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00:02:50.000As you guys know, Fresh goes ahead and links you up with some very high net worth and high status individuals that can help you propel in life.
00:02:58.000So that if you're tired of being a bum and you want to go ahead and network and get outside your comfort zone and meet some people that you share similarities with, go ahead and get with the CEO network.
00:03:05.000And if you want to brotherhood, join us well for brotherhood as well.
00:05:57.000Yeah, I mean, listen, I really like John a lot.
00:05:59.000I think he has a ton to contribute, but then sometimes it's just like you kind of wish someone would grab him and be like, hey, you know, there's a smarter way to do this.
00:06:06.000And when I watched the fight, my first thought was that first right cross he hit, I feel like he didn't put everything into it because he thought they were playing, but they weren't playing.
00:06:14.000And then Tiki Taki was explaining to him, we're not playing.
00:06:18.000But you see when they get up at the end, that wouldn't be me.
00:06:21.000We're gonna go until somebody's dead or the cops show up.
00:06:25.000My whole thing is, it was a fight but not really a fight.
00:07:13.000So this could not happen in Vegas because all of our YouTubers or whatever, we live in high-rises that are all far away from each other or in houses.
00:07:20.000And this wouldn't happen in Los Angeles because you see people, it's spread out everywhere.
00:07:24.000But here, you guys, there's like these two massive buildings here in Brickell where everybody just kind of lives.
00:07:30.000And the idea, like, I was texting John last night and he was telling me where he was and I was like, I just realized, if you stream, they'll just pull up on you.
00:07:37.000And this is kind of a unique, maybe in New York you could do this too, but it's kind of a unique thing that would happen there.
00:07:43.000But I don't think people thought it was going to be that serious, but it was actually serious.
00:07:47.000I knew that something was going to be a physical confrontation.
00:08:06.000That was out of Moxies, though, right?
00:08:07.000I mean, HS just told us a little while ago.
00:08:10.000He was talking to you, and he was like...
00:08:12.000You mean before that he went out with her?
00:08:14.000No, while he was on the stream, I sent her a DM. To be fair, I was joking around, I sent her a black heart emoji, and she showed them on screen,
00:09:36.000I really think there needs to be a maybe middle-tier, not as big as Jake and Logan Paul, but middle-tier celebrity boxing YouTuber thing, because I'm down.
00:11:40.000I don't know if he's American too, but I know Zerk is Canadian and he's British.
00:11:46.000Like, bro, you guys both are probably here on visa waivers, or if you are here on a visa, because you don't need a visa to come into the United States from those countries, visa waiver countries.
00:11:53.000And now y'all are viral for a fistfight in downtown Miami.
00:11:58.000I just hope nothing happens to them with ICE or anything like that, because what could potentially happen is they get arrested by Miami PD, right?
00:12:06.000There's a warrant drafted, they go ahead, they get arrested, and then bam, as soon as they get arrested, ICE could be waiting for them once they get out on fire.
00:12:14.000Would one of them have to report that for it to happen, or could it just happen organically?
00:12:20.000Would Tiki Toki have to report it, like, he assaulted me, or could it just happen organically?
00:12:24.000I mean, he could make a case that it was self-defense.
00:12:51.000Bro, after all the shit-talking, that was an L. But at the same time, like, you know, Zerk was with us when he came here from the beginning, so I'm not gonna say anything bad about him, but bro, that was wild because all the shit-talking he did, and for that to happen, it's kind of fucked up, man.
00:13:06.000Yeah, I mean, I guess that's another lesson, right?
00:14:16.000But if you're famous, and it's a bullshit charge, sometimes just to make a name for themselves, sometimes just to bring more notoriety to the district attorney's office, whatever it may be, they will prosecute for some bullshit.
00:14:27.000Think of Martha Stewart or Mark Cuban with the SEC. Martha Stewart got arrested, guys.
00:14:34.000If you look at the charge, 18 U.S.C. 1001.
00:15:30.000I've arrested immigration attorneys before, and a lot of them are scammers and liars, and they run Ponzi schemes, marriage fraud schemes, everything else like that.
00:15:40.000So I've arrested a bunch of them before, so you have to make sure that you vet your immigration attorney, too.
00:15:49.000I never met HS in person, so I don't know him, but Fresh obviously said good things.
00:15:54.000I don't have a problem with him either.
00:15:56.000I just hope nothing negative happens to them where they're removed from the country or deported or some shit like that and they can't come back.
00:19:06.000In, like, Renaissance Europe and, like, even after that, it's like they outlawed dueling because so many guys were, like, there's so much of such a mortality rate that the guys were killing them.
00:19:14.000It was outlawed when Andrew Jackson and when Aaron Burr did it.
00:20:05.000Off the cuff, he's one of the funniest dudes I have ever on and off camera.
00:20:10.000And obviously he's a little different off camera than he is on, but he's just really fucking talented and you just wish that he'd just get it all together and he would just be a really great contributor in this space.
00:20:18.000I don't give a fuck about him fighting.
00:20:30.000When you go from having nothing to having millions of dollars, if you've got a problem before, now you're a $10 million guy with those same problems.
00:20:38.000Now you've only escalated them and brought them up.
00:20:40.000Again, like Mike always says, nobody cares.
00:20:58.000You go to jail for 15 months for securities fraud, and they make a movie about you called The Wolf of Wall Street, and you're one of those famous people in the world.
00:21:04.000In the movie, you punch your wife in the stomach and kidnap your own kid, and now you're like the most famous sales trainer in the world.
00:22:12.000But, Myron, you spoke about it before, where, like, all these serial killers, girls will run up to their, like, herrings and always, like, yeah.
00:25:18.000I'd like to ask if you have a where to start link.
00:25:21.000You have a lot of content, and I wanted to know where is the best to start, especially the non-after-hour stuff like Money Monday Red Pill and Fitness.
00:25:29.000There's playlists you can follow on the actual channel.
00:25:32.000Let's go to a playlist and they're all there.
00:25:34.000There's a Rolo Tomasi playlist, in fact.
00:25:59.000Hey, bro, like I told y'all before, man, it's no mistake that we have these three individuals here because when I was a fucking nobody, they took a chance on me.
00:26:06.000So now that we're up, they're going to come up with us, man.
00:26:10.000You're still an honorary member of Rule Zero, too, by the way.
00:26:29.000Shout out to all the Real Zero guys, man.
00:26:31.000You don't forget where you come from and you always bring the people up with you.
00:26:34.000Fresh, why are you hanging out with someone who asked the stream if he should press you on camera and talk bad about Myron like every stream?
00:26:41.000He was talking bad about Myron five minutes before you dabbed him up earlier.
00:27:21.000He mentioned that you didn't want to bring him on stream, and he was like, oh, I don't know what's going on, maybe they're salty or whatever, but I said, yo, come on stream and say it.
00:28:28.000And the thing is, you're in E5, which is good, but a lot of guys will go 20 years and they won't make E8 or E9. But there is a lower cost of living in Ohio.
00:29:29.000He's like yin and Myron is yang, opposite in tone of speaking, but with the same message, Roller catches women off guard by being comforting and speaking with warmth while hitting them with the RP. That's true.
00:30:03.000At some level, there's got to be some level of integrity and putting on the people that put you on in the first place that were with you before you were fucking somebody, bro.
00:30:10.000Like, what the fuck is wrong with people, man?
00:30:11.000And then, again, at the very beginning, we were nobodies coming up in this space.
00:31:36.000We did a Money Monday teaching guys how to properly set up their resume and everything else like that and how to set up for an interview and the guy fucking got a job taking those tips.
00:32:44.000We were waiting on that girl that was late to the show on Wednesday, and I'm sitting downstairs with Icy, and we're in the lobby of your new place here.
00:32:52.000And I'm going through my DMs and everything.
00:32:55.000Fuck Rolo, he's old, blah, blah, blah, all this bullshit and all this negative shit to me.
00:33:36.000Dom goes, Zerka even swatted not 48 hours ago because he was screaming like a lunatic in the middle of the street for 20 minutes trying to fight HS' massive L. Oh, man.
00:33:48.000Berserk goes, There are several books written by former CIA and FBI agents purporting that their book teaches some of the same skills as they would as active operatives to read people's body language to quickly build rapport and get people to like them.
00:33:59.000Would these be good books to build a foundation of social skills upon plus experience?
00:34:04.000Specifically speaking, social skills, not game.
00:35:02.000So for us, one of the things we do that's a little different, we do a Monday show, Rollo comes on sometimes, and we have the guys, instead of doing super chats, they have to come on camera.
00:35:10.000And we'll stop the whole show and be like, bro, because they're shaking the camera.
00:35:14.000And when we talk about interviews, I teach guys how to do interviews as well.
00:35:17.000A lot of these interviews are done over Zoom.
00:35:19.000And I'm like, you're going to face the light, okay?
00:35:23.000I want you to maintain eye contact with the camera.
00:35:25.000I want to be able to hear spaces in between the words that you say.
00:35:29.000Watching yourself on camera, I know it comes off as a little vain, but you'd be shocked how many times there's these weird tics that you have that you don't notice.
00:35:36.000You're thinking about something and you squint your eyes like this and it's just these things that like really don't make it seem like you're in control.
00:35:42.000Like what he said, I have so many clients that I'm used to seeing men like this, and so I'm gonna give you a break.
00:35:47.000But in this instance, this is such a great, being able to watch yourself on camera and critique yourself and then consistently get better, you two do it, whether or not you know you do it, you watch yourself on stream all the time.
00:35:57.000I did it to like you know in the beginning a lot to like make sure like oh, okay, this is weird I should stop doing that blah blah blah like I caught bad habits very quickly You know, but some of you guys might not have that benefit to watch yourself back So it's definitely that's a fantastic way to do it.
00:36:10.000Yeah, so we do we'll do streams or some of my clients will actually start do stream like with each other They'll just have in like groups and they'll almost like Toastmasters It's one of these things where like actually being able to talk well on camera is a great way, a cheat code to be.
00:36:21.000It's almost like the current Toastmasters to be able to do it now.
00:36:23.000And it's just so incredibly important to do that.
00:36:25.000A lot of like the head moving and like the voice breaks upward so like the tonality breaks upward where you sound like you're seeking rapport instead of breaking rapport.
00:36:34.000Those kind of things you can learn over time.
00:36:35.000The verbal pauses, the um, the ah, the you know what I mean, you know what I'm saying, like that kind of stuff.
00:36:40.000If you can get away from that and then speak and then have the direct pauses in between your words, you'll notice that people are more likely to listen to you.
00:36:59.000That being said, for example, what else?
00:37:01.000One other thing that's really big, do you remember the Joe Rogan thing where he actually, they were talking to a mugger, a guy who had been convicted of mugging, and they showed him photographs of individuals, and like, which one would you mug and which one would you not mug?
00:37:13.000And it was one of these things where, like, the knees were locked out, the feet were pointed like this, and sort of like the wobbly duck walk that you find with a lot of people.
00:37:20.000When guys see that, they realize, this person can't chase me if I steal something from them.
00:37:23.000And it's really interesting, as men, you're constantly being judged on, like, your upper and lower body athleticism.
00:37:28.000And this is something that, like, women don't necessarily...
00:37:30.000If women are clumsy and they're hot, we don't really care.
00:37:32.000But when men are like that, you're always being judged on the way you walk.
00:38:29.000One of the biggest things I tell guys all the time, especially on consults, and I'm able to detect it immediately from the way that they speak to me.
00:38:34.000I'm like, you speak in the passive voice, you need to stop doing it.
00:38:37.000You need to start speaking more in the active voice.
00:38:38.000You need to start almost, especially when you talk to women.
00:38:51.000Versus trying to get her permission or what she thinks or whatever.
00:38:54.000And the reality is most girls, if you say it in a convincing manner, they're going to follow along even if they might not necessarily agree with It's amazing when you just sound like you know what you're doing, how they just follow along.
00:40:58.000If you didn't read the books, you didn't know what the fuck they were talking about.
00:41:00.000So nowadays, and I think they kind of hurt themselves doing this.
00:41:03.000The show, The Pickup Artist, even though it exploded with popularity and helping guys find this stuff, myself included, it also hurt because now women became privy to this underground community.
00:41:14.000Cosmo, who won the first season of The Pickup Artist, he just called me last night, too.
00:42:38.000That's why Pick Up is so great, because it teaches you so many different things about human psychology.
00:42:43.000And it also just makes you a better communicator, better orator, better storyteller.
00:42:47.000It just makes you a more sharp individual socially regardless because if you're able to sit there and deal with seven fucking bimbos, right, and be able to keep them all entertained, etc.
00:43:20.000So I would go ahead to the Department of Justice and present my case.
00:43:22.000Hey, I need to make this case an OSF case, Organized Crime Drug Enforcement Task Force, because XYZ. And I'd go through each bullet point as to the importance of each target, what they're doing, the type of crimes they're committing.
00:43:53.000From that skill set of talking to girls and opening a set and not being nervous, I was easily able to go in there and talk to 50 agents that are in there, higher ups, by the way, because I'm trying to get funding from FBI, DEA, etc., because it's a whole government thing, OCDF. You guys can look it up,
00:44:10.000And you're getting this funding from DOJ, so you need to be able to speak in a convincing manner and know what the fuck you're talking about.
00:44:16.000And then on top of that, you need to be able to answer their questions.
00:44:18.000Oh, well, explain to me, blah, blah, blah, about the target.
00:44:20.000Oh, yeah, we know this XYZ. So it made it easier.
00:44:58.000And now he's actually a regular, normal guy.
00:45:01.000And the only way to get a guy to that point is to kind of baby-step him through a normal social interaction and teach him all these little micro-expressions and micro-adjustments in his body language and reading body language and repetition again and again.
00:45:15.000Most socially awkward people, they did what you did.
00:45:17.000You take your guys out to Vegas to talk to girls in person.
00:47:55.000You're able to protect them from weirdos, etc., especially when you display these things actively in the club.
00:48:00.000Other women see you and like you because if you're a good promoter, you're typically going to have five to ten girls that are always around you, etc.
00:48:07.000So it does a lot of the work for you just from being in that profession.
00:48:23.000And so you'll see guys who are club promoters, they'll do thousands of approaches, and the approach anxiety is completely gone after a while.
00:48:48.000There's three Harvard case studies on Jason Strauss.
00:48:51.000It's really incredible stuff when you see how much money these guys were able to make just understanding the concept of being able to get girls to come to different events.
00:48:58.000When I was writing the fifth book, The Player's Handbook, a lot of people kept asking me, like, Rolo, what's the best book to learn game?
00:49:05.000I'm like, you don't learn game from a book, man.
00:49:07.000So you have to be out there and immerse yourself.
00:49:09.000So if you want to learn how to speak Spanish, go live in a Spanish country, and you will learn to speak Spanish at some point.
00:49:16.000Because you're in this emergence situation right there.
00:49:19.000But the thing is, I think back in the mid-2000s, when this stuff was coming out, I think a lot of people still look at PUA as mystery with his black fingernail polish and feather boa and everything.
00:49:31.000But you're talking about an archetype or, you know, like a guy like Mystery, that's like almost 20 years ago, you know?
00:49:38.000And so we're still clinging to that as sort of like something that's ridiculous because we want to poke fun at it.
00:49:42.000But what you can't poke fun at right now is the fact that there is this new generation of guys who they'll laugh at that, but they lack the social skills.
00:49:50.000And that's really where game is at right now.
00:49:52.000And so I made sure that I introduced that in the introduction of the Player's Handbook.
00:49:59.000It's a social skill set is what it is.
00:50:01.000So it's not even just about so much like talking, you know, obviously guys want to talk to women and be good conversationalists.
00:50:06.000But as you were saying before, it teaches you other skills so you can get a job.
00:50:10.000So you can like talk to, you know, a police officer.
00:50:12.000So you can talk to your family, whatever it is.
00:50:15.000Just so that you have those social skills.
00:50:17.000And I think that one of the things that's happened really for the Generation Z, the Zoomers, right, is that because they've been acculturated and brought up behind a screen, they don't have that immersion anymore so that they're learning those social skills that you wouldn't necessarily pick up.
00:50:34.000So when he's talking about how people think that it's ridiculous to talk about neg hits or amuse mastery or some of these old school principles, that was one of the motivations and incentives for me to write the fifth book because I wanted to let people know that there's a lot of psychology that's behind all of this.
00:51:36.000We've done it, you know, throughout history.
00:51:38.000It's how people were entertained before TV and books.
00:51:40.000And it's also how we taught the next generation what we knew from the previous generation as well.
00:51:46.000So we would have these, you know, folk tales and everything else.
00:51:48.000Or it could be just cave drawings, you know, like here's how we killed the woolly mammoth.
00:51:51.000Even in the Bible, there are parables to display certain things you want to learn.
00:51:55.000Storytelling is like part of human nature.
00:51:58.000And if you are unable to do that or if you're unable to be entertaining, but if you're unable to at least be a good conversationalist, because that's really all social skills you rely on.
00:52:29.000And you have between 8 and 12 minutes to tell a story, and then the audience judges you, and then they have a panel of six judges who will say who's the best storyteller.
00:53:18.000Privilege is invisible to those that have it.
00:53:19.000And the thing is that women don't understand that they have a social gift where they're able to assess value immediately off of the way someone speaks, conveys themselves, etc.
00:55:45.000Back in our ancestral past, all the way, just say back in the 1950s, we had a process in this country, or just in world in general, where you had to write a passage as a man, and then that way you would get it.
00:55:56.000And that would be like going through Marine Corps boot camp, or it would be like some initiation when you're on the football team and they tape you to the goalpost, or you carry the seniors.
00:56:43.000So because they don't understand that, when women give advice on what men should do, it's the advice they would give to a man they're already attracted to because they cannot conceive of them sleeping with a man they're not attracted to.
00:56:54.000But, if you go through years of self-improvement looking at guys who studied social circle or intersexual dynamics, you see men who weren't able to have sex with women and then they were able to have sex with women.
00:57:04.000For us as men, we can conceive of that because we can conceive of male self-improvement.
00:57:08.000Women do not conceive of male self-improvement.
00:57:11.000Because men must be common, women just aren't.
00:57:13.000Because they do not conceive of male self-improvement, what happens is they just think it just happened, and they think you were always like that.
00:57:19.000My girlfriend told me the other day, she's obviously 24 years younger than me, and she's like, yeah, when you were, she was looking at pictures of me when I was her age, and she was like, oh, you were hot, I would've gone out with you, and I'm like, no the fuck you!
00:57:29.000There is no way you would have done that with me!
00:57:32.000But in her mind, she thinks she would have gotten the same pang from meeting the 46-year-old me as she would have gotten from the 21-year-old me.
00:58:04.000They just add water, and they were hot, and female self-improvement was puberty and then turning 17, 18.
00:58:10.000It also boils down to what I've called the hypergamous filter.
00:58:14.000Women are looking for a guy who's legit.
00:58:16.000If you look at shows like The Bachelor or Cheaters or something like that, there's always the intrigue is finding out, is this guy ridiculous?
00:59:09.000Then that disqualifies you from their consideration immediately.
00:59:12.000Because you're not actually the real deal, the real alpha.
00:59:15.000If you had to go and go from being a nothing to being something, they don't want to know that you were a nothing at some time.
00:59:22.000Because they wouldn't have had anything to do with you when you were in your high school years, but they will have something to do with you now that you're in your 30s or your 40s.
00:59:30.000We were talking on the, I think it was on Adam Sosnick's show, remember when I was telling you about how, like, How old are you now?
01:01:06.000How many times have you been with a girl and she's into you and she immediately assumes that every girl on the planet therefore must be into you?
01:01:17.000We did this experiment where we asked girls who were like, how many of you, like how many of your female friends, how slutty do you think they are?
01:01:23.000And because women do this, when they're attracted to you, they think every woman is down to fuck you immediately.
01:01:28.000They think you, when a woman is attracted to you, they start believing you come home and there's nine women just waiting to have sex with you.
01:01:33.000And it's one of the weirdest things like, yeah, I wish it was that easy.
01:01:36.000That's one of my favorite tests that we do on Access Vegas.
01:01:39.000How slutty do you think your friends are?
01:01:41.000And their friends are always nines, but the girls are always fours.
01:01:44.000And I'm like, no, your friends are exactly as slutty as you are, and they would be saying the exact same shit about you if you were in right now.
01:02:28.000Like, women will disqualify you for literally fucking anything.
01:02:31.000As a matter of fact, I wish I had the clip here, but a woman literally said, if you have an Android, don't pull that out in front of a girl.
01:02:39.000She said, I can't tell you how many times I've talked with women, and they said that they rejected a guy just for having a fucking Android phone.
01:02:46.000And this goes to show you guys the amount of abundance of options that modern day women have, where they have the fucking luxury of turning you down because your texts are green.
01:03:12.000So another thing too I want to say is that, because you were talking about female dating coaches, yes, I a thousand percent agree, female dating coaches in general suck.
01:03:22.000And the reason why is, and I'll tell you guys why, because a lot of you guys might be saying, oh, you guys are just haters, blah, blah, blah.
01:03:27.000Female dating coaches can absolutely teach you strategies.
01:05:40.000But they can't open up the hood and tell you how the engine is connected, how they had to replace an alternator because this alternator didn't work.
01:05:59.000And a lot of the times, it's the Chads, right, that were just naturally good-looking from, you know, they played football in high school, then they went to college and they played a sport, or they were in a frat or whatever, and they were always just naturally good with women, and they just had this confidence.
01:06:15.000So those guys typically aren't the best teachers.
01:07:10.000He's got to have a good education, yada, yada, yada down the list.
01:07:13.000But when you ask a woman, like a dating coach, whatever, what do you like a man to do in bed, she's not going to tell you that because that's something you should already get.
01:07:24.000Because that is, it was you who said this, it's like the best social proof.
01:07:32.000Is when a woman, when you're in bed with her and she knows you're good in bed because you know her body better than she does.
01:07:38.000Is that what I'm paraphrasing you right now?
01:07:41.000If you know a woman's body better than she knows, she already knows that you're pre-selected.
01:07:43.000So she already knows that you've learned these skills because you've been rewarded with sex from other women as well.
01:07:49.000So you just get it because you had had the experience of being rewarded with that so you know what you're doing, right?
01:07:54.000Therefore, you're the kind of guy that other men want to be and other women want to fuck.
01:07:58.000So, but the reason why they won't teach you that or they won't even really want to discuss that is because if they do, then just what you were saying before, if you can learn those things, now you've gone from the guy who she would never want to reproduce with to maybe the guy who could trick her into having sex with her and then reproducing with her.
01:08:15.000And that triggers what I've called the existential fear in women, is to have that choice taken away from her or her sisters for that matter.
01:08:28.000Trick another woman into sleeping with him to get that social proof that we just talked about.
01:08:33.000I do a lot of interviews with female sex coaches and female dating coaches lately, and it's very interesting, like what you just said, every bit of advice they tend to put out is very touchy-feely, very feminine, like, let's talk it out, let's talk about our feelings,
01:10:07.000No, like they literally, I had this conversation two days ago.
01:10:10.000They literally think like, oh, like how about you just, you get, you're attractive, create a bubble profile and swipe in LA and we'll get a girl together.
01:10:19.000I'm like, no, no, no, honey, like you think I'm just going to like the offer, like off rip is going to be have a threesome with my girl?
01:10:25.000Because from her standpoint, that's what happened to her, because it felt organic.
01:10:29.000So it's so crazy, because I have to tell my girl this sometimes.
01:12:25.000What I'm talking about, you're actually going out to the club and or you're doing maybe a bumble date or something like that and you're like actually getting a girl that's cold, right?
01:12:32.000And you're building attraction with your girl.
01:12:35.000Yo, a lot of the times, in the beginning, you have to train this out of them.
01:12:50.000They have zero concept of what it takes to be attractive from a male perspective.
01:12:55.000And they think that them just being a girl and being attractive It'll work.
01:12:58.000Well, it's like that one woman who transitioned to being a man and lived as a man for a while and ended up self-deleting because, like, she just couldn't take the pressure.
01:13:09.000Couldn't take the pressure of all that.
01:13:11.000And I think that, like, and you've said this before, it's like women don't understand the process that guys have to go through to have, like, they gotta have the place set up.
01:13:19.000The temperature in the room's gotta be perfect.
01:13:20.000The barometric pressure and the goddamn humidity better be perfect.
01:13:23.000I mean, all of this stuff, like, oh, there just happened to be wine in the...
01:13:36.000It's not until you put your girl through that training, right, and you've done this successfully a few times, that she'll finally understand and say, wow.
01:14:20.000It's amazing how when you put women, right, you put the shoe on the other foot, and you let them live the male experience, they immediately, yeah, I hate women.
01:14:34.000I put one or two girls through it, and it's like, bro, it's incredible.
01:14:39.000Even guys in relationships, particularly guys who are in sexless relationships, and they're like, how do I turn the sex spigot back on?
01:14:47.000A lot of that comes back to the logistics of everything.
01:14:49.000I think a lot of guys think it's got to be date night, and you've got to keep it fresh, and it's all Spontaneity, spontaneity, that's the name.
01:16:27.000I'm not safe about going with you after a club somewhere else.
01:16:30.000But what happens is, if the girl actually knows the game as you teach or whatever, we have a girl here in Miami that's very good at doing that.
01:16:36.000I won't say her name, but like, whenever we go out, she legit, okay, we want those two girls over there to bring over here.
01:16:41.000She brings the girls over, Give them a shot.
01:16:43.000Hey, these men boys are really cool, whatever.
01:16:45.000And then before you know it, okay, cool.
01:16:47.000Girls, we're going to go to this spot after in 20 minutes.
01:17:13.000And if it's like a girl and you're trying to set up a threesome or some shit, you're going to have to teach her, and then she's going to be like, wow, this is a lot of fucking work.
01:17:18.000And then you have to explain shit to her or whatever.
01:18:20.000You can also, another one is going to yoga.
01:18:23.000But you have to immediately, like if you're gonna hit on girls at a yoga class, like make sure it's not like, you know, a yoga class where she's always at and shit like that.
01:20:11.000What he's actually referring to are the youth groups that you go to where they try to hook up a girl who's been with like 70 dudes, who's like a reformed Sunday morning nightclub.
01:20:20.000With a guy who actually followed the Bible and hasn't had sex.
01:20:24.000And he's like, so now we have a 25-year-old woman who's been with like 70 dudes and a 25-year-old man who's a virgin.
01:21:15.000And I think deep down, like, all these girls, they think, like, okay, I can be a hoe and then come back and be reformed and someone will save me.
01:21:25.000A lot of them look at it as a safety net.
01:21:27.000In this book, as a matter of fact, it's the prodigal son narrative.
01:21:31.000It's like I can go and seek my fortune and go have hookers and blow and then come back and Father God's going to welcome you back into the form.
01:21:38.000You know the funny part about that Rollo?
01:21:56.000Redeemed and therefore because you have been redeemed this man who has no sexual experience Should take you on as a wife because you have been redeemed are now in this youth group with him And then you just end up in a terrible terrible situation Where there's a mismatch where she's been with you know 50 more people than you have and you're just getting married because that's what the church told you to do The parable of the prodigal son isn't about the son and it's even not even about God It's about the people who are the true believers who never left the faith in the first place Yeah.
01:22:38.000But it says more about the people who are the believers who stuck with it all the time.
01:22:43.000And so it's very similar to when a woman comes in and says, well, I've been this incorrigible porn star slut for so long, but now I'm redeemed and now I'm forgiven.
01:22:50.000It says more about the people who accept her back in rather than the whole situation between her and God and whatever everybody else.
01:22:56.000And by the way, not just women, guys too.
01:23:13.000It's one of the funny things, whenever you do female delusional calculator, we always ask them, do you want to- They're married or they're young?
01:23:18.000Like, and you gotta go for the younger girls.
01:23:20.000I mean, people always try to shame us for, like, going after younger women, but a big reason why I tell guys to go after younger women is not because, oh, yeah, like, just get them because they're younger, tighter, and hotter.
01:23:29.000No, it's because they're more impressionable, and you're gonna be able to go ahead and take that authority standpoint.
01:24:14.000Doesn't have the life experience, hasn't been through the fucking rigor, and you can see this, I hate to say it, look at someone like Neon, right?
01:27:13.000The only thing they're loyal to is their fucking emotions.
01:27:16.000I'm going through the Quentin Tarantino series with Kylie cuz she hasn't seen any of these movies and like watching her the first time she watched a reservoir dog She's like holy shit.
01:27:49.000Michael, I want to ask you this real quick.
01:27:51.000So, I get a lot of middle-aged women sliding in my DMs, and I recently put out a reel talking about how I will only date a girl who's like 24 or younger.
01:27:59.000And then they all immediately flipped on me and started calling me a pedo and doing all this attacks.
01:28:06.000Do you have that experience in person where like you'll find middle-aged women very attracted to you and then once they find out you're dating Kylie who's younger than you they flip and get angry attack you and it's it's not that much and I think because they don't it's really weird I don't know I haven't really got a ton of that I do get some but not very much it's actually it's actually been pretty positive I don't know I thought I was going to get a lot more hate from it but I do get a little bit but not not as much they do behind your Yeah,
01:29:59.000Yeah, for recently divorced guys getting back into the sexual marketplace.
01:30:02.000So we see a need right there, and so he and I are actually developing a program within MOA right now.
01:30:07.000There's nothing better than on some of our group calls for the rest of us coming together around a guy who is going through a custody battle or through a divorce.
01:30:14.000We turn the recording off, because I don't want anybody to hear any personal information, but just all of us coming together to support a man who's going through that, because that is the number one cohort for men self-deleting.
01:30:29.000Whenever there is a child custody battle, or they're going through divorce, alimony, and it's just been rough, several times, we turn the recording off, and we all just come together to support them.
01:30:36.000That's one of the things, one of the very important things.
01:30:39.000So when him doing that with Major Joseph Marone of the United States Marine Corps, they're doing a program together, so I'm excited about that.
01:34:29.000And if you're gonna talk shit, if you're gonna be critical of the red pill and those guys and their movement and their philosophy.
01:34:35.000Cause there's a lot of RP guys that we don't necessarily agree with and we don't...
01:34:38.000Well, they usually say some bullshit about, and I see this more out of trad cons these days, is they'll mouth off about some completely ignorant shit.
01:34:46.000And stuff I have countered for decades now.
01:34:51.000And then they'll say something about, like, oh, those red pill guys always say X, Y, or Z, right?
01:34:54.000And they never say who the fuck they're talking about, but they'll flash your face on there, and they'll flash my face on there.
01:35:31.000In the last 24 hours, Lotus Eater was on with what's-his-face, Alex Datesik, saying that people in the Red Pill community said that 20% of men are having sex with 80% of the women.
01:35:49.000There was another one today, and I can't remember who it was, but they legitimately said that we all said that men and women should be separate, and we're trying to tear men and women apart.
01:35:58.000No, men and women are better together, and everyone on this panel has said so.
01:36:02.000You are either being negligent or you're lazy or you are deliberately lying by saying things.
01:36:09.000Because the problem is when we tell the truth and our audience grows, it's inconvenient for you.
01:36:13.000And I get that it's inconvenient, but you should be willing to debate and then find out.
01:36:17.000What I predict is going to happen is after these elections, you're going to see a lot because they're not going to have that I love the shit out of women.
01:36:38.000But the thing is, when I make a statement about body count or whatever, if it's inconvenient for your narrative, you should accept that.
01:36:45.000And then question me, because I am never going to back down, and neither is he, and neither is Sterling, or any of these guys.
01:37:31.000And the only thing I can think of is that you're just doing this for clout or for effect or because you think you're going to get, I don't know, engagement on your fucking tweets or whatever it is that you're doing.
01:37:42.000If you're serious about it, Matt Walsh, Jeremy Boring, whatever, you know, Dan Shapiro.
01:37:47.000If you're serious about this, back your shit up, first of all, by saying my name, his name, anybody else's, Myron's name, whatever, instead of just showing our fucking faces on there, say who you're talking about and face up to it.
01:38:01.000If you feel that much conviction about this...
01:38:05.000Then fucking back it up and don't be a fucking coward because that's what you are.
01:38:38.000Men who are virgins, women who are virgins, when they get married together, they tend to stay together longer and show higher signs of happiness.
01:38:43.000But what happens is, it falls very quickly for men and then it levels out.
01:38:59.000What I'm saying is with women, there is actual scientific evidence showing that it becomes very difficult for them to stay in a relationship, whereas a man who's been with a lot of women, it doesn't show the same thing.
01:39:08.000And there's this other loser running around with glasses saying, well, actually, higher body counts for men shows that you're more likely to cheat.
01:39:22.000And I love how they disingenuously try to debunk our points.
01:39:26.000I'm saying that a higher body count as a man isn't gonna affect you as negatively, right?
01:39:31.000Which means, the bottom line is, they're not ending the fucking relationships.
01:39:34.000It's the women that are ending the relationships, okay?
01:39:36.000So, just because a guy cheats doesn't mean he necessarily doesn't love his girl, doesn't care about his girl, isn't gonna provide for his girl.
01:39:41.000A lot of guys fucking do it, matter of fact.
01:39:43.000The number of men who would cheat would go up with the number of options that those men could get.
01:39:48.000Meaning, if the assistant manager at Walmart had lots of options to cheat, the likelihood of him cheating would go up proportionally.
01:39:55.000When women want to cheat, sex manifests.
01:39:58.000They don't have to do anything for it.
01:39:59.000Like you said before, a woman on average has more sexual options than a celebrity does.
01:40:04.000She can get sex faster and more frequently than a celebrity does.
01:40:07.000When a man wants to cheat, this is why numbers of men who cheat are just not consistent, they're not viable statistics, because so many men want to cheat and can't, and the men who can cheat and don't, those are pretty much the only ones you should be surveying, but what happens is, When women have more sexual partners before they get married,
01:40:24.000the likelihood of them cheating increases.
01:40:26.000But for men, is it true that if a man has more sexual partners before he gets married, he's more likely to cheat in the relationship?
01:40:32.000Well, the reason why isn't because he's more likely to cheat because of some neurological disorder or whatever.
01:40:36.000It's because if you married the drummer from Metallica and he had 500 or if you had a thousand bodies before he married.
01:41:19.000That's why chicks that are sex workers, that's why girls that do certain types of professions, etc., they have higher likelihoods of divorce.
01:41:52.000Guys, you understand, the problem with that couple yesterday, no disrespect to you guys, I hope you guys come on our show, but the issue is, in order for him to maintain the same level of income that she had, he needs to do homosexual content in order to keep up with her.
01:44:06.000The problem is because you brought it up, when it happens, it's going to be three times worse.
01:44:11.000Because they came on here and professed in front of 20, 30,000 people, whatever, more than that, that no, he won't ever want to cheat on me.
01:44:21.000He finally does get to a point, it was like, hey, maybe we could have a threesome, or he brings it up, or he starts having inclinations of hooking up with some other girl.
01:44:27.000It's going to be ten times worse because they said no here.
01:45:06.000Yeah, so, I mean, I genuinely think, I will say this, and this is where we could, I think, if anything, he's probably going to cheat on her before she cheats on him.
01:45:18.000I want to say this too for the audience.
01:45:20.000You know how much extra money he could make?
01:45:21.000I mean, that seems like a pretty fantastic financial opportunity.
01:45:24.000He's probably getting a bunch of offers, yeah.
01:45:26.000But yeah, I think he's going to cheat on her.
01:45:28.000And then what she'll probably do is she'll retaliatory cheat, right?
01:45:32.000If she doesn't listen to what the fuck I said, she'll cheat from a retaliatory standpoint.
01:45:36.000But like, I mean, yeah, dude, her nose is up in the clouds.
01:45:39.000If she really thinks like, oh, I'm just going to leave at 28 and you had a sex scene and you're on OnlyFans, no guy is going to take you seriously at your status.
01:45:48.000Like any guy that has money and has as many followers as you or has a public image is going to be like, fuck no, I'm not wifing up this girl.
01:45:55.000Which is why I'm so glad that like podcasts like this are out.
01:45:57.000So many girls are mad and, oh, the red pill, blah, blah, and so culture, blah, blah, blah.
01:46:01.000Girls are mad because we're pulling back the fucking layer and we're finally unveiling the female sexual strategy and how women move and how guys should not be taking...
01:46:09.000We ask questions they don't want to answer.
01:46:11.000And we're exposing the women, most importantly, we're exposing the women that guys should not ever take fucking seriously.
01:46:17.000I will disagree with you a little bit, Amira, in the sense that she, like...
01:46:21.000She will find a guy that will settle down with her.
01:46:25.000And I know because I've seen it happen again.
01:46:27.000Because there's a lot of, there's an excess of simps.
01:46:30.000However, the guy she will end up, the guy who will settle down with her, she is not That's what I mean.
01:46:38.000She's going to be so dissatisfied and bitter and resentful towards that man.
01:46:43.000Maybe not day one, maybe not day 30, but eventually she's going to be so resentful of that guy just because of who he has to be in order for him to settle down.
01:47:18.000Again, in this scenario here, unless this happens and she does break away this guy and most of that guy, like, on some level, she's gonna have to follow his lead again.
01:47:25.000Sorry, I mean, he's gonna have to follow her lead, like this guy from before.
01:47:30.000Yeah, the OnlyFans economy is far outweighed by the simp economy.
01:47:34.000The simp economy, the population of the simp economy.
01:47:37.000And as things increase, you're going to see, again, read Ray Kurzweil's book where he talks about people fucking robots and women having children with other women.
01:47:45.000We're going to get to a point where that number of men who are having zero sexual partners is just going to continue to increase.
01:48:01.000Have you seen girls be depressed, be sad, because they regret what they did, but now they're in it, they're like, damn, I'm too far gone, it's gotta continue.
01:48:48.000But the thing is, the girls who, when they start out and they get into the industry, and they have to start talking to their fans like that, they start to see, same with strippers, by the way, same with prostitutes, by the way, they start to see the worst aspects of men, and they very quickly turn into the rabid feminist stereotype of just hating men.
01:49:07.000Do you know a great way to get over porn is to go to ABN and see your favorite porn star in person?
01:50:07.000I'm not trying to brag, but I have had sex this month, and I just don't understand why I'm a part of it.
01:50:11.000What you're saying about the simp economy, it reminded me of this, I think it was Warren Buffett who said, you know, the market can stay chaotic longer than you can stay solvent.
01:50:27.000So it's sad because on some level, someone will need money and they go to prostitution, OnlyFans, stripping.
01:50:34.000And then once they get the money and they want to actually find love, they can't because in the same breath that they want a guy to value, he's like, yo, you know what?
01:51:04.000The answer is a 56% divorce rate, 52% for first marriage, 68% for second marriage, 73% for third marriage.
01:51:15.000That's ultimately the result of what happens.
01:51:20.000Compound that with birth control, right?
01:51:22.000Because a lot of these girls, if they're shooting boy-girl content on OnlyFans or whatever, they're probably going to be on birth control, right?
01:51:28.000And then they'll fall for the simpy guy, let's say, the more, I hate using this term, but the more beta guy, right?
01:51:52.000And then they'll decide to have a kid with that guy.
01:51:54.000And the moment they get off birth control, there's just been numerous studies on this, Like, when a girl, they make massive different mate choices on birth control and off birth control.
01:52:03.000She's into the guy on birth control, she gets off it, has kids with him, and then ta-da!
01:52:08.000She doesn't find him attractive anymore and she divorces his ass and takes the kid and gets child support.
01:52:12.000Plus proving the dual mating strategy, just saying.
01:52:15.000A lot of guys, you know, let's be honest, when guys are on long-term relationships, especially after they have kids, they've done studies on this too, he becomes, his tea drops, he, you know, gets comfortable, doesn't go to the gym, etc.
01:52:25.000I mean, one of the iron rules of Tomasi that I agree with so much is like, don't cohabitate with a chick, bro.
01:53:20.000Human beings are lazy in general, but at least with men, you have a very strong incentive to go out there and produce something because you understand that your value as a man is contingent upon what you create.
01:53:29.000So you have a stronger incentive to go out there and fucking do something.
01:53:32.000Them on the other hand, Life is on easy mode, especially if they're fucking married.
01:53:39.000Especially if you're the breadwinner, they're chilling.
01:53:41.000So you, they're going to be super lazy, and then you're dumbass going to, especially if you follow your wife or whatever, like a lot of you guys, happy wife, happy life.
01:53:47.000I'm going to sit in and eat ice cream with her and get fat with her.
01:55:29.000Guys, I'm telling you, man, the more a chick sees you and everything, and the more available you are to her, the less attractive you are, dude.
01:55:35.000I hate to say it like that, but that's just how women are.
01:55:37.000I can speak to this as a guy who's been married for 27 years, and yes, I'm looking at the chat like, oh, Rollo's been living with the same woman for 27 years.
01:56:31.000Because you no longer have the same gravitas that you had when you were single.
01:56:35.000What I mean by that is that you don't have any of those opportunities to demonstrate higher value anymore.
01:56:40.000You don't have any opportunities for social proof or pre-selection like you did when you were single.
01:56:45.000So all that urgency and all that competition and anxiety and everything that made her want to fuck you when you were single, all of that just...
01:57:25.000Here's the reason why I'm bringing this up.
01:57:27.000When you have a boundary with your relationship and you're a man, you have a boundary, you think it's like, oh, you're just controlling this woman.
01:57:33.000No, you're making it better for you in the relationship because she's not going to embarrass you.
01:57:37.000But you're also making it better for her because she now has a man to look up to.
01:57:41.000Because you do not, it's not only do you not want to get cheated on, you don't want to be the man who would get cheated or take a woman back who got cheated on.
01:57:49.000That's the thing that you don't want to do.
01:57:50.000So having those boundaries, it's not just good for you, it's also good for her.
01:57:54.000She has more respect for you and the relationship's better because you get to lead.
01:57:58.000A woman can trust you and feel safe with you when you have boundaries.
01:58:03.000If you don't have boundaries at all, if you're the kind of guy that is like a walking doormat, She cannot possibly feel safe with you.
01:58:11.000If she can walk all over you, then the next guy can certainly walk all over you.
01:58:15.000If I can get away with this with him, then I can get away with fucking hell.
01:58:59.000The problem why so many guys get disrespected by their girl and why you know she's okay with doing the stupid ho shit that she's doing even though she's in a relationship with you is quite frankly your girl doesn't fear your girl doesn't fear you and I'm not saying from a physicality standpoint you know go out here and Sean Connery your girl I'm not saying that What I am saying,
01:59:16.000though, is that she needs to be scared of you leaving her.
02:00:11.000When you're in court, your honor, you address the judge as your honor because they got your ass in their hands.
02:00:15.000When you're around men that you don't necessarily know, why do you speak to them with respect?
02:00:19.000Because there's that unspoken potential of violence, okay?
02:00:23.000So what I'm saying here is that fear is a prerequisite that's required for your woman to respect you.
02:00:29.000And you're not going to get that respect through fear of violence.
02:00:32.000No, the fear of her leaving, of you leaving her.
02:00:35.000That's the problem why so many of you guys get disrespected by your girl.
02:00:38.000She knows you are not fucking going anywhere.
02:00:40.000That's why I was just writing about this on my substack.
02:00:44.000I was putting this out as a series of tweets recently about boundaries.
02:00:50.000Guys think I'm a hard ass when it comes to boundaries.
02:00:53.000Because if a girl wants to go on her girls' night out, or she wants to go on her weekend to Vegas with the girls, and you know goddamn well why she wants to go and do that, right?
02:01:02.000We've had this question on this show before where guys will say, well, my girlfriend asked me if it's okay if she goes on a girls' night out or she goes to Vegas for a weekend, blah, blah, blah.
02:01:17.000Have a good time with your girlfriends.
02:01:18.000And as soon as she's out the door, you take all her shit, pack it up, and put it on the fucking sidewalk, and then you change the locks, right?
02:01:23.000Because boundaries mean shit unless there is some consequences to it.
02:01:27.000And the only way that women understand what your boundaries are is if they touch the hot stove, as if there is some sort of...
02:01:40.000Boundaries must be demonstrated if a woman is going to appreciate them.
02:01:44.000The moment you're talking about them and trying to give her an ultimatum, that's when just the very fact that you would need to do that means that her desire level isn't high enough to have the insight to know what your fucking boundaries would be in the first place.
02:01:58.000I value this guy, as you were saying before, the fear.
02:02:00.000But the fear and the dread comes from an insight saying, I appreciate this guy so much, and I know he is so confirmedly high value that I don't want to fucking...
02:02:33.000Or maybe he's so high value, and we've talked about this before, that I ought to voluntarily, of my own volition, take down my OnlyFans, take down my Instagram, rather than have him ask me in the first place, because I don't want there to be any confusion that he's the guy for me and he's the guy that I want to be with.
02:02:48.000So whenever we talk about, like, what do you bring to the table besides your pussy in your mouth and whatever, you know, what's your value added?
02:02:54.000The one thing I always say is insight, because that insight is so rare in women.
02:02:59.000I mean, it is like extremely, extremely rare for women to think, okay, I appreciate how valuable this guy is, and therefore I'm going to voluntarily change my behavior because I recognize how valuable this guy is.
02:03:15.000I've had, and I'll just finish up with this, but when we do the delusion calculator, the female delusion calculator, We gotta give you guys ours.
02:03:27.000I usually do that with guys because guys don't understand what their intrinsic value is, right?
02:03:30.000But I've done that, and we've done that.
02:03:31.000We do it multiple times on our show, and I have had several women do that with their husbands.
02:03:37.000And then they'll say, Rolo, I have a new appreciation for my husband.
02:03:40.000He's 0.0147% of the population and holy shit, I want to suck his dick that much more because I don't want to lose this guy.
02:03:48.000Because they've never had it put in black and white numbered terms so that they can say, wow, I'm really with a rare animal.
02:03:54.000I'm really with a guy who actually maybe I should have a little bit more insightful.
02:03:58.000And this is why I blame social media so much because what it's effectively done is it's made women think that these guys are all over the place.
02:04:03.000No, they're fucking not, you dumb hoe.
02:06:04.000In this society that we're in currently right now, if you find a girl that's going to acquiesce to you as a Hawaii man, in a way, and willing to quit everything for you, and be that girl for you, is it okay to give her a chance if she can delete her OnlyFans, stop whatever she's doing, on the side for you?
02:06:29.000I think that's not, that to me, when we say OnlyFans, we're just, everything in OnlyFans is hardcore, guy-girls, sex with midgets and fucking donkeys.
02:06:37.000That is not, there's a lot of girls canceled.
02:06:40.000There's a lot of people that are only fans that just post pictures of them in bikinis.
02:06:58.000I just want you to consider, guys, one more time.
02:07:01.000We're just talking about being embarrassed in the situation with Neon and the situation with Zerka.
02:07:05.000It's one of these things where you work at a law firm and it's like, oh, here's my wife, Sarah, and then guys can go and watch Sarah have sex with other people.
02:07:12.000That is a very difficult thing for you as a man to deal with.
02:07:16.000And as women will shame you and say, you're so insecure.
02:09:49.000To answer your question, so when we talk about open on your end and close on her end, right now we're kind of debating what kind of relationship format we want.
02:10:00.000For instance, for him, it's open on his end, but she's bringing in girls.
02:10:06.000That's kind of like their arrangement.
02:10:07.000So open on his end, close on the girls' end.
02:10:09.000We talk about this like Justin Waller has the same kind of arrangement.
02:10:11.000Then there's the destiny situation where it's open on both of their ends, and God knows what the fuck we're going to call that.
02:10:17.000And then there's my situation, which is closed on my end and closed on her end.
02:10:20.000That's the traditional marriage kind of thing.
02:10:23.000The problem with this is that when men are single and women are single, men are the pitchmen.
02:10:28.000Men are the guys who have to sell themselves and sell their quality and their performance and their value on that woman so that they can get with that woman in the first place.
02:10:35.000So they're the ones who are going out there, they're initiating, they're paying for the date, they're being guys, right?
02:11:58.000Advertising her sexual availability, even though she's not sexually available technically, right, the soft launch and all that other bullshit, because women will lose their market capital if men think that she is actually taken.
02:12:38.000If she says she takes it upon herself to, like, you know, close out her OnlyFans, close out her Instagram, whatever, and she says, you know what?
02:12:45.000All of that, that I used to be available, I am no longer available, and I'm only with you, then yes.
02:13:09.000Yeah, going back to the whole point you were making about setting boundaries, right?
02:13:13.000You demonstrate, you don't explicate, right?
02:13:16.000One of the things that I've found is very, very useful on a first date, because I do set boundaries, and I have enforced those boundaries in the past, right, is I will...
02:13:26.000This goes back to what you said about storytelling and the ability to tell those stories, tell DHVs subtly, tell these nuanced points.
02:14:41.000I am actively out there in the dating marketplace, dating, and it's like, bro, guys have it tough, bro, because you gotta choose from trash.
02:15:15.000But those girls also tend to be the biggest whores, too.
02:15:17.000To be honest with you, girls in the mid-range.
02:15:19.000We just uncovered where less attractive women are more likely to cheat on you, but more attractive men are also more likely to cheat on you.
02:17:51.000If it's any other way, where it's like, which, I have to have a girlfriend now.
02:17:55.000If you're a man out there and you've gone through this before, you go home for Thanksgiving and there's always, no offense, it's always a fat aunt who has...
02:18:02.000She always has some fucking mean thing.
02:19:36.000At that point, assuming you didn't pay for it or fucking rely way too heavily on your social circle, whatever it may be, you should have some semblance of how women move and operate to the point where now you can finally go ahead into what I call the final round,
02:20:27.000That opponent that's 50-0 is your future fucking wife, bro.
02:20:30.000Because, I'll tell you this, even if she's a fucking...
02:20:33.000Virgin, nice girl, good girl, good family, etc.
02:20:36.000She's had way more interactions from the opposite gender than you fucking have, bro.
02:20:41.000And if you don't understand how to go ahead and get in the ring with her and square up and defend yourself properly, deliver hits, I know you fucking weirdos really like sitting here, I'm gonna go fight my wife now.
02:20:50.000No, I'm saying prepare for the fucking boxing match of your life that can literally determine your future.
02:20:57.000Women are quite effectively 50 and fucking 0.
02:21:51.000That's exactly what Jim Sexton, our divorce attorney Jim Sexton says, most guys when they are in a divorce, they're learning to fight in the fight.
02:22:01.000When they finally get to the ring, it's too late.
02:22:04.000They're learning to fight within the fight itself.
02:22:07.000I'll say that, like, having podcasts like this one helps guys to learn some of these pitfalls and these traps before they, like, with a lower count.
02:22:27.000But podcasts like this are the ones that help guys speed up that entire process.
02:22:31.000And then, of course, I can be married for 27 years and I can say, you know what, the divorce rate is really, what, 56% right now.
02:22:38.000People go, oh, Rollo's against marriage!
02:22:39.000Like, no, dude, you can actually put stats out there and actually talk about things that you might not necessarily agree with or you think is good or it's bad.
02:22:54.000Man, I'll tell you, I deal with guys, and particularly me, like a guy like Robert Kiyosaki or some of the other older guys that I deal with, right?
02:23:03.000I mean, Robert's a different animal, obviously, because he's Robert Kiyosaki, right?
02:23:08.000But there's guys who get to be 70, 75 years old, and they go, holy shit.
02:23:12.000My whole life, all the decisions and everything that built up to where I am right now was because I didn't have any actionable information.
02:23:18.000I didn't understand the shit that they're talking about right now and I can't believe it.
02:23:22.000And oh my god, I'm either gonna self-delete or I gotta rebuild myself.
02:23:25.000And that's harder to do the older that you get.
02:23:28.000Kiyosaki was lucky that he has a bunch of money.
02:23:30.000I mean, and I can't tell you, dude, one of the top comments we get, where were you guys 20 years ago?
02:23:43.000The point I'm trying to establish here, because people are so fucking retarded and don't understand, is I'm telling you that there's a match.
02:23:48.000You need to train and be prepared for the match, because it's the match that will dictate the rest of your fucking life.
02:23:54.000Marriage is not a fucking game nowadays, guys.
02:23:57.000And I'm telling you, man, these women are fucking Floyd Mayweather out here nowadays, man, with the defense and you don't even expect it and all this other bullshit.
02:24:04.000So it's like, guys, don't get it, man.
02:24:06.000And what's worse, adding social media, girls now go to TikTok for information.
02:24:11.000So they're being literally brainwashed with the agenda from day one.
02:24:27.000They'll go the 10 rounds and then knock you out on the fucking 11th or 12th when you're fucking gassed because you don't have the stamina to keep up with them because you don't understand RP knowledge.
02:24:52.000Man, I hope somebody fucking wakes up from this.
02:24:56.000If you're in a shitty relationship, bro, where your girl isn't afraid of you, she doesn't respect you, she's talking to you crazy, she might be mad right now that you're watching this podcast.
02:26:35.000But we talked about not getting into business with simps.
02:26:39.000And the reason why, guys, is because, quite frankly, if your buddy or your business partner has to ask his wife for permission, like, what the fuck is going on here, right?
02:28:59.000I'm talking about a bitch that she's internationally attractive.
02:29:02.000If you brought her to Miami, she would be able to actually stand a chance here.
02:29:06.000If you brought her to Vegas, she'd be able to stand a chance here.
02:29:08.000I'm not talking about your regional fucking, she's an eight in your town, but she comes over here, she's a fucking four.
02:29:13.000I'm talking about really hot girls that get paid for their fucking looks.
02:29:17.000If you're in a relationship with them, I'm telling you, ask any guy that's been with a 9 or 10 before.
02:29:20.000They will tell you, it's a fucking headache, and a lot of the time, it's not worth it.
02:29:24.000Also, just a little news flash for you guys, they don't have any personal skills!
02:29:28.000They don't have any personal development, because since the time they were young, they've been on pageants maybe, they've been very attractive, etc.
02:29:35.000Everything has been given to them because they're beautiful.
02:30:32.000Hmm rare and that has genuine desire so much so that she'll She'll leave her family and change her religion and do a ride or die Oh, yeah, it's gonna be easier to get them to submit too That's nothing with the nines that said that they have so much opportunity and they've lived life on easy mode for so much that it's very difficult for them to To be with a guy that,
02:30:51.000like, can put them in their place consistently is very difficult and weird for them.
02:30:56.000What I said just now, if you're a real player, you know what I mean.
02:30:58.000Because if you don't understand women, that's the same thing, but it's not.
02:31:01.000Because a girl that deserves it, that actually works towards it to serve you, bro, you want to bless her, bro.
02:31:18.000You put up the boundaries and then you date multiple nines and tens if you can and then the one that acquiesces to, hey, this is how things are going to be.
02:31:30.000I'm going to have a logical conversation about where we're going to go in the direction and you're going to let me.
02:31:35.000If you can stand them, multiple nines and tens, that's a headache.
02:33:10.000So he had to step down as director of the CIA. Other spy agencies will use women to get information out of Assets does that make sense?
02:33:18.000So when you have when you when you around a bunch of these girls you're gonna hear this dude's talking shit about you You're gonna find out what all and then you'll hear the girls like straight-up brag about I'm dating this guy and just suck this other guy's dick earlier We just had that on our show.
02:33:30.000Yes, they get so comfortable on our show They start like snitching on themselves.
02:33:33.000I'm like you do realize we're on the air right that is the only benefit I could see that's tangible.
02:33:39.000I'll be I'll be cool with girls That's one bit of legacy.
02:33:41.000I love being in a hot tub and they just have a cup of tequila and they just start telling the truth and you're like, keep going.
02:34:39.000How would you recommend men who are not interested in sleeping with lots of women get to navigate this dating market without multiple women?
02:35:52.000Next thing you know, you're in that fucking boxing match that I talked about.
02:35:54.000And you get fucked up because you did not do the prerequisite training and the reps required to go ahead and learn how to tango with this chick.
02:37:58.000What I'm saying is like for some of these guys, I was like, it's not that 50 was too much.
02:38:01.000I was like how some of these guys I'm wondering like how you can get to 50 if you live in like San Francisco and the women are all hideous.
02:39:58.000I sat on this show in the old studio, and I was sitting by this girl who was 19 years old, and you guys were talking about body count, and she was 19, and she said she had like a 25 body count.
02:40:14.000Some of you guys, when I say 50, I say 50 is a good number before you get married and people get mad at me.
02:40:22.000Mind you, I'm saying you should be 35 years old as well.
02:40:24.000And they're like, that's too high or you're promoting degeneracy, blah, blah, blah.
02:40:28.000I'd rather you be a degenerate maybe for a period of your time and understand female nature than you go in as a fucking goody two-shoe good boy thinking the Bible's going to save you and you get fucking destroyed.
02:41:45.000Hey, FNF, I've been with this particular woman for a week, but she asked me why I'm not available enough for her when I told her I'm on my grind.
02:43:13.000So I just talked with my friend Kevin in Columbia, and he was saying, literally bro, girls that would have been regular girls are good for marriage and good for like, you know, a husband.
02:46:49.000Well, you guys can find Rolo and I will be on the 16th.
02:46:52.000We're doing another episode of Access Vegas.
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02:46:58.000We're raising money for animal rescue and for homeless children in Los Angeles if you guys want to hit me up.
02:47:03.000And then if you guys are interested in learning more about my program, just go to moamentoring.com or you can watch my incredibly offensive podcast, the Michael Sartain Podcast, where we discuss incredible, disgusting topics like evolutionary psychology.
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02:47:25.000I don't always call it X or Twitter yet, so I call it Twix.
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