Fresh & Fit - How To MAX Matches On Dating Apps In 2023-2024

00:01:49.000 And we are live.

00:01:50.000 What's up, guys?

00:01:50.000 Welcome to the Fresh Fit Podcast, man.

00:01:52.000 It is Wednesday, a.k.a.

00:01:54.000 Womanizer Wednesday, man.

00:01:55.000 No guests today.

00:01:55.000 We're going to be covering a very important topic, but quick announcement before we get into it, because we're not going to play the intro, guys.

00:02:00.000 Rumble.

00:02:01.000 Rumble.com slash Fresh Fit, guys.

00:02:03.000 You guys know that is home base for us, man.

00:02:04.000 If we ever get cancer, you'll know exactly where to find us.

00:02:06.000 Rumble.com slash Fresh and Fit.

00:02:09.000 And then also, castleclub.tv, guys.

00:02:11.000 We're going to be going out on an expedition tomorrow.

00:02:15.000 Excursion tomorrow.

00:02:16.000 Basically to, I think we're going to Disney World or something like that.

00:02:18.000 To celebrate my birthday.

00:02:19.000 Yeah.

00:02:20.000 With the team and a little vacay for the team as well.

00:02:22.000 Yeah, I'm being forced.

00:02:23.000 But we are going to be going.

00:02:25.000 But yes, we will be there.

00:02:27.000 And yeah, we're going to record some locals concert for y'all over there, man.

00:02:30.000 We'll have some of the crew over there.

00:02:31.000 So it's going to be great.

00:02:33.000 Shout out to Gorilla Mind, guys.

00:02:34.000 Link is below if you guys want to go ahead and get it.

00:02:36.000 Code is FRESH to get, I think, like 20% off.

00:02:39.000 I'm drinking grape today.

00:02:39.000 Yeah, he's drinking grape.

00:02:40.000 I wonder why.

00:02:41.000 Yeah, I wonder why you're drinking a black one. 0.99

00:02:43.000 Hope you guys are enjoying the camera angles, by the way, man.

00:02:46.000 Yo, we...

00:02:47.000 Hey, man.

00:02:48.000 I got some...

00:02:49.000 Man, let me show y'all how hard I go in the paint real fast.

00:02:52.000 Yeah, he made some great improvements recently as well.

00:02:56.000 But hey, guys, today we're taking it back to the old times.

00:02:59.000 Just us and you guys for a stream.

00:03:02.000 I got two more FX3s. 1.00

00:03:04.000 I'm not messing around, guys, alright?

00:03:07.000 I got two more of these lenses.

00:03:08.000 Actually, I just put up a new one there on camera three. 0.99

00:03:11.000 So we're switching all the cameras over to these goddamn Cinema Line cameras. 0.98

00:03:16.000 And yeah, bro, I'm going hard in the pay. 0.97

00:03:18.000 I'm going to make sure that we get y'all the best quality content.

00:03:21.000 I'm not kidding around when I tell you guys.

00:03:23.000 That's a new lens, by the way, as well.

00:03:24.000 You guys like that?

00:03:25.000 And yeah.

00:03:26.000 Yeah, you like that?

00:03:27.000 Trust me when I say we felt it.

00:03:28.000 Puckets wise.

00:03:29.000 Puckets wise.

00:03:31.000 Yo! 1.00

00:03:32.000 I got a text!

00:03:33.000 Yeah, bro!

00:03:34.000 So, new amount paid for cameras. 0.89

00:03:36.000 I'm like, nigga!

00:03:37.000 I'm gonna go broke off of cameras alone! 1.00

00:03:39.000 Shit! 1.00

00:03:40.000 This nigga, bro! 1.00

00:03:41.000 Yeah, and that's a new lens right there. 0.92

00:03:43.000 I haven't even put the FX3 on it.

00:03:45.000 That's a Sony A7R right there, but I got a good, like, one of those big-ass lenses on it.

00:03:51.000 It's nice.

00:03:52.000 It's the... 0.96

00:03:54.000 It's a f2.8 f-stop, but it goes from 70 to 200mm, the white lens, the really big telescope shit.

00:04:01.000 So that's what we're using over there, and I'm going to put an FX3 on it.

00:04:04.000 That's going to be tonight.

00:04:05.000 My camera guy, Roberto, is coming to help me out with that because I know cameras to a degree.

00:04:11.000 I could set shit up, but I'm not as good as him, so he's going to help me out.

00:04:15.000 They were saying, it looks so good camera-wise. 0.98

00:04:17.000 Oh, look, Kevin Hart.

00:04:20.000 No way, bro.

00:04:21.000 Yeah, man.

00:04:22.000 So, yeah, man.

00:04:23.000 So, yeah, definitely, guys, we're reinvesting back into the studio. 0.93

00:04:26.000 Like I said before, we really do take this shit seriously, and we're trying to give you all the best content.

00:04:31.000 Hope you guys like that background over there. 0.77

00:04:32.000 You guys like that?

00:04:33.000 Yeah, y'all like that, man?

00:04:34.000 I know y'all like that, man.

00:04:35.000 Sunset. 1.00

00:04:36.000 Goddamn. 1.00

00:04:37.000 You can't beat it. 0.99

00:04:39.000 By the way, shout out to Bills, man.

00:04:41.000 So recently, actually like two minutes ago, we changed hoodies.

00:04:45.000 Pause.

00:04:45.000 He's in the gallery.

00:04:47.000 What's this, Bills?

00:04:48.000 Oh, that's Warren Lotus.

00:04:49.000 There you go, man.

00:04:50.000 I'm learning about the LA type streetwear.

00:04:52.000 So it's pretty dope too as well.

00:04:54.000 And the back is crazy too.

00:04:56.000 Go ahead, stand up, stand up.

00:04:57.000 Show him.

00:04:57.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:04:58.000 It's hard. 1.00

00:05:00.000 That shit's clean, bro. 0.99

00:05:02.000 So thank you, man. 1.00

00:05:02.000 Appreciate that, bro. 1.00

00:05:03.000 Some nigga activities going on. 1.00

00:05:05.000 But I don't know what the hell they were doing, but yeah. 0.93

00:05:07.000 Merch! 1.00

00:05:09.000 But yeah, guys.

00:05:10.000 I mean, I hope you guys like the new studio, man.

00:05:12.000 I think it's better than the other one.

00:05:14.000 It's, you know, we got better cameras, better lighting.

00:05:17.000 And we own it!

00:05:17.000 Just better setup.

00:05:18.000 And we own it this time!

00:05:19.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:05:20.000 They can't tell us nothing.

00:05:21.000 So, you know, unlike the other building where they didn't like some of our comments that we made with Nick...

00:05:32.000 We had a great run at that building.

00:05:35.000 And they got me a check.

00:05:36.000 So I'm happy. 0.89

00:05:37.000 I don't know for you, nigga. 1.00

00:05:38.000 I didn't get my deposit back. 1.00

00:05:41.000 I was like, fuck this, man. 1.00

00:05:47.000 You didn't care, though. 1.00

00:05:48.000 Yeah, now renew my lease. 1.00

00:05:49.000 Fuck you guys. 1.00

00:05:51.000 Yeah, you didn't care. 1.00

00:05:51.000 Keep my deposit, man. 1.00

00:05:52.000 I don't give a shit. 0.99

00:05:53.000 But either way, nice cup you got there, Myron. 0.99

00:05:55.000 Oh, yes.

00:05:56.000 Yes.

00:05:57.000 Shout out to...

00:05:58.000 Jay the car guy.

00:05:59.000 Yes, Jay the car guy from the CEO Network.

00:06:01.000 Forget me the Punisher Cup, man.

00:06:02.000 My boy.

00:06:03.000 He gave me two of them because the other one got lost in a move, man.

00:06:06.000 Some of the stuff that I moved over got lost, I guess.

00:06:08.000 I don't know where the hell it went.

00:06:10.000 But yeah, man.

00:06:11.000 Shout out to you, man.

00:06:11.000 Thank you so much.

00:06:13.000 So yeah, what else?

00:06:14.000 Any other updates before we get into this thing?

00:06:17.000 Nah, just the excursion tomorrow.

00:06:19.000 And today's show is going to be a dating show, like back in the old days.

00:06:22.000 Yes, yes.

00:06:23.000 We're going to give y'all a step-by-step on this one, man.

00:06:25.000 We're going to bring it back to...

00:06:26.000 And look, guys, I know there's criticisms of being redundant or blah, blah, blah.

00:06:33.000 I'm here to tell you guys that we're absolutely taking that criticism seriously, and we're going to make sure that we improve the nighttime show, improve the daytime show, try to bring in some new guests for y'all, try to give you guys new ideas, etc.

00:06:44.000 I mean, everyone's going to copy us anyway.

00:06:45.000 But, regardless, we understand our position as the trendsetters, the innovators, and we are going to continue to innovate.

00:06:52.000 You know, I know they say, oh, if it's not broke, don't fix it.

00:06:54.000 Well, we're going to keep a certain formula, but at the same time, we're going to experiment and do new things.

00:06:58.000 Because...

00:06:59.000 I mean, yeah, bro, I'll be honest with you.

00:07:01.000 Even me, I get tired of talking to these hoes. 1.00

00:07:02.000 So I want to switch it up, too.

00:07:04.000 And we do got some things that we're going to be using.

00:07:08.000 We're good to go.

00:07:30.000 Nice.

00:07:31.000 Probably one of the best when it comes to an evidence-based approach when it comes to training.

00:07:35.000 So make sure you guys have your notepads for that one.

00:07:37.000 That one's going to be great.

00:07:38.000 That's going to be December 15th.

00:07:40.000 We've got some other guests lined up as well for y'all, man.

00:07:42.000 So we're going to continue.

00:07:43.000 I know you guys really want Tommy Sotomayor.

00:07:46.000 I've been talking with him.

00:07:47.000 We're going to make the collab happen.

00:07:48.000 It's just that we're probably going to have to go to Atlanta to make it happen, guys.

00:07:51.000 Won't be able to do it here in Miami for a bunch of reasons.

00:07:55.000 Yeah.

00:07:56.000 So I might go up there and make that happen for y'all.

00:07:59.000 What else do we got?

00:08:00.000 We're going to have AMS back.

00:08:02.000 Yeah.

00:08:03.000 CGA? Yes.

00:08:05.000 Coach Greg?

00:08:05.000 Yep.

00:08:06.000 Shout out to Coach Greg.

00:08:08.000 Oh! 0.60

00:08:09.000 Should I say the... 1.00

00:08:10.000 Fuck it, I'll just say it. 1.00

00:08:12.000 We got Rolo and James Sexton coming on as well next month. 1.00

00:08:16.000 Early next month, guys.

00:08:17.000 So that's going to be a great show.

00:08:19.000 They're going to be here early November along with Michael Sartain.

00:08:22.000 We'll have a great panel show with y'all.

00:08:25.000 We're going to do multiple interviews.

00:08:27.000 It'll be a really good time.

00:08:29.000 Yeah, man.

00:08:30.000 We're just going to keep improving and giving y'all the best show that we can.

00:08:34.000 Just because...

00:08:35.000 You know, we're on top when it comes to, you know, the men's podcast doesn't mean that we're gonna get comfortable.

00:08:40.000 We're gonna continue to innovate and push the envelope and try different things out, you know what I mean, and make it happen.

00:08:45.000 And they thought we were out of the game, bro.

00:08:47.000 You're demonetized, you're canceled, you're done for, but we're still here fighting the good fight.

00:08:53.000 So, here to stay, man.

00:08:54.000 Yeah, demonetized, but our cameras alone are worth more than people's entire studios.

00:08:58.000 Bro, each of these cameras is about $4,000 a piece.

00:09:02.000 Oh yeah.

00:09:02.000 And I got them with top tier lenses that are all, the lenses are at least $2,000 to $3,000.

00:09:06.000 Oh yeah.

00:09:06.000 See, I'll do the math.

00:09:07.000 Each camera I'm running is about $6,000 to $7,000.

00:09:10.000 I have eight of them.

00:09:11.000 Actually, I have more than eight.

00:09:12.000 I have...

00:09:13.000 We have a lot.

00:09:14.000 Should I say how many?

00:09:15.000 No, don't say the number.

00:09:16.000 We have a lot.

00:09:17.000 We have a lot.

00:09:18.000 That's just the FX3s. 1.00

00:09:19.000 That's not the Sony A7Rs that I have.

00:09:21.000 And then that's not also the Sony A6400s that I have, which I'm basically, we're not even using Sony A6400s anymore.

00:09:26.000 Yeah.

00:09:27.000 So we've outgrown that, man. 0.99

00:09:28.000 So a lot of you bum-ass haters that talk shit about us, you're still recording on a goddamn A6400 trying to talk about how, oh, yo, we're lit, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:09:36.000 You're a fucking bum and you don't invest back into your business. 1.00

00:09:38.000 You don't invest back into your content. 1.00

00:09:39.000 You don't make the content better.

00:09:41.000 And we're constantly improving, bro.

00:09:43.000 It's like, literally, one of these setups alone is $67,000, which is more than a lot of our haters with their whole setup.

00:09:49.000 That's just one camera.

00:09:50.000 Bro, I know it was bad when he texted me the bill, and I was like, bro, this is insane, dog.

00:09:55.000 You gotta stop, bro.

00:09:56.000 Yo, yo, okay, I get it.

00:09:58.000 A couple cameras here and there, no problem.

00:10:00.000 Niggas spent like, what, 20, 30k? 1.00

00:10:03.000 Bro, that's wild, dog, on cameras.

00:10:06.000 Because we got seven FX3s now. 1.00

00:10:08.000 Yeah, like almost 50k on cameras alone.

00:10:12.000 And that's not even microphones.

00:10:14.000 I have like 20 Shure SM7Ps. 1.00

00:10:16.000 Dude, I don't want to know how much that lens costs.

00:10:19.000 That should look expensive as hell.

00:10:20.000 That was like 2K. Goddamn for a lens! 0.99

00:10:24.000 That's a camera! 0.98

00:10:24.000 Yeah, I can see it in the back in the corner over there. 0.98

00:10:26.000 That's the new iPhone.

00:10:28.000 Pretty much, man.

00:10:29.000 Holy.

00:10:30.000 But yeah, man.

00:10:32.000 And the reason why I'm telling you how much it costs is to let you guys know we're not just taking, pocketing this Super Chat money or pocketing this stuff and just be like, Yeah, let's go ahead and live.

00:10:40.000 Nah, man.

00:10:41.000 I live way below my means so that I can invest back into the studio to give y'all the best experience that we possibly can.

00:10:46.000 You know what I mean? 0.96

00:10:47.000 Bill's got fucking four monitors over there. 0.99

00:10:49.000 You know what I mean? 0.99

00:10:50.000 So that we can appropriately share a screen and make things nice and fluid and everything else like that.

00:10:56.000 So, you know, we got Mo with his stuff.

00:10:58.000 He's got a million screens over there as well.

00:11:00.000 So, yeah, man.

00:11:02.000 Anyway, with that said, just wanted to give you guys, and I say all that to say this.

00:11:06.000 Thank you guys, because without y'all's support, we wouldn't have been able to deal with the demonetization, deal with all the bullshit, deal with not getting our leases renewed.

00:11:15.000 Literally, bro, we've been through so much bullshit between haters and 30-plus YouTube channels coming after us, getting demonetized, getting canceled off TikTok, getting certain brands that don't want to work with us, getting certain interviews not done because of who we are.

00:11:30.000 There's been a lot of people that will be like, oh, sorry, bro, I like y'all content, but I can't work with y'all because you guys are too controversial.

00:11:35.000 Like, we've dealt with a lot of adversity, right? 0.78

00:11:37.000 You know, YouTubers still making 30-plus videos talking shit about us. 0.89

00:11:40.000 So it's like, I look at it like, yo, really the only thing we got is ourselves and you guys supporting us. 0.95

00:11:47.000 So we really appreciate that.

00:11:48.000 And that's why I work so hard to make sure that the studio is good, make sure that the content quality is good, make sure that the sound's on point, mics are fucking crispy, the video is looking good, the lighting is going good.

00:11:59.000 You know, I obviously hired my boy Roberto to come in periodically.

00:12:04.000 Keep them on retainer to make sure that lighting and cameras are always on point. 0.99

00:12:07.000 So, we take this shit seriously, man. 0.95

00:12:09.000 We're going to keep giving you guys the best content that we can. 0.99

00:12:11.000 Now, before they say...

00:12:12.000 The content quality.

00:12:13.000 So, thank you.

00:12:14.000 I don't do anything.

00:12:15.000 Let me tell them what I did. 0.97

00:12:16.000 Because niggas be like, oh, first it's useless. 1.00

00:12:17.000 So, this whole idea... 1.00

00:12:20.000 First, help me pay for all this shit. 1.00

00:12:21.000 Oh, what? 1.00

00:12:22.000 But niggas say, oh, I didn't do anything. 1.00

00:12:22.000 Yeah, yeah. 1.00

00:12:25.000 So...

00:12:26.000 We needed a building to move to from our prior building, right?

00:12:29.000 And I said to myself, you know what?

00:12:31.000 I have connections in Miami. 1.00

00:12:32.000 I'm going to make this shit happen. 0.99

00:12:34.000 So I looked around all my friends at the real estate, all my realtor friends, and I found two people that I thought could do the job. 0.99

00:12:40.000 My boy, David, and my boy, Steven.

00:12:44.000 Now, David, I hit him up the same day he said, bro, I got you.

00:12:47.000 Don't worry.

00:12:48.000 You're a good friend of mine. 1.00

00:12:49.000 I'm going to handle this shit. 1.00

00:12:50.000 He got in writing. 1.00

00:12:51.000 We could do the podcast in the building.

00:12:53.000 Incredible.

00:12:54.000 I don't know any realtor that does that.

00:12:56.000 Put his neck on the line for us.

00:12:58.000 He could lose his job.

00:12:59.000 We got in writing.

00:13:00.000 The building actually supports our podcast.

00:13:02.000 We don't have interference.

00:13:02.000 So we could film.

00:13:04.000 In this building.

00:13:05.000 Yeah, shout out to them too for being cool about that.

00:13:07.000 And then two, as well, the building knows us as good people, you know, showing love to everything we do with valet, front desk, everything.

00:13:15.000 So on some level, the connections that I made from the past worked in the future.

00:13:18.000 And now we're here today.

00:13:19.000 Yeah.

00:13:19.000 So yeah, no, I mean, if it wasn't for fresh guys, we wouldn't have a studio.

00:13:23.000 You know what I mean? 1.00

00:13:24.000 That's some bullshit, man. 1.00

00:13:25.000 Apparently. 0.99

00:13:26.000 He was the one that helped me find this unit, and then obviously I put the money up, bought it, and we're here now.

00:13:32.000 Like I said before, we're very blessed. 0.98

00:13:33.000 People talk shit, say we're demonetized, blah, blah, blah, but they forget that we got a fucking army of guys behind us like you guys that won't let us fail. 0.98

00:13:42.000 In turn, since you guys believe in us, we're going to make sure that we give y'all the best situation ever. 1.00

00:13:48.000 I love it when people hate and talk shit because that just drives me to work even harder. 0.80

00:13:52.000 And today's episode is not going to be any further away. 0.99

00:13:55.000 Today we're going to get back to the basics, man.

00:13:57.000 We're going to get back to what made us really popular in the beginning, which is giving y'all step-by-step dating advice on how to fucking navigate this game. 0.64

00:14:05.000 Our first show was dating. 0.91

00:14:06.000 Cold Approach versus Social Media Game, I believe.

00:14:06.000 What was it?

00:14:10.000 And that sparked...

00:14:11.000 The podcast going up.

00:14:12.000 Our three-year anniversary is next week.

00:14:13.000 Yeah.

00:14:14.000 Literally.

00:14:15.000 You were at your crib.

00:14:16.000 I was at my crib.

00:14:16.000 Did it virtually.

00:14:18.000 Got a bunch of views.

00:14:19.000 People liked it.

00:14:19.000 Yep.

00:14:20.000 Hopefully one of our strikes is going to get off unless we get canceled before that too.

00:14:20.000 Did it twice a week.

00:14:23.000 And then y'all will be able to see the timestamps finally again.

00:14:25.000 Thank God.

00:14:26.000 Yeah.

00:14:26.000 Because guys, some of y'all say like, yo, you guys slacking.

00:14:29.000 There's no timestamps.

00:14:30.000 Guys, we...

00:14:30.000 Always put timestamps in.

00:14:32.000 Shout out to our mods that help us with that, by the way.

00:14:34.000 It's just that it doesn't show on the bar because when you have a strike, the stamps don't pop up.

00:14:40.000 But hopefully next week that should be gone so you guys can actually see the track path.

00:14:45.000 And if you want the crazy stuff, just go to Rumble.

00:14:46.000 It's simple.

00:14:47.000 Yeah, facts.

00:14:48.000 Yeah.

00:14:49.000 Alright, cool.

00:14:49.000 Today's topic.

00:14:50.000 So today's topic, guys, we're going to talk about how to deal with online dating apps in the modern day age.

00:14:55.000 And we're going to go step by step and help you guys out with this because...

00:14:59.000 Okay, so let's go ahead and now that we covered that, you know, should we hit chats first?

00:15:03.000 Okay, we're going to hit chats.

00:15:03.000 Yes.

00:15:05.000 Yeah, so this is what we're going to do.

00:15:06.000 I'm going to hit the chats and then from this point forward, 10 or 20 and up?

00:15:09.000 10 and up.

00:15:10.000 10 and up from here?

00:15:11.000 Okay, so I'm going to read these that came in and then we're going to go through this and we're going to basically go uninterrupted, right?

00:15:17.000 Okay, Myron, have you thought about adding an IRL street interview stream maybe once a week on Rumble only have maybe hire Zerka or someone...

00:15:27.000 Can you put it with the black?

00:15:28.000 Yeah.

00:15:29.000 Only maybe hire Zerka or someone with that personality to conduct street interviews in Miami Beach in real life.

00:15:34.000 We'd love to see you guys grow bigger than copycats.

00:15:36.000 Don't worry.

00:15:37.000 We have things in plan.

00:15:38.000 I literally, you know, shout out to Icy.

00:15:41.000 Me and her sat down and wrote out like 15 new ideas of what we're going to do.

00:15:45.000 So don't worry, guys.

00:15:47.000 Yeah.

00:15:48.000 I got to say it, man.

00:15:49.000 Who came up with the idea?

00:15:51.000 Which one?

00:15:52.000 IRL streaming.

00:15:53.000 Oh, yeah.

00:15:54.000 You mentioned it a while ago.

00:15:55.000 Come on, bro.

00:15:56.000 Come on, bro.

00:15:57.000 I'm ahead of times.

00:15:58.000 JD. A long time ago.

00:16:01.000 But that is something that we're going to incorporate.

00:16:03.000 Don't worry, guys.

00:16:03.000 Yeah, we are.

00:16:03.000 I know you guys referenced white men as having the highest success rate on dating apps, which comes from a study done in 2021.

00:16:08.000 However, now in 2023, I believe that now changed to mixed men.

00:16:10.000 I mixed and I get at least five matches a day on Hinge.

00:16:14.000 Thoughts?

00:16:16.000 Well, again...

00:16:16.000 Could be your area.

00:16:17.000 Yeah, but it could be your area.

00:16:19.000 It could be where you're at.

00:16:19.000 It could be how you look.

00:16:20.000 If you're like a light-skinned black dude with green eyes, of course girls are going to find that attractive.

00:16:20.000 Pause.

00:16:25.000 You know what I mean?

00:16:26.000 But either way, I think...

00:16:27.000 But in general, yeah, Caucasian men tend to do the best.

00:16:31.000 JD donated $10, goes, I know you guys referenced, oh no, read that one.

00:16:34.000 Okay, shout out to you guys, more how-to videos, or redo them for 2023, 2024, and personally thank you, came out of a relationship after being cheated on, broken family now after being unplugged values, going up minus 40 pounds.

00:16:44.000 Thank you guys, we got you bro.

00:16:45.000 Good job bro.

00:16:45.000 And we're bringing it back to the basics for y'all.

00:16:48.000 What else do we got here?

00:16:49.000 Fresh, did you catch Marquette's commentary on your hater from the other day yesterday?

00:16:53.000 As an OG of 45 years old and a fellow believer, I want to say that I'm proud of you, bro.

00:16:57.000 You're an inspiration, Meyer.

00:16:57.000 Keep leading from the front.

00:16:58.000 Respect to the whole crew.

00:16:59.000 Yeah, so I saw half of it so far.

00:17:02.000 He was very unbiased.

00:17:03.000 I thought he gave a very good breakdown of the whole call itself.

00:17:06.000 And obviously speaking, you know, I definitely have a lot of haters.

00:17:09.000 That's very apparent.

00:17:10.000 But to be real, you know, I get it.

00:17:12.000 You know, I'm not who they think I should be right now, but I'm working on it.

00:17:17.000 And each and every day, I'm becoming better, so...

00:17:18.000 Yeah, he's going to boxing, he's going to a gym.

00:17:21.000 He's self-improving a lot, man.

00:17:23.000 Just because you can't see it in real time doesn't mean it's not happening.

00:17:26.000 That's the main point people understand.

00:17:28.000 And then also, guys, keep in mind that this show would never work if there was two me.

00:17:33.000 You guys really don't understand how much Fresh contributes as far as the polarity is very important.

00:17:41.000 If you think about it, so many people have copied us, but they haven't been able to necessarily be able to do it.

00:17:46.000 Why is that?

00:17:47.000 Well, because they don't have a good co-host that can counterbalance some of my craziness.

00:17:54.000 I'll say this too.

00:17:56.000 I'll say, oh, Fresh is useless, blah, blah, blah.

00:18:00.000 If I'm gonna be all the way a million with you guys, we would've been cancelled if it wasn't for Fresh. 1.00

00:18:04.000 Damn! 0.98

00:18:05.000 If I'm gonna be all the way... 1.00

00:18:06.000 He doesn't take credit for that shit. 0.99

00:18:07.000 I have some really crazy ideas that I wanted to do on the show that Fresh told me, like, nah, man, we can't do that shit. 1.00

00:18:12.000 Even more, I was like, yo! 0.99

00:18:13.000 Yeah. 0.93

00:18:14.000 I had some really, really crazy ideas that would've got us fucking cancelled, man.

00:18:18.000 If I'm gonna be all the way a million with y'all, that Fresh was like, nah, man, we can't. 0.86

00:18:21.000 We can't do that.

00:18:22.000 And I was like, alright, fine.

00:18:24.000 But, yeah, dude.

00:18:25.000 If it was...

00:18:28.000 You know what I mean?

00:18:29.000 Like, yo, man. 1.00

00:18:31.000 Wild shit that I had planned. 1.00

00:18:33.000 And it was just, yeah. 1.00

00:18:35.000 It would have been canceled everywhere.

00:18:37.000 Like I was saying...

00:18:38.000 You need that counterbalance.

00:18:39.000 On the last show, we have our ups and downs.

00:18:43.000 Everyone has their own take in the team.

00:18:44.000 And we all play a part, a major role in the team itself to make it work.

00:18:47.000 Y'all think I thought the hood was crazy?

00:18:49.000 Yeah, no, no. 1.00

00:18:50.000 You got to worry about some shit. 1.00

00:18:54.000 We're back in the 1980s. 1.00

00:19:01.000 Cancel right away, bro.

00:19:03.000 It's wild. 0.98

00:19:04.000 Unhinged Myron is crazy.

00:19:05.000 So, like, yo, I... You saw Pacific on Sniggle Streams. 1.00

00:19:08.000 That shit was crazy. 1.00

00:19:09.000 Hey, no, no. 1.00

00:19:10.000 There's a reason why it wasn't there.

00:19:11.000 No, no, because...

00:19:12.000 No, because I also had Myron's Amazon account on my computer.

00:19:16.000 I called Myron and said, return it.

00:19:17.000 Return it.

00:19:18.000 Return it.

00:19:20.000 No.

00:19:22.000 No.

00:19:22.000 What's your order?

00:19:28.000 This nigga, bro. 1.00

00:19:29.000 Oh, man. 0.84

00:19:31.000 But to be fair though, you'd be a very good comedian back in the day.

00:19:34.000 Not now, but back in the day.

00:19:36.000 So y'all can say whatever you guys want to say, but Fresh is the reason why we're still on YouTube, man.

00:19:41.000 We would have been canceled if it was just on me, man.

00:19:43.000 You need that, man.

00:19:45.000 You need that other voice of reason.

00:19:47.000 Where else do we have here?

00:19:48.000 Ice.

00:19:49.000 I noticed red flags in my baby mother after becoming red pill like she thinks body count doesn't matter and told me if I get a paternity test, she'd leave me. 1.00

00:19:56.000 What...

00:19:58.000 Should men do when the red pill shows them their girl doesn't respect them? 0.53

00:20:01.000 You leave, my friend.

00:20:02.000 Leave, bro.

00:20:02.000 It's very simple.

00:20:03.000 You just leave.

00:20:03.000 You leave.

00:20:05.000 And the reason why she's telling you that, bro, she controls the frame.

00:20:09.000 If she's over here dictating to you that you can't even ensure your paternity and she'll leave you, what does that tell you?

00:20:14.000 You already lost.

00:20:15.000 Like, you need to leave, bro.

00:20:17.000 More often than not, the answer to the problem is just to walk away.

00:20:21.000 Because at that point, you know, your respect.

00:20:23.000 And once again, it's just, I want to say, respect you now.

00:20:27.000 What's going to happen in the future?

00:20:29.000 Just more of bad issues, bad behavior.

00:20:31.000 So, you gotta leave, bro.

00:20:32.000 Honestly.

00:20:33.000 Absolutely.

00:20:34.000 That's your best bet.

00:20:35.000 And then, Myron, thoughts on the Brett Cooper engagement to some trad con simp that Sneeko hit for free? 0.99

00:20:43.000 We don't know what that is.

00:20:43.000 Killing Twitch?

00:20:44.000 Zero clue what you're talking about, man.

00:20:46.000 Neff says, I really appreciate everything you guys do.

00:20:48.000 Happy birthday to my boy Fresh.

00:20:50.000 Keep going, brother. 0.99

00:20:51.000 If you don't have haters, you're not doing shit right. 0.99

00:20:52.000 Love all the haters. 0.99

00:20:54.000 Alright.

00:20:54.000 Alright?

00:20:55.000 Kendall Lawson says, Matrix attacks when you're on to something.

00:20:58.000 Before I went to be yesterday, I saw so many triangles when I closed my eyes.

00:21:02.000 It's crazy.

00:21:03.000 Bro.

00:21:03.000 You okay, bro?

00:21:05.000 He saw a lot of triangles when he closed his eyes.

00:21:06.000 Okay.

00:21:07.000 Much love to FNF and Myron's book.

00:21:09.000 Can't wait to meet you soon.

00:21:10.000 Guys, my book is out in stores, Why Women Deserve. 1.00

00:21:10.000 Thank you, bro. 1.00

00:21:12.000 Let's go grab it.

00:21:13.000 CEO Network, Big Bossing.

00:21:13.000 Yes, very good book.

00:21:14.000 Have a great evening, fellas.

00:21:15.000 Keep up the great work.

00:21:16.000 Thank you very much.

00:21:17.000 Thank you, Cody.

00:21:17.000 Shout out to you, bro.

00:21:18.000 Third Eye Prophet goes, I'm 26 and my dad passed away this Sunday.

00:21:20.000 I know what I have to do to make him proud, but I'm hurting bad.

00:21:23.000 Any words of wisdom you can offer?

00:21:25.000 Number one, my condolences to your father, you, and your family.

00:21:29.000 And understand, dude, that...

00:21:31.000 Think about it like this.

00:21:32.000 If your father was healthy and he was here today, what would he want you to do?

00:21:36.000 That's what you need to do.

00:21:37.000 And more than likely, I'm willing to bet that he wants you to chase success, become the best man that you could be, and create an impact in the world.

00:21:42.000 There's nothing wrong with grieving, especially grieving on your own, but understand that you've still got work to do.

00:21:48.000 And that's what he would want you to do, is to continue to be the best man that you can be.

00:21:52.000 And everything that you do now, maybe you didn't have a purpose before.

00:21:55.000 You have to keep his legacy alive.

00:21:55.000 Now you have a purpose.

00:21:57.000 Yeah, make him proud, man.

00:21:58.000 That's the best you can do, bro.

00:21:59.000 That's really the best that you can do, man.

00:22:02.000 Fresh, remember when Tai Lopez said you want 20% of people hating on you and they are the loudest?

00:22:06.000 Just know that there are some of us that understand your value.

00:22:08.000 It ain't fresh and fit without fresh.

00:22:10.000 Absolutely.

00:22:10.000 Thank you, bro.

00:22:11.000 Love, man.

00:22:11.000 Absolutely.

00:22:11.000 Live in reality.

00:22:12.000 Can you do a specific episode on what Asian slash Indian men to do to adapt to their struggles in the U.S. dating market?

00:22:16.000 How about a panel with Asian Indian men and you help them improve their strategy?

00:22:20.000 Stay tuned for today's episode.

00:22:20.000 Bro.

00:22:21.000 I'm going to go over that. 1.00

00:22:22.000 It's the same shit for all men, bro. 1.00

00:22:23.000 Whether you're Asian, Caucasian, Indian. 1.00

00:22:27.000 Obviously, you have a lower rate of success, but it's the same shit, bro. 0.99

00:22:30.000 If you're Indian or Asian, you just have to max out on other attributes. 1.00

00:22:34.000 Like, if you're Indian and Asian, bro, especially if you got an accent, thank you, come again, or love you a long time! 0.99

00:22:38.000 If you have either of those accents, bro, you better be in the fucking gym, you better be dressing well, you better be getting your money on point. 0.97

00:22:47.000 Anytime you have one of these deficits against you, you absolutely have to max out on other aspects. 0.99

00:22:52.000 Yo, okay, real quick.

00:22:53.000 Other than the smell, for people that are Indian, they can put on like 10 spits of cologne, bro. 1.00

00:22:58.000 I don't know, because there's a smell though, right?

00:23:00.000 Like, no offense, it's the curry smell. 0.98

00:23:02.000 I used to be around a lot of Indians and Barbados as well.

00:23:05.000 So what you do is, you buy some YSL tuxedo or some like, for example, what's that cologne?

00:23:12.000 Chanel, I forget what it's called.

00:23:14.000 Anyhow, get a good cologne, spread like 10 spits of it on your neck, on your wrists, Right here on your shirt, some pants.

00:23:23.000 That way when you go on dates, they don't smell the curry, bro.

00:23:25.000 That's an L, bro. 0.96

00:23:25.000 Because that's just... 0.96

00:23:26.000 I'm telling you.

00:23:27.000 That's an L, for real. 0.66

00:23:28.000 They don't want to smell curry all day.

00:23:29.000 Just saying.

00:23:30.000 Just saying.

00:23:32.000 Am I wrong?

00:23:34.000 That's on God.

00:23:34.000 That's facts.

00:23:35.000 I'm just saying, bro.

00:23:36.000 That is unbearable, bro.

00:23:36.000 That's on God.

00:23:37.000 Holy shit. 1.00

00:23:39.000 Just saying. 0.99

00:23:39.000 All right. 0.99

00:23:40.000 Who's next?

00:23:40.000 It's the next chat.

00:23:43.000 We have here, RecklessJaw says, Myron's BBL hair job looks so good.

00:23:48.000 Pause.

00:23:49.000 That it looks fake.

00:23:50.000 Keep the wibs going, bro. 1.00

00:23:51.000 It's not BBL hair job. 0.66

00:23:52.000 It's BBL. Well, it is kind of, because they took hair from one part and moved it to the other.

00:23:57.000 That's why.

00:23:59.000 I guess you could make an argument that it's a hair BBL, but it is what it is.

00:24:02.000 A hair BBL is crazy. 0.98

00:24:04.000 But whatever.

00:24:05.000 What do you guys think is most ideal, picking her up from her home or having her meet you at the location?

00:24:08.000 Okay, that's a very good question.

00:24:10.000 Fresh, you actually do this quite a bit.

00:24:12.000 What do you think?

00:24:13.000 So, the question, guys, is good, but it's also bad at the same time, because for me, I do what I want to do.

00:24:19.000 So again, if I want to drive my car, I'll pick her up. 0.84

00:24:23.000 If I want to just meet her to the spot, Meet me at the spot.

00:24:26.000 But it's what I want to do.

00:24:27.000 So the date is going on my terms, not her terms.

00:24:29.000 So again, it's not what she wants, it's what you want to do as a man planning that date.

00:24:33.000 That's the way I would answer it.

00:24:35.000 So if I feel like driving, I'll pick her up.

00:24:36.000 If I don't feel like driving, we'll put her to the date.

00:24:38.000 Done.

00:24:39.000 Simple.

00:24:40.000 Alright?

00:24:42.000 That's the frame you want to have the date go for.

00:24:45.000 You're in charge.

00:24:46.000 She's not. 0.99

00:24:47.000 Malik says, for all the free game you guys have given over the past few years, we will always support you regardless of what the bum ass haters say. 0.94

00:24:54.000 All of FNF team, shout out to you bro. 0.95

00:24:56.000 That's much love from Malik.

00:24:58.000 OG Insidious says, fire content always.

00:25:01.000 WFNF, love watching Fed reacts to keep it going, my ninja.

00:25:07.000 Alright.

00:25:08.000 Dance Production says, when are all...

00:25:10.000 When are y'all doing the Couples Therapy show?

00:25:12.000 Actually, we got a show coming up.

00:25:14.000 I think...

00:25:15.000 There's a...

00:25:17.000 Like Icy told you, but there's a date, so stay tuned.

00:25:21.000 Yeah.

00:25:21.000 Stay tuned.

00:25:22.000 It's actually very soon, actually.

00:25:23.000 We have two couples, I believe, confirmed for the show, so it's going to be pretty funny as well, the breakdown.

00:25:30.000 We have here Barry McCockinner.

00:25:36.000 What the hell?

00:25:37.000 Interesting guest to look into, Dr.

00:25:39.000 Paul Saladino, otherwise known as CarnivoreMD.

00:25:43.000 Great to bring your chat a knowledgeable discussion.

00:25:46.000 Okay.

00:25:48.000 Jay Ramirez says, no problem, Myron.

00:25:50.000 I bet one of your girlfriends took the other cup to their place. 1.00

00:25:53.000 That's why I sent you another cup and a spare.

00:25:56.000 Shout out to Mo for receiving and transporting.

00:25:58.000 10 days fresh, Miami.

00:26:00.000 Yes, we're having a 10 days.

00:26:02.000 The Seal Network meetup here in Miami.

00:26:05.000 We're going to do a boxing session.

00:26:07.000 We're going to do training.

00:26:09.000 Then we're going to have a dinner.

00:26:10.000 And if you're cool with the gang, out the party is going to be insane.

00:26:13.000 So if you're in the network, see you guys there in Miami in 10 days.

00:26:16.000 Jay, what up?

00:26:17.000 What up, Jay?

00:26:18.000 Jay the car guy.

00:26:19.000 We got here.

00:26:21.000 That's Jay Rowe says...

00:26:23.000 Jay Rowe says, I saw him at Burger King.

00:26:26.000 I want my money back.

00:26:27.000 I wasn't at Burger King.

00:26:28.000 I didn't even know why.

00:26:29.000 You gotta say, which one, bro?

00:26:31.000 Which one he was at? 1.00

00:26:32.000 Shit, none of them. 1.00

00:26:32.000 Maybe in his dreams, bro? 1.00

00:26:34.000 I don't know.

00:26:35.000 I was at the clothing store getting new pants again, bro. 1.00

00:26:39.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:26:40.000 Okay. 1.00

00:26:42.000 Okay.

00:26:43.000 We got here...

00:26:45.000 Withers is cold.

00:26:47.000 Can me doing a dating coach help you get more girls? 1.00

00:26:51.000 Also was noticing he gets more DMs on his alt account, which is weird since he's saying, I'm flattering truths about women.

00:26:56.000 Is it the competence?

00:27:00.000 Austin's also a Chad, bro.

00:27:01.000 You know what I mean?

00:27:02.000 He put a lot of work into maxing out his looks and, you know, he's definitely taking advantage.

00:27:07.000 So shout out to, I think he's assuming, he's speaking about Austin Dunham, right?

00:27:10.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:27:10.000 Shout out to Austin Dunham, man.

00:27:11.000 Shout out to him, man.

00:27:12.000 Yeah, makes very good content.

00:27:14.000 Go check him out, guys.

00:27:15.000 He has two YouTube channels, I think.

00:27:16.000 Austin Dunham Vlogs and Austin Dunham.

00:27:19.000 Also, he's not that controversial, bro.

00:27:20.000 He's more like help men's health improvement, you know?

00:27:23.000 So it's not really like us. 0.99

00:27:25.000 Where it's like, yo, you just call her a slut. 0.99

00:27:26.000 He gives a red pill in a way better way. 1.00

00:27:29.000 Smart.

00:27:29.000 In a way more palpable way.

00:27:33.000 Digestible.

00:27:33.000 Yes.

00:27:33.000 In a more digestible way versus us like, these girls are sluts!

00:27:36.000 Bro. 1.00

00:27:37.000 Either they're turned off or turned on.

00:27:39.000 It's not in between.

00:27:40.000 Yeah.

00:27:41.000 Yeah, and Austin is really good when it comes to looks maxing, right?

00:27:44.000 Dressing a certain way, you know, obviously grooming yourself appropriately, etc.

00:27:48.000 You know, the guys worked really hard on maximizing his appearance.

00:27:52.000 You know what I mean?

00:27:52.000 He's a Chad, bro.

00:27:53.000 He's a Chad.

00:27:53.000 You got to give credit where it's due.

00:27:55.000 Where are we at here?

00:27:56.000 Oh, just want to say I appreciate you guys.

00:27:58.000 Dedication to supporting the supporters.

00:27:59.000 You guys make sure every super chat is read and every supporter feels heard.

00:28:02.000 Absolutely.

00:28:02.000 One complaint is every time you guys say, save the question for later, Chris, you guys hardly ever go back to them.

00:28:08.000 It's tough, bro.

00:28:09.000 Wrong of life.

00:28:09.000 But we will work on it.

00:28:11.000 We will work on that, man.

00:28:12.000 We will.

00:28:12.000 Because here's the thing.

00:28:13.000 We're in a weird spot where it's like, we want y'all questions to get put on the show, but at the same time, people hate fan questions or supporter questions. 0.99

00:28:21.000 So it's like, fuck. 0.94

00:28:22.000 It's a very delicate balance where we want to ask your questions, but at the same time, not have it derail the show too much. 1.00

00:28:28.000 To be real more important, it's the time factor.

00:28:30.000 Because time itself, like, okay, I got...

00:28:33.000 Guys hate when we end the show, I want to say a little bit earlier, but the girls have a time crunch as well. 1.00

00:28:38.000 So to respect their time and our time as well, we have to make it work.

00:28:41.000 And we have something in place with certain people where we agreed to get the girls out at a certain time, guys.

00:28:47.000 It's not fresh wanting to go to work at the club.

00:28:48.000 That's a part of it.

00:28:50.000 This guy, bro.

00:28:51.000 I'm just kidding.

00:28:51.000 But the reality is really, the main thing is we have to get the girls out at a certain time.

00:28:56.000 Guys, we're running a business.

00:28:58.000 This isn't just like play along, fairytale.

00:29:00.000 This is a business.

00:29:01.000 You've got to understand there's outside parties, parties on the inside.

00:29:05.000 There's different factions and groups.

00:29:07.000 So it's about time management.

00:29:09.000 And I know you guys hate it, but it's just part of the game.

00:29:12.000 If you did the show yourself, you would understand why time is so important to some people's, I want to say, ventures as well.

00:29:17.000 Because, once again, people have things going on outside, jobs, careers, all that stuff.

00:29:21.000 So, kids, you just never know.

00:29:24.000 So, cool.

00:29:25.000 Who else we got here?

00:29:26.000 Got you, come right now.

00:29:29.000 Okay, Malik says...

00:29:31.000 I thought we did that one already.

00:29:33.000 This one too, right?

00:29:33.000 Yeah, we did that.

00:29:35.000 We did that.

00:29:36.000 We did that one.

00:29:37.000 A little bit further?

00:29:39.000 Yeah, got you right here.

00:29:41.000 Next one.

00:29:43.000 Okay, BossBoyBell says, Yes, brothers, please help me.

00:29:46.000 I use Tinder, no bio, what do I put?

00:29:49.000 I get matches, but convos die after three messages, or they don't answer.

00:29:52.000 Or I get a date for the weekend, and then they unmatch.

00:29:55.000 Yeah, bro, we got you with this show because, dude, you make a hell of a mistake so I can see it off rip.

00:30:00.000 No bio, that's terrible. 0.97

00:30:02.000 And I guarantee your pictures suck, bro, because, dude, I mean... 0.98

00:30:05.000 And then three messages, they stop responding to you? 0.99

00:30:08.000 Bro, what are you saying, huh?

00:30:10.000 Pauly, hi.

00:30:10.000 How are you?

00:30:12.000 Typical responses, which are terrible. 1.00

00:30:14.000 Okay, Boss Boy Bell again says, My picks suck. 0.99

00:30:17.000 I told you. 0.97

00:30:18.000 But waiting till I'm shredded to update them and get good picks.

00:30:22.000 Currently in the gym as I type this.

00:30:23.000 Help me out, brothers.

00:30:24.000 Also, what I use as an opener, how to move on to Convo Part 2.

00:30:28.000 We got you, bro.

00:30:28.000 Coming up soon with this show.

00:30:31.000 Kenyo says, Fresh, don't let the haters make you feel like you gotta improve yourself to anyone. 1.00

00:30:35.000 Fuck em. 1.00

00:30:35.000 The real ones know the value you provide to the show, without needing to show it. 1.00

00:30:39.000 WFNF team.

00:30:40.000 Thanks bro, I appreciate that man.

00:30:42.000 Bringo Talandrid says, I work 40 hours a week.

00:30:46.000 I paid a developer to make me a dropshipping website.

00:30:49.000 Working to launch soon.

00:30:50.000 I'm learning Spanish and I'm training to become a green barrette.

00:30:53.000 What else can I be doing to be better?

00:30:56.000 Honestly, bro, you're on the right path.

00:30:57.000 I mean, you're in the gym, you're trying to become a green barrette, you're learning Spanish, you're working on a job that's pretty good.

00:31:06.000 I'd say you're on the right path, man.

00:31:08.000 What I would do for you, bro, is find a mentor in the space you want to excel in and learn from them as well, because that would accelerate your process even further, find a mentor in your space, so it'll help a long way.

00:31:19.000 Redbird310 says, the best way to use dating apps, don't.

00:31:22.000 Have me run them for you, and you just show up on a date.

00:31:26.000 So that's our friend Casey in Columbia.

00:31:28.000 Yes. 1.00

00:31:28.000 And actually, Casey runs my shit. 1.00

00:31:32.000 I'll tell you that right now. 1.00

00:31:33.000 Casey absolutely runs my shit. 1.00

00:31:35.000 But here's the most important thing, though. 1.00

00:31:37.000 You still need to understand the process.

00:31:38.000 You need to understand the process, you need to be good at it, and then you can outsource it.

00:31:42.000 We had Nehemiah Davis on, and we talked about this, and he said, whenever you're an entrepreneur or you run a business or whatever, you need to learn everything in your business and know how to do it before you outsource it.

00:31:55.000 Because once you learn it, you know how it's done.

00:31:57.000 You have an idea of how quickly it can be done, how much is an appropriate pay for, etc.

00:32:00.000 Then you outsource it to someone.

00:32:02.000 I told you guys this before, right?

00:32:03.000 When we used to do our podcast, I used to do the videos, I used to do audio, I used to do everything, right? 0.61

00:32:07.000 And I still am very heavily involved in it or whatever, but I had to get some level of competency, right, to be able to know how to do it so that if they're not around, I can fucking make it happen.

00:32:16.000 Like right now, y'all have probably seen me running around switching camera lights and all that other stuff.

00:32:20.000 I'm not the greatest, but I'm able to do it to a degree, right? 0.96

00:32:22.000 Just to make shit happen. 0.90

00:32:25.000 And then, obviously, once you get a competent level, then you go ahead and you outsource someone that's even better. 0.98

00:32:29.000 At least your level, if not preferably better, because now you have the capital to actually hire someone who's better at it, right?

00:32:34.000 Which is what we've done. 0.97

00:32:35.000 So, when it comes to dating apps, etc., I have Casey run my shit for me because it's too time-consuming. 0.99

00:32:41.000 Because I know what it takes to run a good dating profile and to get a maximum amount of women in your funnel. 0.97

00:32:47.000 It's extremely time-consuming.

00:32:48.000 And you guys are about to see here when we go through this step-by-step how it is.

00:32:51.000 Anything else?

00:32:52.000 Are we caught up?

00:33:03.000 Shout out to you bro.

00:33:06.000 That is true.

00:33:14.000 Yeah bro.

00:33:14.000 I mean, everyone that's collabed with us, like, everyone has said good things about us after.

00:33:18.000 It was only two certain snakes from Canada that had something to say, but, you know, it is what it is.

00:33:23.000 Well, actually, one of them, because the other one never even came.

00:33:25.000 So, but that's fine.

00:33:28.000 You know what I mean?

00:33:28.000 Like I said before, he's going to get what's coming to him, so it's fine.

00:33:34.000 Anything else?

00:33:35.000 We're loading them up now.

00:33:37.000 Okay, guys, so from this point forward, because we're already 30, 40 minutes into this, right?

00:33:41.000 Okay, guys, we're going to go 20 and up from this point forward, because I want to make sure that we get through this, because we've got a lot to cover here.

00:33:48.000 And thank you guys so much for all the support.

00:33:53.000 Okay, so you want to hit with step one?

00:33:56.000 Well, first, let's give them a landscape, right, of what dating...

00:33:59.000 Okay, so as you guys know, you got the main dating apps.

00:34:02.000 You got Tinder, Bumble, Hinge.

00:34:03.000 I would say those are the three big ones.

00:34:05.000 And then you have other ones like...

00:34:07.000 More events.

00:34:08.000 More advanced, right?

00:34:09.000 Like you guys, sugar sites, which we'll probably have to update a one for you guys on that one because running that is a whole other game, right? 0.99

00:34:15.000 Which we've been talking about since 2021 for all the idiots out there. 0.99

00:34:17.000 They'll say, you guys are sugar days, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:34:21.000 No. 1.00

00:34:21.000 Stupid. 1.00

00:34:22.000 Correction. 0.99

00:34:22.000 We use those sites as dating sites, and if you know what you're doing, you can use it absolutely. 0.99

00:34:27.000 But, you know, the key is that you have to go in with a different approach than on regular dating apps, okay?

00:34:33.000 So, for today's episode, we're going to be focusing on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge.

00:34:36.000 Those are the three big ones.

00:34:37.000 And then, obviously, there's Plenty of Fish, OkCupid, which are what I would call more legacy dating apps.

00:34:42.000 Yeah.

00:34:42.000 And then you have...

00:34:43.000 Kind of lower tier, we call them.

00:34:45.000 Yeah.

00:34:45.000 They were big back before.

00:34:47.000 Then, obviously, you got Match, and you have...

00:34:49.000 Christian Mingle.

00:34:50.000 Christian Mingle.

00:34:51.000 And then, what's the one that we went viral for?

00:34:54.000 Blacked. 1.00

00:34:55.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:34:58.000 But hey, for all y'all diggers that like, you know, you like your chocolate, you can go on there.

00:35:06.000 But either way...

00:35:07.000 But to make this, I want to say, as a preface, guys, this is not a, I want to say, replacement to cold approach, to social media game, to actually get out there and meet people.

00:35:18.000 This is just another tool on your tool belt to use to your advantage.

00:35:21.000 And I want you guys to go back and watch the episode that we did on how to get laid, right?

00:35:25.000 And how to go about meeting women.

00:35:27.000 And we gave you guys the different types of sourcing options to get women. 1.00

00:35:31.000 You got online dating, social media, cold approach, whether it's day game, night game, social circle game.

00:35:36.000 Yeah.

00:35:38.000 And what else?

00:35:39.000 That's pretty much it.

00:35:40.000 That's the main ways.

00:35:40.000 Cold approach during the day or night, right?

00:35:42.000 Yeah.

00:35:43.000 Which, those are two different games.

00:35:44.000 Then you got social media, dating apps, and social circle.

00:35:48.000 Those are the four main ways to meet girls, typically, right? 0.99

00:35:51.000 So, and we talked about how to get from the sourcing methodologies into getting their contact information, to setting up dates, to closing, right?

00:35:59.000 Now we're going to focus on online dating, alright?

00:36:01.000 So...

00:36:02.000 Online dating, guys.

00:36:03.000 Five points here.

00:36:04.000 Five points.

00:36:05.000 Number one, all right?

00:36:07.000 Pictures.

00:36:08.000 Very important.

00:36:08.000 Holy!

00:36:09.000 Dude.

00:36:10.000 This is the foundation of everything.

00:36:12.000 If you mess this up, it's a wrap for you.

00:36:15.000 Because, unfortunately, and for some of you guys, fortunately, especially if you're a Chad.

00:36:19.000 Austin Dunham.

00:36:20.000 Right?

00:36:21.000 Like, your looks matter a lot on online dating apps.

00:36:25.000 And this is where a lot of you guys are going to fail. 0.99

00:36:26.000 Because some of you guys might be good looking, but you take shitty pictures. 0.98

00:36:29.000 Or... 0.98

00:36:31.000 You're not the most attractive guy, and you take bad pictures, which is just a double whammy.

00:36:36.000 Or the cardinal rule is, or the cardinal sin is, you do selfies.

00:36:39.000 Bro.

00:36:39.000 Yeah.

00:36:39.000 You're not a chick, bro.

00:36:40.000 That's not for you, bro.

00:36:41.000 Selfies are a dub.

00:36:42.000 So, you need to take good pictures.

00:36:45.000 Yeah.

00:36:45.000 How do you do this?

00:36:46.000 Well, guys, it's gonna cost...

00:36:47.000 Again...

00:36:48.000 It's going to cost you some money.

00:36:49.000 I'm not going to sit here and tell you, you can do it by yourself for free.

00:36:53.000 No.

00:36:54.000 Hire a professional photographer. 1.00

00:36:56.000 Go out and take a thousand goddamn pictures. 1.00

00:36:59.000 A couple hundred, if not a thousand pictures. 1.00

00:37:02.000 Take a full day of shooting with three different outfits.

00:37:05.000 And if you're low on money, go to H&M, go to Zara.

00:37:09.000 Low key spots with good dress wear for a good price.

00:37:13.000 Yep.

00:37:14.000 So what you're going to do is I want you to take a couple of pictures in business attire, a couple of pictures in business casual, and then a couple of pictures in street wear.

00:37:27.000 And if you want, you're a guy, you're in good shape, whatever, you can go ahead and maybe even take some pictures in athleisure.

00:37:32.000 In gym, yeah. 0.99

00:37:33.000 Like your Gymshark, that type of bullshit. 1.00

00:37:37.000 Let me say Alphalete. 1.00

00:37:38.000 Shout out to Christian Guzman.

00:37:39.000 That's our homie right there.

00:37:40.000 Yeah.

00:37:40.000 You know, in some athleisure, right?

00:37:43.000 If you're a guy in your good shape, you got a good figure, right?

00:37:46.000 So, you're gonna take pictures with these four different outfits on, and you're gonna take a couple hundred, if not a thousand pictures, Then, what you're going to do is you're going to take those pictures and you're going to put them into PhotoFeeler.com.

00:38:00.000 I'm giving y'all niggas sauce right now. 1.00

00:38:02.000 You're going to put these pictures into PhotoFeeler.

00:38:05.000 And as a matter of fact, I went ahead and I logged into my PhotoFeeler. 0.94

00:38:08.000 It's been fucking years. 0.65

00:38:09.000 But I actually went in and logged in. 0.98

00:38:10.000 I'm going to show you guys how to take pictures.

00:38:13.000 I'm going to show you guys some of my good ones, my bad ones.

00:38:15.000 As you guys know, Myron Gaines being extremely transparent, right?

00:38:19.000 This is my transparency. 0.97

00:38:20.000 He's fucked me up a couple of times. 0.99

00:38:20.000 Better than me, bro. 0.99

00:38:21.000 I don't know how It is what it is, right? 1.00

00:38:23.000 Niggas talk as shit. 1.00

00:38:24.000 Your sugar profile bio is cringe, but then I see everyone copying it. 1.00

00:38:30.000 Fucking crazy, bro. 0.99

00:38:31.000 And you got results, too. 1.00

00:38:32.000 Yeah, I got results.

00:38:33.000 It works, you know what I mean?

00:38:34.000 There's a different game that works for different guys, right? 1.00

00:38:37.000 For me, I'm just a fucking asshole. 1.00

00:38:39.000 I'm very straightforward, and girls accept that, right? 1.00

00:38:41.000 But I'm able to back it up with who I am.

00:38:45.000 Personality.

00:38:45.000 Right?

00:38:46.000 So, okay.

00:38:47.000 So, once again, right?

00:38:49.000 Shut this down, ninjas, okay? 0.95

00:38:51.000 You're gonna take...

00:38:54.000 Number one, you're gonna get on the dating apps in the first place.

00:38:56.000 You're gonna make a profile on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, POF, OkCupid, Match.com, whatever it is. 0.98

00:39:02.000 You're gonna be on every single goddamn platform. 0.98

00:39:05.000 It's a numbers game. 0.99

00:39:05.000 Okay? 0.99

00:39:06.000 Seriously, yeah.

00:39:06.000 You're gonna be on there and you're gonna be swiping, right?

00:39:08.000 Now, if you want, you can go ahead and pay for the unlimited swipes.

00:39:11.000 That's up to you.

00:39:12.000 But regardless, you're gonna be on every single platform.

00:39:14.000 Then, you're gonna go ahead and take good pictures.

00:39:16.000 This is the foundation. 1.00

00:39:17.000 If you don't do this, you fucked up, okay? 1.00

00:39:20.000 Number one. 1.00

00:39:20.000 You're gonna take good pictures. 1.00

00:39:21.000 You're going to get hired a professional photographer.

00:39:23.000 Go out and shoot for a day.

00:39:24.000 All right?

00:39:25.000 And three primary outfits.

00:39:26.000 One in business.

00:39:27.000 I'm talking shirt, tie, suit.

00:39:29.000 Okay?

00:39:30.000 Because women respond the most favorably to guys that are in business attire. 0.99

00:39:33.000 They've done studies on this and they found every single time when they asked girls, who was the most attractive guy?

00:39:38.000 It was always the guy that was in business attire.

00:39:40.000 Because business attire assumes status.

00:39:40.000 Why?

00:39:42.000 It assumes income.

00:39:43.000 It assumes competency.

00:39:44.000 It assumes a certain class.

00:39:46.000 Okay?

00:39:47.000 And that's what women respond favorably to. 1.00

00:39:48.000 That James Bond type look.

00:39:50.000 Then...

00:39:52.000 Obviously, you can have something in business casual, then some street wear, right?

00:39:56.000 That's when the leather jackets and the jean jackets come out, right?

00:39:59.000 More casual stuff.

00:40:00.000 And then if you have the physique for it, if you want, you can go ahead and put yourself in some athleisure, okay?

00:40:05.000 Right?

00:40:05.000 And an example of athleisure brand is like Alphalete or whatever.

00:40:08.000 Shout out to our guy Christian Guzman, okay?

00:40:10.000 So, bam!

00:40:12.000 Once you have that set up, you're going to put those photos, the ones that you think are the best, into PhotoFeeler.com.

00:40:18.000 So we're going to go ahead and share a screen.

00:40:19.000 I'm going to show you all some of my photos.

00:40:21.000 Again, transparency all the way.

00:40:23.000 So when you put them in, guys, there's going to be three components here.

00:40:27.000 Smart, trustworthy, attractive.

00:40:29.000 The most important thing, niggas, is attractive. 1.00

00:40:31.000 And you guys can see here, these are older pictures, but these are how some of them rated.

00:40:35.000 If you look, which pictures rated the best?

00:40:37.000 The ones where I'm smiling...

00:40:39.000 Right?

00:40:40.000 My eyes are clearly visible.

00:40:42.000 Guys!

00:40:43.000 I don't know why you niggas do this. 1.00

00:40:45.000 Stop taking pictures with fucking sunglasses on. 1.00

00:40:47.000 Stop! 1.00

00:40:48.000 Stop! 1.00

00:40:49.000 Okay?

00:40:50.000 Okay?

00:40:50.000 Yeah, you're not a celebrity, bro.

00:40:51.000 Look at how much different it is when you use certain eye things.

00:40:54.000 Go up to the middle real quick. 1.00

00:40:55.000 See, look at my dumb ass trying to squint at the camera. 0.99

00:40:58.000 Go down a bit. 1.00

00:40:58.000 Go down. 1.00

00:40:59.000 With the background trying to squint.

00:41:01.000 Look at how bad that squint.

00:41:03.000 A 6.7, right?

00:41:03.000 On the left, yeah.

00:41:04.000 Get me off the screen real quick, Bill, so that they can see the fuckery. 0.98

00:41:08.000 Um... 0.99

00:41:09.000 Yeah.

00:41:10.000 Okay.

00:41:10.000 6.7.

00:41:11.000 But if I smile, a 9.2.

00:41:13.000 Okay?

00:41:14.000 There I am with Hero, my arch nemesis.

00:41:16.000 That scored a 10 out of 10.

00:41:17.000 Guys, taking pictures with dogs is very important.

00:41:21.000 Who put you on game, though?

00:41:23.000 Yeah, man.

00:41:23.000 Listen, listen.

00:41:24.000 It's the accessories and lifestyle.

00:41:26.000 Girls want to feel like you're trustworthy. 0.97

00:41:28.000 They can trust you.

00:41:29.000 And if they can see you in the picture or themselves being in the picture with you, you win by default.

00:41:35.000 So dogs are a safe way to break the ice without having to say much.

00:41:38.000 Yes.

00:41:38.000 And why is it that girls like dogs?

00:41:40.000 Let me tell you guys, the firmware in a woman's mind, why they like you to have dogs. 1.00

00:41:44.000 It shows that you're a caretaker, shows that you're a safe person, shows that you have the capability of taking care of something, a living organism besides yourself.

00:41:51.000 And most of the time, crazy people a lot of times don't have dogs or can care for them, right?

00:41:56.000 So that's why girls like that. 1.00

00:41:57.000 Because remember, women are dealing with a gender, right, that is superior to them physically. 1.00

00:42:01.000 So they don't want to get killed and attacked by you.

00:42:03.000 They want to know that you're a safe individual.

00:42:05.000 And also, this is very important as well.

00:42:07.000 They can see you having...

00:42:10.000 False alarm.

00:42:12.000 False alarm, ninjas.

00:42:15.000 What is that?

00:42:17.000 It doesn't matter!

00:42:18.000 We ain't leaving!

00:42:19.000 It doesn't matter!

00:42:22.000 There might be a fire drill right now in the building, but we ain't leaving!

00:42:24.000 This is my whole party!

00:42:26.000 We ain't leaving!

00:42:29.000 Wait, what?

00:42:30.000 Wait, what?

00:42:32.000 We out of here, bro.

00:42:34.000 We're doing the show. 1.00

00:42:35.000 We're burning this shit down. 1.00

00:42:40.000 Who's we? 1.00

00:42:44.000 We all stay in here.

00:42:45.000 We ain't going nowhere.

00:42:46.000 I'm locking the door.

00:42:48.000 Again, so with a dog, right?

00:42:50.000 This is very important because she can see as a guy.

00:42:53.000 You have a dog you're taking care of.

00:42:55.000 One, you might be a good father because you can take care of this dog.

00:42:58.000 And once again, girls want to make sure that you're comfortable and you're safe to be around. 1.00

00:43:02.000 And then two, if you can handle a dog, you can probably handle a kid.

00:43:06.000 Which is kind of crazy because it's two different things.

00:43:09.000 But that's the analogically sound mind.

00:43:12.000 So that's the pretext there.

00:43:13.000 Yeah.

00:43:14.000 So that's why it's important.

00:43:16.000 So go back to the pictures real quick.

00:43:17.000 So look at the ones that scored well, right?

00:43:19.000 I'm smiling.

00:43:20.000 I'm looking directly at the camera.

00:43:21.000 Now look at the ones that didn't do so well.

00:43:23.000 Look at me.

00:43:23.000 I'm shredded.

00:43:24.000 Look at great.

00:43:24.000 Scroll down.

00:43:25.000 Pause.

00:43:25.000 That's me with some gym gear, right?

00:43:28.000 And on, right?

00:43:29.000 Those are some Gymshark shorts, I think, and, you know.

00:43:32.000 And it didn't score that well, guys.

00:43:34.000 So what does that mean?

00:43:35.000 That means that the physique shots aren't as good as a lot of people think.

00:43:41.000 Sitting there flexing, et cetera, guys, it doesn't score as high.

00:43:44.000 Because girls want subtle demonstrations of a higher value, and they want subtle demonstrations that you're in good shape. 1.00

00:43:51.000 When you're outwardly showing, like, hey, look at this shit, bitch, they don't like that, bro. 1.00

00:43:57.000 Flexing is all the time. 1.00

00:43:59.000 Discovery trumps disclosure.

00:44:00.000 Absolutely, bro.

00:44:01.000 So, as y'all can see, my, but here's the other one.

00:44:04.000 See, you can see the one where I'm like, I got the fake model pick, kinda.

00:44:07.000 That one scored a little bit higher, 7.7, but it didn't do that well. 1.00

00:44:10.000 You would think, damn, like, girls are gonna love that shit. 1.00

00:44:12.000 Not really, guys. 1.00

00:44:13.000 Like, girls are not gonna find that shit as attractive, right? 1.00

00:44:16.000 Then you can see here, business attire does well, 9.1. 1.00

00:44:20.000 That's me with Brandon Carter.

00:44:21.000 Yo, who's wearing a hat, bro?

00:44:23.000 That's funny as hell, dog.

00:44:24.000 You should wear hats?

00:44:27.000 What's wrong wearing a hat?

00:44:29.000 Nigga, you wear hats? 1.00

00:44:30.000 Yeah.

00:44:32.000 Back in the day, man.

00:44:33.000 That's funny, dog.

00:44:35.000 And then, as you can see, look, another fitness photo.

00:44:37.000 Doesn't do that well.

00:44:38.000 And then look at the difference, guys, in smiling.

00:44:40.000 So look at that one picture with the leather jacket, right?

00:44:42.000 That one got a 9.5, but if you scroll up and I just look at the camera and I'm not smiling, it doesn't do as well.

00:44:47.000 So it's very important to show a disarming, nice smile.

00:44:52.000 Pause.

00:44:52.000 Why do you guys think I'm so big on smiling and then whitening your teeth and getting them straightened?

00:44:57.000 Guys!

00:44:58.000 Yo! 1.00

00:44:58.000 I'm serious, man. 1.00

00:44:59.000 What...

00:45:01.000 One of the best ways to increase your sexual market value, okay, by a point or above, is by getting your teeth straight and white.

00:45:10.000 Okay?

00:45:11.000 Straight and white.

00:45:12.000 Why?

00:45:12.000 Because it's a sign of cleanliness, it's a sign of health, and most importantly, it's a status symbol when you have nice teeth.

00:45:18.000 Okay? 0.99

00:45:19.000 And it's a flex if you're in Miami, especially if your teeth are fucking real and they're not goddamn veneers. 0.99

00:45:23.000 Alright? 0.99

00:45:24.000 Yeah, that's a flex by itself.

00:45:25.000 That's a flex by itself.

00:45:26.000 Holy!

00:45:26.000 Alright?

00:45:27.000 So...

00:45:28.000 Make sure, guys, that you go ahead and get your teeth straightened and whitened.

00:45:33.000 That's something that's in your control.

00:45:34.000 The gym, your teeth, these are things you can fix.

00:45:37.000 Okay?

00:45:38.000 That will increase your looks significantly.

00:45:42.000 Alright?

00:45:42.000 And you guys can see it right here.

00:45:44.000 The proof is in the pudding.

00:45:45.000 Literally.

00:45:45.000 Show it real quick.

00:45:46.000 Like, I mean, I can't show clear proof how much a smile is important.

00:45:49.000 Look, one is a 9 point something and the other one is a 7 point 1. 0.94

00:45:52.000 Trash!

00:45:53.000 And if you look at all my photos that did the best, okay? 0.99

00:45:56.000 They're all me smiling.

00:45:57.000 Alright?

00:45:59.000 And showing off the pearly whites.

00:46:01.000 There's an old Caribbean remedy where, like, if you want to get a nice white smell, brush with baking soda.

00:46:07.000 Simple.

00:46:07.000 Go to your local store, get some baking soda, brush regularly with some baking soda.

00:46:11.000 I think after you brush your teeth or before, it doesn't really matter.

00:46:14.000 And then from there, you're good to go.

00:46:16.000 And guys, there's nothing wrong with touching up your photos as well if you need to.

00:46:21.000 Like if you need to use an app like FaceApp or one of these other ones to touch up your photos, that's fine.

00:46:26.000 Just don't be crazy with it. 0.84

00:46:28.000 I've seen some of y'all edit the shit out of your stuff and it looks crazy. 0.97

00:46:32.000 For example, you look this way in real life, you look a cartoon on your Instagram. 0.97

00:46:38.000 It don't match up, brother.

00:46:39.000 It doesn't make sense.

00:46:40.000 Facts, man.

00:46:41.000 So, yo, if you guys are going to go ahead and edit your stuff, make sure you edit it to a point where it's not...

00:46:46.000 You're not catfishing to grow, bro.

00:46:49.000 You don't want a catfish to grow. 1.00

00:46:50.000 Just don't do that shit. 0.99

00:46:52.000 Edit it to a point where it's a little bit better, but not like, holy crap, you're a new person. 1.00

00:46:57.000 What else?

00:46:59.000 Can we go back to the photos? 0.67

00:47:01.000 And then also, guys, as far as the gym pictures and shit, You guys can see it right here with the numbers. 0.85

00:47:06.000 Me being painfully transparent with y'all. 1.00

00:47:08.000 Girls don't give a fuck about your teardrop legs. 1.00

00:47:10.000 They don't give a fuck about your abs. 1.00

00:47:11.000 They don't care about the veins. 1.00

00:47:12.000 None of that shit. 0.99

00:47:13.000 Like, if you're gonna have one photo where you're shirtless, my suggestion is this. 0.98

00:47:17.000 Make sure it's you doing something cool.

00:47:19.000 Maybe playing beach volleyball.

00:47:20.000 Maybe surfing.

00:47:21.000 Maybe where you're doing a cool activity.

00:47:23.000 Where it would make sense and you have plausible deniability for you to be shirtless. 0.99

00:47:27.000 But when you're just flexing like this shit, it don't work, man. 0.99

00:47:29.000 Y'all can see it right here with the split test. 0.99

00:47:30.000 It doesn't work.

00:47:31.000 Not smiling.

00:47:32.000 Doesn't work.

00:47:34.000 Scroll up.

00:47:35.000 A bit.

00:47:36.000 Smiling and looking at the camera always works, guys.

00:47:38.000 And then always having a nice backdrop also helps significantly.

00:47:41.000 That backdrop right there, I took on Fresh's old spot. 0.99

00:47:44.000 God damn. 0.99

00:47:45.000 That was a while back, bro. 1.00

00:47:47.000 That was a while.

00:47:47.000 I mean, we could drop where it was at.

00:47:49.000 What building?

00:47:49.000 It was Latitude on the River.

00:47:51.000 Bam, there you go.

00:47:51.000 Right next to American Social.

00:47:53.000 Yeah, so that was before. 0.98

00:47:54.000 Damn, that was like 2021. 0.98

00:47:55.000 That's a good-ass view, though. 0.99

00:47:57.000 Yeah, it is a nice view.

00:47:58.000 It's a fire view, man.

00:47:59.000 Scroll up.

00:48:00.000 Let's throw up some more. 0.75

00:48:01.000 And then, bam, business attire, guys.

00:48:03.000 Business attire is always going to be good, man.

00:48:05.000 Yeah, it kills it, bro.

00:48:07.000 To me, that is the status of being the elite man, having a business casual.

00:48:12.000 And I threw this picture in here with 6'9 to see how it was scored.

00:48:15.000 It didn't score that well, guys. 0.98

00:48:17.000 I think he's a rat. 0.99

00:48:18.000 That's probably why. 0.99

00:48:19.000 Oh, my God.

00:48:20.000 Well, either way, I threw it in there to see.

00:48:22.000 But no, I mean, there's nothing wrong...

00:48:24.000 Okay, so on your dating profile, right?

00:48:27.000 I showed you guys all this to tell you this.

00:48:29.000 You're going to need an assortment of different photos, right?

00:48:32.000 If you want to throw in, obviously, that one business photo that makes you look good, right?

00:48:35.000 Then maybe you can have a photo of you...

00:48:38.000 In more casual clothes, right?

00:48:40.000 Like me with a leather jacket or whatever.

00:48:42.000 Then you can have another one where it might not score as high from like an attractive level, but it shows social proof.

00:48:46.000 You're there with a celebrity, right?

00:48:48.000 Then you can have another one where you're showing off your physique.

00:48:52.000 Might not score as high, but it shows that you're in shape.

00:48:54.000 But if you have other pictures, right, that score really high in attractiveness, and you have a picture that might not score as high in attractiveness, but it demonstrates something else about yourself, then that's acceptable.

00:49:04.000 But if you're only going to have gym photos where you're flexing, blah, blah, blah, Not good, bro.

00:49:08.000 Make sure that you have the foundation of good attractive photos first before you start implementing these other pictures that have a different ulterior motive, such as displaying higher social status, value, displaying resources, displaying social proof,

00:49:24.000 and or displaying your fitness.

00:49:25.000 Okay?

00:49:26.000 Because those photos don't tend to score as high.

00:49:28.000 But it's okay to add into a profile to augment the foundation of what?

00:49:32.000 Having attractive photos.

00:49:33.000 Again, guys, key.

00:49:34.000 Eyes visible, smiling, get your teeth straight, get them whiten.

00:49:37.000 Professional photos, okay?

00:49:40.000 Business is always the best.

00:49:42.000 Then obviously some casual.

00:49:44.000 And then if you've got the shape for it, some athleisure, etc.

00:49:47.000 And then you can also throw in some business casual in there as well.

00:49:51.000 I'm not going to lie, man.

00:49:52.000 You killed number one.

00:49:53.000 I can't even top that. 0.97

00:49:54.000 But, for my niggas that are not as good looking as Myron or Austin, like myself, number two is for you.

00:50:00.000 I'm not a chat either, man.

00:50:00.000 Number two is for you.

00:50:02.000 It's Lifestyle Pulse.

00:50:03.000 You got a big nose, man.

00:50:03.000 It's about lifestyle.

00:50:04.000 You good, bro.

00:50:06.000 How tall are you?

00:50:07.000 6'3"?

00:50:07.000 6'3", yeah.

00:50:08.000 So that helps, yeah.

00:50:09.000 6'4".

00:50:09.000 Anyhow!

00:50:10.000 Number two is going to be lifestyle through pictures.

00:50:12.000 Now, obviously speaking, guys, some of us are on the other side of the angle where you've got to show lifestyle because with lifestyle, girls can imagine themselves with you either on a date, you know, in the future, or in the present moment in real time.

00:50:26.000 So, they want to see what you're about.

00:50:29.000 Now, some people post selfies in the gym, you know, in front of a mirror, and that's just showing you with your face, which is not very attractive.

00:50:36.000 But...

00:50:37.000 If you can show actual lifestyle where you're doing something fun, for example, you're doing ATVs, you're swimming in the pool for practice.

00:50:46.000 Let's say, for example, you're at a nice resort.

00:50:48.000 You know, you're getting a good dinner at a spot.

00:50:51.000 Whatever that may be to you as a good experience, or let's say you're like a painter or, for example, an artist, right?

00:50:56.000 You want to show your lifestyle, your hobbies, what you're doing in real time.

00:50:59.000 That in itself shows you have purpose, you have passion, and you're somewhat ambitious.

00:51:03.000 So again, Good pictures are very paramount, of course.

00:51:06.000 Dress well, look the part.

00:51:08.000 Have the actual cut as well.

00:51:09.000 Like, for example, some guys get pictures, didn't get a haircut, didn't get anything done, nothing done with their beard, looking shabby.

00:51:17.000 And I get it, the rugged look is cool, but for pictures on dating apps, you want to have a secure setup where it's clean cut to the point.

00:51:24.000 But again, Lifestyle is going to be very important as well.

00:51:28.000 So, here's some examples you guys can use for lifestyle.

00:51:30.000 Let's say you're at a hotel, right?

00:51:33.000 And there's a nice pool.

00:51:34.000 That's a good pool.

00:51:35.000 Let's say you're at a nice dinner.

00:51:36.000 Nice food on the table.

00:51:37.000 You're just becoming, literally, the guy that shows his lifestyle, and she may want to be a part of it.

00:51:42.000 That's the whole angle here.

00:51:43.000 So, I have some points here, and I'll give you some examples.

00:51:48.000 Can you pull up my Instagram real quick?

00:51:49.000 Yeah, I got you.

00:51:50.000 If you don't mind.

00:51:52.000 And then we'll go from there.

00:51:53.000 But yeah, also as well, guys, this includes dogs as well.

00:51:56.000 So dogs, as Mario showed you earlier, is good because, once again, it lowers their guard because, once again, if you take care of a dog or you actually, like, take care of any type of animal, it shows that you have responsibility, you can handle that, and as well, you can be a good father figure, right?

00:52:10.000 So that's going to go a long way as well.

00:52:12.000 And let's come down a little bit further on my page.

00:52:15.000 Actually, let's go to lifestyle real quick on my highlights.

00:52:19.000 Cool, right here.

00:52:22.000 Alright, so obviously guys, you don't start with a Lambo. 0.80

00:52:25.000 You start with, for example, your average car, your average life, but...

00:52:29.000 Pause.

00:52:30.000 Pause this real quick.

00:52:32.000 So, guys, I went to Barbados.

00:52:36.000 This was like, I think, two years ago.

00:52:38.000 The actual pulse.

00:52:40.000 That's Jamaican, by the way.

00:52:41.000 And I recorded myself on the jet skis with some friends.

00:52:46.000 Now, what happened was, when I posted this on my story, Girls hit me up saying, hey, where you at?

00:52:52.000 I want to come join you guys.

00:52:54.000 What's good?

00:52:55.000 So just be posting this on my actual story itself on Instagram.

00:52:59.000 Girls hit me up. 0.93

00:53:00.000 Now for you, with dating apps, what you can do is you're going to post yourself on the jet ski.

00:53:06.000 Two things are going to happen here.

00:53:08.000 One, you're going to see yourself through fun activities, which is always a good time.

00:53:12.000 But two, if she's into what you have going on with your lifestyle, she's going to say, you know what?

00:53:17.000 I can be on a jet ski with you on the back.

00:53:20.000 Right?

00:53:20.000 So she's putting in her mind, this guy has a good lifestyle.

00:53:24.000 I want to be a part of it.

00:53:25.000 I can see myself in that picture as well.

00:53:28.000 Okay?

00:53:28.000 Next one.

00:53:31.000 And then, pause here again.

00:53:34.000 So this is me on a boat with my dog.

00:53:36.000 Actually, you can keep it playing if you don't mind.

00:53:39.000 This is me on a boat with my dog, right?

00:53:40.000 I'm showing lifestyle here on Instagram once again.

00:53:44.000 Now, for dating apps, once again, pictures are going to showcase your lifestyle.

00:53:48.000 And you could put this on Hinge and you're like, because Hinge lets you put like a quick little video.

00:53:52.000 Right.

00:53:52.000 You could put stuff like this on your Hinge, guys.

00:53:54.000 There you go.

00:53:55.000 Add a clip from your lifestyle on Hinge.

00:53:58.000 Because again, they want to see themselves with you doing fun stuff.

00:54:01.000 That's the litmus test.

00:54:02.000 When you take the picture, guys, ask yourself, would a girl want to be with me in this experience that I'm currently demonstrating via photo?

00:54:10.000 If the answer is yes, more than likely it's a good photo if it's taken well.

00:54:14.000 If not, then don't do it.

00:54:16.000 Our next one?

00:54:17.000 Mind you, the photo's got to be good too. 0.78

00:54:18.000 It can't be just a super cool activity, but the photo sucks.

00:54:20.000 You want optimally a good combination of the photo's good and professional, makes you look good, while simultaneously displaying something cool about yourself.

00:54:28.000 It could be a hobby, travel, whatever it may be.

00:54:31.000 Okay, this is me playing tennis, right?

00:54:32.000 So guys, it doesn't matter what it is.

00:54:35.000 All that matters is that you're doing a fun activity and you're showcasing yourself doing that activity.

00:54:40.000 That's pretty much it, right?

00:54:41.000 So you saw four examples.

00:54:43.000 Me on a boat, me doing jet skis, playing some tennis here.

00:54:46.000 It doesn't matter what it is, right?

00:54:48.000 Continue real quick.

00:54:49.000 Also, guys, we got only 935 likes.

00:54:52.000 We got 4,000 plus y'all. 0.99

00:54:54.000 Oh, shit. 0.99

00:54:54.000 Back in the day, it was a legend. 0.99

00:54:57.000 Guys, like the video, man.

00:54:59.000 Okay?

00:54:59.000 Like the video, because we're giving y'all all this sauce right now that other people would never give y'all.

00:55:03.000 So like the video, please.

00:55:05.000 Let's get to 4,000 likes, guys.

00:55:06.000 Let's get the engagement up.

00:55:08.000 So here I'm showcasing lifestyle with friends eating dinner, right?

00:55:11.000 And this is Komodo, a nice spot.

00:55:13.000 So I tied up the location here as well.

00:55:15.000 But again, once again, it's just lifestyle, guys.

00:55:17.000 It's lifestyle.

00:55:20.000 And then, obviously, car stuff as well.

00:55:23.000 You can see that one.

00:55:25.000 Me shooting guns.

00:55:27.000 Skip that one.

00:55:29.000 Actually, once again, this just shows other girls in your lifestyle Once again, it's going to show that you're not a creep, and as well, you're good to be around.

00:55:39.000 But, don't flex other girls too much, because it could come back and hurt you too.

00:55:44.000 It could help you, but it could also hurt you.

00:55:46.000 So keep that in mind as well.

00:55:47.000 I recommend, actually, don't post girls on your dating app.

00:55:50.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:55:51.000 Not on your dating app.

00:55:51.000 No, no, no, no, no.

00:55:52.000 They can find this shit on Instagram, though. 1.00

00:55:54.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:55:55.000 But that's it, though, guys.

00:55:56.000 That's it, man.

00:55:57.000 And then this was us on the yacht, actually, with the Tate Brothers.

00:56:00.000 Me, Myron, uh...

00:56:02.000 Oh, yeah. 1.00

00:56:03.000 Oh, shit. 0.99

00:56:05.000 I remember that. 1.00

00:56:06.000 And then Tristan and Andrew.

00:56:08.000 Yeah.

00:56:08.000 Back in the day.

00:56:09.000 Oh, shit, man. 1.00

00:56:10.000 Miami Aikido. 1.00

00:56:12.000 Fun times, man.

00:56:13.000 Shout out to the Tape Brothers, man.

00:56:14.000 But y'all get the point, man.

00:56:16.000 Basically, Lifestyle shows you a lot more than just what you see, and they want to see themselves with you in those activities.

00:56:22.000 Yeah.

00:56:22.000 So...

00:56:23.000 So y'all can see, you know, fresh showing, you know, very good for showing lifestyle, man.

00:56:28.000 Yeah.

00:56:29.000 Was that our first NoJump interview?

00:56:30.000 I think it was.

00:56:31.000 First one, man.

00:56:31.000 That was our first one.

00:56:32.000 When AD came down?

00:56:33.000 Yeah.

00:56:33.000 Went to LA after?

00:56:35.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:56:36.000 Shout out to Adam22 and all those guys.

00:56:40.000 Again, you can stop here, Mo.

00:56:42.000 Sorry, Bills. 0.54

00:56:43.000 Again, guys, it's whatever is good for you.

00:56:46.000 I'm not saying get a Lambo.

00:56:47.000 I'm not saying get on a yacht.

00:56:48.000 I'm saying, what can you do for yourself right now to show lifestyle?

00:56:53.000 Yeah, that's how you thirst trap these hoes, right? 1.00

00:56:56.000 And you guys can see, we have two different methodologies, right?

00:56:58.000 I don't flex as much as Fresh does, but it absolutely helps.

00:57:01.000 And I'll tell you guys this, he gets more girls than I do.

00:57:03.000 So, I mean, hey man, do what you guys, you could go with, you know, he has the honey and the bees want to come, so pause.

00:57:10.000 All right, so what else do we got here?

00:57:13.000 Some more chats in number three.

00:57:14.000 Yeah, we could hit the next one because we did make them wait for a bit.

00:57:18.000 Okay, so we covered taking photos, displaying lifestyle.

00:57:21.000 Yes, number three is going to be good bios to start conversations.

00:57:24.000 Yeah, okay.

00:57:25.000 So bios, guys.

00:57:26.000 Huge, very huge.

00:57:28.000 Here's the thing.

00:57:29.000 The better your profile is, the less the bio matters.

00:57:33.000 Okay?

00:57:34.000 And you can kind of...

00:57:36.000 If you're going to do a bio, there's many different ways you could go.

00:57:39.000 You could go cocky funny.

00:57:40.000 You could be dismissive funny.

00:57:42.000 You could keep it very short and simple.

00:57:44.000 If your pictures are good enough, it really comes down to...

00:57:48.000 How you want to go about it?

00:57:50.000 I forgot one thing as well.

00:57:51.000 Couple brags.

00:57:52.000 Go ahead.

00:57:52.000 Real quick, for number two and number one.

00:57:54.000 If you're broke, right, and you're not where you want to be right now, this is kind of a finesse you can do.

00:57:59.000 I don't want to say it's the best finesse, but you can make it work.

00:58:01.000 So basically, guys, if you want to get the lifestyle and the dress code on point while still being broke, this is what you do.

00:58:08.000 You go to H&M and Zara, you buy the clothes, let's say two to three outfits, right?

00:58:13.000 And then from there, you wear your answer photos and return it.

00:58:16.000 No!

00:58:22.000 You get your boy with a camera or with a good iPhone that he just bought.

00:58:26.000 Listen, bro.

00:58:28.000 Help me out, dawg.

00:58:28.000 Just take pictures of me real quick over here at this spot in Wynwood or maybe by the mall or by this pool.

00:58:34.000 Help a brother out.

00:58:35.000 Then from there, bro, you got photos, you're showing lifestyle and dress code without spending any money at all.

00:58:42.000 And then let's say you want to go even further, right, bro?

00:58:46.000 Actually, you know what?

00:58:47.000 Let me stop here.

00:58:48.000 No, no, go ahead.

00:58:49.000 Keep going, Digger.

00:58:50.000 You can actually...

00:58:52.000 This is how Fresh moved when he was a brokie. 0.94

00:58:54.000 Yeah, 100%.

00:58:54.000 Oh, no, no.

00:58:55.000 I didn't return clothes, though.

00:58:56.000 I didn't do that part.

00:58:57.000 Okay.

00:58:58.000 My friends did.

00:59:00.000 But, yeah, you can do it on a budget, guys.

00:59:03.000 100%, you can do it on a budget.

00:59:04.000 And then again, guys, location's very important.

00:59:06.000 Let's say you show the lifestyle or whatever, you show some cool stuff, then you get them on a date, go to free spots where there's ladies' night. 1.00

00:59:13.000 They drink free all night, so imagine!

00:59:15.000 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:59:15.000 That's actually a good glitch.

00:59:17.000 You got her with the hook and line stinker with the lifestyle and the clothes for nothing. 1.00

00:59:22.000 You get her to a location for nothing.

00:59:24.000 She drinks free all night.

00:59:25.000 And then you just close.

00:59:26.000 Simple.

00:59:27.000 But again, it's a finesse to it, right?

00:59:29.000 So there you go.

00:59:30.000 Yeah.

00:59:30.000 I mean, personally, man...

00:59:32.000 You guys know my stance.

00:59:33.000 I don't think y'all should even be bothering trying to get girls unless you have yourself together. 0.99

00:59:37.000 Yeah, you shouldn't.

00:59:37.000 Because these brokey habits are going to show themselves on a date when you're with her.

00:59:43.000 Yeah.

00:59:44.000 But we know you guys are going to do it anyway.

00:59:46.000 Yeah, y'all niggas are going to do it anyway. 1.00

00:59:47.000 So we might as well just advise you guys, right?

00:59:49.000 Yeah.

00:59:49.000 But generally speaking, honestly, if you don't even have...

00:59:52.000 You got to do returns and all this other shit, you probably shouldn't be fucking around with girls. 1.00

00:59:56.000 Niggas bought a whole catalog, return that shit. 1.00

00:59:59.000 Yo, this shit don't fit. 1.00

01:00:00.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:00:01.000 Then the associate pulls up the Instagram.

01:00:03.000 It looks like it fits.

01:00:07.000 You even put it in the description.

01:00:09.000 Look at the fit.

01:00:10.000 Mr.

01:00:10.000 Wilson, this is the fourth time you come back.

01:00:12.000 Are you okay?

01:00:13.000 Mr.

01:00:14.000 Wilson?

01:00:15.000 Yo.

01:00:16.000 So, anyway.

01:00:18.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:00:18.000 That's some nigga shit, but that is funny, though. 1.00

01:00:20.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:00:21.000 But, yeah.

01:00:21.000 So...

01:00:22.000 So we talked about photos, lifestyle.

01:00:24.000 Bio, bro, y'all can see.

01:00:26.000 Honestly, if your pictures are good enough, you guys see my bio.

01:00:27.000 My bio, crazy.

01:00:29.000 Like, you know, if you're XYZ, I'm not interested, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

01:00:33.000 Like, you can see it where you're cocky, funny, you disqualify, girls. 1.00

01:00:37.000 But the point is that it's got to be congruent to you is the point.

01:00:40.000 Yes.

01:00:41.000 Guys, bio is a funny way if they're looking into your profile to start a conversation.

01:00:46.000 Now, what I've seen work nowadays is signs.

01:00:49.000 You guys know star signs?

01:00:51.000 Libras?

01:00:52.000 Sagittarius?

01:00:52.000 I know this is funky, weary energy stuff, but girls actually respond to it favorably.

01:00:57.000 They eat that shit up, man. 1.00

01:00:58.000 They do. 1.00

01:00:58.000 So, imagine you have a good profile with pictures, lifestyle, One piece missing, guys, is incompatible with me as the individual, which is the girl. 1.00

01:01:07.000 Yeah. 0.63

01:01:08.000 Should niggas put that they're a Scorpio or this other bullshit in their thing? 1.00

01:01:11.000 You'd be surprised. 0.99

01:01:12.000 So there's two ends of this, I want to say, problem, right?

01:01:15.000 Take it away, my friend.

01:01:15.000 So girls have, I want to say, either a positive or negative correlation between signs and the guy that they're dating.

01:01:22.000 So let's say, for example, her ex was a Scorpio.

01:01:24.000 She'd hear her like, crap, but she loved him. 0.99

01:01:26.000 Damn, I hate Scorpios, but I feel like they're for me no matter what. 0.99

01:01:29.000 She's going to, I want to say on some record, either disqualify you or qualify you. 0.99

01:01:34.000 So this is kind of like a hard stance here with the signs, but it's an opener because she's going to be like, oh, you're a Scorpio? 0.80

01:01:40.000 You know, just like my ex.

01:01:42.000 Or for example, oh, you're a Sagittarius?

01:01:44.000 You're my soulmate.

01:01:46.000 Whatever it is, it can either polar tour you or against you.

01:01:49.000 But either way, it's a starter for conversation.

01:01:52.000 And secondly, I would say, other than science, you can use, for example, hobbies.

01:01:55.000 So some girls like, for example, going to the beach as a hobby. 0.99

01:01:57.000 You know, they like...

01:01:59.000 Actually, I think you used this one as well, Mario.

01:02:01.000 You said you like to take long walks on the beach.

01:02:04.000 Was that you or somebody else?

01:02:05.000 I never put that.

01:02:05.000 No, no.

01:02:06.000 Anyway, the point is that you can use...

01:02:10.000 You can use funny quotes like, you know, I like long walks on the beach, you know, I like to go to a rest.

01:02:18.000 Whatever it may be, activities, you can put in your bio as well, just to show a little bit more lifestyle as well.

01:02:22.000 Oh, another thing.

01:02:23.000 Speaking of Mo.

01:02:24.000 No offense, Mo. 1.00

01:02:24.000 If you're fat, guys, hold off on the fucking dating apps, man. 1.00

01:02:28.000 Because it's going to fuck you up. 1.00

01:02:29.000 If you're fat and you're on dating apps, you're going to get significantly worse leads, significantly less matches. 0.99

01:02:38.000 And you want to be at a point... 0.94

01:02:39.000 I'm not telling you how to be ripped and shredded, but what I am saying is that you need to be at least at a point where it's not blatantly obvious that you're fat.

01:02:46.000 Alright, so that's another thing too that's very important.

01:02:50.000 Unfortunately, guys, on a dating app, your pictures are going to be your main commodity and if you're fat, girls are going to disqualify you. 1.00

01:02:58.000 Like if you're a guy and you're a little bit chubbier, you're better off with a cold approach because at least you can show some charisma, you can show some wittiness, you can show some lifestyle, you can show that type of thing.

01:03:05.000 But on dating apps strictly...

01:03:07.000 It's going to hurt you to a degree.

01:03:09.000 So here's something you can use on the bio as well.

01:03:12.000 It works very well for all parties, no matter what girl she is.

01:03:15.000 You can say, guess what sign I am.

01:03:18.000 So rather than say what sign you are, I want to say from the very jump, you say, you know what?

01:03:22.000 In my bio, guess what sign I am.

01:03:24.000 She might guess Asajj, you know, Leo. 0.90

01:03:27.000 Whatever she guesses, say, yeah, how'd you know?

01:03:29.000 And, you know, you kind of like finesse it from there.

01:03:30.000 But the point is, guys, that you want to have a captured...

01:03:34.000 Quote, question, or hobby that you can relate to in your bio as well.

01:03:38.000 Because it's all about being relatable and not being like a creep.

01:03:41.000 If you can establish that in the profile picture or, for example, in the bio, you want to do that all the time.

01:03:47.000 So, to be very general, just put in the bio, guess what sign I am, and then take it from there with the convo.

01:03:53.000 I mean, bio itself, guys, is nothing more than you just displaying it once again, that you're approachable, you're not going to be a creep, and as well, that you're relatable, pretty much.

01:04:02.000 So, we can have some of these chats real quick.

01:04:05.000 Okay.

01:04:06.000 And then we're going to get into, we can talk about now Instagram and then setting up the date.

01:04:10.000 Yeah.

01:04:11.000 That's super important.

01:04:11.000 Okay.

01:04:12.000 All right.

01:04:13.000 Because honestly, guys.

01:04:15.000 Okay.

01:04:15.000 I'll talk about it here in a second.

01:04:16.000 Okay.

01:04:17.000 Guys, don't forget.

01:04:17.000 This is only one of the things you can do to get girls.

01:04:20.000 This is only a fraction of it.

01:04:22.000 So there's cool approach, Instagram game, dating apps is just another avenue.

01:04:28.000 Yeah.

01:04:29.000 Okay, where we at here?

01:04:31.000 We got...

01:04:32.000 Okay, Ice goes...

01:04:34.000 I sent in a super chat earlier about a baby mother with red flags.

01:04:37.000 You really advise men to leave and break up the home?

01:04:39.000 Well, bro, here's the thing.

01:04:41.000 It might take that for her to realize your worth.

01:04:43.000 Because right now, she don't respect you at all.

01:04:45.000 And here's the thing.

01:04:46.000 You don't even know if the kid is yours.

01:04:48.000 That's why you want to do a paternity test. 1.00

01:04:49.000 That's scary, bro.

01:04:50.000 Like, bruh, like, you know, here's the thing.

01:04:52.000 You can go ahead and do a paternity test surreptitiously.

01:04:55.000 You can swab your kid and then go do it yourself.

01:04:57.000 And she won't know.

01:04:58.000 And she won't know.

01:04:59.000 You could do that as well.

01:05:00.000 But you need to take back some of the frame, my friend.

01:05:03.000 Like, she has 1,000% frame over you. 0.87

01:05:05.000 But remember. 0.99

01:05:05.000 She already don't give a fuck about you. 0.99

01:05:07.000 When you're a guy, what's your best power? 0.98

01:05:09.000 To walk away.

01:05:10.000 You're going to walk away.

01:05:11.000 You're staying there, taking that disrespect.

01:05:14.000 It doesn't matter time until she walks away regardless.

01:05:17.000 So it's kind of like, leave now while you still can on good terms for yourself.

01:05:21.000 Let her miss what she's actually missing.

01:05:23.000 And then you know what?

01:05:24.000 I'm sorry.

01:05:26.000 Act like this.

01:05:27.000 And you can say, listen, when you want to make that change for the family to do better, then I'll come back.

01:05:32.000 If not, I'm staying over here.

01:05:33.000 And that's it.

01:05:34.000 Yeah, bro.

01:05:35.000 So, number one, establish that the kid is yours.

01:05:38.000 Like, that's number one.

01:05:39.000 Bruh, that's scary.

01:05:40.000 That's number one.

01:05:41.000 And I'm willing to bet the fact that she doesn't want you to do a paternity test saying that she's going to leave you if you try? 0.99

01:05:46.000 Come on, man.

01:05:47.000 I mean, bro.

01:05:50.000 Most women would be like, yeah, it's your kid. 1.00

01:05:53.000 Do it.

01:05:54.000 Do it.

01:05:54.000 And then obviously they get mad at you for accusing them, but they would be like, do it.

01:05:58.000 Right?

01:05:58.000 You might have to have an earful after the fact.

01:06:01.000 But it doesn't matter, bro.

01:06:02.000 If you're over here questioning if the kid is yours and you want to do a paternity test, come on, man. 0.99

01:06:07.000 You need to look at yourself in the mirror and realize what the fuck is going on in your life right now. 0.99

01:06:11.000 You know what I mean? 0.99

01:06:12.000 That's really what it comes down to.

01:06:13.000 That is scary.

01:06:14.000 I need to focus this camera. 1.00

01:06:15.000 God damn it. 0.99

01:06:16.000 18 years, man. 1.00

01:06:17.000 All right.

01:06:17.000 Where we at here?

01:06:19.000 First, they don't know because they don't watch the show.

01:06:22.000 The both of you balance each other.

01:06:26.000 Whatever.

01:06:28.000 I don't even know who that chick is. 1.00

01:06:30.000 Keep the content coming.

01:06:31.000 All these girls say they would date a blue-collar guy. 1.00

01:06:34.000 Would you bring one on the show to see if they really would?

01:06:36.000 Well, we're going to do a couples therapy show.

01:06:38.000 Yeah.

01:06:39.000 So you might have some come on the show actually pretty soon.

01:06:41.000 Wink, wink.

01:06:42.000 Yeah, but...

01:06:42.000 But normally no.

01:06:43.000 Normally no, bro.

01:06:44.000 Trezzy Man says, First super chat looking for advice.

01:06:46.000 I'm a father of two.

01:06:48.000 Moved my girl 10 years and she just blew up.

01:06:50.000 Happy home over feelings trying to figure out your plan of attack to move on.

01:06:53.000 She just blew up? 0.97

01:06:55.000 Probably by size.

01:06:56.000 Oh! 0.60

01:06:56.000 She blew up a happy home. 0.60

01:06:57.000 Over her feelings.

01:06:58.000 So she got upset, mad, whatever, blew up.

01:07:01.000 The only power you have is to leave.

01:07:02.000 Yeah.

01:07:03.000 Bro, I don't think y'all get it, man.

01:07:05.000 You can't Sean Connery these hoes anymore. 1.00

01:07:08.000 It's not 1961. 1.00

01:07:10.000 You can't do that shit. 1.00

01:07:11.000 The only thing you can do is you have to leave, my friend. 1.00

01:07:14.000 That's the only way that women understand what the hell is going on. 1.00

01:07:18.000 Period.

01:07:18.000 Abundance mindset, bro.

01:07:19.000 You have to have an abundance mindset.

01:07:21.000 And here's the other thing, too.

01:07:22.000 Some of y'all are like, oh, well, I'm gonna break up the home, blah, blah, blah.

01:07:25.000 What's worse? 0.99

01:07:26.000 An environment where you're constantly miserable, you're being a plow horse for a woman that doesn't respect you, she's abusing you, treating you like shit, and you're over here supporting someone that doesn't give a fuck about you, or you go on your own, and then you fight to get custody of the kid, hopefully you can get most of it if possible, 1.00

01:07:42.000 and... 0.99

01:07:43.000 Have a better environment.

01:07:45.000 And here's the thing.

01:07:46.000 I tell you all the time, breaking up, especially when you have a kid, isn't the best move.

01:07:49.000 But for some of you guys, you don't even know if the kid is yours.

01:07:52.000 That's wild.

01:07:53.000 And that's scenario for sure, because you don't know if the kid is yours.

01:07:55.000 Bro, that's scary, man.

01:07:56.000 Yeah, man.

01:07:57.000 You need to do a paternity test now. 0.96

01:08:00.000 What's worse is if you don't leave on your terms, she'll leave on her terms. 0.99

01:08:03.000 So you're still fucked anyway, but on her terms. 0.99

01:08:05.000 Exactly. 1.00

01:08:06.000 And she's already probably on the verge of leaving your ass anyway. 1.00

01:08:08.000 If she's over here telling you shit like that. 1.00

01:08:10.000 Bro, a lot of you guys are okay with being placeholder boyfriends. 1.00

01:08:15.000 A lot of you guys are okay with women treating you like shit. 0.99

01:08:17.000 A lot of you guys are okay with women literally not appreciating your masculinity, your presence, anything else. 1.00

01:08:23.000 What the fuck is wrong with you guys? 1.00

01:08:25.000 Have some goddamn respect for yourself. 1.00

01:08:27.000 If a girl is treating you like shit when... 1.00

01:08:30.000 You're doing the best that you can. 1.00

01:08:31.000 And she's over here.

01:08:32.000 I'm going to do what I want to do. 0.99

01:08:34.000 Do all this other hoe shit. 1.00

01:08:35.000 Like, what the fuck is wrong with you guys? 1.00

01:08:36.000 And stop being fucking simps for girls that don't fucking deserve any good treatment. 1.00

01:08:41.000 Most of these hoes are worthless. 1.00

01:08:42.000 What's wrong with you?

01:08:43.000 And guarantee someone that she met in the past... 1.00

01:08:47.000 That you're here like, shit? 1.00

01:08:48.000 She give the most to, for nothing. 1.00

01:08:50.000 So you don't pay all the bills, being that man for her, treating you like shit? 1.00

01:08:53.000 Bro, just walk away, man. 1.00

01:08:54.000 You don't deserve bad treatment, bro.

01:08:58.000 Especially being a man in the household. 0.76

01:08:59.000 You don't deserve that, honestly.

01:09:00.000 So just walk away. 1.00

01:09:01.000 Crazy to me, man, how you guys sit there and endure fuckery from modern-day women, bro. 1.00

01:09:06.000 It's wild to me. 1.00

01:09:07.000 I'll never understand that shit. 1.00

01:09:08.000 Fuck that. 1.00

01:09:09.000 She should be happy that she even has a guy taking her seriously, taking care of her and her kid that might not even be yours. 1.00

01:09:15.000 Like, what the fuck, man? 1.00

01:09:16.000 Some of y'all need to grow a pair, man. 1.00

01:09:18.000 And get the fuck out of the situation. 0.97

01:09:19.000 Some of you guys right now that are watching the show are placeholder boyfriends, husbands. 1.00

01:09:24.000 You got the girl by the skin of your fucking teeth. 1.00

01:09:26.000 And you're sitting there pleading with her groveling, no, please, I love you. 1.00

01:09:30.000 You're the one.

01:09:30.000 Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

01:09:31.000 And it's like, she looks at you like you fucking insignificant piece of shit. 1.00

01:09:34.000 She doesn't even respect you. 1.00

01:09:35.000 She's out here talking to other men.

01:09:37.000 She wishes she had a better guy. 0.99

01:09:38.000 You know, the one time that you do smash her every two to three months, she's thinking about another nigga. 1.00

01:09:42.000 Like, a lot of you guys literally are getting the scraps, the bare minimum from these women and are happy to do so. 1.00

01:09:49.000 What the fuck is wrong with you guys, man? 1.00

01:09:52.000 We call that charity sex. 1.00

01:09:54.000 Yeah, man. 0.95

01:09:54.000 It's charity. 0.95

01:09:55.000 Fucking terrible, bro. 1.00

01:09:56.000 Losers. 1.00

01:09:58.000 What else do we got here? 1.00

01:10:00.000 MH. Yo, FNF, love what you guys do.

01:10:02.000 Yeah.

01:10:03.000 Yeah, you're right.

01:10:04.000 Yeah, MH. No, no, no, no, no, no.

01:10:06.000 Oh, no.

01:10:07.000 Cool.

01:10:08.000 Karma-sama.

01:10:09.000 Facebook dating doesn't match with Facebook friends.

01:10:12.000 Do what you want with this information.

01:10:14.000 See the boys be up.

01:10:17.000 Okay.

01:10:19.000 Oh My Day says, FNF show is A-grade.

01:10:21.000 I took a break from Love Island UK since watching your show.

01:10:24.000 I feel how girls are on their move. 1.00

01:10:25.000 You should bring on Tyreek from season 10.

01:10:28.000 Oh yeah, he's pretty cool actually.

01:10:30.000 He was slut-shamed for his body count in season 10 episode 3. 0.71

01:10:36.000 Could I bring on a fertility doctor for after hours? 1.00

01:10:39.000 Thank you.

01:10:40.000 Oh yeah, hit us up bro.

01:10:42.000 Um...

01:10:43.000 We have here, Moe the Vampire Demon.

01:10:45.000 Yep.

01:10:46.000 If your girl's on the- Oh boy!

01:10:49.000 Oh boy!

01:10:50.000 I get it!

01:10:52.000 He says, if your girl's on that time of the month, you better hire. 1.00

01:10:57.000 Goddamn. 1.00

01:10:58.000 Yeah, that shit. 1.00

01:11:00.000 Alright, Blackie donated four dates. 1.00

01:11:02.000 Oh no, that was ten.

01:11:04.000 Alright, we good?

01:11:05.000 Yep.

01:11:05.000 Alright, so guys, like we said before, 20 and up to get your Super Chat read.

01:11:09.000 Every chat will be shown on screen, though, however, so thank you guys so much.

01:11:12.000 Where are we at here now?

01:11:13.000 Number four.

01:11:14.000 Number four, okay.

01:11:16.000 Number four?

01:11:17.000 You got a sound effect?

01:11:18.000 Oh, yeah, I got you right now.

01:11:20.000 Round four.

01:11:21.000 So guys, after having...

01:11:23.000 Good pictures for your profile.

01:11:25.000 Showing lifestyle.

01:11:26.000 And as well, good bio.

01:11:28.000 What's next?

01:11:29.000 Messaging.

01:11:30.000 Very important.

01:11:31.000 You have to establish that you're this guy you just portrayed on picture and then translate that into a date.

01:11:37.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:11:38.000 This is where so many guys fuck up. 0.98

01:11:40.000 Some guy asked it earlier. 0.98

01:11:41.000 Oh, I sent her a couple messages and then I stopped.

01:11:45.000 Okay, guys.

01:11:46.000 This is extremely important. 0.99

01:11:47.000 This is where a lot of you guys fuck up. 0.99

01:11:51.000 When you get the girl on the dating app, your number one goal is to get her the fuck off the dating app immediately. 0.99

01:11:57.000 One more time. 0.99

01:11:58.000 Bring this into your brain.

01:12:01.000 As soon as you get her on the dating app and you match and she responds, your goal is to get her off the app immediately.

01:12:08.000 Okay?

01:12:08.000 Immediately.

01:12:09.000 Why?

01:12:10.000 Well, because number one, a lot of girls don't take a dating app seriously. 1.00

01:12:13.000 Number two, they're in the data with messages and it gives them anxiety to open it back up.

01:12:18.000 Okay?

01:12:18.000 So...

01:12:19.000 If you are able to get her attention or whatever, get her off the app immediately.

01:12:23.000 There's two ways that you could do this.

01:12:24.000 And number three, just out to your point as well, they'll keep you on an app for attention, and that's it.

01:12:29.000 So don't talk to her on the app, guys.

01:12:32.000 And actually, this is kind of a screening process here as well.

01:12:34.000 It does two things.

01:12:35.000 It gets her off the app, where she's getting inundated, and then number two, it also helps you screen out time wasters.

01:12:41.000 Okay?

01:12:42.000 So what you're going to do is you're going to get her off the app and you're going to go ahead and get either her phone number or take the conversation to Instagram.

01:12:50.000 Alright? 0.99

01:12:52.000 Now, with that said, some of y'all on Instagram is trash. 0.99

01:12:55.000 Don't get it to Instagram. 0.99

01:12:56.000 So use text.

01:12:57.000 So use text message.

01:12:58.000 Or FaceTime.

01:12:59.000 Well, that's the next part.

01:13:02.000 Or you could go immediately to a FaceTime call with the phone number if you're advanced.

01:13:06.000 But I would say get it on text and or get it on Instagram.

01:13:09.000 If your Instagram is good, go Instagram because she's going to be able to go ahead and see your profile, etc.

01:13:14.000 You're going to be able to do what I call passive demonstrates a higher value.

01:13:17.000 We'll re-release DMs on demand for y'all because I know you guys have been asking for that for months and we've just kind of been like, It's whatever.

01:13:23.000 Yeah.

01:13:23.000 So anyway, yeah, like I was saying, get her on Instagram or get her phone number.

01:13:29.000 As soon as you get that contact information, whether you move her over to DM or you move her over to Instagram, Set up a FaceTime call.

01:13:37.000 So, just to preface this as well.

01:13:39.000 So, on a dating app, you want to say this is kind of...

01:13:41.000 I want to say the bridge between dating app to text and phone call on Instagram.

01:13:46.000 You can say, hey, I'm hardly on this app.

01:13:49.000 Text me so I can keep talking to you over here.

01:13:52.000 Or what's your number?

01:13:53.000 Or your Instagram.

01:13:54.000 The problem is, guys, you rely too much on texting back and forth and it doesn't work in the real world.

01:13:59.000 Because what happens is, while you're texting her, someone's asking to offer her a date or offer and it's like...

01:14:04.000 Okay, he's a friend pen pal.

01:14:06.000 I'm just gonna text him back and forth.

01:14:07.000 Versus, the date is very important for interaction and making things happen.

01:14:10.000 So, bridge that gap.

01:14:11.000 Say, hey, listen, I'm numbering on this app.

01:14:14.000 Hit me up here.

01:14:15.000 What's your phone number?

01:14:16.000 And here's the other thing, too, you guys gotta understand.

01:14:17.000 Like, attention is very important to women. 1.00

01:14:21.000 They will sit there and waste your fucking time if you let them. 1.00

01:14:23.000 All day. 1.00

01:14:23.000 Okay? 1.00

01:14:24.000 Like, let me say that one more time for y'all.

01:14:25.000 Because a lot of you guys are newer viewers.

01:14:26.000 You might not know a lot of the steps that we give you guys when it comes to dating, etc. 1.00

01:14:32.000 Women will absolutely waste your time if you fucking let them. 1.00

01:14:36.000 Alright? 1.00

01:14:37.000 And I can't tell you how many guys I've seen get burned with this with over texting, sitting on dating apps talking to her, over DMing. 1.00

01:14:44.000 Like bro, fuck that shit. 1.00

01:14:46.000 You get her off the app and your goal is to get her off the app and have instant communication via phone call or preferably FaceTime. 1.00

01:14:53.000 Why do I say this?

01:14:55.000 Because a 10 minute FaceTime call guys is gonna be the equivalent to like texting her for like a week. 0.98

01:15:00.000 When it comes to building rapport and shit. 0.98

01:15:01.000 Okay? 0.98

01:15:02.000 Also, you're going to be able to display other attractive features about yourself.

01:15:06.000 You guys would be amazed at how being able to string along a sentence coherently and not being a weirdo or being a weird mute would make you...

01:15:13.000 More attractive than a lot of other guys. 0.99

01:15:16.000 A lot of guys are really fucking socially awkward. 0.65

01:15:18.000 So if you're able to go ahead and talk to her on the phone or have a FaceTime call, even better yet, where you got some good lighting on you, you're showing that you look like your pictures, you are who you say you are, that's gonna do a lot to alleviate any anxiety or stress that the girl is going through. 0.96

01:15:32.000 And here's another reason too why it's good.

01:15:34.000 This is a little bit more of the evil side here, okay? 1.00

01:15:38.000 You want that bitch on her back foot too, okay? 1.00

01:15:41.000 Guys, a big part of dealing with women, especially in 2023, is knocking them off their fucking pedestal, okay? 1.00

01:15:47.000 FaceTiming a girl and getting her on her back foot where she's like, oh, I don't have my makeup, oh, I'm not ready, or oh, blah, blah, blah. 0.99

01:15:53.000 That's what you fucking want. 0.99

01:15:55.000 You want these girls, okay, scared of you. 1.00

01:15:58.000 You want these girls nervous around you.

01:16:00.000 You want these girls intimidated by you, okay?

01:16:02.000 Whenever they say that, what that basically means is translation.

01:16:06.000 You have higher perceived value than myself, and I'm not sure if I measure up.

01:16:10.000 Good! 1.00

01:16:10.000 That's exactly where you want these bitches. 1.00

01:16:12.000 You never want girls to think that they're better than you. 1.00

01:16:14.000 If they're saying they're intimidated, or they're scared, or I don't look good right now, blah, blah, blah, fan-fucking-tastic! 0.99

01:16:20.000 You gotta get these girls on their fucking back foot, and you have the advantage. 1.00

01:16:24.000 And here's the thing, when it comes to dating and everything else like that, people get mad at me, Myron, you're an asshole, you promote degeneracy, you tell guys to fuck 50 girls, you gotta tell guys to blah, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

01:16:32.000 That's what I'm doing. 1.00

01:16:34.000 I'm telling guys that they need to have a decided advantage in 2023 when everything is against them.

01:16:39.000 Period.

01:16:40.000 Okay?

01:16:40.000 So, FaceTiming a girl, especially out the blue a lot of the times, right?

01:16:44.000 And having her on her back foot is going to say a lot about you.

01:16:47.000 Oh, I don't have my makeup.

01:16:48.000 Oh, I'm in bed. 1.00

01:16:50.000 Fuck it. 1.00

01:16:51.000 Or let's say she says she doesn't do it, then tease her. 1.00

01:16:51.000 You know? 1.00

01:16:54.000 Oh, what?

01:16:54.000 You need to put on a face-up makeup to have a conversation?

01:16:56.000 That's kind of weird.

01:16:57.000 Blah, blah, blah. 0.50

01:16:58.000 Like, joke about it, but let her know that she's a weirdo for that.

01:17:02.000 You know what I mean?

01:17:02.000 Do it in a funny way.

01:17:03.000 Obviously, it's like, you ugly bitch! 1.00

01:17:05.000 You can't do a face-up call! 1.00

01:17:06.000 Don't be an idiot about it, right? 1.00

01:17:07.000 Make a joke about it, whatever. 1.00

01:17:08.000 But the point is that you've got to tug at those insecurities a little bit with these females. 1.00

01:17:12.000 Because, guys... 1.00

01:17:13.000 Women get complimented and get their fucking ass kissed all day, every day. 1.00

01:17:19.000 You need to go against the grain and not kiss her ass and let her know. 1.00

01:17:24.000 You need to humble these bitches and let them realize that they are mortal beings. 1.00

01:17:27.000 They're humans. 1.00

01:17:27.000 They're not goddesses. 1.00

01:17:28.000 They're not princesses. 1.00

01:17:29.000 Your job as a guy a lot of times is to knock this bitch off her pedestal. 1.00

01:17:34.000 So, you made a very good point there. 0.98

01:17:36.000 When you FaceTime a girl, she's either going to say, oh, I'm not ready for FaceTime, I need makeup, or, oh, not right now, I'm busy, right? 1.00

01:17:44.000 So here's a way you can kind of get that FaceTime call as soon as possible.

01:17:46.000 You say, listen, I understand you don't have makeup right now, but I'm going to see you like this regardless.

01:17:53.000 So let's do a call.

01:17:54.000 Yep.

01:17:54.000 What did I say there?

01:17:56.000 I said, in not so many words, I'm into you.

01:17:59.000 We're going to have a great time on this date and after in your bedroom as well.

01:18:02.000 But I'm saying it indirectly.

01:18:04.000 So she's like, oh wait.

01:18:05.000 He said, so once again, what did I say?

01:18:06.000 I said, yes, I understand, but I'm going to see it like this regardless.

01:18:10.000 So it's fine.

01:18:11.000 Yeah.

01:18:11.000 FaceTime me.

01:18:12.000 Done.

01:18:12.000 And that also, that's a sales technique, guys.

01:18:14.000 That's assuming the sale. 1.00

01:18:15.000 Hey, you already like me, bitch. 1.00

01:18:17.000 You do. 1.00

01:18:18.000 So I'm already gonna see this anyway.

01:18:21.000 So that's very important, guys. 0.96

01:18:23.000 And here's the other thing, too, when you're dealing with girls, like, you know, saying the funny shit like, oh, yeah, we're gonna have a great life together, whatever, shit like that. 0.86

01:18:32.000 Like, fresh does he be selling the dream? 0.96

01:18:33.000 That works, though, because the reason why it works is because women live in fantasy la-la land. 1.00

01:18:38.000 And to get women interested in you, a lot of times, you have to sell the dream to a degree where you're almost like...

01:18:45.000 Women are interested in the future. 0.98

01:18:47.000 What do I tell you guys all the time on this show?

01:18:48.000 Men are interested in the past, women are interested in the future. 0.99

01:18:50.000 If you're able to convey certain things, that number one assumes a sale, and then number two assumes that there's going to be something more in the future. 1.00

01:18:58.000 Girls really eat that shit up, man. 1.00

01:18:59.000 100%. 1.00

01:19:00.000 So you basically kill a couple of... 0.61

01:19:04.000 With one stone. 0.97

01:19:04.000 With one stone there. 0.97

01:19:05.000 You're assuming the sale, which is confidence, and then you're also building...

01:19:09.000 Imagery in her head.

01:19:11.000 Imagery in her head.

01:19:11.000 It's going to happen.

01:19:12.000 A fantasy in her head that she could see herself with you in the future.

01:19:15.000 Now, once you get this FaceTime call or text conversation going, listen.

01:19:21.000 You know what I'm going to say all the time on the podcast?

01:19:23.000 Let me feel the vibe.

01:19:24.000 I need to feel the energy and the vibe in the room, you know?

01:19:27.000 Basically, you're going to cover yourself in a, I want to say, articulate and funny, chill way.

01:19:32.000 Talk, ask questions.

01:19:33.000 Make sure you ask questions, by the way.

01:19:34.000 Not her ask questions.

01:19:36.000 And so listen.

01:19:37.000 I like your vibe.

01:19:37.000 I like your energy.

01:19:39.000 I want to take you out.

01:19:41.000 When X you're free, I want to take you out.

01:19:44.000 She's going to say, oh, I work Monday, Tuesday, but I'm free Wednesday, Thursday.

01:19:47.000 Perfect.

01:19:48.000 I'll pick you up.

01:19:49.000 I'll meet you here on Thursday, 7 p.m.

01:19:52.000 Don't be late.

01:19:53.000 And the thing, too, guys, is when you have this phone call, this FaceTime call, not only are you...

01:19:57.000 10 to 20 minutes absolute max.

01:20:00.000 You're building some rapport.

01:20:02.000 You're conveying you're not a weirdo.

01:20:04.000 You're having some conversation.

01:20:05.000 You're letting her talk about herself.

01:20:07.000 You're alleviating a lot of that anxiety, a lot of that stress.

01:20:10.000 She's seeing that you're a real person.

01:20:11.000 She's showing that you're killing so many different birds with a single stone when you FaceTime them.

01:20:16.000 You told me this one. 0.97

01:20:17.000 You said, basically, I need to be afraid that you're not a weirdo or a creep yourself.

01:20:21.000 That too!

01:20:22.000 So you're putting it on her.

01:20:23.000 Yes!

01:20:24.000 So thank you for that, for reminding me about that.

01:20:26.000 So as you guys know, women have objections a lot of times, right?

01:20:29.000 Mm-hmm.

01:20:30.000 Oh, we're not having sex.

01:20:31.000 Or, oh, you know, I'm nervous.

01:20:34.000 Blah, blah, blah.

01:20:35.000 Like, girls have a bunch of objections a lot of times when they deal with guys. 0.80

01:20:37.000 To be fair, yeah.

01:20:38.000 Right?

01:20:39.000 And that's because they're the more vulnerable sex, right?

01:20:42.000 What I do is I give those objections to them before they give it to me.

01:20:46.000 Bam.

01:20:47.000 Right?

01:20:47.000 So every girl's nightmare is going on a date with a guy that's, like, weird and creepy.

01:20:51.000 So what I do is I bring that up and I put it back on them and I'm like, oh, well, I don't want to deal with a weird, creepy girl. 1.00

01:20:57.000 Whoa, what the fuck? 0.99

01:20:57.000 So now she went from trying to get me to qualify to her to show that I'm not weirdo and creepy. 0.99

01:21:03.000 She's like, oh no, I need to show that I'm not weird and creepy.

01:21:06.000 So now she's qualifying to me, which immediately shifts the frame, and then bam.

01:21:10.000 Now she's operating on my system.

01:21:13.000 She's in your frame.

01:21:14.000 You go ahead and you deal with the objections that women have before they even come up by putting them on her. 1.00

01:21:20.000 Is she a weirdo? 0.81

01:21:21.000 Is she creepy? 0.90

01:21:22.000 Is she awkward or strange? 0.51

01:21:24.000 Is she a catfish? 1.00

01:21:27.000 Do you look like your pictures, etc.?

01:21:28.000 I want you guys in a position where the woman is on her back foot. 1.00

01:21:32.000 You're the one pushing, she's the one... 0.99

01:21:34.000 Not quite literally, I have to say it.

01:21:36.000 Not literally, but what I mean is figuratively speaking, she's on the back foot, you're pushing, and she's on the defense, okay?

01:21:43.000 Where she's like, oh my god, I need to defend myself because remember, she has an ego. 1.00

01:21:47.000 She's used to guys kissing her ass all the time. 1.00

01:21:49.000 She's used to guys giving her anything for just simply existing. 1.00

01:21:51.000 You're not fucking doing that shit. 1.00

01:21:53.000 You're going to stand up more. 1.00

01:21:54.000 You're standing out and you're making her qualify to you. 0.99

01:21:56.000 Guys, if you learn this skill set, how to make bitches qualify to you, you're instantly going to be more attractive. 1.00

01:22:01.000 Because what does that do? 0.99

01:22:02.000 Most guys don't have the balls to make a girl qualify to them because they have a scarcity mindset. 0.98

01:22:06.000 They can barely get girls. 0.97

01:22:07.000 So if you're out here making girls qualify to you, you're teasing them, you have them on their back foot, you're hitting them with the objections that they would normally hit you with, well guess what?

01:22:15.000 That's not common.

01:22:16.000 That's weird to a lot of girls, in a good way, because most guys are going to do everything in their power to qualify to the girl. 0.99

01:22:22.000 But when you make her qualify to you, that shows social proof, that shows that you have other women, that shows that you are impartial to dealing with her, so she needs to decide what the fuck she's going to do. 0.98

01:22:32.000 And most of the time, if she sees your value to be a certain level, she's going to go ahead and comply with you. 0.81

01:22:38.000 Also, another thing too, because I know some of you guys don't understand this whole concept of selling a dream, etc., After this podcast is done, I need y'all niggas to go listen to Justin Timberlake, My Love. 0.98

01:22:47.000 And the reason why is because that song, right, perfectly and succinctly Gives what women want. 0.98

01:22:56.000 I can see us holding hands, walking on the beach, our toes in the sand.

01:23:00.000 I can see us in the countryside.

01:23:02.000 He's selling a dream.

01:23:03.000 Yeah, you know what I mean?

01:23:05.000 Niggas lying all over the place. 1.00

01:23:07.000 Making Britney Spears get abortions and shit like that. 1.00

01:23:09.000 But he's over here selling that dream. 0.99

01:23:11.000 Because that's what girls want. 1.00

01:23:13.000 You know, they want it even though...

01:23:14.000 Men are the real romantics.

01:23:15.000 They want to be lied to.

01:23:16.000 Girls want the fantasy, the lie, etc. 1.00

01:23:19.000 So, you know, that song right there, right?

01:23:23.000 Literally, the reason why women love it so much, besides the fact that Justin Timberlake is extremely talented and it's a good song, is it sells a dream.

01:23:31.000 It's what women want to hear. 0.99

01:23:32.000 Growing old together, being together long term, etc.

01:23:35.000 Women want relationships. 1.00

01:23:36.000 Even the biggest hoes want relationships, guys. 1.00

01:23:38.000 100%.

01:23:38.000 Okay?

01:23:39.000 There's a reason why they call it Hot Girl Summer and not Hot Girl Life.

01:23:42.000 So if you can go ahead and dig into that a little bit, even in the first meeting where you're kind of selling this dream of, hey, there might be some more potential out there, et cetera, while simultaneous but letting her know that's only contingent upon you qualifying to me, bam, puts you in the driver's seat for once.

01:23:59.000 And that's a situation that most women are not used to being in where the man is making her qualify. 1.00

01:24:03.000 And she's instantly going to be attracted to you for doing so because most men never make women qualify.

01:24:08.000 Don DeMarco!

01:24:09.000 Bam! 0.99

01:24:11.000 Yo, this is why we're the number one men's podcast in the fucking world, bro. 0.99

01:24:14.000 Who gives y'all more sauce than us, man? 0.97

01:24:16.000 Sub to the channel.

01:24:17.000 This is A1 Game here.

01:24:18.000 You niggas thought we got famous and forgot?

01:24:19.000 For free! 1.00

01:24:20.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:24:21.000 We're still dealing with these stupid-ass bitches, too! 1.00

01:24:23.000 Yeah, we are. 1.00

01:24:24.000 Every day.

01:24:25.000 We're still in the game, man.

01:24:25.000 Every day.

01:24:26.000 So, clearly, y'all can see what the fuck is going on. 0.98

01:24:29.000 And again, this is extremely time-consuming. 0.98

01:24:31.000 We were doing this before the fame, by the way.

01:24:33.000 Way before.

01:24:33.000 This is not even, like, after.

01:24:34.000 This is before the fame. 1.00

01:24:35.000 We're doing all this shit. 1.00

01:24:36.000 So... 0.99

01:24:37.000 Being on multiple dating apps, etc. 0.99

01:24:38.000 Now, if y'all really want to be on some steroid shit... 0.99

01:24:42.000 You have multiple profiles on the same apps. 0.99

01:24:45.000 So that means you have multiple Tinder profiles, multiple Bumble profiles.

01:24:50.000 You can do this with different phone numbers and different emails. 0.99

01:24:52.000 Damn. 0.99

01:24:53.000 If y'all really want to go ahead and like fucking capture the marketplace, multiple profiles under different phone numbers and different emails. 0.98

01:24:59.000 And then what you could do is, if you really want to get experimental, switch the pictures. 0.55

01:25:03.000 So let's say you got like 10 good pictures, put four on one profile, put four on another profile...

01:25:08.000 You know?

01:25:09.000 And then do that along with all the dating apps.

01:25:10.000 What does the best, yeah.

01:25:11.000 So now, instead of having three dating profiles on three different apps, you got six dating profiles on three different apps. 0.99

01:25:17.000 Damn. 0.96

01:25:17.000 And guys, what did we talk to y'all about? 0.96

01:25:19.000 Dating apps are a fucking numbers game. 0.99

01:25:21.000 Alright? 1.00

01:25:21.000 It is. 1.00

01:25:22.000 So, and then the other thing too is that when you have multiple profiles and they're brand new, guess what?

01:25:22.000 100%.

01:25:26.000 You're at the top of the algorithm where they're showing your profile to everybody.

01:25:29.000 Why do these dating apps do that?

01:25:31.000 And a quick little side tangent on dating apps and algorithms.

01:25:34.000 They want you on the app and they want you to spend money. 0.98

01:25:36.000 So what they're going to do is when you first make your profile, they're going to show you to every bitch. 1.00

01:25:40.000 Which is good. 0.99

01:25:40.000 Okay? 0.99

01:25:41.000 And you want to use that.

01:25:42.000 But after a period of time...

01:25:44.000 They're going to take you down on the algorithm and they're going to put newer users there because their goal is to get you to buy.

01:25:48.000 Okay?

01:25:49.000 Now, as far as, like, you know, getting Tinder super or whatever the fuck it is where you can have more swipes, that's personally on you whether you want to do that or make different profiles.

01:25:55.000 But regardless, I mean, you can maybe make one where you pay for it and then others that you constantly switch out.

01:26:01.000 But make sure you use different phone numbers and emails because if you constantly make new profiles, they'll ban you.

01:26:05.000 That's another thing too.

01:26:06.000 They'll definitely ban you. 1.00

01:26:07.000 So be careful on that.

01:26:08.000 And then you might have to do it where if you really want to get around shadow banning or whatever, you can use different devices.

01:26:17.000 That's the game right there.

01:26:18.000 And the last one we'll do after the chats.

01:26:20.000 Yeah.

01:26:21.000 Posting the link now.

01:26:22.000 Let's see here.

01:26:23.000 Posting the link.

01:26:23.000 What was that?

01:26:24.000 Okay.

01:26:25.000 Cool. 0.99

01:26:25.000 Hey guys, like the goddamn video, man. 0.99

01:26:27.000 How many likes do we got here? 0.99

01:26:29.000 We got 7K watching on Rumble.

01:26:31.000 And I believe on YouTube we have...

01:26:31.000 We did that.

01:26:33.000 4.4.

01:26:34.000 There you go.

01:26:35.000 We only got 1.7K. Come on, guys.

01:26:37.000 Like the goddamn video. 1.00

01:26:38.000 Are I Been Preach gonna teach you this shit? 1.00

01:26:40.000 No. 1.00

01:26:40.000 Are Playback gonna teach y'all this shit? 1.00

01:26:42.000 To be completely fair here, guys, this is free game. 1.00

01:26:42.000 No. 1.00

01:26:45.000 Most they can sell it to you in a course.

01:26:47.000 You're getting it for free here on YouTube and Rumble for nothing.

01:26:50.000 At least like the video, man.

01:26:50.000 Yeah.

01:26:51.000 Like the video, bro, because our haters aren't going to give you all this kind of stuff, so we're not going to give you this kind of information, this level of detail, answer your guys' question, do this shit live. 0.79

01:26:58.000 And they're going to charge you what they do. 0.81

01:26:59.000 Just saying.

01:27:00.000 If they ever do.

01:27:01.000 Yep.

01:27:02.000 So, anyway...

01:27:03.000 Alright, May Rafouts goes, since you gentlemen mostly have conservative views based on what I've seen and you are also Muslim, what do you think about most of the stance on what is going on?

01:27:16.000 Man, y'all already know what my stance is with that, guys.

01:27:19.000 I mean, if you guys have watched my other pods, you guys already know what it is.

01:27:23.000 You know what it is.

01:27:25.000 What else we got here?

01:27:28.000 You need some experience, bro.

01:27:40.000 When I was 21, I felt that way, too.

01:27:42.000 I didn't go to parties.

01:27:43.000 I see people on their Instagram stories, living life, whatever, especially when I was in college.

01:27:47.000 But understand, man, that delayed gratification It's something that you need to learn.

01:27:51.000 It's a skill set.

01:27:51.000 And as a man, your value appreciates as you get older, man.

01:27:55.000 So build yourself up.

01:27:56.000 I'm not telling you not to deal with women or whatever, but understand that your best years are still way ahead of you, man.

01:27:56.000 Go to the gym.

01:28:01.000 So as a 21-year-old male, bro, you're useless in society and no one gives a fuck about you. 1.00

01:28:05.000 Yeah, I think you could do both, though. 0.99

01:28:06.000 Obviously put work as a priority first, but in your free time, when you're done with work, you got some free time, just go on some dates.

01:28:12.000 But again, once again, you need good profile, good bio, and good conversations to lead to dates.

01:28:20.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:28:20.000 So, but yeah, man, don't fall for the I'm missing out shit. 0.99

01:28:24.000 Don't get the fear of missing out bug that a lot of guys get and then they end up fucking up their 20s, partying, doing a bunch of stupid shit. 1.00

01:28:30.000 I can guarantee you. 1.00

01:28:30.000 When they should have been building up a legacy in that time period. 1.00

01:28:32.000 The same guys and girls are in the club, partying, having fun, are still going to be there when you're done with your work and your career.

01:28:38.000 I guarantee you, bro.

01:28:38.000 Absolutely.

01:28:39.000 I'm in the club, trust me, they're still there today.

01:28:39.000 Absolutely, bro.

01:28:41.000 Yeah.

01:28:41.000 They were there five years ago, too.

01:28:43.000 Yeah.

01:28:43.000 So don't feel like you're missing out, bro.

01:28:45.000 Because you only have this period of time to build up that foundation. 0.64

01:28:49.000 You're not going to be 21 forever where you have the, you know, saw and vigor to get this shit done and have the time and energy.

01:28:54.000 As you get older and older, bro, it's going to be harder to work those hours. 0.95

01:28:56.000 It's a cold world, man.

01:28:58.000 Like, most people party and they have no coats on.

01:29:00.000 You're going to work on yourself, become successful.

01:29:02.000 You have a coat.

01:29:03.000 So when you walk into that cold world, you can handle anything, bro.

01:29:06.000 Tell me.

01:29:06.000 Seriously.

01:29:07.000 Very cold.

01:29:09.000 When are you going to get Drake on the podcast, have Fresh Sing Miss Me?

01:29:14.000 I hope that you miss me a little when I'm gone.

01:29:16.000 I hope that you miss me a little.

01:29:18.000 Hey, Fresh and Fit, I love what you both do, and I still insist that I would be a perfect person to interview for my story, business, and one-of-a-kind product, GC Windsor.

01:29:26.000 I would have met Fit at the Tim Cass Miami event, but I never saw you there.

01:29:31.000 Yeah, I was there for a little bit.

01:29:33.000 I had to go.

01:29:33.000 We had a show to do.

01:29:34.000 Yeah.

01:29:35.000 But...

01:29:38.000 Yeah.

01:29:39.000 As far as like...

01:29:40.000 I mean, bro, we get...

01:29:41.000 Dude, you know how many messages I get from people saying like, bro, I'd be the greatest person to interview.

01:29:45.000 It's like...

01:29:47.000 Why?

01:29:48.000 You know what I mean?

01:29:48.000 Why?

01:29:51.000 I don't mean to be an asshole or whatever, but it's got to be mutually beneficial. 0.98

01:29:58.000 What else do we got here? 0.99

01:29:59.000 In the New Testament, why is having multiple wives a sin? 0.55

01:30:02.000 What if you want to have 20 kids because it's going to be harder with one girl? 1.00

01:30:08.000 Yeah, again, this is based on new rules and new laws on Jesus dying for our sins.

01:30:14.000 So, I mean, back in the day, there was free reign to do whatever you wanted to do.

01:30:19.000 The New Testament is kind of like, hey, if you want to follow the tenements of Jesus, he's going to marry the church, which is basically, you know, those boys. 0.77

01:30:27.000 And that's his bride.

01:30:29.000 So there's one bride and, you know, one husband. 0.93

01:30:32.000 So that's what it is.

01:30:34.000 All right.

01:30:35.000 By the way, we only got 2,000 likes, guys, but 4,000 plus y'all watching, man.

01:30:38.000 Yo, we should be at 4,000 likes automatically.

01:30:40.000 I don't know why guys don't want to like the video, bro.

01:30:42.000 Just like the video, man.

01:30:43.000 It's free, man.

01:30:44.000 You don't got to donate a dollar to the show.

01:30:46.000 We just ask that you like the video because it helps with the algo.

01:30:48.000 As you guys know, we got demonetized on YouTube.

01:30:50.000 So it stunts your growth a little bit.

01:30:52.000 But hey, man, like the video so you can get pushed up in the algorithm.

01:30:54.000 Someone can find this content and be able to, you know, do better on dating apps or find out how to make money or find out how to just be a better man in general.

01:31:01.000 Blackie, after four dates... 0.93

01:31:03.000 Wait, no.

01:31:05.000 Marifouts? 0.91

01:31:06.000 Yeah.

01:31:07.000 If you have questions, what do you guys think adding a high-value woman would help y'all...

01:31:11.000 A what?

01:31:11.000 Yeah.

01:31:13.000 Would help y'all's end goal, which I believe is to help people navigate dating.

01:31:17.000 What happened to...

01:31:18.000 I saw that Lauren... 1.00

01:31:20.000 Nah, bro, we're not talking about that right now.

01:31:22.000 Okay, Blackie says, after four dates, she told her best friend... 0.52

01:31:25.000 Yo, why do y'all keep asking us about other...

01:31:27.000 Bro, stop asking us about other podcasts that are competitors.

01:31:32.000 We don't gossip. 1.00

01:31:33.000 Stop fucking asking us this shit. 1.00

01:31:34.000 We don't talk about other people. 1.00

01:31:35.000 That's not what we're about, bro.

01:31:38.000 Bro, if you ask us questions about people that are competitors or people that we don't necessarily rock with like that, we're just going to ignore your chat, bro.

01:31:45.000 Yeah.

01:31:45.000 Like, I appreciate the donation, we really do, but I don't know why you guys keep asking us about other people.

01:31:50.000 Like, we don't give a fuck, man. 0.99

01:31:51.000 Yeah, we don't. 0.99

01:31:52.000 We're here to talk about ideas, not talk about other people. 1.00

01:31:54.000 Smart people talk about ideas, stupid people talk about other people. 1.00

01:31:57.000 So it's like, bruh. 1.00

01:31:58.000 And gossiping is basically a sin, too, so there you go.

01:32:00.000 Yeah, man.

01:32:01.000 So, bro, stop asking us questions about competitors.

01:32:03.000 Are you guys gonna collab?

01:32:04.000 No!

01:32:05.000 There you go. 1.00

01:32:06.000 There's your fucking answer. 1.00

01:32:06.000 Nope. 1.00

01:32:07.000 The answer's no.

01:32:08.000 The answer's no.

01:32:09.000 Okay?

01:32:10.000 And it's feminine behavior. 1.00

01:32:10.000 We're not gonna collab with people that copy us. 1.00

01:32:13.000 Like, we're just not gonna fucking do that shit. 1.00

01:32:14.000 So stop asking. 1.00

01:32:15.000 It's annoying as fuck, man. 0.99

01:32:17.000 Every single day. 1.00

01:32:18.000 Why?

01:32:19.000 Why?

01:32:20.000 That would not benefit us.

01:32:22.000 They would only hurt us if anything.

01:32:24.000 It would benefit them.

01:32:25.000 Yeah.

01:32:25.000 We are the originators.

01:32:26.000 We are the trendsetters.

01:32:27.000 We're not going backwards.

01:32:28.000 We're continuing to innovate.

01:32:29.000 They want the stamp of approval from us.

01:32:31.000 No, man.

01:32:31.000 It's not happening.

01:32:32.000 So stop asking us this shit. 1.00

01:32:33.000 It's really annoying. 1.00

01:32:34.000 Stay over there.

01:32:35.000 So Blackie says, after four dates, she told her best friend, BFF, I'm almost perfect, but I insecure sometimes and don't have a strong political worldview.

01:32:46.000 She's feminine, never goes out, never kissed a guy, and is six attractive on the scale. 1.00

01:32:50.000 Should I keep dating her?

01:32:52.000 Will she keep dating me?

01:32:53.000 I'm 24, she's 23.

01:32:55.000 So she told her best friend, okay, so she told her best friend he's perfect, but she has insecure, no strong political views, world views, she's feminine, never goes up, never gets a guy. 0.81

01:33:08.000 I don't see why not.

01:33:09.000 I mean, there's nothing bad here.

01:33:11.000 Yeah, I mean, just keep it going, man.

01:33:13.000 Yeah.

01:33:13.000 Looks like you're doing well here.

01:33:16.000 Might as well.

01:33:18.000 Hamza Jaholi says, Hey Myron, what song do you listen to?

01:33:22.000 I heard you listen to Pop Smoke a lot.

01:33:23.000 Me too.

01:33:24.000 Mine is Armed and Dangerous, AV Flexing, and Invincible.

01:33:28.000 I like Invincible.

01:33:29.000 That's a dope-ass song from Pop Smoke.

01:33:32.000 That's actually Myron's favorite song too. 0.68

01:33:34.000 Invincible.

01:33:34.000 I think he likes Culture Goes To.

01:33:36.000 What?

01:33:37.000 Invincible?

01:33:37.000 What rappers do you listen to?

01:33:39.000 Rappers.

01:33:40.000 What rappers do I listen to?

01:33:41.000 What song do you listen to?

01:33:43.000 I think maybe in the gym?

01:33:44.000 When you work out?

01:33:46.000 Okay, oh, okay.

01:33:47.000 What is it?

01:33:48.000 I heard you like to...

01:33:49.000 Yeah, listen to Pop Smoke a lot.

01:33:50.000 Me too.

01:33:51.000 Mine is Armed and Dangerous, AV Flex and Invincible.

01:33:54.000 I like...

01:33:56.000 Myron loves Drew.

01:33:57.000 I like Flexin from Pop Smoke.

01:33:59.000 Myron loves Drew. 0.97

01:33:59.000 That's his older shit, but I like 2018, 2019 Pop Smoke too. 0.97

01:34:04.000 Sometimes you have to lie to girls, but why does Justin Waller extremely dislike men that do this to a certain extent, of course? 0.99

01:34:10.000 Look, man, everyone has different methodologies, bro. 0.98

01:34:14.000 You know, Justin's honest with women, so am I, but that strategy is going to lose you a lot of bitches, if I want to be honest with you. 1.00

01:34:20.000 So, girls don't want the truth, bro. 1.00

01:34:23.000 They don't want the truth.

01:34:26.000 That's what it really comes down to.

01:34:28.000 So, everyone has different methodologies.

01:34:31.000 Bro, not for nothing, but I'd much rather see her grow without makeup first than to see her done up. 1.00

01:34:36.000 These women are experts in physical manipulation. 1.00

01:34:37.000 I'm not trying to take home a closet Chewbacca when the makeup comes off.

01:34:40.000 Yeah, that's true.

01:34:41.000 Big facts, bro.

01:34:44.000 Okay, and then we got here.

01:34:45.000 Doge, the Dodger.

01:34:47.000 Myron, get LASIK, you four. 1.00

01:34:48.000 I'd fuck love you guys. 1.00

01:34:49.000 WFNF team. 1.00

01:34:51.000 Myron, Fresh, Chris, Icy Moe, Angie Bills.

01:34:54.000 I've thought about it, guys, but I don't want no one touching my eye, bro.

01:34:57.000 I can't even get a contact in my eye.

01:34:58.000 I can't do it. 0.99

01:34:59.000 Damn. 1.00

01:34:59.000 I can't do it, man. 1.00

01:35:00.000 Really?

01:35:00.000 Yeah, I can't do it.

01:35:02.000 That's scary.

01:35:03.000 What else do we got here?

01:35:04.000 We got Rumble Rats coming up.

01:35:05.000 Rumble and Castle Club.

01:35:06.000 They're doing the Rumble Rats.

01:35:08.000 So, number five?

01:35:11.000 Yeah.

01:35:13.000 Number five, guys.

01:35:14.000 Last one on the list.

01:35:15.000 This is going to be one of the most, I want to say, beneficial parts of dating apps is location benefits for travel and scale of numbers.

01:35:23.000 So again, guys, this is a numbers game.

01:35:25.000 No matter how you want to look at it, dating apps have a scale because it's online and it's everywhere at the same time.

01:35:31.000 Now, We mentioned Colombia a couple times, you know, Brazil, all these locations that people travel to for girls.

01:35:37.000 So location-wise, you can actually set your location, I believe, on Tinder and certain apps for those countries before you even go there.

01:35:43.000 Yeah.

01:35:44.000 Now, here's the benefit.

01:35:45.000 Passport.

01:35:45.000 Again, numbers game.

01:35:47.000 You can set up the location ahead of time.

01:35:51.000 Look at all the girls there that you want to hit up. 0.93

01:35:53.000 Swipe right, of course.

01:35:54.000 And then let's pick, like, five to ten girls that you want to actually see.

01:35:58.000 And before you even get there, have dates lined up from the jump.

01:36:00.000 That to me is scale and average because once again, in real time, let's say you're here in Miami, you're going to go to Brazil, you don't see them face-to-face.

01:36:09.000 You can create that interaction here from your bedroom on a dating app.

01:36:13.000 So I think on scale level and location level, that's incredible.

01:36:17.000 But once again, guys...

01:36:18.000 You want to swipe at least a week before.

01:36:19.000 It's going to be having all four steps done first, then this last step.

01:36:24.000 Because good pictures...

01:36:26.000 Good lifestyle.

01:36:27.000 Good bio.

01:36:29.000 Lead them from the app to text or FaceTime or Instagram.

01:36:33.000 They say, hey, I'm going to be there on these dates.

01:36:37.000 I want to have a good time.

01:36:39.000 Let's go to...

01:36:39.000 Actually, if you're really smart about it, look at the best spots in that area.

01:36:44.000 For example, maybe dinner, club, and then say, hey, let's go out when I get there, to this location, at this spot, meet me here.

01:36:51.000 That way you have a plan of action before you can get there, you know where you're going, she knows where you're going, and it's a seamless transition from wherever you're at to when you land on that country, and you're good to go.

01:37:01.000 So I think for scale and location, you can't be dating apps as Instagram because, again, it's literally from your home, wherever you're at in the world, you can find girls in that location, set up dates, and in real time, get a response and move forward.

01:37:16.000 To me, that is, once again, the best thing for scale and numbers.

01:37:20.000 So for dating apps, that's the part that most people didn't have back in the day.

01:37:23.000 You have it at the tip of your fingertips nowadays.

01:37:25.000 Yeah.

01:37:26.000 For traveling, it's definitely helpful as well if you're going to go somewhere.

01:37:30.000 But yeah, you definitely want to at least be screening a week or two before you get there, guys.

01:37:34.000 You don't want to be landing there and then doing it.

01:37:35.000 You want to do the work up front.

01:37:37.000 Girls will flake, bro. 1.00

01:37:38.000 They will flake.

01:37:38.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:37:39.000 So there's a number of facts.

01:37:40.000 Big facts. 0.97

01:37:41.000 I mean, that's a big reason why the RP even is so prominent today is because of the flake rate and the fuckery that comes along with dealing with females. 1.00

01:37:50.000 Mm-hmm. 0.98

01:37:51.000 Big facts.

01:37:53.000 Okay, could we read some of these rants and then we'll summarize this thing and close it out?

01:37:56.000 Cool.

01:37:57.000 We have here a freshest dog.

01:37:58.000 Yo, WMans, bro.

01:38:00.000 Yo, what do you call her? 1.00

01:38:01.000 Silicone bucket? 0.95

01:38:02.000 Oh, yeah.

01:38:03.000 Yeah, that was hilarious.

01:38:04.000 Oh, you're funny, bro.

01:38:07.000 He says, why are you dating apps when you can slide into your ex's friend's DMs?

01:38:12.000 You know, DM time, bro. 1.00

01:38:13.000 What the fuck, bro? 1.00

01:38:13.000 You walling. 1.00

01:38:16.000 SlugsBanger says, if you have the two main girls, you got each of them a spot. 1.00

01:38:20.000 If you wanted both of them to have your kids, would it be smart to move them into a house together?

01:38:24.000 I let my kids grow up under the same roof.

01:38:28.000 That's going to be under your leadership, bro.

01:38:29.000 I mean, I think, technically speaking, is that what you want to do, Byron?

01:38:32.000 Have four wives all in one house or separate? 0.96

01:38:34.000 Separate.

01:38:35.000 Separate?

01:38:35.000 Yeah.

01:38:36.000 Yeah.

01:38:36.000 I mean, bro, that's going to be up to your leadership, bro, because they might run wild, they might get upset, or they might work.

01:38:42.000 Yeah.

01:38:42.000 It depends on how you want to set it up.

01:38:43.000 Yeah.

01:38:45.000 So that's up to you, my friend.

01:38:47.000 Again, Fresh Dog says, Fresh, I suppose supporters know how much work you put into this.

01:38:51.000 It'd be after hours, only since they'd be hating on you.

01:38:54.000 Thanks, bro.

01:38:54.000 Appreciate that, man.

01:38:56.000 Pedro says, Ryan Montgomery, best man in the space of cybersecurity.

01:39:00.000 Recommend getting into contact.

01:39:02.000 Also, next book series would be great if it was two books, one on how the man should treat his woman and daughter from childhood to motherhood, and one for the woman themselves, like the one Barat gave his daughter in the second Barat movie, would be W. Heirloom, WFNF. Alright?

01:39:18.000 Doom the Goon says, Hawker approached me for my IG the other day.

01:39:22.000 Do I hit her up or for her to hit me up? 1.00

01:39:25.000 Honestly, guys, when it comes to talking to girls from the texting standpoint, hit up yourself because at the beginning, you put a little bit more effort, but at the same time, you want to create that interaction, let it have that effect where you're putting in the effort at the beginning, and then pull back yourself so she's putting effort in the long term.

01:39:43.000 So you put effort at the very beginning, you pull back, and she comes to you.

01:39:47.000 That way it's a seamless interaction between you and her where it's not too much of back and forth.

01:39:52.000 And then Darkmeme says, WFNF, haven't missed an episode of Fed It or FNF in over a year.

01:39:57.000 Shout out to you, bro.

01:39:59.000 Names who top colognes you recommend? 1.00

01:40:01.000 Damn. 0.99

01:40:03.000 I'll give it to you. 1.00

01:40:04.000 YSL Tuxedo, amazing scent.

01:40:07.000 I find that's very effective for girls because, once again, it's not too manly, not too girly.

01:40:12.000 It's like right in between.

01:40:13.000 Again, that's YSL Tuxedo.

01:40:15.000 And then if you want to have like a general, I want to say cologne that's good as well, it's I give them my sauce, man.

01:40:21.000 Go ahead.

01:40:22.000 I give them one.

01:40:23.000 No, you give them one, bro.

01:40:24.000 I give them one of my good ones.

01:40:25.000 I use Kenneth Cole Reaction.

01:40:26.000 There you go.

01:40:27.000 I don't even know if you can find that in stores anymore.

01:40:29.000 You gotta order it online.

01:40:30.000 Yeah, it's old. 0.99

01:40:30.000 I've been using that shit since like 2008. 0.99

01:40:32.000 Yeah, but that one is amazing, bro. 1.00

01:40:35.000 But yeah, if y'all want to smell a little bit different versus getting all the shit that everyone has. 0.99

01:40:38.000 YSL. Yeah. 1.00

01:40:40.000 What else we got here?

01:40:42.000 Are we doing 20 and up?

01:40:43.000 Or these came in from before?

01:40:44.000 Okay, I'm 25, I'm an 8K a month and have good game with women. 1.00

01:40:46.000 I told myself I had my fitness goals by the end of the year.

01:40:48.000 I'd get a nose job.

01:40:49.000 I have a huge nose.

01:40:50.000 What are your thoughts?

01:40:51.000 Do it, man.

01:40:52.000 I mean, nothing wrong with looks maxing.

01:40:53.000 If your nose is that big and it's something that you think keeps you hung up, do it.

01:40:59.000 Do it for yourself, though.

01:41:00.000 Do it for yourself, man.

01:41:00.000 If you want to do it.

01:41:02.000 I just believe that if you're a guy, man, it doesn't really matter that much, bro, to be honest with you. 1.00

01:41:06.000 Yeah, it's not that big of a deal, unless your shit is huge. 1.00

01:41:09.000 But, I mean, I got a big nose, too. 1.00

01:41:10.000 Yeah, me too.

01:41:11.000 For the people that want the show to be longer, what if the after hours, when the ladies leave, you guys do something where you give your opinion on how the night went with the girls?

01:41:18.000 We kind of do on locals, kind of, sometimes.

01:41:21.000 But...

01:41:21.000 It's not a bad idea.

01:41:22.000 Yeah.

01:41:23.000 DG Bill, thank you, FNF and the Tate Brothers.

01:41:25.000 I appreciate that value.

01:41:26.000 Shout out to you, man, DG. But I kind of want to do it in front of girls though, not behind their back.

01:41:30.000 You know what I mean?

01:41:31.000 That's kind of like, we'll sit to their face, how we feel.

01:41:35.000 No, I think they want a post-show.

01:41:40.000 Nah, bro.

01:41:42.000 We'll do it in front of our faces, man.

01:41:44.000 That's better. 1.00

01:41:45.000 You guys are all stupid. 1.00

01:41:46.000 Out of profile, Tinder, and more or less applied the advice noted, but always ended up with women as fat as Big Mo and rugglier than fresh. 1.00

01:41:53.000 What can I do to improve?

01:41:55.000 One of two things, my friend.

01:41:56.000 Either A, your section market value is low, or B, you're in a location that isn't a target-rich environment.

01:42:01.000 Okay?

01:42:02.000 And I'll be honest with y'all, bro. 1.00

01:42:03.000 If you're like on Tinder and you're like in one of these, like, you're like in fucking Mississippi or Louisiana, et cetera, where everyone is a fat piece of shit, bro, you all have a hard time. 1.00

01:42:11.000 You know what I mean? 0.99

01:42:12.000 This is why I tell you guys, you know, you want to be in a major city as a younger guy if you can avoid, if you can, or, well, as a guy, if you can, if you can afford it.

01:42:20.000 Yeah, location's very important, man.

01:42:21.000 Yeah, bro.

01:42:21.000 Very, very important.

01:42:22.000 Should I approach this girl at the gym? 0.99

01:42:24.000 We keep making eye contact, but it's my main gym.

01:42:26.000 Bruh.

01:42:26.000 Ooh.

01:42:27.000 It's up to you, dude. 1.00

01:42:31.000 I'm against fuckable girls that go to my gym, personally. 1.00

01:42:35.000 But if you want to do it, you can. 0.97

01:42:37.000 Just understand that if it's a fail, it'll be weird.

01:42:40.000 And she's more inclined to reject you, too.

01:42:42.000 Even if she likes you, she's going to be more inclined to reject you. 0.81

01:42:45.000 I sent the rant on training to become a Green Beret earlier.

01:42:48.000 Being a former Fed, any advice on running a business in the military, Myron?

01:42:51.000 Fill out an outside employment paperwork immediately, bro.

01:42:54.000 Make sure you fill that out because if you go ahead and you start running a business and you're in the military and you didn't get it approved by your chain of command, oh lord.

01:43:01.000 You're going to be facing all kinds of trouble, man.

01:43:03.000 So you don't want a JAG prosecuting you in the military court system, which has an 80% plus rate where they always win, bro.

01:43:12.000 It's the Green Brett one of the top.

01:43:14.000 Yeah.

01:43:16.000 But yo, you're not going to have time.

01:43:17.000 If you're a Green Beret, you're not going to have time to have a side business, bro. 0.99

01:43:20.000 Damn. 1.00

01:43:20.000 You're not going to have time. 1.00

01:43:21.000 You'll be in the jungle with water on you and shit. 1.00

01:43:26.000 Nah, man. 0.99

01:43:27.000 You ain't going to have time.

01:43:28.000 But yes, if you do want to run a business on the side, make sure you fill out Outsider Plan paperwork.

01:43:31.000 And that's for all guys that are in the government.

01:43:39.000 Yeah, bro,

01:43:54.000 that's like against the terms.

01:43:55.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:43:56.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:43:57.000 You guys are the pioneers of this. 1.00

01:43:59.000 I also see so many people using the term 304 now keep growing and stomping on these suckers. 0.95

01:44:03.000 Yeah, bro. 0.79

01:44:03.000 Yeah, it is what it is, man. 0.79

01:44:05.000 So, like I said before, man, we're the trendsetters, man.

01:44:07.000 So, it is what it is.

01:44:09.000 Okay!

01:44:10.000 Okay, so...

01:44:11.000 That was hella content, man.

01:44:12.000 Last one here.

01:44:12.000 Question for the both of you.

01:44:13.000 Should I pick up a 304 on my Nissan GTR, 100K car, or a Tesla?

01:44:18.000 You know what's funny?

01:44:19.000 I have fun with this wrong.

01:44:19.000 You're a car guy.

01:44:20.000 Because what I'll do, right?

01:44:23.000 I'll say before I pick them up, I'm like, hey, I'm also in a black Toyota Corolla.

01:44:27.000 And she's like, you know, it's funny.

01:44:29.000 Every time they're like, okay, that's fine.

01:44:31.000 I'll be there.

01:44:32.000 And it's like, wait, I don't see you.

01:44:33.000 I'm like, oh, I'm in the G-Wagon.

01:44:35.000 Oh, I'm in the Range Rover.

01:44:37.000 I'm in the Rolls.

01:44:37.000 I'm in the Lambo.

01:44:38.000 But again, I'm just testing to see how they react to that point.

01:44:42.000 Good little test right there.

01:44:43.000 All right, guys, so we're going to recap real fast.

01:44:45.000 I was going over a lot.

01:44:48.000 So number one, take good pictures, okay?

01:44:49.000 We said this before.

01:44:50.000 Go ahead and invest in a photographer, guys.

01:44:52.000 It is what it is.

01:44:52.000 Take good professional photos.

01:44:54.000 I would say take 1,000 pictures where, you know, you're doing it in different outfits.

01:44:57.000 Just take a full day to shoot, guys, okay?

01:44:59.000 Or if you want to finesse.

01:45:00.000 One in business attire, one in business casual, one in athleisure, and then some in some casual wear, you know?

01:45:05.000 So you want some pictures in a suit, some pictures of leather jacket, jean jacket, you know, black jeans, you know, typical...

01:45:11.000 Staple, you know, street wear and or business attire, et cetera.

01:45:15.000 That way you have an array of different photos that you can use.

01:45:18.000 Then, put those photos through Photofeel.

01:45:20.000 I showed you guys earlier that smiling and having a nice disarming smile, clean teeth, et cetera, business attire, those pictures tend to do the best.

01:45:29.000 And then obviously have some other ones that diversify your look.

01:45:31.000 Maybe one with a leather jacket, one with a jean jacket.

01:45:34.000 You know, obviously, modern clothing.

01:45:35.000 Don't be wearing baggy jeans like a 2005 and your soldier boy.

01:45:38.000 Like, come on, man.

01:45:39.000 Get with the times.

01:45:40.000 Dress.

01:45:40.000 Fashionably appropriate.

01:45:41.000 Turn my swag on.

01:45:44.000 And then the pictures that do 8 or above in attractiveness, you can go ahead and put them on your profile.

01:45:51.000 But try to shoot for at least an 8 to a 9, optimally.

01:45:55.000 And then, as soon as you start getting matches on the dating apps, move them off of the app immediately, whether it's to phone number or to Instagram, and start setting up a FaceTime call, or a phone call, either or.

01:46:05.000 FaceTime call kind of takes them off guard a bit.

01:46:10.000 And get them to comply to you during a conversation.

01:46:12.000 And also, make sure that you kind of assume the sale, like Fresh had said before.

01:46:19.000 You know, hey, we're going to see each other anyway, so it's okay if you don't get the makeup on.

01:46:22.000 Yes, fine.

01:46:23.000 Yeah, we're going to wake up together one day.

01:46:24.000 I prefer girls with no makeup anyway. 1.00

01:46:26.000 Yeah, some shit like that, right? 0.98

01:46:27.000 So you want it to feel a little bit comfortable, but at the same time, you're putting her on her back foot and kind of knocking her off the pedestal. 0.99

01:46:32.000 This is very important, guys.

01:46:33.000 Then...

01:46:34.000 Once you get her off the app and you're talking to her, set up that date.

01:46:37.000 That 10 to 20 minute FaceTime call, not only are you conversing and getting to know each other, you're also going to set the frame up with, what are you doing on XYZ? Set up that date immediately, guys.

01:46:47.000 Not a week in advance or no, no.

01:46:48.000 What are you doing tomorrow?

01:46:50.000 What are you doing tonight?

01:46:50.000 Set up immediately.

01:46:51.000 It's 2023, bro.

01:46:52.000 This whole, wait a week and call me, blah, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

01:46:54.000 That shit don't fucking work no more. 1.00

01:46:56.000 Nowadays, you can meet a girl literally in that same hour, smash. 1.00

01:46:56.000 It's so crazy. 1.00

01:47:00.000 It don't take a week or 20 hours.

01:47:02.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:47:03.000 Fuck that shit. 1.00

01:47:05.000 All right? 1.00

01:47:05.000 Speed is the game. 1.00

01:47:06.000 All right?

01:47:06.000 The energy.

01:47:07.000 And then also, like I said before, if you want to increase your likelihood of chances, guys, be on every app.

01:47:11.000 Bumble, Hinge, Tinder. 0.92

01:47:12.000 Match.com, Christian Mingle, I don't know the fuck, whatever. 0.99

01:47:15.000 Eat Harmony! 0.99

01:47:15.000 You wanna be on Black? 0.99

01:47:16.000 You wanna be on Black to get some Shaniquas? 1.00

01:47:18.000 Cool, go for it.

01:47:19.000 Be on all the apps, use those good pictures, and the more fishing rides you have out, the better chance you're gonna have.

01:47:24.000 We're catching that.

01:47:25.000 On top of that, you wanna be even more so in the game.

01:47:28.000 Go ahead and have multiple dating profiles on each of these apps, right?

01:47:32.000 Use a different phone number, different email, have multiple profiles.

01:47:34.000 You can split test your photos where you put four of your good photos here that scored well, then another four on another profile, you know, on your two different Tinder profiles.

01:47:41.000 And there you go.

01:47:42.000 And then, like I said before, set up that date, and then bam, you're good.

01:47:46.000 The whole goal of dating apps, guys, is to sit there and get to know the girl on the app or to make friends with her.

01:47:51.000 No.

01:47:51.000 The goal is to funnel her into...

01:47:54.000 You're not a pen pal.

01:47:54.000 A date.

01:47:56.000 You're not texting back and forth for no reason.

01:47:58.000 And then last but not least, number five is going to be location, maxing out scale for numbers, and as well when you travel to a new destination, setting location early, set up dates early on before you even get there, and you get to go from there with some numbers.

01:48:11.000 Yeah.

01:48:12.000 So, that's what you guys gotta do.

01:48:13.000 That's how you max out the dating.

01:48:14.000 But again, it starts with the pictures, guys.

01:48:16.000 Hire a professional photographer. 0.99

01:48:18.000 Get it fucking done. 0.99

01:48:19.000 You guys can look back at some of my photos. 0.99

01:48:20.000 Y'all saw how some of them scored.

01:48:21.000 I thought it came out good, but it didn't come out that good.

01:48:23.000 Oh, was it smiling?

01:48:24.000 Maybe it was too much flexing in the gym? 1.00

01:48:26.000 Whatever the fuck it is. 1.00

01:48:26.000 Girls don't like that shit. 1.00

01:48:27.000 The market will tell you if it's good or not. 1.00

01:48:29.000 The market will tell you, man.

01:48:29.000 And actually, real quick, for the finessers out there, low budget, not making that much money, you get your friend with a good iPhone, or, for example, a good camera, say, hey, bro, with H&M and Zara, got some clothes, Get me real quick.

01:48:44.000 I'm going to return them tomorrow.

01:48:46.000 And you're good to go, bro.

01:48:47.000 And that's where you get pictures, lifestyle, and for super cheap, low cost.

01:48:53.000 Gotta make it work, man.

01:48:53.000 Hey, man, we're helping all y'all out.

01:48:54.000 Even the fucking brokies. 0.99

01:48:56.000 Gotta make it work, bro. 1.00

01:48:56.000 Y'all niggas shouldn't even be dating, but fresh got y'all. 1.00

01:48:59.000 Got you, man.

01:49:02.000 All right, guys.

01:49:03.000 What else we got here?

01:49:04.000 Okay.

01:49:05.000 A wise man once said they want to be lied to.

01:49:06.000 I tell them what they want to hear if it's not lying.

01:49:09.000 It's not lying if they want to hear.

01:49:10.000 Okay, man.

01:49:11.000 However that helps you sleep.

01:49:12.000 You don't really need the apps traveling.

01:49:13.000 If anything, it shows how overwhelming the apps can be on the female side of things. 1.00

01:49:17.000 Holy options for days.

01:49:18.000 Yeah, bro.

01:49:18.000 It is.

01:49:19.000 That's why I want y'all to get them off the app immediately.

01:49:21.000 Yeah.

01:49:21.000 My friend had an overseas relation and planned to get married, but in a recent text, his girlfriend asked him to send her money because she's moving out.

01:49:27.000 Said she is not ready to tie a ring.

01:49:29.000 I said, break you.

01:49:30.000 Or, I mean, break up.

01:49:31.000 Yeah, that's an L, man. 0.89

01:49:33.000 My ex hit her marriage certificate from me with her ex's name on it.

01:49:36.000 Guys, you've got to vet these girls. 1.00

01:49:37.000 Goddamn, nigga. 1.00

01:49:38.000 Wow. 1.00

01:49:39.000 Albo Ace picked up a bottle of tuxedo a couple weeks ago.

01:49:42.000 It's so fire.

01:49:43.000 Also, any Louis Vuitton cologne is fire, too.

01:49:45.000 Guys.

01:49:45.000 I gave you the biggest gem for dates.

01:49:48.000 You put on Westl tuxedo, you need maybe two spritz.

01:49:52.000 One here, one here.

01:49:54.000 She's going to love that smell, bro.

01:49:55.000 I'm telling you.

01:49:56.000 The smell alone will get her from a mile away.

01:49:58.000 Bam.

01:49:59.000 Alright.

01:49:59.000 And then last one here, Jamin goes, followed all the rules you've listed and got over 50 matches within two weeks.

01:50:04.000 What are your thoughts on avoiding ghosting and flaking?

01:50:07.000 That's where the FaceTime calls come.

01:50:08.000 Yes.

01:50:08.000 You're also screening out girls too.

01:50:10.000 You know what I mean?

01:50:11.000 So guys, they want to know that you're not a creep once again and that you're cool and you're going to have a fun date with you.

01:50:16.000 FaceTime call.

01:50:17.000 Kind of...

01:50:18.000 I want to say, all those issues that you have at the very beginning, or flicking, or for example, ghosting, if you do a FaceTime call, it might go away from that one call alone.

01:50:26.000 It goes a long way.

01:50:28.000 Cool.

01:50:28.000 But yeah, that's how it goes.

01:50:30.000 And a camp two times question, how do I manage?

01:50:31.000 Oh, now you guys want to get the questions in.

01:50:33.000 How do I manage or operate multiple women in DMs or in my space? 1.00

01:50:36.000 I work at this huge warehouse.

01:50:39.000 A lot of girls like me and ask for my IG or number or get their friends to do it for them and girls outside of work. 0.99

01:50:44.000 I've never had more than three at once chasing.

01:50:49.000 Well, bro, that's a good problem to have.

01:50:50.000 That's where you go ahead and you pick out the girls that are the most useful to you. 1.00

01:50:54.000 You know?

01:50:55.000 Beauty only goes so far.

01:50:56.000 So you don't want to go ahead and keep girls around that aren't an asset. 0.91

01:50:59.000 Like, the girls that are liabilities, you need to cut them quickly. 0.99

01:51:01.000 Yeah.

01:51:02.000 That's how you do it.

01:51:02.000 That's the triage that I use.

01:51:03.000 I mean, some of y'all like to keep around girls that are useless because you guys just like bad bitches that much, but to me, I don't care how hot she is. 1.00

01:51:09.000 After one or two smashes, if she's useless, bro, trust me, you're going to start to get annoyed. 0.99

01:51:13.000 Put them in categories, man. 0.92

01:51:14.000 Put them in categories.

01:51:15.000 There you go.

01:51:15.000 So that's what you got to do, my friend.

01:51:17.000 Cool.

01:51:18.000 So we're going to be back here with some lovely ladies and about... 0.74

01:51:21.000 Chris?

01:51:22.000 10 o'clock.

01:51:23.000 Alright, 10.

01:51:24.000 10.

01:51:24.000 So, we'll be back here, guys, in a little bit.

01:51:27.000 Love y'all.

01:51:27.000 Like the video.

01:51:28.000 Guys, subscribe to the channel if you haven't.

01:51:29.000 No one else is giving y'all the sauce.

01:51:30.000 They can imitate, but they can never replicate.

01:51:32.000 They can, bro.

01:51:32.000 Because they don't have the prerequisite knowledge like we do.

01:51:34.000 You know what I'm saying?

01:51:34.000 We're actually out here in the game and give y'all the sauce.

01:51:36.000 And we did it before the fame.

01:51:38.000 Exactly.

01:51:38.000 Don't forget that.

01:51:39.000 Yeah.

01:51:39.000 So, anyway, let's see if the imitators can replicate that.

01:51:42.000 They probably can.

01:51:43.000 We'll catch you guys on the next one.

01:51:44.000 Peace.

Fresh & Fit - October 18, 2023

How To MAX Matches On Dating Apps In 2023-2024

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