, fit, makes more money than her, have your shit together.
01:52:28.000
I don't think it's appropriate for you to be engaging in oral sex with a woman because what you're personifying in the sexual act is I'm a subordinate to you.
01:52:40.000
I mean, well, I mean, if you think that that's how you interpret it, I think as the man, you shouldn't be subjecting yourself to that because getting sexual pleasure, right, is a woman's job for her man.
01:52:53.000
I don't think a man has a duty to sexually please his girl, but a girl absolutely has a sexual duty to please her man.
01:53:04.000
And there's a reason why I have this view, right?
01:53:08.000
And maybe, let's say the dick isn't that great, right?
01:53:16.000
Like, men can kind of make up for their deficiencies, right?
01:53:20.000
But women, if they suck at sex or if they're not pleasing your guy, there's not really much more you can do.
01:53:30.000
It's not an email, it's a big power, but it's only one thing.
01:53:34.000
At least with men, like you can get value from us in other ways outside of your sexuality.
01:53:38.000
So even if the guy isn't eating your box, he can still please you in other ways.
01:53:45.000
So that's why I look at sex as a woman's duty, not necessarily a man's duty.
01:53:51.000
I think it's more along the lines of we already have to bring so much more to the table than women do.
01:54:01.000
I can't eat so much box because what about women that eat dudes' asses if like a guy asks for it?
01:54:13.000
I just, I'm just wondering what you guys thought of it.
01:54:15.000
Yeah, I just, I think if a guy says eat my ass, I think you should really question.
01:54:22.000
I just wanted to make sure that I wasn't wrong on my intuition.
01:54:41.000
There's one time where I'll give you like a pass.
01:54:43.000
Is if your actual chick disrespected you and you want to make her pay for it.
01:55:07.000
Some of the YouTuber mentioned that if it goes, you gotta mention paying for that shit, though.
01:55:13.000
I don't know how you do that, but hey, I get it, I guess.
01:55:21.000
I mean, if it's for like for my profession, obviously, I've had scenes where I actually have to eat ass.
01:55:29.000
Like, with porn stars, it's different because we're, I mean, porn stars are pretty clean, in my opinion.
01:55:36.000
We pay like $500 to get tested every two weeks.
01:56:01.000
On this show, we teach women to stay away from the blacks if they don't want to become forever tainted and continue to get pumped and dumped.
01:56:07.000
But tonight, since we have Austin on the show, we will make a rare exception for you, Mud Sharks.
01:56:21.000
All right, Chris, I'm bringing girls from Chinatown.
01:56:28.000
Anyways, ratings for these sewer rats from Fresh.
01:56:55.000
I was going to say, you can take that matchup, man.
01:57:03.000
If you're going to roast me, at least make it that.
01:58:39.000
All the time they said he just came at me at one time.
01:58:52.000
And yo, tell the nigga Rilla, get the fuck out of here.
01:59:09.000
Zaitosin wanted to say congratulations on this accomplishment so far.
01:59:14.000
And from now on, every female should come on the real hair.
01:59:21.000
I can talk about whatever the fuck I want to talk about.
01:59:38.000
Because Saddy can do whatever the fuck we want.
01:59:51.000
It's just more, it's time convenience type of thing.
02:00:09.000
It depends on how the calendar is, but you know.
02:00:20.000
Yeah, oh, you better scroll on that shit and look through it.
02:00:38.000
Right, do y'all want pictures of the real hair?
02:00:44.000
All right, he said, you said Jeep specialists earlier, bro.
02:00:49.000
Forgot my line of questioning and stick to your OnlyFans career, please.
02:00:53.000
I was an FMF corpseman on Edson Range, and the kill hats would fuck these recruits up, and I would have to patch them up.
02:01:30.000
And just so y'all know, all these chats come from Castle Club, bro.
02:01:32.000
So if you guys want to get involved in the show, you put memes and shit like that.
02:01:36.000
Which, by the way, we're going to have a Zoom call with Austin next week, by the way, too.
02:01:38.000
We're going to cover dating and shit like that with y'all.
02:01:46.000
Cheeseburger actual says, if you ain't infantry, you ain't shit.
02:02:03.000
Security forces MP, Pooh Falcon, most hated job out there.
02:02:16.000
We used to grapple like a motherfucker in the field.
02:02:21.000
So it seems like people are saying she was dropkicking niggas.
02:02:29.000
Granted, I guess it was before the military got woke.
02:02:35.000
All right, we got their questions here as well.
02:02:58.000
All right, so ladies, we have a question here from the first uh portion of the show, and Austin, these are for you.
02:03:04.000
So, we asked a question: uh, why do men feel they need to multiple they need multiple women that they can't take care of, i.e., Paulie?
02:03:12.000
Okay, so why do men feel they need multiple women?
02:03:20.000
No, no, we'll have, no, I'll have you answer all the questions.
02:03:22.000
So, once again, why do men feel they need multiple women that they can't take care of?
02:03:28.000
I'm not sure about the reason why they can't take care of it.
02:03:31.000
I can answer why guys feel like they want multiple women.
02:03:35.000
Um, it usually comes down to a biological desire, and if the guy has the option to do so, he's usually going to try to exercise that versus the guys who can't usually won't or will have copes about not wanting to do so.
02:03:49.000
You know, I believe the guy who doesn't, it takes a certain level of discipline and maturity through time in which he realizes the opportunity cost of dealing with multiple women isn't worth whatever he might potentially lose with the woman he's seeing long term.
02:04:06.000
But deep down, most guys, 95% of them, would like to exercise their options, you know, even if they can't take care of the women.
02:04:19.000
Um, you know, we've talked a lot about the 80-20, 20% of men are having, you know, hooking up with majority of the women.
02:04:24.000
Uh, do you think that number has increased or decreased, in your opinion, based on the clientele, you being versed in this world, um, speaking with clients, et cetera?
02:04:36.000
Uh, honestly, I think it's about the same, to be honest.
02:04:38.000
I don't think okay, so you still think it's around 20%?
02:04:46.000
I think it may maybe went down even a little bit more.
02:04:50.000
I just like as technology gets better and Instagram and TikTok become more and more prominent, man.
02:04:58.000
And then, like, the other thing that has me very alarmed is like the rapid progression of AI with women.
02:05:05.000
That's been one of my things I've been keeping an eye on.
02:05:07.000
And, like, as I see it advance more and more year by year, because it's like going way faster than I thought.
02:05:12.000
I thought 50 to 100 years, this AI thing would solve the problem.
02:05:16.000
Dude, I see it happening in the next one to two decades.
02:05:27.000
Then as Instagram got worse, whatever, I was like, okay, maybe it's 10.
02:05:31.000
Now that I see how fast AI is coming, the speed at which AI is progressing to me is indicative of more and more guys are being left out.
02:05:44.000
She has more followers than most OnlyFans girls and makes more money than all of them combined.
02:05:59.000
It's hard to quantify that in a data-driven sort of statistic.
02:06:05.000
It'd be unethical and fucked up and misogynistic.
02:06:08.000
Yeah, but I think the top 10% of guys, the guys who max out everything, the guys who have the status, have the looks, have at least a combination of different elements that make them appealing and attractive, those guys are going to win.
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And those guys are the guys who have been winning for sure.
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You need multiple variations of that or all if you can, for sure.
02:06:30.000
But look, it's the top 10% of guys who also exercise the options of multiple women, but also they are the ones who desire mostly the multiple women versus the guys in the bottom 80, 70%.
02:06:46.000
They want one good girl to go home to and have a relationship with based on what I've seen in the clients that I coach too.
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So the majority come to you saying, I want a girlfriend versus I just want to fuck a bunch of bitches.
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As always, they want a girlfriend or somebody to take serious.
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It's very rarely that the guys just wants a rotation or like multiple women.
02:07:15.000
Why do men do things like fly women out when they can't even afford to keep up with the expectations of the trip in general?
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Why do men do things like fly women out when they can't even afford to keep up with their expectations for the trip in general?
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And whoever wrote that, that likely happened to them when they started writing about it.
02:08:20.000
How do you guys decide who deserves consistent access?
02:08:29.000
How do you guys deserve or decide who deserves access?
02:08:36.000
Can you clarify what access means specifically?
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Are we talking about access to relationship, access to his network, access to his family?
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Yeah, I think it's the woman who provides the most value to him.
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Most women, when you meet them, date them, they really don't do much.
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They just show up to the date, look pretty, don't do anything.
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But the woman who provides value to that man's life helps him out, see his blind spots, his weaknesses.
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That woman is going to get the most from the men, including his time, for sure.
02:09:17.000
It's not often that we get someone in that's very educated about this topic.
02:09:19.000
Can you please, since we got Austin here, clarify the top three things that a woman, a typical woman, would want access to?
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So he can go and really, because access generally, I get it.
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Like, hey, generally, but like, let's be honest.
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Girls typically have a hierarchy of the top three things they want access to.
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Access to, you know, living with him, being with him.
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Like, being there when he's doing a business meeting, being there when you travel, like, when he's traveling.
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I like that, but like, yeah, like, in the middle.
02:10:04.000
Basically, what does it take to be like the sidekick to be around him when a lot of these things are going down?
02:10:12.000
I know it sounds fucked up, but like, that's literally what I'm saying on psychic.
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Is that what you, would that be fair to say or no?
02:10:39.000
I mean, he's only like you just get like smashing.
02:10:42.000
All right, let me ask you this then to really clarify this because this will be the icebreaker.
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Do you mean access when he's with other women, too?
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Because I'm talking about because here's the thing.
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I mean, I'm trying to figure this out because a lot of women want access, but they're not willing to tolerate dealing with said access.
02:11:10.000
They want the access, but then they get the access and they get pissed off.
02:11:15.000
I'm going to bring you into my frame, but I'm going to have sex with other girls.
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Like, are you willing to really want that level of access is my question.
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Like, they feel like they need more girls to be happy.
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Are you willing to get less access from him because you're not willing to help him with that part of his life?
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Because some girls, it might piss them off, but it'll piss them off more not like not being involved.
02:12:01.000
Because a lot of girls will sit there and be like, well, I don't care if my man fucks other bitches.
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All right, let me go around with the rest of the ladies on the table.
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Look, as much as we're clowning her for the question, it actually is a good question.
02:12:36.000
Women will sit there and say, oh, he's distant.
02:12:40.000
I think a big reason why men don't give women access, assuming they do everything right, of course, is they don't want the woman to see unflattering sides of what he does, especially with other women, right?
02:12:50.000
Like they always say, a man that really loves you isn't going to show you everything, right?
02:12:54.000
Versus full transparency because women are emotional.
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So my question is for you ladies here that, you know, because a lot of women have this gripe.
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Are you willing to be involved in him getting other girls and setting things up?
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Like, are you willing to be to want that level of access, but I have to deal with the consequences of said access?
02:13:20.000
If it's that, if I'm dealing with that type of man, I will say, no, you good.
02:13:25.000
You keep that on your side, and I'm going to keep what I got going on on my side.
02:13:29.000
Oh, but he expects full monogamy from you, though, just to be clear.
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As soon as they open their fucking mouth, they're lying, and there's nothing wrong with that.
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But a woman's supposed to already be healed in that aspect to know that that's what comes with that man.
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So that's why there's no, I don't believe in cheating when it comes to men.
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There's only cheating when you don't communicate that to the other side of the other party.
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If they don't understand that shit, then you're not the man.
02:14:29.000
So, for you, I guess when you get with a guy, it's already you're already as you're already gay anyway.
02:14:37.000
You, you, yeah, because you're going to get on my nerves.
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I was saying, like, the access thing, but like, no, she's saying, like, for her, when she deals with a dude off-rip, she knows it's going to be, he's not going to be monogamous.
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She's going into the relationship, assuming that already.
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It seems like she actually attracts that type of men consistently, or maybe the guy she's attracted to.
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So now she has lower expectations for every guy she deals with.
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You won't say that when she's done with you, man.
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Because I've literally said that a million times.
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Yeah, that's what that's what it's doing, right?
02:16:13.000
Wait, wait, I didn't finish the access question.
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Are you willing to deal with everything that comes with the full access or are you willing to?
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The full access is a little crazy because I don't want to know that extra shit.
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Well, it implies because like when we're talking full access, like you know he's going to have other girls.
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Because a lot of women want full access, but I don't think they.
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But I feel like at the end of the day, I really just want some dick.
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You can admire me, but you're not aroused by women.
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I think, like I said, I feel like they're attractive.
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I wouldn't want a man who needs to have someone else besides me.
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Maybe if I meet somebody that I can trust and that can communicate with what they're up to, then yeah, like I'm definitely fucking freaky as fuck.
02:17:49.000
So like if a dude wants to, we're dating, he wants to bring a girl into it or have me film it, definitely down 100%.
02:17:57.000
So I also understand like one guy, if you're dating the same guy forever, girls, we get bored.
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And I feel like more like from a porn star stance, like as a man getting bored, like, I don't know, like, as a woman, if you're cheating.
02:18:29.000
Yeah, no, but I also, but I'm weird though, because I'll also like, like, if I'm in dating a dude and he likes that freaky shit, I'll have him watch me and a girl fuck too.
02:18:47.000
I mean, that makes sense, but like, I'd want my man to like fuck us both.
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I don't know about any other girls, but for me, it does get me off for sure.
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I think bisexuality for women is a big asset versus for men, it's a big detriment.
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And I would argue, I don't think women are really bisexual.
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I think a lot of them do it because men know that men like it.
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But if we left y'all to your own devices, y'all would never go through the hassle of dating a woman.
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Like, but like, because like whenever girls like say, oh, I like women too, it's like, okay, I like women once you've already done all the work and she's ready to fuck.
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But y'all don't want to deal with, oh, you got to court this bitch.
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I always ask, if I'm not in the picture, what you did with the girls.
02:19:52.000
Normally, I would never believe that, but given your background with the Marine stuff and you have a pretty, no offense, masculine tendencies.
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Have you like ever dated a girl and like quarter and ticked her took her seriously as a female?
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I done had bitches wanting to date me, but I ain't never dated them.
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Is it fair to say that a big reason why, like, you don't, as much as you're attracted to women, you kind of understand that, like, courting them is a, is not, you're not going to get the same value back as if, like, you deal with a dude?
02:20:44.000
Like, another reason why women aren't really lesbians like that is because if you date a girl versus you date a dude, who's going to give you more value?
02:20:53.000
The woman's just going to be like, I'm here and I'm pretty.
02:20:58.000
Like, you know, like, she goes, it's always in the favor for the guy to pay it, so, for the most part.
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Yeah, like, if two girls go out, like, they might argue over the check, like, we're going to go 50-50.
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And most guys, I think, they have balls and are going to do it.
02:21:32.000
Be more consistent because assuming that you've been loving this person for quite some time, you likely don't act the same way you did from the start.
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So just be consistent, more consistent in your actions.
02:22:04.000
That's a hard question because a guy could cheat, but then have everything normal with this girl, like sexually and everything.
02:22:14.000
You said before when you got into a relationship, you already know it's coming with the cheating.
02:22:20.000
So if you already know that, are we talking like cheating where he's supporting another bitch or just smashing another bitch?
02:22:31.000
If I'm already going into it, knowing you're going to do that shit.
02:22:37.000
Okay, you could assume all day, but you still need it verbalize from him.
02:22:45.000
But one obvious sign is that the guy stops having sex with his girl.
02:22:58.000
As a man, do you look for looks or personality and why?
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For me, 70, 30, 70% looks, maybe 30% personality on the back end for sure.
02:23:31.000
Let me ask, because I would say you would meet a lot of women's different metrics of attraction of what they want.
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What would you say are the top five things that you're looking for?
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What are the top five things that you're looking for, character traits of that female?
02:24:05.000
And I guess nurturing is kind of like catering.
02:24:08.000
Real quick, can you give an example of each one just so the woman have an idea?
02:24:13.000
So femininity, this is being sweet, being soft, being in your feminine, not being masculine.
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And then catering is more so wanting to please help your man, acts of service, being a helping hand.
02:24:35.000
So giving back, not necessarily financial ways, but like little things.
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Like we've been out on six states straight, nice restaurants, whatever.
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Not that I can't do it, but because you're showing signs of reciprocity.
02:24:52.000
That just shows overall good character traits, in my opinion.
02:25:16.000
Yeah, follow the lead, which ties into femininity, to be honest.
02:25:25.000
What is the number one deal breaker for a woman that's aspiring to get a guy that has their shit together?
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What are some of the biggest deal breakers for you that they can maybe learn from?
02:25:40.000
So IG or anything that revolves around your looks, per se, and that you purposely try to show yourself in malicious ways to men.
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And then it's almost like the opposite of the things I already said, to be honest.
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Like the top five align with the top five most negative.
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I've dated women in which they're attractive, but they just kind of show up and just look pretty.
02:26:19.000
But if you want a guy who is An asset who wants to take you seriously, or you want them to take you seriously, you have to provide value to that man's life.
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No, no, she has to come in and naturally, naturally do it.
02:26:45.000
Because at this point now, we've talked to like 4,000 fuck girls, bro.
02:26:53.000
But the problem is, like, they wait for the guy to fucking tell them that shit.
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And what I've realized is, like, when girls just kind of come in and take the initiative and do it without even asking you and they just do it, that goes a long way.
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And I don't think women understand how important that is because you're proving to the guy that you're a problem solver in your realm.
02:27:18.000
You know, next time she shows up, she has a whole cutlery set for you.
02:27:25.000
You know you'll be wow you and like get a door.
02:27:27.000
I think that's one of the biggest things that modern women fuck up is and I don't blame them because like, you know, they expect the guy to tell them what they need to do or, you know, they're hoping to get some hints.
02:27:37.000
But I think one of the best things women can do is like you meet a guy, you like him, you just take it upon yourself to just do things.
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It's made when he's what before he even wakes up.
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You know that he likes a certain thing to house a stock with it.
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Like a lot of women like don't do it because they don't want to feel like they're imposing too.
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Like we live in this culture that I've realized like women kind of.
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So since they want to, and they don't want to come off as trying hard, so they'll not do that shit to kind of seem elusive and not, you know, come off as thirsty.
02:28:24.000
What ends up happening when they do that is like, we'll interpret it as like, this girl has no fucking value.
02:28:29.000
But in her head, she's thinking, I just don't want to come off thirsty.
02:28:32.000
I do want to do this, but I don't want to come off thirsty.
02:28:34.000
In our eyes, we're like, man, this ungrateful ass bitch, I don't even want to hang out with her.
02:28:37.000
Like, the last guy that she was dating didn't appreciate it.
02:28:45.000
Because I've definitely been in relationships where I've taken care of a man and it's not up to his standards.
02:28:52.000
But yet he's getting fucked in the ass on the side.
02:29:05.000
I will say that like when girls do, because you mentioned acts of service.
02:29:09.000
Like I think when a girl does acts of service unprompted, right?
02:29:13.000
And her acts of service actually make your life easier because she paid attention and was observing things.
02:29:19.000
I can't tell you how many times, like, even if a girl wasn't as attractive as I would like, I would still see her longer than other girls that were hotter simply because her value was immeasurable.
02:29:31.000
Because I do think at some point you start to get into diminishing returns with super hot girls.
02:29:38.000
Where is it worth getting a girl that's an eight, 8.5, whatever, but dealing with someone who's extremely selfish versus getting a girl maybe who's a seven or six that weights on you hand and foot.
02:29:53.000
So taking all that in, what if she does all that, but she's nonchalant and toxic or toxic?
02:30:09.000
I would say you have a pretty polarizing personality.
02:30:15.000
I mean, because I do stuff like that, and I don't laugh at you, niggas.
02:30:28.000
You know, but like, I don't think you're nonchalant.
02:30:33.000
Do you believe it's not cheating from a man if he communicates?
02:30:37.000
Like, y'all have an understanding he fucked other women, but doesn't tell or communicate fucking somebody else.
02:30:45.000
So do you believe it's cheating from a man if he communicates he's cheating?
02:30:48.000
I mean, if he's cheating on the children, if the woman is agreeing to it and she's saying, okay, I'm okay with it, and you guys have some kind of understanding, it's not cheating at all.
02:31:02.000
Obviously, he cheated, but he just let you know he cheated.
02:31:07.000
You don't have to go into super detail, but like, do you prefer when you're seeing a girl to be monogamous, or do you still prefer to have her and then be open and tell her about it?
02:31:17.000
Or do you just like just stick with her the whole time for not lack of headaches?
02:31:24.000
So I think as of right now, I'd prefer to be monogamous just because I've looked at this and I analyze the opportunity costs, even at somebody of my stature and looks, whatever, of getting a new girl.
02:31:42.000
Like that, the aspect of talking to them, going out on a date, talking all for like 15 minutes of pleasure or 20 minutes of pleasure, right?
02:31:51.000
And so when I look at the opportunity cost of that, to me, at this stage of my life, as of right now, at least it's just not worth it.
02:32:04.000
So at this point, you'd prefer to just have a monogamous partner not even have chicks on the side at all?
02:32:10.000
Not chicks on the side that I'm like dating and going out with.
02:32:19.000
Like a little, like, you know, a handshake, one and one and two and done.
02:32:35.000
So for you, the ideal situation, would it be fair to say, the ideal situation for you is a handshake.
02:32:40.000
You're in a monogamous relationship romantically with one woman.
02:32:43.000
However, from time to time, you'll spread your wings.
02:32:47.000
Have a little bit of sexual activity with random chicks or whatever.
02:32:51.000
Now, would you let your girl be involved there?
02:32:56.000
Would she know that you're doing this on the side?
02:33:06.000
So if she's cool with it, you still wouldn't let her join.
02:33:16.000
Yeah, just threesomes with your girl is going to be a little bit more.
02:33:58.000
So she was from Japan, right, from the Marines.
02:34:22.000
Three times are more simple than you think because you'll be cool with the chick, which is your girl, and then she's cool with the girl too as well.
02:34:38.000
So usually, keep her out of that shit because not really.
02:35:41.000
By the way, Austin, thanks again for donating to the church the other day.
02:36:50.000
I can see his face, but I want to see like the body.
02:38:02.000
You guys can see his first, so show us yours first.
02:38:52.000
We're going to do a segment here called Three Countries.
02:38:55.000
If you don't know, now you know, nigga, we're going to name three countries.
02:38:59.000
Could be anything between North and South, but also East and West.
02:39:04.000
But also, you can't name Canada, USA, or Mexico.
02:39:08.000
And you can't repeat whatever girl said before you.
02:42:55.000
Because, yeah, it's been a while since we've done this.
02:43:04.000
Yeah, it's kind of funny how we can never get that show.
02:43:32.000
All right, there was a kill hat who was aka a black belt wearing drill instructor.
02:43:39.000
Who had this one kid who came to the BAS for pneumonia, but the kill hat came with the recruit to the BAS and told me on the side that a J-hat spartan Leonidas 300 kicked a recruit in the chest and left a boot imprint because the idiot had a live round in the chamber when the range went cold.
02:43:56.000
So we treated for pneumonia and gave anti-inflammatory medicine.
02:44:07.000
So for all the people that said that she was cap, I guess you know, what the hell is that?
02:44:33.000
Ladies, what are two things your father told you to prioritize to find a husband?
02:44:36.000
To the black woman, what are two things your single mother told you to prioritize to find husbands?
02:44:41.000
My mom was never a single mother, so I don't know what you're talking about.
02:44:57.000
T-Reich says, if you let someone put a tongue in your ass, you're three more sex sections putting sessions, you idiot.
02:45:46.000
Tony Versus the World says, I went to Paris Island, then SOY After.
02:46:15.000
In boot, I was third battalion, where all the inner city guys go.
02:46:23.000
I mean, you got a good amount of people supporting, saying, like, no, man, that shit real.
02:46:28.000
I mean, look, the Marines do have the most difficult boot camp, if I'm not mistaken of all the parents.
02:46:46.000
Yeah, I mean, she's been deployed and shit, bro.
02:46:50.000
Okay, God says, to the cockeyed bitch, Sue from the Burnt Ninja Turtle.
02:46:55.000
Your brother hit you so hard, he not only knocked your eye loose, he also knocked the common sense out of you.
02:47:09.000
I know most men love to see both those eyes go like this during sex.
02:47:20.000
I literally got paid $1,000 to send some idiot a like 30-second video of me doing like those eyes.
02:47:30.000
Ladies, what is the weirdest request you've gotten from a guy since we're on this fucking topic?
02:47:39.000
Doesn't mean you fulfilled it, but what's the weirdest request you got?
02:48:01.000
I forgot what the word was, what the word of the action is.
02:48:08.000
You have like you pucker, like, you can pucker your ass.
02:49:12.000
Honestly, the weirdest request was somebody wanted me to play with their titties.
02:49:30.000
Nigga thought you're going to do that shit for free.
02:50:13.000
For you, what did they offer for the that thing?
02:50:20.000
What's the weirdest request you've gotten and or completed and how much?
02:50:29.000
But I had this one dude who was into bestiality and wanted me to fuck his dog.
02:50:35.000
Turned the camera around, and it was a video of him fucking his dog.
02:50:41.000
And he was like, How much would it take for you to fuck my dog?
02:50:44.000
And then he turned his phone around, and it was him fucking the dog.
02:51:01.000
I was bartending, pouring drinks, and he literally says, Boom!
02:51:06.000
And I was like, How does conversation become self-yeah, it was a white statue?
02:51:20.000
I need to go talk about dogs who should be able to do it.
02:51:22.000
Honestly, it was just kind of like how did this even start?
02:51:26.000
He was just asking for my Snapchat, and then it was kind of like, Would you, you know, sell me pictures?
02:51:37.000
Yeah, and then it was kind of like right to it.
02:52:06.000
So I got him kicked out, and then I figured out where he was.
02:52:29.000
Yeah, that is a crime chat for those of you that are wondering.
02:52:49.000
What did you do for a living, this piece of crap?
02:52:55.000
I didn't know him, you know, that well, but after that, I did search him up.
02:53:28.000
No, he asked me to print out a picture of his mother and basically make a video of me saying, your mother deserves to be with black men.
02:53:36.000
Fuck you and fuck your white fucking dad and like spit on the picture and like actually I know.
02:53:53.000
So apparently I guess I attract all the fucking weirdos.
02:54:52.000
So I don't know OF or nothing crazy like that, but I once had a guy tell me that he would give me $100 just for touching my teeth.
02:55:07.000
He's like, okay, are we talking like two hands or just one hand?
02:55:41.000
I've had cup requests for sure, and they want me to be there.
02:55:49.000
So, bulls are like black guys that fuck white girls that have they're known as hot wives and they have a sissy little bitch boyfriend who wants to watch them fuck black men.
02:56:00.000
That was my last relationship, so their boyfriend wants to watch y'all fuck.
02:56:20.000
All right, it goes over your dick and flattens it what.
02:56:23.000
That's what we need to, not in this relationship.
02:56:48.000
You know, it really depends on what who's here.
02:56:51.000
I don't know what you you know i'm talking about, but Austin shout out to.
02:56:57.000
Uh, last time we didn't have a um special guest, it was just all vibes.
02:57:26.000
Nobody said that she want to get her ass ate tonight.
02:57:46.000
You just jumped in the air and kicked his ass and fell back on the floor.
02:57:49.000
So you yeah, you just like, dust yourself off real quick.
02:57:59.000
I'm like, yo, she was so mad that she said, you know, fuck this shit.
02:58:10.000
No, we're trained to drink to break falls, too, as well.
02:58:21.000
You said it was worth it getting a little dirty kick this nigga.
02:58:42.000
The story that the guy was saying when he went to BAS, that's medical.
02:58:54.000
If he got a boot imprint on his chest, he knows what's going on.
02:59:03.000
All right, last question on his dropkicking story.
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Did you, when you said hold the line, stop firing, and then they held him.
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Did you know at that point I'm about to drop kick this nigga or something?
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Okay, so you already tried to drop kick someone.
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But you went in that day saying, I'm dropkicking somebody.
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So that morning you woke up, I'm dropkicking somebody.
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Well, people, a bunch of people chat saying that.
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Okay, someone asked, Martin asked her, has she ever been dropkick herself?
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No, I've been punched and slapped, spit on, all that.
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Says, bro, who gives a fuck about this horror story?
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You want us to just always Frank Castle bitches and not have real conversations?
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It's like, damn, nigga, how often are you going to get a story where you got a female drill instructor that dropkicks somebody, nigga?
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I just want to see you sitting here and just like man in the pool.
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Oh, it's always a good time when I come out fresh and fit.
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And of course, shout out to DJ Detox, that's Starblade.
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I'll tell you, this sending niggas to the shadow room is the best way to piss them off.
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I'll tell you, have fun in the shadow room, nigga.
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That other person was kind of annoying me last time.
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I'm talking about that girl sitting in this chair.
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What do you do for fun outside of your work, I guess, or school?
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Find me on YouTube at Austin Dung Dating IG-based Austin Dunham.
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And one of the things that I'm saying is that you scary.
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No, the new one is like, why do you like Hitler?
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Separating business and pleasure does work well for dating.
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We're going to talk about dating 2025 into 2026.